Should she stay with this man with no spark?
548920
If she stays with him, she is not only hurting herself but him as well. He may be a great person but eventually she will come to resent him because he is not "the one". She is also keeping him from finding someone that really loves him and someone he has a spark with. I hope that she finds what she is looking for. I have also been one that picks the ones that don't want to commit. I wish her luck and hope whatever she decides to do it is the right choice for her!
376947
No, not if he had any feelings for her or she had feelings for him.
688528
I call it damned weird.  I would also say that this guy is being played.  He should leave the situation because she's not ready to make up her mind about what she wants.
117177
If there are no more feelings for her then why stay?  You like making her miserable, not to mention yourself?  Get on with your life so she can too
859537
Everyone has their choice for serching Mr.right .you mayn't know him unless you live with him .at that moment you should support  her feelings rether offer her any kind of  choice or opinion
531057
Depends if this guy is living with his "baby's mama". If he is then I hate to say it but your the woman on the side. If he is not with this woman then ask him what your relationship is and if there is any future.  You said you "had" a man so I take it your single now. If it goes nowhere with him then move on and find someone with less drama in there life.
1134300
Who cares if she loves you or not! Her actions scream, her words are quiet. Don't be a fool...you deserve far better than this, and if it is like this at this point, do you really think it will go anywhere but DOWNHILL ? Wise up, send her packing (I am not a hearless person and usually pick the opposite side), for this one is divorced for a very good reason...and you are finding the reason. You do NOT need to have a significant other, you will be fine on your own, and ... guess what! It won't be long before you find (0r are found) another who will appreciate all you do, all you are, and all you will be. This one will never be that person. Good luck to you both.
903607
Go with her when she meets him. If he just vanished off the face of the earth without a word, that's odd. But if they broke up and he just stopped returning her calls and moved on, that's different.\nI don't agree with her desire to revisit the past, but I suppose a compromise is you going with her. If she disagrees, I'd be ticked.
640862
What are the circumstances? military, school, internet, work,.....that will give a better answer.\nFirst she needs to know if it's worth it. is the guy faithful, honest, good to her,if he is then what's stopping them, if he's not them she should find someone closer
24016
He can be in some emotional turmoil. If that is not a case then leave him,he is not worth you
835035
I think you made the right decision. If you two love each other then things should work out. Its cool that you show the understanding that you do. That may be what she really needs from you
768742
Yes, I am sure that after 10 months of not introducing you to his friends, family, or anyone else while banging then going home to his wife/gf he must care bunches.  \nI would stay with it. It sounds like a relationship that could really go places.
308311
Go with the flow. If there is a possibility that you can get together on a permanent basis than great. If he/she is not going to leave there mate then you need to break it off and move on. Life's too short to cause yourself so much grief.
206133
I WAS DATING SOMEONE YEARS AGO. HE WAS PRETTY INTO ME. AND I COULD NOT PUT MY FINGER ON IT. I EXPLAINED THAT THERE WAS NO SPARK AND NEVER SAW HIM AGAIN. A RELATIONSHIP WITH NO SPARK IS NOT WORTH IT IN THE LONG RUN. I BELIEVE THAT THE SPARK IS EITHER THERE OR IT IS NOT. I HAVE NEVER BEEN ABLE TO CREATE A SPARK FROM WHERE THERE WAS NOT ONE TO BEGIN WITH. MUTUAL AFFECTION, AS I AM TOLD, CAN SUSTAIN MOST PEOPLE LONG TERM. I PREFER THE SPARK THOUGH:)
753623
Try to spice things up by being spontaneous, but if you honestly don't start to feel something then its time to move on. A relationship can't work if you're bored with the person, and if you are still bored after trying to be spontaneous then you should let her knoe because it wouldn't be fair to either one of you to stay in a boring relationship.
533077
This is a situation that takes lots of time and consideration. I know what you mean I'm in the same boat. I'm 23 with 2 kids and I love my husband dearly, but there is one old boyfriend who makes my heart skip a beat but I know that we weren't meant for each other or things would have happened differently. You love your husband, if you didn't you would've left him by now. The only thing that's different now is the new guy. My advice to you is not to tear up a family of 3 years just because the grass looks greener on the other side, because it never is! Women are hopeless romantics and we would do almost anything to be swept off our feet and ride off into the sunset with prince charming on his white horse. But if you were to leave this man of 3 years what would be different with the new one? Three years from now will be the same story. You have to learn how to make things in your current relationship stay fresh and vibrant. You have to keep the flame burning. When a fire starts to die you just add more wood. Not wait till it burns out and then start a new one. Trust me, if both of you work at it and you keep open and honest communication between you and your spouse you will have a relationship that is almost unheard of now a days!
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You would if you were a selfish spoiled ***hole who didn't care about anyone but herself....(not to mention spitting in Karma's face-and she can be a real *itch when she's provoked!!)  Treat your man better than that or get out of the relationship woman!! Cheating Sucks!(and I meant that literally, not physically)...