Should I move on after girl vanished?
541821
No one on here can tell you whether she is lying and playing you or whether she is telling the truth. For me there are 2 scenarios and 2 ways you can go about it:\n1) She is lying, her mother wasnt really killed in a car accident and she is playing you for a sucker thinking that you'll wait around for her forever. I know its not easy to think that this could ever have any truth to it but how well do you really know this girl? Especially since her mother happened to die just before you were going to meet them? Anyway the only way to really find out whats going on is talk to her friends.. you have to know who they are. Try finding a relations of her by looking her last name up in the phone book. Just do a little detective work...\n\n2) If you do find out that her mum did die in a car accident then she will be going through the worst possible time and all you can do is wait and hope that she comes back and looks to you for comfort. Just be there for when the time comes and she needs someones support. Losing someone you love is never easy.. she'll come back eventually.
862877
wow dude looks like it's time to move on......sounds like you really care for her just not her daughter....you need to find another girl with no baggage..and start fresh.
407810
i'm sorry for telling you this but...  if she wanna keep in touch with you, she would have contacted you long time ago.\nshe disappeared and doesn't talk to you any more because she is no longer interested in you.\ni think it's meaningless to try to locate her.
1132001
you left the country and she found out where you live/your new phone #?\nI severely doubt that this girl is capable of that.  Nonetheless, change your numbers, change your email addresses, and dont contact her, you should be fine.
50030
Move on.  Don't look back, and find another girl, and I assure you she would be better than your last girlfriend.
558353
Hello nic@nite! This sometimes happens wen we are missing something in our lives that we once cherished a lot! This is a way by which our subconscious lets us know that we need to do something to fill that void. It may or may not have anything to do wth that girl, but it surely has a lot to do with how you felt wen u were with her. Pls do a bit of intropspection and find out wat aspect in ur life is 'suffering', be it emotional, n so on.. I'm sure dat u wont be hurting again if you do dat, as it is just a reminder to let you know that u need someone or maybe just urself to fill that void. Blessings!
298158
You lost her, just let her go.  Don't obsess about her, because she has obviously moved on from you.  It may look romantic in the movies, but in real life obsessing can lead to her filing restraining orders to keep you away or her calling you a stalker.  \n\nI've been there, she won't take you back.  Trust me.
49272
Go for it. If you wait she may move on and find some one else. It's only 5 weeks of long distance, but it you don't go for her, it may be a lifetime without her.
1103030
Sounds to me like shes moved on and you are just a past time for when she is bored. I think if I were you I would move on and forget her. I dont think I would be looking for suggestions to get her back, theres a saying that says something about set it free and if it comes back its love if it doesnt than it wasnt meant to be, something like that lol so if she didnt come back than shes not going to. You deserve someone who will love you no strings or plans attached, so your only cheating yourself and her if you try to get her back and she doesnt want to be back it wont work out again it will only be worse.
189415
just move on. whats the point of keep going after some one that doesnt feel the same as you ? why get hurt or keep hurting your self.
369621
It's obvious you've missed out cos you never said anything to this girl when you had the chance.Painful as it is, you will have to let go cos this girl is seeing your mate.Love does take time to heal but if you give yourself chance, you will be able to love again...just don't let your love for this girl blind you so much that when someone else comes along you fail to see them...keep an open mind
556276
She could have been in a relationship or just getting over one without lying.  If she was even close to him any she might need a breather before making an attempt to another one.  However, from what you're saying, she's definitely interested in you.  I would hang in there and keep on trying if you're really interested in her.
966054
Some questions to ponder: Is she already involved with someone else? Was it totally her idea to hang out today, or did you make a suggestion first? How long did you see each other when you ran into her at first? Hmmm. I say wait a week and give it one more try. There are numerous possiblitlies, and hard to second guess. She may have actually had some situation arise, needing to be somewhere else, or she simply wanted options and was leaving herself something to do in case whatever did not happen.....It is really impossible to know, if you are interested don't contact her for a week see if she calls you if not call. If it all goes the same way again - forget it.
92815
no,\ntry to find a new girl
1110261
Your poor dear. At this point, I think it is best to let go and see what happens. If it is meant to be, she will realize how much you love her. If she doesn't come back, realize that you WILL meet someone that will appreciate your love and love you back. Sometimes the best, and hardest, thing to do is let someone go. I don't think you need to move away though! Give her some space and see what happens, but keep yourself open to meeting new people too. You never know who may be around the corner waiting to meet you!
546230
if u know where she went u should either convince her to go back home. depending on her age, she probably isn't safe in the streets. if it makez u feel any better, u could take her back to ur house.\n\nif u don't know where she went, u should call the police or send out a search party and try to find her. all u can do is hope for the best.
899441
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