Why do people always judge a person by looks and not personality? Especially GUYS!?
540217
I do not think you will ever meet someone who does not project on others when they first meet people. I really think it is human nature, unless someone is really mature then they will not be judgmental
1170648
Having a job and a car SHOULD be expected but you would be surprised how many single men have neither. I don't consider myself shallow but that really is a requirement I expect from men I date. It doesn't have to be a Benz and you don't have to be sporting a big bankroll but I need to know up front you are not going to expect me to support you and haul your nappy a s s everywhere you need to go. I would never expect someone to do that for me. I have a job and a car and a place of my own. After that personality is the most important thing I look for but most women are stuck on looks after that. Looks aren't everything. Sure there should be a physical attraction but for me that comes more from a good personality and sense of humor than physical attributes. The ugliest guy on they outside becomes gorgeous in my eyes if he can make me feel good and keep me smiling and happy.
195009
I dont believe it is what is outside of a person that makes them attractive.  Beauty is only skin deep, but ugly goes straight to the bone, and if people are judging you based on whether you are skinny or a bit overweight, then they are the ugliest people.  To have a small heart is FAR worse than to have a small body
167418
Guys who only love women for their looks are downright shallow. Not all guys are like that. There are guys out there who actually are attracted to a great personality. They are rare gems indeed. Look out for these rare ones. The rest are just shallow.
291118
It is how one perceives you. You may be good for someone and ugly for another one. I guess what is more important is to be beautiful mentally :-)
655914
I don't personally, but a lotta my mates like a guy who spends a lotta time on his appearance etc, so maybe it's just a matter of personal choice.  Anyway, don't worry - however you are, whoever you are - there's someone out there who'll think you're just PERFECT.
931622
maybe she values them as people and does not judge their personality on their looks.\nbeauty is only skin deep remember
300482
It's a little bit of both with normally personality leading.  Normally a guy won't like a girl that he can't stand no matter how good she looks (note I said normally, there are exceptions out there).  Guys will also sacrifice looks if a girl's personality is awesome (to an extent).  So all in all, guys will lean a little more towards personality.
69127
Well, statistically personality tops high over looks. But to me, looks atracts me first but personality controls the attraction. I have looked at many girls and I chooses looks over them. However, their personalities are what affecting my attraction to them.\n\nSome girls may looked beautifully attractive but their bad personalities may disgraced God's gifts to them. They made their looks ugly in the eyes of me. \n\nSome other girls may looked unattractive but with kind hearts, they grace their looks with the shine of kindness.\n\nBeing a young and educated person makes feel that personality is the best not looks. But to be honest, some girls who are not quite attractive but have good and noble hearts do attract me but with intervals. I mean that I do not feel attracted to them because their not quite beautiful although are kind. For some beautiful girls but have unkind hearts, they also attract me with their good looks but their personalities make me rethink.\nI know that I am not being fair to everybody including myself but that is what happening now and I confidently believe that I will change. Experience will surely help along with knowledge.\n\nWell, like the wise ones had said, "Beauty is only skin-deep". Good personality is what making a living soul live happily not looks.\n\nI do not know if you understand which is really more important but I hope you will, just like me.\nBy the way, I do not act like I am attracted to others but in my heart, yes. Maybe it is my ego that made me do that.
1185110
Mainly your personality needs to be changed. I mean a girl could be dating a really hot guy and dump him because he's has a poor personality. Or be dating a normal guy and stay with him forever because of his personality. To me most of the time looks, I could care less about.\n\nHope this helps in some way!!!!!!!!
397362
I think that it depends on the guy and his age.Most of the time older guys  look for personality,and younger guys go for looks.I think that one should not care what people think, although it is difficult not to get hurt when people are say mean things about you.
351724
some people do not go after looks.  I never did, it just all depends on how you feel about the way the person is treating you.  if you treat others with respect, chances are some of these people will respect you.
324011
Because to some people, their looks are everything. They want every one to see things the way they do. They believe that the way they look is better than anyone else's who is different than theirs. So if u don't look like them, they hate u just because of that. Some people just can't accept the fact that every one is the same (physically) on the inside whether they like it or not.
1084203
looks matter 2 some xtent. bt  i personally feel the outer look is not at all important. bcoz outerlook doesnt exist 4 life long. wht it matters is ones personality which ll help u 2 identify tht person. so 4 me i would prefer beautiful personality n average looks.
657941
just as 'Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder" similarly "Personality of a person lies in the grey matter of the onlooker." One needs to use ur brain to judge the persona on all fronts-looks ,likes n brains.
529507
everyone has their own different vision of beauty.  just because you don't measure up to another persons standards does not make you ugly.  besides, most of the "beatiful" people are jerks anyway.
144318
looks is always a good thing but personlity stands out more because you don't want to be with someone who has a bad attitude or who does things you don't like or who doesn't share anything good or worthwhile in common with you.