How can you tell if your boyfriend is the only one for you but yet you still text other fella?
449193
Well, its really okay for you to text other guys. As long that you know that your boyfriend can and will be one for u, i'm sure your relationship wif the other guys will be nothing be more than platonic. Don't worry... Its okay as long as u know for sure that ur boyfriend is the ONE for u. Having a social life is healthy. =)
110648
You have to ask yourself why he cares if they have a boyfriend or not, really I can only see one reason why he would ask that - well if a guy asks me if I have a boyfriend I can only assume that he wants to find out if the coast is clear for him to make a move.  Sorry, I wish I was wrong
940816
welp-i left my man of 3 yrs. & dated other people-i was split up w/him for 2 yrs.-i had 2 other serious relationships n this period & i still missed my ex-& snuck & called him & even saw him once or twice-but n ur situation u may not have 2 worry about that if he's not talkin 2 her--but her---well hunny-if u want 2 b n a serious relationship-it really don't sound like she's the one!!
191617
Well if he is still with you thats a start. If you don't have to nag him to do the little things, if he still suprises you, is still thoughtful and wants to spend time with just you.
1180472
He's fishing around to see what you're doing with your life. It's none of his buisness, he made it clear he didn't want a relationship with you and who you see or hang out with is of no concern of his. Next time he texts you, tell him oh I have several b/f's...and leave it at that. If he texts again, ignore him.
920448
Just be honest with him and tell him that if and when you are interested in dating someone other than your boyfriend that you will tell him. And if he keeps asking it is making it less and less likely that if and when that time comes that you will not be asking him.
963270
If you are with another guy, he feels that the other guy can take his place as your boyfriend. If you are with another girl, he doesn't feel as if he can be replaced. Because of this, he considers you being with another guy cheating but not if it is another girl.
1056647
i wont listen to them. For what reason is he my boyfriend. Of course because he must have been loyal & sincere. But yes if some very close friend would have told me then my case would be different. I'll try to investigate about it.Then i'll ask my boyfriend myself if he has been cheating or not.Cheating is not a big issue till its just flirting but if he would be dating other girls then i would simply hug him n say go0d bye baby...
998194
Block your number and call him or get someone else like your friend to call and ask for him to see if he's really there. One question: if you think he's home, wouldn't he come on the phone since you are his GIRLFRIEND?
231104
I can assure you that that is no way to be sure if he is the one or not. He might be just saying those things that you want to hear. You are interested in settling down and get married so he is saying so, and he might leave you when he will finish using you. Keep that in consideration.
729285
If you don't care for him anymore, you may want to ask him to stop texting/IMing you.  Your current boyfriend might not like it that the ex is still in the picture and might not take your word for it that the ex means nothing to you as appearances can be misleading.\n\nIf you've moved on, does it really matter what his feelings are?  Besides, he can't care for you that much if he's swayed so easily and talks against you at the drop of a hat then apologizes later to you in private.  If he loved you, he'd stick up for you in front of his friends.  He sounds wishy-wasy and not a man you want in your life anyway.\n\nBid him begone and be happy with your new beau.
680679
You will know when he comes along, it will be the one you're not looking for.The best way to keep a relationship is to always be honest. And treat them the way you want them to treat you, with respect!
802537
i think u should stay with him because u must mean something to him other wise he would not keep texting u and that he could get his pleasures some were else if that was what he was after .....what u got to lose ????
1054965
u have to make up ur mind!! u can't keep stringing along all these guys. it's not fair to them. just pick one. if u can't maybe u're not supposed to be with any of them. ever thought about that! until u sort urself out u have no business telling others what to do. at most u should sit them all down (including ur boyfriend) and explain the situation. they might stop fighting with each other if they realised that u didn't really favour one over the other. just how many guys are after u anyway??!!
1044087
Don't ever let anyone control your mind like this. He might just be busy. Let him chase you. Don't call or text him until he calls or texts you. Date other people. If he wants you he knows where to find you and how to make it known. Let him work for you! You're a queen aren't you?
233229
Ask him if he's seeing anyone else. If you love him and trust him you will probably believe him. If you don't trust him, even if he's telling the truth it won't matter.\n\nIt could just be that your boyfriend is a shameless flirt! I know I'm dating one. He has more female friends than I do but it doesn't bother me when he hangs out with them or talks to them on the phone because I trust him.
338089
You should be able to tell since your already dating him. Guys usually don't go out with girls they like unless it's on a blind date or something. So everything should be ok.