this girl keeps calling my boyfriend hhe says shes an ex who cant get over him .....what should i do?
541705
Its not up to you to do something.  He needs to stop it.
566981
You need to get on the phone and call all of your friends. Have lots of girls nights out. Have some fun. Forget about him. Its hard, you will think about him all the whole time. But force yourself to keep busy. Keep your mind busy. Eventually it will get easier. Your ex is playing you and his girlfriend. He feels insecure about himself and his current relationship. He isnt worth your time of day! Don't you feel sorry for her that he is actually leading you on. Telling you that he is going to come back to you? Wouldn't that be considered "emotional cheating" on her? Think- if he is doing this to her, then he must have done the same to you. You are better then him. Go OUT ! Have fun while you are single. If it was meant to be, then so be it. But don't wait your precious time sitting around waiting for him when you could be spending it with people who really care about you- "your friends & family" Who knows, one of these days you might meet somebody who treats you with respect, "unlike your ex" and then you can tell him.... "Now who will be sitting around waiting..."\n\nHave fun!
158856
You know what will happen if you continue or let him continue with this since his current gf will come to know then he will play you against her or her against you if not leave her for you which will cause heart break for her or you which will just drag this mess.Tell him hes in a relationship he should stick to it.You wouldnt want it happening if you had a boyfriend who was in love with his ex or doing what this guy is doing right?and remember that girl is innocent and shes only in with that guy since she loves him so dont hurt her.I hope everything works out.Best of luck.
298177
guy sounds like he just wants to move on.  she will get over him eventually, eveyone gets over a boyfriend/girlfriend eventually.
154536
He is an ex.  get over him...Move on. there was a reason you are not with him let her have his  nasty self. I mean there a a  TON of guys in the world why get all bothered about one that you aren't with.
469555
It sounds like he still loves his ex and obviously can't take the hint that she wants nothing to do with her. I would say you need to ignore him awhile then try to talk to him again about the ex, if he gets mad then straight out tell him that he either stops with the cards and flowers to the ex or you will be gone, why stay with someone when their heart is with someone else!
672690
hi, i feel that you should not be talking to your ex, if\nyou are still close that good but he has a girlfriend, and\ni feel it very  disrespectful of him to be talking to you\nabout his problem with her. because if the shoe was on the\nother foot how would you feel. he need to get his situation\nwith her together and  if it meant for you and him to get back\nyou will. the big guest ion you should ask yourself seriously\nif he so unhappy with her then as you stated why is he still\nthere.
1082287
You should have a discussion first with your friend.If she's doing this to you then she's not your friend but your enemy!\nAnd talk to your ex too.Tell him what you feel for him.Maybe he feels the same way.Talking to him is the only way to clear things out...
393482
If he left her and she is still in love with him just know that she wants him back...she is trying to stay in his life in hopes to get him back.  I would as him what is the nature or the relationship (If they have childern I am sorry you have to deal).  I would ask him to limit or stop the phone calls because it is bothering you....Just know that this could be a problem for him if he has underlying feeling for her.  \n\nJust know that he is with you and you mean something to him...\n\nI have had that done to me with an ex, he just kept calling me to try and break us up....after awhile she will get tired of the chase and quit calling...you just hang in there if this guy is worth the hassle!
448515
Well u went a yr,,, some people can't even go that long without wondering if they should call the ex, \n\nBut if u want to call just 2 say hi it's cool, if ur calling because ur hoping may be u can get back together with him  be prepared, it's been more then a yr he could have a girlfriend by now. And if u find that out it could hurt all 3 of u, hurt u because u were hoping u could get back with him, u her because his ex is calling after more then a yr and she'll know why your calling, hurt him because  he will having some explaining to do.\n\nSo think about it first.
700990
i think you should stop calling her. I realize it will be difficult as sounds as though you really care for her but she is playing with your feelings. Sounds like she is out for her and not ready to be in a relationship. A friend of mine just went through something similar. Each time he got hurt more and more.  Guess I would tell her how you feel about what she is doing then if it continues its time to find someone new or accept the fact that is how she is.
917558
wow small world i tell you. i love my bf and he loves me and would do anything for me as far as i know.hes ina different state and hes movin back in a few months. theres this guy that keeps hittin on me tho. honestly theres nothing you can do about it you need to talk to the gurl and have her talk to him about if she truly loves you she will handle it the way she feels it should be handled.thats all i can say i hope everything works out for you guys
723361
I'd say if you two have been together for a year and she's STILL not over him, there are some major issues here.  It shouldn't take somebody that long to get over an ex, especially when they're suppossed to be with somebody else.  Confront her about it.  Tell her how much it hurts you that she's not over him, and that if she doesn't clean up her act...you will have to end the relationship.  To tell you the truth she doesn't seem very mature or stable, so you're probably better off without her anyway.  At the age of 29, you need somebody who is at your same maturity level and stage in life, and is ready to commit.
372216
you gota ask yourself what kinda friend tells your boyfriend she loves him,and what kinda guy is he to take her calls,relationships shud be fun,if this keeps up then walk away girl,you dont deserve to feel bad all the time.
250708
obviously he doesn't care about you!!!! dump him and move on!!!get some of your own self-esteem first before getting into another relationship...and don't hate the girl.
418889
Sometimes, its hard to get over an ex.  It sounds to me like you jumped into a relationship with your new boyfriend quickly after the breakup of you and your ex.  Thats not really a good thing, as you need time to come to terms with your feelings and to get over your ex.  \n\nI think you need to consider your feelings for your current boyfriend.  Do you really like him?  Do you really want to be with him?  If so, you are going to have to let your ex go.  There's only so many times he can be called another guys name without freaking out!  If you find you still have overwhelming feelings for your ex, maybe you need to put this relationship on hold while you sort your feelings out.  You can't be with someone and still hold a torch for someone else.  Its not fair to them and its not fair to you.
412656
i would tell you boyfriend how you feel about his ex wife. tell him that you really don't feel right her staying there. she is worried that you are taking what she had first but how i see it she was the one that let go of him and she thinks that he is going to wait around for her to come back around a crap. i would tell him everything that you don't like about her, what you think about her. just tell it how it is girl. because that is just going to hurt you guys in the long run because she might try to say something to him or something that will mess everything up. or try to start crap.