What would you do if your fiance had sparkles in his eyes when he looked at a very attractive lady?
543918
I would poke his eyes out and use it as a golf ball
90641
don't worry about it! i'm a guy and just got married with gf i've been dating for 3 years. i look at girls alot, even with her... its not a serious issue. i love my wife, and likewise, but this issue is not gonna change the bond we have. we sometimes discuss how the girl dress and stuff... its kinda fun talking about it... trying to find who's the hottest girl in the mall... maybe u should open up more and he might feel alot more comfortable going out with u.
699438
Of course not. Don't let his shallow views taint your mind. You're a beautiful woman.
980432
Tell him you're feeling like he could be interested in someone else.  He'll either 'fess up, or do everything under the sun to reassure you that he would never even dream of glancing at another woman.  Either way, trust your instincts.
298855
He may find these women exotic but it does not mean he'll leave you for one.  I see a lot of gorgeous women that I am attracted to but it doesn't mean I'm going to leave my wife for one of them.  It also means I would never settle down with one.  There are qualities about my wife that I found to be more suitable to spend the rest of my life with.  Men are very simple creatures.  After they have sex, sex is off their mind and what's left is reality, a woman you love for her being her or the woman you're done with.  The fact he's with you says he loves you for being you.  What is in question here is his respect for you.  Talk to him about it.
729651
Any man that will make it BLATANTLY OBVIOUS that he is visually interested in other women and then blame it on your jealousy are either 1) ignorant or 2) oblivious to your feelings. Both of which are NOT desirable traits in a partner...When you're with someone, you're with them because something about them made THEM in particular special. Not because they were like every other "mary, jane and suzy" in every corner bar. If his eyes are roving, his hands may find their way there too...If you feel like you cant trust him, the seed of distrust has already been planted. And no relationship can survive, much less flourish and grow, if there is no trust. Although men use the excuse that they're visual creatures and they're only "window shopping" and as long as "they dont touch, its ok" that is a load of sh*t to justify their shortcomings...You obviously know you're attractive. Use that to your advantage, stop wasting time with someone who has eyes for more than just you and find you a mind that will see you for who you really are and not be constantly looking over YOUR shoulder for his next piece....GOOD LUCK, they ARE out there!!!!
562965
Make it as romantic as possible.  Every guy in their thirties or so need to know that they are still sexy to their mate.  Make him feel like he's the world to you.  Buy yourself a sexy outfit that makes him say "WOW I'm w/ her!".  Pamper him and make him #1 for the day/night!  Hope you have the time of your lives!
1105237
You should drop hints if you don't feel comfortable.  It's June so I'm sure they have diamond ring commercials on tv, and in circulars, and if you go to the mall together you  could "casually" draw his attention to the "shinies" that you most admire.  But it's a diamond and diamond's are a girls best friend so I'm sure you will love that bling as much as you love him!
310382
i think you need to look beyond the outer beauty, and see the wonderful woman she is inside. thats where true love blossoms from. :]
376355
Tell him how you feel. Straight and clear. I see nothing wrong with testing a persons engagement. Imagine if he cant pass the test in marriage!
994044
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder
258936
Hell yeah! been there done that, Married him.=)The fact that you love aperson withou even seen her/him means you have fallen for this person´s way of mind his toughts, ideas, for what he really is (of course counting on the fact he is honest)this goes beyong physical attraction. I fell for my hubby without even seing a single pic of him and traveled from america to Europe to meet him I guess I had Luck cuz I happened to like to what I saw but anyway my mind was set to meet the guy I loved and would certainly love no minding if he was fat , short ...LOL my whole family and friends told me I was crazy....;)\n\nPs. When 2 ppl meet face to face one does everything to impress the other person and some even pretend to be what they are not so with time it comes to an end, by chatting some people can really open and express what they really are , anyway as i said above counting on the fact this person is honest and serious.
621722
Hormones, dude ! When a healthy male sees an attractive female, his hormones immediately activate. HOORAY ! Take all those wonderful hormones home to your wife. I hope she appreciates them . Good luck !
594771
I would sit down and take an objective analysis.  If he doesn't move you the way he once did, I wouldn't head down to the jewelers to try on that engagement ring immediately.  I am a complete romantic, and I believe that someone should move your heart completely, and the one that is for you, will.  Try and be fair though, while you're thinking of all the little things he did for you once and doesn't do much anymore, do you do the little things to please him still?  If you want to be with him as a wife, you should talk to him, very honestly and openly, about all the possibilities, including ya'll not getting married.  He should know what's going on instead of being put on trial without a defense.  I hope that everything works out for you both.
271874
I wish! His first wife Greta was really beautiful and his second wife was a model so, I assume she is beautiful too. Maybe he should consider going for somenone who is ordinary but who will know how to love him the way he deserves because I think he's wonderful. I would love to be the one for him.
89842
Tell her that she's beautiful. Make her laugh. Laughter is the best medicine. Take he out to a movie. Make her feel like a queen.
362932
Finding someone attractive does not me u are not ready for marriage. Lk into your heart and see if your fiance and marriage is what u want in life right now