Would you be a bridesmaid?
535602
yes i would.  but think of this.. my best friend and i have been bf since the early 80's when we were in elementary adn we told each other back then we would be each others bridesmaids... but here is what happened. they are still  your bf but sometimes they get new people in their life, but still have you as a bf but felt like they wanted someone else in their wedding party.. so, when my bf got married 3 years ago, she used someone she went to college with ad then i just got married and i used my lil cousin.. ;P  so dont be offended, just be happy that she chose you.. :D  either way you want to wish her a very happy marriage to her and her fiance. :)
992735
Well, it kind of depends on what your bride wants you to do, but some basics, that is normal for most MofH is the bachlorette party, (you can use the other bridesmaids to help you with that) making sure the bride has everything on her day.  Make your self a little kit...like a sewing kit, just in case something falls off the dress, I am sure someone can sew if you can't, every lipgloss, or lipstick, anything you think she might forget, um safety pins, stuff like that....Also ask her, if she wants you to be in charge of keeping certain people away from her on her day, or if she wants you to make sure everything goes as planned, like pictures, and cake cutting, and such....make sure they are on the time...that sort of thing....you are there to make sure everything seems to go perfect for her on her day.  I would make sure you bring all of the something old, new, blue, borrowed and such, just in case.  Also a penny for her shoe....if she knows about that one.
402779
junior bridesmaids or ring bearer or flower girl
907601
yes, I would be anyway.\n\nworst case, its very very flattering. Might only happen every decade or so for some guys, if that. \n\nif he and you want each other then maybe more, find out I think.\n\nHappily married or not? It matters I think.
1150040
i would love to marry a fashion designer rather than Air Hostess b,coz air hostess will go in air one day but fashion designer will stay as long as fashion is there..only thing she will upgrade her self everyday by day
246538
I had a situation where I'd chosen someone as my bridesmaid who was a close friend of my husband's and was also dating my brother at the time.  During the course of the engagement she went nuts and ran off to Australia and screwed over both of my men.  Needless to say she was out of the wedding, and had she not run off I would've asked her to not be in the wedding anyways.  \n\nAs for you, I would just tell her that it seems she's too busy to be able to meet your deadlines and requests, and also with the status of her relationship with you and your family changing you think it's better off she not be in the wedding party, but that you'd love to still have her as a guest.
1141927
How long were they dating?\nWhat are their nicknames?\nHow many kids do they want?\nWhat are their favorite desserts?\nWhat is the wedding date?\nWhat color will the bridesmaids' dresses be?\nWho are the best man and maid of honor?\nWhere are they planning their honeymoon?\nWhere did they go on their first date?\nWhat are their professions/Where did or do they go to college?
591921
Would YOU marry her.... if you a man?
842023
First - you are making the right decision - your bridesmaids will be your support system so they need tobe people you are close to and comfortable with.\n\nNow - actually telling her is the tricky part. I like the first suggestion made - telling her by not telling her, lol. First, fidn something else she can do/be in charge of - then tell her you would be honored if she would.......  This way, while you are telling ehr she isn't a bridesmaid, you are doing it without making her feel excluded. As the first girl said - just leave bridesmaid totally out of the conversation.\n\nP.S. HUGE props to you for thinking about her feelings. Most brides are so caught up in the "all about me" attitude that they just make decisions and think about how they may be effecting others once it is to late. It is great that you have taken the time to care about how she will feel:) Just don't let her happiness become the reason your wedding day is compromised either. Sometimes, the right thing is a very fine line between two wrong things, lol.
322828
I think you mean your brother would stand where the tradional maid of honor would stand, right? I think that is an AWESOME thing to do. I agree that you may look down the road and not be friends w/ the woman you chose to be the maid of honor. And to have your brother to be your husbands best man would be like your brother was standing up with your fiance'....I'm not sure what you would call him...Man of Honor? Good luck, and great idea to show him how much he means to YOU!
637330
OK but it would be a short wedding, and then straight to the honeymoon lol
993870
Start out with how you know the bride and how honored you are to be the maid of honor.  Then say something about when you first met the groom.  You could talk about what a great couple they are and how happy you are that they found each other.  Congratulate them and wish them well.  It doesn't have to be funny.  A nice, sincere wish of happiness for them will be perfect.
369318
you must be greek orthodox. your partner should be the maid of honour.
90019
I think you're talking about how to ask your Bridesmaids and Groomsmen? Ask them in private, one on one, if they'll do you the great favour of standing up with you at the wedding...it is a great honour to be asked to be in a friend's wedding party but it's also a big obligation of time and money, so if they have to say no because they can't afford it or whatever, they should be able to do that in private not in front of others.\nGood luck.
394194
I had a best friend from college.  He was the DJ in my first wedding.  I was a bridesmaid in his first wedding. He was at the hospital the day my twins were born. 15 years later, after we were both divorced, he finally kissed me.  I asked him what took so long and he said he was afraid because he didn't know how I felt abou him!  After 5 years of dating,we got married in Las Vegas and we willhave our 2nd anniversary 8/31/2006! I am so lucky to be married to my best friend. GO FOR IT!
360994
The daisies sound lovely. I'd be very careful about adding any other flowers to the arrangement or bouquets. Daisies are very informal, youthful-looking flowers, and adding a more formal flower like roses, orchids, or lilies will spoil the effect.  My suggestion is to use just those two colors. It doesn't seem plain to me. If these are bouquets for the bridesmaids, consider using a printed ribbon around the stems and trailing from the stems. If you're using a florist, I'd also ask the florist's advice. Depending on the time of year, it may be difficult (or just very expensive) to get some other flowers. And a floral designer can show you examples of different combinations of flowers and ribbons.
838223
How about a 'hippie' wedding.  Your brides maids could come as 'flower children' with long skirts, bare feet and flowers in their hair.\n\nI think it would be cute!