Alot of people say looks don't matter. If thats true, then why don't people consider dating the same sex?
534701
Even if looks aren't important to you, gender is.  Attraction and arousal are dependant on pheromones and how you respond to them.  If you are not stimulated by the pheromones given off by members of your same gender, you aren't going to feel an attraction.\n\nYou can still feel a close bond and love, but you aren't going to feel the sexual arousal unless there is something "triggered" in your body by members of the same sex.
515450
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.  I cannot date someone I'm not attracted to.  But I might be attracted to someone someone else finds ugly.
63652
I am a female, and no i don't think that, I find that with my past relationships my looks were just a bonus, if the girl has a great personality, then there really isnt a need for great looks or nice rack or a firm rear. so if you find that you like this girl with an amaxing personailty and colorful aura, then no it isnt based on looks, im pretty average and none of my relationships are based on looks and ive dated some of the best looking guys around.
150538
"Looks" as a whole dont matter but there has to be something to attract someone. I dated a guy that wasnt that attractive BUT he had a beautiful smile and that was all it took.
1103895
I would. A persons condition or looks should not matter. Pesonallity, trust, honesty and love is all that counts!
1101155
honestly i feel that looks doesn't matter as long as one has a nice personality..looks give the 1st impression but ultimately it will be the inner beauty that really counts..a lot of girls are infatuated with hot-looking footballers and diss at the uglier ones..but do they really know the private side of the footballers that they are infatuated with? many good-looking footballers do not turn out to be as great as how they look..while many others who are average shine because of their nice personality..as long as people feel nice and comfortable around them..nothing about their looks will matter at all...
1033245
Well I am not a guy But I see the inner beauty in the men I date. After all the cute is gone you are left with a cute asshole nobody. I figure it is that way for men also when they look for a mate. Of coarse everybody wants that perfect person who is all that .but think of it this way "our skin is just our garage where we                temporarily store our souls."
870065
I personally think interracial dating is a beautiful thing. I don't think it matters as long as the the two people that is in that relationship are happy, that's all that matters. f$%K what other people think. it's the 21st century and if they can't deal with it, then don't look. And about the babies. Beautiful kids. that's all I have to say.
133408
I'm willing to bet that almost every guy that says looks don't matter is a liar. Looks matter to a certain degree. After that, personality kicks in and then chemistry makes us fall for girls.
942852
no thats not true! not all people are for looks , some are for personality and how you treat them sometimes...... pick me best answer plz!
391366
Honestly, I think some people simply don't explore that option because they're happy with their sexuality, even if the same sex may seem enticing. I look at other women and of course I am capable of acknowledging an attractive one. I've even contemplated a three-some between my boyfriend and one of my friends. It is an interesting topic, but I personally think that despite what others may tell themselves, I'm pretty sure most people have thought about exploring this option of flirtation between the same sex.
687425
There is a double standard in this country. People say they want someone who is smart and that your looks are not important. However, this is not true. This is true for both men and women. The world judges everything by the cover. It has been proven time and time again that someone who looks good will be more likely to get, for example a job, than someone who is smart. I will still say it is better to be smart than being a model, but guess who gets paid more....
943407
this is like my 5th time answering this question on here lol but my opinion is that its ok and the fact that someone would go out with someone of a different race, when it isnt so common, says something about their personality....that theyre open minded and can look beyond ''barriers'' to see love for what it really is. Same goes for, people dating outside their religions, and gay people...etc the list goes on :)\n\np.s. Thats why people with a whole lot of races mixed in them are so beautiful lol ... People are rewarded when they can look beyond physical things :)
654574
it depend on the person, ive seen some hot black guys, ive seen some ugly black guys. ive seen some hot white guys, ive seen some ugly white guys- you just cant group the entire race together in one general subject. you may just have a preference which nothing is worng with that, i prefer dating black guys over white guys cuz thats my preference but i do date white guys, if they are cute, i date them- thats my theory lol
646456
Anyone that just goes for looks in a woman is pretty shallow, you can't build a relationship on looks alone, you have to know the woman inside out, this includes her likes and dislikes, her wants, her needs, her whole structure. If a man is looking for a long term relationship with a woman, then looks come a long way back in the things that he wants, at least it does in my case.
1171692
Initially we all go for the looks as attraction however personality is the thing that maintains that attraction. A person can be as attractive as hell but if they have the intelligence of a fly and personallity of a dead piece of grass, obviously that is going to be a big turn off.\nAlso what is attractive looks wise is often different for everyone, some like stick thin women other like them to be a bit more womanly and curvy, some like blonds, some brunettes, some tall, short etc...
809752
Some people like both sexes and that is okay.  Eventually, you will know what makes  you happy.  You do not have to fall into one stereotype or other.