what do u think of lady marrying an older man24 yrs gap?friendship just developed into love.Long distance rel.
541674
I was married for 10 years to a man 24 years older than I was, but it really worked. I'm an old soul, and he had a very active inner child. We probably would still be together were it not for a logistical problem: He was claustrophobic, and I have the hoarding form of OCD. We had the EXACT same sense of humor, we were both great listeners and sharers, enjoyed doing almost all the same things together, had the same friends (both his age and my age). But the OCD problem caused him to stay away from home more and more after we'd been married several years, and to drink more and more. In the end, he was unhappy, I was unhappy, I gained a lot of weight, he was put off sexually. I guess we both were by then. But I love him still. The morning of our divorce, we went out to breakfast after!\nThe short answer is, it can be a wonderful match, very companionable, if there are no addictions or neuroses to drive you apart.  If you are attracted to each other and intellectually compatible, temperamentally compatible, go for it.  (Men his age would always look at us and wink or high-five him.)
11339
jus mail me and tell how old r u and old is the other person . but i think just when both of you and her r alone write on a paper that what personalities do u except form ur future husband and ask to to write the answer on the paper .then u tell 'i like u more than a friend ,u know what i mean , i love u .would u except my proposal ?'
127654
Im 29yrs old and speaking as someone older i have this advice for you. Leave age out of it. Your older than legal age so it is not of concern. How do YOU feel about him? Really. if you love him, see where it leads. make sure he treats you right!! I had a friend who was 19 at the time and married a guy 29. they just had there first child - still very much in love. it depends on the situation. one step at a time. see where it leads and make sure he treats you right.
759706
Friend - I see no problems other than the age thing which you did not go into.  If you are under 16 and he is over, stay friends until things change.  Other than that, go for it...the worse that can happen is that the two of you will decide you are better friends than a couple.  GBY
900586
Personally I believe when you really love someone, I don't think age is a problem. It is more of whether both of you can communicate with each other and both have you must be able to accept each other.
1167731
The age difference would not bother me.  I think that age is often over rated.  My fiance is 11 years older than me.
164085
wow, 28 and 63, what an age difference.  What country are you in, i don't think i can advise you on anything being that you are in an entirely different culture and i don't know anything about it.  If you were in America, I would say that he is too old for you, you seem to be in love with him though, i think the only thing you can do is wait and see.  Does he ever come see you?  If not, that is not dating, it is cyberdating, which is not the same thing, if you don't see each other often, unless he is taking care of you and is extremely rivch, iwould find a new man.
826500
Snagg him up before someone else does!! after i got married (to my best friend) two years later i met another guy that is now my best friend and if my husband and i ever parted, i would choose my new best friend as my new life long mate. It helps that you guys are already best friends, that's a good stable foundation. Good luck, and make sure to tell him how you feel. Even if you don't say, show it.
295629
If they Love eachother then nothing should come in between that.Age is just a number.
1163989
Yes, of course. friend ship between opposite sex very possible and very good and healthy. But always avoid meeting each other in alone. And if possible have friend of good age difference, preferably elder age.  Good luck.
502678
reltionship is frankly determined by how two people get to know each other.ifboth of you have determined to marry and are genuiely commited to the cause of living the rest of your lives together,i think both of you should be open to each other.but care should be excercise to avoid sensitive  issues of sex , flirting to damage relationship youve built for 9months to just go . my advice is since  youve acknowledge the past and fell remorse about it,keep such influences out of ur life,pray to god for forgiveness ,free your spirit by this cofession in prayer.again to tell your boy friend may not be helpful except he is of a good understanding person .try as much as possible to build relationship devoid of any cheat .if both of latter married u will see the fruit of your commitment to each other.
544422
I was married when I was 16 and he was 18.  That was 21 years ago.  We are even happier and more in love now than when we were married.  We are each others best friend and ALWAYS make time for the other no matter what.  Communication is definately a must. You can't expect the other to know what is on your mind.  Neither of you are mind readers. ALWAYS respect each other.  Our rule is whoever gets whatever whenever.  Sometimes you need to just spice things up.  It has worked well even with having five kids from 17 down to 4 year old twins!  To really make sure it will last forever...add God and it will!
1082192
ive met a lovely lady on here, she is my soul mate and we have hundreds of things in common, i never thought i would meet someone so perfect in my lifetime (well 99.99% perfect, she's from Wales lol), she has given me a breath of fresh air in my life, and a new belief that not all women are as so shallow as my ex, \n if we met years ago i would of asked her to marry me, but circumstances now mean we can only be friends, which im very happy to be, as i am so lucky to have such a great friend ive never had a 'best' friend in life,  but she is the 'best' thing to happen to me in years. i hope i meet her in our next lives as she truly is a great person. i love you ----
513377
My uncle has married a woman who is 4 years older than him\nthey have a 15 years old daugthet now and nothing seems wrong they are still in love
914271
Line of communication is a huge thing. I have been married for 11 yrs and above all else this a huge factor. No good marriage is easy. You have to love that person and like them because passion comes and goes and you need that friendship and unconditional love to fall back on
1137947
why not!!! Age difference doesn't matter, once the two people get on great. All the best for the future! Love doesn't know any limits!!!!
761470
Stay friends for now\n\nYes, the age difference is within reason