how do I ask the father of my girlfriend that I would like her to be my wife?
537723
Parents would be thrilled to hear that someone wants to marry their daughter.  In particular, the fact that you are asking for their blessing is most honorable to them.  Yes, they may ask questions to prove your love for their daughter, but be confident that they will welcome the question with open arms. Remember that you are doing the honorable thing and they will be flattered.
499052
Get Married To Her First !\nAnd being a "Syed" You Should be ashamed of yourself for trying to seduce a girl before marriage !\n\nTry to live upto your family name you have got no right to disgrace it by asking such questions !\n\nTake care and May God Bless you with Better Wisdom ! Ameen
696914
I have been with my girlfriend for 8 years . she is 27 yrs older than me. Age is not a factor unless you are  looking for sex then wait till you are 18. in the meantime ask her out . And do not worry about the fact her father is a pastor: today is not  where the ministers of this world teach fire and brimstone!!! If you are a respectable man than the pastor will have no problem with you seeing his daughter.
389361
ask them to marry you...
1124324
This completely depends on how strongly you and your girlfriend feel about religion. You have several options:\n\n1. Marry her, but keep your current religions. If either of you come from religious families, marrying outside of your religion may cause a great deal of tension. When my Romanian Jewish father and my Filipino Catholic mother got married, they took this route. Many of my father's Jewish relatives didn't speak to them for several years. However, after I was born, his family members came around and reconciled with my parents. Sometimes, these situations take time. How would your families react, and what are you willing to deal with? How would you want your children to be raised? I celebrated both Christian and Jewish holidays my whole life, and I feel that this gave me a great respect and appreciation for religious customs. However, if raising your children as Muslims is important to you, now is the time to talk about these things.\n\n2. She converts to Islam. This could also work. My friend is half-Pakistani and half-Filipino, and her Filipino mother converted to Islam when she married her father. Her mother's side of the family was not very happy about it, but religious conversion is a very personal choice, so no one really held that against her. Talk to your wife about her feelings on this topic. Tell her that you would like to marry her, but that you are concerned about the fact that she is not the same religion as you. Ask her if she would be open to learning more about your religion and, if it feels right to her (no pressure, of course!), would she ever think about becoming a Muslim and raising a family together in Islam? \n\n3. You convert to her religion. This doesn't seem like something you are considering, but it's similar to #2 above, so I'll just cut to #4...\n\n4. None of the above. Yes, it's possible that neither of you are willing to change your religion or imagine a marriage/life with someone of a different religion. If this is the case, it's going to be a very tough decision. It sounds like you love her enough to want to marry her, but the religious difference is a stumbling block. Can you live without this woman in your life? Or, can you find an acceptable compromise that both of you will be happy with?  This situation is very common, and it can definitely work! My parents have been married now for over 30 years. :)  Good luck!
270895
Well, hopefully she will become your wife and you will live happily ever after.  Wasn't that the goal when you proposed to her?  If you are having some doubts, I'd suggest a serious conversation with your fiancee rather than asking a bunch of strangers here.  I hope that it all goes well!
547988
If she is your girlfriend she already likes you for who you are, and if you think that this is the right time, just ask her.
1074219
The main thing is that you want to be accepted by his family.\nNow that would not be hard for you I can tell you are a nice girl.\n1. Show a lot of respect for the father. \n2. The mother is the main one you need to win over smile at her when she looks at you .Tell her you are nervous . That will make her go easy on you. Say something nice about her. ( hair, eyes, dress, what ever you like but find something. Just her not the father.)\n3. As for boyfriend just show lots of respect for him like I'm sure you do everyone. \n4. If they ask; Do you love their son say yes if you do, they will like that .\n5. Talk to boyfriend about subjects that would cause problems beforehand.\n6. Nothing to low cut.\n7. Don't worry so much, conversations, money is not up to you you are the guess, they will pay. \nSlow down and you won't spill thing OK.\n\nGood luck I think they will love you.
892852
Have guts and tell her you love her and if she ask you why you denied it before tell her you were shy so was unable to convey your feeling for her. I tell you she will smile and accept your answer & you although you are native of different place/culture/language/caste & onething more dont forget me to invite for your marriage!
758717
Talk to her alone, and tell her how much you girlfriend means to you.  If you aren't willing to take a bullet for her or marry her once it gets to that point, then you should just quit right now.  I'm sorry if that may have sounded a bit harsh, but relationships aren't things to be played with.  I am only 16, but I have been trying to find that one person who is willing to stay with me for the long run, and not just for the few months.\n\nAnyways, just tell her how much her daughter means to you, and you would never want to hurt her in any way.  Tell her who you truly are, and your girlfriend's mother will truly appreciate how much courage and self-confidence it took for you to say all that to her.  Your girlfriend will also appreciate your care for her and how much you tried to make her mother accept you.\n\nIt might take a bit to build up all that confidence, but it will be VERY worth it in the end.  You now know what must be done, so good luck!
161397
Ask her "will u marry me?"
226115
I think u should speak to a trusted family member or a marriage counsellor (try for one of ur own religion).\nJust be sure u ask someone with a happy wife (or husband, if ur asking a woman).\n\nAnd yes, if u and the girl are from a conservative community, then she will probably be shy. Be patient with her.
616016
Tell him ''I am your father''
613393
OMG, dads are all important is their daughter's life.  It really doesnt matter what you do.  It's you, your time, your love, your patience, your understanding, your dicipline, your support that will carry her throughout her life.  It will make her a strong woman, with the ability to make good choices.  You will be her pattern for the mate of her choosing.  Thorougly enjoy your awesome responsibilty, DAD!
465667
Hmmm. This is a tough one. They are such essential people to have in your life, especially the girlfriend. For sure say no way to your brother, what does he really bring to your life? Has he given you a kidney. Please don't say yes or I am a schmuck! Tell your girlfriend that if she pawns some of the jewelry there is a trip to Hawaii in it for her, make sure she pawns enough to pay for you and your wife's room plus her(the girlfriend) room. And if your wife finds the girlfriend, tell her it's threesome time or she can swim home. Buy your daughter a bus pass and tell her to be happy with that because when you were a kid you had to walk barefoot on broken glass, uphill both ways to school. That's what my father told me when I asked for a car anyway.
265238
ask her parents first then ask her do it how ever you want to in your own special romantic way
374820
You would propose to her like any other woman. Take her to a nice restaurant or walk in the park/beach. Then when you feel that the time is right, tell her how much you love her and wouldn't change one thing about her. You could then tell her that you want to spend the rest of your life with her and so on, use feeling that come from the heart. Then ask, will you marry me? Whether in English or Spanish, it doesn't matter because it came from within and that's a language we all speak. Hope she says, yes!