how do you now your boyfriend have HIV and STD and AIDS.?
546903
For me, a little bit of both answers...you ask him if he has any of those to his knowledge, if he says yes, you have to change the type of relationship between both of you, says no, you ask him to have a checkup.\n\nBut I think he would like to know no matter the truth, he may count on you. Assure him you won't run away no matter what he tells you.
912046
Tell him about  the risk like even though he wears condoms he can still contract stds like hiv/aids. maybe if he hears that he will think twice at least some people do.
1084385
Any sexual contact, including oral, can transmit STDs. If he was to have AIDS or HIV, whether he got it through sexual contact or somehow else, he could transmit it through blood-vaginal fluids contact. Let's say if he had a cut in his mouth or tongue and made contact with your vagina, he could transmit it. It's not very likely, but it could happen.
979713
first what std...... herpes simplex 2 is the only one i would be upset about with the exception of hiv and hepititas C depends......... if he had it before we got together and didn't know I would not be mad....if he cheated on me and gave it to me i would kick his ass, break up with him, dedicate my life to the destruction of his
305689
1st you and your partner need to be monogomous and be tested for STD's then you need to get on some kind of birth control like the pill, shot or ring.  Or if your not ready for those kind use condoms each and every time.
959227
If he had an STD/HIV, about the same chances as if you hadn't been using protection.  Sounds like he was too small for the condom.
423789
it is not true, the fact that people still believe things like that is still amazing to me. AIDS can not just come from any where. if you had aids regardless of your period if you and boyfriend where having unprotected sex he will contract it. but if you where both clean before sex regardless of what fluids were exchange you will be clean afterwards. AIDS can not develop were there is no virus.
222321
I'm not sure what HIV-ALT means, but if it does mean he has HIV, that still doesn't mean he can't live happily for many years. Just be there for him in this difficult time as he needs your love and support.
672761
You are in charge of your health. You should want to know if you have HIV anyway.
55873
well yes there's still chance for that, aside from sexual intercourse, HIV can be acquired through blood transfusion, or if you have an open wound and your partner has one and those two wounds touch each other, just be sure both of you dont have an open wound on your lips before kissing, the virus's incubation period takes a long time and is virtually undetectable unless if you go for a check up.
147615
Pregnancy, hiv, clamidia, other std's. Please use a condom. You never know where someone else has been.
424264
if you do not have any open cuts or sores you cannot contract HIV from him just by getting blood on your finger. i know it's scary but you'll be ok, get tested though just for piece of mind. hope that helps :)
973674
You can easily get an STD from oral sex--like herpes, AIDS/HIV... Use flavored condoms or if you are in a monogamous relationship you should both be tested before going without.
296664
1) Wait until you are married before you have sex!  How stupid is it to have sex with someone the first time you meet them?!  Aren't you aware that there are diseases that can KILL you that are transmitted via sexual intercourse.  And don't say that condoms were used!  People still get HIV when condoms are used - condoms aren't failsafe!  Or you could get pregnant!\n\n2)  Why not get to know this guy a little better before you decide you are in love?\n\n3)  Have some dignity and respect for yourself.  Take time, get to know the guy, REALLY find out who he is - and not that he's just great in the sack.
194381
ALWAYS WEAR A CONDOM AND NEVER HAVE SEX THAT INVOLVES ANYONES BLOOD! DON"T DO DRUGS INTERVENSIOULY AND MOST DEFINATELY NEVER NEVER SHARE A NEEDLE!! TO BE A CARRIER YOU DO HAVE HIV BUT YOU DON"T KNOW YOU ARE INFECTED! If IN DOUBT ASK THIS PERSON IF THEY HAVE FREQUENT SEX WITH DIFFERENT PARTNERS AND IF THEY GIVE AN HONEST ANSWER YOU'LL HAVE AN iDEA AND IF IT WAS A ONE NIGHT AFFAIR AND YOU'LL NEVER SEE THEM AGAIN YOU'LL HAVE AN IDEA AND THAT IS TO BE TESTED NO MATTER WHAT THE CIRCUMSTANCE. WEAR YOUR RAINCOAT FROM NOW ON!!!
438334
Well at this point the damage is already done. some one mention earlier about a support group you don't need a supprt group you need Jesus he will love you with or with out HIV just call on him ask him what to do.He'll tell you and guide you.
373759
Ok, while ur havin sex and he is inside you, hug him and start cryin and say u got AIDS...he will freak out and scream !