Why does love sometimes hurt, even when you try to do everything to make it flow smoothly?
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every rose has its thorns
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You have to give yourself permission to trust another person.  There could be something in your past that makes you a little nervous about getting hurt.  It's the chance we take when we fall in love, but it's a gamble and we aren't promised anything, I mean when in life are we promised anything so why should love be different.\n\nChoose your mate wisely, make sure he's committed and respectful, make your intentions clear and as does he.  Don't jump in too quick and don't be too judgmental.\n\nWith joy sometimes comes sorrow but don't deprive yourself of the wonderful feeling of being in love.  What's the expression 'It's better to have love and lost than not love at all".
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No sometimes I find it the hardest.  When we love someone we like to give the benefit of the doubt (at least I do) So I have hidden from the truth when I should be facing it.  Wait so maybe then it is easy? Oh I don't know \nI have learned that you should follow your gut instinct no matter what!
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In this world we can make so many things happen, but one of them we don't have control over is love. We can't make someone want or love us. Usually if we try we make them go farther away then they were. My suggestion to you would be cool toward this person because most times we want what we can't have.........
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i think it times to love a person and it also takes time to stop loving a person.\nmaybe you should still keep loving that person and if it is to hard for you then do whatever you have to do, to not get hurt.
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Love's not something you have control over. You can't make yourself fall in love, it just happens.
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its when you feel your heart beating to hard and could sometimes be a bit painful but not always .
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You know that ur in love when that person means everything to u and u would do anything 4 that person all u think about is that person andbasiclly all u think about is that person.well yeah peace out and never get in love cauze it's hard to let go.
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Yeah, I have and still am. I guess, its suppose to hurt cause you cant always be happy. Love is really complicated, one day you're happy then the next day you're crying your heart out. You just have to stay strong...
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When you fall in love,you feel like nothing can go wrong when you're around him.You feel like you just want to hug him and such.
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Love and pain come hand in hand. You can't avoid it. Allow yourself to fall, it's the whole point of "falling" in love. They will catch you if they love you in return. It's better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all. It's the only way to live. Push your fear aside and give it your all.
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There's nothing 'precise' about love.  You need to do what feels natural to you.  To a certain extent, if you go to far you may overwelm your partner, and if you don't give enough you will make them feel unappreciated.  But the most important thing is that if you hold back too much or force affection you aren't going to be true to yourself.  In the long run, you will only be happy when you can find a way to do that.
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The pain of rejection is and can be devastating.  especially when LOVE is concerned.  It hurts like hell and there is a healing process one must go through.  So if acting differently around the person that rejected you, it is because it is hard to heal with the constatnt reminder of your rejector being in your presence, so you must put up a wall, to protect yourself.
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Sounds to me like you are trying to talk yourself into staying- talking yourself into the idea period.  It doesn't have to be a horrible relationship or an abusive guy to make it just "not feel there". Do what's in your heart.
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Two roads well traveled in my experiance, i say that you should try to listen to your heart first, try your best with the situation... If it doesnt help, if it begins to hurt to much then its time to think with the mind. Sometimes no matter what you do it will not be enough but atleast you can have the satisfaction knowing that you tried your all. In reality you cannot tell you heart what to feel and for who, and sometimes no matter what the other does it may not change how you feel for them but you must love and respect yourself enough to know when is enough heartache  over someone, and when to draw the line. If your heart wont open the door, your mind will bar it shut. goodluck.
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Love does hurt, but at the same time, love can feel like the most wonderful thing in the world!  Why?  No one knows.
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Owh thats just called feelings, dont worry about it, cuz yes, Love is not just all heavenly throughtout all, in fact if u're going through a hard time and still can find love, "not just a nice feeling" towards a person, then give yourself a pat on the back, u've done well, U have discovered what love really is, Love doesnt go with feelings, ..like say for example, If you love someone and sometimes they do somethings which really irritate you, u may be angry at them but after awhile you would forgive them, cuz seriously, haha..belive it or not, love does conquer all, well that is if you know what love really means..which i think you do, if U need more answers feel free to post another ques, I really dun mind helping ya..owh well, have fun, remember, love aint just feeling alone, it's commitment ... well, hope this helps...cya !