I'm in love with 2 men. They r both x's. Very confused!!!!!?
535079
LISTEN WHAT YOUR HEART SAYS DARLING.THE THING IS SOMETIMES WE ARE TEMPTED TO WANT TO MUCH.WHAT DOES YOUR HEART REALY REALY TEL YOU.CLOSE YOUR EYES AND JUST THINK ABOUT IT FOR A SECOND.DONT THINK WITH YOUR MIND.FEEL WITH YOUR HEART.
408575
This is natural, but try to see how much you two [current beau] get along; are you very compatible?]  If you still have these feelings for boy number one, talk to him and see how he feels.  It may be easier to ask personal questions since he thinks you are taken.  He may just tell you how he felt and feels now [about you.]  If this works out, test the waters before you get in too deep with the current one.  If it's already too late, then I'd suggest you push #1 out of your head.  Look at him like he's a not-so-likable person or something.  If you want to leave a favorable impression, don't be disloyal to your man.  If you don't give a shi*, go for it.  A piece of shi* is still a piece of shi*.  Just hope you aren't one.  I'm sure you're not, so be true to yourself.  Check it out without doing the nasty.
1109983
why are you in love with 3 men and why do you want to spend the rest of your life with either of them!\nalso why are you talking to poor people!
147852
How do you know that what you feel is indeed LOVE?? Have you and this guy spent enough time together, shared your thoughts, etc.? It is usual for one party to fall in love with the other. Has this guy led you on at all?? If you really are in love with the guy, and he does not know, THEN YOU SHOULD TELL HIM EXACTLY WHAT AND HOW YOU FEEL!! COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY INGREDIENT IN ANY RELATIONSHIP! If he does not reciprocate for whatever reason, then you just need to accept the truth as hard as it might be and then move on.
771567
If both of them like you and you like both of them the choice is yours. You have to thinkabout who you are more comfortable with, can see dating and can see a future (like.. who would you be dating longer). \n\nI basically did that. I like these two guys. One is fun and the other one is smart. Both are cute but I had to choose and I chose the smart one 'cos I can actually REALLY be just myself around him and he's smart (like me, lol) so we can actually talk about stuff. Plus, he always amazes me. The other one is fun and all but we don't have that much in common other than liking each other. So try to assess who you would be better off with.
406677
You should follow your heart. Date both for now... time will tell which one you are supposed to be with.
56839
From my point of view, first ask yourself why you are in love of this guy, and then take a second look to your strategy to approach him. Not all that is shinny is gold. Maybe he is not the right one for you, so you must continue your life and be more careful to the person you will give your attention, love, and care.
589582
Allways listen to your heart and gut but just because you love the one does he love you too! If so he would make time for you no matter what! But Me I dont thingit is posable to love 2 men at the same time You can love many people at the same time  but Not LOVE them! So really follow your heart but if your gut is telling you hey something is not right check in to it find out what is wrong! But If you really Loved either of them you wouldn't be so confussed you would know! Who do you think of all the time when you wake up? when you go to bed? Which one is always on your mind if some one was at your door right now who would you want it to be! Who's eyes do you look into and see a future with him! There are a number of questions you need to ask your self! And go with your HEART!
606629
sounds like you are confused. think this out better then decide
108070
sounds like he wants s*x with you,  the decision is yours   if you dont want to jsut explain to him that you dont if not...have fun ;)
752301
Yes, most people have had this at one time or another.  Don't choose either, its just a phase you're going thru - when true love hits you, you will have no doubt.  Enjoy both of them for now.
660109
wow...I'm in the EXACT same position. I could've asked this question because I'm going through the same thing. I've been absolutely infatuated with this guy and don't know what I will do once he leaves. It's so difficult but the best way to get through it is to find another guy. It sounds much easier than it really is because no one compares to "him."
369282
I would stick to the guy that is straight.\n\nHERE'S WHY (MY OPINION ONLY): While the guy who bi may only make out with other boys now, what happens when he crosses the line? What if he likes them more? What if you get yourself caught in some wicked love triangle? What if you really end up liking him more & he doesn't? That's alot of 'what if's' girl and if you are woman enough to go through it.... you know but it sounds like a little much. Go for the one that is straight and see which the other one ends up swinging. I perfer, from dating experience, to stay away from all the 'what if's' & maybe that will change. I like for my relationships to be fun & enjoyable and it sounds like that COULD be trouble. Life is confusing & challege enough with us adding all the extra trouble that we could of avoided. Sad thing is we know it. We just all want our own way and life doesn't work that why. Some times you just gotta step back and say, "Now, really?!" How do you feel deep down, find the bottom line & don't let yourselfish ways override what is the striaght up fact. A lot more STDs are linked in gay relationships, but you take that chance anyway. Search heart & be true to you. It's your life. Save the drama! Good luck girly!
528751
It depends upon how close you are to the guy are you in love with him or do you just like him, because I would let them be together if they truly loved each other.  There is only 1 right person for everyone, and you don't know who it is until you know, and when you know you just know.\nWhat is meant to be is meant to be maybe you both could swap men and see how she likes that.
165086
if you and this 3rd guy love each other (mutual feelings), then you should go for it! concerning these other people, no guy in his right mind would be happy with someone who wasn't into the relationship - and i doubt you would either! trust your feelings and go with the guy you truly love.\n;)
245022
doesn't make you gay completey....you may have a BIG PROBLEM......you have to make a decision sooner or later.  If you like both girls and this guy you say you are in love with you will have to choose mind over matter.  I'd love to hear from you so e-mail me.
96924
You're playing with fire.\nBetter make a choice soon,before one or both find out(I can't believe either one of them would know and accept this situation as it is now)and make a decision for you.