Is it normal when a 23 yr old man never wants to have sex?
545691
The fact that your hubby doesn't want to have sex is a SYMPTOM of something else. You need to figure out the cause. It could be a PHYSICAL problem. There are herbal pills that you can look for at health shops which are safe and might help if he needs a physical/hormonal boost. Read up about Damiana and see if it might help. Then, it could be something like an EMOTIONAL problem. Something could have happened to him when he was a child. Often people who were abused are very sexual before they get married and then after they get married they don't want to have sex anymore. If this is the case, you need to be very supportive because they have feelings of guilt and low self-esteem. If it's not something that happened in his past, then it could have something to do with the INTIMACY between the two of you. Maybe he has an unmet NEED. STRESS also affects a man's libido!! Mabye his work is putting too much stress on him and he needs to do something about it. You need to find out the source of the problem. Counselling can help you.
214051
It depends on the man.  Sometimes it can be fatigue, stress at work, the relationship he has with his wife, a medical condition,etc.  Sometimes guys are not always up to par if they are tired or mentally preoccupied by his environment or by his mate.\n\nA lack of sex is a just a symptom of a deeper issue in the relationship. Has your friend been receptive  to her husband in a loving, non-attacking/nagging ways?  Has she found out what is truly behind his lack of desire?  Maybe his needs are not being met and he does not connecting with his wife?
915072
Maybe he is having problems preforming and he is insecure about it. I am 20 and my husband is 34 and we have been together for 2 years. Sometimes you still love each other and you still find one another attractive, but you just need a break from the sexual part of the relationship. Are you feeling pressure from the idea of marriage? Are you both stressed out in any way more than usual, maybe from planning a wedding? It all factors in, as long as you still love each other, it's OK. Sex isn't everything.
1184886
It's normal.  My hubby is 61, we've been married 32 years.  He is ALWAYS horny.
739443
wow!! your a much better man than any i know if you have been around for 7 months and no sex! i just turned 28 and i dont know how you do it!!! yep, you love this one for real!  i would sit down and have a deep conversation with her about your feelings.
354703
Your hormones are raging. Think about it this way. When your older and no longer care about sex that much anymore, are you going to be with someone who loves you and that you love. You want someone who will be your friend when that time comes. For love, you have to make sacrifices. You can't have everything or you might end up with nothing.
395443
well one of 3 things could be the source of the problem 1. he doesnt actually care about sex all that much and is just happy being with you 2. feels insecure in bed 3. just might not beable to keep up with or sex drive. just let it lay things will change plus only 4 months in a relationship dont let sex rule the relationship cuz then it will fall apart
330714
take a look at the response i gave to the guy that is 24yrs old and has sex drive issues.
503295
Well if he wants to have sex with you, he might get kinda fed up eventually, dont you think? Why do you want to keep him but not have sex with him. Sex is part of love. Is he a potential lover or just your sugar daddy or something?
26451
First define "normal"!!  I am 35 and he is 47 and we have been together for 6 years, living together for 6 months, and on average I'd say we have sex with each other 4 times a week.  Usually it is weekends 2-3 hour marathons 2-3 times a weekend as well as about twice during the week before saying goodnight!  I have found that too often can sometimes take the fun out of it so when you start seeing signs of sexual "overdose" it's good to refrain for a week or so and don't be afraid to experiment with new positions, places etc in order to keep it alive and fun!
595000
Ah, I am sorry to hear how much this is upsetting you, and I feel sorry for him as well. I wish I had a crystal ball to look into and find out what's really going on here. Something's fishy. \n\nAt the start of many sexual relationships, the lovemaking is hot! It's natural for sex to wane over time and you two were very busy. I sense that there's an undercurrent you need to ferret out, as it seems that he is flat-out avoiding sex with you. \n\nAsk yourself some basic questions: when did things change? Was there an incident that you can remember? Has there been a gradual decline? Has putting on weight, having children, a change in income/earnings or something like that happened? \n\nAs for the importance of this to your relationship, although national studies have shown disparate results, sex is not usually the number one issue in saving a marriage. However, if it's a top need for you and it compounds your feelings of inadequacy, erodes your self-esteem, makes you feel unloved or affects your ability to feel good about yourself in general, then it's time to have a serious heart-to-heart with him. Be gentle when you talk about it and try to understand what's bothering him. After that, you may need to seek professional help either together or alone — or give him up in the end.
370284
Hmmm, just be careful. I can tell you one thing, he is probably in his 2nd sexual prime at about 40. He might not be as active as you either... LOL. I am 45... Hmmm, where are the rest of the 27 year olds? (Todd)
1142293
Yes. I've heard from personal stories. Everybody's different. He may be one with low sex drive, or yours higher. Could even be psycological issues, though I don't think that is usually the case. Happy bed time!
906866
This may be hard to hear but he is too old for you.\nStick to your guns and don't let anyone force you into sex until you're ready.\nNot only let him sleep with others, push him right out the door to do it!!
419561
I'm only a few years older than you but I would never have sex on the first date.  You need time to know each other and see if the relationship has possibilities before jumping into bed.  Even at 50, you can get a reputation as a sl*t.  How do you know that this guy would keep his mouth shut?  You don't know something like that until you know the person.  Definitely not what I would do but to each their own.
251404
all men get horny in the morning, it doesn't mean they have to have sex...it's a few minutes feeling that they can ignore.... come on, he can save it for the evening to be with you ! please don't settle for that, this thing is addictive and it's already showing :"almost every day"... and the stress part is pathetic, aren't you under stress too ?! does that make you watch porn every day??? This is how you should talk to him and be firm, try to find a compromise at least, or believe me, you're heading right into a marriage disaster ! Good Luck
1175433
yes, it's almost the norm. in fact, NOT having sex before is seen as weird and very rare