What is the best way to ask a lady out?
554186
Sounds like you are kinda shy. Some girls find that quality endearing. Just ask. What can happen? She will say yes or no. Nothing earthshattering. If she says yes then have a nice dinner.  If she says no then ask someone else. You might be surprised. She might be shy too and just hoping you will ask her out.
1163860
Hahaha. Don't ask her 'out' per se, just ask her to coffee or lunch. That's how people get to know each other so well.
394469
Ask her if she wants to get a drink or a cup of coffee. Make it casual.
628251
ask her out or find out if she likes you.
311151
by asking her out. serious, just be yourself around her, and shell go out w/ u.
244005
-ask her when no one is around. so you wont feel embarrassed or anything if she rejects you. \n- dont ask her right after playing sports. girls dontlike guys who stink.\n- ask her politely. but dont seem desperate.\n- say something like "i bet you 100 dollars that you're going to reject me" then she cant say no.\n- just ask her. dont start goingon and on about how much you like her. unless she asks you. and if she asks you why you want to date her and not someone else. tell her "because the alternatives are unthinkable" or just whatever.\n\ni hope i helped
1072222
Since you don't know her very well, it may be awkward to talk for any length of time on the phone.  Figure out where you're going to take her on a date, and use the phone call to ask her out.  For example, you decide you want to take her out to dinner.\n*ring* *ring*\nHer: hello?\nyou: Hey.  It's _______, remember, we spoke at the party last night.  \nher: Oh, hi!  How are you?\nyou: I'm good.  I couldn't get over how (insert something here, example: loud the music was, many people were trashed, late it got, I really lost track of time).  OR: I couldn't leave my friends at that club the other night, and I was so tired- you really saved me.  (or some variation)\nher: giggles and agrees\nyou: I was wondering if I could take you out to dinner sometime- say, friday night?  It's a casual place, they serve great _____.  \nher: yes (or no, I'm busy.  in which case you ask her when she is free)\nyou: can I pick you up at 7:30?\nher: yes (or no, in which case a small negotiation takes place)\nyou: great.  I'm really looking forward to it.  See you then. \nHANG UP\n\nDon't make it a long and painful conversation.  You can talk to her in person.  Here are the basics:\n1. when you call her, tell her who you are, and then remind her of where you met or how you got her number.\n2.  say something casual about the place where you met or if you can't come up with anything, that you hate that it's raining today, just put some filler in there.\n3.  have a romantic date in mind, a specific day and time and place.  Ask her to go out with you.\n4. if she says no, she's busy, ask her to suggest a time that works.  If she offers to call you back or in another way suggests that she's not interested, be polite and allow her to escape.\n5. Make sure you get all the details sorted out.  Where you are going to meet/pick her up, where you are going (or at least, let her know if it's fancy or casual).\n6.  Tell her you're looking forward to it and hang up the phone.
534983
get to no her a little more first and then just ask her out
187756
1) Appraoch with a smile\n2) start a conversation with a compliment\n3) Be upfront but ask if this is a good time ("I really would like to get to know more about you if you have the time/interest/wouldn't mind/not busy/etc")  Small ammounts of humility and self deprication are charming, desperation is not.\n4) Ask her about herself\n5) Keep smiling\n6) Be yourself\n7) Ask her to dance/buy her a drink/something where you are\n8) Do that for a while\n9) ask for her number, make a tenative plan ("I would love to take you out for dinner/go to the zoo/call you on Friday"
877934
Find out what time she gets off work.\nIntroduce yourself properly.\nWait a couple of days.\nShow up at the end of her shift and \ninvite her out to a late snack.\nNot sometime, that keeps you waiting,\nand wondering. Ask right then.\nIf she can't go then, ask right away for\na date on Saturday.\nThis tells her you are serious,\nand that you really like her.\nThen you will get your answer right away.
1078894
Well first you should try to get to know her first, so I would start at a basic step and then work my way up to asking her if I wanted her to go to the movies with me. You should then make the relationship grow until it gets to the point of you asking her out.
272797
show her that you find her interesting. when you see her ask her how she is. but dont go on her nerves.\nif you are shy then put nice (dont overdo it)flowers on her footstep and a little card. write that these are of you, that you like her and would like to invite her for a drink or a dinner. you can also tell her that you are too shy to ask her directly. Women like when men show that there not always the ''hard ones''.After that give her time to come to you and start to talk. If she doesnt come it means she wont go out with you or she is also too shy to talk to you. just watch her reaction you will figure it out.  hope that helps you
89778
For starters treat her right and also do you already have a Lady that you want to be connected to is the best answer, if not get off the internet and find you one.\n\nK
251574
whatever you do DON'T:\n\n1. get your friends to ask her out. or find out from your friends if she likes you.  \n\n2. this is has been one of my utmost pet peeves w/men do not go up to her and say "what's up shorty?" thinking you're cool \n3. in general do not come up w/a line at all it's just lame and a real turnoff!\nHERE'S SOME ADVICE FROM A WOMAN:\n* a woman will respect you and will be flattered if you come up to her yourself and ask her out. Just make sure its when she's by herself.\n* BE YOURSELF!\n* ask her out more than once. if she says no at first. she might change her mind\n\nhowever you decide to ask her out, just remember if she says no (and i'm speaking from my own experience) it's not necessarily a reflection on yourself she might not be ready for a relationship.  GOOD LUCK! :)
1155254
flirt with her, and ask her out again
1155167
Ask an asian woman out!
1185952
Ask.\nWorse they can say is 'no'. So, take that as an answer. \nMost will be flattered and you picked her to ask.  \n\nNot for any particular reason - for sex for example - if it happens that's OK, but don't push it. Just be gentle with them, converse, be yourself (they like that). \n\nYou are afraid of rejection. Be prepared for rejection but you will be surprised how 8 times out of 10 you will get a positive response.