i'm having this poblem with my baby daddy i really love him,but i know he cheats.we still mess around?
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I REally THINK YOU SHOULD LEVE HIM,i KNOW YOU MAY LOVE HIM,BUT AS HARD AS IT IS,IT'S GONNA RUIN YOUR BABY'S LIFE EVEN MORE IF YOU STAY WITH A GUY THAT HAS MANY CHICKS,AND THE BABY GROWS U HAVING 4 MOMMAS!yOU DONT want that sweety,leva ehim,there are better guys that will love you and your baby in hands...This guy is not worth it..Maybe all he wnated was to mess around with you..Unfortuantely.\n  But,he wont stop,all guys say they will stop for their baby,and most keep cheating...LEAVE HIS *** and dont regret it!Dont return to him,and always be happr that your baby didnt grow up with a father that will teach her/him to cheat and do bad things!!!Good luck sweety!
1031455
All this dancin' around. Good grief. You'll drive yourself nuts going through all this...and for what? Forget about all this tricky stuff Just let it happen...trust yourself...but not necessarily him. If you find yourself wondering about his wandering eyes...bail.
697846
Girl i was in the EXACT same situation!!!!!lol.I went with my gut and i went with the good guy.....my baby's father showed his true colors and cursed me out,and that's when the simply fact of him changing was fount out to be a lie!I thought to myself,my good guy would NEVER do that.....we've been in situations that we were going to stop talking,and a curse word never even left his mouth.....go with the good guy....baby fathers never change.....trust me in a couple months when he's still in his dirt,you'll be kicking yourself for letting a good thing go.
83556
If you are that concerned, you should just call even if his Dad is scary.  You aren't going to be satisfied until you find out whats going on...so just do it...or have a friend call.  If you truly believe he is cheating, than you should probably just count your blessings and move forward.  Sometimes people ask questions but, they really don't want to hear the answer. DON'T LOOK FOR ANSWERS YOU DON'T WANT TO HEAR...SAVE YOURSELF THE HEARTACHE AND BE THANKFUL HE JUST MOVED ON.  GOOD LUCK AND ALWAYS BE TRUE TO YOURSELF FIRST, THEN YOU WILL BE ABLE TO DETERMINE WHAT AFFECTS YOU AND WHAT DOESN'T.
1152521
Truthfully, it comes down to a morals issue. Can you be with & stay with a man that has cheated on you? You need to ask yourself, Will he do it again? You have to be able to live with the decisions you make. If you think he's going to flake or not be there in 2 yrs, then you & your kids are better off not relying on him. He can still be in the kids lives, but you will need to step out & find another man who treats you the way you deserve.
817989
well...ur situation is just like mine now..lol\njust think carefully....do u still wnat this relationship to continue?
587678
Don't fight with him. Ask him calmly why he is still in touch with her. If he becomes evasive or gets defensive, then you have cause to be suspicious for he IS hiding something then. If your suscipion is confirmed, then decide what you want to do next. If you still love him, tell him so and ask him to choose - you & your daughter or her. If he is undecided, I see no point in holding on to someone who doesn't really love you fully.
376230
well obviously he doesn't feel the same for you, otherwise he wouldn't be cheating.  Cut your losses and move on!
761085
say goodbye and move on.  Sounds to me he's obsessive about it and this isn't a good thing.  For all you know he could even be watching child porn....be concerned for your daughter and get out of this relationship.
350985
So Im assuming the baby is this other guys? If so, I would look at the situation. Is this guy going to be a father to this child? And can you accept that she cheated on you in the first place? If you know that hes not going to be around as a father and you are love her and are going to be with her long term, why not stay with her and raise this baby. But if you cant get over her cheating on you and she is wanting to be with this other guy, you should get out while you can. Its only going to get ugly.
1016985
If you disagree on what constitutes cheating, you should leave him.  The more you love him the more his cheating is going to hurt.  Take the big hurt now, rather than taking it in medium sized doses frequently over a long period of time.  Walk away.
255032
Get a restraining order!  Sounds like a stalking situation to me!  I know he is your babys father but let him know- LEAVE ME ALONE its not gonna happen bubba!  Good Luck with your new man!  were u two married or just a boyfriend?
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Wake up honey.  If he wanted to be with you, he would have NEVER gotten his soon to be baby mama pregnant....he would have NEVER cheated on you.\n\nLooks to me like you're willing to settle for left overs and sloppy seconds.  You think you have problems now, just wait until that baby is born.\n\nDon't you think you deserve better?  Girl, kick him to the curb and move on with your life.  You don't need a looser like him in your corner.  Better to loose 2 years than 10 or 15 years in a bad relationship that's never going to go anywhere.  \n\nHe's made his decision.  He got another woman pregnant and is spending more time with her.  Now it's your turn to make a decision.  Cut him loose and move on girl!!
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Honestly, this probably won't turn into a big problem.  Most Dad's will find something wrong with their "little girl's" boyfriend.  Just keep being yourself around him, be polite, and abide by his rules.  Most importantly, treat his daughter with respect...you will eventually win his.
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Once a cheater, always a cheater.\n\nYou do not deserve sloppy seconds.  The baby can be DNA tested, and if it is his, then he will be supporting that child for the next 18 years.\n\nDo you see yourself celebrating that baby's birthday every year and being HAPPY about it?\n\nSay goodbye and move on!  You deserve better!
138079
i think he's gotta commitment problem. if u go w/ him, he shows signs of being a potential cheater. go 4 someone else! u can do better.
27270
not to make the father out to sound bad but i would be a little worried as well. check the child for signs of abuse. make sure they know that it's okay to tell you anything even if you have to make up a little game to play (i.e. get them to tell a toy what they do on the weekend with daddy). like i said i don't want to make an innocent man sound bad but they arent' always innocent. if my child behaved that way i would not let them see the father again until i knew for damn sure why. check it out.