I have multiple orgasms if my guy uses his fingers but not his shaft. How can we make it work?
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if your haveing multiple orgasms tell him to finger you till you cant cum then get on top of him and reward him! Thumb's up, The more a woman cum's the better sex partner she is beleive me when she mounts up then roll over and take it babe
183502
Ignoring the PRUDES AND ICE BYTCHES ON THE SITE.  Listen, the hot and cold sensation is great.  Licking him between his *ss  and balls is great.  But if he lets you and that's a big IF while you are giving him his bj gently insert your finger in his a n u s.   (think of a proctology exam)  It tickles his prostate. This sensation will intensify his orgasm. If you swallow (and don't be ashamed if you do) Just remember to breathe before he ejaculates it WILL BE INTENSE.
439508
welcome to the world of womanhood, darlin'...you are SO not alone...unless and until you teach him all your own little tricks and then some...and he's good and willing...it'll stay that way.  just be glad you are in tune with yourself enough to experience orgasm easily by any means...some women don't have it that good.  now just teach him to be as good at pleasuring you as you are!
582274
This is a real problem for a lot of girls.\n\nDespite what most men think about their abilities, most of them could use some serious pointers – especially because they tent to forget that every girl is a little different, and what drove their last girlfriend crazy might be uncomfortable for the next one.\n\nThere are a couple of things you can try:\n\nThe first one, and the best one, is to show him what you like.  You need to masturbate for him.  Tell him that he can’t touch, he can only watch.  Not only is it a HUGE turn on for him (to say nothing of you) but he gets to see exactly how you like to be touched.\n\nSecond – is batting practice.  A guy can never learn to use the equipment, unless he has the opportunity to spend some time getting to know it – which means that you have to be comfortable enough with him to let him spend some time exploring – (I guarantee he is ready to go) and be open minded – he may be able to discover something you never knew about.  \n\nThird – Faking it.  NEVER fake it.  When you fake it, what you are telling the guy, is that the thing he was doing was driving you WILD, and is JUST the thing you need to get off.  When in truth, it was probably something you wish he would not do again.  But what do you think he is going to do again next time?  That is right – the thing that drives you wild and gets you off.  That thing you hate, that you have taught him that you love.\n\nFourth – is communication – which is what all of these are about really – whether he is watching you masturbate or discovering your body he is constantly receiving messages – make sure they are the right ones.  But also – and more obviously – just tell him what you like.  I guarantee he will enjoy hearing about it – especially if you make a sexy flirty game of it.  Whisper in his ear when you two are out at dinner “you know, I am thinking about that thing you did to me last night and I am getting so wet” or “I wonder if you know how much I like it when a guy does ______ to me...” and watch the sparks fly.
533413
This isn't an unusual problem.  Why don't you masturbate in front of him.  1- This shows him what to do/how you like it. 2- It also gets you and him a bit hotter.  I'd also suggest taking as much time as you need to get you ready, taking advantage of all of your sensitive parts.  Let him work on you a bit, then do it yourself a bit.  I'm sure if you keep working at it you will come.
280663
Just under the penis, you will find an "ejaculation tube" that runs from the base ( kind of bulges)  when the man begins to get off, the girl will press her thumb firmly against it.  This slows the stream and makes it feel better longer.  Or, a girl can slowly revolve her hips while ejaculation to increase sensitivity.\n\nThis will probably only work with a couple that is adapted to eachother ( not for one night stands!)\n\nBy the way, my husband loves it.
1177281
Is he a young man?\n\nSounds like it... I suggest working with him to increase his "ride" time.   The grab method... or some "detain" cream... or perhaps wearing a condom sometimes helps.\n\nYou must have some "sugar walls" there babe!!!  hehehe\n\nbut seriously... if this is a problem for you... as it seems it should be... work with him.   You both will enjoy it more!
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This is a real problem for a lot of girls.\n\nDespite what most men think about their abilities, most of them could use some serious pointers – especially because they tent to forget that every girl is a little different, and what drove their last girlfriend crazy might be uncomfortable for the next one.\n\nThere are a couple of things you can try:\n\nThe first one, and the best one, is to show him what you like.  You need to masturbate for him.  Tell him that he can’t touch, he can only watch.  Not only is it a HUGE turn on for him (to say nothing of you) but he gets to see exactly how you like to be touched.\n\nSecond – is batting practice.  A guy can never learn to use the equipment, unless he has the opportunity to spend some time getting to know it – which means that you have to be comfortable enough with him to let him spend some time exploring – (I guarantee he is ready to go) and be open minded – he may be able to discover something you never knew about.  \n\nThird – Faking it.  NEVER fake it.  When you fake it, what you are telling the guy, is that the thing he was doing was driving you WILD, and is JUST the thing you need to get off.  When in truth, it was probably something you wish he would not do again.  But what do you think he is going to do again next time?  That is right – the thing that drives you wild and gets you off.  That thing you hate, that you have taught him that you love.\n\nFourth – is communication – which is what all of these are about really – whether he is watching you masturbate or discovering your body he is constantly receiving messages – make sure they are the right ones.  But also – and more obviously – just tell him what you like.  I guarantee he will enjoy hearing about it – especially if you make a sexy flirty game of it.  Whisper in his ear when you two are out at dinner “you know, I am thinking about that thing you did to me last night and I am getting so wet” or “I wonder if you know how much I like it when a guy does ______ to me...” and watch the sparks fly.\n\nFinally, don’t feel bad – MOST girls can’t achieve orgasm from penetration alone, and need to have some direct clitoral stimulation in addition to whatever sort of other stimulation they are receiving.  Just let you guy know that.  Most guys – particularly young guys – are not aware of this.\n\nWhen it comes to putting something inside of you:\n\nFirst, you want to make sure that your guys fingers, like anything else that goes inside of you, are clean and soft, without any scratchy parts or roughness.  Get him to use lotion all the time, and make sure that he keeps his nails clipped and CLEAN.  Generally anything that would not feel OK on the inside of your cheek, will not feel ok inside you other places either.\n\nIf your guy gets very deep inside of you he can touch the opening of your uterus – it is actually a rather prominent feature inside of your vagina and it can be uncomfortable for some girls if it is not treated carefully.  You should consider slipping a finger or two inside of yourself and exploring until you find the opening of your uterus so that you know what it feels like when a guy plays with it (and they all will).  It is also not a bad idea to simply know your way around your own body.\n\nIf you are not producing enough lubrication, and you are not using an additional sexual lubricant, ANYTHING, including your own, or your boyfriends fingers will be uncomfortable.  Check to make sure that you are wet enough, and wait until you are, or use a lubricant if you are not.\n\nIf your guy is using too many fingers too quickly, then you may well experience some discomfort from the stretching associated with that as well.  Some girls, (many I think when it is done correctly) enjoy the stretching sensation of a large object inside of them, but it takes time, and it takes a lot of lubrication to do it in a way that is enjoyable and not painful.\n\nIf you have not had sex
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Hand jobs are tricky, you have to experiment using different techniques, such as gripping the head or the base harder.  While giving him a hand job take his hand and place it over yours and ask him to show you how much pressure and speed that he enjoys.  It works the same for you, when your showing him how to please you.  Good luck.
836435
yes, you have no problen and your not alone, masturbate and learn about your body, try different positions his ex girlfreind may have faked it love is the best suplement
1114878
This one is easy...GET ON TOP!!!! And make sure he understands that he doesn't c*u*m until you do. He needs to tell you if he needs you to slow down during intercourse so that he doesn't get off before you. Now, straddle that man and get busy, girl. Make sure you kind of lean your hips forward so that your clit is resting on his pelvic area. The back and forth motion that you make while you're riding him will drive your clit crazy...and eventually you will c*u*m. It may take a while...just don't give up. It's a proven fact that most women have to have some sort of clitoral stimulation in order to get off. There's nothing wrong with you. And if all else fails...break out the porn when you're gettin' busy. That will make it more fun for both of you, I'm sure!
272201
You are a bit too young to get multiple orgasm and it is not that common either... you have to rest a few minutes... and I must agree with some other people... ky jelly will help a bit...
1050416
This is true. I have given my GF an orgasm by fingering her their. We have not had anal sex though.
349306
Well it depends on what she's into, but I used to date a guy who would use two fingers and push them in pretty far and then move his fingers at the first joint slowly. All while massaging my clit with his thumb. He was amazing and very talented. Never had it any better than that. Good luck and just remember being really good is not always just about the physical part...Good sex is being able to connect mentally as well.
1177191
Ask him for more play time.  Perhaps he could perform oral on you and use a vibrator on you to help you reach orgasm.  The once he has helped you out, you can make love.
247042
woman will have multi orgasms but the man should be efficient to bring her to that state . \n\nfew steps which will help to achieve this are \nfore play \nfinding her hot spots \nunderstanding woman interests about sex\nprovocative and humorous and sexual talking while sex\nencouraging her for active participation  etc..\n\nthese are few only but there are no of ways to achieve this depends on the woman with whom you are dealing with .
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Well he he is happy enough to have sex with you, and I'm sure that he wants to make sex as wonderful for you as it is for him.  So talk to him and let him know what you like, but don't tell who taught you this and that.  (You're so good, and I wanna try something new with you.  Can you try for me please.)  Not as blunt but go positive on the performance and put in the new.  Or while in action try to place the new trick in.  Try it out for a while and if he isn't into it then try something else.  Don't overload the guy with new techniques because he'll feel insecure about his performance.