For this summer Im going to MN,but my boyfriend has to stay here,what should i do?
551187
This 'boyfriend' doesn't know how to contact you, doesn't have your phone number and doesn't have your mailing address?\n\nHm. \n\nI doubt that this relationship was going very far anyway. Do either of you know the others' last name?
957028
Keep the conversations going. Ask him to send you postcards and stuff so he has to think about you while he's away.
584531
just tell her you need to take care of some other things over the summer so you cant spend the whole summer with her..but just tell her you guys can hang out a little but not the whole time! she should understand!
77040
Tell him that you need to wait and both you and your boyfriend should consider finishing schools or any carrer goals so that you can provide for your child.  If he loves you he can wait until you are ready.
555287
He may live 5-10 miles away, but with summer coming up and everyone being out and about shopping, etc, I dare say that the two of you will be more than capable of finding MANY ways to have time together! If you don't ask him, you will be kicking yourself all summer, wondering the what if's. ASK HIM, instead of presuming the worst. Ask him for his phone number, or give him yours, and let him know that you want him to call. Give him your e-mail addy, and he can write you from the library if nothing else. There is ALWAYS a way to get together and find time to talk or hang out. Start with a good friendship and let it grow from there, or just ask him out and jump in with both feet. It's only too late when you pause, and another girl takes him away from you.....  Good luck!
213384
I also live in Minnesota. Looks like you both just found a place? Just talk to the other and figure it out?
516209
if he is in your country then have one of his friends that you can trust not to tell him you are coming home, and have him take you boyfriend out some where, like a restaurant, just to "HANG OUT WITH HIM" and then you "RUN IN TO THEM" at the place. but if you are leaving him to go back to your country then that sucks.
889049
Honey, there are shelters.\nIt is not okay for you to stay there.  He knows that you will stay and he will keep on doing it.\nDepartment of Human Services will help you too.\nHe will keep cheating as long as you stay there.
484505
tell him the truth...and you have every reason to be concerned...you have been down the path of hurt, and do not want to go there again....as for your reasoning, i understand perfectly. i can not, and wil not, relocate out of my city because all my loved ones are here and i like it here......it's hard when you like someone from a different place....so  go with your heart...but be headed by YOUR HEAD!!!....and what will make you truly happy. good luck
540722
Listen my boyfriend is going away 4 college to Texas Tech university, And we live in florida i am having a hard time trying to deal with it. I love him very much and i know we can make it.If u love ur boyfriend have faith u guys can still talk on the phone write cute letters to each other and email. Dont worry he will be back before u kno it. Just think positive.GOOD LUCK!!
850032
How long is he going to be stationed there?\nCan you go with him? It is in the States afterall.\nThis happens to alot of married Military.\nsome stay home because they don't want to move and they know that their spouse will be back in a year. but if it is for a longer period of time and you own a home you could rent it out and then rent a place where he is.\nIs moving out of the Question?\n\nGood Luck to you, i hope your dilemma gets resolved.
1116096
Dont do anything till there's a ring on your finger baby. Your boyfriend is just that, a boy-friend. He may hook up with some cheerleader in six months for all you know. No one looks out for you but YOU. Finish school where you're at right now, once you have your degree, then you can think about moving. But you think about what's good for you first. \n\nThat's the problem you women have, you put your man first, thinking, "he wouldnt ask me to move there if it wasnt a good idea." Wrong! He's not thinking about what's good for you, he's thinking about what's good for him! He wants you there to take care of his needs, sexually, monetarily and general housekeeping. He could give a rat's azz about your degree, your friends or your family. Ask yourself, would you make him move? Didnt think so...
142162
You don't HAVE to, but you shouldn't stay around for it. If you don't want to leave, get him counceling or anger-management or something.
236116
Only if you can provide yourself a safe environment.  I don't recommend staying with him.  Instead stay in a hotel and plan some things to do that are a bit more public.  As nice as someone is you still need to be careful.  Better yet, have him come visit you so that your on your own turf where you have full control of the situation.
1154570
Tell them that you need to explore and discover what else is out there and reassure them that you'll come to visit as much as possible but if you stayed, you'll feel held back.  Specially if you feel your life could improve financially in another state where theres more opportunity.
1138553
I've read some of the answer to you question and i have to say "you guys are mean!!!" \n\ndon't let you worry of losing him interfere with you having an awesome summer. Chances are he feels the same way you do, so talk to him and let him know how you feel - you'll probably instill also comfort into each other hearts. i would write him a letter about what he means to you and put a picture of yourself with it. The last night you guys are going to see each other - give it to him.
587346
you shouldn't have moved away with your boyfriend in the first place. Go back home and let him come to you.