I was speaking to a frined who asked what do you think of a 28 yr man dating an 18 yr woman?
550390
depends how mature the man is. generally it'll be a disaster, she's still a teenager and no matter how mature she may seem she still has a lot to learn. maybe something could come out of it 5 years from now... but i highly doubt right now as an 18 yr old, unfortunately
1058830
I know from experience! 21 with 49! You may be happy now and enjoying each other but let's say you get serious or move in together. The movies, music, friends, conversation, style, and attitude will change eventually. An 18 year old has so much more to learn and experience and can do so with an older person, but believe me they will eventually get someone a little younger, closer to there own style or cheat on you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
105571
I do. Guys my age (19) and younger are usually idiots when it comes to relationships. Am I going to go for a guy over 35? Unless you're talking Liam Neeson or Sean Connery, not too likely. But I'm more likely to go for them than your standard 18-year-old college freshman who thinks it's hillarious to talk about getting so drunk he puked on his new shoes at last night's frat party.
149991
Love your spelling. When you say older, what do you mean? If a younger woman approached me, I would be skeptical of her motives. She would have to be an intellectual equal for me to consider her more than a booty call. What kind of dates would you both feel comfortable on? If he is seen out with you, what are others going to say? Is he married? Will people tell? There's some pressure here.
393724
I'm married to one!  :)  \n\nHe's 10 years older than me.  Many of my friends are married to men who are 10 or 20 years older.  I'd say that between 10 to 20 year age difference isn't as much when we are more mature.  So a woman 30 years old would seriously consider a 50 year old man.  Especially if he's financially secure (not wealthy but stable) and willing to have a family---ready made (e.g., she already has children) or kids together.
485999
I can barely understand your question, and you don't say how old the two of you are. You sound too young for a relationship.
684201
he may just be saying that,cause he doesnt want to hurt your feelings, he might not like you, reality, most 18 year olds arent interested in 14 year olds, alot of guys that age are into older, more experienced woman. 2 years is a long time to wait for someone, do you really think that you or him will actually wait that long for one another?i wouldnt put myself on hold for 2 years on a guy that i wasnt 100% sure that i was gonna be with, have fun, go out with friends and get to know guys your age and you might just find someone you like more than this 18 year old
505559
It sounds to me like he was kind of hinting for a date.  After the washing my hair line he was probably too intimidated to ask you out directly so he was feeling you out to see what kind of reaction he would get.  As far as your age difference goes, I can't say what is or is not appropriate.  I have know some 19 year old men who were more honest, level headed, and mature than some 30 year old men I know.  People grow and mature at different rates and what matters isn't that your ages be compatible, but that your maturity levels be compatible.
637539
lol chart was good... hmm for the first girl people are just used to talk this way on the internet.. so you believe love is all about feeling?? where's thinking among it? Unless you want someone really dumb to date you.. not age? would you go for a woman who's 50 years old??? Common man, think before you talk..
925012
18*2=36 !!! i think its better to date a man in near age .. being amature is not enough !!! the life looks different for a person (36 yrs) that it looks for another just (18 yrs) !!!
455795
just like its ok for a man to have a relationship with a 10 years younger woman and everybody accept it and society is fine with it, well, the same should stand for a man who likes a 10 years older woman..since you are over 18, we are cool..
1010832
I can't believe all the bullkaka I am reading here.\n\nSo a man can be 20 yrs older but not a woman?  Get serious people and start realizing that life is not always about your young tight a$$.  There is much more out there than most of you will ever experience, especially with an attitude like I see from some of you.  LOL
441152
Well, you are both consenting adults, so no it's not wrong. I would make sure she doesn't have "daddy issues" or you could have problems.\n\nBy the way, why would this question need to be deleted? It's a legitimate question. He said she was 24, not 14.
293720
According to her stiffing you on the date, and her reaction to asking about it, I say it's a no-win situation.  It could definitely happen with someone half your age, but I don't see it happening any time soon.  Girls at 18 are still just girls, regardless of how grown they think they are.  Younger guys are more apt to deal with this sort of behavior, because it's a younger people-type problem.  \nI won't shame you for going after a young woman, as you seem to at least have your head on straight, which I have come to find is STILL somewhat rare in men, even up to age 60 (I could be wrong, but you made it sound good)!  But I think you'd be better off to deal with someone closer to your age, even mid-twenties.  Why?  I'm 24, and I'm gaining a preference for men in their mid-thirties, though I do find people who impress me at younger ages, and older men who still disgust me with their antics.  \nI think it's probably best that you let her deal with her peer pressure and peer group mingling, and move on to greener pastures, lest you drive yourself crazy and find out I was right several months later  ;-)\n\nGood luck to you  :-)
1033437
Ofcourse!!!!  There is nothing wrong with that!  I'm 24 & I'm attracted to a woman who is almost 30...   we have been dating for the past two months & things seem to be working out!!!  I have a much more interesting time with her than I do with a girl of my age... some of them seem to be a little imature!\n\nGood Luck with your situation!!!
633010
He married the the 45 year old and dumped the 34 year old, because he felt the 45 year old listened to him and understood what he wanted. The 34 year old may have been taking him for granted. \n\nOn the other hand, maybe the 45 year old lady was just really hot. hee hee...
452700
I dated and married a 24 year old when I was 18. Go for it!