I think my gay boss has the hots for me.  What should I do?
441173
If it bothers you, especially the slapping thing, at minimum, make your objections known to him, tell him it must stop now and documant doing so in writing.  Another alternative would be to file a sexual harrasment complaint.  What he is doing is just as wrong as when a heterosexual male does the same thing to a femal employee or co-worker.
197544
Just flat out tell him, I think you are sexy, I would like you to come to my flat for a few beers and maybe a movie, then after about 45 minutes of drinking take off some of your clothes, if he has no reaction do a little sexy dance then plop on him belly down with your but in his face, if he doesn't make a move by then he is gay.
117299
Dont hide it...If your boss finds out screw him..if you get fired then find another job cuz that one wasn't worth having in the first place. Nobody can tell you who to and not to date.
1021729
m_k4376 says...dont mess with the boss's man...unless  you are not worried about losing the job. First question to ask yourself is what is your relationship with your boss..if your boss is a friend, then be a friend and stay away. If not, and you dont care about the job then see where it goes. the boss may be using him to get to you for a little action, if your into that kind of thing. if your not into that kind of thing then wait till they break up then pursue him. but then, if you dont care about the job or your boss, go for it and the next time he hits on you... reach back and grab his package.  let me know how it works out...@ yahoo
869616
There are some lines i don't cross.  \nDating anyone at work is a no no.\n\nSure at work things fly around in the work place...  \nBut you are responding to them, in other words accepting the game and playing with him in this flirting..\n \nMaybe the best bet would be. dont respond every email or message that is sent. It will die down slowly..\nI can understand you dont want it to put up a brick wall.. \nAs You might loose your job. But at the same time.. \nif he presses you for a reply, Just brushing it off as a joke. \nThis can work just as well. It saves face for him as well as yourself.. \n\nBe careful.  You dont want to scream sexual harassment..  \nNot when your responding and playing the game with him.\nBecause if you do, he will throw it back to you.\n\nSo my suggestion would be, Just don't respond as much.. find work .. make yourself busy. And maybe find another job in the mean time. \n\nBlessings ALD
993340
Nowadays, with all the sexual harassment issues at the workplace, people are extremely careful when getting involved like this. Maybe you should ask him to meet you in a place outside the work environment and openly discuss the issue. Some guys, like me are shy and will wait to get a very clear "hint" to make the move.
1060728
talk to him. he just has a strong sexual attraction to you.
1129732
Who cares what other people say! It's your relationship. It must be chicks who are criticizing you because there are a lot of gay guys who we think are HOT. But off limits if you know what I mean! You should be proud of yourself that you are landing all these hunks! And you should sport him proudly.
1073512
Hire someone else this week, even if you have to go out of the office to conduct interviews, background checks, etc.\nWhen this guy come in on Monday to work, have a 5 minutes meeting with him explaining the situation in a calm but very compelling way. Don't leave out the potential sexual harassment lawsuit part, and give him 2 hours to pack up his stuff and move out.  You will have already made sure you have cleaned everything out of his office that you don't want him to steal.\nIf you feel unsure about this strategy, get a hidden video camera installed in his office ant the the "goods" on him.\nIt is not necessary to explain the details to your employees, except perhaps your upper level management.
759747
my boss was a dork he used to chat up everything in a skirt. i used to wind him up all  the time but he loved it. thing is are you sure he does not mind and more importantly if not why not. even if he doesn't mind now it will come back and haunt you one day. in my case he liked it cos he thought we had a chemistry!!!!! untill i had a dispute with my contract and he tried to back me up. result i left and he got fired but is normally the other way round. so beware.
945812
LOL! First off, hire a hitman for Bushitler. Next comes luxury for my family. Then... a harem of hot gay guys for me. *grins*
565149
just keep smiling dont let him get to you, be polite and nice until you can find another job
233439
It sounds like he has feelings for you.  Go for it!
1131002
You focus mainly in the manly part. You like giving pleasure to others, and if they are the 'forbidden' kind, better, right? You feel you can conquer any man, even if they consider themselves 'straight', that makes you feel strong. Just be careful...
200322
I have had crushes on my doctors before too but then I found out one of them was gay so there went my fantasy. I think what your feeling is probably considered normal but you have to remember that a doctor is a professional and just because they listen to you and touch you doesn't mean they are attracted to you. There are just doing their job and some are more compassionate than others. Don't let your thoughts and fantasies get too out of hand. It's OK to laugh and joke about crushes but remember the chances of him falling in love with you and whisking you off somewhere is sort of absurd.
798223
NO!!!! Don't wait.\n\nDon't let this turn into a party of 3+ because he doesn't know you want some alone time. Clarify this immediately. Otherwise somebody else might get invited, him thinking it's just lunch.\n\nSend him an email with "Sexual Harassment" in the subject line. In the body, tell him that it's a good thing for you that he's leaving the company so now YOU won't get into any trouble!\n\nThat will get his attention and let him know you're interested in a way that will bring a smile to his face. At lunch, tell him you want to give him a good-bye kiss for his leaving. Plant one on him that will make your intentions perfectly clear.\n\nMan, I should charge for this stuff...
344820
Buyer beware!!!! He could be setting you up for other "perks" by letting you rent the house for a cheap price. Or he could just be very nice. You should know the type of man he is if he is your boss. Don't get yourself into something that could make you lose the roof over your head or your job, even more your self respect.