Guys: How do i get your attention?
535672
wait until the right guy comes along and then you will get all the attention you need
472217
Get his attention by talking to him or if your good at it flirt with him or play around with him.
937263
nope, not too much to ask. im a decent guy trying to meet people online too.  so dont worry, we're out there. \nas far as attracting a guy, make sure you are as attractive as possible, and i dont mean that to sound as shallow as it does. you have few enough opportunities, and you dont want one to pass you by because you didnt make a good first impression.  guys are physical, sad but true. after that though, make sure that you are interesting. i hate girls that are ignorant of the whole world. they are boring.  so read, keep up to date, know whats going on. have well thought out opinions.  \nwhen you feel jaded try to remember that people are often hard wired to act the way they do. its not an excuse for bad behavior.  but often people are just going through their lives sort of oblivious to the actions they are taking. there is romance out there.  there are men who have honor and kindness and decency.  its just that girls tend to go for bad boys, so we have to act like jackasses to attract any.  find the guys who have accomplished difficult tasks, who are working hard to improve themselves.  who think before they speak, and can backup what they say with intelligent reason.  were out there. good luck!
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1. Be at least somewhat attractive. Im not gunna lie, looks are important.\n\n2. Most guys arent so picky, but at least be able to carry some sort of conversation that doesnt make him bored.\n\nIf all else fails\n3. Give him about 5 or 6 shots worth of vodka and shove your boobs in his face.
802209
A few things come to mind reading your dilemma.  If you're actively trying to get guys' attention and it's not happening, then yes, you're obviously doing something wrong.  That's good news!  You can change your own errors easily enough.  If you were doing everything right and it still wasn't working...well, then you've got a problem because you can't change other people.\n\nAppearance and hygiene are critical.  You want a guy of quality?  You better fix yourself up to get him.  Learn to be impeccable in all you do.  That's the easy, shallow part (but books ARE judged by their cover.  Part of life, deal with it).\n\nIs there something wrong with your personality?  Like someone else asked, "are you rude?"  Also, how's your sense of humor?  Your ambition?  These are all things that can drive decent people away from you.  Be optimistic and outgoing as much as you can be.\n\nFinally, just get your butt out there and enjoy yourself.  As a discriminating man, I can tell you that the girls I've really enjoyed in my life were always the ones who were simply fun to be around.  Hell, find guys that you are attracted to and flat out ask them what they look for in a girl.  You'll learn more in a 5 minute conversation than you will asking online.  Good luck, girl.
517131
there always guys never try and rush to find one ull get a bad one...wut u can do to get them to notice u is just look at em and if u have to u can talk to em but try to make them talk first also have a friend introduse u to one of there ex b/f that they thought was nice
156634
Yes I already have.  Now here's my question for you.  How do I get a hottie like you to notice me?
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I'm a guy on the other end of that type of question & I run in to this same problem from the other side. This is what would attract me.\n\nDress nice or classy, BUT NOT SLUTTY OR TRAMPY! \n\nREAD IT AGAIN! \n\nHonestly, avoid tattoos! Really. If you have some already, don't get anymore. It's a big turnoff. It's like grafitti on the Venus de Milo! Girls are pretty already. Anything else just detracts from them.\n\nAlso, you'll have to be responsive. \n\nIf you get it that a guy is giving a "vibe", he probably IS. The thing is, most good guys AREN'T PLAYERS - so they haven't practiced SCHMOOZING girls and throwing them into bed! \n\nThink about it. The good guys aren't necessarily too experienced at getting all the girls - you might have to look this over more closely.\n\nSo, the good guys TRY to interest girls, but sometimes get it WAY WRONG. \n\nSo, you've gotta pay attention and give him a little break - please. If it seems that he's interested & might want to say something, GIVE HIM A LOT OF TIME TO SPIT IT OUT. Try saying stuff like, "Yea....? And....? Go on...." to get him to keep talking.\n\nMake it seem like you're not in a hurry and are interested. Give him time to fumble and get the courage to ask you questions or figure out hou to ask you out.\n\nREMEMBER, MOST GOOD GUYS WON'T BE PLAYERS! You're not looking for a player anyhow, right?
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1. find a guy you like\n2. get his attention ( walk past him and give a little look back, sqeeze past him in corridors buses wherever)\n3. when you have his attention seem like you dont really want it, (he'll try harder)\n4.ask your friends and his friends to meet up for a night out\n5. dance your arse off, act like you can have any one , but no your gonna chose him (male pride and all that)\n\na lot of ahrd work i know but fun as you go along
289457
The key to attracting a guy is simple.  First you have to be confident and like who you are.  Second, you have to take a chance and let a guy know your interested.  Third, don't play his games, be in a relationship that you want that you deserve.
314684
this is a simple answer and it looks like you answered it yourself. treat the people you are interested in like a friend. sometimes, people can tell that you are interested and maybe even overly interested so they distance themselves. guys kinda want a little chase. if it's too easy, anyone can get you. if you're just out of reach, there's a little mystery and something a little intrigueing. good luck.
31464
talk with ur eyes they can say a lot.like let him catch u looking at him then look away with a grin on ur face to let him know ur interested
513317
you don't have to get him to notice you. just get the courage up and go and talk to him. find out what you all have in common, and just plain get to know each other first. i think the first step to becoming gf/bf, (if you want to), is learning what kind of interests you have in common, and other stuff. you need to take the initiative, and go up and ask him his name. it seems like he's really shy---it seems like you are too (so am i), i know how you feel---if you don't go up and ask, you'll never know if he's the guy for you. you'll never know if he's Mr. Right---your Prince Charming. good luck!!!
240524
Let him come to you. Flirt minimally and just let him notice you.
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Most women are too busy playing "hard-to-get", it's human nature.\n\nHere's three ideas to think about:\n\n1)  How about you get his attention by smiling when you catch him looking.\n\n2)  The best way to show confidence is to approach him.  (I think all ladies should use this advice).  The probably wouldn't be much use for dating sites if women approached men.\n\n3)  Or if your passive aggressive use your network of friends or co-workers and start a rumor that you like a particular guy.  Trust me he'll find out and seek your attention if he is attracted to you.
196061
that's simple. your a girl so u shouldn't worry about getting him interested at you. girls have the charms! just go up to him, say hi and carry the conversation to going out some time.
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a guy to notice you must :\n1.ask him out somewhere\n2.give him compliments\n3.take his phone number\n4.take his email and send him messages \n5.try to kiss him gently and slowly \n6.look at his face often and smile at him \n(thats how i like girls to try to know me better)\n\n(i'm a male)