Girls/women only- if your best female friend told you one day that she used to be male, what would you say?
547827
I'd probably just say "oh, ok then" cos that's just me. I would probably feel really special though, she must really trust you and see you as a good enough friend to tell you this. If she has never given away any "maleness" then she is a woman, that's why she "used" to be a man. She thinks like a woman, behaves like a woman, wants to be a woman, she just happens to have been born with a penis she didn't want!
1067720
Hon,\nIt may be hard to "lose" this friend who you have undoubtedly gone through hell and high water with.  HOWEVER, what you need to keep in ming is that your friend is still going to be the same person internally that she was when you were both growing up.  If you truly love your friend and you truly view her as your friend, then you will accept that getting a sex change is going to make her happy.  Sure, it's going to take some getting used to seeing her become a him, but you've got to anticipate that he is going to have a lot of hesitation projected towards him to begin with and a supportive friend is really going to help in his progression.
269600
UUUHHHH...What did U do with UR OLD best friend???
54843
I had a best friend like this.. you want to know her trick...??  She puts out, or promises to.. don't be like her, you are better than that.\n\nMy friendship with her ended because I became aware of how she interacted with boys, and I didn't want to be labeled as her friend since I didn't want to be labeled as loose..\n\nJust my opinion.. but still...
674094
I personally would tell him that it's not the best idea to lament over the old gf with the new one too much.  It would make me feel as if he was measuring me against her to qualify me.  BUT, you can offer to talk about her with him in context if he just needs to express stuff.
463840
I was in love with my best friend. Then I married her. And I'm still in love with her. And she's still my best friend. *Flame spins in a circle, hands over heart* Is that a strong enough hint? Yes, Soccerstar is right... tell her.
475831
It's a tough one.  But, from a female perspective...don't change your attitude towards her.  Most guys would start acting like a jerk towards her because they're hurt and can't handle the uncomfortable situation that they are now in as her friend.  I think you should just blow it off, don't make a big deal about it.  Act like she was the girl of yesterday, and a friend of today.  She could have been telling the truth or just making up an excuse because she's just not interested or ready for a relationship at the time.  If you show her that our friendship comes first she just may "see the light" and come around.  Or maybe not, and if so, don't sweat it so much-at least you'll still have the friendship, and hope for something more as long as you want a chance.
612995
I would say:\n\n"Wow. I'm touched. I like you, but I like you as a friend. I just dont want to lose this friendship we have. I would hate it if things changed between us."
423711
Personally, I believe that I would try the honest approach. It is my personal experience that women respond to a man who is open, honest and DIRECT. Don't beat around the bush about it, because your time with her is apparently limited. If that is the case, you have nothing to lose and everything to gain.\n\nWho knows, maybe she feels the same way about you but is having problems telling you as well. Look her DIRECTLY in the eye and tell her that your time together has been wonderful and you have connected with her in a way you never thought imaginable with another woman. Tell her that your friendship together means the world to you and it has grown into a deep respect and you hope she feels the same towards you.\n\nI understand what you are going through. I have been there and bought that tee shirt. Good Luck and I hope it works out.
873288
Female. Female.\n\nYou couldn't pay me enough to be a male! I am happy as I am, thanks :-))
148524
"Hey guy's i'm having an affair with the same sex, just thought i should tell you...."\n\n\n^maybe something like that?^\n\n\n\n\n\nJust tell them, there is no "How"
528032
"I'm dumping your for your best friend.  I just went out with you for the sex, but she is way better than you are at it plus she's prettier so..see ya around red"\n\numm...just for example...like IF a man said that to me..uh yeah...:-)
142655
best answers to give from a female point of view\n1. What are you thinking about? \nyou\n2. Do you love me? \nof course\n3. Do I look fat in this? \nabsolutly not (be careful this could be a trick question tho)\n4. Do you think she is prettier than me? \nof course I was just comparing her to you honey and you come out on top every time\n5. What would you do if I died? \nI would never come out of the depression that that event would put me in.\n\ngood luck guys lol.
1109887
well talk to her in person and say i made a mistake \n\n               "boys are whatever and friends are forever"
844811
I think I would want to come back as the opposite sex. I've already lived this life. I'd like to see what it would be like to live as the opposite sex. Then I would understand both sides.
56811
Show her the new you, show her what she has been missing for those two years!! \nCharm her\nAnd BE YOU!!!
496431
male or female friend?