im not suposda have a boy friend  and then my parents found out what do i do?
545414
Let them know that he's a great guy(he is right?) and that\nyou are old enough to date.
187980
You should tell your parents. It is better for you to tell them than it would be for them to find out. Trust me on this one! Just tell them that he is more of a friend and try to explain to them your reasons. Ussual works.
455622
Well u can't really MAKE your parents happy but have your boyfriend do something very thoughtful in front of your parents so maybe they'll except him and you together more.\n                    :-) try it it's work for all my other friends.
589807
Ha ha. I know exactly how you feel. Just act like yourself. If you pretend to be someone else, chances are they won't like you later on when the real you comes out because they will know that you lied to them. And if they don't like you, it's not your fault. Your boy friend likes you and that's all that matters.
450866
I've been in your same situation when i was younger. with my parents i told them some of the nice things that this guy did, that let them know that he was nice. Ask this guy to meet them. Not really at the house at first, but maybe at a park or a school activity. Then he won't be so nervous. Tell your mom first. Mom's are always easier. Dads will understand eventually. Don't say date or anything yet, say hanging out or something like that, then after a while say casually in a conversation with your parents how your friends think that you and _your guys name__ are such a cute couple. or something like that. that will be easier. if they are really strict just say that this guy is your special guy. hope i helped!!!
889279
you're only twelve.  too young for any type of relationship other than friends.  if they shun you as a friend then they are really not the kind of friend you want to have.  besides, boys get their growth spurts in highschool.
765581
While it totally sucks........your parents have their reasons for not wanting you to date, yet.  You are, obviously, young..... I am guessing freshman.......maybe a sophmore in high school.\n\nApproach this with a mature perspective.  Go to your parents\nand tell them that you have met a boy that you really like.........\nDON'T call him your boyfriend!!!  Tell them that you would like\nto hang out with him, but you would like their permission.\nAsk to have him over to watch movies.  1) your parents will be there so they can "supervise" without worrying.  2) This shows\nthem that you are responsible and that you are growing up.\n\nYou dad may be a big guy, but he isnt going to hurt your boyfriend\ncuz then he would go to jail.\n\nIf they say no........dont throw a fit.......simply say "ok, I understand".  At least, that way you know you tried and this\nshows your maturity.  It may not help now, but it will help in the long run\n\nGood luck
329804
no boy friend or girlfriend but want one
346409
Well, it you are at an appropriate age (15 and up in my opinion), and you are really interested in this guy... not physically please (remember...true love waits)... I encourage courtship... there's a book called "I Kissed Dating Goodbye" by Joshua Harris, and it's wonderful (it's about courting)... that way you and your parents can be involved and there won't be any secrets and the respect can still remain. Believe me if you are open and honest with your parents and help them understand that you want a healthy friendship with this young man, there shouldn't be a problem.  Best of luck...es
823263
honey, dont even worry about them if they cant support you on e this then tell them they arent real friends to you if they are they will stand behind u take it from someone who knows dont let other people ruin ur life im with a guy im not sure i really love b/c my parents forced me to leave a great great guy good luck and i say hold on to him sounds good
135102
Are you still at school?  Can you hang out at lunch?  Do your homework together?  Ask your Mum about her concerns.  Don't get upset with her, just listen and respond calmy.  Maybe you could have a small gathering of friends at your house, including the boy, (with your mum's permission of course) and then your Mum could get to know him in a non-confrontational setting.
109717
Sometimes it's a good idea to let your Boyfriend meet your parents before you actually go on a date with them (just to assure them that you'll be fine with him)\n\nNext, make sure you tell her about what you guys did, it'll help your parents trust you more if they know what you've done in the past and will be a little better at not holding you back.\n\nNext, don't date people your parent's wouldn't approve of.\n\nAnd if it all fails and your parents don't approve of your date, have your date come over to your house and hang out for a while under your parent's supervision. Most parent's would rather you be under their supervision rather than out there with another guy.
178820
I would tell my mom - in private and let her know that this situationa was hard for you to decide what to do -because you would like to give her boyfriend the benefit of the doubt ( maybe it was a girl from his job that stole his number from work - A guy who liked me had done this to me and I almost got in trouble with my boyfriend at the time-but luckily the guy apologized and said he did not know I wasn't single!!!) So anything is possible -since they have been together for 8 years that says alot -unless he has had suspicious behavior before or she has caught him cheating before. Just tell your mom you felt that she should know and that she should talk to him to get the truth out could be he's innocent (like my situation) or could be another story.\nGood luck \nhopefully for your mom's sake it was just a harmless crush from a co-worker
933891
Tell you parents, both sets.  Either they will accept you, or they will not.  Lying does not do anybody any good.  If you tell them, they MAY accept you guys dating.  If you hide it, you will never know.\nPlus, if you are caught, then no matter what the answer WOULD have been, it WILL now be "no."
69469
Best thing is to only tell people you trust, like a close friend preferrably a girl, they seem to be more understanding than a typical guy friend. I wouldnt tell your parents just yet I would hold off until it feels right, it seems to me your learning about yourself right now and you found something that interests you, and it may be something that passes and it may not so I wouldnt alarm anyone just yet. Take a deep breath and think about what it is your looking for and go for it. When the newness wears off and your sure you will always be this way, then tell your family because then you will be more confident that this is how you are and they have to accept you. I have seen alot of parents go to the extreme when finding out their child is not as perfect as they hoped, or they have different looks on thier life than their parents expected, just something to think about. Lots of luck bud...
377509
Tell only your true friend that you know wont get you in trouble by telling them. if you already dont trust them then you shouldnt tell those friends. if you plan on continueing the relationship with this boy then you are going to need there help in this situation but if you dont have a chance of breaking him up with his girlfriend then you need to keep it to yourself so no one finds out and you get a bad name.
436543
I don't know how old you are. You didn't say, but, you need to talk to your dad and if he doesn't want you to "date", then you need to do as he says, but, you talk about church. Talk to your dad about being able to do things as a church group(functions)with the boy you like. Or going for burgers with other friends included. See what he says