Why do you eventualy get sick of a best friend?
535478
i feel the same way with my bf sometimes \nthe reason way is cause you know so much about her that you're just like blah you know \nbut don't act all bored around her or you'll loose her for ever.
899743
If she was a true friend no matter what she shouldn't be treating you this way.just because you make new friends doesn't mean you have to get rid of the old ones.try and talk to her find out what is her problem.if she doesnt change then you need to find a new friend someone who is sincere and trust worthy and who will always be by your side,good luck.
463138
Your friend is very insecure- if she can make you look bad she feels superior.\n\nYou need to find another best friend because if she were truly your friend she would not do the things she does to you.\n\nWith friends like her you certainly do not need any enemies
938779
Sure, it happens often.  Most people just don't accept others completely right away.  Some others are trying to hide something from me, for whatever reason.  I have enough real friends to avoid others that might diminish me.  Boundaries can be healthy.\n\nHate whatever you want, but hate is a waste of energy.\n\nFriendly is one thing, friendship exists on many different levels, and some people have their own methods of allowing friends in, and others have borders in place for self-protection.  True friendship can only be proven over time, and through shared experiences or tribulations.\n\nI have no answer for that.\n\nSome people want pets, but I would recommend something other than a peeve, you have to feed peeves emotions.
945458
Whenever anyone gets into a relationship they tend to have tunnel vision for awhile, they tend to devote much of their time to the other persons wants over even their own. So themselves and other friends basically get left out of the picture for awhile.  Your friendship will probably come back but unfortunately not until your friend realizes that he needs more than one person to make his life complete. Sorry it is a hard time to loose a good friend, and if he has become a WORSE person than before, then maybe just drop a call and say hey dude, I am happy for you and all, but you are totally different, call me when you get a chance to hang out I miss that in a DUDE way =) Good Luck............
448968
perhaps it's more frustration or helplessness you feel?  That this bad thing happened and you care for your friend but you really don't know how to help, what to do, or to say?  Maybe you are thinking as well that this is going to change your friendship in some ways, that things are not going to be the way they were?\n Or possibly it has made you aware of life's fragility, that nothing is guaranteed and somehow shown you your own mortality and that of those around you
722606
I do not believe any one stays best friends forever...\nThe reason being people change in their views, their habits, they marry, they move, they have kids, they divorce, they have financial problems or drug problems or marital problems and ones life is always so much more difficult or easy than someone elses and that can cause friction in friendships...\nSo no matter how long you have been friends, there is no guarantee it will last...
395633
yea if u dont break up wit her then ur best friend would hate u, but there is a chance ur best friend might hate u for going out with his or her lil sister
229869
That's exactly what happens to me with a close friend of mine.. \nso i've been thinking about it hard lately .. esp after i tried every way with her.. i talked to her about it many times .. i got mad at her.. i forgave her a thousand times.. so the last thing i decided was to tell her for the last time the way i hate it when she does things that hurt my feelings and told her that now she knows what bothers me and that im not gona talk to her or call her until she thinks deeply about it and realizes that i really get hurt and make sure she wont do it again and is ready to change the way she treats me in order for the past not to repeat itself
618044
my best friend. at one time in my life, a few years ago when i was eleven or twelve, my parents divorced and this guy broke up with me and i was really hard on myself for a while, and i never wanted to do anything anymore, like i lost interest in life and stuff. All i thought was, "what's the point?" until i told my friend. I told her everything. My confusion, my anger, my depression... and she helped to sort me out. And now i've become a much better person. I'm the way i used to be. I'm myself again. Those few months when i had no self-confidence and stuff, they were really horrible and scary, but my best friend talked to me and comforted me. Without her, where would i be now? I'm glad i had a friend like her to look out for me. My life now is much happier than it was then, and it is much better than it would be if she hadn't helped me. I hoped that answered your question! :)
1006611
Isn't it surprising how easily one gets into a 'situation' without really meaning to? It´s time to move on, you'll survive. Stop seeing the 'ex-best friend' and maybe you two will get together again in the future, much wiser for the experience.
934238
I just got over a relationship where my best friend (who was also his x girlfriend) and him kept staying friends. I didnt really let him know how much it bothered me, but now that i look back, it totally bothered me... and now that were not together, im so glad its over because that issue was so annoying, not worth dealing with. Tell him to loose her and if he can't, drop him!
424596
maybe your best friend put alot of emotion into your situation if you had a bad breakup with your ex and really cares about your happines and dont think your happy with your ex......or maybe your best friend is in love with you
745255
I have the same situation..I like them both but one doesn't like one of my bestfriend...I realized,if she treat me as a friend she should accept & respect me & my bestfriends.There is no reason to hate my bestfriend because she is not bad..Maybe,if my bestfriend is bad,rude or something which is not acceptable maybe i can understand my friend.But there is no reason because i've known her for so long and became my bestfriend.I realized,that my other friend has been jealous that's why she hate her and she just doesn't like my bestfriend's style.If i were you,as long as you know,trust and you like your bestfriend there's no way to worry about your bestfriend.But the other friend,you have to ask him/her why?then try to analyze and figure ot out...
205016
Ummm.  If you hate her, then is she really your best friend?  Seems contradictory to me.  \n\nWhy don't you just hang out with people you actually enjoy spending time with? \n\nGood luck.
115369
maybe she doesn't like you any more and has a new best friend far better than you. Just maybe. Or maybe her parents think/know that you are a bad influence on her. Or maybe she knows your a little pchyco.
246946
This new friend seems like she's a lot more in tune with you than your old friend.  It's OK.  In my lifetime, I have gone through many best friends... only because as you grow up, your needs change and so does the company you keep.  If this new girl seems like someone you want  to spend more time with, do it!  Don't get rid of your old friend, and for goodness sakes, don't have a huge fight with her or anything, just try to ease out of the time you spend with her...  Make new friend, but keep the old... as is said.  You can have a great friendship with both, it just may be different as time goes by.  This new girl, probably won't be you best friend forever either... but for now, if she's what you need in a friend, then be her friend and don't feel bad.  Good Luck!