GUYS: How can I get this guy to like me? I'm 13 so if you think I'm too young to have a bf then dont answer!!
535643
Again with this ?, your too young, where are you parents? Someone needs to moniter your computer usage, you need to focus of school and friends, not guys.
1106161
he seems kind of young...and the girl is even YOUNGER!!!   Let him grow before he gets put into such a situation....If by chance, if he is rejected, he wouldn't be able to handle it that well being so young....Let him grow....then you won't need to worry about protecting him....a 13 year old should have other interests besides girls....He is wayyyyyyyyyy too young...My two sons are men now....they were raised w/ me advising them to wait for romance....they took the advise...And they are both very happy....dating so young can lead to early pregnancy umong other probs...
961155
first think about why you would want to "get" a boy who you say doesn't like you!  if he doesn't already see you for the fine, cool chick you are, and chances are he has had enough opportunities, phooey on him!!  i would next say to find a boy who wants to get to know you and shares interests with you, but first and foremost you don't NEED a boy, you need to be happy with yourself.  then, the boys will flock to you:)
519410
Well,\nWhat you don't know is that most young boys will fall head over heels for you if you just give them a long look in the eyes.\nGirls are usually so much more mature then boys.\nMost boys like any and all girls that give them a smile.\nThey are not as selective as girls.\nAt your age it might be better to just be friends with a large group of people that you are comfortable.\nYou will know when a boy likes you, perhaps, even before he does!\nGo slow. Have fun. Respect yourself. Learn who you are and what you want. Never settle.\nLook for a boy that puts you and your needs first.
887762
I know what it's like to be 13 years old and desperately want a boyfriend. Everyone else my age had a bf, but I never had one cause I was always the *fat girl*. I never had my first bf til I was 17, and then it was a total disaster.\n\nI do not ever suggest having a relationship when you are in school, because it takes away from your grades at school. \n\nIf you want someone to go to school dances with, just go with a group of friends and have fun. You don't need a boy to have fun.\n\nYou probably want someone who you can hug and kiss and be affectionate with, someone who will spend time with you and show you lots of attention. But at 13, it's real hard to find that. Because that kind of commitment takes maturity..and you will not be finding any 13 year old boy who is mature enough to meet your needs, and show you the attention you deserve. \n\nBut if you go for someone older then there will be the possibility that they just use you cause you are young and naive. So my suggestion for you is to forget about having a relationship right now and just enjoy hanging out with your friends.\n\nFriends are better than relationships.
402170
Be honest with him. Let him know that you appreciate and are flattered by him wanting to be your bf however, I like you only as a friend and nothing more.  We could be friends if you would like??  This way the damage is minimal and you let him know that you appreciate his offer.
313050
You mean "caucasian." Anyway, you are 12 and you're too young to date. Guys your age are only after one thing, so don't even bother. Wait until you are older to date, i'd say 18. You can flirt, maybe go on dates, movies, kiss a little but don't go falling head over heels for every good looking guy. Take it easy. Focus on school work hehe :) How do you choose a guy? how about you choose zero, zilch, nada, nothing! trust me, you don't need a boyfriend now. When I was your age I never wanted a boyfriend because I knew they only wanted sex and wanted to have fun then break my heart so I chose not to get involved with any at all and now I am 21 and have a great b/f. Even grown men take a long time to mature lol, how can a young one like 13 grow up?? They want fun and you will only be just that. I'm not trying to get in your case but wait ok, and be patient!! Don't date, don't do anything you will regret; your reputation is on the line and once it's screwed up it cannot be fixed. You are probably an 8th or 9th grader. No boys needed. Chill with your female friends. Ciao.
34553
just go out and say it.  Don't be afraid because he might tell you off.  But some advice: If he is just good looking, don't go for it, he is probably a jerk.  But if he is a nice, caring person, go ahead, he won't dump you in a harsh way.  And if he dumps you, don't get discouraged.  It may seem like the end of the world, I know, but you will be back on your feet in no time.  I am a male 13 year old, and I know I wouldn't just dump someone if they asked me out.
471446
ofcourse why not make sure its just you and him talking dont tell him infront of his friends and make sure you ask him how he feels about you if he likes you dont ask him out straight out just say to him - i like you alot what do you think about me?? goodluck and remember if he says no its not the end of the world hun there will be plenty more boys for you goodluck
912863
you can't FORCE him to like you.  If you keep at him about going past your friendship relationship you're going to end up losing that as well.\n\nIf you only want a boyfriend for the sake of having a boyfriend...look elsewhere.  He's said no twice...that should be a pretty obvious answer as to how he feels about dating you!
714421
i'm a tom boy and i always seem to get a lot of guys, be a little flirty but subtle and not obvious, be a really nice and respectful person, be their friend and flirt so they know there's room for more than friendship, i love having guy friends so work on that first.  You've got to be confident cause that what attracts them, if you act like all you want is a bf then you're not going to find the right one.
94567
Im guessing youre a young girl.\n\nFlirt with him like, find some way to touch his arm or something. or like, tell him he is funny. Boys love that.\nAlso , smile at him a lot. Look at him - hold his gaze for a second or two,look away..then look back and smile.\nif hes still looking, thats how you know he likes you back.\n\nI could help you more if I knew your age. Im sorry..\n\nBest of luck!
894366
you dont say how old you are, but i guess you're young so i would say just be yourself and dont feel pressured to have a boyfriend. when its right you will know and things will just flow with the right person without you having to try hard. So just see how it goes and then you can decide if he is the right guy for you or if you are ready for a relationship. good luck
438485
Hey, yea this guy may like you, but he wants to be sure whether u like him or not.But hes 14 so he may be immature. Give him a few hints about your feelings and watch out for eye contact between him and other girls whom he is nice to.
2870
8th grade, huh?  That makes you about 12 or 13.  Hmm, I can give you an answer from the standpoint of someone about 10 yrs older...but I don't think that's what you really want.  To be brief and to the point, find a guy you like and want to be with because of who he is and not because you want ppl to envy you and your boyfriend.  If you do like I say, ppl will envy you because you're with someone you want to be with because of who he is and what you'll have together.  If that doesn't make someone envy you then I'm as far removed from the human race as humans are to ants.  Btw, don't flaunt someone like you're talking about...you'll quickly find that you don't have that person for very long if he's really a nice guy.
231438
How early is early? I dont think it's an age thing, but more a maturity thing. If a girl is mature enough to be in a relationship, then by all means. But I know of 20 year olds who are very uncertain about what they want, and have low self esteem, and i would think that maybe they shouldnt be in a relationship just yet. \n\nWhat is your focus? what is important to you? Throughout most of my teens, i simply did not want a boyfriend. My focus was academics and hanging with my friends. No one in my close circle of friends had a bf, but that didnt mean none of us wanted one. For those who did persue a guy, it was just about experimentation. It most likely would never lead to something long lasting. Remember, it's an experiment for the girl as well as the guy. \n\nBut there are some people whose focus is on being in a relationship. Whether this is through peer pressure, what is fed to us and emphasized on the media, or simply believing that being in a relationship can make you happy... i dont know. \n\nThe best time to be in a relationship (something that may become long term), is when you know yourself. When you know what you stand for. When people are young, particularly during the teenage years, they are continuosly discovering things about themself. It's the whole "identity crisis" "searching for yourself" thing. It is my beleif that if you have a bf before you have this kind of self knowledge and confidence, it can stunt your personal growth. \n\nThis is becuase you are interacting intimately with one person. Their views and prejudices eaily become your own. And instead of taking time for yourself, you have to share it with this other person. To be influenced by many people is better than being influenced by one person. With many peeople you get many more ideas and views and you can sort it out in your head, and realise what it is you really desire, what you like, what you believe in.\n\nI'm not saying that b/c you're with a guy, your not going to be around other people. It just means you are more likey to bend your thinking and your ideas to what the guy finds acceptable, or what are his tastes. \n\nI find that this is not likely to happen if a girl's personal development reaches a particular point. I can't describe exactly what this point is, but it usu results in mature thinking, decision making. Using your own mind rather than relying on others. other people think of you as mature.\n\nAnd as is likely to happen, when (or if) the relationship ends, the girl is thrown in a quandry, of wondering what to do, and questions everything about herself and is depressed for months. But if she has a strong sense of self, this low period does not last very long, and she is able to move on quickly.\n\nAlso, (i think) self assuredness and a strong personality, is something that is attractive to guys (is this true guys?)
959422
I would just conveniently make yourself be around him and let him get to know you... if it's meant to be then you guys will get together.. if it's not .. well, there are alot of hott guys out there ;) i've learned one thing with relationships.. either the love is there or it's not!! Good Luck with him :D