if u r pregnant and want an abortion what is the latest time u can wait?
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State laws vary. Call your local health department and ask. Good luck.
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No one can make you have an abortion. You have to decide if you're truly ready to be a mother and then be willing to accept the responsibilities that will come with that role. If your parents however are not willing to support you and force you to choose between living at home and having and abortion or keeping the baby and not living under their roof then that's another set of problems you will have to deal with. There are shelters and women's groups that will help and support you but you have to consider also the affect that would have on your relationship with your parents.\nIf you need more support and suggestions then feel free to contact me whenever you like.\n\nBest Wishes
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I don't know much about abortions, but I do know about ovulation.  You can tell that you are ovulating a couple of different ways.  One, your body temp goes up a bit (.2-.8 degrees or so), and two, you have more mucus in your vagina than normal.  Some people normally ovulate 13-19 days after the start of your period.  \n\nThere are lots of books out there.  One is "Birth Control Made Simple" by Barbara Cass-Annesse (spelt something like that).  This book is good for if you don't want to have a baby, but also would be very good if you did want a baby.\n\nSince I have only this one time to talk with you, I want you to know that if you are suffering at all from previous choices that you made, there are tons of people out there who want to just give you love.  Many communities have programs of healing from past abortion choices.  Many are run by Cathlic churches, but other churches do them, too.  If you can't find something in the phone book, call the biggest church and ask.  People call about many various needs all of the time.  The best healing of all is from the great Comforter (the Holy Spirit).  If you don't have Jesus, please consider turning to Him with this in your past and your entire life.  Even if you had never had an abortion, there are other sins to be paid for, just like we all have, and you need someone to pay them for you- otherwise you will go to Hell.  Start talking with God about your life, and just see if He doesn't start a new change in you!!  I have already been praying for you.
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A woman can take the abortion pill a few days after learning she's pregnant and the body will reject the fetus naturally.  We're talking a few cells here.  What you're talking about only happen late in pregnancy, if the life of the mother is in danger.  Not in the first trimester.\n\nBut the psychofundies will always cut you down, regardless of logic or sense.
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Did you mean Abortion?
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Ladies, if a woman is asking the question about how to terminate a pregnancy, it is not up to you to convince her one way or another whether she should do it.  The question is how to do it, not whether or not it should be done.  You would think that if you cared so much of the life of this unborn child that you would understand that living is not always the best option.  I'm sure everyone can think of a situation, place where they would not want to exist...and don't lie to yourself.\nAnyways, the first route to terminating a pregnancy is to take the morning after pill within 72 hours of intercourse.  Most women take this pill if they believe that their condom broke or had unprotected sex in the heat of the moment.\nThe next route is obviously abortion.  You should be able to find a clinic or hospital where you live that will do it.  If you are in your first trimester, all abortion clinics will provide the procedure.  If you are in your third trimester, there will be very few clinics that will provide the operation as the fetus is too developed at this point.  Most places will only do it if you are direct harm if the fetus is not aborted.  If you are in your second trimester, there is a chance some clinics will and some won't perform the procedure.  So you need to do some research and make sure you know how far along you are.\n\nIf adoption is an option and you know the fetus is healthy, you should consider carrying it to term and then putting it up for adoption.  I'm adopted and would always recommend this option first if the baby is healthy.  If the baby is not healthy then you need to consider your options and YES abortion is one of them.
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The hardest choice I ever made was should I abort the child I was carrying or carry it to term and raise it. I already had a 2 yr.ild and I was 18 yrs.old. I was single still as well.My mom said if I got pregnent again I was out the door so I was really scared.Finally I told my mom and I asked her if she thought I should have an abortion? She said I was already pregnent so i might as well keep it. I didnt think about an abortion after that although I really dont think i would have been able to go through with it(im prochoice though) And I am so glad I did not. My son is now 15yrs old and he is the joy of my life. I hate to think now how close I came to not having him. I just couldnt imagine life without him.
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There is a pill she can take if she is in the very early stages of the pregnancy..it will terminate the pregnancy without a surgical abortion..you should go to planned parenthood and get it very soon because after a certain # of weeks you cant take it anymore..good luck
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You look her square in the eye and say "you are nearly an adult, and you have to make your own decisions in life. I can't stop you from choosing to have a child right now, even though you have no money and no prospects. So if you want to have a baby, you go right ahead. But this is my house and you are driving my car, and I am not putting my resources on the table for you to misuse them by having a child you can't support. So the minute that pregnancy test turns up positive, pack your stuff and get out of my house."\n\nBest of luck and God bless.
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if your abortions were done in a hospital, you had quality care, so i wouldnt worry.just try to concieve and if you dont then go see a doctor
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I had an abortion when I was 28 and it was the worst decision I've ever made.  I didn't regret it until it was over and then I had severe depression and problems in my future relationships because I couldn't forgive myself.   I'd encourage your friend to talk to her parents.   Believe it or not, there are other options out there.   Tell her to have faith - and good luck.
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its a toss up between if you got pregnant would you get an abortion for me and what age did i lose my virginity. like its any of their business and what knowledge would come of asking these moronic ?s
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I am pro-choice too but if it's not your choice then it's not the same. You can't let him make you feel pushed into this. It's a big decision. OK there's a risk that it will be still born of miscarry. But if there is any chance that you will have a perfectly healthy baby then You should do what you feel in your heart is right. Sit him down and explain how you feel and maybe he'll see where your coming from. You need top think about yourself and that little child inside you. If you do abort it, you'll always be wondering if it might have been OK.After all you have already got one perfectly healthy child, who's to say you can't have another? Just don't make any rash decisions. There's too much at stake.
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I think when you are ready. However, you may want to wait til the first trimester is over because the risk is higher to have a miscarriage. I would tell family first though.
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why do you have abortion as your only topic of "choice" today?  \n\nlooking back at your question history, i'd say that you have some issues.  \n\nseek help.
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If something goes wrong with the procedure your parents will have to know.  Are you sure that you want an abortion?   You will be left with a lot of emotional scars and may not be able to have other children.  Couldn't you carry your child to term and then put him/her up for adoption?  Maybe your parents would want to help you raise your baby.
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I did. and i don't wanna say it's was the 'WRONG TIME' because when is the "RIGHT TIME"? at the time i was young, just finishing High School, she was about to go away to college. Money would've been tight, our lives would've been different. that does not mean, however, that it would've been bad. We could've had a beautiful Pre teen child today. and to this day she's one of my best friends. and when we talk about it now we regret deciding to abort. for this reason i am no longer Pro Abortion.