I am 22 and I have 3 kids. You should I get my tubes tied or not?
553222
no .just get on the pill or get an iud!!!iud are very good . you can get them for 5 or 10 years..ask your doctor about it.
933321
Oh how I can relate!  My husband is 32 and I am 23.  We have been together since I was 16 years old.  We are now married with 3 beautiful children and after almost 8 years are great.  I think it depends on the maturity of both couples.  I think people have a predestined idea that age is so important.  I am sorry but I have seen people who are 25 not be able to handle having a baby while an 19 year old can, my point, maturity.  If you are able to willingly work on your relationship then there is no reason why you cannot make it last.  You also need to believe in yourself and make sure you know what you want.  It is your decision and your's alone and no one can tell you what is best for you but you.
515427
no lol.. relax! im 33 divoriced with 2 kids and i have a 19 year old bf.your life sounds easy.... chill
657299
It depends on your needs. I have done many ultrasounds on women you have gotten pregnant while having an IUD in place. So for that matter, a tubal ligation is better at stopping an unwanted pregnancy. However, a tubal ligation is permanent. If you plan to have children someday, than an IUD is better than a tubal ligation because you can have it removed so that you may get pregnant.
932982
I'm sorry to read you have such serious gyn problems at your young age.  The best people to talk this over with are the professionals,and they are really the only people who can advise you well.  I can tell you the information they have given you is true, as unpleasant as it is.  I would suggest you consider seeking a second opinion, and discuss all your concerns and treatment options with a GYN physician, preferably one who specializes in treating PID and endometriosis.  It may be there are some other options for you to consider, or it may be that a hysterectomy is your best option.  If you do have one, it doesn't necessarily mean the end of the world, only that you will not have children.  But having children is already quite possibly not in your future anyway, so there is no point to suffering needlessly.  If and when you find the person you want to spend your life with, you can and should consider adoption to create your family.  In spite of what you might think, some children grow in your heart and some under it, but in the end you love both equally the same.  I urge you to speak with your doctor honestly, the way you did here, and then make your decisions.  Good luck, however things turn out.
181778
if 22yrs ago you were a minor no but yes if you were over 18 and sry to say it may stop you from getting a child.  depends on the worker you gets and the circumstances behind it
958514
No, this is just what society expects of all women to get married and have children. So if you are not ready then don't do it, and stop being so concerned with what others think of your choices. They are not taking care of you, so who cares what they think. God bless****
877116
No................ it's not ..........don't do it or you'll join the many many parents who say "God I wish I never had children"\nGrow old  with no worries and spend all your money on yourself.
680116
This is such a personal decision.  First of all, how are you and your spousal-unit handling the two you have?  If you are all well adjusted, have no health concerns and both agree that you want to do this then you should go ahead.  Lots of people prefer to have the children close together.  The children grow up together and can often bond.\n\nIf you are having your children on your own, then carefully consider what it will mean to your day to day life.  Then proceed with caution and joy!
574801
Unless your parents are willing to raise the baby for you, you should give her up. It is WAY too much work and responsibility for a 13 year old. \n\nThere are plenty of infertile couples out there who desperately want a child, and they will give her a good life.\n\nNow, I suggest you ask your parents to teach you about birth control. Better yet, ask them about abstinence!!!!!
1069302
Wouldn't do it, there's too much on the line, the rest of you sex life, the rest of your life, your child (if you decide to have one) ect. Wrapping it up doesn't always work.
909908
I've had my tubes tied, but I got it done at the same time I had my c-section (well, immediately following, I guess), so it would be hard for me to tell what pains came from where...\n\nnever had any complications.\n\ngood for you, nursing for so long!\nI nursed my first baby for 10 months and my second for 13 months.
765821
stay together for the kids, you don't need this kinda stress at this point in your life(preg) it could have detrimiental effects on the baby. There should be a waiting period for seperations like there is for buying handguns...you need a cooling off period
464205
ey dude, you're making the ultimate sacrifice *coughpussycough*  ahem anyway, you should be proud of the decision you're making *coughwhippedcough*  Your wife is lucky that you're so kind that you care so much for her so that she doesn't have to get her tubes tied *coughoverbearingwenchcough*
28845
I would go if I were you .Your condition alough painful is not life threatning and downs children are very loving and need routine .So go.
230598
theres all kinds of things said about this and i must disagree with anyone who says it cant happen or u cant carry it because my 7 year old son is proof of that. i had my tubes tied and 3 years later my son was born. it is a slim chance like 15 percent but it does happen.
786924
I'm a complementary therapist and would certainly reccommend that the earlier, (within reason), you can have your children the better. Preferably in your twenties. I know some people disagree, but that's my opinion.\nJon C