I don't enjoy sex, almost ever.  How normal is this?
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Although not common, this is not unheard of.  It is important to differentiate between a desire to have sex, and the enjoyability of the act.  \n\nIf you find you have no desire AND you don't enjoy it, then you may suffer from an asexual disorder.  As mentioned by others, this can be caused by a number of things, from physiological (menopause, hormone imballance, etc), to psychological (stress, acute post tramautic stress disorder, etc).  However, there is a small number of people who just do not have a sexual drive.  Although the reason for this is yet unknown, it is beginning to be studied more and more.\n\nIf you find you have a desire, and just do not enjoy sex, then you would find yourself in a MUCH larger population.  Believe it or not, it is quite common for people to say they are incredibly dissatisfied with their sexual enjoyment, and this goes from men to women.  The causes can be the same as mentioned above, or they could just be due to an unfulfilling sexual partner.  In either case, if you wish to change it, there are a plethora of ways to go about it, starting with self-exploration (talking about looking inside yourself, lets not get gross in here).  There are many books wich can help with this.\n\nFinally, it is important to note that although not everyone feels this way, there is nothing inherently WRONG with you.  This does not make you a freak or anything.  This, like anything else in life, just means you are unique, and is an opportunity for you to explore your uniqueness.
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Ya. Too much of everything is bad and so is sex. So watch it out before your pleasure turns to be a havoc,
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This is very true.. especially since I have never experienced an orgasm..  I find that even though I have never climaxed in my life( by the way I have been sexually active since the age of 18 and I am 22) I still enjoy sex. I enjoy the emotional connection I feel with the person rather than physical. Don't get me wrong I enjoy the physical aspect. But what truly makes me feel satisfied is the feeling of oneness with the person I am sharing my body with.
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you don't sound like a sexaholic. you sound like you just really enjoy the opposite sex. there is nothing wrong with it as long as you are careful and honest with everyone. however, if you really think you need help, there are support groups for this sort of thing.
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there is really no "normal" when it comes to sex everyone has different fantasies and desires.\n\nAs long as you enjoy it who cares, it's your fantasy it's not other peoples business.
359683
Very normal.  How else do you find out what you like.  You have to experiment!!
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i'm around that age too and my libido is odd these days. sometimes i'm gagging for it but most of the time I can't be bothered. I think it depends on the relationship, if you are still in love, if you still find your partner attractive sexually, if you are feeling depressed/stressed, also hormones play a big part.
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dude its normal!U are suppressing a wild beast :p .Just let it go man and try to have some more sex.Try not to think abt girls that much or ul become a "sex freak".Figure out whats the most thing abt a girl that excites u the most and go and ahead and seek it and try some intercourse once in a while and satisfy ur sexual desire.
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i don't know about "normal" but i'd say that is likely quite common.  i have had similar experiences of distraction or non-focus during sex but for me it's typically due to either:\n\na) we've been having high volumes of sex (3-8 times a day).  if this is the case i just try to refrain for a day or three and things are so much better -- i'm just auto-focused and needn't even have to try at that point.\n\nb) i am not totally into my partner, at least sexually.  even though i was into them as a person/loved them/loved being with them, i was not as sexually entertained as i could have been; say being with those people who always like to do it the same way every single time.  i think it was boredom in a manner of speaking and i just didn't want to admit it, so i went through the motions with a wandering mind.\n\ndon't know if either pertain to you or your situation but at least you'll know there are others who have focus-issues sometimes.
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Nothing to be ashamed of. Every individual has his own habits and appetite.  Some crave for sex all the time and some don't.  It's just that you have a bigger appetite for sex that makes you think more and more about it.  It is not wrong until it does not effect your work and other activities.
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You are in the vast majority of women, dear, and there's nothing strange about you.  It's not a "problem".  Also, it's not even a problem if you don't have an orgasm with each sexual encounter.  Women are different from men!
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Are you breastfeeding or smoking crack?\nI don't understand your question.\nI get that you don't like sex...but didn't understand the rest of it.
915147
Wow, if you feel that way sex is going to be difficult for you. I think we have to not be too uptight about exchanging our vital bodily fluids. :)
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i don't know exactly what casues it. it might be different for each person. but for me it was becasue i was rapped and then the first time that i had consentual sex he didn't know what he was doing and he went to fast and hurt me too much. so i think that is why now i have no sex drive. but it might in her case not be that drastic. some people jsut don't like having sex. there is no reason to be concerned. or maybe she just hasn't found what she likes yet.
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Depends what you term excessive. Do it too much and you'll just be knackered and definitely wont have any sex drive.
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No , I had Not sex But i don't like oral, These organ are senstive oral sex can make more exited. But its depend on state of mind.  other say its really enjoyfull, Time  will give u better Awnser when u do it.
358487
If it's not taking any fun out of your sex life, why is this a problem for you?