What would you do if  your teacher always yells at  you and acts like a b**** sometimes?
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speak up and tell everyone you can tell...........teachers,parents,principal........everyone................i hate those teachers..........i would slap them and then yell right back at them to make it fair.....good luck with the teacher.
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i dont have a mean teacher
729157
You don't say what the teacher was saying that you took to be "bad", but, that's not really the point here, anyway. The point is - why did you get kicked out of class? A teacher doesn't kick a student out of class for HAVING an opinion, even a dissenting one. A student is removed from class because of the WAY they expressed that opinion. I would venture a guess that the teacher's comments angered you (maybe rightfully so), and you spoke out in a manner considered to be inappropriate and/or disrespectful - and you were told to leave the classroom.\n\nIf, after hearing the teacher's comments, you raised your hand, and gave your opposing opinion in a clear, concise, non-yelling, intelligent manner, it's highly unlikely that you would have been told to leave. If, however, you interrupted the teacher, yelled or otherwise raised your voice, and ranted & raved, it is understandable that the teacher felt that your outburst was disruptive to the class, and this is why you were told to leave.\n\nYes, there is a right to free speech - but that doesn't mean that we can yell "FIRE!" in a crowded theater just for the hell of it. In exercising our right to free speech, we still need to be aware of our surroundings. You may have had some very valid points and arguments against the teacher's comments, but they were lost because of the manner in which you attempted to present them.\n\nIf you feel that the teacher's comments were predjudicial, bigoted, or sexist, then you have every right to file a complaint with your school's administration and/or the school board. However, unless the teacher was directing these comments specifically to you, as an individual, then it is unlikely they will find that the teacher is guilty of bonafide discrimination. He'll probably be given a light warning to tone it down in the future, keep his opinions to himself,  and stick to the curriculum.\n\nSo far as you are concerned, use this incident as an opportunity to hone your debating skills. They will serve you well in the future.\nEveryone HAS a voice, but, it's those who know how to USE that voice effectively that will go far in their lives.
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It appears you have been very professional in dealing with this - good on you!  Do you belong to a professional organization of teachers?  They should be able to provide more support.\n\nInterpersonal relationship advice.....why does she have any power over your students?  You've done very well in modelling appropriate behaviour - good on you!  Is there another teacher who could give your students peer partners?  That would give another opportunity for appropriate modelling.  Ask her students about their motivation:  What do they get from being mean to the girls?  Until you understand the underlying fears of the people involved, you won't be able to determine their motivation.  Sometimes we just have to work with jerks - realize her limitations and work around them.
37646
no, be the bigger person. if the teacher really is as bad as she seems, she'll screw up on her own.
987077
Have a good attitude. Most teachers have great ideas that cannot fly without students being willing to go on the journey.  Nobody can have fun if they are constantly being corrected or yelled at nor can a teacher be fun if they are always weary of behavior.
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Don't be offended, but have you thought about taking anger management? Or maybe even a career as a collections agent? You seem to have a hair trigger, throwing things at somebody just because you don't like them? That is beyond rude, why not ignore them instead, because it sounds like you might end up in several fights once you're in the adult world, or at least very alone. Does the word *bully* ever get thrown your way? By-the-way, the teachers see how you treat people and that is why they can't stand you. I would say that maybe a reality check is or should be at the top of your to-do list. Good luck w/ your attitude adjustment.\nBrandy\n *added comment*\nI think you don't have a mom, because any mom would knock you to your a$$ for acting like that. TIME FOR BRAT CAMP IN THE MOST REMOTE CORNER OF THIS PLANET where nobody is subjected to being in the same state or country with you!
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That is very rude and surely causes the kid alot of pain. The teacher should be dealt with by her superiors. She should know better. You might try becomming this kid's friend. He could probably use one that's understanding and kind. If someone starts taking his side that person may get some flack but the best part is knowing you're doing the right thing for the right reason. Good luck.
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That is tricky...because i use to work at a school district for 10 years...and some teachers, i just said some will LIE TO COVER THEIR BUTT...I know he is a jerk...but unless he is verbally abusing you and OTHERS HEAR IT, I WOULD NOT HAVE YOUR MOM GO AND TALK WITH HIM...do it yourself...because if your Mom goes and does it, she may not know what is really going on and could BLOW IT FOR YOU!!!  are you hearing me??? what i would do....since the teacher is going to be on the defense...with a parent...i would just ignore the teacher so to speak, but do the best work i can...and just look at his MOUTH OR HIS NOSE...THAT WAY HE IS NOT SO INTIMIDATING!!!!But honestly i do know what you are talking about!!!
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Send a sealed letter to her through your son or arrange a parent-teacher conference.  Rationally tell her, like you did here, exactly how you feel. Don't dwell on it, just ask if she could be a little more sensitive on this issue in the future. If she refuses or starts to get in your face, calmly tell her that because she is unable to address this issue civilly, you will arrange to have a meeting with her and the school principal.  Thank her for her time and then walk out if you are meeting in person.  If you are on the phone, thank her and then hang up.  Then, call the main office and set up an appointment to meet with the teacher and the principal.\n\nIf the teacher agrees to your request without any hoopla, thank her and then move on.  If you notice any further infractions, talk to her about it calmly.  If she is just placating you and then doing what she wants, make an appointment with the principal.\n\nAvoid negative discourse and you'll save yourself some nasty hassles.
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I know exactly what I would do.  I would find out when the next school board meeting was first.  Then I would get me a good lawyer and go to that school board meeting.  When it is time for discussion from the floor, I would tell the Superintendent and the School Board exactly what has been going on and exactly what the principal and the teacher has said to you.  I would then tell them that they are allowing your child to be bullied and he is in an unsafe environment and that your lawyer is prepared to file a lawsuit (he will tell you what to say here) and that you are not going to allow your child to be treated this way because a cops child is the one doing the bullying.  I would also consider telling the cop and his spouse that you will be filing a suit against them as well. \n\nI really don't want you to go through with this unless they don't do anything to make the situation better.  Sometimes the threat of something like this is just what they need.  Imagine all the bad press they would get for allowing bullying to go on in their school system.....  I would push for the principal and the teacher to be disciplined also.  \n\nWe had an almost similar situation where the principal told the teachers not to tell anyone that there was a meningitis outbreak at the school.  Needless to say that principal retired after that.  My son was also getting his lunch money stolen everyday.  I tried for about 2 months to get him to stand up for himself but that is just not the kind of kid he his.  Finally, I wrote a letter to the teacher and told her what was going on and I also called the pricipal and told her.  The children (2) were caught red handed.  They were told they would have to repay the money.  The same day the money was repaid, one of the kids stole the money back.  I got a letter from one of the childrens mother saying that her son told them that mine was "giving" his money to him.  I know different because my son was extremely upset over the whole thing.  I didn't get mad over the money, I just wanted him to not be tortured anymore.  Just like you.  I would pay to just threaten them with a lawyer.  I'm sure you can find one that would do this for a very reasonable price.  Shop around.  I hope you can get this taken care of.  No one will take up for our children but us.  I wish you all the best.
51942
you should write all the times the teacher discriminated against you and talk to the principal.  if nothing is done, you could go to the school board or, yes, file a lawsuit
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I know what it's like. Always being picked at, Laughed at, and even shoved out. But I learn from them. I know it sounds crazy but it's true. anywayz, my advice to you is first you need to tell someone about it. whether it be your teacher or your parents. if the bullying doesn't stop, take matters into your own hands. i'm not saying to fight the guy (although that is an option for a much, much later use) but to sorta use your head to out smart him. If he still continues, take a stand and MAKE the school move him to another class and to keep him away from you or else you sue.\nI'm pretty sure that you'll won't have to go that far but just try and find out what's his problem and try and help him. Hey who knows maybe you'll actually become friends.\n       Good luck ;)
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Make then have a silent time lunch.\nTell the teacher to bring a conduct card to the lunch room.\nAsk the principal to stop by once in a while.\nHave a lunch detention room,but send one at a time.\nHave assigned seats.\n\n\nIf you have one or two rowdy students move them to a table by themselves.\n\nIt is possible that this behavior has never corrected,if so it will take some time to correct it.\nYou have to show them that YOU are  in charge,not them !\nWe are creatures of habit.\nGood luck !
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If the teacher is mean to you, tell your parent. You should not stay in a class with a mean teacher. If you have been misbehaving and the teacher is rightly disapproving, you must change your behavior. If there is a counselor you can talk to, make an appointment. Sometimes we need some help seeing a situation clearly.
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The same way you deal with rowdy students in any class.\n\nLay out a set of simple rules, clearly posted in the classroom. Do the same for consequences, and be prepared to follow up on them. Try to provide consistency with other teachers in your building...the same rules and consequences, posted, and enforced in the same way can really cut down on misbehavior.\n\n"No speak that English stuff" is a remarkable cop-out on their part. They know exactly what they're doing, and they'll understand the rules and consequences just fine (I've been an exchange student struggling with the native language, so I know for sure exactly what they're capable of). \n\nP.S. For parents' notes home, your administration should be able to help you get simple checkbox behavior letters written in the parents' native language, for you to MAIL to them. Be sure to also include checkboxes for excellent behavior, and surprise the good kids with letters at home praising them, too.
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This teacher is not behaving the way she should. She is being seductive and she could get into alot of trouble. You need to stay away from her because she is not following the rules. Please talk to your parents or a counselor about this. She is going to get some kid into a real mess -- worse than you can imagine.