what happens when you fall in love with a married person?
552464
chances are it will end at some point. And, chances are when it ends, that married person will remain married.\n\nYou can try to beat the odds though. Millions do it each day by buying lottery tickets and other nonsense. But, numbers don't lie....
218355
I think we are in love with both.  You fall in love with a person because he has the potential to make you happy and loved.  You will never be sure if he can pull it off though and that's where the leap of faith enters the picture.
760956
It hits you when you least expect it.  Then, after 1 1/2 to 2 years that "in love feeling" subsides and then the relationship takes work, communication and discipline to survive.  If you both put work into it, you'll become closer and love each other more and more.  If you think you'll just be in love forever no matter what, you're in for a rude awakening.  This is why some people marry someone different about every 5 years because they "just fell out of love with them."  Anyone who tells you differently has never been married for longer than 7 years.
500942
You'll know immediately as your heart will palpitate almost out of control, you will get wet and you will have an uncontrollable urge to hug and kiss him as if nothing else matters around you. He is all you can think about and you literally see you life (your future) with him flash in front of you; and you know what?  It's all the good things about marriage, children, travel and basically having a wonderful and happy life with that person.  Believe me, I know!
126082
I guess so.  Depends on what you call love.  Married love is different from infatuation love.\nMarried love has something to do with attraction, common interests, respect, compromise, teamwork, silliness, and dedication to this union that is bigger than you.\n\nIf you are wondering if you should wander from your marriage to this other person I would say no.  Give your marriage a chance.  Getting through rough times together is part of what will make your union stronger and lasting.\n\nHow would you feel if your position was reversed with your spouse?  Would you want your mate's eye to wander?  \n\nThink before you act and give yourself a chance to make sure that whatever decision you make, you can live with the consequences.
500260
when you fall in love you just know, your hearts skips a beat when you see the man that you love.
517866
You keep falling and eventually fall in love, thats how it goes. Remember God is always there for you, in good times and bad times.
977788
You get married because you love that person and you want to spend the rest of your life with them. You want to really love that person and you know you are meant to be with them. There is not a time limit on love. You just choose.
894953
Not sure.  I'd feel pretty heartbroken, and probably would be very near to ending the marriage.  It depends on whether or not my husband was sorry.  Haven't had this happen to me, so I don't know.
1051005
when you are married. duh.
533807
I was in a similar situation one day and let me assure you... It will end in a heartbreak, and the broken heart will probably be yours, and you will only blame yourself because you were the one who decided to get in between a married couple. So get out of it while you can.
608794
Time and falling in love with someone else.
304948
I think it is possible.  When I first met my wife, I fell head over heels in love with her.  She is everything to me and I want nothing else and nobody else.  She is a treasure.  I'm sure that, at some point in your life, you will find someone you feel the same about and will feel that way about you.  Hang in there!
665338
I love my husband so the married man i'm inlove with is married TO ME.
387773
I love being married.  There is nothing better than being with someone who knows your every emotion.  Knows when you need a hug, or when you need to laugh.  Or just someone to be silly with.  Burdens are halved and joys are doubled.  It couldn't be better to do all of that with someone you love and who loves you.
735965
I honestly don't think its the same for every person. \n\nI can tell you how I know I am truly in love, and hope it helps ya'. My love for my husband is beyond any love I have ever felt in my life. I knew the moment I meet him and he smiled his BIG ol' Californian guy smile at me there was something there. And to this day I get butterflies in my stomach when I see him across the room or when he walks up behind me and kisses the back of my neck. :D\n\nKeep this in mind- Love is what you make of it, not what someone else tells you it should be. :)
914905
If you feel the person your married to is the One, your attraction to other people will not steer you away from your love and faithfulness to your spouse. You will always be attracted to other people, your human. But you will feel it's not worth it to be with someone else because you already have what you found at home...that is, if the one your married to IS the One. If you have any doubt in your marriage, then you made a mistake when you got married to that person, and it will be easier for you to make the decision to be with this other person because you feel they have something incredibly important that your spouse doesn't.\n\nSometimes you may simply be confused about your marriage because of your sudden and shocking new found attraction to someone else. In that case, re-evaluate the importance of your spouse and figure out and re-learn if your spouse really does make you feel great, and is important to the max in your life.