does crying publically makes a person seem weak in the society?
551137
No definitely not. There r only 2 ways to live life\n1. To lose urself in the jungle of judgment and prejudices by constantly thinking what others think of you  and trying to mold urself according to ppl around u\n\n2. To live it the way u want. tears or no tears- fears or no fears, its ur thing. Do react the way u want coz u only live once.\n\nMake your choice and be happy!
611571
Well you saw something bad happen and you cried. There isn't anything wrong with that. If someone is picking on you about it don't worry. They are just dumb!
859560
to never cry bcuz it shows ur weakness
43390
Some men think that women will think less of him if he cries,which is the opposite of the truth.I think men are more comfortable with who they are and dont have these big macho egos.Men..cry when you need to..who cares what people think.Chances are your woman will think of you even better.
561377
Yes it seems they have a victim's mentality and are needy and the people that abuse others seem to sense this in others.  You have to look at how you act strong or weak. Go to a counselor and work on the trauma. Don't think it will go away because it doesn't
595305
No ... you will demonstrate that you have a heart :) it's oki if you cry !
417120
It helps sometimes to see those "total jerks" as simply people who lack certain skills.\n\nI find that in my case, when I look at it that way, I no longer feel emotional. \n\nIf a person had the skill, whether it's how to behave in a social situation or being sensitive to others' feelings or doing the right thing, then he would probably use that skill.\n\nVery few people are total jerks just as very few people are total saints. :-)\n\nThe people who are closer to being "perfect" could exercise compassion and patiently teach the people who are closer to being "total jerks."
290880
Some people are cryers, some are huggers, some are "I love you man"s, some are just mean.\n\nIn the grand scheme of drunks, crying isn't all that bad...
1139499
I heard a quote once on this subject.  "A man that does not cry, has no soul".   I knew a vicious murderer that I met in jail, that admitted that he cries sometimes.  It has nothing to do with being weak or not.
308576
Not very easily. When crying you automatically breathe in a lot of air and that is a problem under water. You'd either drown or get up to the surface again very quickly.
547502
HMMM..AS FAR AS MY KNOWLEDGE GOES EVEN PHYSICALLY SOUND MEN CRY IN PUBLIC. CRYING IS AN EMOTION THAT HAS GOT NOTHING TO DO WITH POSSESSING A STRONG PHYSIQUE. MEN WHO HAVE FELT DEEP LOVE(either in love life or even among familial relationships)CRY IN PUBLIC WHEN HURT DEEP.I HAVE SEEN SUCH THINGS IN PERSON AMONG MANY FRIENDS. \n\nI DONT LIKE TO CRY IN PUBLIC & DONT KNOW Y. \n\nAND I'M NO GAY..I'M PERFECTLY STRAIGHT !!
1111195
I do when I think to much negatives about myself, but that usually happens at night when I'm alone... and no not that often right now. Other times I'll cry for my family, if someone is sick, or something. But if I'm too emotional sometimes I'll cry seeing something sad on the news... or of course a sad movie, which is why I don't like dramas. I'll also cry out of anger. I don't think it's bad, it's better than screaming and cussing out someone like some people do. I think I am a very emotional person, but at the same time I have learned how to work with it, and I'm happy that I have.
972647
A few reasons I can think of.\n\nWe spend a lot of our times pretending we're stronger than we are, and it all goes to waste when we break down and cry in front of other people. We feel a need to defend our humanity and apologise for the tears.\n\nPerhaps we don't want to burden others with our emotions, so we try and keep them to ourselves and apologise for letting them out.\n\nSometimes we just *need* to cry, or we'll break down and do it regardless. Some people might apologise for that need to be emotional.\n\nI'm sure there are more, but really it depends on the circumstance.
954388
Makes some people feel Superior to put others down. It is usually a result of low self esteem.
247089
do you whine and cry or bust in to tears about a low grade ? seems like more to it then what your saying or trying to hide. why not ask him/her to tell you why they think that way
376610
When a person is angry, they tend to say things that they really don't mean. I think you are a nice person who don't like to see anyone one cry. I feel that you care about this person and he did show how sincere he was with his apology. I would call him to see how he is doing and take it from there.
892693
Oh, yes. It is very noticeable. They just have a hard time dealing with reality. Poor creatures. It almost makes me feel sorry for them. NOT. \nI don't know exactly what it is. Immaturity, Naivety, Ineptitude, or Lemming Syndrome (follow the leader into the abyss). I think many need anger management classes. I have a feeling that those in need of treatment will rise greatly after Tuesday.  \nI have made it a policy not to ask many questions. Why waste the points?