how do i get this guy to like me but he never flirts with me but he does to the other girls?
541029
i think he is doing at because he likes u but u when u talk the guy that u like but u should flirt with him but if u don't know how to flirt then ask him out
895635
don't put your self done! i am going throw the same problem its like every tome he is around me he is so polite and dreamy and cool but when he is around his others friends he dose not want to talk to me! but ever one said that he told them he likes me but it really dose seem like it dose ask on of your friends that can kip a secret to find out how he likes but don't get to cared away with it. i did and i cried for weeks! but i hope you have really good luck and just don't let him break your heart! good luck :)
357232
just be urself around him..dont be bad like those other chicks..if he still ignores u, then i would just move on..cause those kind of guys r usually bad news..
349938
be yourself. In order for him to like you, he has to like YOU. not someone else. unless he jumps from girl to girl alot, i doubt he will just dump his girl for you, but if he does, would you really want to date someone like that? cause you never know when he will turn around and do it to you. just give it time, he will come around. be friends before dating. and if it dosnt work out, then there was a reason that it turned out that way
156671
ask him to confess his feelings for you before the people he knows. if he does than its true. if he holds back than its not. secret is that if he likes other girl than he won't do it before that girl.
853869
Just take control. Tell him enough with the chit chat and flirting. Say something like OK, listen here, I like you, you like me now lets go out and have fun. Some guys just need a little boost in their ego to get going.
340788
Begin to talk to him.  Hang out with him and if he likes you, he'll ask you out.  If he doesn't and asks the other girl out, you aren't meant to be and that's really SAD but it's the part of life.  You'll move on and you'll find another guy your boy crazy.  It took me a couple of months for my self not liking a guy...js
40653
ok!! since i am a guy...the way guys tell a gal if they like her is if they are rude to her(you)!so if he has done so then go up to him and say do you know who i like??and tell him he knows him very well! and who's class they are in!!and then if he like you he will either say kool or run and ignore you!
1044986
He is a guy, guys suck at picking up subtle signs. If you want to show him you like him you will have to do something that will communicate that on a level a guy can relate too. Ask him out to see a movie with you, then choose a romantic date movie, be flirty, not slutty and if he has any feelings for you and fails to demonstrate them after you do that move on sister, he is not ready yet.
465315
The problem I see here is that you, as well as me, are the kind of person who assumes too much and is always dreading to take risks because you wouldn't like other people (=not only guys) to dislike you or reject you.  If the game is ASSUMING then why don't you assume that he is as shy as you are and he just doesn't find the way to approach you.  Get rid of assumptions!  You won't go on him and tell him... 'Hey, I like you... no wait... I like you so much that I even think I love you..."  Nahhhhh!  If it is difficult for you to talk to guys they think of him as a girl (=don't laugh I mean it)  I also went to a gilrs school but it was for 3 years and besides I have a brother, anyway, IT DOES WORK!  Any time I wanted to tell something to a guy I thought 'ok he is the same of a girl because both are people'.\n\nThe obstacle here is the fact that you like him so pretend (=just pretend) that you don't like him and that you are going to go on ANYONE else... this way you won't be so nervous and it will be easier.\n\nOnce you talk then you can think on making your movements, you'll be more confident then... you might discover that he is shy too, or that he has the same feelings for you or that he just likes you as a friend (crossed fingers that not).  \n\nIn short,\n#1 Do not assume too much.\n#2 Take the risk.\n#3 Pretend that you don't like him and go on him.\n#4 Talk with him, know him, have fun.\n#5 What other people think is not yerr business.\n\n,-)
1073064
You should find a guy who will like you back.  This guy is either flirting with your friends because he's not interested in you like that, or because he knows you like him and wants to make you jealous.  Either way, you deserve someone who will take a genuine interest in you.
996386
chill out  you are being paranoyed you should ask him if he likes you or if he likes other girls if he likes you just ask him out if he says no just say "can we be friends?" and let the relationship grow from there and sooner or later you will go out with him
414528
Let him know your interested if you haven't, so he knows his options.  Don't try to be better then this girl. You are who you are, if he likes you for you, then great. If he likes the other girl, thats something you can't help.  But if he doesn't like you, he's not the right guy, move on cuz theres so many guys out there. he's not the only one.
270420
whoa, if he's flirting with every girl, you might want to stop and ask yourself if he's really the kind of guy you want to be with.  chances are, you don't especially because guys like that are more prone to bad behaviors.  try finding a nice guy that will flirt with you and only you.  and just remember to be yourself.  any guy will like you for who you are, you can't get a guy to like you for who you aren't.
438485
Hey, yea this guy may like you, but he wants to be sure whether u like him or not.But hes 14 so he may be immature. Give him a few hints about your feelings and watch out for eye contact between him and other girls whom he is nice to.
955064
Hey, sometimes things just don't work out. I know you really like this guy; we've all been there, I promise. Maybe this flirting that's going back and forth will lead somewhere, maybe it won't, but don't beat yourself up for it. Try and get involved in something else you're passionate about- reading, or hanging with your girlfriends, or anything. Just don't do anything to break up him and his girlfriend, okay? That never leads anywhere good. Good luck!
299386
What's the problem? I'm also shy around every girl, but it doesn't keep me from flirting. I just need someone "receptive"... Otherwise, things can get really complicated. Try being more "open" when a guy comes to talk to you, it will help. If he wants to talk to you, it's because he likes you, so it's up to you! Let it happen...