Does your success at work and at school have an effect on your sex and love life ?
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Yes, if you're constantly worried about other areas of your life, you won't have time to look after the other areas.  If you're too uptight about other things, your libido can suffer as can your ability to relate to other people.
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they are important in different aspects.  but think of it this way; if the girl really loves you, she will understand you need time to do your studies, but you two need to communicate.  after all, she will be grateful later on when you both have good jobs and can pay your bills! ;) good luck!
949709
If you get your success through hard work, ambition, accomplishments, education, and effort than yes. Otherwise, no.
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Yes it can work. A relationship is so much more than sex. It's companionship, understanding, communications and much much more. However those three are areas you might work on.\n\nFirst companionship. You need to find activities outside the bedroom to enjoy. They might help you realize what you have in him and what you don't you really aren't missing.\n\nUnderstanding. Well you need to understand it's going to be work and you won't always get what you want. This means you have to compromise a bit. If you love him and he loves you. Then you both need to try and be the bottom for each other, be satisfied with what you have or open up the relationship (which I really think is a big mistake).\n\nLast communications. It is fine to ask others for help and advice. It may help you see and decide what your situation is, what it means to you, what he means to you. However in the end you need to talk to him about your feelings and need as does he.\n\nThe fact you are out here asking for help means to me you care a great deal about him and this relationship. My personal thought and advice, get a lot of lube and try the other side. Let him know you're willing to try this if he is and stay together. It's worth it.
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Yes, it can survive.If you went into a marriage just thinking  about sex, you have a problem. You can't have sex 24/7.  They are other things to life and if you and your spouse can't share other common interests, you are bound to failure in everything includind your sex life.
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It depends on the couple. An insecure man might not handle that very well. An arrogant woman might gloat. If your relationship is secure in other areas, money should not cause any problems you can't work through.\nMy wife was graduating from school and beginning a job when we got married and I still had four years of school and student wages ahead of me. She was happy to be the principal breadwinner. But it wasn't long before she heard that biological clock ticking and wanted to stay home and raise children. I believe that in general, women are innately better nurturers and men have an instinct to be providers. But we can't make it on just my wages. So she has to work until I finish school. Even then she might earn more with an associates degree and vocational certificate than I will with a masters degree.\nHow it works for you will depend on yours and her plans and aspirations as well as your character and beliefs. Best of luck!
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I would say so..sex is such a huge roll in a relationship taht without it could cause trouble even separation..so yeah it can improve life
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no and I used to flirt with customers and there is nothing wrong with enhancing the love life even on the job as long as you still get your work done..
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Sex is a big part of marriage.  But a successful marriage is a lot more than sex AND love.  Think of it as a business contract.  Or hiring a team member.  Look at the person's qualities.  Honesty, loyalty, compassion.  He she a person of character?  Gives to charity?  Passionate about life?  Educated, if not at least wants to be?  Can you imagine this person the parent of your children?  Will you be proud of this person at thanksgiving dinners?  \n\nLooks go a way too, not just the sexiness, but the ability to dress properly at different gatherings.  To talk and walk properly when needed.  You dont want a ghetto girl hoochie mama who cant put two words of English together, or sits or walks like she is a teenager.  Or a guy who is born with a stick up his butt, overly judgemental, not compassionate, narrowminded.\n\nOf course you cant even picture the one you love in these words right now.  But step back from the infatuation and look carefully at this person.  There are soooo many factors that play in a good marriage.  How does this person deal with a crisis?  With your parents?  \n\n\nNow onto sex.  It IS important. If you are not having good sex, then you will want to have it, and if you dont know how to please yourself at least, you will begin to want it from others.  And if others hit on you sometimes, you may make the biggest mistake of your life.\n\nYour partner may not be very experienced, but may be willing and eager to learn and with a few months practice, you guys may be having a great time.  So dont shut the door if sex isnt great.  It could be that he she is young and innocent.  Believe me, having someone inexperienced but willing who turns out to be great is wonderful.  Its develops a loving romantic sensual relationship and you have all these memories of your silly mistakes, ideas etc.  Its great fun journeying toward great sex together.\n\n\nON the other hand, you could have a man who doesnt want to touch you down there, or a woman who doesnt like positions you really like.  And your partner could be very closed to that.  Or maybe the frequency is not as much as you like.\n\nIn this case you have to see if you can change yourself.  Do you really want to lose a really really good person, because of one factor?  It doesnt seem right.  Sometimes you may have to adjust yourself for the marriage.  (this happens in non sex related things all the time).  If you can please yourself that may help.  Or YOU may be the one who needs to experiment to find what works for BOTH of you.\n\nSo.. sex is a big deal.  But marriage is much more than sex.
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I dont think so :) it may change ur lifestyle... but ur thoughts... I guess it depends upon ur company .. good or bad!!!
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No doubt, good sex is an important component of any relationship.  The bigger question is:  Do you like yourself?  Do you find that you get along with yourself?  Do you make yourself laugh?  If so, I think you found a perfect match.
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After Marriage if you dont have sex it wont last, being innovative and active in the bedroom is a very good way to keep me around and happy. I want to make my lady happy in the same manner. Communications is the key, the best sex organ is the mind. Good Luck Happy Easter
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I think sex drive does increase with age to some extent, however, I feel that lifestyle also plays a huge part. A couple of years ago I went "all healthy" eating well, exercising etc. I was also in a good relationship, in a comfortable house with little stress (just enough to keep me motivated) and little to be concerned about, during this time my sex drive was uncontrollable!! \nNow that relationship has broken up, I've recently been unemployed and have had many things to worry about...I still like sex but do not enjoy it as much and haven't orgasm-ed in ages.\nI guess its natures way of reducing pregnancies during hard times...if you're settled and happy, your bodies telling you its a good time to make babies.
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i dont think that it will effect your sex life or your future. \n\nbut dont do it if your going to join the army.... i knew a guy who was at it all the time and caused low levels of protein (i think it was protein anyways - it was something important), so when he had his assesment at the army he wasnt allowed to join until he let his levels build up again lol
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Chances aren't good.  Sex never creates love.  If a person learns to love someone, they do it themselves.  Sex never truly helps or harms.\n\nDon't put all your eggs in one basket.
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My boss is a workaholic- he works on me day and night. We enjoy our sex and there are no strings attatched. It's thrilling especially when we know that there are risks of getting caught, trust me with all that adrenaline pumping, it's a climax every time It has'nt affected our work output  if anything, we work better because we know of the rewards thereafter!! Enjoy yourself.
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I once read in the book that men's mind compose of 90% sex....so that might be the answer to your question. Not only at work, must even anywhere as long as they're awake....\nNo offense guys....just an observation:-).