Should I go out with somebody i just met online? How do I know if he's sincere with all his words and actions?
545079
First of all, I would never EVER meet someone that I hadn't checked out first - background check, and anything else that pops up with online checks. He shouldn't have a problem with it, either, and if he does, then oh well. He should respect the fact that you value your safety.\n\nWait until you have learned enough to know his name and where he lives, because you will need at least that to run a check. Don't say, "Hey, I need your full name and date of birth so I can check you out," because if he's slick and he's bad news, he'll give you someone else's info. Let the info come naturally. \n\nConverse and get to know each other as well as you possibly can first. If he gets angry or possessive over little things, then be careful. If he wants your number but won't give you his, be careful - married man alert there. \n\nPlay it safe. If you meet, let someone know where you are going when you go to meet him, and when you expect to be back. Meet in a public place at least at first. If possible meet him while WITH a friend.\n\nGo slow if you are not sure. For example, if you don't want to be physically intimate, be upfront about that and don't be pressured into it. \n\nThere's always a risk in dating - even if it's not online dating. Online tends to be more dangerous because you often feel that you have more info than you actually do.\n\nPlease see the links. The decision is ultimately yours, and I don't think that there's any reason to not meet people online, but please be safe about it.\n\nAs far as how he feels about you, it's like any other relationship - only time can tell. But you have to have trust to build a relationship.
307939
If you really like him then yes, you should go out with him and see if he is as nice as he seems. Looks fade but personality lasts the rest of your life.
740857
Online relationshp are not real, there are ful of crappy people and you will never get to knw who they really are...what they they are they are not. \nI know a friend who was in one and this lady really pushed to get to know him, she got th cntacts, she called investigating and ths guy was not rdy to move on...crappy, any way eventually thye met but all she wanted was sex and ths guy was not ready..so after a couple of mtgs they broke off and no regrets...\n\nIt's hard to now the other party. But if it's just fun on the internet, hmmmm...thn thts fine but keep it wholesome.\n\nI'm not sure that I can wish you good luck on this one :(
339535
if he is as great as you describe, then hes really worth your trust.  ask him straight out.  because theres no future if theres not trust.
601066
sounds real enough. i think he likes u and wants to see where it goes. i say go for it.
247912
Of course it is ok.  After all, it would be ok if you met face to face and it deepened into a closer relationship.  The only thing about meeting online is that you take it slow and careful at the beginning..ie. meeting first in public places, etc.  I have made some of the best friends over the net.. and have met the man of my dreams!!
568891
You really need to meet them before you make a decision. I've met a couple of people from online that ended up being completely different than the way they presented themselves. I've also met a few that we just didn't click in person. \n\nRegardless of when or how you decide to meet them, please play it safe and meet in a public place! There are a lot of psychos out there so better safe than sorry!\n\nGood luck to you!
558425
Act normal... talking on the net or on the phone, no matter how long you've been doing that, doesn't give you always an accurate image of a person, trust me. Get to know him first.
347520
Dont be fool by givin him a chance like that..First find out his details and be sure of his privacy..May be he is a play boy..^ may be he gots lot of guls like u on messenger...Nowadays its very hard 2 believe someone like that..One of my friend also had a bad time with an online love..Beware of them p/z ..best of luck
494972
c'mon don't be so hard on yourself. of course he likes you enough to spend so much time with you. however, it would be wise to be cautious and tread carefully. why look for signs, just enjoy the now. it does seem you are happy right now, so don't question and don't let doubts prevail.all the best babe!
780000
Yes, and he's totally interested in meeting total strangers on the Internet. What's your pt.? You think you have a shot? Come on! How is this relevant to you liking the guy or not--either he's good or cute or both. It's not like his relationship will change your opinion unless you truly do feel you have a shot.
1049020
It's easy to feel this way about someone that you are communicating to on the internet.  Probably many things in common, sense of humor, etc.  Be careful tho.  On the internet there is no commitment, no responsibility.  It's a whole new ball game when you're together.  Take things very very very slow, don't let your emotions take over, it's too dangerous.  Be cautious and if you meet do it in a public place not just once but every time for quite some time.
921135
When its come to dating someone you met online always let someone know where you are going.  I really don't know what kind of suggestions you are looking for but good luck.
757521
Talking daily over what sort of period of time? I usually won't consider meeting someone unless I've known them for more than six months. Another important question is: how old are you, and how old are they?\n\nEdit: Hmm, same age, and both male. From this information, it looks like you (physically) are not more vulnerable than they are, which lessens my concern of internet predation.\n\nStill, 3 months is a bit early. I'd certainly wait. You are old enough to make your own decisions, but if you do decide to meet this person, I would recommend having a close friend hang out with you for the first get-together or two, to be safe. \n\nI also recommend that he only come up for a short time--no more than a couple days, because if it turns out that you don't get along as well in person, you aren't stuck with them for too long. And, of course, if it turns out you do get along well, you can just arrange another meeting.
878471
look, there's no complication here; nature is taking it's rightful course.\n\nany questions you have, the answer is 'you're about to find out.' It's not up to us strangers to opinionate on the situation unless we know him.\n\nIt seems obvious that you're likable and that he likes you but he's intensions can't be obvious without hindsight so you'll just have to trust your judgement and your heart, all that's left for us to do is wish you all the best :-)\n\ngood luck!!
1048723
Question is hard to answer because, sometimes when you meet someone online you have to ask the right questions. If you have a standard stick with your standard and let him know your standard and then explain to him based off your visit there are some things is his life that does not go with your standard of what your man will be. You cannot hurt him if you are honest with what you are looking for. You will not waste your time nor his time. Good Luck!
170243
after 2 weeks, true love seems a bit of a stretch to me.  Especially since you haven't met him in person yet.  He sounds very nice, so I say go for it.  Just make sure that you meet him in a very public place and be safe.  Good Luck!