how do i get my daughter to sleep in her own bed?
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you will likely have some sleepless nights with crying a screaming but you are going to have to be firm; if you give in at all you are just making it worse for her and you
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one way is to just feed and burp them,or pat their back a little. But what I do is just give them a pacifier and lay them down with you and hold them close so that they can listen to the beat of your heart and put themselves to sleep
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Provide her with her own bedroom.  Make it visually appealing to a 3 year old girl.  Dolls, pink color, girly stuff.  \n\nIf that doesn't work, use reverse psychology on her.  Tell her maybe she isn't old enough to have her own room like a big girl, etc etc.  Ger her excited about having her own room.  She'll leave you guys alone in no time, on her own accord.
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Make a big deal when she doesn't wet the bed. Don' be negative when she does. Just act like it's nothing. Do something she enjoys when she doesn't wet. Ice cream, play a game with her, praise her.
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U have to start a consistant pattern. Start by every morning when the kid wakes up take her right to the potty so they can get used to a routine. Take her to the bathroom with you when you go. When she does use the potty, praise her..u know like (Yay...u pee-pee'd in the potty! youre a big girl now!). Express disappointment when she wets herself or has a bm in her pull-up, and make sure you tell her that she is supposed to use the potty for that. Also have patience.
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I answered a question very similar to this a few days ago .... I've put part of that answer here as well ....\n\nThe first step is to talk to her (calmly) and to her teacher to see if you can figure out what is going on.  You may need to get her to talk to the school guidance counselor if her school has one.  You can't begin to fix this until you know the reason for the change, and you probably can't fix it without involving other people.\n\nObviously something has changed somewhere with your daughter's life. Children don't suddenly change drastically in their behavior and in their approach to school. Neither do children suddenly become "lazy". We need only watch kids playing or doing stuff they like to do to realize they are not lazy. \n\nSome things you might check out are whether she is being bullied at school, for example. Is she happy at school? How does she get along with her teacher? Her classmates? Has she changed schools? Has there been a change in her life at home? A separation? A new baby? Is she hanging out with a new group of friends who don't care about good grades?  In order to address this problem, you need to find the cause of it. \n\nAnother area to think about is that there is often quite a jump academically from one grade to the next, especially into high school.  Kids are expected to be much more mature in their apporach to school and learning in general as they get into high school.  She may be having a difficult time adapting to that change and to the different expectations.\n\nShe is 13 - so hormones may be beginning to take over.  Pay close attention to what she does when she is using the computer.  How much tme is she spending on line, using the telephone, watching TV, video games, etc.?  Is she getting enough rest?  Does she seem tired or disinterested?  Has there been a change in other behavior, as well as in her grades?   Has she been losing weight?  YOu need to know all this to figure out exactly what might be going on.\n\nMy gut reaction is that there is something going on that you don't know about ... what you have described is not typical, and you should get to the bottom of it and find the cause. Yes, sometimes teenagers rebel by doing things that can cause a lot of aggravation for parents, but this change in your daughter seems rather drastic. \n\nI hope some of my thoughts have helped you.  Good luck.
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tease her until she is climbing walls=turn around and go to sleep\n\nfart and laugh about it as if it is a big joke=the stinkist the better\n\nans snore \n\nthat will do it!!!!!!
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dont get him out of bed, it's plain and simple, see, he shouldn't have to depend on you to wake him up, he should do it himself...so just dont wake him up a few times, let him be late, and hopefully he'll learn to get up on his own and let you get some extra ZZZzzz's
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Hi Vashes,\n\nChildren of quite a young age cannot be dealt with force. \nYour daughter needs to start giving respect to her school and studies. This kind of discipline does not sprout all of a sudden. Your child will generally follow your example. Maintain a disciplined decorum in your home. Things like "get up at 6", " Fold your bedspread", "Brush your teeth", "Place your brush in the stand", "eat at the dining table", "study at your study table", etc should be slowly inculcated in her. You should give her own private space where she can maintain her things and also study. This kind of ambience would influence the kid and would help her respect her school and studies. Link her performance with rewards like " a trip to the amusement park", "holiday in a farm", etc. Its a slow process and instead of commanding her to do all these things, estabilish it to her that its her responsibilty to take care of these things.\n\nRegards\nVj
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except for the sleeping in the same bed part, it was the same for me when i was 2 years old!  My parents got divorced and he got a new gf soon after, and lived together!  (I had to sleep with her son, 10 months older then me) \n\nWhy cant she sleep somewheres else?  Is there not another bedroom available or a couch.  or maybe 2 is a little young to sleep on the couch.  Maybe you could tell her fatther how you feel about that and suggest that the gf sleep on the couch for the time that your daughter is there.  If that's what you're worried about. (the daughter sleeping with her dad and a new gf..)
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She was moving too fast as far as your daughter was concerned. Three months is not that long really, and if you had a problem like this with her this early in the relationship with her not be understanding about the sleeping arrangement, then she will not be understanding about other things that have to do with your kids. She is immature, and you are better off finding someone who has the same family values as you do. She wasn`t putting your daughter`s needs ahead of her own, and that is childish. You need someone who will think of others before themselves.
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Surprise her when she comes home.  \n\nLight candles around the house and leave a trail of rosepetals to the bedroom.  Have roses, champaign and a book of erotic stories by the bedside.  On the bed, a blindfold, massage oil and her favorite sex toys. \n\nAnd above all, don't even think of satisfying yourself.  Just do her.  All night.  Until she's had enough.
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I had the same problem with my husband.  The best thing you can do is to make her do it herself.  I just starting setting the alarm in the morning and leaving.  Tell her you're taking up jogging or something like that.  Once she learns that you will not keep waking her up, that she has to do it herself, she'll get up just fine.  Trust me on this one.
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What about locking her in the closet?  Can you let her watch some TV show or video she likes? Maybe she is posessed by an evil spirit, this is a possibility, however remote. If she is afraid of authority figures, tell her that if she's bad you'll call the police. Some people have done this when their kids have gone nutzoid. Ask your mom ahead of time if you can do this, because she might go ballistic herself. You really need a break from your sister, can't your mom find some one to give you a break?  Is there anything that you can control her with, like tell her if she shuts up that you'll do something for her. Does she have no self control, like nothing you do can make her stop? If so she needs some professional psychological help, like a child psychologist. Good luck! How old are you anyway? This isn't good for you to have to go through this.\n*****************************************************************\nIs there someone at school, like a teacher you can talk to, or your doctor about this? Your mom seems to be putting a lot of pressure on you. You should be having fun being a kid, not being put in a pressure cooker like this.
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daaaah just get in bed n sleep like how u can share a bed with someone else
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I knew a girl with the same problem, best thing to try and solve that is make sure no liquids about an hour before bedtime, and sometime during the night go into his room wake him up and take him to the bathroo, it work for my niece, she was a very deep sleeper, over a period of time of them getting used to waking up they will start on their own
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That's a tough one.  She's 13, so there's no way of saying you were doing something else that she'd believe.  You might have to bring her to some kind of family counseling place so she can let it all out.\n\nIn the meantime, please make sure your door is locked.\nHope your daughter gets over it soon.