what should i do when your in love with someone but not sure they love you?
554047
I feel the same... I'll be checking the answers.
438143
If you're not sure, you probably don't. I mean, you might like his company and have a comfort level with him that you could confuse with love. But when you're in love with someone, you know. It's not something you have to sit around and think about.\nSo, basically, no one can tell if you love your boyfriend, only your heart.
1126393
First of all, make sure that you're actually in love with her or not.  A lot of people aren't mature enough to even know what love feels like, I even struggle with it myself sometimes.  Be patient, but if a long period of time passes by and she still doesn't answer you, put some pressure on her to make a decision because sometimes that's the only way.
478858
If you're really not sure of what you feel for him, then just try to entertain him about his feelings for you... Never tell a person you love him/her if you're not sure because it really hurts in their part when you don't show it to them... Try to think first before making any moves and be sure of everything if you're talking about true commitment... You can also try telling him about your feelings that at this moment, you're still not sure what you feel, if he's matured enough, he will understand you, and if he really loves you, he will wait for your decision without lessening his feelings for you... Also use the situation right now to test if what he feels for you is true...
461746
Well, go with the old phrase "if you love someone, set them free."  Life works out in the strangest and most wonderful ways.  There may be some exciting and wonderful adventures awaaitng you when you move.
281795
if you are an expert, an eye contact will do it. if you are an amateur when it comes to love issues you will never know... what i am saying that it depends on you and him/her. my answer is to pull yourself together and ask her/him. there is nothing to lose if your not in Love.. but if you are, try as hard as you can to win the heart of whom you love whether s/he loves you are not.... it really depends on you and you only.\n\nnote: when it comes to love matters i recommend asking your own heart instead of hundreds of people in the net.. cause only there u will have the true answer...lool
475707
Be grateful that they care for me and they like me and feel flattered, i would just wait and let them think, give them space before they start to say they love me because it takes quite a while in a relationship to learn how to love someone.
652966
See if the one you love can love you\nand\nsee if you can love the person who loves you..
482563
If he doesn't talk to you, may be you will write him an e-mail. Write him everything what you feel. If he loves you, he will understand or at least he will know your feelings
591539
I wouldn't do anything right now.  You've told him how you feel.  You have to give him some time.  I'm sure he still loves you too.  You both need to be sure that you are in love not that you just love each other and are used to being together.  I wish you the best!
1186164
i think it's easier to know when someone is not in love with you! when you love someone you can't help but show it but when you fall out of love it stands out a mile.\n\ndoes she flinch when you touch her, doesn't want to be intimate, conversations end more quickly, she seems to be a lot more busy than usual, she avoids you, you hardly do things together anymore, or you can see it in her eyes, she doesn't look at you the same way anymore?\n\nthere are a lot of things but if you just have 'that feeling' sorry to say, but you are probably right. if thats the case, you have to let her go. don't try to fool yourself that it can all be good again. that never works!
442736
Well if you really love him. And yall are in a strong realatationship, you first of all shouldnt even be asking this question. But if yall are in love and you feel its important to be open and honest about things, then ask him. Dont drive yourself crazii wondering. And dont follow him around or spy on him. Just say what youre feeling... and if he is, then its time to move on. And if he's not, then just use the excuse that you knew he wasnt, youre just scared to loose the one you love :)  it always works ;) good luck
125156
LOVE SOMEONE does not guarantee that he will send you his reply.try to accept it.dont be so sad but encourage yrself that u have someone to love.there're still many people on the earth that cannot love anyone.
316734
well all u got to do is follow ur heart. if u really love him and he loves you then yeah u should. just think of who is at the end of the love chain. is it him, or someone else.
35684
i think it times to love a person and it also takes time to stop loving a person.\nmaybe you should still keep loving that person and if it is to hard for you then do whatever you have to do, to not get hurt.
249374
you know you love somebody when you can't think of anything or anyone else. you know you are IN LOVE with someone when you know you can't survive without their love. i hope it works out for you. good luck.
336038
I've been asking myself the same question for years, I thought I was in love but wasn't 100% sure.  People would say its the one you would do anything for or always want to be around them.  Well I did all those things and I loved the shawty but I wasn't in love with them.  When I actually fell in love with the right one I knew right away that I was in love and I didn't really need to confirm my feelings with anyone.  So if you are not sure than you are not in love with them, but just love them.  You heart will tell you if you are in love not your mind.\n\nGood luck luv