My boyfriend is going to holiday in Bangkok & wont let me come, I suspect he will be unfaithful, do you agree?
537524
I would be going mad! I wouldn't trust him, i bet he is going to shag a load of hookers!  If he loves you he would of invited you let alone not let you go!  He's taking you for a fool, dump him, you dont deserve it, find yourself a bloke you can rely on, and trust.
430146
If you're in a trusting relationship, it all depends on expectations.  Obviously, he should respect you enough not to cheat, but if you let him know that you are uncomfortable with his actions, he should care enough about you to at least tone it down.  It's natural to admire people of the opposite (or same, if you swing that way) gender, but it's not okay to be overly gawking if you are in a commited relationship.  I always try to join in on the action by agreeing with him.  Is it enough to know at the end of the day that he's going home with you?
915717
If this is really his dream to be out on a boat for months than you shouldn't try to stop him or make him feel guilty for going. He will just end up resenting you for it later. If this is something that you just can't live with, a deal-breaker, then you just may have to let him go. It doesn't mean you don't love each other but believe it or not sometimes that is just not enough. Good luck.
621206
Well if you guys say you are the perfect couple you wouldnt be paranoid and if you trust him enough than you know hes not cheating but if you wanna know so badly just ask him whats going on exactly between you and me cause im being serious about us how about you and go from there you wont feel paranoid and just tell him whats making you paranoid like the girl with the books never know he may be just being nice but hes still showing you two off as a couple to all the other girls and guys so what hes comfortable with them looking at you why not him and other girls it may be difficult but at times you have to get use to it and get over it
762902
HAHA, if you know 'for sure' he will never cheat then he's probably doing it right now, that's how it works (I'd explain but I think it would be irrelevant on this question). For me to be happy what I enjoy is not being told what to do everyday (I hate waking up & being told what Im doing that day), don't be a psycho, give me my space & trust me when I go out, & be a freak when the time is right.
236116
Only if you can provide yourself a safe environment.  I don't recommend staying with him.  Instead stay in a hotel and plan some things to do that are a bit more public.  As nice as someone is you still need to be careful.  Better yet, have him come visit you so that your on your own turf where you have full control of the situation.
28967
Look I live in Orlando,and have been to Miami many times. Don't get all upset! Yes, there is sex everywhere, that is because it is "hot" vacation spot! It's all fake just like Vegas. But if you do not trust your boyfrend that is another question. Yes..he proberly had a couple of lap dances and yes he saw a few really sexy woman on the beach.. but he came home  to you! So you need to figure out what id more important, a "real relationship" or a fantasy that your guy may or may have not had om Miami.
997496
No. You are just setting yourself up to be cheated on again and again. It is like telling him he can walk all over you because you won't stand up for yourself. Besides, if he is sleeping around, he could bring home an STD. Take care of yourself first!
117819
It pretty much comes down to this: You either trust him or you don't. There is no "in between" trust. So ask yourself this: Do I trust him? If the answer is yes then there should be no problem with accepting what he says to you. If the answer is no then you would be treating yourself with respect by not staying with him, getting on with your life and not looking back. Once the trust is gone it never comes back. Not truly 100%. The most important thing is to be true to yourself!
379400
No. I am in a great relationship and we both believe in exclusivity. I love him too much to cheat and I think he feels the same.
514620
you are making an excuse "can't keep...living through him."\nif you wanted to be with him you would go with him.\nif you don't want to go overseas, don't.\nit seems completely reasonable that you simply prefer to stay where you are.\nyou are ready to settle down but feel awkward about pressuring him to do so.
137948
NO!!!!  I'd tell him you want to see how things go for awhile before you go on vacation with him.  Not having sex is going to be hard enough on both of you going on vacation just the 2 of you is way to tempting.
99385
It's not ok if he doesn't tell me.  My guy is not interested in that anyway.  I would feel most comfortable if I went with him.
497370
Trust and respect are the cornerstones of a relationship! If he isn't giving you the respect you deserve, by honoring your request in regard to the strip clubs, and is breaking your trust by going to them behind your back, then I would have to say that your relationship is in serious trouble. I dare say that his behavior will not be improving any time soon, so you are going to have to decide whether or not you are willing to continue putting up with him doing as he pleases, whether you like it or not. Good luck!!
90464
why not,? unless u don't want him? or u don't trust him even a little. or do u want to spend the day without any date! hurry up. say yes!
630254
he might only want some ass but is tryin not to go there with u b/c he dont want to mess things up
1096082
you already know the answer. you will leave him or start cheating yourself to get even. your decision is to leave with your dignity or not.