i feel every time unhappy in my study and can't study properly even i study its not getting as my friends get.
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keep a timetable ...study for some time and then take a break..keep goals...if you achieve it ...reward yourself...keep realistic goals...
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Many people feel this way.  First you might try to find out what is depressing you?  (Harder than it sounds)  Why aren't you happy?  I happen to be a person that loves change, and when I'm not getting change (at least every once in a while), I get very unhappy and depressed.  Medications don't always help...I tried them once...didn't work!  It's good that you have a boyfriend who is supportive...that's very important.  Having someone there to support you is something a lot of depressed people don't have.  If you'd like to talk details, feel free to contact me; I'd be happy to help with anything I can.
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You're going to have to tell your parents; tell them how badly you feel. Ask for their help.  Maybe they can help you figure out what the problem is.  Maybe a tutor would help.  Maybe with your parents assistance you could set up workable plan- like studying a certain number of hours per day before watching tv,hanging with friends and so on.\n\nI am sorry to hear that you feel like killing yourself.  Please don't.  Talk to your parents- maybe also the school counselor or other trusted adult.  Good luck.I hope things improve. Let us know.
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honey it sound like you are depressed go see a doctor and ask for help it could be a simple vitamin deficiency or depression get help now before you fail however at 18 if this year goes to pot repeat it at college don't think you have failed because you cant do it right now and ask for help at school they should be used to dealing with theses problems
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hi im not a big expert, and i dont know u, but as far as i understand u feeling this way is quite normal. no offence but i ges its normal for women to go throu this. i know loads of them who sunddly get in to this phase... so dont worry about it too much ok, its not a big problem its just a part of growing up. u sound pretty smart so i ges u will do the correct thing. stick to your studies. u said that u have never met him ! i dont think its really possible to love someone without really knowing that person. but i wont get in to that cos its cool. All i will say is the way u feel is quit normal so dont worry about it. its all about growing up so just take your time and enjoy it ok, it will pass, and please continu your studies trust me u will never regret it. hpoe things work out take care god bless.
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You are still young. Get over it. Finish your studies.
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Because no one else is studying. Get a drom or go to the library where everyone is miserably studying. You'll see you're not the only one not having fun. \nGet away from ppl who aren't in your situation, you just get subconsciosly jeolous and it will lead you astray from your studies. Next thing you know you'll be dropping out or "putting school on hold"\nLife isn't a/b fun, untill you get too old to have it. Or unless you become really rich....but then you still wont be satisfied with what you have.\nSo....just stop bitching and study. Its easier to be young, bored, and rich than to be old and not rich.
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If you are really unhappy, you should think about changing jobs.  I changed my job two years ago because of a similar experience and I have never been happier.  There is also a high level of stress in my new school, but now I feel I have the support from my superiors at all times instead of the critics I used to have.
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i feel tierd.....confuse....lonely....angry....happy.....worry....cuz i have to study hard and i dunno will i pass that awful hard exam or not...addicted to run every day close to 2 hrs and ake my mind get out of order....far from the one i love for thousands mile..dunno what will be our future and.....
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There is nothing wrong with you, you just need to try harder and study harder in the subjects that you are'nt as good at. A lot of people are like that, infact most people are. Just keep trying as hard as you can.
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College can be tough that way, pretty lonely, not knowing what to do with your life, feeling nostalgic about high school. I went through the same thing, and I let it get really bad until I needed the antidepressants to get me on the right track again. It sounds like you're just starting to slide, so now is a good time to take some action. How about getting iin touch with the career counselors at the college? There are a few tests you can take that match your skills and personality to certain jobs that people like you enjoy, so it might give you some direction. Pharmacology is something I find interesting, and it is certainly a good field to join, financially, but if you don't like biology and biochemistry and organic chem, it's probably not your thing. Again, start with what you like to do and are good at, then look for a way to make a living at it.\n\nDepression-wise, the symptoms to look for are: sleeping more or less than before, eating more or less than before, gaining or losing weight, losing interest in things you used to like, not enjoying things the way you used to, feeling sad, guilty or hopeless, feeling worthless, and the symptoms last on most days for two weeks or more. Don't hesitate to get help if you think this sounds like you. Depression is really common in college students, and it is very treatable. Just walk into the college health clinic. They'll know how to help. Good luck.
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Maybe you're one of those people who do better studying in a group?\n\nBEWARE of who you choose to study with though. If you're in a bunch of people who also can't focus / study and want to play, this will be counter-productive. Choose someone / people who is/are focussed and can sit down for a while and are serious in studying/doing well. Make sure you also take some breaks. Apparently a good formula is studying 50 minutes, rest 10 minutes but I never stuck to that so you just have to find what suits you. Try to eat well while studying - have proper meals but not too much as you'll feel tired if you're too full. Also make sure you have proper/enough sleep.\n\nHope this helps.
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Hang in there. I have been where you are at and you are almost there. Just focus on those last bit of exams and give it your all. I know it's hard because it was for me especially my senior year and the semester I graduated. I had Senioritis like no other. But I had to look at the big picture which was obtaining my degree and doing good on my last exams. \n\nTry listening to your favorite music when you study or going \nto your local library and renting a study room. Most of them are free. And even though I liked hanging out with my friends during finals, it was not an option for me because I know I would get nothing accomplished, so I had to kick it after finals. You gotta push yourself because you've made it this far and then you can hang out for the summer.  Good Luck.
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all graduate students are underpaid and exploited. youre not alone! grad students are cheap labor, and schools take advantage of that. if your school has some kind of counseling program, i would make an appointment and talk to them, if only to vent. they may be able to help you cope with what youre feeling. you are not a failure, youre an academic! and one day it will pay off!
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School is tough at times - no doubt!  It's good that you are stressed... it means you care!  Of course feeling stressed isn't much fun, though!  Sorry to hear you're having a tough time.\n\nFirst, because you care, you can pull through this!  I've been in your shoes before... I'm now on the other end of a college degree and lovin' it.  I wasn't a scholar by any means, but asked for help and ended up on the Dean's list my last five semesters.... believe me, if I can do it, so can you!    \n\nNot knowing you or how you approach things, it's hard to address specifics... rather than making assumptions, I'll cover a range of things in case any of them pertain to you... with that being said, whatever you're doing right now isn't working, so obviously you need to find a different way of studying, etc.  Here are some general tips... feel free to take 'em or leave 'em.\n\nAre you giving 100%?  If so, unfortunately our best isn't always good enough to get the results we want... but at the end of the day, when you look youtrself in the mirror... there's something about knowing you did your best.  If you continue to try your best, you will sort it out.  Of course if you're not trying 100%, then that's where you start... commit to do it!\n\nI would first start by going to your professors or teachers... go over past tests, papers, etc. and see where you didn't do well.  Ask for advice on how to study for his/her class... and find out if he/she knows of any study groups or other students from whom you could receive some additional help/tutoring.  If the class is small enough, they may be able to offer up other observations/suggestions as well.  Also, let them know how you feel and that you want to improve... they are human and all "signed on" to do this as a profession... they are there to help!\n\nThen... examine how you study... and where you study... find a place that is conduscive to studying... if you're near a TV or singing to a song on the radio... or near others where you are being distracted, it's time to find a new place to study.  Also, are you a morning person?  Know yourself... what time(s) of the day are you most alert, etc?  Try to study during those times... your mind associates certain places with certain activities... bedroom = sleep, kitchen = eating, etc.  I found going to the library and getting away form everyting was the best thing for me... and once I got into the routine, I noticed my grades improved... I knew once I stepped into the library, it was study time.  Establishing good sleep and other habits helps as well.  \n\nGo to class every day... skipping is a easy habit to get into - I've been there & it'll do ya in!  If ya don't skip, don't start!\n\nDo you cram for tests?  If so, it doesn't work... not usually anyway.  Procrastination will kick ya in the pants too... and can burn ya!  I had a coach that once said, "fail to prepare, prepare to fail."  Same holds true for school.  If in college, there should be some free academic assistance or tutoring centers that have staff that can address this stuff... same goes for proof reading papers before you hand then in... in in High school, there should be someone who can help you find these resources. Remember, no one makes it alone!  I'm assuming if you can ask for help on Yahoo, that you'd be willing to ask for help at school.  Smart people know when to ask for help!      \n\nRemember, balance is key!  Your future (in a career sense & lifestyle) depends on school... take care of business first... work hard when you have to, then play hard when ya can... finding the balance is key, because you do need both.\n\nSometimes easier said than done, but tell friends that you're struggling... let then know what you need or don't need from them... if friends undersatnd, that helps!\n\nStudy tip... take notes... first, make sure you're t
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I know how you feel. Im pretty much the same way, watching life pass by and the bad part is you know it. \nI guess try and relax, work during the week and party on the weekend. What I found is that you should get at least 8 hours of sleep everynight. Even though I havent solved the problem of studying too much I try and remember that university is suppose to teach us that there needs to be a balance of play and work. Remember "all work and no play makes Johnny a dull boy". \nJust remember that balance is key!
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I know exactly how you feel! Last week I had an English Test, and I got two wrong answers in multiple choice, I was devastated, just thinking, "if I would just marked the other one". I couldnt stop thinking about that. But after thinking about it I just concluded that I cant make my life miserable for a C grade, when all my other grades are As and Bs, life go on, get over it, besides the school year just began. That test is over, past, now you have to look forward, and study harder for your future tests.\n\nCheer up, and enjoy life\n\nHappy Thanksgiving!!!!!