trying anal is suposed to hurt, this i know but a friend told me that I would have serious probs after...?
546559
there are sooo many bad things....that hole is for out only it is controlled by a muscle called the sphinxer(sp?) and that hole contracts when u poop, anal sex loosens that muscle and u inturn lose control of u'r bowel movements(not after one time, but in time)...u can also get hemorroids(sp?) which never go away unless u get surgery to cut them out, they get inflammed and bleed and are very dangerous....also after anal sex u will be constipated..my friend said she couldn't take a dump for over a week so she had to go to the doctor and get a laxative tablet to put up her butt...u will get small tears which are open and leave u vulnerable to infections and diseases....if u still decide to do it...u need to wear a condom and use lots of K-Y Jelly...not baby oil or vaseline pls....good luck- and just say no if u don't want to...if he doesn't respect u'r wishes then he's not worth it anyway :-)
896360
It doesn't always hurt, but it did for me. You really just need to relax, and use a little bit of lubricant to make it easier to slide in there. Also, take some ibuprofen before to help with the pain you might have.
72312
Don't expect to never get hurt. Just asking this question indicates that you're a sensitive person, and there will be things along the line that will hurt you. Just be sure that you take a little time to think about things rather than a gut reaction, which will only aggravate situations.
428772
Yes alot of people do it, I personally enjoy it very much , if you are going to do it then you have to use some kind of lubrication, go to the sex store you can find alot of stuff there, also they have this lubricant/gel stuff called an al easy you just put it on the outside of the anus and it numbs it, which helps the first couple of times. Also rub your self, stimulation to your clit will help you to enjoy it more, try it on your side, have him do it from the back while you lay down, dont do it on your knees yet because that is painful. :) HAVE FUN
53469
Yes, it can hurt. However, there are products out there that desensitize the nerves in the anus and sphincter muscles. You can usually find them in adult bookstores. Of course, if your sexual partner is gentle with you, and patient, the pain can be minimum without having to use such products.
968445
OK - 1st of all please tell me you are going to use protection!!!  Second of all it is different for everyone - guys dont have any pain, women would be the ones who have more pain... it all depends on how relaxed you are while having sex, but also it is a totally different feeling so it might be somewhat painful, for example, for me it was not very painful, just different, but I have friends who saw a lot of blood after or who have had more pain than I did... just go slow, and if it hurts stop and try in a little while...
571810
its always safe as long as you dont put it back in your vagina. because the germs it transmits, could affect your vagina ph plus you risk getting sick because of the germs in the anus.\n\nthe anus is a muscle and its stretches more than 10 times than the pelvis. so you could put almost anything through it. start training little by little and you'll see how far can you go.\n\nso first through your vagina then the ass, but never the other way, it could be bad for you.\nhave fun and enjoy it ;>
937249
It can be very uncomfortable if not done caringly and with patience and lots of lubrication. You cannot just enter like you would the vagina or it will hurt. It must be slowly stretched, foreplay and entering must be done slowly. It is safe enough but a lot of lubrication is a must because the rectum does not make lubrication like the vagina. Also never go from anal to vagina as this will cause infections. Do some research there must be toms of info on the Internet.
1160051
What's the purpose of this question? Are you contemplation doing it the gay way? Just like everything... what might hurt you might give pleasure to someone else... So if the reason why you ask is because you plan on doing it or having it done... Suggestion: Take/insert it slow...
803862
LMAO! Ummmm...let me try to have an open mind on this one. LMAO! \nOK, the best I can come up with is that if he is a friend, he wouldn't charge you. I would say he needed his plumbing fixed before your booty hit the seat. Plumbing is designed to handle explosive bowel movements. (not laughing) LOL.\nIn response to his bill I would just say, "Sh*t Happens!"\nIf he took you to court you would win, hands down. Oh, what a funny story this would be for all in the courtroom.\nGet yourself a new friend with new plumbing. \nlol\n~T~\nOh and umm don't worry about this. stress can cause constipation...*rolls her eyes at the thought*
906111
The anus was designed to be an "exit", not an entrance. The tissues there are more delicate than the vagina. It's not uncommon for those engaging in receiving anal sex to lose muscle tone in that area - how fun is that going to be to not be able to maintain control of the bowels?? Imagine hearing a hugely funny joke, laughing hysterically, right up until realizing there's been an accident in your pants.\nThere are plenty of other enjoyable, cleaner and more hygenic, ways to have physical pleasure.\nProtect your health, girl! You're worth it!
548266
I truly enjoy anal sex...\n\nIs it unhealthy?? Well, I am no doctor but I haven't heard anything about it being unhealthy.\n\nDon't knock it unless you try it.. and if you tried it and don't like it ..... well each to their own!
1103529
It shouldnt be unbearable OMG im gonna die painful....if it is see a doctor....maybe you arent ready
657316
It's safe with condom use, and it's good because the nerves that make vaginal sex feel good are actually closer to the rectum than the vagina. \n\nThat being said..the anus wasn't really made to be penetrated, so you have to work with it.  Lick it, tongue it, touch it, use a finger, then two before you penetrate.  Play with it for a couple weeks before you even THINK about penetration if you want it to be good for her because she has to be completely comfortable with it or it will hurt her and be horrible for both of you.  Use LOTS of lube and make sure that you are very careful and gentle, especially the first couple of times...don't force it..and never, ever try to stick something in it, without lots of lubrication.
822329
Dude, if she has already ate ur butt then she wouldn't feel uncomfortable about it. Just asked her one night like while you are down there how about swallowing this time. Just ask the worst thing she could say is no. Go for it! Good luck!
1141082
Hey.  I have a friend that's the EXACT same way.  She wants to, but she's scared it's going to hurt, and when she tries she says it hurts.  Well, I was the same way, and I was extremely scared.  But all you have to do is dont rush it; just take your time.  And if it starts to hurt, don't freak out and just pull it out or you'll have to start all over again, and that doesn't sound very cool, does it?  So anyway, just sit there and insert it a little and if it hurts, just take a few deep breaths and push it in a little further and before you know it, SURPRISE, you've inserted a tampon =).\nHope I helped,\nKatie
867572
It may or may not hurt, depends on how great the foreplay is. If the foreplay is great and you're lubricated enough, trust me, you won't feel as much pain, in fact it can get very pleasurable after a while. If the foreplay sucks, and your not wet enough, believe me, it's gonna hurt, but just relax and make sure your totally ready!