should i go back with my ex?
540665
No you shouldn't go back with your ex. He is your ex for a reason and sometimes it's best to leave the past in the past and move on with your life.
1163744
If he broke up with you to explore his options and regrets his decision now that it's not working out in his favor, TOO BAD! Do not take him back. He was selfish enough to end what you had to start something new, who's to say he won't repeat these actions. If you go back to him, he'll know you're weak and will prey on that as long as you give into whatever conveniences him. Just love yourself more than that. He doesn't even deserve someone as nice as you, you can do better. Good luck in love and life!
906559
You should do what you think is right. If you think it is going to turn out badly, don't go. But if you want to go, then i say go. Your ex (whether or not you want to still be friends with him) should have no impact on where you go and who you hang out with.
384845
Escape only if you truly love him.I was affraid to do that with my ex and I regret it.
592450
take it from personal experience dont go back. cause i was cheated on by my ex and took him back cause he told me he loved me and had changed three weeks later he was back to his old ways. i tried to make the relationship work cause i was pregnant with his kid he didnt want nothing to do with me or the unborn child, i put up with it for awhile trying to talk to him about it but he didnt listen so i left him. and he and his mother kept ringin me up telling me hed changed i didnt believe him, his mother even told me to come and live with him so she could teach him how to treat me, he was 21 if he didnt no then he will never no. cause as far as his father was concerned i was a slut and he treated his mother with no respect so why was he going to change. i no of someone who went back to her ex three times and he hadnt changed. the only reason i took him back the first time was i was pregnant with his kid.
523740
Well to answer whether or not you should go back - we would need to know why you left in the first place.  If it were for no reason at all - then maybe you should go back.  But if the 2 of you had serious issues - then you should seriously consider the reason you left and if that is something you want to go back to before you resolve those issues.
380373
if he's still single yes. coz there might be a chance that u and him get back together...coz thats what i still feel about my ex. but hey! if he's not. then i think it would be better for u to move on.. unless ur ex feels the same with u..then wait for him patiently until the time he made up his mind and wants u back.
382207
it all depends on how you broke up in the first place, if it was a mutual agreement, and you still/miss him a lot, maybe you can give the relationship another try, but if you broke up on bad terms, i dont think its wise for you to get back together, its best just to move on.
1103268
Stick to your new b/f, as going back with your ex wont work as there must have been something which made yous fall out. stay with the new guy as you never know he could be your soul mate, if you leave your new b/f and go back to old one he could leave you again so do you want that. stay where you are and be happy there's no point looking back just look forward and be happy. good luck
243538
uhmm.....depends...if you still love him and REALLY wanna be with him, and if he never hurt you, and if you enjoy the things that you guys do together, then you should TOTALLY get back with him! but then again, its depends on the reason why he left...its all up to you
1102780
If you still have feelings for your ex, then you can't be 100% into your current bf.  You need to figure out if you want to go back with your ex and try to make the relationship work - or if you want to start fresh with your new bf.  \nKeep in mind that the problems you had with your ex are still going to be there.  Whatever the reason was why you broke up with him will still be there - you will basically be going back into your old relationship and be faced with a lot of the same problems and issue.  If you think you can work things out and it will work this time then you should give it a shot.  However, if you know you can't work things out, then you should give your current relationship a try and stay with your new bf.
366542
The question is does she love you back?  How long were you dating before you broke up?  Me?  I had a relationship for 7 years and I still love him but we grew apart.  I realize now that I love the idea of being with the person I once knew.  If you have not spoken to her in 2 years, she is probably not the person you fell in love with anymore.  I would err on the side of moving on!  Nothing will ever be the same as the relationship that you had with this person.  I guarantee it.  But don't let that close your heart to new and better relationships.  Use what you had with her as a learning experience.  Don't compare her to the other women you date.  That is a fatal mistake.  I know its hard ,but you have to move on with your life in your mind, your spirit and your body.  Please don't hold your relationship with her on a pedestal.  Clear your heart and keep moving!\n*Muah*
1144512
I've had the miss fortune of doing the same thing, except it was in a text message. \n\nI say dont go back unless there is a significant change in the relationship. I mean, he broke up with you..and caused you a ton of pain (I'm assuming)....who's to say he wont change his mind again and hurt you all over again. Its obvious that you still have feelings for him. I think that before you consider getting back together really think about if that is what you want, because it might not benefit you at all.
201006
To me if the break-up was that bad, you wouldn't even be this close to getting the option of getting back together. Anything is possible and in almost 2 years people change a lot. What's so wrong with getting to know who you are now? Don't think of it as getting back together. If you didn't have a past with him, would you still want to get to know this guy right now?
1031643
First, I respect your courage for writing here, but I would take the most serious advice from those who know you best... those closest to you. There aren't enough details in your story for anyone but those who know you to give you good advice, but a lot of people have similar feelings. When I was single I always pined for my ex's... the bad times didn't register and all I remembered was the good times. This doesn't mean that they didn't happen and that what drove me from my now ex's wasn't real. We did break up for a reason, and our incompatibility was something to be considered. No matter what you do, even if you did get back together, you can't relive a memory. This isn't to say you shouldn't talk to your ex or figure out what you're feeling, but I'd say take your time with it. If the feeling is really real, if the relationship is meant to be, then it's worth waiting for. A lot of times things seem good at the time, but if we waited, we lose interest or realize what a bad decision it was. Even so, you have a fractured relationship, and it's going to take a lot of care and thought to bring it together... either way, protect your own heart and take your time. Find someone you really trust and talk to them about it and let them speak into you... tell you a no bs assessment of what they can see from the outside. Even if you don't agree with them, it'll get you thinking. I wish you the best with your relationship, whether it's meant to be repaired or not. God bless you,\n\nBrian
461455
No, you will not get back together with your ex, however, a nice man named Carl will come into your life...he is "the one"
528983
I have been in the same situation 4 months ago.I went with my ex's friend.Let me tell you that did'nt work out!!!You will always have to see yor ex,and when he moves on to another girl,well that is just unbaerable.Find someone new and exiting.OUT WITH THE OLD AND IN WITH THE NEW!!!