how do you get your guy to be more romantic?
541764
i answered a similiar kind of question earlier. guys and romance, depends all on the guys mood and time and place. but, what u can do is, back off totally from the romance. no holding hands, no touchin eachother, less make out sessions, basically just show him a dry spell :P and then just to amplify the dry spell, touch him in an erotic way, let him brush against u, and then just back off completely. dont do things, that u would normally do, in a romantic mood. this will make him take a romantic approach, and i think this should do it.
188790
Romance begets romance.  Be romantic to him and you'll get it in return.  Guys sometimes have to be shown how to do these things.
64472
In my opinion, if you want to rekindle a romance it has to be planned so it can be extra special. If he is a sports fan, take him to a special game and start there. If he is romantic, take him to a special hotel that has a jacuzzi and start there. I don't need to go into details. You know your man..If your rekindling, spur of the moment may not be a good thing cos he may get upset.
265569
First make sure he feels the same way. Let things stay the way they are if the relationship is going good let it ride. If you've been intimate, then maybe you should make him a nice romantic dinner and express your feelings then. Other wise you might scare him off, don't want to do that. Go with your instances.
90965
THAT'S the problem with guys they just don't get it! you rush into situations too soon! you never have good timing for anything!\n\nOK! I'LL try and help you out!\nhere's the plan!   the most importqant thing is you have a girlfriend right!\nnow if you want to get intimate with her, you can't really tell her that you want whetever it is you want with her!\nin other words you are making your girlfriend feel stupid ina way!\nYOU have to be everything to her, meaning good manners, sweet,loving, caring, sharing conversations and enjoying good times wih her!\nthere are certain things you can do for her to get your attention, eg, asking questions on how was your day, a walk on the beach in the moonlight when no one's there, dinner for the two, try cooking dinner for her, doing something extremely romantic for a, buy her roses so that she can be suprised and tell her that you love her but not all the hours she will get sick of it!\ncome on do something lovely, eg. buying her a gift or something that she really wants.\nthen you will get all the love you need!  you have to look for the signs! \njust be really romantic to her and in turn she would do the same!
453675
do everything in moderation...let your girl know what you want & what you feel..it's music to our ears...trust & communication is vital...we want men who are firm and can be as sweet as Romeo the next...and who regards our needs as well...be a friend like the way you care with your best buddies...and be a good lover too who thinks about more what excites her rather than jumping onto her just to get it done.
581111
there are many ways..\n1. say " <hisname> i love you" , close ur eyes, and kiss him on his lips..\n2. show him that you can change urself for him...as in if he doesnt like s'thing in u or likes s'thing..then change that habit or incorporate(the thing he likes) in urself...\n3. put in constant effort to look better and better...and also, keep ur self fit...(good for u too)\n4. learn to cook sthing that he really enjoys eating...\n5. subtly bitch about other men in front of him.. and more importantnly, NEVER praise any other man in front of him...\n6. tell him that u will be with her even if he looses all his money.. and all his looks (just say this.. and he will know taht u love her..)\n7. dont be greedy...once in a while settle for less expensive gifts...\n8. and this is the MOST important thing...TRY and SEE his point of view... u need not agree.. but just try and see.. and then repeat it to him...\n9. and if he still wants more...ask me back... u have my email id :-)\n10. Best of luck,.. (ur asking this question is proof enough that u love him...show him this link..! :-)
562965
Make it as romantic as possible.  Every guy in their thirties or so need to know that they are still sexy to their mate.  Make him feel like he's the world to you.  Buy yourself a sexy outfit that makes him say "WOW I'm w/ her!".  Pamper him and make him #1 for the day/night!  Hope you have the time of your lives!
1181317
Make him feel like a king.  Have his favorite dinner (cook or dine out)  have his favorite drink available.  Ask him questions about what he wants.  Be sexually attentive to him.  He'll have the best trip seeing you and want to come back for more.  Most imporantly, no drama!  He'll go running for the hills.  Don't be too serious unless he wants to.  Guys aren't as into recieving romance the same way women are.  Just be there for him.
989471
Think of five things that he really likes to do and take a day off to do all of them.  After each activity, tell him that there is something more that will be better than all the rest of it, and at the end of the day, lean in and whisper in his ear to ask him if he's ready for the big suprise.  Most men at this point will think sex. (By the way, don't use sex as one of the five activities, ruins the anticipation.)\n\nInstead, give him a loving kiss and then stand a few feet away from him, and propose.  Look deep in his eyes and speak true words of love.  \n\nMay sound corny, but it worked for me. :)
984126
dear! guys do the same as the girls do it past when they have the power to realize! He loves you too and pretending that "now he dont care" but being an honest friend, i would suggest you u dont wait for him...to ask you the same again! just go and play...tell him u like him a lot...and wanna go out now with him....just tell him a awesome poem...a love poem..being romantic is the ultimate solution! the more romantic you're to your bf..he'll attract the more to you...now dont wait and simply tell him that you love him! he'll definately be happy frm inside and will giv you the rest of his life!
1111799
itz all depends yaar.........even i faced this ...............let d love come into ur relationship........d burning desires u have in ur heart have he has d only thing is initiate............as a gal u think he shud or may b u r shy..........mostly guy initiate it n gal follow it coz cz also interested to get into this......\nmay b ur bf wants but due to respecting r feeling his hasnt done nethin yet..........this is good.........try to get closer ...whn u both talk.......try to touch......it will encourage him n he also will come to know tht u liked this........\nif possible dont use words........whn walkin try to hold his hand.........sometime pamper him.......eventually u both ll enjoy this relationship..............\nOr jus give him surprise..........whn u get something nice from his end......jus hug him or kiss him immdietly...........u wont beliv , but it will b d moment he always dreamt of..................try to talk abt romantic movies..........scenes........or visit d place whr most of couples hang-out..............\ntC........
43766
Something sentimental is always a plus. Think about what your girlfriend is into, and try to be creative with that. Flowers on the side always makes me feel special when I recieve that from my guy though.
880423
im not a guy but  what i woudl do for my boyfriend is.... Have candles all the house with music anf make him a nice candle light dinner at home with champain. Also i would add roses on the table and of course in bed :) bath tub. and i would wear a nice red cute nighty! after dinner i do fundu with chocklet and straberrys feeding each other.. i dont know buyinga  guy a ring is for me. maybe later on. but what i woudl do is buy hima  gold bracelt thats carved in my name and his name date that u first dated ect... also a nice picture fram of u and him would be nice with other gifts... Also poems that come from your heart! hope this helps!\n\nhers sa site i found other things\nhttp://dating.about.com/od/valentinesday/
111494
By just showing him that you care. Pay attention to him. Really know what he likes or doesn't like. Make him feel like he is the only man in the room. SHOW HIM YOU LOVE HIM!! By doing this, he will already know that you love him and when it is time to say it out loud, he will already know how you feel which will make saying it a whole lot easier.
49532
First of all, you don't need to stop being nice in order to be more romantic, why not be both? It's not you being nice that they are saying 'no' to, but maybe you could be a little mischievious or naughty sometimes, maybe flirt a little or alot, maybe invite someone to do something romantic like...candlelite dinners, walking and holding hands, dancing, or just talking about your feelings and getting close...there are alot of ways to be romantic, you just need to find out what works best for you and what you're comfortable with, and be sincere...alot of women can sense insincerity...a little confidence would go a long way, too. Ask yourself: Do I have a good sense of humor? An interesting personality? Do I know how to have fun? Am I thoughtful and considerate? Or am I just approaching the wrong type of women? How is your approach? You don't have to stop being nice in order to be romantic, or to get women to date you. Consider the approach you are using, how and what you are asking them, and have something fun in mind to do besides sex, or ask them what they like to do or want to do.
1175636
my boyfriend is totally not the romantic type either - but we do manage to have the romantic love making... mood is key (with both of you & the physical setting) - both of you being relaxed (and well rested), massage, no distractions, dim lighting, candles - all the typical stuff. but make sure you have lots of eye to eye contact, all over touching (not just the "big" areas) & little sweet kisses (in between the hot sexy kisses)... good luck!