who makes the decisons in your relationship?
550664
It's a 50/50 situation. Sometimes I make decisions, sometimes my boyfriend and soulmate Tony does. But we always help each other when we're in the process. We talk things over and come to a conclusion. Otherwise, we will always think about each other and the consequences and such before making a decision if the other isn't there to discuss the decision with. We love each other so we compromise or come to a conclusion.
587072
They have a bad relationship.
161475
Some people don't want to be the bad guy and break the relationship, so they make you do it for them.
1098011
My ex-husband (at least that's his opinion).  He follows all the rules because he was the one making them up.  \n\nNot only did he follow the rules, but he was never wrong.  No wonder he's an ex!
444369
dont make the mistake\nmarriage causes more divorce
1146035
probably ure the one whos getting more sensitive and emotional and see the world around u in a different way...maybe...think abt it..
940151
You can discuss pet peeves with your mate.  More often than none, people with annoying habits, don't realize they are doing it.\nIt just comes naturally to them and they do it without a thought.\n\nTalk it through. It's not worth giving up a potentially good relationship based on the petty things
92038
If he agrees with you in the following issues:\n\n1) Who is responsible for cleaning and maintaining the household\n2)Who is responsible for economic support of the household\n3) who is responsible for paying the bills\n4) How clean the house is going to be\n5) Rates of saving\n6) Use of intoxicants (coffe, liguor, cigarettes)\n7) Confinement of sexual intimacy to the couple\n8) What to inform each other about your behavior\n9) separate vacations\n10) Children\n11) Religion\n12) Holidays with the different families\n\nand of course, if he is capable of consistently satisfying you in the intimacy.
1145855
Scared of commitment. They are usually unsure of themselves. My boyfriend still plays his little games that push me away and draw me back in, and they are trying to see how much you will put up with from them, you know kinda like seeing if you're in there for the duration.
988840
Boyfriends who talk bad about their girl when their girl isn't around. Dissin' them!!
473802
Whose father? Your's or his? And whci relationship are you asking about? Yours to your boyfriend or your's to the father's cousin's child??
519395
I agree that certain things are done male or female in some relationships, but it falls to order in what the two people decide.  In our relationship, in everyday life, to all appearances my partner looks more the female, stays at home, babysits an infant, does alot (but not all) the housework  and does all the cooking.  I play the more male role has a very male job (drive semi) does the lawn work,(again not all) the gardening, pays the bills.  However, in the bedroom our roles are switched and it's my turn to be the sensitive one.  And we do this, 99% of the time for 25 years now.  We're frequently told this relationship is quite unique in the lesbian circles, but it works for us.  So it goes to prove, whatever feels good, I guess.
266741
I think the importance of independent interests gives you identity in the relationship, by this i mean:\n"if you both share most interest is just like mirroring, you are dating someone just like yourself."\n\nIf your interest give you identity makes a good north star for your significant other. She knows "who you are, who she loves, etc" so do you.
534434
I haven't been through that.  For me, it's usually if I go out with them 1 or 2 times and I see that I don't like him, than I'm not going to put myself through for what I might think would be a bad relationship in the future.  It's not about whether they respect you or not for not giving them a chance to be with you, it's more about chemistry.  Either it's there or it's NOT there.  I wouldn't waste my time or his time.
69502
When the other person stops caring. In which I mean...if he no longer cares what you do, who your going out with and shows no interest in what you have to say. Especially when all he can say is..."whatever". Pack your stuff up, and leave!
993013
very likely, most people who cheat or are sneaky will occasionally try to project this trait onto the other partner to take away any feelings of what they are doing wrong and to make it look like you the other partner is just crazy and the one actuallly doing the wrong.
104040
respect the person you love. listen to them and respect their view on issues you discuss,even if you don't agree. Don't talk mean to them or treat them bad. do special things for them that you know they like. ask them how their day went. Make them a special dinner or dessert. Help them work to make your home a place that you both are proud of. respect their family even if you don't like them. one of the worst things to do is talk bad about your mates family, it will eventually come back to haunt you. show them love and compassion. a hug,loving touch or kiss. take the time every day to show them in any way that you care through bad and good times. these are the things i do because i know that i have a wonderful man and thank god everyday for him.