How Does The Lord Feel About Someone Still Being A Virgin If They Are Pushing 30?
547803
the lord thinks it's fine and dandy like sour candy.
693825
I was 16...and now days..if a 16 y/o lost her virginity that would be considered "waiting a while"..lol and I am only 23!\n\nIf I had it to do over again.I would have waited on my now husband (who I have been with since I was 17)He was a virgin and it would have been special to have waited.\n\nI guess that is depends on the girl,but most girls now won't wait...it makes me hope I never have children!!!But I dont think there is a certain "time" I think it is just either #1 when they get dam good and ready.. or #2.when peer pressure steps in!\n\nThank you sweety...\n\n\nvote 4 me
749136
There are plenty of people your age and beyond who haven't had sexual intercourse. I didn't have intercourse until I was 23. It's nothing to feel bad about just because society might say it's 'different.'\n\nYes, it can be a very beautiful thing between 2 people who love one another, but only if you're ready for it. The worst thing would be to do something you're not ready for just because someone else says you should.\n\nBe true to your own needs, and you won't have to worry about it. I think the fact that I waited instead of giving in to peer pressure, enabled me to enjoy it, where if I hadn't waited, it might've turned out to be something traumatizing that I wouldn't have wanted to do again.\n\nAs far as a therapist, I wouldn't suggest it now unless it's something you can't stop thinking about. After you're not a virgin anymore, see what happens. If you've been doing it for a while and if you still feel really bad, then I'd think about talking with a therapist.\n\nSo my advice is not to worry about it. You've got plenty of time, and when you're ready for it, it'll happen the right way.\n\n________
546119
Im glad to hear that there r  some more smart girls in the  world than i thought!!! i live in europe and rare who loose virginity being 16 or earlier there. I know in US there is different.  Congradulations!!!  Dont be affraid...U know when i lost mine? Last  year, being 21. And im very glad about that. Cause  i found that guy who i want to be with all my life...  And  i am so proud i could had that  moment with him only.  im not sorry   i have been waiting till this moment so long. I remember the minute, wheh i told him i am still a virgin. He was. liek "wow...  im proud.."  trust me, he adores me now, cause  nowadays it is so  hard to find virgin girls..  We r going to get marriage in the future...  And i am so happy :))))))\n\nSo dont   be affraid..If u feel  this is a man u wanna be with,  of course tell him, he is going to be first. I odnt see anything u should be shame of... What going on with the world today...   Why we r trying to get adults so fast..  There r so many pure things, which we r forced to be shame of...\n\nI am with you!!!!\n\nSo wish u luck  on sharing that special moment with a guy u love and wnat to be with.   U will always rememebr that moemnt :))))))))\n\nps. sorry, if my english is not as perfect as i wish it to be :))))))))))
194030
There is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 20. You should have sex when you feel ready, not when you feel you are the "right" age
454280
19 and I've only been with one man.  I think I feel less shy about sex now that I'm no longer a virgin.  I got pregnant a few months after I lost my virginity so my life has changed in that way.
1166072
Yep! One of my freiends is nearly 23, and she is veyr much stilla virgin-she hasnt even kissed a man passionately, or even had a relationship with someone! In 6th from i thought it was rather odd-but irespected her obviousley as its her choice. She isnt a Christian-nor is she religious, so these beliefs havent persuaded her not to have a phsyical relationship-she has just been unlukcy i guess, or doesnt feel the need for a relationship.\n\nShe is very independant and quite agressive towards men, so its quite hard for them to get to know her-which explains alot! I think she gives out this impressionthat they arnt good enough for her-which in part is to try to protect herself i guess. herfather left when she was quite young-so perhaps this has affected her choice in men, or having non existent relationships!\n\nI think its possible not to have had a relationship at any age-and acceptable. At the end of the day some people are happiest left alone-and independanct individuals in that sense. I guess its their own person choice-they also have to be ready for a relationship so perhaps this is why they are single. I think they are missing out though! :)\n\nxx
870966
Please, stay a virgin! I'm one and I'm proud of it even though some may consider me a loser. I'll bet a lot of your friends secretly regret losing theirs to some idiot boy that didn't really care about them. Do not feel pressured to lose your virginity; you're too young and boys at that age are very immature.
467643
It's perfectly normal to be a virgin at 20.....my advise??? Wait till you've found the right person for you.Somewhere out there is someone for you...find this person first, it is worth the wait, believe me.
1164915
Hey girlfriend I'm 44 and I'm in the prime of my life and I feel young and I been told I look young for my age. We are still young. 40 is just the beginning. Don't think so much about death Just be happy and live everyday to the fullest. I sometimes get scared too but all I can do is pray and ask god to at least let me live as long as my father did and he was only 67. Now you tell me that is young Huh? So see we are still young. Actually younger guys ask me out. The older we get the better we look and feel!
549491
yes i am still a virgin. and i'm intending to stay this way until marriage ^_^
1118373
the same reason people want to move into a new house no one else has lived in. It is special. Magical. Specially since finding a virgin here in America above the age of 14 that is not Muslim, Mormon, Jehovah Witness or something like that is about as rear as being struck by a comet while you are wearing a gorilla suit doing your taxes on a unicycle. If I had the choice of a virgin or some one who has been rode about as many times as a jockey has in his career, give me the virgin. I know she is not so impetuous and lack of control that she let every man and his brother root through her.
620696
It's totally relative. I don't think that there's anything wrong with having pre-marital sex if the context around it is right. There's no way for us to know what God thinks about it. Some religious people would think that it was alright if it was in the context of a loving and caring relationship and birth control were used. Others would say that it is a terrible sin and that we shouldn't even use birth control. What could possibly make one of these views more valid then the rest? I think that a lot of people would think that at 17 you are ready to make a responsible decision about sex and I am one of these people. If you think that you are going to feel guilty about it then don't do it. If you think that you love her and it will help you express your love, then consider it.
279196
That is a personal decision between only you and your loved one.  Considering that some people never do get married and remain single their entire life it would be impractical for those individuals to wait until marriage.  If they did they would remain virgins their entire life and that would be asking too much.  This is my suggestion--I believe people in their teens are not mature enough to deal with the emotional issues of having sex.  They should wait until their 20s and should also be in a very loving and trusting relationship when losing their virginity.  That’s what my husband and I did.  We have been married 19 years, are very in love, and wouldn’t change a thing.
532210
I was 19, and it wasn't the best thing ever. In fact thinking about it, it was awful. Given the chance again, I would wait to find someone who 100% respects you and that you would feel honoured to give your virginity to.\n\nGood luck :)
115257
I just wanted to encourage you that you are absolutely doing the right thing.Do not worry what others around you say,they have lost the basic moral values of the Lord.Do not pay any attention to there comments because God is with you and is going to reward you for your dedication to purity before marriage.Im so proud of you and you have been such an inspiration to me today.I encourage you to mentor young girls and teach them how not to succomb to the tremendous pressure that we all face to not remain sexually pure.God be with you sister,and carry on the good work.
433067
sex isn't just an act there are emotions that will go along with being with someone in this way . If he really loves you he will wait dont comprimise your morals  your only a virgin once once you have you cant go back  yes you can remain from having sex but your so young sex will always be there. i dont know him  but the guys i dated will tell you what ever it takes to get you into bed the good ones wont pressure you    i know  its hard  we have all been there   also if you happen to get prenant are you really ready for  all that respnsiblity  it will change your life .  some people are more mature than others at this age  just write down your thoughts  maybe seeing it on paper will help you decide    go talk to girls your age and get there input the ones that have babies on just the ones that have been through this stuff   you said you have morals and goals    if you are a religious person  go talk to a  teen  counselor than can help without judging  you . and if your parents  change their mind and decide to press legal charges against him because of his age  prison isnt going to be a place for him    dont risk  doing that to him     even if you dont want them to they can still override  and go to the law    i'm  not trying to scare you  just want you to get all the  facts before you make the decision   i wish someone would have told me about all the emotionally things that go along with sex    i have been with several  guys  when i was your age  i'm 20 something   and i still have  emotions from my first time  and  the times after  that.  there is so much life to experience  take it and run but be carful.