why do women have orgasms in their sleep?
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because you dreaming about swoop baby
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Orgasms\n\nMost Orgasms\nFor 22 years, Doctors William Hartman and Marilyn Fithian of the Center for Marital and Sexual Studies in Long Beach , California , have been faithfully recording the orgasmic response in their laboratory. After hooking up subjects to blood-pressure and heart-rate monitors and various sensors in the vagina or anus, the doctors would sit by the beside and take copious notes as the subjects busied themselves. In an attempt to head off accusations of prurience, they say such research is stupifyingly dull, saying they had to "struggle to stay awake." However, they overcame the tedium to spend 10,000 hours in the laboratory. After several false starts (originally they had the subjects push a button whenever they had a orgasm, but during the heat of the moment they usually became too preoccupied to be concerned with the cause of research), the study continued apace, eventually encompassing 751 individuals. The most orgasms they recorded in an hour for a woman is a staggering 134, while the best men could do was 16. How we lesser mortals can hope to achieve anything in that vicinity was not discussed.\n\nLongest Orgasm\nMale Yet another example of inequality in the sexes. The typical male orgasm lasts anywhere from 3 to 8 seconds, though its possible through deep breathing and regular exercising to extend it to…oh, maybe 10 seconds or so. Pitiful, you may think, compared to the Herculean orgasms accomplished by some women, but sex is usually measured in terms of satisfaction of the male; in fact, the anthropologist Margaret Mead uncovered societies in which the female orgasm is unknown. So I guess it all evens out in the end.\n\nFemale As you probably know, women are capable of multiple orgasms without having to rest between. However, as fellow savant Cecil Adams expounds in his book More of the Straight Dope, women are capable of so much more:\n\nWhat you probably didn’t know is that women are capable of sustained orgasm, called status orgasmus. These start with a 2 to 4 second "spastic contraction" and last twenty to sixty seconds. Masters and Johnson (1966) published a chart of one woman who experienced a 43-second orgasm, consisting of at least 25 successive contractions. Status orgasmus is usually the result of self-stimulation, but a woman can experience it at the hands (or whatever) of a suitably skilled lover.\n\nFastest Orgasm\nMale Certain rare individuals—1 in every 1250 men, to be precise—can ejaculate by deliberately concentration on sexual fantasies without any genital manipulation whatsoever, for a total time to orgasm to be…well, right around zero seconds. As Kinsey put it: "In such a case the psychic stimulation is entirely responsible for the result." Truly, the mind really is the most powerful sex organ.\n\nFemale In his book, Dr. Kinsey & The Institute for Sex Research, Wardell B. Pomeroy recounts the case of one extraordinary woman who had near-godlike powers in the sack. His words: "I remember one woman who was capable of from fifteen to twenty orgasms in twenty minutes. Even the most casual contact could arouse a sexual response in her. Observing her both in masturbation and in sexual intercourse, we found that in intercourse her first orgasm occurred with two to five seconds after entry." [My emphasis] Ladies, eat your hearts out.\n\nLargest Ejaculate Volume\nBesides us, who else would be concerned about ejaculate volume? Why, fertility experts, of course. If ever in the vicinity of a large library you might want to dig out a fun article entitled "The semen of fertile men: statistical analysis of 1300 men," by Aquiles J. Sombrero, MD et. al. and published in The Journal of Fertility and Sterility. The data were collected from an outfit that performs vasectomies. Prior to vasectomy each man was required to submit a specimen in a special container, on which was recorded the time of collection and the duration of abstinence prior
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if the sex was good then both of yall would fall completely out right after having sex. Reason being all the energy that was used can really make a person sleepy.
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Yes, it is possible. Just as for men, female orgasms can be very different and their intensity can vary a lot too. Some can be really draining. Then again, it can be a nice excuse to avoid sex... I think that by observing her reactions you can estimate if her orgasms are really so intense and draining.
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Actually there's a large percentage of women who don't have an orgasm during intercourse alone.  A lot of us need clitoral stimulation as well in order to have an orgasm.  Don't be shy about it...do what works!!
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yes, they do, for several reasons, the most common one being that you didnt do it right and she is tired of your messing up! lol However, she cares about you enough to not hurt your ego! Here is a tip: when a woman has a true orgasim...you should be able to feel her vaginal walls tighten and release like a spasm! Some women have learned how to fake that as well(Kiegle excersices)! There are other tale tale signs....nipples harden, lips swell(top and bottom ones!) pupils dialate, breathing quickens, body gets hard and flushed.  With allot of women, they will dry up or close up tight after an orgasim, making sex painful.  Others gush with orgasims...everyone is different! Screaming and moaning is usualy fake.  Dont believe what you see in the porn flicks! Most women will either fall right to sleep afterwards or have a giggly fit....endorphins! hope this helps
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Cos they really fantasize about sex more than we men do. I mean real sex where, they, the women actually have orgasm.
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These days most women want orgasms. That wasn't always the case. Not much more than a generation ago, many adult females simply didn't have climaxes - and a lot of them weren't bothered about it.\n\nSome doctors claimed that, for a huge proportion of women, it was 'normal' to have no experience of orgasm. Indeed, as late as the 1970s there were still some who maintained that the female orgasm didn't exist - and was simply a myth made up by the media.\n\nAll that has changed now. These days, medical opinion is that every woman should be able to have orgasms - if she wants to. Furthermore, the view of most sex experts is that the majority of women are capable of multiple orgasms - if they wish to have them. In general, the ability to have multiple orgasms is greater in more mature women.\n\nWhat is a female orgasm?\n\nWe're writing this explanation in the assumption that you - the reader - are male. But what follows will be of interest to a lot of female readers too.\n\nWhat happens in a woman's body during a climax is very like what happens in your (male) body when you ejaculate. In other words, there's a feeling of increasing excitement, building up to a point where everything 'blows' in a great blast of ecstasy. This 'orgasmic moment' is characterised by surges of contractions in the sex organs, occurring almost every 0.8 seconds.\n\nMen are well aware that these throbs of pleasure are accompanied by the pumping out of spurts of seminal fluid. Obviously this doesn't happen in women.\n\nA few females do produce some fluid at orgasm, but the impression given in so many erotic stories that most women 'ejaculate' is not correct. Only a minority of females do this.\n\nMultiple orgasm\n\nThe other big difference between male and female orgasm is this: after the first climax, many women can 'come' again, often within a minute or two.\n\nThis ability is extremely rare in males. Relatively few young women can achieve multiple orgasm, because it's an ability that usually has to be learned. But with the help of a skilled lover, most women can eventually achieve the capacity for multiple orgasms - if they so desire.\n\nBringing women to a climax\n\nFor men perhaps the most important thing to realise about female climaxes is that with women, it's not a mechanical thing - as it generally is with men.\n\nYou see, most males will ejaculate quite quickly if they have their penises rubbed. This applies even if the circumstances aren't very romantic - or even if they don't particularly like the person who's doing the rubbing! Women are not like this! Female orgasm isn't a push-button response. The conditions have to be right.\n\nAlthough females vary, many women need the following if they're going to reach a climax:\n\n    * a romantic atmosphere\n\n    * pleasant, comfortable surroundings\n\n    * a partner who they really like\n\n    * a feeling of being wanted and appreciated\n\n    * a good flow of natural lubrication - so that the delicate female parts don't get sore\n\n    * a skilled partner who knows how to stimulate the clitoris.\n\nUnless you can provide the above, you are not going to have great success in giving your partner orgasms.\n\nPlease bear in mind that - contrary to what many men think - sexual intercourse by itself is not likely to produce an orgasm. This is because intercourse alone is not very good at stimulating the woman's clitoris. Nearly all females need additional stimulation of the clitoris by fingers or mouth.\n\nWhat to do\n\nIn summary, here's what to do if you want to bring your partner to orgasm regularly:\n\n    * don't be in a rush.\n\n    * don't be too demanding - it's not an Olympic event.\n\n    * talk to your partner, and ask her what she wants you to do to her.\n\n    * always create a romantic atmosphere.\n\n    * make sure that everything is comfortable and nice for her.\n\n
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It depends on if she orgasmed or not if she climaxed it is the same feeling as a guy relaxed, destressed, if she didnt she is thinking that was it what about me!!! Yo dude get it back up I'm not done!!!
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well women feel stimulated when thier breasts are sucked just as during sex
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A woman's orgasm may serve a purpose as far as the reproductive aspect of it goes. It is said that he female orgasm helps to draw sperm up through the cervix and uterus, thus aiding fertilization and reproduction. Fertility specialists sometimes tell women to lie on their backs and masturbate to orgasm after being artificially inseminated. Female orgasm is correlated with higher fertility rates and more babies.\n\nAnd as far as your "why does it happen" question goes, sex and orgasms are pleasurable. regurdless of whether people are married or even capable of procreation. I don't see what "the bible" has to do with this. \n\nPersonally, I'm agnostic, and don't believe in "god" or "the bible".
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Yes we feel it when you touch us during sleep.  It feels good to have our breasts touched.
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Not uncomfortable...and wet dreams are normal for both sexes.  I have never orgasmed personally, but I have woken many times with damp thighs and great need for 'release'.\nIf a lover is beside me he is in for a nice morning treat, but I have never been in bed with a guy who had a wet dream to completion..Seen many erect and ready to go penises in the mornings though even before the guy wakes up..\nFrequency of masturbation seems to have no effect on how damp I am when I wake up....
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In order for a woman to have multiple orgasms she needs to continue to breath slowly through the first one. (instead of holding or grasping for breath) If she can do this then it will lead to a 2nd 3rd and maybe even a 4th.
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my gf has told me that i do it quite often i am a cd and i have woken her up many nights stroking.I never remeber or have any recollection of the event. my therapist told me that it is probably some sort of emotional coping strategy that i use. she said sex is soothing so if you have a lost of stress it may come out while sleeping, it is kinda like sleepwalking. the term some one mentioned and could not remember is SEXSOMNIA it is a relatively new field  nort much is known because people are usually too embarrassed to talk about it, it can range from simple masturbation to full blown sex all while the person is asleep. i dont think everyone who masturbates in their sleep has this condition . some may but for others it is probably just a stress reducer.
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actually ,most women cannot acheive orgasm by intercourse alone! this is totally normal. Try using a vibrator before and during sex to stimulate your clitoris during intercourse. The nerves from that clitoris actually run through and this is where the mysterious G-spot comes from. It is just an extension of these nerves. most women's nerves terminate too soon for her to have a intravaginal orgasm. So stimulate those puppies externally! Hope this works for you!
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women have more sex drive.they can reach an orgasm six times in a minute.\nmen have to take a break and reach orgasm very fast