how to say iluv u to ur husband without feeling embarassed?
537162
Hmmm...well, since you married him he probably (or atleast should) already know that you love him.  However, it's better late than never, so find a nice, quiet time where it's just the 2 of you, and all of his attention is focused on you, and then just say it!  Good luck! ;)
1050985
I know its hard to blunt but sometimes its the best. I myself have a hard time speaking up because im always worried about the other person. Be firm and put your foot down becuase if you arnt and you just laugh and giggle he will take it as an open door. Write him a letter being very firm if its hard or something if its hard to say it to him directly. He may seem sweet to you but the fact that he doesnt get the hint when you are carrying SOMEONELS' child doesnt seem like hes a very respectful guy.
525692
i undesrastand what you are feeling... i have the same problem... i won't say that you can get rid of it that easily, but it would help it if you talk about it with your husband.. i have my GF living abroad and can't see her or talk to her much, and i can't tell you feelings i had... but just once i decided to tell her and just that helped me feel good and safe... \ni know you care so much about your husband and that's great... so try to talk with him... he'll help you out deal with that. and just the fact of telling him will help you.
320669
Ouch! Don't make it sound like a big deal if you bring it up with her.  Just say something like, "Hey, haha, at the airport, when you hugged me goodbye, sorry about that stomach-poking..."  And laugh while you're saying it, but make it sound like you don't find it completely funny like an immature idiot, but a bit embarrassed in a cute way.  Try to blush bit, if you can, and sound as sincere as you can while laughing.
619782
Well first i would say that talking to him is all fine and well, but if you are not feeling the love he should relize this without haveing to talk to him about it. I trully believe that it would be nice to mention it to him but he overall reason may not be solved by just talking. If he is not makng you feel loved there is a real problem, and the harsh reality is that if someone comes along and starts paying you a little more attention than your own husband it may lead to problems.I trully believe that if a husband truly loves a wife unconditionally he will never have to have his wife feel not loved, if she does then he is not a good husband.Sorry if this sounds pretty rude but i like to be foward. I would close in saying that you will have to love your self first and if he does not appreciate you then he dose not deserve you.
405097
If it bothers you then correct them but technically speaking since you are living together he is your common law husband.People do that to me all the time too I just go with the flow.Congrats on the engagement.
367807
expect a lot of adjustments...stop thinking about yourself anymore....and remember...communication is a must!! in your lifetime together not just at the beginning...\n\nfrom what you said..you're lucky enough to know that you are marrying a wonderful man..\n\nbest wishes...cheers!!
463992
Oooh thats a toughy.  You don't want to offend him.  Maybe try suggesting new things...Or you could just flat out tell him out of the blue (not during sex)
1127693
Ok, I think I understand your question.\n\nThat is not cool for you husband to joke around like that. ~ Not during your most intimate and private moments together.  It is possible, if that is the kind of sense of humor there is in your relationship, that he was innocently joking.  But, I sense that you don't feel that way and are confused and rather offended that he makes any such comments.  The humor in a joke often stems from the truth of it...  You really need to sit down and talk with your husband and lay out some quidelines and expectations for your marriage.  What I would do, is tell your manboy husband that this kind of "joking" is hurtful or bothersome to you and you would rather he did not talk like that.  You may want to look into some counseling in order to get an outside perspective and some support.  Be sure and give your husband all of the things you would want yourself in the relationship, such as Trust, Compassion, Respect, Honesty and of Course good ol' fashioned L O V E.
654486
write him an email  with 365 words one word for everyday you have loved hime that much more because you got married!  congrats on ur first  year!!
293632
That is good you got it off your chest an guess what he feels the same way let it be can be taking two ways first of all we both are with someone so lets not do anything about how we both Feel. Second its like this if both of us are to get together let it happen lets not push it you have more to lose in this fling being that you are married just\nstep up to the plate and ask him about how he feels about what you said an what ever his answer live with it
793315
It sounds very sweet and completely normal.  I still get shivers when my husband says my name and not "baby" or "honey".  Not that I don't like his nicknames for me, but it's a very happy experience to hear him say my name.   It's hard to explain, but I'm sure you understand ;)
917756
I pretty much just have to warn my husband that I am PMS'y, lol. I get extremely mean as well. It has taken years, but I finally can say im sorry right after I say something mean. It really does make me and him feel better. It's humiliating, but if you can say sorry right after the meanness, it makes for a much happier life and you won't have everyone mad at cha!
820492
You need to let him know that while you are married to him you are not his possession.... you are not a TV or a couch, or a car! He has proven his love for you in marriage but being your husband is a privilege and a joy that he needs to earn everyday... and in return there is no greater gift in the world than a woman who feels respected, loved and desired by her man... My wife is the best part of my life and there is nothing that I would not do for her... Your hubby needs to not take you for granted just because you said "I DO"... he should be romantic and earn your love!
343651
I would start learning your husband's native language seriously. Show some respect by at least trying to learn his culture (by learning the language first). He will be so impressed by your willingness. Let alone your in-laws! And also, it is OKAY to remind (or tell) them occasionally to please translate the jokes in English. Or tell your husband that you like to get involved in the discussions and have him translate it for you once in awhile. \n\nAnd some insider, it is not that easy to have somebody speak in English (or whatever language you both share) every single time when English is not even their native language (this goes to the man. So appreciate him even more).
350576
There are thousands of ways to say it!  I say it a lot to my boyfriend and show it through small ways, just by perhaps buying him a small present occassionally or cooking him his favourite food (the food one works particularly well).  Affectionate things like rubbing your hand over a guy's chest or licking a guy's ear never goes a miss either!
801843
How about writing him a long surprise email...telling him how u felt from the first time u laid eyes on him till this very day...how the 2 of u have grown together and how important he is to u. Attach a song to the email...a song that reflects how u feel....a song that will hit them right in the heart :)