Guys...LISTEN UP!... I need your opinions!!!!?
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Just know this...\n\nSome of us are tired of games, so play hard to get and all you'll get are stalkers and pedophiles...\n\nIf you like us, simply go out with us.\nIf it doesn't work, then let's part congenially.\nIf it works, we'll get to know each other much faster and hook without all the games...
227996
It depends on the man. Some guys just say what they think you want to hear.Maybe he does you should talk to him about it and let him know that he needs to be honest with you.
515699
Sounds like a game, call him back if you like playing them.  Don't call him back if you don't like playing games.  Sounds like he needs to grow up some.
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Actually, we do listen as guys.  However, we factor in things as "relative importance".  So when something falls in the low category of that, then we disregard it and it appears that we aren't listening.  On the bright side of this at least we aren't rude and don't tell you "I don't give a sh!t"!.\n\nFor example,\n\nIf you ask a guy "do you think I should dye my hair?"...that is relatively unimportant to us because you are going out with us.  So we don't care what color your hair is.\n\nHowever, if you asked "Do you think we could increase the amount of times we have sex and maybe buy a 2nd fridge that contains only beer"...then we would definitely chime in with our sagacious opinion because that is definitely high on the "relatively important" scale.\n\nBut don't change for us...just accept us as who we are cause you know we love ya!!!
730754
relax. your ebing too needy. take it for whats its worth, men are in general much nicer then women and won't  break up with a girl they like if they think she's wierd. only women do dumb stuff liek that
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i think u should talk to him about it and tell him how u feel, if it seems like he doesn't care then don't go for it but he apologizes and is caring and looks like hes changed then i wouldn't be able to resist. this is a tough situation to be in and with all the advice you can from here its still your heart you should be listening to.
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Cool... Just listen to the guy!
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Everyone has their own comfort zone and "talking about it" feels so awkward so I guess I would wait and follow his lead.  The last thing you want to do is be too aggressive with a guy.  Then they freak because they want to be "in charge".
559502
Guys like anyone they think likes them, and fits their image... Guys don' t like clingy/ needy stuff, in general.... my suggestion... forget about it until he makes a serious move.  Smile be yourself, laugh but overdoing it will wreck any level of relationship you want to attain.
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looking at your long, long story, it really seems to bother you. so why don't you just ask and find out? if he accepts, great! if not, then at least you got piece of mind. in summary, you can only win if you ask. therefore: go for it!!
327138
let him know .he might be cool with it. honesty is the best policy. but if he says no. then sneek.
836039
Oh God...more of those?!! If you don't know how to make up your mind which guy you want and you are seeking advice online, sorry but there's something wrong there...\n\nOh, and if it helps,choose the new guy...of course he deserves a chance the poor guy...oh, bless
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hmmm..the next time you guys are on the phone together, bring this topic up to him...just see what he thinks about it...from the sounds of it..you guys should let up on each other a lil bit..ya know give each other some air just to see what happens.....and if ya dont wanna do that...well maybe you guys arent ment tobe..it wouldnt hurt to try!!
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maybe you should take intiative..but dont come on to strong...dont show him that you like him so much just make it seem like a chat buddy.....i was actually talking to my now current bf for like 2 months b4 i actually met him....and one day he surprised me with a call....so ya. just go for it...if this guy doesnt respond to your call then well dont waste your time on him.\n\n\nhope i helped :]
951557
You make this sound really scary/freaky.  Just tell him to make up his mind.  Obviously, you guys can't be firends.
908043
coming from a guys point of view, try not to insult him if he doesnt know your playing around. You should be yourself i dont like girls that change to try and make me like them (Only happened once) and if u do have to change who you are i dont think hes the right guy. as for those other girls if you suceed in getting with this guy watch out girls can be mean if there jealous (not trying to stereotype) \nGood luck
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i'll start with a question. did you like this guy? if you did you should atleast talk to him ask him what's up and why he is acting like such a jerk. if you didn't like him than simply don't let it get to you. guys can be stupid at times, well most of the time. sometimes it doesn't seem like they think before they do stuff and they dont consider the outcomes. he is probably trying to make you jealous but not in the right way because it's most likely making you see the dumba#@ side of him. so basically either talk to him or let him go!