question for ladies: if you were married or dating another guy?
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A little harmless flirting is good for the health !
224983
I've gone out with 5 guys all together and the fifth is my soul mate.  With the other four, I rushed into the relationship because I felt no one cared about me.  I didn't want to be left out so when they showed any interest I was hooked.  When I met my current boyfriend, I decided I would take things slow and be very cautious.  We've been together for two years.  We've been through A LOT of trying times and are still as much in love as the day we met.
1187561
It took me 3 1/2 years.\nMy wife started acting interested in other men and I had to make up my mind that I couldn't live without her. I was right.\n\nBut, today is my 26th wedding anniversary. Yea!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
1117418
Have you seen the man in my picture? He's mine and have been for the last 13 years. Everyone tells me my husband is hot. And he's a good provider and family man to boot. How lucky am I, he's what have been turning me on for the last decade plus. My hubby is a tiger in bed, a cheetah on the track and a gentleman at all times.
520963
I'm currently on my second marriage and I wish I would have waited until I met the man I'm with now. I was a virgin with my first husband but, we did it before we were married. I chose to have sex one month before our wedding because I didn't want our wedding night to be awkward. If your 100% positive you are getting hitched like I was then I say go for it. I just wish it had been with my second husband instead of my first.
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THOUGH HE IS NOT MARRIED BUT WHAT HAPPENED TO YOU WHY YOU ARE ASKING.
167010
I did.  I just told my then boyfriend that I really loved him and I was sure that I would be happy with him for the rest of my life although we were really young (I was 18 and he was 17  ; )  ).  I told him we didnt have to if he didnt feel ready, but that I didn't know a reason not too.  We've been married for 2 1/2 years so far and were still best friends and we never ever fight.  You have to be really sure though.  This works for us cause we arent really into parties and even though guys would ask me out I didnt feel comfortable going out with one guy one day and another the next.  I just wanted one best friend and lover.  I know my husband feels the same way too.  By the way no I was not "knocked up" and no I dont have children yet.  We just got married cause we're in love.
822832
My wife once asked me would I love her as much if she were a man. She got upset when I said no!
106166
Well, it's something that cannot be answered just like that.  A woman just knows that a guy is for her or not for her.  It's instinct.  Hard to describe.  I would want to know if you're seeing someone or married.  That would be my first question if I met you in public.  You are good looking, BTW
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A bunch! both my husband (of 9+years) did a lot of dating!!! Neither of us would have KNOWN that we were meant to be together if we hadn't experienced others. Now we know that the whole dating thing and wishing you could be somewhere else is totally NOT a question either of us ask. Dating others is the only way to know what you truely need.... Both of you!\nGood Luck!
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If working on your marriage is out of the question then set her free.  She made her choice.  I know u don't want her to get hurt by the other guy but it looks like she will just have to find out the hard way.  What more can u do?  Like I said, she made her choice.
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Your question makes me wonder if there are really differences between men and women and the way we think?\n\nOkay I've been married to the same blond haird girl for the past twenty years. we still carry on like newly weds.\nNever cheated on her never wanted too.\n\nBut I still look and still wonder what if?\nI think were all wired that way.\nbut at the end of the day and it's time to find something soft to cuddle with\nWell for me there's only ever been one person to go home with!
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Ok well first of all I wouldn't want to be anyone's sloppy seconds so I would ditch your current guy thats crazy.And second of all if the other guy loves you and you love him and you're the oonly one he loves go 4 it!
826500
Snagg him up before someone else does!! after i got married (to my best friend) two years later i met another guy that is now my best friend and if my husband and i ever parted, i would choose my new best friend as my new life long mate. It helps that you guys are already best friends, that's a good stable foundation. Good luck, and make sure to tell him how you feel. Even if you don't say, show it.
857527
They are now engaged to be married. Although, I think I would look better with him...but then again, I am married...=P
77010
Funny you ask this, someone else asked me the same thing today.\nI guess I didn't but in my defense, my husband and I switched sides of the bed last night.  He said he liked my side better.  I'm not too sure about this.  I'll give it another shot tonight.  Ask me again tomorrow.
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Yes I was head over heels for my first husband things went south we divorced and I loved him still.  I got married to a really great guy who understood that I may always love my exhubby.  After a year of being married I don't even think about my ex anymore... I am tee-totally all for my Marine.  We are cut from the same cloth....