Does it hurt when you have sex for the first time? What does it feel like for the girl i mean?
543870
All I can do is tell you about my first time. I was totally in love, but the guy wasn't. It was nuthin' nice. In fact it was, on the whole, a totally awful experience. When I realized he didn't really care about me, I was devastated. I had thrown away the most precious gift I had to give a man on a jerk who just wanted to say he'd had a virgin. Don't be in a rush, sweetheart. I'm not saying you have to wait for marriage, just make the first time with someone really special. Make GOOD memories! I love you.
1154308
Sometimes, after having sex for the first time, women experience pain and bleeding. But that is not always the case. So if nothing happens, that does not mean that she is still a virgin. If she had sex, she's not a virgin. That simple. It is not anything to worry about. In fact, she should feel lucky to be pain-free.
1031658
i dont know... i haven't quite been there yet but...\n\nfirst up... before everything else, a HYMEN is a thin piece of covering on the entrance of the vagina. for most guys, thats thier standard for being a virgin if you have a hymen or not. how to tell? well... you BLEED the first time\n\nfor some girls... who have thick hymen.. yes, it does hurt. a lot. because... well... hello? the guy is tearing it up upon entering. and well... its thicker than most so you can REALLY feel the pain.\n\nfor normal girls, who have regular hymen... it tears up easy but you can still feel pain...\n\nsome girls... have hymen so thin, it broke while... horseback riding, biking, taking ballet classes, or any kind of extraneous sport. these kinds dont hurt. well probably just a teny tiny bit.\n\nand a few girls, are born without any hymen at all. \nthese dont hurt. \n\nso yeah, basically, unless your one of those special girls with no hymen, its gonna hurt the first time. hope i helped!
254596
I'm going to be completely honest and tell you that for me the first time hurt like hell. I lost my virginity earlier this year (I'm almost 22), my boyfriend was very understanding and gentle, but it still hurt. I didn't bleed though, which a lot of women have said that they do.\nFrom talking to my doctor there is a less of a chance of pain and bleeding when you lose your virginity at an older age. This is because your hymen gradually goes away throughout the years, and a lot of girls have actually broken it and not known it years earlier. \nIf your really worried I suggest getting a d.ildo/v.ibrator and working yourself in, I did this after the fact to make myself feel more comfortable with it. \nhope that helps
529704
There is going to be some pain, that is unavoidable. The key is to really listen and gage her reactions on when to move more and when you have broken her hymen. Let her tell you when it is ok to go in more. Don't allow her to be uncomfortable about letting you know what feels good and what doesn't. Make sure that you both are as relaxed as possible, and that doesn't mean that you have to drink to achieve this. Take a bath together, massage her back and shoulders, take time with foreplay as it will always make entering her less painful. Enjoyable? Not so sure, every woman has had different experiences with that part of loosing her virginity. Myself, I did enjoy it. But I wasn't tense, and was very ready for the act even though I didn't have any idea what i was doing. I had a very patient man who was willing to work with me and lead me gently and was willing to listen to me a gage my reactions from what he was doing. Hope that you too have a wonderful experience together and congratulations on waiting!! :)
1107158
Its good that you have waited, sex between two people that really care about each other is amazing. \n\nBe carefull, make him wear protection, choose a time when your not going to get disturbed, your both relaxed and you feel ready, for any female, it is usual to hurt at first, make him take it steady.\n\nYou will always remember you first time, make it special, take precautions and have fun
902451
Well it all depends. You can expect bleeding, although many women do not bleed at all their first time, and then there are others who do. I did not bleed when i lost my virginity. It may hurt, it depends on a lot.    Make sure you go slow so it doesn't hurt too bad, and you have a less chance of bleeding. Other than that, expect pleasure :) It's awesome haha. Goodluck :)
163983
OFCOURSE IT HURTS!NOT JUST THE FIRST FEW STICKS BUT THE FIRST FEW TIMES.AFTER THAT YOU LL SEE THAT SEX IS A BEAUTIFUL THING.OFCOURSE IF YOU DO IT WITH SOMEONE WHO AT LEAST RESPECTS YOU! GOOD LUCK :)
421555
It is only obvious to be curious at your age.  It is funny I had the same questions and by being too embarrased to ask a grown up and the false information I got from my peers allowed me to explore  for my self.  However, the 1st time I had sex I was 17 my senior year in highschool. It was with my highschool sweet heart.  We had been together since 9th grade and he was already sexually active and constantly tried to convince me to have sex with him,  I wanted to wait til I got married but he would say it doesn't matter because we were going to get married anyways, he also advised me if I got pregnant it wouldn't matter because he was going pro in football so he would be able to take care of us.  However, he did go off to college on a football scholarship, got injured in college, never went pro, works a mediocre job, has 4 kids by 4 baby momma's and we broke up his first semester in college (honestly).   \nSweetheart you are 14 years old try to put your curiosity into something else more positive (education), trust me boys will be around and sex isn't going anywhere. When you are ready and the time is right you will know it there won't be any question about it and make him wait that will show if he really cares.\n\nTo answer your question honestly, sex is definately worth waiting for, the first time you have sex it will hurt. It will hurt probably the first few times and you will be extremely sore and probably never want to do it again. Basically it is like someone is hammering something large into a tiny hole (your vagina) the walls around the vagina will be inflamed and extremely sore.  (Imagine the felling) However, the boy will not experience the pain you are feeling and will probably try to continue ignoring your pain. If you do decide please make sure this is with someone you trust and cares about you. You will probably feel uncomfortable being naked especially at your age (i was) Initially it is not the most fun thing to do and nothing about the first time you have sex is fun or beautiful (even after you get married).  However, waiting for sex is definately worth waiting for and rewarding  because it is the most intimate relationship you can have with someone.  A man will truly admire the fact this his wife is a virgin and the only person they have been with is them.  I was glad I waited until I was older (17), but if I could have waited longer I would have.   REmember your body is a temple and don't let anyone enter it unless you know they cherish it and cherish you as well.  I hope this helps you make the right decision.
43292
my first time hurt, but i was real tense..lol...\nbut after that it didnt hurt anymore!
959164
It may hurt the first time but after that it shouldn't.  It is possible that you have a strong hymen that needs to be releasd by a surgical procedure.  Or you might be anticipating pain and not able to relax and lubricate well.  Try a longer foreplay and a lubricant like KY or something similar.  Take it slow so there is no tensing.  Good luck.
250666
that depends;not neccessarily.some hymens just break.maybe it will hurt the first time you make love,but I hope that your partner will be as gentle as possible so that you won`t feel a thing and that you willl enjoy.take care girl.
590525
In my experience it is possible to prevent the first time being painful at all if you have played around plenty with your hands and mouth on other occasions.\n\nFingers can be a bit rough, but if you're gentle they can be great. Definitely eases the way for something larger. Also helps the girl learn what she likes and what feels good as many girls don't masterbate with penetration when they are virgins.\n\nPositions... definitely missionary the first time.
1050355
the first time?  I can't imagine anyone not being scared, at least a little, the first time having sex with another person.\n\nnow, if you're referring to anal intercourse, that's another issue.  scary's not the right word.  nervousness causing, sure.  the fear it may hurt to receive anal?  hopefully, the guy you'd be with would be patient, understanding (no one should top until he's bottomed.  you must know what the other guy is going thru) and the passion will override the nerves (possibly make it more exciting)\n\nDoes it alway hurt? no.  my first time did not hurt at all.
655503
Yes it does hurt. You should never have sex
92672
its because you break the hymen, and since youve never had sex before your like super tight and the penis stretches out the vagina entrance which hurts. it will hurt the first few times.
65811
u just feel it!\nAt least that happened to me...let me tell u something about my first time:\nonce I was dating this guy and nothing u know I just couldn't, something was odd, don't really know, but then I met this incredible guy and I don't know what exactly happened but it felt like fireworks being with him, at all times ,and the I just knew that he was the one .\nI never regret the time I waited to do it.\nIt was worth it all the way.