What reasons for breaking up?
445865
I think when the love is not there anymore
26593
BREAK UP = SOMETHINGS BROKE\n\nI read this at the airport in the book store... "Breakup = Somethings Broke" thought it was catchy and really put my past relationships in line\n\nSo, what was broke?  I know you didn't innitiate the breakup, but surly you have ideas on what was broke.  Do not go back until you're 99% sure you know what was broke, and that you can fix it.  Sometimes Humpty Dumpty just falls off the wall, and all the kings horses and all the kings men cannot put Humpty Dumpty back together again.\n\nI've always found that by refocusing the love I was givning to someone else back to myself gives me the advantage.  Sometimes, the person comes back because of my new self-confidence, other times, I attract a new love....\n\nBest wishes, keep breathing, you'll be fine.
235832
Most women seem to take break ups harder than men thats true. I guess that she is trying to understand the break up probably. Maybe you should just try and explain to her one more time what brought this on and that you just dont wont to be with her anymore. That you do love her but you dont see yourself spending the rest of your life with her. If that doesnt work just dont call her or answer her calls when she calls. Good Luck!
401810
Just what do you want to make right?\nWork that out and ask the question again.\n\nA lot of times people leave one relationship but don't resolve any of their own issues. They know what the other person did wrong, and they know they wern't happy. The problem is unless we ourselves grow and change, we will most likely just repeat the same mistake over again with a new partner.
307737
What you have to do is remember that you're x's for a reason, don't dwell on all the happy, romantic stuff that went on with you and him, think of why you broke up and how you felt and what the problems were.  There's always a good reason why we break up with someone.
291705
Sweetie...what would be the point of continuing the relationship?\n\nYou would en up being miserable in the end and when that happens you will say to yoruself, "Why didn't I just leave when he said he no longer loved me?"  This just saves you some time and gets you on the road to recovering from this relationship faster.
1084285
If you are both now struggling which mean you have developed some form of romantic feelings between each other. then it would be wise to just break up now, unless you are ready to commit adultery.\n\nIts painful, but just try stoping seeing each other for a while. You both need to maintain your dignity.
296956
He´s insecure or trying to find a reason to break up (where you break up with him, so he doesn´t have to).
254201
I think you should say that your relationship is not where you expected to go and give reasons why you don't want to be with him.  If he happens to let you go and break up, doesn't that leave you a way for you to get back together with your ex without seeming like that was the reason why you wanted to breakup?  Obviously there must be a reason why you'd much rather be with your ex than your current bf, just make sure you're not going to be getting yourself into a big mess and come out with no bf or friends at all.
311548
They don't want to ruin the good relationship they already have. If you break up, then who's to say that you won't be friends anymore. It's all about trust and how well they know each other!
148042
There is no good way to break up with a person. No matter what,  if the person still cares for you, they will be hurt. My advice would be to either call him, write to him or go and see him and be as honest with him as possible. Give him the reason why you wish to break up, tell him you are sorry and then end either the call, letter or visit. If you can remain friends that is always the best.
921826
Holy crap.  You are still in the process of "breaking up".  Finish it.
362749
why did you break up with her?  What are you looking for in a woman?
683830
Well, unfortunately it's in her mind that she wants out. So, save your energy and time and use it to focus on getting through the break up and after some time goes by then maybe seeing if it will work again...Good Luck!!!!!
31980
According to the latest research there are 7 main reasons:\n\nPoor communication\nFinancial problems\nA lack of commitment to the marriage\nA dramatic change in priorities\nInfidelity\nFailed expectations or unmet needs\nAddictions and substance abuse and Physical, sexual or emotional abuse\n\nLack of conflict resolution skills although not a reason certainly contributes.\n\nEvery case is different as every couple has unique triggers an stresses, but in general the above reasons would give most folks a run for the money to stay together.
267419
Why is he your old boyfriend? There had to have been reasons for breaking up and if I were you, I would take that into account. Also, would you be moving in together or just near him? Is it economical for you to move, will you be able to work, find housing? I don't know, it just doesn't sound like something that you should do...find a new boyfriend, one that lives closer to you or one that would move to be near YOU!
474511
Why not be friends and see how things develop?  If you two agreed to break up, why are you asking the question now?  Sit down and talk.