my xgf making problems in my new relation as she left me by her own what to do?
553201
Tell her directly that you want nothing to do with her.\n\nIf that fails, start documenting when she harasses you.  Note the time, date and what happened.  After 3-4 times, contact the police and request to file a complaint against her.  Also request for an order of protection against her from the court.\n\nIf she violates the court order, she will face charges.\n\nBe clear, send the right message to her.
457224
get rid of her and find someone that will appreciate you for what you do
1184536
Talk to her, apologize.\nHope she'll have you back.  You may have to work at it.\nWomen don't trust men like you, better be prepared to prove you'll behave this time.\n& don't ever make the same silly Mistake again.
515458
Aww, this reminds me of My friend Lauren and I. We got together, she loved me, I love her, but outside pressures made it very hard for me to cope with Us. I understand where  your girl is coming from and I also understand where you are coming from. You can't make someone stay if they don't want to. And you shouldn't try if you see that they aren't happy. Especially if it starts to make you unhappy. I would suggest letting her do what she wants. Let her know that you care for her and want her to be happy and that you are there for her but draw the line somewhere. Let her know that she does hurt your feelings by doing these things and let her know that she can't be so flippant and careless. Lauren and I are good friends now and sometimes I look at her and feel a pang, but I know that we would have both been miserable if we stayed together with all the problems we were having. Sometimes its better to let something go to keep a friendship than to draw out a love affair and have it end in hatred...Oh yeah, I think that she should take some time to figure herself out without any outside influences from you or other guys or girls. The hardest thing to do is to truly know and love yourself. You are always your own worst critic....Good Luck!
303041
That's not nice and you know it. I think your double screwed now. Maybe you should just be patient and see if she contacts you back and forget about the sneaky stuff.
966096
She is gone.  Leave her alone or risk having an order of protection slapped on you.  She made it clear that she wants to be away from you...by moving all her stuff out.  Let her be. It's only going to be trouble if you don't.
902559
Sorry:-))) But i am kind of amused...You know, the first thing that men have to learn about women is to give them their space. Hey...if your parting words weren't bitter, there is no cause for alarm. I am sure she'll call..giv her some time. You said she had a boyfriend..well, maybe she is busy..there could be a thousand things you dont know...So dont miss her too much. Try and concentrate on ur GF. I am sure she be in touch shortly.
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It sounds like you are separated and she is an ex, so that part is good .. .\n\nNow you have your anger to deal with . . .\n\nTry seeing a counselor for a few sessions . . .it might help you clear out some of those emotions, and you will be ready for a new relationship sooner . . .
563926
Yeah....give her mother sometime. i hope ur gf is backing you up. a day will come when ur gf's mother will realize that u were a real truthful guy. talk to her after few days in a polite manner. dont lose ur temper
437811
love her for who she is and just ignore the glitches. she's been through alot and she needs your love and support. she might, at times, need time to be alone, and at other times need to talk your ears off. just be there for her.
463696
why did you leave them with her if she was like that to start with. you can have her checked . you have to get a mental higene warrent for this but there is one thing either way it goes you might have to tell the courts why you left them to start with and in realaty loose the children as well my opion ?
874267
Break up with her, now.\n\n\nYou can't help someone that doesn't want to help themselves.
1019813
This is definitely not a healthy situation. You need to try and take a break. It is obvious that she has an amazing control over your emotions. True relationships are ones in which both parties can be strong without each other. Although your life feels incomplete without her if it were meant to be so many problems would no be going on.
918950
Let her find her own partner. Just support whoever she goes out with and be there for her whenever she needs you.
580011
Well, I have got to say that you must be a lot more levelheaded than a lot of people I know. What a wonderful idea that was....to go out to dinner, all of you. I'm also not suprised that you were/are very upset and angry. \n\nBefore you go to dinner you need to come up with an agenda. What do you want to talk about, ask, analyze and get to the bottom of? Don't go into the dinner a big emotional wreck, because it will just make you look weak and silly. Show a strong front and don't give in until you get your answers and you are satisfied that you have them\n\nTell them both that you want to lay down some rules for the dinner. No yelling. No screaming or calling names. From anyone. This means you, too. If you want to handle this like an adult, than you all have to be adults. Tell them that after the dinner, regardless of how it went or who you believe, you'll need to go and be by yourself for a while, even if it's an hour...that way you can really think about what was said and your reactions to it. One of the questions I would ask is this. If you aren't with your ex any more, how does she know things that were supposed to be kept between you and I?\n\nBoundaries need to be established if you and your GF work through this. It would probably be a good idea if she stopped seeing this other person again...definitely until trust issues are much stronger with the 2 of you. \n\nReally think about this dinner and what you want to accomplish. Don't settle for anything else. If one or both of them starts breaking the rules, just get up and calmly tell them that you don't have time for childish behavior. Your heart is much too important for that and if this is how they want to behave, they deserve eachother.\n\nGood luck!
130296
Dude grow the hell up, what kind of childish crap do you have to do to some one. If you don't want her anymore be a MAN and tell her. You are just a jerk.
900351
It sounds like you are going to be having a hard time, because she is becoming distant from you, and not respecting the "no plans on Friday" agreement you have. Before things get worse you need to sit down and ask her what is going on, especially since she is going out with other girls. (It's only a problem if you are gay, your avatar is a girl so I assume you are too.) If you're a guy it's not a problem for her to be hanging out with girls. But it sounds like she is not respecting you, that is usually a sign of a break up in the near future. I would talk to her if I were you.