why do women after the age of 40 get the urge for sex all the time?
551357
WE ARE JUST STARTING TO BLOOM AT THIS AGE. EVERYTHING STARTS MAKING SENSE AND WE ARE MORE SURE OF WHAT WE WANT OUT OF LIFE, AND MORE SEX IS ONE OF THEM
559432
Yeah i agree, since i turned thirty all i do is think about sex and i have more sex now than i've ever had. I guess that's because i'm a lot more confident about my body. I have also tried new things out that i would never have dared to before.
1061651
I believe women reach their sexual peak by 40 yrs old.\n\nI traded mine in for 2 twenty-year olds and let her have her fun!
358221
This is not always true. But to answer your question there is a Biological basis for the high sex drive exhibited by  a lot of males (esp. younger males). This is explained by "survival of the fittest" theory. The stronger males in nature are driven to compete for 'mating' rights, thus ensuring that the stronger male genes are passed on. The more 'qualifying' (meaning compatible, healthy etc) females that this type of male can mate with, ensures that he has the best possible chance of securing his geneology for future generations. It has been proven, that a males sex drive will increase substancially when presented with 'many' suitible mates, compared to if he is only 'offered' 1 mate. Hense why the temptation is very strong for men to 'cheat'. The only thing that prevents, or curbs this instinct, is integrity,maturity and commitment to the woman/girl who he feels the strongest about.  Hope that helps
665167
Uhm, sorry but you're wrong. After menopause, they regain sex drive, but many are in commited relationships and their men have no sex drive or are unable to perform.
203383
Why would that be weird?  Are you saying women can't have frequent sex urges?  Women just control them better than men!\n\n;)
555951
Nope! I speak from experience! (I am 65). Actually guys reach their peak in their late teens...for gals it's usually about the mid 30's. This can vary with the individual of course...but for most of us it's true. There is a VERY slow decline after these peaks but most people can remain sexually active throughout their lives (yeah Viagra helps for many of us older guys!). Of course people can become more sexually active in later years just because the opportunity presents itself. An older dude can find a younger woman is attracted to him for instance (maybe because of his money, maybe something else!) and he could find himself do more f--ing than he did in his twenties. For myself, I needed sex release through intercourse, oral sex or (lots of!) masturbation  at least once a day in my teens and twenties, 4 or 5 times a week in my thirties and forties and still 2 or 3 times a week in my 60's. I still think about sex every day even if I don't jack off every day as I did as a teenager. What I am getting at is it is a VERY SLOW decrease in sexual desire over the years. Nothing to worry about at all!
1186308
Well you are absolutely right on that one!  I am 57 but still appreciate everything that you mention above.  The 'pervy' attitude comes from younger people who simply don't have the imagination and foresight to sense how they will feel say in twenty to thirty years or so.  But age they will and suffer the same predujice that you talk about.  I look on it as akin to children being spiteful in the playground ...  their maturity to accept their actions can only come later when they are able to see 'the other side'.\nBut for now I guess we will just have to continue appreciating the female form in quiet .... keeping those 'pervy' remarks at bay!
1023608
Hate to tell you honey, but not all of us beautiful women crave attention, we just get it...When I was younger (16-25) it got so bad, I stayed at home a lot.  It was just too overwhelming..  My girlfriends wouldn't even go out on the town with me, because it drove them crazy too.  I'm older now, have had a few babies, married 17 years, but even still if I go to the grocery store in sweat pants and a ball cap, I get more attention than I like.  The real question should be, Why do Men think all attractive women are looking for sex?
701305
I've always heard there are physiological reasons, hormone levels and such, but I don't know a whole lot about that.  \n\nI think most women over 30 have lost that worry over what they guy is going to think and enjoy themselves.  I mean, lets face it, if a woman is enjoying themselves during sex, what man is going to not enjoy that???  \n\nAlong with that, comes a willingness to experiment.  Just how far that willingness goes depends on the women, but I think even the most conservative of us are more adventurous at 30 than we were at 20.
693854
ok when you are 13-21 youremotional about relations, you want to exp. love and I know that youve been thru or seen boys act like jerks, b/c love hurts and this is when all they care about is their tool when the girls want a lovin b/f. then they start to loose there sex drive late20's early 30's about the time  you girls like sex or love a lot more at the oppisite time (who says god dosent have sense of humor).well so we NEED emotionallly While you need to get your groove on. But guy's will never admit this(I'm a guy) Ha.ha. but really around the time your desire goes up around35-40 all we want is a wife and kids or nokids but to be loved. men are great at looking like teflon b/c we are young and virile then when we start to see grey, baldness and the worst erectile dys. we get MIDLIFE CRISIS and buy what kids would buy to make us younger (thats shallow) If your woman loves you she loves YOU! aBMW never fixes things ,but we feel it does. Hair can be died pills can make their tool work so your right they look virile and new but believe me many men over 50 cannot get it up and you gals from35-50 are sexcrazed. Your right \nthat men can have children for life. and yes I think many religions accomadate this behavior. but believe you me. most men Its hard to see our soft little underbellies. and we get hair transplant we do what ever work out to keep this picture in our head of us in the mirror @16-21 the good years. It helps now that men dont work in the sun anymore well as much. Im not lady but dont shun my answer Im the rare one that'll tell you about us.you have a still virile man or you exp. show you men are virile ya my grandpa was a sneek. some never die sexually even at 70 but menopause if medicated thereafter you can still enjoy sex when I say meds I mean to keep up estrogen intake as well as a little test. But by the way have you been watching big love. J/k
142939
Female anatomy and hormones work very differently from male anatomy and hormones...I'm sure you've probably figured this out by now.  It's really more of an evolutionary force than anything else.  To put it bluntly, men need to spread their seed and the male brain is programmed to desire sex as often as possible to procreate.  If a man does not have sex or does not msturbate after a few days...we ejaculate in our sleep.  That's how strong our programming is.  So yes, having the ability to be turned on quickly is normal for a man.\n\nNow for a women, their sexual appetite is more closely tied to their emotional state above all else.  You've obviously clued onto this since you know what you have to say and do to get to and past foreplay.  Again, a women's programming is directly related to evolution as well.  They can't just strip off their close and have sex like men.  Most need to know that a relationship may be possible.  They need to hear kind words and things that make them feel secure according to their emotional state. They're looking for a nurturing man than could suitably care for their offspring.  And they need to be emotionally free of their minds to function well sexually.  That's why most women don't enjoy sex after a certain age...then tend to worry too much about everything, whereas men....anytime...anyplace...anywhere will do.\n\nAlso, a lot of women are really out of shape these days and that definitely affects their sex drive among other things.\n\nMy best advice to you is to not deceive them.  If you can't be honest, you'll never build a strong foundation for a relationship.  Enjoy yourself when your young, but as you age the "wine-dine-bang-run" technique should be quickly abolished for success in your relationships\n\nHere's a great link for more info.\nhttp://preventdisease.com/yourhealth/sexualhealth/sexualhealth.html
399207
it has to do with hormones fluctuating and the body craves different nutriets to suplement. This is in most womens cases for a lot of younger women they see older women get away with and use it as an excuse.
1145665
No. Many women find the end of their reproductive years sexually invigorating because they no longer face the risk of pregnancy. Plus, regular sexual activity for postmenopausal women improves vaginal lubrication and elasticity after estrogen declines. However, menopause can bring bodily changes that contribute to arousal, and in turn, orgasm problems. Low estrogen levels can cause vaginal dryness, thinning of vaginal tissues, reduced blood flow to the genital area, and reduced vaginal sensitivity that can contribute to arousal and, in turn, orgasm problems. Postmenopausal women often find the arousal phase of the sexual response cycle takes longer, or is less intense.
90436
Women in their 40's often to experience a drop off in their sexual drives. They are often concerned about getting pregnant at a time when they are moving on past the childbearing years and concerned that if they get pregnant there will be a high risk of genetic defects. They are also experiencing a decline in physical energy compared to their younger years. Considering these factors, the lack of interest is probably not related to the relationship so much as her own body's aging. However, intimacy is much more than what happens in the marriage bed. It is what happens through the day. Improve that, and you will inevitably improve both emotional and physical closeness.\n\nYou need to consider your wife's personality. If you are not sure, research love languages. There is a book by that title if you cannot find any onformation on the net. Basically, some people feel best loved when given things. Others feel loved best through words spoken. The third type feel most loved by spending time with them. The last type feels loved through gifts of service.\n\nFor my type of personality and age (I am 42), a racy sex toy would not be a turn on. I would feel like the gift was a shout saying let's skip real intimacy and get to the sex part. Intimacy to me is based on an emotional relationship as first place. My love language is time. One on one time doing activities that are out of the ordinary to everyday life would draw me closer. A hand in hand walk through the neighborhood, a surprise candle-lit dinner, being beside me in the work of the day around the house, etc.\n\nIf you speak the language your wife needs, I am sure intimacy will increase. As conversation allows a natural discussion of it, communicate what language you like best. It will make her feel good to be filling your emotional love needs too.
1043599
old people rarely get horny .. and if at all this happens, they are old enough to handle it ... I guess ...:)
834892
I believe I have as much sex drive as any man I know.  Traditionally that has been looked down upon in society.  I would say the difference may be that men can have sex without any emotional attachment.  Women can do that for a short time but eventually our emotions get the best of us and we want more.\n\nAs a woman I certainly have the advantage of multiple orgasms and my lover needs to refuel.  \n\nMen reach their sexual peak in their 20's, women get more and more sexual with age.  Hence the growing number of women seeking younger male companionship.  Where as a man with a younger woman has a trophy and she had a big expense account.   He's using Viagra to keep up with her and doesn't realize the viciousness of his cycle. \n\npeace