my bf lies to me alot and he says he still love me though?
455052
People lie all the time,hell, the president lies .Its just a bump in the road that you two have to work out . just hang in there
8823
Tell him the truth. If your boyfriend really loves you he could understand it.
272037
Sounds like you should just break up with him then.  He is intentionally hurting your feelings by saying that to you..., or maybe he is trying to get some sort or reaction when he says it.  So, next time he says it.., say, I feel the same way.., just to see what he does.  Keep in mind..,there are many fish in the sea.., so you can throw this one back!!!
610339
Ask him and study his reactions. I'm sure you'll be able to tell if he's lying. It's best to be upfront with your suspicions. Tell him why you think he's cheating. If you keep it to yourself, your suspicions will ruin your relationship.
269133
It sounds like he still likes you.  If you guiys are still on speaking terms I think you should talk to him and ask him about all the shit hes been spreading.  If he's just mean, you might have to get your bf to avoid him and his friends or if the situation gets really desperate tell someone who has more control over him(your ex)
651995
It seems 2 me like he still wants u but he just don't know how 2 be with u right now. He may need a little time out.He's confused because he love u so much, he'll probably do just about anything for u.He's just scared that u may hurt him again & he may not know how 2 react if it ever happens again.U may have lost a little of his trust for u.He'll find out a way 2 fix this.Its just 2 much 4 him right now.Just give it some time. It'll all come out. Good luck!\n My situation is similar 2 urs.
178636
2 things.. one - may be he loves you but is afraid of commitment... two - may be he doesn't love you at all and it was just a slip of the tongue the first time he said it. Observe his actions and how he treats you. You'll get hints from there.
233229
Ask him if he's seeing anyone else. If you love him and trust him you will probably believe him. If you don't trust him, even if he's telling the truth it won't matter.\n\nIt could just be that your boyfriend is a shameless flirt! I know I'm dating one. He has more female friends than I do but it doesn't bother me when he hangs out with them or talks to them on the phone because I trust him.
1177808
Well if you are broken up, you move on and don't worry about what he's doing or not doing. And if you still want to be with him even though you think he's lying to you, then you still need to move on, because you should not want to be with someone who's going to lie to you just to keep you around. You shouldn't want to be kept on the sidelines. MOVE On and make yourself happy, because if you stay with him your only going to be unhappy, worrying if he's telling u the truth or not , if he's seeing this one ot that one. \nA relationship is built on trust and you have none with him!
394254
Ask him. By his response, you can tell if he is lying or not. Look for signs that he is cheating. He is loving you or avoiding you? Follow your heart, but don't be afraid to play the field too!
71915
no matter how small a lie is, yes you're right, its still lie! if he's doing that not only once/twice, there's something wrong with him, and dont just believe that he doesnt wanna hurt your feelings... both of you have to talk about it.
717772
yeh u can say it and say it 100 times over, but u mite not nessecarily mean it!the way2tell is by ur emotions and how you feel when ur arround him!his behaviour will say it all!consider all these things, has he lied2u, given u any reason2 doubt him!ul no if sum1 luvs u, cus theyl be sooo absorbed in u!if u have reason 2 doubt it then it probably wont be love, becus luv is unconditional and can be seen from miles off!although u are doubting it tho, doesnt mean he isnt in love with u!maybe he truely is and ur just wantn it2b tru luv soooo much that ur questioning it becus u cant believe its tru!ul no!hope this helps!
1107373
if he lies to you about everything, it s obviously no trust there. I know it s cut and dry to say this but if there s no trust, the relationship wont work anyway. It s up to you to give him another chance or not. I think you should talk to him straight forward. If you want to give him a chance, go ahead. After all that, if he s still a liar, break up w/ him. Keep in mind, at least you tried your best, if it didnt work out, too bad, you move on.
393142
What makes you think he is not being faithful?  Maybe he respects you.  If he tells you he loves you, he does.
1170094
if he is constantly accusing u and u know ur not doing anything to cause the accusations then maybe it's him cheating or he could be insecure from a past relationship or maybe controlling. it could be that he misses u too but the obvious is that he dosen't trust u. without trust your relationship is not whole it's always going to be a emptiness or the thought of "something going on when the other isn't looking". if he has to be breathing down your back and keeping a close eye on u at all times he is going to be the one pushing u away with all the constant pressure. u been together 6 moths the sepearation 3 weeks it sounds like to me that he is not so sure of wanting to marry u if he thinks ur cheating. ask him why would u want to marry someone u feel can't be faithful. everytime u separate to go anywhere the accusations will start, no good will come from it and it could lead to him putting his hands on u. your relationship needs trust or u will continue to have problems...hope this helps.
452438
Find outif he really loves you back. He might've been cheatin' ans saved you the agony of telling the truth. But if you love him tell him that you don't want it to be over, tell him thatit can be worked out if both of you are willing to commit.
487127
I too hate lies and believe people deserve more respect than to be lied too. Cause if the shoe was on the other foot they wouldn't appreciate it. Try not to over react though it could scare him away. Men lie cause they are too afraid of telling the truth cause they will look bad. It is good that you let him know that it affects you though. Cause in a relationship honesty is the best policy