I need serious advice.  Can you help me please?
550411
Blood does not give you automatic love and respect for someone. You should stop trying to fix his problems and definitely not give him any more money.  Be civil, be social and try and establish a relationship but do not let it cost you any more money. And if it gets to the point that it is costing you emotionally, too, then you have to write him off.
1160138
Sounds like you are very confused.  You should talk to someone you trust who can help you work through things and get a clear head.  Going to counseling would be really good for you - talking to someone who can give you a clear insight will help you a lot.  Best of luck with everything.
673960
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253940
Get busy girlfriend!!!  I am talking get involved in anything. Turn your negative energy to positive.  Suicide is not the answer.  You were put here for a reason.  Without you, your task cannot be completed and that could involve affecting a lot of people you have not even met yet.  Counseling should be an option if you are really serious about wanting help.  I have lost family to suicide and its so painful for the ones you leave behind.  I can't help my brother who left this world in 2001, but if I had a second chance this is what I would tell him.  "I know it seems you were dealt a bad hand in life.  But "we" can get threw this, together.  Let me help you, you are not alone.  I know you think leaving this world is the answer and the people around you would be better off.  That is so far from how it is.  You have a very important role here and you can't leave yet.  We love you and care about you more than we tell you and for that we are wrong.  Leaving is only permitting the ones you love to cop out when things get bad with them.  Please don't leave that message for your family or friends.  Lean on me and never, ever give up."
736688
Try looking in your local book store though you may not be able to afford to buy them you can read through them to find what ou are looking for and not have to worry about others giving you the wrong info and causing more harm than good for you.Not saying anyone would but none of us here know what it is you need to fit your needs and it would be bad judgment for anyone to truely give you any type of advice on what you have said so far with out understanding the full situation your in.Just remember if it harms none then so mote it be but if you plan ill will or such be ready to deal with the return.
475928
PLEASE GO SEEK SOME HELP/COUNSELING FROM SOMEONE. YOU REALLY NEED TO TALK TO SOMEONE YOU CAN TRUST, SOMEONE YOU LOVE, A FAMILY MEMBER, A DOCTOR, A FRIEND, A TEACHER, A PRIEST/RABBI, A COUNSELOR, THERE HAS TO BE SOMEONE THAT CAN GIVE YOU POSITIVE GUIDANCE. PRAY TO GOD, HE HAS ALWAYS HELPED ME THROUGH DIFFICULT SITUATIONS IN MY LIFE, BUT PLEASE DO NOT GIVE UP ON YOURSELF, YOU ARE SO YOUNG AND HAVE A WHOLE BEAUTIFUL LIFE AHEAD OF YOU,I DO NOT KNOW WHAT YOUR SITUATION IS THAT YOU ARE MAD AT TIMES, BUT PLEASE WORK ON GETTING SOMEONE OR A FEW PEOPLE TO HELP YOU, I WILL PRAY FOR YOU, YOU DESERVE TO HAVE THIS BEAUTIFUL LIFE GOD GAVE YOU. I HOPE TO HEAR BETTER AND MORE POSITVE NEWS FROM YOU. ALL THE BEST TO YOU! :)
1027416
Well... it sounds like there isn't anything you can do!!! If she wants to "dumb" for him, it's all up to her to relize it's time to get smart!!! She really isn't asking for your help in this because if she really wanted help, she would take your advise. Just be that ear for her. And if you feel like you don't want to be friends anymore, still be there, but keep her at a distance.
539960
He might be going through something he doesn't want you to know about. Just support him and be cool. Nothing's serious enough to throw two years away over.
643440
You just did ask for help.  Now find someone, like a friend, family member, or a professional that can help you!
574721
gorl oh my gosh she really does need help u need to tell or call someone and i am serious i have had a situation like this and just try to talk and comfort her and tell her how much she is loved by u and her other family and freinds tell her that she still ha s2 acomplish things in her life and that she can get help and that you will be ther with her if she wants.\n\n                         - i wish u the best of luck with her and u
517883
Oh My God, that is a terrible and sad story. I really wish that I knew what to tell you or at least had some good advise. Being kicked out of my girlfriends house just a few months ago, I can relate to some of what you are going through. You will have hard times and sadness for a long time no doubt. But believe it or not, it does get easier as time goes by. That does not help you right now I know, and for that I am also sorry. There really isnt anything that I can tell you or that anybody can tell you really that will ease your pain and suffering. But for sure you need to keep your head about you and do whatever it takes to get you and your son through this horrible time in your life. I can be your e-mail pal/friend if you want, and again I wish I had some quick-fix remedy. Keep your chin up. (smile)
1162124
Wow, this is so sweet. I think that you should tell her exactly that. Look her directly in the eyes and let her know how you really feel. Tell her that there is no use for her to push you away. Tell her that there is nothing for her to be afraid of, and that you accept her and embrace her for exactly what and who she is. Tell her she is the only one for you. If this doesn't work move on. You are too sweet not to be appreciated. Maybe if you give her some space she will realize what she gave up and come around.
756569
Ultimatum or Loose her.\nI wasted 7 years on that.\nAll she cared about was my bank account.\nYou are not a Priority with her.\nprolly not even in the top ten.\nDon't waist your time. For Whatever reason.\nCould be a lot of things... abuse etc... You may get a 100's of stories.\nWhatever. Don't deal with it!
326365
Write or email her, explaining things like you have done here.\n\nGive her some time, as well.  Usually, that puts some perspective on things. Don't make any more promises that you can't keep, though -- "I'll do my best but I can't promise" is more honest.\n\nIn the meantime, try and get on with your own life, ok... no point in panicking, really.
443213
You need to be real with him. Tell him you may be his only real friend. If he can't tell you why he's screwing up his life and let you help him then no one will. You need to tell him that you know something's wrong. But you have to know also that this is a big responsibility. If he decides to depend on you you're going to have to really be there for him everytime he needs you. You should also try to convince him after you have his trust to let some professionals get involved like the school counselor. I really hope things work out for you and your friend hun. Take care and good luck. :^)
757889
dont push her in any direction... that will only raise a question of what your priority is.  the best thing to do is be there.  you cant help her, hold her, or save her if your not there bro.....  good luck
670046
Listen honey I have been in a bad relationship myself and know where you arecoming from you have to stand up for yourself and move on you say you can't leacve Why? they have got you to the point where you are wallowing in self pity just as they like you. What is happening here is domestic abuse and it has to end before you end first. For your childrens sake leave him if he don't like it tell him where to go ****himself or tell him if he loves you to stand up to his family for you though from the sound of it he is week as s**t no man should ever allow anyone including his family to run you down. I wish i could do more for you but sadly I can't if you need to chat though send me an email and I will keep chatting and offering no strings advice I am a voluntary member of the samaritans and will make timwe to chat if you need me.