Im with this guy and someone told him that i cheated on him and i did it was a dare. I want him back.?
553394
Take this as a learning lesson.  I did the same thing and I know how it feels.  Just remember everything happens for a reason.  You hurt his feelings so let him have some space to figure things out.
233835
You should move on!! To start with he cheated on you and even after you forgave him which i never understand that but people do he still lied to you about little stuff. This guy you will never be able to trust. You have already given him too much information to play you with. He knows that you still love him and that you think of him all of the time and its hard for you to move on talking to him. So the next time he calls blow his mind. Tell him your fine just been hanging out with friends and even found a guy that caught your eye. I bet that will end that. Dont subject yourself to being hurt again. There is more than one guy out there and you deserve a good one!! Move on and dont look back.
1184536
Talk to her, apologize.\nHope she'll have you back.  You may have to work at it.\nWomen don't trust men like you, better be prepared to prove you'll behave this time.\n& don't ever make the same silly Mistake again.
984606
Chick why would you want him back.  A guy like that doesn't deserve you.  He told you he doesn't like you as much as he did before and that he's being mean to you.  Let him go and find someone that will like you especially after a year and will not be mean to you.  You will be much happier if you do.
65405
BOOOOYAAAAH... Something to wake you up...\n\n**Slap**\n\nGirl 1st of all why would you like to get back with him? Don't you smell a rat when it's near you? Imagine your story as a film... Would you advice a girl to get back with the man who wanted nothing but "SEX"? This may sound harsh and everything but good but if try and stay away from him then you might learn something... It wont be easy to stay away from someone you think you love... You want him back bcoz he got the best of you but if you look at the other side of this story it would be a blessing in disguise why coz you were able to learn as early as now that this guy is nothing but "1 bam thank you mam" type of guy... \n\nAlways remember this "ALL GUYS WOULD DO ANYTHING TO GET THOSE PANTIES OFF YOU" the only one who can control things is you...\n\nMy advice give it time and do something else than think of him as the "ONE"... \n\nIm sorry if I offended you in any manner... I have no intentions of doing so...\n\nHope I was able to help you out...
590569
Mandy,\n If you have reason to believe that he even thought about cheating on you, then hit the road. Leave this idiot in the dirt, and find someone who will appreciate you for who you are.\nGood Luck.
813322
Yes, you did the best thing.  You were honest with him about what you wanted in your relationship with him, and I won't give you the unprotected sex speech, and he didn't want to commit to you because he was already seeing someone else (and still having unprotected sex with you), which is why all of your apology attempts didn't matter.  I'm unsure why you were apologizing since you didn't do anything wrong but ask for a monogomous relationship.  You're better off without him and the fact that you wished him well just shows that you're taking the high road.  I highly doubt that this current relationship will last very long, but if nothing else, please protect yourself in the future!
421270
OMG that is awful!\n\nKeep it brief. He was being dishonest, cheating, and not communicating... so no reason why YOU should show him your vulnerability. \n\nTell him that due to your recent discoveries, you're speechless that he would disrespect you to such an awful degree... and obviously, as consequence, want to cut all contact with him. \n\nWish him good luck with his pathetic little life, hang up on him before he has a chance to answer or give any useless explanations, and go treat yourself!
940827
you need to consider a couple of things. \n1. how long have u been together?\n2. are you willing to stick around for a second time?\n3. what actually possessed him to do that?\nanswer these honestly and if it doesn't look good, leave!\nit could've been an accident but chances are it wasn't, sorry and be careful!
1175945
Perhaps he thought when you said your the "bad guy" meant that you have done some naughty things as well which made him upset. Your revelation might have brought confusion in his mind. Doubts might have stepped in.\nSo, you must reassure him that its not because of it (like you cheated or what). Just make him know that its about an attitude issue. Ask for space and time to rebuild yourself and tell him that your doing it for him, and your relationship. If he doesnt agree of asking for time, then why not make him a part of your rebuilding process. Ask fof his help and guidance. In this way, he will feel appreciated and that you trully want him to be a part of your life. :-D
200914
I gave one guy a second chance and he did it again.  Proceed with caution.  If you're faithful you absolutely have the right to expect the same from return. He's accusing you because he'll feel better if you both did it.
480316
what was the reason for the break up. If he cheated, or decieved you, just forget about him. If it was just to try and get something to go YOUR way, then think about how to change that quality about yourself and try and fix things with him... Show him you're willing to change, and try your best not to force things to be done your way with threats. As you can see, that won't work with your guy... and it's really not healthy for a relationship
1024735
I suppose he've cheated you.\nOtherewise some kind of accident occurd.\nNow its hisduty to contac with you.\nYou are a nice girl look at your future.
315689
I'd let him go. Once a cheater always a cheater. If you can't let him go make him stand on the sidewalk by a busy road holding a sign that says "This is my punishment for cheating on my girlfriend". I saw a guy on the news who did that to try to win his girlfriend back.
207612
Please don't take him back.  This guy took advantage of you.  He lied and cheated on you and took your virginity while doing it.  You deserve so much better than this.  Why should you be available to him just in case it doesn't work out with him and this other girl?  He had this wonderful thing with you and he chose to ruin it and give it all up.  He is an idiot and so much worse for what he did to you and how he has treated you.  Leave him and chop him out of your life.  You deserve to find someone who will love you and only and treat you with the respect you deserve.
1112997
If you mean cheating on him, you probably won't get him back because he has lost his trust in you.  If you mean other things, maybe if you stopped doing whatever it is, you could show him you have changed and he might be interested again.
357212
Why cheapen yourself by doing what he did to him.  He doesn't care what you do.  If he did, he wouldn't have cheated on you with one of your "friends."  Do yourself a favor and invest your time in getting a better boyfriend and a friend that would not sleep with him.