how is it when you may have a best friend and the problem may be bad how do you tell them no?
542715
u need to make ur question more sensible nd if theyre a good friend thed listen just confront to them, and at least put some additional details so people know wat the problem is to help more nd to understand better
993089
I have a friends who i have known like my entire lives and i love them. Though problems can occur and if you ever have a problem if you have been friends that long you may not talk for a bit but you always make up and you can talk to them about it. When you hang out with someone all the time they can get to you but its ok things always work out if you really want to be friends. So just talk to them and and if you have a problem tell them how you feel...it will work out if you really are good friends.
53785
if they are your best friends in the first place, why would you be avoiding them.  if you want some time alone you should feel able to express that to them and if they are truely best friends, they should understand your feelings, if not get new friends...
821831
dang, dont sound much like a best friend to me. tell her that you dont like that she lies to you and you cant be best friends with someone you can't trust. tell her that that has been bothering you for a long while and wish you could have that special best friend trust with her or it just isn't going to work out, because if she lies so much to you now, its only going to get worse. you might want to mention to her about her breath too.. haha jk!
1187200
be as honest  with her as you have been with us...\nit may hurt for a moment..but in the end you discover a great friendship blooming out of your truthfulness...\n\nnot telling her, and avoiding her, will only lead to hurt for her and you.\nher, because she will always wonder why?\nand you, because you are carrying a secret, that would cause no harm to share...{guilt}
642834
This is always a tricky situation, and its often feared that the friendship might be ruined if the other person doesn't feel the same way. I think that if you two are 'best friends' and really close and have a healthy relationship, then if he doesn't feel the same way, maintaining the friendship should be easy.\n\nI think you should tell him and for all you know he could be feeling the exact same way, and having the same fears! So take the risk. If you don't then you are risking a really good chance to be with someone in a relationship that you really care for.\n\nPlan the right way to do it for you- whether that be on the phone, face to face, through a hand written letter, email or msn...whichever is best for you, the point is that you do it and get it out in the open of your relationship. \n\nJust remember of all the great possibilities, that's why you should do it.
518690
Well, have you tried talking to her? you must tell her how much she means to you... and how she's hurting you now. you care for your best friend , but that doesn't mean she can control you around and being a pain in the neck. So tell her that you want to still be best friends with her (because you care and love her) but SHE has to change.\n\nOr, could there be a problem that she hasn't told you yet? Maybe she's acting differently becoz she's under peer pressure (or other problems) and subconsciously doesn't realize what she's doing to you.. and also not recognizing it as a problem. Talk to her and figure it out together.\n\nAnother thing, i think that you can't expect somebody to be the same forever. I have a best friend of 8 years, and now she's changed and become more hostile. I dun like much of her new self, but i accepted it. If she offends me then i'll tell her straight. There'll be a quarrel or so.. but we'll always make up the next day. And though we're not as close as before, we are still best friends and can come up to each other with problems.\n\nGood luck with your best friend! Sometimes, we have to let go to gain something.. It could be a little space between you both, or something else. I think it's best not to break the friendship.
57553
you dont. you shouldnt ruin a good thing. be grateful you even have a best friend.
385940
Well the only way I know is to confront them straight up and tell them that you think they have a problem and you need help and that you will be there for them if they need it. Tell them that you are afraid of them hurting themselves.
556694
a good friend may not live close by and you may not talk as often as you'd like but you know beyond a shadow of a doubt that if you needed her she would be there for you NO MATTER WHAT. My best friend and I work different shifts and seldom get to talk but I know that if I called her at 2am with a problem she'd sit up until 4am with me to help resolve it. I don't have to talk to her every day because she is in my heart and i'm in her's.
720282
i dont know what the problem is your having, but the only way your going to sort it out is to tell them whats going on. be up front with them. or its always going to be a problem.
549016
What makes a good friend is having your friend's best interest in mind. If this friend isn't willing to realize how unhealthy of a lifestyle this is for them, then as a friend you have to help them realize it. Sometimes we need to tell when the act can hurt, damage or cause harm of any kind to all involved. \n\nYou did the right thing, however, tell his/her parents....The friend may be upset at first, but if they are a good friend to you, then they will be happy you helped them.\n\nGood luck...............
1105212
You just have to learn to say no. You can be nice about it\nbut just tell them you can't do it, you don't need to explain why. Being that nice will only get you taken advantage of.
865489
Tell one of your best friend to talk to him about you and tell your best friend to ask him question about who he feels about you and if he says nothing but good things about you have ur friend tell him how you feel about him but, if he ain't feelin' u or just ain't lookin' for a g-friend right now tell ur friend not to tell him anything about the way u feel.
135911
Tell her that it is extremely dangerous to her/his health. If you dont want to be around him, tell him/her that. If they are a truly good friend, they would value your friendship. Get some facts and pictures if you can and show them to her/him.
463731
Quite easy; \n1) a)make sure your friend does not move away and make sure you dont move\n   b)Talk with your friend regularly\n   c)have fun with your friends (play games, go watch movies; just hang out)\n\n2) if your friend has moved and you cannot move to where your friend have moved to:\nkeep contact with your friend (phone, email, talk/messenger, etc.)\n\nNEVER loose contact with your friend and your friendship should always maintain great! \n\nI hope you will have a great time with your best friend.
141051
Let go of the hurt...it's difficult to learn to accept something you don't want.. but sometimes we have to learn to do just that. Sometimes we have to be our own best friend-do what you need to do for you to help you get through the tough spots..what would you advise your best friend to do in a situation like this?...Keep in mind, all the while your guts are tied up in a knot..she has no idea-don't give her that kind of power over you and your life. The time we have to walk this world is so short-there's a woman out there who can love you the way you deserved to be loved..if you're so preoccupied by this other woman when the Right one comes around-you may not be able to see her...and That, my friend, would be a terrible thing..hang in there..