Straight Ladies:   Have you ever been to a gay club before? What did you think?
540526
Yes, I went with my brother who is gay and his partner because they felt more comfortable there.  I had a great time, met some of my brothers friends, danced all night.  No gay women hit on me, they knew I was straight.  I had a good time.
1052764
I have fantasized about being with another woman. Yes, my husband was the first to know. And it was more than one occasion, however, I have never been with a woman, physically. Not the one friend I have fantasized about or the celebrity/entertainer in our area.
953276
No.  As long as they weren't being offensive in what they said when gossiping to others about what they believed my sexuality to be.  Most of my Friends are pretty straight shooters.  We try to not gossip over much about things concerning the group.  We tend to circle the wagons.  if she or he WERE malicious in their commentary, I would be offended by the way they talked.  Not by what they said.  And no...I'm not gay.  I'm Italian and Irish.  Very passionate people.  We do alot of hugging.  Way touchy feely races of people I come from.  Could be mis-construed.  I've had a number of gay woman come on to me.  lol   I take it as compliment, but don't take them up on the offer.  :)
842006
f*g hag to the rescue! most of my friends are gay. when we were younger and couldn't get into clubs and such we went to the wreck room on the strip. my best friend did drag there for a long time and was even voted miss gay oklahoma. just like you, peeps at his school didn't know about him. we used to go there and hang out with everyone else that was gay and have a great time! this is the only club/clubs i will go to when i'm home (currently military and stationed in texas, yuck).\ncheck out this website. it lists all the clubs on the strip. you should check it out sometime. hope this helps?
832994
do you mean you never go out with a girl  ?\nwhy  it is so much fun  \nI love to go out with my gay friends
1061318
An old girlfriend and I actually discussed doing this...putting an ad in Craigslist and asking for 4 different couples (didn't matter the relationship) to come for dinner. In the responses, we wanted to know WHY they should be the ones invited, and HOW they would make the dinner more interesting. (We were NOT looking for anything sexual or drug related).\n\nWe never did it...but talked about it alot. Who would have shown up? What would the conversation have been? Political? Economic? Music? Travel? Prejudices? Books? War? Would any of the couples have ended up as friends with us? Or with each other? Would it have been a complete disaster???\n\nI still wonder....
930513
If you've not really been out on the scene then you are probably unaware that there are many feminine gay and bi-sexual women around (I am one of them). It's perfectly normal to only find fems attractive and so I wouldn't worry about this at all it's just personal preference. Don't listen to those having a go on here, it doesn't sound to me like you are preying on these girls but merely that you find them more attractive than what you see as obviously gay girls...and that's fine. Try to get out to gay pubs and clubs more and you will see that gay women come in all descriptions and not just your stereotypical "butch". Straight girls are often experimental with one another and from my own experience this is not a route that a gay or bi girl should follow. They may flirt with you or even snog you but they will never want a relationship with you and so if that's what you want I suggest you go and find it (with a feminine gay girl). Good luck.
1139905
To be honest (i'm straight) i'm not anymore interested in the lifestyle of my gay friends than i am of the straight ones!  I mean i'll ask them how they are or what they have done over the weekend but nothing i don't ask any one else!!  I think some straight people either: a)secretly wonder if they are missing out on something; either sexually or with the lifestyle/social scene OR b)-and i know lots of people like this-are pathalogically nosey!  They have to ask you questions about anything and absoloutely EVERYTHING!  Its just the way some people are; they cannot function happily without feelin' as if they are included in everything!!!  Don't some people just DO your head in!!!!
737494
While I do find some straight men attractive I have never made a pass at one, I personally would consider that disrespectful.  However, I have been asked out by guys I thought were straight a few times.  \n\nAs for me I rarely if ever really 'made a pass' at anyone.  I am shy about that, I preferred to simply be nice and let them know by signs I was interested and then they would make a pass at me.\n\nI grew up in the South were flirting is still an honored tradition.
1104161
I've changed sexuality (or rather my perception of it) First I was straight, then I was gay, then I was ashamed & scared so I thought I'd be straight...\n\n...I was in my twenties before I realised I was Bi - would I change it? Not on your nelly.\n\nI hope you have a fantastic time in college - but remember you're also there to study LOL!
958185
They seem to be hotter to you because they are unattainable, you always want something more if you know you can't have it.\nOne time to straight female coworkers wanted me to take them to a gay bar that I frequented. While we were there, I noticed how much they commented on the looks of the gay men and asked them about it. One of the girls responded "It's like window shopping, you like to look at things that you can't have."
836429
Definitely.  As a straight male, I will cop to the stereotype that I find lesbians erotic and exciting while I find gay men rather gross. (sorry!)
963855
Oh, no, don't try chat rooms! I'm begging you - I can tell you very bad experiences about that. How large is the town in which you live? Is there a gay community center? They often have singles groups. Is there an MCC church? Even if you are not a religious person they may have activities in which you could participate or opportunities to volunteer. Volunteering on any lesbian related project is always good. Do you like sports? That can be a good way to meet girls, too. (And if you are a terrible athlete, like me, remember that they always need a right fielder!) Are you in college? Does your school have a gay alliance? Are you in high school? If there is a gay community center in your town then they might have a youth group. And, yes, Home Depot is always good! (and in Denver so are folk concerts for some reason) And be nice to all the lesbians you meet, even if you're not interested in hooking up. Some one who is way too old and in a couple might have a wonderful friend, niece or daughter.
1067382
not a best place to look for women....look somewhere else....may be a club?
681988
Unusual, yes, most straight guys I know are freaked out by gay men.  I wish I could find a straight man that is comfortable around gay people.  My best friend (whom I live with) is gay and I would love to find a man that would be comfortable with my best friend .
823811
I went to prague, and they are alot less uptight about sex in general, the local bar had strippers etc and you could have an escort turn up at your door within minutes if you wanted to. I dont think that is true though, they are not that bad i dont think, i found it a bit seedy, but then im not into that kinda thing being a girl!
694550
Well, I'm not straight (bisexual), but I have a strong preference for men, and I'm a virgin of each, so maybe that puts me pretty close to straight gals.\n\nI like gay girls.  They're fine; I don't have a problem with them.\n\nWhat do YOU think about them?