Do u agree with love marriage or arranged?any 2 advantages..?
542977
every relationship has to have three Cs.commitment,communication and compromise.\neither its love marriage or arrange marriage,that is immaterial.but for the success of marriage these three Cs are indispensable.
574431
love is bonding two people.dnt require much time to under stand.faith & resolution is what required.Gandhi from india fought for african people,likewise there is no difference wherever you live.
198250
BOTH!   HOW?\nwhy not marry someone who won't mind u following ur dream?\nor marry someone with the same ambition to help!\nCongratulations!
490975
Yes, marriage is just a bit of paper.  And it costs alot of money to get married these days - some couples simply cant afford it but that doesnt mean they love each other any less than a married couple.\n\nYou can do all the same things as married people, just without paying a fortune to be a Mrs rather than a Miss
17800
You shouldn't really look at it from its advantages or disadvantages. Advantages are plenty, but so are the disadvantages. I think you should really ask yourself if you REALLY WANT TO GET MARRIED or not.
995885
Arranged marriages, offer more protection, security to the women. As the parents decides the family. Parents make use of maturity and wise decision while choosing suitable spouses for their children. The mature decision of parents sometimes helps to make the right choice. But it doesn't mean that arranged marriages are ideal marriages. Even in an arranged marriage there is a different sort of social pressure. Social evils like dowry, caste system, matching of horoscopes and community issues are taken at such extreme levels that people don't support arranged marriages. So whether it is love or arranged ultimately it is up to the individual to decide, which one to go for. Love or arranged both is based on empathy, responsibility, commitment, love and concern
458129
I have to say marry whom you love because if you don't love the person you marry what says you will end up loving them in the end
727164
huh?...well what the hell I'll take a stab at it anyway...do you love someone already? then marry them...if not and you are not likely to meet anyone for whatever reason and you are getting older...go for the arranged marriage...never know you might love him after a while...it could happen..
740869
I have never supported the idea of arranged marriages for the simple reason whose life is it to live? Part of being human is to make our own decisions and take the good or bad results of these. Your parents are living their lives, maybe they should let you live yours and forget about the cultural stuff. If you live in this society, you have an obligation to live as we do.
866036
whatever comes natural. Do what you "both" agree on. If this is difficult --dont get married--
875936
Love changes as a relationship matures. We can't be in puppy love forever. Infact its probably a good idea to get out of that faze of the love before the marriage even begins so you know your marrying the person not the concept of that person. That being said, Marriage is a social contract, love is really just a bonus if your lucky.
902784
many arranged marriage takes place without love - some grow to into a very deep and real love which will outlast the first honeymoon passion and some don't grow at all and crash.  The first throws of passion are short lived and in its place comes a very deep and real love with a deeper passion that should last many years. The thing with arranged marriages is that they do have a potential to last longer because when you fight you are more willing to keep at it and not let any little thing get to you because you went into the marriage eyes open - there is nothing like love though so decide carefully because although some arranged marriages do grow into a great love and respect some become extremely lonely
899294
love marriage nothing beats love
716691
i totally think love marriage is the right thing! fight for what you think is right!!
4731
A love marriage for sure.\nBut in some cultures an arranged marriage could be a good idea.
82365
Well, i am not particularly a fan of it, but i dont necessarily think itsa bad thing either. The idea of it is marry first, fall in love later.  Iprefer to find my own mate, because if the marriage fails, then it was my fault and atleast i can say, i did love him and for all the went wrong, look at what went right.  When the marriage is aranged and fails, then the tendency to harbor blame and anger exists.  But i think in a way, it still exists all over the world, even in USA.  Being set up  on blind dates, meeting ppl through friends...etc are all formsof arrangements, just not so final.
794124
Marraige is what you make of it. Committment from both people is required to make it work. You should be allowed to do anything you want (within reason) once you get married.  Try not to have children until after you are 28, or they will be born ugly.