How do I get a boyfriend i am to shy I had them before but my luck is changing help!?
538730
Stop looking and be content in where you are in life.  Make sure you get the things that you want and then they will come to you.  You have to be confident in you and they will see that.
881154
There is really nothing wrong with you. Like you said, you are nice, smart and have a good sense of humor. Shyness is okay; guys do go for shy girls. Maybe you are just trying too hard. Take a break to rejuvenate your life. When people see the change in you, they will come to you like bees attracted to honey.
7565
dont nescisaraly think "oh, i need a boyfriend, im a loser w/o one." just have fun being yourself and i guarantee you that someone will end up likeing you for who you are. Also make sure that you dont let a guy walk all over you just because you are so thankfull for even a crappy guy (by crappy i mean bad/no personality, not nice/evil) that you would let him. one more hint. dont pine over the abercrombie asses and preppy-pin heads. look for someone like you, and always keep an open mind! <3-Olean
173958
You will have better luck finding a boyfriend when you stop looking for one.\nJust be happy and don't worry about someone finding you.\nIf you're happy he will find you.
853600
I do not think this will be to much of a problem it appears you are shy and may have a fear of rejection until you overcome those fears it may be you asking this question ten years from now.  Start talking you are the only one that can help yourself get out of this situation.  Heres a good tip go out with some guy friends \nif you see a girl you would like to meet and are scared see if one of your friends would break the ice for you like saying hi my friend would like to meet you it could be that easy.
965608
some guys may be naturally shy and are afraid of rejection. try talking to him...sometimes you just need to make the first move.
896107
Some times I think it is down to being shy, have you told this lucky guy that you like him, and would like to date him?\nIf not, make that first move and ask him! x\nHope you get the answer that you desire.\nLove n light xx x
124678
I used to be just like that. but you dont really get over being shy, you jsut get better at being outgoing. the first thing i did was join a club that takes you all over the U.S., it's called FFA. I got a job and it was a waitress at a bar. so there are many opportunities there. just go up and talk to the guy, any guy, it's how i did it and now im still shoy to an extent, but hey, im get out there and i have fun while chatting up some hottie. so jsut break away and strike up a conversation with some random guy, like a guy from school, in the grocery store...anywhere...even in the mall. it works.
344658
Dont try to look for a bf... just make sure you associate with guys...guys can be found anywhere... but clubs and youth groups are good places to associate with guys... so ther real question is HOW to get one... \nMake your self attractive,,, not nessary hot but attractive... like but a little makeup on,,, dress with style....\ndon’t worry about trying to MAKE guys like you. There is someone always there. The more you think about it the less likely something like that will happen. This is what happened to me until 2 weeks ago and finally got my first boyfriend. Be yourself and don’t look unless you want to ask. Guys can tell if a girl just wants a boyfriend or is sincerely looking for fun.. (guys don’t like to be used either). Make sure you do talk to guys though. Just don’t be desperate and take the first guy you see (unless you like them) ....to get a real relationship you will have to actually stand the guy!!! So overall BE YOURSELF, TALK TO GUYS and HAVE FUN... (don’t just try and land yourself a boyfriend)
411032
EXPAND your hunting grounds!  If u keep looking in the same places- then u r only going to find the same old guys!  Go to different places.  Go to the higher class bars- not the dives.  get a part time job in a lumber store or auto parts store.  Make yoursle apparoachable my smiling alot and having a great time in public.  When u see a guy who interests u take the chance and ask him out!  Thank god its 2006 and we can do that now!  Men like to have girls ask them out!  That way they dont have to worry about rejection!  Good luck to u!
227760
I used to be shy, so I know where you are coming from.  You have to take the lead on this one.  You have to ask him out and everything because he won't.  A shy boy will not know what to say to you because he can't think of anything.  Just make him comfortable with you.
111875
well it would help if you figured out why you are shy around him and than work on that. So if you are shy because for example you are scared what he might think of you than think well if he didnt want to be with you he wouldn't be so there isnt anything to worry. You are who you are and thats the way you find the one for you is by being true to yourself. Also let ssay you want to say something to him.. dont stay thinking about how you should say it or if you should as soon as it comes to mind say it so  you dont hae time to wonder if you should or should and your nerves would be there to torture you because you did it quick and got it out of the way.
272446
Just totally be yourself and let them come to you ;)\n\nDon't be someone else just to get the guy... And don't do anything stupid either... you WILL regret it\n\nJust remember... you want a healthy relationship
581138
hey.don't worry sweetheart.b u'r self n get confidence u r not goin 2 b alone always...n do u know something nobody can b u right.u r who u r..u r u'r self.noone knows u from inside n when one does he'll come 4 u.....n u'r also not bad..just b with a little patience.u must b happy 4 the way u r..cos if anybody try 2 b u they can't...sweety.u really don't have 2 worry at all.ok.u r a lovely girl.
494132
You have to behave yourself and try not to be desperate! The right guy will come your way! Good luck!
952261
hey there...he probably is nervous or unsure as to whether you like him or not...before you go leaping into asking him out or anything make sure that you can cope with someone who may be very shy...i know i couldn't it would drive me nuts,lol...but it might be just your cup of tea...think about it though because shyness in a guy can initially seem cute but can often blend into you having to do all the work and that can become tedious...just advice and it depends on you...it may well suit you down to the ground...good luck whatever you decide ;0)
569197
sometimes you have to wait for the guys to come to you. in the meantime, think of some things you really like in a guy. dont worry, you will get a boyfriend when the time is right. dont fret because all your friends have them, think of all the pro's and con's of having a boyfrind. patience is a virtue! :)