how can i make a guy who is shy to share his feelings and ask me out do ask me...after he tried 3 times?
534743
Grow up and ask him out yourself!
1187329
hmmmm....after 3 years of you asking him out and he said no..and he stll hasn't asked you out....he is either not interested or too nervous to go out w/ you...try one more time...after that give up...Good Luck!!
227760
I used to be shy, so I know where you are coming from.  You have to take the lead on this one.  You have to ask him out and everything because he won't.  A shy boy will not know what to say to you because he can't think of anything.  Just make him comfortable with you.
30216
So times if you are to shy to let a guy know that you like him, the best thing to do is to let him know with actions.  Treating him just a little bit different than a guy friend.  You know, look directly at him when talking, smile, give him that little extra attention.  He will get the message and most of the time that is a lot better than coming on too strong, good luck!
40989
I agree with everyone here, If you ask him out again you may seem a little desperate! Guys don't like that, and im guessing you dont want to get your feelings hurt again. I say find someone else to spend V-day with, Who knows maybe someone is dying to ask you! Don't go searching for someone though, When its right thell find you!!!
612750
i dont totally understand your question\nbut shy guys generally dont make the first move so if that is what your after then you will probably have to go first and normally if you talk to him a few times he wont be as shy
1105459
Don't try to hard. Next time you see him, pay him a short compliment:\n\n"Hey, cool shirt."\n"Thanks for helping me out the other day."\n\nGuys are shy too. But compliments (short and sincere) will get his attention. If he is interested in you, he'll make the next move.
78372
Saying you are sorry is the first step.  Then why not ask him out to something that he is interested in such as a sporting event or take surfing lessons (if you live at the beach)?  Then be a good sport about the whole deal, buck up, and pay for it.  After all, how many dates has he paid for?  If I were a guy, that would pretty much do it for me, but I'm not and gladly so!  :)
965608
some guys may be naturally shy and are afraid of rejection. try talking to him...sometimes you just need to make the first move.
870238
Hey, I had one of those myself! \n\nI ended up asking him out on a group date to the movies, bad idea, he spent the whole time talking to everyone but me, the only interaction we had is when he passed the popcorn...\n\nIt makes it too hard with those feelings going through you to even talk to the guy as you do go all hot and fuzzy and weak at the knees as they say.\n\nSo dont take those feelings to serously as the guy probly doesnt know you exist! \n\nGet one of your friends to maybe ask him if he likes you just to sus the situation out, but good luck and I hope you do a better job than I did with my crush!
1093660
aww thats nice he wants to take you out. next time he asks you, just simply ask him if it can just be you and him this time. he should just take you and him then!\n\ngood luck :)
363546
Relax, this isn't all that difficult.  He is probably just as nervous as you and trying to figure out the same thing.  When you are hanging out with him next time just get closer to him.   Situate yourself at some point where your two hands will brush against each other and eventually lead that into holding hands.  This is a simple way of letting someone know your interested and yet gives them openings to back out gracefully without anyone getting embarrassed.
119606
1. tell him you like him\n2.gather the guts to ask him out\n3.talk to him
562046
there is nothing wrong with asking a guy out. from what you say you already suspect that due to his shyness he wont make the first move...so what have you got to lose by telling him how you feel and asking him out. you never know, he may just say yes. but you will only find out if you take the first step. good luck.
730873
Shy guys won't make the move. Guys don't pick up on hints either. You could walk up, give him a kiss and he would still ask "What was that for"
559262
It does sound like he is trying to ignore u, don't let it get u down there's a lot more where that came from. As far as the shyness goes, it can be kinda difficult to get around that, I know cuz I was like that(still kinda am). It's all on you if your willing to take the first step and talk to him, it's easier for women cuz most guy's will feel like it's a good ice breaker and if there interested then they'll try to keep up the conversation. My best advice to you would be to is to not worry about what the other person might think about you, cuz some times you gotta swing the bat and if you miss then oh well you'll do better next time.
75831
he could be very shy to tell you that he may have the same feelings towards you,but you might want to ask him,i mean write him a note.ask him if he likes you,because usually a guy will tell you in a note if he does or not.it worked for me.