how can I dicover my real self?
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hi mic i like your question very much if you really want to discover your real self ......you dont have to do anyhing you just stay without any thinkings, emotions ...you just stay  as a observer...you'll see a deep unknown silence peace neutralness within you and you can feel, that is you
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Be Honest\nBe Yourself
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who you are how? i suppose first you must decide what you think makes you who you are..is it your beliefs, your religion, your height (yeah that one was silly) but you get the picture. i think what you are probably having trouble with is staying true to yourself and your beliefs and living in a way that reflects them. seems as though you need to do alot of thinking and don't forget that its ok to discover things about who you are that you would like to change, maybe some counselling could help guide you to where you want to be. good luck to you!
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Yes, it's better not to be loved by mistake, or by fakery. But keep in mind that "what you are" cannot be fully described, and is temporary. You can change, or be changed, by the course of living itself.\n\nWho's to judge or say what you are? Can anyone exactly describe all of one's aspects?\n\nI don't think so. I's mostly wishful thinking or self-hypnosis, I say. Only God knows you for sure, because God is you.
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sadly to say...I've been at both ends of your question until I took a hard look at who I was and now I'm truly genuine. what I did and who I was put a lot of fan fair on me. It was fun until I wanted to get serious with life at a comfort level of "normal" . there's no room for ego when you want to share your life with someone special.. Don't confuse ego with self confidence. :)
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Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery.  BUT! You need to find yourself and be yourself.  It's OK to take things from others, but you need to find your own personality.
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Ask God to make Himself real to you.\n\nBe honest with Him. Confess your sins before Him.\n\nBegin to read the bible. Ask God to make it real and alive to you. \n\nSeek out a good church - a church that studies the bible, prays, sings songs of worship.\n\nOpen your heart to God. He wants you to believe, He wants to reveal Himself to you, He wants to make Himself real to your heart.\n\nLearn about Jesus - read Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John.\nLearn about the early church-  read the book of Acts\n\nObey God - maybe there is something you haven't been willing to do that He wants you to do - Trust Him, love Him, obey Him.\n\nGod bless!!
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Love yourself. Give yourself the freedom to express yourself as yourself. "To thine own self be true" as Shakespeare said. When you start to feel insecure remind yourself that everyone is unique and different and that other people may be feeling equally insecure.
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Stop trying.  It sounds like you are trying really hard to be someone you are not.  If you stop trying to please others and just be yourself, then you will find out who you really are.  You shouldn't try to be like others because you are not them.  They can be role models for you but you need to find your own way.  If you just take a break from impressing others and acting like others you will find the true you.  You have nobody to impress but yourself.  And I know that you will find that you are a pretty OK guy in your own right.  Sit back, relax, be yourself, enjoy life.
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In this case you should think about who really you are.. I mean to say try to understand that you are not a body and you are a soul , and that way start concerntrating on your intelligency and stop thinking emotionally.. gradually you will be able to overcome your feelings and ll be able to controll  your feelings and to squash your feelings.too . n i think you will be rarely hurt person.. best of luck
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You may need to look at why you don't. But that could be complicated.\n\nRemind yourself everyday when you wake up and when you go to bed: I am part of the Creator, I am equal to everyone, I am powerful, I am loved, I am respected, I am outgoing, I am helpful.    Whatever qualities you want to bring out. You will become what you say you are. It is inevitable.
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being your true self!!! don't be a fake... act as you would when you are with him, that will totally make his world go around.
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We can only try - but to understand ourselves, we need to be absolutely honest with ourselves.\nOnce we truly understand ourselves, then perhaps we can know what we want from ourselves and others.\nBeing honest with others would help in this process, methinks....
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Ahhhhhhhh ... you have hit on the fundamental element of our universe.  Energy.\n\nYour actions, words and thoughts create your reality.  They WILL effect who you are and who you will become.  The past is in the past.  Look at it, process it, learn from it.  Then, create anew!
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Be happy with who you are.\n\nCoach
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To quote Frank Zappa: "you are what you is".\nOr Firesign Theater: "Who am us, anyway?"\nAre you looking for your own personal identity?\nDo you find yourself living in a sea of indecision?\nPerhaps you ask these questions because life is confusing and you seek solace in something concrete.\nStart with your spiritual side and look within.\nNext, question your values.\nFinally, connect with your neighbors and help those around you.\nPerhaps there, in the acts of loving-kindness, will you find the answers you seek.
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to thine on self be true...be who you are and don't change just because you think someone else wants you to.  When the time is right, there will be someone out there who appreciates you for who and what you are, you won't have to change anything to be with him either.\n\nHang in there!