are guys actually open to the idea of...???
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If  man loves YOU, he will accept YOUR child(ren) as well. Y'all ARE a package deal, right. Some men are family men and would rather be a part of a family unit. Sometimes the step father can be a better role model, influence, teacher, etc. than the biological father. Maybe you and him could have a child together to "complete" the family unit.\n\nMy  ex-husband adopted my oldest son at 3 years old, he was a much better father than his biological father could even dream of being. When my ex died almost 4 years ago from lung cancer, we were at the funeral home, I got word that my son's biological father was on his way up to pay his last respects, I was freaking out thinking it would cause issues within the family. So, I asked my son how he felt about his donor coming up, I reassured my son that he had the last word (my son was almost 17) and if he was uncomfy to let me know and I would ask him (his donor) to leave. My son said to me "Billy can come here if he wants, he's not my dad, my dad is inside in the casket". \n\nMy boyfriend and I have only been together about 5 month's now. He's wonderful with my son's. Often, I pay attention to the way he interacts with my kid's and it amazes me that he's better with my youngest son than his own father was prior to his death (suicide).\n\nSo my point is, sometimes it's the greatest thing to have another parent to love our children.\n\nGood luck!!\n\nPS\nIf you plan to build a life with this man, you MUST teach your child(ren) that the step parent IS to be respected and don't allow your kid(s) to tell your man "your not my dad" when they are in trouble.
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Yes its very natural\nmost guys are like this
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It honestly depends on the guy.  From my experience anyway.  Some guys are genuine and look for a gal with a good personality (which is what should be important), although looks are also important - but should not be a deciding factor in whether or not a guy is interested.  There are guys out there that are more concerned with looks, but hey - looks can be deceiving :P
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I would love to have an encounter with a guy that is very open minded . Got any Ideas ?
904742
Well to be quite honest, you could be bi. I personally do not see anything wrong with that, and quite frankly many women are bi. I am not sure of the psychology behind, it but it is definitely more accepted than men w/other men. I would not freak out if I were you, take things as they come and you will know in time. After all it may just be that the idea is attractive to you, but if the opportunity to be with a woman arose you may find yourself not wanting to pursue it.
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Not all guys have the same mind-set.Man with a good maturity level or a civic mind-set wont be jealous to easily.
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Why not? But just put your expectation to a minimum level. Be mature enough and it may happen also that when you are out with him may be you dont wanna continue this...you dont know...but you need to know that than living with fantasy...about a guy at least...you know? guys dont have much to offer to really impress you other than...so think what you want...
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you know what, guys are really shalow (trust me, i am one) and pretty much all guys look at external beauty before internal beauty. how far they go at first sight, the naked image does pop in, and sometimes we cant even help it. yeah, we think about sex a lot too. its like in our genes or something
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What is the rush?  If he is hesitant to talk about it or “side-stepping” the idea at the moment, why push it?   If he was really read to commit right now, he would approach you on it.  You know how men are, when they really want something they manage to get to work on it all by themselves
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It depends on the guy. I personally do, but I know friends who don't. You know by the subtle things he says and does. Just keep an eye open.
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oh boy what would i give for a guy like that!!!...shame from my experience they seem to be myths..~sighs~
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Some guys are afraid to open up and as they are afraid of being hurt, teased, ridiculed, etc. Trust me when I say that it can be anything from something as petty as shyness stopping them to something as serious as major mental problems. It all depends on the guy. No matter how close you are to a guy, it takes a wee bit o' time before he can really begin to trust enough to open up and then there are guys like me....who open up and are honest from the word 'go'. I recommend a book titled: Men are from Mars, Women are From Venus. It is both a good read as well as offers great insight into both the male and female aspects of a relationship.
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normal men just undress women with their eyes, and then talk "sweet"\n\nbut for me i am interested in a guy who makes eye contact first and listens when i speak. and is never distracted by other women walking by... after a little eye contact he is free to look me up and down...so long as i know he's seen my eyes first and not my boobs i know he is truly interested
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Go for the nice guys.  I know sound nuts, and it just might work.()
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It is easier than you think. All you have to do is be open and honest about it. Most men are open to new things, especially in the sexual area. As long as it doesn't involve another man you are pretty much free on suggestions. Just incorporate it in your normal activities and he will be very responsive.
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sure why not.... there is a gal for every guy  and vise verse....   everyone has their own  preference...so there will be someone for you too ! best wishes!
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I think some are, but they're not going to show it easily. Just get to know guys better and I think you'll find some.