When your boyfriend/ gurlfriend get mad at u do they say its all your fault when its theirs?
545920
Yes, thats called-reverse phsychology.
968583
yeah...myhusband nags more than i do, and im the woman!  he gets mad about EVERYTHING.  helping me with the garbage, with dishes, cleaning, always looking over my shoulder and asking my why im doing what im doing and getting mad because i tell hi to leave me the hell alone or dont answer.   whats up with it?!
12411
Yes, you should apologize first...It's a sign of forgiveness and maturity to deal with relationship issues, even if it's not your fault..
992809
think for yourself, does your boyfriend worth you or not. you are the judge here. don't let your pal say things to you, because what will happen is that you and your boyfriend will end up yelling at each other over nothing. trust me, think for yourself. is your bf good or bad. you decide.
792566
YOU ARE RIGHT TO BE MAD. FIND A BOYFRIEND AND A BEST FRIEND THAT YOU CAN TRUST!
994298
do they know that you lknoe each other\n\nhave the three of you ever met\n\nif yes then i think that its not only your gfs fault\n\nit also has sth to do with ur bf\n\nhe may have led her on\n\ntalk to your bf first and then your gf \n\nif its one sided then tell your gf to look 4 someone else \n\nand if both want each other then kick them out of your life
681208
Whether this is "your fault" for being with another guy, or "his fault" for freaking out, doesn't matter.  Even if it was an accident, and you say sorry and can prove it, still doesn't matter.\n\nStuff like this is a clear signal that one of you (maybe both of you?!) aren't ready for a real relationship.  Take some time off, think about what YOU can do better next time (even if it's just thinking about how to choose a boyfriend that isn't so immature).  Then, after a few months (I would suggest 3-6 months at least!) you might possibly think about another boyfriend.
348331
They still feel the pain so they have to blame someone even though they didnt always do it. Sad but true even though you didnt do anything too her she might hurt you just to make herself happy.
222185
Yeah, of course. When you have a relationship with them and have had a lot of you know what. Then break up and she doesnt have anyone at the moment. And she needs it really bad being ra.ndy like a mad mare, even if we were still together i was like doing it myself sometimes just to see how she reacts and she was going all crazy, asking about me to even buy her a di.ldo if i dont have time :) and thats about it. They can be just as crazy as we men are, hahaha. They also need to fart and go to toilet and burp and eat. Just the same thing. Nasty, nasty hahaha.
584379
it happend, what are you gonna do about it now? sounds like she has low self esteem and prolly thinks you did something so if you were going to see your x you should have gone ahead and done something cause your gonna get screamed at for it anyways.
229535
Yes, I had a crappy boyfriend in the past who beat me often. I'd try to leave, but he'd find me again. Why it happened....cuz he was a jerk and couldn't control his temper I guess.\nHe finally got his payback--my bestfriend at the time beat him down, and he packed up and moved. Never heard from him again! Yippee!!! ;0)
336296
maybe that's coz u can't spell... lol nah kidding. Anyway, this question is pretty vague. Either u have done something to piss him off, he's busy with his own personal life, he is guilty of something that he thinks might have made u mad, he is ready to move on to another stage of his life without u, he is busy with his girlfriend, he wants to tell u something that he thinks might bother u (like sexual orientation maybe he is gay and he thinks that would make u mad)... just talk to him!!!
737643
well did she apologize for what she said that upset you is she trying to be your friend do she even care that u are not speaking to her people say life is to short and we should charish our friends and life is too short but is she really a fried u wanna hold on too that dont care what she says to hurt you
174400
yeah, he might get mad, but he still should definitely know.\n\nyou're just getting a little advance practice for those tough relationship situations later in life.\n\nand be careful, dammit!
148371
You may have hurt her feelings (intentionly or not)durring the marriage and she is taking it out on you now/ getting back at you for no attention etc.
1027847
I've been guilty of that "super nice, but I am really hating you at this moment" kind of behavior.  A lot of the time it's because we want you to know why we are upset.  Not just that we're pissed- but the reason you pissed us off!  It can be tough figuring that one out, I know...  And the whole niceness thing is fake, you know that.... we want you to know we are ticked and trying to hide it...\nI think most women assume that men are emotionally retarded and think we are making it easier to understand us, when actually we are making it harder.  Good Luck with your girl...
782438
Your best friend cuz she sounds like a jerk. \n\nBut think about it, becuz if you dump her, then if your boyfriend dumps you, your left with nothing.