Anyone got advice for a 13 yr old girl about guys? (if ur just gonna say im too young then dont answer)?
536849
I'd just hang around and be friends with them and have them be friends with you. You will become confident in the company of guys while still hanging out with your friends. That way, when you find that special guy, you will be able to speak to him without as many butterflies. Remember, they are probably just as nervous around you at that age.\n\nHave fun and enjoy your youth.
403245
Okay, don't cry.  That is why they are boys.  I am sure you are a beautiful girl.  I had the same issue when I was your age in school. The boys would always go for the really thick girls that looked like they flunked 3 grades.  I used to wonder "what is wrong with me".  I found out that it wasn't me at all.  Some of these girls were fast, meaning they were easy.  They put out and what boy isn't going to be interested in some fast girl that can't say no.  I know it is hard and it was for me too.  Try not to pay it any mind.  I have seen these same girls and boys now since they are adults and my have they changed, and not in a good way.  Don't get down on yourself.  You WILL have a boyfriend but don't get hung up on this.  Just relax and don't think about it so much. I am sure if you are as pretty as you say you are that some boy probably already secretly admires you.  Hang in there, it won't be long before someone sweeps you off your feet.
68123
don't get a boyfriend until you are 18+\nmeet boys and talk to them as friends, ask them questions about guys so that you can have a better understanding of what u like and don't like in boys\nwhen older you'll have cool guy friends and wont be blind to guy bullcrap told 2 u only 2 get sex
405546
You don't need to be on Y! Answers. You're too young. You need to pay more attention in Spelling class and stop obsessing about what boys think of you.
84428
Come on honey, you are too young to be worrying about this stuff! You're not even a teenager yet and there are going to be many other relationships for you before you find the "right one". So just have some fun and don't worry about boyfriends for a few more years. Hang out with guys as friends and holy cr@p, maybe you should try being a "prude" for a while longer! Forget about this guy, he sounds like a big waste of time, boy wh*re, jack@ss anyway!
803342
dont worry about the guys in your school.  Look for an older guy that will take care of you.
889279
you're only twelve.  too young for any type of relationship other than friends.  if they shun you as a friend then they are really not the kind of friend you want to have.  besides, boys get their growth spurts in highschool.
940426
You may not want to hear this, but seriously you are not ready for a relationship. Sure, your hormones may be telling you otherwise. But you still have a lot of growing up to do. Guys will come and go throughout your life. You have plenty of time for a relationship later on. But now, being you are so young, just concentrate on being "friends" only with all the guys you meet. Dating is a big step, and you are not ready yet. Good luck to you!
1150574
ya id say youre too young to think about boys.\n\njust wait a couple years. and concentrate on your work
207189
Whoa, that last part about being 13 threw me off!  I dont want to nag you about your age or anything, but 13 is WAY too young to be going through ALL that drama. Trust me. Half of the stuff you worry about now won't matter a year from now, even a week from now. Also think about if he is even worth all the drama you're putting yourself through.
496748
u r only 13. its normal. dont worry. it will take its own time.
746316
At 13 you should NOT be hanging out with any boy by yourself, you are much to young. Put a few years on you before you start to date. 16 is a good age to start dating. Respect your dad-he's right.
332911
Advice on a guy . . help . . .
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It depends partly on how old you are.  Until a guy is around 13 or 14, he does not know how to deal with those special feelings toward a girl.  So for a 13 year old guy friend, you're kind of out of luck.  Just keeping being a supportive friend.\n\nFor a guy 14 or over, you can give it a try.  First start by talking about dancing and see if the thought of dancing with a girl appeals to him.  Then hold his hand when you're walking together for a few seconds and see how he reacts.  If he is still smiling, then ask him if he wants a hug or something.  Then if he  has not turned to run yet, you can start off the conversation by saying you want to be friends most of all.  But there is something you have to clarify, and you are asking because you want to protect your friendship.   When people get to be a certain age, they start to think about the opposite sex in a "different way", and you are starting to be in that situation.  Then you ask if your friend would be offended if you told him how you feel about him.\n\nIf he is not ready, he would change the subject or look really scared.  Then  you'll know.  He won't be offended because you've already prepped him and warned him not to be offended.\n\nOpenness is very important if you are friends already and want to move on to something else.  When you grow up, you'd want to communicate with your boyfriend of husband in the same, gradual way.
821478
Don't worry about boyfirends at your age. have some fun with your girl friends instead.
283144
Nope, instead focus on school and friends. It's ok to be boy crazy just don't become boy stupid. Also, make them chase you. Trust me, you'll have pleanty of time to have a boyfriend. They will come and go. Your heart will get broken a few times before you meet the right one and he too may break your heart. Why would you want to deal with all that at 12.
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Make friends ,be intresting or take an interest in what males do.We aren't all that bad and all u gotta remember is that we all feel the same things from time to time .\nbe confident get out there us boys love confidence in a gal and overall have fun and be true to yourself.