Why do people fall in love?Is it bcuz they are lonely or sex,money?
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Simple. It is sex, always sex, always will be sex. If you are lonely you can join a club, take classes do thousands of things where you are interacting with people. Most people here with "Am I in love" questions etc. Are not doing so to get rich. A girl will want be boned down by a pretty boy, or thuggish clod, even if he is as broke as the flea that rode in on the church mouse. People desire and crave falling in love because they are delusional and don't want to seem solely in it for the sex. But what do they do when the sex is bad? Flee the relationship. They don't desire physical contact in the form of wrestling or boxing. they want copulation. If there were no sex between men and women, 82% of the male/female couples you would never see.
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There is no such thing (to me) as falling in love.  You are first attracted to a person but you need to take the time to get to know them from the inside out. That takes time. Years even.  A lot of time when people are building a relationship based on some foundations of trust, loyalty, honesty, likenesses, etc. love follows.  When you say you love someone, if you truly know the meaning - Read ! Corinthians 13.  It explains love like nothing else.
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There will always be a portion of me that is still attracted to my first love.  For some wierd reason, it's the purity of the feeling and it's new encounter.  It's like remembering your first kiss or a first lay.  You will remember it.  Why?!  When you first love someone, there's no bagging to bring you down.  It's all pure and new.  These days, before I can fall in love, I'm burdened by lots of factors.
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Money can't buy you happiness or love....  Only one's true beauty within can give you those things.....\nMoney just takes care of the material things which can always be replaced.  But someone's love never can't....\n\nDon't let anyone else tell you otherwise.
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The reasons why people fall in love are varied. Some talked about chemical attraction (pheromones), and apparently it plays a great part in it. Of course, there's also the physical attraction, and that's more linked to what people called "lust". \n\nI take it that you can make the distinction between going out with someone, and loving someone.  Also, I'm only going to consider that the two persons involved are not commitment phobics.\n\nWhen people fall in love, they unconsciously tend to notice only the good things about their partner. Also, they tend to do more things for their partner. So that when the passion goes away and you get into a routine, you notice all the "shortcomings" of the other. Sometimes, it works out, but sometimes, you realise that you'll never be able to live with this person.\n\nEven if you don't mind the other's shortcomings, routine can be difficult to avoid. It can be difficult to keep love alive when you share everything with someone. Also, in a relationship, you are bound to compromise at some point - if you want to stay with that person, that is. \n\nThere's a book called "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" (it's a best-seller) and, although he could have summed up his ideas in 15 pages, I think it's a good book to read to understand how men and women think. Sometimes, you really want your relationship to work, but you don't know how to do it because you don't understand the other. Communication is VERY important in a relationship, but even if you try to communicate, you might be doing it the wrong way. I'm not saying this book has THE answer (everybody's different), but I think it's a good way to understand why couples fight for apparently no reason. \n\nI think that before people get married, they should go out for a while, then live together for a while, and see if they can handle their problems. \n\nPS: of course, sometimes, love just fades away.
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love is a lovable feeling for lovers......my advice is dont fall in love.......it hurts u a lot........
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love is more than sex.  Do blind people love..?  love is a deep concern for another human,(since you mentioned persons).  It causes the heart of man to seek and perform what is good and best for another.  Love is patient, kind, gentle, patient, is not jealous, does not keep count of someone mistakes, does not envy, is not easily provoked, and is gentle.  Love is good.... Believe in Love.  Practice love... Love is a constant choice..
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When you fall in love with someone that is not meant for you, it can be like a nightmare; especially when you are only with them because of looks.  However, when you are with the right person, most of the time it will feel like a story book.  But remember, love is work! It will not be all fun and games and everything will not be perfect.  Be willing to work if you want to fall in love.
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cause there is no school that teaches how to fall in love with the right person. so like everything else we need to learn from our own experience. we try to find the right person, and in the process we end up falling in love with no so right people.\nit is important to make one more point here. many times people fall in love with you but you don't find them attractive and move on, and they end up suffering, then when you like someone and fall in love, you see the same thing happens to you, this process continues until finally, you find someone to love and in return the other person loves you back and that would be the perfect match. unfortunatly, most people don't have that much patience to go through their experiences and end up making wrong choices just because they are "tired of trying" and end up in the wrong relationship. so the point, you will be fine just have patience and enjoy the experience
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Hi, i hope you are having a better day today! Not all women look for money or looks. Most are looking for true love and concern, they want someone who will love, respect and treat them tenderly them for who they are. What touches us most isnt sex, it is true emotions and feelings. \n\nBut i understand how you feel when you get disappointed in love. I spent the last 5+ years loving someone wholeheartedly and now he says he's lost the feelings for me. But i still believe in love and finding it. I am overweight too but i try to keep myself happy and positive and going out to do what i want, so i am in control of my life. Love yourself first... you've probably heard that one before... but there is some truth in it. Take heart! Don't give up! :)
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You just cant You fall in love with people for different reasons, I know that looks are what people first see but you fall in love more with the personality if you really think about it. I have dated Some hot men but they are all jerks and have bad personalities as i got older for me just looks weren't enough i want to be treated with respect i tired to find both but there is NO SUCH THING so you find someone that looks OK but the personalty is the key
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love and sex are 2 different but so related things. Love is that feeling which drives you to care for a person you don't know much (usually of the opposite sex), while sex is the tool used for expressing it. Although some people can buy sex, I can say that they miss a lot of it. It's like as if you're expressing something that is not there. Thats why 'those' people keep buying sex every now and then. For they are not satisfied... Simply because love is not there...
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Falling in love happens so smoothly, its when youre just getting to know each other and you love all those lil things she/he does for you,  The once you ahve been in love fo r along time, all that wears off, adn its about maintaining that love and keeping things fresh, which is hard.  You fall into ruts adn do the same things and its gets old.  Its hard work, but well worth teh reward, to know you have someone in your life who would do anything for you and wants to sepnd teh rest of their life with you.  (If you couldnt tell, im still in love!)
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When you fall in love with someone. you fall in love with everything in his life. You cannot ask them to give up there children. \nMy last girlfriends daughter hated me. I accepted that and yet still loved her. I cared for her child even tho the child seamed like a brat at times. \nChildren deserve all the love we can give them. No matter what there problems are.
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Everyone out there loves something. How much do they love,  depends on the object or person or place. You can deny it but you are wrong, most poeple love money it makes them happy. People love sex it pleasures them. You can love tv it entertains you. So I think everyone believes in love no matter what.
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Yes love is an intense connection we feel with other people.  You can definately lose that connection for vatious reasons, and find love in another for again another varoius reasons.
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Because there are too many slips. So everyone should fall in love carefully so that he/she can maintain the relationship for long.