How come people moan when they are having sex?
538225
Its hurts and feels good at the same time (for girls). But what we are really trying to do is downplay our animalistic urges (AND not disturb anyone) so its comes out as a pathetic moan. I say scream sing dance  make the most noise you can.
641984
Really if a person doesn't listened to their partner then to me they are only out to please themselves. I think most people know that.
973252
Wow that's different.....I've heard of people doing dirty chatting while they are having sex but not having conversations about other people..  Usually the talk is, if there is any at all , is about how good it is making us feel..................
669715
ITS HAVING SEX IN THE SHOWER OR FOOLING AROUND IN IT!!! there i said it, now everybody shut up about it.
856707
It's either one or the other- either they aren't aware of how much the noise carries, or they're doing it on purpose.\n\nIf they aren't aware, the best solution is an anonymous note, so they aren't embarrassed.  Short & simple- "perhaps you aren't aware of how well sound carries here- I don't really know you well enough to be this involved in your love life, do you mind keeping it down?"\n\nIf they ARE aware, then the note won't make a difference.  Time then to break out the broom, and bang louder than they do.  Off-rhythm, of course!
610177
yeah....its gross\nwell my husband is worst of all\nhe make moaning noises when he eats after not eating in a while..it sickens me...is the food that much a turn on that he has to make sex sounds while eating?!..i don't even think that he is aware that he is doing this..i should video tape him!! hidden camera style..then maybe he will get the hint!!! then he'll be more conscience -when he eats- of the sounds that he makes..which should be NONE!!
654368
Yes. A bunch of chavs singing about being cheap. 'My Humps' - ?????? wtf? someone said it was empowering. What crap, its telling girls that its okay to be a c*ck-tease. It offends me and I'm female. Yes they are lame. Put simply.
1126052
Because you usually think with your own voice and your  subconcience will change the tone or sound to justify words said. So you can accept the statement as coming from someone else but yet yourself. For instance if you never think about sex and all of a sudden you see a person you think is hot then more than likely you will hear the voice of someone else in your head saying" Dang he/she is fine" and you agree with yourself to reasure you weren't the only one thinking that. Learning to control it is very hard but possible
246629
What is "dirty" anyway??  Talking is not essential, but certainly welcome during lovemaking.  I know it sure works for me.  Of course grunts, groans and moaning are acceptable as well.
516172
Can you specify what you actually mean? \n\nI am a very big fan in anime and based on the ones you are watching, I have to tell you that it is just to make a better effect. I do hope you are not referring to hentai, but if you mean the moans and groans in the every day anime that are currently being watched, then I believe that it is because the Japanese companies want to make those sounds on purpose.\n\nThe characters' personalities would also be a reason behind these moans and groans as well. \n\nI have to contradict to a previous person, but anime is not a waste of time if you watch to understand the morals and understandings of life circumstances. I give my regards to the Japanese and their creative minds in making these wondrous animation shows. Some do not simply watch to just enjoy, but to understand the lessons in life as well.
662113
I do enjoy it when my wife is vocal. When she is having an orgasm sometimes she just can't help it! I enjoy that, other times she is a bit more restrained. Some times when I am about to orgasm she can talk very dirty and I must admit, this is incredible!\nNext time DH makes a comment, tell him how lucky he is!
367840
we'd be confused, not knowing if they are enjoying it or not. in our minds, a girl crying during sex is not a good thing.
589293
It does smell funny, and it involves a dangerous amount of fluid exchange, not to mention the swallowing of vast quantities of other people's saliva and bacteria. It does people feel dirty if they're not in the mood for it.  And we have some freakish cultural obsession with keeping everyone innocent.  But personally I think people who are disgusted by sex are mentally retarded and should not be listened to.  We're talking mainly about immature women and religious men.  But these people are extremely selfish, they like to get attention by making a scene, and they never shut up.
1117702
I've been known to get pretty loud during sex....not fake,just...the better the better the sex,the louder I get.Once I made so much noise the neighbour came to check on me,he thought there was something wrong...
679877
People enjoy pleasure and since sex is pleasurable they like it.  Some like the power over pleasing another, while others just enjoy the receiving of pleasure.  Some love the rush of an orgasm, which is addictive like a drug and u seek it out each time you have sex.  I love sex because it is primal, passionate, hot, raunchy, nasty, fun, exciting, sometimes wrong, pleasurable with hints of pleasurable pain.  I love you sex!
1149443
Frankly, a lot of women find that they are too sensitive after their orgasm and would rather have the attention devoted elsewhere (breasts, neck, lips if she's not squeamish, etc...).  Normally, if I want the guy to continue after I've come, I TELL HIM!
316249
He sounds a bit like a whiner outside of the bedroom. Some people just like to be quiet during sex, so maybe that's his thing. Or maybe he's just not that into you.