Help I am in love with my best friend. He doesn't know I am bi.?
552507
An infatuation which wll ruin your marriage. You're supposed to be a grown man, yet you sound like a child who can't control himself. Do you really want to ruin your marriage, his marriage and your friendship with him? Not a good idea at all. I think it's best to see a therapist as they can help you understand what you are feeling and you can think a little clearer on the issue. Then hopefully you can make the best decision, but trust me, making a pass at him could freak him out and the last thing you want is for him to feel uncomfortable around you.
194714
tell him how you feel.  don't ask for any answers, and don't expect any, but do let him know, and that way the invitation for him to address his feelings for you will be open to him.  i have to question if you are sure you are in love with him?  being in love is like nothing else in the world.  it isn't just the feeling of euphoria at being in a new relationship, it's the understanding that you would literally lay your life on the line for that person, that they are your best friend, lover, confidant, and partner in life.  it's the only feeling that will ever grow no matter how long you are together.  be sure of this before you say anything to "K".  I wish you luck and happiness.
829734
Oh, kind of an embarrasing situation. I would first talk to my best friend about it. Have her pave the way and tell u if he fancies u or not. If u get a positive feedback, start by taking him out to a movie or something along with your friend, once things are cool, u guys can start the real dating
1056626
Obviously you havent gotten over the fact that he doesnt want to date you. Maybe you should jump on the horse and go out on a date...not exactly get a boyfriend...just go out...have fun...spend time not thinking about him.\n\nIf you're best friends you dont want to lose that, I've been in that situation being in love with your best friend...it's horrible when you realize they dont feel the same...I got lucky...my best friend told me that I would find the man of my dreams and realize that it wasnt him...and he was right...but it took about a year before that happened. \n\nJust give it time and things will get better...if not easier. You just need time to cope.\n\nBest of luck
170962
Well honey weather you or bi or not you are still normal. Just set your Dad down and explain to him how you feel. He should love you no matter what. And of course let him know you love him.
1157610
It must suck to be in this position.  If I were in this sticky situation, I would be too scared to tell my best friend that I'm in love with him/her.  But hey, it's not like your best friend in with anyone right now.  Technically, he/she is single.  You can try to make yourself more noticeable and drop a few hints how you feel.\n\nIf you're confident enough, it would be great to confess.  Don't worry, if you guys are best friends, it totally wouldn't ruin the friendship.  I've had two best friends who confessed that they liked me, but we were such good friends that we didn't let that affect our friendship.
445586
Loving your "best friend" is not a bad start.  Does he love you back.\nAnd stop playing with the word "LOVE"!
206569
I was in love with my best friend and I told him. He didn't feel the same way as I did but that didn't hurt our relationship either, it actually brung us closer and our bond grew because of it. It's a huge risk to tell her but if you really feel strong enough, I say go for it. Who knows, your best friend could always become the best girlfriend you ever had and if nothing else at least she will understand how much you care about her.
299173
my best guy friend is gay
457696
honesty is good, but are you reallly sure you're bisexual? think about it. If you are, then tell then you're still the person they are friends with and it shouldnt change ur friendship just becuase you have a different sexuality preference. Unless she feels like you're going to like her, then explain to her that just becuase you like girls too doesnt mean you like every girl, just like she doesnt like every boy. Tell ur bf. Hes gonna be mad most likely...cuz no one wants to share their gf... but its unlimately up to you. do whatever feeels right.
180361
Maybe you are bi. There is no shame in that though. You have to follow your heart. Sometimes it leads us in directions that we would rather not go. But don't deprive yourself from something that you truley feel.
845373
Feel the situation out.  Do you know how he feels about gay people?  In the right time and place you will be able to tell him you are and how you have felt.  If he is not gay then you can't change him, don't try it won't work and do'nt push it.  Many straight people have gay friends.
253304
That seems normal. Be happy you have a good friend who can be so honest with you, he knows he's not going to ever have a chance with your bf - who is obviously straight. That is why he told you - he is good friends with you and is comfortable telling you anything.
609498
The fact that you are asking indicates that you are considering it, if you weren't you would have told him no flatly right out.  He must detect that you have tendencies because I doubt he would bring it up otherwise.\n\nYou have to ask yourself some tough questions, are you gay, bi-curious, you need to search your soul for some answers.\n\nIf you are, you need to acknowldge it and accept it, there is nothing wrong with it.  \n\nIf you are straight and want no part of it, you need to make that known to him right away, if he's your friend he would understand, if not then you need to re-evaluate your relationship with him.\n\nGood luck.
188433
Since your best friend is good friends with him, maybe you could find ways to be around him more.  Be yourself, but make sure that you direct some comments his way!  If you two become closer friends, it will start to become more evident if you have things in common, and will be easier to transition into dating.  I hope it works out for the best!\nP.S.  I got tired of always waiting for guys to make the first move, so I started speaking out a little more, which was hard, because I'm a little shy.  But I had to make sure that they at least knew I was alive. In most cases, they did have an interest as well, which is good because it saved me the pain of rejection. Just don't throw yourself at him or act like someone you're not.
118364
I'd say...he's confused.  Chances are he's gay/bi and not wanting to admit it to himself yet.  You are a guilty pleasure to him that he doesn't want to admit or confess to.  In his heart, he's hoping the feelings will just go away, but when you are together, he can't stop them.  Go slow and give him time and space.  Let him figure things out on his own.  And protect your own heart too.  Don't get hurt in all of this if you can help it.
1036422
Enjoy your dreams but act normal around him and keep the dreams to yourself. Maybe someday he'll be having dreams about you too! Maybe he is now! If anything is to happen, let him make the first move. Until then, remain friends, in thought as in deed. As in, don't go getting yourself all worked up about him, or we'll see another one of those questions that starts "I'm in love with my best friend, what...". Please, girl, you know the answer to those! So just be cool.