Is premature ejaculation a gift or a curse?
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A gift to the doctor and a curse to the patient!
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Yes.  Precum is a little bit of fluid (that does contain semen) that comes out generally during sex before the guy cums.\n\nPremature ejaculation is when the guy cums much too quickly.. like right at the beginning of sex.\n\nSo the difference is that one comes out before cum, while the other IS cum.
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No.  A male ejaculating is simply sperm going to waste -- not even the posibility of life on its own.  It's when a sperm and an EGG join together that people get all worked up - literally and figuratively.
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It's ejaculation.  I have to agree with you.  I think a man who doesn't give it, will be cheated on too.
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First of all, masturbation is a natural thing. If you OVERDO it all the time, it could be injurious but I don't know of anyone that WAS injured YET. You might be the first.\n\nYou ARE expending energy when you masturbate, however, when you get too tired, you won't be ABLE to.\n\nNow for the LOGICAL part, it WILL affect your sexual life if you feel GUILTY about doing it and have always done it really fast so that you can hide the fact that you are doing it.\nYour sex life can be affected because it creates the 'requirement' in your brain for speed--the quick release, and in normal sexual practice with a partner, instantaneous ejaculation is not desireable.
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i have the same problem and i posted here about it.  they said that it comes with age and some are real shooters and some are not.  but i would definitely like to go back how it used to be.\n\nduring sex, im quite sure that sometimes i ejaculated with a much faster velocity since i can feel it.  few months ago, i was out of town and i have to do it alone, i was so aroused that it shot like it used to.  so i guess, other than age, level of arousal also plays a part.
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I think yours just is a case of Praecox ejaculation.\nIn fact its is any ejaculation that occurs involuntarily during the sexual act and BEFORE the penetration can occur even. Any short time concerning the duration of the sexual act mustn’t confused with the premature ejaculation. In fact, medically the penetration and the ejaculation inside the vagina exclude the problem. \nI don’t know what exactly your problem can be, but since it’s mainly a psychological or mind problem, some specific drug could be taken, but ONLY with the consent of the doctor, while there are some different methods to fight it too. I think it could be a hyper sensibility case too. \nIt’s not the right place here to prolong and I’ll advice you to talk with some specific doctor.
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a curse?   I'm just guessing...
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There’s no diet to get better performance or longer ejaculation!\nYour health must be good, that’s all.\nYou haven’t understood yet that every matter or organ concerning our body is tightly correlated with genetic factors: your penis length, your sperm volume and your duration of the act even.
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Thats not something you can control. Thats why its called a premature ejaculation.\n\nIts normal. I wouldnt worry about it.
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yes i can provide some herbal medicines which are pure, safe and without any side effect. It is Indian Ayurvedic miracale to promote and regenerate sperms. Please give me full details. how have you been suffering from this illness-masturbation or unnatural sex ?give me details at- gunjan.thakru@yahoo.com
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Premature ejaculation is one of the most common sexual dysfunction in men and exact cause of PE is unknown. Premature ejaculation can be cured by practicing relaxation techniques or using distraction methods can also help you in delaying ejaculation. You may practice techniques like Masters and Johnson Method, Simulation Technique or Squeeze Technique to exercise greater control over your performance. In addition, keeping a check over the alcohol intake and illegal drug usage is also helpful.
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I heard one time that it has to do with trust.  No trust= no ejaculation.  I don't know how true this is.
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Hey... I was already helping you thro the prior question!!\nHowever for your case just read:\n\nhttp://www.medscape.com/viewarticle/495107\n\nhttp://www.blackwell-synergy.com/doi/abs/10.1111/j.1743-6109.2005.20369.x\n\nhttp://www.mrsci.com/Sexual-and-Gender-Identity-Disorders/Premature_ejaculation.php\n\n\nThen I hope you choose me as best answers... at least!
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read this article\nhttp://www.edpills.net/article_premature_ejaculation.php\n\nIn fact, there's NO product, exercise, or technique that can stop severe premature ejaculation when used alone. NONE! Severe premature ejaculation is an extremely complex condition the causes of premature ejaculation are both physical and psychological. To cure premature ejaculation requires a combination of products that simultaneously attack and eliminate each cause. Only Last-Longer has a combination of products strong enough to eliminate ALL aspects of both the physical and psychological causes of premature ejaculation.\nQuite often, when a man gains good ejaculatory control, he suddenly becomes much more interested in sex. And even if he doesn't, it might be nicer for both of you if he lasted longer.\n\nDon't tune out your body. TUNE INTO IT. You need to become more familiar with your different levels of sexual arousal. You also need to recognize how you feel as you approach your point of ejaculatory inevitability, the "point of no return." Once you recognize how you feel close to your point of no return, it's not difficult to make small sexual adjustments that allow you to remain highly aroused without ejaculating.\n\nSexual arousal is a four-phase process. In the Excitement Phase, breathing deepens and erection begins. In the Plateau Stage, erection becomes full and you feel highly aroused. When arousal builds to a certain point, the next phase occurs, Orgasm with Ejaculation. Then during the Resolution Phase, breathing returns to normal and erection subsides. The key to ejaculatory control is to extend the Plateau Phase, to maintain arousal without triggering Orgasm and Ejaculation.\n\nTo learn ejaculatory control:\n\n* Don't use drugs or alcohol. They're distracting and they interfere with the self-awareness crucial to learning ejaculatory control.\n* Appreciate whole-body sensuality. Men often think sex happens only in the penis and only during intercourse. That view is a one-way ticket to uncontrolled ejaculation (not to mention erection problems, and women with those proverbial headaches). The best sex involves head-to-toe arousal. Men learning how to approach -- but not arrive at -- their point of no return, need to appreciate whole-body sensuality, the pleasure potential in every square inch of the body. Whole-body sensuality releases tension. Tense bodies that have no other outlet often find release through involuntary ejaculation. But as you learn to appreciate sensual pleasure from head to toe, whole-body arousal takes the pressure off your penis, and you last longer.\n* Whole-body sensuality means relaxation, but the "relaxation" involved in great sex is not the kind that includes an easy chair, a six pack, and Monday Night Football. It's the kind you feel after a hot bath or a good massage. In fact, bathing or showering together before lovemaking can help men relax and appreciate whole-body sensuality -- and last longer.\n* Breathe deeply. One very easy way to stay relaxed while making love is to breathe deeply. The body has a natural tendency to breathe deeply during sex. But many men fight it. They think they should stay in control by not breathing deeply and making the little love-moan sounds that go along with it. But when men work to control their breathing, they often sacrifice ejaculatory control. Try breathing deeply. Let your breath go. Many men are amazed how much this one little change improves their ejaculatory control.\n* Start with masturbation with a dry hand. By varying how you caress your penis, you can learn to stay highly aroused for quite a while without coming. When you feel yourself approaching your point of no return, simply back off a bit, strokestroke yourself more gently or not at all, and stay aroused without ejaculating. Then as you feel yourself getting a little distance from your point of no return, return to more vigorous self-stimulation. Repeat this s
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Well, premature ejaculation are both, phisic and psychological problem. If u are a teen, there is nothing to worry about, but if u have a more than 18, so the problem can come from others things, like stress or depression. Many times when a people suffer stress can happend this. If the problem persist (if u are older) after the stress or the depression pass, check your doctor, it can be a problem in your body not in your mind
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Let's start with a scientific fact.\n\nYour friend is NOT sexually weak or unresponsive because of excessive masturbation.  Extensive (one could almost say excessive) research over the last several decades has clearly shown that masturbation improves sexual capability, and certainly does not damage it (fertility increases in males who frequently masturbate, sperm count goes up, and erections can be maintained longer, giving greater pleasure to partners  -- furthermore frequent masturbation prevents Prostatis and appears to also significantly cut the possibility of Prostate cancer though that last hasn't been replicated enough times in research to be proven yet).\n\nThe best thing you can do to help your friend is to start by disabusing him of the notion that his masturbation is hurting him, it isn't.  That is just a stupid, reactionary, left-over hyper-religious myth.  So get him over it.\n\nThen start exploring the reason for his impotence.  It could be psychological (depression causes impotence frequently, for example).  It could be mild diabetes.  Etc.  It also could be psychological.  Fear and anxiety alone can cause such problems.  It is also possible that he simply has no interest in functioning with women.  He may feel he has to have such interest due to societal pressures, but not have the natural desire.  He may be asexual (almost 1% of males prefer to be) or he may be homosexual.  In neither case is there a problem at all -- it just is what he is, if you are truly his friend, you can also help him get past the societal trash on those issues -- if indeed by happenstance those are the issues.\n\nDo not hesitate to contact me by direct email, or have him contact me by direct email.  I would be glad to listen, to talk, and perhaps to help, if I can.\n\nRegards,\n\nReynolds Jones\nbelieveinyou24@yahoo.com