Which is better? To be you, the boring person or try to be someone else just so ppl will be impressed with u?
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Always be yourself because sooner or later they are going to find out who you are anyway. Having said that concentrate on displaying your best qualities (i.e. being kind, a hobby, volunteer work, etc.). In the long run you will see that you're not boring just selective.
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Go anyways. So what if your not that good. Its a learning experience and it builds character. In order to survive in this world anymore your self-esteem has to be so high that nothing phases you. Who cares what other people think.
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You obviously have some 'better' you in mind. What you need to do is close in on that person. And you do it the same way you do a great many things. You try. You fail. You think about it and next time do something different. Eventually you fail less and suceed more.\n\nThere is no one solution to all that you don't like about yourself. Some things you will get used to, some things you will change over time and some things you will never like, but will be unable to change. This is what makes people interesting, this variety, the many facets that make a human gem catch the light.
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Put some random interesting fact about yourself as an opening statement like an attention getter. Hi is boring.
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be yourself. a relationship will never be good if you're pretending to be some one else. in the words of the VanZant brothers...it's better to be hated for you are than be loved for who you're not.
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im such a loser and keep on boring myself\n\ncan you help?
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Nothing--if you're special to that person, that's it. You can't MAKE yourself more special or memorable.
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just be yourself. Not all of us are impressed by showy guys, big egos and bling bling
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i would be myself.  if i am not then who will be me.  and there are ppl that need me, myself, and i.  not just anyone can be me.
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Aslong as you put the effort out to make new friends and stuff no....but you need to put some effort out and just be yourself.
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just be yourself.  there will be someone out there for you.
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If you are yourself and don't try to be who people WANT you to be you will be more likely to make friends. Be an individual, not a mindless idiot that does what other people want you to do and be. As long as you are yourself and are true to yourself then you will make friends.
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I have both, they are pretty good.  It's really about being your own person not matter what.
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A Fake guy a liar I hate that.Just be REAL be yourself. Don't try to impress me. Just be nice to me. Have some sense about yourself and just treat me with respect.Be able to have a real conversation and be respectful and that will impress me.
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You should be who you want to be not who others want you to be. I am alot like you when im around my friends im crazy and i am so outgoing but when I am in big crowds I am pretty quite unless one of my friends are around me. I believe that you should be the person you want tobe. Have lots of fun. You have to remember you only live once.
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You don't.  All you can do is be yourself, do not pretend, do not try to be something else. be honest with yourself and people will either like you or not.  You can't please everybody.\n\nBe yourself and things will work out.  People prefer genuine, honest people to wannabes and false people.\n\nLike yourself first as you are, then others will like you too.
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People are most impressed in those situations by sincerity, letting yourself come through, if it is natural to you to use some humor then do so.  Don't try to be too clever, or too impressive, that usually comes across as false.  Be yourself, and emphasize what makes you unique, special, and interesting, your strengths.