what is better for couples, to have a single baby or at least 2?
547185
it depends on the relationship. if your happy and have done all your fun things and want to settle down than i think one is good for now. so you can get the feeling of how fatherhood is like and you must have a good job that's paying kind of allot. because babies don't come cheap! there is so much to learn when your a father. and is she the right one? do you want to spend the rest of you life with her and no other person? do you and her have a good relationship understanding each other?
310862
Women usually only have one baby at a time.  Each baby requires much attention, energy, and resources, so more than one newborn would require too much work at one time.  The biological responsibility of a woman is to nurture and care for the baby so that it grows to become a well-functioning adult.  However, men do not have to hold a baby inside for nine months, and their biological imperative is to spread their genetic material (i.e. reproduce with as many women as possible and make babies).  It's not necessarily an advantage.  It's just how we're made.
1172970
I'd say adoption .  Being fat and pregnant a second time will teach her to be more careful about who she opens her legs for.
303821
If it was me, I'm going to say no.  I have one beautiful son and one more son on the way that I'm totally excited about, but I'm not much of a kid person outside of my own.  So if I met someone and found out that he had 5 kids, I would not let a relationship develop.  I would not want to deal with living with a total of 7 children if we were to fall in love and actually live together.  Criminy who can afford to have 5 kids these days anyway??  Yikes!
976081
It really depends on the person. If you manage to find someone with whom you can spend the rest of your life, that's great. If you need more than one partner to be happy, that's just fine too.
197697
Wow!!  You really need to sit down the both of you with your parents and have a serious discussion about your options and your future.  Two children is a lot to handle and very expensive.  Unless your families are very supportive and willing to help financially and emotionally you may want to consider adoption or abortion.  You are soooo young and so is your boyfriend, be sure about your decision!
531040
No the ruld is that each couple can only have 1 child... no matter how many siblings they have
1023658
marry both.  two is better than one.
211636
I like 25. Although I got married a little earlier (6 years ago) I think that 25 lets you enjoy your youth but you're not too old to enjoy some of it with a partner. You can finish uni but you can still wait a little while before having kids. The percentage of birth problems goes up after 30 so I figure that gives you five years together to build a life, travel together etc... and then you can have kids. If you don't want kids then I guess it doesn't matter so much.
371504
I've read a few articles and they say 2-3 times a week is about normal.  It depends on your busy schedules as well.  A lot of couples are lucky to get 1 in a week.
198257
From a Christian point of view, I have to say no, because it is sin.  However, if you are not a Christian, then this is not a factor.  So weigh the pros and cons.  Do you love the person?  Are you willing to spend the rest of your life with this person if you end up having a baby together?  \n\nWhat ever you decide to do, always be safe.  Practice safer sex, and after marriage, you should wait for a couple of years to make babies.  Take time to enjoy each other before you bring another person into your new family.
251183
I'd say family.  When your kid is born, then nothing else matters in the world.  When you meet your true soul mate, then everything else is just stuff.  You'll have to fight to keep your soul mate happy and fight harder to provide a good life to your kids.  Those will develop your inside in ways money never could.  Now, part of that fighting for your family could be the quest for money, but then the central focus is your family and not the money itself.
521823
Yeah I'm with her. Get married first, but don't get married because you to want a baby together because that's not the way to go. The to of you should really love each other enough before you even consider marriage or a baby! Out of that love a child should be conceived, and not because one or the other of you just wants to have a baby. Seriously, think about it before you have the WHAT-IF'S ans WHAT COULD HAVE BEEN thoughts in you mind.
1141540
None I want to wait a while before I have any.Congradulations on your child any way,how old they!?But I want either 2 identical twin boys or just 1 boy or 1 girl thats it!
912434
Get married, or have a baby.  It worked wonders for my wife.
977308
Oh that is a tough situation and I dont think you can make one decision that will fit everyone. I think it would depend on how far into the pregnancy you are, which would still be a tough decision to make. I don't have kids or particularly want them, but if I were pregnant and I was in the situation I personally would want to be kept alive long enough for my child to survive. Most sane normal women would want that. That is a personal decision however and the goverment should keep its nose out.
803204
Why can I have just one person? There is the father of my Granddaughter who has beat my daughter, threatened to kill her, no child support or involvement with the child. He also threatened to kill her friends, husband, me and pushes drugs.\n\n Second, he has an identacial twin who has done the same, have to make sure to get the right one.\n\n Third their father who has also made threats to my daughter, her husband and myself.\n\n  If allowed 3, that would make everyones life so much easier after I'm gone. After 8 years in the military I could do it, Lord knows "took" people a lot better than those 3.