When do you choose to be or not to be... help me out...?
535035
I choose to be who I am. I choose not to be who others want me to be.
441710
you always have to make decisions.you can never have the two (whatever you have to choose between) it is your choice and no one else is responsible for your choice.so make your choice.
12740
You can always say I think we should test our waters for a little bit. Or I'm just not feeling it right now..I'm having a lot of stressful things going on and I need some alone time. Why would you want to be in something that you don't like anyways. And if you love something you always go back. You can just be friends with benefits.
143320
make a decision... u have to choose one or loosing both...
92452
in opinion,  do what's right for you. there's no right or wrong answers. it how to feel about the whole situation. don't doubt your intuition.
746148
If it's meant to be it will be, but you can't make it happen.  Sometimes timing keeps us from making a bad choice based on emotions in that moment.  There is a saying that goes..."if you love something let it go..if it comes back to you, it is yours...if it does not then it never was"
237168
I don't believe ANYONE would actually CHOOSE to be- I mean, it's kind of like choosing between driving a car uphill and walking on your hands, in the snow, with no gloves on,  backwards, while making a homemade apple pie. Not much of a choice here, is there? \nI apologize if that was a little over the top, but I get really frustrated by lack of understanding when it comes to matters of sexual orientation. A lot of answers you'll get will be "choice", but I assure you that NONE of THOSE answers will EVER come from someone WHO IS REALLY GAY. Why the heck would we, as heterosexuals, know better than someone who IS ACTUALLY HOMOSEXUAL??\n(again, I'm sorry if I sound nasty- as the saying goes, "One of my best friends is gay."- and he is.)
414092
well if you want suffring then option c .\n     if you want to live in pain till your during come then option b \n     if you want to have a great time togather than option \nA .\n  BEST OF LUCK !
553049
It is up to you. Do what you think is right. If you want to then go for it but if you dont want to then dont. It is up to you. Good Luck.
305730
"I wish I were."  It's the subjunctive mood.  Any time you express uncertainty like that - as in you're not sure if you're going - you have to use subjunctive.
96924
You're playing with fire.\nBetter make a choice soon,before one or both find out(I can't believe either one of them would know and accept this situation as it is now)and make a decision for you.
165347
I agree with the first person who wrote, you are ready when you dont have to ask that question, when you KNOW its the right time, and you feel completely confortable with it. There should be no doubts in your heart at all.\n\nJust know you CAN say no and you CAN wait. Its your body and you have controll of it.\n\nIt will eventually happen someday, \nif you wait till your ready It will happen at the right time. If not, you may regret it.
60308
I'm trying to decide whether to answer this or not.  ; ]
272492
ifU shouDON'Tave to stop and thyou're\niF THEY DONT UNDERSTAND maybe youre not ready and might get crushed.\nYou have to choose the one u love most and makes you feel comfortable.
392250
A decision by default is still a decision.  Trust me, your path will be smoother, regardless of which way you go, if you choose consciously rather than by default.  Your current situation is unsustainable.  Although painful, you will recover from the loss of either, easier than you will recover from the loss of all....  And then again, maybe your indecision reflects your true belief that neither is really right for you.  I recommend counseling.  You need to know what's really going on with you to make a good decision.
637549
when you chose to be one.. :)
1116316
Why choose? Why not both?