how can we know that the person that we want to spend our lifes with,is the real one?
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you just have to feel it in your heat and soul
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If you think about him when you wake up, before you go to bed. If you dream about him. If you imagine yourself being with him. If he makes your skin tingle. If he makes you feel alive, makes you feel like you want to be a better person, makes you feel like you ache when he is not there..then my dear he is the one.
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When you know that you want to spend the rest of your life waking up to tthat same person.  When you know that living without them hurtss so much that you can't stand it.  Believe me, when it happen you will know, if you have to ask someone, I would wonder.
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There is no ONE right person for you.\nPotentially you could be happy with any one, it's just a question of focusing on their uniqueness. \n\nHowever, when we're attracted to someone, we start thinking about them and they take on more and more importance. \n\nEventually we believe that they are the only person we could be happy with.\n\nIf we get with that person, they'll inevitably do things that irritate us and we start questioning whether they are right. \n\nHowever when you are not with someone, or they are less committed than you, we don't have these doubts. So the longer it lasts the more and more convinced we are that this person is the only one who can makes us feel "whole" or "happy"\n\nLoving someone who does not return the love is agony. If you find yourself in this position all you can do is distract yourself and try and find the fun in life regardless. The other person may grow to love you and, if not, someone else will.\n\nList the qualities you that make you love the person and try to be those things yourself. Without doubt this person is not someone who is sitting in obsessing about someone they can not have - they will be out and about, actually living their life. You must do the same.\n\nGood luck
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you are the one who can really only awnser this question, you have to dig deeper into your heart, and see which one you really want to be with.
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When you know that you can see the rest of your life with that person. And that they will respect you and help you get where you want to go. That you would do anything to help that person.\nLove is patient, beautiful, kind, and not self-serving.
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It should be someone you know very well.  You should have a full knowlege of what the other person believes in, your views should be similar in relation to religion, politics, future goals and family (ie. how many children, when to have them, how to relate to your extended families, etc.).  It is someone who you don't fight with often, but when you do, you can make up with them easily.  They should be someone you feel you can't live without and can't picture you future without.  They are in your thoughts all the time.  You can trust them with your life as well as in every other way.  If they have cheated on you in the past, they will probably do so again.  If they have abused you (physically, mentally or sexually) in the past, they will probably do so again.  Finally, they should treat you as if you are the most important person in the world to them and express that same sentiment to you on a regular basis.  Hope this helps and good luck!
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if i were in that position i would probobly choose the one that i most likely have a connection with and the one who of course has good loooks and  a great personality well those would be the   thoughts in my head..well good luck =)
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Real true love is very strong. It's not something you have to ask yourself about. You will just know. When you are with that person then everything around you stops. Nothing else matters and time does not exist. You dont think about anything else other than that person. But you have to be careful because infatuation is quite similiar. Ever see William Shakespear's Romeo and Juliet? If not then watch the new version with Leonardo DiCaprio. They died for eachother, thats love.
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You look him straight in the eyes and say what is really on your mind and heart truthfully. What is most important is that you do not lose your identity to become what you think he wants you to be or become.
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To be with that one special person for the rest of my life
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you know when you are want to be with the person and you have interest in them besides looks
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One never knows when that someone special will pop into their life.  Don't despair or give up.  It happens, and often when and where you least expect it.  And it may not be obvious to you that the person you just met is going to be an integral part of your life for the rest of your life.  You may just think, "He (She) is nice and interesting.  I should get to know them better."  Let it happen.  (The mighty oak tree grows from a tiny acorn, but it doesn't happen overnight!)  \n\n"Soulmate", as its name implies, is a very deep matter.  It takes time to reach that level.  We have to get through various layers of life and experiences with the other person to reach the soul.  But once there, what a wonderful place.
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When it is true love you just know. You want to be with the person all of the time and when you are away from them they are all you can think about. You picture your life with them in 60 years with your kids having grown and had kids of their own and you are happier than you have ever been.
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choose the one that you can picture yourself with in the future. The one that you wont regret yourself with, wont be embarresed, and the one that your heart rips open to. The one that you miss right after he leaves your door step,etc.
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what you need to do is figure out the one you truly love the most; and go for it
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I'll choose the one i love. I'll make him fell in love with me. If it doesn't work, at least i've try the best and grateful i've given to love someone. Besides its just in my imagination. In my real life, i have someone to love and love me too.