If your man is learning how to endure during sex, does it mean he finds you less sexually attractive?
541470
I don't think I'd say he finds you less attractive, maybe he is putting more pressure on himself to please you and so is slightly distracted. When under pressure I know I last longer, but as long as my partner enjoys herself the whole experience is amazing. I know that not a lot of men find satisfying their partner the main priority, but if yours is putting in the effort I'd say take it for what it is! He must think a lot of your relationship to put in such effort.
94793
No, having sex as a form of entertainment is purely a human behavior. The man might feel unsatisfied but ultimatly, its all in your head.
53471
Are you beautiful? It could be very difficult if you are centerfold material. How frequently are you having relations? Could he wear a condom with a little lube. If your stuff is tight, that has a tendency to rush things along. Some women only climax through intercourse, some through oral. Which are you? Maybe he can compensate for his quickness. Try longer foreplay, changing positions, and discussing world politics during fun time. Buy a Tommy Lasorda mask and wear that.
647953
Odds are he means what he says.  He's trying to support you and make you feel loved.  If you want to really turn him on, wait until you're in public and discreetly press your butt up against him and give a little teasing rub.  When my gal does this it really drives me nuts.
124547
Is it like a really good friend where you stick together and talk everything under the sun, except love/sex.\n\nYou might do the sexy dress /flirt thing. but not often , prob once in 10 days.\n\nHe might even suggest you that you dont do it cause he doesnt see like that.\n\nUse a cautious approach, If he's uncomfortable to be around you when you tend to show sexiness then prob you need to change and come back in plain ol, Some day he would see..\n\nyou could use other subtule hints.. of togetherness probably showing on your belongings, which might catch his eye once a while ang he would give a thought
299315
Men have a goal. Once they hit that goal, you are no longer attractive. When you really put up a fight, or stand up for yourself by respecting yourself, he will too. But if you give up the 'goodies' real quick, he's gone.
869089
H-E-L-L to the no, sir.  I think that everything should be mutual in a relationship, being a bit aggressive to be sexy is a turn-on, but if it is persistent and actually his character trait, that is a total turn-off. I'm all for a guy to take charge every ONCE in a while, but not 24/7.  This isn't the early 1900's.
536104
I think if you consistently (and I mean each and every time) hang up on him when he starts making sexual comments, he will get the message. Telling him off probably gets him just what he wants. He knows he's succeeded in getting a rise out of you. So, hang up, walk away, but don't let him see that he's getting to you. When it stops working I'll bet he stops doing it.
350927
No, he's suffering from "inconsideration". He gets his and it's done for him. If you hadn't said "husband" i would have suggested you drop him like a bad habit. But since you're married, sit him down and in a non-accusatory tone tell him how it makes you feel. Tell him you'd like to enjoy sex too. Tell him Men are like ovens, they heat up quick. Women are like crock pots, the take some time to heat up. He needs to be attentive to your needs. He needs to give you a little foreplay. He needs to find out what you like and enjoy and then give it to you. Or you might want to consider not "giving it" to him until he gets a clue. Good luck.
519640
Yes. Partly it's physical, partly it's fear and not knowing what to expect. Partly it can also be if your first time is your guy's first time, him not knowing what he's doing and rushing things can hurt. \nIt gets better the next time.
827516
Or the question might  be whats your problem? Yeah i know you didn't expect that. it seems your stuck all on you and think no one would dare turn you away> Maybe he see's through your hot body and see;s that your all about you!  Maybe he simply want's some one who is not so willing to give it up! It's hard to respect some one who is willing to bed me at first sight>
208627
If he is the one initiating it, that's a good sign. Moaning and excitement in his movements is another sign he enjoys it, the level of excitement and moaning is the best indicator of how much he is enjoying it. If he is forcing himself not to ejaculate, so that he can last longer, is a very good sign that he loves having sex with you. And you should be able to ask him, try listening to the tone in his voice to know if he is telling the truth, lying, or being sarcastic.
338362
hey sweetie sex won't work believe it or not it's just the opposite however if he gets frustrated and bugs out because of the lack of nookie he was not the guy any way. cudo's to you for standing on your moral principles. my best to you and your relationship
316249
He sounds a bit like a whiner outside of the bedroom. Some people just like to be quiet during sex, so maybe that's his thing. Or maybe he's just not that into you.
276686
please be more clear . . . when you ask for sex (speaking of you) . . . he says that he has a headache.\n\nOr is it the reverse.
187909
Is your sex better than usual? Is he doing new things to you that he didnt learn from cable TV? Are his everyday habits any differently than before? Is his hair different? Is he really open to change? Does he accuse you of things, over react to and blow little things out of proportion. Does he create reasons to fight and be mad so he can go lengths of time without talking to you or answering his phone? If he is then I'd assess my situation........if he's not doing these things...back off and enjoy your man.
1046955
it means the guy can't get it up to have sex.