my friend wants to sleep with her brothers, i want to warn people, so why am i the bad one?
551126
You arent being a monster. You have right to say that. It sick that she  wants sleep with her brother.
1107777
I guess you learned the hard way that you can't bad mouth family to family.\n\nI don't like lying, so I can't tell you to keep it up, best to just say, "sorry for the misunderstanding" if she says anything. Then, keep your mouth shut around the brother!
1070252
Girl you  wrote alot. Anyway like i told you before. tell her straight up . LEAVE ME ALONE. the same way you treat my bro
1187801
This friend of yours is not a good person. She is definitely simply leeching out favours from others. Just leave her, don't talk to her. She'll definitely come back for more assurance. I think she needs some counseling.
288191
I wonder how old you are and whether this incident was actually a criminal offence against you, i mean attempted rape is an offence anyways, but if you're still young, its even worse.\n You should tell your brother that you would appreciate it if he would intervene and stop things next time one of his friends starts macking on you all heavy like that, he's your brother, he should be looking out for you!\n If you are under the age of 16, then tell your parents, or some other adult, because this guy that tried it on with you could be a sexual predator who may continue to try to force himself on girls. He obviously doesnt care who sees him do it either.\n Do your best to stay away from him!\n...and call the police if you're really concerned about this incident.
46202
If you're friends are calling you a prude, then they aren't your friends.  A friend respects your morals and choices, even if they don't share the same ones.  Don't have sex to please your friends, you'll regret it later.  Stick to what you believe.
42471
The damage is done - you've already ****** him, so now you need to have some respect for your friend and tell her the truth. You're too worried about what she'll say to YOU, and how YOU'll feel. . . when what you should really be concerned about is how she's going to take the fact that you've been lying behind her back for the past while. Just fess up already - you'll BOTH feel a lot better in the end about it.
755358
I had a friend like that! First she was very jealous of me and then when i told her to go to hell (because she was criticising me always) she tried to do bad things against me but i didnt care  because she was not my friend anymore.
496527
Probably because you personify what many wish they had the guts to admit too.  You may have an awesome 'aura' that people pick up on as well, since you are comfortable with your own sexuality.  Who knows?  Just be true to yourself, and just because they ASSUME you will sleep with them doesn't mean you will or have to!
381613
You seem like a very nice person. At some point, you have to quit letting them treat you like dirt. It could be because somehow you value or long for their friendship. Make them see things from your point of view for once. Some people are just mean, and they do not consider the feelings of others.But, some of these excuses (although they seem lame to you) could be for real. If the same person is doing this over and over ( 3 is my magic number), drop them like a hot potato. Not everyone is like that.
1040313
I don't think you're wrong for telling her that. What you have to understand is that sometimes you can't always save your friends. I learned that the hard way. Sometimes it's best to let them make their own mistakes so that they will learn for themselves. What i would do if I was you I would remind her of how great and wonderful she is and that she deserves the same. Then if she doesn't listen you sit back and be there for her when she sees the light. You still need to be her backbone but this time you're not being her hero, you're simply being her friend!! She will thank you for it later!
660599
I always wonder this, too.\nSomehow, my sister and I are very close... so close that some people thought that we're doing incest(!)\n\nI think people consider that as sin, that's why they're bad-mouthing me and my sister in our back...
449821
and why do best mates sleep with each others girl is probably more the question you tell us why did you do it.\ngo to church right now say 200 hail maries  ask God to forgive you,and confess to the vicar,\nrepent and beat yourself on the back with birch twigs and may God have mercy on your soul you lowdown four nikator
1096831
Wow!  If you talk like this about a friend, I 'd hate to see how you diss your enemies!  Friends are supposed to be supportive, non-judmental and not broadcast the other friend's weaknesses.  The answer is to just speak privately to her.\n\nBe tactful and tell your friend that you are worried about her and why.  Please do not call her a "whore" or not "good looking enough" as you will hurt her feelings and close her mind to anything constructive you might have to say.  Not to mention that beauty is in the eye of the beholder and your opinion may not be the same as someone else.  You might want to tactfully suggest that she seek counseling to find out why she is on a self-destruct course.  There may be some driving force or emotional issue in her past that you know nothing about.\n\nHowever, she is an adult at 19 and is entitled to make her own choices and mistakes in her life so if she rejects what you say, you have to accept it.
687975
Your girlfriend is dead wrong.  You were right to protect your little brother.  That's your job.  From your brother's reaction your instincts were right on the mark as well.\n\nYour girlfriend doesn't want to see the mean spirit behind your "friends" taunting of your brother.  The fact that they didn't respect your wishes further demonstrates their mean nature.\n\nFrankly, you need a better class of friends.\n\nGood job on standing up for your brother.
101004
If its annoying your brother, he needs to tell it right away to his friend. You can't be a friend with someone who does not offer you that comfort level. "Let her know exactly what ya feel and he will not do it again".\n\nTrust me, there are bigger problems in a relationship!
1050422
Wow what a whore! Unfortunately sweetie when your that much of a whore  (Which she clearly is) you don't care what people say or do to you. She's a low life, and a loser. I feel bad for your sister but her man doesn't deserve her. She's way too good for him. My idea is this, just gather all the ladies who's man cheated on them because of the whore and just tell them who's at fault once they find out one person is the cause of there problem then all hell will break loose.