if a friend is in a house were no 1 understands her wat should she do?
537005
Try to make them understand her or else tough it out until she is old enough and mature enough to move out on her own
600156
Take your friend to your other friends house.
391544
You cannot make anyone see anything.  She is in a codependant relationship all around and the best thing you can do is be a supportive friend when she does finally see this has to change.
457136
get her some help quick.
732268
It sounds like what people do in life. If their #1 friend can't go, they don't stay home doing nothing, they ask someone else. It sounds more abnormal of her to sit home because of you. You might think about making different friends who do more things you are allowed to do. You'd have more fun.
498438
Let her know that you are there to listen if she needs it.  Don't pressure her to talk or she may pull away more.  Just be there for her and when she is comfortable, she'll open up.  Maybe if you start talking about your problems or problems of a "friend" she'll feel a little more at ease about discussing her own.
338284
Tell her next time "I'm sorry but, it is difficult for me to here you in the other room." When she says "I don't mean for you to get up" Say " You can try buzzing me on the phone" In other words state the problem offer a solution. Instead of getting frustrated.
883501
File a complaint.  It's bad enough that she's disturbing everyone but if she's going to act stupid... why even listen to her?  Call the MPs and let them handle the situation; I'm sure that there are rules and regulations for everyone to follow.  Good luck and best wishes.
22860
wow-i can relate having moved in w/friends a month ago after leaving my husband. be honest and upfront. sit her down w/your facts written out in front of you.\n\nHave a time-line for you to leave if she cannot pay her share. If she's in over her head - offer to help her find subsidized housing/sell her place etc.\n\nIt's awful to lose good friends over money, honesty is the best policy before you and your other half resent her or worse. Good luck and Happy New Years, Pat
644531
If there is another adult in the home, you need to ask them to get ther the help she needs. There are medications that can help her psychotic symptoms. If she's the only adult in the situation, see if you can get help from someone outside your home that she will listen to. Unfortunately, if she's out of touch with reality in any area of her life then she does not see the need for doctors, medications or getting help, so sometimes you have to get help to make her do what she needs to do. If you don't have any relatives or friends nearby who can help, then consider going to a pastor or teacher. They may at least be able to help you get her some aid.
691531
Even if she is the property owner, she can not drop in unexpectedly. If she does, you have every right to call the police. They will arrest her.\n\nshe does have the legal right to inspect the home, but at an agreed upon time. She is also not permitted by law to enter the premises without your knowledge. Again, if that occurs, call the police.
153010
There are two ways you can deal with this situation, your choice depending on your own view over your relanshionship with that person, or your personality.\n1. You can confront her in front of the other housemates (not speak bad things about her behind her back) but rather say how bad she's been treating you, in front of everyone so she'll feel ashamed and possibly not do that again. If you feel you haven't won the confrontation in the end just say (be sure your other friends are there) "You are such a b**ch, you know that!". This is only if you feel extreme pain at what she did to you, and want to get back at her. BUT, if you're willing to forgive her, and you care about her very much there is another way to handle the situation:\n2. Usually this things occur when one person feels frustrated with himself for one reason or another and then she takes it out by lashing at other, let's say more "timid" persons, in this case you. It is possible that, that person has love problems, or other problems. If you know of her having one such major problem, you should confront her in private and talk about her problem, try to listen to her and be suportive. Try to find out if she has a problem from her other friends, If no one knows about it, it doesn't mean she doesn't have one (it means only that she keeps it to herself and because of this she becomes incresingly frustrated). So, if no one knows about it you should confront her and ask: "What's wrong?". Her first answer will be "Nothing", but you have to continue "Oh come on, I know something's wrong" and give your reasons "You have been acting strange all the time(for example)".\nSo, you have two ways to deal with this. You either can be caring and gentle, or you can be agressive and stand up to yourself. From here, it's up to you, and how you feel in your heart you should act :). Good luck.
941973
how about trying to go to her house ? If she lives close .or call her parents
687284
if she is close to you, you should try to let her know that she would be a better person if... (and you mention the things you think that she needs to change).\nbut if she is just a simple friend, ignore her and get a better friend. someone that doesnt give you anything possitive is useless.
305872
Tell her it makes you uncomfortable with him in the house with you. If you didn't establish the no men rule when you got a roommate she gonna act all pissy and fight you for a bit. If she don't get him out threaten to leave and make her find a way to pay rent. Maybe she will reconsider if she think you seriously leaving her.
481256
Confront her about it. If she's going to hear it from anyone, better it be from you, her friend.
541798
Wait in a friends house and like her think you or at work..