WHY DO THEY SAY "you are heartless" when u aren't an emotional fool???should rather say u are brainlesss//
547490
I think you are already too "brainy" for these "emotional" ones when you analyse it like that. The word "heart" is often used in a metaphorical sense. But I agree with your basic question, though you probably did not mean it this way: that so-called "emotional intelligence" (EQ) or social intelligence is some sort of consolation price for those who didn't win big-time in the who-gets-which-brains roulette. Of course, this is all a metaphor as I don't believe that is at all random. They simply didn't *inherit* REAL intelligence (IQ). So they invented "social intelligence", which means they are real good in following the herd. Impressive.
302052
Bonny, some people are just mean. Love yourself first of all, then you will not be left feeling so empty; regardless of their actions (or lack of action). This world and the people in it will bleed every drop of love right out of you and hate you while they do it. Shield yourself from these emotional vampires; live for the joy of loving regardless of the payback. Pity those that are so ignorant and empty, dry and mean.
868240
Human nature, people don't always show they care for whatever reason when you are with them. Once you are not, they think "I miss them", then they decide to show how they feel.  Not always a wise choice in both cases, but, it's how humans are.
1056571
I would bet that something else is bothering him, and you triggered an emotion.  It doesn't mean that there is any deep seated issue, and it doesn't mean there isn't.  In situations like that, I ignore the instance and bring it up later in a neutral and non condemning manner.  Then I see how the individual reacts once removed from the situation emotionally.
1121809
We are saying that because we don't have a better "come-back."  It's means, "I don't care," even if the person really does care.  \n\nNowadays, people say it when they can't think of anything better to say or when they have been "beaten" in a discussion or an argument.  Saying "whatever" makes it seem as if the person doesn't value the topic as much and dissociates him/her from the topic, so the person can maintain their self-esteem.  Basically, it's a cheap way to get out of admitting that one is wrong.
547596
This question is to easy to answer;\n\nthose individuals that you are asking about have no respect for themselves... they recognize themselves as potential failures and therefore; they need to feel better about themselves... \n\nThe plain truth is that after the above thought goes through their unexercised brain..they haven't the ability, or knowledge to express their thoughts in any other fashion.\n\nYou, on the other hand, must be sensitive, caring, thoughtful and highly intelligent....thanx for making our world a better place in which to live.
765790
Just because you are depressed, it doesn't mean that you don't know right from wrong. I have a J.D degree, but I've never practiced before. However, I do know that, emotionally you can't control yourself, its how God created you. However, actions done BECAUSE of your emotions just show you have low self control, and you can't control your BEHAVIOR. Behavior and emotions are two different things. Emotions you can not control, but your behavior you can. Those who commit crimes because they are "depressed" are using a very simple and logical malady in everyday life to explain why they did something. They just don't want to pay the full price of the consequences of their Actions. When you're angry you think and say things you don't mean, however, it doesn't mean that you don't know what you're saying. You're saying it, because you're thinking out loud literally when you are upset. But under the Rational Choice Theory, people get so upset / angry that they don't think Thoroughly enough about their actions. So after they commit the action, they see it was wrong, and they need a scapegoat.
1085830
it doesnt really mean being heartless...but just talk to him and tell him the reason why you dont want him...have a talk...let him understand what you feel and give hin advice how to get over you...trust me...it can help...
434183
hiya\n\nactors hav 2 be stupid anyway i mean who wud be stupid enuf 2 be an actor even if they knew it WAS a stupid actor but they wouldn't hav 2 ACT stupid cos they wud alredi BE stpid but they r not sure if they r stupid so they just pretend to be stupid while acting and are stupid anyway for wanting to be a stupid or actor or an unstupid actory for that matter! THEY R JUST STUPID OK? lol even tho i want to be one which makes ME stupid! Unless i only want to ACT stupid which wud be stupid anyway! U get me? I know that you know that i know that you know that i know you know wat i am talkin bout! I don't know wat i'm talking about n i am getin confused n tounge-tied n the word 'StuPID' doesn't make sense any more cos i hav sed it 2 many times n my fingertips are hurting from typing so much so i will just go now c ya xxxxxxxxx
1031275
These are stereotypes.  The saying asks us not to believe them.\n\nSeems simple enough to me!
400153
I have often seen these mistakes go unchecked by the teachers at my daughter's school. When I asked why, I was told that the thoughts and emotions being expressed were more important than the manner in which they were expressed. I disagree. I cannot take a person seriously if they cannot spell and punctuate. I'm afraid I automatically assume they are stupid. Sorry!
737181
It sounds like a line from the old "Star Trek," when someone was insulting Mr. Spock.\n\nHis answer would probably have been something like, "If you are expecting an answer, your question is illogical. If your question is rhetorical I expect you are trying to insult me which is impossible since I'm incapable of feeling emotion and therefore - feeling insulted."
733383
What makes you say they think you're worthless? Can you read their minds? Sounds to me you have a case of low self esteem, unless you are a horrible person I'm sure they all don't think that.  Find something you're good at and get involved doing something that will make you feel better about yourself. Perhaps you're depressed. Speak with your doctor. Some medication and COUNSELING will help you out. The more I think about it that's exactly what you sound like. DEPRESSED. Get help.
1022616
Being intelligent has nothing to do with your feelings.  You are a person just like they are.  They verbally abuse you and you have to defend yourself.  Most likely you may be too nice and caring, so they take advantage of that.  In fact, it sounds more like they are jealous that you are smarter than them. If you let them continue this, you will develop a low self esteem and then think then allow others to do the same.  Start speaking up for yourself. If they say something to hurt your feelings tell them exactly what it is that they said to hurt your feelings and to stop. Also, you can't change them, but you can protect yourself by limiting the amount of time you spend with them.  Make some new friends who respect you as a person; believe me there are some out there.  And don't forget to spend some quality time with yourself. A good way to start is to start chatting with some positive people and then move to meeting some.  If you keep going in the direction you are, you'll be the one continuing to hurt, and they will be just fine.  Remember to love yourself and do things for yourself.  There is no one in this world worth taking a physical or verbal abuse from.  I hope this help, but remember you have to make a change for the better and for YOURSELF.  LOVE YOURSELF. TAKE CARE.
1134196
It could mean that the person is having emotional difficulties and is lacking the ability to express themselves in a civilized manner. Also...you should probably run and get out of their way!!
862902
Theoretically, if they are saying the phrases you describe then they are not actually atheists. how can someone you don't believe in damn anything? Seriously I don't get especially annoyed by this one thing that atheists do but there are other things such as being illogical and pigheaded which usually bother me more!!
533512
It's a similar thing to saying think with your head not your heart. I think with my brain sometimes, and my heart others, and my tummy others.