How can i please my boyfriend in the bedroom?
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is it that obvious...give him a b.j.
726776
You are in a tough situation. Its hard to change peoples ways who are sat in them. But if he loves you he would be open for new ideas. Try to get him to do a little kinky stuff each time you all make love or show him what you would like to have done to you do it to him. Make it feel good to him and then he will know when he try it on you that it will feel good to you also. TURN HIM OUT GIRL MAKE HIM YOUR PERSONAL FREAK (only in the bed and behind close doors.) There is nothing wrong with a couple experimenting with each other it keeps the fire burning that way nothing will get old and you all will look forward to having sex because it will be something different each time.
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Wear something that he can have fun taking off.... actually you should wear a sexy outfit the whole day and get him all horny, then let him take it off you when you get back to your room.... I'm a guy and love that kind of stuff.... it's way hotter than just putting on lingerie in the bathroom and then presenting yourself in the bedroom..... have fun!
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Go into your closet and show him how many pairs of shoes you have. Then show him how many pairs of shoe's he has. (hopefully you have a lot more than he does, like most women). Remind him that you like to wear different shoes everyday.\n\nThis issue is one of variety. Men tend to like the same old thing. Women like to try something different. He simply needs to understand this in a practical way. \n\nIf things do not change, require plans for variety or there will be no sex. This may take some negotiation skills, demands don't work very well. \n\nThe best couples accept their responsibility to meet each others needs, and in this area it can be a lot of fun. How this works out is that sometimes you'll have sex in a quite alcove of the new york metropolitan museum during the Chinese antiquities exhibition, and other times you'll have sex at home, in bed, 30 minutes before you go to sleep.
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The best thing to do is ask your boyfriend what he likes and get him to help you out.  Good luck.
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Talk it over with your boyfriend, openly and honestly. Discuss what worked then and what isn't working now. Discuss what each of you want out of the relationship and from sex. Ask questions about how you can please him, give information about how he can please you. Listen with your heart to what he is saying. Talk to his heart about your wants and needs. Then, after discussing, practice what you talked about. You might consider taking a night, a weekend, or a vacation away to get away from the usual distractions and focus on pleasing each other and putting your talk into action.
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ask him wat would really turn him on in bed something use have never done b4\nmake it excieting\nplan a night where hes out make sure the kids(if u have any) r sound asleep in bed  dress up in sexy underwear\nlight a few candles and wait for him to come home\nhell be well surprised\n\ngood luck
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Just keep practicing and remember that you're stimulating him and his imagination via what he hears from you.  So describe what you'd like to do to him, give him feedback when he's describing what he's doing to you and make lots and lots of satisfied sounds!
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Hello, send your hubby an e-mail or call him and tell him that the two of you are going out one evening on a sexy date!\nSet it up in advance so that the two of you both know when it will be and can look forward to it. Pick a restaurant you both enjoy.\nWear something you know he finds sexy on you. At dinner talk about the things the two of you have done sexually that he enjoys and that you enjoy. Get him to talk about it and stay positive.\nAfter dinner, at each stop sign or stop light, kiss him and touch him! Once home, you can remove all of his clothes and tell him to lay on the bed. He can now watch you slowly remove your clothing while you tell him what your going to do to each other once you lay in bed next to him. \nYou can take it from here! \nPlan date nights together! They can be at home making a romantic meal together. You don't always have to go out.\nLight some candles, play romantic music. There are a number of things you can do. \nGood luck and have fun!
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You could try a few things, some of which you might find awful, but I'll list a few.  Others can add to the list:\n\nMake sure he finds YOU to be good in bed.\n\nGet sex ed books, tapes, DVDs.  Read & watch with him.\n\nTry using porn.  Show him what you like on the movie.\n\nGo to sex therapy.\n\nGo to regular old marriage counseling.\n\nI wish you all the best.  I'm sorry if some of my answers sound crude, but sometimes, crude works.
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Joe is right,  candle wax is nice. Try incorporating aphrodisiac duch as strawberries and chocolate. Almost anything that can be fed to you is erotic. Also try different games in the bedroom. If you have any NOVELTY stores nearby, go look around and find games or things that interest you.
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Not really knowing your boyfriend, the best general answer I can give is sexual favours. There is not a man on earth who wouldn't like for his SO to put out.
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Perform oral sex. For the majority of men, nothing is as satisfying as the intensity of pleasure they experience during fellatio.\n\nTake responsibility for your own orgasm. He's happiest in bed when he knows you enjoy sex as much as he does. So learn about your body and know what it takes to turn you on.\n\nCommunicate your desire. He won't know what feels good and what you love in bed unless you communicate. So tell -- or better yet -- show him.\n\nLet him see you nude. Men are turned on by the visual, so don't be bashful. Make love with the lights on, and remember that women tend to be far more critical about their bodies than men are.\n\nDiscover his erogenous zones. His penis isn't the only part of his body that experiences pleasure. Learn if he likes to have his nipples, scrotum, earlobes, feet, or other parts of his body touched.\n\nBe inventive and experimental. Don't be afraid to try something new in bed -- a new position, tantric sex, mutual masturbation. \n\nYou may end up adding something great to your regular bedroom repertoire.\n\nFollow his lead. If he kisses you in a special place or touches you a certain way, try doing the same back to him. Also get him to show you how he masturbates -- and learn to do it for him just the way he likes.\n\nDon't forget the sexy lingerie. Even girls who sleep in T-shirts will find wearing something red-hot once in a while is a guaranteed man-pleaser. Especially when combined with a slow striptease.\n\nShare fantasies. Tell him yours, and invite him to share his with you. Take the fantasies to the next level and act them out if you're both comfortable doing that.\n\nLet him know how turned on you are. Talk dirty to heighten his excitement and yours.
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lets see if you just wanna make your husband adore you, you could try changing your look, or giving him a surprise, like a sexy evening! \nI draped some black sheets over our couch and over the TV set and lit a bunch of candles i also put out some champagne and and strawberry's on our coffee table, and i bought some very sexy lingerie! its a bold move but he seemed to really like it and from that day on he just looked at me differently! you should try it!!
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More tongue action, make him c*m when giving him a BJ.  Hold him, sit next to him, kiss him in public.  Sleep holding him, buy food he likes, Tuck love notes in his pockets.  Tell him you love him before he tells you.
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When he comes home . . . greet him with a beer and a kiss and a hug . . . clothing optional . . . if you have children you will have to dress conservative . . . \n\nHave dinner ready . . . and allow him time to unwind from a hard days work.\n\nPeriodically, give him a long hug and kiss . . . when he least expect it.  \n\nAlso, when it comes to sex, men are always horny . . . but sometimes we are too tired to act or take the initative . . . ladies please help out . . . because I know you need it as much as us.\n\nGuys, this is not just a one way street. . . you have to appreciate your wives too.\n\nMaybe after dinner . . . offer her to wash the dishes . . . not all the time . . . but once in while.  Maybe during the weekend, periodically . . . cook her dinner . . . and don't make a mess . . . lol.  Give her time to relax . . . soak in a tub with bubblebath . . . while you watch the kids or prepare something special for her.  Also, if she is cooking . . . periodically get off your A**, go to the kitchen and give her a hug from behind.\n\nShow love and respect to each other.
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Perhaps something is bothering him, or he doesn't feel well. Try wearing something revealing or surprise him by posing provocatively on the bed when you suspect he will be going in the bedroom. Try having "encounters" at different hours than usual, or in diff places. Avoid ruts. Talk dirty to him.\n\nHe sounds like a lucky guy.\n\ngood luck ;-)