i want to tell my Best friend that i am interested in her sexually. HOW?
537713
Wow.  That's going to be tough.  Lot of chance for an extreme amount of rejection and if it goes badly, that might be the end of the friendship.\n\nI would not recommend alcohol.  You don't want this to be a situation where it can be claimed that you took advantage of her.\n\nJust bring up the subject again as that you've already talked about it.  You can't just start with that though...lead into it by maybe talking about an actress that you find attractive.  Say something like "she's so hot, even *I* would...etc."  Bring up your previous conversation, tell her you've been thinking about it more lately.  Ask her what kind of woman she'd want to try it with.  Hedge around it...guide the questions to find out how close you can get to it.  Leave her and yourself a lot of outs...\n\nOr...Hot tubbing?  "Accidental" contact under the water...footsies, in essence.  See how she reacts?\n\nBut.  You are married.  Unless your husband has okayed this sort of extracurricular activity...this would be a mistake.  You have seriously got to ask yourself whether you want to jeopardize your relationship over this.  On the bright side, your husband most likely would say go for it, as long as he gets details and/or something else from it...
518599
Be her friend. That's the best advice I can give you. It's ok to let her know you are interested in more.. in a low key way, because sometimes to put it all on the line can affect the friendship.If she knows already that your feelings run deeper, then just keep on  being there for her and being her friend.. If it's meant to  be more, it will be. If it isn't, then at least you have your friendship, and that's worth ALOT.
133224
tell her how you feel if she is your best bud then you should feel comfortable enough around her to tell her anything and if she is the girl you think she is she will be honest with you and let you know exactly how she feels
23000
Be her best friend as well as her husband. Make it easy for her to talk to you...Pay attention to what she says, & have feedback to it. Show that she has your attention, & your concern. Be considerate to her feelings. Give her compliments & reassure her of your love. A single rose just to say "I love you", giving her lots of affection, & hold her after you make love to her.....\n\nThats just to name a few...\n\ngood luck :)
515834
just start it a kiss. maybe get close enough where you can bump into her and rub your hand lightly over her breast to get her horny and wet too. if its going happen then it will
1065390
You may need to tell her at some point, unless you choose to only act on attractions to members of the opposite sex.  I think if you feel you need to tell her, go ahead.  Be prepared for any kind of response, though.  You need to count on having a long, calm talk with her when you do tell her.  Do not yell, even if she does, and just keep your voice calm and stay sitting down to have a decent conversation with her.  That is how you can get her to listen to her.
545692
Seriously...ask them.  Or just listen.  Most people always drop some kind of hint to something they really want.  Maybe she has a favorite performer she has always wanted to see or she collects something, etc.  This is your best friend.  You know who and what they love the most.  Get something that reflects this.
876099
You don't tell her you show her, lead the way and she will follow if she's the least bit interested.  Chances are she has been thinking about it too.  I could give you a step by step process but I won't do it in an open forum like this.
476069
It is so nice that you care so much about  both your friend and you.\n\nYou see whatever happened has happened. It can't be changed. So either you find ways to move on or you just slack back.\n\nYou said you are best friends. A lot of things happen between best friends you know so this should not be a hard one to tackle. It happened because you were both passionate about each other. It now appears you are both bi. No big deal.\n\nFirst you said you liked him and now you are saying you don't know if you like him. NO problem about that, you will soon know if you like him or not.\n\nHowever, since you said you have not seen him in a month and this whole thing is getting into you, well i think is about time you talk with him. It does not matter if you are different persons or not, you still have to find out where you stand. You need to talk with him and find out if you are both embarassed about the things that happened and if you still want to be best of friends. If you both still want to keep on having sexual feelings for each other, well that is when to find out, by talking to each other. Please tell him your mind, what you think, what should stop, what should go on and stuffs like that. It will work out.\n\nYou and i both know you don't want to lose a friend like him. Then i think it's about time you spoke to him.\n\nPlease don't feel shy. OK. Open up and tell him every single thing in your heart.\n\nYou will definitely find your answer. Keep it cool and GOOD LUCK.\n\nHave fun too.
471075
Heres a great one. I'm a girl, so you know this wont offened her. Just say-\n"hey I was getting really wound up today, I kept thinking about us doing ------ And picturing you while we were doing that  really turned me on.."\nThat way, you are introducing it with a positive spin. And remember, Let her know Its about her too. The thought of her being hot in your opinion, will probably make her more willing and alot more into it.
77986
I don't think bringing it up suddenly with a direct proposal or a phone call would work. It'd probably be really awkward and screw up your relationship (and if this happens to you, try to say "Just kidding" or something like that to wipe the shocked expression off of her face). Instead, go really slow and subtle about it. Cross the border between friendship and romance real slowly. Make it clear to both of you that you both have ascended to another level without declaring it out loud.
359125
Here are some questions to help you think about this.  I know it's hard to see your friends objectively, especially when you're attracted to them.  Still, try and be honest and ask:\n\nIs she likely to tell someone else what you've said to her? (Does she tell you the secrets of her other friends?  If so, you can't really trust her with yours)\n\nIs she single?  (If she's not single, the answer is no, don't tell her.  She'll tell her boyfriend- and even if she doesn't tell him, there's no future in it)\n\nIs she serious about an anti-gay religion? \n\nHas she ever mentioned any curiosity about lesbianism?\n\nOkay- my honest opinion is that it's a bad idea.  It's a rare friend that will be able to handle that kind of confession without getting weird.  As with most friends, a sexual attraction isn't worth losing the friendship, especially if you can't really see yourself going into an all-out lesbian relationship. As it stands, you're going to confess you want to hook up with her- for what benefit?  Say she's interested in experimenting with you.  You hook up, and then what?  Are you still friends?  Will you be jealous when she still wants to have sex wiht other people?  Think about the long term consequences.  \n\nWhat if she isn't interested at all?  At best, she'll pity you, and mistake all your friendly overtures in the future as attempts at seduction or puppy love.   \n\nBest case scenarios: you tell her, you hook up, you both discover that this works for you and you start a long-term committed sexual relationship.  Or, you hook up, one night only, you both think it's fun but agree you both need a dick for full satisfaction, end of story.  \n\nChances are these fairy tale endings in which you're both on the same page won't happen, and you'll lose a good friend in the process.
446909
how close are you guys? sit her down were you two are most comfortable and just speak your mind, or if you arent one to speak your mind find a way to show her and get her to think that way for you, kinda like minipulation but for a good cause. if she feels the same way you can kinda tell alot of times, be confident and just tell her, womenX i have been feeling this way for a long time, Or my style---there was a secret i have been hiding from you for a long time, and it kinda scares me *build up the suspense*...i have never mett anyone like you, or something.....bla bla bla u get the picture, Dont be afraid of rejection, it either works out or it doesnt bro.
431608
You just gotta tell her.  If she does it then let her know you enjoy it.  If she is shy about it then just let her move at her own pace.
866122
Telling her is a good start. Hearing it is 1/2 the battle. Constant little reminders r always good. Flowers, candy, a phone call in the middle of the day just 2 say "hey, i was thinking of u and wanted u 2 know i love u.", or at the end of the day ask just 2 ask,"how was ur day?" and really want 2 know. Maybe u could try doing something with her u can't stand, but u know she loves. Perhaps she knows u love her, she is just scared of real love? Make it comfortable 4 her, try not to push her, just be the best friend, the best lover, the best listener, the best u ca b 2 her. How could she possibly Dennie  true love from someone so full of it 4 her.\nGood luck!
695763
You and your best friend dress in sexy skirts, walk up to him, stick out your hand, introduce yourselves with handhakes. You be the one doing the introductions, introduce yourself first, then say, "and this is my best friend..." and give her name. Then give him a wink and say, "and we share EVERYTHING." Ask him for his name, and when he gives it, thank him, then you both turn and walk away.
1165132
Well if you really like him then you just tell him.  Just say that I would like to take this friendship to the next level like a date and see where it goes.  Don't have sex right away just take it slow and let it blossom.  I have been married to my friend for 9 years and tat is how we started..