my boyfriend  is so sexually active i want 2 break up w/ him but i dont no how ?
554346
Lay it out, tell him you don't want to be with him. You deserve better doll, don't ever let a guy make you feel like you can't be a real woman. Just tell him straight out. You don't even need a reason.
333975
WOW. You really have to think... is this guys "small problem" something you want to live with? To me it sounds like you already know the answer. Sex has its part in a relationship and no matter how big of a part you want it do be, (no pun intended) it is still there. If you are not satisfied then keep him as a playmate (maybe he can perform good in "other" ways), but keep your options open. If your not happy, your not happy. So don't BS your self.
837636
make it to a next step.. be friends with benifits... If he is busy.. then he will appreciate the sexual gifts from you.. sex releases stress.. and might bring you 2 closer...
163836
sweetie you are not a nympho...you are perfectly normal and so is he...a males sex drive goes downhill as they get older and a females sexdrive just keeps going and going and going...no matter what age you get hun you're gonna wanna do it all the time...thats just you...he just dont wanna admit that he cant handle your sexual appetite
502715
by coming right out and telling him then show him the door. once a cheat always a cheat.  Yes it hurts to break up but its better than staying with someone who cheats on up and can end up giving you STDs. There are great guys out there dumb the loser and finding one will be easy.
229356
he is wanting sex.mabye a freindship also.but definatly SEX no matter how u try to justify him.u should have nothing to do with him.
992419
i'm in the same situation.....i guess the ball is in your court now...play it cool to see what he wants. Then you decide if you wanna be with him or not...he might do it again and break up with you.
176691
I presume you dont like to have sex? But you both are in Love? Am I right?\n\nThen you need to see a Shrink (doc). \n\nYou need to know that the guy obviously cannot live with you knowing that there is no sex between you both. So do him a favour and find out why u dont like sex... \n\nIm sure you will find a solution to this and your love life will be more interesting and rewarding...\n\n.:Fishie:.
555710
Until you said "When I am more than willing to have sex and try new things all the time?" I thought I had the solution for you.  If he's not fulfilling your sexual needs you need to drop him.  Let him play in cyber land and find someone that can appreciate a real woman.
897219
i think u should dump him, and find a guy that likes sex
705143
i was in the SAME situation recently! SERIOUSLY just have some fun together! A relationship doesn't have to be based on Sex! Are you two passionate with each other or get butterflys around each other? then you are more than friends....if not they you are JUST friends!
549500
He has a strong sex drive. Skipping work once in a while to have sex sounds like fun to me though. He's probably not going to change how often he wants sex - why do girls always think they can change their boyfriend? You may need someone who's slightly less needy. That sounds a little excessive to me - he could be using that to control you. He is also not considerate of you in trying to manipulate you into doing more. The getting mad part is a huge problem - you shouldn't put up with that.
383881
You can't.  Period.  Sorry, but if you went into the relationship thinking you could, don't ever do that again.  Let him know that you won't tolerate being controlled, and if he can't live with that, than walk away as soon as you can.  He could turn violent.
1174526
if u enjoy the sex but not so much getting hurt then try to let him go! hard as it will be this kinda thing makes u stronger! hes got a gf then that's just 2 bad 4 now! don't hang about 4 him or be easy access for him! don't regret what u have done u were only looking out 4 number 1 and that's who's important carry on your life and if he comes looking in the future tell him u ain't gonna do nothing till he leaves his Mrs/s will show u what he really wants u or just an easy lay! not being nasty in any way just know users when i c them!
1116539
Sounds like you feel he doesn't love you and just using you for sex.  You may have that feeling because he is.  If you feel that way you can't be enjoying your time with him , so do something that you can get into with him. Just spend some time together going out to diner or movies you may need some quality time together and rekindle your relationship.
325596
I respect you immensely for not wanting to.  Sex is a very serious thing and it ties two people together permanently.  (Have you ever noticed couples around you who need to break up because they're miserable: the reason they won't is because they're having sex) It is a very serious decision. Treat it as such.
107734
There are 2 things that can be done.  You must first ask yourself a question.  How important are my sexual needs?  Can I live without them?  If you are looking at getting your sexual needs fulfilled and your partner isn't satisfying them, then you need to talk to him/her about them.  If you have been patient and your partner still isn't willing to satisfy them and it's very important to you.  Then break up with him/her.  If you love him/her too much and are willing to sacrifice your satisfying your sexual needs then stay together.