I found out my girlfriend is in eHarmony, should I end the relationship?
549173
Try to change her mind towards you, if you try then also if she goes in the same way as now, then quit her and find an another one.\nits easy to quit, just don't care about her and don't be close to her, then your problem will be solved...
692513
Well we all make mistakes.  Sometimes cheating can be the end of a relationship and sometimes not. That depends on you and what you are willing to stand for.  If you want out of the relationship for other reasons such as seeing the world as you say, then just tell her it's over.  But don't use the cheating factor to support that.  Make it clear that you aren't ending it because of the cheating, unless you are.  In either case, you have every right to move on with your life. Just be honest with her.
891002
To be honest your best off ignoring it if both you and your girlfriend trust each other this should not be an issue anyway. The ex is more than likely only doing it to annoy you hoping it will cause problems so don't rise to it. She is with you not him :)
236128
She's cheating, break up with her. Save yourself the drama later.
812203
I think if this question really is a true question.. you are not doing the correct thing by cheating like that... You will loose your girlfriend if you tell her whats going on. You need to stop this fling with your friend if you want to stay with your gf.. you should be honest with yourself and ask your own self... maybe you are not"gay" but bisexual.  Maybe you should not be in a serious relationship right now.
176606
You and her are a totally different relationship from any relationship she has had in the past.  You honestly have no reason to not trust her until she cheats on you.  People grow up and people change.  If you judge someone by their prior relationships then you aren't being fair to them and giving your relationship an honest chance.  Stop worrying about this or you will create a problem that doesn't yet exist.  Life is too short to waste worrying about something that might happen.
383175
You need to get out of that relationship before you go crazy.  As long as she's in your life....noone else will be.
408965
Don't worry about it. It is not your problem. It is your girlfriends if she believes it. But not your problem.
474918
go ..have your relationship like she wants...just dont tell her you did all those girls you "dated"
783768
Well, if she really cares about you, then some stupid pact she made would be null and void! Duh! If she cheats, then oh well for her. I'm sorry, I really am. But honestly, if she does have sex with this guy, then you need to break up with her. Ultimatums are wrong. So, tell her go and have fun, but you just know what you have to do if she comes back with the news of her little pact continuing for yet another break- even though she claims to be in this relationship and it means a lot to her. If it really did, then it wouldn't even be an issue. I mean, why have sex with him, when she has you- someone who cares about her, who doesn't just want sex? There really isn't anything YOU can do. It all seems to be left up to her at this point. I hope she makes the right decision. But hey, if she doesn't, then it just wasn't meant to be. trust me- there are girls out there for you to fall in love with, who won't even consider sleeping with another guy! You need to go find her, in the case that this one cheats. Honestly, I wouldn't trust her anymore! I mean, how could you? She basically told you she's going to cheat on you. I mean, damn, come on.
263317
I would be pissed dude ! i think its really disrespectfull for her to do that infront of u! and dont listen to those other people sayin to find someone new. if your girl really loves/likes u she will respect your feelings and not discuss others mens privites in front of u! she should respect u and if she cant then i would find a nice gal who does! good luck hun!
991642
You're a jerk. Break up with her so she can find someone better than you.
981595
sorry to hear that both of you started the relationship on deceptive terms.  she's being a hipocrit.  and I know you say you love her, but why would you want to be with someone that has cheated and lies.  trust is the foundation of any relationship, without that you have nothing.  you will be in the relationship always having questions about this that or the other.  to much stress and not being happy.  keep looking for something better.  good luck
1124263
i don't get it.  what do you mean she cheated online?  are you her online boyfriend or did she cheat with someone else online?  well, in any case, online or not, if you guys are in a relationship you should definitely talk to her about the cutting and drugs.  let her know that is something that hurts you.. when you see her do those things.  if she cheats there really isn't alot you can do unless you have proof.  if you have proof of it, i think you should dump her.  you deserve to be treated better.
805932
Wow- drama queen much?\nIt's the INTERNET- she's not having sex, she's typing flirty sentences to someone. You don't even know if it was really a guy.\n\nYeah, throw away your seven year relationship because she was using AIM.\nMaybe get into one when you're mature enough to handle it and trust that she's not going to cheat on you.
264744
well............do they know that this person is a she-male?\nif they know that this person is a she-male then all u can do is respect their privacy. but if this guy is cheating on u with the she-male then u need to break up with him.\nand if they dont know that that person is a she-male then i think they do have the right to know - so yea i think maybe u should tell them. wouldn't u appreciate it if u were dating a she-male but u didnt know it and someone else who did know it came and told u about who u were "really" dating?
485561
You can't make someone agree with you--maybe you two don't have anything in common.  Do you give her cause to think you're cheating?  If not, better to find someone else who doesn't have trust issues.