GUYS--help--What would you Think?
437415
well it sounds to me like he may well have liked you seeing as he was calling you 2 and 3 times a week but when he seen you with this other guy he got jealous and stopped calling,id say that is it,i mean speaking from my own experience like this one that is what happened me but it turned out she liked me,what i would do is call him up,i mean just cause hes a guy doesnt mean he has to do all the running,or you could just simply ask him out,i mean lifes too short for regrets,right?? hope that helped abit!! \nGood luck
837637
First, I'd think, "Huh?", and wonder if he'd changed his mind.  Then I'd think, "what would my dating friends tell me?", and the answer to that would be:  "somebody told him to ease off, not to look like he's trying too hard".  Ah, well, then it'd be my turn, and I'd chase him . . . discreetly, teasingly, of course.  I'd want him back on track, after me again.\n'They' have actually said, "let him chase you 'till you catch him".\nWhat a load, eh?  But that seems to be the way it goes...games, silly games.
676276
You assume he knows the answer to that question.  Sometimes guys can look at a girl and be unsure of how they feel (and vice versa).  Sometimes they just want to see what path the relationship takes on its own.  \n\nNow, the question is, do you want to see where that path goes?  Or do you want something more definite if not now, soon?  \n\nI can't tell you what you should do, other than feel around for it.  Search your heart.  And you can take a walk with this and not be committed to him 100%.  Personally I avoid confrontation since it has a tendency to back people into a corner, but if it remains ambiguous and you are unsatisfied with the relationship, I'd talk to him about where he sees you going, if anywhere.
637949
Um...this is WAY too long and I'm tired. Good night.\n...\nFine! Don't TRY. Let it flow naturally. Otherwise, it just makes you seem desparate. I don't think guys like that...
641391
Haha this isn't a question.  But it sounds like you're crushing majorly. haha. that's cute. good luck with the ladies!
740002
Nope he's just attracted to you and wanted to let you know it.Try giving it back to him and if he don't like it than he'll stop or get defensive.I'd just go with it he could call you alot worse believe me.And to all the man haters no it's not creepy.
837535
Times-a-changing!\n\nMy dear......Jim sounds like a real nice guy........n he is very considerate & caring for others' feelings!\n\nI believe jim is subtlely giving u a message.......that he has found someone whom he enjoys being with........n he did mention that this is one of his colleagues ........ which means he gets to see her almost daily.\n\nJim is considerate enough not to tell u bluntly........he just mentioned his recent date to u.......n changed the subject when u persue it.\n\nRemember......u r both college grads......educated.... learned & intelligent.......so there is no need for him to give u details.........n it shows his quality in NOT going into details.........he would expect u to understand!\n\nwhat's going on with Jim?.........he is moving on.....getting his career in shape.........n establishing his niche in this working world.........n developing feelings for someone who is close......near to......& constantly in his sphere of breathing & living!\n \nMy dear.....dont feel hurt......do your own thing.....n please give Jim his due respect........he IS a nice & very considerate person..........otherwise u wouldnt drive out just to be with him each weekend.\n\nNow that Jim wants to build his own world & nest....... please let him...........n I am sure he will always be your good friend that u could count on any rainy day!\n\nHumans have sensitive feelings.........unfortunately...... they do get very hurt at times..........Take care!
542369
Well I guy is never going to be able to tell unless you tell him straight up - we are simple that way - i am kinda surprised that he hasnt come up to you first - I wouldnt be surprised if he is asking the same question on yahoo answers right now - dont worry about what he will say though, remember he is your friend - he is not going to turn into some mean ogre - worst case scenario which also happens to be the least likely is that he will give you a "I am flattered" line, but more likely than not, he will want to give it a try no matter what ....
173119
first of all, that was pretty stupid of you to say.  guys never want to hear that.  we want to think we're the only guy you find attractive.  theres nothing you can do but keep reassuring him that he's your man and thats not going to change.  let him know that noone can take his place.  eventually, he'll get over it.
377026
Some guys talk to there friends and tell each other things that make them look good!!!!\n\nHe talks to you in confidence because he has a very close connection with you.... Your a lucky girl! \n\nDont assume unless you feel there is a good reason!\n\nKeep on top of things and dont worry.... Keep your man!
794553
He has a weak character. I think it's probably virtually impossible for him to compromise. I know guys like that. BUT there are probably some other guys out there who would be so into being close to you, they would not care if you are fat... and some who think you're sexy as you are. Find them instead, and let this guy feel your absence and hurt about it a bit. Maybe he'd learn something valuable.
624180
Please, if you can see him this very moment, go and tell him all your mind. I mean tell him the way you feel for him. Many gurls have missed their right guys by simply obeying this "un-written" rule that a guy should make the Ist move. I'm not, and will never be, part of that conservative idea. Do you know, if that guy is being restrained by his background? That is, culture and religion, which in most cases are responsible for many guy's timidity. I was once a victim but a nice, loving, caring, and fearless gurl bailed me out. I'll never forget her in my life, NEVER. Please, I beg you, help this guy out, I assure you that he will never forget you. Cheers!
78259
lol well.. Im obviously a guy. And in the last week two girls have told me that and both of them both said to me...please dont freak out. Now, I'm never one to freak out about how one feels, but, however, most guys are. If you think he is comfortable about hearing how you feel about him, then I say go for it. You tell him according to his personality. If he is a humor type of person, then say it while you two are having a really good time. And if he is more of a cut and dry person, then just say it straight up at the proper moment. Timing is everything.
1003587
Sorry but this somehow sounds a little odd to me.\nHe seems to know that you're interested in him but still doesn't make a move?\nIs there something wrong with him? Saying that if she asks me out I would accept but then not doing the step to ask you out?\nI'm not into the notes thing but if your friends know and told him already, what's he waiting for??\nIf he's soooooooooo shy, do you think he's the right guy for you?\nWell, depending on your preferences about a man, of course...
695731
I am right there with you! That guy seems to have some weird notion that talking like that will turn a girl on. I've never understood why guys put stuff like that in their profiles. I can understand them talking about things like that once they've developed a relationship with a person, but putting it out there before they even know a person isn't really sending out the best message. But, in the end it's up to you. You may want to give him a chance and what he has to offer....he may just be all talk. He's at the age where he knows what he wants, maybe he's tired of playing games and just wants to put his "wish list" out there. :)
214870
Your right to be concerned.  It sounds like this guy is all talk and no action.  If he really loved you and wanted to be with you then he would.  Right now it sounds like this is just a game for him with you being his back up.
626481
Please talk to him about how you feel!! From experience men are not mindreaders and they would truly be clueless if no one clues them in! After the talk if he continues to do the same thing then dump him.