Do you think its odd when people say that they love their spouses more than their parents?
553968
Obviously a different form of Love. It is kind of odd for people to say that. I've never heard this myself, I would have to say it's very strange. Next time you hear somone say that, ask them what it means. LUCK TO YOU!
491003
I've heard so many of these arranged marriages - I'm not talking like serious compulsion, but family arranged - work out ok in the end, and the couples are relatively happy - no less than "love" marriages.  And with divorce rates so high, there's something to be said for the traditional culture for arranged marriage societies.
1044814
Im not sure what is too much...but I can tell you what is too little....My first wife had a fit whenever I spent time with my parents .....I visited them less than I could have..Since then dad passed away....I treasure the time I spent with him after my divorce but will always regret allowing her to influence how much time I spent with him.....
538016
I believe that there are different kinds of love. The love you have for you parents is different than how you love another person. I don't believe that you can love two people of the opposite sex (or same sex, whichever makes your boat float) the same way or as much as the other. So, if this has to do with a relationship, pick one or the other.
1015361
Absolutely...I'm getting married in March. I'm so in love. I thought I was "in love" before but that was infatuation, idealism, or whatever else...but it was not what I feel now. Also, my parents have been married for forty years, as his parents have. It's hard work and sometimes hell; but, as I've heard many times, "When you're going through hell - keep going!" His parents and mine are living proof that it still happens. People just get screwed up by thinking it's all easy and there is no hard work.
151038
Yes, I love my boyfriend very much and he loves me. I also love my mom and dad and the rest of my family and they love me too.
51102
I believe that parents get wrapped up in their jobs and trying to provide for their family.  They also, sometimes, get wrapped up in their own lives.  Im afraid that I know of too many families that parents are too wrapped up in their selves to even pay attention to their children.  I dont think its right.  Parents should spend quality time getting to know their children.
809560
It's a balancing act, for sure. Most people want to please their parents to some degree, even in adulthood.  You can go way overboard with that, though. \n\nLiving at home until you get married is one thing, but I would never want to live with my spouse's parents.  You guys need to get out on your own.  \n\nI know what it feels like to not want to ruffle my parents' feathers.  I've made some decisions in my relationships because of it, but I've also found times where I've just had to stand up for myself.  Family is important to your fiance, but you should be important to him as well.  It all comes down to what you can put up with, and how much you really love him.  I wouldn't discard him just because he wants to please his parents, but I would expect for him to stand up for himself from time to time.\n\nYou'll just have to weigh it out.
156336
it depends on how you look at it...it can be traditional in my family but it might be really weird to you...so i think its really an opinion
487441
Well, if it is love for your mate, then it goes hand-in-hand. Does that bother you?? it is the nature of the beast, no??\nIf you are talking about love of your kids, or parents, then I would guess the conversation doesn't go there.\nWhen I am asked about the man I love, I recall so many good feelings, and my favorite is our sex life. it's just the way it is.
310490
I do believe each people has his own way of expressing his love , but generally when someone really love you, he will pay more attention to what you usually do, he will phone you or text everyday and he will prove to be very caring,and above all he will show respect. Not neccessarily he has to say "I Love you" everytime, and i do believe also that people who say "i love you" too often come to forget the true meaning of these words after a certain time.
1177886
That is for you to decide. Just remember your parents will always be there, no matter what. They love you unconditionally and understand the need to please your spouse. Your spouse is someone you have to work to keep, and you have to live with them, so decide wisely!
733562
It is b/c they love you.  It is probally harder on them than it is on you.  In a few years, when you have kids, it will become clear just how much they love you.  Until then, just hang in there.  I promise things are a lot different then what they seem.  I am 27 years old, and I felt the same way, until I "grew up."  Have a great day!
968334
No, becuz when you have your relationship, they dont have anything to do with that.  You are happy with that person, this person loves you...they may even be your soulmate, you never let something great go, becuz of what your mother or father says.  \n\nYou live your life for you and no one else.  If you listen to what your parents say your whole entire life, you will never be happy.
955586
No I don't think people love their children more than in the past.  It takes a lot of selfless love to teach your child to do the right thing no matter what.  Over protection is not love.  In my opinion it is parents giving in to their own fears and neglecting their duty to their child.  I think todays children have overwelming things to fear and the parents job is the same as it always was.  To give them the tools to overcome these fears.  I love the tv shows that teach parents how to parent.  The love has been and always was all a parent had to give.
893578
Thats a difficult question to answer. When I was married, I loved my children and I loved my wife. Differently but both passionately. They both meant the world to me. I made decisions for my kids that was best for them...and I did so with love. Everything in my life was done to teach them to be good people and give them the strength to succeed.Now the love I had for my wife was deep to the soul. I couldn't wait to get home each day to be with her... she was my best friend and totally had my heart...and had she not passed away, we'd still be together. But I still see her in my childrens eyes.
1111181
No, I don't think that's a selfish question. On the contrary, it sounds like you're afraid they'll be making a decision based on you instead of what they would want to do, which is sensitive of you.\n\nAnyway, I guess it's possible, but not necessarily true. The reason I say this is, that sadly that happens a lot. Married couples, as they get older, don't show affection as much, because they feel like it's 'known' how they feel, and then they may seem to argue, because they're still trying to iron out their differences. \n\nSo you could be right, but not necessarily.