i constantly get mad at my g/f even when she is just plying around. how do i stop this?
545124
Well now that you realize your doing it and know why your doing it make a conscious effort every day not to.  Before long that habit will replace the other one.  The only way to do it is to do it.
328496
if you didnt do anything you dont need to do anything to not make her be mad at you she has some issues she needs to handle if she is mad at you for no reason... ask her what you did then go from there
634997
try to understand why she is pissed. see it from her point of view and put yourself in her shoes. \n\nand simply ask yourself. why do you think its so funny?\n\ni dont know.
965265
she loves you yet she's mean to you? that's what you call tough love. try elaborating on how she's mean to you... maybe it's just her way of teasing you or fondling with you. some of 'em like guys who absorb all their blows. but if her meanness bothers you, maybe you should talk to her about it.
873820
you are with the wrong woman...plain and simple!\n\nall the things you've said, some of us have experienced it too with the opposite sex...so there's no sense for crying out loud...we all had a share, ok?\n\nif you can't stand it, that you are all doing the work...then go! find someone who can fill your world with the things that you expect from a woman...i am very sure that there is one for each and everyone of us..\n\ndon't push yourself beyond your threshhold...or else you will burn out!
697923
if you are lashing out in a physical sense then you need to end the relationship imediatly and seek professional help to try and control your anger. physical violence is not the answer and i think u accept that. before you hurt this person that you obviously care for do the best thing you can and save her from more hurt
670435
Sounds like you are over-compromising and not being yourself. If you always do what she wants, how can she do what you want and why would she?! A relationship should be give and take but if someone can get away with making no effort etc, then they are going to. Start suggesting what you want to do, don;t always agree with everything she says. It might also make you a bit more exciting to her again. That is not about being raised right - you can still be polite etc but just about being yourself not a doormat.
309263
Well, you say you realize this is inappropriate yet you can't contol it.  I would see a therapist if I were you.  Not because you're crazy, but because maybe he/she can find ways for you to control your anger and what makes you feel so angry (I'm sure it isn't always your girlfriend).  And above all, don't change simply for your girlfriend, change to better yourself!  Good luck!
929816
You need to sit her down and discuss it with her. If she's worth every ounce of energy you have left, that's something SHE should know..tell her. Ask her why she gets in those ...is moods a good word?.......You have to communicate how you feel and what your thinking to her,....then she will let out what she's keeping in, then you guys can get back down to business. But you HAVE to talk to her about it. Women will not tell you what's wrong, you have to wheedle it out of them....it's not that they are being mean, that's just their nature. Trust me talk with her about it, be patient and LISTEN, and she will tell you everything.
640385
Make fun of yourself and how you get into trouble.\n\nIf you can make her laugh, then act like a friend for a very long time without being pushy.\n\nIf you don't have this kind of patience, get a new girlfriend.
1013
Something seems to be missing in your story--or your girlfriend is schizoid.  But seriously, it isn't really normal to fight every week, so possibly she is still angry about whatever it is you guys have been fighting about.  I would think about the tone you may have had when you asked her to clean, I imagine you were upset because she wasn't helping, and that may have set her off.  If you want to save your relationship talk to her like an adult to an adult and try to figure out how to resolve your problems in a positive way.  Try to avoid accusatory and patronizing statements.  You two are probably just having trouble adjusting to living together.  Good Luck
632260
YOu need to break up with your girldfriend dby explaining it to her there may be some screaming and slapping and she will be hella pissed but if she truly wants you and her to be happy then she will understand after a while
1058420
All the time! i try to keep my temper and not over react,next minute I'm in the middle of a full blown OTT tantrum! I also have a story about me and my ex, but that'll keep for another time ;)
389414
I've been going through that issue for like 5 years.  There's no easy answer.  The advice I would give you is to not back down from this woman, and to have your g/f speak to her mother about it.  Don't be rude to her unless she is rude first, however don't allow her to speak to you like you're nothing.  Just because she doesn't do it in front of your g/f, doesn't mean that your g/f should allow it to go on.  And if she doesn't believe you, then there is a problem in your relationship that needs to be fixed.
1164160
Nope.  Frankly, I'm the same way.  My gf let me know it bothers her, so, I'm trying to make adjustments.  But, if you keep asking him, it'll just take longer and make him more irritated, maybe to the point where he can't deal with it anymore.  I'd let him know it bothers you, and leave it.  If he's going to change, he'll do it on his own.
300025
people fight and us women are so emotional...we get over it though...physical abuse isn't by any means right...see what drives her to get so pissed and help her thruogh it..it also helps to walk away on a self time out when things get heated...love without fights are in fantasy worlds only..everone has altercations it's how we deal with them and how we choose to forgive...good luck dear...she may need counceling for her anger issues it only helps...no diss intended...anger managment can be a good thing even when you think nothings wrong...higher learning is your result and thats always a good thing.
544296
Lie Low Let her moods calm down Let her anger be over You dont retaliate. \nThings should settle down You can show your hurt feelings and disapproval by not talking to her unless to answer any querry. That to yes no is ok.\nMay be later on you can tell her what you feel and that should solve