My (ex)boyfriend said that it was a mistake to love me. But I think I have found someone better.?
438081
ummm yeah girl, dont get caught in that falling for losers while the nice guy watches and picks up the pieces trap. You should kick your ex's behind. You dont disrespect a woman by putting your hands on her OR calling her out of her name. If he has to physically hurt a woman, it shows he is a punk anyways and not a real man. Maybe his mistake in falling for you is that you didnt have a penis, which is what he is really looking for.
329616
He's blowing you off, but there may be a lot of truth to what he says. Unfortunately, I've used that line and lived to regret it. She was a great girl, but I didn't want to get exclusive. Sometime afterward, I wished I hadn't broke up with her because the other girls I met were not near as nice as she was. Hope that gives you some kind of consolation. You do deserve someone better, and you will find him.
214459
look, you made an honest mistake, i mean from the sound of things, it came from the right place. grow a bit of a spine and admit to her that what you did was wrong, but explain to her how what she did made you feel; that maybe she should have gone about it in a different way. don't beat yourself that much over it, you are only human and will make some mistakes, especially with those you love.
1001165
infact every person is alowed to make mistakes if not, that means you are not human.to start off just be yourself and take the bull by its horns that means take a chance and say that you are sorry if he still declines your pardon dont take it the wrong way.in fact maybe he had wanted to drop you a long time but did not know in which way to do so and from that little mistake he capitalised on it so,the best thing is to start from scratch again the many times you fall down doesnt count its the many of times you get back up to survive and have a happy life is the way to a journey for glory so try to find someone that will accept your love and for who you are even mistakes in a relation will never mind to a guy that loves you dearly.trust
1091644
what you do is move on and find someone else to love and who will love you back. you dont need to be with someone who is deceiving you.
925785
I think you should take him back. Just to see if he actually has changed, because from the sound of it, it seems to me that he has changed. Also because you have nothing to loose if you do start to date him again. I also think it would just be a good decision to make because it seems like that would make you happy, with you missing him and all.\n\nOne more thing... you shouldn't lie to your man... especially about things that involve your ex. It's wrong, and it also seems somewhat suspicious, ya know???\n\nGood Luck ;)
794658
I was with my last boyfriend for 3 and a half years when I met my current boyfriend. I knew very quickly that I wanted to be with my current boyfriend, so I had to break my ex's heart to make myself happy. (I've been with my boyfriend now for more than a year) It hurt my ex like hell and I felt terrible doing it, but I knew that I wanted to be with someone else. So I had to do it for myself even though I hurt someone I cared about in the process. Just be careful and tactful in the way you say things. Make sure you don't sound like it's all his fault.
725720
yea u were wrong but u were provoked. i can't believe i'm sayin this but he's wrong. news flash toots, your guy is either cheatin on u or no longer interested in u and this was a convenient way for him to get rid of u. it's one of those 2 things, i guarantee it. good luck. be happy it's only 7 months invested b4 u found out what an @ss he is.
1129520
I didn't even finish reading your note, but from experience I would recommend ditching him... you deserve someone who can make up his mind and can love you 100%!! I had a fellow like that and I think he kept me around as security, so he wasn't alone and felt loved... don't be his love of last resort! Be strong and move on...
119912
If you doubt he loves you now than it is probably true. Also I would not want to be with someone who cheated on me. He will do it again if given the chance
849257
You don't really know. It's tough honey, I asked a question similar to this. You just have to be careful with who you give you heart to. I have found that listening to my gut helps. When you listen to your heart your judgment is clouded,and your head is to logical to listen to in this sort of situation. When someone tells you that they love you and then dump you the next day he probably was trying to get something from you. But cheer up, you know that you are better than that, you'll find someone that deserves you.
1082387
Honey, you already admitted that the relationship was hard to handle. It's time to let it go. Perhaps you're annoyed that it wasn't you who ended it; or more probably that you were so easily replaced. Let it go. It's time for it to end and both of you need to get on with your lives.
1048513
Would you want to be with someone who did not love you back? If he used the excuse that he thought you were playing him to back of on the relationship then he is  a loser anyway! Move on with your life. You are better off!
980344
Do you still love him?  If you do then I would say try again.  BUT, you need to have a serious conversation with him before you put yourself out there again.  Explain to him that you never cheated and you were offended when he just blindly believed a rumor instead of even asking your side.  This is your life and your decision, do you think he is worth your time?  Is he going to just believe anything anyone says about you?  He needs to realize that the 2 of you are the only ones in your relationship...  Hope everything works out good for you.
978478
you should congratulate yourself on your decision, and realize that it was the RIGHT one.  If he is so immature as to treat you poorly just because you didn't go out with him, then it's obvious that he would have been a bad choice for you.  He needs to grow up.
163002
You broke it off 6 months ago.  You did the right thing.  Here's the deal - it's one thing if it were the other way around.  You should be asking why if he dumped you.  Since you dumped him, it's the other way around.  You left him on your terms, he still has things unresolved.  Don't waste your time trying, you might hurt yourself.
373773
Unfortunately I also lost the love of my life due to some faults of my own.  It took me a long time to realize that I had to let him go.  It was just not to be.  Only then was I able to work on my faults to be a better person all around.  That was a few years ago, I still love him, but haven't spoken to him since, but in a way I thank him for hurting me into getting help with some faults I really needed to fix.  Time is all that will heal.  I would let her go and take care of #1....YOU!  good luck!