Nervous about going into high school...?
544004
The best advice I can give is: Be yourself!!!!!  Don't worry what others think of you. Boyfriends will come with time. You won't get anymore homework than you can handle. It's a huge step in your life. You will make so many changes in your life and this is just the beginning. Do your best with your schoolwork and prioritize. School is more important than boys and going out with friends.(even though it doesn't seem that way now). You will see that when you get older!  \n\nGood luck with this transition and all others!!
188636
Too me yes and no. When i was in Middle school i was looking forward to high school as a new start. I thought it was going to be great! That's when all the teachers came in and started stating that high school is so hard and that people don't care about you there and its just one big place with a bunch of bad people doing bad things. These where the teachers that were suppose to be supporting me! So i was so worried going to high school and when i got there i noticed it was great! it was just like middle school but there was a whole lot of more people and you get a bit more Independence homework and school wise. So i guess high school is different in some ways but its a whole lot better then middle school. There are a lot more people that you get to know and you classes will have different people in them but it just opens the door to new friends.
940843
I would think long and hard before I decided to graduate early. There are some people it's right for, but they are few and far between. \n\nThe people I've known who did that were notably emotionally behind their peers in college. A lot happens in your senior year. People change a lot in those last few months. The pressure of grades is off once you're accepted to college. The pettiness of teenagers starts fading once they realize it's almost over. It doesn't seem as important to pick on each other, and they start getting nostalgic for the high school days that are ending. This frees everybody up to stop worrying, have fun, and mature a lot.\n\nThat said, what is college like... well, it's harder than high school. The work is harder, and so is the personal responsibility. There is no one to tell you to study, no one to tell you to go to class, no one to tell you that doing <insert bad decision here> is a really bad idea. Which is nice if you're ready to take on that responsibility yourself, but can get you really screwed up if you're not.\n\nThe nice thing about college is it's a fresh start. No one knows you, no one cares who you were in high school. Some of my best friends my freshman year were people that I never would have talked to/never would have talked to me. All the freshmen are nervous and unsure and pretty much all you have to do is say hi for them to latch onto you and be your friend. For the first week, anyway.\n\nThe bad thing is that you usually don't get any guidance unless you actively seek it. You may have to learn to be very assertive to get an idea of what classes you should be taking, what majors lead to what careers, whether you should do an internship and how to arrange it, pretty much everything. You can float through and hope to fall into a good job (which does happen to some people), but more often you'll just get lost if you aren't really motivated and self-directed.
1002275
hey! i just finished my sophmore year. so it's fresh in my mind. \n\nit's almost like freshman year, but you'll probably (depending on your school's curiculum) have more classes with upperclassmean, which is a great opportunity to make new friends. a great way to make high school in general better, get involved in a club, sport, activity that you like or are interested. if there isn't one you know of that you like, go to a club that one of your friends goes to. having someone there you know will make you more comfortable. don't be afraid to try new things!\n\nhaving something besides schoolwork to focus on while at school (for example i'm on drumline), like a club, will give you a more positive idea about being there. some of the best memories of high school i have so far are of me and my friends hanging out in the empty school during drumline practices. \n\ni hope that helps some! don't worry too much and have fun.
173630
the main thing and most important thing you need to do is BE YOURSELF...that way you'll find people that are more like YOU and have way more fun with them then people that aren't.  And to let you in on a little secret...probably about 90% of the people you go to high school with...you'll never see again, except for like at reunions and stuff...so make sure you pick the friends that accept you for you and the ones you'd want around more. =)
674736
Nobody should be afraid at school.  If your teachers and the principal are not aware of what is going on, make sure they become aware.  Tell someone.  Don't do it in front of the bullies, because that could backfire on you.  Wait until the jerks aren't around and tell a teacher, guidance counselor or the principal so that they can keep an eye out for bullying behavior.  \n\nThey have a lot of students and they can't watch all of them all the time, but they will watch the ones they know are causing trouble.  \n\nAsk your parents to enroll you in a self defense class.  It will help you protect yourself, and may help you gain self confidence.  Bullies pick on people they think won't fight back.  If you have self confidence, and the ability to defend yourself, it won't take long for them to figure out you're not the best target for their aggression.\n\nI am a grown up and have been a grown up for a long time, but I was bullied by a bunch of jerky white trash girls, and I occasionally still think about it.  I'm sure they grew up to be gross, fat, toothless, tattooed white trash chicks, and I take some pleasure in that.
406935
I have also been in that situation before. Moving to a new school is quite intimidating, but don't fret. The more that you have confidence in yourself and your situation, the faster you will be able to adjust. The best thing to do is join school clubs and volunteer for activities in your school. Being part of a group is a fast way of bringing people together and bonding with one another. Also, surf the Internet and look for local hangouts in your town, most cities have a website advertising the local hangouts...etc. Also, don't hesitate to speak with your guidance counselor at school, they are trained professionals there for your help, whether academically, or personally, they can help give you tips about coping with your move, and even give you good advice about how to meet some people at your school, I guarantee you that they know the local hangouts from hearing the teens talk about it in school. Of course, don't hesitate to talk to your peers, you can initiate a conversation with someone next to you in one of your classes or at lunchtime, lunch is designated as the social event of school!! Good luck, you'll be fine and have a kicking social life in no time!!
838236
Study more and give me ten and we can all be happy. Seriously, I understand, you are just nervous. Buckle down and put your mind to it!\nGood Luck To You!
1005130
Well, first of all, everyone there who speaks perfect English will also be a little scared because high school is a big thing. Second of all, your written english is very good. I understood your question perfectly and your grammer is better than most high school students'. \nBut, yes. The teachers will help you. Some may be easily frustrated and become angry with you, but remember that it is not you who is a problem, it is their own frustration and it is their problem. I think it is wonderful that you are trying so hard to learn our language!\n Also, your local library, which is free to everyone, has plenty of books on all languages. This sounds silly, but if you got a book that is for english speaking people to learn your language it may help you. There are also agencies in your community that will help you learn english and the librarian can help you find out how to get in contact with these agencies. \n\nGood luck, and welcome to America!!!! I hope you are happy here! It's a great place to live!
1009615
You'll be fine.  It's normal to freak out about something you've never done before.  They wouldn't have chosen you if they didn't think you could do it.  You'll love it, you'll be great at it, and you'll make a lot of money when you graduate.  You'll be fine.  Just get you and your children into a routine now so that it's easier when school starts.  The school should have a Student Services Representative/counselor/tutor who can help you if you do encounter any problems.  Don't forget to communicate with your professors, get your assignments done way early so you don't fall behind, and have fun!
290185
I wish I new then what I know now.I remember being so afraid to start a new school. Being so self consious of every move I made, as if everyone was watching me.It's a horrible feeling and I feel for you. But just remember this. By nature people are followers.And they will follow whatever lead you give them.What I mean by that is,if you go into that new school,your head hung low,shy and without confidence. Then that is the reaction you'll get.Few people will want to talk to you and school will be a scary place.But if you go to that new school with your head held high,showing no fear.People will come a flockin.\n  If your lacking self esteem, not to worry it can be learned.Self talk is the key to it. Keep forcing yourself to get out there and be out going and sooner than later you'll notice it becomes second nature.GOOD LUCK !!! And go get Um Tiger!!!!!
585975
i feel like your heart won't stare you wrong but it's a question only you can find the answer to... love is different for everyone... as for high school, well, it could be one of two things... maybe to him you're fresh meat or maybe one day your soul-mate you be the judge... good luck..
820630
GUESS WHAT....I used to be like that. Until I got to high school & we had to make speaches in frount of the class, well thats was very scarey. But this was part of our assesment in some of our subjects. When that day came that we had to make the speaches I said I didnt want to do it but the teacher made me, when I was up there I was extreamly nervous & forgot what I was going to say. I know exactly how you feel. I suppose you just have to come out of your shell & be more confident.
524520
Future - I'm applying to college this year... very stressful
838980
Well you have to breathe and realize that what happens happens and there is nothing you can do to change that....Accept what is going to happen and you will handle it alot better when it does....Just pray and work hard to get into the school of your preference but, if you don't the first thing the kids at that school will see your fear and exploit it and pick on you trust me i've been to like 5 schools in my life and I know that you have to act as if you don't care even if you do good luck your young so it's a good learning experience what doesn't kill ya makes you stronger
1015375
In 7th Grade, you have to study a lot because they will look at the grades for this year when you apply to High School.. All you have to do is concentrate and study a lot and get good grades..\n\nAnd.. It's ok to be nervous when starting middle school.. Everyone is.. All you have to do is be yourself and do whatever you can to impress everyone.. But I don't know what you are nervous about..
158619
If you wrote your question and comments yourself, I'd say you have some pretty good skills!  You sound as if you are able to put some serious thought into this and able to consider what might be the best thing to do.  If you have not already done so, have a serious discussion about this with your parents and your guidance counselor if your school has one.\n\nYou have to take control of your own destiny.  You still have some time to work on skills.  Check out the possibilities of getting some tutoring.  Many communities have options for free tutoring through volunteers.  Your high school may have a program where students tutor other students.  If not, maybe this can be your opportunity to see if you can get one started.  Does your high school offer an option where you could take an extra year to complete high school?  This is an excellent option for many students.  Also, I bellieve there are study guides available for those tests?  Get a study guide and start working on it.  Get help with it, and see what happens.\n\nI would suggest you try to really figure out what it is you want to do in college.  Based upon your level of ability, and if you truly "test just high enough to exit special education" then you have to figure out if your first choice is a reasonable option for you.  If your first choice turns out to not be a reasonable option (as happens with lots of students), then see if there is some related field or career that would be of interest to you that is a reasonable choice. Remember that today people change jobs frequently, often try many things before they get to the one that is best for them.  Keep your mind and options open.\n\nI would suggest you not permit yourself to put energy into feeling deprived or blaming anyone.  The past happened, and is past - it can't come back.  Take control of your life and begin to work toward what you want.  That's where you need to put your energy.  Make the most of each day and move forward in samll steps.  Face life and your future positively and assertively.  \n\nThe past is history, tomorrow's a mystery.  Today is a gift - that's why we call it the present.  Do and be your best today.  Work toward your goals.  Tomorrow will come, and if you do your best today, tomorrow will take care of itself.\n\nGood luck with the days ahead.  I wish you all the best in you future.