My boyfriend said for me to come over to his house but.........?
535652
MAYBE you should have CALLED him cause MAYBE he thought he was getting STOOD UP duh!
1072116
Girl let it go, that is your decision and your house with your boyfriend. If you did not want to see extra company you have every right to express it and make her pick the children back up. \n\nMy suggestion: Make it a house rule that if the children want spend the night guest over on the weekend they can spend that weekend with there mother. Why because your request is not outrageous, this will keep sh*t down in the future. You may have to revise stuff and add more rules but hey that is your dwelling.
565407
I think you did the right thing by letting your boyfriend know how you felt about it. If he wants to have a moocher friend over, fine, but let your boyfriend foot the bill. If your boyfriend has a problem with that and wants you to pay for his moocher friends, perhaps a new boyfriend would be in order. Good luck!
838470
Its getting routine... Spice it up a little, when you know he is coming home prepare a picnic in your living room or something similar that is romantic.  He could be like that for a lot of reasons, men have periods too it seems.  Spice up the relationship do something that you havent done before, if  you still dont get a response, then maybe you two need to sit and really talk about whats going on.
6119
start by telling him that you guys wont be home. if he comes over on saturday say oh well we wont be home tomorrow and probably not monday either. then when he shows up tuesday say you are spending some alone time together...slowly but surely he will stop comming. or just tell him listen i enjoy your company but you can come over this often. and the rejection hotline is always good too lol
217757
Is he ignoring you, or treating you like crap? Is he often absent from your home, or (if you're not living together) does he bother to call you when he gets home.\nWhat does your GUT tell you? It is usually right. Ever heard of women's intuition?
1080579
To me,it is not as important as to what he does or buys me, but how much effort he put into it.  Anyone can take you out to dinner, etc.  Not sure how old you are but here goes:  I'd like to come home, see candles all over the place, soft music playing, the aroma of a great dinner he took time to cook for me, rose petals on the bed, and candles around the tub for both of us to lie in and just hold each other.  Doesn't cost much, but means a lot.  Just be original.
252948
Be honest with him ... "putting out" has nothing to do with "moving in" ... they are entirely different aspects.  Take it slow from here on out.
345838
I think he might have left them there on purpose...why?Because he likes you and maybe feels insucure about himself,this is a way of knowing he'll see you again.Call him to say he left them at your place and ask if you can come over to bring them?
54600
Generally speaking, "moving in together" is a huge step.  And it hardly ever works when a total stranger picks up and moves in to your home "just to move in". If you are questioning what you should do, I think you are getting strange vibes from this guy.  He could be blowing hot air and just saying that he wants to come and see you. But it seems unusual that he's discussing moving in with you so early in your acquaintance.  If I were you I would let him know exactly how you feel. And if it comes down to it, I'd stop talking to him.
918081
Sounds to me like hes had enough of your fussing.  How often do you do this.  Maybe he sees you as a nag, and hes just had enough. I think the taking the key of the key ring is a sure indicator that hes not happy and asking you to pick up your stuff is another sure indicator that he has had enough.  Sure, he may need his space, but it sounds to me like its more than that.  The fussing bit makes me a bit suspicious and I reckon hes just had enough of the fussing.  Maybe he still loves you, I dont know,  maybe hes just sick of the "fussing".  Maybe the simplest thing would be to talk to him....ask him what the reasons are he want you to pick up your stuff.  If its because you nag at him all the time and you want to keep him, then youve got to find a way to stop nagging and assure him you will stop doing it.  It may not be that reason at all...but he is the only one who knows the reason, so it is him you need to be asking.\n\nGood luck
1130747
maybe you are getting the things done your way. remeber two people being together is respect. Are you respecting him on the things he do. I mean maybe after school a group of friend is going to play basketball and you just want to do somethings else? I mean in a group event. of course your boyfriend wants to stay and hang out, but if you are like, "I want to leave, it is boring" which it is, but he still want to stay. you can't blame him. if you don't want to play go home first, have him walk you home or something than have him come back.
989926
you need to sit down together and find out why he get home so late as you find iy disrespectful. if he can't give you a straight answer he may be cheating on you. i would'nt make him choose between his freinds and you though because it just another argument that i don't think you'd win.\nask yourself if you can trust him because if you can't then the relationship is doomed to a dumping.
573103
First of all you give him a key of the house. There is no harm  in calling your boyfriend and asking him is he there for dinner. Actually it is his duty to call you and tell you. If you dont like boozing party at your place, tell him you don't want any boozing party at your place.\n\nRemember, There are always a Rules to stay in a Home. No matter who's place it is, you need to follow those rules.
285987
Are you at his house? Is he at your house? Are you two living together? By reading your question, I will say that you put too much weight on this matter.  My mother is like that.  She will stay up all night waiting to see when my father or me will come home if we said something wrong that day.  This is normal human behavior. However, I like to caution you that a relationship which consist of arguing and one person staying up all night until the other person coming home (so that they can talk) is no real relationship.  He is probably seeing someone I'm sorry.  A man is not a REAL man if he can't be precise.  Men tends to excused themselves to get some free time or some space.  Sweety, in the long run, you are going to be the one who loses at the end.  You will never feel any better in the morning, trust me.  There are many other nice guys out there.  However, please look at the situation carefully and see why are you two arguing.  You may be the problem.  All your worries at night will just push him away instead of bringing him closer to you.  If I were you, I would talk to your girlfriends and your family about this.  This is SERIOUS matter.  A sweetheart like you does not need to be staying up all night and worrying like that.  Instead you should be sleeping well and warm and waking up to beautiful flowers next to you, from him.  Do not do anything more to stress you..   Serpeanta@yahoo.com
213921
Stop being nice about it.  Put everything in a box, take it to his place and leave it on the porch.  There you go- done and he doesn't have an excuse to come back over to your place.
860117
Sounds to me like he needs to check his homeboys. Sounds like homeboys are jealous. If your boyfriend is that insecure when it comes to your whereabouts then he needs to spend less time with the homeboys and more time with you and tell his so called homeboys to stay outta your business.