Ladies, what do you find are the perks of being single?
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not having to answer to anybody
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I'm very much single and happy! i always find something to smile about!
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The benefits can be real rewarding and fullfilling if you have the right partner.  Financially, you can combine your assets and apply them toward loans and investments at great rates, insurance goes down, can get auto's at better rates, you can have children and get the benefits, someone to be there through all the good and bad times.  Someone you can get freaky with the rest of your life and explore your sexxusallity with, fun and lots of fun.  You are never to young "if" you are really in love and that person is in love with you.  The biggest thing is that you become one person and that other person is just as important as you.  The benefits are great and if you think you are not ready or just to young than take the time to investigate what your heart is telling you.  DO you pray?
625078
It depends. If you're happy being single and not always on the look out for a partner, then I'm sure that can be rewarding as you have much more freedom. You also miss out on alot. It's divine having someone to share everything with. I'm just not a single kind a girl and am sooo relieved I've met my soul mate. Sure life has it's ups and downs and nice to have our space. But having someone to come home to at the end of the day. Someone to kiss and cuddle and make passionate love to whenever you want......there's nothing better. So, for me...happiness is being married.
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It depends on the day of the week, the time of month or if your close to valentines or christmas etc.\nBeing single is ok, I am completely independant, am not answerable to anyone and very rarely disappointed.\nBut that doesn't stop me feeling lonely when I'm sat in on my own, sadly answering question after question on here... \nI think it would be nice to find companionship, but then I meet someone and before it develops into a relationship it gets all heavy or complicated and think I can do without the hassle.. \nI have plenty of friends and will keep it that way until someone totally special comes my way.\nNot getting into something on the premise I am lonely, if I did that, I could let any kind of scumbag into my life, and they would probably leave it just as quickly having stripped me of my confidence. I am not prepared to let that happen.
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Yes, I do...being a single person for 29 years made me think I was going to be a spinster...hehehe...until I met the man whom I know in my heart and soul is the answer to my prayers, most precious gift to me from the Lord. Also, he shares my passion in working with the kids and so, I couldn't ask for more than just giving us good health and lives that could make a difference in someone's lives too especially children in needs.
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When you are dealing with loneliness..read a book, watch tv, listen to music, or watch movies. \nI know its hard being single, but you dont need a man to be happy! \nYou probably do have so much to give, but take your time you have a life ahead of you. Right now worry about yourself. Make life plans. Write out pros and cons of having a relationship, make out a list of what qualities you are looking for in a guy. But, don't rush into anything if you aren't ready for it. A relationship is a major thing, cause you have to deal with both your life and be in his life at the same time. Please take it from someone who knows, I finally found someone to be with and I'm happily engaged, it took 5 years, but I waited and I found the man of my dreams!
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i miss being in a committed relationsip. being single sucks but need to find the right person to be with.  I was married for 20 years. was an abusive marrage.  stayed for so long because i didnt want to be single.  but this is better than being abused
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In a new relationship, most people are very happy.  As the relationship goes on, and especially if it hits hard times, most people think they'd be happier single.\n\nI'm currently single and looking after 2 long-term relationships, so I recognize that both have pros and cons.  The grass always seems greener on the other side of the fence, but the reality is that it's usually the same.
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While its nice to have someone else, its not the most important thing in the world. I know that girls are raised to expect to have some guy marry them and take care of all of their problems. The truth is that you are the only one who can make you happy. That being said, you may have to kiss some frogs before you find a prince. There are telephone chat lines that lonely singles can go to in order to meet other people. There are some decent people, like you, who just want to meet someone to love them on the phone chat line. There are some folks just looking for fun on it too. You should get on it and start figuring out who is who. Its generally free for women. Some newspapers have singles classified ads. You could try those too, but the same rules that apply to the phone chat applies to those as well.
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IF you're single without kids, go for it.
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The key is to accept the fact you are single, and not be bothered by it. \nLet other things make you busy, like work or family or friends.. love will come along without you'd even notice. \nBeing single is not something bad, it's not something you need to learn how to handle.. It's temp situation, don't let it bother you too much.
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Exude confidence.  I think that is the best way to celebrate being single.  Do things by yourself that may normally be for couples like going out to a nice restaurant, see a movie or show up to outings by yourself and meet everyone there.  It might sound silly, but it takes a strong person to show others you are comfortable being single within a dating scene.  \nBe proud too, that you can find your life fulfilling when your main goal isn't finding a good man, getting married and settling down.  There is NOTHING wrong with having that as your goal, but it still is not for everyone!!  There is a lot to be said about a completely independent woman with a healthy life, active career and great friends...so show it off!
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well, I'd say to meet some singles. Otherwise I really wouldn't know what's so fun about it.
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Double dating can be fun and it can have benefits such as eliminating the need to keep things interesting by yourself. But eventually Its single dating that will give you the experience in dating or love that you will need. Dont be afraid most ppeople climb that moehill and eventually it beomes a mountain of knowledge. Good luck I hope this helps. Let me know in the comments
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YES!!!!!!!IT IS POSSIBLE TO BE HAPPY ALONE,BUT WOULDN'T LIFE BE ALOT SWEETER IF U HAD SOMEONE?
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It not necessary. You may  just not be attracted to the guys around you and that's fine. Some day some guy will knock you off your feet and that's the one. Don't worry about it, I'm single and I love it for the most part. Every thing will fall into place for you, don't kill your self over it.