Would you as a spouse give permission for your spouse to have an affair?
541668
if you feel you need to let your partner have this option then do so as long as the door swings back your way as well....but in doing this you do find that unless you are in a very strong and trusting relationship it just won't work\nYour going about it wrong...what if someone says no to him.......  what then lower than before.s Sex isn't the answer. Allowing others to come into ones life will always create added problems. This i do know..having you tell him he is all that he is should be the best starting point. Then you move on with him .  i think you might be heading in the wrong direction. My sisters husband did the same thing and it took 5 years of a long hard road to get back on track but she walked with him every step of the way... Things are as good as they use to be . Good luck re think things.
429706
depend on your wife does she want to do it.
984483
When you are the leader of the most powerfull nation on this big blue marble, NO!!! You have to set a standard, you have to lead by example, and telling lies to the world about no doing it, then saying you did, tells our kids its ok to lie when it benefits you.\n\nIf he and Hillary werent getting it together, that is their problem, but to have an affair, as a public offical, not good.
709221
no she shouldn't have an affair if he doesn't get the picture then she isn't comming right out and saying it and you telling her to have an affair....you are some friend.
402137
I say no, because I refuse to see it any other way. I believe if a woman is being who she needs to be for her man and vice versa for husband that shouldn't come up or if they're are problems the relationship needs to be open and strong enough for your spouse to come to you w/ any issues. Am I right or wrong?
390338
An affair...? Or do you mean you want a girlfriend?
583965
No I would never do that and I dont even expect anyone wanting his sposuse or wife to do that.This is something very personal and should be decided by the person himself.
911356
only if husband allows it
1162266
In my opinion the two people involved are obviously unhappy with their lives so they need to decide what exactly it is that they want and move on. If you're unhappy in the marriage let it go and be together but if there's still a chance that they can salvage the marriages than they need to walk away from the affair. In any case a decision must be made. It's not fair to anyone involved if things stay the way that they are.
587744
Not under law between two consenting adults. Though it is with a prostitute.\nMOST IMPORTANT THING:\nGOD DOES NOT SANCTION ADULTERY.
729862
NEVER.\nI've been with my husband for 18yrs,and married for 10.\nI have never had an affair either.
855381
only if adultery has been committed\n\nperhaps i am wrong though......
143058
Have you ever heard of, "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." It's called te golden rule.  Would it be all right if your wife was cheating on you because you either were no longer interested or was physically unable to have sexual relations?  Think about the hurt, the lawyer fees (divorce is highly likely if you get caught) and the never ending alimony and child support payments.  Is it worth it?
170547
Adultery is consentual, rape is not. You cannot force someone to commit adultery.
543253
They wanted to spice up their lives. If a married woman have an affair with a single man, it complicate things. The man may do something to break the marriage- what if the woman just need a fling- married men are easier to handle, have more experience can easily understand DISCREET.
189346
I would not do it!!! Wait until you are married!! I did -- I just think it is best!! others will say it is ok, just like sex, drugs and all the other junk they want to do!! BE happy and much blessed in your marriage!! bye
994774
Yes.  But my wife may get very upset if you flirt with me. \n\n :-)