when ever I tried to have sex with any girl I come so quickly don't know why ?
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Think about baseball or old people.
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When you feel yourself coming, stop what you are doing, and don't move until the feeling goes away. Once it does, slowly go back to the motion. Once you feel yourself coming again, stop, and remain still until it goes away. Do this several times, every time you are making love to a woman or masturbating. In fact, you can get in plenty of practice from masturbating. No joke intended.\n\nWhat you are doing is plainly obvious. You are training your body and brain to hold off the orgasm for just a few seconds more. As time goes by, with you training yourself, you will find that you can last up to fifteen minutes of constant thrusting if you want. Although she wouldn't want it, because, again, most women's bodies can't produce enough fluid to keep their vaginas from drying out for that long. So you may not even want to shoot for fifteen minutes. It's not really necessary.\n\nWhen doing this technique with your lover, be in your most favorite position. You may have read from other sources that instruct you to do the opposite, because when you are in your favorite position, it will only make you come faster. Well, you want to be in your favorite position, because you WANT to train your brain and body. Why stay away from your favorite position?!\n\nIf you are VERY sensitive to being inside of a woman, to where you come to orgasm with juts a few minutes, you may want to buy a "Pocket P*ssy." This may sound strange to many of you, but a pocket p*ssy fells almost like the real thing. Using this sex toy to practice with works wonders. Don't laugh. It works.\n\nStart doing this training right now. In just a few weeks, maybe longer, you will find that you can hold your orgasms from happening longer. It's a surprisingly effective technique.
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REPORTED for the F word. lol just kidding. the truth of the matter is, you got it lucky, WAY more guys than admit it are minute men, but i've had more than a couple women who were minute"women" if you will and prefered quickies and they could achieve their goal in less than 10 minutes. it differs from woman to woman and man to man, you just gotta match up, a 3 minute guy isn't going to have a long relashionship with a 45 minute girl and vice versus.
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Everyone has different sex drives. \nIt's a bit of a myth that guys want sex all the time and girls are more reserved. \nThere are lots of girls who hacve higher sex drives than thier boyfriends (I know of a few friends who do). It's not unusual at all, just the product of a myth that society has created. \nI'd suggest a bit of solo sex, it makes you appreciate it better when its a mutual thing.
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That's your 1st road block. You don't NEED a girlfriend. Having that attitude probably causes you to act needy. And that will make any girl run in the other direction! Just focus on your life and the things you like. Live your life and stop worrying. Build your confidence! That's the fastest way to attract anybody. There are girls all around you...your just sending out the wrong message.
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Try pleasuring yourself 10-20 minutes before sex...also there are her pleasure condoms that have some sort of topical anesthetic that numb the wang...or be really really drunk to the point where you cant ejaculate.
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errm? ok... more details needed (cringe)\npossible answers\n1. you are a woman\n2. you are pre pubescent\n3, you are stressed\n4. you are impotent\n5. you just have super endurance! keep at it!\nsorry u really need to supply more details\nthat and SEE A DAM DOCTOR!!
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You're not ready for sex. Nothing wrong with it, in your own time and space you will be. I think you feel fear because you're rushing into this cos your friends have done it and you don't want to seem left behind. Forget about everyone's need for a change and start focusing on your own. Say no and if they cannot accept it, they are not worth your energy.
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Only minutes? Dont think so. A guy should try to learn to make love 1st. there are no time limits. You work to the point where you almost climax, then slow it down so it builds up in yourself and your partner. Timing for the both of you is very important. No girl wants to get worked up and then wham it is all done because the guy came too soon. Where is the satisfaction for her? Guys should smarten up. If they ever want to be with the same lady again, then make sure that LADY is just as satisfied before you drop your load.
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I assume you mean climax? sounds like you're trying too hard, theres no need. Just relax and enjoy it and it will happen naturally
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Firstly, why do u want to ejaculate quickly? Surely, its about taking your time and enjoying yourself. But as my answer, relax.
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well it could be because you are nervous, some women may have the sooner than others some only require physical touch others require mental stimulation.\nif you are with your partner experiment or don't be afraid to tell him or her (if that's your case) what to do what feels good  or where to go. there are many reasons, if you cant with your partner try exploring with your self first then make suggestions  based on the things you tried while alone.\n\nthe main thing is be comfortable and relaxed.\nI dont want to go to deep into it here, if you like to hear more e-mail me \nmy e-mail addres is \n\ndj-roland808@hotmail.com\n\nif you have messenger aol msn or yahooo also let me know can add you and speak live
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There is nothing wrong with you! It it very common for the guy to climax before the woman. Try things to make it last longer don't let him quit till your done. Or  try more foreplay before sex or try doing whatever works for you when your alone. work it into the sex with your boyfriend. He'll like it too!! Good luck!!
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It could be one of many things, one he is not into you , two he dose have a medical problem, or three this one happens to a lot of guys even though they don't admit to it, he is more then likely thinking about the ups and downs about sex which is taking the emotional feeling away, which makes him go down way to fast. just don't take it to heart, he is more frustrated about this then you!
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YES, a lot of guys are like this, and if you wanted more than a quick fling you should have made that clear before, not after.\n\nI think you're too young for this, even though you feel like you want it. Stick to boys your own age if possible, although that's still no guarantee of not getting hurt.\n\nWhen you're older, if you want casual sex, that's your choice, as long as you're careful, but for now this isn't a good idea. \n\nI know it's not easy when you're permanently horny, but remember to respect yourself or nobody else will.\n\n(PS, I don't want to sound rude, but are you sure this really happened, and you didn't just fantasise about it? Because if you did, then that's cool, best way to go about it.)
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It's different for many guys. Not to be gross but it depends on how tight the girl is and how fast you're going. That's some ideas. If it's his first time ever then it might be a short time.
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Just to correct a couple of of bits of misinformation...\n\nED can be physical, psychological or a mix of the two.\nAn erection is best described as a "psychohydraulic experience.."\nIn the case that you describe, if everything functions normally during masturbation, then the issue might be psychological, possibly performance anxiety or some kind of issue with the lady of the moment..\nPerhaps the timing's wrong, or you're trying to rush things...\n\nIt's worth bearing in mind that, during masturbation, it's all about you - your attention is focused solely on your own sensations and enjoyment.  Sex with a partner is a lot more complicated, and it's not just mutual masturbation.\n\nThe best thing to do is to talk frankly with your partner.. presumably she is aware there is a problem... and it's certainly in her interest to get it sorted out, as well as yours.\n\nIt might be that you're not getting the right amount/kind of attention from her that you give yourself...  not enough foreplay...  too fast, too slow, too hard, too soft...  there's a million variables.  \nTry letting her watch you masturbate, so she can see what works, then let her take over... \n\nMost importantly, relax, take your time, and don't let stress get to you... worrying about it is the worst thing you can do.  Relax and enjoy.\n\nHope that helps, and good luck