my friend has sexual intercourse with guys everyday...especially her cousins....and shes 11 what do i do?
535027
Are you sure that this is not her job. My advice is:\n\nRUN FROM HER AS FAST AS YOU CAN AND DON'T TURN BACK.
1103707
tell the police or her parents. it's soo wrong\n\n(p.s.) pOOhPhAT : she won't get pregnant 'cause she is only 10.. but she will have alot of problems that i don't want to mention..
612700
You cannot force your sexuality onto someone else...they will resent it even though under other circumstances they might be amenable.  You have to discuss it with her, apologize for what you did, and, if she forgives you, than ask if she might be interested.
746930
I once hooked up with my cousin, but she was distant like 7th cousins. she was hot though and we promised never to tell anyone. She is hot though. But yeah I think that you have some serious issues. One of them is incest. But if you must marry her come to the States and you can marry her in Las Vegas.
691847
Your uncle is what is called a seductionist pediophile. He victemized you. No child at the age of six has a sexual preference either way and would naturally be attracted to same sex playmates such as other boys...just as girls would gravitate toward other girls though opposite sex playmates do well together too...the issue is that children, unless introduced by visual or physical stimulous are completely unaware of the sexual biology of the body. The hormons, the genital development and the general knowledge of the purpose of those genitalia are NOT previlant. The truth is that you associate sexual pleasure and your sexuality with what your uncle did and said to you. He was an authority figure and in turn blamed you for his gross misconduct in violating for several years a young child and a member of his own family. If the sick bastard is still around I would expose him for what he is so he cannot victemize any other children and also press charges. As well, you should seek couceling further so that you can begin to heal inwardly and come to the understanding you cannot be responsible for the abuse you suffered. Sorry to get on my soap box about this but this is what I do for a living as a social worker..or did until I had children of my own and am now home with them..by which..because of all the material I've studied..my children get babysat by NO ONE else but me and their father. EVER! God bless you. Please get help. Love in Christ, ~J~  <>< P.S. God made you perfect and whole as He intended you at your birth. You were a child influenced and conditioned by the very people that should have been there to protect and nurture you. God loves you and understands..seek Him and He will guide and direct your paths beyond this circumstance and you will be better for it. Pray and study the Bible. Healing in abundance just right there.
502442
leave it and dont dig up potential trouble for yourself - you are a grown woman (i think ) and don't have to answer to her who you have sex with she aint your mum
504849
Their sexual preferences doesn't change who they are or the fact that they are your sisters.  Treat them like you always have and don't worry about it.
1154493
tell her that 14 is way to young and it is a big choice to make tell her of all the negatives that can come pregnancy std's and make sure u watch him a 16 yr old boy i a walking hormone
539293
HI, \nIf the niece is 18 there is really nothing u can do about it, because unfortunately it is not illegal to have sex with family members unless they are a minor (under 18) . If the niece is under age then you can call your local police department and they will tell u what to do from there. Usually Child welfare will get involved. If this is the case please don't keep it quiet this kid can be rescued from a really bad situation!!!!   Good Luck!!
845421
If you are going to use a girl for casual sex, then be up front about it.  Having a relationship with her for several years, developing a friendship with the family, is a good way to start a good relationship.  Trust issues are not a problem because you have already developed trust with her.  Chances are she had a major crush on you.  Now you want to take that relationship and shit on it..  And you wonder why girls get so upset with guys.
636333
let their relationship alone.  if you go after this guy, you might end up with no one.  if you and your cousin are best of friends, how can you even think about ruining that relationship. guys will come in and out of your life, but good friends are hard to find, especially if you are related to this person.  they will be there always. she will fell so hurt, betrayed.  think about what you have to lose in this decision.
271149
You have to take her aside and ask her with all seriousness, is she in a relationship? Did she do anything she should be telling you?\n\nIf she says no - I know it will be hard, but you have to confront her. Set down some ground rules - no having sex until she is old and mature enough to manage a relationship.\nHer education and her health is the most important thing.\n\nYou have to question her, Why did she have sex? Did she felt pressured? Did the guy force her to do so? Did he manipulate her? (If you dont have sex with me means you don't love me, said by many cheap guys who want free sex).\n\nYou have to teach your daughter to respect herself and encourage her to reject guys who are after an easy victim to let out his sexual lust.\nMaybe she's been having some problems in school. Peer pressure is a very big thing. Have you been focusing on your daughter enough?\n\nI really sympathize with you, because if I were in your position I would be terribly hurt and at a loss of what to do. \nBut you have to be strong, sit your daughter down and talk to her. Tell her she's too young to be having sexual relationships with boys. At this age, all boys want is a girl, an easy victim he can sexually experiment on.\nThat's why if I were you, I'd never let my daughter be some boy's "experiment" She's worth so much more than that, she deserves a boy who will appreciate her and not use her for sexual release.\nRight now you have to be firm with her. Children needs guidance. The whole "I'm your friend" thing - it works, but don't forget you're her mother too and you MUST lay down strict ground rules for you child and monitor her activities more.\nI'm sorry you had to see that.\n\n\nJenova\n(d.yuffie@gmail.com)
140328
tell her that its not right its disgusting and to get away from him and if it gets really bad get a older guy that she knows around his age to kick his *** or go to the police to get a restraining order its really important and its not freakin cute either so tell her as soon as possible this is not a thing to take as a joke many girls have this problem and they don't have the time or rather the chance to do this so get major help b.c girls die every day from being raped b.c after hes done shes finished and plus HES DRUNK  GOD ONLY KNOWS WHAT HE CAN DO.
878678
WOW... My friend does this too! Alot. She meets them on myspace, talks to them for a few days on the phone and on myspace and then HOOKS UP with them the first night she meets them. Its her lifestyle and I have no desire to judge her or anything. So I dont say anything. She uses condoms and even tho I KNOW its not healthy and is dangerous. Its NOT my decision. So I suggest not saying anything. Or if you choose to, just simply say that YOU could never do that, because you've heard so many horror stories about people getting raped when meeting people online. Explain to her YOUR PERSONAL reasons why you would never do it. Good luck
76866
well, does her parents know that? Tell her parents then. They'll know what to do. Or tell your parents. C'mon, it's your friend's safety. She might get mad at you guys, but it's for her own good and you guys need do something.
1007488
Well if your cousin is of legal age and beyond the age of consent she is free to pick her own boyfriends so to keep from sounding ignorant its probably best for you to say nothing at all.
403236
talk 2 ur friend ....tell her she's invading ur private space n she 's no right 2 do so...being frnd doesn't mean behaving anyway at others cost,,,make that female realize this ......n by the way if that boy asks u take ur time fetch information abt him, he's nice or not...if there r rumours doesn't mean u got 2 say yes ...if the guy is reallly nice than i suppose i don't have 2 tell u .what u should\n:-)                                         life is cool .rock'n