why are grils not in love with a guy thats hard but nos how to take care of them....... like me?
535248
What do you mean hard? Give directions, orders? Forget it..Taking care of someone means more than financially. You sound like a loser
344083
No!!! If he keeps hurting you why would you want to be with him? Have more selfworth, find a guy who cares for you the way you deserve to be cared for.
247400
because you set expectations...you had high standards...\nregarding to those you like, they are not just the right person for you...and you shouldnt be looking for the guy...love comes, never search for it.it will come in the most unexpected place and time...
494157
u jerk not worth of love ..... dont have gutts but want to fall in love
487563
I'm a guy...Ladies, if your bf is not giving you enough attention and you are not a spoiled brat (I'm not saying you are), then he isn't in love with you, not matter what he says! If a guy truly loves you, attention would be the least of your problems! If I love the woman I'm with, nothing else can get my attention. If you have to fight for attention, move on and find another guy...there are plenty to go around. Expecting 100% is expecting too much however, the guy does need a life and you should have one to. It is not healthy to be together ALL of the time...that makes for a dull relationship. Ever hear..."absence make the heart grow fonder"? Well it does, try it once in a while.
655095
Your subconcious views him as confident and capable.  Hes also making you laugh which is a great way to attract any women.  On top of that your subconcious is telling you this guy isn't needy and your not going to have to take care of him, rather hes capable of taking care of you.\n\nBest of luck....
592220
same thing happened to me recently. Maybe we should hook up ;)\n\nForget him, even though its hard. just take your mind off or them, it does get better with time.
1181627
Women seem to but men never do... It takes them much longer and in the meantime while you are falling head over hills for them, they are decideing that you aren't the one for them. Be careful with your heart... take your time and never love a man...more than he loves you.
1052876
if it were meant to be you would be together. if you are both in pain why don't you get together and talk? if he cares about you why isn't he doing anything about it. sometimes guys just say these things because they don't want to hurt you. it doesn't necessarily mean that they care for you in the context you are putting it. as hard as it is the less you see of this person the easier it will become. at first the pain is so intense but in time with all hurt it fades little by little everyday.
452437
physically, i dont really care, they need to be humerous and make me feel special every day. they have to be honest and trustworthy. i dont think i ask  a lot and my guy has it all.
355931
Why is it that the men your refering to know they don't have to have a lasting relationship with you or why is it that your relationships are not lasting...I have found women think they can attract a man one way and think they can keep him another way...You sound intimidating and perhaps your a challenge, and once they realize your just like other women, they lose interest or consider the challenge over...there can be many reasons...just try and be the person you are and allow Mr. Right to recognize thats the person he wants..good luck.
213359
If a guy doesn't like/love you for who you are then he isn't worth it! Why would you think about changing yourself, likes or dislikes to have someone fall in love with you? For example...Let's say you pretend to be someone your are not.  You dress, act and look a certain way to attract a guy. Wouldn't he be falling for the girl you created? Therefore, he wouldn't be falling in love with you! Be true to yourself and try to be patient. I'm sure there is someone waiting around the corner!
412443
There's no person in this world who cant or does not deserve to be loved. No matter how non-girlish you are, people will adore your qualities. If they go only for looks, they are not worth changing yourself for. Infact, its easier for you to decide who is best for you. Dont go all out with wanting boys to take you out. Be calm and just give your guy a hint. I am sure he will understand it if he really cares for you.
507020
this is the same probs with me also.\ni dont love the guy who loves me soo much!!\ngirls are like that,.. tooo choosy and stuff. they always want something thats out of reach.\nso my advice is.... be with the guy who like u , than the one whom u love,\nhard to follow, but easy to advice
81750
You're not in love.  You're obssessed - with wanting something (in this case, someone) you cannot have.  Don't worry is a common human trait ... u just got to wean yourself off this man.  He spells trouble and you already know that.  Just got to let your head rule over your heart for your own good.
907901
I can understand that you have feelings for him but being a mans doormat isn't the way to be. I think that you need to set him straight and tell him that if he wants you and truly cares for you he'll get serious about the relationship.Nothing should keep people apart even if its work, a real caring person would try and find time for the one he loves.If things don't go as planned I say you leave and look for someone who is truly ready for you.You shouldn't have to wait for him\nGood Luck
552676
Weigh things over then talk to him personally. Don't let your feelings to rule over you. Did he say he loves you? If not, forget him. You'll get over with him. Look for someone else you deserve. Someone who will take care of you and will never hurt you..