Do you ever get that alone feeling even in a room full of people?
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Yeah...esp. when you wish you are anywhere but where you are. =) Dun worry, you are normal if you get that feeling...
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I just have to get out of the house when I feel lonely, once you're out you can meet new people and most of the time I end up having a conversation with someone I don't know, even if I'll probably never speak to them again. I go out to a pub or cafe and sit at the bar or a table just watching the world go by. Sometimes I take a book and it's suprising how many people will come over and ask what I'm reading or say that they've already that and it's good.  I also like to take my rollerblades to the park or the seafront if it's nice out, although wish I could skate better. Or I go to the cinema, even if I'm on my own I love watching a great film and for a while you're not really on your own cos there are loads of people around and no one is talking so you're not the odd one out. If you're out enjoy yourself, and just do things that make you laugh or that you used to do as a kid, even when you're on your own cos people will see you laughing and chat. (Just not to look like a psycho, laughing at your own jokes! :)) If all else fails when I'm lonely I call my mum, she lives 12000 miles from me and it's great talking to her.
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anyway why are feeling alone? You should have family members or frens around you.  make more new frens.\n\nmy email add is srileela29@yahoo.com
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I feel comfortable on my own in public places and have no problem with going alone, although going with someone else can be fun too. I do however sometimes get tired of the looks I get from people when sitting alone in a restaurant or the cinema. I wonder if people who feel this strong need to always go with someone to such places think that everyone else is like that. They seem to think I have no friends since I didn't drag anyone along with me.
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You are not alone in feeling alone!  Sometimes, we all do.  Just remember, no matter how bad you feel, someone else feels alone also.  Reach out in some small way to do something nice for someone you love, and you won't feel so alone.\n\nGood luck!
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i think is absolutely normal that you feel that way and you have every reason to. it also looks to me that you may need someone to talk to. so i'll give my msn so you can add me and talk when ever you need to\nlosanteojosdegaba2006@hotmail.com\nluck! ;)
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no but wan i feel like
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This is very common so down feel like your alone. I thought I was the only person at one time. Then I started noticing it in people like myself. \n\nYour still searching for what interest you and when you do your eyes and hears will be focused. Then you will be able to express yourself.\nI don't think your shy because you talk, of enjoying talking with people.\n\nMaybe they are not listen to you and being selfish when accusing you of not responding or not listening. \nAlways think positive about yourself and never take the guilt of thinking somethings wrong with you, Cause's a complex.\n\nTheres nothing wrong with you question see your doing it again by saying I know this is dumn. Nothing is dumn if you wish to express yourself.\n\nTo put this in a nut shell- Find a friend that likes what you enjoy and there will be allot of communication.
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You're well within your rights to "vant to be alone."  I'm an introvert myself, and I need my downtime to re-energize.  But I also used to work in a similar situation on a Help Desk.  Not only did I have to be yakking all day, but the sound of a ringing phone STILL raises my blood pressure.\n\nIt's unfortunate that some people just can't read body language, and you're forced to point out that you don't feel like talking.  If you'd rather not have to do that, you can try picking up a newspaper or mag that you can bury your face in.  Then you won't even have to respond to their visual signals that they want to talk.
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I don't really have a name for which moments I want to be alone it's just a feeling I get once in awhile.  I usually prefer to have people around me, I guess that comes from being in a big family.  There are just certain times I feel like being alone to just do whatever...space out if I want to.  lol
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Yes...but even with people I'm still alone! I was born a loner...it's okay! Some people are just that way...
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Definitely. How about walking into a room full of people who care nothing about you. Are you actually there?\nI'm not trying to be tricky, but really, to be somewhere, there has to something around you, and frankly, a whole bunch of nothing, is still nothing.
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not so good... but sometimes it actually feels nice to have the whole house to urself and just enjoy some alone quiet peaceful time!!! :o)
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It sounds like you need some kind of activity or even a change of lifestyle to fill the void.Have you considered\nvolunteer work of some kind? You meet new people and get the feeling of satisfaction from helping others.You don't\nfeel empty when you're being stimulated like that.
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Sometimes.\nI get this claustrophobic feeling whenever I'm in a crowded place, and I start jumping from one quiet spot to the other in that whole, crowded place, just trying to 'blend' into my surroundings.\nAlso, because the place I'm studying at is a small town (Small towns are good for studies because you've got virtually nothing to do but study! :P), everyone's rather narrow-minded. The state I'm living in is pre-dominantly people of my race, the people in the country I'm living in are Multi-cultural, yes, but they don't live together in harmony, but in harsh racial divisions going about their business and being wary of the next race.\nHence, the people tend to really frown upon racial mixing (it's somewhat like a voluntary form of racial segregation or apartheid, with different districts holding an excessive majority of one particular race), let alone multi-racial relationships.\nWhenever my fiance (of a darker skin, and therefore in this country - EVEN more discriminated upon! The irony is that the rest of the races aren't so white themselves! They're brown!) and I walk out we find ourselves in merciless public scrutiny.\nThe worse thing is that while at least he's being ignored, I get the brunt of the telling off by some self-righteous middle-aged - older guy about mixing with other groups, about myself being 'cheap' because I mix with "such people" (meaning people of tanned and darker skinned), or I'm seen as some promiscuous girl hanging off the tetherhooks of some charming, evil dark-skinned man because of status, wealth, charm, boredom, rebelliousness, etc.\nWe find ourself literally 'hiding' when we go out. And mind you, we don't even hold hands in public, all it takes is just being in close proximity to a darker-skinned man to warrant disapproving glares from even the racist younger men  and women, who look at me as if I'm a paid prostitute walking around with him because I'm paid! \nIt's frustrating, and we've come across some extremely racist people, to the subtle racism (pretending not to hear my fiance speak, only speaking to me but in a rude tone, or speaking in a very rude, insulting, dismissive tone to my fiance, etc.).\nSo yes, while we aren't afraid of what people think of our relationship (We're engaged! It's not as if he's a 3 month fling or something!), we prefer not to create conflict, and find ourselves sometimes 'hiding' from everyone.\nIt's not unknown to have racial attacks where I'm studying at now.\nWe just can't wait to get the semesters over with and move over to our next destination, and just be ourselves!\n\nJenova\n(d.yuffie@gmail.com)
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No you are not the only one many people around you may seem better off bet there are other people who feel like you I am one of them but to a lesser degree and for a shorter amount of time.
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That's a really good question, and on the surface not as easy to answer as one might think. I had never really thought about it. \n\nI am known for being a loner in the sense that I don't go  out and do things with other people very much.  Actually, its pretty rare.  I am pretty much a person who likes to stay home, and I live alone, so one could probably say, I am a loner.\n\nBut it's like I told my dad once, "I may be alone, but I am not lonely." I  believe the answer to the quetion  depends on how one feels when they are alone.  \n\nA person who chooses to be alone may still feel lonely. And if he/she feels lonely, they probably are not loners.\n\nMake any sense?