Should I let my boyfriend touch me?
544421
ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!\n\nJeez... this is happening earlier these years...\n\nI don't think you should let him, I mean- come on, you're not even a teeenager yet. Don't rush into certain things. Put boundaries. If you're not comfortable, or if you're uneasy with what he's doing, one word sweetie- NO!\n\nJust say NO! \n\nAnd if you let him keep touching you... chances are you might even end up having sex, and you're way TOO young to experience sex or end up getting pregnant or something.\n\nBe careful.
507734
My advice to you is be honest and open with him, You can please yourself while he is making love to you. Communication is the key here. Tell him what feels good and what doesn't.
304459
If both people are truly in love with each other and are able to effectively communicate with each other, then addressing this issue shouldn't cause any permanent hurt and could lead to a fun time of mutual exploration. Be honest with him and tell him what you like and let him know how much you like it when he does.
451618
I think you should think about this very carefully....would you want your man touching somebody else in your presence? I have "experimented" with other women in my past, but if my current Bf asked me to do that, I do not think I could. I was also single at the time, so that made it a little easier for me. As for finding a stranger, noooo... I suggest you find somebody you know who is willing to try it. I really don't know what to tell you, just make sure whatever you choose, you are very comfortable with it.
112710
sexual contact. And it doesn't have to be intercourse. Just touching your "you know whats" together is enough!!!! So, be cautious!!!!!!
299576
Hmm, ask your boyfriend why he's uncomfortable with holding hands.  Maybe it's just not his thing.  Maybe he'd rather show his affection in other ways.  I don't think you should reprimand him for it if he's a good boyfriend, but if he does other questionable stuff, then it should probably raise a few flags.
570048
You should ask yourself, would it hurt you if you saw your boyfriend flirting with another cute girl?  If you are both OK with flirting, and you both know it will not effect your relationship, then it should be fine.  Alot of people are NOT fine with their better half giving that sort of affection to another, though.  Just keep in mind that you care for this person and don't want to make them sad or worried.  Whats more important?
719485
Well, if you love him back, you should start a relationship. If not, just tell him you don't want things to get weird.
799182
Depends on how old you are and whether you want him to kiss your boobs or not.\n\nTell him how you feel.  HIS feelings and desires are probably normal.
1167112
Girl, if he is willing to wait, I'd wait. Apparently he must have some feelings for you and that counts for something. If you really want to have sex, let him do oral and get yourself a toy. No harm in that and it's safe. Let's just call it "protective fun"!
467265
Yea, why not?  He already likes you and is holding your hand.  If you want to kiss build a moment and kiss him already.
208303
Well if u think its rite then proceed with it...it depend on urself..make sure that he really love u not juz ur body.. but as for religious,its not rite..its a sin..are u sure he's willing to share the responsiblities with u?? Better be safe then sorry dear...
1039298
Just do it. trust me. if uv been going out for over a year, just slowly grab his hand when ur walking together. it won't freak him out unless he's a total loser who you wouldn't want to date anyway. if u have been dating that long, u should feel comfortable with each other. he probably wants to also but is afraid he'll come on too strong. but seriously, if uve been dating that long. in my personal opinion, the one year mark is about when u can start making out. everybody is differant though.
541660
Limit your contact with the boyfriend.  If you're kissing and petting then that's got a lot do with it.  You're 15 and your hormones are raging.  Don't tempt them with the types of foreplay you're talking about.  You two need to enjoy each other's company in the presence of adults who would likely not really approve of what you've been doing.  They know it could lead to premarital sex which could lead to teen pregnancy or worse.\n  Perhaps if you provided yourself with an orgasm your desires would wane a bit.\n  Also, focus on other things.  The more you dwell on those sexual feelings the harder it will be to resist them.  Put together a puzzle or buy some flowers and plant them in the flowerbed.  Something to get your minds off it.
741521
My lover's body next to mine. I would like for him to put his arm around me while I lay on my side facing him so I could softly stroke his skin with my fingers.
1107663
be in my boyfriends arms right now
84241
NO!    I don't know of a bad spot to touch a woman, but that's because I'm a man.  Who the hell knows what love is?  If you don't want him feeling you up, then tell him, and if that doesn't work, slap the scheet out of him.  It's best if you learn not to be easy, because a real man knows how to treat a lady.