i have a degree in nuerosurgeon and my boy friend think i would be too busy?
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It is funny that you are a neurosurgeon, in 8th grade, and 16 all at the same time.\n\nIf you are asking if you'll be busy by becomming one, then the answer is yes. You have to get a degree, then go to med school and then do years of trainning before you can operate on the brain. So yes you will be busy with school, and then once you are one, you will be in surgery for hours and hours. Because when you are operating on the brain, you just can't leave whenever.
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maybe he is feeling like he isnt a priority in your life. That sounds like a rather patronizing thing to say to someone, though. I have to agree with another comment, he does sound like something of a control freak. Keep in mind that other things can be more important right now than a guy...depending on where you are in your life. School, work, family, friends...you shouldnt have to put anything you love aside so you can "focus" more attention on a guy. Good luck with this.
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Well... both of you are still pretty young.  You obviously have a pretty good idea of what you want in life.  Although, your boyfriend sounds like he's not quite ready to settle down.  From a guy's perspective, I'd have to tell you that this is a common thing at that age.  Believe it or not there's a period in our lives that we don't quite have a clear idea of what we want in life.  The part time handling of responsibility during school is something that is pretty easy to deal with currently versus the full time responsibility of being out in the real world fending out for yourself.  My advice to both of you is enjoy college life while you can and at the same time take care of business as in your education.  That's going to factor in quite a bit when you start looking for jobs.  If your boyfriend truly loves you, when you both get done with school, his focus might narrow a little bit more on what he wants out of life.  At that point it's probably a good time for both of you to evaluate the relationship.  Don't beat yourself up over-thinking this situation.  To answer your final question, I don't think you're wasting your time.  Someday you might reminisce of how great of a time you both had during college when you're both old and gray.
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thats very unfair..you have a future too and you still have time to work for it..are you just going to sit there and wait for him when you can go and get yoursel a life? he's not being fair to you. if you really love each other, having a long distance college life wouldn't affect your relationship..i also think that he's afraid of what you too may do in college just the same as you are afraid of what may happen to him in college..what if after college he leaves you? then you loose your boyfriend and your future. besides, going off for college would be a good obstacle to prove if you really love each other..but above all? i dont think its a good idea not to go to college just because he said so..at least if you go to college too, your future could be set and who knows maybe you'll find out more of what your relationship is made of..
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Try explaining to him that you are busy sometimes, that doesn't mean that you aren't into him it just means that you don't have the time to give him the attention that you think he deserves.  He might be happy with that and it will keep your relationship honest.
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Don't rush into anything. If he wants more, that's up to you. If you're not ready, then he should respect that. You should keep track of your goals and not get distracted. But you could also have your guy. You could make a packed to be together and not see other people, but let him know that you have goals you need to get through them. So there may be times you can't focus on him, but you won't be seeing anyone else. He should understand :) Good luck
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No, but you surely need to give him space to be around with his friends WITHOUT YOU sometimes.  You know you both had a life before you got together, and for your relationship to be healthy, both of you need to balance the time you spend together and the balance you spend with your friends/family.\n\nIt is not good to demand all his time for yourself
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I think your man of three years will understand that you have to work.  No one can switch with you at work tho?  I think you should just tell him that you have to work and you can't wait to get back to him hopefully naked in bed waiting for you!
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For sure....\nI think you have too much time on your hands...
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i believe that you can do anything. it might be a Little awkward to see you on bended knee, but everyone does there own thing right. are you saying this because you want your man to propose to you? if this is the case and he hasn't done it yet Probably means he isn't ready or he thinks your not ready yet, or something else is going on. also depends on how long you have been together. i know its a custom in my family to live with your significant other for 4 full seasons at least before you propose to him/her. this might be the same for him as well. all you can really do is lightly bring up the subject to him and see where it goes.
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you are getting to know the real him.. sound like he works alot and might be stressing so that's normal .. you need mo make time for each other no work or friends just the 2 of you. you will see we will start to want up to you the way you want him to. but it take hrs to get your head out of your work obligations and some times weeks were it just one big long day..
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Wait until both of you finish school. You don't want him to end up just being your baby's daddy, do you?
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University should be your choice because it will give you a foundation that you can rely on for the rest of your life.  If your boyfriend really loves you then he will still be there when you finish school.
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do not worry when ur time comes, ur man will figure it out, i do not think it is hard to miss, just relax and let him do all the work &#92;\nenjoy
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Dear Am I Being Unreasonable:\n  I know how you are feeling unfortanely I have been in that same situation but I was on the other side. I had a best friend whom I had forever when I started dating this guy.Well the boy friend didnt like that fact that we "hung out" so much. He "just knew" that we were doing something. Well it turns out he was right we were and actually ended up getting married after a long drawn out process. The point Im trying to make is if your boyfriend is keeping things from you and lying then you dont need him. You deserve better. It sound like he wants his cake and eat it too. A realtionship is built on trust (or suppose to be). I haop that I have helped. I have enclose my email and yahoo messenger if you want to hit back at me !!
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Maybe you should take your mind off boys and relationships for the moment.\n\nHave you given thoughts to your own career? Set your own priorities right.\n\nLet me share what someone told me when I parted with my first love (so many years ago)\n\n"If you love something, let it go.\nIf it comes back, then it is yours to keep.\nIf it did not come back, it was never yours in the first place"\n\nThink about it. Good luck. :)
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okay.... what you should do is that u should go up to him and tell him that hes not paying you enough attention ..he dosent treat u gud enough,... he dosent even buy you coursage forur graduation...n if he still dosent get i think its better for you to get another florist bf who will give you a coursage without a doubt <romance in the beginning is more>