When do you/did you know you were ready to get married to that special person???
539434
I think I knew by our third date. If you are not sure and you are questioning it then hes not the one. don't do it just because you think he might be make sure he is.
177224
If you are ready to take the next step and you feel it's right then it's the right time. I'm getting married in November and i know it's the right thing to do. I love him and there is no point in waiting, i'm 25 and my family and friends enjoy his company which made it easier for me to make my decision. If you don't have to change your life to involve the other person but gradually include them, then it's good. Don't think that maybe someone/something better will come along and you might miss out, that's wrong.
114923
I met my husband on Valantines day, 2weeks later we were dating, two months later in may we were married. We have been married for 3 yrs and we were both happy we didn't waste time with what we knew was right. Do what you feel is right. there are no timelines you must follow.
61120
Marriage can be a very beautiful thing when its w/ the right person.  I can hardly wait to marry my fiance.  We live together now and its hard but great.  You have to work at it like everything else in life to make it wonderful.  You get out what you put into basically.
136983
When you know you are ready to be married and that you love a person you won't have to ask yourself if your ready to be married or if you love that person. It's just something you feel.
235275
I did. We were married on March 9th in Las Vegas. It is possible but be careful. Expose only as much of yourself as you feel like. in other word, listen to your internal voice, if it doesn't sound right, don't do it in terms of meetings, questions, etc. Be very careful and use a proven site such as match.com
55983
When you and your groom are of a complete understanding of the commitment to one another and truely in love with each-other.  What time of year/day/month is not an issue....when there is real love, the time is right!
333737
The Love of my Life......the man i will be marrying soon.
1032349
Have you even asked her yet?  Did she say yes?  Did you get her husband's permission?  Are you old enough for her?  If all the answers are yes, then will you invite me to your wedding?
1051005
when you are married. duh.
231260
just engaged not married Yet!!!
961355
if you love him than theres no rush.  You already know you want to be together and hes expressed feeling the same way for you.  He will ask you when hes ready.  Who knows maybe he has something planned for a special date coming up, if you were to ask, the surprise would be ruined.
592714
My husband and I dated for 6 weeks before he proposed to me, then I left Germany for 6 months, we were engaged during this time and married exactly 6 months later. We have been married almost 11 years. It hasn't all been roses though, we didn't know eachother really in the beginning and we were more in LUST then in love, we realize that now, but I believe that God brought us together for a reason! We have three beautful children and a good life together...I'd do it again for sure.
1107031
Depends on what you want really!\nI am planning mine at the moment, so we can learn together! I am having it at a register office. I had to call to book an appointment with the superintendant registrar. They asked me when I wanted to get married and booked it over the phone! Next week we have to take our passports and proof of address to the register office to prove we haven't been married before.\nWe are having the reception at a local pub owned by a friend, and the flowers I am doing. I am buying silk flowers I can keep forever. My friends are making food so we can have a big huge buffet!\nGood luck with your wedding, get in touch with your wedding date if you need any more help!!
75611
when the time is right and you are both ready...it cant happen until then!
599640
I think you should wait at least a full year before you even start talking about marriage. Any sooner is too damn early. \n\nLove is a feeling. You must realize that this feeling is not something real, something lasting. Your brain secretes chemicals and makes you 'feel' love. This is most common and strongest in the beginning of a relationship. \n\nMarriage is not a feeling. It is a commitment. Not something that is supposed to go away. People get married and divorced all the time. That's not the point to marriage. Granted, there are many reasons people get married, but I think the biggest is the commitment. \n\nIt's very hard to see clearly, or feel truly, the situation before those 'love chemicals' have faded. It's only after, when you know that you still love that person, but the zing has dulled, and you still want to remain committed that it's time to think about marriage.\n\nIf it's right, you can wait a year. Who knows, you might get there and thank your luck charms that you waited and didn't get stuck in an awful marriage. \n\nGet it?
813320
when you both are truly ready. not 1 second before. age doen't really matter...unless your like 14...then i would say to wait a little while. i am only 20 and i am happily married to a man of 26. we have a 1 year old son and another son due in December.