Women, If your husband wants to see you with another man. Would you do it?
553709
Only if it was really just him dressed like Zorro or something.. but if it wasn't him.. then nope. My bod, my choice..choice was him only forever, plan to stick to it.
1170068
I think they all do it.  If you don't approve of it, tell him.  He might stop.  \nI told my husband that if he has to get his "jollies" by looking at another woman, it was the same as cheating.  \nAs far as I know he doesn't do it anymore.
391043
I would say yes, Why not.!  i mean you can love your partner and your kids etc so why not another man.  Your only problem would be if you had to choose between them.
501470
well why get married and then be with someone else? but i mean if your husband doesnt care.. hell invite him in for a threesome.. that might land you on jerry springer one day.. but it'd be fun anyway ;) for you and him... and her!
860838
I would say "YES!!" \nHe may not have physical contact with another man, but the tendencies are definately there...
382231
Sounds like you got yourself in a little trouble. Well your husband must not be doing something right or you would not be in love with another man in the first place. First off tell this man how you feel and let him know if there is gonna be something serious between the two of you it cant go on this way for ever because its just not fair to any of you and if he feels the same way about you then maybe its time you let your significant others go. Second is this man going to be worth losing your husband over. And third when you look into the future can you picture yourself not with your husband and also him with another women? Life is to short if your truly in love with this man go with your heart, and dont wait untill its to late.
553798
I know my husband isn't the cheating type, but at the same time why would you want to put a person in the position to have to make that choice? The temptation is to big if he has already said that he is attracted to her. So no I wouldn't have it!!
689341
I have been married for 21 years.  First you have to be honest and communicate with your spouse.  If you had been, he may not have been spying on you.  Talk to your husband about it.  If he is uncomfortable with you two off somewhere, you should respect his feelings.  Only communicate with your friend if your husband is aware of conversations, meetings, etc.  My husband knows the male friends I may talk to or he can read the emails we send each other.  I also know of his female friends.  If it is innocent, then keep it in the open.  Would you really be o.k. if the shoe was on the other foot and your husband was off with a "girl" friend?  Alone?
159284
If I married a muslim who wants to marry another woman I would have to ask him first why he wants to marry another woman.There must be a reason.If his answer was something like 'cause I'm sick of you *which would be a sin anyway* I'll just divorce him, yeah muslim women can divorce men..\n\nIt's like knowing your husband is cheating on you, would you leave him? even if you love him very much? \n\nIf I loved him very much I might learn how to tolerate it.But he has to come up with a good reason why he wants to marry another woman.For instance, if I'm sick and can't be a wife or anything like that, I might agree.
431654
Most men want a threesome.  I think you need to have a long talk about why you don't like the idea, and why he wants another woman.  Inviting others over for group play can wreck a marriage if the marriage isn't 100% sound.  If there are no hidden agendas, jealousy, marital problems, homophobia, group play offers a new dimension of pleasure to love-making.  \n\nIf both of you are not completely happy and secure in your marriage, I would advise against it.  But please don't reject his fantasy outright.  \n\nIf you do decide to do it, you pick the girl, make all of the arrangements, discuss ground rules and get a hotel room.  You are granting his biggest fantasy, keep control of the situaton.
21348
If your husband kissed another woman what would you think.  You have already cheated yourself since you got to that point.  Now is the time to feel guilty.
548735
Well I never been "the other woman" but it would seem like it is lonely especially on the holidays when he's spending time with his family and you're wishing "your man" was with you.  I couldn't see myself being with a married man and than the woman is left holding her pillow tight at night because "her man" is at home snogged with his wife. lol
654460
HELL NO, Do you want another guy touching your lady? I wouldn't. What the hell is up with people these days over the 3 sums? I like it with me and my partner and NOONE else. But that is up to you. You have to live with the fact that your g/f wants to be with another man. What if she like it or him? Will you be willing to have another? I dont
100142
That's something between you and your wife.Not, for others to have a choice on.Talk to her and see for yourself face to face to the one you married.
1067822
Just like your husband, I work in another city. My wife does that too. In the matter of fact, I would ask her occassionally if she did it. It brings no harm and it's healthy. Better that than having her with another man releasing her sexual urge on another.
890614
If you want to see other people you need to let your husband know.  I think it's wrong because if you wanted to see other people you shouldn't have gotten married.  Getting married is a committment.  If you aren't getting along and you want to screw around tell him that you want a separation or a divorce.  Cardinal rule is that you do not mess around with exes of frineds.  It sounds like you have terrible boundaries.
402137
I say no, because I refuse to see it any other way. I believe if a woman is being who she needs to be for her man and vice versa for husband that shouldn't come up or if they're are problems the relationship needs to be open and strong enough for your spouse to come to you w/ any issues. Am I right or wrong?