do guys look for other things than looks in girls?
542686
To get a guy's attention you just have to be yourself...If the guy can't see how great a person you are then he is just a loser. Also it's his loss if he can't see it. Plus the guy should be so lucky to know a girl like you. I think the more mature guys look for other qualities other then looks, but I'm thinking that teenage guys are normally for the looks. Good Luck!
802353
As a guy, I'd like to apologize for posting here, but I have to call BS about looks not being all that important.  See that gorgeous girl in the mall?  Who's she with?  An average guy? Nope.  She's with a muscular macho guy.  I'm not generalizing here.  Sit in the mall and count the attractive women.  Attractive women only because beauty is what men choose.  Desirable women really do get desirable looking men.\n\nFrom my experience girls want\n#1 Fun\n#2 Personality\n#3 Looks\n#4 And a bunch of other superficial things. (Yes, anything that isn't necessary for survival is superficial)\nAnd finally security.\n\nAnd to answer the guy above me, girls want a guy who deserves her.  Of course no guy deserves any woman, but she doesn't want to short change herself by being with a loser.  A guy who eats, sleeps, and dreams about this girl gives the impression that he doesn't deserve her.  She feels like she's with a loser.  Later on in the relationship, that's when you shower her with affection and love.  But don't get too clingy too soon.
699393
not we are just not as obvious as guys is all
28354
As a guy, apperance comes 2nd for me.\nIf a girl has a great personality and has a certain amount of confidence, that will make the girl prettier on the inside(cliche but true.)\nA girl with JUST good looks will get boring after a while, she has no real "core" to her.
587388
i guess it depends on who eyes are looking.some guys like\nthe bust,others like the tush,some prefer hairstyles,some\n(like me)see beauty in her eyes.but when you get older,\nyou start looking deeper inside;at her heart,her mind and\nher soul.there within lies the true beauty,somehow she'll\nknow that when she looks in his eyes.
177675
It really depends.  first impression, when i look at a guy is judgmental bc the way he looks and acts.  but when the guy comes up to me( hot or not) the chances are that if the guy has a good personality, i will go for that guy.  understand?  you kinda have to go talk to people if u want them to like u.  but for other girls, i don't know if they look on outside appearances.  i know one girl that does.  but u still have to talk to people though.
134847
Guys look for a girl that can be down to earth but not snooty and prissy. A girl that is too "high maintnence" is not going to be a good girlfriend. A nice personallity and a nice look is always good.
697855
Same reason as guys look for girls that are shorter than them...\nIt is human nature...\nGirls regard males / masculine as being larger....Protective...\nGuys regard females / feminine as being smaller...Needing Protection...\nMales naturally feel protective of females..\nFemales naturally look to males for protection...
1169545
Not necessarily. I can't judge what men look like cause I'm a man myself, but the homies I've had that women were really digging didn't seem to go for the most gorgeous girl. They kind of went for the total package. Beautiful inside and outside. Not necessarily the most gorgeous on the outside.
939658
i always look  at the butt first, it must be tight and sexy,  and then I look for humor, and intelligences. Girls can be just as vain as men
1084001
depends on the guy and what type of relationship he is looking for a pretty little trophy to show off or someone he could possible settle down with someday.. personality, caring .. remember looks eventually fade
174845
It depends on the guy you ask? Men in general they tend toward what ever is good for the female? just my opinion
1128022
wow... that's almost poetic. seriously.\n\nnow as to your question, most guys notice looks first. after all, they see you before they talk to you. it's only now that online dating, chatrooms, and email penpals that have taken over that personality has a chance to shine before your appearance does.\n\nwhile looks are what will initially reel a guy in, it's personality that makes him stay. you know how parents used to tell their kids looks don't matter as much as personality? well they're half right.\n\nlooks are necessary in a relationship. if you can't feel something physically for the person you like personality wise then you WILL have problems. and while not everyone has a supermodel body or superhero looks, they usually have one feature that is their best (eye's, hair, smile, and yes.. their body too)\n\nnow that they have a starting/point of interest. the fun begins and the personalities of the individuals comes out and you find out whether you are compatible with each other. this is where a cute or plain girl can become beautiful in the eyes of a guy... and where a guy who at his best can only rate "cute" uses a sense of humor to go a bit higher in the scale to a "really cute" (or so i've been told :P)\n\nthis is also where a really hot girl can show how shallow and empty headed she can be... just like the bad boy "hot" guy can show how his head is comparible to a piece of wood (yes yes i know... these are sterotypes... but they are stereotypes for a reason. i.e. there were enough instances that it BECAME a stereotype. i know there are exceptions to the rule, trust me, i've met them)\n\nyour looks let them know there is a girl nearby... your personality lets them know that YOU are nearby. hope this helped ;)
133408
I'm willing to bet that almost every guy that says looks don't matter is a liar. Looks matter to a certain degree. After that, personality kicks in and then chemistry makes us fall for girls.
402398
Guys are all about looks.  Some like breasts, bottoms, legs, etc.  If you don't have the feature the guy finds appealing, you have no chance.\n\nGuys generally do not have conversations with women they are interested in.  Guys see women they communicate with as friends.  The women they like they either try to impress or pretend they are listening to them.  That is the unfortunate truth about men.
459310
Any good guy will look at your eyes before he looks at anything else.  If there isn't eye contact, there is nothing.  Guy or girl, it only makes sense to look at the only thing that can return a look, the eyes.  To see the eyes is to see the closest thing to who a person really is.
447760
umm...as a girl i can tell you that we look for...a connection with someone...someone we think that understand us and that we can understand...as far as looks, personality, wit, humor, confidence, we all have different views...one might think he is confident, yet another might think he is arrogant...my point...be urself...this gonna sound gay...but SHINE