An ex-gf delimma dilemma.        :+( .  Should i get her space or show her how much I love her?
546927
I have an ex like you and three years later he still has not given up.\nGive her space or you will ruin the friendship and there will never be more more. If she does not want you back at the moment  do not make yourself annoying.\n\nTRUST ME the best thing you can do is prove you respect what she wants. Good luck I hope things work out between you but don't push it too much, what happens happens and although you think you could never ever love anyone else, with time you might just find out that you can.
1030201
time will tell dude...if her affection towards you is getting more "close" then shes not lost to you dude...she just needs a little space...from what i understand i dont think shes going anywhere...just let it unfold...
469639
Hell yeah!!!  SOunds like she wanted you and your ex to split so she can make her move.  Kick her to the curb girl.
429687
you shold be able to tell if you dont, then there probably is a reason for doubt... and you should ask her. why not?\nand... she's your ex? you don't knowif she cares about you? that's unusual.
336737
I kinda` understand your girlfriend but the situation you`re caught in too...I think that the love chain brought the two of u back together everytime you two broke up.It`s hard to stick without your beloved.The fact of ignoring her love was not a good idea at all,even though i believe that u have done it just to satisfy you self-ego...and now you are the one who wants to get close to her again...After brokin up several times i think that it`s better to take it slow,show her that u care about her ,without pressuring her cause this will scare her away even though i`m sure that she still loves u...She`s hurt...and all u have to do it`s to gain her confidence again,dip a deeper place in her heart than u already have.By rushing her u will not receive anything.Do simple things for showing her how much she meens to u,that u can change and that the two of u together can work it out.It`s all about motivation and how much do u really want things to work out...and of course...u need love from both sides...\n I hope that my answer will help u in some way... :P
861633
i'm a girl, but i have done that before, and it means nothing. i didn't have any feelings for my ex, and you should not stress at all over it. if it really bothers you that much, confront her about it, but do not make a huge deal about it because 99.9% it means nothing at all except that its a nice gift she likes.
597256
Always remember that an ex is an ex for a reason. Obviously you two broke up for a reason and she nees to see that. You should just simply call her and explain that you arent trying to be mean but you dont want anything more with her. It sounds like she has codependency issues as well if she is going from you to a gf so soon. Just simply tell her so that it doesnt get out of hand. Dont ignore her because that can send mixed messages and it could be hard for you to stop later.
485150
Tell her how you feel...if she loves you she will understand and give you your space. If she freaks out about it maybe she doesn't trust you...but make sure you have rules when this "space" happens so that no one gets hurt...
531876
The best thing you can do in this situation, is to take a step back, and wait. It appears you're pressing the issue too hard, and you have her a little threatened by your persistence. Leave it alone for a few days. It's obvious you're not going to care less, but it might give her a chance to see you're an all right guy that she would like to spend some time with. Good Luck!
831808
You should be honest just like you are in your letter.  You are absolutely right in the fact the she will be hurt but it is in the way that the break up is done that determines on a certain level the impact that it could leave for her future.  First of all do not kiss her or show romantic feelings before breaking up because it only confuses the person.  Eventhough your intentions would be to make her feel better you can not take care of the person since you need to distant yourself.  Be gentle, be caring but with your words and your face but after it is done be respectful and dont give her false impressions or false hope.  Last but not least try to stay away from situations where you could come face to face with her so that she does not feel like you are partying and celebrating your new found freedom.  Go through a period of mourning yourself that way everybody will have time to heal from a separation.  You seem like a good guy so I am sure that you will do the right thing, just be nice and try to understand what she is going through she is being dumped and no one likes but also no one dies from it and it can be a growing experience for everyone if it is well done.  Good luck my friend and continue having a kind heart because its nice to know that even the dumper can feel alot of pain
574317
ugh baby you are in the wrong soup.sweetheart take a break from her & meet new gals without any extra baggage.well if she is so indecisive she'll keep going back to her ex.at the moment she is having fun with you as well as her ex n these exes never disappear from the present dating scene.they keep popping up.just chill & staying friends will hurt all the more as you had thought of being more than frnds & her ex'll also pinch you alot.you should really dump her coz she's not worth a dime.let the time pass by while you continue moving with it which'll help you heal better....\nTAKE CARE & GOOD LUCK!!!
1186307
I would tell her the truth,. that there really isnt anything going on with you two and her friendship means to much for you two to let a guy inbetween you. Shes feeling insecure because she can see how easy it is for that guy to get another girlfriend in short time. Can you imaigine if he did secretly want to go out with you? Then what.\nI'd give your ex and her some space and not even get close to that situation untill he finally breaks it off with her...Believe me he will real soon.\nRemember shes only the rebound girl...aint that sad.shhhh dont remind her of that point tho....heheh
667843
better question is "what are you thinking, hanging out with a PSYCHO EX GIRLFRIEND."\n\nYou've done the hard part by dumping her  - now move on.
441876
Well you can't get dumped unless you actually have her as a girlfriend.  Since she's around you as a friend - keep it that way... That's how things turn into something better.  Don't ruin your friendship with her by professing your undying love for her until you can at least get some hint that maybe she's ready to see you that way.  Time is on your side.  Use it.  Good luck! :)
1177570
Just tell her you guys broke up- you both realized you weren't ready for the commitment and leave it at that- tell her your personal life isn't something you like to discuss and next time, BE HONEST.
902559
Sorry:-))) But i am kind of amused...You know, the first thing that men have to learn about women is to give them their space. Hey...if your parting words weren't bitter, there is no cause for alarm. I am sure she'll call..giv her some time. You said she had a boyfriend..well, maybe she is busy..there could be a thousand things you dont know...So dont miss her too much. Try and concentrate on ur GF. I am sure she be in touch shortly.
476473
You should jus tell her how you feel, are you actually in a relationship with this girl? The way that you have to look at it is if you tell her that you do love her and she feels the same, maybe you'll get in2 a relationship! if this girl doesnt move back and decides to stay where she is - doesnt mean that you cant still be together. Me and my boyfriend were living real close in the same city, now hes living in a completely different part of the country - we're working out tho, and you could visit her aswell as her visiting you right?