how do you tell if your at a gay cook out?
545608
well the hot dogs taste like crap of course!!!
278682
Does he know about your sexual orientation ?\nHe might like you too but is also not sure if you like him or not ?\nIf he knowes that you are gay, and he does all these signs that make you doubt that he's gay, it could be because he's trying to sense some signals from your part too.\n\ntry to find out about his environment. what do people around him in his community think about gays and lesbians? maybe he is but he's afraid of being rejected for who he is?
366733
it all depends on what kind of kiss it was and to whom it was too. And on how much you can trust your partner. And what kind of relationship you and your partner are in.  There's always 3 sides to the story, YOURS, MINE, and the TRUTH. You can read the menu but you eat at home.SO that means there will be  no ordering not even an appetizers.
724757
You can't really tell with just a casual conversation.  You have to be around the guy quite a bit -- if you are pretty good friends, sooner or later, his guard will be let down and he will give hints: he'll stare at men, he'll talk about "other lifestyles," he might talk about dating women but rarely if ever actually do so. \n\nI've got some news for you though:  Most bi guys don't let on what their true orientation is to their male friends.  They have a whole other set of guys they hang around with for sexual purposes and the two sets of guys rarely mix.  And many times, they don't even consider their sexual partners (other bi's or more likely gays) friends.\n\nOne of the ways to lose a male friend is to ask him something like that.  The chances are, for one thing, even though he may actually be bi, he'll deny it to save face and to protect his privacy.\n\nIf a man (bi or gay) is looking for sexual activity with another male, you'll know it.
690483
tell them you're gay.
453690
Just by looking at them. All the homos have that certain "look" about them. It's okay that they're homos, I'm just saying you can easily tell.\n\nPlus they all lisp.
673921
There really isn't any way to know for sure..  \nMost of the time we kinda have an idea if someone is gay but there are some individuals that are very good at hiding their "tendencies".    You should try to become their friend, strike up a conversation about a book, movie, the weekend coming up, etc, etc--  Try to get to know them as a person.   There are many people out there, specially in H.S. that just because they don't like a person, rumors/lies are made up!! I'm pretty sure u have heard some rumors about yourself that you know are just lies!!!  So don't believe everything u hear.
781930
I'm a lesbian and there is a saying about that.  Family (meaning people in life) usually can tell family.  Being around gay people long enough you get the sense of it.  If he isn't giving off that sort of vibe then be careful.  If it's that serious and you want to know talk about something a joke or actor who is gay.  Feel him out on the subject.  Most times a person will say something about it.  Don't just ask him out.  Men are extremely sensitive about that.  You don't want to get hurt.  In more ways then one.
761016
If you flat out ask him, it could be awkward for both of you. Maybe you should be a little bit stronger in your hints and say something along the lines that, even though you are straight, you wouldn't mind having a gay friend and ask him if he has ever known anyone who is gay. Most gay people have the feeling that it is killing them inside before they come out, so even if he doesn't open up to you right away remain a close friend. If he is gay, your friendship will mean a lot to him.
665845
kind of a dumb question. how would you know they're gay? would someone say, "help, i've fallen and i'm gay!"\n\nunless you just pushed them over because you just found out they were gay, then I guess you would not help them and they'd get up themselves. hopefully, the "gay" would punch your lights out then.
379687
it's really hard to tell someone's sexual preference these days, as i'm sure you know. i've never had to deal with this kind of situation before so my advice might be a lil spotty. i think you should just try and be friends with him for awhile at first and see if you can tell by just talkin to him. if that doesn't work and you feel comfortable enough then you should ask him. just be patient and see what happens. it could just turn out that he'll be a really good friend but not gay. you never know
99248
try a gay/les bar or nightclub.
41232
Yes....sounds like someone has a little sugar in their tank.  Plan a speech for your parents..your gay.
46671
If he's gay, and you're not a man, you're barking up the wrong tree... so to speak.\n\nIf you're a man, then go up to him and ask him if he'd like to get a cup of coffee with you.
501113
How to tell if you're gay: \n1. If you are over 30 and you have a washboard stomach, you are gay. It means you haven't sucked back enough beer with the boys and rather you've been sucking-off the boys and have spent the rest of your free time doing sit-ups, aerobics, and doing the Oprah diet. \n\n\n\n2. If you have a cat, you are a Flaaaayming gay. A cat is like a dog, but gay: it grooms itself constantly but never scratches itself, has a delicate touch except when it uses its nails, and whines to be fed. And just think about how you call a dog..."Killer, come here! I said get your butt over here!" Now think about how you call a cat... "Bun-bun, come to daddy, snookums!" Jeeezus, you're fit to be framed, you're so gay. \n\n\n\n3. If you suck on lolipops, Ring-Pops, baby-pacifiers, or any such nonsense, rest assured, you are a Gaylord. A straight man only sucks bar-b-q ribs, crab-claws, raw oysters, craw-fish guts, pickled pigs feet, or titties. Anything else and you are in training to suck El Dicko and undeniably gay. \n\n\n\n4. If you refuse to take a dump in a public bathroom or piss in a parking lot, you're in a deep homosexual relationship. A man's world is his bathroom, he defecates and urinates where he pleases.\n\n\n5. If you drink decaf coffee with skim milk, you like a high hard one in the poop-chute. Coffe is to be had strong, black (or with thick, wholesome milk) and full-aroma. A vagina-eating man will never be heard ordering a "Decaf Cafe Latte with Skim" and he will never, ever know what artificial sweetner tastes like. If you've had Nutrasweet in your mouth, you've had a dick there too. \n\n\n\n6. If you know more than six names of colors or four different types of dessert, you might as well be handing out free passes to your bung. A real man doesn't have memory space in his brain to remember all of that crap as well as all the names of all the players in the Major league, NFL, NBA, college ball, PGA, and Nascar. If you can pick out chartreusse or you know what a "fresier" is you're gay. And if you can name ANY type of textile other than denim, you are faggadocious! \n\n\n\n7. If you drive with both hands on the wheel, forget it...you hungry for meat-popsicle. A man only puts both hands on the wheel to honk at a slow driver or to cut the dude off. The rest of the time he needs that hand to change the radio station, eat his hamburger, hold his beer, finger the bi-atch in the passenger seat (whoever she happens to be), or, if he's Latino, talk on his cell-phone. \n\n\n\n8. If you enjoy romantic comedies or French films, mon-frere, vous sonnez le Gay, oui? The only time it is acceptable to watch one of those is with a woman who knows how to reward her man. Watching any of the above films by yourself or with another man is likely to result in SHC (spontaneous homosexual combustion), which is what happens to fags when they flame out too quickly.
701401
Just be yourself.  I've known hundreds of gays in my life.  Some are flaming beyond belief... the "gay guys" you refer to, I guess.  But most are regular people who have jobs, go out, date, and you'd never know they are gay.\n\nIt's a hard thing to balance, really... if you go to a city where there is a big gay population in which you can blend and find a life, you'll find a huge flaming population.  But if you stay in middle America or smaller towns, you'll find very few flaming people... but also very little life either.\n\nJust ignore the flamers... there are regular folks out there, more than you'd think.
595729
There is no way to know if a girl is gay or not. All woman look and dress their own way. We all sorta look alike in our own ways.\nGirls may think your a nice person and friendly. Theres nothing wrong with that. If they are trying to pick you up .\nIn a nice way you need to let them know your really not in to that kind of thing. They will understand.