why do kids want to have sexual relations before they enter high school?
550630
curiosity and increasingly relaxed rules from parents......and more on display for them to see
106218
HUGE deal...If you're teaching you're in a position of power, it doesn't matter if the student is the one who "made the first more" or not. Your judgement is being trusted by parents and school officals. If you're smart enough to teach a class, then you should be smart enough to know better than to have sex with anyone under your authority.
11322
Young ones are curious. Sex is something rare. If everyone is naked and sex is casual. We would think about clothes.
107741
Usually it is a matter of instant gratification. A great example is teen pregnancy. They'd rather have sex right then, when the opportunity presents itself, than go buy a condom and wait a week for another opportunity. Many of my moronic friends did exactly that in high school. People who are more disciplined however do not seek instant gratification, as they have learned it is short lived and has consequences.
1787
the earlier learns about sex..the more informed they will be later in life. Better prepared for life
471088
Because they want sex.  It doesn't always matter who with and they figure if they can get it from you without the attachment, then they don't have to work so hard.
424010
for girls they should only have sex after their bodies have matured "fully"( like around the age of 18 but some girls mature really faster than others). note the fully. if they have sex before the are not fully matued the tend to have a higher risk of getting cervical cancer. now for boys they could start as soon as they get it up but they u have to study bout STIs like the big truck "AIDS"....so its best u stay away till ur married
1093096
Unfortunately it is not uncommon for 13 and 14 year old girls to be sexually active. Too many young people believe that they are mature enough for sex at that age and they are not. The best thing is for both boys and girls to wait until they are adults and married before engaging in sex. They need to be taught how precious it is to be a virgin on their wedding night. That God gave us sex to be an intimate expression of love between a husband and wife, not something to do for recreation outside of marriage.
580501
Because they are still in high school.\nremember???
172620
It's taboo and secretive. It's an adult thing that the adults don't want you to know too much about. It's something that teens are starting to physically feel and want to know more about. And it doesn't help when their friends seems to know more or at least want to discuss it at length.
139792
yes it's very important that students in public schools learn about sex.  It is, however, even MORE important for the students' parents to talk to them about sex.  During their sex ed lessons, but hopefully long before.
398414
people say kids do things cos of peer pressure.  I did things cos my sister was in high school and I was in primary school. I lost my virginity at 13 cos she was doing it and I thought it was cool, same with drinking and drugs.  Kids are given too much too young and don't know how to appreciate things anymore.  As they get older they don't have anything new to experience. Plus with the shows on tv these days don't help. My mum was still playing with dolls at 14 I stopped at 11 and my friends daughter knows all about sex at 8 due to older kids tv and radio and is more interested in boys than her dolls
322330
Because sex isn't JUST for mkaing babies. It fosters pair bonds between couples.\nIf I only had sex when I wanted children then I would never have sex.\nHonestly, the sort of question you asked is the sort of thing that comes out the mouths of 10 year olds.
163624
I have actually seen documentaries of people aged 14-20 where they ask the guys questions like: Do you want your future wife to be a virgin when you marry?, Or are you comfortable marrying a girl who has slept around?, etc. and the answer over and over again has been that they would like to marry a virgin.\n\nIt seems a lot of guys want to play around sexually before marriage, but will go looking for a "clean" girl when they are serious about settling down. \n\nA lot of very sexually active girls are in for a huge shocker when they want to marry.
270778
Because today's society has made it seem like you can't have a relationship without sex. I think we've all strayed away from the days where the courting part of the relationship was the most important. People need to take time to get to know each other really well before they take the big leap to sex. Knowing each other and connecting with each other will end up making the sex better anyway.\nPlus, any time a relationship is JUST about sex, it's bound to fail.
515986
It may be the result of evolutionary psychology. In the time of our ancestors, forest was the best natural source of privacy away from the communal caves and huts that would be suspect locations of the occurrance of sex. Most of us humans desire to have sex in private. Then there is the question of why we desire to have sex in private in the first place. It is because sex is regarded as a reward for a position of status, yet it is indispensibly necessary for reproducing our genes. When sex is witnessed, it is likely to be seen as a symbol of status and/or a challenge to someone else's dominance. Even in modern times, the older generation dominates the younger generation by restricting all things sexual, and there is a mutual dominance between bound partners that forbids sex with others. Evidently we haven't come far from our australopithecine ape ancestors.
985444
Because before you lose your virginity you have a lot of sexual tension built up. Also, because it's your first time doing a new thing, it's only natural that you might see things differently.