I have a boyfriend that is 14 years old and I have 19 that it's bad?
537636
He is jail bait--find a guy who is over 18!
785571
Please move on for your own sake.  Find someone who will be with you through thick and thin.  Obviously, he still does not know what he wants.  And with a 13 year old, he should definitely man up and stop just coming around when he feels like it.  So DATE, you will feel better about yourself.  You deserve better than what he is giving you right now.  If he does change, and proves to you he has changed, and you want to be with him - then great, it was meant to be.  Until then, don't let him run your life.
1181304
My boyfriend is 43 and I am 25.  We have been together for 3 years now and it is the best relationship I have been in.  I couldn't imagine ever dating somebody my own age again.  They are so immature and in this relationship I feel like there is stability.  I think he will definitely stay with you because men like younger women and if you are good to him and he is good to you, it will work.
182926
I think he's old enough to do so but if you still find it wierd or unfaithful, ask him about it. If he denies make sure you have proof for back up. NOTE: Don't try to make him look like a bad person, talk as nice as possible
945552
ok look....this can be a touchy thing..but you shouldnt let age get in the way. If you really like him it shouldnt matter. My bf is 18 and i'm 16 and we work out fine. I can understand why he lied because i was dating a 12 year old when i was 15 and he lied to me too. the only reason we broke up was because of distance.  I don't think it's wrong at all. Like I said if you like him, then forget his age...and he obviously wants to be with you..take advantage of that :)
174346
That depends on how old you are.  If your 15 and he's 19....no....If you are 20 and he's 24  ok there's nothing wrong.  I'm turning 32 in Aug and my Husband is 38....so there's nothing wrong.
832347
There's nothing wrong with it, especially if your feelings are genuine, but keep in mind that you could get hurt pretty bad given you start up a relationship. He could use you, or date you for a while but then flat out tell you that he's uncomfortable. Six years is not that big of a difference, but even age differences like that could result in some professional frowning-down on his part (like if he has a big corporate job and they find out he's seeing someone younger). But like I said, six years isn't that MUCh of a difference to be worried about. I knew someone who was about 19 or 20 and she dated a 36 year old guy, but they broke up because of the age difference.\n\nI just read your edit...I have to tell you that twenty is a whole different world from fourteen. So like I said, be careful!
344790
I know it's upsetting to you right now, but generally these age things work themselves out.  The May/December thing seems nice at first: it's a pleasant change for the older person to have a frisky young person with them and the younger person likes having the responsible, older mature person.  However, these differences become something they begin to dislike and generally they will break up once they realize they have such different lives.  Don't worry about it for a couple of months.  If things get more serious, then talk to your daughter about your fears.
686312
A complex problem, but I would say you have to cut one loose to start with.\n\nI wont flame you for the age difference, because to you it probably does not make a difference, but it does to him, he will be wanting a lot more than you should be willing to give, I of course mean sexually. Which is wrong, he shouldnt be dating you, I was 17 once, I know what 17 year old (or 16) guys want I can say I wasnt as desperate, but all of my freinds were only interested in one thing and you shouldnt be considering that.\n\nI think even if you decided on taking things further with an older boyfreind, you will not be as ready as them, but more importantly he could be arrested for it, and if that happens that could really mess things up for him, he would be labelled as a sex offender and that could ruin his future. In terms of a job or life, it would be on his criminal list, perhaps a sex offenders list, where he would be put with dirty old men, it really could be very serious.\n\nIt could also mess things up in your life big time, you have a bit of time, so take your time enjoy life, but try to find a boyfriend closer to your own age, where there will be less problems and you both will have a lot more in common.\n\nAs for the talking on the phone, maybe you both are a little shy which is undestandable (I am guessing he is closer to you age, you didnt say), when you just talk it can be hard to think of things to say, try asking a few questions how he feels about something, talk about common interests, maybe movies, music, friends etc.\n\nAlso there is nothing wrong with being single either, you are young you have a really long time to worry about boyfriends in the future.\n\nI hope this helps and that you take my advice regards the 17 year old guy.\n\nAll the best\n\nArmand.
964167
Ive been with my b&#92;f for 7years now.I'm 23 now,he's 7yrs older than me.For the first 4 years our family's had issues with us being together.we moved in together only 3months into it while i was living with a girl friend.its had its up and downs but has been a great life.my advice to you would have to be,that you continue strong in the relationship that you have,don't worry to much about the negativity that continues to linger around you and your man.If he makes you happy and you know that he is all good for you,then you have nothing to worry about.wish you all the best....
297874
14 is way too young to be having sex. You should talk with an adult that you trust about what your thinking.If they don't change your mind,please use protection.That is so very important.
1185473
Well, do you love him? You have had a child together so you have to think of the kid too.. But do not stay for only that reason.\n\nI do not think the age is the problem, I think maybe you feel like you might have gotten with him for a father figure, I am going to guess and say that I bet someone told you that..\n\nIf you love him hun, marry and have a wonderful life.. If you are not sure, then do not marry him...And if you do not love him, then you really should move on and find someone you love and who loves and adores you.. We all deserve that!
569888
i was in that same situation he was the world to me but you have to be able to decide if you love him or if you with him just because hes older and can make you experiance  thing that you havent felt befor and the more people tell you you shouldnt be with him the more that you want to be with him for the thril its more exciting doing something you know your not supposed to be doing. take care of your self and respect youself and your parents and talk to them to see if you can come up with an agreement best of luck to you .
772063
I started a long distance relationship a long time ago when i was 14 and we lasted 9 years. We broke up when we lived together but i'd say that everyone is different and since you have already lived together its plausible to say that you will find it hard, very hard in fact but keep at it hun, if you love each other as much as you say then you can find a way to make it work.
1186927
I think age has nothing to do with a relationship. They say that boys are 2 years younger than girls when it comes to maturity, so it works out. That is totally normal girl. Two years isnt anything, I know it feels like that, but out of high school, a few years doesnt mean much. Have fun with ur bf- he sounds like a cool guy.
719675
age should never be a problem in a relationship. if you really love the person, then their age shouldnt matter to you or anyone else. my friend's parents have a 20 year age difference and they're perfectly happy. just be happy and dont care about what other people say
1029673
There is NO WAY ON EARTH that a 14 year old should be going out with an 18 year old.  It is not "against the law" to date, but anything sexual with him is a crime (for him, not for you).