how do i attract the right kind of girl..Not a Butch? bi or lesbian girls only please.?
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Be yourself and in time you'll find the right girl.
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Sure.  Try looking into activities that have strong "young lesbian & bi girl" appeal.  Ani D. concert, anyone?  And progressive politics is very common place to meet people.\n\nBelieve me, there are lots of girls out there in every small town.  This is not that statistically rare a minority we are in.  Be patient; tends to happen when you're least expecting it.  And if you meet someone you like, show her some attention, and spend time with her one-on-one; you never know...\n\nMost important of all:  if you want to be loved, and to be touched, you have to be FEARLESS.
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Introduce yourself to her and start off with some small chat... let it go naturally from there.  Be yourself and have some confidence... i look for guys that are sincere, honest, funny, cute, can make me smile, a good listener...the usual basic stuff every girl wants.
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im lesbian so untill we talk or meet im not sure maybe ur just that type of girl that women find attractive...ur looks or how you treat ppl ect.  I love pretty eyes and busty girls. Pm me!
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tell her you dont want to lose her as a friend but your 100% straight and only into males - also tell her your flattered by her interest - but you would rather forget it ever happened and just carry on as before hope this helps :-)
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be yourself.  don't try to be something you are not just to attract girls.  have patience.  the harder you try the longer it will take.  show respect towards girls don't be egoistic.  All the Best.
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find the right girl, who doesn't think you're a loser. ask her out. should work fine.
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Be yourself, don't worry about other women. Believe me you want the right guy not just any guy that will date you,be content with who you are.
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Finding a girl with the qualities your looking for isn't impossible to find.You just have to look harder or sometimes stop looking and she will come to you. Best way to find that type of girl, be open minded, be yourself, be honest with her.
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The best thing that you can do is to be yourself. Talk about things that you know a lot about (ie. music, movies, a sport/hobby). Also be sure to ask the girl about herself, her interests, who she hangs out with. This will show the girl you are interested in getting to know who she is inside and it will help you figure out what you have in common to talk about.\nGirls can tell when someone is being genuine and down-to-earth, and when they are not. Any girl worth being around is going to want someone genuine and will like you for who you really are not who you pretend to be.
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Just be yourself. Start as freinds just be nice, but not to nice as to be fake. You have two ears and one mouth, listen twice as much as you talk, chicks love to talk. Ask easy questions and really listen, ask other qeustions based on what they talk about and keep listening. Be clean, do not stink. Brush your teeth, no bad breath. Look neat and put together, chicks are into that and notice. Don't just try to jump their bones, be a freind get close, start dating and it will flow. Remember to be a freind. May the force be with you, good luck bro. xoffice.com
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well,remember that everyguy is defferent, but we all like hot chicks no matter what a hot chick will turns us on just by being hot. there are some qualitys that me and my friends search in a girl:they have to have preety face, they have to be unique at dressing, be social and frendly, easy outgoing and sweet ...\nwell just being ur self, but it depends on the guy u like, try to adjust at the type of guy u like .
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Be straight foward, dont lead her on with anything that could be mistaken for more then freindship.  If she starts touching your hair or any part of you, stand straight up, or just pull back like, "ewww".. almost automaticly.  Send accurate vibes.  However, if you find that you have possible feelings, which I read that you either do, or your really young, then you need to try to hold stong to a moral, like the Holy Bible, I dont know if you read it or not but its the best thing a person cold do. I am a "recovering" homosexual who is celebate forevermore, so I am not without sympathy for your situation or your friends. I would say though, you should definatly reevaluate all your freinds with this in mind, "You are the company you keep" and this is what you turn into, slowly but surly, in little ways and big before you know it (I'm not talking about lesienisim nessisarly however).  So make sure you are with the classification of people you want to grow into.  Be kind but BE FIRM.  I believe in you!
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Hii!! No one can help!! You want a girlfriend, listen when a girl talked to you, dont try to control what they think, do or wear , respect them like they are men- equals.....
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Don't believe you're simple. That won't work. YOU ARE SPECIAL. Feel that and own it, just be yourself. MAke people around you feel special too. Be interested in them and what they've got going on. Just have fun! People are drawn to fun girls!
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Lol, you really sound like you're dying inside. If you'd really like a tip, don't ask her first if she swings your way or not, that's more than just an unromantic question, that's a killer for whatever possible feelings that a straight girl may have on you. Express your feelings, classic way is giving gifts. Spend more time with her on common interests, see if she is also interested in speding time with you. Best  chance for you is to cultivate a great relationship, and not drop the "I like you real bad" bomb.\n\nBelieve me, if you spend a lot of time with her, she will know. Girls are very perceptive. Then slowly show her that you'er falling for her. Poetry works for me, but I'm not recommending it to you if you're not into sappy stuff, whatever rocks her world.\n\nAnd after all your wooing and pursuing (not agrressively), if she's scared of the relationship going "gay", she will drift away, if not, you can steal a kiss one moonlit night and check out what happens.\n\nSlow and cool mate, slow and cool.
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u r looking for the wrong girls...\nand just be yourself rather than trying to be someone else\nand remember that all girls are different, but that doesn't mean you change for them..\ni found this somewhere, i didnt write it but i can highly relate to it, and so can many of the girls you are looking for....\n\nTo the nice girls who are overlooked, who become friends and nothing more, who spend hours fixating upon their looks and their personalities and their actions because it must be they that are doing something wrong. This is for the girls who don't give it up on the first date, who don't want to play mind games, who provide a comforting hug and a supportive audience for a story they've heard a thousand times. This is for the girls who understand that they aren't perfect and that the guys they're interested in aren't either, for the girls who flirt and laugh and worry and obsess over the slightest glance, whisper, touch, because somehow they are able to keep alive that hope that maybe... maybe this time he'll have understood. This is homage to the girls who laugh loud and often, who are comfortable in skirts and sweats and combat boots, who care more than they should for guys who don't deserve their attention. This is for those girls who have been in the trenches, who have watched other girls time and time again fake up and make up and screw up the guys in their lives without saying a word. This is for the girls who have been there from the beginning and have heard the trite words of advice, from "there are plenty of fish in the sea," to "time heals all wounds." This is to honor those girls who know that guys are just as scared as they are, who know that they deserve better, who are seeking to find it.\n\nThis is for the girls who have never been in love, but know that it's an experience that they don't want to miss out on. For the girls who have sought a night with friends and been greeted by a night of catcalling, rude comments and explicit invitations that they'd rather not have experienced. This is for the girls who have spent their weekends sitting on the sidelines of a beer pong tournament or a case race, or playing Florence Nightingale for a vomiting guy friend or a comatose crush, who have received a drunk phone call just before dawn from someone who doesn't care enough to invite them over but is still willing to pass out in their bed. This is for the girls who have left sad song lyrics in their away messages, who have tried to make someone understand through a subliminally appealing profile, who have time and time again dropped their male friend hint after hint after hint only to watch him chase after the first blonde girl in a skirt. This is for the girls who have been told that they're too good or too smart or too pretty, who have been given compliments as a way of breaking off a relationship, who have ever been told they are only wanted as a friend.\n\nThis one's for the girls who you can take home to mom, but won't because it's easier to sleep with a whore than foster a relationship; this is for the girls who have been led on by words and kisses and touches, all of which were either only true for the moment, or never real to begin with. This is for the girls who have allowed a guy into their head and heart and bed, only to discover that he's just not ready, he's just not over her, he's just not looking to be tied down; this is for the girls who believe the excuses because it's easier to believe that it's not that they don't want you, it's that they don't want anyone. This is for the girls who have had their hearts broken and their hopes dashed by someone too cavalier to have cared in the first place; this is for the nights spent dissecting every word and syllable and inflection in his speech, for the nights when you've returned home alone, for the nights when you've seen from across th