my husband is in trouble pls help?
551575
I thought I just answered this??!!
1024866
The man is MENTALLY ILL and could seriously hurt you and your children! Stay away from him, get a restraining order, tell the police about your problem and let them handle it. I don't know if they'll be able to force him to get help unless he commits a crime, but you can at least make sure that you and your children are not his first victims!
849748
He has a problem that will only ge worse if it is not adressed.  Suck it up and tell him to get the help he needs.  If it is meant to be, then it will be.
152945
Possession of a controlled dangerous substance(Poss. of Drugs).My husband works for a jail
1080879
He's probably in trouble.
1000512
Give him the option to get help for his addiction and return home, or file for divorce.  He will continue to treat you like crap if you let him.  good luck!
1183684
What you've suggested is really all you can do. You gave her good advice about communicating with her husband and going to counseling. Beyond that, it's really none of your business and not your responsibility.
1059661
Is he in love with you? Is your husband in jail? Ummm. I say you have a serious problem. How old are your children? Follow your heart - it is the only way to be happy. Even if other people will get hurt.
1125073
Call and talk to his GP or better yet to the Gp's nurse.  Tell them he needs to be hospitalized until they can figure out what is going on.  As a nurse I can tell you we have put patients in the hospital for a lot less than what your husband has going on.  Keep calling....don't wait more than an hour for their call back.  The more you aggravate them the quicker he will get a diagnosis....\n\nHope this helps!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
715749
He sounds like a glutton for punishment! I doubt he will listen to anything you have to say, but for your own sanity get it off your chest and let him know what a ridiculous decision this is and that his wife needs therapy, if she refuses to get it and he refuses to make her get it, then there is nothing anyone can do about it.
648579
Your husband has a good chance of going for a night or two and maybe having a hefty fine too.  It doesn't matter that your husband was hit with a rock first, it is still assault because self defense can not be claimed if you retaliate with more force than is necessary to defend yourself.  Your neighbor will face legal action too though.  If you and your neighbor mutually agree to drop charges then you will both walk away with no action, but chances are that he won't drop charges if you and your husband are wishing to press charges against him... it is a sad fact of how our legal system works.  I can honestly say I would have done the same thing in your husband's shoes, but I'm sorry to bring you this unfortunate reality.
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get your son back call the police firstly. Secondly, your husband needs a clip over the ears how selfish he is to put you under so much pressure. Can't he see he is killing you. Go to counselling and get him to AA. \n\nStand up for your rights and do what you know is best. If he refuses kick him out!
895380
i agree with christoph...s. Call the police. This situation is one in which you cannot control any more than he apparently can. This is not behavior that should be tolerated. If he goes to jail it might save his life and your sanity ! at least in jail he will have no choice, but to stop using. And also they have NA (narcotics anon.) meetings and some sort of re-hab services available to him. I know it's a hard decision to make but I wish I had done that for my husband, He died due to a cocaine overdose and I was a widow at age 27, Please think about it. God Bless you and your dad.
942887
File for a TPO (Temporary Protection Order) at your local county or city courthouse. If he comes within the specified distance from you, have his freakish butt arrested.
793269
have him call his lawyer...
74051
He's dodging his responsibilities at home. Consult a divorce attorney and then tell him that if he doesn't make you a priority in his life, you'll divorce him and take half his money and make him pay alimony.
120347
I agree with one of the other answers.  Since he doesn't like you asking your male friend for help, then call your husband.  When the bike seat comes off, call him at work.  When the sink clogs, wake him up.  When the lightbulb blows, make him come home.  I'm not saying it to be mean, but it seems that he wants to do everything.  Let him.  As for the workmen wanting you to be home when they come by, that's normal and your husband knows it.  But when they call, call your husband and tell him you need him to come home to sit with you while they work.  Either he'll love it, or hate it.  But in the end, it's what he's asking for.  P.S. Be careful.  I don't know your situation, but I've known similar situations between husbands and wives that have gotten dangerous.  At the first sign of an out of control temper, STOP!!!!  And Reevaluate the relationship.