I am 40 yrs old, single, and have three kids.  I also have a 29 yr old woman I date regularly...?
553575
She's an adult. I say go for it. Your not that much older anyways. Just 11 years. My mother and my dad are 8 years apart.. and my mom has dated a guy that was 13 years younger than her. Now she is dating someone that is almost 20 years older than her. I say as long as it's legal, than age ain't nothing but a number!
649964
Be honest and open. Don't hit her up if you don't want the potential of dealing with her kids in the long run. I'm sure she will be cautious about dating you. Don't act like a fool or you will get nowhere.
88667
I can`t tell you about your relationship,but I am a married man and have been separated for over a year,I am in a relationship with a much younger lady and I would get a divorce now if I thought she would have me.But I know that it would be too much to ask of her,with our age.\nLazyman614@yahoo.com
869250
i believe i can answer this...from both sides of the fence...being a single w/o children, meeting someone who does have kids, unless your really looking for Friends With Benefits and not thinking about getting serious, some would think the kids would get in the way. Now if you are the opposite, looking to get serious and not FWB, the kids are a good way to show the woman that you have a caring and nurturing side to you. \n\nNOW...the otherside of the fence...being a single with children, since i do have a 6yr old but he doesnt live with me....\n\ni find it hard to find someone who is willing to date me because they dont want to get in the middle of "baby momma drama"...the same as a guy doesnt want to get in the middle of "baby daddy drama"....but if there is no drama...then i say hook up...hang out...and see where it goes...
567513
I'm in my late 20's and have to consider this question while dating women often and this is what I come up with.  I have no problem dating a single mother as long as a few rules are adhered to. Don't let him meet your child until the relationship is at least a couple months old, because you don't want your child to have to meet a new guy every couple of weeks.  Know what you want out of the man, a relationship, or just a fling or what not. Lastly, and this is a tip and my personal opinion, but most men that would treat your child with respect and love will want another child........my personal pet peave with single mothers is that they don't want any more children.  Any man that would be a proper adult figure for your child will dream of one that comes from him too.  That's not to say that he will treat your child different, but dreams are dreams and any man who want's to be a father, will also want a child that both of you concieved.
1063647
there isn't anything wrong with you dating a woman old enough to be your mother. the problem only comes if you or she are doing it with an underlying motive. be careful.
187042
Im have a similar case with my ex. We agreed that if by 32 (shes 29) shes still single we should get married, but only if we were still close friends.  We broke up cuz we eventually had a long distance relationship which eventually took its toll on us.  We still love each other thou.  \n\nso i'd day why not to that deal with your ex...
376951
yes i would. i am 29 and cutt off is 39. i dont date more then 10 years older then me.
11157
I think you are just doing great. Keep this relationship.\nIt's better to relate to someone through culture and language than through age.\n\nBTW, I'm 24, and I've dated girls 6 years old younger than me and girls 5 years old older than me. Perfectly OK.
38982
My wife is 29 months older than I am and our relationship is wonderful.
293492
No i think that is perfectly fine!!! Well i would think that when me and my better half got together i was 20 and he was 29, 3 years later and we have a awsome strong relationship, i was ready for something serious to plant my feet into and so was he, we had alot of things in common, i mean yes there are times when i think wow hes really been around alot more then i have and i can feel a little bit intimidated, but in the long run im thankfull he has those experiances to help guide our steps, I think he has come to believe that im never going to be perfect, even though i really try to do everything well, im not completely at his level on thinking, he has more life lessons to reflect on, but i dont think its a problem when we both discuss everything and keep the lines of communication open, just like any other relationship, my best friend is in the same boat, her husband is 10 years older then her and oddly enough shes the more responcible one, i dont see why any one would think its wrong, now if you were 25 and she was 15 there might be a huge responce to you sick mo fo lol but i dont think there is anything wrong with you liking her, ask her out, she might be into older guys, and with good reason, guys that are 20-24 are enough to make you want to puke, they only want one thing, they havnt figured out yet theres more to life then a nice set of boobs lol they dont know how to deal with money worth a crap, they only look out for themselfs, where older guys have alot more figured out, theres so many more perks to dating a older guy i could go on forever, more or less your more established at 30... id say go for it :) you have nothing to lose
768366
its normal,i would think its best to date some one who is at least 7years older than you if your thinking about a serious relationship,you wouldn't expect the sort of control and authority from some one your age which you would find from some one older.therefore your its absolutely normal and your on the right track
1027418
I'm 23 and the oldest woman I've dated was 32.  I would love to pipe a banging 40 year old though.  I like them older because you don't have to train them.
647581
How about an older woman? I'm 40
744701
You could ask her straight out what she is looking for.  If you're not willing to spend some quality time at home with her to get to know her, you may want to move on.  You know what it's like to have children so I'm sure you understand how difficult it must be for her to raise two children on her own and why she is busy and can't get out much.  Her children will always come first or, atleast they should.  Perhaps you should rearrange some things in your life if you truly would like to get to know this woman.
1146747
by ur looks i don't think u need to be dating the older women.... go with someone more ur age if ur looking for a serious relationship
572545
this man wants to have his children with you, so you should be hounoured.. he's pretty serious about you then!!  so smile girl..at the end of the day  u can control how many kids you have. I think it's cute..lol  it's 50 -50 with guys and girls wanting kids from what i've experienced.