I wish to make my x boyfriend be comfortable and friends with me, he is blocking me out when i try to call,?
535139
I'm sorry things aren't working well right now. I think the best thing to do is give him some space. Just let him figure out things in his mind before approaching him. Eventually, he'll probably approach you. If not, you can start contacting him again after a while of waiting. I think it'll be easier for him to sort out his thoughts and emotions if he has some alone time. It'll probably be easier to be friends after a break. If he's still in love, it might be really difficult for him to talk to you and your daughter right now. It might be painful. So if you give him time to just be alone, maybe it'll get better. Good luck!
448007
don't stress about it.  You should never sit around waiting for the phone to ring.  Go out and do something for yourself.  Go shopping or to a movie and get your mind of this.  Interact with people you haven't hung out with in awhile because of him.  When he's ready to talk he'll call.  Don't let your whole world be around him.  If he needs to find himself, let him.  Be there for him when he's ready to talk.  Take this time yourself to think about your relationship, have things ready to talk about when he's ready.
330977
if you fell uncomfortable..and you cant say that to him..then he isnt being just a friend. You should just not hang out with him anymore. If he is a friend then you should be able to set bounderies and such without hurting his feelings. Even if he isnt meaning it in a certain way..its how its coming across to you..and he needs to know that...either way if you cant be open and honest he isnt a good friend.
1053761
tell him that you can't be together and if you can still be friends
499025
This is how every serial killer movie starts off isn't it?  I would limit your contact as much as possible till he has his shit together. Try setting a schedule I will call you at X time on X day, and let him know that you are an independent person, and while you will support him he does not own you nor does he control your life. Set Limits! if he flies off the handle hang up on him and don't pick up until you're sure it's not him. Don't be afraid to cut him out of your life completly if you feel the stress is too much.
963037
well I use to be exactly like you. I never knew what to talk about with my boyfriend on the phone. But make sure you don't have dead silence cause that just makes it awkward. but ask him how his day went and whats new in his life or some topic in general
172306
explain to him how disturbign and hurtful ti si to you.  its quite disrespectful.  teh only person you shoudl ever give up friendships woth ex's for is your spose.  I am only engaged and i wont speak to any of my ex;s out fo respect for my man.  Expalin to him how disrespectful it is and that you want him to stop...he wouldnt approve of you doing the same would he?
87002
then he really doesn't want to be with you. don't put up with it . break up with him and if he comes back then he realized that he does like you and you're not as needy as he thought...but don't just sit at the house waiting for him and calling him. make other plans . don't let your life revolve around his. you need to be in control. don't act needy
744532
if your boyfriend doesn't call it doesn't mean he doesn't like you anymore. so don't worry about it. maybe he was to busy. hope it turns out great!!!!!!!
623547
be firm and dont waiver. stand your ground, do not return phone calls, do not "go out with him"
1098194
I'm having that EXACT same problem right now with a guy I'm hanging out with.\n\nAre you friends with him?  does he call you?  Do you hang out together?  Or are you wanting to know whether or not he is interested in doing these things with you?  Because there is a big difference, at least to me.
978842
Either move back home where you have family and friends, or find some new friends who can keep you company while he is away.  Depending on the type and closeness of the friendship, all your needs could be well satisfied.  :)  Enjoy!
372954
be his friend even though you don't want him as he does you I know he will be your best friend if you let him know up front i cant have this relationship with you but I would love to have you in my life. Men are persistent but if you give them a boundary they will push on it but stay where they should. you can always use a friend.
107645
I personally would be who you are...when you want to ask him to go to a place to hang out...just be casual-calm-cool-collective-confidence is the key. Guys get turned on like that...and than when your on the phone call for not chatting but casually seek him out...to what are his plans  towards the end of the weekend/like Thursday call. Guys really don't like many plans only because they are more comfortable knowing your willing to just hang out at any given time...\nPretend that you have things you can do if he says "No" that it's not counting on him for your fun! Believe me he will think your interesting this way...speak high of yourself, when he makes a comment say I already knew this about me but thanks for the compliment.Be supportive when he seems stressed, relate to a experiance you had in your time that would relieve him in to trusting you more as this person of love that you say-but seek out those times and listen then bring input-guys love this when you show some wealth to their ego when they are hurting or happy say what you love about him but not in a mushy way...sincere straight honest truth about who they are to you-people love to hear about themselves a lot...when your close the better it gets!\nMuch luck!-Tina
998194
Block your number and call him or get someone else like your friend to call and ask for him to see if he's really there. One question: if you think he's home, wouldn't he come on the phone since you are his GIRLFRIEND?
827144
Quit calling him... him going out of town will maybe give him a chance to clear his head and realize that you are what he wants. If not, then you don't want someone who doesn't want you. He obviously cares or he wouldn't have introduced you as his girlfriend! exspecially to his friends. I would say back off and he will come around. Hope things work out the way you want!
333905
Why doesn't he block her or have his number changes?  She can only contact him and talk to him if he allows it.  The problem here isn't her but your boyfriend.  If he wanted to stop her then he would have.