how can i achieve complete and total happiness?
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I was told that acceptance of other people, things and yourself make you a happier person.  Do something that you genuinely love and helping other people in need are also helpful.
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Don't look for others to make you happy.....be happy with yourself.  Stay busy, stay involved, volunteer your time, take pleasure in the simple things that life has to offer.
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sit down in a quiet place and think about some things that make you happy, and some things that make you stressed out. pick one (or more) of the happy things, and try to do it/see it/listen to it/feel it more often. when you are experiencing whatever it is, really let yourself enjoy it.\n\nthen, think of one of the things that makes you stressed out. think about the way you like it (perfect) and what will happen if it's not perfect. next time you see it not being perfect, take a minute to relax and see if it's really as bad as you think before you change it. this is something you can teach yourself to do. \n\nwith both, start slow and do one at a time- you're not going to change everything overnight.
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i think the key to happiness is through JESUS CHRIST. and letting HIM lead your life. GOD BLESS YOU.
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Choose to be happy.  Do good to others.  Stay Healthy.
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There is nothing in the universe to make a human being 100 percent happy and satisfy.We pretend to be happy and satisfied.Thats why we hope & dream ,we work, we try our best ,we look forward for more love,more money ,more comforts.If once you achive everything in your life then you'll find no meaning no lead your life.The only thing you require to make or become happy and satisfied in married life is heartful love - we know love conquires everything.And the secondary things are sacrifice and adjustment.If your question points to physical matters then you should know that physically a man or woman can attract his / her partner at best one year.Thanks
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Never stop  trying is the main thing. This means, be happy and make others happy. Smile at everyone no matter how difficult life can be. Treat every living thing with respect. Also find ones true talent. Work and focus on that talent so that one can be the best or make the best of ones talent. Put that talent out for everyone to see and be remembered for it. The most important thing one should accomplish before one leave this world is to not give up--Try and keep trying no matter what happens! Angel
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I am quite happy with my life, but I will not be completely satisfied with it untill I have accomplished what I was put here to do.  And thanks for your answer as well.
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1. Live life to the fullest. Love and care for the people near to you, there smile will make you happy and your life will become enjoyable.\n2. Try every possible thing in your life , but remaining in limits.\n3. Share your feelings with your better half only.
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Start tithing.\n\nYou'll find yourself working and budgeting to give back the first fruits of what you make  rather than to be unsatisfied with senseless purchases.  You will derive TRUE happiness from knowing you are helping others, and find yourself with less of an urge to purchase stuff to be happy.\n\nPray about it...see what you think.
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To be happy and healthy
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Hi Fragile,\n\nI'm sorry that you have not experienced Happiness in your life. You sound young, so you still have many things to learn. You are becoming a Woman, and that is not always easy. \n\nI have been happy in life, and I've been sad too; and I'm 30. Here are my tips for happiness:\n\n1. Get a Relationship with God\nThere is nothing more important in this world than your relationship with God. God is the beginning of each and every thing. He is the Reason why you are here. He created you, and placed you on this earth for a  reason..Fragile, nothing in life lasts forever. Parents can get divorced, people pass away, your best friend can leave you, your husband can leave you--but God will Always, Always Love You and Be There for you. If you Love Him--he will Love you 100 times more. Happiness comes from Him. He is your Strength in the worst times of your life. He is also a source of Peace...Whether you become a Christian or a Muslim--you will not be complete as a woman until you get God in your Life.\n\n2. Love Yourself.\nWhen I was growing up, my family thought I was the strangest thing. At first I tried hard to fit in: but one day I decided that I liked myself. And it was the best feeling in the world. I didn't look to them for approval--although I still loved and respected them. I didn't look to schoolmates for approval. You have to do the same. \n\nYou say you feel pressure to be skinny--well you should look in the mirror and realize that you are Beautiful. When I was growing up, people made fun of my high forhead, my lips. But my mom told me my features were beautiful--and she showed me beautiful African women who looked like me. You can start to admire women who arent a size 4-there are many plus sized models who are beautiful with curves...\nYou have to first accept yourself. When you do that, nobody can come along and make you feel bad about being you. That song, "The Greastest Love Of All", talks about that. \n\n3. Dont Depend on Man, Boyfriend, or Husband for Happiness.\nThat is the biggest mistake that  most women make. They make a man to be their God. If a man loves them, they're happy. If that same man leaves them, they want to cry and die..The truth is that the Greatest Love of all comes--loving ourselves..We women give men too much power in our lives. Our worlds revolve around them. No, your world must revolve around you. Fill your life with things that make you happy--volunteer at a local Boys & Girls Club, learn how to sew or speak Spanish--the point is to Get a Life!\n\n4. Follow Your Dreams\nSo you feel pressure to get grades. Realize that your parents only want you to suceed, thats all. You are just preparing for your future....Realize that if you get good grades, you can get a scholarship to a good College and move away from home. There, you can have space and become yourself. .But, most important, when you get a little older--you will start to have Dreams. You have to follow your Passion. Whether you want to be a nurse, doctor, florist, or business owner--you have to make a plan to make your dreams come true. Do what you have talent for, do what makes you happy.\n\n5. Dont follow the crowd. Be an Individual.\nI know peopl, right now, who are hooked on drugs because they were afraid of the "cool people" who made fun of them for not smoking and drinking..My 25 year old cousin is a drug addict because of that..Fragile, people will make fun of you for not smoking weed, not having sex, etc. You have to be Strong--be a Strong Woman. You cant follow those people off a cliff. Only the Strong survive.\n\nGood Luck and I hope this letter want too long! :)
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if you are happy in your life all the time, you will loose the value of it . we know what happiness is after facing the sorrows if their is no sorrow then happiness doesn't have it's value so try to appericiate sorrow and u will understand the true joy
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Set your goals, high and your standards higher. Never give up. and always believe in yourself. If you do this, no amount of money in the world will make you happy. Because you will find the true happiness with in.
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Live your life to the fullest!! enjoy your new discovery's, be open to explore what is exiting to you. be your own judge on what is right for you.  check your own standards and morals, if you are comfortable with your desires and actions then enjoy all that you are . do not let the opinions of others dictate your level of happiness
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your life is your own to make the best of.\ni would think you would want to be happy as best as you could in a world that has so many flaws. so now...answer your own question what is your goal in this life? do want to spend it making someone else happy? or are you committed to making yourself happy?remember the happier you are the better postion you are in to spread happiness around you and your enviornment
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In order to have happiness a person should have all the mind intact. I couldn't think of leaving a piece of mine behind.