When is the earliest you should have sex?
540798
If you think that you should wait until you're married to have sex, then that's the ONLY opinion that matters here!  Have you not read some of the answers that people give in Answers?  You already sound smarter than most of them.
8207
There is no best time for sex. Any time that you are in the mood and they aren't get them in the mood. Make sure that they are awake though. Sex is good anytime, day or night.
158777
Sex is never necessary--period.  Sex can lead down all the wrong roads either through an unwanted pregnancy or through an uncurable STD that will be with you as long as you breathe.  Don't rush into anything.  Your virginity is something you can NEVER recapture, and you should place some value on it.  I'm not saying wait for marriage, but wait for the right person and the right time.
1171433
You should have sex, when you are ready and when you are in love. The age doesn't matter at all/ There's a big difference between having sex and making love. Do it when you know it's love and not lust.
1131039
SWEETIE WHEN U START HAVING SEX THATS WHEN U SHOULD START---TAKE ADVICE FROM A NURSE--SO DONT START SEX AND U DONT HAVE WORRIES
1037615
You need to wait at least 10 days after having sex, but I'd say wait 2 weeks. The sooner you take it, the more chances there is of getting a false negative.
617243
Well if you have had sex then ,no, you're not a virgin. Is it recent that you discovered you were lesbian? 11 is far to early to have sex.
373803
When you and your partner are both mentally and physically ready. Sex is not a game and shouldn't be taken lightly.\nDid you know that you can actually die from having sex.\n(aids) So use protection and do it only for love.
249164
12, and I regret it, but I got over it.\n\nKids shouldn't have sex until they're mentally and physically prepared for it. I don't care if you THINK you are or not at 12, you're just not.
1011891
The perfect age to lose your virginity is right after you say "I Do" to the one you love. Not before; its like wine; don't sever it before its time.
462777
It depends on the people not just about having sex right away...but you still should have waited.
814747
There's no "right" time. It just happens. Hopefully you decide to have your first time with someone you really care about or love even. If you're asking this question...you're not ready.
97644
I am 24, and a virgin.  I told my bf early on in the relationship.  I think the longer you wait to tell him, the harder it will be.  If you are waiting to have sex, it's definitly important to tell him.  He will know not to pressure you.  If you just haven't had sex yet and are willing, tell him that too.  Either way, it is best to just tell him.  It can be scary, but if he's a great guy, he won't care.
1161780
to wait until she's ready, b/c if you pressure her into she's not  going to like it or like you, and 2ndly you should wait until your older and more mature to have sex
1156375
Of course your ready to have sex. If you are 16 today you have been ready to have sex for damn near 5-6 years. I was interested in it during the first grade. As are most guys.\nThis is the best way to ask your girlfriend to have sex:\n_________will you marry me? then after you have gone through with your commitment you can then sleep with her.\nThis of course is completely contrary to where our society is headed. \nI still hold that a woman is to be respected and it is only respectful for a woman to deny her gift to a man until they have dedicated their lives one to another through marriage.\nWhile I am here I must say that all of those that disagree with me just think how much better life could be if you actually valued your body, your life or your commitment to another individual.\nThats what I wish I had been taught from an early age, sad to say I was not. Hope this helps at least one person.
493216
I don't think there is really a "set" age for when it's best time for start sex. It's only best when your mind is mature enough start full responsibility of your own action. Your simple action could affect more than you and your sex partner, but in the end might affects all the people around you. Once you start sex, you can't stop after the 1st time, right? Then you would start doing like normal thing, it might be alright if you are adult which have stable income to handle the new born baby if the birth control fails. On the other hand, if you are just early teen..and start doing more and more..your friends will know it soon or later no matter what, then they would copy and start having sex because of influence. \n\nMy point is unless you think you are mentally and financially ready then maybe you can wait little longer.
1015316
I think kissing on the first date is fine. As long as you feel comfortable with it and it feels right there is no problem. Take things as slow as you like or as fast as you like as long as you feel good about it