how  could i have becomeb best friends with afine british gent so quickly?
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because thats how we do it over here in england! We are true gents and know how to speak to a lady.
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Be a friend and take interest in him by getting to know him like you would a friend, not like a mom or a mom who has not been around.  I met my day at age 25 and I was all excited about getting to know him and having fun with him, but  I realized quickly that he had no fathering instincts (whihc was ok cuz i din't want a father figure all of a sudden) and pretty much was not a friend or someone I wanted to hang out with.  He was boring, lazy and expected me to take care of his house and cook for him the shauvinistic bastard.  I would have wanted for us to just chat about life and have a have a few drinks.
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chill,its easy,js ask him 4 frenship as u find him kool,if ull r already friends,js try n tell him u find him kool n tat u wud wish if u cud increase contact wit him n tat he's vry gentle n tat u wer curious to make more n more frenship wit him n no him better..f it wrks well n good,hey tke his email id n chat wit him send mails,luck girl!!
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Well you get excited to be around the person... want to be around the person a lot... call him/her a brother or sister on accident (somebody did that once with her husband she accidentaly called him her brother). You want to do anything you possible can to make the person happy. And most of all the person should be one of your bestest friends around! Like really he/she should be a best friend of yours and you just can be anything around the person and yeah I'm just rambling on right now but just make sure that you are a best friend to the prson you love and always forgive him/her no matter what.
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your best bet would be to stroke his ego a little,thatll give him some confidence and hell open up to you more.YOU call HIM and tell him you were thinking of him and wanted to say hi.do it like on a tuesday,by friday hell be calling you to "see what you had planned for the weekend"
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Just waiting when thge time will come you just give him your numba so that both of you can talk mor eand get to know each other better!
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Howdid you make friends with him in the first place? Ther must have been communication of some kind. Carry on with the same
325105
If you have a problem with opening up to people face to face, the easiest way is to write him a letter or get him a card that has something very basic on the front. Like it might say, I like you.....and then inside write how you feel, but that you don't want it to ruin your friendship....then leave the ball in his court. If he doesn't seem interested or feel the same, then it wasn't meant to be. But I would definitely do it, because you never know unless you try!
790205
have a trusted friend,say hey you two would make a great couple,and see how he reacts?thats the only thing i can think of right now
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www.studentsoftheworld.info/penpals/penpal_ads.php?Pays_Choisi=GBR\n\nand this will get you a e-pal from great britian, but if you want one from another place then just ask me. \np.s.- its kassie!
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You can't make someone like you--either you're compatible as lovers or you're not, and it's your job to find out.\n\nBut first I'd say if this is a new crush then give it a little time to make sure it's the real thing and not a passing fantasy.  If you're sure this is the real thing then you're faced with the awkwardness of making the transition from "best friend" to lover.  If you were the blurt-it-out type you probably wouldn't be asking this question here, and I don't think blurting would be a great idea.  This would probably be a startling and perhaps threatening revelation to him, and I think it would be wiser to work up involvement slowly and get him thinking about the possibility, if you can.  I don't know your social situation, but maybe you could spend more time alone together and that might get him thinking.  There are many small ways to escalate a relationship, see if you can think of some that are comfortable to you.
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Be straight foward, dont lead her on with anything that could be mistaken for more then freindship.  If she starts touching your hair or any part of you, stand straight up, or just pull back like, "ewww".. almost automaticly.  Send accurate vibes.  However, if you find that you have possible feelings, which I read that you either do, or your really young, then you need to try to hold stong to a moral, like the Holy Bible, I dont know if you read it or not but its the best thing a person cold do. I am a "recovering" homosexual who is celebate forevermore, so I am not without sympathy for your situation or your friends. I would say though, you should definatly reevaluate all your freinds with this in mind, "You are the company you keep" and this is what you turn into, slowly but surly, in little ways and big before you know it (I'm not talking about lesienisim nessisarly however).  So make sure you are with the classification of people you want to grow into.  Be kind but BE FIRM.  I believe in you!
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Email me at rustycasket@yahoo.co.uk\nI'll be ur friend.
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Quite honestly, you'll never kno until you try. Sometimes, best friends are great as boyfriends. He already knows you -- your likes and dislikes, your tastes, your past relationships, etc. -- and he didn't just become a best friend overnight (15 years of friendship is a *long* time). Then again, sometimes best friends aren't good boyfriends. He already knows you, but maybe he knows you too much -- how you will react in certain situations, how your pet peeves sometimes drive him crazy, etc. Truly, you have to follow your heart and your instincts on this one. I wish there were a "crystal ball" that I could point you to that would give you a definite answer... but I'm afraid the only way to find out is to actually be in a relationship with your best friend. God bless!\n\nHope that helped!
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Can I suggest something?\n\nHow about the next time you meet him, use your sense of humour to have a good chat with him first. See how he responds and then base on his behaviour toward you, you then decide the next move.
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if your not from that country, then you better first learn about their calture. ask a close friend how do they meet and what's important for them, if you don't want to make a mistake.
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dont start avoiding him suddenly.he will be damn hurt. i hve dis drastic experience yaar.slow down  and eventually end it up widout him knoing it.try 2 set up sme magic of friendship between dose 2 and he shall eventuallt 4get u.but b sure dat he has a crush on u via sme frnd or u will end up a gr8 frndship in misunderstanding.DAT HURTZ i kno\n\nbut ill pity u r friend