If you're on a date, what is the most casual way you can ask a guy if he's paying for ur dinner or movie?
548163
I think you should enjoy it while it lasts. \n\nONce you get married, he will definitely want you to share the bill in everything.
260143
Ask about common movies you may have seen... if you find there is not one you've both seen, ask if he would like to go to one you both might like. The best way to connect with someone is to share a common experience, so try something like a picnic, or go to a museum, or try the Zoo. This way you'll have something common to talk about not only during the "date" but also afterwards... and it gives you a venue to learn more about each other. This is why I think movies are fine for some dates, but you want a place to go where you can talk and get to know each other (can't during a movie), and learn each other's likes and dislikes. Good luck!
1010751
First of all, find out their status before you ask them out.  Or make it part of the "ask out", "Hey, I hope you're not seeing anyone because I'd like to take you out on a date."  That will make your intentions clear.\n\nAlso make it clear that it is a date.  Some guys will ask the girl, "You wanna grab some dinner?" and it is not clear that it is a date.  The guy is trying to insulate himself against rejection. But part of the thrill is taking the chance. "Hi, I'd like to take you out for a date.  Can I pick you up on Saturday at 7:00?"  Take the chance and be clear.  The woman will repsect your clarity and confidence.  And on the date (especially the first one) do all the traditional date stuff: dress up, pick her up, hold her chair, pay for dinner.  Lean over and put your hand on hers during dinner.  How she responds will say a lot.  When you drop her off, touch her lightly on her waist while you lean in to give a gentle kiss on the lips.  Above all, make it clear that this is a romantic date.\n\nGood luck.
564504
I think that movies are a cop out on a first date...I agree with those who say do something low-key and fun.  Outdoor activities are great and you could take a picnic.  Have fun!
169986
why not eat noodles?\nThe question is what you do on a date, or what you don't do on a date?\nDO:\nwatch a movie, have dinner, go for a walk, make out, have sex\nDON'T:\nTalk about your past relationships
510440
I'm assuming your real question is "how do I ask him out such that he says yes?"\n\nHere's the trick:\nCall him up some evening (not a weekend) and mention that you're going out somewhere to dinner and were wondering if he'd like to join you for food and hanging out.\n\nThis will make it casual and not a "date," but if he says yes, it'll still give you a chance to get together and flirt with him.  You can do this as many times as you need to in order to feel comfortable enough to directly ask him out.
36407
While you're hanging out some time, ask him a hypothetical question like "What would you do if we were going out. . .?"  Not exactly that question but something along those lines.  If he shrugs it off and doesn't seem interested, then you can just say that you were joking and laugh it off.  But, he might give some thought to the situation, and if he seems interested, then maybe you'll feel more comfortable asking him for real.
845286
It should be whoever initiated the date. If I ask a guy out, I pay, and vice versa. If it's a relationship, I expect to trade off. I get the movie, he gets dinner. Unless he makes a gazillion dollars. Dating is expensive!! Don't forget, women have LOTS of unseen dating expenses - make up, hair, waxing, clothes. I always try to be fair though.
424991
just ask . how about saying" lets go to a movie/park/ restorant?". just do not assume anything. see how the things turn out.
48510
You should have come to an agreement about the check before you went out.  But if he asked for half the check, I would pay it.  Was it a date?  If so, make sure, if you are planning to go out with him again, who's paying for what.
429898
ask him just casually
297004
If you asked, you should pay for the tickets.  And good for you for being the one to ask!  \n\nBut the idea is to have a good time together, so if you start it off with an awkward situation about money (I though you were buying the ticket, etc) you're getting off on the wrong foot.  Be gracious.  \n\nIt's possible, though, that he might feel, for lack of a better term, whipped if his girl is paying for everything...  maybe it's best to ask him?  Or go to purchase the tickets together, and see if he takes out his wallet...
940150
be respectful don't lie and be yourself woman likes a respectable gentlmen not some hound dog that dissrespect call them ol'lady and girl and have them pay for everything. The first impression is alwayas the last. If your go out its like i'll pay for dinner and she pays for pool or mini golf don't go to the movies at first. you can't talk at the movies.and complment but not every 5 mins.
304975
Picnics, horse riding, balloon rides, visit a vineyard, walk on the beach, dinner at home, go to the zoo, the circus, drive in the country, visit the museum, fishing, dinner at a restaurant, golf, bushwalking, etc, etc, etc\n\nDON"T go the the movies on a date - this sux as you don't talk at all, just sit there watching a screen wishing you were getting to know your date better with conversation
162052
While you're hanging out some time, ask him a hypothetical question like "What would you do if we were going out. . .?" Not exactly that question but something along those lines. If he shrugs it off and doesn't seem interested, then you can just say that you were joking and laugh it off. But, he might give some thought to the situation, and if he seems interested, then maybe you'll feel more comfortable asking him for real.
381318
Ask her out on a casual date maybe to eat or something.
234333
well, when i wanna guy to ask me out, i would probably like them to say 'i like you alot. would you like to see a movie with me this saturday?' works for me everytime!haha