Wives would you have a problem with their husband spending time alone with a single attractive woman?
553798
I know my husband isn't the cheating type, but at the same time why would you want to put a person in the position to have to make that choice? The temptation is to big if he has already said that he is attracted to her. So no I wouldn't have it!!
891426
I think it would be more difficult than anyone would imagine. What if all the wives are in a bad mood? Pissed off at you? Pregnant? Fighting with eachother? Sounds pretty horrible for the guy if you ask me.
520924
I have no problem with bisexuality per se. I do have a problem with sharing my man. I don't want to share him with anyone, male or female.
841001
Okay, I do see both sides of the story here.  In my opinion, sexual attractiveness IS important in the marriage and I think it's only right that each spouse make themselves attractive to each other.  Thank God this is a non issue in our marriage as my husband and I are both very active physically but your wife is also right.  You should love her unconditionally no matter what.  Though this doesn't mean that if she gains 100 lbs you would still find her attractive.\n\nNow think about this scenario.  What if she got into a terrible accident and her face and body got  disfigured as a result.  Would you still love her then?
542613
What does the husband think? If there is an understanding between the two of them, then I think its fine. Whatever her real agenda is going on a trip alone without her husband, if she does have something hidden behind her sleeves, then its she is taking an advantage of her husband's trust. And if thats the case, I feel pity for her and the husband as well.
786970
I'm married and I don't envy single people. I don't pity them either, but my relationship is right for me. The people that envy others either do not appreciate what they have or cannot confront their own happiness to make a change.
715466
Men fool around with other women because of how they feel about themselves with that other person. It doesn't matter if the wife is better looking or more successful. If she doesn't take care of ALL of her husbands needs and he feels like he isn't getting his "respect" and his ego isn't being stroked by her then he will go be with the one that makes him feel like a champ. While it isn't a justification for infidelity ; it nevertheless is the usual culprit. He is getting something from the other woman that he just isn't getting at home and that isn't always sex.
516212
I think u need not ask.If u were married,would you dare intertain such a behaivour from your spouse?I gues not.Imagine, you being with a man who has an infidelity record, what makes you think that he will change?Singleness is the best time for self development.Recent moral systems makes us think that being alone means being lonely.Your pattern of thinking has been influenced by such,but you can still redeem yourself from such abuse.Inevitably, the right man which ethics and true love, will come along.Who knows, he might be someone you have neglected due to ou thinking that he didn't fit right into your scale?You will be suprised who it might be.Leave the rottern bugger alone.
273792
Sure...you see an attractive person of the opposite sex and maybe think about it, but as long as you don't follow through or make any attempt to actually do anything I think it's natural.  As a girl, I personally think guys are much more vulnerable to this type of thinking (maybe vulnerable isn't the best word, but you know what I mean).  Yes, it would be devasting to your wife/gf if she found you having an affair.  But just looking at an attractive person isn't bad.  But don't go off flirting with them or anything like that.  Use that energy on your wife/gf!
168590
no way does it affect sex life! sometimes you feel like going solo even when you are married, and it is totally fine!
815310
I know how you feel. I dated my first girlfriend for a year. Now I am married and my husband and I both check out the cute women walking down the street. He thinks its hot. We have even thought of bringing other women into bed with us. Though so far we haven't.
219758
No. But I'm not really attracted to my best friend's wife. If she was a supreme hottie, then maybe. If she was hotter than my fiancee, the probably. But that's on the opposite side of possibility.
298855
He may find these women exotic but it does not mean he'll leave you for one.  I see a lot of gorgeous women that I am attracted to but it doesn't mean I'm going to leave my wife for one of them.  It also means I would never settle down with one.  There are qualities about my wife that I found to be more suitable to spend the rest of my life with.  Men are very simple creatures.  After they have sex, sex is off their mind and what's left is reality, a woman you love for her being her or the woman you're done with.  The fact he's with you says he loves you for being you.  What is in question here is his respect for you.  Talk to him about it.
377783
It really depends on the problem. I think a man should stand by his wife only when it involves them two only. IF it involves other people, then the problem needs to be resolved as soon as possible.
849065
I believe men can't be friends with women.  Most situations, men just want more.  Women are the ones that stop or allow it.  It's just better that married men stay with their wives and ignore the single person.
1086457
It is wrong because one of them would not be his wife. I am not the type to castigate you for what you believe in and want to do, but i think a man should only do it with his wife.
786487
In a biblical sense, having lust for another woman is adultery.  Getting that out of the way, I do not believe noticing an attractive woman is cheating.  I can say that I truly solely desire my wife.  That does not mean I do not notice an attractive woman, nor does it mean I am not attracted to other women.  It means that I do not want to have sex with anyone other than my wife.