what do you think about friendship between a girl and a boy..?can it be a real friendship???
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Chris Rock said it best when he said every guy friend you've had since you were 13, you got cause they were trying to sleep with you.  That might not totally be true, but in most cases one of the friends likes the other as more than a friend.
279502
It's purely impossible, kid. She would have to start trusting him, even though it would be difficult to.\nBut with out trust you don't friendship and with out friendship you will never have anything else.
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I think just keep making small talk with him.  Becoming his friend first may lead to a closer relationship with him.  It sounds like you're showing interest without being too pushy.  A lot of guys like a girl that is challenging and has her own interests.  I'm glad to hear that you don't want to change your style or compromise your moral beliefs to earn attention from a boy.  \nAnd by the way, congratulations on losing weight.  I know it's one of the hardest things in the world to do.  :O)
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How will this information benefit you and your friendship?\n\nIf it won't benefit you and your friendship with this girl, then ...\nyou don't really need to know.\n\nThe friendships we make are an implication of how we feel about ourselves. If you can't be a friend to someone else...that says a lot about you.\n\nbe careful...be thoughtful...and be kind
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it's ok, girl! life goes on. see if there might be another boy out in the world you like..\nbut if this keeps happening (which i really really doubt that is possible), MAKE UR MOVE!! dont be shy, MAKE HER LOOK BAD!! unless she's like your best friend, or something, but try talking to him a little bit! \notherwise, idk what to do...
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girl friendship is about emotions
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I know in the movie When Harry Met Sally the whole theme is that men and women can't be friends.  I think it's something everyone thinks deep down because men seem to be way more interested in sex than in meaningful friendships.  I don't believe this.\n\nYes, a friendship can blossom into something much more, but it's also quite possible for men and women to just be friends.  I have had several male friends, and while at some point they'll admit they've considered me for dating, they enjoy just being my friend. If you have enough in common and  don't flirt (and give eachother the wrong impression) it should work out fine!\n\nYou just need to know the boundaries and the difference between friend and lover.
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never let a boy get in the way of  a good friendship so i think that they both should just leave him alone and find someone else.......but if the other ghurl doesnt mind letting her go out wit him then let it be that way....
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ugh. thats reallly tricky. its sorta against the "friendship code" yeah....but it just depends on whether the friend hes been with cares and how close you and her are.....and if she's fine with it, then go for it....and if she's not....you have to judge on ur own how important that friendship is to you.
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Sure they can.  They can be the greatest of friends and stay totally platonic.  I think this is a decision that they have to make together and put their friendship first.
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Friendship is just as sacred as any other relationship, and need continous work. Talk it over, forgive eachother forwhatever...and go on.
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I had a best friend like this.. you want to know her trick...??  She puts out, or promises to.. don't be like her, you are better than that.\n\nMy friendship with her ended because I became aware of how she interacted with boys, and I didn't want to be labeled as her friend since I didn't want to be labeled as loose..\n\nJust my opinion.. but still...
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Are you sure she feels that way?\n\n   Tell her how you feel, how much the friendship means to you. \n\n   Maybe I'm missing something, this seems too easy. No offense, but don't females just love to talk, especially about feelings?
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Cutiangel,\n\nAfter reading your question, it is clear that neither you nor these girls are truly friends with each other.  Cut your losses now, I understand that even though these girls are not your “true friends” it will be difficult to end the “friendships.”  However, by finding people with good hearts, that have things in common with you, you will also find true friendships that can last a lifetime.\n\nI would also like to share with you a few quotes about friendship that I feel are inspiring:\n\n"True friendship multiplies the good in life and divides its evils.  Strive to have friends, for life without friends is like life on a desert island…. to find one real friend in a lifetime is good fortune; to keep him is a blessing."\n\n“There’s a miracle of friendship that dwells within the heart, and you don’t know how it happens, or where it gets its start, but the happiness it brings you always gives a special lift.  And you realize that friendship is God’s most perfect gift.”\n\n"A true friend knows your weaknesses but shows you your strengths; feels your fears but fortifies your faith; sees your anxieties but frees your spirit; recognizes your disabilities but emphasizes your possibilities."\n\nGood luck and Warmest Wishes,\nDeeDee_NY
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Let her date him.  Things like this happen.  Boy/girl friends come and go, but friendships can last a lifetime.
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not unless you think it will work between the two of you. if you care and he's your friend wouldn't you feel awful for leading him on and hurting him? maybe you just think of him like a brother or something.
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This is probably not what you want to hear, but yes.  I never thought so until I had friends like this.  I have had some of the most amazing guy friends ever!  And they're really good looking, nice, funny, smart...and we just never thought of each other in that way.  It's the most incredible thing...if you have a relationship like this, embrace it.  Getting to know about the opposite sex through friendship is the best way to do it.