my bf penis wont get down...and it can be exausting?
437097
Tell him when you're getting tired.  Maybe he can finish himself off.  This can be done in a sexy way that still involves you, but not so much physical involvement.  If he loves you, he wouldn't want to exhaust you so much.
629625
I'm glad he knows from experience. Focus on your clit hun...shoving weird objects in you isn't the best...unless its a dildo and it moves and vibrates, but in the end it's my clit that has always been faithful.
408023
There's only one way to find out! Try it and use LOTS of lubricant. On you and him. Make sure you have him put it on the inside of your *** and rub around in there with his fingers. When he tries to go in you HAVE to be totally relaxed and he  has to keep going in & out slowly until it's all the way in. I guess you can choose which ever position is most comfortable for you. \nPersonally, I tried it and I did not like it at all! Not one bit. But I know some women who do. SO... with all that being said... Good Luck\nOh you should use K.Y. warming lubricant (it has an orange top)
156527
Please don't think it is you.  There are many reasons why men can't get it up.  It happened to me once and the reason was my b-friend was doing drugs.  I thought it was me but it wasn't.  Medications can also cause this to happen.
731011
um it will eventually just fall off, might want to check with ur gyno I wouldnt be worried though =) I swear the stuff us girls have to deal with
432425
Well first of all, this case adds proof to the fact that bigger is not better! Yes, if his penis size is "endowed" it definitely does some damage to the vagina internally especially if he's been tapping it for years. No wonder you have pain; a large penis is not meant for your vagina. Stop having sex with him and allow time to heal!! OR\nIt'll definitely widen and stretch your vagina eventually forming a nice gap for you, not to mention a number of other problems.
368333
he needs  to get checked out...if he's overweight that could be part of it, could also be stress or something out...get him to go see a doctor
536282
Man please go to the doctors, any thing wrong with your penis see a doc.
938374
get a better bit! it seems like he's just running through it, if you get a better one, he should stop that.  and when you pull back do it with every other hand instead of both, that should help some too./ good luck!
463102
It depends. If you're nervous it could be hard to lubricate naturally, and the penis will force the entrance. Better use some lubricant, and prepare yourself, try to relax, and take your time... It's better if the other person doesn't rush 'into it'. Try some positions. If you're on top, you can control the penetration.
930470
First off how good of shape is your boy friend? Because I can tell you from experience that I recently gained and lost 20 lbs. I was just on a fast food things and drinking lots of beer, and I started to notice that my penis was not performing well anymore. It would get hard and then it would just go limp with out me being able to control it. Well fast forward a month and a half later I have lost the 20 pounds my abs are looking great and now that more blood gets pushed down there via my stomach muscles, I stay hard all the way through. \n\nTell him to start working out his stomach\nkegal exercises are must.\nThis will help his problem.
1144057
Is he stressed out about something?  Stress can do strange things to people and not being able to maintain an erection is one of them.  Try talking to him to figure out what is really going on.  His inability to maintain an erection is probably stressing him out even more.  Just let him know that you are there for him.
1086392
He is a wierdo. maybe he cant get it up
141999
A. He could be Cheating.. Which would explain why he can't get it up for you. B. You could touch his balls and feel if their not tight. *this does depend on if hes came or masturbated in the past day or so* C. You could just ask your husband I mean you are married to the dude and relationships require communication. D. You could do the nuts thing and follow him around and see what hes really up to.E. He coul be just wanting to spend some time with you because he realizes your marriage just isn't about sex. Or maybe you make it seem like its just about sex or want sex to much and he doesn't want that for your marriage. I donno.. You really should ask him seeing how we're not him.
1014443
dont listen to the guy before me that said to have him circumsized. take him to a professional doctor. you shouldnt choose if he is circumsized or not. its his body.
669563
A FULL erection is usually pretty close to the same size every time. Of course their are various stages as the penis becomes fully erect so it could be less in length if he is not fully erect. For various reasons (time since last sexual release, etc.) guys may not get fully erect every time they are with their partners. If he can still perform okay, doesn't seem to be anything to worry about to me...put away that ruler!
1043785
My husband is circumcised and his penis is a bit curved when erect.  Look it up in any book about male health.  This is quite normal.