Best friendship is broken up due to possesiveness of the guy. how to regain their friendship?
552812
appoligize!  ihad that happen!  give her her space for a while, then appoligize.  it worked for me!
1085512
Aw. Well, just sit him down and explain to him your feelings. Tell him you just want to go back to being friends. There really is no easy or "nice" way to do it because he probably will get hurt. But whatever you do, let him know you still think he's a great guy and that you value your friendship.. =). Hope that helped a little, haha. And thanks for answering mine.. our ages are 16.
246779
as you said this fight was stupid so yes definetly be friends again, you known him since first grade dont loose a relationship over that, youve been friends for way to long its time to move on and start having fun with him. besides what if something happened you wouldnt want to miss out on the oppurtunity to be friends....
935167
its hard no matter what you choose to do. try to tell them both that you're not comfortable with the situation when they ask you about the other. don't give up the friendship with either one unless they just make it impossible for you. breakups are hard enough without losing your friends in the process.
1165904
If he wont be your friend anymore because of that then leave him alone. Dont put yourself in that uncomfortable situation again.
232437
look....if danny is ur true friend then he should understand that wot happened was a mistake and the fact that u let him beat u up was all u could do to say u were sorry.but u can go to lisa and ask her try explaining danny the whole thing..that it was a mistake,and wud never happen again..but lemme tell u 1 important stuff,dude..once u lose some1's trust,its not hard..but its impossible to get it back!!even if things cool down between both of u,hez not gonna trust u anymore,dude.im sorry to say this,but its a fact.happened even with me.hence it wud be better to slowly cast away from danny(as well as lisa).if thats not possible(e.g. if both of u r in a grp)..then try maintaining a VERY formal relation with the 2 of them.in course of time,he might realise your true worth.but therez nothing else to do than wait and watch.hope it works out for u,dude..coz i have been in similar situations and i know how awful it feels.best of luck!!
884723
This one is going to be difficult, so let's see if I can help.\n\nFirst, your ex.  Now, I take it he's your ex for a reason.  Ask yourself, is there a chance for a relationship with him?  And, if there is, would things end up differently if you two got back together?  If you answered "no" to either question, then rule him out.\n\nSecond, your guy friend.  This is even trickier because if you do chose to pursue a relationship with him, it could end up being either being the best thing you ever had, or ending your friendship.  Does he feel the same about you?  If he does, then you may lose him if you don't date him.\n\nI hope this helps a bit.  Sorry I could not be more of a help.
186484
I am so very sorry for your lose. But as the saying goes, Time heals all wounds. And No, I am not trying to be funny. It will take time and as that time passes, keep in mind that your bestfirend is in a far better place and holding a seat for you when your time comes. When you can sit down and have a conversation with your friend. You'd be amazed at how well this works at times. I truly believe that your conversation will be heard. It will also help if you sit down with another friend who also knew this bestfriend. Maybe not as well or as close as you were, but someone who knew your bestfriend. It does help to bring closer.
750713
This guy is a problem and I doubt he is worth you and your best friend having a falling out because he is trying to divide and conquer. \n\nFind a situation where you and your best friend are together, and he is there also. Make it appear the two of you are comparing notes and that you are talking about him, and watch him show his true colors and scramble for cover. \n\nSounds like this guy is extremely immature and is looking for any port in a storm. \n\nPick the one who is interested in you, because of you, not because he is playing some game using you and your best friend as chess pieces to get what he wants. I repeat, do not allow this immature boy to come between you and your best friend. \n\nHe is not the one for you, . . . . . . . .you deserve much better.  \n\nDarryl S.
762944
Sounds like he didn't value your friendship as much as you did. Friendship is like love in a way, sometimes we get burned, and there's nothing we can do other than just move on and keep going. I hope you have other friends to bring joy back into your life.
719781
You need to decide who's more important--your friend or his ex. I realize that you're friends with both of them, but I'm assuming you've known your guy friend longer. \n\nIn that case, he's more important, I'd say. Tell him what's going on with this girl. Forget about her feelings; clearly she has no regard for anyone else's feelings, so why should give a sh*t about her's?
1046923
You are best off to remove your self from this triangle before everyone gets hurt. Stay friends with your friend and tell her guy that you will not have anything to do with him even if him and you friend split up as it will harm your frienship. And tell her how he is she deserves to know the truth about him so she can move on to someone who will respect her and love her for herself. You will find the right guy someday don't give up hope you will know when he is the one.
232306
Oh baby.. Ask ur heart.. Is it really possible for u or the other person to b 'friends' after having broken up? U'll find the answer if u ask this to urself honestly..\nI believe that just to make matters uncomplicated and simple u can 'say' him/her that u'll remain friends just so as to console her at the moment.. but i m sure u wont be able to take this friendship to far..as u r aware..a broken heart stings!
529659
you really have to ask her what's the deal with what happened.but since i assume that she's your bestfriend,then i say that don't let a guy come between friendship.no matter how much you love him.and IF she wants him for herself and she lets this guy come between the two of you, then later down the road you won't be the one feeling guilty about a guy possibly ruining a beautiful friendship.
266219
Tell him exactly what you are feeling.\nTell him you would like to still be friends but have concerns.\nTell him why you are concerned & explain quite simply that this can not continue to happen.\nTell him how it makes you feel and how you would NEVER do that to him...\nAfter saying this, listen to his reaction & proceed however you think is best.\nMy guess is things will change for the better, but this is up to you to decide. (If he really was a good friend, give him a chance to redeem himself and make things good again.)
354325
Let it go.  Let him go.  Your setting yourself up to be hurt.  Don't get in the middle of that situation because it sounds like it's far from over.  He sounds like he has to deal with his issues with her.  He may get back with her or he may not but it doesn't matter he can't give you what you want from him right now.  It's better to continue being friends if you can.\n\nHopefully you can because friendship is so important.
491117
a similiar situation happened to me.  to this day i no longer talk to the girl i used to be friends with.  my best advice to you is find a friend that will not choose their bf over you. especially if the guy is yelling at you and she will not stand up for you.  she is not a true friend!