How do you get over the fear of saying how you really about a girl to her face?
448108
You def. only have an idea of this girl..like that other person posted...def. meet her and talk to her alot more in person...its a whole other character face to face....you'll have to suck that up and get comfortable in person..otherwise..you have no relationship...
475504
Well if she already knows just go up to her, in a real confident way and say hey how are you ?  just start a conversation about something iteresting and just say after a while lets go out, lets go see a movie or something yeah ??  She will say yes hopefully, if she doesnt then sorry shes not into you.  So either she does or she doesn't.  And that is not attractive either, not having good self esteem, why would you even say that you dont think you are good enough for her ??  Be confident, not self loathing but confident that is very attractive in a man.  So dont even think that you are not good enough for someone.\nGood Luck =)
489671
Honestly I am a female and i will give u advice. The thing tthat u should do is relax, take a deep breath and think over.Just by looking her u feel good but also u have words that wont come out the right way. when u see her face again u should stop her and get to know her first. find out what she likes to do and you'll find your way in, meaning your time will come so u can express your feeling or any special thing u feek for her. just give it a try but one thing never rush a female.take nice and slow and easy. if u need advice talk to me i will help u cuz i am a girl that been through experience like that and i didnt know what to do until i found my way. try!!
522799
Open your mouth and let the words flow.\nTry this, pretend you are on a planet that does not differentiate between beautiful and not beautiful. Start talking.\nNever assume that because a girl is pretty she won't talk.\nIf you act like a leach, then you'll have no luck with any girl, no matter what she looks like.Be a gentleman.
62778
FORGET ABOUT TRYING IMPRESS THE PERSON YOU ARE TALKING TO. THINK FOR A MOMMENT ABOUT THE TOPIC OF THE CONVERSATION. THIS JUST TAKES A SECOND. NEXT BE HONEST TO YOUR SELF AND THE PERSON YOU ARE TALKING TO. SOMETIMES BEING TRUTHFUL CAN HURT SO TRY AND FEEL HOW THE OTHER PERSONS HEART MAY FEEL. NEXT DON'T PRETEND TO LIKE THE PERSON IF YOU DON'T.REMEMBER HONESTY IS GOOD.JUST TAKE YOUR TIME AND BE GENUINE.I KNOW THIS SOUNDS MUSHY BUT I'M JUST LEARNING MYSELF.
742282
just go up to her and say hey i think you're cool and i would like to get to know you better would you like to go out some time.\nthe worst she can do is say no and then at least you will know how she feels and you will be able to get over it.\n\nor if that doesn't work for you, then you can invite her out in a group situation that will take some of the preassure off of you.\ngood luck
571826
Come up with a REASON to talk to her. Maybe in a coffeeshop she's reading a book you liked. Maybe in a bar, she's really enjoying the music, and the band members are friends of yours. Maybe she's drinking a weird drink you also enjoy. Starting an actual conversation will always win you more points than just telling her she's beautiful. Either she's heard it a billion times already, or she'll think you're lying for some hurtful purpose. Possibly both. Oh, and whatever you do, this is seriously a problem- don't let the first words out of your mouth be "Hey lady- got kids?"
713646
You should not ignore her. Express your feelings to her and see what sort of a feedback you get. It will either be positive or negative, and if you prepare yourself for both eventualities, then there is nothing to be afraid of. By ignoring her, you are unconsciously showing that you are afraid of the consequences of expressing your feelings. Regards!
46339
FIRST OF ALL, DRESS NICE WITH CLEAN CLOTHS. KEEP HAIR CLEAN AND TEETH BRUSHED. LAST AND MOST IMPORTANT. ATTITUDE. IF YOUR OUT GOING CONFIDENT AND NICE YOU WILL CATCH THEY EYE OF THE OPPISITE SEX.  I USE TO BE REALLY SHY AND DIDNT KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO GIRLS AND HAD FEW GIRLFRIENDS. THEN ONE DAY I GOT FED UP AND DISNT CARE IF I LOOKED LIKE A JERK ANYMORE AND I STARTED TREATING GIRLS JUST LIKE I WOULD TREAT MY NORMAL GUY FRIENDS AND BAMM. NEXT THING I KNEW I NEVER HAD GIRL PROBLEMS AGAIN. SO CONFIDENCE HAS TO BE THE MAIN THING. DONT BE AFRAID TO WALK BY A GIRL YOU LIKE AND SAY "HEY I LIKE THAT SHIRT IT LOOKS COOL" THEN WALK AWAY IT JUST MIGHT SPARK UP A CONVERSATION BETWEEN THE TWO OF YOU
1172808
never fear,your answer is here.The answer you need is simple,It will not make you look bad,It will not hurt her and she will never have to know that you could ever be so sorry that you would stoop that low as to try to lie to her or try to get her to see ot think something that is actually false.All you have to do is know her.Know what she likes,where she hangs out at and what she likes to eat,wear,music she likes,etc.....Find little ways by using what you know about her to show her that you care.become a true friend to her and talk to her about things she likes,show interest in things that she likes but never let her know that you knw that she was interested in this.eventually she will realize and see that you can be a pretty nice person and you will eventually do something that really catches her heart.You just have to let her see for herself,Hey I would really like to be with him...
713211
Just be yourself and let her get to know who you really are. After a while you won't be so nervous or shy and you'll know what to say. DO NOT be fake, then she'll think she knows you and eventually as you get more comfortable, the real you will come out, and she'll think you're a liar.
161351
Hi.\n\nHere is the answer to your first problem (the nervous thing): For 30 days walk on the street and say HI to at least 6 girls every day. Just walk, and when some girl is going to you from a different direction, just say HI to her and walk along. Don't stop!! Just walk and say HI. You can even smile and say HI later. This will help you against your nervouse.\n\nBefore you do this, you must remember that you don't care what will she do when you say HI to her and move along.\n\nI see, you are at your start on the dating game. Go to the link that I put under the Source, and by the book!! Everything is there for you. I have that book too, and I am read it, and now I do this HI practice. It really helps!!\n\nGood luck. :)
229885
It really is not all that hard. Go up to her and try talking to her unless you already do. Then when you get to talk to her and know her better you might be ready to take the next step to writting her a not or in your case have a friend that you trust go up to her and ask her what she thinks of you and if it is an okay answer your friend would then say well that is a relief because he really likes you and was woundering if you would go out with him
140079
don't be afraid of telling her your feelings. Don't worrie she will get surprised only!!!
70254
I'll probably tell you things you've already heard but here it goes: 1~Be Open and BE YOURSELF- Approach her with a smile to let her know that you are interested and MAKE EYE CONTACT! dont stare! 2~Be Spontaneous- meaning Don't think too hard about what you're going to say - just really LISTEN to what the other person is saying and let yourself respond naturally. 3~Ask Questions - Show you are interested in what the girl is saying by asking for more details.EX what movie/food they like. 4~ Use Innocent Touch - When talking to a girl, lightly touch her arm when you're making a point or laughing at something she has said. Don't overdo it, just a few times in a conversation is enough to send the message that you like her. 5~Be Confident -People are drawn to other people who have confidence. 6~Whispering- thats a good one COMING FROM A GIRLS PERSPECTIVE! If you don't know what to say, compliment her, make her feel good about herself. A few other things you can try is look at her up and down to let her know that you are pleased with what you are looking at. When you are talking with your friends glance at her and smile. Good Luck Guys!
83645
be yourself dont try and use a line on her. it doesnt work. be honest dont be fake. if she doesnt like you for who you are she doesnt deserve you
93352
Say how you really feel bout her.  You could save a huge embarassment if you suspect she likes you to.  You can never tell if you dont try.  Dont assume thouhg that she likes you back.  So next time you see her, tell her that "you look even more beautiful than i could have imagine".  Thrust me that one always works....GOOD LUCK!!!