why is it when you have your 1st boyfiend you fell wierd and feel like breaking up with him !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
551524
bcuz he's ur first and there are other ppl out there!
152282
I know how u feel...i'm having hte same problems. but i had to cut it off with the guy that i dind't like as much... u need to do that now, better to hurt now than hurt much more later...
836730
I know what you mean that happens....i think your not really over him yet even though you think to your self that you are....i use to think like you, but i know inside that i still like him alot and i can't stand it when some other girls is all over him...don't know why you are feeling that way but that how i felt...\n\nif i where you i'll tell him my feelings and maybe you and him can continue your relationship that you left off....if you want to talk more personal then IM or email me ok
221736
girl this has just happened to me and you shouldn't feel guilty. i felt guilty but i really should have. Why don't you try talking to them or telling your friend thats here if he really likes you he will wait until you're sure. and the long distance relationship i was in i cheated on him and i felt so guilty i told him about it and we broke up. Maybe you should ask him to take a brake and set up a date you will become bf/gf on that specific date. That will show you if you know what you have or not. Maybe this will help and maybe it won't but this is what i would do if i relieved this.
511510
I was soooooo in love with my boyfriend about 3 years back.  We'd been together for a and a year later I found out he had another girlfriend, longer than me.  Now I've become very sceptical of men, even though my BF now is the sweetest!  I was soooo hurt the day I f9ound out that I pinched myself to see if I was in a nightmare.  When I got home, shook myself to sleep.  That hurt a lot!!!  What about you?
861002
you two have been developed a mutual understanding which more likely you both feels the feeling of a couple or bf&gf. becuase you've been start as a very good friend and probably a best friend but you didn't realise that you have developed a relationship already through mutual understanding. but you both will feel awkward of your real feelings as you still thought that you are just friend and nothing else but behind there's already a special feeling that been developed. There's a possibility as well that one of you scared to feel this special feeling otherwise your relation as a friend will be broken, but i'm pretty sure there's a LOVE hanging in the air already between the 2 of you. sometimes denying of the real feeling make things confused and weird..wish you luck!
1167249
He sounds immature.  Ask yourself if you  are better off with him or without him.  Sounds to me like without would be the way to go.\n\nI just ended a 7 year relationship - so don't feel alone in this.  I feel sad at times but am getting my life back together without his head games and am feeling at peace\n\nGood luck
37259
Well, it seems like you really have a dilemia on your hands, since your earlier questions indicate you may be pregnant as well, and feel like you are too young for all of this grown up stuff.\n\nMy suggestion to you?.. Take a break, slow down, figure out what you do want in life that will give you satisfaction, and trust me when I say, this boy is not it.  Any one who cheats with you isn't worthy of your love, your trust, or your dignity.  And you may think he is worthy until he leaves you for another the exact way he is cheating on the person he's committed to with you, then you'll be back on here asking us how to get over him.\n\nYou don't LOVE him, you are infatuated with him, you think he's the coolest person you've ever met, SO GET OUT THERE AND MEET MORE PEOPLE, because if this guy is the best there is for you, then you haven't met enough people to have a good comparison, there are plenty of guys that don't cheat that you could have for your own.\n\nI will never understand anyone willing to share their man with another.. and still think that's LOVE..??
379384
yes, because you will start to want to feel that way and he isn't doing it for you. you wont be happy and you will either leave ir cheat or be miserable. not fair to either of you.
665332
Because you still have feelings even though you don't want to admit it. Also, jumping into another relationship right away will not be good for you or the other person. Take time to sort your feelings out, and when you are ready, you will not feel like that.
878460
Smart girl, you have handled that poking incident very well. It was a harmless prank that some boys play to amuse themselves as well as others.\n\nHe is sort of feeling sore being ditched by others. And who doesn’t? I think he still has a liking for you; didn’t he betray himself by blushing (turn red as you put it)?\n\nPlus the fact that you now have a new boyfriend, it is indeed complicated for him. I sure hope that your friends don’t tease him too much, have mercy. Haha.
628179
Because that is a part of life. Don't worry it will get better but after a break unless you aren't a feeling person at all you are going to feel bad!! I remember how it was it sucks! But there will be more guys and hopefully better guys that will treat you better!!  Sorry girl if you need to talk email me at jreneeh251981@yahoo.com
890282
maybe you are afraid to let him know how you feel. since this is your first bf you probably don't know how to express your true feelings. just hang in there and things will come to you..when it feels right deep inside the words will come out..
295785
this is normal, good thing that you know you do still love each other because you will not always feel all lovey dovey with anyone no matter what. when i start feeling like this i try to remember all the times in the relationship when i did feel in love, think of all the great stuff that you have done together, think of all the times he's been there for you, and hey you guys are still dating, so there is more.  i don't know but someday you might want to get married and have a family eventually.  because you have been together that long, try to still go out together like you did when you were first dating.  it makes a huge difference.  talk about your early relationship with him so you can remember some of the hot stuff together.  relationships are alot more than sex.  focus on really being really good friends, too.  that's what worked for me.  hope it helps for you!!!!!  (:
52558
Yep... kinda makes you wonder why you broke up with him???
541077
I dont think its wierd at all...Im actually in that position in my life right now.....Ive been through some of the worst relationships ever and at this point in my life i am very happy bieng single, but still want the physical active part from a guy....that may be why most of my friends are guys....I still like the cuddling and the hugging and the other stuff, but dont want anything serious......I dont think its wrong at all....you do whats best for you and if you feel you dont want to be in a committed relationship, no one should make you feel bad for that.
666847
You feel jealous because you now know that you can't have him anymore. From what you've said in your question it sounds like you broke up with him more than once and could decide weather to take him back or not, the decision was yours. Now however you do not have any choice in the matter (this is all subconscious of course i know you would not make the conscious choice of accepting him back) and it bugs you. I've found that the one sure way of making a girl want something is to make it known that she cant have it. Basic psychology. By realizing this you may be able to understand why you feel jealous.