What do I do? (maybe it's better for guys to answer, but both are appreciated)?
536348
I think he said "it's possible". So he likes u.Yes it's being nice but cool.He mostlikely ment it. So what at least u think u know he likes u now.
65551
hey dude, you just don't know what are you doing right now, and you don't know what do you want in your life. well, don't be a cheater, alright? you have to make the decision, otherwise one of them is getting hurt more and more. ask yourself whatcha gonna do, and what you want. make up your mind and be a man!
512128
u can only help urself, just ask him, u cant do nething else, at least u'll get to know wat gonna happen, dats all!!
70796
Really the best thing would be to have an honest heart to heart with your girlfriend. Let her know what you are feeling. It sounds really lame I know, but it's something it sounds like you really should do. It might be hard, but sometimes we girls need a little help when it comes to knowing what men want from us. :)
19451
That's a very broad question. I think that you need a better take on men. They will (GENERALLY) allow you to knock yourself out if YOU WANT TO. Most guys negotiate all their lives; for status, information, and their "place" in the pecking order. You want your guy to do more, you gotta TELL him. If he won't do more, get another guy. There's lots more.
627278
Sistah, you just gotta be honest and tactful in this situation as someones heart is involved. Treat him in a way that you would appreciate if the situation were reversed.  Good luck to you!!!
650427
why do you think there is anything to do?  You told him--and good for you for being brave!--but apparently he doesn't feel the same way and that's life.  Move on, you took a chance, it didn't work out but you should feel good about acting on your feelings.  Some day you will tell someone you like them and they will say they like you, too.
484459
Well, first of all you need to take some grammar school lessons before you ask another question. Second of all, as in waiting for him, what do you mean? If it's relationship wise, then, do what you think feels right. You're young, explore life.
506331
what u think? what should u do? ask urself
450065
Then you have two choices.\n\n1. Be quiet and let him make every decision for a while. He will either step up or not.\n\n2. Leave him for a man who will tell you what to do.
1018228
move on\n\nI THINK ITS TIME YOU TRIED ANOTHER CHICK\n\nCHEEERS
75781
i think a guy should ask a girl out\ni dunno sounds better to me like that
150756
Well it's not official over until one or the other says so. my advice would be to try to save your relationship while you can. It also seems to me that you guys are playing that "since I'm too busy to call you game. I don't have time to call you either". Don't play that game give him a call if you feel he's too busy. Try letting him know how you are feeling right now. Don't let it just pass by like that you need to let him know because he's not a mind reader and neither are you so talk to the guy and find out what's really going on.
10619
neither.  you are not ready yet.  if you have to ask that question, just walk away
459148
Look, there are only 2 things you should do right now. Either stay single, or go find someone else. I myself like some time alone to retrace my steps from when I was last single, and see what I was into. But I sometimes also like to mingle, chat, and flirt with new people to get a feel for them, and see if I like what I find. But none the less, you should go with what you feel, not what me, tom, or who ever tells you. Listen to your heart girl, and don't 2nd guess it!!!!!
376490
I am so in your situation. For a while I thought it was because I was scared of rejection or that I felt all traditional, but I really have a lot at stake. I have a son. I like a guy and haven't really decided what is best. I usually get a vote of 50/50 on this topic. I think for me, it might be best to wait. I want to see if the guy is interested, comfortable and confident enough to have the balls to make the first move. Remember, woman sacrifice more in the long run, and should never settle for second best!
1013904
ok im a gurl...\nand at 1st depending on how well i know a guy i will find out if we have something in common,( sports, games anything ) then once i know a guy for longer i will talk more about what girl want to know from guy, that you wouldent normally just ask, then i would just talk to a guys as if you were my best friend