Body Language...how did I do on my date?
538214
It was the alcohol. No classy woman would send those signals to some guy who asks for help on the internet. Maybe if you grow up and get a real life, you will be worthy of her.
992372
Make move GIRL\nNOW\nJUMP his bones-i totally get what u mean-do IT NEXT time you see him-NO matter where!\ni did same thing on like 3rd date with my BF-waiting sux, plus its awesome when you do it-good luck you
786521
body language my dear, 1) use your eyes.. when you see him across a room or something look straight at him then hold for 3 secs then look down or away. 2) smile a lot (so he knows that you're approachable) 3)touch him lightly on the arm or back (of course only when you have something to say...) let actions speak louder than words but never tell him! good luck!!
699388
I would prefer an arm around me at the movies. Because if you are holding hands, the guys usually start sweating. It makes a girl feel comfortable to lean on him (in your case, you) and it makes us girls feel safe and protected with her man holding her. Do you get what I mean??? Well good luck. I am so far guessing this is your first date. I hope everything goes well.
132843
On the last date I went on, we were eating at a restaurant and when we got up to leave, my date helped me put my coat on.  He was really good at it!  I made a comment about it and he said that his grandfather had taught him how.  It was a smooth little detail but it was very impressive.\n\nBy the way, in case you're wondering about the trick, he said it's to hold the coat lower than you would think.  This makes sense because it's hard to put your arm up when it's behind you.\n\nThat was a little thing, of course.  What really attracts me to a guy is a positive attitude and if he's willing to just have an open conversation with me.  If I feel like I'm doing all the work to keep the conversation going and on a positive note, that's a turn-off.
41208
I would give it at least a week, unless you feel that person is attracted to you as well. The longer you wait, the more receptive they may be and say yes. Also, the first time (or 2), make it a friendly date...try asking what she thinks of certain movies that just came out in theaters and if she says she wants to see it, tell her that you wanted to see it too and be like "hey, we should totally go see that! Wanna go this weekend?" Or ask her opinion about resturants or new drinks...you get the point. Just make it seem like it is not a "date", but just hanging out. After doing that a couple times actually say do you want to go on a date? At least by that time she will have gotten to know you and will not have felt that she needed to act a certain way or be uncomfortable because it is a date :D GOOD LUCK!!!
852640
Wait to see what her reaction is. See how she acts around you the next couple of days. Don't come on too strong. Play it cool.
29587
I don't know if this will help at all but I know there are two stories I'd like to share first one is I was in canada not to long ago and this girl spoke to me in french ... not to well may I say but she pointed to her camera so I was like ok she wants me to take her picture so I did so and at the end she said thank you in french but and I responded with your welcome wich got her off gaurd and she was like hey you speak enlish and I'm like americans tend to speak that and then we talked for like an hour then we agree to meet up later and well I don't need to discuss later needless to say she's back in australia. Another story. I had just move to hollywood  ..... like 6 months ago lol and I saw this girl and I was like wow she's absolutely gorgeous I mean she wasn't in todays standard but I thought she was she had really short hair ... shorter than mine like 1/4 of an inch and this really cute smile and I saw her with this camera and I thought of going up to her and saying something but I was to nervous so a minute later she walked up to me which was a suprise but she came up and asked me if she could take my picture and I was like yeah sure where do you want me we talked for a little while and then I asked her out to eat if she wasn't busy so we went to dennys ... jsut to find out she's vegan haha. but we talked for like 3 hours and sadly I found out she was moving to oregon in a couple of days and then after that back home to chicago but although we only spent one night talking I think she has ment more to me than any girl I've ever dated and we didn't even date haha but if she had asked me to move to oregon with he I would of. any way hope it helps Mike
320535
depends......did i have a date last night
776968
I actaully got a date stuck in traffic.  I was in my usual traffic jam, there was a hot chick in a VW bug, we ended up being stuck next together for a while.  We made eyes, she gave me a smile, so I had a marker and a peice of paper and wrote my cell number down, and held it to the window.  She called me and we chatted throughout the traffic jam, and we ended up dating for a few months.  I definitely recommend traffic jam dating.
162448
1) LOOK INTO HER EYES "TOO LONG"\n\nThis is simply holding eye contact a little bit longer than you normally would. While you are conversing with her, you want to be sure to have eye contact at least some of the time. At least once it’s a good idea to hold the eye contact a little "too long," just a fraction too long, so there’s a brief, more intimate moment between you.\n\n2) MAKE DECISIONS EASILY\n\nIt’s important to make sure that you make decisions easily. Remember your outcome: romantic feelings, and moving the seduction along. This means that making a decision quickly is more important than choosing the perfect type of coffee, or taking the time to really think about whether you want cherry Danish or a plain one. By making decisions quickly, you show her that you are a decisive man who she won’t have to take care of.\n\n3) WINK AT HER\n\nYou can wink at someone from across the room, or wink at someone during a conversation. If she says something funny, or someone else does something silly, you can give a wink as a way of sharing a little moment for just the two of you, as if the two of you are in on some private joke no one else is aware of.\n\n4) CHECK OUT HER BODY\n\nChecking out her body must be done properly. The goal is for your new friend to feel complimented that you noticed her body, not objectified like some piece of meat. You do this by making eye contact, then quickly, in less than a second, passing your eyes down and then up over her body, then back to looking in the eyes. It should happen quickly, and you should be unashamed of taking a glance. Just don’t do it too often — two times during a coffee date, for instance, is plenty.\n\n5) KEEP YOUR BODY POWERFUL\n\nWomen want to be with men who are engaged in their lives. You’ll appear even more engaged if you sit, stand and move like you are both fascinated and fascinating. As a bonus, moving as if you are totally engaged with and turned on by life will perk you up and give you more energy for the interaction.\n\n6) COMPLIMENT HER\n\nYou want to cultivate complimenting her as a potential lover, not as a tepid friend. Let’s talk briefly about the difference: A man who is destined to be a woman’s friend compliments her by saying something like, "You have a very nice briefcase." The compliment doesn’t show that he is interested in her romantically, or that he notices anything romantic about her. Put another way, it’s a compliment another woman might give to her. If you give a woman a compliment that another woman might give her, you might as well be another woman, striking up a casual friendship.\n\nYou want to make it clear that you are a man who is noticing her as a woman, rather than an amorphous blob of undefined protoplasm who might as well be another woman talking to her. A man who is committed to being seen as a potential lover gives compliments that show that he notices her as a woman. Rather than saying, "You have a nice briefcase" he’ll say something like "You have beautiful eyes," or "Your smile is so beautiful, it lights up the room."\n\nAt first it may be uncomfortable for you to compliment her, that is okay — keep going, keep taking the risk, and up the passion in your compliments. Yes, you are risking rejection, but that’s good! Remember the rejection process, and remember to celebrate your victories!\n\n7) WHISPER TO HER / LEAN INTO HER SPACE\n\nWhispering to her doesn’t mean you have to get all the way up to her ear… it may be too early in your interaction with her to get that close. But you can lean into her space, and lower the volume of your voice, to share something with her.
1026740
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.\n1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?\n2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.\n3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.\n4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?\nJust remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
36919
I would say it depends on how old you are and whether the date went well or not.  If you are consenting adults, I'd say "yes"
666938
I know exactly how you feel!Only in kind of a tighter position. Just look at my Q & A.But since your the guy,YOU need to make the first move.Dont be shy,it sounds like you guys really like each other.
1040862
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question. \n1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?\n2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.\n3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.\n4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot? \nJust remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
595543
well take 2 hours to get ready.......trust me guy might not say but after 2hrs when they look at u they feel those were worth it..............and be confident abt urself and dont talk too much specially on studies or urself let him also speak.......my frd for her first date and out of nervousness she spoke so much tht poor guy actually slept whole eve so be cool
495951
It seems like you make the mistake than many women do, you get too far ahead of yourself.  Men like body language more than written language.  Men know that you like them because you make subtle signals like touching the back of their arm and things like that.  The trick is to go with the flow, don't try to hard, in fact barely try at all.  Keep yourself busy with friends and stuff.  That will drive him nuts for you.  Do you meet men in person or via the internet?  That also might be your problem.  Internet dating is fickle. If you are looking for a committment, think about joinging a Wiccan Meetup or something.  \n\nGood Luck