Wud you go to your gay relative's weddin and what you you give them if you did?
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OF course..why not? And, I assume that somehow, someone, sometime, will tell you what they may need...within your ability to afford. And, I suppose the best thing you could give them would be your support.
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Neither of your families would do that, however alot of gays and lesbians have families who are not accepting of their relationship, therefore their family would and could do that. \n\nAs well as insurance and filing joint tax returns and things of that nature...\n\nThere are alot, some of which I dont even know about but the one that concerns me the most is the immediate family policy in hospitals. Not a blood relative or legal spouse, not admitted. Inheritance rights for children. The decision of what to do with my remains, my significant other knows this more than my mother, and i trust her more to abide with my wishes. \n\nSocial security for children we may have been raising.\n\nBlood relatives can actually fight a will and win in court against the partner of a deceased person.\n\nI'm sure there are alot that I'm even missing, but most importantly, the legal right to do so. I want to marry the person I love.\n\nAnd that old adam and eve not adam and steve crap is so played out. Anyone who takes the bible to literally mean God created ONE man and ONE woman too populate the earth is a complete and utter moron. Or shall I say an incetuous moron...
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got married ! thought the guy was nice . i didnt listen to his ex who told me he was a homo . thought she was just being nasty . found out on my own he had probably been with more men than i have .\nneedless to say he is now my ex.
770585
I wish EVERY guy in the world, except for me, were Gay.  That would mean that ALL the women in the world must come to ME (for, you know).\nSo all you guys out there, go Gay, do it for me.
627051
man, that's tough. I would say no because of all the hell I would have to go through. I would have to stop liking females. I would have to get a sex change. I would have to buy a Dress. I would have to be put in a box and shipped over seas. I would have to learn a new language. Probably be beat by my new husband. No No......Just to complicated. I'll just keep looking at the ladies. Thanks for the option though.......LOL.......Good day.
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Learn to take orders, and kill your family if that's what they want you to do.\n\nThe way things are floating up to the surface of the Washington cess pool, being gay might be a plus.
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If he is a nice fella, sure ... why not!\n\nWhen the family asks how we met, I can say on Yahoo Answers!
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I'd go see my grandpa and get to know him.  I miss him, he died when I was only 4. (I'm 30 now) I remember him a a little bit. I know he loved me very much. When he was sick and in the hospital, he bought me a teddy bear, and of course I still have it. I remember going to see him one night in the hospital with my parents, and when we left, i looked up at the window and he was waving at us, that was the last time i ever saw him. (alive, anyway)  :-( I'd stay back there, I think. So I could tell myself and not make the same mistakes. But then again, if I did that, I might not meet my husband?\nI LOVE this question! thanks for asking it. I actually think about it alot. I'd also go see what my parents were like as teenagers and stuff. to me, that would be cool. (but i wouldn't stay there- haha.)
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Well as they know you have slept with guys already it is perhaps not going to come over as too much of a shock.\n\nWith friends, unless they are a little bit "easily led", they are more than likely going to laugh at you and say seomthing like "err, tell us seomthing we didn't know".\n\nAs for family, about the only reaction I would expect would be a little sadness perhaps as the realisation that they are probably NOT going to given grandchildren from you after all.\n\nAs for the Catholic side of things, I am not sure where it would make that much difference "being bi and sleeping with a guy" or "being gay and sleeping with a guy".\n\nMight just be me, but as you say family and friends already know you only sleep with guys, I think they might well be one step ahead of you here :)\n\nWarm Regards\nMark
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I would go back to see my sister.  She passed away almost four years ago, and I would give almost anything to see her again :)
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I went with my mother, grandmother and daughter to our church's mother-daughter banquet. we do this every year and then come home and hang out.\nFour generations!
602160
how did you find out you were cousins? I'd say continue loving him, we are all related somehow or another down the line
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Interesting question, not sure why you would want to.\nMaybe you could do what my former brother in law did, he needed to be married to hide the fact he was gay, he found a lesbian woman who also needed to hide she was gay.\nThough they are still together, they do their own thing and it seems to be working out great.\nHope this helps.
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well, since I am married sex is out of the question. I would make him a big homecooked meal with all of his favorite foods. I would draw him some nice hot bathwater so he could take a relaxing bath. I could give him a back and foot massage.I would write him letters while he was in service. send him care packages. Would that be enough? I can not think of anything else.
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Say good for you! I couldn't care less, it doesn't affect my life style and they are still my family.  Just because they are gay does not mean the years of background I've had with them are going away.  (This is assuming a good relationship, in a bad one, it's still good for you but we don't talk anyway so why do I care?)
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Flashback!  Ow I hated that!  I had the same question from the relatives.  I don't understand why they came to me all the time.  I don't think anyone went to him.  That is where they were wrong.  Did his relatives ask him?  \n\nYou could tell them that they are asking the wrong person.  You could say, "I am prepared with my answer.  I am waiting for the question, too."\n\nP.S.  Happily married over 2 years now!
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i don't think you can but remember you didn't give them that gift for getting married you gave them that gift for getting engaged which they did. i would wait and see if you get it back but i wouldn't ask for it unless it is a family heirloom and you want to make sure it stays in the family