why can't I trust people?
536064
Trust takes time. Some people don't ever deserve it. But if you have been hurt alot, maybe you need to pick your friends more carefully. Trust a little at first, and then as you get to know them watch for red flags. Then you have the option of putting distance between you and them, or just ending the friendship.
160473
Basically in life, everyone lies. If not they aren't homosapiens. To trust someone is a very difficult thing to do. Before you can start trusting someone, ask yourself this question, "Do I trust anyone in the first place?" You must sacrifice something in order to gain something. You are afraid that someone lied to to you. Is the matter a big one or a small one or it's just your feeling? The best way is to ask the person directly in a gentle manner. People lie but you must never keep that anger/worry in you. Learn how to forgive and forget as it could be the best remedie in living a happier life!
837513
I'm like that. I don't have any real friends, just guys i hang around with. I could never count on them. Probably because it's hard to trust ppl these days
400950
jealousy is a lack of trust...
700898
i dont think trust can ever be fully regained. sad but true.
419667
Take a deep look at yourself.  What has caused you to mistrust others?  What happened when you were young that caused you to realize that other people don't follow through?\n\nMost of the time when there are trust issues, it isn't because of the current situation we are in...it is because something is not balanced within us.  \n\nOne thing I have learned is that the energy you put out, you end up creating.  Have you ever worried badly about something and then it ended up happening??  Chances are that you helped in creating it!!  Give people the benefit of the doubt until they actually slip up and prove that they can't be trusted.
849290
well, it sounds like you may have committement issues. maybe you feel like you are unable to give someone your complete trust to. whatever the reason may be you may want to look into talking to a professional about this. You don't want to exit this earth and never truly knowing how to love someone unconditionally besides yourself that's not your blood kin. Good luck with this and I hope one day you open up and allow someone into your life.
505283
This is a common fault with males and females,why they do it is because they are interested in your life,or they are too possesive for you.\nA lack of trust is the begiining of any arguement,and asking where/what/who,can be taken the wrong way,when it was just an innocent question.
555521
people are selfish and they want their way. they know some people (it sounds like you are one of these people) are good at heart and will trust them and they prey on that trust. im very sorry if you have been used by someone. here's a quote from mother theresa:\nIf you are honest and frank\nPeople may cheat you;\nBe honest and frank anyway.\n\nHonesty, humility and simplicity make you vulnerable.\nBe honest, humble and simple anyway.\n\nthere's more to it, but i thought that was the most relevant. smart lady, wasnt she?
720303
You can't. Trust is one thing that money can't buy, it must be earned.
987489
trusting people takes time. especially when you once had it and then lost it. i think that you should be VERY patient with her. don't turn her insecurities into an argument. try to understand where she is coming from. i think that if you don't lie continuously, she'll eventually trust you. believe me...
812320
try asking them. If you can't trust their answer you shouldn't be together.
336289
these aren't trust issues. YOu know that your friends will probably talk about you and tell other people your secrets. Don't hang around fake people because you'll keep things in from everyone. You have to learn how to read people, like if they are fake or not. you don't have to tell everyone anything, but if you do, make sure itz the rite person. Also, ITZ NOT YOUR FAULT, you have to learn in not being so open somehow. YOU DON'T HAVE TO TRUST EVERYONE, TRUST YOURSELF, and the PEOPLE YOU LOVE.
765535
He whom doesn't trust others... doesn't trust himself in the first place....
59285
Trust is sometimes not there.  He might have done a lot of mistrusting things in his lifetime.  I know one someone who always did not trust his girlfriends.  The reason was that he always cheated on them.  If you cheat, you have a habit of thinking others cheat on you.
263976
Get this in your head everyone lies. Until you and your "friend" could have a level of trust that is sincere then you're in business. And know how to tell nice people from bad people, dont be naive. If your like under 21 then grow up some more.
1161183
my trust that people have in me