my fiance wants to move out but i am too young?
537871
IF you are too young to move out how can you be engaged? If you can live on your own then you have no business being enganged. You need to get your priorties strait or at least grow up before you try to be an adult.
640588
Dear you are too young to decide on these issues. But you want to move away from him you have a reason to move away. U have studies as priority and concentrate on that. If he really loves you then breaking away is always not so easy and you have to go through that ache. Make up your mind and there is lot of life ahead and tell him about your decision with the positive note.
417865
well hon you are 24 it is time you make your own decisions. you have to start somewhere or your parents will never give you up.if you are sure this is what you want to do then stay where you are at. they will still love you just as much. good luck and GOD BLESS YOU.
778239
I personally dont think so I started dating my fiance at the age of 16 and he was 22. But it really depends are how mature you are. \nYou must remeber he is 7 yrs older than you. So he has experienced alot more than you have. You must ask your self if you think he is willing to let you take your time in certain aspects of your relationship. And that he understands your needs and wants at your age.  \n\nWell good luck for the future
683572
Because she is 18 and graduating,I'll bet when you restrict or pressure her,she will end up moving out and either shacking or marrying the 26 year old year old with children or want to.She is not old enough to make it comfortably on her own so she would most likely live with someone else.She will then have herself a ready made family that may or may not work out. You are doing her no favor paying "her"cell phone bill.When I was that age I had strict parents.Every child in our house had chores.We were never charged rent,but was expected to do chores to help out,it was not fair to our parents for them to do all the work when they feed us and gave us a home for as long as we wanted.If you did not follow their curfew and respect their home,then you had to move out. We worked a summer job and when we graduated were expected to work a full time job.If I made any kind of bill,I paid it,they did not.That is not being cruel,that's making me responsible.You are the step parent,so if I were you,I would leave it up to her father(her blood parent)to talk to her.If you try to,she may look at you and say "I don't have to listen to you,you are not my mother".So,for your feelings,let the father have a one on one talk with his daughter.Tell him to explain to her what he seeing her getting into and how it is going to be in reality such as:In the relationship with the 26 year old she will be a mother(step-mom)to another women's children,depending on how active the 26 year old man is, may end  up baby sitting while he's out doing whatever,may end up pregnant by this man and have even another child.Sit her down,don't be mad,just explain to her that yes this is her life and if "she" ends up with the 26 year old,her life is over as she know's it.It will be her burden to carry,not yours.Ask her to think about all the freedoms she has now and how she feels about losing all that at such an early age.You know how real life is and you only want the best for her.Now is the time to talk to her and get her to realize exactly what kind of life she is going to have if she ends up with this man.Don't be mad when you talk to her,just be very honest.Then do not cater to her irresponsibility.Let her pay her bills and live her life.Like my parent's told me,go out and make your bed hard if you want and you,not I will sleep in it.They said if you get into trouble,"you" will have to figure out how to get out of it.I thought my parents were mean,but I realized how much they loved me,some of their advice I didn't listen to,I wished I had.She is graduating and will be an adult somewhat.You have to let her make choices for herself.If she decides on a life of misery,there is not much you or your husband can do to stop her.Give her the best advice you can and stand by your word when you say she is on her own.She will find out really fast that life is not fair,things are exspensive,life is hard,that she had it so good and didn't know it and most of all she will quicklly learn she does not know everything and possibly that you were right.
390804
Take your time. There is no hurry to get married. If he isn't ready what good will that do you?  I can understand him wanting a job before he marries you. It makes him a good man not wanting to live off you. Slow down and enjoy your time with him right now, it will all work out okay........
704185
It sounds like you're already doing the right things - you have moved out, you have initiated divorce proceedings.  Go through with the divorce, and then look to the future.
694026
Wow your parents are being very selfish.  It sounds like you've made up your mind about your boyfriend and leaving him his not an option.  My advice is to move out asap.  You're 25, they can't stop you.  You're parents shouldn't hold that over your head...they are saying all that stuff to CONTROL you.  Trust me, sounds like something my mother would have said to me when I lived at home.  We get along a lot better now that I'm not living with her.  I don't think you're parents hate you but they are not being fair.  \n\nThis might sound out there but did you get your college degree yet?  That might help you get a better job and be able to afford living on your own.\n\nAnyways, I hope you feel better and I'm sorry you have to put up with that.  Again, move out asap.
129719
You are young yet, so I would wait until you reach the age of 18.  Are there any specific reasons why you would want to get married now?  Or do you both feel its the only way you can have any freedoms that your parents wont allow.
953458
You normally have to have been living with your partner for 2 years. If you are not living together or haven't been living together very long, there are other options. Are you planning on getting married, because he could always get a Fiance Visa and then you have to marry within 6 months. That's what I did, because although I had been with my partner for over a couple of years, we had only been living together for 6 months. Good luck : )
1068038
yes its too young to consider getting married, most definitely, planning for your education and future however are wise moves. definitely wait until after college, you have so much left to experience and who knows what will happen? people grow and change alot at your age and i promise you that neither one of you is now who you will be at 30 or 25 even. if its going to work and you are going to stay together you will stay together through college and you can get married when you are in a position to make it work and support yourselves and your family.
206511
Moving out may seem as easy as getting the necessary permission to do so, but you have lots to consider. I did some digging for a similar question on this subject, and I thought you might like to see that:
265408
well, if you both are over 18, doesn't matter what his dad says.  He can stay and get an apartment with you if he wants.
151129
I'm sorry, but this isn't your choice.  It is their house and their rules.  You can ask them but you need to respect their decision.  If you don't like their answer then you and your boyfriend need to get a place of your own.
1158553
I moved out at 18 to go to university. I got a small allowance from my parents that almost covered my rent but was not entitled to any grant so I got a job. I went home for the first Christmas holiday but after that I didn't go back for holidays just the odd few days as I was able to increase the hours on my job during the holidays. \nI think moving out at 18 is a very good idea, otherwise you can get stuck. My brother is 28 and still lives with our parents although he has a good job he feels he can't afford a place of his own. This is rubbish he has just got too used to having a large disposable income and doesn't want to have to spend it on rent or a mortgage. \nThere are plenty of ways to move out like sharing with friends or buying somewhere that needs work done so is cheaper. You just have to live within your income and make your mortgage your only debt. \nDon't expect to live in a palace when you are 18.\nDefinitely move out you won't regret it.
952368
as soon as he is mature enough to handle it & can support himself\nall my kids moved out at about 18/19 - 2 boys 2 girls\nbut I feel that unless there are extenuating circumstances then most definitely by 25 - prior to that if you are employed  then you should still be contributing to your keep at home;\n even if you are a student & on a limited income there are ways in which you can help out ; take responsibility for your own laundry; cook some meals; clean up after meals; mow the lawn;help with the housework - after all you contribute to the  "mess"  so you should be partly responsible for cleaning up.\ndo make sure that you ALWAYS tidy up after yourself.\nyour parents have done their job - it is now time for them to live their own lives again
961411
He will regret that for the rest of his life. If you really love him marry him and support his mission. Look at all the benefits you get and think positive. Why do  you want him to get out? Does he have a career lined up is he a college graduate? \nGetting out that way is not the answer. You want him to do that for you? What are you willing to sacrifice for him? Comon Think Straight!