how can I improve my communication skill with opposit sex?
450472
pratice...practice...practice...that is the only thing that will help...you do not have to ask them out...talk to them like friend...then go on from there!
491523
I agree... Communication is the best.. How does it make you feel.. Do you have  the desire or passion...\n\nDo you make it interseting and fun... \n\nAsk him, it only gets better after that..
406350
I'll tell you how because I do it all the time - and it works on men and women.  Pick a subject or issue that she harps on regularly.  Every time she brings the issue up simply ask for an example.  Be very concise and direct.  Be blunt about it.  If she can't give any examples, well...  If she can, try to have an intelligent response ready.  Again, be concise, be direct, be blunt, and BE CALM.  Don't get rattled and don't raise your voice.  I anticipate interesting feedback from the women out there but to be sure women AREN'T always right.  The point is to discuss issues intelligently, not emotionally.  Hope this helps and good luck.
901410
The most effective and successful way to improve one's communication skills is to 'COMMUNICATE'.\n\nYes! Unless one is not getting into the practise of communicating all the time, it is hard to have that skill.\n\nFeel free to communicate (in the language you desired to develop)! Never hesitate for the pronunciation mistakes or of its grammar.\nBut when you did those mistakes or may be blunders(depends on the language),  try to avoid the next time and for ever.\nGradually, try to communicate nicely, error-free and fluently.\n\nIts sure it'll be yours.\nBest Wishes!
485723
You could try several things. You could try starting out with some oral sex like your partner giving you oral getting you very aroused but not getting off then lead on to intercourse that may help you climax during intercourse. try forplay getting realy worked up so climax will come quicker. Let your partner know what really turns you on and what works for you comunication helps and can double as foreplay. Good luck
1071878
First of all you are trying to be more than what you are.  Avoid pretending.  Try to be genuine and realistic.  There can be mistakes when you talk.  Quality is attained gradually.  All of a sudden no one can be the best.  Time and efforts are needed.  While trying to improve give attention to those who speak proper language. Take some time in the evening to refer dictionary to solve your doubts.
68049
First of all you need to work on improving your perception of yourself. Get a higher self esteem. Then you could try reading newspapers, magazines, books, and watching documentaries on TV. So, maybe next time the conversation is about space travel or the life of the blue whales, you will be able to participate.\n\nAlso, you may just be too shy. So, try to speak or even make questions during a conversation.
481980
Well, after about 4 years of therapy and couples therapy with some amazing, top therapists in Los Angeles, I'm happy to say that I've learned incredible tools on communicating and I was amazed at how hard it is and how many people don't know how to do it.  We really should be teaching this in schools.  Anyhow- most people vent and don;t really listen.  When one has an issue, you take it up in a three part communication: what, why and what you want.  So 1) start by saying something positive that relates to the issue, 2) bring up your feelings (which does NOT imply that you are correct or that the other has to agree) and 3) what you want from the outcome.  Example-let's say you get jealous or she gets jealous alot: "honey, listen, I know you're an attractive girl and guys are gonna check you out and i don't blame them but, i feel threatened or jealous when they do cause it just  i feel insecure.  I want you to try and be considerate of my feelings and try to  be cool talking to guys in bars".  The key issues to communication is first of all, NO ONE MAKES you feel anything, people are going to feel what they're going to feel so you can't accuse someone of making you feel a certain way.  This is huge so make sure you understand that.  It's the number one common mistake.  Second is when you or she speaks your feelings, the other just needs to acknowlege and be empathetic.  It does not mean you have to agree with what they're saying but you need to understand "I understand what you're saying and I can appreciate the way you feel" is not saying"I agree with you and i accept blame".  Thirdly, be specific and consistent and most of all. be clear on your boundaries.  Many fights start because boundaries aren't clear and when they're crossed, people get pissed.  Boundaries are things like "don't kiss other dudes, don't flirt, don't bad mouth me, whatever.    if you want more specifics, feel free to write specific issues.  :))  plus, be prepared, it takes a lot of practice.  I meant email me.  I am happy to share my knowledge. God knows I spent a fortune for it!!!!  But it is life changing.  And the best part is that it gives you such great control over your own life.  It's very empowering to communicate effectively.
743514
listen more,  develope your listening skills,  people don't usually want ideas or solutions... all they want is too be heard and know that someone heard them... which builds trust and support and you didn't even have to give any input... just listen... \n\nfollow up with something like... so you would like to improve your relationships skill?    How would a good relationship look to you?\n\nbasic stuff...
466352
try spicing up allitle, do some erotic things talk dirty to each other during sex, act out some of your fantasies.
997922
start my believing in yourself and start feeling good about yourself and you should start feeling like feeling your sex power \nshould increase and say I am worth it and that by trying and keep\ntrying new and different things and make it special and interesting\nyou should enjoy it and have more sex power
673069
So talk to her and ask her how she is feeling. If you're mature enough to have sex then you're mature to talk openly and honestly about sex.
249117
Communication is the most important thing in a good sexual relationship. He is not going to know where you like to be licked or touched if you do not tell him. If you are shy, start sending him sexy little short e-mails, or even short sexy notes where only he will find them, Under his pillow, in his briefcase, in your private bathroom, Say something encouraging like tonight while I am licking your or rubbing your.....( or whatever it is that you do that he really likes), I want you to lick the inside of my thighs and slowly move your tongue up to my belly button teasing me until I am soaking ...well you get the picture right.  It doesn't have to be really dirty to be sexy. Beware of being demanding and whatever you do, do not come right out and tell him he is doing something wrong or you can kiss big daddy good bye for a week or until he is done sulking. Make him think he is the king and you are his willing slave there to please and be pleased. The right woman can plant an idea in a mans head and make him do whatever she wants and have him believing the whole time it was his idea. And that my dear takes finesse...and a good b**j** in the mornings along with a cup of coffee before work.  hugz! and goodluck!
199394
I would think one of the key things you can do is to make sure you have a significant relationship outside of the bedroom.  There's nothing with safely enjoying intercourse with the one you love, but anything in excess is dangerous.  When most all speech/conversation is just a prelude to sex, the relationship might be in trouble.  \n\nYes it may be difficult, but if you really want this to last you'll put the work in to making those communication efforts and restraining yourself.  But it will take work.
1051950
be confident about the size of your penis; do a lot of foreplay with your girlfriend; oral sex before intercourse; vary your hip movements during sex, e.g. in/out, up/down, left/right, clockwise/counterclockwise, half in/fully in, diagonal penetration, etc.; try different sexual positions; think of non-sexual matters while having sex; stop when you are about to shoot your c-u-m to prolong sex; and focus not on your own satisfaction but on the pleasure of your partner. i hope these tips help you to be a stud in bed. cheers!
215213
Ok dude, I have one word for you “communication”. If you’re a minute man that’s cool but you need to make sure that she gets off as well. You sound like you’re kind of young and if she’s not throwing a fit because she didn’t orgasm she may never have had one. My advice would be to experiment with touch. Try using your hand down south instead of Mr. winky. But most of all just sit down and talk to her about it. See what she says and how she fells about it. If you’re uncomfortable with talking to her then you shouldn’t be having sex with her.
449337
OK here's what dramatically improved my technique.  Get this book called Guide to Getting it On (Amazon has) and do what it says.  But basically you want to realize that your tongue is capable of all kinds of subtle moves and strokes, and you want put a lot of teasing into it and suspense, not just zero in on the clit and go like a jackhammer.  Be unpredictable. Lick along the lenght of her lips, inner, outer the groove between, and only play a little at the clit and then go away again to something else...and then come back... keep her guessing.  Try different things with a pointy tongue, the broad flat of your tongue, short strokes, long strokes, slow strokes, fast strokes, curvy strokes, whatever.  And make sure you lick her thighs, right where they meet the crotch.  And after a while you can spend more time on her clit and the skin surrounding it, and you can actually suck her clit into your mouth, between your lips, and play with it with your tongue while it's in your mouth.\n\nYou don't need to go fast, that'l just tire you out. Go slow, and last for a long time, that's what she'll appreciate.