My Boyfriend keeps treating me like dirt and last night he fingered me and now  he wants to sleep with me.....
552745
sounds to me that he's the classic 'L' word for sex type.. some guys will say they love you to get some.. please dont let yourself fall into that trap.. talk to him about the way he treats you.. if he loves ya he will stop.. but girl.. Id get away while you still can.. you dont want to find yourself in situations later that suck..
706453
Wipe your eyes and move on.He has done you a favour if he behaves like that.you will find someone who wants you for yourself take your time there is no hurry and everyone is wanted by someone have patience.
93224
Sweetie, unfortunately what he did was very messed up. All that you can do is try your best to move on... I know that it's hard as h*ll, but you have give yourself some stength and courage to keep on moving. Girl I don't have a clue as to what caused him to do that. If anything try to write him a letter about how you feel and let him know that he really hurt you. Tell him that he was wrong for what he did, and that you deserved at least an explanation. Show him that although you are hurting, you are not going to allow him to bring you down. Don't worry b/c What goes around, comes around... EVERYTIME!!... That's why my name is KARMA baby!!!!! Good Luck MaMa!! You are gonna be just fine. Just use that strength that you were born with!!!!!!!!!!
763795
You should tell him staight up that you dont want to hook up with him like you used too....if you're not honest, it could get worse!
302721
Try to ignore him.  Don't give him any attention, especially when he's trying hard to annoy you, act like you're unbothered.  Eventually he'll get tired of trying and leave you alone.  If he gets physical with you, take action.  Be serious and look him in the eye and tell him not to touch you again.  If it continues, report him to the police (or your parents/principle, depending on how old you are).
769898
He sounds like a very controlling guy the next time he does this don't contact him in any way he wants control and you are giving it to him every time there are so many better guys out there you don't need a guy who constantly makes you feel bad about yourself. Get rid of him he does not deserve you.
118233
your behavior seems very irresponsible.  look at yourself.  take responsibility for yourself, your feelings, your actions.  Learn from your mistakes in this relationship
592926
Leave him. Pure and simple. If he is not treating you right then leave him before things get worse for you. There are plenty of guys out there that will treat you right.
1111452
He is using you.  I am sorry to say but he is.  You don't deserve it you can find a better man than him.  Trust me.
77024
Have you considered dumping him? That'll fix him for sure.... Unless you are fond of passing out drunks who treat you poorly. Just a thought.
834546
Ew, I think his nails scratched you up inside. Tell him to trim them down really well and be gentle next time.
622974
Your boyfriend is using the situation to manipulate you into doing his sexual fantasy.  He has got this idea into his head as to what he wants you to do, and now he is looking for any excuse to get you to do it.  He probably wasn't even that mad about the phone call, he just saw an opportunity to get his way.\n\nFrankly, the guy sounds like a loser.  He is trying to completely control you and force you to do things you don't want to do using emotional blackmail.  Move on.
1059182
Sounds like a loser to me.  The more comfortable he gets with you, the more likely he will start to abuse you, physically or verbaly.  It doesn't sound like you are in a very good situation.  You should get out of it.  Nobody should tell you what to do all of the time and the jealousy thing, it kind of makes me scared for you.  Good luck!
788266
He is a jerk... and he was trying to play you. I suggest you move on and find another cutie that doesn't lie and treats you right :)
797063
Stop doing everything for him and give him a taste of what it would be like if you weren't around.  He is using you, wake up!
916720
Sweetie, just because he isn't physically abusing you doesn't mean he's not still abusing you.  He's traded in the fists for emotional abuse.  That's what he's doing when he tells you he hates you and other hurtful things.  You need to get out of that relationship as soon as you can.  get yourself into some counseling so you understand why you chose to be with an abuser, and move on.  I understand completely where you're coming from, I've been there.  Since I've gone to counseling and stuff, I've come to understand myself so much better.  You will, too.  When you do, it will help you choose a different type of guy.....one that won't abuse you.  I've finally found my Mr. Right, and you will, too.  You just need to get out of this relationship.  Email me if you want to talk some more.  I'm a good listener :)
863969
WHat?? He fingered you in front of the whole family, even though it was dark?? Were your pants open then? You gave him a hand job right there??\n\nUh....well...uh...yeah it was wrong to do. You should've gone to the room in the first place!