my ex bf and i split up his an american  and im an asian, he said i cant go in the us, why?
452265
What a jerk he is. I doubt you will be kept from entering Legally if he did something wrong. Also...dont be Jaded (no pun intended) by him...there are many many wonderful american men left to have.
550995
You need to check with the court and your custody agreement. He could contest your moving out of the country, even out of state, assuming the two of you live in the same state. Look into this before you do anything. You may have to revise the agreement, or if he still has rights to your daughter, he could stop you from moving out of the U.S. Good luck!
976812
I married my husband (now ex) in Jan 98.  He was just visiting the US when we got married and so we had to go through all the immigration stuff to have him stay here.  Did you go to the interview alone?  If you missed the interview as well, the Immigration service will consider that an abandonment of your application.  If your application is no longer in process then your visa status may have expired - you may now be in the country illegally.  I would call an immigration attorney ASAP.
661179
It's kind of hard asking that question since I'm American and I know the American guidelines.\nThe only thing I can think of is to contact your court system.  Let them know your husband is a bigamist(means being married to more than one person) and that he's living in a different country and what can you do to make things right for yourself along with putting him in his place.
974022
He probably didn't want the akwardness of the situation....plus if he is your EX why would you stop to talk to him while you have your boyfriend with you, and he has his FIANCEE with him?  Its understandable if you guys still keep in touch but there is no need to cause drama with someone he is willing to Marry and possibly start a family with.  My advice would be to forget about him and move on, Im sure thats what your boyfriend and your Ex's Fiancee would like as well!  And if you see him again just smile and keep walking!
739133
No he can not, But he can come to the USA and file for a divorce here and then after he is granted a divorce he may legaly remarry here in the USA and the Philippines government will accept his American divorce decree
419686
He might be a little nervous because of the baby and upcoming marriage.  I personally think he should stay with you, but if he feels he needs to go the states, don't marry him.  He is making a choice for a life that may or may not include you.
501638
Sounds like he was using you. I'd let them know. He doesn't deserve a visa.
953039
Interesting dilemma, but without a good lawyer it's going to be difficult to fight your husband.  At least go back to the US Embassy in India where he presented his false claims.  And you should actually start celebrating... why would you want to be married to such a jerk anyway?
573894
Where are u staying atm?\n\nSomehow i doubt you will re-unite if u leave, however, do what u wanna do man!\n\nI suggest sticking with what u know and maybe taking a year out to visit/tour the US or even the world\n\nGL w/e u do :)
608981
First of all if he did not divorce her before he married you...yours is not a legal marriage. The USA recognizes marriages in another country. Secondly, he entered into an illegal marriage with you for citizenship.\nThis poor man just seems to have trouble finding his niche in life. Tell him to stand up if he wants to be your husband or go to see Immigration and see to it that he gets to go home to India. Don't worry there are many men who want a nice woman.
806054
He might think you are a sure thing.  Not trying to be mean!  \nYou are familar ground for him - easier than meeting someone new. \nBe very careful of going back to an ex.  \nYou broke up for a reason!  Think about those reasons.
892203
If he is not your president and you live in the United  States then you should go some where else, its a UNITED State, not divided. Go to a foreign country where there are not as many freedoms that we have and then compare your life there to life here. You are to blame for his low approval rating. Someone who likes to complain but does not know all the facts but has all the answers.
722358
i think my ex is one of my best friends so before he had to move to Guam (he is in the navy) I used to hang out with him a lot. my bf is not jealous at all. and is not like I f*uck my ex everytime we get together. he is coming back for 2 weeks and I'm so happy to see him. I love my bf and wouldnt change him for anyone in this world.
551568
Excuse me... did you say bf or ex-bf? Believe me, he is a fugitive and you allowing him to be with you is illegal, in any state. The best thing for you to do is sever your contact and pray that they don't charge you.
873298
How much do you care for him? Are you happy with him and your lifestyle? Would you really miss him if you came back to the USA and he did not?\nPeople lie about their age for different reasons, low self esteem, afraid you would not even give him a chance etc. The kids from a previous marriage though, you need to find out what kind of relationship he plans to have with them. Why has he not seen, talked to them in a year? Ask for clarification on all the things that are bothering you. Communication is the key
830812
Well, you kind of confirmed his suspicion that you wouldn't take it well with your sarcastic email, didn't you?  Perhaps they found out that they both really wanted to go to the same place, it was cheaper to go together and since 1.you'd been split up for over 6 months and 2. he wasn't your best friend anyway, there really was nothing morally wrong in what they were doing.  You could look at it as a compliment that they thought enough of your feelings not to want to hurt you and that's why they didn't tell you.  Yes, it would have been a courtesy to let you know, but really, you don't have any right to interfere in the lives of two people you don't have close relationships with.