How do I get a girl that likes me to go out with me? she said she didnt want to hurt me though?!?
545442
Try not to come across as a whimp, so that she doesn't need to fear to hurt you?
1028719
LEAVE THE HO! You deserve better. When she said she likes you she might have been lying to protect your feelings. She obviously doesn't treat you right if she's pulling that crap. You'll get someone better I promise.
311151
by asking her out. serious, just be yourself around her, and shell go out w/ u.
1171840
well ask her on a date... if she says yes (unless she has some totally reasonable excuse; family dinners don't count) then that is a sure fire way to tell she is into you. Then just tell her you are interested in dating her. Nothing scares a person away more than telling them how passionate you feel about them to early. Take it slow until you feel you can truely trust her. Trust meaning she won't take you for a wild "hot and cold" ride. You want her will tell you frankly how she feels. Good luck mate... and don't worry if it doesn't work out... soo many freakin' fish in the sea!
292638
It's going to be tough if she doesn't like you to begin with.  In other words, whatever you do won't impress her much.  Just set your sights on someone else. I'm sure there's someone out there who would like you just the way you are even when you don't put your best foot forward.
804181
talk to her about it.  See if she wants to go out with you or if she likes things the way they are.
1023548
Why don't you go up to her and tell her you like her, and ask her if she would like to go out on a date. good luck
170454
just ask her! cuz if she really likes u then what is she gonna say??? but if she did say no, her loss. i hope it all works out!!!
402105
Be brave,ask her out. Simple as that.Some people spend too much time wondering,if I do this,will he or she do that.Just jump right straight to the point.Hi,what's up or whatever and then boom-hammer down-ask her out. Say something like Hi(her name)I'm going out to say a concert,would you like to go with me. All she can say is yes or no. When she says no,don't ask her out again. Make another choice for a girl you would like to date and date them instead. Sometimes when a girl has seen the boy that just asked her out with another,it kinda makes them wonder a little.Especially if she were to find out how much fun was had. Plan someplace you'd like to go that is fun.Then go,maybe even ask others-go as a group.Just have fun. When I was dating,fun was the in thing. Dating wasn't as fun as going in a group because it made the girls feel too attached to the person they were dating,but going as a group,you had more fun,everyone not so serious.Most times each person paid their own way. We used to go to the rivers(had large picnics-cook-outs,Sometimes we'd all get together and go to the local beach,or we'd decide on a movie,you follow what I am saying. Going as a group seems to let everyone be themself more,without all the love stuff involved in a date.Sometimes,no matter what you think of a girl,that girl could be nerveous about being alone with you.Nothing you do to cause this,some girls are just that way.Make it easy for her to say yes.Going as a group,she has time to get to know you without being totally alone with you in a relaxing atmosphere.I think it's funny how some boys think they know everything about girls,but unless you are a girl,how would you know. And about that dance,does Debbie dance well?If she doesn't she may have been scared for you to see how she dances.I see you like to dance,so that is a major plus for you.Almost all girls I've known just love to dance and admires a guy who will dance  with them.Dancing is a universal language.If she can't dance well offer to teach her how. (she'll bug you for dances once she learns)
532108
Just become really good friends before you start a relationship! Trust me, I've gone into a relationship based on physical things (without a strong friendship) and things didn't work out! I think it's great that you are willing to wait until she seems ready to "make a move"! I wish more guys were like that. Find out what type of things she likes to do. Maybe you could invite her to go bowling you and a couple of friends, or go to coffee(i suggest Starbucks), or out to eat,  or somewhere else that you guys could just talk.  I know the movies are fun but you should do something where the two of you can talk. You can't really get to know someone that well by going to the movies. To keep her interested in you maybe you could just flirt with her a little, every girl likes to be flirted with every once and a while. Good luck! If you want any more advice on it you could always contact me.
401555
be ur self\nif she really likes u for u thats the way to go\n\nand dont try and feel her up on the first date lol
129496
just do it tell her you like her and ask her to go out with you theres no really right way just get to the point and be straight forward
283248
ask her to hang out be yourself it could mean she likes someone else but then again it could mean that because you didnt ask her to hang again or ask her out she thinks you dont like her so start with asking her to dinner and a movie or coffee talk to her ask her to hang again if she says no well then sorry hun but if she say yes your good too go you know what to do from there!!
519268
its simple, just ask her out... or pass her a note... thats how i got asked out
387960
Am I missing something?  If she is a nice girl and the two of you hit it off, go out with her.  If you don't have anything in common, don't string her along but don't be mean. Either way, be tactful and a gentleman.
922408
yes but time is of the essence! when you ask her out show her a soft side( I wanted to tell you how I felt  but I was afraid it might lead to you rejecting me) she will eat that  up !
1164662
Just ask her out.  Making a move and showing that you're interested doesn't make you a "player."  Quit worrying about it so much, get out of your comfort zone, and just DATE.