Single Girl, many options....Help!!?
544499
Wow Jill...\n\nFirst...#1...won't happen\n\nMy suggestion would be...to enjoy your life at the moment and don't "look" for a guy.  \n\nYou don't find love...love finds you...It'll happen...If you are as sweet as your sister tells me that you are, then you will have no worries what-so-ever.\n\nMost of all...DO NOT SETTLE !....You are more valuable than that. :-)
59995
Well since im not sure wheather your a boy or girl, I'll go with a somewhat universal suggestion. What you neeed to do is hang out with your single girl friends! Go out to a nice dinner, maybe all go and rent a movie and eat in. Have a girls night in.. or in some a guys night in or out :) But enjoy. Love is a regular basis thing. Not a ONE day a year occasion. :) Good luck! And Enjoy!
759365
Utilize the places that you could meet other single parents such as school functions, parent groups etc. Also they have community fuctions in most towns that are for singles to get together to meet.  Read you local personal ads in the paper as well.  I wouldnt be so tough on yourself.  Just because you dont know where to start or to look does not make you a loser and you should definately not give up...everyone deserves happiness and there is someone terrific out there for you...keep searching!!! Good luck to you.
976825
single to long wants to have relationship
1061642
Go to many many local events such as concerts etc, join a club such as line dancing if your into that or a bowling leag. Go to every event your friends may have, a wedding party etc. You can also place an ad in the paper or search for a singles dating place/party in your area online, we have them here in town and i need to go there since im single myself lol. Yahoo personals can be a lot of help too, you just need to be honest about youself and know what you want and be clear in your profile, dont leave anything out such as a picture of yourself, i wont click on any profile without a picture.\nMatch.com and Harmony.com are 2 very good places to place a personal as well, just make sure you fill everything in and it may get you somewhere, oh and keep it local because you dont want to travel thousands of miles to meet and then find there is no sparks. Before meeting her make sure you know A LOT about her, never jump into it and dont believe everything she may tell you and always reply to her e-mail, communication is the keyword when dating online.
455779
Check Yahoo Personals and Match.com as well as many other websites for singles.  They offer you search options such as interests and also location.\n\nThe rich ones are in the stages of bankruptcy now as they thought they ended up with real women who then went on to spend their money and never gave a dime.
1043290
stay single and get counciling. don't get into datin realtionships until you have control of the problem.
141782
Have a singles get together.  You must have single friends.  Hook up and go clubbing.  Maybe you'll meet someone and then next year . . .
587767
If you have to ask, you know the answer.\nGive yourself a bit of time, there's nothing wrong with being single and there is a lot wrong with going from one man to another willy nilly just to avoid being alone.\nEspecially since your commitment level is already not the deepest.... I mean, really, how much are you really willing to invest if you give up on a guy you were prepared to marry as soon as trouble hits?\nBe solo a while, hang out with friends, date casually, when you're ready for a real relationship, you'll know.
314214
We were just born at different times and different places that kept us apart.  Everything you described about yourself is qualities that I find very attractive.  I like someone who is open minded and opininated and independent.  You have awesome qualities.  When you are opininated that means you believe in what you are saying.  I have restored my own house and totally independent and can fix pretty much anything.  I cannot find the right girl to save my life.  Most girls are so boring it kills my spirit.  There are guys out there who would love a girl like you.  I think you need to move out of the city you live in and start fresh.  I think your life would change for the better in no time.  On the inadequacy and shame, see a therapist, they can get those things out of you.  We were all wounded in some way as children.  You have to go back in and reopen the wounds and let them heal correctly, otherwise they will fester for a long long time.
1092858
Ask friends or relatives if they have any single women friends. Try church. Join a club or sports team that's co-ed (golf league?). Visit the mall, library, grocery store, etc...
459051
Wow, the answers on here are really great! Try joining some co-ed clubs if there are some available. Even if you just get some exposure to new people, maybe you can meet someone you like. This may sound a little old fashioned, but some girls meet boys (that may go to other schools) if they go to church or the local arcade, or the mall. \n\nAsk your friends, and thank your lucky stars that you have gotten some really great answers right here already! (NOT THE SUICIDE SUGGESTION!) but anything I could say to you besides "broaden your horizons" would only be a repeat...You could also try community organizations, or working with volunteers that help with projects in your community! I think when the time is right, you will find a boyfriend, in the meantime just have a lot of friends, and you do not have to be lonely, there are people in your community that you could help, and learn something at the same time (maybe even meet someone, summer is on the way!). \n\nIf we could just order a man from a catalog, many of them would probably be returned for one reason or another, it's hard to know when you are young what you really want. So the choices are not good where you are, look elsewhere! When the time is right, you will meet someone that you DO like, and he will like you too!\nHave fun!\nruthie~
529864
Well, I'm 31f. I have 2 kids, I got pregnate a month after I graduated H.S....I devoted all of my high school years to being obscessed about boys.  I look back at it now, and wow, was I stupid.  I prefer to be single now, only I'm stuck with my daugther's dad.  Of course this is worst case scenario, lol. Anyways, enjoy high school being single, go to some parties with friends, and live it up. Enjoy your teenage life..cause the real world is not far away.  Besides, once you get a boyfriend, they want all of your time,and you don't get to spend as much time with your friends. Enjoy your friends while you have them. Everyone goes their separate ways after school, I only keep in touch with a couple of my friends. There will always be boys, easy come, easy go....
426835
Tell all your friends that you would like to find a good man to date. Every woman in the world knows at least a dozen good, single men that would "be perfect for you!" Of course, I'm exaggerating a bit, but the principle is "to let people know that you're available, should you get asked out." Tell your family(you know they want the best for you).Be observant when you go to the grocery store.....I'll bet you know at least one guy right now that really "trips your trigger"....find out if he's single. If so, then, start up a conversation,  about, preferably manly things, like, "my car sounds funny", or, "I have a cabinet door that sticks".......see where it goes from there! You MIGHT be surprised!! Good Luck...........there's a lot of decent, lonely men out there, just waiting on a nice lady like you.
668206
Start speed dating and be truthful about your self (your a virgin). There's many people out there like you. You just keep searching instead of waiting. \n\nOthers:\n\nInternet match making\nChat forums (be careful though).\nArrange marriage services.
1066849
The main thing you have to do is to get out of the house, and go where there are lots of people. Many will be single, and in your city, there should be clubs, and other organizations for single people. I love to go to outdoor concerts myself, and meet tons of singles there. Good men are often at the ball parks, libraries, and other men-type activities. Smile a lot, and dress nicely. Don't be afraid to look, and flirt a little. Use what you've got! Good Luck!!
228468
Take your time.  If she gets used to the idea, she might go along with it.  If she's determined to be single, you're wasting your time.