If I was in LOVE with you & i lied to you about something so that I may not hurt you.......?
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yes...i DID forgive you, despite how you feel. KNOW THAT okay? *hug* and i still care about you. but it's pushed down deep inside.
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so they would hurt her? because of you?\nwhy would you think of marrying her.?\njust tell her right now, that you cant. either lie or tell the truth!!!\nI would tell her truth and let her go.\njust tell her now!!!!
507557
Not me!  That is something that you could probably lie like a dog about, and no one would ever know.\n\nP.S. I do not condone lying....but, you asked!\n\nSo, .....there ya go!
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I wouldn`t worry about it.   Thats one of the several ways this could have turned out.  It could have turned nasty, it could have turned out right for you, it could even have been a disaster for you and your husband.  Just be thankful that that was the only consequence of the truth you told
626057
If you made a mistake tell him you didn't mean it
335366
depends on why you lied and what it was about talk to her about how you feel
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How Can You Believe Me When I Say I Love You, When You Know I've Been A Liar All My Life?
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If hiding the truth does not physically or emotionally hurt a person than it is sort of alright to disguise the truth. Outright lying is never a good solution. It always creates more pain than it prevents.\n\nThe only reason to hide the truth is to reduce pain. The best way to handle that is to disguise the truth. That way you have not so much lied, as made the truth sound a bit more gentle.\n\nTake care,\nTroy
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dear broken hearted,you have to understand the difference between a lie and actually physical harm.i know what physical harm is.i loved someone and because of this i trusted him.but i really found out the hard way.i was almost killed due to an accident he caused because i was letting him go for his lies.so be thankful you only have a broken heart to deal with.i forgave him but i can never be with him again .my life is worth more than that.so you will heal in time and find someone who will treat you good and you can trust.i have .so anything is possible.take care and move on.
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no not unless asked by the court.\nIf asked by the court and you lie, then you may be charged with perjury also.\nThats a big one!
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Only time can heal that wound. =)\n\nBut you are a liar. And I'm a liar. And she's a liar. Everybody at one point in their life has lied.\n\nMake you have have said sorry. And don't ponder on it!
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His lying. When I realized I was willing to share my heart and soul and he was still lying. I remember the moment well. I knew of information he didn't know I had. As we talked, I prayed in my head "Please don't let him this time Please!" He lied again and I had proof of it. Falling out of love felt like it did when I fell in. The moment went just as fast as it came.  I don't regret having had loved him. I do regret the time invested in a relationship with someone who lie just for the hell of it.  The postitive side of it is, when meeting new people I am not apprenhensive about things I want to know about.  If they feel I am invading their space, I chalk it up to they are wasting my time.
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Tell her the truth... It will hurt but it is better than being fooled...
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We can ALL answer that question FOR ourselves, and ABOUT ourselves.  We're all guilty of 'the little white lie' once in a while.  However, being BRUTALLY honest isn't always a good thing.  \n\nIf someone is TELLING you they love you, but ACTING in a way that says they do not love you...it's the ACTION that is the TRUTH and the REALITY of their feelings towards you.   Trust is an EARNED privilege - be honest yourself and demand it from others as well.
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She probably lied to you, so you wouldn't get hurt. Would you rather face a direct rejection infront of a bunch of people?
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WELL WHO EVER TOLD YOU THAT THEY LIED TO YOU!!
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I try to be as honest as I can but I would be a liar if I said that I dont lie.  The Bible says we all lie.