what is the best way to satisfy urself with ur own or what is the best way of masterbation.?
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yes you are a virgin only when your vagina is penetrated by a penis then your are not, and bodily fluids are exchanged
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In tha shower!!! check out jackinworld.com for great techniques...(not sure if that is the actual address...if not it is very similar)...
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Personally, I think the best way to please me and to have simultaneous climax is to make sure you're stimulating the clitoris while you are having sex. I've found the two best ways for me is with the man on top if he moves upward so that his pelvic bone is stimulating the clitoris and I move my hips up that way he can feel me getting more excited and I can feel him and then we find a rhythm together. Since it's usually harder for women to orgasm the man usually has to wait for the woman to start and then kinda let themselves go when they feel her kinda tighten and make more noise. The other position that works for me is spooning. I can keep my legs together which gets more stimulation and he or I can also use our hands to help stimulate the clitoris.
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instead of focusing on your penis and your orgasm. you need to work on your partners pleasure as well...able to enjoy what you can bring the ladies to orgasm over and over again. able to still hold them after your own orgasm....
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Want to be more confident when you, er, take matters into your own hands? These "manual sex" techniques (my editor won't let me say hand job) will make him want to give you a round of applause  - not to mention return the favor.\nPick Your Position\n\nAre you left-handed or right-handed? Which is your "best" side? All too often, women try to deliver the goods in a position that feels uncomfortable or unnatural. You are allowed to move, you know! Simply roll over on top of him or straddle his lap, plant a long, slow, delicious kiss, then climb off to the side that suits you. Don't be scared to deviate from the usual side-by-side position either. Try him standing in front of you while you sit on the edge of a bed or lie on your back while he hovers above you straddling your tummy.\nUse the Slippery Stuff\n\nWomen have (rather handy) built-in lubrication systems, but men don't. So when they masturbate, they use lubrication such as moisturizing lotion. A dry penis is a sensitive one; it likes gentle stroking. Sliding your hand up and down the shaft  - the standard male masturbation technique  - can feel more like a vicious yank than an erotic escapade when done without lube. Saliva is better than nothing, but clever girls come prepared with good-quality personal lubricant. He'll be pleased, not turned off, when he sees the tube, so don't feel remotely embarrassed squeezing some into your palm. But don't use too much; being too generous removes friction entirely.\nGet a Grip\n\nSexperts worldwide dispense the same advice on this one: Women need to be touched softer and slower; men need to be touched harder and faster. Lots of women make the mistake of being scared of his most prized part. Holding it between finger and thumb like it's made of spun glass isn't sexy  - it makes him think you don't really want to touch it. Instead, take a good, firm hold and move into a well-practiced, self-assured technique.\nPractice Until You're a Pro\n\nSimply read up about hand-job techniques, and you're liable to give up before you've even started  - it sounds like reinventing the Rubik's Cube! Try some moves out, however, and you soon realize it's more like connecting the dots. Keen to impress but don't want to look like a twit in front of your new lover? Practice on a prop, such as a curtain rod or a carrot. This is the basic motion you need to master: slide up, circle, slide down the other side. More specifically, grasp your hand firmly around the base of the penis, and slide it upward until it reaches the head. Once you're there, pause  - and rub your palm over the head in small, slow, sexy circles. Next, let your hand drop naturally down the other side of the penis, grasping the shaft until you're back to base camp again, but on the opposite side with your hand facing the opposite way. Do that 10 times, with each motion lasting 10 seconds, then add one quick, firm, up-and-down pump stroke. Repeat that cycle over and over, each time adding an extra up and down. But decrease the number of pumps if he's dangerously close to losing it (and you've got other plans on how to use that erection!).\nEmploy Backup\n\nIf you only use your hands, you risk having to dispense the longest hand job in the entire world due to overstimulation. No matter how deft and clever your handiwork, most men enjoy (often need) extra stimulation to intensify and speed up the process of orgasm. So while one hand is working on his penis, use the other to cradle his testicles or stroke a nipple. Use your tongue on his testicles or nibble his neck, the inside of his thighs and his nipples. Try holding one hand in an L position firmly at the base of his penis, pulling the skin back from the base (in the direction of his pelvis). Not only does it make him look bigger, but it also heightens sensitivity.\nUse Props\n\nIf you and your guy are adventurous types (and even if you're no
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You can't depend on other people to solve all your problems or fulfill all your desires. Even if you have a boyfriend or girlfriend, there will be times when it will not be possible to get together and times when you still don't feel completely satisfied. Masturbating to relieve your own sexual tension is not only natural, it's much more mature than relying on someone else to take care of all your needs and desires for you.\n\nBesides, it just plain feels good!
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The best way to do this is to allow yourself to nearly go to the point of ejaculation, then stop what you are doing. To keep your lady satisfied you can go back to a bit of for play, kiss her, go down on her, caress her body with you lips and tongue, then start again.  repeat for as many times as you can - would suggest a minimum of three.  When you finally allow yourself to go all the way, the ejaculation is more and harder than on other occasions.  Also as you have been so attentive to your lady, her appreciation of you might go up as well! \n\nGood luck
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well, for a little while and then let him get involved.  Not just sit there and watch you go to town and make yourself orgasm.  When I'm going down on my wife, she will sometimes push my head away and do it herself for a while.  It"s hot, but then I want to finish what I started.
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do a google search for masturbation,you will be surprised at peoples different methods.I tried one i saw,wasnt bad.You vaseline the old fella,stick it in a small plastic bag.Then stick it between your mattress and a pillow(and pump away)no hands,just like sex,except your pumping a bed(get naked while doing,much more fun)would be hard to explain yourself,if you got caught in the act though.Be defenite of privacy,doing this way
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The best program to use for this purpose is your own mind!\n\nAll it takes is a little discipline and commitment!\n\nHave fun but be safe!
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know yourself!  explore your own body, one of the biggest problems is that many people don't know what they like and then read stuff and tell their partner to do whatever it is they've read when it may not apply to them.  every person is different, the best thing you can read everything you can and then experiment to determine what works for you.  if you can bring yourself to orgasm by yourself, don't expect to be able to tell your partner how to do it.  and if you can't give any good feedback to your partner about what works best or how to be better then you won't have more orgasms regardless of how much you have sex.
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Why can;t you have an orgasm by yourself?\n\nI would actually experiment and investigate yourself to see what you are capable of
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Learn to get yourself off\n\nExplain your issues to your man\n\nGet him to learn to give you good oral sex
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You want to satisfy your wife? Clean the kitchen after dinner. Bring her flowers. Sing to her. Give her a foot massage. \nThis will help you in two ways. You will be pleasing to your wife, and she will want to please you too. You will be together more often, and you will get better at holding your orgasm. It takes practice. You get practice by helping your wife. Try it.
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Masterbation feels so great because you know how to please yourself... others have to ask or be told what you like..To make yourself last longer you can try these tecniques.. trust me they work.. Alot of foreplay women love it, when your going for it and almost about to come pull out and do more foreplay or you could pull out for a second and pinch the top of your knob... It sounds bad but dont pinch too hard... or the worst one tie an elastic band at the bottom of your penis.. Have fun man...
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First you have to imagine something or watch a porn, a porn will probably work best for you at first to get you going.  Second, you can be traditional and use your hand, but if you are the one for penetration, you might want to invest in a sex toy for that.  Third sit back and enjoy the ride, hehe.
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Every way you can make your partner orgasm is good...the more ways the better!!!