I WANT HIM BUT HE'S NOT THE SAME AS ME...HELp?
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That may not be possible.  If he truly feels stuck and isn't open to anyone showing him another way of life and/or he views anyone who isn't in his situation as better than him,  there may not be a way for him to relate to you.  It's possible that he believes you can not possibly understand what his life is like.\n\nYou stated you have not always been in the good place you are now.  You could speak to him about that.  Let him know what it was like for you and your family while you were there and what it is like now that you are out.  Relate how you were able to get out in a way that makes him see that it truly is possible.\n\nGood luck.
824637
just be honest with him and see where it goes from there.. maybe he feels the same about you..
695352
This just means that you are not deeply in love with this person. It will come. Once you get to know him better you will feel different. Whether your not attracted to him or you just cant be yourself around him. I've expierenced this situation and know exactly what to do. Follow my advice and you'll get somewhere in life.
7485
Each situation is different, but I would recommend moving on and just keep in touch. It may not seem like it, but there is plenty of time to go on with your life and find him again, if it is meant to be. Find out more about who you are and experience life a bit before committing.
955121
all of a sudden he's become your pet? And I suppose you parade him in front of all your friends. Give it a break and just accept his name as is...\ntypical of a female always trying to change a man
231698
First thing you should not have to change who you are.  You need to find somebody that loves you for you.  Keep in contact with him and see if there is any hint of a relationship.  Otherwise go out have some fun and find somebody else.
961155
first think about why you would want to "get" a boy who you say doesn't like you!  if he doesn't already see you for the fine, cool chick you are, and chances are he has had enough opportunities, phooey on him!!  i would next say to find a boy who wants to get to know you and shares interests with you, but first and foremost you don't NEED a boy, you need to be happy with yourself.  then, the boys will flock to you:)
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Do you enjoy being with him? Do you two have a lot in common? Do you find yourself doing things for him you won't do for any other? Does he return the same affections? Feelings?  Is there talk of you being the one he was looking for? Then these may be clues that you have found the one you're looking for and the most you can do is see where it can lead. Good luck!
473567
Tell him you're confused and ask him what he wants. I'm actually in a similar situation right now.
1114553
Talk to him!!!  Find things you have in common.
473360
Just be honest, tell him you just don't think it is working out the way you thought it would.  That will let him know you were interested but it is just not clicking now.
519922
Maybe like but not quite love yet, otherwise he's just a freak. So, make sure of his intentions and be careful.
425794
You've got a simple case of wanting what you can't have!  You don't really want him; you just want him to want you.  Once you realize that's your problem, you can move on and have a healthy relationship with someone worthy of you.
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i bet you he has another interest in a different person. my advice is to be distant with him, dont call him, let him wanna talk to you. he'll come to you.he probabvly fells sufficated.
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tell him you are flattered but you dont feel the same way, as you barely know anything about him, but you would like to remain friends.\n\nBe nice but firm.
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you need to talk to him find out things about him and visa versa.  if you like to chat more email me at party_2_hearty@yahoo.com
1094390
Don't waste anyone's time here. Be upfront out of respect for himself and for you. Just let him know that the feelings just aren't there and it isn't him it's just the way you feel. This way you both stand a chance of meeting the right person.