I dated a girl a couple of times but then she said that "She wanted to be just friends",?
550598
if you really think that she's sending you signals and you really like her, then i guess theres no harm in asking her out. a safer way may be to have one of her friends explain whats going on, because she may just be acting that way to show that she really does want to continue being friends and that she likes you, even if it isnt on a boyfriend-girlfriend level. so try and find out what shes really thinking. good luck! =]
235994
she may feel that this relationship is going to fast for her and she isnt ready for any commitments, so its easier to just end it then keep pretending that it will work out. she may have met another person and again cant tell you. try talking to her even writing to her if you really want to know  the reasons why she did this.
412207
dont worry about her move on, i rekon that is the best, just think of all the things you wanted to do when you were with her and go do it, i would not worry about the friendship
878576
do you talk to her a lot? because you need to make sure you are friends FIRST and foremost!! if not, that date will be awkward! and if something ends up ending a dating relationship, you truly can go back to being friends (but that wont happen..im optimistic!)
161098
1) She wants to soften the blow of the break-up.\n\n2) She doesn't want things to get weird after the break-up (i.e. you stalking her)\n\n3) She might actually want to stay friends.
612856
It seems like she doesnt appreciate you in that level.  You should move on if there are no sparks. You deserve someone who you take you for who you are really. It has been two years and nothing much has happened between you two.. You're better off being good friends, there is always someone out there for you.
801398
Hey, I am Jennifer. I was reading over ur qustion, It seems that she is a play by play...I dont know but if i was u i wouldent date her anymore or see her. For me to say I think u sound like  nice guy and u need better. For what i am trying to say is that she tells u to trust her, how could u ever trust anyone that spends the night with anotheir man..thats not right, if u ask me....If she really cared for u she would be with u and not anotheir man. It sounds like she is sorta a good person and all but i think u so need better then her, she is nothing. I'm sry i hope i dont upset you. But what ever happens good luck. But if u would like to talk just im me it is kikikinky321.. bye for now
124517
Well, as the, old saying goes, " We learn from our mistakes." If you didn't want to go out with her in the first place, you shouldn't have. But now you have complete knowledge of what your better judgement saw, 'her immaturity.' She treated you like a 'FOOL', and has gone on with her life for 7 months and now justs wants to pop back in and play you like a 'idiot' until someone else comes along. Tell her, Hell no, and why you never want to date her again.!!
744765
Hm...where'd you mess up with her? I'm not sure I understand what exactly happened. Maybe you came on too strong and she's not ready to have a relationship with anyone just yet. How old are you 2? It's something to consider. It sounded like she wanted to be your friend but you pushed it and pushed it and now she wants to stay away from you. Dunno. That's my guess, though.
1103126
you didnt give enough details............. hah just kidding. maybe she just went on a date with you because she had no plans and has no intentions on doing it again.... just keep calling and see what happens
103588
She went back to him for money? I think that shows her character. I would MOVE ON. If you have told her your intentions and how you feel, yet she hasn't made any indication that she wants to be more than friends with you...you have to give up. Everyone will move on and It Will Be Okay.
1055092
NO. That's lame. Move on. \nDon't be friends w/ her...it'll only prolong the pain. Just move on. \n\nShe wasn't a 'relationship person' because you weren't the guy she wanted to be in a relationship with. Take it like a man, leave her alone, and get on w/ your life.
70509
she might really like you this time.the first time you asked her out she proably just got dumped or she had a rough time with family or something she doesnt want to talk about.you gave her time,and is now proably very interested in you.
776316
She obviously didn't want to be just friends since she tried to sleep with you.  She only said that because your saying no sex until marriage.  She obviously cant go until marriage before she has sex again.  I would assume she's hoping you will change your mind.
766848
She wanted to test the waters and now she's seen that what she had was better so she wants you back. You have to let her know that you aren't the "fall-back-on" guy. You have your own life and to be able to fully live that life, you need for her to leave you alone, you aren't interested.
838570
she sounds like she is just telling the truth.  It is just fine I mean she broke up with him so she could hook you and him up.  I mean it is not like he broke up with her and then asked you out and your friend was heart broken.
579027
Simply, she doesnt want to be committed.  She wants to be "friends with benefits".  Something she doesnt feel tied down to.  Why that is, is up to her, really.  Was her last relationship that bad, maybe?  Does she want to not be exclusive to one person?  An honest conversation would do wonders.