After lying in a coma cause of a head injury does the patient keep his feelings for his lover is he the same?
536421
I am sorry your facing this all alone. There are many variables to your question. Most recover to the precoma stage. But it may takes weeks to many months. But if you have a spiritual belief I would pray. Keep ypurself busy with your friends and family. Each person is different in recovering. It may take time, and his family may be very protective of him. But I am sure he will remember you. But what comes out of it is a unanswered question. I wish you only the best.
710049
The player didnt want to feel he had been played. He is the one the controls the relationship but he finally met a woman that played him and he cant handle it. Now he is saying anything to hurt her so he can feel in control someway. If he is still sleeping with her it couldnt be that bad.
972082
I think that love is real...but it is proven that there are chemical reactions within the brain that wane down after a couple of years...so the one you love becomes more of a trusted companion as opposed to a lover...but i think that love is real, and that there is someone meant for everyone(...i just wish i could find that someone...)
503936
It sounds like you are talking about one of the most common aspects of the therapeutic relationship -- Freud called it Transference.  When the feelings are love or erotic, it may be called "erotic transference."  \n\nThis website looked interesting.  I have no personal knowledge of the author or his work, but it appears to be on the level.  http://www.guidetopsychology.com/questions/erotic_transference.htm
1071722
it is your imagination that project an idealistic personality to this photo... \n\nit is possible.. but it is an illusion in their head... and it is just an effect of watching a lot Hollywood romance movies\n\nthis actually leads to more disappointment feelings as the lover afterward -when trying to talk to the girl- is just comparing the girl exposed to him with the idealistic personality he had in his imagination.. and this double score the negatives of this girl..\n\nif it co-incidence that they like each other... then God loves them :O) and want to save them from troubles..\n\nTo love someone you have to know him/her. and interact with him/her.. cuz from thus interaction you will feel if you both share a certain feelings maps of the personality of you both..
200322
I have had crushes on my doctors before too but then I found out one of them was gay so there went my fantasy. I think what your feeling is probably considered normal but you have to remember that a doctor is a professional and just because they listen to you and touch you doesn't mean they are attracted to you. There are just doing their job and some are more compassionate than others. Don't let your thoughts and fantasies get too out of hand. It's OK to laugh and joke about crushes but remember the chances of him falling in love with you and whisking you off somewhere is sort of absurd.
470359
Yes! I believe that you can still love a person and not be in love with them anymore. I've been there and its hard, but its very possible.
509649
it depends how serious the brain damage he has to how much he remembers, one hopes that he will remember and know who you are and has the same feelings about you,  but i would say he has a lot of recovering to do. i wish you both good luck and hope he recovers well.
247097
sure.... some times  you can fall in love with a person again everyday... they just do or say something that makes you feel... WOW !  and reaffirms your love... and as far as  some one you used to love....     does love really ever  die if it was real to begin with ??
42912
i agree with cblrdy and molebeing,  doctors are a great source of care and comfort. when you are sick than cured that is a comfortable feeling, a thankful feeling, and a feeling of releif, i wouldnt exactly call the feeling a crush, more like admiration; because of the learning that went into making diagnoses simple or complex. just make sure she isnt confusing compassion with passion.
173362
This person has been diagnosed with a mental illness...it is the same as any other illness! Would you wait for the person if they were in the hospital with a broken leg...no matter what the illness a sickness is a sickness...BUT... if the person is abusive...no matter what the circumstance is, leave the relationship! No person should put their hands on another in anger!
1013014
The organ known as the heart is not attached to anything outside the body.  The cognitive response of desperation and belonging thwart the rationality that a love can not be let go because it was never owned.
1044116
Let things cool off...maybe she's having her own little hell inside her head. Why was she in the hospital? Maybe your fight with the security embarrassed her. What was that all about? It's not easy seeing the one you love be incapacitated, but think about her. She's the one who's in the hospital bed. Ease off, lick your wounds, and take her flowers.
1736
I too am in love and struggle with this same question. I can offer my solution. Use both. Enjoy the endorphine rush of the feeling of love ( which is the heart so to speak.) But realize why you ask the question. There is obviously a reason for your aprehension of completely letting go. Use your brain and decide to what degree you should allow your heart to pilot your emotions then deal with this person as so you conclude. Do not sell yourself short. Could the problem be one that you should resolve within yourself or is there an actual problem?
772426
It depends on how hard the head was hit.  He/she may just be a little stunned, but if there are any other indications of brain damage, or if the loss of speach persists, you should get him/her to a hospital.  Try asking questions, see if the person understands you, or try to get them to write answers down.\nIf the person's head was hit very hard, don't wait.  When it comes to a person's brain, you shouldn't take any chances.
1137588
Happened with me when I lay dying, I could understand from the doctors faces and their body language that they had given up. My wife held my hand, kissed me on my forehead and said, "Don't worry, you'll be fine."\nFour years later, I am still alive, only because of this strong woman's reassurance at every stage during my illness and recovery. And she never cried, never shed a tear at all in my presence or in my children's presence, always showing a brave, smiling face to us.\n\nAt one stage when my heart had stopped, and I found myself in a large open field with sunflowers, and I saw a bright warm and welcoming light towards which I was moving, until the doctors revived me, the first person I saw was my wife.\n \nThat smile, the strength, that reassurance and confidence are the nicest things that have ever happened to me.\nst
954246
It is unethical for a medical professional or technician to become involved with a patient. It could result (or should result) in his loosing his job if you started dating him. If you really do like him and he feels the same, I would have to advise that you receive PT elsewhere if you want to pursue a romantic relationship.