what to do when ur marraige gets on ur nerves?
546223
Work it out. Two adult human minds can workout everything if they take it up in the right earnest and in the right way. Its just a matter of shedding a few habits and a few egos. Remember the life flies away quickly and takes with it the beautiful moments which never came just because we are too busy with the mundane. Every moment in life is just the same, we make it good or bad  only in our minds
678082
Take some time out to do things that take our mind off the wedding. It can be a full on event prior to the big day. Do something with your other half that you did on your first date. Go back to a time that you were really happy and relaxed. This should ease the jitters.\n\nIf I feel jittery I try to phase into an activity that is totally opposite to what I am worried about. Like if you are nervous about work, dive into a sport activity.\n\nYou are jittery about a Wedding, go down to a park with a Picnic basket, sit under a tree and read something like the Da vinci code for a few hours. you will feel a lot better and be able to tackle the wedding issues head on with a fresh mind.
343723
call him up- tell him how you feel- and get it out of your system.  Chances are he'll still get married, your feelings will be hurt, but at least you'll know you tried.  Too bad you didn't speak up sooner, it could have been you marrying him.  Learn your lesson and let people know how you feel while there's still something that can be done.  Good luck.
1182001
one word: pray. If you pray and believe then she will come back to you. Or you can ask her for a second chance. Remind her of your wedding vows. Til death do you part. For better or worse.
146028
Relax and enjoy it.  Remember that a marriage is a lot of hard work, and takes a lot of commitment.  The more you share with each other the greater the reward.  Don't let arguments fester, and don't dwell on all the little things that ultimately aren't that important.  And last of all realize that there is no such thing as a perfect relationship and that over time the intesity of your feelings will fade some but that is normal and not a sign of anything being wrong with your relationship.
134613
Tell him you are sorry and that you will never do that kind of a thing again. Never involve yourself with married people. Think about it this way. What if someone else interfered in you blissful marriage and spoilt it. Ask for her forgiveness and stay clear from such entanglements.
1047234
You need a professional marriage counselor!!  You are dealing with mental abuse.  Jokes won't do it.  Neither will anything you can find out here.
190258
Good question. It's getting on my nerves.\nAbstain from sex, or use birth control, leave someone that's not treating you well, don't sleep with married people, stay in school, take care of your kids.\nLastly, Do something good for yourself so you won't be needy enough to go for this crap!
586521
You have to treat them like they are children, and everything goes smooth. If you treat them like adults that's when the shit hits the fan! They can not do anything for themselves, and once you get married its really worse. I love my husband to death, but sometimes he is just more then I can handle it. My philosophy is just grin and bare it!!!!
1028211
First off, yes Oh my gosh I get so pissed at my husband for the smallest things.  I think it is because we become so comfortable with them, and they are constantly in the same living space as we are, that you can't bottle every little irritation up you have to let it out otherwise you might explode one day and not be married anymore.
403609
As much as someone annoys you or is rude cheating really isn't the answer.\n\nHave you tried talking to your wife about why she is acting this way? What about marital counseling? \n\nDivorces aren't fun and sure as heck are not pretty. So before you go down that road make sure that's what you really want.\n\nIf you feel that is the way to go then I would go consult a lawyer and start taking the steps needed. No reason to drag it out - especially if you've already moved on.
639605
make up your mind about your marriage first. then do what you have to do,
745508
follow your heart but communcate that with your husband...and for god sake stop worrying about this stuff and consummate the marriage..its been long enough and im sure hes irritated.
297787
Just to play devils advocate for a moment here, it *is* possible that she is just genuinely trying to keep everyone happy here and not hurt anyones feelings. Have you spoken with her about this yet? It's quite possible she has no idea how you have reacted to this. If you are truly, completely offended, the best thing to do would be writing her a long personal letter, without anger, explaining that you are offended by her actions and that you are rethinking your decision to have her at your side during your special day. Give her an opportunity to talk to you about it before you make any "final cuts" though. Family comes first, and if she has a good reason or just was ignorant and chooses you, then you can have a wonderful marriage with her there. If she is stubborn about it or just refuses to work it out, then you may have to bluntly tell her you had to choose another maid-of-honor but she is still welcome to the ceremony. I hope everything works out for you. Good luck and congratulations.
256119
Prepare your house for the worst.  Contact a lawyer, get prepared legally, finacially (start saving), and continue to establish contact with your husband.  Give him every opportunity to talk, write or communicate with you.  Sometimes national borders slow written communication, but if he has web access there really is no reason not to stay in touch.\n\nIf all efforts at communication fail, go to see him in person, you can buy the ticket, get a passport and go there, and drop by.  And if you have prepared for the worst, you will be in good shape to get your life together again should you decide to terminate the marraige.\n\nIn summation, you should save money, research lawyers, and continue to establish contact with him.  If no contact can be established, then go to him, not as a confrontation, but as a surprise, his reaction will tell you everything you need to know, and what you should do.
114200
If love is true, then I would suggest counseling and possibly anger management classes or something.  You certainly don't want that to happen again and lose control for either of your sakes!  Good luck!!
313885
Married couples fight. It happens. One thing you need to do is never go to bed angry at each other. I don't know why you had a fight and I don't want to know. You guys have to find a way to have a civil conversation without losing your tempers. I love my wife and I respect her as woman as well. I am nothing without her. I wish you luck