my best friend is mad at me b/ci have new friends and i play with them more than i play with her!!What do i do
548116
How about asking your best friend to play with you and your new friends, so she may be able to make new friends too.  Don't turn your back on your friend, you may need her some day.  I have been best friends with mine for over 12 years now, and she is the greatest friend I have ever had, she is more like my sister than a friend, and I wouldn't trade her for the world.
476084
Not to make light of the situation, but tell them to grow up because you are too mature for all this drama.  Ask them why you can't have two best friends?
768141
I have been in a similiar situation. The "pops" will not stay ur friend forever your best friends WILL! it is okay to hang out with them but not so much that ur best friends r jealous. Mayb try to balance ur time until u find out want u want. U could try having a party with both of them invited and c how it goes. It could work and b fun but b careful.
322431
U help ur friend but don't tell the other one that is mad at u and so everyone is happy. When u help pay for ur friend that is not pissed off at u pretend that she got the money to pay from her parents or something so ur other PO'd friend will not get madder. Good luck! Email me if u need more help.
167635
well, mabey ur actions made her/him mad at u. u should talk to her/him. if ur friend is REALLY mad, she wouldn't be answering ur question!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
800014
You shouldn't let them do this to you. It was just a game and you didn't do that because you wanted to, it was a dare! You should tell your friend that you really love that he shouldn't get mad at you because of a game, and you should also tell the other guy that he shouldn't be mad at you either its not like he's got something you want, because it was just a game. Make sure that you let them see that you are above it all, you did what they dared you to do and you shouldn't get punished for it. The boy you really like will come around, just make sure to be really nice and friendly to him, but don't make it seem like you are feeling bad about what happen. Remember, it was just a game!
119083
She is just jealous that one of your friends is way closer than the other one. Try to talk to her. It may work.
908973
2nd is not friend. Jealous selfish wench.\n\n1st friend is fickle, not willing to stay by you when test comes.\n\nfind new friends who will stand by you, dump old ones.
870219
Talk to her about it. If she is going to do everything in her power to hurt you, you don't need her. Tell her she needs to act like a friend for you to be a friend. She is just using you to her advantage to get what she wants.. My best friend did that for awhile but i told her that if she kept using me like that......she will have to find a new bff. She straightened up fast cuz she realized that she'd lose me for good.
769626
Wow...you tried to fix a nice surprise for  your friend, you went way out of your way to do it, and now she's mad at you.   you must feel like she kicked you in the stomach when you were expecting a hug.\n\nFirst, give your friend some time to get over her shock. Just totally give her some time and distance away from you.  You won't be able to reason with her anyway for a bit.   Hopefully in time she'll begin to realize that both you and her daughter had only good intentions.  Some people (like control freaks) don't like surprises.  But really, I think she's the one who should fix this mess.  You were only trying to do them both a favor.  You could try telling her this when she's ready to listen.  It probably wont' be very long before she regroups.\n\nHey, you sound like a great friend.  If she doesn't appreciate you, I am sure many others would.\n\nblessings,\ncryllie
1007274
of course u have to keep talking to her...she is ur best friend !!!! she has the right to be mad,she was refused by a guy...be patient.plz to handle  it u have to be with her n good and bad...she is talking like this now bcs she is mad...be patient she will come to apologize !!! friendship means we have to support each other in ur bad and good times
515264
Life's hard enough without having our 'friends' treat us like that. Tell her it was nice knowing her but you feel your friendship has fizzled out & you need your own space & so on. Don't go playing her at her own game & calling her names, try to part on friendly terms cos she sounds like the sort to hold a grudge & may go out for revenge if you end it by telling her where to go.
749780
believe her and find someone who will appreciate you...she is playing too many games....friendship only" is the kiss of death..
877998
Well.. I would say that she isn't your best friend.  I have had the same problem.  My so called best friend loves a guy that i have loved for ever.  She went behind my back and asked him out without telling  me.  Then i realized that she wasn't my best friend.  Oh yeah.  Talk to her about it.  If she is all cocky and like let me love him shit. Then just flirt with him more to get her mad.
438907
just break it down to her.. tell her that you want to tell her something that you dont want her to get mad at.. tell her that you dont want to hurt her but you dont want to destroy ur friendship either by being together.. tell her you care about her as a friend..but nothing more.. you got to keep it funky.. feel me.. just be gentle but serious with her
891711
Sounds like this B has a lot of jealousy towards you. Ignore it. She was never really your friend to start with.
845683
You should tell her that it really pissed you off and if she wants to be a friend then she needs to not tell people your private things you share in confidence.  If she disregards your upset or request than don't waste your energy on her and  know that you can not tell her anything you don't want others to know.