Would you rather be with someone whom you love more or with someone who loves you more?
545749
if the person i love soesn't love me back, it's gonna be a miserable life for me. but the person who loves me will treat me well and take care of me, and I'll love him back for sure
1111268
Being in love most times is temporary, when you love someone genuinely it has more potential to last. "In love" is intense - but tends to fade over time, genuine love grows over time.
919082
In real life I chose a man who loves me more than I love him, and the relationship is working out fine.  He has treated me better than any man I ever loved.
928960
I would say, loving yourself first is important if you want to be loved. I believe loving another more than yourself is possible if you wouldn't mind dieing for that person. \nBut to love yourself more is better because you have to hold yourself at value and take care of yourself so that you CAN share your love with someone.
424887
Keep on loving he or she. The love we give is the love we kept. Being deeply loved by someone gives her/him strength, deeply love somebody gives you courage.\nKeep rollin! Be patient. No pain no gain, you will appreciated more if you get somebody that is not easy to get, rather than just anybody.
652966
See if the one you love can love you\nand\nsee if you can love the person who loves you..
1147100
depends, would you rather be nagged but in love...or would you rather be lonely for a big chunk of your life
853714
The one who loves you the most.>
540960
Optimally, neither.  But if I were forced to choose, I'd pick the one who loved me.  I'd be less likely to be taken advantage of.
1112936
I would definitely rather have a loving boyfriend who would always be there for me.  The later would probably be very lonely, as you would not have as deep or as close of a bond with multiple men. But everyone is different!\nIf you're asking this question because you are doubting your own relationship, then I suggest you think long and hard about the situation as a whole.  No one else can tell you what to do in a situation like this, as you probably already have your mind made up.
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I know most people will tell you no, but I think it is possible to care deeply for more than one person, and isn't caring deeply about someone what love is about? However, the problem here is that if you truly love both people, you will have to come to accept the cold truth: you will have to hurt one or both. If you love them both, then this will be a difficult decision. If you don't choose, though, you will hurt both people by default. I would think that you would want to save the love of one person, instead of losing both, so you had better come to a decision before it's too late. My recommendation would be to save the 11 year relationship. At least you know that love has staying power, but what about this new one - will it only be thrilling when it's new?
264543
go with the one you love the most
612289
You have to decide which person means more to you the one your with or the one your not with. Your the ony one who can decide is it worth rising hurting the guy you love for womeone who your not sure that he even feels the same way.
36735
id rather have money. if i had money, i could always still find love, and then always be sure i could support her and any children we decide to have. and i dont have money but am loved.
458129
I have to say marry whom you love because if you don't love the person you marry what says you will end up loving them in the end
1186817
Happiness is more important.  I'd rather struggle with someone I love then be provided for by someone I didn't.
921573
You probably love one and lust for the other.