How do I get people to stop gossiping about me and loose interest in me?
542485
Be indifferent. Dont care what people gossip about. Once they will know that it does not affect you then they will get discouraged.
54819
you dont want to tell them about your life (personal) just talk about gerneral things and see if you have anything in common if so it will be fine from there. Oh yeah the more you think about NOT saying something stupid YOU WILL! so dont think too hard.
590101
Just ignore them, it usually distracts them when they're trying to get your attention.\n\nFocus on what you're there to do; win.
264225
Try not to listen to what they say and ignore their comments as much as you can. The less you talk and act like you have time for them, then the more they will get the picture. Set an example for them on how one should be. They just might learn something from you indirectly.
655344
You are not going to get her to stop unless you embaress her. Or you need to talk to her about what she is doing and how it makes your feel. Telling her to shut up is not the way to go.\n\nAlso you need to ask yourself why do you want her to stop. Are you jealous of the attention? If it is not hurting you why should you be worried. People that lie like that will get theirs in the end. She'll bury herself in her own hole without any help from you.
983197
put your self in other people shoes. Even she keeps saying whatever she wants, she cannot destroys the person you are interiorly. Let her say whatever she wants it's a free country, don't worry about rumors, maybe she went through the same thing she's doing to you. Keep doing the good things, and people will appreciate you.
781737
not giving a damn about them...rumers everywhere and everytime..you cannot stopd them...most of the time people talk rumors about you becasue they are jelaouse, cuz youve got something they dont have....and now if you dont listen to them, give the impression like you don't care...they will stop itself.
96545
if people are alienating you for some reason, forget them, make up your own click.people are shallow these days.just ignore all of it.
610764
Just tell them it bothers you.  It also depends on what they're teasing you about.  I tease my niece all the time, but if she tells me I'm annoying her, then I stop.
134824
Don't let it get to you and just ignore him, you HAVE to be the better woman and hold your head up high! For real, rumors are nothing....especially if he's spreading bogus stuff about you-you know the truth and that's what's gonna stick with you the rest of your life. All thoses people in school that pay ear to the rumors and think things about you will stay right there where they started in school....after you graduate you're GONE, not even a handfull of people that you associate with will you want to keep in contact with after your gone and that's including him! but like I said before even if there's not bogus rumors and he's just trying to get at you for whatever reason...give him the cold shoulder.....IT'S ALL ABOUT THE CHASE-ONCE YOU GOT IT, YOU DON'T WANT IT  remember that and don't let him use you
1155886
Humble yourself under the mighty hand of God.  If you just go about the day saying good things about people and not getting caught up in gossip as others, you will turn things around.  Let your light shine that they may see your good deeds and works and soon others will follow.
103971
All u can do is tell them that ur not doing anything at all. The only person u really have to be accoutable to is urself(and God,if ur religious). I know it's hard to ignore all the gossip and rumors, but that is where fresh air comes into play. It's always good to clear ur head. IF it's possible, let ur parents know where u go when ur not at home(if it won't get u in trouble). When u are out of the house, and on ur own(especially if u get hitched), that kind of gossip will stop(I assume).\n\nMy own relatives think I'm a skank(In my culture, dating isn't allowed), and my parents believe a lot of what they hear. The only advice I get from people is to go on with my life and deal with it. People who gossip are bored, and they want exitement and drama in their own lives, so ur the scapegoat. Others are miserable in their own lives and want company. I know it's hard, but try to be happy no matter what, and one day, God will see ur pain and deliver u from it. Good Luck!
471922
it happens when someone is gossiping about you!\n:)
86868
well they already spread around. so it is good if you hold your head up high. as long as you know that it is not true. then you shouldn't even buy in to all of that. if somebody asks you is it true, then tell them no. if they start all these questions like well she/he said that you did this or you did that then just ignore them. just try to lift your head above the clouds. but, not too high as if you are conceited. before you know it you will no longer be in their conversation. there would be no more rumors about you and you will be able to go on. then you will be able to go on in life and not have to worry about them anymore. just be patient it will happen and you will be ok!!!!!!!!!
240852
people are going to talk and spread gossip good or bad let your charater speak for itself and if you know your not a sl*t why should you care about what she says anyway? Dont base your value on what other people think of you.
278235
suck it up, get her a present for her b-day (she is your friend , right!)and dont worry about what others are saying, what matters is she didnt say it and you didnt say it , so what if others did say it , as you mature you will find out that gossip and rumours are mostly jealousy actions.
991766
a lot of men in the workplace get really gossipy, too.\n\ni'd mind my own business and not let everything get to you.  there will always be someone who will not agree with you or will work against you wherever you go - you just have to learn to dal with things like these.  if you quit your jobs to get away from them, it means you are admitting defeat.