What is it about your spouse that you truly connect with?
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the way we want to spend our life its so much alike, the way we want to raise children, and we are a young couple who still believe it the old ways. we have our differnces but we are so in love.   nice question.
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My husband!\n\nHe is my best friend because we have enough in common that we don't run out of things to talk about, and we have enough differences that there will always be surprises.
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Hi, I met my husband at my place of employment. I only thought of him as a nice person, possibly a friend. He came in one day and asked me to go to a band job with him(he is a drummer). I said I wanted to go and he was a perfect gentleman in every way. When I got home he said goodnight and patted my hand. I really knew he was a good guy and I would date him many times after that. After two years of dating we had a beautiful wedding. I still love him so much I could not tell you.
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my fiancee because she completes me. she is the yin to my yang. we share so many interests and she is everything i look for in a woman.
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My lady manages to make me feel like that all the time. When we talk on the phone, when we visit in person, and even when we webcast with each other. She has capivated my heart with her kindness and caring  as well as her honesty and openness. I cant put my finger on any single thing, but more on all of the little things in conjunction with one another.
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I've been married for 14 years and have continuously thought of my first true love.  Just about 2 months ago I came across his email address and contacted him through email.  Yea, he's married but is so glad that I contacted him.  I'm still his true love although he's now married as well as myself.  We email and occassionally he calls me.  It was such a relief to finally be able to talk with him.  He lives hours away, but we email each other daily.  So, I'm telling you, contact her.  You'll be glad you did.
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I am in love with a woman on the other side of the world, and she is my soul-mate. We began our amazing love by meeting here doing Yahoo Q&A, and from simple comments about a few questions we suddenly clicked and moved into deep rapport... and before either of us was aware of what was happening to us, we came to know that we had connected -- not merely fallen in love -- but really and truly connected, transcending all space and time, all distance and obstacles... moving far beyond anything either of us had ever dreamed or even imagined .. into pure, absolute, unconditional love .. love heart to heart .. free of the fetters of the mind .. and we have already endured many trials and come through with our love just growing stronger and stronger.. and even now facing mountains and oceans to climb and cross before we can rest, we love one another more and more. She has moved me in ways I never knew, and all I can say now is before her, I never knew love. And every day, I am amazed anew at how much I love her.
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My pride.\nI learn to let go of my pride through love. Its not about who win in a relationship, its all about what's best for the both of us. My wife really taught me a lot.\n\nLove is omnipresence, Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.
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The person who you are engaged to.
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When in the arms of my Husband...\n\nPeaceful. Safe, protected, and secure in his strong arms, knowing that nothing ever would or try to hurt me when I'm with him. I love being in his arms and knowing that when I wake up in the morning I can see his handsome face, gentle eyes looking back at me, and beautiful smile :)
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I myself look for someone with a common outlook on the major things like children, religion, morality.  Traits like honesty, compassion, honor, and respectability.  My husband is not perfect by any means but in the areas where it really counts we are on the same page.
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honesty, kindness and openness... the ability to completely be yourself and if he can be himself that is a total plus.... you have to be able to talk to each other, and fight with each other and forgive each other.  mystery is awesome.... I don't mean he hasn't called for 2 days and his secretary is on leave as well.... i mean spontaneity
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My husband. He is so laid back and calm about things.\nHe is the kindest person in the world.
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My husband is my best friend and my lover
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I have experienced this with my husband. The connection is so intense that the feelings just burst from deep within. It always touches my heart in a very special way. He says it has helped him to understand just how deep our love really is.\nEnjoy the feeling...staying connected keeps your marriage strong.
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Sharing a special connection with the other person.. almost like we are one.. warm, safe, and inspiring... \n\nI love french kissing, there is no better person to share that with than my partner, she is my world, and I love to show her that when i look into her eyes and share that connection with her
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Well the perfect wife for me is someone that I consider my best friends. One that can take a joke without taking it seriously. One that I can vent with in bad times and one that will be the number one person I will call when I have excited about something. One that shares great communication good/bad with me. One that loved to be passionate and affectionate with me. This one sounds lame, but I love it... One that ask's me to go to another room while she gets dressed to go out with me (asthough I am picking her up, but I am just in the next room) because her being all the above things just makes her beautiful to me enough but seeing her open like the bedroom door knowing she got all ready for me is the ultimate. She has to get along and be well loved by everyone including my friends and not bad mouth beautiful women. Men hate that!