is love only sexual attraction or there is a part that the heart plays?????
550842
Love is much more than S** and yet it needs much more than mere looking into each other's eyes and living by it...Heart aches when you are not with the one you love and it leaps with joy, you feel those butterflies fluttering inside when u see the one you love...\nSexual part of love is very important because the best way to show you love someone completely is by sharing the only thing you really possess i.e. yourself with him or her completely...
481435
Than that would be lust.. not love. To fall in love usually you at least need to speak with the person, unless they are a deaf-mute.
315242
I think its possible to fall in love with that person's spirit or how you perceive their spirit and soul. It takes years sometimes to find out if a person is who you believe they are. As for a physical attraction, that will take an in person meeting. But maybe this is how you were supposed to meet your soulmate so take a chance otherwise you might regret it later and always wonder....what if?
508858
Love means different things to different people. I believe the term is tossed around in too many ways, to the point where it almost has no meaning anymore. I prefer to use "intimacy" or "attachment."\n\nThere are biological aspects of attraction and passion that are an important part of intimacy. These form very potent sources of fuel for a relationship, and I think they can be very important if they also include a certain amount of consistent communication and emotional process. Other important ingredients include mutuality in the relationship, respect for the person, and empathy for whom they are and what their needs are.\n\nSimpler signs are merely that this is somebody with whom you feel comfortable and enjoy spending time. This should be somebody you look forward to sharing an important experience with, and without that person, that experience would not be as special. Finally, you should feel that your life is fundamentally enhanced by having this person with you and when this person is not with you, you lose something meaningful.
918502
I don't believe there is love at first sight.  I believe there is lust at first sight (initial physical attraction) then love can come later.
350916
love is one heart in two bodies...
31760
Love IS emotional, NOT SEXUAL, and something "indefinable" that you feel in your heart and soul for another person. It's so easy to feel alienated in this MATERIALISTIC, DIVORCE-RIDDEN CULTURE OF OURS, where people, especially celebrities, change partners as often as bedsheets (old saying).  LUST IS purely physical, what you feel when you masturbate alone in your bedroom, or LUSTFUL THOUGHTS WHEN you see someone walking down the street, etc. that REALLY AROUSES THE PHYSICAL DESIRES IN YOU !  We all do it, some DENY that they do it, but IT IS SIMPLY part of our human/animal nature (the urge to procreate, perhaps ?)  You couldn't marry someone you weren't at least SOMEWHAT "turned-on" by, could YOU ?  LOVE IS ALSO IN THE MIX, and that's THAT !!!!!!!
960509
Of course you can garner a strong attraction for a person.  Strong enough to where you believe its love.  Everyone falls in love differently.  I do believe it's possible to have a strong affection, attraction and desire for a person that you haven't met face-to-face.  Is it a strong love or true love - that's the better queestion.
995713
It is lust, or as someone said, desire. Love isn't a feeling, it is a choice. You choose to love someone.
511834
Attraction can happen in an instant. Love is something deeper  - happens when you get to know more about the other person. You can like someone one day but find that you start loving him as you come of know more of what he is like.\n\nUh- Arriola, grow up. You don't hurt the feelings of someone who tells you they love you. It is immature and juvenile. And Love does not mean you need to always die for someone. It is much much more than that. Duh!!
598510
i don't know if you're going to like this.  TRUE love is loving yourself.  everything else is fabrications of your mind to bring pleasure to your life.  i.e. emotional, phscological, physical, romance, passion, companionship etc. are all things that you seek to find within yourself.  being within a lack there of you begin to seek it elsewhere.  what we call puppy, false love.  hence, a partner of the opposite sex.  or same sex, whichever some prefer.  anymore questions feel free to hit me up.
416164
I'm not really sure about this one but i do believe that there can be an instant attraction between two people that later leads to love!!!
406374
Definitely not, we all have a first love, and more times than not this is not the person you end up with for the rest of your life.  Love like many other things in this world comes in many forms, from puppy love to the all time passionate love we see in romantic movies, but somewhere in between those two is real love.\n(Infatuation--Love--Obsession)
61744
how long have you known him?  what do you feel?  I mean really feel in your heart, physically, mentally?  are you sure it isnt just lust, infatuation, physical attraction or just puppy love. I believe if your in love with someone you will know without question.  I think the fact that your wondering if you are in love with him that maybe your not in love but one of the other things listed above.  Just my 2 cents
589529
Love is emotional and can be experienced without sexual ties.\nLust is sexual.
388360
I'd like to say that it'd be best to mary the one who you love and loves you back the same way, but we'd be looking for a soulmate if such thing really exists.  By using your heart only, you might think you love someone who you really only like some characteristics such as cute handsome pretty, funny or sporty type etc.  But in reality what has that someone really done for you to make you feel loved, cared for, safe, and comfortable around him? How confident are you that he will always be truthful and understanding? Think that if you have a lot of feelings that are not mutually answerd you could really get hurt, as to what you could come to find out how much love you can recieve and eventually correspond the same way.
603275
i don't believe in this. love is true only when the lovers understand each other. the feeling that comes in you when you look at the opposite sex for the first time is not called as love. it is lust.