If women think about other men while having sex with their partner, why do they hate watching porn?
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Fantasies and pornos are not interchangeable.  Fantasies are written by the one doing the fantasizing, so we have complete control over acting ability, casting and sound effects.  Oh, and stamina, heh heh.\n\nWith pornos, the acting is typically bad and the sound effects overdone.  And honestly, they're not always that attractive.\n\nPlus, I believe the porno industry is still dominated by men (insofar as behind the camera is concerned).  I hate to generalize, but I think the consensus is that women prefer their pornos to have a bit more plot.
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Because there sick little perverts. And because they like to look at something they will never have. Yeah the women look better then us normal people. But alot of them have fake stuff. So the guys dream about being with them but never will.And i guess they try to get ideas to do to you. Alot of stuff too they will hide it and lie about it saying they don't look at it. And they try hiding it and you find it. I think they think your stupid or something. So guys just be straight forward about it. Oh and they might be embrass about looking at it so that's why they don't own up too it. Quit being little sissy guys.
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Simple Question. Its all with Modesty.\nPeople hide it, others protray it. Its human nature to be embrassed when they know what they are doing is wrong and they are still doing it.\n\nOk,If someones come and see you naked.how do you feel? embarrassed rite? excatly!!! Men do not like woman to see them watching porn. Why? Firstly what they are watching is illegal,2ndly its protraying the opposite sex and woman and woman would see it as a outrage of modesty to themselves. Men would feel embarrassed to let a woman know that. Watching Porn is like watching someone making you horny. your wife will feel inferior to feel that you need to go to other ways to endulge in sexual pleasure. That she will realise she cannot do for you as you already misstreat her trust.\n\nMen Watch Porn is normal. But its all in by human nature.we hide our modesty for a reason.Thats why people have to hide it. Its only human instincts.
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Well first off yes I have and it also depends .....for example I hate Paris Hilton with a fucking passion and one day I came home early and the porno was in our dvd player I flipped out because the night before he said I'm probaly jealous of her and he said it was cause he wanted to have sex with me but couldnt cause I was not home....haha well another time he had this magazine and I  wasn't as mad because the girl kinda resembled me oppesed to being my complete opposite which makes it a little better in my opinion.....BUT YES I UNDERSTAND WHY DO YOU NEED A PORNO IF YOU LOVE ME AND THINK I AM SO SEXY????SO YES I DO GET PISSED OFF JUST HAD TO SHARE MY STORIES SO YOU WOULD KNOW I UNDERSTAND....TELL HIM YOU THINK IT'S DISRESPECTFUL...\n\nGOOD LUCK\n\nAND MEN SUCK....:)
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i think it's somewhat a disrespect when a man checks out another woman -- right in front of his spouse. can't he at least do it when his spouse is not around?\nscientifically, men are driven by sight -- they will look at something they find interesting.\nmen are stupid (well not all of them) -- i once like this guy who didn't pay attention to me. so finally i moved on and found someone else -- then he was all over me. \nobviously when they're looking for women, they're not looking for the possibility of love, but rather who's stock is really high in the market -- the unattainable one. (no matter how trampy she is) and then regret it when they find someone better. they're stupid.\nit's so hard finding a guy who's genuine, humble, and true nowadays. that's sad.\ni know this is not answering your question... well the "stupid" part kinda answers it.
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As far as the friend.  Guys who are not occupied with sex are preoccupied with it.  I don't get guys watching porn with other guys.... seems a little gay.  Porn is for one thing, so are they taking care of that in front of each other?  Also if they share watching porn together, you know the friend knows alot about you at this point, if you know what I mean.\n\nStrip clubs.  I don't get that at all.  It's like being hungry and going to McDonald's to only smell hamburgers.   If your guy goes, it's not something to be jealous of, but it sure reflects poorly on his character.\n\nPorn in general, every guy looks, it's just too available now days and guys are already thinking of sex six times a minute.
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Is it ok for women to watch pornos i dont see why not. i watch them with my partner who loves it when i pratice what the girls are doing on screen. It is normal to be curious go for it watch some today and you will see what you are missing out on\n\nGood luck
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a lot of women aren't,  some pretend to be cos they're embarrassed, some would rather their partners were more open about it instead of hiding it from them and watching it late at night or with their mates.
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Oh my gosh...I do and I am straight. To be honest, I would rather watch porn movies because of the female and not the male. It just looks more kinky.
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All women I know fantasize about other men. We just don't like to talk about it to our husbands and boyfriends. I can't believe women who say they haven't.  We are not blind. We know a goodlooking man when we see one. Even if we don't think about him but just a few moments that is still fantasizing.
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On the sly, these men want to be a woman? Witticism there.\n  \nTwo women having sex is a fascinating visualization, for either gender, in my opinion.  \nI think these men crave, if they are partnered, with a woman, that one of those women were their partner. Later they may conjure the courage to suggest it, the view on video or the tangible act. Privileged men are allowed, by a charitable partner, to observe in attendance, real time.  If he is worthy of this privileged presentation it may consume his every thought.
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Everybody will tell you that they don't think of another woman while making love to their partner but the truth is that most guys do. Some do it to make love to a woman in proxy, by pretending that the one they are making love to is the woman they desire instead of the one available. Some do it to cheat their partners, women do this also. Other do it to spice up the relationship especially where their partner is not kin on sex maybe as a result of sexual abuse earlier in life. Any man saddled with this kind of responsibility may not know how to go about helping her, but because he loves her, anytime he manages to make love to her, he may wish his partner is like somebody else.
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Porn appeals to men because they are very visual. Women are not so visual. Men also seem to be able to completely separate the physical act of sex from any kind of emotion. Most women arent able to do this. They do make porn for women that has more of a story line, and more developed relationships in the story. I dont know - I suppose that there are women who DO like porn, but I tend to think they are the exception to the rule. Who knows WHY men and women like different things - its probably a combination of different brains and different upbringings, socializations, expectations, etc . . .
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The men I know enjoy it because they don't have to keep it a secret. You two can learn and enjoy it together.(And they don't have to jack off cause they got you.)\n\nBut on the other hand some men dislike it because porn is there get away from you they can have it exact how they like it without your feeling being hurt.
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Let's deal with this first. You need to understand that for a man, having a woman, even loving that woman, does not make all other women undesirable. GOT IT? Think about that for a second. A man does not cease being attracted to women in general because he loves one woman in particular. Digest it. Meditate over it. LIVE WITH IT. I dig where you are coming from on an emotional level because i had to enlighten my GF on this issue. I had to make her understand that my love is not suddenly questionable because i got a lap dance. u may not be ready for this type of reality. but print out this response. read it every so often and eventually u will come to the realization that not only am i right, but that you, just like my GF, are being irrational and immature.\np.s. HOW IN THE HELL IS WATCHING PORN COMPARABLE TO ASSOCIATION WITH "FRIENDS" OF THE OPPOSITE SEX. NEWS FLASH! IF U LOOK LIKE ANYTHING, ALL THOSE MALE "FRIENDS" WANNA SCREW U. IF I WERE HIM I WOULDN'T BE TRYNA HERE THAT SH!T EITHER!!!
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When you find the answer it will probably also be the answer to "Why do men lust after little victim pricesses?".\nI guess men and women who pick the wrong partners for themselves are likely lusting after someone physically, and are convinced that they can help the other person. They either need to feel that they are better than the person they are partnered with, or they need to feel that others see their self inflicted pain as a sacrifice and proof of how much they care for the idiot they chose.\nYou need to start hanging out with older more mature women who enjoy their independence. Women who aren't trying to use you, because they have what they need in themselves. Women who want to share their lives with you. Stop hanging out with women of lesser intelligence, who enjoy drama, are lazy, and enjoy being victims of the circumstances they created for themselves. Stop looking for women who want to suck the life out of you.
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Yes, as a matter of fact, we do. Sometimes me and another female partner will watch porn together to get fresh ideas.