why do people hate each other and why jealousy is everywhere?
540938
People hate each other because they are not pleased with themselves which causes them to become jealous of others. Most people are jealous because they see others with the things they feel should be thiers instead of focusing on themselves and trying to get things on their own.
548175
Because it's part of a healing process for some people. You feel that you need to get revenge so that the person hurts as much as you are. Some people do it so that they can move to the 'hate' stage so it doesn't hurt as bad. And some are just jealous that they have moved on with their life and are happier yet you are still stuck in the past and are lonely (even if it was a dysfunctional relationship).
1051778
People hate what they don't understand or what they fear. Isn't it peculiar to have one religion "hate" another religion. God must really love that.
286149
people tend to dis like or even hate what they dont understand... they are frustrated at being ignorant so they act ignorant... the funny thing is if people got to know each other they wouldn't be ignorant and all this would go away...
869699
A love-hate relationship is between two people who refuse to accept the liking of each other or the enjoyment of one another's presence, or have some sort of previous resentment or bitterness between each other. The couple usually holds a weak grudge towards one another creating a feud between emotional depression and happily ever after. The relationship is held together by the hatred each person conjures when feeling incomparable to the other's perfection. This anger is the cover up for the "love" part of the relationship because the couple dislikes social knowledge of the affair. The hate is also powered by the teasing of each person while the frustration reaches its maximum level through the restriction on releasing their sexual tension and intimacy.\n\nOn the other hand, the relationship may be held together entirely by insecurity; the people in the relationship may believe that (for some reason or another) they are "unable to live without" one another, and knowing no other existence but with each other, choose the certainty of staying together over the risk of leaving. The two people in such a relationship are totally incompatible, but believe that they are both with the best person for themselves that they are going to get.
27027
Usually if a person is jealous it is because the other person isn't being truthful about, where they've been, who with, etc.  Talking is the reamdy for jealousy.\n\nJust relax let the person do what they are going to do and stop being jealous (controling) and you'll see who they really are.  If you don't like it, tell them, if they don't want to change.. move on.  Life is to short to try to control people and make them change drastically.
345223
Humans have always hated in others what we hate about ourselves.  That is why you have so many people angrily attacking things they say they hate about our society.  Yet, what they hate the worst is what they see in the mirror everyday.  Normally, this isn't an issue but lately many of these hateful people have taken positions of power in our national government and that looks to be leading us to yet another unjust war.  Too make that situation even worse, these folks hide their hate behind religion... what a dangerous and explosive combination.
202627
People are self loving, that being said it is easier to dislike anything or anyone that is different than (self) and even hate them.  Hate starts with name calling which is used to separate you from me.  Once separated, I can abuse you or say bad things about you because your different.  Wish it were not so, 6 billion of us on the big ball and we differ in so many ways.
1025588
People secretly envy what they hate.
162571
Because a)everyone else is like a flock of sheep in the fact that they try to look, be, & act just like everyone else and don't care to form their OWN opinion on things b) a lot of these people get angry because they sometimes regret their own choices and wish they could be more like you & c)are codependant and could never imagine 'being alone' either now or when they get older. People are just nosy in general and it isn't any of their business. I have friends like you and have asked them the question of why not just out of curiosity though. I support & applaud your decision! Next time just make up something interesting like you saw the Exorcist and just didn't want to take that chance!
753898
Because people who hate want their kids to hate. For example, family A hates black people, they have a daughter and they fear she might grow up and marry "one of those........" so they teach her hate to "protect" her.\n\nStupid, I didn't say it wasn't, however that is about the best way I can explain ignorance.
575162
those people who do that are just jealous. there has to be some quality about u that causes them to hate u for it. you just have to be the better person and ignore them. Because for everyone, there will always ALWAYS be someone who will hate you for what you are and what you stand for. u just have to decide whether their opinion of u will change how u think of yourself.
629941
People hate other people. It's almost an inherent aspect of the species. Hatred is rampant in Europe, Russia, the US, the Middle East.\n\nWhy? Because people are intolerant of those who are different. And that intolerance makes them want to eliminate those who are different. It's the whole basis for attempted genocide in Africa, the Palestinian conflict, racism everywhere, and the same for the war on terror (both the US and foreign sides of the conflict).\n\nShould we step in and stop the hatred? Absolutely. But where do we start? I think we need to start wherever home is, and clean our own mess and stop prejudice-inspired violence here.  \n\nI don't care what people think about other people. If you want to hate someone, or fear them, that's your choice. But that doesn't give anyone the right to attack someone else just for being different. Not the Skin-Heads, not the Genocidal generals, not the Terrorists, and not the US neocons.  \n\nSadly, the way the world is going, people are polarizing and even political parties are starting to hate and attack each other just for having different beliefs. The world has gone to hell in a hand-basket, and there's serious question on whether people are going to wise up and learn to get along before the process becomes terminal.
115012
The question is why is there so much hatred between ANY groups? We discriminate between skin tones, ages, sex, sex preferences, weight, car preferences, sports teams, political parties, language, education, finances, and far more.
352456
Racism is prevalent in every society in every part of the world.\n\nTo some degree, it's normal to dislike people who are not like you.  In areas where people have contact, but not personal contact, with people of another race, you will find racism.\n\nWe naturally tend to generalize when we don't have intimate knowledge of a particular group of people, and we tend to remember negative impressions longer and in more detail than posative impressions.  It's easy to generalize based on race, since it's usually the most obvious attribute when you see someone.
1131716
It could quite possibly be that someone else is sticking their jealous nose into the relationship and trying to break the two people up by pointing out that person's faults.  It happened to one of my friends they were "madly in love" and he started to get very irritated with his girlfriend because everyone else didn't like her I wasn't fond of her either but thats was no reason to try and break them up...I really hate when people who really know nothing about a relationship find ways to break people up.  Honnestly tho if it is that someone is influencing someones views of their partner that much it wasn't meant to be...they have a brain of their own and can make their own decisions. \n\nI dunno I could just be going out on a tangent here.
1028842
You get one person who is full of anger and hatred for the other side and sadly anger and hatred spawn more anger and hatred. Someone will frustrate or anger soneone and it warrants a response and although some try to stay civil other don't seem to have the ability.