is anal sex safe for a married couple?
539583
Define "safe". You can't get pregnant but if you do it very often you will damage the constrictor of the rectum ....
915074
Ouch!  It will heal with time (in the mean time lay off anal sex, especially if this is what caused it in the first place!)
869741
Yes... never can be too safe... wear a condom too. X
997688
Nope. Nothing is bad, if you and your partner/partners are into it.\n\nAnd I'm also still kind of amazed about the person who said anal sex can cause a heart attack. LOL!
1009576
it's ok ,will relieve you of all the undigested food in your body along with toxins and bad germs good also in preparation for anal sex, could you be full of sh-t
1052957
It is perfectly safe for both parties, if you use a condom!! It can be very uncomfortable for a woman if you dont take it easy. If it is painful, stop! Im my opinion, it can be a very pleasurable experience, if you are relaxed enough.
450107
i'm a spouse and i think that sex is very healthy for the marriage. And when you get married it should get better because there are no rules , you are married now and you should do more than you used to because thats you partner for life in the eyes of God. And God says that when you get married the bed is under file nobody's watching and you can get nasty and dirty as much as you want, thats the beauty of beeig married, there is no sin in it.
1117946
Sex is healthy for just about everybody. Just keep your inhalers handy.
165036
No. I don't see a problem with this type of exploration before marriage. As long as both persons involved are comfortable with it, it shouldn't have a negative impact on a happy marriage.\n\nHave fun, enjoy eachother's company.
653979
Other than not having sex with anyone at all, you will need to use protection in order to *gasp* be protected.\n\nAccording to the CDC (center for disease control), you need to use a condom (for vaginal/anal sex or male oral sex obviously) and a dental dam (for "eating out" either hole with guys and girls). Also if you share any sort of sex toy, you have to make sure to clean it after using it (or put a condom on it if you can--to make clean up easier/quicker).\nIf you dont want to use protection, dont have sex. Even if you're married, you dont know if your spouse is cheating and your spouse could have been infected and not tested positive when you got married. You'd have to both be tested frequently and both be monogamous to be truly safe.\nWant more info? Click the link.
605336
That is one of the reasons you wear condoms and use dental dams. That way you can rim your partner till the cows come home without fear of anything untoward passing your dainty lips, and you can plough away all night without missing a beat and not worry about the mud.\n\nJust use water based lube not oil based lube plus you also have the added benfit of being protected from all those nasty STI's (Sexually Transmitted Infections) and any other nasties carried by the faeces. Remember Safe Sex is good sex!\n\nDouching too much is actually bad for the bowel as it destroys the good bacteria needed in the bowel. Hope that helps you out. :D\n\nThe other alternative is to just leave anal sex out of your repertoire and just stick to oral, handjobs, frottage, etc. There are so many ways to please each other without going the back passage route (so to speak) lol.
628844
There are a million options, i will tell you some of them -\n1. Talk to your husband about your problem.\n2. Use a well lubricated condom.\n3. before sex wet your bumhole with copious amounts of gel  or vaseline and keep the bum ready for your husband's misadventure.\n4. keep a bottle of lubricating gel within your arms reach before sex and keep applying it to ur husband's thing everytime it comes out one of the holes.\n\nNow i am sorry if i caused an offence
860479
its quite safe unless your doc advises u against it.\nthere may be some problem in normal intercourse due to incresed belly.\noral on lady should be done carefully so that air is not blown which may cause some complication.
1048384
wait untill yuor married to a clean person then you wouldn't have to worry about crap like that. AIDS HERPES, DEATH STB= Seavualy Transmited Babys
528162
THIS IS NOT WHAT WE ARE DESIGNED FOR TO HAVE ANAL SEX. THE PURPOSE OF THIS BODY PART IS TO ELIMINATE OUR BOWEL MOVEMENTS. \n\nEVEN THOUGH SOME "STRAIGHT" PEOPLE ENJOY IT, DOESN'T MAKE IT RIGHT JUST LIKE THOSE WHO ENJOY RAPING, MOLESTING CHILDREN OR S&M.
267698
Yes, but always use a condom, and make sure you don't cross contaminate.  No anal, then vaginal penetration.  Have anal sex then toss the condom in the trash.
1080322
another man will stick his finger up your husbands ass.\n\nyou could do that for free !!  (if you haven't already)\n\noh, it also feels good for him if he comes while your finger is up there.   its AWESOME!\n\n\ntom