Should I call my ex girlfriend?
553327
screw it dude!!! find someone else. dont waste your time
714531
If you just recetly broke up, then just leave her alone for a while.  Let her get on with her life while you get on with yours.  You could send her a Christmas card but; don't write anything like, "I miss you", just a simple holiday wish is plenty.  If your reasons for wanting to keep in touch with her is to stalk her or possible hopes of getting back together in the future, let her alone.  Chalk it up to one lost and move on.
96482
If she is your EX, then she isn't cheating on you.  And if she is an EX, why would you care what she thinks?  Obviously, you are better off with this woman being your EX, leave it alone and move on, you are better off without all this mess!
1112252
That would depend on what your intentions are. If your just looking for a piece of a**than yes! Unless she is the kind of girl that likes to get it too. In which case its not so bad.\n But If your calling because you miss her and want to see if you can pick things up where they left off, than I dont think there is anything wrong with calling. Is she single? That might be an issue to consider also.\n If your just calling to talk to her because she is more of a friend than should be ok also.\n Either way, dont call if dont have good intentions. I think that everyone deserves to have a happy life and if you broke up maybe the reason was enough to just stay away from each other. But maybe it was just a mistake that can be overlooked with time and another try at love.\n Good luck with your decision!
893355
erm no! keeping your ex's number on your phone will make your current girlfriend very suspicious
278965
Why do you want to call my ex?
614342
Well, first of all she's not your girl anymore. You've both had people in your lives after the break up which is fine. You weren't together and you both had someone else. She has no right to be mad at you if she is.\n\nIf she says that it doesn't matter whether or not you want to be with her then that's probably the truth. You need to both tell her and show her how you feel and than see what she has to say.\n\nI'm sorry to be harsh. I am a very blunt person. I wish you the best of luck.
240982
No, I don't talk to any of my ex's.. but one thing I would do is ask the ex what his intention to get in touch with oyou after so long is.  He is probably unhappy in his relationship and wants to bring you into his life for some reason.. If he was single, I would think his intentions were okay.. but since he IS in ANOTHER relationship, he needs to break up with his current GF and then pursuit hsi ex's.  Word of advice for you-- tell your current significant other!  He should know from you then ever finding out by accident.  Good luck with this sticky situation!!!
897890
yes its a good idea to call him but probably the best present you can give him...is probably to get back together with him, seeing that you are now single. also get him to be more outgoing i use to be like him...still am a little but alot more outgoing cuz my girlfirend and my friends
478448
Does "ex" not break it down enough? why waste your precious time calling him if hes no going to call you?
978872
sorry, but this all sounds extremely immature and blown out of proportion.  and hate is a very strong word and emotion.  \nwhat happened with your ex-girlfriend is between you and her!  it has nothing to do with the present girlfriend, but you've obviously dragged her into it anyway!  not smart at all!\nthe best way to deal with your ex is to totally ignore her.  she'll leave you alone when she see's she's not getting to you anymore.  she's just trying to get a reaction from you.  so don't give it to her.  and wanting your girlfriend to beat up your ex?  think about it, it doesn't get much more immature than this.  think for a minute, you're causing trouble and blowing things way out of proportion.  and there's always the chance that your girlfriend isn't as tough as you think she is!  what are you going to tell her if your ex beats her up?  will your girlfriend then beat you up because she got beat up?  see what I mean, nonsense!
1073526
thats a hard one okay i have been through it so many times and the urge to not pick up the phone is hard.what was the reason you and her broke up?she needed her space,3 years is along time but sometimes people grow apart it happens.this guy i was seeing we broke up and its been 8 months and i still want to call him its hard.i waited for him to call me but he did'nt.just wait and see if she calls you most of the time if you don't call she will wonder why and she will call you .just give it time.if she don't call move on it will take some time but you will get through it good luck
967887
she's your ex\ndeal with it\nyou cant demand anything from her at this point, as she doesn't play a vital role in your life anymore.\ngive her time, she may come around.\ngive her some space, about a week.\nthen try again with the calling.\ngood luck with hearing her voice
757413
ive been there done that, and i did end up gettin back together with my ex, for a lil while.\n\ni suggest u think abt the fact if she would still want you back? does she love you? do u love her? can u work things out??\n\nthink abt these questions and answer then, and once u have a solution go and decide what u want to do,\n\nyou see, maybe she still loves you and she is going through the same thing so all hope is not lost, uve just lost her for a lil while, but if u hang in there, and since she is ur ex girlfrind that means u know her already, so try figuring out what she wants and what she needs, try fixing what went wrong, go back into her life and try being the man that she needs you to be\n\n\njust remember to have hope and hang in there, and maybe if after reading this u wanna call her, go and do that, but just incase it does not work out with her, its a lesson learnt and soon u may  just meet the one for you\n\n\nall the best, \n\nremember its your life, its in your hands, try figuring it out and live it
1130437
I think you should call him. But don't be like, "I made a mistake, I want you back." Because any normal person is not going to take you back & not have any grudges. He might be like, "Yeah, she want's me back, so now that I've got her, I'm going to make her suffer a little bit so she will not do this to me again. She made me hurt, I'll make her hurt." and although he may want you back just as much as you want him, he could ACT like he could care less & keep you hanging. Soooo, I would call him, ask him how he is doing, and start a nice conversation. Tell him that although you broke up with him, you still love him as a person & you want to be friends. Then let things maybe slowly grow back into a relationship & tell him after he's not mad & hurt anymore that you made a mistake. But you really can't listen to anyone but yourself, If you feel like you should tell him what a mistake you made now, do it. Everyone's relationship trials are different. And since no one knows this guy, no one on here will know how he will react except for you. So go by that... If things don't work out, or if he refuses to take you back, just remember it wasn't meant to be & it just means there is someone else out there even better. But before you do anything, you need to review why you dumped him in the 1st place, if your friends don't like him & say he is a jerk or something, try seeing thier side. But only you will know if he is right for you. I know a lot of people say my boyfriend is a jerk, but we have been together for 8 years and I KNOW he is not. Doubt and insecurities about you guys relationship will only make it end again. So make sure you resolve all issues before you get back together. Good luck!!!
406418
Just say no. She'll take you for granted in the sense that because you're still around, you're available should she ever want to get back together. In the meantime, while she has you as a backup, she'll go on with her life, getting you to do all the boyfriend "work" (e.g. listening to her whine about work, traffic, her new jeans) but not giving you the boyfriend "fun" (although maybe once or twice she'll cave and fool around with you). You'll think she's just on the cusp of getting back together with you. And then she'll tell you that she's met someone else. With work, be as civil as you'd be toward any girl in whom you had absolutely no interest. But flirt with all the other girls at work so the ex gets a reminder of what she's missing.
1010652
well, depends. do you like drama?\n\ndo you really want to piss off ex gf?\n\nYES?? OK, then go for it!