is it necessary having s.ex before marriage can make a person better in bed?
438270
no.. what makes one good at sex is a creative open mind.. a willingness to try new things and experiment..  It has nothing to do with being married or not..
56971
You cannot win.  Any sex before marriage and you are a sinning sl*ut.  Any sex after the first date and some will call you a prude.\nSex involves intimate physical contact with another human being.  First talk this over with that other human.  This is your relationship, not ours.  If you can not talk about sex, you shouldn't be doing it.
776746
Do you love your husband?  If you love him you should not take the chance of loosing him just for a fling.  Don't you think your ex-boyfriend is probably hoping you'll give him some before he gets married. He might just be running around to all his old girlfriends hoping to get laid by someone. Don't do it sweetie it's not worth it.
643928
No!  Sex is something to be shared between lovers. By doing something like that you cheapen it for you both down to just an act.  \n\nSex is meant to bring lovers together - to teach trust and compassion for one and other. \n\nFantasy fulfillment and roll playing are good thing for lovers.  Just don't through it all away and have no place left to explore.
892315
Sex before marriage is a total no-no for me. Virginity is the most prized possesion for a women and the most deserving man can get the most prized possesion.
1180673
It is important to have GREAT and VARIED sex all of the time as often as possible in a relationship to keep the fire in it . . . \n\nSex before marriage I say . . . Try before you buy!!!\n\nand internet relationships well is new to me so we we will have to find out baby . . .
411910
No!  Love is so much more than sex.  It's emotional, spiritually.  It's unconditional.  Just spending time cuddling, walking in the park etc.  can be sufficient when you are truly in love.  Of course sex is part of a relationship, but not needed. (right away) Taking the time to know one another first is important.  And if you want to wait before you get married.  Even better.  If the person really loves you, they will feel the same way, understand and wait.....
1051618
Foreplay is one of the most important things......any girl married or not would like to have that foreplay before anything.  Nothing wrong with get things ready for the main event.
612085
Sex with an ex  is a no-no if you  are the one who broke up with him it's giving him false hope that you maybe on the road to reconciliation and it's not right to lead someone on just so you can still get laid!
1035492
it might but if he is forcing u than u need to break with him cause i believe in marriage before sex.\nThats great that you want to wait!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!\nGOD bless you.
1183236
I don't agree....some relationships just aren't meant to be, it has nothing to do with moving in with each other before marriage. I honestly think living together before marriage is a good thing because you get to know the person and figure out if you are going to work out. It better than running off to Vegas getting married in t-shirt and jeans to someone you barely know. Marriage is sacred, it should not be rushed.
438767
of course it does! it just means that you're really up for love and not for lust... though sometimes your decision depends on your morals, but in my opinion, it's very much ok to marry a man first before having sex with him. since you're both legal to do it and if ever pregnancy issues come alaong you wouldn't be scared since marriage already took place. =)
605604
NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!  I think sex is a benefit.............. Love, Friendship, understanding, faith, hope and truthfulness is the major part in a relationship,,\nIf you don't have that,   sex is a crouch!!!!! and your relationship will not last!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
664062
Well it depends on how ur moral standards are, I wanted to wait until marriage, but that didn't happen. If your a frim believer in Christ, you know that he'd rather you wait until marriage, but most people need to see if they are compatible in the bedroom. All in all the sex is sooooo much better after your married.  You follow your heart. I'm sure you'll make the right choice. Good Luck!
826941
I agree with you. You get married because you love that person for that person, not because you love what they can do to you in the sack.\n\nPeople say sex is an expression of love, but I think lack of sex is a greater expression. If your boyfriend/girlfriend loves you enough to say "I don't need sex. I can wait." That's someone worth being with. It they're ready to hit the sack right away... well... maybe they don't completely love you for you.\n\nThat's why I'm a virgin and will remain so until marriage. If a guy says he can't wait that long, then he's not worth my time.\n\nSo, getting back on track now... Is viriginity important to guys? I guess it depends on the man. To me, (female), virginity is very important. I don't care if they have experience or not and I'd rather they didn't. I want to be the only person they've ever been with and I'd hope that my future spouse will feel the same way. =D
703553
Just like other things. money, power, fame , sex...... everything is good. but your life should not be spoiled and lost because of these. you just utilize them in the right manner. must know that they are not the aims of yr life. that's all. not necessary to be good being without sex.
558673
Sex before marriage is not a good idea. I would rather have waited till I got married however, I was young and foolish and wanted experience. Well, after you're experienced what is there to experience more? You keep on having sex, right and so if I were to change this I would have waited for the right time. But this is just my opinion. Different people have different opinions.