why do my sister kick my ??? all the time.?
552360
because you need to do some weight lifting and they don't know how to tell you.
1040641
This sounds horrible, I would be livid.  Say something, let your sister know that if she is going to come by she needs to clean up.  Have you discussed this issue w/ your parents b/c all of you may need to confront her about this.  There is nothing worse than a trifling visitor.  But do not keep your feelings about the situation bottled up.  Or beat her at own game, go to her house and mooch off of her.
826106
This is a tough place for a young woman to be! You are going through an emotional time anyway as you enter puberty. Have you talked with your sisters and do they acknowledge the way she treats you? Maybe one of them will be kind enough to tell your mother how her actions are affecting you. My other suggestion would be to speak with a minister or your school guidance counselor, perhaps have a family session. Please know you are worthwhile despite all that is going on. love to you.
1092677
your sister is obviously very jealouse of you and insecure. she is a total bitch. that is so wrong of her to do that to you. and give me a break, the same damn colors. she has some fucking nerve she is a wedding crasher hore. im pissed. that is so messed up. tell her how you feel bring her to lunch and tell her that this is the most important day for you and anyone . have some respect.
1160927
Ignore her.  Don't hang out with her.\n\nIf you can't do that, just be nice to her and pretend that whatever she does doesn't bother you.  She is probably one of those people who likes the reactions she gets from you.  If you stop giving those reactions, then maybe she will stop doing whatever it is that bothers you.
1054
Your sister doesn't hate you, you probably just irritate the crap out of her, which is entirely natural and common. If you move up to her grade, give her a lot of space and pretend like she's not there, don't worry about it and enjoy everything you can, focus on the good. If she pokes at you and causes problems, tell someone, don't do it back, and go back to ignoring her and going on with life. She'll probably get to a point where she sees being mean doesn't work, and years in the future you'll probably get along just fine.
606311
you may be having these problems cause of the issues u have with ur sis.. u are still u and just because ur twins. find ur own place as a person.. srry ur parents dont see it.. hold ur head up high.. succrrd in what ever u do.. dont let her bring u down.. u are special cause u are u.. honey as years go by things will change. u may have to sepeate ur self from her..
691271
Let her know, calmly and respectfully, that it insults you. Then ignore the insult. If she sees you getting rattled, she will keep doing it. This happens a lot with kids who are looking for attention of any kind. If it keeps up for more than a few days, or other kids start getting involved, then you need to go to a trusted adult in the school. I hope that it does not come to that. Good luck.
180964
Just because she is a blood relation does not mean you have to tolerate her verbal abuse.You are well within your rights to tell her to put a sock in it.I would not blame you at all if you decided to trim back on the time you spent with her.Sometimes it's the only way to deal with negative family members.
326806
Ouch!  Man that's gotta be the worse thing ever.  Screw your sister.  Ditch her!
1130459
Just let her know that bothers you when someone is in your personal space like that. Hopefully she will understand, tell her you wouldn't want to offend her by doing something that bothered her. If she continues after that knock her out she'll stop then. A lil tough love never hurt.lol Good Luck
322540
It's a love/hate relationship. You're sisters- you love each other and (most likely) if anyone else was mean to your sister you would be on that person; but you fight because... \n\n1.(if you still live together) You're with this person all the time and everyone gets on each other nerves sometimes\n\n2. You feel comfortable enough with your sister that you know even if you fight or say harsh things that they're still your sister and will love you no matter what.
761206
Shae, I am really sorry for your situation. I also read your profile and there is no reason that I can see for your sisters  attitude, and yes we do try to treat others how we would want to be treated. However we are not perfect, we make mistakes like everybody else.  I really feel that you need to let your sister know how you feel and how this is effecting you, and that you would like to have her in your life.  Sometimes writing a letter  is beneficial because it enables you to really reflect on your feelings  and express yourself more thoroughly.  Perhaps once everything is out on the table, then any differences can be resolved.
590813
SHE HITS AND KICKS YOU? THAT ISN'T A BEST FRIEND. THAT IS SILLY! TELL HER TO GROW UP!
615519
I think it is commendable that you care that your sister acts like she hates you.  That shows you care about her, and I don't know you guys, of course, but I truly believe that if you just hang on and stay out of her way as much as you can, she will come around.  It might take a few years, but my daughter acted like she hated me from the time she turned thirteen until seventeen and she suddenly matured and she is thirty one now and we are the best of friends!!  Try not to take it too personally, that age is just so hard for some adolescents, too much self-doubt and pressure to fit in that family sometimes take the fallout.  Good luck!
1065317
i guess you could report her, or just ignore her, shes just dong that to make yoiu mad, but just dont yell abck or anything cause thats like the only reason shes doing it......
215292
She is testing to see how much she can control your friend. Same thing happened with my brother. Have you tried talking to your friend about this, or is he totally oblivious to her death grip? Have your friend defy her demands, if she dumps him then she wasn't with him for the right reasons, if she doesn't dump him then life goes on.