My son asked me about sex, where do I start?
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How about with the truth? He's either going to learn it from you, or from his friends at school. Be open, be honest, and tell him the basics, then ask him if he has any questions. Be sure to remind him that he can come to you with any questions he may have in the future. Believe me, he'll respect you a lot more if you're open and honest with him about it.
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Read to him, talk to him (no baby talk). Go on walks together and examine plants, flowers and animals you see along the way. Play simple board games with him. Make learning fun and he will respond by wanting to learn. We did this with our grand daughter and she is in 1st Grade an A Honor roll student, and loves to learn, it's an adventure for her. Don't put any pressure on your son though, make everything a game. We bought things like a plastic table mat with clocks on one side where she could draw in the hands of the clock to tell the time she went to school, came home, had lunch etc. On the reverse of the mat is the same thing but in written sentences with spaces for her to fill in the missing word. Another table mat we bought for her is a map of the world (simplified), on the reverse is a map of the USA with all the states outlined and named. We bought jig saw puzzles for her from the time she could hold something and place it where she wanted it to go (rather than just wildly throw it). Start with 10 or 12 piece puzzles and build up to the bigger ones.\nKids learn an amazing amount of stuff very quickly, they like to poke about in dirt-make that a learning thing, is the dirt wet or dry, what kind of stones are in the dirt, are there any bugs in the dirt, how many bugs are there? After finishing with the dirt we go wash our hands and feel and see the soap wash all the dirt and germs off, look at the colors on the soap bubbles on our hands. The possibilities are endless with young children, just make it fun!
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You played adult when you had sex, do the adult thing and give the child up for adoption.  Ask for you parents forgiveness, go to school, get an education, grow up, and then worry about relationships.\n\nUntil then get smart, don't have unprotected sex and find yourself in the same situation all over again.
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Don't buy your son pornos.  Men who learn sexual technique from pornos are terrible in bed.  They are only actors performing for visual stimulation.  A woman needs more than wham bam for 20 minutes.\nAn option would be to buy a sexual instuctional dvd.  These are narrated by health care professionals, with discussions on sexual technique and many other areas of sexual health.  These are not  stuffy sex-ed films.  They show adult couples performing sexual activities, but with respect for each other.  You should watch it first, so you can answer any questions your son might have.  Of course, this depends on how old your son is.  If he is old enough to drive a car, he should be able to watch this.
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I hope he asks you!!! That would be great!  I hope the best for you.  Thats so great that he likes your son too!  He probably will ask you soon... and I hope he does!  It sounds like he might.  But i understand what your saying about gettin ur hopes up.  That would suck.  SO.. if he doesnt ask... then maybe further along in ur relationship... talk to him about if he would ever marry u and maybe hint to him that ur ready to marry him. Good luck!
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Try looking in a sex manual...
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full guy ask ur son for it
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From what I have read from your previous questions, you are 13? If so I do not think someone of your age should be on here asking these kind of questions. And if you are of a decent age, the fun part of sex is finding out with your partner new sexual positions, by experimenting. I think by asking to describe sexual positions you are inviting explicit answers for another reason other than sex tonight w/ your partner.
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A good way of getting to him is wait till he takes the first step in having sex with you. Don't push it and don't ask about anything pertaining to sex unless he does first. He may be shy about answering as he was offended about what you asked him before.\nYou have both waited this long , a while longer will make no difference.
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Not here, you'll only find sex questions! Just go through the internet there are loads, search and you shall find!
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Even though your very young, and I honestly do not encourage you to have sex yet, the answer to your question is;\n\nYES, Always wear a condom.\n\nEven though you both claim to be monogamous, (With No Other Guys) Nowadays, You must be EXTREMELY Careful. Wear a condom, use alot of lube, and go slow, until your able to handle it. If your not ready, do not be afraid to Say So. \n\nHave fun babe, and be safe.
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First off, you are tired.\n\nMasterbation is easy , less active and gets the job done the right way.\n\nthat being said, you have 2 children under 3.\n\nEven if your a stay at home mom its exhausting. all the running around and lack of sleep.\n\nPlus you associate his penis with pregnancy, and that is off limits now.\n\nInitially it was exciting to think you could have his baby, and pregnancy was a fun idea, and now you know that pregnancy ends with a baby and that is no longer FUN its work.\n\nAnd if you had a ruff delivery, and alot of tearing down there, sometimes they just don't sew up the snatch correctly and it hurts, or if you tear at the top, \n\nbut personally for me its the hormones, mommy hormones\nfirst we breast feed, and it takes at least 6 months after breast feeding to enjoy sex. cause your homone levels are up.\n\nso its a dual problem physical and emotional.\n\nOk so here is what you do to fix it.\n\nGet yourself some help, if your hubby doesn't do it then get a friend, your mom, sister whoever.\n\nBut you gotta give the man his sex. you know that right?\n\nGo out to the dollar store and the sex store and pick up some goodies. Candles, and a vibrator. and anal play devices.\n\nmusic , chocolate coverd strawberries, champagne, and whipped cream.\n\nNow wait til friday night, kids are away, and he has no idea,\nget comfortable with the idea.\n\nWatch porn, and pull a julia roberts in pretty woman.\n\nYou need to stop masterbating so often, cause you aren't saving it for him, if you want to masterbate during sex then fine but not before.\n\ntrust me you will get it back but it takes time and if you stop masterbating you'll start enjoying his touch again.\n\nRoll playing can help, talk dirty and tell him what to say to turn you on.\n\nAnd make sure he is licky licky before he sticky sticky's\n\nand if not then tell him to enter from behind and masterbate while he does his thing,.\n\nif this doesn't work email me for more pointers.\n\nGood luck \n\nMeg\nkovasmomma@yahoo.com
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You could do like everyone else and have them log on here.  We'll tell them for you.\n\nBut if you insist on doing it yourself, I suggest you wait until they start asking questions like "Where do babies come from?" and "Why does my little sister have a vagina and I have a penis?"  \n\nYou should handle them individually and not at the same time because they are not the same age or gender and can't process the information identically.\n\nAnswer all questions honestly and leave the stork to parents that lie to their kids.  And whatever you do, don't villianize sex, but simply say that there is a time and a place for everything.\n\nNOTE: Your goal is to make them as comfortable as possible when discussing sex with you.  Don't overload them, and never scold them for stuff that is only natural.  If you do, you can be assured of being left out of the loop when it comes time to discussing whether or not to have sex with their BF or GF.
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My parents divorced.\nMom uncomfortable with topic.\nAnd who can blame her.\nShe bought a copy of "Everything you always wanted to know about sex but were afraid to ask" by Dr David Reuben.\nAnd it there...and I and my brother(and some of our friends) read it.\nThis is back in the sixties.\n\nFind some books written on that topic..age appropriate....and just have them around for kid to peruse on his own.\nWhen the kid is saying his ovaries hurt it might be time to learn about the nuts and bolts of sex.\nAfter all...it is only BIOLOGY.\nThe other stuff....Gay, Lesbian, Fetishes etc can wait until he is older.
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There are some ethical and educational books out there for kids.  I remember one I read about that age about puberty called "What's happening to me?"\n\nConsidering that some kids are apparently experimenting with sex at 10, you might not want to keep your kid in the dark about this topic, but you should also consider talking to your kid about ethics and morality too!  At the very least, you should discuss possible consequences of sex.\n\nI know it's a hard topic to discuss.  It was at about that time too that I realized why there was so much evil in the world and I got to be quite the depressed little kid.  Hopefully you can give it a more positive spin.
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Go to a Children's Museum. Your son could play and have a good time doing some hands on activities and learn  through play while having fun. You and your wife will so find that this is a very relaxing experience because I can guarantee that you will also learn something new in the process and see old things through new eyes.
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Do you mean sexually? well sometimes your inexperience is a turn on. Ask him what he likes,a sks him to show you. He will love opening this new world for you