What should I do? I'm still a virgin!?
553517
stay a virgin untill u fell ready .. if u were u wouldnt b askin wat 2 do .. if u have a girl have fun wit her in w/e ya do n 4 get bout the guy .. n seriously if u have problems wit how u look then do somethin bout it start a diet exercise but do it FOR YOU not cause of wat ppl think r say .. make urself feel good bout ur body change w/e u want but not 4 others wen a person likes u , loves u they dont care bout ur looks only they care bout wat u have inside wat kind of person u r .. so dont do somethin u'll regret
423441
I take it that you've already told him you weren't a virgin.\n\nListen, your virginity is something that you only have once.  It should be something to be proud of, not ashamed of...especially this day and age.\n\nI hope that you are with someone who will help you take this at your own pace.
993266
You are still young and virginity is nothing to be ashamed of.  I suggest you look for love....and be open to the gender, then see what happens.  True love knows no gender.  Look for someone who treats you nice and can be a companion for a lifetime.  Hopefully love will find you, it may take time,  but you are young and have time.  Every new relationship will have you questioning your orientation,  relax and let  FATE  guide you.
194030
There is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 20. You should have sex when you feel ready, not when you feel you are the "right" age
1137360
No honey there's nothing wrong with being a virgin at 22.  Don't sweat it.  It will happen when it's supposed to.  You just be you and don't listen to the people they tell you to it's wrong and you should be having sex.  Don't go out and bang hookers, as suggested above me.  Sex free = disease free  And when you do have sex, be safe, use condoms.
576950
You are never to old! Virginity is SUCH A SPECIAL THING!!!! DOn't let it go to just anyone! Wait till your married to that special someone and give yourself to them, and them only!!!
872575
i am an 18 yr. old female who is still a virgin as well, and i totally charash it. it is the most preshes thing to me. being a  virgin(keeping your verginity tell your married) is very rare now days. and trust me i have had many chances to brake it several times, but i just cant do that because i would be just like all the other people. i might even end up with an unwanted pregancy, std's, aids, the shame of loosing your verginity to someone who you really dont love and care to spend time with every day of your life, for the rest of your life, ect..... i could go on all night and day listing things but i wont.\nI also agree with you. i would charish it tell your married and have that be your first time. hopefually that will be her first time too. and that way you both will have something special to look forward to, and you wont really have a clue if your bad or good the first time. stay strong and keep your virginity. i know that it's hard but its possible. dont let people bolly you into it. I personally would prefure someone who is still a virgin when i marry him. best of luck. remember if you have sex just one time their is no being a vergin again.
552221
Nope......you're still a virgin.  Hand jobs and fingering aren't sex.  They are great thing sto do to lead up to sex though.\n\nAnyhow, keep that in mind for later, k?  Since you asked you probably need to educate youself some more before going through with doing anything more.  Just a thought!
1075463
non virgin but act like a virgin ..
467643
It's perfectly normal to be a virgin at 20.....my advise??? Wait till you've found the right person for you.Somewhere out there is someone for you...find this person first, it is worth the wait, believe me.
667931
OOPs I am still a virgin.
197908
i think it's good your still a virgin. I'm 25 and still one. I'm one who still believes you need to be married to have sex.
513285
sadly, thats about the going time for sex now. If she pretended to be a virgin, the whole thing was based on a lie. My advice would be to leave her alone. He was a virgin, and sadly, he'll always remember her. Just tell him that there are plenty more people out there who are better and just to wait for the right one next time.
543870
All I can do is tell you about my first time. I was totally in love, but the guy wasn't. It was nuthin' nice. In fact it was, on the whole, a totally awful experience. When I realized he didn't really care about me, I was devastated. I had thrown away the most precious gift I had to give a man on a jerk who just wanted to say he'd had a virgin. Don't be in a rush, sweetheart. I'm not saying you have to wait for marriage, just make the first time with someone really special. Make GOOD memories! I love you.
1004036
No your not dumb. It takes a woman to stand up to her friends and say YES I'M A VIRGIN and DAMN PROUD OF IT TOO.. It also takes a MAN TO RESPECT YOUR DECISION. I applaud the 2 of you for your decision. Just ignore what your friends are saying to you because they don't need to know if you had sex or not. If you promised your dad and yourself why break that promise now. I was 24 when I lost my virginity, not because I made any promises or had a religious beliefs and just never found that right guy. And besides most of the time many would say that they wish they would have never lost there virginity and still would keep it that way. Good Luck!
235129
well i have not have it till now\n\ni am still a virgin
129493
What difference does it make whether she was a virgin or not?  You did it anyway.  You weren't trying to save her in a pristine condition were you?  Get over it.  You don't believe her, don't trust her, then move on...