Why do i feel the need to pee whenever I have sex?
552055
Your urinary bladder is practically on top of your vaginal canal. During sex, the posterior wall of your bladder is being pressured. So the answer is pressure, just like if you kept gently beating on the front of your tummy it would make you want to pee.\n\nBTW, women should always pee after sex. It helps wash out any germs that may have strayed into your urinary tract during all that activity, so it's guard against urinary infections.
244844
you probably have to pee during the act, but you don't know cuz your body is supressing it, nature tells you body that making babies comes before going tinkle!
217267
The same reason you sweat after exercise. A lot of energy is used during intercourse.
661010
yes it is normal... you should always pee after sex to prevent bladder infections.
946899
Unfortuantely I don't think there are any EASY solutions.  I'm 29 years old, male, and have basically the same problem.  In childhood, until I was about 12 years old, I used to do this every night.  Since then it only happens occasionally, but still often enough to be really frustrating.  Like you, I never do it in the daytime even if I sleep for several hours at a time, and I also notice that it is more likely to happen on nights when I am very tired, depressed, or under stress.\n\n   Since this has happened all your life, you probably don't have any serious medical problems taht will be a threat to your long-term health.  I have been tested for about everything imaginable and there is nothing seriously wrong with me.  Basically, I'm told it happens because my urinary bladder is smaller than normal for an adult, and because I sometimes sleep too soundly to know when my bladder is full and wake up to use the toilet -- especially when I am really tired or stressed.\n\n   I don't know what else to suggest to you except to hang in there -- this happens to a lot more young adults than you would think!  If I'm traveling and need to be very careful not to wet the bed on a particular night, I've found that by setting an alarm clock for 2 hours after I go to sleep, and getting up to urinate at that point whether my bladder feels full or not, I can make sure that I don't wet the bed on that particular night.  I don't do this every night, though, because it interrupts my sleep too much, but that can at least keep it from happening in a place where it would be really embarrassing.\n\n   I hope this is helpful.  If you would like to talk more, please feel free to write to me using the e-mail address in my profile, and I would be happy to share more of my experiences with you.
1049931
if he's yr fiance you should be able to talk to him about it...Has it always happened, if it itches or does he still feel like he has to pee after he's done peeing? Talk about it... and humans can contract things from years ago and they just don't feel it's THAT bothersome so they live with it and it can become "Normal" for them.  But you need to have it checked out for both of you... You want to be healthy and you want yr man to be healthy!  No blaming, no accusing (like some of the responses  your gonna get)
1085522
Alcohol makes you urinate more often in general, even without sex.  It inhibits a hormone caused ADH, which normally limits the volume your kidney excretes into your bladder.  This is the same reason alcohol makes you dehydrated. \n\nI would guess the sex conncection, is that most sexual techniques put pressure on the bladder.  This, along with the increased fluid in your bladder causes the nerves in your bladder to tell your brain to urinate more often.  \n\nYou could also have an infection, but if you had an infection you should have the urge to urinate even when you are not having sex.  If you are not having pain with urination or a discharge, I think it is unlikely you are having an infection.  \n\nAs always, check with your doctor if you are not sure.
316242
That's actually a result of REM (rapid eye movement) sleep.  It is commmon to have an erection, ie "morning wood", as a result of the stimulation of the brain during this type of sleep. It usually occurs both when you first fall asleep and before you wake up, and is also the portion of rest when it is believed that humans have dreams.\n\nIn essense, your resting brain causes your massive morning erection, which then become a "piss hard on" when you get up to pee.  It has nothing to do with the fact that your bladder is full, you just had too much to drink the night before.  =-)
252306
My guess is that its somehow sexually connected (you are using the same organs afterall!!) Have you noticed that sometimes you are turned on, and you go take a leak, and after that dont feel like having sex anymore?
650054
She is having an orgasm. She is allowing herself to be free and let her self go. She's NOT peeing, but it's a feeling of something simliar and if a woman relaxes enough she can make her self/allow her self to do it.  It's impossible to pee during sex therefore it isn't pee.
354353
It's not normal for a woman to "squirt" vaginal fluid or urine during sex.  It is normal for a woman to ooze vaginal fluid from the ducts that are around the vaginal opening.\n\nIf there is squirting from the vagina, it could be just that the woman's ducts produce more than average, or it could be the sign of a vaginal infection.  Many women have bacterial infections and don't know it, and when the pustules burst or the ducts are already irritated, they will secrete with some pressure.\n\nAlso, a fairly common sexually transmitted disease called trichomoniasis will cause an extreme amount of discharge.\n\nIn the case of a bacterial infection, the secretions may be clear with whitish and yellowish streaks, or somewhat thin, or with traces of blood.  It might also be very smelly like when you pop an old zit in a soft place.\n\nIt might not be very smelly at all, but if there's blood in it, that's a clear sign of possible infection.\n\nWith trichomoniasis, the discharge may be thick and seem whipped and creamy because of the air bubbles in it from the parasites.  Also, when this discharge comes in contact with male ejaculate, it will have a distinctly fishy odor.  Some people think it will smell fishy on its own, but that's not the case.  It's the combination that gives off that tell tale aroma of sun ripened chum.\n\nTo know whether or not one's squirting is natural or because of a problem, a person who notices this should have regular std examinations.  If you're all clear then it's all good.  Enjoy it, and "don't forget to bring a towel."
461131
I know this is an embarassing condition, and talking to a Dr would help but it is hard to bring up.  Maybe it would be easier to bring it up to another female.  The school nurse would also be able to help.  She will not judge you or make fun of you, but will handle the matter professionally.  Some questions that he or she will want to know and for you to consider:\n\n1.  Has this been a problem since childhood, or is it a recent occurence?\n\n2.  Do you have any other muscle control problems or any other type of nerve disorders?\n\n3. Are you having any certain emotions that may be causing it, (not just and effect of it) and how many times a day does this happen?\n\n4.  are there any other symptoms that accompany it such as tingling, burning?  Do you have a fever or other pains?  This may indicate a bladder, kidney, or complete urinary tract infection.  Have you had unprotected sex? It could be caused by an STD.\n\n5.  Is your urine unusually smelly, have floaty things in it, pink or bloody?\n\n6. Are you able to feel the NEED to urinate (us people who think we know everything call it "urgency")? OR, do you feel the need to urinate and then you try to go but just a trickle comes out? How many times a day do you pee?  How much do you drink?\n\nthere are probably more things that you need to consider but this is just a small list.  I hope you find out what is going on.  Just be ready to answer some of these questions.  I hope this helps.
522406
It is because the urethra (the pee tube) exspans to release the bladder.
135933
Hey girl, look dont be so down on yourself! I know youre self consious, and its a horrible thing to happen. But you have to ask yourself why this is happening. It could be very much psychological or you could have weak bladder control. I know its embarrasing but the sooner you get it checked out by the doctor, the sooner it stops happening to you.\nIt happened to me once, but it was psychological i think. I was coming home from france. I had been spiked over there, and wasnt sure what happened. Later on, i found out that I was raped. It was my body's reaction to the trauma i suppose.\n\nYou should talk to someone about this, it does help. Otherwise you might get depressed about it and it would then lead to other anxiety disorders.\nWell done for putting the question out there. So brave of you.\nIf you get any snide answers,ignore them.\nHope you find the answers you need.\n(A tip for you is to excercise your pelvic floor muscles -  Next time you go to the toilet, squeeze your muscles and see how it stops your flow,youll see what im talking about. Then squeeze these muscles like 20 times a day or something.)\nGood luck!
665614
We certainly do!  I don't know what it is, but as soon as I step into the shower, I feel an uncontrollable urge to realease my bladder. I might add that it's a good feeling too!
1186898
Does it burn when you pee?  Do you pee very small amounts?  Does it feel like you have to, but when you do go you hardly pee at all?\n\nThat sounds like a urinary tract infection.  It happens if you're new at intercourse, haven't had intercourse in a while, or have used a product in your genital area that doesn't agree with you, like a bubble bath or soap product.\n\nIf this is the case, you'll need to get medical attention - go to the doctor and get checked out.  Most likely you'll get a cycle of antibiotics.
580475
This may be a dumb myth, but I've heard that peeing right after sex reduces the likliness of pregnancy/diseases. So if you are maybe not doing it will help. As for the shower, I think the other answerers have it pinned if there is anything behind it. Have you considered that "take your temp." plan?