This is for wives.......?
539656
My Husband never cheated, but if a husband was going to cheat I'd rather know. If its over its over,he should be honest enough to tell you.Two things to be done after that , either forgive him and NEVER bring it up again. Anyone can make a mistake once, only a fool does it twice.And personally I would not stay married to a fool.
279374
Well ive never been threw it but ill be more then happy to give you my 2 cents with out calling you a slut, i think part of it is your husbands fault for not making sure you have what you need, now i know alot of people are going to scream for me saying that but its the truth, in a marriage part of our job is doing everything possible to make sure our partner is getting everything we need from them emotionally or sexually. Thats just the way it works for a healthy marriage, The only bit of advice i could give you not being actually in that situation is to eather pick on or the other, i can see you feeling even more torn when your feelings for this other guy are fostered even more and you cant act on it, not to mention the emotional and sexual frustrations that can easily bring. I can understand why you turned to this other man for support you wernt getting at home. But i can only see you hurting yourself in the long run if you dont cut ties with one of them. That is unless you totally dont love your husband anymore and your just in it for everything youve envested on a tangable level that you dont want to lose. But honestly do you think if you bumped this relationship up with this other guy you would be able to continue this double life, i hate to label it that way but thats the only thing i can think of to call it right off the top of my head, but i think you understand where im coming from. You need to set a game plan in your head on where you want to go in life if things with this other guy keep developing, what happens if this guy says ok ill chuck my marriage will you chuck yours? what if he talks about you guys meeting and making a full flaired affair? What if your husband finds out about whats going on how will you respond? How will your husband? Im not saying i know what you should do or what you need to do, but if i were you i would get a clear picture of what i wanted from your husband or from this other guy. Do you think there would be a possiblity you would be more happy in your marriage if your husband started to work with you on your problems with the marriage? Do you think there is any hope for you marriage now? Do you think your husband is doing the same thing you are on some sort of level? IF he was how do you feel about it? I think you need to ask yourself these kinds of questions and in deep deep detail figure out what you want to do, i dont think anyone in here can really answer those kinds of questions and give you any much more of a clear picture then you seriously thinking about this i wish you all of luck and i really hope you get something figured out on this *HUGS*
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Not at all.  It sounds like you're a level headed person, and that you really love your wife and want her to be happy.  You've done so much more than others in your position might do.  If I'd had a hat on, I'd tip it to you!  You're a class act!
105995
from a mans stand point! you know your wife more than anybody! sit back and think of some of the thing she has talked about. love is something money cannot buy. give of youself, do something for her. make her feel like she is the only woman there is.
582257
no. i like to do that with my husband. it's us against the rest of the world....you're not doing anything wrong. you're wife needs to boost her own self esteem so she won't be so paranoid.
429706
depend on your wife does she want to do it.
60993
Hmmm. I like to wear them for the same reason, but I'm a woman. I'm sure you're not the only guy though. It's nice your wife accepts that of you. You are lucky to have that understanding.
920252
Pray for a wife.............I applaud your loyalty an God does too. But according to the Bible porn is a sin. I would strongly recommend you start thinking about marriage and don't just rush into it. Good luck and God Bless.
537886
Now I've heard everything! Your wife should be ashamed of herself for behaving in this manner! This is NOT abuse.
361613
Yes it is wrong. Your wife will take it as a criticism to her own sense of style. As her husband it is your job to love her just the way she is and not to try to change her fashion style or anything about her. What are you doing checking out unknown women anyway? no wonder she's mad at you.
690959
Oh please....its not a guy thing....woman are just as careless and messy.....have you met my wife.\nI love her but being tidy and putting things away is not one of her best qualities...that's why she has me to clean up after her:)
277706
I like it, but my wife doesn't.  It is just one of those things that some people like and some don't.  The good news is that it isn't one of those things that you should make or break your relationship over.
189138
my wife  in my opinion
1141515
Yes I would, My private stuff is MY private stuff..  My husband wouldn`t even do that.. I`ve been married 36 years.. SLoooow down.. \n\nI mean how is she suppose to say oh, Buy you a gift if you are all in her business? Or maybe she keeps a journal of her deepest thoughts and emotions. You don`t get to pry into that.. \n\nWHAT WILL BE, WILL BE. You can`t make someone love you or be faithful, But you can be assured you will find out either way.. \n\nIF she is NOT happy with you, Believe me she WILL let you know.. \n\nShe is allowed to have friends. You don`t get to choose them. She had friends before you.. And she has a right to choose them or get rid of them. She is a free person with all the rights God has given her to live her life.. \n\n\nA relationship MUST be built on TRUST.. IF you can`t trust her you don`t have much of a relationship. You are insecure and it is  VERY common, But you and she need to work on the trust issue.. Good luck and God bless. {:-)\n\n<><
478164
Just because they do. A wife should be the main woman in any man's life.  If you are a mature adult male you should not need mommy to tie your shoes, do it your damn self!  A mother always wants to feel needed. I'll tell you what I am learning NOT to do with my boys' wives when they get married. Put your wife's concerns at the top of the list and you will keep yourself out of the DOG HOUSE guaranteed!!!
438826
I just recently got married myself, and I don't think it is anything you can plan out. Just remember to keep each other happy. There is a ggod book I just finished, its called Power of a Praying Wife, it has helped me out a lot.
1043033
Ew...I think he's just a big cheese. Who really says things like that without underlying meanings? He's probably just trying to get laid. And I agree with the lady who posted first, I am kind of offended that that is how he described the work we do. My marriage is more like a  partnership where we share all of the responsibilities whether it be child-rearing, house-cleaning, or working. I don't like being described as someone whp has the dinner on the table by five o'clock and has the kids bathed so my husband doesn't have to do a thing to help. That's just ridiculous.