How can I get over of my Ex ??
537919
You need to realize that what you loved, and what he really was, were two different things -- you are in love with a non-existant image.  That said, however, doesn't make that love any less real.  You appear to be what is called "a romantic" -- a person who wants it all to be right, and will do just about anything to be sure  everything is all right.  He, on the otherhand, is probably dealing with his macho image, and to be tender and loving to you is/was probably not part of his personality or upbringing -- in other words, he just wasn't a very warm guy.  It  IS over,--he could never be what you had hoped, or wished, since you two were never in "the same book, on the same page", so to speak.  Best thing?  Find another guy.  How? Go shopping, of course.   If you are older (not a teenager, or early 20's) check out the internet --Match.com, Yahoo personals, etc -- the singles group in your church, single men at your place of employment, and some of your friends.  You can't bring back a dead relationship, that is for sure.  You will always love him for what you thought he was.  Now find that guy who really IS that image. And he does exist, that is for sure.....And you are wrong -- another relationship with an appropriate match will indeed straighten our your head.  You will indeed wise up to the fact that what was there, and what you thought was there were two different things...\n\nGood luck
608931
U have got to give urself time to get over him....u will soon..time is a great healer.
744034
Make yourself hate him, or try to remember things that he had done to hurt you. This helped me a lot to forget my exbf. \n\nAnd it took me 6 mths to move on and many years to let go of him. But at least it helped tremendously.
881229
You need to get over your ex first hun. I have been down that road recently and thats what you gotta do first before you move to another person. If you dont you will just compare your next bf to your ex and end up ending things with them because you still have that hope of having your ex back. It's not easy letting go but in order to make yourself happy get over your ex before you start a new relationship
1168935
The best way to get over the break up is to get her out of your life.  The sooner you can do this then the sooner you can move on.  The last thing you want to be hearing about is her tales of 'making out' with other guys.  This just rubs salt in the wounds.  I'm not saying that she wasn't justified in doing this, because you both apparently agreed to do you own thing, but why she would want to tell you I don't know!  Anyway, until you get her completely out of your life then you will never get her out of your head.  So if it definitely looks like she is moving on then you should try to do the same, and as fast as possible.  Out of sight is out of mind as they say.  It will be difficult, but it will be the quickest way to you getting over her.  All the best...
467754
Whatever you do, don't jump in the sack with someone else to try to get over someone else, I've slept with another woman to forget someone that I had broken up with before and I can tell you, it doesn't work. You feel like dirt the next day and you'll find yourself eventually wanting to get rid of the new person your with because (s)he's is the one you hooked up with to forget the prior person you were with. Also, heavy drinking doesn't help either. Trust me.\n\nGive yourself a few weeks or months to figure out what you saw in him that attracted you to him and then figure out whether they were valid reasons to become romantically involved. Did he have a cute bod and a crappy personality? Always remember, looks fade but stupid is forever. Or as recall, John Lennon once said: there's no way you can hide when your cripple inside.
400257
get involved in things you love, hobbies, work.  realizing how much you love activities, and life.  try not to dwell and talk about it with friends.\nrealize the reasons behind the breakup and that "that is what was" then move on.
9543
Oh, Geez.  These people are crazy.  The only thing that will help you get over him is TIME.  If you think you were soulmates, you may never get over him, as a piece of your heart has been taken.  Time will still ease the pain, though.  Rumor has it that it takes half as long to get over someone as the time you dated them.  So.. if you dated for 2 years, it will take 1 year to get over him. If you were meant to be together... somehow, somwhere, you will hook up again, and you'll pick up right where you left off.   Chin up... things will be ok.  I promise.
479575
The best cure for that is time. If you want to speed things up try talking with her as little as possible. Also hang out with old friends that you have not seen for a while, friends you do not have in common with your ex and who are fun. They will make you remember how life used to be when she did not exist. It helps to start imagining day to day life without her.
1094794
I'm not sure how long ago the two of you broke up, or what caused it, but the main thing you need is time. Allow yourself time to get over the break up, to get your life back on track without him. You cant just shrug your shoulders and turn around and forget about him, he has been half your life for more then 3 years. So don't lock yourself up in the house surrounded with his pictures mourning, but don't loose yourself in going out and partying each night either. take it easy. See friends, do fun things,a nd take time to be alone and cry if you need to. You feel whats best for you at the moment. And you know what? One day you will wake up and feel that you are ready to move on. Good luck!
499054
The best way is to make your life into something special that you are proud of.  Nothing hurts an ex more than seeing that you were able to move on and make your life better without them in it.
284876
stay busy. pick up a hobby or renew an old one. go to the gym. spend time with family and friends. watch movies. read books. but do not keep thinking about him. the only true way to forget is to let time pass by. you can only let time pass by if you spend time doing something else. \n\nand last but not least, learn to accept your loss. talk with a good friend about it. dont be afraid to reach out to a friend to talk. and if you dont have one to go to, find a therapist to help you. you cannot forget an ex all on your own.\n\nafter a while you will slowly forget him. but it takes time. good luck.
364248
It's gonna be WAY too HARD!! i broke up with my boyfriend of 5 months and 15 days, and i still can't get over it! But i think you should try to take some time for yourself.. Try going to parties, hangouts, gatherings with more friends around or try to go to the gym.. What i'm trying to say is that you should keep busy! that's the only way that you might forget..\n\nGood Luck!!
416441
Alright, my best advise would be to find someone else.  Not necessarily a bf but a guy friend that you can relate with and would care about if something happens just to get your mind off your ex.  You need to get over it if he has a kid cause he will never come back as much as you would like and im sorry for that but you need to put your mind other places besides on him.
388288
Whatever the reason for your ex being your ex. Put yourself in their shoes and think about the situation and what you would do. Be true about the considerations...it only help u know wether it's worth trying to get back together.
851194
find another one. One better than your ex.
696751
find another guy! cut him off completely.. thats the best way to get over someone. and also finding other guys to keep your mind off him. but dont talk to him. or feelings will just come back. CUT HIM OFF!