Is there anyone out there who ever feels confused, lost, reaching out but not getting anything?
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There is a great many that have always felt this way, but they think it is normal.  \n\nI learned tonight that people born blind do not see darkness ... they don't see anything at all, for their eye-balls have only ever given them as much sight as your fingers have given you sight.  The don't know what it is like to see, nor would they desire sight ... until they have grasped the concept of what is missing.\n\nThus many souls are content to sit in darkness ... and we pray that the Lord might grant them the ability to see what is authentically true ... that Jesus is the Lord.\n\nI have a suggestion ... LETS PUT THESE ANSWERS TO A VOTE!
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more times than i can count but it's normal to feel lonely. i've got a lot of things i can appreciate, but sometimes i feel like crap. you'll get through it.
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I know how you feel, been there and done that. And still am feeling that way. I need friends pretty bad myself and I am a very depression person right now. But it is not worth killing your self over it, I promise you!!!  There are people out there that do love you and care about you. Some people are just really dumb when it comes to being involved with someone and the other person don't realize what they have. You really do need a friend to talk with when you are really down in the dumps. I'm here to listen if you need someone to talk to--who knows--we might be able to help out each other!!!
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I am sorry that you are going through this, but everyone has at one time or other.  I know it feels like the end of the world, but it isn't.  If you were haveing numerous misunderstandings then it wasn't meant to be.  You may go through several more of these before you find the right one.I am a firm believer that there is someone for everyone out there.  Just got to  weed out the bad ones.  Hope this makes you feel some better.  Good Luck to you!
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You're not alone at all. There's lots of people who feel exactly the same way you do. I've destroyed my life countless times and been in the hospital a few times as well. I've been on loads of different meds as well and am now hopefully on the right ones.
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I'm in the same boat as you, I've been with my husband for 5 years and things are getting worse and worse, the happy life we had went down the toilet along time ago and all we do is fight. It's not easy i don't know how to tell him either, but the person I'm seeing makes me feel like I'm worth something, not useless. maybe we can figure out something, my email is under my info
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Sure.  It is when you start to question who you are, what your purpose is, and what have you been doing all your life and what should you do with the rest of your life.\n\nIt can involve a crisis of meaning, where you feel a void of meaning in existence in general, or in your existence in particular.  This is the existential crisis.  Viktor Frankl has a marvelous book called Man's Search for Meaning in which he deals with this.\n\nAnyone can have an "identity crisis" when they are just not sure what their next step should be.  This can be small or huge.  It can be a major ordeal if one finds that he or she cannot relate to the teachings or beliefs that his or her culture/family hold.  If one sees problems in the beliefs held by all those around him or her, then one can feel lost as to who one is.  They have to rethink all they ever believed.\n\nSo much of our self-image is given to us by those around us, and as soon as we start to question what they have told us, we find ourselves at a loss as to who we are.\n\nThat, I think, is an identity crisis!
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So am I, in love and feeling lonely and uncared for :-(
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I think we all feel this way at one time or another...my famous description of myself is the b.o.n....blob of nothing lol...it is horrible to feel so low...but then,...I feel so guilty when I look around and see people so so much worse off than I am, and I wanna hit myself in the head and knock some good sense into it...I bet you have wonderful qualities, and sometimes, when it just don't seem to ever go your way..we have to step back and remember just what God gave us...and thank Him for giving us His Son,...as a sacrifice so that we CAN go on and live...Please..start remembering those things about yourself that shine and how  you can help others...and somewhere along the line, you will start to feel better..and say your prayers darling,..they will be heard...He always hears us...God Bless
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when i cant explain!\nWhen i feel there is someone looking and helping.\n~peace for ur nice question
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I thought i was the only one who felt so. I guess there are some things to keep to yourself, some moments you have to be alone....Better find an e-pal for youself, takes some time, but works out.\ntake care,\nbest wishes
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Its sounds like we have very similar lives.  I know how it feels to be under so much pressure with no where to turn.  When my life gets crazy like that ( I'm a single mom) I have found that taking some time for myself can work wonders.  It was hard for me to face the fact that I cant count on anyone but myself, but I try not to let myself get overwhelmed.  although i am not a religious person, my grandma always told me that god would never give me a cross too heavy to bear.  And I have faith in that and myself.  Hope things get better for you.  Good luck.
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I asked this same question and got nothing. I know what your feeling. If you find out let me know lol.
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Ya wanna hear something goofy? When I was a teenager, I felt just like you! I would wish to god I was a Siamese twin, just so I wouldn't feel so alone. It is hard to explain, I wasn't really lonely cause I had lots of friends and people who loved me, it's more a feeling that all of them and the whole human race belonged to this,(something) what ever it was except me! I could be in a room full of people yet feel all alone. Then one day I started asking myself: WHAT DO I WANT? As I lay in my dark bed   crying myself to sleep, I would ask: WHAT DO I WANT RIGHT NOW? WHAT WOULD MAKE ME FEEL AND FILL THE VOID IN ME? Perhaps something that would make me a part of something! Well I don't really know what to tell you except I volunteered for a suicide hot line, I served underprivileged children dinners, I  worked at a mission, helping the homeless, I sat with the elderly etc. and as time passed, the awful feeling of being alone gradually went away! That was quite a few years ago and I haven't felt that way since. I don't know what happened, but what ever it was, it sure worked for me. Maybe it will work for you too! Good Luck!
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i'm inside me, and it's the only way i know.  \n\nwhat's normal for me might feel totally 'abnormal' to you.  \n\nif you'd like to 'trade' for awhile and see... :)
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i think is absolutely normal that you feel that way and you have every reason to. it also looks to me that you may need someone to talk to. so i'll give my msn so you can add me and talk when ever you need to\nlosanteojosdegaba2006@hotmail.com\nluck! ;)
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Yes - sorry you are feeling bad.  I've been feeling like a mess and horrible for about 2 weeks myself and nothing seems to be getting better yet.  I hope it does.  I'll cross my fingers for you if you cross yours for me, okay?