My gf hardly calls (I guess cos I call her almost daily). I wish she could call more often. Wat do I do?
541112
Drop her cold for like two weeks (or as long as it takes to get her to call you). The only thing all girls really dislike is a guy who is really needed, you need to show her that you are independent and when you call her you are doing her a favor.
1109376
Do you have any form of communication?  Can you give her a call and tell her how you feel?\n\nJust tell her she may be happy about it
149880
Let her have her space. If she wants to be with you, she will come and get you. Most woman do not want a lost puppy tagging along or to feel like they are being sufficated. Stand back as hard as it might be fight the urge to see her. She will call you if she wants you. If she doesn't call then move on with your life. Don't play the part of the fool even if you are one.
150756
Well it's not official over until one or the other says so. my advice would be to try to save your relationship while you can. It also seems to me that you guys are playing that "since I'm too busy to call you game. I don't have time to call you either". Don't play that game give him a call if you feel he's too busy. Try letting him know how you are feeling right now. Don't let it just pass by like that you need to let him know because he's not a mind reader and neither are you so talk to the guy and find out what's really going on.
91930
Hello, the best thing you can do is show more interest in her if you feel she's lost a bit of interest in you. Maybe she's feeling a little neglected. First try surprising her with some little things - a rose left under her pillow, buy her her favourite chocolate bar or magazine. The smaller things are worth more than grand gestures! Ask her how she's feeling and LISTEN. If this still doesn't work then you've got to ask her what's up - maybe it's nothing to do with you, she might be having other problems. Most importantly, tell her you love her:-) Hope this helps a little
95299
She is not being as open as you think. You should see if she tries to contact you before you contact her. If she calls explain your concern with a mild manner. Give her time to tell you what she wants to tell you and decide on whether this is a good cause to be concerned or upset.
951804
been there done that. I no excactly how you feel, I had the same thing happen to me with this dude. we kissed and every thing. its a weird situation. since she doesn't talk that much then ask her if you're offically going out. then latter tell her that you don't want her to call you so often. stick with her, once shes gone you'll feel realy bad like I did when I let him go. enjoy every phyisical action she does, it gets better and better. I used to not think about the dude that was with me and we went for a long time. you'll realy miss her if you leave her. I did.
243372
You're feeling lust.  But, it hasn't been that long ago since the two of you made love.  Give her some time to come around.  Don't call her until she calls you.  You have left enough messages so.  If she hasn't called in five days, move on.
248185
4 phone conversations isn't enough??? If you want him to call you, try NOT calling him for a while (I'm talking 5-6-7 days here, not 2). Guys generally don't have the same urge to talk as often as you do. He may be perfectly willing to call you, it's just you're not giving him an opportunity to miss talking to you.
372931
She may just be really busy, honey.  Try to find a time when she's not doing something else.  Ask her if it's a good time to talk and remember to ask what she thinks and talk about what she's interested in, too.
761191
It's not over until it's over.  She clearly just needs her space, and you've given it to her.  Kudos to you!  It would probably not be out of line to give her an occasional call to see how she is.  She will hopefully come around when she sees how nice and supportive you are.
283164
Tell her the truth and get it over with already. Tell her that you understand that she doesn't feel the same way about you as you feel about her and that continual phone calls from her confuse your unresolved feelings- and that you'd really like to take some time off from speaking to her as often as she calls. \nGood luck and hang in there, buddy- someone will come along that will see the greatness in you- and see you for who and what you really are!
863657
Yes, you should definitely call her. It's not completely over unless she states so. Probably she's holding onto the same ego that you are by not calling her.
142727
Get involved, get a life.  Don't be so bothered by the fact that you are not hearing from your friend often enough, it seems like she knows your number when she is going through stuff, and loses it when all is going well for her, that to me isn't what friendship is all about.  Maybe if you were to find things to occupy your time and maybe start meeting other people, you may very well come across someone who will treasure you as a friend and have respect for your friendship.
442015
my boyfriend\nthe question is why do you not call regularly\nbecause his not calling hurts me\nwhy? because he is my boyfriend and is suppose to call
613789
You haven't called her yet??  Well I guess it would be best not to rush things.  But if you are interested call her tonight and make plans for the weekend.  You don't want her to think that you couldn't find anyone else and wait till the last min. to call her.  You want to give her sometime to prepare. Make sure to tell her how nice of a time you had on fri..  Good luck.
13457
If you only met her once, are you sure she is your girl friend?  Maybe she hasn't called you because she found a new guy.  Sorry.