is it necessary for a virgin girl having intercourse for the first time to bleed?
553102
it is not necessary for a virgin girl to bleed in her first time having sex. Bleeding is due to the tearing of the hymen during penetration of the penis, but the hymen can be previously torn during active sports, like gymnastics, horseriding. But that said, even if her hymen is already torn, a virgin girl having sex may experience sharp pain and soreness 'down there', because the vagina is being stretched for the first time.
1127407
I can't believe some of the answers people are giving you.  (If her thighs are touching, she's got fat thighs- that's all that tells you!)\n\nYou're a virgin if the hymen is intact.  That is a membrane over the vaginal opening.  There's enough of a hole in it that you have your period, but it's not as big as a man's penis.  When you have sex for the first time, the hymen tears.  \n\nSince penis's vary in size and some sex is more active the others it's not always obvious.  But a doctor can definitely tell.
976286
The reason they can tell if a girl is a virgin is because of a thing called a girl's hymen. If it's torn then someone has been there before. I suggest looking up the word "hymen". They also walk differently too and sometimes look like sluts.
1016285
the only way to really identify if she is a virgin is visualizing a hymen (small membrane over the vagina) but that is only a positive partially.  I the hymen  was torn by some accident she still could be a virgin.  if her hymen is not intact then the only one that knows for sure is the girl.
196047
Not necessarily. The hymen can be broken through everyday activities. The use of tampons can break the hymen also.  Most women do not bleed when virginity is lost.
192581
There are many different reasons a woman doesn't bleed. After having sex for the first time. 1. She has a very thick hymen. 2. Her hymen was damaged or stretched by non sexual activity in her youth. 3. She is not a virgin.
779590
not all girls bleed that's this crazy idea that people have come up with because many girls do.  the hymen, which causes bleeding is not a sign of virginity or non virginity.  they can stretch or tear from many different things, falling, bike riding, tampons.  some girls also end up bleeding much later, or with another partner later on who is larger.  some bleed the second time or the third and others not ever at all.  i second what the other person said hopefully you are old enough to know enough to use birth control... pills condoms etc.
266093
I was a virgin when I got married, too. Take your time, don't force her if she's scared, use lubrication if necessary, and be very loving. Many couples don't complete the act on their first night if they're virgins, so let her know she can trust you to go at a pace that's comfortable for her. If you make the situation very loving, it will be much easier for her.
1021880
No, nobody can tell if a woman is a virgin or not through intercourse. Some women are small and can have sex dozens of times, but it will always remain tight. Other women may be a virgin, but aren't quite as small as other women, so it makes it seem as though she's not a virgin.\n\nThere's no way to tell unless you're a doctor. Or unless you ask the girl and she's honest, but sometimes that's hard to trust.\n\nTO EDWARD, WHAT YOU SAID IS NOT TRUE. YOU CAN'T TELL WHETHER A WOMAN IS A VIRGIN OR NOT BY THE WAY SHE KISSES.. WHAT THE HECK?! THAT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH IT, GIVE ME A BREAK.
1154308
Sometimes, after having sex for the first time, women experience pain and bleeding. But that is not always the case. So if nothing happens, that does not mean that she is still a virgin. If she had sex, she's not a virgin. That simple. It is not anything to worry about. In fact, she should feel lucky to be pain-free.
375392
It is when a woman loses her virginity. Usually that is the first time her hymen is torn which will cause her to bleed. So ... we say that her "cherry" was popped.
431733
I think you meant Devirginized but everybody is different...not all girls bleed the first time.
313636
I don't bleed, never have.\n\nSome girls bleed because their hymen is still intact or present. It's nothing to worry about unless it happens all the time, or it happens long after you lose your virginity.
341954
Yes, you can definitely use a tampon and still be a virgin. But first let me clear something up: a virgin is someone who has not had sexual intercourse. So being a virgin is not related to tampon use. However, since you are a virgin, your hymen (the thin membrane that partially covers and protects the opening to your vagina) may still be intact. Or, it may have been torn or stretched when you were a kid by bike riding, sliding down the banister, gymnastics, etc. The tampon just enters the vagina through the same opening the menstrual blood leaves the vagina, so it doesn't affect the hymen. If it is still intact, you may break or stretch it to allow the tampon in. This should not be painful or traumatic, and it doesn't have any affect on your virginity. Hope this clears things up for you.
1178449
Not always.  The idea of the hymen tearing up tends to be exaggerated.  Many women, when they reach a certain age, don't have to worry about that happening.  However, if your first time is at 15 or something like that, it might be more likely.
29889
it depend on what you mean of virgin?\nfrom the medicine. that never had sex before. as(the vagina is covered with thin membrane. when she has the thing for the first time that membrane teared and it give some drops of blood.and the man may feel it or not. also that membrane has avery small openings one or two to escape the blood of the period.
239163
yes it is normal; an athletic woman, use of tampons, or if you have ever fing**** her all of those plus others can break her hyman so she would not necessarily bleed.  Plus if you do not have large penis then she probably wont bleed.  If she said she is a virgin then you have no reason the think other wise, she is your wife and part of marriage is trust so start practicing it now, otherwise second guessing yourself will get the best of you and your marriage.