should you go to clubs when you're in a relationship?
449854
tell your boyfriend to buy the 2006 calendar in case he forgot that we're in the 21st century. It's totally cool for you to go clubbing. A club isn't just a hook up place it's also a way for u to unwind through dancing, drinking and chatting with your friends. \n\nAs long as you're not picking up guys or giving them your number or letting them write their number on ur bra, it's totally cool and guilt free to go clubbing. \n\nI don't think that the clubbing is the problem at all. Don't feel guilty to want to have fun. you need to have your alone time too even married girls need alone time and girl times. explain that to him. i think the problem really is his trust. He doesn't trust u enough in a setting wherein there are lots of guys around for u to pick. \n\nYou might be able to resolve this by taking him clubbing once or twice. show him that the club doesnt have to be a threatening place that it's actually fun and can be fun for both of u.
85050
It sounds like your boyfriend is self conscience of your relationship and he is he sure of himself.  Have you made attempts to reassure him that he is the only one and that when you go out you are just having fun with your female friends.  \n\nI think many times we as women forget that men can also suffer from low self esteem and can be just as self conscience about relationships as women.
399577
Of course not.  It is your life and there are times when it is easier and best if you are single and able to focus on other things than relationships.
618154
No just go with friends! You are too young, and besides it is way more fun if you are not tied down to one guy for the whole night.  Big groups are much more fun.
396300
You know what it should not matter but it does. He doesn't like it and you guys need to talk about it. I personally like to dance with guys when i go out too. but if my boyfriend doesn't like i would stop it. it's not worth it.
568052
if you decide that you have to go out with someone else- then please break up first... no need to cheat!
1084741
go out with other girls but do not tell your gf - I do it all the time
951489
can't having  a good time sometimes include meeting someone?  i met someone in a club and was with them for over seven years.  \n\ni'd just make sure that wherever you are you're always on the look out!!!  early 20s is not too early to be in a lt relationship - it's not about age it's about how you feel.\n\ngood luck x
431358
Well, single gurls don't want others to know they are actually single and hence don't go alone. Single guys, on the other hand, just think they can get a chick if they go to clubs. It's that simple!
141572
well, the sad truth is that you can't tell your boyfriend who to be friends with.  I understand that you don't like his friend, and that maybe you don't even like who your boyfriend becomes when he is with his friend.  But you can't change him.  You can tell him your concerns and hope that he cares enough for you to stop hanging around with his friend when he is going to strip clubs, but other than that, there really isn't anything that you can do.  Look sweetie, you will learn that you really can't worry about whether or not your man is going to cheat.  If he is, then he is, and if he isn't then you don't need to worry.  but you worrying isn't going to do anything other than make you sick, ya know?  So, just find a way to be happy and comfortable in your relationship.  Be faithful to him and hope that he is doing the same thing.  Trust in your relationship.  This will save you a lot of anguish and pain in the long run.\n\nGood luck!
968513
never.....that is foul. If the person you're in a relationship with  wants to have a threesome with you and another man, he doesn't respect/care about you...I wouldn't go with my wife to a male strip club b/c she wouldn't be going in the first place.  Also if a man is willing to do these things he must be bisexual.
649974
At swingers parties, you do NOT have to do ANYTHING.  you can stay in the main area and dance if you want to.  You can chat up with people you meet and not do anything with them.  the swingers have a rule: "no means no" and they enforce that rule very very strictly!!\nSwingers want to make women feel as comfortable and at ease and safe at the swingers club as possible.  \n\nNow if you go to a party at someones house then the rules are different.  The group is much smaller and then you're expected to F.\nThere is stuff to be learned at the site below.
1178231
Most people go through periods in their relationship in which they wonder if the "grass is greener" somewhere else.  If you feel like wanting to leave much of the time, then you need to figure out what you are missing in this relationship.  If it is just a passing thought, then your relationship is probably fine.\n\nSit down and think about what your life would be like if you left your man versus what it will be like if you stayed with him.  Which gives you more of a feeling of happiness?\n\nMaybe you're not ready to settle down and need time to explore other relationships.  If this is the case, you should end your current relationship as if you don't, you will most likely regret it later and may even come to resent your boyfriend.\n\nIf you do indeed decide to stay with your current man, then spicing up the relationship would be a great idea.  Talk over and role play sexual fantasies with him.  Watch erotic videos together. Go out on dates like you did when you first met.  Try some new activities together so you have more in common.\n\nGood luck and best wishes from ny
40913
Depends if they're your girlfriends or if you're just meeting up with four of your girl mates for an evening.
1066687
YEAH I'd go to the stripclub with my man. I don't see the big deal. He knows i can dance and naked is not a big deal but if he likes those chicks more than me i'm outta there!
984358
Well, girls tend to see parties as places to socialize in general, while single guys tend to see parties as places to pick up girls. Usually when a faithful guy is in a relationship, he just sees a party as a place to hang out with his friends. However, he knows that all the single guys in the place are going to be looking for girls, and he would probably feel a little more uncomfortable bringing you into the sort of environment where he knows he may have competition. It's unreasonable, I know, but it's the truth. If you ever do go to a party with him, just stay really close to him, if other guys hit on you, let them know immediately that you're with your boyfriend (don't say that they're just trying to be nice, your bf knows better), and certainly don't dance with other guys.\n\nThat's just one case, though. It's also likely that he's totally secure with your relationship and just wants a place to act like a dude.
54941
Actually these days,guys HAVE to dance in order to complete the whole "club interaction" thing that goes on. I personally like to dance and have begun taking swing out dance lessons. Do guys like to dance? only if theres something in it for them :)