I'm 15 and I have had a boyfriend for a 1 year and 6 months.?
535241
It sounds to me that his picking fights about nonsense is because he feels insecure about himself or even about the relationship between both of you. What is/are the reason(s) for him to say that you're cheating? Is it because you're seeing/calling him less? Did you hold on something not telling him when he asked you? He may be suspicious of your response to him. If you cannot really tell him something but it doesn't relate anything to your relationship, try to reassure your love and feelings towards him. Let him know you're always loyal to him and standing by him. \n\nHe always threatens to leave but he never does--It shows to me that he is upset about something (or feeling dissatisfied about something in the relationship) but he still cares about & loves you because he always only says so without the actual action. Again, it may due to his insecure feelings about your love/concern for him. He may not feel the same care/concern as he does to you. He may feel you don't love/care for him as much as before. He is worrying about your changes if there is any. So try to figure out if there is anything bothering him or making him feel dissatisfied.\n\nRight now I'll give him the benefit of doubt about his seeing someone. I'd rather think the major problem/issue is that he is feeling insecure about himself & the relationship. So my suggetion is: Try to compliment him more and let him know you really love & adore him and why.\nIf both of you have common friends, praise him in front of his/your friends to let him feel special, respected and loved. \n\nHope it helps.
100036
Relax girl, you're still young. Enjou your single life now ....chill~
505148
Find someone your own age!!! Or atleast wait until he is an adult before you corrupt him.
347613
I will never say that you dont love him. He might truly mean the world to you. But you have to look out for your best interest. You are 13 years old and have a lot of great experiences and 'firsts' ahead of you--homecomings, proms, driving, more dates, making captain of a school team-- i wouldn't limit yourself to one guy who is past all these life changing events. I also dont think that it is healthy that he is in jail already. He might bring you down with him one day.  My only suggestion is to be his friend.  That way you can still care about him as much as you want, but you also have the ability to go out and do what you want. There are going to be so many guys in your life throughout high school.  I am sure that you are ready to handle an adult relationship, but I would have as much fun until you absolutely have too. I was tied up with one long relationship after another. And now I am 23 looking back and wishing that I had given myself the chance to go off and have fun.  So, be his friend, and if later on in life, you are still in love with him, then make the commitment to each other.
565264
freshman year of highschool, we're both 15 and in lovee ;)
945552
ok look....this can be a touchy thing..but you shouldnt let age get in the way. If you really like him it shouldnt matter. My bf is 18 and i'm 16 and we work out fine. I can understand why he lied because i was dating a 12 year old when i was 15 and he lied to me too. the only reason we broke up was because of distance.  I don't think it's wrong at all. Like I said if you like him, then forget his age...and he obviously wants to be with you..take advantage of that :)
317571
You need to go hang out with your girlfriends for a while, do something you like without him. Or you will seem needy. Besides you are 14 and there are so many opportunities out there for you yet. Don't go crash-in on any guy at your age, enjoy the time with him but go out and hang with your girls. They will always be there.
129984
Sorry to hear that. Let me tell you my friend's story. She started seeing her boyfriend when she was 17. And later his boyfriend went to UK to study. And now, after 6 years, they are still going strong.  They still talk to each other on the phone everyday. \n\nSo, just believe in it and things may work out somehow!\n\nWish you and your girfriend the very best!
407245
A year is a long time.  Now you make your decision.  Either go straight up to him and tell him how you feel, or move on.  You shouldn't dwindle on this any longer.
133295
I went through the same thing as you...same age too!!! I dated him for 2 years and at 14 I thought he was the one I was going to marry, the highschool came and we went our seperate ways...I'll admit it was hard seeing him with other girls and I'm 21 now and I still think back and smile about our times together...first loves are never forgotten no matter how much you try to forget...enjoy the good memories and use the things you learned from the relationship and put it to good use in a new one...you will grow and your ideals of a boyfriend will change as you grow and discover more about yourself...take your time and enjoy your youth...it's over faster then you'd like it to be and there are so many other people to share your love with...use a past relationship as a learning tool....apply it to a new one and have fun!!! I hope this helped...
1173556
yes, in his mind he does NO WRONG. I'm just wondering how you could stand him for 6 yrs. lol Get over it girl and find someone to treat you right. Good luck.
384910
you got me confused,but I think I know what you mean. U wanna do it, but you have regrets (conscience). I personally think your too young, so wait on it. U mentioned you both respect each other and that makes the relationship reasonable. Why don't you both wait. Sex will always be there and in high school you can't turn the clock backwards to make things right.
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I know it doesn't feel like it, but you have a lot to learn about yourself still. It doesn't sound like you have been in a relationship with this boy very long, and it also sounds like you are still learning what you like in a relationship, and in a partner.\n\nIf your goal is a long term relationship, I would definitely go slow with this. Rushing won't give you any benefits, and it can get you into trouble if your feelings about this boy are still so new that he turns out to not be as great as you think. Or if you just change your mind or find someone better later.\n\nIf you don't care about a relationship, if you are just looking for fun without commitments, you also need to be very careful because if he thinks this is serious and you don't, he could end up very hurt. then again, it could be the other way around, and you could end up the one being hurt.\n\nRemember, boys at 15 tend to care more about sex than they do relationships.\n\nYour best bet is to move slowly so you can be really sure you are seeing things clearly before you make any big decisions about what to do.\n\nI am sure a lot of people will tell you that 15 is too young to be thinking about a serious relationship, and it is easy to say "they don't know my situation"  That's true.  If you have any female friends that are older, ask them about their relationships when they were your age... and how they feel about them now. It could be that your perspective on this entire situation will be very different in a few years. It can't hurt to ask.
188674
Please don't do it tonight!!  If you are hear asking, then the two of you are not ready for that step in your relationship yet.  I know my first time I made my boyfriend wait 9 months (I figured if he could wait that long, he MAY be willing to wait that long for a child if anything happened).  Though that was 15 years ago, I am now a single mom and everyday is a challenge.  I couldn't not imagine being 15 and a single mom.  Please take your time, talk with him, make sure you are really ready!  Sometimes you are more ready to say "NO" then you are to handle the consequences.  Good Luck and if things do happen, please use protection (don't rely on him to use it, you both should!)!!!
247397
If your a virgin think this through first.  Is he going to be in your life a year from now?  In the off chance that you got pregnant is he going to stick by your side or say bye-bye baby.  Do you love each other?  Do you have the same interest's.  Do you enjoy talking to each other for hours?  Is he someone you can bring home to meet mom and dad and have them really like him?  These are some things to think about before taking the next step in the relationship.  \nMake sure he's the right one.  Regrets are something that always sticks with you throughout your life.  And they suck big time. If your in high school I would advise you not to have sex.  Things and people always change after high school.  You'll meet the right guy after high school.  \nIf your not a virgin and you have been with this guy over 6 months and you have thought about the questions I have asked you and you realize he is the right guy.  Then go for it.  Think it through first though.\nGood luck with your decision.
511208
Why are u protecting him for you were a minor he is adult why would any parnet let a child at 15  move in with this  dude, don't think now any can be done if all the truth came out Good Luck
1111364
First, I am very impressed that he respects his parents enough to end the relationship and be just friends. 15 is young and from his parents' point of view there son is growing up too quickly and doesn't need the added pressures and heartache of dating yet. They are only try to do what they, as parents, think is best for their son. It is their job to protect him. You need to understand and respect that too. \nHonestly, his parents may do their best to keep you two apart, afraid of how their son feels about you and the strength of the relationship at such a young age but if it love and if it is meant to be, you two will find a way. Time. Just back up a bit, make it easier on him to respect his parents' wishes and show that he can be responsible, mature and earn their trust. You can still be friends, they can't really stop that but for now you have to let go and let it be. It will hurt but it's the right thing, for you and for him and if you have any hope of having a future with him. (Pissing off his parents will put a nail in that coffin really quick)