I had asked how to catch a man who was very good at covering his Internet tracks.....I feel my husband is?
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Check the history on your computer or you can always remove the hardrive and have someone else look at it for you if you are not sure.  Unfortunately, if he is as smart at covering his tracks as you say...he will be deleting the history daily.
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He's not interested.  It all was a joke.  He found someone else. He's married.  He used you for sex.  Either one of these answers could apply.  Sorry.  You meant him on the Internet.  That's always a chance.  you took it and now this is the outcome.  Don't mean to sound harsh but, is it really a surprise?
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Setup some type of camera or spy equipment to catch him.  When he comes around call the police and show them what you captured with your equipment - that way things are documented.  That would help you quite a bit.  Then work towards pressing charges and getting a restraining order.  That's how I ended up getting rid of a guy who beat and stalked me.
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I doubt J_con's answer is what reall happened, those stories rarely happen over a simple wife's name. W\n\nhat probably happened is he saw links in your profile, or search your screename in yahoo or google and found a myspace of yours, livejournal, or some other blog in which you listed your wifes name. \n\nThis is much easier than hacking a major service providor, mind you. Good luck----High_Def
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i could spy on him for you. just give me his email address and i'll try and hack into his account and find out if there's a third party involved. if there's indeed a third party, i could ruin him for you. :)\n\nor... you could just observe his actions. if he's colder than he usually is, if he doesn't reciprocate with your usual sweet gestures, then there's something amidst. ask him casually if there's something bothering him. then try to pick things up from there.
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FIrst of all I am surprised you are still in the dark, he is sneaking, but with what.  Find out.  Do not accuse, find out.  cell phone records, a radio shack recorder (practice using it) and get the truth.  Track the computer with a spy program.  Do that for a eek, you will know what you are facing.  IF it is an addiction maybe he can get help.  It is up to you to seek the truth so you are in the know.  Right now you do not know what you are dealing with.  CHeating keeps you off the subject...the subjest is you are in the dark, it is unsafe to be in the dark, get the lights on.
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The question is, are you absolutely sure he knows who sent it? He might be in the dark here, looking for a mysterious admirer. Did you tell hiom where should he leave his reply message so that you could get it? I would assume not, that would entail the risk of being recognized. So, I would try to find out his feelings by anonymously contacting him through an email.
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Your first option is to ask him.  Make sure you don't do it as an attack, or he'll probably cover it up.  Also, if you do it as an attack, and he isn't cheating, then he'll feel resentful and feel like any trust you two had, is gone.  Another option is to ask a friend {or PI} to watch your husband for a while.  Call him at work to see if he's there, find out what he's doing if he's "working extra hours"  Check emails, internet history, phone calls in and out, and so on.  Don't be afraid to pop in at lunch to surprise him with a home cooked meal.  This will give you extra time with him, make him feel special, and also thwart plans if he's trying to cheat.  Also, see if there are people that are with him often, that you feel you could get an honest answer from.  But honestly, I think asking him first, in a very soft and subtle tone, is your best bet.  But remember, never ask a question you can't handle any answer too.  I don't mean don't get angry or mad, but make sure you're at a place with yourself that you can hear what he has to say to you, no matter what his answer is.  I wish you all the best, insecurities, whether real or not, always hurt.
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i met my boyfriend online...
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Yes, some trackers work. He'll only know if he's installed one. Just stop stalking his page and you should be fine.
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funny story...i once did this to my ex. we talked for ever online and he didn't kow it was me. he suspected it but never knew for sure. i causght him in some pretty big lies. he lead "me" to believe he was single and mentioned nothin of our son. (he had 3 children and only said he had 2) he also mentioned meeting up and things like that. that told me all i needed to know as far as what i was thinkin he was up to online all night. so in my opinion no you didn't take it too far
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search on search engines with his name and other details.he might have posted his address somewhere
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ok, why would he forget to change the details on it when he met you? is he not serious about you? why did he lie first when you confronted him if it was innocent?\n\nsame thing happened to me and i fell for every lie he told. you have to ask yourself these questions. something tells me you know the answer already.\n\nmy advice is, he is lying. he kept that web page and deliberately kept his profile without changing it because he was keeping his 'options open'. don't fall for any more of his lies. get out now before he really breaks your heart..................
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Read the answer from "Bubbles". The person he speaks of is me, and yes he thought I was a hacker, but I was genuinely trying to help him out with his laptop.\n\nDespite his initial weariness, he gave me the benefit of the doubt, and we now communicate on a regular basis - he showed me this question you submitted and thought maybe it was me asking under a different name!\n\nSo yes, we met and we share a birthday. We get on very well; he has become a good friend. \nBubbles, if you are reading... Hello mate :)
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Well first of all, install some spyware on his computer, and have it email you updates on what he writing in his emails, the updates come directly to YOUR email. Next, if all of a sudden he becomes "unavailable" on his cell phone, stops coming over, or becomes distant, it's a good sign. Look through his underware drawer and see if he has under garments he doesn't wear for you. Also, check his car "thoroughly", guy's tend to think their cars are a vault and nobody will find things there, especially where the spare tire is stored. And yes, the sniff test is ALWAYS a good way to tell!
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This is an experience that I dealt with with my "ex-husband". When I caught it, I challenged him on it. He came up with so many explanations that I finally gave him an ultimatum. I told him that he needed to chose between the internet and me. He was also looking at adult porn. He said he would quit, but one day, I checked history, and found that he lied to me. Not only that, but while I was online, I didn't realize that his instant messenger hadn't been closed, and an IM window popped up from a girl who said "hey sexy"! When I looked at the messenger, I realized it was his, and not mine. I told her who I was and she said "What are you doing on his computer?" I told her that it was my computer, and that he was sleeping in my bed. I asked her if she wanted me to wake him up. Well, she was fuming at that point, and started saying things like "Oh, we're just friends, and also that they had never met, she was only playing around". Well, needless to say, I showed him the door real quick. I live in Ohio, she lives in Indiana. When he left, guess where he went immediately??? LOL! Indiana, of course, and he married her 6 months later. Funny thing is, they are divorced now, and since then, he has been engaged to 3 other women, 2 of which dumped him for the same reasons, and he is planning on his 3rd wedding with his new fiance this year. I've always been told that "leopards never change their spots". That's some good advise that I got from my mother. She is very right!!! \n\nMy advise is....don't get caught up in the whirlwind of the lies. They only get bigger and better as time goes on. If he's doing it now and says he'll stop, he'll do it behind your back! Cut your losses and find someone who truely cares about you and your feelings!!!
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They may be just people he met befor you on the service and he just wants to keep in touch. Its the hardest thing in the world to imagine and to confront when your not sure, you dont want to make yourself look insecure, but obviously your feeling that somthings up and once you feel that you always be judging your own intuition.Id create a fake person on the site and try to see if he falls for the bait> if he mentions you everythings probably fine if not you better run