How can I get girls to become attracted to me instead of vice versa??
549262
Attraction is a fascinating thing. Even grown women are usually attracted to a man who reminds them of their dad, if she was close to him. If you don't physically look like her dad, then you will have to spend enough time with her to accidentally do something which reminds her of her dad, or a favorite brother in her life, etc. It is all about time spent together. If you belong to a club or sport, or work where you have to communicate "on business issues" with girls, that gives them a chance to see who you are.\nOn a more superficial level, girls like a neat appearance, and good smells (if it's not an aftershave overdose.) Grooming can't hurt. They also like to see that you are a happy person who won't have a bad mood that will rub off on them. If you are positive to everyone, including other guys, they won't be afraid that you might be critical toward them. Girls have just as much fear of rejection as guys do.
482463
Don't run behind them. Let them be free, if they were yours they will certainly come back or else they were never yours. So to attract the girls stop looking at them. You know these silly beauties get really frustrated if somebody does not puts attention towards them. So my dear friend to attract some girl don't get attracted towards her.
951527
Well first of all it should come naturally if she's nice and cute and not dirty or slutty I don't think she would have a problem attracting them.\n\nShe just can't act like one of those girls that try so hard and make them selves look stupid in front of boys.\n\n\n:)\n\n\nI hope this helped.
211683
Maybe you just need help with getting your foot in the door with women your attracted to, it sounds like your friend has a PHD on how to do this, get a few pointers from him, just you can beat him in the long run if you think you know how to keep a girl when you get a girl. Maybe you just need to brush up a little bit on how to start good conversations with girls and keep them wanting more, talk to your friend, just treat the girl right once you get her attention, it sounds like thats all he doesnt know how to do. And in the long run thats what women want the most.
668080
well,remember that everyguy is defferent, but we all like hot chicks no matter what a hot chick will turns us on just by being hot. there are some qualitys that me and my friends search in a girl:they have to have preety face, they have to be unique at dressing, be social and frendly, easy outgoing and sweet ...\nwell just being ur self, but it depends on the guy u like, try to adjust at the type of guy u like .
725110
Dude even though I do not know you - you are not ugly. That is the first thing your self-image is your problem. Sort yourself out! If you do not like your own look and you own self then girls are not gonna feel you confident vibe and thus not notice you. Be more confident!! Be youself your true self will be attractive enough to some girl some day.
774106
Maybe you are just not attracted to her. It takes more than good looks to be attractive, you know.\n\nIf you're still interested in trying, perhaps you could gently explain to her that you feel like you're doing all the work and would prefer if she looked alive. Some girls don't think they have to do anything in bed... just lay there and be a passive sperm receptacle. You need to encourage her to get into it. (Then again, maybe she's not into it at all and you're just not turning her on?)\n\nIf that doesn't work, just face it and accept that you two are just not sexually compatible.
505513
Im sure you will find a girl who like you the way you are. Have tried dating sites? There are plenty of girls looking that might be interested. Good luck!!!
913290
You've just gotta be patient, the perfect lady for you will notice you :)\nForcing things will just make you seem desperate, which will put ladies off.  Spending time making new friends, meeting new people and trying new things out - hopefully this will lead you to a girlfriend :)\nThe more people you meet, the higher the chance of meeting one who likes you!
885801
Sorry, but you cannot make anyone love you.  If she wants your friend, you are not going to be able to convince her that she wants you instead.  Besides, if you introduced the two of them, presumably you wanted them to like each other.  It would be really sh-tty of you now to try to undo that.\n\nAll you can do at this point is to stand by and let things run their course.  People tend to forget that all relationships end at some point.  (Well, if you are lucky, you find one that doesn't, but all the others do.)  So, stand back, be supportive of your friend and the girl, and wait to see what happens.  Almost certainly, they will fizzle out somewhere along the line.  If you stay friendly, but on the outside, she may eventually look at you again, and discover that there is a really cute, nice guy that she overlooked.\n\nGood luck!!
374330
Be willing and prepared to change.  You have to become a completely different person than you are right now.  Whatever attracts you to the other person will eventually drive you nuts.  And vice versa.  So if you like yourself, don't commit to a long term relationship.
612784
Just keep telling her that you love her, show her that you are attracted to her.  Women are very self-critical.
537334
Be yourself!\nYou don't need to change.\n\nIf they like you, then there you go.\n\nYou've got to also let them know you want a girl who keeps it real ALWAYS!\n\nDon't date the "girlie" girls. They're full of "DRAMA"!\nDate a girl who has a good head on her shoulders, or an athlete. Go for a girl who wants something out of life.\n\nGirlie girl: always worried about her looks, alway needs a nail job, always wants to shop "for herself", always says "anyways","what ever", "that's hot", etc., always gossips about people, wants you to do everything she asks, well i hope you get it! \n\nGood luck dude!
420517
youd probably get a few tips out of them but id say try and follow your heart..if you like the look of a girl just be nice toward her,be charming and sweep her off her feet...lol...
1145067
Be verry confident in yourself, if you have to ( think like your crap dont stink) works every time. One other thing DO NOT aproach a girl you like when shes with her friends. They will eat you alive like a pack a wolfs. The girls know what im talk'in about.
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1. attractive personality attract girl friends\n2. attractive personality attract your girl friends\n3. if possible talk about that with your girl friend\n4. just keep it up with your attractive personality\n5. if she's not comfortable with that & you dont want to loose her then you need to sacrifice in any way.\n6. best of luck
1111044
BE YOURSELF AND THEY WILL COME TO YOU!!! dont try to act cool!! cuz girls notice that kind of stuff!!!