How do you ask a guy out and where should I go on the first date?
542406
just ask him and let him pick tha first date, ask him what he likes to do
501634
Invite him to go somewhere with you and your friends first.  See how that goes and if it goes great maybe he'll ask you out.
362897
try and be the 1st 1 to ask him out
614460
Be kind and thoughtful, as for where to go that's easy go out for dinner or lunch for a walk after this way you will have time to get to talk and get to know each other better and then you can find out what the two of you have in common so you can plan the next date based on this!
213116
Go to a nice restaurant for dinner and sit and have coffee and talk after you finish dinner.  I wouldn't suggest a movie on a first date because you can't talk during a movie and that's what a first date should be all about... talking and getting to know one another.
194781
One place for you to meet a guy(and take it from me b/c im a guy) is church or even the gym. You have nice men that go there. But the main thing you must know is not to rush it. Don't act desperate for a man,because if you act desperate then that would send out the wrong man radar and then you'll find yourself dating a rapists or something. Your priorty is your children first, but if you want guarentee great men, church. Or maybe even at your job. But dont be in a rush to get a man... the right man would come to you.. and there is a right man for you somewhere.. Just dont go out on dates by yourself.. go in like groups first.
357841
The best way is by starting a relationship built on communication.  Tell him how you feel and say that you would really like to go out with him..  You really have nothing to lose!  You want that date and can't have it unless you ask.  If he says no, you can move on and not waste time pining over him.  Good luck.
287145
Kind of like Hithere mentioned, but more specific.  If you just ask to hang out with him sometime that won't do anything.  You're missing a specific date and time in there and what to do.  The guy is just going to be like "Sure, let's hang out sometime." and that's it.  So you have to have something specific in mind.  "Are you free this weekend?"  Yes or no answer.  "Would you like to go to... with me?"  Again, yes or no.  "Cool, what time can I pick you up?"
230453
If you are to shy to ask him out, try asking a group including him to go out. Invite he and his friends to go out with you and your friends someplace.
160499
Absolutely, start at church and church functions,  the grocery store is always a good spot.  Laundrey Mats are OK (not great), avoid bars and that whole scene. Don't be afraid to ask a guy to join you for a meal or a walk. Keep it casual. The thing I see most often is a guy or a gal who are only interested if they see you as a potential mate.(and start planning their whole life on the first date)  Avoid that pitfall.  Look for a friend..a bunch of them..the more the better..and the rest will follow.
268035
Turn the table and ask him out.   go have a nice quiet dinner and get to know each other.
618499
The first time I asked a guy out we went rollerblading in the park and then went out for a casual dinner. Keep it light and don't try to be all  romantic. Just see how you feel being alone with him the first time. If you keep your date filled with activities you will never run out of stuff to talk about and you won't have those awkward moments people get on first dates when they are all dressed up at some snooty restaurant. Have fun!
801429
1) probably\n\n2) go out with him. All is fair in love and war. Why wait for him to ask you out? Ask him out!\n\ngood luck!
315674
Easy.\n\nGo up to him and say, "I like you and want to get to know you better. Do you want to go out?"\n\nIf he's interested, he'll jump at the chance. If not, then at least you know.
89409
You need to ask YOURSELF if you like him! And ask yourself if he is a decent person and is nice. It would be good if you could get someone else like a brother or sister to go with you on a first date to the movies or some place like that so you aren't alone with him until you see how he acts on a date.
409061
go to the park/beach/mountains/someplace outdoors.  spend a few hours TALKING and enjoying nature, then finish the date with dinner at a nice restaurant.  the most imporatant thing is to spend quality time, getting to know them. being outdoors, awkward silence is okay, because you can just enjoy the weather/scenery.  I think it would be a totally romantic, but very casual first date. less pressure on both.
1048961
if you are nervous ask face to face, first ask him for his email address.  If he asks why you need his email , just say you have something to send to him.  Then ask him out by sending him email.