this guy know each other like  about 4 years and still  did not tell his gril  that  he love me?
535313
are you saying he's been cheating on his girlfriend with you for four years?\n\nif he hasn't told her/left her by now, he never will, and he's probably just using both of you for sex.\n\ndump him and find a real man.
1074768
That's what life is sweetheart, you are never going to get everything you want along with everyone else, even if you don't ask for that much. 4 years is a pretty long time especially if you never see each other. You also don't see your guy friend as a boyfriend because your hurt right now. Just to let you know though don't let this guy friend escape your wing, if he does and he goes to find another girl... then your going to be jealous and upset and realize you had some feelings there. Try to go on a date with this new guy. Get something new, the guy friend you have right now could be the man of your dreams.
288250
THERE IS A REASON HE DID NOT TELL YOU ANYTHING. SO RESPECT THAT AND WAIT FOR HIM TO COME AROUND. HE WILL TELL YOU WHEN HE FEELS IT IS THE RIGHT TIME.
158750
does he pay attention to every move you make? if you answered yes to that question then you already know the answer. \n\nthen you should tell him how you feel. otherwise you are going to wonder if there could ever have been the chance on that opportunity of you guys being together.
644567
Maybe he's at a lost point in his life \n\nI think the best that you can really do is just let him go\n\non the plus side 4 and 1/2 years and he loves you \nHe'll be back..Don't worry to much. Just keeep close friends around
7314
sometimes, it just takes time for these things.  in the meantime, make sure that you aren't being clingy.  You can show your love and still give him some personal time, okay?
434928
How long have you been talking to him??\n\nI think you need to meet before you can truely know what you feel.
223537
tell him yore problem.. talk to him.... and then.. if he still doesn't .. then well.... i think its better if you went yore way.. but since you've been with him for 4 yrs.. its hard.. but try it....good luck (^_^) !
1084339
Do it! maybe he still has feelings for you too! Perhaps you can work it out....or at least find out if the sparks are still there. right!?
1073019
i would think that if you have known each other for that long and you have had a platonic relationahip he may not show anything at all to indicate to you how he felt. he may just hide it for fear of ruining the friendship. sometimes guys are really passive
164072
EITHER HE IS SCARED OR HE DIDNT MEAN IT....THIS GUY I KNOW HE TELLS ME HE LOVES ME AND I KNOW THAT HE IS TELLING THE TRUTH HE'S JUST NOT READY FOR THE COMMITMENT. SO I'M JUST GIVING HIM A BREAK UNTIL HE CAN FIGURE OUT WHAT HE WANTS...ANOTHER THING YOU SHOULD DO IS TALK TO HIM LET HIM KNOW HOW YOU FEEL AND FIND OUT HOW HE FEELS BECAUSE THERE IS NO SINCE FOR YOU TO KEEP WASTING YOUR TIME ON SOMEONE WHO CANT MAKE UP HIS MIND..JUST GET IT ALL OUT IN THE OPEN SO THAT YOU KNOW WHETHER TO MOVE ON OR NOT
281448
It doesn't really sound like he likes you, but maybe he's just nervous or shy to tell anyone, including you! He will come around sooner or later!!! GoOd LuCk!!!
545551
Awww your very nice and what is the guy on about your in love with some guy?:O how come you didnt tell me?
626067
Hey girl, I have a strange feeling on why he is ignoring you...Do you think maybe his girlfriend found out he was talking to you? Did his girlfriend know that you guys are friends. The other thing I am thinking too is that he probably really likes you and wants you more than a friend. I also would like to ask you why are you in a relationship with someone you are not satisfied with? I think the issue is that both of you are in love with each other and he has realized this..Maybe he is trying to take his time to figure this all out...I would NOT approach him at his job right away to find out where he is. I would wait another week, try calling again, and if you are still unsuccessful, try and approach him in person. I think maybe right now he needs time to think about your relationship. He may want to take it further in my opinion, and right now is probably confusing for him. Give it time and it will work out! Good Luck!
196080
just give him some time to get things right and his feet back on the ground... its possible something is wrong in his life and he's just trying to smooth it out... give him time... he probably does like you but isn't willing to be with you at the moment because he's got so many pressures and being together they would eventually become yours too... so back away for a second take a deep breath and wait for a while...\nor maybe, your just a friend that he uses for comfort... let him breath, and you'll soon find out. :)
322796
maybe he isnt ready for realtionship right now, keep in contact with him as friends and if you both meant to be together you will be. good luck.
212559
It's possible he's shy, yes. And or maybe nervous. What about, you say?? Maybe he really likes you (and loves, you too?) but isn't sure how trustable you are. Bear with him.