Ok girls tell me do you like guys to be the bread winner and just stay at home while the man goes to work?
449034
I think it would be nice to have the old way except the old thinking that women were not good enough for working in business.  I think they should have the option, for me --I've been in both situations and I missed my kids something awful and couldn't spend enough time with them.  This is definately a problem in society today.  Too many kids without adult supervision or parents who don't know what they are doing.  The woman who gets with you and can feel free to have kids and actually care for them herself is very lucky and so are the kids.
80060
definetly monday....i agree with the other girls...monday is a bad day for everyone..and the dude that said dont do it or whatever...dont listen to him...im sure he dont even have a woman by the sounds of it...were not all gold diggers...and its a very nice thing that your trying to find a way to brighten her day...your a very nice guy....your woman should apreciate having you....deliver the flowers to her yourself (if possible) its very romantic to think of makeing her day better..
537165
Not a male thing, from a male. I watched the kids cooked took care most the house while I work overtime to help pay to send my wife threw Nursing.. I'd have to say lack of Love or just not a good mate.
451590
The man in the relationship wants to feel like the bread winner. Well thats what society tells all men... because they are petrayed as the hard workers who can keep the roof of the women and children's head. they are the stronger human being... As for wives... we are sensitive, we keep things nice and clean and the children bathed and fed... for one week tell your man to take off work for vacation... let him stay home and take care of children and clean house. you go so where for 8 hours or 10 hours aday... even if you don't have a job... and then come home.... I garuntee you the first day will be ok for the man... then the second day it will get harder.. then by the third day... the kitchen will be a dissaster, the kids haven't had their morning bath, they have food stains on the floor or carpet. they still have their pajamas on.... I'm telling you this because I have been there... now I work everyday for 10 hours a day and so does my husband... now when I pick up my children from the sitters house.. my husband has beet me home... dinner is cooked the house is clean... becaused I got fed up... and I told him about his self... my point is all men are on a ego trip.... they think women are supposed to do certain things... and men are just supposed to work.. watch the game &  have some drinks maybe go to the club and see strippers, eat, shower, go to the bathroom, have sex and go to sleep and do it all again the next day... Now when I pulled his daily routine, you better believe he had a lot of anger and things to say.... and I said to him why is it ok for you to do that and I can't... you know what his awnser was because you have to stay respectful to me and your children... I was like hold up. so you sayin you don't respect me and the kids... he didn't have nothin to say. I put him in his place... now he doesn't think a woman should stay home all the time. He wants me to keep working because he understands what ever I do, if I work or if I stay home... I still love him and have mad respect for him... he's learning
300696
As a nice guy myself, I can assure you that women don't want nice guys.\n\nHowever, since you cook, clean and do laundry, I'll let you move in.  Just don't expect me to put out.
37600
Hi! OMG! Do guys like that in a girl???! I think that you can probably answer that question yourself. Ha! ;) I imagine your quite popular w/the boys! LOL. There is absolutely nothing wrong w/that! The other post stated something about our society which is correct. Women are supposed to be these wonderful mothers, girlfriends, students, friends, ect.. stay home, cook clean look after the children. Bullsh*t. I am the anti-domestic women, I guess. If we show any sort of sex-drive we are sluts, whores, ect... If a man has oodles of women under his belt he's considered a God, go figure, it's a mans world. I'd say enjoy your thoughts and I'm sure you will not have a problem finding a guy who can appreciate your horniness! Good luck!
401047
AMEN to that sister.  By the sweat of thy brow, thou shalt eat bread.  \nIf you don't work you cannot reap.  Sometimes we forget the word maintenance - it means you have to do what it takes to keep the engine running or else when it fails or runs out, then we would know what that means.  Guys maintain your ladies and keep her happy.  Stop being boring, and being toooooooo tired.  Buy her nice things, take her to dinner, surprise her sometimes, be spontaneous, etc.  We will love you more. Stop cheating..............Make each time we meet the first time ever..
65341
In these days women can do what men do so you can do it.\nYes do it romantic.\nInvite him to a romantic diner, say him you`ll cook (not necesarlly if you don`t cook, just order something good) and do what your heart tells you to do.
311345
OK. I'm single and not really looking because my job is nightshift and I find it hard to go out after a long shift. I'm catholic, but still believe in a woman's right to choose and in Gay civil right(figure out that one-I'm still trying). I believe in always being loyal to a friend til death and beyond. If that isn't personal enough let me know.
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Not all women do and I think you know that.  There are loads of guys out there living off hardworking women.\n\nHonestly if I had a choice a man with his own source of income would be preferable because I wouldn't want to have to foot the bill for everything...and I have had to do that and it's not fun when you're not independently wealthy.\n\nBut based on the way I was brought up, I'd prefer to continue to make my own money, man or no man.  Thanks
384068
it depends on what you both like..or are in to... most girls would love a guy to cook..have wine and romantic music etc......
782213
WAIT A MINUTE!!!! Not every american woman is a gold-digger. Some are INDEPENDENT like me... I have a job, make my own money, have my own transportation and all. I cook and clean and go to school too. And I really can survive without a man. Men just dish out there money own worthless stuff. That could be spunt on more important things. Instead of buying rims for your car put the money aside for the light bill. Some men are like that too... Women get tired of lazy men.
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I think so but then as I ponder the question, I came up with the following thoughts:\n\nThese labels are so subjective. A guy who may not make as much money as I do may be a better manager of money, which could put him on a different level financially. Should he be willing to compromise his wealth because I can't balance my check book? Probably not, but would it be socially unacceptable for me expect him to help me out? Nope. It would probably be frowned upon if the situation was in the reverse because men are looked upon as the "breadwinner" or "provider." Alot of men evaluate their manhood on the ability to provide for their family. Which I think is the source of the insecurity and intimidation.\n\nOn the flip side...\n\nIf the women who have it "together" knowingly deal with men who are not on the same "level" and are willing to put up with them, it would be expected that they would be willing to support their man in whatever it takes to make the couple a stronger unit and also promote a health self-esteem/ego for the man. That is if the man feels the need to change. If he is okay with the fact that his wife/girlfriend/partner makes more money or has more education, then it should be okay with the other person.
6188
My mother raised me to be very domesticated and in my household dinner is always on the table when my man comes home, sports are on his tv, and his bath water is drawn. Doing these simple household chores makes me feel good because I know that I am satisfying the man I love. Because this is my regular routine I usually dont have to worry about not getting the special treatment because trust me he notices when I stop cooking!!!!!
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no way!!!  \n\nMy boyfriend's a manager at a Radio Shack and he has to be there from 5:30 AM to 11 PM!!!!!\n\nThat's ridiculous!!!\n\nI'm going to bring him and all his employees coffee and cookies and then I'm going home to hide and wait the rest of the day out...
216235
WOW! heres a girl on the path to awesomeness.. i like it.u can just uhh.. have sex, food, and movies in bed all day. maybe an xbox.. or.. somethin.. and.. NO CLEANING. cleaning sucks, i hate cleaning, its cool.. like cancer.\nwait no.. ur a guy?.. shit...
610245
This is very individual choice. If the man is making the effort to satisfy his partner that's great. Would you keep him? A guy has to be good in bed and out of bed. You spend more time out of bed together so if he doesn't cut it out of bed forget it.