Would you marry someone who is fiscally unattractive and wealthy?
539141
Hey, fiscally unattractive means poor.
346489
y would i want to marry u when i dont even no u and dont no what u look like
59798
I wouldn't date either the ugly guy, or the hott guy... It wouldn't matter that the ugly guy was sweet if I wasn't attracted to him, and it wouldn't matter that I was attracted to the hott guy if he was a complete jerk. As for the poor or rich guy, I would DEFINITELY choose the poor guy. Even though it's nice to get gifts and be taken to nice restaurants sometimes, it wouldn't matter if it didn't mean anything. I would much rather be with someone who has no money, but has the heart to cook me dinner at home - or save for a long time to buy me something special... that would make me feel ten thousand times more loved :)
8573
it's fun. & it's nice to know that their life is more screwed up than yours. 'specially 'cause their rich & still have fidelty probs. it's like the money didn't even keep your partner there!
619120
A rich man to me is not someone that is finacially wealthy!  A rich man is someone that can love me for me & we can just be happy together!
1145581
Well I would love to say that looks aren't an issue. In this day and age it is! There is too much importance put on looking like the perfect model or the perfect man. The money issue of it may not be as important. You can be happy with a poor man as long as you love one another whether he was extremely handsome or just so so. This is a kind of catch 22 question. \n\nMy personal feeling is if I met a poor man and we were attracted to one another I would definitely go for it, with him being handsome as a "plus". If I met a man who made a good living and he was a bit conceited or his personality just wasn't what it should be I would definitely not pursue that one, no matter how "cute" he was or kinda cute he was. As they say, money does not always bring you happiness!
310337
poor man i love... money wont buy you the feeling that you get when loving someone and being loved in return... besides he may get rich someday...
773204
I never heard that marring for money would make you happy. i was taught it just as easy to love a rich man as a poor one. I married the man I LOVE. \nPs he is poor but works really hard and is a good man to his soul.
1146668
Sounds like you've got more than your share of medical conditions that make life and finances very tricky. Unfortunately you'll find bad apples here just as anywhere else. I'm assuming you mean the guy who said "marry a rich guy." Considering some of the answers I've seen it's pretty mild. Not to say that it didn't upset you. You need to try to ignore people like that.\n\nI hope you've applied for Medicaid. If you are on Social Security Disability of Supplemental Security Income you should be able to get Medicare (after 2 years on SSD). Also, any hospital that accepts federal funds has to offer Hill-Burton assistance to those who qualify. That could help to reduce your medical bills significantly. I did that years ago when I was a single parent. You might also consider applying for Food Stamps to help you stretch your food dollars. I know applying for these programs can be daunting and humiliating. But they are there for a reason. Think of it this way, you've paid your taxes that have gone to help others in need. Now you are the one in need.\n\nGod bless!
312971
No thank God.  My wife is way out of my league.  She is beautiful, smart, kind, well organized and clean.  Her only fault is that she married me.  I'm the luckiest man in the world.  By all rights she should have never even given me a look.  I honestly can't think of even one thing in which I would come close to being her equal.  If you want my advice you should always try to marry way over your head, like I did.  That way you always have a great role model and something to strive for.
308475
Rich and beautiful but impotent.  I married beautiful, broke and virile and am at the point that security is more important to me.
672375
Find a rich girlfriend.
369755
Hmm. Should I go with the "he's rich" side of my superficial personality, or be repulsed by the "he's fat" side of my superficiality?\n\nYou are very shallow and you will get everything you deserve.
279367
Don't you think that looking for money as opposed to love is a little shallow?  Money doesn't buy happiness, and if your rich woman has any sense, she will do a pre nuptial agreement.
641379
sure, even if you were ugly and poor but a pretty nice guy
1073379
Here is a guy's opinion.  Most guys don't love her, they would only want to be with her because she has the reputation of being easy, she has money and is famous.  If she wasn't rich or famous and didn't put out, then she would be just an ordinary, nice looking person who would have all the same problems dating as the rest of us.
648407
Marry, no.\nBut I'd let her give me head.\n\nIf it's good enough for the mack daddy Bill Clinton, then it's good enough for me.