This guy I've been dating for 4 months now, he asked me to move in many times now he wants to wait.?
536660
Guess he's getting cold feet. Tell him it's fine that he wants to wait because you'd like to spend more time getting to know him too.
404207
If this has been the same guy for 10 months I would say that it's time. In my opinion you have every right and he should expect you to want to clarify your relationship.\nI can understand, to use your term, "going with the flow" but you have gone with the flow and have some questions you want answered.\nDoes he just want to play around; a couple weeks here and a couple weeks there, or dies he have future plans?
1070552
i say he loves and respects you and is trying to learn from his mistakes - before he leaped too quickly and it ended badly. I usually tell guys to wait until she is ready but I have to switch this time and say hey wait until he is ready. relationships are hard enough all by themselves without added pressure. sounds like a keeper to me. Be happy
954107
he has to keep the door open just in case he wants to get back if he needs to or the opportunity presents itself.  that shy nerdy stuff, OK maybe before anything jumped off i can see that but now that it has the ball is in his court and he either wants to be with you or not.  if it's there, he will make a way to ensure that it happens again.  if it's a question about how what happened changed the relationship, that is something you have to decide to figure out if you're willing to wait around to have explained to you.
252948
Be honest with him ... "putting out" has nothing to do with "moving in" ... they are entirely different aspects.  Take it slow from here on out.
537447
If your willing to wait for him because you love him..ur a good girlfriend! most girls would leave and get out of the sitation!...but if he doesnt appreciate you waiting for him than its not worth it..he should be happy that your willing to wait for him and support him...he has to make up his own mind..u cant make him want you to wait..so good luck! hope all works at well!
748462
have you talked to this guy about taking it to the next step? Maybe it's time for you to both sit down and discuss where you both want to see where this relationship will lead you to. If what he's offering at the end of the line is not want you want, then its time for you to re-consider the relationship.
256475
Sounds like you waited too long already.  If he isn't married or involved with someone he is still someone with little time to give you--or he would be with you now.  He doesn't sound worth another second to me.
992282
Leave it for a while, 4 months really isn't that long. Leave it till your one year anniversary.\nYou would make any normal bloke run away by talking of living together after 4 months especially a commitment phobic.
1140008
He is just saying that to keep you, he knows thats something YOU want. He most likly doesnt want to get married and if he does not right now. Either you keep letting him ignore you or tell what you want  and follow through dont except anything less than what you deserve, but pressuring him would be the wrong thing to do. I think you should just let him know how you feel and then determine if he is worht waiting for, dont let him slip away if you know he is a good guy.!!!!
1068455
You need to ask in order for the relationship to work. He won't mind, He's proboly been thinking of a way to tell you anyway that he either, doesn't want to be with you and wants to move. wants to be with you wants to move and wants you to come but doesn't want to spring it on you. Or want to be with you but has to move. \n            Hope this helps :)          good luck
458107
Two months is definitely a little quick, but I believe that it is possible for you to know that this may be the right guy.  Give it a few more months and then talk about becoming engaged and maybe living together.
1058388
Why should you wait?  He is not waiting, I am sure.  Give him all the space he needs and move on.  You don't need this kind of turmoil.
955380
I moved in with a guy after 7 months before.. I think it ruined our relationship.  I will never live with a man until I am married now.  It seems crazy to commit to someone that much when you haven't decided if you like them enough to spend everyday (rest of life) with.  Esentially that is what you are doing.. spending the rest of your life together... so it is putting way to much into the relationship. \n\nI would suggest moving out and still dating.  You can take a baby step backwards.. He might think it is a good idea too.  It might save your realationship.\n\nGood Luck :-)
178639
Lots of factors - like how old you are, what is the status of your relationship, what is the stage of your relationship right now, how serious both of you are with each other, etc.  If you're still young, it may not be advisable to move in with him there.  Are you already engaged and marriage is in your plans?  Can you both work out a win-win plan?  I think a move that will affect both of you must be decided by both of you, and not just him.  He should have asked your thoughts on the matter, considering that he expect you to be there.  Weigh all these considerations and decide the best.
1113389
please take some time and wait... for sure he will talk to you again and patched up things... sometimes love needs some arguments to spice up the relationships
301533
At least he's nice enough to wait for you... Maybe he knows that you don't know what you want too.\nYou are not pushy when you let people know what you want.  It's a good way to communicate.  Plus it will save both of you a lot of time & confusion.