is fingering and hand jobs the same as sex?
552221
Nope......you're still a virgin.  Hand jobs and fingering aren't sex.  They are great thing sto do to lead up to sex though.\n\nAnyhow, keep that in mind for later, k?  Since you asked you probably need to educate youself some more before going through with doing anything more.  Just a thought!
134410
As I understand it a virgin is someone who has not had sexual intercourse. Therefore, the answer to your question is - yes. Finger penetration does not remove virginity. In certain societies virginity is tested by examining whether the hymen is still intact but this is by no means a fair test as the hymen can break via a multitude of ways. Going off on a tangent for a moment - its a shame that these days we hide behind technical definitions rather than concentrate on intent. A old girlfriend of mine used to say she was a ' technical virgin' meaning, even though we had never had sexual intercourse, she couldnt really classify herself as a virgin because we'd done pretty well everything else. :-) If you are still a virgin - wear it proudly!!
905277
every woman has different preferences.. you should try talking to her about it..\nBut also, for some women "fingering" is uncomfortable.. plus who knows where the hell your fingers have been before you starting foreplay... \nGerms and bacteria from your hands and fingers can get inside the vagina and cling to the vaginal wall and cause yeast infections, urinary tract infections, and bladder infections.\nJust talk to your girlfriend about why she doesn't prefer it.. you can always try toys.. also if your going to use your fingers or hands anywhere NEAR her vagina or clitoris WASH your hands.
845569
I can't believe I'm answering this question,but here goes.As a woman you all have the same basic parts anatomically.The thing is,you are all put together just a little differently.Some have tighter muscles,or larger labia,or more active Skene's glans.All of those little parts down there add up to a different product so to speak.(Sorry I'm trying to work around the censors here).It's the same with men I would assume,same basic part can provide completely different sensations.In all honesty I've never been w/ a woman that wasn't pleasurable,but some where a good deal better and a very few were phenomenal.It all depends on how the two of your anatomies meld with one another.Hope that helps,it's kind of cryptic with the yahoo sensors watching.You really want an in depth answer IM me and I'll answer your questions more precisely.Oh I almost forgot,the operator can have a lot to do with the statement as well.
1108578
It's very simple as just cupping yourself and rotating your hand in a circular motion. You don't necessarily have to insert an finger or etc. women are natural turned on just by the idea of sex you can just squeeze your legs together.
143552
Depends on the setting.\nIn a business setting, it's the usual handshake, regardless of the gender of the person you are meeting.\n\nIn a casual setting, say your girlfriend introduces you to her female cousin, then its a kiss on the cheek.
551511
Honestly, it depends on the toy.  One of the toys I have kinda looks like a cane.  Not so much a candy cane but the end curves up :-) It's like heaven on a stick.  But at the same time I use my hand for rubbing.  It feels AWESOME.  \n\nBefore I got my wonderful toy I used just my hands (one on top and one down under) and it was nice too.  I guess it all depends on what kind of orgasm you want to achieve.  \n\nThe hands work nice but the toys DEFINITELY feel alot better for me :-)\n\nHope that helps.
457229
Masterbation doesnt always mean sticking your fingers right up there. In fact, it feels much better just having clitoral stimulation
914863
You need to specify if they are straight or gay men. Either way there is nothing wrong however I would recommend the straight guy fully understand his preferences before he dates women. There are loads of straight guys who get fingered by their gfs because the orgasm is incredible....nothing weird.
687426
If you're a chick the best technique is to use a guy's fingers. If you're at least 18, my fingers are available.
232636
It's part of your genitalia, dear. The love button- so to speak. Usually referred to as the clit, it is a wonderful thing. Interesting, tho, when I attended the BodyWorlds exhibit in Chicago last summer, they didn't bother to label it on the female genitalia. All the guys' parts were labeled. It really has a stigma to it to even mention it! It's so weird that society isn't ready to give women the acknowledgment that they're allowed to be sexual beings. Just because it isn't flopping around between our legs doesn't mean it's not there! Get a copy of Our Bodies, Ourselves and discover for yourself what it is to be a woman! Have fun!
1028429
Men like it when women give them a hand job. Some men also like giving the girl oral sex because they like to make her happy. Men also like watching a girl touch herself.
1071837
I'm a girl but I know my ex did sometimes pull a muscle having doggie style sex. Hell you can pull a muscle having any kind of sex. Period! But hey at least you are pulling a muscle having sex :)
621874
Ok - I hate to play it off as a "guy" thing but it seems to be as such. We just don't realize when we're doing it. It's not a sexual thing - we just tend to have a hold of "ping and pong" without realizing it.My wife points out all the time that I am doing it - she says I hold them more than she does. I hereby apologize for the entire male population for our actions - ( but actually we'll still do it unknowingly ) - - - just from an honest guy standpoint
808106
Try stimulating her clitoris.  That's where all the nerve endings are (it has more nerve endings as your penis, but packed into a much smaller area and is the ONLY organ in the human body whose sole purpose is pleasure.)  If she finds direct stimulation too sensitive, you can stimulate her clitoris indirectly by moving the hood of skin over it.  If by fingering you mean inserting a finger into her vagina, you're basically missing the boat.  Very few women will orgasm that way (some girls do enjoy stimulation of the g-spot, but most women orgasm primarily from clitoral stimulation.)  If you do want to find her g-spot, it's on the front wall of the vagina, about an inch or so in; you should feel a grainy feeling knot of skin.  Try making the "come here" motion with your index finger.
611709
Yes...it really has no other "use" other than to produce pleasurable sensations and orgasms. Technically speaking, it is the female equivalent of the penis (it develops from tissues in the same area, and has a similar structure)... and since we all start out life as heading towards female if there isn't a "Y" chromosome around to say "male", really the penis is just an outsized clitoris that happens to have some plumbing running through it.
999472
Sex is the world's oldest profession. It's been here since the very beginning of mankind. In my opinion it is indeed a natural thing.  So go for it!