What do you ladies really like in a guy?
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Someone who is confident, not cocky\nConsiderate, but not obsessive\nAffectionate, but not desperate\n\nSomeone who is happy with who they are and what they are doing in life is really attractive.  That's a big job by itself so good luck!
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a man who is honest, loyal, fun-loving, affectionate, gentle, caring, loving, respectful..even in front of their home-boys and not scared to show their feminine side every now and again yet not a wimp....you notice that i did not mention a man with alot of money...most ladies these days are independent and as long as the man can hold his own..they can be working at mickie-dies for all i care..as long as they are not mooching off of me.
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Here's my honest list:\nGodly, Geeky, Brilliant, quirky sense of humor, impulsive, compassionate, politically aware (preferably liberal), honest, sensitive, not afraid of debate, and likes board games.\nAs far as looks, I'm not too obesessed, preferences: soulful eyes, blonde (though I am often physically attracted to African American men as well, so blonde is only a caucasian thing), Clean shaven, tall, skinny, maybe hair a little below the ears-- but that's not important- it's really the personality thing above that does it for me
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I prefer guys with real personality.  The kind who actually think for themselves.  Somehow, these guys usually make me laugh, too.  If they're handsome, so much the better.  But looks are not at all the most important aspect of a man (or a woman either, for that matter).  \n\nIn any case, like some of the others have already said, I'm lucky enough to have a very handsome husband with whom I laugh every day.  If you've got to choose, choose someone who feels good about himself and allows you to feel good about yourself, too.
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looks are important of course, every girl wants a guy that is attractice, but personality wise someone funny, caring, confident, yet shy can be really cute too. Basically a guy that is fun and brings out the best in you :)
122919
has to be the arms and hands of a guy. i like a strong guy with slight muscle tone just that little curve in the arm and you can tell alot about a person by there hands.
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a bit of both for me, i like a guy with a great personality and good looks! i like a guy that is outgoing, alittle wild and crazy, fun, sweet, honest, careing and faithful!...Im pretty picky when it comes to looks, now he doesn't have to be drop dead gorgeous (like the man in my dreams), but i like a guy that is tall like 6 feet tall or taller, slim but muscular (not too skinny and definitly not fat) nice facail structures, nice smile, pretty eyes, if he looks good with trimmed up facial hair thats even better, short hair, not long hair (long hair is for girls) and last but not least gotta have a nice smooth chest *alittle patch of chest hair is ok* (but i hate hair men) and i like dark hair guys, not to fond of the blondes and redheads!
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depends on wether you mean "boys" or men. i think that its truly not as superficial as the other answers make it out to be. i look for someone that is fun to be around, trustworthy, smart (smart is sexy), clever, a good sense of humor, chic, and beautiful. in the order listed.
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it sort of depends on the girl, but\n\nnice, trustworthy, sweet, honest, smart, funny, somewhat good looking, fun to be with, easy to talk to, accepting
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Well he need to be cute but cute cannot just do, he also need to have a killer personality.. Knows when to be serious from when to be kidding around.. Generally sweet, actually likes to do things wit me, no matter how girly it is.. They are interesting in knowing about us and they cant be cocky and totally self-absorbed. Generous, smart, funny, creative to the point where there arent any awkward silences.. knows what to say and when to say it. MUST HAVE goals in life, and optimistic...\nThats pretty much all i can think of...
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good personality\nnice smile \nattractive(doesn't apply to all guys)\ngood sense of humour\nnice butt or breast
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Humor - a guy has to make me laugh, and be able to laugh at himself, or at least not take himself too seriously.  My boyfriend is really funny, and everywhere we go, he can make people laugh...even angry grocery store clerks.  Intelligence is equally important - including overall knowledge of what's going on in the world, politics, and also problem solving skills, objectivity.  Caring about other people is also a big one - compassion and eagerness to help others by volunteering or just helping someone with directions.  And with all of this, he's got to be "manly" - as stereotypical as that sounds, I like a guy that isn't too emotional, is physically strong, knows how to fix stuff around the house, and helps me do things that are easier for him - like carry heavy luggage, etc... \n\nI just realized that I've described my boyfriend perfectly...so I'm suddenly very happy to realize what I have!  Thanks for asking!
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eyes that show his kind heart,lips that caress my lips,white teeth that nibble my ear,arms that embrace me tightly while penetrating me,softly speaking in my ear,slightly hairy chest and stomach tickling my skin. speaks intelligently but never demeaning. loves himself,life,and laughter. can do attitude. physically fit with average looks (or better looks is a bonus).financially secure, adventurous, likes resting his head on my stomach while watching t.v.. he sees the good i do in the world and wants to be part of my life. calm but with a bit of fighting Irish in him. likes to tie one on but not frequently. smells like freshly fallen leaves after a rain and the wind lifts that taste of nature right onto your tongue. must top and bottom. but most important of all is we must love each other.\n   my current partner doesn't posses any of these traits. he is simply made of plastic. is very sneaky and abusive.
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a guy that is open minded, understanding, a great personality. a great smile, and one that knows how to please me...
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women have different preferences, the next best thing is to eye for someone you like and get to know her if you're interested..as for the general traits...well, i find the personality very appealing if he's able to handle a sincere conversation, with a good sense of humor, confident, firm in his ideals, never pressure you into anything and respects me as a woman, in terms of my opinion and what i like...sexiness, when he's able to flirt with you in a subtle but meaningful manner...
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Most importantly is how nice they are. If I am with a guy, I want him to appreciate my feelings and take care of me. I don't like someone who is mean or uses harsh language. I like men who are sensitive, considerate, and romantic. I also tend to go for men who have georgous eyes!:) My husband has nice blue ones that change colors with his emotions:). Also, trustworthiness is another big attractiveness....you need to be able to feel safe and secure around your guy.
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Intelligence\nWit\nHonesty\nLoyalty\npositive outlook.......happy!\n\nSomeone that needs me as much as I need him. Someone that genuinely enjoys being around me as much as I enjoy being around him. :)