How does someone lose feelings in one month when you've been together for 2 years?
534939
I think you're best letting this one go. He obviously isn't in for the "long haul" and if he gets bored with you that easy, then he's just not the one for you.  Yes, the "love rush" wears off in ANY relationship, but if there isn't a friendship and caring left that makes him want to stay, then let him go. I'm sorry this happened to you, but you are better off honey. Find someone who will always love you.
1123424
Ouch.  I am sorry for you.  In relationships, people don't always want to spend all of their time together.  What is interesting about our comments is that after 2 years the "honeymoon" phase of infatuated love is over.  So the real relationship starts, and this is when most relationships fall apart.  I don't know if I would get over the fact that he slept with someone within moments of the two of you have a  possible break up.  You need to talk to him and figure out what is really going on.
245371
No, if you have only dated for 1 month, you havent begun to really know each other.Take your time to see if you have the same interest and to let your feelings for each other develope or not develope.The relationship is still new. wait awhile and see if you still feel the same.
637767
So you've been going out with that cute guy in the year above for almost a month! his name is scribbled on all of your text books, you know his phone number off by heart, you carry a photo of him in your purse,but, alas it didn't last ..you feel very emotional and confused- you're angry at him but still fancy him to bits! you wanna cry but you wanna scream too. every single song on the radio reminds you of him!\nnow STOP! lets think about this- \ndo you really want to spend your life stuck in your bedroom, listening to love songs and crying for him?\nNO! you need some serious me-time, instead of wasting your time on him!\nso slap on a face mask, get out your dairy milk and put on some loud rock music that you can bounce around to and help take out your anger!\nyou're better off without him! why concentrate on a shark when there are loads of little nemos out there who would be a much better replacement! get out, make some friends and enjoy yourself! revise your flirting skills and you're knock em dead!
58335
start a coversation about things you both like who knows after your talk, you may not like him/her anymore. if you still feel the same way, the best way is just come out and ask for a date. if he/she says no then you just saved yourself some heartache.
93413
That depends entirely on your own feelings. If you return the feelings being demonstrated, try asking them out and and doing all the little things that are so sweet that they will remember forever, like taking them to see the sunset or making a romantic dinner and setting from scratch. If the feelings are not returned, then try to let them down gently and talk with them to try and figure out a compromise in your relationship like just staying friends.
150168
being female, i can tell you she either doesn't want to be with you anymore but doesn't want to hurt you, she's having bad pms, or she's seeing someone else that she likes better than you.  this is all if she just started being distant.  if she's been like that the whole time you've been together, then she needs help cracking her emotional shell
627096
Talk and see if theres things you have in common..\n\nFive months leaves alot more to learn\nBut try to find things you like to \ndo together.
607518
nothing you can do... Feelings can't be controlled.  You need to back away and let things unfold.  It will be painfull at first, but you never know what may happen.  That relationship may not last, and then he may see you in a different light.  Or you may find someone who sweeps you off your feet.
1123
I'm generally a quiet person, and I was very quiet around my now-girlfriend when I first met her. I think that likely drove her crazy... because she couldn't tell how I felt about her. After we hooked up and started seeing each other more often, my feelings just came through. I couldn't hold them to myself. There was a need to share them with her that I just couldn't imagine keeping inside.\n\nBut that's me - and not everyone is the same. Some people are emotionally sheltered and prefer to keep their feelings hidden away. Body language, gestures, and general mood and disposition toward you can give you clues as to how your significant other really feels. The question you need to ask, when you're finding yourself actively looking for attention like this, is whether or not you can be happy in the long term under these circumstances.\n\nPeople are tough to change, and if this is something you need, and your significant other is having a hard time dealing with that... you may need to re-evaluate your situation, or have a long and frank discussion with them regarding this.
285736
What did you do, if you post that you will get more help. Some times that is just the way it is. When something is in your face all the time you get used to it. It becomes something you think you can do without. The only way to know if you can be without anything, is to lose or let it go for a small period of time. Go the distance, if love is still there it can be rekindled. Spare no expense, use what you know about her. Shock her suprise her, make her feel like the love of your life, it's more than just words, it's action that makes the words. Good luck!
1003294
i know the feeling girl... i guess i should just ask you to let it go. let time take its course... i had the same situation, we didn't get the closeness back, it didn't matter what i do anymore... he hardly ever speaks to me now... i'm not saying you'll end up like us... just to avoid getting hurt, move on and let time decide for you... if he's for you, then no matter how long it takes... love would find its way and fate would bring you back together...
286455
You two need to go back in time and remember the special things you liked about eachother in the beginning and start to rebuild your relationship.  Sometimes couples take eachother for granted and after a while they stop doing and saying those little things that made each other feel special and they lose sight of the qualities they fell in love with in the first place.
760956
It hits you when you least expect it.  Then, after 1 1/2 to 2 years that "in love feeling" subsides and then the relationship takes work, communication and discipline to survive.  If you both put work into it, you'll become closer and love each other more and more.  If you think you'll just be in love forever no matter what, you're in for a rude awakening.  This is why some people marry someone different about every 5 years because they "just fell out of love with them."  Anyone who tells you differently has never been married for longer than 7 years.
955717
Your relationship with your ex is not completely over, you don't have closure OR you were so content in the  relationship you cannot adjust to the change fast enough.\n\nYou have to analyze your feeling honestly and openly and you will get the answer.
251281
Okay, 1st of all feelings like that just dont go away so he probably still feels the same way he just stopped letting it show. and 2nd you need to tell him how you feel. Im sure he will be thrilled to hear it.
141253
that's usually normal if you really love a person, there will always be an attachment regardless of how long you had broken up. a good crying might help to release all your pent-up feelings (regret, more importantly). find a diversion to keep yourself away from drowning into depression.trust and love yourself.a good therapy is also advisable.