Is it possible for a 16 yr. old to be ready to stay with one girl forever?
539618
You should wait a few more years. Besides, part of your brain doesn't finish developing until you are 25 and it is the part that helps you with serious decision making. You can take him serious but you can only have one first wedding, you want to make sure it can last FOREVER.
86967
Yes I think you can, but I also feel it is a maturity level, as a teenager you can have a "crush" on more than one person, as an adult the interest and passion will seak different levels, one woman will meet some needs, the other will also meet needs. If you can have the two relationships without hurting anyone, so be it, but it is hard to have your cake and eat it to.....
103367
There Couldn't be such a thing. Ever, Inperfections are what makes some girls so great. Remove those and you don't realy have that person anymore. You have a Dream and a scary one at that.
984904
Yes and no. Many things can happen in 4 years but if you two love eachother that much to wait then go ahead. you only live one life
917943
I believe it is possible. I was in a relationship for four years, which began in high school and went on through my first year of college. It didn't work out, but I do think love in high school is possible.
564039
be patient and dont go with sum1 just 2 loose virginity,its not a illnes :) the girl/boy who u will decide 2b with will appriciate that u waited with this for a special person! Good luck!!!
404076
It really depends. first lets look at this from a legal point of view. It might be against the law in your state for a 16 and 22 year old to be together...as in sexually...as in statutory rape... as in 3 to 9 years jail time. But from another view. It really depends on the people in the relationship. A strain can develop from you two being on different levels, intellectually, mentally, physically, emotionally, experience wise, etc. you don't want to be talking about what happened at lunch at school while he is talking about the latest college parties or work whatever. There may also be a problem if your parents/guardians don't want you dating somebody who is that much older than you. I won't say that 22 is too old for a 16 year old but it may be more work than you should have to commit to as a 16 year old. PS older boys are in to older things(things you may not be ready for.)  what ever you choose BEST WISHES!
827121
Yes it's very possible. However, it's going to take time. \nYou're obviously not over this girl. I really believe that for as long as you're holding on to this girl, you won't be ready for a new love. \nI'm assuming she's your first love? It's going to be hard because naturally we compare everything and everyone to that one person. She was perfect in every way, right? and you want your next to be just like her; totally understandable. But honestly, we can't expect to find that same person again. I think that you may need a little more time to get over her; and I'm sorry to say, but you do need to let her go. It's hard to let ourselves open up to new options and personalities when we're still so engrossed on one option. \nAnd, I'm sorry, I'm not one to tell you how to move on and let go. It took me almost 3 years before i could completely let go of my first. But it will happen, i think the best thing you can do now is find out what you can learn from that relationship and try to figure out how, because of this relationship, you've become a better person. Then use those factors to find what you really need.
1026168
she aint even alowed 2 drive yet, go to a club, gamble, do you seriously think she has enough experience living on this planet to know that you're the one. She may feel strongly for you but on the real how long does that last when you're 14!
243032
I was 22, my girlfriend just turned 16\nwe had a 4.5years together\n\nage makes NO DIFFERENCE in love\n\nyou do as you please, just keep her happy
596055
that's totally up to you. if you think you're ready.....then just do it.\nin my opinion, i'm 14 and i'm still gonna wait for that special person and the special place to have mine. it'll make it even more special
639919
Yes, your normal.  Your smart enough to realize that forever is hard to define at your age and you know that in the next 5 years there is a lot of life to experience that will change dramatically who you are and what you want out of life.  When your bf talks about forever just tell him that while you can imagine forever with him, your not ready to make that commitment yet.  If he can't accept that then unfortunately this is probably not the right relationship for you at this time.  You have to realize that it is normal to enjoy the safety and comfort of a relationship and to be scared to let it go, but it is more important at this point in your life to open yourself to all the possibilities life has to offer you right now.
191506
i graduated in 1996, and i don't know one highschool sweetheart couple from my class that are still together. i'm thinking slim chances.  the kind of person you want to spend your life with at 18 is totally different when you're 22, much less 28.
581841
YES IT'S POSSIBLE AND IT'S OUT OF MY OWN EXPERIENCE.IF U R A TRUE LOVER U WILL B ABLE TO SATISFY URSELF 4 THAT,PROVIDED U CAN SATISFY URSELF THAT THE GIRL WAS NOT AS NICE AS U THOUGHT OF HER.I LOVED A GIRL MALVIKA WHOM I THOUGHT TO B A VERY NICE,INNOCENT & INTROVERT GIRL.BUT SHE WAS INVOLVED IN SEX WITH A CLASSMATE OF MINE(CLASS 12).IT TOOK ME TIME TO BEAR THE SHOCK BUT IWAS ABLE TO COME OUT OF IT.IF U WANNA KNOW MORE ABOUT THIS OR U FIND PROBLEM INPUSHING HER OUT U CAN EMAIL ME.
424273
YES!!!  My boy friend and I have been together      for 8 years now, and we have a beautiful little girl... As long as you both love each other and want each other you can date as long as you'd like...  GOOD LUCK!!!
213663
i think at 16 you can truly have a real boyfriend not one you just see at school, and your parents have to drive you two everywhere you want to go
39808
Actually, it depends on what state you are in. Yeah, 18 is legal anywhere, but in some places it would be okay for someone who is 26 to be with someone who is 16.