I feel very ansy when I talk to my boyfriend on the phone. I really like him, but I don't have much to say.
550283
you lead a boring life.  do something interesting that both you and him enjoy then share your experience.
281462
You can't always win. If he has a boyfriend the best you can do is support him. From experience I'm telling you DON'T tell him you think you're in love with him! That will make your relationship uneasy and he won't want to talk to you because he'll be uneasy and wonder what you're thinking. It's always best to hold onto a good thing. Wait it out and see.
560607
I think both of you need a serious talk. If he says his feelings decreased but he says he made a huge mistake you need to ask how he feels now. Cause if he doesn't want to be with you in that way, you're only torturing yourself by hanging out with him and talking to him on the phone. If he feels that he wants to get back together then he should tell you when both of you have your serious talk. If he says he needs to think about it and you want to wait then don't pressure him. Show interest but not insecurity. I know it would be hard to stop talking to someone that you love if it wont work out. But sometimes you need your heart to hurt a little bit so it would heal. Just keep yourself busy. If it's meant to be then it will happen. There's plenty other relationship experience's that you will go through and not all of them will work even though your certain they're the one. And yes, I'm telling you this from personal experience. Good luck...
1057145
im in a situation just like you ilove my guy to death but i feel isolated but ive been going out with him for 3 years. ive stayed with him by making him want me. i just did simple things like call him and tell him i just wanted to say hi and hear your voice so net i gotta go talk to you later and then i realize (on my ID) that he called me like 3 or 4 times he never leaves a full messge its either hey baby or hi and thats how he keeps me wanting him!\n       good luck!!!!
745051
It kinda sounds like your boyfriend isn't that interested anymore. Either that, or he's into someone else (or both). Stop calling him for a bit and see how long it takes for him to contact you. Perhaps you should think about moving on. I'm really sorry but I know how you feel (i'm going through the same thing)
118775
You should just sit down and talk with him about how you feel. Whatever happens, happens.
389817
If you are good terms, definately call. Something as small as a phone call can remind someone of how much you trully care. Then again if you aren't on good terms, why rock the boat? Give a week or so, and give him a ring. Don't blow his phone up like a lunatic! lol
210319
you really need to be careful. remember that is his friend. you don't want to break up his friendship and your relationship. i think deep down you probably feel at least SOMETHING for him, but u r in denial. he probably likes you 2. or it could be that he was bored. i call everybody and their grandma when i am bored. maybe you should ask him. also, u need to tell your boyfriend to step up his game. plus, if he didn't pick up the phone anything could have happened. i know if a guy is callin me that early....i will not wake up. also, u needs to always have a plan B.<<<<take that the way u want to interpret it.
216176
I just don't see how people can actually say that they have a relationship with someone and call them your boyfriend/girlfriend if you only talk on the phone. If you do not see one another then its not a relationship and it won't go anywhere. It doesn't sound like it is going anywhere so if I was you I would just break it off and quit wasting time on someone who you can't see and find a girl that you can see and share friendship, turst, honesty,love, lust,passion,ext with,all the neccities that a healthy relationship requires.
322801
I am in the same boat right now! So, I know how you feel.  I just am there when she needs to talk.  I do not offer ANY negative input about MY feelings about the guy, just listen to how she feels and try to give her answers that are somewhat neutral.  Good luck!
1019992
If it's only on the phone then don't worry about it, if you get on like a house on fire when you are together than the relationship is fine, loads of people don't like talking on the phone, like me I get on great with my friends but I never call them and when I do we are on the phone for 5 seconds.\nIf on the other hand, the only thing you have in common even together then I don't think that it's going to last.
521247
Sounds like you need to talk to him and tell him how u feel and your sorry for not telling him!!
744532
if your boyfriend doesn't call it doesn't mean he doesn't like you anymore. so don't worry about it. maybe he was to busy. hope it turns out great!!!!!!!
125769
He has made it very clear that your feelings arent very important to him, and I dont think he loves you as much as you love him, or as much as you deserve to be loved!\nYou sound like a wonderful girl, and there are plenty of good guys who would treat you right and appreciate all that you do. Hold out for just that!\nYour boyfriend might be sorry, but he needs a lesson in life. You cant treat people badly and expect them to put up with it!
662241
u need to talk things over. communication is one of the keys to a healthy relationship. You both need to listen to each other's opinions and thoughts. Why not try spendin time alone w/ yourself first.Collect your thoughts and asses yourself.Try to see things in an optimistic way.Do not let insecurities overcome you.I'm sure he likes you.Sometimes,there are just things that don't go the way we want them to.
746935
I feel like if its your girlfriend and you have a problem with it, its on her to resolve it! You shouldnt have to say anything to the guy at all. Thats her situation. Tell her once and for all how oyu feel about it and if she does not do something ( stop hanging out with him or make him stop calling so much, w/e would make you more comfortable) then she does not care enough about you! I think she should care enough to ease your mind and to put you before him!
987048
The problem probably is that your not being direct enough.  You say your doing everything but you haven't done what needs to be done if you want to be with him.  You need to actually talk to him and tell him that it is him you miss and that you want to be a part of his life.  Right now he probably feels like you ended things and that he isn't willing to risk getting dumped again without being sure that this is what you want and that your willing to actually be with him through the bad times and not end things so easily.