When you apply for a waitress position, do you think most employers hire women who are sexy rather than fat?
543123
is this a restaurant or a hooters? I don't really think it matters as long as they are good at their job.
446579
i'm thin, and my bf tells me and other people that i'm the best he's ever had.  I'll do just about anything, i dont see why being skinny or thick has to d with sexual preference, but. . whatever . . . maybe it was just the personality of the girls you were with, lots of crazy sexual skinny chicks, trust me
292233
Good call, but they might start taking it seroius and you'd get either fat heffers in there or chicks that look more man than girl. Maybe best to keep it for viewing pleasure
924694
I would say as long as you have the brains to do the job correctly  unless your a front desk type person looks really shouldn't be an issue.  I know I did temp work at afew companies and they only let rather attractive women work at the front desk position and they stuck myself and other larger less sexy people in the cubes but we did our work so nobody complained about us although the front desk position was filled every few weeks by a different person.  \n\nAlso in my opinion to find work these days  it doesn't matter what you know but WHO you know   is a bigger factor
656376
No.  Not fat, but certainly not skinny either.  More about having nice looking curves.
273747
well i know for a fact that fat women are not gay. those are the ones who know how to really suck you off. like meat on a pork chop popsicle. lol.
456903
I think it all depends on the guy, when I was heavy I did notice that my choice in girlfriends were based on character. But once I dropped a ton of weight and actually developed a good body my choices lately haven't been based on character but rather on looks and well lets just say the last few experiences haven't been all that great.
718484
I prefer women that have little fat, and are not lacking in feminine curves. That is in part the result of my ideology, as I favor beauty over vulgarity. People (males and females alike) with little fat can have complex beautiful forms in their bodies, like architecture, whereas a big vulgar blob of fat can possess no such forms.
441937
women with self confidence...i don't want to hear, oh my god im fat and ugly... she has to act like she's hot, but be kind and caring.  don't dress slutty, but don't dress like a nun...wear something slightly revealing but leaves something to the imagination...also she needs to know what she wants, not just bouncing from one guy to another
369403
There are plenty of overweight people out there who are employed. You've gotten some good suggestions. Here are some of mine.\n\n1. It's a rare person who doesn't have to deal with some anxieties about job interviews, whether it is appearance-related, grade-related, employment history-related, etc. There are no perfect applicants out there. Remember that during the whole process.\n\n2. Do everything you can to look clean cut. That image works for most employers. For men, that would include a short haircut, clean shaven, no earrings, etc. Find the perfect interview outfit. Nicely shined shoes, pressed pants, a suit and jacket if appropriate. The preppy look works well for most office environments. Once you get the perfect interview outfit, set it aside and save it for just that purpose. In general navy is the best suit color. A nice pen and a nice portfolio might be appropriate. Always arrive on time. Sometimes it helps to do a practice run to find the place ahead of time.\n\n2. Check out books on interviewing. Rehearse answers to frequently asked questions. Think about past work-related accomplishments that you might be asked about. Don't bad-mouth former employers at all or say anything negative about past situations. People don't want to hire whiners. If they ask why your leaving your current position say something like you'd like new challenges, increased responsibility, higher salary, something to that affect. \n\nCheck out the books in that regards. Act enthused. People want to hire people who want the job. Even if you are not sure, talk like you are excited about the opportunity. You can always decide later after you get an offer.\n\nAsk them what a typical day is like, what they like best about working for the employer. Interviewers like to talk about themselves sometimes.\n\n3. Make sure your resume is error-free. Consider tailoring your resume to different types of positions. Borrow some of the buzz words off employee ads to describe yourself. For example, if you see ads asking for high-energy, motivated, individuals with excellent intepersonal skills, use something like that on your resume to describe the kind of person you are. \n\n4. Make sure they see you as someone high energy and hard working. I think a stereotype of someone overweight is that they are lazy and slow. Try not to walk real slow if possible. I've known some really sucdesful overweight professionals and they always dressed well, seemed energetic, spoke with enthusiasm, etc. That really helps. Don't forget to smile and make eye contact. A firm but not constricting handshake is good. If given an opportunity let them know how hard-working, energetic and efficient you are.\n\n5. Ask each interviewer for a business card afterwards if they haven't already given you one. As soon as possible after the interview send a letter to each interviewer thanking them for the opportunity to interview. Reiterate the interest in the position and how you feel you can help them.  That really is the bottom line, they want someone to help them.\n\n6. If for no reason other than your health, I would suggest walking to help your weight. I know very few people who haven't dealt with weight issues sometimes in their lives. \n\n7. Have some references if asked. Try asking people you have worked with in the past or teachers, etc. Make sure they can give a good response. \n\nThere's a job out there with your name on it Ryan. I don't know which one it is, but God does. Do your best, keep the faith, and trust God to lead you to it. He will. God bless you.
588526
yeah, i probably would. i think that there are pretty nice looking women. i have never been with a woman, but i have always thought about what it would be like. hell, if they're gonna pay me, why not try it then? at least i would be getting paid, right?
500273
Of  course there r, some thick girls are very attractive, others would be horrible even with a perfect body, but i guess this difference is pretty personal
634229
Although they won't admit it, some employers will look at it and not hire you for that reason. But if you have the experience, good work ethic, work history, and references...you will find something. Those that won't hire on that basis are not a company you want to work for anyways. Go into your interviews with a positive attitude and don't ever look at it as "I'm old and overweight so they won't hire me" If thats ringing in the back of your mind, it will show a weakness in you, in some way, during the interview (although you may not see it). Good Luck! I think you'll do just fine if you can keep a positive attitude and not get down, even if it takes a little longer than usual to find a good job!
234979
BBW that can have sex with food? hmmmmm want my address? Kinky and hot are two words that come to mind
804313
some of us kinda like a bigger gal, I know that a skinny gal turns me off. Like at work..., all the people always talk about this one chick, and she is sooo nasty cause she is so TINY, then there are a few others....who are larger, like a 14 - 20 gals... thems' my girls....hotties! Love them.....  I am a 34 waist and 5'9 guy .... not a loser dude.......!  I would not give mine up for the world!
970231
Hell yeah! I love a beautiful woman with a good pair of legs! I am not much of a breast lesbian but they should be in good shape and not saggy. I personally wouldn't wolf whistle out loud but I may do under my breath if I saw an attractive woman walk past. I appreciate a woman who looks after themselves but you're right, personality does count for a lot more if I was trying to get their number. A beautiful bunny boiler does nothing for me!
1117282
I wouldn't say it would be a turn on...just an added bonus! I actually believe that men are better cooks then women. So when you find someone who is nice, considerate, loving, cooking good puts the icing on the cake, so to speak!