What do you do when you have lost interest in every single aspect of life?
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I'm so sorry that you feel that way, if it is indeed you that you are speaking of. I went through that when I was younger. I wish that there was something that I could tell you - I wish that I could map out all the things that finally brought me out of it, but it's just not that simple. I'm in another kind of depression now - in grieving for my father, and it's so different from my previous experience with depression in a good way. This time, it's a natural and almost calm kind of depression. The mind is a powerful thing. \n\nA doctor can try to diagnose and treat the mind, but in the end, the workings of the mind are still largely a mystery. \n\nI can tell you that you must remain strong and believe that in time, things will change. I remember thinking that when I was depressed as a teen and being scared, because I didn't know how long it would take. Nevertheless, if you keep trying and you keep looking, you will be brought through safely to the other side of the forest. \n\nIf there's anything in your life that you can change for the better, then that's another thing I advise. If you have a job that is stressing you out, for example, consider if it might be worth it to find another. \n\nKeep up with your doctors, and if you haven't already, try a different medication. Just remember that there's only so much they can do for you. I used to rely so heavily on them to "save" me, but I only found more depression in that and some disappointment, too. If you haven't been to an actual counselor, please consider doing that. I found counseling to be much more effective than my doc and his prescriptions. You may have to really search for a counselor that "fits" you. Don't be afraid to let them know what you want to get out of the counseling - I found that creative things helped me the most. That meant drawing my feelings, writing letters to those who hurt me, and things like that - then I would share those things with my counselor and we would discuss them.\n\nA few things that sound cliche, but do work are exercise, forcing yourself to go out with friends and have fun, treating yourself, any active thing that will give you some kind of fun. It'll be hard to get yourself going at first, but after a little while, you'll find yourself laughing again, even if it's just for that day.\n\nI also agree that you need to identify the source of your pain in life and think about how it's making your mind work. Even a chemical imbalance is accompanied and compacted by environmental factors. Read up on psychology and philosphy. (I think you may do that already, though). Both subjects can give you insight into yourself. \n\nOne thing I realized and held onto was that the only person I can control is myself. I can only do what can be done today, then I must be happy that I've done my best and start all over tomorrow. \n\nIf it is you that you are speaking of, then please don't hesitate to IM me whenever you like.
661942
Its all in your head, and of course, it all depends on you.  Remember when you were a kid and were going on vacation?  I bet you the night before leaving you didn't sleep, and by 6.00 AM you were up and running.  Search inside yourself for that kind of feeling, its still there.  Routine usually makes us bored, so try to be more spontaneous.  Change your route to work, take a walk at sunset, catch a movie in the cinema on Monday night.\nOh, and don't spend too much time on the Internet, because its usually time you spend alone.  Company will do you good.  Think of something you've always wanted (like a trip to Egypt?) and set a goal for doing it.  If you set your mind on something, you will succeed.  Again, remember your feelings when you were a kid, everything was so exciting, the world was an oyster.  Get a grip on that feeling and never loose it again.\nGood luck!
980821
Life is no longer worth living over this issue...it was the most important issue in my life
328642
try to keep busy, find something you're interested in and just try to keep your mind occupied.  It will take time.....there is nothing else you can really do.
602621
nothing, but emptiness
837328
I dunno, I'm in the same position. Went to uni and worked very hard to get where I am, really thought it was what I wanted, but now I'm just BORED. I keep thinking of changing careers to do something that stimulates me more, but I know people who've done it and they haven't ended up feeling any more positive or ended up in a better position after all. Maybe it's true that work is just a boring necessity for most people, and all this crap we're taught about aspiration and personal development is utter rubbish - eeeeeek! I might just sod it off and work part-time, spend more of my life doing things I like and let the job carry the bills........
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You can't look at the entirety of it- or you will make yourslef crazy.   The only thing you can do is look at the things around you- things that you can change and impact.  Make those changes and influence those around you to change as well.  To change our world- we need to start with oursleves. \n\nIt sounds like you may have a bit of depression.  You might want to consider speaking to an MD.  \n\nPeace!
992269
I've struggled with this problem all my life.  Nothing seems to keep my interest.  It is a serious problem.  In fact boredom can lead to use of drugs, alcohol, etc.  I would say to you and I should take my own advice, to stay busy,  Work a couple of jobs, volunteer your time, or find a hobby.  It's easier said than done though.  Believe me, I know.
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It's not that your bored, just boring, get over it.  the same things that excited you five seconds ago still exist, but it is your mind that has changed not whatever! to never, or hardly ever be bored, you got to pursue everything with interest.  If your not mundane, neither will life be. Read a dictionary, if you do, you will have read every book ever written. In that language at least.  If you set yourself up only for adrenaline rushes, your going to soon be disappointed.
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I would second the motion that Mike made. I would also recommend finding new activities and make new friends. That way you can let people know you are available. And you can keep yourself occupied. And keep your spirits up too. Use this broken relationship as a learning experience. Good Luck. LJK
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find something to take youre mind off of it. if youre doing something fun, you forget youre lonely, it works for and i play the guitar now. its a great way to use your time for something worth it. Take up and instrument! Or a hobbie! Or get a PET!
963216
i am now kinda bored of it all , been everywhere done it all, trying to figure out what real love is
238078
go out with some friends. Have fun, don't put yourself in situations where you sit alone and all you think about is the past. \n\nContinue living. Life shouldn't stop. :)
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Try to take a vacation and rest.  I recently took a 3 week vacation and it allowed me to recoup and refocus on life and what was important.\nI have a friend who took a leave of absence and traveled to Asia for a few months.   When he returned, he was a renewed person and actually when into a new field of work.\nBurn out happens and change is good.  Best wishes.
95953
WELL MY ADVICE IS TO TRY AND LOOK FORWARD TO GOOD THINGS (HAPPENINGS) TO TAKE UR MIND OFF THOSE EVENTS AND TRY TO DO SOME FUN STUFF TO HEIGHTEN UR SPIRIT. U'LL BE BACK TO UR OLD SELF BEFORE U KNO IT. JUST TRY NOT TO THINK ABOUT THEM AS MUCH.\n\nHEY THANKS FOR THE ADVICE
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time to stop feeling sorry for yourself...get a hobby, spend time with family and friends, catch up on the reading, balance the check book, do some volunteer work...work on YOU. You can't change your former's feelings.\ntime to move on.
83788
Try a different career or change your hobby. I know the feeling. Don't give up. Good Luck!