How do you get the love of your life back?
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I guess u can't. bcuz, the little things that girls/guys do means something to the other person alot. Would u forgive  him,if he did that w/ur friend? hey, cheer up, if he comes back, i hope you learned ur lesson and if not, move on. Cuz you can't let this bug you for the rest of ur life. plus, ur just gonna feel depress all the time. Hope everything works out! :)
367246
Tell him you miss him & want him back and you would like to forget the past and move forward with someone you love.
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Set him free to find someone who can return his love...K
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Someone once told me that it takes 2 times the length you had feelings for the other person to get over that person.  If your feelings lasted 4 years, it will take 8 years to heal!!\n\nI agree that time is really the only remedy for a broken heart.  Take some time to think about how life was before you started the relationship.  Think back to those "happy" memories.  Do things on your own or with a few close friends of yours.  Keep yourself busy.  If you can find lots and lots of thing to do, the time to heal will flash by in a blink of an eye.  There are many things to do to keep a mind occupied!! haha
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You say that you want to know how to get her back, and you know that she is making a mistake....well my friend I think that you need to give it time.  She needs to be able to come to the conclusion on her own that she made a mistake, and that this other guy is not the one for her it simply is not something you can coerce her into.  If you try, you will do nothing more than to drive a larger wedge into your already shattered relationship.  Give her space and time to miss you, and if she doesn't then you have your answer but she can't miss you if you continue to cling to her.\n\nAlso, I think something that you might need to consider as well is would you ever be able to move past her betrayal of you trust?  After all she did start another relationship before ending the one with you first.  \n\nOne other thing to consider is that perhaps your lives are just taking two different paths at the moment.  Maybe she felt that she wanted someone more inline with her own personal goals and aspirations.
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you should talk to him\ntell him that you are sorry, and tell him that you still have feelings for him and that you want him back\nits better if you do this in person, trust me i have experience\nEVERYTHING goes alot better (even the relationship) when you do things in person
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I am in a similar relationship, but I know she's the one, the circumstances are just tough for us.. being so far away. Test your love.. while he's away, take space and see how you really feel without him. At first no matter what, it will be so hard.. but it will get better. Then.. the test comes.. after not having him in your life much, have a long talk and see how it feels. I lost her because I doubted someone so great could love me.. but after she gave up on me.. I realized how much she really does love me.. and slowly I am gaining back her trust, and she has all of mine.
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Unfortunately I also lost the love of my life due to some faults of my own.  It took me a long time to realize that I had to let him go.  It was just not to be.  Only then was I able to work on my faults to be a better person all around.  That was a few years ago, I still love him, but haven't spoken to him since, but in a way I thank him for hurting me into getting help with some faults I really needed to fix.  Time is all that will heal.  I would let her go and take care of #1....YOU!  good luck!
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YOU DONT. YOU JUST PICK UP THE PIECES, GO OUT THERE AND FIND SOMEONE WHO IS GOING TO LOVE YOU WITH EVERYTHING INSIDE THEIR SELF. LOVE IS  NOT HARD ITS THE TRUST YOU GIVE TO SOMEONE THAT IS HARD TO ERASE. YOU WILL BE HURT FOR A WHILE. BEEN THERE DONE THAT BUT YOU DONT NEED TO HEAR FORGET ABOUT HIM. YOU NEED TO KNOW YOU CAN MAKE IT. REMEMBER BE NICE TO HIM . IF HE REALLY MISSES YOU HE WILL CALL YOU. DONT DO OR SAY ANYTHING THAT WILL PUSH HIM AWAY
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go find him or get him back
622724
GO TO CHURCH.... EASIEST WAY TO GET SOMEONE WHO IS TRYING TO REBUILD THEIR LIFE ON A POSITIVE NOTE JUST LIKE YOU.... SOMEONE WHO DOESN;T WANT DRAMA WHO WANTS SOMEONE TO JUST LOVE THEM.... GOOD LUCK GOD BLESS
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First you gotta decide if you actually miss HIM or if you miss the aspect of having a serious relationship.  If you just miss the relationship, then you can always find someone else.  If you miss him specificly, call, email, text message, or do anything you can to talk to him.  Let him know how you feel.  Tell him that you know that your life was a little crazy when you knew him before and now you know you have changed.  (MAKE SURE, you don't want the same mistake to happen again).  Tell him you've grown up and you want to see how things will work now that your out of your wild side.  Just tell him the truth.  If he says no or rejects you or anything, you will know that he is probably not the right person for you and you should take your responsible self and find someone else.
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Five Ways To Win Her Back\n\nAdmit it: You messed up. You said or did something to drive away the most beautiful girl in the world, and now you want her back. But here's the rub: She's moved on, or at least appears to be going on with her life, living and loving it up with guys who happen not to be you. So what do you do to get back into her good graces without completely throwing your pride out of the window? How do you repair the rift and still remain a "man's man"?\nReach Out\n\nYears ago, a guy would have had to stumble through an uncomfortable phone call or write an embarrassing letter to reestablish the lines of communication with his lost love. These days, sending your ex an email is the easiest way to go. It's a quick and modern way to exchange light-hearted communications and your girl won't think you're groveling if you dash off a quick: "How's it going?"\nBe Contrite\n\nI know, I know. Admitting you're wrong is sometimes hard to do, but this simple technique goes a long way in showing a woman that you care. After you've reestablished the lines of communication, drop a few hints. Phrases like: "I'm sorry I said that" or "I didn't mean for that to happen" cause a woman to want to listen more to what you say to her. By the time you swoop in for the kill, she'll be ready. Unless of course you really screwed up ...\nBe Available\n\nIf you followed the methods above, the two of you should at least be on friendly terms. The next way to get her to warm to you is by showing her that you're there. If she needs a ride somewhere, take her; if she's moving, handle the biggest of the boxes; if she's fighting with her mom, listen to her whine about it.\n\nMaking yourself available doesn't mean taking over the role of "girlfriend". It means that when the girl you love has a problem, or needs a shoulder to cry on, it'll be your shoulder she cries on - not some other guy's.\nBe Busy\n\nWait! Didn't I just say to be available? Isn't that a contradiction? Not at all. Even though you're following the rules to get her back, you don't want her to know that you're trying to get her back--not just yet anyway. Go out with your buddies and continue your normal activities. That way, when you speak with her, you'll have funny stories to tell and new things to add to the conversation. If you're waiting by your phone or surfing the 'net checking your email every five seconds, then you'll have no great adventures to impress her with. And then she'll think you're lame.\nBe old-fashioned\n\nYour ex should be on her way to being your "next" again. Once things have progressed and you're sure she likes you again, ask her out. Think hard: what does she like to do? Perhaps your lady doesn't like the usual movie/dinner/clubbing scene--in that case, get creative. If she likes theme parks, rekindle those flames on her favorite roller coaster. If she's a reader, find out when her favorite author is in town and take your ex to see them. Is she a horror film buff? Take her to a film festival or rent the classics and stay in for the night. Make sure you've got her favorite snacks and drinks on hand.\nBe yourself\n\nDespite everything listed above, all a guy really has to get back with his ex is, well, himself. Turn on at full speed whatever you had that made her want you the first time. Remind her of how great things were in the beginning. Mention highlights that give the both of you good feelings. Don't be afraid to let her know that you had some of your best times with her, and that you wouldn't mind having more good times.\n\nWhile you think it might be easier to hold onto your pride, move on and forget about the one who got away, why chance it? Listening to your friends who think you're a big jerk for trying to work things out will just keep you alone, or w
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By taking it one day at a time. and working on the things you can control. \n\nWork on dating new people, and learning what you like in women. She has left you and is not comming back so you might as well move on also. \n\nIt's your choice you can pine over a lost love or work on making new memories with someone new. the choices are up to you. \n\nI would suggest reading the book\nWho moved my cheese it's small and oh so wonderful for helping you look at your life with a critical eye. \n\nThen I would suggest readong smart love. \n\nMay God Bless your life.
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Maybe turn back the clock and remember what brought you both together and go back there and re-kindle the flame.*\n\nAfter five years there love there that will never go away.
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TALK TO THEM MORE AND TRY TO REKINDLE THE FLAME THAT YOU ONCE HAD WITH EACH OTHER.
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Depends on how did you hurt him. Was it by not being faithful to him while being away from him coz that is the most difficult thing to recover. You could still try this..\n\nIf it was anything else and you are really serious about getting back with him, leave your ego, take a break go to him...fall on your knees, do anything that you think you must to tell him that HE is the LOVE of YOUR LIFE and you would DO anything to have him back..From my standpoint I don't think EGO should come in between when you love someone absolutely and want him to know that...