my boyfriend is about to leave for college in a few weeks andi am dyingidont want him 2 go what should i do?
540722
Listen my boyfriend is going away 4 college to Texas Tech university, And we live in florida i am having a hard time trying to deal with it. I love him very much and i know we can make it.If u love ur boyfriend have faith u guys can still talk on the phone write cute letters to each other and email. Dont worry he will be back before u kno it. Just think positive.GOOD LUCK!!
379232
hmm this is a hard one just because i no wat is like to be pulled along.listen babe i realize that you love him but honestly if he makes you feel this way then y date him. in my personal opinion the whole point of dating is to be with someone and enjoy being with them. if they are being way too much such is your case then stop dating its that simple. i realize that it will be hard and it is much easier jus to stay with him. but often times the hard way and th right way are the same thing. so i think its time for you to stand up be a woman and take charge and dump him. but that is th opion of one high school senior. id get advice from other s b4 making a final decision.
1170911
Girlfriend you will experience all of the above! :-)  As far as the boyfriend situation keep communication open and tell him that you would love to try to make it work.  But, have a mutual agreement that if things are not working out so well long distance that you can walk away from the relationship as friends.  As far as the classes, most of them are pre-req courses, you will be fine! It's an atmosphere that takes time to get used to, but once you do you will LOVE IT! Eating habits, college brings out the bad eater in all of us, it will be so easy to grab something quick, which usually results in something unhealthy, just keep yourself active.  Homesickness, yes at first, but it gets easier with time  :-)  Dorm issues, I had a couple, but my dormmated and I got each other through alot! And Im sure yours will too!  Good luck to you, and stay positive!  \n\nMatt
212208
divorce him and get your GED and applie for college (if you are single you can get tons of aid) and move on with your life, find someone that will treat you like you should be treated
739927
Why is he so strongly against it?  This is your life.  I have always thought that the girls who followed their boyfriends to a different college were dumb because chances of that relationship to last are very very slim.  But then there are the ones that do work out.  You have to figure out if this is really the guy you love because if you are willing to change your life and ambitions for this guy then you have to be willing to die for him and care for him no matter what.  You should have a conversation about why he is so against it, no yelling/stay calm.  You need to tell him that you love him but you have always wanted to do this and he should be supportive.  If there is a really good reason why you shouldn't work there and you love him then you should listen otherwise you should take the job and he might leave you for a bit but come back because he misses you
185496
He shouldn't feel like he needs to marry at a time when you're still in school. If he loves you, he has no need to rush marriage. If he's insecure and needs marriage to assure him, then you're better off without him. Do what you have to do, finish law school. If he's not ok with you trying to create a successful career for yourself, doesn't that say how selfish he is?
562149
Make rose petals down the hall to your room. Have him walk in with candles all over the place. When he walks him he will see u there with the SEXIEST LENGIRE on...(victoria's secret...best in the world!!) get some silky sheets, and have the big bathtub/hottub ready with candles, flower petals, and lots of bubbles!! he will luv it....my b/f did!! we now do it every sat. night with a different approach!! if he doesnt like what u did 4 him....then make a different approach!! take my advice!! works every time!! o yeah!! dont forget a bottle of chocolate syrup/honey and chocolate covered strawberries with a blinfold on him, and a bottle of champaigne (or h/e u spell it!!!) by the bath tub...it will go on all night long!! if ur in college, make sure no 1 is there and if u live with ur parents, book a suite at a fancy hotel! (ask 4 a big tub) make sure the lengire is see through so he can c u!! but... trust me...u will HAVE to make sure ur house/dorm/room is empty....only u and him all night long!! he will luv it!!!!!! GET ROOM SERVICE TO BRING U ALL OF THE SEXY FOOD!!!!!! dont get caught..it might get ugly!! lmao!!
752268
just be polite to him and keep yourself busy elsewhere out of his way .if , after a few weeks you still feel like that thn either talk to your mother or a counsellor at your school .it could be your sixth sense telling you to be wary
301568
Dont go.It makes it worse. If you dont want to be with him end it.If you go on holiday and you end up falling out its much worse as your alone in a foreign country
1115060
I would wait. Would you want him to wait on you? Six weeks isn't that long. Just while he's gone think about all the times you've had together, and what yall are gonna do when he gets back. Just hang around your girlfriends to make it a lil easier. Go shopping and do girl stuff. Think about him before you go to bed, and until you go to sleep..Do something extravagant before he leaves...Something you won't forget when he's gone, and that will remind you why you're with him. Oh! and he's gonna be around a lot of boyz anyway. believe me, when he gets back he's gonna WANT U! ha ha
713691
Kiss him goodbye and go on with your life the way you want to live it....everyone needs happy....go find it......good luck...
646415
Then tell him, distance relationships can and do work, in the end, this world doesnt force you or anyone to stay were they are.\n\nTalk to him ask him how he feels, its certainly not too late at all. If he does feel the same way then arrange to go visit him, perhaps take turns in visiting each other to see what will happen in the long run.\n\nIn the long term there is always a possibility of you moving out to him or him back to you or the both of you to someplace completely different.\n\nMost importantly of all, it is not too late and dont kick yourself for missing an opportunity.\n\nBest wishes, and kind regards.
1043263
Hon, one thing I have learned, is no matter how hurtful it feels...sometimes you got to make choices that will benefit you and not your significant other. After all, you got to focus on what is best for you, because no one else will!! \n\nLet him go now, before it is too late. I quit school for a month and got bored because all of my friends were in school so there was nothing for me to do. So, I went back to school. I am so glad I did. STAY IN SCHOOL!! \n\nDon't make a decision you could regret. And do what is best for your FUTURE, not today.
1170748
It is up to you . . . but in my opinion . . . you and him are both too young to be in a relationship.  You are the only girl he ever knew . . . and when he goes to college . . . he will see what the possibility could be for his future.\n\nThis relationship . . . if it gets committed . . . will eventually lead to break-up and heartache because one will eventually cheat . . . I am sorry to be blunt . . . but I guarantee it will happen . . . it will be him that cheats or you . . . because you both will be separated from each other . . . .
435390
I think if at all possible you might have to get moved to a different dorm room. It sounds like you are living with a child personality. Unless his friendship means a lot to you, and unless you are willing to exhibit more patience and explain that you are on a budget and can't share food anymore and then stick to your guns, it sounds like it's time to move.
644539
if he is not leaving for college what's the problem. you will have plenty of time for your parents to change there mind. if they like him ask him over for dinner with everyone. if that doesn't work out do not worry time is on your side. life will bring you many things to come. enjoy today if he likes you he will be there tomorrow. if not it maybe was never meant to be. what you want today is not always what you want tomorrow. there are plenty of fish in the sea.
727385
Don't beg or plead, you are much better than that! Let him go if he wants to go, he's the one who's going to miss out not you. PLus you are a nice caring young girl who had her whole life ahead of her. You don't need that b.s. in your life!! Find someone better!! Someone that is going to appreciate you and treat you like a PRINCESS!! Good luck and I hope that you find someone MUCH better! =)