Why do guys have to be difficult when it comes to us going out but when they go out its fine?
538511
SOME sad losers are so insecure. They need to watch you all the time cos they KNOW they don't deserve you and other guys will hit on you. They can't stand the competiton cos they know they can't compete.
635038
it is almost always annoying.  men think women go out to be hit on...we dont...we go out to have fun, not be a piece of meat
287087
yall should go out. But not if you're not suppose to have a boyfriend or you already have a boyfriend or he already has a girlfriend. Just make sure both of yall are available to do what ever without any problems!
1026676
this is somehing he has to work out with himself he just has to go out with them a few times as a friend then see where it takes him if they get close then he can move forward and ask one out.
541357
The natural way of nature is for the the male to court the female.  He has to impress her in order for her to choose him.  If a woman asks a man out it is turning it the other way around and this can confuse a mans instincts.  A man seeks a female that is hard to acquire (or that he thinks is hard to acquire) so it is much more natural for him to do the asking and the woman to play hard to get.  Playing hard to get is what makes a man think you are a greater prize and all men want the best prize.x
167800
because he might be prusserd to try and do somthing special for u or he might just have hard homones and not know how to controll them
354913
it makes us look to vulnerable, if we did ask a guy out; he can either take advantage of you; because he already knows you like him, or we have to face humiliation/rejection...i have gone up to a guy once, and made a fool out of myself, but hey, i have guts, and its no big deal...but i will give all guys props going up to girls! how can you take the pressure!!!
475426
Honestly, most guys prepare for No when they ask, if they are that senstive that they can't take being told no by a girl, they are in for a very long hard life
633396
Well sometimes men don't see what they had in front of them until they go out with someone else. Its probably better for you!
436995
Say do wanna go out sometime. How easy is that? You known her for years so it shouldn't be that hard.
704825
guys are not likley to make the first move they have this big fear f rejection, so if you want somehting to happen then you need to make it happen
508596
isn't it terrifying? guess what, THATS WHAT YOU EXPECT US TO DO!!!!!! thats why women made it up that guys are suposed to ask you out because you chics are way too fragile to deal with the rejection. tough crap sweety. ask the dude out and if he says no then take the hit and move on like any guy would do. it's a huge blow to our ego to be rejected but we cope. so if he says no simply say "thats cool." and keep on with the conversation. wow thats tough isn't it?
778436
let them think what they want - and you should do the same - be your own person and do what ever the hell you want to do. if the guy you do end up going out with is a good-guy he should stick up for you and defend your honour (excuse the clich'es). basicly you need to not care what others think, feel, or do. you are in it for yourself so you are the only person you should be worrying about.
194647
I am considered quite a challenge myself.  Come on, do you really want to make it easy on the guy?  They need to be challenged so that they feel they have well earned the gal.
789456
no, i have done that many times at clubs and bars, if u do it everywhere then it mite be considered easy\n\nalso if guys can without being considered easy  then why cant girls?
225829
Guys like to be asked out! Even though we act tough, we are as scared to ask you girls as you all are! Guys are tough when it comes to fighting and stuff, but when it comes to you girls we are scared! We are as scared of girls as you all are, of snakes!\nI'm not calling girls snakes I'm just compairing fears!
160823
It probably means that you need more self-confidence.  It's really not a matter of nice, but guys who don't have the confidence to make the first move, etc., often come across as being "too nice."\n\nBottom line:  Don't be a jerk, but don't be afraid to make a move.