hi i was woundering if my husband gives life insurance to his misstress and her 2 kids instead of me,my child?
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To find out who gets the life insurance proceeds, you must look at your husband's policy. The beneficiaries are usually listed near the end of the policy.\n\nIf no beneficiary are listed, then death proceeds will be sent to his estate and from there on, the court will rule who gets what (unless your husband has written a Will).
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Are you talking about take into consideration when determining child support?? A rule of thumb if you create a child you are responsible for raising and providing for that child. It is sad that so many people get out of the true responsibility of having children by dropping a check in the mail once a month...and some people don't even do that much. You by the way should be receiving child support from the mother of the three children in your custody unless she signed her rights away to you or lost all parental rights in a court of law. I respect you for caring for your three children in your custody, it's not often that you find a man with sole custody. However if these other children are yours, you will also be responsible for them financially and should really consider being a part of their lives. You may regret it later in life if you don't and those children will grow up wondering why they aren't good enough for you. You will probably also be required to pay back support. A friend of mine that never knew he had gotten someone pregnant was asked to take a paternity test when the little girl was 12 years old, in the mean time, my friend had gotten married and had 4 children of his own...he was still required to pay back child support and has to continue paying until the child's 18th birthday. Good Luck.
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I appreciate you for taking care of the step daughter.  Do not worry about your mother-in-law or sister-in-law.  People always talk and wait for opportunities to find faults. Play your role as a mother to all your three kids and be happy.  You be a good mom as you have always been.  Remember your stepdaughter knows of no other mom other than you and to her you mean everything. I am sure your husband will understand this and try to make his mother understand. Good luck.
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There is no greater loss than that of losing a child. I have not experienced it myself, however a few friends have due to drownings, illnesses, and car accidents. The feelings you are having must be very common because all of them experienced the same thing. The woman had a strong desire to have another child and the husband....the protector and provider was very hesitant.\nI don't know how they did it sir. But, each of them had another child and they are the best parents I have ever seen. They don't worry about the small stuff. They enjoy life and their children to the fullest. They find so much joy in their family.\nGod bless you and your family.
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you should contact your Broker/Dealer agency's commissions department or the life insurance's commissions department.  they should be able to tell you.  they way that commissions are paid out also depends on the type of product you sold as well.
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NO!  It couldn't happen.  The one (savings account) has no bearing on the other (life insurance).\n\nIf you have ANY doubts pick up the phone and ask the insurance agent.\n\nHope this helps,\n\nJim
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The question should have been........\n\nShould Scott Peterson get insurance money for killing his wife? Now pay Scotts family because he was put to death. \n\nAnd people wonder why their insurance premiums are so high.
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That's HORRID! Some ppl just don't care...\n\nBut obviously you're not one of them. So kudos to you and praise God. I hope your FIL and the KIDS heal speedily. Unf., the kids are the ones who really lose out in cases like this.\n\nWhat about browsing the Christian bookstore and finding a book or a CD that talks about healing after divorce and how God can use even the worst hurts to help us grow?\n\nOf course, your time and concern are the best gifts! I'll pray for your family.
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He can be made to pay for insurance for his daughter only if it is ordered in the divorce decree. If this is the case, you need to speak with Child Support Dept. in your area to determine whether  Wal Mart is responsible.  It doesn't matter whether he may be lying. This is the only answer that may correct the problem.\n\nI wish both you & your daughter well. Please remember everything always works out. Maybe not the way you want it to, but 20 years down the road it will make no difference anymore..
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OK sorry 2 hear about grandaddy.I know exactly what you mean.FIRST and most of all ,do you have your Granada's information? On paper you need:SSN#,DOB,I.D#,mothersmaidenn name,at least 2 address's.DR. name.Most of all you will need the name of the life insurance company's of which he had.Now all this information I just gave you is for you to take a legal STEP.If not be your own detective!!!!!!FIRST find out how much his policy was 4 and how much his funeral ex-pens.were and do the calculation.If there is a whole lot of $$$presidents$$$ left over and nothing to show 4 then this is what you do.............MY FRIEND: you just let it be .I'll tell you why! After you find out what happened and  if every piece fits the puzzle it will put you at PEACE That's what is probably really bothering you most.REMEMBER if she did wrong it will come back on her it may take 1week,1year it will happen.He up above knows whats rightfully yours,be patient it will all work out I promise!!!One the other hand get a free consultation with an attorney they can help YOU DECIDE .Good luck,Marina
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First you would have to establish a trust account for each of the children. The trust documents would spell out the terms. You would need to appoint a trustee for each account. The same person or institution can be named as trustee for each account. Finally, you would name the trust as the primary beneficiary of the insurance policy.\n\nThere may be better ways to do this, so you might want to talk to an attorney or estate planner.
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My condolences about your friend and her loved one.\n\nI’ve linked to articles describing how to choose a life insurance and how to calculate how much life insurance you need. I’ve also linked to online calculators to help you figure it out. Deciding how much life insurance is enough is a very personal decision – what’s right for you might not be right for someone else.  I’ve also linked to an article about what to look for in renewable term life insurance.\n\nYour concentration on the life insurance company is a good idea, since your life or disability policy will only be as solid as the financial strength of the insurance company you choose. After you read the articles below and get a firm idea of what kind of policy you’re looking for, try visiting MostChoice.com. You can compare insurance policies online quickly and speak to multiple insurance agents working in your community – all without any obligation. It’s a quick and simple way to swiftly survey the local insurance market, and MostChoice provides information on more than 140 companies with A+ or better financial ratings.\n\nYou can find MostChoice here:\nhttp://www.mostchoice.com/life-insurance.cfm\n\nHope this helps,\nBarnes@MostChoice
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There's a lesson to be learn from here. To avoid your future family going through the same mess, get a will. Sorry to hear your mom pass away, but if she had a will, your family wouldn't be so frustrated on who should get what.\n\nIn life insurance, all the name beneficiaries on the policy are paid equal amounts. So there's really nothing to fight about on this topic.
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Your best bet is to consult with an insurance professional.  All the major life insurance companies are reputable.  I would avoid anything on line.  An insurance professional will work out something for you within your budget and explain how to list your children as beneficiaries.  They do not have to be adults to be listed on your policy.
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First let me say that I have it on both ends.  I collect child support, and I help my husband with the child support he has to pay.  Now in answer to your question, CHILD SUPPORT is just that.  You are paying that money to support that child.  The courts set an amount that is what should be paid.  Anything you give over that amount is considered a gift.  You are not obligated in any way to give more than that amount.  I do not ask my childrens father for another dime outside of what he is court ordered to provide.  The bottome line is this,  if you continue to cater to the person receiving the child support and give them more than what is ordered, they will think they are owed that and will continue to ask for more than the obligated amount.  My husband, as I stated, pays child support and his ex wife is always TRYING to be in his pockets.  She says the kids need this, she cant afford that.  Well he is paying his support and she is to use that money to provide for the kids needs, not hers.  So if she is blowing the CHILD SUPPORT money on herself then she is at fault.  Now if he wants to give the kids some extra money just because he wants to then that is fine.  But I will be damned if he give her money just because she says the kids need because he has already fulfilled that matter.
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You should probably contact the Child Support Agency for further information if your husband has agreed maintenance payments with them.  FSee below for the link.
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Great question!!  What type of benefits?  What type of policy?  Are you the spouse?  Are you covered under the policy?  \n\nSorry, this question is WAY too vague!!