How can my girlfriend and I take our sex life to the next level?
549125
talk about tryin new things to gather. you just dont want to spring something on her shes not ready for. For starters try watching dirty movies, role play or even try out each others fantasy.
862608
Let her be on top.  In that position, she can control how deep and fast to go.  It will make things a lot easier for her.
886505
Something has got to give or it will be your relationship.  Surprise her on her day off and take the kids to the parents house.  Communication and a good heart to heart is in order and the double surprise is that it creates intimacy.  And women need that for great sex. \n\nGood luck. (oh, and see what you can do to negotiate some of these issues before they strain you both too far)
610497
Well if she used sex to "get you"....then it must have been pretty good, right?  Just try to re-kindle that.  You know it's in there somewhere, don't let her stop just because you're together now, you still have to make eachother happy and satisfied.  Don't cheat just yet.  Tell her you want her, and you miss the sex...compliment her and build her up a little..she'll be turned on before you know it.
813599
Well you better learn how to take time for foreplay... if she is cold warm it up! Guys like to jump right to it because they are so easily aroused. Face it, you have one part to please she has multiple. Pay attention to all of the special places, make the foreplay last all day by grabbing, fondling, and dirty talk.  Make her feel sexy by telling her how good she looks and what you find sexy about her. \n\nExample: If you catch her bending over go up behind her rub that butt and tell her how you much it turns you on to see her bend over like that.\n\nWhen you are out in public fondle her breast while no one is paying attention but the security cameras, some people find that exciting. \n\nSlow down when you are about to be intimate and maybe give her a full body massage, paying special attentionb with your mouth and hands to those special places that I mentioned before .
12786
give her an orgasm or you could take out her to do what she loves best (i.e. i take my woman to see a movie, she is in love with them)\ntalking is also a good solution
1092439
depends what stage of the relationship you are in with her.  if you've already had sex together, and just want to know how to get her in the mood to do it again, foreplay works great.  if she's totally not in the mood, stimulating her genitals directly is not a good idea.  you need to stimulate her mind first.  try watching a movie with a romantic love scene.  also telling her what you like about her works wonders.  not like, "remember that bra you were wearing last time we got it on?  that thing was HOT!" but something like, "you are so cute when you sleep" or "i love that you are so passionate about your job."  it will get her feeling positively towards you, and then you can move in for some kissing or something.  lots of kissing will work wonders, and pretty much everyone loves a massage so you two can take turns on each other.  but you shouldn't make the next move.  get her to the point where she is just dying to jump you, then let her.  :)\n\na side note on this.... it may turn out that she is in the mood for kissing but not sex because of *ahem* her hormonal cycle.  some girls have a really low sex drive while they are on their period, for example, and also might be uncomfortable with the idea of sex during that time.  don't stick your hand in her pants all of a sudden because you and she might be unpleasantly surprised.\n\nif you two haven't been sexually intimate, it's harder to jump right in.  young or inexperienced women may not realize that what they are doing has such a strong effect with regards to turning you on.  for this reason, it doesn't hurt to talk about it, tell her where you'd like to see the relationship go and how soon.  explain to her that her style of dress or method of kissing makes it much harder for you to resist her.  say that you'd love to make love to her but if she isn't ready she might want to tone it down a bit so that she isn't sending signals she doesn't mean to send.  always be polite/gentlemanlike and don't pressure her.  she will feel more comfortable with you as a result.  some women, if they are comfortable... they'll want to have sex with their man all the time.  if yours is still reluctant, apply the techniques listed above.\n\nin any stage of the relationship, women value courtship (the whole door-opening thing, helping her into her coat, all that).  be polite and respectful.  also keep the lines of communication open.  tell her what you like and encourage her to tell you what she likes (then do it!).
1056886
sex...exercises....what else?
789680
Surprise her when she comes home.  \n\nLight candles around the house and leave a trail of rosepetals to the bedroom.  Have roses, champaign and a book of erotic stories by the bedside.  On the bed, a blindfold, massage oil and her favorite sex toys. \n\nAnd above all, don't even think of satisfying yourself.  Just do her.  All night.  Until she's had enough.
909328
Get the candles out and get ready for some romance!! Maybe start out with a long while of foreplay on HER!!! Get her real tired-know what I mean? So, she's not wanting it right away. Sex doesn't have to be boom-boom-boom. Every-time you have the urge, change, and try something else sexual. Females love cuddling, so in between time, cuddle and massage!!
255400
Talk about sex in your email and what you want to do to one another . Just be true to her and don't let your hormones ruin your relationship .\n\nAngel
59533
My guess is that you're not talking about a day-to-day thing. What you want is for her to get dressed up and for you two to have crazy monkey sex. Awesome.\n\nIf you two talk about your sex life, bring it up during one of those conversations. Say "You know what might be fun to try one time?"\n\nDon't try to change the whole of your sex life in a day. A good guideline is that only 1 in 3 sexual encounters with your partner should be "enhanced" or "special". If you were to start asking her to dress up like a porn star every time you two made love, she would likely feel less than confident.\n\nIf you two are open enough, head on over to a strip club. Buy her a lapdance. I went to a club and got one and it was superfun. I left the club thinking it might be fun to dress up like a stripper sometimes. Your wife might get the same ideas.\n\nHowever, if you bring it up and she says something along the lines of "I'm not a tawdry whore", make it clear that you want her to be beautiful and classy, just like she already is. If she still says no, drop it. The more you pressure her, the more she'll feel like you don't like her for who she is.\n\nMost women will agree to do something that they're not entirely into every once in a while for the sake of their partner. Besides, if you respond enthusiastically, she's more likely to do it again.\n\nGood luck!
685734
1. Take it slow\n2. Switch positions occasionally to avoid becoming overstimulated\n3. Find positions that stimulate you less & her more\n4. Use some climax control cream\n5. Try grinding motions instead of thrusting motions\n6. Push into her & play with her clitoris while remaining deep inside her
586622
Try romancing her first.  Nice dinner at a nice restaurant, some wine, go home put on some music and slow dance while you sweet talk with her.  For really wild sex - add tequila.\nIf that doesn't work, I dunno... I guess you have my sympathy.
529202
Sorry but you cant increase her sex drive.   What you can do is, encourage her to want you more often.   Heres a few suggestions.\n1) Set the mood.  Maybe cook her a meal, light some candles etc\n2) Give her a sensual massage (massage everything)\n3) Let her know how beautiful you think she is.\n4) Be sensitive to her needs, as well as your own. \n5) Surprize her.   May a picnic, a movie,etc.   Just something you know she will love, and you wouldnt normally do.\n\nI hope these help.   Good luck
1157892
no, try this, have lots of foreplay and make it about her for like 30 min. don't be stengey them get behind her and while you are making love to her (the nice way to put it) put your finger on the top of her clit and rub. i almost promise that will make her scream
478987
I suggest sitting down and talking to her about it candidly. Try new things, buy her a new "toy", something sexy to wear to bed, a little porn (it works, for either arousal or a giggle sometimes, I swear) a makeover day...Chances are she's not sure how to change the same issue you're not sure of either. You both probably need a change, try something you never thought you would, and I bet the spice comes right back!..GL;)