Why I feel attraction towards girls and how should I deal with it?
436652
Feel what you feel, the more you fight yourself, the more depressed you will get, the world wont fall apart and neither will you to deal with your feelings. its your life, be happy!
225318
yeah sure people still want it.and dude,you have to stop looking.the perfect girl will hit you like a hammer.when you see her talk to her and then you'll know.you won't know right away thet's her.but you will when you hang out every time and you get this tingly feeling and a feeling you've never ever gotten before.don't ever be  rush.don't go out with just any girl.go out with the ones that you feel are your true (and i mean true) love.hope this helps
775301
some girls just make you feel great, isnt it a rush bro, too bad you nor i would prolly have the balls to tell them how they make us feel
767038
Well considering shes your teahcer there isnt much you can do in that department. i mean you cant really approach her. i mean i guess you could. Really , I just think you should explore the fact that you like girls and go from there. If you feel you really do like them for sure and you may be with women in the future then you can consider telling your parents. From my own experience though, you must know that more than likely if you tell your parents now that you think you are gay or bi they are unlikely to believe you so be prepared and have a strong support system from some friends.
553359
you will attract all kinds of girls and women.\n the thing is, what do you want and how are you going to carry yourself.\nif all you want is girls, you will get just that. if you want to be a fine upstanding and caring young man no matter how your body is shaped ,you will still attracted all kinds\nof girls.\nbasically whatever your standards are,thats how your life will be.
524173
hey take a chill pill.... its absolutely normal to fantasize bout another girl.... dont feel bad about it. be aware of your sexuality and preferences. live the way u wanna live.... n dream wat u want.... u live only once... so live life to the fullest.
225099
well apparently you are not straight.  You might scared her if she does not have the same feelngs.  so lose a good friend or tell her how you feel and she feels the same way.  vey scary.........maybe ask her questions that might help you to decide how to make a move or not.  good luck
1026338
not necassarily, it depends if you look at girls more of a sexual way. you could be bi. but it does depend on how old you are. your hormones might be kicking in or maybe your expermenting.\njust dont let it bother you so much. have fun!
381623
I think you should just  go up to girls and tell them how you feel about them, if they don't like it then maybe they are not the girl you want.
614810
well.. of course girls feel attracted to guys!!! if not there wont be such a thing as sex!!!! *lol* well.. there are many things that catches a girls attention.. a sweet guy would be the most obvious!!! we drool over sweet, sweet, caring, loving guys..*of course we drool in secret* well... umm.. if u like a girl and want to get her attention, just take good care of her and make sure you are always there for her.. show her you care in small ways.. dont go over the top displaying your affection for her... it kinds of scares us sometimes.. thats all i got.. **muahhhxxxx!!!!!!
636888
From this moment on, you tell yourself that you are an attractive, interesting guy than any girl would be priviledged to have. You are the man! Convince yourself you can have any girl you want. Look in the mirror and find the things that make you look good. If you need to excercise a bit to help things along. You are the Man!  Once you achieve this basic confidence in yourself, put the past behind you, concentrate on the future, which you are in charge of. You have what it takes to handle any girl, any situation. Go up to a girl, ask her out, treat her right.  You are the Man!
237450
You've experienced the good days with your girls at the past. And you liked it. However, losing something that you really treasured always gives disappointments. The reason why you are lonely is that you feel embarrasing when you think of the nice things that you had in the past but you lost in the present day today. You notice the big difference of the past days compared to these days. Because of that, you tend to feel disappointed. You want it back. And because you cannot get what you want, your brain is being tortured because of the lonesome you feel and makes you feel stressed. You have a good profession. You have a nice job to brag it to women. And with that, you may use your profession as your appeal to women in order to have a successful proposal. You may also start entering the gym to restore your lost nice looking body.
736359
wow you sound a little down I hope things get better for you and not all guys feel like that some feel like there not a girl they can't get
606994
IT' S NATURAL TO BE ATTRACTED TO OTHER FEMALES, BUT TO MAKE IT SEEM LIKE YOU ARE SINGLE IS JUST DISHONEST TO YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR GIRLDFRIEND.\n\nI THINK YOU SHOULD STAY CLEAR OF SITUATIONS THAT PUT YOU IN THIS POSITION OR JUST BE HONEST UP FRONT AND DON'T EXCHANGE TOO MUCH INFORMATION WITH OTHER FEMALES- JUST TELL THEM YOU THINK THEY ARE BEAUTIFUL, BUT YOU HAVE SOMEONE YOU ARE HAPPILY COMMITTED TO. FOR THE MOST PART A RESPECTFUL FEMALE WILL STOP THERE AND NOT TRY TO STEP INTO YOUR GIRLFRIENDS POSITION.\n\nIT'S UP TO YOU TO LET OTHER FEMALES KNOW YOUR POSITION AND WHERE YOU STAND .\n\nYOU SHOULD ALSO SEEK COUNCILING OR GUIDANCE BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED TO MAKE SURE THIS IS THE RIGHT TIME FOR YOU. YOU MAY BE ONE OF THOSE MEN WHO ALWAYS CHECK IF THEY STILL "GOT IT" WHERE THEY ATTRACT THE OPPOSITE SEX. NO MATTER WHAT- DON'T HURT YOUR GIRLFRIEND'S FEELINGS- SHE MAY THINK YOU CHEATING \n\nGOOD LUCK
787177
Well being a girl myself, what i can say is if you want something then you have to go for it. Just relax and step out of your comfort zone and in doing so you will be rewarded. If she says no, then you still have the triumph of overcoming your fears of the opposite sex. If she says yes then you will feel like your risk has payed off, and you will be even more excited about your risky behavior. Life is too short you have to go for what you want!
77616
Break this separation!\nHave a brave, and ask some nice girls.\nBecause its separation, girls are also feel alone as you feel.
198634
YOu show an awareness of the reason for your discomfort with women.  It could also be a fear of intimacy which is quite common especially if you had some kind of abuse as a child. It is a subconcious fear that you may be hurt somehow. I don't know how you would resolve this without some regular talk therapy. You need to explore it a lot each day and write your thoughts about it in a journal you keep to hlep you figure out and understnad it. Once you understand it completely it will lose its hold on you and you can gradually overcome it.