what if u like 2 guys and they are both ur friend and one is in the same grade as u and the other one is not?
535405
I say don't date the one in your grade, simply because if you breakup, then you are forced to see each other all the time, and that will disrupt your life.  But, if you are just asking about being friends then, why can't you be friends with both.  What's the problem, they don't like each other?  If that's so, then don't invite one guy to hang out while you are hanging out with the other guy.
121632
just tell him that she already likes you and reccommend another girl who he might be good with possibly someone who already likes him
553672
well, how close are you and your friend? if that was me in this situation, i would talk to your friend first. you wouldnt want weird feelings between you and her! make sure she is ok with you two dating eventhough she likes him too! if she isnt ok with it, wait it out until she is ok with the fact that you like him and want to date him! well another question is, do you like him? if you do talk to her..it will help!
970400
its not worth to lose the friendship for the guy..BUT you both need to be honest with each other..and face the facts, does he like YOU or does he like HER? be realistic. one friend is just going to have to sit back and watch this guy and them flirt and maybe be a couple and suck it up just to know her friend is happy. but seriously, be open with your friend and you and her need to be real and look at the situation.
634576
if you want to find out wether hes staring at you or your friend, sit in a different seat in class. if he stares at you, then he probably likes you, if not the he likes your friend. trust me on this one, its a guy thing.....
861519
Hey, but i do think that the guy you are gonna like next year is so much cuter and he's in the same class and he likes you.\n\nLife is about making choices. Don't make any you'll lose everything. Make a wrong choice, take it as a lesson. But if you make the right choice, you'll be happy forever and ever.
660542
First off, it makes more sense to like someone who likes you because liking someone who's never going to like you is not ever going to get you anywhere. If one of them likes you and the other one doesn't; just go ahead and like the one that likes you and forget the other one. If neither likes you, then, you shouldn't even think of either. If both of them like you, that's when you have a dilemma.\n\nSecondly, if they both like you, you should get to know them both as friends (if you're not the sort to date two guys at once). As long as you don't sleep with both, it's not at all cheating. Just getting to know them would be enough to decide which one you want if you want to make up your mind to have only one of them.\n\nThe sure way of finding out if someone likes you is to ask him bluntly. Or you can ask hypothetical questions. Either way, you've got to openly talk to that person. You also need to spend some time with him to pick up substantial evidence of whether he likes you.
637409
well thats a tough one but i think u should talk to your friend and tell her that u and this guy like each other and she's kind of stepping in. also ask the guy whats up with him. does he like u or your friend. hope it works out for ya
139418
Just tell him u like him and see wht he thinks because he might be thinking the same thing as you and just dont wnat make things feel uncomforable between to 2 of u.
757546
first of all figure out if he is even worth your time and energy,, make sure you really like him... also you haven't even started off right... you lost a friend for this guy and you don't even know if he likes you... what would be the right thing to do is apologize with your friend and try to get back together and even if your friend says anything about yeah u better cause its all your fault or he's mine deal.. shruggle it off because its not worth another fight... also if your friend stopped being your friend because you guys like the same guy then maybe you should think about if your friend was really ever your friend... but if you really like this guy then i say go for it... but dont do anything you will regret
830627
how the hell would we know. we dont know what either of u look like, but i can tell u this, neither of u should go out with him, bc its not right for him to do that to either of u, ur friends. and no boi is worth loosen ur friend over. i just see this guy as being a problem for both of u.  bc if u or ur friend date him, one of u will get ur feelings hurt, or try to take him away from the other, and oh boy just a big mess.
643945
ask them if they like you or not ask them if they believe you are not ask them if they want u to be happy or not\nif their answers to the three are yes then tell them that both of them are equally important to u and ask them to be friends atleast around you and u avoid meeting them seperately if they agree to this and always remember that u are a goo friend but your patience also has limits
642007
she may not like ur friend. Dont blame the girls.She may love that guy.
340788
Begin to talk to him.  Hang out with him and if he likes you, he'll ask you out.  If he doesn't and asks the other girl out, you aren't meant to be and that's really SAD but it's the part of life.  You'll move on and you'll find another guy your boy crazy.  It took me a couple of months for my self not liking a guy...js
250713
You really are in a dilemma. If you feel your friend is more important, just tell the guy to go to hell, and stop bothering you. By the way, does the guy know your friend likes him? If he doesn't, your friend is the one who has to take the next step, without your help. best of luck.
160383
Are you trying to decide between two guys or is it just one?  If it's a choice then go for the one that you like.  Most of all don't worry too much about it and don't be too serious you are young and have an entire lifetime of boys liking you. : )
28888
you shud tell your friend the thet guy ask u out and tell her the u like him and u dont wan a guy to come batwen you 2