How can I be more talkative when I meet a guy? See I am shy not more talkative. I need help?
537382
well, i too am very shy, but i began to be able to talk to guys more when i just relaxed and acted like myself, instead of acting how i thought they would like.
163267
I have that same problem.Just don't thick about something to say.Just relax and before you know it you will find yourself in a great conversation,unless he's quiet.Quiet people are really hard to talk to.Maybe you should go out for a drink.People loosen up when they drink.
986722
Do you like him? You need to start talking to him and be friends. Since I am shy, I would get one of my friends who know him to introduce him to me when we are all together. You could also approach him and introduce yourself as a friend of one of your friends. Find a common interest (sports, activities) and start up a conversation. This should get you guys talking, and then you can move further. Good luck!
540885
Lots of people talk.  Learn to ask intelligent questions and listen and you will find friends pretty fast.  And after they are your friends your shyness about talking will start to fade as you get to know them.
271019
well, it is not so bad to be shy, many girls like guys who are shy and who are not pushing it too hard. but if you still find it a problem maybe you should practice, at first try it in front of the mirror and then maybe on some girl who you are not attracted to, also try to be more talkative with your friends, that will help you to develop your speaking skills and after a while you could easily talk with girls (at least i hope so!)
160619
if he did not like you he would not go anywhere with you, also if he is quiet around you being shy its because he does not want to look like a jerkoff, if he were sure of himself and outgoing he would be talking non stop to try to impress you. maybe asking off the wall questions is his actual way of trying to be interesting to you, in effect he's trying to impress but lack of social skill makes it seem a bit offbeat. next time ask him if he has a girl or tell him he is very attractive when he smiles or something try the odd touch on the arm shoulder or even knee dont keep it there just a single rub or pat or squeeze, this might kick start his 'ask her out engine' good luck
56283
let him take time maybe hes not ready to talk. wait until he wants to talk dont rush him into talking if he doesnt want to talk to you. i learned with alot of guys that they dont like talking because there afraid of rejection on anything they have to say. i just start up a conversation and if they join listen to what they have to say youll learn alot about them with what they have to say. just some advise. i mean im not a guy but i hang out with alot of them so i get to learn alot from it. hope it helps. good luck
754422
from a 17 year old girls p.o.v. :  i find shy guys to be hot! but at the same time i find shy guys to be a turnoff because its hard to talk to them. my advice would be, tho i kno it seems hard for u but just try ur best to be more outgoing, dont hold back. when u see a girl u like, go up to her and casually say hi! i love it when a guy makes the first move! ive tried really hard to flirt with shy guys but its always so frusturating cuz they come off unintrested.
777887
It's perfectly okay to be nervous. Sometimes we worry "Oh god, what will he say or think of me? What if he doesn't want to talk?!" Just breathe, relax, and tell yourself that if he didn't want to talk to you then you wouldn't be dating. He's interested in you, so go ahead and chat it up!
690005
Shy is really sweet, unless it becomes an obstacle to conversation.  I've been with people with whom casual conversation is like pulling teeth, and it gets tiring.  Those of us who enjoy conversation appreciate someone who can help hold up the other end now & then!  :)
192750
Talk about movies, TV, anything you have in common. You could find out if he like videogames, cars, etc. and talk about that. It just sounds like he is really shy so you'll have to make the first move.
1082978
hey caramel...\nInteresting issue. Lets analyse the issue in different angles.\nYou have a good social life. So, the problem is not really that u dont know to talk, and be in sync with people.., And ur not too shy to talk. So, that aint the problem...\nSo, where can it be..? As I read thru ur passage, I read -> "foul talk"??? What do u mean by foul talk? Ur using this word to mean flirting? I know what the problem is,dear. U wud like to talk, anything but a sweet romantic talk. Trust me, guys cant get into a relationship with a girl who wud'nt talk intimate. (The same applies with girls too.) Who wud ever want to even think abt a person who can even talk intimate for a girlfriend? \nPut urself not in ur shoes, but the shoes of a guy whom u wud like to stay in relation with. Just be the ideal guy whom u want to be in a relation with. and think for a moment. Why wud I want to date this girl? Why not the others who are interesting? Note them all down. The more points u get , the sooner u'd get te guy u want. \nThink what u, as an ideal guy wud want from a girl. Learn to give that to a guy whom u wnat to be in arelation with. This is the simple rule of the game. U get it. and u get all u want from the game.\nGood luck..\nRyan
216404
Just relax and breathe...tell him your nervous and he will probably admit to the same.  Just both of you knowing that will probably help and be a conversation starter also.
723420
Your nervous, He's nervous.  Go up to him sometime and just chat.  Nothing to it but to do it!
190
Some fundamentals for men: talk 30-40% and let her talk the rest of the time.  Open doors, pick up the tab, and make eye contact.    One big mistake I see guys make, and one that I made back in my dating days, is making the date seem more like an interview.    Sure, you want to get to know the person, but that doesn't have to be crammed into one night of Q&A.  Make an effort to strike up casual conversation, and talk about things that are in the moment.  Remember, people evaluate how much they like or dislike you based upon the quality of the experience they have in your presence.  If you are able to show people a good time, they will be attracted to you.  If you make people feel like they are interviewing for a job, they will not be so keen on another date. (Watch any episode of Blind Date to find out what NOT to do.)
233018
i think so. he seems super shy. you should try to talk to him
823041
If you're a shy person try to make eye contact with him. I was shy once too. When y'all make good eye contact make sure to smile at him. Try to get one of your friends to talk to him. Girl if he doesn't know you exist, well make him know you exist.