Who should approach who?
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The natural way of nature is for the the male to court the female.  He has to impress her in order for her to choose him.  If a woman asks a man out it is turning it the other way around and this can confuse a mans instincts.  A man seeks a female that is hard to acquire (or that he thinks is hard to acquire) so it is much more natural for him to do the asking and the woman to play hard to get.  Playing hard to get is what makes a man think you are a greater prize and all men want the best prize.x
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Ask around..people you trust.
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how are you trying to "reach" them?\n\nwhat happens when you try?
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Anyone who is willing to offer good advice.
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It depends on your approach
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Enquiring minds want to know.
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You may want to choose better acquaintances.
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talk to someone you trust.
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If you can identify WHAT ARE THEY, AND HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN TO USE WHICH?\nthen you can answer your question yourself.
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Honestly, I'd look at them both and the one who keeps up the eye contact is the one I would ask for help. I've noticed that in public if a person doesn't want to help you they will quickly divert their eyes from you.\n\nIf they both divert their eyes from me, I then would start with the one closest to me (in hearing distance). Otherwise I'd just ask: Which one of you kind gentlemen could help me out?\n\nBy the way, I don't feel prejudices are so bad. I despise racism, however, on the grounds that racism to me is when a person is trying to dehumanize me because I look different from them.
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be more specific about the person in question.
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who should I discuss it with?
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Eye contact is important, Just ask! If they say no don't feel bad about it ask someone else.
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i'd love to help but don't know who you are speaking of.perhaps a little more background would help.
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"To Whom It May Concern" is your best bet.
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Look for someone else who would be there.
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Call it and see who answers.