how will you handle things if your wife to be is 9 years older than you?
545718
I'm not sure what you are asking.  Are you engaged?  Age really doesn't matter that much, unless of course you are a kid and she's a grown woman.  Just get married and have a good life together.  Men tend to age quicker than women anyway.\n\nNote:  I said they men age quicker than women, I didn't say they mature quicker than women.
39165
My Dad is 9 years younger than my mom, and they've been married for 20+ years. Married at 32 /23. \nIf you love each other, it can work out. Just make sure that you are both old enough for the relation ship -no dating minors.
268811
Just tell her. If you're married she'll understand and listen to what you have to say.
40636
(1) Care not what others think if you, be yourself and do your own thing.\n(2) It's OK to love an older woman.
895945
Take her out for dinner. \n\nVisit her,  give her flowers and a cake. Tell her to give you a call if ever she needs help around the house (things that an old woman can't handle, emergencies etc). It's good that she has your phone number and you hers in case you need to look out for her or help her. Older women are prey to intruders and robbers. Always keep a look out for her safety. \n\nIf she doesn't have relatives over on special occasions such as Christmas, Thanksgiving etc, try to include her in yours at least once a year or once every other year.\n\nYes, you are a very thoughtful young man. Your parents are a success having a son like you and you are a great success for who you are. Bless you.
1062001
How old are you and how old is she?
27973
my husband is 5 years younger than me. and we get along just fine. if you feel you have the capacity to be with an older woman go ahead that means you may be really mature
384471
How old are you? How long have you been dating? Do you see her having you kids? Can you see loving her still 50 years from now when she won't look the same?
644770
Tell wife to grow up!
779385
That's quite an age difference. My only concern is that she becomes bored with the housewife routine, as all women get from time to time. she starts looking elsewhere for the fastlane she gave up to be a homebody.\n\nI would proceed cautiously. Divorce can be very messy especially with kids, and you know it will not all be bliss. I suggest you date and keep your options open...after all, your only 23...
16860
there is a generation gap between the 2 of you.  she was 23 and you were 52 when you got married.  her interests, goals, values etc are probably different than yours.
444279
How can you be lonely if you have a wife. Take her out places, 49 is not old at all. Do things that you used to do, you guys will enjoy yourselves, and all you'll need is your wife.
340238
Age is just a number. If everything is right then I would not worry about it. My husband is 7 years younger than myself and I act a lot younger than him...lol
560251
and your point is???  My husband is 10 years older than me i was 17 he was 27 when we meet
1000184
Married 21 years. I love my wife very much. the longer we are together the more I know I was ment to be with her.You have to be commmited to be a good father
647581
How about an older woman? I'm 40
111015
I am 32, husband is 31.\n\nI don't think the age difference is that drastic, having dated a 38 yr old at 19. \n\nI think a lot of older guys like younger women.  Why??? (boy am I going to catch flack for this, ready....?)\n\nBECAUSE THEY'RE NICE.  Women your age (37) have been married & divorced, probably a couple of times by now.  They are overall jaded and in survival mode.  They have kids, probably (which is not that big of a deal but has a lot to do with their priorities in finding another partner, which is as it should be.)  I am not saying all women are like this, but I bet more than a few are, and I bet you dated them too, right?\n\nAt 22, most women are still open to being hurt, and just don't have as much baggage.  I married first at that age & had my daughter- was divorced a couple of years later and was a little bitter & wary.  2 wacko heartbreaking guys later, and I just decided to let go & see.  Enter fabulous now husband.  It's all OK. \n\nI think if you love her, she loves you, and you treat each other with respect and want the same things...\n\nGO FOR IT HONEY!  \n\nAge isn't much when it comes to love.