why do guys atomatically assume?
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Because you women want to know whether or not he is available.  If he says yes, then you women put him in your POSSIBILE category.  If he says no, then you put hime in the NO category or ask yourselves what does this other girl have to offer this guy that I don't have.  Women have low selfrespect and low self esteem in their lives, leading to asking this question.  If they had high self esteem, than these women would not ask this question because they would not care one way or the other.  Bottom line--Women are jealous of other women and usually want what the other woman wants.  Women may deny this statement, but when they sit down and think about it, this statement is totally correct.
114061
I would ask them what guys mistakenly ASSume about them, just because they're hot. I'd like to know [specifically!!] what do guys do wrong most commonly?
194023
Its a form being insecure.  Just like every other myth (ie. African American men being bigger).  Men just like to be reassured.  I gave up asking when I turned 30 because I just didn't care anymore
409331
I can't understand either why guys do that, blow smoke up our @sses then you happen to go onto a site and there they are sucking up to any hot girl they see.\nthey must think we are stupid...lol\nnow i just assume right from the start that they're players, until they prove me wrong, might not be right in some people's eyes, but beter to protect than get burned i say :)
647098
because men think they know everything
397359
Because they're afraid to be judged infront of their "guy friends." \n\nGood luck!\n\nMichelle
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I would love to knock the hell out of the first person that answered. I would say he is one of the stupid guys you are refering to? But the answer is no, most of us guys are quite smart. Yet there are a few that make us look like stupid as**oles, I just mentioned one above.lol.\n Most guys just try to hard to impress you girls and end up screwing things up, making us look stupid. You guys there is no reason to pop off, you can make a point without getting angry!!
1052620
why is a guy asking this ???
988607
yep. some of there assumptions are right about me. which comes in handy when i need good "party and smoking" friends. but some are off the wall. i still have an appreciation for things and music that are beautiful and i have absolutely no morals. so, i don't know what they say or assume. i don't care, let them talk and get caught up. there's no way anyone could know everything about me in a five second glance, so i don't care. i value few people's opinions and even only sometimes.\n\nAND MAY I RESPOND ASSUMTIONS MAY BE OUR NATURE, BUT WE'RE NOT  CHILDREN SO WE SHOULD KNOW AND PUT INTO ACTION THAT IF IT LOOKS LIKE A DUCK IT COULD BE A DOG ON A BAD DAY.
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Cause guys are cheaters!!!!!!!!!!! : )
766992
because guys can be as kookie as girls are, and even more insecure which is why they like to be in control to prove their masculinity.
391946
You shouldn't have to ask this question.  With men, it's blatantly obvious if they like you.
366443
Dont believe everything you are told.  If you're speaking from experience, than I would say, it's to make your life interesting and challenging.  Or to put it simply....to keep men always aware and on their toes.  :)
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Why do you presume that to be so ?
1015494
It depends on the situation but most of the time, guys got paranoid because of lack of self confidence. That's it.
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I think that it is all in the "want to identify" .... when a person watches something like that they usually like to "pretend" that they are in the role of one of the participants .... add to that the fact of innate male competitiveness and you end up with being able to pretend you are in the scene but you do not have to concern yourself with "measuring up" (pun intended) with any male in the action.
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you have to try to understand what happened in arouba, he might have met someone and is having second thoughts about you...you never know with guys, you have to be always on your toes....he might never admit it, if that was what happened, but you will understand it...as you said, men have this problem with being truthful and straight forward, at least 99% of them, i guess it's got something to do with their egos, they think it's clever to play games with us and it shows they are more in control...strange creatures and so immature, right??!