Ok what if your friend thinks you could do better than her ex do you still find out for yourself??
536702
Chose who you want to see.  Don't take anyone else's word.  If it came from his ex, she may still be bitter.  Just keep in mind what she went through and watch yourself.  You are an individual and have your own mind.
427640
Look You need to rid yourself of this mess . Your so called friend is no friend if she has to email some girl that has no connection to her what so ever and tell her something that will she does not need to know anyway . She is obviously jealous of the new relationship and has no backbone if she can't tell the person she is treating who she is and why she needs to tell her all the crap she has been holding on to from her past relationship . Tell her if she doesn't confess you will tell her ex the truth and get out of this mess .
767477
There is definitely trouble brewing.  She obviously still has something for him, since she sought him out on MySpace and is actively chatting.  Never trust a partner who still talks to their ex!
584506
I have always been the type of person who wants to know.  Most people on the other hand live with the rule that ignorance is bliss.  Do you know what kind of person your friend is ? But chances are if you tell you will loose both friends and they will work it out and continue their relationship.  What you can do perhaps is make it so that they will stumble upon it themselves somehow.  This way you did your part and you dont have to loose any friends.
230313
do you think you're better than the person who thinks they're better than you because you don't think they should think they're better than you?\ndo i think that i'm better than you for not thinking i'm better than you because you think you're better than the person who thinks they're better than you?
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If the break up was hard on u, ur best friend was probably just trying to spare ur feelings, especially if u have not moved on to a new relationship and ur ex has. It is good that u found out and the source, once it was not ur ex, is not really important.
764059
I believe that is true. What goes around comes around. Now if somebody has wronged you it may take longer than you would like and you may not be around when it happens, but they will get what they deserve. The hardest thing to  accept sometimes is the fact that if people in relationships treat each other bad then it means they were not right for each other. Being dumped or used hurts for sure but your friend is so much better off for being free of her. No he is available to meet the right one for him.
827445
You shouldn't be considering dating your friend's ex. Your asking for drama in a bad way.
972334
If you didn't trust her you wouldn't be asking her ex and why does this bother you so much?  Sounds like you have doubts about her past.  Either accept her story or move on to someone you can trust.
488114
It depends on the situation. If you were still dating him when they got together, that's messed up and that's not a friend. But if it was an ex boyfriend, I think that's okay. As long as she comes and talks to you first about it. Not asking for permission, just letting you know what her feelings are. That's a true friend. I don't see anything wrong with friends dating other friends exs but they have to remember that friends come first
155353
thay may just be trying to keep your feeling from being hert  after all he is a ex tell your friend how you feel about it all .the good times you had and the bad thing .and then move on
594810
Warning!!!Even if u have a confidence (trust) in your friend and do not want to hate him (her) do not tell him (her) your confidential things (secrets). ;-)
875932
I'm in a similar situation, and I think your friend needs to figure out whether or not her guy is over his ex.  If he's truly over the ex, and they're really just friends, then talking to the ex shouldn't be a big deal.  If he's still not over her and wants to maintain contact for the hope of a future reconciliation, then your friend needs to get out now.  She shouldn't be anyone's filler or rebound.  The trick is figuring out whether or not he's actually over the ex, because most guys who aren't completely retarded won't be honest.
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whether you approve of it or not, it is her decision if she wants to be friends with him or not. telling her who she can be friends with or getting angry about her being friends with an ex is just going to make you look controlling or jealous. i think you should trust her and let her be friends with him. if she starts spending too much time with him let her know it makes you uncomforable but dont try to force her to do anything..its just going to turn out badly.
532284
Helll Yeah girl, I went through that before and look if he is a true friend then he would not put a fu** before a friend. You will still be there when their relationship goes bad and it will cuz she sounds like a biatch! Beat that ho down!
383008
Definitely HERS.  Your ex is just that - your EX.  He no longer has any responsibility to you and doesn't have to answer to you (even though he should no better).  But your "friend" should DEFINITELY know better.  That is just something you DO NOT do to your friends.  She should have come to you and explained the situation and told you that she really likes this guy and asked you if it would bother you if she dated him.  Instead, she snuck around behind your back like a coward.  That is not friend, honey.  Get rid of both of them.\n\nAs for kicking someone's ass - it's so not worth it.
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This is a common problem that people should really just get over.  Shouldn't you be happy for your friend or even your ex.  Seems real immature to hold a grudge like that.  I say, if you really like the friend, blow off your ex or tell him to suck it up and deal.