Hi I am 17 and I want to change myself. How can I become a better person in the inside?
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By being interested in bettering yourself, you've taken the first step. Good for you - you should feel good about yourself.\n\nBeing better takes many small incrimental steps. As long as you continue to work a little harder than the rest you'll be way ahead of them in the long run.\n\nAs you go through school, always be yourself. Don't get caught up in doing what your peers tell you to do. Many of them will want you to do the things they want to do in order to feel better about themselves. Remember that your future is your responsibility and your highest priority. What you do today could have a huge effect on your future, so you want to choose wisely.\n\nOne specific resourse I recommend is a book, "7 habits of highly effective people".
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Well since your 24' you should get in touch with yourself, Figgure out what you like, Who you are, Go for a change in your life (Nothing Drastic) just something to make you feel better about yourself. Change your figure. Set Goals, Go some place you never thought you would go before. Meet a new person (Not on line) and give them a alias name and tell them stories about your life as if you were one of your favorite characters in a movie. (It builds character in yourself)
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Nobody can become a perfect person. We all make mistakes and bad decisions at least sometimes. The best you can do is try to develope good habits of the heart, make the best choices you can, and if you believe in God, pray for help. Even the best among us get angry and frustrated sometimes and say or do things they regret. All of us have some sort of habit that bothers someone else. We are too fat, too thin, too short, too tall....there isn't physical perfection, either. We can spend way too much time worrying about it, or we can take baby steps and change one thing we don't like about ourselves at a time. If you change a behavior consistantly for two weeks, it usually is long enough to establish a new habit, and you aren't likely to do it again. You have to do some self examination, but don't fall into the trap of being so hard on yourself that your self-expectaions are too high. That kind of perfectionism is an emotional killer. Seek balance, a middle path.
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Make ourselves better as individuals.
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The person I am capable of becoming
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Just be yourself, if you want to change, then do so. But if i were you, i wouldn't change for some guy, i would just be me, and change for myself ir i want to change at all.
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Just improving myself is the best thing I can do.  For me, that means going through life with an open and loving heart, spreading peace and joy to everyone I meet - not in a pushy way, but just by being accepting and loving of others.\n\nI think the best way to influence people (or society) is by setting a good example.
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It is not wrong to want to change something about yourself but before you attempt to do so why not give it thoughtful investigation.\n1. First consider your age. If you are not yet 21 years of age there may be natural growth awaitng your body's own clock.\n2. Second check out the trustworthyness of the site selling this "cure".  Check with your doctor. If you are a good candidate for taking HGH he or she should be the one to monitor your health. Suppose you had a terrible accident.  Would you entrust you spine to someone selling a potion or device on the net or the best possible neuro surgeon ?
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take it with simple easy steps.  first look in a mirror.  thank about how great you really are.  you are somebody.  you are special.  there is nobody else in the whole world exactly like you.  there is something that you and only you can do to make the world better.\n\nthen go out, shop, go to school, whatever, any place where you pass people.  And SMILE.  See what happens.  Most of the time, someone will smile back.  that is the power you have to make a difrference.  anyone can do that.  you can do that.
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Look at yourselF in the mirror everyday and Find one good thing to say about you.  Then say it out loud.  Surround yourselF with people that love you and care about you.
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Well, it's really a tricky question and should not be taken literally.  Every person has a core personality that has been there since birth and moulded by external influences while growing up.  One can be an introvert or an extrovert, one who likes music and dancing and one who has two left feet and tone deaf.  Some of these personal qualities remain constant but can be tempered or maybe improved through personality development or by constantly looking for ways to become a better person.  Being yourself does not mean becoming lazy and complacent of your lot because the present you is who you really are.  It entails discovering or deciphering what you can change in yourself for the better and accepting what you cannot change(read desiderata).  if you are shy, then find ways to overcome your shyness, be a bit outgoing and don't become a hermit and a loner because you think that is who you are.  On the other hand, if you're lacking in physical attractiveness, then accept it as it is.  You can only change so much.  Look at how Michael Jackson looks now, it's a shame. Being yourself also entails having a sense of self, knowing who you really are, what you can do, sticking to your values and beliefs and not succumbing to peer pressures or demands of a group.  Well, what I can say, is that with the way our society behaves and in this world of extreme materialism and obsession to the physical self and mundane matters, it is not easy to be oneself, probably it is easier living a lie and following the way of the world.  But then again, it all boils down to personal choice and what kind of life you really want to live.  Cheers.
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Ok however you see yourself that is exactly what everyone else will see. You think that you are a dork then you are a dork it's up to you how you want people to see you. If you need to make some changes don't be afraid of self improvement it is only to better yourself you don't have to change your morals or standard think how you want to be recieved by people then and take a look at your best qualities about yourself and use them listen to or read a lot of self help books because their are people just like you had the same problems and now they are either popular or they are movie stars you name it people change what they feel they don't like about themselves usually they start with negativity stop being hard on yourself and give your own self a chance! Start beleiving in yourself and start with a positive mind don't hang out with people that don't except you and always have something negative to say about you or treat you not so nice the real friends will come eventually
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hi.\njust be urelf .never ever change ur self for a guy..in  99.9%  of cases he is not worth changing for :)......f u will change to a better person then ur doing it for URself and not for him.........just be urself f he doesnt notice U then he doesnt deserve u and hes BLIND and a loser just ignore him ...f u ignore him he might miss ur presence or something and then he will act diffrently.....\n\n\ngooooood luck
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Sure, but it takes a while.  The way I did it was to improve myself.  Loose a few pounds, change your hair, whatever.  Get out of the style you had with the other person.  Change your style, go to a few places other than where you went with him/her.  Meet some friends of friends and get into a new circle.  Your new friends won't know about your past. Before long you'll be caught up with improving yourself and your new friends you'll forget all about you know who.  Keep your old friends.  If they bring up you know who, just say you wish them well, but I'm not really interested.  Change the subject or politely walk away, go to the bathroom or whatever.  Pretty soon your friends will get the idea.  Never, never, slag you know who.  Don't lower yourself to talking bad about someone.  That will get back to the other person, and will also keep him/her on your mind.  Best of luck.
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start from the inside.  figure out what you love about yourself.  make yourself more marketable.  learn to cook, read more topics like sports, science, politics, sex, etc.  get passionate.  further your education.  the better you feel about yourself the more different people will be interested in you.  remember people don't give you joy, so they can't take it away.
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accept yourself for who you are and always try to do what's right.\nUnderstand too, that you can never stop learning and try to be the best in everything you do, without the expectation of ever BEING the best.\nAlso, realise that one person can change the world and life really is what you make it.\n\nEvery cloud has a silver lining and there is always something to learn from every situation, no matter how good or bad it is, to help you grow.\n\n\nAll the best.
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Change the things you don't like about yourself ... you're allowed to do that ya know. The nice, smart girl will see that you're trying to better yourself, and if she really cares about you, she won't judge you for your past. We all have one.