i am a too shy person, how could i end my shy with girls ????
544288
go up to a girl and day "hi" what you up to? or something in your class in line just say "hi" and then compliment them
179533
stop being shy dude\ni was and i neva got a girl\nbut if i were u give it a shot
177956
Well you're shy, so then the confidence thing will only work if you're slightly cocky.  So we'll ignore that approach.\n\nYou're best bet is to find something in common with the girl you're interested in.  If you can't strike up a conversation with somebody, it's not going to happen, YOU GOT to be able to casually strike up a conversation.  If it's someone you 'sorta' know, be able to say hello & find something that relates to her & you.  If not, then say something random that you like & see if she responds (NO PICK UP LINES!!!)  It really doesn't matter what you say, just the fact you said it.  \n\nNow from there you can ask for casual dates, if you are not comfortable asking for 'dinner' or 'going back to my place'  You need to be able to find out what she is interested in & then find something that would interest her in doing it with you.  If you're talking about movies, find a great movie nearby & ask if she wants to go.  If she like coffee, go for coffee, if she likes plays, find something like a play.  IT DOES NOT HAVE TO BE AWKWARD!  All you need to say is 'Hey you like ______?  Me too!  They're showing ____ at the ______ on _____!  Would you like to go?'  If she says no, than move on.  If she says sure, casually ask for her number so you can 'coordinate' it & give her one phone call so she knows it's all arranged & off you go. \n\n* Important at the end of whatever you're doing don't just go straight home, find something else that can detain her for awhile, so you can talk about whatever you chose to do.  This'll show your interest & then you can plan (Or run away) for what happens next*
408348
practice, lol, it seems difficult, but the more you try, the better you will get, the more comfortable you become, the happier you become. Girls look for confidence in a guy, one who can express them self. You may be able to take little steps in your efforts to talk eloquently to her, dont worry though, shyness wears off, Good luck
777178
Well, I think you are wrong.  I tend to have the same problems.  You are too serious even in your approach.  Girls just wanta have fun.  If you approach a girl with such a straight forward attitude you'll scare her off.  Big Yes on the self-confidence though.  You need to come across like you're fun to hang out with and you're looking for others that are fun to hang out with.  Friendship first buddy.  Ask general open-ended questions then listen.  School, work, hobbies, pets, etc  LISTEN to what she is saying and don't let your mind wander.  I know what happens.  She's talking and your thinking, oh crap what do I say, she's pretty, does she like me, how do I look, how can I be funny, what do I say, oh crap... If you're not listening then you can not 'join' the conversation.  The more you talk the more you both will loosen up.
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Try one way, and another, and another; until you learn how to get to know a girl without making an idiot out of yourself. But certainly, you should first lose the fear of making a fool out of yourself, and that's 50% of the battle won. The rest is practice.
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You get over your shyness by, if necessary, making yourself talk to someone. I know it's not easy. I'm shy too. But I MAKE myself talk to people and when conversation is started, then the next logical step is dating. Smile, and be friendly to men where you go....grocery store, gas station, post office, etc. There are a lot of good, decent guys out there, and one of them is waiting for a nice Lady like you. Good Luck!
341965
i use to be shy just liek you. but get comfortable. it depends what kind of a gurl she is. if she is one of them flirts then you have to take control...if it is one of them shy gurls u gotta go say wassup and do ur thing. evreyone has thier on type of game but you just gotta do what is in ur heart.
1057495
NO! I'm WAY too shy!!!!
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Practice strike up a conversation with girls you do not know but are not necessarily the most attractive to you. Watch them stumble that will help you released you are not alone, help them when they stumble this will help you gain confidence for your own game.\n\n Good luck man remember pretty women have the same problem as you, sometimes both sides are equally interested but both players are bad at the game and personal insecurities make each party feel that they are at fault and the conversation fizzles.\n\n Avoid these phrases at all cost:\n  Nice day today.\n  Man this place is busy\n Have you been hear before?\n  Are you here with friends\n   *** The problem with any conversation starter like the above is it is easily answered with one word. Give her something to work with.  It is way too hard to recover from a Yes and No conversation its mechanical, no way to find common interests.
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Shy girls like men who are partially shy but able to make the first move on them (on the girls.). Well, you could try talking to her about starting and running your own business.\nBut you have to know what kind of business.
139015
Firstly be very careful who you try to speak with, second try speaking with your mouth closed, it might not help your shyness but it sure as hell will be a fun turn at a party!
142463
Hang out where the shy girls hang out.  They will be glad to know you, too.  Quiet places, coffee shops, book shops, the corner of the cafeteria.  Good luck
706729
There's really nothing you can do to get over your shyness. You just have to go for what you want. And if that doesn't work out, you just find something new and go for that. Everyone is a little shy once in a while. But you can't let it control your life. I'm sure the girl is really shy too. Just go for it!! What do you have to lose?
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well, you can't really remove "shy" from a girl. SHyness is something people need to learn to overcome on their own. \nI can give you suggestions that may help her break loose from her shell. \nI used to be very shy and I overcame it. I hung out with people that were just the opposite of me they were quite outgoing, so if you are outgoing that can break a shy girl out of her shell. I would see them socializing and making friends and this and that, now that I am not so shy, I have had more dates and I have lots of friends and I am not afraid to get out and have a good time. :)\n\nNow as far as style every girl varies. So it is hard to say what they like. If you are referring to men's styles, I like for my men to be clean cut. I like casual, I like to see men dressed up, I just don't like the sloppy look. T shirts and jeans are okay as long as it doesn't look sloppy. \n\nMy own personal style is simple. I am not into the fancy stuff. I like some of the things that are in style, I am a modest dresser. I like capri pants, sandals, casual skirts, blue jeans, nice t shirts and on occasion I like to dress up very nice if the occasion calls for it. \n\nLittle cat likes his blue collar with the bell and he thinks he's cool because he just got his rabies tag renewed so that he can fly to New Hampshire with me and he thinks he's even cooler because he gets to fly free. :)
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awww...how adorable!i wish i had a guy that felt like you!i would really love that!especially right now...but anywho, back to your question....what you should try to do now is to be more yourself to her and i bet anything she will more open to you!but hey dont get me wrong shy shouldnt be an issue here...
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go somewhere u have something on common with other ppl and say hi i know ur shy but trust me i used to b shy till i made it though college and got tired of it surprisingly ppl dont mind you talking to them as long as u have something in common \n\n\noh there is some pill for it too (imagine that) but seriously its for ppl with social anxiety disorder