Sexual abuse training/counseling for Asian children is there such thing?
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The literature shows that there is consideration/treatment given to special populations under treatment by social workers for problems ranging from drug addiction to sexual abuse.  However, I think that "branded" training or counseling is probably not readily available.  \n\nMy mother, the mental health professional (MSW, LCSW, etc.) tells me (luck she was on messenger just now, eh?) that the American Counseling Association sometimes runs seminars and "institutes" that cover the topic of counseling approaches of "diverse populations" on sexual abuse.  You should be able to find the ACA on the internet.\n\nI think that counseling approaches vary, and your approach has to be tailored to each individual, with their culture representing a strong component in their identity and there a major consideration.\n\nOn a whim, I just ran an internet check on Asian counseling and found a lot of hits including the one below for Seattle. Unfortunately, I couldn't find anything for "goat grief."
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I used to torture and maim small animals when I was younger.  I never sought counseling for fear I would be put on a predator list.  What I do when I have my urges is shiite in a bag and breathe deeple for several minutes.  You should try it - it helps me!
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No, I do not know of one in that specific area, but obviously you are familiar with th internet, so do a search for marriage counselors in your region.
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You're absolutely right; social learning theory at it's finest.\n\nThe US has Child Protective Services that can, and will, remove children from a home such as the one you're referring to.\nBut that begs the question: is that the best thing for the child?\n\nMost social workers will tell you without a doubt; that's the best thing to break the chain of behavior.
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Sir, I can speak from personal experience on this subject. I am a pedophile. Pedophilia is incurable, but it can be managed. Management is entirely dependant on the pedophiles personal conviction to not offend or reoffend. In my case I abused many times before I was caught commiting an offense. I was on probation and in psychothearpy from August 1992 until August 1999. I am not proud of what I did but I am proud to say that the last time I offended was in late 1991. I continue to this day to use many of the tools I was taught in my thearpy. I avoid being left alone with children, I don't go to places where there are large numbers of unattended children (ie; arcades, movie theaters, playgrounds, etc). When I see a child that is attractive to me I leave. When I think of a child in an inappropriate way I try to distract myself by becomming active in some other thought process. These are only a very few examples of how to avoid, control and escape potentially dangerous situations. It takes a great deal of practice to make it so it is almost second nature.\n \nThe thoughts I do have of children will likely continue for the remainder of my life. That is a given, by the treatment providers. The thoughts are not the problem though, it is what you do with them that matters. Fortunatly, I have been able to keep them under control, and pray that I will continue to do so.\n\nI expect that I will recieve some negitive feedback after posting this. I hope that those that hate me for what I have done in my past will consider that I have made sincere efforts to change my life. I cannot undo the past. I can only control my actions for the future.\n\nAs far as pedophilia being a mental disease it is. Please click the link below and read all three pages on this subject. The second page deals specifically wit the fact that it is a disease.\n\n Hope this all helps
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Yes- parenting or at least some kind of child development or child psych... combined with a sex ed- at least the part about efectiveness of various kinds of birth control and info about STD's.... like "Abstinance is the only sure way to avoid all STD's, including pregnancy..." or "A 5-yr-old is egocentric. She thinks that her behavior and actions are the cause of everything else happening..." and so on...\n\nAnother answer mentioned homosexuals lack of need for this type of education- if they choose to adopt, aren't they still parents? Aren't they still responsible to love and teach those children?\n\nMany people are placed in a parental role, not always by choice. I don't think anyone can get through life without contact with children- their own offspring, nieces/nephews, grandchildren, the neighbor kids, babysitting, etc. Understanding how kids at different ages think is vital for these relationships.\n\nI am not a parent, but my church has asked that I care for and supervise the little ones while their parents are in their classes. These children are between 18 months and 3 yrs old. I am grateful for what I know about children. Because of my college human development classes, I know what to expect from these kids- behavior, attention span, etc.\n\nNo, the public school system is not very well equiped to, nor should they teach ethics, but they can teach statistics, trends, and the typical development of infants, children and teens.
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You might try the Center for Missing/Exploited children. You can try to get the State Police involved. Since it happened in Texas, or so it seems, maybe try the Texas Rangers.
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Two things.  First place the best results of child rearing practices as your main goal.  If you are a program for the benefit of children, be a real benefit.  One child rearing adviser says kids need to experience spankings in love, another says never spank.  Which do you suppose is the moderate view?  Never? or with qualification?  But the extreme approach is in play.\nSecond, be harder on your personnel than you are on parents.  Speaking from the perspective of a PROTECTED child, I've personally seen case workers do more harm to kids than the parents could ever have done.\n\nOh yeah, and those anonymous phone tips, make the witnesses have to stand up as an accuser the same way a criminal gets to face their accusers.  Both the child and the parents need to understand the abusive nature and the current system is abused by witnesses.  Too many of them use your program as a means of malice.\n\nIf you are going to be a moral authority, especially in the area where there are so few mutually accepted rules of child rearing by our varied culture, then you need to be above reproach by those whose authority you override.  As it is, you have all the authority of the IRS with virtually no mutually accepted guidelines.\nhttp://judgeright.blogspot.com\n\nSpeaking as a person familiar with government programs, the nature of governmental control is; if you can show a need for an expense, you get more budget money.  This should be a volunteer program, not governmentally controlled.
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http://www.tiresias.org/agencies/countries_p/philippines.htm#philippines\n\nhttp://www.oraldeafed.org/schools/johntracy/print.html (supports families in the Phillipines)
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http://www.familysupportline.org/help_victims/lifeskillsprogram.htm
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i checked it out. go to Singapore drug addiction centers. they list so many and also the addictions for the best therapy. best wishes Kat
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Go to your state's web site and type in child abuse. You should find something there.
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I hope the boy will be OK and not too badly frightened. \nViolence of any sort is evil but especially against children. I've had more black/asian friends attack physically and verbally by white thugs than vice versa. \nStevie B is the kind of bigot who believes that violence from some Asians against whites justifies this sort of behaviour. She hasn't even read your question properly.
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I'm not aware that children at age 6 are receiving any official/formal training in sex education.\n\nMy concern at this point is that the child is learning this from another student or worse yet, an adult who is not authorized to do this sort of teaching.\n\nI might want to sit down with the parents of this child in a comfortable non aggressive/threatening environment and find out what the child meant when he said this and where he gained this information.\n\nThis can range from the simple act of bringing the matter to teachers and administration at the school to the leveling of charges against an adult who had less than pleasant intentions with the child.\n\nGood luck with this.\n\nLove as always,\n\nSebastian
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Can't recommend any books,just do a yahoo search on falun gong,there is an organization that documents abuses,with pictures of torture victims ,that did not survive and the methods used ,as well as individual stories and pictures of those who were tortured and did or did not survive,there are also links to places where you can practice or order books about zhuan falun,but I do not recall books about the persecution aspect
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Please tell me what he is bragging about? Do you realize there are single parents, who rehabilitated former sex offenders? They have as much right as you do to make sure their children are getting a good education. They have as much right as you do to attend the play, concert or sporting event their child is in. \n\nOne of you said something about the other children in the school being a temptation. I guarantee you that they are more of a temptation to an offender that hasn't been caught and hasn't gone through sex offender treatment therapy than the registered offender has.\n\nYour child has more chance of being harmed sexually by a relative, a close friend of the family, teachers, coaches, scout leaders, bus drivers, etc than they have of being harmed by a rehabilitated former sex offenders. 90 to 95% of sex offenses are committed by someone known to the child and to the family. You need to educate your child about good touch/bad touch. You need to teach your child that NO ONE, not even another child is to touch their private parts. You need to teach them to NOT talk to strangers. The main thing you need to teach them is that if anyone, including and most especially, someone known to them, ever touches them they need to tell you immediately. Get through to them that they will not be harmed for telling, but they will not be put through this again. Also, let them know that you won't be harmed because they told. Let them know that the person who offended did wrong and must pay his/her debt to society for that act. Make it plain to them that they are NOT the one that did something wrong, the adult or the other child is. Yes, there are children on the registries. However, I feel many times, with the younger ones this is normal child exploration the courts feel differently. There are 6 and 7 year olds on the registry in KY for checking each other out. Also, if your child is ever offended, please get counselling for them. This is highly important. \n\nI was molested twice as a child. I have forgiven the two that offended me. I am a survivor and I detest the word victim. Make sure your child knows that they are a survivor, they are strong because they did the right thing and let you know. Keep their self esteem  as high as you can by letting them know they are a survivor and not a victim. \n\nThe MOST IMPORTANT thing is that you supervise your children constantly. You don't let them go out to play alone. You don't let them go bike riding alone. Just think what you and your child can do together in that respect. You are enjoying time together while you are both getting excercise.\n\nI am the Mother of three and the Grandmother of 4. My children didn't leave my site and the two grandchildren I am now raising do not leave my site. It may bug them, but at least I know they are safe.
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you may try Oprah...she's had many stories on her show and recently had one of a teen enslaved by child porn via webcam.took a NY times reporter to expose the truth as the police didnt intervene for 50 days.