Why do guys see me as "just a friend."?
544622
Be careful to not miss the signs. Perhaps a few of your guy friends do like you (most will at one point or another), have given you a few signals, and you have unknowingly shot them down. Open your mind, feel desirable, and smile. Good luck!
943783
dunno love. you obviously care a lot about him....\nleave him alone for a while, perhaps he'll decide that just being friends is good for him... there again maybe he'll decide you're a cow and he hates you. you cannot control what goes on inside his head or try to second guess/pre-empt it.\nthat's the trouble with men though aint it? they seem to think that just being friends means they've moved down in your estimations somehow, when in fact it just means you wanna know them forever, without all the messy stuff that gets in the way of that.\nmaybe he's low in confidence and looking for love.... thought he'd found it with you... perhaps if he gains some self esteem and meets someone else he'll appreciate how important and precious a good friendship can be.\nunfortunately, i don't think there's anything you can do to make him feel any better about it all though, he'll have to get there by himself.
766818
Because he doesn't want you to have his number, period. But he's got some feelings about how to treat people in general ( just your average nice guy- they are out there) and he doesn't know how to tell you. Doing it this way makes him feel less guilty and it's the ONLY way this particutlar person can tell you without feeling like a jerk.  Don't ask his friend for his number. His buddy is his buddy and probably won't give you the right one. Then you'll feel like a fool.
1005810
Maybe they just like you; enjoy your company. Maybe even be having second thoughts about the relationship? I wouldn't count on that one, but I wouldn't find it unusual that they simply like you and want to maintain some contact. If you are truly concerned, ask them.
631852
no some guys are just genuinely nice. i do favors for any friend, male or female. just because a guy is nice to you it doesnt always mean he wants sex.
1073019
i would think that if you have known each other for that long and you have had a platonic relationahip he may not show anything at all to indicate to you how he felt. he may just hide it for fear of ruining the friendship. sometimes guys are really passive
107911
Look! To me it sounds like you like the guy more than a friend so you should like give him hint's and flirt just a little bit. If you don't see nothing hapening then it looks like you all wer just ment to be friends.
730642
oh, men.. you never know what the motive is.. how about he likes just you? maybe he's being nice to your friend to make you jealous or confused? does the thought make you happy? then just beleive it, till you know for sure.
428105
Seems like this is no REAL friend at all. True friends are not rude to you like that. This person seems to be intimidated by you and is handling this by trying to make you seem insignificant so that hey in turn, will be noticed more. If they cared about and loved you as a real friend would, they would be shining a spotlight on YOU instead.
632662
It's probably that the guys you hang out with consider you "one of the lads" You've been freinds with them so you're more like a sister to them than girlfriend material. \n\nYou should get to know some guys that you're not already friends with and be flirty and maybe a little bit girly too. Some guy will ask you on a date I'm sure.
316241
it might be the way ur presenting urself to guys...
780219
hmm. i used to have the same problem. don't let the boys see you as a boy (nt that u are) but show them you can be more than jus a friend and if theres one you like make more of an effort to get your feelings across.\n\nxx
458067
that sux, maybe its cause guys are itimidated by ur beauty and they think they could handle a woman like u
855952
Could it be that your guy friends may like you more than a friend?
391006
because they are not real men.They want you to feel like you can have no one else but them.Insecurity.But you can do better.
876466
Guys take that as you are not interested in them. It makes it hard to talk to you if you appear standoffish, and some might think you snobbish.
186437
I am really quite familiar with the kind of guy that you described.  [I was exactly like that before!]  It sounds like he is favoring up to you and you are catching the vibes that he is sending out.  He seems to have other "multiple activity" going on in his life; but believe me, you can surely bring all of that to a halt, and turn him into a lovable little Teddy Bear.  It really does appear that it's you that he is after.  And you just watch!  Once you nail him, he will forget all of those other gals as if they never even existed to begin with.  And once they pick it up that someone nailed him, they won't have anything to do with him either.  It's like a mating-season.  If you are not in it then you don't even notice it. BTW, a well-known symptom of what you described is for him to ask you to hook up with one of your friends.  It's not your friends he is after!  He IS AFTER YOU!!!