i am having an affair with my Gym teacher. Is it okay to invite him to prom?
544897
Well yea, I would definitely invite him to the prom and make out with him in front of everyone.  In high school you seem to get more respect when you date older men.  Especially since he has a nice car, I would give him a real special treat when we went for a drive afterwards.  I hope you have a "ball".  Good Luck at the prom.
1172624
I think that is a great thing for you to do, also you can plan it with coed or not, depending on his friends.  I think that is very thoughtful of you.  I bet he would love you just for thinking of the idea.
253371
If you have any guys that are good friends and don't have dates as of yet ask them.  I went to prom one year with a good friend of mine after we both had just gotten out of relationships and her and I had the best time of everyone there I think.  Good Luck!!!
533635
I think you mean "inappropriately" instead of inopportunely.  Of course, you should protect your honor and dignity and not let your teacher abuse you.  He is abusing your confidence in him by molesting you and that is not only inappropriate, it is also illegal.  Report him to the school authorities, your parents and the police.
1130811
Sorry about your prom, dear, but there will never be a time when our young men aren't serving their country in another part of the globe. That's what we DO. It's our job. it isn't always pretty, but it's always the truth. We are useless at home. We have no purpose at home. Our job is simply to defend and uphold the constitution against all enemies, foreign and domestic. But I really do hate that your guy might miss your prom. I missed my girl's prom back before you were born, and I've always hated letting her down. It will bother him as much as it does you, and probably for a lot longer. But remember he's doing what he has too, not what he wants too. I'm sure if he had a choice, he'd be dancing with his girl, not laying on a cot staring at your picture.
660163
oh that sucks! Thats a toughie! well obv the other guy is physco..and dint you ever give him a chance..ever..6 yrs is a long time..and i think in the END he will forget about it..but for now hes prolly gonna punish you..yeah its not fair...but what would you do..im sure he is checking his messages every minute..6 yrs means love..Yeah your gonna be sad..Umm where did this take place? school? id take that as sexual harrasment...yeah you better make it that way..well goodluck with your love..and if he doesnt llove you again..he is just lookin for a way out..and any guy would be lucky to have you espesially after being this honest and asking for help..goodluck!
500996
I am assuming  this 'dance' was a high school dance based on everything else you said so, no, I don't think it is a big deal. However, at the high school level, or pretty much anything under the age of 25, it is a big deal to those who see it. Be careful here though!! If you have a big crush on him and he only sees you 'as a friend' you will get your heart broken when he finally tells you as such. Keep it as  friends and enjoy the comfort of a good hug until he leads you to believe otherwise. Good luck!!
484579
your going way too fast. Your only 13. And you don't want to get labled as the neighborhood slut. Tell him you like him and would like to become better friends. But if you do invite hiom over to your house make sure your parents are around.
532044
nothing is wrong if ur competitive it show that u show interest in something if u like him just let him know
277596
tough question!\n\nokay, let's get creative, any "normal" answer is going to hurt the first guy's feelings...\n\nthe way that seems like it would have the best results is to be totally honest with both guys and your parents, and try to keep EVERYONE happy.\n\nokay, been there, done that with having the parents who wouldn't let me date.  and only go to the prom in a group.\n\njust by the way you asked the question shows a lot of integrity, your parents should be happy, and the boy you like and the boy who would be "just a friend" should all think you're pretty cool...\n\nbefore i thought of suggesting what i'll write in the next paragraph i read your other posts to see if there's anything in there which would get you in trouble with your parents... if i was your parents, i would be proud of your level of self-control and willingness to say "no" and stick up for yourself...\n\nmy wacky solution... just print out this thread and show it to your parents and both boys... tell the 2nd boy that his prom is as "just friends", the first boy should be reassured that you care as much as you do for his feelings.  or... if you're old enough to invite the first boy to your prom, make a deal with your parents that you'll be home early, and go with him.  or if his (#1's) prom is after yours, go with him to his and be back early, and keep your existing arrangements.\n\nmom and dad... it's kind of a privacy thing, she probably wouldn't want you to read her other posts, but you have a good daughter, she obviously cares what you think, and she's trustworthy, and knows how to stay out of trouble : )\n\nor just don't go to the prom.  : (
97426
Go to prom with him, have fun, relax. Dont give into him and his desire to get into your pants....however just a word of advice sometimes the best relationships come from the best of friends so always keep an open mind, even if your not interested now.....there is always the future. Have fun at prom!
548002
Ask him. one last time, if he will go with you. If he says no; tell him that you are going to go with one of your male friends, and do just that! Then ask yourself whether or not he is the one for you (If he can not see how important the Prom is to you and put his own feelings aside to make you happy you may want to consider kicking him to the curb!
514691
I would say, go and have fun, prove to him that you can have fun with out him as a dat.. plus you can go and have fun with your friends.. prom is a good memory of when u in H.S, \n\nyou can get another date for your prom nite cuz you still have a week...
647415
are you just a guest?  then its semi formal...not too formal like prom but a little bit better than your sunday best.  if youre a girl wear a dress or a really nice skirt, if youre a guy wear slacks and a nice shirt...probably a tie as well.
449234
not much you can do about your teacher.your boy friend tell "your out of here" and the guy you like just ask him out
581349
No theres nothing wrong with it.  I think that would be cool, you are showing a girl that you care about yourself enough by going to the gym and working out and that you are just looking for the same.
897454
Look at your parent's yearbooks. Also, you can always make fun of your gym teacher, such as "We will always remember the brutal 5 mile run that our gym teacher made all of us go on. He was always there for moral support- driving alongside us in his golfcart, yelling wrds of encouragement from his bull horn". \nSomething along those lines. REMEMBER, don't be too mean.