im in love with a girl, but shes leaving to college should i tell her or let her go? she the most beautifull..
548937
She'll go away to college and you'll forget all about her in a year. Don't make it harder on her. And look at it this way, do you want to deprive the girl you love of her education? Certainly not, so it's your duty to ensure she does what she wants?\n\nLive you lives and if it was meant to be, you'll be meeting again in the future and it will all work out somehow.
296216
I would respect her for the person that she is and be a good friend to her and not take her where shes not ready to go yet. I wouldnt want to taint whats left of her childish wonder and innocents, or whats left of it. I would do everything possible to let her know you think shes a amazing person but yet keep healthy boundries, what would her parents do if you crossed that line? Probably bannish you from ever seeing her again. At this point i would stay close to her, but not close enough to touch, she has alot of growing up to do before shes ready for the kind of relationship your ready for. Just let her know that you care and she can come to you with all of her problems. But make sure you dont create any problems for her by showing her how you feel completely. I know its a complex situation, but you can handle your feelings being trapped inside for a few years that what she can handle knowing how you feel and not being able to act on them, at least with out any serious consequences. I hope it all works out for you in the long run, but make sure you stay far away from romance for another 5 years or so :) for both of your interests, but by all means be a good positive influacne for her journey threw adolecance, it can be a rocky road :)
696603
You can tell her, but honestly, you may just need to step back and let her deal with her issues or this thing will go on and on and on.  Sometimes things work out, sometimes they don't and that's the harsh reality. You need to ask yourself if you REALLY want someone with baggage.  It's a tough thing when you get attached, but see what happens if you just disconnect from her as well.  Disinterest sometimes can do the strangest things.
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only you can tell for certain if you really love her. but if you think you're capable of giving up everything you know and believe in just to be with this chick, i think she got you.  \n\nshould you ask her to stay? it's worth a try. better do it than waste a lot of time regretting it.
879835
Yeah let her go on and have it! She's not ditching you it's quite common. My best friend for 20 yrs we did that. Just call her from time to time and be sincere about how she is how shes doing tell her you miss her and wait but still live your life leave her spot open for her...Don't lose touch on your side always leave the ball in her court...Let her adventure and you go do the same....life's to short!\n She will come back around when it's time remember after HS is college! Good luck...I would not take nothing personal towards you...it's the cycle of growing up for some. I am sorry you feel this way though!\n\nMyspace top friends....mine isn't even on mine! It seperates us for our own things so we do not feel smothered by one another...or it gives us space.
1105904
stay with your girl, bcause you know she alreddy luvs you. if you break up, then go for it
833881
if you love her that much then you need to tell her how you feel about it all and that you dont want her to go and that you enjoy seeing her and being with her and that she makes your world whole if thats the way it is sometime people mess up good luck and hope it all  works out
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i think you should tell her everything you told us about her.\nif she really matters to you, you need to realize that she is in pain with her current bf and she need to get out of thatcurrent relationship. most girls need that push. tellher that you will love her and take care of her and she will have nothing to worry about when she is with you. if she is as wonderful as you say then you musy have intense feelings for her. just go for it. it sounds like she likes you to me. good luck and tell me if everything works out.
738192
b4 asking her out, talk to you're friend.  if he's ok with you dating her, then go for it. but if not then you should just stay as friends, you wouldn't want to loose a friend over a girl.  a girl you probably wont stay with forever.  will it be worth loosing a friendship?  it's obvious she likes you but she's probably still has feeling for the other guy so it's not a good time to move in anyway
257113
tell her how much you feel for her, if she doesn't feel the same, move on man! You have done and said what you are supposed to.
313884
Oh, definately tell her!  Whether or not she feels the same, this is the type of thing you can regret years later if you don't take the courage to tell her how you feel.\n\nThe best ever relationships start out based on friendship.  I hope this works out great for you two!!!
1185740
That's sweet, your by her side and she knows that she can depend on you. It can be complicated sometimes, your not sure if you want to tell her because you don't want to break the relationship you have right now with her, but it's bothering you because you want her to know that you love her. You need to tell her, or else she might find another. I think that she likes you just by what you wrote. You sound like an awsome guy and I really think that you deserve her love.
989546
well, from the sound of it, this is your first time falling in love with somebody.i suggest you spend more time with your pals - hang out, or do stuffs that will take your mind off of her.play some basketball, go to the bowling alley, you know, stuffs.you can't live without her, but you can't live without your grades too.whatever you do,remember that falling in love is not wrong,but failing in exams because of it is not worth it.trust me.i hope things will work out for you man
590535
Depends on her feelings for you. Find out if the feeling is Mutual first then make a decision.
393387
well its up to you, if you can live with what you have learned about her and if you remain attracted to her. If you feel that it bothers you and the relationship then its better to let her  go. Bear in mind not to judge her for what she did, ask her why. there are two side's of a story, be sure to know both.
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Since I've been the one who has had to study (like your girl), I'm probably a good person to answer this one ... SHE IS VERY VERY VERY BUSY WITH SCHOOL RIGHT NOW!!!!!  If it is only two weeks, just wait it out!  and dont bother her or distract her from studying!  The best thing to do would be to text message her saying that you understand that college is very important to her and that you will give her time to study and always end your message with "i love you."  Go to her school website calendar and KNOW when her last final is (if she hasnt already told you), and AS SOON AS HER FINALS ARE OVER, TAKE HER OUT TO A FANCY LUNCH/DINNER MEAL or somewhere where she can relax with you or have fun.  As soon as her finals are over, immediately, you want to SPOIL HER, but just for the first few days, then everything's back to normal.  = )\n\n=====\nand text her at least 3 times per week saying "i hope studying is going well.  i love you."  After finals, flowers are a good idea, also.  = )\n\n=====\nsomething that someone mentioned below, and SINCE I'M IN COLLEGE, I SEE THIS ALL THE TIME; IT'S A HUGE ONE!!!  Offer to get fast food and take it to her!!!  but dont interfere with her studying; just drop it off and she'll likely give you a quick hug and maybe talk for 2-3 minutes.  THEN LEAVE!
1099911
hi there, this must be a huge dilemma you're facing. i have experienced this before, i'm 19 and probably you would think that i'm too young to comment or give you advice on this but this would be my sincere reply to your question. firstly, is this a mutual feeling? does she love you to the extent as you love her? you mentioned that she loves you as a friend, have you confronted her and made your feelings towards her known? it would be best if you know how she really feels then you can decide on what to do next. if she loves you, and you love her too, and both of you are happy with each other's company- why let go when you can grow and allow a beautiful relationship to blossom? but if she doesn't love you in a romantic way, it is definitely advisable that you let go before it's too late. allow yourself to meet new people and give your chance and someone out there a chance too. it will take more than a short period of time to get over her and resume to the "just friends" status but it will do you good. if she's unsure, give her time to think about it. i hope what i said made sense, there's too much to speak on this. i hope that all will go well and you're able to come up with a solution. do not let this issue put you down, alrite? there are many other beautiful individuals out there waiting to be discovered. and i'm sure that she is also a special person.