why do asian women only like asian men?
540967
no that's not true..it mostly happen because the attitudes of asian women were closely the same as asian men. maybe they believe that its ok to be understood by someone who knew there culture already unlike you who is not an asian man
906666
i think they are probably intrigued by you.\n\ni work with a lot of white guys, and MANY of them are attracted to asian women.\n.
5671
Men believe (rightly or wrongly) that an Asian girl will be more submissive or docile.  They stereotype Asian women in that way based upon what they see in movies or based upon what they hear goes on in Asia.  Some Asian women are attracted to white men because they want someone who doesn't treat them as subserviant.  They want to be treated as an equal.  See what can go wrong in this picture?  Obviously many relationships between Asians and westerners work just fine, but if someone is just trying to attract "any Asian" or "any white guy", there could be a problem.  As far as physical attraction, perhaps some are attracted by the more youthful appearance, but some may also be attracted by the fact that in general, Asians tend to be slimmer than western women.  Many guys find that attractive.  Guys look at a woman's mother for a clue at what his girl may look like in the future.  Asian parents tend to be slimmer than western parents.  \n\nThere is some male input for you.
352128
I find many asians attractive. But then again, I have the yellow fever.
546638
hiya! Well im puerto rican and black and im attracted to asian guys so maybe thats whats going on here. Maybe you are just damn cute and youre getting hit on by us fiery latinas. Whats the prob bob? If youre not interested in spanish girls its still a compliment :) I think latinas are more daring than some women and thats why we dont have a problem with flirting with a cute guy. Count your blessings dude we're fun girls!:)
912240
Well I'm an Asian woman and I have dated every type of men. White, Pakistani (still Asian though), Chinese, Mexican, and Black. I don't have a problem with any background the man comes from! \n\nFrom personal experiences and from the absolute truth I get out of other Asian women most of these women go out with White men not because they fell in love with them at first sight but because they "looked attractive" and attractive means sharp features that White men have that are highly influence by the media they see every day.\n\nWhat's funny is that if you live in San Francisco, I'll guarantee to you that every part of the city you go, you'll always see an Asian girl with a White guy! Some of them act really stuck up too just because they'll with a White guy?\n\nSome girls I know even point out that White guys treat Asian women better than Asian men, that they have money, and above all you can have beautiful babies with them! But this is American, and the Asian men here are Asian Americans how stupid to assume such things!\n\nIt's really like reverse racism if you think about it. They say Asian men are no good!\n\nWhere I lived before moving to San Francisco, I always saw the Asian guys have girlfriend with no difficulty, but here I see a lot of single Asian guys and not so many other races of women want to give them a chance. How sad! Asian men are statistically more lonely and single than Black women too.\n\nI just wish some of my Asian female counterparts just stop the reverse racism on our men because they don't deserve any more discrimination!\n\nStatistically: There is one Asian woman for every TWO Asian man in America! And Japanese American women marry outside race like 75%! Those are really disturbing numbers, because like I said, many of these Asian men will be bachelors for a long time and some may never marry because of it!   :(\n\nI love all men but I wish more of my sisters gave other men a chance besides White guys!\n\nOh and of all the men I've dated, my favorite was my ex-Chinese boyfriend. He was so funny and really, really, really.....good in the bed! Probably he was so lonely for a long time before he met me! There was nothing small about him either!
20594
I was going to ask that too.  They are very rare, so rare that when you see it it really stands out.  I've dated black women and felt like everyone was watching, and I have a friend in LA that is married to a black woman and after 9 years he says it's always uncomfortable, especially around black men.  I can't say anything about the asian part but that you never seem to see at all.  Believe me, it's not because white men don't find black women attractive either.  I just dunno.
652646
hey girl,\nI m nt a guy but I feel the same as u. I m also a asian . Hmm is it in our culture that we are installed that westerners are more superior? haha. I feel tht asian guys go alot for looks wherelse other races does not focus much on looks instead they go for character. I guess if u are some1 interesting ,people wld lik u no matter what race u are. Who can ever resist some1 so charmin and witty?
356952
Heck, yeah.  Asian men are usually very attractive and very smart.
174330
Heck YEAH!!!\nI love me some asian people. The most beautiful women in the world are there.
312656
Actually I see white girls with Asian guys.  But I live in a big city where folks tend to be more progressive.  I think it mostly has something to do with American white girls being very provincial.\nAnd overall I think Asians tend to be more attractive, so I'd have to disagree with the comments left above.
1029972
Asians are hardly more worthy than any woman, beautiful or otherwise. While many Asian women are exceedingly beautiful, I'm not sure that's the only attraction they have for military men, or even businessmen. What they are is exotic, culturally and physically exotic, from women in our own culture. This sometimes causes an extreme attraction even for Asian women who are not beautiful. They are still brought up to give deference to men, cater to them, even, much as their mothers and grandmothers had been raised. This is like an aphrodisiac to American men who are used to women brought up on Women's LIb.\n\nThis is not to say that you can't compete with these women. You and all your sisters, black and white, who are attractive females don't have to take a back seat to Asian women if you but look for men that are not so enamored of them. There must be some of them, too. So set your cap for one of them, instead of the gaggle that forms in line for Asian girls. I take it that you are in the service in Japan, or have recently been. Good luck in snatching a good man away from these would-be geishas.
167030
"chinese,japanese,dirty knees..look at these!" (haha im soo jokin) but yeah u know guys..all they want is sex..being asian is just a BIG bonus!
569448
Because most women secretly want to be conquered, dominated. They feel as if they are betraying the "sisterhood" to admit it openly. But they want a man who is a man. Not some effeminate man. That is why sensitive effeminate men are home watching Queer Eye for the Straight Guy on cable. \n\nThat is why women say with their lips they want a nice doctor or architect, the 2.5 kids, the pet, the SUV, and the home in the 'burbs, but go out and get these train wreck womanizers or bad boy rough necks. It is the choice they make that gets them thought of as they are. And when so many are so quick to hop in the sack, how can they be thought of as the "nice girl" who has some scruples?\n\nIf you fall for every get-rich-scheme no matter how hair brain, do you think anyone would trust you with money? If you are a girl waiting in line to be with Mr "bed 'm and boot 'em" McDreamy, when you know he has never, EVER, been loyal or faithful to any g/f. You figure she is just in it for the d*** or highly stupid so you have a hard time taking her seriously. \n\nI don't even think of Asian girls in such ways because they have more morals. If you get it from them, you worked 500 times as hard, or you put a ring on their finger.
637495
As far as I'm concerned, I've got lots of guy friends who're Asian, and I did ask a few of them this online.\nMost of them are rather insecure about *certain things* (the whole size issue) and prefer to stick to the Asian girls.\nHowever, while many of them wouldn't mind dating other races, their parents would completely flip out seeing them bring home a black or a white girl (though whites are more acceptable, it's that double standard and it infuriates everyone, I know.) because most parents would just like their son to marry (they view dating as a process to marriage. Meaning, an automatic process) a "nice, Asian girl".\nThis is especially true for Indians and Chinese, though the Chinese families catch up fast (cept' the traditional ones) and if given enough reasons, they might just grudgingly accept the fact that you're the one their son/daughter wants, no substitutes.\nAnd yes, many Asian guys really dislike Asian girls to go out with other races. They view it as an insult to their manhood, something like how some blacks dislike their black girls to go out dating other races, especially whites.\nSome are pretty impartial to that, though.\n\nA few of my guy friends do want to date a black girl, and have friends who're interested in a black girl at school, but the problem is, they're a little intimidated by black girls.\nSome of them can be really aggressive and that scares some Asian men off. Also, they see it as 'surprising' that a black girl wouldn't mind dating them - most of them have the impression that it's the black girls who don't dig Asian guys.\nHope that helped.\n\n\nJenova\n(d.yuffie@gmail.com)
363728
Yeah, I think there are hot guys in every race...I know this really hot Asian guy who is too shy to even talk to a girl.  I think shyness in a guy is pretty cute, and not being conceited is cute too.
850577
Normally I'd be happy to see positive things about the Asian community but when you add negative stuff, it pisses me off.\n\nI'm an American but I was brought up on the whole Asian polite/docile/sweetheart personality thing so you're wrong about American women.\n\nIs it me or do you just want a woman who will cater to your every wishes? American women are strong and it's sad that you're so less of a man.\n\nYou could at least check your spelling.