I am a virgin, is it normal for me to think about guys penises and ejaculation..... a lot?
546209
you are a guy and an idiot , go play with crayons !
568010
I'm not a girl, and perhaps you don't want a gay mans opinion. I'm not hitting on you, just offering my thoughts on this. I don't think there is anything wrong. It would not bother me.  Everybody is different in many ways. That is just how you are down there. Don't worry about it, you are not the first or last guy to be that way. I really don't think girls will care either, a few may, but not most. They just want to be made to feel good. Girls (women) are more attracted to the man inside (who your are) than to your genitalia. Who you are is much more important. Be a good man, kind, loving, sensitive and fun and you will find the girl of your dreams. \n\nThere are so many options for foreplay that the penis is the least of your concerns. Learn to satisfy your partner with foreplay and she will be very, very happy.\n\nGood luck. I hope this helps.\n\nSincerely,\nTerry
811010
I'm definitely not an expert on the subject, but from the sounds of things, you may have experienced female ejaculation. It's totally normal and something that some women even strive for. :)
346701
u sound very healthy,so if i were u i would lay off the mastr***** like every other day or ur penis,may be to used to a differrent way of penitration.
85294
Your male partner is obviously doing it wrong.  Virgins have a layer of skin that protects the vagina called the heimin.  The pain and pressure you are feeling is from the penis pushing on it.  One of the resons it hurts so much is that you are not relaxed enough... and because you are not ready to give away your virginity.  Another reason is you may not be wet enough and the penis is just ripping you inside.  You should just wait to be married first, this way you know it is right for you and you will be able to concentrate on the act of making love.  Oh, and the heimin will be much thinner due to the fact your body will have produced the proper fluids to help disolve it.
915539
extra virgin, I think
640764
nothing wrong with still being a virgin...as far as what to do your first time my suggestion would be this...if possible let hope it occurs with some one who truly cares for you...as far as what to do believe it or not it will sort of come natural...the basics anyway....your partner can help allot too...just don't sweat the small stuff...and let things flow as they will
337712
if you think of sex all the time, it's normal.  However, looking at porn isn't going to help.  That'll just increase your thinking about sex, and you might do it to a girl.
622669
Close my eyes. Really I think that is the last thing I do. LOL! PS You got to stop answering my questions cause every time you answer I have to give you 10 points cause it is the best! The times that I dont is cause I feel bad for the other people! LOL! You are a badass virgin boy! LOL! Heidi
681177
What the heck is this premature idea anyway.  Whenever a guy cums, he does, period.  Instead of fighting what is natural and normal, think of some little variations in how you handle it and it will work just fine.  It is not all or nothing.  Some times, we have quick good feelings and other times it lasts much longer.  All kinds of factors influence us guys.  Our thoughts are likely the most important.\n\nWe usually get what we expect.  If you expect a fast experience, that is what you will get.  If you expect more, that is what you will get.
137104
dump the mechanicks and start looking for someone with more in his head than u puddle of cum. if u'r serios about the women fantasies try it out and get it out of u'r system. if it isn't just a fantasy, u might be happier with a lady anyway
1113193
Yeah it's true that men are not all the same size (although most are pretty damn close!) but is it really important? You girls aren't supposed to be as hung up on dick size as us silly guys are you know! Size has nothing to do with performance and satisfaction and vaginas are basically "one size fits all" so what's the big deal darlin'? Think about it and you will figure out what all of us with just a little bit of maturity and wisdom know...it just ain't important how big your weenie is!
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I lost my virginity at age 15? As you can tell, it didn't mean much to me. I wanted the guy to love me, so I did it. No, I definitely did not have an orgrasm during sex the first time. Almost all women don't their first time, and I know alot of girls who have never had one during penetration. They might've faked it .....  I definitely regret it. I wasn't with the right guy, and I knew it. I would consider waiting, I know I wish I did.  By the time my true love came around (he was a virgin), I had already had sex with someone else. =(  It's not that it's bad to have sex. You just want to make sure that it's the right person, and that you wont regret it later on. I know I was so eager to lose my virginity, and I was like oh, I wont regret it, and yet I do. If you decide to, make sure he's gentle and cares about you enough to stop if you ask him to. I have a friend who told me that the guy she did it with, just went at it, without caring that it hurt her "like hell." Best of luck, sweetie.
243225
Odd statement, men brag about how many girls they've been with yet when the find the right girl to have a relationship with they want a virgin. If all these guys had so much sex, who did you think they were having sex with? 15 Guys isn't alot for a 26 year old woman. Another thing, men are revered for having all this sex while women become sluts. If you like this girl why do you even care about how many guys she's been with, why are you even talking about it with her. Now I know how guys think and I understand. Trust me when I say this, grow up and deal with it. If not it sounds like it would be your loss.
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Don`t worry it is a normal thing. It is not a mater of the size or the shape of the penis. I have a "banana" penis like you and it ejaculate forcefully enough. Don worry it does`t meter, just don`t masturbate every day. It is bad for your semen.
379013
You are stuck with what you have. Do all you guys asking this or similar questions measure your manhood or ability to satisfy a sexual partner by the size of your dick? If you do I think you need to be asking questions in the mental health section. Like "Why do I feel I'm not a man because my dick is the size of a clit?" or "Why am I so sexually insecure?" or "Why am I not man enough?".\n\nSorry about the attitude but this question appears here about 24 times a day or once an hour. Just learn to use it properly.
727153
Actually, I think that "thing" is just normal mostly to men like you.. But doing it too often is not that good. Beacuse anything you do that is beyond the normal is not good. Why? Because it affects you a lot.. I know you won't ask this question if you are not affected in any aspect. I know that you are getting worried in your behavior. I think you have to try to focus yourself on other things. Try to keep yourself busy in anything that can boost your mental and moral behavior. Like joining a youth-oriented group, if you are still a youth, that has the goal to be helpful in society. Or if you are already working, try to do something that will enhanced your knowledge for the job you have.. Don't just waste your time thinking of "things" that won't help you be a good person.. I know you are a good person that's why you can realize that you are already doing things that is beyond the limit.. Always think of good things. Don't just waste your time and energy inside your room imagining of anything without so much sense.. Use your time and energy wisely...