Is getting or giving oral sex is considered cheating?
549447
Absolutely. The general rule of thumb is whether or not you would feel comfortable if it were the other way around. Put yourself in your partners position, and then consider the consequences of your actions.
686181
cheating is cheating whether it is a man or woman
610583
Conventionally;\nIt's cheating if you kiss another on the lips\nIt's cheating if you french kiss another \nIt's cheating if you masturbate or get masturbated by another\nIt's cheating if you have sex with another (i think you already knew this one uh!)\nSometimes it's cheating even when you are having sex with your partner but you think about the other (which doesn't explain what you are doing with your partner then...but i do understand to some having sex is just a cheap substitute of the Gym).\nTo make it brief, it doesn't take a full sexual intercourse to CHEAT. It simply takes the will do to it. The extent to which you do it can be affected by many factors (People around, sense of guilt, lack of time) but that doesn't mean you're being honest nor a simple kiss diminishes the hurting effect of being cheated.\nAfter all, to prove what i say, you simply need to wait till your partner will kiss someone else in front of you to see if your self-estime goes up or down or if you feel "special" to him/her.
816569
No.  There is nothing in the rules against it; anyone else who wants to can do it too. How could that be considered cheating?
281093
Cheating is unfaithfulness in any way.  Emotionally, physically.  You can cheat on the internet and never meet the person.  It's still cheating.
101837
Oral sex is just part of a wonderful sexual experience for two consenting adults. \n\nHowever, based on some of your previous questions I believe that you are a very young girl who has a lot of questions about sex.  \n\nOral sex is still sex, and carries some of the same risks of getting STD's.
1040765
Yes, it would be considered cheating.  BIG TIME!
424495
Men don't see it as cheating. We see it as sex, and sex is fun and good. Men can keep sex and love completely separate, If women have sex even 2 or three times they begin to love. It is primal instinct. Women are driven to look out for the safety of the offspring and this is done by attaching themselves to an alpha male. Men are driven to propagate the species by spreading their seed as often and far as possible. We are not far from the caves.\n\nj.swaney@yahoo.com
343257
It really depends on the terms of the man's relationship with his wife.  I know a couple who are happily married but they have sex with other people (separately, not like a three-some).  Each knows that the other has multiple partners but that is the terms of their relationship and they're ok with that.  So, if this was previously discussed by the couple and the wife is ok with it, then no, it is not cheating.  However, if this is not agreeable within the terms of their relationship, then it would be cheating.  \n\nThe best thing for the couple to do would be to sit down and discuss this.  They may need a moderator, such as a couples counselor, or they may not.  But it needs to be resolved otherwise the guy will be miserable and the longer it goes on the more hurt the wife will be.  People need to be free to express themselves sexually and being bi-sexual is something that he sould have brought to her attention before they were married.  Now they've got to work it out.  \n\nIf this is a real situation that you know of, give my best to the couple and wish them luck for me.\n\nFR
19623
You're not cheating, you're just outsourcing your orgasms. That's not horrible, it's just practical. If he wants you to be faithful, he should keep up with your needs.
192337
If you are asking, probably! Ask yourself two questions: Does it make you feel guilty? Would you object to your partner doing what you are doing? If you can truly answer NO, then you are the ONE man in the world who isn't cheating!
590741
i dont think it's cheating too\naccording to your story, you didnt do it on purpose, even if you were a bit over the line, but still i believe it was the alcohol effect =)\nif your boyfriend is understanding and open-minded about this issue, tell him asap before he hears it from someone else and tell him that you're sorry\ngood luck =)
329834
Cheating is a very subjective subject determined by ones own beliefs, morals, and other opinions.  When this question comes up it's best to sit down with your significant other and frankly discuss what you both consider inapropriate behaviors with the other gender. Ex: some couples are wary with side glances to the other people where as others think kissing others isn't cheating.
414616
oral is moral, if you don't someone else will
438009
If my bf f*cks someone else, it's cheating. If it's just kissing, fine.It's still me he's coming home to.
1010502
I have done this and it's a great thing for a relationship in terms of opening up new communication.   \n\nYou are not cheating if your partner knows about it and is there. If you're going behind your partners back then THAT is cheating.\nThat is a BIG difference.\n\nMake up the rules that you and your partner will live by when going to these parties.  and stick to those rules, don't change them in the heat of the moment. and don't force your partner to live by rules that they really don't want.  that will make for resentment.  So you see: you have to be very honest in your communications about this.\n\nnow relax and enjoy!!\n\ntom
1156527
I like getting or giving oral sex. All my females friends do not like doing it, but I love it. I think its a control issue.