Isnt it wrong to fall in love with a friend??
535568
It's not wrong but it sure is painful! You have to go through confusion and angst just to get yourself to admit your feelings and then when you have already passed that stage you have to go tell your friend. But you know, through all that pain - you'll find more joy with that person than with those you just met and decided to go out with. It's like - the more pain you experience, the more joy you gain after the whole thing. Why? Because you know this person and this person knows you. You trust each other coz you're already friends. You've already passed the 'getting to know you' stage of a relationship and the next thing you have to do is enjoy each other!!\nThings get complicated though, and much more painful, if your friend doesn't feel the same way. Some feel betrayed when they find out their friend's in love with them. They say you betrayed their trust and that sort of thing.\nBut you know, the key thing is patience and persistence.
1183573
no. your not wrong. what would be wrong is you hiding and lying about it. if thats what makes you smile ,laugh and feel great then dont let ignorant people with nasty stares and glares bother you. go on fall in love with who ever you want.
69872
I've had this situation 4 months ago. We've just talked about it.. I frankly said, that i don't love him. He offered me to be friends. So we are very good friends right now. But I feel that i'm more than just a freind for him...Sometimes i think that it would be nice if we were together but can't do it right now, 'cause i broke up with my ex-bf yesterday. And i don't want to lose my friend.. It's up to a person :)
526572
See where it goes. From the outside looking in, without details, I would say you are blessed. Every woman should be so lucky to fall in love with her best friend and vise versa. Knowing that you have found someone who can truly appreciate all that you can bring into his life is a wonderful feeling. \nAnd the same with you, knowing what his faults and strentghs are, put you both ahead in the game of love.\n\nEnjoy it, in my opinion, you are both blessed.
659612
Its good to be in love with the best friend because they can understand our feelings emotions and thoughts.If I was experiencing the same,as he is my best friend and understands me very well I will dare to talk to him about this.If he is not interested also we will continue to be best friends forever.I would like to advise you to do the same.BEST OF LUCK!
1154637
Its common to have those feelings cause you think you can trust the person with all your inner details and secrets... The way you would want a serious relationshiop to be. And you have to remember,t he person you want to spend the rest of your life with has to be your friend first. You should think of them as your best friend. And love simply follows naturally. Thats the recipe for a great relationship anyhow.
1032209
I think its wrong. but if your bestfriend know about the issue and if she's fine with it, then go for it. but if she doesn't know please don't keep it a secret from her. It'll hurt like H3ll when she fines outs
143179
no you are fine, you should fall in love when you meet the suitable girl\nas long as you didn't met her, you won't fal in love. logical huh?
867361
Wrong?  That's for you to decide, but here's some food for thought.\n\nShe needs your friendship.  If you give her friendship without going for anything more right now, it shows her respect.  Then, when she is less vulnerable, if the two of you get together she will respect you more and you will be able to trust that she's with you for the right reasons and not simply out of need.\n\nIf the two of you got involved right now, it might be for the wrong reasons at the wrong time and thus set you up for failure down the road.\n\nIf you are "right" together, then it won't hurt for you to be her best friend and hold off on the other stuff for a while out of respect for her temporary vulnerability and genuine love or care for her.\n\nJust something to consider.  Good luck!
1159704
that is so wrong if u really love your partner u shoyuldnt be doing that, but i know your not alone i have friends who tell me the same so im guessing its normal
180389
LOVE is a serious word and VERY misused today.\n\nIt is normal to have feelings for someone and even strong ones.  It's normal to have friendship love toward someone, but the REASON it does not last is because it is NOT LOVE! \n\nThis is part of your learning time hun.... this is how you 'pick' your future mate.. by weeding out the 'qualities' you don't like/won't tolerate.  It's all good :)  Don't take it so seriously!  :D
1106056
You respect your friend's choice. He only likes you, you are still deciding what to do. But, your friend is already in love with him. So, as a true friend you should help them to marry. It is not something unique that has happened in your life. It is a very commomn development. Nor you will be doing any sacrifice or great service to your friend. You will just be behaving like a normal civilised woman. That is all.
46666
Pancharito is right! I know you want to be friends with him, but you are in love with him. You will always be tempted to just crumble and tell him you want more. But you have to respect his wishes before those of your own if you truly do love him. *sigh* That's the part of love that is so hard. You'll never really fall out of love with him. But distancing yourself will make things easier for you. Get involved in activities you love and it will take your mind off of your heart. Besides, you might make some great new friends through your outside involvement. I do wish you luck........I know it is hard!
467698
No, its not wrong. You cannot control who you have feelings for. You have to let that person know how you feel, and see if possibly they are wrestling with the same problem.
671847
Feelings are just that.. feelings.  They are neither right or wrong.  True love can't be made where it doesn't exist and can't hide where it does.  He is feeling that he somehow betrayed his friend.... He should discuss his feelings with him.
497465
That depends on u.It does seem a bit early to date maybe right now u should stick to being friends. Friendship can blossom into love given time. U need to go through the greiving process first before getting involved w someone. You don't want to ruin a friendship that you may need right now for security & understanding.You both lost someone special n both your lives.Give it time &I'm sorry for your loss..
357266
i think that it is okay. it is okay to be attracted and have feelings for anyone that you wish. what you need to do now is figure out what you want to do with your life. are you ready for committment, or do you want to explore a little? do be ashamed about your preference, but dont hurt, or lead anyone on in the process