i am in love with married Lady when we are together she is so nice but some times she neglect me why?
537651
She has to neglect you because she did not make a commitment to you, she made it to her husband. \n\nI suggest moving on. It is morally irresponsible to expect a married women to be totally commited to you.
678754
My wife already makes feel special.She loves me,and to prove this,I will list the following things she does that makes me feel loved.\n1.She is always telling me-I love you!(I always tell her the same thing!!!)\n2.She works hard at her job of 18 years to provide me with a home.\n3. She supports my decision to start an in-home computer repair service\n3.She is always concerned about my health and well being\n4.She goes the extra mile to provide me with the attention and words to make me feel comfortable in every thing \n5.She will fight -to the death-anybody that tries to hurt me-(We both are experienced martial artists)\n6.She lets me know when she is sad-mad-upset with someone,or just needs some loving.\n7.She lets the past mistakes I made, remain in the past and forgave me of them-(I never repeated them)\n8. We are still together after 21 years!!!!!!!!!!
1083465
Start making a good faith effort to make things go better between you. Then keep making that good faith effort day after day until it pays off. And then keep right on making that good faith effort day after day, or she will feel like you tricked her, and you will be worse off than before.\n\nIn short, there is nothing like a husband who tries hard to make the marriage a good marriage to make a wife feel friendly toward him.
188186
Stop over thinking this.  It sounds like your wife has been very honest with you about how she feels.  The fact that you two are only separated but still living together and still spending time together hints that she is honestly there trying to figure out how she feels.  If she didn't have some feelings for you then she would have left by now and filed for a divorce.  You just need to be careful and not go over board focusing on pleasing her all the time.  She is probably looking for a lot more than just your attention.  She is probably looking at your life as a whole and where the future might lead.  Take time to make sure the rest of your life is as good as possible.  Love is more than just emotions, it encompasses all of life.  Be patient with her and don't push too hard or all your work may have the opposite effect and drive her away if she feels smothered all the time.  Remember, what you do for her now needs to be things that you can continue to do for the long haul for the rest of your life, and not just for the moment to fix things between you.
351930
Always have open communication with her meaning, talk to her about any and everything! She should not only be your wife, and lover but your best friend! Just cause you say I do dont give either one of you the right to treat each other different! To keep the spark in the marriage always keep suprize in the relationship like with cards, flowers, sweet gifts like perfume (just because)! Then after ya'll start a family always make sure to keep a date once a week at least every two weeks just for you two to have some alone time that is much needed. When you introduce a family which is wonderful this, is when husband and wife tend to grow apart because they are just caught up in everyday life! I know that my husband and myself have just started date night two months ago because we never had anytime for us with three active children and it has worked like a charm. Lend a hand around the house too even, if she dont work keeping a house and tending to errands are a job among themselves! Also, remember when the good turns bad work through it together even the small stuff cause, like it or not there is no perfect marriage and things will happen just work through it together!! Always remember why you fell in love with you financee that made you want to spend the rest of your life with her and you two will be just fine! If you want to do something really special for her next week on your wedding day send her on a scavenger hunt the day before the wedding to different little stores where you have already went in and made a small purchase of you undying love for her also leave a nice card with the next clue to the next stop! Make the last card and the last stop be the day of the wedding where you leave her a card professing your undying love and a gift certificate in the card for the two of you to go and have a casual picture made for the new home! Its nice to know that these days guys are concerned when it comes to saying I DO!! Good Luck to you and your new bride and may yall have many good memories to come!Oh yeah LAST BUT THE MOST IMPORTANT always keep the good LORD in your relationship because he is the one that blessed us with life and forgives us of our sins!
489722
get a new wife.  One that appreciates you for who you are.
427356
It not love, its lust and u just find yourself being attach to pretty women.Cause there is more to love then just her being beautiful and nice. Get over yourself cause if you don't feel like you could die for her or will kill someone over her then u should just forget about being in love buddy....
816946
Just talk allot about your wife,and how she is the best ting that has ever happend to you.  Don't give the teacher any attention,because she will stop if she sees that you ignore
819810
Woman tend to stray when they are lonely.  I feel that she loves you but needed to have you there with her in the evenings, early mornings and special days.  It's hard for a woman to not have her man around for moral support and physical contact.  I speak as one who has been there.
643013
Maybe she doesn't feel as strongly about you as you feel about her. Back off a little, and give her some space. As the old saying goes..."If you love someone, set them free. If they come back, they are yours. If they don't, they never were." Besides, do you really WANT to be involved with someone that is incapable of displaying emotion? Marriage is a life-long commitment that should never be taken lightly. Good luck.....
744895
she sounds bored.  try something new.  remember what it was like when you first met?  those feelings are still there, you just have to find them....be THAT GUY again for her...flowers on the pillow, candles, some alcohol, a motel room, you remember those days??  i have been married for 10 years and it is just as spicy now as it was then...just be THAT GUY again for her.
1068526
sounds like she doesn't care about you as much as you care about her. she's completely detached. you've been living miles apart, if she loves you she should be missing you right now and only wants to spend time only with you and nobody else.\n\nwhat kind of arrangement did you have anyway? how did you meet? how did you get married? was it for the right reasons? love is all about giving -- if she loves you back, and senses that you don't want to spend time with other people but her, then she sould give in to that.
463732
Most wives tend to give thier husbands plenty of affection. If your wife isn't doing that, then you shoud sit down with her and find out the reason why.
644808
Keep doing what you are doing, eventually you will get over it.  Never change something unless it never poses a problem.  You might be a little nervous, but that is ok, because you love your gf. Show more love and consideration still, someday you will see the appreciation.
649481
As you said, you felt in love with this woman, and love is not just feeling is a consequence of major elements such as respect, faith, honesty , satisfaction .... etc. and when you have these components you are in love ... so, if there is a confidence and honesty between you both .. you have to believe her and trust her ... any way, you are the only one who can judge on your relation and how things are going on.. wish you good luck with her
851958
l think it might have something to do with your job, for instance, do you do ANYTHING that puts your life in jepardy? You should talk to her about it. It'll make her feel more secure to know you care.
389795
because maybe all she wants you to do is hold her and make her feel sexy again. Buyer her gifts and cleaning doesn't make a women feel special and sexy. Maybe she just needs to feel your touch and a little romance with out all the gifts. Treat one as you want to be treated. Did you hurt her in the past and this is how you are trying to make up for that loss of love.