Girls... do you masturbate with fingers or toys... which are better?
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Honestly, it depends on the toy.  One of the toys I have kinda looks like a cane.  Not so much a candy cane but the end curves up :-) It's like heaven on a stick.  But at the same time I use my hand for rubbing.  It feels AWESOME.  \n\nBefore I got my wonderful toy I used just my hands (one on top and one down under) and it was nice too.  I guess it all depends on what kind of orgasm you want to achieve.  \n\nThe hands work nice but the toys DEFINITELY feel alot better for me :-)\n\nHope that helps.
651533
MASTURBATION IS NORMAL WAY OF GETIING PLEASURE AND IT'S A LOT OF FUN.\neverybody need to know how their body works. relax and enjoy!:)
562917
i agree with vibrator except i have 5 and one knicker critter also some lubracunt gel and a sexual position book ma sex toys also i have a red bra and knicker set which i think is very sexy with the matching stockings
1000832
you have a few options if you are doing this alone\n1. miss fingers - yep! its exactly what it shounds like! get to know your own "ta-ta"\n2. miss pointy - or its known as a vibrator..... it helps a lot with the movement. for days when you feel lazy but need to "relieve" your frustrations.... ;)\n3. miss GF - yep! its always fun-ner to get your loved ones to do "it" for you.... it means so much more\n\ni hope this helps ;)
629625
I'm glad he knows from experience. Focus on your clit hun...shoving weird objects in you isn't the best...unless its a dildo and it moves and vibrates, but in the end it's my clit that has always been faithful.
1158021
Toys Toys Toys. Girl like to touch and lick. The perfect play mate can last a long time and is always open for new thing, oo and is always up to play. And likes to have more than 1 girl in the mix. Yum Yum Yum
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Buy a couple.  Different ones have different effects!  G-spot is one of my favorites.\n\nThe hard plastic ones aren't great, but they aren't bad for starting out to see if it is something you like and it's a lot less intimidating than the full-blown model!
466220
you should definitely masturbate. It can actually be good for you. i think it keeps you young.
1111721
With their hands, with vibrators & lube, with dildos & lube. There are all kinds of toys and books on the market. Depending on the girl, some of us like to take a bath with candles and get ourselves really relaxed and in the mood. Then others are good with their body and can have several good orgasms in 15 minutes. Your best bet is watch your girlfriend so you know what she likes.
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The best way is to watch her do it .. that way you can imitate the same movements she was using !\n\nWatch how fast she's moving, where she's moving, what's she's doing with her other hand ... it will make things a lot easier on you.\n\nHitting the "g-spot" with the fingers on the other hand I think might be a little hard.  It's inside - deep inside - "most" women.  \n\nYou would be better off working the outside with your fingers and working the inside with your penis !
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Oh my gosh i was the same frickin way LOL\nWhere I live you have to be 18 to buy sex toys so... depending on where you live, find somone (a close friend) to go and buy it for you....if not just masterbate with your fingers and anything you think will be fun, don't have sex yet, you still got a while for that. But have fun by yourself!!!
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Masturbation involves touching, stroking, yanking, or fondling the genitals to achieve satisfaction, generally in the form of orgasm. You can do all kinds of things, and stroking one way does not feel the same as stroking another way. \n\nTry it if you want. Just make sure you are alone as parents probably would not find it pleasing to see their child do such things. For a first time, just find a place where you're alone and comfortable, drop your pants and gently stroke your penis or vulva (don't know which you are, hon). As you get a little more exited move a little faster. If you are in possession of a cunny you can find something to toy with, for a first time find something small like the backwards end of a pen (don't use the writing side, it's sharp and you'll get ink up there). You can also just use a finger. If you have a willy, then do NOT insert anything, stick more to stroking and yanking. Try different methods as you go on. Do NOT cut yourself or anything, no scissors or anything, please.\n\nI'm guessing you are very young. If you haven't hit puberty yet, don't worry about it, you probably won't be able to have an orgasm anyway. If you have, then play on.
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I think I know why you're asking. Maybe you have a young girlfriend and you're asking for her.\n\nI am talking now of personal experience.\n\nI started masturbating as a child, many years before my period started. When I got my period, I discoverd it while I was masturbating....\n.... that was very disgusting....\nJust as a proof that many girls also masturbate at a young age.\n\nIf a girl masturbates, she knows her body better than a girl that doesn't. I heard many questions like "where to put the tampon" - this is just weird. I also just read a question about that here.... and I answered this girl that she should masturbate to learn more about her body.\n\nBut really, using a tampon has nothing to do with masturbation itself. Using a tampon has in general no pleasing factor. It's not really great to use tampons, you just have to.\n\nThe first time, it could hurt a little, but the girl should carefully read the instructions in the box of the tampons.\nThen it will be alright.
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Use a little lube (KY, vaseline or similar) and diddle your clit with the finger/s of one hand while carressing your body with the other. You may want to insert fingers or suitable objects into you vagina or anus for additional stimulation. Some people like to suck their fingers or listen to hypnotic music.
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Masturbation is the manual excitation of the sexual organs, most often to the point of orgasm. It can refer to excitation either by oneself or by another (see mutual masturbation). It is part of a larger set of activities known as autoeroticism, which also includes the use of sex toys and non-genital stimulation. There are also masturbation machines used to simulate intercourse. Masturbation and sexual intercourse are the two most common sexual practices, but they are not mutually exclusive (for example, many people find the sight of their partner masturbating highly erotic). Some people are able to achieve orgasm only through masturbation and not sexual intercourse. In the animal kingdom, masturbation has been observed in many mammalian species, both in the wild and in captivity.
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I'm assuming you mean master-bate.  The best way is whatever way you like.  I'm a fan of my good ole right hand, my gf loves her vibe-rator, and another friend swears by hot tub jets.  Virginity has nothing to do with how you like to get off, however you need to practice and try new things until you find what is right for you.
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One of my female friends happens to enjoy this sort of thing (a lot!) and of course I (being the gallant sort of fellow that I am) have assisted her on several occasions. Typically this is something that women do for each other because in many cases a man’s hands are too big. It takes a LOT of lubricant, and the woman really needs to completely relax (which, according to my friend, is the toughest part cuz the tendency in this situation is to tighten up). I can’t say much more from the woman’s perspective, but as the one who “lends the hand” I can say that I personally find the sensation to be extremely interesting and enjoyable – though not really all that erotic, except for the basically erotic nature of being so intimate with a woman, etc. Er…ah…what I mean is that the act, per se, doesn’t really add much extra erotic element for me, but I still have a good time. One word of caution: My woman friend says that once your whole hand gets inside, DO NOT withdraw your hand too quickly, since the suction created by a quick withdrawal can cause pain and I suppose even damage. I’ve always been careful to follow her instructions. I insert as much as she says, when she says, and never make any sudden movements. I’ve only done it “at the Y” and have no interest in ever trying the “back door” version (too much “yuk” factor for me), although I guess it can be done.\n\nNow if, after all of this, you still don’t know exactly what fist[ing] is, then you are probably too young, so I will explain very carefully. First you find a warm, fuzzy mitten. You dump some vegetable oil on your hand and stick it in the mitten. It feels gooey and gross and that’s what’s cool about it. And that’s all there is to it.