what do you do to stay calm even if you'r about to blow you'r top?
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Take a few deep breaths, and walk away from the situation.
560094
hold ur breath 4 at least 10 seconds
91484
This is a case where it's a good thing for a guy to be pig-headed. Don't let yourself accept that you're going to blow first...insist SHE gets to orgasm first and mean it. (You've got to be stubborn though or she'll take you out!)Make yourself believe that you're not going out like that.Here's some practical tips that will probably help, too. First..oxygenate your body thoroughly before you even think about having sex, for example, earlier in the day go for a good run, shoot some hoops or do a bunch of pushups...anything to get the heart pumping oxygen-rich blood to the main vein! That's the principle key to your erection and good staying power. Next, get rid of that first nut privately, and pretty close to the time you're going to get with your lady. ( In the shower before you get with her is a good, discreet time and no one is any the wiser.) That first nut is mostly mechanical anyway; getting rid of it will calm you down to do some good, inspired thrusting and grinding. Lastly, don't do a whole lot of drinking...it weakens you more than you might think. And, if you know she's going to wipe you out when you take her from behind (for example) for God's sake don't start out like that; start in a position where you can maintain a good holding pattern without getting overstimulated. It's all in the planning, DAWG! Good luck.
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Long hot showers, meditation, exercise, screaming into my pillow, just about anything. I have a lot of trouble with patience too. If there are certain people that drive you crazy the first thing is to remember your being upset doesn't do anything to them. Sometimes you just have to let go of things. (Easier said than done!!)\n\nI also find it helpful to talk with someone. Let someone else know how you are feeling. Talk about what is stressing you out. Chances are someone else has gone through a similar event. While they may not be able to help you now, knowing that they survived will help relieve some of your stress.
56906
take a deep breath & try to relax, or shake it hard
156824
Stay calm.... Obviously, that's what you're worried about.  Visualize what you want to do in your head.  Visualize yourself succeeding.  Think about the successes that you've had in the past and realize that this is another area in which you can also find success.\n\nHow did you succeed in the past?  Was there any certain trick to staying calm?  If you do find yourself starting to panic, think of a song that gets you pumped up.  Sing it loud to yourself inside your head.... Then, visualize...
61183
Be comfortable. Keep urself cool & calm. Don't be panic. Be confident and reply the questions to the best of ur knowledge.
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Take a long hot shower, try to inhale from your nose and exhale from your mouth and think about how difficulties make us stronger by overpassing them. Wear something nice, go out with some friends, talk about it with them. We've all been there and believe me, it will be allright before you know it.
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Very scientific.  I am a MAD SCIENTIST!  Keep your mouth shut when you are breathing....use yer nostrilz.  If you get too much air in your lungz, your body wants to force it eventually.  Practice deep breathing through your nostrils - it will relax you also.
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mention it immediatly,,,but try to keep your cool !!!!!
696868
calm down, take deep breaths, take your anger out on a pillow but whatever you do don't think about why you are stressed and angry it only make things worse
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Turn it around.  Just be humble or straight forward...which is a strength.  Know who you are dealing with.  Take it in stride.  What is the worst thing that can happen?\n\nI was embarrassed once by another who was threatening me to death in front of a room full of people.  Actually, it became a nervous laugh, almost hysterical.  I ended up being beaten unmercifully.  Laughing is like waving a red flag in front of a bull.\n\nRise above it.
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Remaining calm while they are losing it. Especially in an argument, as they end up totally apoplectic at the fact that they haven't wound you up first. ;o)
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STAY CALM U ONLY SINK WHEN U PANIC AND INTAKE A LOT OF WATER , LEARN TO FLOAT ON YOUR OWN IT IS VERY EASY
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Just stay frosty and breathe. When you suddenly get anxiety attacks, tell yourself to breathe in and out deeply at a steady rhythm.   Clear your mind before you go to sleep. Remember, real great men know how to empty their minds when needed.\n\nAcceptance is another strategy. You can tell yourself to accept whatever happens and that everything will turn out fine. All the water in the world can never sink a ship unless it gets inside. So stay afloat and just go for the ride.
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When you are about to shoot out, like 20-30 secs before that, just withdraw ur penis, wait & take some deep breaths. when the wave recedes back, do it again. try different positions. try each other's fantasies.
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Dude, be yourself.  Always shake as you feel.  Don't get caught up in any power games.  A firm and friendly shake will always take you farther than an over-the-top clamp, whether you are male or female.