my boyfriend is so possessive about me that it gets on my nerves..wht to do ?
537079
Get rid of him!  It will just get worse!
289298
probably he is used to these stuff that you ask him to do for you. make him miss you ;) by keeping away from him for the meantime..
471676
you will eventually get to where they don't bother you. trust me love is worth a little irritation.every once in a while when you are feeling a little irritable.those little things that bug you now will make you positively bitchy. don't worry no matter who your with they are gonna do something that bugs you. if you love this guy. show him you want him even though he can drive you bananas sometimes.
371322
No, you're not the only one. I don't understand people who are clingy and possessive in relationships--or once the relationship is over, can't cope with the breakup and start acting like stalkers. Jealousy is strictly for losers.
941301
Talk to him and try to get him to stop it.  Tell him that it bothers you, not that you don't trust him, just that it bothers you.
741688
Aww!  I'm sorry to hear about this...Sounds to me that he's trying to hurt your feelings and make you jealous.  I would try avoiding him and moving on.  I know it's hard for you to hear this, but don't let him manipulate your love life.  Move on.  He'll get what's coming to him...and it won't be nice, but remember you aren't the one who needs to worry about that.  Good luck!
1116661
my ex is also like that.. at first i thought it was cute of him being jealous... but as time passes by it really suffocates me.. its like you cant do anything without asking permission from him or him allowing you. He became very possesive and it really kills me... As if i cant live my life by myself... piece of advice girl... don't let your bf becum a monster you should talk to him...and tell him that its normal to be jealous but its also not normal if he's over reacting when he is jealous...
487565
He needs to grow up! why do you bother with him when he treats you like that? he has no respect for you and by the sounds of it, for no other female either! it's rich calling you weird when he's the one with the problem! you can do better than that!
693846
We become possessive because of two reasons, one is insecurity, and the second would be trust. If you want him to be possessive, lie to him, break down any trust that you have earned, or find an insecure man. Your road to a possessive relationship will be certain if these two reasons are met.
137032
Maybe because your parents really love you so they become possessive, try to talk it over when things calm down. Don't talk about it when they are mad and high-tempered...
547504
Ask someone who is rough and tough to approach him to tell him not to make this sort of remarks in future. Let that guy tell him you are no longer his and tell him to stay out of your life. In the meantime, get closer to your new boyfriend for as long as it is neccessary. Use whatever means to avoid him.
1059182
Sounds like a loser to me.  The more comfortable he gets with you, the more likely he will start to abuse you, physically or verbaly.  It doesn't sound like you are in a very good situation.  You should get out of it.  Nobody should tell you what to do all of the time and the jealousy thing, it kind of makes me scared for you.  Good luck!
473151
you need to be honest with him and with yourself, and that monster you are experiencing is called jealousy, don't let it get the best of you!
1100025
No, he is driving u crazy!  Get rid of him!  No body should have to live like that!  Who the hell does he think he is, your drill seargent?!  There is no way I would put up with that!  That actually would make me cheat by drilling me all the time!  Dont feel guilty!  You really need to put him in his place!  Slave days are over!
860117
Sounds to me like he needs to check his homeboys. Sounds like homeboys are jealous. If your boyfriend is that insecure when it comes to your whereabouts then he needs to spend less time with the homeboys and more time with you and tell his so called homeboys to stay outta your business.
343467
find another boyfriend who doesnt put you under such pressure!
260825
you need to let him know that him checking out other gurks makes you feel insecure.he is a man he know no better. but he needs you to let him know what bothers you. i truly think he does love you. i dont think he tries to upset you, but he probably doesnt know he is hurting you. you need to let him know that you do so much for him and in the end it feels like he is disrespecting you and doesnt appericate what you do for your relationship. after you talk with him face to face im sure things will get better for you two, if he truly cares. just dont let him keep treating you bad because he will take it for vantage.\ni hope things work out for you hun and hope i hope my advice worked for your relationship.