HELP!!! What do you do when you are torn between two baby daddies?  One of which i knew for 3 month.........?
548893
Think seriously about sterilization!!!
810818
I'd put my energy into raising the 3 children I already have instead of risking my health with another pregnancy, but the decision is up to you and the potential fetus's father.\n\nWhen you have this issue sorted, get sterilized.
789087
The grass is always greener...  IMO, stick with your current boyfriend and forget about the first one. Or, stay single. Perhaps you aren't ready for a commitment with either yet if you are having difficulties deciding between them.  Goodluck with whatever you decide to do. :-)
479888
If you can't decide . . . do not get into a relationship with either of them.\n\nDate them both . . . find out who you are more compatible with.  Which one brings out the best in you and you bring out the best in them.\n\nWhen you figure it out . . . then you will know.
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you sound almost like a mirror image of me but i'm at the 3 month stage and i don't know if he's with somone else, the other difference is he said to me that he wants to work things out i haven't seen mine in 20 days and yes im counting. the best advice hang in there, me personally i would tell him how much of a many swearwords he is for hurting me and how could he get with somone else so soon. but as i said hang in there im now ruling my own life but it is hard moving ahead without the one you love. Be Good!
798361
If you like them both, flip a coin, let fate decide. If fate decides one guy, and your first reaction was... DANG... I wanted it to be the other guy. Go with your gut.. choose the guy you wanted it to be!
298800
i was in the same situation!!go with your heart.who will make you happier??
206193
Dustin or maybe even Deven\n\nThe only advice I can give you is to try to stay happy!!! and don't be afraid to ask for help.  It is going to be hard but you will get through it!!  Don't think of your baby as a mistake,  he should be a blessing , things have a way of working themselves out.  You might be young but just think... at least you have the energy to keep up with a kid.
96924
You're playing with fire.\nBetter make a choice soon,before one or both find out(I can't believe either one of them would know and accept this situation as it is now)and make a decision for you.
351687
Get pissed off and fuck his brains out, then do not call or talk to him for a while.  If he knows whats good for him, which is only you, he will stay with you and drop the other one.
219075
If you are not in a committed relationship with your baby's daddy, then its really none of you're business what (or who) he does.  If you are in a comitted relationship, kick him to the curb, along with the skank he's sleeping with, as she is not your friend.  But, again, if you two are not in a comitted relationship, then toucg luck for you, and you shouldn't have slept with him in the first place.
1031676
Wow thats a tough one,  best might just to be totaly upfront and not beat around the bush (bad choice of words there) .   Just ask him.  makes me wonder how you are going to do it though,  like big stringe or what.......lot of emotional issues too.  any decent guy is going to have feelings about his child and that could be sticky.  Beings you have already picked him I'm sure he's a decent guy.  Best of luck to you.
229612
Unfortunately you have no control over what someone else does.  If your baby's father cares about your feelings, he will ask that girl to stop calling him.  Otherwise, you probably need to look for a new man in your life.
79974
I feel like a pro on this type of situation. I'ts been a while for me. My daughter is 16 and I've been with my husband since she was 2yrs old. Keep your x in his place and your current in the right place. As long as you know who your with and who is the most important one to your future toether as a family. You will make the right choice. Uless your not sure who is in the right place in your life. Don't rush in to fast think, hearts are involved.
229093
u really need 2 have a heart-to-heart talk. sit down with him, and both of you speak your minds. if u both say what u really want or feel, it will make decision making that much easier.
1087103
Ooh...what a mess! Ok, first, should have waited a little longer to cohabitate. Now that makes it hard on you, your boyfriend and your son. All things in due time, my dear. Next, I do have some good news here...you'll probably always love your son's father in some small way because he shared with you an experience no one else has, which is creating your child together. This will change with more time, though I can't say if your feelings for your boyfriend will change. I loved my ex dearly but he wasn't in love with me. He accidentally got me pregnant and we both decided it was for the best for me to have an abortion. We're still great friends ever since we broke up, but that will always tie us together, even though no one else knows what truly bonded us. It took me time but I didn't move on until I was really ready and it sounds like you did. You're also really young and you already have a child so a lot of this could stem from those early 20's feelings of newfound independence and sowing wild oats. Only you can decide. Take some time for yourself and figure out what it is you really want. Once you clear your head, you might realize you do love this man, or you might soundly be able to declare to yourself that you don't. Remember that love takes time to build and establish, and you haven't been with this new guy for too terribly long. Whatever you decide, best of luck to you.
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Well since that happened to me a yr ago, I suggest that u tell him that it's over and that u want him to be part of the baby's life. In my situation her and me have an understanding where I get to have him for 2 weeks out of the month and so does she. She just came out and told me, I wasn't so happy about it but I got use to it and realized that she really wanted it to be over. Anyways if U need some more advice on this e-mail at elguapo_v12@yahoo.com Well good luck and remember just sit down with him and tell him what u really feel...