Shy girl told me she broke up with her bf...what does it mean?
438701
IT DEPENDS BECAUSE IF SHE TALKS TO U ALOT AND IS KIND OF LIKE A FRIEND OF YOURS THEN MAYBE SHE LIKES YOU. BUT IF SHE DOESNT EVEN KNWO YOU TO WELL SHE MIGHT NOT EVEN LIKE YOU. BUT YOU SHOULD ASK HER MAYBE SHE NEEDS TO TALK ABOUT IT AND IT WOULD BE NICE OF YOU TO JUST HEAR HER OUT. SRRY ABOUT MY CAPS BUT IM NOT YELLING AT YOU.
408364
Yes, I would say that you are. I believe the only reason she talked to you was to transition and to fill a void that her BF left and then when her former BF changed it was a reason to give him another chance. I understand you think she likes you, she just doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Leave them alone and if she gets hurt again you will know when to make your move.
365034
she might be saying stuff like that b/c she doesnt want to admit that its really over and that she doesnt want to be heart broken,u have to tell her the truth,u might have to make the conversation firm to make her understand and if she gets mad at u then thats her problem b/c she shouldnt get mad at u if ur telling her the truth,good luck :-)
177914
Probably she got really hurt when you dumped her (girls are quite sensitive).  She's still asking about you because she still can't forget you and perhaps the feeling is still there though she realized now that her ex-bf is much better than you.
70217
if you're afraid, then what does it matter if she has a boyfriend or not.  As soon as she breaks up with the boyfriend, you'll still be afraid, and you will continue to be afraid until she gets another boyfriend.\n\nSolution:  Deal with your fear of rejection before you  go any further in life.  This is what limits boys, and later men.  It sucks.  I can tell you first hand.
526297
Judging by the amount you used "I" and "me" in your\nquestion, it seems you are very in-tune with what\nYOU want and how a break-up would affect YOU.\n\nBut take a moment and try to look at the situation\nas seen from her eyes, as well as from your BF's eyes.\nPerhaps if you step back and look at things, you will\ndiscover just what it is she hopes to gain. And remember,\nshe may not be thinking of how her interfering would\neven affect you. She's probably only thinking of herself,\ntoo.
614342
Well, first of all she's not your girl anymore. You've both had people in your lives after the break up which is fine. You weren't together and you both had someone else. She has no right to be mad at you if she is.\n\nIf she says that it doesn't matter whether or not you want to be with her then that's probably the truth. You need to both tell her and show her how you feel and than see what she has to say.\n\nI'm sorry to be harsh. I am a very blunt person. I wish you the best of luck.
619770
u sound totally nice to me, even tho you're not my type much. maybe she prefers other kinds of guys, (like i do, i like bad boys/lost souls, who're mysterious but can be reachable)  Or maybe she just wants to be friends, because that's what she thinks of you as. just wait a while, ask her why she broke up w/ u, or as her if she wants to go out w/ u again. good luck
526023
he was on a break?\nNEVER tell her girl-wake up. don't be sad either-you did what was ok at time-can't see future
423410
She seems like she has some issues. I mean, for one thing she said clearly that she did not want to come over. Then she was like see you later, she was ready to get off the phone with you quick and definitely didn't want to talk any longer. She seems like she is sending you mixed signals, and if she doesn't like you, then she should just tell you. I mean, don't throw hints, just be like she wants to be friends. Then as for being shy, she could have just said that she didn't feel comfortable coming back to your place. You would have understood that I am sure. Basically, you should just see where it goes this time, if she tries to be intimate, like showing you affection, just come out and ask her what is up. Don't be rude, but be like, Do you like me? Do you see me as a boyfriend or just a friend. You need to know, because she can't be like I want you one second and then don't want to be around you next. She needs to be honest. I hope that whatever happens you don't get played, so if you can see it isn't going to get better, leave her alone.
740663
She's probably likes her boyfriend but has a crush on you at the same time.   She didn't tell you she had a boyfriend because she thinks you're cute and wants you to like her back. She would probably go out with you if she didn't have a boyfriend.    But since she doesn't dislike her boyfriend she has no reason to break up with him and she likes him enough and or doesn't like you enough to change the way things are.   Also things are stable the way they are and if she breaks up with him there is a chance that she might not get you. She just wants to have someone.\nShe probably does realize that you like her and she likes the attention.   Don't let her push you around or damage your pride but it doesn't hurt to be nice.\nIt's hard to tell without seeing the situation and what you are going through but this could be somewhat similar?   Hope this helps.  \nEither way don't stop being nice...Nice guys get all the girls in college.   Nice guys also get meaningful relationships instead of flings because they are keepers.
168024
most likely he's afraid to tell you "i'm breaking up with you" cause you either pissed him off or there's another girl
343506
Did she say 'we need time apart' or 'we need to be apart'?  If the former, it could mean that she needs some time to herself.  Everyone needs some alone time, or just space to relax with your friends, get your head together, etc.  Absence makes the heart grow fonder.\n\nIf she said the latter, well, she dumpped you man.  Pick up the pieces and move on.
1072990
This could mean either she likes you or she doesn't.  She might be trying to make you jealous and want you to come and talk to her but she could also be trying to send you clues to back off.  Wish I could help you more. SORRY! GOOD LUCK!
685441
she told u that coz its another way of saying she don't want to date u again.....\n\nits an excuse not to further hurt ur feelings...
504003
My boyfriend told me something just a little while ago. Before we were going out, he didn't know that I liked him, he said i was sending him mixed messeges! I definatly didn't think I was...I liked him so much! But I liked him so much that I would get nervous when I was around him, because I didn't want to give him the wrong Idea, that is what it sounds like is going on. It sounds like the girl likes you, shes just shy. Don't be shy too!! Go for it!
820576
If she broke up with the guy for sure, and if you are not close friends with him, you can tell her you like her.  But understand that right now she is on the rebound, and not really ready for a new boyfriend.  Even if she thinks she is.  But you can start spending time with her if she is willing, and maybe something will develop from it.