I needed some advice.... Help?
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It sounds like to me that maybe you and your girlfriend were at one time very close, and was her passing away a surprise. Maybe you still have feeling for her, or wished you'd maybe did things a little different. It may take you a while, but you will eventually find someone. Do you compare every woman you see to her. She was your first, and you will remember her forever. Hang in there, and good luck, be patient,and its okay to think dirty thoughts while you masturbate, everyone does!!!
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Tell her that you appreciate her concern for your well-being (assuming that this is her 'intent'), but that there are some things in life that you need to handle on your own.  Perhaps ask her if she'd be willing to listen if you need a sounding board.  That might make her feel that she's still useful.
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wish i could help!\n\ngood luck
954491
Not a good idea. Listen to your daugher ;-o heheheh!
714750
The blessing is the two of you have no children in common. And I would not take any responsibility in this at all. He should be ashamed of himself for telling you it was your fault. No, it is his lack of self control. Be grateful, now you can move on with your life and find someone with the same values and ideas of what a marriage is. Do whatever you have to do to get through this, and take your time. Don't allow him to rush you into anything. He is the one that stepped outside of the marriage. And the other women should be ashamed of herself. Her marriage is ending so she thought she would ruin someone else marriage. I feel sorry for her children they have to grow up in a household with a mother with no morals. good luck and God bless****
1152678
Try this.\n\nHope that helps.\n\nGood Luck.
257032
I answered the question you posted earlier.  Hope the advice was helpful.
982572
Ask your friend to help you.
397856
Here's a tip. Do not hire a puppet to do these things fro you. She may have done this out of the bottom of her heart but talk to the guy. You'll be brave enough, trust me.
345571
Me!!! what advice do you need contact me at ave8beer@yahoo.com ok.
583010
Go talk to a professional.  They're trained in such matters and have seen all kinds of problems, so they can offer some good advice.  Self-help stuff is fine if you're looking to make some minor improvements, but if there's stuff that just overwhelms you, it's not a bad thing to admit you need help.\n\nAnd no, Yahoo! Answers is not a good substitute for professional help.
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Been there and done that...not fun!  I feel for you but you have to be strong enough to GET OUT!  I had family and friends to help me out behind his back.  I planned carefully because he was smart and inquisitive, very controlling.  Get mad and smart too!  Figure out his work schedule and get it all done in a short amount of time.  Get a restraining order against him before you go so that you are somewhat protected when you leave.  Go somewhere safe where someone is with you all the time and has speed dial.  Get a plan B so that if this is not an option you have somewhere else to go.  Don't make him mad.  Above all don't let him see you are nervous.  Keep him calm and level headed until you pull it off.  Don't change your routine or compromise yourself.  Be sure to delete all "help" calls off the phone and alert the police of what you are about to do and the day and time.  You can also have the police escort you out once they know the situation if you need to do it that way.  My prayers go out with you!
944223
Ask him.  Alcohol usually helps.
1065112
I would try to send Tom an email and let him know your situation. He should be able to help you, or send a message to the support on MySpace, that will help :-)
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go out with your friends,  have fun:) your friends are there to give you advice, but you're the only one who can help yourself.....think of the bad things that he did to you.....trust me:)....you can do it\n \nGo girl!
1073440
I wound like to help you...\nMaybe a threesome will help.....
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Me and my friend could use some advice!!Send me a mssge.pliz!!