Why do black men love fat white women?
539844
i grew up around black people i am white and used to be over weight. i used to see a lot of black dudes going with white chicks because they used to say the fatty whitties ain't getting nothing else and had lower self esteem then the black fatties and gave less trouble, here in america it is more exceptable to be a druggie then a fattie. plus when you look at it fat people tend to have lower self esteems hense the reason they keep eating. comming from a former fattie myself but what i did was get some excercise loose the weight and married me an arab! so not all fat white women would want to be with a white man or a black man or spanish etc.. to each his or her own!!!!
1088335
No. I'm not black and I love big booty. This is a cultural preference, not a racial one. Latin guys sometimes share this preference. I'm not Latin. But truly exaggerated big bottoms are not sexy, they are fat! Fat lazy women are not a turn on, and, I doubt fat lazy guys turn you or other women on. Skinny is also cultural, and has been rammed down our throats by those powers who sell "high fashion" or "diet pills" Beauty has always been in the eye of the beholder, and has changed through the ages. Rubens, a famous painter, like them voluptuous, creating the descriptive turn, "Rubenesque." By the way, why do you ask?
351594
Look what is wrong with some of you peoples answers? I mean shesh everybody has there diffrent point of veiw when it comes to dateing a big woman. I am a big woman and I weigh about 175lbs. I have a sexy good looking, well built man. Yes he is black of course most black men like big women. White men are wimps when it comes to dateing big women. I am white and I stick with my black man.\n\nMy advice is either you find a decent white man which I doubt you can find. Or find yourself a good black man to keep and make sure he is not a player, or pimp also.
58373
if youre really really fat lose weight, men dont mind women being a little overweight but very few except weirdo chubby chasers desire obese women sorry  but its true.
1094150
Because a lot black men are intimidated by strong, educated sistahs. They equate light skin with a certain dumbness that makes them (the brothas) feel superior. \n\nThe ones who date solely white women do so because as a rule, white women are taught to fear black men, therefore, causing them to please these men in every way possible to keep them from becoming upset. \n\nOne brotha told me once that the reason he dates white women is that they have flat butts, which makes it easier for ..... <you-know what>.
49855
I have many reasons : Denzel Washington, Will Smith, Dr Benton (ER), Dr Burke (Grey's Anatomy)...That really hot guy who sat across from me in highschool math...Oh the list goes on and on...\n\nWhy aren't I with a black man? Cause the guy I married happened to be white.\n\nI do agree that many white women like to look at black men from afar, but don't want to get close. There still is a social stigma to interracial coupling (as evidenced by the previous poster), for whatever reason. In part, I think it might be that to a 'white girl' a black man is rather intimidating up close. I live in a very small, rural town in nothern Illinois, with, literally, no 'people of color'. The first time I went into Chicago, I was 15 and amazed at how tall some of those men are! It was a system shock for sure...
84106
Good lord look around you. There are lots of woman that are not only attracted to heavy men but are marring them as well. People are attracted to others for many reasons and believe it or not but looks do not always matter. Whats inside a person is what is really important.
584804
The world is has alot of haters and men will always love a skinny women before a thick one which sux for them,cause but doing that you can never find the good and beatiful qualities ever women has.
150407
I don't know if any statistics support the premise of this question, but what I've observed agrees with what you say.\n\nI think it has to do with the "power-dynamics" between men and women, and the perceived "concessions" made by each combination.\n\nBlack women were always "taken" (i.e. raped) by white men. White women were always "forbidden" to (i.e. "too good" for) black men. \n\nSo, except in the case of the *truly* open-minded, it is easier for a black man to pursue and enter into a relationship with a white woman, than for a black woman to condescend to give herself to a white man.\n\nFor the black man it can be seen as gaining something "desirable," while for a black woman, it is much more difficult, and might be perceived as, lowering herself, by "giving herself" to the oppressor.
571750
Probably because society just wants to make black people more insecure. They screwed with whities head, and now they spend zillions of dollars on wieght loss crap that only weakens their bodies so that Jewish doctors can rake in the cash for heart surgery. Honestly, black women spit in the faces of the oppressor....good job! You can tell them to kiss your big fat black a$$.
674662
i am thick and i must say that black men appreciate us more, I am not nasty fat, just is all the right places.  White men just don't seem like they can handle all that
885134
I think that is awesome, I am a white guy and love black women but have never had the chance to date one because most black girls i have met dont like white guys. That is weird that it is more acceptable when it is a white chick and a black guy, but it sure seems that way. No it is not weird, we like who we like. Thats just the way it is.
243290
I don't think that is the case. i think you just notice white females with black males more often the single race couples. Everyone has a prefrence, but you can't help who you fall in love with, or who you are sexually attracted to.
464433
I believe I, as a Black man,have a much different idea of what is beautiful.\nBy European standards my choices may seem odd but I believe I look much deeper at a woman than my European or white counterpart.\nWhere whites may look for thin women I look for women who are "healthy".After much consideration I believe this is because I prefer an equal as oppose to some one I can control.\nThe difference between a show wife and one with rough edges is the ability to be there through thick and thin.\nI believe I have a tendency to look for a woman who will be able to carry my offspring with relatively little problems and raise that child with authority when I am at work.This is all on a sub-conscience level but I believe it is my motivation for choosing a woman and the reason I an attracted to certain types of women.\nThere is the rock hard beauty of diamonds and there is the warm beauty of the sunrise.I prefer the beauty of the sunrise.\nI hope this will set your mind at ease.
1005428
I don't see the big deal.  If white women are dating all the black men, why can't black women date white men, Mexicans, etc?  Plus I feel like a lot of the black women who are upset by seeing a white woman with a black man have issues with themselves.  Seriously, there are pleny of black men.  If you can't find one re-evaluate yourself.
349567
I see absolutely nothing wrong with it...i am a white woman and i am very open-minded. i have dated black, white, whatever. it all depends on the type of person u r looking for. i'd rather be with a black man that loves me than a white man that beats me, or vise versa.....
11002
I asked this of a guy the other day, and his response was something like this:  "as a white man, I find some black women attractive; others not so attractive.  This is the same as with white women.  But the complications of dating a black woman would be great.  For instance, I am not accoustomed to being in the minority, and family gatherings would be very odd for me.  I also wouldn't like the scrutiny of her male family members.\n\n"So it's not that I wouldn't date black women; I definitely would.  I just don't go looking for it.  If it happens, it happens."\n\n\n(One man's opinion.)