Do I  really have feelings for him?
539939
The worst thing yo could do is sleep with a guy that you want to keep as a friend. Once you sleep with us its no turning back to friendship.
1031126
I had that problem but it turned out that inside i really had feelings for him. If you really love this guy then stay with him. If you dont then tell him the truth. I would think if you like him but know he is not for you then stay with him i would. Go with your heart and inside you to make your desition.\n\nGOOD LUCK
1027813
Trust your feelings and if you believe that you guys are connected in some special way, then yes you're cosmically connected with him. Its all in what you believe.
173393
Love is something about feelings. Do you have the love feelings on him? Or do you think there is space for both of you to build up a new relationship? Just ask yourself, how you feel towards him.
181355
If you haven't met this guy yet, you could just be in love with the fantasy of him. It's okay to let him know that you think about him. I would try to get a idea of what his feelings are for you first.
160286
I would say yes, if he is committing to you. That is a good sign he has some strong feelings for you. If you so unsure, ask him how he feels. Do you think the distance thing will ever change? Sooner or later it will have to or the emptiness yall feel when apart will tear you apart.
972231
well 2 my guess he much have feeling 4 u if hes trying 2 call u and stuff...if ur really missing him like the way u say u r then u might be in "love" with him....2 tell u the truth guys aint very good and telling/showing there TRUE feels and if u really want them 2 tell u just ask and tell them what u feel...and if hes braking plans with u..u need 2 talk about it...or start braking plans with him and let him c how u feel when he does it 2 u!!
115977
If you guys have been friends for so long no wonder you are start to have feelings for him cause as you get to know him you become more attracted and want to be with him longer so go for it if you really like him I am sure that he will understand just tell him striaght up that you like him don't be ashammed of your feelings
194141
i think you should choose the one u think you really got feelings for and see if he want to be in a relationship with you and respect you
464294
well if he really cares wht u do n if he really is possesive bout u den he definitely likes u. sumwhere in d corner of his heart he has luv n feelings 4 u.\nwell if u need more guidance u can add me on my id imradhs@yahoo.com
125853
Blessings.\n\nMay I answer your question with a questions of my own? First, are you sure that these feelings you have for this new guy (let's name him "Ted" for the sake of easier understanding) are legit (real)? If not, that is part of what I think you should question yourself... along with asking "Ted" if his feelings for you are legit.\n\nSecond, if you are "committed" to someone else (let's name him "Al" for the sake of easier understanding) but these feelings that you have for "Ted" are so overwhelming, why are you in this relationship with "Al"? And if these feelings that "Ted" has for you are so overwhelming, why is he in another supposedly-committed relationship with "Sue"? It would seem, in my opinion, that you would tell "Al" (and "Ted" would tell "Sue") how you truly felt instead of leading him on to believe that this love that you two (you and "Al" -- "Ted" and "Sue") share is being reciprocated when, in fact, it is not.\n\nIt would be wise, I would imagine, to put this situation into perspective. Consider what it is (and who it is) that you truly wish to be with. Think carefully and tread softly for the waters (and feelings) you tread upon can be disturbed. You don't want a typhoon to come ripping apart your life. Trust me, I've been there! God bless!\n\nHope that helped!
666616
Be honest with him and tell him how you really feel. Just make sure you go to him with a sincere attitude. But you sound like you wouldnt be a bit*h about it. Good luck.
160451
I THINK THE ONLY WAY TO TRUELY FIND OUT IS BY ASKING HIM..ITS HARD TO BUT THATS REALLY THE ONLY WAY...JUST FLAT OUT ASK HIM..DO YOU LIKE ME AS MORE THAN A FRIEND??
585515
IF U KNOW IN YOUR HEART THAT U TRULY LOVE HIM,THEN U MUST FIND HIM....AND EXPLAIN!IF THINGS DONT WORK OUT..U HAVE NOT LOST NOTHING....BUT IF U FEEL THIS WAY AND NEVER DO NOTHING ABOUT,U WILL WONDER FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE,IF THERE WAS REALLY SOMETHING THERE,AND THAT WOULD BE TERRIBLE!ATLEAST THIS WAY,U DONE ALL U COULD! GOOD LUCK!
788376
Did you tell him about your feelings for him?if not,then tell him.Who knows he might just ashame to tell you that he loves you too.
1044893
you identify first on what is really your feeling towards him.. if you like him then go on..regarding his actuations some guys  would make fool on you if they like you or do things that would make you feel jealous..in that way also they will discover they're feelings for you.
595803
Sounds like a real love "crush" and the only way to know if its the real thing is to get to know the guy.  You know more about his details then all of us do, so start using what you know to be around him and then strike up a polite conversation.  Smile, dress nicely, you know--flirt a little.  See how he reacts.  Sometimes these things need time and effort, so don't be hasty.  My husband took a whole year before telling me how much he liked me and now we've been happily married for 16 years.  Good luck and remember to take long, slow deep breaths whenever you feel like you're gonna pass out, OK?  :)