why do the second born kids always turn out to be a rebellion and a trouble maker ?
553181
they seek the attention that the never got as a child. second borns always feel threatened by the first born. so go out of their way to prove a point!
827761
It's so true! Go to the right place you can get free condoms. Or at least after number 5 you think they would get a brain cell. Then again like a family I know, they reproduce to work the government for more money. Of course they still have nothing to show for it cause they buy stupid stuff and they're lazy. So people they know with more then them are just trying to out do them. Which means it's time to pop another baby out for even more government money.
596386
It could just be that the parents are letting their growth take a natural path to begin with where both the kids have equal love and are open to making their own statement.\n\nIn a way it's a good training ground to prepare you for the real world.\n\nIt would be wonderful if the timid kid learns to defend himself voluntarily rather than just be protected and shielded by the parents. If he learns to stand up for himself it’ll help him when he really goes out in the real world because it’s a rough world out there.\n\nThough if this pattern continues without any change for the better then the parents must intervene to settle the issue. \n\nHope my perspective makes sense.\n\nTake care.
209744
Cause people aren't disciplined very well and they get that kind of behavior from their parents, they also do it cause they think that they're better than anybody else, if somebody is being mean to you, look at it as if they're having the problems and not you.
475881
cause some people are like peter pan and just never grow up.
54613
After raising a child to the place where they have earned their independance of being capable of making good decisions( theres going to be mistakes and poor choices ), but all of that is a part of growing up.When you are making your on money and not depending on extra help from them, then it's time for them to stop and make only suggestions, rather you take it or not.
1082929
Because they haven't been educated.  They are making a judgment about something they don't understand.  If it was their own child... their love for their child would likely overcome their hate.
777609
it stems from lack of discipline when the are young. mommy and daddy giving them everything. they expect everyone to just get out of their way.
903265
Your childhood is what creates the person you are. Some people use it as a motivator,some people depend on the excuse. Once again, the child could learn from his parents that blame THEIR childhood. I think everyone should change for the better.
1017215
It's referring to kids that have had a rough upbringing and who have been exposed to things that they should not have witnessed at a young age.  So, these kids are more at risk to fall into a negative situation  than a kid that has had a so called normal upbringing.  It could also be due to the environment that they live in.
389882
It's because parents have a tendency to deal with their own shortcomings through their offspring. They will correct past mistakes(in their own minds) through you! Good Luck and I really hope it works out, but, if they push you too hard, just sit them down and tell them calmly to GET YOUR OWN LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!\nHope this helps!\nglenn
671230
I think it's because the parent has lost control and can't stop themselves.  It's pure frustration, and it is sadly all too common.  These parents just need to learn how to control themselves and they will get the best out of their children.
505704
Because parents are oppressors.  It's only natural to fight with them to assert your own independence.
409593
I think that its because they feel liket they already screwed up (talking about the kids in jail). They are not loved by anyone, so they want to live an easy life style.
1170983
The reason why is because most families put a lot of effort into their first child/children. Eventually they get tired, and decide to spoil the baby of the family. My friend, who's younger sister (who happens to be around the age of graduating from college), has her parents still pay for her gas money!
849352
Because they are too busy wiping snot and ketchup off the kids and doing the husband's laundry to even think about what the rest of the world needs.\n\nThe truth is kids run the world.  We start off as children and we can't wait to get big, so we can do things our way.  Then we grow up and go to college and get a job and a spouse and have to do things their way.  Then ultimately the supreme tyrant comes along - children of our own.  Our lives will never be our own again, because we are always ALWAYS thinking about and caring for the kids, until we are too feeble to even care for ourselves and that's when the children start openly making decisions for us.\n\nPeace!
1024919
Has to do with personalities.....however, usually parents are much more relaxed and laid back with the second child. The first one they are nervous and want to do everything right.