what does it feel like to have sex for the first time?
554236
Don't pay attention to the men.  That is all they think about. Sex is good but usually for the girl  the first time it is not the greatest thing in the world.  Takes time to get it right. If your dumped quickly after wards you'll probably feel used and dirty.  In fact you may feel that way even if your not dumped. I recommend waiting a long time at least till you in your 20's to have sex.
838385
Wait until married...  Funny girl :)  and most of the time totally unrealistic (6000 years that some are trying to control sex life of other people... just wake up, it just doesn't work !!)\n\nIf you feel it, you're ready to begin to consider it.  But wait until you feel comfort, take your time, change of partner if you feel pressure, first times can be really important for the way you'll consider sex and love for the rest of your life.  And most of the time, the first time isn't really enjoyable for the girl, she has to learn how to relax and first time are most of the time not really relax :)\n\nSo, look for comfort and respect.  It means also good place, good timing, good guy/girl, love or something near it, and respect.  And to not fear AIDS or a too soon baby, be prepared.  \n\nYour doctor can give you good advice for those last things, but sometimes for the rest too.  Follow your feelings :)  and when you feel ready, enjoy the ride !
302540
first time sex is challenging (esp if both of you are doing it the first time)...  and it depends on to both of you.  try to please your partner in your way... he may appreciate the effort, just don't overdo it.  better yet, read magazines and browse through some websites.... and read also on stuffs on "how to please your partner"... \n\nalso, try it the naughty and teasy way.... try experimenting on how you'll start it off the sweetest way (how about putting some chocolate syrup on your partners body and lick them off until it's gone).... remember to take it slowly (but surely) play with it (fore play... but not too long huh!)...
1153579
As a 33yr old male, I remember being very disappointed at the age of 15, when I lost my virginity.\n\nThe peer pressure from friends, making out it was the best thing since the Sega mega drive (Hey I was 15 at the time), the newspaper problem pages, TV and Film industries, all lead me to believe that it was going to an absolutely mind blowing experience.\n\nAnd when it was done, using protection, with my steady girlfriend (also a virgin) I was like, what? That's it? \n\nIt was the build up I found to more exciting, the thrill of the hunt, teasing, trying my best to reach the prize.\n\nSince then I have had many more experiences and found that with experience it does get better, a lot better when in a loving relationship with an experienced partner with similar likes and dislikes in the bedroom. \n\nBut sex is still not the be all and end all of a relationship, the ability to communicate and be best friends is far more valuable then being joined at the hip.\n\nHope this helps.\n\nPlease remember to use adequate protection whilst experimenting, and not loose your virginity to some idiotic loser who is going to run bragging to all his mates. Make him respect you first by holding out until you feel the time is right, don't be forced.
1154308
Sometimes, after having sex for the first time, women experience pain and bleeding. But that is not always the case. So if nothing happens, that does not mean that she is still a virgin. If she had sex, she's not a virgin. That simple. It is not anything to worry about. In fact, she should feel lucky to be pain-free.
254596
I'm going to be completely honest and tell you that for me the first time hurt like hell. I lost my virginity earlier this year (I'm almost 22), my boyfriend was very understanding and gentle, but it still hurt. I didn't bleed though, which a lot of women have said that they do.\nFrom talking to my doctor there is a less of a chance of pain and bleeding when you lose your virginity at an older age. This is because your hymen gradually goes away throughout the years, and a lot of girls have actually broken it and not known it years earlier. \nIf your really worried I suggest getting a d.ildo/v.ibrator and working yourself in, I did this after the fact to make myself feel more comfortable with it. \nhope that helps
590525
In my experience it is possible to prevent the first time being painful at all if you have played around plenty with your hands and mouth on other occasions.\n\nFingers can be a bit rough, but if you're gentle they can be great. Definitely eases the way for something larger. Also helps the girl learn what she likes and what feels good as many girls don't masterbate with penetration when they are virgins.\n\nPositions... definitely missionary the first time.
65811
u just feel it!\nAt least that happened to me...let me tell u something about my first time:\nonce I was dating this guy and nothing u know I just couldn't, something was odd, don't really know, but then I met this incredible guy and I don't know what exactly happened but it felt like fireworks being with him, at all times ,and the I just knew that he was the one .\nI never regret the time I waited to do it.\nIt was worth it all the way.
459614
Unless it's traumatic, your first sexual experience is highly significant - whether you are a man or a woman.\n\nYour first love is also highly significant.  Even if there was no sex involved.
421555
It is only obvious to be curious at your age.  It is funny I had the same questions and by being too embarrased to ask a grown up and the false information I got from my peers allowed me to explore  for my self.  However, the 1st time I had sex I was 17 my senior year in highschool. It was with my highschool sweet heart.  We had been together since 9th grade and he was already sexually active and constantly tried to convince me to have sex with him,  I wanted to wait til I got married but he would say it doesn't matter because we were going to get married anyways, he also advised me if I got pregnant it wouldn't matter because he was going pro in football so he would be able to take care of us.  However, he did go off to college on a football scholarship, got injured in college, never went pro, works a mediocre job, has 4 kids by 4 baby momma's and we broke up his first semester in college (honestly).   \nSweetheart you are 14 years old try to put your curiosity into something else more positive (education), trust me boys will be around and sex isn't going anywhere. When you are ready and the time is right you will know it there won't be any question about it and make him wait that will show if he really cares.\n\nTo answer your question honestly, sex is definately worth waiting for, the first time you have sex it will hurt. It will hurt probably the first few times and you will be extremely sore and probably never want to do it again. Basically it is like someone is hammering something large into a tiny hole (your vagina) the walls around the vagina will be inflamed and extremely sore.  (Imagine the felling) However, the boy will not experience the pain you are feeling and will probably try to continue ignoring your pain. If you do decide please make sure this is with someone you trust and cares about you. You will probably feel uncomfortable being naked especially at your age (i was) Initially it is not the most fun thing to do and nothing about the first time you have sex is fun or beautiful (even after you get married).  However, waiting for sex is definately worth waiting for and rewarding  because it is the most intimate relationship you can have with someone.  A man will truly admire the fact this his wife is a virgin and the only person they have been with is them.  I was glad I waited until I was older (17), but if I could have waited longer I would have.   REmember your body is a temple and don't let anyone enter it unless you know they cherish it and cherish you as well.  I hope this helps you make the right decision.
61425
Sex hurts when is the first time, but after that feels gooooddd, and it depends on the positions too but still good!!
956689
Your FIRST time??  You will last about 30 seconds or around a dozen thrusts.  You are in for something entirely different in your life.  Nothing like it.   The time will get longer tho.  You stay until she tells you "ok, I'm good"......but, of course you will know when that time comes.   Good luck.  Pops\n\nONE LAST TIDBIT:  While you are losing your virginity, just make SURE that you don't bring something home that you can't wash off, like AIDS, Syphilis, Clap and a host of other STDs.  They are out there and they are rampant!!!!   Pops
850871
I'm going to assume you mean first time intercourse between a male and female. What happens is that you have sex for the first time. For the woman, if her hymen hasn't been torn or whatever from anything else, it will rip or tear, and it might be a bit painful, and it might bleed a little, not a lot.\n\nI don't know what the previous answerer is talking about, the uterus widening? I think he needs a lesson in human anatomy.\n\nHere's a good site that gives accurate information. This page is for the first time for a woman, and on the left, you can click on "His first time" for information about a man.\nhttp://www.sexinfo101.com/ic_herfirst.shtml
459776
The first time is usually pretty uncomfortable, probably painful, mostly disappointing... \n\nbut after a bit of practice its great.\n\nJust don't expect it to be wonderful the first time and don't expect either of you to be good at it the first time. \n\nIts not magical like in the movies, its like most things, you need to have a bit of practice and work out what's good for you and whats not.
690477
well, i think that everyone has their first time, some people have it with the right one and some dont. i dont think that you have to be counting days to figure out when to have sex, just, deep in youre heart youll know, and if you have any doubts, then think it over.
936886
It's normal to be nervous! God knows that I was. But it's not as bad as all my friends tried to make it out to be! The first time he enters, it's going to hurt a little bit, but after a couple of minutes, it's fine... Or it was for me... Just try to relax, have fun, but make sure it's with someone special and not just a one night fling. That will make it much more memorable for you!  So relax, have fun, but also, be safe!! Cheers!!
543870
All I can do is tell you about my first time. I was totally in love, but the guy wasn't. It was nuthin' nice. In fact it was, on the whole, a totally awful experience. When I realized he didn't really care about me, I was devastated. I had thrown away the most precious gift I had to give a man on a jerk who just wanted to say he'd had a virgin. Don't be in a rush, sweetheart. I'm not saying you have to wait for marriage, just make the first time with someone really special. Make GOOD memories! I love you.