Do guys look at the boobs first, or straight into your eyes?
441726
depends what guys, some just want your body but others want you for who you are!
327292
Good for you for not peeking. And no, I don't do it. I have looked at guy while with my bf, but not in that way. My eyes just happen to wander where someone happens to be and that person is sometimes a guy, and sometimes that guy looks at me when I glance and gets a weird look on his face and makes me uncomfortable, and at that point you don't want to look away, because you're kind of afraid you might hurt his feelings, (I don't know why this is) and so you might smile to be friendly, whether or not he's good looking, so that's one thing. Or am I just weird? I really don't like making people feel bad, I always have to acknowledge them. I'm guessing girls who really do do it on purpose, have many different reasons. To make their bf jealous, to see if you're looking, to check you out, etc.  Also if you're looking at the girl to begin with, she may just look back because she can feel your gaze and it creeps her out. I've done that too, when I've felt someone looking at me. It freaks me out when people stare at me. God I'm neurotic.
377716
Ok, to be perfectly honest, no matter what guys say, the first thing that catches our eye is a girl's face or body.  It's not that we're insensitive pigs, its natural.  But personally after I first notice a girl, she usually hooks me if she is smart, and espeically if she has a great sense of humor and can make me laugh.  Also, I like a girl who is not afraid to take initiative in a relationship, like slightly dominant.
563970
depends on what your talking about...\nA guy will probably chase the big breasted slim "better" looking girl but in the end alot of the guys would not want to persue a relationship with a girl whose not fun to be with and has no connection with her.\n\nAll guys will look at the "sexy" girl wearing the least clothing but that doesn't really mean he'll want to be with her after meeting her.\n\nAll men are differant in what they want in a relationship and what the ideal girl looks like and wears, the older they get the more they can appreciate the inner beauty of a woman.
1035223
I ask myself that. and I'm sorry to waste your time but I do not know. I am 45 and very much in love with a wonderful woman in my life. I wouldnt stray from her for the world. I have 2 daughters. I do not go around and stare at women's breast but at times it is a conscious thing not to. I have to think about not being so rude. Perhaps we as men are just wired that way and the difference is those of us who take the time to look you in the eye.? Sorry to answer with a question.
726855
it's a man thing we all check out other women all the time 24 7 dose he do i on the sly. pay no attention to it. if you trust him. but in general men don't compare when they look all they see is boobs smile ass shape of crotch in jeans. and oh yes id like to give her one if i was not completely devoted to the beautiful woman at my side. ps any one that says you should do it dose not under stand human nature. if you notice that you look well trying not to look wont work but if you by nature's design dont look well dont force it. you should be able to talk to him about it and have a laugh
731500
Because they want a guy to notice NOT OGLE!!!  If she is trying to talk to you and you miss answering cause you are concentrating on her boobs, then you are ogling.  If you cant tear your eyes away from the cleavage to keep appropriate eye contact when being introduced, or when introducing yourself, then you are ogling.  It is RUDE!!!  Subtle glances are ok, and if you sitting across a crowded room, she will barely be able to tell whether you are staring at her or just her boobs.  Personally, if I don't want a guy to notice my boobs then I wear a more demure shirt...I HATE it when a girl gets all outraged over a guy noticing her body when she dresses to show it off (yopu know what I mean), cause why in the H*** would she have worn that outfit otherwise?
546837
Physical features that are balanced with eyes that are not afraid to gaze into your eyes are most attractive but it is the way the guy behaves with you that makes you want to look again.
147677
I think to some degree you answered this question.  You need to find a guy who can look you in the eye when you talk to him.  There is nothing wrong with the guy liking your boobs but he needs to like you and who you are beyond those.  Unfortunately other than looking you in the eye, the only real test is time and you being able to judge where his real interest lies.
592149
Because until men get over the fact that they can think without using their eyes, it becomes pointless to pick out a girl based on what she looks like.  Number 1 reason why I have a major distrust of any online dating site.  I'm a guy, but it takes a real guy to say it like it is.  If you got no heart, then you don't (in my opinion) know how to view girls.  And it goes the other way as well.  If girls think that the best way to attract a guy by getting naked and then sharing their naked pictures online, then you are appealing to the eyes, but not the heart.  Unless of course the eyes have had free reign for so long that the heart is screwed every where he looks.
829631
of course u notice looks first ... then personality ..  if u think about it .... if the guy looks like frankenstien ..has 1 damaged eye.. but his personality is perfect ... come on ... u are not goin to date him ..or think twice about him
870405
if they dont cause you any physical problems i wouldent do it just for the sake that guys look at your chest when talking to you thats not a good reason but if its physical then i would go ahead
971010
You're guy is interested in you and very comfortable with being with you.  Ergo he has no problem with maintaining eye contact with you.  \n\nThere are lots of creepy guys out there that have no problem with staring.
267086
I dont really know you but, most men, i have noticed, stare at a woman's boobs.  If you want to get her to understand that you see more to her than that, don't even glance at them.  This could be hard for you but, it should help.  Tell her things like...you are so smart or you are the nicest person or things like that but avoid you are beautiful, other than occasionally.
29009
i check guys out all the time but i usually get caught just because i turn around to look at them and they're already checking me out so to answer ur question we do check guys out a lot or atleast i do.and yes i like getting checked out but not overly if hes looking me up and down a million times its uncomfortable and kinda creepy(probably cuz i know what hes thinking about at that time)but i like eye contact more its more personal!anyways to get a date u need to show a girl ur looking at her,make eye contact,and smile.if she smiles back (while blushing) then u probably have a good chance.then u say hi if she says it all back sweetlike then ask 4 her #!ok hope this helps u!GOOD LUCK
723409
The first thing I look at are her eyes. But what really attracts me are her breasts. By what you tell me, youre perfect. My kind of girl.
867768
Answer this.\nWould you want to be showing your breast?\nAnd men dont have breasts. They have chests.