Why Men always get selfish?
550218
men are like that cause they are big babies..  it's pathetic i know  but thats just the way it is.. love em or hate em..lol
1017976
because its a mans first insticnt to do whatever it takes to get out of trouble. Most guys lie about it because they don't like getting in fights with their girlfriends and they don't like to see them cry. Also a lot of men are shallow, and if for some reason you "aren't giving him what he 'needs' then they feel bad about window shopping for another girlfriend. I know, its happened to me a few times. Men are stupid sometimes.
455232
cuz ppl are too selfish.
669427
I think this can apply to women too. It depends on how selfish the person is.
968881
This is a classic trait of selfishness and only thinking of oneself
409726
Just like women we dont want 2 be hurt either. I just think that men are not programmed to be that way, its sad but true. We also dont want to feel like a wimp so we hide those feelings and never really show the real us, until sadly its to late.  Words of advice ask once, then try other ways of finding out what u want to know.
667624
Because they make it that way. It never should be that hard to love someone, but for men and some women they need a lot of drama in their life. Also some want to blame the other sex for their problems. If a man thinks a woman did him wrong he will blame all women..............
118177
people are selfish because they believe in themselves alone without consideration for the person beside them. this also has to do with the syndrome of wanting to get every happiness on earth and i can finally attribute it to not having the fear of God
469002
We get it out of our system.  You see by not expressing our selves all the time, when men blow up, it's over with quick.  Since women talk about their feelings to everybody, they keep the pain going.
124516
Your dilemma is one that is all too common. You are probably right when you say that it is not ?just me.? It takes two to make a marriage or break a marriage, and it takes two to have an affair. The fact that he has always been ?a flirt? suggests that, at one time, he was that way with you. You probably responded in a way that made him feel special, wanted, and needed, and reinforced his flirting behavior. This ties in with the first and main reason why men have affairs: to feed their ego. The problem with us males is that feeling good about ourselves, or meeting our ?ego needs,? is our primary goal in life. Therefore, the first reason why men get involved in affairs is that it feeds their egos. \n\nDon't worry your not alone nor the only one. :) \n\nIts a wild world out there. Anything can happen
807613
ALL people are selfish but to different extents\n\nif somebody let you down it doesn't mean you should completely stop trusting people - just be more careful who you trust next time
459567
Well, some men are jerks. And thats not what us girls want now a days. We want someone smart, funny, someone that can listen to us. Not some tough guy, full of him self jackass that thinks hes all that, when really hes not...
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All species are selfish, humans are no different. \n\nThe real question is why humans are the only specie sthat is occasionally prepared to not act in a selfish manner. That makes us unique.
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because they are taught by their mothers and 99% of women I know or have met are coniving, manipulative and/or deceitful.  Most are selfish as well.  Men aren't so trustworthy either though, now that I think about it...
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because men are so frustrating
636241
Being selfish.  Maybe you oughta suggest an activity both of you can do.
396639
SOME MEN CAN BE VERY SELFISH FOR ONE. I THINK THAT THIS MIGHT BE A WAY FOR HIM TO TRY AND HURT YOU BECAUSE HE IS HURTING. WHEN WE ARE UNHAPPY WE WANT EVERYTHING WE KNOW OF TO BE THE SAME WAY. I THINK THAT YOU SHOULD READ THE BIBLE TO GIVE YOU SOME PEACE OF MIND. PROVERB 3:5,6 SAYS---TRUST IN THE LORD WITH ALL YOUR HEART AND LEAN NOT UNTO YOUR UNDERSTANDING,IN ALL YOUR WATS ACKNOWLEDGE HIM AND HE SHALL DIRECT YOUR PATH. REMEMBER THAT "GOD IS IN CONTROL"  BLESS YOU MUCH