I have never had a boyfriend, and I want one badly how do I find the right one?
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If you go looking, you will have a very hard time finding one.\n\nLet him come to you.
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You will have better luck finding a boyfriend when you stop looking for one.\nJust be happy and don't worry about someone finding you.\nIf you're happy he will find you.
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Dont try to look for a bf... just make sure you associate with guys...guys can be found anywhere... but clubs and youth groups are good places to associate with guys... so ther real question is HOW to get one... \nMake your self attractive,,, not nessary hot but attractive... like but a little makeup on,,, dress with style....\ndon’t worry about trying to MAKE guys like you. There is someone always there. The more you think about it the less likely something like that will happen. This is what happened to me until 2 weeks ago and finally got my first boyfriend. Be yourself and don’t look unless you want to ask. Guys can tell if a girl just wants a boyfriend or is sincerely looking for fun.. (guys don’t like to be used either). Make sure you do talk to guys though. Just don’t be desperate and take the first guy you see (unless you like them) ....to get a real relationship you will have to actually stand the guy!!! So overall BE YOURSELF, TALK TO GUYS and HAVE FUN... (don’t just try and land yourself a boyfriend)
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Puh-lease...I've never dated, never kissed anyone, none of that and I'm in college.  Don't worry about the boyfriend stuff.  At some point, God'll bring someone to you who really appreciates you for who you are.  Right now, focus on friendships with guys and girls.  The best husbands are best friends, anyway.  :)
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just be yourself and have confidence..\nIf you are single or going throught a break up and you are looking and need someone, please visit my site, join free and start dating:\nhttp://tinyurl.com/ykj7bm
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You can feel alone even when you are with someone. More than likely you are more mature than the guys you have been running into and have more of an intellect. When the right guy comes along he will notice you. Besides you may find if you go out with some of these guys you mentioned, that they are very shallow and have no real personality. You don't really want to have a boyfriend just to have a boyfriend. I would not let not having a boyfriend bother you. In fact, I would use the time you spend by yourself to allow you to become more independent. This may sound corny, but if you can be a friend to yourself and be happy being by yourself when the right guy comes along, he will see your self-confidence and that you know who you are on the inside, and your relationship with that special guy will last for a lifetime. When you run into that special guy on your journey through life, trust me, you will sparkle.
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Hey don't feel down. I don't have a boyfriend either. Do you want a boyfriend? And do you need one badly? If so go ask a guy out that you think that he's interested in you. It's either you that's having a trouble finding a boyfriend or you are not sure if you want one. Or it's either the boys? You have to venture out more in the world if you're shy or quiet. Trying too hard can also be a problem. But either way good luck, just find out what you want.
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I've never had a boyfriend and I'm 16 (yeah I know it's pretty pathetic).
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There's likely nothing at all wrong with you. In fact, you sound very young...just the way you type. I wouldn't worry abotu finding a boyfriend. It'll happen. I haven't dated in a while and for right now that's the best thing for me. Take your time, examine your options, flirt, etc. Just have fun being young and NOT feeling the weight of a relationship. Above all, don't start going out with a guy you're not positive about just because you feel lonely or incomplete. That's not being true to yourself.
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go to yahoo personals, there should be somebody there for you.
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I guarantee you, that if you have a decent personality and a cheery outlook on life (nice looks help too), there are guys who like you.\nYou dont need a boyfriend right now - even if your friends have them.
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You say that as though you are ancient! I would not worry about not having a boyfriend at the moment. You are still young, after all. Even shy girls find a guy in the end so don't worry about being left on the shelf - your time will come!\n\nTo prepare yourself for a future of dating, get to know yourself. Know your likes and dislikes. Think about how you feel about things. It will sound strange but if you give everyday situations some thought and know how you feel about things, that is a great way to maintain a conversation - with a boy or a girl. Practice your conversational skills. Think about the facade you present to others. Maybe boys don't hit on you because you are so pretty. So maybe you should think about how you make yourself more approachable.\n\nAn engaging personality is worth more than looks. If you can work on your self confidence as well as your conversational skills, you are more likely to hook a boy's attention - and maintain it.\n\nGood luck!
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Start doing things for yourself.  Follow a dream, get a new hobby, find an activity you always wanted to try.  The key is to do something that you can feel good about doing for yourself, regardless of whos in or out of your life.\n\nIt seems you're thinking too much the guy , a guy  or having no guy.   Your life's about making the most of an opportunity to find and do what makes you happy.  People will come and go and when the right guy comes along, he'll  see how you're enjoying life and want to be part of that... not see that you are waiting for him and give up his life to be the center of yours. Hope this helps put things in perspective.
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its very simple first you need to ask yourself what you are looking for, that means defining the term right person. Once you know the answer yourself you just need to put that definition into action and whoever fits the bill you go for that person simple as that. Also you know need to know yourself first. People who talk about finding the right person they tend to be less confident or dont know what they want. So keep these things in your mind and work towards this and I am sure your right person will walk into your life. Good luck
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b/c u were once content/comfortable with ur situation and u don't like change.  but that's part of life, if u don't take that chance then u will never know the outcome.  plus ur heartbroken and it scares u b/c u don't want to go through it again, and u're thinking 2 urself is this going to happen again?! U said u've never been single, there's a first time for everything.  word of advice --- quit looking for someone (enjoy time to urself/w/friends), let that someone find u. cause sometimes if ur not looking 4 love its looking for u. and don't be so negative @ moving on. good luck
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Wow, the answers on here are really great! Try joining some co-ed clubs if there are some available. Even if you just get some exposure to new people, maybe you can meet someone you like. This may sound a little old fashioned, but some girls meet boys (that may go to other schools) if they go to church or the local arcade, or the mall. \n\nAsk your friends, and thank your lucky stars that you have gotten some really great answers right here already! (NOT THE SUICIDE SUGGESTION!) but anything I could say to you besides "broaden your horizons" would only be a repeat...You could also try community organizations, or working with volunteers that help with projects in your community! I think when the time is right, you will find a boyfriend, in the meantime just have a lot of friends, and you do not have to be lonely, there are people in your community that you could help, and learn something at the same time (maybe even meet someone, summer is on the way!). \n\nIf we could just order a man from a catalog, many of them would probably be returned for one reason or another, it's hard to know when you are young what you really want. So the choices are not good where you are, look elsewhere! When the time is right, you will meet someone that you DO like, and he will like you too!\nHave fun!\nruthie~
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first thing ...get a girl...but by posting this question i'm pretty sure you've never been with one.