how do u all feel about opininated people? How can u avoid these people?
443041
I think everyone's entitiled to my opinion.
879317
ignore them.  you made certain choices in your life, as we all do, and as a result people perceive you in a certain way.  now you're living your life in a different way, and those that are open-minded (read:  worth your time) will shift their perceptions accordingly.  those who are clinging to your past mistakes will eventually be cycled out as you meet and form relationships with people that respect you enough to pay attention to who you are and what you're doing NOW.  \n\nyou can't control what other people think of things you've done in the past, and you can't control how fast they let go of it.  efforts to 'change their minds' will only bring more attention to the past by making it the focus of your actions in the future.  what you CAN control is who you surround yourself with.  choose carefully.
575162
those people who do that are just jealous. there has to be some quality about u that causes them to hate u for it. you just have to be the better person and ignore them. Because for everyone, there will always ALWAYS be someone who will hate you for what you are and what you stand for. u just have to decide whether their opinion of u will change how u think of yourself.
720425
I think everyone has those type of people, but all you have to do is move on and don't worry about, cause if you do it is just going to make you more mad than you already are. Hope this helps.
210616
Just like with any group of people, I really cannot say that I like, dislike or hate them all.  I have met some really lice people from cities, and some really scummy ones.  Some have surprised me.  I just deal with each person as an individual.
883208
Don`t let these  people upset you they are not worth it their attitude sickens me .there are so many people these days filled with so much hate  and greed theres no humanity left inside them but don`t give up, just be thankfull your not like them
125828
Meeting new people and new surroundings and which people you can trust and which people are Problems for everyone..\nStay away from them!!
930117
It seems to be human nature to hate those who are different from us. I guess my advice is to show them that you don't need to believe in God to be a good person. Do volunteer work maybe. Or an easier solution would be to ignore them.
313937
Why do you feel the need to call people out in such a way. I don't enjoy talking to ignorant people myself but we're on a public website and I wouldn't call anyone stupid. I'm not trying to be mean but that's rude not mention it makes it seem like you feel as though you're superior. \n\nMaybe people talk the way talk and spell the way spell and think the way think because they weren't given the proper tools as young-lings. Just maybe, you should try to know some of the people that you feel are stupid and you might see them in a  totally different light. I feel you on being annoyed by ignorance, but sometimes people need a break because of their upbringing/schooling or lack of. Feel me?
529705
I'll tell you what works for me. I don't allow the negativity of others to effect me. I either read a negative question and not respond or if I feel I need to say something, I will offer a loving answer. If someone is nasty while responding to one of my questions I just roll right past them and not even bother with it. There will always be people that think they know better or think their way is the one true way but you have to just make room for them and allow them to feel whatever way they want. As you would also like for people to respect and allow you your beliefs. As long as you know you are fine, that is all that matters. I can not express that enough to you. \nLove & Light\nOne Planet = One People
50861
First you have to tell your friend that you would really appreciate it if they dont ever bring over the person you dont like. And tell your friend why you don't like them and the reasons, so they can understand your point of view. ok
1002812
You nearly made me cry!! it makes me so mad to think of how nasty people are!  Forget those people they are worth the dirt on your shoes!! There are plenty of nice people out there who arent judgmental!  You do seem like a lovely person - keep you chin up, know its hard but you know the saying what doesnt kill us makes us stronger
1130087
keep your chin up... they have nothing better to do and they are to envious probably and only talk of their own faults by pointing at someone else.. wherever u go there will always be bad apples.. i would not associate with those people.. no trust.. take care.. you are letting them get the best of you by your reaction.. if u show them what they say don't meen a dang  thing to ya.. they will eventually stop..
256147
If you surround yourself with people who make you feel bad... chances are that some part of yourself thinks that this is acceptable. \n\nWork on doing things for yourself that make you feel good, and try to make some more friends that like the things you do, and who help make you feel good. Notice the difference between the old friends, and the new friends.  \n\nWhen you value yourself and the things that you are doing, when you have a good opinion of yourself, you start to have a very low tolerance for people who treat you like crap! \n\nThere are plenty of people out there who are looking for fun, good friends, get out there and find them. You are a fun and good person who has a lot to offer, if someone is trying to make you feel bad, don't let them, they don't deserve your friendship!
632308
Some of us are on here to really offer our opinion as you are while there are some who just want to try and disgust people. Ignore them and answer the serious ones.\nI come on here for about an hour a day (my lunch hour) and try to offer suggestions to others who ask real questions.\nI'm sure you can do the same.\nGood luck!
302974
It's really very simple - just do what I do and DON'T WATCH THEM. And when people around you all start talking about them just be honest if your opinion is asked and say, 'It's a matter of complete indifference to me and I have never even heard of all these people you are talking about.'.
456590
I'm actually having that same problem. In my case, yeah, I made a mistake, but I fessed up to it, was honest about it, and tried to apologize for it. I still feel like the other person is trying to make me feel guilty, and I refuse to be around people who are always negative all the time. I thought that I liked people like that, and maybe I did once, but now it just brings me down. I want to feel better, not feel how alone I am, and how much the world sucks. That's my story.