How long does it take a boy to tell a girl he loves her?
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I love you. That took about 1.7 seconds. But he just won't say it, huh. He may say it tomorrow or he may never say it, that isn't exactly the strongest sign that he honestly loves you. There are many factors at work and it will be up to you to muddle your way through it all. Let me see if I can help you do that.\n\nYou will find as you age that Love will take on many faces. \n\nAt times, Love will make you feel like the happiest girl in the world. You will be so filled with It that Love will spill over and get on everyone around you. The whole mood of a room will change when you walk through the door.\n\nOther times, It will take your heart and stomp it into the ground. Just when you think it is done, it will turn and spit on you.\n\nLove will be the thing that defines different periods of your life. Love is better as a group activity but that doesn't mean you can't be alone in your feelings of Love also.\n\nWhat you have to look at here is your boyfriends comfortable zone. In some families the word love is used in everyday language. The children and the parents are quick to assure each other of Its existance. \n\nIn other families, It is said only at times when someone feels a strong need to assure another that they do indeed feel love for them.\n\nThen there are those families where speaking the Word is a bit uncomfortable and is almost or totally absent from their interactions. So...\n\nWhich of these fits your boyfriend's experience. Is the word so common to him that he might find it easy to say even if he feels only a little bit of it towards you? Is he someone that understands his feelings enough to say it only if he is sure of it? Or could he feel an overwhelming Love for you but still not vocalize it? \n\nHere is the defination of "what love is" as given in the Bible. It's not a definition of being in love. It gives a definition that defines what will be present if love is present. Even if the word Love is never said, this is how you will recocnize it.\n\n"Love is patient, love is kind. It is not jealous, (love) is not pompous, it is not inflated, it is not rude, it does not seek its own interests, it is not quick-tempered, it does not brood over injury,  \nit does not rejoice over wrongdoing but rejoices with the truth. \n\nIt bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails... So faith, hope, love remain, these three; but the greatest of these is love."\n\nDon't try to force the Word from him. Don't think that hearing him say the Word is the definitive event that proves It's existance. Actions speak so much louder than words ever will. Instead, look for the signs of Love. Now you know what those signs are.
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Since you care about her pleasure and are taking the time to make sure she is happy (before or after is fine) I think you will be just fine. \n\n5 minutes if she is properly warmed up may be enough anyway!
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There are many forms of love and they are all very powerfull.  What you need to be is patient but also realistic. How long are you going to wait sans a life for this girl? Go find you a girl that likes you as much as you like that girl and realize you need someone that loves you just as much as you love them.
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She ethier has to slowly hint that she likes him or not tell him. Let him tell her. I know it sucks, but guys need to make the first move. Sometimes girls can but only if she is certain a guy likes her. At 13, it's hard age. Love can be tough. That's why the boy should make the first move.
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That's sweet, your by her side and she knows that she can depend on you. It can be complicated sometimes, your not sure if you want to tell her because you don't want to break the relationship you have right now with her, but it's bothering you because you want her to know that you love her. You need to tell her, or else she might find another. I think that she likes you just by what you wrote. You sound like an awsome guy and I really think that you deserve her love.
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im a girl so i should know.alot of times,girls don't feel that the guy is giving them enough attention so they just drop it.girls want to feel loved and if your not ready to provide that then maybe you should wait a while.
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A simple kiss.  Tell her, Im only a boy but all the love in my entire body from  my heart has just moved into you. \n\nThen give her a rose or a movie ticket or something so she doesnt think your cheap.
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Theres no simple answer, each love story is unique. for some ppl it cud b a few weeks but others cud take years to realise.  Only you can know for sure.
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It depends on how much time he spends with you and the guys.  Everyone needs girl time or guy time, but you also guy&girl together time.
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Dont worry about it.  If you have to try and figure out a way to tell her then i don't think your ready to tell her.\n\nJust don't concentrate on it and it will just slip out when the timings write.  If you have to hesitate and think about it then you shouldn't say it yet.\n\nOr if you want to do somthing cute to tell her, like on a cake or somthing don't worry about it 1 day somthing will just pop in your head and you'll know thats it.\n\ni hope this helps.  good luck!
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A guy went to a gal and said " I love you"\nThe gal slapped him tightly and said " Why didn't you tell earlier?".............lol
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It depends on her age?\nIf you are in your teenage years then i dont think that it is taking things too fast.  But if she is not ready yet and this guy likes her that much she should ask him to wait a bit longer and he should respect her wishes.  Good luck.x.
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well probably yeah, you know how round about my age ( 14 ) boys hormones go all funny, well for a few months i was in love with this boy and im obviously a boy and it was really hard but i couldnt keep it a secret so i told him, he was ok with it for a few weeks but en we never ever spoke again to this day. shame huh. im straight now lol, sorted maself out.
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If you are going to do it the old-fashioned way by asking her parents before asking her, I would say that you should do it right beforehand, as in 1-3 days. You don't want to be on nervous pins and needles for very long in between, and her family won't want to have to keep that kind of news under their hats for very long, either.
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She shouldn't. A girl should wait until she knows a boy loves her and not do it for the heck of it.
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Boy meets girl\nboy loses girl\nboy gets girl back...
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cuz boy lie to girl when he said he loved her