what makes someone a loser?
537148
when we underestimated our selves, when we stop thinking we can achieve our goals, when we start care more about  what other think, thats when when we become losers..
876470
Unfortunately, there is going to be some "emotional baggage" carried forward.  It will affect your future relationships, and your outlook on life.\n\nWhat makes a loser?  The wrong car, the amount of money in his wallet?  Hopefully not, but rather if he was cheating on you, mistreating you, or disrespecting you, your family, or friends, then he is a loser.\n\nIt sounds like your family and friends are important to your life.  While that is a good thing, do you want them making decisions for you your ENTIRE life?  Think about it.  If they can influence you on who you are dating, what is going to change when it comes to work, kids, marriage?\n\nBetter start thinking for yourself.  The "emotional baggage", as you call it, is only a part of who you are.  If you decide to carry that baggage, that is your choice.  You can also decide to let an ex be an ex and move on with life, and chalk it up to experience.
845582
Because they are losers.
609959
a person with low self esteem, well since i used to have REALLY low self esteem.. heres how I acted..\n\nNever talk... Head down all the time... Never fights back to ANYTHING... just takes everything... basically it
816996
Get rid of the loser.
647738
happy and cheerful, few like a sourpuss cept maybe some other sourpusses but they don't even want to hang out with those losers. Positivity, don't bring others down and call em losers, Be interested in what they say. Confident in yourself but still humble to the little people. Chicks always say confidence but hate the arrogant ones or so they say. Half a brain helps but stay simple enough to be understood. Some high moral ideals all noble and stuff is usually good. But again moderation is key. humor, they love to laugh.....others\n\nGood luck but believe me i have alot of work to do.
991205
It depends on what I lose at. Normally I'm not a sore loser but sometimes I might snap just a little bit after I lose.
101726
First of all, get yourself into an English class.\n\nSecondly, get rid of that loser and find some one who isn't into yo-yo or roller coaster relationships.
263380
it feeds their esteem.  people who are usually low in self esteem tend to compensate their deficiency by soliciting (or the thought of being a smart person) nods or even attention
671886
I don't think that he is a loser. I do think that he should consider counseling or taking a break. Anyone, especially someone in authority,using such language sets a bad example. I also believe that even children should be responsible. What occurred before the alleged incident? What can the children do to prevent their contribution,if any, to more such incidents? Be the Peace!
637514
because some people are losers and have nothing better to do. that or some other stupid reason
959799
I agree w/ Mikhail (sorry if spelled wrong) about the attitude.\nSTOP going in thinking I'm a loser, You've got to have a I'm a WINNER attitude. At the same time maintaining some kind of\nhumility.
695650
That means this particular guy is a total loser. PLEASE make a better choice in guys. Use this guy as the example of a guy not to get involved with. A real man will be honest, respectful, caring, and considerate of your feelings.
376184
My daughter thinks they are losers, totally weird, morbid attention seekers that think their lives are crap when really their lives are pretty much the same as everyone elses....life's what you make it, you only get one shot at it, make the most of it. Personally I don't have an opinion, each to their own I say.
186548
you desperate little ***** how much of a loser do you have to be to do this get a life you loner
160230
You are not a loser.\nyou just didn't find your true love.\nyou will find soon.
303449
none, i am SUCH a loser.