How to make my mom let me get a boyfriend?
546737
If you haven't done so already, try showing her that you're mature enough to handle a relationship.  Some ideas:\na. Getting a part-time job\nb. Joining in a new extracurricular activity\nc. You could always try doing something nice for her...if she asks why you're doing it, don't bring up the boyfriend issue, just say "because" and keep the good deeds rolling.
243116
I've been in this situation a few times. No matter what you do or don't do your BF's mom will think you're not right for him...at first. Give her time to get to know you better. Once she realizes how much he likes you and that your not out to break his heart she'll back off. Try asking you BF to talk to him mom.
801338
I don't really think you have to tell them who you like if you're not comfortable with it. Your parents might like the insight into your life and feel that you are more mature if you do tell them, (especially your mom) but it's really not necessary. Definitely tell them if you get a boyfriend though. Trust me, parents don't appreciate not knowing who their daughter is going out with.
330259
You have already said it - you have informed her that you like her, and she let you know that you might have a chance.\nNow, until her mom is ready to let her date, you will just have to sit tight and hope that when her mom does say yes - that the girl will pick you to date.  If you don't know her mom, and if her mom does not know you, then it might help you to get to know her mom better and do some nice things for her mom.  If you win her mom's favor and trust, maybe in time her mom will let the two of you go out.  You could invite this girl to have dinner at your parents - with the permission of your parents - and she can invite you to her parents' place. \n\nJust bide your time - and if it is meant to be that you two can date, then the waiting will be well worth it.\n\nGood Luck!
748473
I couldn't really think of something for you to get your boyfriend, but I think it'd be cool if you got his mom and/or dad too something. Nothing big but like a candle or something. That'd be cool. I bet they'd appreciate it.
846653
Livi, I have a daughter, she's 21 now.  I would be heart broken to know that she was hurting and confused.  And if she doesn't even know you got your period, then honey I think you need to skip the boyfriends for awhile and get to know your Mom.\n\nI remember when I was in the seventh grade, you are going through a lot of emotional stuff right now.  A Mom you can talk too would be great.  Can't you see yourself sharing some of this with her.  Please try.\n\nNow, about this nineth grader.  If you really really like him, then talk to him.  Tell him up front you aren't going in for no kissing and no touching.  If he can't deal with that, then drop him.  If he's truly interested in you then he will give the chance to be comfortable with the idea of kissing him.  My daughter broke up with a boy because he started smoking again.  So, you be careful with young man.  I don't want to read on here later on that you went out with him and now you are pregnant.  \n\nKissing, touching, and even sex is fun stuff, I am not going to lie to you.  But with it comes other stuff that's not so fun.  You don't sound you are ready for this kind of relationship, and if you don't want to sound like a "baby" or not cool, then tell him you are grounded.  Or tell him the truth that you haven't gotten permission from your Mom, and she would ground you for life if you went out with him without her ok'ing it.\n\nLivi, please see if you can speak to your Mom.  Give her another chance.  We parents don't always don't know the right answers, but we do care.\n\nGod bless us all..........
1079055
my mom doesnt allow me to meet up with girls !! \nseriously \nstill havent met !!
220313
to begin with honey, he doesn't love you. if you're not allowed to have a boyfriend yet, i'm sure your parents have a good reason. they are just trying to protect you from having to make decisions you're not quite ready to make. if you've seen me on here you know i'm gonna tell you to take this time to learn and to grow without complicating things. learn about yourself. learn about others. and as you're ready, learn about life. you've got a lifetime ahead of you. don't rush into things. :)
450866
I've been in your same situation when i was younger. with my parents i told them some of the nice things that this guy did, that let them know that he was nice. Ask this guy to meet them. Not really at the house at first, but maybe at a park or a school activity. Then he won't be so nervous. Tell your mom first. Mom's are always easier. Dads will understand eventually. Don't say date or anything yet, say hanging out or something like that, then after a while say casually in a conversation with your parents how your friends think that you and _your guys name__ are such a cute couple. or something like that. that will be easier. if they are really strict just say that this guy is your special guy. hope i helped!!!
425968
because shes your mom, hello.. she cares about you and this is your whole life your talking about here. she raised you up and gave you everything of course she would be strict letting u go to a man right. understand a lil bit, look at it in her point of view ok.. goodluck to you!
48404
the best way is to approach her tell her that u really love and that you will make a good boyfriend when she accepts
1088865
just do it behind their back. ur parents sound prettty strict. when you go out just meet up with guys. simple.
518128
Your mother is only here for a week.  Dedicate your time with your family, unless you want her to meet him...\n\nThere is plenty of time to be with your boyfriend
804125
Sounds like your mom is picking them based on the color of their skin.  \n\nSo far neither one has picked you. Pick the one you like.  \n\nIf you're not sure, tell both of them you like them and want to spend more time with them.  See what happens.  Try out one date each and see how you feel.  You don't have to be exclusive on this first date, because you know that first dates don't always work out.  Don't get too physical, because then you'll get a bad reputation.\n\nOnce you start dating, Sebaastian should stop talking to other girls on the phone.  If he continues, he's just a player and you should pick someone else.  SAme thing does for this other kid you like.  Remember, guys will flirt a lot just so they can get someone.
1029637
Did you ask her if she wants a boyfriend? Im kind of having the same problem.Theres a guy i like but his family is a missionary family and they live in India, so i dont know if he wants a girlfriend.Ask her this:\ndo you have a boyfriend?\nif she says no ask her\nDo you want a boyfriend?\nif she says yes, ask her\nWill i do?
528570
It's possible, but the relationship shouldn't be too serious.  Maybe start with "group dates" with friends or just hang out together.  Just be sure your parents okay it before you get yourself in a relationship.
804995
Have you even told your parents that you are posting a singles column on the internet.\n\nI'm 18, going on 19 and also a christian.\n\nyou shouldn't be desperate. if you believe in GOD then you know he will provide for you.\n\nYou should just wait when the time is right he will come. \n\nI thought the same thing too that i was desperate for this girls approval. But I finally realized that I won't e the one missing out. \n\nAnd if I'm meant to be with anyone then the time will come. When the moments right he will come. Don't just go looking for any guy over the internet he will most likely come to you.\n\nThe best things in life can never be rushed. they just come when they come.