in a relationship with a guy, why would the guy stop calling the girl without no reasons?
552713
cause  he  is  cheating  on you  or  he  could  just  be  busy
542906
YOu have to ask him directly who this girl is, and why is she calling him all the time. Be conscious that he can lie, so you have to decide if you want to be with him if he have other girls who call him all the time for no reason; specially if he doesn't give you a good explanation.\nGood luck and don't be afraid to ask.
712908
In all honesty we are so use to guys doing it that we never knew that it would actually bother you if we did it. She might be doing it for the same reasons guys do it "she does not want to hurt your feelings".
186709
WHOA! You should defintaly try to explain yourself again and make her understand. I would be furiuos if my girlfriend stayed at her Exs for a week. Thats totally uncalled for and you have every right to be pissed. I mean theyre Exs for a reason right? Yea man thats definatly not cool, and if she insists on keeping contact with the Ex then maybe theres still some latent feelings towards him. If she doesnt get it, then tell her that her still talking with him is directly effecting your relationship and could possibly be the downfall of it as well. Godd luck with that man.
875848
It depends....does he finally call and not mention it...or does he tell you why he hasn't called. I suppose some guys think this is fine and it is...if that's the way it has always been..but if this is something new I would worry..sounds like he's losing interest to me. If you don't say anything about it the days between calls will become more and the times he does it more often. If I were you I would find something else to do..turn the tables on him and let him wonder where you are. It will stop you from worrying about him , you could have some fun,. and maybe meet someone that will appreciate you...this guy sounds like he's trying to control the relationship and seeing just how far he can go........OH and also...guys do NOT always let you know when they want to break up with you...they try to piss you off til you break up with them ..they don't have the cahones...I have this on very good authority...a MAN...lol
937417
Well if he said that, I do not know why you are with him anymore. I do understand what he does say though. I do not think that anyone would ever say anything like that. I think that is something that happens all the time with guys and life. It always is the way, guys want what they can not or do not have. I would really rethink being with him if he is telling you about thinking about other girls.
133388
Yes yes, this just recently happened to me. I stopped talking to the girl because she dumped me for some dude. then as soon as she breaks up with him it's "I'm sorry I never meant to hurt you it's was all me. I didn't want to bring you down with me." So I am like cool I haven’t talked to you in a couple of months. She is all like I would like to be friends then I like cool let go do something give me a call. I haven’t talk to her since.\n\nIt's because she wants to let there be a possibility of a future when and if she wants it. Also she doesn't want me blaming myself for her dropping me like dog poo.\n\nYeah this situation totally sucks if you cared for the girl. But the best thing that I have found to do. Is forget her and find the next one.
1092659
Are you trying to talk and he is not interested?  Is it a comfortable silence where you are just content to be together and possibly know each others thoughts?  Do you want to break up, but are waiting for him to make the move or do you want to stay together and are worried he already left so you are afraid to put yourself out on a limb and reach out to him - maybe this is what he is waiting for?  Is there other demands on his or your time that limit the time to talk?\nIt may be a sign of breaking up, a sign that more effort is required, or that you are comfortable enough not to have to talk all the time.  I am sure these are the things you are already thinking, but only you and he can decide if it is over or if you want it to be over as we don't know the personality quirks of either of you.  If the communication is so bad that you cannot ask him then I guess it is over or never was.
479545
I am concerned over the fact that he doesn't want her to say anything to anyone.  To me, that screams out that he has another girlfriend.  Sounds like he is cheating on another girl...there is no other reason to keep their relationship secret.
462361
Because the girl is insecure, my guess.  I can't really totally explain it more than that.  But she should realize that it's actually a sign of him getting more comfortable with her.  See he's realizing that his life has been out of balance becuase he's been persuing her, and is now trying to balance things out.  This is a subconsious attempt to make a workable relationship that will last. and she should realize that.\n-Duo
1143863
I realize you said guys only but you do realize there are females who date females too right? And the same thing of not calling when they say they are going to runs on both men and woman not just men. No I do not think it it is right but it happens all to often. But reasons this may happen is if they are not really intersested in you, could not deal with conflicting personalities, have a job they need to complete, are out with friends or family, possibly cheating or just plain forgot. If this has happened to you which I assume is the reason you are asking this give them a chance to explain before you jump to conclusions. There may be a good reason for him not calling you when said. It may just be they forgot or got busy doing something important. Good Luck with your guy.
624352
he is not interested. simple as that. he prolly asked for ur # out of obligation as most guys do. if he was interested he would have called.
80017
That isnt the way a mature individual reacts to a normal relationship problem. He may have some problems or he may be cheating or something like that. Either way, someone who deals so badly with a girl he said he loved is not someone worth your time.
484311
yeah, extremely true...  i usually do that with girls that i really like. For example the other day, this girl i like and I were making fun of each other, and i said to her 'do you know theres a point where you stop talking? yeah? well youve reached your point. so shut up" i know its just plain cheesy stuff, but it just happens because its just manly nature.. i think its cause we dont want the girl to know we're all over them, so we add a little twist to the whole 'procedure'.. but sometimes some guys go way too far, and it hurts the girl, and guys should know where their limits are..
14947
Girls love to be proud of their guy, and tell the world how great he is. If a girl is actually complaining about her man, it means that she wants you to know she's not entirely happy... and usually this means she's interested in your opinion (or in you, but this may not have even occured to her yet). \n\n...if you're the single guy she's complaining to, well - this all sounds great. Problem is, you'd be getting her on a rebound call, and that's no good. I've been there... a number of times, and while I can't say with honesty that it won't work 100% of the time, I also can't imagine it works very often at all.
1072443
I like good conversation, so I'll talk to anybody. I generally will take a guy's number but won't call for the following reasons : He has said something stupid, wearing something stupid, or doing something stupid. Word of advice, if she doesn't offer her number first, don't offer yours. Leave her guessing sometimes.
206762
it could be nothing or something might hve happened between them otherwise he may be wanting to just use your gf to get back with her sister or maybe he was useing her sister in the first place to get to your gf...or maybe hes just drunk and doesnt know what hes doing.