how do u know if he's really "lord's gift to u for d rest of your life"..?
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It depends... is he everything you wanted, or everything you needed.\n\nWhen I first started dating my husband, he wasn't exactly what I thought I wanted.  But as we got to know each other I found he was what I needed to be both happy and a better person and truly a "gift from God".\n\nIf you're engaged or contemplating getting engaged, you need to go into it as a forever thing and not looking at it as something you can easily get out of it it isn't exactly what you thought it would be.
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If it's something that you really want and God knows you'll be happy, He'll answer your prayer. He knows what He's doing. God knows what's best for people and He knows what they want. You just need to pray and talk to Him. \n\nIf it was really ment to be, God will know. He wants you to be happy.
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Does he really want you? Will he continue to shower you with affection after he has got you?\n\nIs the guy you are with asking for the things you are spending your money on or are you just buying them assumng that he wants them?\n\nThe fighting is another issue. Does he prefer saving money for the future? New car or house? If so, you cannot fault him for that.\n\nThe important thing to remember is that being spoiled rotten with gifts is not love and in the end will not make you completely happy. It seems like you need to do a little soul searching.
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It isnt about gifts, it is about thoughtfulness.\n\nYou say he is very special, then tell him that, tell him what he really means to you and your life. Tell him how he completes your life and how he makes you fell and why he makes you feel that way.\n\nFor my anniversary recently, I made a presentation in powerpoint of all the special memory photos from our life together, I added a background music track of our favourite song and then I used the ext spaces to tell my wife in each picture why it was special and how she had made it special for me. I added stuff I have never told her because we assume they already know it but one thibgs she said when she watched it was that although she knew I loved her and knew she was special for me, that actually seeing it again and being told it was a wonderful thing.\n\nThe best gifts cost nothing except some time and some thought.\n\nAnd if you cant think of an idea, you can always buy something minute and sexy ;-)
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First, open ur bible and read 1Corinthians 13:4-8 and if he/she resembles a bit of all or most of these qualities, then he loves u. The best way to know, is if he/she puts ur feelings, thoughts, emotions, ideas...ect, before his/hers. Lastely if they respect u. I hope this answers ur question. \nGood luv'n.
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Do you have a Bible? Read it. He is my best friend, He is my Savior. We talk to Him by praying. Just open your heart to Him and read His word and you too will see what I'm talking about.
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I will pray for you both.  Even if the answer is not what you want, though, remember that He knows what's best for us better than we do ourselves.  Trust in Him to take care of you.
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First, let me remind you about Romans 8:28, "And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose."  In all things God works for the good and He has a special purpose for your life. Keep in prayer to God and ask Him how you are to use the gifts He has given you. He will let you know when and how you are to use them.
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I feel the one thing above all others that God has blessed us with (that is so forgotten by most) -- is LIFE!\n\nGod did not have to even give any of us the gift of life, and he did.  We should never take life for granted.  He gave us life on earth for a while, and if we deserve his bigger blessing, we will be blessed with eternal life in heaven with God.
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How thoughtful and selfless of you!...Actually, tradition has it that the godparents would present a gift to the child; usually something to commemorate and encourage your walk with Christ.  Maybe some holy water or oil that's been blessed-so that they too may receive blessings as they have blessed you, especially during this season of spiritual growth for you.  It should be something in keeping with the occasion.  May the Lord help you to select a gift from your heart and may He bless you on your new path! May you always feel His divine love and mercy.
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He's probably working all the time for you and your future together...and now you want to end it.\nSound like you're a good christian to me.(sarcasm)
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:) And this is the best thing that happened in your life. get closer to Him, win His heart by being obedient and forgiving to others. God bless.
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You can't force the Spirit -- wait patiently, and know that God loves you.  The Spirit is a gift.
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Take it one day at a time.  If he is a good man, he will show you over and over again that he truly is.  Let him in a little at a time.  You'll be just fine.
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Yes, ask him.  That's the only way to find out.  If you know you'll spend the rest of your life with him, why not risk knowing sooner?
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I don't know if that is measurable until the day you die.  Just a special little hope on that for your sake though.  If your in love and the person is right for you, cross your fingers and pray to God that person thinks the same about you.
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Ask him.\nHow he answers the question is how you will know.\nAlso you can feel if someone really loves you.