Girlfriend help (more info)?
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Be sensible. She's your girlfriend, not your possession. Do you have a reason not to trust her? Can you talk to her about it? If not, and it bothers you, you shouldn't be with her. Does she have good reason you'll beat a male friend for looking at her? If so, maybe she isn't the one with the problem!\n\nPossessiveness makes an intelligent gal want to cheat. Girls like showing off their bodies- it's what we do. If you have a faithful loving relationship with this girl, then talk to her about your insecurity! There's a good chance it is founded in nothing. If you do not have a good relationship then what are you staying in it for?\n\nThe issue here sounds like a lot more than her going swimming with her friends! Ask yourself what it really is, and then deal with it.
544220
Spend a quality time with her, try to have a conversation that interest you both.... \n\nand A Simple Kiss and Hug would make any girlfriends day...\n\nDONT FORGET TO SAY "ILOVEYOU" and let her feel you mean it...\n\nThis are better than chocolates, flowers and stuff....=)
360998
Hii!! No one can help!! You want a girlfriend, listen when a girl talked to you, dont try to control what they think, do or wear , respect them like they are men- equals.....
758717
Talk to her alone, and tell her how much you girlfriend means to you.  If you aren't willing to take a bullet for her or marry her once it gets to that point, then you should just quit right now.  I'm sorry if that may have sounded a bit harsh, but relationships aren't things to be played with.  I am only 16, but I have been trying to find that one person who is willing to stay with me for the long run, and not just for the few months.\n\nAnyways, just tell her how much her daughter means to you, and you would never want to hurt her in any way.  Tell her who you truly are, and your girlfriend's mother will truly appreciate how much courage and self-confidence it took for you to say all that to her.  Your girlfriend will also appreciate your care for her and how much you tried to make her mother accept you.\n\nIt might take a bit to build up all that confidence, but it will be VERY worth it in the end.  You now know what must be done, so good luck!
546737
If you haven't done so already, try showing her that you're mature enough to handle a relationship.  Some ideas:\na. Getting a part-time job\nb. Joining in a new extracurricular activity\nc. You could always try doing something nice for her...if she asks why you're doing it, don't bring up the boyfriend issue, just say "because" and keep the good deeds rolling.
114645
Hey look up! ask yourself, do you know anyone who really loves you? how do you know this? \n\nif she's your 'girlfriend', half your problem is solved. it shouldn't b hard to find out whether or not she loves you. look at her behavior. how does she treat you? \n\nif you are close and feel confident enough to ask her go ahead. \n\nyou will feel better once you clear d air.
1083573
You don't need assistance... you need patience. You're having amazing moments, she likes you, she shows affection for you in public, what's not to like? Give her some breathing space. Why are you in such a hurry? If you pressure her you'll lose her. If you lose her, then someone with patience and who knows how to show appreciation for what he has (someone like me) will get her. So if you don't want me to steal her heart away from you, learn to be patient.
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You should force her to be your girlfriend whether she likes it or not. I mean, she owes it to you, right? Or, maybe you could beg, cry, change everything about yourself to make her happy. That almost always worked for all the pitiful guys I ever dumped!\nSERIOUSLY- MOVE ON.
244905
No. You need to let your girl handle it. Tell her you support her and that she is more than welcome to ask your help if she feels she needs it. My question to you though is what is your girl telling her ex? Is she making it known that she is seeing someone else and is happy in that relationship? Let your girl know that you have no problem stepping in to take care of the situation if her ex won't listen to her.
695656
sure, call her, what have you got to lose, she can only say yes or no, right, but a little bit of advise, that you didn't ask for, lol, i don't recommend that you wear your heart on your sleeve as you are doing, you may get hurt, an you sound like a nice fellow, sometimes girls will take advantage of a nice guy.anyway, good luck an have fun if you two do go out!!
1043652
Your girlfriend needs to practice more and build up her stamina.\n\nMost girls can outlast their boyfriends by a good margin - if she is not keeping up with you, you need to find a better lover.
1100876
If she is going to behave like that then ...don't have her as a girlfriend.  It is up to you to be proud of your feelings and not feel humiliated.  If she humiliates you then you allow that feeling.   Telling someone how you feel should make your relationship stronger.  Make sure that she knows that she is your girlfriend though...then just tell her...
558406
Have u asked her about it?  U guys are basically doing wut a couple would be doing. You are just missing the actual label of boyfriend girlfriend and maybe some intimacy.
734275
well if you really like this girl and thinks she is worth the wait then do it. when a girl has had a rough time with relationships she tends to want to be left alone and it sounds like this girl might not be able to trust any one anymore so just console her make her feel better and be there for her....wait a lil while and see wat happens and if after you just get sick of waiting if she still hasnt decided she wants to be in a relationship then move on
1175163
work through it with a girl...make sure she knows before you start dating and everything, but if she wants you she'll take on the challenge! ask for it to be as open and stress free as possible, and take it step by step...goodluck!
162116
girls are very proctective of their feelings because they are unsure on how you would respond.but all girls are not like that. most girls will tell you stright foward how they feel, but in your situation your girlfriend is probably afraid that if she tells you the truth that it could hurt your relationship. im sure if you give her time and make her feel comfortable about the situation she will come around and eventually tell you whatever it is.
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lol i'm very happy for you.. just to start it off... but i have this blog on my myspace that says like "for guys to read and what not" so i think i'll just post it here.... i know it probably will just be a waste of space. but maybe it'll benefit just a tiny bit? i would say propose or what not but i dont think that it's appropriate just yet... wait a few more months or something till you're sure. I know i've thought i was in love a few times myself and everytime it's ended badly for me.... but anyway here ya go! hope it helps!!!\n\nthings guyz should know.... \nCurrent mood:  hopeful \nCategory: Romance and Relationships \n\n\n19 ways to win a girls heart\n\n1. Hugs from behind.\n2. Grab her hand when you walk next to each other.\n3. When standing, wrap your arms around her.\n4. Cuddle with her.\n5. DON'T FORCE HER TO DO ANYTHING.\n6. Write little notes.\n7. Compliment her and have it come from the heart.\n8. When you hug her, hold her in your arms as long as possible.\n9. Be super sweet to her.\n10. Call her at night to wish her sweet dreams or just to hear her voice.\n11. Comfort her when she cries.\n12. Wipe away her tears.\n13. Love her with all your heart.\n14. Pick her up and flirt with her (she'll scream and say put me down but really she loves it).\n15. Be a gentleman (hold the door for her).\n16. DON'T let your friends talk trash about her, it'll get back 2 her\n17. Take her for a long walk at night!\n18. Draw on or rub her back as she is tryin to rest or sleep\n19. Bring her flowers just because its some day of the week. \n\n26 Ways To Make A Girl Smile....\n\n1. Tell her she is beautiful. not hot!\n\n2. Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its just for a second.\n\n3. Hug her from behind\n\n4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to.\n\n5. When she is upset, hold her tight and tell her how much she means to you.\n\n6. Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.\n\n7. If you're talking to another girl, when your done talking, walk over and hug her and kiss her....let her know she's yours and they arent.\n\n8. Write her notes or call her just to say "hi"\n\n9. Introduce her to your friends . . . as your girlfriend.\n\n10. Play with her hair.(except if she spent alot of time curling it)\n\n11. hold her and dont let her go.....\n\n12. Get upset if another guy touches her and she doesnt like it\n\n13. Make her laugh\n\n14. Let her fall asleep in your arms.\n\n15. If she's mad at you, kiss her.\n\n16. If you care about her, then (we all know this is a challenge) TELL HER\n\n17. Every guy should give their girl 3 things: a stuffed animal(she'll hug it everytime she goes to sleep), jewlery(will treasure it forever), and one of his t-shirts (she'll most likely where it to bed) and don't forget to bring her flowers or something special once in a while.\n\n18. Treat her the same around your friends as you do when your alone.\n\n19. Look her in the eyes and smile.\n\n20. Hang out with her on weekends\n\n21.Kiss her in the rain (girls love this)\n\n22.Kiss her just for the heck of it\n\n23. If your listening to music, let her listen too.\n\n24. Remember her birthday and get her something, even if its simple and inexpensive, it came from YOU. it means all the world to HER\n\n\n25. when she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just when ever, take it and tell her u love it.\n\n\n26. Always call her when you say you will, it may not seem like it, but it does hurt her and makes her thinks you don't care so call even if you can only talk for a minute.\n\n\nEvery Girls Dream---boys read this!! Its so true!!\n\n1. Getting kissed in the pouring rain\n2. Have that one hott kiss where your pressed against the wall\n3. Have a guy that thinks you're the world\n4. Have a guy that holds on as long as possible when giving hugs\n5. A guy that whispers he loves you in your ear\n6. Have that moment where you just ga