i'm a 32 old male never loved any woman. what should i do?
536715
Hire a prostitute to show you what its for.
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You're what they call "A leach". You're the kind of person who is completely unfunctional in society without a signifigant other to validate your existance. \n\nMy advice is to get a hobby. Find who you are. Once you've done that, you'll be alot more attractive to better kinds women. Who would even want a soulless lacky clutching onto them for dear life?
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Well you're supposed to love a man, but if he's not attached to you, then you must accept this as reality.  You must accept that he's not there and that emotionally functioning under the assumption that he is still there is madness.  Your psychological grip on him may be why he left you.  Men need to feel like they can function.\n\nNow what can you do?  Explore this.  Explore all the things you can do right now.  Do them.  Do them without him.  Just keep practicing doing things, like the adult you are, without an attachment.  It will get easier as you begin to trust yourself again.  And you shouldn't become attached again until you can be sure that it is wanted.  Don't worry about these things.  Just be a person, by yourself.  Have friends.  Have fun.  Work hard. Go for walks and vacations.  Experience life, the sun, and everything around you.  So many things can be done alone.  I should know.  I've always been.
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Perhaps the fact that you are lonely and the fact that it is more-so the physcological traits that attract you to women, are related in some way?\nMaybe it's not that you aren't normal, it's just that you are looking to be appreciated or loved, and perhaps want more solid, sound advice and love than crazy teenage junk. \nPersonally, if that's the case, i think that's sort of admirable.
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I know how you feel, I'm 36 and still single and I sometimes wonder about it as well.  But once you're ok with yourself and ready for a mature relationship, and once you have made yourself available through friends or online dating or whatever else, then there's only so much you can do beyond that.\n\nLife is half chance, it seems, or at least beyond our control much of the time.  The best way to accept the possibility of being alone is to be sure you are happy with yourself and what you are doing in life, to ensure that your life has substance and meaning regardless of finding that true love that may or may not ever arrive.  I wish you the best.  I'm in the boat with you!  :)
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What is it with you youngins and wanting advice on how to begin adulthood?  Give yourself a chance to become a 'woman' first....crushes are sweet, but don't become obsessed with the idea of romance...it will never work at your age!  Sorry.
712493
Me too. I'm 51, but grew up a tomboy & would still rather watch football than go to the mall. I've had 2 failed marriages, not that my lack of feminity was the main cause, but it probably contributed to it. I also competed with men (sucessfully) in almost everything I did. Some men find this emasculating. I've been living with a man now for 3 years who accepts me as I am. They are few & far between. He's a very tall construction worker. Good luck!- don't pretend to be someone you're not.
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In this life you will meet many women and they will all be very different. \n\nYou will fall in love with a few and be hurt by a few and you may even hurt a few. All women are not the same and this one you are still in love with is not the one for you. \n\nYou will find a woman who will feel the same way as you and this woman will be forgotten. Take comfort in this and keep your eyes open for a better person.
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We were just born at different times and different places that kept us apart.  Everything you described about yourself is qualities that I find very attractive.  I like someone who is open minded and opininated and independent.  You have awesome qualities.  When you are opininated that means you believe in what you are saying.  I have restored my own house and totally independent and can fix pretty much anything.  I cannot find the right girl to save my life.  Most girls are so boring it kills my spirit.  There are guys out there who would love a girl like you.  I think you need to move out of the city you live in and start fresh.  I think your life would change for the better in no time.  On the inadequacy and shame, see a therapist, they can get those things out of you.  We were all wounded in some way as children.  You have to go back in and reopen the wounds and let them heal correctly, otherwise they will fester for a long long time.
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No. Staying single for the rest of your life? Just imagine it.....you dying alone, watchign everyone out on the streets holding hands, sex...is this making snese? LOL. You need a special someone in your life. You just need to keep on searching or she'll come to you or he'll come to you or you'll come to them. I mean....if you're still pretty young in the mid age...sure, keep dating, it'll be fun for awhile,but then...you need to get serious because you're aging (no offense).....the worl dis about time. You need to hurry to find a speical someoen if u know what I mean lol
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single,never been married and still looking.
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You definitely needs an older woman.  don't go looking for smoe young thing because she will only want you for your money.  Find someone that you can enjoy life with.  Because they say marry someone that loves to talk because when you get old that is all you are going to be able to do....go to cultural things....mature events.....I don't know where you are from but look in your area for activities going on.....Church is a good place to start....but your heart must be in it for true......Good Luck.....email me  seagull50@bermuda.com
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Maybe you should just be single for a little while!  From what you are saying, you just don't want to settle...there's nothing wrong with that!  Nobody should settle!\n\nTake time off of the relationship to just get your mind straight!  Have a little fun!\n\nYou don't have to be in a relationship to feel whole!  \n\nIt's crazy...you sound a lot like me, except I'm 22!  I'm older than that in my mind though!\n\nGood luck to you!  You can get ahold of me through messenger if you want to talk!
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You need to talk to a professional therapist, these women have obviously messed with your head and you need to get all your emotions out in the open and then you will be able to move on, and you will be aware of what(not) to look for in a woman.
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I'm in the same boat as you... just use this time to re-center yourself.  Go out and just sit and have a beer by yourself.  Just sit and think.  A similar soul might approach you and share in your misery for a while.  Eventually, it will pass.  If you want a shortcut (which I'm not recommending); playing on a girl in a weak situation will make you feel powerful if a little guilty.  I am NOT advocating date rape of ANY SORT!  However, alot of guys are too nice for their own good and don't realize that a 24 year old woman is completely in control of her situation.  Smooth talking and being a player does not necessarily mean you are taking advantage of someone.  Girls like sex just as much as guys, and almost every girl worth her salt has some douchebag at home that they are on the rocks with.  In other words, go hook up with someone hot, by any means necessary short of physical force or breaking up a marriage.  It will boost your confidence in the short run, but don't forget the "re-centering your self" part.  It's the only way you will find true happiness.
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You need a self confidence make over, my friend.  Unfortunately the less confidence you have with women the more they will reject you. They are like rabid dogs. They smell fear a mile away and will track you down in packs - swarm in for the kill.  I think step one for you is getting over past rejection. It is in the past - it's done.  Throw it in the garbage and don't think of it again. Don't use it as mental fodder to beat yourself up.  If you don't like you - chances are others won't like you much either.  Have you examined looking for women in different places?  I don't know where you have contact with them but if you are trying to pick up stuck up chicks in bars you are going to get a lot of rejection.  Keep in mind that hot women are overrated.  They are people too - but you have put them on this huge pedestal.  Once you get a girl you'll go "All that for this?"  The fact that you have women on the brain 24/7 is part of the problem.  The moment you stop caring about what they think of you is when some bubblicious honey will strut right into your life. Good luck.  Keep your chin up with the babes.
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Move on - or accept her and the fact that you will never be intimate with her.  There are certainly many pretty heterosexual women and you deserve a woman who is going to want to be with you and love you for the person you are.\n\nThis woman cannot and does not want to be with you so please find a woman who does.\n\nGood Luck!