me in my Girlfriend have a sexual relationship and its the first time us having sex(virgins).?
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You know if it was the first time i'd suspect that she would be sore, but on the other hand just maybe you are not using enough foreplay. After all girls don't usually get ready for sex as fast as boys.There's also a possibility that you are bigger than average size which might hurt her. Have a talk with her ask what hurts her. If you don't how will you know how not to.IF YOU LOVE HER
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why are you so worried about that ? do you love her ?\ndo you feel that this is getting to you to much ?\njust trust her man she is a woman and she chose you to be with ! don't beet yourself up about this ! She loves you and wants you that's all that matters ! are you a virgin !\npast is history does it matter what she is ?\n:) always smiling !
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If it is the first time for both of you to have sex, may I suggest taking things slow.  Especially if it is her first.  Alot of my friends didn't care much for sex at first because their first partner's were too rough and not the most considerate.   And I think any lady out there would also suggest taking things slow.  It's not a race.  Enjoy yourself and for god's sake use a condom.  Communication is good too, make sure you are both cool with whats going on.  \n\nMy first time I remember it feeling like my head was a blur and I was a bit dizzy, but It was a good feeling.
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You know what you should do before your first time?  Fall in love.  You don't need to worry about anything else but that the person you are giving your virginity to is the right person.  Everything else will fall into place with that.
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I was 19.  She was 17.  Yeah, I realized the age at the time.  We were friends before.  I won’t get into that here.  We got together.  We messed around a lot - mostly making out, petting and a lot of oral.  She kept expressing how much she wanted to do it.  I just didn’t know if it was the right time.  Primarily it was because we never had any contraception around. Don’t get me wrong, I wanted it badly.  I didn’t even care if it was going to be my first time.  I wasn’t nervous.  I just wanted to be safe for both of us.  She had only one other partner, a long-term boyfriend that she broke it off with.  She kept asking me to “go for it” in all our other encounters.  This time, in the heat of it, when she asked me to make love to her, I whispered, “Go for it.”  Then she stripped herself then me.  We still didn’t have ANY form of contraception.  But the time was right.  Go figure. After we both climaxed, she was so satisfied but puzzled.  We went for a while.  She kept asking me … and this was a question that she kept asking me during our entire relationship … was I really a virgin.  I said yes.  That was the truth.  She said she’s had a virgin.  Her friends have had virgins.  And none worked it like I did.  I told her I wouldn’t know. I just went with what I felt and what felt good for the both of us.  I don’t know what the big deal was but shortly thereafter; she harbored this idea that I had a mistress on the side that I “practiced” with. (Her long-term boyfriend did.) Needless to say we went several rounds that day … and night … and following morning.  But, alas, the whole relationship was just that – based on sex.  No emotional connection at all.  It ended.\n\nSo I guess my point is that your first time is a big deal, but the euphoria and importance of it will fade and just become a memory.  Don’t make it more than it is, just a right of passage for any human being, the emotional creatures we are.\n\nGood luck
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mine first time sex in life is 19th October 2005
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No. I'm not a virgin. I lost my virginity at 15. It was not a good experience. I was with someone I loved, someone I'm still with to this day (over a year later). But I wasn't ready. In truth, I didn't really know what was happening until it was too late. Don't get me wrong, I knew what sex was. I just didn't know we were going to have it. Lol. I felt pressured. He was 18 and extremely experienced. And when I say extremely, I mean he'd been with 33 girls before me. I also didn't like the WAY it happened. There were no candles, no soft music. Just a movie playing. And it was rushed and tense because my grandparents were in the other room. So if you're thinking about having sex for the first time, loving the person's not the only thing you have to worry about. Make sure you're completely comfortable with the idea. Make sure you're alone and you use protection. (Which I didn't.) Plan ahead of time. And make it special. Remember, you only get one first time.
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Don't stress it. Everyone has sex eventually. For the most part the first time sucks!\n\nWhat you want to do is find someone you trust and care about, develop a meaningful relationship with them. Talk openly about what it's going to be like and what to expect and whether the both of you are ready, BUY PROTECTION AND KNOW HOW TO USE IT, then when the time is right do it.\n\nThen keep doing it, alot. Do it anyway that you can work it and you feel safe. It's not a performance, it's a very serious joining of two people. It easier the more you do it. And you will get better and better. But ALWAYS BE SAFE! Always.
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Trust & Patience, dear boy, trust & patience. She'll need to be very aroused & lubricated. No matter what, there's going to be some discomfort that first time, but as long as you're both relaxed & groovin' it all, she should be fine. You'll need time to do this right, so don't let this be a back seat sort of thing!
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your still a virgin all u did is stik ya finga up ya vagina u aint had the full experience yet
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Some people consider you to not be a virgin if you've had oral sex, or been fingered by somebody. But, as long as her vagina has not been penetrated by a penis, then she is still technically a virgin.
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For me its a turn on beacause she will experience the special moment with me.  You know,  it is special.   Sex will probably be the same, but feeling wise it will be different.  Word of advise, if youre a virgin, wait until you really find someone worth it, cause it might hurt u otherwise if its not special.
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never do until you really ready .... virginity is a big value in your live ... look to your future first ...there is few people out there i consider them winners . be one until you have the  one that care about you than care for sex first . god bless you .
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U can keep on kissing tenderly in a candle light for some time. U can kiss her neck, her legs, her toes, her stomach all that in a tender way, kiss her hair her hands, If u want to go 4 more hug wn u r both naked, his her boobs. but plz all that in a tender way.GOOD LUCK & leave her a virgin, & by the way u 'll love that tender way more if u really like her
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well, just learn from her..if she knows you are a virgin, she will handle u very well.  BE very attentive and just dance with the music! Experience women sometimes are challenge with virgin men....
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Depends on how long we've been together. But personally, I won't be in a relationship where we are not intimate. I'm not saying that she has to sleep with me right away, but if we do get into a relationship and consider ourselves monogamous and are boyfriend/girlfriend I want to be intimate with the one I'm with. But the difference here is that I am old enough to be in that kind of relationship. I don't know how old you are, but based on most of the posts here, the majority of people are under aged and should not be worrying about having sex with their partner. Wait til you are old enough to make wiser decisions before involving yourself in a intimate relationships.
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my question is her virginity a trophy or something you admire and respect? That question should give you the answer and also remember that sex is driven by your desired is selfish, but with love (respect, responsibility, honesty and integrity) from both parties with true commitment is unselfish and a bond that will strengthen your relationship to each other. All I can say is don't use her for your gain, ok!