Do you all think its to soon to move on to a new relationship,only a week after gettin dumped only a week ago?
537901
from what i do is i spit the days from your last relationship last. And whatever those days are equal to i think its time to move on. but if you really really like this guy i say just go for it, you only live once and just live life to the fullest. :)
278513
I believe there are positive lessons to be learned from the most heartbreaking situations, I have been there, trust me.  its not easy but you have to look at it as a learning experience, and instead of focusing on the heartbreak, focus on how much stronger you are now, for having gone thru it.  tkae what you learned from the experience close that chapter of your life and allow yourself to move on.  Take things slowly in your new relationship, allow things to unfold in a way  that is comfortable for both of you and see where it leads.  over time memories of the past will fade and wounds heal allowing you to open your heart again.  Its a painful process at times but so well worth it in the end. hope this helps!
130099
only after you both have gotten completely over the break-up...It could take a month maybe even a year
1095434
If there was a friendship b4 the relationship, then yeah I'd probably would be a little sad too.  But if you all just started dating and it's been only a month, girl please you're not in love press on.  Trust me once he leaves and you never see him again, you will cope in no time, enjoy yourself and go out w/the girls to get your mind off him. Trust me you'll be okay, if you're not I'll give you $100 dollars.
617397
its such a bad thing to move on and get into another relationship=said who? dont listen to that idea, if you please all, you please none. follow your heart and mind, it has always the right answer then believe what you have decided and choose to be happy :)
931603
i sure hope so because, im in the same situation and although you want to date around, ect., there is still that small chance of getting her back or realizing you are the one. dont push it but at the same time, dont wait. best!
1181993
Actually depending on how emotionally intense the relationship was defines how long does it take to get over it. Some people handle it fast, some take a while. However I find it nonsense that if you were all that he was looking for, and he ran away from it... then it's really NOT what he's looking for, or he's plain nuts! Nothing against dating though, I guess that my advice would be that if things cannot be worked out by talking as maturely as possible, then there's somebody else better for you out there, and he'll either 1) Regret he found the one thing he was looking for and let her go away or 2) move on and find something that appeals more to his status and condition.\n\nDon't worry about it though, men tend to have that small glitch while they grow up. I did, though now as I'm older and think about it, it was just the thing to happen, and I'm happy as I am these days. :-)
898868
Hi Eugene T, My question is..."Do you really want a girl who is rebounding from a relationship"? And, it sounds like your rebounding too. Please take this "SLOWLY". I know, I sound like a parent...that's because I am! LOL! Focus on your friends/classmates/sports etc. There is plenty of time. Wouldn't you rather take it slow and learn more about "her" break-up[both sides of the story?], while "reflecting" on what went wrong with your relationship? OK OK, I've lectured you enough! XOXO Moonpie P.S. And go with those words of wisdom from diagofald..."HIT IT"!
261672
you sound almost like a mirror image of me but i'm at the 3 month stage and i don't know if he's with somone else, the other difference is he said to me that he wants to work things out i haven't seen mine in 20 days and yes im counting. the best advice hang in there, me personally i would tell him how much of a many swearwords he is for hurting me and how could he get with somone else so soon. but as i said hang in there im now ruling my own life but it is hard moving ahead without the one you love. Be Good!
506090
'...before you have moved onto a new relationship?' You'd better decide who you are going to have the relationship with...the new guy or the old one. It might create problems.
198305
It depends on the person and how long the "longterm" relationship was, but I'd probably say, give yourself a few months to mourn the loss of your former relationship.\nA good key to know whether or not you are ready for a new relationship is if you find yourself still talking about your past relationship or if you still talk about how horrible your last boy/girlfriend was to you and then go into great detail to "drag them through the dirt" to your potential new boy/girlfriend.
614689
if he's changed from what he used to be like before.. then yes... unless you were the one who dumped him and now you want him back.. again that would be a yes..\nbut if he broke up with you and the two of haven't changed.. then no because that would just be a repeat of the relationship you had before.
1109882
well I know how u feel, coz I just got out of 3 years relationship, 6 months ago. He's still in my head, and I think about him sometimes. I tried to date but it doesn't work out, coz I'm not over my ex completely. Here's some suggestion, forget about your ex and move on. But if you can't then don't rush hooking up with some other guy coz it's not fair for ur new guy. Good luck sweetie!
847543
IF YOU HAVE TO ASK FOR OPINIONS YOU MUST HAVE RESERVATIONS.  I WAS IN A 2 MO. RELATIONSHIP AND WE MOVED IN TOGETHER, IT WAS THE BEST DECISION I EVER MADE, BUT WE WERE READY.  WE ARE BOTH DIVORCED WITH NO CHILDREN.  I HAD MOVED FROM NY AND HE LIVED ON MY BLOCK, WE BEFRIENDED EACH OTHER AND CLICKED, FRIENDS FIRST SEEMS TO WORK.  YES, I KNEW IT WAS SO FAST, BUT I CONSIDERED HOW I CARE ABOUT HIM AND FIGURED THAT WHEN AN OPPORTUNITY ARISES GO FOR IT, THAT IS WHAT LIFE IS ALL ABOUT.  IF IT DOES NOT WORK, I KNOW THAT I MADE AN ATTEMPT.  I FIGURED LIFE IS SHORT, IF I DONT DO IT, I WOULD ALWAYS WONDER WHAT IF.  GOOD LUCK!
410890
As soon as you are ready.  I started dating the same month that my Ex moved out.  I never regreted it and I found a wonderful man.  Go for it.
771953
Move on bro, we all do eventually. If she was with another guy its hopeless don't torcher yourself over the past move on with your life and Cherish your memories.
1172068
No one can answer that question for you.  Only you know whether you are emotionally ready to commit to someone else yet.  I would be suspicious, however, if it was less than six months or a year after a relationship as important as the one you describe.  But people vary, and maybe you just lucked out and found the right guy.\n\nHowever, ask youself these questions:  \n1) Are you sure that you are not just looking for *anyone* to love you, after the hurt and rejection of your breakup?  Would you love the new guy if you had met him first?  IIn other words, be sure you are not grabbing for validation.rather truly in love.\n2) Is there any chance that you are attracted to the new guy because he is the opposite of the old one?  This is trickier, because you certainly don't want to end up with another guy who is just like the one you broke up with.  But some people swing too far in the other direction when they are on the rebound, and you need to watch out for that.  Obviously, there were *some* things about the ex that you found good, or you would not have been together for so long.  So decide whether the new guy is a real improvement over the old one, or just very different.\n\nGood luck!