How can i cure my urge to masturabte! help me plz?
541735
Tie your hands behind your back.
1115270
You may want to stop though I know it's not that simple. It takes a lot of self control. Try thinking about other things or do exercises when you get those kinds of feelings. God's word says your body is a temple and that you should honor God with your body(1 Corithians 6:18). this may be the reason you feel so dirty after the act. Pray for stength and just keep buisy with other things to occupy your mind :)
1084033
I was once told in the clearest possible terms that I had to stop masturbating. Normally I wouldn't have worried but this urgent advice came from my very own doctor!\n\n"Oh, come on, doc!" I said. "I have to give up masturbation? Why? Don't give me all that nonesense about pimples, blindness, hairs on the palms ... "\n\n"It's nothing to do with that." he said. "It's just that you're upsetting the other people in my waiting room."
166385
Pray about it and ask the Lord to help you through and He will. He has helped me with that exact same problem. Try to ask other brothers in Christ to hold you accountable. Stay away from places that are stumbling blocks that would cause the sexual urges, avoid internet pornography.
836523
Well, is a really interesting question.\nI think I'm not the right person to answer you but yeah I have study sexuality a lot cuz is something I really like. So I know that Masturbate has to be EXPLORE YOURSELF so change the way you masturbate, touch yourself, and try to get a clytoris orgasm with out penetrating nothing into the vagina. just try to make yourself horny ... \nmmmm i hope you understand me.\nand also i hope i could help you.
337164
Get a girlfriend who will pamper your fetish. Go to spa's for vacations, Buy exercise DVDs or videos. Enroll in exercise classes.If it is becoming a fixation to the point of ignoring responsibilities and maintaining a healthy social life then you need to get counseling. Otherwise enjoy.
1106145
You just need to build up your self control. When ever you get..."urges"... try to think about something else or buisy yourself by doing something like exercises or go for a walk. I know the temtation is hard to over come but with time it works. Praying for strength might help too ;)
568629
Yes that certainly is a problem and unfortunately there is no solution. That is something you are just going to live with but masturbation has nothing to do with it. Good luck!
899594
masturbation is a normal function.  you must feel guilty about it after you do it.  u probably enjoy the masturbation, but not the feelings that go with it.  masturbation usually has good effects, as it reduces anxiety and stress.  you need to talk to a mental health professional such as a psychologist to explore your feelings towards masturbation.  don't be ashamed by your masturbation it is a normal function   the only time it can be a problem, is when it interferes with your social life say, that you would rather stay home and watch porno all the time, and do not want to go out and meet other people on a social, or sexual level. if you feel you are masturbating obsessively, that is usually caused by stress and anxiety.  counseling would help.  don't worry a lot of people have issues about masturbation,  you are not alone.  if there are, religious beliefs, about masturbation causing you this distress, don't worry about that.  my belief is that it is a god given gift, and part of human nature to masturbate, and not a sin.  hope this helps you good luck
1093319
Stop thinking about the action of masterbating and think about the most arousing things that turn u on...from there hold your pelvis tight as if you are holding your "pee" and this should intensify the feeling. Then get lost with yourself and your fantisy and you should have one by then.  If you get it done right you'll probably be doing it twice a day.. go try!
954046
Hi, This is Bhanu. Me too have the same doubt 2 years before, and I got the answer at that time, and i followed the principle, and now I am happy each and every minute.\n\nThat is nothing but, if u want to be happy every minute, u do what u got in mind, for suppose if u want to eat something, then go and eat that thing without thinking abt anything.\n\nIf u want to hear anything, just go and listen , forget abt all the things,like this way u do anything , wht do u got in ur mind.\n\nThen u will be followed by happiness. This is one of the true kind of happiness.\n\nAnd if u have a doubt, that if u saw a girl and u like her, for example u want to have sex with her, just think of her, and mastrubate , or u may get her opinion on u , and if it is possible, u can make love her, otherwise, just mastrubate.\n\nOk dude, enjoy life , with what thought u got in the mind right at the moment.
284678
This might give you more insight in a religious sense and matter.  http://www.religioustolerance.org/masturba.htm\n\nI think what your doing is alright as long as your not lusting at another person.
680446
the best thing I can tell you to do is to find something else to distract you (like the fear of failure). But seriously, I don't think you should act on your urges; just do something else while you're studying like work out or listen to music...that way you can keep your mind off women and sex, better still, study with somebody else...that way if your mind wanders they can stop you and quiz on the material...best of luck on your exam
900944
LOL masturbating won't make you fat. And doing it 3 or 4 times a week isn't really that much unless you take a day or more each time to reach orgasm.\n\nBeing overweight is a problem in today's generations but it is more from improper food being eaten, too much idleness and a general malaise in the early years.\n\nSo, keep masturbating but join a gym or take up swimming and get lots of exercise daily,  Also move to eating a lot of fresh foods instead of prepackaged meals, cut down on starches (potatoes, rice, pasta and white bread), drink lots of water (not pop or sweetened beverages) adn just generally get out and have an active life through work, school, social activities, sports and whatever you can drum up to do.\n\nNo, you won't lose the weight overnight but by establishing a good solid and pleasant routine you will gradually tone up and feel better.  And who knows, maybe being fitter will give you the energy to masturbate daily.
83559
Take every day a hot bath and move slowly your skin up and down. Pull it every time a little bit further. Do this for a few weeks. This way you can slowly stretch the skin and day-by-day you can get the skin more further over the top of the penis. Keep repeating this until it goes easier.\nIf this doesn’t work, than I think you should visited the doctor. Maybe you need a little cut in the skin. There are many other boys with the same problem. Don’t feel sham. \n\nIf your penis is red and irritated my advice will be: go to the doctor too. \nBut I can understand if you don’t feel comfortable to go,  so try this first. Because if you can’t move your skin you probably never wash it. This way he become dirty. That is why he is so red and irritated. \nIf you can’t wash it try this:\nWhile sitting in bath(no soap), pull you skin like you make you penis longer. Open the skin and let the water go in, close the skin and massage now the water what you hold in the top of your penis. Let the water go out and repeat. This way the dirt can get out. Do this a couple of times for one week. If you do it good, you will see it become less irritated. If it does so keep going on until it is not irritated anymore, but if NOT, please for your own good go to the doctor.\nGood luck
661004
Try using KY-Jelly when your jerking it as you called it. You can buy it at any pharmacy.
674077
Why do you hate masturbation, if this works for you then i would continue to masturbate and enjoy a nice sleep.  It is a perfectly natural thing to do there is nothing dirty or bad about it - so if you have not got a partner who can assist you with lovemaking then pleasure yourself, enjoy the moment and then enjoy a good nights rest.