how do you attact girls?
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You're not a shy guy, but you're not outgoing, either. Okay. I see where you are coming from. You're a "stuck in the middle" kind of guy. Normally, you are probably not nervous, and when a gal starts talking to you, you do not always get sweaty and start ststststuttering. But, you lack the confidence and machismo to just go right up to her and say, "Wow, you're the only good-looking girl that I have seen all day. I'm So-and-So. Mind if I get your number?" and hand over a pen and paper.\n\nYou DO have the right idea, though. It is a clever strategy and worthwhile goal to try to get the women to come up to you, rather than vice versa. But...unless they are practically drooling over you for some reason, like your disarmingly good looks and manly charm, that is not realistically going to happen - am I right?\n\nDepending on the location and situation, there are many different ways to start up the Attraction Game. Building attraction is definitely the most important part of getting anywhere with any woman. You cannot just stroll up to them and say, "Hey, you are like, so totally hot, and I like, like you, you know?" Unless, of course, you can pull it off in a particularly humourous way and get her laughing.\n\nThat's what you need to aim for. Laughter. Do not come across as being outright goofy - just playful. Even the more serious-minded women out there will appreciate a fine sense of humour.\n\nNext time that you see a lovely girl standing around, and you want to talk to her...look at her for a while. People, as you have probably noticed, tend to have a "sixth sense" that just lets them know when they're being watched. She'll probably at least glance over at you. Don't drop your gaze in a panic, though. Instead, smile cheerfully, and - slowly - move your gaze away from her. Don't stop smiling, either. Then glance back at her quickly, and look away again.\n\nWhat's the point of that little exercise? It builds attraction. A lot of our communication as humans is completely nonverbal - it's body language. By looking at her but not freaking out when she looks back, but rather slowly looking away, you're effectively saying: "I'm not a creep, because I am not staring at you. But I AM admiring you."\n\nShe'll probably smile back, or at least her eyes will shine with some degree of recognition. There's your chance. Look at her again - about the same way, just focus on her eyes (always, always, always look into a woman's eyes when greeting or talking with her!) - and stroll right on up to her. Sure - this takes courage. And sure, you are probably worried about being rejected. But don't be. Repeat this mantra through your head: There's no reward without risk.\n\nYou might even become so smooth at this whole thing that she ends up coming over to YOU, wanting to know what is going on. I love it when this happens; it shows me that the lady has some confidence and fire in herself. :)\n\nOnce you get there, say something spontaneous. This could be amusing and playfully-arrogant, like what I mentioned in the beginning of this post. Or, it could be simple and direct: "Hi there. My name is So-and-So. You are?" It sounds crazy, but this is honestly all you have to do. It's that easy. What you have to watch out for here is turning into a wimp - blurting out words randomly without thought, or thinking TOO hard about what to say and therefore saying nothing at all - but remember. You are already there. You've already initiated the conversation, simple as that might have been. Now all that you need to do is keep it up!\n\nAnd just go on from there. Keep a few things in mind if you ask for her number and go on a date:\n\n1. BE CHARMING, but do not become a "girlie-man." *laughs* I mean, don't let her walk all over you or get you sweating and stuttering. Be confident.\n\n2. BE FUNNY, but be mature, t
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Approach her in a diffrent way. Like a romantic way. If you have known her for a while she will be srait with you and tell you how she feels. Us chicks are sensitive like that.
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I have girls to talk to?\nI have IM
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How about being geniune first and foremost, cos girls well most can suss out phoney's who are after only one thing...\n\nStarting a conversation is a start without being crude, asking her questions whilst listening about herself and dislikes ,likes etc..\nThen some info about what you like to do etc is a start....
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Try this: \n\n1. Start with your interests/sports and invite her there (say, bowling alleys, swimming pools, etc.)\n2. Carry yourself modestly. Don't overdo it. \n3. A well behaved men sometimes attract women (i think).\n4. Invite her to parties for singles.\n5. Ask her friends what her favorite food is and invite her to YOUR house for dinner.\n6. don't go to the bars (it's risky).\n7. If you are good to one girl , this will be passed around in a jiffy. And you will meet more girls...for you to choose from.\n\nALL THE BEST.
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Just be casual. order something and try to have a light sense of humor while trying to make conversation. go easy at first..keep going in to order stuff and keep making conversation. girls like shy and sense of humor but be shy about it..u know..look cute..she will get the hint eventually..after u feel comfotable ask to have lunch or a cup of coffee w/ you....hey, let me know if it works..just remember don't be caulky like "i'm all that" girls hate that but don't be to shy either..be cute,sexy shy..
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ok heres what you do find one friend who has the same problem you do and hang out with him when he talks to a girl watch him and make a mental note of what he does wrong (watch the body language) but most of all if you find a girl that your into TELL HER the worst thing she can do is say that she isnt interested (and belive me thats gonna happen alot in life) but dont give up just move on to the next one and try again. its not hard all you have to do is strike up a conversation with her and after a few mins just say "ya know, i really like you" and then tell her why (so she doesnt think your full of @#$%) ie. your really funny or fun to be around and if shes cute tell her that just be honest. but dont get all upset if it doesnt work out THERE ARE MORE GIRLS OUT THERE. just take your time and relax when you talk to a girl they are ppl just like us. and they can smell bull@#$$% a mile away.
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1.   Know what type of girl you're looking for. Make a list of traits that appeal to you, such as intelligence, looks, ambition, sense of humor, or respect for other people's feelings.  \n  \n2.   Resolve old hurts and disappointments. Make sure you're ready for a new relationship by setting aside any grievances about old girlfriends.  \n  \n3.   Attract the type of girl you're looking for by emphasizing your best features and downplaying undesirable traits. Make the most of what you have, both physically and mentally.  \n  \n4.   Learn how to make a girl feel good about herself by taking an interest in her life and her aspirations.  \n  \n5.   Consider any unattached girls at your school or work. Do any of them match the qualities that you want in a girlfriend?  \n  \n6.   Get involved in activities that you enjoy to give yourself the chance to meet new girls. Expand your horizons and your circle of friends.  \n  \n7.   If you have your eye on a certain girl, let mutual friends know about your interest in her. Ask someone you trust to discreetly tell her about your interest.  \n  \n8.   If you don't have the nerve to directly approach a girl who has caught your eye, consider being her secret admirer for a while. Send her sweet, anonymous messages or notes (with a few subtle clues about your identity) to let her know about your interest in her.
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Go To A Track And Start Running Then You Will Meet A Girl Then Ask Her To Go Tracking Another Day Or ask Her Out
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Well just say hi and start from there don't say yo girl cause that will make her think well if u don't have the time and sit down and ask her , her name then u are just a Little boy..just be yourself but think so much ok just let your mind go.
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wow, your quite a jerk\n\njust remember, there was probably a girl you liked that was upset everytime you tried to talk to her becuase she didnt like something about you.\n\nbe nice to the girl.  ugly or not...girls have friends.  and friends talk.\n\noh, and by the way.  her beautiful friend may stop by one day and ask about you.  do you want her to say that your a jerk or that your such a nice guy...let me introduce you
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be aggressive, B-E aggressive. Don't flirt with everyone, or else they will think you are a whore. And for gods sakes, buy a guy a drink every once in a while. Why are we afraid to talk to girls?  Maybe it's because we know we are going to pay $10 for your drink, and then get a fake phone number.
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Well, you need to get past this 'shyness' 'cause otherwise, you'll be stuck alone...for...quite some time. Unless some girl decides to talk to you first...but usually girls depend on guys to make the first move. Just take up the courage and (if you have someone in mind) go up and talk to her. CASUAL CONVERSATION, not some stupid pick up line...like...if you were a cardoor i'd bang you all night....of course, that's exaggerated. Don't annoy her though...cause that would be bad. Just have some casual conversation and see if she talks back to you and see how it goes. Also, with some girls, you can tell that they like you when they laugh at your stupid (really really really stupid) jokes and no one else is laughing. ALso, if they seek you out in a group, that could mean something.
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Go to dating sites. I'm sure you'll find girls interested in you,
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talk and associate with them... or eye contact (a mini skirt can work just as well:P)
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Practice strike up a conversation with girls you do not know but are not necessarily the most attractive to you. Watch them stumble that will help you released you are not alone, help them when they stumble this will help you gain confidence for your own game.\n\n Good luck man remember pretty women have the same problem as you, sometimes both sides are equally interested but both players are bad at the game and personal insecurities make each party feel that they are at fault and the conversation fizzles.\n\n Avoid these phrases at all cost:\n  Nice day today.\n  Man this place is busy\n Have you been hear before?\n  Are you here with friends\n   *** The problem with any conversation starter like the above is it is easily answered with one word. Give her something to work with.  It is way too hard to recover from a Yes and No conversation its mechanical, no way to find common interests.
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ask them questions.........ask them to help you out in anyway........ask to help them in anyways...........ask about their hair or clothing............make up excuses to communicate with them........are you really really shy? start by simply saying "Hello" to them as they pass you by as you walk..........very casual........make yourself comfortable with saying "Hello" to them. All of them! Say "Hello" to any woman......then when you feel comfortable with this add a simple question such as "Excuse me, do you know what time it is?" or "Pardon me, where is the nearest public telephone" As you have more experiences with women you will feel more comfortable approaching and talking to women you find attractive.