how do you tell someone a secret when you said you would not,but that some could be in alot of pain if you don
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You have to talk only with your sister.  Help her see that she is staying where she is because it is "comfortable."  (maybe not comfortable as you and I see it, but a comfortable situation for her, because she doesn't have to face the unknown.)\n\nDon't betray her confidence, unless she is in physical danger.\n\nWhat a good sibling you are for caring so much!  I hope you can help her!
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If you made a mistake tell him you didn't mean it
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I would just tell him and get it off of your chest. Explain to him that your very sorry and that's the only tings you have ever kept from him.
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Tell her that you're gay, but to not tell anyone because you don't want to come out yet.
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be totally straight about it...no matter how u do it, its gonna hurt someone...and i think if ur 2 nice about it they might not take u seriously...so i would just tell them exactly how i felt and why
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it might be hard to convince em but tell em gettin it in the a$$ hurts (i dont know that but just tell em).
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You should tell him the truth about how you feel even if it hurts you don't want him to find out from someone other then you because it might make things worse but when and if you deside to do the right thing let him down easy and tell the you would like to remin friends good luck I hope this help's you.
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If they dont ask, dont tell.  If they do ask, be honest.\n\nBest of luck!
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you made the right decision in telling some one. if you let it go no one would know except you and would feel guilty plus you would lose a friend. she may be made at you for it but overall it was for the best
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Let all that pressure and pain out another way. Try to find the courage to tell someone what you are doing. This doesn't have to be an adult. A close friend is good. If you cannot bring yourself to instigate this 'confession', turn the tables. If you are asked, admit it. And be honest to yourself about the reasons why you are doing it. Trust me - it will be a relief and only after admitting it will you be able to find other outlets and a way to mend the pain that is causing you to feel the need to self-mutilate.\n\nA great outlet is acknowledgeing how you feel and sharing this with someone else. Just having someone else understand is a huge release. Also knowing you are not the only one doing this.  And the feeling of being unburdened...\n\nYou are not mad so do not worry about what others might think. Find someone to confide in - it really will help.
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she is going to be hurt but you know what she has to know the truth and if you are a true friend nothin should stop you from telling her the truth. Girl she needs to know big time if she doesn't believe you then you'll just have to let her find out on her own thats not the best way but just try to tell her.
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Let him know how you feel, you need to draw the line somewhere. If you don't tell him you can't expect him to know what you feel.
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You just have to learn to say no. You can be nice about it\nbut just tell them you can't do it, you don't need to explain why. Being that nice will only get you taken advantage of.
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try to tell it in a subtle way. do not make fun of the person.\nit would hurt since the truth always hurts.but since you are a friend and is concerned for that person. im sure the person would rather hear it from u than anyone else
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Start establish & gain back the truth from the smallest things:\n- Be on time. \n  Example: I will call you at 5:15 today.  I will see you at 7:20pm ...etc.  Try to make this type of "On time" happens every day.\n\n- If things that you can not confess, then you have a reason to keep it secret.   \n\n- Be a good listener.  Encourage he talks, expresses ..\n\nBest Regards.
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Well if they are true friends and still be your friends, then nothing to worry about. Otherwise, it may be hard to tell them. It is always hard to tell a secret but if you really want to tell, then do it. And be proud of it. \nReally, I wish I can help you out. Still, good luck with telling your friends!! I am cheering you on! :D I support ya. Hope they will stay friends with ya. Good luck.
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look mrs. josh\n\nwith all due respect.. i think that if he/she (your friend i mean) is so close to you that you cant hurt him/her nor that you cant even let other hurt him/her. so i think that better way is to tell him/her the whole scenario. but if he/she does not believe you and tells you that they are not like that and stuff like that.. and that you are backbiting on them. so tell him/her that "Dont regret it later" \nokay. now click on the best answer, cuz i know i am the best hehe"