how can a good guy find true love?
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Open your eyes. Be yourself. Treat everyone with respect.
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There are good guys every where.. you will find one when he is ready for you to find him...
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You may be looking in all the wrong places.  There are great guys out there who have hearts of gold, compassion towards others and certainly know how to treat a lady.  Knowing the qualities of the person who would make you happy is a good thing and is not too much to ask.
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how to find a good boy friend?I've always wondered
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Just dont be so picky. alot of good guys out there. i promise. just keep an open mind and heart. smile more and approach. youll see .
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Well, being yourself first of all. Don't play games, don't 'lie to kick it'. Be willing to BE FRIENDS FIRST. Don't pressure about sexuality. Girls love a man who is funny, caring, giving. To most (well, I hope most) an open loving heart means more than a fat wallet (or anything else, lol) Good places to meet...coffee shops, malls (LOL), join a singles club (Events and Adventures.com)\n\nBest of luck, and Happy Valentines Day!
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The good ones do. Find a better guy.
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Take your time with dating, find who out who you are first so that you can find the right type of guy who will treat you with proper respect and love you for you and not who he wants you to be, and the reason why it is hard to find the good guy is because they are either married, gay or are looking for the right woman.
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Respect, trust and honesty are the MAIN qualities, but intelligent, funny,handsome,wise,loving,caring, sharing, good listener etc. are ALL good qualities. Yet, every person is different; and some characteristics may stand out more than others in most people. Therefore, YOU have to know what U want in UR mate; as well as what turns u on and arouses u. What makes ur heart go pitter patter when u see ur guy, when u think of him, or what makes u go crazy just to hear his voice or his name. U have to know what u want in order to find it. Overall though, make SURE u have communication; in fact that's the #1 key to anything successful.
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Well, love isn't just some invisible thing that's roaming around earth. One thing you have to realize is that you're relying way too much on your eyes. Love isn't just something you have to see with your own eyes. It starts with you. If you want to see love happen in your life, give some. And "no" I'm not talking about sex or any kind of sexual encounters. Those are two separate subjects. Most people rely on their partners to give them true love or what they assume true love is anyways. Chances are that you'll kid yourself with that stragedy. If you ask a series of people, "What is love?", in most cases, they'll start the answer with, "I 'think', it's..." You can't rely on those opinionated answers. True love does exist it's just that some people don't know what it consist of. Many people have this "selfish" theory that love is suppose to be about certain people and what they want. Often people think that true love only exist if their partner is good in bed, or if they look sexy enough, or to sum it up people think that true love can only exist from that "perfect" person that they'll never find. True love can't exist when one doesn't know what it is or how to express it. To exercise true love the main things that you'll need to show is patience, loyality, and compassion. If you use these 3 components and some other good ones to expose true love, you'll be an awesome person to love. So in order to find true love you have to learn to recognize it. Don't worry too much because true love is a lot closer than you think. You just haven't recognized it yet.
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The sure thing is that true love exists! \nbut the reason that makes us doubt about it and ask such a question is that not everyone is lucky enough to find it and some of us are not smart enough to keep it.\nJust never give up, and dont waste your time looking for it.\nYou can never find true love, he will always find you and you'll never know where and when!
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Just breathe :) If you're attractive, smart and nice then you should be swatting men away!!! As for true love, sometimes you have to wade through a mess of people before the right one stands out from the crowd. Are you looking for people who have similar interests? Maybe you should try looking for people who have completely different (translate into "new for you") interests.\nPerhaps the love of your life is someone you would never have considered because you do not, currently, share his views on...anything. Perhaps one of you will change before you meet. Perhaps after. Perhaps you'll never agree and life will be one long, interesting conversation.
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Can a guy be too nice?\n\nThe answer is yes. How is this possible? The general rule is that by being too nice, the relationship becomes too platonic. What this means is that the emotional state is more like that of being 'friends'. The level of attraction then naturally goes down, because you will be seen as 'just a friend'.\n\nDoes that mean you have to be a bad guy?\nGetting the balance right is the most difficult thing. Some guys are naturally selfish in a relationship and need to work on being less self-centered (I guess being nicer).\n\nOther guys, especially when you are crazy about a girl or a guy, can be too nice. Thinking this is quite natural. That a girl or a guy is the center of your world and that they alone can make you happy. Depending on the realtionship, especially if both partners do not feel like this, it can sometimes come across as overpowering, or as dependence or neediness. Which will not work either. \n\nDoing things you like, creating a good feeling in your own life and being confident with who you are, seem to be some the best qualities. Being happy in your own world.\n\nFriends make good lovers\nHowever sometimes, you can connect with someone so strongly that your friendship becomes stronger and stronger and stronger. Until it naturally develops into a relationship. Though, I think for this to happen there has to be an amazingly strong deep bond and perhaps a degree of unwriten mutual physical attraction.\n\nI hope this has helped. I was sorry to hear about this, especially if it happened unexpectly. It may not be that you are 'too nice'. But you just didn't meet the right girl. Seems like ya got a lot to offer, this aint the only gal in the world, get out there.
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Well maybe you shouldn't worry about the looks.  You need to find a guy with a good heart and keep him  They are hard to come by.  But, when you find a good man try not to push him away.  You are so young you have a lot of life a head of you.  Take your time and have fun.  Life is to short to worry about the small things.
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Yea.you just have to be patient.you'll find true love one day.love doesn't just knock on the door you know.you have to go out and find it!!
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To get a "good woman" you have to be "good man".
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you dont just find real love, it just happens. youll know when you found something real because you will feel it. But dont go searching for it because the right person will find you.