why women suffer longer to reach the climax during sex?
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Suffer?\n\nThat certainly makes it sound painful.\n\nSome women do not achieve orgasm through intercourse and may need direct clitoral stimulation as well.
329917
The female orgasm is a myth. Less than 1% of the women experience it occasionally.
668354
Penetration is awesome, but only after lots of foreplay.  Having a few big O's before penetration makes it feel better and makes orgasm during more probable.  Women are different though.  This is just my opinion.
328032
Some women only climax during oral. SO you might start there. Why dont you ask your girl and see what she says?? She can tell you better than anyone what works and what doesnt.
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I guess that your request is connected with your partner satisfaction.\nIn fact, the most part of women need longer times for reaching orgasm than men.\nYou know that the average time is within 15-30 min., but it gets no sense if our partner needs a different time. Therefore, we must compare our time (short or long) with our partner’s one!\nAbout your question, excluding functional diseases, you know that during the sexual act our mind has a relevant duty. Thus, we have to fight against it mainly.\nSome therapist or psychologist put some different methods to follow, and about them, you should buy some specific book.\nI only can give you some advices now.\nTry to begin the full act (penetration) as late as possible using in the meanwhile other methods (FOREPLAY) to excite your partner. While “acting” try to think about different stuffs, just to distract your mind. Somebody stops the act a bit before the apex, just to avoid the forthcoming ejaculation or stopping many times the penetration during the act (continuing to excite the partner anyway).\nThen, if we are able to have two acts consecutively, the most will already be done!
451379
Most women don't have an orgasm without direct clitoral stimulation.It doesn't mean that sex isn't enjoyable.
626833
No matter how far you go or you fancy to go, there is no way a male organ in intercourse can get stuck. The forced sex can result into a spasmodic contraction of vaginal muscles and extreme dryness on the part of an unwilling female but even then you don't get stuck. Nature has provided its own technological miracles to avoid situations like this.
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for me it's on top.... so I can control the movement.  But all women are different.  Maybe you should masterbate together to see how you bring yourselves to climax..... it's usually when your all on your lonesome that it's the quickest.\n\nbest of luck
533002
Sounds normal. Women aren't wet anymore after they orgasm, just like men aren't hard anymore after they orgasm.
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for guys and girls. yes.  reason being is that for guys, the more you ejaculate, the more semen your testicles have to produce to keep up, which usually means less semen in the testicles when having sex (because you ejeculated therest yesterday)  it takes more time to ejaculate the less semen you have.  that's why virgins always finish more quickly, or people that haven't had sex in a while.  for women the reasons are completely different.  it's all about sensation, as a female orgasm has nothing to do with ejaculation.  but the more you experience a sensation, the more aclimated you become to it.  women have orgasms when their pleasure reaches a crescendo and they 'climax'.  but the more you've experienced this pleasure the longer it takes (for most people) the reach that climax.  it's like if you eact chocolate cake every day, it's still good, but it takes a really good peice for you to say "damn, that was good!"  as opposed to if you went without it for years, your next peice would be amazing even if you bought it at the dollar store.  so yeah, that's it.
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use sparingly...some women get used to them and cant climax any other way
1066618
Your technique may not be pleasing her.  Remember it takes a woman approximately 20 minutes to reach orgasm and only 5 to 10 minutes for a man.
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I heard that 35 is around the age of women's sexual peak, and they are more likely to be able to orgasm through regular intercourse, unlike girls younger than them. So I think you've got it right on the money! Enjoy!
735793
Being a guy, I don't have a lot of experience in this area....\n\nBut I do recall reading once that a woman can experience difficulty enjoying vaginal intercourse if she has exclusively been masturbating.  But then I think vaginal intercourse gets more enjoyable for a woman over time or at least to some degree.  Again, I am not sure of this since I really have long term experience with one woman.\nI have no idea how long a period of time could possibly cause this.
1010360
when women reach climax and are tired, after 2 min maximum 3 min will get normal, like they had nothing! Not every woman has ejaculation! Only few, so i dunno
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A woman's orgasm may serve a purpose as far as the reproductive aspect of it goes. It is said that he female orgasm helps to draw sperm up through the cervix and uterus, thus aiding fertilization and reproduction. Fertility specialists sometimes tell women to lie on their backs and masturbate to orgasm after being artificially inseminated. Female orgasm is correlated with higher fertility rates and more babies.\n\nAnd as far as your "why does it happen" question goes, sex and orgasms are pleasurable. regurdless of whether people are married or even capable of procreation. I don't see what "the bible" has to do with this. \n\nPersonally, I'm agnostic, and don't believe in "god" or "the bible".
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Most women who have trouble with orgasming have problems with the strength of the muscles of the vaginal wall.  Even when they do orgasm, it isn't very intense and it's hard to tell.\n\nA healthy woman though will have strong muscles.  When she orgasms, these muscles squeeze down on you hard.\n\nIf your woman doesn't do this, get her one of these and have her strengthen her muscles.  You'll be very glad you did:\n\nhttp://www.kegelmaster2000.com/