would you date someone if they were a nice person and attractive BUT...?
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I you want to date someone what does it matter? They could be male or female or between or even in the process of change. \nLove comes from the heart and has no eyes. So let love be blind and find your true love.\n\nHugs Kim Lynn
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Do you get nervous around them? Do you think of them often? Do you look at this person and think " I wonder if he will be a nice B/F? There are a few things......
317962
I would...will you date me...you are probably nice...I love chicks
668118
Im sure you are an attractive girl, but looks arent everything as everyone knows.What is inside and where your heart is is more important to me.A beautiful girl could have many thorns,while an unattractive one could have a heart of gold.That is why we date and you try to get to know the person and see if you are compatible with eachother.
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i will admit that a physical attraction often leads to a relationship but,i have dated men of all sizes.If a mans personality turns me on i do not see him as too thick or too thin.The trick is to get someone to notice the you inside.People who cant do that tend to be shallow and are not worth your time.You will find her.Hang in there.
852167
I see a skid of a funnycar into a wall. The important thing is to let someone know off the bat if you date just one person exclusively. Its not impossible, but it could get ugly.
641379
sure, even if you were ugly and poor but a pretty nice guy
515365
Wow. There are a lot of factors involved in that one. Is he cute? Smell Good? Does he have a gun? lol.\nLet's say hypothetically; he's sweet, handsome, smells nice and doesn't have a gun and I'm single. Yes. I would. But immediately after I'd ask him what in the world he was doing.
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No, I wouldn't date someone like that.  If he's always the innocent one then he doesn't know what he did wrong and chances are he will keep doing it.
641654
Ummm....no actually I haven't.  And I don't think anyone can.  I think everyone finds there mate good looking in some way, I don't know if you are like this but I see each person in a different way, I swear I sometimes see someone everyone says is pretty and i am like yuck !! because of how they are or whatever, somehow i see them uglier, but i can have a really good friend and if i truly luv em i see them prettier than they are. But I dont think you can be with someone you are not physically attracted to.  You wouldnt be able to be 100% into her.\nOops I answered the one for men lol now i saw the one for women , Tip for you next time just make one saying men n women oka ?  lol\nanyways i think the relationship would turn platonic, you will really admire and love that person in a friendship way.
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Well my girlfriend who is truly my soul mate is chubby, but is really beautiful and has a great personality. I wouldn't say that I'm dating her because she's chubby, but I'm dating her because I lover her eyes, her smile, and both her inner and outer beauty.\n\nTo me she could have been skinny --- fat and I would still date her because of who she is.
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People like to say that looks dont matter and its whats on the inside that truely counts. While this is true in theory is is most often not very true in practice.\n\nMost people given the choice between an average looking person who has a great personallity and an attractive person with a bad personality will go with the attractive person. I think the reason is that people think of their boyfriends/girlfriends a fashion items. "Nice coat!" "Cute shoes!" "Oh nice boyfriend! You got the whole set."\n\nI had a big time crush on a friend of mine who is in a wheelchair. She is awesome to be with, kick ass, and a beatiful person. Our lives went to very different paths so we never dated but I sure as hell wanted to.\n\nIf the person cares for you as a person, none of that shit should matter.
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Obviously, the first thing you notice about someone is their appearance. There are still a few of us guys that look beyond that though. I have dated some very good looking gals that I lost interest in due to lack of conversation. I have dated several ordinary/plain looking gals and had far better relationships with them. To some of us, what's inside means more than what's outside, but noone wants someone they aren't physically attracted to.
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if I want to date somebody, I depend on personallity, but she should be a good looking person too in order to give me a good impression about her.\n\nface it, if I met a girl for the first time, I can't judge her personality, but I can judge her from what she wears or what she looks like..etc
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I wouldn't avoid dating someone just because she was a little person, but it would probably be unlikely that I would strike up a conversation with a little person I hadn't met to try to get a date with her.  Among many features that I use, consciously or subconsciously, to determine who is attractive would usually include her being no more than about 9 inches shorter or 2 inches taller than me.
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Come on, how 'not pretty' are we talking about? Yeah, I'm shallow. I'm not looking for a model or a beauty queen, but she can't be straight up ugly. Personality is great though, and yes, you can become more attracted to someone you relate to. It makes a difference, but sometimes it takes a lot of personality.
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haha, I would initially say yes.  BUT, no one is perfect and expecting someone to say yes is just dumb.  Everyone judges it is just how things are.  Even if you do not mean to.  Mostly what I find, in my case, is that someone can be unnatractive to me and I can have no interest, but the more I get to know the person (if they have a good personality) you learn that you can over-look it.  But, on first glance, you will still judge.  So, yes...and no.  d=