This guy i fell in love with moved away, and theres no way to get ahold of him.?
538838
most people are going to say move on but personaly i would go to every messure to find him if you realy love him not luv then you should ask his old friends family in the area that he lived in or near there and pretty much just become a detective and track that guy down lol
372382
Patience is the key! Don't allow him to get to you, that's what he wants to do and bring you down to his level. Congrats on moving on with your life....atta girl!
517276
weel look,i donm't know about u and that guy,but if he loved u that he must have tried to contact u.may be coz of something he may not be able to contact u
817516
Talk to him about it..\nthis tuff he had going on in his head could be anyhting but he obviously didnt want to tell you about it maybe if you asked he may...\nHe hasnt left it cos he obvioulsy thinks alot of you if he didnt he wouldnt of bothered believe me.\nIf i were you i'd contact him tell him its not a problem u just wondered if he was ok.. \nIf you know where he went and why he went away it may have somethign to do with that...\nIt could be family an ex anyhting\nDont jump to conclusions chick communicate with the bloke they find it hard to do so make it easier...
322539
Why did he disappear? he disappeared when you got into trouble? meaning he doesn't accept his responsibility with you...yes you may love him..but he doesn't even know how to be there for you...in my opinion, go out and have fun, there are other guys more willing to accept their responsibility whn they are with a person. Let go, he's totally not worth it...
80186
Just let him go. You just waste you time waiting for something not available. You deserve the best. Explore your enviroment and you will find your next better perfect match. Move on !!!
532817
Well, you definitely laid it all out there. I've gotten a few letters like this, and if there was still feelings, I would have gone back.\n\nI say send it. If he has feelings for you, he'll be back. If not, you can start looking for someone who deserves you.\n\nGood Luck!
786863
If he didn't leave you a number in which to contact him while away, sounds like he's up to no good....and the people he either works or socializes with have probably been covering him, so I think you will have to wait until he returns ....at which point, I'd set him down for some serious talking...good luck!
220333
Its best not to dig up old wounds. It has been 5 years. he has probably moved on. Id find a nice guy close by where you can talk to him face to face and not across an ocean.
97505
Find someone else. Accept his contacts but keep moving forward yourself. He needs to know you're not waiting forever.
908715
Call him and see where the two of you left of ask him if he still has the same feelings he had for you before you moved
400505
he wanted u for a period of time.. I think now its over.. so he's going away from you..\nNow what u can do is.. just forget such unworthy person and start living your life..
498995
I am in a similar relationship, but I know she's the one, the circumstances are just tough for us.. being so far away. Test your love.. while he's away, take space and see how you really feel without him. At first no matter what, it will be so hard.. but it will get better. Then.. the test comes.. after not having him in your life much, have a long talk and see how it feels. I lost her because I doubted someone so great could love me.. but after she gave up on me.. I realized how much she really does love me.. and slowly I am gaining back her trust, and she has all of mine.
505521
Love can return. It takes a lot, but I don't see why you would want this if he would never give his number to you, deny straight to you that it was him, lie to you he was in an institution & then abandon you by going offline. I think it's a good thing that he disappeared like this & didn't wait until it had gone too far. I think that you should just move on & try to find someone else. I know those long hours & hour phone calls can be very bonding, & it's hard to let go, but look what he has done to you & you've never met him in person yet! (lied, lied, abandon, & hide stuff).\nI think that he didn't really love you as much as you loved him if he can just jump offline & never think of you again.\nGood luck when you decide to move on
350486
Sorry to hear about this, I am sure it is tearing you apart inside.  Unfortunately, I think it is over.  By what you are saying, it would appear that he has someone else.  The signs look like they are all there, sadly.  Whether he is cheating on you or not, it seems clear that he has moved on and you aren't packed up in his moving van!  I suggest that you cut your losses before you lose more of yourself.  It is always tough when this kind of situation comes up.  You have invested your time, life and deep emotions into something that you thought would last and for no known reason, you are abandoned and alone when you need it the most.  It is just going to hurt you more if you carry on with this non-relationship that is going on.  Just leave him alone and try to move on, if he decides to contact you, YOU be the one who is busy or something.   If he wants to get serious with you, tell him that he will need to tell you why you should pay attention to him and to tell you what all the secrecy was about, why he was too busy for you and why he left you, basically, all alone?  Good luck, I'm sure there are many much better guys out there who will appreciate you and the love you have to offer!
92592
Feelings are hard to understand.  My best advice is to give him time.  Give him space and do not call.  If you have changed, this is your time to prove it and lay off for a little while, if there is hope for the relationship, it will shine through.  However, be mentally and emotionally prepared for him to not come back.  In the end, this is not the last guy you will ever date, you're life might have just begun.
769684
Just do it. He probably never really loved you anyway. He moved on so you need to move on. There is no easy way to do it. If there was then nobody would be asking the question.>