How can I tell my this my guy friend I love him if I am shy?
447052
make sure your not to flashey you will scare him away. first you got to hire some back up crew to sniff around to see if there is any talk of him liking you back cause if not then you don't want to tell him it might ruin your freind ship. if there is no talk at all then try writing him a letter note a note like a high schooler but a letter explaining your feelings and that you hope it won't ruin your friends ship. wait and see what happens he might just like you also. good luck
693799
Don't worry.  He will tell you.\n\nMaybe he is a little shy and if you are too much direct will not help.\n\nBe patient, enjoy his friendship and let the things happen.
909125
Go talk to him. I'm shy too,so I know how that feels, but nothing's gonna happen if you don't talk to him. Maybe try to eat lunch with him or something, and build it from there. If he likes you it's not like he'll be mean or anything.
704829
in other words..you like him. yall are best friends. your scared if you tell him he wont be friends anymore...\n\nThe only way you'll ever know what he'll say is too tell him...or have a friend tell if you don't feel confident enough. But guys admire you more if you tell them to their face. The best thing that will happen is you will hook up. The worst is you will lose a friend. Your call...
75831
he could be very shy to tell you that he may have the same feelings towards you,but you might want to ask him,i mean write him a note.ask him if he likes you,because usually a guy will tell you in a note if he does or not.it worked for me.
16529
well search your heart and find out if you love him or you want to get down with him.  its very goood to clear things out of you or you will hate your self if you don't express your self or you will blow up. but if you love him then this is a way to tell him:\n"i really like you and you have been such an inspiration to me.i don't know if you feel the same way and i hope what i am about to say dosen't ruin our friendship because i like being your friend. i don't know how to put this i find you very attractive and i think i begining to fall in love with you." what about that. sorry i could not help much
688756
You should not have to tell him really! what you are being doing tells a little, however telling is so much easier that you may consider it, now if you are too shy or think is better not to be rejected than not to know if he would not mind going out with you then keep being nice to him, become even nicer, discover what he loves and keep on ofering it ot him ... he might just fall for you also!
449423
Just be honest with him.  Tell him that you love him.  Of course, you do have to brace yourself just in case he rejects you by not wanting to take your friendship to the next level, but that's better then where you're at now, sexually frustrated because you love someone but they don't love you in the same way.
873824
Well just talk to him and ask him y? Then just tell him that I love u and i wanted to let u know because it has been on my mine don't take it the wrong way or anything. I want to know why do't u love me as well. Then get ur anser then work off of that. Then if u can't bare to be his friend then tell him that u can't be his friend u wanna be with him and then he will give u an answer and if he say no then he can't be ur friend! Then just be like okay then! but if he says oksy then be happy!
1061311
sweetheart, first hang out with him for a few days, with ur friends. then start hangin out with him alone. cos when u first hang out around him with friends, it will break the ice and that time u spend with ur friends and him, will help u when u go out with him alone. meetup for breakfeast or coffee initally. as for ur shyness, u can hold hands for now, and as u begin to know eachother better, u can decide what to do later on. since u both like eachother, u dont be afraid or shy to initiate the "holldin hands" thing. u be the lead for now. he will catch up later on... trust me! :)
145611
Same way you tell any man you love him. Just do it... Like the Nike commercials.. *giggle* Don't be shy.. just go for it.
41575
Well, i had a problem where i was shy about telling one of my friends that i liked her.  You should try to just be like normal and just chill if you want to with him.  If all gos well, you can either choose just to hang out with him longer or choose to tell him about your feelings for him.
85906
Just tell him that your really good friends with him and you dont want to harm the friendship. Or even better you could tell him that you dont love him you only see him as a friend and nothing more.
226896
hey,\ndont panic its okay if you cant tell him that you like him. you know what you could do, you have afew options. one is to c what he really like for examples his hobbies and what he likes to eat... you could buy him some nice clothes that will show that you like him or make his fav food.\nsecond option is to be more attractive when you are around him put some make up on and wear nice clothe specially around him. third one is, caring... that is that best thing a guy could understand it very well seriously he will really appreciat you if you care for him like by listening to him and do something for him or be there for him if he needs you. you know by building up thoses stuff that i jst told you. i know it will take time but it will work :)\nbest of luck to you gal :)
455620
hey if u want to tell him without telling him......it can happen through gestures......show him that u care for him a lot ..and u want him to be always close to him .......by always addressing him .......u can also do it by making frndship with him ......making him know that wat u feel for him
253081
U KNOW HONEY I HAVE A SOLUTION OF UR PROBLEM, SEE U LIKES HIM A LOT MAY BE RIGHT NOW U THINK THAT U LOVE HIM TO BUT U KNOW ITS A PERIOD OF TIME THAT CAN BE ATTERICTION ALSO , THE BEST WAY IS U BECOME GOOD FRENDS OF EACH OTHER 1 IF U CANT BE A GOOD FRENDS THEN U CANT BE GOOD LOVERS, LETS BE GOOD FRENDS 1 THEN THING FOR THE FETURE , IN FRENDSHIP U CAN SHOW HIM UR FEELINGS AND FRENDSHIP IS ENDLESS , SHOW HIM UR ALL LOVE AND UR FEELINGS AND THEN SEE DO HE GIVES RESPECT TO UR LOVE AND UR FEELINGS AND HE REMAINS SWEET TO U AND HE LOVES U THEN GOVE FOR A FURTHER STEP .CCC IF IN THE RELAION SHIP IF U COME TO KNOW SOME BAD THINGS ABT HIM THEN U MIGHT DONT NEED TO TELL HIM THAT U LOVE HIM IF U LOVE HIM THEN LOVE HIM AND IF U DONT THEN U WILL HAVE A GOOD FREND WITH U .
38098
I wud say ... u need to knoe if he likes some body else ... first.. i dont think he does ...  , if he doesnt then tell him that u like him .. never wait for him to come and tell you .. he might not .. u need to do so before its oo late .. u dont want to loose him ... yah it is rite that u shdnt do everything .. but at times u have to do certain things to make things rite .. might be he loves u too and he is not sure if u will agree... \n\n            and u can give him some gestures which may convince him that u like him .... dont be shy ... there is nothing wrong in it .. at times u have to let things goo .......