been out twice with a great girl, im consumed with the thought of her, but she seems indifferent what do i do?
550771
I know how you feel,except mine was a guy.When I had finaly told him,he never talked to me again,but grls are different.Just spend more time ith her, ask he4r questions about life and love.See how she feels first.You dont want to rush things,but you don't want her hanging on the edge of her seat waiting for you to tell her.If I were her,I would want you to tell me,and if I didn't feel the same at that time I'ld let you know.If you do tell her,and she shunns you, don't let it get to you.It sounds like you're a very kind and sweet person.You could get any grrl....\n\n\n~~~~Panda Grrl
869329
relax man, if uve acted cool all this time it shouldnt change suddenly over night. just chill and take a couple of deep breaths and just carry on being the cool chilled out guy she fell for =P \n\ngood luck!
622302
Put your hand down below do you feel two balls? Good now use them go up to her and tell her how you feel. Girls like men who are sure of them selves. Good luck. Tell her Listen _____, I have this huge crush on you and I wanted to know if you would just have dinner with me. So we can talk.....If she agrees you got your self on the right track if she says no. then it was never meant to be. It has already been 2 years don't lose your chance.....
787120
just chill. \n\ni know it can be hard. just be your self. dint' do anything you will regret. don't pretend to Simone you are not.have you think how she feel. just like you. so don't worry if she and you really like each other it will came right. \n\njust chill.\nenjoy your day\nBaby girl
715559
You can take some of the pressure and feelings away by giving yourself a break. Realize that no one is the ultimate dream date for everyone , this helps. Good relationships seem to appear most often when your not trying so hard to find them . You'll instinctively know when the right girl comes along just be out in the field where you may encounter them and don't stay home for fear of rejection and feel so bad that you have these feelings they are not so unusual and it seems you are pressuring yourself to have an instant relationship and it just doesn't happen that way. Lighten up and enjoy yourself and try to forget about these feelings and your chances will improve. Be confident in yourself and like I said there is no perfect person desired by all . There will be a girl who will come along when you stop looking and dwelling on it so much. Good luck to you , she's out there you can believe in that.
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Sad to hear this. I know the feeling of giving your all to that one girl you truly love. I believe you that it is far more than sex...it's love and companionship. It's that wonderful feeling that you have when you're with her whether in silence or not. The sad part is that she avoids discussing things to questions you deserve answers to.\n\nAt your age, I bet the feeling must be harder. I don't think no answer can quench your thirst but her honesty to why things can't be the same again.\n\nWhen did things started to change? Look back to what you might have done wrong or probably she is not really serious about spending her life with you.  A lot of times, we got to accept the hard facts that things are beyond our control and we have no choice but to accept and move on. \n\nWhat can we do with the pain but acknowledge it and eventually accept and carry on with our lives. Things might not be the same again but surely one day, you'll fall in love over again when you least expect. \n\nGood luck. This stage is hard but things will change, don't let this destroy your life.
679663
You have to make the move. You wont get anywhere in any aspect in life if you do not take risks. Chances are she still has some feelings for you. Tell her how you feel before its too late...or atleast ask her to hang out or go to coffee or maybe to something you used to do together. You HAVE to talk to her. If you are just trying to attract her do subtle things that remind her of when you were together but either way you have to show/tell her that you are interested again. Follow your heart!
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Hate to break it to you but you are an "after thought" to her....She came over cause she was "bored."  You are too special to be a replacement for whatever she has lost.  She lost you before, heck she walked away. You need to do the same.  I know from life that girls like that DON'T want guys that are always there.  They just use them.  Sorry for the tough answer but I am answering as if I was talking to my son, which I have done and he is now 23.
589283
WOW.  I feel that same way right about a girl.  I never told her though.  Now I regret that and am trying to contact her.  I think about her constantly.  She meant so much to me and I wish she would know that.  She is smart, nice, caring, and so beautiful.  She is my dream girl in reality.  Seriously.  We didn't talk that much (I'm kinda shy) but when we did, they were unforgettable.  I can tell you exactly what she said each conversation.  I like her so much.  I've had girlfriends, but she is totally different.  I really want to go out with her.  I gotta find her.  Well that's my story.  Hope you like it.
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Do not change except to change how you feel about this silly girl. She doesn't seem to respect you much at all from the sounds of it.Learn how to really like who you are!!! Rejection can make people doubt themselves and who they are.that can be natural at first,but you have to let it go.You must like yourself better than anyone,and enjoy being who you are before you can know what woman will be right for you. The one who accepts you as you really are is the one worth the wait and your time. hang in there,and be good to yourself. Do what you love to do,and enjoy being free while it lasts!!! Best wishes to ya'!
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The best thing to do in this case is to just be honest.  If you lead her on you'll just end up hurting more.  Don't be mean about by saying something like "I'd rather wander into rush hour traffic naked than to be with you".  She may get the wrong idea then and it will really hurt both her feelings and definately her self-esteem.  A lot of women I've talked to tell me that they want to feel desirable, so you have to keep that in mind when dealing with her.  Offer to go out on a date or two to see if it works out, but make it clear that it's just a date and that you have not made any formal commitment yet.
370418
just take your time and relax...do what feels natural and don't put so much pressure on yourself, if she feels the same way about you it will be a great night for you both
533019
Maybe she really is interested. Hang in there and see where it goes. You might be surprised. Have a little faith in yourself.
856153
WOW! I think she loves you but knows so much about you and you about her that it's become too difficult to broach the subject of you two being a potential love match. I think you need to ask yourself do I love her in that way? If you do you've got to bite the bullet this weekend and ask her if she has feelings for you other than as a friend? Tell her you want a relationship with a girl and are confused as she seems like a friend most of the time but then when you discuss the subject of other women she doesnt seem able to ddeal with it. DO YOU LIKE HER????? i hope you do and that she feels the same and can finaly get the strength to let you know, some of the best relationships start with 2 people being friends first I think you 2 stand a fair chance of settling down together unless she is just a friend and a possessive one at that. If that is the cse you need to tell her you are interested in having agirlfriend and she needs to allow you to do this if she cant deal with that then you need to meet her a little bit less cos no girlfriend will put up with you having such a female possessive best mate! Good Luck!!
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I think that you should take her out make her feel special then when you are dropping her off you should ask her what her feelling are towards you then you lovingly tell her that your feelings towards her are not the same she should understand tell her that she is a very beatiful girl and that she will soon find the guy that is just right for her she will appreciate that, coz if you keep avoiding her she will never know and then if another guy asks her out she will say no coz she will be too busy waiting for you to admit the feelings that you dont have for her well that is my advice i think it is the best way cool calm and collected
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If she has to think about it then she is in doubt or she just doesn't wanna be with you. If she truly cared about you she would know how she feels. I think you should tell her how you feel and what you want from her and see what she says.., you might be surprised. Good Luck!!
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just slow down man....two weeks, i mean i know how hot things can become but dont lose your head, if you like her take her for her word but keep your eyes open....