how to make a man head over heals with me?
542553
you can't force anyone to love you, you have to let that happen. You do have to go through life being yourself, and just allow the "head over heels" to happen. now what would help is actually speaking tto a guy to let him know you're interested. other than that let the rest happen.
527668
Make him do you first and tell him then your all his. It won't take him long anyway to get his toes curled.
471111
Start tryin' to get closer 2 him.  Once yer able 2 lean yer head on his shoulder ask, " do you luv me." i know its not that easy but try
262785
you know your body better than anyone.  Teach him how to please you and then you won't have to be upset afterwards..They can be taught how do you think they know as much as they do before they get to you.
443788
get him some coucilling, it should help
889799
Just stand by him the whole time and keep reminding him that it's ok and you accept him for who he is and that some scar on his neck shouldn't affect your relationship
531410
If he's right he'll understand.  I'm a 22 year old christian bloke and you may as well write a big V on my forehead.  Be yourself, don't let anyone change that, and be honest, if he's worth it he'll be fine with that.
341663
Hmmm...a toughie.  May I assume you've told your current b/f about your issues?  In which case, I would strongly recommend the "no hands" rule (i.e., don't touch your head, hair, etc without your express consent!)  \n\nOtherwise, my suggestion is this....\n\nFirst just do a little kissing in the area & maybe a little gentle work around the head.  If at first you're feeling uncomfortable, go for a hand-job with some good lube (KY's warming body oils work GREAT...but they're not for sex-use, so be careful).  Work up to it.  \n\nThere's nothing to say either is good or bad - I know a lot of guys would prefer either oral or a hand job - as long as they're getting pleasure out of it and you're feeling good doing it, that's all that counts!
622760
TELL HIM NOT TO PANIC.ASSURE HIM THAT TODAY IT CAN BE SEXY TO BE BALD! MEN WITH SHAVED HEADS LOOK A LITTLE EDGIER- IT'S A TURN ON. LOOK AT MICHAEL JORDAN, BRUCE WILLIS, ED HARRIS, PATRICK STEWART AND SEAN CONNERY. THEIR ALL SYMBOLS OF VIRILITY. IT'S IMPORTANT FOR HIM TO UNDERSTAND HIS HAIR LOSS DOESN'T DEFINE WHO HE IS AS A PERSON. REMIND HIM OF HIS GREAT ATTRIBUTES. LET HIM KNOW THAT YOU WILL ALWAYS LOVE AND EMBRACE HIM, HAIR OR NO HAIR. AND MOST IMPORTANTLY TELL HIM THAT YOU WILL ALWAYS SEE HIM WITH THE EYES THAT MADE YOU FALL IN LOVE WITH HIM.
944223
Ask him.  Alcohol usually helps.
458819
hand on knee...close to hi p*nis...kiss his neck, then his lips, straddle him like your gonna give him a lap dance...give him a little grind and say " ya thirsty? I'm thirsty" get up to get something to drink....and see what happens when he comes back.
116412
be yourself look natural...smile all the time..look into his eyes...LET HIM come to u...let him think that u need protection and he'll want to protect u...and u'll feel good...after that it depends on both of u how u get on...
1059929
Get's better in time. Just do yourself a favor if you want it over. Don't contact the guy you need to heal so does he.
678503
You gotta get his attention!\n\nDudes are dumb.  I am one, I know.  We do not pick up on hints, feelings, etc. as good as you would think or as good as we should.  Sometimes you can even talk to a dude about feelings and he will not grasp the level of pain it is causing you.  \n\nGet him in a place where he isn't concerned about work, the kids, household work, etc.  Make sure you are both in a good mood and not on the defensive...then tell him, and this is important, \n\nFirst:  How much you love him, want him, need him, want to spend the rest of your life with him.  (this is all good chit, but it will catch his attention)\n\nSecond:  Tell him what a great father he is, how proud you are of how hard he works.  Tell him you understand his stress level, etc. \n\n3rd:  Tell him that you cannot live without the kissing, hand holding, him holding your head at night, playing with your hair, whatever it is that he used to do and he really likes.  \n\nYou will want to keep the mood light so you might throw in that some humor like that you may just be a silly girl or that you are needy and what not, but then tell him that those things mean more to you than he will ever know, (because that is the truth, men are dumb, remember). \n\nNo matter what, this is going to hurt him.  He will hurt because: he will beat himself up for not being perfect, he will be upset that you didn't tell him earlier; he will be upset because he thought he was doing anything and everything to be the perfect husband and father; he will also be upset because no one wants to be told they are doing a bad job, especially at the job they care about the most.  Because he is hurt, he may become a bit defensive and point out all the great things he does.  This is normal.  You should probably agree with him, but then remind him that those things make him a great man and father, but these little things are what brings the sparkle to your eyes.  \n\nI think it is very important that this conversation happens in the middle of a date type situation and followed up with an evening of affection.\n\nAfter you have the talk, you need to set aside a certain amount of time a night for you two to spend alone.  Maybe it isn't every night, (I dont know the work situation), but it needs to happen. Even if it is just 20 minutes of holding your head while you watch the news, or maybe you rub his back, whatever it is, but that will set a routine of affection.  If he starts to slip, call him on it.  If he continues to slip, write him an email with your feelings without attacking him.  If he still doesn't get it, get back with me!
563793
ask him for a hug or can you hold his hands...or maybe talk to him about it then maybe he'll straighten up i guess
637756
listen - dont always talk. be kind. take care of him, do little everyday things for him. kiss him whenever you can - on his forehead, his hand, his foot. hand him a towel when he gets out of the shower. give him space when he needs it. dont make him ask for space. if you get upset, think about what you are saying BEFORE you say it. always be nice, there is not need to be mean. if you fight, fight fair.
556185
Im sure you have been hurt once or twice in your live and as you know it takes time to get over that feeling.Just give him time but dont give up on him,shower him with attention,kindness,and love but dont smother him.Give him sometime to heal and breath but let him know in as many ways as you can that you are there for him and that you will love him,must of all is time heals all wounds.