Have you ever been approached by your same sex friend and they told you that they like you in  "THAT"  why????
542036
yeah.  Tried it out for awhile and found out I really like guys better.
919657
Are you crazy? If you both like each other why are you listening to your friends? Sure your friends mean well but they cant control you.
989098
just like me, they want to be, close to you....ih that wa s  nasty cause I am a guy!!!!! Yechhhhh!
456144
Yes I have...err, I would.  Whatever works for them is alright to me.  I would rather be thinking of them looking at me and getting excited, than wondering if there was someone else they were looking at.  It makes me feel like they are really interested in me.
994097
What do you want to do? How about the person that told you whatever what said? Was the info. true or not? Do you believe in your friend?\nOne thing I do know from experience is that a true friend will never two face you. My sister, mom, brother, dad true friends have said things about me but in real concern. Sometimes it pisses me off but they have the right to love me. And if someone came to me and repeat their private conversation to make it gossip I would dump their butt, because i do trust "MY" judgment for a friend. So where do you stand with these friends.
1117632
How long has he been your friend? I'm sure that if he hasn't tried anything with you yet, he won't. And since he's your friend, he probably knows that you are straight and won't try to put moves on you. It's not like he JUST turned gay, he's still your friend (I hope), accept him for who he is.
430742
Uhhh...well, if you KNOW they are straight you need to leave it alone since you are attracted to them.  That could be a disaster waiting to happen, especially if you are a guy.\n\nIf you aren't sure, you could just compliment them on something they're wearing or their appearance or something to see how they react.  If they get tense, back off.  \n\nIt's fine to be who you are, but it's easy to offend someone who isn't homosexual by hitting on them.
325475
r u a dude? is your friend a dude? just see if he does gay things like iggle or compliment a girls outfit and if he gets this offer from a very hot grl and doesnt accept it then man he must be gay. Most of the time ppl just find out on thier own.
162186
If you havent found a 'lady friend' to talk to how the hell do you know your gay? I believe 'bi-curious' is the word you should be using, darling!!\nPeaceout!!!
721115
I think he told you didn't he, from what I surmise from your text is there is lots of signals in your mind that say he is in to you, which may not be the case. don't use your friend to do the work that really scares you, you bring a 3rd party in to negotiate a relationship, you are asking for trouble, it's OK to use one to break the ice so to speak, like hey my friend likes you kinda thing. but for him to tell his feelings to your friend, not a good idea.
705359
He could have been confused and tried denying how he really felt... especially since you both are so close it would almost be natural for him since there's already a connection between the two of you.\n\nI doubt he was leading you on and if he wasn't letting anyone know that he was gay there would almost be no way of you knowing.  He probably feels worse than you do right now and he might even be thinking be that he did lead you on in some way.  \n\nThe only thing I can say is that the longer you wait to talk to him again the more ackward things are going to be.  The sooner you get things out in the open and talk about it, the quicker everything will go back to normal.\n\nI'm bi and I actually had a similar expirience with a friend of mine who was gay.  We use to work together and he was always touchy feely; I assumed maybe he was bi like me... needless to say I was wrong.  (Even though I now know he is as gay as gay can be, he's got this thing with boobs lol, which I guess all guys do.)  \n\nI felt stupid for a long time but I didn't want my misunderstanding to affect things between us.  We talked about it and I realized that it wasn't an option to be his lover but "friends" aren't bad either.  I knew that keeping him as a friend meant I wouldn't lose him and losing him was the last thing that I wanted to happen.\n\nEverything is fine now and we're still really good friends.  Don't think that you're the first girl to fall for a gay guy because that's not true at all.  You get a man with the caring part of a woman... all straight ladies want that!!!  Just talk to him and let him know that no matter what you're going to continue to be there for him just as he will be there for you.
965823
Why do you have to do anything?  What does sexual orientation have to do with friendship.  If you care for this person as a friend, I don't see the problem.  I have gay friends, and it has never come between the friendship we share.  If it's something troublesome to you, talk it over with them, I'm sure they would appreciate your honesty.
368695
Seems like your hasn,t the same feelings for you , or he would have asked you out.Don't lose your friend over a love that never is going to happen.as i bet she didn't even know.
784537
It could be that something about you has dazzled them.\nYou caught their attention and perhaps they'd just like\nto get to know you better.
183038
It really depends on the way it is said. It has happened to me twice. The first time, the girl just kind of walked up and blurted it out at me, it took me by surprise and I really do not think I handled that as well as I should have. We are still acquaintances but nothing ever happened. However, I was once asked out by a girl I had casually seen passing by. I accepted, of course, and we had a nice little lunch together. Near the end of the lunch she told me that she had been noticing me and trying to "hang out" around the places she knew I had been at. Then she said, "And I just wanted to say that from what I've seen, I love you." I still call her up to go hang out, but our relationship has (and probably always will be) just a friendly one.
796741
Here's a saying we used in high school...\n"You may think we're just friends, but we're really lesbians!"\nYou go Oprah!!!
479454
Completely wishful thinking. Most of my friends have been male, and I never fell for a single one of them. They were just friends and stayed that way.