Are You Dominant or Submissive?
539541
It depends on my mood.  Sometimes I want to be the one in charge and my guy loves that.  But sometimes I just want to see what he likes to do.  I think I am more submissive than dominant.....
526329
I tend to like dominant MEN....err...in the bedroom....like throw me down and TAKE IT!!!  LMFAO
591412
I have a bf like this and it is very liberating for me to be on the other side. But it is only role playing and I definitely like for him to be controlling too. I have had orgasms doing it and it is about the domination I believe. He loves it. What ever two consenting adults want they should have..Live and let live....
567968
Of course! You are in control of your own body. Better yet...do it with your partner.
297633
For many, it isn't about choice. Its about an innate need. It is hard (for me at least) to describe or explain the feelings. I am submissive, I crave domination. It's something I have felt since the age of 14.
1165677
take control and be confident
491491
Both. I love your pic.
435682
The mood and setting determines what happens. Letting my girl take charge sometimes makes it more exciting and does not undermine my authority. It's like relaxing on the passenger seat while she drives as the situation warrants.
1092578
ME!!! I rule my house and a mans house is his castle , and the man that rules the castle is a king, so that's ME !!!.\nMy castle has a queen and a princess ( my wife and daughter )\nI even have a throne in my castle, ( it's in the bath-room )
346220
Hum, well that is an interesting question. I also enjoy a good spanking especially when I have been naughty, and I often sexually harass myself, and I enjoy my warm wet places. do you think we are the same person?
785617
Many women are recesive, an dont like to be controlled by men, on the other hand some women like to be dominate and controll instead of being controlled. So yes some women like men who are demanding and controlling. But when you ask this question you have to ask yourself.......in what ways are you demanding ???
540093
Your question is very complex. I'll try to make the answer simple.\nFirst, I'm rather a BD (bondage/domination) than a SM (Sado-Masochism). The first problem is that BDSM mixes too many fetishes. Type BDSM in Yahoo!, and you'll get answers that go from classy esthetical and sophisticated bondage and fetish games to highly degrading and pervert stuff. Rather confusing.\nIf you stick to BDSM as an intelligent and creative sex game, in which playing dominant or sub brings a lot of intellectual pleasure, then I'm definately a big fan (and lucky enough to play such games in real life). When bondage and domination are seen as an art, it's really something interesting.\nOf course, the stereotypical images that you mention are pretty funny. Like the guys calling them "Master" or "Lord", who should know better that the sub is in fact giving the tone of any good "session".\nI don't know what you mean with the "functions in modern society". It seems in fact that our society is getting more and more fetish oriented (see Jennifer Garner in Alias, or movies such as Underworld...). So I guess fetish oriented people play a role in society, as they always did.\nThe only thing I hope is that all the people who are interested in such games, you maybe, will find the right partner. And that rather than trying to respect so-called BDSM rules, they live BDSM as something that makes their life better. As long as there is respect and love, it's all fine.\nHope this helps! (English is not my mother langage, so I hope I was clear!)\nLove and Kisses from France
168504
ican get slightly submissive when he doesn't step up to the plate, but i would prefer the man to take charge... not really into the S&M thing though...
1090744
In the past I have been, but not right now. I discovered my dominant side as I developed and experimented sexually. As I tried new and different things I developed in that direction finding it very fulfilling. Some pleasures I first saw modeled in porn and then just tried them. Along the way I was lucky to meet some women who had tendencies as subs who made me comfortable with my drives and who fueled my cravings. I never had to work very hard at persuading them to participate -- they were eager to experiment. The more extreme stuff we fantasized about and talked about at length before doing. And once we did it we never regretted it. I know that because everything was done multiple times. The key to the bdsm relationship and lifestyle is to admit the interest, talk about it with your partner(s), fantasize about it at length (and talk some more), then start doing stuff that the players all agree to do. Obviously it takes trust and I believe it takes time. It's not for everyone, and most important, not every kind of pleasure will be enjoyed by everyone. That's ok. Just be honest. I've had partners who almost cum at the thought of being fisted or swallowing pee; and others who couldn't imagine doing those things but craved being blindfolded and tied up ... no judgments; just remember everyone has different tastes and that's ok.
43386
If you're not a player, you might be called a number of things, depending on what other personality traits you have(i.e. gentleman vs. jerk).  Scientifically speaking, you'd be monogamous (meaning you have one partner).
187915
I love when my husband is aggressive and I enjoy the submissive role as well... every now and then we'll switch it up!
339933
Personally I love a dominant lady. I really get turned on by bossy women, particularly if they use handcuffs and a whip, and are dressed in leather, latex and/or PVC.\n\nSo you could when she is dark and stormy!