I'm always having oral sex with my girlfriend, but when its her turn to perform, she refuses. Any advise ?
548503
You're getting chumped by her.  Next time put it in her butt and show her who's boss.
1079702
Although I understand your situation, it is very hard for a women to think that she can not turn on her mate.  Even if she knows the fault is not her own.  My suggestion go buy the toys and make sure that you have a lot of foreplay.  Good luck to you
630586
Sounds like she is a bit insensitive to me! Vaginas are basically "one size fits all" so if you have 4 or more inches (erect) you should be fine. A lot of women don't have orgasms with intercourse alone though. If she hasn't had any other lovers, maybe she just doesn't know what to expect. Are you having lots of foreplay, enjoying mutual masturbation and oral sex? There is much more to sex that just f---ing! You need to talk, need to experiment...and maybe need to get a new girlfriend!
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Variety is the spice of life! You may be satisfying her quite well but when you throw in something different every once in a while...... it keeps the flame burning hot and long if you know what I mean.\nNext time you try it, move your tongue slowly at first over her clitoris, just take your time and watch her reaction. \nFrom there you or her will figure out the rest of it.\nGood luck!
250267
if you are talking about oral, do a lot of tongue work.  always watch her reaction for good spots and work on it.  i like doing it very wet.  if you do it good, she will do anything for you.
447813
WHAT THE HELL? YOU DO NT EVEN GIVE HER AN ORGASM!! BOY YOU NEED TO MAKE HER ORGASM SO MANY TIMES TILL SHE SAYS TO STOP (AND THEN!!!!) GO A LITTLE MORE. AT THAT POINT YOU CAN DO ANYTHING YOU WANT. EVEN CHEAT BECAUSE IF YOUR GOOD IN BED SHE AIN'T EVER GONNA LEAVE. BECAUSE YOU WILL BE THE MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
1079606
Like you mean it, not like a cat lapping milk, continous motion, not changing too much when you hit the right spot, alternating with fingers and thumb if you get tired but DONT STOP when she signals its working.\ndont concentrate on one spot and stay rigid, include everything but concentrate on clit mainly..ask her, she wont MIND! make sure you arent labouring under false pretenses, let her show you WHERE and then go for it..\n*sighs in rememberance* ;0D
94945
Whatever type of sexy you decide to engage in, it need to be mutually enjoyed by both.  Some girls don't like giving oral sex while others love it.  To be safe, don't force her to have oral sex with you or she may bite it off.  OUCH!
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Gosh NO!  How desperate are you?\n\nYes she can get bored & tired of it.  If she says no, she just doesn't want to hurt your feelings, or she's scared of losing you if she sets boundaries, or she's just really immature/insecure.\n\nDoes she never pursue you?  HOW BORING!  Do you not want your girl to show initiative/attraction to you?  Do you only ever want her for sex? Does it not bother you that she doesn't get a chance to show that she wants you because you keep hogging all the attraction communication?  If I were her, I would put you on ice for a month (refuse privileges) until you could see me as a person, not just a humping machine (unless of course I just dumped you right away), and so I could have a chance at the flirting fun too.  \n\nAre you 18?  If not, you should be able to control yourself for at least 48 hours, gee.  \n\n"Please please can I have sex?"  "Oh sure."\nThat's what it sounds like you do twice a day from your question.  D E S P E R A T E men don't keep their women long.\n\nNow, having said all that, you have not given sufficient information to answer your question without assuming the worst possible scenario.  So considering your "every chance" might be once a week if you don't see her much, you might then just want to make sure you communicate that you value her as a person, and if she knows how important sex is to you, she will indicate it through inviting you inside, or    initiating a kiss, or whatever, you should NOT have to beg or ask continually.  Just kiss her, treat her like you want her to feel like the amazing woman she is, and if she is open for more, you will feel it in her body language and you can move in.  Stop asking like a begging dog.
102934
try changing position or rhythm or try to stop and do something to your partner.  i tried it several times and the next problem was my partner came first so try to come at the same time.
338266
Damn, there's a toughy....Try talking about it, let her know that u want to try other things when u both have the time to prolong sex for u both...try oral sex after cuming to keep her in the mood...very gently though....Heck, ask her if she would ever consider bondage and role play, she might surprise you and when she's tied up, it's hard to say no to seconds...LOL
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i had a girlfriend years ago that seems to be so shy but during our first sex, she suggested oral sex or 69, so i obliged.  who am i to refuse?\n\nalso watch with your girl videos with lots of oral sex and she might become interested.
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do more foreplay to her and try not to touch your penis to anything.  you could use your tongue to make her so arouse and if she is almost there, then put it in so the two of you could come together.  nothing is better that coming together/shouting together.\n\nif you come earlier than her, then continue with tongue playing till she comes.  good luck!
356515
If you guys are making out.. or whatever, try putting the heavier moves on her. If she goes with it, she wants it. If she pushes you off, then she must not be ready. Go with your instincts.
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Maybe it's not so much that she's horny, as that she is worried that if you don't get enough you'll cheat on her.  Show her in nonsexual ways that you are committed to her.
987196
Dude.. \nFirstly build a confidence. Don't be nervous before act and don't prejudice that u will end up early..\nSecondly, work it out..yeh..she told it right.. Masturbation is grt exercise for that.. but u need to do it with an intention to stand long.. Just thrust 5 times and stop (count 1 to 5).. then repeat.. this will give u more fun and increase your stamina also..\n3rd.. do a good foreplay to satisfy ur partner but enter your instrument only once she reaches peak
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Sounds like you are over-compromising and not being yourself. If you always do what she wants, how can she do what you want and why would she?! A relationship should be give and take but if someone can get away with making no effort etc, then they are going to. Start suggesting what you want to do, don;t always agree with everything she says. It might also make you a bit more exciting to her again. That is not about being raised right - you can still be polite etc but just about being yourself not a doormat.