how do i tell my mom im leaving town to visit a guy 1000 miles away. whom i never met before?
548344
My friend is in the same situation as you are except she has college as an excuse.  In her case she is positive that the guy is what he says he is and she chose her college based on where he lives.  Keep in mind they've talked for at least 3 years online and by phone.  I'm still uneasy about letting her go there alone to see him for the first time up close and in the flesh.  You might want to consider holding off ur visit until u truly know who he is.  If u are insistent about going, then maybe you could ask a close friend to go with u as a precaution.  As for your mom, I would describe him as sort of a pen pal.
299381
Well, if you Both are serious about each other...then you Both need to set down with your mom and just talk to each other and let your mom get to know this guy and see what see thinks...if he is sincere...it will show...if he isn't...it will show also...just be careful....
319783
You need to tell your mom, that you don't appreciate her violating your trust. If she keeps this up, you will be reluctant to tell her anymore of your life.\nI don't think your Mom would like that, that's a bond that shouldn't be broken, especially for some boyfriend, who may not be around that long.\nBoyfriends can come and go, but you will be Mother and Daughter for life. Ask your Mom, what is more important to her, your trust, or her trying to please her boyfriend.\nSurely there has to be some other subject, other that your private life that they can talk about.\nIf she merely tells him of some success you may have in school or on a project, that's fine, that's just a Mom's pride in her daughter.\nYour private life should be out of bounds. Ask her  how she would feel, if you did the same to her, by telling all your friends about her private life.
909727
Tell him that you missed him so much during aftermath of your mom's death. Tell him that you want him badly and you love him
6995
ok i found ur guy, now this is what ill do for u im gonna email him a link to this through .mil email, then he can come see who is looking for him.
559669
let's do the math...5 hours going there, 5 hours coming back: you are going to spend 10 hours on the road, plus time to get ready, plus prom-time..  Can you spend that much time on the road?  It takes about that long to fly across the ocean!!  If you think he's worth it, and if you think he will keep you safe and protected and KEEP YOU COMPANY for every minute of those rides [both ways] then think about it-you know this guy pretty well, right?  You don't want to be stuck in the middle of nowhere if he changes on you all of a sudden-and that can happen-think about it well, ask your parents and make sure you dont go alone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
412522
My boyfreind had to move 2300 miles away.  Whay I did was send him a card once a week so he had something to look forward to besides bills! I also spoke via messenger.  Little things in life are big!\nGood luck
261733
i usually tell them there's a "responsible" adult there and give them their phone number. bring some of my friends home to get to know my mom. just don't do anything that would get you in major trouble...trust me!
1131817
Ok, my girlfriend and I are going through the exact same thing. Just keep seeing the guy. Talk to your mom about it. Make her understand that while you understand her and respect her opinion, that this is the guy you love, and then ask her if her parents had told her to stop seeing your father if she would have... That worked when I talked to MY gf parents. \n\nBest of Luck
652241
try to find nice things that your mom loves in Italy and tel her about, try to convince her without pushing and being so needy cause i think that if she felt like you are dying to go there she may suspect it and prevent you from going, tell her that you won't be happy in lancaster and that every mom loves to see her child happy which you won't be if you didn't go to italy , i hope you can go there , i really wish you can go there , please keep me posted --> Nancy
740825
I think that you should ask your mother if you can go on a chaporoned date. Have her come along and meet the guy. She might change her mind on your being able to date.
622315
Hon there was nothing you could do,  his mom moved he had to go with her so it is better that you be free than try to hold on to a doomed long distance relationship.  Dry your eyes get a drink of cold water and start making plans to make you happy as you go on with your life.  He moved and that is that.  Don't waste any more precious time over this.
555287
He may live 5-10 miles away, but with summer coming up and everyone being out and about shopping, etc, I dare say that the two of you will be more than capable of finding MANY ways to have time together! If you don't ask him, you will be kicking yourself all summer, wondering the what if's. ASK HIM, instead of presuming the worst. Ask him for his phone number, or give him yours, and let him know that you want him to call. Give him your e-mail addy, and he can write you from the library if nothing else. There is ALWAYS a way to get together and find time to talk or hang out. Start with a good friendship and let it grow from there, or just ask him out and jump in with both feet. It's only too late when you pause, and another girl takes him away from you.....  Good luck!
1121502
Perhaps you could ask her indirectly. Carefully crafted words are the key here to achieving your desired goal.....having a boyfriend. Okay, step 1) find a time when you and your mother are relaxing, no phones, dinner is finished, house is clean. 2) Begin the conversation like this: "You know Mom, I am now ___ years old, and I was wondering if you would allow me to go to the movies with _____________. I know you have not had an opportunity to meet ________, but I can invite him by the house on _________. He is a really nice guy. Now, if you do not have a boyfriend, and no prospects, then I would suggest that you address your mother in this manner: Mom, I have really matured over the last year and I would like to respectfully request permission from you to go on a date occassionally with a carefully selected boy that I will bring home first for you to meet.  Don't be shy about it. Be assertive, without being pushy. Tell her what your heart desires, and do it in a kind, courteous, confident and mature manner. The way you approach this request to have a boyfriend is important. You have to let your mother know that you are ready for this big step in your young teenage life. \nNow, be honest in your evaluation of yourself here okay? Think! Really think here! And answer my question truthfully! Question: Have you been on your best behavior over the last year? Have you done everything that has been asked of you by your mother? Have you gotten into any serious trouble lately? Did you make good grades and behave appropriately in school? These questions are important, because if you have been cutting up and acting like a trifling little hoochie mama, it is highly likely that your mother will say no. But if you have been a perfect angel, and behaved appropriately over the last year, then I dont see any reason that your mother will not agree to your terms. Also, let her know that any boy you meet, you will bring them home to meet her, and your curfew is 9p.m. weeknights and 10:30 on weekends. Or, if your curfew is later than this, use your current curfew. Well, I hope this helps. Best wishes to you. And have fun.
78033
well it might seem strange at first wen you want to tell them but u just cant find the words but what u can do is take your mom far away from your dad and just say "mom i'm not a liltle girl any more i'm your lilttle lady"thats what i did and she understood me.im 12 to.
618894
ARE YOU AN ADULT... JUST BE UPFRONT WITH YOUR MOTHER, TELL HER ABOUT YOUR BOYFRIEND THEN TELL HER THAT YOU WOULD LIKE HER TO MEET HIM THAT HE IS A GOOD GUY.  HIDE HIM AND IT'S GOING TO MAKE IT LOOK AS IF YOU ARE ASHAMED OF HIM
677512
take her out somewhere. im 15 too and if my bf lived far away from me, the thing i would most want is to see him. you can also bring her somthing cute, like flowers. (or ask her what she wants)