Is this why men do not want to get married...?
538539
OMG!!!! Hahahahahahaaaa!!!! Freakin' hi-Lar-ious!!!!!!\nNever read it that way. Hahahahahahaaa!!!I'm sooo gonna tell all my friends and my family this joke!!:)\n\nThank you sooo much for sharing!!:)
398202
If youre asking why so many men seem to be afraid of marriage? I think it's because in this day and age, we are all brought up to believe that we should get perfection, and that we shouldn't settle for just anybody and should wait and wait until the absolute perfect person comes along, so we end reasonable relatioships and re-start new ones again and again, continually searching for the right person.
628663
You can't "Get" a man to marry you until they are ready, or mutually like yourself, think the relationship is ready to take it to the next step. Think about it, would you want to force someone into marrying you now just because your ready only to find out later (after a divorce) that they weren't ready to be married?
854299
Guys ALWAYS do this. They never have marriage in mind until they mature and feel like they want to get married.
227095
I suppose they can influence people to marry someone they might not otherwise....Some old guys have pretty young wives and it isn't because the young women find the old men fascinating.
218204
You are not messed up in the head, some people are great contributers to sociaty and have never been married. You gan fufill a wonderful life by haveing the opertunity to do many great accoplishments by not haveing someone distracting you from the causes that you feel important.This is some of the reasons why Catholic Priests and Nuns don't get married.It is alright to wait and eventualy find a special person to help you out of your shell,in the meantime find a cause that you are passionate abought and embrace it with all the energy and Zest that you can muster.
242023
Maybe it's because they've never been taught about the consequences.. i mean, so far all i've heard is how we shouldn't stop two people who loved each other from marrying, even if they're the same gender. Or, the relationship is ethically wrong. A majority of people aren't taught about the dangers of it. I don't support this kind of marriage also.. because i was brought up knowing that it ruins the marriage institution (between a man and a woman) and etc. Maybe what you said could come true, but it will take years before others  to open their eyes and see what has happened.
411371
hi ,yes its fine to ask a guy to marry you ,but its not very nice what he said to you ,its not his turn ?? how many times does he want to get engaged ?? this could all to do with the MALE EGO thing !! he asked someone and probably got hurt ,and doesnt want to get hurt again ,marriage when it comes down to it is a bit of paper and a ring ,what you have this now is him and you and a future together,enjoy that and things will work out and anyway you never know he could be the one to ask you  good luck have a greeat life together XX
487811
Don't haggle with it dear...we want what women want-sometimes not in the same order...that is all.The majority of us do/will settle down when the timing seems fit.For the meantime we cannot deny what nature has designed us to do...we must indulge in it or be at constant war with our inner being.If women could just understand that and feel what we feel for just one day...the majority of them would not post all the "Why are all men/Why do all men" questions anymore!We know that we can't live without women...but when will you women admit that?\nNothing personal miss..just food for thought,thank you & have a goodnight.
1076733
Commitment.  Some women are afraid of it.  A married man very seldom divorces his wife for another, so it is a SAFE relationship for the women who wants no strings.  Just like women who marry men in prison for life and on death row.
1028075
People should live their lives in a manner that they are comfortable with.  If someone chooses not to be married, that's fine.  Better to be alone than wish you were!
463265
I guess its cos they're afraid to get tied down & loose their freedom. But really the truth is if you find the right person you dont feel any fear at all. All you want is to be with that person whatever it takes. So in a way if your man doesnt seem to be willing to commit it shows the depth of his feelings for u.
307369
He wants to make sure that everyone knows that you are WAY off the market.  He has made a very small commitment, but if your not planning on marrying him I would cut and run.  He sounds somewhat controlling, but it could just be that ya'll are young and tenatious.
888752
Sounds as if both of you are not ready to marry.
566451
1. He's gay.\n2. He isn't ready to get married.\n3. Afraid of commitment.\n4. Hasn't found the right person yet.\n5. Wants to wait until he's older.\n6. Wants to wait until his career is more stable.\n7. Doesn't want to marry the person he's with now.\n8. Fear of divorce.\n9. Doesn't want to get married.\n10. Doesn't want children and feels if he is married that he'll be expected to have children. \n11. He's already married and is too scared to tell you.
1121229
Really depends on the guy though doesnt it? I mean women freak out as well.\nIt also has to do about the way it is brought up.\nAnd well, women do seem to have, at the back of their mind, this reminder that if they want to settle down and have kids they need to do so by age of (am a guy forget what age that was again) while us men half the time think that we got all the time in the world. So it might not even be not wanting to commit to you, just really feeling rushed.
361058
Not all men do. I know that I, as well as some of my married buddies, take our relationships and marriages very seriously.\n\nSome men just want to conquer women s#xually, and then they move on. Some men get bored and want some excitement, and some are like little kids in a candy store, unable to keep their hands to themselves.\n\nUnfortunately, it is up to women to separate the wheat from the chaff, if you will.