how i can know that a really love from a young man ???
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i don't understand the question sorry.
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Love is a verb - his actions speak volumes.  What the rest said here are true.  You will definitely know because you experience his care and love.
576175
well if your under 16 i dont know if he really dose know whay love is..if your like 13 then its like messin around with each orther..but if your older then 16 n you yous go out together eat lunch together talk on the phone all da time then yeah..ask him if he loves you or if he just hase feelings 4 you, and if he is playing u leve his ass go.
123276
Yes.  Be patient.  Your time will come, meet a young man, fall in love, etc.  God bless.
486517
Do yourself a favor, don't be or feel desparate okay.  The right man will come when the time is right.  You don't have to go anywhere, he will find you because God will send him to you.  Just pray about it, it's not going to happen over night, but you will be in love one day.  And do me a favor, don't ever call your little girl a mistake!  Children are never a mistake; they are a gift from God okay sweetie.  Good luck to you.
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Love older guys..stability, security, sure of themselves, and give them a beer and they fall asleep HA!!! However, love comes in all ages..don't ever be ashamed or feel discouraged about the one you love. Stand tall and strong by your man...believe me, if you don't..somebody else will.\n\nEnjoy life to the fullest.
38732
just be yourself and let him know by action that you love him because he would feel it if you are sincere with your feelings for him.
439253
When you find true love.Hmm love is something really unexplainable.its a feeling that we feel when we want t love another person. its beyond all our control we cannot explain it. its what makes us human.When you meet ther person for youj then you will realise what love is really about.\n\n\nTrue love? or a lustful kind of love? There is a difference.\n\nTrue love? The world stops around you when you look into the eyes of the one you love. No one else, nothing else seems important, but the connection that is you share with this person. And you can feel it in thier eyes. As if when they stare back into yours, that they are saying without speaking, "I adore you, respect you, desire you, admire you". True love is when you connect on a level that makes you want to do everything you can to make that person happy, and that they do the same in return. It is a powerful feeling, when the world stops around the two of you. You will know it.\n\nLustful kind of love is much different. Its the feeling that omg I have to have that person, they are so very attractive, and that I think I am in love with them. Its a false true love.\n\nYou will feel love for him in time.\nThat love is connection.,YOu can tell him by passing him notes.or leaving him a message.! take it slowly my friend.do that if you are shy.talk to him ,call him,,,relate your feelings towards him.he will start to understand and like you.\n\nremember\n\nBeauty is in the eyes of the beholder
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If you can get a driver's license at 16, fight a war at 18 and have a drink at 21, who's to put an age limit on love?\n\nLove is a lot of things... To love and to be IN love are two different things as well. True love is when you keep dancing long after the song is finished. It isn't about fogiving, it's about forgetting. It's not what you see but what you feel. It isn't about listening so much as understanding. True love, is when you find that person you can't live without. The one person that knows your heart inside out. The one who can make you smile at the sound of his name. Don't be fooled, because love isn't a fairy tale... it's not like the movies... True love, is being there for each other, through better or worse... Thick and thin... It's knowing that you have someone to double all your successes with and divide all your sorrows. True love to me, is knowing that each morning I get to wake up next to the one man that makes me happy, and go to sleep every night being held by him. It's knowing that, when I think about my future, I see him... he's the man I want to be with forever... fall in love with all over again each and every day... Have a family with. True love for he and I, is knowing that some day, it will only be he and I, sitting on our front porch, holding hands and even more in love than the day we met.
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Your thoughts and feelings are natural for a young man...don't sell yourself short though...wait until you are ready for a relationship and don't settle for second best...you sound a nice person...just enjoy your life and feel confident about yourself...dreaming is nice!!
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Jea, at the risk of sounding like your father, I would advise you NOT to visit.  No, not for the usual “perverts online” reasoning, but for a purely practical line of thought.\n\nConsider the possibilities:\n(1) The person is, indeed, the perfect match.  If this is the case and the two of you are truly meant for each other, nothing will keep you apart any longer than necessary.  But this can also mean that he can come to you when the time is right.  Love has a way of “making thing happen.”  Love never has to feel rushed.\n(2) The person is not “the one” but is experienced enough to know how to “talk” to you.  This person might suggest getting together for selfish reasons, not for love.  These people will always have a good excuse as to why they cannot come to you, but you must come to them.  It tells them how well they have you “hooked.”\n(3) The person has much in common with you, but what you are feeling is Romance, not Love.  The only way to sort this out is continuing the relationship over a longer time.  Romance fades, Love does not.\n\nJust email?  No phone calls?  No letters?  Never a single flower delivered?  Allow a progression to take place.  Experience the closeness and do not allow fantasy to rule over reality.\n\nIf you feel that you just have to meet this person, do it in a public place, during the daytime, in a neutral location.  Do not go alone.  Go with a friend or two.  Let others know in advance what you are doing.  If you are in your 20’s or older, that is one thing.  If you are still a teen, seriously consider your experience and the life choices involved.
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If you get along and are compassionate toward one another in times of trouble, if you help each other in times of need, if your eyes and minds do not stray to others, and if you are at least 17 then you may end up together. Only you and he know how you really feel toward each other, but if you are under the age of 17 then I doubt it will last know matter what, but you never know. Wait and see.♀
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Go for it and ignore your friends who seem to be a lil shallow. This man is more capable of loving you more than any man can ever love you in more ways than one. For instance, he has to literally explore your body as he make love to you and it becomes like second nature to him he knows your body even better than you. He can sense your mood and he will love you always for who you are and not what you look like ,act like etc. Most important he will never judge you because his love is true
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You really won't know when you will fall in love. So, if your heart tells you that you are in love now, then you really are. Even if you are at that age, if your heart tells you that you are in love then you are in love. Just remember to take things slowly. You are still young and there are still lots and lots of opportunities awaiting you in this world. I wish you the best.
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You should ask him and see what he says. If you are mature enough to feel real love then you should also be mature enough to talk about it with the guy you have feelings for. You need to clarify how he feels...if he shares your feelings, great...if not, then you need to move on.
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Experience.  There is no other way.\nWhen one is young, one can be exposed to Crushes and Romance.  We do not learn about these by thinking about them, we learn from out feelings.\nOne we know who we are and how we feel, Love becomes a possibility.  Nobody will need to tell you when you are in Love.  You will know it and so will the other person.
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I think you can see it in a person's eyes. You can also tell by their actions. As others have said actions speak louder then words. \n\nI know when I that I love my girl and that I am always trying to do things for her. She hasn't opened a door since we've been together. I get her little things just to surprise her. I assume your to young, but I even leave her a little note on her car about once or twice a month. \n\nI doubt there is really any ONE way to figure out if this boy loves you or not. But why worry about it? Enjoy the experience your getting. I am sure there will be more then just this one guy in your life. Life's a ride, so enjoy it... Ride on!!