How to make my boyfriend feel better?
548284
Let him know this will be the challenge of how strong your relationship is, and that you think it is no problem!  \n\nOn the other hand, I lived in Europe for 7 years, it is WAY too fun and will be hard not to have "too good of a time".\n\nStay away from Majorca Spain!!!
357636
Always show him he matters a hug, a note,sex\nAlways have date night even if it is a movie or a talk\nAlways ask him how his day is at work\nAlways tell him you love him and you are blessed to have him in your life.
436033
There is NOTHING, REPEAT NOTHING you can do to MAKE your boyfriend not sad.  The more you try the more frustrated and depressed you will become.\n\nConcentrate on improving yourself, being happy with yourself, getting to know yourself.  If he was truly in love with you he would be happy too, right?  When you both are happy with yourselves while being apart, independently, then and only then will you be able to have a healthy, deep relationship.\n\nGood Luck.
1137100
Just relax and think about how much you care for your boyfriend. Your boyfriend should make you feel like loving him too
446051
Get out some paper and colored pencils.  Make him little love coupons. Examples could be.  One Free Back Rub, One romantic home cooked meal, You Pick the Movie, Pamper him on his birthday.  He will remember that forever.  Sounds crazy but I was broke once for my boyfriends birthday.  I typed out a hundred reasons why I loved thim and cut them into strips and but them in a jar.  I did that three years ago, He is know my husband and still has the jar.  Good luck with your gift and Happy Birthday to your Boyfriend.
1010407
relax and give him some space. if a man feels smothered then he will leave you!
791024
Communication is the key element in all relationships. Talk to him in a non-attacking manner and tone. Start all sentences with "I feel". That always helps. The second he feels attacked, he will tune you out. That way he can only respond to how you feel and not what he may or may not be doing in your eyes. Good luck.
432826
Do more activities together so you can bond more and don't boss him around so much :P
53110
Every time he's spent away from you (even if it's 22 seconds), accuse him of cheating.\n\nNag. Works every time.\n\nInsist on watching Chick Flicks\n\nCook him a disgusting 54 course dinner.\n\nSay in a seductive manner "oooo it's hot in here" then turn on a fan and say "that's better"
1177456
First, talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel and what you think could be better. If he's really serious about the relationship, he'll be more than happy to work on things. Don't out it all on him, you both should work things out together, even if it's on his part.
401323
if your boyfriend dosn't make you feel loved and happy.. WHY THE HELL ARE YOU STILL WITH HIM!?!?!?\n\nyou are better than that. you don't deserve to be treated that way. Get rid of him and find someone worthy of you.
577170
It's good that you want to make sweet gestures like that. \nI've been with my hubby for 19 years & still do soppy things. Last week I left a big chocolate heart on his pillow when I went to work for him to find when he came home from work tired. Send him text messages to say you miss him when you haven't seen him all day. Leave notes around the house. One of my favourite places to leave notes is in the glove box of his car cos he always leaves his radio in there & I know he's sure to find it. Tell him...I tell my hubby every day I love him & he does the same with me.
654919
spent time with him, let him know you enjoy being with him. Go for walks in special places., parks,trails,beach,or your neighborhood. let him know that time spent with him bonding YOU really LOVE, and that it will strengthen your relationship. Tell your partner that it does not take much to make you happy. \ncook at home let him know that you love doing this for him and that the satisfaction of him liking you food is all you need to know that you're doing something right for your relationship.\nclean the house while he's at work and go out and rent a movie you know he'd liked and tell him it's gonna be a block-buster nite. make some popcorn and sodas, ice cream. \nbecome domestic but let him know it's how you always wanted it to be ., ever thing else WILL fall in place. make youself look pretty for him.\n\nGOOD QUESTION> life is about caring, giving and sharing.
1179069
Tell him in a nice way at an appropriate time that things have gotten dull in the bedroom and maybe you two should try to spice things up. If you are still into this guy and want things to get better make him think that you think it is a couple's issue and not just an issue with him not being good anymore. Ask him if you two can experiment together and try new things. If he was good once he is capable of being good again. Maybe he has just gotten comfortable and feels that there's no need to try to impress you anymore, which is wrong if he thinks that way, but he may just be satisfied with the way things are. You need to let him know, without hurting his fragile male ego, that you are not satisfied in the romance department anymore. If you come at him like he is just no good anymore you are going to alienate him and make him feel insecure. Like I said, maybe approach it like you view it as a couple issue instead of an issue of him not satisfying you anymore. You will probably get a better result that way.
637756
listen - dont always talk. be kind. take care of him, do little everyday things for him. kiss him whenever you can - on his forehead, his hand, his foot. hand him a towel when he gets out of the shower. give him space when he needs it. dont make him ask for space. if you get upset, think about what you are saying BEFORE you say it. always be nice, there is not need to be mean. if you fight, fight fair.
729353
Ok first sit him down and have a good long talk about how you feel and how he feels. Then go an a date. Make it as romantic and as kissy kissy go goo as you POSSIBLY can. And then if it goes well keep giving it a try. If not break up. And if you just get bored break up and find someone whos more you.
453660
Stop taking each other for granted.  Say thank you more.  Notice each other more.  Candle-lit dinner.  Weekend away.  Picnic in the park.  Flowers.  Bath together.  \n\nAll this helps things to go well, but you can't make him want you more.