my friend and i fight out of nowhere... is that normal?
546421
definitely not normal... it depends on the nature of your problem... try to rectify it... no point in losing a friend over a tiny RANDOM squabble...
905656
How old are you and your brother?  Speak to your parents as ask them to referee the fight and they might be able to settle your differences.  Remember, it takes to people to tangle. It also takes to people to fight.  So do not fight, that will keep your brother from fighting you.  Keep yourself busy or keep your brother busy if you both are busy, then you won't think about fighting each other.  \nWhat do you all fight about?
358598
You really should tell them how you feel, and find out what the fight is really about. It may or may not actually be about you. Maybe it's more they are fighting over you. There could some deeper issue involved. Yep, it's official, I've been watching way too much Dr. Phil.
909644
Definitely not a true friend. \n\nBut. You both have a lot going on right now. I think you two should just have some fun 'girls night' or something and forget about these boys.\n\nStick with your friends, it's silly when girls fight over boys.
539073
thats messed up. do your friend know? Dont get involved cause she might say that you tried to mess with her
994820
Hey, hun. I went through that. It was like we never broke up.  After talking we decided to pretend it never happened. Now she and I regret it. But talk to her. You both probably want to get back, a fight shouldn't be the reason you break up.
372404
this is a very hard situation to be in believe me i know how you feel! my two best friends hate eachother too! one is a cheerleader and the other is a music buff and hates cheerleaders! i tell them both that i don't want in the middle of their little cat fights and they actually don't put me in that situation. if you're really their best friend, they won't make you sit through that kind of stuff. mine actually don't have a problem with eachother if i'm around with them both. every now and then i get into conflicts with one saying i'm paying more attention to the other but i just ignore that fact. what can i do, i have more classes with the cheerleader than i do with the music buff. just make sure they know you don't want anything to do with their little fights and they should let you out of their fights. it may take a little while, especially if they get into a huge argument! they might expect you to choose sides, but don't do it. stay strong and stick up for yourself! let them know who's boss in your life lol! i hope this helps and wish you luck!
440371
Hi try walking away when the fighting starts and cooling down, when you both have a minute 2 cool down try and talk about it this has worked for me and I think it can help you
1032154
that is kinda wierd, is he stalking you or something?\ni don't really get who is on whose side with your conflict, but good luck
470345
no not normal. Very inconsiderate towards you. try talking to him later and calmly ask him to look at it from your pov
1025231
well obviously something had happened between them, all you can do is never favor one over the other. maybe you can try to talk to them and come up with a way to resolve the situation.
564740
Its a small fight- all friends have them every once and a while.\nTell her your sorry for what happened, and that you want to put it behind you because your friendship is to important to think about stupid little stuff.\nListen to what she tells you and how she feels.
302700
This really is common, whether we admit it or not. I have a friend that at times really frusterates me. I just wait a week or so and then by giving the both of us space, we just start pretty much where we left off, and the funny part is that most of the time she doesn't even know I was upset with her, friends just do that. See what causes yall to fight and try to avoid it, if you can't do this then try to talk to her about this, a real friend is there through the thick and the thin!
78370
Step up to the plate.  Approach your friend and admit to your own resposibility in the fight and then tell that person what you do/don't like about what happened.\n\nWhenever you have a fight with a true friend - always be sincere about your own participation and contribution to the fight.\n\nGood luck.
905725
i dont think ur doing anything wrong. maybe its just him. maybe hes cahnge over the years and try not to start the fights. wen fighting arises change the subject and try to have fun.
1051924
Two years before we had a hot spot and fought but as both were stubborn we remained the same for a week. Later while playing a game before tests(whole class played yaar) we were in oppostie teams and then in same teams that time we could not avoid speaking to each other.Our anger melted and once again buddies forever. \nNow for some advice,listen to me. If you can rate your friend please see if he/she is worth of your friendship. If they are then apologise and don't fight again. If not then shut your mouth and go find some worthy and truthful friend. Ok good luck.
398539
as in an actual fist fight... well hummm... four years ago... it was with my ex best friend and she and i started not liking eachother and she started alot of rumors about me and then there came a point where she got someone to ask me if i wanted to fight her at the bus stop i was like whatever, i was actually so scared. if i fought it would be my first fight. so many things were going through my head. i was so crazy and scared that i decied to even fight with a pocketknife but i didnt have any intentions of killing her or anything but i didnt want to get hurt or lose. and this girl was so much more gigantic than me. but the stop came and then we got off she throw the first puch then i hit her back and down she went to the floor. i kept on punching her and stabbing her on the gut with the knife and then finally my mom came running and after a while seperated us. im not sure who won i would say me because i hit the most and all and because everyone who saw it said i did kick her ass... but who would really know.... what got me mad was that she went around the school saying that she kicked the shit outa me and blah blah and people believed it as far as her friends anyways but yeah that my story>>>