I like this girl at work who already has a boyfriend, should I make a move?
553056
maybe if you play the keyboard in the same fashion as marilyn mansons key board player she'd really take notice. or maybe just some salsa music :)\n\non another note, maybe just lose the "intention", go ahead and ask her, enjoy her as a friend and if she becomes available then that was her doing..
150024
Well does she like things you like...you need good chemistry. Also you must like her attitude and how she acts. If you like her for who he is inside then she may be the one. But then you have to see if she feels the same way.
356097
She probably doesn't like you as much as she likes your attention.  I'm sure she knows you like her, and she likes feeling attractive around you, which is why she flirts with you.  Given that she probably knows you like her, you should take it as a hint that she doesn't want to leave her boyfriend for you.  The best thing you can do is ignore her - she'll stop leading you on and you con focus your attentions on a more deserving person!!
823986
If your new wait a while to see if she acts that way towards u again... if she does put her in her place especially if she just your co-worker and not your supervisor!!!! don't cry to management yet they may see this as a sign of weakness and let you go!!!
612865
I am in a similar situation. I like a girl at work, and she likes someone else, as I am pretty ugly, short, (5-7), and have nothingf she wants, (tall, good looking, etc.)\n\nYou need to take him aside and explain the TRUTH. It will hurt for a while, but If he really likes you as a person, he might shy away for a while, but then when the pain wears off a little he'll be your friend. The girl I like will not talk to me anymore, because when I talk to her, she thinks I am just trying to get in her pants, so to speak, and won't have any of it. Please do not string this guy along anymore. BE HONEST!
769945
It sounds good to me. I would only do it if I KNEW she liked me, though. I almost did a similar thing with this guy I like, but I changed my mind because I wasn't sure how he felt. BE CAREFUL, and plan what you'll do if she doesn't respond the way you want her to!
797371
It depends on how far gone you are.  If you didn't have the guts to even talk to her till this night, then she may not be the girl you think she is.  Don't give up a job for this girl.  It may not work out.  On the other hand, if the job is just a relocation, and not an advancement in your career, what's the real harm in staying?\nIf this girl is really for you, she will be there when you get back.\nHave faith.
394293
It depends on the role you would be playing out...\nIf you are playing out the employee you rather don't.  It is never good to get job and personal relationship mixed.\n\nIf you get on well beyond the ties of work... you could find the way.  \n\n'A crush'= well, it seems you really like her but since you describe it precisely as 'a crush' it seem this wouldn't last at all.\n\nI wouldn't like my ex to be my boss... neither my employee to by my ex... If you think it worths the pain go on... but if this won't last you might set off your worker role as the prior...
354967
If she seems to be talking to you a lot,even about little things,she likes you.But if she's touching you in subtle ways,playing with her hair,blushing all the time,she wants to see you outside of work.Talk to her about what she has planned after work and see if mabye she wants to get a bite.
824421
SHE LIKES YOU...go for it
92743
I would say, don't make the first move.  You could friendly flirt and see where things go, but don't make this hugely bold move that could cost him his job.  On a professional level,  you do still have to take his career into consideration.  Furthermore, what if things go on between you two and you end up with a crappy grade anyway...that'd make things a wee bit odd between the two of you.  good luck with this one!
358496
she might be like you and alittle afriad and shy thats why she said she had a boyfriend  just like you said no you didn't send the flowers  but you did and she ended up giving you her #??? even if she does have a boyfriend if they don'y have kids i would say call her and go from there just as friends respect her relationship but the fact that she gave the # shows she does want to talk to   plus you won't ever know how she feels if you dont talk to her she must like you i wouldn't give my phone # to someone if i didn't want him to call! the answer is simply she probably wants to talk to you outside of work so she can tell you how she feels good or bad  but i don't think it's bad.
295794
You don't.  If she's still with her boyfriend, she's probably not really into you.  You're just fooling yourself.
912080
You better be really sure he likes you too, or you could lose your job.  Most guys would be flattered regardless of how they felt and would probably not report you to your manager if you tried, but you have to decide if the risk is worth it.
185085
well. u can't really make assumptions based on how nice he is to you. he HAS to be nice since he's your coworker. and alsol being friends might be plenty good enough for him. but, perhaps you are right, let him make the first move. be nice, but don't overdo it.
993025
She could be interested in you or maybe shes just being friendly. Find out if she has a boyfriend, and if she doesn't, ask her out on a date, maybe to a nice restaurant, or a sappy movie maybe, find out what she likes to do for fun and see if that sounds okay and ask her to do that.
225142
Yeah why not.  You have nothing to lose.  If she likes you she'll let you know right then and there if she'll go out with you.