how do i make my friend fall in love with me?
542610
u cant make someone, they have to do it on their own free will
1008634
There is no actual way of "making someone like you" either as a friend or something else, if you are interested in someone, you should just really (and this will sound cliche but still) be yourself, just let him know how you are and if he is attracted to how you are it will work out, of course you could start by showing him the aspects of yourself you think he could like the best\n\nthe next thing you could to do is actually build a relationship, even if it is not a romantic one, share things, experiences, moments, so that you get to know more of each other and see how you "work together"\n\nand then the tricky part, tell him how you feel, not necessarily out loud because that might scare him, i mean, avoid "i love you" or "you are the hottest most amazing person i have ever met and i want us to marry and have kids" , you can start by telling him you like him very much and how there could be really "something" between you two and it would be amazing if you could try and see what happens\n\nof course, a little bit of sexiness could help too, just never go out of your way or attempt to be someone you are not, you can show a bra strap, wave your hair, wear a skirt and let him sneak a peek like you didnt want him to, and get angry if its obvious he did, use small accessories he could "borrow against your will", get close enough to him so he can recognize the smell of your hair, etc.
113811
if she doesnt love you there is nothing you can do to make her love you.sry, but thats the way love works.i wish it wasnt but you cant make people love ouy
262995
You have to get to know her first. Know more about her, her likes and dislikes. Become really close with her, and then when your relationship is developing, slowly tell her that you enjoy being around her, talking with her and all, also tell her that she makes you feel good. She will start getting hints that you like her, and then you go ahead and tell her, and use the other guys idea too, flowers and a card. Good Luck With you, and Hope you have a nice relationship.\nSincerely,\nYour Friend...
1059598
One way of doing it without being direct is to start talking about someone you like. Let it be known that you are interested in someone else. If his your true friend his going to continue been your friend. If he just wants you as a gf then he will end up backing away. I have the same realantionship with one of my friend. He is in love with me and i was honest and told him it could never be between us and that i'm in love with someone else. Till this day we continue to be close friends and he has accepted the fact that there isn't a chance between us.\n\nBest of luck.
912659
you might want to start by getting her attention. let her to get to know about you and pick it up from there then slowly build a relationship with her. i can't guarantee you that she'll fall in love with you. but at least you'll have the chance. besides you can't force someone to fall in love with you. good luck to you.
461256
Look: there are two ways: talk to her, see what she feels.\nConsequence: A good friendship might be destroyed\nOr you will lose a friend and gain a soulmate(surely you're in advantage)\nBut it is not healthy for you two to just be best friends, if you say you love her. Trust me I've been there. And maybe she loves you to but she may lack the courage to say it.\nMy opinion: go ahead-stop torturing yourself with this good friendship-it's a fake(nothing good will come of it) tell her, gently and carefull what you feel. It worked for me !\nReally, you have nothing to lose. It is better anyway that she knows what you feel about her ! May God help you in your whish !
669061
you can not force some one to like you in that way. What kind of relationship would it be if you had to force her to like you? Be her friend. I know that you want more, but if she just wants to be friends, then i guess that is a start. Maybe in time she will see that you are a good guy, nice, & funny, & want more. Hang in there.
632587
• Make her feel that she's the most important person in the world. \n• Make her feel attractive, gorgeous, wanted, and sexy. \n• Shower her with attention. \n• Keep talking to her about herself. Forget about yourself. \n• SHOW HER THAT YOU CARE, DEEPLY, INTENSELY, FOR ALWAYS by the way you look at her, talk to her, pursue her, and listen to her. \n• STRIVE TO MAKE HER FEEL GOOD whenever she is in your presence, when talking with you, and when out on a date. This means showing her a good time, telling her jokes and interesting anecdotes, expressing appreciation of her sense of humor, behaving as if everything she utters is a bright gem. \n• MAKE HER DEPENDENT UPON YOU. Make her miss you when you are not around. Teach her to find you more and more essential by being a real friend, an interesting and dependable companion, a reliable antidote to loneliness, a continuous part of her life and thought. \n• MEET HER FAMILY as soon as possible and treat them as if they were royalty. Get her family on your side in persuading her of your charm and desirability.
185638
If she won't take you for your word, set him up for a fall. Make sure she has consented to this prior or you will find yourself without a friend.  They say that love is blind, but it can also be deaf and dumb too. Good luck in this endeavor.
741239
It's always hard when you start having feelings for a friend, you don't want to loose the friendship, but at the same time you want to have more.  Take it day by day.  Invite her to do things on a casual level, dinner, movies, shopping for Christmas gifts.  In time, if she does have more feelings for you, you will know it and it can go from there.  Be careful, if the only thing she wants is friendship, take it because if she is as special as you say, you don't want to loose her.
295801
you can't make someone fall in love with you.  Someone can grow to love you but if he's in love with someone else your best bet is to move on and find your true love.
207950
The best way is to be yourself and not try too hard. \n\nIf it's a specific person who's attention you are trying to get, let him know. But don't make it all about you and how you feel. What is it you like about him? What are his good qualities? Tell him what they are and what you like about him. That will definately get his attention. Then go on to tell him what his good qualities do for you, or how he makes you feel. Boost his ego and make him feel like the man and he'll be yours ;)
506071
feeling come and go it all takes time there know saying when you will lose these feeling but you cant make someone have the same feelings as you and maybe one day you two may became more the only thing you can do is stay friends and see how things go tell your friend that you have these feeling for her and see what she has to say about maybe if you two talk about thing and see what she wants and then you can go from there if she just wants to be friends and she says that you and her will never be then you really have to move on just remember that you do have a friendship and that's better then nothing you wont be in pain forever
1174577
You can't make this person do anything.  And to tell you the truth, you don't want to.  You want them to like you for who you are and not because you were trying to be someone you're not.  Otherwise, you are just cheating yourself out of a great, emotionally balanced relationship.  And you are also cheating them, lying to them about who you are.\n\nIf you want them to like you, just be yourself around them and maybe show them that you are interested through flirting.  If they take the bait, then that is awesome!  If not, just say, "Oh well, their loss," and move on.
425973
You can't make anyone fall "in love" with you.  What you can do however, is to let this person know exactly how you feel, get a response, and go from there.  Good luck hun. :)
135873
Been there way too many times.  There is nothing in a situation like that, that you can do.  You can't make someone be attracted to you.  It hurts but it's a scar you one day hope to learn from, but can't help to repeat.  Does your friend play games with him?  Bet she does and you just want to shake her till she relizes how lucky she is to have someone so special wanting her.