m and my best friend keep on fighting how can we stil bee friends aand not fight ?
541305
well thats hard. try talking about it insted of fighting about it and if that dosen't work than god probluy dosen't whant you guys to be friends.
148500
You need couples counselling. Crossing the boundry into physical violence during a fight is an extremely serious problem - one that won't go away by itself.
41889
I have a best friend that sometimes we couldnt be more alike, but sometimes I dont know about her. You just have to step back and ask yourself if the situation is really worth it or. Even best friends are different people with different opinions you just gotta let her have her space and recognize when a fight is about to erupt and whether its worth it. I just laugh at my best friend later on. Like girl, what was....THAT ..all about anyway..lol:)Just chill and walk away when ya have to ..It'll be alright
234368
First of all, if they are "bad friends" then they are not friends at all. If you have already tried telling them to quit bugging you and go their own separate way, but had no success, then just IGNORE them!! They will eventually get tired...
573818
You need to have a talk with your best friend about how you two are always going to be best friend through thick and thin always and forever.Guys come and go but friends stay forever.
996292
Stop trying to make them get along and don't hang out with them at the same time.\nThey probably don't like the idea of having to share you.
453354
Try and talk to him. tell him that you don't like it when you guys fight and it really bugs you.Also, you can just avoid him or try and count to 10 and start being nice to him.
566738
You're contradicting yourself... you have a friend but you can't talk to that person because you're not friends? You had war... ahh! It's human nature to fight. Just wait it out a little. Let the anger pass. Later when you both are calm, talk about it, say sorry if need be. Friends are treasures.
622096
Tell her she's going down a path as a friend you can't follow.  She needs to stop, you know the reasons why, and when she refuses, and she will.  Find another friends before she drags you into trouble too.
246779
as you said this fight was stupid so yes definetly be friends again, you known him since first grade dont loose a relationship over that, youve been friends for way to long its time to move on and start having fun with him. besides what if something happened you wouldnt want to miss out on the oppurtunity to be friends....
597962
well if u r not afraid to hurt your bestfriend then take him from her wat have u got to lose well u might lose your friend but if u think about doin wat i said then just remember that if u get him aand yall go out and brake up you will probblay hate him and since u lost your friend who do u have? but if u dont fight for him then u wil have your bestfriend 4ever hope this helps
78218
YOu should try and get both of your friends together to try and talk about the problem they have with each other like try being a peer mediator.  And if they refuse to do so then just simply tell them i friends with both of you i refuse to take either side and say you don't want to get involved
183376
The best thing you can do is keep out of it: they'll sort it out eventually. You don't have to put up with their nonsense, though, especially if it makes you unhappy, and you should let them know. Don't make a big drama out of it, or you'll be pandering to their feelings that this fight is a huge big thing and probably help spin it out even longer. Just say to them firmly "none of that crap around me, please. You two can take your arguments elsewhere or be quiet." If one of them is with you and tries to make you avoid the other one, just say "don't be stupid, just act like an adult, can't you?!" As they no doubt care about you, after a while they'll settle down. If one of your friends decides not to be friends with you any more because you won't take sides, then they're not really a true friend, and you're better off spending your time doing other things.
909644
Definitely not a true friend. \n\nBut. You both have a lot going on right now. I think you two should just have some fun 'girls night' or something and forget about these boys.\n\nStick with your friends, it's silly when girls fight over boys.
766286
if you are any good at fight like a degree above black then you should start teaching your friends the word will get around trust me and local matches in martial arts if you are not taking now is a good time to start\nnow if it is you that wants to kick his buttt then you need to space youself from him
1141803
Tell them when they are done fighting and being kids then you will talk to them. Till then walk away. You don't need to get in the middle of THEIR fight.
714246
Pull out the knife and move on.  Best friends don't stab you in the back..... so perhaps the friendship was one-sided.\n\nBest Wishes,\n\nSue