Can his  soon to be ex wife stop the divorce?
546027
next time get her to email or write her requests to him, than take this to his lawyer. \nOk not sure about where you live or the laws there but here they can do a divorce without one of the party even present. If they have been notified of the time and place for the final ruling thats all that needs to be done. Your BF could go and get it settled even if she refuses to go or agree to it.\n\nAnd yes he needs to think and know its time to back off from this woman she is not his anything anymore and if he pays her she will just keep wanting more forever!
614928
if you tell him it will probably cause him to mistrust you. funny thing, if his wife's a good liar he's GOING to believe her. YOU NEED PROOF: something so good that she can't lie her way out. if there are kids involved he will keep the best part of his family in the divorce.  family looks out for one another, it's your duty to find the proof
333254
Disability is not grounds to prevent a divorce. Depending, it may be cruel, but if other party is unable to take care of them selves, coming up with grounds may be a problem.
168749
No. Sometimes people change and circumstances require divorce that is best for one, hopefully, both parties.  It just makes you wiser and experienced.  Good luck & never give-up!
141135
Considering you aided in the breakup of her home, you should stay as far away as possible.  I suspect you either have feelings of guilt or you are afraid that your husband will do to you what he did to his first wife or you think he will realize the error of his ways and go back to the ex wife and YOU SHOULD!\n\nI can only assume there were problems in the husband's first marriage which caused him to seek consolation outside the marriage so you are not totally to blame for the distruction of their marriage, but you provided him with the means and the opportunity.  Now that you are in the wife's position I think you may see things a little more clearly.\n\nSomewhere within yourself you are questioning whether or not you can trust your husband.  You are questioning whether it is a pattern for him to seek outside the marriage at the first sign of trouble.  I also think you know your husband and his ex has unfinished business.  The problem that caused their marriage to breakdown was never discovered or brought to the surface and the possibility that he may wake up one day and realize he still loves his ex wife and he only hooked up with you because he did not know how to communicate his needs.  \n\nBefriending the ex wife is not going to keep the husband from cheating if he so chooses nor will it provide you with peace of mind.  Remember the old saying 'what goes around, comes around.  It is true and it is called Karma.
801867
Possibly...\n\nYou can have an ex-parte divorce. This only happens if one party does not appear for divorce proceedings after being given a number of opportunities to appear.\n\nThe other way, would be if no divorce agreement can be made between the parties, and a judge signs the divorce.
920077
use a common friend to get to your ex-wife. i think it's very noble of you to try to work things out among yourselves. if your ex-wife still refuse to accept the fact that you're actually doing her a favor by resorting to peacefull means, then you have no choice but to do whatever would be necessary for the sake of your child. you need not feel guilty then if the court decides in your favor because you have tried your best to warn her.
587135
If she's been living with this guy for more than 7 years than by state law, he is her husband although they are not legally married.  He would get everything unless a will is drafted.  But even wills can be contested, she needs a "living trust" which is undisputable.
281509
Yes he can.  However, will he fall in love enough to divorce his wife?  Probably not.
1050776
(A friend huh? )  Why is it that when ever someone on this site wants a "quickie divorce",or wants to break up with someone,the first thing they say is: "It's not me-it's for a friend?"\n\n(1) First of all,why waste your time trying to get answers to your friends problems? Is he/she not capable of taking care of this him/herself?\n( 2) Do you think people on this site are able to determine why this marriage should end,without details?\n(3) Stop Lying!-Your the one who wants the " Quicky divorce" (wink,wink!). You probably got married just as quick,and as a matter of fact,you probably do "everything" quick (wink,wink). (Anyway) stop trying to do everything so "Quickly". Pay the cost to end the marriage,or prove to the Lawyers,that YOUR WIFE is capable of footing the bill!. \n\n(PS) Just to let you know,there is no such thing as "breaking away clean",from a divorce. Everyone will pay,suffer,or whatever in the long run. Don't forget about Alimony,and paying any bills she has accumulated over the years. Good thing there's no kids involved. (Good luck)
308556
divorce and break up!!
38178
You don't, she's something that you are going to have to live with, even if you divorce her.  So in my opinion, you should just make it work.
1073575
Intentionally or not, he's playing you both and he's already made his decision. The only way you are not going to lose him is to remain friends and leave it at that. You guys divorced for a reason and he remarried for a reason. \n\nIt's you that needs to make that decision, not him.
527771
Get your lawyer to file to halt visitation, or at least modify it to exclude her presence.  He will probably fight it, but if what you said is accurate, you stand a better than average chance of winning.
1106032
Yes but after a certain length of time(I think its different for all states)he can get a divorce without your consent.
1086653
Well, if he isn't legally divorced, then she isn't legally married to him nor has she ever been.\n\n  \nShe needs to contact an immigration lawyer ASAP.
628658
i would think that would depend largely on if she is able to get out and get a job herself. if she is able to then she probably won't get half your pay for life. just up untill the end of the divorce.