How can i spice up my love life?
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1. Have him draw/paint you nude and then make passionate love to you.\n\n2. Make love somewhere with the risk of getting caught... in a libary, in an elevator, outside, etc.\n\n3. Blindfold him when he comes home. Tie him up to the bed. You take charge.\n\n4. Take a weekend off. Go somewhere exotic. Make love in a swimming pool, or in the ocean.\n\n5. Each of you should write out a fantasy involving the other person. Act out the fantasies for each other.\n\n6. Cook naked together. Include aphrodisiacs such as avocados and chocolate. Have a sexy naked meal; then, enjoy dessert.\n\n7. Get a fancy hotel room and make love in the jacuzzi.\n\n8. Record yourselves having sex, then watch the videos together before going another round.\n\n9. Experiment with temperature. Use ice cubes and candle wax.\n\n10. Go to bed naked. Hold each other and just kiss each other. Stop, and remind each other why you love each other so much. Tell him everything that makes him sexy to you. The result should be an exceptionally passionate lovemaking session.\n\nEnjoy!
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KEEP IT FUN.\nNOTHING MORE.
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There is ALWAYS time for things that are important enough. I suggest you do something to spice things up. Try something romantic...like secret admirer notes left for her....or try something different. Perhaps she has asked you to do something that you have said "no" to. Well....do it. Surprise her! That's what she's asking of you. \n\nMake dinner or have lunch/dinner/breakfast sent to her job/dorm room/home. Make a webcam video of you dancing aound seductively..it will either turn her on or make her laugh. Either way it's good. \n\nJust be consistent and maybe encourage her to help spice things up too. I mean....sheesh..ur probably a lil bored at this point too.
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Be creative and have fun... If you are together she probably enjoys some of the things you do... So set something up for her... Maybe even, if you live together, leave little clues around the house telling her to do certain things where there will be more clues leading her to her favorite restaurant where you have a new necklace for her or something that you're going to give her after the dinner... Or just take her to a movie... Pick her up from work or school and she'll ask you whats going on and just say "You'll see..." And go to dinner and a movie... Just have fun...
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OK - I'll take into account the info provided in your other related question as well as the info posted here, as you may have best results. Also I'm speaking from experience here - I was in a similar place to your b/f for a long time - which is never made easy given the stereotypes males are chained to as being the sexual horn-dogs in the human race.\n\n    First thing to do is deal with the stress/health/energy problems. Look at where diet may be impacting things - although hyped up, what we eat (or don't eat) makes a huge difference. Also exercise - try even making part of the exercise routine something you can do together (try doing a few gym classes together). By doing this you not only encourage each other to keep going, you're enjoying doing something new as a couple - plus you're sharing each other's company in a physical environment.\n\n    The other area to tackle of course is the physiological/emotional issues - encouraging him to come out of his shell in the bedroom (or anywhere else you chose for that matter). Part of the solution is to talk to him about how you're feeling, and encourage him to explore the sensual side of the relationship - help to create an environment which encourages exploration and imagination.\n\n    You could even start introducing a few toys or movies into your love life. Or try setting a day (or even an evening) aside each week that is set aside exclusively for romantic activities, and tease the crap out of each other over the preceding days to build up the sexual tension. Send a few erotic emails or text-messages TELLING HIM what you want him to do to you...make it fun, so that there isn't that stress or anxiety which is probably attached to the whole affair at present.\n\n    You may have to start this ball rolling, but with a little effort you may well find it proves more than worth it.
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go do a makeover, get all dolled up, tell him you would like to meet him for dinner and show up lookin sexy... and show him a great evening.. or go book an adventure.. hiking.. horse back riding..boating adventure.. whatever that would interest him..and have fun fun fun..
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*experiment with a different position.\n\n*do it in a new place (the living room, the kitchen, the garden, under the moon)\n\n*make the foreplay laaaaassssstttt a loooonnnggg time. :D
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anyway u will make love..\njust try to make it the best one by delaying it.\n\ndont jump into it.. be gradual and graceful.\n\nwear a red coloured dress..\nit should be big enough to cover the matter\nand short enough to create interest.\n\nstart with kissing.. try different postures..\nhav fun..
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You've only hit the tip of the iceberg.  Try playing strip checkers and chess.  Write out a wonderful sexual fantasy on a slip of paper and have your lover do the same.  Fold the papers, and keep them under wraps for now.  Play the game, and whoever wins gets his or her fantasy played out first.  Whoever loses, gets his or her fantasy played out second.  It's a win-win love making experience.  \n\nAlso try putting whipped cream underwear on each other and licking it off.\n\nStart with A of the alphabet, and kiss a body part of your lover that begins with A.  Then have your lover kiss a body part of yours that begins with B, and continue down the alphabet.  See if you get all the way through.  If you can't think of anything starting with the letter, make something silly up!  It's a new kind of spelling bee to do with your honey!\n\nAlso, use blindfolds and make love without looking at each other--just touch.  Use roses and feathers, and other sensual items to enhance the experience.]\n\nWhen you make love, focus your orgasmic energy on a specific goal you both share, or a dream you would like to come true.  Then you are practicing sex magic!  It's a lot hotter than regular sex.\n\nJust keep the fun, silliness, love, and creativity in whatever you do!
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Try dressing up in some lingerie, not to go to bed, but to go out.  Get a nice garter belt, bra and some really nice stockings, and wear them out with a nice skirt or dress.  They make feel very sexy, and it usually shows.  Go out on a date again all dressed up.  Dinner drinks whatever, just get out, have i good time, and break the boredom.
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Start of by asking your significant other to go out to dinner with you. Wear something that you know they find sexy on you. At dinner keep things positive and sexy! Talk about the things you did with each other when you first got together. After dinner, at each stop light or stop sign, kiss and touch each other, once home, remove each others clothes then start doing some of those things you talked about at dinner!\nOther things you could do is fantasy role playing, doctor and nurse, cop and hooker, naughty school girl and the principal.\nUse your imagination and think sexy thoughts about each other.\nSend each other dirty e-mails!\nI'm sure this will help you get that lust back.    Good luck
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Play games again like in the beginning...flirt, kiss passionately and then just walk away, smack a few asses playfully while doing housework or when the in-laws are looking the other way.  Take more personal time with de-stressing activities like bitching to your friends, yoga, or excercise to make him/her miss you more.  "Marital aids" like small toys or (especially) lubes of various sorts add whole new dimensions to your sex life as well.
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well a running start is always interesting, especially if there is a slip-and-slide involved...\n\nbut i'd recommend anything that puts you in a good mood and relaxes you.  music, entertainment of sorts, telling a funny story about your day, sharing an interesting thought you had, etc.\n\nthen maybe move on to saying something you like about the other person ("i love it when you..." etc.) then onto a backrub, hand massage, play with hair, etc.
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Wear something skimpy. Jump on top of him and do anything that he would like. Tease him. Maybe something kinky?
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Pack a picnic lunch and eat at the park, or beach, or lake, or whatever beautiful spot you have around your house.\nGo on a hike together.\nJoin a bowling team together, co-ed softball or some other sport that you both enjoy.\nRollerblading.\nBike riding.\nHorseback riding.\nBoard games.\nCooking a meal together.\nSit down and write a list of things you enjoy and ask him to do the same. See if there are interests that you have in common. Remember too, there should be things that you do seperate from each other so that when you are together again, you can talk about your seperate activities and have lives apart from as well as with each other.
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a nice Massage!!! if she is a working woman she will appreciate the royal treatment!!! send her roses to work, makes us feel special. COOK her dinner, nothing says "you are my special love" then a dinner made with blood sweat and tears. and then that night, massage her into a deep sleep. dont press sex either. ask her if she wants to. if she does, make love!!! no f*cking tonite. if she doesnt say something to the effect of "its perfectly fine. let me rub your feet, it will be better than sex" makes me dreamy just thinking about it, ps. im married too
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go out and have alot of sex