can somebody  who has had sex tell me wat it was like?
543830
Sex is so over rated. It's so dangerous these days too with all the STD's. Gross. And if you're going to have sex, be responsible about it.
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Its good that you have waited, sex between two people that really care about each other is amazing. \n\nBe carefull, make him wear protection, choose a time when your not going to get disturbed, your both relaxed and you feel ready, for any female, it is usual to hurt at first, make him take it steady.\n\nYou will always remember you first time, make it special, take precautions and have fun
851227
I'm sure it's different for all women or girls. I lost my virginity at 18, after planning on waiting until marriage. I felt i  was ready though and that i would be treated right by the man i was with. He was very gentle and, although it was painful, especially at the beginning (i asked him to stop for a minute becuase it hurt, so he stopped, layed beside me, and petted my hair-i know, sappy isn't it?-and only continued when i assured him i was ready) and i ended up enjoying it quite a bit. I'm sure it also depends on the size of the penis and the woman. Being patient, gentle, and concerned with ONLY the woman can make a world of difference :]
226249
Sexually it was not that great. It hurt. Emotionally however it was great. I am still with the same guy and love him very much.
121345
The physical part of the pain is a burning pressure feeling deep inside your vagina.  The emotional pain far outways the physical aspect... Is he going to tell everyone?  Will we be together forever?  Is he just after P****?  What will tomorrow be like with him?  What if everyone finds out I had sex and now they think I am a sl**?
1075943
Not sure why you want to know but here's mine.....hope it's what you were after.\n\nMy husband was at home when I arrived home from work and he's cooked me a nice dinner.  I wondered what was up as he rarely did this and then I found out.  He said he had to go to work as he'd made some mistakes and needed to sort them out before his bosses got in on Monday.  He asked if I'd drop him off and pick him up - I didn't mind so agreed.\n\nI dropped him off at work and went back home.  I was sat in doors feeling rather bored so thought I would go out for some fun.  I got dressed in my clubbing outfit consisting of a black micro skirt and shimmery backless cropped top.  I then drove to town and went to one of my favourite nightclubs.\n\nI'd not been there long when a really cute guy and I got chatting and we danced together on the dancefloor.\n\nAfter a while, he asked whether I wanted to go anywhere more quiet, so I drove him back to my place where we sat outside drinking coffee.\n\nWe were just chatting when he got up and started kissing my neck - that just does it for me.....I go so weak.  He carried me indoors and we made passionate love in bed.\n\nA little while later my husband phoned and asked me to pick him up.  I dropped this guy off at his place and went and picked my husband up from work.\n\nI'd had such an enjoyable evening and finished it off with a passionate time with my husband.
53494
My first question to you is:\n\nWhy would any man compare his woman with an ex? Tacky, tacky, tacky, and HIGHLY disrespectful to you! \n\nMy second question is- do you feel adequately lubricated to enjoy sex? As long a sex isn't uncomfortable, you don't have to worry about how you compare to other women. Also, depending on where you are at in your cycle, you can produce more or less lubrication. If you are pregnant or breastfeeding, that can affect it, as can many different medications.\n\nIt sounds like *he* is the one with the problem. ;) \n\nIf you want to know more about this, I suggest picking up Taking Charge of Your Fertility by Toni Weschler, it will explain how your hormones fluctuate (in a very easy to understand way, it's not boring at all)- I haven't met a woman who has read this book who wasn't blown away by how much we are NOT taught about our bodies, and how normal we truly are!
642125
My friend told me what sex was when we were waiting at a bustop in 6th grade.\n\nBefore that I thought it was when people kissed, thats how you made babies. \n\nI was pretty suprised and he just laughed and laughed....and laughed\n\nIt was pretty funny, my facial expression musta been pretty funny. =?
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OFCOURSE IT HURTS!NOT JUST THE FIRST FEW STICKS BUT THE FIRST FEW TIMES.AFTER THAT YOU LL SEE THAT SEX IS A BEAUTIFUL THING.OFCOURSE IF YOU DO IT WITH SOMEONE WHO AT LEAST RESPECTS YOU! GOOD LUCK :)
196058
well if you have had sex u wont ask. it feels very exotic.
190442
Have you ever had sex with a stranger?\n\nHave you ever done it in a public place?\n\nWhat is your darkest sexual fantasy?\n\nHave you ever swallowed a guy's load?\n\nWould you be willing to make a girl cum using only your lips and mouth?\n\nWould you be willing to do all these things with ME??? hehehehe
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i've had sex before and yes it does feel good but i warn you, wait! it's not a good idea right now while you're not married, you'll be giving yourself away to someone you don't know is your going to be husband. I'm not very proud of what i do but sometimes you get stuck in a rut that you can't get out of. if you like it too much you'll get stuck and then you'll have a greater chance of getting STD's. Even though i don't know you i beg of you as a friend, don't do it yet! you will regret it so much after you do. You will be sore, and yes you will bleed because you're a virign and you're not used to having something up your vagina. Let me ask a question.. are you ready to be a parent? think on that. but wait! don't do it!
1021475
Yes I have and nothing happened. I was nervous for a while. I will probably never do it again because it wasn't worth the nervousness that followed. Someone told me this once and maybe it'll help answer the question of whether you should or not, " Before you have sex with someone, ask yourself if you would be willing to have a kid with them and have them as a part of the rest of your life". If you can answer yes to that, then don;t worry about it....
146014
Every girl is different. My friend told me hell yes, but in a good way. I say no, it didn't hurt. Sex is amazing, just be careful who your experiencing it with.
75686
Are you asking becuse you never had it?  Or are you asking how do you know if the other person is haveing good sex?
57769
Interesting to hear the female side of this one...I was 25 and she was my good friend at the time.  She was experienced and we were both well liquored.  Afterwards I wished I had started a bit earlier since sex is very nice.  I had one additional partner before getting married and still feel lacking technique-wise.  Looking back it did impact our relationship but after some time passed we got back to almost normal.  But the one night was not a topic of discussion (yes only one night..I don't know what I was thinking when I said we should chalk it up to experience and stop there).
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No I never have. Married twice, 2 kids, never had sex. Of course silly. Maybe that is a question for a close friend, or sister. Don't ask that kind of question here. You may get some answers you really shouldn't. Better try someone you know and trust.