my best friends bf likes me and is flirting w/  me bhind her back wat shuld i do??
535539
you should go straight to your friend and tell her before it gets out of hand.
588364
Leave it be. She is jealous that he gets your attention over her. Immature of her. She needs a BF.
238260
Don't go there, honey. She may THINK she feels that you two should be together, but I guarantee you, it's not going to end up that way. Stay friends, and leave it at that, at least if you value your friendship. Now, if they were only together briefly and she had no real feelings for him, maybe you should go there. Otherwise, steer clear. Trust your gut on this one.
782438
Your best friend cuz she sounds like a jerk. \n\nBut think about it, becuz if you dump her, then if your boyfriend dumps you, your left with nothing.
1074895
I understand that you are merely trying to protect your bestfriend and make him realize that she's not the right girl for him .... i guess he would be protecting her because he's in love with his girlfriend.  Maybe she was being mean to you because she's jealous about your relationship with her man. Hey, that's human nature... she probably sees you as a threat.  Just let them be, maybe someday he will realize all these .... and mind you, these things don't usually last .... give them a few months :)
598905
First ask your bff if it okay and if you don't like him talk to her. if you do like him decide which is more important, him or your bff.
346597
She sounds like she's confused. next time you talk to her, just tell her that you think she's cool but you don't want to get in the middle of her and her bf's relationship. If she wants to be friends with you that's fine but if she wants to take it further she needs to say bye to him. Good luck!!
49140
YES! But if possible, come bearing proof! Your friend may be upset and even think you are lying; your friendship may be hurting for a while depending on the kind of person she is, but YOU are her BESTfriend, you should give her the respect and loyality that title deserves. You WILL NOT be responsible for their break up...her man will. Break it to her gently and tell her first that you would never do anything to hurt her unless it would hurt her more not to know. Reverse the rolls...if your lover where cheating on you and your bestfriend knew...would you want her to tell you? How would you feel if you found out and KNEW she didnt tell you about it months before??
570781
believe your best friend!! unless you know that she's the jealous type or prone to lying, believe her! think about it, why would she LIE to you?
525935
Tell your friend if she makes any moves towards your boyfriend she's history.  Be straight with her.  If she does make any advances on him she's no friend anyway.x
448590
This is a tough one......Ok you said you like your boyfriend but have fallen in love with his/your best friend. If it is love and I mean real love then you should not have to question what you should do. You just need to talk to your best friend one on one and see if it is really what you think it is.
1120419
talk to your friend about it. personally, i feel that she shouldnt be mad at you since you like this boy and he likes you back. theres nothing she could do to have him like her when he likes you. dont do anything till you've talked.
813399
If she was truly your best friend, she wouldn't even think about your boyfriend.  And if he showed her the slightest hint of attention, he is not worth it.  Tell her this, and if she does not back off, dump her.  If he flirts or contacts her in anyway, dump him.  Either way, choose your friends better.
1102523
well there is no doubt that if she is really messing with this guy, she doesnt deserve your friendship, so 4get about her because she is not being loyal and sincere. but most importantly, forget about the guy! i cant believe he is doing this with your bestfriend when he knows you like him!
219121
well since she's ur best friend u can tell her anything right? tell her dat u like this guy then the both of u figure out a solution to this problem together. if she decides to 'bac off' then tell him u like him.
8191
Does he have a single friend that maybe you could set her up with?  You can try doing something like that.  You should also try to spend time with her, just the two of you.  And let her know that you are still best friends, even if you do have a boyfriend and she doesn't.
188017
Well, if shes like totally flirting with you then shes probably into you but if she has a bf then you might just be like a little fling that she has to get though class but you never know she might totally be into you!! Just act like your intersted and go from there! Good luck!