How can i get people to believe me if they don't trust me? bY FRANKIE?
549102
regaining peoples trust is the only way
655679
First improve your body language. Sit up straight, always have a slight smile on your face even if you are not doing anything(this encourages people to be open to you and even ask what your thinking), look directly at the person so they will feel trust. Ask questions and really listen to the answers.
723141
u need to trust of yourself and trust of other
658886
why wouldnt i believe you? what reason would you have to randomly lie about that? you're wierd
196582
Take the high road each and every time.  If you succumb to these rumors, you will have lost already.  If you come across someone who's acting weird or evasive probably because of these rumors, ask them straight out and persuade them to talk about it ("perhaps you've heard something about me?...) in a non-confrontational manner.  Tell them that you would be more than happy to clear it up and would entertain their queries which you would appreciate because it's something that you could respond to having been said to your face. If you know who started the rumors, you can do this same tactic also.  This usually makes them apologetic because they can't take full frontal frankness.
773562
What ever people said about you, true friends never change their minds because someone spread a rumour. \n\nIf it is very important to you stay in this group you must discover who tell this lie and face him/her in public. \n\nIf you can not find it, try to speak with your "best friend" of this group and ask why they change their mood with you. Tell her/him the truth.\n\nBut mostly I think you should search a new group, true friends does not need an explain, they trust you.
86868
well they already spread around. so it is good if you hold your head up high. as long as you know that it is not true. then you shouldn't even buy in to all of that. if somebody asks you is it true, then tell them no. if they start all these questions like well she/he said that you did this or you did that then just ignore them. just try to lift your head above the clouds. but, not too high as if you are conceited. before you know it you will no longer be in their conversation. there would be no more rumors about you and you will be able to go on. then you will be able to go on in life and not have to worry about them anymore. just be patient it will happen and you will be ok!!!!!!!!!
1020512
What makes him believe that the rumors were spread by you?  Are all the "evidences" pointing towards you?  Then first thing you have to do is disprove them.  Explain things to him and have friends back you up.  Relationships are built on trust.  If your friend/partner doubts you because of ONE RUMOR,\nmaybe trust is missing in the first place.   Ask yourself, then, "Is he worth keeping and fighting for?"
534493
Its better not to trust anyone beyond a point. The only person you could trust is your own self and be not too greedy to expect total trust from someone. If they can not deliver what they promise in some occasions its not that they are not trust worthy... But there must be some compelling reasons to fail. And trust is not something that can be asked or demanded and sought in return. You need to trust someone consciously or subconsciously with your own discretion watching from a safe distance
699187
They won't listen to you honestly.... sorry to say. SO wait it out, take their remarks and comments, and when they're through thinking your a perve, they'll come around.
61094
He can learn to be secure enough in himself to trust you.\n\nSadly, you can't make anyone believe anything, they have to do it themselves.
1077725
It isn't always easy to trust. Especially if you've been burned more than once.\n\nGet to know a person well. Trust them little by little. Trust them in small things first, and that will show you if they can be trusted with bigger things. Eventually you'll have a close circle of friends you know you can trust. \n\nRemember, not everyone is out to betray you, and not everyone lies. Hang in there!
160473
Basically in life, everyone lies. If not they aren't homosapiens. To trust someone is a very difficult thing to do. Before you can start trusting someone, ask yourself this question, "Do I trust anyone in the first place?" You must sacrifice something in order to gain something. You are afraid that someone lied to to you. Is the matter a big one or a small one or it's just your feeling? The best way is to ask the person directly in a gentle manner. People lie but you must never keep that anger/worry in you. Learn how to forgive and forget as it could be the best remedie in living a happier life!
145083
if you don't believe him then why are you here? just ignore him or tell him to get lost, he sounds like trouble to me. if there is a reason for you to not believe anything he saids then trust yourself.
150486
Trust is something you earn. Show them you can be trusted.
383738
ive been thr also keep ur head up u have your frnds and family tell them thr a ******* loser and 2 **** off and if they dun like the way u r **** them my teacher alwys told us over and over "you are valuable don't let anyone make you think your not!" and i think that goes 4 every1 hope this helps ya out \n\n                                                    -Kyle
382288
Try to be as polite as possible.  Explain common misconceptions about it in a way that isn't harsh or exasperated.  Some people will never believe that we know better than they do what our faith is about and you won't be able to change their minds no matter what.  \n\nI try my best to show them by example that what they think they know is not true.   My line of thinking has always been if they can see that I'm not running around dressed all in black threatening to cast spells on people then maybe what they think they know is false.  It works sometimes and not others.  \n\nI know it's difficult to maintain your composure when people become hostile and insulting, but you almost have to.  If you respond in kind, you prove their point.