why cant i find a gf?
548414
i feel sorry 4 u coz nothing can be more difficult than the absence of love , true and pure love , in our life , but just think about it this way , God would never chose the bad thing 4 us , so maybe it isn't the time yet and who knows , you may be living next to " the one " i believe that all it takes is some patience and the ability to make right choices
105366
you do not find her it will just happen. when you are not even thinking about a relationship this women will come into your life and turn it upside down and make you laugh and smile. there is a plan out there for you just do not settle on the first one that you see because you think you have to have someone. become a friend to a women first. then you will no her if or when your feelings change. good luck
1100608
That is your problem you are looking. Stop trying to find love and let it find you.\n\nGo to places you are interested in and stop worrying so much about finding a good woman. You will run into one at a place you like, just stop worrying so much about it and go have fun and she will show up without you even having to try.
14275
It could be because you just haven't found the right person yet. I know, I know, it sounds totally cliche, but I'm 22 and have a similar problem. The best advice anyone has given me is to just focus yourself and what you want in life and the right person will come along.
646311
FIRST OFF YOU DON'T NEED A GF. YOU'D LIKE ONE. \n\nIF THEY DON'T TALK TO YOU YOU NEED TO TALK TO THEM\n\nGIRLS LIKE GUYS WITH CONFIDENCE AND WHO SEEM ASSURED. \n\nTALK TO THEM, ASK THEM QUESTIONS AND LISTEN TO THE ANSWERS. LOOK INTO THEIR EYES AS THEY ANSWER. IF YOU ASK THEM STUFF AND SEEM INTERESTED IN WHAT THEY HAVE TO SAY, THEY'LL WANT TO TALK TO YOU MORE\n\nYOU JUST NEED TO TALK TO THEM
331991
You won't find them. They'll find you. It will happen eventually. It takes time though. Remember that good things happen to those who wait. If you're meant to find that one true love you will, other wise. It wasn't in the cards for you. But just keep waiting. Love is grand. and will come to you eventually. Hope you find what you're looking for someday. Best of luck to you in life and with your girl. Peace be with you my friend. \nJJJ
1043192
It hard to find a girlfriend this days.
525242
How old are you? if you are under 18yr. need to start thinking of your career and just socialize right now, to young to have a girlfriend. if over 18yr. depends where you go to meet girls. and what you are looking for. there are single sites that you can look in your neighborhood and just chat. why do you think you "need" a girlfriend now!!?? do you just want to have sex and nothing more? what is it your ACTUALLY looking for? that is why? seems like you in such a "rush". let us know.
35066
May I suggest stop searching, then THAT's when you might find her!\n\nJust meet people as friends, and see what develops.  I hope you have a mic, as voice is MUCH friendlier and quicker than typing.\n\nRather than "dating" or "matchmaking" sites, try that talkcity, or http://www.paltalk.com - places intended mainluy just to meet and make FRIENDS.  :-)
229506
first, desperate women don't care what a guy would look like, but I guess that's solved since you aren't a woman yet. second, you're too young to absolutely NEED a boyfriend. third, if you are searching online and exclaim you're desperate it's a bit redundant. and fourth, if you're such a cutie, why can't you find a guy in the real world?
121072
You've never been single my friend. God has always been with you! :)\nbeside that there are 3 possible reasons for that:\n1 - You don't have the braveness to ask someone(if ur a boy), You don't have the diplomacy ;) (if ur a girl)\n2 - You dont' have enough money.\n3 - You are under 18.
945924
You just have not met the right girl yet, keep trying you will find her. Good luck and God bless.
657924
Sounds like you are just choosing the wrong women, not all of us are cheaters!  The right one is out there for you.  Stop looking and you'll find her.
138893
No. \nI find some girlfriends online, but most of them disappointed me, if you know some decent lady, please refer me. .\n\nRegards
858992
It happens, finding the right guy isn't easy, takes a lot of time. It's basically trial and error. I have the same problem with girls, a lot of them are basically the same and boring.
779750
time to find a girlfriend
560617
i dont think you will find the girl your looking for. but, what you need to do, is figure out why you cant be aggressive. then fix it. just start taking small chances, get comfortable with them, then progress them. making bigger chances and so on. it worked for me.