why do gain weight after they beccome sexually active?
553867
It has nothing to do with having sex. If you are taking birth control pills that is why you are gaining weight, because of the hormones. Other wise you just need to eat better and exercise.
770458
If you've gained a lot of weight, it's possible that the expanding fat around there has shortened your effective length.  A certain amount of your penis is inside you anyway, which makes it stand up when hard, but if you are obese, the skin pushes farther outward, making it seem shorter.  Lose some weight.
1081729
Most heavy girls don't get  "it" that often, if ever.  So if they do, they really get into "it".  They are better in bed than skinny girls, in the giving aspect of "it".  Plus the waves of fat that just ungulate after you get going are just so sexy. NOT!
641998
Exhaust your body doing something else, like runnning, rock climbing, cycling, whatever. Your sex drive will still be there, but you won't notice it as much.
274891
well over the thanksgiving break my best friend had her boyfriend over all the time, he basically spent the night a couple of nights.  they had sex about four times a day or so.   she lost three pounds over THANKSGIVING break.  the time of the year when you gain pounds.. she lost them.  she LOVED it!
971604
it gets larger and thicker because of the added weight... your muscles, as long as you are semi-active, also become stronger because of the added weight...
751838
Absolutely not.  The sexual urge is there regardless of your weight.  Self confidence and self image are the major factors.  If a woman is confident in herself and has a positive self image (regardless of her weight or appearance) she will feel the urge for sex.  If not, she won't want to do anything.
49056
from what I learned in my anatomy class, when you gain fat cells you never lose them. They shrink when you lose weight. Thats why overweight people have to stick with a healthy lifestyle after they lose a bunch of weight because its so easy to enlarge those fat cells again if they go back to bad eating habits.
872206
The modern birth control pill is far less likely to cause weight gain than the older ones. \n\nI'd say you're more likely to gain weight from getting married than from taking the pill.  Did you know that most women gain an average of 5 - 10 pounds after they get married?  It's not laziness, it's just the change in lifestyle.  So just because the pill isn't likely to increase your weight, you can't afford to relax and not worry about your weight.  Especially at your age.  Perimenopause starts about 10 years before menopause.  Your metabolism is going to start to slow down and your body is going to start hoarding fat to compensate for the slight reduction in oestrogen that's about to happen.  So do be careful!
666718
When you stop eating, your body goes into starvation mode and triggers itself to convert food to fat as a survival technique.  So, when you start to eat regularly again you'll gain weight.  \n\nLower calories (of healthy food) and increased exercise are what will make you lose weight.
174127
You gain weight whenever you eat anything.
1144461
There are several reasons why you become more receptive emotionally & physically to sexual arousal & sensuallity.   The brain is our main sex organ; so, for a start, exercise helps release the "feel good" biochemicals which increase our sense of well-being & we become more receptive to arousal on an emotional as well as physical level.  Exercise increases the flow of blood & oxygen to all parts of your body, which increases the sensitivity everywhere, including your lips & genitalia.  Plus, as your body improves you tend to feel more comfortable in your own skin.
737422
As far as I know, there is no evidence to suggest that there is a correlation between ejaculation and weight gain.  Maybe you like to eat after you orgasm?
817667
Well, i heard this on oprah.  If you trying to gain weight go on  diet for a little bit and then suddenly stop.  The shock will cause you body to pack on some extra pounds.
587480
Well here it doesn't apply the 'The more you use it, the bigger it gets' saying.\n\nIt's a normal reaction: it's trying to recover and gathering energy.   But it's not getting any smaller.    Some ppl observe the same reaction after having sex.\n\nThe best solution I can give to you is to STOP j-o AT THAT RHYTHM!    You could irritate it, you know...
925434
LOL Hun, sex is the perfect way to keep in shape. Not only are you tightening muscle's but also it is a great way to burn off calories.Having sex burns off more calories than jogging..I have never had to go on a diet and weigh 115.\nmy motto: "sex  everyday,keeps the weight away".
395858
Most women will most definitely gain weight on DEPO. Those who didn't usually have an extremely high metabolism and the weight gain is canceled out as it happens, or they have extremely healthy living factors ie: exercising at least 4-5 times a week and eat healthy. Other than that if your not keeping up and maintaining health, you will gain weight. The amount depends on your body and there is no way to tell in advance. Good Luck!