how do i know if i am gay?
544264
Are you male?  Do you find guys attractive in a physical way?  Do you fantasize about other guys?  Is your anus a one way street or does it allow thru traffic?
1062664
u can tell if a man is gay most of the time. females r hard to tell that thier gay unless shes a butch.
454256
I don't know why I'm gay. I don't remember being given a choice. Perhaps you could tell me when you chose to be straight?
522359
being gay? no.  you are,or are not.\n\nacting on same sex attraction?  yes.\n\nnot acting on same sex attraction to please others, rather than living the way you're built to? also a choice, but a stupid one.
1116724
You probably want to stay clear of that one as you may lose a friend.. You can tell them  you are gay.. That's accepted today.. BUT if you tell him you are gay and you are in love with him,  you risk losing him as a friend.  Start out with baby steps and then if he is cool and opens up to you too and tells you he is gay, maybe you want to begin with trust, going out with him, working out with him etcc... He will get the message and you will see from his demeanor whether you have a chance or are even his type.. To recap, you can come out to him.. If he comes out to you, then you need to be passive and let him figure out that maybe you are the guy for him.. BUT don't comeout and tell him you love him.. Disaster waiting to happen..
1129474
You can't really determine your sexuality untill around the onset of puberty, but when that time comes and you're staring at the same teachers that the opposite gender is.,.. there's a clue that maybe you dont swing the standard way.\nBut let me ask you this, if they cant be born gay, that means you couldnt have been born straight, and was there ever a time when you were thinking hmmm, girls or boys, girls or boys...?
761016
If you flat out ask him, it could be awkward for both of you. Maybe you should be a little bit stronger in your hints and say something along the lines that, even though you are straight, you wouldn't mind having a gay friend and ask him if he has ever known anyone who is gay. Most gay people have the feeling that it is killing them inside before they come out, so even if he doesn't open up to you right away remain a close friend. If he is gay, your friendship will mean a lot to him.
511923
OK, all these people who say you are going through a phase, that's just them trying to "save" you. Every gay person I've ever talked to believes that people are born gay, which means you could probably tell at your age. Also, I've heard of people knowing that they were attracted to people of the same sex when they were even younger then you. People are coming out younger and younger now, this is due to growing acceptance, if you come from a place that does not accept gays, then i am guessing you are pretty sure. I probably don't need to tell you all this. Back to you question, do you know any other gay people? They can give you advice and understanding, also don't underestimate your close friends, and i hate to say it but you might find girls are more accepting then guys.
1074007
Well, as some have already suggested, it is possible that you may be gay or bi-sexual. But also you could just be curious about other guys and their equipment. And truth be told, most men are!
821258
i think you ARE gay.  I can tell by the frivolous nature of the answers and questions you post.  You may even be a flaming homosexual.  More power to ya'.\n\nLoL\n\nSsssssssssuper!!\n\nPeace Out
827879
What makes you gay is enjoying a relationship of a sexual nature with the same sex.  What you have is called fetishism.  Maybe it will steer towards a gay lifestyle but alone it doesn't make you gay.
1138681
You can tell if your friend is gay by asking him.  \n\nIf you are not gay, you may want to mention how his behavior is unpleasant to you.\n\nIf you are gay, and he freaks out when you ask, you can point out that you're not the one who has been making sex comments and running around naked, and perhaps he should think about his actions.
969943
Just because you find another person of the same sex cute, doesn't mean you're gay. You're only gay if you know for a fact that you would never want to have sex with a girl, but instead with a guy. Don't ask us, ask yourself.
632605
How can a gay person know what it is like to be straight?
231229
You could just be curious about the act, then again you could be gay. \nAre you attracted to men?\nDo you fantasize about having sex with men?\nDo you fantasize about the intimacy with a male partner?\nCould you kiss and fondle another male?\n\nYou should truly answer these questions wit hen yourself, because none of us can tell you if you are gay or not. Just because you like gay porn does not make you totally gay. Only you know that answer.
480395
You're gay when you look at members of the same sex as sexual objects. For example, a confused teen like yourself is walking down the street, and can help himself from staring at a cute guy's butt. Gay!
570741
Sounds like you just did come out of the closet. By posting your question, you announced to the whole world that you're gay. :)