How do you stop loving someone that never loved you back?
553250
Take a good hard look at that person  -- understand that if they have no other fault, they are not right for YOU if they don't feel the same way you do.  It's terribly difficult, but you deserve to be loved in return.\n\nRemember: you can't change how anyone else acts or feels, you can only change how you react to them.  Good luck!
541325
Distance yourself. You won't want to, but staying close to someone you want but can't have just isn't healthy. Don't tell the person or anyone close to them what you are doing, as they might try to convince you otherwise. Just try to get away for a while. You don't have to cut the person off completely (although that is an option). Don't call him/her, don't go places where you know he/she frequents, and make yourself scarce. Take the time to reflect on your situation and learn more about yourself. \nDate. While you are distancing yourself from said object of affection, try to date people that you like. Don't settle for whoever asks you out, or you might end up making someone fall in love with you who you don't love back! Approach people, try new things. You might want to compare everyone to the object of your affection, and you won't think anyone measures up. Stop this right now. You know there's someone better out there. Go find him or her!
242969
1.Get yourself involved in some other activities to help get your mind off the person.  \n2. There are other fish in the ocean, and maybe by getting involved in something, you can meet someone special that will heal that broken heart.\n\nThe main thing is you got to move on or nothing will happen.
1061736
Firstly, you can learn why they are unlovable, what has life thrown at them to make them the way they are. You can imagine what they use to be like before this. \nIf you cant learn to love them, then you can at least start with empathy.
502229
You choose to continue loving them.  The feelings of love (normally lust) will diminish and you are left with this person who is not what you thought they were now that you can see them without your blinders.  At this point, you choose to continue loving the person by over looking the annoying habits and doing things you know pleases them.  Find their (and your) love language.  It makes a huge difference!  Check out the love language book at your local library.
280476
1st off, what what is that make to forget the someone you "truly" loved. I you love someone, truly, u should make adjustment acc. to 'em. Well! think about what was that, that made you seperate. \nDo not remember the good times u've spend, insted thing about the bad time u'll had. This how, his absence has helped you.\nAnd ofcouse you wont forget some you loved for all these year, in a sec. you need time. \nMake new frnd, who have nothing to do wiht your relations. Be creative, spend more time with people who are funny!
61389
You take it one day at a time. Get involved in other activities & hobbies & force yourself to ignore any of this person's attempts to get you back. You deserve better...just keep reminding yourself that you don't deserve to be hurt anymore...\n\nGood luck!
1074292
by him telling you those things he doesn't love you.. the best for you to do is forget this guy and find someone to appreciate and love you for the person u r.
1174679
Admit you made a mistake - because anyone who does that never loved you anyway. correct your life - by taking out the trash (your mate). brush yourself off and get your head on straight and tell yourself he is not worth your tears. Learn from your mistakes and get on with your life. \n\nbest of luck.
427831
mmm...ur feelings are ordinary...it will take some time to forget him...u have to do some important things to make it a small period :\n1-never try to contact him even if u felt that u would die to hear his voice or see him, never even think of that.\n\n2-when u find ur self starting to think of him, start to remember the bad things he did to you as much as u can.\n\n3- never think that u miss his days and never dream of being with him again.\n\n4- try to think of another one if u can (that's a quick cure but it's not a good one).\n\n5- finally and the most important try not to have alot of free time, try to engage ur self in doing anything...and try not to stay alone for a long time...be with ur friends,relatives,or any other people.
870044
Ya get over him. You just gotta realize that in the grand scheme of things he is insignificant. He may have hurt you but people hurt eachother all the time. You yourself have probably hurt someone at some point. Everything that happens does so for a reason. You learned a hard lesson on what not to look for in a man and hopefully you picked up on that lesson and it will make the rest of your life easier. Life is what you make it and you can choose to live in the past or to take each lesson you learn along the way and create a wonderful future.
672087
It is a lot harder than that, You cannot just walk away and pretend someone is from the past because that past once was the present ( if you catch my drift). Someone that you once love will always be a scar in your heart and if you loved her dearly, the space that she filled will never be filled by someone else, however that person is!\n\nTake my example, I onced had a very very strong crush on someone but I never told her, it's been more than 5 years now but I still wish it had turned out better than it had!\n\nSorry man but there are things you can't do in life and this is most definitely one of them!
350784
You don't get over it, you learn from it. You look at why it didn't work out, and hopefully change things so that the next time you are in love you will not make the same mistakes. Or you could try and get it back. You know the old saying, if its truely love and you let it go, it comes back to you. If it never returns it wasn't truely love to begin with. Or my personal favorite, find someone that looks exactly like your love, F**** him dump him, laugh with your friends about it later.(just kidding)I find a little laughter and joking sometimes eases the pain ya know what I mean!
1163095
cut off all connections with this person\nget rid of all that reminds you of them\ngood luck
870844
I've never stopped loving anyone I've been in love with.\n\nThat said, some relationships just are not healthy. I just left one 10 months ago, even though I was in love with them and they were in love with me.\n\nIt has been extremely hard dealing with. I still have to be around them at the dojo, which makes it much worse.\n\nTime does make things better. I can now talk pleasantly with one of them. The other may too, someday.\n\nIt still hurts, but not as much as it did. I still would like to go back to them, but the reasons I left haven't changed.\n\nSo I just deal with it, day by day.
692481
u may love him but not truely love him, it's called attactment..\nu just have no where else to go and only stick to him..\nbest to get yo mind off him and hang around other people and later on find another person to be in love wit who can treat u much better...
631268
if u love him then tell him so\nand he still loves u \nthen he'll come back\nbut if he has stopped loving you\nbecause you rejected him \nthen its just fate\n\nbut try telling him first\nas there's always still a chance that\nthere's a lingering feeling of love for u