I have a 7 month old & i just found out that im prengnat again! Am i a bad mom?
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There is no reason to think that you are a bad mom just for getting pregnant. You just need to take special care of yourself and your babies(both of them!!) Talk to your doctor about what special considerations you might need to think about since it has not been a full year since you gave birth. \nGood luck. I hope everything goes well with your pregnancy. I'm sure that they will both be fine, just asking this question shows that you are a caring mother who will take care of them always. God bless you
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When I had my first child!
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this is a personal thing for me to discuss, but hey, you asked the question.\n\na few years ago, i gave birth to a baby girl that i knew i couldnt afford to take care of. my ex b/f wouldnt get a job, wouldnt help me at all through my whole pregnancy. when i was about 6 months pregnant, i found a wonderful family to adopt her. the mother had always wanted to have a little girl they have 3 boys (GREAT kids) and after thath she was unable to conceive. so i began talking to her on a daily basis, they flew me to the state they lived in to give birth to their daughter. the whole time i was in the hospital, the mother (name withheld) spend most of my stay in the hospital with me. \nto this day, i wonder what my little girl is doing, and things like that..i havent talked to the family since i got home from basic training and ait,but i know, that my little girl is receiving all of the attention, and love that she deserves..both of which are things i could have (and still in my heart) gave her, however there is no way i could have afforded to give her the awesome life she deserves.
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if possile continue taking your prenatal pills to help you w/ energy(+ sleep), Ive heard some say that it took 9mo to come to term so it can take up to 9mo for you to feel completly like your old self.  Your body has changed so you may not want to stick to the same things that you did before, this is the time to be advenurous w/ your man. after having my daugher 6mo ago I no don't like kissing or haveng my breast touched as much as before.
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I wouldn't worry about it - as long as it functions at this point.  You can ask your doctor about it at his regular appointments.  But other than that, be happy you have a healthy baby!
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I am a mother of 2 and I was very emotional also. I would cry at the drop of a hat. Your question about not feeling love towards your baby yet is totally normal.You just found out that you have a baby growing inside of you,it takes some getting use to.Once you get passed the first trimester which is when you are usually feeling super nauses and hormonal.I promise once that baby starts to grow, It is amazing how much love you start feeling for baby
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I will tell you the same thing I told the last girl.  I am sorry you find yourself in this position.  I wish I could get pregnant so easily.  Please give your baby a chance.  There are many people out there that would love and care for your baby if you cannot.  I would personally love to help out someone like you.
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I'm wondering if this feeling came before or after you got pregnant. Sometimes when a woman is insecure about herself, she will be insecure in her relationship. Don't let it ruin your situation. Theres a good old saying "If it aint broke dont fix it!!
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you shouldn't...congrats on the new baby, If your worried about your baby this early you are going to be a good mom.
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Well you need to look out for you and your little one first...\nPlease be careful what you eat and drink cause it will go into the baby...\nYou must be prepared to live on your own as a single mom like it or not, but you must above all else look after your child and help it be born right and healthy this last month...\nPlease try to talk to your husband and ask him if he may be scared at being a daddy or if he has other fears he wants to discuss with you or if he has any medical illnesses he needs to care for...\nHe may be on edge over the impending birth and think he will not be a good dad...\nIs there any classes offered at your local hospital you both can take in this last month to help you both to be good parents???\nHe needs to not be selfish and he needs to look out for you and the baby and you need to look out for your baby also, so talk to someone at the hospital and see who can help there...\nGod Bless you...
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I also have a retroverted uterus, and had pregnancy problems, I had great Drs, but they were making a mistake, they had been using the camera they insert to view the uterus etc. for any other problems, well turns out that does not give the best results, another Dr. I went to did a regular sonogram that showed I had other female issues, that had caused my problems. He stated it would take me longer than some women to get pregnant, but I did in time! I am not a doctor but my 1st thought is u should give yourself and your body a break, your 2nd pregnancy seems to soon, your not giving your body time to recoup! Also mental stress can make getting pregnant a problem all that stress effects our bodies. I would suggest u take good care of yourself, see your obgyn on a regular basis, as for the other health issues I am sure your Dr. can answer all questions. I bet u have been told u r able to have a baby, but it may not be the easiest, u will have to stay off your feet, meaning not alittle but almost thru the entire pregnancy! In bed feet up, even if it drives u crazy!! believe me it can get boring!! but after 2 miscarriages u know this is important. I dont know if u have to work or if u do, but u will need to be home I cant stress this enough, you will have to be in the bed when u become pregnant again!!!!! U will have no choice, its for your health and that of your unborn child, I pray that u get to have a baby, and I believe u will, but 1st take care of yourself, eat well, exercise, vitamins daily and see your Dr. often and ask every question u can think of, take notes and bring them to the dr. it helps me to do that, otherwise seems I just go blank and forget all I wanted to ask! Good luck with everything.
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your pregnant and 19?!?!!?!?!?!?
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You have lost you your 'plug'. That happened to me also. Just use some panti-liners. I hated that stage....just pray you don't tear or get hemroids! That will be more annoying than the discharge.\n\nGood luck and congratulations!!! You'll be someone's mommy soon!!
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If it happens once, just a tinge, then that would be ok.  If it happens often, go to your doctor.  \nYou did not state what stage of the pregnancy though.
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I had a miscarriage and then a D&C also at 8 weeks, and I was told to wait at least 1 month, and that 3 would be better.  I accidentally got pregnant again the next month and there were no problems at all.\n\nGood luck!\n\nK.
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By the looks of your pix, you just need to sit back and smell the flowers!! ha ha..Seriously, it's just the baby blues for you right now.  You're tired, starting all over again with a new baby is a lot of work and it sounds like you are just overwhelmed right now.  Two years, two children, maybe too fast, too quick?  At any rate, you loved your husband quite a bit just 11 months ago, thats's how come you are 2 months post partum right now.  You should not confront your husband before you confide in your doctor.  You may have some hormone imbalances as well.  Are you breastfeeding as well?  If so, that can wear a new mom out too.  Give her husband a break.  It's not fair to him if you just up and tell him you want to split.  You're never ready to be a single mom and why be a quitter?  He deserves more from you than that.  He is the provider in your home, whether he drives a truck or flies a plane, or works in a fish market, it doesn't matter, chances are, you would be feeling like you are no matter who you were married to or what they did for a living.  Take a nice long slow breath and exhale.  Now, go call the doctor and get you an appointment ....quick....it's no fun to be in the dumps and it's no fun for a new brother or sister to have to deal with an unhappy mother and new little sibbling!!!\nHope that helps!!!
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i dont know what could be wrong with you but i also had a miscarriage once.  when i fell preg the second time, i had test done and the result was that i was prone to having more miscarriages, probably like you.  i was given a vaccine for that.  i cant give you more details because i cant remember that well.  i'll find my test and get back to you if i can to tell you what your doc can probably look into.