Question for ladies with kids?
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Not really.. at least for a while.. But make sure you pay attention to the  child. Ask questions and be interested.. Not just trying to win her over, but the child has alot vested in this relationship as well... After a period of a month or so.. a cheap toy would be nice. or something the two of you could work on together...
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Ask her to meet for coffee, or go to Chic-fil-a and let the kids play while the two of you drink coffee and eat cheescake, that works for me, the cheescake really sells older women, make sure she is not dieting, which she will be.
323156
Been married 7 1/2 years and have had 2 kids. Still got it goin' on! Takes more of an effort than before the kids though!
507012
I absolutely relate!  My daughter is two, and I still get a kick out of it when she toots in my hand (when I'm holding her).  Sometimes they're so loud that I swear an adult did it... until she starts to laugh.
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Please read this all the way through, my heart is with you. I have two boys 10 and 6 that did the same thing (flushing). Charging 10 cents every time I found the bowl full stopped my problem. But your daughter seems like she has hit rebellion already. My 6 year old became very sore and he learned his lesson at 4 about wiping. But with your daughter "dirty down there" is not going to work. She's 10 not 4, don't patronize her, think back to when you were 10. Let's face it we were all picking up info from friends about sex. You 3 parents have to get together as a group and realize she is not a child she is a young lady/woman. Lectures and threats are not going to work anymore. She needs to start making her own decisions, educated decisions. Talk to a gynecologist get facts about what could happen if she doesn't clean up her act. Pictures if necessary, of what these diseases can do to her body. She could pick up staf infection just to name one, and wind up in the hospital. (My husband being a fire fighter had a call at one time about a woman with an upset stomach. She wasn't a wiper either her whole body smelt of crap. When they got her to the hospital because no one wanted to check between her legs (which was where the real discomfort was) they found her vagina was infested, stuffed with maggots.)Please do everything in your power to educate her in a way that will help her to help herself make the right choices. Also is she happy with herself, looks, school, and friends. These are all very important to her right now. If she doesn't have it yet soon she will be starting her cycle. You think you have problems now, wait. This is the summer of change for your family. Make it that way, help her, she needs you all just to hear her, and realize she is not a little girl, or even a big girl, she is a young lady/woman. A new hair style, a light colored eyeshadow if not wearing makeup, a few new clothes, you might want to rethink the panty thing. Is she wearing panties that make her feel like a young lady/woman, or is she wearing widebottomed, widesided diaperwear. Help her to feel different about herself. Chin up, no one ever said this parent thing was easy, but think of the good times, keep an open mind, and email me if you need to. We have all been there in one way or another.
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same question for you women
838303
I think it's perfectly fine, as long as someone's with the kids, who cares! much better than sticking them in childcare. my husband and i have discussed this a few times, and we both would prefer for him to stay home and me work. You're not alone in this thought! I guess people look down on it though because it's traditionally the wife's role to raise the kids, and the husband's to work. but i'm not one to always go with tradition!! if it works for you, tell those rude people so, and let them know that at least you and your family's happy, that's all that matters.
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Friday honestly, is just another day for me, I have 3 itty bitty kids, so this weekend I plan on taking them to the park ( the look on their faces are so amazing, it tickles me) and maybe hubby wont have to work, and I can spend quality time with him as well :o) Weekends to me, are for family, and loved ones :)
849163
I have 2 kids and would love more.Unfortunately my partner can't have kids.I have accepted it.We would have liked our own child,but he treats mine as his own.
989024
Hm, could be that you are a little looser since the kids, might do some Kegel exercises. Might be extra heavy periods, I would suggest getting on the pill to make periods lessen.
54511
I have to kids and one on the way. Let me let you ladies know that my husband complains about my sex drive being too high..I'm 23 and he's 26 and I always want sex. So when I get it usually its good if not I tell him that he sucked in the bed and i'm sleeping downstairs. To answer the question.. every chance I can get it, but usually every 3 days.
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I like it in the morning and late night.Sex is great all day if there aren't children around, kind of sucks that I tend to be a mom and now personal time isn't there that much, if you understand what I mean.Before my daughter was born it was an all the time activity with her father and myself.BREAKFAST,LUNCH AND DINNER.
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Me...going though the change...hot flashes don't cha know!\n\nLOL\n\n(I think my hubby is hotter, he thinks I am...it would be too weird to ask the kids so we're all tied up....figuratively that is.)
758674
When I read this for a minute I was trying to think if one of my friends was asking the question. Lol. This is my mom! I have two kids, and she has only watched them a handful of times, and that is when I ask, like I have a doctors appt. ect. This was EXTREMELY hurtful when I had kids, because she too spends more time with her nieces, which are older. Anyway, I finally talked with her about it and she just explained that younger kids aren't her strong point. When they get older they are easier to care for and won't make one so flustered about getting into things. I've just learned to deal with it. I would advise you're friend to talk to her mom about it, I wrote a long three page letter, that wasn't rude, it was humble and got alot of things out in the open, that was probably one of the hardest things I've had to do. But in the long run, things have been SO much smoother between us now. And she understands that it would be helpful for me to get out sometimes with my husband. Anyway, hope this helps. Remember she can't be defensive and rude about it, her mom is not obligated to watch them. But I've been there and done that. Good Luck!
101324
Being a Mom. Also the most rewarding. : )
886505
Something has got to give or it will be your relationship.  Surprise her on her day off and take the kids to the parents house.  Communication and a good heart to heart is in order and the double surprise is that it creates intimacy.  And women need that for great sex. \n\nGood luck. (oh, and see what you can do to negotiate some of these issues before they strain you both too far)
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NO GIFT CERTIFICATES, they are so impersonal and don't take any thought at all.  How about a day shopping, at the spa, or lunch or even a little overnight excursion with YOU!!!  I am 54 and would love to spend some quality time with my 30 year old and 28 year old but, time, children, jobs get in the way.  Most Mom's just want time with their kids.