ok i got mu girlfriend pregnant and i dont know what to do?
548644
Step up and look after her. If you got her pregnant then you've got to be responsible. Talk to her, decide what you want to do with her and support her. Children need parents.
322184
Keep up the good fight don't give in . The fact that you are asking is good, just think what if you give in catch something or get them preggers . Then you have to face the love of your life with the disgrace you hurt her.  Next time you get the urge imagine her screwing another man and how you would feel maybe that will give you a stronger incentive.
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She wants both of you probably because you both have different qualities.\n\nIf she did really love you then just you would be enough.\n\nStop letting her play you.\n\nSay she got pregnant how would you know who was the father?\n\nI know its hard but you have to leave her alone if she wont leave the other guy alone, block her from instant messaging you, block her e-mails & if necessary change your phone number, do you really want to waste time with someone whos always thinking of someone else? \n \nIt seems to me like she is playing with both of u. I think that u need to move on and find someone else and show her that u don't have time for games. If she loves u she wouldn't do u like this so find u someone that feels the same way u do and wants to be with u and only u.
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I think I understand you correctly, but I'm not sure.  You knocked her up, & now you want to make her miscarry?  If that's the case, I don't know what to tell you.  If a woman doesn't want to carry the kid, she can abort it.  If she doesn't want to abort it, but neither of you want to be saddled with that responsibility, she can put it up for adoption.  However, if you don't want to be stuck with it, you're essentially screwed.  You have no legal recourse to make her get rid of a baby.  Don't feel obligated to get married because she might be pregnant, though.  Oldest trick in the book.  You should stop having sex with her now, & insist on a paternity test.  Then, if she has the kid, & proves it is yours, the courts will make you take responsibility for the kid & pay child support without having to marry her.  Then, if you want visitation, you could go to court & set up a schedule, but otherwise, you can let her raise the child as she sees fit, & fulfill your financial obligation.  But first, make sure she is pregnant, & make sure it is your kid.  Never marry some girl because she says she's pregnant.  This may come as a shock, but she could be lying to you.  People do lie, & women have lied about being pregnant to get a husband for a long time.  Don't allow yourself to be forced into something you aren't ready for & don't want to do.  Pay for your mistake, if you truly made it, but don't put the kid through having a dad at home who resents the hell out of its mom for trapping him in a marriage he didn't want.  Just send the checks.  If you marry her without the paternity test, or send payments without proof it is yours, the law where you are may say you're screwed anyway because you took responsibility for the kid.  Tread carefully, & good luck.
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Since you are a guy, you don't need to worry about getting pregnant. :-)\nOn a serious note, she can still get pregnant even if you "didn't *** in her".  This is because your 'thing' has a natural lubricant partly composed by sperm.\nWe know it is hard (excuse the pun) but without protection you are asking for trouble.
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PMS...or you knocked her up...or gave her an STD...or she is a woman...Move on...
433106
tell her, 7 months pregnant or not, he's a sleeze bag. tell her and an authority figure too since he threatened you. dont live in fear because of that loser!
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maybe you should ask her to see a gyn regarding this......\neven with a urine test....its not 100% sure that she is pregnant...the only test which can confirm a pregnancy is through ultrasound......\n\nand if you want an abortion, you have to act fast....because once the fetus gets about 4-month-old, it will be dangerous for the mother to get an abortion done........
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I must assume that YOU did not put it in their with your male member. \nShe may have a vaginal yeas infection which can be cured with a Clotrimazole Vaginal Cream. It is avalable over the counter. \nShe may severe itching. The white stuff may have looked like cottage cheeze if it is really bad.\n\nOr she could have just been really excited at the time. \n\nNO. Nothing you have described should keep her from getting pregnant.\n\nThe thing to do to keep her from getting pregnant is to keep you male member away from her.
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Get tested for STDs. Go to the Health Dept, Planned Parenthood or your school's school-based health center.\n\nHope that the girl isn't going to get pregnant.\n\nTake more responsibility for your behavior--"getting so excited that you forgot" isn't really acceptable.
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Whoa....nasty scenario. Not sure I'm qualified to answer this, but let's see...\n\nIf the baby is yours you should definitely take care of it. I have an 18 month old girl and she is the center of my world.\n\n If you are considering an abortion you need to ask yourself if you can live with that. Some people can't, and regret it for the rest of their lives. Depends on who you are I guess.\n\nIf it's not yours, you need to decide how much you love/want the mother. I'd be concerned because she's not only having sex, she's having unprotected sex. You could catch something very nasty if she keeps that up. Also ask yourself, how would you deal with it if she did this again??\n\nIf you love her deeply, and the child is yours, see if you can work it out, but remember that you may not be able to trust her\n\nIf it is not yours, then decide if you can handle that and stay with her. If not, she's history, and no regrets. Find someone who won't cheat on you.\n\nIf you can't stand her anymore and the baby is yours, fight for custody. It will be worth it in the end.
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first off, internet love is never a sure thing.  always be careful who you meet, cause the chances of them being who they really say they are are usually slim to none, and thats just asking to get hurt.\n\nnow, she got pregnant by someone else?  that should tell yo right there that she doesnt care about you as much as you care about her.  my advice is to get out of the relationship.  but, if you think its really love, talk to her.  one thing to remember: how would you feel raisising someone else's kid?  is she worth it to you?
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As the pregnancy advances, your girlfriend will get tired.  Building a baby is hard work.  Help her with chores and tasks that she has previously done.\n\nEncourage her to eat nutritious meals and take her prenatal vitamins.  Help her prepare her living space to be a safe environment for an infant.  A baby will need a quiet area to sleep, a secure place to be changed, storage space for clothes and supplies.  \n\nIf she drives, or if you do, get a child seat designed for infants and get a professional to install it.  \n\nShe will have mood swings.  Accept them.  There are benefits to this.  When she goes through the nesting stage, you will get cookies.  \n\nRead books about child care and pregnancy.  A good one is What to Expect When You're Expecting.  I also like Lynn Johnston's cartoon books about pregnancy, childbirth, and infancy.  She will need to laugh from time to time.  \n\nGo to childbirth classes with her so you are prepared to help her in the delivery room.  Learn to give good backrubs and foot massages.
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Well the chances are very very very very slim that she would get pregnant from this situation, but of course if you want to be sure and stop worrying then just get a pregnancy test.\n\nit's very sweet that you care so much about your sister, she's lucky to have you :)
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Dump her before u get std. Then u will have something to worry about.
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i had sex with my sisters husband, now im pregnant and dont know what to do
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Well since that happened to me a yr ago, I suggest that u tell him that it's over and that u want him to be part of the baby's life. In my situation her and me have an understanding where I get to have him for 2 weeks out of the month and so does she. She just came out and told me, I wasn't so happy about it but I got use to it and realized that she really wanted it to be over. Anyways if U need some more advice on this e-mail at elguapo_v12@yahoo.com Well good luck and remember just sit down with him and tell him what u really feel...