Why am i falling for a whore???
538287
They say "love is blind" this proves it.\nYou just can't choose who you fall in love with-I mean if you could I think she would be the last person...but this doesn't mean you should degrade her, people make mistakes and they should be forgiven..She may have been insecure and had low self esteem before, this doesn't mean she will stay that way.If you really love this girl, than you should act like it-for example-stop the name-calling!Everyone deserves respect even if its the least worthy of a situation..People do things that can't be explained by anyone but them.
1104155
Sorry to hear that you wound up hooking up with a real creep,not all guys are like that . Myself I like to shower the special lady in my life with attention , affection and praise. I  don't believe that any woman deserves to be treated badly by a man. Take your time and really get to know the next guy who sparks your interest you never know he could be the one and if he is he'll know that you're worth waiting for.
333557
My dear, the way that I see it you seem like a "deprived" person in the area of self expression. SO you say, you have a great family and supportive friends. And that you are a social person. Have you ever behaved that way sexually when you were still in your teens?.. or even while you were in your early twenties?\n\nAs to the relationships that you had in the past,  Perhaps you have honestly loved at least one of them. I think that is not the issue. May be you're still in love with one, but something's pulling you back. Just a thought in your mind is quite different from actually doing it. You are not scared of the thought of commitment, but the actual practice of it, I am sorry to say that you still lack it. Who knows, you may have already found her but you just do not realize it?\n\nIt is hard to answer your questions outright because it needs details to be understood. But the way I see it, going for one-night stands is your way of dealing with your self expression. These women are strangers and you pay them for pleasure, so you get to "say" everything and that they will just have to follow. The way I see it, there are things that you want to be done your way and perhaps sometime in the past, things did not happen the way that you wanted them to happen that is why you vent your frustration on a "safe" avenue where you can easily get away with - your sexual activities with multiple women. So you say, it must feel really good. I am sure you are not scared of STDs and AIDS because you're just having fun, right? But what happens when pleasure is over? That, you have to deal with again, and the cycle continues. See, for as long as the root cause is not properly dealt with, this will go on and on and on with your life. This is not a normal guy thing. I suggest you seek professional help about it.\n\nYou've asked this question because you feel that something is not right somewhere. Congratulations, that is a good start.
502179
I dont want to sound rude, but if they are all doing it, then maybe you need to look into yourself and work out why, there is no one reason why a person cheats on another, all we can do is change our own attitudes toward it so that it doesnt continue to happen. \n\nIs it possible that you have low self esteem and they are picking up on that? If not i suggest you do a little soul searching and come up with answer for yourself, i'll bet there is one there, but you dont want to face it. \n\nGood luck - nobody can help you, but you on this one.
150021
ask her why she thinks ur such a whore. and then i bet she will let you date.
595783
you remind me of myself so patient,considerate and understanding for the man, but putting yourself last.hmmm you say you want this to work.i think youre fed up and feel like going but youre afraid theres nothing out there for you.let me clue you in ,go and check out a few clubs with a good girlfriend of yours and see just how many people are looking for love.any man would be lucky to have a committed lady like yourself.maybe its time for an ultimatum?up to you though,mean what you say and say what you mean.GOOD LUCK SISTA
92945
Congratulations, you have found a girl who isn't a whore.\nShe obviously likes you, so give her some time.  \nThat is of course unless you are a jerk, and just are looking to get laid and dump her.  Then please leave her so you don't break her heart.
565375
Listen man...bitches like that are  two a penny...u just got to ....nail them when you can and girlz like that are all whores anyway....i mean the really good looking ones.......they love themselves sooo much that they love getting nailed...then move to the next....guy....in the end they really find that they have nothing to show for it apart from a really terrible body ...you know drooping breasts....loose skin...and they end up with some real loser....!!!...haha....what goes around comes around......eh....just take her a few more times and sate your lust then discard her...like the piece of trash she is....!!!
438081
ummm yeah girl, dont get caught in that falling for losers while the nice guy watches and picks up the pieces trap. You should kick your ex's behind. You dont disrespect a woman by putting your hands on her OR calling her out of her name. If he has to physically hurt a woman, it shows he is a punk anyways and not a real man. Maybe his mistake in falling for you is that you didnt have a penis, which is what he is really looking for.
338408
Its definitely psychological, so don't loose heart. Consult a psychologist and get professional help. Meanwhile try to abstain from girls for sometime.
356436
Okay here we go, i totally agree with you on this one. If you arnt into the head games just go for what you want which is Sex! Thats awesome thats your not a bad guy and you will treat her with respect. Because Prostitution is a very stressful job, this i know! HeHe And remember always use protection if you have any thing more just IM me! Be Safe and Have Fun!
435908
if you feel your value lies in your pocket pal that probably explains why you can't find a descent lady. they really don't care that much and finding out that you think your dick is so great would just be a total turn off. sorry that you can't see anything good about yourself except that, you are in for a sorry life. trust me NOBODY will ever think that thing is as great as you do!
177176
The key here is how you said immorality.  Not a little more open minded than you or less inhibited,  but immoral.  I don't like people that have no morals, they remind  me of goats in heat and about as attractive.  Be very careful, you said yourself its  a warning.Common sense isn't a lot of fun until you maybe realize it could have saved you a lifetime of heartache maybe!  Hope you meet someone with standards that you deserve.!
699011
welcome to the club! i know how you feel it sucks. all i can say is be more open. just because the guy isn't prince charming on a horse doesn't mean he is the wrong guy. a guy might mess up and make you wonder why but you have to remember that he is human and that no body is perfect...it is in human nature to make mistakes..so take a deep breath and forgive it will make things a lot easier. I promise.
409521
maybe just a fear of the next step with your great guy. sometimes,women think of other women because they have a subliminal fear of hooking up with mr. right and having left a stone un-turned. take it easy and let yourself think everything thru. you'll know for sure. give it time.
329597
Some women ends up being spoiled and thinks they could hold the man in their selfish hands especially the girl you were talking about.\n It's not you... you need to wake up and think that as there are more girls in this world than men, I'm sure you will be able to find someone who will truly loves you.\n Give it time to heal the wounds and by talking about it, you're learning to open up. Changing yourself just to please a woman would not give you any self respect in the long term, so just be yourself always.
1090898
Sure why not, whore yourself around, get that good old slutty reputation out there.\n\nEx's are ex's for a reason remember that.