My boyfriend thinks that i dont trust him because i dont want him to go to his ex girls house what do i do?
534708
You either don't trust him -or- you don't trust her around him.  Your question implies that you do trust him, so why don't you trust her?  Share your feelings about why and then let him decide what to do.  Forcing him to bend to your will without an explanation will just make him resent your actions.  Relationships are built on trust, if you can't trust him to do  things with your best interest in mind, you shouldn't be with him.
183081
If your "boyfriend" is taking another girl ANYWHERE, apparently he no longer feels that he is your boyfriend. Move on sugar, you don't need that kind of drama. There are lots of guys out there to choose from to stay involved with one that does not want you. Be smart about this, and do what you already know you should do.
99749
Sounds like the two of you don't trust each other and don't trust yourselves. When I was young, I was terribly jealous because my self-esteen was low. I didn't seem to believe that I was worth loving, so I would cling too tightly to boyfriends and friends. Thankfully, I matured and realized how foolish it is to be jealous.\n\nIf you love and trust your boyfriend and if you're not just hanging onto him because you don't believe that you are worth loving, then let him go with his friends, even if the ex is there. \n\nIf he does do anything to destroy your trust, then he's not worth being with anyway. Find someone else who is. The reverse is true for you as well. You aren't looking to cheat on your boyfriend, right? Then he needs to trust you, too. If you do cheat on him, then that's not fair to him. He is deserving of someone trustworthy, too.\n\nJealousy can destroy relationships. I've seen it happen. Lighten up on each other. See where your trust can take you.
243074
I had a boyfriend that went away for a job one time, I was concerned because I never completly built my trust with him. So one day I went on his laptop and found that he was chatting and meeting with other girls on his buisness trip. So I confronted him on it, he denied it, but when I brought up the fact that I had evidence he confessed to it all... I say if there is a gut feeling then you need to go with that. If you are always insecure then you just need to start over with someone else. Just confront him and ask him....
877252
Just be patient for now. Don't say anything right now because you'll just come off as the psycho clingy girlfriend. It's entirely possible that he is just a flirty guy and everything they've seen is harmless. Tell them to keep their eyes open. If he actually does do something with another girl (or even if you just hear a rumor, etc) then you have a right to ask him about it. Thus far he hasn't done anything to deserve your distrust, has he?
150037
Calm down....Just cause your bf change his plans and does something else dosent mean he cheating. How can you sound more untrusting. I doubt he goes outta town without tellin you,im sure youknow why he goes. alot of times its a persons own thoughts that trigger insecure thoughts that causes striff and tension in relationships.  I have this same problem with my girl, she always thinks im cheating or doing something specfically to harm our relationship,like i wanna argue about things like that. Its ridiculous, I dont know if she wanna wardenize me or not, Itry to please her by telling her stuff but she complains I told her too late. Its not a problem cause I really like her and its not a big deal(as much) Sometimes you gotta choose your battles and deal with the good and the bad if you really like him/her if you generally know he not cheating. TRUST HIM ladylocks!!
662584
Don't woory just trust him if he lies just don't go out wit him and try to move on
1162683
The best thing to do is follow your instincts.  If you trust him, don't worry about it.  If you don't, you need to confront him.
444520
Trust your boyfriend, is there anything wrong for you not to trust him? If he has his own bath and room and knows he has a girlfriend then she should respect that. Just make sure the girl roommate understands he's taken. Your just going to have to trust your man and spend time at the house in the begining so you can put her check.
718198
What do you mean she never goes home? Are you saying that she is always at your ex's house? If so, then you are crazy because whether something is going on or not between the two of them, she should have respect for his relationship with you and he should have the balls to tell her that he is in a new relationship and that she can't come over there...and if he has told her that, then he shouldn't allow her over there.
997839
it sounds like he is trying to be a player. I suggest you leave him in the past as an ex. The way he tells you he wants to be back with you, and then see's the other girls, is a strong indication that he is not going to be loyal to you, and will end up hurting you.
63410
Kick him to the street... You're gonna have problems in your relationship with his ex still around...
672663
If you are innocent, you need to think really hard about whether or not you want to stay with a guy who doesn't trust you.  Letting him go may be the best thing for you, even though you love him.
358774
Maybe you need to talk to him before you decide to trust him or not.  The question would be why he was talking about her *** and in what context.  If he is flirting with this girl versus having a discussion where he is answering a question or helping her with a problem is a big difference.  If he is flirting then it is time to give him the boot.
803297
I can understand both your sides. If you can't trust him, you need to figure out why - is it him, or is it you? To me, it sounds like it's you. STOP trying to make him justify himself to you. He is not your son - he is your boyfriend. If it's him, and you know FOR A FACT you can't trust him, then leave him!!!! Either way, stop making him account for his time - he is his own person. \nCould he have called you and told you he was going to be late? He probably should have apologized, and perhaps didn't if you jumped his sh** right then and there. \nRemember, men and women react differently - likely, he is not trying to hide something, he just doesnt appreciate being treated like a child and is trying to reclaim some autonomy.
220567
I wish I had the answer for you, all I can give is a little advice,Try if you love him try, To many relationships have been lost to the trust issue! I trusted my ex and she trusted me, I screwed up 1 time and my life was over, dont let others get involved they will screw it up for you!!!
394784
Well, I'm sorry, but it really doesn't sound like this boy has his loyalty values placed in the right spot in his mind. He toyed with this girl, let her toy with him in return, and kept secrets from you. That is definitely betrayel, and you have every right to be bothered and upset. Could you give him a second chance? Of course. Especially because he seems to be respecting your wishes now and not talking to her anymore. If he didn't care about what you wanted, he probably could have broken up with you and gone on seeing this girl. The decision really is up to you, though. If you feel like you can forgive him for this and give him another shot and staying with you (assuming that he has learned his lesson), then by all means go for it. But if you are still really bothered by this and think that it could definitely happen again, and he still has strong feelings for this girl, then maybe you should consider moving on. It would be very hard because you love him...but if he is not going to be loyal to you, your relationship would never last. And love is not very useful in a non-existent relationship.\n\nThink it over carefully. Talk with your boyfriend about what you are feeling, and see what he has to say about it. If he cares for you, there is bound to be something that he can do to make you feel better. Base your judgements off of a sound conclusion that you are certain of, and remember to do what you believe is right, and what will be best for both you and him. Sometimes decisions like this are all a matter of the heart, especially when dealing with forgiveness. I wish you luck!