GIRLS: How do i get over him?
537819
i know it hurts right now. a lot. there's probably nothing anyone can say that will make the pain go away completely. just ease the pain by spending time with friends and family, who will give you support and get your mind off the situation for a little while.\n\nremember that sometimes people are in your life for a short time, for you to learn from them or for you to teach them something. and then they're just gone.\n\nsometimes the best relationships don't work out for one reason or another, but there are so many bright stars in the sky!\n\nkeep your memories! the good ones are yours to treasure forever. the bad ones are yours too, to learn from! sometimes relationships are just stepping stones to get us to where we are meant to be in the future.\n\nkeep smiling! i know it's hard. but soon you will begin to be able to laugh again and you'll be okay!
517035
I know how you feel,the urge of reaching out and dialing his number drives you insane..remember one thing the one you love will never make you cry...i am sure since your break up you must have cried your eyes out...so girl my adivice is to move on think that it was his loss..find some new acitivity for yourself where you would be able to meet new people..being around new people this time really helps in getting over someone....wish you all the best
990229
You will never totally get over him, but you can move on and find somebody who deserves you and will treat you right. He will forever occupy a small place in your heart. If you accept that and just let it be there, you will eventually start to hate him less and then just remember the good times that you have shared in the past. You need to take care of yourself first. Its hard, but time will heal this wound. good luck to you.
470516
since u ended it ask ur self 1 question do u still love him if you do start talking to him again then after a while if you realize he likes you ask him if he does.\n another thing is to forget about him expecially if he hurt you go out often mayb ull meet a new guy like u can go shopping or head to the cinemas another advice start a new make over change u hairstyle ur clothes or anything that will make u look finer
744034
Make yourself hate him, or try to remember things that he had done to hurt you. This helped me a lot to forget my exbf. \n\nAnd it took me 6 mths to move on and many years to let go of him. But at least it helped tremendously.
797592
the best way to get over a guy is get under another
637827
i am sorry you suffer i know how u feel cause i felt same when a guy broke up my heart long time ago you must move on cause she no love you it's hard but u will i advice you to go find other love spend time with new gf even u not feel in love with her but this is best way to forget about ur love best luck thank you
412878
Get over him and date someone else.  Make sure you get to know the guy really, really well before sleeping with him.
759523
Please listen to me.  This dude is gone; you are lucky that he is.  You are likely a loving a sweet girl.  You will never be able to forget him or what happened to you. MOVE ON and use this pain to motivate yourself; find some fun, some other friends, stop complaining and thinkabout your future.\nIt is difficult but the kind of guy you want is not this one.  You want to come home to someone who adores you and thinks only of you like you do him.  He is out there, and you will find him.\nHow to find him?  DO NOT LOOK, just be yourself and a friend will become something more.  Do not be anxious.\nWhen pain crosses your mind, think about something else, distract yourself; look toward the future.  Sweet one, life is just starting for you, and this pain is part of it.  Fight it and do not give in to it.
400269
You have to distract yourself...HAVE TO. Or else you'll always think about him, always dream about him, always hope for him. Get out of the house, go out with your girlfriends, take a bubble bath, dance to music...do whatever you can to take him off your mind. \n\nPlace your studies first - they are important - and you'll end up regretting it later if you don't. You have to drown yourself in your studies if you want to forget him. I fell behind in my studies because I always though about this one guy and then my grades SEVERELY suffered because of it. Now looking back on it, it wasn't even worth it. \n\nRead until you're very tired before you go to bed so you won't toss and turn about him. I went through something similar as well, and I'm gradually letting it go piece by piece as I distract myself more and more. You have to keep telling yourself that you have more important things to worry about or else you'll keep on thinking about him.
1009626
ask him, and if not, get over him and move on.. Life isnt going to be over.
870044
Ya get over him. You just gotta realize that in the grand scheme of things he is insignificant. He may have hurt you but people hurt eachother all the time. You yourself have probably hurt someone at some point. Everything that happens does so for a reason. You learned a hard lesson on what not to look for in a man and hopefully you picked up on that lesson and it will make the rest of your life easier. Life is what you make it and you can choose to live in the past or to take each lesson you learn along the way and create a wonderful future.
588689
just be there for her right now..she is on the rebound and that is not a good time to get with her..she has to get over him..just be patient and if you play your cards right you will get your chance..
494212
Get over him. Since you broke up with him you should try to stick to your decision. Don't feel like he is the last guy on Earth.
939537
i have found the best way to get over someone is to think about them as though they have died.  that way you can keep the memories you have about the good times you had with him but accept there will be no more.  stay busy and go different places and do different things than you did when you were with him.   try very hard not to see him or hear about him.  it's a cliche but time does really heal and every day gets a little easier.  don't stay home and be sad now even though no guys measure up right now.  the next one who will measure up is out there and you won't meet him while you're at home feeling sad.  and once you meet him you'll wonder what you ever saw in the guy who made you sad.  good luck!!
989721
it'll take time to get over someone. let time heal your wounds and go out and have fun with your friends. that always helps. if you have pics of her hanging on your wall,....take em down. put it in a box and just move on. you'll find a much better love as you move on and you may think back on this one day and think "what was i thinkning?".
794941
you should just wait until he doesnt have a girlfriend anymore and you should still wait a little while after that, once you think he's gotten over her then you should  just ask him yourself the worst that can happen is he says no and you find someone new