What would u do if your uncle did this to u all the time?
538007
Have you ever told your uncle that his phrasing bothers you? That might be the best place to start. \nI bet, though, he doesn't mean that phrase to be insulting. He will probably stop using it if you ask him to.
354773
THINK OF YOUR FAMILY WHEN YOUR DOING IT! THINK THAT EVERY TIME YOU HURT YOURSELF YOU HURT YOUR LOVED ONES AS WELL!!
1104660
That would be a huge break of trust inside a family. The consequenses for the children, the parents - everybody. I do not think I'd go on living with my husbond if he did this to us. My sister - maybe. Maybe. It would depend on her alot - how she handled it.
887911
I have a niece who was in the exact same predicament as you. Your father touching you is considered sexual abuse. And his bathroom/changing habits are considered lewd behavior. He can go to jail for many years for what he is doing.\n\nIf your mother loves you and will put you before your dad, talk to her. But some mothers call their daughters liars and ignore them. If you feel more comfortable with an aunt, grandparent, teacher, coach, or family friend, talk to one of them. The people who know you best can give you the best advice.\n\nDon't worry about breaking up your family or making someone mad. Protect yourself first.
784132
you should torture him...like how they did on the movie Hostel.....burn him...ooo yeah FIRE.....
635074
2 timing s(ut !! why not just tell him the truth!! maybe your affraid of what abusing another human like that might make him do?! flip out, break out, kill someone? try to remember, your not the only one on the planet. oh, and don't worry, KARMA will burn you in the arse for fu(king with peoples feelings for your own self-endulgance.
316520
Sounds like someone got a hold of him and told him something nasty about you.  You might to want to set the record straight.
551913
you should let your aunt tell her
1053200
Your best bet would be to make sure relatives take care of this for you ... that's the ONLY way you can be SURE what happens to you.
346789
Most women have memories like that.If I were you,I wouldn't blame myself for not being able to defend myself.I coulnd't either.You were young and this sick behaviour of your uncle probably had a shocking effect on you.Don't hate yourself for Godsake.Try to find a therapist take a few therapies and get over it.Sexual abusement in early ages can effect your psycology for a lifetime if not solved.you dont have to forgive that ass hole by the way.I didnt.just forget him and avoid seeing him.\nIf  you need to share your feelings dont hesitate,\nzeynep.nazli.t@hotmail.com\nRegards,\nZeynep
320678
I DONT KNOW ABOUT BEING YOUR UNCLE BUT IF SHE HAD BALLS SHE WOULD BE RICH
1001534
All you can really do is be truthful...you are only doing what you feel is in the best interest of your grandchildren  (and that they got mad because of you help)~~~pretty common scenario
956185
Yeah, my dad does it all the time, and I think wtf's wrong w/ you?
37575
Sounds like you could use a restraining order.
1132903
Even though you make it sound so nasty...lol...the fact is Yes. i would help my Uncle Jack.
747134
My favorite uncle died of throat cancer! Our situation was similar, he lived next door but I strayed away in his final days. I regret it too but I always try and remember him doing the good times and all the funny jokes he told. I search for the positives in his life and think of those times. I also strive to do well for I feel that he's watching me and wants me to do well in life.
174224
Your aunt needs to be strong if she wants this guy out of her life.  Based on what you've said, the guy cares nothing for her and is using her for his own benefit.  If he keeps coming back, she needs to kick him out and then get a restraining order from the court to stop him coming back.  If he keeps hassling your aunt, he will face criminal charges.  Strength and resolve is the most important thing for your aunt, otherwise, however she suffers is her own doing.