can somone else habits ruin my reputation?
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WELL YOUR FRIEND MAY START THINKING THAT YOU ARE JSUT LIKE YOUR COUSIN AND JUST WANT TO SLEEP WITH EVERY GUY YOU DATE FOR A FEW DAYS \n\nALSO IF THINGS DONT WORK OUT THEN THEY MAY PUT YOU IN BETWEEN AND BLAME YOU AND MANY NAME CALLINGS WILL DONE \n\nYEAH REPUTATION IS ON THE LINE
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Make a difference in your own corner, your own family, your own friends. \nNot all of us can be famous but every one you meet in your life-every single person-will be affected by you either for good or for bad. You touch every person you meet in some way.\nSo.. your choice. Your choices will echo through others.So take care what you do and the example you set in your own area.
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takes longer for some ppl to develope a habit than others dont feel like your never going to. it will happen and you want even notice till someone else tells you.
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lack of respect for others
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I had a guy do that to me until I quit for a while and use another avatar and started over.  when he got lost i came back because I had so many points.  Some guys like to be bullys and they think they can scare you off.  I will help you who is it, we can do it to him.  Probably the same one I had he was a real jerk.
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Don't name names, but I would run an ad in the local paper stating that a woman is bent on destroying my reputation, and ask the readers to ask your side before they believe her.  This will tell the people you must be telling the truth, and she is not going to want to take it this far and should back off. I know it sounds a little out there, but if she is a trouble maker, sometimes publicity is the only way to shut them up, and you don't have to mention names to make her face beet red. You want to put your name of course, and they will know who you are talking about without you getting a lawsuit.
91336
If it bothers u that much get new friends!! Or u could beat them at their own game.
86724
you have a bad attitude if other people just plan don't like it ...  don't worry about "them" your attitude is most likly just fine
164792
There will be always be someone that chooses to dislike you for something irrelevant. Don't worry about these people, they dislike you for their own reasons, nothing that you do will change it.
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focus on somebody else. you dont want to wreck a happy home and have a bad karma afterwards right?
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No, I try not to do that. I don't want them to fall of the pedestal and then seem like a bad person for whatever thing they did.
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No\n\nU will ruin any credibility u may have.  This is done more often than one would suspect
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If you continue to use precious time living up to someone else's expectations, you will not be happy that you were true them instead of being true to yourself.\n\nYou may find yourself having to (gently) take a stand for making a decision to strive for your own goals.  Folk may get upset and tell you that you're making a mistake.\n\nLet 'em.\n\nBe true to yourself now!
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You know, I'm myself have done this a time or two now that you've made me think about it.  Its wrong and I should stop doing it. I just get so frusterated as people ignorance sometimes that it leaks out.  I'll try to be more aware of it.  Thank you for your question, its made me think about myself and how I can be a better person.  \n\n*hugs*
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Living well is the best revenge. If this person is really trying to ruin your reputation, you can go to court and file a harassment charge. Other than that, you can simply do business in an ethical way, be active in your business community, be good to your employees and customers, etc. In other words, you build a reputation that flies in the face of what she says. She will eventually dig her own grave. Trust me.\n\nThis happened with a former boyfriend who broke up with me. He tried to justify it by telling his friends and his new girlfriend all kinds of things about me. I got even by being totally sweet to all of them. It was the best way to prove that his lies were not true and that I was better than he was, anyway,.
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After that you will be doomed like any thing and you would not be able to tolerate the humiliation you feel yourself after getting down from your respectability and high rank. DON'T THINK ABOUT TEMPORARY HIGH RANK AND RESPECTABILITY. MAKE SURE YOUR PERMANENT UPGRADATION.
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I would not worry about the gossip and your parents shouldn't either. I have found that people who have a habit of gossipping are usually focusing on others when they should be addressing their own problems (which some of them never do). Don't let them interfere with your good intentions. I would talk (with the permission of this young man) to the school counselor to see what assistance he/she can offer to this young man and he/she may also be able to be of help to you with this endeavor. It's unfortunate that the coach wasn't very helpful and didn't have a more positive attitude. One of the courses in college that might be helpful to him is one that will help boost his self-esteem. His lack of self-esteem is probably what led to his bad reputation and attitude and probably played a key role in a lot of his situations including his lack of friendships . He needs to understand that changing his image and attitude is the key to his success in college and in other situations. Good luck in your endeavor.