If your date do not go to bed with you the man ,what will you do to her?
551075
so when can i see you again.
690074
You might want to really think about this when the situation isn't right in front of you, kind of like you're doing now.\n\nThere is a lot of room for variation in "I don't feel like having sex".  Are you feeling like you don't really feel like it much, or are you feeling like you REALLY don't want to have sex, that it would be a miserable experience for you?  \n\nIf it's a matter of not being in full mood, maybe he could be the more active partner and you can be more passive.  I don't think that anyone should have sex against their will, but sometimes I used to say no and it wouldn't have really been a big deal to say "yes" either.  Guys don't always need to have extended sexual contact and this kind of time would be a chance for him to sort of have an express lane sort of experience and then go to sleep.\nIt's possible you could become more interested in more extended lovemaking, or maybe you won't.  Who knows?\n\nIf you REALLY don't want to have sex, perhaps you could make a date with him to have sex the next day or in the morning or later that night or...\nwell, you get the idea.\n\nYou could even tell him why you don't feel like having sex--too tired, too worried, whatever.  My experience is that my guy doesn't really want to hear about it and he backs off.\n\nIt's too bad people's moods don't line up better sometimes!
1177008
1. Legs, arms, etc. don't shave...for guys its meant to be there\n2. If you mean with the ladies...I'd say that he treats her with complete respect, and is able to express how he truly feels\n3. Depending on the age, i guess, but i would say dinner (so there's time to talk) and then a movie back at her house (so she feels comfortable and knows you're not trying to make a move but also there is a chance to cuddle and feel close)\n4. Sense of Humor, all the way, I love a guy that can make me laugh.
249851
If you want a long-term relationship, I strongly recommend not going to bed on the first date. This sends a big message to guys that you do this with all guys you date, and many guys don't want to get serious with a girl who has been around the block with everyone. If the date goes well, give him a long kiss goodnight. He'll get the message and come back for more. Then take it from there.
35640
Depends on the guy. If he is used to women going after him, act laid back. If women don't go after him, be flirty - but if women don't go after him, I doubt you would either.
943352
i would take her at her word.  she would be a tease-one of the worst things for a man.
377500
Have you told her how you feel?  I'm sure she, like most women and some men, after a long day feels sex is the last thing on her mind.  You have to romance her, woo her, sweep her off of her feet.  Women like it when you do things for her without her asking you to, like cook dinner or clean up after the kids or yourself.  It can tend to be a good aphrodisiac.  Hope this helps.
797437
make him take you ought ot a nice rest. in town and order a big meal then dump him.....that way youre fool and done with him...im a guy and he is a turd
1082481
Well I would just continue to wait for the right person to do it with. The longer you wait trust me you will forget about it. On the other hand you could go and have a one nighter but make sure you wrap it up.
1096052
Considering the man: to relax, get rid of his excess power\n\nConsidering the wife or girl friend: she would not have sex anyway shortly after a fight, not feeling comfortable in such a situation\n\nSo what else should the man do?\n\nIt would be much easier, if the wife would be able to put the fight out of her mind - and to have sex as a kind of new start.\n\nI'm celeb, so I don't have the problem - and I have never paid for sex.
518855
what do you care what's going on?  You already screwed the guy, why worry about any of the rest of the typical dating rituals now?
199061
Turn on and Turn off I can't answer I am not a girl. But dude movies is not the best choice for a date take her out to a place they have never gone something different. Don't try too hard the simplest things become the best nights
1076245
Date is simple. Dinner somewhere so we can talk without being bothered. A nice walk, maybe on the beach, hopefully holding hands. Sit somewhere and talk some more, without getting too heavy or personal. A drive to the bottle shop for some wine and maybe a great DVD. Watch, if she chooses to stay, crash next to each other and wake up in each others arms-all messy.\n\nRelationship. One that respect and understanding is placed above all other things. She will care and love me, taking all my bad points and accepting them for what they are. I will listen to her emotional needs and understand her pains. We will work on a goal and achieve them together. Money won't be such a big issue but our ongoing connection will matter most. When she is cold, I will hold her to give heat. If I am disheartened, she will be there with words to uplift my soul. We desire the same amount of love and expect it unconditionally.
488413
Don't change a thing sweetheart.., your doing just fine. The way you treat a lady will draw that someone special to you.., I just don't think you have met her yet. Most guy's put on a nice face then turn into werewolves at midnight !! I appreciate that it's not a front with you.., stay who you are.., don't be changing for no one !!!! You will find her.
223493
A big one would be making excuses as to why she can't go out with you.  Women don't want to hurt a man's feelings, so instead of just flat out telling them they aren't interested, they will make excuses.\n\nEDIT:  Oh, man I totally apologize.  I've got a touch of dyslexia, and I thought it said not interested.  Just ignore my bumbling rant.  But at least you will have an idea of what to expect if she's not.
70794
depends if u like her... (btw work on the spellin)\nif u like her go, if not, dont there's no point of goin out with her if you dont like her. ok its nice if shes hot, but that only matters if you like her... unless what ur gettin at is to get her in bed an then leave, then duh go out w/her.  but im just sayin now, if u leave her after u please her, shes gonna be pretty hurt, so id say dont... dowhatever is in ur besdt interests.
496502
You're in there. Don't rape her or anything stupid, but if you're in bed together you're half way there.