Do all husbands look at porn?
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I totally know that knot you are describing. I think lots of men do look at porn but I wouldn't say all. It doesn't mean you aren't good enough or anything and it should only really be a problem when he turns you down for sex and turns to porn instead. Talk to him calmly and ask him why, but try not to act like a mother scolding a wayward child. Hope that helps. Take care of you.
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all it is ,is a fantasy .As long as they are just watching porn there shouldnt be a problem my husband does it and he only does it while im sleeping and it can be better soemtimes cause you could be real tired so just  relax and let him do his thing.
1061338
only if my hubby can watch.
717985
cheating was wrong. and you were right to make him earn your trust back. But i would not get to bent out of shape about porn. It IS just looking with no personal contact. Besides 90% of men in America look at porn, the Internet is just a new way to get it instead of buying magazines in a store. But if you are really uncomfortable as you sound i would seek couples counseling to see what is going on. It will help more than you know.
154926
Guys sexual arousal is visual, porn is a visual art and therefore guys watch porn to get more aroused for the wife/girlfriend.
733953
All men are visual creatures.  Most men like to look at the female body, we find it attractive.  We do not have sex with a woman based on the way we "feel" about her, it's about the way she looks.  Just because your husband is getting the visual stimulation from watching porn, it doesn't mean that he isn't attracted to you.  He propbaly lied to you about the porn because you admitted to watching it "to make him feel okay" and he believes that you dissaprove of it and he doesn't want to offend you.  So, if you are truly okay with it, let it ride.  If not, he'll keep hiding it.  Nevertheless, boys will be boys, don't let it get to you.
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Often men will turn to pornography to meet their emotional or phsyical needs.  They may feel that they cannot be rejected by porn, that they can be young again, that they can fantasize about being sexy.  Men may fantasize about both giving and receiving pleasure through porn (giving pleasure? you ask, well, the actresses are acting like they love what they're doing and men may fantasize about providing that pleasure).\nHowever, adiction to pornography does exist and can be a major issue.\nThe questions are:\n1)Is he addicted?\n2)Is he turning to porn to meet significant unmet needs?\n3)Is it merely a recreation that he enjoys and you do not?\n\nIf the answer is three then you should find a comprimise with him that you can both accept.  If he loved exploring caves and that terrified you, you'd probably work something out. . .\n\nIf it is one or two then you should be evaluating your marriage.  Counseling, practicing non-judgemental communication, and returning emotional and physical love to marriage are always good places to start.
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You can approach this with the knowledge that he is probably not cheating as porn fills that need to go outside the home. Guys are hardwired to have multiple partners and often porn fills that need. \nThe other over riding truth is men have the ability to view women in porn very differently than they view their wives. You , as wife, are the bastion of decency and honor not some cheap hussy who would appear on video. Therefore the women in film are in no way a comparison to you. Nor do we want them to be.  They are tawdry lust, you are our wives. Whether this makes you feel any better may be debatable. \nI think that, in a quiet moment , you explain what you discovered.\nTell him it disturbed you more than you thought it would, just as you did here.  Talk about your feelings instead of what he did which take the accusations out of the loop.\nIf you have not perceived some lack of affection or loss of sexual contact you can rest that it is not about you. The women there are detached objects which do things we would not request from our wives. They don't say no. They always make noise. They don't require affection. Consideration for them is not an issue. Unless he is hung like the proverbial horse the guys are not like him either.\nAsk him if there is something they do that he is missing with you.\nApart from frequency I'll bet he does not name much.\n\nGood Luck\n\nWomen view sex as a statement of intimacy. Men view sex with their wives like that sometimes. There are times when it is about release, plain and simple. It is release without dealing with any requirement to consider the feelings of anyone except themselves. There is a component which says just do it and requires no effort. I'll wager ther are few wives who would deal with the amount of sexual encounters required to totally deal with that because what goes with that is Wham Bam Thank You Mamm.  So unless its affecting your time together it is not about you. \nBTW the addiction thing is wrong too.
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Some men may feel their love life with their spouse is inadequate and therefore masturbate to porn to achieve sexual satisfaction. Or perhaps, they just want to get ideas to spice up their sex life.\nI think porn is good so long as it doesn't take control of the relationship like "Want to have sex?" "No, I would rather look at porn".
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Men are very visual creatures. If they see something they like, they look. Hell, women, look, too! There is no shame in that. The most important point of the matter is that even if he is looking at other women, he's going home with you!
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I watch porn all the time. I think it is great for anyones sexuality. and both with my husband and alone.
316712
Consider installing porn content filtering software( Strongly Recommend NetDog ,you can get it from www.netdogsoft.com  ) on your computer, NetDog will block all porn websites in the background when your husband use the computer
217771
Depends on the man. Some men are not afraid of intimacy and would use porn to enhance the act of it (with the partner sharing the porn as well).\nSome men use porn to subsitute needs not met by the partner they are with (but who would never cheat on thier partner - in effect remining "intimate within the relationship" as it were).\nSome men use porn as a device to avoid true intimacy.\nMost men a visiually stimulated. And it's part of our primal nature to look at other women.\nSo - to sum it up - it's the MAN and not the porn that is what is a determining factor in intimacy.
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no.... it's just fantasy and not reality... that's all porn is, is he with you or them??? who does he lay down by every night and have sex with??? If you answered you to both questions- then stop thinking the porn is anything other then fantasy and yes all guys do it and yes it's normal... Instead of worry, join in it and tap into some of them fantasies he has....
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Yes.  But don't think of it as jealousy, think of it as disgust.  Why ARE you looking at porn anyway? It's perverted. Your girlfriend has every right to be disgusted by it, and if you keep it up, it's not going to get any better.  Read "Every Man's Battle" by Arterburn & Stoeker.\n\nIt talks about porn and other male "issues" .  My friend read it, he said it was good even though he dosen't struggle with porn... he thinks porn is nasty too...
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You would find signs of it and by the way porn is usually hard on a computer, not sure why but very unhealthy computerwise.  There are ways to look at the history of where you computer has been and porn sites have cookie like things that they leave on a computer.  Someone with half a brain could find evidence of it if you need it.\nWhat if it is then?  I don't know who other is; but, it sounds like they should not viewing porn.  Well, it is hard to be more specific when one, I don't know your computer skills and two, others remains undefined.
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IT SURE IS! FIRSTLY BECAUSE IT OVERFLOWS ONES BRAIN WITH THE IMAGES THAT U SEE ...RESULTING IN A HIGHER SEX DRIVE AND FRUSTRATION LEVEL. WATCHING PORNOGRAPHY CAN LEAD TO REGULAR SEXUAL ACTIVITY OF MASTUR****** AND IN SOME CASES RESULTS IN RAPES AND ABUSES. IN CASE OF MARRIED MEN,,,IT CAN LEAD TO EXPERIMENTATION OF SEXUAL ACTIVITY AS PROJECTED THRU THE VIDEOS AND PICTURES..AND CAN LEAD MEN TOWARDS WANTING TO HAVE MORE THAN ONE SEXUAL PARTNER. FINALLY, IT CAN LEAD TO TIMEWASTE AND IS A WORTHLESS SOURCE OF DISTRACTION.