Have you ever caught your partner cheating? What did you do?
552289
Yes, and yes. I didn't kick their behinds though.(this has happened more than once) I simply told them to pack up, and get out of my residence. Get this,one of these women had the audacity to ask me to forgive her. I asked her if she saw a tattoo on my forehead that said "sucker."
358416
Unless they admit or you catch them at it - you cant find out.\n\nYou just have to trust your partner or you'll push them into the arms of someone else anyway.
305487
I beat up my boyfriend, punched him twice and rammed his head into a locker. He and everyone else learned never to cheat on me!
498116
It depends on your boyfriend.\nYou have to give us examples of the things he is doing that makes YOU think he is cheating and we can let you know from there.
804574
I have cheated everytime I am with someone. I think its because I haven't found someone who I CANT cheat on! When I do find this person I think that I will NEVER cheat again!!! BUT I will say I have NEVER BEEN CAUGHT!!! So NO ONE HAS been hurt!
928977
First, you need to be 200% sure that this is going on! Once you are certain, don't beat around the bush - it makes the entire situation that much harder to deal with. Confront your partner, but you need to have hard evidence. Pictures, whatever you can get. If you have no concrete evidence, he can deny it and turn the situation around on you.\n\nGood luck.
1071168
why do you think you are being cheated
316902
Sorry, you loose the game.\nYou got caught cheating.
1115110
Say "are you cheating"?
1178438
if ur fiance doesn't know about this then it is cheating!
753795
when my bf cheated on me he would be really nice to me sometimes for no reason and i later found out it was when his guilt hit.\nhe cut his hair and went shopping for new clothes (changed his look a bit) \n\nstarted telling many stories about this "old friend" of his\nwas very suspicious of me and always thought i was cheating on him.
449045
My personal opinion, is that if you are doing something of a sexual nature with someone who is NOT your partner, it is cheating unless you have the partner's consent.\n\nOtherwise, it is a betrayal. You wouldn't be getting "caught" if it weren't wrong for your situation. You wouldn't be hiding out if it were ok.
977880
I cheated my way through 6th-12th grades. We lit a palm tree on fire. I just brought the matches but they blamed me for lighting it.  My friend and I threw oranges at a school bus. He broke the window. I took the blame. I spent two weeks after school picking up trash to pay for it. I put wood puddy in the door locks of my classroom on the weekend. I put a fire cracker in the fire alarm, that worked well. I accidentally lit the dumpster on fire with a cigarette. The fire trucks came. I used to pick the lock on the door to all the balls and games on the weekend. I would leave the window unlocked on the classroom when the teacher wasn't looking and climb in there on the weekend. Never got caught doing all those. I shot marbles from the roof of the house across the orange grove at windows when there was a PTA meeting going on. Yep I got busted for that. My house was the first place they looked. I could name a few other items but I'm starting to look bad. lmao. Let's just say I got caught doing something at about age 11 and my criminal days were done for good. Just the cheating my way through school stuck. I seem to have turned out ok without it. Sometimes the trouble makers and the cheaters are just really bored smart kids.\n.
1058337
Yes, I have been cheated on.  But if you ever met my man you would have never guessed that he would ever have done that.  We are still together, he realized what he did was wrong and promised that he would never do that again or I was gone with no second thought. It really hurt me that he would do somthing like that to me, I didn't even find out until a year after it happened. There were some signs though, he became very jealous when I was with any guy or had them in my cell phone and he didn't know them.  There also pictures of the two of them together, he said at first she was just a friend.  Even when I talked to his friends they were shocked.  There is no way to prevent cheating if a guy is going to do it he will.  He told me the reason why he cheated on me was because he said that he wanted to be with me so bad and thought it was me, he was gone for a week. Right before he left I spent a week with him at his lake house and he was telling me that he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me.  Well it has been 3 years now since he cheated on me and I love him with all my heart, and he feels the same way. He knows now that even if I hear a rumour that he was with another girl it's over and he is scared of loosing me.  That was why I stayed with him when I told him that it was over and I never wanted to see him again, it took him 10 minutes for him to leave and he left with tears. then 3 hours later his roomate called me nervous becasue he hadn't seen him and it was 2 am in the middle of the week. I ended up calling him and had been sitting out my window crying  thinking what is he going to do because he really felt that his life was over becasue of a dumb mistake, thats when I knew that he  would be faithful.  I knew that he really loved me.  I hope this helped!
1040237
Man! That's a tough one! But the fact of the matter is that the boyfriend was cheating! Doesnt matter if it was with another man, woman or she-male. So I would kick some butt then dump the boyfriend.
263500
You could have tried, but he may not have believed you.  Infidelity by a loved one usually is something that many people need to see for their own eyes to believe.  Especially, if the marriage seems fine to them on the outside.
344939
Although you may not want to admit it to yourself, your partner may just want out of the relationship. They were not thinking of you when they cheated, and now they don't want to be forgiven. Maybe they hoped that you would find out and then break it off so they didn't have to do it. Besides, you should find someone who won't cheat on you. You deserve to be able to trust your lover.