why are some men cant kip their wives yet the wives luv them?
542952
yes it is funny but....... you can love someone with all of your heart and still not like them for the things they do.the things they say.you stay hoping things will get better and you stay to the point that drives you crazy and when you feel that the husband or wife dont care any more.\nand are not doing anything to help the problems then you leave.
565596
The only reason I can think of is that they love the person so much that they cant imagine living without them. Marriage isn't for the faint hearted it requires open communication, commitment and flexibility. To share your life with someone, accepting their faults as well as their good traits, to be committed to making their life as full of love and happiness as you can so that in return they will do the same for you isn't always easy but the reward of being with that someone special is awesome....
1126161
Who? Where?\n\nWell they are not Man enough, so they prefer that their wives atleast are satisfied.\n\nOr some man get excited when they see their wives having sex with other men. To each their own.
366780
It is genetics. Men are created to spread their seed by many times in one day while woman can only bear one child in a nine month period. Infidelity is more accepted by women of the men than vice versa.  A lot of men can't accept another man having sex with their woman.  I feel it has been going on for a long time but was just not talked about as much as it is now.  Most men are happy with their wife or woman they have the main relationship with, they just want a little variety every now and then.  It is the nature of the beast.
912627
It is there culture. They were raised to be leary of all men except the men in their immediate families. You probably are a good guy try getting in good with the female you are interested in, With her father, uncle, brother . So you can be introduced properly.  they are very protective of their women.
342916
hi, \n It is a hard thing to be married to someone who does not share ur beliefs.... the Bible states that when a man and a woman r joined together in marriage they r not to separate.... 1 Cor 7:12-16 gives a firm direction from the apostle Paul for the very situation u r in and why he feels this way....\nGod bless and be with u in this time\nShaz\nx x x x x x
958269
Unfortunately these men are chauvinists. Chauvinists in general tend to be somewhat jealous of women.
277502
Married men can be faithful...they can if they want to.\nWomen is the same. Women can cheat too. Both men and women can cheat. And, men and women can be faithful...only if they really want to be.
567567
because you have your own life....... some self centered people have a lot of love inside to give but need help in bringing it out, so consider it a challenge to bring it out........ you married her for a reason...........
365069
Yes... well not really.... but sort of.....but then not so much.....\n\nIf your wives friends are relatively decent human beings than no.... it's not a test.  Women tend to think of a friends husband as sort of a big brother and its safe to flirt a little.  We even think of you as a surrogate husband.  They can get you to lift heavy things and kill the bugs but they don't have to sleep with you.  But don't make the mistake of acting on it because they would tell her in a heartbeat....so ya sort of.\n\nIf your wives friends are hoochies then they are probably really trying to get in your pants.  In which case they aren't really her friends.... still they would tell her in a heartbeat if you even hinted at interest.\n\nThe next time it happens, just grab your wife and kiss her.  That will show them you are devoted and make your wife feel good.  Chances are that your honey bunches has noticed it too and might be feeling a little insecure about it.
308842
They dont always nag their husbands.  If your wife is nagging you your obviously not doing something right.
230979
They like to watch people screw their wives. Its a fetish
236188
a married person shouldnt have a girlfriend only a wife of husband
721491
Makes me wonder if the guys who are in favor of it would be in favor of sharing their Wives with other men as well.\n\nAfterall it should go both ways.\nSomehow I am doubting the guys would be in favor of that :)
361058
Not all men do. I know that I, as well as some of my married buddies, take our relationships and marriages very seriously.\n\nSome men just want to conquer women s#xually, and then they move on. Some men get bored and want some excitement, and some are like little kids in a candy store, unable to keep their hands to themselves.\n\nUnfortunately, it is up to women to separate the wheat from the chaff, if you will.
667624
Because they make it that way. It never should be that hard to love someone, but for men and some women they need a lot of drama in their life. Also some want to blame the other sex for their problems. If a man thinks a woman did him wrong he will blame all women..............
104317
I think men cheat because they need to know that they are still desired. \n\nI feel they reach a point in their marriage where they know in their heart that they are loved by their wife....but they start to question whether they have been all they need to be. Perhaps his wife doesn't tell him how "necessary" he is anymore. Perhaps his wife doesn't seduce him the way she used to. Perhaps she doesn't brag about him to her friends the way she used to. He needs to know he is still worthy. \n\nSo one day.....someone notices him.......and man...it just feels so good to be noticed again! And then maybe he sees her again the next day......and the next day. And her smile starts to become addictive. He becomes intrigued about who she is......and why she has noticed him. It might start out as a smile.......but it will become a kind comment.....and then a need on her part to 'run into him' just as he has found it necessary to run into her. \n\nMany times the affair is not intended. But all of a sudden it starts to fill a hole and fulfill a need that he realizes needs to be filled. She tells him how necessary he is........she craves the intimacy.......she tells him what a wonderful person he is. All the things that were lacking in his marriage. His needs are being fulfilled.........just not by his wife.