why does my boyfriend do this?
535033
I think it's the oppisite of what you may think it is.\n\nYou said that he's grabbing your butt, I doubt that that would mean that he doesn't find you attractive. I think it's obvious that he does. \n\nI think that it's possible that he is interested in having sex with you, but doesn't want to interrupt your sleep by waking you up and then feels embarrassed because he doesn't want you to catch him doing the most personal intimate thing you can do with yourself.\n\nMy boyfriend has done this to. I asked him about it and he said that he does it because he doesn't want to disturb my sleep. He also said that sometimes he does it, because it's the only time he gets to only think of himself, but that it didn't mean he wasn't "into" me, just an opportunity to be selfish, because he usually (always) puts my needs first before his own.\n\nWe all know that men think differently than we do, and they don't always openly communicate their feelings.\n\nYou should talk to him about it, especially if this is something that really bothers you. I'm sure you will find out that there is nothing to be worried about.
859093
he sounds like he is either bi curious, or bi. i would be careful, if he is bi curious that could mean he just wants to try things out with a guy, but he still wants to stay with his girlfriend. make it clear that he has to chose u if he wants any of u, or u'll end up used and hurt, or someone who makes ur bf cheat on u
451442
why do you think he's cheating?
749634
Maybe hes the one whos cheating thats why he keeps asking cuz he feels guilty.You should ask him.*
272037
Sounds like you should just break up with him then.  He is intentionally hurting your feelings by saying that to you..., or maybe he is trying to get some sort or reaction when he says it.  So, next time he says it.., say, I feel the same way.., just to see what he does.  Keep in mind..,there are many fish in the sea.., so you can throw this one back!!!
149167
I have no idea why she does this.  Ask her.
409090
Because he isn;t trust worthy.  Say this to him "_______ you told me if i couldn't trust you then we need to break up.  Well i can;t trust you because of the way you're acting and if you're not willing to help me to trust you by not acting that way then guess what, goodbye"  dump him before he cheats and really breaks ur heart.
722851
Usually it's the jealous person who is having thoughts of doing whatever it is that they are blaming others for.  Sooooo if you are thinking about cheating then you are going to start to think that your boyfriend is thinking about it too.
271569
some people like to sabotage their relationship by saying things like that so that one day, when you are finally pushed and do cheat or leave him, he can say, "you see, i told you so!"  it's a twisted way of thinking, but it's a defense mechanism like they're preparing themselves for it to happen.  he's obviously been hurt before and he really shouldn't take his frustrations out on you.  all you can do is be open.  those who have nothing to hide, hide nothing.
883914
Are you sure your not being too clingy? Are you giving him some space? He might not be joking but not admitting it. Of course I cant judge it because I dont know how you are but you should ask him to be  bluntly honest with you so you can deal with it if it is a problem.
938920
Your boyfriend is so under the thumb, it's a wonder you don't suffocate him.  Just lighten up, if he is Mr Right then you won't have a need to be so paranoid.
1152321
I think its cause he has already cheated & you dont trust him anymore....DITCH HIM....trust is already lost!
393255
Maybe your boyfriend wants to get his word in whenever he wants.  Perhaps he's prideful.
685180
u gave him too much, too soon.  And, besides that, why do that to a friend?  not even your boyfriend.  gossip is flying all over yr school by now.  Just cuz he asked doesn't mean u hafta do it.  just say NO.
161727
Dump him.  Boyfriend not trusting means he is insecure.  It is a sign of abuse.
877252
Just be patient for now. Don't say anything right now because you'll just come off as the psycho clingy girlfriend. It's entirely possible that he is just a flirty guy and everything they've seen is harmless. Tell them to keep their eyes open. If he actually does do something with another girl (or even if you just hear a rumor, etc) then you have a right to ask him about it. Thus far he hasn't done anything to deserve your distrust, has he?
184169
Hun i think he's trying to make you feel guilty in a way so he has a chance to run out on you and not have to be a part of any of what you going through either that or he's just plain cheating on you it that thing we call reverse psychology. when their doing something wrong and try to take it out the innocent.