Does sexual durability in men matter to women?
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I HAVE TO SAY IF THIS HAS OCCURRED MORE THAN ONCE IT MAY BE A RED FLAG FOR FUTURE NIGHTS OF SEXUAL FRUSTRATION FOR YOU. THERE ARE WAYS MEN HAVE FOR LASTING LONGER. IF THIS IS SOMEONE THAT YOU CARE FOR AND ARE GOING TO HAVE A FUTURE WITH. YOU NEED TO ADDRESS THE ISSUE NOW. IF HE GETS THAT TURNED ON BY YOU THEN PERHAPS HE SHOULD GET OFF AT HOME BEFORE YOUR DATE SO HE WILL HAVE MORE STAMINA WITH YOU. OR YOU SHOULD HAVE HIM CONTINUE PLEASING YOU AFTER HE "GOES" UNTIL HE GETS READY TO TAKE ANOTHER GO AT IT. JUST WORK THROUGH IT TOGETHER.  BUT IF THIS IS JUST A FOR FUN RELATIONSHIP SOUNDS LIKE YOU MIGHT BE TOO MUCH FUN FOR HIM AND I WOULD TRY TO END IT BEFORE THE FRUSTRATION BEGINS\n\nGOOD LUCK WITH THAT  .. . ..
403893
Men have orgasms easier, so I'd guess its men.
173234
No, absolutely!\nOtherwise we all should have problem or be impotent even!\nOn the contrary, scientists says that a regular sexual life (mastu*bation too) helps the reproductive system to keep healthy and increase the performance (desire) too.\nSomebody even plays more time in a day and there’s no correlation with impotency or erection.\nSo, don’t worry for that, while you only ought to care to don’t become too much addicted.\nMastu*bation is a normal event, and with the age and stable relations, decreases till vanish.\nToo many and continuous plays can give a bit of anaemia.\nMaybe dark circles around eyes are due to stress or short sleep.
284827
Yes, unless you peel it back and keep yourself clean.  And if it won't peel back, your changes of finding a sex partner definitely decreases.
876983
Well luv, it's a social thing, actually. It seems most males of the human species are self-conscious about their member's size and their capacity as good lovers / performance... In fact I would bet alot of impotancy cases could be directly related to performance anxiety and the like. \n\nWell of course there are other reasons, but I have had my share of partners who couldn't function in bed due to stress, frustration, worryness and whatnot. \n\nBut to answer your question, yes alot of males are very self conscious about their size, even though most times there's really nothing to worry about!
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It does have the same effect that in men,erection (of the clitoris and nipples in women). But doesn't increase the sex drive. Same restrictions apply to females (don't use if you have heart, circulatory or blood pressure problems). It is reported that it does increase sensation and orgasms, but isn't clinically proved.\n\nNo, it is not hormonal, and won't grow beards in women.\n\nYes the study implies it increases the sex drive, but then says it was not significant (statistically) against a placebo
445778
To some women, of course it matters. To others, it all depends on how  a man uses what he's got. So focus on your skills and technique and maybe she'll look past it.
83001
How about The Natural Superiority of Women over Men? No kidding...I am not a women's libber either!  I did a speech on this topic in college years ago and received an A. You research the different diseases men get, stress factors, genetic problems such as Hemophilia, webbed feet, etc. Just a thought. No offense to any men here at all....Men are Wonderful!!!
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I'm 43 and i found that i lasted longer because i'm more in tune with my body. It helps to be with the right partner someone you have feelings for. I can't just have proper sex with people i don't really know anymore. What i found that effected my performance where: alcohol, smoking, guilt, worries, nervousness and depresion. I had to clear the reckage of my past and get in touch with myself. The calmer and peaseful my life is, the better my sex life is. I hope this helps you and good luck.
316788
For a guy, not much. For a woman, increase chance of vaginal cancer. I'm talking if you had sex daily for years.
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I like bil's answer. but let me clarify.\n\nMen and women do NOT transmit and contract HIV equally! Same thing applies for most STDs.\n\nWomen are usually receptive partners. Female anatomy is constructed to take in and absorb material. This is usually suppsoed to be sperm cells, but it also means women take in pathogens much easier than men do.\n\nThen again, there are men who are receptive partners sometimes. Then yes, they are more susceptible to infection. In fact, the anus is very fragile, tears easily, which is why receptive males pick up HIV very easily.\n\nMen who are insertive partners (tops) are the ones who have the greatest likelihood of transmitting illness to their partners. Stuff (semen, germs) comes out of them, but it's not as likely (though entirely possible!) for stuff to get back in. The easiest port of entry for HIV to get into an insertive male would be either the urethra or underneath the foreskin.
607151
It depends on the man
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Well, males are more likely than women to get at least one orgasm, especially if the male controls proceedings.  Many women do not get to orgasm via penis in vagina sex.  Those women are thus (obviously??) likely to desire sex less than those men.\n\nIf women explore their sexuality, they can become multi - orgasmic, and can achieve massive prolonged orgasms, that might well exceed what men experience.  They might desire sex even more than the men involved.  I suspect that only a minority of women do this, however.
60760
It is important to men in a physical sense and to women in an emotional sense. If I had to pick one, I would say guys. More because I believe that women love the communication and personality of a man before she can give him any sex, while a man will have sex on his mind most of the time.
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Here's some text from a 2002 study reported in Neuroendrocrinology Letters that indicates male pheremones (at the heart of "body odor") may have a positive attractiveness effect to a majority of women.\n\nPrevious research has revealed that natural and synthetic pheromones can enhance ratings of opposite sex attractiveness. The present study investigated the effects of exposure to male axillary secretions on female ratings of the sexual attractiveness of male stimuli. Thirty-two female undergraduates, half of whom were contraceptive pill users, rated male vignette characters and photographs of male faces on aspects of attractiveness. On two separate study days, corresponding to different phases of their menstrual cycle, stimuli were presented while exposed to male axillary pheromones and under a control condition (no pheromone). The order of testing was balanced with respect to pheromone/control condition and menstrual cycle phase. Pheromone exposure resulted in significantly higher attractiveness ratings of vignette characters and faces. Use of the contraceptive pill or menstrual cycle phase had equivocal effects on some vignette items and neither had any influence on female ratings of male facial attractiveness. The results of this study suggest that exposure to natural male axillary pheromones can significantly enhance female perceptions of various aspects of male attractiveness.\n-----\nThere's no question that overt and extreme body odor is repellent to many (and certainly it can be!) -- especially since we've been trained by countless advertisements to find it so.  \n\nHowever, it's an evolutionary adaptation of some kind, which (certainly in the pre-bath eras) must have operated as a signal of some kind to females: of health, of strength, of non-sickness perhaps.
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No.  For most men under forty, the most serious impediment is pressure to perform, whether percieved or actual.  For men over forty, there is a range of issues which may impede sexual satisfaction.  A great many of these can be managed medically; the gentleman needs to see his physician.  There is NO suppliement or natural food that will help, nor will "alternative" or "complimentary" medicine.  Oh, those items will help fatten the wallets of those who sell them, but as for helping with one's bedroom performance - well, if you and your finace want to throw your money away, throw some of it my way!
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Estrogen doesn't have much to do with it, testosterone is the "sex drive hormone" in both men and women.  Menopause reduces this hormone as well, but primarily the physical reason is the vagina no longer lubricates as it once did which in turn makes sexual intercourse uncomfortable.  Using a nice lube will get things sliding again the way they should, and in extreme cases there are "testosterone sprays" or "creams" that can be applied to the area (also known as "Female Viagra").  Any woman remotely interested in continuing her happy sex life after menopause is more than able to with just a bit more effort.