My bf wants it 3 times a day, how do I get him to slow down?
549500
He has a strong sex drive. Skipping work once in a while to have sex sounds like fun to me though. He's probably not going to change how often he wants sex - why do girls always think they can change their boyfriend? You may need someone who's slightly less needy. That sounds a little excessive to me - he could be using that to control you. He is also not considerate of you in trying to manipulate you into doing more. The getting mad part is a huge problem - you shouldn't put up with that.
642882
I will ask one question: Do u do it frequently enough for him?\n\n1. If the answer is NO, then he is normal, and u should talk about it coz he is gonna look for the satisfaction somwhere else.\n\n2. If the answer is YES, then  he has a problem. He is obssessed with it and u gonna look for ways on how to make him control this urge.., or do it as frequently as he wants..
1065092
Practice, practice, practice, everytime you suck him off trying going a little deeper than the last time and a little deeper than after a while you will do it. this won't happen overnight though. more women should want to do that
103687
i think you should just take it easy. go on slow and see what happen. no point forcing him, make him close up more
76721
Choose a way so that you are in control of what's going on (he's not moving).  Believe it or not it's much easier to control if the girl is doing the work.  Then ask him to signal you with a tap or something when you should stop moving until he is OK again.  Keep doing this until you guys get it right.  If you mess up well it's all just fun so don't worry about it.  Just keep practicing.  Soon you'll learn what his queues are and he'll be able to tell further in advance when to tap you.  Eventually you won't have to totally stop, you can just change the movements so that you don't set him off.  Good luck.
537411
give it to him more often
448748
no no no...no big no!!!they are men!!!and they are born with it.....!!so if you dont want him to be horny all the time ...then consider him to control himself..!!\nor you could always do sumthin to distract him...!!!
1177281
Is he a young man?\n\nSounds like it... I suggest working with him to increase his "ride" time.   The grab method... or some "detain" cream... or perhaps wearing a condom sometimes helps.\n\nYou must have some "sugar walls" there babe!!!  hehehe\n\nbut seriously... if this is a problem for you... as it seems it should be... work with him.   You both will enjoy it more!
1164160
Nope.  Frankly, I'm the same way.  My gf let me know it bothers her, so, I'm trying to make adjustments.  But, if you keep asking him, it'll just take longer and make him more irritated, maybe to the point where he can't deal with it anymore.  I'd let him know it bothers you, and leave it.  If he's going to change, he'll do it on his own.
269260
if u think its 2 fast and u wanna be with him then ask him 2 slow down I'm sure he wouldn't mind if he was ready to commit anyway. If you realize that him being too fast about things is making u uncomfortable then i guess u should end it.
392131
Get him drunk.\n\nSeriously, though, my boyfriend guilt trips me to do it, so that might work. But you really shouldn't top him if he really really doesn't want to.
1114878
This one is easy...GET ON TOP!!!! And make sure he understands that he doesn't c*u*m until you do. He needs to tell you if he needs you to slow down during intercourse so that he doesn't get off before you. Now, straddle that man and get busy, girl. Make sure you kind of lean your hips forward so that your clit is resting on his pelvic area. The back and forth motion that you make while you're riding him will drive your clit crazy...and eventually you will c*u*m. It may take a while...just don't give up. It's a proven fact that most women have to have some sort of clitoral stimulation in order to get off. There's nothing wrong with you. And if all else fails...break out the porn when you're gettin' busy. That will make it more fun for both of you, I'm sure!
51668
Relax, Relax, Relax. Tell him what feels good. When he does it, tell him not to stop. Repeat as necessary for proper results...
236954
A good bl*wj*b will slow him down!  You are the mother of a five yr. old.  You should know by now.
882603
a quick fix: giving him multiple oppotunities to come will give you longer peiods of stimulaiton. Give him head before initiating sex. On his second time around, he shouldn't be so fast to finish. Ditto for a third go, etc.\n\nFor long term and more satisfying result, it's really up to him to have some self-control. My man is also uncircumsized; I have the good luck of having a guy who even in his adolescence liked to experiment and try to make himself last longer; he knows how to pull himself back form the edge. It's something a guy needs to learn how to do, through practice. Work with him on it, too. Help him practice by giving him head but holding off at the last second when he's going to come, let him come back down before starting again, etc. (Play with it. Help him explore his body and his responses to different stimuli. Hopefully, this is something you can both enjoy.)\n\nAlternatively, you could introduce him to Kegels for guys; they allow a guy to come without ejaculating, allowing for multiple orgasms (hopefully for both of you) before he's spent. (Check the source below for info.)\n\nAnd generally be supportive, not accusing. This can be a fun project for both of you, leading to better sex and more intense orgasms (agian, hopefully for both of you.) It will certianly bring you closer together if you treat it with fun and adventure.
169660
on and offs are NEVER good, but keep trying to make it work anyway for a few more days.  if he just cant commit and cooperate, then you dont have to either.
1062200
do what I do.  Put so much stuff in your car, it is impossible for anyone to get into it besides yourself.  Old newspapers, bags of empty soda cans, clean and dirty laundry.\n\nAlternatively, you could drive a chick around as well and make him sit in the back seat.  Whenever you come to a stop sign or traffic light.  Start making out with the girl across the emergency brake.  If you do it right, eventually he will become uncomfortable and annoyed at the free show/long car ride.\n\nStart listening to music he absolutely hates and play it very loud while singing along to the radio.  What's more, play the same song over and over again.\n\nSay, ok, but I have to run some errands, then take forever to do them.\n\ninsist that he not wear his seatbelt while you wear yours.  Drive normally.  That will mess with his head.\n\nOtherwise, just minimize the inconvenience.  Say to him, I don't mind giving you a ride if it is on the way, but it is an inconvenience to come pick you up or drop you off.  I can pick you up or drop you off at __________ , but I won't come fetch your azz.  You have to draw the line somewhere and this is very important.  You aren't being nice by letting people walk all over you.  It's a one way ticket to a high maintenance girlfriend.\n\nrock on with your bad self