how do I spend time with a girl to get to know her better without getting her bf mad or jealous?
551931
spend some time with the boyfriend..even if you can't stand him. by you spending time with him and getting in his good graces, he'll feel less intimidated about you spending time with his girlfriend. be open with thim that you're not looking to cause trouble..he may respect you for that.
1120080
Just hug your BF everytime she comes buy she'll learn you love him SO much and to piss of.\n\nOr just hug and AND give her a bad look. :)
575917
The best way is to approach to her directly...I know its maybe hard for you, but I think you should tell her what are you feeling bout her...Anyway, you've got nothing to lose...and its way better than to sit and wondering what could be or even worse-to wait until she brakes up with her bf...\nBest luck!
452710
be confident in yourself and make her feel cherished and special.  find out what her interests are and learn about them.  remember the small things and offer attention and affection.  girls need to feel this in order to open up to a man.  thank you!
127194
Go for her. If u dont know if she have a bf ask her just bring it up when u guy r just talking.
432078
spend more time with her
550825
Start talking to her casually and become friends with her. Maybe you guys can discuss homework or an assignment. Gain her trust and get to know her really well. Then see how she reacts to you, and make a judgment based on her personality. You might also want to find out if she has a boyfriend. When you finally feel like you have the courage then tell her how you feel. Good Luck!
110352
You are right about hanging out with her in a group. Give yourself a chance to get to know her and her to know you. Then see where that leads. i think that it is best to start off as friends. After a while, if you decide that you would want to be more than just friends, ask her to go out on a date with you, Just don't take too long! We girls can't wait around forever for you guys to decide!
967539
People love nothing more than to talk about themselves. Ask questions about her. For an example of talking to a girl you didn't know, rather than say to her "what do you do?" ask "what do you like to do?" Its amazing how much more of a response you will get from these types of questions, these apply also to your girlfriend. Then most importantly make sure you "listen", when its time to talk then talk. With your girlfriend you just need to relax dude and It will flow. Try it.
1082782
Talk! Talk! Talk! The best way to get to know someone is to ask them questions, and listen to what they have to say! Pretty soon you will know alot about them. Since you just started dating, ask simple things, about their hobbies, where they went to school, how many brothers/sisters they have. And when you get better acquainted then you can start asking deeper things. BUT don't get too personal beforehand. It could be a bad move.
588364
Leave it be. She is jealous that he gets your attention over her. Immature of her. She needs a BF.
281739
Strike up a conversation with her first.  Find out what she likes to do.  Find a common ground, and then ask if she'd like to go do those things with you since you guys share the same interests.  Say something like, "No kidding! I like to ski too.  We should go together some time... how's this weekend?" :P
581151
Just ease into the conversation.  Ask her if she has a bf, then say oh ya how long have yall been seeing eachother.  You have to be slick about it though.
100393
It sounds like you are shy. Once you get to know the girl, it will get easier.
842227
Two words for you. Be YOURSELF. I totally understand how you feel when you say you're frantic because you're trying to keep someone interested, and I had the same problem. But, I've learned that when you feel something, or you want to say something, just do it...Once you break that barrier, it's smooth sailing. People are comfortable when they can just be themselves and when they can see that the other person is also being themself. Getting to know someone is more fulfilling when you "Just do it". A good way to strike up an interesting conversation is by asking her about herself. When you ask questions and she answers them, you can spot out things you both have in common. This is when the conversation gets more interesting and easy going. People need feedback from the 2nd party in order to keep productive conversation. Smothering your significant other would only make her want to go outside for fresh air. In other words, she'd eventually get tired of being smothered and if she doesn't tell you so, she doesn't want to hurt your feelings. She'll become distant and eventually, everything heads downhill. Tell her how you feel, and try not to overwhelm her physically with the smothering. She'll appreciate the fact that you can openly discuss your feelings with her because most guys are kinda personal about their emotions. Be open-minded.
303728
just talk about the stuff you did today. ask her questions about her to get to know her better
324892
Compliments to you for being a gentleman. When we rush things, we don't allow ourselves to savor whatever we're trying to enjoy.  You say you want "to keep this one"...well, take your time and really get to know her and what she's all about.  The more deeply you know her, if she's for you, the more you will love her.  Knowing someone on a spiritually(not physically) intimate level, allows you to really commit and give of yourself; which, by the way, makes for a great formula for relationship success. Best of luck!