does size matter? talking about sex?
550465
It depends. Women also have sizes. Unlike men we have some control over how tight it gets, but some women are short inside. If a woman is short inside, she will probably want a shorter man. Anything 6" and bigger hurts me.
392942
No it is not. Despite what women say... size DOES matter. The bigger the better.
227221
communication, The more you talk to each other the more you get to know what and what doesnt turn each other on. Plus talking about sex is a big turn on if you are with that person that you are going to do it with.
195368
Size does matter to women, however real big guys can hurt women so I do not think it really matters.  Unless, you are small and she is just trying to make you feel better.  I do think they like average guys better though.
487224
Penis's dont matter at all to me, but thats me. Men put way to much emphasis on there peepee's, its all in how you use it and how u treat your women. If its super small, you can either buy one to compensate, or use other forms to please her. Try oral and plenty of forplay first, please her first always, never think of your own pleasure first. I cannot emphasize this enough. To many men think that all that matters is there thingy, its not.
289627
It depends on the person, what sex type do you want to respond to. If there is something about someone's outward appearance, then try to a casual chat. Then you can take it from there, cause you can find out what the personality is, the mentality and all of it. Just don't rush into things, take things a little slow. It's mainly your choice, your opinion, just don't set too high of standards, cause it never adds all up.
1031462
Size only matters to shallow people.  I want someone I can connect with on many other levels before I would even think of sleeping with them.  Besides it's all around pleasure that matters, like foreplay, there are a lot of pleasureable things to do without the actual act of sex.  Good Luck.
311057
on contrary to popular believe,size does not matter.women aren't build the same so are their preference.for women to enjoy s*x they have to feel for the guy.there must be chemistry and fondness and of course,this guy must also be good at what he's doing and know what he's doing.
595591
It really doesn't matter about size of the penis. It is more important that you know what to do with it. When girls discuss these things, it is all about the what they did with it. It doesn't matter the size of the whale just the motion of the ocean! ;)
1103778
Size is a good visual stimulation, but to pleasure a woman, you don't have to go to far. I'm on the large size, but pleasure is closer to the "surface".  (you were probably looking for a ladys answer, weren't you)
58089
Size really does matter.  If you have a small penis you better have a magic tongue. If you have a medium size penis you better know how to use it.  And if you have a large penis "HELLO MR. RIGHT"
1118430
this question is asked on  a daily basis in here,no size doesnt really matter it is if you are attracted to that person or not and you have a chemistry with them some woman think size does but with my experience its not the size its if you love that person for who he is sex yes is important but that is not all there is in a loving relationship.Guys are just insecure with themselves anyway when it comes to the size of their um um because society has made them believe if your not packing a giant you are inadequate but it is a bunch of crap so just tell this boy dont worry about it and learn to use what hes got
7708
You figure it out.  Does the size of your woman matter?  Do you want it to feel like dipping your pinky in a big wine glass, or do you want it to feel like a chinese finger trap, or maybe somewhere in between.  Can you get off the same if a girl is flat as an LCD or do you like a woman with large breasts.  If you ask me it's all relative, it's about personal prefrence.  Some girls are more about an emotional connection and size isn't so much of an issue, but for those that are a bit more into the physical rough and tumble aspect of sex, then they might want to feel something down there.  Some guys can compensate with good foreplay, and by then the deeds already done so size is no longer an issue. Usually if both people are into each other and into the act, the rest is just an after thought.  But just like men, us women do have our likes and dislikes, and certain needs.
249050
girls like cheeky-chix say size doesn't matter because its the right thing to say. some women don't want to be the one to judge a complete man by something so superficial as penis size. there is so much more to sex than just penis size that anyone can be a good lover even with a small member. cheeky is being sweet but i'll be real.\nif you are speaking strictly size, a larger penis will provide more pleasure than a smaller penis. if you are looking to improve only that area then bigger would be better. there is a point at which large becomes too big so world record is not the target (i wish women with implants would get this point). \nif you have a small penis and you are self-concious, remember that there are so many other ways to make a woman happy.
1047705
I’ll try to answer that as a guy with a short penis based on honest conversations that I‘ve had with girls. Size does matter so don’t feel bad. Some women say that it doesn’t matter but what that really means is that it doesn’t matter to them, obviously it does to you. Nothing wrong with that as long as you don’t play with his feelings. It appears to me that you don’t want to do that. Which is cool! \n\nYou need to see it from a different angle, most men would prefer a tight vagina over a loose one. That’s no secret, tighter feels better. Vaginas come in all sizes just like penises. Some can be short but wide, short and narrow, long and narrow, and on and on. You may in fact have a large vagina, I mean nothing bad by that, really! I hope you know what I mean. You may in fact need a larger penis to satisfy you. \n\nIt may have nothing to do with your size or looks, it may be that you realized that the longer the penis, the more positions that you both can enjoy. I’ll give you an example, I once went to a park in Hollywood and I ran into a couple who were having sex in public. It was a lonely part of the park so I doubt that they expected anyone. He was sitting on bench and the girl was sitting on top of him facing him. By the distance that she was elevating herself, I figured that he was somewhat long. That position worked for them because of the length of his penis. I could not do that position with someone, specially with a large booty and get away with it. As we men bend out bodies at the hips, our penis get shorter upfront. I measured myself standing up and sitting down. I lose about 1 3/4” sitting down. I go from a 4 ¾” standing up to 3” sitting. That’s measuring from the top of my tights (where my penis protrudes from between my tights), to the tip. In the position, the girl can’t hit bottom the same way as in other positions. By the time my penis reaches her opening there’s only about 1 ½ -2” left for her to ride. So I avoid some positions to try to put as much in as possible. \n\nSome women prefer thick penises over long ones.  I used to be just under 7” long by 5” circumference before my surgery (I had a surgery due to medical reasons which had some side effects, including shorting of the penis), I used to hurt some women by hitting their cervices, especially during some positions that allowed deep penetration. Now I’m 4 ¾” long with a circumference of  6”. Which is consider above average thickness. The only women that I’ve had sex after my surgery liked it even though she literally laughed at it and made some bad comments the first time she saw it. Her only complaint was that it’s too thick. So go figure!
534105
size doesnt matter. Love does. \n\nHow small are we talking?????
390465
To me , size does not matter.. actually it does.. huge ones scare me and I wouldnt do it with someone who has a huge one - both thickness and length. Even if I'm not in the mood, a guy who knows how to do just the right things - meaning foreplay - can get me SO aroused!! and in the mood! So long as he does the foreplay and everything else right, size absolutely doesnt matter...  by the time he is done with that hot foreplay, I would be wanting him like crazy! and would enjoy him as he is. I kinnda feel that the intensity with which women enjoy the last stage in sex, is connected with how well the guy does the foreplay.