My boyfriend just broke up with me and i don't know what to do, i still love him!?
534873
Sorry. There is no easy answer for this one. Breaking up is hard. No matter what age you are,it hurts. There is very seldom a time that a break-up happens and both people want the relationship to end. Someone almost always gets hurt. This time that someone is you. \nIt will take time to heal your broken heart,but I'm sure that you will be a stronger person after you make it through this. Good luck to you. Dry your eyes and go have fun tonight and forget about him for a little while.
340173
Why don't you have your friends come over to explain what happened?  If he means anything to you and you want to stay, you will try anything to keep him.  Good luck!
1159757
Talk to him and tell him how you feel.  Let him know that he is still in your heart and want to make sure that you're in his.  \n\nTell him everything, don't let him get off the phone without saying it, and if you get his voice mail leave it on there.
307737
What you have to do is remember that you're x's for a reason, don't dwell on all the happy, romantic stuff that went on with you and him, think of why you broke up and how you felt and what the problems were.  There's always a good reason why we break up with someone.
150202
He has already broke up with you. So dont call him, email him go over his house or nothing.  Just know next time he see you, you must look the BEST, The Bomb, the Freshest.  Stay FLy.  He will want to call you, watch.  Or, you can let him see you by being somewhere you know he will be.
1092009
If he loved you and you broke up with him, you probably broke his heart and that's what killed the feelings. He probably still despises you for this, and probably wants to love you again but resents you for hurting him. If you stop the effort and lay off, he might start the effort. Lay off and relax, if it's not meant to be, it's not meant to be and it's just a waste of time, energy and emotion to try. If it doesn't work, move on, but in the meantime, just relax and try not to worry about it, if he wants to, he'll try.
607064
Get over him.  Get out.  Good riddance.  There was a reason your broke up in the first place.  Remember that.
221689
Aw sweetie you sound so sad! I know it probably feels like the end of the world at the moment, but it does get easier I promise. It's never easy to get over someone that you really cared about, but you will be happy again, with someone who feels the same way. It seems that this guy cared enough about you to tell you that it wasn't working, rather than lying about his feelings. \nIt happens the other way round too, and you may find yourself going out with someone in the future who likes you more than you like them!\nIt happens because you are learning about yourself and growing as a person all the time. It takes a while to figure out who we are and what we want from a partner and from life. \nAppreciate that we learn something from each person who passes through our life, good or bad. See that he just wasn't right for you and that means you are available for someone who is!
369146
You need to let him down lightly. Don't lead him on anymore than you already have. Just gently tell him that you love him, but only as a friend. Don't do it over the phone or through e-mail. It has to be done straight to him. After you break up, then continue, or at least try to continue, being his friend and being there for him. He probably will be hurt, and I understand that's something that will be hard to deal with. Just tell him you still love him, just not in that way.
634873
its only hard for us if we love the guy.  My BF of 4.5 years broke up with me 2 weeks ago and at first I kept calling, but I realized that I can't do anything about it. He broke up with me because he is trying to figure out what he wants to do with his life and doesn't want a GF right now. I realized that if he wants to talk to me, he will call.
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As I've learned on a question of my own, you cannot expect a real answer 'cause we don't know how you guys even broke up. We don't know who dumped who and how are things between you two now.\n\nThe truth is probably this, assuming that I have a real insight of the situation from your question: You are still a princess to him and he still finds you beautiful. But you are not HIS princess anymore. He surely does care.\n\nThe fact remains - he is trying to destroy your self confidence so you don't find somebody else. It is a cruel tactic, but the man still cares and he's out of ideas. Talk with him.
211852
maybe he doesn't want to be with you anymore and wants to break it off with you. Just break up with him, you need someone who akes you laugh. Dont need no A S S es around.
247691
Be sure that you want to be with HIM, not with SOMEONE. Nothing has changed about whatever the situation was that broke you up.\n\nAside from that, just think of any excuse to call then see him. It will go from there.
473362
That's a pretty messed up person u're talking about...u're obviously so in love with him...u need to decide to stop loving him...and getting on to better people who deserve that kind of love..\n\ndo not assume u know what he wants deep down...plus u being available to him now...will make him want to go back to u less...if what u r saying is true u need to be unavailable so that he has to break up with her to b with u again...and try to relate what's going on with the reason he broke up w/u in the 1st place
494212
Get over him. Since you broke up with him you should try to stick to your decision. Don't feel like he is the last guy on Earth.
984509
i think that me and my boyfriend may be breaking up today. i'm really nervous and not sure what to do.  don't call him, just let it all go. that'll be the easiest thing to do.
1127003
if u still love him think about giving him another chance but b4 making ur decision u should think about why u broke up with him in the first place and if ur rlly over wat he did to u. ask urself if u can rlly trust him again and if it's rlly a good idea to get back together with him the choice is urs \nGood Luck!!!