how can i talk my mom into letting me move back ??
552468
Just open up to her about your feelings on the situation and you know good mothers would always welcome back their children. \nWish you luck....
944651
Explain to your Mom what your feelings are.  If she does not understand, just do not answer her phone calls or answer the door if she comes to visit you. \n\nYou are an adult now and have a right to set boundaries with anyone including your parents.
953373
Well, let's be honest - there's no way to tell your parents that they will like. There is no magic combination of words to communicate that idea and get anything back like, "Okay, son! We'll call Aunt Maggie and let her know you're coming! Need any help packing?"\n\nThat said, there sure is a right and wrong way to approach this topic with the 'rents. "I hate this town and I hate my school and I want to go away and live with someone else" sounds:\n\n> whiny\n> as though you're choosing greener pastures over your parents.\n\nI'm not saying that this is true, just that it would sound that way to just about anyone on the receiving end.\n\nSo. The best way to tell them is to CALMLY as if you can talk to them and CALMLY tell them that you're not happy where you are, and why. Tell them the situation's gotten so bad that you've thought about moving away. Tell them where you're thinking of going, and why you think it would be better than where you are.\n\nThen you listen. You don't argue, whine, etc. You just listen to what they say. You ask if they have any suggestions. Then you listen to what they say.\n\nThe best way to tell almost anyone almost anything is calmly, with a willingness to listen to their side. \n\nUnderstand that your parents may not go for the whole moving thing - most wouldn't. They might be open to other ideas that would make things better for you (like maybe vacations and summers with the other relatives - if the relatives are willing?). \n\nIf not, if they just want you there, then you focus heavy duty on schoolwork and plans to get out on your own when you're old enough - at which point, you can live anywhere you can afford to live. Good luck!
652241
try to find nice things that your mom loves in Italy and tel her about, try to convince her without pushing and being so needy cause i think that if she felt like you are dying to go there she may suspect it and prevent you from going, tell her that you won't be happy in lancaster and that every mom loves to see her child happy which you won't be if you didn't go to italy , i hope you can go there , i really wish you can go there , please keep me posted --> Nancy
59185
I am going to assume that you are a teen still living with your mom.  \n\nThe sooner you tell her, the better!  Be sure that you go in to this conversation without an attitude, and do NOT fight with her.  Apologize for dissapointing her and tell her that you will do your best to make it as right as possible!  \n\nI wish you the best!
714128
How old is she for starters?? If she is that desrespectful to you--please try to talk to her calmly and let her know. You can get a small tape recorder and secretly tape her when her when she does this to you, then play it back to her and let her listen to how she treats you. If that does not work--give her a choice--either to straighten up and be respectful you and your home or to please find another place to live that you have had enough of it. Don't feel guilty by doing what you have to do and making a good solid decision. You do not have to put up with that at all. Take care and blessings.
1128837
dang!!! maybe ask your mother for some money!!
209108
The only thing you have to consider is where you are living.  Yes, you're 18 and an adult but if you are still living under your mother's roof then you need to follow her rules.  Still, there's no reason that you can't talk to her like an adult and explain that you would like some more freedom.  The biggest part of this is how much she trusts you.  If you've given her reasons to think that you can make good decisions then you're likely to get what you're looking for.  If you've shown her you can't, she's likely as not to tell you to follow her rules.
945998
If everything is in order between you and your mother, I see no reason why you couldn't venture off on your own!  Check the local laws and statues in your town.  Usually 18 is the adult age, but there are exceptions to the laws in some areas.  If you go live with a relative and you are "underage", then a guardianship contract would have to be amended by both partys, your parents and your live-in relatives or adult-head of house.  But I really don't think they will make a big thing out of just being one year away from adulthood for you, or anyone else, anywhere!  I say, just pack your bags, and with your mom's blessing, go off and find your destiny my child!  Have fun and stay out of trouble, ok?  LOL
617097
Tough one...BUT maybe you should try to get two smaller houses or even two apartments in good areas? That way you and your family would be in a good neighborhood but also you'd be able to help your mother.. because if you buy a house for your family only, no matter how good the neighborhood is you would always feel guilty for not helping your mom too... So, talk and figure out a way to help both of you! There has to be a solution. Maybe it would be smaller but in the end you would be happy.
402375
Mamma knows best, kinda thing.  Its hard for them to see us grow up and move away, it hurts them, while this is a joyous time for you guys, part of  your mom is realizing that your leaving the nest and she is sad.  While her controlling things annoys you, perhaps she sees this as a last chance sort of thing.  Humor her as much as you can, and try to be understand ing.  Sit down and let your mother know that although you are starting a new life with your soon to be husband (CONGRATS CONGRATS) she will ALWAYS be a apart of you and your life.  Tell her that no matter what you love her, and need her and want her in your life.  Because the real issue is the fact that your mom is hurting over what she considers "loosing her baby".  Your problem may be control, but her problem is far greater.  You obviously have a mom who loves you more than anything, so your off to a great start, just try to talk to her, reassure her that your not "leaving her" she is not loosing a daughter but GAINING a son!!  Best of luck to you, have a happy happy life.  God Bless your family and marriage!!
814254
I would just pack up and leave. Stay in school and keep working or stay out of trouble. If the parents do try to get her back she can refuse and say no and give the reasons . Tell them you are going through emancipation. You are to old to start any court proceedings because you will be 18 to soon. Keep working ,go to school and stay out of trouble and you won't have any problems. If your parents say come home tell them to shove it .Threaten the parents with the police. As long as you have your act together and are safe no one will bother you. Like Nike says JUST DO IT.
702775
that is something you need to discuss with your mother. She may have her reasons. Talk to her
781234
your mom is offering to help you!! she wants the best for you and is willing to do what it takes for you get treatment and life on back on track..she seems like a responsible caring woman so i would say stick with your mother even if it means getting kicked out of your house! its only because she loves you and until you figure out the consequences of your actions..then i presume she will keep doing it
963871
It is up to your Mom.  Do you know why she put the block on.  Is there a plan that you and mom can come up with to get that privilege back?
1101572
It sounds more like your mom is going to miss you.  Sit down with her and ask her why she really doesn't want you to go.  Is she afraid of you flying.  Is  it because she will miss you a lot and won't say so.  Or does she have other legit reasons for not wanting you to go.  It's the only way you are going to get your answers.  Be honest with your mom and she will be honest with you.  If you do go, have fun and good luck.
625903
Do whatever feels right to you. You mother may be trying to make up for lost time. But if you are not comfortable moving in with her stay with your grandmother and go to her house for visits. Be honest with her, but also be willing to help her.