Is it possible to crush on 2 guys?????????
536814
Well after working with many individuals like yourself I think I have the best answer for you. Yes you can have "crushes" for two "guys." Everything depends on which guy is greater. You say yourself that they are both great.. however what qualities and what personalities make them great. Start by writing out a Venn Diagram and fill in the circle for similarities and then differences. The harder one to fill in will be the one that is less greater than the first. After you do that..write another post and I'll be happy to respond.. God bless and good luck!
415073
So just concentrate on one man at a time. Less confusing that way, plus you'll find out whether you really like him or not.
100616
start w/ a crush and find out who he likes.
307332
Of course you can be in love with two.  No person has the 100% fit you want.  That's also why there are so many movie stars. Each person gives off different vibes.
1134889
Flirt with other guys when he does it!!!
480053
DID THE FIRST ONE YOU LIKED KNOW YOU LIKED HIM? I ASK THIS BECAUSE IF HE KNEW YOU LIKED HIM, HE'LL KNOW YOU LIKE HIS FRIEND. MAYBE YOU SHOULD WEIGH OUT WHAT INTEREST YOU THE MOST OUT OF THE TWO AND MAKE YOUR CHOICE FROM THERE. DON'T LET EITHER OF THEM KNOW HOW YOU FEEL UNTIL YOU ARE SURE OF WHAT YOU WANT. WHO KNOWS MAYBE THEY ARE BOTH MEANT TO BE JUST YOUR FRIENDS.
409182
Yes i think its possible....Its your own love, people cant decide your feelings for you.\n\ngood luck
570538
A person can be deeply in love with more than one other person.  If this were not so, first children would have it all and later-born siblings would be up that famous but stinky creek without a boat or paddle.\n\nI phrased it that way to try and help relieve some of your anxiety.  Yes, one can be deeply in love with two guys.  It will be a real challenge, but you will probably have to choose one over the other.  The worst thing you could do would be to allow either of them to think that he is your number one.  They should know of the importance of the other in your life and that you're still trying to choose.  They should each also know that your choice may not, in the end, be either of them!  You may find another with whom you are much more "in tune", and decide that he's the one you want to spend all your time with.  \n\nWhat to do?  Be honest with both gentlemen, and take your time.  Don't rush into a one-to-one relationship before you're really prepared for that.  Marry in haste, repent at liesure is still, after a thousand years, a very meaningful phrase.  Wait until one of 'em proves he's worthy of a special woman like you!
979354
You can't, unless you confront the first guy directly.  Are you speaking to either of these guys in a manner other than the internet?  If not, that's probably all they're both interested in.  \n\nBefore you get involved with either one of these guys or anyone else for that matter, make sure you TALK to them first.  Don't fall for anyone until you've had a chance to meet them in person.  You can say anything you want in an email, but once you meet them in person, you'll find someone completely different.  Talking on the internet also gives the person a chance to re-read anything that they might say, so if it comes off creepy, they can take it back and make it sound romantic.  You can't do that face to face.  Be careful.
214376
Have a threesome huney, two guys are better then one.   LOL
915167
Honestly, u can't make ne 1 like u it just happens but u could try hanging a round him but don't act like a stalker. lol:) b his friend someone he can talk 2 and he might just see that the one that is right for him was beside him all this time.
534330
So he thinks you're weird. That's one guy out of how many? Don't be bummed out about it. And don't go chaning yourself over some guy that you used to like! Someday someone will love you for who you are. Don't get upset over what some crush from the past has to say! They're in the past. Leave them there and move on! : )
421127
just flip a coin, and ask one person.\n\nyou'll be able to tell if that particular guy is into you as well.  and then it won't even matter about the other guy.\n\nas a bonus though, the other guy might get super jealous.  which is a bad thing.  but if the first guy seems kinda plain (which means there's no spark) and the other guy kinda seems jealous, but doesn't want to say anything because he just wants you to be happy, then go with the other guy
409976
i understand you might love the first guy, but if he doesn't feel the same then move on, and love this other guy, you should let it go and follow your heart.  yes you might not love the 2nd like the 1st but not all love is the same.  You will probably always think about the love you had for the first guy, but the key thing here is that he doesn't feel the same, and you can't make someone love you.
45107
Hey there! Okay, I would just talk to him, and when he goes over to play basketball with ur bro just ask to go with them. Another thing is, how close in age r u to him. but anyway i think you should just try this. OR talk about him alot if front of your bro and he will eventually talk about how u have a crush and maybe he will then realize that and who knows...he might be in the same situation as you.
135352
It's possible, just most people don't have the mental capacity for it. If you don't have the mental capacity for it, you're going to think it's not possible. A good friend of mine has two girlfriends he loves beyond physical/sexual attraction, and they know and hang out with each other.
539142
yes he is go for him...make your move:)