i really like this girl in my class but i am too shy to approach her. what should i do?
550825
Start talking to her casually and become friends with her. Maybe you guys can discuss homework or an assignment. Gain her trust and get to know her really well. Then see how she reacts to you, and make a judgment based on her personality. You might also want to find out if she has a boyfriend. When you finally feel like you have the courage then tell her how you feel. Good Luck!
300395
start by talking little by little. i used to be shy, but now i actually get in trouble for talking in class. with that one friend that you talk to, talk more comfortably. they are your friends. talk to different people. make new friends. if not, you are doomed to live the rest of your life in the shadows.
676484
As they say practice makes perfect. Just try casually talking to different girls and see what happens. You could also try joining a club or something that alot of girls are in so you can be more socialized and to face you fear of shyness.
846491
If you are too shy to verbally ask her out then maybe you are too shy to be dating. Wait until you mature a bit then try again. How can a date work with just letter writing?▲
1091457
Maybe you can approach her by discussing your same major or something about class.  Its actually easier if you have the same interests (e.g. your majors) and you could easily ask her if she had any free time after class and maybe head to student union and grab a sandwich or something.  Great conversation starter, its worked before.  Hope it helps and good luck!
1075507
aww that  is too  cute ..  just  be yourself sweety  ..if she dont  like you for you ..then   you dont need  her anyway .. dont be so  shy .. shyness will  get you know where  in  life .. dont be so  insecure . you  never  know she   might  like you too  but you will never  know unless you make the   move ..  be adventurous you  only  live  once .. have fun lil  man .. take a chance  ..good  luck
141806
Even if you cant get the nerves to talk to her at first...when ever she passes by give a nice smile that will show that you are into her...(this is called your body language) and say hi as often as possible. To start off a conversation, simply talk about school, then get into other topics as in what activies you both enjoy...if you have something in common, ask her if she would want to go out for some pizza and (the activity) !! Good luck
159790
well, if she is impossibble to impress stop trying. Might recommend you just act like your self. I hated boys who tried to impress me, acting all cool or goofy. When you see her say hi, if you get a chance talk about school or something you have in common. Just don't TRY to do anything. If she likes you when your acting like you she will be interested. If not, move on.
800527
Ok...my advice would be...wait...let me think a bit...*30mins later* Ok...one day, when you see her alone (alone as in walking to class, getting books or something) walk up to her and say "Hey how are you going?". Just small talk. Do the same everyday, not actually at the same place,but just ask her how she is going, how her day is etc. It will go from there.\nGood luck :)\nP.S. Not the best answer but hey-life can be tough you know? :P
624757
just talk to her...\nmaybe look for ways to talk to her if ur not comfortable of asking her out or something...\nmaybe ask her about ur homework or something...\njust make ways u get to know her and then befriend her...\nafter that im sure ull have a lot of chance to make ur move
100393
It sounds like you are shy. Once you get to know the girl, it will get easier.
667510
It's probably always a nerve racking experience to approach a girl, especially when you're shy.\n\nDon't write a note or anything like that, that's pretty lame.  If I was you, I would think about what you want to say first, so you don't get all tongue tied when the big moment comes.  Make sure she's not surrounded by a bunch of her friends, that's gonna be pressure!\n\nMaybe you could give her a flower (maybe not a rose, that's a bit too romantic initially) and tell her that you admire her and ask her if she'd like to go on a date sometime.  Don't make her answer on the spot - give her a piece of paper with your ph number written on it and invite her to give you a call if she would like to go out.\n\nGood luck - and remember to smile and act confident, even if you feel like the ground is swallowing you up.\n\nPS  Girls like shy guys (the right ones for you anyway)
15036
Has she touched your arm when you talk in close proximity? Does she smile and laugh a lot? Does she give you compliments?\n\nIf she is shy, she might actually avoid your gaze from across the room. You have to make a move, take a chance...too many opportunities lost because people are afraid of rejection. If she doesn't like you, it's NOT PERSONAL!! Doesn't change who you are. It's just personal preference. With that in mind....GO FOR IT!
575555
If you can muster up the courage to do it in person, just go up to her and tell her that you are attracted to her or you like her.  Tell her that she doesn't have to say anything but that the ball is in her court.  If you can, tell her that you were shy to say this and, if she is, she could just send you a note.  If she does, ask her.  It takes a lot to just do it.  But, you may be glad you did.  If she doesn't respond, she may still like you and be very shy or she just doesn't feel the same.  Nothing lost on your part.  But, you will be able to ask someone else.  Good luck.
442691
Ask a girl out. Just cause you're shy doesn't mean you can't ask her out. It just means you'll be a little nervous doing so. That's just fine.
336549
Those three little words are the hardest things to say so you have a good reason to be shy. Here's a suggestion, write a journal about how you feel about her. You would have the sense that she would never find out so you would feel more comfortable about it. Then let her read it...from the clues she would know your talking about her and she would know exactly how you feel without having to make you feel uncomfortable.
575171
Just talk to her alot, joke with her...she will be less shy as time goes. Have patience....