When a girl says "how about we become friend first' ". What does it mean?Is she gonna accept me?
441104
could mean she is just not sure about you yet and needs more time.
609527
maybe she's just scared that youre joking, or maybe she does mean no. try to make friends with her, and she might get to like you the same way you like her.
495872
umm...this girl is not your friend. a friend is someone you can feel comfortable being around..someone you can trust. and obviously, this girl can't handle the fact that you like her. i think it was immature of her to say yes when you asked her out just because she "felt sorry for you," but to each their own. i don't think you need this girl as a friend or anything else.
207877
Talk to her, tell her you would like to get to know her and be upfront that you would like to be friends. Honesty.
784017
=Don't bother cause she will be hurt by your remark.  She is your friend accept her as she is and focus on her other qualities.
956487
no, cuz if she rejects u, shes gotta say, i think were better off being friends,\nanyways, anyone you out with has to be a friend sometime before beign ur girlfriend
1009874
How will this information benefit you and your friendship?\n\nIf it won't benefit you and your friendship with this girl, then ...\nyou don't really need to know.\n\nThe friendships we make are an implication of how we feel about ourselves. If you can't be a friend to someone else...that says a lot about you.\n\nbe careful...be thoughtful...and be kind
677557
Be her friend first then ask her out.
678615
honestly it is a nice way to rejection . the girl really wants to keep the friendship only friends but concern if she tells you that she isn't into you on a "date" level or bf that she will lose that friendship. truthfully if she was into you as more than friendly there would be no hesitation on a date
183038
It really depends on the way it is said. It has happened to me twice. The first time, the girl just kind of walked up and blurted it out at me, it took me by surprise and I really do not think I handled that as well as I should have. We are still acquaintances but nothing ever happened. However, I was once asked out by a girl I had casually seen passing by. I accepted, of course, and we had a nice little lunch together. Near the end of the lunch she told me that she had been noticing me and trying to "hang out" around the places she knew I had been at. Then she said, "And I just wanted to say that from what I've seen, I love you." I still call her up to go hang out, but our relationship has (and probably always will be) just a friendly one.
1143816
it means that she is wanting to go out with you but she is wanting to get to know you like that before she goes out with you. its a good thing don't worry have a good time and make her have fun .
574217
sounds like a really good friendship with romantic undertones. sounds like you guys may be scared of getting together because you don't want to wreck your friendship. let the friendship grow, i think she does like you, but don't rush anything too much because sometimes it can be a little scary..but fun still.\n\nbut for a girl to say "when do you want to get hitched?" they definitely like you. i would never say that to a mediocre guy friend.\ni think you may have your foot in the door.\ntake it slow.\n\ngood luck!
295823
it might and it might not it could just mean she things your a good guy and she would like to fine a good guy but then again she could be hinting it feel it she how she reacts to a little casual closeness flirt if  you can tell she isnt feelin it then back off and stay friends remember not to over do it so then you can still keep your friendship
736925
that's the blow off 101 ... like the English 101 u should attend to:P but anyway if she or he gets bumped when u tell him/her you wanna be good friends, then tell u wanna be great friends.
782752
Well you're in a good position b/c most good relationships start with good friendship... but @ the same time, it might be hard for her to adjust to the fact that u really like her b/c she thinks of u more as a friend and she's probably never been in a situation like that. Just give it some time... if you two are really good friends then u dont have anything to worry about! =)
885706
just stay friends first.. and let's see what will happen... *winks*
732167
its an invitation to approach. she's making the first move, step up and make your move. the fact that you can read body language puts you ahead of the game, but its nothing if you cant follow up and act on it.\n\ngo up to her and start a conversation. ask her how she's going or something relevant to the situation. invite her to get some ice-cream or something, then invite her to some event youe going to later in the week, get her phone number and compliment her on being outgoing/adventurous or whatever seems appropiate for accepting the invitation. be fun, have a sense of humor, eye contact and occassional compliment, and youre in