Why todays women judging and choosing men by they music they hear and from their outfits;;?
536923
both of the people who have answered this question are both men, not all women are the same and asking a question like that you are stereotyping all classes of women so you deserve the women you are talking about.
1017729
Good question - some do it because they feel most things in their life they cant control. some because they think it is part of being a real man. some because they hate themselves and feel weak. and I am guessing there are many more reasons. Many years ago most men where brought up this way. Times were different and women were more like slaves then mates but times have changed and women are more equal so this says that things are improving and with saying that and in time things will continue to change so people learn to respect other people regardless of their sex or anything else for that matter.
891148
You have a very good point.  I agree.  \n\nAll women want to be told that their beautiful.  Maybe these people are not hearing it from the people around them so they are reaching out for compliments.    Everyone is beautiful in their own ways.  People just be yourself.
833225
Consider it a turn on for women when they see a man playing an instrument. His intellectual abilities with the instrument attract women to him and as a result they desire him. They want to know how he functions, works, plays, moves and acts and of course, once they know just how he does those things would he also be able to do those things to them because of his talent.
409591
That's because most men are oblivious to these things.\n\nI appreciate the effort that women put into making themselves look good.  As a man you should compliment the women if possible (but of course in a non-degrading or provocative fashion).\n\nI am sure you probably get "looks" or get some "head-turning" action but most men don't vocalize.
402248
Most musicians (at least the ones who are serious about music) listen to as many different kinds of music as possible.  It keeps them fresh and current with what's going on and expands their own musical range.
545741
i think this is primarily a male attribute. i know one female that moshes as good as a male, an she always had perfect hair still. wierd. its to do with how the music sounds to us. those who love rock music have it processed in our brain differently - produces feelings of enjoyment. the strong drum beats and quality guitar sounds cant be resisted. and as men cant dance, how else do they show their enjoyment? thats right, throwing themselves about.
754489
It is all a matter of confidence. If you know what you want, realise what is best for you and exerce your own judgement, you can listen to advice, criticism, or publicity and either ignore it or take it into account but do your own thing. It is so sad to see all these women who follow a fashion or a trend slavishly when it does not suit them at all or who pretend to be something that they are not to try to impress others.  \nWhere we live young women (ladettes?) gather in great numbers and challenge one another to drink and drink at the week-end. They get completely plastered to be "in with the crowd" then go and relieve themselves in shop doorways or are sick in bus shelters. They just do not realise how pathetic they look and that the boys who are there are not in the least impressed.\nI believe that in due course they will realise the pointlessness of what they are doing and will seek more civilised pastimes.
941929
its really sad that any chic turns against men because some jack azz fu_k's with their minds, so they end up listening to a bunch of dykes that fill there heads withg pure sh_t, mostley started many years ago when a few ugly azz crotch cricketts couldnt get no di_k, so they decided to fu_k it up for the rest of us,,,,,,now ya got this same sex marrige sh_t going on,, both dykes and  pickle puffers,, strange fuc_in world,,,,,well to each there own i guess,,\nthis part response over some the answers you already got lol  they know who they are  lol,, far as the bad guys, well some girls never learn, hope yours does and hope things work out 4 ya,,
571812
Women are conning themselves. The fashions on the runway and the red carpet are fashions that keep men from looking at women as they would other men, with no attraction. Women have assets that attract but they up front want to play this high and mighty "don't look at me as some object or just a piece of meat" then all rush out to do just that. Be it the plastic surgeon, the magic diet pill. They all want to look smoking in a little black dress or a bikini. And when they don't want to make the sacrifice to look that way, they want to tear down women that do. Fashion like that survive because most women want to be the center of attention when they enter the room at a party or step out on the dance floor. When you show off some long leggy cheese cake or see deep cleavage between the melons to give the illusion of ample breast. It spells sexy. And any girl who say they would not want to be sexy is like a guy saying he would not want to have as many women after him as Hugh Hefner.
940001
Because women are attention-whores who like to manipulate and mess with your head.\n\nAct like an azzhole and you'll do OK.
20867
It's all about personal taste.  It's like asking why don't women find bald men attractive.  Everyone has their own personal taste.
238687
It's true WOMEN tend to be too judgmental with other women when it comes to dressing up... Men, are easier to please because they are very appreciative about women who dresses well and look good and sexy in anything they wear.\nBut as for me, thats not true.....\nI only dress up to please myself because i want to feel good and confident in what i wear or do. Nothing else.
984044
Its a man thing. We develop selective hearing soon after getting hitched to keep our sanity.
7101
It's one of many "double standards" our culture still allows to exist.  For far too long, men dominated our world, making all the decisions and shaping our beliefs.  This is a perfect example of men wanting to behave the way they want, while prohibiting women from doing the same.  Unfortunately, women bought into the belief too.  The only thing positive is that today men are not looked on nearly as favorably for that behavior.  In time, tramps may just be tramps.
116141
It's funny that most men think we're dressing for them...really we're dressing to impress other women. We care what other women are wearing because they're our standards to judge how good we look.
971629
men have always judge women by how they look instead of how they are as a person. No one should be judge by their looks, you can be the ugliest person in the world and be the nicest person going or be the most beautifulest person and be the biggest a**hole.