My girlfriend invites her other girlfriend for a visit.?
552037
You should consider yourself a lucky man. I think your girlfriend is bi sexual and she wanted to fulfill her fantasy as well as your's I'm sure. Have fun and don't think too much about it. Make sure you don't flirt or do anything with her friend when she's not there. She trusts you this is why she did this. I know from experience. Live a little.
918361
Sounds like you are getting some of your own medicine there buddy.  Why was it ok for you to be with both of them while you made up your mind, but not ok for her to be with both of you while she makes up her mind?  You say I alot in that paragraph as though you have given up something you wanted, and the decision is soley yours if you spend your life with Jen.  It's not.  It's up to Jen too and since you started this, you kind of have to wait for her to figure it out the way you did.\nI'm sorry you are hurting, but this is what you wanted, time to decide if she was the one.  Now give her the same courtesy.
1130830
bring in your wife or girlfriend
1072116
Girl let it go, that is your decision and your house with your boyfriend. If you did not want to see extra company you have every right to express it and make her pick the children back up. \n\nMy suggestion: Make it a house rule that if the children want spend the night guest over on the weekend they can spend that weekend with there mother. Why because your request is not outrageous, this will keep sh*t down in the future. You may have to revise stuff and add more rules but hey that is your dwelling.
130057
My most dificult time is right now upon me ... since I don't know what to do ...\nI've been with my girlfried for a while but things don't go exactely as I think they should (and for some time I thought she and I shared the same conceptions about life and love). She spends more and more time with a friend of hers (also a girl) and she's beginning to borrow this other girl's habits and views, views which stain my (which I thought was our) ideal of love, turning into some daily cheap thing. Realizing this kinda hurts but I'm not sure if I am entitled to tell her what to do or just let her go on the path she seems to be choosing.
1008495
It's totally understandable.. honestly, i think it's kinda cute that she feels jealous about it.. =) just be even moooore sweet with your gf, and don't stop telling her that your just acting, that that has absolutely nothing to do with feelings or attraction towards the other girl, that its just your job to make it look real.. that she is the ONLY one! =)
1160219
Then, simply why did you even invite her? Be honest with her....it will hurt her feelings... \nI know you were being kind to invite her, but remember sometimes people count on what you say. \nSee if you have another friend she can stay with for a few days, perhaps she can stay with you for a few days and with another friend for a few more..\nGood luck to you.
788247
she wants you back cuz ;the other guy is not meeting her needs!!!  she is lonely thats why she is with him, she is hoping you will call so the two of you will reconcile.
316159
See if they are both up for a threesome
461570
You are not wrong, you need to confront her about this. It's inappropriate for her to be spending all her time with another man who has feelings for her.
924495
Ask your mate if he knows whether she's involved with someone.  If not, send her some flowers with the following note:\n\n"Visiting my friend is infinitely more interesting with you as his flatmate." or something like that.  Flirty, but not over the top.  Then ask your friend to "observe" what her reaction was and report back to you.
472094
Tell her someone else is coming to town who is planning to stay with you.
937664
LET GO.  She is never going to leave him.  Why leave if she can have you both?  There's obviously something in you that she is missing from the other man (and vice versa) which is why she keeps you both around.  Aside from this, if she does leave him, how can you ever trust that she won't cheat on you when she gets "bored" with you?  I think you deserve much more than this.  Get out now and find a quality woman with more respect for herself (and for you) than to sleep with 2 men and deceive them both.  If you thought more of yourself, you would certainly not put up with this for another day.  You should demand more than to be "the number 2 choice" to anyone.
1023849
so long as she puts out you should be happy to share, that way you do not have to pay for everything. let the other guy take her to concerts etc.
943747
i think that is so unfair of your girlfriends mate to presume that..are you gay?i think you need to have a good chat with them both....
756001
I think you really need to have a heart-to-heart talk with your "significant other" on this issue. This may be the time to sort things out before it is too late. She is used to visiting any time she likes and as you know, old habits die hard. You have to be patient and accommodating.
975369
Don't play dumb games.  Just take her out to dinner.  It's not like you asked her to marry you.  It's just a meal being shared by two friends.