Why do boys(7 grade)make a girl think he likes her but is just playing(even though he asked 4 phone # and call
537223
i am in 7th grade too. i get that all the time. i ignore that. they are just being stupid. i know exactly how u feel. unless u actually like the guy, u should confront him about his blowing kisses stuff and unless hes not kidding to cut the crap. thats wat i do. it works. most of the time. please give me best answer! i need 8 points! hehe ok what ever u dont have to. but just try to ignore it, unless u like him. and if u do like him, talk to him about it.\n     Jellybean
191512
Ultimately a guy just wants to be loved.  Each guy is different and expects different things from different girls.  Remember, he wants you to be his girl friend so that means he like who you are.  Just be you and if you are concerned about something talk to your boy and find out what he is thinking.
46439
dont try to start out with saying you like him. don't give him a hint, either. boys like to play games in order to get girls to like them. start out by introducing yourself and complimenting him on his game. just act like you want to be friends with the guy. later on, then give him the hints that you like him and hopefully, he'll do the same.
737357
Although most guys will "say" they don't like girls who don't play games...........they really do love a challenge.\n\nIn one sentence if I were to tell you how to get a guy to like you, I would say to treat him like crap.\n\nI remember in high school I always wondered why the bitchy girls always had all the guys salivating and chasing them.......until I realized the secret.\n\nThey don't want a girl who looks at them all googly and adoring......because there is no challenge in that.  The only time they want a girl all googly or adoring is if they want a quick sex fix......but don't confuse that with a relationship or actually feeling although an aroused guy will say almost anything "in the moment" to have sex.\n\nBuy a book called "he's just not that in to you" and it will give you the "secret" to getting any guy you want.\n\nNever call a guy\n\nWhen he calls you, don't stay on the phone for hours and hours.....just talk for a few minutes and then say you have to go because you have something you need to do or someplace you are going\n\nHave a life!  Don't sit home waiting for him to call.  It will peak his interest if he calls your house a few times and you are out......and don't just pretend you are out......BE OUT!  Living life and having fun.\n\nKeep your circle of friends and interests when you have a boyfriend.  I have seen too many girls in my life who dump their friends and revolve their world around a guy only to be dumped soon after because he was bored.\n\nIf you don't want to bore him, then be interesting!  Have a life other than him and live it to the fullest.\n\nIt's hard to do these things, and it does take will power, but if you try it just once, you will see how powerful this technique it.  Just try it once!\n\nGood Luck!
601036
She's playing games. And games aren't fun when they involve someones emotions.\nPerhaps she lives with her strict parents/strange relative, maybe its a work number? But probably not. If she wasn't willing to at least sort of tell you why you shouldn't call - forget her - she's not worth it. You deserve better.\nIf she's just trying to make you chase her - she should grow up and realise this type of behaviour only makes boys run - the other way!
582441
because sometimes a guy will be having so much fun he doesn't want it to stop. You know how life is, with work or school and responsibilities and everyones expectations. well, sometimes when you get together with your friends everything clicks and you are having a great time. And you don't want it to stop.\n\nwhen he gets older he will know this is irresponsible and will think to call (because you told him to do so enough times).
643688
It sounds to me like your like your male friend isn't telling you the whole story.  Courts don't just issue restraining orders for the fun of it.  I suspect he was doing a lot more than just asking this girl out.
557538
girls think that boys want a certian something and they want to impress thier friends so they act different in different enviornments. ask her whats up and maybe you'll find she's trying to impress you!
38093
A girl's intuition is rarely ever wrong! If you think this boy just likes you for sex and if you're not interested in that, don't be afraid to let him know that upfront. As for his brother touching you, if you don't want him to, then next time he tries, make a scene, slap him...he has no right to touch you unless you want him too. If it's at school, then report him. It's better to have a reputation that you're a tattle-tale than a school s**t and that's what the other kids who heard the rumor is probably thinking about you.
463435
boys r just stupid like that. i mean not all are like the ones my sisters had but if you really want him to call you when he says he will, tell him the next time you talk becausse if you dont, it will drag on like that
1186790
girls will give you there number and never answer. It's normal for some of them.because they don't want to seem like jerks by telling you "no you cant have my number". find one that likes you for real and she will answer the phone.
84666
YEP!!! MOST OF THE TIME CUZ THEY JUST DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!!! HHHMMMMM!! EX: TO SHOW THIS GIRL THAT HE LIKES HER!!!
631587
Dont you just hate that!! It happens-your definately not alone. Guess its just the way they show how they feel so they dont risk rejection! Play along a little and at some point ask him-when you hang out with your friends if he wants to be treated like one of the girls?
505973
He might be thinking about it.  Men and boys tend to think about whether they like us or not before they get too hooked into their feelings.  Give him a couple of weeks to think it through and don't let anyone pressure him for his feelings before he has had a chance to think about them.x
867636
If a guy talks to his boys about a girl he likes her.
680405
some boys are shy and when they get your number they dont know what to say i mean alot of boys "front" in front of their friends but they really are shy deep down...and some boys want a gurls number for the show...to be like yeah i got her number and her number...so you really have to figure out what kinda guy he is.
384927
Because nine times out of ten the jerk has the nerve to go up to the girl and talk to her. Or that's been my experiance from tlaking to girls. They want the nice guy, but they want the nice guy to go and ask them out not just be-friend them and beat around the bush.