I Hav'nt really met her, should i go ahead and marry!?
546642
It's all in how you feel about it deep inside.  Do you have the option of meeting her before marrying her?  If so, meet with her and then see how you feel.
1002172
OMG!!! I cant beleive you would ask that... You will most definatly meet the woman of your dreams.. The time will come wen you meet a wonderful women and you will fall in love and you will get married and have beautiful children. You have to be patient.... Take your time... GOOD LUCK AND DONT WRRY!!
601499
no i think u should better meet her face to face and tell thats the best if u can make it possible ..........\nelse do tell her anyway .............if u really love her and sure about it .
1039348
Been through that my friend. There is no simple answer coz it's done. Tell her very politely that your relationship cannot live in the past and since you cannot change it, if she is so concerned she must have her freedom. Not simple, but that is how it should be. You cannot erase your past, only GOD can. I agree it has no relevance to your present circumstances. If it happened before you met her, she should love you for what you are. I hope she is an angel!!!
1049874
I wouldn't settle with anyone right now. Have fun while you can when you get older then pick one and marry her.\nHave fun!
411892
Tell her, and find out where you stand.  It looks as though she may be ready to move on, sadly for you, as she may not see the outcome of your 'ups and downs' in your relationship in quite the same way as you do.  It might be time just to move on yourself or carry the relationship through into marriage - 6 years is a long enough time to do something about it. The fact she feels comfortable enough to make these arrangements in front of you means that she's about given up hope of going further with you because you've delayed for so long.  I think it's reasonable after so many years to decide whether you want to commit to this girl and ask her to marry you or live with you, or go your separate ways.
302539
this is really hard. believe me...\nbut i do hope u meet her soon. try to be happy and be confident and patient. I will pray u get a sincere and nice life partner. Wish u all the best
161206
why would you want to be with someone you don't want to marry? Your wasting your time as well as hers. You should let her find someone who will want to marry her.
449424
if we will be basing it according to your age, it will be fine , however, you have the same blood as hers coz your in the  same family. besides, she's getting married in a few weeks so.. maybe she should wait til that time comes. and, if she wants you as her partner, tell her just to imagine u.
428838
how long have you known this woman . marry outside of her religion well i am not the kind to stand in the way of love my frien but have you known her for a while or what well that your right i guess let me be the first to say i hope you and this woman will be happy together in my opion it is you as well marry a woman in her religion she cant marry out of her religion i guess well hope all is fine with you in about.2. years from now god bless in my opion i really hope you know what you are doing well anyway i wish you the best you i figure will need it i am not a person to stand in the way of love but that was quick wish you and the woman the best again ?
1025579
i think you need to ask yourself if the whole thing is really worth it, i mean if you think it is then you need to work with all your might to try and fix whats wrong, maybe you should just try counseling by yourself so that you can get yourself together. Maybe that will further help you to determine if this is really the woman for you.
874484
If u want to experiment, go ahead as per her guidance.  If u like her ultimately and can not leave her without hurting urself, u can even marry her.
196529
Y do u think she's ur soul-mate?\nit doesn't sound at all. Soul-mates are made for each other, to get married and stuff...\n\nyou have to think about the whole thing.. don't rush!
569446
Have you decided to meet her in person? It's better two people actually see each other and interact. Why not spend some time there with her, develop a further relationship?
457520
well then, if you are really what you say you are...maybe you don't need to search..maybe you just have to wait for that person to come along..then meeting her would be more special and having her in your life will be such a blessing... ; )
928041
I think that if you could try and meet her before the wedding. As if you just meet her for the first time at the wedding you won't get the chance to really talk to her. At least you could ice the ice with her by asking her how her wedding plans are going
62918
Stay the course...If you really love her..do what you have to do and keep your dignity..keep loving her and time well might be the answer...Have faith & good luck to you !!!