I found out my GF has gonads. What should i do, I mean she lied to me.?
538738
love those nads or leave those nads
408965
Don't worry about it. It is not your problem. It is your girlfriends if she believes it. But not your problem.
409273
Nothing to do about your penis, but maybe wear something that doesn't expose it, and see how she feels then. if all ehse fails, get another gf.
1063049
She feels bad about not being able to perform for you.  But if you actually did sleep with someone else, she'd never forgive you.  It's a tough one.  Go with her to her doctor.
567359
OFcause you must tell your finance`. You love her and therefore cant start your marriage on a lie.\n\nLove is a very strong thing and you can suggest to her that you both can go together and see a doctor and see what he says.\n\nYou should know your finance`. dont you think she would be upset if you cant even trust her with something like this?\n\nGod Bless you\nTammy
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No man or women should have to feel doubt when it comes to love. You cant enjoy the wondering about that. im sorry but it seems like maybe she hinted to you that she doesnt want you any more. some women dont see men for the brains that they have. and if she found out you lied.. well you know.
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This is coming from someone who has been around the block a time or two. Do not tell you girlfriend. She will find out on her own. Mind your own business and let her work it out for herself. Be there to comfort her and listen to her when and if she chooses to let you know what is going on, but by no means should you advise her what to do, or let her know it is happening. Women have a "gut" feeling about those things, and if it is something she can not work out with her boyfriend, then she is put into an embarrassing position of knowing that you know about it. Keep it to yourself. Keep her confidence and do not discuss it. It is by far the kindest thing you could do for her.  I lost my best girlfriend that way, and I thought I was being loving and kind toward her.
888693
Tell her the truth, otherwise you are going to get hurt like there is no tomorrow. A woman hates liars, especially ones who make a habit of it. So for your own safety, tell her the truth.
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if ur lien 2 ur gurl n yet she doesnt care, that means that she really cares 'bout u.n that a lil wyte lie aint gonna mess up ur relationship...although thats not gonna last 4eva. so start tellin her dah truth, its better than havin a hole in ur relationship...
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Not likely,see the links attached, I am sorry this is really messed up, but if you know you did not cheat on him..... and you know you did not have it before him...Well you do the math - numbers do no lie..\nQuestion: Has he been tested if my GF came down with something I would want to be tested. They could tell who had it longer by who's case is more advanced. -- Bottom line you can't just ignore this. You have to get treatment.
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mitr says.... don't leave everything on fate... you have to go out and say her boldly... if you don't say it now, it might be too late for you to say something... she at present doesn't have a bf and also she has been cheated.. it will nto be easy for her to rely on a guy so soon.... but since she knows you from  a long time back, she is definitely going to consider you...\ndon't make her feel that you are coming to her just because of sympathy to what has happened to her... tell her that you had and always will love only a single girl in your life and that is her...\nmake her feel special... give her importance... give her priority.... \ndo something that will make her feel strongly for you... do something so that she actually remembers you 24X7.... it should be a real good one buddy, no matter how crazy it is... \nmitr says... lovers comeout witj some crazy ideas to make their beloved happy... use your imagination and get her.... ... no gains without pain.. you have to tell her about your feelings for her and that too fast.........\ngood lock....
446543
get over it already and call her. if she says no what have you lost? and if she says yes, well good for you!\nevery man dies, but not every man lives. live a little
531789
wow-- u sould like a great guy, i wish i had a guy like you. I think she cant believe what she has. Maybe she is taking a break to find out what she has is true. Dont ignor her, just give her time. dont call her, dont do anything. wait for her to gather her thoughts. and she will come back, she will realize what she has. Did she say y she broke up with you? I know its hard, and we have all gone through it, just give her time... time heals. dont call her.
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What you did was the right thing to do, expect the reaction you got from her because that is normal too. Now all you have to do is sit her down and tell her that you need to talk. Tell her that what you said was true, even though she chooses not to believe you, tell her that it hurt you that you were honest with her and she turned against you, that she's letting this guy come between  what you thought was a friendship. Tell her you don't appreciate being bad mouthed by her, (especially if your friends) because she chose not to believe you and that the only person that is missing out is her. She messed a friendship up and has a cheating boyfriend too. She looks like the weak one, because your not the only one that knows, if you saw it it other people have also. And ask her what kind of friend she is. Maybe not the kind you want. After that if your not friends then she's not worthy enough to be in your presence. Find a new friend.
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You're not a horrible person. You're simply a liar. Which is an indication of one or two things. 1. You care enough about her to spare her feelings and you like her enough to be what she wants you to be or..2. You're just trying to turn her out. If you lied because you really like her then she may be understanding and if not then she may be really hurt and disappointed. I was once in this situation and I forgave him because I understand that most guys don't feel the same way about sex that I do and at least he cared about what I thought. Believe it or not some women understand that some men lie because they care. As sick as that sounds. Its not rt but in your situation if that's what you did then it probably won't affect the relationship because I'm sure she wasn't expecting an angel.
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Look-\n\nThere have already been suggestiond about her infidelity and lack of a healthy relationship and that you should dump her. No. If you love this girl, you cannot do that yet. On reading the detail of this question, I got the impression that there is something to hide, but its something personal and its affecting her self-confidence in being able to get intimate with you. saying "F*ck it" was probably not advisable if you are to gain her confidence on you; that is what you need to do. Yes, perhaps you do nto have a healthy relationship, simply because there is a lack of communication towards each other. I mean her asking you whether she stunk should be clear enough. She's neverous about sex because she's worried about something to do with maybe her hygiene, health problems or just general confidence. Women go through much of the latter. Be supportive, and let her know that you're there for her, and slowly, with help through communication, get to the root of all of this. \n\nI really doubt she's cheating. And don't give up on her. \n\nGood luck.
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sorry to hear that both of you started the relationship on deceptive terms.  she's being a hipocrit.  and I know you say you love her, but why would you want to be with someone that has cheated and lies.  trust is the foundation of any relationship, without that you have nothing.  you will be in the relationship always having questions about this that or the other.  to much stress and not being happy.  keep looking for something better.  good luck