What do men look for in a girl? Good men?
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Before I found my wife, I was looking for a decent girl, not decent as in average, but decent as in proper.  When I came to an age when I wanted to be serious in relationships, this was the single most important factor in the woman that I wanted.  Of course all of the other common traits had to be met, ie. great personality, common interests, great smile, spiritual, intelligent, wise, resourseful, and whatever else may come to mind.\n\nWhen you find a proper woman, someone who knows etiquite in different situations, all of the other things seem to come together very nicely.  Also, women generally dont learn to act properly if they were not raised as such.  I guess I'm trying to say that very few women can fake it.  This type of woman is more genuine in all other aspects, and if you can connect to someone like this, you have found someone very special.  Besides, these days, this is such an outdated trait that when you find it, you know you've found a gem.
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~WHAT MEN LOOK FOR IN WOMEN~\n   A cute/hot guy looks for big boob girls, sexy body, nice look, and good sex.\n   A normal, just want sex guy looks for good sex, pretty everything, big boobs, and good kissing girls.\n   A person that doesn't care about sex like smart, humerous(well,it matters),nice, sometimes pretty, caring, good personality, and some others in a women, counting purfume smell as a maybe.\n~WHAT WOMEN LOOK FOR IN MEN~\n   A like sex lady/women/majesty would like her men to be good at sex, hot/cute, have a big penis, likes tumbling naked either outside in a nice field or under sheets, and she usually likes men that have soft lips for good kissing.\n   A women/lady/majesty that is popular/well known may vary because if it's nice, it would like guys that are smart, humerous(well,it matters),nice, sometimes cute, caring,and have a good personality. But, meaner ones like guys that are hot/cute, good kissers, and sometimes, very SEXY!\n   Ones that are calm will like the same things as men that don't care about sex or kissing or being naked.\n\nhope this helped or met your expectations!!
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Yes, of course there are good men left in the world! If you are having problems finding good men, then you might want to reconsider where you are going to find them. Try to decide what characteristics would make a "good man" for you, and then try and decide where you would need to go to find him. Since I don't know what your definition of a "good man" is, I can't really give you any ideas as to where he could be found. Be patient, the right man is out there for you! Just don't waste your time trying to make a man be the kind of man you want. If he isn't right and you think you need to change him, just move on and keep looking. Good Luck! =-)\n\nS.S.
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hi.i'm 17,Asian,Christian & i'm still in college.ok.i have a good friend who's a guy.i met him recently in my new college & even though we've only known each other for a few months up2 now.we have so much fun & he wants to take the same career path as mine.\n\nthe qualities i mostly look for in a guy for a great friendship are the ability to have fun & to joke around,ability to carry on a great conversation,respects me-THOSE ARE A MUST FOR ME!has to be outgoing,adventurous & should care abt me too(as a good friend)like,calls me when i'm down to cheer me up & helps me out in a situation.& something else is that i love it if a guy protects me(not overly-protective),like in a brotherly sort of way.should be somewhat of a gentleman,like open doors,offers you his seat..oh,they shouldn't also mind my bugging them,hehe(this applies only to some girls,lik me,lol)\n-my best guy-friend is exactly like that!\n\nanyway,hope i covered everything-cheers! :)
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I like a girl with a little attitude, personility, honest, and funny. As far as looks go, as long as you feel comfortable with that person then I am good. A girl must have at least some of those qualities
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It really depends on the women.  Each persons relationship history helps her to define her future partner.  Here are a few qualities I desire.\n\nGood sense of humor (The funnier the better!)\nIs social and has an outgoing personality\nIs stable in his career\nLikes the outside more than the TV\nNot afraid to fall in love\nIs sincere and honest\n\nHope it helps~  :)
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Sorry but he must be physically appealing to me, nice eyes, clean white teeth are nice and to be fit, not over weight.\nNot all girls are like that though.\nNone of that is important to me though if it isn't teamed up with a genuine character, you know , not superficial and fake.  Most girls like a guy who is not afraid to talk about what he believes in and thinks and how he feels.  Nothing is more annoying than some one who can't communicate clearly with thoughtfulness and RESPECT.\n\nIt is good if they can dance and earn a good living ...very good. Ride horses, fix cars, build houses and cook the occasionally a la carte meal.  Ha ha ha ha. etc etc  I could go on but it would fill the whole page up.
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This kind of question comes up often enough, I feel like I should just save my answer so I can paste it right in!  :D\n\nFirst thing I look for is a happy personality!  Seriously!  No matter how striking a woman is; if she looks like the whole world is a burden on her, why would I want a wet blanket like that dragging me down!\n\nYeah, looks are important, but not nearly as important to me as Hollywood/the magazines/etc. make it out to be.  An average/too skinny/flat-chested/what-have-you girl who is fun to hang around with will get my attention any day.  That's not just a bunch of words, either:  I've been attracted to all kinds of women (except very large ones.  What can I say, I'm still human!)\n\nGood conversation is a must:  you need to listen to what guys say, not just wait for your turn to make a speech.  If I just want something pretty to look at, I can hang out anywhere & browse the eye candy without wasting any time/money/effort of my own.
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most important....a great sense of humor..I can't handle a guy who doesn't have one..\n\nalso, I like guys who are witty...smart...I don't mean book smart, though that's ok too, I mean someone who can figure things out..that I don't have to explain everything to..someone who loves his family...is good to his friends, loves animals..someone who believes in being faithful...compassionate, loving...
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If you're a good girl and want to show that quality to a man, ask him what he wants from a good girl.\n\nIf you're a bad girl and want to show that quality to a man, show him what he's too afraid to ask for.
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women look for different things but it boils down to them looking for a guy that complements her. If she needs stability in her life, then she'd look for a responsible guy with a good job who comes with no baggage. If she needs some fun in her life, then she'd look for a funny, party-loving guy who will help her relax at the end of a stressful day!\n\nThe best thing guys can do, is just be themselves. The right woman will realise that you're just what she needs!
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I cannot speak for most of the women out here, but what i like is a guys personality and they have to have a good careing heart. Maturity also plays a factor. The way they look and dress is not that all important, you have some people that are less fortunate than others. Hey some of the women are not up to par themselves. That's basically what i look for. Even if they are less fortunate, still i like a man thats very clean about his hygiene. They also have to show me respect, and treat me like the woman that i am. They also have to have a sense of humor.
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i would be lying if i said looks do not matter. how a guy looks and carries himself is what draws your eyes to him in the first place. but after the initial attraction, there has to be substance in him. his personality, his values and beliefs, his attitude. what's a good-looking guy with a bad-as  attitude or personality? zero.\nhe has to be one who values his family and cares for them. he has to have a sense of humor and be easy-going but at the same time be as steady as a rock. in what way? he has to be a constant fixture in your life. not just in bed, but in all ways... even when you drag him shopping!:)
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The main thing I look for in a guy is a good sense of humour. He has to make me laugh. I really don't care about looks. I like a guy who can laugh at himself and make me laugh.
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a man who is honest, loyal, fun-loving, affectionate, gentle, caring, loving, respectful..even in front of their home-boys and not scared to show their feminine side every now and again yet not a wimp....you notice that i did not mention a man with alot of money...most ladies these days are independent and as long as the man can hold his own..they can be working at mickie-dies for all i care..as long as they are not mooching off of me.
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oh my!  that is so easy!  a good guy tells the truth!!!!!  a good guy always has her best interests at heart.  a good guy never EXPECTS things in return.  a good guy should take care of her not her take care of him.  a good guy puts thought into every effort he shows her.  a good guy will weather the storms and not run away.  a good guy will communicate his needs as well as be interested in hearing hers.  a good guy allows her to be open and honest without judgement.  a good guy is physical with her and makes sure she is assured of his affections.  a good guy will never keep you guessing.  a good guy will never disappears and leaves her wondering what happened!!!  good luck!!!
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The first thing I look at are their eyes, and then their teeth.  My guy has to have good teeth and a nice smile.  I also like guys with strong looking hands and lower arms (think guitar players).  I love a guy who has a great personality and a good sense of humor.  They have to be smart enought to hold an intelligent conversation with me.