Did I do right by telling my friend i'm pregnant with his baby even though we don't go together?
547305
when you play you pay.Thats what I was told.Murdering a child that the two of you unprepared and carelessly made shouldn't be an option.You shouldn't play God.Put the child up for adoption if you can't take care of it.ALWAYS be truthful.Lies will come back to haunt you.We all make mistakes.And by that I mean not telling the new boyfriend before you got with him.If he wants you to get an abortion he is a loser anyway,and if the new guy isn't supportive lose him,too.You're baby deserves better.None of this is the babys fault.Babies are God's gift to us.
690279
Have a mutual friend ask him about it without letting him know you were behind it. You don't want to scare him away if he's a good friend.
174995
Do you really want a man that will turn his back on his unborn child, let alone a man that supposedly is in a relationship with you that goes out getting his so called close friends pregnant. Wake up Sister...dump the creep. You deserve better.
267452
At the risk of putting myself out there?.. Tell her.. she should know.. I have a man in my life who has a child with someone else.. SHE and I don't talk..I wish we could, but its complicated as it is.. Tell her..she should know the truth.. and leave the door open for her to talk with you.. I regretably closed that door at the request of the man, and now I wish I didn't.. and I would love for the other woman to contact me.. so I could know what the hell is going on and have the full story.. but I didn't.. so I have more questions then answers.. I am sure she feels the same way and wants to know the full story,a nd what is really going on.. so tell her..
505745
well you might want to tell her in non-chalant ways. And be nice about it. You don't want hubby on your back for being mean to mommy. I understand completely. Or maybe you might want to talk to hubby about it and he can help you with this situation. If your baby is still an infant than she's just excited! As a matter of fact you should take advantage of the situation and have her watch the baby and you go out and have some you time! And relax a little bit! \n\nThese are just a few suggestions. I went through the same thing! Sometimes just being honest with her helps too!
128347
Just IGNORE it. Then in a few months say, "See I told you guys I wasnt pregnant, if I was, wouldn't I be SHOWING now?"\nBut more than likely, people will forget about it by then if you just ignore it.
689314
i think maybe he is starting to feel something for you since u r having his baby,..but if u are with someone else dont blow it.. let ur friend make the first move as to his feelings for u
242233
I think you did the right thing.  Even though it took a while I can understand that at first you didn't want to jeopardize the friendship that you two had formed.  It is good that you finally told him how you feel because, well, life is about taking risks.  And you don't want to be harboring the thoughts about WHAT would have happened had you expressed your true feelings.  I hope you are feeling positively about your decision because you should be.  Stay Blessed.
960871
I wonder if you are pregnant or afraid to get pregnant because you feel very insecure about protecting a Child at this time. Or did one of your friend tell you that she is having a baby. Why did I ask you the above questions. It is because you have a high level of being able to spotting danger and seeing danger before it happen. And since this danger is not direct towards you and you failed to mention who was the first person you saw when you entered your place of security the answer to your question is still up for grabs.............
929725
I think you may have left something out, here...\n\nUnless you're really shallow, you won't dump him just because he had a child with someone else before he met you.  Now, if he lied to you about the kid or the baby's mother, that's something different!\n\nMake sure that whatever decision you make is based on HIM and your relationship with HIM, not on the simple fact that a baby is now also involved.
805365
yes he should see the baby but no not take him on his own, meet him somewhere public just the 2 of you and not her ... as for her i would look into a restraining order
40227
The sooner she tells her mom, the better. For the sake of your friend's life and her baby's, she should be getting prenatal (before the baby is born) medical care.  \n\nIf I were her mom, sure, I'd be...pissed off. Then, after I cooled off, I'd remind my daughter how much she's loved, and tell her that we would face this together.\n\nBut that's just me.. :)
589990
He is more likely to be ready than you are. He doesn't know where you are and thats why he hasn't initiated anything. If you initiate it I he is certain to accept. You are the one who had the baby he is just waiting for you.
665260
If you're a true friend, you should tell her parents. You know why? A friend would just shrug her shoulder and think, "well, it's her life she can do whatever she wants" however if you're a true friend you are concern about her safety, her welfare too. Chances of getting sexual transmitted diseases are high to having many partners and of course pregnancy. Your friend may not talk to you or even be mad at you after she will know that you tell her parents but someday, as she learns more wisdom in life of what's right and wrong, she would even be grateful to you because you did the right thing for telling her parents.\nAlso, I hope her parents are a kind of loving and caring parents who care for their daughter's welfare because if not, then your friend would just need a lot of support from you in the future, emotionally especially.
111832
When telling my supervisor that I was pregnant with my 2nd child, I got a gasp and a "Was this PLANNED?"\n\n1) yes\n2) none of your business!\n3) I had been married for a while at this point, hello!\n4) how rude!
422348
That's a tough one. Sounds kind of suspicious too. Why is this girl coming around when you are working and he's suppose to be recovering from surgery. I would talk to the friend and bust them both out. There are a lot of lives involved. Not just the four adults, 2 of which can't be trusted but what about the baby...Baby's grow up and they usually want to know where they came from. They also get alittle upset to find out later than sooner that their lives have been based on a lie. Good luck with this one... p.s. Why don't she like you she's the one sleeping with your husband!!
842764
OK you need to do what you feel is right. I think that you need to tell your current g/f a/s/a/p you don't want her finding out later from someone else. It is so nice to see you wanting to help out this woman and her child. But I do think it would be wise for you to get a paternity test done. She is the one that offered you one. I really don't know what else to tell you, except you sound like a really great guy and her and her daughter would be very lucky to have you in their lives.