he wants seperation.....?
437324
Well you need to look out for you and your little one first...\nPlease be careful what you eat and drink cause it will go into the baby...\nYou must be prepared to live on your own as a single mom like it or not, but you must above all else look after your child and help it be born right and healthy this last month...\nPlease try to talk to your husband and ask him if he may be scared at being a daddy or if he has other fears he wants to discuss with you or if he has any medical illnesses he needs to care for...\nHe may be on edge over the impending birth and think he will not be a good dad...\nIs there any classes offered at your local hospital you both can take in this last month to help you both to be good parents???\nHe needs to not be selfish and he needs to look out for you and the baby and you need to look out for your baby also, so talk to someone at the hospital and see who can help there...\nGod Bless you...
328979
For your sake and that of your children, move on. He obviously likes having the two relationships and that is not likely to change. The sooner you leave the sooner you and your children will heal. With all the lies this man has spun its amazing either of you are still with him. He has proven he has no intention of leaving. Don't waste more time on a relationship with no future. Find yourself a respectable man and live a happier life.
412759
Some people are just that way.  I would say it is time to leave him and move on.  No one deserves th at kind of treatment.
291778
Well if your question is any indication of your true style of communication, no wonder he wants to be done with you.  He's just keeping you around until he finds someone better.  Dump him because he's going get rid of you soon.
530
Tell him that you're not comfortable with it, and ask him nicely to take it down.  If he can't do something simple like remove a flag from his wall, what's going to happen when more important issues arise?
430645
Sounds reasonable to me. I'd give it a year, and if you see one instance of him going back to his old ways, get rid of him. Don't live in misery just because you "love" him. You can find love/happiness without misery.
335244
Get out while you can.  If he's already controlling and possessive -- it's only going to get worse.  Find yourself a better man!
1089366
Ditch them both...\n\nWhy would you want him back after this?
100150
from a voice of exprience. i would move. maybe the time apart will be a wake up call for him.
285573
Move back into the same room, being separate will not help!\nTry  for a weekend get away.
104376
That my dear is abuse and you don't have to take it.  I don't know what state you are in but he just might get surprised about just throwing you out.  If it were me I'd move all his stuff out, change the locks, change the phone numbers and see how he likes that.
94675
mmm it doesnt work that way! Get a lawyer and have him dictate what he wants. You need to coordinate it to avoid further conflict.
1059168
He needs to make a decision.\n\nSounds like a loser to me.
445849
THAT IS MESSED UP. YOU SHOULD JUST CUT ALL TIES CAUSE IT SEEMS TO STILL BE AFFECTING YOU. SO JUST LET HIM GO
430281
she wants to break up!
694376
just seperate, isnt a big deal, why file any paperwork, if you think you  are going to work it out,  most times it isnt worth it, just get a divorce
415518
YOU NEED TO LEAVE ASAP, HE IS FULL OF CRAP.  IT MAY HAVE STARTED OUT AS INNOCENT TALK BUT YOU CAN ALMOST BET THAT HE HAS GONE FARTHER WITH IT.  GOOD LUCK