what do you rather - a girl friend with good chemistry or a bad suck relationship with your soulmate?
551461
I'm going to go out on a limb here & assume that in the question, the word 'suck' was meant to refer to a physically intimate relationship.\n\nSo, the question is essentially: good sex or true love with bad sex.\n\nI vote 'soulmate.'  Besides, there are ways to improve a sex life...
43662
It is very true.  Consider this, if you were stranded on a desert island, would you want to be with someone who was hot yet annoying or someone that was homely yet a good friend?  Of course you would want to be with a friend no matter how much of an eye-soar they are.  Therefore personality gets you farther.
1020083
Dont ever loose someone for someone else.  If both parties are that close to you - you can come to some agreement between them.  See your friend  - then see your girl.  Let them both know how you feel.  Whichever one is willing to work out the situation is really there for you.  Hopefully they will both understand - you dont all have to hang out together at the same time.  True friends are hard to come by.  They are there for you to the end...But when a relationship goes bad - who do you turn to?  If it is her asking you to give up your friend....tell her no way.  If it is him asking you to give her up - find out why
811971
Personally speaking, I think the best relationship you can be proud of is between a guy and gurl who were friends. What's friendship, if I may ask? It's getting acquainted with someone for a period of time to the extent that you think, speak, behave or act almost in the same way. I want you to check around and compare relationships built on friendship and those built on infatuation. The outcome is very obvious. Cheers.
812752
Depends.  What do you have to offer in a relationship?
479888
If you can't decide . . . do not get into a relationship with either of them.\n\nDate them both . . . find out who you are more compatible with.  Which one brings out the best in you and you bring out the best in them.\n\nWhen you figure it out . . . then you will know.
590472
I'm a girl, but I think it has to be a little bit of both for a realationship.  For two people to start a relationship you have to a person's outside and inside beauty for anything to last.
95172
If it were me, I would tell them both that their friendship is more important to you right now and try to explaine that you might not be ready for a stead relationship at this time. That way you're not having to choose and possibly breaking up what the 3 of you have right now. Sometimes the best things are the hardest to do, because it's almost certain you will lose 1 if not both if you choose.
814115
Both.  Especially don't chose anyone that has traits that makes who you are negative.  In orther words, someone's who qualities plays off your qualities making an unworkable couple, even if there is love.  Love alone is not enough.
932749
It depends on how serious they were...If she was really into him, and is still hurting from the relationship, then obviously, No. But if they have moved on and have remained friends, and can look back at their relationship and laugh, then Yes. I was in that situation and my friend actually suggested that I get with her ex, because it was so obvious that we had chemistry. Sometimes girls fall so hard for guys that we become blind to others feelings though, so make SURE your friend is okay with it. But even if she isn't, if it's meant to be with the guy, it will be.
392246
I'd say you have a 50/50 shot of either having a wonderful loving relationship or having it blow up horribly in your face.  Not much middle ground here.
1148139
It would be my girlfriend. I have never loved anyone more in my life (other than family) than my girlfriend. She is that soulmate who I want to spend the rest of my life with.
226708
There was no chemistry between you and her. She never felt "that way" about you. it doesn't matter how nice you are. Wouldn't you rather have a partner who was crazy about you, your walk, your voice, the feel of your hands, rather than someone who was with you because "well, he's a NICE GUY". There are a million "Nice guys" around, but chemistry, that "je ne sais quoi" has a lot of power, and she didn't know this guy wasn't a good guy, because she was blinded by the "je ne sais quoi" and that's what love is about.
688628
Time to get rid of them both, its not fair to either of them.  You need to get your head screwed on straight before getting into a boyfriend-girlfriend situation.  You can't love both, one is just lust.
726477
neither.\nI'd talk it out with my friends.\n it's their problem, not mine.\nmy friends don't dictate my relationships any more than I dictate theirs.
283435
What's not so 'very good' about their relationship, right now ?!
228427
Sounds to me like you need to make a decision between 'fun' and 'relationship'. You probably already KNOW the answer you are looking for-- look deep within yourself, young grasshopper! (LMAO!) You really do, though. It's just a choice you don't WANT to make is all. Sometimes they can suck the most.