me and this girl our both very nervous about our  firstdate what can make us feel more at ease what would help
543131
One way to deal with the nervousness is to just use that as a spring board for your conversations.  Talk about the fact that you are both nervous and you already be sharing something in common and start bonding.
58360
Wow, I'm suprised someone other than me has this probablem! Okay well first off don't ever be nervous around her, even if she thinks it's adorable. Kind of hint it at her, like flirt with her often but not too often. If the hinting don't help gather up all your guts and ask her out, if she says yeah good for ya, if she says no, don't give up just keep it cool with her and wait for a little longer.
180114
letting your nerves take over is your worst mistake. just be yourself, explain to him that it's your first time and let the mood take you from there. dont forget the protection!!!!!!
587403
Just relax and realize that if you can't get over being so nervous, how are you going to get to know that person? Oh, and remember to breathe...focus in on it, and that will help the anxiety.
612470
it's very brave of you to admit you're nervous; i think you're braver than you think. why don't you let the girl know? "Listen, it's hard for me to talk to a woman as pretty as you." she will understand you are nervous, plus she will be so flattered.
1021189
A guy should be gentle, nice, and keep his hands to himself.\n\nHe should be respectful to the girl(this is a 24/7 deal but especially on the first date.)
618499
The first time I asked a guy out we went rollerblading in the park and then went out for a casual dinner. Keep it light and don't try to be all  romantic. Just see how you feel being alone with him the first time. If you keep your date filled with activities you will never run out of stuff to talk about and you won't have those awkward moments people get on first dates when they are all dressed up at some snooty restaurant. Have fun!
196170
Compliment her...tell her she doesn't sweat much and her\nnose hairs look cute and she's prettier than your last date was.
758551
okay, you need  to stop worrying about whether this girl is a potential girlfriend when you talk to her. Rather, whenever you are going to talk to her, try to think of having a potential firned, rather than a potential girlfriend. This should help with the nerves issue. As for things to say, people love to talk about themselves, so ask her about her interests and hobbies, and pay attention to what she says, so that you can enquire about that thing in a later conversation (this proves to her that you're genuinely interested in what she has to say). For example, if you ask her about her hobbies and she tells you she likes movies, then the next time you see her then you could say, "hey, have you seen (insert movie title)?" and if she has by some small miracle seen that movie, you've now got at least five minutes of conversation right there. Good Luck, try to be confident and remind yourself that you rock!!! :)
1133414
The first date is always trouble.  I dont have time to explain everything.  but try to relax on the date
494397
First you gotta make her feel comfortable with you she needs to know she can be her self with you, you know make her feel like you are on her level cause most of the time when we are shy its cause we don’t feel like we are gone fit in or capable of approaching people.
325675
Well maybe you could go for a walk to a nice place after coffee it will be romantic and you can maybe seat down somewhere where it is not too busy. You will feel less nervous  if they arent a lot of people surounding you and your darling for the first kiss.\nBut anyway don't think too hard about it, if you really like her you will know when the right moment is because you will feel an urge too kiss her.\nPersonally I like when guys kiss me when I'm less expecting it. For instance if she is is looking at something and then turn round to talk to you and  you kiss her.\nGoodluck anyway! I m sure that girl is very lucky that a nice guy like you wants to kiss her
882328
I think you should relax and take it easy. The more anxious you get about the meeting the more it is bound to blow up in your face.\n\nEnjoy the day with her and feel the situation out. You should be able to tell after a while if she has the same feelings that you do for her.
1063351
This is a very true cliche...  Be yourself.  \nLet the conversation lead itself.  Don't worry.  Worry makes you nervous.  Laugh and be funny.  Remember he is just as nervous as you, promise.  If not more.  Don't see this as the only shot, it will make you more nervous, assume you will be seeing him again soon for something fun to do.  Going to a theme park and not a mall is always a good idea.  Adrenaline is a great shy buster and the fun of the rides brings you closer by both sharing something.  Try to bring things into your conversation that you can have opinions on (not to heavy though) - maybe you have the same opinions and that is cool maybe you don't and then it stimulates the conversation.    \nHave fun, if things seem to be going a bit slow (I trust they won't) make it happen, be bold, force the fun if you have to - sometimes it acts as a catalyst to get the fun started.\nTry some meditation (really) here's how:  Lie down on your bed in quiet and visualize everything going perfectly on the day.  Do this for at least half an hour each day until the day.  Don't imagine anything going wrong.  If you do banish the though and rethink it going really well.  It works wonders.  Finally don't be too sensitive if something does go a little off key, roll over it like a steamroller and move on to something fun, don't focus on the small things.\n\nGood luck. ;-)
360307
Being a girl who has had that happen twice I think maybe I can help.  Talk to her on your own with no other people around. Laugh and have fun as usual and then once your feeling comfortable tell her just what you said.  "I feel like we have some kind of connection with each other."  If she says she feels it too, then tell her you think maybe y'all should explore it by going out on a date. Then let things develope from there.  If she doesn't feel the same then just don't go any further and you can stay friends until she does
493425
i was really nervous around guys until i realized that they weren't jst these big intimidating things, that they could be thinking the same thing i was! if u see her in the hall, say what's up, or something and she'll think ur friendly and be more comfortable around you. make sure u get 2 know her before u become committed. patching things up w/ her sis can't hurt either. and if she turns u down, move on! i know u've probably heard that a ton, but if u get over it quickly, other girls will appreciate your independence, and who knows, it might even help u get the girl!
554658
Then only thing you can really do is just get to know her better, if you really are that nervous maybe you arent ready for dating. The best advice i could give you though is to just talk to her, remember this you have nothing to loose and everything to gain.