How do I let go of someone who I love with all of my heart, but the relationship has too many people in it?
541647
Wow, that hurts!!Be strong and wise girl.It's hard but remember that theres no way you can control him, or his actions, including him leaving his girlfriend. Your probably thinking that you love him and no one will ever compare to him. I'm a girl too, I know how we are.But I'm sure you've felt that way for someone else before him.Look ahead to the love you will find after him...and know that your new man is all yours.Sometimes you have to look at the big picture for what it is. Your man is lying to both of you...is that fair to you or her? Put yourself in her shoes...how would you feel? And I'm sure you've heard that saying that what goes around comes around. Treat others how you wanna be treated. Anyways...trust your gut....it's already telling you to leave...listen to that and find happiness. Good luck with everything and if you ever wanna talk, feel free to contact me! And please dont let that player win the game.
522307
Drop it now. It will not end happily. Some of these people are naive beyond belief. If you and he actually believe in your religions rather than just adopting a label, then your love will not survive! The conflicts are too deep and too pervasive.
966842
Your guy has too many girlfriends.  Don't accept it - move on.  He has way too many things pulling his attention from you.  Love is a passive emotion - we all love lots of things and people.  If he can't walk the walk he needs to go, and please don't try to force him to do what you want through guilt or "but you said you loved me!!" hysterics.  He has a child and that should be his number one priority.
1010732
This will be your first of many. Move on. Life is full of many people and you will part ways with many of them, But hopefully when you look back you will remember them fondly.
1082387
Honey, you already admitted that the relationship was hard to handle. It's time to let it go. Perhaps you're annoyed that it wasn't you who ended it; or more probably that you were so easily replaced. Let it go. It's time for it to end and both of you need to get on with your lives.
837595
Tell them to stop or else...then make it stick. It's called setting a limit or boundary. Not everyone who comes into our life stays in our life. \n\nThis sounds like one of those instances where you need to find out whether you really want to keep this person in your life as he/she is currently. I'm older, so don't have much tolerance now for someone who doesn't respect me. \n\nWe can't change someone who won't change, so the only thing we can do sometimes is to leave the relationship.
361335
i guess you better let go that person, even though you love him/her because he/she is already married and from that fact, you can't do anything about it. i guess that person is already happy with his/her married life life and i think it's just right not to spoil such relationship. Love really hurts, especially in your case (or in your question) but the best thing to do is be happy for that person and wish him/her the best. Move on and after a while you also find the one that is really meant for you or the one that will give back your love. That would be nicer than being "the-would-be-third-party" right?
1085801
Try not to dwell on it. The more you spend time thinking about it the worse the situation will become. Loving someone doesn't always mean being with them so be as supportive to him/her as possible without becoming more emotionally involved. Focus on other aspects of your life that get you out of the house and spend time with other friends. It won't be easy to get over not having your love returned in the way you would like but you'll have to or you might risk losing your best friend.
180117
yes...you let them go. It would be selfish not to. After all when you truly love someone you want their happiness.
329005
When you can quit thinking about them. When you know you can let them go without concern. Not that you won't always care but this that its different. You have to be able to tell yourself you can move on and your over them and know you mean it. This is the hardest thing in the world to do. Don't make the mistake of using another person to try to prove to yourself its over. Not fair to you or the other person.
267243
Losing the people that I love
781805
well, you can try to like other people and be more open up to you feelings to accept others....get on with your life with other people... if u and her( the person dat u like rite nw) were meant to be together, it wnt go anywhere, it will still come to you....Patience is the answer...and you cnt force love..... \nBest of luck.....
108846
Don't try to think on how you can get rid of him just let go of him. and try to find another guy who's more deserving than him.
142003
Don't take it any more.  You need to leave and get out of this relationship as fast as you can.  No one deserves to be treated like that.  You deserve to be in a real relationship where someone loves you and treats you with respect.
796985
follow you heart . it is impossible to love 2 peoples at the same level. so listen to your heart
913182
Just say no and apologize.  If they are friends they will understand, but you also must be a friend to them.  You may need to cut a few ties and keep just a few close ones and the others can be aquaintences.  Or you can have on big party a few times a year to make up for it.  I have too much family, seriously.  I can't possibly see them all as much as I''d love to.  But I can't dump them either.  My kids and husband come first.  It's very difficult but it's the only way it will work.  Have a great day.  Wow, I think this is the 3rd question I answered of yours.  Honestly I"m not stalking you.  You are just where-ever I am.  Wierd...
375221
It's never easy to part from someone you care for.  However there comes a time when you have to do what's best for you.  Irregardless of how it might hurt the other person.  The longer you put it off the harder it will be.