would you be mad if your girlfriend cheated on you with a girl?
535812
yes it is cheating and you ought to be mad for if sheloves you sheought not to go down with anybody be it male or female
94051
I know I would probably be be happy in some twisted way...  Like - Ha!  you cheated with her on me.. and now you are both broken up too.... \n\nI don't know... it is a very emotional thing to have someone cheat on you.  Of course it is natural to not want them to be together even if you no longer want him any more.  So you may feel like I would.
37636
NO! Would you like your girl to do that 2 you. IF they have an understanding(and you should find out) IT doesn't matter. Don't mess with it!
603984
YES! You should. See, he had the guts to come and tell you, if he had done it on purpose, he would have tried to hide it from you. This girl took advantage of him and while it may have been his fault, the beer didn't help. Make it clear you aren't happy and you are going to forgive him this once. Perhaps give him suggestions to make it up to you, like taking you out to dinner or something extra special. Make him work a little bit to say sorry, but make sure you make it clear you forgive otherwise you may lose him. Everyone makes mistakes. To Err is human, to forgive is divine.\n\nPerhaps talk with this girl and make it clear that this was not okay. Tell her to back off and perhaps get your anger out on her, not your boyfriend, cause it sounds like she was just waiting for him to get drunk. Being drunk, you can't remember anything and everything becomes a bluf, so an offer of sex would be pleasing because you didn't know any better.\n\nFYI, don't become overly suspcious and break up with im if he looks at another girl (and I mean just looks). Men are attracted to all kinds of women and him looking at another girl and staying with you is a compliment of how he loves you more than physical attraction could bring.
116646
Not unless you did something you shouldn't have while out. Let your girlfriend know that you are just friends with them and that's as far as it goes. She shouldn't be like that over friends. Does she still have guy friends she hangs with?
509972
Just call it a bad answer, but I'd kill him. Then again I'm in a bad mood, soooooo. I suppose she should break up with him, no girl deserves to be beaten. And you, being the guy, have to take responsibility and see her once in a while. You know, like spring breaks and stuff.
54781
I would have to say if I was cheated on by a girlfriend/fiancee/wife...
66143
From my experience with a friend, guys feel she is cheating cause he is.  The guilt and thought that she is doing the same thing grows strong and he shows those emotions.
1139237
Hm, a girl who likes you and probably wants to get with you told you something about your girlfriend.\n\nSo.. that you guys would fight and maybe you would break up with her and be single (and possibly date the new girl).\n\nWell, who do you think has a motive to be lying?
782958
If my boyfriend cheated on me, by sleeping with someone, I wouldn't forgive him at all.  No matter who they slept with.  I would actually, cut his d**k off, glue it to his forehead, and call him a d**khead.
626541
yes. it's actually not a question on the guy's side but on the girls since girls are a lot sensitive compare to boys. rivalry between the close friend and the girlfriend will never be avoided. so why not try to be close friends with your girlfriend or fall for your best friend? :)
120749
Wow if I was your girlfreind I would be upset. I might even dump you for that. Technically it IS cheating. All I can say is, big mistake. Don't do it again.\n\nIf you love her, take responsibility. You were wrong. Don't try to defend yourself or justify it. You cheated. Admit you made a mistake, ask for forgiveness, and don't ever do it again. Learn from your mistake and change. That's right, change. Become the type of person who is faithful and who would never hurt someone they love. Doesn't your girlfriend deserve that? Yes you can do it. Also understand from a girl's perspective, it hurts. If she doesn't dump you, count yourself extremely lucky and be thankful for what you have.
748731
if a girl i liked got mad at me, i'd feel bad and try to make it up one way or another.  if i got mad at you getting mad at me for something stupid i did... then that should tell you that i need to grow up.
1093891
WHAT? you know how girls feel when a guy cheats on them and they don't go back! and guys feel the same way why don't you just tell him what you did! your such a loser!
922822
Well you could spend all your time being suspicious and continue to listen to gossip and hang out with the guys that say they are doing stuff to your girl? What the Fu-------? If you love her deal with it or leave her. She could be lying, they could be lying. Bottom line is if she is cheating on you your relationship is in trouble, if she isn't cheating she will be if you are accusing her of it all the time. Tuff problem. It is all in what you want to happen with her. I can't imagine 3 guys telling you that if it wasn't true though. Do you know the guys? Or are they strangers to you and each other. If they 3 of them know each other it is possible they are fuc-ing with you, more details is what you need. \n\nWrite out the problem, pros and cons, but whatever you do figure out one way or another what you want or it will tear your heart out eventually.
1144701
the fact that she cheated on you means she does not respect you\n\nthe fact that she cheated on you means that somewhere a man is laughing at how much of a fool you are\n\nthe fact that she will go drama queen over you means she is capable of manipulating you\n\nthe fact that you are blindly still in love with a girl who has cheated on you means that she has turned you into a man she can control\n\nthe fact that you do not even want to break her heart even when she has blatantly gave herself to some other punk means she has dishonored you and took away your manhood...\n\nman up...\n\n\ndo the right thing and dump the girl... you deserve respect for yourself and i can bet that there will always... ALWAYS be a better person for you out there who will be sweeter and hotter and will RESPECT you..
1066223
wel i think she lied to you because you she didnt want to hurt you or thought she would loose you.  I don't think thats cheating as you guys only started dating and it was too earlier for her to know where that relationship is going.\n\nI would be gutted tho and know how you feel> It really sucks but what can you do?\nIf you like her and she has been faithful since, forgive and forget and move on with your relationship.  FYI it probably took a lot of courage for her to tell you and i dont hink she did it to spite you!