what's the most important consideration chosen the woman/man for your wife/husband?
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if you can see her/him with your own eyes
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your husband/wife whom you love. Less issues, more fulfilling in life.
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This depends on the woman, we are all individuals and so what is valued is also individual. One approach will not suit all. Take the time to get to know the woman first. Listen and answer with consideration and honesty.
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I definitely stand by my man; my Husband.  I stand by him for several reasons.  I respect him, I trust his judgment, I made a commitment to love and honor him, he has my best interests at heart, we have common interests and he loves me in spite of myself!
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I would go with strong and self assured, independent, beautiful. The second option might be fun to date but would be too needy... high maintenance... I want to build a life with someone who is my equal and that will challenge me intellectually, spiritually, and physically. I want to raise children, not be married to one. At one point or another we all need to be taken care of but I am not looking to be someones knight in shining armor 24-7 or running to the store at midnight for ice cream! I want a strong willed woman that returns just as much love as she gets from me!
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As a fellow guy I would tell you to follow Stephen Hawking's example. He has a great wife because he is very rich and very smart which are two things women care about more than anything.
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take everything in it's context.no impulsive decision.....and of course you need to be honest with your wife,family,lover and yourself............
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You must know for sure that the one you have chosen to be your mate is the adequate soul for you and you to them.  This is a partnership with the extra perks such as love, support, kids and so many other great things.\n\nAbove all, marriage is not easy!  Keep that in mind so that you don't become discourage once you're married.
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wife unless otherwise specified in will
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Equality, unconditional love, respect, understanding, compassion, acceptance.... a man who will give her a little bit of pampering every now and then... A hand picked flower.  Breakfast in bed.  Her toenails painted, hair brushed, shoulders massaged.\nAnd most important of all....\nThe remote control for the TV (hahahahaha... sorry, couldn't resist!)
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The best start is to pick someone you don't know that well. Let your wife set the rules, so that she's comfortable and stick to them. As to your relationship, it will change. You are sharing something that is supposed to ba an intimate expression of your love for each other. Inviting someone else in will change it. No one can predict how your feelings will change. That is why you must think carefully as a couple: should this stay a fantasy? If you are happy with the risks, as a couple, then go for it. But no recriminations if things go badly.
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That's easy. My girlfriend. She's beautiful, smart, friendly, loving, pragmatic, sexy as hell, and I love her more than anyone. Given all the other choices, anywhere, anytime, I'd rather be with her. And, the way it's going, it looks like it just may be that way for the rest of our lives...
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God teaches us that the man is the head of the  house and the woman should submit her self to her husband however this does not mean that she should bow down to him either . She should walk beside him . God made woman from Adams rib (from his side) . So therefore she should walk beside him through life. she should be able to make decisions but if its a major decision her husband should make the decision.
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Yeah, it's a partnership... God doesn't want your husband to lord over you but if you submit yourself to the Lord, then you'll be able to submit to him. And if HE submits himself to the Lord, he'll be able to do it the right way and not the way people think it should be done. Will you both get it right? No, but both must be willing to submit to God first and that's difficult but he sent to you his Spirit who will guide you into all truth and will lead you both. marriage should be a partnership, not a lordship though the man is untimately responsible.
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Well marriage is a bond between two souls, so i think that all the four factors mentioned by you are important but the most importannt and required factor is understanding and your perfection towards the responbilities that you have to fullfill at your family. if you fullfill all the responsibilities well and if you are able to understand your husbands's emotions and situations, you can make him happy.\nmost importantly i would like to say that all these factors should be from both the sides i mean your husband should also have all these qualities.
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It's really up to the bride; if you do decide to have one and not the other, I would be sure to ask the other one to do something of significance, like maybe be your personal attendant?
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My husband:\n\nHe's gorgeous (long brown hair, big brown eyes, full lips)\nHe's kind\nHe's gentle\nHe's honest\nHe's tall (6' 4")\nHe takes great care of me\nHe's gorgeous\n\nOh yeah!! ... a huge factor ... he loves to dance!!