why relationships are breaking now a days?
550198
are you talking about marriage? because people go through lots of relationships that come to an end for one reason or another. My theory on marriage though is this. We live in a very different world then past generations much faster and mobile. My grandparents barely imagined leaving their immediate area much less being able to jump on a plane and be in Europe by the end of the day or talking to someone in Asia from their bedroom computer. My point is this people have far more options today than ever before. A census is taken in the United States every ten years. They ask about jobs and homes and cars. In ten years probably a very large percentage of people drive a different car and probably a large percentage of people have a different job and live in a different home. Are we so suprised then that they live their with someone else. Our whole lives are constantly changing and we are constantly switching to adapt. If we do that with all the material things why do people feel that our relationships would be immune to this?
1019483
Some times a relationship just isn't made for the long haul.  I think it sounds like you two have had a good run but the relationship has reached its end point.  Maybe it is time to end this so that both of you can move forward with your lives.  If you keep going like this eventually you are going to end up hating each other and you are both going to miss out on other opportunities in life.
311548
They don't want to ruin the good relationship they already have. If you break up, then who's to say that you won't be friends anymore. It's all about trust and how well they know each other!
72564
In having been/recently been cheated on.I've learned many way of the tell tale sings.There's one's as to being distant,taking shower's after going out and coming home,not being able to concentrate on relationship issue's as normal,attitude change's,together time isn't important anymore,extra attention/affection,new past times/hobbies that seem to be done at odd times,apperance changes,sudden intrest in telling stories of or about another woman from work or had just met,sexual changes such as tring different things or disintrest or wanting more,changes in behavior,depression,anxious,needing space,arguements about unimportant little things,or when your in need of conformation of why things change they get irritated and say that it's all in your head,relationship lifestyle changes,and all i can say is trust your gut instinct.usually if you are close spiritually,emotionally,intellectually,and know every little thing about each other you can get a wierd feeling when it happens.Sometime's they buy you things when they go out and have no answer to as where they were.They take intrest in buying little things that you like to collect or that they know will distract you from being suspicious of them.Alot of extra reassurance of devotion and wanting to change the way things run in the relationship.
47524
When you realize that the relationship isn't meeting your needs and conclude that it isn't going to any time soon...\n\nMany relationships are "dead" or go nowhere, there is no definitive "line in the sand" that is crossed. The line is really internal, a realization that continuing is pointless.
1105335
In all truthfulness. It takes two to make it or break it. You can't blame the other without looking at yourself as well to see where you have went wrong. sometimes that doesn't happen till the relationship is done and over. At least you can look at it as a learning experience. At least you will be better prepared in a new relationship when that time comes. To know how to handle things. Not talking to each other is the main problem in most cases
1000480
lack of communication, making them feel that they don't understand each other anymore. Many a times people make assumptions about each other as well, and when things doesn't turn out as they had assume, they blame each other.\n\nSome of them are not as tolerant of each other's weaknesses as well. They are not understanding enough, selfishness sets in and decisions made become self centered.\n\nAnd lastly, they didnt appropriately settle a dispute and use divorce as a means to an end. It is like giving a drug abuser a death penalty. sigh...
752804
I've noticed this, too. Becoming emotionally involved in relationships is not cool anymore. It's cool to be detached. Add this to the fact that many people are afraid of being labeled "gay" if they display normal human affection, and you've got yourself a society that prides itself on its uninvolvement.
53045
The people who break up on Valentines day over a gift(or lack there of) are destined to break up anyway....Valentines is just an excuse.
1018202
these days it's harder 4 2 find a good person, good people r out there but not like in the olds days when people wanted 2 get married and b loyal, these days everyone thinks it's cool 2 cheat and not settle down. so da good ones that r out there feel hopeless.
182130
If you are breaking up with them because you are absolutely, positively, 100% sure that there is no way to work things out then...you are exiting a bad situation and that is a good thing.  It's not a fun thing and it hurts like hell but if it's the right thing to do then unfortunately you just have to do it.  Then you just have to pick up the pieces and move forward.  They forgot to give some of us the manuals on Life is not going to be perfect.
992940
realtionships take long to develop, they are built on mutual faith and trust. so u will have to give some time. think 1000 times before breaking one, relationships are like glass....u can mend once it is broken but the crack will always show
162058
I have been in a relationship for almost six years and there is to much pressure on Valentines Day I feel people should treat each other that way everyday not just one day a year.
171455
Well you can't control other people's feelings and to try to do something to break the relationship up is not being a friend to either of them. The only thing you can do is go on with your life and meet other people.
716221
Some folks get to feeling really sorry for themselves and think that the world has ended because they had a disagreement with their partners.  Fact of life is thought that we are going to have arguments with mates, friends etc. throughout our lives.  A lot of people believe that this form of self abuse will prove their love and devotion to the other and that they will accept them back after this.  Majority of time if partner does return to relationship it is because of guilt of some other foolish believe that only they can act as Savior to this person. Live is not meant to go as we want all the time and the sooner people realize this the less of this type of behaviour will be occurring.
433314
Usual this does not just happen at one time of the day so if that is the case then it may be because of one or more of the things you have listed.  I suggest you eliminate them one by one ans see what happens.
541770
because people are different and have different ways of dealing with things and living together makes all of that come out more, on a daily basis. some people have less issues to deal with than others tho, i have noticed. some dont have to work 'so hard', but also some relationships arent meant to be and then there is a lot of work to do if you want to try to keep it going.