why do my friends boss me around?
550926
Tough I know. Stand up for yourself, even if you fall out with them... Stop talking with them for a while if that's what it takes, but make sure they know why. They will come to you and try to make nice, when they do they'll know that you won't take any more nonsense in future. If they don't you are better off without them!
1047996
If they are not there for you and they talk behind your back---sweetie---they are not your friend.  You can be nice and sociable without considering them a friend.  And just so you know if they are talking about you behind your back--they are probably jealous of you   :)Good Luck!
3672
May be ur making them feel uncomfortable and testing their patience. always be loved by people.\nso make them fell comfortable when they r with u.
195669
u will come to know by their actions... they do their best to put u down n get a superior position than urs
206208
avoid them and hang around with better people (thoses who are you friends no questions asked). also stop letting them use you can also be attempted so that they will get the hint and get lost.
1107648
they're just judging you! they are taking you for the wrong reasons, which means they aren't worth your time! they don't know you and  so they have NO right to be saying that stuff about you. the studies show that people who put other people down like that, are doing it because it turns out that they are actually jealous. they don't know you and don't know who they're dealing with, so just ignore them and show them who's boss! don't worry bout them K? they're just jealous. dats all. i hope i helped! have a very nice day! : )
528823
They're probably jealous or just being overly protective. Don't listen to them. Do your own thing :)
575162
those people who do that are just jealous. there has to be some quality about u that causes them to hate u for it. you just have to be the better person and ignore them. Because for everyone, there will always ALWAYS be someone who will hate you for what you are and what you stand for. u just have to decide whether their opinion of u will change how u think of yourself.
467017
Stay away from them and don't lower yourself to their level.  Choose your freinds carefully as people tend to judge you based on who you choose to associate with.  why waste your time on these people?
550285
Talk to the friend.  Ask him what is going on with him, and let hm know that you have observed a change.  Maybe he is under some severe personal stress, or dealing with depression or some other mood altering condition.  Depending on the response that you get, you may either find a way to work out the solution with the cranky friend, or go to management to seek a solution.  \n\nNo matter what the friend says or does, make certain that your behavior is professional.  If you do decide after trying to work out the problem with both the friend and the management, that you will no longer choose to work there, then give proper notice, do your work, get a good reference and go find another job, preferably while you are still working.
916543
=cause she is the boss and feels like she can do as she pleases without any concern for others.  She is selfish.  Watch your back.  Good luck.
67955
If you are a religious person, try reading T.D. Jakes book titled "Working in a Hostile Environment".  The most important thing to remember is that, you are at that job to work.  You do not have to be those people's friends.  If they don't like you it's probably because they are jealous of either your knowledge, or your looks.  Sometimes both.  Older people have a tendency to be "afraid" of younger people because they think younger people are after their jobs.  Be diligent and know that you are put there for a reason.
252979
Remember you were the elected leader, therefore the majority of the group believes you can handle the job. They are looking to you for leadership, while I dont know if the person holding up the team voted for you, but odds are your arent their favorite person. Id talk to that person if i were you and possibly get rid of them, if need be.
1072896
Are you annoying? Are you controlling? Etc., etc., there could be thousands of reasons, some not even having to do with you and having to do with the guys around you, they may just be stuck up jerks.
194963
Sometimes it is because it gives them attention and sometimes it is because they love to gossip and lie to make them cooler or have more friends. Just ignore them or tell them lies so they wont like you and you wont have to deal with them.
861036
They're bored with their lives, are immature, and are trying to annoy you.\n\nWhy they are trying to annoy you could be based on race but also just on the thrill of teasing a nearby person.
553889
Well, I see it as are you a follower or are you a leader? Followers give in under pressure to those who just want to fit in and leaders know how to speak up and make an example of themselves in the eyes of the followers.....Just remember who you ARE and how you want to be perceived by others...If they say your scared or you are a loser because you don't give in then they are not friends what so ever.....If they are your friends then they will give you the respect that you deserve and not bother you with the pressure. Good Luck!!!!!