Why do men think they always have to be in control of every situation?
537000
because we're men and dont really have the full control of our own minds at the best of times, its childish I know but hey, like mny grandfather use to say "women grow up, men just get older"
595676
Despite my best efforts.\n\nIt's a weird thing about efforts to control, in trying to control everything, we end up out of control.\n\nThe ultimate state of control is being able to give up control, if you will.
1103475
personally think that most men are screwed up and dont ever know what the heck they want themselves !Its hard for them to think and decide   LOL
151488
yes, because vigilance balances man's tendency to abuse not only his liberties but others as well. Vigilance is all that keeps the world from utter despotism.
341671
Because the man wants to keep you down !\n\n...not really, it's because they want to create a "well rounded person"...which appears to take some time.
1134362
It's a primal urge to dominate and conquer.  Men want to conquer all women.
267232
I asked my boyfriend this question and he said that maybe some men like to control their woman and if she is independent then he can't control her. I say stay the way you are and you will one day find who you are looking for. I did.
967211
You are absolutely RIGHT!!!\n\nHowever, if we want a real change, we are the ones who have to take the first step.  Men behave the way they do because we let them.
665439
With me and my fiance it takes turns. I could potentially have all the control because he is so easy going but I don't like to do that so I always make sure we both get our say and always listen to his opinions and make sure we are both happy. it is all about comprimise at the end of the day.
298176
Most guys tend to think in terms of logic and act on instinct. Men are problem solvers by nature.
495528
Your question should have been thought through before you posted.  EVERY men is not correct.  EVERY man is.  Plus when you put EVERY to a question, there is no argument left.  I think MOST men have weaknesses.  One probably is money but not necessarily.  I don't think millionaires or billionaires need to worry about it.  I do think however, that every man does have a weakness for anything that will satisfy his soul.  I think most men will answer that women are their weakness.  But then again you have gays, so that leaves out EVERY again.  Each man has his own strengths and weaknesses and is complimented by the strengths and weaknesses of other men.  That is why we have some men that can lead and some that can only follow.  I thought I was a leader but my weakness was my own thoughts as to was I.  You posed a very good question that should make EVERY man think about his own abilities.
697623
lots of theories on this, including the feminist idea that men feel the need to control women's bodies because: A) they have for centuries and B) they feel insecure when they dont have someone to control.
132906
because men are like animals cant seem to control themselves..... even if you dress a tree in a red mini skirt a man would make a pass on the tree............there is a chemical imbalance in their brain that is also in animals
907127
the trick is to make them think they have control---you never really give it to them!!!!!\nif a man is unfaithful and wants control-good sign--red flag he is or will be an abuser---run for the hills now!!!
1097896
If I had a woman that did things like that, I know that it would take a great amount of pressure off from me in getting ready.  Now a man should be capable of getting his things together for trips, but if he has a woman that just automatically does this for him, I think she would need to be appreciated deeply by her man.  I think that a lot of men would not know how to react to a woman that shows that kind of attentiveness.  that is why they maybe tend toward a woman that acts bitchy?  That is what some men have seen and are most familiar with.
604642
men r all the same dnt worry about it ..
289152
Well, maybe all U got 2 do is to stay quiet 4 a while.  See, when It comes about women, men always say: "We prefer someone who gives the first step..." but when a girl gives the first step and they like that, they would like this girl to wait a little bit, they don't like the rush, when someone is so persistant they got panic.\nAlmost all men think that we're gonna manipulate the whole situation if we always take control of them.\nJust wait a little bit, no need to push him to do things.\nIf U already gave him a few signs, just wait until he gives U his.