How do get an oversexed partner to take it easy?
540167
tell him you have crabs
77626
be honest about your level of experiance or comfort.. don't pull a stupid sitcom moment of, "oh no, I'm great at this" and then you end up looking lame with a broken wrist, or whatever.\nand don't put yourself down.  Pull the cutest guy to you, say, "I haven't done this for awhile, do you mind staying with me until I feel more comfortable." \nact confidant and things'll be fine..\nand have fun..
1181125
Do everything in your power to be extra nice.  For example if I am working, and you are bringing me my favourite beverage and food, massaging my back, maybe kissing a bit, but not stopping me, or saying anything about how much you want me to pay attention to you, I am much more likely to actually do it then if I am either being forced to do it or if you just show up naked(that is that method can wear thin quickly if it is used too much).  Being a great girlfriend never gets old.
873068
if you give him all the sex you can and that's still not enough for him, maybe he's oversexed.
879704
Just explain that sometimes you would like to do it a bit gentler. Do it her way sometimes and your way other times.
443179
i have and i didn't always work in my favor most of the time thats all they wanted. The best idea is to make them wait from the start and see if they want to be with you just to be with you or if they keep asking to get in your pants, then you know before it gets serious.
247398
Tell her you want a "do-over".  Explain that you weren't at your best and you want another chance to get it right.\n\nThen make sure you do it up well when she says yes - bring her flowers, treat her like royalty, etc.  Let her know that she did the right thing by giving you another chance.
380459
Not difficult, a very clean way to do it. Get the girl to bend over and the guy can figure out what to do next! lol! Its safe and easy if you have a strong guy (like me :)
262785
you know your body better than anyone.  Teach him how to please you and then you won't have to be upset afterwards..They can be taught how do you think they know as much as they do before they get to you.
251145
Is there a way to do that?\nSome type of stimulant cream.\nFor your boyfriend--meaning you are not satisfied??????
272663
When she is ready.  Wait too long and it becomes too tense. Make it casual and respectful dude!
864006
Do you like it when he does it hard? Excuse me Bonnie, dont let a man control sex? Since when do men just beat up a womans body if they control sex. I am sure that happens, but I think that is a pretty stereotypical comment.\nI think it is important to have a mutual relationship and equal control giving and taking... I think that you just need to tell him what feels right to you and if its hurting after the sex and its bothering you cause of that, then tell him so. He should respect you and you should be able to be open about that. It probably is some minor irritation or bruising if he is doing it too hard and nothing to be alarmed about otherwise. If it starts happening other times then consult a doctor. Just know that its your body and you need to take control as in being open about it with your partner
217193
Problem is your making it a problem. Let it go try not to stress about it. Everybody get's tired sometimes, tell your significant other to step it up and take the lead for a while. Try not to worry about it. Forget the male stereotype that men "have" to dominate. Sit back, relax, concentrate on letting him/her get it up for you!
104689
1 - judge ppl by facts (what they do) not by stories (what they say)\n\n2 - don't rush sex with your bfriend, sex gets better the more is desired \n(not sure how to pack this line though, don't have a dghtr to experiment how she would look like hearing that line :-)\n\n3 - math is sexy. hook up with math geeks, they know how to handle curves :-)
1122297
Sit him down and develop a clear line of communication with him. You have to tell him how you feel and establish boundaries for what you are willing to do. You might want to give in to some of the simpler ideas, but he needs to understand that you don't want to be a human sex pretzel. Clear communication is what you need. If he can't understand have him take a good long look at your cast again. He needs to accept your feelings the same as you need to accept his, after that you compromise. That doesn't mean you give in, that means you look for an area in between that will work for both of you and go with that. Sex should NEVER result in broken bones!
478987
I suggest sitting down and talking to her about it candidly. Try new things, buy her a new "toy", something sexy to wear to bed, a little porn (it works, for either arousal or a giggle sometimes, I swear) a makeover day...Chances are she's not sure how to change the same issue you're not sure of either. You both probably need a change, try something you never thought you would, and I bet the spice comes right back!..GL;)
1097950
Posture is important.  Don't be slumped over and lazy.  Look as if you could live without him.  Be confident in yourself and it will shine through.