how should I deal with my girlfriend after I came to know that she loves some other boy?
544072
find yourself a new girlfriend.
612624
Its not fair of her to not be honest with you.  I would tell her that I know about the other guy... How could she tell you that you are soulmates, but then not want to be with you? Isn't she living in sin by seeing the other guy? The whole situation sounds like she wants her cake and eat it too.  She is not being fair to either of you.
488758
I say listen to your heart. Be true to yourself. If that other guy really loves u then i wouldn't take my chances messing that up for this one that just wanna come around all the sudden.
1063997
keep telling her you love her, but dont let the other guy get close to her. you guys sound so cute together, lol
535380
let other people talk to her about it but u DON'T. and it'll be better if she doesn't know that those ppl are from ur side. after things are over between them, wait for a while b4 u approach. but still, it's not advisable..leave her alone. anyways why would u love a girl who is already "taken"??!\n\ngood luck
534860
Simple, just relax and don't worry about your bf's friend. There's really nothing you can do to a girl who loves someone else. He'll think you're manipulative if you do something to make his friend lay off. They're just being friends. Plus, you said he didn't love her. It's going to be okay. And if he does love her, well maybe he loves you more. Don't let it bother you. =]
533906
tell her how you feel. If worse comes to worse she'll reject you and you'll go to colledge and pick up another girl who loves you and won't be afraid to tell you. or she'll confess that she loves you too. \n\nbest of luck!
451911
definately tell your boyfriend how you feel. tell him that you would like to hang out with the friend and the kids and be included in the activities. Tell him your concerns. \n\nHe might just say that maybe he does have feelings for him, but it's not like anything would happen because the other guy is straight. of course this still hurts alot, if not worse.\n\nMaybe you could find a friend of your own. If your attention is all the sudden on someone else other than your boyfriend, it might get his attention, plus you will be happier because you won't be thinking about it the whole time. Your friend wouldn't have to be another guy, it could be a girlfriend. I definately suggest not to make it more than just friends though, because that would most likely be out of spite and just hurt you and your boyfriend way more. \n\ntell your boyfriend how you feel, see what he does. just play it cool. make some new friends. best of luck hun!!
157827
Well...it probably has to do with the fact that you are supposed to be in a committed relationship with her and ONLY her, unless of course you two had a before mentioned agreement to having an "open" relationship, but I doubt this is the case...  Put the shoe on the other foot bro, and think how you would feel if the roles were reversed and she was the one cheating on you.  Maybe if you see things through her eyes for a few moments you will be more careful with the way you are treating this poor girl’s emotions and heart.  However, If that doesn't convince you to change your ways, why don't you just do her a favor and cut her loose now to save her any future heartbreak.
332241
If you truly love the one your with then stay away from Ben before something happens you will regret. When you find yourself over analyzing the bad bits of your relationship find at least one good bit to put beside each bad one you think of. I bet the good out way the bad. When you find yourself daydreaming of Ben put your boyfriend in his place. Reprogram your brain to think of your man and the good times you have. This other boy is only infatuation. It will pass once your boyfriend gets home.
315984
Okay I am a bisexual male so it may be a little different for me but here is my advice anyways. (Also I have been in a similiar situation and I have a little insight.)\nThe FIRST thing you need to do is decide how important this girl is to you and are you willing to tolerate her going back and forth on you. IF YOU ARE NOT--then take my advice and break all ties with her. It may hurt at first but if you keep dealing with her you are just reopening a wound over and over and it will never heal. Trust me in this...been there and I wish someone would have told me that. Could have saved myself a whole lot of pain and a broken heart if they would have.
418910
Cut your losses and move on buddy.  Anyone who truely loves you wouldn't have to look anywhere else.  If she loved you whole heartedly, she would never even consider the possibility, or allow herself to become emotionally involved with another person.  She may love you, but not enough.  You deserve more.
398668
Go out with the other boy.  If he has that something that's missing then choose him.  If he doesn't than stick with who you're with and try to figure out what's missing or find someone else.
458970
I know you don't want to hear this but You need to leave him alone, because as soon as you find someone else that you really love, a girl or boy is going to take him away from you. What goes around comes around.
98805
Ignore her friend and just focus on the one you love. You control your life. And whoever loves you can't do anything about it if you don't love them so just ignore them and focus on the one you really love. However, you can't also do anything about it if she also doesn't love you.
314485
To be honest if you had any feelings for any of them then you wouldn't of put yourself if this situation to start off with. I think you should break up with all of them and find someone out there who you'd never cheat on!
479708
well I think you should never force someone to love you. If she loves someone else that's fine although it hurts very much. Let her go her way and you don't have to help her ! i guess she is not a small girl :)\n\nfind some one else man. time heals. you will be happy