My girlfriend which I love has gotten bored of me. WHat do I do?
553955
There is ALWAYS time for things that are important enough. I suggest you do something to spice things up. Try something romantic...like secret admirer notes left for her....or try something different. Perhaps she has asked you to do something that you have said "no" to. Well....do it. Surprise her! That's what she's asking of you. \n\nMake dinner or have lunch/dinner/breakfast sent to her job/dorm room/home. Make a webcam video of you dancing aound seductively..it will either turn her on or make her laugh. Either way it's good. \n\nJust be consistent and maybe encourage her to help spice things up too. I mean....sheesh..ur probably a lil bored at this point too.
120143
If she doesn't love you, it sounds like you've already lost her.  I'm sorry, but I think you should end the relationship and find someone who loves you.
336737
I kinda` understand your girlfriend but the situation you`re caught in too...I think that the love chain brought the two of u back together everytime you two broke up.It`s hard to stick without your beloved.The fact of ignoring her love was not a good idea at all,even though i believe that u have done it just to satisfy you self-ego...and now you are the one who wants to get close to her again...After brokin up several times i think that it`s better to take it slow,show her that u care about her ,without pressuring her cause this will scare her away even though i`m sure that she still loves u...She`s hurt...and all u have to do it`s to gain her confidence again,dip a deeper place in her heart than u already have.By rushing her u will not receive anything.Do simple things for showing her how much she meens to u,that u can change and that the two of u together can work it out.It`s all about motivation and how much do u really want things to work out...and of course...u need love from both sides...\n I hope that my answer will help u in some way... :P
479953
You can find interesting things both of you can engage in.you shouldn't loose your self respect,no one is worth it.If you think he's still bored with u,then ask him what the problem is.there might be something he's not telling u.
528171
The problems you had in the past relationship you had with her will come back....its a routine your stuck into ...you are used to her , she likes another guy ..let time pass...let her go and see if its really love you 2 share ...from my point of you no its not love
1005258
You are very strong for asking this question. You are certainly not asking for too much. This is not a problem she has with you, but a problem she has with commitment. She, for some reason, is not prepared to be as selfless and giving in a relationship as you have been with her. Maybe something is going on with her that is , creating this distance between the two of you. All though you probably already have, I suggest that you confront her and ask if their is an outside issue. If there is an outside issue and you help her through it, then you're relationship will be sstronger than ever. Best of luck to you!
251846
Perhaps you are taking away the "thrill of the chase" for her.  Try not to show your interest in her for a while - call once a week, visit her once every couple of weeks, keep everything friendly, don't profess your love for her.  After a while, she'll start to miss the person who was always right there - YOU!
1064054
Have you tried to talk with your girlfriend about how you feel? When my sweetie feels like nothing is special, she talks with me and says "I miss when we used to ..." or "I feel like we are in a rut, do you think so too?" She usually gets the ball rolling and brings her dissatisfaction with the status quo to my attention. You can do the same. \n\nAnother idea is for each of you to list all the things you like and don't like about the relationship and compare your lists. You probably already know this, but when sharing your lists, do so in a positive and non-confrontational way.\n\nThen again, if this all sounds like too much work, figure out what you would like in the relationship and talk with her about that.\n\nJC
1031272
Spend more time with her, and talk to her more, you should be talking a lot anyway because shes your girlfriend, she might be hiding the fact tht shes upset youguys dont talk much.
385680
If you try to dig it further, you will obviously find a lot of proof to believe that she was completely distracted from your love relationship. She was just trying to keep you as a back up. I can say that because, from my experience, I know that these things happen when it doesn't even matter for her if you stay with her or not. You can be sure of one thing that she is one of the worst girls in the world. So, please try to control yourself and forget her bit by bit.\n\nYou have done the perfect thing. Just think of it! If someone has feelings for you, she will obviously try to make you happy and if you do not like something, she will try not to do so. But things are totally reversed here. So, you can be sure that she does not love you anymore. And you also should not be with her anymore.\n\nBest of luck!
427199
It sounds as though she is no longer interested in you.  Find yourself a nice girl and don't waste your time on this one.
1061956
well, u've been together for 7 years, so for sure u have reached a high level of honesty between u guyz.. so, ask her whats wrong.. tell her how u feel.. i think after 7 years there will be no use of playing games.. just ask her straight forward!
821901
Hate to break it to you but you are an "after thought" to her....She came over cause she was "bored."  You are too special to be a replacement for whatever she has lost.  She lost you before, heck she walked away. You need to do the same.  I know from life that girls like that DON'T want guys that are always there.  They just use them.  Sorry for the tough answer but I am answering as if I was talking to my son, which I have done and he is now 23.
831393
Hi Friend\n\nI think its good question.\n\nwhy do not you discuss your problem with her.so you can come to a conclusion.were things are not the same.whether communication or you both have lost interest in each other.Try going out with other friends. go with them where you would have preferred to take her and not anybody else.(some good movie etc) Because they can be many reasons.\nI personally think you should give each other some space and latter share your feeling with each other and check-.once you are sure about your feeling then only decide about Marriage.
869542
find a way to let go of her\n\nif shes doing that, you wouldnt really want to be with her anyway\n\nmove on and replace her with somebody who really loves you for you and wont cheat on you like that...and then lie to you about it\n\ngood luck with whatever you decide to do
402326
If your wife is acting like she doesn't care for you anymore then you need to sit down and have a talk.  Tell her that you are feeling like things are changing between you to and state your feelings towards her.  Ask her how she feels about you and if things have changed.  If she is losing interest in you then ask her if she would like to work out the problems she is having with you.  If she wants to move on then let her and you then do the same.  You nay have grown apart and their might be nothing you can do at this point but communication is a great start.
47191
She's not really interested in you. Move on and find someone who loves you.