Once your kid's at the age where they want to start a "band" should you encourage them or not???
545885
I'm not sure I understand exactly - because of the wording of your question - but if your son wants to start a band (and you don't mind the rehearsals at your house), let him.  Encourage him to learn an instrument - maybe with a band in mind.\n\nIf he does not want to start a band or has not brought up the subject, don't force it on him.  Suggest it, if you'd like him to do it - but don't nag - he'll be considering it from time to time.\n\n... But not Rap ... encourage him to do something more versatile. \n\nPeace.
686899
If you love band, try to find a way to stay in it...you'll remember it always. If it's not that important to you, or you don't really like it, then I suppose you might drop it. Hopefully the things that you give your time to instead are worthy. Stay out of trouble, and good luck.
1146474
If if they don't have to, I would suggest doing so. Always try to be safe, especailly if the kid is clumsy, like me.
669613
i can't really say that its going to work but shall help u as me too got interest in musics...i like giving chorus,do sing rap song...i got a group of frens who too got interest in singing but coz of financial problem  we were weak...\n\n nways to start a music...the most important is its music...the way drums n guitars are played n the way it is taken i mean steps...and then vocal should be matching the musics....and come to the lyrics.\n\n previously people go for slow n senti songs....but if i say for future the worlds going to be rocking n thats the time where u can also be a part of role model...\n\n Rite now theres lots of singer n lots of songs,so its gonna be bit competetive...so why not u be prepare for future...i mean something rocking....screaming...fast musics...n lot....if u happens to find it interesting n want to share thoughts n views my email id is alystassy@gmail.com
614008
I used to teach three-year-olds. Not sure if this is what you are looking for, but we would have instrument days (kids could bring them from home or we had some at the center) and we would take turns playing for each other, or we would have a parade through the halls, or take them outside (less noise!).  Also, everyone loves freeze dance.  Sometimes we'd just have a dancing party for 15 minutes or so (especially good on a rainy day when they can't get outside).  Another one that they liked was putting on a show. I would have them sit on the carpet, then let them come up one by one (or pick a partner or two if they were shy) and sing songs for everyone. Sometimes they would make up there own song, which was always funny, and we'd try to learn it.   If you are having a "music day" and you post it, most parents will be more than happy to bring in musical toys and games to share.
963813
Usually kids that age will tell you (and everyone else) exactly what they want.  If you don't know ask a parent or someone who spends time with the child, or if the child is really young you can ask them yourself, and it will still be OK.  Then just use your discretion and make sure what they want is appropriate, in your price range, etc.
1077066
Coming from the teaching profession I feel that I can answer this.  I think that first and formost you need a connection with the kids that you teach.  If that is being a know it all, being quick on your feet, or what ever.  Second you need to be consistant and Fair.  Third be Firm with your decision and do not waver unless you are absolutely sure you are wrong with your first responce.  Forth do your best to never be wrong with your first responce.  :)  Fifth but not the last, listen to your kids and observe.  If you do all these things you will not fail.  :)
982389
Yes they should.  If rules are good for one, they should be good for all.  But the two of you need to sit down and discuss, first, what kind of rules you have for each set of kids.  Compromise on some if need be.  But make sure all the kids have the same rules or it could look like a game of favoritism is being played.
369727
tell her that you might need, say, another drummer or something else that she'd be good at. but still feature her, so that she's not feeling like she was just put in the back for you to have all the glory. hope this helps!\n\n.:Lark:.\n\nlark_rose12@yahoo.com
566757
sure, would be glad to help;my son has his own band too, best wishes to you!!
998121
I have a 16 year old daughter who does listen to me. There are times  when  I think she not listening until she comes home, tells me about her day and some situation that happened and she says " I did what you told me to mom and you were right, it worked" " I know you think I don't listen, but I really do"  I've always been pretty open with my daughter, I don't sugar coat anything. I've always told her she can talk  to me about anything . Teaching my kids to be honest, non judge-mental, to be themselves, to have their own opinions and to voice them, to have morals and values and  that everybody makes mistakes and its ok as long as we learn from them, that nobody is perfect and not to have expectation of others, expectations lead to disappointment.  Expecting your child to do well in school is one thing, expecting your child to be an all-star basketball player is another. Teenagers as well as children in general look to their parents for approval and discipline. Do you have respect for a person you can walk all over? Neither do teenagers! Teens need a parent not a friend. If a parent constantly gives in, their teen knows they will not suffer any repercussions no matter what they do. Parents need to put their foot down when their teens have done something wrong. Temporarily take away whats most important to them , the phone, computer, friends, dances etc.etc. This usually gets their attention. Talk to them and listen as well. Don't be afraid to talk to them about sex, drugs, alcohol etc. I've told my daughter  what can happen, what does happen. If her friends pressure her into trying or doing something walk away and let them say what ever they want about you. If a "friend" is putting pressure on you, then obviously they were not your friend to begin with. A friend would not do that. I've dealt with other parents looking down on my parenting methods, these are the same parents who's teens cannot talk to them about anything because they would flip out, the same parents who think if you don't talk about it then it doesn't exist. I feel, I'm being realistic. If a teenager wants to do something bad enough, they will find a way. You can't lock them in their rooms or ground them forever. Help them understand for every action there is a reaction. Throw out a what if...ask them what they would do in a given situation, then give them the possible outcomes. Do it over and over. until it sinks in. You might feel like a rotten parent, but its worth it. Its a cruel world and teens need to know just how cruel it really is!
594188
it depends on type of music and length of exposure to. and largely on whether the child takes an interest in it.
75241
Make them laugh.  That always gets a child's attention.  Be silly dance around, play music and make funny faces.  I've had three kids and making things they don't want to listen to fun or funny always worked.  They are 11, 10 and 7 now and it still works...although my oldest will turn her head now so I can't see her laugh. : )
965834
Geez I'm trying to remember being 13 or 14, Ha!  When I was that age a nice album was a great gift, so realizing that they are not that readily available or playable I suppose a CD would be nice.  One that would be of a band I like and perhaps makes me think of you when played.
739635
Parenting! I agree it is Parenting! My children listen to music with me. So I do not listen to any of the "bad" stuff. I also make time to listen to kid music with them. If a parent puts down kid music and won't listen to "good" music then the child will follow the example set for them. Just as a child who hears from his parents that vegetables are yucky, so the child will think also. If you want your child to like something then like it yourself. Children learn by example, especially at the age you are talking about. Young children look up to their parents.
275959
i would suggest making your vision clear to the potential bandmates.  (you do have a vision of what you want to play, right?  i assume you've written some songs or have some novel idea for a band.  if not, that could be your problem.)  that might encourage others to join if they see you are serious about your music and not just being in a band for the sake of being in a band.  then again, that might make it harder to find like-minded bandmates who can help you achieve your vision.  that's just a problem you have to deal with though.  having a supporting cast that understands and appreciates what you're after should be worth the wait.
1006542
I think you guys could go far. Espically with the fact that so many people are getting into local bands more now. You guys are pretty good for 16 year olds. Keep it up :)