why is Penetration hard when I'm on top?
549189
When you are on top, you are in control. \nFeel yourself with your fingers and then as you straddle him take his penis and ease just the tip inside you, then gently go down on it. A womans vagina doesn't go straight up, so as he enters you, lean forward slightly so his penis is pointing towards your back. If it feels uncomfortable at first just move your hips slightly and it will ease in nicely.\n\nIf this doesn't help, try rolling over with him inside you. it is a bit tricky at first but can be mastered with practice.
278356
it depends  do you have a larger than average penis? if thats the case most overly large ones do not get completely hard, for this you can try a c*ck ring found at any adult store, if its not the case try to not stimulate to much and then see if you get harder, with absense of stimulus, also check with your doctor
234076
You have something called priapism, that means that your penis use to be many time in erect position.  Caman maybe it can be a little painful but many women and/or men would be more than happy to can suck it or be penetrated for you for hours and hours!!!!\nThink in the advantages
1163464
your penis stands because your mind released nitrous oxide and it gorges your penis with blood like a balloon.  If you're not in the mood it's hard to get a hard on.  Also if you have sex all the time it's hard as well.  And the muscle that helps your erection is located between your sack and anus.  Press on it and you'll see your penis get a little bigger.  Try flexing it, and keep it in good shape.
1129651
Don't believe everything you hear. The main thing is to be comfortable engaging in your usual activities. Besides, it isn't the position of the penis that's critical, it's those 2 nuts that can cause you lotsa pain if they are riding wrong.
139704
Well there are a few different types of positions to try (and feel great!).  Dog-gy style (from behind), start from missionary and bring your feet up to rest on his shoulders (great for penetration), you facing towards/away from him with you on your feet while he's laying down, you on your side while he holds your leg up on his shoulder with him on his knees (another great one for penetration)...and more...just experiment and make it fun!!!
1065839
I prefer me on top and in control.    Besides you can move better being on top.  When you can move better all goes well.  The other way around seems uncomfortable for the man.
973552
Your problem is the drinking.  You would not have mentioned it if it was not often. At 18 getting cozy with getting blasted is a sign of alcoholism - at least in your near future.  That is the problem.  Your penis is telling you that it, too, is drunk and it is hard to get hard when it doesn't know which way is up.  Also, the reason you can't get it up on occasion when you are about to get laid is because you need a drink so bad that your concentration goes to the booze, not the boozy broad you are about to do even though she is a sad sack herself.  So, do your penis a favor and stop the flow of blood alcohol to the head so that it won't have a hang, you should excuse the expression, over when it has to go to work.  Instead, pour some not so hot coffee on it when it is expected to perform.
378429
In my opinion,as a women,being on top is the best,but that way I can control how much and how hard "my spot" get's stimulated,and men that I have been with also preferred me on top. I guess it depends on the individual,but from my experience,we both enjoyed me on top,HOWEVER,there are other position's that are very enjoyable with the man doing most of the work. I dont believe it has to do with how hard one has to work(shouldnt feel like a job),it has to do with what feels good,and it's just, if not more pleasurable to please the other,because if they are getting turned on,that turns you on.
1176455
hi there i`m back ,\nlet  me get straight to the point !deep penetration in sex is one i consider to be the one where all of the male`s organ is totally engulfed by the vagina,and this position is when the woman is sitting ontop f the man. why? whenever a woman is in asitting position her uterus is usually pushed back and the passage is more open than any other time this allows for easier access to the opening of the vagina and deeper penetration.in this position that part of the body is more relaxed and so the muscles do not contract and tighten around the walls of the vagina .also in this position more control can be obtained as the person has freedom of movement .   if you don`t agree or believe try it for yoursel.
610599
It sounds like you may have a tilted uterus/cervix.  Same thing happens to me occasionally.  Found out from a nurse practitioner that when you engage in certain positions that have deeper penetration (i.e. "doggy style") that the penis can actually hit against the cervix.  I guess a tilted uterus is very common and most doctors never even tell the patients so as not to worry them.  The nurse suggested not to be so "rough" and try other shallower positions.  (I didn't ask, I was still too embarrassed...) Hoped this helped.
1112327
Before you find your first top, try things to learn to relax your anal muscles and see if you enjoy the sensation -- some don't.  Start with fingering and lots of lube to loosen yourself.  Work more fingers in, concentrating on relaxing. \n\nWhen you've learned to do that, work up to sex toys so that you can discover the sensations and get more penetration.\n\nThen, find an experienced top.  Let him know that you're used to topping, but want to bottom for the first time.  It will feel completely different, but you will have gained the skills to use.\n\nAnd be safe.
817566
Sometimes it isn't always the position.  Why don't you try changing the location.  The act of having sex somewhere where you are not supposed to can add tons of excitement to even the most boring of sex lives.  Make sure it is somewhere that you can't be easily seen.  good luck and enjoy
880466
It happens sometimes but you aren't naked that long.  You just grab a towel until it subsides.  Most of the time I was sort of semi hard and it wasn't that big of a problem.  Its a big fear, but just keep the towel handy and it won't b a problem.
476400
Ur g-spot recieves more direct pressure and stimulation from this position.  Have your lover try two fingers pressing toward your belly-button as well.
1036132
I would suggest using lube..and maybe you being on top so you can control how deep the penetration is...\n\nYou may bleed, but don't be scared..it is normal, but you might want to let him know that so it doesnt freak him out..but yeah I'd say use plenty of lube..and you on top for control..or him on top but let him know how far he can go..it might be a little painful the first few times...\n\nBut most of all...MAKE SURE YOU ARE READY!! make sure you are doing it because YOU want to do it and NOT becuase you are being pressured..
763591
Top or bottom is a preference. versatile is a preference. I can however speaking as a person who's had plenty of sexual partners in my time, that sometimes you have to be a bottom first before you really know how to top well. I've found at times if I played the bottom role & they weren't doing it right I'd have to flip him over & show him how it's really done. If your going to be inside me then do it right...