I need some input here.What do you think of a 35 year old man being interested in a 53 year old woman?
535391
in what way a man interested to that woman? i mean specifically, a love, only her body, her money etc...\nbecause there are many reason why is a man interested in a woman especially if a woman is older ( very older just like man is 35 and woman is 53) than man. because usually man only interested in a woman especially if a woman is older than him if she is rich/famous. I'm not telling the "all" but some are, as far as i know... :-)
641105
I say, GO FOR IT! I am 55 myself, and recently spent one of the most memorable nights of my life with a 24 year old woman. Joy beyond compare.
1123741
I think that so long as it doesn't bother either of you - go for it. When I was 18 I dated a guy who was 40 - there's nothing wrong with it so long as you have things in common and you don't let the age different impact the relationship.
1016921
I've got a 31-year-old friend dating a 56-year-old guy...and neither of them have been married. All that's important is that the two of you are happy. Don't worry about what other people think.
873299
Is he wealthy? What do you think the attraction is? At 20, she is old enough to be making decisions for herself.....you've given her guidance, but now she has to make that decision.\n\nWhat would worry me is WHY she is attracted to older men. Often it is because of a previous molestation by an older man. Is that a possibility? If so, I would suggest some serious counseling by a professional....NOT clergy type....they would just continue the problem.
764618
The thought of dating a guy that's younger than me for some reason freaks me out. I'm nearly 19 and I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years and he's 23. Our age gap works out wonderfully. I think as long as you have a lot in common and you're at the same/ver similar point in your lives the relationship can work. \n\nThat being said I personally wouldn't date anyone over 25 at my age. I'd be wondering why they were interested in someone so much younger.. It disgusts me when I see a man in his 40's + with some teenage girl. Ugh makes me think he should be castrated.\n\n-Elise
800537
If there's a connection, there's a connection! It doesn't matter the age difference, or who's older.\n\nPersonally, i have a preference for older men - i like the whole 'being protected' thing and somehow i can't really see a younger man offering as much comfort!\n\nBut to each her/his own - it all depends on what you want out of the relationship, and whether the other person is ready and able to give it to you. \n\nMaybe ask yourself what the younger man wants from you? If you can tell he's serious about the relationship and not just wanting a "trophy older woman", then by all means :)
750543
A 2-year difference is no big deal....look at it down the road...your 36 and he is 34...not a big deal at all.  If your attracted to him, go for it and see how it works out...guys that are 18 are usually flattered when an older woman (yeah...I know 20 is not old) expresses an interest in them. .
1138379
OK it is NOT NORMAL for a old guy that age to feel attracted to a girl 14 or even 18.  This is a serious issue. A girl who is 14 can not understand this...trust me i was 14 too. I dated a guy who was 20 when I was 14. I thought I "loved him" Now that i am older (25) I realize how sick htis is and how he had issues. Guys who like girls your age are guys that like to manipulate and try to confuse and control them. For her to be in a room with him alone is so messed up . She needs to stop talking to him cuz this will lead to more dangerous issues. She may look 27 or whatever but she is not and that is no reason for a guy that age to " want" her. You NEED to tell your friends mom right a way if oyu love her cuz if something would EVER happen to her then it owuld be on your hands. I know she might be mad at oyu for a little but trust me she will thank you later...plus it also will interefere with her future relationships. if you love your firedn help her NOw before she might be on America's most missing...
744108
Every relationship is different.  Age doesn't really play a factor (unless the guy is 95 and in a wheelchair and the girl is 20).
198712
OH MY GOD!  You are so robbing the cradle!  You bad woman!  No, just kidding, I don't think there is anything wrong with the age difference it is just a few months.
794648
You don't say how old you are or how old she is....It could be okay if both of you are of legal age.  I have a feeling one of you isn't.
123366
What a question! Being an older guy myself, I'd say yeah, but you need to show him how serious you are. You wouldn't believe the number of younger women who are after me. Go for it.
718500
I think it's wrong. Now correct me if I am wrong but what can a 17 yr old boy have in common with a 35yr woman? Woman are more mature than men, let alone she is a self made woman she has a career he is still trying to have one. So she is always going to pay for everything, and buy him clothes and video games, and maybe his 1st car at that too. What about his parents they must think it's crazy, what if he has a curfew isn't she going to get tiered or better yet how do you introduce him to family and friends"oh this is my student and lover"?...not a good idea
410581
Myself I prefer older men who are wiser,experienced,most likely not into games,has morals and a lot of his life to share.A mature man. So I say 35.
244915
Good luck, old man. Hate to say it, but "old man" usually makes women 20-30yrs old think "creepy old man".
111015
I am 32, husband is 31.\n\nI don't think the age difference is that drastic, having dated a 38 yr old at 19. \n\nI think a lot of older guys like younger women.  Why??? (boy am I going to catch flack for this, ready....?)\n\nBECAUSE THEY'RE NICE.  Women your age (37) have been married & divorced, probably a couple of times by now.  They are overall jaded and in survival mode.  They have kids, probably (which is not that big of a deal but has a lot to do with their priorities in finding another partner, which is as it should be.)  I am not saying all women are like this, but I bet more than a few are, and I bet you dated them too, right?\n\nAt 22, most women are still open to being hurt, and just don't have as much baggage.  I married first at that age & had my daughter- was divorced a couple of years later and was a little bitter & wary.  2 wacko heartbreaking guys later, and I just decided to let go & see.  Enter fabulous now husband.  It's all OK. \n\nI think if you love her, she loves you, and you treat each other with respect and want the same things...\n\nGO FOR IT HONEY!  \n\nAge isn't much when it comes to love.