how do i let my wife know how much i love her and how sorry  i am?
541658
First of all - you are correct - you both are way too young to be married.\n\n2ndly, how can you marry someone when you have no idea how to support yourself much less them?\n\nGet your life together - go to trade school or further your education; get a stable job.\n\nEncourage your "wife" to do the same so you can support each other not only emotionally but financially.\n\nI don't know how you can even consider marriage and family when you don't even have the basic principles covered.\n\nYou can't take care of anyone else - no matter how much you love them - until you take care of yourself!
509391
Don't make her wait too long!  Act on what your heart tells you.  If you want to call, call.  It's like telling my husband "I love you".  Some would say that I say it "too much".. but if I feel it, I say it.  Just do it. ;)
653261
what the heck??? how r we supposed to know what ur talkin about? why dont u ask your wife? u SHOULD be able to talk to her about anything but then again if ur asking if she loves u, maybe not..\nsheesh.
268811
Just tell her. If you're married she'll understand and listen to what you have to say.
848308
You have to give her time...Back off. Tell her you love her and that you are very sorry, Tell her you'll spend the rest of your life making it up to her. I am going to assume you cheated, we are all human. Don't make that mistake again. Time will tell you all you need to know. Tell her how you feel then give her space. Even if you don't talk for a couple weeks. Send her a text message or leave a voice mail every once in awhile telling her you love her. Best of luck
601445
i hear your question because it's the way i hope the women that cheated with my husband one day will feel sometimes i think she will realize this too late as a punishment and she will be too old to start over in life unlike me because she knew he was married, but i have good and bad days for the most part i let it go and just feel sorry for her and think to myself she is even stupidier than me because he was married and was  showing who he was i'm so glad to hear you woke up but probably because he forced you to by actually ending the relationship thats what happened to me the best thing that could have ever happened Hopefully the next fool will wake up real soon so he will get a chance to be a better guy before it's to late because it's women that really allow these guys to be the assholes they are. I know exactly what your talking about when you say name calling ect my husband convinced the other women i was crazy ect which is a manipulation tactic that allows them to keep doing what there doing and not feel guilty about it anyways you should definitely apologize to his ex-wife even though she probably never thinks about him anymore because the days he consumed her are gone these guys suck the life out of women your consuming days will be gone soon too. She probably will tell you you don't have to apologize for jumping in and catching all the hell from him that was suppose to be hers she'll probably thankyou i know thats what i would do if my x's wife ever said sorry to me. Yes you should definitely apologize though it's nice to be validated and it's never to late to start doing the rite thing because as you just have learned you reap what you sow. It's never to late to start sowing good seeds when you get over all your anger and sorrow one day you might suprise yourself and start praying for him and the one he's with now thats probably what his ex did for you. After all he left you so somebody must be praying for you!!!!---when your 'happily' remmaired & have a man that loves you back you'll know what i mean by this. Godbless
163305
try spending more time at home with her\nimprove the communication-be open on certain issues, letting her know how you feel.\n\nyo love for each other will grow as you find more things in common-so show more intrest in some of the things she does.\nDevelop the habit of appreciating yo wife.\n\n...and even thou you might not be that religious, try seeking God over it. If someone can save yo marriage, its God.\nbegin by knowing that he knows & does care...\n(paulkasonde@yahoo.com)
750773
Why dont you discuss it with your wife.  You said that she is a sweetie, work it out with her.
137246
No matter what happened to cause this, it's up to you to get in touch with her and fix the problem.  You have to be willing to forgive and go forward.  You start out by letting her know that you love her and that are willing to have an open mind about whatever choices she had made in her life and go from there.  Now if she's not willing to talk right then and there, let her know that she can always call you no matter what.  One other thing, never pass judgment on her.  Give advice, but let her know that it's her choice.
471592
It's all about love and forgiveness. If you love her and if you can forgive her (and let me say contracting that illness is punishment, you don't need to hold it over her head, she'll have a constant reminder of her affair now) If you can forgive her then stay with her help her through this. As the disease progresses it will sap her strength, her spirit, she will lose who she is after a while to this illness. If you feel that you cannot forgive her then you need to discuss that with her as well, maybe not leave her yet, but at least talk things out with your wife let her know how you feel. I imagine your torn right now or else you wouldn't be posting on this website, asking for others advise. Nothing anyone can say will be the right answer, all you can do is listen to your heart and do what you feel is right. Don't let the anger of her affiar conflict with the thought in your mind. Also, take into consideration her feelings if she has remorse good if not and she really doesn't care then it might be best for you to continue on without her. If you really feel you need outside advise, discuss this with a trained councelor or therepist. someone outside of the relationship who can shed a different light on the situation and maybe help you see things in a way you didn't before. Good Luck, Budda bless you, and Take Care.
489722
get a new wife.  One that appreciates you for who you are.
1067437
Hey!  I love my WIFE!
801187
If you love her, tell her.\n\nIf you owe her any apologies, apologize.\n\nIf you want to know anything, ask her.\n\nTake solace in the fact that you have the opportunity so few have been given.  My mother and I had a "falling out" over ten years ago.  During that whole time we never spoke or communicated in any way.  Four weeks ago she died in a car wreck.\n\nUse this chance for all it's worth.
314817
Tell it to my mother-in-law
7865
First......I think you just did say you were sorry to her for being a boneheaded idiot. The first step is finally realizing what she was trying ot say to you. I have a feeling you realized this......just a tad late. The key is now letting your wife know that you understand. I have a feeling that she felt you spent more time on your bike than with her. Perhaps you were truly caring for this bike......pampering it.......polishing it........tinkering with it..........all while she had to look on. Now that you realize that the bike was dispensable.....make sure you show her that she is not. Care for her.....pamper her......tinker with her.......polish up the marriage. Flowers do nothing.....trust me. Actions......mean everything. Spend time being "present." Stalk her in the most fun loving ways you can imagine. Let her see that you can't stop thinking of her........that you need her........and nothing else will ever come between you two again. (she so needs to know this!)\n\nI so hope you are ok after the accident. I have a feeling that was another issue. She loves you so much and couldn't stand to stand back and wait for you to get hurt. Assure her you won't put yourself in any danger at the risk of losing her. (ok was that too mushy? That might have been too mushy.....aahhh but try it anyway.....what'll it hurt. *wink*) \n\nGood luck......I'll be rooting for ya!!
674882
Just try to talk to her. It depends on what you did, but try to tell her you're reasons and say you're sorry. Try to work it out calmly.
293582
tell her how you feel, best way out, always