What should I say to my best friend when her boy friend just broke up with her from a note?
548029
Well, her boyfriend is a loser if he's breaking up through a freaking note! That should give her a lot of comfort knowing he's lame.  Just letting her know you're there for her and if she needs to talk or just needs someone's shoulder to cry on you're there.  Sometimes people need someone to listen to them or just be in the same room without anyone talking.  Also, Ben & Jerry's icecream is the BEST cure ever.  Have a girs' night out when she's ready.  Let her know life isn't over and that her boyfriend is the one who is at loss! Who writes notes to end an important relationship?? Like I said, his loss.
1183545
TELL YOUR BESTFRIEND TO GET A LIFE.. AND GET HER OWN BOY..  DON'T TOUCH WHAT'S NOT BELONG TO HER.. \nYOU CAN GET ANOTHER BEST FRIEND.
322973
Meet him at a public place, like the food-court at a mall. Bring one or two friends with you. And tell him face-to-face. Thats the mature way to do it. You owe it to him to give him this chance to ask you, directly, what went wrong and why you are breaking up with him. Doing it with notes or email doesnt let both you and he say what needs to be said.
579708
Your EX-bestfriend's EX-boyfriend?  um... you should ask him out on a date, and then go for it with him.  Because... well if she isn't your bestfriend anymore you owe her... nothing, and even if she still was your friend, as long as you didn't sleep with him to break them up... (which i am sure you didn't do) then you still owe her.... nothing.  How long have they been broken up? if it has been say over 6 months (which it sounds like it has if you have listed to his other girl problems) then I would say you have satisfied ALL of the waiting before moving in criteria.  Life is short sweetie, take a chance, and good luck.
391617
Tell her what you just wrote.\nTell her to meet you at a familiar romantic spot that the two of you used to go to, while sitting next to each other gently reach your hand up to the side of her face where it meets her jaw, turn her face towards you without speaking, so that her eyes meet your gaze and then say sweetly and softly "I know that I hurt you and I will never forgive myself for that. Breaking up with you was the worst mistake of my life. I was scared because I had such strong feelings for you. It's embarassing for me to admit this but... I have never felt this way about a girl before. But I'm just not ready to let you go. I love you and if you can find it in your heart to forgive me, I really want to give us another chance." \n***Then kiss her softly on her mouth just as she's about to respond***\n\nAfter the shock of the kiss coupled with your heartfelt although cliche confession, I guarantee that she will be putty in your hands! Trust Me!!
653716
I think that just proving to him that he's the best guy for you and that you truly love him and want to be with him is good enough. Explain to him why you broke it off, meaning the truth, then tell him that you are happy to have him back because you love him. And leave it at that. You don't want to sound too giddy.
953243
It sounds like her boyfrined is over protective of her and he needs to chill out a bit. but next time you see your friend just tell her that it might be best if you stay away from her for a while. \nShe needs to speak to him about it.
874267
Break up with her, now.\n\n\nYou can't help someone that doesn't want to help themselves.
827466
okay...so your friend and his girlfriend broke up.  You think it is because he likes you.  He is under the impression that they broke up a week ago, and she just told him that it's over.  Is that pretty much it.  So basically she ignored him for a week, and just got up the courage to end it.  \n\nWell...if he is your friend, then let him talk to you about it.  That's what friends are for.  You may be the reason, but may not.  Maybe she was jealous that you and him were friends.  Right now, it's not about you, it's about him.  If he wants to talk about it with you, then you, as his friend, should be there to talk to him about it.  \n\nGood luck!
175238
Read what you just wrote. You answered your own question, hun.\n"sweet friend." "boring boyfriend."\n"We don't talk anymore. And if i pass him in the halls, its like he just ignores me!"\nBasically, you both are already broken up. You just need to acknowledge it vocally. TELL him it's over.
344531
first things first you will definately be hurting her no matter how you dump her....the qsn should be how do i dump her gently so as to reduce the amount of hurt.\n\nfirst of all, dont delay it tooo long, choose a suitable location like her house so that after breaking the news she does not have to walk out in the street crying but can lie on her bed and cry.  tell her the relationsip is not working and dont give too many details esp. if their is another girl involved dont tell her this trust me she does not want to know. tell her you would still like to be friends coz you like her as a person. \n\nall the best dude, breakups are never easy.
69406
Ask her how she feels about talking about him.  Tell her that she is your best friend and care about her feelings.  Ask for her support and that you need her advise on the relationship.
190378
Lies are always the worst course of action, ALWAYS.  So, what do you do?  You have to accept it.  You lied to her and there's no way to erase it.  Apologize to her.  Tell her you know that it was wrong to lie to her and that you're very sorry.  Try to explain to her why you lied.  Don't make it about how you were afraid of her reaction -- make it about how you were too cowardly to stand up and be honest.  She'll appreciate that more, but if she doesn't want to hear it don't force it on her.  Tell her that you understand why she needed to break off the relationship, but that you still love her and you will do everything you possibly can to rebuild the trust in your relationship, even if it is just to have the possibility of having a best friend in her because she is worth it.  Then DO it.  Let her vent to you about if she needs to... if she snaps and says something cruel and hard to take like, "It's too bad you're such a liar..."  Even though it makes you feel indignant and unfairly judged, don't react to it.  You broke her heart and to her heart, you are a liar...   Apologize if she does that, and tell her you never meant to hurt her, you were just afraid you weren't up to her standards... \n\nEtc, etc, etc...   Oh, and don't do any of this if you're not genuine (i.e. a liar).  She doesn't deserve any more heartbreak...
82751
Comfort your friend and tell her NOT TO DO ANYTHING! As in completely nothing... Tell her not to call her boyfriend, not to go to the guy's place, not to talk with his friends, anything that has to do with the guy. Play cool and she should act as if he's not a big loss. DON'T EVER MAKE HIM FEEL SPECIAL. You're all good and he's not the center of her universe. She was born without him anyway plus he is just an OBSTACLE. She'll get over him. Just always be there for your friend. Oh how I hate cheaters! Plus I believe in carma... I say good luck to that di*khead
280823
Breaking up isn't always easy! My advise is, what ever you do make sure your breaking up for all the right reasons. Be honest with your self and be honest with him as to why your feeling this way. \nIf your for certain this is what you want, then you should let him know as soon as possible. Keeping this from him every day will only make him feel foolish of his self. I know it's hard to have to break up and sometimes we get to the point where we get so up tight and nervous about doing this that we push it off. But the old saying is breaking up is the hardest thing to do. \nI would tell him that you need to speak with him over dinner or what ever you guys do that wouldn't start a big question game, like what is this all about before you actually get a chance to sit down and talk with him. When telling him this try not to say "the time we spent together has been great etc. etc. but, let him know that lately you have been going over things and you need to etc. etc. Especially, if this is coming from out of nowhere. Let him be able to absorb little by little. This way there won't be anger flaring up. Try to then speak to him as if your talking with a good friend.\nI wish you all the best to you and him both.
160738
There isn't much you can do, but you can just tell her how you feel, tell her you really miss her, that you hardley see her anymore since she met her boyfriend. Ask her to come over for dinner or whatever and tell her she can bring her boyfriend is she likes. The key is to support her and not place blame on boyfriend or she could get angry with you.
1015054
Simple. Walk up to him and say 'Look, I know we are not together anymore. I just want say that you are my friend and I care about you still. Please understand that you are important in my life and I value your friendship.'\n\nKeep it basic and be kind with your words and he will understand. I promise :)