Men only , is it wrong for a guy my age (58) to masturbate even if i'm married ?
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Masturbation Techniques for your male partner\nPartner Masturbation (Hand jobs)  are a great way to pleasure your man. They can be used by themselves, or while performing oral sex on your partner. Below is a listing of hand job techniques. It is better to perform these using a lubricant. \n\nPressure\nWith one hand, pull the shaft's skin toward the base and wrap the fingers of this hand around the base to act as a cock ring. Using the other hand, rhythmically pick various points along the shaft of the penis and squeeze opposite sides of the penile shaft at these points, releasing pressure either immediately or after only a brief period of time. \nFire\nRub the penis between both palms, as if rubbing two sticks together to create fire. Be sure to use plenty of oil. \n\nGlans Head Massage\nHold the penis in one hand with the head sticking up. Using the well-oiled palm of your other hand, slowly and sensitively massage the glans head. Reverse directions every once in a while. \n\nHealing Stroke\nWith the penis resting on the man's stomach, take one hand and cup the testicles. Then glide the heel of the palm of the other hand up and down the underside of the penis. \n\nTwist and Shout\nPull the skin of the penis toward the base with one hand. With the other hand, corkscrew the penis. This can be done with the thumb and first finger or with your entire grip. \n\nAnvil Stroke\nStart with one hand lightly grasping the top of the penis. Then stroke the penis from the top, all the way to the bottom. When you hit the bottom, release the penis. Meanwhile, bring your other hand to the top of the penis and repeat. \n\nBookends\nPlace both of your hands side by side against his shaft like a pair of bookends. Now push hard against his penis. Then lift your hands up and down. \n\nDoorknob\nTurn the head of his penis like you're trying to open an oily doorknob. Now try turning the other way. Repeat. This stroke is sometimes improved by using the other hand to stretch the skin of the penis toward the base. \n\nDouble Whammy\n\nBring your well lubricated hands down on his shaft. Some penises are so big they require both hands; if your partner's doesn't, then use the other hand to caress and lightly flutter his testicles, or tighten around the base of his shaft. If both hands fit along the length of the shaft then move them together, up and down, in the typical pumping motion. Pretend you're holding a baseball bat and are about to score a grand slam. You can also vary the directions of your hands: one up, one down at the same time. \n\nMilking\nStart with one hand lightly grasping the bottom of the penis. Then stroke the penis from the bottom all the way to the top. When you hit the top, release the penis. Meanwhile, bring your other hand to the bottom of the penis and repeat. \n\nPerpetual Penetration\nStart with one hand lightly grasping the top of the penis. Then stroke the penis from the top all the way to the bottom, letting his penis "penetrate" into your fist on each stroke. Before the head of his penis pops out of your hand, bring the other hand up for the next penetration. This way it seems to him like he is penetrating deeper and deeper. Make sure you keep the penetration continuous. \n\nRing\nMake a ring with your thumb and forefinger and pump up and down with it. When you get to the top close the ring. Then make him squeeze his way in as you slide back down to the bottom. \n\nShaft\nStroke only his shaft, ignoring his glans head. You will notice his glans head swelling and turning red. When it's bright red, use Doorknob, Glans Head Massage, or Perpetual Penetration. \n\nShuttle Penis\nTake the penis in both hands, fingers lightly touching the sides of the shaft. Now flick the penis back and forth between your two hands by holding onto the loose skin of the shaft. Do this stroke for a while to allow tension to build. \n\nSpot Pinch\nLightly and slowly run a finger up the underside of his penis. Ask
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I'm 67 and still going strong.  When I first found out what masturbation felt like, I almost pumped myself dry by masturbating as often as I could wherever I could.  I still have all my hair and I still masturbate as often as I can although it is no where near what I could do when I was a teenager.
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I've been masturbating since I was 16 and don't see a problem where it has cause me to become weak or to not physically  develop properly.  I'm now a healthy grown man (and still enjoy masturbation).
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LOL! I was going to post an answer here elle but there are already a lot of good answers. While I was reading them I noticed Frank whos "baby daddy" run off posted an answer to you. Funny stuff ;)\n\nBTW theres nothing wrong with what youre doing, just be honest with him. One caveat, there are sexy 33 year old guys too :P
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Well i havnt done that, kuz im still a virgin, but i think that when your man is not there with you, its ok to do that, and theres nothing wrong w/masturbating! Cmon lets all be adults here kuz thats the truth. ITs a natural thing, it comes w/both the female and male nature. But its also not healthy doing that everyday(For the girls though, using vibraters and stuff, but for the guyz its ok)! If you cant make love to yourself, how are you going to make love to your husband?
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There is nothing wrong in masturbating....embarassing though it may be, tell your mom....\n\nIf you give in now he will hold it over you forever.
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Most young women see a older married guy as a safe way to experiment and even to learn more about the sensual pleasures without having to worry about a relationship or the complications that come with it.  By the way, yes the married guy can help it - its called self control!
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He should have it as often as he desires.  Whether it be through intercourse with a partner or if he must jack himself off through phone sex or looking at xxx-rated movies and pictures.  The real answer to the question would be another question.  How often does the 56 year old man's penis get hard?  That will determine how often he should have sex.
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Who cares?  Maybe he's just thinking about getting off.  That's what I think about when I masterbate.  As long as he has sex with me and is faithful, I don't care what my hubby thinks about when he jerks off.
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Yep, get a marriage counselor.  I mean, getting into the relationship you knew ahead of time he was 17 years older and that there would come a time when your sex drives differed from each other.  This should have been taken into consideration from the start.  Just be sure to look inside yourself and find the true reason you are having issues.  Don't lie to yourself and say that you "are getting distant and there is no more sex" when part of the reason very well could be the fact that you want a man your age.
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Every time that you do it ith your spouse doesn't necessarily mean they are going to give you that wonderful orgasm.  All we can do is be there to satisfy their needs, b/c you don't want him to go elsewhere and get some now do you?  Just please your man and try your hardest to get you.
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From your question, I assume you are younger, probably in your teens. It is good to release tension, pressure, and even just to feel good about yourself. In my teens, I did it quite frequently. But like the man before me said, doing it with porn and instead of with a woman (when that is a possibility for you) will corrupt your mind. \n\nBe aware, however, that even after marriage, sometimes you "just want a quick release," and there's nothing wrong with that. It's not "cheating" or any such crap.
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no age limit on masturbation. this is a perfectly normal thing for men and women to do all through out life. No age that says you should stop masturbating. I am 20, and currently masturbate. I am single a virgin. Masturbation is a good stress reliever and a good way to keep your reproductive system clean down there. This also has proven to be helpful in preventing prostate cancer. Masturbate all you want to man.
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you married someone that gets mad if you masturbate?What a joke! she's probably masturbating herself feels guilty and tries to accuse you of doing it. I masturbate and so does my boyfriend.Its normal.
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It is as normal as possible. If u dont think about sex at this age then it is a problem. Think about sex, learn new things about sex and know more about the opposite sex. imagine to have sex in new positions. that will make you experience more thrill and satisfaction in bed to you and your partner. \nAll the best and hope u enjoy your married life.
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Some idiots will tell you it is gross, or wrong bla bla bla. Most of the world the bride is way younger than the groom. And did you know the average age of consent in the world is 16? Make you wonder why a** backwards Uncle Sam can even talk. If you are cool with Mr Sugar Daddy and he is cool with you. Why not? Maybe HE doesn't feel like a "sugar daddy" but a loving man spoiling his woman. I would. And the age of my woman would not determine how much I spoiled her. Better use what Mother Nature gave you before Father Time takes it away. And when he does he hardly gives it back. What do you want to do? Be with someone the idiots can be comfortable with because it offends them to see a hot young lady like yourself sucking face with someone they only see as "Gramps". If you date some young buck to satify them are they going to purchase for you what this older gentleman wants to buy you? I think not. I'd tell them to go take a flying f***. If you like him a lot or even love him and guilty about what he does for you, you can tell him that you do not need it or take it and donate it to a hospice or something. If you don't like or love him, but feel guilty of using him, then walk away. BUT only do it for YOU, not the idiots. When the lights are out, who can tell how old a person is? If he can get it to rise, I hardly think you can tell when its inside you if it is 20yr phallus or a 55yr old phallus. If it works, it works. enjoy it and the goodies outside the bedroom. Better to be in a Jag with an older man then driving a 15yr old bucket with some young buck who most likely will dump you when he gets bored or the next hot gal comes along.
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I started when i was 13 and am now 26. i have 3 kids and am married got a vasectomy and still masturbate all the time and im fine, so i dont think it will effect anything