Having relationship problems?
538208
I'd sit him down...If I could catch him!...and tell him what is on your mind. Tell him that you really like him and the whole point is that you want to spend time with him. Not smother him, but continue to get to know him and have fun. Be honest and tell him that you were pissed off and now hurt. It's always best to be clear..that way he can't come back later and say "but sweetie..you never told me!" And if you can't get him to sit down and talk about it, leave him a message or email....and then go out and continue to work, see your friends nad have fun. Let him catch up to you. I hate to say it, but a little hard to get can be playe both ways. Good luck and I hope it works out for you!
1072105
i think we have the same problem. i'm sorry it happened that way but im sure trying to work things out is easiest by talking things over and doing wat is best for BOTH of you.\nGOOD LUCK!
654332
Dear Just,\n\nWhenever we find ourselves having difficulty in a relationship, it's often because of unresolved issues from our past.  It may have been that you were in a previous relationship that was painful and you have not really processed those negative emotions, but simply stuffed them away.  Then when you begin to get close to someone, your fears come to the surface.  If you'd like to know more about how to work through past issues that are still impacting your life, I'm a Mars Venus Coach and would be happy to help you.  Feel free to email me at yahoo with my profile name.
163007
i know the feeling, it sucks! we've been together for 5 yrs now & im secretly apologizing to him at the back of my mind... take your time to listen to whatever it is that's bothering you right now, a little time off perhaps,so you can figure it out? \nlife is too short for slip ups in relationships. at least you won't be where im at cuz it really sucks!
158811
Well if you cant resolve your problems you should get out of it.There is someone out there who will love you the way you need to be loved .Dont risk missing out on that by staying with someone who makes you miserable.
249201
Relationships.  Asking stupid questions.
122927
Relax, all relationships go through phases.  Take some time to figure out if there is something in your life or relationship that is bothering you and needs to be dealt with.  If it isn't that then talk to your doctor as this could also be a health matter.  Some times it is just that you have hit a stale patch in your relationship and with a little work and time you will get past it.
309331
Talk to her and have her open up and tell you whats been going on. Tell her your feels. Be open, no secrets, that is the key to relationships.
1064054
Have you tried to talk with your girlfriend about how you feel? When my sweetie feels like nothing is special, she talks with me and says "I miss when we used to ..." or "I feel like we are in a rut, do you think so too?" She usually gets the ball rolling and brings her dissatisfaction with the status quo to my attention. You can do the same. \n\nAnother idea is for each of you to list all the things you like and don't like about the relationship and compare your lists. You probably already know this, but when sharing your lists, do so in a positive and non-confrontational way.\n\nThen again, if this all sounds like too much work, figure out what you would like in the relationship and talk with her about that.\n\nJC
650524
Try to sit him down and discuss your concerns with him. Try to make each other aware of your concerns without trying to make the other person guilty for them, and try to improve your communication dynamic. If you love each other, you will be able to work things out: try counseling, if you think you need some tips you can't develop on your own. Good luck, and best wishes.
951590
Weeeeeeelllll, if YOU think/feel it to be a problem, then go seek counseling.\n\nmb
1155230
He's the one with the problem not you...rise above it and hopefully your boyfriend will sort it out...if he's the sort worth having!
483151
At one point or another, now matter what relationship you are in...it will suck, every now and again!! Good Luck-this to shall pass!! :)
1071827
some guys take it as an insult to them and get defensive (acting mad) instead of seeing the problem and remedying it (making suggestions).  i would just try to talk to him and tell him you want to talk about it to help your relationship not hurt it.  At least you're honest and towards the first step of making it better for the both of you.
890557
Well sounds like you two need to sit down together and have a long conversation about your relationship, and why you are fighting over things.  And decide if maybe your lives are going in different directions and its time to end it. Or fight through it. All relationships have tought times. Its up to those involved to decide if they want to work through the problems or not. \n\nIf he is unwilling or uncooperative to sit and discuss this. I would say its time to move on as difficult as that may be.
1051281
You need to figure out why you're coming back and solve that problem. Maybe you're lonely or this other person fills a need in your life. Once you confront your problem, you can easily handle moving on from this relationship.
86542
Get professional help.  Learn to communicate.  Set boundaries.  Be honest.  Deal with the issues.  Good luck!