OK women, how would you rate your self esteem?
548364
On a scale of 1-10, with 1 being lowest and 10 the highest, I would rate my self-esteem these days at about a 9. I am 48, I have come to terms with my body, my sensuality, my home life,my marriage and my kids. I am happy with my life, my personality, and my choices!!
442373
NOTHING!!!\n\n\nI have one :-D\nAnd I think it sounds lovely....\nAnd other people think I sound cute and sweet.\n\n\nThe way I speak is part of my personality, and I wouldn't change that for anything!
525886
Have faith in yourself - it all starts with your self esteem.  You either have it or you dont, & it sounds like you dont.  You have to work on you self image. Once you've done that & have a good view of yourself, your attractiveness will show through.  You have to care about yourself first, eat right, get enough sleep, exercise.  Put taking care of yourself a top priority.  Keep up with your personal hygiene, wear clean clothes.  Be considerate, kind, compassionate to others. Be honest - this is VERY important because no matter what you do to make yourself look good on the outside, if you are mean, dishonest, & cruel on the inside then you will be unattractive on the outside as well.  \n\nGood Luck!\n\n~from a lady
369607
Self-confidence. If you are confident (or try to be) and don't care about what people would think when you state your opinion, thats an attractive factor. I'm not a guy, but i've been 13 b4!
296636
I think we should all learn that in appreciating each other for our own personality and looks the better off we are. That being said I would love a gal with a really fun sense of humor . The looks don't have to be outstanding but the personality would almost have to.
471083
1. At least average looking (remember, there is no ugly woman in this world, there is only lazy one).\n\n2. One who love me (of course, if you don't love me)\n\n3. At least average fit body shape (again, you can change this, there is on overweight or underwweight, but lazy one)\n\n4. Seriously, I really don't like those girls go on diet while they are as thin as stick, and they still keep saying that they are fat. In fact, man like woman who are a little fat but fit. Get it, dudette.\n\n5. I hope that nowadays women are still able to cook some delicious dishes, devoted to their husbands, and like babies and willing to have your own.
571749
Yes, I would. Its how the man treats and respects a woman. Not about his perfect or imperfect appearance. There isn't a single person on this planet that's perfect.\n\nMy suggestion is to get to know the woman, and then after a while tell her. Or, just don't make a big deal about it and she won't either. Let her find out on her own, in due time.
444380
ur self confidence is so low that you are depending on a bunch of random people to tell you that you are pretty so you can award them 10 points.. well you know what.. I dont think ur pretty .. i think you are ugly.. U - G - L - Y .. UGLY!!!!!!!!!!!!
640843
The only thing I might be able to suggest is to become confident with yourself. How is your own self esteem? Are you able to gain a greater amount of confidence in yourself? Would you date yourself? If not, why not? Work on those things that you think you could change. If you can gain confidence in yourself, your insecurities might diminish, since you can see that you are worth dating. Not to mention, you might become less "needy", and also more trusting! (warning!!! Do NOT become OVER confident in yourself) Good luck!
876989
You're not ugly.\nF*ck that B**ch!
985878
what elae can we judge women on? Give me a break. For your own quality of life and the relationships you have in your life, please don't be so judgemental.
556865
well beauty is in the eye of the beholder but getting back to your question i would say 6.5
503961
A note about "self-esteem":\n\nTo anyone who's ever felt they suffer from "low self-esteem", I simply ask, Have you ever had an orgasm?  If you have, what was your opinion of your "self-esteem" during the orgasm?  Chances are, you had no opinion because you weren't thinking about anything at that moment.  Your mind was not engaged.  \n\nYour opinion of yourself, your self-image..."self-esteem" are all in your mind.  Just as you've "made up" one opinion of yourself, you can make up another one.  You've just been conditioned to operate from one opinion.  When your mind is not engaged in "routine thoughts", you are free to experience life.  How you "experience" yourself during an orgasm is much different than when you "think" about yourself.\n\nSo, to those with low self-esteem, I would suggest you have more orgasms.  Be meditative when you do so.  As you begin to drop the mind, so to will your low self-esteem drop.\n\nAs for the tendencies of many "believers", they operate from a perspective, a "conditioning" that their way is "right" and everyone else's is wrong.  Then, many are taught to either convert the "non-believers" or attack them, usually in that order.  If they truly practiced "love", then they'd know that love does not conquer.  "Love" is unconditional.  That means love does not place any conditions on giving itself.  \n\nI wish you Peace.
765180
How you view yourself and how you would describe yourself to others.
1080507
I hope that person above me didn't report you. That is a valid question and you weren't perverted about it.\n\nIt depends on the woman. You could have good motion with a small package and be pleasing. Most women don't look down on men as long as they have great skills with other things. \n\nBut from my opinion, I like an average size to a little above. Maybe 6-8 inches. But I think of that as extra bonus. \n\nI hope your question gets more answers from people that can actually talk about sex and not think you are a perv.
959183
Don't worry about how you look, but how you feel about it. Would you prefer to know or not? I would rather read them. I am a worse critic of myself than anyone else, so if there is something negative to say, I can do that myself already and am not afraid what others may say or think. \n\nIf you want you can ask your sources what they prefer and follow their wishes.
846784
your girlfriend could see how your self esteem is on how you react to her. but then again only you can fix your self esteem.