How do you get a guy to speak up first without actually having to tell him to?
548936
First find something that he is interested in and talk to him about it, or just ask what does this do? Guys love to know that some woman needs his help! It will make him feel better. Plus, it will give you a little flirting time. \n\nIf you don't feel up to that, then go for the almighty approach and get him a little jealous. Mention something sweet that someone of the opposite sex done for you. Maybe someone that he knows or works with. It does the trick most of the time. He will feel guilty about not being the one there to do it. \n\nOr you can always seduce him. The poor sap does have it coming if he is too afraid to confront you about liking ya. lol. Suprise him. Win him over. Drop something and see if he will pick it up. Show him signs that you need or want him. He will give in sooner or later. Whisper in his ear. He will like it. \n\nWell, good luck! If this doesn't work then he isn't a man. lol. Also, if you want him to come to you, then you need to make him aware that you are interested as well. Don't take the easy way out or he will give up. Smile back and flirt. I'll work!
489698
Tell the boyfriend that if he spoke clearly the first time there would not be the need to repeat himself.
55539
So, politety tell him that you appreciate his care for you but, you're not interested. Makes him feel your respect, but talk to him with your heart ...That never fail, but you need to talk to him and see his eyes...\n\n;)
570742
Dont ever tell a guy how you feel it just gives him the upper hand.  Next time your around that way stop in to ask his oppion about something you want to do. Maybe a tat. You can tell if he wants to talk or if he just blows you off.
722488
tell hi straight out something like..."i thing ur really cool/cute/nice/  w/e just tel him, but don't ask him out, guys have to take the lead SOMEWHERE!!!!!!!!!
489512
ask him to whisper to your boyfriend what he said then you don't have to tell your boyfriend yourself
366971
He won't say anything because more than likely the gals that preceded you, flamed him bad. So he is gun shy. Men do not like to be dismissed without cause(which many women do to men of average looks) He may want to, but assume you will just make up some lie to not give him the chance. You can steer him into asking you. If you have classes together or work in the same area, position yourself in front of him and have an "accident". Have your hands full and make sure the contents scatter all over. If I read him right, he will help you pick them up. Then you make your move to steer that bull into the corral. Ask him if he has a minute. Most likely, he will say yes. Start taking his measurement. tell him he is near the same size of a cousin etc. Then ask him if he knows where to get some really cool shirts If he can not think of any names ask him where he got his shirt. Later show up with a dreadful shirt and ask his opinion. No matter what, do not allow him to get away without telling you honestly, it is a dreadful shirt. Then ask him if he can show you any places where there are good shirts. tell him you think HIS taste in shirts are great. Hopefully you get him out shirt shopping and you are on your way.
876471
It's not easy, usually us guys tend to think were bothering you, we usually won't call unless we have a reason for it. Just give him a reason to call, borrow something, need help, etc.
239762
Just show that you got grit and tell him.  I know it won't be easy, but after all the yelling is over just tell himyou always bring them up.
803890
dont ask him just do it... say hi back ask small unimportant questions at first then you'll start to talk more
721408
Talk to him damn it.  And don't wait for him to initiate all conversation.  If you are interested show him.  If he thinks he is fighting a losing battle most of the time he will find a different one.  The best way to show him encouragement without all out asking him out is to ask if he is available.
14852
Do something really rude to the guy(not to yourself)
401503
if you want this to go somewhere you're gonna HAVE to make the first move. otherwise it's just gonna go round in circle for god knows how long. don't be afraid to say somethin just cause you're female, just blurt it out and go from there. i'm sure he'd be relieved to have it out in the open, no matter how it happened
379450
Sorry to say, but u shouldn't try to get him to say it...he'll say it when he's ready....Don't you want him to actually mean it when he says it??? If he really feels that way, then sometimes you just know!!!! Be patient...and it might happen when you least expect it...What a nice surprise!!!!
997741
Let me tell you from someone who suffers from shyness.  It gets you nothing face up to it and just tell him next time you are alone with him and he will tell you his feelings. (I know it's easy to say, but all you have to do is get it started and the rest is easy)  Tell him you have something to say and just say it let him know your nervous and he will understand if he's a decent person.
113905
tell him up front and honest about it
755552
start by talking to them first then ask