I am graduating college and have a job awaiting me.  Is that weird feeling that I have normal? What is it?
546581
yes it is normal...and it will stay with you untill you have worked many years..it willjust transform itself, from trepidation, to second guessing, to desiring something else (better, different, new).\n\nThe fealing is insecurity, and everyone has it to some point or another.
729188
You should be looking into interning while your finishing up your last classes in college.  That way when you graduate you will already have on the job experience to go along with your degree.
473328
As a person about to graduate from college, I am looking back at my high school graduation.  Get ready for change.  It will be great.  Take in each moment because these are the days to remember.  Have fun and walk with pride of all you have accomplished.
524972
It's perfectly OK that you are still unsure about the path you want your life to take. Many people are still unsure when they are ready to graduate from high school or college. Don't worry about what your friends think. Each of us makes these choices when the time is right for us. You will, too. Take your time and don't let anyone push you into making a choice before you are ready. God Bless!
198815
You need to do what is right for you. If leaving the state to pursue a career is what you feel is right for you then by all means go. The people that are trying to talk you out of it are just wanting to keep you here because they will miss you. Thats all. I would do what will make me happy. Hope this helps.
741262
No, it's fairly normal. The best thing to do, though, is to leave your options open so that if you decide later you won't have closed any doors. So take the SATs, apply to colleges, and see what is available in the way of other forms of education or jobs, or maybe even grants.
1180216
I don't know what I want to be actually.  and the weird thing is that I am almost ready to be finished with school.  I am 23 and have graduated from college, save one class that I am taking now.  \n\nI have changed my mind many times considering what I want to be.."when I grow up."  when I was really young, I wanted to be a fireman.  later on I changed to want to be a CEO.  by the time I got to college, I wanted to teach college, get my PhD.  I changed my mind on that, when I realized that the professors in college these days are just now getting tenure, which means there will not be open places in college faculty for several years....\n\npeople have offered me jobs as well.  but I do not know what I want to be.  \n\nright now I am deciding whether or not I am being called into the ministry, (southern baptist).  But whatever I do in life, I want it to be someone that I will enjoy.  It may or may not be something that is life changing, but as long as I am happy and making enough to support a family, that is what I want to be.  \n\nyour never too old to dream of what you want to be.  I still have dreams...
196751
By keeping your goal in sight, whatever it is. Prioritize what you need to do to get the job done, then just do it. And give yourself a reward when you're done. If you can remember that the reward is waiting, that sometimes makes the job go better. Being under pressure is never really fun, but some people thrive on pressure and do some of their best work. Sometimes it's good to put some pressure on yourself. It helps to stretch yourself to new levels you never reached before. Besides, if you're not in college yet, it's good practice for when you will be. Talk about pressure...I don't know how some of those kids get all that work done, plus get decent grades. But, it's all about focus, and a determination to get the job done...correctly...the first time. <*)))><
1028002
well i can tell u that...but let me bring in to ur notice that its not just the words that counts, but also the way the say..i mean that when u go to the room say good morning in a smart way by looking at them...when ask to sit, say thank u and sit straight..and keep a charming face...its natural that u'll be tensed a lot..but that shouldn't be reflected on ur face or answers...when they ask u to talk of urself...look in to their eyes and answer..dont keep ur hands do some business and all..it may sweat..never mind it...say well iam (ur name) from college...i've finished or doing my (ur course)..with marks in % so far...iam looking forward to join reputed companies where i can offer my valuable services..my interest are reading,writing etc...(dont say watching movies and listening to music)..say you do those once in a while..i do believe in hardwork bcoz all the achievements i have accomplished is through hardwork and faith in god almighty..say about ur achievements in computer field..it can be prizes won in college and outside..sports if any..etc...moreover your answers should be steady...give nice pronunciation etc..all the best..let me know if u get through me_who2006@yahoo.com also for any other doubts contact the same address...
744827
Take alittle time and rest your mind, body and soul.  Otherwise you are going to get burned out. Congrats on you graduating.
1009754
It's easy to feel lost at the thought of moving on.  And leaving middle school for high school is a big deal.  It's normal for you to be feeling all of the things you are...sad about leaving behind that part of your life and a little fear/worry about the future.  Please know it's completely normal.  Look at the books, see if they are interesting to you...if they are, read them over the summer. It will give you something to do to take your mind off of things.  Life is all about change and moving and growing.  Take time to relax and think not only about the good days you had in middle school but think about all the great things that are going to happen in high school and college.  Good luck.
253292
i'm inside me, and it's the only way i know.  \n\nwhat's normal for me might feel totally 'abnormal' to you.  \n\nif you'd like to 'trade' for awhile and see... :)
110420
I know exactly how you feel. Try to keep in mind that you are thisclose to getting your degree and think back to all of the hard work you've done to get to this point and you are not going to let this paper stand between you and your degree. The paper is not bigger than your will, desire and determination to succeed. I hope this helps and best of luck to you in this and all of your future endeavors!! :)
806847
You have it good but if you want to feel better about yourself, maybe you should get your own place and a job, if you are not working. You just need more independence. But it is still good that your parents are helping you out though. \n\nI use to feel the same way about my folks helping me out until someone told me never be ashame of having a great support system.
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Niza,\n\nAs a former university career counselor, I've answered this question a LOT for many students.  Ask yourself the following questions:\n\n1.  Do you feel anxious or panicky when you're in class, turning in a paper, or taking a test in that major?\n\n2.  Do you find yourself daydreaming about other classes you'd LOVE to be taking right now, but can't?\n\n3.  Does your dream job seem better suited or connected to a different major?\n\n4.  Are you majoring in this area because you feel you "owe it" to your parents, since they're paying for school?\n\n5.  Are your parents pressuring you to be in this major, though you really don't enjoy it?\n\n6.  Are your grades not so great in your major, but terrific in classes related to a different major?\n\n7.  Do you skip classes in your major, but go to your favorite (non-major) classes?\n\n8.  And, are you in this major not because you love it, but because you think it's "practical" - in other words, you think it's a solid lead for a job after graduation, it pays a lot of money, etc.?\n\nThe more you answer yes, the better chance this major is not for you.  Students feel challenged and often scared they've picked the wrong major.  What I've learned is - here's the secret:\n\nOften it's not the major that matters in your ultimate career choice, but the experience you gain while still in college (ie. internships, externships, research, volunteer work) that matters to employers looking to hire.\n\nYes, there are fields where you really ought to choose the obvious major (you'll be an accountant lots easier if you major in accounting) but in other careers, there are many paths to get there.  \n\nSince you're in school such a long time, I generally recommend to study something you love to learn about, and bolster it with other classes that can aid your career or support your path.  THEN, get yourself to career services, and squeeze and squeeze and squeeze out every service you can use to help you get internships, summer jobs, externships in your career field.  \n\nSomeday your college years will mean less and less on a resume.  What employers will care about is your experience.  So, pick something you love, and then start getting some experience!\n\nBest of luck,\n\nMichelle Watson Gellas\n(former career counselor for Villanova University, Lehigh University, Ursinus College, and Loyola Marymount University)
242356
You are opening up to a higher plane, my dear.  You have nothing to fear and are on the right track.  DO not let anyone deter you from your new path.  All will be revealed and you will feel wonderful.\n\nBlessed Be.
1141964
I am not a highschool graduate of '06 (still have 2 years to go) but i know that my friends, who are attending college this fall, have the fear of the new beginning, its a whole new chapter in your life and your basically on your own, in highschool you were more structured, you depended on your parents for most things, now your considered an adult you are gonna be making choices that you've never made before