My new boyfriend and I have run out of convo. . . help?
540199
he might not be too interested.
203223
Well . . . you need to stop being on AIM all the time. Time apart gives you time to grow, hence giving you something to talk about when you are together.\n\nAlso, you might not have that much in common with each other. So what you want to talk about he'll think is boring so you don't bring it up . . . and or visa versa.\n\nLove and relationships are very odd things, I'm going to guess that you are young just juding from your question. There is no reason to rush them or think that you might have the answers or that there is always fix to some problems. Life is short have fun.
208387
I read what you wrote twice.\nI still don't know what you are asking.\n\nAdditional:\nRemember that many men are not very good at talking about emotional things.\nIf you are committed to each other then you must discuss how you feel - you must try to see each other's point of view. It sounds to me that you have different priorities at the moment.\nWhat is it that you want? Can he provide this at the moment?
702507
I had the same problem. You just have to wait for the perfect time and not rush things. My boyfriend use to be so shy but now I can't get him to shut up. J/K.
821927
Stop playing around, obviously the signals are getting mixed.  Stop driving yourself crazy and simply ask what's up!!!  It's better to know so you can move forward with the relationship or move on.
963037
well I use to be exactly like you. I never knew what to talk about with my boyfriend on the phone. But make sure you don't have dead silence cause that just makes it awkward. but ask him how his day went and whats new in his life or some topic in general
514732
do not change who you are! stay true to your self. talk to him. and if he says he likes a band that you like- talk about it, music is always a gret conversation starter. same with hobbies, sports, opinions about what ever was on tv last night taht you both watched\n\n\ngood luck!
969396
Before you give up, maybe change up the routine in which you do things. Many people get so used to someone, and doing the same thing that they dont even notice the other person anymore. So try something new. If you have a specific night you go out, make it a different one. Go somewhere you have Never been before. Do you surprise eachother anymore? Try that. Have you gone anywhere on a trip recently? or just overnight to somewhere? Anything to change what you are used to. If after all that is said and done. Then you should have a talk about where the relationship is going, and see what you should do.
747736
Parkfield, I'm talking to you from the guy's perspectives. The first and the greatest sign is that he deliberately won't like to communicate with you anymore - in all ramifications of the word. Then, you need to act fast if you want to have him back to yourself. Cheers!!!
825838
Sounds like you are losing him.  Have a calm talk with him and express how you feel.  Ask him what is on his mind and where he sees your relationship going.  \n\nFrankly, most people have trouble with communication and that can destroy an otherwise good relationship.  Find a way to communicate and make sure you listen to him too.\n\nSue
694009
If the relationship is new, it may just be that.  I would ask him, tell him and see what he says.  It may be that he is picking up little clues and gathering the information, or it may be that he isn't interested.  Talking to him is your best bet.
240750
Perhaps you should sit down with him and try to figure out what is really going on. Maybe it's because there is a lot of stress at the moment, stress that neither of you are used to, and are thusly taking it out on each other. I think it's time to sit down, and just talk about everything.
1063351
This is a very true cliche...  Be yourself.  \nLet the conversation lead itself.  Don't worry.  Worry makes you nervous.  Laugh and be funny.  Remember he is just as nervous as you, promise.  If not more.  Don't see this as the only shot, it will make you more nervous, assume you will be seeing him again soon for something fun to do.  Going to a theme park and not a mall is always a good idea.  Adrenaline is a great shy buster and the fun of the rides brings you closer by both sharing something.  Try to bring things into your conversation that you can have opinions on (not to heavy though) - maybe you have the same opinions and that is cool maybe you don't and then it stimulates the conversation.    \nHave fun, if things seem to be going a bit slow (I trust they won't) make it happen, be bold, force the fun if you have to - sometimes it acts as a catalyst to get the fun started.\nTry some meditation (really) here's how:  Lie down on your bed in quiet and visualize everything going perfectly on the day.  Do this for at least half an hour each day until the day.  Don't imagine anything going wrong.  If you do banish the though and rethink it going really well.  It works wonders.  Finally don't be too sensitive if something does go a little off key, roll over it like a steamroller and move on to something fun, don't focus on the small things.\n\nGood luck. ;-)
330490
only you know what is like and if things are not normal then you need to sit down and talk to him. ask him does he still love you and why has he stopped saying it to you. it sounds like he may be losing interest in you but just cant say it to you. tell him you need to honestly know if the relationship is to go any further. dont let him use you.
995405
TRY ASKING HIM...BABY YESTERDAY I WANTED TO GO TO YOUR WORK TO SURPRISE YOU AND I DIDN'T FIND YOU THERE? I KNOW YOU FOUND OUT LAST MINUTE THAT YOU WEREN'T GOING TO WORK BUT I FELT CONFUSED BECAUSE YOU DIDN'T AT LEAST CALL ME TO LET ME KNOW. I JUST REALLY MISS YOU BECAUSE WE HAVEN'T SEEN EACH OTHER IN A WEEK I HAVE TO AT LEAST KNOW YOU ARE OK BECAUSE I GET WORRIED THAT YOU WORK TWO JOBS. LET HIM KNOW MAYBE HE WAS A LITTLE TIRED FROM THE TWO JOBS AND TOOK ADVANTAGE OF THE TIME TO REST. BUT TELL HIM COMMUNICATION IS SUPER IMPORTANT IN A RELATIONSHIP
474622
you need to sit him down and tell him how you feel. it sounds like it is time to slow things down, alot. you both need to sit and talk about what the 2 of you want out of this relationship. when the 2 of you are on the same page it will be alot easier.
371988
I think you are being the chaser here.  You certainly have given him every indication that you are interested.  Now it's time for him to pursue you.  He certainly is exhibiting that other things distract him when it comes to you.  If he isn't making you a priority now, it can only get worse if you continue on in this relationship.  If you cool it and he asks what is up, then tell him straight up, that he doesn't seem to be overly interested so you didn't want to bother him.  If he's really intersted, this will light a fire under him.  Finally, be leary of this "I'm talking to family in Canada thing".  Maybe once, but not every time you try to call him.  My relationship warning light is flashing on that one.  Best of luck to you!