why does it seem for the MOST part nice guys really do finish last?? what is it about bad boys women like??
535770
immaturity. because the women who like the bad boys are immature. the bad boys seem to have a lot of confidence and that definitely helps, too. i don't like the bad boys anymore. i think i'm growing up!!!
122505
yes the so called bad boys love the socalled good girls. the bad guys see the good girls as a way out, and the gg well its there excuse to be bad
349838
I don't think either finish last, I think each group has qualities that some girls are attracted to, and those girls gravitate to the guys they like. I will say that I would rather have a nice guy who treats me right than a bad boy, who thinks he's cool.
701115
Well what happens it, us woman like the bad guy early on in life.  We think we can change them and some of us even have fun trying.  As we get older, and more mature, we realize that what we want is a guy we dont have to change.  One that already has all the qualities we want and one that is honest and caring.  One that makes us feel secure.\n\nMost woman who are ready to settle down look for the NICE GUY!
209121
Nice guys finish last because they are smarter. A good thing is always worth waiting for. They usually are more humble than most and have no need for the 'glory'of being first. Trust me humility makes you a better man and a better lover.
569663
Tough question as we all love that bad boy . We all want a little wildness in our lives (sex) and then again we like the good guy who is romantic and ccareing and dependable.\n   I have found if i go for the so called good guy later down the road he too has that bad boy in him so you get the best of both worlds.
173980
Because they feel sorry for themselves and get pessimistic and then they start feeling bitter toward women and women HATE that. I think Nice guys look at and compare themselves to other guys and imagine and assume that other guys get more girls and have more luck then they do, and they figure "it must be because I'm a nice guy". It probably just means that the other guy is braver, more aggressive, or that the girls you are attracted to are insecure and immature and only think that a guy who makes them anxious and even more insecure is worth it. Trust me though, most women that I know who are HAPPY in their relationships have all married nice guys who help with the housework, talk to them, go shopping with them (they don't all enjoy it though) and buy them flowers from time to time.
1008187
Hi girl , a girl who's attractiveas you should not worry and get involve with bad men. first of all you need to re think of what sort of man you want. i know some great guys because i knowwhat i want and go for it.#\nWhy not do that and not waste your time. Men just leave coz most of them have no ideawhat they want when they get to know you all they remember is how you look and act not how you feel or felt thats why.
896924
bad boys are exhilarating!!!    i like to be kept on my toes!!;-)\n\nreally though i like to find guys who are caring, etc. after you get to know them.  but in the beginning i'm into the a**holes.  its a rush to be overpowered and out of control once in a while!!\n\n;-)
1131023
HEY THE GUY ALWAYS CAME FIRST,THE NICE GUY USUALLY GOOD LOOKING HONEST AND RESPECTFULL GETS PASSED BY FOR THE JERK WHO GETS IN THE GIRLS PANTS THEN KICKS HER TO THE CURB. SOME NICE GUYS WILL TAKE HER BACK EVEN THOUGH SHE IS TAINTED! HAS SHE LEARNED LESSON? NO  SHE WILL DO IT AGAIN.
362432
It's not hard, but it seems to me from my experiences that women say they want one thing then actually go after another....\nI'm yet to meet a woman who would go for a genuine nice guy over an asshole who treats them like crap, maybe they just need something to complain about to the nice guys they just want to be "friends" with...
794915
i agree with you, man... they think just because some guy is willing to stick their penis in their vagina and move it in and out, that means he loves her!!!! huh???  it doesn't even make sense.  they always go out with guys that just use them.  i don't use girls and i end up alone.  nice guys finish last, i suppose.
385163
Because nice guys finish last. look at it this way....\n\nClark Kent (the nice guy) was always mild mannered, and polite. but do you think Louis ever gave him the time of day?\n\nSuperman on the other hand could tear anybody a new ass.\n\nWho did Louis go for????
308932
Here here! Mike, you have a very good point sir. I've noticed women start out young picking the abusive, hurtful, untrustworthy bad boys while blowing off the "good guys". Years later after being used and abused they're ready to settle down with a nice guy and expect us to be like we were. Sorry ladies. While you were off being stupid, we were busy being rejected, damaged, and "just friends" in the interim. You want the best of both. You want to have your fun and then settle down when you're ready. Then you complain that there are no good men left. Now you know why. \nWe had patience waiting for you to smarten up. Now you have to have patience while we're learning to trust you again.
928394
I have found that they do, its just hard to find them sometimes.  Many girls, once they get past the "ewwwww" factor they like dating a guy who is considerate, thoughtful and mature.   The only problem i ever found was that sometimes their bimbo girlfriends would interfere and try to "save" them from dating an older guy.   You have to have a girl with some self confidence and who can tell other people to f*** off.
443163
Well....not everyone learns their lesson.  I'd rather be with a handsome sweet honest guy.  Sometimes girls dont learn that "bad boys" are toxic and they just keep going after them cause they want to "help" them.  Though...It is far better to be with one who is nice and appreciates you.\n\nI also dont understand the opposite, nice guys with girls who are drama queens and treat them like dirt and tear their heart out and rip it to shreads so that they can hardly believe that there are good girls out there.
348470
Guys think high maintenance girls are a lot of work. Some guys actually enjoy the work, but most don't. Many guys will try the high maintenance(HM)girls out for a while, and find out they just can't maintain them long term. Some of the HM girls are really great (or at least not too bad) as people, but they are terrible when it comes to dating and treating their man well. \nHM girls are just getting away with what they can while they can....and some of them don't even think every guy knows it, when we all do.