Online dating...it seems like most guys do it to just to get some.?
544373
u are correct...its just a easy way to get some...profiles say one thing , but they are only interested in sex
71340
The reason is, after 2 days on a personals site, a women is going to be overwhelm with responses by men. Many will be desperate men. Alot of them will be scum of the earth. If you are a decent guy and meet up to some of the minimum requirements, I would go for it. One word of caution, Don't tryto put on that you are something you are not. It will show up in most cases right there between the lines. No matter what a woman says she is looking for in a man, I can say, without a doubt, the number 1 trait that will get her is honesty.
180453
Because they were told long ago that if you get a good job and have financial stablity that you will be able to get any woman you want. It simply isn't true, but some guys seem to be convinced that it is. I would hope that personality and kindness were more important.
396466
This is the classic reason why people should NOT put faith or MONEY into online dating: the Internet simply is NOT a solid foundation for such social interaction to lead into any degree of romance.\n\nLet this guy go and learn from the experience. You want to meet a man? Do so in person...one on one (1:1).
720911
When I was dating, I had lots of err interesting experiences.. from men that were a grandfather age. Too married men who wore my drink...who just wanted to get lucky. The the nice guys, who just bought dinner and we didn't click..  It can be fun if you do it safely.. Like a public spot.. we are women after all. \n\nI don't think if I was single again, i would look for a mate on line.  I might try speed dating.. or let someone fix me up.  \n\nGood Luck!
567094
I don't believe in doing that but some guys want all they can get, without the difficulties of a relationship.
36549
Not all guys are... Just the ones you know...
977695
No I don't think so. I think it is perfectly normal to want to seek someone who you can connect with. Life is very busy, with work, school, or kids, people don't have the time to invest in hoping to meet the right one at the grocery store. Is that more dignified? \nThe only thing you meet at bars is drunks.\nGood for you for  being proactive in  being  involved in your own destiny. He/she is not knocking at the door so why not go for it. You may come across a few lumps of coal but hopefully their is one diamond in the rough out there. Do what is right for you.
9898
Because after getting a man or woman to provide them with all these thing, especially when they get all this without helping out in building up a relationship , they believe they can find some other fool to give them better. And alot of the time they are right. But check back with these pathetic souls a little later in life and you will find them lonely and alone. But they still end of with a substantial amount of money and security from the previous marriages. Not a bad gamble on they're part. I really think they plan it before they ever go on a date and smarten up guys, they DO. Just like when you were a teenager thinking about one day settlling down with someone and giving them everything, these leeches were planning on their first divorce and how much they're gonna get. The secret is to never give a girl or guy every thing they want unless they are truly giving you every thing YOU want and please guys (and girls) want more than to spoil a full grown eventually blown partner into telling you those faithful words.... I'm not happy. Make them WORK for your love to. Watch out
680738
I am finding that it is.  Internet is not a bad thing...\njust a relatively new thing for dating.  Give it a chance\nbut please be careful.. there are predators out there.
546326
I have my theories on this, and it is SUCH a good question...\nI think that people who are playing the field online are mostly people who are relationship addicts and people who avoid true intimacy...let's face it, people...how hard is it to meet someone in real life, really?  If you open your eyes and your heart,  if you are TRULY looking to date,  there are interesting people out there EVERY SINGLE DAY who are AVAILABLE, in REAL LIFE...and totally local..I think that a lot of these people on the single's sites are maybe even married and are looking for a thrill on the side...at least a cyber thrill...which is TOTALLY lame, in my opinion.  I tried internet dating for an entire MONTH...but I found I need a real connection...the best place to find people is in places where people are doing things that you enjoy...I personally love bookstores and the library...\nwhat a cool question!
283482
I think that number one, the internet is a stupid place for dating someone or finding someone. You have to be patient and the right one will just come along. Dont expect to find the one on the net, Trust me.. I dated a guy that I met over yahoo msnger for like 3 years and he was a total ass and a mistake, NOT GOOD! There was things I didnt even know about him that he could hide from me for a long time and I probably wouldnt have ever found out! You dont really get to know the person when you meet them on the net.. they can be fake really easy! Id say that half the ppl that answer these questions on here are fake just to get points but you can only trust a selected few. But anyways dont net date... K!? Later and GOOD LUCK
29712
Too much attention from some guy(s) is not what it is all cracked up to be.\nConcern yourself with your overall betterment and you will meet someone who shares your interests.\n\n\nDon't give yourself away.
573064
Boy, I just LUV this questions! I'm wondering the same thing.. I think they're all sex addicts (and it's a clanny 'perv hangout!') Boy oh boy. (It's not me that thinks so, eh?) I say skip the dating sites.. I can't find anyone worth a darn in this small town (of l,500) either. Everyone 'knows everyone else.' So am I really stuck or what?!? Yeah, you are sharp.. when they want to be friends, it's just sex.. (yep.) Real men wanna make you happy and take you out to dinner, a show, be considerate.. (right on!) I think you are on the right track .. don't give in!!! later
19764
Maybe your not looking in the right places, are you open to trying maybe a personal dating service??? you might want to look into that, there are great women who are genuine and looking for more in a relationship. They wouldn't be paying for the service if they didn't want something out of it. try it you might find that someone special.
409331
I can't understand either why guys do that, blow smoke up our @sses then you happen to go onto a site and there they are sucking up to any hot girl they see.\nthey must think we are stupid...lol\nnow i just assume right from the start that they're players, until they prove me wrong, might not be right in some people's eyes, but beter to protect than get burned i say :)
610715
Oh yeah it works both ways. There are some females out there that literately go out to bars and clubs to go find a guy to have sex with. Girl are sometimes just as bad as guys if not worse. So yes, some girls do go out in search to get a piece.