i caught my Boy f. cheating on me like 4 monts ago, i forgave him but now i cant trust him should i just leave
542972
It's difficult to trust again after being emotionally betrayed by someone you truly love. Talk to your boyfriend. Let him know how you feel. Ask yourself questions like: Do you still love him? Are you capable of ever being happy with the current relationship you share? Are you emotionally prepared to remain attached to your lover even after knowing he's been with another woman? If the answer to these questions are "no", you should probably say goodbye. On the other hand, if you care for your mate and really want to hold on to your union, try taking a few days away from him. Stay with a friend, a family member or take a mini vacation to somewhere that's peaceful enough to allow you to examine the situation clearly.\n\nIt's important to note that 4 months may be too short a time to make possibly permanent decisions about breaking up. At this point the wounds are still likely to be sore. Wait a while longer if you feel he's genuinely remorseful and you truly want to give the relationship another chance. If you find it difficult to do this, however, and don't see him committing wholly to the relationship, don't punish yourself...let him go.\n\nGood luck.
57503
Focus on improving your own life. Avoid relying on him at all, and don't offer him anything. If you're staying together "for the kids", realize that they will be growing up around a negative influence anyway. Nobody deserves to be cheated on, and cheating on him will only make you as low as he is. If he was not being his typical self when it happened, he will confess and apologize and won't do it again. But don't give him too many chances!
1079914
Go on Cheaters or Talk to him urself and find out whats going on. If he doesnt tell u the truth. Go with ur gut instincts and leave his sorry butt.
682306
Run.. Run away. Ask yourself.. Will you ever be able to trust him? Ever? \n\n-HtJ
835429
Ask yourself if you can live with that person, can you ever trust them again? Can you forgive them? Otherwise you will live a life of always wondering, and checking in on that person. Make sure you are not just avoiding the obvious- to dodge the pain now. It may hurt to let go now, but later you will be grateful, when you meet the right person who wouldn't cheat on you.
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If you dont trust him then you shouldnt be together.  E/one needs a part of them, all to themselves.  He's telling you stuff, so just accept what he tells ya.  But you need to see others as well.  Sneaky is not good.
238274
I'm going to be honest.  You may never re-earn your boyfriend's trust.  If I were him, I would break up with you right away.  You were a jerk for cheating.
998326
i truly dont think u should accept... trust me when other people including i, say this... once a cheater alwayz a cheater... believe me i went through the same situation were i truly loved a guy n he cheated on me... i thought that if i gave him a second chance he'll change... i was wrong... this goes for many guz... u may not kno it...jus move on.. i kno its hard but trust me there is alwayz some else better out there 4 u... i thought that wasnt true, but now i am happy and in love with my bf of almost one yr.!!!! i just hate seeing people especially girls get treated this way...
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Cheating is NOT OK...the fact that he did that too you in the first place is soooo not cool. I'm surprised you didn't do away with him then! The thing is if you didn't do anything about it when it happened...he's probably thinkin sweet i'll do it again...unless he's really genuine. Just ask yourself...If he's hurt me this much this soon, whats to come in the future...? And what might come in the future is heartbreak...and you don't want that. If you break up with him now, you can do it on good terms, and possibly hold up a descent friendship!! Just pretect your heart...good luck!!!
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Why would you even need to ask? If you caught him and you know he lied about it, then it should be obvious what you should do, unless you want to stay with a lying cheat that you will not be able to trust. Honesty and trust are the basis of any good relationship and he destroyed them both. Don't you think you deserve a lot better than him? I sure do!\n\nS.S.
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Trust your instinct, it is usually right. Leave him. Even if your instinct isn't right, then you should still leave him. Because you don't trust him. You'll just be putting yourself (and him) through a lot of stress wondering if he's cheating or not. Then you'll end up with a bitter breakup. \n\nSo, once again, break up with him.\n\n**Mr. Curious, you're an a.s.s. I guess the whole world should be as perfect as YOU. Right? You sure think a whole lot of yourself speaking to this girl the way you did. Seriously old man, I know the hemroids make you cranky but don't take it out on girls. Go get some tucks pads or something. Mabey taking a nap would help, too.**
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If you really want this relationship to work, don't do it. You'll just end up making the trust between the two of you even worse. If you forgive him, you forgive him. It sounds to me, like you need to tell him you want to see other people, because you are not sure he's the one anymore. Tell him you cant trust him, and until that trust is rebuilt, you feel you should date around. good luck.
393711
If you are cheating on him you should stop being a moron and give up the good guy you are screwing over. Someone else certainly deserves him. If u arent cheating yet.. then knock it off.. and have your long term learn to fulfill your needs
684346
it defenitely sounds like he's cheating, just move on, you'll be happier you ended it.
994731
Maybe you have just growen apart it happens then bordem sets in and you do things maybe you should'nt. Try talking with your b/f and see one way or another because if you dont you will end up cheating time and time again!
812177
I say no, honey, if you don't want to be hurt again then stay away from him. Once a cheater always a cheater. You deserve someone better. And for the time being when you don't have a bf, get closer to your girlfriends! They won't cheat on you.
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if u still love him think about giving him another chance but b4 making ur decision u should think about why u broke up with him in the first place and if ur rlly over wat he did to u. ask urself if u can rlly trust him again and if it's rlly a good idea to get back together with him the choice is urs \nGood Luck!!!