i have been going out with my boyfriend for 2months and sometimes i cant help but be nasty to him whats wrong?
549888
Most cases it usually has something to do with repressed anger. Is something in your life making you angry or is there something that you have not been able to get over? Most times, the people we take our anger out on are the ones we feel safest doing so with or to. IF you get nasty, and don't know why, tell him so. Maybe he can help you figure out what is bothering you. Be open and honest and sincerely apologetic for being nasty with him, or you may just run him off!!!!
567629
No it isn't wrong. If you dont wanna be around someone who does that then break up with him and find someone who is clean.
545135
trying new things u know getrting freaky with one anothere even if its seems naty try u never know untill u have tried.\nand besides what u wont do to please him another bitch will and ull end up loseing ur mate.
163007
i know the feeling, it sucks! we've been together for 5 yrs now & im secretly apologizing to him at the back of my mind... take your time to listen to whatever it is that's bothering you right now, a little time off perhaps,so you can figure it out? \nlife is too short for slip ups in relationships. at least you won't be where im at cuz it really sucks!
242428
Sweety love hurts, but it is not good to stay in an unhealthy relationship. If you are pouring out you heart to this guy and he gives you the opposite treatment, Why stay? Why be with someone that treats you bad? You deserve better. You need to realize that you are a beautiful person inside and out and you deserve much more than you are getting. You are probably afraid to be alone, but it's only for a short while, you will get someone better. Alone is good, less drama.
992886
My boyfriend said it arouses him.  I think its sick but who am I to judge?
380301
Yeah, unfortunately, some people thrive on fighting. Or look at your relationship, how long have you been together?? Is he trying to get you to break up with him so he doesn't have to be the bad guy?? Did you do something he hasn't forgiven you for?? If he always has to fight with you then I'm guessing he's not the type to talk about it. Are you?? What do YOU want?? Are you happy like this?? Try talking to him
497370
Trust and respect are the cornerstones of a relationship! If he isn't giving you the respect you deserve, by honoring your request in regard to the strip clubs, and is breaking your trust by going to them behind your back, then I would have to say that your relationship is in serious trouble. I dare say that his behavior will not be improving any time soon, so you are going to have to decide whether or not you are willing to continue putting up with him doing as he pleases, whether you like it or not. Good luck!!
926192
The bad stuff sounds pretty bad.  Learn and move along. He doesn't love you completely.  It sounds like he's shell shocked from your behavior and is trying to figure out a way to get away from you safely.  Whatever you did, make sure it doesn't happen again.  Leave this poor guy alone.  Get yourself straight, and try not to let anymore "bad stuff" happen.
471676
you will eventually get to where they don't bother you. trust me love is worth a little irritation.every once in a while when you are feeling a little irritable.those little things that bug you now will make you positively bitchy. don't worry no matter who your with they are gonna do something that bugs you. if you love this guy. show him you want him even though he can drive you bananas sometimes.
484440
well if ur in love with 2 people then lemme tell u something honey, ur not in love. your looking for an outlet to get revenge on ur boyfriend who is treating u badly.
659023
OH YOU MEAN-WHEN I GET MY PERIOD I WANT SOMETHING SO BAD BUT I CANT DO IT COZ OF MY PERIOD??\nYES! WHEN IM WITH MY BOYFRIEND AND I HAVE IT I GET SO MAD BECAUSE I CANT DO SHIT ABOUT IT..BUT WE JUST TRY TO DO SOMETHING ELSE THAT WOULD GROSS HIM OUT OR ME..\nIF THAT ANSWERS YOU QUESTION?
1062712
You haven't been doing anything wrong. He has made the mistake. I know this because I almost lost my girl because of the same mistake. He's taking you for granted. Hes so used to you being there and the things you do he's forgotten what he did to deserve those things from you. You just have to make him aware, because he's confident that you won't go anywhere else. You probably won't but that doesn't give him the excuse to not do the things that make and made you happy and want to be in this relationship in the first place. Hope things work out and don't settle for anything less then what you want.
1013736
I assume you've started dating recently, because I only texted my bf back when we were starting out. It wasn't coz I didnt like him, but it's just the way I do things. Some people need more time to get used to others and are too shy to begin a convo with their partner. Maybe he's like that too. Just give him time. If you've been together for a long time and you feel he has changed you need to confront him.
327659
please do this and take my advice: do not get back with him. you seem like a really nice girl and you should be with someone who appreciates you. if he's being a jerk to you, for any reason, then do yourself a favor and give your time, your patience, your love, YOUR VIRGINITY, to someone who deserves it. you will come across many jerks in the world today, just please stand strong as a woman and don't give them the time of day. i know its hard considering you've known him for a year and a half but if he treats you like this now, then think about how it will be a year from now or 2 years from now. if you want to keep him around to "mess around", trust me sweetie, there will be thousands of guys that you will have the chance to have fun with. dont break your own heart and get attached to someone who will end up hurting you. if you give him even a little bit of you, then you will feel closer to him because you have shared an intimate feeling, from there, it will escalade and your feelings will become more attached to him and sooner or later, you will give in and then you'll regret it when he starts treating you badly or hurting you in other ways. keep your morals, be strong, and trust your instincts.
1128178
You're passive to the point of being submissive. Stop letting him make you feel bad by his actions. If his heart isn't in the relationship by being there for you in ways that will bring you happiness then my suggestion is for you to make sure he understand exactly what you need from him in order for the relationship to work. If you can't find common ground that creates an equal and mutual happiness then what's the true point of the relationship? To not make the effort to make you special day something to remember is about as selfish and self centered as I can imagine. You deserve better and I think you know this so make changes for you own happiness. If he won't take you out for your birthday then go out with friends and celebrate without him. If you don't have anyone to go out and celebrate with then let me know and I'll go party with you and I don't even know you but it's your birthday and that's reason enough.
1181850
With all honesty, he sounds like a perv. But this question isn't about that, so in my opinion is sit him down and ask him if he respects you. His answer is key to your relationship, cause if he doesn't then it should end it right then and there. After asking him that ask him why when you take his hand away for your boob, that it somehow finds its way back again and again. Make sure you have a serious look on your face and have a serious tone, so that he knows that you dislike that stuff happening. Tell him that you are a lady and if he respects you then he will not let it happen ever again. But here is another key part, if you let it happen again, then you do not respect yourself, and don't expect him to either. But I give you my best wishes and thoughts.