Is it wronng to smoke part of your Grandmother's ashes with your friends?
550297
I would think that would be a terribly disrespectful thing to do.
268450
No but you should share them with each other.  its not fair for you to be the only one having all of the good fun.  Besides that way you dont have to split your time between the two and you can all have more time together.
1073343
I want to be cremated. Then have my ashes loaded into shotgun shells and passed out to all my friends etc. They can all have a blast. Actually if I do my Gfriend said she is going to have my ashes put in an hour glass so I can keep on working.
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first smokers can use or abuse if they want, \ni agree she is a bit young and school can be affected by it it slows things down and makes it hard to remember even what you are doing or have done i n the last 30 seconds. \nshe should think of her safty guys that are takingadvatage of her have a good chance while high and she should have a buddy with her that can keep a sober eye on her or make a plan to do it where she is safe and can get help easily.  and not make it a priority in her life, it can be recreational useage but its illegal still and she should really think about if its doing more good than harm. don't let her get fuucked up and tell her always stay in control and if she is not tell her she should stop before she can't do something over again. it is done and she has to live with it. \ni would talk to her i talk with my 14 yo cousin about it and how she done it and her experiences and she quit and realized it was not worth keep doing it with all the things she has going in her life. \ni smoke it \nit is not a priority i don't need it i don't get really stoned jsut enought to put a smile on my face and to see life as it is something to enjoy. for me it relaxes me enought so i can see how life is and not just seeing the worries and problems i have, and it is beautiful. iam a happier person but can be happy on my own too. if i don't have it its fine but when i do a $20 bag can last 2-3 weeks. i smoke it hwere i am safe and be around people that don't have a problem with it and things get done that i need to do \nit works like an upper for me but smoking too much can be a bad dragg coming down, so she should think about what it really is to her anad if its what she really wants to do for it to be a part of her life. it is a big choice and needs t osee if it will fit in and not interupt her safety her memory or her control. good luck and enjoy life as you want.
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You should have a legal guardian with you. Someone who is responsible for you, like one of your parents . If your Aunt is responsible for you, that works too. I do have to say that at 13 years old ... lay off the weed and other drugs and seriously re-evaluate your freinds. Your life hasn't even really started yet . Give it a chance to be something good. Good luck .... ;)
233903
I would not be okay with my child smoking anything.\nI would want them to be upfront with me about it.\n\nMy grandmother died of oral cancer after years of dipping snuff, so I have an aversion to any tobacco and smoking anything of any sort, even weed.
611606
i think that is vary good for you. i think my mom should try it she smoke.
860453
Well, it sounds like you don't really consider them "friends," and therefore you should not let them convince you to do something you don't want to do. In fact, you shouldn't let anyone do that. As far as pot being harmful to you, I imagine that if you were responsible when using it, it would not greatly affect your health. Much like being responsible when drinking alcohol. However, it is illegal, so you do want to take that into consideration.
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use commit, my grandpa is 80, he has ben smoking since he was 7 years old, back then it was legel and smoking wasn't bad for you.  he now has lung cancer and had to quite if he wanted to get rid of the cancer he has been using them for 2 days now and i don't think he has had a cigarette since then
19945
Any kind of smoke is bad for you. If you smoke once in ahwile its not that bad. If you smoke as much as my roomate does then you may get cancer or have trouble breathing.
1174542
You're lucky you can comfort yourself in a way that is non harmful.  I  wish my best  friend  would  do that instead of smoking.  If it gave me comfort I'd do it too. I've heard its not that uncommon.
894932
If we smoke as many or as more than you... would that make you feel better?\n\nThat is only a question, not a judgement. My nana has emphasema (spelling) and she's dieing from it. I wish there was more I (everyone) could do to help smokers. \n\nI know ppl who smoke 1-3 cartons per day. (25-26 sticks * cartoon).  That's not unusual. \n\nLook after yourself mate. Mean it.
505110
its fine, my grandmother smoked two packs a day since she was in her 20's and lived to be 87 years old.
1136035
I am so sorry to hear that.  I know what you are going through.  Both of my grandfathers died from cancer (lung) and there was nothing they could do about it.  As far as your nanna is concerned, it's only going to take time.  I don't know if you are religious or not, but sometimes just a prayer and hug is all it takes.  It's sweet that you are there with her and you really are  doing more than you realize.  I'm sure she appreciates it greatly.  It's not something that's easy and quick to get over.  Just sit by her and let her talk to you if she needs to.  You and your family have my greatest sympathy and prayers.
804367
It's a great idea... it's already happened in Scotland, and I found it incredibly liberating to enter bars and restaurants there and not have to walk through clouds of smelly smoke for once. It's so nice to be able to go along and spend time with my smoker friends and actually enjoy my time with them - to feel like part of the group again. And I no longer have to keep going outside on my own for some fresh air in the freezing cold. It's actually a very nice feeling. \n\nSmoking is a right, yes I agree.. but I feel it's more of a right not to be forced to breathe in others second-hand smoke. It's just nasty full stop. If people want to enjoy a smoke, I'm very happy for them to do it in the privacy of their own homes. :-)
547717
I don't think anything much, really. Your love is the best thing you can give them. Just make sure that you make them feel accepted; sometimes, older people are afraid that younger people consider them as inferior and therefore tend to take everything more personally. So treat them like the normal people they are. Remember that they were once babies, once kids, once teenagers, once young adults... So don't try being all "what can I do for you? Don't do that, you'll hurt yourself" and stuff like many people tend to do. I know that comes from a good intention, but the truth is, a lot of times, grandparents don't want that from their grandchildren. Sometimes, they just want to be treated as friends, to feel young again... And yes there is a grandparent day. It's september 11, I think.
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Yes, it depends if your Grandmother told you in confidence, even though she has passed, would it make her turn over, if you did?  If she wanted you to tell her after the fact then that is different.\n\nIf your Grandmother did something, I'm sure your sister already knows deep inside why and maybe you should just let it lie.