Is it wrong for my husband to keep in contact with his ex-girlfriend?
554208
Absolutely it is!! He needs to cut the cord, throw away the security blanket and be married to you! What do they possibly have to talk about? Didn't they break up? Didn't he marry you? She can't be giving him marriage advice that is going to have a positive outcome for you. I dealt with the same situation and my husbands ex put him through hell but she still had this "something" over him. Well, after many heart to heart w/my H, I had to take care of it, its like they feel bad for them or something? Remember, you are the WIFE! Who the hell is she? See ya, go away, bye bye! Or my favorite, turn the tables. Find your little black book (you know you still have it, we all do) and start reconnecting with your old ex's - opps, I mean your old friends. Im sure a few would love to hear from you again. Trust me, your H will loose the number real quick. Good luck "WIFE"
251743
That is too close to cheating.  Think about how your wife will feel.  How would you feel is out of the clear blue, her ex called her and wanted to know how she is doing.  Would that be okay with you?  What if he  had lingering feelings for her?  Use common sense.
1025688
Oh, nooooo....  Sounds like your husband needs to grow up and not listen to anyone but his new wife.  The situation you expressed is not a healthy and normal one.  He needs to step up and tell his ex to butt out and to tell his family that he will tolerate no more judgements from them.  What happens between the two of you is your business only.  Best of luck.
914428
She's the ex,no matter what she says or wants he's with you now and that says it all,if you trust him this shouldn't be a problem. Don't let this break you up, you have made the effort to be friends with her too by asking to meet her so if I were you I would just let it drop. Good luck x
964321
I don't think it's right. I mean would you RALLY be ok with him e-mailing his ex? Aren't you scared old memories may come back he wants her again?\nThat's how he feels....\nHe may trust YOU but who knows what your ex wants, that's why your boyfriend doesn't trust guys (my hubby doesn't either). Maybe he's just scared you'll go back to him....\nJust let him go and write other friends, no exes...
240982
No, I don't talk to any of my ex's.. but one thing I would do is ask the ex what his intention to get in touch with oyou after so long is.  He is probably unhappy in his relationship and wants to bring you into his life for some reason.. If he was single, I would think his intentions were okay.. but since he IS in ANOTHER relationship, he needs to break up with his current GF and then pursuit hsi ex's.  Word of advice for you-- tell your current significant other!  He should know from you then ever finding out by accident.  Good luck with this sticky situation!!!
1126082
I understand why you're thinking about him, but for the sake of your relationship now, do yourself a favor and just write the ex off.  If he's great or if he's dead, nothing good can come of tracking him down.  How would you feel knowing your husband went looking for one of his past sweethearts?  \nExes should remain where they are.... in your memory.  \nLooking for him will be also looking for trouble.  Trust me, best to just let it go.
691365
This is something that YOU should've dealt with before getting married.  While I don't think it's exactly wrong to still have feelings for someone, it's not right either.  Do you think it is fair to our husband? You should be focusing all your love on your husband, not saving some for some ex.  As I said, this is really something you should've dealt with before getting married.  (Just think about it:  How would you feel if your husband was harboring feelings for some other girl?!)\n\nMy advice to you:  Exes are exes for a reason.  Look back and think about why you broke up.  I'm sure there was a good reason that you are not with him and that you married someone else.  While it may occasionaly be okay to maybe wonder how they are doing, to "still care" for them isn't.  \n\nAs I said, think about why you broke up with your ex.  Then think about why you married your husband.  I'm sure you will see that you made a good decision, and maybe you can leaarn to let go of the past.
488114
It depends on the situation. If you were still dating him when they got together, that's messed up and that's not a friend. But if it was an ex boyfriend, I think that's okay. As long as she comes and talks to you first about it. Not asking for permission, just letting you know what her feelings are. That's a true friend. I don't see anything wrong with friends dating other friends exs but they have to remember that friends come first
1098677
You need to just back off. if you are comfortable in your relationship and with your man it will all be ok. \nI am almost best friends with my husbands ex (I took him from her twice) and it is a great relationship. The two of you have at least one thing in common.\nRemember that they broke up for a reason just let it go. He is with you now.
783330
I personally think you have made a smart move and are taking responsibility for what is yours. I would NOT stay with or talk with the ex girlfriend. (why mess up what you are trying to recreate). I can understand why you were made at your wife, but she is your wife and more importantly the daughter is yours.
392541
depends on the situation. do the two of them have children together? if so then yes, but only if the call concerns the children. if they do not have children they don't have a permanent link to each other so there is no reason for her to be calling your husband, he's moved on and so should she.
813123
Sometimes you have that connection and other times you do not. In my opinion that could be why you and your current husband may be having a bad connection because you are still in love with your ex, even though I do not know more of your situation. Been there done that. The heart wants what it wants and even though you and your ex are still not together the realtionship that you guys had togther will always be in your heart. That is until you decide to give your husband now that part of you heart, which it seems you are not willing to do right now. Hang in there everything happens for a reason. Good Luck.
718198
What do you mean she never goes home? Are you saying that she is always at your ex's house? If so, then you are crazy because whether something is going on or not between the two of them, she should have respect for his relationship with you and he should have the balls to tell her that he is in a new relationship and that she can't come over there...and if he has told her that, then he shouldn't allow her over there.
654826
I don't think they ever get over their ex wife. My sister is divorced and remarried now, and he go around telling everybody that he still loves her and will always. He says all this, and he has a girlfriend. Sorry, but its true! If he talks about her when your around, than yes he still has feelings for her and your better off with someone else. Trust me I know this from experience don't let him hurt you. There is a reason why he got a divorce in the first place.
455996
I think you are already worried or you wouldn't have asked the question on here. I do not think this is appropriate at all. Your husband should tell them, I'm married now and I don't think it is a good idea to "keep in touch". NO WAY are you being childish, your being smart.
973345
No way this is normal. You need to put a stop to this-pronto!   There is a reason she is the "ex" so you have every right to remind him of this. He should be over her by now and have made the commitment of being with you. He's married to you now so he hasn't any reason discussing anything with her or being under her control. With exception of talking about the kid anything else concerning the two of you is is none of her business. He's out of whack for communicating with her like this. Time for a reality adjustment. So get up close in his face and tell him in no uncertain terms to shut that big mouth of his. What a lot of nerve. If you're wondering about what I think I think it sucks big time and is callous and disrespectful toward you. That shrew of an ex needs to be put in her place also. Who cares if she went "nuts". She's nuts if she thinks she had any say about the two of you being married! Who the hell is she anyway? Tell her to butt out of your lives. Share a relationship with the ex? God no!! So put your foot down unless you're considering becoming another ex.