How do you find the right guy for you?
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My Dear Friend,\n\nThe best places are Schools, workplaces and Churches. If there is a handsome guy, concentrated as hell on his job or completely absorved in what he is doing, that means he is responsible.\n\nWatch him how he treats girls or how he treats his mother or sisters. If he treats them well, then he is not a male chauvinist and will treat you well.\n\nAfter that, go invent a circumstance, a reason for a chat and be charming. Watch his reactions. If you like them, go ahead, if you don't, anyway it was a casual chat.\n\nTry to be interested in what he is doing, the more difficult he is doing, the more enthusiastical he will be in explaining. If it is something that REALLY interests you, then it will be much better.\n\nThere, you have your door.\n\nThen, try to be conspicuous in some sort of way (common! you women know to do that perfectly!), see if he responds the friendship.\n\nThen, let the circumstances take charge, time will tell.\n\nIf not, there is always another chance...
271014
Well if you ask me I would have to say you need  to find different friends. Stop looking for guys they will come to you and that man might be the right one.
99057
You don't "find" love, love finds you. Just be patient and care about and respect yourself enough that you don't settle. Don't be in love with the idea of being in love. True love is worth waiting for no matter how long you have to wait. The right man is out there for you, just give yourself and him enough time to find each other. You will be happy that you did wait. My other advice is to make a list of the characteristics that you are looking for in a man. Once you have your list, try to think of where a man with these qualities would be found and then frequent those places if they interest you. Don't go looking for love, just put yourself into an area where love might find you. Good Luck!! =-)
173958
You will have better luck finding a boyfriend when you stop looking for one.\nJust be happy and don't worry about someone finding you.\nIf you're happy he will find you.
105984
Stop looking. The man you want will show interest in you first.
1070353
GET BACK OUT THERE, DON'T JUMP RIGHT BACK INTO A RELATIONSHIP BUT DATE MEN THAT MAKE YOU FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF AND THE RIGHT ONE WILL COME ALONG. YOUR MANS OUT THERE LOOKING FOR YOU TOO, KEEP YOUR HEAD UP!
1109581
the mall, the internet......EHarmony..... wal*mart....your hood.....your job....anywhere.. just make sure you find the right one..
1175905
Keep on dreaming!\nUnless you change your mindset, you will ask the same questions in 10 or 20 or 30 years again!\nIf you're only looking for the perfect match, you will never find it!\nIf instead you're looking for an interesting person to get to know, you will find your perfect match automatically!\nTake the search as the way to happiness without clinging to the ultimate objective! Much better chances for success and definitely this will make you a much happier person!
19759
You must first find out what man is suitable for the kind of woman you are. Which means what kind of man you want?Just list something things you would love to have in a man.After you finish that ,ask the question about "Is there a man out there for you?"In order for you to have a husband, you must first find a man!
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When you are looking for a man to be in your life, observe him for a long time, and see what he is like. Date him, get to know him, and if red flags come up, you know he's not the one. I, myself, have a problem with choosing women because you and I are natured alike, and I tend to pick losers...so I proceed slowly now, and hope for the best. By the way, don't put yourself down.....I'll bet you're a very pretty lady....and good natured too. You will make some man an excellent wife. Good Luck!!
1168211
Make yourself as attractive as possible, then define the type of man that you're looking for (don't settle for less), then find that group of single men (personals, on-line etc) and sort through them until you find what you're looking for and hopefully the one you choose was also looking for you as his ideal woman.
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So much depends on the age and maturity level of the guy.  But a better question might be:  What kind of a guy do I want to spend MY time with?  You want to be very careful not to lose yourself in some fantasy that any particular guy thinks you are.  Molding yourself to somebody else's idea of who you should be may chip away at who you really are, or want to be.  So go out, have a good time, and instead of worrying whether you'll have the "right stuff", be yourself and be on the lookout for someone you truly like and admire.  It's OK if he's cute, too.  You'll do just fine.
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Actually there are many guys who are looking for commitment.\n\nIf you keep on having this issue it is because you keep on going after the guys who aren't looking for anything more than a good time.\n\nWant commitment?  You'll find it.  first I think you need to change the types of guys you think you're attracted to as they aren't the ones it seems that are looking for committing.\n\nSee we "nice guys", the boring ones are looking but you women seem to keep on going for the ones that are exciting.  There are "Dads" and "Cads".  The "Dads" are the guys who'll be there.  We aren't flashy and we don't always know what to say.  In fact we most often have no clue.\n\nThe "Cads" are the fun guys.  The guys who can sweep you off your feet in a bar, use you and then you pine away waiting for them to call back.\n\nYour choice on what you're really looking for in a guy.
62019
Well when I look for a man, I look for someone I can be "me" around. Someone who is attractive in his only way. Someone nice, a little cocky. Nice truck or car is a bonus, but he has to be able to make me laugh.
164053
be yourself. you dont want to give a guy a wrong impression of you and if you do than you cant be sure he really falls for you because you are giving him the wrong image of you. so be yourself and thats the best way to find someone who will accept you for you.
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1059237
lol.. nice answers..\nSearch someone around you. or, dont search, he'll find you..\nbut never go to that guy who says "yes, i'm that cute guy.."\nlolz.. enjoy life as it is.