should we be together??
543802
If your relationship feels more like friendship than anything else- then there is your answer.
410869
being with your partner is in itself the best thing. as for doing things together, there may be plenty, but the most important ones i feels is to let your partner have your full attention, to let him/her know and feel that you care and are there for them, no matter what. these are special times to have fun together and to get to know each other more, cook, bake, read, watch a movie, shop, dance, play, laze around, do whatever but together. and yes thank the one above every single second for giving you your beloved's company.
1132023
well im 18 and my b/f is 26 and we get along really well. he is young at heart and loves to have fun. give it a go and things may work out. if not at least you wont be stuck asking...what if!
1006930
You are spending too much time alone together. That's not a good idea. Go bowling, skating, jog, get out among people. You are playing with fire right now.
274940
Well, I think you should ask for his opinion. Just carry on for a lil while, and if you both find that you cannot bear the circumstance any longer then maybe breaking up is good for both of you. At least you don't have to worry too much about meeting each other and the distance either.\nBut if you two (esp. him) feel that you can still carry on, and that the love is true and strong enough to help you overcome this obstacle, then just stand beside him and fight for it. Happiness just worths its name if it is gained from challenges and hardship. Nothing valuable is easy to get my dear : )\n\nStand firm, and if you two have the same idea, then just go with it, whatever it might be...
425360
Go with your heart. I am in a very similiar situation but we are madly in love with one another. If you are questioning whether you should move, you are not yet ready to do so.\n\nYou will know when the time is right.
707
not realy. you should complete each other. You can be things that she can't and reverse. What you are discreibing is perfection, and nobody is perfect. In a relationship, after the happy months from the beginning, all it matters is compatibiliti
1174397
It's not just physical if you can spend time together without fooling around.  That might be fun and all, but if you can have a good time and enjoy eachother without doing it, then there's more than just physical.  If you guys HAVE to mess around, that sounds problematic.
5305
You mean together? Well, it's naturally going to feel good. It's instinctual that we flock together. We're animals ourselves after all.
476199
I think you guys should see other people first before you start to mend anything. maybe its a mutual separation, and you just dont know it yet. I really think before you do anything just see other people first. if nothing works out, try to mend things between eachother. if you arent willing to separate for a little while, try to mend things by either counseling or talking it out. i hope this helped!
139402
well, being with someone does not mean not being lonely. there are a lot of people out there who are with their someone's but are terribly lonely...anyway, as much as i would like to, i am already with someone. tell me how old you are and i might be able to recommend you to a friend.
1022516
I seriously doubt it. We chose to be with someone because we want to BE WITH THEM. What do you do , late at night, when you're all alone? No one to hold when the night is cold. Unless you're married, don't even try to be together. The temptation to be with someone in the flesh will beat out chatting on the phone. Wish him luck and if you're still available when he gets back, then maybe you can try to start something. Good Luck!
109428
ummm ... why should we??
320718
it sounds like you guys have a basis for a great relationship. It sounds like you guys genuinely enjoy each others company, so you know what I thinK? I think that yeah, follow your heart. Its obvious you are digging this guy and he is probably digging you so go for it!
511646
If it is meant to be, it will be.  \n\nIf you are meant to be together, you two will find a way to make it happen.\n\nNow don't take this last part as flippant, it isn't meant to be.\n\nIf you are not meant to be togother, there are other blokes around you know.\n\nDon't base your happyness on another person.  Base it on yourself.\n\nAnd good luck with your romance.\n\n-Dio
605223
isn't there a chance of combining friendship and love?\ni think you should follow your heart if there isn't any option  for having everybody happy...
1006695
considering you two are so close, you may just belong together. if he feels the same way, then go for it. \nbut i'll advise you this: are you sure you can risk losing your friendship with him? i mean, what if you break up and then are you sure things will be the same as before?\nthink about it...\ngood luck