Can staring at a blue surface greatly intensify orgasms during sex?
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Women and men? I can see how it might help some women I've known achieve orgasm more easily. One in particular had a hard time getting there because she couldn't relax enough; she couldn't breathe (Either that or I wasn't up to par...) We tried breathing exercises, which didn't really work. I wonder if staring at something, particularily something smooth and soothingly blue, might serve as a sort of meditative object, a way to focus attention and thus relax. To turn off the mind, so to speak. The mind can get in the way when you're trying to let yourself go orgasmically.\n\nAs for men, I don't know. Can men experience different levels of intensity in orgasm? I think I'll ask this question....
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Yes!\n~~~\nIt is a scientific fact (not sure where documented tho) that your brain has a sensual pleasure location that is "trained" by the source of pleasure you engage in.  So when you switch to vaginal stimulation, the brain doesn't adjust right away, but over time.  Set your priorities, but don't worry too much about it, unless she does.
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Try Ogoplex.  It makes you orgasm harder too.
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There are better ways to draw attention to your penis.  Paint it blue.
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Have an Orgasm...seriously, it works.
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May be sexual arousal.\nor\n......\n\n\nLets have a practical!
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YES IF THEY ARE VERY EXCITED.VAGINAL LUBRICATION CAN BECOME QUITE COPIOUS IF YOU ARE ORGASMING.DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT, ENJOY IT!
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AN ORGASM WILL ACTUALLY CAUSE CONTACTIONSAND PUSH EVERTHING OUT FASTER...ASK UR OB/GYN
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Yes orgasms do exist.  As a matter of fact I am oooo ahhhh slkjf  slkjd slkdj.  Wow, never mind.
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Not desensitised as such though all strong stimuli on the clitoris are likely to cause some short term numbing/dulling of sensitivity. The problem though is really about becoming dependent on strong stimulation from shower heads, mains powered vibrators or the like. If you train your body to expect and respond to strong stimuli it is likely that more gentle ones that used to be enough to cause orgasm will now be insufficient or will have to be maintained much longer than before to work. Fortunately this is not a perminant thing and easing off the strong stimulation for a few days will sort things. One good tip for the males: We found that using an Hitachi Wand on my partner's penis twice a day not only gave him orgasms but made him much better at controlling his orgasm when we have sex (he is trained to hold off from the intense wand vibrations so sex dose not over stimulate him). He can take 30 minutes or more of vigerous activity before climax where 10 used to be his limit.
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No. Actually, female orgasm increases the likely hood of becoming pregnant.
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is a blue film a film of people having sex? aside from that it is normal to want to have sex thats how we all got here so it must be fun right. just calm down and pick an activity that involves working either your mind or your body and do that instead. play soccer, knit, do puzzles like a suduko and see if you cant get your mind off of women for a bit. \n\nand if you are having eruptions without touching yourself you may want to go see a urologist. not sure if its bad or if it will hamper relations with a woman later but better safe than sorry
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Just for the record, your friend who used the line to get the girl in bed is a moron.\nAnyways, Yes. Blueballs does exist, Check this out.\n\n"Blue balls" is a slang term referring to testicular aching that may occur when the blood that fills the vessels in a male's genital area during sexual arousal is not dissipated by orgasm. \nWhen a man becomes sexually excited, the arteries carrying blood to the genital area enlarge, while the veins carrying blood from the genital area are more constricted than in the non-aroused state.\n\nThis uneven blood flow causes an increase in volume of blood trapped in the genitals and contributes to the penis becoming erect and the testicles becoming engorged with blood. During this process of vasocongestion the testicles increase in size 25-50 percent.\n\nIf the male reaches orgasm and ejaculates, the arteries and veins return to their normal size, the volume of blood in the genitals is reduced and the penis and testicles return to their usual size rather quickly.\n\nIf ejaculation does not occur there may be a lingering sensation of heaviness, aching, or discomfort in the testicles due to the continued vasocongestion. This unpleasant feeling has popularly been called blue balls, perhaps because of the bluish tint that appears when blood engorges the vessels in the testicles.
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Okay, I'm thinking back to my sex-ed classes but the stages are like desire, arousle, plateau, then orgasm.  If a guy sees something sexual, that can cause him to get aroused or get hard (ie an erection).  Forms of foreplay can do this to.  Kissing, touching.  That can all lead to arousle.  There is a pre-cum stage where some secretions come out but nothing huge yet.  I think a guy needs to be touched there, though, to experience orgasm and spilling their fluids (ejaculation).  Either with hands, mouth, or ahem...other areas.  Girls though, have their clitoris outside of their vaginal opening so that's usually all they need to achieve orgasm.  Hence vibrations, touching, smaller things can cause orgasm.  Personally, I like making out, but I need a much more hands-on approach to achieve orgasm.
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assuming you are a male,\n With increasing intensity of the sexual stimulus, the reflex centers of the spinal cord begin to emit impulses that leave the cord to the genitals and initiate emission, which is the forerunner of ejaculation. Fluid from the vas deferens, the prostate, the ampulla, and the seminal vesicles (and even more tiny glands) are propelled into the internal urethra by contractions of the groin muscles*. The filling of the internal urethra elicits signals that are transmitted through the pudendal nerves from the spinal cord. Increases in pressure in the urethra cause the semen to be propelled to the exterior, resulting in ejaculation! The period of emission and ejaculation is termed male orgasm. After ejaculation erection ceases within 1 to 2 minutes in most males.\n  female\n An orgasm is an emotional and physical experience that occurs during a “sexual response cycle”. Before an orgasm, your body becomes increasingly excited. Breathing, heart rate and blood pressure increases. The pupils of the eyes dilate; the lips of the mouth darken, the nipples become erect, the clitoris swells, becomes hard and exposed, (much like the aroused penis). With increased excitement, the skin becomes flushed and it begins to sweat. In women, the labia, clitoris, vagina and pelvic organs enlarge in very much the same way as the aroused penis enlarges. Sometimes there is a plateau of excitement which is held for several minutes before you are about to orgasm.
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Yes, they do. It's actually illicited by stimulating the prostate gland and can be reached by inserting a finger in his anus. \n\nHypothetically speaking, if he were laying on his back and you were facing him you'd want to go up about two inches and make a "come hither" (as if motioning for some one to "come here") gesture with the finger. That stimulation will actually lead to the most intense orgasm a man is capable of having.\n\nTwo warnings, though. First, if searching for it you want to be very gentle. If you happen to hit the g-spot with too much pressure, it can be painful. Second, although all men supposedly have it, they may not necessarily enjoy its stimulation. The key there is communication. Best of luck!
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According to Kinsey, only 15-25% of women can reach orgasm through penetration alone, so, she's not too weird...\nTry a simultaneous G-spot/or@l, see if that works...