how can one get optimistic if one continues having failure?
551736
I havedn't been optimistic yet. Failure disheartens ppl to a scary degree with a sense of helplessness. You have to decide how far you are willing to go to get to where you need to be.
253591
Set an example by staying positive. Try to see positives in every negative situation and make best use of it. Always exhibit confidence and achieve your goals. That will prompt those negative slackers to dust off the cobwebs and start looking at life in a more positive way!
585420
First of it all you must be positive, nobody got happier complaining about their problems, you should give your best and learn with your errors, and when you have a positive thinking about it others people will usually cheer for you and help you, so don't be discouraged, the only one problem that can't be solved is one's death, and sice you're not dead I think you can surpass every problem you may have.
855710
when all else fails, read the directions ... over and over and over and over, again and again and again
454433
Dont give up.. Never do give up.. Dont let it be shattered.. Make things fine.. There is nothing that cannot be made alright.. All the best and all my wishes.. :)
947349
Always work hard, do your research properly.!!!\nNever give up, remember we cannot be good in everything we do so always spend extra time on your weak points.!!!\nGood Luck.!!!
238125
sure.. be optimistic and do everything to make your love the best it can be and you will be succesfull... good LUCK!!
751813
I'm going through the same thing. And I know someone who went through it and is happily married now. So that makes me optimistic. I guess what I'm saying is NEVER SETTLE... Don't u want to b happy.
424959
you will get rejected alot, but keep at, keep your head up, the more you try the better you will get. practise makes perfect. there is no substitute for confidence.
573917
Do the best you can for now and see what happens before you assume it won't work.
726089
anything is possible.. just wait & everything will go how it's suposed to =]
1151208
Always look on the positive side of things, keep your head up.\n\nYou can do it
232191
A POSITIVE approach, of course :\nConvince yourself that this disappointment is only a temporary setback to your plans, and begin by taking practical steps [one step at a time, please !] towards overcoming what had disappointed you...\nThere is an old adage, that 'Failure is the first step to Success'. Well, consider this disappointment as the second step !\n:-))
710952
Everybody gets discouraged at some point in time. Do NOT give up. If you keep at it, there's a chance that someday you'll get what you want. If you give up, then it's never gonna happen! The worst thing that can happen is that you don't make it big-but, if you really love music, then it wasn't a waste of your time, because you spent it doing something that you loved!
994135
when you don't have anymoe hope
1178232
I always do my best to stay optimistic, but I can't always do that. Let's face I'm only human and no human is perfect
186724
I try to stay positive by being optimistic.  I have a way of looking at other things in different ways.  Of course your idea still may be the correct one but "listening only" to others opinions sorta helps you to be positive because it helps you to look at things from other peoples point of view.  Then you have to constantly smile, even when things get you upset, and just know that it happend for a reason being the good and the bad!