I don't understand why I'm like this? read and please help??
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i think you answered your own question, anyone your friend has, you want! i think you are jealous of your friend and a little insecure with yourself and think that sexual attention is a way of validating yourself?  its your'friend' i feel sorry for not only does she have a boyfriend that she cant trust she also has you, someone who cant wait to betray her, grow up and go live somewhere that you cant mess with other peoples lives..
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don't feel bad about yourself..you mad have adult ADD..i have it...look at ADD.com...its where you get bored easily.can't focus....even if it's not that..you are not a bad person you just can't make up your mind..you wanna explore everything god has offered in this world that doens't mean theres something wrong with you..don't be so hard on yourself..im 27 have'nt had many jobs..a stay at home mom now and im always down on myself..feel like im not doing anything that contributes to the world...but i read the bible and everythings all better...start going to church and read the bible..jesus will change your views about yourself..no one is perfect...if  you feel you need to see a phyc. go...maybe it will help maybe not..if  you feel in your heart your a good person then just keep going and someday you'll find your way..if  you are unhappy about  yourself change it...you can do anything you put your mind to but no matter what happens or what you decide every one is beautiful in there own way and no one should down themselves...
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You sound like a very unhappy person to me. By wishing these things you are basically wishing that you aren't the person you are.\n\nEverything that has happened in your life has made you the person you are and you are beautiful.\n\nAnything that has gone wrong has only made you stronger and you need to start looking at your life differently. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself and beating yourself up over events that are beyond your control.\n\nTake everything that has happened and turn it into a positive, make those things what drives you to get where you want to be.
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I was like that too.Maybe it could be self esteem Or the start of depression.Like everyone says check with a doctor.Below are some test you can take.They may help you understand more.\nhttp://nadabs.tripod.com/team/selfesteemtest.html\nhttp://depression.about.com/cs/diagnosis/l/bldepscreenquiz.htm   I hope this helps!
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Well you are. Trust me you are. Sounds like you don't like whats going on. Change it. That simple, change it even if you don't like what you change it to the act of changing will go along way to making you feel better. Also, leave God, Jesus, or what ever out of it. That just cause more problems.
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You are probably moving a bit too fast or in an awkward manner.\n\nSlow down, take your time and get your head out of the gutter.  Next thing you know, things will just happen.
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You know that you are pretty, so nothing anyone says can change that.  Try writing a list of all of your good qualities, i.e., nice hair, nice handwriting, good body, pretty eyes, smart, popular etc.\n\nYou might want to check some self-help books out of the public library--there are many--and can be very helpful.  You also might want to see a doctor or counselor--you need to let it all out to someone you can trust.\n\nI hope you feel better very soon.  :)
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You sound as if you are feeling a bit anxious. Maybe you need to sit down and try to talk over why you feel this way.\n Its really common, I've had something similar which is almost completely resolved now that I've worked out why I felt so "fluttery'. \nDont worry- when you get to the bottom of it, it will go away. \n:)
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Have you felt like this for longer than just today? If it is just a one-off than you are probably just bored and need to call a friend and talk, or get out of the house and get some exercise and fresh air.  However, if this has been going on for a while or is a recurring condition, than you might have a medical condition that requires immediate attention from your doctor. Depression, Diabetes, Stress, Iron-Deficency....many others could be causing you to feel the way you do. An imbalance of seretonin levels in your brain can cause "depression-like" symptoms. What ever the cause, only your doctor can help you determine it and can work with you to find the solution!! Please don't wait to seek professional advice, the longer you wait the longer you'll feel this way.  Best wishes and let us know how you do. Take care! :)
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Sounds like you may be a bit clinically depressed -- probably should speak to your physician, or at least a trusted family member or friend about this, as it is most unhealthy to continue this type of isolative behavior long-term!  GOOD LUCK!
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first you have to realize what emotion are you feeding. are you upset about something? did some one hurt you? and instead of voicing your anger you stuff it down with food? are you feeding a lonely girl inside? what ever the reason find out what it is. I would suggest going to therapy and having a professional help you unearth what it is that causes you to act this way. I do the same thing but with shopping. we found out that when i get stressed I go shopping. so instead of shopping i now deal with what is causing me stress and put away the debit card!\ngood luck !
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Wait. You said you think too much? Like how? This might be just like me. I don't know what's wrong with me. Maybe I have the same thing you do. Please explain what you mean by thinking too much.
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It's a feeling I'm all to familiar with.  I'm an oddball.  I don't like to run with the pack.  The pack I run with today might decide we're lemmings tomorrow.  I've had a great deal of success at being myself, and as much as it pisses off the world, I'm not ****ing changing.  I find that as much as I've heard that Christians are strangers and aliens in this land, just as much I'm finding it's the truth.  I feel alone much of the time, and it's a rare thing for me to find someone who thinks and feels the way I do.  Hope this helps, as I don't really know where you're coming from.  From a psychological point of view, perhaps you simply need to find your center and connect with people who have more similar interests.  Or perhaps you should do what I find myself doing much of the time...hanging out with my dog.
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Nothing is wrong persay....You are like me in a way....maybe your trust has been broken to the point where it is very difficult to feel like trusting....trust me (lol) I know where your coming from. Remember to take your time with a possible solistice mate.....Trust will be there.  You do have to take a risk and not run away once in a while...Risk is what the "Game of Looooooooovvvvvvvvveeeeeeee" is all about.
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I encourage YOU to get to know the real you.  Find something you are passionate about and great at.  Begin doing that thing.  Are you a good singer?  Consider joining a choir.  Are  you great at math?  Join the math club, or sign up to be a tutor.  When you begin pursuing whatever it is that really drives you, you will meet people who are interested in the same things.  Most likely, they'll notice the real you first, and then your personality will shine through.  I also encourage you to laugh at yourself.  So what you are "ditzy".  You can't change your personality!  You sound like a fun girl.  Don't harp on yourself...  I do stupid things all the time, but I have so many friends because I know how to laugh at myself.  Good luck!!
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hi well i cant describe myself dont worry most the ppl here r very helpful , kind they will help u all the best!!! & also welcome to yahoo answers
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I think you are lovely looking.Wouldn't answer if I didn't think so.(what possible reason could I have for "just being nice" to a stranger?)\nWhy are you asking though? Are you depressed, do you think?Is there something underlying? It sounds like maybe....\nHope you work through it, if only the bit about accepting that you're really quite lovely.\nGood luck.