why do men make babies and don't take care of them?
552886
Hi\n\n    In my opinion, I think because 'some' not all are to irresponsible, immature, and incapable of handling situations they put their own selves in. Plain and simple!
444485
because their F-lazy and don't give a dam and think their man will take care of everything, just don't care about anything\nexcept the ones that stay home take care of the kids and house until the kids go to school or a good stay at home wife and mother that cares about her family that is not a person like the above
597137
I have nothing against men but they will always think they are better then women they will always think that they can do more then a woman (BUT NOT ALL MEN ARE THIS WAY) but there is one thing a man will never ever be able to do have babies! Men usually don't like women making more then them and still most men believe a woman's place is at home in the kitchen and raising the kids there are not many men that can stay home or would stay home to raise the kids! But there are some. Women will always have to fight and stand up for their right's and what they believe in. So just do what you want in life and do your best! I think if your a well educated women and can do positive things for your society then do it! You will find your place and who knows what the future will bring some women have made it and one day we might have a woman president! We as women have to do the best we can in what most think is a mans world and teach are daughter's that they can be anything and do anything in life they want. That they don't have to just be home in the kitchen and raise babies. Even tho I did but that is all I wanted to do since I was a child myself! Go for your dreams and teach your daughters to go for theirs!
274211
The world we live in today is so different then the one we had years ago that many men feel the need to reassert their masculinity. To prove that they can still provide for their family's if they had to. We survived as a race by killing animals to eat. I don't think its the killing so much. I think its just knowing they are still men who can be in charge without a boss or a wife telling them what to do. It also give them a time to be with other men and tell dirty jokes,pass wind and just have a good old time.
271206
Many of those guys leave the woman, not the kid- so the woman should ask herself if she tried to make the guy someone he wasnt- thats what usually happens.  A woman will try to make an immature, irresponsible man grow up once she gets pregnant.  She knew he was a loser to begin with, but thats what attracted her to him - "the challenge". Just because she decides to grow up, dont mean that he will. Granted, he SHOULD grow up and be responsible- but that dont mean he has to stay with the woman. Many times a woman who asks the very question you asked are using it as a way to make a guy look bad because he dont want to be with them- whether he DOES take responsibility for the child or not.  Also those are the same women that make it as hard as they can on the guy.  They use the child as a form of punishment.\n\nMaybe the guy WILL take responsibility on his own, but you can bet the welfare office will make sure he pays one way or another either way. So many women ask "why did he get me pregnant and leave me?" - sometimes they ask just to make people think he left the kid too, when he just didnt wanna be with the woman anymore- its the rejected womans way of playing the victim, when she laid down too.\n\nChances are that you went to bed with the guy without REALLY getting to know him, and like MANY people in this world think that sex defines a relationship. Regardless if you got pregnant or not, he didnt really care about you to begin with, so that wont make him magically change!\n\nSo since you asked why men get women pregnant and leave them- it would seem that you are still pregnant and havent had the kid yet.  So, at this point he has only left you so far. Maybe when the kid is born he WILL be man enough to take care of his responsibilities which are the child- not YOU.  But then, chances are even if he tries to do the right thing- you will try to punish him for leaving YOU. You will hound him constantly because no matter what he does, it will never be good enough for YOU. Even if it IS above and beyond for the child. YOU will probably use the child as a way to punish him forever because you are mad that he left YOU.
1083098
1) it's a pride thing\n2) it's kind of caused by biology, too.  Men are supposed to be the providers, and to take care of their mates.  How can they do that (or find a mate) if they don't even know how to get around?
196886
its a freaking outrage man, when a guy decides to start popping out babies and such then a guy can get to decide wheater or not chicks should get to keep them if they dont want them.
1066782
I totally agree with you!! I don't understand people who have children and then don't actually take the time to raise them right!! It seems like alot of people either have no common sense when it comes to their kids or maybe just too lazy!! I will raise my own son, thank you very much!!
1172463
It is simple.  When Men shave, the exfoliate their face, on a daily basis, which sloughs off the dead skin.  Also their job, is their job, and Women give birth to the Children, which changes the shape of many things.  Then Some Women work outside the home, and get the Children ready for daycare, or school, pick them up, take care of them after work.  Do the shopping, make the dinner, clean the house, do the laundry, etc, etc,etc, I am getting tired just thinking about it.  And the Wonderful Mom's that stay at home and take care of their Children have just as much to do. \nYes Some Men are very helpful, in these areas, but there are still those who do not help at all.  So basically if the Men could have Their bodies stretched out a couple of times, maybe things would be different.  But We wouldn't want it to be that way.  However some help would be nice.
689221
People have kids...it's human nature and what keeps our planet populated.\n\nIf you don't like/want kids, then don't date someone with them.\n\nIf you do, than think of it as, you missed out on some of the crying/pants pooping years and it will be that much easier.\n\nAs a woman, I think, "cool...I get to be a p/t mom with no pregnancy or labor pains".
824395
Because they are less likely to live to breeding age and if they do they are generly not healthy enough to fight for the woman plus they have a higher chance of being sterile!
630487
only with artificial insemination or a surragate mother,\ntwo people from the sex cant make children and men cnat have babies anyway, only make em.
1135287
I think that men make war because the warrior nature is a part of them.  From hunting for food, killing for self preservation, to protecting the family.  I don't think men crave the sensation of pregnancy, i think that children bring out a fierce instinct to protect, in our species as in all the others on this planet.\n\nAside from the blood rage of killing in a war setting, I think that the science of tactics, the rules and moves of the game of war are also very interesting and have their own draw (though it seems that the strategists and the fighters are definitely 2 different men).
392019
Well, it's not to the level of giving birth, but there are a variety of male "pains." There's male-patterned baldness, prostate enlargement in old age (along with prostate cancer), a higher risk of kidney stones (which I have heard as the male equivalent of giving birth in terms of pain). Males are also more prone to mental and genetic disorders...fun for all. None of these though, would really match giving birth, that's one of the many reasons to respect women.
667347
Biologically speaking (and I don't agree with this at all, just so you know), women really only need to have sex about once every ten months. Makin' babies takes time, you know.\n\nBut men can just have a party and spread their genetic material all around all the time-- this is how they fulfill their biological duty.\n\nSo, I think our modern conceptions of the woman who sleeps around vs the man who sleeps around have something to do with our subconscious understanding of what is needed for each gender to fulfill its reproductive role.\nBut I think those ideas are outdated and are now merely an unfair way in which a dominant male-run society seeks to maintain its power by putting restraints on women.\nI'm not saying all men are like that, or that men are bad, just that on the whole it seems to be how society works.
383071
Yes, because they actually want to have a child, and will raise them with love and support. Unlike people who become parents everyday who don't want children or who don't have the skills to raise them right.
130211
Because they only think of themselves and their needs and desires. Men are selfish bast*rds.