say my homegirl is in the 7 grade an pregrant wat should i do?
536247
after making sure that you've told someone adult who can make sure she's getting the proper medical, social, and educational help you need to be a very supportive friend.  you also need to take a good hard look at why she made the choices she did (having unprotected sex so early is an indicator of many different problems from low self-esteem to early sexual abuse).  you need to be a good friend while at the same time avoiding the pitfalls your Friend has fallen into.\n\ni had a friend in 6th who got pregnant and while i tried to be a good friend we lost touch after that year.  her life took one turn while i made sure mine went the exact opposite way.  i eventually went to college, last i heard she had three kids by three different men and was using drugs.
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Don't worry mom your daughter will do fine shes made it this far she will go all the way ,I'm sure she has anxiety she has a lot on her but you can take care of that tell her is only expected to her best and that either way you are very proud of her give her a big hug mom that goes a long way.You don't no how lucky you are in this day and time kids don't get half as far as your daughter and Ill be the first to admit it I have 5 all grown now and none of them graduated.
364469
ask her parents.  It will work
74069
Start acting responsibly, like an adult. She should then notice. If not, remind her of your new maturity.
215312
NOOOOOOOOO! it is not your obligation. you need to have some tough love with this child! Lay down the rules, and tell her that if she can't live with these rules that she is 20 years old and is free to move out. You are babying her! If you don't help your daughter find confidence in her abilty to take care of herself she may live with you FOREVER!!! or at least rely on you each time she is "down and out"
406305
Sounds like a fabulous opportunity for your daughter. Go for it.
656269
Take her to a play if one is nearby.  They are wonderful and hardly anybody takes their kids now days so it will be different.
351983
just go slow and teach her.  be kind with your words tho.  good luck
852994
lay down the law with her. tell her that for not getting good grades or not doing it u can take away priviledges. that should persuade her. if not, tell how much it hurts u to see her get bad grades. tell her u want to see her succeed in life and that she cant do that without doing her homework.  also, dont just take away priveledges, set aside time to check up on her. if she is doing badly, lower her allowance or take away more valued priveledges, like friends or phone. then again u dont want her to hate u, so dont come down hard on her the 1st time. but if the bad behavior and grades continue, start getting stricter. she needs to know you mean when u say it. if u say 'the next time you get a C or lower, your grounded', when she gets a C, follow up on it. she'll probably remember those words and say to herself ' moms not serious about this grade thing'. ur words need to be powerful, but not overwhelming.
671882
id donate some money to the shelter and go get swabbed for the child..or perhaps u can arrange to get swabbed at an earlier time..
661046
A sports car. JK. Go pick her some flower, write a poem, sing her a song, make a homemade card, give her a homemade coupon book that has coupons for like on free hug/kiss, clean the house for a day, cook, and so on. She would like this better I think. Your in the 10th grade meaning your 15 or 16 years old so why can't you work.
61676
Get the girl home. She might be mad at you now, but it's better to keep her from making a stupid mistake she'll regret.
118316
Do everything u can to please them. Also talk to them to understand what they really want and explain to her u are doing all u can.
196005
This is not fair to anyone involved, you may have to give in(even though it is wrong). They probably won't for awhile. So try your hardest to bite your tongue and murmur through it May I hold my gradnchild? They will eventually change. Just be patient, and when she gets to be a toddler, they may be asking for you to actually babysit.
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I do believe they mature faster, especially if the way they grow up forces them to. I am sure she'll give you a chance...just wait for her..
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Get her riding lessons or a week at horse camp.  For my daughter's 13th she got a portable phone.  She can walk around the house with it attached to herself with a microphone and ear plug thing so she can do dishes while talking on the phone.
414328
Ok, first off, kids are with their parents all the time, and do things all the time, and get tired of it. Kids who really like to work really like to spread their help around, and not just towads the parents. IF you feel she is responsable enough, sure, let her have a job. BUT! She needs to do it like everyeone else. She needs to start at the bottom, and work her way up. Just because she is a kid, does not mean she gets any special treatment. Now if she is not responsable enough, she probably shouldn't have a responsability like that. Keep her to doing things you are most comfortable with. I mean, who is the parent, and who is the child? It is all up to you!