me and this dude named nick are getting real close.we had a dance but i got 1 dance. how come he ignored me???
545706
My daughter goes to dances, as did I many moons ago.\nI'd say it wasn't as much of a date as you wanted it to be. It sounds more like it was a mutual "I'll be there, if you're there" kinda thing.\n He could also be the kind of guy who danced with all those other gals just to show you how lucky you are that, of all the girls he could have, he chose you. Are you sure you could compete with his ego in a relationship with him?\n Maybe it was your dancing. Ask your friends if you look OK dancing. My daughter's given her friends pointers, and vice-versa.\n Talk to him about it, but don't let him know you cried over him. That's giving him way too much control over you, and that's not healthy in any relationship.\nJust let him know you weren't happy how the whole thing turned out, and that you'll see him around. \n Hanging around & waiting for him won't get you noticed. Putting him off, will. Good luck.
959350
Although it may have been the ADD, also guys just want to spend time with they're guy friends. I just went through this I know EXACTLY how you feel. My guy hadn't seen his friend in over a year, i got a couple of text messages and he as well forgot to call. I was heart broken. My uncle explained to me that its not that he was ignoring me or avoiding me, it was that he hadn't seen his friend in a long time and he wanted to do "guy stuff" with his best friend. Because I spend a lot of time with my guy it was hard for me to understand that he could spend time with someone else. Anyways, I forgave him and things are back to normal, always tell him how things make you feel. keep a journal or something every time something happens write it down, you don't have to address it but if it becomes persistent then talk to him about it. It helps and he will listen. Life's too short. Love and learn. good luck.
878782
Well, usually (but not always) if a friend asks it's either because the boy is shy himself, or the friend likes you. Ask Nickie if he really wanted your number, and that should settle the whole issue. Hope this helps!
409679
I love it when a guy comes up to me smiles, and ASKS.  Most of the time I dance with him. His skill as a dancer will lead to another dance.
472904
I expressed attraction for a guy who didn't bother to respond.  It hurts, but I am not sorry I did it.  We had been very flirty so I know he was attracted but for whatever reason my asking him freaked him out.  Maybe he'll come around but probably not.  I wish it could have worked out, but it didn't.  I'm not sorry I asked though, at least I know and I'm not wondering.
528476
I think you should just ask him to dance!  You don't have to let him know that you like him, just ask to dance.  Then maybe you can chat while dancing so he can find out more about you, and you can find out more about him.  \nYou may find out he isn't who you thought he was or maybe you will find out he really likes you too.\nMake sure you come across casual, and not desperate.
500996
I am assuming  this 'dance' was a high school dance based on everything else you said so, no, I don't think it is a big deal. However, at the high school level, or pretty much anything under the age of 25, it is a big deal to those who see it. Be careful here though!! If you have a big crush on him and he only sees you 'as a friend' you will get your heart broken when he finally tells you as such. Keep it as  friends and enjoy the comfort of a good hug until he leads you to believe otherwise. Good luck!!
695959
i guess hz really pissed at u. he probably doesnt care about the crush at all. he jst usin her to get to u
506883
Hey you missed a chance. I will suggest not to run behind him. Life is too big. If he is not interested, forget it. And allow him to concentrate on somebody. ;)
740008
You know what i actually think that you are worried too much ,and you don`t know may be you`re friend got mixed up !\nIt seems horrible now but you got to just think of the dance and just see what happens on the night !\nI think you should go to dance on friday,it`s up to you now what you want to do ,go with friends  and just don`nt go with any boy  go with a group of girls !\nThis guy is going to be there any way ,dress to thrill! I mean the full works ,go to hairdressers.dress ,everything !!!\nFeel a millon dollars ,have a big smile on you`re face ,dance all night say hello to everyone ,have so much fun !!!\nEvery guy in there will notice you ,and this guy you like, just pretend you didn`t hear any thing before,it could be that s its just gossip  been mixed up or may not be true!!Even if it is true try find a nicer boy,who says nice things to people!\nIf he seems interested on friday at the dance ,don`t seem to desperant !!!Just relax babe ,you are only 16 have fun and if this guy doe`nt seem interested ,you know !!!!his loss !!\nHave you ever heard the phrase "if you don`t love yourself ,how doyou expect others to love you "\nGood luck wee darling it will all work out!have a good time !
145713
Damn. Either you are hot or he is stupid. Just tell him he had his chance and he isn't going to get another, but he can be your friend.\n\nGo to laddertheory.com and read all of it.
171342
Or he might not know how to dace.  \n\nIt also sounds like you guys are teens sometimes teen boys don't think it's cool to dance.  They like talling to there friends.\n\nBest thing to do is talk to him about this.
767108
I don't know why he dropped the friendship, but you are acting kind of needy--almost stalking like.  take a hint, for whatever reason, he does not want to associate with you.....let it go.
299973
i thin kthat he does like you and is trying to get your attention.. maybe he was scared thats why he sed that he didnt like you.. or got nervous or somethingl..i think u shod confont him agen.. n tell him how u feel for him and tell him in a place where hes relaxed.. maybe thru msn.. or on the fone or even face to face where thers not that many ppl around.. its hard..! bt iull get thru it good luck and if it doesnt work.. it was never ment to be anyway
235587
♥Yes! tell him you like him, you like the nick name and dance with him all night!♥
245552
I can't really tell you yes he is into you, because I don't know how he acted around you, and I don't know him. What I can tell you is that if it seemed like he really had a great time and you both had fun, then maybe there is hope. I suppose if he called you to let you know he was home safe, that's a plus, because if he didn't care at all, he wouldn't of called at all. Now, about him waiting to call you, maybe he was nervous, busy, like the other person commented, maybe didn't want to seem desperate. Just give it time, and if nothing becomes of it, let it go, there are a ton of men out there waiting to meet ya! ;)
853189
He definetely got in trouble. Maybe you should slip him your number.. wise up girl!