how  can  you leave a friend whom with  you  stayed  with one year?
542886
u should ask her what she wants and if she is willing ot let go then let of her and for the meanwhile have her phone number and talk ot her from time to time eventually u would get over it
315589
leaving people i love behind
164900
This can be only only little by little. Start by seeing other people, making new friends and start doing stuff without this particular friend. After some time he or she will understand that you two are getting apart and it won't be that hard though there will be some hurt...
175205
Spend a little less time with them at a time, until you just don't see them very often. If they ask you to do something with them and you don't want to go, tell them that you're doing something else. Eventually they probably won't ask anymore. Meanwhile, find some new friends to hang out with. If you spend more time with your new friends, your old friends will get the picture. Don't walk up to your friends and say "I'm not going to be friends with you anymore," because that will just make them mad, they won't listen to you, and you'll sound like you're in the first grade.
280476
1st off, what what is that make to forget the someone you "truly" loved. I you love someone, truly, u should make adjustment acc. to 'em. Well! think about what was that, that made you seperate. \nDo not remember the good times u've spend, insted thing about the bad time u'll had. This how, his absence has helped you.\nAnd ofcouse you wont forget some you loved for all these year, in a sec. you need time. \nMake new frnd, who have nothing to do wiht your relations. Be creative, spend more time with people who are funny!
104807
Do you have opinions of your own? Stick with your friend. You don't make friends for political purposes. You be true to the people who are true to you. Loyalty. \nNo one wants to be friends with the person who keeps on ditching their friends.
70203
Write them a letter,\nCall them on the phone,\nTell them "friends forever"\nYou will never be alone!
633382
Just lay it out for him...\nSay, look I know this is what you want, but it's not going to happen. I've moved on, hell, I'm married! I would love to stay friends, but that is ABSOLUTELY all your going to get out of me....\n\n...honesty is always the best policy!\nGood Luck!
146153
JUST LEAVE THE A-H*LE!!!! \n\nYour only hurting yourself by staying.
257688
look u just sort it out by keeping them away frm each other and tell both of them that u cannot break the friend ship with any one and devote equal time to both of them and dont mix up or mess it up live ur life
22860
wow-i can relate having moved in w/friends a month ago after leaving my husband. be honest and upfront. sit her down w/your facts written out in front of you.\n\nHave a time-line for you to leave if she cannot pay her share. If she's in over her head - offer to help her find subsidized housing/sell her place etc.\n\nIt's awful to lose good friends over money, honesty is the best policy before you and your other half resent her or worse. Good luck and Happy New Years, Pat
322188
keep in contact with them. I've been friends with my best friend for 12 years. (we're 21 now).. the secret is finding time to spend with each other.
974030
You wrote that all you want is to be friends, but later state that you want to get back together with him.  It is best for both of you to leave him alone.  It is tough to move on, but just remember that there are plenty of fish in the sea.  You're gonna be fine.
215719
It is not easy to leave someone you have been with a while.  When you are close, and you aren't meant for each other it is even worse.  Maybe you guys could become friends again after all the hurt is over with.
173246
u told him in a nice way that u dont want him, then let it go. u cant baby him through this. just assure him that you want to remain friends THATS ALL
741643
INSTEAD OF TELLING HER TO LEAVE YOU ALNE, WHY DONT YOU TRY TO BECOME HER FRIEND? SHE MIGHT NEED ONE. JUST LIKE YOU NEEED SOME ONE TO GIVE YOU THIS ADVICE.
371852
there is no way you are going to leave and still keep the friendship . this man loves you and the kids ( that are not his) . you will some day wish you had stayed . good luck to ya ..