is sex o.k. after the fist date???
543552
Whatever you do, don't blackmail her into doing it. Don't say stuff like 'dont you love me then'. Assuming it's a 'her' were talking about here.
96059
Well, depends on how long/well you have been with your date.  If its a very new relationship, perhaps you just gotts say, no, sorry, we cant tonight, but perhaps the next date.  If he's a decent guy, he will understand.\n\nAlso, it is possible to go that far, with your period.  You CAN indulge in o ral, so long as you have made sure you are nice and clean, and freshly 'changed'.  It is true that s ex can be ok during 'that' time.  It certainly aids the lubrication aspect, and it can really help with period pain.  For guys, at that time, wear a condom, and put down an old towel before you begin!  Not the most romantic, but it IS practical!!   LOL....  Sorry, this is not meant to be rude, just giving options!
320535
depends......did i have a date last night
887056
no, if i want to leave a blind date half way through then i just do it.  no need to play games.  he must have been a real loser.  for a hottie like you, i would just enjoy your company and wait until you were ready for sex...anticipation is half the fun;-)
120657
A guy thinks..."SCORE!!!".  The fact that he called you back and is still dating you doesn't really mean that much.  You could just be easy for him to hit.  Test it.  Tell him how you feel about the situation and tell him you want to take a break from sex for a while (a couple of months at least), and restart your relationship on a non-physical basis.  If he really likes you for who you are there will be no problem and he will respect your need.  If not he'll hit the bricks and you'll be better off and you will have learned a lesson for next time.
131230
when a girl and a guy meet, that means sex soon or sex now,that is how important sex is,woman if he doesnt satisfy you, break it before you get emotional responsibility to stay with him
224632
I dont know that its a lack of moral education, for moral education is dependent on what your morality is.  Bout the 20's our ideals and ideas of what is right and wrong for us.  and it has evolved into what it is today.  I personally dont see having sex on the first date a necessarily a bad thing.  (not stating its done often just stating that it depends on the person)  it also depends on where you meet the person.  Environment plays a part as to what is intended.  Bars and the like. I dont know that flirting and looking will come to saying hey i want sex, I think that will stay the same.  But dating has changed and you need to either try to avoid the first date sex or embrace it.  Its depends on what you and your partner (date) want.
792053
Hook up as in just some action? Or hook up in terms of dating again? Why Dec 13th?  Ignore him for a while and decide if he's worth it.
593087
Personally? I'd go on the date, but no-no to staying over. Sensible may be boring - but is best for long term! If he wants more than a hook-up, he'll wait a little while!
1177667
I have found that sex on the first date means you will most likely NOT have a second date with that person. Sometimes it happens that a relationship continues after sex on that first date, but that is a very rare occurrence indeed. It's better to wait.
818205
Yes, it is very disrespectful, intrusive and offensive for a guy to do that. First of all, I must explain that if a guy touch a girl's hand or put hands on a girl's shoulder on the 1st date is already considered very offensive, intrusive and disrespectful, not to even mention touching, feeling or fondling the girl's breasts. He must have taken you as a loose lady and was testing the water if you cld have allow him to do something further. Pls stop seeing this guy at once as he can be a danger or threat to you. What if you see him the next time and he tries something funny on you again and if you resists or retaliates, will he try to rape you? You never know! Unless you're into some kinky fun or open-minded enough, then I guess I can't offer you anymore advices. Think about it carefully and seriously. You don't want to be ended up hurt, don't you? It's your life, choose it and live it! You've the freedom and choice to allow him to do something further or stop everything at once. I just want you to know that I'm concern for your well-being. I just hope you didn't give him the wrong signals like wrong body languages when you're out with him. This can be likely 1 of the reasons he mistook you as an easy target to have fun with. Take care!
887202
I hate the phrase "hook up" I am never sure what it means. Is it sex, fooling around, dating, a relationship, etc? and why do so many teens use the phrase, do they think sex and relationships are just a joke? \nSo, I don't know how to answer your question, if you are talking about meaningless sex then you probably shouldn't. But if it's just fooling around then go for it. But it is your choice
1083695
It's not normal a date is a chance to get to know more about the person other than how they look.  Sex isn't something you should do just for pleasure you should do it with someone you really love and care about.
857636
I like it more wild, but not so dangerous...? I guess it depends, I mean, maybe after a long hard day at work, say you exchange massages and then have some more soft and passionat sex, but the next time your out together and have an awesome time, then some awesome crazy sex too. Plus love after fighting is most always more aggressive. Morning is usually more soft. Umm.. it depends on where you are, if I'm traveling then I might go more wild or if it's a birthday or special occasion. But if it's a more romantic night, it'd be obvisouly more romantic/soft...I guess it just depends on the mood too. You should just go with what feels right w/you and your girl at the time! Have fun and be safe!
593248
It's not improper to kiss on the first date, but you don't have to.  You sort of have to see how things go.  Sometimes a hug and a quick kiss on the cheek work just as well.  You'll sort of know what to do by how she acts when the date is over.  If she kind of hangs close to you and lingers when you start to say good-bye, that is a good sign she is hoping for a smooch!
480498
This cannot be stated in a fixed period. You need to assess the level of understanding & closeness in the relation. Some people get closer and reach good understanding soon . In that case you can have sex soon . If you are still didn't reach good understanding better wait .
1075381
he sounds kinda sketchy.  If you like him go out, but i'd let it play out before i had sex. He might be okay, or he might be a creep.  BUt you won't know unless you go out with him.  \n\nWell, unless you can tell he's a creep already.