why do i feel this way about her?
554448
lol  The platonic girl crush.  We've all had them.  Chances are, you're feeling uncomfortable and unconfident in yourself.  You see yourself as someone who hasn't yet grown into everything you want yourself to be.  This girl is who you want to be.  You look up to her and idolize her.  It's normal.  Don't get too obsessive.  It freaks some people out, but rest assured, this is normal.  Eventually, it'll pass and you'll be okay.  You just need to grow out of it.  Good luck!
629985
If you must ask about whether to persue her or not, the questioning in your own mind must be telling you something which is leading you to the assumption there are reasons against both actions.  It depends on how she makes you feel when you are with her and without her.  Sometimes we can hurt like the devil because we love someone so much that when we are not with them we feel we have been left in an existence without them, to fend for ourselves.  This is the pain that is instilled with the actual emotion of loving another who is a positive influence in our lives.  Yet, if she is someone who does not strengthen you in how you feel and takes from you with nothing in return...tis best to walk away and find a woman who will bring to you all the wonders of love and life without having to comprimise who you are and how you feel.  Love isn't easy, nor is it blind...and sometimes looking in the wrong person can confuse the hell out of us.
952230
Everyone likes to feel needed and wanted. think of how bitter life would be if we didn't have someone that cared about us.It shouldn't bother you, it should flatter you.It sounds like this person has a high level of respect for you and really cares about what you think. She probably chooses to call you because whatever relationship you had , had an impact on her life. Sometimes long distances from acquaintances will cause you to reminisce. You start thinking about the good times you had and that old flame, doused it may be, will start to re-kindle a little and those old feelings show up again.If I were you, I would be happy that I had a friend that cared as much and thought of me as an important person in their life. I hope all goes well. Good Luck.
322801
I am in the same boat right now! So, I know how you feel.  I just am there when she needs to talk.  I do not offer ANY negative input about MY feelings about the guy, just listen to how she feels and try to give her answers that are somewhat neutral.  Good luck!
558353
Hello nic@nite! This sometimes happens wen we are missing something in our lives that we once cherished a lot! This is a way by which our subconscious lets us know that we need to do something to fill that void. It may or may not have anything to do wth that girl, but it surely has a lot to do with how you felt wen u were with her. Pls do a bit of intropspection and find out wat aspect in ur life is 'suffering', be it emotional, n so on.. I'm sure dat u wont be hurting again if you do dat, as it is just a reminder to let you know that u need someone or maybe just urself to fill that void. Blessings!
375724
Just because you think you are right for her, doesn't mean that you can make her think that.  You can't control someone's feelings you know.\n\nGive it some time, if she doesn't have feelings for you, just go on with your life and find someone else.
1131090
im in the same way bro so i know how u feel id lay the cards on the table and lay everything out on how u feel and wat u want if she dont feel the same way bro then i guess it mite b time to move on !!!!!!!! good luck tho bro
236984
awww  how sweet ! I really feel for you ,but maybe she is your soul mate  but you are not hers! Start dating other  women. You might end up finding another woman to love.
1002649
She feels something for you but she isn't exactly sure what she's feeling. You should talk to her about it to let her know she is safe around you. I also think that she doesn't want to lose your friendship. Sometimes being with someone who is your friend makes things a little awkward, and she doesn't exactly want to do that yet. Keep on being friends for now and see where that takes you.
481019
Maybe she still wants to be with him but maybe she just really enjoyed his company when they were together. People like to feel wanted perhaps she doesn't want to do anything with him she just wants to remember what their time was like and feel good. \nBut if it's making you feel unwanted you have to tell her it's not fair if it's making you feel bad. She has you does she really want to jeopardize that?
935947
I think u should tell her how you feel.. only nicely tho!! (good luck!)
268939
because she might care about u alot...hey put urself in her shoes if u care about her and really love her how do u feel when she's talking or laughing with someone else ha?\nTHINK ABOUT IT!!!
20524
She's just toying with your emotions. She is either playing hard to get... or isn't interested in you. If she just messes around with you in the movies, etc., than that's all you'll ever be to her. (at least that's what it sounds like)
396095
sounds like she is a bit jealous. she probably likes you.
700960
You probably had intense feelings for this person, I think it is common. Don't worry about it too much.
703089
Its normal to feel this way. The type of friendship that you two have is very beautiful. However, if you find yourself too close to her or attracted to her physically, you may want to question your sexuality. Other than that, you're cool!
592400
You should tell her how you feel. Don't let her think things. You could give her the wrong impression.