HELP ME!!! MY B/F and I....?
436033
There is NOTHING, REPEAT NOTHING you can do to MAKE your boyfriend not sad.  The more you try the more frustrated and depressed you will become.\n\nConcentrate on improving yourself, being happy with yourself, getting to know yourself.  If he was truly in love with you he would be happy too, right?  When you both are happy with yourselves while being apart, independently, then and only then will you be able to have a healthy, deep relationship.\n\nGood Luck.
453660
Stop taking each other for granted.  Say thank you more.  Notice each other more.  Candle-lit dinner.  Weekend away.  Picnic in the park.  Flowers.  Bath together.  \n\nAll this helps things to go well, but you can't make him want you more.
1177456
First, talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel and what you think could be better. If he's really serious about the relationship, he'll be more than happy to work on things. Don't out it all on him, you both should work things out together, even if it's on his part.
39670
Well, the only thing you can do is be yourself. you guys need to have some common ground and you both need to want to be in the relationship. please dont hold on to something that has already fled the coup. good luck!!
401297
Sweetie, without knowing what you two have tried in the past, it is difficult for anyone to know what to suggest. Since I, myself am a bi-woman who has been in a relationship with the same woman for about 6 months now, let me suggest what we do. Sometimes we will go to a sexy underwear store and check each other out with different new things on until we are so hot for each other that we have to leave. Maybe go to an adult store and get some kinky ideas there. Into s&m? Spanking? Bondage? Maybe get a new toy or two. Definately get some fantasy magazines. Sometimes we "park" in a secluded place and make-out like teenagers. Have you ever gone skinny-dipping together? How about camping? It is so refreshing to "get back to nature". Find some sleepingbags that zip together. Be creative, hon. Even on a tight budget you could go to the grocery and pick up a few cans of whipped cream, chocolate syrup, and some cherries, Then make a girl sundae out of each other before eating each other up. YUMMY. Have fun and enjoy.
1103268
Stick to your new b/f, as going back with your ex wont work as there must have been something which made yous fall out. stay with the new guy as you never know he could be your soul mate, if you leave your new b/f and go back to old one he could leave you again so do you want that. stay where you are and be happy there's no point looking back just look forward and be happy. good luck
840137
He needs to get more comfortable with you. try talkin to him. Better yet, when you are together just kiss him or massage his ego a bit by telling him how sexy he is.
964167
Ive been with my b&#92;f for 7years now.I'm 23 now,he's 7yrs older than me.For the first 4 years our family's had issues with us being together.we moved in together only 3months into it while i was living with a girl friend.its had its up and downs but has been a great life.my advice to you would have to be,that you continue strong in the relationship that you have,don't worry to much about the negativity that continues to linger around you and your man.If he makes you happy and you know that he is all good for you,then you have nothing to worry about.wish you all the best....
308918
Well...first see how she feels on the subject...if she's kinda stand off-ish, then brush it off, but if she isn't, well...see how her relationship with her b/f is and if it's in the rocks...there you go\n\ngood luck anyway
753937
How long have you been together, and living together?  Did this just start, or has it been an ongoing problem?  I would ask him what's going on and suggest counseling if it's bad enough to start affecting your everyday lives!  Good luck!
26761
Do some of the fun things you 2 did before you got married.  By still doing the activities you enjoyed together, it maintains that closeness you felt before.  How about little love notes around the house?....maybe with his shaving kit?  I'm sure he'll reciprocate one way or another.  Compliments to each other just affirm your love and appreciation for each other.
888204
Stop worrying, you won't get anywhere like this. If it is going to work then it will and it sounds like your both enjoying each other so just relax.
497431
Go to him when you two have not been fighting and when he is relaxed and tell him exactly what you have asked here on Yahoo answers. Don't try to make it sound like it's nothing so that you two will not end up fighting. Let him know you are not sure how much more of this you can take. Also be ready to tell him exactly what you need from him, or ways that he can make this relastionship work. And lastly, be ready to do exactly what you say you are going to do if he can't give you what you need... Leave Him! When he realizes that he has lost a good thing he will come running back ready to do whatever it takes to make you stay. Or you will find someone else who will respect you and love you the way you need to be treated. Pray about this little sister and good luck.
206472
Be the bigger person. Wait, till you find real good eveidences. may be the ex still has a crush on ur b/f... happends many time, people dont realize how important a person is till he/she is gone. \nIn my opinion be the bigger person, try to understand more, clearly communicate with your b/f. \nOr otherwise try to communicate with your b/f CLEARLY, and come to a resolution.
392844
girl if you like him talk to him more and more i know my b/f/f is in the same spot
236311
talk to your bf, see his side of the story.....
987988
Try to do some things to comfort him like maybe not hanging out AS MUCH with guy friends. Doesn't mean you have to completely stop hanging out with them but do more things with your b/f than you do with other guys. Little things liek that. If he wants you to change more and you don't feel comfortable doing so then don't change. He'll either get over it or the relationship will end.