im concerned with peoples opinions of me, cos of people who have gossipped crap about me?
536598
well if the gossip isn't true then don't worry about it because you can't make people stop thinking the gossip is true because it is so much easier to believe a lie then the truth. you just have to go through it holding your head up high and act like nothing has happened I know it is easier said then done trues me I know but you can do it. just remember that in time they will grow up and forget all about it and move on, but it will take time.\nGOOD LUCK!!\nhope this helps !!!!
699187
They won't listen to you honestly.... sorry to say. SO wait it out, take their remarks and comments, and when they're through thinking your a perve, they'll come around.
225128
If your breathing you have gossiped.Even when its the truth
598129
dont worry ......feel free to let out what u think....it doesnt matter if others don t value it ....atleast u do......n isnt dat what matters d most.\nthink about this almost every problem arises from our fear of what others think of us
416807
i other peoples opinions matter tht much to her, then u should move on and find sum1 better!
81373
Depends on whether they are gossiping about others or about you. If it is about you, confront them the gossipers. If it is about others, be polite but turn a deaf ear. If it is about the company, coming layoffs, a merger etc. pay attention and consider how it might affect you.
555606
There is absolutely nothing you can do to get your reputation back. People are going to believe the worse about others - just human nature. All you can do is keep living your life in a respectable manner. Go about your business and be happy. Time alone will take care of that. Just don't share your intimates with anyone.
497331
..I hope u not talkin bout me....Anyway if they do u that wrong maybe u should find some more friends. But as much as u love to speak your mind tell them off first so they'll know how u feel. Don't do anything u might regret.
1025170
I don't let people know the "real" me very often. I let them know hints of it, but I really don't think that anyone would like to know very much about my itty bitty life. If asked I will be completely truthful, but it isn't always easy to offer up information.
189430
Maybe the asker thought you were making it up.  Maybe it was favoritism.  I wouldn't worry too much about it.
422798
PPl are jealous that u have things? then that is their problem. dont let it bother u.  This is their problem
1161447
I suggest staying out of it.  So often, when people think that they are being good people by telling, they end up being the HATED.  It will come out in due time....trust it.
313745
its impossible. its the same thing at my job. i have been there for seven years, every DAY is new gossip. unfortunately thats just how people are. you can choose not to associate with them, but they will still talk about you--even if they are your 'friends'....\n\ntry not to talk about anyone, just ignore people when they bring up gossip around you or change the situation... tell whoever is gossiping--'look, i really dont like talking about other people' and change the subject. they will respect you for it, obviously you are more mature then them.\n\n\ngood luck .
280463
Make sure you don't allow them to know much about you until your sure they are telling the truth...Good Luck..K
2417
me as a people person i would go up to the friends thats being bad and talk to them if you listen and try to hammer in that you are listining people will talk they may have some bad pent up feelings that just came out that way. so talk is all i can say.
185034
your peers are telling for your own good. so, take it in a positive spirit. I feel you are lucky to have people who  care about you...
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Just be yourself and don't worry about ignorant people who think they are better than you. These people have to degrade you to make themselves feel better. Let them call you names, joke about how you function in the world, and laugh at your personality,etc., it's just their way of turning the spotlight away from themselves because they are afraid if you look too closely at "them", you may find a few flaws. If they would turn on their brights, they would realize everyone is different; has bad points and good points; and acceptance brings people closer. Maybe they are just sooooo unhappy, they want to drag you down to their dungeon to suffer with them. Try extending an olive branch or making a peace offering, and if that does not work, forget about them, do your own thing, and sooo politely tell them to kiss your arse.   \nP.S.  I am a Redneck, shhhhhh....don't tell anybody!!(: