is middle school an okay time to start dating? not trying to sound too concerned..?
439553
Dating depends on the maturity of the people involved. If you honestly think that you are mature enough to date responsibly, then dating could be an option. It also depends on the parents. Most middle school dating is innocent. But there are a lot (Even more today then before) that isn't and we're seeing more and more middle school girls with high school guys and even pregnant. Dating in middle school is fine. Sex in middle school isn't. The body is going through a lot of adjustments and it sure dosen't need to deal with that, too.
283144
Nope, instead focus on school and friends. It's ok to be boy crazy just don't become boy stupid. Also, make them chase you. Trust me, you'll have pleanty of time to have a boyfriend. They will come and go. Your heart will get broken a few times before you meet the right one and he too may break your heart. Why would you want to deal with all that at 12.
815293
Yeah, you look fine. Don't get too anxious -- teenage girls can be fickle! Relax...there's plenty of time to find someone. And keep your good / nice attitude! It will serve you well in life, as well as in the romance department.
1061046
Depends on you. If you like someone date them, dont date them just cuz you feel like dating someone at the moment. A relationship ( even though im not sure if its considered a relationship at the age of 13 ) shouldnt exist because you feel like being in one, it should exist because of the mutual feelings you have for each other. And I personally think that relationships in jr.high are pointless. They are a waste of time, and they don't go anywhere. but thats my opinion. if you feel your ready, and if you have ACTUAL feelings for the boy.. then go for it! =)
551456
oh my god 7 months thats it lol me andmy husband are 8 yrs apart and it really makes no difference. but i guess if ur in high school it cud be weird its not really accepted unless u are an adult.....just ask him out...if 7 months is freaking him out u shud look for someone 7 months older cuz guys dont mature until ATLEAST 25!!! good luck
204691
There's likely nothing at all wrong with you. In fact, you sound very young...just the way you type. I wouldn't worry abotu finding a boyfriend. It'll happen. I haven't dated in a while and for right now that's the best thing for me. Take your time, examine your options, flirt, etc. Just have fun being young and NOT feeling the weight of a relationship. Above all, don't start going out with a guy you're not positive about just because you feel lonely or incomplete. That's not being true to yourself.
338028
It is normal to worry about these types of things even if you are 16.  Personally I think being picky is a good thing.  Why settle for someone who isn't really right for you.  As for internet dating, I don't think it is such a great thing at your age because you can't really be with the people you meet.  What is the use in anything more than a friendship on line if you can't spend time in the real world together.  Just be patient and realize that most of us never find true love till after high school anyway.
1131138
Well, the good news is in most areas of the country, and yours is probably not an exception, there isn't a lot of "dating" at a middle school dance.  In other words, you and your girlfriends all go to the dance, and the boys go to the dance, and you all hang out (and some people get brave an actually dance).  "Group dating" is pretty popular for many years, largely because most parents don't like the idea of their kids dating for a while.  After a while, you might find yourself "going out" with some boy, but since you'll probably go out with him AND all his friends while he goes out with you and your girlfriends, it won't really seem as scary as it sounds right now.\n\nSo, don't worry so much about having a particular boy to like you yet.  Most girls get used to the "group dating" system, and it's great when you don't have a boyfriend yet or even when you do have a special guy.  Maybe you'll get lucky and be "going out" with someone by the first dance, but if you don't, don't worry...few girls will go with "dates" to the dances, either.\n\nFinally, keep in mind that boys your age are immature (it doesn't get a lot better when we get older).  You will probably spend most of your time being irritated because the guy you have your eye on doesn't notice you, and at the beginning of middle school, many boys simply aren't READY to date girls since they think of them as either friends or boring or silly.  You and your girlfriends will spend a lot of time trying to convince them to go out with certain girls (your friends will play a big role in helping you date your special someone, and HIS friends will do the same).  This is another reason not to worry: the boys you're interested in might not be ready to date yet (or they seem to be "going out" with girls just because their friends said they should).\n\nSo, try not to worry too much.  You might find a special boy to hang out with at the dance, but if you don't, you certainly won't be alone.  Dating becomes more "specific" and "special" in high school and college, anyway, so concentrate on having fun!
356702
15 is a reasonable age to be dating. I started at around that age. I would not let her date anyone more than three years older than her and would prefer any boys 18 years of age to be Seniors in high school. When she is 18 she can do what she wants but until then she is my daughter and I will do what I need to in order to keep her safe!! Of course meeting the "date" is a must and there will be rules such as what time to be home, and letting her know she can call me for ANY reason if she needs to no matter what the time or where she is!!
1030560
You should have friends that are boys.  I wouldn't think that you are ready for a one on one relationship with a boy yet.  That will come later when you are about 16 or so.
1109571
"boyfriends" and "girlfriends" are ok at that age--dating is not. If the kids are just hanging around together with nothing physical or serious going on it's ok.
274982
my mom let me start dating at 15, only because i grew up with the guy and she was close to his parents, but I would have to say, high school is the "dating era", so in my opinion I would say your first year of high school would be suitable....
1117544
Why 16 or seventeen? I think it's silly. You should start dating when you feel like you're ready for a serious relationship. It's not age dependent, but it's rather your what and how you feel about initiating such a relationship. Remember, it's not a game, not an experiment. It's not fair to experiment with people's feelings, but if you feel like you're ready for a relationship, go ahead. I'm 22, but I still don't feel mature and brave enough to initiate a romantic relationship. (plus I don't have the confidence to do that, but that's another story)
1005511
Middles school isn't that hard....your a little young for a boryfriend..(i'm turning 15 in July and my mom STILL won't let me have a boyfriend)...kinda ridiculous, but 12's a lil young...As for the school part, middle school isn't that hard. That hard crap starts in highschool.
1009622
You can't expect to find the right person by the time you get out of school. High school (middle school?) is just for enjoying yourself, not for finding a serious relationship.
1150649
Junior year was a great dating year for me...until it ended heh.\n\nBut if you are going to have sex in any relationship in H.S make sure its safe. Its a better bet to wait till marriage.
243620
I think it's too young.  People in middle school haven't learned enough about themselves yet to be ready for relationships.... Dating so early leads to too much confusion and hurt.  When people are more mature and know themselves better, they're able to deal with the complexities of relationships much better.  It's too bad there's so much peer pressure nowadays to start dating early.