How do i tell my parents I'm bi?
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Just sit your parents down and tell them. If they dont understand, explain it to them. If they get really mad, just say how you really feel. Tell them this is who you want to be. You want to be you. Dont hide it from your parents, it can make things much worse than they already are. Hope you can do it!!! Kaylee if you need to talk to me my email is angelfiregurl_09@yahoo.com or my messenger is angelfiregurl_09
1128934
It's a feeling, not something you find out.  Being bi is not a bad thing.  You haven't given up on guys.  I've always had a firm belief that your sexual feelings is your business .  No one else needs to know. \nLet's just say when you know what you want, then tell them.  This could just be a phase you're going through.  You'll also know the best time to tell them.\n\nGood luck
582670
Wait until the time FEELs right. I think you are still exploring. Nothing wrong with finding out who you are before announcing it to the world. or your parents. you will feel more natural in it as you delve into it and your emotions. maybe try living on your own first and making your own life, then telling her will seem more safe?
730141
Tell your parents when they are both home.\n.Tell them when they are not busy\nOnce you start keep on going with it no matter what they so or how they react while telling them.\nBe understandable with their feelings....\n\n\n,
253034
The sooner the better. They may be hurt or angry or confused - but the sooner you get it out there the sooner you can all talk about it and you won't have to feel like you are hiding it from them. It is too depressing when you can't be yourself completely - it depends on your parents and their personalities and beliefs as to how they might react...but the sooner you do it the better and the more time you will have to let them get used to it. They may want you to go to a counselor or talk to someone else about it. You need to do this because more than likely the counselor is going to be someone you can talk to openly and it is confidential- they can not tell your parents anything without your consent. And it is important that you have someone to talk to that you can trust. It will be an adjustment for your parents. Your parents may think they did something wrong to "make" you gay. They may be sad and think they will never have grandchildren, etc... They may believe that homosexuality is a choice and expect you to change your mind, or think it is a phase and think you will grow out of it. It is important that you are patient with them as they will have to work through their own feelings about the matter. But the sooner you talk to them about it the sooner you can all work on getting through it together.
1046624
I would NOT tell your friends about this.  You are only 15 and there is nothing wrong with being bi at all.  BUT your friends may turn into morons and tell everyone on the planet including your parents and it could make things awful for you!  Keep this to yourself for awhile!
117443
Tell her that you're gay, but to not tell anyone because you don't want to come out yet.
170962
Well honey weather you or bi or not you are still normal. Just set your Dad down and explain to him how you feel. He should love you no matter what. And of course let him know you love him.
1098228
Be who you are. You will not expect to be accepted by the society easily. People will see you as queer, that is definite, but don't force yourself to change in order for the society to accept you. I would say take things as it comes. I too, lives in a country where gays are not accepted in society. I told myself, I will show them that we are no different from anyone because we both loved. I have a few friends know that I'm a bisexual. Well, I do not tell them myself, as in initate the topic, they started it first. They would ask me: " You have not got any gf yet....as you gay?" I would smile at them and say I'm a bi. You would be surprise of teir reaction. They are all my good friends now. They have known me long enough to know what my character is. Time tells all. You need not need the whole world to accept you, most impt, you accept yourself. As time goes, your friends who treasure you will accept you too. \nI think the hardest part is how to break this news to your family. I would not forget the nevousness I had that time when i confess tis to my parent. I knew this would break their heart, but the last person I wouldn't want to keep in the dark is my parent. They have accept it....I guess. Though I believe they still pinned on the hope that i would get a gf instead (haha).\nBottom line is: Don't brood over it. If you know what you want to be, then be the one whom you want to be. Be true to yourself, and gradually you will find friends who will be true to you. I shared your woes, and I hope to share my joy with you.
968309
well i guess you are a little young to be sure about your sexual preferences but whenever the time comes, tell your dad that you like girls alot, and wanna have wife and kids but at the same time you like guys too and that you are realy confused what to do and whats wrong with you etc etc..... and that you will have to make a choice forever wther to be gay or not....\nonce her hears this, he is gonna say 'you dont have to make a choice, there are people who like both' etc etc... coz he will be fearing you choosing to be gay.. \n\nworth a shot...
22953
Telling your parents that you are a lesbian is an open acknowledgement that you are a sexual person, enough to have made a definite decision about who it is that you identify with sexually.  Coming to terms with the fact that "their little girl" has sexual urges and feelings AT ALL is difficult and uncomfortable for most parents, and is even more difficult when those feelings are directed toward people of the same sex.  It's a double whammy.  \nJust gently letting them know about your sexual preference is enough, without hitting them over the head with the fact that you are sexually active with women.  \nAlternately, if you are currently in a relationship with another woman, you might introduce the subject by introducing HER.  It will make it more real to them, and also make it awkward for them to make a scene.
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That really is a hard one to answer, a part of me would tell you to tell your parents yet there is a chance that things there could go sour. If I were you I would do my research i.e. stories out of the bible ( The good simaritain, the prodgical son... to name a couple. the prodgical son talks about unconditional love.)\nRemember being gay isnt against any belief its the sexual acts that arent liked in the church before marriage that goes for those who identify as straight as well,\nBut if you decide to hide it they will find out in the long run. Maybe drop hints here and there.
534116
I always thought I was bi sexual,but about three years ago I realized that I like guys,but dont want to have sex with them anymore.At the same time I came to full acceptance of being a lesbian and loving girls,so I'd say I was 22 when I came out.My mother loves me gay or not,but my  father is still in denial.We dont talk about my sexual orientation,I guess he is still hoping for me to find a nice boyfriend
702600
Since you say that mom would probably kick you out of the house, do you really need to tell her? Coming out does not have to be something that is done in a single week. You told your boyfriend, and that is what is important. You should tell people about your sexuality that you are sexually involved with. For your family, it is only when you are comfortable telling them and aren't in a position of being dependent on them. If you think your friends won't accept it, are they really your friends? If they don't accept you, find better friends who are more supportive.
1008190
Effing brilliant. I nominate you for question of the day.\n\nThis is on par with "My parents are atheists. How do I tell them I'm straight?"
588634
Its not about what your family members want. It is about what you want. You love who you love and I don't believe anyone can choose their sexual preference. I undersdtand it is hard (my mum doesn't like that I am bi either) but you just gotta do whats right for you. Your family will come around and accept you if they really care (and I am sure they do) it may take time, but you be who you are.
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That depends.  Do you have an idea as to how they will react?  If you think they'll be okay or just a little weirded out, tell them when you feel comfortable.  If they are strict and really religious and you can see them having a huge issue with it, wait until are, or close to 18.  That way you have the option of moving out or at least being an adult where they can't control your life so much and you can make your own choices.  \n\nIts scary, but now days they have church camps where they claim to 'cure gay teens'.  If you think your parents are that exreme, it might be good to wait.  Coming out can be scary, but be strong in yourself and who you are.  And always remember there is nothing wrong with you no matter what others may say.