O.k.How do you tell a guy it's over without hurting his feelings??
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Set them down in a quiet and calm situation and tell them you need to talk. Yes that's a general sign that something is wrong, but start discussing the relationship with them and eventually tell them it's not going to work out. \n\nGive them reasons, don't just say 'because I just feel like it', that will hurt even more. They're going to want to know why so give them a solid reason. \n\nThey're going to be hurt, so after you've broken it off, don't call them the next day asking if they're ok. Let them call you if they ever want to speak with you again. \n\nTips \nEven if they raise their voice, you don't raise yours. Try to keep calm and if it gets too out of control, just leave and let them cool down. \n\nComfort them if they want it, but don't get too attached! \n\nVoice your opinions if things are getting too uncomfortable or not apporpriate. \n\nDon't use negative sounding words, such as curse words or the blame game.
624251
Just tell him how you feel. Make sure it's from the heart and your not saying it just because it sounds good.
167484
I guess just think about how you would want someone break it to you. Just don't lead him on because that hurts more in the end. In the end if you're having trouble doing it realize that you have to think about your own feelings and not just his.
1157727
You're going to hurt him one way or the other.  Just be honest and tell him you're feelings have changed and you don't want to date him anymore.  He'll get over it after a while (unless he's psycho).
570742
Dont ever tell a guy how you feel it just gives him the upper hand.  Next time your around that way stop in to ask his oppion about something you want to do. Maybe a tat. You can tell if he wants to talk or if he just blows you off.
253412
Just tell him that you want to move on. Be very clear. As guys grow older they come to more and more appreciate honesty. Even if he is very sad and mad at you tomorrow ina few years time he'll say "at least oceania had the decensy to say it right out"
800119
just tell him its time to quit playing these childish stupid games. Tell him you have liked him all this time and you want a serious relationship and you need to know how he feels or your gonna find another man that is worth the time and effort you have put into him. He'll either answer your question or honey seriously move on to someone better.
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You let it go.  As fast as you can you forget about it and move on. Spare the negative feelings, they are a waste of emotion that can be positive.  Cry if you need to and get it all out and then move on.
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Theres ton's of ways to tell guys. Just say that you dnt want to leave him. if u lie u will just make it worst for it urself, lol. Just tell him in face (not like yelling or bein rude) and just say it.
533918
ask him it is your best bet to the truth let it all out and tell him how you feel and if he is just using you move on...
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Just lay it out for him...\nSay, look I know this is what you want, but it's not going to happen. I've moved on, hell, I'm married! I would love to stay friends, but that is ABSOLUTELY all your going to get out of me....\n\n...honesty is always the best policy!\nGood Luck!
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he was on a break?\nNEVER tell her girl-wake up. don't be sad either-you did what was ok at time-can't see future
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Tell him that you need some time apart.  Tell him the reasons exactly like you did here.  You can tell him in person, but it might be better over the phone or email.  Dumping someone via email in general is NOT cool, but a) it's only been 5 weeks and b) you're concerned enough about his temper to be worried.\n\nBe kind but firm.  Start out the converstation by telling him you've been thinking about things and that the two of you need to talk.  Tell him you feel uncomfortable with the some ways things have been going.  Tell him you don't appreciate his dictating your time and criticising your apparence.  Inform him you know he's been rude to friends you've had for years, and that that's intolerable.  Finally, just tell him you don't really think the two of you are compatible and that it's probably best to tone it down for a while (that's break-up speak for have a nice life).  If you want, tell him that you're very busy with plans that were made several weeks ago, and that your time is limited.\n\nI know all about this because I've heard the talk - several times.  I've even given it a few.  It is hard, no way around it, especially if you've slept together.  Such is life.  Hopefully he'll learn from the experience, like I did; and eventually find someone fantastic who can teach him and grow with him - like I did.
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The best approach to letting a guy know how u feel for him is to straight and plainly come up and tell him, tha truth is always tha best way, plus,. heres a bonus, if u want to know how he feels about u for real then get him hella drunk before u tell him, he will tell u exactly what he's thinking,.
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Just tell him the truth.  I think the best way to do this is start off with a talk.  You tell him how you fell and he will tell you how he fells.  Please don't jump the gun.
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I would say tell them and tell him soon, you don't want to keep leading him on. I would also say honesty is the policy in this situation, just be honest with him let him know how you are truly feeling and why. More than likely your going to hurt him a little but as long as your honest and gentle with his feelings, I think you will both be okay.
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You can't, really, if they don't want to be with you. I'm going through the same thing too, and the best thing is to just say how you feel. I did, and things are okay, I guess, but we haven't talked since them but i see him tonite. But yea, don't make up cheesy bullsh*t, just tell 'em flat out how it is. Good luck!