whats a good present to get my girl friend who was just told she has cancer? She is 20.?
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An atunement from a Reiki master. I heard a story about someone with cancer having excellent luck with Reiki. I know a Reiki master who often volunteers at the local cancer center. it might be worth checking out.
1078186
you can get her a purse, wallet, watch, earrings, necklace, or make a special dinner and surprise her. she will love it. good luck.
507926
If I had a boyfriend I would like scarves or a teddy bear or something. Just give her something that is from your heart and also something that will make her smile.
1001422
Pre-paid funeral!! Kidding..something nice and with a nice scent..perhaps a small pillow with scented lavender in it to help her sleep at night (put under her pillow)..and not to forget the nicest thing..a hugg!! :) Good luck :)
1007718
Give her something that will remind her of how much you care. Make it personal. Make her a coupon book for when she gets out of the hospital. Figure out what she liked to do and also what she should be able to do when she gets out. If she's able to walk, make one thats good for a long walk in the park... and so on.
77093
Quality time with you. If she is bedridden, get her some flowers for her room & find a good book to read to her. Maybe play a card game or some other kind of game if she is able to do so. Even spending some time talking to her would be a wonderful present that you both will remember...
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A kite.  She always wanted one as a child and never had one.  She has non-Hodgkin's lymphoma, b-cell, stage 3.  (Cancer in the lymph nodes).  I want her to do that before she passes away.  Life's too short.  I even bought kites for my kids & myself so we can all fly kites with her.
879946
Gift certificate sounds good or just give her money.  I also like the idea of buying her a cd of her fav artist or a nice outfit or shoes she might like.
15858
buy for her a Jeogori , Chima and Paji or even Changot .... for food bring Kimchi and Poricha for a drink then kiss her with hug .... tell her i love u more yesterday and less than tomorrow
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Since she's a gamer, get her a new game. If you're not sure about what game you should get her, look at her current games. What type of games are they? Are they action & adventure or fantasy or something else? Once you've found that out, go to a game shop and ask the people who work there for suggestions. You can tell them that you're looking for, eg. a good fantasy game.\n\nSo she already has an iPod Nano, but you can still get her accessories for her iPod. How about a designer case for her iPod or get her a Pillow Pod here: \nhttp://www.target.com/gp/detail.html/602-8621475-4432632?asin=B000ETNUC2&AFID=Shopping&LNM=B000ETNUC2|Pillow_Pod__Lime&ref=tgt_adv_XSC10001\n\nAs she's into movies, you can pre-order the hottest releases on DVD at wal-mart.com or get her a portable dvd player so she can enjoy her favorite movies, music or photos anywhere she goes.\n\nSince you say she loves to read almost anything, I suggest you get her a book from the "Gossip Girls" series or you can even get the box set.\n\nGood luck!
78585
no need to buy anything... its already within u... give her love... n if u wanna go for anythin materialistic... get her a red heart shaped pillow!\n\ntrust me, she'll love it..
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Judging by ur question ur really very sweet and caring to actually consider what to gift ur special girl..She is lucky to have u..\nnow for ur question..\n\nsumthing symbolic would be really amazing..u noe mebe a romantic dinner to the same place u guys went out first time..have a portrait taken together alongwith a bracelet but most importantly..be with her..im sure thats what she needs da most from u..Cheers!
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Can you take her out for a fancy dinner or make her a candle lit dinner w/ a movie, parents uninterrupted? Try and be creative, maybe make her a card and flowers...flowers are ALWAYS good. Let's see...your 16....get her something she can sleep with at night to remind her of you, like an sweatshirt of yours and teddy bear...since there is a distance thing and all, she must miss you. Good luck!
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it's sad to know that the spread has already begun to the rectum....i just lost a friend to this malignancy....am really sorry to say this....but HOPE your friend will be able to fight it out. let her go in for the next operation/surgery. If you feel Her condition is deteriorating and is definitely not gonna make it....All you shud do instead of agonising her with more Chemo & Radio (consult her doc and ask for percentage of survival) is to try and improve her quality of life. Try to engage her mind into stuff she always wanted to do.. as in Singing, Painting, Music etc. Keep her surrounded by cheerful people always so that she does not sink into depression.. Sometimes this gives a boost to her immunity and she may be able to fight longer. Give her the best that you could before she leaves......SORRY BUDDY.....BUT ALL THE BEST FOR YOU AND YOUR FRIEND.
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u could get her something that she really needs or she really like. but to me the best of all is that u get her something that would represent something that only u and ur gf would get (like an inside joke) or something that would bring back the best memories of u guys being together. Also unique gifts such as hand-made scarf that is knitted by urself will be great for xmas! good luck! \ni am also debating on several options for xmas gifts for my babii girl. we have been dating for 1year and a lil over a month. u could come help me!  thanx!
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I have first hand experience in dealing with cancer.  What would be very helpful?  Offer to clean the house, offer to make dinner.  Help the wife so she can focus on her husband.  Also, visit him.  For my mom, I put together a "hospital kit".  I included a washcloth, bar of soap, shampoo, magazines, new pjs' etc... whatever they like.   And once grand-dad is able to, bring your daughter often so he can see her.  That will really cheer him up!
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You should get her something that will let her know beyond a shadow of a doubt that you were thinking of her and that you enjoy her friendship.  Those are the best gifts.  Sometimes they cost a little more, other times they don't cost much money at all.  They always require thought, however.  What are some things the two of you have in common or do together or both enjoy?  Can you get a subscription to (or one issue of) a magazine on a subject or topic that she likes?  Can you make anything for her?  That would be only from you, and would be pleasantly unique.    What do you do that she likes?  What does she do that you like?  Would she appreciate an IOU for your doing a chore she hates?  Keep thinking and you'll come up with a good gift.