why do women need to have men not only pay for everything on a date, but then complain when they don't call.
444576
not all women are like that, some women pay for themselves or at least offer, perhaps you are dating the wrong type of women.
205919
If a girl swears it is an immediate turn-off because it smacks of trailer trash, also ANY conversation about an ex- gets an automatic ONE date notice.  Also if a girl ever was so rude to begin talking on a cell phone or text messaging a friend, I would get up, where ever I was and let them know they should find their own way home, and leave.
995957
It's because women are so much more emotional than men and for some reason we sometimes like to know if our man is thinking something good (or bad) about us. I know it probably gets annoying to men, but just have patience. Women are just wired differently than men, emotionally. And we feel the need to do things sometimes that feel perfectly normal to us but seem silly to men.
687241
its not just your guy nor is just guys, some women dont listen either. its called selective deafness, they only hear what they want to hear, next time he asks you to do something pretend you didnt hear, he will soon get the message.
771386
I guess it really depends on the nature of the relationship and the personalities of the individuals.  For the most part I would say that the guy should assume the role of paying for the dates.  However some more independent women or those in a more friend-like relationship might feel more comfortable going dutch.\n\nJust don't ever assume or expect the girl to pay unless it was already agreed upon.  Always at least offer or be willing to pay the bill.
1002792
Hell no!  LOL!  I know, I know... some women are into that, but it ain't me.  Dating is an interview for marriage imo, and if he can't support me on a little thing like that... why would I expect him to be financially stable on anything else?  Now, later on in the relationship... after you've been together say, at least 6 months... then I could see helping a dude out if he needs it.  I've given my man $20 here and there for gas when he was having a rough time.  But in general, he knows how I feel about those things.  Luckily for me though, he feels the same way... has pride about providing for "his woman" or whatever.  heh.\n\nP.S. Why are you asking this?  Is it out of your own concern, or is it because he *refuses* to pay more than 50%?  Cause I think that makes a big difference in how it should be addressed...
12136
I hate to break it to you, but they're not really women who you're talking to. A lot of it's because some guys realize they can talk to women while they play games and try to pick up on girls while they're there, and so a few companies are trying to capatalize on the horniness of men.
1099412
It's still the game of perceived leverage(gotta have hand). We don't want to come across as too eager, weak or needy. Not all are like that though hon. However, some men do have maturity and maintain old school values, treating women with respect and not playing games.
606041
I cant answer this question because Im trying to understand that also.To many times women will stay with the guy that doesnt treat them right or make them feel cared for etc. and they dont want to find that guy that is waiting to be given a chance to treat someone with everything thier heart can put out.They would rather sit at home and complain than do anything about it,just so you know,that wonderful charming guy is trying to find you but cant because you are still in a relationship..... best wishes
987458
I hate it when my man says he's going to call me at a certain time and fails to do so!
343594
Guys like this are professionals, P.I.M.P's and they prey on women that are established as having it going on, meaning own stable living quarters, job, money car etc. He just needed time to fill you out see what you were willing to give. 9 times out of ten he already has a girl and if not he is looking for someone that is willing to pay to play , don't let that be you.
386492
I guess I'm a bit old-fashioned on that one.  The gentleman should pay the lady's way.  Of course, that can be a little flexible, but in general, I think I was more comfortable paying for dates, even when I wasn't earning all that much.
1153010
Yes, I think it time women took control of the Equal Rights. AND, remember, when you ask us out you pay the way, and, you better respect us in the morning! ;-D
834277
Some suffer low self-esteem and think this makes them feel better. But at the end of the day they wouldnt do it if men didnt buy it etc. Supply and demand I'm thinking!
827234
Some women call or text 5 times a day.  Men just aren't into that sort of thing very much usually.
225115
its a male ego thing. i would be happy that he still wants to pay for me when we go out. there might come a time when things will change but for now enjoy it and dont question him about it. he is probably still upset about leaving his job.
446145
you know those annoying telemarketers, who just wont take no for an answer, and keep calling at inapropriate times for things you really dont give a stuff about. they are all from india too. would u want to date one of those? No. well neither do the women in india. and that is the answer to your question.