how can we stop pre-ejeculation?
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Just imagine the most disgusting, non-sexy thing you can. For example, do you remember when your grandma used to kiss you and scratch your face with her mustache? Or you can think about your favorite sport. Anything really... just make sure it isn't a turn-on for you.
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Hi,\nPremature ejaculation is can be cured,The treatment for premature ejeaculation is as under.\n\nThe following techniques will be  beneficial in delaying ejaculation:\nThe "stop and start" method – in this method, the man learns to recognise the stage after which he cannot control ejaculation. The treatment method trains the person to remove the stimulus just before that stage is reached so that the urge to ejaculate is controlled. For example, when during masturbation, the man reaches a point just before ejaculating, he stops the stimulus until he starts losing the erection. Once the stage is past, he can resume the activity. This process is repeated again and again until the individual is able to delay ejaculation till the time he wishes. This method called the 'Masters and Johnson method', is most effective when the help of the partner is sought during actual intercourse.\n\nThe squeeze technique – in this method, the partner gently squeezes the tip or base of the penis just before the point of ejaculation thereby "cancelling" the orgasm. This process can be continued until the couple decides mutually to reach the climax.\n\nDesensitising creams and gels are available in the market that reduce the sensitivity of the penis and help men reach climax later. Some men also feel that condoms reduce the sensations and, in addition to providing safer sex, help them last longer.\n\nThe couple can also experiment with sexual positions as some positions offer more control than others and may help to delay ejaculation.\n\nFeel free to contact\n\nEnjoy Life.\n\nDr.Mojo
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wear a condom - they have special condoms that squeeze to help keep that from happening (or at least i think they do)\n\nSex shops sell these lasso things that are suppose to work as well. \n\nWhy don't you just rub one off before you see your lady? That might work.
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This is  called premature ejaculation. If you are young, masturbate half an hour before you engage in sex with a woman.\n\nDuring intercourse, when you are about to ejaculate, divert your thoughts. Think of your business for instance. \n\nSqueezing your scrotum when you are about to ejaculate can also help.\n\nMind control is the best remedy. \n\nNote many a marriage is ruined because of man's premature ejaculation. It is very important to give satisfaction to your partner.\n\nEngage is long foreplay to arouse your partner so that she climaxes soon after penetration.\n\nHope this helps.
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You say stop before you get the woman pregnant.
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Premature ejaculation is the occurrence of ejaculation prior to the wishes of both sexual partners.Premature Ejaculation is the inability to delay ejaculation to a point which is mutually desirable for both partners. Usually it leads to an unsatisfactory sexual experience for both the partners. \n\nCauses:\nExact cause of Premature Ejaculation is unknown, but experience and psychological factors are key players.\n\nCure of Premature ejaculation:\nIt has been found that premature ejaculation resolves on its own over time without the need for a medical treatment. However, practicing relaxation techniques or using distraction methods can also help you in delaying ejaculation. You may practice techniques like Masters and Johnson Method, Simulation Technique or Squeeze Technique to exercise greater control over your performance. In addition, keeping a check over the alcohol intake and illegal drug usage is also helpful.
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if you are getting good erections you are lucky.  You can achieve 20 to 30 minutes happiness.  First  Reduce your anxiety, second use some condom like KS Long last.  It is thin and also contains an oil to delay ejaculation.   Use sprayers.  before intercourse on your erected penis spray.
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it's called premature ejaculation, and it's something you have to mentally block.  it doesn't happen overnight
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put a towel over your erect penis and flex the penis. try and and lift the towel\ndo 3 sets of 12 repetitions\nfor 2 weeks\nthis will allow you to control your ejaculation  better
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It's only a problem if you feel it's a problem, or if you feel unsatisfied all or most of the time. A old sex study by Kinsey reported that 75% of men ejaculated within 2 minutes of starting sexual intercourse.   Many take longer, and a few ejaculate right away (called premature ejaculation). \n  \nTry to slow down, don't stroke so fast, and take long slow strokes with pauses between the strokes.  \n\nThere is a technique that might help you.  It's called the start-and-stop technique.  When you feel yourself starting to get close to orgasm, completely stop stroking until the feeling dies down enough that you no longer feel like you are going to pop right away.  Then you can start up again.  Do this start-and-stop method for a while until you can't stand it, then let the orgasm happen.  \n\nIt may not work right away, as you are used to climaxing quickly, but keep practicing, and keep trying to slow down.  Eventually you should be able to make the masturbation session last longer. When you hold off for a while, the orgasm often feels stronger and much better.\n\nPremature ejaculation is the most common sexual problem for young men, so don't be worried. In fact, some men would love to be able to orgasm faster, since as you get older, it sometimes takes longer to climax.  Also, try different masturbation techiques, as some may work better for you.  Check out JackinWorld (the "Ultimate Male Masturbation Resource.")  The bottom line is: slow down, make sure you have enough uninterrupted time to yourself, and take the time to really enjoy your masturbation session.\n\nhttp://www.jackinworld.com
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Natural Ejaculation Control Technique is a process where breathing techniques are combined with meditative efforts to stop premature ejaculation. \n\nHow to practice:\n\n[1] Relax and control your breathing - inhaling and exhaling normally. Keep your eyes loosely closed. Put your tongue against the palate. Focus your mind between your eyebrows at the center of your forehead.\n\n[2] Inhale through your nose deeply at intervals of 2-5 seconds until you can feel your abdomen expand, maximizing the capacity of your lungs. Now, focus your mind to the center of your body, directly towards your navel. \n\n[3] Hold your breath and move your expanded abdomen downward by contracting your upper abdomen. As pressure gradually builds up against the bladder and the prostate gland, shift your mental focus to the prostate area. * Step 3 is the most important step during intercourse – it requires that you hold your breath for as long as possible while applying pressure to the bladder and prostate area. This will partially block sensitivity to the penis, allowing you to last longer and control ejaculation. \n\n[4] Contract your anus by clenching. Then exhale air slowly out of the mouth, shifting concentration once again towards the center of your forehead. \n* You should feel hot energy rising from the prostate area along the spinal cord to your head.\n\nRepeat this cycle several times. But remember, when using the anal clenching method during intercourse, your inhalations and contractions of the abdomen should coincide with your sexual thrusting motions.\n\nAlthough, this might seem difficult at first, with just a little practice (alone or with a partner), you’ll soon master it.
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Premature Ejaculation is a very common and very serious problem suffer by 1 out of 4 males. The causes of premature ejaculation range from person to person and from psychological to physical. Men are frustrated of having ejaculation prior to female’s orgasm. The average time a male suffering from premature ejaculation is less than 5 minutes of intercourse before they ejaculate. \n\nWhat Should You Do?\nThe best solution is to strength your body and allow you to control yourself last longer.  Try to delay ejaculation by practicing our highly effective and popular technique, “Natural Ejaculation Control Technique”. \n\nCome visit our Premature Ejaculation Resource Center for more information such as myths of PE, exercises, and herbs that can help. There you can find a technique we call the “Natural Ejaculation Control Technique” that will strengthen your body and allow you to control yourself to last longer.\n\nNatural Ejaculation Control Technique:\nhttp://www.herbolove.com/library/resource/prematureejaculation/natural.asp
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I heard this from a doctor on a sex show a long time ago. You basically masturbate until right before you are going to ejaculate, and you immediately stop. Keep doing that. It will increase your endurance and you will be able to last longer in bed. Yes, it definitely works.
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In many cases, premature ejaculation resolves on its own over time without the need for medical treatment. Practicing relaxation techniques or using distraction methods may help you delay ejaculation. For some men, stopping or cutting down on the use of alcohol, tobacco, or illegal drugs may improve their ability to control ejaculation. Your health professional may recommend that you and your partner practice specific techniques to help delay ejaculation. These techniques may involve identifying and controlling the sensations that lead up to ejaculation and communicating to slow or stop stimulation. Other options include using a condom to reduce sensation to the penis or trying a different position (such as lying on your back) during intercourse. Counseling or behavioral therapy may help reduce anxiety related to premature ejaculation. Medications called selective serotonin reuptake inhibitor medications (SSRIs), such as fluoxetine (Prozac), paroxetine (Paxil), and sertraline (Zoloft), are sometimes used to treat premature ejaculation. These medications are used because a side effect of SSRIs is inhibited orgasm, which helps delay ejaculation. The use of SSRIs for the treatment of premature ejaculation is not related to depression and is considered an "off-label" use. Please see your doctor to determine what method works for you.
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when you are getting ready to ejaculate too early, slow down and think of something else so that another climax can build up and be even more intense.
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I feel for ya. \nBy the way, I noticed your question about premature ejaculation, and wanted to help.\nTo help him help himself, get him to excercise his "pc" muscles--stands for pubococyxx, or something like that, and you have them too. When he urinates, have him clench down to stop the flow--those are his pc muscles. The simplest way to excercise them is by stopping and starting urination. Then, when you two get back in the bedroom, he can clench down to stop ejaculation--although it does take willpower.\nFor external help, there are several possibilities, depending on how kinky you want to get. Wearing a thicker condom is a good solution, most of the time. There are also creams availible. And of course, you can try a c0ck ring--or c0ck rings. Play around, have fun with it!\nAnd in the meantime, feel flattered that you excite him so much.
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I don't think they can... I mean once they (the males) reach a certian peak, it's kind of difficult to shut it off or try to contain it.\n\nMy hubby has experimented alot with these things. He has told me there's a way to help limit the aftermath (i.e. ejaculation) but it doesn't work 100% since it's not possible to prevent an ejaculation once it has begun. Well there are ways, yes, but it isn't easy. It takes concentration, dicipline, and effort, as well as time to experiment. \n\nBasically my hubby can try to reduce his already massively powerful ejaculations to something a little more "normal", although even his so-called "softer" orgasms, he ejaculates much more than all men I've ever seen (except some older Peter North p*rn when he was in his prime). \n\nSo unless a guy has found a way to actually control the amount and volume he ejaculates, I still think men do not have dirrect control over their ejaculations... At least not in terms of controlling the volume and quantity!