guys, what would u think bout sleeping with a virgin? would you think it's pathetic, n till what age?
548401
no I personaly think they like to be the 1st ones
728356
I dunno. I think it's gross personally. i'm only 15 myself and I'm proud to say I'm still a virgin. I think alot of young girls are just taken advantage of by older guys, silly kids.
743562
You didn't lose it hon, you gave it away.  Should've really thought about it!\n\nYou need to get over it though, because hating yourself wont' maek you a virgin again...\n\n*laughs*
1137368
Never lie! It's not a good way to start a relationship. The man will respect her more if he knows shes untouched! Not only that, she should be proud to be a virgin!!!
749136
There are plenty of people your age and beyond who haven't had sexual intercourse. I didn't have intercourse until I was 23. It's nothing to feel bad about just because society might say it's 'different.'\n\nYes, it can be a very beautiful thing between 2 people who love one another, but only if you're ready for it. The worst thing would be to do something you're not ready for just because someone else says you should.\n\nBe true to your own needs, and you won't have to worry about it. I think the fact that I waited instead of giving in to peer pressure, enabled me to enjoy it, where if I hadn't waited, it might've turned out to be something traumatizing that I wouldn't have wanted to do again.\n\nAs far as a therapist, I wouldn't suggest it now unless it's something you can't stop thinking about. After you're not a virgin anymore, see what happens. If you've been doing it for a while and if you still feel really bad, then I'd think about talking with a therapist.\n\nSo my advice is not to worry about it. You've got plenty of time, and when you're ready for it, it'll happen the right way.\n\n________
1186458
There is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 18.  Sex is not something that should be taken lightly.  Tell her that she shouldn't have sex until she's ready and that if some guy cant' accept that, he's not worth it.
243421
I guess I would be sure she understood that there is nothing wrong with being a virgin, especially while you're still in school.  I would tell her that waiting for the right time with the right person is more important than anything, and that those that are making fun of her don't understand that.  I would tell her that having sex doesn't make you grown-up or cool or hip.  It can make you pregnant, or infected with disease, or at the very least nothing more than a notch on some immature boy's belt.\n\nI would suggest to her that the way to stop the harrassment is to stop being ashamed of being a virgin.  The next time someone said something about it I would tell her to say that she's proud she's a virgin.  I'd tell her to say it's far too important to just give away to anybody.  I would tell her to say that being a virgin beats being a sl*t any day of the week, and that being a virgin makes her more appealing to boys because they know she's not easy.
385129
No. I'm not a virgin. I lost my virginity at 15. It was not a good experience. I was with someone I loved, someone I'm still with to this day (over a year later). But I wasn't ready. In truth, I didn't really know what was happening until it was too late. Don't get me wrong, I knew what sex was. I just didn't know we were going to have it. Lol. I felt pressured. He was 18 and extremely experienced. And when I say extremely, I mean he'd been with 33 girls before me. I also didn't like the WAY it happened. There were no candles, no soft music. Just a movie playing. And it was rushed and tense because my grandparents were in the other room. So if you're thinking about having sex for the first time, loving the person's not the only thing you have to worry about. Make sure you're completely comfortable with the idea. Make sure you're alone and you use protection. (Which I didn't.) Plan ahead of time. And make it special. Remember, you only get one first time.
118304
Boys are not virgins; that's a girl thing.  I know there is a movie out now about a "40 Year Old Virgin," who is a male.  But that's BS.  That's a distortion of the definition of virgin.  And no, it should not hurt, unless perhaps you are speaking of gay men.
415863
Dont listen to people who say virgins dont excised. I am one so yes they still exist. I am one by choice. I dont want to be labeled as a whore. Look for the ones that carry themselves different form other girls. Some may come off more reserved and shy or some are more coverd up. In other words have class.
236553
As a woman, I really do not think that a guy should mind!  Did anyone ask if you boyfriend is not a virgin, do you mind?
454795
since i was raped i got no reason to say i am still a virgin.  i have had sex for the longest of time.  but for the past year that has changed and waiting for that special person.  cause for some odd reason i am very single.  hope she understands where i am coming from once we meet.
792500
It's normal and healthy to be a virgin at the age of 11. Kids on school buses always tease younger kids, and this is apparently the best they can do - obviously there's nothing else about you that they can tease you with.\n\nAnd yes it's normal to start thinking about sex at your age and to have sexual thoughts and feelings. It doesn't mean you act on those feelings. \n\nWhat if someone asks you for sex? You say NO, I am only 11! \n\nHolding hands or getting a kiss on the cheek should be a big deal at your age. There is no way that you can be ready for sex at 11.
307395
Sad, all i can say is you shouldnt have given your virginty to someone like that... you can either love him forever with no commitment or move on \nand i say move on cause he may not be commitment type\nits morally wrong to take a gals virginity and just not want her\nsorry to say honey\nbut i think you were fed a line and i dont think you love him he's just all you know move on... i said move on not sleep on with everyone else\nGooD LucK
653303
Trying to relive his youth... Needs to try to find someone his own age -- maybe he still thinks he's only 19-25.  If he's looking for virgins he's not going to find many according to the filth I read on this web site from time to time (and report).
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As a 33yr old male, I remember being very disappointed at the age of 15, when I lost my virginity.\n\nThe peer pressure from friends, making out it was the best thing since the Sega mega drive (Hey I was 15 at the time), the newspaper problem pages, TV and Film industries, all lead me to believe that it was going to an absolutely mind blowing experience.\n\nAnd when it was done, using protection, with my steady girlfriend (also a virgin) I was like, what? That's it? \n\nIt was the build up I found to more exciting, the thrill of the hunt, teasing, trying my best to reach the prize.\n\nSince then I have had many more experiences and found that with experience it does get better, a lot better when in a loving relationship with an experienced partner with similar likes and dislikes in the bedroom. \n\nBut sex is still not the be all and end all of a relationship, the ability to communicate and be best friends is far more valuable then being joined at the hip.\n\nHope this helps.\n\nPlease remember to use adequate protection whilst experimenting, and not loose your virginity to some idiotic loser who is going to run bragging to all his mates. Make him respect you first by holding out until you feel the time is right, don't be forced.
544867
I'm a virgin and you're not? just a guess haha