Loving each other but not compatible? Help...?
546195
Our zodiacs showed compatibility but it turned out wrong. Have the confidence about your feelings for the person and ignore the zodiac details. Best of luck...
808491
Why wouldn't it be ok????? Go for, if you both enjoy each other.
100456
You can't marry somone you don't love.Trust your heart.I think you already know the answer.good luck
711457
you're definitely not in love. its all infatuation. would caution u to think twice before making such decision (to marry). when u have doubts, don't do it.
501530
How can you love a person who is not suitable for you. And if you have a feeling of love for someone, what is the criteria for being suitable. But if you have a feeling of love, then give it a shot, may be its all in your head.\n\nI am not the best at advice but you may try it out once. Life's not gonna end after that.
587404
From what you say it seems your dilemma is...your head verses your heart... the head is usually right you didn't say why he couldn't commit... but in any case i think you've already conceded that fact. My advice would be to make a clean break... continuing to be friends is just keeping your hope alive... I say continue on with your life meet someone new... yes it is completely possible  and likely that you will fall in love with someone else... which ends your dilemma...good luck in whatever you choose to do
533329
If you aren't ready for marriage, then you aren't ready, but you should be prepared (and supportive) if she decides to move on, as hard as that might be. \n\nSometimes loving each other, sadly, just isn't enough. She wants something you don't. But because you love her, you want her to be happy, right?\n\nSo, you 2 need to sit down & have a long talk about the issue. Make sure she knows where you stand, and that you really listen to her.\n\nBest of luck.
511646
If it is meant to be, it will be.  \n\nIf you are meant to be together, you two will find a way to make it happen.\n\nNow don't take this last part as flippant, it isn't meant to be.\n\nIf you are not meant to be togother, there are other blokes around you know.\n\nDon't base your happyness on another person.  Base it on yourself.\n\nAnd good luck with your romance.\n\n-Dio
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I'm going through a similar situation. I left. Don't do that. You both need to decide if it's worth trying to get the closeness back. Be open about the things that you enjoy doing together and things you don't. Try and figure out how you two grew apart. And do it together. No matter how hard it is. If it's worth it, take the time to make it work. It wont happen on it's own.
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Dear Litejic: understnd what a loving relation ship is before you take other steps. I  suggest that you discuss this with him or her more. concentrate no tshe word love.and apply it Xs (2). work with this Situation this could be a learning experiance for you even though you might not approve. this helps you know and learn relationships that involve (LOVE).  contact me I can help you with this and put a complete understanding to your (?). use this address. for John. laretha.davis@sbcglobal.net.  be careful with this question or situation until you talk to me.
989771
Love is more than sex. Take the time to create a closer bond between you.Besides , there are a lot of things to do without crossing that line. Do your research. Peace.
801002
That sounds like the situation I'm in with a guy...except he is in Mexico. He says he loves me, but rarely calls me, etc. I think they might both be unsure about what exactly they want.\n\nHere is what I have decided: Let love take its course. Try to keep busy with your own life and see her when you can. Are you ever going to be able to live in the same city? That's a huge consideration...\n\nMaybe some people are just different in expressing their emotions than others. For instance, my guy said it was hard to believe that I loved him because I don't constantly say it. However, my actions show it. He is the opposite: he constantly says it, but sometimes his actions don't make me feel like it.\n\nI would suggest trying to come to some sort of an agreement on what you can both accept in the relationship, which will take bending on both sides.\n\nGood luck.
506628
Try hello,  sounds dorky but at some point you were both comfortable enough with each other to talk and then marry.  You have to start talking to fix the rest.  Hello usually works.
445198
It sounds like the both of you have a thing for each other. Slowly get to know each other. Have fun & be honest with each other. Best of luck.
888204
Stop worrying, you won't get anywhere like this. If it is going to work then it will and it sounds like your both enjoying each other so just relax.
1112747
the guy i've been dating for the past 3 months i think is my soulmate. We can talk about anything and everything w/o worrying what we are saying to each other. We are both very stubborn but when it comes to arguments neither of us leaves w/o resolving the conflict. I've never felt this way about any other person and he has once but that was b/c the other chick was good in bed. We haven't slept together, and yet he's already talked to his immediate family about a wedding in the next 5-7 years. I wouldn't imagine marrying anyone else.
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Here's the old mystical I Love Vs. In Love question again. If you Love him and Respect him, ask yourself what would be differant if you where "IN LOVE" with him? You have already stated "we are totally comfortable with each other from day 1. We laugh a lot, rarely argue, understand one another, accept one anothers faults and strengths. The sex is quite fun as well." How else would you quantify a good relationship? Then ask yourself the real tuff question, could you live in England? Are your skills that transportable? Could he live here? Are his skills that transportable?