Have you or would you ever date someone out of pity?
538422
no i havent and no i wouldnt that is wicked mean
1092747
I have one for you.  I used to live in Columbus, Ohio, and I'd put an ad in a Single's Magazine.  There was one lady that replied that seemed relatively nice, so we agreed to meet at a restaurant one day.  When we met she was so nervous you could cut the tension with a knife.  I don't remember what we talked about or for how long we talked but after the date was over we never saw or heard from each other again.  She was relatively nice looking and had a pleasant personality, but no matter how hard I tried I could not get her to relax.  I  could honestly feel the tension so bad that I felt I was being pushed against a wall.  Definitely a very strange experience because I don't think I'd ever scared someone so bad in life as much as I think I scared this poor woman.  Oh well, I chaulked it up as one for experience.
1110664
Not really. I dated a guy for a long time and he would take my side in arguments with his friends, but I'm rather certain he never loved me. He just liked a good argument, and I was always the underdog.
1027235
Yes, i have.  I began dating a guy that I met through work.  He was a client.  He began calling me on my business cell and we really clicked.  I really began to care about him, but there was something I couldn't quit put my finger on.  So, I knew a PI and I began asking him questions... and then it was on.  I found out this guy was married with four children.  He was also a police officer and had been fired from jobs in the past for sexual harrassment.  Needless to say, I am VERY glad I found all of this out otherwise, who knows the mess I could have been tangled up in.
856764
why haven't you dated? because you didn't want to, or because you couldn't?
30832
yes,i have when i was younger with my first love.i felt i wouldnt do any matter then him so i stayed with him.only when he had a nerveous break down i wanted to leave but,his family said he needed me.the family was saying it was my fault of his nerous break down so i had to stay with him."guilt"
975573
yes you seem verry nice! any person would be lucky to date you!
15371
Its weird, but I sorta have this switch in my head that one day I look at the guy I'm with and all of a sudden, he's the most obnoxious, ugly guy I have ever seen in my life!  I think... "how did I do this?!?!"  I don't know what does it, but it happens all at once for me.  I have dated a few people where I fell out of love just as quickly as I fell in love, and I don't know why either happened!  Fortunately, I am in love now, and have no plans to fall out of love unless he does something to make it that way!!  ;)
130697
I used to date one. She was hoooooot! But also very catholic and being an aetheist it didn´t quite work out.
1092199
Yes, I have.  But then I've only dated one guy.  He is white and I'm Indian.  I really enjoy his company though and he is a very sweet person.  I would have liked to date an Indian guy, but all the ones I have met seem very rude and far too shallow.
172705
yes..i have ..one regert..there was a boy..who is behind me for two years..i never loved him..after relation of three months i told him..this..but he still want to continue as friend..then love happened to me..n i had a break up after six months...this guy then helped me out ..laid a hand for me..i thought i must give a chance to this relation...so i given..literally..we hanged around..i always said him i love u bt i never felt him...n the day i again fall in love..i left him without reason...he runs behind me..again but this time to say final good bye....i personally feels i done bad..i used him..wen i needed..n may be becoz of that today my husband left me without reason...
371761
YES!  it is rare very very rare but a man, and you know who you are... I was with had a HUGE one.  It hurt! We had to stop.  At times I feel sorry for him never being able to enjoy sex at least with a decent woman like myself.  Of course it didn't help my situation that he was drop dead gorgeous as well.  Sigh
1000544
i've never dumped any one in a "silly" way however many years ago i was dumped by my ex thru her mate who told me she had moved to brazil with work and had hated me for ages. the tart
1168547
Yes, I would totally date you. You are such a heartstopper...................................Sorry having fantisies.
1037978
yes, b'coz u like the person & as a nice friend u feel sorry for him
31907
Yes, I would date a larger person.  If I have things in common with the person, and I enjoy being with the person, then I wouldn't feel uncomfortable.
778904
YES  YOUR NOT A BAD PERSON EVERYBODY FALLS OUT OF LOVE ONCE IN WHILE I WAS WITH MY EX 8 YEARS AND \nI WISHED THE SAME FOR HIM BUT I DIDN'T LOVE LIKE I DID BEFORE.GOD WILL BRING HIM SOMEONE.