How much does it hurts/bleeds for the first time when u have sex?
547645
My dear,\nEvery female will have hymen. Hymen is basically a thin membrane at the entrance of the vaginal canal. In majority of the girls, the hymen gets removed during playing, cycling or any other exercies. The thickness of the hymen varies from female to female. Suppose, the hymen is not disrupted, girls will have pain and blood will come during the first intercourse. It all depends on how thick and the area of the hymen is. \nHope you got an answer!\nSo dont worry... \nGo ahead
987642
this happened to me for 2 years after i began having sex. My doctor said that it was no big deal, that my partner was just slighty um, "large" down there, and that my hymen was just not fully broken before him. It stopped and the pain i was having with it stopped too. no problems since, good luck!!
902451
Well it all depends. You can expect bleeding, although many women do not bleed at all their first time, and then there are others who do. I did not bleed when i lost my virginity. It may hurt, it depends on a lot.    Make sure you go slow so it doesn't hurt too bad, and you have a less chance of bleeding. Other than that, expect pleasure :) It's awesome haha. Goodluck :)
654525
It's different for every girl. Some girls have already torn their hymen by the time they have sex, usually as part of a normal, active lifestyle. Other girls have stretchy, or "elastic" hymens, which stretch instead of tearing. Some girls   are born entirely without hymens, while some girls have really thick ones. The point of this is that each girl is unique, which makes it a little hard to answer your question. \n\nIn most cases, there is some discomfort with initial penetration, and if you have a hymen, there will probably be pain, and a little bleeding (After all, you're not used to having a penis in there!), but it's usually mild to moderate and fades quickly. In order to make things as wonderful as humanly possible, it is SUPER-DUPER, AMAZINGLY important that you take things slow the first few times. Make sure you're fully aroused, and please, for the love of all things sexual, use some water-based lube (petroleum-based lube can dissolve latex condoms). If you experience discomfort or pain, slow down, and wait a bit before proceeding.\n\nAlso, please be aware that for most girls, the first few times are kind of dissapointing when it comes to the actual sex...it takes a while to find your rhythem and discover what you like. So, go forth, be safe, and, above all, HAVE FUN!\n\nIf you have more questions, or if you just feel like poking around, I might recommend www.scarleteen.com, these guys helped me out a lot in my teen years (and beyond). They provide honest, clear information about sex, sexuality, your body, and a bunch of weird stuff that us girls think about.
50958
I don't know how old you are but the fact that you said "relations" gives me a clue that you are definitely young and/or unexperienced in the realms of sex. I feel that the best answer really depends on your body type as a female. You see, before all women have sex, we have something called a hymen, a thin piece of skin that covers the opening of our vaginas. Not trying to give you all the science of it, but it is important. Basically all women's hymen's are totally different, because there are 4 different ones. When you first have sex (as a female), the penis breaks through the hymen and into the vagina. If your hymen is very tough to break through, it will continue to be painful until it is completely broken. If you start with a hymen that is not very hard to break, a few times after having sex for the first time and you should be fine. You have to tell your partner to go slow, and not just ram himself into you. SPEAK up. If it hurts to the point you can't take it, stop and find another position, another day, whatever. I hope I aswered your question to the best of my knowledge. As a female and a mother, I also say wait as long as you can, but I also want females to be equipped with the proper knowledge of their bodies and how everything works.
529026
Not without a medical exam, I think.\n\nThey used to say that a woman bled after sex the first time, but that is not always the case and there are times for women who have had sex before to bleed after intercourse - so that method is not really concrete.
1180337
ask your doctor. It hurts the first few times but if it's been awhile since you lost your virginity, definitely ask your doctor something could be wrong. Or he's putting in the wrong hole. Heeheehee.
920510
I assume that the first time that you had sex with your boyfriend was the first time that you had had sex ever - so if this was the case and you was losing your virginity to him then it is normal to feel some discomfort at that point. \n\nNext time should be better, as your hymen is now broken and the discomfort (and in some ladies out-write pain) should be gone. \n\nMake sure that you are turned on and 'wet' before he tries to enter you as this will make the experience more enjoyable for you both.  This will mean a lot of foreplay and ask him to perform oral sex on you as this should get you really moist down there and may even lead to a pre sex orgasm. \n\nFailing that go to a chemist and buy some lubricant to use, apply a small amount of this prior to entry and you shoudl feel that everything slips in fine and makes the whole experaince more enjoyable. \n\nI would suggest always using a condom as a way to prevent pregnancy and STD's and it should not feel a great deal different to you than sex without a condom. \n\nAs to how a  man feels with/without a condom.  Without a condom increase the pleasure, however although this feels better in the begining it can also lead to a shorter period until he climaxes, which shortens the period of sex.  So although you can say initially that it is better as it is normally a shorter performance then this has to be taken into the equiation too.  \n\nI find that as i use a condom i last longer, which is great for both me and the lady, also i am not worried about her getting pregnant, which is great for my security as i know that i will not have to support a familly and that i wont be catching any nasty diseases - so with or without for me?  With everytime! \n\n\nGood luck and enjoy
640132
YES MY HYMEN "CHERRY" WAS BUSTED BY MY BOYFRIEND (NOW HUSBAND) WITH HIS FINGER AND I BLEED AFTERWARDS.\n\nWHEN WE HAD SEX FOR THE FIRST TIME (LIKE A WEEK LATER) I DID NOT BLEED AT ALL SO YES YOUR BOYFRIEND CAN DO THAT.\n\nTHAT GOES TO SHOW THAT YOUR HYMEN IS NOT THAT FAR UP IN YOU
49992
If it is your first time, then it was perfectly normal. After first sex, bleading cause of the tear of hymen, that protect your virginia. But if it isn't ur first time, then may be that time you are not relaxed. If not, then I advice please contact to the doctor. No, you are not pregnant if you took any precaution, like condom, pills etc.
73362
not unless you had extremely rough sex and continue to have pain and bleeding for days after then there shouldn't be anything wrong with you. You should see a gynecologist as soon as possible after becoming sexually active, to get a pap smear and discuss birth control options. Also not very many women enjoy their first time. I would be more surprised if you DID enjoy it. Don't worry! It gets better!
61425
Sex hurts when is the first time, but after that feels gooooddd, and it depends on the positions too but still good!!
362621
If you are a woman, it will hurt the first time...  (bleeding is natural)  But the more you do it, the better it gets...  If you are a man, it will be extremely tight the first time...  (your penis might hurt)  Dont have trouble finding the woman;s hole, study before hand...  Watch a porn movie, or get a biology book..
875442
some do and some dont\nit really ought to depend on whether their hymen has already been broken do to bike riding,wearing tampons,and other physical activities.\njust because a woman doesnt bleed during their first time having sex,doesnt mean that she is not a virgin\nthe best way to find out whether they are a virgin is to ask them and if u really love her then u would believe her and u 2 will have a happy relationship. but some women do bleed and their first time may be terribly painful. but some dont and can just enjoy themselves.~GOOD LUCK HOPE THIS HELPED!~
43292
my first time hurt, but i was real tense..lol...\nbut after that it didnt hurt anymore!
126199
Yes, it does hurt, but it is totally bearable and worth it, if you are ready and want it. Just make sure you are ready and there has been lots of foreplay and you are relaxed as possible (although you will be understandably nervous). Your body will tell you when you are ready. Make sure you care about the guy and he cares about you. Not trying to preach just want to make sure its is a happy memorable moment.  Oh and dont expect it to be perfect. Sex has awkward moments, especally if he is a virgin too. So good luck and be safe and have fun.
1059523
Hi! I think it's individual but usually it is not a hard bleeding. Few drops of blood that stop almost immediately (about 5 mins later). So don't worry. It's unconfortable but it's only for that 1st time. The next one u ll be just fine ;)