Where can I find happiness???
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happiness comes from within not from sum1 else... =)
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Because all of these things are material things, they won't satisfy you.  You have to find your own peace and serenity, and it starts on the inside, within you.  Look into yourself, dig deep.  What do you want adn what will make YOU happy?
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i think the key to happiness is through JESUS CHRIST. and letting HIM lead your life. GOD BLESS YOU.
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Just get on wiv ur life and find a new guy and maybe you'll find that you will be happier.
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TO BE HAPPY....VERY, VERY HAPPY!!
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Happiness is a feeling of wellbeing, contentment, and love. True happiness can exist constantly in a person no matter their situation. The best way to become happy is to decide you want it and start doing the things and acting the way that will make it happen.
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I'll always reward myself with little present, spend myself to watch moving "egg: funny movie, meaning full movie", get a close friend go traveling...etc. but what important is yourself must think positively, make yourself happy, do the thing that can make yourself happy. if you can switch your mood positively. go to find a good book to "clean" your sad & lonly heart. Be happy, coz there r still someone care about you.
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Hi Fragile,\n\nI'm sorry that you have not experienced Happiness in your life. You sound young, so you still have many things to learn. You are becoming a Woman, and that is not always easy. \n\nI have been happy in life, and I've been sad too; and I'm 30. Here are my tips for happiness:\n\n1. Get a Relationship with God\nThere is nothing more important in this world than your relationship with God. God is the beginning of each and every thing. He is the Reason why you are here. He created you, and placed you on this earth for a  reason..Fragile, nothing in life lasts forever. Parents can get divorced, people pass away, your best friend can leave you, your husband can leave you--but God will Always, Always Love You and Be There for you. If you Love Him--he will Love you 100 times more. Happiness comes from Him. He is your Strength in the worst times of your life. He is also a source of Peace...Whether you become a Christian or a Muslim--you will not be complete as a woman until you get God in your Life.\n\n2. Love Yourself.\nWhen I was growing up, my family thought I was the strangest thing. At first I tried hard to fit in: but one day I decided that I liked myself. And it was the best feeling in the world. I didn't look to them for approval--although I still loved and respected them. I didn't look to schoolmates for approval. You have to do the same. \n\nYou say you feel pressure to be skinny--well you should look in the mirror and realize that you are Beautiful. When I was growing up, people made fun of my high forhead, my lips. But my mom told me my features were beautiful--and she showed me beautiful African women who looked like me. You can start to admire women who arent a size 4-there are many plus sized models who are beautiful with curves...\nYou have to first accept yourself. When you do that, nobody can come along and make you feel bad about being you. That song, "The Greastest Love Of All", talks about that. \n\n3. Dont Depend on Man, Boyfriend, or Husband for Happiness.\nThat is the biggest mistake that  most women make. They make a man to be their God. If a man loves them, they're happy. If that same man leaves them, they want to cry and die..The truth is that the Greatest Love of all comes--loving ourselves..We women give men too much power in our lives. Our worlds revolve around them. No, your world must revolve around you. Fill your life with things that make you happy--volunteer at a local Boys & Girls Club, learn how to sew or speak Spanish--the point is to Get a Life!\n\n4. Follow Your Dreams\nSo you feel pressure to get grades. Realize that your parents only want you to suceed, thats all. You are just preparing for your future....Realize that if you get good grades, you can get a scholarship to a good College and move away from home. There, you can have space and become yourself. .But, most important, when you get a little older--you will start to have Dreams. You have to follow your Passion. Whether you want to be a nurse, doctor, florist, or business owner--you have to make a plan to make your dreams come true. Do what you have talent for, do what makes you happy.\n\n5. Dont follow the crowd. Be an Individual.\nI know peopl, right now, who are hooked on drugs because they were afraid of the "cool people" who made fun of them for not smoking and drinking..My 25 year old cousin is a drug addict because of that..Fragile, people will make fun of you for not smoking weed, not having sex, etc. You have to be Strong--be a Strong Woman. You cant follow those people off a cliff. Only the Strong survive.\n\nGood Luck and I hope this letter want too long! :)
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Find beauty in the tiniest things - the wood grain on your old desk, the flowers you walk by every day, the pretty displays in store windows. Do some community service - just trust me on this one. Spend a little more time with people who make you feel valued. Watch your favorite movie over and over and over again. Laugh at something, or at nothing. Smile more often - I think smiling is supposed to do something great like release endorphins and make you feel good. Good Luck!
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What are you waiting for? get an airplane get there and look for what will make you happy...
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You find it yourself, honey.\n\nBut for me? Be happy, love, experience everything you want to (unless it hurts people) because you only live once.\n\nx
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What you need is to first define what you want and what you need...  It's very easy to find what you want, be you need to go with what you need.  Thats the key for happiness...   Good Luck and God bless... EFIL
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Hi, I'm really sorry that you're miserable, its quite hard to advise you without knowing what is making you so unhappy; if youre lonely then i would advise to try to get out there and mix with others because there are so many lonely people all wishing they had more in life, how about pen friends or chat rooms? anyway i hope things improve for you soon.
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You can make you happy.\n\nTry book "Feeling Good - the New Mood Therapy",  David Burns author.  It suggests you act the way you want to be, and over time you will be that way.
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i agree with all this things that happiness is around you and rests with people you love etc, but if you wantr to change conditions and travel somewhere i'd advice tbilisi, georgia (not USA state, but former soviet republic in the south caucasus). happiness in the blood of local people. just try it
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I've so been there.  A treatment center would definately be a good idea.  It would take you out of your usual environs, maybe get you sorted out with some medication, and be constantly monitored.  Ultimately, though, its up to you.  You need to decide to love yourself, and know that you deserve to be happy!
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GO TO YOUR 'My Q&A'. THEN CLICK 'Tell me more' TAB FOR POINTS & LEVEL DETAILS.\nIF YOU REACH HIGHER LEVELS, THAT HAPPYNESS WILL ENCOURAGE YOU TO GO HIGH.\nWISH YOU ALL THE BEST.