why don't girls be more forward if they want to date or like you?
550324
most girl are afraid of rejection just like most guys. that or they are just shy.
134838
Some guys like the "Art of Flirtation".  They literally practice on you just to get it right.  And they LOVE that you respond to it.  \n\nOther guys are just too shy to go up and say they are interested in you, yet forward enough to actually flirt. If this is the case, you might have to ask him out.
878937
If someone had a good answer for this then the mystery that are women would be solved.  Some guys think that just because a girl is nice to them then the girl likes them.  This is not always the case, a lot of the time girls are nice just because they don't want to be mean.  If the girl flirts with you a lot and touches you a lot then she probably likes you.  \n\nMy advice is be friendly and show genuine interest in the girl you like.  But if you are only trying to get some action then you probably wont get anywhere.
237025
You're a dork.  Nothing you do can make a girl want you more.  Just be yourself is all you can do.  If that doesn't work then it wasn't meant to be.
964495
they don't because the nice guys are usually to shy to make any romantic moves. It would be best in this case for the girl to make the romantic move, if the nice guy likes her he will be eager to let it happen. If you are the nice guy then at the end of the date or night just clam up and tell the girl sincerely your are not very good at being romantic, just the fact that you admit to this will open up a few possible scenarios, 1 either she dumps your ass for not being man enough or she will giggle and initiate a move of her own, if there's a silent awkwardness just lean into her with a kiss, her reaction will say it all
860496
you seem like you are too into yourself.  try talking to guys, some guys wait for the girl to make the frist move.  i mean hell, if you live in ohio ill be happy to take you out on a date:) try to relax and be more friendly and more socialable...hope that helps
912621
WELL THEY MIGHT NOT BE THE RIGHT WOMEN FOR YOU TO ASK FOR A DATE. I THINK YOU'RE  A NICE GUY, PROBABLY YOU ARE TOO NICE FOR THEM...DON'T WORRY JUST BE YOURSELF AND YOU COULD GET ATTENTION FROM A SPECIAL ONE!!!
734847
You are young, and so are the girls you are interested in.  Right now they are going for the fun types, not the settling down types.  It might not be what you want to hear, but in love, patience is a virtue and when they are tired of being treated like **** they will notice you and it will be a war for your attention.
374268
maybe they feel intimidated. go up and talk to them show them you are interested.believe me if you are so cool as you say you are, that shy pretty girl would melt in her shoes if you would only show interest
448756
Live with it. It's not an uncommon thing anyway. Just show them respect. They may still not like you but atleast you've tried. That all there is. It makes all the difference from the girl's point of view.
777178
Well, I think you are wrong.  I tend to have the same problems.  You are too serious even in your approach.  Girls just wanta have fun.  If you approach a girl with such a straight forward attitude you'll scare her off.  Big Yes on the self-confidence though.  You need to come across like you're fun to hang out with and you're looking for others that are fun to hang out with.  Friendship first buddy.  Ask general open-ended questions then listen.  School, work, hobbies, pets, etc  LISTEN to what she is saying and don't let your mind wander.  I know what happens.  She's talking and your thinking, oh crap what do I say, she's pretty, does she like me, how do I look, how can I be funny, what do I say, oh crap... If you're not listening then you can not 'join' the conversation.  The more you talk the more you both will loosen up.
595066
Not immature, perhaps, but ignorant or insensitive. As you become close to a girl, you start getting an idea of what she's looking for (and everyone wants different things and has different priorities). This is just a guess, but maybe some guys don't allow themselves to get that close.
379033
It often takes time.  It's not uncommon for us to be friendly first and become really interested after we get to know you better.  You know, kind of like you do with guys, right?
841851
Yes, up to a point but just don't get to aggressive. It can get weird if a woman becomes too pushy. But yes it does fell nice when a woman does show that she is interested enough in you to make some moves of her own.
463306
Um, maybe it depends on the type of girl you are looking for.  I usually don't have a problem finding dates.  \n\nMy problem is in finding women who have the qualities that I want to date.
419508
Maybe the girls are too intimidated by your good looks.  Maybe they think they would never measure up.  Make sure you are extra friendly and "approachable" around women, then they'll probably be all over you.  OH, and have fun and laugh, women adore that!
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I read your comments:\n\nI'm looking to date girls to get to know them and have fun, but I'm open to serious relationships, even to marriage.\n\nJulie, I have good manners, I'm good looking, I have good hygiene, and I'm a fun person but I have no success.\nWhat is that of trying too hard?\n\nI think that you need to display for self confidence and girls will notice you.