What to do when you are having sex and feel the urge to ejaculate how can I stop it and continue swinging?
540718
Hey Dude,\n\nHere it is, the answer your looking for, and it's easy.\nPull out for 30 seconds, you have a very sensitive head so giving it some air once in a while desenitizes it putting a s stop to that nasty pre-ejagulation. been doing this for years, soon you will lose your name as the minute man.....\n\n                              Peace man
72396
Your jiz doesn't shoot across the room because there's no pressure behind it.  Try waiting a week before you jerk it.  If nothing changes, try spitting on your index finger on your other hand and pushing it up your bunghole while jerking, and put pressure on the inside wall behind your penis.  This should quadruple the intensity, and you will come like a wildcat!  Enjoy your body!
1077255
When having intercourse, men generally will climax before women.  When you feel your climaxing too soon, slow down and tightly hold the base of your penis, that will stop the urge to climax. When the urge stops let go of the base, relax and start over.  \n\nIt takes time to fine tune the love making process, but it can and will be done with patience and practice.  Don't be embarrassed, at least you're asking questions and getting answers to help you become a better lover.
42973
It will take some practice because you need to build up some muscle control down there so give this a try.  When you are pleasuring your self and you feel like you are about to climax stop stroking and squeeze your penis at the base of the shaft and try not to ejaculate.  It will be tough at first but the more you work on this you will be able to work the muscles that will help you control this problem.  It's similar to kegal exercises that women do.
836147
No, there's no way to stop it, I'm afraid, other than to stop enjoying sex or stop getting aroused. \n\nHe should be more understanding. Would he prefer you to be as dry as sand?
304214
Try a cock ring or masturbate about eight hours before sex.\n Failing that, go for it, ejaculate give it a couple of hours and go again you'll last way longer second time round. Make a virtue out of your problem.
528673
Keep doing the kegel exercises.  They work.  To make sure you're squeezing the right muscle, you can make sure that when you have a semi-erection, it is the muscle that makes it "jump."
1039504
the first thing I suggest is to get a thorough work up by a doctor to see if there is a physiological reason for this. \n\nI also sugggest you take the pressure off of yourself and do not try to have sex again until you find out what is going on with you to cause the impotence. No point in setting yourself up to feel inadequate again.\n\nYou can just be honest with the girl you really like and tell her you are not ready to have sex until you find out what's causing the impotence.\n\nIf she drops you for that then she wasn't worth it.\n\nIf the doctor finds nothing wrong physiologically then it sounds like a physchological issue. \n\nAt that point I would go talk to a counselor or therapist.
473223
at the point of climax,grip it firmly at the base (clamp it),and the orgasm will diminish. It will throb a little,but you should be able to delay the orgasm. Hold it until the feeling subsides. This also makes it more intense when you do finally climax
933809
yes there is a way to control ur premature ejaculation.the best way is take a hot bath and do some exercises which is when passing urine do not let it go at onetime make in parts.pee stop pee stop pee stop do this excercise when ever u go to pee.and another excercise is that masterbate but dont cum when comming to the climax divert ur mind to something else and control ur ejacualtion and this excercise u can do few times in a day b4 going to sleep or when taking a shower.it helps a lot.i had the same problem and i learnt it from one of the yahoo group answers  i think the id name as i remember desinyc26 he answerd this few months ago and i tried it and worked.best of luck
78160
If your talking about not ejaculating too soon or sooner then you'd like here's what I've found...  Start with practicing the "edging" technique when your pleasuring yourself.  Work yourself up until you reach the point of cuming then back off.  Do this over and over each time until you absolutely feel like you have to go or bust.  Enough practice at this... and you should be the master between the sheets with your significant other.\n\nRod.
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There are many ideas on the matter. Exercising the PC muscles is a good start. They are the same muscles you squeeze when you stop a flow of pee or when you ejaculate. Practice squeezing without using your butt muscles. You can do this exercise whenever you remember, driving, sitting, walking, anywhere possible. Stopping your pee midstream helps strengthen it too. Another thing is to practice delaying your ejaculation. During masturbation bring yourself to the point where you are just about ready to ejaculate then stop and squeeze your penis right below the head until the sensation passes, then continue masturbating until you again reach the point just before climax. Repeat the exercise until you can't stop any more and you orgasm. The more you practice the better, soon you'll be able to tell when you're about to climax and so stop yourself from ejaculating during intercourse until you and your partner are both ready. Be patient, it takes a while to be able to catch yourself and stop just before you climax. With time and practice you could have sex for quite a while before you allow yourself finish.\nAnother method calls for squeezing the scrotum just above your testis when they move up as you near ejaculation. You can do this to yourself or you can have your partner do it. Don't squeeze your testicles or you might lose the mood, you just want to grab the scrotum and pull them down not allowing them to move up into position for the climax. Hope this stuff helps.
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You need to do kegel exercises and think about everything else other than sex.  When you are at the brink, stop, and do something else, like eat her out.  Do a couple of Kegel pumps and you'll control the urge and you're ready for another 5 minutes or so.  Keep doing it until you're ready.  Caution, after years of Kegel exercises, you will shoot, shoot up to 6 feet so be very careful where you point.
102638
Keep going until you're ALMOST ready to climax, then stop your movements until the sensation dies down a little, start back up again, and repeat. It'll also make your climax a lot more intense when you do let yourself go.
614997
when he's at the edge of orgasm, grab his pole just above the balls. this will cut the overdose of blood to the head of the dick and help calm down his orgasm just enough to stop him from orgasming and keep having sex.
209343
When next you have sex get ur mind off the sexual action and may be think about something else or something outside the sex. You will stay longer. and also don't rush anything take it slow and steady. Don't let her rush you either.
29458
Flex the mucsle that you use to stop urinating in midstream...  Practice this often... When you feel yourself about to ejaculate, flex the muscle... It will prolong your ejaculation, and result in an intesified orgasm...