i have a boyfriend but now i like someone new.?
535477
You have some tough decisions to make...you have to decide which of these 3 issues is most important because you cant have them both...If you are having these feelings, you should step back and tell your boyfriend you need some space for awhile...dont use that to go after the other guy though. Use it to figure out your next move. Is this new guy worth leaving your boyfriend for? Also remember if you are in highschool, you will meet many more boys and more than likely you will not end up marrying either of these two, sorry this is so long but I had alot to say...good luck
771567
If both of them like you and you like both of them the choice is yours. You have to thinkabout who you are more comfortable with, can see dating and can see a future (like.. who would you be dating longer). \n\nI basically did that. I like these two guys. One is fun and the other one is smart. Both are cute but I had to choose and I chose the smart one 'cos I can actually REALLY be just myself around him and he's smart (like me, lol) so we can actually talk about stuff. Plus, he always amazes me. The other one is fun and all but we don't have that much in common other than liking each other. So try to assess who you would be better off with.
646497
You neeed a new boyfriend.
392468
It's the thrill of a new relationship.  Give it some time and you two should be back together soon enough :)
814274
You need to ask yourself do you really like him? And what was the reason that he started seeing you? What do you do together and what do you want from him? There is no point seeing someone who isnt going to give you what you both want from a relationship....you should be spending quality time together on your own and with your friends and family and if he isnt prepared to do that is  he really worth it!? Think about what you want...x
378537
Well, obviously you need to make a choice.\n\nHave you and your current boyfriend really grown together that much if you can have the same feelings for another person almost immediately?\n\nIf not, perhaps you should talk to him about where your relationship is going.
321627
Take a long look at the relationship that you have worked to develop with your boyfriend. If everything is good there, then forget about the other guy and spend more time having sex with your boyfriend. He won't know what hit him, and you can "work out" some of the urges you are having. Try something new in bed (or in chair, or on dining room table) to spice it up a bit. The new guy is just that , someone new. And the fact that he wants to "hook up" with someone who is already in a relationship tells you all you need to know about his character.
49206
One can feel attracted towards other persons while you are in a relationship. What matters is if you act about those feelings or not. Think about what you currently have with your boyfriend, do you really love him, do you see him as part of your future? If your answers are yes, then nevermind about the other person you are liking, just stick to your love. If the answers are no, well you should have a sincere conversation with your boyfriend to see where are you going with the relationship.
1090591
wat up i went throught the same thing but now he's my boyfriend but n/e who go up to him dont be all shaky though well first you gotta find out if he likes you if he does thats your cue and just ask him be like will you go wit me that should help if it doesn't email me at mzjiceybooty@yahoo.com my name is Andria by the way
355322
WHO DO YOU LIKE MORE, YOUR BOYFRIEND OR THIS NEW GUY?? MAYBE IT IS TIME FOR YOU TO EXPERIENCE SOMETHING WITH SOMEONE NEW OR SOMEONE ELSE. IT HAPPENS! AND THAT DOESN'T MAKE YOU A BAD PERSON. TRUST YOUR HEART, BELIEVE IN YOUR MIND. SIXTH GRADER LIKING A NINTH GRADER!!!! NOT SO SHOCKING!! IF YOU LIKE HIM JUST BECAUSE HE IS OLDER, THEN THAT MIGHT NOT BE THE BEST REASON. DO YOU WHAT YOU FEEL??
280691
Like they say...don't know what ya got till it's gone..guess he's now realizing how great of a person  you are..this is a decision you have to make..you've been with your current boyfriend 2 1/2 years..do you really want to give all that up for something that may not work out..look in your heart and decide what you want and how you feel...if things are going good with your current man I'd just tell the ex sorry I've moved on and have someone...if your not happy then maybe you should give it a try but this is something  you should think long and hard about even pray about because it will be a life changing decision..the best of luck to you
511888
well good,, this tells u tht u really don like the guy u like now,,,,go n try out the guy u start liking now whom u hav crush now,,,maybe hes the one...
611901
i think it would be better if u confess to the other guy that u are in a relationship. it is quite possible to fall for other people while u are in a relationship. its natural so dont worry ok? just take your time to know this guy.. it might just be a crush since u say that u love ur boyfriend. may be after sometime u will realize this new guy is just not ur kind. tell him the truth about u being into a relaionship. dont lie. it could harm ur relationship with ur boyfriend in future. and about telling your boyfriend..i think u should just tell him u have made a new friend nothing else.. tht is it.... dont worry. hope it was of some help.
406917
do u love someone new or who u have known for a while? who is nicer and more affectionate?? just follow your heart.. .. do u really want to end it with ur husbband??way down deep u may miss him and love him more.
1142110
Keep yourself busy and try not to think about it.  Hang out with friends, flirt with cute boys, whatever works.  If you start dating someone new it will be because of a rebound, so be prepared for it not to last and to risk hurting the new guy.
676771
Yes, make this move: Find a NEW boyfriend.\n\nDo you think you would treat him the way he treats you??? He is playing you. Forget about him and do something good for you, and this time choose a MAN not a child.
504003
My boyfriend told me something just a little while ago. Before we were going out, he didn't know that I liked him, he said i was sending him mixed messeges! I definatly didn't think I was...I liked him so much! But I liked him so much that I would get nervous when I was around him, because I didn't want to give him the wrong Idea, that is what it sounds like is going on. It sounds like the girl likes you, shes just shy. Don't be shy too!! Go for it!