My mom beats me when shes drunk.  I am going to runaway is there someone that will help me?
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Hi Summer,\n I know that this is a very tough situation your in. On the one hand you love your Mom and don't want to do anything that may get her in trouble, and on the other hand you don't want to keep getting beatings when she gets drunk. You have to do something though. You cannot continue living like this. Let me first suggest that you sit down with her (when she is NOT drunk) and try to reason with her. Tell her you know she loves you and you love her, but it's not fair that she takes her anger out on you. Ask her to help you help her. See if there is anything she wants you to do that can make things easier for her. Maybe she should talk to someone, maybe a friend, priest or counselor. It is obvious that she has a drinking problem. Maybe Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) might help, but that is something she has to decide for herself, you cannot force her to go. I believe if you sit down and just talk to her when she is sober it will be a start. I wish you the best. If things do NOT get better then I suggest that you talk to a close family friend, if that does'nt help then you have a really tough decision to make. Yes you could run away, but I think that may make things worse. You could ask to go live with relatives until Mom gets her act together or you may eventually have to go to the authorities, that would be in my opinion the last resort. But if thats what's needed, then so be it. Once again good luck, stay strong and always believe that at some point things WILL get better one way or another. You WILL have happier days with your Mom, it just might take a little bit of time.
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help me i'm homeless take me home with you
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will am sorry to here what ur going through is realy hard \n\nu must call ur dad and tell him about everything and am sure he will get u out of the house. \n\ncz in my opinion u need someone to help u out u must not stay without talking. u must find help go to police social advicer any one can help to improve ur life cz if u stay like this ur life will be affected in futuer.\n\ni dont know talk to ur mom tell her the truth be honest with her tell her whats bothering u maybe she will lisnt she must lisnt. and remmeber god with u pray to him and he will clear ur path.\n\ni hope every thing will fine.
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That's a real shame.  You poor, poor, poor dumb ass alcoholic.  Ever consider calling a cab?  Worse yet is the fact that the state you live in allowed you to get 5 DUIs.  Where I'm from you will most times serve after your second.  The simple fact of the matter is that being as old as you are... it's already too late for you.  You will never change ever.  You have chosen to spend your life in a bottle chasing wiener half your age and half the time probably getting paid for it.  You say you have a good lawyer, so why post your question here?  In your reality is there going to be a magic answer on the Internet that is going to keep you out of jail?  I'm half your age and even I know that. Jeez.... I really hope you haven't procreated because if you have I'll bet they're proud of you now.  I'll bet you're proud of yourself.  Not once did you even mention being ashamed of yourself or consider what could have happened had you wrecked.  The best thing you can do for yourself is GO TO JAIL.  At least there you can't drink.  Maybe get yourself a little lesbian lover and spend your time planting flowers instead of graves.
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Yeah.After all she's my mother.My mother did that to me once.She chased me and my daughter out of her house. It took me almost 3 months to recuperate and my daughter(she's only 4 at that time) who's obviously traumatized by the whole thing refused to speak to my mom ever since. After almost 2 years only we started talking back to my mom.It was hard and painful at first though but we managed.Good Luck whatever your problems are.
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First off *HUGS*!\n\nSecond off, unfortunately there is nothing youc an do to make them stop.  Be it your mom, dad, step mom or sibling, that choice has to come from them.  And remember, its not your fault.\n\nHow old are you?  It really sounds like you are in an abusive situation.  I would talk to a councelor at school and let them know whats going on.  Are you living with this family member?  Is there anyone else you could stay with?  As far as your step mom goes, can you talk to your dad?  If you can't talk to him or her, you need to let her comments go.  Realize you are none of the horrible things being said to you.  Sometimes, its unfortunate but you have to take a mental break from the people in your life.  Your step-mom or dad if they are the ones that you have the issue with.  You are a strong young person and this is a very short yet impressionable time in your life.  \n\nTell youself you are your own person and you will not let the rest of you're life be the summation of this small time frame.  And that you will not end up like them in your future.  I know this is hard though and you don't always have to believe it in certain moments, but when always remind yourself and eventually it wont be so hard to remember. \n\nAre there other activities you can do?  Maybe take up volunteer work or a sports activity to get you out of the house as much as possible?  Its always good to have someone to talk to.  Like I said, go see a councelor at school.  If you feel you can't do this, there are Alateen meetings all over.  They are connected to Alcoholics Anonymous in the fact they are for family members of alcoholics.  You can meet other people in your situation and it can be a great support.\n\nBe strong love, you are your own person and can get through this, and there is NEVER anything wrong with yourself or asking for help.  You'll be in my thoughts and prayers.
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Get a complete physical evaluation and see a professional for alcohol abuse. There is no "ONE" answer to this. Different people need different treatment. Some need medication, some need other things. Some need both. Don't go by what works for someone else when you need to have yourself evaluated. Hang in there!
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Wow, I can only imagine how stressful this must be for you!\n\nI think that the psychiatrist will be able to give you some answers.  If there WAS sexual abuse the Dr. will be able to tell--even is she lies about it.  Psychiatrists are trained to deal w/ these situations.\n\nPlease don't feel that this is your fault.  And please don't let the stress overwhelm you.  \n\nBest wishes.\n\nEDITED TO ADD:  In light of your additional details, I'd definately encourage you to just go ahead and take her to the hospital.  DO NOT feel guilty.  And don't listen to her when she tells you she hates you or that you're a bad mother.  YOU'RE NOT. \n\nOK, straight up talk here:  It takes a **** of a lot of courage to be parent sometimes and this is one of those times.  You need to get help both for her and for yourself.  It will be hard and things will get really rough for a while but you deserve a normal life and she deserves to have the most normal life she can have too.  The longer you wait, the harder it'll be.\n\nTake care.
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I think you have made the right decision. Breaking the cycle is the hardest thing you can do in you life. I was abused mentally,sexually and physically as a child and I didn't get away from it until I got married. I think you are a very brave and special person for standing up to you dad. Because It is wrong for someone especially the man that is suppose to be your protector to hurt you like that. And your mom should put you first. You are probably missing your mother's love, that all girls need. Try to go to counselling,and find a female that can and is willing to give you "motherly love".
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There could be a whole lot of things here. The shaking and diarrhea are especially troubling. If this happens a lot, you could have some liver damage. Go to the doctor and get some blood tests, etc.. Get a check up and talk to him about your ailments. If you are drinking too much, at least admit it to yourself, and get some help - that is 99% of the battle. Sounds to me like you have a good friend here, so don't blow one of your few "second" chances here by not listening. A true friend helps even when it isn't pleasant to do so, so count her a good friend and let her help you out of these problems. You have to be the one to Respond to treatment and Accept the help, and then DO something. You are not acting normally, so get with the recovery already.
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hi, i am so sorry that you are hurt, but i understand.  hurting your mom is the worst feeling in the world.  the worst.  but the best medicine is free.  don't do any of that writing notes crap, that is really chicken shit.  you hurt her, and you are old enough to own up to your mistakes.  you just march yourself up to her and say mama, i can never tell you how sorry i am, i love you, i need you, and i'm not too proud to say it.  then tell her that you know that your time is coming.  you'll have a mini me someday, and it will come back around.  it's called the circle of life.  lol.  the easiest answers are always the toughest.  god bless
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I'm so sorry to hear about your mom - it must be awful hard on you.  There's no way of knowing how much time she has left, but you should cherish every day you have with her. \n\nSupport her through everything she's going through while trying to beat this beast - then you'll know you did everything you could to help her.  And remember, no matter what happens, that she'll always be a part of you in your heart.  Prayer and hope will sustain you.\n\nI wish you the best through all of this and will be praying for your mom and you.
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Everyone makes mistakes.Tell your mom that the girl you like isn't the only one who has made a bad choice.Tell your mom that nobody is perfect(including your mom).I kinda agree with your mom though too.She is only trying to protect you.She doesn't want you to get in with the wrong people.Drinking is dangerous.the only reason your mom grounded you and said you weren't allowed to talk to the girl is because she cares about you.some moms wouldn't do anything.She only wants what's best for you.i think you should try to get to know the girl better before you say you love her.i wouldn't sneak around and talk to her because you are going against your mom and you will get in even more trouble.
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a quick infusion of alcohol should work for the night then tommorow go start you a new family,\nand things should turn out better, glad i could help.
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tell her to call Social Services wherever she lives or go to the nearest police station. They will direct her. You cannot help her---what if her abusive husband comes after you! This calls for professional help. But you are nice to want to help!
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You have a problem here.  You need to tell her how you feel.  How much she hurts you and how it hurts you to see her abuse alcohol.  She had a drinking problem and needs help.  As long as you continue to spend time with her, she will hurt you.  In a minor way, you are an enabler for her because you do nothing to stop her.  Yes she has a self control problem.  If she doesn't listen to you or gets defensive about it, tell her that until she gets her act together, you just can't spend any more time with her.  Tell her that she embarasses you, injures you and hurts you deeply within.  Tell her that until she can give you the respect, consideration and friendship that you have been giveing her, you can't afford to spend the energy and emotion on a losing cause...that she is draining you emotionally and physically.  Otherwise, she will keep using you (that is what she is doing) and abusing you.  It is tough to do this and she may get mad and be verbally hostile to you, but it is for her own good...and yours.  Good luck.
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your mom is going through empty nest syndrom...\n\nWith no kids to take care of she is lonley and is in need of some companionship...\nDrink is a way for her to cope with  this...\n\nHow ever she might be getting into the drinking to much...\n\nTry an interventions of sorts .. Get your other sibblings together and a range a family get together...\nYou might find this could help..\n\nAlso try calling your mom for no reason at all and ask her a silly question about cooking cleaning anything... \nI think your mom need to feel that she is needed and by asking her silly questions she will feel she is wanted ....