A guy makes me feel like crap, is it worth leaving?
537300
It always hurts me when I see people breaking up...If they were no match why did they embark on their friendship in the first place...Was the guy being nice and suddenly changes?If he was being nice before and suddenly changes..The reason for this change might be because he found out that your friend is head over heels in love with him and as a result he feels he can treat her the way he wants....Tell your friend to try and make things right with him...Let her have a heart to heart talk with him...If he's not forthcoming.then let her leave him...There are a billion other responsible guys outside afterall....
485763
that's kind of hard, he might still b upset with u 4 leaving him, my advice spend some time with him and c how he acts, if the vibe is good then try flirting with him a lil, but i think the best thing 2 do is let him know how u feel, tell him your sorry 4 what happened and that u were going through a ruff period.
662062
wow he sounds like a real ass.  please find another guy to like, who will treat you nicely and how you should be treated (instead of being USED by the guy you "love")
903910
Don't put up with it.  If he really liked you, he wouldn't want you to feel like you do right now, and he wouldn't be dumping you.  I realize you like this guy, and this isn't the advice you wanted, but it's true.  If you let him act like this, and then you two get back together, he'll just break your heart.
772227
The guy is a control freak. I have been in similar situations myself. good for you for trying to break free get councelling but please realise it may take years to undo all the psychological damage he has caused you.\n\nYou can only truly break free with professional councelling so please do that for me because i know what it's like.\n\nGood luck, you deserve happiness. :-)
550745
He's NOT worth your time.. Move on to someone else.. He's just playing w/ your emotion..
434545
To change your I.D. you're only changing your contact name. If he knows any of your questions though I believe he could find your Q & A page from that. Are you sure you are really over this guy? Even when someone is as mean as he was to you, that does not necessarily mean that your feelings just end there. Please try to believe in yourself and know that you are a worthy person and do not deserve being **** on by him. There's too many nice guys out there that will treat you with the respect that you deserve. Just think, summer is coming and you can start a whole new adventure with someone new. I know right now you probably feel like you don't want to see anyone else, but please trust me, that will change. Good Luck and hope you feel better.  Di
253128
Well if he hits you. you shouldn't even need to ask this question you should have respect for yourself and leave him, I know its hard for you but its not healthy for you. Once you get away you will be better off
607851
Well i would let him go!! there is better guys out there for you.
408217
Sounds like he is stringing you along.  Leave him and quick.
331542
If you think he is worth it, sit him down and explain the situation, always use a lot of feel statements.  It should go something like this, "When you get really angry it makes me feel like I'm being attacked.  I feel like that isn't right or fair to me."  Feel statements help you address the issue without placing blame and agitating him further.  If he agrees to work on it, then you guys have a chance to make it, if not, I would get rid of him.  Oh, and if he ever lays a hand on you, get out of there!  Or if you think he is going to, don't give him the chance.  No man is worth that!!!
437152
Yes, it's probably true.  Stop making him feel like crap by asking him to take you out.  Find things you can enjoy that don't cost a lot or crack open your own wallet to pay for the 2 of you.  Men arent' just meal tickets.
963948
Forgive yourself for an error in judgment and focus on what would be in your best interest at this point.  The guy satisfied his sexual curiousity and can't let go of a minor offense (i.e., hanging up on him).  A guy like this will only hold you back.....walk away now and you'll be proud of yourself for putting your own needs first.  You will gain strength as time moves on.  It's just a matter of developing the resolve to stick to your guns; as you meet new people and start to date new guys, this memory will fade.  Trust your own instincts and move on.  Good Luck
152282
I know how u feel...i'm having hte same problems. but i had to cut it off with the guy that i dind't like as much... u need to do that now, better to hurt now than hurt much more later...
415576
ya hes a total jacka** and its completely up to u to decide if u wanna do that or not. you will find a guy way better than him :-D cheer up pretty lady
956141
I think you should go with your gut feeling. If you don't feel like hooking up with him yet then don't do it. Your friends already warned you that he could be a player and its nothing more hurtful then giving in to temptation and then getting your feeling hurt. I think you should talk to the guy and tell him how you feel about the situation and if he doesn't understand where you're coming from then its obviously that he's not the right guy for you. And to answer your other question about if he grabs you after you tell him no....then he doesn't respect you and you should move on.
415518
YOU NEED TO LEAVE ASAP, HE IS FULL OF CRAP.  IT MAY HAVE STARTED OUT AS INNOCENT TALK BUT YOU CAN ALMOST BET THAT HE HAS GONE FARTHER WITH IT.  GOOD LUCK