What would you do if you were in a different country with no friends, no job and your wife works for her dad?
540998
you need to leave the country to somewhere you can actually do something. it'll be a fresh start, a new chance. at the rate you're going, not only will stress and depression affect that relationship, so will the added burden of complexes. an idle mind is a devil's workshop. migrate - take your wife to somewhere you both can live in happily, because wherever you are is obviously not the right atmosphere
90668
i'd go home. losing a long friendship is bad. believe me.
667861
If I'm understanding you correctly, your friend is abroad (out of the country) and his wife isn't happy.  Maintaining a long-distance relationship takes a lot of commitment and it doesn't always work out.  What part of the relationship doesn't she understand?  It would help to have more info about the situation.
653511
I think you should possibly consider leaving the country.  The heat is on now.   But seriously, don't sweat it.  Face up to it and don't make a habit of it.  It'll all work itself out.
298731
Find yourself a job there. Or a wife/husband for that matter. After that, it's piece of cake.
208301
Travel for a bit. Maybe get a job abroad, nothing too serious for a while and it will help you decide and get ready for a new challenge when you return home.
937716
Maybe you should go over there and be with her instead, slick.\nLegally or Illegally\n\nIs your work more important than your relationship?
439698
either move to usa or have her move to uk or get a divorce.
301306
Well, I'm not going to lie and say it's easy, but when I was 31 I was just getting divorced from my first wife, and dating a girl I met in a Burger King (of allplaces) for a while. That relationship ended kind of mutually.\n\nThen I met my current wife online. And here I am. By the way, did I mention that this marriage involved emigrating from England?\n\nAnyway, I didn't rest on my laurels for one minute. As soon as I was free and clear from wife #1 I was out every weekend going to my favorite club and meeting people all the time. I  just relaxed and had fun. It's true that when you try too hard it kind of shows and I guess it's offputting to some extent. In both cases, the girl and my wife, I wasn't trying at all. It just came to me.\n\nI suggest finding a few night spots that you like. Go with friends or go alone, it's all the same. Just enjoy yourself and someone will just show up and change your life.
592062
Your just a greedy bastard i'm surprised her family allowed you to marry her poor girl,best thing you can do is let her go home to her parents,how old is she anyway? Get a life and give this girl back hers
258262
Tell him you need alone time with your wife  since you don't get to see her much with working all day long.
814779
Unless you make a boat load of money you cant. make her get a good job. My dad has been supporting his gf and her kids for years and he doesnt make much. It had definatly affected what me and my sisters could and couldnt have. My dad was always stressed out and it affected the raltionship us girls had with her becuase we knew she was the reason we didnt have nicer things. If there is some reason she cant get a better job or doenst work thats a little diffrent. But dont support her completly because then she wont know what responibility is.
1039929
No honey. Get the child's dad to look after him at night and go to College, University, and get some decent cash. That's what my wife did and now Im doing it too.\n\nGood luck.
116984
hello what i would do is catch up on some family time like your mom dad gramma children me i love to clean my home also work at my job 8 hrs then i would tire myself out and go to sleep make time go fast i have done this alot it works for me then reuniting will be gloriouse
553203
Maybe you could slow down on the working part of your life and commit more time to your Very Beautiful wife.....who seems to devote her life to you all day!!! Let her know how much you appreciate her....maybe send her on a little weekend getaway to a spa all by herself so she knows what it's like to not have to be home taking care of eveyone all the time....and so you can have some appreciation for what she does!!! I bet she would love that...or get a babysitter and take a little trip together, somewhere romantic!! Have fun....and treat her like the princess she is...sounds like she treat you like a prince!
551691
find out where they moved. Form a family. Be part of them as much as possible to make up for lost time.
331412
But - if you have no money, and nobody in the US to sponsor you - how are you going to support yourself?  You will need to pay rent, food, etc., etc. just to name a few basics.  Suppose you can always marry a rich American .. :)