Start a new job tomorrow,bit worried?
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Look confident my fren. Once u come in u will make an impression of a confident and competent person or a weak person and incapable. U must dress smartly and professionally. If u work in an empowered office then wear professionally. It will never kill to dress pro and u will never overdress if according to three piece suits. Good luck for tomoro!!
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I'm not sure if you're looking for business advice, a new job, or just reassurance.  Since I'm not in the position to help with the first two...\nThere, there... everything will be fine.  You're a smart guy who loves your family!  Keep working hard and you'll be a success.
744335
I had some of the same fears when I started my new job. I found that if I smiled at people and apologized for being new and then thanking them for their patience they were really understanding and pleased that you complimented them and apologized. Just do your best. It will take a while to get used to everything so don't be so hard on yourself!
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No job is worth you feeling like crap and rattled every minute of the day.  Believe me, I worked in a group home for a year and a half and finally quit whe I was starting to get anxiety attacks from it!  Some jobs are just not for everyone.  See about a transfer to a different branch maybe?  Even a small paycut is worth being able to go to work without dread everyday.
825126
No.  The solution is to quit your job and start over at a new one.  This time, try not to be so nasty.
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Congrats!! That is great.\n\nHmm... some suggestions: \n- Arrive early\n- Bring anything they asked for (sometimes they ask for a void check, if they haven't don't worry, I just know they asked me), \n- Give yourself lots of time in the morning to get ready so you won't feel rushed before your shift so therefore you won't feel as stressed.\n- Don't be afraid to ask any questions, or ask for help at any time. Remember everyone that is working there now was once new too so they understand.\n\nAndddd... since it sounds like you are going to be pretty busy make sure you wear comfortable shoes, seriously. You'll thank me later. :)\n\nCongrats again, and don't worry you'll be fine!! :)
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If you are not currently UNemployed, then write down "ASAP", if you are employed, give them a date 2 weeks from today and let them know that you have to give your current employer a 'two-week' notice, that way they know that you are responsible and won't leave them hanging if you find another job. :)
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I suggest you take your advice from your last paragraph.  Take it easy as a friend, see where it goes.  Don't worry about what will happen in the future, be positive only about the NOW!.  Tomorrow will take care of tomorrow.\nGood luck..
293156
Dress nice but confortable It depends on what kind of job your getting I am not into dresses really so I dont wear them to a interview! I would feel awkward and it would show! Just be yourself,pretend your talking to someone you have known a while! I am getting ready to go on a interview monday at a job that I have had before and am still nervous! So What I am going to do is get up in plenty enough time to get ready and just relax and just tell myself if I get it its great if not its not ment to be!! Things to not do! Say you cant work weekends on most jobs!!! not brush your teeth would also be one! I would have a mint in my mouth while talking just to make sure! Good luck!
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Well, maybe this will help you feel better. On my first day of work I woke up sick, I had a 24 hour flu bug or something. I went to work anyway though because I didn't want to miss my first day of work. During the orientation meeting I had to get up three times to throw up and the worst part was that I was pale so the people I got hired with knew exactly why I was getting up. I ended up having to go home. Luckily the bosses weren't angry, they found it funny that it happened my first day and they felt bad for me too. I was afraid I was going to get fired. I've been there two months now. \nGood luck on your new job, you can't possibly have as bad of a day as I did.
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Thanks to Big Blue and their being the pioneers in "downsizing", this is a common scenario nowadays. \n\nSpread the workload as evenly as possible, ask for and pay attention to their input and implement ideas worthy of consideration where possible. BE HONEST if at all possible. Understand that workers today are wearing several hats and stress is so thick in the workplace it can be sliced up for sandwiches. Reward loyalty and do not encourage suckups.
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Don't worry about something that you have no control over. Enjoy your weekend & call them monday. If you do get fired, would you really want to work for a dump like that?
250151
First if you want to quit your job have one already waiting on you to start. If you feel that you just don't want to drag yourself into that same old job anymore then start looking for a new one. Once you have your starting date set up give notice to your old one. Be happy.
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Take a walk and concentrate on how well you're going to do, how every answer will be crisp, informative and complete, how bubbly with excitement you're going to be (not how nervous it makes you). \n\nEmployers want people with energy, whom are attentive and listen to instruction carefully. Then they want answers in as few words as possible so as not to waste their time. Ask before expounding too much. They will ask you if they need more.\n\nTry to say nothing negative about previous employers, or blame anyone for anything. Focus on strengths and how happy working for this company will make you. Do research and find out their business and make comments on that. Their company reports and newsletter from the company president are at the library.\n\nGood luck.
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Time is of the essence.See if any jobs will help another job on your to-do hot list even if one has a lower priority.I really need more info.When you say "pressure" do you mean social pressure or management pressure or time scheduling.With time management try and identify where any potential bottlenecks might occur,inform your contacts in advance that there may be delays in fulfilling obligations.With time sensitive issues then you really have no choice but to do them in date order and work like heck to clear them through your admin. system,even if it seems like there's a bigger job to tackle.In my experience of being faced with a ton load of to-do jobs all requiring "immediate action" then i 1)write a list of them.2)see which ones can be resolved quickest or simplest3)see what has to be sorted by a specific date.In future keep a tighter grip on your timeline so that you can foresee and prepare for any work holdups.
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It's quite common for Occupational Health to want to see you - they asked to see me when I switched from a temporary contract to a permanent one doing the exact same job!!\n\nThey're not there to catch you out at all they just want to check that you are fit for the job, are aware of any required training (e.g. manual handling if you're going to be lifting things) and that you are aware of any support available if you do have any worries or problems in your new role. So don't worry!
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You already have the job, so you don't need to worry about what you can/can't do.  If he asks you to do something you don't know how to do, the best thing you can do is tell him that you don't but you're willing to learn.  If he has the time to show you then even better (my boss likes when people ask him how to do things, cause it shows you're willing to do try something new).\n\nChances are as a manager he's dealt with a lot of people, so he probably recognizes that you're nervous which may be why he's quiet around you.  Ask around and find out what he's interested in, so worst case if you have that awkward silence again you might have something to talk about (you might feel more comfortable just asking him some questions first until the conversation evolves)