My bipolar boyfriend broke up with me how can i get him back or should i just leave him alone?
545057
Word of caution...think hard about getting back with this person. A bipolar person is a life time of drama and misery. Nothing you do can make them better, all you can do is put up with it. He will break your heart many times over, this is just the start. Think hard about this one, you might be better off finding someone new.
600606
You are still with him because you dont believe in yourself. If he isnt feeling you by now, he never will, leave him and find someone that appreciates you.\nOr better yet talk to him about how you feel, if he cant open up and tell you where his head is at, let him go
727680
It sounds like you both need to grow up and move on.  Even if he did care for you, this is not a situation that would benefit either one of you.  Go start a healthy relationship with someone who doesn't act or make you psychotic.
90188
You need to cy and let all your anger go. You should not keep it to your self. Cry for him now but in the furure not. He doesn't deserve you to be crying for him. If he din't tell you why you two broke up then he doesn't deserve you.
1083158
Don't dwell on him, it won't help your situation and will only make things harder.  Go on with your life and you'll meet new people.  Eventually you'll meet someone that takes your mind off him and none of what you're feeling right now will exist in your mind.  And if things are truly meant to be between the two of you, one day you'll find yourselves back with each other, but it'll happen naturally.  This doesn't mean you should plan for that either.  Meet other people, time will heal.  Promise!
168306
Been there, done that. It's funny how our minds and emotions can ruin a good thing. One thing that I hightly recomend is getting your self esteem up. It's tough, but once you are sure and proud of who you are, you don't loose that. As for getting your ex back. It may or may not happen. Give him his space now, thats is what he wants. If for some reason he also has a change of heart, you 2 can work things out then. But for now, respect his decision. Take care babe, im rooting for ya :)
699313
It doesn't sound like he was your everything if you were depressed even when you were around him. The best way to get over a guy is to let him go. Have one day where you cry and are depressed and eat cookie dough and let yoursself feel all the pain. He must not be your soul mate if he's treating you badly because your soul mate should never treat you badly. If you were constanly fighting, you weren't happy, and realtionships should make you happy. If sounds like you were simply codependant on this guy and you don't know what you're going to without him. It sounds like you need him and you need to realize that you don't. Hang out with your girl friends, reconnect with your family. Move on and stop sitting in your pity just because it's comfortable, you deserve to treat yourself better, and to find a person that will truly care for you.
970987
get over him by making your self feel better. by this i mean go out and buy all new clothes, get a sexy hair cut and make him look at you. some call this retail theropy! the best answer i can give you is try and be round people as much as possible. i just broke up with my boyfriend and now i live by myself and its very deppresing. and always remember never leave the one you love for the one you like coz the one you like will leave you for the one they love.
559101
I am also going through a break up right now. My BF of 4.5 years broke up with me 3 weeks ago. I was happy with him and he was happy with me, but he didn't know what he wanted out of life, blah, blah, blah. He still loves me and I still love him, so I have hope that we will get back together, but I'm not holding my breath.\n\nI too went through the depressed stage. I found that writing in a journal about how I felt helped alot. It let me get my feelings out without being overly emotional in front of other people. \n\nI am now in the angry stage, where I'm just so mad at him for doing this to me. \n\nI've heard that grief has many stages. My advice to you is to not make contact with him. If he calls don't answer and maybe wait a couple of hours to call him back. Make him think that you don't care.\n\nI wish you the best of luck.\n\n(((((HUGS)))))
944005
I think Samdrian has the right idea. I made the mistake of being clingy after my breakup. My phone hasn't rung once since. \n\nLet him go. The longer and harder you try the less respect he will have for you. I gave my boyfriend up, I had too. I had already become pathetic in his eyes. Go out with friends, get a volunteer job. If you don't you will just obsess on why he hasn't called. \n\nPlease take care of your heart and yourself.  Give yourself a break.
626497
I have Bipolar Disorder and Borederline Personality Disorder. You have to be nice and be very supported to our mental health prolbems. It helps my family to take me to talk to somebody like every other week. Just read up on the disorders. And make sure he takes his meds. I once got off mine meds for 4 or 5 days and it made me sick.
827012
First what is the reason(s) that he broke up with you? It all depends on the reason. Give him some space as he won't listen to you now. Don't rush him. For starters, you can be his friend without being too pushy. But it depends on his reason for leaving you because if he really wants to move on, then you just have to do the same.\n\nAs for you telling him that you love him, did he reply? If no, then he wants to be alone.
817516
Talk to him about it..\nthis tuff he had going on in his head could be anyhting but he obviously didnt want to tell you about it maybe if you asked he may...\nHe hasnt left it cos he obvioulsy thinks alot of you if he didnt he wouldnt of bothered believe me.\nIf i were you i'd contact him tell him its not a problem u just wondered if he was ok.. \nIf you know where he went and why he went away it may have somethign to do with that...\nIt could be family an ex anyhting\nDont jump to conclusions chick communicate with the bloke they find it hard to do so make it easier...
615843
get back together. tell him that you still like him. then when you do get back together then dont break up with him unless you have a good reason. learn from your mistakes.
1146546
Have you ever heard the phrase "You always hurt the one you love"? I don't think all bipolar people hurt the people they are closest to all the time, but it is always easier to let your worst side out when you're with someone you trust.  I think you should talk to him about checking his medications (if he's already on them.  If he's not, perhaps you could suggest that). \nBipolar disorder is a disease that can be controlled if it is medicated.  Yes, people with bipolar act out of control sometimes, but it should never be an excuse for their actions.  He definitely owes you an apology.  \nYou should talk to him and tell him how you feel.  Maybe that will help prevent such outbreaks in the future.
621088
Why get back together with him?\nThe deal is you broke up with him. He's moving on. You should too.
721223
Just let him go and dont think about him. Let it happen and make sure that he tells you a great reason why he is breaking up with you and see if you two can be friends and talk to you.