when u think ur love is cheating u than what u should do??
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Well if you really love him. And yall are in a strong realatationship, you first of all shouldnt even be asking this question. But if yall are in love and you feel its important to be open and honest about things, then ask him. Dont drive yourself crazii wondering. And dont follow him around or spy on him. Just say what youre feeling... and if he is, then its time to move on. And if he's not, then just use the excuse that you knew he wasnt, youre just scared to loose the one you love :)  it always works ;) good luck
888966
If you feel you need to have him investigated and can't trust what he tells you......\n\nfind a new boyfriend.\n\nCut your losses and move on.
1167271
i say go with your heart dont accuse right from the start ask questions over and over and wait for him to slip if hes cheating hell slip sooner or later what ever you do dont come out and say i think your cheatin ask more direct questions like why did it take so many phone calls before you returned one or where were you on tuesday at 7 etc
427876
its not ok to cheat, if u know that the realationship is bad, GET OUT!!!\n\nyou cheat when you don't love the person and you don't care bout them anymore or else you wouldn't do it bc you how much pain this would cause the other person. also some cheat bc they don't see the realationship that they are havin w this person to be worth anythin. when you value somethin you apperciate and you take care of it, the last thing that you would want is to hurt it.\n\nits not ok to cheat, its tempting when your in a bad realtionship, but if it gets down to that, get out of the realationship and date,or sleep around if thats all you need....but don't hurt someones elses feelins!!!
447759
Ask him.  Tell him why you believe it may be true.  Tell him everything you see that leads you to suspect.  If you know the woman you think he is cheating with.. confront her too... in front of her husband/BF if she has one.  \n\nIf he isn't cheating he will tell you why the things happened that led you to think he is.  If his reasons sound phoney or far fetched hes lying to ya.\n\nIf he's cheating, it's his secret to keep.  Not yours... put his @ss on front street!
1026084
if u love him dont leave him... if u dont .. then kick him\n\nbut believe wat u see..........only !!!
922624
Stop stressing yourself if you don't have proof. If you haven't seen him do it don't worry. Keep your head up cause what happens in the dark ALWAYS come to the light. Believe that, just don't think about it all the time cause then you will start to trip on things that he does and he might not even be cheating. So get the proof first please. Don't give yourself gray hair over a guy that you don't even know if its forever.
247977
If they are cheating.. than they don't love you.  \nBut love is worth the chance.  People need it.. like we need air, and water.  It makes you feel alive.. It makes you feel needed.... and it literally makes you live longer.
313460
You know what, there are situations or incidents that looks like cheating but actually they don't, they are just very hard to explain and also hard to believe or understand. And that is what's happening to you right now, you find it hard to believe what he explains. Ok, let's say that he is really cheating on you, why can't you frogive him and give him a second chance if you truly love him? Everybody deserves a second chance if he only did this once. I'm also in that situation when my fiance cheated on me a mont ago, I also tried to kill myself eventhough I know its not the right thing to do, but after I was hospitalized, we met again and I forgave her for what she has done eventhough it is against my family, that is how I love her so much, I forgave and trusted her again. That is LOVE... Try reconsidering him again, maybe you were just carried away of your emotions and your anger, set your pride aside first and try to understand what he is explaining. But if you feel that there is no sincerity within him, be honest and that is the right time to break-up with him...
207409
Honey, you have to go with your gut.  If there are other issues besides the "i think he is cheating", that go along with the trust issues, then you need to be free of it.  Relationships are work, but if it is already in a stage that you don't like, then get out now.
610339
Ask him and study his reactions. I'm sure you'll be able to tell if he's lying. It's best to be upfront with your suspicions. Tell him why you think he's cheating. If you keep it to yourself, your suspicions will ruin your relationship.
277031
Dump him.  If he's cheating on you when you're just dating, what will he do if you get married.  Breaking up is easier than divorcing.  Move on and find someone who will be faithful.
228749
Leave him.  I'm normally not into giving flat-out answers, but this time I will.  The relationship is clearly toast.  If he can't get over it, then your cheating basically ended the relationship, and once the trust is gone, the relationship is gone.  That's one of the few laws of relationships- no trust, no dice.  Just let it go, start over, and don't mess up next time around.
394254
Ask him. By his response, you can tell if he is lying or not. Look for signs that he is cheating. He is loving you or avoiding you? Follow your heart, but don't be afraid to play the field too!
231350
Trust your instinct, it is usually right. Leave him. Even if your instinct isn't right, then you should still leave him. Because you don't trust him. You'll just be putting yourself (and him) through a lot of stress wondering if he's cheating or not. Then you'll end up with a bitter breakup. \n\nSo, once again, break up with him.\n\n**Mr. Curious, you're an a.s.s. I guess the whole world should be as perfect as YOU. Right? You sure think a whole lot of yourself speaking to this girl the way you did. Seriously old man, I know the hemroids make you cranky but don't take it out on girls. Go get some tucks pads or something. Mabey taking a nap would help, too.**
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Love is about trust. If you have to ask this question then it is too late. Either she is already cheating or you are so insecure about youself that its not healthy for the relationship. You are having these thoughts for a reason. Exomine them.. from there fix the problem, but if you feel she is cheating then you know what to do.
211345
I would leave her...once a cheater always a cheater....Apparently she doesnt love u like u want her too. Say goodbye and find better