for  the boys,, how come you afraid to tell the girl you like , you like her?
553812
why r gurls afraid to tell guys that they like them? >=&#92;
294436
just like trogdor_rocks, i have a partial-crush on a girl (im not fully sure if i like her or not), only i am only 12 as well as trogdor_rocks, and i have a girlfriend who lives in ohio, while i am in NY and although our friendly relationship is fine, our long distance boyfriend-girlfriend relationship isnt the best idea, and i have known her (the first girl, not my current girlfriend)since i was born, only she just transfered to my academy from another school, so although we had a lot of catching up to do, she still thought she knew me too well, and i am afraid she might think i am an idiot if i ask her out, so what should i do?  anyway, back to your answer, they usually act kinda flirty to you, but usually just give you hot loox in the hall, also, anyone who sees this answer and answers one of my questions, plz tell me what i should do about the girl!
217167
First of all, in 90% of cases at least, girls/women feel it when a guy likes them, you don't really need to make them know, although it is good for their ego.\nSecondly, YOUR concern should not be to make her know that you like her but to make her like you.\nAnd last, when you think you have managed the second point, then tell her that you like her DIRECTLY.
127939
Maybe it's because he doesn't know you at all. You shouldn't ever go out and say "hey I like you" or tell anyone for that matter! Somehow, you need to get to know him and develop a friendship with him. Then, take it a bit further. \n\nTelling him or letting him know only scares guys away, and you can not let him know that ever!
577454
..what?..i don't understand your question..what do you mean?..is it that you are shy to talk to the girls even though they are friend of yours?..
519416
Why would you be embarrassed by telling some guy you like him? Its gonna bother you in the long run to not say anything and let him get away. But you could send him a letter from a "secret admirer" and see what happens. Maybe he likes you, but you dont know it yet.
78103
Dont keep it secret anymore. Just go straight to him/her and say out that u like him/her. Nobody would feel irritated by it if you say it decently. Any girl/boy would consider it to be a pride, when somebody proposes them.
127325
Trust me... that's how boys show they like a girl.  He may not have enough nerve to just come out and tell you, so why don't you just ask him if he wants to catch a movie or something??
346573
Dear Hi ...\n\nAny time any person tells you they like you, it is actually a gift from a person who is courageously risking rejection.\n\nThis is true if it's a guy or a girl.\n\nAsk yourself how you would reply to a girl who said she likes you, but you don't like her that way.\n\nOne way is to thank the person for the love they are expressing to you, and that you are honored by that.\n\nThen allow yourself to actually be honored by that, if only privately to yourself.\n\nA main thing a person expressing love wants .. is that it just be acknowledged.\n\nMaybe that's true for you, too.
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This is a very very common problem that I personally have seen and even dealt with. Conveniently from the other side of your problem (I am a male.) So hopefully I will have a fresh view for you. \nGuys generally are put under the impression that it is their job to "Ask a girl out" if you will. If I was the guy that you had a crush on, then I would prefer that you would tell me, or make it painfully obvious, but do not press the subject anymore. If I like you back then odds are I will start showing it in my actions. If you see him starting to act less comfortable around you or anything, then there is a chance that it is because he is shy and uncomfortable around girls (usually only happens in younger guys, high school or below) or if he is an older man and starts to act like this, he is probably trying to avoid any confrontation in fear that it would make situations between the two of you worse. I am not sure if this helps you, but I hope it does.
597680
not really. 90% girls expect you to make the first move, so expecting them to tell you first is like winning a lottery. i say you tell her first (if you like her, that is). you'll get your answer there and then
264148
if you are to scared, write a note to him, give it to a willing friend, and write in it like "meet me after school" or "I really like you, will you go out with me?" ect. or you can talk to one of his friends to do it for you it worked for me ^.^
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This is an advice from me , be honest and be brave and tell her in a polite way.\nFor example: tell her your feeling as a story then asked her how was her feeling about this story ? and what will she do if she become the boy who doesn't like the girl who loved him ,and do the answer.
33026
Yeah,I like this boy named Jerry Beledsoe but Im afraid to tell him because im afraid of what he is going to say and I really dont want to get heart broken!It been 4 years so far and on my birthday I turn his age and Im very confident to tell him now!Im not going to wait intill he get a girlfriend because every time I see him with another girl I get mad because he is mine!I knew him since the \n5th grade!Im going to tell him before its to late!All I got to say to you is that go for it thoes signals she  throw at you means that she like you and dont wait for the last miniute to talk to her!
247644
I think that if you really like this guy you should. I went through the same thing.There was this boy that i really liked so i told him. If you are a little scared, talk it over with a friend you know won;t blab. My friend got me over my fears and i told him.
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well you decide what you want to do. yur friends shouldnt pressure you into something you dont feel like yur ready. my suggestion is that you tell her that you like her because it's alwayz better to tell someone you like rather than hiding it inside, but on the other hand you can do that if you want to. dont regret it.
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There's a difference between wont talk, and afraid to talk.\nFigure out which it is.\nThink of it this way, if she's going to like you then you really can't say the wrong thing,  if she isn't then nothing you say will change that.  What do you have to lose?