real answers please!what would u do if your friend changed,would u changed too 4 them?
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When you have been friends with someone for a long time you learn to adjust to their changes in life as well as they do yours!\nEveryone changes, that's just the way it is! Just because her personality is changing and she has found other people that she can be friends with does not mean that you are not her friend! It sounds to me like you  loved being in the spotlight, and now that your not anymore, you are jealous!\nIf you are a good friend of hers you would be happy for her, not jealous!!!!
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i know how you feel. my friend did the same thing and unfortunately she has changed alot and we are not close like we used to be. but that doesnt mean that it has to be that way for you too( hopefully it wont! )\n\nat first my friend was confused i would try to help her out as much as i could and now i guess shes made up her mind (she has a gf now) and i just let her do her own thing. \n\nits sad becuase we hardly talk like we used to.  oh well what can you do
1076470
people change..it all depends on how she changed........if you love her, you can deal with it
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What do you want to do? How about the person that told you whatever what said? Was the info. true or not? Do you believe in your friend?\nOne thing I do know from experience is that a true friend will never two face you. My sister, mom, brother, dad true friends have said things about me but in real concern. Sometimes it pisses me off but they have the right to love me. And if someone came to me and repeat their private conversation to make it gossip I would dump their butt, because i do trust "MY" judgment for a friend. So where do you stand with these friends.
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Follow your heart, give him a chance. If they are true friends they need to respect your decisions and choices unconditionally.
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Just be his friend and support him no matter what.  You can't change who and what he is.  None of that should matter to you anyway.
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yah, you cant change a person.  Just find a nice polite way to tell her what she is doing and see if she realizes it or not.  She wont change if she doesnt think it is a bad thing. But.. if she sees the issue as a problem she will be willing to work on it. Good luck
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THIS PERSON MUST NO TAHVE BEEN YOUR BEST FRIEND B/C IF THEY WERE , THEY WOULD NOT HAVE DUMPED YOU FOR SOME OTHER FRIEND !!
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Stop giving them things or doing things for them and see how long they stick around. If they get angry about it, then you will know they werent your friends to begin with.
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yes people to change!\nthe feeling doesnt sound like a mutual one you inticated, so my dear you should move on
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I went through the same thing you did.  It kind of gets frustrating.  How does your friend react to it?  Does your friend go along with it or just gets quiet.  Cause my friend at times gave the hint that we were together.  Sorry to say that She no longer is my friend cause she was in fact giving hints that we were closer that friends.  In order to avoid it talk to your friend and also try not to give certain hints to people when you hang out together.  Sometimes people will jump to conclusions due to you hanging out with your friend way too much.
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You need to get out there and grow , But maybe your friend is afraid of change or just want things to stay the same. Things have to change in order to get ahead, But who says she can't still be your friend? Don't let anyone hold you down because of their own insecurities!
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If he was a true friend then he would answer you either way because that's what a true friend is all about :-) As far as what to do is concerned ... seek a friend who will cherish and reciprocate your sentiments. Goodluck!
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What I would do is simply change the nature of our relationship.  What I mean is he would still be my friend however, I just would no longer share intimacy's with him, and would no longer discuss anything with him of any detriment to me.  In other words, I'de feed him with a long handled spoon..
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Stop calling them your 'old friends' and begin refering to them as what they actually are?\n\nNah, that'd be rude, and you don't want to be that way too, do you?\n\nTough situation, kid. Perhaps they just weren't really good friends to begin with, and you'll just need to cut your losses now and develop meaningful, healthy relationships with your new peers.
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I just got over a relationship where my best friend (who was also his x girlfriend) and him kept staying friends. I didnt really let him know how much it bothered me, but now that i look back, it totally bothered me... and now that were not together, im so glad its over because that issue was so annoying, not worth dealing with. Tell him to loose her and if he can't, drop him!
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NOBODY changes anyone else who does not ALLOW themselves to be changed!!  So if someone 'chose' a different persona while she's with this guy, it was her choice, don't ever forget that!!  And then perhaps you should think less of her, then 'less of the guy' who 'turned her into this'.. because nobody has that much control over another :)  Words of wisdom... \n\nWe only have control over ourselves.. those that perceive they HAVE control over another or their behavior, is completely an illusion and someday, that person will show you just how little control you really have over them :)