what am i doing wrong when it comes girls?
543220
grow some balls\n\nif she doesn't want you\n\ntoo bad get over it\n\nquit bitching and move on
465370
From your description, it sounds like the girls should be all over you. I'm guessing you must be either really shy or have some sort of personality issue going on. Desperation drives girls away.\n\nAnyway, I would recommend coffee shops and bookstores to find girls in the same educational league (so to speak) as yourself. I've never had luck with guys there, but I keep trying.\n\nThe grocery store is good too because you can tell a lot of a woman by what she has in her cart, but that's kind of cliche.\n\nBasically, unless you have a personality issue, just try and be honest, open, and yourself. Women don't like guys who are posturing and fake; women who can't tell when you are tend to be vapid and a little scary, so everyone loses here.\n\nBest of luck.
95037
I think it's funny you asked girls to answer. In a way you have already started a convorsation with me and i'm a girl.\nWhen intruducing your self be like hey i'm _____. Be really calm when guys are nervous it puts a weird tention everywhere. Just ask whats going on and dont be freaked out that your talking to a girl. we like calm people that are comfortable with themselves. it makes us more comforatable. hope that helps. good luck
371151
Hey, dont rush girls.  No matter how much we may say, at times we just freak out regretfully the next moment we're alone, believe me.  If she keeps on saying it though, she's probably toying with u, being glad to get ur attention.
535606
go to a baby shower,lots of girls there.usually at malls also.\n\n\njust kidding..\n\nyou need to look at yourself before you try to pick up girls.ask yourself why girls may not be into you..is it the way you act?the way you portray yourself? maybe your not the type of person ,or so they think,that should be with someone. maybe you should see about changing a little within yourself.try to be a happier fun person....girls,as well as guys, want to be with someone they can trust and have fun with.
860496
you seem like you are too into yourself.  try talking to guys, some guys wait for the girl to make the frist move.  i mean hell, if you live in ohio ill be happy to take you out on a date:) try to relax and be more friendly and more socialable...hope that helps
510737
be more flirty, less open, less of a shoulder to cry on (but still a good guy) and be more mysterious, more touchy (but NOT disrespectful) and more spontanious. you sound like a great guy, and i'm sure even if you stay just how you are, that you will find a good girl. good things come to those who wait! good luck!
997351
Make female friends.  Don't be pushy or needy or seem desperate.  I have found that all women are somewhat insecure and respond positively to indifference.  Go with the numbers.  Be a guy that a woman can feel comfortable around without being constantly dogged.  Spend a lot of time listening to them and not talk about yourself.\n\nHere are a couple of tips.....  Eye contact.  Make eye contact and hold it briefly (longer than a glance but shorter than a stare).  If her eyes hold on yours she is probably interested.  If she instantly looks away move on, she's not interested......  If  a woman knows you have noticed her and she begins to primp or play with her hair it's a good opportunity to strike up a conversation.  Again, don't be overwelming or seem desperate and don't try to move on her the first time.  Introduce yourself, be interesting, then move on with indifference.  The next time you run across her she will feel more comfortable in your presence.  I always try to find common ground, build on that, and leave her with something to think about.  I will get them interested and then leave them hanging.  It's like having to put down a book at an interesting point, you can't wait to get back to it to see where it goes.  Good luck!
467877
maybe its just bad luck.how about starting out slow.go up to a girl and see if she doesnt have a guy around first,and say hi.just start a conversation,ask her name and compliment her.after u two talk for awhile then ask her if she would maybe like to go out to a movie or dinner sometime.if she says yes then get her #.ur not always gonna get a yes,but maybe it will just take some time.plus like u said u have no experience.think of it this way.its practice.but good luck and hope my advise works out for u and i also hope u find that special one.u seem like a real nice guy.
490546
Personally, I like a guy to come up to me first, I guess maybe that's because I'm a little shy myself. They say good guys finish last and I guess as the saying is also for girls that is why I am still single myself, but in reality although women may seem attracted to bad boys so to speak I think that all they really want at the end of the day is a nice good guy. Perhaps consider being more forward, I know it feels hard but women will respect you for that. If you're good looking and are really a nice guy then you don't need to worry about a thing, she'll come along soon enough.\nHey, if I had met you myself already I probably would have taken the need for you to ask that question straight out of your mind ;o)\nGood luck, relax and try to have fun out there. x
179990
Dude all I have to say is be patient. You just haven't find the right girl yet. When find her it'll be special. If you like a girl right now then ask her out I bet she really likes you.
840352
Girls are fickle. Start by introducing yourself. If she goes to your school, ask her what classes she has.
1102915
Not all of us are like that. I promise! It is always nice to do things when they are not asked for so don't stop being nice,but I think you need to try some different places to meet girls. I think normally you can tell if they are going to be like that from the beginning. Look back and see what they all had in common. Please keep trying because there are more of us out there than you think.
521884
Stop saying your life sucks for one, girls have enough emotional torment, they don't want to deal with yours. Stop building up this great and wonderful thing... its unlikly to happen any way you've imagined it. Just relax and let everything come in its own time. Just be you and have no expectations.
392038
Yes I can help!!\n\nForget getting them. Find a nice girl and settle down.
368726
Maybe you're TOO laidback that you actually miss the chance to get the girls. Snap out there and do it! Be confident! Being too laidback might give the impression that you aren't looking...
691752
Practice makes perfect. Try little subjects to start conversations with co-workers or the like and build up from there. Be kind, patient, and apologetic. Most girls, with a heart anyway, will understand you are shy and help you along. Don't be afraid of rejection either, you will go through a lot if it before you find a nice person who you can call a friend.