Please tell me how you managed to get over him/her?
536846
stay busy with other things. Find someone of the opposite sex to just hang out with. Don't date someone else, just a friend. Try to think of something unattractive about the other person and dwell on it. Eventually it will seem bigger than it was and will help you get over it.
1090556
You will not be able to get over it, but with time, the pain will feel less and less.\n\nEven though he was just a little wee baby, he was defenseless and you didn't get to know him nor could you protect him from what happened.  \n\nYou may be trying to keep him in your mind in case you fear you will forget him - you won't forget him so it's okay not to think of him all of the time.\n\nSpeak to your parents about how you feel, I'm sure they will want to speak with you about it.
939537
i have found the best way to get over someone is to think about them as though they have died.  that way you can keep the memories you have about the good times you had with him but accept there will be no more.  stay busy and go different places and do different things than you did when you were with him.   try very hard not to see him or hear about him.  it's a cliche but time does really heal and every day gets a little easier.  don't stay home and be sad now even though no guys measure up right now.  the next one who will measure up is out there and you won't meet him while you're at home feeling sad.  and once you meet him you'll wonder what you ever saw in the guy who made you sad.  good luck!!
332468
LOL@gomez_leovinus! Anyway, only time will help you get over him. Enjoy fun activities in the meanwhile. Go out with your family, female friends and enjoy life. He is not your everything. Forget about him. Trust me, you are NOT the only person that had to get over someone they really liked, it's a part of life, it's natural...deal with it. We all had to get over it as well and have to live and learn. You can't force him to like you. That will never happen therefore, the best thing to do for yourself is forget about him. He'sa waste of brain space lol. You'll find someone else that actually likes you back and appreciates your company. Time will heal your saddened heart :) You need to try though. Good luck!
803329
You must stay busy, busy, busy.  Do your best not to think about him and keep your mind occupied with other things.  Hang out with your friends and family.  It will take time but you will eventually be able to move on.  Good Luck.
776624
Forcin' yourself 2 believe that this person is actually a bad person is really doing nothing but fooling yourself.\n\nEverybody that we meet has some form of impact on our lives...this one particular "person" just had a very BIG influence on you.  Of course, it's going to be hard to "get over them", but you have to come to an acceptance that it's over between the two of you.  It'll be hard, but that's the only way you'll ever TRULEY move on.
990229
You will never totally get over him, but you can move on and find somebody who deserves you and will treat you right. He will forever occupy a small place in your heart. If you accept that and just let it be there, you will eventually start to hate him less and then just remember the good times that you have shared in the past. You need to take care of yourself first. Its hard, but time will heal this wound. good luck to you.
412571
time heals all wombs it's going to hurt and yes you will miss him but just give it time and you'll get over him if you really want to and you try try going out finding someone new stop talking to him and in time it will go well
162810
Lean on friends and family.  Do not use drugs or alcohol (it makes it worse).  Keep yourself as busy as possible and don't be alone if you don't have to.  If you do this, you will eventually get over him.  It will take a long time, but it will work.
652699
Why aren't you over this lover? I wouldn't waste my time thinking of anyone that left me high and dry for another person. You need to work on your self esteem because you are missing a person who obviously didn't care and respect your feelings. Move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea who will stay with you and not abandon you. Pray for someone to love you as much as you love them,  go out with your friends more, talk to someone you trust about your feelings, date people(you don't have to sleep with them) and go out and socialize
7299
Someone once told me that it takes 2 times the length you had feelings for the other person to get over that person.  If your feelings lasted 4 years, it will take 8 years to heal!!\n\nI agree that time is really the only remedy for a broken heart.  Take some time to think about how life was before you started the relationship.  Think back to those "happy" memories.  Do things on your own or with a few close friends of yours.  Keep yourself busy.  If you can find lots and lots of thing to do, the time to heal will flash by in a blink of an eye.  There are many things to do to keep a mind occupied!! haha
318753
In past experience, I've learned that the best way to get over someone is to give yourself an allotted grieving time...I say a week or less, and then start doing something to take your mind off of the situation, or at least alleviate the thought of that person. I have found one of the best things is exercise...or try something you've never done before...a new hobby or sport. It's a great way to distract you, plus you might meet some new interesting people as well.
1051670
Remember her. Best thing you can do.\n\nLosing anyone close to you is hard... Just remember them. They will live forever in your heart.\n\nIt will hurt a lot at first, when you think of her... but slowly, those hurts will subside, and the smiles will shine through... Remembering the good times you had together... Smile through it all.\n\nGood luck to you hun.\n\n~Becca
98996
try to forget him , I know it is hard , but you will make it :-)
109862
He is your brother you are not supposed to get over him just redirect your thoughts into the positive instead of the negative...think about what you can do to make his time there better and do it....just be a good sis
476642
Hmmm...the best way to get over your ex???? Get a group of friends together and go out and have a good time! Go dancing, go to a movie, even invite them over to hang out. Do anything you can to keep your mind off the ex. Then, throw out anything the ex ever gave you. Get rid of it all, burn it if you want. Have a "cleansing". Take a nice long shower, indulge in some bubble bath even, do something nice for yourself. Go spend some money if you've got it, and then, when you are ready, go shopping for another person to be with!:) GOOD LUCK!
651699
Probably a subconscious thing. Even though you consciously have gotten over him, there is still some subconscious pain that you don't even realize. But if you just hang in there, you can get past even this. It may just take time.\n\nYou might try sleeping on your couch for a while, to prevent reinforcing that subconscious hurt anymore. Rearranging your room some might help too. But the more you push past it, the better it will get. Just be patient.