hI have a boy friend . But he is a wrong personn for me .I want to know whether im truly loving him.?
552915
Only you would know that.*\n\nThis is out in left feild.
1110944
you seem to be very young. i remember when i was young and i'd date guys and i'd throw around the "i love yous" because i simply liked them or liked their attention and didn't know the difference. i'm in my late 20s now and madly in love and know the difference. he's asking you if you love him so he knows if he can control you or not. most young boys only want to be in control of the girl they date, not to be equals with them. plus, if he's not calling you, why are you waiting for him? go out there and have fun w/your friends. boys aren't everything! it seems like this boy doesn't know what he wants. he seems to have liked you but i'm not sure if he still does. young boys change their minds quickly. you seem to like him, but i think you like the idea of him more than the real him. be young and single! there's only once in your life where you can be young and single. enjoy it!
236791
If he truly would of cared about you, then he would of understood, that is a brave and completely honest thing to say to him and for that I applaud you. Just focus on you and learn to love yourself and then find someone who is worthy of you and your love. that person will be in your life when you are truly ready, take your time. til then explore life within yourself. good luck
42525
ok, i am guessing that you are asking this question because people are telling you that he is no good. well if you love him that just follow your heart.it will tell you what is best. noone but you knows what is best for you. you need to tell the people that are telling you he is no good that he has made a mistake and you still love him. after all everyone makes mistakes and people they love need to be there for them to let them know that they are forgiven. just do what your heart tells you to do. remember only you know what is best for you. good luck sweetie!!
306358
what?? if you love his friend, than you shouldnt be wanting to be more than friends with this other guy... ur question is a little strange
998951
no..but judging from what i've heard personally about your relationship...you deserve a lot better, ben. *hug* a LOT better. besides look at ya...heck, darn, man...get out there! but wait for the right one to get serious with.
153227
wrong or right is up to your real feelings ,problems happen in the relationship but if you feel that you love him so much go quickly to him before another girl take him far from you
215723
I think you don't love him. And he is going too fast, if there was a chance for you to love him he is messing it up. Go tell him that directly and I don't see why you shouldn't break up.
371025
I think you should totally tell him exactly how you feel. If he truely loves you then he will change the way that he is to you and if not then obviously it means that you deserve better than. trust me on this i am in this same situation so i know exactly how you feel.
227915
You need to  realize you are the way God made you.If that's not good enough for this boy, it's his loss. Don't let his superficial view of you affect your self esteem. You are precious in God's sight.
309002
you're not wrong for anything, the heart does what it wants. thats all i can say because i know from experience. just try to spend some more time with him.
197255
nobody loves anyone in exactly the same way, the fact that you are asking this question probably implies that you are not happy with your relationship.\n\nAsk him how he feels and trust your instincts about his answers
212580
Marshall who? And why are you asking us? I would think you should know if he is the item of your affection or not! Wake up girlfriend and decide if he is worth your time or not!!!!!!1
164542
Sounds like a crush.  Does he feel the same way?  Get to know him better.  Find out if he's honest and loyal.  Meet his family and his friends and see if he acts the same way while you are with them that he does when the two of you are alone.  This is not love, but it can grow into it if you both like each other and you are both honest, loyal people.  Do not physically act on your emotions until you know he likes you for who you are.
69872
I've had this situation 4 months ago. We've just talked about it.. I frankly said, that i don't love him. He offered me to be friends. So we are very good friends right now. But I feel that i'm more than just a freind for him...Sometimes i think that it would be nice if we were together but can't do it right now, 'cause i broke up with my ex-bf yesterday. And i don't want to lose my friend.. It's up to a person :)
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my dear the hurt and pain belong to u and not him and therefore you need to make a decision based on what u feel is best for you. ask yourself if he is worth all the pain you undergo? does he meet your emotional needs or is it just baseless love? choose what it is that works best for you  \nif he did that without telling you what about those things he does behind your back which u don't end up knowing \nthey may be more hurtful than this.\n\nTrust me gal a bad guy is like a disease Keep off early enough to avoid contamination
229414
I have bad news for you: YOU are playing *him*.  He's been nothing but honest with you, and you're not being honest even with yourself.  You know how he feels, yet still keep in contact with him... because you like the attention.  He makes you feel good about yourself.  But you're only stringing him along.