What is being Desperate?
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Desperate is when you are 'too needy' the guys can't handle the 'over emotionalness' the girl is creating.\n\nTrying doesn't equate to neediness but IF  you are always trying way more than 50% of the relationship, then you are being used.\n\nIt is up to you to spot your patterns, and STOP the sex if you are active.. once a girl gets a rep, that can cause you to be 'used/played' etc..\n\nHave some respect for yourself.. don't make too many demands.. let them chase the crap out of you.. be busy, go bowling, go shopping, hang out with the girls - MAKE them wonder where you are .. don't 'game play and lie about it'.. just be really and honestly busy!! Don't give into sex for at least 6 months of any relationship, to be sure they aren't in it for the 'good time to walk away'.. and remember.. \n\nInsanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result (said by someone wise and said differently but I can't quote the Author, it's just not me)!  Think about that.. and remember that in your day to day life, you'll be shocked at how much that helps you.  You already know that 'being too desperate' doesn't work.. and that you are being played.. change your approach and see how it works out!!  Best Wishes to you!! :)
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Hmm... I'd say you're either desperate or a pedophile/rapist. Hope it's the first one.
516841
what the hell are you trying to say
685225
you sound a bit desperate the idea is to have fun then people find you attractive
466268
what are you trying to say?
301991
Absolutelly not go for it, from a guy we are very chicken at times especially the nice guys the more agressive guys that would ask you out without breaking out in a sweat are probably not nice guys. Being confident is a sign of knowing what you want and sure of yourself a rare thing. I wouldn't say it would come off as desperate. Just knowing what you want and going for it!
1174311
Okay, I give up...what the hell are you trying to ask?
1133149
What the heck are you trying to say?
1128156
It means they were desperate
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i think u shud et him know tht u r interested but if u go n give him ur no maybe it wud seem u r too desperate.....let the desperateness grow in him (it will grow indeed once he gets the hint that u lik him)\nthn he will ask for ur cell no shoe no street no etcetc
858386
It can be normal to be desperate at any age.
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according to your info, you've asked 72 questions!\n\nI, myself, believe this is a convenient way to get answers to questions.  It's simple, and it's fun.\nI don't think it has anything to do with being desperate.
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HUH? What are you trying to ask?
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What are you trying to say?\n\nHow do you expect to get a serious answer when you can't even ask the question properly?
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your still young give it time. being desperate will get you no where.
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Yes sounds very desperate. Don't give him that. Never chase a man, as women we have so much power that we don't realize what we have sometimes. Try talking to the guy. Act like you didn't know what was said, then if he mentions it say oh yeah she was just kidding around with you. If he really likes you nobody can stop him from getting to you, keep that in mind.
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wtf are you trying to say?