I have a tendecy of hurting girls during sex?
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Treat ladies very softly and be always patient with them. Don't try to satisfy yourself only, and dedicate that precious time during sex to give pleasure to woman. I dont think there is a girl in this world that likes to get hurt like that..believe me , that hurts very deep! and when a girl feels pain during sex, she wont get concentrated again in what you were doing, and consequently she wont have a good orgasm, so try to be nice to them, they'll appreciate more if you are soft to them rather than rough Mr Cangri!.\n\ngood luck.
834526
that used to happen to me sometimes, the inside of our vaginas are very fragile and can easily be slightly torn... no biggie as long as you are not gushing blood!! if its mainly when you wipe and a little on him after sex i wouldnt worry to much its most likely from sex that is a little rougher than normal
499534
Well I'm no expert but I think you may have a problem, and I don't mean to sound cruel but I mean a mental one. There are people who just feel it gives them some kind of relief from stress or anxiety or anger when they do harm to themselves. I hope you don't actually hurt yourself though. Next time you feel that way my suggestion is call your closest female friend and just spill it all out, and yes that means cry too if necessary. You will feel a lot better I promise!!! Good luck and Take care
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I don't believe in abuse of women or anybody unless it is in self-defense.  HOWEVER, I have playfully slapped female friends when they were getting a little annoying, but the slaps were playful and painless.  I have punched guys, though, and got into lots of fights with guys when I was younger.\n\nDon't hit girls unless it's playful and harmless, and the girls know that it is just for fun.  Otherwise, it is abuse.  If your sanity is in jeopardy, stop hanging around with those girls for a while and cool off.
842505
do u know B I T C H u r total into this sex thing sometime u say u love ur cousin sometime u say ur boyfriend ejacutale in 1 mins and sometime u ask what to do when ur father or bother hugs u. u know u have a very dirty mind thats why u ask all this f u c k i n g questions. u r a bad person and u know this very well. now go ahed and abuse the truth by reporting it as a abuse report. because thruth always dark
1165552
maybe ur being too rough, ive been hur sometimes, u just have to find a way, and when she enjoys it, youl enjoy it better
440738
Honestly i feel funny answering, but, i will. At first hell yeah it hurts! It hurts worse than when I lost my virginity...but if the guy really lubes up, and doesn't put "it" completley in than it can be pleasurable...u cant just ram it in an out w/that position..be easy and gentle and she just may enjoy it.
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i get orgazm quiker with an.al sex....but sometimes i don't want it quick..i want it to last
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Girls just get horny..and go in a stage often called "heat"...when u r in heat you may get wet or something like that, but you should feel any pain..if you start to feel pain go to a ob-gyn..if u have your period u may be getting ready to come on...talk to your ob-gyn..
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Let me start by saying 1. you should not be having sex with someone you are just talking to and 2. THANK YOU for using protection!!!! Most guys your age do not even think about all the consiquences that coem along with having unprotected sex.\n\nOk now to the real business.. your question.\n\nMost girls always experience some pain and discomfort when its there first time ( I know I did) soem will actualyl not enjoy it the first few times. It is up to you to get ehr to enjoy it. Here are a few things you can do that might help. ONE you must know that I am sure she is nervous, she peobably has no idea waht to do so this might make her even tighter and cause her to not get as wet.  Don't jump to the sex part right away. Have some foreplay kiss, rub, get her to the point where she tells you I she wants it. Then its all about patience!! Take your time, there is no rush. You need to be gentle and take it slow, let her knwo you wont hurt her tell her to tell you how she feels if it hurt slow down take it easy... also you can always use lubrication (that might help .. some KY jelly).  \n\nWell if you need any more help just email me.. I dont want to write a huge story here (because believe me if you let me I will..lol)
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There will be come pain for the woman (sorry not sure if you are the guy or girl), the best thing you can do to minimize the pain is foreplay. the more the better. the more relaxed and turned on the girl is, the less it will hurt.  go slow...it will be okay. \n\nThe amount of blood varies on different people. when i lost my virginity there was maybe about a teaspoon of blood on the sheet. \n\nNeed more help email me allyalexmch@yahoo.com
486074
you have a vaginal infection, not disease, you need to go to the doctor and get treated for that, because every time you have sex it will get worst
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You are a stalker and have deviant behavior.  If you truly don't want to rape someone, and I think it will happen if you get frustrated for too long, go to a psychiatrist..NOW!!!  Spare some women the pain that you will cause them.  You are a very dangerous person right now.
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Have you fell and bumped your head. That is sick you are having four play not fixing chicken. Bur yes it can, and it problem can also break the girl skin out so be ready to go to the doctor.  A females vagina is very sensitive and almost anything can damage the skin, so be very careful on what you use as a lubricant.
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Well it can be normal and it can not. The good thing about it is it doesn't sound like you have to worry yet. To try and answer your question as well as possible I will give you an idea. Some girls just have a tight vagina, or vaginal cavity naturally, I have had sex with my ex gf's and if you like it a little on the more explosive side, yes you might have a tendency to bleed a little bit. The problem is even after you lose your virginity depending on your body structure your hymen can be more present then in other women and it is very sensitive, thats one thing that will not only bleed but it will swell a little and become bruised. More bleeding can come from stretching of the vaginal cavity. There is a lot of things I know I have experienced and it doesnt sound to me like your in danger. To be on the safe side though if it worrys you enough to write about then go to the doctors.
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You wont hurt her, unless she is cramping.  It can get messy, put a towel underneath her, do it in the shower, or wear a condom.  I actually like sex better when i'm on my period, i'm much hornier then.
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You cant dump a girl without hurting her, but she will get over it in time. So you should not worry about hurting her bc you are going to but you shouldnt worry.