why is it that ppl r very hard to pleased???
541035
its just how a lot of people are, its how they are brought up and many are very self centred.
622032
One of the biggest causes of unhappiness is disappointment. \n\nI was told the best way to deal with this is to expect less, off everyone and everything. Don't be negative but just don't expect great things to happen all the time. \n\nI tried this and it really works, whenever something good happens to you no matter how small you appreciate it so much more and you end up focusing on the good things not the bad.\n\nSee if it works for you.\n\n:)\n\nxD
239471
sure there are millions of happy people all over the world ! I'm happy because I'm alive...  I have love , family , friends ,a home food and clothing... the world  is still here... so there is still hope  for our future .. there is  plenty to be thankful for... I could concentrate on what I don't have ... like many unhappy people do...   but why make your self so unhappy ??
626805
Sucess is subjective. What mekes that particular person happy. Two people can lead exact identical lives and yet one could be less satisfied with it than the other.
549221
You are the only one that you can really rely on. People will always fail your expectations because we have faults. Its ok to cherish and admire another person, but realize that they too have faults and that they are not perfect. When you get right down to it, you are the one that you must cherish and admire most. When you hurt or dissapoint yourself its easier to live with because you cant abandon yourself. Its good to be open to others, just dont expect that they will always have your back.
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I can't get no satisfaction
902870
bcuz ppl dont have noithin to do expect makin some sputid shi/t
582269
You don't say why you feel you are a big disappointment to everyone in your life.  Personally, I don't truly believe that.\n\nYou are being harsh on yourself - you need to lighten up.\n\nWe are put on this earth, not so much to please others, but to please ourselves.  We can only do the best we can and that is all that is asked.  We are human beings - not perfect.\n\nStop believing that you are a big disappointment - because you are not.\n\nBetter days are ahead.\n\nGood Luck!
176096
not feeling fulfilled ,,, sick and tierd of the other person and all of their bull s**t!!!!!
1044674
you can't-- as the old saying goes-- you can't please everyone/ no matter what you do, or how you act... there will always be people who appreciate your qualities... and also "haters"  either they are jealous, or just miserable people... but!  you cannot let other peoples' opinion of you dictate the way you view yourself-- or let others' opinions change you in a negative way, otherwise you will be in a perpetual state of trying to please others.. and you cannot win that battle, without losing others.
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Some people bring joy to us almost on a daily basis. Some people suck the energy out of you... The reason its hard to let go is that you know it will never be the same again. We get comfortable with people we can trust and count on.... It goes with my theory of people come into your life for a reason and always at a time of need....But the only thing that stays the same is change...
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Well honestly speaking, most of the time i do good for my satisfaction , feeling that yes i can be useful to some one else.....\n Ooops such a difficult condition but i ,ll go for the second option, though its very difficult to live in hell but its even  more difficult to get selfish n let others burn in hell , i ,ll try to sacrifice  myself for the comfort of others.. this is wht i m thinking now..i realy have no idea wht will i do if it happend actualy,
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hey! your not alone. i feel the same way. the harder i try to make things better in every aspect of my life and believe me i am a good person who tries doing the right thing but twice as many bad things come back on me. i believe in curses and one has been put on me.
53502
I'd guess, from personal experience, that it can be a lack of self-confidence...people don't want to seem greedy or inappropriate.
367841
THANK YOU! Some women cannot be pleased no matter what you do for them and we as men get tired of trying and move on to someone else. Most people are not happy unless they are miserable.
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You can't satisfy anyone without pulling yourself apart trying to accomodate them. You can't make everyone happy. We try to seek approval from others because it adds to what we think our self worth is. We want people to be proud of us and like us, it is just the way we were taught to put others opinions and values over our own.
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Why is it that when everything has been going bad, something GOOD happens?\n\nBecause we are all starting from imperfection and zero experience.  And there are temptations and pitfalls that accrue from not heeding the true basic tenets handed down over the ages, just about everywhere (including different cultures and religions).\n\nLife is a struggle, we have to team up and cope with the challenges.  There will be some disappointments along the way, you cannot control what others do, only yourself, and even yourself not always...\n\nAll the most needed things are free.  As for those things that require effort or money, be satisfied with what you really need as opposed to what you want.\n\nEven when we are old we must continually remind ourselves about this.  \n\nYou see some people who are unbelievably wealthy and unbelievably UNHAPPY and may even do crimes because they WANT SO MUCH, they are never satisfied.  Also, comes from living too much for ONESELF and not enough for others, helping others, working with others, sharing with others.\n\nHappiness is doing what is right and being satisfied with it, even when the surroundings are messy, all $%^#$&^^ up.\n\nIt is possible for heaven on earth if you think about this.  Meanwhile, you can have heaven in your own little spot, for sure.  There are ups and downs for everyone, even perfect visitors.