Why it is so hard to find a guy that is nice and respectful to all the female but they have to be cute, tall.?
541007
WOW. these people really brought u back down to earth. i will piggyback off of what they're saying and put it like this, it's probably hard for u because: U DON'T HAVE WHAT THE GUY YOU DESCRIBED IS LOOKING FOR. what do u have to offer??
858992
It happens, finding the right guy isn't easy, takes a lot of time. It's basically trial and error. I have the same problem with girls, a lot of them are basically the same and boring.
1149010
For women it isn't all about the looks.  A little extra weigh makes you a teddy bear to some girls.  Just keep your chin up and look for someone who matches your personality.  Be romantic and sweet and you will find a nice girl.  Good Luck!!
289412
I kinda know how you feel.  I have a guy friend who feels the same as you and he talks to me about it sometimes.  Yeah it is kinda true.  I'll be honest with you and I don't mean to be rude or offend you but I've noticed that a lot of physically attractive men turn out to be @$$holes but on the other hand, the sweetest guys usually aren't the best looking.  So, like most women (and men) will go for someone who looks hot but in the end, they get hurt.  They want a shoulder to cry on and knowing how caring you are, they'll go to you.  I used to go after the good looking ones but I kinda gave up on that after I realized they all turned out to be @$$holes or perverts.  I mean, I still won't date a guy who is ugly lol but they still have to look at least decent.  I have found that these kinda guys actually respect women more and are very sweet.  So, with that being said, sorry to be blunt but you may need to change your looks and the way you dress.  I know it sucks but its true that people tend to be attracted to someone by looks and believe it or not but it does affect they're decision if they'd date you or not.  Also, I'm sure you'll find a good girl.  Hey, there's 3 women to every man on this planet...that's plenty enough for everyone.  Maybe you should stop looking.  I think they tend to come around when you least expect it and aren't looking.
919694
that's because your nice and the men they date are pigs. i wouldn't change...try to meet different women. those who can appreciate the qualities you have to offer.
928394
I have found that they do, its just hard to find them sometimes.  Many girls, once they get past the "ewwwww" factor they like dating a guy who is considerate, thoughtful and mature.   The only problem i ever found was that sometimes their bimbo girlfriends would interfere and try to "save" them from dating an older guy.   You have to have a girl with some self confidence and who can tell other people to f*** off.
343145
oh many. most men who are not goreous (and that is about 70% of them) tend  not to be arrogant and nasty. they can get with real women and not the barbies that the other fellas are gushing over. They are kind and real. don't sweat it sweetie. you're too hard on yourself. Only 2%  of people in the world are gorgeous and they are too busy trying to be perfect to bother with.
555123
same problem. i think that every girl is just looking for the same kind of guy, and there are only so many of them, so most of us just get stuck with the left overs. and alot of the times, left overs suck
307026
because they are the best kind of girl, they have more qualities, and we guys don't want to embarass our selves in front of them.  They tend to have way more things that guys are looking for.
136129
Yes, but you have a lot of work to overcome our initial superficial thoughts when we first meet you.  If you're an awesome guy, be confident, be outgoing and show the ladies that looks (or height) aren't the most important thing.
247400
because you set expectations...you had high standards...\nregarding to those you like, they are not just the right person for you...and you shouldnt be looking for the guy...love comes, never search for it.it will come in the most unexpected place and time...
181452
i cano often be found at church.  im only 22, but hey, age is just a number.  seriously though, we are a bit harder to find than an average guy.  usually (i know in my case) we are a bit shy.  we don't often hit on girls, we think it rude.  ergo, nice guys finish last.  some of us do respect women, personally i had no choice growing up, having 4 sisters, no brothers until i was 11, and a step dad that i really didnt get along with, it wasnt hard to learn.\n\n\n\nmaybe try lowes, or star nursery.  stay away from wal mart though.  unless you want a good deal on something.  \n\n\ni got you beat on how long its been since a date, too.  i know its not a contest and i probably get the loser award, but im working on 22 1/2 yrs.  also known as "never"
211562
Some women don't care, but many of us do.  I am very tall (6'0" barefoot) and have trouble finding men that are taller than I am and I hate it.  I am just like most other women and want to feel that I'm with someone who's taller than I am and can give me a feeling of protection (I think it's also a subconscious domination thing).  A man who's taller that you makes you feel small and protected, safe... even a little as if other women must envy you for the man you've gained the attention of.  I'm thinking it must be a little bit of a primal thing... dunno!
1091480
Be patient, a lot of girls take time to warm up to good looking guys because most of them are cocky, also a lot of girls don't use looks as a basic must have in a boyfriend. It's all about compatibility.
1063885
There are good and honest single guys out there....but sometimes they hide because "nice guys" always finish last so why put yourself out there. Take a look at my 360 page if you would like. Send me a msg. I know a couple good and nice guys.
134847
Guys look for a girl that can be down to earth but not snooty and prissy. A girl that is too "high maintnence" is not going to be a good girlfriend. A nice personallity and a nice look is always good.
35278
I cannot speak for most of the women out here, but what i like is a guys personality and they have to have a good careing heart. Maturity also plays a factor. The way they look and dress is not that all important, you have some people that are less fortunate than others. Hey some of the women are not up to par themselves. That's basically what i look for. Even if they are less fortunate, still i like a man thats very clean about his hygiene. They also have to show me respect, and treat me like the woman that i am. They also have to have a sense of humor.