Ladies! Just outta curiosity, what is most important to you?
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honor, kindness, intelligence, and a good sense of humor.
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most important thing in a relationship is trust.
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Humor - a guy has to make me laugh, and be able to laugh at himself, or at least not take himself too seriously.  My boyfriend is really funny, and everywhere we go, he can make people laugh...even angry grocery store clerks.  Intelligence is equally important - including overall knowledge of what's going on in the world, politics, and also problem solving skills, objectivity.  Caring about other people is also a big one - compassion and eagerness to help others by volunteering or just helping someone with directions.  And with all of this, he's got to be "manly" - as stereotypical as that sounds, I like a guy that isn't too emotional, is physically strong, knows how to fix stuff around the house, and helps me do things that are easier for him - like carry heavy luggage, etc... \n\nI just realized that I've described my boyfriend perfectly...so I'm suddenly very happy to realize what I have!  Thanks for asking!
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Healthy, toned with curves. Not to fat, not to skinny.\n\nA woman with beautiful eyes, smile and positive outlook on life.
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Love is more important but of course money is needed. Personality is much more important than looks but honestly, we need that physical attraction too. Family is more important than friends but I do love my friends too. College, more education is much better than going for a job after high school but sometimes that doesn't work out for some of us. I love getting letters but pictures are great for memories of special moments. I think it's important to show interest and care about the life of the the ones I love but my life is important too. It's all give and take. :)
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I'm assuming "we" is a guy.  The most important thing is to be  yourself.  You're the most comfortable when yourself, and so that brings out confidence, intelligence, humor, and all the other good stuff girls look for in a friendship.
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Honesty,and the ability to remain faithful are the most important.Beyond that ,sexual compatibility is always a plus.
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ask her whats the most important thing in a woman's life.\nwhat is her greatest hope and her biggest fear.ask her if she thinks that you're a good match for her.\ngood luck !i wouldn't want to be in your shoes.
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Such a good question. I think the most important things in a relationship are friendship and trust. Passion comes and goes and if you're not friends and don't trust each other... you'll get a divorce eventually. So I vote for reason!(You do have to love the guy of course :)
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something that is both important to u.Just remember this will be on your body for the rest of your life.
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Thats a good question and i look forward to the ladies answers.\n\nWhich part?  The part that doesn't want to cheat
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almost everything but peace of mind, better health and a good loving supportive, warm fuzzy loving relationship, and oh, yeah, better furniture and I want to see the world,throw in a jag too, more clothes...........more and better jewelry..........uh oh, I am getting greedy now but you asked\nThanks for making me think.  Reviewing my priorities was very telling............that freedom of thought helped me line up what is most important to me.  Peace of mind came first.hmmmmmmm\nI do have a whole lot be be thankful for.........have a blessed and beautiful day.
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I need a girl that laughs at my jokes. I need a girl that I can be proud of. She needs to respect me, but have a life of her own. More important than looks, she needs to be intelligent. Her body is fairly important to me. Most off all, I need to feel comfortable around her.
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Neither are really that important. It's more important that you are sweet and fun to be with. If a girl is hot and smart but a b*tch, she's still a b*tch.
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Do not be superficial, be honest and sincere, and never ever lie!!!!!!  It is a super bonus if you have a great personality, real women love a great personality.  (Notice I mentioned nothing about looks, job, or money.....none of that really matters to a truely sincere woman!)
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don't know about the others as i usually don't have many female friends but i know for me someone who shows interest in some of the things i do, someone that i can hold a conversation with, someone that will hold the door for me. he's got to be caring, non judgemental, open minded, open to trying new things (doesn't mean in the bedroom), fun loving, lives life to the fullest, willing to take care of me as i would take care of him. looks aren't all that important but to have a good relationship there is definately a need for a physical attraction but over all it's how he carries himself. if he's sure of himself then i know i can be sure of him.
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The brain. It is so complex and controls every other organ. I think it is the most important, since without it, all of your other organs would have no use.