What should you do if people at work piss you off so bad you start turning red in the face and are ready to?
546745
Consider a career change;  barring that, examine WHY you are becoming so angry.  Practice deep breathing to achieve a relaxed state while NOT angry and once you can achieve it on a regular basis, begin using deep breathing to manage your anger and stress levels.
550527
Go for a walk and just have time on your own.  Talk to yourself about what got you so pissed off, what you should have said, what you are going to say, but without screaming or yelling so they could know that you really mean it and that you are not just talking because you are mad.....  I think that is the best as it will prevent you from getting physical with the person who caused you to get the way that you are and you will avoid saying something that you will or may regret....
220576
think about when somebody makes you mad.  what do you want that person to do? apologize? give you space? comfort you? what? i suggest that you try what ever would work on you.  use your own judgment.
329427
Rise above it. If she deliberately embarasses you, then she is the problem. Do your work well and professionally. Talk with her and inform her that you would prefer to be told about your mistakes in private so that you could remedy them. Always be professional and job oriented. Bosses hate office politics....Document all incidents that are caused by her, if it continues over a period of time approach the person over both of you. If you are doing your work well, it will show.  If she is the boss, get out now while you still have some self esteem.  Good luck.  Be proactive, not reactive.
533922
IF this person is your equal or subordinate, cheerfully say, 'I really have to get going right now, but I'll have that for you first thing Monday morning.' If they say they REALLY need it now, explaint that you're sorry (as you're walking out the door), but that you dont have time, and that they really need to ask you earlier in the day on Fridays (so that this wont happen again in the future).  \n\nWow, your coworkers are rude!  You could wind up in the office all night!
1080816
Completely blank your mind.  you need to stop thinking about it.  When you go in an ability to listen and then react will make you look cool headed, responsive and attentive and this will always win the day even when you have done wrong.  Always apologise for any wrongdoing and give reasons why.  SMILE lots,  we have neurons that trigger a similar feeling to what someone els is doing so if you smile they will feel relaxed and happier inside.\n\nUnless you have killed a coworker you sould be OK.\nJust remember calm.  Keep a clear head and stand your ground in a polite way, don't be swayed into argument as arguments are counter productive and thgey can always fire you so they will always win.\n\nI would love to know what you have done as I could give better advice
469866
Don´t Cry people are so rude and mad  they thing that getting even with you would take all the rage and and anger out of their system, what you have to explain to this persons that you are just an employee and that you are just doing your job, that being rude won´t solve the problem and if they have any complaints to write a letter to the costumer service office, and if they are calm you can both get a solution to the problem, never argue with them and tell them that they are always right. Its just a customer and they would leave and you will have to deal with thousands of people like them because jobs are always demanding an extra effort and if you have questions ask your supervisor or host.
798891
Yes, I am sure most people have experienced a rude person before, but someone at work should have a bit more self control. After all, they are going to see you again tomorrow aren't they?\n\nRude remarks like this are unwelcome to everyone, even those who think they are "tougher" or "quicker to respond" than everyone else. If it hurts you or insults you, then the last thing that you want to do is join in to the silliness. You are too smart and too classy to start acting rude just to "get even".\n\nBesides, when you act classier than everyone else, they hold you in higher regard. That high level of admiration will leave them down below in the dust, when you get promoted or receive a bonus for your positive attitude and professionalism.\n\nPlease don't stoop to their low level of trash talk, you have a future in front of you that requires your integrity and credibility to shine!
349012
I think this situation would be difficult for most everybody.  You're probably right about resigning quickly.  You might just end up with another bad job out of desperation.  \n\nYour boss screams and shouts because deep down he (I'll assume it's a he) feels powerless and needs to be aggressive to get his way.  Try to remember that he does this out of weakness and not strength.  Genuinely strong people don't need to act this way.  If you can view it as his problem then you won't take it as personally.\n\nTry to document all that happens that is inappropriate: words said, body posture, tone of voice, etc.  Keep dates, times, locations, etc.  In case things go badly you can have this documentation to back you up.  Your boss probably isn't doing this so your case would be stronger.\n\nAcknowledge what your boss says but ask that he say it in a more polite manner.  You may have to keep reminding him of this one :)  If you're able to stand up to him in a firm, yet nonconfrontational way my guess is he would change.  Bullies respect strength.\n\nIf nothing changes, count it as a character building experience and move on!  Hope that helps.
274057
JUST SLAP THEM IN THE FACE
220933
You tell him that he needs to stop treating you badly or you will file a complaint with the state for creating a hostile work environment, which is a form of harrasment.
787386
Nobody likes it and you can put a stop to it. Here is the deal, people will treat you exactly how you allow them to treat you. That is the top and bottom of it. Let these managers know what you will and Will not tolerate. If something bothers you that they have said or done, let them know in a calm as possible manner exactly how they have made you feel, right at the moment they do it. And, make sure you are looking them directly in the eye. Do not let anyone let you feel belittled. If you can take charge of what you will and will not tolerate, you will earn some well deserved respect. Also remember, everybody has a boss..let your hiring managers know that you know that.
1009339
Yes.  First steps is to ask the person to "stop" (this puts them on notice that their behavior is unacceptable).  If you've done this already - great.  Next if it continues, report the request for it to stop.  Next go to your manager and report it.  Go to HR and report it. Find out what steps you have to take to officially file a complaint with your company.  A work environment should NEVER be hostile, EVER!  Good Luck to you.
936991
I agree that people are really too rude. I deal with the public at work, and people talk to me in ways they would never even talk to their worst enemies. I think a lot of it has to do with stress and frustration -- everyone thinks they're problem is the most important, most pressing in the world. And it is, to them. Just remember that no matter how rude other people are to you, the best thing you can do is dose them with kindness. Smile, speak softly and let them know that no matter what kind of crap they're dealing with, it's really not your fault.
1108904
Unless it is extremely over the top or all the time let it go.  You are at work and you need to leave your feelings at home.  People do things intentionally all the time that step on other peoples toes.  You just have to let it slide.  Save your feelings for your personal life.  Maybe your boss was just having a bad day or you pushed one of his buttons(we all have them).  If that is the case you could just make the situation worse, and if your boss is a jerk he really won't give a flying flip that your feelings were hurt.  Remember he, or maybe she, is the boss and you will be the one to lose a conflict and are more replaceable than someone higher up on the food chain.\nOh and if you boss is a jerk start looking for another job.
562609
Stand up to them and refuse to be bossed over. Most of the times these bossy goons get scared as soon as you confront them.\nThe worst scenerio is that you may loose the job and u r contemplating that anyway. So if you hae to go out , go with a bang and not with a whimper.\nIt might help to do a bit of lobbying beforehand to make sure you have support from your colleagues.\n\nAs Votaire said, "Of course u can kill a flock of sheep by chanting incantations, but there won't be any doubt if you feed a bit of poison beforehand."
55670
Punch them before they know what happens! Then tell them when they stand up that you thought they were someone else!