a child,and the art of geting a child[sex] which do parrents feel more happy for?
554478
...If it is a really happy couple, then they should be happy about both the child and the sex!
189582
Money can not buy happiness. If it does than that is to say that I can buy your feelings and if you are feeling really low then that means that I am can buy you to be happy. That is wrong. But it is true that it does buy toys that makes you happy if you are a child and I do not mean literally either I mean even at heart.
5049
Want him/her to be happy even if it means with someone else.
931249
Made love to. If you have had both why would you choose the other? \n It is so much better if you have a connection with someone. Being "sexed up" is fun, but leaves you feeling empty. Any female who would rather be sexed up has issues.
621050
before is better, when trying to have a child.\n\nAfter is better, mostly for pleasure.
837365
Having a child to "make you feel better" or for some other shallow reason is never the right decision. What happens when you want to smack your child around or just get rid of them because is "makes you feel better?" You don't have a job, you don't have a husband, and you don't have family to support you. You definitely don't need to have a kid. Think about how hard you have it now and imagine how hard it will be for the child who has no grandparents, no father, and a mother who can't support it.
1112706
Because it's fun! And, because it's the only way to get your own kids, and, because, it's the most sacred way to tell someone how much you love them. Plus it's fun! Peace. :)
60105
Each child that is born is a blessing from God.. After you have children of your own you'll realize it for yourself.. \n\nThe joy that is experienced when a baby is brought into the world is an undescribable feeling.. Seeing the child develop and grow and experience the world with 'new eyes' is a powerful, awe-inspiring testament to the beauty that God has blessed us with.. When you have a child you can vicariously re-experience the same feelings you had when you were a child and see the world with innocence and joy..
257849
To procreate, and have fun.
528489
I am actually surprised you have not talked to your child about this before, it is especially important that you do in this age of ours before he/she hears false and inaccurate information from his/her environment, because kids can be very curious but at the same time completely clueless.\n\nDo not be shy, and try to answer all the questions that he/she has about the subject without getting too graphic. Remember, show that you have absolute confidence in and knowledge of the subject and he/she will listen and believe you above all others. Make him/her feel comfortable even if you feel slightly uneasy yourself, and make sure that you establish that should he/she have any more questions, you will always be available. Remember that this is not a one-time lecture; it is a process that will help your child develop healthy ideas about sex and sexuality.\n\nYou essentially need to explain that it is a beautiful and pleasurable act of love that crowns the relationship between a man and a woman, and can even lead to the formation of new life, which would be your child him/herself. Talk about the value system behid it. Explain the basic biology behind it in simple terms, but don't leave huge gaps that will leave your child curious and unsatisfied. That will only lead him/her to go search for the answers somewhere else, and you do not want your child to be misled.\n\nBut most importantly, do not make your child feel as if it is a dirty, horrible and taboo subject. You do not want to shock him/her or make him/her feel guilty about wondering about the subject.\n\nGood luck!
1056044
I vote nurture, but there is no wrong answer here.\nA child raised in the slums with barely a roof over his head has the potential to soar just as well as a student born with a silver spoon in their mouth. I believe that a person is mostly a culmination of all their experiences. How they respond to the world is based on previous events and their parents experiences and influence. I believe that a good parent can raise a strong, confident and successful child no matter what their home looks like. I also believe that an abusive parent can ruin even a child born in to the most promising of situations. That is why women who pay big bucks to be artificially inseminated by geniuses don't get to raise little genius babies.
1137560
experience over a rookie works for me all the time!but once i had a babyboy(we were both teens)and it was kinda cute and i liked it.but i'm grown up now and i don't want a boy......i need to be manhandled!
881868
I think that most people would want love making, the pure emotions  of knowing someone truly cares about you for who you are. Pure sex feels good at the time, but there will always be regrets. Now you can have wild sex with someone you love and then you have the best of both worlds!\nThank you for this question, and i hope i answered nicely for you!
1175552
I think there is more to ur situation than sex.  The other person may not be on the same wavelength with you, he may just be in it for sex.  When u have to make a "life" decision it should be about you and not anyone else.  Think about what would make you happy.  If you have children know that only when you're happy they will be happy, they can sense when ur unhappy.  Don't sacrifice your happiness for anyone or anything. Have faith and be strong.
594723
There is no right way...it's just the way you feel about it. If you feel that you can love and take care of a child with out a partner, do it that way. If you feel the need to have a family complete with a mom and dad, then find someone who will be there long enough to provide. You don't necessarily have to get married...you should just have enough love in your heart to provide for any kids.
220367
The emotional support and mental support that a person gains from true love that has developed over time is something that technology could never replace.  Without it, our society will be souless and lacking a deeper understanding of what it means to love another person.  \n\nThen you have the subject of parenting.  It takes two to parent, in an ideal situation.  A man is different from a women and a child needs both.  It is proven that children benefit from growing up in a home with both poarents who love each other.  I feel guilty about that because I am a single parent and hate my daughter father.\n\nSo yeah, technology can't touch that, no matter what a swinger or a feminist or a domineering woman with her kids in the daycare all day and night say.  No offense to anyone out there...  ;)
603420
people make themselves happy - trying to make someone else happy is like screwing for virginity