Is it okay for a college student to go out with his/her instructor?
539277
If the prof is teaching the student, no. It's almost certainly against the rules of the administration, and if they find out he could be fired, no matter how old the student is. Even if he isn't teaching her, it's not a good idea while she attends college there.
302254
if it's a big school that you two are going to, dont worry about it. you will have the option of having someone that you know and trust there, but wont necessarily have to see them everyday
737018
Going by yourself to events shouldn't embarass you. It actually would show maturity. I say go, you'll probably pay attention more than if one of your friends would have gone along with.
362229
Yes, You should tell her how you feel and do it in a romantic way! Take her out, tell her you just want to go out before she goes to college and make her think that she is just going on the date as a friend. Then you tell her your feelings!
1029332
Go hangout with some family or friends this upcoming long weekend.  The people that will never turn you down.  You can also post an ad for a new roomie.  You'll be fine.  People come and people go.  If this does not happen now, it will happen at the end of your school years.  Maybe keep yourself busy with a movie until someone else comes along?
429283
There's no harm in you asking a guy friend to go with you. If he's just a friend , that's fine...no pressure. You go as friends , have a great time, and who knows, when the night is over, you might end up being more than "just friends".....right now, a guy friend just popped into your mind....YES! He's the one! Call him...... invite him, Have a wonderful time at the dance, you and him. Good Luck!
798156
U can but y dont u ask some girls in ur class if u go to school or go out and about
419604
If you're not grounded, mature and disciplined, you will see college as a huge playground: "I'm free", "I'm out of my parents home", "I can pick my own classes", etc. I think college is a serious prep for life. You have to be responsible for yourself. Maybe have your first bill, (like a phone), etc. Study or not.  Professors aren't going to send you to detention if you miss class, (like at high school), you'll just fail.  College to me is like an engagement, it's meant to get you ready or practice for the marriage (life).  High School to me is like a pre-engagement or a girlfriend/boyfriend stage.
209764
While it's illegal (not to mention unethical) for a professor to have an affair with a student, I don't think it applies to former students, as long as they are both of consenting age.  Now, if by affair you mean one of them is married to someone else, then it's unethical, but not illegal.
637703
If she has a boyfriend then she's out of bounds, some people don't mind harmless flirting, but she's training you, so it would be like going out with the boss who has a boyfriend. Plus if your paying her as your fitness trainer then she doesn't want to tell you to leave her alone! Nope, steer clear of anything oother than trainer/learner!!
983040
I could understand a freshman wanting to go out with a senior, but I do not think it's appropriate.  The difference in age may be only 3 years, but that's a big difference at that age.  And I think the senior should think twice about going out with a freshman, especially if sexual activity is anticipated.  It's like an adult taking advantage of a kid.  Ever hear of statutory rape?
48381
No, I know somebody who entered college without ever having been on a date, and she quickly met her future husband. I, however, had been on a date when I entered college, I am still single. You'll probably have a better chance of meeting people at college.
592041
well, if you wont be his student antmore, then why not go for it? at least if he says no you wont have to face him everyday!
36238
Not really.  Be careful.  If you feel you MUST go meet someone, never meet them by yourself.  Take a friend with you.  Someplace public.
548344
My friend is in the same situation as you are except she has college as an excuse.  In her case she is positive that the guy is what he says he is and she chose her college based on where he lives.  Keep in mind they've talked for at least 3 years online and by phone.  I'm still uneasy about letting her go there alone to see him for the first time up close and in the flesh.  You might want to consider holding off ur visit until u truly know who he is.  If u are insistent about going, then maybe you could ask a close friend to go with u as a precaution.  As for your mom, I would describe him as sort of a pen pal.
305776
I think if theres a good reason for you practicing then no I dont see any problem with it.The day might come when you really need the help and then your sister will be there and know what to do.Atleast you have peaple willing to do the dirty work for a later result.
56926
nooooo. the student may be living out a high school fantasy by pursuing you, it is doubtful they are mature enough to be in a relationship with someone 10 years older for awhile. It seems a bit unethical to me as well.