ok my freind said she was going to a graudtion and over heard that her dad was selling weed what should i do?
540678
You should not go to your friends house again because the police could bust the place. You really need to tell your parents. Be careful and take care.\n\nHugs!\nG.G.
842700
Its a phase..she's "rebeling"..Theres really..nothing you can do..she'll eventually grow out of it..but its hell until she does...If she is doing drugs..keep an eye on her..One of the worst things you could do, is confront it UNLESS theres a serious problem. Its there isnt..your going to make her upset..she'll end up doing more drugs..and then will become a problem. The best thing to do, is just keep your eye on her until she gets serously out of control. If need be, tell your parents she needs help. Talk to her about it first though. Dont make her feel cornered...
543341
That's not fair! Are you sure you're telling your side of the story honestly? Tell her that it was her choice to bring you into this world and so it is her responsibility to take care of you, and that she can't hold it against you that you are not old enough to have a job (I'm assuming you are not). Tell her that there is no harm in going to the party, even for just an hour. Tell her it is very important to you and all you want to do is have fun, not do drugs and start fires, sheesh. Tell her if she wants you to continue being a good kid she has to reward you sometimes with positive reinforcement. Sorry hon, sometimes adults are unfair too. Just know there will be other parties and eventually you will be old enough to make your own decisions. Hope one of my ideas helps you.
638594
now..contrary to popular opinion...i think you did him a backhanded favor...\n\nby that i mean..you screwed him over now...but he'll be glad that you did later...\n\nbasically..you need to confront HIM...with these things..not other people..that way he knows how you feel..\n\nI think that you wanted to be responsible...you wanted to help..but you did it the wrong way.  You should feel bad that he is in the position that he is..since he is young and he looks up to you...you need to work with him and ask him how many of his friends smoke weed...and then tell him how many of YOUR friends smoke weed...so he can get the idea that this weed thing is overrated..at least...till he is 18 and can decide for himself...you don't have to lie..you just need to give him the reasons that you DON'T smoke weed and hope that those reasons are enough to convince him that weed may make him popular today...and it may kill him in the future...
513164
If its someone you love and care about confront them and take action. Don't let someone on drugs ruin their lives. The worst thing you can do in this sort of situation is let it happen!!
571367
Call the police ASAP, my good friend spent every penny he had on the drug, he spent about $250 a week and lost his job and most all of his contacts.  I finally called the cops on him and he thanks me to this day for saving his life.  If I would of waited any longer, I don't know if he would of been around.  Know that you can call the police from a pay phone and not give them your name.  Please do your mother a favor and get her into treatment before it's too late.  This is a very serious thing, and I know you love her, please do the right thing and get her help.
323147
I would definately be calling the authorities. That is highly illegal and your friend can prosecute!!! I know for a fact I would and all involved will go down.
183947
Did you tell her that shes under age for smoking? And excuse me, but just who is the parent in your home? Her? It sounds like it. What you do as adults is none of her childish business. When she is 18 then there will be a talk about her smoking in the house. Where is your backbone? \n\nAnd when she asks again why her UNDERAGE self cant smoke in the house...tell her "BECAUSE I SAID SO!!!!"\nYOU pay the bills, YOU rent/own the home, If she wants a say in anything then she can get her butt out there, get a job, pay her fair way and then maybe you will hear what she has to say.  Also tell her she's grounded for smokeing in the first place. \n\nAnd as far as her acting like a smart butt...she must not be to smart. People know more now about the harm of smoking then when we all did when we started. If she was all that smart, she would'nt have started in the first place. \n\nSo Dad, who rules your house? Where are your rules? Let alone the state laws? Shes a minor. \nYour 15 year old little baby needs a grounding. Shes no where even close to being or acting like an adult. Her even asking you that shows it.\n\nAnd as far as you people above go....I drive a car. I have driven a car all my sons life. Does that mean his 13 year old self can drive a car, too? So take smoking and drinking out of it...whats your answer now? Should a child be able to do adult things just because mom and dad do them? Think about it.
533526
Honest advice, run away.  You might be able to help her, but it's going to be a long and very tuff road, that most families surive, much less friendships.  If you try it, you may get burned yourself, bad.  Do you have kids?  Want them to get exposed even maybe to any of this?  They need a fix, they will kill their mother for one, a old friend from 12 years ago isn't anything.  The drug is their only friend.
816630
Talk to Frank...\n\nhttp://talktofrank.com/azofdrugs/C/Cannabis.aspx
280868
You can only tell her that you think it's wrong and just stay away. The things that you say she's going to do are dangerous not just for herself but for you as well. Let her make her own mistakes and be there for her when she realizes it's a mistake. Just remember you can't change people and if she pushes you to join her in a shoplift or drug related activity you can get into just as much trouble as she could and that she's not being a true friend. You're a good person to worry about your friend the way you do unfortunatley she's going to have to figure this out for herself. You've already told her how you feel and that's all you can do.
353687
How about *shock horror* being honest with your mom. i think you will find that a) she will be happier to know the truth about your friend. B) it will encorage her to trust you and c) your mom is gonna worry about you whether your friend smokes or not, give your mom the oppertunity to make up her own descions about your friend. Explain how you feel about smoking and maybe even try to encorage your friend to stop.
499115
Well, sounds to me like you may never get your money here. I would just be upfront...tell her that your parents have decided they would like to buy it and since she has been unable to pay you the agreed upon amount you are going to sell it to them. She has renigged on her agreement and that gives you the right to sell it to someone else. If her and her uncle are upset...they will get over it.
886040
mmm What kind? If it was Weed mail it to me if it was Tabs mail it to me if it was Ecstasy pill mail them( just kidding) but if it was crack or meth you need to tell your parents especially if he used to be on them bad he may need some help. Seriously though if it was any kind of dirty drugs get him some help. Both my parents, my husband, the father of 2 of my children,and 3 of my sisters are on drugs and it is a very sad feeling. I did not know my husband was on them until we had gotten married and money was missing. I mean I still love him but I pray for him every night. I never did drugs but as you see my life is surrounded by it and I thought when I got married I was through being around it. So please get him some help and pray for him.
155931
This sounds like a terrible story, but is there a question in it somewhere?\n\nEDIT: Okay, let's try to figure out what the question is.  Are you trying to figure out how you can get your daughter back from your ex-husband?  If that's it, you really ought to talk to a lawyer...maybe you can find a decent one through the Bar Association that will do some pro bono work.  If you just aren't interested in working with lawyers, and you really want to involve this group in something as personal as this, you're going to have to post more details...and more *relevant* details (stick to the facts, ma'am).\n\nIf you want better answers, ask better questions and include more of the important details.  Things people might want to know are these:\n\nAre there any court orders right now?\n\nWhat state do you live in?\n\nWhy did your ex take your child, or at least why do you think he did or what did he tell you?\n\nHave there been any allegations of improper parenting on either side?  Any mental health issues on either side?  Drug use?  \n\nIf I'm guessing correctly at what you want to know, I just don't think you're going to be able to get the answers you need in this forum.
306632
I agree with loving_father.\nPut yourself in your friends shoes. How would you feel?\nI was in this situation once. My friends knew my GF was seeing someone else and didn't say anything. Needless to say, they are no longer my friends. Do the right thing.
1092176
You are right that she will deny it-she could also make trouble for you if you report it. People who do drugs will do anything to get money for them, even steel from family and friends-not just their money but their possessions also. I know, I lived with one for awhile and all my money and stuff was taken from me.They take your stuff to sell so they can get more dope, as some of these dopers have a need for hundreds of dollars a day. Your best bet is to not associate with any of them anymore, if she asks why explain to her that your life style if different and you can't get mixed up in all this. You can still be nice and say hi when your paths cross.