Is it ok to feel resenment towards my ex-girlfriend?
534771
Anger is a natural emotion that is embedded in all of us, just don't do anything irrational, the hurt from someone you/me/we love can be like the pain of a thousand stab wounds covered in salt, your hurt will subside with time.\n\nGOOD LUCK !!
176918
Dear girl,\nI am suspecting that you are quite young if you're still not backing up since your Ex told you to. I would recommend, please give it a time. I know how you feel inside. I've been there, and it felt horrible at the time. But, trust me! After a while, maybe 3 weeks, maybe 3 months, but you'll feel much better. You will get over him! And you'll wonder why you were suffering as you are right now! The possible reason for your Ex acting this way is maybe that he have found his true love. And now he doesn't want to ruin it. Probably, his new girlfriend doesn't want you guys hanging out. So, please have some dignity and let him go. Don't be surprised though, if you get a call in few years from your Ex. So, I hope that you understand what I'm trying to say. Good luck!
19905
No, you shouldn't especially if you had strong feelings for her.  I recently broke up with a guy I've been dating for almost 3 months.  He wants to continue the friendship but I told him no, not this time.  I said maybe later when I'm completely over him, and it will all sort of happen by itself if we're meant to be friends.  Good luck.
624591
I really believe that just when you think things cannot get any worse, they get a whole lot better. Two months is a young relationship. Love is a strong word. I'm not undermining your feelings, but if it is true love, it'll be there even after the worst of things. So, if you don't get the same feelings back from her, ask yourself, do you like to feel bad?
277490
I wouldn't judge you for it, but I don't think I could personally do that to my friend, especially not a few weeks after they broke up.  But thats me and my friend, it depends on how your friend feels about it etc.  Don't beat yourself up over it though, perhaps talk to your friend about it.
406229
she still has feelings.. what i did with one was backed right off, stayed clear. if u are in a relationship then try to make that work. dont contact the ex girl, if u pass on the street then say hi, be nice but until she stops treating u like she still is seeing u then steer clear of that iceberg, cause like the titanic that could be looking for a way to sink u\nGod bless
635137
nothing spoils faster than jealousy.  She may feel like she has to compete with you.  Back away for awhile.  Eventually she will come back around and if she doesn't she wasn't your real friend anyway.  And ignore the part with the ex---you have already had him and obviously hes not worth your time.  No worries!!!!!!!!!!!
299537
Don't mean to be cruel to your ex but the boat has sailed, you've obviously moved on so don't give her an excuse to hold you back. Whether she's playing games to save face, because you were the first to move on, or whether she realises what she's missed I'd do the same for both: Tell her kind but firm that you've moved on and she should too. If you let her outburst achieve anything she could use it more often or feel she has a hold on you, so make sure she knows it isn't going to work. There'll be tears but you're letting her get over you
943810
What a silly question you was only with her for 2 weeks!\n\nYou just want sympathey and attention. Stop feeling sorry for yourself nothing majors happend people have had a lot worse happen to them.\n\nGo on then i think you should do it. (you wont though you just want loads of answers with people feeling sorry for you and begging you not to.\n\nWell you wont get that from me.
1131090
im in the same way bro so i know how u feel id lay the cards on the table and lay everything out on how u feel and wat u want if she dont feel the same way bro then i guess it mite b time to move on !!!!!!!! good luck tho bro
1170601
It is totally normal to be feeling like this. They say when you break up with someone that you love it congers up the same emotions as it does when someone dies. You are in mourning for your lost relationship but don't confuse this with love. It takes time for your mind and your heart to come to terms with these situations but it will pass. Talk to you friends about everything you are feeling, even the stupid things, you may feel silly at the time but once you have got all you feelings out you will feel a load has been lifted of your mind. Every time the thought of your ex comes into your mind, change it and put your boyfriend in his place. Don't keep thinking back on things you and your ex used to do, go out and try new things with your boyfriend, these new memories will move the other memories out of your mind and you will feel yourself letting go of the past and moving on to happier times. Trust me, this has happened to me before, i nearly let my new relationship break down because of it but i got past it and am happier than i have ever been. Don't be afraid to let go, you will always have the time with your ex to look back on in the future but don't let it destroy you chance of happiness.
272389
if shes not with you, its not true love...your true love will love you just as much with no hesitation. youll probably feel that way for a long time, but just dont sit a nd mourn for her, because shes probably getting off on the fact that you are miserable over her....find a suitable rebound lay.
88350
just say u still have feelings for her even if u try to hide them by being cool or showing off. and say that you cant believe you everlet a girl like her break up with you (or that you cant beliieve you broke up with a girl like her!) good luck man! im proud of u for trying to get back with her! y cant all men be like u?!!
582473
hi, i was once like you or some thing like you. all i wanted in the world is not to loss my friend that i had before i did the worse thing ask her to be something different then that and the truth was she did not like it. i feel like being a friend was more important and i would help her and i will help her as long as it does not pass the lines of friendship. if you can get over what she has done why not be a friend even if she will never give it all up this is due to the fact that you are a better person if you don't hold hate to that person. but if you feel like she does not like it, you being a friend, then you should back off due to the fact that that's the best move that you can do as a friend. so yeah i do say that its OK to be a friend of your EX and forgive her but also see if it will be good for you and her. if you feel like it is wrong then don't if she feels weird about it then don't otherwise go for it\n\n               kfh king
210513
Well she is already your ex so you have nothing to lose right?\nJust be up-front and honest, tell her how you feel, and maybe try a romantic gesture. \nShe may not feel the same way, but you won't be left wondering what if.
219497
I totally understand what you have been through.  I think she could still be your friend but the question is NOT NOW. You have to move on no matter how hard it is.  You have to re-establish yourself with someone else, and be a whole again...before you can be friend with your ex.  It is very selfish of her to keep 2 men around.  Be strong and let her know that it is for the best. If she still cares about you, this is the least she can do for you.
1005597
Absolutely not! You're never too young to start taking responsibility for your own life and choices or to start treating a girlfriend with the respect she deserves. Continuing to see her while feeling the way you do is disrespecting her. If you are afraid she will make a scene or have a violent reaction, you can send her a letter or e-mail explaining how you feel. I recommend that over a phone call because it will give you a better chance to get your ideas in order before she begins reacting and it will give her a chance to adjust to the idea before she has to see you again. Less chance of a huge, ugly reaction. Good Luck and let us know how it goes.