Should I call it quits?
437655
You may be taking things a little too seriously. Why not try to plan these things together for a while so that he can get the idea of what you are looking for. The poor guy may just have no creativity. Believe me, some guys just lack creativity completely and when asked about being romantic they give you the 'what's that?' face. By the way I let my husband plan my 22nd birthday party in our first year of marriage. I thought he forgot as it was getting late in the evening. Around 9pm he walks to the room I was in with a rice crispy treat bearing a candle and no presents or even a card! I took one look and started laughing which really hurt his feelings. He thought a quiet night at home would be a calming and romantic gesture. Turns out he had planned a nice evening, I just hadn't seen it the way he intended. (and FYI no he wasn't being cheap, we were newly weds with tons of bills and $5 left in our name at the end of the month) If he's a good man in every other aspect why call it quits? Many women would love a man that works hard and takes care of the family. Try working out your differences first. \n\nAs far as the no appreciation thing, how often do you thank him for going to work everyday and supporting the family? I know this may seem odd, but maybe he too feels unappreciated. Try thanking each other after chores are done, at the end of the week when the pay check comes in, etc. You'll be amazed that you probably share many of the same feelings. Talk to your husband. Communication is really important in marriages!
955593
Quit your job.  Things there won't improve until that manager is gone or one of her higher-ups stops her behavior.  Don't worry about never being able to work there again, because it doesn't sound like a good place to work!
1047460
i've done it before.... and dont recommend it... i mean, everyone at your job will find out sooner or later, thats wat happened to me... :(\nthen our relationship was not going good... so we ended it... sucked 'cause i had to c him almost everyday.... it was just bothering so much.... i quit my job... :)
739314
Better be looking for another job when you take it off.\n\nCoach
614163
depends on how you feel about him.  if you love him, then continue, but if you're sort of iffy about this whole relationship, cut it off.  it's best to listen to your instinct
741059
Be mature about it dear. Simply tell him that you are giving it up(the relationship). By letting him know will alleviate the game playing. He won't say that you lead him on....
14044
that depends on weather you want to end your marriage or not. if you are unhappy you should talk with your partner. if they are not willing to listen then follow your heart, but remember that once you cross that line there is no turning back
632383
My advice is, not to push the issue. He has said he needs time, and I know that's frustrating, but you have to give him time....or move on!
781574
Well, if she is giving it up to you, then why stop. Just hit it and kick her out!
603006
Yes...QUIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!
1082387
Honey, you already admitted that the relationship was hard to handle. It's time to let it go. Perhaps you're annoyed that it wasn't you who ended it; or more probably that you were so easily replaced. Let it go. It's time for it to end and both of you need to get on with your lives.
4588
maybe you should make a resolution to quit making that resolution.
709244
Break it off! If its not going anywhere then why do you even try! Thats like working a 40 hour a week job and not getting paid!
82242
you should end it. so your not cheating them
477892
If you think giving up life is good then give up. Yes you can rest a while and start another attemt only if you are convinced that you are right.
67250
I have been married for 7 years in april and my husband and I had a similar fight when we had first gotten married, I now do not work but in a new marriage everything is changing so fast and I think that asking her to quit her job is like asking her to give up her ability to support herself and feel confident, it is her way of having something all her own not having to share it. I think if you give her time and come to a compromise she will come to some common ground with you. But I wouldn't push the issue of her quitting all together. I hope that I have helped some .
685791
I dont think that its over. I think you want it to be over by giving up so easily. You have to persever babes. Nobody is gonna give you what you want on a silver platter. Shower her with gifts and affection. Give it a month or 3 weeks for the least. If nothing has changed then you should call it quits. By the way the longer you persever this chick will see that you are really into her.