how do i know when he's not interested anymore?
548730
WHEN HE AVOIDS YOU AND SAYS WE'LL TALK TOMORROW TODAY I AM BUSY ....(OR ANY OTHER EXCUSE). TALKS VERY RUBBISH. DOESN'T WANTS TO MEET YOU. TRIES TO HURT YOU. WHEN YOU ARE THERE WITH HIM  ,HE LOOKS AT OTHER GIRLS MORE THAN AT YOU.
448587
If he hasn't made a move in 2 years, he probably isn't interested. Depending on your age, maybe get a little drunk with him, then you can kiss him and see how he acts. If it goes badly, you can always blame it on the booze.
255295
Yes, email him. At least he'll know then that you didnt kiss him because of lack of interest and you never know, things could progress later.
121860
Try to divine why he's not into you, and minimize the degree to which he's exposed to that variable.  But, uh, good luck.  : /
599073
First of all, does he show any indication that he's interested?  Is he dating someone else?  If the answer is no and you are friends to begin with, just ask him while in converstion, Start by saying. "Hey, Feel like going for a coffee or something?"  If he says no and has no reason why, then he's not interested.  If he's interested and takes you up on your invitation, then you got the ball rolling and now it's in his court.  Good luck!
442583
Forget him.  He's not as interested as you thought.  Move on.
216790
Just ask him and be confident in yourself. Don't say you don't look good. Have faith in you because nobody else will. If he isn't interested its not the end of the world, trust me. I've been turned down myself and it didnt kill me. It might hurt for a while, but you'll move on. So cheer up and just be straight up with him about how you feel and see where his mind is.
829869
If you have feelings for him then don't be a **** buddy.\n\nIf he is not contacting you then let it go.\n\nIf you want something more, let him know what you want and see if he will step up.  Of course if he is not calling you, he is giving you a pretty clear message that he is just not that into you.
311206
There's no sure indicator. Guys are all different. But if all of a sudden he acts different around you, then he's got a reason. Best way to find out would be to ask one of his friends.
544083
you can't you have to listen to your heart\n\nbut a good way to tell is by his reactions whether he seems truly interested with the things you do and if he has changed on the inside.\n\nit sounds like he's avoiding you but he really could just be fishing maybe he feels like you're not really interested guys can be sentimental
465192
You can feel it...\n\nHe's becoming bored in your relationship..\nHe's less interested to you,,,\nHe has no time for you\n\nAnd he has all the excuses that he could say so that he won't spend his time talking about your relationship..
334356
Well, if he's interested, but shy, you might catch glimpses of him staring at you, he might ask you if you have a boyfriend or something... If he's just not interested, he'll just say 'hi' and that's it. Keep him under observation, and see the way he treats you.
680582
You feel it. And there are also more tangible signs.\n\nHe doesn't want to make love to you or not as often as he used to.\n\nHe starts looking after himself more. New clothes, new haircut.\n\nHe works late or goes out more, goes away "on business".\n\nHe smells with women perfume, hides his phone, when answering his  calls he leaves the room.\n\nThere are also bills for flowers you never got, hotel rooms, diners, gifts. \n\nHe may feel guilty and be actually nicer to you than before or more distant. Observe him discreetly and you will find out.
308264
Just give him sometime, see if he cares about you or not, if he shows it or not and it wouldnt be hard to see if he loves you or he is looking for something else. Just give him time.
677121
He won't show interest in you. It should be pretty obvious. Assess the situation: does he work a lot? does he come home late? is he not in the mood for sex? He may just be under a lot of stress, but if it goes on for too long (6-8 months) then it's a safe bet something else is wrong. Ask him. Tell him you're afraid he's lost interest, and if he doesn't change his behavior you know he has.
832298
he either was not interested in you that way....or feels a little uncomfortable....give him time or speak to him and address it.....
165062
Unless there's a legitimate reason for him not calling you back, "he's just not that into you". You make it sound like his behavior is consistent so if you're making the relationship a priority and he isn't, it may be time to move on. Make yourself less available. I would spend more time with friends and ignore his calls. That way you're out there meeting new guys and he'll either come around or you'll find one that returns phone calls.