how do i get my ex to stop sayin that were still together and havent being with him since primary school ?
547504
Ask someone who is rough and tough to approach him to tell him not to make this sort of remarks in future. Let that guy tell him you are no longer his and tell him to stay out of your life. In the meantime, get closer to your new boyfriend for as long as it is neccessary. Use whatever means to avoid him.
768221
Its very immature of your ex to take it out on the child.\n\nKids need to see their Dads.\n\nTry and sort it out, otherwise if he doesnt make contact then just let it be
73113
Don't bring up your ex-lovers.  And if he insists, then tell him as little as possible, and remind him that that was then, this is now.
974030
You wrote that all you want is to be friends, but later state that you want to get back together with him.  It is best for both of you to leave him alone.  It is tough to move on, but just remember that there are plenty of fish in the sea.  You're gonna be fine.
977139
Just invite him to come visit if you are done with your ex altogether. be kind and make a good impression. If necessary, send a letter to your ex telling him what's up and maybe even apologize. Ladies, email me at johnluisduffy@yahoo.com
553939
give some more time to your friendship with this new friend...i think if something has to happen between you two....it should be mutual...you need not do anything...trust destiny...n about ur school talking...it would happen for a while n fade away...also it would be better if you make it loud n clear to your ex dat its all over n he must leave alone
191563
You really can't. I had the same problem, but fortunatly for me she lives 300 miles away so they lost touch.\nIt'd piss me off too. Eventually they will stop talking and move on.\nBut, if she comes over to see him when you're not there, you should seriously talk to him about it, and tell him it is unacceptable.
945950
Do you really want to break up with him? Or are you pissed with him and want to teachhim a lesson? If you have no intention of getting back with him, block his calls. If he keeps on annoying you tell your parents to tell his parents, jilted exes turn into stalkers so very easily ...I know
344921
make sure your not sending mixed messages - tell your ex VERY FIRMLY that if he tries to touch you again you are getting a restraining order and consider getting one
172306
explain to him how disturbign and hurtful ti si to you.  its quite disrespectful.  teh only person you shoudl ever give up friendships woth ex's for is your spose.  I am only engaged and i wont speak to any of my ex;s out fo respect for my man.  Expalin to him how disrespectful it is and that you want him to stop...he wouldnt approve of you doing the same would he?
607477
Ok, so you weren't really cheating on him in the first place? But now you've told them that you were, just to make them stop being immature? Wow.\n\nOkay, lemme tell you a secret. Boys are more immature than girls. They will continue to be immature, even into their late 20's, especially about relationships. And some never grow out of it.\n\nNow that we've got that out of the way, what to do about the current situation? One, you could try talking with your ex. One on one, face to face. Tell him the truth. Honesty is the best policy (in this case). Ask him why he feels like he has to do these things? And I'm sure that the answer is that he feels hurt on the inside, even if he doesn't admit it. He's hurting or his pride took a huge blow, and that's why he's doing these things to make you upset. Kind of like revenge.\n\nTwo, you could try ignoring him. Don't give him the satisfaction of letting him know that it bothers you. Show him that you're above all that and have moved on. Tell him so.\n\nThree, you can beat the crap out of him... it will make you feel better, but in the end I don't think it will resolve anything. It might make things worse.\n\nWell, those are your three choices. Try and see it from his point of view. Then act accordingly. Choice one is ideal. Two is a little more realistic. Up to you. Good luck.
345516
you need to leave him love. sorry but i was in the same position as you, but i was the ex. he went away and i knew what he was doin cause he admitted to me he had a baby with someone else, and i had dumped him. however, he kept coming round me BEGGING me to return to him. so you need to be careful bout what he is telling you and what he is telling her. you are worth more than that. dont put up with the insecurities you have over him. he will only make them worse. an in my opinion the last time my mum was wrong about something, was wen i hadnt told her the whold truth. your mum obviously dont like him, and she wants the best for you, even if it dont seem like it sometimes she does. trust. go and bond withyour baby. have a nice summer with no man pisin you off. okay. gudluck.
609074
I understand that you’ve broken up with him, though I guess you can still be a friend...as in friend....especially when he needs help.\n\nPlace yourself in his shoes. He's just another person with emotions and currently is looking for your support and help. Do help him though clearly underline that your support will not go beyond what’s called for in a friendship.\n\nYou can also tell you current BF of your intentions just so that he doesn’t build any wrong notions in his mind about your relationship with your EX.\n\nTake care.
276428
ignore him, i know it seems harsh especially if you were together for a long time but he needs to move on too since it sounds like you totally have. i mean get him completely out of your life, it doesnt have to be forever just till he moves on too, and if he does approuch you, let him know gently that you have a new bf and are done with him.
103315
it's easy, just tell him/her u're no longer involved. The sooner he/she gets to know, the better.Or else u will be fooling urself thinking he/she still loves u
846658
Tell the ex girlfriend to kiss off she didn't want him any more so to bad for her. If you and he are doing good then that's all that counts.\nI have a friend who was in the same situation (she was married had 3 kids husband jerk got divorce etc.) only the time span was a lot longer. ( he was married to her best friend then got divorced) they now have a child together and are doing great. I wish all the happiness to you. it is your life you deserve to be happy.
474755
You should be thankful that you are no longer with this jerk and find someone that is better suited for you.  Your ex sounds like a mindless idiot to me.  I mean, sure I listen to my friends input on a person I am dating to some extent, but in the end I would never break up with someone because my friend said to do it.  You need someone that can stand up and say "This is my girl!" with pride and respect for you!  Don't settle!  We all deserve better than that.