my friend is loving his cousin,she only proposed first,now my friend is in trouble,give me solution?
554430
Well, by reading your completely unintelligible question, I'm guessing that inbreeding is running in your family anyway.  So, what the heck.
76252
Talk it over with her. You have to. She is family. You both need to solve this.
764547
Hey listen to yourself. Is this the confusion you need. Let your friend solve her own problems and your should find another guy and leave the triangle. It could become the Bermuda triangle and guess who will suffer?
628692
Get over it. \n\nhow old are you two? you did not explain what do you mean by cousin and where in india you live.\n\nin north India you can not marry your first, second or even fifth cousin. it is agaist law. and marriage between cousins is not good even geneticlly.\n\nshe is your sister and it is incest. nobody dies without each other. that is childish notion.\n\nA marrriage or any long term  relationship needs too many other things to survive besides infatuation or lust. The effect of your romantic relation with your cousin will start to affect both of your lives.\n\nIt is against rules of society.\n\nIt is agaist the Civil law.\n\nIt is against genetics and not scientific relationship.\n\nwherever you go sooner or later this relation will deteriorate. forget others if you have children some time in future even they will come to know your blood relation with each other. will you allow your chidren, a brother and sister to carry on, if they say the same thing you are saying now?\n\nGet some help . both of you.
461936
i feel your pain. i'm crazy about a blood cousin aswell. Dont feel bad. you cant help who you fall in love with. Tell her so that she can know what you're feeling and so that she can undersand why you do certain things a certain way when she's around. Tell her you love her, but dont react to what the love is telling you to do. make her understand that you cant help yourself and make sure that you keep your distance because after all, cousins make dozens.\nsave your family the shame... i did, and we're happy.
1058555
this is my story I also fell in love with my best friend after years of friend ship! One day my cousin that at that moment was going out w/his brother told me to tell him that i needed his advice that i was in love with one of my best friends and didn't know how to tell him. he told me to tell him the next week after a long conversation on phone before he hang up i said the 3 words! He called back and ask what did you say i told him nothing have to go! the following week he came and nervously told me the same now we are engage and getting married next July. What I'm trying to tell you is to have fun that day tell him you need his advice on some thing at the end of the day face it! If he says no well you tried and you will leave him thinking he may give you a call later on! I don't think he will forget that day if you make it fun and exiting believe me a guy want someone that gets along and that is fun to be with someone to talk to and shares things in common and after a wonder full day he wont forget you. FOR SOME REASON YOU TWO ARE STILL FRIENDS!!!!
77986
I don't think bringing it up suddenly with a direct proposal or a phone call would work. It'd probably be really awkward and screw up your relationship (and if this happens to you, try to say "Just kidding" or something like that to wipe the shocked expression off of her face). Instead, go really slow and subtle about it. Cross the border between friendship and romance real slowly. Make it clear to both of you that you both have ascended to another level without declaring it out loud.
322635
First of all, you should find out who she is. maybe it's his sister? daughter? Just a Friend? Tell him you love him, and say it in a way, that he believes you. If he doesn't know u love him, maybe he doesn't love you or doesn't know if he does. You are a good friend, but she should get yahoo. You can get it free, if you have a different primary isp and search for yahoo on line. I did that in the past. Being that the question is from your friend, might you be the other girl? Yes, it can be hard, but you need to make the effort to tell him, unless you want to feel miserable or find another guy. Take it from your uncle (so to speak), to keep your feelings to yourself is not good, and to keep feelings bottled up, is mentally unhealthy. SO do it! It's your best option.
976519
just let them two solve their problem than getting between the two of them. you'll be experiencing a lot of trouble if you would do that. maybe you could approach them if you were asked to do so.
751009
There is no easy answer to this because you have to take into account so much.  However if you were to adopt, what some may see as callous, a more binary approach to the matter the answer appears quite readily.  Essentially if you have apologized sincerely and asserted your desire to make amends, you have done all that you can do.  It is now left to your cousin to make a move and until then you have to keep living, eating, and living the life you have to live to sustain you.\n\nYou got drunk at a family function, that's darn near every country Texas wedding.  If your cousin thinks that your relationship benefits from not speaking to you, she has made her decision, now you must make yours.
651019
Be yourself and let it happen when it's right......\nIf you try to rush it you could loose your friendship,  it could be possible she is waiting for marriage???????????????
198029
Dump the boyfriend,and straighten out your cousin. Remind\nher that blood is thicker than water,or at least it should be.
335359
Great to love. And even greater that he is cute and fine and all yours....... Be care full of your cousin. Maybe she is not telling the truth and said that to spread doubt in your mind..... which was successful. If you don't trust him, get the truth. If he is a cheater.... send him to hell. If he isn't, you better get your mind straight and tell your cousin to jump in the lake.
479619
This is a trust issue.  Do you trust her?  What makes you so upset that she talks to your cousin?  And he is your cousin.  If you cant trust your girlfriend, you should at least trust your cousin.  Leave this alone, if something does ever go wrong, let her go and be thankful that you found out about her while she was still your girlfriend, and not your wife.
1133363
if u know u don't why sweat it.... play it off, keep a straight face and don't fall for it.....show your cousin two can play the game......just don't pay him any mind
1094690
I think I figured out what u are saying!\n\nI think you are a very good friend for trying to help your friend through this.  It sounds serious so she may need to go and talk to a counsellor about it.  The counsellor will help her and whatever is said will be confidential.\n\nIf the woman is married and the man is also married, its just asking for problems.  The best thing for her to do is to sit down and evaluate how important her marriage is to her and how important the other man is. \n\nIf she decides she dosnt want anything to do with the other man, then she should change her phone number and move away from him.  She should make it impossible for him to contact her.  It will be hard but she will have you for support and also a counsellor (if she chooses to talk to one).\n\nEither way, she needs to decide what she wants, she cant go on like this, its not only affecting her and making her depressed but its upsetting you too as her friend.\n\nDont tell her what to do, because its her life and she has to suffer the consequences.  Just try and be there for her and be her friend no matter what she decides.  \n\nI hope it all works out well in the end
773437
People do all kinds of unusual things to propose marriage; although, I would not take it so seriously, especially since it does not seem so serious.  If they do not really have that kind of relationship, inferring from what you wrote, how can it be?\n\nThere are many words one could choose to deliver the same message.  If your friend wants to let this guy down gently, she can tell him that she is flattered that he is interested in her, that she thinks he is a nice guy but she does not feel that he is right for her and that he deserves someone who will be more suited for him.