Any ideas on how to fix your sister up with a nice guy who pays his own way?
544381
save your breath, interfering battle axe. just accept sis's new cling on. if you are employed, you can contribute to loser boy's maintenance. tell sis to get some overtime, since jo jo the dog boy probably can drink her under the table! or, if you can pick your drunken @ss off the floor, you can try REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY. start hitting on hero boy, and tell sis to back off, he's yours. comment on his nice wallet and harley. make sis jealous by telling her that he wants you.  if all else fails, drug sis's drink. when she becomes unconscience, ask hero for help, because by that time, loser boy will be rifling through sis's purse and pockets! you can always take loser boy aside, and give him a twenty and tell him to leave town!
303808
FIRST: KICK HIS SISTER OUT!!\nSECOND: KICK HIS STUFF OUT!!\nTHIRD: BRING HOME A HOTTIE AND GIT IT ON WITH HIM!!\n\nand why do you love a loser who cheats on you. Instead go out, party, have fun and better yet keep his stuff and sell it on ebay and make extra money so you can go buy yourself designer apparell and maybe go on a vacation and meet hot new guys!! =P
862835
Try and get his sister to invite her after all it's only fair it's her turn!!!
935977
don't trust his sister. Ask his friends. I hope everything works out for you.
763768
What were they thinking? You have a brother. How cool is that? What to do from here? I would ask your sisters why they didn't tell you. Don't be too quick to be pissed yet. There may be a reason. I can't think of any but give them a chance. Have they been good sisters in the past or have they always left you out? Take your time and get your ducks in a row. It would be great to find out he is a real nice guy that anyone would love to have as a brother. You don't have to hurry or rush to judgment. I sure hope things work out. Good Luck.
1021103
You can do the right thing and that would be to keep it to yourself.  HE IS YOUR SISTERS BF FOR GOD SAKE.
879003
Have the decency to tell her the truth. If she gives you a hard time tell her to get in touch with her brother. It may be awkward for you...but it can be worse to let her take advantage of your generosity.
109065
Of course your man shouldn't be angry. It's your sister that he likes, not you. And being a good sibling, you should try getting them hooked up. I have tons of guy friends myself, and am not dating, but I like helping out my sister. She needs all the help she can get...
495099
You know what must be done, if you have hard evidence confront him as well as your sister. Especially you are sister should be one that you should be more angry since she's blood related. Either that you could just forgive them and go on with your life, find a better guy.
282847
be nice to her so that she will see what an awesome brother she has! :)
629221
Tell her how much you love her, a few good memories you both have together doing something as sisters, and how lucky her husband is to have her and if he screws up you'll kick his a$$!  You want to have a good one, but not long, something that drills the point home.  Make the husband feel welcome to the family though, because if not, it really affects your relationship with her...
894820
This guy sounds like a typical control freak. However, your sister is getting something she needs out of this relationship. If she wasn't...she would have left. The bad news is she sounds like she likes to be controlled...even just a little. It must be hard for your family to sit on the sidelines, and watch your sister go on this crazy roller coaster ride. The decision is hers to make. The only thing you and your family can do is wait for the outcome. \n\n*Do you want me to send Vinny over and take care of him?
764248
How about a makeover for the friend? Or suggest a less-shallow guy?  Either would be a nice thing to do.
341150
Dont get into it then.  Dont give them her number if he was not married to her when he got the loan.  Just say hey I havent spoken to my brother in five years so when you find him say hi for me.  Thats all.
630471
well try being nice to her and if that does not work than try to teach her a lesson that she will never forget.That is wat i did to my brother and trust me it worked!!!!!!!
180744
I have a friend who has the same problem. There's not much we can do. She'll have to choose on her own to give nice guys a try. My friend Kim finally decided to pick the nice guy after years of abusive relationships (her father died and her brother took over. he was a pretty big a$$hole, so he was the kind of guy she would go for) Anyway, she saw the light side of life after a while and dated this great guy named Josh. He was pretty cook. Now she's looking for that sort of guy on purpose. Your friend apparently likes being treated like crap, so don't give her a shoulder to cry on when they hurt her. Just tell her that it's been her choice all along. Maybe she'll come around. BUT be sure to be her friend about everything else though. You don't want to lose her. Anyway, don't let it bother you so much. It'll start to affect your relationships if you do.
1102892
I feel your pain, really I do.  And I understand.  Obviously, your sister has self-esteem issues.  For that matter, she may even have some mental health issues (as does my own sister) that run deeper.  \n\nHaving gone the route of trying to show my sister that she was taking the wrong path, and making improper choices concerning the men in her life as well as other decisions, I have finally given up.  Unless a person is legally and or medically determined to not be responsible or in control of their own actions, they are capable of making their own decisions.  As long as you try to provide direction to her, you will likely be frustrated in your efforts.\n\nDetermine what is ultimately important.  If you want your sister to include you in her life in spite of her decision-making, then you need to really try to keep the lines of communication open.  As long as you're trying to tell her how to live her life, and as long as she disagrees with you, you will be at odds.\n\nThe better thing would be for you to be a loving supportive sister, even when she fails.  Be there to encourage her.  Ultimately, these decisions are hers to make, even if her loved ones know that they are bad ones.  It is a hard thing to take, but it may be better for your relationship if you step back a bit.  She will, unfortunately, find out sooner or later what kind of man she's dealing with.  Sadly, any action that she takes must be hers, and hers alone.  They say that, "Experience is the best teacher, and for some there is no other."  She's just going to have to find this out for herself.