my ex failed to make our mortgage payments and failed to let me know, are there any resources that can help?
548156
First try with your mortgage company. Sometimes they have special hardship programs to re-age your account.
1109815
she can't personally but the courts can and will not only garnish your wages but u can also do jail time.  alimony is court ordered.  when the set the payment it is done based on your current financial situation.  your best bet is to get with an attorney and explain your situation and you have to prove that it is affecting you financially.  you will still face ridicule as to why you can't make payment.  either get a lower paying job or incorporate yourself.  if you get paid under your incorporated name then you can pay urself any dollar amount u want and your ex can only take so much of what you pay yourself.
177990
Try calling your lender or there may be a website listed on your mortgage statement.  Another possibility is contacting your bank and asking them if you can use on-line bill pay to pay your lender.
396341
I'm so sorry for your loss and I hope this helps. There a number of web sites dedicated to single dads with and without custody . they offer advise,emotional support and services and links to financial help for getting your support problems fixed or dissolved. I understand this so well, my ex has been stealing support from me the last 4 years and both my sons live with me due to his harsh abuse. The court has refused to acknowledge this fact allowing this theft to continue. Like you I have limited resources so fighting the Attorney General is not an option for me but I know that what comes around goes around. Hang in there and Bless you.
1061685
I'm in the same situation right now.  Try to get a bridge loan.  You won't have to make any payments for up to 6 months. I hope this helps.
931628
Go the legal route. Talk to an attorney or tax advisor. If you go to your ex-employer's home, call him, etc. he can file a harassment suit against you (and that would be much more expensive and look bad on your employment record/background check). You can send him a bill/invoice (make sure you keep a record of this) for collection purposes. Make sure it is straight forward and there are no personal jibes, threats, etc. as that could be used against you later. Just state the amount owed, what it's for, and a timeline it needs to be paid within.\nYou might be able to put a lien against his business, etc. and make him pay for any attorney fees/court costs depending on how much is owed and what kind of documentation/proof you have. Don't wait too long to do this because the statute of limitations on this is rather short.\nThe important thing here is not to look like a disgruntled ex-employee. You want to come across as a professional just looking to recoupe what is truly owed.
1020862
yes several out there just check for ones in your state by free legal advice ... ya states name....in a search or legal aide in your state can help some cases too.. depending on the problem.
885284
Go and see a solicitor, maybe a letter from them may scare him into paying up. Good luck :-)
429365
Unfortunately in the - very advanced - society we currently live in, the computers do not have a field for joint applications and/or accounts.\n\nThey - institutions and the like - say yes it is joint, but the fact is whoever is listed first, is who the account/property, etc is listed under.\n\nOne (the institution etc.) has to look further into the matter (via computer screen) to see the joint names.\n\nBut it is the individual that appears first on the account that USUALLY has ALL the control.\n\nHaving said that, when you contact the customer service departments, speak to a supervisor, if the rep. is not responsive. YOU ARE listed on the account and have the right to the information. So a)You should get billings - even if they are copies, and c)You are entitled to mortgage interest information - if you know the amount - then you are legally (understand I am NOT an attorney/accountant) entitled you use at least 50% - if not more. It depends on what percentage of mortgage /home equity you pay - even if you do pay ALL, ex may argue he used his funds to pay your 'whatever' bills.\n\nb)Equity account awarded to you - again speak to supervisor and/or their legal people. Explain you have judgment in your favor-they SHOULD- give you the access you need to the equity.\n\nd) If the house is in your name, then the house is yours and the loan is 'joint' Insurance claims as I understand (I'm not an insurance agent)are paid out to the lien holder's favor (mortgage company) who would then release it to proper party - like the people that reconstructed whatever broke - so do not pay out of pocket - let insurance company pay.\n\nNone of the above is easy, or a great way to do things.  it will take time, and probably longer than you would like. Document EVERYTHING, who you talk to and when, check your credit report regularly (I have a link to free report on my website) and do what you can to move on.\n\nYou may decide it prudent to get a second opinion from an another attorney, it may be expensive, but may be worth it, IF it allows you to get on with your life.\n\nGood Luck!
791634
She can't sell the house unless she owns it, the bank may be willing to work with you if they know what happened. Good Luck!
677886
Find the best lawyer that you can afford. You've been screwed. Since there's obviously been changes in circumstances for her since your divorce, it seems to me that there are grounds for revision of the terms. But see an attorney. That's the best thing you can do now. He'll advise you completely.
837165
Have you being paying the mortgage on time and can prove that you have been?  Then file those documents, otherwise Banruptcy may be your only solution.\n\nGood Luck
602600
You may not be able to, but the court can.  Is he under court order to pay child support?  Ask an attorney to follow up.\n\nI wish you Peace.
1160829
Mortgage Loan \n\n... Official would see your properties Guide Line Value.. they will calculate the amount you are requesting..\na percentage of amount will be deducted for thier future safety and some interest for the amount you barrow.. they would take a visit to your property..\nThen documentations.. that means you have sign in some agreements - stamp papers.. there will be some Time period...\nIf you fail to pay them back before the time they have mentioned in that legal Document... then you will be in serious problem.. the property you mortgaged will be taken legally..\n\nread the Documents very carefully before you sign on any documents... Especially when it comes to loan and mortgages...\n\n                           - Jin
392496
Go to court house and ask for deparment that handles foreclosures, they can help you.
1057245
Have you followed up with your lawyer? That might be faster than firing one and getting another. You could email him some message like 'I know you are really busy, and perhaps I should get my file back.'  However, I'd try just following up first.  Otherwise, ask what he/she thinks you owe them first, or you might find out he/she has incurred time behind the scenes that you will pay for and have nothing to show for.\n\nAlso, if you signed a contract, there might be something in there you need to take into account.
808836
That is up to the finance company. Some will repo it if you're late two or three payments. I would try to get them caught up ASAP or call them and see if they will work a new payment plan up with you or else you might be walking really soon.