When I came on my gf's face I loved it but I also felt a bit of sympathy and felt sorry for her? why?
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coz if u were her, probably you wouldn't want this to be done to you.\nwould you give her oral sex? if not then ur selfish n that's why ur guilty\n\nif u believe in (wat u do always comes back to you) then you'll be at the receiving end in your later life!
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It sounds like she is really into you.  Sometimes you can't really tell how someone feels about you when you are in the moment, but to me it sounds like she is really hitting on you.  You should try it out if you really want to.  I mean, even if the two of you are depressed and that leads to something, it's not bad in my opinion.  Leaning on someone and enjoying someone can be very therapudic, and exploring that side of sexuality might be a once in a lifetime experience for you.
448757
try it on yourself with a cucumber , then you will know how it feels....ask her again later ;-)
808692
Well, I get bored reading your case, but I'm also having a very bad emotional day, I just want to get out from my apartment and find a girl that really loves me, because my girlfriend doen't appreciate me. \nWell, try to have a nice day, I just want to tell somebody what I was feeling at this moments. See you
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No, I don't think so. I'm a girl, and honestly feel 2 things, 1) if it's "small" and he knows how to make it enjoyable for both, then it definately doesn't matter the size, and 2), to big can hurt, but the right kind of big is great, and there's nothing wrong with liking it, or prefering it, even if you would except the same person with a smaller one. Be glad she likes you the way you are though! Just make sure you don't go TO deep!
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You didn't do anything wrong if you discovered the letter the way say you did.  Tell her you saw it & read it, you guys need to talk about this before something happens and makes it seem worse than it really is.  Don't let the  "snowball effect" do this to your relationship if you really have feelings for her! Good luck :-)
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It's not wrong that you feel that way.  Anyone in your shoes would need relief.  But it would be wrong if you actually did it. Talking to your gf about it would be a great idea, but do it in an open honest, nonthreatening way. It would be a compliment to her to know that you miss her (and want her) but you are being faithful to her anyway, and that you love her enough to be honest with her. (Not to mention she is having a hard time with this too just like you, and hearing you talk about it would also encourage her)  \n\nAlso you do have my props for doing the right thing so far. Again anyone in you situation who would claim not to "need relief" would be lying. It is a hard thing to go through and I commend you for being honest. I also commend you for being faithful up to this point. Just hang in there. You might consider this a test in your relatinship. If you do remain faithful, trust me when she gets back you will reap benefits (in every way) far greater than what you have had before. Trust me I've been there.  It's hard, but as hard as it  is it's well worth it! On the other hand, if you do have an affair, (at this point) it will only be out of weakness and not love or even desire, and you will hate yourself and be miserable for doing it, so spare yourself the misery and don't. \n\nAlso in the meantime, the best way you can deal with the struggle is to pray about it. If that sounds creepy to you, try porn (if you must, though you'll feel bad later for it). In all honesty, I've tried both and prayer actually works alot better (God even takes away feelings of guilt and frustration, whereas porn adds them)But that's just my experience. If you don't believe me try for yourself.
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I think it may be that she is (or was) lonely and her actions were due to that fact. She may have realised she needed attention, moreso than wanting you and was afraid or embarassed to admit that to you and so simply rebuffed your "moves" later. I think she cares about your feelings & enjoys your company but did not want to hurt you because she realises she doesnt beleive a relationship cld work between the 2 of you.\n\nI doubt she likes to make you suffer, though it may seem that way, shes just trying to spare your feelings and does not, most likely realise that she is hurting you in another way all the same.
226249
Sexually it was not that great. It hurt. Emotionally however it was great. I am still with the same guy and love him very much.
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Nope you're not a bad person.  I had a similiar thing happen, my ex calls me all the time too, we cannot be more than just social friends and I honestly don't feel pain or sympathy when he breaks up or fights with his new girlfriend.  I listen and say I'm sorry for him but I don't feel alot of sympathy.   When people hurt you like that by breaking up, you learn and grow and we've grown past our feelings for them and moved on.
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i do feel it in my stomache when im with my girlfriend.. especially when i hold or hug her
558353
Hello nic@nite! This sometimes happens wen we are missing something in our lives that we once cherished a lot! This is a way by which our subconscious lets us know that we need to do something to fill that void. It may or may not have anything to do wth that girl, but it surely has a lot to do with how you felt wen u were with her. Pls do a bit of intropspection and find out wat aspect in ur life is 'suffering', be it emotional, n so on.. I'm sure dat u wont be hurting again if you do dat, as it is just a reminder to let you know that u need someone or maybe just urself to fill that void. Blessings!
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Sweetie, why do you have two unhappy faces, and you think that something is wrong with you?? If that is what you enjoy, then go with it..You might see from one of my questions that I absolutely love to slip my tongue in there!\n\nIt is so exciting to watch a woman swirm with enjoyment when I am doing that to her :) Mainly because it is so BAD :P Bad in a good way!!
103907
Yes you got upset over nothing. She must be pretty and if you are gonna date her then you have to accept that other men will be looking at her when you two are together. As long as the guy doesn't say anything disrespectful then don't worry about it.
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I do feel that was right because you would want your friend to do the same thing if the roles were reversed. He obviously would of done something behind his girlfriend's back if you had given him the green light.\n\nShe is better off. Don't feel bad they broke up or guilty that you told her. You did good. Don't let nobody tell you different.
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I guess she feels good that way. Isn't it so? And you like her?\nThen you should enjoy that she feels good. Or don't you ?\nSo, I see you do not like her so much. That's it. \nGot it ?
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Well you obviously love her, if not as a lover then surely as a friend.  The relief from not having to perform the act is quite common. \n\nActually, now that the pressure is off is the best time to determine exactly how you feel for each other. When she said its not working out means exactly that. The relationship as lovers/BFs is not what it should be or wants it to be. Let time pass on this. So you're not interested in other girls. So what? You don't have to be right now. Give it some time, a few months. See if your first GF still captures your thoughts as intensely then as they do now. Seeing other girls now would only confuse you more.