Mostly husband loves, pampers & spare times with 2nd wives rather than 1st wife.  Is it true?
534789
Yes, it's true.  Only because they have learned on the first wife how to be better husbands.
723161
No, it doesn't mean you don't really love him. Some of the things my husband does embarasses me. If I think he could be a 'better' person, then I suggest to him about changing. Sometimes I just live with it. :-)
57846
NO WAY!  My husband and I live 3 lives in our home.  My life, his life, and the life we share together.  We dont let those 3 collide.  He has his friends, I have mine and we have joint friends.
75002
Think of all the ways you romanced your wife before you was married. Did you buy her flowers? Take her on night strolls? Did you shower with her or run her bath when she comes home from work? At times we tend to forget that the men/women that we marry still need to be romanced and catered to. Its a beautiful thing that happens for two people and they feel appreciated. This is what I think your wife is telling you.
164539
The only thing I've heard is that they have many wives... :P
575651
My Husband and I have an understanding.  During the week He gets breakfast in bed (every morning) and on the weekends I get it.  He comes home from working sooo hard, and still finds time to spend time with my children, until bed.  Then treats me like a Queen. But hey isn't that the way a king should treat his queen?  we treat each other with the utmost respect and uncondtional love.  Sounds like ur lady is as lucky as me.
212845
Have you ever heard of polygamy involving more than one husband? I like it about as much as the idea of a threesome with two women. Don't men have enough problems with just one wife?
1012034
only the one i am married to.  i think women who are homewreckers do it b/c they think the grass is greener.  like that saying that the good ones are always taken.  also i think married men are more pasionate b/c of the love making, not just sex.
534084
I really don't think so, I'm on my second marriage as it is.
519516
i also had inter cast marriage, i am punjabi and my hubby is pandit, but in our case theres not much difference in our rituals and tradition, but as u told a hindu girl and muslim boy , so there is much diference in their rituals and traditions, further will guy be truthful to her all his life. becoz u know in muslim's its allowed to have more than 1 marriage , so will he be ready to accept just one wife while his religion giving him permission to have more than one, will he stick to her for all his life????????????????? well i dont think so, becoz all guys are same
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Hi, \n\nIt probably sounds a lot worse than it is, I am guessing you are nearing your 40s or around that age? (sorry!!)\n\nI would think your husband is going through the male menopause where he is questioning his life and if he is really satisfied, these "women" obviously make him feel young again.\n\nIf I were you I would show him he has a loving wife who will be there for him whereas the girls are just a figment of his imagination, \n\nThanks, \nAnd best of luck!!
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Of course.  Yeah you guys aren't on the same level in that regard.  It's perfectly exceptable to find someone esle to talk to about things that your wife can't.  You should check out Luke 12:22.  Great read.  basically says, "don't worry"....it's a good sigh of relief sometimes.
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Yes and no, it depends on your wives feelings. If she doesnt like it and you continue to do it even though it hurts her alot then its not right. If she doesnt mind and is comfertable with letting you have female companions then its okay. Its honestly up to her.  If you value her feelings then you will do what makes her happy, just like she should do the same thing for you. What you need to do is ask yourself why you want female companionship. If you notice any of your motives might be disloyal then its not alright.
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Although it is possible to love two or more people at the same time, I do not believe that this is the case.  I think that the romance has gone out of your marriage and you find it easier to be romantic with another woman than to rekindle the romance in you marriage.\n\nFor a married man to have a romantic relationship with another woman is folly.  It is thinking with the "little head."  Either divorce your wife to pursue another woman, or go to counseling with your wife to correct your martial problems.  Do one or the other before someone gets hurt.
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Its possible that both of you are trying to fill the roles of wife and husband. What I mean is not seeing each other as people,not dealing with things as they are but trying to do things as you think they should be dealt with. Maybe he thinks he should be in charge, telling you what to do what to spend. I think its time you 2 have a good long talk and find out how each of you really feels clear the air. Oh one other thing to think about your at that stage in a relationship where your past the first glow of love and seeing him as he really is, time to work at the relationship build it up or see if it can be worked out.
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If it's one thing we own by birthright, it's ourselves. I believe a relationship is two wholes, not two halves. And so when we get married a spouse does not have ownership. I should not have to change my way of being to accomodate someone else's expectancy of who I should be or how I should act. After all, I was the way I am when we met right? Usually a spouse wants you to change or downplay the things they initially found attractive in you so no one else will notice those attractive qualities too. \n        I was with a man for 11 years, married for 7 of those years. He used to tell me I was disrespecting him because he had set these imaginary guidelines in his mind for how I should behave in certain instances. I had no idea what he was talking about and had not set out to be "disrespectful". So it was never blatant, but alleged covert, subtle forms of feigned disrespect. I told him I was not going to try to figure out what he was thinking because whatever it was it was his problem not mine. \n         We are not yet divorced, but separated for the second time and I assure you it will not be a third round. I need to be free to live my life and be all of who I am without feeling like walking on eggshells to protect some "imaginary guidelines" set for me without my approval or permission.\n         The part of the question that asks about fidelity; my viewpoint is thus: Some people cannot handle multiple sex partners because they are irresponsible and will not use protection. Marraige is supposed to be a plateau of safest sex. \n         BUT....if like my case, where the man cannot satisfy for whatever reason, I think within respectful boundaries (meaning I come home at night) and (don't flaunt it)...I need someone who can fulfill my sexual urges. I'm not looking, but if I happen to meet someone..... \n        Fidelity is a notion. An ideal state. But it's not altogether realistic. Who can stop two consenting adults, especially if one is unfulfilled with his or her partner at home? Even if it starts out fulfilling, it will taper in time by virtue of law of physics. What goes up must come down. Including levels of sexual fulfillment and excitement because sexual excitement is emotion and emotion is not static. It moves, flows, changes, halts etc. Even some 40 year marraiges have survived all odds, no doubt infidelity, but not because they were perfect, but because the parties involved made a DECISION to maintain a life and relationship they have built over time. Most people don't want to walk away from their investment in those years whether they were happy or not. Change is after all not easy. Life is composed of a series of changes and we must constantly readapt to our lives. Some people have relationships for years without infidelity. Hey, it happens!! But its exceptional because most people NEED change.\n         I'm getting out and don't know if I'll ever walk down that road again, although I do not discourage marraige. It's a nice notion if it works. If it doesn't, hey....there is always...............change.\n\n\nOne Life\nBe Happy\nCami
520691
If your husband is sexy agnostic jim darwin, then I'd be happy to share, and no, it's not a sin.  I hope you know he already has two other wives.