Why do most men treat their woman like dodo? The aren't perfect either!?
553088
it is all of our jobs to rid the gene pool of bad people.  please do your part and pick guys that treat you and their fellow man well.  if someone is treating you like waste material......flush them down the toilet (sorry do do remark got me going).
62861
Well, I guess that some men are not superficial and they appreciate having you instead of what material things that you can give them. And yeah women appreciate men in the kitcken especially if they are the ones doing the cooking for a change and not bothering in the kitcken to ask "What's for chow?" :-)
802732
Too bad you are in another part of the world. I love to be treated like a Lady and very few men know how. One of the problems is that just like you, you treat some one that way and they don´t want to be treated that way. Is it old fashioned? I don´t think so. I think it is sweet.
1103932
I have a very good saying when it comes to men. "They are only good for one thing and three quarters of the time they can't do that right either." Every woman has had problems with their man's member, to short, to long, to skinny, to fat. I have only slept with one man who did all the right things with his member and I married him!!!!!
160903
I think it goes visa-versa! I also think it's human nature, we B**** about everything we do and dont do...it's only natural to gripe about men, considering they're such a big part of our lives. Besides i believe the things we B**** most about are the things we cannot change.
266658
Oh wow. Im not sure of the answer but I can only put it down to jealousy or their own insecurity. I've come across this behaviour in women only and I have to say my best friends, including my x-husband and my fiance' are all men!! Maybe women are just too hormonal? As I said I dont think I have an answer but you're not alone. Best of Luck and just be yourself. Honest and true to yourself!
529535
I don't do that.  I've been there done that.  I only want to be with someone who will go out of their way for me.  Someone who will treat me like a lady.  Someone I know I can depend on and trust.  "If you treat me like a queen I will treat you like a king."  Not you personally, but that's one of my sayings.  There is nothing worse then being in a relationship with no trust and they treat you bad.  I'm better then that and I will not settle for less.  When I was young I dated jerks, but now that I'm older I want a gentleman.  It comes with age.
147976
There is no such thing as a perfect man. You will be looking all your life. You will not get that perfect package. As for him taking care of you,  Why don't you take care of yourself and in doing so, he will appriciate the fact that you love and respect yourself and he will follow that pattern.
1074358
some men are just sick and they were'nt brought up right by their parents,usally it stems from his dad doing it to his mother.I feel a lady should be spoiled and treated just like there a part of you.Women are so special,especially one you love.True love is giving 100% and expecting nothing in return.When ever a lady was upset with me,i would'nt hit her,instead i would by her some flowers and give her a hug and leave.Treat women like jesus would treat you.
433368
Yes I agree with you.  Women should be treated as equals.  It's an old stigma thing that men maintained over women throughout history.  I personally do think some women, in fact many women, are better qualified and smarter in various areas than men.  I am pootie whipped and always give in to my girlfriend though so I may not be the best person to be answering this.\n\nMaybe your guy is just stubborn and maybe he's on the rag.
1111203
I like to serve my husband but NOT because he tells me too.  It is great feel so needed but I would never consider myself submissive... why would you even describe your self that way?  The reason why people look down on submissive wives is becasue no one deserves to be bossed around and treated like a slave, so when you see someone doing that you have to wonder what the hell is wrong wit them?  Do nice things for your man becasue you love him..not becasue he makes you!
1097896
If I had a woman that did things like that, I know that it would take a great amount of pressure off from me in getting ready.  Now a man should be capable of getting his things together for trips, but if he has a woman that just automatically does this for him, I think she would need to be appreciated deeply by her man.  I think that a lot of men would not know how to react to a woman that shows that kind of attentiveness.  that is why they maybe tend toward a woman that acts bitchy?  That is what some men have seen and are most familiar with.
405444
Honestly men are divided even amongst themselves on this matter. For example, many are out for the one night stand... they are very easy to spot by BOTH sexes. Then there are the "I'm not sure I want a relation" guy who teases and then when it comes to the moment of truth, they flake. Then there are the type that just loves YOU... the feeling that you give when you talk seriously, when you smile.... and this is a killer... being you and standing for what you believe... being a woman. Of course we men are programmed to go wherever the opportunity is... but trust me when I write that there is a small percentage of us who dream and wish for a real woman to come our way and be our life partner.
517846
Most of the time it has to do with the fact that they had a poor male role model growing up. Often going after the same type of man they know well in their life.  It is sad, but breakable, woman just have to want it to be different and realize when it is happening. They need to recognize the triggers and check themselves so they don't repeat poor choices in men.
529152
Hey Blitz, good question!  I had a boyfriend who treated me like a princess, put me on a pedestal.  I really liked being treated that way.  But it is give and take I treated him like gold as well.  I really think that's how it should be and I will not settle for less.  Especially the dirty little princess at night!  I have been told that I am Betty Crocker in the kitchen, Jenna Jamison in the bedroom and every mothers dream.  Funny that I'm single...Joke, I am single very much by choice.  Bottom line is to treat your boyfriend how you want him to treat you!
303510
You nailed it right on the head. The women you are referring to want their handsome boy toy to play around with, and they get used and abused for years and years, then towards mid life, they decided that they want someone decent and loving. I reiterate what you just said, why should the good guy not have to settle for damaged goods, which they are,and with certainty, they will have psychological at the very least.It is quite refreshing to see someone like you call it like it is.
180046
it's usually the men, women tend to be satisfied emotionally and physically by just one man if in love or married, it's their nature and that's how they are made, a woman just wants one man to love, take care of and be faithful to... men just never have enough and always looking for more with greed , like beasts...(it's also how they were created....)