What i can do with my moth in law?She`s in .My life is over?Please help ER.?
546471
I'm sorry, but i really don't understand the question. Can you rephrase it, please?
1186334
her stay at home boring life?.....well maybe you should stop being a fucking jerk off before she gets smart and divorces your ass...then who will cook your yummy food and clean up after your piggish self.....what exactly is your question?
566644
You really must cut your ties! May I suggest that you take a few food items to her, explain that you cannot afford to do this on a regular basis. Once there, have a good look around the home. Is she still useing you? Should you contact the proper authorities because there really is no food?
855475
If she's kind hearted, be thankful. Many mother-in-laws do MUCH worse things. Get a tub, put a label on it, store the clothes. Think of it as shopping in advance. If you must, donate them. Don't assume what her reasons for this are, it may make complete sense to her. By the way, if she does this every year you must have clothes that fit them from two Christmases ago. Personally I think, be kind, let it go, life is short.
554480
There are so many gaps on so many levels so let me lay out  your options:\n1)let's say you end up with her in the end - you will destroy relationship with your uncle forever. She may betray you the same way she is betraying her husband at present once she gets bored with you (betraying in this case is defined as giving you hints that she is interested in pursuing some kind of physical relationship with you)\n2)you end up with her in the end, and because she chose to leave her husband, children will probably stay with him. She will never forgive herself for making that mistake and will secretly blame YOU later for all her misery (give or take 5-7 years later) - not sure if you are willing to carry that burden in years to come.\n3) you look in the other direction and realize that she is older than you and probably wants to experience the years she's missed while busy with family and children (assume she married young and had her children quickly). you will be much happier later and other opportunities will come your way trust me. on the other hand, you may choose to have a one time fling with her and both of you move on with your lives (this way she would regain her sense of reality and you will just get lucky :). The question is how are you going to look at each other during family gatherings later on...\n4) not sure about her husband, but if he's violent type, family betrayal could justify some of the worst consequences. \n5) my advice, you have seen nothing yet. Life is just coming at your full force and please do not close the doors when it knocks. Acknowledge your feelings, we all feel tempted at some point in our lives but you need to carefully consider all options (including feelings of other individuals who would be directly or indirectly affected by your decision to make a move in this case), before you take action.\nGOod luck and hope you keep us updated.
1157649
Sounds like you have some talking to do... and from that decide whether to 'take it' or leave it. However you are married now, and that is supposed to be for better or worse. As her husband, (now) its really up to you to support her emotionally as financially.
694372
My mother in law didnt like me either. She said it wouldnt last a year. Well its been 32 years and we no longer speak to her because she pulled some rel nasty stunts on our children. I say stay with him and ditch the mother in law too.
602405
I can't stand my inlaws!! They are so fake! They act like they like me but, behide my back they talk about me. I have acually heard her talk about me! I can't believe they can be that way! I had tried so hard in the begining to get along with them but I stopped that a long time ago! I guess first impressions mean alot because that was when she brushed me off when I said hello. If my husban is not home and she calls I don't pick up the phone and she knows I'm home. I know that get's her upset. But I love it!! So my suggestion is focus on your fam and avoid her! But ofcoures say hello once in a blue moon. I know you not getting along with her came create unwanted problems in your relationship! Best of luck:)
519272
Have you seen the movie Monster-In-Law, cuz your problem is the exact same.What you should do is confront her don't be scared I did it and I'M about to get married to her son.Just do what what u do best.confront.
165702
Drop the torch you've had burning for her and get on with your life.You should of done it long ago on your own terms.Now you have no choice.
664475
Yes you did over react a little but I'm sure it's all those hormons flying around.  hehehe  I'm glad you apologized to your stepmom because she is doing her best for you and is looing out for the family.  She probably needs a little help and is trying to help make Tracy feel like part of your family & you can get to know her better if she's around.  I was afraid you were going to say she had un-invited her which would have given you a reason to blow-up, since you had already invited her.  Your step mom sounds like a nice & caring person.  She is doing this for you & for your baby.  Let her know you appreciate everything she is doing for you & that you are happy she is there for you as well.  Be happy that you like Tracy & that she's coming over to help, get to know her...you never know, she might be your future sister-in-law!!!  CONGRATULATIONS!  Good luck in the party & God bless.  ;o)\n\n~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~\n\nFree helpful Baby Magazines for a new Mommy-to-be:\n\nhttp://www.americanbaby.com\nhttps://subs.timeinc.net/BY/by_newbiz03.jhtml;jsessionid=Q43OUZOPQV4ROQHMGARRHOQ?experience_id=119170&source_id=30&_requestid=222655\nhttp://www.verybestbaby.com/user/regp00pa.asp?OPTI=RI&offername=&Next=%2F
331582
hey man listen she is your wife treat her like it give her respect and treat her like you would be liked to treated give her some privacy if she didnt like you she wouldnt marry you so believe in her and give her some space!
843177
You are a good mom and my heart goes out to you, that's horrible.  Well, you have to pray for starters, ask God to take care of this for you.  And LISTEN.  That's the best thing you can do for those kids is let them vent, let them have a comforting place in your home......sounds like you provide that already so good on you.  That woman needs some serious couselling.  I'm afraid she won't change unless she decides to OR unless everyone involved can clear their head, be ready and strong, and STAND UP TO HER TOGETHER.  She's picking on her daughter because she can, that's what bullys do.  It will be hard but if you all stand together and tell her her ways are unacceptable, she may get worse for a while or she may not speak to anyone for a while, but she will be forced to think long and hard about it.  From there, the choice is hers.  She does not have the right to cause this much grief to all of you and she needs to decide to stop, or spend the rest of her life without you all.  Your son and daughter in law are blessed to have you, good luck.
1183684
What you've suggested is really all you can do. You gave her good advice about communicating with her husband and going to counseling. Beyond that, it's really none of your business and not your responsibility.
753690
I am so sorry to hear that. I do not know why she did what she did but I would think you better start looking after yourself. You matter a lot, always remember that. Move on with life... we only live once so make most of it. There must be someone out there waiting to be loved by you and will love you till the last breathe... well, I believe in marriage and love and there's always hope!
57686
U R IN A VERY VERY DELICATE POSITION.I FEEL HE IS "ACTING" CHILD LIKE. IT WOULD BE BETTER IF U LIVE SEPARATELY FROM UR IN-LAWS IF IT IS AFFORDABLE
519262
I agree, the hell with the wife. It is obvious you dont care about loosing her but what if you keep your best friend and he sleeps with someone you really dont want to loose. Not worth the risk to me. Get rid of both of them!!