has anyone felt unliked at the work place .if so what did you do?
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Yes.  I found other employment.  Sometimes you just don't "click" with your co-workers/bosses/etc.  Personalities clash.   I've never been able to work in that sort of environment, so i found a job that i could work in.
700250
I work in retail and honestly, at one point I was afraid I was going to get hurt by the crush of people.  People were really rude and ignorant to me and each other.  It just gets worse every year...honestly, what do people expect when there are thousands of people in a store?  Excellent, prompt customer service?  It was all I could do to help who I can.  Some people were great and really nice and patient.  Thanks to all of those people--but to all the jerks--Merry Christmas to you, too.\n\nSorry about the rant, but thanks, I now feel better.
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yes i have. and what i had to do because felt like i was suffering from job burnout is take a step back and take a little time off and be selfish and do things i've missing out on. you will feel so much better about your job life in general if you do that. and not to mention feel like you are making a difference!!!
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I love my boss I have known her a very long time and she has become more than a second mother to me. I adore her and her family.\nMost of my coworkers are ok...some of them I could do without but that is how it is in any situation you are just not ever going to like everyone!
381559
I  Know  exactly  how you  feel....my  husband  has the  same  feeling  at  his  work....people  are straight  out LAZY.....and  the  least  mistakes  you  made....they're the  ones  to  make  the  big  deal. And  then  the  good had  to  suffer  for  the  bad....they  should  be  fire  without  pay.\nAll  The  Best And Good  Luck
652169
When I really think about it all of my bad days in work have been down to b) colleagues:\n\nAnnoying colleagues who drop you in it so you look bad and/or have to work overtime \nColleagues who make stupid or sexist remarks. \nManagers who take praise for your work and blame you when their own projects go wrong. \n\nThose things have caused me so much grief that I have felt sick at the thought of going in the next day. Normally I deal with it by quitting. More recently I have decided to raise these issues with management. That brings me on to my final point:\n\nMy bosses's perception of me even though he's never spoken to me or seen my work. This is important because this decides whether or not you are going to get a pay rise.\n\nSo bad colleagues affect everything on your list. Remove the annoying people and work would be great.
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If "you" feel that your superiors are being unfair in their reports about you and your co-workers are manipulating you......perhaps this isn't the organization for you.\n\nWhy stay someplace where you aren't happy?
1114412
my last job I have a very nasty boss. he told me right to my face that no matter what i did it would be wrong, and he was right no matter what he told me to do or how he told lme to do it it was never right It was like working for jeckel and hyde\n\nthis person is no longer in this area he lost his business and his family for drinking on the job.i feel bad for his family but he got what he deserved
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Is there anything you can do to change the job frustration? Talking to a district office or a boss higher up? Changing job duties? Is there anything funny about how sorry the place is? Does the place do anything good that can make you feel better that your frustration is going for something useful? \nI read a book called "100 Things That People Do To Be Happy". It suggests that making yourself happy takes a lot of practice, like playing basketball. Maybe you can think of that while you are working and look for things that put a smile on your face when you don't feel like smiling. Do you have a library nearby? Try and find a book on drawing caricatures and make up funny pictures of the things or people you work with.\nMake sure you get as much sleep as you can (try earplugs and nightshades (blinders) if you are sleeping during the day, and as early at night as you can (probably hard if you work late). Sometimes your emotional state is worse if you aren't getting enough vitamins also.\nI'm sure others will have more suggestions for meditating, etc. I prefer to attack my frustrations whenever I can.
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Its very unfair, these things just make you feel lost and frustrated.Your boss is a rat!so is that alien.\n A boss should keepall his employers happy and treatthem equally.He sholud have helpedyou there.You did the right thing ,I wouldnt have been able to tolarate such a man.\nMan,you did good for a person who didnt care about you, you should be PROUD! hold your head up high .\nDont feel sad,it WAS the only way out. Had you stayed you would have regretted it.Tell your boss on the face
101498
Yes.  Ive actually walked out of several places or complained to a manager and if I dont do that I just dont go back.  The way I look at it is, customers are paying your salary so you better show some appreciation.  If you are that miserable in customer service, find a job doing something else!
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I have never received an apology from an employer after he or she had hurt my feelings.  \n\nTake that as a positive, and go back to work.  You are not the first, and won't be the last, to cry at work.\n\nAssuming you are a female, welcome to the world of hormones.
363498
NO i just seems like it.  im at work now hiding in the day shift bosses office.  it does however shorten your social life.
1100783
I worked for this woman that was a nasty b*tch also, actually a couple of them and both were my bosses.\n\nI was a 'file assistant' and Carol was my boss. I was just reentering the office environment after bartending for years. She was nasty and rude. I think she didn't like my happy attitude and smiling all the time. I would have to stamp the mail a very specific way and I was never really shown how to. Since I was making mistakes she was even more disgusting to me. Telling me that she wouldn't let me on the computer until I did it perfect for a while. Well, she gave me my one month review and boy was it horrible. I retaliated with my own review of her and that her review was based soley on her personal opinion and she didn't like it at all. There was a sit down with HR, The VP and the Owner of the company and I told them that if I have to continue working for her then I wouldn't continue working there. I had heard, while working there, that she went through about 5 file assitants a year. So I know it wasn't me.\n\nThen another boss of mine didn't like the fact that she was a dumb*ss, who couldn't spell, put together complete sentences, or speak clearly. I asked her one day if anyone had put together an Excel file for the job (I coordinated maintenace for about 250 stores) and she said no. Well, a new girl started and she tells her how she had this fabulous idea of putting together this Excel file, which I put together, right in front of me. I immediately corrected her. She didn't like that. Subsequently, my best friend was working there in the same department and my boss told her that I was after her job. I wasn't. all I wanted was a good raise when it came time. Oh well for her.\n\nNow I work for a company where I was promoted in less then 9 months and I was told when I started that the woman can be catty (which aren't most of them in the office). I have no problems with anyone there.\n\nWell, now that I shared my experiences with you, cuz it reminded me of what I went through.... The boss sees that this woman is being petty and if the boss doesn't, do you really want to continue working there?
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Honey, I do know what it feels like. It's a little alienating and lonely but you have to remember that it's just a job and you don't have to take it home with you. You also may be the door opener for many other black men and women in the company. Never show fear or discomfort. Walk in with your head high and know that you got the job because you were best suited for the position and not because of your race!
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No. \n\nThe long answer...\nNothing was available in my area of study when I finished school so I took the job that paid relatively well.\nIt's a physical job with little mental activity which leads to pains and boredom.\nIt's a lousy environment which compounds the resentment built up over the years... now there's a feeling of being trapped with old skills.\nConstantly tackling being grateful for the employment and being disappointed with each work day. I really shouldn't complain.\nI know it's up to me to change the situation but it's terribly difficult to leave the security of a steady income.\nI guess that's why vacations are so sweet and hobbies are important.
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Yes I went through the same thing.  I found at that point there is nothing you can do.  Although you probably never deserved to be in this sitution I find that usually people need to gang up on one person and bully them.  It is not acceptable.  I went on meds because of it and when I was done working there I came off of the meds.  Management was involved in this case and I was approached by a laywer to sue these people.  I choose not to, the reason being that it would have cause more stress.  I now have a better job with better pay and I no longer take meds.  Please hang in there.  Start looking for a new job right now.  They cant fire you without a just cause, worse come to worse you will be asked to leave with two weeks pay.  But find a new job, being unhappy is not worth it.