wat do you do if u really like someone but to scared you might get hurt or how do u letsome1 know ur ready4sex
542384
Love is worth the risk of possibly getting hurt.\n\nAs for sex, bring it casually into the conversation, like: "Oh, did you hear about (person)?" and ask their opinion about something.
597518
If he really loves you then he will understand your fears and be willing to wait until you are ready.  If he is not willing to wait until you are comfortable with this then you might want to question spending the rest of your life with him.
65802
If your not scared of rejection then go right up to him with all the pride in the world and say are you involved with someone, let him answere first before you tell him why and if he says no then tell him how much your digging him and if he say's yes then say oh cause a friend of mine liked you. But if your scared of rejection then write him a note and hand it to him and walk away with a smile
170622
If the guy is willing to take it easy than it will still hurt but after a min or two you won't remember it hurting.  If he's too excited than don't let him near you!!!! He will hurt you so bad that you won't be able to walk for days!
443565
You have to give yourself permission to trust another person.  There could be something in your past that makes you a little nervous about getting hurt.  It's the chance we take when we fall in love, but it's a gamble and we aren't promised anything, I mean when in life are we promised anything so why should love be different.\n\nChoose your mate wisely, make sure he's committed and respectful, make your intentions clear and as does he.  Don't jump in too quick and don't be too judgmental.\n\nWith joy sometimes comes sorrow but don't deprive yourself of the wonderful feeling of being in love.  What's the expression 'It's better to have love and lost than not love at all".
790755
Don't be afraid! Do you want, one day to look back on your life and say: I wish I woulda..... No so just tell him that you like him and are attracted to him and see what he says. Life is short, you have to go after what you want and if it is meant to be it will unfold as such. Its like the lyrics to a Rolling Stone's song " You can't ALWAYS get what you want, but if you try sometimes, you get what you need. "  Take a chance!!!
289498
If you really like this person just tell them because you will need to find someone who wants to be with you and you child. The one who can do this is the one you should hold one too. If they ask why you have not told them tell them that you wanted to make sure that they were ready to hear it before you made a commitment to them.
673902
GURL IF U LOVE HIM THEN U SHOULDNT BE SCARED ABOUT ANYTHING. WHAT IS THERE TO BE SCARED OF? IF YA LOVE EACH OTHER THEN WHAT IS WRONG WITH HIM WANTIN TO BE WITH U FOR EVA? IF U DONT THINK IT WILL LAST LIKE THAT THEN, TELL HIM STRAIGHT UP HOW U FEEL. U DONT WANT HIM TO GET EVEN MORE HURT IN THE LONG RUN.
495765
because when u like someone it is important to you to make the best impression and that makes you nervous and then you stumble.  we have all had trouble one time or another when we  were trying to impress.   just relax.. take a deep breath and carry on.  smiling
210274
You are afraid of commitment, so remember that time does heal and when you are ready you will be able to commint to the right guy.
1075725
just calm down...take a few breathers before you ask her. im in the same situation as you are. my friends are telling me to go for it and im just scared and im afraid that i will get toung tied too. just be yourself. act how you usually act around her. when you think its the right time, pull her over to the side, look her strait in the eyes and ask her. do NOT ramble on about how much you like her. that might creap her out alittle bit. just go for it and ask her strait forward if she wants to go out with you. good luck!!
710981
she has been hurt before and is afraid you will hurt her again --- dont push it --- she knows how you feel and you know how she feels --- care for her love her and be there for her
263036
because ur a normal girl. of course ur scared, ur wondering if he like it, if you'll like eceterra. dont worry, just go with the flow, just dont do anything ull regret later.
181851
If you have the right guy for the first time, and he's gentle, it shouldn't hurt at all.\nIf it hurts, then he needs to know and not make something happen that's not going to.
622364
sweetheart if he really likes you deep down you will know it. You can feel it in your heart. You have to trust him and care for him and show him that you really like him and see how he acts but be carfull don't show him to much affecton cause you could scare him and run him off. Honey trust and honesty is the best thing to have in a relationship.
750515
fear of being rejected by a girl whom a guy likes can be overwhelming. Not taking a chance is most likely the course, not that it is the right one, just the safe one.
163610
i think u should tell the person or if ur afraid send him a leter or note with sumone and tell them how u fell and c how they react