Why Do Women Think that Cheating Screws up a Relationship?
548884
If you are not happy in the relationship then you should get out of it.Dont stay with a person and then cheat on them and justify it by saying"oh but i wasnt happy",have some respect.
145615
Call it a woman's intuition.  If you feel is cheating, it's probably because he is.
856827
Despite the emotional burden, I think almost all women would want to know if they are being cheated on.  Cheating rarely has anything to do with the quality of the marriage but the cheater's inability to commit to a strong vow such as marriage and to control their actions.  If the marraige is that bad, there shouldn't be cheating and decietfulness, there should be divorce. The reasons cheaters tend to stay cheaters is because they don't want to change.  I think it can be changed, but the cheater has to learn a little bit about making decisions according to priority and responsibility, not impulse.  The cheater must also learn where their weaknesses are happening and how to deal with them in a proper manner.  They must learn to avoid cheating of the mind first, then they can free themselves of onsetting thier own urges.  They must change the way they think about cheating (it's not a positive, rewarding thing).   After that, it's all a matter of decision making and devotion.
1178094
Personally I think the main reason guys cheat is that they are looking for something they are not getting at the present.  It may not always be about sex but perhaps more along a more robust converstation or possibly just the personality altogether.  Many will not break up with the current gf until they have secured the next relationship.
492300
if he cheated while unhappy and attempted to cheat while happy, this guy seems like a serial cheater. some guys are like that. no matter how happy they are in their relationship, they just need attention form other women. you deserve better than this guy.
602771
I'm sure men/women have their excuses for why they cheat, some are loneliness, temptation, not getting what they want at home.  They are all just lame excuses for doing something wrong, though.  They should deal with the real problem and not cheat and hurt other people.
261564
Because they know they have lost you and that you ment more than the gal he decided to cheat on you with. He wasnt thinking when he did it. Trust me, My husband did it after 3 years of marriage, he NEVER did it again, He said it was the most stupid thing he had ever though of doing and he really didnt think of the consquences,  we have been married 10 years now.
237510
A woman cheating is not worse than a man.When a man cheats on a woman it hurts just as much and I don't know if you can ever really trust again. But I do know don't let it show to much because the constant harassment can chase her back to the arms of another man. " If I am going to be accused why not do it" type of thing.
998406
Some people are insecure and distrustful. People often think of their mates as property that only belongs to them. Just as many women accuse their men of cheating as well. Just think of it as one of the drawbacks of being good looking with a great personallity. If you were ugly then you would not be accused so much.
667796
well it is because you love him and you are use to him and you dont want the relationship to end and its just like other things in a relationship you think it can be fixed,cheating in a serious relationships destroys it you no longer can trust that person and it causes alot of emotional pain and guilt on both people it really is a selfish act on that persons part too but us as woman are the ones that try to fix things and we have the mother instinct so that is why we put up with alot of bs but usually after cheating a relationship doesnt last and if it does it is never the same it has been broken in two it is sad but you will find someone else someday just dont put up with it a you will grow from this experience good luck
580164
the desire to find a guy that fills it up instead of beating around the bush. Cheating on you is no more sex, no time for you, total daily routine change for time with new man and none for you, dressing diferent, different perfume, attitude, and kum stains on underwear not arent yours.
612392
They don't like to cheat, well some don't..it's that they are immature about problem solving...they don't know how to end the relationship, or cant push past the temptation..It's all about maturity
1071168
why do you think you are being cheated
861894
Its not just women, men cheat too and turn around and say they were unhappy well duh....you could of told me that and we could have worked on it.
4019
Why do Women cheat on Men?\n\nI do not believe that it has any thing to do with the gender of the person but the character of the individual.  If a person (male or female) is not committed to or satisfied with a relationship there is not much you can do to stop them from looking somewhere else.\n\nPeople suck and sh** on others all the time it is human nature.
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I think men cheat because they need to know that they are still desired. \n\nI feel they reach a point in their marriage where they know in their heart that they are loved by their wife....but they start to question whether they have been all they need to be. Perhaps his wife doesn't tell him how "necessary" he is anymore. Perhaps his wife doesn't seduce him the way she used to. Perhaps she doesn't brag about him to her friends the way she used to. He needs to know he is still worthy. \n\nSo one day.....someone notices him.......and man...it just feels so good to be noticed again! And then maybe he sees her again the next day......and the next day. And her smile starts to become addictive. He becomes intrigued about who she is......and why she has noticed him. It might start out as a smile.......but it will become a kind comment.....and then a need on her part to 'run into him' just as he has found it necessary to run into her. \n\nMany times the affair is not intended. But all of a sudden it starts to fill a hole and fulfill a need that he realizes needs to be filled. She tells him how necessary he is........she craves the intimacy.......she tells him what a wonderful person he is. All the things that were lacking in his marriage. His needs are being fulfilled.........just not by his wife.
401028
Nope.  Never would either.  It's just immature and silly. Really there's no excuse EVER for it.  If things aren't going well you work on them, and if it's not gonna work out, the mature thing to do is end the relationship first, then move on.  Another thing - when you're committed to someone you don't even get into situations where cheating "just happened".  That's just b.s.