To tell or not to tell that is my question?
535334
Well, I think since she is inviting you and your wife to her wedding, there is no chance that your ex still wants you. I'd say something casual like, "I just got an email from xxxx, and she invited us to her wedding" and laugh. You have no reason to feel guilty about the situation it seems.
236817
Yes, you should tell your current guy.  Other wise, there will be secrets, and questions, and a chance he will think you didn't tell him because you wanted your ex.  Don't get caught up in all the games and hassle just be open about what is going on.
603176
I would be both. Probably stew about it and keep asking myself why I didn't say this or say that. Perhaps in most cases it is better to not say what you wanted to say simply because it could cause more anomisity and hostility.
1130533
Tell her.  Turn the tables...wouldn't you want to know?
1026118
if you are good enough friends then you should be able to tell him without feeling awkward... true friends can tell eachother anything. and, yeah, he probably already knows, or at least suspects. so go for it. and if he doesn't feel the same then you have your answer and you can go back to just being friends
22104
If you can't tell...then you're not\n'cause when you are, you'll know...and you won't be asking that question...
890346
you can't tell. she has to tell. why not ask her?
553103
are you asking or telling or what???
1166454
yeh, you should prolly bring it up. that way atleast it will be out in the air, and any tension will be from peoples open opinions, and not from trying to hide it and stuff.
867233
You don't have to tell anyone.  Your mother may have already guessed.  Talk about gay people to her and see how she feels.  If she doesn't understand you may want to wait until you are an adult to tell her.  It's not like you need to make an announcement about your sexual orientation.\n\nYeah, it does.
212604
definitely tell him. age is just a number, and i really don't see why women like to hide it. i have no problem telling how old i am!
118425
Ah, dumb move on your part, I'd say.\n\nHe's going to find out. \n\nYou can be honest and tell him, or somebody else will.\n\nYou have a real problem here.\n\nlol lol lol  Give tompj64us best answer, PLEASE!!
767932
It would be better to tell him.  He probably has a bit of an idea that you did, but may not know for sure.  Or maybe someone told him and he won't admit to you he knows.\n\nHe will definitely not be happy when you tell him.  But if he forgives you, then he will talk to you again.  But it might be some time, so you have to back off while he sorts it out in his own mind.\n\nBest is to tell him in person.  Say you want to tell him something, and tell him how you feel about telling him and keeping it from him.  Tell him what you said here, that you are scared of his reaction, which is why it has taken you this long to tell him.  And say that you don't expect any reaction from him, you just want to tell him, to set things right, so that he knows what went on.\n\nIt is up to him how he reacts, so don't expect any type of reaction from him. If he talks to you at that time, then listen to what he says and answer his questions.\nHe might not even talk, and just walk away.
882922
Tell nobody. If something is known by two, it is definitely not a secret...
531694
If they dont ask, dont tell.  If they do ask, be honest.\n\nBest of luck!
1045882
YEA, If not you may miss out on a beautiful thing !!!\n\nI seriously doubt that your telling him that would cause any problems only good
417317
Don't push him but you can ask if he would tell you. If he says he doesn't want to talk about it, just say that you would really like to know what happened and if he ever feels comfortable telling you, you would like to know.