Why is my Friend being this way?
538512
This person is no friend.  She might be harboring some jealousy issues.  Don't let her get you down and just quit calling her.  She isn't your spouse and you are letting this become your problem, when it is clearly her problem.  Friendship is a lot of give and take, and it sounds like you are doing all of the giving.  I wouldn't ignore her phone calls, but I would be busy if she tried to call back and make plans.
305113
i have a friend who is exactly like that! well first of all, you should not confront her abrubtly saying something that might sound attacking like, "You are the most self-centered person I've met!" because then she may feel self conscience and blame some of that on you. or she make think you are jealous. SO, what you should do is maybe casually point out to her to think about others once in awhile. the process may take longer than you have hoped for but if they are a friend worth keeping than it is totally worth it. \n\nif she persists on being selfcentered than maybe you shouldnt be friends with her anymore. sometimes you just have to let people go and if she keeps acting like that then you should be the bigger person! so if she keeps to only thinking of herself then i say you should tell her bye-bye.
553584
He probably confides in you because you are the only person he feels comfortable enough to do so with. He trusts you. I understand though, that he is bringing you down, causing you excess worry. Like you mentioned, he needs to speak with someone professional. There's nothing wrong with doing so. It sounds like he may have depression which will affect ones self-esteem. If you really do care for your friend help direct him to get some help. Let him know that he worries you and that mentally, you can't take the emotional blackmail anymore. Let him know though, that you do care about him and want to see him get some help to make himself feel better. You'd be the greatest friend ever to see him through this if at all possible and help him to get a "fresh" start again. Be upfront, honest and considerate with him...hopefully he will take your advice and get himself to feeling much better soon. Good luck to you!!
783257
You have not explained what you meant when you said your Friend saw you in 'trouble' what trouble? As we don't know what trouble you were having, we have know way of gauging if that is the cause of his cool attitude towards you. Having said that! I would think he saw or heard something that did not impress him about you. Can you think of anything you did that would cause him to feel this way towards you?
738791
the only suggestion I can think of is to ride it out.....wait until something happens. Either your friend AM is making the whole thing up cause she's jealous or something, or TM's shy....anything could be true. Anyways, just wait for something to happen, and then go from there, instead of getting worked up about it.
617553
maybe ur friend is confussed or is trying to get some space of her own w/ someone new? u should talk to her about ur concerns. is her man upset by her talking w/ him the classmate?
485187
that is no friend, friends can be trusted, friends are loyal, she is not doing her part in the friendship, its time to find a better friend! best wishes!
996490
Give him one chance to prove he is a friend.  In private, tell him how his behavior is hurting you and ask him to stop.  If he does it again, he's not really your friend.
871739
Sounds like he's playing with both of you. let your friend have this guy and you find someone else. She'll get kicked to the kerb sooner or later...might be what she deserves!
247217
He might just be feeling uncertain about his feelings and how to express them to you.  I think you just need to have an honest talk with him about how you feel about each other.  Be careful though, it could be that his hormones are guiding him if you know what I mean.  Don't let him use you.  Keep him in line and he will always respect you.  You have too many years invested as really good friends to mess it up by becoming too personal.  Good luck!
371989
Aww that's terrible, to me it sounds like he's the one with all the problems and you're going out of your way to be friends with him.  He's being abit patronising and maybe it means he needs to grow up abit, so maybe there isn't anything you can do at the moment except explain to him again all this from your perspective.  When he does degrade make sure you defend yourself, and even if you're not right maybe you can give the thoughts you had that made you think that way.  But it's not an exam, and please don't let him make you feel bad and I really hope it works out!
863473
try talking to him and be honest. If it ends the friendship, then he was obviously just playing at being a friend while his mind was working in a different direction.
348919
did she change in a bad way? if she were really a good friend, she shouldnt change how she feels about your friendship just because someone else comes along. you should try to address her that she seems different than usual, and maybe she'll tell you why the sudden change occurred.
1187801
This friend of yours is not a good person. She is definitely simply leeching out favours from others. Just leave her, don't talk to her. She'll definitely come back for more assurance. I think she needs some counseling.
1053175
Life is too short to dwell on a petty persons actions isn't it? \nYou know the rumors are not true, and so would a friend, so anyone who can be turned against you so easily, sadly wouldn't have been a true friend.\nI am sorry she is being so bothersome, it can really disrupt someones life to have that happen to them, and I hope things settle down soon for you.\nAs you've already said, about her actions not speaking of intelligence, it sounds very true.\nShe may have a lot going on in her life, but it is not fair of her to play such childish games.\nLive your life, and don't give her the satisfaction of letting her know it bothers you, she just wants to get your goat. \nIn fact, just brushing it off completely, and being happy that you are not the one being so impish would even be better!
1026974
Your friend doesn't respect herself, your body is a beautiful thing and should not be abused by anyone, And sometimes if you feel it so not your place to tell her about herself,do it anyway sat her down and explain to her has a friend that what you are doing is wrong an unnecessary and if she is your friend she would take your advice and respect that you care so much and value the friendship she will think things through and take it in consideration.
201250
For the first one, you have doubts about your Friend and suspect that he may be leading you into something that may have negative consequences.  \nSecond, is a result of how you feel about the world and your place in it.  My guess is that you feel the world is going bad and you can't doing anything to change that.