If a best friends steals a love interest, are they really your friend?
534896
What kind of friend is that person? Being friends is like a sacred bond, you stick together, you have each others backs. THAT is not cool for a friend to do. I would NEVER do that to a friend.
922686
Your best friend will never judge you, take advantage of you or treat you badly.  She/he will not talk about you behind your back, they would drop everything if you needed them.  They will be the one sitting next to you when you get in trouble to lend you their shoulder to cry on.  You have tons of fun together and you share many great memories.  You trust one another, you would never choose a boyfriend/girlfriend over your best friends.  Boyfriends and girlfriends come and go but best friends are for life.
932731
a best friend... it's not really a label, it's more like a promise. you can't find them, they're not like diamonds. you meet someone, they have a lot in common with you, you guys enjoy spending time with each other, you can talk to him/her about anything, he/she's always there for you, and soon enough, there comes a point when you think of him/her everytime you're having a hard time. that's when you know he/she's a best friend. so yea, i'd say they are.
492496
who controls your life? you or your best friend?
1102523
well there is no doubt that if she is really messing with this guy, she doesnt deserve your friendship, so 4get about her because she is not being loyal and sincere. but most importantly, forget about the guy! i cant believe he is doing this with your bestfriend when he knows you like him!
563684
did you really fall for his friend or maybe it is just you both share relationships with the same person.
389954
well if they like your best friend first... if your friend knows it then leave the situation alone becuase you dont wnat any drama, second... if this person knows you like them but arent giving you enought to go with they are playing games with your head. third... never go after someone who dosent want you initially becuasr they can be getting close to you but thinking about your frined! or stay close to you until they can get your friend.  think about it this can go several ways
125198
Are you sure they're friends?
977955
That 'friend' wouldn't be yourself now, would it??
458476
Been there with my best friend. She did that to me a few times, but I finally had enough and told her if she didn't find her own men, I was not going to be around her anymore. Its a trust thing: You trusted her with the knowledge that you liked this guy, and she went ahead and screwed around with him....Not Cool!!\n\nHowever, if the guy didn't know you like him, then its not his fault. If he did, he holds half the blame.\n\nI'd do the same thing again with my best friend, I'd let her have it! My best friend decided that she'd rather be my friend than have anyone I liked!!...GL;)
611276
You are not her friend if you are trying to steal her man! There is no way that you can still be friends with her and take her man.  And you call yourself her best friend......that's wrong on so many levels.  I hope she whoop yo a*s*s
449791
Sounds like they are both playing you.  She is NOT a friend if she could do this to you.  Even if she doesn't have a lot going for her, it's just an unwritten rule that you don't go after people that you know your friend likes!
287308
No defintly not a friend is someone who understand you and is there for you no true friend would resort to emotional blackmail to get what they want from you and if he truely loved you he would want you to be happy not put his happiness in front of yours
69156
were you actually with the guy? did your friend know you liked him? has your friend also known him for a while? these are important things to think about. if your best friend steals your boyfriend, neither are exactly worth your time, sorry, it hurts. If your friend knew you liked him, did she at least warn you she liked him? if she warned you, the punishment inflicted should be less severe, she still cares about you. If you were totally unaware, but she knew, then you probably want to yell scream and hit, once that is out of your system if you can trust her again, then try to keep the friend. If she didn't know then you really can't blame her for anything, but you would fit the first scenario if you tried to steal him from her...
920219
I had a friend a long time ago who got jealous of me and said some really mean things behind my back...... and also to me, ON THE COMPUTER. She said things that only described herself.... a s l u t , etc. She was the one who flirted with guys and slept with everyone. I just thought it was amusing when she told me that. In person, she acted like she never said any of those things and acted like we were friends. I'd ignore her.\n\nJust because you know someone for several years doesn't mean they're your friend. I learned that the hard way. Oh well.\n\nShe was easily replaceable LOL.
578639
YES SURE\n               I THINK THEY ARE THE MOST PERFECT ONES TO BE ADAPTED AS BEST FRIENDS. \nATLEAST THEY ARE \nHONEST\nLOYAL\nN\nFAITHFUL.\nI HAVE A PERSONAL EXPERIENCE
1112429
Ask them - if it is a true friend, they shouldn't be into the person you like..................