I'm deeply in-love with this man, but we both have our issues, We have broken-up and gotten back together 3x's
539421
Spare yourself the emotional heartache and pray about it.  Have no contact with him for a while.  Men come with issues, its always gonna be something, deal with it now or forever hold your peace.  If you really care about him then yall problems won't seem so big at all.
295559
Well you need to consider, is your love worth maybe having to clean up after him all the time.  Also, if he is not willing to change on small things, what happens when bigger issues come around.  You either have to decide to stick it out or cut your losses.
366766
This is a very difficult situation especially if you still love the man.  The best advice I can give you is to make a psychological and personal decision as soon as possible. I don't know your exact situation, but if you still love this person and if he loves you, and you think there may be a chance to work things out, then you should try to do so by all means.  BUT, you need to think of this very seriously, because it sounds to me that your relationship with him may be something in the past. If this is the case, you MUST learn to get over him. This is very important, for your sake.  This is very difficult (I know from experience), and it can hurt to see the one you love with someone else. But if it is not going to work, you need to learn to move on and allow yourself to forget about him.  You need to realize that this isn't easy, and it will take time.  But if you keep thinking about him as a lover, you will always be tormented inside.  Go out, meet new people, get your mind off of him and with time I assure you that life will go on, and you will find happiness again. Good luck!
626454
Well I would normaly tell you that  if you love him, try and work it out, but you should under no surrcumstances, know matter how much you love someone, let someone treat you like shi*, you are worth so much more than that..... but if you love him let him go, and if it was ment to be him will come back    good luck and god bless
1027662
you need to file yourself and get this over with...do not wait on him...and let him go, you may still love him but why? why would you want someone back who has left you and treated you this way...get this over with, the sooner you do the sooner you can move on
1030850
Well, you must call him...he is busy worrying about his business, you are worrying about the relastionship so you must be the one to try to hold it together.  Best wishes
934733
I've been in a relationship too,we were two years now, we also have fight and petty quarrels, and we also got broke up recently because of little misunderstanding but we reconcile after that day.We promise to ourselves that the next time we go into another problem, and breaking up is one of the option, we should think deeply, because we might just trashed our two years together.We should not be easy to decide and both of us should check our self if there's really no hope for our relationship, because when one of us will say that word and he didnt think first, he should stand in his decision and earn the result, because for me if you said we should break up then you should do that (because in me i should said that if i really mean it and could really see that this man is not good enough to fight for). So we have a good flow of relationship, we change to a better person and not rushing to make a big decision that we might regret in the end. In your case, there is only one in your relationship who fully given the very best to save the relationship -and it is YOU. But its not gonna work if its only you..Most of the men are jealous person and its normal. but your man is very possesive and arrogant to the point that he never calls you to fix things..Is it because he believe that its your fault?If thats true still its not right to just overlook you and wait a lifetime for you to be the one who will reconcile to him...Thats not love...Thats self-righteousness..And its not right..So i advice you to think deeply, and think if this kind of man is what you want to be with for the rest of your life...If you can explain everything to him just to win him FOR JUST ONCE, then do that. But if he still don't listen and don't change for a better man, then leave him peacefully without any regrets in your heart. Because you've given all your best to make him a better person. Its not your fault anymore, but its his fault now.Hope i could somehow help you.And one thing, "a worthy man is a man who could refresh your soul and bring smile in your face, not problems and wrinkles in your forehead". Wish you the best.
761299
if you have already talked to him about the problems you are having (you should have already if you havent) then tell him that, the reason you are breaking up with him is because of those problems, and nothing has changes. be honest with him dont be too hard but dont be too easy. if your with someone you dont want to be with then end it the longer your together the harder it will hurt.
279278
My opinion would be is to try and talk to him and express to him how you feel. Maybe he doesnt even know you feel this way?\nTalk to him and tell him exactly how you feel and if he is not willing to fix the problem then its obvious your in a bad relationship but atleast try to approach the problem before breaking up with him.
1048544
I don't blame him for feeling insecure (3x break-up.  that'll screw anyone's head up-boy or girl), but I think you missed your chance to tell him the truth.  At this point he's hanging on to what has passed and like you, doesn't want to feel alone.\n\nSit down with him and tell him that after 3 break-ups, it's time to move on before any of us lose a sense of what we want.\n\nIt's going to hurt, but that's a part of the proccess.
1018192
yeah the first answer is correct. let time heal and if yuo still love each other i guess it's worth a try once more.\nbe honest and tell him you still love him and dont want to let go.\nwhatever his answers is. respect it. atleast you did your best and you tried lowering your pride. you wont lose anything for doing that. a more respect  for your self.
62558
If he truly wants to be with you and you want to be with him, you should be able to work out whatever his issues are together.  Move on!
1017516
He is taking advantage of his freedom and figuring things out.  Stop stressing about him and enjoy the other things you have in your life.  Not that that's easy though... There is always the chance that he might come back... but why do you want to be with a guy who broke up with you?  So that he can do it again later on down the road?  I think you should work on moving on... don't wait around for a guy that is probably sleeping around right now.
259079
You both may have love for each other, but if he still has major issues,the relationship won't last.  You'll have the same problems you had last time.  If all he is telling you is that "no one freaks him better", then he doesn't want to work on the relationship, he just wants the booty. That's cool if you are interested in just casual sex,  but don't think that he wants you back.
382207
it all depends on how you broke up in the first place, if it was a mutual agreement, and you still/miss him a lot, maybe you can give the relationship another try, but if you broke up on bad terms, i dont think its wise for you to get back together, its best just to move on.
591539
I wouldn't do anything right now.  You've told him how you feel.  You have to give him some time.  I'm sure he still loves you too.  You both need to be sure that you are in love not that you just love each other and are used to being together.  I wish you the best!
1149772
He has absued you mentally, reduced your self esteem, made you believe that you love him so much that you  have to hurt yourself physically for him to believe that he has succeeded. My opnion is that you are too good for him because you are still hanging on. If you try hard enough, i believe that slowly you would get over him and recover back to your original self. All I could do is wish you the best of luck.