there is this guy i like but his friend told me that in the end (if we are going out )i will have to sleep.?
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You don't have to do something you don't want to. \nFirst, can you trust this guy's friend? He might be lying to you. \nSecond, if that boy really wants to sleep with you and that you don't want to, he's a jerk, and you don't have to lose time with him. \nYou will have sex with someone when both of you will be ready. It is not right to have sex just to have/keep a relationship. You'll remember your first time your whole life, so you have to make it a nice memory.
539939
The worst thing yo could do is sleep with a guy that you want to keep as a friend. Once you sleep with us its no turning back to friendship.
713719
Ouch!!  Sounds to me like he's just a selfish guy who doesn't care who he hurts on his way to getting what he wants.  You should feel good though that at least your friend didnt go out with him, valueing your friendship first.  You don't need friends like him anyways.  Good luck!
570718
Your friend may or may not be homosexual/bisexual, he could just be curious. To advance on you in your sleep is a bit odd, I must admit. \n\nIf you were not comfortable with the situation, tell him immediately, even going so far to say you do not want to spend the night with him again. Do not attack him for being gay or curious - he made a mistake.\n\nAnother aspect that probably will not be covered, is that this was a private moment for him and your having this against him makes him very vulnerable. Don't blow the friendship completely out of the water by telling anyone who walks by what happened. Just talk to him about it and move on.\n\n~Miss Cris\nhttp://lendinganear.wordpress.com
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I reckon he likes you.  Just go for it if you want. Youll know how to approach him. Maybe just hint it to him. Some guys like it when a girl is dominant or straight forward whereas others prefer the girl to be really subtle instead. Itll depend on how he is. But it does sound like he likes you. \n\nJust remember, if you are good friends with him, once you go out it all changes and you need to decide if the chance of losing your friendship is more or less important than the chance of a relationship with this guy. Once you go, you cant ever go back (especially once you sleep with a friend, things change forever).\n\nGood luck!\n\nAll the best ;-)
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I don't think sleeping with him is going to, necessarily, change his mind. \nYou can tell him that you have feelings for him and you can ask him if he shares those feelings. I think you should find out how he feels about you before sleeping with him because for many guys sleeping with a woman doesn't always mean they are committing themselves. If you sleep with him and afterwards he tells you that he just wants to be friends, even tho' he doesn't mind sleeping with you from time to time, you might feel\nhurt and might even destroy your friendship. You have to be sure that you know what you want and find the right person who wants the same thing with you. You can't make someone commit if they don't want to for whatever reason. On the other hand, he might not know \nwhat you really want. In any case be ready to hear that he likes you, mor as a friend, or that he is not into a relationship. Don't sleep with him with the idea that he'll fall in love with you. In my experience that needs to come before sleeping together. Good luck.
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Don't wait. He isn't coming just for you, is he? If you find yourself available when he returns, go out. If not, well, snooze and you loose is all I would tell him.\n\nSome of the young girls responding here are under the impression that all men are always irresponsible. That is really too bad if they wish to enter into a succesful relationship with one someday. Wouldn't it be wiser to say, "this boy is irresponsible" than it would be to say, "men are irresponsible"\n\nWhat they are missing is this, People will often meet up to our expectation.
94615
You shouldn't sleep with him. He probably wants to just to reinforce his "control", to help make him feel superior within himself. AVOID sleeping with this guy!
579524
He has asked you, you like him. Honestly what is the problem. Go for it. This is your chance to find out how he feels about you. Don't blow it by thinking about it too much. Even if at the end of the night if he only wants to be friends all that matters is that you had a great night with good company that you can look back on it with a smile. Would that be so bad.
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I would send him a message. I think D is interested in you, that he has made out with you the previous night...and came back ot the hotel...he likes you. I don't kno if he is trying to make Z jealous...D just likes you....i dunno...i am kinda mixed up...but just send him a message.
539886
stay single.  don't degrade yourself by sleeping around.  and you probably don't want to get involed with "his" friends
1082481
Well I would just continue to wait for the right person to do it with. The longer you wait trust me you will forget about it. On the other hand you could go and have a one nighter but make sure you wrap it up.
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wall u need to tell hem that Ur friendship means a lot to u. And u don't wont to Mass that up with mixed feelings of going out. And if he cant accept that than i should just walk a way.
676712
Just be firm but kind and get it over with. It appears he already knows or has a pretty good idea it's coming. The whole point of dating is to find the person you have the most simpatico with. Just don't use the line, "We can still be friends."
211714
He is hoping to reopen the fling. Personally, I think you would be better off letting sleeping dogs lie but its up to you. Perhaps you should talk with him and clear the air.
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It's quite possible that he just fell asleep, don't jump to the conclusion that he's lying to you. If you're in love with him and he makes you happy, then go for it. Take a leap of faith.
1142427
Have you ever talked to him about this? maybe he has o clue how you feel, maybe he thinks you don't even want to go out with him and his friends. Ask him about it, tell him how you feel. If he is getting all defensive and really not wanting you there on Saturday, you may wonder whats going on, and you can still drop in on him one night. But maybe he wants you to come, or maybe you can make compromises where he goes out the one week and stays with you the other? Relationships always are about communication. If you let the other one know how you feel, you can work on a solution together. if he really cares about you, he will be willing to solve this problem with you. Good luck!