What made u once decided that this or that guy/ gurl is not ment for u ,,if u ever did?
542134
When he said he likes the Beatles
511510
I was soooooo in love with my boyfriend about 3 years back.  We'd been together for a and a year later I found out he had another girlfriend, longer than me.  Now I've become very sceptical of men, even though my BF now is the sweetest!  I was soooo hurt the day I f9ound out that I pinched myself to see if I was in a nightmare.  When I got home, shook myself to sleep.  That hurt a lot!!!  What about you?
1058833
i was afraid that i wasn't interesting enough for a girl to consider attractive. I felt intimidated and knew that i was never able to have a relationship with a beautiful lady. I saw myself as being a low level guy compared to these built, strong, male models. I compared myself alot and so knowing what women wanted i decided to not approach the ladies whom i thought were attractive, and fantasized instead. Now, i figure that communication can expand and reconstruct the way i look and knowing tht a risk is worth everything in life. Finally, teasing and flirting with an attractive lady isn't difficult at all anymore, because i understand what a women wants from a guy like me. A very good eye connection with proper communication skills.
544488
I would say you were probably too close to the situation to realize this person was not interested in hanging out with you. Unfortunately, this happens in relationships of all kinds. I have actually figured out that if I had listened to a couple of close friends and sometimes even my own mother, I would have saved myself a lot of heartache. One of my friends actually told me, when I was in a relationship, that this guy and I brought out the worst in each other. Looking back, I know she was exactly right. It was hard to see it at the time because I was blinded by love. Hope this helps.
216869
that happened to me before too.\ni really like one of my close guyfriends(and he found out. one of my friends told him). but he was dating this other girl, who's one of my closest girl friends. it really sucked. but then after i stopped liking him. we still continued being good friends.
203907
cancel cancel cancel! There is a reason you didn't want to date him in the first place! I once dated a guy, because I  didn't know how to say no, before the second date I had a bad feeling and really didn't want to go out with him anymore, well towards the end of that second date, he was really forceful, wanting me to have sex with him, luckily some people came upon us, but listen to your gut instinct. Nature provided that for us to HELP US!
1032800
I would not rush into anything that you are not comfortable with. If it doesn't feel right don't do it. Later you might change you mind. I wish you the best. Slow it down and think about it.
106240
This worked for me. I was so stressed out, because I couldn't find a guy. So I stopped looking for him, and eventually I found this really great guy! Just a suggestion.
770746
anyone that makes you choose someone over them, isn't a friend.\n\nrun from this person before they use you, take you for what you have, etc.
213645
man i'd be pissed but then i would realize one of two things. either one the man was a sleeze and i'm not so it would never work out and 2 i obviously wasn't making that person happy, not what they were looking for. and then you move on. You don't want someone that will pretend to love you. go for the real thing.
978369
i dated a guy for a little while who was great at first, really complimentary and crazy about me, and suddenly this started to get a bit stifling so i dumped him, he started to drink heavily and annoy my friends about how he was ever supposed to get over me, honestly he turned into such a stalker. (i only went out with him four times!)\n\n1)i felt dumb for ever thinking that a guy who is technically "perfect" could be the one for me! guys have to have a little bit of a b*st*rd in them to keep it interesting! \n\n2)every time i see him or think of him i feel physically ill and get the shivers.\n\n3)i do my best not to think about it, but it has forever ruined songs like sting's "i'll be watching you" cos they sound like anthems for stalkers, when boys who think they're real romantic by fighting for our affection can't get the hint!!!
1150786
It sounds like right now you shouldn't choose either.  You need to take some time to yourself and figure out what you really want. Otherwise you're going to end up getting hurt or hurting them in the process.
754372
i did twice, almost at the same time. i was dating this guy that i absolutely loved. we dated a year before we ended it. it was really heartbreaking. he didnt cheat on me or anything, atleast i dont think he did. i thought we were going to get married! in the middle of that relationship, i also became friends with this guy who had a crush on me. i had a crush on him too but we never dated or anything because i was so in love with my boyfriend. my friend and i stopped talking because i wanted to be with my boyfriend and i felt i was cheating on him because i had a crush on him. anyway, bad idea. i got my heart broken twice.... my boyfriend dumped me and i lost my chance with my friend =( im glad to say that my friend and i are friends again and still close. i still believe i lost my chance with him though =/
1177384
i haven't but i have wondered what it would b like. if i ever did i would take 2 men because i'm selfish and that girl on girl action isn't for me!
394436
Be very careful what you do!  I liked two brothers a while ago, and when they found out that I was interested in both of them, they both dropped me because they were offended!  A very sad loss, because they were both amazing guys.  I should've chosen the one that I had deeper feelings for (we had spent more time together, and had more chemistry).
640813
Pick a gay guy then you know he doesn't want to date you. Or someone who has specifically said that they don't find you attractive, though they could be lying.
1175213
Yes I know what you mean. Its like the guy you are with now is not the person you fell in love with. Like WOW where did he go. If you met him the way he is now you would not even be interested in him!