Why do I feel the urge to expose myself to the lady that cleans our locker rooms at work?
542713
its jus a mild perversion but perversion it is.. try not to.. keep your impulses in check.. u'll only emerge stronger..
352731
I need to take a shower i feel dirty just reading this question!
246121
It appears you do not have a problem getting in her pants after another man has already been there . ooh now that should really make you feel like a man.Sloppy seconds.So what makes you any better than her you up tight jerk.Oh boo hoo someone else has touched her now I feel awful. That is until you really got to touch her yourself .You were not so dissatisfied with her while she was playing with Mr Happy down there were you??? Get over your self for You are now used goods your self and are worse than her because you have a problem with her doing exactly what you yourself did to her. Grow up loser.Harsh words for a preacher yet if you are going to judge her for what you are doing pay back is hard to swallow sometimes.
828790
I know what you mean..the hotel i work at has several huge old paintings of people along its hallways..and it feels like they are following my every move as i walk down the hall\n\nMakes me wonder why i picked this avatar..i feel like it knows all my secrets
588728
Wow, that is one seriously unbalanced person.  I think that all you can do is ignore and hope that she develops an obsession other than with you.  I would just stay very persistant with your avoidance because every time that she gets to have any contact with you it only feeds her obsession more.  Think invisible...but keep your eye on how many times she tries to contact you so that you know if it is building up or dying down.  I hate to say it...but I would expect that in your line of work I would have to expect that this won't be the last person you will ever have a problem with...I would seriously be considering a career change.  \n\nI used to work in bars and alcohol and naked women don't usually bring about the best behavior in men...so eventually I had to make that change as well.
632079
hellz yeah\nbut i resist the urge so that i dont make people jealous
1094864
Why do you feel like shes going to get in serious trouble? As in shes asking for trouble? Or her boss may find it inappropriate for her co workers to be distracted by someone who is open about what she is or isn't wearing under her clothing. Take her aside one day when she is mention the comments about her "smell" and tell her politely that they are not joking and you've noticed it but you didn't want to offend her, but now it's become a problem and a distraction for you and your co workers.
1064886
probably for those that feel their privacy is being intruded upon when someone of the opposite gender sees them using the restroom
882078
No, you are not wrong for feeling the way that you do.  You have two options here.....First, you can try to talk to her again and tell her that you would rather her not tell other people things that you have told her, even if they aren't things to be kept confidential. OR you could just not tell her things that you wouldn't want other people to know.  Find yourself a new confidante, someone that you can trust, and share with that person things that you would rather not have everyone else know.
360800
u know im going thru the same...some people find me better looking, others find her better but we both as well have the same personalities and still she gets much more attention than i do...u know something, if she is competitive with you, she could be harmful even in the slightest way like i feel my friend brings harm to me by making my self confidence and self esteem go lower since she gets all the attention and i dont when im with her...but lately, i have tried keeping some space from her, even though i love spending time with her, i feel its always best to giv yourself some quality time...go shopping alone at times and ull get all the attention..it will definitely boost your confidence which is beautiful...in short...spend a little less time with her and you will see how it will work for u.. \n\nworking really well for me...
621879
It's a good way of distracting yourself from those impure thoughts that always creep in when you're in there. That and cold, three minute showers. ;)
115659
Had the same prob w/ a former employee. The woman smelled like fish. I pulled her aside (really aside) and told her that she had the odor of fish about her, and that it was noticable. Found out she was washing her clothing w/ her husband's and he was a commercial fisherman. Soon as she separted the clothing loads for the wash, the problem went away. \n\nThere's no need to humiliate this woman as some have suggested. No gifts of perfume, or deodorant... Just pull her to the side and talk to her gently--like you'd want someone to do for you if you were in the same situation.
787562
firs i gotta ask you why would you do such a thing its sick and it shows your a bad person (if you plss care to tell me my e-mail is tiffymarie1@yahoo.com)&#92;\n\nyou should tell her because maybe your conscience isn't as disturbing now but someday your life will turn into a living hell\n\nthis coming fro a worried voice ( Tiffy)
1095792
I can understand this feeling......but perhaps for one hour you could suck it up and concentrate solely on your meeting and on the other people in the room?  Sit between two other people who can distract you?  If you dont' HAVE to go into the office for regular work hours, then while working from home maybe you could be looking for another job at a relaxed pace.  I hate one of my co-workers, but I tolerate and deal with that person  gracefully knowing that I'm better and more respected by showing that I REFUSE to let them ruffle my feathers.  Never let 'em see you sweat.  Then THEY win.
1040838
Yes, but I try to be discreet. I stare because I'm curious or fascinated. It's new or different, so it takes longer to get my mind around it, therefore I stare longer. Sometimes I stare when I'm repulsed. I saw this enormously fat man wearing a speedo in a hotel swimming pool. He cut his forehead somehow and kept using the pool water to rinse it. The blood was oozing down his face. I was so disgusted I couldn't stop staring. Sometimes I stare at other women who I think are just beautiful. I look at their clothes and hair, and face. It's just fun. Sometimes I stare at people with disabilities. I'm fascinated to see how they cope in this world. I try to be discreet, but likely, they can tell. I just can't help it though.
382418
Funny you should ask because I saw an old flame of mine and got so nervous I spilled my juice all over the lady behind me and knoced over her lunch tray. ( I was trying to avoid him )lol So don't feel bad I make an ass outta my self daily!! Lucky I found A man that sees me for me!
1180973
Next time you have to make a call walk into her salon and sit in the waiting room and have a very loud conversation.  This will definetely get across the message that you are a pansy and too afraid to simply mention to someone that their behavior bothers you.  Grow some stones and go tell her.  SHe probably doesn't realize it bothers you wuss.