why am i inconsiderate?
541980
you should have beat her with the paper towel roll and told her to get off her lazy, fat a*s and get her own f*cking tampons. i mean, come on, she didn't even tell you if she wanted regular or super absorbency..what the f*ck did she expect? what a dumb beeyatch, thats why you need someone like guido in your life!
937355
Insufficient firepower =)\n\n\nSeriously though... I'm an expert at procrastinating which can really pose a threat since I work for myself.... "I've got ALL day to worry about that.... hmmm, let's see what's going on in Yahoo! Answers."\n\nThe fortunate flipside is that I work great under pressure, so when it comes down to deadlines I rise to the challenge. \n\nI guess you could say I'm getting where I want to be, but I might be getting there more quickly if I forced myself to be more disciplined. But then again, I believe life is a journey, not a destination... so I may as well have fun along the way! See how well I can rationalize these things?
516336
Sounds to me like you need to talk it out with a therapist.  You have to figure out what it is that is causing your ATTITUDE, and how you can learn to have more PATIENCE.  I don't think you are as IN TUNE with yourself as you think, but with the help of a listening ear to work through whatever is eating at you under the surface...you hopefully will be able to figure out.  GL
856805
me too, OMG we can definitely relate! i'm too polite and i feel like i'm interrupting other people's conversations if i just butt in. but now i'm starting to realize, but observing my friends that it's okay and that no one will hate you just because you interrupted a conversation. it's a way to make friends. and i'm also really shy. just join clubs in school, cuz that's what i do.
630679
Laziness or feeling inadequate
886354
I am reluctant to do this.
60528
Learn to be patient. If you are not married yet, I would suggest you to leave him. I know it is awful living with an inconsiderate man. But I honor marriage and think people should try their best to stay in their marriage in better or worse. So please learn to accept him the way he is. Anyway, it's your life and your decision. I won't respect you less if you decide to leave him. Wish you the best.
315021
why are you worrying your self?
456590
I'm actually having that same problem. In my case, yeah, I made a mistake, but I fessed up to it, was honest about it, and tried to apologize for it. I still feel like the other person is trying to make me feel guilty, and I refuse to be around people who are always negative all the time. I thought that I liked people like that, and maybe I did once, but now it just brings me down. I want to feel better, not feel how alone I am, and how much the world sucks. That's my story.
672997
people like that aren't thinking of how they affect others, he was inconsiderate.\n\n don't let that get you down.\n\n you're being creative and resourceful to pay off your bills, good for you- be proud of yourself
981095
I know exactly what you mean, and what really really bugs me, I always apologise for not being in touch, whats that all about, they never apologise to me, as they didn't get in touch either.  I can't even say I've stopped doing it, as I haven't.\n\nI sometimes think to myself, why do I bother!!!  One day I might stop.
1004888
Um....I am almost afraid to ask but......why?
882240
Same here!\nWhen I work, I like to look forward to something... It makes me want to accomplish the task... however, I do sometimes end up doing the task hastily... ha ha... \n:-)
184640
I tend to avoid conflict with the exception of my husband. I tell him what is on my mind and if he makes me mad.
409784
since when did it become YOUR day to worry about me???\nI have PLENTY of things better to do... I just don't want to do them... and last time I checked... I was the Boss of me!!!   Is that OK with you???
828993
Everyone is different. I'm the same way where I like to learn things at my own pace. And yes, I don't like people pointing out my wrong doings. I am a bit slow cause of the medication I am on.
625367
This is not normal which you too know since you have felt it to be odd behaviour and sought advise too rightly.\nMay be it is a habit developed over a period of time from childhood days and the reason behind could be that to over come your feeling of inferiority complex or the fear comp-lex when meeting strangers you wanted to please them and show them you are a friend only not a rank outsider to shutthe door on your face. If you do not object I would compare it to the friendly behaviour of any unknown dog to any unknown person when the dog would wag its tail slowly at first and vehemently if his friendly advancements are receiprocated. Same way you want to show your friendliness to all .\nThough as a child no one felt it odd but as a grown up it is likely to be misunderstood as cheap behaviour,some may even take it in sexual way and start behaving with you still worse;\nI think by deliberate conscious efforts ypou can come over it.Do it with neighbours. \nIf not seek medical help.\nBEST OF LUCK