should i tell my boyfriend that my ex is emailing me?
548583
I think you shouldnt even talk to your ex at all just ignore him, and you should tell your bf because he should know but just tell him andim sure it will be okay i mean you  you would want to know if his ex was emailing him right?
1186709
It sounds cool to me.  I have multiple ex bfs in my phone and I would never cheat on a guy even if I was unhappy with the relationship.  Unfortunately sometimes ex contact is necessary.  Don't fret.
129333
He is contacting you because you are allowing it.  Don't answer his emails.  Don't communicate back, he will get the point eventually.
856615
I would confront your EX and tell him that if he keeps stalking you then you will report him to the police.  It's just that simple.  What he's doing is creepy..not romantic.  Good luck to you.
1250
Not necessarily. I bring up my ex sometimes to people and its not that I am not over her because I totally am, but its just that most of his experiences in relationships(good or bad) may have been with her and that is all he knows. I know this be the case with me. I know I am over my ex because we still keep in contact and when she calls me or I call her I have nothing to talk about. Just lots of awkward silence. Ask him and see what he says. Have a heart to heart.
427640
Look You need to rid yourself of this mess . Your so called friend is no friend if she has to email some girl that has no connection to her what so ever and tell her something that will she does not need to know anyway . She is obviously jealous of the new relationship and has no backbone if she can't tell the person she is treating who she is and why she needs to tell her all the crap she has been holding on to from her past relationship . Tell her if she doesn't confess you will tell her ex the truth and get out of this mess .
924384
It sounds as though the two of you really need to sit down and talk, tete-a-tete.  The fact that you have been off and on for a couple of years, he's texting you now after a recent breakup, taking you to lunch, etc. and now you don't know what his motive is - just try to talk about it.\nI think that's the only way you are going to be able to truly get to the bottom of your dilemma.
1068394
Are you kidding me? My lady would have my nuts for earrings if I tried to pull something like that. No other women comes before her. Ex-lovers...Nope, don't even bring the name up. Not if i want to sit and listen to her bitch at me for the entire night. If she even thought I was emailing and having open communication with an ex. It would be my a**.  You are his women and he should have at least a speck of decency and stop it all together. If he does not your relationship will break down for sure.
268336
I'm in the same situation as you so I understand your feelings very well. \nI think if his ex knows about you, if she knows that he is in a serious relationship with you, then I think you don't have to worry so much about them keeping in touch. But if you are feeling uncomfortable with it, you should tell him that you're concerned about what's going on between him and her. You shouldn't stay quiet as if you don't mind whatever he does. He seems to be very serious about you though you never know what his true feelings are. He must be in love with you, but he still could have feelings toward his ex, and his ex still could have feelings toward him. It happens. \nSo....just open up ur mind and talk to him honestly.
488516
Maybe he did not get the email.  Maybe the Internet Dog ate it.  Don't leave things up to technology.  Call him and ask him straight out what he thinks about your relationship.
168374
I think that you should just tell him how you feel... because you will always play the "what-if" game.  You are jealous that his girlfriend is getting something that you once had and will always lust over.  He was probably your soulmate and you gave it all away when you broke off your communication.  Should have just gone with the long distance thing.  You should talk to him... maybe he feels the same way.  By the way, what is the new distance between u two?
729285
If you don't care for him anymore, you may want to ask him to stop texting/IMing you.  Your current boyfriend might not like it that the ex is still in the picture and might not take your word for it that the ex means nothing to you as appearances can be misleading.\n\nIf you've moved on, does it really matter what his feelings are?  Besides, he can't care for you that much if he's swayed so easily and talks against you at the drop of a hat then apologizes later to you in private.  If he loved you, he'd stick up for you in front of his friends.  He sounds wishy-wasy and not a man you want in your life anyway.\n\nBid him begone and be happy with your new beau.
240982
No, I don't talk to any of my ex's.. but one thing I would do is ask the ex what his intention to get in touch with oyou after so long is.  He is probably unhappy in his relationship and wants to bring you into his life for some reason.. If he was single, I would think his intentions were okay.. but since he IS in ANOTHER relationship, he needs to break up with his current GF and then pursuit hsi ex's.  Word of advice for you-- tell your current significant other!  He should know from you then ever finding out by accident.  Good luck with this sticky situation!!!
1149986
Honestly, just ask them. If you sneak around to get it, it may kill any affection the other person has for you. I wouldnt want someone emailing me if I didnt give them my address.
964321
I don't think it's right. I mean would you RALLY be ok with him e-mailing his ex? Aren't you scared old memories may come back he wants her again?\nThat's how he feels....\nHe may trust YOU but who knows what your ex wants, that's why your boyfriend doesn't trust guys (my hubby doesn't either). Maybe he's just scared you'll go back to him....\nJust let him go and write other friends, no exes...
402013
why u emailed her....i think it was better if u call her or met her and tell her what in ur heart is...but if she doesnt wanna see u or she doesnt like to hear ur voice then its better to keep it as a story of ur life and forget her
195992
Well now, I don't know. I mean he is your Ex, surely he would be in a position to know. Maybe you should ask yourself why you've reacted so strongly to something you should probably just laugh off.\n\nIs it possible he's hitting a little close to the bone?