WHY DO people & HOW CAN I  get treated different (better or worse) because they are unique?
540108
Get us to it. As a female working in Engineering I get all kinds of looks and whispers. I just laugh about it. But some of it can be hurtful and make me mad. It is life and part of human nature to be that way.
214619
no ones perfect...not everyone can be the best..i feel complexes make u become like that...to avoid this everyone should be equally appreciated for who they are..and no  comparisons should be made
1035635
Because we are all different...that is the way we are suppose to be.  \n\nit is hard to understand other's beause we are not them.
914926
I think sometimes they are defensive to a point of irrationality.  My guess is that it's not  on purpose but rather it's become a habit!  I think that when you feel different you are different...usually because you want to break the patterns that annoy you about you!
197170
Truthfully no one is normal because everyone is weird to someone, everyone is unique so therefore no it's impossible for anyone to find someone normal.But for the person to be normal in your eyes well that depends on what you consider to be normal. It's just a very dependent question
678351
no everyone has different ways of coping with there problems not saing u have one but it is not wrong. some people may judge u but everyone makes mistakes. don't worry about them haters
1126829
Well, it is never easy to change! Just try to be more tough, to make people respect you and do not let anyone to use you, because of that you are too good! It is not fair.....
626258
Usually it's because other people don't understand a person who's different so then they'll say that the person is weird or some other dumb comments.Instead of embracing someone who's unique or different.I look at this way it's refreshing to meet some one with different views on things,If we were all the same the world would be very boring and there would no adventure to look forward to in the day.
146933
Just be yourself and don't worry about ignorant people who think they are better than you. These people have to degrade you to make themselves feel better. Let them call you names, joke about how you function in the world, and laugh at your personality,etc., it's just their way of turning the spotlight away from themselves because they are afraid if you look too closely at "them", you may find a few flaws. If they would turn on their brights, they would realize everyone is different; has bad points and good points; and acceptance brings people closer. Maybe they are just sooooo unhappy, they want to drag you down to their dungeon to suffer with them. Try extending an olive branch or making a peace offering, and if that does not work, forget about them, do your own thing, and sooo politely tell them to kiss your arse.   \nP.S.  I am a Redneck, shhhhhh....don't tell anybody!!(:
1159431
They sound like losers.  Maybe you need to ask yourself how you deserve to be treated. People will treat you the way that you let them.  You deserve to be treated with respect and kindness.  Go make a list of all the great qualities that you have. If you need help, then ask your best friends to help you out.  What would you tell your best friend if she/he were being treated like this? Would you tell them to stay and take it? No, get out and insist on being treated well!
929558
Because you are not truely being unique!!  You think being unique means  it requires the opinion of others. Negative or positive, why would you value an opinion of someone you"know" dosen't understand you? You therefore put yourself with the biggest majority on earth.  The whiners, and sad individuals who in your''uniqueness''  expects/demands  acceptence you can't even bless yourselves with???? Maybe we just value and appreciate your space enough not to hassle or acknowledge the difference.  Is your being different my responcibility, or your personal joy?  I grant you joy, yet you resent that. Why?  What do you care of the entire human race in their uniqueness? If you're just looking to be different...Too late we're all different. or can you not tolerate  everyone's uniqueness?  Don't be unique to conform to a group. That will never work. I applaud your desire to stand up-and out, but I refuse to take the blame if it doesn't work for you.Being unique is to  just be f***ing human in the best way we know.  How much have YOU admired my differences?Who do you even know?  I feel your pain and I hope one of us can share the way. Sincerely!  IF you truely want to be unique, try on some love, instead of clothes that grab attention you say you don't want. Maybe the new expression could be...."walk a mile in my thong?''  Idon't know and that makes me unique. Huh? Curiosity does not spell hatered o k?\nI honestly don't judge you,nor begrudge you. I am facinated by a different approach on life's journey, but do you ever think you'll find a space in your world to share? You as a human are already truely TRUELY unique! Can you still trust?  Love. Sha
279594
Sweetie, revel in being unique. In the world of copycats, and posers, it refreshing to know that a few do their own thing. People are intimidated by anyone who isn't like them, and often see being original as a threat. Be true to yourself, and disregard others remarks. Peace
808517
People probably think of you as a goodie goodie and feel like they can't be themselves around you.  They don't think you'll be tolerate it if they curse, or drink, or act obnoxious.  They probably think you'll judge them so they just steer clear of you and flock to their own kind.  Just find some kids with the same values as you, like at church or something.  Don't change who you are by all means!!!!  Stay virtuous.  The world is in need of people like you!
373264
because some people are afraid to pay attention to a few little details and to get to know people who are a little different than themselves...
440991
You should keep in mind that there are a lot of people who are much much more worse off than you! Think about what you have, not what you don't!
905650
Yes it is, look at it this way, God made you unique. Everyone else is pretty much the same and let's face it, boring, you are special in that you have something no one that you know has, at least that you know of.\nmy dad had his leg amputated in WW2, he brought up all us kids to celebrate our uniqueness. It is a strength we have inside or God would have passed it on to someone else.\nI say, God made you perfect and as far as I know, He is the only one who has never made a mistake.\nGod Bless!
1142277
Some people get insecure or fearful around others who are not like they are. They attack the one who is different, to help them feel better about themselves and their decisions (which actually probably means they are not secure in their own decision or choice).