Ladies, DO you still think that.."The way to a man's heart is thru' his stomach"?
544822
I definitely think that a man appreciates good cooking, but I like to think that the modern man is also looking for an intelligent, kind and attractive woman.  \n\nI'm a great cook, but I only cook vegetarian dishes, so any man who wants to be with me has to be prepared to either grill his own steak or eat tofu with me!
583054
go with the heart...not the looks
127925
Yes, I have been in love.  What I did to tell him was to sew shirts for him, play chef's assistant when he wanted to cook, and cook when he did not want to, wash his clothes . . . but you get the idea.  When you love someone, actions speak way louder than words.  Anyone can say "I love you" and not mean it, maybe not even know what love is.  But doing nice things for him, things HE considers nice, will show him.  I used to read to Steve, books he had chosen for me to read, one chapter at a time.  Certainly he could read for himself, but he liked this little "ritual" of togetherness.  The important thing is to do what he wants you to do, not those things you want to do which force your tastes on him or try to change him.  If he wants you to do something you find immoral or distasteful, you can tell him that.  But if you can do it, and you know how to do it, love means you will want to do it.  And no, I'm not particularly talking about sex, although that is undoubtedly included in what he wants you to do!
891104
It feels pretty...AWESOME! I mean for example: if a guy cheats on you or something, you have every reason to go up to him, smile sweet like so his gaurd's down and give it to him like it's a soccer ball. I mean, I wouldn't go up to just any guy and do that. Their "package" is just a bunch of nerves, but I would only do it to someone who deserves it...
625898
Vicious idea. A look of admiration from a man you like is a precious once in a life time moment. I would prefer we had all the quarrels about hunting, football, overweight and stealing glances at other women rather than have their eyes plucked out. No no no. Why lay waste all these beautiful glimmering eyes? Why don't we chop off the extra kilos using a butcher's knife?
644082
Depends on the "GUT feeling" situation. Most of the time it might not be a good idea for you to leave the house with a GUT feeling. Other times if it's with a girl or something in that category, you should NOT go with your GUT, but go with your heart. It should be what is your heart feeling not a GUT feeling.
205836
Absolutely not. I have had that opportunity before and I passed. I honestly see what's inside of a man's heart...and it's easy to see what's there in their responses, words, eyes, and lifestyle.
990784
No comment! \nWell, OK, your legs talked me into it! \nI just like a person for who they are in their heart. Women not need to do anything un-natural to their bodies to gain my interest. I just want a person who is real and not lie to me. BUT, I also respect what a person wants for themselves, so, if it what a woman want to do who am I to put her down. I will encourage her and be there as a friend/whatever.\nDavid makes a good point. From his perspective it is a gift from God for those who need it!
1085217
it depends on how long and what they have been through; some men find that when a woman sticks around through thick and thin they have someone they can really lean on (a down a** chick), and then there are those men who abuse the love and strength of a woman. But to truly know when yo man says your the only one he loves look into his heart, his eyes and they way he say it, if he can use the bathroom while your in the tube (love), if he can get teary eyed in front of you (love), if he can cuddle with you without pushing you away after ten minutes then damn it that;s (LOVE).
1157794
*Do guys really get attached in a simple and non outspoken girl?\n\nHmm, I'd have to say I would. But... I can't speak for all men. It's a matter of an individuals opinion.
792931
i've recently asked myself the same question...i honestly think that men are incapable of looking the heart of a woman...so..the truth is..men could care less about women with curves...its all about the eye candy...sad but true
1074691
I deeply reason with you girl but I strongly believe that you have not yet stumbled on the man for you. I think you should still open up your heart and be ready to love again, but this time do more of the study at the initial stage and promise you will find a man who will respect your principles as well as love you. Just open up your heart and real love will come your way.
477532
If you truly love her and are connected - then you wouldn't have to ask the question.  Your asking of the question leads me to believe that your intuition says that she doesn't.  But let that not be your only gague.  What type of body language is going on between you two?  Has the subtle touching disappeared?  And please focus inward - do you still use the romance that got her heart, to keep her heart?
645071
I think anything emotional has a physical effect on our bodies...just think of the chemical changes needed to change emotions...\n\nI really do "feel it in my gut" sometimes when something gets me riled up.\n\nThinking about past heart-breaks does make my chest hurt.\n\nHow 'bout U?
600780
He no wrong.  Is natural for man.  He love you still.  No problemo.
712918
u know what, take him out for a dinner. nice romantic restaurant. c if u can find any on the water or under the sky. u know what they say, "the way to a mans heart is through his stomach"
570470
Did you know all this before getting involved with that person? If so I can image he does feel that way. If not than maybe the love wasn't as strong as you thought. You can only do what you feel you can................