what kind of guy do women what??? ..is being too nice and honest a bad thing???
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do everything in moderation...let your girl know what you want & what you feel..it's music to our ears...trust & communication is vital...we want men who are firm and can be as sweet as Romeo the next...and who regards our needs as well...be a friend like the way you care with your best buddies...and be a good lover too who thinks about more what excites her rather than jumping onto her just to get it done.
1137421
let me tell you the first thing about women... never take advice from women about women. Let me prove that one to you. I once asked my sister two questions. The first question was "what do you look for in a guy?" I got the typical "i want a guy that treats me good, does sweet things for me, and blah blah blah". then i asked her to describe the guys that she has had the longest relationships with. well I'll be damned if those two answers weren't the farthest away from each other as they could be. Now some girls you ask may get a good piece of advice in there once and awhile, but let me tell you the three "C's" of what a women looks for in a man. Confidence is probably number one. Not to be confused with arrogance, confidence is not having a self esteem problem. Know in your head that you are good enough for a women, but don't think that you are better than her. The second: Control. Control is about being your own person and in control of your own life. Being a decision maker and being confident in the decision. Taking charge of a date for example. None of this crap about i don't know, what do you want to do. This is where many many men falter. Control in this manner is not about controlling what a woman does. it's about being a take charge guy. One word of caution about this is that there may be feminist or two out there that don't like this kind of crap. Those women need to be kicked to the curb. The third is a challenge. Never let a woman think that you are a loser. Women want what other women want. Let her think other women want you. never wait around for a women and beg her like a puppy dog. you have your own life, live it. and if you don't, pretend. go out with your friends, go on dates with other women. And if and when you start dating a women, remember that you still have friends. never let a women tell you "let me think about it". that's just postponement for her to tell you no with hopes that you will forget about it. I'm not in any way telling you to treat a women like crap. a lot of people assume that from me when i tell them this stuff. you need to treat your woman good, but do not be her little bi***. Bottom line, women want a man to be a man. The big protector. Be a gentleman. Open doors, and treat her like a lady, but be a man about it, not a p**** whooped fool.  You sound like you're ready to hand over your testicles.  you will "worship the ground they walk on"... if it doesn't work try something else.  accept that you need to change
658758
Yeah you have what it take to get a lady. Like for me i look for a guy who can have just a good converstation and i look for truth ness not a lier,player or a one nite guy. I want some one that can be there in the high and lows and overall get along well.
387030
Nice guy's only seem to finish last, when all is said and done, nice guy's finish first with the best women. It's a sorting out process, you don't want the women who like bad guy's anyway.
490546
Personally, I like a guy to come up to me first, I guess maybe that's because I'm a little shy myself. They say good guys finish last and I guess as the saying is also for girls that is why I am still single myself, but in reality although women may seem attracted to bad boys so to speak I think that all they really want at the end of the day is a nice good guy. Perhaps consider being more forward, I know it feels hard but women will respect you for that. If you're good looking and are really a nice guy then you don't need to worry about a thing, she'll come along soon enough.\nHey, if I had met you myself already I probably would have taken the need for you to ask that question straight out of your mind ;o)\nGood luck, relax and try to have fun out there. x
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Well If you get the right kind of women.... generally it won't be about looks. As far as emotionaly, you would think most women would want a guy who is sweet and romantic. Not to emotional and cry over everything but emotional enough to really care about things. Personality- Funny and outgoing. You need a good laugh and you don't want someone who never wants to leave the house and get to try new things. And of course he has to be nice and treat the women with the respect she deserves to be treated with!
946016
Becuase nice guys are outcasts, ladies want the so called bad boys, besides ladies are too picky, and they have stereotypes that ALL men being cheaters. In this cold and cynical world it seems like  good people are in perpetual doom of always meeting the worst of the opposite sex. Its always darkest before dawn, at the end it will all work out,  life and true love always finds a way.
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We're a bit slow in understanding... No, in se everyone wants a guy that's nice. We're just frightened that 'nice' is all he'll ever be. A man is supposed to be an animal sometimes: It's superficial, but with a nice guy it's only guessing if he'll ever be a challenge in bed. With macho-dudes you're 'sure' of a challenge, and whenever he's sweet, it's even a bigger party, for you know that didn't com easy for him... The rough guy with the soft heart is a stayer on the market. And even when he doesn't have a soft heart, you can always pretend for your friends he has and then they think you're a winner. It's also very 'in' to complain about your guy. Some girls bond by wining. Don't ask me where that comes from. But in the end I think philosopher René Girard has an answer: 'You want what is wanted.' Tough guys get promoted a lot (e.g. by themselves or by 'cool' friends). Nice guys don't promote themselves and get promoted by parents (not really a reference, parents are those people we don't want to become like). And since you want what others you admire want,... you end up with a bully sometimes. Good to know: we do come to sence. When we get to know this nice guy and he surprises us with some unexpected male talents,... Ding Ding Jackpot!
199852
guys who do that do women are jerks... not players. Find a man who will be A MAN not a boy!!! As regards to the women who do that, I don't consider them hoes, just practicing for perfection ya know... LOL... take care
174845
It depends on the guy you ask? Men in general they tend toward what ever is good for the female? just my opinion
1115980
As long as you are a good person.. what does it matter what guys like.  You are what you are... they can take it or leave it!
539730
Before I found my wife, I was looking for a decent girl, not decent as in average, but decent as in proper.  When I came to an age when I wanted to be serious in relationships, this was the single most important factor in the woman that I wanted.  Of course all of the other common traits had to be met, ie. great personality, common interests, great smile, spiritual, intelligent, wise, resourseful, and whatever else may come to mind.\n\nWhen you find a proper woman, someone who knows etiquite in different situations, all of the other things seem to come together very nicely.  Also, women generally dont learn to act properly if they were not raised as such.  I guess I'm trying to say that very few women can fake it.  This type of woman is more genuine in all other aspects, and if you can connect to someone like this, you have found someone very special.  Besides, these days, this is such an outdated trait that when you find it, you know you've found a gem.
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You don't have to be perfect! Evaluate your good points and your bad points, then try to improve on whatever bad points that you think you can. \n\nIf you want to know what many females look for in a man, then my answer would be............most women look for a man that is honest. loving, fun, respectful,faithful, good morals and values, ambitious, caring, good sense of humor and has respect for themselves. =-)
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There are no nice guys and bad girls. They are all people like you and me. Forget about labels and stereotypes your friends want you to believe. The only important thing is what's in your heart. How do you feel? My advice is to stay healthy and attractive to the opposite sex. That means caring for and loving people that care for and love you.
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I want honesty and no games from a man. I care about what is inside of the person a whole lot more then what is on the outside. I recently got back on the dating scene since my husband died. It is different and the men I meet are definately carrying around a lot of baggage.
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Too much stereotyping here. Women don't ALWAYS go for the jerks. I sure as heck don't. if he is a jerk I will point him the other direction and make him leave. \n\nThere are men out there that are wolves in sheep's clothing(my ex for example) he treated me like a queen before we got married After we got married he became abusive. \n\nGuys are not going to be jerks when you first meet them. They are cunning. A lot of them start acting up once they know the girl is hooked to them. the girl is so involved with being "in love" with the guy that she cannot see that he is being a jerk and treating her badly. Of course the girl is going to blame herself sometimes because the guy has her convinced its her fault or it can also be low self esteem issues that cause this or the girl is so relieved she has a guy she just doesn't care and she is afraid that there is nobody out there better. \n\nThere are nice guys out there, they are very hard to come by and to say start dating nice guys is easier said than done. BELIEVE ME. You have to work very hard at it \n\nI know some ladies that are quite vicious as well and really it has been found that the women are worse than the men.
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I agree great guys are hard to come by these days. But not all guys are bad either. That's an understatement. I think it's cool you like to treat a gal like a lady. and i agree completely with you on that. But i guess it's just in their nature and the way they were brought up. But there still is hope, i'm sure there are great guys like yourself out there. And if not at least we know there's one. \nCheers!!