Is being a gay a sickness?
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Please delete that ignorant question that's like saying does blonde hair mean your dumb!!\n\nBlackprincees honey child your ignorance is worse than his!!
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It is not an abnormality, nor is it a disease. It is a normal, naturally occuring state of existance.Nor is it a mental illness.Homosexuality was removed from the DSM in the late '60's.
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Being a caring person doesn't mean you are gay. You are gay if you want to have sex with other guys. If you want to have sex with other guys but also want to have sex with girls you are bi.
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Good for your fathers!!! This should teach some people out there that a child raised by a homosexual couple doesn't have to be a sick person. And that gays aren't sick, either, just because they are gays.\n\nI'm not gay, but I'm close to an adopting family, and I think that is the most beautiful act of love you can perform for a child. If you have a child the "biological" way, that child may have been unwanted, or a miscalculation, or the result of rape. But if you're an adopted child, you know for absolutely sure that you were wanted, looked for, expected and loved from the very beginning. If gays (just as much as straight people) can do that, that shows they're much sensible than many people who keep on nagging them.
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Yes, I have known and had many friends who were gay.  Two of my wife and my best friends in this town are gay.  I am disgusted by their lifestyle and hate what they do, but they are some of the nicest people I know and we laugh all the time with them.
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You say that you "know i'm not gay because i know its very wrong". Who says it is wrong? Someone else who is telling you who your are? The only thing that is wrong is for you to pretend that you are someone that you are not. It could be that you only want to experiment, and that doesn't make you gay. Being gay is a definition of who you are attracted to. If you only have sexual thoughts about people that are the same sex as you, that means you are gay. If you only have sexual thoughts about people that are the opposite sex as you, that means you are straight. If you have sexual thoughts about both, then you are bi. Instead of listening to other people who tell you what is wrong or right, listen to yourself and decide for yourself who you are attracted to. It doesn't matter who you are attracted to, the only thing that matters is that who you are attracted to makes you happy.
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No.  I believe some people are born with gay tendencies, but they still have a choice whether to act on them on not.  Being gay shouldn't be classified with theives and murderers though.  They aren't harming other people.  One can have their own beliefs without using harsh words or bashing.  It is against God to be gay but we are all under construction and have to find out the hard way on everything on this earth.  God said "Judge not, lest you be judged".  A gay person may be living in sin and won't admit it but they still have feelings and the right to be treated with respect just like everyone else.  How else will they open their ears to the truth?
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Of course it is, you cannot stop your mind from the feelings it produces. There is nothing wrong with homosexuality.
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AIDS is no longer a gay disease. Trust westerners to be so incredibly insular in their understanding. More heterosexual people have AIDS on a global scale. It affects everyone and not just 'sexually immoral' people.
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Yes it is gay sex, but that doesn't necessarily mean that you are a homosexual for life. If you're worried, just masturbate (Except for the $100,000 thing. You can use a little of the money for therapy.)
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"everything a gay person does is gay because they are gay themselves" - I love that!! Does it extend to all the mundane day-today stuff too? ;)\n\n"gayness is not a sex act". I'm glad you included that. I get fed up with people saying homosexuality is wrong because gay couples can't procreate. Technically, my DH and I can't have children naturally - does that mean that our love is sinful too? When will people realise that relationships are about love and emotion and not just about sex?
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I believe ppl are born gay, like gay guys have to many female hormones, or their brains are just built differently then straight guys. There arent any cures to homosexuality, he can't supress teh feelings he has towards other men, hes got to work on excepting himself, this is his real cure, all the energy it will take out of him to " cure his homosexuality" is better used for him to go to a therapist and talk about how he feels
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Well biologically, Yes.  If being Gay is genetic, it is a defective Gene because Gays cant reproduce naturally with eachother.  I personally think being gay is a personal choice and not genetic.
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Yes. If you're not sure if someone is gay or not - they're gay. Me, you'd know right away I'm no homo. When you dump him get yourself checked out to make sure he didn't give you some homo disease (like AIDS) and if you're clean give me a call (seems like you're pretty easy and I like that in a chick).
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well by definition society is non-gay. If it wasn't it would be awfully short-lived. I'm not sure what the difference between a gay life and a hetero life is besides what goes on behind closed doors. If that aspect can remain stable, I would say yes, it is possible.
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so if you sa yyou are mentaly fit i put it to you that you are a bigot where gays are concerned\nand that is a mental condition get to a doctor
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I cannot tell a handsome man from one that isn't. I feel rejection to the very idea of me with another man (which does not mean I feel rejection to those men who do have sex with other men, just to the idea of me in that situation). I have never fallen in love with a man or boy. And I am never aroused with men. Plus, I have an education which I'm sure would not make me repress it, if I were gay. So, I guess I am physically unable to feel any homosexual drive, which is a bad thing, since it would double my chances if I weren't so picky, and looking always for women.