best friends.. can they become lovers?
540348
yes, bestfriends can become lovers...i even think that it's actually better because you know each other really well, you care,trust and respect each other and you have the strongest bond: love... i think that you may not have heard from him because he is as confused as you are...he doesn't know if what he did was right and if you feel the same way for him...this kind of thing can be confusing, you see...you want to have this relationship but you're both so scared that if something goes wrong, you lose the friendship you have...since you love him too, i suggest that you do the thing that you said you didn't want to do: confront him...he did the first step of telling you how he feels...it's your turn now...tell him you feel the same, tell him you're scared too but if you talk about it, you cand find a solution together...tell him you don't want to lose your best friend even if things might not go the way you want them to...tell him that you want that 2nd kiss too...hehe!good luck!i hope you work this out... ^_^
805528
well if its your best friend then deffentily NO! And it depends if u like him a lot and think about your realtionship with your friend!
254106
sure they can.specially if it wasnt that good,cuz u wouldnt be thinking of each other romantically
776977
a best friend is someone who you can share everything with your past your present your future ideas........everything.....your future ideas may or may not include your best friend but a best lover is someone with whom you see your future......your future ideas have him in it........u may not be able to tell everything to your lover........but a best friend is someone who is happy when you are happy who is sad when you are sad..........there is no romantic involvement with your best friend......when you look into his/her eyes you know that you are just their friend but in case of a lover just looking into their eyes give you goosebumps......but anywhere down the line....best friends become best lover too...........that's beautiful..........
81376
Tell him you love him, respect your differences and don't try to change his beliefs to match your own.  And be prepared to lose your best guy friend, because once you become lovers it is very difficult to salvage the friendship if the relationship doesn't work out. Remaining friends after being lovers happens sometimes, but not often.
103333
I agree. They're friends. But they are growing up, so who knows what may come to turn friendship into romance
377703
Yeah, I totally have a crush on my bestfriend's boyfriend, he's so hott!  U handle the situation by being a good friend don't do anything, not like i would ever get the chance, but friends first.
721370
UNLESS you are the best friends ideal woman true love soul mate ETC you are quite screw, male frindships especialy best friends are way too close and sharing a woman is not unheard of , you might make then fight for a while but in then end they will be friends again , and you will end up loosing bouth of them plus you will become the bad one of the story \nSO if you you really really like they guy , brake up on friendly terms with your boyfriend and wait out a until your boyfriend finds someone else , then make your move , most likely the best friend will ask his Buddy if is ok with him (keep in mind that for him to do so he must really liked you  way past any phisical attraction , otherwise he wont bother do so ) \nNOW  if is phisical attraction just plain sex what you want , is easer to go for the 3 some , deal and make it think it was his idea, that might work , if all you want is to scrach an ich \nNOW commun sense would be no to do anything , most likely whatever you do you will be the one that ends up hurt and alone , and you dont need that , the choices above are just choices but it dosent mean they are the correct ones ,\nI understand how can someone end up liking someone close to their parther it happends all the time  but when you are considering acting on it , maybe and just maybe instead you should be wandering what is missing in your relationship , and see if you can work at it or move on , but dont get yourself into a mess
550180
Sure they can.  They can be the greatest of friends and stay totally platonic.  I think this is a decision that they have to make together and put their friendship first.
38735
It is possible, but not very...  Most men and women that become friends usually end up sleeping together or developing feelings for one another in the long run.  I would recommend against it...
989667
It's very common that best friend turns to be lovers. You should find out that your best friend is love you or just want to be friend. You know. Love is a two way channel, it invloves two persons. If only one-way, it is not love\n\nGood luck\n\nJoyce
898873
You've got to be absolutely sure its GOING to work before you jump into that.\n\nOtherwise, you'll end up losing the love and friendship of your best friend.\n\nI'm serious... think about it and ask yourself, "Is it worth losing a friend?"
127172
There is always a risk in this situation and only you can decide if it is worth it.  One way to get a hint about your best friends feelings might be to joke with them about the idea or claim you heard someone talking who thought you two were together.  Maybe what they say from there will open up a dialog that will give you a chance to figure things out.
295672
Yes you can lose your heart on your best friend. But sometimes it works out and other times it doesen't. To me I wouldn't do it cause it will be hard to get that friendship back the way it was before. Example is Dawson and Joey. Remember she didn't choose her best friend in the end.
461256
Look: there are two ways: talk to her, see what she feels.\nConsequence: A good friendship might be destroyed\nOr you will lose a friend and gain a soulmate(surely you're in advantage)\nBut it is not healthy for you two to just be best friends, if you say you love her. Trust me I've been there. And maybe she loves you to but she may lack the courage to say it.\nMy opinion: go ahead-stop torturing yourself with this good friendship-it's a fake(nothing good will come of it) tell her, gently and carefull what you feel. It worked for me !\nReally, you have nothing to lose. It is better anyway that she knows what you feel about her ! May God help you in your whish !
568311
they aren't real friends to save .. they you shouldn't save them as friends .. skip them and try to friend real best friends
522944
Its ok to fall in love with your best friend. I think it can possibly make the relationship stronger because it already has a foundation. I married my best friend....