How come most men dont know or wont admit they used to be women?
551513
It's called testosterone, if they talk about once being female, they appear weak to the rest of their friends.
866050
Well I personally think men wont tell you the truth because they are reflecting their own personalities...they cant handle the truth, therefore they think their women cant.  Their ego needs to be fed, much more than a woman's does.  Women are pretty intelligent creatures and quite good at problem solving, and the truth is always the easiest to handle for the majority of us because we then know where we stand and can work out ways to solve the problems.  Men, on the other hand, need to be loved and respected at all costs...hence they lie.  They dont want to admit they are doing or saying the wrong thing because it would hurt their ego and the role they have projected to others.  They dont like being wrong.  In saying that, however, there are cases where both men and women dont want the truth.  Some women know their men are cheating but will not get the proof because if they had the truth they would then have to act, and sometimes it is easier to close your eyes than to deal with the truth.  Some women arent as strong as others are.  But I have also see that the women who know the truth but are being fed lies are not happy anyway, so maybe if their man was smart, they would give them the truth even if its not what they wanted to hear because at least it would make the woman grow up and deal with situations she doesnt want to deal with.  It is only when tough things come along in our lives do we become strong.  And a man who continues to lie to his wife needs a woman who is dependant on him.  He doesnt want her to grow to be strong, he wants to keep her this poor defensless little creature who needs him, no matter what.  Statistically speaking, it is men more than women that will go from a broken marriage into another relationship pretty quickly......I think that is because they cannot make it on their own as much as women can.  I honestly believe women are the stronger sex.  We can deal with much more than the average man can cope with.  And only when men can see as as strong and capable will they start being honest.\n\nThats probably why it is the strong independant beautiful women are left behind because of the more "needy" ugly/middle of the road women, that men seem to find less threatening.
153011
It's a mystery to me to me but it's really happening! Women are taking on all the dominant qualities men used to have. I think men might not admit it but alot of men have lost confidence and believe that women are better leaders. I think alot of people, male or female, won't believe it until we have a woman President.
920621
It sounds like you have discovered WOMAN.   Nope, men will NEVER understand women.  About the time you think you have ONE  figured out, they reverse directions.\n\nAccept them as they are and do what you have to do.  You just have a typical specimen.\n\nGOOD LUCK.  Pops
274018
Being a women, I understand how difficult men can be, but honestly, i think us women are the harder ones to understand. We say one thing, but feel another way.... We are just soo totally confusing at times!!!!! LOL
850534
i believe women have been the dominant sex for hundreds of years - now they are just 'out of the closet' about it.
260623
not all men are weak, they are just unsure how to say what they feel, men's emotions don't mature for many years beyond what their bodies do.
142889
I think that guys feel that they have to lie because they dont feel to comfortable about themselves and they want to impress the girl. It's like if their with their friends and they want to make a cool impression without changing the guy stereotype which is to a bunch of women that all men are dogs which is'nt true. Yes some guys are ass holes but I mean a woman can be a bitch. It's like the stereotype for women that their all manipulative which is also not true. Their not all after your money. Hell cant a woman just like you. But.. back to the origional thing why guys lie; guys seem to lie more and more to impress they dont want to let the girl down and sure lying isnt the best way to make a good impression and I'm not even going to try and back that up but hey were not all perfect. If you feel like the guys lying to you confront him, I know it's not always the easy thing to do but you want someone nice and it's not "nice" to lie so their you have it. If he admits to lying the best thing to do is give a second chance. If he does it again you have every right to kick his but right out that door just tell him "Watch your step on the way out of my life." and leave him.
1111946
same reason why men dont like hearing about womens ex boyfriends.
184675
They are trying to tell you to save them time.  Men cannot keep up a false front indefinitely, and will eventually fall back into their normal pattern of living.  If that pattern is one that the woman can't accept, then you will have wasted whatever amount of time of hers that you have spent together.  If you are you right up front, then she can make the decision right up front as to whether or not she can accept you for who you really are.  It's that simple.
533180
men think the same as anyone else. only a very small handful of them are rapists and such. you might be a lesbian.
518525
like men, women have egos too. they wanna feel like they have the power and charm to change people. when they try to change their partners, they're just testing to see at which level their charms are at. it's stupid, i know. but some women feels good about themselves in this way. Welcome to Women's World.
560428
I don't know if it's about rejection.  The traditional roles of males and females has changed so much in society.  With homosexuality, metrosexuality, women's lib, etc., some guys who have been raised to believe in traditional gender rolls might find it difficult to figure out what is acceptable anymore.  That and even the notion of a 'date' has changed.  Now we socialize more in mixed groups.  Now women feel free to ask men out.  Now men can act effeminate (with regard to their appearance) and that might be throwing them off too.  Women work and have power and have money.  Since we are on relatively equal ground, men are trying to figure out how to be attractive to females or how we're supposed to relate to you.  Used to be, women were trying to attract men, now it's really weird.\nIf you're not getting asked out as much as you think you should, I think these are some of the factors.  How do you portray yourself to the modern man?  Do you fall under the category of traditional female?  What do you judge men on?  What are we supposed to be judged on?  Should men be picking their women or women picking their men?
639248
I think as the years go on more people feel that they do not have to dress in the role they are.  They can dress comfortably.  So if they want to dress as the opposite sex they can.  Our world is developing it to what we make it and and we are more comfortable as we feel then as we actually are.  Also the reason more people get the sex change surgeries they know it is alright, and they will not be judge in open settings as much as others in the past have been.
296803
Men are very visual people, way different from women. And unfortunately a lot of men don't take the time to find out what the inside of the women is all about.
1017729
Good question - some do it because they feel most things in their life they cant control. some because they think it is part of being a real man. some because they hate themselves and feel weak. and I am guessing there are many more reasons. Many years ago most men where brought up this way. Times were different and women were more like slaves then mates but times have changed and women are more equal so this says that things are improving and with saying that and in time things will continue to change so people learn to respect other people regardless of their sex or anything else for that matter.
1164798
They dont care if they have "magical semen" or not.  People who get sex change didnt feel conforatable as the gender they were, so they did something about it.