How do i deal with a kid who is very annoying to me? SHE would lie to her parents about me hitting her.?
551010
you should talk to her parents and/or stay away from her as much as possible.
110529
give her a little space for a few days but then go up and talk to her when she is alone. dont attack her, but let her know how you are feeling and that you dont want to fight with her. if she/he is still being stupid about it then you might want to think about why they are and if you are willing to put up with it. \nhope this helped
449333
I have to be honest, if you see this girl pull her aside and tell her if she lands another finger or if you see her talking to your daughter you will take matters into your own hands. If she tells anybody else you threatened her.deny it..your the adult, then most likely the parents will start looking into it. I am serious! It works.
1129399
I would start with ignoring  her and I am sure once you get older you will realize your freedom is much more valuable to you than a person who annoys you.  As with killing or hurting someone is against the law and subject to jail time or the death penalty.  With age comes wisdom for most :) \nBig word for such a young person ?
81816
IF THE PERSON IN QUESTION IS CONTROLLING YOU IN SOME ASPECT'S, THEN YOU NEED TO LEAVE THAT PERSON BECAUSE THE PERSON'S GOING TO WIND UP HITTING YOUR OR POSSIBLY WORSE.\n\nIF YOU'RE STAYING JUST FOR THE KID'S, THEN GOTO  AN AGENCY THAT WILL HELP YOU AND THE OTHER PERSON WITH THE PROBLEM'S THAT YOU BOTH ARE HAVING DUE TO THIS NATURE!\n\nTRY TO GET THEM TO GOTO COUNSELLING, MAYBE, THAT'LL HELP FOR YOUR RELATIONSHIP TO GET BETTER AND BLSSOM.
442490
people say tell her how u r consirned about her, blah blah blah, but that never works, she wont listen 2 u. go right to her parents or a counsler about it u can tell them u want to remain anomimous. it is hard to confront your friends like that, and you might end up loosing the friendship
262060
Just talk to her, tell her what bothers you and if she keeps on doing it or gets mad, well that would mean she is not a good friend
188586
It depends on what they are doing to you. If they are teasing you ignore them.  If they are physically hitting you tell your parents, tell your teacher tell everyone and fight back.  Tell your parents you want to take up karate and then make sure everyone around you knows that you know how to fight.  They will mess with you a lot less.\n\nEven if you can't do any of this just remember they are probably being bullies to you because you are probably a very good natured, sweet, kind girl and you are probably very sensitve too.  These are good traits to have, don't let anyone make you feel that they aren't.   \n\nWhen you grow up you'll probably do a lot better then those bullies.    \nI know it's really hard and it hurts, but just remember you aren't alone, let everyone know what is going on so that the bullies can be punished.  \n\nI went through it too growing up, and it's hard but try your best to not see it as them making fun of you, because they aren't, not really.  In reality it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with them. They are the ones with the problems and they see that you have what they don't have, that makes them angry and they take out their problems on you.  Don't let their problems become your problems though.  \n\nThis will help you out though, it will make you stronger and wiser then they can ever be.  Trust me on that one.
1134112
Mine drives me nuts too...Just stick to your beliefs and raise your child the way you want her raised.  Don't let her bother you.
882363
file an unruly on her , that way if any violence happens they will see that you are trying to get help for her. they will place her on probation, give her community service and send her to anger management. hopefully she'll learn that there are consequences for her actions and some sense of responsibility on how to deal with other people. if she goes out in the world with that attitude she is going to get hurt or wind up in jail for hurting someone else. you also may get some counseling established so they can find out why she has so much animosity towards you and you can gain control back in YOUR household. good luck. I'll keep you in my prayers.
418746
God, my own mother gets on my nerves. let her know nicley that a little goes along way. or just tell her to back off
1036888
That is a very hard question. Could you somehow talk a little more to the girl? if not I guess the best thing to do is stay out of it. You could tell her to go to a counselor and tell them her problem and then the counselor could talk to the parents.
176273
Ignore it. She sounds like a trouble-maker and not a reliable source. You can also call her back and ask her to stop harrassing you.
193266
Just tell her to wait for her turn, and then take the toy away. If she starts crying, put another toy in her hand. If she won't take the toy or still won't stop crying, pick her up and sit her in a chair in a corner for a minute. She will eventually understand!\n\nAs for the hitting, pretty much the same thing: Tell her not to hit, but this time you need to punish her, because that is never ok! Just make her sit in a corner for a minute.\n\nI don't think spanking is worth the trouble, because why hit someone because they hit someone else? Your daughter won't understand that. As for the corner thing, I know someone who uses this method with their one year old, and it is very effective.
656104
I am sorry to say this, but if you feel the kids are being abused in any way....you should call child protective services.  They will come out and interview her and her kids and see whats going on.   Forget her lies, if you can see through them you have some power, and not to sound cliche, but with power comes responsibility.
598652
Tell your parents.  Something more serious then detention needs to happen with this kid.  Obviously, all the parents are going to have to demand it.  Maybe they need to go to the school board.\n\nIf you are attacked, defend yourself.  You do not have a choice.
1130960
There isn't much you can do.  She probably wouldn't listen to you if you did say anything to her.  Just let her be.  Even if she lies to people about you, I'm sure she won't stay credible to them for long.  Everyone will eventually figure her out.  Confronting her will just make her act like she's the victim of your "cruel" words.  She'll probably tell everyone just to get sympathy.