My BF is happy wit me as i alow him to do everything wit me but not sex. Am i right?
537640
Well it depends on what you mean by everything.  If you are letting him perform oral on you and him not getting anything in return it will eventually get old to him.  If you don't want sex, then you need to cut absolutely everything sexual out of the relationship for now.
1114122
if u don't feel comfortable for what ever reason doing it on him, thats fine, but find another way to make ur man happy and enjoy ur experience... ;)
277901
If he's your boyfriend you are going with him. If your happy in which you   must not be as your asking this. Keep in mind no couples are always happy but the good and happiness need to be more than the not so good times.And if you've dated long enough you know what is not there for you .
494406
Well young lady first of all if you are really concerned about him using you...just say no and see where the relationship goes from there. If he is just using you for sex...then you are enabling him by allowing him to do so.  I mean is the experience pleasurable to you, or do you feel like after the deed is done he's less attentive and affectionate. In your heart I think you already know the answer to this question you presented.  Cut the sex out of the relationship and then you'll see his true colors.
443765
he sounds really stressed, try and not be so intense, Life should be made up of segments of things.. ie, friends, family, work, hobbies it sounds as if your life is just all about your relationship, make urself happier in other aspects and definatly calm down on the pleasing him and making ur relationship stronger, do things that'll make u a happier person, not just him.
551882
it would indicate so. he is showing all the signs of genuine affection towards you so he must still care about you deeply. i think that it might be easier for him to sustain this relationship like this, without actual verbal agreement. \n\ni think your status is seeing each other/non committed. i do, though, think he still loves ya! ;)
621947
No, it is very refreshing to find a man who can be romantic, and not just want sex..The lucky girl who'll get you will be very happy indeed..\nGood on ya..
8123
It is not a matter of hurting his feelings or not.  You should learn to express yours.  If you feel that he is using you just for sex and not trying to build a lasting relationship, tell him that.  It sounds like you might be ready for some kind of relationship, but you find that he is not.  Perhaps this will help you in the future.  Sex should be more than just a good feeling.  It is also something which strengthens the bond of a relationship.
813404
If you feel he is happy just to be with you and just having a decent conversation. If he tries to seduce either by trying to lead the conversation to naughty things or physically touching you, then definitely he's just after sex.
1077794
There is nothing wrong at all with that. Don't let yourself get wrapped up in the whole 'age thing'.  If he makes you happy and you enjoy his company, then that's all that matters.
676823
well i understand the feeling that u have but my bf says just be urself if u do the exact same stuff like this guy that does everything if u were going out wit him life would be boring cuz u r doin the same stuff over and over again everyday.when life is boring than there will be a big heart break at the end!!!trust i kno wat im talking about!!!
14857
Not easy to know without knowing him, but probably he does want a non-threatening source of sex. And he probably doesn't want to be alone, and you are like a safety blanket for him. And he probably does have good feelings for you, but doesn't want to make a commitment.\n\nThe question for you is whether you want a relationship like this. Does it meet your needs? Do you want a committed relationship? I doubt you will get it from him.
189088
My boy friend does a great job pleasuring me, so i don't have to do it my self
221267
It's not wrong at all if he makes you feel good while the two of you are together.  But you have to think realistically about the long term thing.  He's still very young so he may see things differently then you do.  Just enjoy the time that you do have.  That's all you can ask for.
331562
you don't sound like a sexaholic. you sound like you just really enjoy the opposite sex. there is nothing wrong with it as long as you are careful and honest with everyone. however, if you really think you need help, there are support groups for this sort of thing.
516648
Not really.But don't be too dependent on him.Having sex almost everyday is great but he needs to rest.
232254
Hello;\n  The best advice I can give is to explain to him how much you care and tell him all the things you admire about him. Then explain that you would like more out of your relationship than just sex. Then see how he reacts. If he is agreeable, then you can relax and enjoy new avenues of your relationship. If he still insists on having sex as his main concern, then you need to look at yourself and decide if you want to be used in that way.