im 36 and cant help going to the pros!  whats my problem?
552519
Well don't get a disease, if  you are married, I think you are in more trouble than ever, get help
68680
It may be something you are going through in your life right now.  Job, relationship, life crisis....  If you try different things suggested here and on your own and it continues I would seek professional help.  Maybe you just need to relax and go with the flow.
816491
I pray to resolve my problems and it does work. I have reached 65 and able look back on my life and the decisions I made both personally and business wise.You are not given a crystal ball to see pitfalls and dangers although some are common sense.I have never charged anyone for my advice or preached to anyone,but I do understand people whom pay for professional advice.Best wishes \nand I`ve reported that first reply.
992950
Because most of the things you used to do when you were younger to find people seem a little stupid or desperate now.  I'm 31 and I'll be damn if I'm going to be "That old guy" at the club.  You just have to learn to be more creative, try meeting people when you're out grocery shopping...  I know it sounds stupid, but really, why not...  Check for a ring on the finger, and a quick check in the cart for what they're eating and you already have a clue about what kind of person they may be.
712493
Me too. I'm 51, but grew up a tomboy & would still rather watch football than go to the mall. I've had 2 failed marriages, not that my lack of feminity was the main cause, but it probably contributed to it. I also competed with men (sucessfully) in almost everything I did. Some men find this emasculating. I've been living with a man now for 3 years who accepts me as I am. They are few & far between. He's a very tall construction worker. Good luck!- don't pretend to be someone you're not.
518672
It's a personal journey , everyone is different.  My best advice would be to NOT be afraid of what people think of you.  Remember always your life has to be for you, not anyone else.  Nobody can tell you how to "find" yourself, figuring that out is part of the whole process!  Look, hon, I'm 30, and I still haven't figured out who I am....  Good Luck!!
152833
Practise. Depends how old are you?
1118084
I think much after 45 is waiting too long. But it depends on your training before hand. If you don't have any training at all, and are out of shape, the age is obviously going to be lower, but if you are well trained, then you could try to be professional later on.
1014791
There's NOTHING wrong with you!!\n\nGive yourself time  - as you get older, things will change.
622770
Try playing in like schools/clubs etc.\nIt always helps.\nSlowly by slowly you'll get there.\nGoodluck!
525855
erm you could try the chools it depend what age you are and how old the paers are it depends really not sure....hope it helpsx
411858
You are controlling your life.  Deciding to go with the flow is your own decision. Even doing nothing about a situation is making a decision (to do nothing).  Don't be so hard with yourself.  I was well over 30 before I decided what I wanted to do.  Stick it out if you can.  At least with that subject you will learn alot about yourself (and therefore others).  If you can't stick it out then leave, and when you do learn what it is that makes your heart sing - go for it, get the qualification then - like I did.\nGood luck
994497
I'm afraid I'll be no help, I'm 33 but in my head I'm still 20!\n\nCoping with life and the situations we find ourselves in will never suddenly 'Happen' We are all a product of our upbringing and experiences. As you go through life you will have many different experiences, some good, some bad. From each one you will learn a little, grow a little and be that much more stronger and able to cope with the big wide world. It's a gradual process which never ends, that's the beauty of the world - there will always be something new to do, always someone new to meet and always something to surprise you. Independance is just another word for confidence. This will build as you experience new things and achieve new things.\n\nThe good will balance out the bad - if you let it! Never dwell on negative things or they will be all you can think of. Keep your mind and heart open while keeping your feet firmly on the ground and you can't go wrong.\n\nLife is like any other good journey - It's the ride, not the destination, that holds the magic.
604180
You forgot to mention your age. But if you are doing it from long time then your body will get used to it. The best thing is to just ask yourself if is that "too much" for you.
1134412
32 and still looking!
240165
accept it, when you do that, things will be easy for you. think about how many people who lie about thier age and get away with it. if you ever got away with it ovbiously you dont look your age!!! but just accept it and be proud of your age and what you have done in that time thats what makes youbetter than 40.
550407
If you aren’t happy with what you are doing, change because eventually you will become bitter with thoughts of lost opportunity.  Let your interests be your guide.  Don’t let the “can’t do” get in the way.  Think about why you like your interests and what about them would make others pay money for some element of them.  Then how could you supply such to them.\n\nBy the way, forget about age, 35 is so young.  I’m 65 and working on four different ideas for what will be my third business.  Remember, the worse that can happen is that you fail.  If so, just take a night off, celebrate, and the next morning begin a new idea.