Help-Relationship Problem!! Anyone...Guy or Gurl can answer!?
542867
what is this thing called love? do you know what love is? and furthermore, what's love got to do with it...got to do with it? think about these, and you'll find your answer.
675535
Be nice, honestly, and make sure you always say "i" not the other persons name. If you say their name, it seems as if its their fault the relationship didnt work out. Good luck!
699011
welcome to the club! i know how you feel it sucks. all i can say is be more open. just because the guy isn't prince charming on a horse doesn't mean he is the wrong guy. a guy might mess up and make you wonder why but you have to remember that he is human and that no body is perfect...it is in human nature to make mistakes..so take a deep breath and forgive it will make things a lot easier. I promise.
530625
go with your heart but don't let it rule you 100% listen to both the good and bad fairies on your shoulders an dthink it all through i suggest you write a list of pros and cons for the relationship and once written the answer will be clear from that... good luck x
208532
Are you that naive girl? I have always asked myself why do the females always wait for the man to make the decision in an "obviously it's over" relationship? Get that backbone girl and stand up for yourself. Be proud! Flourish! Be something other than stuck on him. Love yourself and be with yourself to discover who you are first because no one can complete you, but God.
615843
get back together. tell him that you still like him. then when you do get back together then dont break up with him unless you have a good reason. learn from your mistakes.
223537
tell him yore problem.. talk to him.... and then.. if he still doesn't .. then well.... i think its better if you went yore way.. but since you've been with him for 4 yrs.. its hard.. but try it....good luck (^_^) !
540015
forget about him and move on. If he's not into u he's not. Have fun, be yourself, and be patient. Just remember u are fabulous!
627278
Sistah, you just gotta be honest and tactful in this situation as someones heart is involved. Treat him in a way that you would appreciate if the situation were reversed.  Good luck to you!!!
666815
I don't know how old you are.  It sounds like you are in high school.  It is really hard to be in a relationship with a person who doesn't know what they want.  It isn't right to do that to you.  You need to talk to him.  Tell him that he needs to make up his mind (don't yell at him and phrase things nicely, and argument is the last thing that you need).  I was in a relationship with a girl that didn't know what she wanted.  It would have saved me a lot of time if I would have just ended it.  We are still friends though so we are okay.  If you have to end things, do it nicely.  Don't make any personal attacks against him.  If it is "meant to be" (wow that sounds cheesy), he will realize that he really wants you after you two are broken up.  So, if you got back together, he wouldn't have this indecisive problem anymore.  Handle this maturely.  It sounds like he is struggling to figure out what he wants, so you have to be the calm one in this situation.  Girl drama doesn't help guys at all.  All girl drama will do is drive him from you.\nDon't worry about being alone.  I guarantee that you would be okay.  I hope you work things out so you won't have to end a relationship.  Your situation isn't in to terrible of shape, so you still have a lot of hope.
492132
problem is him. Don't push it. Relationship is about trust. Letting him get to trust you little by little, in the little things then it will grow. Also just be yourself so he can trust the you he sees. Lastly, not everybody gets to say 'I love U' the same way. Maybe his may be different
374552
Seems to me the best way to address the situation is to be forthright and talk to him about your concerns.  If your decision is to move on to find someone more accessible to you, then say that.  There is no real way to break up with someone that won't result in hurt feelings.  But to be true to yourself and the most fair to your boyfriend, tell him how you feel and what you want.  Personally, I would recommend doing it face to face, even though it may be uncomfortable.  You may want to continue seeing one another after talking about it, but if it does end, be able to step away knowing that in the long run it may be the best thing for your both.
322796
maybe he isnt ready for realtionship right now, keep in contact with him as friends and if you both meant to be together you will be. good luck.
386192
You cannot make someone like you.  Sounds like the girl is just playing a "catty" game with you as well as him.  In my opinion, their relationship will not last.  I say be yourself, and give yourself time to really get to know the important things about him, and I am confident that you will learn from each other and nurture a relationship that will be much more fulfilling.
1178537
You are so far into the material and emotional world that I cannot help you.  My advice is to drop all girlfriends and boyfriends and have no relationship whatsoever until you can get your head together.  You are a living soap opera! lol hon get some help!
542473
You sound like you are trying to justify breaking up with him.  From the way you describe yourself, I would say that you did do the right thing.  If you are a flirt and he is the jealous type it would never work.  I wish you the best in the world.  May you find happiness.
293580
Don't say you're an idiot...I don't know you but I'm sure you are a nice girl...no one really is an expert or born knowing how to deal with relationship matters...for what is worth it sounds like you wish to have a REAL relationship...you mentioned that you guys had agreed on not having a relationship but see now you have feelings for him...and the longer you wait the more damaging you are doing to yourself(if he's not interested). Tell him how you feel about the situation.if he runs away then YOU'LL KNOW that he is not the right one..BUT DONT FOOL YOURSELF and hide your feelings...BEST OF LUCK TO YOU.