im getting married in 3 weeks 3 days but still like porn,is that normal/ok?
537455
ya its normal what couple doesnt like porn duh
377630
PORN ROCKS!!!!! as you get older it gets better . once your married you have to hide it ... but i still watch it when the wifes asleep
200036
Don;t get married until your done with the wild streak people get these days otherwise you will be unhappy. And make sure your marrying the right one and not a jacka$$
720486
i think u should definitely watch porn together. me and my husband use to do and i can assure u it makes sex a lot more funny ;)
43663
Nothing wrong with that, Dude!  It's what makes us married guys stay with our wives.  THe better your imagination, the longer you will find your wife attractive :-)  Also can make the "session" over more quickly - allowing you to get more sleep.
340849
For me its really quality over quantity. Sometimes real fast, hard and passionate is great. Its all about variety. If its fast all the time, thats a problem but if its a GOOD fifteen to twenty minutes sometimes, thats fine. As long as its balanced out by some hour long sessions at other times. I think average is about 30 to 45 minutes including foreplay.
904095
no.... it's just fantasy and not reality... that's all porn is, is he with you or them??? who does he lay down by every night and have sex with??? If you answered you to both questions- then stop thinking the porn is anything other then fantasy and yes all guys do it and yes it's normal... Instead of worry, join in it and tap into some of them fantasies he has....
806064
I'm in the same boat as you and think you should keep away from fornication. Waiting until your wedding night really shows your new wife that you have waited your entire life to be with her. Sex has nothing to do with love; it is lust and really shouldn't be a factor outside of marriage because both participants know fine well after they have sex they have nothing moer they can give to one another. Outside of wedlock shows they are struggling to keep their relationship going. I know I may sound ignorant but thats the way I see things, it's the way I raised myself. Thinking of showing my devotion to my future (hopefully) wife rather than pleasing my own lust.
629000
i am 27 and i'm getting married in 3 months, and i am a virgin and i am very proud of it and....\nu are pretty blessed to be that way... pls keep yourself, its worth it!!!! men, with all their bragging and all, love ladies who have kept themselves. they trust u more. keep it up till ur wedding night ok?\ncheers!
564867
PLEASE FOR GOD'S SAKE ... NEVER DO IT .. YOU WILL FEEL JUST LIKE WHAT I FELT WHEN I GET USED TO IT .. THAT I BECAME A MERE ANIMAL.. IT'S UNNATURAL .. SEX IN MARRIAGE IS HOLY SUPPORTING THE MARITAL HOLY LOVE .. BUT WHAT IT WOULD BE FOR TO DO IT IN 3 SOME.. MERE ANIMAL ACTION .. \nBELIEVE OR YOU WILL REGRET .. \nIT'S MERE DEGREDATION AND HUMILIATION OF YOUR HUMANITY
828254
I don't know about you sweetie, but an addiction is an addiction, and he is addicted.  Marriage is Respect, Admiration Passion and Trust.  For sure the first two are not there, since this is grinding on you.  And Passion is a bit tuff, if he oogles 13 year old girls on the computer,,, eeewwwwww.   You may trust him not to betray you by cheating, but hey, I trust my dog too. You don't have a marriage, you just don't know it yet.  You have a rommate..... Porn addiction is about the toughest thing of all to cure. ..... next question is why did you marry this jerk???? and in my eyes, any guy addicted to porn is a jerk.  How do you not find this disgusting????  And why are you still there????  In your place, I'd dump him and get out of this marriage.....You'll only grow to resent this crap as the years go on.... If you have children, you want this guy to be their father?????Sorry, sweetie, you asked
834778
I do know where you are coming from,and i am not sure how long you have been with you`re fiancee.But having a sence of humour when you are dealing with men is some times best !I say 2 things ,one at least he is`nt doing anything with a another human behide you`re back and 2 it would be so more shocking if it was a channel for the opposite sex !\nIf it was me i would get him back in a wee matter ,but not going to far just see how he likes it ,take a real look at the next fit guy that walks pass both of you .When some hunk comes on telly just say "hes  alright" It just seem strange to us woman because we are not in to porn in any way ,but if you accept it ,and be cool he will love you more !If you want ,ask him why he likes it so much and may do things in your`re relation ship that you haven`t yet explored !But to be honest in life if you are`nt meant to do something it makes it more daring and naughty ,once you accept it and may even say can i watch one with you ,it will be come boring to him and he will stop ,as it is`nt naughty behide you`re back stuff ,and if he does big deal ,as you can please him for real !!!
6852
Hun, i know what you are going through, I have been there done that and get this, i am not even married....my fiancee and i have been living together for almost a year now, engaged for almost 2 and yes, the sex drive has gone from 100 to 0...for him, not for me, it's still strong as ever. when i asked he always told me he was tired or just wanted to cuddle or something like that, so yeah, i know how you feel. i am sad to report however that he was hiding something from me....his addiction to porn....he'd rather look at pics and vids than be with me...pretty low huh? well anyways, we are still together and trying to work through the issues and yes things are looking up....so just hang in there and hopefully things will start to get better!
484856
I think if you're living with someone, it's perfectly acceptable to be having sex.  After all, you're in a healthy, committed relationship that's one step away from engagement/marriage.  The only thing missing is a certificate.\n\nWith that said, no I don't feel I need to refrain and... 67 days.
543745
I don't think it means you are a Lesbian or bi-sexual,I think alot of women out there Like looking at pictures of women and there are alot that find watching a porn with a woman on woman scene is arousing,but it does not make them Lesbians,I will watch porn with my fiancee and get turned on by 2 women,but that does not mean I am going to go be with a woman,I have never and I do not plan on ever being with a woman in a sexual situation,so I think you are normal,just more honest about your feelings than some women.
1055772
Probably not nervous per say, just anxious for it all to be over so you can begin your new life with your beautiful bride.  Congrats!!!
425102
Oh my God, yes!  It is totally normal.  A guy who hasn't looked at porn in his life and not gotten turned on is a genetic freak.  \n\nMy guy is only home on weekends and I look at porn all the time and discuss it with him.  It's better to have him look at porn then to have him seek out the real thing, don't you think?