Are there women out there who are not attracted to their partners anymore...but still stay with them.?
550404
What ever happened to love? Is attraction number one to you? Go for the all around relationship. But if it is attraction you want, then you'll probably have a lot of short term relationships.
947394
Honestly we are attracted to bad boys. I think that they make us feel a sense of security, however false. Although most women who are with a "bad boy" say that their guy is "different" with them, they are probably lying. Believe me it is easy to keep up appearances if you really love someone. Also if they keep up with the charade long enough they will convince themselves that what their man is doing is okay, and its not.
250477
Yes there are still some women out there that will stand by their man through the good and the bad, I'm one of them. We just aren't appreciated for it. But what I want to know is why aren't they there for us?
163405
It is difficult to have a long relationship with someone you are not able to have an intelligent conversation with. Although there are many guys that will think with their "head below the belt" to get a girl in bed the ones that are looking for a long term relationship are looking for a lot more than eye candy. I'm not saying physical attraction isn't important but I don't think it is the only thing guys look at when looking for a long time partner
400943
I was never married to a woman with menopause, but was dating a woman who was very grouchy and had a hard time dealing with it.  I overlooked it best I could but she broke up with me.  I think the menopause had something to do with it.  Good luck, try to get past it......
1113801
HA! Thats right.....but you know that some women are out looking for just that. I know that after being married for 7 years and spending my adult life being strapped down by a man, I occasionally seek a little nookie from someone that all I want is just sex! Does that make me a whore? Who cares!!!!!!!!!!
1168420
Everyone has their preferences, your not alone. But at some point we've all turned away from them, I'm sure you will as well. I would suggest trying on-line services, andI hope you meet a fine woman.
219758
No. But I'm not really attracted to my best friend's wife. If she was a supreme hottie, then maybe. If she was hotter than my fiancee, the probably. But that's on the opposite side of possibility.
430773
You are no longer attracted to the person in any way. And you lost all respect for the person; you are interested in other people.
1022088
Yes...I do believe it is....when you find that person..you will know.....My husband is so faithful...I'm not saying he doesnt look at other women...but he would never go any further. He works for the Phone Company where we live...and there are women hitting on him all the time. But I know I have a great guy so I feel proud....not jealous......I know he loves me and we are both secure with our marriage. We took vows to honor each other. He takes those vows very seriously...Good luck if your looking....but..thye are out there.
963084
Most do because they tend to feel that they're sexually inadequate. That's how my girl's ex-bf felt when my girl realized that she wasn't really in love with him, and that she was in love with me. He's still bitter about the fact that he lost his girl to a lesbian, but that's life. People switch teams all the time, especially when they're not happy with the their members.
463927
The same thing happened to my second wife.  We did it like rabbits when we were dating but once married, the activity dropped off quite a bit.  I am sure the rigors of married life has something to do with it and the comfort in being in a long term relationship.  I am sure it doesn't happen to all women nor men for that matter.  Could be that you just need to try something different every now and then.  Location, clothing, time of day, etc.  Variety is the spice of life.
815310
I know how you feel. I dated my first girlfriend for a year. Now I am married and my husband and I both check out the cute women walking down the street. He thinks its hot. We have even thought of bringing other women into bed with us. Though so far we haven't.
1068825
Why do you sound so surprised that you are attracted to women in this age group? I dont think it tapers off, it may just become a little less intense. Remember when you were a "young man" and sex was like fireworks all the time, what does it feel like now that you're 44? It's the same for women
355931
Why is it that the men your refering to know they don't have to have a lasting relationship with you or why is it that your relationships are not lasting...I have found women think they can attract a man one way and think they can keep him another way...You sound intimidating and perhaps your a challenge, and once they realize your just like other women, they lose interest or consider the challenge over...there can be many reasons...just try and be the person you are and allow Mr. Right to recognize thats the person he wants..good luck.
1020917
At this point ...no.  If there is someone better out there for me...why should I be with someone who does not totally satisfy me?  Especially in some cases of women I know who settle for anything...its so sad that they have that low self esteem to take whatever comes there way.  I think I deserve better than that. I definitely would not want to be someone's good enough. I want to be the one, the best they've had.
958118
what a great question!   \n\ni find alot of people attractive but am only really attracted to a few.\n\nif your one of the few dont be too subtle its a waste of time!