I have a crush on a Bulgalian woman more than 10 years younger than me. She has a boyfriend.What should I do?
443517
There's nothing wrong with having a crush on someone who's younger than you. Something's wrong if you'll insist on your feelings when you know that she is committed to someone. \n\nI suggest you forget about your feelings for her and look for someone who is unattached and also willing to love you.
910813
How do I put this delicately?\n\nI would suggest that you are head-over-heels in 'love' (or at least lust). Where the mind goes, the body follows (an important principle in foreplay, that is) - and, from the sound of it, noone else is going to be pushing your buttons while you have this person on your mind. As long as it doesn't enter the realms of crippling obsession, it's not the 'mother of all evils' (whether the sentiment is returned or not).\n\nIf you're old enough to cash in, go for it. If you're below the age of consent, then just live with the crush...
294436
just like trogdor_rocks, i have a partial-crush on a girl (im not fully sure if i like her or not), only i am only 12 as well as trogdor_rocks, and i have a girlfriend who lives in ohio, while i am in NY and although our friendly relationship is fine, our long distance boyfriend-girlfriend relationship isnt the best idea, and i have known her (the first girl, not my current girlfriend)since i was born, only she just transfered to my academy from another school, so although we had a lot of catching up to do, she still thought she knew me too well, and i am afraid she might think i am an idiot if i ask her out, so what should i do?  anyway, back to your answer, they usually act kinda flirty to you, but usually just give you hot loox in the hall, also, anyone who sees this answer and answers one of my questions, plz tell me what i should do about the girl!
822921
Ok, this is a sticky one.  Can you put your 'crush buzz' to the side and see the reality of 'what if it can work' set in? It will be national news, everything will blow up.  Can you honestly see her having feelings for you as well? Do you think moving in closer to her would work out for the both of you's or just you? remember she is married for a reason. Here's the good news, you have found someone that has shown you your 'ideal' partner.  What might have got you to have a crush on her is as a teacher it is their job to pay attention and help students reach there goals.  I know your not going to get that with a lot of girls at high school, hey they are young and still learning themselves, maybe you are more mature minded and that's great you have discovered your ideal partner which is a mature, funny, witty and with a great personality.  But as a teacher, not a good thing to do.  Just look at her and thank her in your mind for showing you an ideal partner =)
1097805
u are 28 and mature enough to take decisions of ur life.first b sure that u love her or its just that u want to have sex with her as u are attracted to her.if u really love her and so does she then just go ahead but u should also take care of -ve aspects of ur age difference.
657477
If shes 10 yrs old...Dont you think shes a bit too YOUNG to be worrying about a bf at this stage in her life??
734953
shes too young .. and mabbe she doesnt have the same feelings for you .. even if she has it at this age she might change later in life and so is the case with you as even 21 is not very old ... wait for 23 years by which you will meet lot of young girls your age in life ... and then decide .. if you make your move now you might spoil it for everyone ... all the best ....
305721
This is a hard one. Does she already like you, is she ok with her current boyfriend or does she flirt around all the time.   Its all a case of sussing out the situtation and seeing how interested she is in her current bf, if she loves him then stear clear.  If you think she might be interested then drop hints, try and meet her and have a chat, see how she feels about him and about you. Offer a sympathetic ear.  But dont push it if she's not interested, you'll only get hurt.
39715
well ,you must treat her like a person more than of her age.. \nyou must also consider her opinions....
1003589
Age difference could be a factor, but not a big one. I would say that if she is great and if I think it is fair enough from both of our sides then it wouldn't matter if we have 10 years difference. It wouldn't matter if she is 15 years older then me or 10 years younger then me. But I wouldn't want any too young girl to be spoiled out her mind with me.
293492
No i think that is perfectly fine!!! Well i would think that when me and my better half got together i was 20 and he was 29, 3 years later and we have a awsome strong relationship, i was ready for something serious to plant my feet into and so was he, we had alot of things in common, i mean yes there are times when i think wow hes really been around alot more then i have and i can feel a little bit intimidated, but in the long run im thankfull he has those experiances to help guide our steps, I think he has come to believe that im never going to be perfect, even though i really try to do everything well, im not completely at his level on thinking, he has more life lessons to reflect on, but i dont think its a problem when we both discuss everything and keep the lines of communication open, just like any other relationship, my best friend is in the same boat, her husband is 10 years older then her and oddly enough shes the more responcible one, i dont see why any one would think its wrong, now if you were 25 and she was 15 there might be a huge responce to you sick mo fo lol but i dont think there is anything wrong with you liking her, ask her out, she might be into older guys, and with good reason, guys that are 20-24 are enough to make you want to puke, they only want one thing, they havnt figured out yet theres more to life then a nice set of boobs lol they dont know how to deal with money worth a crap, they only look out for themselfs, where older guys have alot more figured out, theres so many more perks to dating a older guy i could go on forever, more or less your more established at 30... id say go for it :) you have nothing to lose
523810
in that case, i would think that u should move on since u had known her 4 to 6 years yet she only treats u as a friend.. i have a friend who has a crush on a girl for 8 years.. but in the end the girl didn't accept him and instead flew to russia to do medicine.. it is a bit hurt but u have to move on.. there is no point hurting yourself in the end..
897576
I think this lady has a problem, not just with you, but with her mind.You might have a fatal attraction situation.I think you should understand sometimes people take the smallest kindnesses as a way to intrude in your life. I think you should tell her once again that your not interested in her or having a relationship with her. I will say that never let anyone define you, You know who you are inside, so don't give her a second thought. I think your nice to even wonder about her, that does you have integrity and care about others feelings.
794648
You don't say how old you are or how old she is....It could be okay if both of you are of legal age.  I have a feeling one of you isn't.
1186921
she will not laugh at you, Im nearly 40 and if some guy hit on me that was 20, Id be flattered. Give her a flower, tell her you think shes gorgeous. If she is single and not involved, she may like you as well. You are a legal adult now, and age is onyl a number...go for it! you never know the results :)
850913
If you're happy. You are old enough to make your own desicion. I know a couple where the woman is 10yrs older and they've been together 15 years.
1055516
I'm turning 41 in a few days, and if I was interested in a woman in her 20's and she was interested in me, then more power to us.  11 years is nothing in the big scheme of things.  Don't worry about what your friends say.  Listen to your heart!