Im attracted to a lesbian who is younger by 10 years.I've never had sex with a girl.Should I pursue ?
535599
Why not?!  Age shouldn't have anything to do with it, unless she's a minor.  Try it out, you might end up liking it, your already attracted to her so the chemistry is there, and you could end up with something great!
219820
Well, you're right- you shouldn't be worrying about it. You like who you like, you're attracted to whomever you are attracted to. It's confusing to be a teenager- hormones are a crazy thing. \nI think if you are a lesbian, you probably already know the answer to your own question, honey. On the other hand, if you've always found yourself attracted to boys and you've suddenly been exposed to something NEW (porn, I would assume), that doesn't necessarily mean you are a lesbian and I would caution you NOT to drive yourself insane trying to figure it out. You would certainly NOT be the 1st straight female to be "excited" by those types of images- as there are PLENTY of women who do, who also consider themselves straight.\nIf you have ALWAYS been attracted to other females, perhaps you do have some not-so-straight tendancies. But I wouldn't worry about that TOO much- it's not the end of the world, but it will take some time to get used to it and whether or not you are comfortable enough with it to talk about it to others. \nThe bottom line is to not make too big a deal of it. If you are anxious or nervous about how you feel, my advice would be to stay away from it until you know yourself a little better. Don't add more confusion where it just isn't necessary. Just relax and enjoy being YOURSELF- and finding out who you really are. Your sexual orientation is what it is and you WILL figure it out, probably sooner than you think.  \nIf you think there's anything else I can help you out with, feel free to contact me by clicking on my profile- there's a link you can use to contact any one of us here. Some "answerers" don't have themselves signed up to receive email from others, but mine is set up that way. Best of luck to you!
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Ofcourse!!!!  There is nothing wrong with that!  I'm 24 & I'm attracted to a woman who is almost 30...   we have been dating for the past two months & things seem to be working out!!!  I have a much more interesting time with her than I do with a girl of my age... some of them seem to be a little imature!\n\nGood Luck with your situation!!!
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You are not even half way through your journey here. You still have the peak of your sexuality to come within the next 10 years or so.  You've still to experience the freedon that comes with life's experiences and and wisdom.\n\nYou have the best parts of your life still to come. Be prepared to relish them.
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neither. clearly you don't have Strong enough feelings for either girl, so move on to another girl who has everything you want, don't settle for mediocrity, even at you age. if you develop good habits like this now you will save yourself a world of trouble when you get older when it really counts.
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bless. why dont you become lesbian and see for yourself?..ha
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How long have you been lesbian?\nAre you a virgin and you've never had sex w/ a women?\nMaybe you should watch some porn, those girls know how to get down, that should teach you a few things.They're pros to, even better.
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I am not as aroused by lesbian sex as by straight sex.  I dont know why.  I never fantasize about two girls together.  In fact, I think it is kind of weird to see two girls making out...\n\nmorganch@yahoo.com
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OK it is NOT NORMAL for a old guy that age to feel attracted to a girl 14 or even 18.  This is a serious issue. A girl who is 14 can not understand this...trust me i was 14 too. I dated a guy who was 20 when I was 14. I thought I "loved him" Now that i am older (25) I realize how sick htis is and how he had issues. Guys who like girls your age are guys that like to manipulate and try to confuse and control them. For her to be in a room with him alone is so messed up . She needs to stop talking to him cuz this will lead to more dangerous issues. She may look 27 or whatever but she is not and that is no reason for a guy that age to " want" her. You NEED to tell your friends mom right a way if oyu love her cuz if something would EVER happen to her then it owuld be on your hands. I know she might be mad at oyu for a little but trust me she will thank you later...plus it also will interefere with her future relationships. if you love your firedn help her NOw before she might be on America's most missing...
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In a platonic situation, it would make no difference to me.\nIn a romantic relationship, I wouldn't really have a choice since a lesbian would not be interested in me, so in that case I would "prefer" straignt (or bisexual).
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I totally agree... \n\nWith that in mind, if she is a DOG there is NO WAY that i'm going THERE.. so i have 2 be attracted 2 her in the first instance otherwise i'd NEVER find out that she is "down-2-earth".\n\nhowever, i would prefer to have both...\na smart fun down-2-earth BABE who is a slut in the bedroom...oooh yeah!!\n\nMajor signs...\nPay attention, its not that hard...\nWhen we say 2 u that we want 2 c u again,\n we truly do want 2 c u... preferably between the sheets...\nnah, just half joking.\nWe want 2 be with u & hang out...\nwe will LISTEN 2 u \nwe'll sms or call u and \nwe will WAIT, if we think u r worth it .\n\nAlot depends on age & maturity...\nbelieve it or not, NOT all of us guys think the same.\n\ni hope this helps...\nlisten 2 ur heart u'll know if he is true 2 u
612232
well u are probably @ d age n need someone so go n find or seek a lover she is waitin 4 u
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sure u can find a woman attractive, but no sexually driven to her, there's a difference.\ni dont i became gay,cuz i have never been str8, ever since i started to have curiosity in sex and stuff i have always been drawn to guys\nboth emotionally & physically
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If your not attracted to either sex, don't worry about it.  I didn't even start dating until I was 30.  I wasn't gay, I just wasn't interested in hooking up with anyone.  One day I met the perfect woman for me.  You don't have to seek out your ideal mate.  Perhaps for you your ideal mate will be a guy, or a girl.  They will fall into your lap when you least expect it.  Perhaps you are just more suited to a solitary life.  Nothing wrong with that either.  You will figure things out.
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If you're 30 and she is 10, stay away from her.  However, if you are 70 and she is 50 - go for it, if the feeling is mutual.\n\nIt IS wrong if she is a minor or of immature character.  It is NOT wrong if you are both legal, competent adults in love.   If this is the case, and you love her - I hope she loves you too.\n\nLoves involves a shared life, shared values, mutual respect, and regular communication.
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A study done about two years ago determined that yes, straight and bisexual women can be aroused by lesbian-oriented visual stimulation (don't have the link to the study, sorry). \n\nHowever, at the age of 15 your hormones are still settling down in a very major way, so I'd recommend laying off the pornography. You could be desensitizing yourself to sexual situations, which will actually make sexual activity and stimulation more difficult and less enjoyable for you later. (I'm not making that up, either - it's got something to do with the amount of chemicals released by your brain when it's sexually stimulated, and the fact that it's possible to build a resistance to those chemicals.)
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ur mum maybe already knows that u r a lesbian but maybe she just wants u to admit it to her.... u should sit down calmly n talk to her tel her exactly how u feel.... if age doesn't matter to the both of then its done already.... a relationship only happens betweem two person other people's opinion doesn't matter.... like me i m a butch but i dun care... no matter how people look at u it doesn't matter.... wat matters most is how u look at urself n wat ur gf thinks... bout the distance u should organize who should take turns in visiting each other maybe once a month... my gf n me live in two different countries but we can still stay loving.... try to talk on the phone more often or even going on9, exchanging pics... it'll be even better if u have a webcam... trust me n believe in urself n ur gf... it'll workout....