what should i expect from my first night with a virgin, how should i treat her , in a medical sence.?
540729
hey man it's very important that u b gentle. it takes some time to break it so be smooth, gentl, and patient and remember she'll be in a lot of pain if u thrust hard. I personally spread the enjoyment on 3 days!
310722
I would suggest doing things you imagine would feel good to you.  The first time is tough for anyone, but just take things slow and listen to her reactions to what you are doing.  This should tell you if you are doing things right and if you need to try something else.
503166
shes a VIRGIN! go slow on her i know and WE know you want to get there!lololollol but have patience
1136090
If it is the first time for both of you to have sex, may I suggest taking things slow.  Especially if it is her first.  Alot of my friends didn't care much for sex at first because their first partner's were too rough and not the most considerate.   And I think any lady out there would also suggest taking things slow.  It's not a race.  Enjoy yourself and for god's sake use a condom.  Communication is good too, make sure you are both cool with whats going on.  \n\nMy first time I remember it feeling like my head was a blur and I was a bit dizzy, but It was a good feeling.
241711
I am still a virgin but hope for the lucky lady
57926
listen to her.  do the right thing.  treat her with consideration and respect.  be honest and direct.  expect to give as much as you receive.  dance with her.  make her laugh.  support her when she needs support.  be a friend.\n\n'course, if you're talkin about in bed..  well, that depends on what she's like.
268134
NO! virgin is someone whose never had sex. and sex is something that happens between (at least) 2 people.\n\nbut it might tear your hymen, if that's what you're worried about
379159
Don't feel bad, hey. It's not the most appealing thing as a girl wants to feel like she has someone who knows what they are doing. What you need to do then, is spend all your time making it good for her and be willing and you will be fine. I slept with a guy who was a virgin and he was 24. I got over the fact he was a virgin cos I thought he was the most hottest guy I had ever been with and I loved his personality. What killed it a bit though, is he was pretty nervous which is understandable, but he wanted me to do everything. Just act confident, and if the chick knows you are a virgin she will understand it will get better and better. If you have casual sex, lie and say you aren't a virgin. Be confident, and she'll be none the wiser. Be honest if you are actually going out with someone. Don't worry matey, it wouldn't turn me off you.
152788
WELL, IN MY OPINION YOU SHOULD GET HER TO KNOW YOU BETTER AND LET HER KNOW THAT YOUR INTENTIONS ARE NOT ONLY TO HAVE SEX WITH HER BUT TO HAVE A NICE RELATIONSHIP WITH HER. BE NICE AND DON'T BE SO DESPERATE ON GETTING HER TO SLEEP WITH  YOU THE FIRST DAY/MONTH, 2MONTHS, ETC. SHE'LL BE WITH YOU WHEN SHE TRUST YOU.
508384
U can keep on kissing tenderly in a candle light for some time. U can kiss her neck, her legs, her toes, her stomach all that in a tender way, kiss her hair her hands, If u want to go 4 more hug wn u r both naked, his her boobs. but plz all that in a tender way.GOOD LUCK & leave her a virgin, & by the way u 'll love that tender way more if u really like her
395839
tell her you are a virgin and let her teach you
328212
Try pleasuring yourself 10-20 minutes before sex...also there are her pleasure condoms that have some sort of topical anesthetic that numb the wang...or be really really drunk to the point where you cant ejaculate.
648542
Having sex with my girlfriend for the first time.
141220
My advice to you is...first and formost...don't let anyone do anything to your body unless you are absolutely ready. \n\nYes. The first time can be painful if not done with care, patience and tenderness. \n\nIf you are ABSOLUTELY POSITIVE that you want to lose your virginity, you MUST set the ground rules. Make sure your partner knows that if it becomes too uncomfortable that he is to stop what he is doing IMMEDIATELY. A condom is essential. You never know where someone else has been. Another essential is a lubricant such as KY Jelly or Astrolube.\n\nBefore you just let some guy ram his bone up inside you, make sure he opens you up GENTLY with a lubricated finger. Have him work it in and out, gently at first... then faster and deeper as your body permits. Then when this is comfortable, try a second one. You must relax if you want it to be less painful. Then when YOU feel that you are ready for something more, you decide wheather or not to go further.
321385
If this is her first time, you are not ready to worry about the position quite yet! First, you need to know what to do BEFORE you get her into position!\n An@l can be very rewarding for both parties involved, but do it wrong once and she will be turned off from it for life!!\n Ok, first, loosen her up mentally. She needs to be relaxed. If she drinks, then get her tipsy. \n Next, loosen her up physically. I recommend going down on her, and then sliding a finger in the backdoor. CLIP AND SMOOTH YOUR NAILS FIRST!! Continue to please her as you slowly work first one, then two fingers in and out to loosen her up and relax her.\n Now you are ready to move forward into the penetration part. Remember THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS TO MUCH LUBE!!\n If she is on her back at this time, that is an ideal position for first time an@l. get her legs on your shoulders and kneel in front of her. Position the head of your penis at her rear entry. Tell her to exhale as you SLOWLY enter her with just the head. Now you are going to want to shove it in, but if you ever want to do this again then resist that urge! Hold your penis still, with just the head in, and manually stimulate her clit or her vagina. After a minute begin to apply GENTLE pressure, working yourself in 1/2 at a time. \n If she says it hurts, don't immediately pull out. Instead, freeze, and let her adjust. \n Good luck!!
150254
First off, don't presure her, reasure her. Take it slow, when you do eventually.....um do it. Condom, lots of lube, and ease it in. Don't ram it in and start pumping, just let her muscles relax around you. When she feels comfortable, then move, and just make sure to keep asking her if she's okay, and if it hurts her, stop, let her relax, and try again. Comunication is the key. It will hurt the first time, but that's a given, just try not to add to it. But let her know you'd like to try it, and tell her you'll be gentle. (and for the love of god, be gentle, a girls first time can be stressful and painful)
621059
Fetal position...curl up in it and dont come out of it...keep your virginity girl!