In a relationship that has ended, do you think both ppl still think about each other afterwards the same amt?
535783
No, i don't think so. Depends how the relationship ended. Who ended it.
150242
This could possibly be because you either still have feelings for each other, or that you two are just lingering on old emotions and the times that you had shared together.  Of course, it could just plain be that you are so happy that you are over him that you feel totally comfortable staring him in the eyes.
651448
I think not for reasons of the heart,cause deep down inside you still have those memories of the good times you had together.Which then could lend to things happening between you two.If you are in a new relationship,the person you are with could get hurt or may not like the idea you are friends with your exs.So leave exs alone and move on.
1096246
I would move on....he apparnetly doesnt care about you sence he left. I wouldnt waste time thinking about it. Do you think he is thinking about you?? I know its sad situation and I feel for you I really do, but the best thing you can do for yourself is to not think about him anymore. Go out and do stuff.
976614
It is, but it's hard to balance the love between them. Make sure they love you back and all should be fine. Don't do like I did and take love from one and give it all to the other, the other was a loser and did not know how to handle love. Thankfully, my first love forgave me and I learned my lesson.
174619
It depends.  I still love people from my past, just because they taught me different things and gave me good memories.  But yes, I think people can sometimes, sad to say.  People change a lot and sometime the other partner is not on the same page.
448335
NO! If my bf would think about his ex I would have to break up with him. When your in a relationship you have to give you love and care and respect to that other person. Otherwise you might as well break up with her and get back with your ex. That is if you care about this new girl and you don't want to hurt her.
341317
AS in you broke up and are getting back together? \n\nAbsolutley NOT. Things have changed and you have to accept it....you relationship will NOT be the same.
132523
YES!!!  I was in a two year relationship with one and he truely loved me.  He just didn't know the meaning of the word monogamy!!! People, even strangers would take one look at us and comment on how "in love" we were.  Eight years after the relationship ended, he found me and told me how much he missed me and how he felt the relationship never ended in his heart.  I refused to see him because I am married and so is he.  I was afraid that I might fall for him again.  You know, he has a real problem when it comes to women and I had to just burn that bridge completely to avoid being hurt again.  When I was with him, he made me feel like I was the only woman in the world and then when we were apart he would cheat on me.  What a jerk!!!
1078510
Well I think that depends on their relationship before they broke up and their relationship now.If he is still interested in the ex then no. But if he genuinely just a caring person who wants to be friends with his ex because that is the type of person he is and it is not coming between your new relationship then yes.
587692
It depends on how your ex-relationship ended. If you broke up with her it depends on how you feel about the person you're with. If she broke up with you then don't, you have to keep your dignity. She broke up with you and you have moved on with somebody new.
256683
Yes it's perfectly possible. I think that no one ever truly gets over someone that they've loved they've just learned to ignor it or suppress it or replace the vast majority of it with something else.
1166836
i think its normal to compare relationships. every person has their special qualities you may not see elsewhere. and since it seems that your previous relationship ended not so long ago, i think its still ok to somewhat miss the other at times. you shared a lot and here you are in a brand new relationship. it is possible that you did not completely get over the ex yet. give it time. you must also give your new relationship to develope depth and breadth and meaning in a way that you never had. it will happen.\n\ngood for you that your hubby is being so supportive. he sounds like the one.\n\njust know you're normal and that its ok. allow yourself to feel, don't squash it (out of guilt) every time it comes up, and you will get over it. g'luck!
116892
Yeah it can. I broke up with my ex a couple of years ago - it was a mutual break-up but we remained as best friends. Sometimes when I hang out with her, I feel that same old feeling again - like a spark in my life that I felt when I first dated her... but I'm not taking that step though.\n\nYou can regain that feeling, but to get back together - that's another question...
436991
Sometimes.  However, you have to really think about whether you are dating the person for what you have together now or what you had in the past.  It is also important to examine why you broke up in the first place.  Is that issue resolved because if it isn't, then, chances are the relationship won't work the second time around either.
177317
It depends a lot on what happened at the end, if it was your first relationship, was it "true love," etc. Also, (this may sound sexist) but boys and girls look at breakups differently.\n\nAs a boy, I didn't really get over my "first" for a long time. The first month was the hardest, and I still thought about her for years afterwards. From her point of view, she went out of her way to try and hurt me, leaving pictures of herself with other guys in my locker, flirting with other guys at parties, even taking advantage of some poor sap to go to the same prom as me.\n\nWhat I later learned is that girls and guys look at breaking up totally differently, and what she did was her way of dealing with it.\n\nIn my opinion, time is the only way to get over it. Try to find other hobbies and friends. Try not to do the same things you did before, but find new things to do.
1087623
I know I'm still in love with my ex - he ended our 2 year relationship very suddenly with an e-mail & I am finished with\ndating, men, relationships, love. He was the last man I ever plan to be involved with - I've had enough.  Good luck with your situation!