i lov a guy he is good in charecter n nature my parents reject him coz he is nt good luking bt i lov hih alot?
539364
are you sure it's only because of the looks? if it is, then sorry to say that's very stupid! have you told them you love him? if you haven't, you should. if you have, you need to tell them you're beyond the stage of caring about looks. if you truly love him, at least try to fight for him. their problem is hardly even a problem - explain that YOU have to live with his looks, not them. I'm an indian and my parents wouldn't dream of getting me married to someone who THEY think is good/bad looking. that's the last of their criteria! stand up for yourself
508924
I would say he likes you quite a bit, which is why he has problems holding a conversation with you. And if his parents ask you to comes over... that means he talks to his parents and lets them know that he likes you which is really the reason why they ask you to come over. You got'em. Suggestion on the conversation, if he is shy maybe you could write him a note or a text message if you both have cell phones (remember standard text message fees may apply).
392721
Nobody's parents are perfect... and every person is a result of their childhood experiences that they have taken into adulthood. Accept that your father is HUMAN BEING FIRST, and then love him because he is your father.
298723
well just let your parents know about him and let them see that you are a responsible adult by letting them know. you shouldn't hold it in and then they find out on their own and then it will all go down hill from there. that's my advice.
213915
First of all, figure out whether you like him or not regardless of your parents' opinions.  If you like him enough, then continue to go out with him and when the time is right, introduce him gradually to your parents by mentioning him casually then by actually introducing them to each other. Your parents need to be given an opportunity to know the guy otherwise they will just go on stereotypes. But if you don't like him really, then what's the point? Just decline if he asks you out on a date or make it clear to him that you're just hanging out with him as a friend.
1118264
Okay....this mom is going to try to answer you.  I don't know anything about your family so it it hard to answer.  My suggestion would be...let your parents get to know him, not as your boyfriend, but just as a friend.  Then if you really start dating they will already know him.  Don't make a big deal about race, maybe they won't.\nIt is easy for people to say don't worry about your parents.  I don't agree.  First of all....you wouldn't be asking this question, if what your parent thought didn't matter.\nFamily is forever.... guys can come and go.  \nYou answered a question I had, In your answer to me, you saw my love for my son and you told me to let God handle it. I can tell you are a very insightful person and I would bet you have a pretty good head on your shoulders.  Let them meet him first, then later.....Talk to your parents, give them a chance...they might just surprise you.  If he is good to you and your family....they will see that over anything else.\nGood luck, I wish you the best!
346409
Well, it you are at an appropriate age (15 and up in my opinion), and you are really interested in this guy... not physically please (remember...true love waits)... I encourage courtship... there's a book called "I Kissed Dating Goodbye" by Joshua Harris, and it's wonderful (it's about courting)... that way you and your parents can be involved and there won't be any secrets and the respect can still remain. Believe me if you are open and honest with your parents and help them understand that you want a healthy friendship with this young man, there shouldn't be a problem.  Best of luck...es
908218
talk with ur parents and tell them everything clearly and if you think that you have a courage to talk with boy explain him softly that all these thing looks good if they are done after completing ur studies and tell him that if everything remains same after that period also offcourse u will accept the proposal and tell him that if he loves u he has to do something(in terms of career) in life to achieve u.so both of u have to wait for that period.
646166
Be patient...be good yourself, and a good boy will find you one day.  Don't settle for someone who is no good for you, just because he's there.  Wait for the good one!
41046
As long as its ok with your parents and he seems like a good person, I think you should go with him. He might also help you get to know more people, which will probably be helpful since you're in a new school.
69469
Best thing is to only tell people you trust, like a close friend preferrably a girl, they seem to be more understanding than a typical guy friend. I wouldnt tell your parents just yet I would hold off until it feels right, it seems to me your learning about yourself right now and you found something that interests you, and it may be something that passes and it may not so I wouldnt alarm anyone just yet. Take a deep breath and think about what it is your looking for and go for it. When the newness wears off and your sure you will always be this way, then tell your family because then you will be more confident that this is how you are and they have to accept you. I have seen alot of parents go to the extreme when finding out their child is not as perfect as they hoped, or they have different looks on thier life than their parents expected, just something to think about. Lots of luck bud...
1019355
Well, it goes like this... it is very common for your family to dislike  your love choice... but it is all because they see you as their precious little girl and think that no one is good enough for you. Even if they are not good for you, if you approach your parents in a calm manner demanding that they respect your decision but you promise to be careful, perhaps they will learn to deal with it. When they see that you are determined about what you want, of course providing that you are old enough, they will eventually calm down. All they want is what's best for you... My parents used to be like that (okay, i had some wrong choices but still) and I tried hiding things from them and lying - it did not end up well... eventually they have learned to butt out of my business.... \nBest regards!
227915
You need to  realize you are the way God made you.If that's not good enough for this boy, it's his loss. Don't let his superficial view of you affect your self esteem. You are precious in God's sight.
647160
will forgive him to not act in the way we dont think thats idiot....by repecting for all the things he did and he does for me.....Dear friend...our parents sometimes do somethign what in our opinion will refused or as u said idiot action....u can talk to him or just lt that pass
1112344
You should follow your heart and not leave him and hope one day your parents will see how stupid it is to judge someone on looks. What are they? Mr and Mrs universe themselves?
450866
I've been in your same situation when i was younger. with my parents i told them some of the nice things that this guy did, that let them know that he was nice. Ask this guy to meet them. Not really at the house at first, but maybe at a park or a school activity. Then he won't be so nervous. Tell your mom first. Mom's are always easier. Dads will understand eventually. Don't say date or anything yet, say hanging out or something like that, then after a while say casually in a conversation with your parents how your friends think that you and _your guys name__ are such a cute couple. or something like that. that will be easier. if they are really strict just say that this guy is your special guy. hope i helped!!!
970748
Wake up sir and please for once be more realistic! \n\nLove has nothing to do with caste! If you love her with your whole heart and you know that she'll be the only one that can make you happy, then go for it despite your parental objection.\n\nSometimes in life we have to make our decision. Our parents wants the best for us but IT IS ONLY US THAT KNOWS WHAT WE TRULY WANT AND WHICH BEST IS RIGHT FOR US!