why  dose my boyfriend want sex all day?
546971
He's probably in his prime where all he wants is sex. Men tend to want sex, but later on, You probably will be the one wanting sex and he'll be thinking what you're thinking now. (Men's sex drive kicks in before the women.)
656944
It seems like you want sex more when you can't get it.  It sounds like he is using that as an excuse.  I have never heard of a man getting bored with sex.  Talk to him and if you can live without the sex stay with him, if not kick him to the curb.
845984
He has a lot of excuses, none of which strike me as sincere.\n\nI would guess that he has met someone new, or is out of love with you but finds some aspects of your relationship worth hanging on to (financial, maybe?)    Or maybe he just doesn't have the guts to say none of it's what he wants anymore.   If that's the case, then don't make it worse for both of you by hanging on until it's a disaster.    Go while you can still stand each other.\n\n Not wanting sex has nothing to do with him getting older.   I'm in that older bracket myself, and age has nothing to do with THAT.    Have you ever met one that didn't want sex (except this one)?   Exactly. \n\nYeah, they get bored easily but so do we, especially with those younger ones who think they are Sex Machines but have a lot to learn.   If he's already exhausted his sexual imagination, maybe YOU should move on :-)   \n\nHe's working long hours?   Are you sure he's at work? \n\nToo many excuses.    If he's mature and really cares about you, the sex should always be good.    That's not an age thing, a weight thing, a beauty contest, or a 2 1/2 year thing.    Go the mall and look at all the weird unattractive couples who are obviously crazy about each other.   This ain't no beauty contest, this is real life.   Not everyone is pretty.   A good relationship makes sex good.    \n\nThere is the slight possibility that he could have a physical problem causing a low sex drive, but that's not what I'm seeing here.    I've never seen a man turn down an attractive, caring partner.    THey could have just ridden a bicycle cross-country, and can still find the strength to do the wild thang.   So hire a private detective or do a little snooping on your own.   \n\nGood luck to you.
346855
Well obviously he'll turn it into an argument either way just because HE want's sex.He's not being very considerate is he, or mature. I think you really need to do some soul searching about this, and other demands he may make of you as well. If he demanding that YOU clean up the house, or You do that, or whatever, it may be time to tell him that he's being a selfish jerk and your not his sex slave. Or just go looking for a nicer guy who knows how to play by the rules.
508014
I think about my boyfriend several times with in a day. It is perfectly normal to want to spend time with someone you care about. \n\nWhat is not normal is the need to want to be with him 24/7 and the fact that all you want to do is sit at home and wait until he calls. First off that is not love that is obsession. Also you are going to turn him off with your neediness. A person should not consume your whole life he should be an addition. Are you blowing off time with your friends to wait for his calls? Are you blowing off activities you love? If so not good. You as a person shouldn't be consumed by a guy. He'll be more turned on by you and probably want to spend more time with you if you have your own friends and activities. A girl who lives, breaths, and dies a guy will lose him due to neediness. A person can't be someone's everything. If you expect that you should take a good look at your life to see what you are missing if you need him that bad.
701969
the fact that he said that when you guys start dating, he wants a sexual relationship shows you that he wants just sex.  Obviously, when he got on the internet, he was looking for someone to have sex with.  If you two guys do have a relationship, just have sex and nothing else and then when you leave in the morning after that night of sex, see if he says...why are you leaving?  If he says that, he may want more, but if not, he just wants sex.\n\nIf he puts up a fight for you to stay at his house, then he does want a real relationship and a lot of sex.  If he doesnt, then he just wants sex...eventually when something happens,you will know what he is thinking really.
503726
Maybe it's not that he doesn't LIKE it, maybe he CAN'T have sex that often.  Some men can't, it could be a medical condition.  Just talk to him about it.  Let him know that you have needs.  If he can't have sex maybe he would be willing to stimulate and pleasure you some other way.  Communication is very important though.  Let him know how much you desire him and wanna be with him.  Sometimes guys gotta hear that stuff too!
743032
Sounds like he has intimacy issues. Most guys would jump at the chance to have real sex with a real woman. Obviously, this guy is in love with his fantasy life, the idea of exploring his needs through detached means.
566398
mine cuddles with me and only when he too is tired. he is horny 99% of the time but kinda knows when i want it and not. i would wonder what was up if he stopped doing it one day. i tell him when im not in the mood and he respects that..  :)
21148
well have you had sex before and now its stopped if so maybe he wants to wait till you get married or maybe hes cheating or maybe he doesnt think you enjoy it just talk to him ask him why he doesnt want to
1106292
God bless you, All you can do is stay normal as you can. Do not  push your limit, make him comfortable when he is with you. All (REAL) mans are looking two things in their life, first good sex partner and  second, somewhere back in their mind they are looking for good homely atmosphere (meaning they want to see how comfortable they are with you), if you offer both of these two things to him. then you must 'BELIEVE ME' he is not going anywhere, he will be with you forever.
578360
Do NOT listen to this other drivel...Sometimes men, just like women lose some of the intensity of their sex drive for certain periods of time. He could be dealing with issues that you know nothing about...such as stress at work or with family, he could be having some problems with his libido... sit him down and talk to him, you won't find your answer by asking total strangers..only he can satisfy your curiosity. Peace.
1088742
Sex is best enjoyed at all different times! Morning, noon and night can be a good time but I know my guy prefers to have it at night so he can sleep afterwards lol
1043488
Well the simple fact that the two of you are working  two jobs each is a big part of the problem. Why are you? He's tired, your tired and it becomes something else to be done sometimes, instead of being a fun part of your relationship.\n\nIf it's possible try to cut back some of your hours, so that you guys can have some quality time with each other. Or at least a day off together. That will hopefully lead to sex. \n\nTry to sit down and talk to him about how you feel he might not really realize how much your sex life has gone down.\n\nI'm still going through this madness with my boyfriend only the roles are reversed. \n\nDrop me an email if you neeed someone to talk to.
44813
Men are hardwired to crave sex almost constantly. It's encoded in their DNA and has been that way forever. It's not that they think you want sex all the time, it's just that they require it more than women do. It's a biological thing. You're going to have to learn to live with that and just be clear to your man when you aren't in the mood and he is. Just remember, it's really not something they can control.
555710
Until you said "When I am more than willing to have sex and try new things all the time?" I thought I had the solution for you.  If he's not fulfilling your sexual needs you need to drop him.  Let him play in cyber land and find someone that can appreciate a real woman.
585105
it sounds like he has excitement when in the bedroom but it's a good thing for you. Just tell him how you like it. but he is the only one who actually knows if he had sex before you or not. I would think that he's been waiting for you and now he has you so he can't help himselve and goes faster and longer. i wish you the best of luck. i think it would be best to get a guys point of view because they would now.