does the one who hurt feel hurt about it?
548113
I don’t think so, otherwise they would not hurt you from the beginning, but eventually they’re paid back with something that really gets to them and hurts them just as much.
347142
Well, if you tell him, I hope you will also honestly tell him that you genuinely feel bad about it.  What you did was hurtful and he's probably going to be hurt when you tell him.
111638
It really depends on the person. I know thats a shitty answer but its the only true answer. Most guys i would have to say no, they dont really care whether they hurt anyone as long as they get what they want. Woman would probably care more so that guys would. But like i said it really depends on the person. One person might feel horrible for hurting someone where someone else might not care at all.
469745
not unless you think it will work between the two of you. if you care and he's your friend wouldn't you feel awful for leading him on and hurting him? maybe you just think of him like a brother or something.
1102121
The pain of trusting someone or vice/versa,will always remain in the heart,only time will heal the pain but u will never forget being hurt yourself most,but that is only my answer,I have been there and its been a yr now and the trust hasn't came back yet,so really its up to the individual.
372145
If you love someone, Let them go if they return they was yours if they don't they never was. I believe in this whole heartedly. I wouldn't want someone making me feel guilty just because I didn't feel the same way they did. You can not control how you feel. And if you get hurt then you still have to go on. And that doesn't mean that you don't still Love that person. You just can't tell them everyday.(at least not outloud). Just don't hate that person.Because he/she can't help how they feel either.
4999
Figure out what insecurity is within you that makes you worry so much about somebody else. And if it's just a distaste for this person, be honest about it and she'll go away. A little hurt feelings is a lot more efficient than suffering through something because you're uncomfortable. And she'll get over it.
570470
Did you know all this before getting involved with that person? If so I can image he does feel that way. If not than maybe the love wasn't as strong as you thought. You can only do what you feel you can................
824099
it doesnt hurt to tell her. she might feel the same way
632820
awww,,, did someone hurt your feelings.
833327
Anyone that tells you that love doesn’t hurt has never been truly in love.\n\nLove hurts even when everything is going good.  Even when you’re right there with them or there just in the next room and you just think of them it hurts deep in side but this is a good kind of hurt because you’re connected to that person.\n\nLove hurts especially when things aren’t going well.  I guess because when we open up and become vulnerable to that person we also open ourselves to being hurt.  When we really love someone we are connected to them and when they hurt we hurt but when they hurt us it hurts all the more.\n\nLove can really suck sometimes but stick with it there are always ups and downs to love.
332833
No-one feels great when they are hurting and no-one seems to notice or care.  What I learned many many years later is that I need to be responsible for my feelings and not let others rule how I feel.  If I am hurt, what is it that I need and how do I get that need met in a positive way.  Once I started focusing on what I needed in a positive way, the chances of my really being hurt by others rarely came up for me.
961033
was she hurt? if not she should let it go.
247342
does he deserves to b a boy friend wen he hurts the feeling of the one whom  he loves the most ? \nhey ........ this was just one side of a coin \n may be this is the way he expresses his love . \nhave a talk with him and clear it out and by the way love is like this . it has to have some knick -knacks
229869
That's exactly what happens to me with a close friend of mine.. \nso i've been thinking about it hard lately .. esp after i tried every way with her.. i talked to her about it many times .. i got mad at her.. i forgave her a thousand times.. so the last thing i decided was to tell her for the last time the way i hate it when she does things that hurt my feelings and told her that now she knows what bothers me and that im not gona talk to her or call her until she thinks deeply about it and realizes that i really get hurt and make sure she wont do it again and is ready to change the way she treats me in order for the past not to repeat itself
718988
it depends if anyone was hurt by it
1090028
yes, you hurt him but not intentionaly. So tell him that he is the only whom you love.