should i break it off now?
538015
Drop her...It seems all she wants you for is making out....If she wants to make out then she can go find some other guy to use as a toy...
538690
I don't think you can break it off without hurting with them.  But you do owe it to them and yourself to be honest with them.  Good luck.
591838
time to move on pal...talk to her first. because talk is cheap. explain your feelings and make it clear why you want to move on and follow through on it. then you will see if she values your relationship or not. if she breaks down and tells you not to break it off, make an agreement for her to get some type of therapy or professional counseling b4 trying again...good luck
206759
He may be trying to do either.  Just remind him that you are now ex-partners, and he needs to keep his social life to himself.  Refuse to get involved in this sort of discussion.  Sounds like it was a good idea to break it off.  He doesn't have clear boundaries.
227393
Don't break up, just say you need some breathing room and your feeling mentally claustrophobic, Agree not to see other people because that will send the wrong message, but just maybe for a week, limit calls to once a day, and spend more time doing what you want to do. I guarantee when your mini-break is over, your relationship will feel like new
654372
Are you sure you want to break up with her. Sometimes we think we want more without knowing what we want. ask for a cooling down period. See how both of you really feel. Just go it without for 2 weeks. If by then you don't miss her. then nothing is lost. and finalizing the break up is easier since she's gotten use to the idea. \n\n I've had guys break up with me and then try to get back together a couple of weeks later. but it depends on how we broke up. That's why I'm suggesting you ask for some time apart.
82242
you should end it. so your not cheating them
174058
Why would you want to?  If you are not together, there's a reason you are no longer together.  just move on with your life.. if it happends.. it'll happen.  if it doesn't.. at least you didn't waste your life waiting for something to happen.  Plan for the future.. don't live in it.
902669
I'd say...I jumped into this relationship and now I regret it. I don't want to hurt your feelings, but I need out. Then, leave. You are right, if you keep on it will hurt more later and I promise you...the longer you wait, the harder it will be to do.
434965
If you are fighting all the time and you truly feel that there is no fixing it then maybe it is time to end things. It will certainly not be easy but in the long run I think both of you will be happier. I don't recommend, however, jumping into a relationship right away with the girl that you have known for a long time. Take some time and be single for a while. If the girl you have known for a while is truly someone you would like to be with then wait until she won't be just a rebound girl. Go out and have fun and give yourself time to get over your five year relationship.
1067314
Your boyfriend is breakin up with you.  I've done it like that b4 myself.  dont need to come out and say it, just let it drift apart n by the time the girl asks whats goin on, i'm already with someone else.
1114393
no, if you just broke up she should maybe give you some time. If she talks to you everday, it will seem like before. So at first it's probably not a good idea. But if its been a while then its fine if it doesn't bother you.
1070322
Well that all depends on how long yall have been apart because of him needing space. If it has been longer than a month then I would say cut him loose. It shouldn't take him that long to figure out what he wants. Don't sit around and wait on him cause that's all he wants you to do. Also if you are not in love with him, then why are you with him in the first place. I have come to find out that relationship's don't work out if you just love the person and not in love with them.
732013
I would give it a little bit of time and then ask yourself. Are you ready to give this another try or are you starting to feel better and are able to move on?\n\nSomeone once told me people break up for a reason and that they should always stick to their original idea. Of course this is not always the case but just do what you feel is right deep down. \n\nHope everything works out!
555592
Yes he should consider how you feel.  Break away for now and maybe in a few months or years you 2 can become friends.  You want someone to treat you with kindness and respect and do not take anything less.  Good luck.
225776
cmon!\ncontinue your relationship,if you guys still meet each other, isee no reason for any kind of break up!\ngo ahead gurl!
1130166
I usually like to put the blame on myself, it makes the break up go a little easier. Just be honest though but not blunt. If you listen to your heart it will tell you what you need to do. Good luck!!