how can you tell if a guy loves you if he does not say I Love You?
541804
the way he treats you, the way he looks at you and wants to make you smile. if he puts you first above all else and is always wanting to make you happy
153594
You can do a bunch of stuff to show a guy that you love them but they still want to here those three little words. They truely don't know until u tell them otherwise they keep guessing that u do or u don't. It is just best to say the three words. If you have said the three words then u have nothing to worry about. Good Luck.
131450
If he loved you then he wouldn't lie to you, avoid you, or make you wonder if he loves you. I don't know what else is going on, but as usual in all relationship failures, there seems to be a lack of communication. I have said it time and time again. COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY. You would know if he loved you if you two communicated. I don't know if you two are having sex or not, but if you are, odds are he is using you for that. Good luck and be strong don't chase him if he ignores you. You shiw him you are better than that.\n\n-Mike
32215
If he already tells you he loves you, you should be thankful. It takes a lot for men to admit to their feelings and just because they don't say them as much as we would like, doesn't mean they don't feel them. As long as he's showing you he loves you, you are good! And I can totally understand how you feel about wanting to spend more time together, but you just have to make the best of the time you do have together until you reach a point where things are better.
188495
Love isnt something that is expressed verbally, love is something that is shown. If he buys you flowers, sticks up for you infront of his friends, goes out of his way to do something just to make your day go a little bit smoother, then yes he loves you :) If he shows you things like this then you know, he could say he loves you a billion times but untill he shows you, you wont really know, keep in mind that all guys show love in a differnt way, some buy you flowers and give you money, others call you just to tell you that your beautiful and take you out on picnics at the park, so dont rate his love on what you expect from him but on how much he tries to show you :)
91742
The problem with some guys is, they don't like to acknowledge the fact that they are in love and are in every way normal. Some of them prefer to be "discreet" about it - afraid that they might be the butt of jokes with their other guy friends and because of that, sometimes it's hard to read their feelings...\n\nBut sincerely, I can tell you that he likes you. But he just doesn't know how to show it. You can dump him, that's easier said than done. But if you choose to have a relationship with him, you have to ask yourself this question: will he change and perhaps show his love for you? Or will he remain the same, and mask his love behind his "cool-ness"? If you can answer that, you're done.
178636
2 things.. one - may be he loves you but is afraid of commitment... two - may be he doesn't love you at all and it was just a slip of the tongue the first time he said it. Observe his actions and how he treats you. You'll get hints from there.
1028011
ask him if he's ever been in love before....this will be a good way of getting him to open up about any feelings he may or may not have towards you.....if he only says yeah in the past or yeah once or twice and doesnt make any reference to being in love at the moment then he's not in love with you yet, or it could be that he is uncomfortable with sharing his feelings if he really loves you he will share it with you in time and when he feels ready....dont give up just trust your intuition...usually when a guy is in love he will want to share it with somebody.....you can always ask one of his friends, or a close buddy who he confides in to see if he has any hidden feelings for you if he is not opening up to tell you quite yet.....
154527
he probably does really love u if he is really ready to wait for u to say it. it might not be a month long stand. so just wait and say it when u mean it. i bet it will mean a lot more if u wait untill u mean it.
1133796
If you are not sure if he love you, ask him if he love you its ok, but if he doesnt all you have to do is move on with your life. no use stuck with someone that dont love you
1133291
id say it wouldnt ...because now a days "i love you" is flung around so casually its hard to tell which ones are sincere...but then again..if you barely know the guy...then yeah...hes just saying it...or he hasnt heard the expression " theres a thin line between love and infatuation"....
252463
If me made this claim about marriage just prior to getting you in bed, then nope, he probably doesn't love you.  If he came up with the marriage idea on his own and without any benefits attached to it, then he probably does love you.  Tell him that you love him (I guess you have already done this) and see what kind of response you receive.  If you get something like "you too" or "uh huh" that's not a good sign.  If he responds by looking you in the eyes and sincerely says "I love you too" then he probably loves you.  Communication is the key here, if you can't tell if he loves you or not then you don't want to get married any time soon anyway.
410911
It's probably a good sign if a guy has a hard time saying "I love you."  It could mean that he puts a lot of importance in those words.  To me, saying that means that I'm starting to permanently commit myself.  Plus, words are kind of cheap, and sometimes a simple "I love you" doesn't feel like it says it all.
106161
There are a lot of ways you cant tell if he does love you. If he has toled you he loves you then it is probably true. Knowing that he still stands by you even if his family dislikes you is another good sign, but there are a lot of other things too. Someone you love should also be your best friend. Can you trust him? can you talk to him about anything? Does he come to you with his problems? Does he let you hangout with him in front of his friends? Do you suspect hes trying to hide anything from you? If he really loves you then he'll show it, and you'll know for sure. If you have any doubts or questions about his actions or love for you then you can also talk to him about it. If he loves you and you love him you should be able to talk to him aboout anything, even this.
249836
That one is a hard one to answer. Maybe you can gently and in a round about way ask him how he feels about you\n\nWhen a guy is in love with you he cannot do enough for you. If it is long distance, well I cannot say there is no true way of telling unless you ask him or unless he is direct with you
580816
Yes, he might just be saying it so he gets more.  You should expect to be asked for more.  \n\nHow to know his true feelings?  Ask!  Ask him why he decided he loves you now?  When did he knew he felt this way?  If its true, the words should flow from the heart.
114346
Judge his love by his actions,not so much by his words. Does he kiss you tenderly and tell you he loves you often?\nDoes he introduce you to others with great zeal?Does he ask you often if there is anything he can do to make you happy?\nDoes he bring you little gifts often to show that you are constantly on his mind and heart? Do you have great communications between your and your mate? Does he ask you if there is anything you need? Use what I have said as a guideline. Good luck.