No joke. No woman invited me for sex; I had one woman for sex after a lot of effort.  Why like this?
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You poor man... I feel so sorry for you.\n\nIf you'd like you can look over how you meet women, for example:\n- Are trying to get to final base as soon as you meet them?\n- What is it that you're looking for in a woman?\n- What is it that she's looking for in a guy?\n- What do you both want to achieve?\n\nTry to communicate with her and take it easy (if you're going fast paced). In my opinion, just be your intelligent and interesting self (just like always), and you won't have any problems meeting any women. Try not to jump into bed with every woman you meet or be mean and cold to them, don't expect every woman to be open to the choice of getting to final base with you on the first date, you'll see that going slowly at times with patience and learning a little bit everyday about a woman (get to know her) will lead to a more meaningful, stronger and healthier relationship than you ever thought was possible :) Some women actually prefer to take slow and easy at first, and you won't believe by how shy and quiet they are at first that they might be passionate and wild-cats in the more intimate relationship. Don't judge them too fast and don't jump to conclusions, just let the relationship develop into something more meaningful without being intimate at first. Let her to trust you with her heart, body and soul, first. Give her a reason to stay with you and prove to her that you're not just after jumping down her pants. Let her see you for who you are and show her that shivalry and being a gentleman (going old-fashioned) is not necessary something to shunned upon.\n\nGood luck and take care :)
499243
I have never in my life had intercourse with another woman besides my wife. I have never groped, petted, made-out with, or anything else of a sexual nature with another woman since we got married more than 16 years ago. I don't really want to either, and I don't even believe in our culture's monogamy-only dogma.
414263
lot of reasons. Age, looks, money,ego, greener pastures or boredom. It's all about instant gratification these days or what have you done for me lately. There are many girls/women out there, so don't get all bent out of shape over just one.
983460
If you wanted things to be good with this woman, you should have never insulted her! What were you thinking? You messed up, buddy.  Chalk this one up to experience and don't go calling women names next time.
57769
Interesting to hear the female side of this one...I was 25 and she was my good friend at the time.  She was experienced and we were both well liquored.  Afterwards I wished I had started a bit earlier since sex is very nice.  I had one additional partner before getting married and still feel lacking technique-wise.  Looking back it did impact our relationship but after some time passed we got back to almost normal.  But the one night was not a topic of discussion (yes only one night..I don't know what I was thinking when I said we should chalk it up to experience and stop there).
580005
The truth is there are a lot of women who are at the very least curious.  There are a large percentage of women who would like to try a threesome with another woman. Does not mean they are gay. Just means they are curious and or want to have some fun and try new things. \nFrom what i understand of the info you gave. She was a woman who was a little more than curious.  If she was that adamant about denying it she was either in some serious denial or ashamed of the fact.  People do some strange things when they are ashamed or feel they are different and don't want to admit it.  Denial could also be it but from what i read, unlikely.
825376
everyone is different.Some women never orgasm at all.Some women only orgasm through external stimulation some only through penetration.You just got lucky. Wish it was that easy for me
599680
Mostly because we all have a fear of rejection.  I would assume that is the leading cause.  Considering...  if I really liked a woman...  and she said she didnt like me.  Then I would be crushed because I wouldnt have a chance.  Sometimes ignorance is bliss...  :-D
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well, any woman who wasnt have drunk or druged would say no strait up. \n\nbecause most women, unless there really horny, will say no, because of the amout of problems it causes fro just them. aka pregnancy, stds, and other physical problems. Then theres the idea that there only there to have a good time, and sex wasnt on the menu.  \n\nso if ya just walk up to a girl and say, you wanna have sex with me. shes gonna think your a jerk and either slap you or just walk away laughing.\n\nso your magazine was right to some extent, 1 of ever 3 gals will say yes, but thats like 6 of every 48 women in a bar or club. \n\nand besides, teh best part of going to a bar is teh prowl and the hunt ^____-
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Sounds like to me that shes doesn't get into it much.  Maybe she feels it is an obligation to have sex.  If you are a needy man and have to have sex all the time, she may feel like it is a chore.  Maybe you need wine and dine her.
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I got a couple of good answers I have been searching for for years and couldn't find with search engines.  I also got the answers very quickly (less than 10 minutes).  Sometimes people know things that you need to know, and this is a good forum to share.\n\nAlso, I am good at the dating/looks/sex questions, and often am thanked for giving good sound advice.  My advice is on the conservative, sensible side, and I have guided some lost people in a better direction.  Some people are contemplating sex and the disease issue didn't even occur to them.
580175
Not everyone is out for sex. Some guys actually have honorable intentions. Sounds like you may have run across one. My advice as a guy is HOLD ON TO HIM. The sex fiends are a dime a dozen.
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And who do you think will want you? You obviously can't satisfy a woman or you would still be with your first wife. You have unreasonable expectations of others and don't hold yourself to the same standard, therefore you are also a hypocrite. Good luck with that.
772393
Communicate is the best aphrodisiac, I had this problem too. wasn't very interested in sex. I just had lot's on my mind and issues. but once we were able to communicate honestly (so I thought), things got really great.   best sex ever.
636614
it seems to me she either didnt enjoy your company, or all she wanted was a one night stand, dont feel bad, just enjoy the fun you had with the betch and move on, you seem like a nice person with a good heart.  Some females can be so mean and like to break us guys hearts. But dont worry life goes on and youll meet the right person.
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Because a guy didn't amke a move for intimacy, she thinks you're either not interested or are too chicken to take that step\n\nThat boat has sailed my friend.
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You found the wrong woman.  Mine likes a healthy, stable relationship.\n\nNot all women are like that.  It sound's sexist.