Would you support your boyfriend?
545598
dump him. Trust me, if this has been going on for 3 years, he is taking advantage of you and most likely will not change. Plus you have to ask yourself if he even really cares about you if he is selfish enough to not help you at all.
133618
Whether or not you trust your boyfriend is one thing. But do you trust this girl? I wouldn't.
739531
You're not cheering for the underdog, you're being contrary with your boyfriend.\n\nYou should always stick by your partner, but that doesn't mean that you agree with them when they are wrong.  You stick by them by comforting them when they are wrong or wronged.\n\nThere is nothing wrong with showing your bf that he is wrong, but harping on it right when it happens (and especially if he ISN'T wrong!) is destructive.\n\nTalk to him about it later, constructively.
355108
How old is your boyfriend. Aren't you a little bit young to be worried about a mans finances?
1040237
Man! That's a tough one! But the fact of the matter is that the boyfriend was cheating! Doesnt matter if it was with another man, woman or she-male. So I would kick some butt then dump the boyfriend.
620719
love him and be supportive
960672
My boyfriend is my best friend.  We have been together for 3 years now and I am so comfortable around him.  He is always willing to listen to me when I've had a bad day and can always make me feel better.  He is kind, thoughtful, and always puts his family and friends before himself.  I love him so much. : )
262292
You're friend may be jelouse so what I would do is believe your boyfriend. If he care about you then he wouldn't be lieing to you.
739927
Why is he so strongly against it?  This is your life.  I have always thought that the girls who followed their boyfriends to a different college were dumb because chances of that relationship to last are very very slim.  But then there are the ones that do work out.  You have to figure out if this is really the guy you love because if you are willing to change your life and ambitions for this guy then you have to be willing to die for him and care for him no matter what.  You should have a conversation about why he is so against it, no yelling/stay calm.  You need to tell him that you love him but you have always wanted to do this and he should be supportive.  If there is a really good reason why you shouldn't work there and you love him then you should listen otherwise you should take the job and he might leave you for a bit but come back because he misses you
582162
Take care of your drinking problem first. If he is non supportive, then you need to find someone else. At least you acknowledged that you had a problem and are doing something about it. If you stay in that problem, you will have more serious things to worry about than your boyfriend. If people you care about cannot be there for you when you are in a personal crisis, then that should open your eyes up about them, and how "shallow" they are. Some people view seeking help from an outside org. such as AA, as a sign of weakness. That is the dumb thinking of prideful people, who would rather go down with the ship than to reach for a life saver. If they are willing to go down like that, then believe that they would also take you down with them! Hopefully your b/f will come around, and stop being selfish. Nevertheless, whatever he does, don't let it stop you from helping yourself.
627422
If I was your boyfriend or husband it would be with you!
43667
I expect that you see things as being so good that you're afraid they'll come crashing down in a moment's notice.  Things do NOT always turn out bad if they've been good.  A lot of things stay good and even get better.  Believe in yourself and your boyfriend, and things can work for the best!
413222
If you love and respect your man yes.
977944
yes. talk to your friends. they should be able to help you. or ask your boyfriend himself what he wants.
1033653
Well....it really depends on how you feel for him. If you actually LOVE him then yes but if you can go without him and not worry about him being around or not. No don't create bad relationships. \n\nSincerely-Fudge
936666
Yes, I think a boyfriend would feel more comfortable, except if their girlfriend likes girls as well as guys. But if she's faithful, then he shouldnt have to worry.  =]
944409
Yes...I think so.  Show them love and effort to get along with them and in time they may come to love you or atleast get along with you.  You should not force your boyfriend into a situation like this because it hurts him to choose between people that he loves.  Atleast make an effort, and I promise that he will  love you for it.  It never hurts to try as long as you examine your heart and make an honest effort.  I am saying a prayer for you!