How did you propose to your wife/how did your husband propose to you?
536673
My husband had my Mother call me on the phone and keep me busy. While I was talking to her, he took a small table and two chairs along with a bottle of wine and two glasses to the roof top of our apartment building. Then he came and took me out there where we danced to our favorite song and at the end of the song, he went to his knee and proposed to me. We spent the next two hours out there at the table sharing a bottle of wine and making wedding plans. It was incredible! Thank you for reminding me of how great that was!
80325
Did you ask your wife or husband about this?  How does he/she feel about it? what ever you think they would say is your answer.
1172223
Yeah, it's OK unless he is a traditional man.  My husband told me that he was grateful I didn't do it first.  After all, you get to plan the wedding, the vows and honeymoon pretty much belong to the guy.\n\nIf you really want to propose do it afterwords.  Say something like. "Now I have said I will marry you but will you marry me?" and give him a ring that is macho or a set of baseball tickets.  You get the idea.
886393
We had already been talking about marriage and looking at rings. I figured once we got the ring he would just give it to me and that would be that.  Instead, one night he told me he wanted to take me out to dinner.  He had found this place we had never been to - a place that was on the list of the most romantic restaurants in our city.  When we were seated the waiter gave me a menu - it took me a minute it was a special menu that listed all my "specials" and at the bottom said, "for all these reasons and more, will you marry me?" \n\nBefore I could read the whole thing, he was down on one knee next to me and opened the ring box.  \n\nHe had also planned for the waiter to bring out two glasses of champagne right after I said yes.  It was a really lovely evening.  We go to the same restaurant every year on the anniversary of our engagement.
34962
Incredible simple - BY TELLING HIM!\n\nMy wife and i, we met on the internet and where friends for 6 month, that she asked when do we get married?? :)))\n\nSo, just be straight and tell him.
259050
Well my ideal proposal happened last September.  It was my childhood dream to be proposed to in a hot-air balloon but I never told anyone. If someone loved me enough to put thought into it and figure it out then I would know they were the one for me.  My now fiance, Nathan, knew that I thought hot air balloons were cool but he put it all together one afternoon and proposed to me 750 feet in the air. It was absolutely incredible...very romantic and memorable.
149809
Sadayappan, you will have no 'thadai' ['block', in Tamil] to propose -if only your intentions are entirely honourable [marriage] ! \nGirls are quite alert these days - in quickly spotting a "wolf in sheep's clothing", as well as identifying a genuine 'kaadalan' [lover]. \n...Make your proposal simple, decent, honest and truthful - and you'll definitely win. 'Puriyudhaa ?' ['Understood ?']\n...Best of Luck !
507489
hell first i am a guy.....i am a newlywed of 1 year...when my wife had told me she wanted marriage it was great news to me..i acted like i knew nothing of it..meaning i knew she wanted marriage..we talked about it..this was so exiting for me..if you know for sure he is wanting to marry you...then wait..don't approach him again..why? well alot of guys are the same i knew she wanted marriage so i thought about the perfect way to ask her..i thought about all the good things that i wanted as well..i think to sum this up...he wants to think of the perfect wedding..he wants this to be the most beautiful day for the both of you..he will come around give it time...please take this advise from a man who has went through the same exact thing
1185323
Not a proposal story but thought you might enjoy hearing it. Its the story of how my parents met.\n\nMy mother was a waitress in Minneapolis, MN and had just started her shift one Janruary morning in 1959 when my father came in and ordered coffee to drink while he read the paper.\n\nWhen she waited on him, he asked her if she would be interested in going out sometime. She said No, she didn't go out with guys she just met. So he asked her if he could at least walk her home at the end of her shift.\nMom, knowing that she wouldn't be off til six pm that night (it was eight am at the time) figured there'd be no way he'd stick around and walk her home.  So she told him that if he was there when she got off work, he could walk her home.\n\nAccording to my mother, he read every word of that Sunday paper, twice (at least) and drank a dozen or so cups of coffee waiting on her to get off work.  When she got off work and he was still there, she didn't think she could do anything but let him walk her home.\n\nAfter that day she started dating him on her days off and they were married on Valentines' Day, six weeks later.  (She said he proposed by sending her a note asking if she'd like to "get hitched").  They got married at the court house the day after she got the note.
1008000
When he proposes to you and you accept.
484276
yeah.  what r u proposing?
297512
First, talk to her about marriage if you haven't already, so that she knows you're thinking about it, too. Then, pick a day you want to propose, and tell her to clear everything so that she can spend the whole day with you.\n\nIf you don't mind spending money, you can get really creative. Throughout the day, make her think she's about to get proposed to, but don't. i.e. bend down to tie your shoe, except really tie your shoe; take her to a game, and put a message on the big screen that says "I love you", rather than "Will you marry me?"; etc.\n\nAfter all that, she'll be kind of upset but kind of amused, because she knows you're gonna propose, but you're building up her anticipation. Then, at the end of the day, do something nowhere near that romantic, and propose then.
259231
firstly someone proposes the other.\nif the latter also like the one who proposed him/her then he/she agrees or else tell him/her no.\nif both agree then they become girlfriend boyfriend.
87498
Whatever you do - make sure it's something she'll want to brag about it later on. Once her friends know you've proposed, the first thing they will ask is "tell us! tell us! how was it??". And their different stories are like trophies in a competition  to "who was proposed in the most sweetest and awsome way". So, try for it *not* to be a casual thing.\n\nDoesn't have to be at an expensive restaurant or with a bunch of frills. An important thing is the surprise. So don't take her out to some ultra fancy place if you never do that... she'll smell your intentions from a mile away. Take her to a special but known place - area - that she already likes. Someplace you both are comfortable at. That will let you work it out in a relaxed way. Also helps because, if you  just don't get the right opportunity, you can always repeat it later on and it won't seem odd nor will it cost you the huge bucks to do so.
335568
My husband and I met at a bus station in Oregon.  We wrote to each other and called on the phone for about 3 years.  This was in 1986 when there was no internet (at least not as universal as we have now) and so that is how we contacted each other.\n\nIt takes commitment and determination, but WE did get together and married in 1991.  We just had our 15 year marital anniversary yesterday.\n\nIt does work, but it takes a lot of work.
852251
Ok not a guy here but i can answer that for you, Yes my husband actually did propose to me on christmas day infront of the family, how he did this was he has his family come over and open presents and he had my family come over and open presents and than after all the presents had been opened he said kinda loud waite theres one more present he got out the ring he looked at my dad and asked if he could marry me of course my dad said yes its about time LOL and than he turned to me and asked me if i would marry him infront of everyone and of course i said yes but it was really cool and one thing just remember to get down on one knee he forgot LOL
902076
Whatever comes straight from ur heart..the most simple and private proposal is the best..... trust me no matter how u do it... she will love it.. coz she loves u more than any1 and thats all that matters.... but dnt forget the ring,, even if its only sumthing thats worth 2 pounds,,, it wud be pricless to her... ;-)