Theoretically, how would you be the most constructive in your life?
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It's not theroy, because I've been told, I'm the most constructive in my life by how I share who and what I've been and who I am now by the grace of God, through poetry, personal writings that touch real lives, boldly speaking, and yet all the same time, being very soft spoken and truly compassionate and convicted in what I say as a speaker.
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i think and listen about what is said and realize i do NOT possibly know the best situation for everything...  (as smart as i think i might be)\n\ni welcome constructive cristism especailly from someone i know who is trying help.  and i don't take it personally!  and am grateful for any free advise that might make me a better person!
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Be an Optimist.\nTrust in God.\n"All things work together for good to them that love God".\n\n.
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Be on TIme\nDress professionaly\nDo your work as told...\nBe organized and motivated\nBe creative, if you think something can be done in a more affective way... give suggestions.\nAlways be honest and humble... your hard work will pay off and someone will notice! best of luck
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Learn how to love, how to live, how to forgive, how to forget(what annoying u)...\nThe best way is the hard way I guess.
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Reflective Listening.\n\nCheck with the other person be be sure you understood what they said.\n\nMake a statement like "What I think I heard you say was ...." That gives them and opportunity to correct what you heard to their meeting.\n\nYou can ask the other person to reflect back what you have said in the same way.  \n\nThis is an excellent interpersonal skill to have that helps you in personal relationships, business, and in the counseling world it is used by counselors.  \n\nI hope this is clear enough to help.
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Start by defining your expectations of yourself.  Such as:\n\n1)  I expect to keep myself safe.\n\n2)  I expect myself to think through my decisions.\n\n3)  I expect myself to be truthful with others.\n\n4)  I expect myself to allow respectful people into my life.\n\nI look at is this way:  the only person you can control is yourself.  Don't pin your feelings and self-esteem on other's failings.\n\nIf you have high expectations of yourself, you will have a higher chance of attracting people who have high expectations of themselves.
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How can YOU improve OUR quality of life....\nLead by example  :-)  Use your manners, be socially acceptable, dress appropriately, act appropriately.  Choose your words carefully, apologize where apologies are due.  Turn the other cheek.  Be forgiving.  Learn from your mistakes.  Don't blow things out of proportion (ex.  Me, when something bad happens:  Well, that sucked.  What's next?).  Refuse to engage in conflict, especially petty conflict.  Express your opinion, but do it nicely.  Make your morals and values known, but only if they're not highly controversial.  Don't waste your time trying to change other people, because it's not your problem.  Don't waste your days away trying to fix their problems, because they're not yours to fix.\nEverything in moderation; this is not simply superficial  ;-)
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BELIEVE in yourself.  Feel good about yourself.  Know yourself. LIKE yourself.  Think of all the great things you do, and say. ENJOY your own company.  I bet you could easily think of a lot more things. \nTo start with, it's all about YOU.  Then you move on to others. Making others feel good about themselves.
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listen more,  develope your listening skills,  people don't usually want ideas or solutions... all they want is too be heard and know that someone heard them... which builds trust and support and you didn't even have to give any input... just listen... \n\nfollow up with something like... so you would like to improve your relationships skill?    How would a good relationship look to you?\n\nbasic stuff...
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Communication is the most positive tool to almost all conflicts.  Sit down in a neutral location and put your concerns out on the table, in a constructive way.  Don't use judgmental words or make accusations unless you have concrete facts to back them up.  If possible have a third person involved who is completely unbiased to either side, and most importantly go in to the conversation with an open mind, be willing to except whatever blame may be yours.
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you should always be as honest as you can with your man/woman as true opinions will eventually come out sooner or later. there is a way to do everything. it need to be constructive criticisms not put downs
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Being perceptive enough to see the most loving thing to do in a situation... \n\n... and then actually doing it.
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Haven't you heard of the term constructive criticism . . . \n\nSometimes . . . I am harsh . . . (well not sometimes . . . most of the time) . . . . but that is my personality.\n\nI want some of these kids . . . to grow up happy and not miserable.  People sit around and do nothing are worse . . . because they have given up on themselves and others . . . . \n\nI am not going to sit around and kiss your A** . . . because you are screwing up . . . I am going to stand up and tell you.
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be a good listener first.\nthink positively and act accordingly.
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believe me, forgiveness is the best way to have a clear mind and heart to be a productive member of society.  Forgive and forget.  Try it!\n\nAnd, next time think it through to it's completion before attempting it.
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With whatever specific talents YOU were given.  Could be through music, art/performance stories/poems, photography, speech, whatever you're naturally drawn to.  \n\nTalents aren't just skills we have.  They're our true expressive voices.