A local lady in town just lost her husband...?
548595
THat depends, I would take it to her now, and express your deepest condolences in person. I'm sure she would appreciate it.
835872
same here... the love of my life left me and my family is all out of town...today sucks......
542613
What does the husband think? If there is an understanding between the two of them, then I think its fine. Whatever her real agenda is going on a trip alone without her husband, if she does have something hidden behind her sleeves, then its she is taking an advantage of her husband's trust. And if thats the case, I feel pity for her and the husband as well.
876740
No, I believe that after a womans husband dies she should wait until she feels better off and isn't grieving anymore.  After that she should be able to go out and go find someone else.
38916
I really hope this isnt for you.  Tell the woman to call the local police department.  They will not only direct her but may help her get out.  Do send her my prayers and blessings.
428323
I am so sorry for your loss, call a large law firm, most for them will do ProBono work {free} as a community service, I will say a prayer for you and her.
381449
So sorry for what you are going through... She should have remembered her vows and stood strong for you while you are away.  If someone vows to love, honor, and cherish you until death and they try to find someone else while you're away, you are better off without her.  I know it will hurt and in time you will hopefully heal and find a great woman. Good luck to you.
259010
Wow, I'm sorry to hear about that.  You definitely should call her right away.  I would start by telling her your heart goes out to her in this tragic time and that, as soon as you can, you will be there to assist with anything and everything she needs.  Ask her if there is anyone she would like you to contact, and anything she would like you to bring when you come to visit her.  Then make sure you follow up on everything.  Unless you've experienced the same type of lose, don't ever tell her you know how she feels, or you know what she's going through...she might take offense to something like that.
76652
im sorry about the first idiots responce ! good grief whats wrong with people ! i could not pass this one by without takeing a minute to tell you how truely sorry iam . i lost a nephew and witnessed first hand a mothers grief . you and your family are in my prayers .
39827
I am so very very sorry for your loss.  Ive lost a lot of family members so I know exactly what you are feeling.  One thing that got me through the tough times was actually talking to the person as if they were right there in person with you.  Tell her how you are feeling and about your day and that.  Find a nice place to take a walk in and just talk.  She is still with you.  She is watching over you.  She knows you love her.  And she loves you very much.  Im sure she doesnt want to see you so sad.  It will take time sweetie.  But, the pain does get easier.  I promise.  And by talking to her, it helps to ease that pain a bit more.  You will be ok.  I promise.
215683
I have to agree that you should look her up, there's a good chance that she misses you too. And honey you are not being selfish, this woman was good to you and it is perfectly alright that you miss her. Good luck.
349101
im goin this sunday.it mite be alittle sad tho,kuz my wife will be w/me and she lost her brother and uncle last year,they died while surf fishing in washington state at the ocean {riptide}.her brother left behind his wife and 3 children {9yr ,7yr,3yr}  ,her uncle was a retired doctor   \n:(
1063290
she died last friday!!!!!! im so sorry
285372
I am so sorry to hear about your loss.  Whatever you do - do something.  No matter how insignifcant whatever you do may seem to you at the moment - it will mean more than you can imagine to the family.  They understand the distance in miles associated with this loss.  God bless you and yours at this time!
291062
I am very sorry for you loss. Each person grieves differently and for various times. As each days passes it will hopefully get easier for you. Take care and I will keep you in my prayers.
153631
I don't think you can not hurt her. Be honest. Listen to what she has to say. Offer her support. Be there for her. Do not patronize her and not get to the point though. There is nothing that can ease the blow of losing a loved one.
381775
My thoughts and prayers go out to your friend Dim.  He has lost his mother but we have all gained an angel.  God bless him and his family.