Why do men have fantasies of watching their wife with another woman?
539471
Because it does there is really no explanation guys get turned on by two women and that's that!
1118520
The same can be asked of a woman, why can't they keep there eye on just one man?...Try putting the shoe on the other foot! If God didn't want us...(meaning both man and woman)...Didn't want us to see the beauty that he created...then he'd never gave us eye's to see with!   If I were a betting man...I'd bet he's caught you looking...a few more times...than he'd liked you to have looked...at other men...!
160452
For me I could not watch my wife with another guy, I could however watch my wife with another woman.  If you watch porn it is a common thing but in rality most people accept the monogamy that is associated with marriage.
105417
I think the guy thinks that the experience is going to be some sex filled orgy type fantasy thing, but in reality, it's not. If you are uncomfortable with any of it, it won't go over well, tell your husband to imagine how he would feel if he had to watch you with another guy, because that is what you are going to have to do, watch him with another woman being intimate. I saw a couple break up after they "experimented" with a threesome. He was all for it, she thought she was, but I don't think she could handle what I put up there. It just really depends on YOU, not your husband, just because he wants it, doesn't mean that you have to do it.
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What transpires in the mind, also transpires in the heart. If a married guy glances at another gal because she's attractive, there's nothing wrong with that. But if he ogles her and undress her with his eyes, then it's an issue.\n\nThere's a book titled: 'Pornography; an Affair of the Mind'. The author's husband got addicted to online porn.  The mind responds to certain stimuli; some good some bad. The key is to reinforce the good stimuli and avoid the bad.  Check out the book and read it with him.
15300
I agree.  Women not only get more bold with you but they check your wife out a lot I suppose to see the competition.  These kind of women also seem to be the ones most likely to get jealous when their own boyfriends or husbands look at other women.  Maybe it's true that the jealous types are that way because they know what's really going through other peoples minds because it's the same as their own.
395763
maybe you fantasize older women to get you off? What is wrong with your wife you don't want to have sex with her?
685686
Because men get tired of what they know they "have".  A wife is like an insurance policy that is always there when he cant get any play somewhere else.  As`sad as it is, its the truth.
351114
Don't feel bad; your husband is probably thinking about another woman. That doesn't bother you, does it?
36047
If you love your wife the way you should, you wouldn't want this. Why would you want to make love with another woman or watch you wife make love to another woman. I asked my husband whats your ultimate fantasy, I expected it to be this and when he told me what it was I questioned him on why it wasnt this threesome thing... he said I love you and you are mine I want no one else and I want no one else to have or experience you, why would I want to see anyone else with you in that way loving you the way I do." These were his exact words. He is a great Man and only a man could feel that way. I think you need to grow up there are other ways to put a spark in your marriage than to bring in another woman or man. As for me, I will fulfill the fantasy he asked for and thank my God above that it wasnt one like this.
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I check out men everyday. I'm always out and about and I see a lot of men on a daily basis. I don't stare or ogle at them but I definitely check them out. As for fantasies, I have fantasies often too. I don't think women do it less, I just think we're more discreet with it than a lot of men are.
693517
thats perverted. She is not for u don't be greedy face your wife not her sister. yur sis in law is for another man definetely not for you greedy man. Yu r too lusty
273792
Sure...you see an attractive person of the opposite sex and maybe think about it, but as long as you don't follow through or make any attempt to actually do anything I think it's natural.  As a girl, I personally think guys are much more vulnerable to this type of thinking (maybe vulnerable isn't the best word, but you know what I mean).  Yes, it would be devasting to your wife/gf if she found you having an affair.  But just looking at an attractive person isn't bad.  But don't go off flirting with them or anything like that.  Use that energy on your wife/gf!
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I think every woman can look at another woman thinking wow she looks nice. ( I like her hair, body, bootie, whatever.) I have no problem saying to my husband damn that girl is cute. Although I know when it comes to intimacy I want to be with a man. \nSo just ask yourself if you are just admiring other woman? Or do you think you would prefer to be intimate with one rather than a man? In your heart you should know... Be proud of who you are! :)
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You're a hetero man, that's what we do, it's in our nature.  You're not falling in love with who you're looking at right.  Nothing wrong with taking in a piece of little eye candy.\n\nNow the trick is not to get caught, not necessarily be sneaky about it, but you definately don't need to gauk, stair, be rude or disrespectful to your wife.\n\nI'm sure that you're wife checks out other guys when you go out albeit briefly, to where you don't notice or she does it in a way where it is not disrespectful to you.\n\nSo, if you'd like to avoid drama, keep the look time to a minimum (a glance or a scan of the landscape) just remember, that you are out with your wife not out with the guys or watching TV.  And if she starts talking to you, shut off the targeting device and pay attention to your wife.
268093
Well in my opinion yeah you are crazy lol but I am going to try to be open minded and answer your question. You might have some kind of fetish that just turns you on when you see her with another man.Its just like any other fantasy or fetish... weird stuff turns people on like crazy. As long as this doesnt get in the way of yalls relationship... embrace your fetish and have fun.
629821
so????  You are just looking right, no harm in that.  Even fantasizing about him while with your hubby is fine, might make it more exciting (I am sure he is thinking about a Pam Anderson or a Angelina Jolie some nights), as long as it's not physical you are in the clear!