Why do some people always have to re-establish themselves?
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Life has a strange way of just happening; with or without our permission.  Circumstance sometimes dictate change, and change may not always mean a sign of instability, in fact sometimes its the exact opposite.  We all have to constantly go back to the drawing board when it comes to life; in other words--let life happen, accept what we can't change, and hopefully be able to smoothly transition into whatever new challenges come our way........
189945
We should all keep our own strenghts, thats what makes us individuals. Look at it this way: if you had a very attractive friend you would't ask to borrow her face for a day, so why would she ask to borrow your brain?
926489
Some people bring joy to us almost on a daily basis. Some people suck the energy out of you... The reason its hard to let go is that you know it will never be the same again. We get comfortable with people we can trust and count on.... It goes with my theory of people come into your life for a reason and always at a time of need....But the only thing that stays the same is change...
626368
because you lose some of your social skills when you have been with someone for a while. maybe you have gotten older and are no longer in your late teens or early 20's, when you still had a lot of social things to fill your time?\nemployment plays a big part too and when you have a job, it is harder to muster strength to even go out and meet someone.
50249
it's hard because you have to leave all the people and places you know behind which is like leaving memories behind that maybe once and a while you'll remember but on the upside you'll have a chance to meet new people and see new places and start your mind fresh with new memories but you have to forget the old memories, people and places to start over with the new.
237480
I would think that under normal circumstances people are of good nature and temperment, but just like in a dozen of eggs one or two some how always manged to crack under pressure.  The egotistical manifistation of supremecy is an ongoing process and those who are underfoot...usually are the first to get stepped on...It's life baby...get used to it..
1018178
Coz you are lonely and you need to change your identity first.
1127555
sometimes..most the time the people who want it to be known that they are strong are the people who arent really
940021
I'm sure they do it for different personal reasons, some reasons may be "to fit in", they think it might be easier, they are having personal conflicts with their family and its a way to rebel. Some may go back to their families beliefs and heritage later - I don't know just my thoughts (dime a dozen)
306701
cuz we don't trust ourselves as much as others depend on us
562718
beacsue people need to believe in somthing or they begin to fall apart emotionally. and somtime i think that after their parents introduce them to a belief they learn it and like it and it's somthing that is constant. somthingg they can hold on to.
716221
Some folks get to feeling really sorry for themselves and think that the world has ended because they had a disagreement with their partners.  Fact of life is thought that we are going to have arguments with mates, friends etc. throughout our lives.  A lot of people believe that this form of self abuse will prove their love and devotion to the other and that they will accept them back after this.  Majority of time if partner does return to relationship it is because of guilt of some other foolish believe that only they can act as Savior to this person. Live is not meant to go as we want all the time and the sooner people realize this the less of this type of behaviour will be occurring.
722184
Because people voluntarily segregate themselves.
42605
Because they lack an identity of their own.  They don't know who they are, so they try to fit in with someone that they aren't.  They think by acting like a different group of people, that different group will accept that as "one of their own" instead of accepting them as who they are when they aren't acting.
476512
Too many times if of the one party's move to be with other it seems to fail. If not from the area this one of the stresses not being with your family. Trying to fit in the new area finding that job,  find friends, and other social actives it is hard all causing great problems in a relationship.
285954
Insecurity is a good guess. Many of those that try to make themselves seem better than others have real issues with themselves. They can not ever believe someone can do something better than them, make more money, etc. What they do is right and what everyone else does is wrong. Unfortunately I  know many many people like that. I have learned to tune them out of my life as much as possible and when I can't I do my best to keep my mouth shut. It really is a shame because I know some that are worse than those they are knocking and it makes me so ill at heart to see a loved one get hurt that way
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some people don't realize what they have in front of them.they soon realize it once they are long gone and need someone.