dont take your partner to a private place on offer unless you are really sure?
535776
cool wish i was there, because i have trouble keeping my clothes on i like flaunting my body
303150
How about going out with him alone and not putting out?\nYou DO have a choice in the matter you know.
713580
Say we are going out to dinner or claim you are going out ot that mall or liabury and secretly go and see him without her knowing.
960371
dear partygirl,\nyour boned. there isnt much you can do, by involving both parties in sex you have created paranoia. there realyl is no remedy to this.think about it like this... Q: do you ever wonder if the two see each other without you knowing?  A: you should. i tried this thing that you did and it ended up killing the entire relationship, for both.\nso here is what you should do... in my humble oppinion... figure out what is more important, him or her? then my best advice to you is to cut the relationship off. with one of them only if you want to continue with one... i resolved my own situation with that anwser. now you got to think Q: do they have a right to be justified in jealousy? A: of course they do.  i would be very jealous if i knew that the person i was in a relationship went to someone else with theyre problems. a relationship is best left monogamous... or discreetly otherwise i.e a commited relationship whilst just bringing in outside parties.... like someone you met at a bar or a freind of a freind. nobody close to you. it causes conflict. so basicly figure out who is most important to you, and ditch the other or even better ditch both and find a new guy.
1045882
YEA, If not you may miss out on a beautiful thing !!!\n\nI seriously doubt that your telling him that would cause any problems only good
640781
Yes.  I don't want anyone to tell me I cannot enjoy my kinky sexual activities with someone I love in my BEDROOM.  If they do that to me, then they are giving me the same right to do the same thing to THEM!
96003
You by your question know what is right. I am here to back you up in your decision. You are in control of your own body.He is not. You have made the right decision already in your heart. How dare someone tell a girl like you to go and rent porno movies. If your boyfriend is in that frame of mind tell him to take the matter into his own HANDS, as the milk is not free unless you buy the cow.
968513
never.....that is foul. If the person you're in a relationship with  wants to have a threesome with you and another man, he doesn't respect/care about you...I wouldn't go with my wife to a male strip club b/c she wouldn't be going in the first place.  Also if a man is willing to do these things he must be bisexual.
594895
Don't do anything that you will regret later.  Something does not seem right here.  If the guy you are living with is so great, you would not be thinking of another guy.
54480
He might be ashamed to admit his fantasies to you, especially if they're considered "taboo" by general society. Trust is often something that has to be built and earned. My boyfriend and I share everything, but it took a while for us to get to that point.
574599
well as long as you and your partner like it it is OK and who says what is normal? I believe if it pleases you and your partner the rest of the world shouldn't tell you if it is right or wrong what you do behind closed doors don't matter to us. If it pleases you GO AHEAD. IT IS NOT WRONG
1132746
He must be insecure and he obviously doesn't trust you. Without trust, no relationship will work.  If you've asked him to stop invading your privacy, and he hasn't, it's time to cut him lose. You shouldn't settle just because you're afraid he'll be angry. You deserve much better.
1106292
God bless you, All you can do is stay normal as you can. Do not  push your limit, make him comfortable when he is with you. All (REAL) mans are looking two things in their life, first good sex partner and  second, somewhere back in their mind they are looking for good homely atmosphere (meaning they want to see how comfortable they are with you), if you offer both of these two things to him. then you must 'BELIEVE ME' he is not going anywhere, he will be with you forever.
685632
If he trusts you or not he has no right entering into your private accounts. You need to stop bein a wuss and tell him yourself. Its a form of controll that you need to address. If you cant tell him then why should we. Hes the one whom you have to see and it should be you to tell him that he sucks azz for invading your privacy...Unless your scared and that my dear is a whole nnother problem...
348993
any one that says they dont do it is a liar whether they are in a relationship or not(unless of course its physically impossible for them!!)so i wouldnt worry mate people have needs they need to cater 4 if it makes you happy why stop.
903448
reliable i would say yes but, safe I don't think anyone is real safe in a place alone with someone u don't know .It's going to be a risk you'll have to decide to do or not.
386958
A bad idea unless you really trust the other person to make decisions for you.