why cant guys be easy to come by?
543722
I dont think why cant guys be easy to come by, I think it should be " Why cant that certain SOMEONE be easy to come by? " because when you say guys, it just makes it hard on single guys like me to see, because they are hopeful to meet someone special. I know you probably think thats a lame answer, but its from the heart. Thats what im about, giving from the heart.
447525
Ok it is really hard, you have to get someone you dont hang out w/ much to ask him so he wont suspect a thing!! A guy is better than a gurl!!!
297812
I agree great guys are hard to come by these days. But not all guys are bad either. That's an understatement. I think it's cool you like to treat a gal like a lady. and i agree completely with you on that. But i guess it's just in their nature and the way they were brought up. But there still is hope, i'm sure there are great guys like yourself out there. And if not at least we know there's one. \nCheers!!
1083098
1) it's a pride thing\n2) it's kind of caused by biology, too.  Men are supposed to be the providers, and to take care of their mates.  How can they do that (or find a mate) if they don't even know how to get around?
73541
Aren't guys always looking for attention?
827853
maybe its because you try too hard \ndon't fall for someone just because you can \nonce u meet the right guy you'll know
147226
Because they can if you allow them.   Not all guys are like that, but the ones who are deserve the self-absorbed a**holes they attract!
858992
It happens, finding the right guy isn't easy, takes a lot of time. It's basically trial and error. I have the same problem with girls, a lot of them are basically the same and boring.
733585
He is not going to come knocking on your door...get up, get pretty and go out with the girls...to dinner, to the theatre, to festivals, there are many places to go to meet people you have to make an effort too.  Most woman think that prince charming is going to come knocking one day...poooof!  Hate to burst their bubble, it is not happening...you need to go out and meet people.  Oh by the way...realize that he will not meet all your standards and vs.  You have to give in to a few things that you may not like and he might balance it out with some other great qualities, remember no one is perfect and you are not going to find the perfect guy.  Good luck
375115
This may be true. They(boys) may find you a bit intimidating because you are confident and probably because of your maturity they may think they don't stand a chance with you.  But don't change because they are too wimpy to approach you.  There are lots of guys that like a challenge and are not intimidated by talented, competitive, confident young ladies. They find this appealing.
788418
all guys are diff. some do it just to be friendly
1112543
I saw a video of guys answering this question, they said they might feel obligated at the time or just want to be polite because they were talking with you for a while, they feel it is just the next step even if they dont intend on calling. Guys are just hard to figure out sometimes!
977623
they probably r afraid of being rejected. guys r more insecure than u think. loosen them up and give them something back. Flirt back or give them signs that u wanna take it further. some dont have enough confidence and think they dont have a chance
511701
i agree with you.sometimes male friend are much easier to find and to be with.
1027469
Because guys always have numerous women to choose from.\nYour not that great if he a list of replacements ready to go.
407234
because its a big money maker // its for lazy people that dont want to get of the house to find someone special.going out is to much work so they rather stay home and meet people the lazy way.
298396
Because boys are gonna be boys. Its hard to find descent boys these days. I'm 16 and there are boys who try to talk to me or get my number but as girls, we all know what most of them want! Their minds are still not functioned right  so give them time an you'll see an improvement!