should we wait on sex?
449879
That's fine, lots of couples wait until they are married to have sex even though they have had sex with each other before.  It just makes the honeymoon better because both of you will be extremely horny, so you will enjoy it more.  He's a good guy; just wait.  I promise you, it will be worth it!
623357
I dont think you should have sex before marriage. The sex will get in the way of really getting to know each other.You want know if its love,or lust.If its real and leads to marriage,you will be having all the sex you want. Find out the important things now,fck your brains out later.
457800
I absolutely agree that waiting is the best!  I waited for my wedding night to have sex and my wife will never have to worry about me comparing her to another woman in my past or present.  \n\nI think someone that makes a commitment to waiting will ease the anxiety of their partner whether they made that decision as a virgin or after making the mistake of sleeping around.  IMO, the only healthy sexual relationship is a monogamous relationship in a marriage for life!  \n\nAnd the idea that sex with multiple people is "practice" for the "right one" is CRAP!  The connections you make with one person will be completely different that the connections you make with someone else, and to think that the same things that one person liked are the same as another person, is ludicrous and will probably just complicate the situation even more.  Why not get married and practice making love to the ONE person that you will get to know better than anyone else so you can enjoy each other for the rest of your lives without worrying about whether you were practicing the right things on your last lover!
803219
The only right time to have sex in any relationship is when BOTH parties are ready to do so. Don't do anything that you will regret later........ you could end up damaging the relationship that you have started building.
864446
No, when sex is scheduled - it takes all the fun out of it.  It has to be spontaneous.  Nothing better then that!
908112
If you're not completely sure, you're not ready.  wait until you are, despite what many a person would have you believe, sex is very special , especially your first time and you want to be able to remember it fondly, not regret it.
913760
well he is ready. sounds liek what my bf and i were liek not too long ago. (weve been sating for 2 years) always talked abotu having sex. i told him how i wasnt comfortable wih the idea yet and wasnt sure (we were both virgins) so i just told him that. he didnt bother me abotu to as much as he used to before. i knew he respected my decision. i eneded up waiting over 1 and a half years intot he realthionship till i felt liek i was comfortable wiht it and everything. you shoudl just tell him that you dont know if your ready yet and if he relaly loves you he will respect your decision and stick it out till you feel more ready. there are better ways to please a guy that just sex. you can always make him dinner or something =) good luck. just dont rush into things if you dont feel ready. i dont konw how old you are. but advise waiting till you are in a serious relationship to loose it or have sex.
1128783
It's not a question of health, as much it is as...religion. If you believe in no pre-marital sex, don't do it. I personally think, that if YOU are waiting for the right man... after marriage would be best. And again, it's how you and your family members feel about this as well.
195616
no one should put a time limit or expect anything in any certain amount of time. it will happen when you are both comfortable with one another. dont try to rush it, four weeks is not a long time. if you want to charish that moment then wait. building momentum and imagination is so sexy. i think it means more to wait and build on something more than sex. wait cause you already know it will be worth it.
139571
Yes, you should wait until you are married.
4578
you should wait until you are married if that is what you want. chances are if a guy has sex with you now he probably might only want sex. If a guy really loves you and repects you he will also wait until you are married.
562854
Wait until you are ready.  Don't be pressured into it.  Tell him you're not ready, if he really cares about you he'll be happy to wait until you are ready. If he carries on pressuring you he doesn't really care and only wants sex, and you're worth so much more than that.
403450
Only you know if you are really ready, and the fact that you are asking this question leads me to believe that you aren't. Sex can be wondeful, but if you have to guess if he is going to stick around, makes me think that perhaps you are not ready for the emotional consequences that could result in this encounter. If he really wants to be with you he will wait. If he doesn't then you know your answer.
1147554
It's better to wait until you are married and there are several reasons.  Besides the obvious: 1) protected from STDs (can't get them unless you're sexually active - although bear in mind if you engage in oral or anal you still may get one). 2) can't get pregnant without sex or IVF.\n\nThe reason I am choosing to wait is not just because of my moral convictions, but also because I only want to share this part of me with one person.  I don't see the need to let everyone in on my goods.  \n\nI see marriage as a lifetime commitment... a relationship is SOOO much more than just sex.  You'll spend most of your time running errands.  Marry the one you can't live without - your best friend.\n\nAnd remember when you say your vows... you essentially are saying, "I do you, you do me, and we don't do anybody else" (quote from Lakita Garth).\n\n'Cause really that's all you need... \n\nBesides, God's math... \n\nYou have two ears and one mouth - you should listen twice as much as you talk.\n\nMale, you have one member.\nAnd if you're female - you have one hole.\nYou do the math.
747877
Perhaps you two should wait a tad longer until you are fully educated on sexual activity.
97644
I am 24, and a virgin.  I told my bf early on in the relationship.  I think the longer you wait to tell him, the harder it will be.  If you are waiting to have sex, it's definitly important to tell him.  He will know not to pressure you.  If you just haven't had sex yet and are willing, tell him that too.  Either way, it is best to just tell him.  It can be scary, but if he's a great guy, he won't care.
1035492
it might but if he is forcing u than u need to break with him cause i believe in marriage before sex.\nThats great that you want to wait!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!\nGOD bless you.