My man doesnt want to sleep with me?
452256
Talk to him...find out if its you or something you do that turns him off...and i'm not saying this to be mean or anything but its obvious that something is wrong...have you ever considered the fact that he might be gay??? or maybe hes cheating on you...either way you need to leave and find you someone else that is more into you...every women needs attention...especially in the bed...who dont wanna be told your beautiful or how much someone was think of you and missed you...baby girl your missing out...hes not giving you what you need as a women....you need to get up and leave...and go get you some...anyway it turns out...i wish u the best...Good luck
391031
Well, this depends on your situation.  If you are dating and not sleeping with your man, then let him be the man and decide for himself in his time.  Does he know you love him?  Then tell him, and leave the rest to him.  If he takes to long, rethink whether this is the man for you.\n\nNow if you are living with/sleeping with him... what were you thinking!!  Why would a guy want to marry you when he has all the perks of marriage, PLUS.. if he wants to leave you later he doesn't have to go through an expensive divorce!  You already gave him everything... there is no incentive for marriage especially if you already live together.  The point of marriage is to commit to living together and enjoying all the benefits, but if you already are doing that without marriage... well sorry to bust your bubble but you sold out big time and basically cheated yourself.
166174
He is pressuring you. If he loves you, he will wait. Also, if he says that you need to, then you need to leave him. In addition, you may need to "take the wind out of his sails." If he calls you a wimp, baby, or other degrading things (i can't mention) then you can possibly say "maybe I am a [insert word here], but I am not going to have sex.\n\nI know it sounds corny, but remember - No means No!
705244
How long were you together? If you were together for along time then I am sure that he still has some type of feelings for you. I don't think that it is a good thing for you to keep sleeping with him. That will only confuse things. If he is going to be your x then you need to cut him off from everything. Not just your feelings.
194846
From what I can see he wants you for sex only. and seeing as you don't like sex why would your consider having sex with a guy like this? This is a guy wants sex not a relationship. Stay clear and forget this guy. I hope you can find a guy that does like sex either. Good luck
299869
I don't think sleeping with him is going to, necessarily, change his mind. \nYou can tell him that you have feelings for him and you can ask him if he shares those feelings. I think you should find out how he feels about you before sleeping with him because for many guys sleeping with a woman doesn't always mean they are committing themselves. If you sleep with him and afterwards he tells you that he just wants to be friends, even tho' he doesn't mind sleeping with you from time to time, you might feel\nhurt and might even destroy your friendship. You have to be sure that you know what you want and find the right person who wants the same thing with you. You can't make someone commit if they don't want to for whatever reason. On the other hand, he might not know \nwhat you really want. In any case be ready to hear that he likes you, mor as a friend, or that he is not into a relationship. Don't sleep with him with the idea that he'll fall in love with you. In my experience that needs to come before sleeping together. Good luck.
133007
Something is telling you not to trust this man. Why are you hesitating? Trust your gut feeling. There is nothing wrong with telling him no. You will find someone who you trust. Besides sex should be without love.
755556
He got what he wanted (your body) and until the need builds up again he dosen't want you around.  He is using you.  Leave him and keep your knees together in future.
769031
Older guys may be pretty hard to figure out.  They are older and more experienced.  But alot tend to be past the whole immature stage where they want to sleep with every woman they can.  Some arn't.  It's all about how he talks to you and his body language.  \nTrust your instinct.
885019
Call him and invite him over.  If he refuses or is cold toward you then you have to move on...\n\nThe fact that he is moody is already a red flag.  Do you really want to deal with an emotional roller-coaster ride with him?
856433
You did the right thing! I did the same thing! If you are planning to sleep with this guy you need to know these things! If he got upset with you over that then he is not the one for you! He should totally understand where you are coming from!!!
212573
If you are looking for a realationship thats all about sex. I would stay in the relationship , if you are wanting something serious i would talk to him about whats going on and how you are becoming confused what is important to him. Whether its you or partying with friends. I also think that he is sending you signs he only wants sex, because he sees you late at night and , dosent spend much time with you when he has a chance. I think you deserve better than that anyone does, i would confront him if you care about him, but if you dont i would let him go. Good luck
58183
If he's sleeping with your friend, you don't want him back.  You deserve better.  Time to move on!
740296
Well you should really think about it because if you sleep with him while drunk and after that he is been cancelling  then i think he is really not in love with you, NO don't ask him out just try to forget him :)
686143
He really cares about you and does not wish to see you hurt. It really sounds like he likes your company and would like to rekindle your relationship.\n\nbest of luck to you both...
507149
Perhaps something is bothering him, or he doesn't feel well. Try wearing something revealing or surprise him by posing provocatively on the bed when you suspect he will be going in the bedroom. Try having "encounters" at different hours than usual, or in diff places. Avoid ruts. Talk dirty to him.\n\nHe sounds like a lucky guy.\n\ngood luck ;-)
1093099
Dont have sex if ur not ready, why does he keep pressuring u?doesnt he love u? Its obvious that his "manhood" stands priority over ur feelings, because if he love u like he's probably telling u then he wouldnt pressure u, someone who loves u would take the time to talk it out with you and see where the two of u stand on the situation it seems like he's just trying to score.