What's a good way to show my parents I'm ready to date?
539316
A very wise question, indeed.\n\nUnfortunately, you give no background information about yourself (age, for example) or your parents (temperment? etc.) so it's hard to be specific.\n\nIn general most parents trust you more in this very scary (for them) arena of your life:  the older you are.  So, in effect, this may not be in your control.\n\nHowever, here's what IS in your control:  \n\nA. The level of maturity you show in all other decisions.  \n\nB. The level of responsibility you show:  helping around the house; studying and doing your school work in an exemplary fashion; keeping yourself and your room clean; working patiently with your brothers and sisters and friends rather than always fighting; etc.  \n\nC. The level of trust you engender in them.  A lot of girls, just see their parents as obstacles to them having a good time so they sneak around on the sly.  Obviously this will NOT engender trust and shows a huge misunderstanding, parents want what's best for you in about 99% of instances, but from their experiences they also know that a whole lot of young encounters end in disaster for girls acting foolishly or even their more mature-acting sisters (pregnancies, STDs, broken hearts, and even rape or death).  Parents hope to protect you from these situations -- it's just what parents do or try to do.  Be mature and respect these facts and talk CALMLY about these issues with your father and mother.  Good communications engenders trust as much as anything else you do. Then be willing to win small battles (a date chaperoned to and from in your parents' car, for example, is a small step but it will eventually lead to you being granted more freedom).  Good luck.
1081605
You are absolutely right. You have been very considerate to your parents, which shows your family culture. There is no hurry for marriage, now. Maintain good relationship with her and rightly no co-habitation till formal marriage. But tell your parents that if they want to see you married you would marry only her and none else. After all they are your parents, they will not like to stand on the way beyond a certain point. All the best.  God's delays are not God's denials. Patience is genius.
191095
Be upfront and sincere. Maybe they can tell already : )
898458
Honey your 14 relax. If your interested in girls then just consider "casual dating." Giver her some flowers or candy. Ask your parents to take you guys to a movie and dinner afterwards, just remember that you are still young and don't need to be doing anything more than hanging out.
535996
Wee you need to let them know that you want to get closer. Parents tend to stay away if that is how they think you want it to be.  Try to spend more time with them. Go out to dinners, or make dinner for them.  Tell them you love them more and show respect. It may not happen right away, but it will.. Good Luck.
450866
I've been in your same situation when i was younger. with my parents i told them some of the nice things that this guy did, that let them know that he was nice. Ask this guy to meet them. Not really at the house at first, but maybe at a park or a school activity. Then he won't be so nervous. Tell your mom first. Mom's are always easier. Dads will understand eventually. Don't say date or anything yet, say hanging out or something like that, then after a while say casually in a conversation with your parents how your friends think that you and _your guys name__ are such a cute couple. or something like that. that will be easier. if they are really strict just say that this guy is your special guy. hope i helped!!!
740825
I think that you should ask your mother if you can go on a chaporoned date. Have her come along and meet the guy. She might change her mind on your being able to date.
421049
talk to them, earn their trust. seem interested in whatever they might say. act like you have nothing to hide(which you might not), and smile. also act polite. meeting the parents is never easy, but it must be done eventually.
192965
Ok- from experience. . .\n\n*Is this guy really worth it?\n  - do you like him\n  - is he even cute\n  - is he respectful\n\n*If your parents find out you're dating w/o their permission, you're dead.  So my advice is\n\n*ask your mom again\n\n*if she's says NO, she's got good reason.  parents aren't blind and they no what's best for you, even if you don't think so.
759965
Respect your parents, they know best. YOu didnt mention how old you are...\nHe could bring dinner to your house and you 2 could watch a movie.
108144
Tell them that you promised yourself you wouldn't date till a certain time.  Then tell them that it is important for you to keep your promises and not to have friends trying to "help" you break them.
525976
Your parents have no say about it, as long as-\nyou are of legal age, and are READY: \nemotionally, (stable or consistent enough to stick to marriage)\nmentally, (ready for what marriage is all about)\nsocially, (you've met enough people to know for sure that you want to be married to this person)\nand personally, (you've done what u want to do for yourself and have reached goals you want for yourself, this is important, coz in marriage some sacrifices would be made regarding personal goals and pleasures)\n...then go for it!\n\ndo assure your parents of your love though, and claim full responsibility for this decision.\n\nbest wishes, pastor's wife\nhttp://mwfrc.blogspot.com
144272
Plan some sort of outing for the four of you.  When I introduced my parents to my boyfriend last summer, the four of us spent the day on the lake on my dad's sailboat.  This was the perfect place for them to meet him, because my boyfriend also has a sailboat.  It gave him and my father a lot to talk about because they have so much in common.  (My dad's the only one I was worried about!  But my mom loves him too!)\n\nYou could also all go out for dinner, or you could make dinner for everyone at your house.
677438
you will know when it is right - don't rush - and even if it is right, it may not feel the way you expected it to - and talk to your parents or a councellor if are nervous about something - you will be amazed at what they can offer and how easy it is to talk once you start talking.  Good luck.
1117459
Nope.  Your in the wrong here, you are lying and disobeying your parents.  You probably aren't aloud to date because you aren't old enough.  Whether you believe it or not your parents make rules for a reason and you should respect them.
64135
The both of you should tell your parents about your plans and ask for their support.  Explain why you are getting married and why you believe you are ready for this step.  Hopefully they will understand and help you with your wedding.  Good luck.
148474
ask from your parent !