Is my wife dressing too sexily?
552314
Giving an honest answer is one thing, but giving the right answer is the correct thing. The answer solely depends on your wife's age, up-bringing, self respect and environment. One correct answer involving the above factors may be simply that she has reached an age that she can finally express her inner-self. Recognizing that you only live once, she has the ability to express herself in a manner that is still respectful, still in line with her upbringing and not to distasteful in her current environment. I would highly recommend to you to evaluate yourself. Then, give yourself a make-over that will not only get attention from other women, but will excite your wife in return as well. Last, allow her to continue expressing a positive respectful image while constantly telling her how beautiful she is on the inside as well as the outside. Remember, this will play out one day and she will be expecting you, not other men, to tell her how lovely she is often.
641277
i say let her wear it. when you hear a comment from someone go ahead and look at them and proudly say, "yea, that's my wife." be happy shes still hot and gets comments. the best i ever got was, "uhh, you ugly!" it still haunts me. lol. let her look good. and remember, whos the one who gets to take the dress off after the party? YOU! enjoy!
1107197
Sounds like you love her a lot more than anyone realises and she's very lucky to have a caring partner like you :) ... Just talk to her and ask her if she won't mind to wear something that you'd like to see her in and it'll make you happy just to see her in something new, unique and beautiful (even though she's already beautiful just the way she is). If you put it like that, she'll won't be feeling too self-concious and she'll know that it makes you happy to see her in something different. Knowing it will help her to open up a little to the new possibilities of different looks and outfits.\n\nIf she'll say she'll think about it, give her time to do that... eventually she'll be able to do wear something interesting without any problems :)\n\nI'm the same way, and the only way at times I can know if my Husband likes something is to come over to him and ask his opinion ("Honey, what do you think? I got this today...") about what I'm wearing and he's always more than happy to tell me the answer to my question(s). Sometimes I still don't know what kind of things to wear for him, but asking him and approaching him with the "concern" is always more than helpful :) At times it makes it a lot easier for the shy / self-conscious types to say something in a form of a question so that way we'll be able to get an answer and an opinion from the loving and caring partners... We are learning from the day-by-day experiences and patient people around us, even if it seems like we act like a clam more often than not :)\n\nDon't worry, just be patient with her, give her a little bit of time to get used to this idea (and put it into action), and everything will be alright :)
325285
I would start with several sets of sexy undies.  At least one outfit should be in her taste, that she would feel comfortable wearing.  You should have 4 or 5 outfits that YOU like.  I don't know your personal taste, but the slave idea sounds interesting.  Costumes are always fun.  Maid, cheerleader, schoolgirl, slut.  You may even want to get a matching outfit that you can wear together.  Of course you're going to bring several of your cutest nighties for when you two cuddle up when you have your girlie sleepover. Go for it, sweetie.  I hope you both have a wonderful weekend.  Let us know how it went.
416746
Hmmm , I don't think I could ask such a question online!! But in my opinion it sounds like she might have a VD or something similar! Is your wife heavy??? The darkness is usually due to heavy peoples legs rubbing together in the upper thigh area!
327845
The question you need to answer is WHY are you having a big problem reaching a clim** with your wife?  Have you talked with her about what's going on with you?  How do you think SHE feels?  Put ROMANCE into your marriage ... ask her if she'll dress up especially for you and see if that makes a difference.  It may also help you to seek professional help, but with your feeling "old" at 57 (which ISN'T!) I think you and your wife have just gotten into a rut.  Good luck!
243733
no it's a big turn on, I once had a girlfriend of many years who NEVER wore a skirt & it drove me nuts!! She had nice legs too, just wouldn't wear a skirt for some feminist bullshit reason. I on the other hand was regularly asked to 'dress up' for family meetings & the like. She was a bloody hypocrite. I'm now seeing girls who dress like girls, very liberating. Wear one, they work!
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My guess is that you're not talking about a day-to-day thing. What you want is for her to get dressed up and for you two to have crazy monkey sex. Awesome.\n\nIf you two talk about your sex life, bring it up during one of those conversations. Say "You know what might be fun to try one time?"\n\nDon't try to change the whole of your sex life in a day. A good guideline is that only 1 in 3 sexual encounters with your partner should be "enhanced" or "special". If you were to start asking her to dress up like a porn star every time you two made love, she would likely feel less than confident.\n\nIf you two are open enough, head on over to a strip club. Buy her a lapdance. I went to a club and got one and it was superfun. I left the club thinking it might be fun to dress up like a stripper sometimes. Your wife might get the same ideas.\n\nHowever, if you bring it up and she says something along the lines of "I'm not a tawdry whore", make it clear that you want her to be beautiful and classy, just like she already is. If she still says no, drop it. The more you pressure her, the more she'll feel like you don't like her for who she is.\n\nMost women will agree to do something that they're not entirely into every once in a while for the sake of their partner. Besides, if you respond enthusiastically, she's more likely to do it again.\n\nGood luck!
707947
My husband hates it when I wear sexy revealing clothes. \nOut of respect for him, I dont do it. \nIf your married, there is no reason to show off yourself to other men, and thats what he's jealous about.  \nWhen in doubt about what to wear, ask him if he thinks your outfit is inappropriate. He will respect you , and you will respect yourself more.\nI understand ...Sometimes you need to feel beautiful, but to keep the peace, respect your husbands wishes. \nThats what a "relationship" is all about.\nGood Luck!
519158
the way she dresses is big for me--not too slutty not jeans and tees all the time either--and not sweats around the house all day--ewww i like her to be daring to try new things and be open and honest about her thoughts and desires.  To be inteligent and understanding--this is all a turn on for me
1031385
There's nothing wrong with that. Most couples do...sometimes it's such a turn on.  Just whatever you do, don't get it in her eyes! OUCH!
310174
Yes this is normal, for some women if you need more information try links below.By the way it is really thoughtful that you are concerned about your wife's body and its' workings.
19884
Wear something sedately glamourous...think pale coloured ballroom or cocktail dress for a Duchess, you want dignity, here, not "Hubba-Hubba"\nWhat your spouse wears is her choice, though she should not actively clash with you in colour or style.\nIf she likes the tux idea, perhaps her accessories (tie, kerchief and cummerbund or suspenders) could be in the same colour as your gown.\nGood luck and many happy returns of the day!
519553
Try asking her what turns her on. (I would say find out more about your future mate sexually before tying the knot but that don't always work. So communication is the key!!! Never and I mean never stop communicating!!! You wife may have a kink streak that you haven't known existed!!! Three things: 1) Communication 2) Be open minded 3) Have fun!!\n\nGood luck!!
422716
white and black garments are sexy on a woman... especially when she wears it for you. :)
1068128
You would be wise to ask your wife  if it is a turn-on to have sticky chocolate poured on her BEFORE you do it!!!  After all, she may prefer butterscotch!
778425
Curiously enough, I also find that a turn on...and I dont know why.  I guess visualizing my lover 'doing it' is a sexy image.  Apparently,\nit works wonders for your wife!!  lol  Super! ;)