Ladies: When it comes to men, do you trust your instincts? Explain?
546076
I'm thinking my instincts malfunctioned somewhere down the line.  My love for the bad boys has gotten me ummmm well. . .. bad boys.
1162683
The best thing to do is follow your instincts.  If you trust him, don't worry about it.  If you don't, you need to confront him.
223883
First of all -- why don't you trust women?  Your own bad experiences or someone else's?  It's easy for a male to say he doesn't trust females because of a few bad experiences and vice versa for the females - but not all males/females are untrustworthy. You have to observe a person and trust your gut instinct on some things.  It takes a long time for me to trust someone simply because of my own life experiences, but I also try not to negatively judge everyone before giving them a chance to prove themselves.  I understand if they think the same of me. Always remember, there are some good people still out there!
639696
Yes, cause every man is not the same.YOu just got to keep looking, and never give up. Just don't put your heart in it. Be careful about who you trust. A man will only do what a woman allow to do.
246788
trust your instincts!
558252
well there really is no way to really tell other than a lie detector...but women's intuition is usually right...at least that has been my experience...besides if you think he is lying to you about something serious you probably shouldnt be with him
659770
Mental is a big aspect.  He's gotta be smart enough to respect women and intelligent enough to hold a converation.  Looks, while not a MAJOR priority... I still gotta be attracted to the guy.  What's the point in dating the perfect man if the though of fooling around gives you the creeps?
211744
Real women respect honesty. I would just say it. The worse that could happen is that you stay friends. Be brave. Some of us ladies still appreciate a man who goes after what they want.
1005137
Do women really think this guy is straight?  goodness...
405444
Honestly men are divided even amongst themselves on this matter. For example, many are out for the one night stand... they are very easy to spot by BOTH sexes. Then there are the "I'm not sure I want a relation" guy who teases and then when it comes to the moment of truth, they flake. Then there are the type that just loves YOU... the feeling that you give when you talk seriously, when you smile.... and this is a killer... being you and standing for what you believe... being a woman. Of course we men are programmed to go wherever the opportunity is... but trust me when I write that there is a small percentage of us who dream and wish for a real woman to come our way and be our life partner.
579487
Never never never "check" your self confidence or your brains at the door. If you find that some men are intimidated by those....you don't want those men anyway. I think confidence, brains, and fitness are EXTREMELY sexy. I want a well read, well traveled, OPINIONATED, worldly woman. If the best discussion she can participate in is why a certain person should win American Idol...well, she is bound to find someone OTHER THAN ME who appreciates her more. If she can't tell me the pros and cons of Bolivia's recent nationalization of the oil fields...and what the ethical issues are in stem cell research....and quite frankly, tell me why my opinion on the war doesn't make sense...well...then she isn't much interest to me. Anyway, NO, don't doubt yourself in this case...simply change the venues where you are meeting men. They are out there.
145341
Different doesn't have to be great always....go for your gut feeling...women's intuition is generally right
429387
its not about trust if he dont trust u then u would have left its just a feelings of his care , and yea in one way u can say its a distrust but there is someother possibility , its hard to make that guy the culprit without knowing him , but for me ,its his love for u and about him it may be like that he had something to discuss or like that , there is possibility also , but without being sure u should give ur judgement , ask him discuss with hi mand then know the cause and then decide what is it , and what u should do
39700
If you are asking this question you must have some inclination that he already is.  I have learned that you should always trust your woman's intuition when it comes to men.  If he is hiding something then he must have something to hide.  Think about it.
374511
i don't. we think differently. if you are in a relationship it usually doesn't matter if the man is right because a smart man will keep his mouth shut to a woman even if he knows he is right. that is wisdom. i don't know if women can be wise. i didn't mean to offend you and i am not a doctor. i just thought it was funny. good night and my apologies.
1077450
Yes...and yes.  My husband says my instincts are uncanny.  I am usually right.
293774
I don't believe it is hard to trust men in general. You probaly have experience with untrustworthy men. Don't let your judgment of a few men include all men.