what do you do if your boyfriend brings home porn and you repeadily asked him not to?
441942
id tell him ok u probably dont love me if ur not following or listening whaats bothereing me nd id break up with him ir have a  long discussion with him women are the boss here
663485
u should try to stop now what if ur friend come over and see all  those girly stuffs in ur room?
414930
First off, you are allowing him to look through your stuff, big mistake!  Obviously he was gifted with the jealousy gene and you with the "let him do whatever he wants" gene.  So my first piece of advice, stop letting him do whatever he wants.  Trust is a two way street.  If he wants to see what you have in your junk, then he should be showing you what's in his.  However, it's very common for an unfaithful person to try and hide their guilt by trying to find something to blame it on with their signif.  So what should you do?  I'd dump him and get someone who's got self confidence, maybe it will help you get some too.
465967
Let me get this straight - he damages some furniture, something that could catch on fire, and he thinks you're the one who's freaking out? Gimme a break.\n\nWithhold sex until he apologizes. Then keep withholding it until he apologized for making you withhold it.\n\nYou're right, he's wrong.
483953
For many men there really isn't a way to get him to stop; all you'll do is make him sneak around and do it behind your back. There are some who can and do stop, but they are more rare. If you are with a man who isnt capable of stopping, and you arent capable of walking away, there are some ways for you to learn to deal with it. \n\nSteps \nRealize that he isn't watching porn wishing you looked like those women...if he wasn't happy with you, he wouldn't be with you. Try to understand why he really is watching it and what he gets out of it. \n\nTry watching it with him...even if you HATE it, he will love that you're willing to share it with him. It can be a great way to spend time together, and might even lead to some pretty hot sex. Who knows, you might end up liking it too! Watching it with him will feel like you approve of what he is doing, and men need and love approval. \n\nAsk him if he wants to try some of the different positions, role playing, etc. He might have a fantasy or something he's always wanted to try but is too shy to ask. Try to understand the parts of him that he hasnt disclosed to you. \n\nEven if none of the above tips appeal to you...stop nagging him about his "habit"...nagging will only lead to fighting, and fighting leads to breaking up. There is a healthy way to fight in a relationship, but nagging leading into a fight isnt it. Professional counseling or marital counseling can lead to real change. \n\nTips \nDo not take his porn watching as a personal affront, many men are just much more visually stimulated than women are, and he isn't trying to upset you. (thats an excuse) \n\nWarnings \nDecide now if his porn is something you can learn to deal with...if not, you might want to consider ending the relationship yourself. You will never completely change him, and if you "make" him stop watching he might only resent you. It really depends on who he is and the nature of your relationship.
840470
There are two kinds of males who use the internet.  Those who hide their porn well and those who do not.  Guys look at porn, it is nothing against you or any other woman.  It does not mean that he doesn't think you are attractive or that he would rather be with someone else.  I'm not saying it's a pleasant thing to discover, but you gotta admit, it's better than him cheating on you.\nYou can allow yourself to get all frustrated or you can try to fix it.  Often, things become routine and not as interesting.  Men like variety.  That is why some men cheat.  But it is totally unnecessary and unacceptable.  You can provide your man with all the variety he needs.  Perhaps a little new lingerie would be a good idea.  I would recommend a DVD on Kama Sutra Tao,  The Sensual Art of Making Love.  It is a very good dvd you can watch together.  It is done in good taste and not crude.  It will relight his and your fires and you won't leave the house for days.   ;-)
868071
You're just not fulfilling his fantasies, he's using porn to try to get his imaginations to come to life...............be grateful he's not running off to someone else who will.  Porn is far better alternative than cheating or leaving all together.  To be honest, porn is quite healthy for a relationship.
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I do know where you are coming from,and i am not sure how long you have been with you`re fiancee.But having a sence of humour when you are dealing with men is some times best !I say 2 things ,one at least he is`nt doing anything with a another human behide you`re back and 2 it would be so more shocking if it was a channel for the opposite sex !\nIf it was me i would get him back in a wee matter ,but not going to far just see how he likes it ,take a real look at the next fit guy that walks pass both of you .When some hunk comes on telly just say "hes  alright" It just seem strange to us woman because we are not in to porn in any way ,but if you accept it ,and be cool he will love you more !If you want ,ask him why he likes it so much and may do things in your`re relation ship that you haven`t yet explored !But to be honest in life if you are`nt meant to do something it makes it more daring and naughty ,once you accept it and may even say can i watch one with you ,it will be come boring to him and he will stop ,as it is`nt naughty behide you`re back stuff ,and if he does big deal ,as you can please him for real !!!
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The issue here isn't the porn, it's the sneaking around and the lying about it. That's your real problem.\nIt's only the beginning hon, unless you go get help now.\nMy ex started with magazines, then on to movies, then the Internet. At times he got so engrossed in it that I could walk right up behind him and he wouldn't know I was there. I'm not a prude and would do anything for him then, but yet he was so hooked on porn that I had to go without for 3 -6 weeks at a time. Finally, I was working nights, he was supposed to be home watching our son, who he had exposed to this crap "accidentally" a few times before. He was sitting in the recliner acting all comfy and sleepy. Just as soon as I had left the house he jumped up and ran to a local strip club, leaving our son unattended. After years of promises and trying I finally left him. Don't let that happen to you. Talk to him and then get counseling.\nI just wonder why there are so many women on here that are trying to make it sound like it's the woman's fault? Sad............
1090585
i honestly don't think you should as long as its only pictures he is taking, i mean why don't you tell him that u are uncomfortable with that, if he respects you he will delete them from his fone.\n(i hope you get the response you want! xx)
581452
Keep them in case they happen to come back you can be like "i kept your panties to remember you by" ;) Or like my friend who had an ex who wouldn't leave him alone, he knew she was coming over to bother him so he took some girls panties that they left at his house and hung them where she could see them when she came over, just to piss her off and maybe make her leave him alone.\n\n\nOKAY----I GAVE YOU AN ANSWER THAN I SAW ANOTHER QUESTION OF YOUR, YOU SHOULD BE ASSAMED!!!!! YOUR MARRIED!!!!
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I don't know if I would be angry . . . but I would be upset.\n\nWhat I would do is put them away . . . where no one can find them . . . then after you calm down . . . talk to your girlfriend. (I don't understand why you moved in together - are you stupid - she is getting you to pay her way).\n\nWhen you talk to your girlfriend . . . don't be judgemental . . . she may have kept the pictures, so her ex- won't post them on the internet . . . but she was stupid to keep them out in the open.  Ask her if there is any reason why she want to keep these picture . . . and if possible . . . would she like to shread them in a paper shreader.\n\nYou have no rights to destroy them . . . it is her decision . . . and if she decides to keep them.  If I were you, I would seriously reconsider your relationship with her . . . and make sure you get some sex pictures of you and her . . . for keepsakes. (just kidding about that).
555853
i would try netnanny www.netnanny.com or you can have a sonic wall put in. If i was you though I would talk to him about this and see what happens. Becuase if he wants porn he will get porn if not from his house maybe from a friend. It is just the way boys are. After a while he will probably see that porn is a waste of time and video games are better.
1044617
Boyfriend, don't do it! \n\nBe blessed and don't jump into that forced mess.
654585
Thats not good you lied to your boyfriend, and went to your EXBOYRFRIENDs house! How can you do that to him? Why did you go anyway? How would you feel like it if he lied to you and told you he was going home, but went to his ex's house? Im sure you wouldnt be dandy! You can lose someones trust in a nana second! And it is s h i t y hard to get that trust back. And if the relationship doesnt have trust and honesty...than that relatiosnhip is   b u l l   s h i t!\n\n\nAnd for your other question, that your boyfriend found you in your boyfriends car, and he accuses you of cheating. Yes. He has a right to. If you wanted to go pick up your stuff, than you shouldve gone with your man!! your killing your relationship sweety, and thats not fair for him! \n\nSo make up your mind and stop hurting your bf and lying to him.
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If he likes to watch porn than let him. Just because you're married to him doesn't mean that you should jump right in and change his habits. Maybe you're not doing a variety of things with him that arouses him. If you just lay there, that gets boring. Try some new things and act and dress up. Spice things up a bit! I do a variety of things and my boyfriend barely watches porn anymore, but sometimes it's fun to watch it together to make it more exciting. It depends on you and what you like too. Just ask him what he'd like and tell him what you'd like. Just trying to help. I was in the same situation. I'm into them now, and it can get addicting. Hope this helps.
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HaHa, my brother came home from the bar and caught his roomate @ like 2 something in the morning looking at porn on the net with a bottle of lotion. \n\nI was over the next day and they told me to ask him something about did he get some last night. They didn't tell me why and when I asked him he said F you guys. Then they told me what had happened.