How do you make your boyfriend feel comfortable in your house?
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Tell him to get comfortable.  If you ahve kids, make sure they are asleep.  Have his favorite food and dinks on hand.  And let him take off his shoes.
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Be supportive to him.  Let him know how proud you are of him to be working on his degree.  Give him a big hug and tell him how much you love him.\n\nAlso, be sure that he has time to do his school work.  Help him by keeping your room clean, helping with dinner, whatever else you can do to help around the house
14338
* Buy another one for him\n* Ask monthly rent payment\n* Love him and change your mind\n* Make it difficult to live with you at the same home
281011
tell him you love him and ask him to compromise...one night you stay home and cuddle up with a movie, the next you go out for dinner, dancing and the third night you let him pick and try going back and forth.
170505
Put on his clothes and sleep in them.Wear his shirts and stuff around the house.Do his laundry even if it is clean,just like he was there.Cook for your self and set a plate for him even thow hes not there.
575657
Hey girl....i went through about the same thing, My opinion is...if your relationship isn't working in the living room....it isn't going to work in the "bedroom"....i told my husband i wasn't sure if we were "in love"anymore...., It kick-started him, and we are getting along much better now.....i dont mind him touching me now....i dont feel "used" now.      Good luck!
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just bring him over, tell him to be himself.  if u act comfortable with the situation, then he will feel more comfortable.   if he realy is sweet and all that, then they will realize that too once they get to know him.\n explain how ur parents are old fashioned, and just want to know who their daughter is hanging out wiht,  its normal.\n just be yourself, let him be himself, and i'm sure your parents will be theirselves.\n maybe if u bring another friend over that day it would make the situation a little easier on you guys.\n but u have to do it.  ur gonna have to start getting used to bringing guys home.
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i know its hard to b accused as not being trustworthy...but dont give up...u need to do something that proves that ur not cheating or wanting to be w/ ne one else...do this when he isnt home so u can plan ahead of time...\n\nmaybe a romantic setting in a house w/ rosepetals everywhere...strawberries on the kitchen table w/ whipped cream in a bowl...a jazzy song playin in the background (or somethin romantic)...maybe candles lit up in a dark room or a fire lit in the fireplace...in the bedroom u can have some candles lit in there 2 w/ petals all over the bed and the scent of vanilla in the air....i think u can take it from here...good luck!!!
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Get into his house when he is not there and rearrange all the furniture.  Make sure you interchange from room to room too, like the couch in the kitchen, TV in the bathroom, beds in the closet.  Just don't break anything and its harmless and fun!
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Look, be spontanious. While hes watching T.V. (long as its not something hes passionite about) start vacuming, he'll look at you and you'll be naked. Woo-Hoo!!! \nGo in the kitchen and cook. Take off your clothes & "accidently" spill something on yourself...Ask him to bring you a towel, when he does say forget the towel, why don't you lick it off? \nSneak in the shower with him...\nGo dress up like a sl*t while he's waiting for you in the bedroom...\nBe laying on the couch under a blanket when he gets home, be wearing something sexy underneith it...\nWear an oufit you know drives him wild when you guys are heading out for the day, by the time you get home, he'll wanna rip your clothes off of you...\nWhile the radios on, just sneak up on him & start giving him a lap dance!!!\nTurn your work-out into strip-arobics. He won't think they're so boring then...\nStart getting him into"props" by one day be all classy looking & wearing a strand of pearls, when your about to bet busy, take them off & accdently let them slip between your legs, say um, that feels good, play w/ them a bit. Then be like, here you try, and give him a hand-job while wraping the pearls around his you know what...\nAlso do the same with silk, a pair of silk pantys or a scarf works well (wear the scarf in your hair so he dosn't think its weird)..\nLet him do you while your wearing pantyhose &/or high heels...\nput on lipstick heavly (one that comes off easyly), bring it w/ you & put it on the nightstand. Kiss him, kiss him all over, let him kiss you too, then take a shower together...(just make sure your hot water heater didn't just break...thats what happend to us when we did that...)\nGet a sl*tty nurse oufit, don't let him know you have it...whenever he's almost better from being sick (like just a lil lazy but otherwise fine), put it on & "take care of him"\nOnce he's comphy w/ the scarf idea earlyer, try using it to tie or blindfold each other...\nPut on a almost see-though shirt or really low cut jeans or a top that comes almost to your t*ts or plunges very deep, see if he'll tell you to change...tell him you won't unless he can get you outta them...make him work at it...\n\nI have more ideas, but am tired of typing right now...\n\nWhen my hubby & I got first got together, the sex was great, but there wasn't any kink or excitement or whatever...Now, about 4 years after we met, he'll try just about any idea I come up with, and even has a few kinky secrets of his own that he likes & enjoys & suggests we do sometimes. Heck, he has even approched me w/ some ideas of stuff he would like to try...a BIG turn around in things there....\n\nRember not to do anything "bold" until you know it won't scare him. Gradually "ease-into" kinky things. Try talking about ideas/droping suggestions first to see his reaction.\n\nGood luck & happy f*cking!!! hahaha!!! HAVE FUN!!!
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When he comes home . . . greet him with a beer and a kiss and a hug . . . clothing optional . . . if you have children you will have to dress conservative . . . \n\nHave dinner ready . . . and allow him time to unwind from a hard days work.\n\nPeriodically, give him a long hug and kiss . . . when he least expect it.  \n\nAlso, when it comes to sex, men are always horny . . . but sometimes we are too tired to act or take the initative . . . ladies please help out . . . because I know you need it as much as us.\n\nGuys, this is not just a one way street. . . you have to appreciate your wives too.\n\nMaybe after dinner . . . offer her to wash the dishes . . . not all the time . . . but once in while.  Maybe during the weekend, periodically . . . cook her dinner . . . and don't make a mess . . . lol.  Give her time to relax . . . soak in a tub with bubblebath . . . while you watch the kids or prepare something special for her.  Also, if she is cooking . . . periodically get off your A**, go to the kitchen and give her a hug from behind.\n\nShow love and respect to each other.
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make him watch tv in the living room. set alarm for 5:00am,get up and do some stretching and excerices,go to a store for your favorite drink and snack,and just put yourself in that state of mind,that you will enjoy the morning. do other things like chores and what not in the morning...then you have the rest of the day to enjoy as well.
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Find a support system. Though a husband is supposed to be part of it. Get out there and make friends, people who share your interests and viewpoints. On the husband, make mentions of whats going on in your mind. He may feel as insecure as you do about living in this new place and may not know how to comfort you if he cannot do it for himself. Most people keep things inside and queitly seeth. Its rare to find people who can communicate well in a relationship. Find someway to open the lines.
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spent time with him, let him know you enjoy being with him. Go for walks in special places., parks,trails,beach,or your neighborhood. let him know that time spent with him bonding YOU really LOVE, and that it will strengthen your relationship. Tell your partner that it does not take much to make you happy. \ncook at home let him know that you love doing this for him and that the satisfaction of him liking you food is all you need to know that you're doing something right for your relationship.\nclean the house while he's at work and go out and rent a movie you know he'd liked and tell him it's gonna be a block-buster nite. make some popcorn and sodas, ice cream. \nbecome domestic but let him know it's how you always wanted it to be ., ever thing else WILL fall in place. make youself look pretty for him.\n\nGOOD QUESTION> life is about caring, giving and sharing.
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when he gets in greet him at the door in sussies! and go on the pretence that your hubby is due home and you really shouldn't, try and do it in every room in the house, when you get to the kitchen get the cream and choc sauce out-maybe strawberries whatever take your/his fancy.\ni have been married 13 years and we play the just met game and it really turns us on keeps our sex life going anyway-doesn't hurt anyone else all good fun\nhave fun ><
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Get to the root of the problem.  Find out what doesn't make him happy living with you. Listen to him acknowledge him his voice. Try to work it out between both of you.  There is an answer.
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Prepare his favorite meal, or in case you don't cook order it in his favorite restaurant and have them deliver it to you. \n\nSet the table really nice, and don't forget the candles!!!!!!\n\nIf you like to dance you can do it at home, just turn the stereo on (romantic music, of course).\n\nAnd then, if you are married or live together, take a bath together before going to bed.  Fill the bathtub with warm water and add lots of red rose petals to it (and I mean LOTS of petals!!!!) don't add anything else, the petals will give you a magic and romantic essence.  \n\nNow, while you are taking a bath, you can turn romantic music on, place candles around the tub, turn the light off and have a glass of your favorite wine and ENJOY YOUR NIGHT!!!!!!\n\nHAPPY VALENTINES DAY