Is it best to let fate decide if the one you love returns or should you go and try to get him back?
442420
Fate is cruel, Faith is inspiring... yet Love can be confusing. \n\nLive your life and in the course of living you find him again, great. But don't wait... Good things come to those that wait but better things come when you go get them for yourself. And the Best thing may just be around that corner.
61606
make sure that if you deside to let him go that you will not change your mind and want him back. because he might not be unvailable when you want him.
289489
it depends on how he really feels and the way you make him feel if there is something that he likes that you do and you do it you may get him back but i don't know that's the best answer i have for you.
797137
Ever heard yhe old saying that if you love someone and they want to leave you should let them go if it is meant to be they will comeback to you. Try this on your freind and see what happens\nGood luck
393466
If he wants you back he will find a way.  You might have to accept that he has moved on and try to do so yourself.  The pain goes away if you let it.x
209368
You won't accomplish anything by ingnoring him. In fact, if he wants to get back with you, this will worsen his condition, and will look for you even more. But if you are asking us what you should do, then for sure you still like him. Because otherwise you would just have disappeared from his life.
243538
uhmm.....depends...if you still love him and REALLY wanna be with him, and if he never hurt you, and if you enjoy the things that you guys do together, then you should TOTALLY get back with him! but then again, its depends on the reason why he left...its all up to you
247961
I'll choose the one i love. I'll make him fell in love with me. If it doesn't work, at least i've try the best and grateful i've given to love someone. Besides its just in my imagination. In my real life, i have someone to love and love me too.
326696
It is what it is, it will be whatever will be, if your love is for real, and she love you back, Never is inoff,\nLOVE is The ID of the soul, Go for it try it , if she get back with you, learn and be happy ,but do not break her heart again PLEASE
461140
I'd let him go...if he's not into you, is it worth it to debase yourself or do something you don't necessarily want to do to get back together?
372145
If you love someone, Let them go if they return they was yours if they don't they never was. I believe in this whole heartedly. I wouldn't want someone making me feel guilty just because I didn't feel the same way they did. You can not control how you feel. And if you get hurt then you still have to go on. And that doesn't mean that you don't still Love that person. You just can't tell them everyday.(at least not outloud). Just don't hate that person.Because he/she can't help how they feel either.
959175
We are all human and make mistakes.  You might want to look deep into your own heart/mind and ask yourself what caused you to separate.  If there was some behavior which you could not tolerate and the other person has changed (for himself, not just for you), then a second chance might be worth it.  Sometimes people make rush judgements instead of rational decisions.  If your company offers some free counselling sessions, it might be worth it to go and maybe you'll have a better understanding of yourself...your wants, needs, desires.\n\nIt would also be good to know if the other person is really wanting you or is it because he has nothing else going on and coming back to something familiar.
120634
there is more going on there than you think if it stays this way for while you need to let it go. because if he really wanted you and loves you he wouldnt be treating you like that. i would try to give your best shot and if nothing works i would leave and try to start your life over. if by chance your leaving scares him silly and he changes his ways then i would search your heart and see if you really want him back.
432044
if you still love him, and really really want him back in your life and into your future, then get up right now and start packing your bags! your going on a trip to get your ONE and ONLY back! even though he lives 8 hours away from you, it doesnt matter! you should fight for him and do anything to get him back, right?! and if it will cost you money, it still doesn't matter, what would you rather lose? your money or the ONE you truly want and need? of course you would rather lose money than the person you loved, right? and when you get to him... tell him how you really really love him so much... tell him that you would rather lose all the things you have than lose him! tell him that you will NEVER EVER do anything to hurt him again! tell him that you would change and go back to the real you just like in the old days... and tell him that you really need him and want him in your life! especially, tell him that you wouldnt change into the self that was dishonest and the self you didnt like before... then tell him you really love him! over and over and over and over again!!!! =)
454419
Ask yourself do you really want him back?? Or do you want the feeling of being in a loving relationship?? If it is him, that you want back, does he want you back? I think that best thing that you can do for yourself is to go on with your life. There are others out there and you are holding yourself back wanting what you can't have. We always want what we can't have,but while you are pining away for the past you are missing out on the future. If you two are meant to be together than it will happen. You can't make someone want you and you can't take him back, he is not yours he belongs to himself and he has to find his own way in life.
922191
Don't go there!!! No matter how much it hurts, you can't mess with people's free will. If you do it things will be bad:\nHe may come back, but the relationship will not be good.\nYou will not be happy together.\nThe whole thing will blow up in your face.\nHe will be really really hard to get rid of after things go sour again.\n\nSweetie, you have to accept the fact that the relationship was broken, or you two wouldn't have broken up. You have to let go and mend your broken heart. Work on enriching your spirit and a new better love will come to you.\nI promise.
654507
Both. And I quote. "Fate is the path we are destined to take. Choice is how we get there". Make the right decision and the rest will fall into place.