i love agirle but her father dont like me i want to marry her but she is afraied from her father?
540002
i would marry her anyway.who cares if the father doesnt like you.its your life not any one elses,if you love her it doesnt matter.
542460
She can't see how much your partner loves you because she is stupid.  And she'll keep on being a heterosexist pain in the a$$ until she realizes that she is being stupid and decides to change.  There is nothing you can do to fix it besides giving her some books and some PFLAG brochures.\n\nYou just need to get on with your life, with our without her approval and you need to demand nothing less then full equality.  Bring your girlfriend over to meet them, and if she doesn't like it, she can sit upstairs all night while your girlfriend talks to your dad.  Don't change your life to accomodate her stupidity.  Just live and hope she removes her head from her a$$ at some point.
458902
You are in charge of your child, no one else.  Unless the father lives with you and helps raise the child, then he doesn't have a damn thing to say.\n\nYOU can stop the drama.  You just have to be willing to accept that fact that you MIGHT have to cut the father out of the picture.  If the father is too busy humping around, then let go of that loser.  He obviously doesn't realize what he has (a family) and it might take his entire life to come to that realization.\n\nPlus, there are many, many better and bigger fish in the sea!\n\nKeep your head up girl, don't let a man get you down.  You have to stay strong and show your kiddo what it means to be a strong woman.  She needs you to show her that love is unconditional and caring, everything her father isn't.\n\nGood luck and much love!
585960
You don't need a girl like this,move on find someone that is willing to return the love that you are giving.Don't spend time with someone who is putting you second.
579254
Her parents are strict about her caste? I am going to assume this is a cultural issue.  Normally if this was sombody saying this about their percieved social position, I would say to hell with the caste, and be with the person that you love.  However, if her parents values are that important to her, you should have a converstation.  About how this is going to affect you and your lives together and if it is frankly worth the trouble that it is going to be.  However, if you're doing this because her parents are going to be rough on her and you do truly love her.  Then you have to take the chance, you owe it to yourself and to her to let her decide what is going to be fair to her.  Now if you have made up your mind then ok, I can't change it for you, but if you love this girl, and you don't take the chance won't you always wonder what could have been? I would say contemporary logic dictates that her parents need to get over the caste system.  However, this is a judgement call that you have to make together as a couple, and dude, she deserves for you to have an open and honest discussion about it, before you pull the trigger and break it off with her.  good luck, I hope this helps.  \n\nOh PS. if it were me? and I loved her? There wouldn't be a force on earth that could stop me from being with her unless SHE didn't want to be with me.
1168226
you need to bond with her why not offer to call a truce and invite her to got get pedicures & manicures - talk to her.  ask her to come to you if she has a problem with something you did instead of running to your father - tell her you like you have to always be defensive around her because you feel like anything you say she will turn against you and cause a fight with your father.
755159
Tell her sensitively and tell her what she deserves to know. Tell her that the relationship with her father did not work out, and that he was a naughty man. Tell her you love her, and you are lad you are here and that she is beautiful just the way she is, and that God wanted her to come into your life so much. Tell her she has a wonderful family, and that it may be better to not know her other half of her family, as you know nothing about them.
161206
why would you want to be with someone you don't want to marry? Your wasting your time as well as hers. You should let her find someone who will want to marry her.
185252
If they are as close to you as you say they are then you would never lose them over marrying this girl. If so they are crappy parents at giving unconditional love and support as they should be. How old are you by the way? If you are young that could be a reason. Parents are usually almost always right about these kinds of things. You are a grown @$$ man though and they need to back off and let you live and learn. Fallow you gut feelings, not your heart. Your heart will ALWAYS get you into trouble!
20553
If you love the woman get married. My dad is going to get married and i dont like the woman but i id do anything to make my dad happy. Im 17 and shes been with me since i was 8 i think. I still dont like her. if you are loving and raise the child right i think hell accept you as a member of the family. He may never "love" you but dont take it the wrong way. I dont love anyone in the world except my dad and thats because hes been with me all my life. Do what ur heart tells you. I also suggest speaking with the childs mother and try to end this animosity. its useless to badmouth you when youre in love and are going to go through with your new life.
251234
Talk to her about it. If she doesn't do anything to discipline her daughter, then you are wise not to marry her. The girl would always come between the two of you.\n\nGood luck.\n\n(I think you calling her 'my stupid girlfriend' is a red flag by the way...)
601404
You cannot force her to love you. Move on, find someone else who will love you too.
506674
Why do you think she does not like you?  Is your self-esteem a bit low right now?  Why do you feel you do not deserve her love?  Whatever the cause, please start to believe in yourself.  Are you not a nice person?.  You have friends, don't you.? And you would do anything for any one. Yeah?  See, just believe that you are a good person and good things will come to you. Good luck.
357118
She is young enough to be your daughter. Maybe think about that one before you rob the cradle. There is no way she has anything in common with you.
99042
Well, the father seem's to be very possesive and overly protect of his daughter. I'm not quite sure if she thinks your the best thing that ever came into her life because I think she is trying to find a way to get the hell out her fathers life.  If you like (love) this girl lot, I would say that you will have to have alot of patients before things get better for the both of you.  As far as the cusing goes, I would speek to the father and explain that it is disrespectful to treat you in that mannor.  Sometimes you have to stand up for your rights, and sometimes the other person will respect you.  After all, the father does know the difference between right and wrong. He just might respect you more later on if you talk to him.  What ever happens, Good-Luck...   Dr Checko...   (Nickname)
637497
I have a 27 year old stepdaughter with a 5 year old son. I met her father 3 years ago and have been married for about 1  1/2 years. She has been nothing but trouble for the past 3 years. She has said and done things that I would of never thought of doing to another person.  My husband's first wife (her mother) died of cancer and everyone of her family said she was treating me bad because she was grieving for her mother.  Well, I don't believe that one. I also lost my mother to cancer and I would of never dreamed of treating any one like she treats  me.  So from my point of view : you go your way with her dad and let her go her way. But don't kiss her azz, she needs to grow up and let her dad be happy with you. So what if she does not like you! I am sure you will survive without her liking you.
142905
Wait until you're out of school. If it's meant to be, it will happen. Are you worried someone else will grab her up? I'm just wondering why you want to marry her now given your circumstances. If it's just so you'll know she's yours, then wait. You're not ready. Good luck.