Does my boyfriend still love me?
542875
He's probably just reacting to events around him, If he said it once, he can still say it again. we make remarks like this all the time.
316734
well all u got to do is follow ur heart. if u really love him and he loves you then yeah u should. just think of who is at the end of the love chain. is it him, or someone else.
651995
It seems 2 me like he still wants u but he just don't know how 2 be with u right now. He may need a little time out.He's confused because he love u so much, he'll probably do just about anything for u.He's just scared that u may hurt him again & he may not know how 2 react if it ever happens again.U may have lost a little of his trust for u.He'll find out a way 2 fix this.Its just 2 much 4 him right now.Just give it some time. It'll all come out. Good luck!\n My situation is similar 2 urs.
907070
Actions speak louder than words.  Even he says he loves you, if he does not show it, it means nothing.  He might not realize this either.  But when you love someone, you would want to spend as much time with them as possible (though work may be hard), and do nothing to hurt your partner's feeling (including reciprocating another girl's interest in you).  Why don't you take a break from each other and see how much you mean to each other?  You may find that there are other men out there who would appreciate you more than your current bf does.
25026
You should sit down with your boyfriend and make clear that you don't want to break up, if he really loves you he'll understand your position and will try to fight for that relationship.. But if he still wants out, beleive me girl, he doesn't love you the way you think.. Just think about it.. when someone is in love with another person, that someone will do anything to keep it together and will fight for his/her love...
681956
He definitely has issues that he needs to resolve. Only he knows why he's stalling.  And obviously unable to make a decision.  Thus in your shoes, I would request that he get back to you, once he resolves his issues.  Simple as that.\nPlease dont tell me how much you love him. There's no need for you to be dragged into his prior relationship by your confusion.  And how can you tell if he loves you, since he's unable to disconnect from his prior. If that is how he shows his love, I would be very concerned. You can be in for further heartache and confusion.  WHY torture yourself?
158437
If he doesnt say it all on his own then maybe you should stop saying it for a couple of days just to see if he does say it to see if he even misses you saying it at all. Or you could just ask him if he really does love you and if he says yes then you should be able to ask him if he was just saying it back b/c you said it to him. Don't argue it out of him just tell him that it hurt you and that the whole time you had to sit back and literally question if he really loved you or not. Your in a relationship talk to him.\nGOOD LUCK MA MA !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
925120
stop asking him if he is happy every day. I'm not too sure how you find out if someone truly loves you but if he tells you he does and you have a great relationship then maybe he does.
483828
if he is willing to do it FOR you he is willing to do it TO you. \nchances are he will do this if he is your boyfriend (or worse) i would ditch all feelings for him and find another love intrest.\nor, you could talk to him and tell him how you feel and see how he feels about you and go from there. just remember the very top of my post.
944631
Maybe he's just feeling insecure about himself? I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years now and we've definitly had our ups and downs..\n\nSounds like you're being very sincere and care about him SO much.......if YOU really love him stick with him make him see that YOU are NOT doing anything other than trying to help him and wanting to love him....Just make sure you follow your heart and if you decide to leave him make sure its for the RIGHT reasons ....
121472
I wish I had the answer to that. You can't make him love you if he doesn't - you can't tell his heart what to feel. If you think he doesn't love you anymore, maybe the two of you could sit down & talk about your feelings? Maybe you are just reading him wrong & he still loves you but you don't perceive it that way. You may need to tell or show him what you need to feel loved - & perhaps he wants something from you to make him feel more loved as well. Try to communicate your wishes & desires to one another, your dreams, your plans for the future, your hopes. If you love him, let him know that all of those things include him for you. Good luck & best wishes.
1084339
Do it! maybe he still has feelings for you too! Perhaps you can work it out....or at least find out if the sparks are still there. right!?
451565
I think he do love you, due to the fact you lost your women head to him so there are feelins all around you teo relationship. Just give it a try it want hurt, Just be careful with yourself
411081
this is Jennifer im 28 years old i been with my man sense August 6,2003.that would make it almost 3 years that we been togather.he had told me he loved me first.it was just a few months into our relationship.I had a lot of people at my house alll the time and one evening we were all partying and he left..he called me after he left and we were argueing he left me a message on my voice mail he said all this bull**** then he said I LOVE YOU<there i said it...and thats how it went...
453705
I love you. That took about 1.7 seconds. But he just won't say it, huh. He may say it tomorrow or he may never say it, that isn't exactly the strongest sign that he honestly loves you. There are many factors at work and it will be up to you to muddle your way through it all. Let me see if I can help you do that.\n\nYou will find as you age that Love will take on many faces. \n\nAt times, Love will make you feel like the happiest girl in the world. You will be so filled with It that Love will spill over and get on everyone around you. The whole mood of a room will change when you walk through the door.\n\nOther times, It will take your heart and stomp it into the ground. Just when you think it is done, it will turn and spit on you.\n\nLove will be the thing that defines different periods of your life. Love is better as a group activity but that doesn't mean you can't be alone in your feelings of Love also.\n\nWhat you have to look at here is your boyfriends comfortable zone. In some families the word love is used in everyday language. The children and the parents are quick to assure each other of Its existance. \n\nIn other families, It is said only at times when someone feels a strong need to assure another that they do indeed feel love for them.\n\nThen there are those families where speaking the Word is a bit uncomfortable and is almost or totally absent from their interactions. So...\n\nWhich of these fits your boyfriend's experience. Is the word so common to him that he might find it easy to say even if he feels only a little bit of it towards you? Is he someone that understands his feelings enough to say it only if he is sure of it? Or could he feel an overwhelming Love for you but still not vocalize it? \n\nHere is the defination of "what love is" as given in the Bible. It's not a definition of being in love. It gives a definition that defines what will be present if love is present. Even if the word Love is never said, this is how you will recocnize it.\n\n"Love is patient, love is kind. It is not jealous, (love) is not pompous, it is not inflated, it is not rude, it does not seek its own interests, it is not quick-tempered, it does not brood over injury,  \nit does not rejoice over wrongdoing but rejoices with the truth. \n\nIt bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails... So faith, hope, love remain, these three; but the greatest of these is love."\n\nDon't try to force the Word from him. Don't think that hearing him say the Word is the definitive event that proves It's existance. Actions speak so much louder than words ever will. Instead, look for the signs of Love. Now you know what those signs are.
434356
I believe you mean "you still love him" not "i tell love him".  \nI am also assuming that he initiated the breakup.  I understand what you are going through.  This is the first full week after my bf broke up with me (we were together for 16 months).  I don't think we should be mad at ourselves for still loving our exbf's, that is just the way we are, we can't change our feelings in a split second.  This is what I am going to do: I am going to make a weekly plan, each week I am scheduling things to keep me very busy, things that I have been neglecting because my bf was consuming so much of my time. After all of those projects (organizing my closet/redecorate my room etc) have been done I am going to look for a new interest/class.  I have always wanted to scrapbook/take a dance class.  For the next month its going to be all about ME.
59416
If your boyfriend really loves U he will get U something.But if U half 2 tell him he does not really,really,really love U.