should I call my exboyfriend ?
448515
Well u went a yr,,, some people can't even go that long without wondering if they should call the ex, \n\nBut if u want to call just 2 say hi it's cool, if ur calling because ur hoping may be u can get back together with him  be prepared, it's been more then a yr he could have a girlfriend by now. And if u find that out it could hurt all 3 of u, hurt u because u were hoping u could get back with him, u her because his ex is calling after more then a yr and she'll know why your calling, hurt him because  he will having some explaining to do.\n\nSo think about it first.
492909
Tricky one. all i'm gonna say is he's your ex for a reason and I really think you shouldn't go there as things could turn very ugly!\nJust hold yuor head up high and move on.
164371
Ok first off lets put things in perspective. Your ex is getting out of PRISON. That sentance alone should tell you who you should stay with, however, sometimes good people do bad things. So with that said, lets take another look. You are afraid that your ex will come back and take you away from this new guy that you really care about right? Well youve got to remember that this is your EX and hes called that for a reason. Whats your reason for calling him your ex and try to imagine being with him or with the new guy. If you truly feel you are happier with the new guy, then stay with him and tell the ex to leave you alone. If that doesnt work theres always restraining orders......
439997
Been there done that--both options.  Choose what you have.  What you had before didn't last for a reason.  It may feel thrilling but that sure as hell doesn't last.  You call him an ex-mess for a reason and the guy you are with deserves more respect than that.
592660
What a mess!  Tell your friend, she deserves to know.If you talked about your ex around your friend. She'll know to drop him, because she'll know what kind of guy he is. You won't lose a friend, but she'll need you to be there.
1169722
I don't think it is right to tell your ex who to date because you both are separated and you should give him some private space and time. He will choose the one himself.\n\nJoyce
236817
Yes, you should tell your current guy.  Other wise, there will be secrets, and questions, and a chance he will think you didn't tell him because you wanted your ex.  Don't get caught up in all the games and hassle just be open about what is going on.
396190
you are not defined by this guy.  You are just as special today as you were before he came along.  Do you really want him to call you and apologize?  If you let him get back with you then you are saying that you are not important enough to stand up for yourself.  Plus, there will be a new guy very soon, maybe the man of your dreams, do you want to be crying for this loser when the next one comes along?  \nYou are special, and he doesnt deserve to hurt you again.
478448
Does "ex" not break it down enough? why waste your precious time calling him if hes no going to call you?
559310
you should probably call him. maybe he's waiting for you to call him. you never know. waiting might cause misunderstanding.
1113081
na. ur ex shouldnt hav a problem wit it cuz its ova btween ya'll. espeshally if HE'S da 1 hu broke up wit ya.
896584
If you have feelings for him, and talking to him is hard because you get emotional, then you should stop talking to him (unless you both want to start back into a relationship - but because you broke up already, I'm guessing that's not the case.)\n\nYou sound like you need to widen your circle of friends.  Get out there! Keep yourself busy! Volounteer, play sports, take up a hobby with some friends, go to bars and make friends, go bowling, whatever!  The more friends you have, the more stuff you'll have to do, and the less time you'll have to dwell on / contact your ex.
355883
he is a ex for a reason. keep him an ex and move on
377719
Depends who broke up with who, if u dumped him DONT DO IT! you will ruin xboyfriends relationship w/ you and with his freind. THere is absolutely no way he wont find out. On second though dont do it at all its just mean spirited.
1182886
yes definetly call him but end it with one of the guys girl\ntwo timing isnt cool
270994
Depends on what he is talking about.  Have *you* talked to *him*?  Or is this a big secretfest - he hides the fact he is talking to his ex; you hide the fact you  know.  Neither is healthy.  Be open and honest with each other immediately.  Things hidden fester and grow into something ugly.
240982
No, I don't talk to any of my ex's.. but one thing I would do is ask the ex what his intention to get in touch with oyou after so long is.  He is probably unhappy in his relationship and wants to bring you into his life for some reason.. If he was single, I would think his intentions were okay.. but since he IS in ANOTHER relationship, he needs to break up with his current GF and then pursuit hsi ex's.  Word of advice for you-- tell your current significant other!  He should know from you then ever finding out by accident.  Good luck with this sticky situation!!!