Girlfriends partner before me and the sex that she has had....?
543054
You have no way of knowing whether what she is saying is the truth, you'll just have to trust her.Need to realize in life, no matter how close you are to someone, you'll never really know what they're thinking, that's just the way life is. I don't think any of her "excess skin" ,as you put it, is from too much physical recreation. It's probably something genetic, and if it doesn't bother her{like in a painful, medical way} it shouldn't bother you. A couple things women pick up on quick is  jealousy and insecurity, and it's generally not perceived by them as positive traits. It sounds to me like you should have ONE long talk about this with her, and then drop it,'cause if you keep bringing it up, she's going to drop you.
1091591
Every girl you'll ever meet has a past. How can you get around that? If you didnt know this about your GF and BF before, how is that possible? And that leads to other questions you have to answer to - (for yourself, thanks)\n1. how does it really, (really) matter to you that they - if they did - had sex earlier in life?\n2. whom is the most important for you of the two? whom do you want to have a future relationship to?\n\nIf you care for her - you stay with her and keep the friendship with your friend.
598796
Well hopefully you've been honest if your past has come up in conversation with your current girlfriend.  If not; then maybe you'd better be worried........Otherwise, it is possible for the current and ex to be o.k. with each other although; not too many of them can be true friends.  There are too many unanswered questions that will come up between them, and usually trying to make that type of relationship work usually backfires sooner or later.........
71382
I think you need to ask yourself if she is the type of person who would do that. Then determine if your sex life with her has changed. Is it less frequent? Is it not as satisfying? If she is the type that would cheat or has in the past, then chances are she has or will. If she isn't and there is significant change in your sex life, then you need to discuss your reason for asking this question with her. Like other have stated, her eyes will tell you the answer.
538312
first off why would you want for someone els to have sex with your girlfreind, and 2nd i would never have sex with someone elses laddy do to the fact that she is already taking, and i have more respect for a female then that.. why would you even post such filth...
1098676
I know that in past experience, its really tempting and persuading, if an ex calls you and asks you for a night of passion! ;) but... your relationship has ended, and it seems to me like she is trying to manipulate you in the process?\n\nShe is already with her partner, and so is not only abusing his trust and loosing respect for herself-but if you are the third spoke in her relationship (even if this is just "sex") then, surely this will make you no better than her?\n\nI split up with my ex over 9 months ago, and i have since been in a long term relationship with my current partner for the past 8 months. I was with my ex for 3 and half years, and all he did was cheat on me with various other women! We too had a great sex life-but, id much rather a realtionship that is based on trust and respect anyday (plus great sex is a bonus ;) ) My ex contacted me near enough every day for 6 months asking me for sex, but not once did i say yes, cos i love my partner and respect him. She doesnt have respect fro anyone??\n\nPerhaps, as your ex knows that you are single, that she is taking you for advantage! Its possible that she doesnt want you to be with anyone else-as she knows that you probabley wont be, if you are seeing her? She also  thinks that she can get away with two timing both of you (even with your consent!) what kind of person does this?\n\nI know its tempting but you have to ask her to stop calling you and asking for sex. Its low! And someone with such low morals, is obviousley someone to be wary off.... STI's spring to mind? You also have to ask yourself-are you the only one shes trying to cheat with?\n\nIn the end, what goes around comes around-my ex cheated on me with 5 other women, and ended up catching STI's!! So it serves him damn right lol!\n\nAnd why did your relationship end? Obviousley for a good reason! \n\nGood luck!! \n\nx
395081
well then just wait, or u know find yourself another female, like u said u have had sex before.
558406
Have u asked her about it?  U guys are basically doing wut a couple would be doing. You are just missing the actual label of boyfriend girlfriend and maybe some intimacy.
311268
Did you ever think she may be telling the truth? Give her the benefit of the doubt. The question I have is why is it ok for men to sleep with someone on the first date and get no rep for it, but for women it is different?????? Besides she might be a really great person and you will loose out on the relationship, remember you were there with her!
135880
maybe she's feeliong underappreciated and is trying to make you jealous by reminding you she's been with other men.  If she's insecure in your feelings for her, she's probably looking to see how you react when she says this stuff.  It's childish, and will end up hurting the relationship if she continues.  I'd talk to her about it.  See how she reacts.  If she blows up over this, I'd say cut her loose and find someone else.  If she agrees to stop, give her a chance.
369714
If you have'nt done it yet how do you know it hurts her? If you mean she has had pain before with other men then that does'nt mean she'd have the same problem with you necessarily. Lots of foreplay, rubbing touching etc, and lots of lube and take it slow.
318630
That is the worst idea I have ever heard.  Why would she want him to have sex with other people? Sounds like she has some issues and that is not a healthy lifestyle for you to be getting into. Since you are asking, I would say deep down you probably have your own reservations about it and know the answer already.
46889
She needs to think this through more clearly. She is certainly going to do something that is new for her. However, she has to have enough trust in her partner for this to work out well and for her to deal with her fears in a way that will have a good outcome for herself and her partner. This is why it really takes a trusting, intimate relationship for sex to work out well.\n\nI would question why she wants to do this right now. "Liking" her isn't a good enough reason for her to have sex, especially since she has waited this long. Her fear of how this will turn out will make her more anxious and more likely to not have a good experience.\n\nShe needs to think this through. She needs to decide if this is really the guy, the time and the place to have her first sexual intercourse. She needs to ask herself if she knows him well enough to trust him with her feelings and her body. If so, she needs to establish some communication with him about this so she can share her fears and so she can also develop some control over this situation.\n\nHaving you to talk to about this will be helpful!
533818
if you have had sex with her and she did not bleed it does not mean she is not a virgin cos some girls donot bleed for the first time and bleed later or even some donot bleed at all the only way to know this is your trust in her and her faith in you if she loves you she will not lie and you need to make her feel it that even if she is not a virgin you still love her
1102306
First and foremost, have you both been tested for sexually transmitted diseases?  Especially concerning her previous behavior.  That is not exactly monogamous sex.  How does she know you want her to act more adventurous if you do not tell her.  Was lack of communication part of the reason for your separation?  I suggest marriage counseling as well.
719185
That must be really confusing for you; after all, if she is not a virgin and you have been going out for 4 months, you would wonder.  It could be that she has had a bad experience in the past.  Maybe she has decided that she really wants to get to know you better before becoming intimate.  You havent mentioned your ages...Could this be a factor?  You will have to take her at her word...no means no...however, in time, if you are looking for something else in a relationship, you will need to be candid with her and then move on.  Good luck.
816626
All guys are different.  Tell her to ask the guy who she plans on being with.  If she doesnt know personal stuff about him, then the relationship is doomed.  Being able to talk about intimate details without getting nervous or uncomfortable is the key to a healthy relationship and better sex.