my girlfriend has kissed over 20 people and i have only kissed 2.  should it freak me out?
538505
kissing means different things to different people, perhaps your gf doesnt view it the same as you.\ndont let it bug you. havent you ever heard the saying "you have to kiss alot of frogs..."
434858
You two must be very cute...\nI think you're far from ruining your relationship :)\nIf you really are scared of this, investigate a little bit more with your friends, to make sure that she really feels something more of friendhip for you, and then if she does, please come on!\n\nIt's going to be great, because you know her well in many ways so far, but you're going to discover each other in a very different other way...
312287
I think your wife if still trying to grow up.  I don't think she understands the MAGNITUDE of her decision to become married.  This may be cause for concern because it's not a good idea to make out with your wife and her friends, and still think you'll keep the same relationship.  You may need to sit her down and let her know that this behavior makes u uncomfortable.
620189
I really don't think how many ppl your girlfriend slept with is a question that should have been asked.  your together now and that is the present.
910413
I gotta ask...why the hell did she bite you? Anyway, she sounds like she's leading you on or doesn't want to go public with the relationship. Be careful...sounds like you're headed for a fall.
489322
16 to date, dear. I have 4 girls 7, 9, 11, 12. They (the oldest ones) are allowed to have a boyfriend, but in name only. No touching, no dating, the only thing they would be allowed to do is have the boy over here to visit, with me here to supervise. I am shocked that you already had your first kiss. Take it easy, you have the rest of your life, and the sooner you start, the younger you will be when you actually do IT. You don't want to be wearing maternity clothes in the 12th grade. Slow it down, be friends, no dating, and tell those boys to keep their paws to themselves.
744386
Yes it's very normal and you shouldn't leave it at that. Talk to your girlfriend about this, tell her how you feel. She has to be more giving in this respect.
862525
bcuz guys r like that-for them it's all about"men points" and who kissed her the longest-at least for alot of guys....sounds to me like your boyfriend is better then that though.....to giv eu my honest opinian i think it's fine u gyus haven't kissed yet-i don't usually like to either tilla couple months in and every couple is different-do what feels right-if u don't want to kiss yet-don't-if he trys to push u into it tell him the truth.... and maby-just maby if u aren't comfortable with it in the next 3-6 months maby he isn't really the one for u-the perfect guy u would be comfortable to do just about anything with...but like i said everyone is different-don't be pressured by his friends n don't let him be either....when u guys feel in lvoe enough to kiss-kiss-and not before then.....jut remember too a kiss is no big thing just an expression of love for e/other so ya know....don't make him feel like u don't want to kiss him-jus that u aren't ready.\nwell i hope it all works out for u and i hope i helped!\ntake care\n~Ally
1060576
Sin yes, something wrong no. Your showing concern which shows that it means something to you, so I would not feel to guilty. As far as your future wife, it should probably be something that she knows, and if you tell her and express your concern, more likely than not she will be forgiving. Don't beat yourself up over it man, 4 girls, no less ones you actually knew is not to bad these days. And I know this has nothing to do with the question, but its nice to see that some people still have a conscience these days. Best of luck figuring it all out!
1017776
No for the following reasons :-\n1) she's totally undecided about you & some about herself\n2) she wouldn't know what love really is at her age from what she said. If she does love you, she wouldn't be 'making out' with another guy. \n3) like you said, she's acting like she doesn't want to go out now.\n4) her age\n5) she said she's afraid to be attached. This will haunt her until she resolves her real issues and demons in her. She'll walk again cos of her phobia (yup). And she doesn't sound like she's anywhere near resolving it.\n\nShe sounds pretty screwed up. Think about what you really want - a chance with someone who's flitting from person to person (you're definitely going to get hurt). She's not showing any signs that she wants to go out with you or take a chance with you or is ready for anything long term (remember her phobia). Leave it as it is and move on.
922985
Your girlfriend sounds like she has experience with this so just kiss her and go with the flow...she will show you how by just doing it...you will catch on. She sounds like she likes you too so don't be embarassed you haven't made-out or anything like that. its pretty easy to pick up just keep trying it's fun!
968096
!!!Well , you have a problem there!! I would in this particular situation most likely would somehow leave the (cheating) situation alone and let him now how it feels and that maybe he should think twice before making out with some girl he met that night. Also i would not go out with him because he sound like a slut , especially if he is making out with a girl he just met. I can give you advice but i can not  make the decision for you.\nTootles!!!
235554
If you do not know who your girlfriend is, then you have some serious issues. GO check yourself into a psychiatric ward.... YOU NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!
1123270
No.  But you shouldn't kiss other girls unless your boyfriend can watch.
500766
No, you could throw a big rock in the road.. Plenty of people still see other people on the side when the relationship is still new. There are no rings at that time. And, honestly, if it were me (being the girlfriend) I would not want to know. Not only could it break my heart, but it could cause me to be not trusting toward you. As long as your serious about her now, and you love her and you KNOW you'll never ever cheat on her. Leave it alone, and enjoy your new life together :-)
408965
Don't worry about it. It is not your problem. It is your girlfriends if she believes it. But not your problem.
1062769
I'm 16 and I'm a girl and personally by reading that I have no idea why she's acting that way and I don't think you did anything wrong at all so you should talk with her and find out what's wrong it might not have anything to do with you or it might be something really stupid so the best way to find out is just to ask her what's wrong then you'll know but I really don't think you did anything wrong unless she wanted more than a kiss on the forehead or something I don't know or maybe she didn't even want you to kiss her??? strange