My mom want my sister to move back in with us what should i do???
541711
If you pay rent then that is your home too! If your mom is not planning on helping to pay your sister's portion, then she has not right to ask you to pay anymore than you pay now. Yes, family helps family but if you can't afford it, what else can you do?
690882
Same kinda thing happened to me. I listened to people who said do it the correct and legal way. I have nothing of my moms. So go get. Chances are your sister isn't going to take the time and money to take you to court over it. If it's value is mostly to you. If you could make some kind of written deal with her. Have her sign it. I'm sure she would agree to it. If she gets enough to get the next high with. Life is like cards. You gotta know when to hold-um and know when to fold-um. And sometimes you just got to walk away. Good luck. And my condolences.
267791
with all the great advise everyone is giving Please tell your mom but tell your mom that your sister felt better comming to you and ask your mom if you should tell your sister something that you may have not have thought of. I know the feeling of going to mom about this but mom needs to know and untell your sister feels better about it all you should confide in mom first with this. Even though it is comming from mom your sister feel better talking with you. Feel proud of this you have the best relationship with your sister and hold onto it while you can.
285573
Move back into the same room, being separate will not help!\nTry  for a weekend get away.
552423
Wow, you've got to get the heck out of that house. Is she your legal guardian or something? Call DHS and tell them what is going on. If you're an adult, then find a friend or other relative you can stay with for a while. \n  If you cannot leave, and I do understand how it's hard to fully grasp someone else's situation... then ask a neighbor if you can use their address for job applications. Just tell them your sister isn't right in the head and you have to get a job to support everyone. Then do NOT put your number on job applications. Maybe the same neighbor will allow you to use their land phone number and they can pass the message on to you and you can call them back when your sister is sleeping. Either way, you sis needs some serious help. Call mental health facilities and see what can be done.\n  Best of luck to you.. and stay away from pork and eat lots of fresh garlic until you can get back on your meds.
210614
nothing much. just let her know that while you understand that she's the adult and is probably making the decision she thinks is best for everyone, you would appreciate it if she would listen to why you want to stay where you are and that you are really upset about this move. \nyou just have to be respectful or she won't listen at all. and if it doesn't work, i've heard colorado is really nice and moving is kinda fun and u can completly start over and be a diff. person if u want to. \ngood luck, and im sure ur mum is only trying to do the best thing.
585597
Pray. And realize you can't force her to come home. All you can do is be there for her as a sister and let her make her own mistakes. If you push or manipulate, she won't feel safe in turning to you.\n\nAnd I'll be praying for you as well... :)
681132
keep taking care of your mom in the loving way you are and to heck with the siblings.\n\nAs far as the land is concerned if you don't buy it there will be a big mess when she passes. \n\nMy ex got really pissy when his grandmother gave everything to her nephew...........but I thought it was the right thing to do because her nephew took care of her every day of her life after her only child passed.
59597
I have a feeling that you just want to go there because you want to out do your sisters. I may be wrong but, you just got to follow your heart. If you really, really want to go there than talk to your mom, don't wine. And make sure your sisters stay out of it, I know they can be a big pain in the a**.
226796
Learn to love her, because you should never hate your family. Be glad your sister is around. Someone decided to kill my sister. I would give almost anything to have her back here with us. Be glad you have her there! Hope this helped you!
258022
If she doesn't mine you living there and you and your kid likes it you could stay a while and save up some money for a down payment on a house or something. But if you are not happy then by all means move out.
176977
You don't have to do anything.  Just being home with your family will be enough.  As much as you want to be back with them and get back to life at home, they want the same.  Just get home and love them like never before:)  Welcome home!
805651
Im sorry about your mom, it is okay to freak out, especially because your moms death is so recent. You still have 2 years left to think and eventually you will figure out that it is ok to leave your dad and your sister.Eventhough your sister is an "airhead" in two years she can grow out of it and im pretty sure she will take care of your dad no matter what.
629981
Karo is absolutely right. First step: Tell your parents, then your responsibility is done. Then you go on doing the right thing so your parents can handle your sister and not worry about you.\n\nOh, wait--I just read your details--do your parents already know?  Then they are going to have to get outside help. Unfortunately, it is fairly expensive. Tell them to start with the doctor, she will need medical evaluation, a psychiatric workup, and then probably placement in a rehab. My husband and I just put his 16 year old son in a place in Utah. First we tried two different military schools, but his bad behavior just escalated.\n\nFirst step:  enlist help of her pediatrician or doctor. Also, talk to counselor at school.\n\nAnd again, you need to be a help to your parents here, but the biggest help you can be is to just be your normal, good kid self-- do your homework, keep your body, room and clothes neat and clean, don't sass your parents, and stay away from bad people and drugs.
625903
Do whatever feels right to you. You mother may be trying to make up for lost time. But if you are not comfortable moving in with her stay with your grandmother and go to her house for visits. Be honest with her, but also be willing to help her.
552468
Just open up to her about your feelings on the situation and you know good mothers would always welcome back their children. \nWish you luck....
89891
Easy. Grow a pair of balls and tell her that she has 90 days to move out unless she pays rent. Tell here that when her 90days are up she will either pay the rent or you will throw her stuff out in the yard. \n\nIf she doesnt pay throw all of her stuff in the front yard and change the locks. \n\nIf you threaten her but do not follow through with it she will never respect you. \n\nBTW I am 25 maried w/ kids of my own. (Notice I can see it from her perspective as far as age is concerned and yours as far as a parents perspective is concerned