for women only- if you were dating a really great guy.........?
551871
he was young and it was long before he met me so it wouldnt worry me
656283
That depends entirely on how your relationship with him. Whats sort of committment are you talkin about. If i were in your place i would go on and achieve what i wanted to, if they guy loves me he would wait.
968321
Absolutely not old fashioned at all! Stick with it......there is a woman out there that will really appreciate your efforts to do the right thing. I am currently dating a great guy x several weeks now. His manners are impeccable and it is SO appreciated by me.
569673
When I first met my man, the first thing I seen were his beautiful blue eye's, I was in love with his eye's from that moment on. As time went on, I fell in love with many more things about him, they are as follows-\n\n1-His sweet personality\n2-His honesty\n3-He is stable in all the ways that are important to me\n4-I find him incredibly sexy\n5-He interacts very well with my children\n6-He's dedicated\n7-He loves to cuddle as much as I do\n8-He's fun to be around\n\nI could go on and on with all the qualities that I fell in love with in my man but I think y'all got the ideal.\n\nAs in how would one expect to meet Mr. or Mrs. Right, we never know where or when we will meet him or her. I met my man at a local bar. When I met my man, a relationship was the last thing on my mind, I simply was not looking and had that what do I need a man for attitude. But once we met, we connected immediately. Now I can't say love at first sight but I can say I knew I was falling for him very quickly (within a few week's) and I knew it was as real as real gets, something very special and something I had no control over, I really do feel a higher power was involved.\n\nOur relationship has progressed quickly, we are now living together & planning to be married soon and purchase a home together. I can honestly say I have never loved a man as deeply as I love my man, he is the bomb and rocks my world!!!
624564
well the 1st time i saw my sweetheart i thought he was the sexiest thing to ever walk the earth! he was just so handsome. i did not even know him at the time so i was just attracted 2 him physically. hes tall, dark, and very handsome. he also had a smile that could make my knees go weak.\n\nnow he and i are dating & have been together for 6 months. i am very happy with him. there was one point in our relationship when i didnt find him as attractive as i did b4. i dunno what happend. i think it was bcuz of the fights he and i had been having at the moment & it made me wanna get away from him. but now that we made up i find him sexier than ever b4! he gets sexier and sexier every time i c him. & my love 4 him grows more each day 2 =)
595189
I believe in second chances so if I were you then I would casually date him for a couple months, maybe like once a week and just see if he has changed. Don't commit yourself to him and don't let him suck you in. Be sure to make yourself happy, like going out with your friends some nights. If you spend all your time with him your going to get blinded. Who knows, maybe someone else will come along and you will suddenly no longer want this guys attention. But make sure that he knows your not committed and your an independent woman.
680393
I would settle for a poor guy who spends time with you.  I have been through this b4.. My ex- fiance would always work and work, and would never find time 4 me.  He was always a materialistic man, he would shower with me with gifts to show that he loved me.  But I needed more I needed some1 to show his love and spend time with me.  Even if is walking around the park going for a ride.  Well I am no longer with my ex I was with him for 10 years.  I would tell him but it didn't click- now he spends time with his new gf- what a loss he had I am pretty sure he regrets it now! he has told me-
862410
he's a professional who trained at making ladies feel comfortable. Sounds like a bit of an unhealthy infatuation. Maybe your next boyfriend should be made aware of your needs, to be treated with dignity and respect.
1089460
He's a game player.  You do NOT want that for yourself.  If you did date him, he'd already have taken some of your self-confidence away.\n\nA good boyfriend would want to see that self-confidence propped up.  There are other men.  Really!  Move on.
69415
As a fellow guy I would tell you to follow Stephen Hawking's example. He has a great wife because he is very rich and very smart which are two things women care about more than anything.
948562
I was totally into a guy at work.  He was soooo sweet and sooo adorable.  We were talking on the phone one morning after work and he asked me to come over.  I was sooo excited, but when I got there, I realized he was fat.  Seriously fat and I could tell he was very self conscious about it.  I wanted to turn around and walk out but I felt so sorry for him that I did it anyway.  He was actually really good, though.  Like three times really good!!!!!!
927679
Lucky you.  Sounds like you have the perfect ingredients for a great relationship.  You already know eachother very well and you already have a great time together, so go for it!
1112747
the guy i've been dating for the past 3 months i think is my soulmate. We can talk about anything and everything w/o worrying what we are saying to each other. We are both very stubborn but when it comes to arguments neither of us leaves w/o resolving the conflict. I've never felt this way about any other person and he has once but that was b/c the other chick was good in bed. We haven't slept together, and yet he's already talked to his immediate family about a wedding in the next 5-7 years. I wouldn't imagine marrying anyone else.
1167883
I met a lady on line and finally met her. She was about 10 years older than me and we both knew we didn't want to get serious, just have fun. We had a great secret and private relationship for about 4 years before she started to have physical problems.\n\nThose are 4 years, though that I will never forget. Unlike women my age, this lady really appreciated me and made me feel good. I went out of my way to appreciate her too. Sometimes I wish I could find somebody to take her place, but at least I can dream about her.\n\nTX Guy
1170723
YES........  I would do it all over again.. Even though he can be a real pain in my ***, sometimes....  I have invested so much energy into him and the things we have overcome and survived through, have no doubt made us stronger and more committed to each other.  And the fact that he has given me the ~BEST part of him with our two beautiful baby girls.~  He is more beautiful today than the day we met and I thought he was oh wow so damn fine when we met. He charmed my pants right off of me... And I think that one big factor is that he still does........~  Thank you for the trip down memory lane.......!~  He will get a Special treat just because of you...........~   Sorry I guess that was too much information, wasn't it?!
955608
depends on the girl! and also: depends on HOW GREAT your personality, or HOW GREAT your looks....and then also: tastes differ...so if say, Orlando Bloom would be outside singing me a seranade but turn out to be a real dick i would say NAY thanks, and if someone "ordinary looking" (whatever that is) or Not-So-Hot with a great personality would be doing the same id say YAY!!!.....I've fallen for both....both are appealing in a way; but beauty will never win someone's heart....my best/most intense experiences were with men with a personality that made me go SWOON rather than their looks...in fact: their personalities made their outer appearance really appealing to me (regardless of backhair, chubbiness, beginning baldness etc....) ;-)
1167313
My husband is very appreciative. He tells me daily how much he loves me. How great of a mom I am and how proud he is of me. He treats me like I am the greatest thing to ever walk this planet. (I don't agree with him) In turn I do the same to him, but he really is the greatest ever!