wat do u think of love from one side only (teens)????
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It's called unrequited love. It hurts. It can make you convince yourself that you can eventually be "good enough" to make the other person love you. It can make you convince yourself that maybe they'll "see" something in you one day that will them love you. But these are lies. The best thing to do when this happens is to move on. You can remain friends, but that's not always easy or possible. Either way, you deserve better than to waste your time and hurt yourself in this kind of situation. Remember that you must first love yourself before you can be successful in relationships. \n\nAnd... this doesn't happen just to teens. It happens to all age groups.
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Very true and I like your view on the subject. I for one crave finding that one soul that I can connect to. The heartbeat that makes my own sing in unision. Sound corny, perhaps, but true neverless.\n\nGive me sincerity and my heart shall sing the highest note :)\n\nPS Forgive me for my lameness!!
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...Teenagers like us have no idea what love is... That's what my uncle says. But anyway, love is the best feeling a human can ever feel. That's it. It's some sort of a powerful affection or something. Atleast that's what I know. That's what I feel to everyone I love. Especially through my girlfriend.
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Deepthinker (I love your name!)\n\nFor starters - This is something to remember -- on one hand, it is a GOOD thing to examine your steps, and decisions.   Too many teens (and everyone in general) do things without considering the consequences.\n\nOn the other hand -- TOO much introspection can lead you to stay in neutral.  Don't get me wrong -- if I were to choose between a regrettable, impulsive act, vs waiting too much, I'd still choose the wait.\n\nBut there are OTHER issues in life where you will need to recognize the person in you that procrastinates.   And, sometimes, waiting for the perfect moment, has its drawbacks.\n\nOK -- NOW, ON TO YOUR QUESTION:\n\nLet's examine your statements, one by one.   ("Your thoughts in quotes").   "I just don't want it because I'm still young but I really like him".\n\nOnly you know when you're ready for a relationship.   Respect that intuition.   However, if it's the fear of the unknown that's stopping you, then you can set the guidelines.  And take it real slow.   Just friends learning about each other.   That way, if he's not "the one", there won't be any hurt feelings, or lingering emotions.\n\nThe fact that you like him is worth noting.   Only you know why, so maintain a balance -- enjoy the moment, and keep your emotions on check, you know.\n\n"NOW AFTER A YEAR HE STILL LIKES ME AND HE'S WAITING"\n\nI don't know if that's typical of teens these days.   When I was a teen, I'd wait for someone to show her I wasn't playing the field, or that she was the one.   But I was just too shy to open my mouth, too!   Waiting a year for someone is admirable if the guy has raging hormones (sorry, to use that term), but shouldn't be a big deal in the sense that anyone with character would have these qualities.   \n\nI guess it's a good thing -- not spectacular, but good.\n\n"MIGHT NOT WORK FOR BOTH OF US.  I FEEL WE HAVE A LOT OF DIFFERENCES."\n\nThat will be an issue if the relationship goes long-term.  And it's not a bad thing.  Differences are what makes couples stronger.  If your communication skills are good, and your emotional levels are mature, you can help one another realize something about themselves (e.g  A blind spot, or something you can make them stronger in ).\n\nIt doesn't work if neither of you is willing to overlook the differences.   It won't work if neither of you are able to yield on these differences.  \n\nI don't know exactly what these differences are.  If they're cultural -- that's significant, though NOT impossible to work out.   If these differences are something like hobbies, or interests -- well, if you like one another, you will learn to appreciate what that other person is into, and it will add to your life experience.  However, if it's something like he's into sports, and you're not -- well, again, you can work it out.  Couples need to give one another space on some issues.\n\n"I ALSO BELIEVE HE REALLY LOVES ME BECAUSE ... MORE OF A DECADE."\n\nThe decade part is more of a consideration.  There IS something valuable in knowing someone for 10 years, even if you never spent time with one another.  It's significant in that the time to observe and indirectly share in a timespan has its value.\n\nYou don't, and won't know if he really loves you, DT.  True love is more than a feeling, or needing companionship.  It's unconditional.  It's mutual respect.  It's about forgiveness and acceptance.\n\n"SHOULD I GIVE US A CHANCE?"\n\nFriendship is always a good thing.  Just take it slow.  Don't have any expectations.   Keep a watch on the doubts, and see if they evaporate with time, and what caused them to leave.   If they left because of physical contact (and it's WAY too early, for that, and can lead to shortcuts you might regret later).\n\nBut, if those doubts leave because o
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I've always believed love is a 2 way street.  Therefore, the fact that you love her sooooooo much to be is doubltful - i know that's not what you wanted to hear.  Usually when it's this one sided there's a significant element of lust and desire for what one can't have involved.   Try to sort that out.
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I think when you are willing to but your needs or the backburner and care for him or her then it can be love. Love is sacrifice and care for the other on both sides.
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only to those in love ...
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Teens don't fall in love.  It's just an infatuation, there is a difference.  Teens aren't mature enough for love.
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Outstanding song, bad censors.\nIf my works were censored, I'd feel I was making it!  I'm not too upset at opposition anymore since I was reminded that "we're defined by our enemies (who they are) as much as by our friends".\nI'm not even close to being a teen any more (well, in my mind...), but reading your lines brings back the feelings unique to that period; there was never enough 'voice', no matter how many songs/poems there were, to express the feel of my awareness/questioning as a teenager.  \nKeep writing, never stop.  Write 'till your knuckles bleed (little joke there).  Hey, here're some lines: If I wrote until my knuckles bled, my precious words won't reach your head-  because your heart being so damn black, keeps kicking all my meanings back.\nOkay, g'bye.
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you should think yourself lucky some people cant find just one love let alone 2..how greedy..someone gonna get hurt
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it could happen, LOve is blind, You can help who you fall in love with!!!
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that gotta come from ur heart no one can answer this ''?'' fo u but ur self.when u love someone evreything comes straight from the heart and u dont gotta be thinking bout how or wat to say to them at all.
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Love is only an illusion if it's one-sided.  If you find someone who loves you as much as you love them, there's no better feeling in the world.  Everyone you meet will be able to see that love between you, and that right there is no illusion.
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Just about anybody who is old enough to understand the concept of the word is old enough to be in love.\n\nHowever, the nerve endings in teens, are less devloped, love felt in earlier years is often the most intense kind of love, they can't help feel everything, as people grow older these nerve endings cover over and sensatins become less, and other areas of the brain devlope further to deal with emotions.\n\nThe love felt as a teenager is the most intense and special love one could feel, if you are in this group, appreciate it and remember it for what it is, but bare in mind as you grow older other things will come into play, and people change over time, while it may feel like the end of the world right now, trust me you have plenty of time to grow.\n\nKindest regards and best wishes
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Think about grade school. That's how the boys act when they like a girl. I don't know why they do it, but it happens a lot. My first love was 19 and I was 18. I actually couldn't stand him and avoided him every time I'd see him. Eventually, I accepted when he asked me to go to my senior prom. Something clicked like magic, and it was like I was in heaven! We would be together today, but unfortunately, he has passed on. I still think about him all the time, laughing at the insults and meanness, and smiling at all the wonderful times we had together.
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Love is like a double-edged sword.  It's not healthy to have a one-sided relationship. I'd prefer the love to be on both sides
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lol chart was good... hmm for the first girl people are just used to talk this way on the internet.. so you believe love is all about feeling?? where's thinking among it? Unless you want someone really dumb to date you.. not age? would you go for a woman who's 50 years old??? Common man, think before you talk..