how can guys be so clueless?
537383
He probably is not clueless, he is just not interested. I noticed that when my boyfriend does not want to deal with something or someone, he just ignores it. Seems like the same thing is happening to you.
356746
all guys are stupid. they don't get better as they get older either... but for some reason they are worth it anyways.
117853
Well being a smartypants in my opinion is someone who answers questions in silly ways and that is usually flirting so I would say he is intereted. If this guy is just spouting out knowledge, that would be a know it all and it could mean he is interested but very insecure.. Try to get his to unwind a little and you may find out more
582080
uuuhhhh??? im clueless
562069
Guys are not confusing. We are TERRIFIED of making a mistake. So we do nothing, say nothing. Better to be safe.\n\nBlame it on society. We are the breadwinners, the soldiers of the family, the protectors, the primary money makers.\n\nNow, everyone tells us this - but NO ONE tells us how to do all these things! So we stumble along in life, learning on our own these things. Does not build "character," just makes us an emotional wreck. That is why you read about so many guys "loosing it" and ending up doing amazingly stupid things.\n\nOnce we figure it all out, we make great companions. But it just takes a long time. Be patient, be kind, and it all works out in the end.
481843
guys are basically stupid. my gf told me that I flirted with her all time  before we were together and I had no clue. I guess I  wasn't trying so I didn't think I was.
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most of my friends are very intelligent. that being said they are usually dumb when a girl gives hints that they like him or are interested in him. (this includes myself... the dumb part anyway).\n\nas always, here is a little story:\na couple of friends and i (5 total) had gone to the local grocery store to get some snacks. now we bought about $20 worth of snacks. when we went to the cash register it filled 4 plastic bags the heaviest ones being the 6-packs of soda. this petite and gorgeous girl was bagging our snacks while my friend lee and i discussed methods of losing weight and gaining muscle mass. \n\nthe entire time we were there the bag girl (her name tag said lisa) kept glancing at my friend. when we all reached over to take a bag and go back to the car, lisa stopped lee before he could pick up the bag with the 6-pack of soda in it and she asked him, "sir, would you like me to help you take this to the car?" lee responded with a puzzled look and responded,"no,thats okay. it's not that heavy.  i can carry it." \n\nhe reached for the bag again and she interrupted him again with a, "sir, are you sure you would not like me to help take this to the car for you? my name is lisa and i'd like to help you take this to the car and maybe..." at this point my other friends and i simply grinned and started moving away, thinking, "cool, lee is gonna get a gal." to our disbelief, we heard him interrupt her and repeat, "no, thats okay. like i said its not that heavy, so i can carry it. thanks for asking though. bye." \n\nmy friend walked out of the supermarket without looking back. lisa never took her eyes off him. the moment we were out of site of lisa, we all kicked him and told him what a fool he was for letting such an oportunity slip. his response was, "she was interested in me? how do you know?" \n\nthis is just one of the many times i've witnessed guys just not getting it. i have a done similar things as well, and its not until much later, (or right after if my friends are there and decide to kick me for not getting it) that i realized, "whoa, maybe she was interested in me."\n\nthat's why i say, the only surefire way to let a guy know that she likes him would be to walk up to him, tell him she likes him, then to give him a passionate kiss.\n\nthe kiss is to make sure that he didn't mishear or misunderstand because trust me, sometimes just telling the guy you like him just isn't enough to make him understand.
86217
I can guarantee he doesn't get it.  Subtle hints do not work with guys.  Just tell him (is that so hard?)
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I would love to take this one on. ..\nWomen assume that men are capable of understanding subtle signals. Like when you were in junior high...Girls could just mouth words to other girls across the room and the other girl would understand. Guys would be right next to each other and would whisper like they were in a helicopter because that is the only way men could understand what the other was saying. Men don't pick up on women's signals. So when you get fed up with this and blow up at the guy or do something drastic, the guys think you have gone completely insane and didn't ever see it coming. Meanwhile, you have been sending several signals to foreshadow this action that the man has just overlooked.
468462
Poeple can be a smart as a tact but sometimes they can act dumber than you would ever think. Maybe he is just playing dumb to see what happens or either he is dumb when it comes to certain things since you never said about what I take it as anything in general...K
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A man who has no clue
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By being someone worth knowing.  Guys don't respect stupid girls, and if you have no life's plan, and you have no goals in life, what can you expect?  Plan your life out, make it happen, then everything else will fall into place...like someone WORTH  having.  First, you must respect yourself.  When you respect yourself, so will others.  Not until then.
428601
ask him and he'll tell you.\nguys are way easier than you girls think.
688262
Why doesn't your boy friend know the answer to this??
609566
Most guys are clueless when it comes to technique - a little extra size can make up for a dearth of talent.
1181563
exactly! why don't you guys get this stuff?! i don't like to make teh first move- i think it's the guys place, and man dropping hints that they don't get (no matter how obvious) gets ridiculous after a while! i think i have done everything but walk up and kiss the guy! come on PAY ATTENTION GUYS!
1044668
HUH???? i'm clueless.