i am going out with a guy that acused me having an affair?
551535
- try to find a more mature guy...\n\n- when person a accuses person b of having an affair, there's a good chance that person a is having an affair, regardless of whether person b is or not.\n\n- you need to be more careful with birth control if you and the person you're with have not made a conscious decision that you want to have a child together.\n\n- maybe he was trying to escape responsibility for the coming baby when you were pregnant... which means he's immature.\n\n- but regardless of who's zooming who, or who did what when... you need to straighten this kind of stuff out before you start having children.
326054
Well, if your ex cheated on you, then it shouldn't matter who you date. Even if it is his friend. Hard part about that, is you won't be able to hang out with him when he makes plans with your ex. So there will be a bit of drama more so between the guys, but I also think it's silly to keep things locked up. I hate hiding things, so I would tell the new guy that he should speak up. I dunno, it always sucks being in those kinds of situations. Good luck, I hope everything works out for you.
274609
That great my friend you have just started a wonderful relationship. What next:\nGo out with him
829931
i would tell you to make sure who you are with is clean and dont stay single over this there is a thing called tests to see if you or this man you might fall in love with can get and it now days pays to be safe rather than sorry in my opion?
1182687
Guys like mystery and hate drama.\nIf you have been having sex, then you are probably not compatible and I would just move on and not let him back into your life.\n\nHope this helps!!!\nWhatever you do, don't take it personally. This stuff happens till you find the right one.
17670
Actually Im having a affair right now-Iam a Christian women who is a leader in my church and have been having a on an off again affair with the same man for almost 3yrs  It has come to the point that I am considering leaving my husband for this man.  Its a very confusing feeling.  My husband and I have been rocky for about 4yrs and I actually met this man when we were seperated and a I was going to another church.  This other man is now in jail and I am sooo considering being with him as DUMB as it sounds.  Dont be fooled my husband is not a innocent bystandered he has cheated on my on three occasionsw and its been about 2yrs and now he wants to put 100% into our relationship but Iam very tired of making it work and just want out. I have never been unfaithful before and I would of never considered having a affair before I feel in love with this other man
1167271
i say go with your heart dont accuse right from the start ask questions over and over and wait for him to slip if hes cheating hell slip sooner or later what ever you do dont come out and say i think your cheatin ask more direct questions like why did it take so many phone calls before you returned one or where were you on tuesday at 7 etc
828131
Sounds like you're interested in this other person, so it probably will lead to cheating. You aren't being honest with him or yourself right now.
140233
Your dilemma is one that is all too common. You are probably right when you say that it is not ?just me.?  It takes two to make a marriage or break a   marriage, and it takes two to have an affair. The fact that he has always been ?a flirt? suggests that, at one time, he was that way with you. You probably responded in a way that made him feel special, wanted, and needed, and reinforced his flirting behavior. This ties in with the first and main reason why men have affairs: to feed  their ego. The problem with us males is that feeling good about ourselves, or meeting our ?ego needs,? is our primary goal in life. Therefore, the first reason why men get involved in affairs is that it feeds their egos. \n\nDon't worry your not alone nor the only one.   :)
953758
If you are concerned then why not go out with him when he arrives so you will be in a public place - make out that it was a meeting point as opposed to the location for the evening.  It's best to get to know people better before inviting them over - you have to be careful these days.  He may be fine but it's wise to be cautious.
1028464
I assume that you are asking for the married man that you are cheating with. In that case you both should get STDs.
1040851
yes, you may not be physically cheating but its no different to have an emotional affair, I would stop all contact with this other person that you have feelings for and start concentrating on your spouse and try and rekindle the feelings that you had in the beginning of your relationship before things get too far and you cant take it back.
1069843
If all parties know about it and they're fine with it, I don't see a problem with it...\nBut I can't imagine the wife being okay with the fact that you were the woman her husband had an affair with... so I'm assuming she doesn't know...\nIn that case, if you two can play it off like there was nothing between you two, I guess you'll be okay....\nBut WATCH OUT, because people talk.... and sooner or later they ALL find out...
967041
Whoa ! Sorry I missed the previous question. But as far as any guy missing such an important date as an anniversary to have an affair with someone else sounds like a first class loser to me. I think you should dump this guy faster than a hot potato.
1095702
If  your not  in  a relationship  then  your not  having an  affair ..   that  can  get ugly  i guess you cant help  how you feel .. I mean  if you  have feelings for this guy  maybe  u needa ask  yourself  who u   treasure  more as a  friend  him  or the girl ? cuz  once she finds  out   dont count  on being  any  friend  of hers .. i personally would never date any  guy  my friend has been with  or  whatever  but to  each  there    own .. I guess do  what  makes you  happy  .. your  all  adults   no  reason to  sneak  around  just  keep  it real thats really all  you  can do .. .. its sad when   kids are  involved  ..follow your heart  good  luck  to you   all
579976
you are just giving him space, not breaking up with him.  you shouldn't get with this other guy.  i would consider that cheating.
579250
Now, that you have established he is shady and going to embarrass you by tell all confessions to his relatives why do you want to have anything to do with him. Are you in line to become a hot lunch? Find somebody who is mature and won't break your heart and ruin your reputation.