why do we love our mother?
540633
she had a lot of pain giving birth to you...she worked all the initial years more than anyone else int he world taking care of you..love is the least thing you can do
227623
Of course!\nI love my wife and my mom. That's two!
418273
because we want to make our parents happy
578051
Carrying me inside her for 9 months..taking care untill i was capable of taking care of myself..fogiving me all the time...making me realize why i should respect other human beings...Showing me how the world loves u back if u spread love..i can go on and on and on and still be left so much to say...\n\nAnd this is not just my mother..every mother on this earth is same as mine..THe best and the Greatest..\nGod bless all mothers..\nHappy Mother's Day MOM!!!
1048498
That's what mom's do...and it's probably because she loves you and worries about you!!
574855
I understand what you're getting at, but blackjaguar215 has a valid point in that it would be nearly impossible give you your five reasons even if it wasn't a mythological entity. For example, can you give five reasons why you love your mother that aren't things she has done for you? I'm not suggesting you only love your mother because she has done things for you, just that the whole point of "love" is that there are no specific reasons for it; it just is. \n\nSo giving five reasons why you love God would be just as unanswerable. However, I've heard lots of religionists say they love God BECAUSE he has done x, y, and z for them; this is either because they are misusing the word "love" or because they really DO have a purely self-centered understanding of God. \n\nEither way, you can't get around the problem by asking for specific reasons.\n\n-----\nOkay, I retract the part about not being able to give five selfless reasons why you love your mother. That did turn out to be logically possible. \n\nIn fact, I retract my whole objection to this question. If someone knew the actual attributes of God, they could give 5 reasons to love him based on his own merits, instead of what he provides for them. The reason no one can answer this question is because no one knows any of God's actual characteristics, merely that he's "really great" in a vague sort of way and he gives them stuff.
248152
A mother is very connected to their children and they spend a lot of their life protecting and nurturing them.  That creates a bond that is very deep and established over a very long amount of time.  It is hard for a mom to let go because that bond has become such a large part of who she is.  Mom's come to rely on that bond to always be there for them and as a part of their lives.  When a son gets married, that bond is broken and the moms life and relationship with her some are forever altered.  Sure she wants him to grow up and be happy, but she doesn't want to be disconnected and shut out of her sons life.  Some times though that is what happens, but most of the time eventually the mother and son establish a new bond and share that bond with the daughter in law.
265279
Your mother is very puzzled. You will have to be patient. Parents are difficult to live with at times partly because they are comparing you to their expectations and hopes and partly because the norms of their generation are slightly different.\nAt the moment your mother is struggling with the idea. She will probably feel embarassed and maybe ashamed. How will she explain this to her friends?\nI have no doubt that she does love you.
877120
Sweetie, it's not just that she loved you; she had issues--big ones.  This is not normal behavior.  It's possible that she projected her own conscience upon you, because she suffered from overwhelming guilt from her past actions; she may have been similarly affected by her own mom.  This is a psychological problem.  Now that you've moved out of the house, please consider counseling so that your experience will not negatively affect your own future relationships.   If or when it's possible, it might help your mother if you could talk her into counseling, for her own good... because she's probably going through a massive amount of emotions right now, especially rejection.  Pray for the woman, and try to love her as much as you can while still maintaining your own distance, regaining your perspective, and living your own life.  God bless you!
168640
This is a great question.  If your mom really does love you, then I'm sure she would be happy to sit down and discuss things with you.  Perhaps you should try asking her why she doesn't hug you or tell you that she loves you.  Sometimes people really DO love you, but they have a hard time saying it or showing it.  Other times, people become too absorbed in the matters of their own life that they tend to ignore the obvious need of loving their own child.  If you find that your mom really doesn't love you, then you must realize that this is her issue, her problem, and her short-coming, and NOT a reflection of you.  You are loveable because you are a human on this planet.  You will find loving people as you grow and make new relationships.  Some people experience and give love easily and other people will use love in the wrong way and abuse or harm others.  Choose your future relationships wisely and don't just run to the first person who loves you.  If your mother does not love you, then look for some support and love in another meaningful adult, aunt, grandmother, friend's mother or neighbor.  It sounds like you're a great kid with a lot of great reassons to be loved!!
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i love ma self... cuz i feel nobody elz in the world except GOD loves yu truly.\ni\nso why not love thyself .. so yu can love others.. love nature.. love everythin elz..\n love ma self d way im .. nuts,crazy,shout a lot,do woteva stupid stufs,funny.. i love ma self... i love ma eyez...\nGOD bless ya\nT.
185442
OF COURSE!!!\nI love my parents for so many reasons. For being there. For helping me. For teaching me. For caring for me. For creating me. For loving me. For buying everything for me. For not getting mad. For listening to me. For standing up for me. For influencing me. For cheering me on. For telling me I Can Do It. For standing there beside me. For lending a shoulder to cry on. For lecturing me to make me a better person. For tucking me in. For reading stories to me. For being understanding through those tempered teen years. For teaching me morals. For washing my clothes. For always telling me the truth. For telling me whats good for me. For shopping with me. For going on endless trips with me. For forgiving me. For laughing at my stupid jokes. For cooking me good food. For providing me with a shelter. For prevent me from feelign very lonely. For always telling me im beautiful. For believing in me. For having hope in me. For doing their best for my future. For assuring me that they'll always be there. For loving me unconditionally. For...everything. I love my parents so much.
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It's late in her life--later than she'd planned and this is something you can do out of the goodness of your heart.  It will make her feel better, and you will feel better in the long run for having done it.\n\nI'm divorced and remarried with a son from my first marriage.  I always encouraged my son to love his mother no matter what she had done, no matter how hard it was to forgive her for it.  Because you can always forgive someone.  \n\nPeople say stupid things when they think they have the time and the latitude to be stupid.  That's where your mom was when she told you things she should never have even thought much less said.\n\nForgive her.  Let her go to her eternity in as much peace as you can give her.  You will be rewarded in your heart if not in other ways.
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My mom just passed away may 20th, My mom was a wonderful, loving, kind person with a fantastic sense of humor, everyone liked her! She would talk to just about anyone, complete strangers, She was still young and full of life with a weak heart, she was a mother, grandmother, wife several times, best friend, daughter, aunt, cousin, she was just about everything at some point in her life. My mother was more than a mom to me, she was my absolute best friend, my confident, my copilot, my  teacher ,manager,  doctor, etc...I am sure you must get it, she was everything to me. My mom was one of a kind that is for sure, her unique laugh and smile, personality, I am my mothers daughter! To know her was to love her!
325416
Your mother is still a human being, she may think you hate her, and imagine if the person you love more than anything started hating you.  How would you feel?  My mother and I have a very rocky past, but In the end, a simply, tear-filled, "I love you" gets the point across.  It sounds like she has her hands full with the house, and is hurt about how you acted.  On the other hand, it also sounds like she isn't quite as forgiving as she should be.  But like I said, she is only human.  I think it is the hardest part of growing up when you find out your mom isn's SuperMom, but a person with her own doubts and feelings.  Hug her, tell her you love her, and walk away.  Just walk away and let her calm down.  Clean a bit, but do it when she isn't looking, since you don't want her to think you are only doing it to get on her good side.  You aren't.  You are doing it because you care...
597579
The best ever gift that u can gift to ur mother on a mother' day is to be urself a good mother so that she feels proud to be ur mother.
1024824
Why would you want to forget your mother?