IF its so bad to be shallow than why?
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the human race preaches many ideas but never follows them themselves.
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So, you think it's shallow if he likes you now, but you want to play games like "hard to get"?  That is stupid.  If he likes you better now, it might be because you lost weight, or, more likely, because you have more confidence now.  Or, he might feel exactly the same about you--can you handle that?
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Dump her now.  Not because she is bad for you, but becuase you are bad for HER.  If you are so shallow that you can't get past her waist size, then get away from her.  If she has no self respect because of her weight, she won't have the guts to leave first, you do it.
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Hmm. Should I go with the "he's rich" side of my superficial personality, or be repulsed by the "he's fat" side of my superficiality?\n\nYou are very shallow and you will get everything you deserve.
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At this point ...no.  If there is someone better out there for me...why should I be with someone who does not totally satisfy me?  Especially in some cases of women I know who settle for anything...its so sad that they have that low self esteem to take whatever comes there way.  I think I deserve better than that. I definitely would not want to be someone's good enough. I want to be the one, the best they've had.
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Just tell him you are too shallow to continue the relationship. Quick, simple, and apparently true.
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because they are shallow i bet you are a fun an nice person but some people are raised to think they are better than every one else. i know how you feel i am alone my self its not a good feeling not to have any friends you can talk too.
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Cause then you're just using the system.  Being "good" is good for you anyways, no matter what you believe in. So, why not strive to be a better person?
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Never put beauty above everything else...\n\nEveryone wants to look nice, beautiful, sexy, muscular (for men)!!\n\nI have beautiful, drop-dead gorgeous friends who are just so tired of shaking off men's advances. At least these girls arent shallow.\n\nthe shallow beauties are just beautiful shells, empty/filthy inside...you'll never enjoy a meaningful life with girls like these.\n\nI'll go for brains, if beauty comes in a package ...well that's a bonus.
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NOPE! Thats how you know someone really loves YOU. Your personality is the catcher unless someone is shallow.
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well...it depends what kind of girl you're talking to but no matter what do not do stupid immature guy stuff it just makes you look stupid. also, do not just come up to us and tell us that we're beautiful we don't like that it makes you look shallow...just talk about little stuff and dont try to find out all kinds of personal stuff...they feel too much presure that way, and also, i think that you are very smart because you are asking for advice, which is better than a lot of guys i know!!
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NO,if that is a situation that you are in then get out. You can run yourself crazy trying to figure out if whether or not you are good enough. With people like that,they want you to feel that way just so you can feel like you need them. They string you along because they know that you Will do whatever they want you to do. And,if you really wasn't good enough for them they would have been let you go,and found someone Else. This is a person who has low self esteem himself,and he is just bring you right down with him
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I guess I can answer that, somewhat. That is a very deep question. I see it as this, If you run around and act as if others feelings and and others belongings mean nothing strictly because you dont believe in a God or after life then that makes for a shallow person. You still have yourself to wake up to. You still have children to raise. Maybe when they get older they will choose to embrace a religious figure. That should be there choice. I dont shove religion down my Childs throat, I also do not denounce religion of any sort. I still have myself to wake up to. I guess it boils down to your morals. Chris...
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Handle them as you would any shallow person, with a grain of salt. If you can be convinced by someone's shallowness, does that not make you also shallow. Do you believe everything you read, hear and see? \n There are many deceptions in this world and the more charming someone is, it tends to follow that there lives are lived from one lie to another.\n I have never understood why people can allow themselves to be so down on themselves that these charlatans can give them soem reason to hope or whatever. \n"Surely nobody would be a charlatan who could afford to be sincere."   Emerson, Ralph Waldo
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Remember, you teach people how to treat you. Respect yourself and they will learn to do the same. Make your position clear as to what you want and expect from a friend and what they can expect from you as a friend. Peer pressure can be very powerful if you allow it to be, so don't. It's your choice. The only person guaranteed to be with you for the rest of your life is the one you see in the mirror each day. Don't allow their immaturity or less than sincere intentions to change who and what you are. Shallow friends are not friends at all. Be you and be happy.
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i think its a little shallow, there should be something more than that or the sex, and if its so important but u like him, then u would find a way to ovecome it
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no... if someone isnt as interested as you as they are in your friends and they are retarded enough to show it\n\nthats two good reasons why you probably wouldnt be happy in the long run\n\nWith that i leave the real choice up to u