Why is it that you get more attention from men and women when you are with somone then when you are single?
540861
because when you're with someone, you project an air of happiness (hopefully) and self-confidence which is attractive to others.
391006
because they are not real men.They want you to feel like you can have no one else but them.Insecurity.But you can do better.
860257
Simple. Many girls want to find guys who will boost their social status. Some girls won't go out with the nerds or outcasts not because they are not attractive, but because they are unpopular, and girls don't wany anyone who is perceived as less "valuable" than they are. At your school, the only thing you need to ask yourself is: which sport is more popular with the ladies? In most schools, the football and basketball players are the most popular. The baseball players (at least where I went) are less popular, though maybe not by much. Women want trophy boyfriends. To be fair, some men want hot girlfriends in part just to show them off, but women are definitely worse when it comes to showing off. So, in highschool they want the football players, then in college they will go after the doctors and other rich "successful" people. I suppose also women might think football players are more attractive because they are supposed to be more muscular and tougher, but I think this is secondary to the popularity factor.
214794
It might start off that way, but feelings change and eventually one person will want more out of the relationship than the other.  From my experience, it's usually the women who think "maybe it'll be different with me".  Women tend to be more emotional and invest a lot more in these types of relationships than men do.  Men are much more able to stay "disconnected" until they're ready for a relationship.
93611
Could be a lot of reasons, but most likely jealously and insecurity.  Men do this exact thing too.  Some of it has to do with possessiveness, but my feelings are just worries that the new girl would hear all the wrong things about me, or not treat the guy as good as I did, or stole him (that hussy)
88301
Women have completed their single lives way before men do. Women usually date more often than men do because it's much easier for them.
434839
women are aggressive creatures.that's just a fact.we always want to be the one noticed by other people first and when another woman comes around stealing your fame we react with jealousy.we want the attention.we want to be in control.theres alot of people that will Deny it but that's the way it is
996813
Single people want to be involved with somone & those in a relationship yearn to be free at times.\n\nWe always want what we don't have...
1169331
Girls tend to me more emotional and clingy than men.  Just out of observation, women and men tend to get almost closer once apart, as they tend to feel a bit more comfortable sharing more personal things than they did when they were once together.  That is of course if they ended on positive notes.  Couples tend to have a hard time conveying honest feelings to each other, but someone they know pretty well (such as past boyfriends) make an easier outlet for someone to talk too.
289389
You may be doing it without even realizing it.  If you just be who you are, then you'll make the lasting impressions with the right people for you.  There's one, and only one, person out there who is truly made for you, and I wouldn't worry a second about the rest of 'em.
838157
That great looking guys are more concious about girls around and their ability to attract female attention.Egoist dumb headed fellows is i found(pardon for exceptions).
960903
Every feeling or emotion we have is not driven by the significant woman in our life.\nWe can get upset because of something outside a relationship.\n"It's not you, it's me" actually applies here. lol
405653
Stop looking and start enjoying your life as a single lady.  As soon as you start enjoying your own company, you'll become more enjoyable to someone else.
200526
Your attentions are tuned in. Happens to all. Not all aware of it. It's like why do we guess? WE like to feel a bond that will get us thru to next stage. Having the same environment much of the time helps.Why do we bump into same people? You're like the same river. It's not magick, it's fun and comes from comfort and higher shares purpose(vision) and if you have sex of course All You Are merges, like on that tv show. They say people start to look like their partners more and more. We become/ whatever/ we pay attention to. S/He lights up your life.
1105745
because we have all of that pent up sexual energy from not getting attention when we were teenagers lol so we have to get it all out!!!!\n\nskinny girls get more attention from guys so they don't feel like they need to work as hard \n\n:P
770248
It not necessary. You may  just not be attracted to the guys around you and that's fine. Some day some guy will knock you off your feet and that's the one. Don't worry about it, I'm single and I love it for the most part. Every thing will fall into place for you, don't kill your self over it.
344707
For the same reason that men like you wind up with those kind of women. It's your fault that you wound up with someone like that not every other womans fault.