How can I tell if my boyfriend is losing love for me?
539960
He might be going through something he doesn't want you to know about. Just support him and be cool. Nothing's serious enough to throw two years away over.
630324
Wow...that's tough. I wish I knew what to tell you.  I think if you feel like you DONT want to fall out of love then you wont. Because obviously that shows you love the person.  Sounds like the relationship just needs some serious work.  I know this sounds corny but Men are From Mars, Women are from Venus is a GREAT relationship related book and I think it helps A LOT. It will help you understand your man/woman so much better.
113431
The only way you will know rather or not he still like is by you asking how does he feel about you? If he said that he still like or love you is a good thing. Maybe you guys need time apart to really see if things can work out by taking one step at a time. If he say that he doesn't care for you anymore, then you should move on.  It's not fair to you, to keep putting your heart out there and he's being happy with someone new. Love hurts but you have to keep it moving for your sake. I know how it is to be in love by yourself.
249836
That one is a hard one to answer. Maybe you can gently and in a round about way ask him how he feels about you\n\nWhen a guy is in love with you he cannot do enough for you. If it is long distance, well I cannot say there is no true way of telling unless you ask him or unless he is direct with you
442649
I have been in a relationship for 2.5 years, the same things happen you stop doing things, going places, that really doesn't have anything to do with love, we get into patterns and we get used to things and we don't spice things up any more. I believe that you know when you are going to spend the rest of your life with him, if you just cant get enough of him, you love everything about him, and no one else interest you for very long other than him. There are ways to tell if he is cheating just because I have had my suspicions and i have a great best friend who happens to male. 1) Doesn't spend a lot time with you, when he does he really doesn't want anything to do with you or to be around you. 2) Has a sudden interest in someone, with them all the time 3) Buys new clothes, has a sudden interest in their own appearance. 4) Always answers the phone, leaves room for conversations
106307
Maybe i'll talk to him and ask what's the problem. Or maybe you're just too paranoid thinking that he doesn't love you anymore. A good conversation makes a good relationship.
158958
You will know if he's been cheating on you or if he is using you by the way he acts. If he  rushes out the door when your in the middle of a date then tail him. You will know soon enough if he is or not. If you are close to someone who is in a way of great significance, someone who might be on the verge of changing life as we know it in a good way, and then all of a sudden the man who is now your boyfriend shows up and likes you all of a sudden, he is most likely using you.
204504
When you catch him just looking at you. When he'll go out of his way to do things for you. When he hugs you even more. When he seems to miss you when he hasn't seen you for a while. When he'll ditch his friends for you every now and then (NEVER expect anyone to do this all the time, you wouldn't do it for him, so why should you expect him to do it for you?) When he mentions you to his parents/siblings/exes/friends. When he asks his friends what they think of you. If you notice a few of these signs, he's smitten. Never be afraid to say I love you first though. If you feel it, say it. Don't expect him to say it back. Just let him know, and when he's ready he'll say it back. I told my boyfriend I loved him after only 3 weeks, then went travelling for 5 weeks. He was falling in love but not quite there, and he did the right thing by not lying and saying it. When I came home and he said it back to me a few days later, it was one of the happiest moments I can remember. We're still together 7mths later. Good luck!
308264
Just give him sometime, see if he cares about you or not, if he shows it or not and it wouldnt be hard to see if he loves you or he is looking for something else. Just give him time.
296541
Well, how long you've been in the relationship has a big factor in telling if he loves you. Also, go on our feelings, but don't let them take over. I myself have an extremely active imagination...\n\nBut sweetie, you also have to trust him. If he hasn't done anything in the past to betray your trust, that you know of anyway, then chances are he won't and is a genuinely good guy. And also, does he tell you he loves you a lot? Is he affectionate to you? How much time do you spend together, etc. If he rarely sees you, it would make a little more sense if you get a little worried, not that it has to mean anything. Just talk to him. If he does really love you, and respect you and your feelings, tell him you love him so much you don't want to be hurt by him, and want to really know his feelings for you. If he really loves you you will know it. Just don't ask him too many times because if he is true in his intentions, it will upset him to be questioned so much. Good luck!
1109122
little things can show it...like if a day pass by and u didn't call, he'll call and say i love u...want to be with you most of the time..hold your hand..such stuff. And when you need he's always there like a best Friend and a boyfriend at the same time..
80073
Hmmmm.  I don't think how YOU feel is any indication of whether or not your man really loves you.  I think it's best to put your feelinging aside for a bit and take a look at how he treats you.\n\nDoes he respect your ideas, opinions, attitudes, feelings, and behaviors?  Does he support your values -- allowing you to follow your own system of beliefs?  Does he allow you to express yourself, and is he willing to work with you to reach compromises when the two of you disagree?\n\nDoes he know your weaknesses, good and bad, and allow you to be "less than perfect"?  Does he protect your weaknesses rather than criticise you or open you up to ridicule?\n\nDoes he treat you with gentleness and kindness and yet know when you are ready to break loose in a chicken fight or giggle fest?  \n\nDoes he share some of your most personal interests?  Does he share your goals?\n\nDoes he know you well enough to love you for you -- whoever you are and whatever you are living through right now, at this moment?\n\nDoes he say he loves you?\n\nIt's easy to mix up our feelings with someone and assume the other person feels the same as we do.  If there is any question, let some time pass.  It takes time to know someone well enough to know if there is love between you and not just chemistry.
1035652
i think u might be over reacting just a little. if he's still telling u that he loves u then no worries. through the  days, months, years ppl change and that's wut he's doing . but the one thing that izn't changing is the love he haz for u.
825838
Sounds like you are losing him.  Have a calm talk with him and express how you feel.  Ask him what is on his mind and where he sees your relationship going.  \n\nFrankly, most people have trouble with communication and that can destroy an otherwise good relationship.  Find a way to communicate and make sure you listen to him too.\n\nSue
802792
call him and ask him what's wrong.\nlet him know that he can talk to you about anything\nif things don't work out within the next week or so, confront him and ask him if he has lost interest\nif he hasn't let him know that you want to make room for more quality time, and if he has, go find someone better.
588660
Just because you have been dating for two years dose not mean he loves you. He might, but it's a chance that he dose not love you. I can't tell you if he loves you or not, when the time is right though, if he truely loves you....he will let you know.
349874
he might love u... or he might just have a problem with showinggg love..or he doesnt know how.. ask him about it.. be like.. im just curius.. u clm u love me, but u dont show it to me.. see what he says.. then u can catch him that way if hes lieing or not as well..