how does a person feel after a onw night stand?
537796
Depends on their values.  If they're a Christian or were brought up in a good family, then they might feel convicted. But if they don't have any direction in life, then it probably is not a  big deal.
842903
Hmm. Of course its not weird. You are used to feeling a certain way, and there was a degree of safety in that. What you have now sounds like hope. Hope for the future, and in a way that can be a little scary. That goes for everyone. Its uncertain when you dont know what is coming.\nWell done to you for leaving your past behind you. You will now be able to empathise with others who feel like you once did - there sure is a lot of them!\nHow you feel is how you feel. Dont doubt yourself!
1085476
I think your feelings are totally normal. You should wait until you feel is right. If you still have some doubts or fears hanging around don't do anything. If you want to make your first time special, wait until it feels right.\n\nI also strongly recommend to you talking about those fears with your boyfriend. Talking about those will help both to understand where you are at.\n\nWhatever you do, please do it with the full awareness.You do not want to remember your first experience with sadness or doubts.
1067302
I dont consider people who choose not to have a one night stand strange.  I think more people should respect themselves, and others by not sleeping around.
936886
It's normal to be nervous! God knows that I was. But it's not as bad as all my friends tried to make it out to be! The first time he enters, it's going to hurt a little bit, but after a couple of minutes, it's fine... Or it was for me... Just try to relax, have fun, but make sure it's with someone special and not just a one night fling. That will make it much more memorable for you!  So relax, have fun, but also, be safe!! Cheers!!
660770
Didn't get answers you liked from the last time, huh?   Your spirit was the one feeling it.  You may have been partially in you body at the time, so you felt it physically too.  During the night, the spirit tends to leave the body (connected by a silver cord).  You may have been returning to your body at the time that a healer sent by God was checking on your feet, like a doctor doing a follow up exam.\n\nIt's hard getting a serious answer on this sight.  Too many goofoffs out to make fun of people and hurt their feelings.
691422
when you had the worst night the day before and dont wanna get up; but knowing that you're going to see him that day makes everything okay; being yourself and not feeling you have to be someone your not around him; you think about him constantly;\n\nlong story short; you just kind of know.\nits an UNEXPLAINABLE feeling.
1068243
I had a friend tell me after I had got engaged "you'll likely never see another woman naked again - and you'll definately never have the feeling of a first kiss again" and it relly didnt bother me. Think that through before commiting and if it scares you then you're not ready.
362983
thats fine i guess...I met someone over the internet as well and we slept together after seeing eachother twice! I was a bit messede up after that, but things are going ok...we are not together though, but things are slowly moving to the next level...Dnt feel bad about being attractive to someone...as long as you used protection tten i dnt see what the big deal is...I asked a similar question not too long ago. And see...you guys are still together... And dnt take what Khalidnm2003 said to heart...When guys do it it's great...But as soon as a woman enjoys her sexual self we are referred to as $luts! You dnt need people bring you down...Plus you are a grown woman so why the heck not...Power to you sister!!!
864834
i passed out today... not pretty\nand when i fell i lost of my feeling then all of a sudden i was more relaxed than ive ever remembered myself ever being
656353
Go to a club sit at the bar have a beer and then walk around until you feel comfortable. If your not having fun then leave. Make sure to take at least one fiend with you and be careful.\n.\nor\n.\nParty all night long!!! you might regret it and be embarrassed if you go out on the dance floor ... but if you actually look at the people dancing...none of them can dance...and then if you see a move you like steal it and add your own style. Youll have so much fun!
135189
After good sex with the person you love
320535
depends......did i have a date last night
684402
Ah, the ol' "Well, there was this one time in college..." lesbian episode. Hey, if you want to try it, go for it. But what do you mean you didn't know what "spend the night" means? She grabbed your breasts; doesn't that give you some idea? I'm guessing it won't be just "kissing and holding."\n\ndo it if you're that curious, but know that it's going to be a part of you forever. Not saying that's a good or bad thing, just that it is what it is.
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My first impression was I felt weird when we got there,everyone was naked but us.\nI then thought,I'm glad I'm still young.\nthe clothes problem was soon gone and so were they,we took a walk around everything was nice and clean,the pool and tennis courts were full of wet bodies and bouncing balls.\nThis was a more family type place you had to be interviewed before you came.\nI was so glad to be a young adult,of course i'd seen many naked people before but not relaxing under a tree reading a paper naked.\nI had this feeling after awhile everyone looked the same clothes on or off.\nAfter a few stiff ones at the adults only bar,we were quite relaxed and soon felt good and comfortable in our bare truth conversations.\nOne thing I couldn't shake was looking at the older men and thinking never will I be like that.\nTime has a way in life of being real short and by the looks of those old gentlemen it worked well on them.\nIf I had a choice to go now I'd pick the family type we had loads of fun and I would go while your young.\nwe met many people who had been coming to the same place for years they were real die hards.
133512
yOUR PROB. JUST NERVEOUS, JUST TELL THE PERSON YOUR NEVEROUS OR HOW YOUR FEELING AT THE TIME AND THEY MAY HELP YOU THREW IT. TRY PLAYING SOME MUSIC THAT WILL SET THE MOOD AND HAVE A COUPLE OF DRINKS OR YOUR DRUG OF CHOICE.
994370
Women want to bask in the after glow and men just think well I did my job for the night, or it was good for me was it good for you? Before you have time to answer them they have already nodded off. typical MALE.