Ok guys this is where I need your advice..!?!?!?!?!?
552356
Thats just puppy love there"s is to many  nice guys outhere for you to be hung up on just one. He didnt call so move on i know for a fact that you can do a hell of alot better
159221
Run away, and run fast.  He is not worth the space in your head.  There are plenty of guys out there who will be proud of the woman they are with, and will not hesitate to let everyone they know that there is someone special that they are spending their time with.  Trust me.
442517
I've been in that situation. Tell the guy up straight what you truly think. He will be grateful later for your honesty.
318464
Okay here's what you I suggest you do.  Watch her for a little while.  Find something she's looking at or pick something on her clothes that you can comment about.  Basically you have to find some commonality to touch on with her.  And what EVER you do, don't over do it.  Seriously so many guys do this and it just turns a girl off.  Just be yourself and if you are going to date it'll happen.  And if you use a cheesy line I guarantee that's a no hitter for you.  Just act natural for awhile and observe her.  Women are ALL about a guy noticing the small things.  So if you've been watching her for a while, say a week or so then when she's wearing something you haven't seen before and it looks cute on her tell her so.  Or if you you're at a bar/club whatever and you want to "pick her up" there, I suggest starting up the conversation about something that is in the club/bar.  Music, lighting, drinks, people, whatever.  Just pick something and go with it.  And honestly if you crash and burn, don't give up.  Either keep trying with her if you think you got a chance or give up and move on.  Oh and once you got her....learn to be sensitive.  To the point of you wanting to gag.  Most women will eat it up, not all mind you, but most.  Yes I know it's tough to not be "manly" all the time but if you know when to be sensitive you got a leg up on the rest of the dawgs out there.
1137239
Hi Tiera,   well it sounds like this guy is a real jerk. Not trying to be mean or anything just going by everything you said.  Now, as far as your friend goes I believe that you should stick to your guns and be there for her.  If you havent done so already,  I think you should tell her all about this guy and just prepare her for what you might think will happen. Don't try to make her break up with him per say,  but just let her know that you are telling her these things because she is your friend and you dont want to see her hurt.  Thats really all you can do at this point.  Sometimes in life in order for someone realize what they get themselves into they have to learn the hard way.  The only thing you can do is just assure her that you will be there for her no matter what.  She will appreciate you more down the road when she realizes she was wrong and you were right.  Stick to you guns hun, and dont abandon your friend because this is when she is gonna need you the most.  Good luck with everything...........
240639
i completely understand what ur going through, i was in the same boat a you. my advice is, if he really is happy with his girlfriend right now, i wouldn't say anything. because right now you're his friend, and you should be happy for him, unless she really isn't good for him (meaning she doesn't treat him right). but, if and when you do tell him, make sure you do it in person. just tell him that he is a great friend, and that u love being friends with him b/c he is such a great guy. then tell him that somewhere in the friendship your feelings changed, and now you like him. that's all i can really tell you. i hope i was some help.
99814
YOU shouldn't do anything!! It is up to him to deal with the situation. He should care enough about you to handle the problem. My advice would be to give him the opportunity to solve the problem, but if within a reasonable time (a week) if he hasn't dealt with the problem, then walk away from him. If he doesn't care for and respect you enough to deal with the problem, then he may be enjoying have to females on a string. Good Luck =-)
556048
i say drop him. either hes into to you, or hes not. but you shouldnt have to wait around for him. play hard to get girlll!. once he realizes other guys are a threat he'll make the move =]
999253
Tell her that she's better than that.  She might not listen, but at least she knows how you feel.  Don't pretend that you like him for her sake, be honest.  Oh and when it all finally blows up, resist the urge to say I told you so.
56796
O girl i kno this!!!!!!!!!! I hav millons of boyz after me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!\nK first of all you girl gotta have the looks second of all act nice!!!!!If the guy talks to you the first day and u feel he gonna go to dat place again well dont go ther b mysterious!The next day you come he gonna ask you where were u yesturday and u say OH with someone!Then he gonna go like o well i was wondering if you wanna go out and you say o lemme check my to do list :( you chak) and say o im free and he gonna go like wat bout ur bf and u say hol up u pretend to call him and say thats it we r over!!!!!!!!!! and then u say ok were over and DA DA DAM!!!!!!!!!!!LOL!! thats all really in my opinion!!Well good luk u gonna need it!!!
910182
WARNING. THIS THREAD IS FULL OF AWFUL ADVICE.\n\nMan to man, let me give you a very important piece of advice. Do NOT ask women about how to deal with women. Women do not want what they say they want. They may think they hate anticipation, but they secretly thrive on it. Anticipation and unpredictability are good. (Although, I think the line about "I wanna ask you out, but right now am not in the mood" is awful - please don't use that.)\n\nThey're probably going to give me thumbs down for this, but I'm telling you from experience, it's the truth. Again, the two points to take from this:\n\n1. Anticipation and unpredictability are good\n2. Don't trust what women SAY, trust how they RESPOND\n\nSorry ladies, I love you, but the guys who actually follow your advice end up being the guys who are too wussy to get a girl.\n\n[See, there go the thumbs down already! Don't believe em, bro! I'm looking out for you.]
523488
well I don't think that's fair on his behalf, how would you feel if you where in his shoes.. you will have to make up your own mind on this one, do you loose a good friend to look good in front of others, and how do you know it will help? you might ditch this guy and make no new friends, so don't burn your bridges..If I where you I'd go out but not with him all the time and see how thing go from there, and have you told this Ricky guy you like him? because that's all ways a good start. :)
397856
Here's a tip. Do not hire a puppet to do these things fro you. She may have done this out of the bottom of her heart but talk to the guy. You'll be brave enough, trust me.
1084853
Tell him straight up, just do what you gotta do.  You have the option!
829734
Oh, kind of an embarrasing situation. I would first talk to my best friend about it. Have her pave the way and tell u if he fancies u or not. If u get a positive feedback, start by taking him out to a movie or something along with your friend, once things are cool, u guys can start the real dating
650005
i'll start with a question. did you like this guy? if you did you should atleast talk to him ask him what's up and why he is acting like such a jerk. if you didn't like him than simply don't let it get to you. guys can be stupid at times, well most of the time. sometimes it doesn't seem like they think before they do stuff and they dont consider the outcomes. he is probably trying to make you jealous but not in the right way because it's most likely making you see the dumba#@ side of him. so basically either talk to him or let him go!
762633
He sounds like a control freak. Move on! Good luck to you!