why parent needs to see their children get married?
538056
Don't know how to answer that question as my parents do the same thing. It's real annoying, but at least i'll be leaving soon so hopefully no worries here. But you can't run forever. I tell my parents i'm not interested and they can't really do anything about it.
300941
Well you do not really have to tell them until u r ready and it all depends when the wedding is? Another thing once it done once it is possibility she can do it again and also everyone makes mistakes and your parents have to realize they make mistakes too.Your parents never cheated or had problems of the sort. Talk to them on that issue first. Marriage is a every sensitive issue.did she explain why she did it. you have to be encouraged that she is the one for you without a doubt despite what may come out of her mouth. I know because Im female.
834824
People who take on all the responsibilities of marriage yet refuse to get married are people who have trust issues and who want to be able to leave town at the drop of a hat. I do not respect people like that, they end up being bad parents.
851065
IN CERTAIN PLACES MARRIAGES IN THIS RELATION IS ALLOWED.  BETTER YOU TALK TO YOUR PARENTS OTHERWISE GO FOR COURT MARRIAGE.
954792
According to today's moral standards many people think it's not necessary to be married when having children. But I disagree. A marriage means stability. It means commitment between two people. If they really love each other it should not be a problem to be married. My personal opinion is that couples who don't want to get married are just not that into each other and should therefore not have children.
486944
Children need love more than money.  If they know they are loved and encouraged to succeed, the material things are less important.  \n\nParents set the example for successful relationships.  If you're in a loveless marriage, there's a chance your children will have less emotionally rewarding relationships.
93940
I think any marraige, teen or not, just for the sake of a child are setting the couple up for failure. Eventually, there will come a time in their lives where one person (usually the man) who feels resentment for giving up his freedom because of a child. Most people who marry because of a child don't even fully love the person they are marrying. Now this isn't to say that teen marraiges don't work out... I'm just saying the cards are stacked against them and they have to work hard TOGETHER to get through and prove the world wrong.
639962
if u didn't want to get married before u got preg. then u shouldn't bc u r preg.  i don't think it's fair to the child to have to live with married parents that can't get along and r only together bc of the child.  i didn't marry my son's father bc i got preg. and he's happy with the way things r.  he has a new step dad and his stepdad is better then his real dad.
812246
My sister has been happily married for 26 years, they got married at 19, my parents flipped when they found out they were engaged, but by the time the wedding date rolled around they had come around to the idea and made the day a happy one, my brother in law is now adored by them and dad considers him his son.\nTell them soon to allow them time to adjust and remember not to get angry at them, it is your life but you are still there baby.
960061
yep... Being married means you get inlaws. Luckily for me, mine are great!
969690
I just love weddings! I love to see families stay together especially when they have a child or children regardless if they are famous or not.
529492
BECAUSE THEY DON'T WANT THEM TO BE PARENTS BEFORE THEIR TIME.  THEY KNOW THAT IN REAL LIFE IF SOMETHING LIKE THEIR DAUGHTERS BECOMING PREGNANT BEFORE MARRIAGE THERE IS A STRONG POSSIBILITY THAT THEY WILL BE SINGLE PARENTS. AND NO ONE WANTS THAT FOR THEIR DAUGHTER. THEY MIGHT GIVE YOU OTHER REASONS BUT THAT IS DEFINITELY IN THE BACK OF THEIR MIND AT ALL TIMES.
971265
What's the point in getting married?
869757
I'm not real sure why. I am not religious, but I also would not have a child unless I was married. I think its a better upbringing for a child to have two wed parents. Just my opinion...
659349
Sounds like your folks need to go to marrage counseling.
438043
Those that have kids first...feel they HAVE to get married, while those that get married first, then have kids...actually WANTED to get married....
343114
Because people confuse marriage with weddings.  People spend so much time planning the perfect wedding and forget about whats going to come after the flowers have died and the cakes been eaten.  They don't realise the commitment they're actually making and when this sets in after they become so unhappy that it inevitably leads to divorce.  Some of the most happily married couples I know went off and got married alone in little ceremonies with no trimmings and they're still together like glue because they knew it was a marriage they were having and not a wedding.