help me to become a good kisser...wht should i do?????
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Don't think about the mechanics of what you're doing. Focus on the feelings and sensations. Allow yourself to be lost in the kissing.
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Make sure you don't have bad breath.  And since it's the first time kissing him, keep your tongue in your mouth. And don't make it real long or spitty either.
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Make sure that you and the girl are comfortable with each other you don't want to regret it. Also make sure you are both ready. Don't forget to have nice breath etc lol. Use mouthwash! You have to remember that a relationship isn't just about kissing, make sure you and your partner know each other properly.
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Go here and watch the video.\n\nwww.kissing.com/video.html
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A kiss is one of thoes things you need to learn from experience. when you find the right pattern the style and what not you will know, its instenct, but a little lip nibbling, and soft kiss are nice, never too much tounge though that is gross
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This is kissing: Kissing is a pleaseure you experience with someone you really, and I mean really, like! If he likes you and he kisses you back then you are in girl~!!!!\nHere is ~Kissing 101~ from the lips piont of view!!\n\n\nTalking about simple... where else to start than... The Lips! The most basic element of any kiss, in fact vital and inseparable from the act itself. There is no kissing without lips (ask your local chickens), so don't neglect them! On a physical level, take care of your lips. Chapped lips (while a great Custom E-kiss) are no fun at all to kiss. The same goes for rough, scabbed, or otherwise poor condition lips. Most of these conditions can be avoided through the use of a simple lip balm... find one that suits your preferences. Depending on what you like, you can get different flavors, varying degrees of healing and therapy, SPF (sunscreen) protection... the choices are endless.\n\n  Use your chosen balm regularly, not just when you are expecting some kissing... it's just a good idea to take care of yourself. Also, try to avoid applying balm directly before kissing... slimy lips can be a turn off. Just make sure it's all absorbed before getting down to business... and your lips will be soft, supple, and oh-so-kissable.\n\n  Once your lips are kissable, and you are in fact kissing... you still can't neglect them! The lips are the most basic and important element of kissing, and should be used to the best of their ability. Concentrate on feeling the friction between your lips, how your lips match up, and how you're moving them. This oft-overlooked element can add some real zing to your kissing. Just try to remember that the tongue is not the be-all and end-all of kissing... DON'T NEGLECT YOUR LIPS! \n\n  Lots of great kisses are, in fact, all lips. Ever since the French pulled a Microsoft on the kissing market, tongues have gotten all the attention. Many terrible kissing experiences are a direct result of this over-reliance (and unskilled use of) the tongue. Certainly the tongue is important to kissing... after all, what beats a really good deep french kiss? But tongue use is something best eased into... and can easily be overdone. Even really good tongue kisses can benefit from some variety... usually of the lip-centered kind. Take a break from tongue lashing to nibble, caress, lick, and gently explore your partner's lips. Notice how good they feel against yours, and try different things to make them feel even better. Your lips the building blocks of great kissing... use them wisely (and often!)\n\n\nKissing Exercise: Spend part or all of a kissing session concentrating on just your lips... no tongues allowed. Slowly slide your lips together, enjoying the subtle feeling of each other's skin. Lick, nibble, kiss each other's mouths... go slow, and really enjoy the sensations. This exercise should make you more aware of your lips, and will add a new layer to your kissing experience.\n\n\nBut ou can use the tongue when ever you want!!!\n\n\nHere are the bases:\n\n1st base->going out\n2nd base->Heavy make out\n3rd base->Getting layed\nHome-> Married and ending up with a child.
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DONT use tongue for your first kiss. thats just way too much! just lips. then maybe the 3rd kiss do tongue, not first! you'll feel when she wants you to kiss her, but dont come on too storng no matter hwat you do. just give your relationship time, and it will be fine. good luck
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There is no training for making out. Experience is the key. Just wait until your time comes along. Just from personal experience I will tell you that it may seem uncomforatable at first and akward but things will get better. Advice for when you do it though: Close your eyes- nobody likes starring at someone kissing you! Try not to slobber! and don't just move your tounge around everywhere ! it's gross!!! Slow /passion is the key. Trust me you will do fine. just wait for your time. making out is something you can't just "learn" how you have to "experience" it
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The best thing to do is make yourself available for the kiss by being close enough to kiss, and by making subtle hints like eye contact, and \noccasionally staring briefly at his lips.  Also, being alone or in a private setting is important.\n\nIf you make the first move, make sure that you don't come on too strong.  If he likes you and wants to kiss you, he will kiss back by prolonging the kiss or using a little tongue.  If this happens, just respond by relaxing and don't being too agressive with your own tongue.  If you start slowly and carefully, you won't be making any mistakes.  Let him take the lead and if you like it, continue.  If not, pull away and smile.  Remember guys fear rejection as much (or more) than girls do.\n\nIf he doesn't want you to kiss him, he'll pull away.  Let him.  You don't want to waste valuable kissing time on someone who doesn't want you.\n\nAlways remember less is more.  You'll never regret having kissed too little, but you'll always regret coming on too strong.  Remember to remain confident, too.  Don't forget a breath mint!
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Here's How:\n1.   Set the scene. Make sure that the mood and time are right.\n\n2.   Relax! Take a deep breath and let go of any tension in your neck and shoulders.\n\n3.   Put your arms around the person you want to kiss.\n\n4.   Start off with a normal kiss, not too firm, not too aggressive. Closing your eyes is optional.\n\n5.   In mid kiss, gently open your mouth and softly nudge the other persons mouth open using your tongue.\n\n6.   Again, not too aggressively, move your tongue inside the other persons mouth and playfully touch their tounge.\n\n7.   Read the other persons body language, if they seem tense or start to pull away, stop what you are doing.\n\n8.   If they open their mouth more or otherwise indicate they like the kiss, keep on doing what you have been only with a little more passion.\n\n9.   As the kissing gets going saliva build up can be a problem, don't forget to swallow.\n\n10.   Make sure you keep your tongues relaxed but your lips tight (saliva again), you don't want the kiss to turn messy.\n\nTips:\nDon't forget to breathe.\nSince French Kissing is "wetter" than other kinds of kissing it is a good idea to start with dry lips, don't lick them first.\nIf one of you have braces you can still French Kiss, you just have to be more careful and not as forceful when things get passionate.\nIf both of you wear braces you can still French Kiss, you just have to be very gentle and avoid touching teeth.\nFrench Kissing takes practice, but at least it is fun to practice this one!
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Ok, you put your thumb and middle finger on your lips that should be pulled under (they should be over the bottom of your teeth), then after you place your fingers about 2 centimeters apart and keep your lips tight but kind of tighten them around the sides of your fingers.  Next, you kind of move your mouth as you would if you were regularly whistling.  Then jus blow, but not 2 hard, and not too soft!!  I Hope I Helped!!\n               T-Bone
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It's all about atmosphere! make that interesting and the kissin' will be. Or- Kiss different parts of the body. (neck, shoulders, nibble his ear, tender skin on the arm, etc.) Exchange hard candy. =) Stick to your guns and wait 'till you're ready.
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Start with the lips then kiss for 1 - 2 minutes, then slowly slide your tongue touching his tongue and slowly rotate your tongue to play with his ;)
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Hippie's got the right answer.  And you can add to it, "Why, do you need some pointers on making out?"\nand tell them to go to ask Nunya.  Nunya business.
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Theres not really a right way to kiss someone.No matter how small or wide you open your mouth theres always some sort of saliva exchange.Uck!lolz...So just kiss the way you feel most comfortable with.Jus make sure you dont open your mouth too wide.LOLZ
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Oh Bob!!   Lets see... Dont attack! be gentle in the first kiss and if an encouraging responce, press a bit harder and try a bit of tounge.  Not to wet, swallow first.  No blender method either, if your going to use tounge be gentle and slow explore her lips first, gently moving your tounge.  If she responds in kind then a slow dance with her tounge.  I also enjoy a slight suck on the lower lip to finish, it makes me want more;) Oh and if its the first kiss, make it a nice semi-firm lip to lip kiss, no space invaders!!  And leave her wanting more!
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be gentle, use alot of tongue, and try different moves, ask him what feels good, while your doing it.