What is the best  way  to get your Friend out of the Anti-Social mode?
539810
Take him out and encourage him to meet people and help those in need.
997483
I think you should start by keeping your distance a bit.  I think you should make other friends and spend time with them.  Just try to get out of it little by little.  Less calls, less get togethers, maybe even take a class dancing or in something else that she will not join you in.  \n\nThat way the distance will become more and more, until the day you guys don't' get to hang out very much.  \n\nIf she confronts you in a very angry or whatever tone, just be calm, nice & friendly.  Tell her that you guys have drifted apart and maybe you don't have much in common anymore.  But you still like her and consider her a friend.  This may still bite you in the butt, if she decides to spread gossip there's not much you can do but just ride it out, hang out with new friends, whatever.\n\nWhatever damage she could do, you're so much better off without her being around you, you will be happy and it will be worth it, just be strong.  You deserve good, positive, supporting friends in your life.\n\nTake care.  If you need a good defense to fight rumors, or whatever she throws your way, you can always contact me, or post another question, just be ready.
1139252
I was always taught that honesty was the best policy. But remember she may not want to here what you have to say. But she needs to know why you do not wish to be friends with her . Just maybe by telling her the truth  and letting her know about the bad things she does might make her think and change her ways . Remember it could always go the other way too . But if she truly wants to be your friend she will listen with an open mind and take in what you have to say . good luck .
504892
Hi\n\n   If he is your friend like you stated please do not ignore him because that is not what suppose it friends do. I would simply say just talk to him have a serious one on one chat and let him know you do not view him in a way which can lead to anything but pure friendship. Hopeful he will be mature enough to understand that friendship is all you desire out of this relationship. \n  \nNow on the other hand if he ends up being a DICK about it you can just simply cut him off and then ignore him. I hope I helped
522752
First, understand truly the view points of each one individually, and why they're angry with the other.  Then, get them together in a neutral place and YOU do the talking.. say.. this is how A feels, and this is how B feels.  And explain to them that you will not take sides, and that you will not talk to either of them until they've resolved their differences.  It's the best way to get them back to being friends, and it's also the best way to maintain your integrity.
498082
ok all you half to do is to try to avoid them if u dont want to be friends any more.  or  you could try and fit in with them and try to be like them even if it is not like your self.  but if you dont wannt  to be friends just dont talk to them anymore.
5765
you can tell her that you and her don't connect and tell her it would be better to see other people.if that doesn't work then tell her it is time to see other people.you can ask nicely or meanly.you have to coose.
778604
The best thing to do if and when you encounter such a situation is simply ignore them... 99.9% of the time they will soon leave you alone. Remember, you can always remove the person from your Friend List (they will then no longer be able to add Comments to your Profile page), delete any Comments they leave on your Profile page, and you can even delete any messages they send you via the MySpace Mail system without opening them. By NOT responding to offending user (i.e., NOT giving them any attention, NOT letting them get a "rise" out of you), most people will simply go away. \nYou may also view their profile and click "Block User", which will prevent them from contacting you. Annoying people get bored very fast when you don't allow them to annoy you.\n\nIf it doesn't stop contact myspace customer service they will help you!!! \n\nGood Luck!!!
270506
okay, the only way to get past this is to let your friend be friends with them... let's be honest if you completely make your only friend stay away from them she may end up disliking you for making her pick sides.
588406
tell her to get the hell off of ya...your not interested in her that way...you just want to be friends and if she doesnt want just that break the friendship off
452485
i have a friend doing the exact same thing. dump her. but only if she's a bit(h. if she's nice, don't. but if you deside to (and you totally can) don't put the blame on anyone. Just say you don't like how the friendship has gone, and your really not comftordable with the situation. so you think it best if you don't hang out anymore. tell her that, and tell her your leaving the friendship with overall good feelings, and that you like her, but that you really just need to end it, and leave it at that. she doesn't need any other reasons, Don't put the blame on her, or you, otherwise she will be mean about it.
253215
I think your instinct is totally on. Let sleeping dogs lie. Now, how do we stop the propaganda that happened years ago? You have to prove to these people and show them the real you. Your peers must be part elephant, for them to remember and hang on to, 2 year old gossip! Are you sure that someone isn't keeping the gossip alive by some chance? That may be your problem. Any how, talk is cheap. Action speak louder than words. When you go to school Monday, you raise your head high, brush your pearly whites and smile. Make eye contact and start saying hi. If the chance presents itself, do favors or small tasks that could help them out. Waiting this long to try to correct a problem has put you in a bad position. But not a permanent position. Following this simple guide line, you will be alright. As far as your friend, the next time something like this happens, talk to her right away. It sounds like to me, she could be jealous of you, and want you to be her friend alone. But you can change that too. Just include her in with the things you and your new friends will be doing. Now its all left up to you, to take charge and end this once and for all. You go Girrrl.........!
368981
well give that person a answer and tell your friend to stop the next time you will ask that person
9025
Be a friend, be yourself, it has to go both ways and just remember that there aren't too many people who don't want any friends so it's really a lot easier than it may seem.
702118
just tell her that you feel like you both have grown apart and no longer have the same interests and that you don't want to be friends anymore or hang out. people usually will leave you alone if you say you don't want to be friends anymore. if you don't feel comfortable telling her in person, then email her or call her up on the phone. telling her is better than trying to avoid her. some people need bigger hints.
882119
Just ignore him and don't react to any of his comments as long as he knows he's getting to you he will continue the minute he knows that you absolutely don't care what he says it will burn him up and he'll stop..Tell the person who relates these messages to you to stop ..and you don't want to hear anything that comes from this person.And honestly what kind of friend is this that tells you hurtfull things..really now..
518089
Tell him that life isn't as bad as it seems. He needs to look at the bright side of eveerything. Do you really want to stop being his friend because he is someone who doesn't see the good of things? Think about it. You said you were friends. Don't let him go because of his problems. Help him through it. Make your friend let him know gently that they don't have a chance. Just do things lightly, and think more about him. Don't ditch the dude for his personal things he needs to take care of.