Please.... I Have Sister Probs... Someone Help Me!!!!?
539888
Normally, my advice would be to stay out of it BUT, this time, I would recommend that you say something...especially since it is your sister and she was in public not even being discreet!  Please do not confront her in front of someone though...do it  when you are alone together.  \n\nTell her that you saw her with a guy that was not _____ (her husband) and that you saw them holding hands and kissing.  Tell her that, since you stumbled upon them be accident, so can other people who know her.  \n\nDo not tell her that you saw her on someone's page...it will look like you are deliberately spying on her.  Do not include that information.\n\nYou would be not overstepping your bounds to ask her why she got married if she is going to hurt her husband and tell her truthfully that you don't want to see him hurt.  Good luck!
339623
All I can say is that you and your sister both know better and need to nip this in the budd. She is your sister! There is a big difference between a "sister" and a "lover." What yall two have been doing is called incest/lust. If she was to get pregnant yals child would be deformed, not to mention the heartache that your family has to endure when they find out. If yall don't end this matter now, yall will never be able to fully recover yalls brother-sister relationship as it should be. I would suggest sleeping in separate rooms from now on.  Also, ask yourself this question, if you died today. do you think you would go to heaven or hell for all eternity. This is something for you to seriously think about. The Bible states that all liars, sexual immoral, adulters, etc place is in the lake of fire. Please repent yall before its too late.
1094479
talk to your sister and come to an agreement about it.
585597
Pray. And realize you can't force her to come home. All you can do is be there for her as a sister and let her make her own mistakes. If you push or manipulate, she won't feel safe in turning to you.\n\nAnd I'll be praying for you as well... :)
763768
What were they thinking? You have a brother. How cool is that? What to do from here? I would ask your sisters why they didn't tell you. Don't be too quick to be pissed yet. There may be a reason. I can't think of any but give them a chance. Have they been good sisters in the past or have they always left you out? Take your time and get your ducks in a row. It would be great to find out he is a real nice guy that anyone would love to have as a brother. You don't have to hurry or rush to judgment. I sure hope things work out. Good Luck.
798704
From the look of things, your sister is a pretty vain and self-centred person (unlike you).\n\nYou should really appreciate that this guy in your life is a genuine one who loves the 'Real You'. Very few people are as lucky as you are to get such true love. DON'T LET HIM GO AT ANY COST.  \n\nAs far as your sister is concerned, try to develop a relationship with her that is more than just 'skin-deep and cosmetic'. Tell her that your fiancee is really special for you and just because he doesn't whim your sister's fancies -- that doesn't make him a lesser guy.\n\nDon't pay too much attention to your sister's comments about this guy --- Remember you can't and don't need to please everybody.\n\nJust let her be and I'm sure with time she'll accept this quite easily because psychology of such people says that superfluous people are poor at holding on to grudges for too long. \n\n\nBEST OF LUCK with this man...
557224
You need to really sit your sister down and have a long talk with her...  Why does she do that to you?  Jealousy?\n\nYou need to tell her that you love her, but that you don't appreciate and are very hurt by what she is doing...  Give her an ultimatum..  If she doesn't stop, you are going to cut her off of your life...  It's mean, but maybe she will learn her lesson, if she loves you, she will stop....
938750
First of all, God bless you for realizing that probably one of the things that your sister needs the most right now is someone who is going to treat her as if she were "normal" again and not baby her. But with that said, you wont forget that she has this disease. What you can do, is let her lead the way. Give her your time and let her decide what to do with it. God bless both of you.
1044872
I feel for you.  You really care about your sister and are doing your best for her.  Keep trying.  Don't give up.  Sometimes things are just beyond your control.  When that happens all you can do is keep swimming and call for help.  Pray if you want.
790979
You can try!\n\nBless you sister
629221
Tell her how much you love her, a few good memories you both have together doing something as sisters, and how lucky her husband is to have her and if he screws up you'll kick his a$$!  You want to have a good one, but not long, something that drills the point home.  Make the husband feel welcome to the family though, because if not, it really affects your relationship with her...
460089
well just tell your $%$$##%%^ sister in law to go &&^%$#$@#@## and %%#$##$%^ and *((*%^##@@ ---that should do it!
131084
if you wanted something new and she knew it confront her nicly, instead of being on the defense try saying  mom, i feel left out because you gave my sister what she wanted but i got her old _______. I just want to be treated equally.    that works for me and im 13 so it might work for you   good luck!
743615
=what a loving sister you are.  Every family and probate Court have free legal counsel.  I would call and find out about this and go and talk to thee lawyer.  He/she could be thee answer to your problem.  Best of luck to you and your siblings..
404008
Let your mom know that you'd like to spend quality time with her.  She really might not know that you feel neglected.  Talk to her--and to the evil sister.
141818
I could never hate my sisters, sometimes I wanna beat them yes that is for sure... but the older we all get the more we appriciate eachother, and the more we appriciate our time together because now we all have our own lives and familys that we're not together as much anymore! I wish that when we all lived in the same house we didnt fight as much! so be nice to your siblings no matter how rough it is sometimes... enjoy your time together!
767971
Hi "Dog" (cute nickname.) Right off the top I would have to say that not only do you have too much on your plate, but perhaps you're assuming too many responsibilities. There's no reason for YOU to feel guilty because your sister's husband isn't there for her. You CANNOT be responsible for everyone. You seem a very sensitive person--& only 16! Gosh. Do you have anyone you can talk with, preferably someone who isn't critical, judgmental, dictatorial--from whom you could get input & hopefully, some reinforcement? I believe you need this more than anything--except--that your well being is the very most important thing with which you must cope right now.  A freind would help. There's nothing intrinsically wrong with caring about others, but not at you expense. I hope someone will give you some thoughts that YOU can implement, & my very best to you.