hi. can you help me with this? i really dont understand guys..?
540643
Men are ot emotional as women are. After an argument, a few minutes later, a man usually has forgotten it and want to be close to you. But women hold it in and be emotional and want to talk about it. The best way is to approach him and tell him you want to talk about what you all argued about. If you aproach him with anger, you will get anger in return. Its all about the tone you use. If he is not a good listener, write it in a letter and let him read it.
963722
Well, as an MUNER, I've seen this happen. It's lucky that you were admin because if that note had been confiscated, there would be consequences. Anyways, you are right in asking him straight off would scare him. You don't really know this guy, do you? It seems like 2 or 3 weeks at most  and you already say he's NOT the player type. Maybe he is. If he really liked you, he would have called. This guy is not a perfect gentleman as he hasn't fulfilled his promise to call. I think he's keeping you as a safety as he flirts with you online but not in a more meaningful way. He maybe interested in another girl. There are other guys out there. Good luck.
504223
sounds like he was just interested in one thing honey....\nHow old are ya'll?\nIt could be that awkward age where he doesn't want any of friends to know what exactly is going on, but I will tell you that you deserve better and to dumb this guy.....You will find someone who is proud of you and your acccomplishments and your relationship.
564902
thats a guys way of showing off!\n   guys are always like that. expecily when they like u!
569617
he's either not interested, in which case, back off, or he just freaked coz he wasn't expecting you to make a move in which case wait for him to make the next move. find out from his friends if he's interested. if he is just wait a while.
580280
well girlie, I wouldn't wast my time with a guy that doesn't even know you are there.  So weather he likes you or not, he needs to show you in a better way, before you get all hung up on him.  Have you ever herd there are a lot of fish in the sea. Its true!
297797
I've talked with girls who say they wish us guys came with a users manual. We can be hard to read sometimes. Try this. Look into his eyes. Do they lock onto you when you walk into the room, or do they dart around? Does he treat other girls like he does you? The greatest tool in knowing how someone feels is communicating with them. Find a quiet place where you're alone. Ask him what he's feeling about you. Give him time, and he'll open up if he's in love with you.
732745
Girlfriend: there're 2 scenario's! Number 1 is he's playing you. Now I know you don't wanna hear this, but keep an open mind! He's either met someone his own age (or younger) that might not 'intimidate' him as much, or he's just being stupid. Second scenario: he really digs you, but he's too shy/afraid/clueless as to how to tell you this. (Let's both hope for your sake this is the true reason for his being distant...) Either way, keep your chin up, and your head open. Don't go losing your heart to this guy just yet... Good luck!
365481
Keep him.  He is one of the rare men who has a lot of respect for you and doesn't want the relationship to be intimate until he knows you well enough to have feelings for you.  He is interested in you for who you are, not just for how close he can get to your body.  \n\nHe is more comfortable with his friends because he knows them and knows what is acceptable and what is not in his friendships with them.  He is nervous around you because he is afraid he will screw up and you won't be interested anymore, or worse that you will turn him down flat and humiliate him.\n\nGive the guy a chance, and he will warm up to you.  The fact that he isn't acting like all the other guys, clawing all over you, doesn't mean there is something wrong with the situation; it means that there is something right about him.
630868
Are you that guy? ^_^ LOL... I'm just kidding...\n\nYour question can have different meanings. Do you mean:\n1. If a guy has a handsome look, does it indicate that he probably has no brain at all?\n2. Why do I meet with a handsome guy with no brain at all?\n3. Why does a handsome guy seem to me having no brain at all?\n4. Should I make friends (or date) with a handsome guy who has no brain at all?\n5. What should I do with a handsome guy with no brain at all?\n6. (Other)?\n\nDifferent meanings of the question can lead to different answers. They are respectively as follows:\n1. No, a handsome guy does not mean that he has no brain at all.\n2. YOu have good luck in meeting a handsome guy but bad luck in finding out he has "no brain at all". -_^ Well... sometimes it may sound worse than it actually is... You may need to take more time if you still have patience to keep up with him! ^_^\n3. It may be due to some misunderstanding or prejustice. It takes time to learn a person well. He may have some/many shortcomings...something really bothering or offending you but he should have other merits.\n4. The combinations of answers of 2 & 3. It depends on your personality and willingness.\n5. If you'd like to still make friends with him and take more time to learn about him, keep on. If you think you cannot communicate (or put up) with him or cannot learn anything from him, quit contacting him.\n6. Please give more details ^_^
153481
Tell him what you just said here. Ask him why he doesn't tell you what you need to hear? Most guys have a hard time expressing their feelings for some reason.
108789
It doesn't sound like you invested too much time in this guy. The best thing to do is just move on. I'm sure there are many guys out there who would put more effort into getting to know you and having a meaningful relationship.
1061715
He sounds very confused and juvenile. This actually takes me back to the days of 5th grade....Maybe he thinks that you're attractive but doesn't value you as a person. Maybe he's trying to "tease" you but is coming off as mean. Guys can be stupid when they try to show a girl that they like her. Don't waste your time worrying about him -- he's not worth the brain cells.
969460
He sounds very immature and many things could be going on within that framework.  You are lucky he is moving on before he really brings more immature and insensative actions into your life.  Be patient and hold out for a quality guy who cares about you and treats you with respect.  Have a blast while you're patiently waiting.  That will make the time go faster and attract more quality guys to you.  Good luck.
377026
Some guys talk to there friends and tell each other things that make them look good!!!!\n\nHe talks to you in confidence because he has a very close connection with you.... Your a lucky girl! \n\nDont assume unless you feel there is a good reason!\n\nKeep on top of things and dont worry.... Keep your man!
794553
He has a weak character. I think it's probably virtually impossible for him to compromise. I know guys like that. BUT there are probably some other guys out there who would be so into being close to you, they would not care if you are fat... and some who think you're sexy as you are. Find them instead, and let this guy feel your absence and hurt about it a bit. Maybe he'd learn something valuable.
831224
my friend was in a similar situation, il tell u wot i told her.dont ring him anymore(unless he calls u).if he likes u then he will ring u.guys are lazy so wait a few more dayz but if he doesnt ring cut him loose!