I've been single for a long time what could i be doing wrong?
537583
get a hammer & start tearing down the wall that you have around you.
10225
Take time for your self, in every relationship we are in we seem to lose a piece of ourselves, we need to gain that back before we have anything to offer in a new relation, find out who you are, grow from the experience. Some times I think people are afraid to be alone with them selves for awhile, it's ok to be single. I think I got your question right if not good advice any way I think.
587767
If you have to ask, you know the answer.\nGive yourself a bit of time, there's nothing wrong with being single and there is a lot wrong with going from one man to another willy nilly just to avoid being alone.\nEspecially since your commitment level is already not the deepest.... I mean, really, how much are you really willing to invest if you give up on a guy you were prepared to marry as soon as trouble hits?\nBe solo a while, hang out with friends, date casually, when you're ready for a real relationship, you'll know.
1089820
The same reason that I haven't been able to find a girlfriend recently.\nIt will happen again....
163462
Try using the search feild (it's on the left) for what are you are having trouble with.\n\nSearch sugestions: Dating
665059
Maybe you should just be single for a little while!  From what you are saying, you just don't want to settle...there's nothing wrong with that!  Nobody should settle!\n\nTake time off of the relationship to just get your mind straight!  Have a little fun!\n\nYou don't have to be in a relationship to feel whole!  \n\nIt's crazy...you sound a lot like me, except I'm 22!  I'm older than that in my mind though!\n\nGood luck to you!  You can get ahold of me through messenger if you want to talk!
443296
give yourself some time. most of the guys i knew didn't have a bf until they were 20. yes its lonely, but enjoy being single, enjoy what time you have left with no worries about relationships and bills and all the bs you're about to encounter with college and adult life. you'll be fine.\n\nPS: it is normal to be gay. it is not normal to be a hater and call yourself a christian. (that's for the guy who posted above)
177131
I am 27 years old and I have never really dated, so I guess you could say I have literally been single my whole life.
121759
Unfortunately dating is always tricky and probably hasn't changed a whole lot since you were last single other than the addition of the internet.  No matter what you do there is no guaranteed way of avoiding the ones you don't want.  For beginners I recomend sticking to activities that you enjoy.  If you like dancing or something like that try taking a class.  Don't be afraid of the internet, but be prepared to have to filter out a lot of trash to find a few nuggets of gold.
14275
It could be because you just haven't found the right person yet. I know, I know, it sounds totally cliche, but I'm 22 and have a similar problem. The best advice anyone has given me is to just focus yourself and what you want in life and the right person will come along.
319236
Trust yourself, you are skilled at this because it was no accident that you had a good marriage the 1st time.  You are obviously good at picking a guy who would make a good husband, and are good at the give-and-take of marriage.  You have just been out of the game for awhile, but you have all the skills you need.  It is just a fact that you will have to meet a few dozen, or few hundred, wrong people before you find the right one, hence all your encounters with guys who only want sex.  Keep dating casually, circulating as much as possible, not sleeping with anybody.  You may need to vary where you are looking, like go to church functions or take classes that interest you instead of looking in singles bars and other 'meat markets'.  Keep being critical and rejecting the majority, and it's only a matter of time before you meet someone nice.  Remember, you are good at relationships and have all the skills you need so stay confident and trust your own judgement.
1090045
It doesn't mean you are unattractive, it means you just haven't found  anyone worth your time yet.  Keep going out and meeting people, and it sounds lame but it will happen for you - and probably when you least expect it.  \nIf you want to speed things up, try getting a new hobby where you interact with people, if you attend church get involved with any singles activities there, you can also try an internet dating service.
305298
There is nothing wrong with you. When you meet the right person, you'll know. Until then, enjoy the single life.
1014791
There's NOTHING wrong with you!!\n\nGive yourself time  - as you get older, things will change.
915973
One thing I don't understand is your attachment to your previous relationships (past). You are not that desperate, are you?The relationships did not work, period. Move on. Don't date anybody just to date somebody. Find someone you really like. You will feel it when you see him. Forget about the past.
1066849
The main thing you have to do is to get out of the house, and go where there are lots of people. Many will be single, and in your city, there should be clubs, and other organizations for single people. I love to go to outdoor concerts myself, and meet tons of singles there. Good men are often at the ball parks, libraries, and other men-type activities. Smile a lot, and dress nicely. Don't be afraid to look, and flirt a little. Use what you've got! Good Luck!!
978528
maybe its just not the right time for you to meet the right person yet!\n\ntry being more happy about your self and stop looking for the right one!\npeople notice when you are happy and enjoy life and they are naturally attracted to that! if they see that u look miserable they might be frightend off from approaching you!\nif you have any hobbies or interests that you enjoy try getting into that more often, \n\ngoodluck, remember keep your head up and be happy with yourselfand let it show, you will soon find that people are following you everywhere ...