What if you had a friend that liked to go back and tell bad things others have said about you?
538063
that not good. you have to find out and experience for yourself the really truth without your friend.
2959
Depends on what they did... my first guess would be that they feel guilty about doing what they did... and since you seem to know about it, you could be a constant reminder of the thing this person did.... bottom line, your friend needs to come clean and tell someone about it before their guilt consumes them... and you need to be a true friend and stick by their side... no matter how much you think this person hates you. Whatever you do, dont take the blame for something someone else did... make them be responsible and mature and make the right decision.
1036694
don't worry about what she said. you know whatever it is isnt true and if the people she told are your friends, then they also know the truth. she's obviously very insecure and jealous and starving for attention. people might take her side for a little while but dont get too upset because they'll learn what a little liar she is and you will have all ur friends back. just keep on being nice to her and it will make her look stupid.
775087
someone made up some story about you. they probabely told him that you dont like him or something. Or said that you told him that he is a pain or some ridiculous thing like that. and if you ask him he will just say, "you know exactly why im not talking to you" right??
961287
for 1 if the person talks about others then they will talk about you.No I wouldn't join them I would actually say something like this.I'm sorry ,but i really don't want to here things about her or him.I know that person and if u have something you need to say then tell her because I don't like it when somone is talking about someone I know behind there back.Wheathere you know the person or not it's not nice to talk behind someones back.
363433
Wow, that was a really long question.\n\nAnyway, here's the bottom line. If she betrays your trust like that, she's not your friend. Real friends do not do hurtful things to one another, and stealing and gossiping about your private thoughts are hurtful. I would recommend confronting her, and telling her how you feel. Tell her that what she did was wrong and that it violated the trust you once shared. Don't yell, scream, get angry or violent, or upset in any way. From what I can tell, she did what she did to get revenge, and seeing you upset is what she will want. Other than that, you should probably find a new best friend, but maybe if you tell her how you feel, she'll realize that what she did hurt you, and if she really cares about you, she'll feel sorry and hopefully apologize. I've done stupid, unkind, impulsive things to my friends, and felt terrible afterwards. If she wants a second chance, give it to her, but keep in mind that in any case, trusting her completely is probably a bad move in the future. As for wanting to leave the state, I know how that feels, but if people tease you about the gossip this false friend spread, just laugh about it, ignore them... they're not real friends. Kids can be cruel, but the best thing to do is to avoid seeking revenge, go on with your life, and don't let it bring you down. I'm sure you're a sweet person who deserves better!
486676
This, of course, is one of those nasty things you think about but never do. It really depends on the person. Generally, whatever would humiliate them the most or cause their reputation to change for the worse.
288953
You can  tell them that it is not good to do. and its bad for them to to it. Also you can still be there friend if u want too or not. Its up you.
168476
tell them you and your friend was fighting and you got embarrassed by some things that was said and just had to get away. Because it really upset you.
920219
I had a friend a long time ago who got jealous of me and said some really mean things behind my back...... and also to me, ON THE COMPUTER. She said things that only described herself.... a s l u t , etc. She was the one who flirted with guys and slept with everyone. I just thought it was amusing when she told me that. In person, she acted like she never said any of those things and acted like we were friends. I'd ignore her.\n\nJust because you know someone for several years doesn't mean they're your friend. I learned that the hard way. Oh well.\n\nShe was easily replaceable LOL.
435350
Someone that talks bad about you to others is not a friend! forget him and find true friends. Good luck!
1183657
go ahead and tell the worst that could happen is ur friend will hate u the rest of ur life, but u can find another friend.
683800
would any of your friends lie to you or would they tell you the truth if the problem was switched around. what would you want the truth or a lie. \n\n\nyeah it may hurt you and them but it is better if its now and not later because if you hold you peace and she finds out later then she will never trues you again if she finds out that you knew about it. if you don't tell your risking your friendship, and if you tell the only thing will happen is that they may get upset, but in time they will thank you for being honest. i know that its not easy and it wont get any easier i wish i could tell you that it will but that will be lying.
98345
Depends on whether that person knew and did it anyway.  And what you did to stop that.\n\nIf the person did it knowingly, then I would speak to them.  Maybe they were trying to edge you on to do interact with the person.  If you didn't do anything except sulk then you should do a paradigm shift and think what you could have done.  For instance, you could have cut in.  Unless the person is a jerk, they would oblige.\n\nBut definitely talk (not argue or berate, at least at first) with your best friend.
626713
I think the main reason why "friends" talk about you behind your back is because they either don't like you or there's something about you that they don't like. There are other reasons as well why they talk about you behind your back. Those so-called people whom you called "friends" talk about you behind your back, they are not your friends. Friends do not bad mouth each other and they're there for one another. People talk about other people regardless, and it is up to us to not be so concerned of what they think. I learned in life to pick and choose your friends carefully. If they want to be a part of your life, be a positive influence, picks you up when you're down, and they're there for you, that is a friend. Don't worry about the fact that those people talk about you. Be who you are and stay that way. DO NOT change yourself for nobody.
564782
HUH?  Tell you friends something you know they'll judge you for?? is that the question?\n\nIf they know you well enough, of course they'll already judge you... but its the honest answer they should be giving you.
642026
When   people talk about other people to you, say nothing back.  They will soon stop talking bad about people to you completely,  and they will look at you differently,    in a good way! It really works!