HELP!Cn you help me how to make more friend???i in school no friend!!!!!!!!!!!?
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How to make friends!\n\nBelieve it or not....... You can make more friends in a shorter time by becoming interested in other people \nrather than trying to get other people interested in you.\n\nSit back and think about it! Why should people be interested in you, unless you are first interested in them?\n\n \n\nMaking Friends\nMaking friends can be difficult, especially these days with so many peer pressures. You're the odd one out if your clothes are different, your hair is the wrong cut or colour, your shoes are bought on a budget and don't display the designer label, you happen to enjoy listening to the wrong kind of music, your folks are not as trendy as they should be, etc....etc...\n\nLet me tell you a secret!\nIf you want to develop a more pleasing personality and make friends.......... become genuinely interested in other people. Show kindness........ you may be wearing the latest designer label clothes, the hottest brand shoes and the coolest jewelry but if you display sourness and selfishness you'll have a battle ahead of you to make good friends.\n\nSmile\nSmile.....smile and continue to smile. It costs nothing, enriches those who receive it, happens in a flash but the memory lasts forever, it creates happiness in the home and classroom. A smile can not be bought, begged or borrowed, it comes from the heart. If you want other people to like you....... make the other person feel important - and do it sincerely!\n\nArguments\nSome people thrive on arguments, it gives them a sour disposition and creates a depressing atmosphere around them. The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it. If you are wrong admit it quickly and apologize. If the other person continues in an argumentative manner, excuse yourself and walk away. Don't bite..... as the saying goes.\n\nDoing the wrong thing!\nChoose your friends carefully. If others try to persuade you to smoke, take illicit drugs, steal, gamble, fight etc... dare to say NO. Doing the wrong thing is the quickest way to lose friends.... honest, good and upright friends. Stay on the right track and be a respected citizen with a sincere reputation. Remain on the right side of the law! Deep down in your heart you know what is right and good. You know when to say 'no' and you know when its time to walk away.\n\nBe Strong!\nBeing mentally strong is not always easy but let me assure you..... the more you practice it the easier it becomes. Soon those who thought they were trendy will want to dress like you, talk like you and be with you because you have a personality which is different. People like being different! Think about it.... if you dressed and acted like 10 million other people, are you different? NO........ So be yourself and don't give in to those horrifying peer pressures.\n\nDanger!\nIt is dangerous to follow a crowd. Crowds get lost in even bigger crowds. By being an individual with your own personality you can achieve the very best experiences in your life. You may not ever have many friends but let me tell you that it is better to have one good friend than ten dishonest friends who will stab you in the back at the very first opportunity that arises. You're treading on dangerous ground if you mix with the wrong type of 'friends'.\n\nGood luck
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If u want to earn more friends here in net means just log on Messenger and try to find them. there U can make more friends.\ngood luck
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Yes, it is very hard.  I moved a LOT when I was a kid..  three different schools JUST in the 6th grade!  When you are that young, you try to keep in touch with your friends, but it usually doesn't work very well.  So each time I moved, I tried to find one person with whom I could 'connect' and be friends with.  It didn't always work very well.  The best thing to do is to be yourself.  Be friendly and you will attract friends.  Don't let the fact that you have to try again for new friends distract you from school work.  Concentrating on the school work will help you relate to the other kids on something you ALL have to deal with .   Good luck.
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Real Friends R very hard 2 come by! I'm still serch'n 4 a couple my self! So far people's intrest S what makes it hard, F U don't have a lot N common then there's no tottal friendship, there's only a partial, like my tia said, she has a shop'n friend, a smok'n budy friend, she has a differ friend 4 a differ occation, there has 2 B some common groud Btween the each other 2 find friendship. I hav'nt yet came 2 a conclusion yet, I did long a go when I was N the 11th Grade then she dumpt our friendship, then I met 1 N College 3rd simester didn't take long 4 her 2 dump our friendship as well. Takes a while tell U hit the jack pot U know?
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Make an effort to learn people's names(something I'm really bad at) and greet them in the halls. Join a club, go to your school dances, be nice and helpful with everyone. Make a goal to learn 1 person's name a day. If you're really shy, start off with small conversations. Getting involved at school really helps a lot. I met so many new people when I joined my school's choir. Above all, if you're afraid, just swallow your fear and meet people. Don't wait for them to meet you. You'll eventually make some friends. Good luck!
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Dont change any thing about your self, Fake people are the worst. Are you in School? If so things get dif. when you get out of it. Just try and keep the friends you got, and get involved in activites (not in school ones).
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Make more friends.\n\nAdvertise yourself.\n\nI'll add ya if you want. I'll give you a comment too.\nLook me up by my address adamgordon12061977@yahoo.com
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Ask them ... we dnt know ur friends....\nbut if u want friends ... im here!!!
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go to groups, like drama groups or other actives that you like and introduce yourself to people there.  But you have to be outgoing, because if you don't make to first move to say "hi" people will just think that you don't want to hang out with them!  Hope this helped and goodluck!
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sorry, i don't add people i do not know personally.  as for getting more friends.  just randomly request friendship to others, who knows maybe you'll be lucky!
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Aah you poor thing.  This is where I tell you that old cliche that it will make you stronger but only if you believe it.  It's still a positive thing to go through this I promise you.  It will give you a different perspective in life and this will help you to mature.  First of all, work really hard at school even if you have to do less in class to appear cool but you swot up at home when noone is looking!  Make friends with unusual people as this will make the cool gang wonder why you choose to be friends with people other than them!  Be strong, talk to your parents and keep the school informed of bullying.  Can you join any after school clubs or any other clubs out of school to make other friends or indeed with anyone who lives near?  Maybe walking to and from school with someone.\nDont try too hard you shouldnt have to beg fopr friendship rate yourself higher than that you are worth more.\nI hope youre ok.
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you should just stick with the friends you have.  As time goes by you will get to know the people in your new school better and make more friends.  Don't focus on the quantity of friends but the quality of the friends you do have.  As time passes, i promise you will have more friends as long as you be yourself and not try to hard.  BTW! Popularity is way over rated and as long as you enjoy your teen years and not worry about being popular you will be a happier person.  When you are in college and an adult you will not be friends with those people anyway and you will look back and wonder why to put so much pressure on yourself to have so many friends.  But, to help, join some clubs and participate in school activities, you will meet people that way.
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Going to a new school can be a lil scary. But it can be just as exciting! \n\nSometimes making friends can be a challenge - especially if you're shy! So first off - you need to think of who you want as friends. Most people like to make friends with people who like to do the same things as they do.\n\nSmile! When you smile, people think you are nice and easy to talk to. \n\nStart a conversation by saying something nice to someone. "Great answer to the teachers question"\n\nAsk your new friend questions about themselves..."Whose your favorite singer?" Make sure you have plenty to offer a conversation to keep it going. (personal experiences, likes/dislikes...)\n\nA great way to meet new people is to get involved in an extra curricular activity. Wether it be signing up for something in school or outside of school!\n\nAs far as teachers go...it's their job is to teach you and your job as a student is to learn. Most teachers are approachable and willing to help you when you need it. If you are confident - you can introduce yourself but if not - in time they will get to know you and you them!\n\nIf you happen to bump into a bully: Try not to show them fear because they love that.\n\nIf you start feeling scared because someone has hurt you (punch, kicked) tell an adult right away!\n\nOtherwise, just be yourself! You are wonderful in your own ways!\n\nHave fun and good luck...
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1.  Decide who you'd like to be friends with (I.E. popular people, gothics, jocks, etc)\n2. At lunchtime, ask if you can sit at their table, in an empty seat. If there isn't an empty seat, or they say no, sit at another table near them.\n3. Some cliques cannot be infiltrated fast. Some can be infiltrated easily. Pick one!\n4. If this all fails, start to dress like them, and say hello in the hallway.\n5. If that fails, throw a party and invite everyone at your school. Then you'll have an exuse to talk to everybody you want to be friends with.\n6. If EVERYTHING fails, be friends with people who really want to be friends with you. They might be more fun than you thought. \n\n* Be nice. No one likes a complete snob. Until you get the ins with the group you want to be a member of, its important not to offend anyone.\n* Try making friends with people in one of your classes that are the member of your chosen clique first. It's a lot easier to ask someone for the math homework than to randomly strike up a conversation in the hallway. This could give you the access point you need to get in to the group. \n\n* This isn't TOTALLY foolproof. Deal.
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u chat with me first then i tell u how can make a friend that is ur friend? e mail me plz at demi4u@gmail.com
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Good Lord, man, how many hints do you need???? She likes you!!!!!!!!! Why in the world are you not her friend??? Just go up to her and ask if you can sit with her at lunch at school or something. Become her friend, get to know her. Don't make a big deal of it. Enjoy her company and if it's meant to be, it'll happen.
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try making more friends. if you hang with the right people, you'll have fun all day long. you gotta talk to people. talk to anybody. and try to get more involved in clubs, sports, hobbies etc. make it fun. and i bring a mp3 player to my classes sometimes cuz they can get boring too. Good Luck!