How do you avoid cheating?
538062
Well perhaps the question isn't about you trusting him, so much as trusting that you are good enough to be with him. Having cheated on him once, with success, do you still respect yourself enough to believe that you deserve to have a good man? It is easy to see the many, many ways a person can cheat. It is just as easy to see behaviors that mirror the ways you felt when you were cheating.\n  As you said, if you knew he was cheating, you would drop him like a bad habit. So in your mind you're sure that he would most likely drop you much the same way.\n  Believe it or not, in alot of cases, the cheating isn't even about the sex. It's about trying to fill a void of something that is missing, which alot of times we don't even realize. It could be the excitement that was there at the beginning of the relationship, or just the time you used to have when you just sat close in front of the tv. Most times dear lady, the cheater isn't actually looking for better sex.... just a new escape. Try changing some aspects of your life with your soon-to-be husband. Meet at a night club, and act as though you're just meeting for the first time. Or share a hot bubble bath, with candle-light and soft music, but without the sex. You may find your desires finding a new source to focus on, when what you have readily available becomes more tempting as you have that proximity but don't follow through with the sex. Anticipation is a good pressure builder. Good luck.
1167271
i say go with your heart dont accuse right from the start ask questions over and over and wait for him to slip if hes cheating hell slip sooner or later what ever you do dont come out and say i think your cheatin ask more direct questions like why did it take so many phone calls before you returned one or where were you on tuesday at 7 etc
739873
Don't you consider that cheating???  If you can't pass on your own merits-what kind of person are you?  Have some self-respect.
516831
Trust is a big component in a healthy, long lasting relationship.  You have to use your good judgement and from what you know about him now, evaulate if he would be capable of playing you or have cheating tendencies.  Nobody wants to be hurt, but let him know how important it is to you for him to be honest and trustworthy.
700116
If you are really original, try turning it around.  Convince people to cheat on their spouses.  As an exercise, this might actually persuade people not to because most of the reasons you'll come up with will be facetious.
333235
be honest and dont cheat again
1127746
do what you did with every other guy in the past..or just pretend you are cheating on him
205763
Depends on how "good" you are and how "alert" the people dealing with it are, but all in all it's wrong thing to do.  Sooner or later, you will get caught, and the consequences are not worth the cheating.
473891
What ever you do....do not cheat.
382388
You don't specify exactly what you mean but if you mean cheat on a marriage then here goes.\n\nIt's not a matter of "getting caught", it's a case of doing the right thing.  If a woman (or man come to that) is married she should respect that union and not mess it up by having an affair.  Finding out your spouse has played away is hurtful and unforgivable.  If a relationship is stale, then try and work it out first (with counselling if needs be) and if that doesn't work, walk away, get a divorce and THEN, and only then, mess about with another person.
134403
use the power of modeling....wherein you study every aspect \nof a person who has good values and good everything....then just be sincere with wat you do....do away with infidelity and dishonestly......
249385
Cheating!  And look what's become of you as a result of being with a person you don't, and should not trust.  You cannot stop someone from cheating.  You can however control yourself. Time to move along.  Better to be alone than to be driven to insane behavior.  Sure relationships require work, but not hard labor.  Is this how you want to live you life worrying and snooping?  There really are honest, true men out there, and there is one waiting for you.
507078
If you help him cheat you're just making it worse in the future.  You have to know that stuff; it doesn't go away.  The best thing you can do is help him study.  If you can't teach him, find someone else who can.  Plus, if you get caught cheating you could face some very negative consequences.
140851
It's not men or women it's people.  People cheat...always have always will.  Same as lying, stealing etc.  You just need to find someone who doesn't.  That's the hard part. If someone cheats on you, most likely you were not meant to be together in the first place.
296256
watch and take notes on what to do and what not to do. Also remember not to ever have sex where you caught them as that might get you caught.
344441
DO NOT ANSWER THESE QUESTIONS\nYou are cheating and have been caught.\nLearn how to use the resources my tax dollars have provided you. Either go to the library, or learn how to do your own research. Use your brain not others.
108235
By watching Cheaters and seeing if s/he shows up on TV!\n\nNo seriously, be concerned if your spouse suddenly loses interest in doing things you used to enjoy together and if s/he can't reliably account for his/her spare time.\n\nAlso, if you try to be intimate with him/her and s/he declines much more frequently than before, be suspicious.  But if s/he takes you up on it, you might want to use protection!