In a divorce, why do men celebrate it more than women do?
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because we feel tied down and once we finally are free its a big stress relief and heavy burden off our shoulders i was married once before and she was doing crazy shit then she cheated on me with my brother so when we went to court\nand got it final i screamed for joy while she jus cried....anyway some people change once there married...sex stops, affection stops its doomed from the begining
1022819
Because girls associate different feelings with sex than men do while men see pleasure and fun women see commitment and love its not really that it takes us longer to get into bed it takes us longer to develope love feelings and commitments
82019
Wow.  Some of the comments.  Women are more passionate than men at everything???  No broad generalization there...  (chuckling)\n\nI think the answer has to do with subjection.  Even in today's modern American society, and especially in Christian society, women hold a role of "being in subjection" to husbands.  Many grow up and are taught this way.  It probably comes natural for some as well.  \n\nSo, then, many women are already used to the concept of being in subjection to something.  Men, for the most part, are not.  We're fiercely independent, aren't we?  And when it comes to Christianity...to calling Christ Lord and being in subjection to His will...that presents a larger problem for men.\n\nThat, I think, is why we see more females at Church.  Not because they're more spiritual, not because they're more passionate, but because they are blessed in having an easier time at being able to humble themselves to a higher authority.  For this, kudos to women.  \n\nSomebody once wrote that Hell's motto will be "I am mine."  Perhaps this applies.  The Bible tells wives to be subject to their husbands...but it also tells husbands to love their wives to the point of giving up their lives for them, as Christ did for the Church.  The unique thing is, when you love something that much...*you are in subjection to it*.
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Hey, I know how you feel. I'm the one who told my ex-husband that I wanted a divorce and it took him 2 years to get up off his lazy butt and have it finalized. As for why your ex-husband still acts bitter, I really don't know. MEN!!!
212298
cause men think they are still 2 years old and let their wives take the place of their mommies. if just men ruled this world, it would have ended along time ago!
282963
Women show their emotions alot more than men do, but I believe men aren't as emotional as women. Men are more logical, though they do have emotions.
611060
It has to do with pride.  It's still a way that men are taught by society.  It's also a fear of being inadaquate for the lady in his life.
666855
I don't know if that's true...it's more of a case by case basis.  For example, I remarried shortly after divorcing, and my ex is still single 12 years later.  It is harder for women who have children to find men who are willing to accept them as package deals, though.
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I've also heard of this affect. Males are naturally more aggressive due to their hormones. But when the stimuli related to love are activated, they naturally become more docile, so they're easier to approach and be close to. Humans are still animals regardless of our high opinions of ourselves. Emotions Hormones and pheromones affect us as though they do any other animal. I could see how naturally, with it being in the subconscious that one is married, they're less likely to be aggressive with other males, in order to impress other females. This no longer applies to them, I would suppose it's the same mentality that allows the female gender to let themselves go. Perphaps this is just a scientific study proving that this phenomenon also happens in males. It makes perfect sense.
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the average man is controlled by pride and ego and by being a chauvinist it boosts their self esteem. they want to be in controll of their affairs and want to be in command therefore they prefer women to either be or pretend to be less important, intelligent or able than they are.
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It's true men are more visually stimulated and women are more emotionally stimulated.  They are not mutually exclusive, men and women just have diffferent preferences.
361058
Not all men do. I know that I, as well as some of my married buddies, take our relationships and marriages very seriously.\n\nSome men just want to conquer women s#xually, and then they move on. Some men get bored and want some excitement, and some are like little kids in a candy store, unable to keep their hands to themselves.\n\nUnfortunately, it is up to women to separate the wheat from the chaff, if you will.
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I never understood that myself.  I guess women are naturally suspicious of divorced men. \nMy sister and brother-in-law divorced, It was all her fault and get this,,, SHE pays the child support!!!!! (she got what she deserved).\nAnyway, there are women out there who understand that it isn't always the guy's fault, be patient.  Besides if the first thing a woman says is "What did you do" then you probably don't want her anyway (too controlling and suspicious).. GOOD LUCK!
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I think that if more women would actullay submit themselves to their own husbands as the Bible says, that there would not be so many divorces today. \nThe problem is most women view the word "submit" as becoming one's slave.  That is not the case at all. I myself  love being submissive to my husband, because that is how i get my blessings by being obedient to the word of the Lord.
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Because they seem to like the challenge.Because some women allow them to cheat.My father use to say that sometimes a man will marry the woman that will let him get away with the most crap.Whorish men get married too.Some men are in the practice of saying whatever it takes to get what they want or to get you off of their backs.Never let him know that you are totally satisfied with him or your relationship,because to do so is to give up the fight.Have you ever seen a dog chase a car?If the car stops moving he turns and goes the other way.He doesn't really want to catch it,he just enjoys the chase.Always keep your man chasing you.Even if he has you,don't convince him that he does.Otherwise he will look for some other person to chase.
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men mature slower than women.  they want a good time when the women are looking for husbands.  so unfortunately it's up to us to wait for them to want it.  There are a few out there who are great guys... but unfortunately they get snatched up by a few great girls.  sigh. \n\never feel like "everybody's buddy, nobody's hunny?"  lol- that's me.
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I think it's rewarding for men in two ways: (1) Knowing he still got it (to please the woman)  (2)If she's satisfied, chances are she'll try to return the favor too.\n\n.... and they lived happily ever after....