Is it possible to have an honest relationship with no head games these days?
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i hope positively\ncheers
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Not on the internet... just wait and your time will come :) If you start looking for Intelligent, hot, responsible, with no baggage you will get the opposite as you will get tired of looking and begin to compromise and just end up with some deadbeat. The best relationships are ones that start when you never would dream of it. You bump into them when you are shopping or having lunch... not at a club or somewhere where everyone has the intention...\nTry it I bet it works :)
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Yes...  It's called compassion.  And it's a good thing, in moderation, of course.  A lot of people have a "who cares?" attitude and end up hurting people in their lives, whether important people or the random fellow shopper at the grocery store.\n\nThere's a thin line in the relationship of being brutal, mean, honest, compassionate, truthful, white-liar, etc..  The trick is to no when you're being TOO nice or when you're being TOO mean.\n\nPerhaps you can still be honest and sincere but not hurtful... like maybe respond with something like... "Yeah, I was thinking maybe next time, if we decide to go out again, we can do something like ----- fill in blank with ideas -----... what do you think?"  ... if he/she says a flat out "no"... hey... why bother making a 2nd date..  ya know?  And if he/she says it'd be fine with him/her... then you've got potential!
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The term "open relationship" is only as good as the person's own personal opinion/belief of what that exactly entails. It is too vague of a question to ask, because many people will define or "translate" it differently. The only person who can tell you honestly is the person you are in the relationship with. \nThis question would actually be a very important and interesting topic to bring up the next time you have a conversation with the person you currently seeing, or who you would like to have an actual relationship with.\nGood question.... good luck!\n; )
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I have a few times.  I would have only called one a "relationship."  I don't think you could really maintain a long relationship like that.  It's more for fun.
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Yes, yes, and yes.\n\nInterest (or care, or however you define the opposite of indifference) and honesty should be the foundations of all our relationships; even casual ones.\n\nAnd what is a serious relationship, if not one with a special level of fidelity?
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:}\nThere are sometimes concequences to honesty. be prepared to acccept them.\nLong run Honesty always wuns.
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don't lie ...  in the end you will only hurt others and yourself... and do you really want a relationship built on lies ???... you know you don't !...    when the right one comes along  being honest will pay off big time!  be patient...it will happen when you least expect it...  best wishes!
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Yes, either directly or indirectly(example: go with the person being cheated on to the same place). Why would you want to be friends with someone who has no integrity anyways. The only people who say 'mind your own business' are the ones who cheat.\nAlthough, I would prefer to do it indirectly, instead just coming out to say it.
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Yes you can if you are pursuing the relationship in an unhealthy manner. If you begin to lose who you are then you are not in the relationship that is in your best interest...or the other person's best interest...GET OUT and re-evaluate!
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As a female answering this question I will tell you what I think.  You have to really know what you are really wanting in a relationship, whether it be just a casual or you are actually ready to find someone you want to settle down with.\n\nAs a female in her late 40's I like you find it very hard to meet someone.  I truly think that the dating websites are a great way, but what I have found is that a lot of men are not truly honest in their description about what they really want.  \n\nIf you are not interested in a long term relationship, then say so.  Don't let the person you are dating think you are ready to settle down when you are actually looking to have fun only and move on.\n\nJust be honest, respectful and romantic and you will win the heart of a woman.  \n\nGood Luck in your search.
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It sounds like you've really thought this all out, and you have made a good plan. It takes courage to step out there and take a chance on a relationship. Just being yourself and being honest is seriously the way to go. \n\nBest wishes!\n~Tia~\nYahoo Brainiac\nhttp://advision.webevents.yahoo.com/asktheplanet/brain.html
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Why not be totally honest and tell them you want friendship only?  No sex.
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good honest pormn related ?
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doesn't take that much actually. if two people established enough trust, respect, love, and open communication there are chances of a thriving relationship. Although misunderstanding and arguements are inevitable, patience and a little less pride are also ingredients of a good love life. If talking about reality, money is also a factor, let's face fact.
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If you're asking whether lying is an effective dating tool, I would say that it might work for a short time but most lies are eventually discovered and so it is not a good way to start a relationship.  If you are being yourself, you never have to worry about being "found out" and you'll know that the person is with you because they like you for who you are and not who you would pretend to be.
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Stay honest, if both partners know what you're doing you may be suprised by their acceptance.  If they don't want that kind of relationship then you've lost very little.  It's much easier to live guilt free, no matter what you like to do. Just be honest with everyone you come in contact with.