a guy  likes me and i like him......... but hes my best friend...wat should i do?
539790
i think it is better to preserve the current relationship, that is friendship. you see, if you are a couple and you suddenly break up, you can never be friends anymore. why bother to risk the nice bond you're havin rite now?
199270
Let me tell you this. its all up to you. It's either he likes you back or he doesn't. I've been in your exact situation before. I'm female and I developed feelings for my best friend who's also a girl. one day, we were just chatting about normal stuff and i basically blurted out to her that i had feelings for her. she told me that what she felt for me was totally platonic and she didn't think of me any other way. Honestly, it killed me for a while. However, today, the relationship that the two of us have is even closer than the one we had before i told her. We didn't have any sort of awkwardness between the two of us. The only shitty thing is that I still feel for her and although I make it seem like I don't feel for her anymore, inside, I just wanna kiss her everytime she opens her mouth to speak. But I have to say that I was really lucky cuz its really rare that two people can overlook the fact that one person feels more for the other than usual. The funniest thing is that til today, my confession is still discussed between the two of us. Recently, I just asked her if it was the right thing to tell her about it in the first place. And, according to her, my confession saved our friendship. Cuz she had already suspected, but she was in denial about it, seeing that i was her best friend and all. But if i had not told her anything, she'd feel weird and eventually take a step back from the friendship.\n\nSo, whatever you do, just follow what your heart tells you to do. You could jokingly bring it up as a suggestion if you don't want to take the direct approach. See how he reacts, and if it's positive, just let it slip. Say that, you didn't really expect it to happen but it just did and you felt that you needed to let him know.\n\nGood luck though.
811337
babe, you just answered your own question.\nyou obviously dont want to waste your time on someone who isnt really interested in you , he's more interested on your friend.\nwhy would you let yourself have feelings for him when you know that he dont like you like that. and you know that you're gonna get hurt. dont do it to yourself. just be honest with him and be like you want to be with someone who likes you back and not your friend.\ntell him that you could find someone else that likes you coz of you not coz of your friend. \nbut, why did you ask him out in the first place if you knew that he liked someone else??\nplease dont be blind and leave the guy and go for the other one who really likes you the most. trust me, you'll be a lot happier with the other one.
1095451
he might like you. But you should just be a friend, and sometime just casusally ask him if he is intrested in being more then just friends.
516706
u could like him but who do u like better Ur friend or him and if u say him and Ur willing to risk Ur friendship makes sure he like u cause then u will be stupid and alone..Is it worth it?
422899
Pay attention to wat he does! if he asks u how your doing or wats Up. if he tells  you about the new things in his life pay attention it might be his way of including you! tell your best guy friend you like him and tell him to pay close attention to wat your crush says in the locker room or guy things. dont flat out sk him or tell him you like him b/c it could scare him off! spend more time with him or ask if he wants to "hang out" sometime as just the two of you. you'll knoiw if you should tell him or not!\n\nP.S. If that doesn't work walk up to him and kiss him. Then say "i just wanted to know wat it would be like" and live like there is no tomorrow!
965658
flirt a little, if nothing happens, ask him. But if your friend seriously likes him, you have to choose; keep a friend and lose this guy you might not keep forever anyway or lose a friend and have the guy but lose him later on((not saying you will lose him, but its a big possibility))
928405
Take a breath first! You gotta be honest with him asap..the longer this goes on, the more he's going to think there is something between yall that's more than friendship.. Tell him you like hanging out with him, but you like someone else..He can take it, the sooner the better..it's cool that you care so much about hurting someone's feelings..
1088243
Tell him right away...trust me that is the best thing to do....if you continue to hang on it will be very difficult...a Friend you like is not your friend anymore so the best thing to do is just go up to him and tell him...worst case you get rejected but trust me if your friendship is strong enough it will be ok and i don't have to tell you the best case..SO GO FOR IT.
665503
If you really like him..than explain the situation to your bestfriend..she might be upset..but its better than lieing to her and than finding out..
285323
I would think that this means he really likes you. Don't be so quick to assume that he still likes your best friend. You know guys... they can never make up their minds. If the guy didn't like you, trust me, he would be acting like you don't exist. Have you tried to talk to him about this? Or are you shy? If you're shy, why don't you try to write him a secret admirer letter or something creative like that. Hope this helps.
200762
Talk to him.  But if your friend likes him, then leave him alone.  Life is too short to chase after a guy who don't want you.  If he is not interested, then move on.
266441
DON'T STOP liking him!. Acknowledge and embrace the fact that he's a.) unavailable and b.) a great guy. Hang out with him, be best friends with him, whatever... Guy friends are one of the most wonderful relationships to have, seriously (All of my best friends are guys). You can appreciate him as a friend for a longer (not to mention less complicated) time anyway. You'll probably still like him for a while, but the sooner you re-categorize him as your buddy, the sooner your heart will be available to another great and AVAILABLE guy. There are plenty out there, but you are probably too preoccupied with this one to notice. Plus, the better you get to know him as a friend, the more likely you'll see factors that aren't what you want in YOUR guy in him.
327714
Let him be, he might only like you as a friend and if you start pushing him or hiting on him he might just drop you as a friend.  I am a girl and usually when a guy "friend" is interested in me more than friendship,.. well our friendship doesn't last because the trust is gone.
70510
well if ur best friends goes out with the guy u like u should either look for another boy or man or watever or say something to ur best friend and say something about it......\npeace out\nmanny
865036
My advise is to stay with him. You felt good around him right? You had fun and had nice conversations, right? Take time and think to yourself, "do I like this guy more than a friend or not?" If not, be honest and tell him, don't avoid him. Stop being such an immature little girl, we ain't seven-years old anymore. Men don't have cooties.
1154766
Join the club! You and I are in like the exact same predicament. Anyways, um, if you two are good friends, then you should just tell him that you like him. There's a chance he'll like you too. God, if only I could follow my own advice...\n\nI know what you're thinking, it's much easier said than done. But that's my best advice. And to tell you the truth, that's what most people in here are going to tell you to do. Sorry if I wasn't very helpful. Good luck!