why do some females talk in ghetto.....do they think it is attractive?.....i think it only is attractive to?
547027
Yuk. It makes them sound dumb and trashy.
999107
# people of lower socioeconomic strata tend to speak more loudly even at rest from chronicaly being forced to assert themselves if they want to get even the simplest rights of respect etc.\n# stupidity(like when you are drunk) leads to disinhibition which is associated with loud voice\n# i seriously question their femininity.\n# this is not racist at all, it must be acknowledged that every race has certain traits,making generalizations of good/bad genre is racist .\ni never mentioned anything about good or bad.
1018360
Not all Black women are loud and date gangsters. I've been around white women, Asian women, and Latinas who are loud. You sound very self hating remember you came from a beautiful Black woman.
430540
Sweet talking is just a part of the art of seduction.  Besides appearance and smell, talking has to be the most important tools to attract a female.  Like all creatures we are animals, we avoid that which displeases us, and move towards that which pleases.  If you are out in a bar what do you expect.  However, that's life and this is how most guys accomplish their goal.  How is that any different than a girl's boyfriend sweet talking her in order to get some.  Is it now a double standard if the person is a stranger?
400090
Of course we are beautiful!!  Smartgirl, you are too smart to let this one man's preference make you doubt yourself.  Latina women are pretty, but that's not to say that other women are not half as good.  I don't know why people can't give a compliment without slamming others.  There is beauty in all races.  This is true for us as well.  From our full lips to our rounded hips to that fantastic African shelf--we're slamming!  I'm not conceited by the way; I just appreciate what God made me and I don't care if y'all either can't or refuse to see it. :o)
1174399
Are the 2 questions related?  They don't really make sense in the same sentence.  Maybe girls don't understand you if that's how you talk?  Seems like maybe you should focus on one thing at a time.
62575
hahahaha\nif someone says "wit" they are most likely a poser trying to be ghetto, lol.\nonly a few are typos or m,issing letters.\nits just slang, and posing, haha.
464063
I agree, They should at least have it in them to admit it.. LOL...but I think men do it, in case some other girl is listening, so he can have her as a back up, in case the one he is interested in, doesn't want him...  :)
232486
Interesting topic. It's just a part the African American culture over exploited if I might say. I don't even have to listen to it to hear it or see it. I can walk outside and look at how some of these females dress, talk and act. I really don't need to listen to the radio or watch a video to have it shovelled into my head. I hear guys call each n***a every day all day. What amazes me about the word n***a is how they use it so freely, but get offended when a White person says it. It still holds the same meaning as it did back then. Then you have these females who under dress themselves to get attention or because they think it's cute and get offended when a guy calls them a b***h or a hoe. It's doesn't work that way. Way degrade yourself and get mad when you're called out on it? Why is ok for me to be called n***a or call you n***a but if "the man" says it, he's being racist? \n  Gangsta rap is just basically like telling a story. It's all about what's happening in the urban, ghetto community. But people get thrown back by it because they don't know about the struggles or lifestyles in these areas. What they get out of it is what is portrayed in music, videos and other media. If I was ignorant to what was going on in the world, it would seem meaningless to me too. \n  I do have to admit, being Black myself, gangsta rap can be a bit harsh, but that's the reality of the world we live in today. I grew up in the ghetto and I've only witnessed a few harsh things in that lifetime. I'm just glad to say that even though I was raised in the projects, I didn't let the environment dictate that as my way of life.
92987
Why do you invite comments on that? It is up to you what sort of females you fancy and nobody else's business really.It's a free country and your choice.
988840
Boyfriends who talk bad about their girl when their girl isn't around. Dissin' them!!
450485
I actually just read an article written by a black woman about how she was tired of men assuming she was just some big-lipped, big-butt sex object.  Whenever guys payed her compliments (especially white males) it usually had something to do with how they were "into her chocolate love" or "wanted a black girl to boss them around in bed" or something else racist and degrading.  She wished people could just tell her something nice without pointing out that she was black.  How about we just compliment people for who they are and forget their skin-color-stereostypes?  There are millions of nice things that can be said of all women, and each woman is different -- they are all beatifully and wonderfully made; they are individuals.
1171480
I'm Black and I speak proper English at all times unless I'm just hangin' w/ friends.  However, when it matters, and when I hear Black people speaking Ebonics -- or what I just plain call "ghetto" -- I think they are simply uneducated.  I think they're low-class and I think they reflect poorly on ALL Blacks.
512833
What kind of question is that?!?!?!People that don't have any respect are not always "ghetto acting".There are a lot of people who act ghetto that have nice cars.I have a ghetto family and they have nice cars and a house.Having a nice car should'nt be a reason for having respect it should be how you show it.Atleast they have a car!!!
965603
I have no idea, really. Maybe they think it's what makes them "Gangsta". Or maybe the bitches and hoes are just members of that sex not deserving any respect. Frankly, I have no idea, let's just leave them to it.
973252
Wow that's different.....I've heard of people doing dirty chatting while they are having sex but not having conversations about other people..  Usually the talk is, if there is any at all , is about how good it is making us feel..................
593462
Of course...some guys will only engage in sex chat if the female gives off vibes as such or flat out asks nasty questions.But then again,alot of guys are just horny at that time and looking for dirty chat!