I want my american dream, but he dosen't .. so shoudl I get it somewhere else?
550712
Run for the hills, your kids and you deserve betterr than what your man has to offer...lets say one day you make tons of money, do you want your man to leach off you the rest of your life. Your kids deserve the best in this world...life is precious, i commend you for trying so hard to live the American Dream...Ditch the zero and get with a hero!!!\n\nGood Luck, Jo Jo
96512
dude. America is the only place where ppl would even understand your question. if your looking for more than that- im afraid youll have to wait a few years
449467
Is there such a thing?\n\ni kid.... lol you have to come here to the US of A bro!
462814
Do what your heart says And always put God first in everything you do, and ask him to help  you fulfill your dreams ;O) God bless good luck.  I love music also.
1183290
he can do whatever the hell he wants to. america, i'm assuming you live here, is very short handed with students pursuing fields in math and science. he will have a handful of opportunities awaiting him. don't be so anxious to find a spot for him because there will be plenty.
775193
Nope - you're required to support him and must prove you have over a certain level of income to do that.  Sounds like you're not marrying for love, just a green card.  Be aware that the government will find out - the interview is very hard and those guys will spring questions on you you'd never expect.
327658
Is he not a legal citizen?  How could he pay taxes and own a business if he's here illegally?  \n\nAnyway, I'd say do what you have to do to make him legal if that's the case.  If you can't, then I guess you'll all have to move to wherever he's from and get married there.  Or, you could move somewhere else entirely, but then you'd have no family around.
554371
In the U.S.A. you have the right to pursue your dreams. Your dreams are different from other people's dreams so obviously you will end up with different results. We are not guaranteed equal results. I purposefully have pursued my own dream. And I have come up with better results than some and worse than others who have pursued the same dream. Maybe it's because of competition. Competition makes you stronger. Stronger is better.
534471
marry an american or get born-again there
32902
You do have rights, where do you live, would assist if local. If money is holding you up in the battle, try locating a DADS or POPS in your area, I recommend DADS over Pops though. DADS can steer to to legal de facto or Ex Parte soulutions.
595217
If that is slavery, what is freedom to you? Freedom to not persue anything? Is that what you call freedom?\n\nThe American dream might be elusive, but to those who strive to get it, usually does, or else the concept might have died long ago.\n\nYes, I was indebt, too. But I had the FREEDOM to pay it off. I never displaced any of my responsibility to anyone else, keeping in mind the freedom to do and rise at a greater height than what I could reach, so as NOT to blame a "system" to my short comings.\n\nYou are only a slave if you view yourself as such. But if see yourself as a free man realizing his potential and applying his unbound liberty to rise among the rest, then you are trully a free man.\n\nBut yet, some are too lazy to do something at this freedom. Instead, succumbs to blame, mostly displacing it other than themselves. They are slaves... Slaves to themselves and their weakness, never realizing their potential.
719273
don't feel bad i'am American and i don't unstand it either. do you want him?
578711
i have the same problem..my dream man is in Iraq.. my problem is how to get him out of there.. ALIVE
341299
how to get what you want with out having to do a thing for it
829731
Sorry to hear you aren't getting what you need from him, I'd be more than happy to help fulfill your needs if this continues for you as it has. ;0)
1158693
There are several veterans organizations like, AMVETS, DAV, etc that help veterans, at no charge to get benefits from their service to our country. The local VA should be where you and these organizations will help you to start. You don't state where he lives or is planning to live, so I didn't google or yahoo any local services, but you can find the Veterans Administration for local areas in YP.Yahoo.com once you put in a zip. \n\nIt is sad the conditions some of our Veterans must deal with. They were trained to deal with great adversity to defend our country, but they deserve more than is afforded them when their service is completed.
868720
more details required? \n\ni think  if u cant get him then probably u should divert ur mind in something constructive, something else...persue a hobby i guess.