Would it be considered SEXUAL ABUSE if you went into the bedroom and TOOK CARE OF YOURSELF,after your wifes!?
537886
Now I've heard everything! Your wife should be ashamed of herself for behaving in this manner! This is NOT abuse.
685857
Your question opened the door for religious zealots and pubescent goof-balls.\n\nThe real answer is that you should do what you believe is right. My opinion is that sex is one of the greatest gifts given to human-kind, but should not be abused. If you decide to - you should never let anyone tell you that you did wrong. Sexual experimentation is a natural part of the maturing process. Enjoy it. And if you wait - then people should respect that as well.
912883
Yes because the person abusing is breaking their marriage commitment to treat the other as Christ treated the church. Physically hurting the other violates faith that the other will protect them. Matthew 5:32 "But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for marital unfaithfulness, causes her to become an an adulteress, and anyone who marries the divorced woman commits adultery." I believe abuse falls in the unfaithfulness. Matthew 19:8 "Jesus replied, "Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning." If someone is abusing their spouse then it falls into a hardened heart and under old testament law where a divorce is allowed.
429538
Depends on your mindset.  If you think keeping several women for sex and telling them they are your one and only true love is cool, take it well.  If you think that is disgusting, be insulted.
926141
No shrink is needed. You've just gotta stop lusting over your mother in law and respect your wife. You're probably looking at porn at times when you should be enjoying that wife of yours. And if you keep masturbating your ability to please your wife sexualy for more than 2Min's will be a shock. Ever heard of the term minute man. Hope you wise up. You are not attracted to her. Is she married? Would you be asking this question if she was? You're young aren't you? Come on dude grow up!
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NO.  You can sue for information like that.  It is medical history and it is deemed confidential.  I would hope he would have told your wife if he has the STD's.  If he willing gave STD' to anyone without disclosing it.  He could be brought in for assault with a deadly weapon.  No puns here.  Should talk to her about this.
57314
Sexual abuse hmm.. there are alot of diff.percautions I can list. Try being forceful and saying NO very harshly if you've done that and they persist then it can be considered rape depending on what they are doing.Here are 4 warning signs they are a space invader,they seem distracted,he wants you alone, he wants you wasted.
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I didn't realize then, but I was abused sexually by my ex. I thought there was something wrong with ME.\n\nHe was always groping me whether I wanted to or not, even in front of our children. \n\nOf course there was more things, but whether being abused sexually or physically, I'm glad I'm out of his clutch.
891426
I think it would be more difficult than anyone would imagine. What if all the wives are in a bad mood? Pissed off at you? Pregnant? Fighting with eachother? Sounds pretty horrible for the guy if you ask me.
1156613
You probably feel ashamed because of how you were raised.  I believe that single people should masturbate to their hearts content as long as they are not doing it in public. Now I guess I am a hypocrite because I feel that while you are married you should only masturbate with your partners permission. I know this sounds weird but I think that is something two people who are in a commited relationship should discuss.
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I can only speak for myself. First of all...probably only my husband could get away with it as it is deeply personal and puts you in a very vulnerable place...but it is the idea of giving control up and being taken care of that would turn me on about being tied up...but the whole whips and stuff are not sexy to me so it is not about pain or being abused...it is just the age old concept of being swept off on a white horse and being overwhelmed by masculinity (did I just say this out loud!) There is a caution in this...women also want to be equals with men and respected and treated like they have a brain and can use it... but there is this oxymoron in us that also likes to be taken care of...at least emotionally.
1089212
get laid for real just to see if it was really that good? i mean if this isn't real then i don't want to be woken up because my wife is great in bed
481580
I wouldn't like it to be honest. I'm not against porn, but I would be very upset if my husband was turned on by other chicks, especially if he went to a strip joint. I only agree to porn and stuff if they just look, but don't get turned on by that person. I am happy to look at porn together. Your wife needs to show you some respect! I would never do that to my husband. I wouldn't even get the urge to do something like that. Not if I'm in love.
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If anyone makes a sexual move on you without your consent, whether it is boyfriend or husband, it is sexual abuse. It may even be considered rape in the right circumstances. \n\nIt is big. It is disrespect at it's lowest form and a felony at it's highest form
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If my husband ever treated me with that much disrespect that would cause a lot of problems. We don't HAVE to check in with one another but we choose to because it is respectful so that there is no worries or confusion. \n\nGrow up!
663954
According to the Christian religion it is wrong. Jesus said specifically not to say any bad words without a qualification that being in the bedroom is ok. Now, we have a free will but He said not to do it.
495011
It can be psychologically harmful, but not physically. Being a good lover requires great self control during sex. When you are alone, you are not focused on the most important thing, which is giving pleasure to your wife. This bad habit carries over into marriage and is hard to break.