i have lived with my grandparents my whole life and just vistited my mom but now her my dad and my baby bro?
551691
find out where they moved. Form a family. Be part of them as much as possible to make up for lost time.
989562
Dang that must be crazy for you. I found out I had 2 siblings from another mother & another sibling even younger from ANOTHER mother and one sister was the same age as my other sister I grew up with. And it's just akk weird. So where was your sister all this time if you dont mind me asking? And I finally saw my real dad but he could care less about me.
77899
Oh kiddo, I feel for you, but that's something your mom and dad have to work out on their own.  Whether they do get back together or not is no reflection on you and whatever the outcome it'll be all right eventually, promise.
1093587
I can tell you from experience it isn't easy.  However, I now have the advantage of being much older and am able to look back on the situation a bit more objectively.  First off, realize that this has nothing to do with you and their love for you.  This is a relationship problem between the two of them that you did not cause and you can do nothing about.  Next, continue to love your parents equally and do everything you can to make this as easy for them as possible.  Take time to talk to them and don't be afraid to let them know how you are feeling and ask them questions about what is going on if you need to.  Don't let this situation control your life, life will still go on and in a basic sense, nothing really is going to change all that much for you in the long run.
1097462
You know what? This may hurt, but screw your parents. I've lived an awful life, and I could tell you my life story, but it would go on and on. I'll give you the short version. I have been tossed back and forth between my parents all my life. (they were never married, and never intended to be, I was just a big "accident.") I would go not seeing my mom for 7 years and then not seeing my dad for 4. It's really messed up. I moved in with my mom 4 years ago after not seeing her for the 7 years. I thought that her and I could heal things with time, plus my dad is a really awful person and I wanted to get away from him. Things were ok for a while, and then about a year ago I cam home from school and she was gone. Just gone. I found out that she had moved to another STATE to be with some guy she met on the internet. So now, I have no parents.  I'm going to be honest with you--it IS a hard road, and sometimes you are going to feel like you will never make it to see tomorrow. You just have to have faith in yourself. And guess what? I'm 18 now and I have my own place with the guy of my dreams, and for the first time in my life, I am TRUELY happy. So I wish you luck...reach for the stars and never give in on your dreams. If your parents really love you, then maybe someday in the future they will see past their mistakes...
980538
Your maternal grandparents are your mother's parents; your grandparents on your mother's side.
413072
They grew up together in the same small hometown. Their parents - my grandparents - were friends and they used to play together as friends.\nWhen they got older my mother moved away to find work at a hospital as a nurse-aide, but she used to go back home as often as she could.\nMy father fell in love with my mother and vice versa .. I think it was a gradual thing for both of them ... and he asked her to marry him by proposing in front of his and her family at a get-together.\nMy mother accepted.\nThey're still together.
1027557
there's no choice, and shame on your mother for wanting you to choose.  it's your right to love both dads, this should never be a situation of pick the best dad!!
830022
Your dad must have really loved you and your siblings he is a saint for doing what he done and put up with stress with your mother.\n\nSometimes you have to sacrifice your happiness for your babies and thats what he did for you.\n\n50/50 i would think...anyway i hope this helps\n\neveryone has there reasons xxx
71940
OH YES. When I was dating my wife, she was living with her parents. I was there one night and her parents were in bed. We started in on the couch, and her mom walks in!
59161
yes in fact my mother while I grew up always told me she wished I wasn't born and that since I was that I should of been a boy. (THAT HURT!). I don't know allot about my father, but I wish I could of been with him from birth on and not my mother. I do love her for she is my mother but I know she loves my brother more than I and I know my dad loves me allot. I am 35 and this is a true story!
909891
Mom Dad Im moving in with (whatever his name is)
703673
If your grandfather was remarried when he died, then his land and things belong to his new wife, that is if he didn't have a will.  She can decide what she wants to do with his stuff.  Why was it never attempted to try and discover if your mother was actually his daughter??  Sounds like they waited a little to late.
417155
to grandparents \nluckly my mum told me all she could bout my dad \nbut my nan see him when i was 15 and gave him my mums number so we all get on now \nif not family try places on the internet freinds reunited he may have signed up
565693
Used to,they are gone now.I lived near them by choice.As they got older,they  started needing my help.It was only fair to help my parents as they aged and hope that someone will help me if I live to be old.Not all parents are good to their children,but mine were good to me and I paid them back as they aged and was with both of them when they died. I have no regrets.Just didn't want to live next door to them,sometimes one of them would get into my personal business.Had to move 20 miles away.Close,but not too close.I would tell you that living close ,especially how dangerous things are getting in this world.As they age, they will need your help in more ways than one.Live as close as you can,but try to keep your life to yourself.My parents always cared for my well being,sometimes too much.Had to have that little bit of distance so I could live my life my way.
455307
parents back then were that type of persons with their families, and they just were raised themselves that way and is not your mother's fault, but her, mother, and then her mother of her mother...and so on....nonetheless, you can make the change with your family and with you followed generations to come.....in your case, I can see that you have these hateful feelings about your mom, and brothers....Remember that things happens for one reason, you don't know why it happened the way it happened, but thank God, you are ok, even though you feel these feelings.....Try to forget if you can, try to do well to others and always, talk to others, the way you were treated like that others wont do what your mom did to you, and let this experience be of good use to others and forget all bad feelings and live a healthy life you and your family, God bless you and if you could Get a bible study..Good luck.
1130938
Perhaps five years ago your experience of living with parents was still fresh in your mind.  And sharing your life with another person looked ok to you.\n\nBut now you are used to the freedom of living alone.  And perhaps having to share your life with a man and loose some of your freedom and independence is what scares you now. \n\nPeople are creatures of habit.  And once you get used to a certain lifestyle, then it becomes hard to change and do something different.