I am married almost 14 years. I have met my soulmate in life. I am a 44 year old male and in love with another
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It will hurt her.  You know that right?  \nBut, as unfortunate as it is, it does happen.  That doesn't mean you can't be gentle about it.  You just need to sit down and be honest with her.  The longer you wait, the harder it will be on all three of you.  \nMy ex husband found someone else while we were together and he told me immediately, before he cheated.  I respect that he did at least leave me BEFORE he went to her.  PLEASE Consider that fact if it's not too late.
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I am married.  I love him and still lust him, with all my heart.  He turns me on both mentally and physically and he makes me feel like I am special in his life too by doing things for me all the time.  He's kind, gentle, honest and hard working.  He makes me laugh, he loves me unconditionally ... my heart still skips a beat when I think of him :) ... just talking about him here, makes me smile and realize how lucky I am to have my soul mate with me!!
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somebody who has found there soulmate.true love
209407
18 years and going and going and going...dated for 3 and a half years before marriage. Still very happy
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I meet my boyfriend on the internet and we have been together for 13  months, he is 37 years old and i am 17, just wait and mrs right will ome along soon, trust me i waited and found my man, its worth it.
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I think I have found my soulmate...seriously dood....yeah I believe they exists...but I don't think it's fate...you can't just sit and wait for love to happen...it ain't about to knock on your door...just go with the flow, and if you happen to find your soulmate kudos to you....
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Yes, you can. When the difference is only one or two years, it's basically the same age bracket. I am married to a woman who is two years older and we feel like we are the same age.\nThe only problem you might expect is when you are, say 11, and the girl is 12. Then it is obvious that the love is more likely to be infatuation rather than love, and the age difference might mean the two people go in completely opposite directions.\nOther than that, you are probably fine.You are of the same generation, with the same cultural values, so it can be definitely alright between you.\nGood Luck.
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I believe age has no difference when it comes to loving someone. If you're married and have no intention to part with your present wife, don't make any promises to that girl which you can't keep. If you're single and this romance might develop into something else, do go ahead and don't let this chance pass by you. I have a son with a man who's 20 years older than me. He was lying to me about being divorced and we spend 2 years living together as man and wife. When I had a baby, I found out he was married and had a wife in another country. We're no longer together, but I tell you age has nothing to do with this. I love every moment we spent together except for his lies that screwed up my whole life. Don't do this to the girl you liked, but definitely enjoy every moment of this feeling if it's rightfully yours regardless of the age difference. Good luck! Nika
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After 36 years of marriage i guess i am just about qualified to answer you. It is a hard road to travel.. believe me!! you have to work at staying married for this long. It is not all sweetness and light as there have been times when i have wanted to just pack up and go but i have a deep sense of responsibility to my family, even though our kids are all grownups now.My wife has no doubt felt the same at times. So the answer is..Think about what you are going to do, before you do it and consider what effect it might have on your other half. Tell her that you love her often and show it!! Flowers and little treats work wonders. Keep your lust alive as sex is important even as you get older. It is the best way of communicating your love for each other. Do not have secrets that might hurt the other one. Be truthful. Make time for each other, hold hands when you walk out together. Sneak a kiss in public. Look after each other and always back each other up. I could go on and on but i am sure that you get the idea. I am 61 and she is 56. We still sleep together  sharing a double bed. Like I say,love, lust, hard work and consideration are important as is being freinds as well.
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Well....I am 11 years older than my husband.  I am 42, he is 31...it is wonderful.  Age makes no difference.  Embrace the things that you have in common and learn about each other through your differences...Enjoy life...it only happens once!
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I think you are a romantic. I hope that my soulmate exisits but I find that hard to believe. Please keep your wonderful outlook on life and love
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not a problem. married a woman that is 7 years older than me. and have a couple buddies that married older woman
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I am in love with my husband and I have been for years.  Is it child love?  Much better than first love and we will always be each others only love!  We are the beginning and the end to each others lives.
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I married the man I meet online. It has been 6 years we are what you call a normal couple we laugh we argue but what I notice with this relationship is there was an understaning of each other from getting to know each other mentally before physically.
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I married my high school sweet heart.  I am 33 and met my husband when I was a sophmore in HS.  We were married after graduation when we were 19.  We are however currently seperated and getting divorced.  I still love him very much and he says he still loves me and will be there for me forever but we've got so much history it kind of broke us apart instead of bringing us together.  He also during a time of depression I was going through turned to another woman to talk to - that didn't split us up, but that was a big factor.
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I think this.  Love is a beautiful thing and we are fortunate to find true love.  Unconditional love that lasts through all the trials of life.  It doesn't matter the years between the two as long as you two function well together and truely love each other.  Good luck, congratulations, and peace to you both.
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I think its possible to fall in love with that person's spirit or how you perceive their spirit and soul. It takes years sometimes to find out if a person is who you believe they are. As for a physical attraction, that will take an in person meeting. But maybe this is how you were supposed to meet your soulmate so take a chance otherwise you might regret it later and always wonder....what if?