I need your opinions on what a man once said to me.?
537623
Absolutely untrue!  There is nothing wrong with 30 year old woman.  There is something wrong with the guy who said that to you.  You still have lots of time to find the right guy, settle down, get married, have kids.  Just think of it this way, you have had these last few years to have fun, finish school, get a job, etc....now you can work on getting the family part.  And you also know what you are looking for in a guy.
57084
from what you say you only danced with him a few times and he got your name and number and you did not give it to him. and now he comes to your house you did not say wether or not you gave him your address or if he found that to. and now he wants to marry you. Well let me tell you he is a physco. i bet you realised that already. i went to pay my electric bill i called on the phone and started talking to the man that was on the other end. we ended up starting to talk outside of his company. he lived in another state. one day he got on a plane came to my home and said he wanted to get married. i did not no what to say because i thought stalker. within two days a call came in and it was from his daughter that did not no where he went to and did not no who i was. the story finally ends when i found out he has been wanted for 10 years and in 3 different states and i worked closely with them to capture him. now he is in prison. what i am saying to you is you do not no him. why all of a sudden do you think he would become that attatched to you. you need not to worry about his feelings because you need to worry about yourself. you do not no what he really has in store for you. and i would make it clear that he is not to cantact you again and that is it. you do not need to explain anything to him. this is not your problem it is his. if he does call you again then take the steps that you told him you would. be firm and good luck
1107418
Ya most of the time the truth does come out,the only thing you can do is day your sorry. Balls in his court then. Me personally depending on what you said. I'd probably dump ya.
751015
Howdid you make friends with him in the first place? Ther must have been communication of some kind. Carry on with the same
585576
Maybe after:\n\n1. HER DIARY\n\nTonight I thought he was acting weird.\n\nWe had made plans to meet at a bar to have a drink. I was shopping with my friends all day long, so I thought he was upset at the fact that I was a bit late, but he made no comment.  Conversation wasn't flowing so I suggested that we go somewhere quiet so we could talk. He agreed but he kept quiet and absent.  I asked him what was wrong; he said nothing.  I asked him if it was my fault that he was upset.  He said it had nothing to do with me and not to worry.\n\nOn the way home I told him that I loved him, he simply smiled and kept driving. I can't explain his behavior. I don't know why he didn't say I love you too. When we got home I felt as if I had lost him, as if he wanted nothing to do with me anymore. He just sat there and watched T.V. He seemed distant and absent.\n\nFinally, I decided to go to bed. About 10 minutes later he came to bed, and to my surprise he responded to my caress and we made love, but I still felt that he was distracted  and his thoughts were somewhere else.\n\nHe fell asleep - I cried. I don't know what to do.  I'm almost sure that his thoughts are with someone else. My life is a disaster.\n\n2.  HIS DIARY \n\nI shot the worst round of golf in my life today, but at least I got laid.
87392
It sounds to me like he was messing around with your head, honey.  Unfortunately there are men like that on the internet and they are complete @$$holes.  There are good ones, too, though, so don't let this discourage you from continuing your search where you left off.\n\nMy own personal motto is "Do follow your heart, _but_ make damn sure your brain is along for the ride."  I'm not at all saying that you did anything wrong -- sometimes it can be very hard to tell indeed.  It's just that I had to learn a few hard lessons myself and so now I don't give my heart away until I've done the best job possible of making sure I don't pick up on any contradictions, evasion of questions (particularly about family or the person's past), facts/descriptions/histories that don't add up or anything else that my instincts might warn me about.\n\nGood luck to ya!
252424
Usually that's the kind of thing guys say when they are thinking of you in the long term. Maybe he wants to marry you or thinks your relationship could go that way.  It really depends on the context of when he said it to you what it actually means. If it was me I would ask him.
792961
Don't worry about what he thinks, his opinion means nothing.  This guy is a jerk... there were warning signs that either you didn't see or choose to ignore.  There is a lesson to be learned her, learn it now so you won't have to repeat it later with some other jerk.\n\nDon't continue any communications with him and ignore any thing bad he may say about you.  You now the truth of the matter and that's all that counts.
550560
youre amazing? nice eyes? Im proud of you?\n\n\nWhat do you like to hear... just say that kinda stuff to him.
950605
I would say it means that the things he said were so upsetting to me that I literally went to pieces because of it or even more figuratively, I was so upset by what he said that I fell apart at the seams.   Now I should go and ask somebody what that means :-))
974146
Back off and get a grip of yourself.\n\nYou say nothing changed...and yet you say things got a little worse.  Obviously something changed...it just wasn't by your rules.  Things changed also in that you've shared something important about your feelings.\n\nJust be nice to him but don't expect him to react the way you want him to.  Respect that he'll react the way he needs to.
930238
learn this lesson.....its gonna be hard to repair back to "as it was".\n\nyou kept it from him or lied to him about it.....not wise.
1172644
That was a really messed up thing to say especially over a movie! I wouldn't wish death on my worse enemy. I am sorry he upset you and if he said that to me, it would have hurt my feelings. I'm glad you  took the approach to not feed into it because more than likely he was angry about something that had nothing to do with you and took it out on you. I hope you stay friendly, alive, well and strong. When having a job working with people I learned that you are going to come across some rude people.
789334
Been there, done that, got the T-shirt.\n\nJesus is a nice guy, but I've talked to him about it already and he understood: he's not for me. I'll see him again someday, as I'm passing on to be reborn... Would you like me to tell him something for you?\n\nBlessed be! )O(
670788
What the hell did he say?
421069
Guys (People) tend to tell you things they think you want to hear.. I believe usually in cases like you described he was only after one thing.. and when he didn't get it he lost interest or didn't think it was worth the effort.. in any case he's not worth the effort, be happy you don't hear from him anymore.
204141
Depends on what he said.  \n\nIs there any truth to what he said?  If there is some truth it may seem mean because it was coming from your friend. Plus, our friends know us better than we know ourselves and yes it may have been hurtful and yes maybe it could have been said better but if it was said out of love no matter how mean, you need to talk to them and straighten it out.