Legally, can I get in trouble for being pregnant by a married man who is seperated?  If the wife finds out.?
540515
You wont get in trouble unless she is Psycho b*tch and tries to run you off the road for cheating and getting pregnant w/ her husband's child.  But he is now screwed up becasue she can now file for divorce due to infedelity and she will get awarded w/ pretty much everything that belongs to him!.. Great going!
753569
I would have your wife take a pregnancy test to find out for sure. Sometimes you cant plan your life. If she is pregnant then your plans will happen sooner than expected. You will find a way to make it work because everyone does. Bringing a child up into the world is the most rewarding thing you can do. Look at it as a good thing!
984997
Your husband and his lawyer will say its wrong for you to be pregnant by another man but,It is wrong for a man to be abusive to his wife.Causing her to have to go in search of a better life to begin with.\nI was married to an abusive husband for 20yrs.So I commend you for getting out so soon.\nYou need your own lawyer.Most towns have abused women's shelters that can help you with issues of divorce from an  abusive spouse.They can help you find a lawyer with experience in such cases.If you are low income.They can help you find programs to help you with that also.\nWhat better way to bring a baby into the world.With two parents that love each other.Don't let people make you believe you are wrong.The marriage was not working.No one deserves to be abused.Good Luck with your guy and your new baby.
648579
Your husband has a good chance of going for a night or two and maybe having a hefty fine too.  It doesn't matter that your husband was hit with a rock first, it is still assault because self defense can not be claimed if you retaliate with more force than is necessary to defend yourself.  Your neighbor will face legal action too though.  If you and your neighbor mutually agree to drop charges then you will both walk away with no action, but chances are that he won't drop charges if you and your husband are wishing to press charges against him... it is a sad fact of how our legal system works.  I can honestly say I would have done the same thing in your husband's shoes, but I'm sorry to bring you this unfortunate reality.
1154853
you will probably have to check your contract, but under most circumstances, the employer can restrict somebody who is pregnant if there are hazardous working conditions.  This is to protect the employer from being sued later on down the road, especially since those cases would fall outside of negligence, meaning they would have to pay a whole lot more than simple workers comp.  I suggest looking at your contract and referring to the Family and Medical Leave Act.
749708
This is a tough situation you put yourself into...I suggest you take the mature way out and Tell his wife. Telling his wife will get his marriage in shambles and then you and her can begin the sueing process. It is in your best interest to sue him for emotional problems and the lifestyle he has given you. Good luck ! IF you need a good lawyer call 1 800 ask gary hes no mumbo jumbo
708760
I know a woman that got pregnant while cheating.  I don't think the woman and her husband stayed together. The trust was gone. \n\nSide note: She gave the child up for adoption, and he was adopted by a good friend of mine. He is very well taken care of and loved.
232997
Oh sorry I missed it last time but I'll say it again. If your husband gets pregnant you may want a divorce. Get a good lawyer...
419938
if the mother has custody and the father doesn't and he takes off with her then it is kidnapping. and i don't know what city you live in but you need to get more than just the police involved then, maybe the sheriffs department, state police or FBI, don't take what they say for gospel. kidnapping is still just that kidnapping. felony by the way.it doesn't matter if the baby has the same last name or different either.take his butt to court and have a court order removing all of his rights. sounds like he is a loser anyways.
123881
You have already played a very dangerous game.  Your child deserves, at the very least, the financial support of its father, but presumably, the wife and her baby, who have done nothing wrong, deserve not to have their lives interrupted.  You could certainly sue your baby's father for paternity, but you will have to worry about how desparate he will be to keep this situation from destroying his current family situation.  Without threatening to sue, tell him that you will leave him completely alone if he meets you at the child support division at your county courthouse and agrees to voluntary enforced support payments.  Tell him that you will not terminate the pregnancy, but the only involvement you will expect is for him to voluntarily pay a reasonable amount in support for your child.  Have your attorney (or a child support enforcement agent) help you determine what that amount should be.  If he pays, leave him alone.  If he doesn't pay, or stops paying, inform child support enforcement and allow them to proceed against him.  You must not put yourself or your child in danger by contacting him directly.  Hopefully, he will keep his word and your child will benefit.  Please be careful, whatever you do.
198163
no! but to be on the safe side call your local courthouse\nto find out
72037
First off if he has supported the child for 51 % of the time,  (ex. clothing, utilities, daycare, insurance, medical, dental etc.) then yes he can claim the child but only if he has supported the child for 51% also if you claim him first before he gets to file then when he goes to claim the child there will be a flag that the child has already been claimed and cannot be claimed again. And yes you can claim the child afterwards if you do report him but never let anyone else get that childs ss#. Also if this is a child between the two of you then if he gets a paternity test and establishes paternity to the child then you may have to split the filing of the child from year to year like ane year he does then you the next or maybe he will let you claim him and nothing be said but that is something that the two of you should work out. One last thing before I go I would look into this further and contact an tax and accounting agent to find out more and also contact a lawyer if you don't want to be with this man and get things rolling in your favor before this boy-friend beats you to the punch, and before you get to talk to anyone about what is going on. If he also establishes paternity then you can also get him for child support. Good luck hun and I sure hope that things go wonderful for you and that precious baby boy of yours.
60878
Absolutely.  That baby is half the father's too.  The mother will ultimately probably have the final say.  Abortion could affect her uterus enough that she is unable to have children in the future due to scar tissue buildup.
557753
Well, a tough situation for you, but you should tell him that you are pregnant with his child only because it's fair for him to know. If he chooses to be there in support of the child that's great!!! If he is not, then you have to decide for the child what's going to be best for him/her and if that means getting money from this guy then that is what it will take. Good Luck!!!!!
462170
you will want to check with the Immigration rules on this one but i am sure you are good to go . as long as husband and wife's name is on the birth certificate your OK  but I'd still get professional advice even ask a lawyer won't hurt better to be safe then sorry ..wish you all the luck
506339
I can REALLY symphatize with your situation. I am currently going through a divorce and so I do understand your dilema. You have to think long term. The worse that can happen is in court it comes out that you cheated. In which case you can argue that the child was concieved during the separation period and had no bearings on the marriage itself. Plus unless you start showing immedately you should be fine. No court in the world can order you to take a pregnacy test even if you look a little big. You also have to think what it could mean moraaly and spiritually. You and God know your heart and spirit. If it will detract and take away from your spirit you cannot do it. Give this child a chance. You have made mistakes, but this child could be a test from somone or something higher to see if you are morally ready to make a positive change in your life. I hope and pray that you get the support you need. At the end of the day when all is said and done, would you want this on your conscience. Make this a fresh start for you and the sake of that lil one. Good Luck
32217
Well of course!  Unprotected sex even if the male does not ejaculate in your body can lead to pregnancy!\n\nThere is always a chance some sperm could have leaked out in you.