i have 1 son he is 2 1&#92;2 and i dont want to let him go?
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It is hard to let him go away, but you must trust your Aunt to let him go with her. You only have one day to go before you hold him again. He will miss you, but it is good for him to spend some time with others as one day you might need to go into hospital or leave him for some other reason,and he will know that you will be back to get him. We all hate to let anyone care for our children, but realistically there will come a time when you will need to leave him again, if only when he goes to school, and if he is used to you going and coming back to him themn it won't so traumatic for him, Our children are grown with children of their own, and live in other states of Australia,and we still miss them, so you are not alone ,but it does get easier,     give him a big hug when you see him and don't let him know that you are upset,as it will only upset him.
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it should be good if you can control him. I had my 11 month old at my step-moms funeral and everyone enjoyed holding him and passing him around. He enjoyed the attention and my sisters and dad enjoyed the distraction from the obvious
84017
Discipline. Or you will be in for some really tough times once he is older.  Grounding, take away things he likes.  Follow through, and don't give in.  You need tough love Mom.
209369
If their only son doesn't want it ask him to sign over his claim to it to you and or talk to a lawyer
1141923
That is hard. It depends where you are at. Here in the state of KS at the age of 12 the child can decide who they want to be with. You should ask about that law. Im sorry to hear what your son is going threw. Tell him to be strong.
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he is a guy and your brother. i have an older one and three little ones. hate to break it to you, but there is not a whole lot you can do about it, but just dont indulge his behavior and be sure that he sees it is not mature.
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If he treats you badly , he doesn't have any respect for you and with no respect there can never be a solid relationship between two people.  You should however maintain a "friendship" for the sake of your son but if I were you I would  focus on something other than being with him. I understand that you still love him and break ups are sometimes hard to get over but if he has already moved on than that should tell you that the amount of love and respect he has for you is very little if not non existent. You need to set your standards higher in your next relationship because you deserve someone that will love and honor you and when you do find the man that treats you like a queen you will think back to him and realize that he wasn't worth the love that you felt for him. Remain civil with him for your son's sake and never , ever show him that you are weak.
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That is a hard thing to go through.  If you know deep in your heart that you guys cannot make it work then you really need to move on and let him do so too.  He's the father of your child, you will always love him for that and hating to see him with someone else is only natural, it kind of like a territory thing.  You probably feel like it's okay for you to move on but it pisses you off that he is.  There's just so much history there that it's going to take time but if you know for a fact that it will not work then wouldn't you want to see him happy with someone then miserable with no one.  You have to also think about that little girl.  Are you guys better parents when you're apart or when you guys are together.  If the answer to that is apart then no matter how much you love him, you can't be with him because of your child's best interest.  \n\nSit down with him and talk about this, seriously and not a passing word here or there and not while you guys are at the park with your daughter.  Tell him that you would like to see him alone, just the two of you to discuss the future of your family.  Really sit down together, not to get intimate, and discuss all the pros and cons of being together or not and then work on it from there.\n\nGood luck to you!
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Sounds like he doesn't want you, but he doesn't want anyone else to get close enough to want you either. He wants to keep you reeled in just close enough to give him freedom, but to keep you from gaining any. Cut him loose, sweetie. Be the very best mommy you can be to your children, because they are also going to suffer a loss here. They are going to be sensing a void in their lives that you will have to fill. Don't take any calls from him unless it involves the children or the divorce. Do not talk about what could've been or what should've been. IF HE WANTS YOU BACK BAD ENOUGH, HE WON'T TALK ABOUT IT, HE WILL DO ALL HE CAN TO SHOW YOU! Do not fall for empty promises or the all-famous, "I need a little space" or "I need a little time to think about it." First, concentrate on your kids; your security and confidence will soon grow around you and stand you up on your two feet. Eventually, you will wonder why you wasted the time you did on waiting for him. Give yourself 1 year to recover...it's only 365 days. No big deal. Good luck!
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If he's threatening to take your son away from you it's because he feels threatened.  He's insecure and wrong for using your son as a tool to manipulate you.  If you've already tried to discuss the topic and he continues to restrict you from going out, you should seek counseling.  If that doesn't work, use your best judgement. No one should have to feel threatened in a marriage.
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I think you are stuck.  Your rights as a mother are no stronger than his rights as a father.  You both have rights as parents, and that means that neither of you can pick up the child and move out of state without the permission of the other.  Would you like it if he decided to move to California with your son but not you?
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But he's still your son,no matter what.  You should honor your obligation no matter what.  You don't want your son to ever have any reason to say that you didn't step up to the plate and do the right thing.  HE'S YOUR SON!!!!!!!!
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This is a tough question. To start, i hope that whatever decision you make will lead you to happiness and that is the decision you need to make. You must take into consideration the life of your son. If you think that it is an unsave environment to raise him in, then you need to get out. I aslo believe in second chances, but after that it better not be an excuse that the person is giving to me after that. If you have already given him many chances, i think it is time to step aside, even if it is only for alittle bit, to let the situation cool so you can make a rational decision. My God help you in this troubling time. Please let me know what happens by posting a question answer statment. :-)
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you really cant let go you have a child together emotionally its always going to be hard she was your first love my advice is try to find things to do with your time you and your daughter together and just remember what goes around comes around
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You just told it. Tell it to your son that way. It's better when it come from the way you remember it. \nI'm wondering how old your son is that you still have such a tight relationship. Just don't smother him, or one day it will be too much for him. \nLove but let live, too.
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Now i'm not going to call you crazy but please listen up. This is not a world you should trust, meaning there are alot of cooks out there who is willing and able to take advantage of your love for them. Why don't you wait about a year, have patience, and see where God wants to take you. You have a soul responsibility to your son, and taking him on a dangerous journey is not very wise. You going alone is not wise in itself so putting your son a risk for something terrible to happen is even worse. Love conquers all but as it says in Pr 14:8 The wisdom of the prudent is to understand his way: but the folly of FOOLS is deceit. Don't be decieved into something that might not be meant to be and might not be God's will for you and your sons life. Seek the wisdom and instruction of the Lord if you believe. You have only known him for two months and you are quickly and foolishly running off to another state with him. Is this because you have a dream for your son to have a father and you to have family, well let it be done right not foolishly. Take the step to saying I will go with you but not now. Wait about a year or even two, and see if he still loves you then, see what kind of person he really is. Then  see after that if he will marry you. If so then you know you are on your way to having that family but my best advice to you is seek the kingdom of God first and all of these things shall be added unto you. Make sure you are equally yoked, meaning you must have the same beliefs in God and are both saved. If that's not the case than it will not work, trust  me on this! Do you know for sure what he believes as far as God and salvation, marriage? Do you know for sure what he does for a living? have you done a back ground check on him? Give me his name and I can do it for you email me privately. It's for your and your son's saftey. Do yo know his history and full personality? Do you know his family and have you talked to any of them? Is he controlling? Do you know what he likes and don't like? Do you know his dating history? Most of these you probably believe you know or don't know yet but are serious things you need to consider when leaving your safety zone and your family. They might be on to something so talk to them. Parents often times can sense danger of there child. please email me. I am very concerned for you saftey and your sons. \nsincerely yours, Godly Woman
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Get pissed off and fuck his brains out, then do not call or talk to him for a while.  If he knows whats good for him, which is only you, he will stay with you and drop the other one.