My husband doesn't show much interest in me what do you think could be going on?
546825
He could be cheating.  I had the same suspecting with my wife and I was correct. You or someone (Privet Investigator) need to follow him to see where he is going.  You can't confront him if you don't have proof. With that proof you can move things forward either as a married couple or ending the marriage.  I hope you are wrong. I never wish divorce on anyone
70648
I felt the same way alot! This may seem strange to say but maybe he should have his testosterone level checked. That is the age it gets low and my husband had those symptoms and that's what it was. Also, what do you need to talk about. I needed to talk about how to fix problems and my husband took unpleasant issues that we needed to discuss as wanting to start an arguement. Also men don't need the connection quite as much as women do I think. It is so hard to live with. There are so many women that are going through the same thing. Maybe there should be e-harmany for women who need to get connected with other woman in the same situations so they can go out, have fun and complain about their husbands. A support group or something. Just leave him on the couch and maybe take some classes and do fun things for yourself before you think there is something wrong with you. It is him not you. He should see a doctor to rule out a medical condition. He may also be suffering from depression. Have you sat him down and in a nice, loving way tell him your concerned about him and NEED his imput? Write him a letter of how you feel if he finds it hard to sit and listen to converstation. Good luck! My husband got treated for low testosterone and depression and it got a whole lot better. If he refuses to even try, leave. There is no point in being unhappy. Life is too short. Live life either way. Alone but married, or alone and not married but open to finding someone else and hope you find someone else. Some people tend to relax and not try to please the other person after awhile also.
1132762
Question him, sounds like he is not into you that much. Yes, we all notice people we find attractive, but all the time?? No sense of love there at all.
221644
If he's ignoring ou maybe he's decided that he loves his wife. You know, felt marital obligation, that kind of thing. Just you know......move on. Your not in love with him right?
639593
He may be depressed or really stressed. There may be something bothering him and he doesn't want to bother you with it. Ask him if everything is ok. give him some space and time eventually he will come around.
468842
Stop thinking about it !! Too much thinking and wondering brings about trouble... He may not be as emotional as you by nature, but this doesn't mean he doesn't love you just as much... If you keep up the worrying and the wondering it will show you as insecure, he will get bored with you and will drift away, men don't like insecure women who lack confidence... Just love him and trust him and enjoy your marriage as long as you have it...Good luck
1083760
The root to your problem lack of conversation,....If there anything not right goin on , the best way to solve it is to talk openly to each other. Say your husband is up set over something that happen between his in-laws & him sometime ago, n he's not happy being with them....but for me at least he's willing to join you guy for a week. For me that's fair....Talk to your husband n make him feel good for his sacrifice....Then your job is to tell your family that your hubby has something to do........Time will heel things.....But never ever compare anybody with the past or with another person....Things can go very bad.
720575
He's trying to feel you out and see what your like now since he hasn't seen you in awhile. You never know he might want to see if anything develops. Good luck!
469850
You know, if he shows no interest in what you're saying, then he's not ever going to.  And therefore, he's not interested in you.  Maybe in the physical aspect he is, but nothing more..
501726
not necessarily...he could just be going through something....maybe he's depressed or doesn't know what he wants. give him space and see what happens...
608285
If you cant realize what he might be thinking/feeling...\nJust read what typed.  Give the guy a break.  Would you call someone 4 times a day, if you didnt like them??\nThink about it for just one minute.  He could be justa tad shy, + you're still married.
167585
sounds like he cares a lot about you but is NOT in love with you. you are the best thing in his life right now, the only thing he is sure of and now he is going to lose you. have no regrets about it; you followed your heart and those actions never need to be explained or appologized for. don't worry you'll always be cool, just don't confuse those moments to mean anything for than that and i think you'll be fine. Don't forget to get your ring!
497250
You need to sit him down and have a talk w/ him find out if he doesn't feel there's enough romance there to have sex. Some men have to have romance just like some women do to have sex. You could ask him about going to see a sex therapist.  Sometimes men just lose their sex drive slightly b/c they already have you and sex just isn't as important b/c when your married other things take the place of sex for some. I wish you all the best of luck. If this doesn't work talk to him about seeing a doctor about whether he's experiening problems w/ his sex drive. If not see about a sex therapist. Good Luck!
1091593
Maybe he needs something from you and he's just too shy to comfront you with it. Normally, shy men whos attracted to you behaves exactly what you have described. I think this guy needs encouragement from you, so he would be able to tell you whats on his mind. Goodluck!
739919
If there is no physical reason for his loss of interest, then you need to rule out other reasons (stress, depression, etc.). If that does not explain why he has lost interest, then you all need to have a good, long heart to heart discussion... \nEveryone has a their own idea about how much sex is enough per day, week, month, or even ever.... You will need to openly discuss your needs with your boyfriend. If he is willing to up the frequency then great! If not, you may want to really think about whether or not you want to continue the relationship. Other people may write and tell you that sex is not as important as love, blah blah... but sex is the #2 reason for divorce in the U.S., so I think it must be important to some of us, lol!
624887
Just talk to him, tell him you noticed he's been distant lately and that you are concerned. IT could be many things, he might be having problems at home. Best of luck!
986512
You're going to need professional counseling. It sounds like he has lost motivation in the relationship and the underlying cause may be hard to find without a counselor's help.