how to get the first date?
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dont smoke.\ni wouldnt go around looking for a girlfriend, either.\nif you search for something like that, you usually dont find it. and if you do, it is not something you will be happy with for long.\ni suggest trying to focus on something else and let her come to you. or if you see someone approachable, ask her out.\nwait for the right moment.\ngo ahead and go to a bar but bring a buddy with you.\nto get the first date you must first find a girl and start a conversation.\nthis is my advice.
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Really?\nTry me.\n\n\nI am terribly sorry for bugging you. I do not mean to.\nSorry.\n\nIt seems that you have not found the answer to your question.\nDo not be upset if you have not found a date. It is not worth it. \nTrust me.\n\n\nBy the way, the easiest way to make someone notice you is by making you noticing someone else or notice yourself through your interest or activity.
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Absolutely, start at church and church functions,  the grocery store is always a good spot.  Laundrey Mats are OK (not great), avoid bars and that whole scene. Don't be afraid to ask a guy to join you for a meal or a walk. Keep it casual. The thing I see most often is a guy or a gal who are only interested if they see you as a potential mate.(and start planning their whole life on the first date)  Avoid that pitfall.  Look for a friend..a bunch of them..the more the better..and the rest will follow.
564504
I think that movies are a cop out on a first date...I agree with those who say do something low-key and fun.  Outdoor activities are great and you could take a picnic.  Have fun!
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go to things remembered..get him a key chain and on the front engrave his name on it and on the back engrave ur the date when u had ur first date...
1003327
bring her flowers. girls love it. be yourself, don't seem like you're trying too hard to impress her. i personally love when a guy feels comfortable in his own skin, that makes me relaxed too. be a gentleman, open the doors for her. i think you should pay if this is the first date. you can try holding her hand at the end of the date. good luck.
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That depends on how bad the first date impression was.\n\nIf she thinks there absolutely no chemistry, no hope, no nothing, pretty much nothing you do will work.\n\nOtherwise, if it was just a blah date, then tell her that you would like to take her out again since you realize the first one wasn't how you wanted it to go.\n\nThen try again.
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be yourself. say are you doing anything some night & ask her to a movie. make it about her, not you & your sure to get a second date.
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If you want to let him know you're single, TELL HIM!  this doesn't have to be direct, but there's nothing wrong with approaching him, amd introducing yourself.  The status quo says that men are supposed to make the first move, but the status quo does not assure you that you are going to get a date.  Break tradition and YOU make the first move.  Just by introducing yourself and being cordial, most guys will pick up on the fact that you are available and ready to mingle.  Chances are, he may want to initiate a conversation or date with you, but he may fear that he will be rejected due to the fact that you could be in a relationship.  Trust me, be cordial, friendly, whatever you want to call it.  Chances are, it will pay off in your favor!!!!!!
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Oh...I know how you feel.\nThis is what you do:\n1.Send a note to him and tell him not to get the wrong idea.\n2.Send a note to him and tell him to be friends first.\n3.When he agrees, ask him out, but you must have an excuse for asking him out, or else I dont think he will agree.\n4.Ask him to go out to teach you school work or just hanging out.\n5.On your first date ask other people along, so you both wont get nervous.\n6.Dont bring 2 other friends that are dating because that would be a double date!\n7.After being good friends, you will then ask him for his address, email, and etc. etc.\n8.Contact him and ask him to hang out sometime with you- alone- I mean after a few weeks of hanging out with a few of his and your other friends.\n9.If you act natural and get him to know your background more and you know his background more, he may be able to accept you!\n10.You will be together forever- I mean not forever lar...LOL.\nOk. Thats my reply on your question.\nTry it out!\nIt happened to me once but I didnt use this method.\nI hope you will succeed.\nRegards,\nnyla
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have a date ... start dating them
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First of all, find out their status before you ask them out.  Or make it part of the "ask out", "Hey, I hope you're not seeing anyone because I'd like to take you out on a date."  That will make your intentions clear.\n\nAlso make it clear that it is a date.  Some guys will ask the girl, "You wanna grab some dinner?" and it is not clear that it is a date.  The guy is trying to insulate himself against rejection. But part of the thrill is taking the chance. "Hi, I'd like to take you out for a date.  Can I pick you up on Saturday at 7:00?"  Take the chance and be clear.  The woman will repsect your clarity and confidence.  And on the date (especially the first one) do all the traditional date stuff: dress up, pick her up, hold her chair, pay for dinner.  Lean over and put your hand on hers during dinner.  How she responds will say a lot.  When you drop her off, touch her lightly on her waist while you lean in to give a gentle kiss on the lips.  Above all, make it clear that this is a romantic date.\n\nGood luck.
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Try this:  "Hi, My name is XXXXXX, would you be interested in having dinner with me this weekend?"\n\nAfter so many years of dating, I don't play around with the games or trying to give (or look for) signals that someone is interest.  Just go out on a date and see what happens.  Sometimes there is a connection, sometimes it's a flop.  There is no secret code or password or magic phrase - just be blunt and honest and have fun.
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try and be the 1st 1 to ask him out
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The first time I asked a guy out we went rollerblading in the park and then went out for a casual dinner. Keep it light and don't try to be all  romantic. Just see how you feel being alone with him the first time. If you keep your date filled with activities you will never run out of stuff to talk about and you won't have those awkward moments people get on first dates when they are all dressed up at some snooty restaurant. Have fun!
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The first date is always trouble.  I dont have time to explain everything.  but try to relax on the date
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Just go up to her and start talking. She may like you to and waiting for you to make the first move. If she is your friend already then you two have things to talk about. Ask her to go skating or someplace that may not sound like a serious date but when you are out with her be nice like real date. He who snoozes looses and if you don't ask her out someone else will. ☺