I like one of my  male friends who was just dumped by his girlfriend. I want him & always did, what do I do?
549298
You should go ahead and tell him how you really feel. Who knows? He might like you as well. You could give him some breathing space for a while because him and his girlfriend recently broke up. Make your move and tell him. If all doesn't go well, there are plenty of guys out there. It can give both of you an opportunity to tell each other how you really feel and get your feelings out in the open.
183337
Find him. Talk to him. Tell him your feelings. Don't hold anything. Ask a friend of his for his number, or to get him to call you. You have an infinite amount of possibilities.
155353
thay may just be trying to keep your feeling from being hert  after all he is a ex tell your friend how you feel about it all .the good times you had and the bad thing .and then move on
7053
They are right. Something is making him remain with his girlfriend. If you truly like this guy then be his friend. Do things for him; ask about his day....his life.....take interest in the things he does. Be a true sincere friend. If things start to go down hill with his girlfriend, he might just need someone to turn to to talk with. If you have been a sincere supportive friend this could be you. The most loving relationships begin as friends....friends that know each other inside and out. Be that for him and you'll be amazed at what could possible bloom and grow when the time is right.
929276
I have the same problem! I dont know what to do! He has a girlfriend too! They have went out before and then broke up and started talking to me a lot and we started to hang out! then him and the same girl started dating again and have been for almost a yr! I try to get over the way I feel about him but when I am around him I cant forget about they way I feel!\nI dont want to ruin my friendship though!
965462
Hello, Well you could try to be his friend, but you couldn't have a normal friendship because there would allways be that feeling of rejection that he had toward you. And the fact that he's acted like an *** in the past probably means that that the future with him wouldn't be too solid. Really the best thing to do is find another guy to start new with - because I think what you really want is more than a friend relationship and that's a love relationship...right?  You can speak to him and have a casual frienship but look somewhere else for a guy who can make you feel special...Love is what you really want...and I hope you find it...good luck ...ok? ....bye bye
479146
jus..b d same as u r right now....but try...2 hav much closer relationship..wid him... make urself nd dat guy very much comfortable..wen u hav each others company...enjoy... his company... nd plz... dont go 2 deep into dis...u neve knw...he may dump u any time..but let ur friendship go on...
627680
There's pretty much nothing you can do.  If the guy you like, already has a girlfriend, then I suggest you move on and find someone else to like who doesn't have a girlfriend.  Trying to break them up or doing anything of that nature would be mean spirited.  Just remember not to do anything you wouldn't want done to you.  Good luck!
1017312
You know what they say about Opportunity not knocking twice, well now it did. You should first ask yourself, “Am I still in love with this guy?” and “Given the current situation of my life and his life, are we still compatible?” If you can answer these clearly, that you’ve forgiven him and that you understand why he dumped you in the first place, then by all means, go for it. If not, if things are still unclear, it still wouldn’t hurt to get in touch with him again. After all, you were best friends.\n\nGod would not give you situations you cannot handle, and if in this new process you get hurt again, or if things go wrong, then at least you can say to yourself that you’ve loved and lost, and join the millions of people out there who are so sick of love songs. But that is being pessimistic.\n\nIf we all become wise guys and say you can’t do this and you shouldn’t do that, then you would just become paranoid because there would be a gazillion rules on love and not getting hurt. If there was a specific rule to follow so that you won’t get hurt again, then why are there countless heartbroken people, and countless heartbreaking songs?\n\nThe bottom line is, even though you are one who would like things to become safe, perfect and happy, you should not hold yourself from things that you know would affect your life in a profound, meaningful way. You should ask yourself every now and then… “Why not?”\n\nIf things go wrong, this time, you can say your goodbyes, learn from it, and move on.\n\nIf things go right, then you just did what God wanted you to do. After all, when you feel that you are happy with what you did, it was meant to be.
495490
If he's taken, why don't you just get your own?  Place yourself in the shoes of the girl whom he likes and probably likes him back, why would you want to break up their tenuous relationship?  There are so many nice guys around, take your pick from them.   \n\nGood luck!  :)
793916
I never got that whole if I date him no one can. if you guys are over, and you agreed to see other people then get over it, your not a very good friend if you wont let her have a chance at happiness. I don't see anything wrong with it if she was a good friend, but if she just stared at you and asked you why you were mad, that obviously tells you she's kind of a jerk, she obviously doesn't care about you or your feelings, considering you just told her you were still in love with him, if I started dating my friends ex I would have at least shown that I was sorry for causing any pain, but some thins cant be helped, such as holding back feeling for a guy, dang,...  then I'm sorry but if I were you I would have brought her down. keep in mind though that if you guys are supposed to be together you will and if he wanted to see other people then maybe you deserve better, unless it was your Idea in with case, WHAT ARE YOU BITCHING ABOUT. its not fun but remind yourself of 2 things first of all that she deserves the chance at him, and second of all that you may still have a chance of getting back together with him. I got back together with mine.  Good Enough?
336623
you need to ask the guy in question if he will give you another chance.  don't be surprised if he's a bit wary, after all you dumped him without really telling him why.  before you do any that, it may be wise to think over the reasons why you actually like him.  are they real reasons that you can build a realtionship on?  ultimately though, if you don't ask you don't get so go for it! you'll only regret it if you don't! good luck x
349938
be yourself. In order for him to like you, he has to like YOU. not someone else. unless he jumps from girl to girl alot, i doubt he will just dump his girl for you, but if he does, would you really want to date someone like that? cause you never know when he will turn around and do it to you. just give it time, he will come around. be friends before dating. and if it dosnt work out, then there was a reason that it turned out that way
622900
Please continue to be his friend.  Relationships that start out as friends always last.  Since your friend now has a girlfriend, you should "take the high road" and quietly stand on the sidelines where their relationship is concerned.  If you "butt in", you will only cause confusion and discord, and may ultimately end up losing him as a friend.  Should their relationship break-up in the future, you will still have him as a friend and perhaps then your relationship with him will turn into something more.  Have a lovely rest of the day.
747860
If he isn't into his girl, then that sure says a lot about him. I wouldn't worry about hurting your friend's feelings, just tell her. She will be hurt more once she finds out the truth about what a jerk he is. You said you are interested in him? Why? He knows you're taken and you're happy with the one you are with. I would stay where you are and forget about this other guy if I were you.
162277
if you tell him now and he still has feelings for his ex. he could go for you but it will be a rebound experiance and it will not last. if you really are his friend then be that. let him go through the things that he needs to go through to get over his ex.
15698
Ok 1st... I take it you mean the two of you used to be together and now your not. He was being a jerk when you broke up with him, and now that your NOT with him your attracted to him again?\n\n2nd thing - Take some time and just make sure that your not into him again beacuse your not with him, you could easily hook back up and then find that he is still the jerk. In the end if he is the right BOY you two will know it and hook back up.\n\n#3 Relaize that if he is still your friend and talkin to you he must still think your special the getting back with him should not be all that hard, unless of course he is a player and only still being your friend in hopes of gettin something he did not get the 1st time...\n\nBe Carefull..