How could i deal with the relationship between a ladys man and me?
540056
If hes your teacher, you need to not be having this relationship.
1054532
Make no contact with her, and don't let your boy friend to make any contact with her. If your boy friend truly loves you then he will not go for the women in that way.
133728
Not too protective to where he is questiioning my every move. Or following me around. A relationship is to be based\non love, trust, honesty, loyalty and God. You don't have them then it won't last long. Now if a man is messing with\nyour lady and touching her then you have the right to say\nsomething to him. That's your lady.
423711
Personally, I believe that I would try the honest approach. It is my personal experience that women respond to a man who is open, honest and DIRECT. Don't beat around the bush about it, because your time with her is apparently limited. If that is the case, you have nothing to lose and everything to gain.\n\nWho knows, maybe she feels the same way about you but is having problems telling you as well. Look her DIRECTLY in the eye and tell her that your time together has been wonderful and you have connected with her in a way you never thought imaginable with another woman. Tell her that your friendship together means the world to you and it has grown into a deep respect and you hope she feels the same towards you.\n\nI understand what you are going through. I have been there and bought that tee shirt. Good Luck and I hope it works out.
291846
You are sloppy-seconds, an after thought, on the back burner. Do you--and leave that woman's man alone. It's easy to break up a relationship when it's not going well. Stop selling your soul for some dick.
778873
I believe that must be something that hold back the lady. if she can't overcome the fear factor, I think the lady will never be committed in this relationship. Ask your friend to convince the lady that he is willing to overcome all obstacles together with the lady together. I hope this can work for your friend
680231
May I suggest if you're looking for a long term relationship I would move on.\n\nThis lady has everything.  A husband who isn't always around, a good friend like you who is kind to her when she needs someone, etc.\n\nLooking at things from the outside I believe she is just giving you enough to keep you hanging on "i.e. the skin on her stomach is soft, etc."  Mixed signals and the fact she is a married woman.\n\nYou deserve better.\n\nJan
511549
Avoid places where they go.  Find another man....Your the woman-- you have what guys are after, remember that.  Just be careful.
727844
Very tough situation, I have a few question before I can answer clearly your question. Has the company that you two are involved in currently in operation and generating revenue? Have you completely explain your feelings for her?  Most men do not speak clearly to women when explaining things like this? Ages of you and her? Education of both? I know this sounds very trivial, but this information will help give you good advise to move forward.\nFYI- Been there, done that.
99228
dude, i can relate. maybe we've known each other from childhood. i am also a ladies' man (not the playboy kind but the gentleman kind) and i've seen and been with women with mates who treat them like dirt. and somehow, i've managed to make some of them to wake up and break up (ooh, a rhyme!!!)\n\nsee, what i do is, i protect the girl in any means possible, be there for her when she need a shoulder to cry on, and probably (but never did) kick the guys sorry a**!!! women are fascinating people that should never be taken advantage of, so that's why i try my best to be the gentleman they want. consistent persuasion might work, and don't let the girl look at herself as a doormat. she should learn to get respect from her partner, coz deep down, we know we only want their happiness...\n\n=P ~^_^~
247222
Men and women communicate in very different ways.  I would recommend reading the book "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus".  The books talks about how women really just want the guy to listen to her.  Often men try to solve the woman's problems, but really the woman just wants sympathy.  Give her a hug, and tell her that you love her, and pay attention to her.  Listen to her, and repeat back to her whatever she says.  Mirror her words and body language.  If she says "I hate my job", just say "you hate your job?"  don't try to "fix" the problem by saying "well then you should quit".  She just wants you to listen to her complain, and know you understand, then she will feel better.
132952
Don't do that. Never force or convience anyone who is not \nready. If you are a real man or gentleman you will put her\nfeelinga into consideration. She will eventually come around. Understand men and women are dofferent. Their timing\nis different. Please be understanding with her. If you love\nher you will understand.
476216
There's two people you need to talk to.  First person is him.  Explain how you are uncomfortable with her always calling him and you feel she is interfering with your personal time.  Tell your man that if he really wants this relationship to workout, he has to set boundaries with this girl because obviously she doesn't get it.Second person is her.  Tell her you know what a great guy he is because you and he are together.  However, you guys need alone time.  And if he wants to hang with her, HE will initiate it and schedule a time where all THREE of you can hang out.  Maybe hook her up with a guy you know.... Yeah its palming her off on someone else but you do need time alone with your man.  But just let her know that you are uncomfortable with the amount of times she calls a day and that every now and again is okay but not 12+ times.  \n\nIf she does keep calling and he's uncomfortable, you might want to look into having him get a TRO or something.  She may or may not be after your man (She could be bored or something and not have anyone that wants to hang with her cuz she sounds a bit clingy), but make sure you keep a level head about you because how you react to her clingy-ness could make you look bad.
402247
Best way to keep your man is to beyourself, do not at like a bunnny boiler, let him do his own thing and don't act jealous,clingy, and do not tell him what he can and cannot do!
882931
talk to him about it- thats wat i did when i had the same issue.  he and i actually had a great conver about the possiblity of the two of us going out.  good times...
297879
I have a similar situation. But it is SHE in my case. Plz..help us both(the asker and me).
271825
I think your standard is too low if this has been your experience.  Not only do I know of many cases where the man cared much more than the woman and the man was the one that put all the energy into the relationship (which isn't fair either) but if you don't settle for that kind of relationship then you will ultimately find someone that thinks you just rock, and they will work as hard to make you happy as you do for them.