is it better to play sweet and charming or hard to get when getting the girl??
546775
Your approach should depend on the personality of the girl. Just remember that if she only likes men who appear inattentive, she has some sort of pshychological hangup. So if you happen to make her your own, you will have to live with that hangup your whole life. In this situation, however, I don't know the case exactly. Need more specifics.
687521
yeah thats the way to go but what if the girl goes for your looks and money? then what? also you have it all wrong...nice guys never finish last...its all a myth
640460
Neither are really that important. It's more important that you are sweet and fun to be with. If a girl is hot and smart but a b*tch, she's still a b*tch.
101148
It's better to approach the girl rather than try to get her to approach you.  \n\nBut if you really must have it that way.... get famous, or get a wingman to talk the girl and bring her to you.
391162
court the girl you like!
391936
if its going to happen then try and prolong the wait for him as long as you can.guys love it when a gal plays hard to get,especially if the playing hard, is done in a sexy and flirty manner.Then when you finally give it up,he'll be loving every bit of it.and give it to you right.\nEnjoy!
38752
Well not all ladies are the same and you need to clarify that . Can I ask a question? Men, why do you opt for $*X instead of more than that? Does this mean you base your preference by how a girl is hot and not how intelligent she really is?Because we all know how guys yearn for $*X! Anyways you just have to find that special girl but it will take time all you have to do is be patient.\n\nLol I like that question! Maybe you might consider the fact that girls may actually just want to be just friends instead of being in a relationship. I know I told plenty of guys that but I meant it. I didn't want him as my boyfriend but I didn't want to stop talking to him, so I told him we can be just friends. He was a nice guy! Some girls just play hard to get because they know how weak you guys can get. The reason why some might play games with you or send wrong messages is because she wants to be wanted and craving the attention. But those are only SOME girls! lol\n           lovely_smiley_face@yahoo.com
1094891
Hmmmmmm... now thats something you dont hear anymore...Courtship.\n\nIn the old days, courtship was a skill that had to be honed to a fine edge to be able to win the lady's hand. Today..if your just looking for a date....for dinner, a movie or whatever, you can pretty much just smile at the guy and he's yours to do with as you will.\n\nCourtship on the other hand, pretty much assumes that you have already picked the person that you want to fall in love with. Now, its up to you to find a way to woo the sweet lass and make her fall in love with you. \n\nNothing wins a womans heart like the written word. Not only do you need to be able to express yourself well, but what you write must have the ring of truth and sincerity in it. Flowers, courtesy, cleanliness and gentlemanly manners go a long way, but, it is always what you write that touches the heart.
943875
This is a tough one because most girls want a male that is confident, w/ a good sense of humor. If you can make her laugh, you've taken the first step.\nTry to approach her w/ something you have in common ... then introduce yourself. You'll know if she warms up to you. The right girls have a way to make getting acquainted feel natural.\nBear in mind it's "hit or miss" w/ ANY guy that tries to 'explore' a girl striking his fancy. Rejection happens, but don't blame yourself ... it's her loss.
984783
Play hard to get, or maybe be seen with someone else........you never know she may take notice then because she has realised that you are not chasing her (which no doubt she has noticed). \n\nShe might be playing hard to get as well.  It can't hurt to try this and you never know you might end up with someone who likes you and vice versa.
575264
well most girls go for looks in guys but to tell you the truth  girls should go for personality and how that guy treats her becuase most of the really good looking guys are jerks and will most likely will dump the girl and leave her to drown in her tears or he will not even go out with her so try to be the really nice guys that way you don't have to be good looking just nice and charming
749225
I don't really believe in playing games. You should mean what you say. If a guy told me that, I think I would take his word for it. The good news is that she held your hand. She may not be calling you so that she doesn't scare you off. She probably is playing it cool in hopes that you may change your mind. I think that you should tell her that you were playing hard to get. Tell her what you REALLY think and how you REALLY feel. If she liked you in the first place, I doubt that ruined your chances. Just find out how she feels too. Maybe she was also playing hard to get....
58896
Well, yes. You have to go out and find HER. And the meaning of NICE differs according to your preferrences. Others think one girl maybe nice does not neccesarily mean that you will find her nice. It's all up to you. So, good luck.
144260
Dont be in such a hurry to get a girl.\nLook around.
968897
Of course, you need to play hard to get right back at her.  Girls always want what they can't have.  Ask her out less often, and be with her less often, but still let her know that you are still interested in her.  Maybe it is just going to take her a while to get her head around the idea of dating out, or just going out with you.
426118
You get a girl through personality. Really if a girl just liked you for looks, she wouldnt be worth anything anyways. Just be yourself and you'll get a girl. Just be patient. I did...and I got the best guy in the world.
212375
It like this if you do nothing you will receive nothing. Bottom lines is if you want something go after it. And oh yea "My god man grow a pair" kidding but you need to gain some (comfidence) you have heard comfidence is sexy, and a turn on for lots of girls. But remember cockness is a trun off.