i am in a relationship,it is not working out,i want to leave her?
454793
It seems she may be using emotional blackmail to get you to stay, the best thing to do is walk out the door and make her responsible for her actions. If she has close family members that you can confide in then I'd advise you to tell them you are planning to leave and let them be aware of her threats. This is to anybody that is in a relationship that is over regardless of the cause........Get out before you end up making yourself crazy and miserable.
120143
If she doesn't love you, it sounds like you've already lost her.  I'm sorry, but I think you should end the relationship and find someone who loves you.
1082021
You can do better, u don't need her. I think she just doesn't want to be with u anymore, if she did then she'd have spoken to u about it and then u could have worked through it together.
234956
Its obvious you arent THAT happy in your relationship, since you are even considering this... SO- LEAVE!\nHave fun!
869542
find a way to let go of her\n\nif shes doing that, you wouldnt really want to be with her anyway\n\nmove on and replace her with somebody who really loves you for you and wont cheat on you like that...and then lie to you about it\n\ngood luck with whatever you decide to do
748
It sounds like she's not interested in working things out.  Or you haven't been listening to her needs and haven't changed your behavior and she might feel you'd be better off finding someone who likes what you like and allowing her to move on and be happy too.\n\nIt can be too late or it might not.  Only you can know for sure.
286176
let her go dude...\nthink about it you can not force her to love you ... and futher more would you want her to be unhappyly w/ you
585875
just tell her if she cant understand,leave her its a 2 way relationship.
364042
If you are arguing this badly, you need some help. Who is starting the arguments you or her? If its her maybe she is really insecure, or isn't happy. If its you, are you happy? If you really do love her, and want to make it work, i would get in touch with relate, and talk to someone. You can do this either on your own or together. If you do it on your own she may not be happy and see it as a betrayal. If you want to do it together, talk to her about it, cos she may feel uncomfortable about it. Good luck!
532784
If you don't think the relationship is going anywere and you don't love the girl than you shouldn't be with her anymore, however if there is somehting there then just stay with her and see where things get you
933701
It will only get worse once the relationship is legal.  Talk to her about it, and either she changes or you leave. plain and simple
84125
What are you doing wrong?\n\nYou're not letting her go, that's what :)\n\nLet her go, move on with your life. You will end up much happier than if you keep beating your head against the wall with this girl. It may not seem like it now, however it's truth.
811271
end the relationship now while she is in a place that will help her learn to cope with it. you can not let her use her illness and  your relationship as a crutch. im a nurse and a lot of mental illness personalitys tend to manipulate. she will make you stay with her. you are young and need to get on with your life.
871441
First of all, confront her about it.  If it still doesn't work out, then she's not worth it.  It's not every day that you find a guy that's willing to work through the hard times.  I know I haven't found one yet.  You deserve so much better if she's willing to give up on a seven month relationship just because of her friends.  I wish you luck.
436584
If she wants to leave you have to let go, why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you?  Your not making someone else unhappy, but your not being fair to yourself you deserve to be with someone who wants to be with you because they like you for who you are.  Anyway, I know it's hard to let go sometimes, but if its meant to be maybe she will see that after shes gone and want to reconcile.  If she hasn't said she wants to leave then don't worry about it just keep being yourself.  Good Luck to You
424911
I don't think this will be a healthy relationship if your girlfriend behaves that way.  Tell her what you really feel & that you are not happy with what she is doing.  If she won't stop, then break-up with her. It hurts but that is really life.
153317
Listen this girl is clearly trying to break it off with you.  If she keeps saying it won't work why would you want to be with her?  She seems very negitive and dull.  Break up with her and go out and have a good time.  You will meet someone who wants to make it work no matter what.