Should I slap my best friend?
536106
you should kick her a-s-s!!! you know what you should call your so call "best friend" a b-i-t-c-h, s-l-u-t, h-o-e, and a h-o-r-e!!!
437147
Here is a defining moment in your life.. \nPut yourself in your friends shoes.. as exciting as it may be to be you right now.. \nHOW would you feel if the sitch was reversed.. NOT too fun to get screwed over by your best friend and boyfriend.. \nDO you become a good person, and decide your BEST friend is more important to you then a guy.. \nOR do you become a beotch (sorry, but that is what you would be) and take your best friends man with no regard for her, or her feelings.. I'm saying.. That would be pretty fu**cked up on your part.. (actually what you're doing right now is pretty f**ked up in itself.. just plotting )to do it.. YOU should be more of a friend then that.. And just remember Karma is a beotch, and who's to say he wont leave you for one of your friends.. ?
770115
This is so wierd because I am in this same situation right now. I mean to the tee. What i have found is that if you value your best friends friendship, then you should just leave him alone. I mean you and him can still be friends but you need to discuss with him that there is a line there and in order to avoid any hurt feeling, that line should not and will not be crossed. it's tough but you can do it. Its just unfortunate that you didn't get to him first.
557365
First of all I'd say that he isn't your best friend. A best friend would NEVER rape their friend!\n\nYou need to ditch him, get him out of your life. Tell him flat out that you are not comfortable with what he did. He needs to know that if he tries anything like that again, or comes around you that you'll report him to the police.
41889
I have a best friend that sometimes we couldnt be more alike, but sometimes I dont know about her. You just have to step back and ask yourself if the situation is really worth it or. Even best friends are different people with different opinions you just gotta let her have her space and recognize when a fight is about to erupt and whether its worth it. I just laugh at my best friend later on. Like girl, what was....THAT ..all about anyway..lol:)Just chill and walk away when ya have to ..It'll be alright
534019
Ask her what it is she really hates about him- it might be something you really need to know.  After all, if she is your best friend, she knows you really well.  Have a good think about what she says, because she might really be aware he is wrong for you and would rather go than upset you, so ask while you have the chance, and good luck (you can still text and call, and e-mail???)
106369
It matters if you're going out because you love him, or for revenge. If for revenge, please dump him LIGHTLY. "I'm sorry, I'm just not ready" should do the trick. If because you love him, try to exaplain that to your best friend. But if you even once find yourself doing something with him for revenge to her, I suggest you let him go.\n\nGood luck!!! ^^
852874
WHAT!!!\nHow can she tell u off for dancing with her best friends if shes getting a$s slapped by random guys!! easy or what!! she doesnt deserve you mate. DUMP HER. you deserve waaaay better.
421889
You need to be upfront and honest with your Best Friend. Let her now how you feel.  But you are still calling her your best friend so maybe if the two of you talked about what makes you uncomfortable about still being friends, it can be worked out!  But make sure you are honest with her.  Just because you don't have the same beliefs as her doesn't mean you need to disrepect her and her disrepect you.  Good luck to you!
1154444
talk to both of them, not at the same time.  first try to work things out with the friend thats like a brother.  fix things there before its too late.  then go bacl to your so- called Best friend and talk to her. ask her why she betrayed you. try to work on it. you can still be friends. i just wouldnt trust her as much as you used to
651179
If your best friend is really a true friend, she'll be happy for you. There shouldn't be any problem between the two of you. She's probably happy that at least one of you two got him. If you like the guy, then maybe you should accept.
960365
I don't think that u should breakup your friendship just because that she buys the same shirts and stuffs.... I mean come on.... real friendship does not stop on shirts  ..if  she cares about u and helps u whenever u need help, then she is really a best friend..\n\nif she is not....then I do not blame u of not being her best friend
206569
I was in love with my best friend and I told him. He didn't feel the same way as I did but that didn't hurt our relationship either, it actually brung us closer and our bond grew because of it. It's a huge risk to tell her but if you really feel strong enough, I say go for it. Who knows, your best friend could always become the best girlfriend you ever had and if nothing else at least she will understand how much you care about her.
161525
Yes, you need to talk to him about how you feel.  Admit that you've tried to be ok with his friendship with this person but as much as you try you really aren't ok with it.  Your suposed to be his best friend now, not her and if your uncomfortable with the relationship he has with her he should be willing and want to end it in order not to ruin what you two have.
776625
I would first of all go with option B and if it happens again i would choose option A and me and my bestfriend would kick his slimy little a s s!\n\n=)
1129447
Physical violence does not equal friendship in my book.  This friend isn't a friend, but a bully.  You have another friend. Go hang out with her.  Obviously you know that what your supposed friend is doing is wrong because you are writing about it here.  Stand up for yourself against this girl: tell her to leave you alone, tell her to stop hitting you - and mean it! Tell an adult who can help you with this situation.  Friends don't hit/kick/bite/slap/spit or commit other forms of violence against friends.
228656
Oh wow, tough situation. It would help a little with these type of questions if people told how old they are. If you all are adutls though, just let her know how you feel. Also your best friend doesn't sound like too good of a friend if you even think he might say yes. But then again, maybe he doesn't know how you really feel about her? You should tell him. Real friends wouldn't do things to hurt others. Also, maybe you acted all cool or whatever when you broke up so she thinks you won't care? Honesty and straight-forward communication is always the best policy in every relationship. If she doesn't love you back that's rough but at least you can try to move on. It's a fact of life that at some point we will probably like someone who doesn't like us back and vice versa. It's not pleasant but it's also a good reminder to treat others how you want to be treated...karma can come back and bite you in the butt!