help with girl and friend?
543578
leave it be romeo, thou shall have your chance with juliet when many moons comes and go!\nquit playing games, she's obviously not interested enough with you.  she just probably wants attention and will hop around from boy to boy like pancakes at ihop\n\nfind a new girl.. plenty out there
321601
Sounds like u 2 are friends, so approach it that way.  Feel free to tell her you are there for her if she ever needs someone to talk to - do this in a consoling way, so she sees sincerity.  Then be patient and don't get aggressive.  Time will tell.
439685
Since she all ready knows of your feelings toward her and that your friend has a girl friend, I would say once more, that if she ever decides she's interested, you would like to take her out.  Leave it in her court and drop it at that.  If she does decide to give you a chance, AND You are still available, then take her out.  But don't wait for her.  Keep your options open, look for someone new, otherwise you are doing exactly what she is doing, hoping the one who doesn't care romantically will suddenly 'get smart' and love you back.  You both need to stop pining away for someone who isn't interested or available to you.
496431
male or female friend?
636532
She is two-faced. Ask yourself why do she want to talk to you if you know (and she knows that you know) that she talks about you and your friends? Is she trying to find out "dirt" about you and your friends so that she can act friendly with you, then, for no reason, not talk to you and tell her friends and your friends what you've said about them. Whether it was taking out of context or not. This girl is up to something. The next time you see her, just ignore her. Hi and by. If she ask you for something or anything not related to homework or some type of social, you don't know. Walk away. You have things to do and really need to get going. Try everything not to make time for her. See if this works.
326238
they need to sit down & have a serious talk about their relationship, where it is going etc.... then they both will know if they want the same thing or if they are wasting each others time.... if one gets serious & the other doesn't feelings are going to get hurt & no one wants that...hope it works out for your friend.
948047
Show her that you have feelings for her. Make the other chick get the stepping.
594387
take it from a girl just talk to her even if it is just WHAT MUSIC YOU INTO? or something along those lines pretend your talking to your closest friend and tell her a joke (one you know for sure is funny) if that doesnt break the ice then its not worth it find some1 who appreciates your admiration if she actually talked to you for three hours i think shes trying to say HI IM INTERESTED MAKE YOUR MOVE!!! girls are much subtle than boys
539073
thats messed up. do your friend know? Dont get involved cause she might say that you tried to mess with her
253185
Have a friend of a friend ..ask her.Or better yet ask her yourself.
485531
I've gone through this too, and unfortunately I handled it the wrong way, by ignoring the person. Leave your pride behind and tell this girl that she is moving too fast and tell her that you want to keep it at a friend level for now. If she can't except that, oh well.
354884
Have a real conversation, be honest with your feelings and direct...  If she tries to get together afterwards to "just talk" don't go for it, it's just going to be more painful on both of you.
372499
Tell her that you value her friendship but you're finding it difficult at the moment and you need some time to sort yourself out. If she values you as much as you value her then she'll understand and give you the time and space until your comfortable with the situation. Also you need to get out and make some new friends, so that your not so reliant on this one girl for friendship. If you get out there you'll probably meet someone new, and you won't have damaged your great friendship with this girl.
1063941
Unfortunately for the two best friends that girl can not be forced into liking either one of them if she doesn't, you're gonna have to let them move on. As for helping the girl hook up with the other guy, if you dont have a problem helping her than go for it.....i hope everything works out
265463
Oh boy!! That's a touchy one.  First thing I would do is start off by letting her know that she is your friend and you don't want anything to come between you.  Sit her down and let her know you want to talk to her.  Then tell her you are her friend and you don't want anything to come between you and her.  Then tell her what has been happening. The tough parts are not coming across as a threat and letting her know you are sincere and really am talking to her about this because you value her as a friend.
786326
perhaps u should encourage both of you to spend some "guy friend time" and "girl friend time"... that means, you hang w/ ur friends every once in awhile, she hangs w/ her friends once in awhile, so u kinda get a breather.  also, u should encourage some activities.. like if u like sports, go for a team or group organization. if she likes art, suggest her to take some art classes.\n\njust try hard not to Upset her or make her feel as though u want to push her away.. girls are very sensitive to that, and she may feel rejected if u act like u want to spend less time w/ each other.  dont' separate and take a break, but just try to encourage her to do "girls night out" or something to that extent, so that it's not always you two. good luck~
620325
Why not suggest that the three of you...maybe invite some other friends...get together and do something.  Does this have to be a tug of war between you for who is going to be this girl's first choice?