si it possible for afriend 2 hurt me 3 times and still deny me after i have choose him 2 be part of me?
540511
Unfortunately it is. I remember loving a friend immensely (probably more than I did myself). He never returned my feelings and that unreciprocated affinity was extremely painful and incredibly difficult for me to bear. I'd never loved anyone as much as I did him but he simply never returned my feelings for him. There was really nothing I could do about it, except cut our ties and create a healthy distance. Even a friendship would have been too hard for me to bear.\n\nMaybe you should interpret this "friend"'s behavior as a sign that he doesn't feel for you the same emotions that you do for him. Let him go. You deserve someone who loves you equally :)
135575
He may have been hurt before.  If he has, there's not a lot you can do except be there when he finally cracks and tells you what's going on.  Don't judge him, no matter what he tells you, because if you judge him, he'll disappear faster than you blink.  But if that's not the case, then he's just immature and can't handle love anyway, so you can't change him no matter what you do.  You don't need an immature brat that is just out for one thing.
93224
Sweetie, unfortunately what he did was very messed up. All that you can do is try your best to move on... I know that it's hard as h*ll, but you have give yourself some stength and courage to keep on moving. Girl I don't have a clue as to what caused him to do that. If anything try to write him a letter about how you feel and let him know that he really hurt you. Tell him that he was wrong for what he did, and that you deserved at least an explanation. Show him that although you are hurting, you are not going to allow him to bring you down. Don't worry b/c What goes around, comes around... EVERYTIME!!... That's why my name is KARMA baby!!!!! Good Luck MaMa!! You are gonna be just fine. Just use that strength that you were born with!!!!!!!!!!
864068
you know what to do but afraid to take the first step because he might hurt you again physically... why not consult with a legal counsel and ask him the best way to get out with the relationship. you have to be strong to face the consequences that would save your life and pride as a person. Good luck ;-)
937822
Well I hope you don't let him fool you a third time.  My first love did this to me. Guys can be very tricky. He befriended me for a year before I decided to have sex with him. He was my best Friend.  After we had sex he dumped me.  Guys like the game especially as teenagers, so becareful.  I grieved the relationship for quite some time.  I got together with my girlfriends who let me cry. I concentrated on my work and having fun.  With time my heart healed and so will yours. Just be patient with yourself and don't keep in touch  with him. He is not a real friend.
1059190
I'm still waiting to meet mine too.  I have now come to the conclusion that when the right one comes along he wont do the things that bring out my hurt and pain.  He wont provoke those feelings the other guys did.  He will be the guy that understands my past and my pain and he will not do anything to pour salt in my wounds.
180971
You have to ask yourself this one important question...\n"How long am I willing to let this person hurt me?"\nThis is the main question my therapist asked me when I was hurting...\nI moved on from my pain and found a new truer more wonderful love than before...\nWhen one door closes, another one opens, you might be leaving a good thing for something much better in your life...\nGood luck.....
937315
Its only one of 2 things at that point.....either they  care about you or they are trying to torture you.  Personally I would not answer because if you were the one who got hurt, then you are opening up old wounds.   live in the present and forget the past.
566938
that depends does he luv u 2? if so, go 4 it. if not move on and find someone else.don't hold on 2 something that is not gonna benefit u.cause it will only hurt u n the end.
198520
Unless you want to get hurt again. You already know what he did and he knows it too. So why go through it again? Are you sure he won't remember what he did and not do it again, and again? If you go back to him, you are the only one to blame.
204387
The abuse usually only gets worse. Why would you want to put yourself through that again. Hon, your in love with love and what might or could have been. Please think about it before getting back into that again....Nicky
927478
gurl please. dont allow urself to be hurt again. MOVE ON! find a new crush.
268876
Be honest before it gets to serious but be careful and make sure you're being honest with yourself too. Are the ex and you going to do this on again/off again thing all the time cuz then you'll just leave a trail of hurt people behind the both of you and that's not very fair to them is it? Just make sure that if you go back to the ex this is it. Good luck
286081
I'm in the same boat, but I AM THE "SOMEONE ELSE. Please accept it. I am constantly being harrassed with phone calls and I had to get the police involved. Please don't let it get to you like that. It will only make you look foolish. There is someone for everyone out there and when yours comes along you will forget about the guy who is hurting you now. Trust me when I tell you that if he really loves this other girl, you don't stand a chance anymore. Let him go.
1090074
No ma'am!!!!!! before i give u the typical answer, i will give you the 'i;ve been through this before" answer. this man has no respect for you, the other girls or himself, b/c if he did he would never put u in this situation. You have your whole life ahead if you and this headache is not worth it. find someone who thinks u and only you is special enough to spend time with.
281826
explain to him why u blocked him out and assure him that it wont  happen again and over ask him what up he might just be trying to let u know how it felt when u shut him out
473665
it will always bother you but if you believe he wont do it again then let it go and enjoy each other.....only time will tell and im sure you dont want to spend that time dwelling when u could be having a great time with him...you said u gave him a second chance,,,,enjoy him,you obviously thought he was worth the second chance