To tell or not to tell my friend?
540609
Maybe you should just stay out of the middle of it. Give her support, but just tell her that you rather just not get involoved, unless he did something serious to her.
355058
if she is a really good friend and you two are very close friends, it shouldnt be a problem.\nTry to see if she is willing to talk to your about other personal issues, before you let her know about your feelings.\nIf you try to tell her something personal, and she shys away or feels uncomfortable talking intimately with you, then I dont think she is ready to know about your feelings.\n\non the other hand, if you do develop a close enough relationship with her and she feels open to your personal thoughts/problems/issues, you should have no problemm telling her how you feel. :)
390113
is there any reason to tell him other than to just get it off of your chest? if there is no way he is ever going to find out about it, then dont tell him. Even if it happened a long time ago, he could still feel betrayed. like i said. he has all the right to be pissed if you told him already. but if you guys are good friends you will be able to forget about it over a couple cases of beer.
1067009
You can't tell people something they are not ready to hear. You are probably right and she probably knows it on some level. When dealing with friends you are always taking a chance when bringing up an issue like that, that you will upset them. You did it, now give her time to calm down, then let her know you only want the best for her because you care about her but your friendship is important to you so you won't bring it up again if she doesn't want you to.
131765
You don't tell him anything. If you were a friend at all, you wouldn't do that to her. Would you want someone to do that to you? I don't think so. Just don't even go there
551343
A good friend should be able to tell her friend anything.  If you really feel that she is making herself look bad, then it might be a good idea to let her know that you care about her and voice your concerns in a tactful manner.  She might not react well as it sounds like she gets validation through her actions.  But it might get her to start thinking about why she feels the need to advertise her personal life.
217713
You should tell him the truth about how you feel even if it hurts you don't want him to find out from someone other then you because it might make things worse but when and if you deside to do the right thing let him down easy and tell the you would like to remin friends good luck I hope this help's you.
650409
I have learned straight forward honesty is the best thing in a situation such as this. That way there won't be any misconceptions in what you are telling her. It may shock or even hurt her feelings, but if you don't care to be friends let her know. Good luck.\n\nEagleman
564237
why not tell??? go for it
260362
she is going to be hurt but you know what she has to know the truth and if you are a true friend nothin should stop you from telling her the truth. Girl she needs to know big time if she doesn't believe you then you'll just have to let her find out on her own thats not the best way but just try to tell her.
1100397
Why do you need to tell them?  If it doesnt impact your interactions with your friends, there's no reason why they need any explanation.  You should consider keeping your medical problems confidential - just between you and your doctor.  Good luck.
520943
Yes you should. Also, if your afraid by telling that you will lose his friendship, and just don't want to, then consider talking to you counselor and explaining the situation. They are trained to handle situations like this.
918439
I think you should definitely tell him! But be sutler, pick the right moment to tell him. \nYou know that certain moment when know one is around but you and him.     Also try not to dramatize yourself just be simple and honest and get right to the point.  Remember too, to be yourself.\nGood luck!!!
1020598
not necessarily, but I would not tell any of my secrets to anyone who I do not know really well. You need to trust him first, know him and feel comfortable to talk about it....
1007031
friendship is all about sharing all happy, sad , things in life... and well ofcourse sharing little secrets... u should definitely tell ur friend about that... and he/she will be there for u to share ur feelings and to help u...\nso go ahead....
690279
Have a mutual friend ask him about it without letting him know you were behind it. You don't want to scare him away if he's a good friend.
733592
as she's your friend, you should'nt lie to her. once you lie, you have to cover it up with a bigger lie and you'll soon get into trouble.