What do women realy want? sensitivity or large ------ no realy?
544107
Personally i would go for the person that makes me happy. If they do that, everything else (size or otherwise) is a bonus to an already happy relationship..
1157798
It doesn't matter the size as long as you know how to use it.  If you are with someone and they have feelings for you and the relationship is a "two way" one, then don't worry about it.  That isn't the only thing that women look for in a good relationship.  Like I said, it's how use it.
706787
The truth (once and for all): it does not matter! Oh, at the extremes maybe - less than 2" or really huge. But anything remotely normal is fine with us. We may pretend to admire your large equipment because we know how pathetically important it is to your fragile male ego, but for ourselves, nope, not at all. As a matter of fact we get extremely bored hearing about it. We're more interested in the quality of what's between your ears than in the size of what's between your legs. Really! \n\nPlease find some other interest in life - big penises are not an interesting topic of conversation to those of us who don't have them. This question gets asked a lot, and the males always butt in and say, oh, yeah, it's totally important. Well, wake up guys - just because it's important to you does not make it important to us! If it's 3.8" or 8.3" - who cares? Not the women.
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I cannot speak for most of the women out here, but what i like is a guys personality and they have to have a good careing heart. Maturity also plays a factor. The way they look and dress is not that all important, you have some people that are less fortunate than others. Hey some of the women are not up to par themselves. That's basically what i look for. Even if they are less fortunate, still i like a man thats very clean about his hygiene. They also have to show me respect, and treat me like the woman that i am. They also have to have a sense of humor.
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No comment! \nWell, OK, your legs talked me into it! \nI just like a person for who they are in their heart. Women not need to do anything un-natural to their bodies to gain my interest. I just want a person who is real and not lie to me. BUT, I also respect what a person wants for themselves, so, if it what a woman want to do who am I to put her down. I will encourage her and be there as a friend/whatever.\nDavid makes a good point. From his perspective it is a gift from God for those who need it!
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We want them to have intelligence, more intelligence than we have.  We love women who don't look like they spent 23 hours and 45 minutes woking on their wardrobe, and hair.  We want a woman who has a life outside of guys, shopping, and friends (like reading, writing, drawing, painting, working out, etc.)  We want a woman, who knows her strengths, her weaknesses, her faults, who knows who she is how sexy she is, but at the same time never verbally owns up to it.  This, what I describes for you, is a real woman.
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simple things.\n\nlooks\nhonesty\nfaithfulness\nsmart\ntime to spend\ngoals\nhe has to know how to treat a woman\nrespectful\n\nthats the basics....... is that too much to ask for? lol
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Being sensitive is definitely not a bad thing. But while a woman wants her man to be sensitive, she still wants him to be the 'man'.  Which means that we want to feel safe with him (because he's the protector), we want him to be decisive and we generally want him to make us feel like a woman.
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Its up to the couple, some like it way better that way, ive heard that the woman is alot more sensitive and gets hers alot better, the guys like the good sorce of lubracation, but there are others who think its just about the most discusting thing, i wont, its just to messy IMO but if you like it and your partner doesnt mind, get-r-done! ;)
992687
I want a woman that is comfortable in EITHER role.\n\nOne that feels like she can INITIATE... or be WOOED.  (or the old.... "coax me")
323649
You know what?  The answers aren't a simple as looks, or sounds...for example...I love a woman's body, the female form..but it doesn't automatically make me want to have sex with her.  That person might even be totally into themselves and stuck up...which is a no go for me.\n\nWhen I'm actually having sex, I'm looking for softness.  I'm looking for that woman to allow me into her mind.....that sounds corny as hell though...but it's true.  It's a turn on, that she is allowing you to please her and vice versa.  \n\nThen as a guy, you pay attention to the sounds....not just the regular moans....but the real, deep, almost primal moans to let you know you are really working her over the way she wants.  I personally like to see involuntary movement of the limbs.  If she is making faces she wouldn't want to know she made, curling up her toes, or moving in ways or positions she has no idea she is even in, or even why she is in them.....then I know I doing what I'm supposed to.\n\nPlus a good attitude is necessary.  A woman who actually speaks and lets you know what she wants, what works...either vocally or with her eyes, or moans, whatever....will be better during sex.  It takes out the guy's guesswork at everything.  It shows she is conscious that you are actually trying to do a good job......and you want to make it happen together.  Communication, as with everything else in life, is the most crucial part of sex.\n\nSoooo....I guess it's the combination.  It's looks, although looks can and have fooled me.  I actually had the best sex I've ever had with someone that wasn't the supermodel type.  She definitely wasn't ugly.  She was real thick and she had the features I liked.  I guess it depends on the guy.  \n\nYou could say it's the sounds....but I've had girls who made yeti sounds....or they sounded like I was hitting them in the stomach with a lead pipe (no pun intended)....or they were screaming in my ear, like it was sexy.\n\nIf guys have that nice combo of looks, the right sounds, and a good attitude to match.....and the right amount of freakiness....goes a long way.\n\nOh.....and the difference between a one nighter and a committed relationship comes down to those two people.  The one nighter is exhilerating, exciting......might even hit the spot for a while.  Relationship sex depends on how you feel that night....or how your day went.....just more factors involved.\n\nWhat do I know?  I'm just a guy @ work with too much time on my hands.
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A, B, C, they're all fine with me because to tell you the truth it doesn't really matter. As long as the woman is comfortable with herself that's all I care about.  I don't like them when they are so big that they take on a personality of their own and the woman feels that they are her only worth.
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not me i love to be able to have a proper conversation ..instead of what would you like to do tonight?\nresponse) i dont mind what do you want to do...me) no im asking you so you decide..etc see thats what its normally like for us guys....im not saying women are stupid though so dont start blasting me!
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I know you hear people talking about "working" on a marriage or relationships, but its not like putting a wing on a house.  From what you say it sounds like you want him to be more sensitive as you perceive yourself to be.  Men and women are different, why do you want to feminize him?
379003
what men want is a woman who is open minded.  Don't get me wrong, looks are what will attract us at first, but its the same for you at first too, isn't it?
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NO,and listen,BIG isnt always better,only so much of the penis stimulate's the women,and beside's,my opinion here,I would much prefer small over large. Too large and it hurt's,so what's the point? If you know how to use it,honestly it really doesnt matter.
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I think women are generally flexible. I can put up w/ a lot of the crap if it's that one-of-a-kind love. The kind that is all-encompassing, makes you go crazy. \n\nIt's easier though to answer what women don't want.