if you some one, She needs miscarry the embbryo,,, she didn't like keep the bayby...thanks for help?
551712
If I understand you, you are saying that someone was carry a baby for another woman, however the women did not want the baby should she miscarry.  Morally no she should not abort the baby, however some miscarriages happen naturally.
890991
Loyal to YOU?  Because you poked her and got her pregnant?  Dude, where do I start.  In my country she would own YOU to the tune of several hundred $ a month child support.  Do you even bother to send money to support your kids?   I would date her, and dude, I am 6'5", you wouldn't want to mess with me.  She should concentrate on her kids, yes, and kick your butt out of hers and her kids' lives.  I hope she reads this.  FIND A DECENT GUY, GIRL.  Ditch this overcontrolling "great" egotistical dingleberry.  And to you, boy.  Get it cut and don't spread more of this misery
604365
Having had an abortion myself, years ago, I hope that your Sister was counseled before she went through with it.  No one counseled me back then so I didn't know what to expect.  Initially I was "fine" and relieved on the way home, but the more I thought about it, the worse I became.  All these years later, it's left an emotional scar that only other women who have had the same procedure done, can and do understand.  I still remember the date the abortion took place, the name of the Doctor, what the room looked like, what my due-date would have been, and how old my child would be right now.  Each holiday after the abortion took on a new feeling and a new meaning within me.   Each holiday would have been my child's "first holiday".  Each day became harder and harder for me.  Still, to this day, I can't look at a pregnant woman - it hurts too much.  Please be there for your Sister and to listen to her.  She may even have suicidal feelings - this is a very common occurrence as well as trying to get pregnant again to "replace her first child".  While she may look the same on the outside, please remember that she's now different on the inside.
76816
I am a mother of three chikdren and my husband just brought home a dog in dec...I can relate...best advice i have for you since i am in her shoes...what is really bothering her...tune into what she is constantly harping at the dog for...and if that don't work...do as mine did use a rolled up newspaper on her to get her attention...it don't feel nice...but i would seriously think about that if she is pregnant...give her room and just keep the dog free and clear of her tim the baby comes if possible :o)
482221
You're disguisting and yes it's wrong! UGH SICK! You're taking away joy from a DYING WOMAN!! Her last few weeks/months aren't going to be as good b/c of you! How selfish are you!
781961
Well it happened to me last night. I told her to get back to the retirement home and stop bothering me. I said that I'd be by to see her on Mothers Day but only if she stopped calling me more then once a year. That woman needs a hobby other then complaining. "The Nurses are stealing my money" "I have Bed Sores" and Blah Blah Blah
1018288
i think her living in the public eye she got caught up in the moment. By the time she realized it was just lust she was already married with baby and oops pregnant again. I think she doesn't want to seem defeated and like she failed and she wants a normal two parent home for her children\nbut.............................\nshe needs to kick that skank to the curb\nfrom my perception since I don't know either one of them\nLOL
964377
It's hard living with someone.  I would just leave her alone and focus on trying to keep your stress down.  How far along are you?  It could just be that you're on an emotional rollercoaster, I was (and am) with all my pregnancies.  I'm around your age and 12 weeks pregnant, so if you want to me to kinda be there throughout it you're more than welcome to email me at kalliea923@yahoo.com  I hope all gets better with the living situation, and just remember that nothing lasts forever.  She may get over it soon.
560654
First off- This girl is using you as a stepping stone. SHe probably WANTED to have a baby with this person, and now, here she is- that plan hasn't made her happy...so she's saying that you- and your family- will make her happy? What about this baby? WHat about what's RIGHT for this child that she's going to drag all over pillar and post everytime "happily ever after" doesn't measure up to her expectations? Perhaps someone should think about the best interest of this child's happily ever after. Stop interfering in this woman/girl's life and offering her solutions that sound selfish and uncaring. She is someone's mother- not just someone's girlfriend anymore. And, for the record, you don't sound so bright yourself, so, before you assume the role of step parent, perhaps you should get an education, as well. Do yourself a favor- and the baby. Get an education, and find a loving family to help raise that baby. Neither one of you sound like good role models. Life is not about a daily monitor on a happy-o-meter. Someone please give this child a better opportunity for a good life. Not a momma who will bounce from one bed to another pending the color of sheets that make her happy...
1073833
The same thing here. My man's mother more than awful. She's one of those "christains" that quotes the bible and tell you that you're going to hell, but she does every evil thing there is to do. She stole from him, forged his income tax return, lied and manipulate every situation and she told me that if I was to concieve a child, she didn't want no parts of it. I'm writing a book about my experiences with her drama. I ignored her. I stopped playing nice with her after she attack him when he was in the ER. I told her exactly what I thought of her and I ignore her. Eventually, he cut her loose. It was his decision. It's been a year now since we last heard from her. Life has been great and less stressful without her.
1052103
Well, how well did her parents get along when they were together?\n\nYep, she's gotta add other people into the mix, and it's NEVER easy, but she's dealing with the same thing a billion people have dealt with before. Is she wimpy? No. She just hasn't found out yet, that she can handle anything life throws her way.\n\nShe's tough enough. She just has to dig deep enough to find herself. I talked a 6 yr.-old through a nasty divorce, in about 5 minutes. She knew what was coming, and how to prepare. A 12 can handle it easy. All she needs to know is that she can handle anything.\n\nYes (don't get me wrong), it's not fair to her, or either of her parents, that they made a questionable choice. But, when she goes up to either (both) of them, and asks, "If the only way to make me, was to get married to him/her,... would you take it back?" They're her parents. The answer is no. There is no one sane on this planet who would undo their child. They made a great decision to have her, and now they've got the good sense to get apart from each other, before they **** it up. \n\nI bet she's a good kid. Look out for her, and keep her that way.
1179607
All of you people are absolutely pathetic. You should all be ashamed of yourself, tormenting this poor woman, calling her a murderer. You want a murderer? Go to your local prison with a cigarette rammed up your ass, and walk around publicly flaunting it - That'll show you what a murderer is.\n\n\n\nShe doesn't have to explain herself to anyone. She asked a question. She wants an answer. She doesn't need all you bible thumpers telling you what she did was wrong or right - The fact is it's done, there isn't anything you can do about it. Get over it.\n\n\nJust answer her damn question.\n\n\n\n\n\nNow, that my rant is over....\n\n\n\nIt could take a life time for you to get over it. This was a child that was growing inside you, and it's no longer there. I would've made the very same decision, however, I don't know if I'd be too upset about it. My friend recently had a miscarriage and she seemed just fine, but to each their own.\n\n\nFind ways of coping with grief. If you want, you could make a small memorial site for your baby. Come up with a name you like,  and build a small shrine in honor. Place the name somewhere, and if it helps, you could talk to your baby throughout the day, or when something happens you need to get off your chest. There are numerous ways to cope, and I hope you find something that allows you to grieve properly.\n\n\n\nGood luck.
606587
Well since that happened to me a yr ago, I suggest that u tell him that it's over and that u want him to be part of the baby's life. In my situation her and me have an understanding where I get to have him for 2 weeks out of the month and so does she. She just came out and told me, I wasn't so happy about it but I got use to it and realized that she really wanted it to be over. Anyways if U need some more advice on this e-mail at elguapo_v12@yahoo.com Well good luck and remember just sit down with him and tell him what u really feel...
1083431
Don't feel unworthy! You're not!!!! Your miscarriage wasn't your fault and there was probably a very good reason why it happened that was beyond your control. Nature will always do the best thing for you and your baby! Don't blame yourself for something you could never control, even if you knewit was going to happen. As for your partner's ex, she can't stop him from seeing his child and the courts will put that right. More importantly, she brioke into your house and assaulted you! I hope you had her arrested! You are the priority here and you need to deal with the loss of your baby, either with your partner or a professional councellor. Don't leave it go until it becomes a real problem for you!!! Good luck with it all!!
998870
I think she is going through alot right now. Not only did she just have a kid, she is prego again, by a moron nonetheless. She made a bad decision by marrying him, but she is sticking to it. Shows strength. But on the other hand, is she really that dumb? Driving around with your newborn on your lap in a convertible is just senseless. She is either just that dumb, or there is something not right in her head.
651405
This sounds to me like my situation a few years ago, phantom pregnancies, if at all posible ignore this person's remarks lies and rot she is a very unhappy person and trying to drag up b/s for you to get upset and angry about ignore it [it will not go away]but still ignore it or speak to her as you are speaking to a child and tell her to grow up
783639
GET HER TO THE EMERGANCY ROOM NOW!!!!  Even if she doesn't want to go, pick her up and drag her there if you have to.  The Stent could have moved, slipped or any number of other problems.  SOB is nothing to fool around with.