How do i ask a girl out without embarissing myself?
546464
Easy - do it in a way that wont make it look like you're in feet first. If you know her reasonably well and get talking why not suggest a coffee or a drink one night. Then if she says no, you could say something like "oh, no problem, just thought it'd be cool to catch up" - no harm done!
215718
Women like men who are up front and confident.  Just go up to her and ask her if you could talk privately with her. She'll most likely say Ok. Then just tell her you find her attractive or just say you like her and would she be interested in going out on a date.  She'll either say no thanks, sure I would love to, or I'll think about it. If she says no, then forget it. If she says yes, then you got it made. If she says I'll think about it, it usually means she's interested in you and will go out with you. But don't be timid, be up-front. It won't kill you if she says no. Just count it as practice, and ask another girl out.
1159287
Asking someone out is basically asking for their approval. Show her that you are secure enough with yourself that while her approval would be welcome, you'll be perfectly fine without it.  In other words, don't press the issue.  Remember, self confidence is very attractive. \n\nThink of it this way, if she doesn't give you an aswer that is your answer.
505828
1. What is the question? how to get her?\n2. First of all, girls...all girls...are attracted to confidence. You sound like you do'nt have too much of that...If you ACT like you have confidence, that is attractive to women.\n3. It's all about the game of "he who cares less"\n4. Start small - talk to her. Do you have classes with her? Start with little things like..."hi"..then progress to little things like "did you see that movie last weekend?" See? At least get on her radar.\n\nBut really it's the confidence thing you can do.
1136294
Confidence! Have confidence, man!  Don't slap her on the donkey or anything, just be assertive. ASK HER OUT! If she's making eye contact, she's likin' you too.
177956
Well you're shy, so then the confidence thing will only work if you're slightly cocky.  So we'll ignore that approach.\n\nYou're best bet is to find something in common with the girl you're interested in.  If you can't strike up a conversation with somebody, it's not going to happen, YOU GOT to be able to casually strike up a conversation.  If it's someone you 'sorta' know, be able to say hello & find something that relates to her & you.  If not, then say something random that you like & see if she responds (NO PICK UP LINES!!!)  It really doesn't matter what you say, just the fact you said it.  \n\nNow from there you can ask for casual dates, if you are not comfortable asking for 'dinner' or 'going back to my place'  You need to be able to find out what she is interested in & then find something that would interest her in doing it with you.  If you're talking about movies, find a great movie nearby & ask if she wants to go.  If she like coffee, go for coffee, if she likes plays, find something like a play.  IT DOES NOT HAVE TO BE AWKWARD!  All you need to say is 'Hey you like ______?  Me too!  They're showing ____ at the ______ on _____!  Would you like to go?'  If she says no, than move on.  If she says sure, casually ask for her number so you can 'coordinate' it & give her one phone call so she knows it's all arranged & off you go. \n\n* Important at the end of whatever you're doing don't just go straight home, find something else that can detain her for awhile, so you can talk about whatever you chose to do.  This'll show your interest & then you can plan (Or run away) for what happens next*
1135006
First of all, don't let her know that you are intimidated. If she is nice and has a good personality concentrate on that, that probably means she won't laugh at you or anything if you make a fool of yourself by saying something stupid if you ask her out even if she isn't interested. Just be sweet and friendly and look her in the eyes (As much as you can manage to anyway.) just be yourself. If she says no, she says no. If she acts like a )*^&% about it...well she obviously wasn't so great. ^_^ Good luck with her.
998658
Just be your self and ask her out! and then ask her if she wants to be more!
375851
JUST GO AHAD AND ASK HER OUT THE WORST THING SHE CAN DO IS SAY NO TO YOU OR U COULD GET TO KNOW WHAT KIND OF PERSON SHE IS, THE KIND WHO JUGES YOU BY WHAT PEOPLE SAY OR THE KIND WHO RATHER GET TO KNOW YOU THEMSELVES.
291219
i used to ask myself the same question about some chick....but yeah as much as you would like to think you're dating you're not dating unless you call it a date....but it seems you're close enough to the girl...so start making some moves man, i'm sure she wont mind...you know little things and stuff, try to make it offical and just talk to her about...i know my other friend was worried he might ruin it friendship by asking his best friend out...but i believe you got nothing to lose and all to gain
1127840
well just go up to her or whatever and just start a conversation and ask her then but if you really like this girl you must ask her.  it does not matter whether she rejects you or not .  but as long as you had asked her.  because if you dont ask her then your going to be thinking "why didnt i ask her"
183263
first of all show respect even asking her out don't really say anything but show everything watch her in eyes every time you see her a question about your attitude from her will let you know when to do further until you satisfy the desire without asking nothing at all.
1185952
Ask.\nWorse they can say is 'no'. So, take that as an answer. \nMost will be flattered and you picked her to ask.  \n\nNot for any particular reason - for sex for example - if it happens that's OK, but don't push it. Just be gentle with them, converse, be yourself (they like that). \n\nYou are afraid of rejection. Be prepared for rejection but you will be surprised how 8 times out of 10 you will get a positive response.
723042
I think its nice that u really like this girl. Do u think she might like u? It might be best to ask a few people who know her to see what they think. The last thing u want to happen for the 1st time asking out a girl is the chance she may say no. That will hurt. A good way to ask her out is maybe to say "i wondered if your seeing anyone at the moment because if not id like to take you out for a drink". Make it casual, smile as you speak. If you dont try you will never know. Good luck!
379323
Just try to be yourself, and have confidence. I don't know any girl who doesn't like a man with confidence, but don't be cocky about it. Slip it in casually and don't make to much of a big deal about it. Something like "hey hows it goin? If you're free tonight did you want to (insert whatever you're asking her to)?" Whatever she says stay calm and say ok that's cool. And don't linger around for to long after, that makes things weird.. Good luck. =)
214311
Being a guy, I can tell you it doesn't require a manual to do so. Make sure the guy doesn't have a girlfriend already and ask him yourself. Most guys are too nervous to ask girls out, so take charge and ask them. Nothing fancy. All it takes is "Will you go out with me" and most guys are like melted butter in your hands.
534983
get to no her a little more first and then just ask her out