Why do guys have problems talking to girls?
545761
We think we are not worthy of you.\n\nAt least that's how it sounded in my head.  More often people call it 'lack of confidence', or a 'fear of rejection'.  Girls don't realize how truly terrifying they are to a young guy.  But most guys get over it.  Or at least, they meet a girl who they feel comfortable enough around.  It's perfectly normal.  It even has a name.  It's called 'Natural Selection'.
871080
Probably just shy.  Don't worry about it, some guys may not have the nerve to ask a really cute girl they like!  Have fun!
283924
to keep guys guessing... :o) not all girls are so complicated... but personally i think it stems from our insecurities... and maybe from our hormones too... lol
601613
I will be the first one to tell you, Guys won't approach a girl, We think that it's the woman's job to start a conversation(Most of us anyway). Just start a conversation, and make Eye contact! For Example: "How's it Going?" It's that easy, and if he doesn't like you, so what chances are is that he doesn't really see you for who you really are. If he responds, keep talking, don't let the conversation die. If you talk for just a couple minutes, or even a few seconds, he will remember, and it will be easier for you to talk to him next time. Well, I hope this advice helps. \nGOOD LUCK!!! :)\nTommy
829513
Most guys when they find out that their girlfriends want to talk about their relationship or feelings or whatever, they think that there's a problem or something. Guys are like that, they'd never examine or look into anything at all unless something is wrong with it. Not a lot of guys talk about their relationship with their girlfriend just because they should. It's usually only if there's a serious problem or something, otherwise they'll just think then what is there to talk about ? what is there to say about it ?
185923
Yes, because guys do not know if you like them or not.  I can never read girls right; when I think that they like me, how wrong am I!  I wish girls would be more open about their feelings, instead of playing hard to get.
349443
same reason as guys act strange around gals they like.
298939
they're scared.\nOf what?\ncommitment, rejection, change, opening up and being emotional... depends on the guy\n\nalso, remember that generally women are the feelers and men are the thinkers.  maybe they think some things are implicit and don't need to be said.  Or they just don't know that you want to hear it.  Communicate with them!  They're humans too!
803187
Maybe it's the girls you are talking to or maybe you also run into a lot of stuck up chicks. Just a thought.
478488
Simply put - self confidence.  And don't be afraid to talk to women.  I don't know how many times I will see a guy look at me (By that, I mean LOOK), but won't say anything.  A lot of women are shy, or were taught that they should not approach a guy - to let him approach you.  (My mother taught that a girl should never call a guy first, or approach him.)  I wish that when guys noticed a girl, they would just come up to us and say something (aside from a lame pickup line).  \n\nOh yeah - and you should talk to whoever you feel a connection with.  If you catch someone looking at you, and they kind of grin and look away, go talk to her!
443997
Some men are insecure about being approached by ANY women. Also, many men are afraid to approach WOMEN.  The prettier the more difficult to approach a girl -- because they're afraid of being turned down.  \n\nI'd continue to do what you're doing--work the odds.  Just because you get turned down sometimes, doesn't mean you will always get turned down.  Just make it clear you're interested -- stay approachable.  Guys are so weak about being turned down.  And they play the double standard by acting like women are too agressive if they do the approaching.  Not all though.  So you've got to play the odds.  Trust me, it will all work out.  Just hang in there.
420475
Because some guys are shy about things like that. Or some of them feel that the girl should tell the guy they like them.
61933
say these words to your self\n\nI can talk to a girl\nwhat do I have to loose??\nwhat's the difference between me and "a name of the flirtiest guy you ever know!!!"??\n\nso you think that when you talk to a girl you will get shy and screw everything up?? in fact some girls really like it when a guy get shy while he is speaking to them.
758013
Guys dont mess with thier friends girls, or girls they are interested in. Girls, in my experence will cut thier friends off at the pass to get what they want.
87553
I will totally agree with you but I have noticed that there are more serious questions dealing with relationships asked by us girls so maybe that has something to do with it but of course us girls do make our great share of mistakes sometimes even more than guys but guys cant seem to be slick and girls are very stubborn so we will not admit when we make a mistake...so on behalf of women everywhere...sorry
617832
We're not hard at all. It's just because boys get all nervous and act stupid in front of us. First impressions are very important to girls. So basically when you talk to a girl, just be natural. Not like natural as in a cool dudish way (that's just way too fake), but just be yourself. And if you get nervous, don't try to hide it. Cause the more you hide it, the more stupid things you say, and the girl will end up getting pissed. So yeah, don't hide it, and the girl will think it's really cute that you're nervous and will feel moved by your attempt to talk to her.
342185
A lot of boys just don't talk much on the phone to girls - even their girlfriends.  But if he talks to you when you're together, that's what counts.