The voices in my head wont stop arguing. Its getting distracting. What should i do?
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LOL....I have that voice too!  Isn't it annoying.  I'm always a contradiction.\n\nIt's your subconscious and it can be very pushy!
366560
if you hear voices and you cant control what they are saying this is different from your own thoughts. for example if you cannot stop the voices, then that is a lot different from if you are just a very thoughtful person. \nit sounds like you might be a little anxious. maybe you need someone to talk to? try talking to a friend or relative, a counselor or someone you can trust. it is pretty normal to have a lot of thoughts, but if you feel like your thoughts are racing, i mean, like there are a lot of thoughts that keep coming and coming, or if they are not your own thoughts, or if you hear voices, then that could be a sign of something serious you would want to discuss with a psychologist or psychiatrist. another thing that you might want to consider is keeping a diary of your thoughts, and see how they relate to events going on in your life. Also, try to see what happens when you take caffeine or drinks like coffee or tea or colas like coke, those can make the brain act a little strange. also, stimulants like cocaine or amphetamines can make your thought process change. try and avoid those if you feel uncomfortable with your thoughts. but it sounds like more than likely you just need someone to talk to...
525383
If you are looking for a serious answer on this one, you really should talk to a physician/specialist dealing in geriatric psychiatric disorders.\n\nHere, your most likely answers are going to be... you still hear the voices but you keep forgetting what they told you to do.
87297
Maybe you are trying to hard, just relax.  Talking as natural as it should be, isn't always easy for some to do in the company of others, but I think if you were to not put too much effort into it, it would just come normal.  I am sure you have got opinions about things, just pick your time, don't just talk for talking sake, because then you may babble and talk a whole lot of nonsense.  Speak up when you know you have something soound to contribute and after\nawhile you will be saying more than even you realize.  Baby steps, you'll be o.k   Talking is overated anyway :)
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Just  be honest with them and speak your mind.  Telling them why you disagree with what they are saying.  \n\nBut whatever you do, don't let either one of them influence your decision. Make sure what you are deciding is your choice and what you believe, not theirs.
506043
Yes you can. Try to figure out what it is that might be wearing heavy on your mind. Dreams and sleep-talking are a subconsious vent. You could see if you can tape what your saying and make sense out of it. I myself talk in my sleep, and let me tell you, i'm an honest sleep-talker. (trouble) But, hopefully, you will talk to a "shrink" or even a therapist to determine why your talking in your sleep. I know the feeling of going to bed and wondering if i'm going to tell a story to my girl in the middle of the night. And just for the sake of saying this, don't go to the club with your buddies and tell your girl that you had to work. she was waiting for me to get up and diascuss my "conversation" that i had with her. (we're good now though)
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Hi try walking away when the fighting starts and cooling down, when you both have a minute 2 cool down try and talk about it this has worked for me and I think it can help you
644692
Sometimes that is the only way I can think things through, sometimes it helps to hear something as well as think it...Hey I do it all of the time, I just hope I don't get into an argument!
780886
Talk to your doctor. It sounds like anxiety
600500
argue or passionately discuss? you can never learn anything new from someone who thinks the same way you do. opponent's do attract for a reason. how do you stop this? how do you stop the world from spinning? you cant. but you can keep an open mind. then if you feel strongly about a subject and he's of another view its OK. just because it comes out the mouth, doesn't make it Gospel. don't just expect others to have the same opinion, and don't try to push that opinion on others. that's what starts real arguments.But if the " talks" are becoming heated and frighten you, then get the heck out of there. no amount of change on your part will help. " equalizing the distance between to objects, brings them closer together" Albert E.
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Try changing your daily routines... Sometimes, just being in the same old place with the same old people can drive a relationship to the point of arguing over nothing. Maybe go out to an art exhibit, take a cooking class together, or even volunteer at an old folks home. You never know, if you are focusing your energy on something else together, you may find that you don't have anything to argue about!
974488
not a 'mental case' hunny but you sound stressed - try to take time out to chill - slow down - enjoy
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If the problem is so bad, that it is interfering\nwith your ability to have a normal life and you are\nseriously worried,friends mention it, get help.\n\nYou are probably anxious(nervous).  That is the most \ncommon causes of it. The nuerons in the brain can\nfire so quickly, when your nervous, that the words\ncoming out of your mouth is the same thing that happens when we type too fast....TYPOs\n\nIt's basicly the same thing.  However, it's possible you may have add or ahdd.  If you think you might\nhave trouble concentrating or you can't remain still\nfor long periods of time, then consider this.\n\nMake an appointment with a psychiatrist.  Not a psychologist first.\nIf you go to a psychologist first, they will give you a name of a psychiatrist to see because legally\nthey cannot make that diagnosis.\nAfter the psychiatrist has made his diagnosis of what is causing your personal problem, he will tell you where you need to go for help.\n\nLike I said earlier, it's probably tension but if not and it is really upsetting your world, then get help.  My best wishes AND DON'T WORRY!!! You'll be\nfine.
747660
It is all in your mind,you have to do something about it...\nyou have to talk with someone who is an expert
555984
Take a small break, and try to focus your mind. Relax and think...things could've been worse. You decide what's on your mind and not the other way round :-)
734345
I'm a bit like that aswell sometimes. Just take a deep breath and walk away. Staying there will make you more angry. If you can't walk away, just tell them you're doing something wrong politely.
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go through one ear and out the other!\none way to make her stop is tell her she's right[it's not fun to nag when someone believes you're right!]