Ladies, have you ever looked at a male stranger  and had pure lusted for him?
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oh yes,but only in my mind,did I adore and then consume evry inch of his body,my dear,only in my mind
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i have been in pretty much this situation... very attracted to girl who i had become friends with... and possessing a strong desire to do something about it.  i didn't get the sense that she was interested in me in the same way though, so i kept it cool.  found out later that she is actually crazy for me!!!!
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well i don't know, it seems most people feel obsession or lust and mistake it for love. i think its not imagining yourself without that person. not remembering your life before them, and the melting feeling you get when you look into there eyes,,,but this is probably not so cause i haven't found it
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Oooo... that's very mysterious! I think a guy would like having a secret admirer. I say go for it!
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Its weird, but I sorta have this switch in my head that one day I look at the guy I'm with and all of a sudden, he's the most obnoxious, ugly guy I have ever seen in my life!  I think... "how did I do this?!?!"  I don't know what does it, but it happens all at once for me.  I have dated a few people where I fell out of love just as quickly as I fell in love, and I don't know why either happened!  Fortunately, I am in love now, and have no plans to fall out of love unless he does something to make it that way!!  ;)
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I have my perfect man in my head...havent found him yet though.  The man I want is strong, not only physically but mentally, emotionally, and his respect and value for me are strong.  He's black, dresses really good....has a hustlin mentality with a businessy side to him.  Treats me real good but not too clingy.  Knows exacly what he want outta life and always has his money on his mind.....THat's what I want in a man.
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k im not a guy...but this has happened to me too...with 2 guys...and it drove me crazy as well....and i hada choose who was right for me...who loved me back as much as i loved him....and i ended up with the right choice..so now im happy
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It is possible, it happened to me last September when I married the man I looked for all my life.  You can't look for them, you can't be anxious, it happens when it is suppose to.  I thought I loved before till I met my husband, now I know the others were not love.  He is my world, I couldn't picture my life without him, he treats me like the most important person in the world. I hope everyone finds the one of their dreams.
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Fawning can resemble desperation, which is a major turnoff for me. I am intrigued by a man who acts like he doesn't need a woman but yet he is paying extra attention to me. This makes me think he might like me more than just any girl (crazy isn't it!). Keep me guessing, to a certain extent, and my desire level rises.
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Yes, i have.  I began dating a guy that I met through work.  He was a client.  He began calling me on my business cell and we really clicked.  I really began to care about him, but there was something I couldn't quit put my finger on.  So, I knew a PI and I began asking him questions... and then it was on.  I found out this guy was married with four children.  He was also a police officer and had been fired from jobs in the past for sexual harrassment.  Needless to say, I am VERY glad I found all of this out otherwise, who knows the mess I could have been tangled up in.
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Well I am only speaking for myself, but if I see a man that I find attractive, I catch myself staring, no passing glances here.  I love looking at beautiful men...not glancing!!!
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Happened to a friend of mine.  That is why it is so important to get to know someone before judging them.  Some of the handsomest guys are the nastiest people you could know...just as some of the plain ones are the best.  (Same goes for girls but we are talking guys here.  Often those that are very attractive have lousy personalities, are self-centered and think they are "all that" but are usually the worst people you can know.)\n\nGive him a chance...you might find out that, despite the fact you are not drawn to his physical appearance, he is the nicest guy you ever met.  Stranger things have happened...
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I had my car stuck in a ditch. Thia guy in a white Jeep pulled up and got out. He had a white T-shirt and white shorts on. He was a stocky muscular guy with thick shaggy dark blond hair and a thick beard. He took a thick white rope out of his Jeep with a huge silver hook on the end and hooked it to my bumper and pulled my car out of the ditch  ALL WITHOUT SAYING ONE WORD. I thought at the time he was an angel and was looking at him hard and I remember his eyes staring back at me. I wrote down his license plate number since at the time I had a way of finding out the name and address of anyone's license plate. Then he jumped back in the Jeep and was gone. I thought later about checking on that license plate to see who it belonged to and decided that I wouldn't.\nThe whole thing was so odd and especialy the way he didn't SAY anything. I have heard of other people who feel they have met angels and they didn't say anything either.
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i would never change the way i look for a guy
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you are attracted to him
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I sure do, I spent many yers uhappily dating and had lost my job and was desperate and got a job at a taco bell.  I found the man of my dreams there and we have been married for 2 years.  He is absolutely everything I ever liked in a specific guy I dated all wrapped up in one.  The funny thing is that I think he is the sexiest thing on earth and come to find out he never thought he was sexy at all before he met me.  That makes me know that he will never leave me...how could anyelse love him more than me, they couldn't and he knows it.  Best wishes
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Oh yeah! A beautiful redhead, a few years older than me, way out of my league. But I couldn't help making a fool of myself! I probably would have robbed a bank for her if she'd asked me to! Ah, the classic teenage crush on an older person. Very painful, very deep learning experiance!