I'm going to Alabama and my friends birthday is one day after i leave to go should i feel bad?
543458
Go and have fun, life is full of disappointment. call them up and wish them happy birthday, the same would happen if the tables are reversed.  Enjoy your trip. be lucky you can go.
42132
I bet it is. but it depends on your attitude towards it, and I'm not really 'feeling it' for these holidays. I'm more of an April 15th/14th person (Day(s) Titanic sank)
561721
no\nYour birthday is the day after.  Midnight officially belongs to the next day.\n\nAlthough it'd be cool to celebrate it that way.
946342
No. I think what you should do is email them and tell them nicely that they have hurt your feelings. That'll make them feel bad and guilty and they might even apologise to you.
522461
Ah yes, if you ever feel that way, please do not fret.  All it means is that you are a certified card carrying member of the human race.  Do not think you are special or singled out because these kind of days occur in your life.  Everyone around you are going through these kinds of days right before your very eyes, they are just very good at hiding that fact.  If you think about it, it is very unrealistic to have everyday of your life go right.  That is a very unnatural thing in the broken human world.  Take advantage of these kind of days.  Perhaps they are here to test your character and make you a stronger and deeper person on the inside.  Just as fire purifies gold, so does these days purifies (or attempts to purify) your heart and soul.
1141067
no... maybe not! but maybe because u don't have much to do in the US.. or maybe ur girlfriend cheated on u while u were in iraq... so u are feeling sick and u wanna go to iraq and die.
384673
I think it's more of a deep hurt in your heart,more than anything else. You thought of your friend & made sure they had a gift, you were not only acknoleging there birthday, but also your friendship that you feel in your heart for them. So for them to do nothing for you on your birthday,was very insensitive, it made you feel that your friendship that you hold dear, doens't mean so much to them. Because your a kind person, it would be hard for you just to come out & tell them how they made you feel, or you would have done it already. I know for me, when this happened, I got a friendship card, & wrote inside the card how the ignoring of your birthday by them made me feel, & somewhere in the note I would ask if they really felt like your friendship was important to them, that puts the ball in there court, you don't have to talk about it, your questions are in the card & then it's on them to give you an answer. Then go from there on the way you will conduct your feelings with them from now on. I hope this helps. But there are alot of insensitive people out there with dear friends & they don't even realize it. Your the true friend in my book, they are just a person who doesn't take friendship as serious
335232
If you care enough to feel bad, maybe you are more friend than you realize.  30 years from now she will be the only one you have any contact with... I would worry less about image, and that posse and more about doing the right thing.  Maybe have her over for a makeover... or have your posse do a total makeover on her... shes probably just scared or doesnt know what to do.
1138626
I got my . al ong time ago. its nothing to worry about. Just tell your mom and everything willl be alright. Just chill out and you'll be fine!
273340
It is not the saddest thing dear....don't follow solar calender follow lunar calender and in that you won't find days like these. Follow indian or chinies calender and celebrate your birthday
1052204
No.  Stick it out.  It's no fun to skip on the last day.  This is the day to chat and hang out and just be with your friends before they all go off on vacation.
693824
tell him it is your birthday and ask him why he is not with you today.\nAnd by the way Happy Birthday!!!\nPlease don't cry.\nyou suposed to be happy it is your birthday!
569813
You should go I graduated last week and it was such a good feeling. Even if your family is not making a big deal out of it you should this is a very big accomplishment in your life. Sometimes you have to pat yourself on the back. Go celebrate you made it through years of hard work and struggle. I know because I know I did. It's definitely something to celebrate girl you go and celebrate with your friends. Just know that even though your family is not making a big deal out of it this is a big deal not everybody can say I'm a high school graduate.
683894
Im sorry, Happy Birthday, You should go out and buy yourself some stuff you want. just go all out and have a good time.  No body cares about my birthday either. I haven't had a birthday party in 6 years, My dad forgets every year, and sometimes ill go the whole day without anyone saying happy birthday.  please don't let it get you down, just remember that people suck, and theres nothing you can do about it.  Keep your head up, and maybe people will notice.
71402
You will feel crappy for a couple more days.  Your Amune system is trying to get back to normal, so it is normal to feel like your not all back to the normal you.
923927
You already know the answer to this my friend. Search your feelings and it will tell you to stay home.
198995
yeah i'm having a bad day, i feel so alone and so unhappy at the moment so i think i'll go window shopping on ebay and maybe watch a good film. know what you mean about the booze that usually cheers me up but i'm off it at the mo.\nhope you have a better rest of the day, good luck