i need relationship help?
544428
honey listen, JUST BE YOURSELF! Eventually going out with this person your true self will shine through so be yourself at the start of the relationship and you will not have to worry about impressing anyone. Okay? Stay firm in your beliefs and you will do just fine and if this girl doesn't like it then she wasn't worth it now, was she? Think about that okay? Good luck.
606254
The key to any relationship is communication.  If you can't talk about how you feel then things are not going to get any better.  Be strong, find a moment during your conversation to just say I love you and I am tired of fighting lets figure out a way to get back on track.  Or something like that, you need to talk about it or it will just get worse.
25910
Be very straight forward with them from the beginning.  Tell them that you want a relationship with no strings attatched.  Maybe someday you will want a relationship but not right now.
338400
If you have to ask, then maybe.... Slow down a little. You're just dating, right? If your feelings start to become more serious, look closely. It's a lot to take on. Figure out if you really want that. It's a big decision. Don't take it lightly, but don't run away either. It doesn't have to be something you can't handle. YOU get to decide.
512916
Honestly, it doesn't seem like you started your relationship out in the best way.  you can try to salvage it if you're getting signals, but try to do so by becoming friendly without getting too physical for a bit.
666815
I don't know how old you are.  It sounds like you are in high school.  It is really hard to be in a relationship with a person who doesn't know what they want.  It isn't right to do that to you.  You need to talk to him.  Tell him that he needs to make up his mind (don't yell at him and phrase things nicely, and argument is the last thing that you need).  I was in a relationship with a girl that didn't know what she wanted.  It would have saved me a lot of time if I would have just ended it.  We are still friends though so we are okay.  If you have to end things, do it nicely.  Don't make any personal attacks against him.  If it is "meant to be" (wow that sounds cheesy), he will realize that he really wants you after you two are broken up.  So, if you got back together, he wouldn't have this indecisive problem anymore.  Handle this maturely.  It sounds like he is struggling to figure out what he wants, so you have to be the calm one in this situation.  Girl drama doesn't help guys at all.  All girl drama will do is drive him from you.\nDon't worry about being alone.  I guarantee that you would be okay.  I hope you work things out so you won't have to end a relationship.  Your situation isn't in to terrible of shape, so you still have a lot of hope.
150531
Find someone better. Relationships can't be based on sex and sex alone. Find someone who will respect you and your wishes.
791024
Communication is the key element in all relationships. Talk to him in a non-attacking manner and tone. Start all sentences with "I feel". That always helps. The second he feels attacked, he will tune you out. That way he can only respond to how you feel and not what he may or may not be doing in your eyes. Good luck.
324476
Without communication a relationship is nothing. If you can't talk to him then either the time is not right for you 2 to have a relationship or he's just not the right guy for you. I would reccommend being friends for now. This way you can become more comfortable with him and he with you. Start small and build up. You can't build a sturdy house without a good foundation.
940104
hey well i don't really know what ur question means. But i really need some advice with boyfriend relationships.!!!!!
1168819
you need to sit your girlfriend down and talk to her and see where the relationship is going and go from there
229939
NOBODY DESERVES TO BE IN THAT KIND OF RELATIONSHIP WITH TRUST ISSUES. IF YOU GUYS REALLY LOVE EACH OTHER THEN YOU TWO HAVE TO STAY STRONG AND DON'T GIVE UP ON EACH OTHER. TELL HIM EVERYTHING THAT IS ON YOUR MIND AND JUST LET HIM KNOW THAT IT WILL BE OVER IF YOU HAVE TO ACCUSE HIM FOR DOING SOMETHING. TELL HIM TO BE HONEST AND IF HE WANTS TO LEAVE GIRL YOU ARE GOING TO HAVE TO BE STRONG AND LET GO . YOU DON'T WANT TO BE WITH HIM IF HE IS GOING TO TREAT YOU LIKE 2ND'S YOU NEED TO BE FIRST . SO GOOD LUCK AND STAY A STRONG WOMAN
662241
u need to talk things over. communication is one of the keys to a healthy relationship. You both need to listen to each other's opinions and thoughts. Why not try spendin time alone w/ yourself first.Collect your thoughts and asses yourself.Try to see things in an optimistic way.Do not let insecurities overcome you.I'm sure he likes you.Sometimes,there are just things that don't go the way we want them to.
281680
make a list of ALL those things which drew you two together, and a list of all those things which work between you. build from there, and perhaps gently talk about those things to your partner, have your partner try the same thing. It is a beginning place to start.  the key is, you have to find it for yourself,,,
606612
if you need to ask, you need to work on that relationship.  conversation should be easy with your girlfriend.
624349
Try compromising.Relationships change with time. Just go with the flow.
889400
Get in touch with what you REALLY want in a relationship.\nWrite on a piece of paper what you desire in a relationship.\nBe reasonalbe, don't look for absolute perfection in another.\n\nKnow yourself, your needs and desires.\nUse the Visioning Process to envision what you want most out of your life.\n\nBe very honest and truthful in your relationships, communicate on a high level and really LISTEN to your partner and what their hopes and needs are. \n\nWork on knowing yourself so that you become as completely self aware as possible.\n\nWhen you discover who you are and what you really want, you will find who and what you really really want.\n\nWhen you find it, you will commit out of joy.\n\nGood Luck.