Help with managing my relationships...?
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I'd say your best bet would be to give up your profession.\nAnd get into the grind for youself.  You know what 'they' say.  Experience is the best teacher.  Than you'd surely know how to keep your bitches ignorant and happy at the same time.
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Why not lay off the sexual stuff altogether?  Concentrate on becoming better friends.  Do activities together.  \n\nIf you're not ready to go forward, maybe you should go backwards.
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To have a good relationship I believe you should be honest, be truthful, and respectful toward the person you are referring to. These are very important qualities in a relationship. If you are referring to a male/female relationship oh boy you really have to work at it. It is also necessary to compromise in a relationship. It takes a whole lot of that. In other words, every thing is not one persons way all the time. Compromise, remember that ok? \nas u have asked we can't get good relation it is we have to create good relation with others if u be good with others they we be good to u but there are some options cases also so we also think with whom we have to create good relation ok bye \nThe 'how' is a big one. I have been married 2 x and on my 3rd one and I have really learned a lot from this new mate.\n\nWe never put one another down, and if we are upset we let one another know without yelling, or putting the person down. I found this makes a huge, huge difference. The trust has grown. \n\nEach day we both quietly look for something positive to comment on ..... today for instance my partner commented on how thoughtful I was with one of our children. Just a simple comment and it really made me feel good inside. \n\nI have found from experience that just because we are with someone for awhile we don't take advantage of this. It is special to be in a good relationship and well, be thoughtful. Thankful
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congrads... \n\njust make sure that u act like ur self... we hate when guys act different around their friends and then us... don't worry about the kissing thing (who said you have to kiss if you have a girlfriend lol jk) just make sure that u are always ur self and try never ever to yell at her.. she will dump you w/out a doubt. :) remember if you want things to work you must build a relationship and that takes time. be ready to talk things out and BE HONEST! if you tell her a little lie you will be more likely to tell a bigger lie. don't rush into anything physical because that will hurts your changes of working things out by talking. so remember be yourself, talk, and be honest.
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Be nice, honestly, and make sure you always say "i" not the other persons name. If you say their name, it seems as if its their fault the relationship didnt work out. Good luck!
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While it is to easy to succumb to the emotional anguish that is consuming you at this early stage you must put a few bricks up to get through it. Do not drive yourself insane with analizing the last five years. Enlist a support group, best friends, family etc. Go out to the movies, nothing romantic, just a good comedy, horror, action you get the point. Invite some friends over for a dinner party or skip the dinner and just party. Ask each of them to bring a new friend, someone you've never met. Meeting new people is a stimulant. Involve yourself in your favorite activities or hobbies to keep your mind occupied. Submerse yourself in some great books. Pamper yourself a little go on a shopping trip, but something fun and frivolous. Keeping busy is the best thing. Of course the nights will be the roughest. Go ahead and allow yourself to think about her if she comes to mind while you are trying to drift off to sleep. It is part of the healing process. Cry if need be, tears are the cleansing of our soul. Eventually the sorrow will subside. While I think it is important to surround yourself with good friends and meet new people just don't hook up with anyone. Five years is a long time to be with someone, you'll need to take a good year being single to rediscover who you are before enerting the dating game. Have fun, and remember it's ok to have your ups and downs. You'll be fine and who knows in the near future you may come to think the break up was a good thing, usually when one door closes it's because another is getting ready to open. Old cliche I know but it is so true.
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Say so up front...set the boundaries...\nSpend time doing things outside of being together\nfriendly - keep things single...and if you go out regularly go with lots of friends
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Relationships are a "two way street" HOWEVER, if it is important to you, YOU may need to put forth the effort to pursue the relationship.  Why is the other person responsible for not continuing the relationship? Maybe you need to examine why the other persons aren't responding. Are there health problems? Are they too busy? Is the relationship not really what you thought it was? Have you drifted apart?\n\nAsk your friends why you only seem or hear from them is when you call. Maybe the relationship isn't as important to them as it is to you?????\n\nMaybe you need to find new friends with similar interests. Join a church, book club, community center, gym.....take a class.....do what interests you and you will find others who share your interests.
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Never forget that no relationship is perfect. If there's a perfect relationship, then something is seriously wrong. You have to take the ups with the downs. Don't always expect it to be happy times. Marriage is totally about compromise, so don't ever expect to always get your way or you're doomed to fail. Never go to bed mad...stay up and fight till it's resolved or you'll carry the bitterness with you into the following days and unresolved issues will come up to bite you in the *ss later on. Don't ever bring up past fights or your partner's wrong-doings to throw in their face, that's just mean and spiteful. Learn to walk away. If your partner says something that p*sses you off don't let it get to you, simply walk away with your head held high learn to say "yes hunny" when your partner says something, even if you don't agree...saves from getting into an argument. These are just a few things I've learned :D.
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Hey, just like you said to me, friendships are a great foundation for relationships. i live in england anyways lol. bt really, if you have feekings for a person, dont be afraid expressing them, and always be ready to say positive things, because that is what drives people together. Good Luck!
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Get to know each other and take it from there.  And let your heart and feelings guide you in your decisions about your relationship. And be yourself you might as well start now so you don't have to be someone you're not just to make them happy.
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i understand you are very frustrated...\n\n... i can see that you want him to make a decision\nbecause you hate being taddled along and dragged about\n....\nand you want a definite 'relationship' or 'not' kind of\n... relationship...\n\n... and i bet you... he understand that as well...\nbut put yourself in his shoes..\n\nif you had a boyfriend and were getting along fine...\nand suddenly, a single guy enters your world...\n\nand completely blows you away...\n.. now what would you do?\nyou might say, 'i'll take him,' but it's not that easy...\n\nhe's struggling...\nand i might take a step further to say...\nmaybe his girlfriend is on him about this...\nmaybe she's getting the hint he's not 100% committed to her\n\nmy best advice to you is... give him time...\n\nif you constantly prod him, he might completely ignore you..\n.. if you give him room for thinking and reconsidering,\nhe will seriously weigh it out...\n\n... moreover, he will see your understanding side\nand your compassionate, openness and he will run to you..\n\n.. meanwhile, you go out and have some fun...\ni don't mean cheat on your soon-to-be-boyfriend\nbut go out and meet your friends... guys and gals...\n\nmeeting other gals will set you back to your\ngiggling-chatty-girly mode, which will ultimately put you\nin a euphoria of confidence..\n\nplus, guys will drool over you, and you can neglect them\nand gain higher self-esteem...\n\ngodspeed
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Be firm with them. Set clear boundaries and let them know that you do not wish those boundaries to be crossed.\n\nIf they cross those boundaries, then remove yourself from their presence. Terminate relationship with them if needed.\n\nCordially,\nJohn
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I would second the motion that Mike made. I would also recommend finding new activities and make new friends. That way you can let people know you are available. And you can keep yourself occupied. And keep your spirits up too. Use this broken relationship as a learning experience. Good Luck. LJK
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you have to be there and intune for whats best for them. talk to her about it but dont push it. Once you have sat her down and explained it to her then its her turn to either turn her self around or screw up her relationship.
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Try getting some therapy; you need to understand why you're doing this to yourself.  Once you're able to focus on giving love and acceptance, rather than receiving it, you should be able to have a healthy relationship.
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Be open, responsive, and willing to compromise. It isn't always easy, but if u can do this, your relationship will stay strong