My boyfriend and I have been together now for 2 months and he has a problem with calling..should i comprimise?
551328
its really hard to manage time... i understand where u coming from madam...but u should give a lil time to the brother.. he is a striving dude trying to be ambitious by holding on to a job.. as time goes by i am sure he will get to the top of things...but work can be very hectic... its hard not to hear from the person u love...have faith and keep the relationship..understand the brother i am sure he loves u alot..... goodluck.... FAITH AND UNDERSTANDING TWO KEY ELEMENTS THT NEED TO BE PLAYED!!!
1072556
If he's not trying to fix what he did wrong why even waste your time- Just do it over the phone that way you wont have to worry about the awkward silence or stares tell him that the relationship isn't working for you and your moving on so have a nice life then hang up.
814860
My boyfriend also has a difficult time talking.  We've been together for almost 2 years and while we are not a long-distance couple yet (he's joining the military) right now he's in university so I only see him once a week or sometimes even once every 2 weeks.  We try to talk on the phone, but our conversations are boring.  I don't want to talk about what groceries he bought from the store that night.  So I try to schedule times when we are to discuss important issues.  In the past I have e-mailed him my concerns that I feel we need to talk about.  That way he has an idea what it is that I need to talk with him about and he has a chance to think about what he wants to say.  Sometimes I think guys need time to come up with answers (they're not as quick on the ball as women are).  But so far, we haven't been able to discuss anything important over the phone.  We wait until we are face to face.  This is a huge concern for me since all long distance relationships require communication.  If you can't talk openly and have meaningful conversations with one another, a long distance relationship will NOT last.  Good luck.
344565
Phone calls, as in plural? I believe you should call a guy once leave a message and then wait. If he doesn't call back, he is either rude or not too into you, both of which you want nothing to do with. Remember there are plenty of sih in the sea. And waiting sucks, so try and think of the other things that you have to do. Try not to contemplate your self-worth at this point. It is more a question of relationship worth.
491499
Sounds like a fairly new relationship, take it slow. If he isn't calling, maybe he has good reasons. Tell him your bothered by this, try to come to a resolution between the 2 of you. A good relationship needs amazing communication. No hiding things. If this doesn't work, start shopping for a new relationship. Always another bigger better fish.
1084425
Geez ... do you press him to commit to call you ..."so will you call me later? Why can't you commit to just calling me? It would mean so much if you did? I'm sure the president calls Laura, can't you give me that much?" \n\nAny of that sound familiar? If not, listen more carefully to yourself next time. You should be comfortable with yourself, happy with the girl you see in the mirror and truly grateful when he does call you. Give him encouragement. Tell him how much you love to hear his voice when he does call. Demonstrate to him that he has a place of loving refuge with you. Give him that, and he will give you so much more.
444549
It might be just personal nature. I, for instant, do not call frequently, yet that has nothing to do with how much I love them. . .Another possibilty could be that you gave him the feeling he is not that welcomed, so he fall back a bit. . .Know your man then you will easily find the appropriate answer. . .
337807
I think you ought to finish the date. He can't help it if he doesn't measure up to all your expectations. And you don't have to go out with him again,  but don't be too cruel when he telephones.
881449
if he calls u shouldnt get mad cuz u asked him to call, if he doesnt call then again u shouldnt get mad cuz he doesnt want to get u in trouble cuz ur grounded..no ofense but u sound soooooooo imature
491969
I THINK HE IS JUST BUSY AND YOU SHOULD DEAL WITH IT LIKE I DID (AND STILL ARE) WITH MY BOYFRIEND. IT IS NORMAL, DON'T WORRY
504709
Why are you dating him? To raise your self esteem?\n\nPeople can't lower or raise your self esteem only you can!\n\nIf you can't love you then no on will!\n\nStop being overexcessive about nothing. Think of better things, so what if he doesn't call? Are you going to just stay there and be depressed, when he probalbly just forgot?\n\nIt doesn't mean anything unless you want it to be!
426447
I wouldn't sit around and wait on the call. If someone has to provoke me, that's not a boyfriend. Is he trying to start a fight over guilty feelings about something???? The only way to get past this is to have an honest talk. Why does he provoke you....why is everything "in his hands"....why the hurtful talk....???? Both sides need to be honest with each other and act more maturely and respectfully towards each other.
410568
I'm 26 and in a long distance relationship as well.  We live 2.5 hours away from each other and I always return her phone calls.  It pisses me off if other people don't return mine, so I always return theirs.  Point to remember, guys don't like to talk on the phone.  I have trouble talking on the phone for more than five minutes.  I love her, but it seems like more of a job than a pleasure.  I can talk your ear off in person, but not on the phone.  Sounds like your boyfriend is forgetful or too busy.
1172070
yeh it depends on location and his commitment.  if he says ur calling too much, then ur calling too much. otherwise, dont listen to the pessimists
1080976
If you just started dating him 2 months ago, sex shouldnt be the first thing on your mind. if he tells you he loves you, look into his eyes and see if he means it.
489963
I Have been dating my boyfriend for almost 9 years, we argue all the time. if this happen to us i would be pissed like you. if you guys do not live together i would not call him, let him call you. he is the one who needs to say sorry for leaving you. but if you live together then you should go home and do not talk to him for a little bit and then sit down and talk about what happen. i would not forgive him, it was wrong for him to leave you. but if you want it to last you have to tell him how you feel.
38206
tell your bf but keep the number and call. check it out, maybe theres some things you two need to talk about.