im torn between two guys.one is my ex whom i'm still in love with.what should i do?
450890
First off, you need to go with your heart. What ever is meant to be will happen. If you have ANY doubts what so ever about your current boyfriend, DO NOT GET MARRIED! You will regret it sooner or later. And if you are in love with your ex and can see it working...go for it sweetie, don't lose him again!
320746
It sounds like you really already know in your heart what you want and what you need to do.So,do it.Life is to short to be unhappy.You truly are in love with your ex,so that is where you need to be.I know it would be hard to tell the other person in your life,but it needs to be done,and it can be done in a nice manner.Like you just are not ready for a relationship with him,and you would not be fibbing,because you are not ready when you have such strong feelings for your ex.Also,this isn't fair for them nor for you all,and in the long run,it would be much harder to end as the more time that goes by.I say go and follow your heart.Good Luck to you!
923217
u need to be strong, and never go back to this guy, u are still in love with the ex, and it is hard when he calls. sometimes we can still love someone but they aren't good for us, sometimes it is hard to move on, but we got to, for our own well being, when we truly know that person will hurt us. just be strong, when he calls again, hang up, don't let him suck u in again into his world.
513112
You deserve to be in love, real love. If something like an ex has been bothering you so much WHILE you are with the other guy, then you should leave him. Its been a year. If you were going to fall in love any deeper you would know. Dont settle.\nHowever, just know that as I write this I understand that the advice i gave is easier said than done. not having to deal with the pain of breaking up with people can make you want to just stay with them.\nBut ultimately you are the one that has to be happy, and satisfied. Dont choose to live your life wanting more and feeling unfulfilled in your heart.
366766
This is a very difficult situation especially if you still love the man.  The best advice I can give you is to make a psychological and personal decision as soon as possible. I don't know your exact situation, but if you still love this person and if he loves you, and you think there may be a chance to work things out, then you should try to do so by all means.  BUT, you need to think of this very seriously, because it sounds to me that your relationship with him may be something in the past. If this is the case, you MUST learn to get over him. This is very important, for your sake.  This is very difficult (I know from experience), and it can hurt to see the one you love with someone else. But if it is not going to work, you need to learn to move on and allow yourself to forget about him.  You need to realize that this isn't easy, and it will take time.  But if you keep thinking about him as a lover, you will always be tormented inside.  Go out, meet new people, get your mind off of him and with time I assure you that life will go on, and you will find happiness again. Good luck!
225773
Just think about this, He's an ex for a reason~!! If your love for him overpowers that reason then go back with him.
881229
You need to get over your ex first hun. I have been down that road recently and thats what you gotta do first before you move to another person. If you dont you will just compare your next bf to your ex and end up ending things with them because you still have that hope of having your ex back. It's not easy letting go but in order to make yourself happy get over your ex before you start a new relationship
798361
If you like them both, flip a coin, let fate decide. If fate decides one guy, and your first reaction was... DANG... I wanted it to be the other guy. Go with your gut.. choose the guy you wanted it to be!
280691
Like they say...don't know what ya got till it's gone..guess he's now realizing how great of a person  you are..this is a decision you have to make..you've been with your current boyfriend 2 1/2 years..do you really want to give all that up for something that may not work out..look in your heart and decide what you want and how you feel...if things are going good with your current man I'd just tell the ex sorry I've moved on and have someone...if your not happy then maybe you should give it a try but this is something  you should think long and hard about even pray about because it will be a life changing decision..the best of luck to you
480850
keep the 100% respect guy he sounds like a keeper. :) dont go with the ex - it never works out and u will only regret it if u do .\n\ngood luck
465880
Stay away from this guy. He wasn't concerned about you or your feelings when he was doing the other girl and may have even transmitted something from her to you in the process.  You shouldn't give a damn about him anymore. \nThere are plenty of guys out there. Just be patient and do everything you can to avoid your ex and his significant other and there soon to be lust baby. Try and stay busy with other friends. They will help you through all this and introduce you to someone that is worthy of your time and love.\nGood Luck
196498
You have to choose one.\n\nThink about it carefully. Who would you rather lose, your boyfriend or the new guy? Once you make your decision, you can't undo it.\n\nIf ever you choose to leave your boyfriend, just be honest to him. It's better to tell him the truth that cheat on him.
1116801
Ok. I had the same problem. There was one guy I was with and we broke up so I went without liking anybody for a while. Then one of my best guy friends broke up with his gf and I realized I liked him but then my ex started coming back. So I chose the one that is the sweetest and that I have the most fun with and that wasn't my ex. It just so happens i picked the other guy who's my ex's best friend and we've been together for almost 4 months and I have a great ime with him all the time. although they aren't friends anymore, I still really like my bf. so pick the one that's sweetest to you and that you have the most fun with. even if that means long distance. (i'd choose the ex because he seems like he would be a great bf and that he really cares about you as lot).
108510
Accept the fact that it takes two people who both love eather other to have a relationship and as much as you wish that was with this person it isn't.  You deserve to let yourself move on and find someone who will want your love and give you their love back in return.
973328
I dont think that you should start a relationship with someone else if you are still in love with #1. You need to end the contact with #1 so you can move on with your life and find someone who will treat you with the respect you deserve. No one deserves to be treated the way #1 treated you. I would try to explain to #2 how your feeling and maybe he can help you get through the feelings for #1. Guy #2 sounds like a very good guy and maybe he can understand what you are going through.
951800
Don't go with your ex. This new guy seems much more trust worthy.\n\nREmember: once a cheater, always a cheater. Nothing is going to change that, regardless of how commited he appears. Cheating is an addiction. \n\nI would go with the military guy. Try a new relationship--you never know where it will take you.\n\nYour ex is your ex for a reason.
479643
If you love the other guy, stay with him! An ex should always be forgotten. But I don't blame you for feeling a little cheated on. You'll get over it if you love the boyfriend you're with at the moment.