What is a good and safe way to meet women for a lesbian experience?
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There's tons of ways to meet women. Maybe try personal ads and party lines. If you meet anyone are are worried about whether or not you'll want to hook up with em, meet at a bar or somewhere else public and talk for a lil while first. Have a friend call you about 20 minutes after you meet so you can make an excuse to leave if you don't have the heart to tell her that you're not attracted to her. If all is going well, and you and her click, take it from there. You need to meet up with someone that has mutual interests. If you're only interested in sex, you need to hook up with someone whose only interest is that as well.
415008
I cannot believe no one has answered this question.  It certainly sounds as if you should pursue lesbian relationships exclusively.  You surely do not want to be in a relationship with a person who repulses you.  As for the phallic shaped things, you still may find them coming in handy with another woman -- for those hard to reach places.
276436
I was once a lesbian, but have since chosen to be with a man. I have a lot of friends who are still lesbians though, and I understand why they choose to be like that. In the cases that I know (including mine), fellow females understand the psyche of their own gender. It's true in most cases, since a lesbian (even if she's a butch lesbian) would still be a girl, and girls get what other girls need and want in a relationship. Of course, there's also some people who just wish to experiment. I would advise that you talk to your friends, learn about what it is about lesbianism that attracts them, and accept them. It is NEVER easy for a gay person to come out, and if they trusted you enough to tell you about this, that speaks a lot about what kind of a friend you are. I am glad that you accept them, and that you want to understand. Frankly my dear, you might never fully comprehend until you are in THAT kind of relationship. But, I admire how you are going about with your confusion. Just be a friend to them. It is their choice. Their lifestyle. And they are your friends. =)\n\nI hope this helps you out. =)
190579
online chat/dating invitations are DANGEROUS\n\ntake the initiative to find a REAL woman - we're out there and enjoy meeting new people who treat us with respect.
17646
Just play it safe. \nMake sure you know where you will be enjoying your experience. Have your cell handy and inform a friend where you'll be and when to expect to see you again. (Set the alarm on your phone just in case you need to dress and run in the AM.)\nIt's an awesome and emowering experience in which you will probably be comfortable tring new tricks and playing out your fantsies. \nI had several encounters, most of which I wouldn't trade for the world. Most imortantly I had a good time while exploroing my own sexuality. Enjoy the future!
260259
i don't know any lesbian friends who would be willing to spend the night with you but my cousin stars in a lot of gay porn movies. he is quite the "man". he said he would like to spend one night with you and then you could give your opinion the next day of what you thought about your new adventure.
536194
did you try going into a lesbian bar?  plenty of bi women also go to places like that.
444913
Just start with "Hi" or you could try and include her in a discussion as she walks past "Hey what do you think of zyx, by  the way I'm 'name' and you are ...?", or pick one thing about her that you like "hey sally, that's a nice necklace, is there a story behind it?"\n\nHave a look at the link below for more ways of approaching women, and the lessons learned can be applied to other areas of your life.
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I can tell you where you won't find one.  Here.  \n\nGet out and be in an environment where you are comfortable and enjoy yourself.  It helps you with the opposite sex, unless, of course, you are confortable in places where women don't hang out.\n\nHowever, I do know you won't get a girlfriend here.
937257
Leave all is info with a friend, including any pictures of him.  Meet in an open safe place.  Bring someone with you.  Take your own car and don't let him know where it is parked.  In my community we had someone who was just arrested for meeting ladies on line and raping them.  He was quite handsome too.  So beware and have fun.
1132464
Start going out with women.
991625
The same places straight people meet - in bars, at work, in supermarkets, out walking dogs....\n\nHave a look at http://www.gaydar.co.uk or http://www.gaydargirls.co.uk \n\nWhile those sites tend to be mainly for people looking for sex, you can get chatting to people online in your area and find out where the good places are to meet people socially. There are many online forums you might find useful too.\n\nGood luck.
956774
it would help if you put down where you live but, my space is a great place to meet other lesbians-sounds dorky but, i know some couples who have met and even married!
914080
Check out OutInTheSuburbs.Com for GLBT resources in Chicago's suburbs. You'll find information on lesbian bars in Franklin Park and Calumet City.
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NOT in a bar, any more than heterosexuals looking for LTRs. You aren't that different from the rest of us. Bars are for one-night stands.\n\nTry one of the three churches that won't stone you to death for being "possesed by the devil" - MCC, Congregationalsist, Unitarian-Universalists.\n\nWork on a gay rights political committee.\n\nWork for a straight politician with the balls to admit you guys are human and stand up against the right-wing crazies.\n\nTake it slow, obviously. It's harder for you than for the straights; all anyone in a gym, sierra club hike, book group or night class who asks a lady for lunch risks is a turn-down. You can spoil a casual friendship fast by asking someone out if they don't play in your league.
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Try volunteering for something in your community. Go to the library. Join a gym. Ask your friends to set you up on dates. Play a co-ed recreation sport like softball. Elections are on the way. Volunteer your time to a candidate that you like. You will meet many new people that way. Just think outside the norm. Do things that you enjoy and eventually you could meet a woman that enjoys the things you do.
858400
depends what sort of women you want to meet