how can i pass my day in work without straggling with my boss :(?
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Put such questions into other categories. I don't know who are you (m or f) and who is your boss (m or f), but if you are cross-sexed then it may be due to the power of lust your boss (or you) have. You'd better to change your air: your make-up (if you are lady), your dressing, or even your perfume.\nIf this is not the case, try to explain it fully, but not in the scientific category!!
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Put her off by saying you will as soon as you have a free minute from your own work, but you are swamped! Say it enough times and she will get the hint. If the boss asks you if you can help tell her the same thing.
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On your days off, start to quietly look for another job.\n\nhmmmm reading what you added. If you really want to make it work with her......\n\nMy boss NEVER remembers what I tell him. He isnt being a jerk, he just has so much on his mind that he forgets. I have learned to write everything I tell him on a sticky note. I stick it somewhere that he can see. On his computer, on his door...Then he is reminded that I told him. \n\nThe next thing is to talk to her. "I love working for you and I really want to do a great job for you, but I feel that we just arnt on the same page with something. (explain) How can we work out a system to where we are working together? I don't want this issue to come between us anymore."\n\nNo one can read your mind. And no one can tell whats really going on until you say something. The problem sometimes is HOW to say it. Think of how you would want someone to talk to you.
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Perspective: put a positive twist on it somehow...or gloat on it the whole time you're at work.  \n\nIt may suck to work on Friday, any Friday, but it is what it is.  If you find a way to be positive, it'll carry over to the people you interact with at work as well as every other aspect of your life.  Happy Day!
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ok first relax. Second make up your mind that you are not going to work tomorrow. That should make you feel better enough to concentrate on relaxing enough to go to sleep. Unfortunately you will have a sleep debt which your body will make you repay at some stage, and you will not function at work as best you should. That wouldn't fair to you or your work mates.
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Get your Dr to give you a note for your boss that says you MUST get up and walk around every hour.  Then take a quick walk around your office space, and stretch as much as you can.  You can get an exercise thing for at your desk that simulates pedaling a bike, and that way you can keep your legs moving.  On your breaks, and lunches walk around your building if possible.\n\nStay away from those silly Ab belts, they are a scam.  \n\nWhile sitting at your desk, sit up straight, and hold your tummy in for a 5 count, let it out for 5, and hold it in for 5.  Do this as much as possible.  Also, clench your butt to the same count.
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You say you are willing to wait until "we are not swamped" so why would you need an "excuse"?\n\nIf it is actually that hard to get time off, just tell your supervisor that you have been unusually stressed lately and you need to have a day to just get away and calm down.  Ask about a week ahead of time so it doesn't come as surprise to your sup.\nIf your sup is decent he/she will realize you are being thoughtful and responsible by asking ahead of time and should honor that.        \nAt least you will have the knowledge that you were honest.  \n\nA sup who isn't responsive to the needs of the workers will soon find they have a hostile working class to deal with and that will come back to bite in the arse.\n\nWhere I worked, we had one boss who thought he had to act like a dictator to control everyone. When he finally PO'd everyone to the point they hated him we started watching for ways to get rid of him. Eventually the attendance and work output showed on paper that he wasn't getting the job done and they moved him to another area. A friend and I had a talk with him before he was moved and we did our best to make him realize he caused all of the problems in our area.  He didn't listen. He acted the same in the new area and the people there were a lot meaner than us. They sabotaged everything he did and made his bosses know why things went downhill in their area. The company sent him to some training school to readjust his technique and then transferred him to a different facility where no one knew him.  We heard the people there slashed the tires on his car!! After that I don't know what happened. I don't condone the slashing but I do understand the frustration of an unreasonable boss. They are actually counter productive.\n\nGood luck and remember, honesty always pays good dividends...
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I am at work, and working, sort of.  It's just slow today, and I'm the boss.
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I would suggest writing a letter and asking your boss to read it so you could discuss the letter with her at a later time.  It may be a good idea to let an impartial friend read the letter first so they can judge how well you state your facts and avoid putting in any personal barbs in the letter.\n\nGood luck
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Have a 'pizza' day or the like.  (Bribery can go a long way :) )\n\nHave group projects to get them to have more teamwork and get along better.\n\nStand up for them. (try to show that you, as the boss, are the same as them, the employee) - but not so much that you're not still seen as the boss!
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BE ORGANIZED... make your TO-DO list... be disciplined enough to follow it... prioritize... identify the stuffs that are the most important... if its time to work, WORK... don't linger... don't deviate from your schedules... then award yourself when you finally meet the deadline... give yourself a pat in the shoulder and treat yourself to a spa... or simple pleasures in life... like a quality time with your gf/bf, an ice cream... chocolates... or a nice, uninterrupted sleep... GOODLUCK!
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better management of your time. and work faster. actually.. you just have to  move faster... you probably get sidetracked most of the time
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I find it best to be very positive every minute of the day.  Sucking-up to the person who does the promoting also , sadly helps.  Don't gossip or listen to gossip.  Talk about events, places, things, but NEVER people. If you deal w/customers or clients, constantly go over & beyond the call of duty... it will get back to your supervisor.  Good Luck
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I feel like that every day I leave my office and head for home when I work with the one boss. Sometimes it can be anxiety over so many things going on at once, at least that's what I've pin pointed it to in my situation. When the one boss is here he is crazy running around like a chicken with his head cut off, a huge tornado of chaos. It totally drains me after he leaves. Any other day I am fine, I think his chaotic manners suck my energy right out of me. I've tried just bracing myself for him to be chaotic and then when he leaves reorganise everything back to it's original spot,  also I ignore him somewhat, act really absorbed into my work and then he doesn't really bother me.
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Show up early everyday. Do not sit around a socialize most of the afternoon. Get you work completed in a timely manner and correctly. Do not be afraid to ask for clarification or for help if you do not know how to do something. If your work is done, ask your supervisor if there is any additional work you can do to help them or the company. And always dress professionally. Always be professional in your dress, speech, and written communications. Also let your boss know you want to excell in your career and see if they will put you on a plan, where you have goals and if you meet them, you get "x"
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Think....whats the worst thing that can happen if the work is not done.Ur boss may tell complete the task once again.How will that hurt u ? He is not going to fire you just because u did not get one task completed.So relax.\n\nThink about good things in life.Ex. what u r going to do this weekend ? Think anything that you like to divert your mind.Listen to some good music.
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You've recognized that you want to change your work habits, that's the first step.  You've asked for help, that's the second step.  You are on your way to breaking this habit.\n\nI'm assuming that the computer you use at work is networked.  That means your boss can easily check your web page histories...and they do that.\n\nConsider the fact that if your employer discovered what you were doing with your extra time at work, you'd probably be fired.  That might help your situation.\n\nJust keep reminding yourself that your employer expects you to earn your nine hours of pay each day.  Good luck to you.