I think I'm inlove with my cousin?
541325
Distance yourself. You won't want to, but staying close to someone you want but can't have just isn't healthy. Don't tell the person or anyone close to them what you are doing, as they might try to convince you otherwise. Just try to get away for a while. You don't have to cut the person off completely (although that is an option). Don't call him/her, don't go places where you know he/she frequents, and make yourself scarce. Take the time to reflect on your situation and learn more about yourself. \nDate. While you are distancing yourself from said object of affection, try to date people that you like. Don't settle for whoever asks you out, or you might end up making someone fall in love with you who you don't love back! Approach people, try new things. You might want to compare everyone to the object of your affection, and you won't think anyone measures up. Stop this right now. You know there's someone better out there. Go find him or her!
952765
I'm a christian and my cousin is Muslim
479619
This is a trust issue.  Do you trust her?  What makes you so upset that she talks to your cousin?  And he is your cousin.  If you cant trust your girlfriend, you should at least trust your cousin.  Leave this alone, if something does ever go wrong, let her go and be thankful that you found out about her while she was still your girlfriend, and not your wife.
135452
INCEST??? I don't think you are really in love with her, it might just be a confusion. \n\nPlease if you still resist the urge of falling in love with your aunt, do it!!!\n\nThere are many girls around, try o focus your attention on them.
406376
i think im in love with you
231117
Your cousin needs alot of moral support.  Make her feel happy, tell her how special she is.  Let her know that everyone goes through rough times, even the rich, beautiful, and the famous.  Once she realizes her worth and how special she is, then life will be that much better!
544035
i think your cousin is very sweet i love her i think she is gonna be the next American idol i am her # 1 fan oh yeah and tell her to exercise her voice cause i want her to win
649481
As you said, you felt in love with this woman, and love is not just feeling is a consequence of major elements such as respect, faith, honesty , satisfaction .... etc. and when you have these components you are in love ... so, if there is a confidence and honesty between you both .. you have to believe her and trust her ... any way, you are the only one who can judge on your relation and how things are going on.. wish you good luck with her
437572
If you really care about your cousin, love her unconditionally. When you start putting conditions on love, it is not love. It would be great if you could concentrate on yourself : you are worried about what people will think about you. People will judge you by your actions, not the actions of your cousin. You have BOUNDARY problems. Try to accept all people as individuals.
219421
Dude...you have a perfect way right there! Talk to your cousin. Get her on your side and have her help you out. Maybe have her invite her friend along on a double date. Or have your cousin put in a good word for you. Have your cousin help! Good luck.
3971
Im in love and it feels soooo good. You know youre in love when you constantly think about the person and you always feel the need to talk to him or her. when you hear their voice u melt. thats just how i feel
564676
Ask yourself whether you're really in love with her? THink about it. What comes to your mind when you feel that you love her? Could it be that you just miss the times you've spent together. In that case, keep those precious memories but do not let that affect you.\n\nCliche it may sound, but truly loving someone would mean giving happiness to that person. Perhaps she's happier with someone else.\n\nYou know what! You could also maintain a healthy, platonic relationship with her... Be her friend. If you truly like her for who she is, this is a very good way to continue a relationship.\n\nCheers... :)
616737
SOUNDS LIKE A MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN! I FEEL THAT WAY ABOUT MY HUSBAND HE IS ALL THE THINGS YOU DESCRIBED AND MORE....I THINK YOUR GIRLFRIEND IS TRULY BLESSED TO HAVE YOU IN HER LIFE, AND HER KIDS ALSO...I BET THEY LOOK UP TO YOU.....YOU SHOULD PROPOSE TO HER IF YOU HAVEN'T ALREADY AND SET A DATE AND GET MARRIED AND LIVE HAPPILY EVER AFTER...SHE BETTER HOLD ON TO YOU...I WOULDN'T WANT TO LET YOU GET AWAY IF I WAS HER...IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU HAVE THINGS PRETTY MUCH FIGURED OUT AND I HOPE THE BEST COMES TO YOU ALWAYS....GOOD LUCK!
338209
Everyone so far seems to have it right.\nYou and your cousin's children are cousins once-removed.\nYou and your cousin's grand children are twice-removed.\n\nAnd to add a little more:\nYour children and your sibling's children are first cousins\nYour children and your cousin's children are second cousins
746930
I once hooked up with my cousin, but she was distant like 7th cousins. she was hot though and we promised never to tell anyone. She is hot though. But yeah I think that you have some serious issues. One of them is incest. But if you must marry her come to the States and you can marry her in Las Vegas.
849290
well, it sounds like you may have committement issues. maybe you feel like you are unable to give someone your complete trust to. whatever the reason may be you may want to look into talking to a professional about this. You don't want to exit this earth and never truly knowing how to love someone unconditionally besides yourself that's not your blood kin. Good luck with this and I hope one day you open up and allow someone into your life.
1017118
You and your cousin will always be related, while boyfriends come and go.  You should talk to your parents about the bad feelings this is causing and find out what they can help you with.\n\nMaybe a short time apart from the cousin would be a good idea.  When I get in a fight with my cousin who is only 6 months younger than I am, I just look at pictures of us when we went to Disneyland together, or how happy we were at our aunt's wedding, and remember how important she is to me.\n\nI will have you in my thoughts.  Good Luck.