what does a lady find more arousing......?
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Slowly undressing me kissing me all the while and letting your fingers dance across my body.  Then slowly kissing and caressing, working your way down.  The slower the better.  Feeling like you appreciate me being there and every part of me.  Then good hands and tongue where it counts, that of course is good.
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Hmmm.....and I thought I was one of FEW!  I LOVE watching/hearing/seeing/helping a guy jack off.  Could it BE any hotter?  I fantasize about which hand a guy might use, how he does it, what he thinks about, etc....\nBesides actual sex, that's the BIGGEST turn on for me!  I always tell my husband, If I'm ever NOT in the mood, start stroking, and I'd be instantly WET!!!!!  \nHey, guys enjoy watching a woman play solo too!!!!
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yeah but i get bored after 3 and prefer to have a sexy woman under me.....
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What turns ME on is just seeing my hubby's back.. he has a nice broad back with fantabulous shoulders, and I love his thick arms (not muscley shiny nasty arms). What also turns me on is seeing him get out of the shower... not seeing him him.. my eyes always wander down *wink wink*. Doesn't take much to turn me on really, I have a fantabulous sex drive. There's this ONE face he makes when he says "sucka", he knows that once he says that, I'll be all over him :oD
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A girl who has a sense of humor and knows how to pun on words is a favorite of mine.  I'm currently good friends with a girl (in fact, she called me this afternoon) who is the prettiest thing I've seen in a long while, but she is so open, it's hard not to talk to her.  So I guess I'm saying somebody who is very attractive but won't stop at the first guys who give her attention.  I also like the ones that don't have a whole lot of friends, because those are the mysterious ones and mysterious ones are always a treasure.\n\nI also like long hair and eyes that you could look at for eternity and never see all of them.  I've said this a couple of times that a girl with a tongue (pink and wet) who knows how to use it is a definite turn on  If you happen to be licking an ice cream cone or licking your fingers and see a guy watching you with a tent pole in his pants, it's probably me.\n\nHaving or not having a lot of money is not an issue with me.\n\nSimilar likes and dislikes are also a turn on for me.  If you want me, I've left my clues...
756754
What do I find more sexually appealing in men than in women?  Everything.  Their bodies, the way they look & feel, and it's just what comes natural (the desire to be with a man)
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u'd better asked what makes a girl hot....
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Most guys like to hear about your fantasies while you get it on. It's good to hear that your lady is human and sometimes doesn't think just about you. We men don't expect to be the only thing in your life that turns you on and are genuinely interested in hearing about the rest. It helps us to please you better and can bring a little rollplay into your bedroom antics!
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I want a woman that is comfortable in EITHER role.\n\nOne that feels like she can INITIATE... or be WOOED.  (or the old.... "coax me")
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i love it when I'm approached b a women\nits such a turn on,why don't more of you do it?
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What turns me on is to satisfy a woman in bed... if that means taking control then so be it!
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she wants you to get her something YOU would like her to wear. She wants you to have to think about her in each outfit you look at and decide which thought turned you on most. Women don't always just know what turns a man on, you have to help a little bit....GL;)
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I love being ticklish and having women tickle me. It's fun and intimate. If anything, it's a plus.
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BOTH>... sometimes it seems like woman don't enjoy it as much as men is because the man doesn't do enough to make the woman satisfied in bed... if he does than the woman would want it too... coz its pleasuring... so it all depends on how much the partner is satisfied.
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A woman who wants to make love to me as much as I want her.  Losing ourselves in passion.  There are no games, no plans, no reasons, just the dedeniable passion to want to satisfy each other.  And then to eat everything in the fridge, talk and play, and do it all over again.\nYup, that about sums it up.
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I am sure she gets off on it.  (Speaking personally, of course!)  Not only do you enjoy it, but when she's doing it, let her know what it is that makes it better for you.  If you think about it, I am sure you have certain areas and certain techniques that you have preference for.  If she is doing it for her own pleasure as well, this will help make it more enjoyable for both.
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Never be embarresed out something that you can have fun with in the bedroom or anywhere for that matter. This is something that you should introduce to him or her in a fun way by suggesting they try this on you and then let them know that this is a turn on for you...