what do u do when u want to get back with ur ex bf but r too shy to ask him back out?
553022
If you broke up w/ him there must have been a reason. What was that reason ? Do you want to go through it all over again ? I think I can relate to what you're saying tho. I went to the city partly to get away fr him for the wk'd after we broke up. Well, we were still talking on the phone sometimes but when he phoned it'd be more like "geeeeeeez... :( " but I'd still answer the phone. While in the city I didn't have a very good time. It felt like my fam was abandoning me or something. Like they were tryna get rid of me or didn't wanna see me, etc. :( I was very hurt. The main reason why I was thinking of moving to the city was to be near my fam too... After that I felt that my ex was the only one who really cared bout me. When I got back home I jut HAD to see him so I went to see him. I told him bout what happened in the city & how I felt that he was the only one who cared bout me. For a whole wk I wanted to be w/ him. I wanted to be w/ him every chance I had. We were @ this pt, just "friends". We went to see Default & I guess he was gonna go home after the concert. I didn't want him to leave. I didn't wanna go home either. He was gonna drink but I didn't really care if he did, as long as I could be w/ him. Well, his mom & sis were gone to the city, so he let me spend the night, which I did. I felt that I wanted to get back w/ him. B/w the day I got back home fr the city to the time we got back together officially was Apr 7th-13th I believe. There was even a time AFTER that that I thought that we'd be together forever. But in the past 2 or 3 wks I haven't been feeling that way. I wanna break up w/ him. When & how is the Q. This'll be our 4th break up. :( \nYou may also experience this as well. Have you broken up in the past ? If you have I think that this will only continue to happen. Don't let it. Be strong. Easier said that done I know, but when you feel like talking to him, call a friend. Maybe even get together w/ a friend or friends. It's better than giving in to urges. Hope this helps !!!
606839
The next time you see him, give him a hug and kiss him. He obviously wants that to happen because he asked you back out. I also think that you two should have a talk about what each of you is feeling and what feels appropriate to do/say.
1061664
if you really want him back go ahead and talk to him before its too late....if you don't you'll regret that too! It's completely your choice who you go out with so don't think that much about your parents.  Also when you talk to him, don't do it as "just a friend" be straight about your feelings...since you broke up with him, you should try to get him back cause he won't (men are too proud).  Good luck! =)
662826
don't get back with him, just remember when he broke up with u last year, how stupid he was, its his fault and he deserves to feel the pain now of u rejecting him if u do. there r plenty of other hot guys that would go out with u, that r smart enough not to break up with u and then come crawling back to u later on. Good Luck.
803881
OMG.... i was in the same exact position 2 yrs ago as you are in now\n\ni just kept saying i wanted to be friends with him, and for the longest time we were just friends, but then we hung out all summer and i realized how much i really liked him. My ex bf refused to talk to me and for 2 yrs i wasted my life waiting for him... but once i got over him it just didnt make any sense to stay single when i liked his friend and he liked me back (btw, they are not friends anymore and havent been since my ex bf dumped me) so to sum that all up we are now bf/gf for 3 months and im 10x happier with my bf now than i was with my ex..... so i guess you just have to let time take its course.... i never thought id end up with who im going out wth now\n\nhope my "essay" helped.... good luck
653811
forget him, if he doesn't want you back find someone who is better than him - he'll want you back then, just like you want him back now\n\nyou break up for a reason, why get back together?  did things really change?  (they usually don't)
398975
Hay ..i just broke up wit my bf a month ago....the only way u will win his heart back is stop calling him and stop seeing him..dun make contant wit him not even if u wanted to ...u hav to be strong .. i know it hard to do and it imporsible to do it if u really love them ..but u want him right!! dun beg him to come back to u ..the more u ask them to come to u the more they will run away ..pretent u dun need them to make ur life happy ....that way they will wonder why!!!and they will think they make a mistake.. People wanted wht they can't hav ...i try this idea to my ex and it kind of work ...altho we didn't get back together he stay willing to be my friend ..if u r friend wit him it always hav time to get back ..and now he said he miss me ....i hope it will work for u if u try my way ..Be strong ...if he didn't come back he dun derseve u ...girl u hav to be strong ..mostly Move on wit ur life ....
715584
If you really want him to take you back just walk up to him and appoligize. If that doesn't work try too prove to him that you'd do \nanything for him. You could do something you told him you'd never do. What would make you take a guy back? Think of it like that. \n\nthe answerer
404073
go right ahead.... make ur move and get ur man back
16909
hey girl my ex boyfriend for 1year and a month he also went out with one of my friends when they were going out he relized that he should be with me just give the guy time and maybe you to will get back together just give him space and let him relize that you are the one for him
585821
Well this depends how he says hey is it a hey kind of quite and looks away, or a hey like he forces himself to say it. If it is a quite hello then he obviously wants you back as much as you and is NOT going to step up and say it! Most guys just will not go first. So take the plunge and just tell him Since the day we broke up you have been on my mind! I want to try to make this work again!!! And he will either say He has really missed you or be ignorant and say something stupid like "well I don't know" but don;t worry he will come around if he was truly in love with you! Guys actually have stronger emotions they we give them credit for but half the time they just don't say it b/c they may feel stupid or don't know if you feel the same way. So usually the girls have a make the leap! GOOD LUCK I hope I have helped!
955901
U should totally ask him out, then u will no wether he likes u back or not...i got my friends b/f 2 ask his friend if he liked me...boldest thing i ever dun, but he sed he didnt like me back, so be prepared 4 rejection...good luck!
47177
ask her out again! try your best to not be so shy.. i like shy guys, but for a few moments try to not be and have confidence in yourself.. go for it or you will regret it
823387
Well then just be honest with the guy.  Inform him that you really enjoyed your time with him and that he is very much a gentleman etc, but that you have to find out for yourself if there is anything left between you and your ex.
666613
I've been wondering the same thing since my break-up, even though it didn't include a fight.\n\nIf you really want to get back together, maybe you should try talking to him and trying to understand what's going on between the two of you before just getting back together. Believe me, I know that is not a simple thing to do. Talking with him may tell you what you need to know, though.
669981
just see what happens on saturday. if you still feel like you want him back, take him back.. just don't jump into it real quick cuz you don't wanna get hurt again and he probably doesn't want to either. BUT if you go back out with him... PLEASE make sure he's the only one.. but anyways.. GOOD LUCK!!! ♥
922795
I know this is gonna take alot of guts but call him and tell him how you feel and ask him if he would wanna have a relationship with you again and if he refuses then you need to move even though your emotions towards him doesnt just date occassionally trust me the right guy will come to you, you just have to have patience!