Why do WOMEN play HARD to Get when you tell them that your interested in them?
450955
take it from me, they play that, bc they have to make sure the guy is up for anything. in other words, they want to make sure that YOU are SURE you want to be with them before they devote all their time and energy into a relationship with you. duh! guys hurt gals in so many sick and twisted and horrible ways, if you dont know. everyone is different, i know, but that's why they shy away, to make sure that's what YOU really want, so they dont jump in and scare YOU away like sum guys. its an emotion thing.!!!
876270
Flirting is a fun game. The highest form I know is hinting at the indescribable pleasures to be had in a relationship with you, and not letting on like your object is even in the running. They'll come to you as curious as a kitten to a paper bag. Don't act desperate, that's a turn-off. Act like you have All The Time In THe World and are in no hurry. They won't be able to stand not having this fun you're hinting at. Good luck.
513011
not really, i think all men like the chase but want to know that they have a chance at catching you. he needs to know your interested but if he has to chase to hard he will just say F it. the game can get to be a pain in the a$$ so make the game fun
794651
Seduce them with confidence. Nothing is more attractive than being sure of yourself and having a life that you love. This does not mean being a self-interested jerk, which sometimes passes for confidence. \n\nWomen like to feel like the men they are with are secure and have their act together. It is difficult to be attracted to a man who seems needy or unhappy. \n\nThe same, I am sure, is true for the kind of women men like.
649545
if a woman is really interested in you, she will be curios to get to know you and she will sincerely ask you probing questions about your life.but if she is not, nothing you do or say will tickle her fancy
968897
Of course, you need to play hard to get right back at her.  Girls always want what they can't have.  Ask her out less often, and be with her less often, but still let her know that you are still interested in her.  Maybe it is just going to take her a while to get her head around the idea of dating out, or just going out with you.
893704
Yeah she is interested in finding more about you and seeing whether or not you reciprocate with the same behaviors....... keep doing what your doing be interested in her too but subtlety is key
1119057
It takes a certain amount of effort to make that first move.\n\nI use to play this game where I would approach attractive women out of the blue just to master a kind of smooth way of dealing with women.  At first I was nervous and would struggle with staying relaxed, but over time I got where I could be as comfortable with an extremely attractive woman whom I had never spoken to until that moment as with some woman that I had know for years.\n\nI thought it was really funny because it was such an unusually brash self assured behavior, but it wasn't like it was helping me find Mrs. Right.\n\nEven once I got where I could stay comfortable, I still had to gather my thoughts to make sure that old insecurities, social perceptions, etc. etc. etc. didn't rise up and throw me off my game.\n\nAfter a while I realized that each woman was just another woman, and so it didn't seem worth the effort to make that big push, to make that first move.\n\nThe idea of romance was in my head, but that didn't mean that this girl or that girl being attractive would make her Mrs. Right and I would live happily ever after.\n\nWhether they have fleshed it out as much as I have in their minds, most men feel a natural reluctance to lay their ego on the line on the chance that some girls smile means something, or even that just because a girl smiles at you that she will even be worth the effort.\n\nIf you could see clearly that this was Mrs. Right and not have to put out all of that effort only to find another boring ordinary kind of relationship, then the motivation might be a little stronger to make that first move.
873569
Most women are too busy playing "hard-to-get", it's human nature.\n\nHere's three ideas to think about:\n\n1)  How about you get his attention by smiling when you catch him looking.\n\n2)  The best way to show confidence is to approach him.  (I think all ladies should use this advice).  The probably wouldn't be much use for dating sites if women approached men.\n\n3)  Or if your passive aggressive use your network of friends or co-workers and start a rumor that you like a particular guy.  Trust me he'll find out and seek your attention if he is attracted to you.
750860
Typically, Yes a woman is pretty much interested. Unless you kinda pressured her into a kiss. Dont try to overwhelm her to much with this whole relationship going somewhere. That will make her run. Just try to be cool the next time you and her go out on a date.
666655
she will play hard to get but always being very flirtatioussometimes you have to step up and make the first move to see how she really feels about you. one thing always be confident in yourself that will definitely help and be good listner girls love that!
224424
I hear ya. They all say they don't but they do. I was talking to a female friend because I've been having trouble in the dating department and she told me the same thing. Don't rush things but make sure you show her you're interested when I asked her how I was supposed to do that she only told me to shut up. \n\nI think if you find someone who that kind of crap doesn't matter when the both of you can just be into each other and not worry about whether you're calling to soon or if you should wait that's when you've got something. \n\nGenerally women want what they think they can't have... that's why if you act slightly disinterested they are more intrigued then if you just come out and say the stuff that's on your mind. \n\nGirls aren't the only ones who do it guys do it to. It sucks but that's just  the way it is.
828622
Unfortunately, a lot of singles on both sides of the gender fence treat it like a game. If two people are truly looking for a relationship... playing games isn't the way to do it.\n\nFirst off, it's very dishonest. Take the "play hard to get" game. A woman likes a guy, but initally feigns disintrest, or turns down an initial offer of a date. The woman uses as a rationale "well, I want to see how interested he is". The way I see it, the woman isn't being honest... and what sort of way is it to start getting to know someone by being dishonest? Let's say she tells him later that she really was interested... likely she will imply that it was the guy's fault that he didn't keep asking her... but in contrast how many women out there get mad when their significant other DOESN'T  listen to them and respect what they say? \n\nI think the game playing can also be a sign of some egotism... the mindset being "I'm such a hot commodity, you have to show me why I should go out with you"... that's a very one sided view to take if pursuing a healthy relationship where both partners should be considerate and treat each other as equals.
573015
some guys like that. In my case I don't play hard to get, I am hard to get..haha, some people are just shy or something.
1174023
It means she is playing games with you.  she wants you to like her for her ego (wants to be loved), but doesn't want to give back.  The only way to handle this is to leave her alone.  Tell her she is giving you mixed messages and just stay away from her.  She will either realize she needs to give in order to get or she will fade into the distance.
1061742
its not a game, it's a way for us girls to feel you out to see where your head is at, if she didn't like you, she wouldn't be around you in the first place. love is a game to most, and sincere to a few. woman want love and we try so hard to find it, even if it means going through alot of drama to find it. what would make it easier is if you guys just say what you feel instead of playing:THE GAME
309375
They are playing hard to get. I don't understand why they do it but they do. They want the girl to "sweat" it out. The guy thinks that they really got it going on. If he sees you with another guy, its competition and they will call you back.