Can someone be in love with two people at the same time ?
543470
Sure.  You can be in love with 5, 10 or even 20 people, they are called Family.\n\nIf you are asking if you can love with one or more men at the same time then the answer is yes to that also.  It is easy to love different qualities in different people.  You may love the style of one and the brains of another.\n\nTo be IN love, is different.  It is all consuming and there is only room for one there.
77488
You certainly can , I have anyway . Love is hard to explain and understand for that matter . Love can  make us do things that we never thought possible . I will tell you this much though if you do love two people you are in for a rough ride . Your best bet is to be honest as possible with both of them or you could lose them both .
570538
A person can be deeply in love with more than one other person.  If this were not so, first children would have it all and later-born siblings would be up that famous but stinky creek without a boat or paddle.\n\nI phrased it that way to try and help relieve some of your anxiety.  Yes, one can be deeply in love with two guys.  It will be a real challenge, but you will probably have to choose one over the other.  The worst thing you could do would be to allow either of them to think that he is your number one.  They should know of the importance of the other in your life and that you're still trying to choose.  They should each also know that your choice may not, in the end, be either of them!  You may find another with whom you are much more "in tune", and decide that he's the one you want to spend all your time with.  \n\nWhat to do?  Be honest with both gentlemen, and take your time.  Don't rush into a one-to-one relationship before you're really prepared for that.  Marry in haste, repent at liesure is still, after a thousand years, a very meaningful phrase.  Wait until one of 'em proves he's worthy of a special woman like you!
707719
I personally believe you can love two people at the same time.  We are complex beings and it is somewhat naive to think one person can meet all of our emotional, psychological, and physical needs.  It is however, very complicated and most people will not tolerate this kind of a relationship.  This presents a dilema for the person who has two loves - do you tell them both or do you hide this from both of them and try to have a relationship with both.  And if you do, how complicated will it get before you are found out?  You risk loosing both lovers....
35475
Unfortunately (considering the circumstances) yes.  you never love the same way twice.  So you can love one person very much, and another person just as much, but love them differently and for different reasons.
1155974
you can fall in love with anyone no matter what a third person sees as 'differences'. personally though,8+ years is to much.
623753
Tough question.  \nBut remember one thing, no matter how much this other person loves you if you truely love another you will always want to be with that person. \nSo it isn't fair to the person who loves you.\nIf you can't love a person who loves you then it it is time to allow that person the right to a good relationship.
80394
they sure can if they're really in love with each other.
217650
It depends on the chemistry between you and that person and the situation. Sometimes you may fall in love with someone instantly, sometimes months, sometimes it may take years before you realize that you do indeed love that person and may have loved them all along.
739661
i think it is possible,  but  someone should be a little wary...as u dont really know the person....esp long distance ones...i guess if there's a chance that they will see each other....and still feel the same...yes it is very  possible...falling in love  is really knowing the other person,  having the same interests...etc...
281324
yes you can you can love a person an then you also have a person on the side that treats you better an thats what get you then out of know were they have your heart
55545
when you look at the other person and at that exact moment you know that you would lay down in front of any pain that could come to them. and you couldn't imagin anyone else being there. you know that you are in love when you can accept all the bad that comes with the good with that person. but, i do want to tell you to be careful because sometimes you can love somebody else with no doubt in your mind about it and. . . . . there is a chance that they don't love you the same way. use your heart as your guide. i hope some of this works for you!
1085662
you could, yes, but it would just mean that person wasn't loving either one enough.\n\nAnd it would take a perfect split of affections to achieve.\n\nA perfection, no one should attempt to attain.
186021
yes they can anybody can love even if there with someone else
400974
Maybe. You can love how they were, get to know the person and fall even more in love with him or her.
135352
It's possible, just most people don't have the mental capacity for it. If you don't have the mental capacity for it, you're going to think it's not possible. A good friend of mine has two girlfriends he loves beyond physical/sexual attraction, and they know and hang out with each other.
6650
Sure.\n\nSome people gradually fall for someone and some people find themselves falling for someone much quicker.\n\nIt's all in how much time you can spend together and how well things click between the two of you.\n\nBut, I would also say that often times what people label as 'falling in love' is nothing beyond a strong infatuation.\n\n//