Does IT SEEM LIKE THOSE WE CHERISH AND ADMIRE MOST always end up hurting us or running over you????
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You are the only one that you can really rely on. People will always fail your expectations because we have faults. Its ok to cherish and admire another person, but realize that they too have faults and that they are not perfect. When you get right down to it, you are the one that you must cherish and admire most. When you hurt or dissapoint yourself its easier to live with because you cant abandon yourself. Its good to be open to others, just dont expect that they will always have your back.
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yes sometimes\nbut when i think back that person really didn't deserve so much hate or attention from me. \ni guess often we feel like such when we personally feel insulted or hurt, but i guess its okay to think about it a little to vent it off and NOT do anything on it.
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Well, Life is about chances and so is love...  Some people hurt us intentionally, but some don't..\n\nI think that the people we love hurt us, because they don't know how to appreciate it.  Take it for granted and take it as a vulnerability. (So they take advantage of us)\n\nBut don't give up on it..  We have to go through a few bad seeds, before we finally find the right one..  : )
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I used to be afraid of being criticized because I know people can be rough. Just remember, no matter what anyone says to you, you will not die from it. Everyone, and I mean EVERYONE, gets criticized.
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maybe in your former life..\ncuz it happens to me too
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because we try 2 convince oursleves that they will change there ways but they never do and u just end up gettin hurt!!
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Its your own inferiority complex which make you think so. Mix up with family members share your griefs and happiness with them after all they are your blood relations and mind you the old saying blood is always thicker then water...!!!!
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It just seems like they are hard on you, in the long run it will all be worth it. You will be a better person for it. You won't let anyone run all over you, and you will stand up for what you believe in. Just look at it like they are molding you into a very responsible human being.
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Yeah, unfortunately, many of us feel that way, though our loved ones usually think we're crazy when we say so--and they often feel the same way about us. We should love ourselves more than that. We should think often that we're fabulous and that no one could do better than us. Imagine what we could do if we thought that way as much as we think the other?
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I was going over my past answers and came across your question so I thought I would check what other questions you pose.  \n\nWell, here is my answer to this one!\n\nI have had several Best Friends.  They were/are special in their own ways, but I won't lie, most of them have let me down more than once.  I try to accept that they have to look out for themselves first, but I have always been the one to look out for them first.  It has never resulted in something positive, I'm afraid.  But I don't regret it.\nI have always felt good when being there for my friends, and being able to help them.  It gives/gave me satisfaction and a feeling of being needed and appreciated.\n\nI wish for you many best friends, that will be truly faithful and loyal to you.  I think you deserve it!\n\nBest wishes!
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sometimes it is purely jelousy but sometime the person stil ikes u and they want u bac so deperately they will do anything 2 get u bac even if it mean hurting u 2 make u more vulnerable. it horrible bt sadly its the harsh truth that we all have 2 accept sooner or l8er. love and h8 r the closest emotions that could also explain alot
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i don't think you can be too nice.... there's not enough nice people out here in the world as it is..... but you can't let people run over you either.... people tend to see niceness as a weakness.... but whatever.... continue being yourself.. and if that's nice.. then be it.... just don't take no crap from nobody
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I dont think we fall in "love" and it's not just getting laid either it's just that we are insecure about ourselves sometimes and are afraid of getting closer to someone without letting them go if we need to....
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Honestly, I do have a lot of people who like me and care for me, but finding someone who loves me, has been a lonely adventure that I see no end to. Maybe some aren't meant to end their trek.
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Yes, I think we all feel threatened when that happens. When someone does that to us, I think that our self-confidence dwindles, which hurts us emotionally. It is hard to take when someone questions our intelligence, especially when they do it to insult you.
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Yes!  This happens to me all of the time.  Almost every time I drive. I like to think it is a loved one watching over me (lights kept flickering at the funeral).  It is wierd, I know!
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They still feel the pain so they have to blame someone even though they didnt always do it. Sad but true even though you didnt do anything too her she might hurt you just to make herself happy.