why some men still have a girlfriend after they got married?
551895
Many men are just trying to prove their masculinity, and they see the pursuance of other women as a challenge. Some are just dogs. And it happens all over the world, not just in Nigeria.
151963
could be any number of reasons. here are a few; temptation of the flesh, not getting what they want from their mate, lost interest in mate, found something new and exciting about the new partner, insecurity, etc.
1078206
yes he have a girl friend &he married
642814
if a guy cheats on his girlfriend it means he will cheat on her always and he will cheat on his wife as well when he gets married. cheating is a weak personality. it doesn't fix until one partner breaks the relationship.
851401
cause people are into the easy way out, quick fixes ect ect most people these days dont take being married seriously enough so they end up calling it quits after only a few years.  its not about them being young, its about how mature they are as a couple and how much they love eachother. also its really hard just starting out money is usually tight so its easy to fight.
515083
Men have been succeeding in relationships for centuries. The ones that don't get all the bad press.  When it does happen it is most likely because they have not had a good example of a long term lasting relationship to pattern them selves on. Why the good ones go unnoticed is a question too.\ntake care ~A~
565596
The only reason I can think of is that they love the person so much that they cant imagine living without them. Marriage isn't for the faint hearted it requires open communication, commitment and flexibility. To share your life with someone, accepting their faults as well as their good traits, to be committed to making their life as full of love and happiness as you can so that in return they will do the same for you isn't always easy but the reward of being with that someone special is awesome....
653942
It is not necessarily just wedding bands.. anything that is evident that they are emotionally and physically unavailable. The women who are attracted to such men have deep seated issues that involve trust and commitment. At some point in their life they were either abandoned or were mislead in a direction that caused them to lose a part of their emotional stability to a point that now they avoid any attachment that could possibly become permanent. It is actually a fascinating study to read about, you wouldn't imagine the lengths that some of these women would go to to achieve non-commitment.
343114
Because people confuse marriage with weddings.  People spend so much time planning the perfect wedding and forget about whats going to come after the flowers have died and the cakes been eaten.  They don't realise the commitment they're actually making and when this sets in after they become so unhappy that it inevitably leads to divorce.  Some of the most happily married couples I know went off and got married alone in little ceremonies with no trimmings and they're still together like glue because they knew it was a marriage they were having and not a wedding.
685686
Because men get tired of what they know they "have".  A wife is like an insurance policy that is always there when he cant get any play somewhere else.  As`sad as it is, its the truth.
10496
MEN. Most of the time when i hear of people getting divorced because of cheating,it is the man who did the cheating. A man is as faithful as his options allow...in other words...if he gets a chance ,he probably will.
688995
cause...can you imagine waking up next to an ugly girl when your married. if you go for beautiful girls, they will learn to love you eventually, some of em would, and you win twice.
1098311
Man & woman stay together because they choose to make the other a priority in their life.  When this choice has been made & both partners KNOW this the bonds become so much stronger between them & they feel like they could do almost anything as long as they were together.
516220
yeah, if he's married then it's probably because he values his wife and doesn't want to jeapardize the marriage.\n\nhe may be one of the good ones, but sorry hun - he's taken.
223629
Because they aren't getting what they want from that loved one. Or maybe some men are just idiotic and selfish and think that the world revolves around them and they can do whatever they please. If you honestly feel that you man is cheating on you though, confront him and explain why you feel that he is.
225484
I don't know honey, I feel the same way, its like they are programed to be that way.  It seems that they feel after they get married than they don't have to keep things the way they were before marriage cause they've already got claim on you.
380466
Depends, are you the girlfriend or the wife?  There are many reasons that people get involved with others. The number one reason is because they are dissatisfied or unhappy with their relationship.  No matter if your the girlfriend or the wife, make a decision to move forward with your man or not.  And then talk to him about your decision.  It will work out better if your both completely honest.