why do men cheat on there wifes??
543692
They cheat because we let them. We sometimes let ourselves go instead of keeping the romance alive in the relationship. My ex-husband slept with a 13 yr old when he was 26, right before we got married. I had gotten comfortable, I knew he was mine and I didn't have to worry, not!!!! Always be worried, there is always another woman who will be better and can do more than you're willing to do. So we have to keep up ourselves and make our men see that we are willing and trying to stay the woman they fell in love with.............
761031
To make a long story short. I have been married for 18 years when I found out(not by accident I was snooping) my husband had been cheating on me for 3 years that I no of. Only he and his whore no for sure.In my heart I knew something was wrong I just couldn't prove it until I started looking.When a husband cheats, his wife feels something is wrong she just doesn't want to believe her husband would or could do that to her.Husbands count on that trust they no their wives would never believe that they are capable of sleeping with another woman especially when she gives him everything he wants and needs.That is where we go wrong we don't and couldn't give a man what he really wants and that is someone different to have sex with.In a woman's eyes that makes him a horrible person but to him and his way of thinking it makes him human. their is only two things you can do. You can look the other way and pray it will end soon or leave him.One thing I wouldn't do is talk to him about the calls because all you will get is lies.I wish you all the luck in the world.
397180
the answer is quite simple. men are perverted pigs who know they can't be trusted with one woman. they want to be able 2 have an open relationship so they can do whatever they want with as many chicks as they want and not be introuble for it..hope that answered ur question  :)
261564
Because they know they have lost you and that you ment more than the gal he decided to cheat on you with. He wasnt thinking when he did it. Trust me, My husband did it after 3 years of marriage, he NEVER did it again, He said it was the most stupid thing he had ever though of doing and he really didnt think of the consquences,  we have been married 10 years now.
1117293
THOUGHT OF YOU WANNA CHEAT ON YOUR WIFE ALREADY MAKE ME ILL.. NOTHING FURTHER.. YOU'RE A SCUM IF YOU SCREW HER.. I HAVE NO RESPECT FOR MEN THAT NOT TREASURE THEIR VOW OF MARRIAGE.
731515
"why do men cheat on there wives" correct question is "why do people cheat on their spouses" this is just the way some people can get the feeling of being younger without thinking of the ones at home and being hurt, the words "I'm sorry" may fix the glass on the floor in Pieces but not the feeling of having your partner cheating on you, you know what you need to do, get yourself out of the home and file, you need to see that there are men out there that will treat you as the queen that you are and finding one will be one of the simplest things to do, start off by treating your self as number one and under standing that this was done to you, not your doing at all. get rid of the dog and never look back. i see to many reasons why not to stay in this relationship. open your eyes and get on with your life...
785852
I think you aren't being fair! all men don't cheat. My wife is the one who has cheated on me! And I thought I was being the Ideal husband but I found out wrong. I'm sorry that you think all men are cheaters, but keep in mind if it wasn't for the willing woman out there men wouldn't be able to cheat.
462707
How can you love someone that you know is willing to be unfaithful to his wife?  Most likely he was only using you to fill a void that might not being answered by his wife or he just is a player that got married and you are just another play thing.  Either way bad choice.
455377
Hey now !! Not all Men are that way.. LOL. Sorry to hear your soon to be ex-husband is being a penishead in this case, and the women he's seeing sounds like a real penisleech out to get what you have, don't worry he really screwed up and I think he knows it too. men cheat for one reason because they don't give a rats a*s about them selves and have no Self respect for anyone but the crap they think they can pull on the women they're with, Hey wait a minute now I'm a guy too. LOL ! but I'm older and wiser too and I'm no stud like most of these guys in the state of Oklahoma think they are ! believe me there's women out there  that play these guys for what they have and when they are divorce is final they want nothing at all to do with the guy in the end and they end up crawling back wanting to start over again until another girl comes along thinking she can give him a better deal too.. this is  funny !!! because these guys think women are all over them for looks, LMAO.. Good luck and let the games begin because he's on the looser side, and you have the winning hand !!!
684385
i thik men cheat because the are insecure and have to prove that to themselve sthat they are real men when in all actuallity it would have taken more of a man to stay loyal but i think you can expect him to cheat again but as a male i find that most are probably cheaters unfortunately and i think its very common and accepted among men of men to have multiple women even when commited to one
348219
Let me clarify . . . guys do not always cheat on their partners . . . and by asking this question . . . we know you are a sexist male basher like the heffers from the View.\n\nLook at them and look at you . . . no wonder men cheat on them and you.\n\nResearch has been done about this . . . I know I've answered similar questions . . . . \n\nLooks like everyone is going through another sexist trip . . . I've answered this question before . . . and as usual women ignore the facts . . . . so here it again.\n\nKinsey Report, published more than 50 years ago, approximately 60 per cent of men, compared to 30 per cent of women, were unfaithful to their spouses before the age of 40. \n\nAccording to Maggie Scarf, author of "Intimate Partners," first published in 1987 by Random House, "Most experts do consider the 'educated guess' that at the present time some 50 to 65 percent of husbands and 45 to 55 percent of wives become extramaritally involved by the age of 40 to be a relatively sound and reasonable one." \n\nNote that the above adultry statistics of the prevalence of affairs were made more than a decade ago; so based on changes in society during the intervening years, the current percentage of the population who have had affairs is probably somewhat HIGHER. For instance, the continuing increase of women in the workplace means that the numbers for women having affairs is probably similar to those for men—about 60%.\n\nCosmo recently conducted an online poll in 2004 of 1,000 men and 1,000 women, and 55 percent of guys and a shocking 59 percent of ladies said they have cheated on a partner. \n\nYes . . . guys cheat . . . but so do women . . . do not ignore the facts.  The question really should be . . . why do women cheat more than men . . . because the last information I've found proved . . . and it was a women's magazine poll.  You proved it yourself.
685686
Because men get tired of what they know they "have".  A wife is like an insurance policy that is always there when he cant get any play somewhere else.  As`sad as it is, its the truth.
976975
For the same reasons that women cheat.
1152718
Because he walked in on his wife cheating.
310535
about a zillion to one. Married men never leave their wives. You are allowing him to have his cake and eat it too if you are cheating with him.  Just remember he is getting something from you that his wife is not giving him.  If he would cheat with you on her what makes you think you are so special that he would not do the same to you if in fact he did leave his wife? How would you like to be his wife. Just remember what what comes around goes around. Never date a married man. That is so wrong. They will tell you anything your little heart desires in order to get laid. Trust me I know.  That is wrong on so many levels.
1114359
It goes both ways and it's not just men. Women are just as guilty for doing the same thing. Why do they do it? Only the person who is doing the cheating knows the answer to that. Doesn't make it right but it's hard to answer that question.
704876
some do and some don't , most of the time I feel they do, but I have seen people that haven't cheated on their wives ever again, or else they got real good at sneaking around, I guess in time if you stay with him you will find out if he has or hasn't, its going to take alot of time for you to totally trust him again, Good luck to you