I dated a girl a couple of times but then she said that "She wanted to be just friends",?
553191
she probably doesnt want to lose u, thats why shes tryin to get closer to u as a friend. but i wouldnt know better than ur friends nor hers. so if u really like her, ask her out again, its worth a shot. things could only get better. otherwise just settle for being friends.
993431
Well, maybe you should tell her how you feel about her! She may only think you want to be friends, so I would tell her soon. Ask her how she may feel about the idea of the two of you dating.  She may be happy that you have spoken up!  When you start dating a good friend sometimes it changes the friendship. You can only hope that the feelings for one another become more intense and more loving. If you happen to drift apart, then the original friendship may be forever changed.  I thought I would toss that in for your to consider. I mean if things do not work out well for you, you can only hope that you can still be friendly, and not resent any new fellows that may come along in her future if the two of you fail at your attempt at a relationship...do you see what I mean?\n\nGood luck, I hope she feels the same for you too, you sound so nice!
655386
no she just wants to be ur friend...i guess.....
848384
She has moved on with her life.  It is time for you to do the same.  She is clearly not interested in a relationship or trying to patch things up.
559322
sounds like she used you.  she could see how you felt about her by how you treated her.  some girls/women are idiots & don't realize a good thing when they have it.  just move on & find someone else.
978552
Congratulations! You are the rebound guy. Dude she's definitely using you as the rebound guy. She wanted to date around and he didn't that's why he's not calling her back. If he was to say to her "okay let's have a open relationship", she would lie to you about it and act like she's acting now, like everything is fine. You have the proof that she is willing to be unfaithful to you, now what are you going to do with it????
365055
she sounds like she likes you more than just friends... i think she had second thoughts after her first refusal of a relationship, if you still want to, you can make your offer again, i think now is a good time and she seems ready.. Good Luck
852245
She can be bitter and hurt. You said that you went out with her right? well maybe she had true feelings for you and you broke her heart in a very harsh way. So, for her not to be the fool for everyone else she became this nasty Bi@tch. She is like that around you, because that is her cry for her and attention from you. I think that she wants you back.
234884
I think you need to move on and find someone who is interested in being with you.  You said that that you have tried and all they want is your friendship.  Be happy for that friendship and respect their choice to be just friends.
551596
many options here:\n1- maybe wants you back\n2- maybe wants to make u jealous for the fun of it \n3- maybe just wants to be friends \n4- maybe she's just bored!
828041
try to be friends again. good friends are hard to find...if u consider her a good friend.
63700
Many years ago, I dated this one girl.  On the first date, she backed away from my advances. She said she wanted it to be special.\n\nI said OK - that's cool.\n\nI took her out on a second date, and I brought her flowers.  I took her out to a fancy restaurant, then we went out dancing.\n\nOnce again, she pushed me away.  This time, she got a little angry with me.  She said "When I want to have sex, I'll let you know."\n\nI said OK.\n\nThe next four months, we went out a lot.  I bought her jewelry, and I took her to shows.  I treated her  like she was a princess.\n\nShe started asking a lot of questions one night.  Honestly, I felt like I was being interrogated, but I must have answered all the questions correctly, because she said "Make love to me."\n\nAnd so I did.\n\nThen I dumped her @ss.
828707
Try re-dating her.  You two need to learn what drew you together again.  \n\nAlso, thank you for trying, especially with a child involved.  Most would just give up and say next.....
652834
She might have gone out with the guy once or twice or maybe they are just not really serious at this point.  There might be room for you if you are persistant.  Ask her what exactly she means.  Ask her if she is into this guy or if they are just hanging out until something else comes along or what.  Then you will know where to go from there.
801398
Hey, I am Jennifer. I was reading over ur qustion, It seems that she is a play by play...I dont know but if i was u i wouldent date her anymore or see her. For me to say I think u sound like  nice guy and u need better. For what i am trying to say is that she tells u to trust her, how could u ever trust anyone that spends the night with anotheir man..thats not right, if u ask me....If she really cared for u she would be with u and not anotheir man. It sounds like she is sorta a good person and all but i think u so need better then her, she is nothing. I'm sry i hope i dont upset you. But what ever happens good luck. But if u would like to talk just im me it is kikikinky321.. bye for now
878576
do you talk to her a lot? because you need to make sure you are friends FIRST and foremost!! if not, that date will be awkward! and if something ends up ending a dating relationship, you truly can go back to being friends (but that wont happen..im optimistic!)
435381
if she really wants to be just friends and u can get over the fact that that is all it's going to be then don't just throw her to the curb.  Friends don't do that.\n\nFigure out what will it be like if you 2 are friends and how it will affect you.  Communication is the key here.