How can i be a better person with my famly?
548831
this is what you need ro do, you need to focus on yourself and make sure you do good in school, dont get involved with drugs or drinking or have anything to do with the police, be a good kids and you can bet it will all turn around for you.good luck!!
486933
u need God in your family lifes for the positivety and the strength and everything good and positive go to church is a great plus  you will see a difference promise
77161
Find your own success, and don't rely on thier success to carry you for anything, the best thing you can do for yourself is be independant.  Never rely on someone else to give you your happiness in whatever form that might be, and don't ever allow someone elses presense in your life be so controlling that you depend on them for your well being, not even your rich parents.
638766
Have a better opinion of urself and accept as u are, God made every one perfect, its only when we compare with others we feel deficient and feel worthless about ourselves. Better is a relative word and a person whom you feel is better than you may be much worse to you in many aspects. You are a precious gift of life and its better to be oneself than to seek being 'better'and lose out on your 'best'
646038
Try to find something positive you like about her and focus more on that than her faults. You recognise that she is very 'needy' and she is probably afraid that you guys would abandon her. Your best bet is to always tell her that she is a wonderful person. Try to get her involved sometimes in some events to make her feel useful. For example, if you are organising a party, make her responsible for the food or decorations, anything to keep her busy and wanted.\nSoon she would realise you are not a threat for her son's affection.
921614
First off, don't try being someone you are not.  Always, be yourself.  If she thinks you are boring, then she is missing out, not you.  Revenge never solves anything.  Improving your qualities that you have now, will be better served.  Keep an open mind to learning new things and you will be surprised at the person looking back at you in the mirror.  Thank God for who you are, as He created you and He is always in control.  This person maybe shallow, do you want that quality of person in your life?
660031
Get a book. Or try to start to talk to other people. Or you could start to hang out with your friends friends. Then you'll be one big happy family!
1024991
spend time with your father.\nparents are special and precious
990666
When I've actually met a perfect human being, I'll be able to answer this question.\nTill then, hang in there, and just be the best person you can be.
238729
First of all,Comunication is the KEY to anything.Always keep talking to her, and LISTENING to her.You have to be willing to sacrifice for each other.Ohh,and keep GOD in your relationship so it will never end!Good luck to you,and may God bless you both.
1066117
Be a better person. Enjoy my life more. Respect others more.\nMost of all, I want to do much better things for my dad. I wasn't a good daughter when he was alive and I regret it until now, and I think I'll regret it forever.\nSo, if I was given a second chance, I will be nice to others, especially to my dad.\nDad, I love you so. I'm sorry for being so stupid in the past. I was so blind and didn't realize that all you did were love.
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You can not make someone elses life better. That is in their control not yours.\nHe should be encouraging and positive. \nPoint her in the right direction for happiness and positive lifestyle choices.\nHe should be supportive towards things that would make her life better.\nBut only she can actually make it better.
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try to strike a balance. your family loves you.\nmine did the same for me and i was glad i could help however i could.\nbut, remind them that your time is limited and set boundaries for yourself with them. good luck
337379
Boy, that's a sad story if I ever heard one.  This is going to take work.  When your girlfriend is stuck home doing stuff, maybe you could help out.  That would be a good way to show your girlfriend and her mother how loving and dependable you are.  Also, if you help take good care of her siblings, it will show what a good father you could be.  You need to work with your girlfriend to help her practice being independent.  I'm not sure exactly how to do it, but you need to unbrainwash her.
889638
Be an Optimist.\nTrust in God.\n"All things work together for good to them that love God".\n\n.
1122937
Remember that they raised you, fed you, gave you a place to live, clothed you, and supported you...I think you can be patient with the way they speak.  I'm sure you have traits that bother them, as well, but they love you and do not want to hurt you.  Give them the respect they deserve!!
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Go with the one that will make you a better person...your dad. Getting nice stuff is very shallow and not a good reason. Time to grow up.