why do hate someone u have loved?
553964
You hate someone u have loved only when your trust has been broken.
212901
Its totally cool to love something and hate something else. Only people who are messed up are capable of ONLY love, or ONLY hate. All it means is that you are a natural person.
598164
First and foremost you should never Hate anyone.\nSecond, I have know idea, because you didn't give me a choice to choose from.
652700
I believe it has to be triggered by other emotions. Just like love is also. To be in love, or to hate, is to have feelings provoked by other things. Someone would hate someone else because they are angry because of something that was said or done. Maybe they are jealous because they have something or someone.
239256
i wouldnt hate anyone. just wait for your time. on the other hand you could try to break them up... your choice!
540938
People hate each other because they are not pleased with themselves which causes them to become jealous of others. Most people are jealous because they see others with the things they feel should be thiers instead of focusing on themselves and trying to get things on their own.
24271
because they're afraid of judgement.  they judge others because they feel judged themselves.  i hate people that don't like me, but i don't try to, it just occurs that way.  we can supress or express our hate, but it's still there.  people hate as often as they love.  the end... i suppose.
531119
Try to find it in your heart to see this person as just a sad someone who will never be as fabulous as you are.  Cultivate compassion and forgiveness for him or her, and be happy that you are nothing like him or her.\nDo not forget this person though, or the harm he or she has done to you, and recognise the lessons that this person has taught you about your own feelings.  \n\n"Forgive them Father, for they know not what they do".\n\nLove is always the stronger force, and hate leads to your own personal destruction.  Let go of the anger and find the peace and you will be all the more a better person for it.
341572
The thin line between love and hate, as everyone else said, is due to strong emotions. It is harder to love someone than it is to hate them. Love is more of a risk than hate. Hate/anger is a very protective emotion. To love someone you risk everything and heart break hurts-no matter how it breaks. No one wants to hurt because the "hurt" always takes FOREVER to heal. If you could draw the invisible line between the two-people would be healthier. I have been in situations where I was able to love and hate a person at the same time. It did not feel good. AND I knew that I was feeling both at the same time.
194398
Yes, I have.\nThat was someone who hurted me in every possible way - body, soul, dignity, etc. I was absolutely out for a year.\nI deeply hated that person and I wished he was dead more than anything in the world.\nBut after some time I realized that my hatred of him is bad for me only and I overcame it.\nNow, I don't even remember him, except that answer to you. :)
1023586
Absolutely--love and hate actually go hand-in-hand. You can feel true hate for someone you love, because they are the ones you can feel most hurt by. Remember, the opposite of love is not hate--it is indifference.
79828
I hate less all the time.  It gets easier and easier to become forgiving as time goes on if you get on that track.  I don't think I was ever particularly hateful but now the only thing I seem to hate is hate itself, and when people chew with their mouth wide open or panic.
1063421
Hate comes from being hurt, turning into anger, having it sooo long that it becomes hate.  It's an emotion you feel when you cannot control, or even help a situation. Hate ususally starts with pain.   Should you hate your father?, to me...you should feel sorry for him, because apparantly he is living what he has learned as a child.  Years ago...we did not have the system that we have today, to help abused children, whether it is/was physical, or emotional, .Love your Father sweetie, Try to learn from his mistakes, and break the chain effect cycle that can and has went on for many generations.
349635
nope, coz deep down...the reason a person who says they hate love... want to be loved. And mark that i said - \n"who says"....coz they want to hate love (for the negative things that happened in life (coz of misjuding love...real love doesnt hurt) ...but love is too powerful positive force to hate.
594884
Actually the truth is you never disliked the person.  It was a wall you put up.  I mean try to figure out why you couldn't stand them before and then try to figure out why you like them.  Most of the time it will be the same reasons.\n\nThe other reason it could be is they grew on you.
424166
I hate hate.\nBecause I love love.
264437
hate someone like who? really - kids like to talk and repeat other particular words that they have heard other people say. so most likely thats all it is. they might have over-heard someone speaking about how they hate a particular person and the child is prolly repeating it.