Is it a sin to live with and sleep with your boyfriend b4 u are married?
537740
yes no yes yes \n hell probably
450107
i'm a spouse and i think that sex is very healthy for the marriage. And when you get married it should get better because there are no rules , you are married now and you should do more than you used to because thats you partner for life in the eyes of God. And God says that when you get married the bed is under file nobody's watching and you can get nasty and dirty as much as you want, thats the beauty of beeig married, there is no sin in it.
663954
According to the Christian religion it is wrong. Jesus said specifically not to say any bad words without a qualification that being in the bedroom is ok. Now, we have a free will but He said not to do it.
546670
No but goes back to the bible. It is written that only a husband should know his wife in that manner. Meaning that you should Waite for marriage to sleep with someone. If it is against the Lord, if you follow his teachings then it should something that you are against.
220397
Definitely.  Just call me Job. It is ok to argue with God. He gave us good minds to use, and arguing with authority is not a sin. However, refusing to do what He says I think is sinful, and usually He won't let you sleep until you do what He says...   :~)
395644
I prefer marriage over just living together. It tells me he loves me enough to commit to being together for the rest of our lives. To stand before God, family and friends and declare his undying love for me. It's the only way for me.
295098
Married or not if you have a commitment with someone you should not cheat. You should ask yourself if you are wanting to cheat on someone, why not just leave that person and let them move on to someone who cares for them. I consider cheating when you do anything intimately with another person other than your significant other. That could be holding hands, intercourse, kissing, and even sharing and in depth meaningful conversation. It is wrong because you are taking something sacred from your partner. People, I think cheat because they need some kinda of reassurance that they can attract someone other than they're partner. This is caused by low self esteem. If you are contemplating this don't hurt your partner for your own self gratification. ITS WRONG
963759
Sounds like a no. You have been having sex with him, probably living with him - he has no need to get married; you are giving him all that he wants and he is totally comfortable. Talk to him again, and get married before the baby comes!
76258
Don't go against your religion.  God is more important than your boyfriend.  How long have you been going out with him?  If he has sex with you but there is no commitment, you will be in much worse shape in the end.  Wait until you are married so you don't get hurt.
885380
Oh my word!  It is not a sin.  I would make sure you both believe the same religiously!!  Make sure you are both christians before you marry.  If you do.
1079189
My understanding is, anything sexual outside marriage or involving more than just the two of you is sinful.
669258
No it is not. The thing is that people fail to realise that dating someone and living with them istwo different ball games. WHen u're just dating someone you see them occasionally not the majority of your day.. u dont have to put up with wierd quirks, bad habits or things like that which you wont be aware of unless u live with them. You're also able to test how well u can put up with this person for a long peroid of time. Alot of couples get married without knowing things before hand like their parthner is a slob or he becomes really annoying after a point.. u need to do these things and its best experienced when u do live with them for a while before marriage
1176824
Personally I think you should have sex before marriage and live with the person. Marriage is forever you need to know if you can stand that person and their ways, all their ways. Now my religion says another but I listen to my instinct first.
1052622
your doin it because you can  and you want someone to give you the attention your husband isn't giving you but having sex with them if find that very wrong why don't you have one of them buy you a vibrator.so what im sayin is if you really loved your husband you wouldn't be sleepin with other men. commitment is what you lack that or you have no self control.
1041039
By being physical with someone, you mean being intimate. According to the Bible it is okay in the marriage relationship. Being sexual is meant to be enjoyed as part of a covenant. While kissing and gropping seems fun, it comes with a cost. The more you are intimate in these seemingly harmless ways, the more you let your guard down and the more you want to go all the way. Think about this, would you kiss or grope in front of a parent? If the answer is no, than remember everything you do, in public or private is being looked on by God. When you do anything intimate within the boundaries of marriage God can bless it, when you are not in the boundaries, it leads to guilt and God will not bless what goes against his word!
161773
Where did you get the idea that sex is wrong?..There is no written rule there. The bible says "you can be married if you feel you need to be , but you don't have to be".. It actually says "pick one and stay with them" That is Gods own personal advise on that subject!..You don't have to be married, just monogamous. quit kicking your own arse and be in love for pete's sake!
270487
no! you must learn to live with someone before you marry them. This way you will know EXACTLY what your getting yourself into yes?