my bf got his ex gf's 13 year old sister pregnant and hes 23 he didnt tell me why do u think he didnt tell me?
543615
it might be because that he is embarassed cause he dot an underage girl pregnant and he doesn't want to make ur relationship go sour because of a past mistake he made..\nhe might have told ur foster mum the truth cause ur mum must have pestered or really told him that she wanted the truth cause her daiughter is going out with him...\n\nthis are just assumptions though.. the best thing for u to do to really know the reason is to ask him why he didn't tell u...
75853
I cannot agree or disagree with him.  I was not present during all of those 4 to 5 months that the couple was dating.  He says he never promised her to get into a serious relationship, but did he ever tell her that?  Did he just lead her on for the sex?  Did she ever ask him what his intentions were?  Did she just assume that because they were having sex that the relationship was serious (or would lead to more commitments)?\nAnd what business is this of yours (unless the woman was your sister)?\n... and don't you just hate it when somone answers a question with a bunch of questions?
167684
You are in for it. If he spends lots of time with the baby and its not alone. (at his ex's place without you) THen he's probably doing something with her and you. SO if your not into that, you have a lot of thinking to do. Its better to love and lost and never loved at all. (men in black)
827423
Ummm I don't know how old u r, but really that doesn't matter... stay away from the sister's bf....STAY AWAY FROM THE SISTER'S BF!!  All that will happen is drama drama drama.  Stick with your b/f or go find a better one...but you need to distance yourself from your sister's relationship now before it goes any further!!!
988145
How long were they together?  Its possible that she was a major part of his life, and you can't expect him to just let go of that completely.  Just remember, though, he is with YOU, and not with her.
708393
he made her pregnant so it's his right to know  and take responsibility. she has to open up and tell him there is no other way out.and if she hides it sooner or later it will show.
1093180
I was in a relationship where the girl was 3 years older then me and It never really bothered me, Until she starts telling her friends and telling me and saying it as if she was embarrassed. So i ditched her and so learn from our mistake and don't pick at him about it. But age does not seem to mater if he is mature and you care for him then your very lucky. Good luck I hope this helps.
745222
He might have just wanted to tell you that there were girls there incase you hear it from someone else. If that happens you'd start to question why didn't he tell you about it and wonder if he's hidding something. He's just trying to play it safe and be honest with you by keeping you updated about all the things that are happening.
1085001
she is his sister. and you need to realize that. i have a brother who is not even a year older than me. and we are best friends. he dated one of our friends and it drove her crazy when we would hang out. chances are your boyfriend isn't going to sleep with his sister, leave you for his sister, run away with his sister. because she is . . . his sister. you never know she probably feels threatened by you for taking away her older brother. . . and only blood relative. you need to try and not be selfish, and just realize that it is pretty unfair to expect someone to put all of their love into one person. maybe let him know you are feeling a bit neglected. but don't make him give up his relationship with his only sister.
766885
I can tell you why alot of guys not all but alot think with there Di*k and not there brain. But dont worry because he got what he deserved he got that girl pregnant and now he is stuck with child support and alot of headachs kids are really expensive. Just be glad you didnt get stuck pregnant and with a huge responsibility you can live your life do things the right way get married and live happy. Dont worry there are good guys out there and you will find him let this loser go on with his messed up life and goodluck to you.
503352
Sounds like a case of him feeling guilty for what he was doing so he makes up something to blame you for to cover it up.  You should confront him and find out why what he is doing with this girl isn't considered cheating.
984201
Any man that respects their girlfriend or even women in general would not do that. This guy is acting like he has to prove something.. he thinks this is cool and thinks of her as soley a sexual object - not a person. He is not appreciating the other things she has to offer - he is just obsessed with this one and feels some sick need to talk about it. If he does it again in front of you, I would interrupt him and tell him it is inappropriate to talk about her in front of her or at all and that sex with someone is and should stay private. \n\nWhen I started to read this, I thought this was a 12 or 13 year old question - seriously, from the way you described the situation. That does not say much for their maturity and it sounds like neither of them should even be in a relationship when they are still that immature at 28. I would let this guy know it is totally inappropriate - maybe he doesn't get it or something. My bf would never do that - ever and no, I have not really seen anything like that. \n\n:o)
263074
Wow thats a really tough situation. Well, if he loved you so much why does he still have his girlfriend of 2 years?? Doesnt that mean he cheated on you?? The babymama thing is somewhat acceptable, because i guess it can happen easily. But why the girlfriend?? Arent you HIS girlfriend? you should be his only one... go to him and talk to him about it cause you dont wanna be just another babymom in his life. You should be his "wifey". Good luck with that girl! If you have any questions feel free to contact me.\nP.S. No abortions please
152885
Well, from a legal stand point it is perfectly fine to be dating him. You do need to consider though, his experience in life vs your own. Chances are he has done a lot more living then you have. In the begining your age differences may not effect your relationship much, but in time he could become possesive and controlling and try to stop you from living your young carefree life. Wanting to settle down ect... I watched this happen to my sister, and before she knew what was happening she felt stuck, and had a baby, and he had her convinced that she was nothing without him, often using his experience in life against her youhful ways. She did finally get out, after a few years, but now she is a single mom trying to make a life for her and her child and this guy is still a thorn in her side and will be for the rest of her life since she shares a child with him. While you might be thinking this would never happen to me, once upon a time my sister thought the same thing. Be careful & good luck.
1039460
there was probably something he didnt want to tell her....maybe another girl? but whatever it is theres no trust or communication in their relationship... she shouldnt go back with him..he wont be worth it.
727212
I dated this guy who had just got out of a 7 year relationship. We dated for a year and I wound up pregnant. After 4 months into my pregnancy my sister called me at work to tell me that she had seen my b/f with his ex shopping at K mart and that she too was pregnant (1 month behind me). As hard as it was, I kept everything to myself and went to my b/f house the following night. I asked if he'd take a drive with me. I hopped on the freeway (so there was no jumping out of the car)  and beat the living crap out of him with my right hand whiled I steered with my left. I dumped his ass off at home and to make a long story short, I ended my pregnancy and left the idiot ex to keep hers...they are now happily divorced and he has since tried to contact me through friends and relatives while I am happily married to the BEST man in the entire world!
12013
Sorry sister we need more info -why do you think hes cheating?  Hard to help you if we dont have any info or background.  hope you post another question with more info next time!