How can i enjoy a good harmony in relationship?
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Both of you have to do it, not just you...you may have to teach him by your example?\n\nBe firm but don't lose your temper.\n\nBe kind but don't get walked over.\n\nThink hard but never worry.\n\nCreate a "positive cycle" where everything you both do makes your relationship that little bit better...even if only a tiny little bit each time.\n\nRemember that a sense of humour is infinitely attractive and gets you wnat you want in the long run.\n\nDon't be afraid to be bold.\n\nDon't be afraid to be vulnerable.\n\nRemember that you have to love and like yourself FIRST before you can be the real you in your relationship.\n\nHave fun - you only live once!\n\nBe safe - you only *get* to live once!!
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Try something exciting to entice your relationship
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Not to complicate things or anything but it really depends on how each persons acts within a relationship.  As long as each person asks like themselves and is not trying to put on an act to ipress the other person it can be great.  Seeing that each one of you accept one another for who you are. \n  On the other side if you feel like you have to be soembody you are not simply to get the other person to like you then the relationship is doomed to fail, because you will eventually get tired of not being yourself.  The relationship will be horrible.\n  Being in a relationship can be the greatest thing ever. All you have to do is comunicate and be yourself and you will be happy
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if you are both adult about it you could have a great time without wrecking your relationship.\ngo for it.
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Make time for each other, relaxing time that you can both enjoy.
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Try having a baby...you will be 'upgraded' to a parent and that feeling will definitely revive all that jazz...it will also bring you two closer in body and soul.
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just remember the good qualities in each other and always stick together and rely on each other. trust is a major part of a relationship.
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When the person compliments you in every way! Thinks that you are the cats meow! And vice versa! Love can be a wonderful thing if you both give in the relationship! Life is way too short to be miserable and in a bad relationship. Everyone deserves to be loved and to be treated like a princess or a prince!
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Be open, responsive, and willing to compromise. It isn't always easy, but if u can do this, your relationship will stay strong
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Relax and enjoy it.  Remember that a marriage is a lot of hard work, and takes a lot of commitment.  The more you share with each other the greater the reward.  Don't let arguments fester, and don't dwell on all the little things that ultimately aren't that important.  And last of all realize that there is no such thing as a perfect relationship and that over time the intesity of your feelings will fade some but that is normal and not a sign of anything being wrong with your relationship.
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yup. happens all the time. pick the one who REALLY makes you happy. somebody you can tell everything about. discuss stuff. be close with. don't get carried away with attraction only.
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try to find something common between them. are they good to each other? if not then talk to the more flexible one about it and how u would like them to be friends or at least adjust. maybe doing that with ur boyfriend is easier cz if he really loves u he will do anything to make u happy (especially that it's a simple thing). if it doesn't work out and u used all the possibilities, just ignore the whole thing and treat each one alone. there's no need for all of u to exist in the same scenario
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I'm having the same problem myself. The way I decided to solve my problem, was to be great friends, but casual daters. If you value your relationship (as friends and lovers) talk about it...over chinese food or pizza or something. Really talk about if you think the relationship will last more than a month and what would really change once you 'officially' started dating. would there really be a difference in how you act around each other other than physically (i.e. hand-holding, kissing, etc.)?
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In terms of stability, one of the most important things in any partnership is an underlying friendship. That is especially true in marriage. There is nothing that creates more stability in a marriage than for the partners to be best friends and to fully respect one another as such. Being lovers in addition is simply a bonus. =p
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You respect each other, understand each other, share your feelings, have a good time with them.
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No doubt, good sex is an important component of any relationship.  The bigger question is:  Do you like yourself?  Do you find that you get along with yourself?  Do you make yourself laugh?  If so, I think you found a perfect match.
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Ask yourself if you can live with all the in differences sounds like it might be difficult to always have him being the one who is right and in control you have to do what makes you happy any relationship is a 50/50 deal :)