Would you forgive someone who repeatedly insulted you?
535887
Yes what are words but someones opinion...I don't let what someone else thinks bother me..That brings me down to there level.
50742
U may forgive the one by thinking that whatever happens....happens for good. \nAny way i liked this question as u have asked "How to forgive?" instead of "What punishment should be given to the person who takes ur money?" The person who forgives is always greater than than the person who takes revenge or gives punishment.
53864
Yes.  Maybe later than sooner but yes.  Even the real BIG things.  My mother told me once, if I can't forgive, how do I expect God to forgive me.  That pretty much grounds my decisions.  It may take a long time.  It doesn't have to be instant but, it does have to happen.  And once you forgive them.  DROP IT.  Have you ever made a mistake and someone reminded you over and over and over and over and . . . it gets old.  Take your time and your space to work things out for you.  Don't be manipulative, it's not worth it (it may be a bit fun but not worth it).  Good Luck
241123
Probably no, if it's not in a particular situation.\n\nI agree with awpw : even if you forgive him, you'll always be wondering what they are doing because you have a right not to trust them (you just can't - there'll be always an obssesion, it makes you suspect, question ... everything he does, if he does honestly ...) its too much worry and stress... It won't let you live in peace ...
1152947
You're forgiven!\nJust don't let it happen again! ;0)
841376
No, and I forgive your insult.
752974
He want's you to be what you were before you argued, but he's not sure how to do that. I don't know who was wrong becasue you didn't write anything here, but I suspect he may think that you owe him a sincere apology.\n\nJust a theory. If you were wrong somehow, it's a bigger person to be able to say you are sorry.
399859
Sure.\n\nYou talk about thing things you have.  Did you do something wrong in order to obtain those things?  If so, you may need to make restitution with the person you slighted in order to make peace with that.\n\nWhatever you have done, if you have asked God to forgive you, you have to forgive you, too.  Failing to forgive yourself will definitely hold you back.\n\nOnce God has forgiven you, you don't have the right to wallow in guilt and shame.  He has freed you to go on to better things, and failing to do so is failing to accept His gracious gift.\n\nI know it can be hard to forgive yourself.  I have always struggled with that.  Part of it for me is recognizing that it hurts God when I don't accept His forgiveness and let go of my guilt and move on.\n\nI had the same problem with confidence.  I was afraid of being selfish, and I was very insecure.  I held on to my insecurity because I didn't want to be arrogant and selfish.  Then I realized how selfish it was that when someone asked me for my opinion, I would answer, but in a voice so small that they struggled to hear me.  I was showing my insecurity, which I thought was humble.  But they were having to work to hear me, which is pretty arrogant.  What is so great about what I have to say, that I'm going to make people work to hear it?  Now, I don't have to go to the other extreme and yell, but it is kind to be considerate of the one asking and speak my answer loudly enough that they can hear it.\n\nI used to think my guilt would keep me from making the same mistakes again.  I grew up never being forgiven, so I learned never to forgive myself.  It didn't work, so I shamed myself on top of that.  Still to no avail.\n\nGuilt is supposed to serve a purpose.  It's supposed to lead us to repentance and forgiveness.  Anything other than that is an abuse of guilt.  Some people will say, "ignore the guilt." but that's not really helpful.  Guilt can bring you out of self-destructive patterns if you use it correctly.\n\nWhen you feel it and repent and ask for forgiveness, you have to take the next step, which is trust.  You have to trust God enough to believe that He has forgiven you and that you can forgive yourself.  And you have to trust that He will help you do His will.  And trust yourself enough to take that next step onward.\n\nGuilt keeps you tied to that cement block you tossed in the river.  Cut the cord, or you'll drown in self-contempt.
112442
Apologize.  Acknowledge that you are human and have done wrong.  Ultimately you will have to forgive yourself and move on.  (Easier said than done, I know)
832096
I am apologizing for all the nasty people that were rude to you. I do hate it when people get abusive on this format, I don't think that would be the case if they were face to face.
78633
Does it make you any better than the person who wronged you? I believe the best revenge is to succeed despite them. Banish them from your personal kingdom, and move on.
1090139
I used to have a very close friend who turned out to have a very nasty temper lashing out at whoever was closest.\n\none day the target was me - and such thing were said that were totally unwarranted that the trust we had was destroyed (before this it was only rumour i had heard but hadn't seen anything like that in the 2 years i had actually known him)\n\ni still miss the friendship i thought we had but even though it was said in a rage i found that trust could not be regained\n\none can forgive the person but it takes two to rebuild trust again.  part of that process is the rager to acknowledge the harm that their outburst does without trying to downplay it - if they cant do that then your relationship may never be the same again\n\nbest thing then is to learn from it several things\n 1 - something once said cant as easily be taken back again\n 2 -  don't bottle things up until it all goes off bang - keep a shortish account of things you need to sort with people\n 3 - don't keep company with bad tempered people - either it rubs off on you or they will turn their anger onto you deserved or not
239256
i wouldnt hate anyone. just wait for your time. on the other hand you could try to break them up... your choice!
673958
You should forgive her BUT speak to her and try and find out way she says nasty things, she probally has deeper problems and is taking her anger out on you
480847
if she doesnt forgive you just forgive yourself and go on.some people cant take constructive criticism.maybe she can forgive you.i wouldnt loose any sleep over it ok.good luck and keep your head up. =)
594578
Not really.  I've listened to him a few times, but its just like listening to the guy above.  He just wants to insult people but in reality, he's just making an ass of himself.
438867
Yes. Sometimes I think I should apologies to a girl I used to go to school with. I left school yrs ago so their r no chances of seeing her to apologies. I am sorry for being mean we do stupid things when we're kids. Its weird coz she wasn't a nice person her self, seemed like she thought she was better than everyone else and she was really really weird used to touch people and do strange stuff and people including me were mean to her coz of that. But if I could go back. I would not have been nasty to her to her. Probably would have just ignored her. But I'm sorry I was un necessarily mean to her. Also I am rude to my Mum sometimes which is very wrong.