Would it be wrong for a 17 year old guy to be attracted to a 14 year old girl?
549096
well you could just wait a couple years..and then it would be a litle more appropriate and no one would say anything\n\n\nIMO
85131
Nothing wrong with dating someone twenty years older if it works for both of you.  And you are at least 18.
686312
A complex problem, but I would say you have to cut one loose to start with.\n\nI wont flame you for the age difference, because to you it probably does not make a difference, but it does to him, he will be wanting a lot more than you should be willing to give, I of course mean sexually. Which is wrong, he shouldnt be dating you, I was 17 once, I know what 17 year old (or 16) guys want I can say I wasnt as desperate, but all of my freinds were only interested in one thing and you shouldnt be considering that.\n\nI think even if you decided on taking things further with an older boyfreind, you will not be as ready as them, but more importantly he could be arrested for it, and if that happens that could really mess things up for him, he would be labelled as a sex offender and that could ruin his future. In terms of a job or life, it would be on his criminal list, perhaps a sex offenders list, where he would be put with dirty old men, it really could be very serious.\n\nIt could also mess things up in your life big time, you have a bit of time, so take your time enjoy life, but try to find a boyfriend closer to your own age, where there will be less problems and you both will have a lot more in common.\n\nAs for the talking on the phone, maybe you both are a little shy which is undestandable (I am guessing he is closer to you age, you didnt say), when you just talk it can be hard to think of things to say, try asking a few questions how he feels about something, talk about common interests, maybe movies, music, friends etc.\n\nAlso there is nothing wrong with being single either, you are young you have a really long time to worry about boyfriends in the future.\n\nI hope this helps and that you take my advice regards the 17 year old guy.\n\nAll the best\n\nArmand.
894745
IT IS ABSOLUTELY NOT WRONG!!! 1 year is NOTHING. It is much more about how you 2 connect with eachother than how close you are in years.  I once had a thing with a guy 2.5 yrs younger than me, and we are still great friends, cuz he was an absolutely AMAZING person, and was super cute, and quite frankly was more mature than most guys my age. Guys the same age as me were always pressuring me to do things I didn't want to, but since I was older than him, this boy was SO respectful of me and my decisions and feelings. And what a sweetheart... as you can see, I could talk for hours.  Obviously dating a guy like 5 years younger than you is kinda weird, but just a few years is NO reason to hide feelings for a guy. If he treats you well, who cares how old he is? And if you're worried about being made fun of, then DON'T! YOU like him, and it's YOUR business. End of story. Best of luck with him! <3
805630
yes that is normal for you not to be attracted to your wife she has now become a fat cow and that isn't what you married, just try and deal with the next two months, the 18 year old will get you into trouble because by the sounds of it you are a lot older and that normally spell trouble
852404
nahh..in love age doesnt matter..besides if the two of you are experiencing true love well theres nothing wrong with it.
12529
Why should it. Only some people who think they are those who make the rules try to make us believe it should matter. If two people feel attracted to one another, why care about age?\nThere is one exception, however, when it comes to very young age (16 or less), caution is to be exercised...
212520
It's wise as long as he's a filthy rich man. Girls are likely to be attracted to rich old men. Don't feel guilty. However, make sure he is not married.
479982
If they are truly in love then age shouldnt matter .After all , he is just a guy and she is just a girl ,and they are both just looking for that special someone . Just make sure the girl knows to take it slow and theyll be fine.
372318
Oh yeah. The thing with girls is that as you get older and older the one's you're attracted to stay the same age.
98269
This question appeals to me because I have always been interested in men a lot older than I am. I really don't think age matters if the people involved are mature and interested in one another. I always tend to think of the great romances where the men were much older than the women: most of the heroes of classical literature were 20 yrs older than the heroines! 14 yrs is not that bad. All I can say is, whenever I've been interested in a man who is older than me (at least 10 yrs) I have always worried he would think I was too young. I didn't even give a thought that he might be worried I would think him too old! So if the girl seems attracted and interested in you, just go for  it. If she really likes you, your age won't bother her a bit. Good luck! ;)
925999
A lot of it depends on the peoples ages.  If a 14 year old wants to date someone 3 or more years older than them then that is a bit much.  But if a 35 year old wants to see someone 40 it would be more appropriate.  Most of the time it comes down to maturity, experience and norms of the society.
456819
Ok look there is nothin wrong wit liking an older person. I have many times and i am only now 14 years old. But howeva let me tell u there is a limit even though someone only being 6 years older than u wont b so bad when u become 20 cuz they will only b 26. Think about dat and let it saturate. But anywayz the limit 4 u would probably b about mayb 18 years old. If the person is older than that b really really really careful and cautious. There are many dangerous ppl in da world these days. I don't think anybody would like if u end up dead or somethin. Even i wouldnt and i dont even kno u!!!!. Howeva it is cool to like older ppl these days. Many younger ppl do enjoy liking older ppl anywayz becuz one they hav more experiences in life than some1 ur age, and two they are usually way way way more mature than someone around ur age. LOL. So i hope dat was good enough advise for ya. But remember...... B REALLY REaLLY REALLY CAREFUL!!!!!!!!!!!!!
1130653
I was 11 once, so I can tell you that crushing on a 15 year old guy is way normal. But to be honest with I don't think I would of be able to handle a real relationship with a 15 year old when I was 11. I don't know you and I and I don't know her, I do know that most people would that you where abnormal guy just try to get with a girl you figured was easy. I'm not saying you are; I’m just saying that's what most people will think.\n\nI think if you really cared for her that you would never ever make her do anything she wasn't ready for, that you might be ready for. You don't want her to have to cut her childhood short or that will send you to jail. And even if she says, she is ready, she's not no one is ready at 11, 12, 13, 14, or even 15 years old, she will be just trying to please you. So, as long as her parents are okay with this and you respect her and understand she shouldn’t be ready for anything more than kissing for years to come, than you're good. I think that a lot people forget that two people can love and care about each other for years with out having sex. And that two people can connect with each other and be different not just in age and still find common ground.\n\nI do recommend you to take things slow with her, to respect her, and to remember that she may seem older to you in a lot of ways, but she and you are both just children learning and growing, and change.  Be a friend to her first and a boyfriend second.  Also, remember that not everyone is going to approve of this relationship if it's more than friendship, that's going to be very hard even too much for you and her to deal with. You might want to think about being friends for now and more than friends when she’s older. If it’s meant to be it will be, waiting might suck but it also might me the best thing for you both.
241863
being a young man of faith... excuse my language.. shes going to be literaly ****ed over! there is no way in Gods name a 14 year old girl is in love with a 20 year old guy.. 2 hes only looking to get in her pants... (being a guy i would know how horomones function for my "speicies) thirdly... at 14 hardly ANYONE knows what love is even if it bit them in the butt. im almost 18 and ive found the girl i love, but she is 2 years younger.. granted not a good combo but she actualy realises what i want and what i see love as being. honestly if you cant talk to her... talk to her MOM or her DAD.. cuz any decent parent will NOT EVER allow a 6 year time difference untill the "young woman/man" is atleast 18... and if he touches her... theres a reason for the saying "16 will get you 20... 14 will get you 40!" so if she loves him... she may just want to concider waiting just a bit longer...
100766
First of all... old men that like young people are sick losers and should be in prison.\n\nSecond... 14 year olds should be at home after 9pm.\n\nThird... I think 16 year olds can date 14 year olds but make sure that just bc you're a little older you don't put pressure on the sex issue.  Wait a few years PLEASE.
1123062
When someone is a minor, age just isn't a number...it's a criminal offense. \nThink about it...24 year olds are into a lot of stuff 17 year olds aren't.  If his past relationships bother you take it as a red flag and find someone else.