What do you do when another girl calls your boyfriends phone at all hours?
542906
YOu have to ask him directly who this girl is, and why is she calling him all the time. Be conscious that he can lie, so you have to decide if you want to be with him if he have other girls who call him all the time for no reason; specially if he doesn't give you a good explanation.\nGood luck and don't be afraid to ask.
302381
You may just have to make her angry.  There's no easy way to tell someone to leave you alone.  Just let her know gently, that the two of you have nothing special.  It was just one night and she has a boyfriend.  It's not fair to her boyfriend and it's not fair to you.  Let her know you two aren't right for each other.  Hopefully, she'll get the hint.  You could even be honest and tell her you're just not ready for a commitment right now, and it would be better if the two of you kept some distance.  She may be heartbroken, but I don't think she'll be angry.  If she does something nuts like breaks up with her boyfriend over you, or hurts herself or something.... you might just have to piss her off and tell her she's lost it.
871731
Additional phone=additional girlfriend.
304705
She wanted to get back at you because you missed her call the night before.  It happens.  No big deal, get over it.  If you can't get over it, you need to date someone less cool.  Cool people need and give space.  They don't call each other every night for two hours.  They don't play phone tag games.
348374
You dont need to be the one to bitch her out, your boyfriend does! tell your boyfried that he needs to explain to her that he already has a girlfriend and doesnt want any part of being in a relationship with this girl. If you get in on it, she will keep doing this stuff either for attention, or out of jealousy, that your involved. After your boyfriend confronts her (which you should be there with him so she cant say anything else about you) then just ignore her. give her time to calm down and to stop calling your boyfriend. After a little while, if she still doesnt get the point, you might want to contact the police and explain that you already tried to tell her nicely to leave him alone and he even got his number changed and shes still doing stuff. Next time she text's your boyfriend, saying sexual things, save those messages, and it can be used against her as harrasment. Just dont do anything bad like get into a fist fight with her, or be the one to throw the first punch, because then she can complain to the police about that. \n\n\nGood Luck!
333905
Why doesn't he block her or have his number changes?  She can only contact him and talk to him if he allows it.  The problem here isn't her but your boyfriend.  If he wanted to stop her then he would have.
1067314
Your boyfriend is breakin up with you.  I've done it like that b4 myself.  dont need to come out and say it, just let it drift apart n by the time the girl asks whats goin on, i'm already with someone else.
323423
all you need to do is tell her that boyfriends can break up with but friends are always there (even after their boyfriend dumps them)
1038050
Um i would say no thats not ok...tell her that she needs to set him straight that she is with u and he needs to stop calling. doesnt that make you feel sh*tty? tell her how u feel
732485
you have given him plenty of chances to show that he no good for  and you have a right to be jealous and that girl is not just his friend. if he was in a committed relationship with you he has no need exchange numbers with another girl. open your eyes baby, you deserve better.
780588
you need to stop checkin gup on your man.  if you consider your relationship to be serious then he does too.  if he has things that he deleted he probably just deleted the number of some of his buddies you don;t like.  from a guy in the same situation as your man i can say he probably isn't calling a bunch of girls so give dude a break.  i live with my girl and she checks my phone all the time.  what is that number who is that if i call will a girl pick up who have you been calling all that is annoying.  it's the pizza place, it's my work number.  that's were i let somebody borrow my phone.  \n\nhe probably just cleared out anything that he thought you would bitch about and he doesn't want to hear it
763800
I don't think you love him...not yet, especially if you and he can't have a conversation over the phone yet.  A lot of guys don't like the phone, and they aren't like girls who can just sit around talking about things.  Don't call him unless you actually have something to say to him...whether it be, "hey, come over for a while", or "what do you want to do this weekend"...don't just call and make "what did you do today" the whole conversation.  Maybe what he is doing isn't even worth mentioning...in his eyes anyway.  It seems to me that you need someone that can stimulate conversation, and in this relationship that's going to have to be you.  Ask him direct questions and you will get direct answers.
693365
Before you accuse or jump to any conclusions you need to talk to your fiance.It could be nothing but it won't hurt to find out.You should also tell him that he shouldn't give his cell number to any females that you don't know.No other woman should be calling his ass anyway.You are his woman and you should be his only female friend,no man in a committed relationship should have female friends, You may or may not trust your man,but I wouldn't trust any of his female friends.If she's calling about work she should call him at home and I would be right there listening.It sounds fishy to me.I would be concerned and get to the bottom of it.I hope it's nothing-but if something is going on you have to decide whether he's worth staying with.You won't be happy being with someone you don't trust.I wish you the best of luck and I hope he doesn't throw it all away for a fling -it's just not worth it.
803297
I can understand both your sides. If you can't trust him, you need to figure out why - is it him, or is it you? To me, it sounds like it's you. STOP trying to make him justify himself to you. He is not your son - he is your boyfriend. If it's him, and you know FOR A FACT you can't trust him, then leave him!!!! Either way, stop making him account for his time - he is his own person. \nCould he have called you and told you he was going to be late? He probably should have apologized, and perhaps didn't if you jumped his sh** right then and there. \nRemember, men and women react differently - likely, he is not trying to hide something, he just doesnt appreciate being treated like a child and is trying to reclaim some autonomy.
1160255
Stop spying on your boyfriend....I think I'm going to call the number and let him know.\n\nAre you from San Jose, CA? Do you know a Sherry Barrett?
1032762
Does it strike you as odd that he doesn't call all day and then shortly after you call him this evening then he calls? My guess would be that he DID have his phone, could see it was you calling, is somewhere doing something he would rather be doing than talking to you and so he used someone else's phone to call you and make up a story about not having his phone with him.
38206
tell your bf but keep the number and call. check it out, maybe theres some things you two need to talk about.