what should i do about my gf and her friends?
540430
You need to tell her again how you feel about doing drugs. And if she still doesn't listen then you need to get rid of her. Tell her that if she decides to stop this stuff and get help then maybe you two could get back together. She's only going to bring you down if you continue to be w/ her. Possibly give her an ultimatum. . .tell her that if she doesn't get help then you two can't be together at all not even as friends. You don't need to be around this sort of thing, because your making wise decisions by staying away from that mess. Give her some facts about drug and alcohol abuse also when you have this talk, maybe if she here's the facts from someone who cares she'll want to change. Good luck buddy I hope things work out well for you.
853857
Talk with your girlfriends.
922822
Well you could spend all your time being suspicious and continue to listen to gossip and hang out with the guys that say they are doing stuff to your girl? What the Fu-------? If you love her deal with it or leave her. She could be lying, they could be lying. Bottom line is if she is cheating on you your relationship is in trouble, if she isn't cheating she will be if you are accusing her of it all the time. Tuff problem. It is all in what you want to happen with her. I can't imagine 3 guys telling you that if it wasn't true though. Do you know the guys? Or are they strangers to you and each other. If they 3 of them know each other it is possible they are fuc-ing with you, more details is what you need. \n\nWrite out the problem, pros and cons, but whatever you do figure out one way or another what you want or it will tear your heart out eventually.
286950
I'd sit them down and tell them what you thought. ( Make sure you tell them that you mean no offense for whatever it is that you're going to say first.) Tell them that you don't like what this guy is doing to her. Try and figure out exactly why it is that she's acting like that, it could be that she's trying to change for him or she may feel that she's better then everyone else now that she's with him.If it's the first then tell her that she doesn't need to or should act like that for anyone. If it's the other then you should make it clear to her that being with this guy doesn't make her any better, she still is who she is and being with someone, no matter who it is, doesn't make a difference. If you have to you could also try talking to her boyfriend see what he thinks.
390923
If it bothers the g/f then yes it's wrong. But if she is ok with it then go. You could try to bring her with! I enjoy going to them with my b/f.
526157
I can understand why your g/f is mad. Why wouldn't you want to blow off another chick if you already have a girl friend? Just politely tell the other girl that you're taken and that nothing can happen between you both. If she doesn't get the hint, then stop talking to her and tell her to leave you alone. Make sure your gf knows that you love her and no one else. Do something special for her that you would never do for anyone else. Ur gf feels threatened. Girls are almost always insecure and think that their man will be taken away buy someone else, so just let her know that you don't want or need any one other than her.
994298
do they know that you lknoe each other\n\nhave the three of you ever met\n\nif yes then i think that its not only your gfs fault\n\nit also has sth to do with ur bf\n\nhe may have led her on\n\ntalk to your bf first and then your gf \n\nif its one sided then tell your gf to look 4 someone else \n\nand if both want each other then kick them out of your life
876829
I would jsut talk to the girl and tell her what i think is going on between them and let her decide if she wants to break up with him or not because if you cause a break up and your freind finds out she might be angry with you!
1051583
let your girl know that as much as you enjoy being with her and her friends that you want to spend some alone time with her to talk about somethings that you are not comfortable with all her friends hearing from you cause you know if there that close she will tell them anyways
588166
try going out with your friends more. be more social. I know..easier said than done. But if you want to be less paranoid of your gf, go out. And with her regularly.
216336
tell her to call her girl freinds over ... and party it up
786326
perhaps u should encourage both of you to spend some "guy friend time" and "girl friend time"... that means, you hang w/ ur friends every once in awhile, she hangs w/ her friends once in awhile, so u kinda get a breather.  also, u should encourage some activities.. like if u like sports, go for a team or group organization. if she likes art, suggest her to take some art classes.\n\njust try hard not to Upset her or make her feel as though u want to push her away.. girls are very sensitive to that, and she may feel rejected if u act like u want to spend less time w/ each other.  dont' separate and take a break, but just try to encourage her to do "girls night out" or something to that extent, so that it's not always you two. good luck~
104392
you know what i think ?\nif i where your girl friend , i think id rather you tune me out sitting on the couch for some video game ...\nthan to go off with the guys doing things i wouldnt want you to do !!!! \nhave fun with your games sweetie ,, treat you girl with respect and remind her if she dosent like the fact that you play these games for hours , that you could be some where else !\nthat sould shut her up !!  (lol)
204292
Everyone in our life has some kind of special feelings in our heart and a diff. place for everyone, so ur friends should understand ur concern to spend quality as well as quantity time with your gf but at the same time they are your friends and even they need some of your time and attention so my simple and sweet advice for you will be Spend quality(not quantity) of time with your friends and gf. Just coz you have a gf today doesnt mean that you forget ur friends and same goes visa versa so just remeber to be in touch with everyone at all times it can be just a cute hi
900351
It sounds like you are going to be having a hard time, because she is becoming distant from you, and not respecting the "no plans on Friday" agreement you have. Before things get worse you need to sit down and ask her what is going on, especially since she is going out with other girls. (It's only a problem if you are gay, your avatar is a girl so I assume you are too.) If you're a guy it's not a problem for her to be hanging out with girls. But it sounds like she is not respecting you, that is usually a sign of a break up in the near future. I would talk to her if I were you.
931635
u have put your self in a tight situation.you can not have any type of relation (sexual) with this female. remain a godfather and friend.u are talking about long time friendships and relationships.think about how badly this will affect u,girlf, gfbestf,and most important your god child!!!!!!! you need to stop putting so much taught into her. what if your girl where to find out about these foot rubs etc... Start going out  and doing some romantic things with your girl or most important communicate. Find out how she feels about the relationship but no matter what you guys may come to U CAN'T DATE THE FRIEND!!!!!    If you feel your girl is perfect my best bet would be to stay with her (the grass is never greener on the other side).
401094
Make her learn her lesson, friends are for life and they wouldn't lie to you so she should've listened to you. If you go back she is going to run to you everytime something goes wrong and when a new guy comes into the scene bye,bye to you. You are just setting yourself up to get hurt and seriously used.