why most females regrets their first relationships with their males counterparts?
546561
I only regret that it ended the way it did. I think often those first loves are just really hard on us.
490380
Poeple always blame other people when they are at fault themselves or when they are in denial. \n\nDepending on their past and there own experiences-they might not have had a good expeirnece with either a man or woman (or both!) and so stereotype other men/women to be the same which is a shame.\n\nPeople are always wary of what they donot know so this is normal. If a man knew what it was like to a woman, and likewise then im sure we'd have far less conflicts! but obviousley this isnt going to happen :) We just need more communication, more honesty and more trust.\n\nxx
149200
its because you feel bad for yourself. if u think about it humanity is a bit selfish. now that your alone you wish you still had a partner.
1055157
Girls tend to go for bad boy types that excite them the first time around. Women tend to go for men who are more attentive to them and show caring and compassion, as well as being a man. This is not to say ALL girls go for the block head the first time around, as their are some women who are more stimulated by an intelligent, articulate, decently groomed man. But they are a rare commodity compared to Barbie types looking for the Ken Doll.\n\nAnd it could be said that we, as men, tend to go after girls that have a certain look as well. And not unlike girls, we don't much care if she is a conversationalist if she is smokin hot.\n\nGood luck, maybe you'll catch that 1 in 10000 hot intellectual girl soon.
499002
Its because those guy who plays the heart of girls are sick of their lame lives don't worry they are not worth it maybe they are not used in long term relationship and a lot of guys are like that...so don't focus your attention to them because your life will be miserible if you always think about them and as a matter of fact many girls are surviving w/o boyfriends
1179364
Maybe you ARE to good for them; I know, it doesn't make you feel any better... I've had guys say that too. I remember in my one of my Psych classes that guys fall for a girl right away and then there feelings tend to decline, whereas a it takes a girl a while to fall for guy but it usually steadily increases. Maybe that has something to do with it. I also think if guys want a sexual relationship and don't get what they want, they try to find someone else so they can.
565349
Your feeling are normal every relationship has different qualities,and bring out different feelings, as for the first girl you have memories but NEVER compare them with another girl no 2 are alike.  Love is Living On Various Emotions. Just go day to day and don't rush or have regrets. Good luck...
937587
I think it also has to do with the fact that WOMEN are now doing what men have been doing for centuries and using men for sex and ONLY sex. WHY WOULD you court someone you've already been with. I KNOW tons of girls who sleep with guys they just met... NOT ME! I have to hold out... I want to make SURE I have a possible future with a guy before sleeping with him. Like that song, Im gonna make you work for it.
973734
It is a social flaw.  Men believe that it is OK to be with many women, while women feel ahamed to say how many men that they have been with.
877690
Yes, when I was in high school, there was a girl who liked me.  She would call me "hot" all the time.  I found out she wanted to get with me, but I was too nervous and timid about what other people thought.  Plus, I didn't think I deserved her (low self esteem all throughout high school).  So, yes, I regret not getting with her.  I was unsure about my sexuality then and still am now. I often wonder what might have happened if I would have voyeured w/ her, sat under the stars w/ her, held her close.  But, we never did any of those things except in my mind.  But, she is married now and lives in another state.  Now, I, am in love with another friend of mine but don't plan on telling her b/c of fear of losing her/rejection.\n\nWhy do you ask? Have you rejected someone recently? Sometimes, the brain does know better than the heart.  My brain is always on though and never knows when to turn off! I just want my heart to open up every once in a while.
531429
Because we invest ourselves into relationships. We forget that having a relationship doesn't define us. They don't really know that the hurt goes so deep. Remember, their experience as kids is mostly with other boys.\nAlways remember to say what you want and be honest. Anyone who can't handle that is not worth your time.
357335
Of course girls remember their first loves!  How can anyone, let alone girls, forget the first person to give them butterflies?  It's the first and most exciting thing a girl feels.  Don't guys remember their first loves?
23516
Most women do that mostly when they have been hurt more than once. They probably feel that if it keeps happening then all men must be the same. I for one feel thats not true and if a woman who has been hurt constantly compares her current to her ex,then she will never have a meaningful relationship
321534
Vanity, Pride, Jealousy, Animosity..\nHave you ever seen a gal who was fine with you immensely praising andr girl in front of her??\nThey may not admit it but somewhere deep down therz this inane sense of competition among them that can only be overcome with the strongest bonds of friendship and love..\nGirls are also quite sensitive and do not forgive, forget and move on as fast as guys do.. They get hurt often and don't forget it anytime soon. Plus they think and analuse much more than any guy would. So they do tend to get into alot of fights.
96993
Well, it is easy: If you look at the statistics, most women at the age of, say 25 have had more different sexpartners of the opposite sex then most men of the same age... so they have more experience and - if You look at it from a male perspective in a way most males think - are BETTER then the males when it comes to sex... so men have to find a way to "win the competition" after all and got used to bragging about their experiences... and making the women feel bad about theirs...
517846
Most of the time it has to do with the fact that they had a poor male role model growing up. Often going after the same type of man they know well in their life.  It is sad, but breakable, woman just have to want it to be different and realize when it is happening. They need to recognize the triggers and check themselves so they don't repeat poor choices in men.
1169331
Girls tend to me more emotional and clingy than men.  Just out of observation, women and men tend to get almost closer once apart, as they tend to feel a bit more comfortable sharing more personal things than they did when they were once together.  That is of course if they ended on positive notes.  Couples tend to have a hard time conveying honest feelings to each other, but someone they know pretty well (such as past boyfriends) make an easier outlet for someone to talk too.