why are some people be gay and a lesbian?
546718
You may as well ask why people are heterosexual too. There is no reason. They just are. I personally do not believe homosexuals, lesbians and bi-sexuals will burn in Hell. God has room in his house for everyone. Even those who fall outside religious doctrine.
583059
what does this have to do with lesbian, gay and transgendered?
366831
Same reason other people like being straight.  It's being who you are that makes you happy.
484942
A person is gay if they prefer sex with someone of the same gender. Wearing certain clothing doesn't "make" someone gay.
74515
because they're gay .
847336
It's genetic. Alot of heterosexual people have homosexual relatives and alot of homosexual people have heterosexual relatives....we're born this way as you were born straight..
50694
It's assumed because most married folks, or folks with kids are straight.  There are some who aren't.  So if someone incorrectly assumes your sexuality, politely correct them & move on with your life.  It is no big deal what you are.
1163353
More than 75%, the reason why more Lesbians and Gays commit suicide more than Straights and more Gay Youths than Gay Adults.\n\nThat is due to the enormous pressure of first admitting you're gay or even bi.\n\nThen coming out to people, especially those close to you (family, friends, etc.)\n\nThen it's dealing with the am I damned to hell for all eternity for coming out and admitting mostly coming from the government, religious groups and/or people.\n\nThey say gays and lesbians have a miserable life.\n\nThat's mainly due to people and most of society at large making it difficult for us to live a life much like everyone else.  Only one difference is the attraction to the same gender or both genders.
390646
Well, if people would use common sense, they would realize that being born "Gay" isn't logical. Why would a species be born attracted to the same sex? Can they reproduce? \n\nMost species on this earth, are born to reproduce and create others like themselves. In order for this to happen, there needs to be a Male and Female species and a attraction to the opposite sex. This is how every species on this earth is created. \n\nI have heard thousands of people talk about genetic research and how it proves that Gays are born Gay. Genetic research also proved that cloning was possible, and look how that turned out.\n\nI have also heard many people talk about how their cat or dog was seen having sex with another of the same sex. I've also seen a dog eat it's own waste too. Animals can become confused just like humans, although I assume that Humans should have more sense. \n\nSo why do we have Gays and Lesbians? Well, actually it is very simple. Things that happen to a person, wether it's at a very young age or in adulthood, reflect on how that person thinks. Many have been abused in some way or another. Either by being molested as a child, or treated as an outcast when they were young. Many grew up in broken homes and were without one of their biological parents. Many were not taught how someone of their gender should behave. There are many different reasons, and what usually happens is this. Individuals who have not had the so called "Normal Life" will seek acceptance from those who are similar to themselves and this is normally the same sex gender, because they easier to relate too. A bond is created and the trust and affection they feel towards each other for accepting one another, becomes Love. This kind of Love is stronger than most people realize, because it fills the void that someone in our society has created. Someone, Sometime, Somewhere has done something to each of these "Gay" people and caused their lives to change forever. \n\nThis is where "Gays" and "Lesbians" came from, and there's nothing we can do to change it. There will always be different types of people, but our society created this one. \n\nA Gay person can chose to live a Straight lifestyle and be happy. A Straight person can also chose to be Gay if they want to and live happy also. How? Because they are both Human Beings with feelings, and feelings can change. If feelings couldn't change, there wouldn't be any such thing as a divorce. \n\nI have also heard the remark many times about why would a person chose to be "Gay", since our society hates "Gays" and "Lesbians"? The answer: Many didn't chose to be "Gay". Situations in a persons life can alter their feelings towards certain beliefs. For example: Would you chose to be with your abusive biological family or a loving adoptive one? Your instincts tell you to stay with your biological family but your feelings tell you to go to the adoptive one because they won't hurt you and will love you.\n\nI'm sorry this is so long, but it seems that there are so many people out there that don't look outside the box or they refuse to see beyond their way of thinking. Hope this helped you to understand in some way why the world has Gay people.
201714
that is what is called bisexualtiy. you are sexually attracted to both men and women. A homosexual is attracted to people of the same gender, a heterosexual is attracted to people of the other gender, bisexuals are attracted in some degree or another to both genders.
626138
Lesbians are just like any other people, and just happen to like girls instead. We're still humans! By the way thats a hot picture you got there! ;)
42238
I would say it's a combination of genetic disposition (being born that way) and the environment one grows up in.  But as it is now, there has been minimal research done to prove whether one is born gay or not.  Of all the homosexuals I know personally, none have told me that they "chose" to be gay.
113834
being gay is not something that someone chooses for themselves they are or they are not.  You can change a behavior, such as not having relationships with a same sex partner, but no matter what if you are gay, you are gay
1127823
born that way, why would they have so much trouble adjusting to their lifestyle and often at first hoping and wishing they were not gay. the facts speak for themselves.
186209
because that is what turns them on the most or turns them on at all, a lot of gay people are born that way but not all\nmost people are by Nature multisexual \ncircumstance ,conditions , opertunity and education or peer influence,decides sexuality,\nalthough some are more macho or more efeminate(for both the sexes)we are made up of 4 sexualities,not 2 as is generally believed or taught.xx,xy,yx,yy. .X being male and y being female\n\nif two man grew up on a dessert island alone ,the chance that they would have sex together is very big
695713
who cares if that is what they choose.  that is their RIGHT.  they may be ignorant and ridiculous, but if they choose it, so be it.  just like some people choose to be gay.\n\nPS ~ yes, most are probably born that way, but not in the case of my lesbian cousin, who is now married to a man with two children.
523461
There's nothing wrong with being lesbian... \nIts a matter of choice.. \nYou cannot force other people to accept gay/lesbian people...\nThere are people who doesnt like those kind of people because that is how they see life..\nIts their freedom...\nAnd its your freedom to choose who you can and will love... \nNo matter they're gender...\n\nIts a matter of choice whether you can handle the pressure that society will give you...\nIts a matter whether you are HAPPY...\n\nI am a lesbian... \nI am happy...