Do I wish my ex-best friend on her birthday even if she has stopped communicating for 10 months now?
547738
Sounds like a kindness on your part.  Just don't get your hopes up to be hurt.  People can be harsh.
1046968
Yeah you should defintaly send her some flowers and a card that says I"m really sorry.  You know make her feel like shes the only person in the world that matters to you!
1151389
Assuming he has yours (or knows how to contact you), I'd wait until he calls you. If he doesnt, then accept that his life has moved on so far, that he's not interested in furthering the friendship anymore. \n\nIf you were close friends, one would imagine he'd have your number on his cellphone or at least knows your address or last name, to be able to write to you instead? \n\nLeave the ball in his court...its often harder on the person left behind than the one who is venturing to new fields, as they are still holding on and have no new memories yet to fill the gap. \n\nIf he misses you he'll find a way but remember that  he probably knew for quite a while that he was leaving and so prepared himself for that loss ages ago. If he's never coming back (and knows you wont be moving there)....he might not feel that there is a good reason to continue the friendship now?
904622
I believe at this stage, she's not concious about what she asked u.. u need to do something, or say something that will really wake her up, and make her realise that her life, is her own decision.. \nall u can do as a best friend is give suggestion...\n\nu might wanna say something really really serious that will make her realise.. something personal i believe...
320161
PUT DOWN THE PHONE AND STEP AWAY.  Do not call your ex.  You'll end up looking like a desperate fool who wants to get back together with him and he will feel like he has 'won'.  Yes, it's that childish.  Don't call him and don't expect him to call you.  That's what a break-up does; it stops contact between the two of you.  There may be a time and place that you can be friends, but it is NOT now.  Now so soon after your split.  I know it seems like it should be different given your time togehter, but it's not.  I was in a 3 year relationship with a guy I wanted to marry and it ended badly.  I didn't talk to the guy again until 3 years later and even then it was akward and came across as desperate and stupid.  You have to accept this relationship as being over.  The first few months will be a test of your strength, but you can get through it.  You will never forget this guy.  It's been 10 years now for me and I still think of him and hope he is well.  But that doesn't mean you can expect a good relationship from here on out.  It's over.  Let it be over and move on.  Don't call him, you'll end up regretting it big time.
453884
You are right it wouldn't be fair to take her knowing what you now know. Tell her you are sorry but you just don't think of her 'like that' but she as has been such a good friend it is only fair to say it right out. \nOff course you could end up dateless then what will you do?
337340
Well, I think there has to be a good reason for this, a good explanation, maybe U did something she didn't like it, maybe she got a wrong idea about a comment U made, sometimes that happens, sometimes people just feel bad for something we've done or said, maybe U didn't do it by purpose, but she took it that way.\nIf she doesn't want to talk with U on the phone, maybe U could send her a letter telling her that U don't know what U did wrong, but U really miss her a lot and U wouldn't like her to be away from U because a missunderstood, so, tell her U need to know what U did wrong to fix it.\nU could also try to send her a note telling her that no matter what happened U're willing to accept U made a mistake and U really think she's your best friend and U don't want to lose her friendship, besides, if she considers U as her best friend too, she will be able to talk to U and she will try to fix the problem and to find a way to get over it.
118789
I agree, go help her, shouldn't you be there anyway if it's her birthday. If you took everyone elses advice you are already there are if not and you are still sitting at the computer reading this, then your might just be a jerk.\n\nHope it all works out!!!
682547
Well if you know the person is going to be back in 10 days just stay busy until the time is up.  If nothing else the time apart from the person will make you realize how much you enjoy your relationship with them =)
322188
keep in contact with them. I've been friends with my best friend for 12 years. (we're 21 now).. the secret is finding time to spend with each other.
961991
Take her out for a nice dinner and maybe even a movie so she will not be alone on her birthday.  Since she is only a friend, I would try and give her something on a small scale.  Maybe a framed photo of the two of you, a nice journal or a DVD that has special meaning to the two of you (something that you went together to see).  I think the key is to get her out and have fun together!
1124948
first thing to do: CELEBRATE. Do your HAPPY DANCE and be HAPPY that your ex is finally out of your life. We don't need selfish people in our lives and she sounds like one of them.
602338
YES, if it is ment to b, she will come to u before that is necessary. Or contact her but be patient
268057
well, can you get in touch? If not i would suggest taking a night to remember them and then just let go.
347422
She sounds like a good friend and the best ex..because she has feelings for you and her innocent nice heart told her to send this letter for sharing common sense with you.\n\nMaybe she felt sorry for breaking your heart and leaving you alone..and my suggestion to you is that give her another chance,reply her e-mail very gently and friendly, \nmaybe if you two follow your heart,then you will get back to one another..\n\ngood luck
328460
Happy Birthday to my sister. May all your dreams come true. Then tell her how you feel about her.
616773
get her a single stem flower and write her an apology inside of a card, tell her how much your friend ship means and that this really is trivia and you want her as a friend.  Its okay to apologize too.  You have to try something or you could regret it for the rest of your life.