are guys afraid to committ?
539919
Some are some arent, really depends on where they are in thier life and how they feel about the other person.
1101449
Chances are guys are shy too.\nIf you are shy around guys, approach them with some other girls. That will add some intimidation on the guy side as well. Don't try to get rid of your shyness all at once. Take it a bit at a time and it will come naturally.\nGliding Squirrel.
944563
I don't kno if this will help any \n\nbut deep down men are more scared of being hurt than women are
1000873
Don't be afraid to make the first move.  Some guys are more nervous than you are.  Great if he says yes, and if he says no, who cares he's not good enough for you if he can't realize a good thing when it's staring him smack in the face asking him out.  I did, and now I'm married to a great guy. Good luck.
806046
If he cares about you then nothing will seem that strong.  Usually though if guys want to make a commitment, they will be the one to tell you.  Your happiness is on the line.  If he is ready to commit, then he will. If he isn't ready then he won't and then you can make your decision as what to do, whether to move on or stick it out.
375543
Your fear is understandable, Pup. But he might say, yes. Ask him what his gf requirements are, thena sk what he thinks of you. Then ask him out. If he says no, although I don't think he will, don't let it discrouage u from asking other guys.
298176
Most guys tend to think in terms of logic and act on instinct. Men are problem solvers by nature.
213495
It's called commitment and it's very natural to have a sense of fear.  Some people are afraid that things will change dramatically when the marry and they do.  The key is to try and keep moments of being carefree and remember this is a union and so it is something to be worked at by both.  Make sure he knows of your fears of things changing and try and work together to keep things the way they were when you were just dating...Keep on dating even after marriage.
1099434
I'm going through the same thing. In my opinion men who are afraid of commitment and also afraid of losing a great woman send very mixed signals. Once it starts to interfere with the quality of your life, you need to let go and move on. Maybe standing for your values will open his eyes, maybe not.
250638
guys tend to be drawn toward something they can't have.  also they like to be territorial, or they could have always liked you but were too scared to say sumthin until you started liking some other guy.  it's a competition thing.
1117922
Commitment phobia? You mean things like relationships, weight loss, and stuff like that. In my case it is just laziness and sometimes lack of time/money etc, lots of excuses why I will not want to commit. Or just that I dislike doing something.
1073699
I beg to disagree!I believe girls are not afraid of love but of what this love would bring.\nHope u find A GIRL WHO HAD THE COURAGE TO FACE HER FEARS.\nThere are soooo many out there waiting for Mr. Right.(Iknow!)\nGood luck!
601662
I don't think it's fear of commitment. I think it's fear of falling out of love. What happens when you're in a relationship and you just don't love the other person anymore? Divorce, cheating, etc. People are uncertain about their feelings, men and women.
214903
Guys, afraid to love? You must be kidding! Guys are warm & affectionate & generous with their emotions. We share and confide and console. I can't imagine WHAT you're talking about.\n\n(Actually, most guys are like your boyfriend. We don't learn to express our emotions very effectively and, when we're young, we feel so many different things depending on what our hormones are doing that day, that we don't know WHAT to express when we WANT to express it. Best thing for you, just move on. You'll find someone.)
1121229
Really depends on the guy though doesnt it? I mean women freak out as well.\nIt also has to do about the way it is brought up.\nAnd well, women do seem to have, at the back of their mind, this reminder that if they want to settle down and have kids they need to do so by age of (am a guy forget what age that was again) while us men half the time think that we got all the time in the world. So it might not even be not wanting to commit to you, just really feeling rushed.
237000
There are a lot of ways to look at this issue. From my perspective, I see it as an advantage. You automatically weed out the superficial losers that just want something from you. There may be fewer guys that are willing to commit to a relationship with someone who is impaired in any way, but they are more likely to be quality men. It's not a whole lot different than a woman with children if you think about it. It's not you who really has the problem, it's those who are afraid to commit or to leave their personal comfort zone to experience something new and different that have the problem.
463265
I guess its cos they're afraid to get tied down & loose their freedom. But really the truth is if you find the right person you dont feel any fear at all. All you want is to be with that person whatever it takes. So in a way if your man doesnt seem to be willing to commit it shows the depth of his feelings for u.