Whats the best thing to do when your boyfriend or girlfriend are really jealous?
534959
run ,if theres no trust now it will get way worse.
573367
It's human natural to be jealous. \n\nI remember one time when my ex-gf was always hangin out with this boy in school, although i know they're clean, but still I don't like it, I'm kinda pissed.
1044830
cool a love/hate relationship\nI hate that,i'm jealous I want that kinda relationship,you loser,you are so sweet for staying with her.....\nGood luck!
570283
dont feel guilty.\nits none of their monkey business\nface this one of a kind challenge in your life\nlet the people know how much you love your boyfriend\ndefend your relationship.
1040620
Konichiwa!\n\nFirst off. Some guys are defintly over jealous. Sit down and talk with him. I think what he is afraid of is you cheating on him, reassure him that you are not going to. And that you deserve the freedom to talk to anyone that you wish. This is not the old days where slavery and Housewives were kept behind locked doors. This is the 20th century.
397696
I've had that happen. Be both of their friends! \nBut don't do anything to make them jealous (not that I thought you might), and don't go out of your way to keep them separate. My two friends eventually came to respect each other. Hopefully yours will too! Prayer is always good too.
142810
Show your boyfriend why you are better for him than she is. Be attentive to his needs, laugh at his jokes, be there for him and avoid places that the witch will be at.
925128
Your own or the other person's jealousy? Because, if you don't know the other person well enough to trust them and know they aren't cheating on  you then you darn well don't know them well enough to sleep with them.\n\nIf they're jealous of  you, first ask yourself if you objectively have given them a reason to be jealous. If you have not, then ask yourself what kind of issues this person has becauase "power and control issues" where they want to run  your life for you mask themselves as jealousy. They aren't telling you to quit wearing minis because they think you'll cheat on them but because they want to tell you what to wear and how to wear your hair and who you can talk to.\n\nIf a guy has "power and control issues" then run away! Dump him quick! They're jerks and it only gets worse.
1018655
get a bf and see if your crush is jealous
515954
Tell him how it makes you feel.  I would be insanely jealous and po'ed.  Don't accuse him of anything because it will get him on the defensive and tell you you're being ridiculous.  Say it along the lines of..."Whenever I see you get those messages from your ex's or talk to me about them, it really makes me feel..."  Talk only about how if affects you.\n\nIf he has any concern for you, he would stop.  If he doesn't, then if you really like him, ignore it afterwords even if it kills you inside.  It's the only way.\n\nOn the other hand, if you think this guy's being an bunghole, drop him like the selfish, arrogant retard he is.
1008495
It's totally understandable.. honestly, i think it's kinda cute that she feels jealous about it.. =) just be even moooore sweet with your gf, and don't stop telling her that your just acting, that that has absolutely nothing to do with feelings or attraction towards the other girl, that its just your job to make it look real.. that she is the ONLY one! =)
842167
I have a jealous partner! I love him to bits, (he had a tough time with his last girlfriend), anyhoo I have been with him for 5 years and just do my best to reassure him, If I meet new people I make sure he gets introduced to them as soon as possible so he doesn't jump to conclusions, I include him in plans and nights out because to be honest I prefer to have him out with me anyway, as I said I love him and enjoy his company! I think it would be strange to have a partner that doesn't get jealous....it would be like they didn't care! If you love the guy help him through it if you can't be arsed with the hassle dump him!
335384
Sometimes I get that way with my boyfriend too but what helps me is that every time I am with him he will out of no where tell me that he is so happy to be with me and that he wouldn't know what do to with out me. You should start doing that, she might still get jealous (cause that's what women do) but she will trust you more
977163
As hard as it is, you have to avoid getting jealous.  He's dating YOU not her.  He broke up with her and chose to date YOU.  If he really wanted to be with her, he could break up with you.  At the same time, it's probably not a bad idea to tell him that you're a little comfortable that they're still so close.  If he respects you, he'll understand and try to make you feel better.  Good luck!
708724
Trying to make u feel jealous!Go get her!
1149700
if you're a friend..do it this way...get to know the gal's weak points..if she's insensible or freaky...wht makes her angry....envy works best here....to make her envious u'll probably need to use a girl and motivate the boy and the new gal to become best friends.....or rather first say all right things abt teh gf and then allege that she's tormenting u....sayin wrong things abt u....if u'r gud friends with the guy..he'll support u....otherwise just make the guy change his skool/city/country as answered already
588846
well.. my ex-boyfriend makes me jealous ALL the time... but then i just stop and think that it doesn't really matter beacuse it's his life to lead mistakes and to carry on with what he wants. Jealousy should not lead your life.. but it should try and help you become stronger.