What do people look for more in the oppostie sex? Brains or Beauty?
535668
Beauty is always what attracts a person but personlity is what keeps them.
349847
Brains, humor, responsibility, affection, financially secure. Good looks are nice, too, but not a priority.
946223
Personality is more important, and sometimes it's the personality that makes the looks attractive even when they aren't. I'm not sure if that makes sense... ;)
28354
As a guy, apperance comes 2nd for me.\nIf a girl has a great personality and has a certain amount of confidence, that will make the girl prettier on the inside(cliche but true.)\nA girl with JUST good looks will get boring after a while, she has no real "core" to her.
1101415
Looking for confidence, self-assurance, self worth...those are all things I look for in a woman.\n\nShe does not have to be the prettiest woman in the room, having equal intelligence, looks, and self-confidence are important issues too.
550333
Smart but ugly because beauty fades but by being intelligent that has been stored with you forever.  But beauty it dies when you get older.\n\nI like to be smart, intelligent and successful anyway there are many products, scientific surgery that can made you beautiful and sexy.\n\nThere are no experiment that can made you witty and smart. If you are dumb you are dumb forever.
455751
Good looks help to make you notice a person, but personality is what will keep a person interested. Naturally I have to be attracted to the person, but that doesn't mean she has to be great looking. It could be her laugh, her smile, her eyes, the beauty that comes from inside her etc. Good looks fade with age, so give me a good personality and intelligence any day. If someone is just interested in your looks, then walk away, because their priorities are messed up.\n\nk.m.
1150793
I prefer someone cheerful.  I've met physically attractive women that had a lousy attitude and know that I'd rather be with someone pleasant any day over that crap!\n\nAssuming they have a pleasant attitude, I would prefer someone that is intelligent.  I don't mind if someone is able to be critical, but what I am really looking for is someone that can brainstorm more solutions with me than just grumble.  Again, I have met physically attractive women  that even had positive attitudes that really just ended up being a bore.  Or, spun the other direction, I have also dated a woman that was quite brilliant, but rarely had much else than negative things to say about her life and others.  Can you imagine how much fun that was?  I really did a lot of self inquiry after that as to why I bothered with her at all.  Maybe I thought I could save her or some other foolish macho notion.\n\nAnyhow, physique is important as it tends to indicate on a superficial level that the woman cares about herself.  On the other hand, she could be a negative-minded bore.\n\nSo I suppose you could say I am looking for "the total package," but I have been sorry to learn that it is in short supply and expect that if I were to need to marry in a hurry that I would have to "settle" for something less than what I want.  But I am a balding short hairy guy, so what do you expect?  There isn't much mercy out there for guys like us, so I either lose or spend more energy into being financially successful than would make me available for dating...\n\nLately, I have simply lost interest.  Nothing is attractive to me because I have always been asked to sell myself short of what I want.  That repeated experience really put a damper on my motivation to work out and compete.  It's like I've been relegated to the communist version of dating economics - where everybody gets the same boring angry hairlipped babushka.  I'd rather stay single and read books.
26820
Someone who has a natural sex appeal. On the physical side of it..someone who takes care of their body, smells good, and turns me on with every little thing they do. Also, someone who doesnt have to pack down the makeup on their face just to look good. Their attitude makes them sexy also, there are lots of pretty girls out there that are bi'otches and to me that makes them ugly and undesirable. So a good combo of natural sex appeal, and attitude. even some girls that are not all that attractive can be really sexy..
478869
Confidence, control and wit.  The combination of these characteristics are very sexy in a woman.  Looks can only get you so far.  I've known plenty of beautiful looking women, but when they displayed their true colors they became "ugly" to me.
62830
That is all superficial to me! I prefer someone that can stimulate me intellectually and has a lot to offer the world. \n\nBut, since that was not one of the choices, I prefer a guy with a nice looking face but has an out of shape body.
630766
This kind of question comes up often enough, I feel like I should just save my answer so I can paste it right in!  :D\n\nFirst thing I look for is a happy personality!  Seriously!  No matter how striking a woman is; if she looks like the whole world is a burden on her, why would I want a wet blanket like that dragging me down!\n\nYeah, looks are important, but not nearly as important to me as Hollywood/the magazines/etc. make it out to be.  An average/too skinny/flat-chested/what-have-you girl who is fun to hang around with will get my attention any day.  That's not just a bunch of words, either:  I've been attracted to all kinds of women (except very large ones.  What can I say, I'm still human!)\n\nGood conversation is a must:  you need to listen to what guys say, not just wait for your turn to make a speech.  If I just want something pretty to look at, I can hang out anywhere & browse the eye candy without wasting any time/money/effort of my own.
1181005
Deffinetly personality. Looks aren't really important to me. I mean, yeah, clearly if he's got a great personality and he looks hot, I mean, yeah, that'd be a great bonus, but as long as he's got a great personality, I'm set.
880536
Depends on what it is exactly what I'm looking for at the moment. If its just having fun, I look for a nice body and a cute face. If I am looking for something serious then a great personality with strong commuication because without it, you wouldn't be able to know the person really well.
340596
The ideal woman?  Each person who will have their own individual tastes, but for me, the most important facet of a woman's perfection lies in her personality.  She should be intelligent but funny/silly, caring and empathetic to others, elegant but modest, serious but also playful, and most of all know who she is who her man is.  Beauty can be manufactured through cosmetics and surgery, but personality makes the person whe they are.\nOf course if looks like Halle Berry would not hurt, though!
389670
I look for 3 big aspects intelligence, sense of humour and looks that are attractive to me, which can vary, for me the whole person must be appealing not just one aspect, and if she got a nice butt that helps to.
554573
I would favor an intelligent woman over either of the above choices.\n\nHowever, since you asked, I suppose I'd rather have a pretty girl with an OK body. Body shape/size doesn't especially mean all that much to me. It's pretty superficial. The real turn-ons would be brains and class.