if i gave temp guardianship of my daughter to my exes sister(not through court)how do i get her back?
543614
If it wasnt through court than you can get her back easy just go and get her tell your ex's sister your sorry but you want your daughter to grow up with her mom and if she give you any problems about it call the law and they can get her back for you if you wrote it down and signed it than there may be a problem and you may have to go to court to get your daughter back but if not just go there and get your daughter back and enjoy her while you can Good LUck
1184693
unfortunately, even if you had sole custody of your daughter, you may not be able to leave the state without a court order specifically stating that you have permission to do so...\n\nsad but true
191352
ISthat what you want to teach your daughter together,on how to deal whith that situation,talk to your ex and him together  let them know whats up,If your daughter wants to move in go for it having your kids around you is time well spent
605776
she is a very messed up woman and we have very messed up laws that dont protect the rights of fathers - there are some organizations out there that fight for the rights of fathers, you definately should contact them  - I doubt that your ex will see reason, but she is going to have to understand that the kids do need a father figure if she wants a healthy environment for them...
495230
CPS isn't in the business of enforcing court orders, the police are.\n\nIf the order is still valid, and your ex's girlfriend is not supposed to be around your daughter, then any time she is around your daughter, she is violating the order.  Depending on where you are in California, the police might have a few dozen better things to do, if you want the honest truth.\n\nIf you are an eyewitness to this situation, you can file a report with the police (who may or may not accept the report), or you can get yourself to the issuing Court and ask to be put on calendar for a contempt hearing, where you will have an opportunity to explain to the judge how the order is being violated.  Depending on your daughter's age, she may or may not be interviewed by the police and/or questioned by the Court.\n\nI guess the bottom line here is simple: if the order is still valid, this woman is violating it when she is within 100 yards of your daughter.  However, her defense (obviously) will be that the child's father has seen fit to allow them to be together in violation of the order.  The judge may not see it that way, but he/she would have to be made aware of it first.\n\nIf you don't think this woman represents a threat to your daughter's safety or well-being, let it be.
162015
I dont live in your state, but maybe able to tell you a few things..... If your girl is now 13 yrs old, then when going to court, she maybe able to speak her mind to the jugde.. Tell the judge that when you gace your parents temp cust. that you planned on getting her back when the time was right for yourd daughter, and for you... Always put your girls name first when tlaking to the judge... Tell him that you have a good place to stay, and have an income...And that you are able to care for her now. And that she has told you she wants to live with you. Go get the papers from court and start filling them out. Dont tell your parents that you are now filling. Let them find out when they get served.... That way you have a fighting chahce at getting her back. Catch them off guard. Have your girl write a letter to the judge telling him why she wants to live with you now. And that may help too. Find out from your county court house what is the age that the judges litsen to kids.. in cases like this... Bring anyone that is on your side to show that you area ble to care for her now. Just having to prove that you are a fit mother is all you have to do.
388998
Take the bit*h to court, that way if you get partial custody and visitation rights, she cant sue you for child support.  You'll be suprised how fathers have rights these days to help them see their children.
576132
go to court. email me, if u want. i work in a family law firm\n\nif she is at a normal age, it should be fine. what time of guardian ship IS this?\nwhere do u live?
250901
No. Legally, you are responsible for him/her. Your only real course of actions would be to try and get relief of custody from the state.
12215
yeah i would say you would know by now, you should call her lawyer or retain one yourself, It is better if you get one, more communication can be done between them.
441787
The two things are separate issues. The child support is for the child, not for your ex-wife and it has to be per the existing court order no matter what. Child support can be modified in Family Court. So, if your ex took off with your daughter and you did not know where to send support checks and she was not in touch with you or the court trying to get it, you could possibly have the retroactively modified in Family Court by filing a motion.\n\nYour ex is guilty of kidnapping. The same Family Court Judge can issue a bench warrant for her arrest that the DA has to act on if you file a motion. He is going to ask you why you didn't do this 7 years ago which is a pretty good question. Normally, the warrant in cases like this is satisfied by getting the child back into the state. Arrests are rare. Now, that your daughter is not a minor, probably nothing will be done.\n\nGet an attorney to help you file these things and argue before the judge.
825474
Tell you ex's GF to take it on a hike.  She has no business wanting to know your child.  And for that matter, neither does your ex.  Be strong, and best wishes to you.
506805
i hope only one month you greedy son of a bitch.  that is just selfish, they are your children and you need to care for them, i don't care what your ex did to you, they are your children. *** however if your trying to find out for your ex who is not paying then i am sorry he/she is not helping you out***
177087
you always do, but you can get it reduced since she has no actual physical custody of your kid. Talk to your lawyer, because I think you may have to ask for custody to prove you are not just being a scum bag
1094213
If you want to help her, educate yourself about the due process involved in abuse cases. In most instances, the minor is removed from the home until an investigation is completed. She may be moved to a home of a family member (who may or may not allow her father to see her despite the courts order), a foster home (where she may or may not be mistreated) or a group home (again, where she may or may not be mistreated). I am not suggesting that child abuse is right, but there are no ways of guaranteeing that she will not be further victimized in her quest for help. Before you (or she) make a plan on what to do, consider all the options involved. Good luck. \n\nP.S. I am an abuse survivor and child abuse advocate. Please feel free to contact me through my email here.
94490
My God!!!! I would run out and hire an anttorey. To to court if you can, I wish you and your daughter the best of luck. Many hugs and Kisses.
220102
You should call your Probate Court (ours is at the town hall) and ask them. Their number should be available on line, or in the blue pages of the phone book. That's where I filed the papers for guardianship of my nephew last summer, and they were very helpful. They also have pamphlets on guardianship. Hope this helps....