My friend is marring a jerk should I go to her wedding?
547183
Yes because you have already explained to her how you feel. Going is just supporting her....You can't choose who she marries. All you can do is be there for her when the going gets rough....My thought is she doesnt have any self esteem so just be there for her. That includes going to her wedding.
330915
the honorable thing to do is to let your friend have him, the smart thing to do is let your friend have him. if he is a jerk you will know and if he treats her bad then you know to stay away from him. and at your age in a couple weeks she'll dump him anyways right? so dont worry about it! this actually works to your advantage. just be Patient.
1120622
Talk to your friend and let her know how you feel about her behavior. Maybe just distance yourself from her if she's not interested in changing. Talk to your pastor and ask for guidance in the meantime all you can do is pray for her. \nI wouldn't tell my husband or her husband. It will only make matters worse and make you look like the bad guy.
263795
TELL HER YOU DON'T GIVE A FU*CK WHAT SHE THINKS AND THAT YOU ARE GETTING MARRIED TO YOUR MAN. AND THEN IF SHE DOESN'T WANT TO GET TO LIKE OR KNOW YOU WELL THE HE*LL WITH HER YOU DON'T GIVE A FU*CK. I MEAN DAM*N HOW MUCH OF A BI*TCH DOES SHE HAVE TO BE. TELL HER TO GO FU*CK SOME DI*CK AND CHILL OUT AND STOP BEING A BI*TCH. MY HUSBANDS MOM WAS LIKE HER SHE ALWAYS HAD HIM MAD AND WHEN HE GETS MAD HE IGNORES EVERYONE FU*CK I DIDN'T DO SH*IT. SHE WILL JUST KEEP GETTING HIM PISSED OFF ALL DAY! TELL YOUR MAN THAT EITHER SHE STOPS BEING THE WAY SHE IS TO YOU OR YOU GO AND IF YOU LOVE ME YOU WILL TELL HER TO STOP THAT WETHER SHE LIKES IT OR NOT YOU ARE GETTING MARRIED TO HIM AND THAT'S IT!!!!!!
934163
You could be blunt! Tell her you feel unconfortable when she does this.. and that your happily married. Then point out how would she feel if everytime(old ugly whats his name) did that to her,,, how would she feel?
745768
Your friend just creates negativity in your life, you've done your part and she will never change her mind.  You should leave her alone and make friends with more intelligent people.
310441
Wow! I am kind of in the same situation and the only advice I can give is to take care of yourself first. I can see how there may be disappointment but if you can't go then you can't go. Best friends, even just good friends, should be able to understand something like that. Maybe she just needs a few days to get over it and then she will be ok. If you have explained the situation to her, and apologized, then that is really all you can do. You can't jeopardize a dream job and your livelihood for one day at a wedding. You can be there in heart, but don't risk it with a new job. People can go downhill fast if they lose even a week of work. The best thing to do is take care of yourself first. You won't be much good at a wedding if you are worried about your own personal issues, and employment is what enables people to be able to survive in most issues. Good Luck!
508672
They really should not get mad unless you are married. If you are married then leave the friend and stick by your wife. If you are dating and she is jealous that is a sign that she is not the girl for you. Move on!
1031955
I hate to say it, but this is one argument that you're not going to win. The fact is, this was her wedding. She shouldn't have made you uncomfortable during your stay, but by the same token, you could have made other arrangements if it wasn't comfortable for you. And you did agree to be her maid of honor, something that you either could have turned down, or split with another bridesmaid. It's not unheard of to do this. \n\nIt probably wasn't an issue of punishment, more an issue of first come, first served, and you would have kicked someone else out of a bed. \n\nWhat it comes down to, it was her wedding. That means that she is going to be in the right in her mind, no matter what you say. My suggestion, leave this out of the equation when you talk to her. She'll just get defensive and you'll look petty. Take some time away from her. If your friendship will survive, it will happen in spite of this. Eventually, and if someone else brings it up, she will probably understand what she did was wrong. \n\nLet her make the decision about "de-friending". By asking the question, you've already made up your mind. It's not something that you can just choose to do; feelings aren't that temporal. If there are issues, they'll come from a long ways off. See if time and distance will help, and see if she's making any movements towards reconciling. You may need her later to throw you a party!\n\nGood luck!
228663
dont be her friend anymore. if she has not reason for being a Bitch to you. then ditch her.
1026326
I would just talk to her. I have been friends with one girl for many years and we started to grow apart and i just talked to her about it and now im going to her wedding and im going to be her sons godmother. never give up on true friendship
1187801
This friend of yours is not a good person. She is definitely simply leeching out favours from others. Just leave her, don't talk to her. She'll definitely come back for more assurance. I think she needs some counseling.
826075
There is nothing you can or should do about their decision to get married or them expecting a child. What's done is done, and now they're trying to deal with things in a responsible way. They're trying to do what they think is right and they're probably having a hard enough time already with those important life events and decisions without people making it worse by interfering. You should be a good friend, wish them all the best and don't judge them or give them a hard time over this, they're having enough of that already without you adding to the stress. Be supportive. You can do that without agreeing with what's going on. Don't let your friend down. It's their life.
852874
WHAT!!!\nHow can she tell u off for dancing with her best friends if shes getting a$s slapped by random guys!! easy or what!! she doesnt deserve you mate. DUMP HER. you deserve waaaay better.
24943
You can't, if you are worried about hurting feelings because of who you don't invite, then  just go elope.  That's what I'd do, it's your day, not thiers.
1127334
He's  a jerk, accept it now and move on.  \n\nHE WILL NOT CHANGE ONCE YOU MARRY HIM.
494733
THAT IS NOT A FRIEND!!!AND CERTAINLY NOT WORTHY OF BEING BEST ANYTHING.I WOULD CALL THAT A S**T STARTER.GET RID OF HER BEFORE SHE REALLY HURTS YOUR FEELINGS.IF AN APOLOGY WASN"T GOOD ENOUGH,THEN THAT IS HER PROBLEM.WITH FRIENDS LIKE THAT,YOU DON'T NEED ENEMIES.