Is it bad if i turned down sex?
542536
Depends to who!  If it is your spouse and you always turn them down then Yes that is bad
649114
sex is not everything that is true but having no sex even after marriage is something unnatural if that persistsmay lead to unwanted situaton if your partner feels the same only than it's ok
116276
Yes, you have some pain; it's just like trying to break into something that has been closed, and yes it is pleasureable, but if you are not married, please wait.  You will be very grateful.  It will only be disappointing when you began to have sex, and it's not with your husband.  You will start having sex with any tom, charly, and harry that comes along.  If possible, stay a virgin until marriage.  It is only diseases and death when you take a chance.  You never know where someone's mouth has been.  Try to meet someone that has the same mind-set as you do.  Be ye equally yoked.  You will not regret it.  Your body is precious, don't let others abuse it.  It may be the popular thing to do, but it's not the safes thing to do.  Do not let your peers pressure you, and if the do, cut them aloose because they are not your friend!  Save your body for that special someone.
1166611
Check with your physician.  I have heard it said that if you can tolerate walking up a flight of stairs without getting short of breath or excessively fatigued, it may be OK to start having sex.
461533
NO. not at all. First of all, I would like to congratulate you two. You're a match made in heaven. Basically, the bible states that sex is a blessing given to married couples. If you're just living together and not having sex, that's absolutely perfect. It's the most exciting thing you can have once you get married. But if you guys are married but not having sex... then there really is a problem behind that. Try talking to your partner about that.
1182261
No!  Sex is a natural and beautiful thing.  You should share it with natural and beautiful people.  People are very very rarely different in the present than in their past,  And most people contract STDs because of a lack of respect for themselves or others OR both. So unless you are perverse or desperate. it is much better to be patient and look for a better partner.\nIt is better to practice unprotected sex with good people, than the safest "safe-sex" with grovelling animals.
169368
IT IS NOT HEALTHY AT ALL TO ABSTAIN FROM SEX AT ALL TIMES.\nIF U WANT U CAN ABSTAIN ALL U LIKE AND MISSING SOME OF THE BENEFITS THAT SEX HAS ON UR BODY. IT KEEPS UR BLOOD PRESSURE IN CONTROL,LOWERS THE RISK OF PROSTATE CANCER,\nPREVENTS THE RISK OF HEART ATTACKS. AND MANY MORE.\nIT IS NOT A SIN.\nMOREOVER IF U DONT USE UR GENITALS FOR A LONG TIME CHANCES\nARE THAT U WILL LOSE UR POTENCY AND SEXUAL FLOW IN UR GENITALS AT ALL.\nSO U BETTER "USE IT OR LOSE IT"\nTRY MASTURBATING,IT IS A WONDERFUL THING IF U WANNA BE FREE FROM SEX DISEASES. AND YES MILLIONS OF PEOPLE DO THIS TOO\nEVEN WOMEN SO DONT FEEL SHY AND GO PLAY WITH URSELF.
65324
if you stick with one partner, and use protection, then it's not bad, it's good. But if you do a whole bunch of one night stands in a row, then it'll be bad, morally, and bad things will happen, unwanted pregnancy, STD, etc.
33876
not at all. sex is so taboo for some reason in the US, but it is such a natural thing. as long as you are protecting yourself, you should have as much sex while you can. sex is awesome!
928615
i've had sex before and yes it does feel good but i warn you, wait! it's not a good idea right now while you're not married, you'll be giving yourself away to someone you don't know is your going to be husband. I'm not very proud of what i do but sometimes you get stuck in a rut that you can't get out of. if you like it too much you'll get stuck and then you'll have a greater chance of getting STD's. Even though i don't know you i beg of you as a friend, don't do it yet! you will regret it so much after you do. You will be sore, and yes you will bleed because you're a virign and you're not used to having something up your vagina. Let me ask a question.. are you ready to be a parent? think on that. but wait! don't do it!
622221
Depends on how you look at it. If you consider only intercourse is cheating, then obviously NO. However, if you think that intimacy of any kind is cheating, then YES. If you feel bad about it you should probably not do it!
1032800
I would not rush into anything that you are not comfortable with. If it doesn't feel right don't do it. Later you might change you mind. I wish you the best. Slow it down and think about it.
812951
You're smart to question whether it's good for you or not.  It is your decision and you should be certain that you want to before you do. And, IF you do, please please please use protection.  The consequences of unprotected sex are life altering.
913844
You're not ready for sex. Nothing wrong with it, in your own time and space you will be. I think you feel fear because you're rushing into this cos your friends have done it and you don't want to seem left behind. Forget about everyone's need for a change and start focusing on your own. Say no and if they cannot accept it, they are not worth your energy.
203907
cancel cancel cancel! There is a reason you didn't want to date him in the first place! I once dated a guy, because I  didn't know how to say no, before the second date I had a bad feeling and really didn't want to go out with him anymore, well towards the end of that second date, he was really forceful, wanting me to have sex with him, luckily some people came upon us, but listen to your gut instinct. Nature provided that for us to HELP US!
1026218
Iits absolutely fine to like sex, but the main thing is to have correct priority's. Know that there are other more important things you could do with your time.
131866
I perfectly understand, and it is not a matter of the year we live on. I know for experience that this can be really hard to manage but you have to realize that the reason why you are not going to have sex is by choice, not prohibition, if you think you are missing something or have such a hurry but dont want to get "punished" or loose privelegies, you have to sit and make a self exam where you can settle the reason. M********* i dont recommend, you'll feel guilty, do some work, exercise, read, get out of bed when you feel like doing it, find out the facts that make you urge... hope this helps