Has anyone ever went against their mother to keep peace in ur marriage?
542456
Stick ur gut. it's ur life.
931558
I have one here. My father had an affair with his secretary and even picked her up to and fro from work in his car..he even asked me to call her mum..i declined of course. But I still claimed that I have a very happy family in front of my classmates..especially when my mother is crying practically every night and on one saturday i remembered i heard the sound of glass smashing from the kitchen. When I came out,my father disappeared and my mother was lying on the floor with fresh blood oozing out from her hand...they divorced soon afterthat. My mother refused to give me to father and I was kept away from him since then. I had a dark period for 3 years and I became anti-social,until 2 years ago when suddenly I started to open up gradually...you know what? I once stayed indoors for a consecutive 2 months.
191106
I do!!!  Tried everything including counseling but nothing worked except no talking for almost 3 years.  She did all kinds of stupid things that almost killed my kids.  She tried to break us up for no reason. I was nothing but nice to her but didn't let her control me.  We started as best friends until we had kids and she couldn't control our life.
369397
That's a really tough question. I know in my grandmother's case she absolutely refused to have anyone do anything for her no matter how exhausted and/or hurt she was from doing things on her own. She was an extremely stubborn woman. We couldn't force her into accepting the help but she eventually got it whether she liked it or not. As it turned out it had devastated her to even the need the help. She was a very proud woman who had raised all eight of her children on her own. She couldn't ask and yet didn't have a problem refusing. She did come around though and realized it wasn't so bad afterall although not without many complaints as to how we weren't doing things correctly. I guess I'm saying if you're mother is hurting help her anyway but do it in such a way that it doesn't invade her privacy or stomp on her pride. It's hard getting older and needing things you didn't need before. Be patient with her. Good luck I hope it all works out. I have to admit I wasn't much help.
416372
try to physically assult me at my mothers death bed. things got ugly when my daughter jumped in to protect me, and i had to pull her away from the family member. my poor mother, rest in peace! the police came and all that yelling and screaming and cussing.
1088440
I confess that I too snoop around my husbands things because I think hes messing around on me. I also confess that I hate my fathers mother(my grandmother) and I have never let her see my youngest daughter, because every time i go there she tells me what a horrible mother my mother was. yet my mother raise me alone for 13 years with no help from my father. every time i went there i wanted to scream at her.
616992
I could not find a solution to this in my life and this dilemma took me to the divorce. I will suggest it will be better if ur wife understands the situation. It is she who will rule in the home after one's mother. So she should wait with patience till then. Moreover, somethings r better unsaid. I hope u understand my point.
97739
You should step up and be that medium. Be the peace maker. Let your mother have her way. She loves you and only wants to protect you. If you feel an argument coming on about something try to listen to what she has to say. You don't have to believe her or even understand her. Parents just want their kids to listen to what they have to say. I thin kthat it is possible to get along with your parents. I do most of the time. Find something you both enjoy doing and do t together. Like shopping!
570898
yep, i told her this morning.  to honor my mother, i brought her myself, wife, two daughters, and our hound dog.  we all wished her a happy mother's day before i gave her a new comp, which i'm using to type this answer.  sorry about your falling-out with your mom.  i hope it is not too late for you both.  good luck - you seem like a nice guy.
948104
Yes I have been in many fights but I have only lost 2. One was my best friend. I walked up to him and was going to kick him in the a$$ when he turned around and I ended up sacking him. At the end of the day I took the beating that I deserved.\nThe other one was my older sister. I was being cheeky and disrespectful then I slapped her. She laid a licken on me like you wouldn't believe. ( Never disrespect you older sister in front of her friends...)
592512
Do you love her? Do you want to stay married? Can you move farther away from her parents so they'll interfere less? I guess everything depends on how much you love her and want to fight to keep her. And how tired of her parents you are. \nMy husband's mother always interfered in my marriage. He chose me over her, so now we don't speak to his parents at all. But our marriage is better now than it ever was. I guess it all depends on the two of you. Can you stand up to her parents and tell them to stop bothering you two? Can she tell her parents NO? If not, maybe those papers are a good idea.
914107
Your husband should have stuck up for you! \n\nBut he was most likely scared to offend his mother by doing so...\n\nI would just put on a happy face in front of her, because when it comes to unruly inlaws--noone wins!
625859
Yes. Three times and I married two of them. One got away. The first one I married and I didn't really realize how much I loved her until she cheated on me and we got divorced. She was a mix of things good/bad, bithc/angel, honest/liar. I never really ever figured her angle out. She lost her way. I feel bad about things went between she and I. The past is the past.\n\nThe second, I never married her or even had relations with her, but I suspect that I loved her the day I saw her walking down the street. I remember it almost like it happened yesterday, but it was almost 20 years ago. I said that I had to meet her, I met her, we went out on a date, and it never worked out like I wanted. We became very good friends but she never felt the same way about me. \n\nThe third, is my friend, my wife and the mother of my son. I love her dearly and would do anything for her.
774864
try to get along with her. i know it is difficult but your mom is always going to be your mom. unless your health and safety is in compromise work things out
275428
Yes I was a wild child.  I didn't like to listen to my mother.  I'm not that way anymore.  I guess I finally realize how bad I was treating my mom when I saw her cry.  I'm a mother of three now.  I'll have my turn coming to me.
87334
yes she did. Just cuz she gave custody up, she still \nstill played a major roll in his life as his mother.\nmy mom and I didn't always live together but she still \nraised me.
548114
After 16 years, my hubby has finally gotten up enough nerve to shut her up as soon as she starts anything. I'm so proud of him, because he WAS a mommas boy, BIG TIME.\n\nHe actually started standing up to her about 11 years ago, but it just keeps getting better every year, sometimes I wish she would start something just so he can tell her off... wow, I'm terrible aren't I?  Too Bad, she has it coming!!!