why we fall inlove if we can't keep the promises that we gave to the ather person ?
537940
never make a promise that you don't intend to keep...\n\nyou cheapen yourself and your relationship when you do.
443398
No...Sometimes things are meant for us but we can screw it up. I believe that we all control our own fate and if you want someone or something go for it...you don't leave it in the hands or anyone or anything else... Because while you are waiting for someone to come back there will be someone else who will get in the way of that and change the path. If someone loved you it was for a reason and if their mind changed from that you can change it back...nothing is written in stone. Don't wait for fate to come to you make your own. Don't hold on to the love theory of letting things go...if you drop a priceless gem into the ocean and you sit on that shore do you really think you are ever going to see it again...NO....If you let go someone who is priceless to you there is a ocean full of people for them to meet and love do you really think if you just sit there and do nothing they will just float on back...NO!
635094
because we are now in a world were some of us don't know how to appreciate what we have. we always want more, or think we can get better. and you lose the person you care the most about because you never took the time to realize that, that person is everything you want and more
156080
I don't believe you can love someone too much but you can be so attentive that a person can feel smothered. It would depend on what he considers too much and the actual circumstance. If you are devoting 100 percent to him, then its too much. If you are not taking care of yourself and spending time focusing on self then it is way to much. Sometimes what your giving is great but sometimes it is not received like that. I would spend time really looking at the situation, maybe sharing your thoughts with family and friends who know you both and see what their assessment is as well.
1023887
I think you are doing that best that you can do in this circumstance. Relationships shouldnt be all about promises. I dont think you are wrong. You only keep promises when you KNOW that you wont break them, if u dont think you will, i am not sure that is even enough. You are doing it the right way and if i were you dont get to caught up on it. It shouldnt be that big of a deal I am sorry about this! Good luck!
122008
you can love a person all you want but if they dont feel the same you just have to move on, it might hurt (it will hurt), but in time you will find someone that will feel the same and that is better.
55925
A promise is a promise and is meant to be kept. No, you are not acting like a baby. You should tell him that when he makes a promise and doesn't keep it that you are disappointed. Tell him not to make plans if he can't follow through. If he doesn't change his behavior then you might have to find another friend. You could be setting yourself up for a lifetime of broken promises. Yes, there are people who are like that.
861853
God wants us to return the love that he gives to us.\n\nIs it vain to want the one you love to love you back? Is that a longing that you would place in the "vanity" category?\n\nHave you ever really loved someone who didn't love you back? Was it a problem with your vanity that made you yearn for their love?\n\nNo. All true love wishes to be reciprocated. Not to fan the flames of ego, but to perfect the love.\n\nHave you ever loved someone truly, and wanted to offer them all sorts of good things, and just knew that if they would give you the chance they would come to know you and would return the love? Have you ever wished to provide them with great things but were unable because they didn't want the love you offered? Was it all about you, or was it all about them? Did you want them to blossom and flourish and grow and thrive as the result of your love?\n\nGod wants us to love him so that we may receive what he has to offer us. Which is greater than what any human love can provide. But if we continually say "no" to him, he cannot give to us what is his to give, because he respects us and loves us enough to let our "no" be a "no."
152937
There are two kinds of love.\n\nOne that makes you feel safe and secure, in which you may\n\nhave to give up some of who you are to obtain. And one in\n\nwhich you recognize yourself in the other. This kind of love\n\nyou need to give up nothing, but will recieve safety and\n\nsecurity because you're in your natural state. Which is love.
215378
Simple actually. You can't trust someone who will lie to you and you can't maintain a close relationship with someone you don't trust.
202137
That is right! If you say you love someone, you gotta trust him. But before you fall in love with this person you gotta get to know him. If you are willing to accept him for  who he is, then it is LOVE!!!\n\nI have done that and I am now happily married to this man!
201676
Thats kinda the point... to give yourself over to love is to ask the other personal to guarentee you certain things, that they wil stay with you and faithful and not hurt you because now you love them, they're the only one who can hurt you. Giving someone that power over you is how you show them you love them, letting yourself be vunerable is what underlines how important it is to you. weird, huh?
77262
I have been asking this question for years and no one has given me a good answer yet. To me it seems that if you fall in love with someone you do accept them for everything that they are weather it be good or bad but the minuet you try to change them your saying you no longer love them for who they are. Too many do manage to change them only to discover that they don't like what they changed to and then wonder where the person was you met and fell in love with. People just don't know when they have a good thing. I'd dying to read other peoples views on this. GREAT QUESTION
283382
to love is to give. when you give a gift, you do not expect to be given something in return, that is why it is called a gift. this is the nobility of love. loving a person does not assure that you will be loved back, but that is the risk of love. love is courage. and therefore those who are afraid to risk, do not truly love. you do not lose anything if you love a person, even though she will not love you. because you are true to yourself. and in the end you will say, i am happy, because i was brave enough to love, and i have loved that person in the best way i could.
646126
To me, it is a recognition of the value of the person. \nFeeling that this person betters your life and helps you grow as a person and knowing you help them grow as a person too. When you can put the other's persons needs before your own and are willing to put any effort it takes into making it work. \nThere is a big difference between being in-love, loving someone and being in love with love. To be in love I believe you have to care more about the other person than yourself but someone whom you admire and respect who will help you improve and improve life's joys.
533525
commit yourself to keeping the promise
93859
*Shrugging my furry shoulders* If you made a promise or commitment to others then you should at least fullfill your promise. Of course if that is a lifetime thing lol well perhaps that should be re-thought.\n\nIf it was only with yourself, follow your heart, you are capable of deciding what is best for you...