Should i  love this guy i had relations for 2 years even if he said he cares but dosent want to be with me?
547555
This guy is playing with your feelings. He's just keeping you on the line so that he's always got a soft place to fall. Make like a tree and leave. Two years is a long time to invest your feelings in someone who doesn't want a relationship. Tell him you don't have time to waste on waiting for him to make up his mind. I think he's already made up his mind and likes the way things are. You don't know how many other gals he's playing this sorry tune with either. He's got what he wants. I would suggest that you stop giving him what he wants and tell him you're not playing anymore. <*)))><
330356
I'm in the middle. You do have to think about your future and your goals. But then he is your love. If you say that you know your gonna end up with each other, then don't worry, things will work out at the end for both of you. Plus, if  you say he loves you then he'll want you to be happy no matter what decision you choose.
273750
"I won't let you leave"? That sounds a rather possessive. You should watch out for this guy. It doesn't sound like you got to know one another very well so I doubt if he came back in 2 years you two would suddenly know all about one another. Perhaps you should move on and look for someone you can get to know better before making lifelong decisions.
397524
Ah...this is an age-old question. Not an easy answer on this either. Does he feel the same way about you? Would you be willing to give up all that you have to be with him, knowing you can't go back if things fall apart? I know I'm not answering your question but giving you more questions. This is something you have to follow in your heart.
604266
i think you should wait til you have been with him for at least 2 months!! good luck babe!!
142561
He probably feels reluctant about getting his feelings to involved, cause he thinks that you might patch things up with your ex,the best thing to do is let him know that you care and that you dont have time for silly games and that you want to to be in a meaningful realationship.
33602
I would be honest with him. The longer it goes ther harder it will be. Only seeing you 1 or 2 times a year is kind of odd for someone who claims they care so much for you. Just be honest, who knows, you both might feel the same way, but are scared of what the other will say.
546727
OOOOOO this sounds like unrequited love and that's not good especially when you're the one that's doing the caring! Look, if the feeling is not mutual then you need to stop before your feelings grow any more. The best thing for you to do is nip it in the bud.
258521
Everything you said is not important if you two like each other.  Two years difference it's not a lot and if you like each other, who cares?  Talk to your friend if you like to get his/her blessing, if that'll make you feel better, but it's something that they guy and you should decide.  Good Luck
539960
He might be going through something he doesn't want you to know about. Just support him and be cool. Nothing's serious enough to throw two years away over.
555592
Yes he should consider how you feel.  Break away for now and maybe in a few months or years you 2 can become friends.  You want someone to treat you with kindness and respect and do not take anything less.  Good luck.
781390
Wow,first off,if you have been dating for over 2 years..you're doing a fine job to me. Secondly,don't worry about "keeping him interested" because in all honesty,you will focus more on keeping him around,and forget about why you love him,and why he loves you..and end up hurting the relationship. Just relax,and realize he has stayed with you the past two years of HIS life,when he had the chance to break up with you. Enjoy his love,and just continue to love him back. I wish you the best of luck,and hope nothing but the best for the both of you!
1104948
Bottom line.... do you love him? Does he love you? Then go for it. There is no secret formula to know if this is the man you were fated to be with or not. In this world, you get love, you cherish it, you don't know when it will come around again. So go for it and don't worry so much.
656283
That depends entirely on how your relationship with him. Whats sort of committment are you talkin about. If i were in your place i would go on and achieve what i wanted to, if they guy loves me he would wait.
170243
after 2 weeks, true love seems a bit of a stretch to me.  Especially since you haven't met him in person yet.  He sounds very nice, so I say go for it.  Just make sure that you meet him in a very public place and be safe.  Good Luck!
1030913
You need to be happy too. If he can't respect your wishes to wait until you're ready, then he doesn't have your best interests at heart. Wait until YOU are ready to do these things. If he treats you badly or leaves you because of it, then good riddance to him! Guys like that aren't worth your time and there are plenty of them that will wait and respect your wishes.
780296
To be truthful only time will tell. If you care about each other then I'm sure it will work out. Don't look at all the negatives then you start doubting the relationship. Just look at the positives...at least you guys will see each every two weeks.