im 16 and single, people say im beautifull but no guys ask me out. whats wrong?
553828
There is nothing wrong with you.  I too was single all throughout high school, but started meeting great guys when I went to college.  I was the winner of all of the local beauty pageants, and even did modeling for dillards and jcpenney's.  I never was asked out in high school and was bummed about it at the time. My modeling coach told me that men especially high school boys are intimidated by attractive women who happen to be smart. She told me to give it time and then I would be asked out by men.  She was right.  It is hard to wait. I totally understand. Try to keep busy with school activities whether it be drill team, cheerleading, volleyball, basketball, choir, band, etc. and take time to hang out with your friends.  You will be asked out when the time is right. Do not rush it. It is hollywood and all the fashion magazines that make us feel that we have to be asked out or dating in order to have self worth. Do not buy into that.  There are guys out there who will be totally amazed by the awesome person that you are, but you have yet to meet them or if you have, they are not at the place they need to be in order to ask you out. Best of luck.
748369
sounds like you never had a boyfriend. You just got played. Wake up.
70530
first off  be happy at your age not having a boyfriend . having boyfriend isnt the greatest thing in the world . Just enjoying the single life and when you are 16 you be ready for the guys and stuff. IF your friends are saying you should have  bf and stuff. They are not friends.. You have to belive in your self. For example   some of my classmates were all friends and they got all pregant sad to say your friends will make your life good or it can make  worse.Talk to god if you are lonely.you arent alone not having a boyfriend at 13 i can assure you. Im 23 and i didnt have boyfriend at age 13. just take your time.
1118005
I would have to know you to say exactly. My sister was a beautiful girl in high school and never got asked out. Then at graduation, a lot of guys said they thought she was already taken. If you walk with confidence, some dudes are intimidated. If you don't show much skin, you send a signal that you're not easy. Just believe in yourself, spend time by yourself, be good to yourself, get to know yourself, and be glad you don't have to deal with all the b.s. that comes with relationships. I can tell you this, a guy that is special to you will come along when you're not expecting it at all. That's always the way it works.
743371
Honey, you're only 16 and now you've gotten yourself a reputation.  Guys talk about this stuff!  Then guys will ask you out for sex only.  Guys who have never gone out with you will tell other guys that they have "had" you.  The guys who really like you are having trouble respecting you.\n"If I don't do it, they won't like me."!!!!  If you don't do it, what have you really lost?  Only someone who is using you, but you do gain back your self-respect, even if you are the only one who knows why.\nThe sad truth is that you may never be able to shed the reputation as long as you are going to that school.  The good news is that in two years, you will have graduated, your world and the people in it will change and you will be able to start anew. \nThis happened to me when I was in HS, and I never even had sex!
245702
Woah, girl. You dont have to do anything to have a boyfriend. dont change yourself...you are most likely perfect the way you are.  Besides, men will ALWAYS believe you are sexy, as long as you do!!!:)
739246
umm people tell me im good looking...?\nand im 14.....\nim not sure what you want to get out of this besides a gf, how will this help?\njust wondering :)
94596
Naw, dont worry about it. I am almost the same way. I have been kissed, but it meant nothing. I turned 17 last June, and I went on my first date a few months ago. I guess I'm just waiting for the right girl.
314409
I got to say that you shouldn't let this break you down. Maybe you are beautiful or sexy. Now for some guy to say that they "love" you without even knowing you or some guy to just come up to you and ask you out is kind of weird.\n\nYou don't have to make them happy, but just you know, give them a little gesture of some sort. It's OK if you have to be a little on the offensive at times.\n\nIf you really want to make one happy. Find maybe the 1 client that is actually not so straight forward. Someone who actually want to get to know you. Where you were born, your family, relations etc.\n\nThat is the kind of person you are looking for.\n\nEveryone is attracted by looks. Of course, looks comes first, but some people don't care who you are, but they just want to get in bed with you. That is a whole norther story though.
43497
The fact that you're asking this question reveals that you are still quite young.  Don't worry so much about getting a "boyfriend" at this point.  There will be plenty of time for that later.
850256
boy i dont know why u have low self esteem!?\nur not ugly! and yes people have different taste but ur not ugly so dont get those things confused.\ni think the only thing thats keeping u down is ur lack of boldness.\ndont be scared to ask a girl out. \ni guess u first have to feel good about urself so that vibe goes out and then others follow.\nits all about the vibe u send out!\nso try to feel better about ur self!\ndont hide behind ur hair or glasses\nlook up\nand proud!\nand i bet in a while once it comes  natural youll get the courage to ask a girl...if once u dont succed....then try again!\nno one person is good enough to give up after them!\nremeber that!\n\nwell hope i helped\nChau\nand feel better ok dear!
871426
Be Careful you don't want to seem desperate, And your not really supposed to be asking guys out anyway. Although it is a bold move and I think that if more women could say what was on there mind there would be a lot more couples together today. And vice versa of course. But my advice to you is to speak your mind be confident. And don't be afraid of rejection. take it slow, be patient but most of all don't settle and Be yourself
556610
You say that as though you are ancient! I would not worry about not having a boyfriend at the moment. You are still young, after all. Even shy girls find a guy in the end so don't worry about being left on the shelf - your time will come!\n\nTo prepare yourself for a future of dating, get to know yourself. Know your likes and dislikes. Think about how you feel about things. It will sound strange but if you give everyday situations some thought and know how you feel about things, that is a great way to maintain a conversation - with a boy or a girl. Practice your conversational skills. Think about the facade you present to others. Maybe boys don't hit on you because you are so pretty. So maybe you should think about how you make yourself more approachable.\n\nAn engaging personality is worth more than looks. If you can work on your self confidence as well as your conversational skills, you are more likely to hook a boy's attention - and maintain it.\n\nGood luck!
771555
ok first off, you are GORGEOUS! and you dont need anyone to tell you that....\n\nyou cant be in a realtionship if you are not comfortable with yourself first...if you can't see yourself as beautiful in your eyes, then you will never be satisfied, you need to take the time alone and find your beauty that we all see...when you find that, then you won't worry so much about what others think...and guys will love that
972133
Hey don't feel down. I don't have a boyfriend either. Do you want a boyfriend? And do you need one badly? If so go ask a guy out that you think that he's interested in you. It's either you that's having a trouble finding a boyfriend or you are not sure if you want one. Or it's either the boys? You have to venture out more in the world if you're shy or quiet. Trying too hard can also be a problem. But either way good luck, just find out what you want.
551347
is the reason you haven't had a boyfriend because of them or you? i know lots of people in wheel chairs that have relationships. so is it you? maybe your so afraid of no one liking you that you give off the vibe to stay away. if your not confidant in your self or you dont like yourself...men can pick up on that. try cahnging your attitude about yourself and im sure things will change
1154742
have u ever thought that people are just jealous? cauz alot of them may be. ur not a man and u know that and ur bf obviously doesnt think so otherwise he wouldnt b dating u. just concentrate on the people that count and not random people who dont know beauty when they see it.