How do you tell a guy that your head over heals for them?
542369
Well I guy is never going to be able to tell unless you tell him straight up - we are simple that way - i am kinda surprised that he hasnt come up to you first - I wouldnt be surprised if he is asking the same question on yahoo answers right now - dont worry about what he will say though, remember he is your friend - he is not going to turn into some mean ogre - worst case scenario which also happens to be the least likely is that he will give you a "I am flattered" line, but more likely than not, he will want to give it a try no matter what ....
509649
it depends how serious the brain damage he has to how much he remembers, one hopes that he will remember and know who you are and has the same feelings about you,  but i would say he has a lot of recovering to do. i wish you both good luck and hope he recovers well.
61492
Just tell him the truth.  I think the best way to do this is start off with a talk.  You tell him how you fell and he will tell you how he fells.  Please don't jump the gun.
411167
Take the high way out.  Look him in the eye and tell him exactly how you feel.  Because, if he really knows you then he knows you are playing games or acting out in anger.  My ex told me to my face and it bothered me.  Years later, it made me a better man.
57139
Just tell him that you value his friendship and appreciate him being there for you, but at this time, you are not into being in a serious relationship.  Tell him that you need time and space to get your own thoughts together before you can start to share your life with someone else in that way.
180635
ohh well it depends on the reason of your guys brakin up if it was serious and you know that he aint in the forgiving mood give him time but if it was over something little dont worry use will b sweet just think of it as a brake
1117156
I would tell him that when he needed us we were right there for him, just the same as if he needed us now. It shouldn't be any different when the tables turn. Friends help friends out especially in their time of need, and if he feels that way after you talked to him just tell him that he burned his bridges and if he needs you again you will ignore his call for help. Because that's not fair to you guys.
325842
Be sincere...!!! Just tell him that you're sick for the time being & you can't see or date with him. And, if he don't believe you, just ask him to come over to see your condition. I believe he would be understand. Don't be afraid to be sincere. Because, it's   the best way to make people like you...!!! :-) Wish you well soon...!!!
232860
Actions speak louder than words.  Being there for him is a big thing, and accept him for who he is.  Make him feel important.  Tell him often that you love him, especially when you are looking into his eyes.
334344
Just tell him straight out--because i'm SURE he thinks that he is the one for you too. =^)\n\nI really do. =^)
1019382
It's different with everyone, people have varying levels of healing ability.  Just remember the old saying.."Once bitten twice shy".\nIf he is gunshy you're going to have to prove to him he can trust you...not an easy task.
976717
tell them that you know men think with there 2ND head how ever you would be most grateful if they would stare you in  your eyes and not your boobs,easy as that and don't act like a twit
34459
Make sure to tell him some of your feelings too, so he knows u trust him with yours, if that doesn't work, then try getting it from him by not asking him directly, make sure he knows that u trust him enough and that ur worth knowing
678503
You gotta get his attention!\n\nDudes are dumb.  I am one, I know.  We do not pick up on hints, feelings, etc. as good as you would think or as good as we should.  Sometimes you can even talk to a dude about feelings and he will not grasp the level of pain it is causing you.  \n\nGet him in a place where he isn't concerned about work, the kids, household work, etc.  Make sure you are both in a good mood and not on the defensive...then tell him, and this is important, \n\nFirst:  How much you love him, want him, need him, want to spend the rest of your life with him.  (this is all good chit, but it will catch his attention)\n\nSecond:  Tell him what a great father he is, how proud you are of how hard he works.  Tell him you understand his stress level, etc. \n\n3rd:  Tell him that you cannot live without the kissing, hand holding, him holding your head at night, playing with your hair, whatever it is that he used to do and he really likes.  \n\nYou will want to keep the mood light so you might throw in that some humor like that you may just be a silly girl or that you are needy and what not, but then tell him that those things mean more to you than he will ever know, (because that is the truth, men are dumb, remember). \n\nNo matter what, this is going to hurt him.  He will hurt because: he will beat himself up for not being perfect, he will be upset that you didn't tell him earlier; he will be upset because he thought he was doing anything and everything to be the perfect husband and father; he will also be upset because no one wants to be told they are doing a bad job, especially at the job they care about the most.  Because he is hurt, he may become a bit defensive and point out all the great things he does.  This is normal.  You should probably agree with him, but then remind him that those things make him a great man and father, but these little things are what brings the sparkle to your eyes.  \n\nI think it is very important that this conversation happens in the middle of a date type situation and followed up with an evening of affection.\n\nAfter you have the talk, you need to set aside a certain amount of time a night for you two to spend alone.  Maybe it isn't every night, (I dont know the work situation), but it needs to happen. Even if it is just 20 minutes of holding your head while you watch the news, or maybe you rub his back, whatever it is, but that will set a routine of affection.  If he starts to slip, call him on it.  If he continues to slip, write him an email with your feelings without attacking him.  If he still doesn't get it, get back with me!
54925
Well for one thing be honest and upfront about it. Say something! I was in the same situation once before.  I just told them how I felt them and that made them feel comfortable enough to let me know that they were feeling the same. Just don't hide it.  I will come back to haunt in the future.  Believe me when I say it.
55215
Be kind, but rip off the metaphorical Band-Aid.  You have to let him know that you appreciate his affection for you, but that you simply don't feel that way about him.  If you give him false hope, he will cling to that hope and be hurt eventually anyway. Let him down easy, but for goodness sake, let him down.
330998
tell him how you feel he will probably understand