I'm feel so unhappy,even i got everything i want,good job,happy family,.big house,can u tell me what's wrong?
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I know what you say.Ihave experienced such a feeling,myself:everything is ok,and you still feel unhappy.I think s.th inside you must be changed.S.th about your sprit,about what you want to get from the life.Maybe you dont get a true love from your family,or it is not in the shape you really want.But the most important thing you must know is that HAPPINESS IS S.TH WHICH MUST COME OUT FROM INSIDE.WE CAN GET JUST SOME SMALL PARTS OF IT FROM OTHERS.\nThink about your relationship with GOD.He is the only one whose rememberance can dedicate calmness to your heart.
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Happiness is a state of mind, not the state where you reside.  Trust me, when I used to have clinical depression, I used to think all kinds of things might be the answer to feeling happier: changing jobs, moving somewhere else, etc. I found out the hard way that, if you aren't already a happy person, changing environments won't make you happier for long.  Try to really nail down what it is that is making you unhappy first.  Extreme, non-specific unhappiness might be a sign of depression and there are so many medical interventions for that.  If it really is where you live that's got you down, narrow down what things an ideal living environment should have for you, (warmer climate maybe, or closer to an ocean, whatever seems ideal to you) then do a little research and figure out a place that seems to offer those things. Good luck to you!
639710
Hello there! I am sorry to hear you are feeling so down. People are so quick to say someone has depression. You say that you act like you are the happiest person on earth, but you aren't happy on the inside. You just have to believe that you do deserve happiness! I believe that you just have low self-esteem and self worth. 17 is a hard age! Believe me...looking back I felt the same way and wondered what the heck was wrong with myself. Just the pressures nowadays that are being put on young people is enough to make someone want to give up! I know to be happy is easier said than done sometimes, and it is a lot of work sometimes. Once you start believing in yourself it will get more simple. Life is too short not to have fun--experience life. I am not saying go out there and do foolish things, but enjoy the silly stuff. I am an adult and I still like to go to toy stores and play with the puppets! Because it makes me happy. I am not here to make anyone happy but myself. It sounds selfish, but before we can help others, we have to help ourselves. Just the fact that you asked the question on here shows that you are ready and willing to make a change for yourself. I have done a lot of "stupid" things in my life, but I have learned that loved ones are there for you no matter what you do. If people really love you, they are there for you no matter what! You can make little changes in your life. Use positive affirmation..when you start to feel those thoughts of hopelessness creep in--say to yourself that you are not listening anymore. If you are still feeling beyond hopelessness, there are many people you can go to to talk about it. It is not a sign of weakness to ask for some help and guidance. It is you standing up and saying you are sick of being that way and taking control of your life. I wish you luck and hope that I helped a little! Take care!
134877
Start looking now. Your job is what you spend most of your waking hours doing, and If it's not making you happy, don't punish yourself. Sure it might get better, but you've got to be happy.
561971
WELL YOU HAVE TO FIND SOMETHING YOU ARE PASSIONATE ABOUT.  YOU SEEM A LITTLE DEPRESSED ALSO, LIKE YOU HAVE NOT ACCOMPLISHED ANYTHING, BUT WHAT YOU DONT REALIZE IS YOU HAVE PROBABLY DONE A LOT MORE THAN MANY OTHERS IN THIS CRAZY WORLD...YOU NEED TO LOOK DEEP INSIDE YOURSELF AND FIND SOMETHING THAT MAKES YOU HAPPY.  I SUGGEST VOLUNTEER WORK WITH AN ORGANIZATION THAT MEANS SOMETHING TO YOU.  THAT WOULD BE A GREAT START!  AND AS FAR AS A JOB GOES...YOU GOTTA PAY THE BILLS SO WHAT IF YOU DONT LOVE YOUR JOB RIGHT NOW...STOP WHINING ABOUT IT AND MAKE THE BEST OF IT UNTIL SOMETHING BETTER COMES ALONG...YOU ARE NOT ANY DIFFERENT FROM THE REST OF US....NO ONE IS EVER 100% HAPPY ALL THE TIME...YOU NEED TO LEARN TO DEAL WITH LIFE'S LITTLE CURVE-BALLS AND MAKE THE BEST OF WHAT YOU HAVE TODAY!!
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In life we have all kinds of this happening to us that we do not understand.  Money is not what you make you happy.  Just about every one is going thru some type of financial problems.  If nothing else know that you are loved and not alone.  So what you don't have a lot money, think about this way, we people sleeping on the streets don't have money either, but you have a warm bed to sleep in every night.  I can say these things because I understand what you are feeling.  One thing that really helped me was I had to put myself on a very strict budget and not sway from it for anyone or anything, and guess what it is working out fine.  Look inside yourself and see that you have so much more than money.
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It is probably a good idea to seek out some therapy. There may be some underlying issues as to why you feel so depressed and there are a lot of options available to aid with this situation. If you would like further assistance with help, please email me.
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hey, hello :)\nseems like you know you have some issues to overcome, i say you are almost there!\ndon't be miserable. everyone goes through this kind of emotions @ least once in our lifetime.\ni know this feeling too. sometimes, you feel so empty, miserable & unworthy. and every time,when you try to take 1 step forward, you end up taking 2 steps backward.\ntry to start a routine of exercizing, mix with positive people & read joke books.\ndon't ever indulge in self-pity & regrets. the darkest hours are just before dawn. life is a grindstone; and whether it grinds a man down or polishes him depends on what stuff he's made of.\nif you really look around you, everyone has problems too. what makes them happy is that they try to overcome their problems one @ a time.
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I felt exactly like that after I had accomplished the "expected minimum criteria" of an outfacing happy life; the house, the family, the good job, etc.  \n\nI decided to tackle the things I wanted to do in this life, regardless of what people expected from me.  I went to an opera last summer and realized the best part of the opera was watching the violins.  So, I decided to take violin lessons!  Now I'm a middle-aged violin student walking right into my teacher behind the kids!  I don't care, it makes me happy and entertains me.\n\nDo what you want to do now, don't let anything stop you.
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perhaps admitting you have a problem and calling your doctor. Sometimes you cant help but feel depressed and have anxiaty (?) It may be a chemical imbalace. Might not have anything to do with you directly.
179583
Oh Mr. Baldwin, I am feeling just that.\n\nIt's been a difficult journey, and I am doing my absolute best, but I do feel just as though I'm not getting anywhere.\n\nJust over a week ago, I thought I had reached my destination, then disappointment hit me head on again!  My sadness, unfortunately, was displayed in a question just this past week.  \n\nWell, I'll be there soon enough.  Thank you for asking.
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I know how you feel. Sometimes I feel really depressed and want to quit. But then there are clearer days when I look at my life closely and I realized that nothing is really wrong with it. I just want a fresh start, you know, a clean slate. \n\nAnd I feel that way, like I wanna pack up and leave, without leaving any goodbye notes or anything. But it's the thought of my responsibility to my family that's stopping me. They have always been supportive of me. And I think I owe to them to keep it together.\n\nYou can try talking to your family or your friends, the people whom you care deeply about but you are planning to leave. That will put things into a clearer perspective.
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Hello:\n\nI would suggest that you are feeling depressed because you are dealing with a lot of stress and you have very little support in your life right now. \n\nI can't imagine how difficult it must be for you to have to deal with a divorce, and living so far apart from your child, on top of that dealing with a new job. \n\nIt is understandable that these feelings intensified on Thanksgiving, which is a holiday typically spent with family. \n\nI would suggest to you to start getting involved in the community. Volunteer at local organizations, join other local groups (besides the singles group) like a recreational sports team. These are easy ways to meet people and to develop friendships. Maybe there is even a local women's support group for divorced women?\n\nOnce you have some friendships, those people will be able to help you when you are feeling down. It also might help to see a therapist, to have someone to talk about these issues too. There was a point in my life when I was having a very difficult time dealing with stress, and I went to see a therapist every week for a few months. Just being able to talk about certain emotions I had made me feel so much happier and relieved, and I would suggest this to anyone who simply needs someone to talk to.\n\nI hope this helps, and good luck. Things will get better.
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Just reading your question you sound like a wonderful person..first you gave up a good job but your priority was your baby (who you love more than life itself) and your husband is happy with you and your kids love you..couple of questions?..has it been very long since you had your baby?..could you be suffering from post-partum depression?..Could you just be depressed?..Please talk with your doctor about your concerns..So much about our lives today are busy and as women we are caregivers. We ignore our needs. Your feelings   and thoughts may be a chemical imbalance in your brain (you have no control of) often just talking with a mental health clinician can help you pinpoint why you have those feelings and how to re-direct them or change your focus..Be happy (I know how simple this sounds) Sometimes the money becomes the focus and it doesn't let you see how important your family and your life is..I wish you the very best.. Let this new move be a new start for you and your family..sounds exciting but busy...
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Yep!  It sounds like depression if it goes on and on and it brings alot of good caring people down this world is a sad place right now.  Things do get better and if you still feel out of it after a long while I would talk with your doctor.Hope you feel better real soon!!
1159895
Yes - sorry you are feeling bad.  I've been feeling like a mess and horrible for about 2 weeks myself and nothing seems to be getting better yet.  I hope it does.  I'll cross my fingers for you if you cross yours for me, okay?
922500
When you feel yourself get cynical and resentful I suggest a trip over to 'Polls and Surveys' for some light entertainment. Get away from this for a while to lighten up. Take care!