i think my bf is cheating?! what should i do?!????? he hasnt called since monday. & he jus moved!!!?
536612
If it goes a month, he's cheating. What I think is he's prolly packing though.
1184752
wont you call him up and ask him why he havent been calling you. ortherwise move on!!
459092
Call him on it.  It sounds like neither of you trust each other, so if you get down to the root of the problem, hopefully you can overcome it.  Have you done anything for him to feel betrayed?  It sounds like he's reading them.  Just call him on it and have a conversation about it.
1175948
sounds like he wants you on standby.cheaters rarely change, thank your lucky stars you didn't marry him. if he calls again tell him to please stop calling you and move on with your life.
197843
If you think it, usually your right.  You could try to prove it but you might be wasting your precious time.  Just back off and leave him alone and go your own way......one day he will wake up and say,  what happened to that great thing I had?  Where did she go?  And he will miss you and come looking for you.  But you have to act like you don't care.  If he's cheating on you, he's not treating you nice.
778167
Nobody's ever too busy to return a lousy text message. I say dump him and get on with your life. I know it will hurt initially to know that he was only after some action but you'll be better at screening guys the next time it happens. Don't send him another text nor call/email him. When he does try to contact you, be unavailable. Do not play his game, your time is too precious to waste it on such a loser.
447759
Ask him.  Tell him why you believe it may be true.  Tell him everything you see that leads you to suspect.  If you know the woman you think he is cheating with.. confront her too... in front of her husband/BF if she has one.  \n\nIf he isn't cheating he will tell you why the things happened that led you to think he is.  If his reasons sound phoney or far fetched hes lying to ya.\n\nIf he's cheating, it's his secret to keep.  Not yours... put his @ss on front street!
5651
just because u have been seeing him for 7 months and 11 days doesnt mean he is cheating \nis he not calling when he says he will, not showing up or blowing you off?\nnext time ask a whole question and u will get better answers
75868
Confront him first. If he blames you for his cheating and shows no remorse then give him the boot!
860117
Sounds to me like he needs to check his homeboys. Sounds like homeboys are jealous. If your boyfriend is that insecure when it comes to your whereabouts then he needs to spend less time with the homeboys and more time with you and tell his so called homeboys to stay outta your business.
1079914
Go on Cheaters or Talk to him urself and find out whats going on. If he doesnt tell u the truth. Go with ur gut instincts and leave his sorry butt.
1074165
You were suspicious to begin with, hence you "checked" his email.  Now your suspicions are confirmed.  I would call a marsvenus coach to find out a) what to do and b) how can you regain your trust in this or any man.  You cannot have a healthy relationship where there is no trust.  Time for you to address all your past relationships and childhood wounds to determine why you were suspicious in the first place--was it his behaviour or your problem that drove you to check the email?
969930
i broke up with my bf in october, and it is still so hard for me not to pick up that phone and tell him to come home... he moved everything out and i havent felt like i am at home in my apartment since... its hard for everybody... you just have to let it go for awhile, why don't you call up some friends and go out... you will see, he will be back before you know it.
994668
He hasn't called you in a week? Dump his a**.\n\nI have no patience for that crap. He's playing games with you or he changed his mind and decided he didn't really love you. But either way, you should have NO patience for that.
683242
Yes, you had no right calling him.  Just because it was a guy that she was talking to doesn't mean she was cheating on you.  I can relate to this because I broke a 5 year relationship because of something like this.  My ex was accusing me to cheating on him with someone that was over 300 miles away because I talked to this person everyday.  I asked him to leave over 3 months ago it was hard to break it off with him but I couldn't live with him always looking through my stuff.  Now he says that he shouldn't have gotten into my stuff and acted like he did...but he did it himself over nothing. SUCKS THAT MEN ONLY THINK THEIR GIRLS CAN ONLY HAVE OTHER GIRLS TO VENT AND TALK TO!!!!
945260
i think you need to sit down with him and have a heart to heart talk. ASk him if he is happy with you or tired of you. don't want to scare you but from experience, sounds like he is cheating on you.   Good luck and God bless
38206
tell your bf but keep the number and call. check it out, maybe theres some things you two need to talk about.