Should I leave my boyfriend?
552183
Children do not have the same capacity to express their emotions as adults.\n\nThey express their emotions through their behaviour. Both good & bad.\n\nIt seems that the conflict between your children & b/f stems from their [the children's] emotional conflict. \n\nIt's difficult enough for adults, to cope with change & adults have the choice. \n\nGiving your children time & support to come to terms with this change in their life, will be fundamental to their future development.\n\nThey have been through a very traumatic period in their life. They will have scars, that need healing. \n\nI suggest talking to your children. Try to discover their concerns, anxieties over your b/f.\n\nListen, to them. They need YOU. \n\nYou are entitled to personal happiness, but it should never be at the expense of your children.\n\nThey want to feel that you love them. You must make them feel loved and important to you.\n\nIf you resolve the issues pertaining to your children, you may find that your b/f comes over more frequently.\n\nWhy would anyone want to subject themselves to abusive comments and a negative enviroment.\n\nTalk to your b/f [when the children are not with you] about their anxieties. Ask him to be patient with them. \n\nIf you b/f can not accept that your children are your priority, I would seriously consider your relationship with him.\n\nIt can work out. My b/f and children got to know eachother very slowly [over 2 years]. \n\nThey are really fond of eachother & most importantly the children do not feel that they have to compete for my love & time. \n\nYour b/f seems to be acting responsibly by not sleeping over when the children are there. It sounds like he is considering their feelings. So, try to relax about him.\n\nGOOD LUCK
1062075
If he is the love of your life why would you even have the thought of leaving him. He is sick and is in time of need. Stay with him and support him 100%. That's what a relationship is.
396220
you have 2 consider your feelings and also your boyfriends. would u rather be wit that other guy or your boyfriend? would the boyfriend be hurt if u left him? who would u be happier with?
525365
If he's super nice, why do you want to break up with him?  Make sure you're 100% sure.  After you're positive you want to break up with him, the best way would be to tell him straioght out.  he probably wouldn't appreciate games.  You might break his heart, but it's better than staying with him and being miserable while he tries frantically to find out what's wrong.
640588
Dear you are too young to decide on these issues. But you want to move away from him you have a reason to move away. U have studies as priority and concentrate on that. If he really loves you then breaking away is always not so easy and you have to go through that ache. Make up your mind and there is lot of life ahead and tell him about your decision with the positive note.
196498
You have to choose one.\n\nThink about it carefully. Who would you rather lose, your boyfriend or the new guy? Once you make your decision, you can't undo it.\n\nIf ever you choose to leave your boyfriend, just be honest to him. It's better to tell him the truth that cheat on him.
587346
you shouldn't have moved away with your boyfriend in the first place. Go back home and let him come to you.
374552
Seems to me the best way to address the situation is to be forthright and talk to him about your concerns.  If your decision is to move on to find someone more accessible to you, then say that.  There is no real way to break up with someone that won't result in hurt feelings.  But to be true to yourself and the most fair to your boyfriend, tell him how you feel and what you want.  Personally, I would recommend doing it face to face, even though it may be uncomfortable.  You may want to continue seeing one another after talking about it, but if it does end, be able to step away knowing that in the long run it may be the best thing for your both.
1056299
I say you choose.  Either leave your boyfriend and be with the other man, or stop seeing the other man and be with your boyfriend.  It is not fair to either of you, especially him for you to go on having a sham of a relationship.\n   You have to grow up here and make a real choice.  You are treading in dangerous territory and you can only hurt yourself and your boyfriend continuing on the path you are on.\n   Ask yourself why you are cheating, and decide if it can be fixed so you no longer want to.  Or, is it just a selfish need to be with two different men?  Only you can decide, unless he finds out and dumps you because of your cheating ways.  \n   Good luck and I hope you make the right decision.
254078
Leave his @ss...if it's weird and doesn't feel right, then that's not a relationship you need to be in. Just because you've been together for 2 years doesn't mean you have to stay together for old times sake. If he keeps leaving, this time you be the strong woman and walk away. Trust me, Honey, I know. I did it and I am much better for it. You may love him, but he obviously is not treating you the way you deserve to be treated and you need to cut your losses and get out.
1146391
I believe this "boyfriend" is a looser and you should dump him.  He sounds quite selfish and immature.
489963
I Have been dating my boyfriend for almost 9 years, we argue all the time. if this happen to us i would be pissed like you. if you guys do not live together i would not call him, let him call you. he is the one who needs to say sorry for leaving you. but if you live together then you should go home and do not talk to him for a little bit and then sit down and talk about what happen. i would not forgive him, it was wrong for him to leave you. but if you want it to last you have to tell him how you feel.
902669
I'd say...I jumped into this relationship and now I regret it. I don't want to hurt your feelings, but I need out. Then, leave. You are right, if you keep on it will hurt more later and I promise you...the longer you wait, the harder it will be to do.
1170270
Yes break up with him. He is not good for you.
441703
It is easy to sit here looking in and say leave, but only you know what is right for you. If you are asking this question then you already have one foot out the door only you can decide if you want to walk all the way out. Look deep inside yourself and decide what you really want and what bothers you in the relationship. Tell him how you feel and if things don't change put that other foot out and start your new life.
518304
you need to think about why your staying with your bf if your not in love with him then you should leave, you need to think about the relationship in terms of how you feel forget about the other person for a bit and focus on how you feel. but you need to think if you feel out of love when this new guy come into the picture if so you need to think about what he can actually provide you. and how long you have known him cause if you end it with your bf and go out with him and then break up you may be left with nothing
505769
Honey, the boyfriend wants out. Is not that clear? Come on, there are million of fish in the ocean. Just accept the fact that he is not into you anymore. I am pretty sure that for someone as sensible as you are, a better guy is just right there, waiting to be found by you.