what can i do to help my b/f maintain his erection for longer, so that we can have sex longer?
550402
play longer with him before making love and encourage him to stop taking too much of sugar as i learnt that it weakens erection and also, encourage him to take some herbs and learn his G.spot it might help.
181233
You can't. And I would imagine he's not very much fun in bed either. Tell him to go see a doctor.
53435
Either have a lot of sex, or mastur bate a lot. Maybe a cold shower might work. But if you have a stiff erection, there's a reason, satisfy it!
650743
pumps (omg the penis is bigger after being pumped lmao yeah he just lost wood of course it is) and pills are all a gag... surgery is expensive as hell and you cannot have sex afterward for like 6-12mo and risk being impotent for the rest of your life if they slip up and even then risk getting the porn cock that sticks out limp.\nVitamin B and zinc improve bloodflow and you can try kegel exercises (flexing for 5 count and realeasing for a 5 count repeating) for 5 min a few times a day
403701
Buy some videos on techniques, like giving a better bj.  Preview it and see what you think, but the idea is actually to watch it with him to practice.  He will love the idea that you want to try and the visual stimulation more than your technique improvement I bet!  There are some good videos out there on numerous exciting topics for couples.
964552
Sex will be a little harsher, and he may have trouble reaching a climax. But if he had to have it done and you love him, you'll get over it. Try not to let him know how much better it used to be, because he can't get it back, and it'll just make him feel awful. You'll get used to it after a while. \n\nOn the other hand, if he was uncomfortable before because of his medical problem, it should be better for both of you now. WARNING: You must avoid making him get erections until the area is completely healed - probably at least a month. Getting aroused will hurt terribly - so hands off for now!
832664
So no problem; next time you two go for it , get him off ahead of time. Give him a few minutes to get it back up then ride him until he cums.  That way he can get off twice, and so can you, maybe!
511860
Talk to his doctor , his diabetic meds can be changed if you tall him the problem you have been having . As for as his erection do you help him ? You can give him oral or hand to get his penis hard enough to penetrate you . A man doesn't have to have a full erection to ejaculate . Can your husband get an erection through masturbation ? My advice is to please work with him , you sound like you care very much , talk to his doctor first . Good luck there is help , Patrick
68192
Switch up positions and I mean often. Time it takes between switching will slow his motor down and maybe even yours but you got to becareful and watch how hard or fast he is pumping you make him go slow from the get go. Find that position that works best for you and not for him. Dont be afraid to go oral or even stroke the guy off while switching up those positions. The is also this toy that you can buy that will wrap around his testicles and penis that will make a man stay harder longer but you gotta keep him hard while your slapping this thing on him. Freaked me out first time I saw it I was like"What you wanna put that on my jewels oh hell nahhhh!" But it was alright...works great when you have had to much to drink and just need alittle help keepin "rocky" in the fight. All in all switch em up is the key to success!
361229
think about something else during sex..usually u can prolong your erection longer than usual....normal people have sex 3times a week..but if u competence enough, u can do it 6 times in a day;-)
1048304
try a supplement called horny goat weed,you can get it in health shops,its  herbal tablets and can be taken by guys or girls,you can take them everyday about an hour before sexual activity.\nget your partner(if you have one) to dress up and look sexy.\nhave you ever tryed kamagra?(generic viagra),you can get it of the internet, it works wonders and keeps you up for hours,but you have to be sexuly excited.some guys say they dont need it,but ask yourself this can you have sucessfull sex for aleast 3 hours+\nwithout losing your erection?? if u havent already tryed these get of your computer and get out there and stock up
1180084
Try cuddling up to him after sex and telling him how good it was for you. Maybe he is going quiet because he has lost his confidence, it happens to all blokes sometimes. Just give his confidence a boost and see if that helps.
840137
He needs to get more comfortable with you. try talkin to him. Better yet, when you are together just kiss him or massage his ego a bit by telling him how sexy he is.
300235
If he won't let you get a toy, tell him that you are having some slight back pain and could you get a wand massager (the kind that plugs in).  Get the Hitachi Magic Wand Massager and when he is around use it for your back.  When he isn't around, use it to get off.  My wife can have an 0rgasm in under a minute with this thing, it is so strong.  And she keeps really, really happy with it.  \n\nOr just really tell him how you feel and that it isn't cheating, just that he never gets you off but he gets to have his 0rgasms, so it is very unfair.  Just tell him you'd like one small di1do, or a magic bullet, or the wand massager I mentioned above.  \n\nI wish my wife could be more horny like you, she never really wants sex with me, even before I got her toys.  I want it several times a day.  Such is life, eh?  And we are 28 too.
791786
Why can't you approach him? Has he lost his libido? if so you have to talk if you don't explain to him how you feel and that if he doesn't talk to you about it he may lose you to someone else.if he loves you he will talk. Masterbation works for some and not for others..invest in a vibrator (if you haven't already) and some naughty mags/ vids (honestly they help) and try that way, it won't go away and soon you will begin to feel resentful...best thing to do is talk and perhaps dress in something 'WOW' so he'll sit up and take notice if he doens't  something's going on...perhaps he feels he's not good enough etc....you gotta talk Good luck
1022889
If you're really concerned about it, suggest to him that you spend a few weeks without it... to build the excitement.  Tell him while you're not having sex, you can get into other things in your relationship... whatever suits you guys.  You could just hang out and play games (cards, board games, etc) and talk/snuggle.  You could go to amusement parks or go hiking.  You could go to museums, go to church... just whatever it is that fits you guys.  If you all can make it through that comfortably, and you actually CAN fill your time without sex... then I think you might be alright.  =)
285081
Just try to do more things together that dont envolve sex, maybe something will spark and ingnite his passion again. It's not an uncommon thing for guys to not want sex that often. Check out www.psychologytoday.com they have a lot of articles about this topic there. good luck to you!