My brother says he's gay.?
545567
You say there's nothing wrong with being gay. Tell your brother that and then tell him that you think he might be gay because of what he said to your friend. There's nothing like being up front with people for getting an honest answer. You'll just have to trust him to be honest back.\n\nFirst person I came out to was my brother. He had no idea I was gay but everybody knew he was okay with gay people so I trusted him. He didn't betray my trust and he was way cooler about the whole thing than I could have hoped. Good luck with your bro :-)
77200
i dnt think he is gay.ur sister must be cute cuz i actually think he is cute.bt u mite nt c it dat way. besides he cant help being cute. God created him lyk dat.
955772
i dont think hes gay\nb
1144612
Rumor is that he is in fact gay.  I can't deny or confirm;  I haven't slept with him.  Yet.
87485
I think you're secretly attracted to him and are using this question as a way of finding out if it's ok to be gay. If you want to be gay, be gay, just don't brag about it ok? fudge packer.........
621129
poor you, well if he likes you ask him why? if you're not gay tell him. he will get over it some time, i hope!
509908
As long as you don't do anything sexual together, then there is nothing at all wrong with it!\nIt sounds as if you and your brother are good friends, which is a healthy and fantastic thing.\nDon't listen to other people.
619388
Isn't he married?  I always thought he was married.  Of course that doesn't mean anything, but i don't think he is gay.
857612
If I would have to make a assumption I would say he is borderline gay. He's still in the closet and not sure if he wants to come out and make the full transition into the gay world. His brain is probably still racking on the norm of being straight but likes to keep his homosexual desires hushed. Its very common for this type of gayness to occur. My dad's brother my uncle still dose this and he is in his 40's. He even has lesbian friends he poses of as his wife or girlfriend whatever the case may call. Well hey if things don't work out I'm avavlible.
599274
because he is my brother
330836
My brother is gay and he still hasn't told the whole family!  He's told a select few of us, and that's all.  However, he did tell both of our parents.  How he did this:  He took them out to eat and told them plain and simple.  I'm not sure how your family is, but my family is very accepting, and my parents didn't mind so much.  No offense, but if your family is any good - they already have a clue!  So the answer to your question?  The sooner, the better.  Take your folks out to dinner and ask them how best to tell the rest of your family.  Do not be afraid, and know that life goes on, no matter what might happen.  The world will continue turning.\n\nI hope this helps.
935538
a closet straight?  he told you he is bi but more gay than straight.  what's the problem?  you want every person in the world to know he is bisexual in the hopes that no one will sleep with him except you...you sound very immature and jealous/obsessive.
299173
my best guy friend is gay
181546
Well, this is sorta like a question I had but not really. All I could say is just tell them what is going on and try to take it from there. It is a whole different story if the one brother is a man who likes to control.\n    Just try to talk it out with them!\nGOOD LUCK!\n       Tina
509063
It doesn't necessarily mean he's gay.  Thats a very sensitive place for men, maybe he just wants to see what if feels like.
321499
Give him time and space to get over what you told him.\nI'm sure that one day he will return .. as the brother you've always known him to be.
256862
why would you ask if he is gay? he obviously is.