If you find out your man is cheating, why  hit the other lady and not your man instead?
554433
I dont think that the intent was to just hit the other lady it happens in the heat of the moment but your anger is at both of them but mostly her for taking what you thought was yours...just like a dog fighting for a bone the dog doesn't punish the bone it punishes the other dog that tried to take its bone
667796
well it is because you love him and you are use to him and you dont want the relationship to end and its just like other things in a relationship you think it can be fixed,cheating in a serious relationships destroys it you no longer can trust that person and it causes alot of emotional pain and guilt on both people it really is a selfish act on that persons part too but us as woman are the ones that try to fix things and we have the mother instinct so that is why we put up with alot of bs but usually after cheating a relationship doesnt last and if it does it is never the same it has been broken in two it is sad but you will find someone else someday just dont put up with it a you will grow from this experience good luck
849954
I dated a man for five months but after I found out he was married decided to kick him to the curb. My sole purpose for dating is to seek out a potential husband so why would I continue on? I certainly wasn't going to sit around and wait for him to leave his wife for me, I mean come on he cheated on her so it is a high possibility that he'll cheat on me too.
626123
You need to dump both of them.  She didn't just "fall" onto his penis - she knew what she was doing and he let her do it.  Both of them are no good and can't be trusted.
19158
that ones easy...BECAUSE THEY'RE MARRIED!! Why would you want to go and ruin someones life then take responsibility for it? What if her husband is so in love with her and shes all hes got? If this other guy took responsibility on having an affair with this girl...lets just say her husband might be in jail for a really long time.
290456
if you have reason to believe he is youare probably right. i can't think of a time i thought someone was cheatin and i was proven wrong. a womens intuition is never wrong
700607
Good job sweetie! If she had nothing to hide in the first place she would have told you about it, or not lie when you confronted her with it. If she didn't tell you because you would have gotten upset, then she should have not been doing it. Maybe you we her only one (meaning the only one to get her legal)for right now until she became a citizen.... then divorced you for the other man she lied about! I'm not saying that all men she talked to could have been potentially dating her, but be aware of her motives.. There are alot of things that I could get away with because my other half does not check up on me.... but why do it??? To betray him, loose his trust, or even potentially break his heart?? NOT WORTH IT!
278640
The same reason why a married woman would cheat.
148635
Most men enjoy cheating...they enjoy the thrill. As well as they may still like the girl that they are with but want another girl as well. Instead of leaving the girl they hope that the girl they are cheating on is a forgiving one as some girls are. That way they get the best of both worlds.
1071168
why do you think you are being cheated
1157992
First of all your not the scum he is. If he is cheating on her with you then he will cheat on you with someone else. Since your relationship with him has been sexual I would tell the girlfriend. She has a right to know what she has been exposed to. I am not saying that you have anything but the guy may be seeing several other women and not just you. It is also very common to be angry at the other woman and not yourself or the guy. If you look at this logically then you would see who you should be angry at. For the last two years this guy has been leading you and his girlfriend and God knows who else on. When you found out about the girlfriend you probably thought that he would dump her and stay with you. It doesn't always work that way. If you dont tell her and leave the guy you are always going to be second guessing what he is up to. You are always going to be comparing yourself to his girlfriend and you will never be happy. Telling his girlfriend would only be fair to her. You have known about her and have seen what this guy is like. Maybe his girlfriend needs an eye opener. And the guy deserves to be alone.
446063
Why bother, if you can not trust him then he is either not worth the effort or you have serious trust issues. Either way finding out if he is cheating on you seems to be a waste of time and energy.
1114359
It goes both ways and it's not just men. Women are just as guilty for doing the same thing. Why do they do it? Only the person who is doing the cheating knows the answer to that. Doesn't make it right but it's hard to answer that question.
688726
Once a cheater always one, believe that for alot of reasons.  Biggest one is they feel it's ok to do it, or they wouldn't have done it.  second is that the trust is gone, and it will affect the relationship, and therefore, giving them more reason to go out and find someone else.
646505
The reason is that he is probably still cheating on you. And thinks you maybe doing the same. It's called a guilty conscience.
684385
i thik men cheat because the are insecure and have to prove that to themselve sthat they are real men when in all actuallity it would have taken more of a man to stay loyal but i think you can expect him to cheat again but as a male i find that most are probably cheaters unfortunately and i think its very common and accepted among men of men to have multiple women even when commited to one
188166
It's not just women who do that, men do as well. There are NO guarantees that she won't cheat again. The question is, do you want to take that chance? I always say, if they cheat once they'll do it again.