Should I be a jerk with girls?
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Do what makes YOU happy.You DON'T have to be a jerk BUT you don't have to go out with someone you don't want to. Go out with someone that YOU are interested in and if it's one of those younger girls then all the better. \n\nGood Luck
665407
well if you keep thinking like that then you'll be single for the rest of your life! Just go for it! its pretty hard to mess stuff up like that unless you treat her like s.h.i.t then you might have a problem. ok, out of all the girls that like you, pick out the one that you want to go out with the most or the one you would feel comfortable dating. Then if you don't like it just tell her that it just wasn't working out and you still want to be friends but not boyfriend/girlfriend. She won't be mad at all.
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Hi again, Alex....\n\nRon here again, and I am urging you to be bold, to be the aggressive, masculine male that females deep-down love to see.\n\nJust DO IT, DUDE!!!  Kiss their cheeks, and THEN (hello....!!) see their reactions.  \n\nMan, be a male, do not be a chicken-sh!t girly-man.  Be an aggressive male, like your genes are demanding you to be, OK?\n\nThen, if the girl in question is offended, then you have saved yourself a whole lot of future effort with her.....  \nMove on and seek another target of your affection~\n\nREMEMBER ALEX:     KISS HER FIRST, AND THEN, THEN, THEN, ONLY ASSESS HER REACTION.  BE BOLD, MAN, BE BOLD!    \n\nTHE GALS LOVE BOLDNESS~!\n**********************************************************************\nGOSH, the lame answers that others have given to you herein...\nthey suck their soupy supper through straws, let me tell ya...\nDo these kinds of guys, as advised by these poor answers above, ever make it into the annuls of Love?  Or are they wimps?\nARE YOU A WIMP, OR ARE YOU A KISSING, LOVE-MAKING-MACHINE, IN THE MAKING??\nDO YOU WANT GIRLS TO THINK OF YOU \nAS a Gallant ROMEO, in their minds, or JUST AS SOMEONE, \nwho asks if you can kiss a girl's cheek??\n\nThe difference between Lovers, that girls remember, and LOSERS, that girls laugh at, is just this, Alex:\n\nBE  BOLD IN THE PURSUIT OF THE GIRLS!!!\n\n((look, email me, I want to know if this helps, clik my icon....))
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you know what i think ?\nif i where your girl friend , i think id rather you tune me out sitting on the couch for some video game ...\nthan to go off with the guys doing things i wouldnt want you to do !!!! \nhave fun with your games sweetie ,, treat you girl with respect and remind her if she dosent like the fact that you play these games for hours , that you could be some where else !\nthat sould shut her up !!  (lol)
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good for you! .. i think some quiet girls in class like me wants a good relationship and not sex\nif the girl you are with thinks that you want sex, them many you should please them more, with little simple things like noticing anything new like a haircut or an eyebrow trim, give little gifts for every holiday, invite her more to dinners or movies and take her home with a good bye kiss on the cheeck or forehead, etc.. \n\nand this doesn't mean that you are sentitive, it just that you dont like people looking at you the wrong way.\ntry to act more like a GENTLEMAN, and stop flirting with other girls
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You are a f****** p****.  Stop being a nice guy . . . because of you being a nice guys those b****** are walking all over you and you will get nothing.  I bet you are even taking them shopping, buying them dinner, and taking them to movies, etc. . . right.  They are using your dumb a**.\n\nYou have been labeled as a friend or a brother . . . by them . . . you will never get a little something - something.  You see once you received that label . . . you will never get that moved into the lovers category.  \n\nYou act like a friend . . . than a lover.  I bet they even talk to you about their sex life.  About the a**holes and jerks they date and give it up to.  Are you understanding where I am getting at . . . you need to get in touch with your inner a*hole . . . start acting like a jerk . . . stop being reliable and buddy/buddy with them.\n\nHere is something I want you to listen too . . . Monday through Friday between 3-7pm Pacific Time.\n\nhttp://tuner1.dc1.sonixtream.com/solon/media/tuner/Tuner?aff=fmtalki&useSame=true&type=IE\n\nThis is a radio talk show that talks about the issues MEN really care about . . . teaches guys how to get more tail for less money . . . and also teaches girls how men think.\n\nYou need to change your life . . . because right now . . . you have no balls.\n\nI am being blunt as you requested . . . maybe this kick in the a** will help you.
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If you think she thinks you're a jerk, then you're acting like one. Relax, keep in mind that there are more fish in the sea. The worst thing that can happen is she says no. Keep that in mind, you'll be fine. Do not be yourself... would you be yourself at a job interview? Hell no! this chics don't know what they are talking about
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you sound great! i don't know why they're such jerks...i like guys who are just friends...i'm not into that bf/gf stuff yet (i'm a teen!) i like guys who respect themselves...you sound AWESOME!!! i'm sorry that people say that kind of stuff :(
690908
Yeah, I think guys tend to care about it more than girls.  If they end up in a locker room where they have to be exposed, anything that's different can be grounds for isolation or humiliation because all it takes is one jerk.  I think anyone will use that issue against you only if they are angry with you for something else and are hoping to hurt you in any way they can.
801684
you developed a conscience....good for you. The little things like that really mean a lot to girls and will help you get in their pants a lot more than being a jerk (if that makes ya feel better)
1095331
Stupid question..If you are a boy, jerk as you wish. Learn english first. dont care what girls do. you could ask when you get a girl as your own. loser!!!
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They have other priorities, like intelligence, appearence or social position-- but it's very rare for a girl to ultimately settle down with a guy who's a jerk, it's usually a great fling-- one other aspect here is that rude is in the eye of the beholder... you may think he's being a jerk but sometimes she thinks it's funny or just agressiveness but not necessarily rudeness
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your buddies are way wrong and lieing their butts off.  avrage is little over 5.  you'll be fine. girls will like you if your a cool person not cause of how big you are.
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I suggest being less polite. Be a bit obnoxious. Women say they don't like that, but if that was really true, why do they always sleep with all of the bad boys? \n\nI used to be shy and polite in high school. I never got women. In the navy, I learned that you need to be a little big arrogant, a little bit obnoxious, and a little bit "in your face" about the fact you want to sleep with them. It works 70% of the time. :)
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I hate to lay some of the blame on you, but first ask yourself, are you being rude? Are you  being self-centered. If not, then, as much as this is probably the most annoying answer on the planet, you'll just have to wait. Keep trying to make friends with girls and eventually, you'll find the right one.
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You want us to help you defrock your virgin girlfriend?\n\nSheesh have a heart. Don't be a selfish jerk. If that is how you rate your relationship I pity your girlfriend.  I hope when you do ask her, she runs away and never speaks to you again.\n\nPERVERT,  SELFISH IMMORAL JERK..........
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Been tru some crap myself.... people use you and just treat you like a sweet wrapper.... Dont bother going out with those girls anymore, they sound mean and sorry if its harsh but you need to get to know yourself. Know thyself and you will then know that you are better and worth more than a million of those girls..\nSpend time reading or journal writing or spirituality. Spend quality time with you, focus on a hobby... anything. By the way I am 25 and not some old granny trying to give you wholesome advice.\nI have been in this situ b4 so when I started telling my so called friends that I couldent go out or do that favor (for watever made up reason.. my dog is sick, I have an appointment, my car brokedown, ) I began to realise the reason I felt so bad about myself was because they manipulated me to feel just that in their own twisted way.\nAfter some time of spending time with you or people who only judge you by your standards you will see that you are worth so much more and have lovely qualities and attributes that are highlighted by those who love you. Thos girls bring out the worst in you. Dont give them that chance any more. It will take some time and you will get frustrated by lonliness but come on , dont suffer these fools gladly... Best of Luck xxxx