My girlfriend sais I act immature,  do you think she is referring to the bed wetting?
545081
Not entirely. I think it may be a combination of the bed wetting, the spider man under wear and the pajamas with the feet in them along with the pacifier but hey, I could be wrong.
593042
hmmm, I would say after you two are very comfortable with each other.  you could always let one rip, and pretend that it was an accident, and see how she takes it.  but she might be really grossed out, so be careful\n\nbut I wouldn't start out by farting in bed and holding the covers over her head.  take it slow and gradual
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I have her problem and its not a problem at all some days its really bad and I have to wear a pad is all to keep from having to change my clothes but its normal since she is a virgin she don't have anything so tell her to wear a pad ever so often and let that area breath a bit as well that will help her dry up a bit sometimes. I wish you luck in your life together.
950335
She obviously feels a little awkward about being "touchy-feely" with you.  Maybe she thinks you will view it as a sexual overture, when she really does not want to have sex.  Maybe she thinks it is too forward for a woman to be touchy feely. Whatever the reason, why dopn't you try to TELL her what you would like in this situation.
301541
no thats teasing... lol.. she used u buddy... u gotta go all the way in... i'm sorry dude... but it does feel great...
179988
Just a thought on wetting the bed at 8 years old\n\nHas she always done this or did it start out of the blue?\n\nIf it started out of the blue then you must find out what is terrifying her or upsetting her to make her react like this.\n\nSome reasons this can start suddenly are\n\n* Being bullied\n* Being told mummy is pregnant\n* Moving home, school, class\n* Losing a family member or friend\n* Feeling scared & insecure\n* Some form of physical / mental abuse\n\nIf she has always been doing this then letting her sleep in it will only distress her further, it's not her fault it's just something we have to learn & some learn it easier than others.\nPlease don't let her feel degraded over this.\n\nShe may be a heavy sleeper and just doesn't notice she has to go till it's too late
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Yes it's very normal and you shouldn't leave it at that. Talk to your girlfriend about this, tell her how you feel. She has to be more giving in this respect.
1141281
When you said that you caught her in a wet and messy diaper i knowed she was into wearing diapers so i am not surprised This can be a start of something for both of you just LET her wear them it ain't hurting you or her to be in a diaper. Its OK you will get use to seeing her in them and when she ain't in one you will wonder why. It just takes time to get use to a change in your life. But i woulden worry about it keep asking her why because i bet she don't even know why she likes to wear diapers its a obsessive compulsive disorder and its her way of dealing with things in her life so just support her and love her DON'T put her down for what she dose. If you woule like to talk about this with me send me an e-mail and i will resopnd
194949
She's doing this because she gets a bit of excitement by trying to deceive you. Like children do to their parents. This sounds like a battle of wills to me. You want her to behave one way, and she's responding by lying, digging her heels in. She's trying to tell you that she doesn't feel in control of her life, and this is a way she feels that she can do what she wants. When you hide the webcam or threaten to take her 'toy' away, she spits her dummy, because she wants a reason to have a go at you for trying to 'control' her, 'making' her bored by travelling alot. You're just applying practical solutions to your problem (very male!). She is probably lost in a dreamworld while she's chatting to these guys, a world where she is a different person. She can portray herself as anyone she wants to. She probably needs some confidence-boosting but it all boils down to a lack of communication. She doesn't feel she can talk to you about her needs, or perhaps she's tried and she doesn't feel you took her seriously. This situation will only get worse if you don't try to spend some quality time getting to know what her needs are.
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It seems to me that this girl have an attitude problems or she don't know how to express herself. I'm a female myself and I get mad quick but as I gotten older I can control it more. But this gurl want you to kiss her butt, that's why she get mad when she hangs up in you and don't call her back Good FOR HER, because she needs to learn how to COMMUNICATE that's the key if something is bothering her. I think that it is good that y'all are friends. If you really like this gurl than tell her that whatever is bothering her just to talk to you about the situation. relationships are going to work overnight it takes time and trust.
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What are you doing now that is different from all the other times to show you that you are serious this time?  \n\nIf you are doing nothing differently, then you have to ask yourself just how serious are you?  Plus, is she sees nothing different, she has no reason to believe you.\n\nAre you seeking counseling?  \n\nHere's another thing that guys don't do very well with: do you show her affection and attention?  Do you leave her little notes, touch her arm when you walk by her, take the time to listen to her with no outside distractions such as TV or radio?  Women are like plants: if they don't get watered (which means attention, comfort, security) they wither like a plant.  When they wither, they feel insecure and unloved.\n\nAnd I say this in all seriousness, and don't mean it to sound like women are needy.  They need certain things in a relationship just like men.  In fact, I think a lot of men would be surprised at how understanding a woman can be if she is watered (again using the analogy here).
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YOU SHOULD TELL HER WHAT YOU REALLY THINK  IF IT HURT YOU , OR TURNED YOU ON , I WOULD SAY SHE HASNT GROWN UP YET AND DOESNT KNOW WHAT SHE WANTS AND SHOULDNT BE PLAYING WITH OTHERS TOYS BECAUSE SHE DOESNT EVEN RESPCT NONE OF HER TOYS AND ALL SHOULD BE TAKEN AWAY BESIDES YOURE NOT A TOY IN  HER TOY BOX FOR WHENEVER SHE GETS BORED OF THE OTHERS.. BUY HER A STRAP ON AND A HARD HAT AND TELL HER TO JACK HER SELF UP BEFORE SOMEONE WITH A REAL MESSED UP MENTALITY FALLS INTO HER WEB...
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Lots of girls will do that.  Its just in some of our nature...the same as some guys.  If it bothers you let her know and she will probably try to cut back.  If she doesn't put in any effort she must not care. In which case I would recommend that you dump her.  But remember sometimes it just comes too natural.
99858
We start breathing heavier!  Move to kiss her neck, if she goes for it, she's in.  She's go with the flow.  DON"T ASK, that's way to immature, just go with the flow.
22392
first she is a bitch cause she wont take it off when you ask, she is just trying to make you jealous at that point, to fell loved. so you are an ahole for not making her feel loved. it prob started just cause she liked it, but when you said something about it started to be about the above
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Well, it's ambiguous if you've tried talking to her about it, when you say "She seems to think ...".  Have you just come out and asked "Why are you so tense?"  You're not instigating the response by a wham, bam, thank you, ma'am, are you?\n\nSetting the mood, as previous answers suggest, with a bath, a massage, cuddling would certainly help.  Try new positions that would get her to move.  Honestly talk about what feels good and what is awkward during.  It could only lead to more enjoyable situations.
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NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO ask her if she cleaned under the bed first.give her a chance to fix it first