I like this guy, and I know he likes me, because his best friend told me, and he's way too shy, what do I do??
545024
well miss wildcherry, you should maybe take the initiative if you know he is too shy to approach you. you don't have much to lose or gamble with cause you already know how he feels. there is nothing wrong with females making the first move and you don't want to wait for him to get the confidence to ask first.\n\ngo for it. the success rate will be high.
755824
Hey i will tell you he truely like you, how would i know that becuz lol i stared at my friend and told her that i like her too it simple most guy does this but i does think he a little shy if you really want to know or want to be sure go up to him and does talk to him if he a little shakely when he speak i surely think he like you \nHope this help have a wonderful day lol
392279
tell your friend that you are interested too.  then let him make the moves.  if he likes you then he will make it happen.  just give your friend a heads up first!
895635
don't put your self done! i am going throw the same problem its like every tome he is around me he is so polite and dreamy and cool but when he is around his others friends he dose not want to talk to me! but ever one said that he told them he likes me but it really dose seem like it dose ask on of your friends that can kip a secret to find out how he likes but don't get to cared away with it. i did and i cried for weeks! but i hope you have really good luck and just don't let him break your heart! good luck :)
465315
The problem I see here is that you, as well as me, are the kind of person who assumes too much and is always dreading to take risks because you wouldn't like other people (=not only guys) to dislike you or reject you.  If the game is ASSUMING then why don't you assume that he is as shy as you are and he just doesn't find the way to approach you.  Get rid of assumptions!  You won't go on him and tell him... 'Hey, I like you... no wait... I like you so much that I even think I love you..."  Nahhhhh!  If it is difficult for you to talk to guys they think of him as a girl (=don't laugh I mean it)  I also went to a gilrs school but it was for 3 years and besides I have a brother, anyway, IT DOES WORK!  Any time I wanted to tell something to a guy I thought 'ok he is the same of a girl because both are people'.\n\nThe obstacle here is the fact that you like him so pretend (=just pretend) that you don't like him and that you are going to go on ANYONE else... this way you won't be so nervous and it will be easier.\n\nOnce you talk then you can think on making your movements, you'll be more confident then... you might discover that he is shy too, or that he has the same feelings for you or that he just likes you as a friend (crossed fingers that not).  \n\nIn short,\n#1 Do not assume too much.\n#2 Take the risk.\n#3 Pretend that you don't like him and go on him.\n#4 Talk with him, know him, have fun.\n#5 What other people think is not yerr business.\n\n,-)
188433
Since your best friend is good friends with him, maybe you could find ways to be around him more.  Be yourself, but make sure that you direct some comments his way!  If you two become closer friends, it will start to become more evident if you have things in common, and will be easier to transition into dating.  I hope it works out for the best!\nP.S.  I got tired of always waiting for guys to make the first move, so I started speaking out a little more, which was hard, because I'm a little shy.  But I had to make sure that they at least knew I was alive. In most cases, they did have an interest as well, which is good because it saved me the pain of rejection. Just don't throw yourself at him or act like someone you're not.
420787
If you reallly like him, then approach him and let him know.  He may really like you too, and may be too shy to make the first move.
556089
He is playing a game with you....OF COURSE HE MEANS YOU!   Listen a best friend always makes the best relationship....you know everything about each other, and you know how the please the other person....I would just straight up tell him how you feel.  What do you have to lose?  But when doing this, say "listen, lately I have really enjoyed spending more time with you than usualy and I have started to have these feelings for you, I felt you should know b/c you are a friend....and regardless I always want that first...but I do like you, and I hope that something can come out that."  GOOD LUCK GIRL!
969562
This is a very tough situation, so please handle it with care.  First thing is, does he have a girlfriend, or something that he is currently seeing?  If he does, please do not make a move because it could jeopardize your friendship completely.  Second, you say you haven't spent a lot of time together until a few months ago, why is that, if you have known him for years?  I think if you are seeing more of him recently, you should just try subtle hints and see how he reacts... ie touching his arms more, flirting a little.  If the subtle hints do not work, you can just try being honest with him.  If he is your best guy friend, he will appreciate your honesty, and will respect you for it.
1067983
i honestly do not think that you can. just cause you are so nerves around him. you make sure that each and everything that you do when he is near is done correctly. my ? is dose he know that you like him? if not that's a reason way you get that way you do. what i suggest you to do is when you are w/ him act like you are not into him. it might help a lil w/ the shyness. act like you have known him for sometime. get close but let him show you something befor you open up.
928405
Take a breath first! You gotta be honest with him asap..the longer this goes on, the more he's going to think there is something between yall that's more than friendship.. Tell him you like hanging out with him, but you like someone else..He can take it, the sooner the better..it's cool that you care so much about hurting someone's feelings..
199270
Let me tell you this. its all up to you. It's either he likes you back or he doesn't. I've been in your exact situation before. I'm female and I developed feelings for my best friend who's also a girl. one day, we were just chatting about normal stuff and i basically blurted out to her that i had feelings for her. she told me that what she felt for me was totally platonic and she didn't think of me any other way. Honestly, it killed me for a while. However, today, the relationship that the two of us have is even closer than the one we had before i told her. We didn't have any sort of awkwardness between the two of us. The only shitty thing is that I still feel for her and although I make it seem like I don't feel for her anymore, inside, I just wanna kiss her everytime she opens her mouth to speak. But I have to say that I was really lucky cuz its really rare that two people can overlook the fact that one person feels more for the other than usual. The funniest thing is that til today, my confession is still discussed between the two of us. Recently, I just asked her if it was the right thing to tell her about it in the first place. And, according to her, my confession saved our friendship. Cuz she had already suspected, but she was in denial about it, seeing that i was her best friend and all. But if i had not told her anything, she'd feel weird and eventually take a step back from the friendship.\n\nSo, whatever you do, just follow what your heart tells you to do. You could jokingly bring it up as a suggestion if you don't want to take the direct approach. See how he reacts, and if it's positive, just let it slip. Say that, you didn't really expect it to happen but it just did and you felt that you needed to let him know.\n\nGood luck though.
1154766
Join the club! You and I are in like the exact same predicament. Anyways, um, if you two are good friends, then you should just tell him that you like him. There's a chance he'll like you too. God, if only I could follow my own advice...\n\nI know what you're thinking, it's much easier said than done. But that's my best advice. And to tell you the truth, that's what most people in here are going to tell you to do. Sorry if I wasn't very helpful. Good luck!
337246
ok, first of all, awwwww!srry. had to secondly there is a very, very GOOD cance that he does like you but it's only the start of a relationship if one of you makes a move. So mabie he's just shy - you never know - ask him out! Guys like that. : )
422899
Pay attention to wat he does! if he asks u how your doing or wats Up. if he tells  you about the new things in his life pay attention it might be his way of including you! tell your best guy friend you like him and tell him to pay close attention to wat your crush says in the locker room or guy things. dont flat out sk him or tell him you like him b/c it could scare him off! spend more time with him or ask if he wants to "hang out" sometime as just the two of you. you'll knoiw if you should tell him or not!\n\nP.S. If that doesn't work walk up to him and kiss him. Then say "i just wanted to know wat it would be like" and live like there is no tomorrow!
693799
Don't worry.  He will tell you.\n\nMaybe he is a little shy and if you are too much direct will not help.\n\nBe patient, enjoy his friendship and let the things happen.
287898
I'm in the same situation. I'm thinking about just letting him come and ask me out. Do you think he likes you? Send a note if you don't think that will work then get a a trusting friend to ask him if he likes you more than a friend. I don't get the blame if it turns out wrong!!!