Should I just go back???
438640
Move on with your life. Put him in your past and keep him there.
680240
One day, you will miss your old country.  Try to return for 2 weeks with a good attitude - take a lot of digital pictures to remember what the old place was like.  Maybe one day you will share them with your children in USA.\n\nGood luck\nSafe travels.
553941
Don't go back with him.Especially if your doing well.It will only make you sadder in the long run.Take care of yourself.Don't worry about him.I wish you the best.God bless.
846919
That is a difficult thing to do.  Every time you feel yourself go back to the past, stop, tell yourself to let it go and maybe that will help.  If not, maybe talk to someone?  I hope you can work it out.  Don't be TOO hard on yourself.  Peace!
893449
From my own experience, it may be worth going back to work for a little bit of time if you can handle it.  When my little one was 6 months no way did I want to go back.  I was crying, really upset and devastated at the thought.  Once I went back, I hated it.  I was desperately looking for a way out, as we could not have afforded for me not to work.  However, after about 2-3 months, it started to settle down.  I have been back now since Feb and it's okay.  I still would prefer to be at home, but to be honest, it is quite nice having some time for me to be me - if you see what I mean.\n\nHowever, to answer your question, in my quest for looking for something else I could do from home, I joined Avon.  I don't make a lot of money out of it, so couldn't afford it full time - but perhaps if I dedicated myself to it, I could?  I really enjoy working with Avon and they have some really nice stuff.\n\nOther things I considered were: arts and crafts (cards, jewellery) to sell on Ebay and Usbourne children's books.
341349
Dont go backwards. History has a way of repeating itself-move forward is it really worthwile putting yourself through emotional turmoil again? She wants you and someone else???? You are worth more.
1037321
get back to your country.\npossibilitys are better
508225
I have been in a similar situation, unfortunately, I had no choice and had to move back home, and it did suck, but in the long run it was better and that couple months will end up seeming like a blink of an eye in 10 yrs, so I would move back home, you'll only save money.
132566
i think its okay if you're okay with it. do you want to go back to your ex?  if so, talk to him about it first. commmunication is key.
950179
Things break for a reason. Move on. It can feel good to return to something that once comforted you and offered you happiness. But usually it isn't the same as before and you can't return to the past.\nWithout trust you don't have much more than memories. Don't try to build a future on memories. (memories are often glimpses of the way we wish things had been rather than true representations of the way things were.)\nHeal as people, separately. Move on.
243538
uhmm.....depends...if you still love him and REALLY wanna be with him, and if he never hurt you, and if you enjoy the things that you guys do together, then you should TOTALLY get back with him! but then again, its depends on the reason why he left...its all up to you
1110261
Your poor dear. At this point, I think it is best to let go and see what happens. If it is meant to be, she will realize how much you love her. If she doesn't come back, realize that you WILL meet someone that will appreciate your love and love you back. Sometimes the best, and hardest, thing to do is let someone go. I don't think you need to move away though! Give her some space and see what happens, but keep yourself open to meeting new people too. You never know who may be around the corner waiting to meet you!
1080257
Babydoll, I think you haven't really thought this through too well. This  piece of buttwipe did you a favor & you want him to hurt you more?? If you ever think about relocating to The Sun City, you come on over & "Holla" at me & I'll be showing you what it feels like to have someone care about you, your feelings & not be such an arsehole to continuously rub your nose in mistakes of your past (believe me, I should know about mistakes from my past!)
1071653
trust me enjoy high school and college as much as you can...live life to the fullest because you'll never get that time back!...i finished college almost a year ago and i wish i could do it all over again!
611240
Now its time for u too move on and start a new relationship.Dont dwell on the past, always remember to move forward, lookin back is only gonna make it hurt and probably even worse on u...if u think its for the best, then i has to be...good luck on ur journey.
612183
Just think of it this way, once you've made the decision, can you go back and change it?  Most times not, so once you've made a decision, trust yourself to know you did what you felt was right and move on. Thinking back won't fix anything, make your decision and move on from that, make the best of it.
504379
WHY WOULD U EVEN DO THAT. LOOK IF YOU AREN'T HAPPY WITH WHERE YOU ARE NOW SAVE THE PEACE AND LEAVE. THEN DON'T GET INVOLVED IN ANYTHING SERIOUS.