can a couple get back togrther after they have been devorced for10yrs.?
541131
ABSOLUTELY!!!! It may even make the relationship even better. Sometimes it takes time for people to mature enough to handle a relationship. After 10 years you may be more mature, and better able to communicate.
563751
EVERY SITUATION IS DIFFERENT.  It took me FIVE count them 5 years to get my divorce. If you know for a fact that the marriage is over (by meeting the ex or a child if they have one) AND you know the one you are seeing is living apart from their spouse then it is fine.  INVESTIGATE the person and make sure that they are telling you the truth.
302546
Yes he has to back. Once he comes you have 90 days to get married. Then he goes back. Once you apply it should take you about 2 yrs to get him here.
760556
If they arent a citizen of the US, from what I gather they can come back.  But if you owe and are a citizen, you cant leave the country.  They will make you pay it all the way up to current before releasing your drivers license, passports and such.\n\nBest advice would be for him to start to pay on it, to make an effort to take care of his kids.
532445
I know that it will be hard to start over again after spending six years with a person who you think is a soulmate, and having things backfire on you. Regardless of how old a person is when this happens, it hurts deeply.I don't know if you are religious at all, but I believe that the Lord will make all things turn out ok, regardless of how dark you view your  situation to be. I live in New Orleans, and during Hurricane Katrina, when I evacuated to a shelter, I see people on the verge of cracking up, because they have no faith, nothing to fall back on. As concerned as I was about what lies ahead, because of my faith in God, I was at peace with the situation and can continue to function normally.There is light at the end of the tunnel for you, if you would just be patient and have a little faith. Time heals all wounds.You will be able to love again, and you will find that special someone who can make you life complete. My prayers and best wishes are with you.
567630
Been right where you are and I certainly feel your pain.  Truth is I did take him back only to be broken yet again. We have been apart for three years now and my life is so much better while he is still up to his same tricks of abusing the next one. Alcoholic behavior and tendencies will not change.  10 months is certainly not long enough to heal old wounds he has.  There is a better life...I found one.  You and your children deserve to be treated with love and respect, not something to be knocked around or controlled in any manor.  I wish you all the best.
1100338
you need to work together and work up to the "point of no return" and back off.  work up again until you both know the threshold and dont cross the line until you are both ready.
926288
That's a hard one!  I don't think either that they should go back either.  Children need a stable environment.  It's not good on them to be transfered around.  Even back to parents that don't care about them anyways.  Im so sorry that you have to go through this.  If I were you,  I would fight this as hard as you can.  Good Luck!
39362
I've done that in the past 3 years.  You need to find yourself again.  Me and my ex-wife split and I had a difficult time getting on my feet.  But I eventuly did and everything is great now.  I'm going back to college and trying to make my life better.  Maybe a little to prove I can.  It may take time but don't give up and always remember you are a great person and can do great things.
594557
Yes, your marriage can be revitalized and your trust restored!  You will need to work together to rebuild it, but it can definitely become stronger and deeper if you both choose to make it so. It is a process, though, not an event. I am a Mars Venus relationship coach and if you'd like to learn how to work through this challenge, feel free to email me at marsvenuscoach@yahoo.com.
615241
Can do - has for my parents, they spent 10 weeks together a year and have been married for 39 years. But it depends on the people, distance, amount of contact etc etc so only you can answer if it will work for you!
583107
Maybe turn back the clock and remember what brought you both together and go back there and re-kindle the flame.*\n\nAfter five years there love there that will never go away.
637179
Been there done that...whats up with the 23rd year...Its alot of years, you'll never forget the past, my marriage was great the first 20 years, but I could see the dis-interest building as the months after pasted by...and she too felt she was no longer in love with me, however I later found out her interests were directed toward another...suggestions..Seek marriage council advice, put forth a 100% effort to resolve such conflict, and if it doesn't turn out happily ever after, if there ever was an ideal time to be single , its with a good job, no mortgage and your child a grown adult...very simular to my situation...its was 2 yrs separated and 3 years since divorce and those conditions were blessings in disguise.
38809
Please elaborate on the question.  You can't "win" someone back as if they were a prize.  If you two can talk out your differences and find some common ground to build on fine, go for it, and don't be afraid to seek help from a professional.  If you can't, it's over and you'll have to move on.\n\nOk, part 2 since now I have more info.  There are couples that split because their lives end up going in different directions and then later on they get back together.  There are also couples that stay married but live in seperate houses within a few hundred miles of each other and see each other on weekends.  I don't know why, but that's the way I've seen some couples do it.  If there really is a bond between you and your wife such as friendship and romance, I'd ask her out on a date to talk over coffee and see if you two can't find some common ground to stand on.  Just a suggestion.
446259
Once your married for a period of time it can't be anulled so I'm not sure what you're asking or if you simply mistated your question.  Also certain actions preclude an anullment regardless of length of time.
611904
The law is the only way to handle these matters.*\n\nThe process through the courts may be slow but if you keep trying time will come around and the kids know you love them because you never give up trying to get them back.
592450
take it from personal experience dont go back. cause i was cheated on by my ex and took him back cause he told me he loved me and had changed three weeks later he was back to his old ways. i tried to make the relationship work cause i was pregnant with his kid he didnt want nothing to do with me or the unborn child, i put up with it for awhile trying to talk to him about it but he didnt listen so i left him. and he and his mother kept ringin me up telling me hed changed i didnt believe him, his mother even told me to come and live with him so she could teach him how to treat me, he was 21 if he didnt no then he will never no. cause as far as his father was concerned i was a slut and he treated his mother with no respect so why was he going to change. i no of someone who went back to her ex three times and he hadnt changed. the only reason i took him back the first time was i was pregnant with his kid.