Do you think it is right that my ex-friend at school is making me move to a diffrent lunch table.?
449897
First of all, how can she MAKE you move? Second, if she's you "ex"-friend, why would you want to sit at the same table anyway. Third, have you tried talking to said ex-friend. I highly doubt this seeing as how you have posted this question on yahoo answers and good communication usually solves problems like this.
427422
Of course your child should come first! You cannot always let a child make the decisions eg: should we have biscuits or ham for dinner?? :)\n\nIn a case where bullying, harrassment etc is involved the childs basic right to be treated fairly is paramount. Ideally, I fell it should be the child carrying out the bullying who should have to go through the upset of the move but if there is no other option then I back your opinion on moving. \n\nIt is hard enough for a child to put up with bullying in school but if he feels that his pleas for help to his parents are falling on deaf ears it will really drive him to the edge. I would recommend that you all sit down and try to explain the situation to the father. You should also have a serious chat with your child. If he is going to the extremes of trying to slit his wrists you really need to act fast.\n\nMight I suggest also bringing this to the principal of the school in question. Surely they should be able to do something more. Explain the devistating resluts that the torture is having on your boy and get them to act. If needs be threaten them with legal action if you dont see them making an effort to stamp out this behaviour.\n\nGive your boy a cuddle from me. I was bullied when I was at school and sometimes it can be very hard to get over.
519581
yes, i think you should make the first move. why let something get away when he was your first. if you don't then why be mad your the one standing back letting her do this. best friends are few and far between and if she'll do this to you then what else will she do. so tell yourself the truth she is not your bestfriend.friends stand beside each other not behind each other.
490812
You probably need to be speaking to your lawyer about this. He can guide you in your options and how best you can help your child. You child shouldn't be used as a meal ticket by your ex. That's just wrong.
1129131
Ask your dad if you can invite them. You dont have to have them eat with you. and if you want to invite your friends go ahead! if they want to invite someone with them tell them i just want you not them. and tell them that i ONLY invited you. so if they bring unwanted guqest kick them OUT!!
658200
It is NOT OK- to have anyone on this earth-tell you what to do..you are not a baby! Don't ever settle for anyone who treats you like something they wipe their feet on. If you do it now, you'll always do it..get your strength back, leave this chick alone..she is NOT your friend (please stop using that word for her)..and make some new friends at school.\n\nWipe the tears away....\n\nI wish you all the best! :)
1144869
It's too bad she's not treating you very well lately, and might not be honest. I don't know if you should write her off totally yet, but definitely try to make new friends in your high school. You wouldn't want to rely too much on someone who isn't reliable.
368041
Believe her for the time being. If she says nothing is between them, nothing is between them BUT be aware because something is BOUND to happen because she is not telling you everything. While she's sneaking and lying to you, YOU have a decision to make. She's either your friend or she isn't. This has nothing to do with your "ex" because he is your ex, this is a friend who crossed the line and she must be dealt with. I'm not saying that you have to fight with her but you have to realize, this might be the first time and it might not be the last time she does this. BUT please before you react, give her the benefit of the doubt, let her decide which is more important, her friendship to you or some guy.
874930
Don't mean to be rude but this isn't Friends Re-United. You could try there. Start a section on your school and see who turns up.
253215
I think your instinct is totally on. Let sleeping dogs lie. Now, how do we stop the propaganda that happened years ago? You have to prove to these people and show them the real you. Your peers must be part elephant, for them to remember and hang on to, 2 year old gossip! Are you sure that someone isn't keeping the gossip alive by some chance? That may be your problem. Any how, talk is cheap. Action speak louder than words. When you go to school Monday, you raise your head high, brush your pearly whites and smile. Make eye contact and start saying hi. If the chance presents itself, do favors or small tasks that could help them out. Waiting this long to try to correct a problem has put you in a bad position. But not a permanent position. Following this simple guide line, you will be alright. As far as your friend, the next time something like this happens, talk to her right away. It sounds like to me, she could be jealous of you, and want you to be her friend alone. But you can change that too. Just include her in with the things you and your new friends will be doing. Now its all left up to you, to take charge and end this once and for all. You go Girrrl.........!
783330
I personally think you have made a smart move and are taking responsibility for what is yours. I would NOT stay with or talk with the ex girlfriend. (why mess up what you are trying to recreate). I can understand why you were made at your wife, but she is your wife and more importantly the daughter is yours.
152524
I think you should fess up.  Someone else should not take the heat for something you did.  It's admirable that your friend took the heat for you, but you will feel better about yourself for telling the truth and your teacher will respect you for having the courage to tell the truth.
435390
I think if at all possible you might have to get moved to a different dorm room. It sounds like you are living with a child personality. Unless his friendship means a lot to you, and unless you are willing to exhibit more patience and explain that you are on a budget and can't share food anymore and then stick to your guns, it sounds like it's time to move.
830812
Well, you kind of confirmed his suspicion that you wouldn't take it well with your sarcastic email, didn't you?  Perhaps they found out that they both really wanted to go to the same place, it was cheaper to go together and since 1.you'd been split up for over 6 months and 2. he wasn't your best friend anyway, there really was nothing morally wrong in what they were doing.  You could look at it as a compliment that they thought enough of your feelings not to want to hurt you and that's why they didn't tell you.  Yes, it would have been a courtesy to let you know, but really, you don't have any right to interfere in the lives of two people you don't have close relationships with.
974808
Your old friend is probably feeling betrayed by you.  She thought that she was doing a good thing by being nice to the 'new girl' and in turn has lost her best friend.  \n\nyou probably need to make it known that she still means as much to you as before and that you dont want another person to come between you.  Good luck and let me know what happens
482150
Well if i where u i would sit w/new ppl @ lunch like ur old friends that were there 4 u in middle school try talking 2 new ppl so they can c-ur not all bad i was once a cheerleader well i still am i have cheering friends & i also am friends w/ppl that aren't on any sports i stop dating like the hot guys i date guys who like me 4 who i am not 4 wut i am doing @ school now i really have a best friend who i can tell all my secerts 2 & she won't tell no1!
1006611
Isn't it surprising how easily one gets into a 'situation' without really meaning to? It´s time to move on, you'll survive. Stop seeing the 'ex-best friend' and maybe you two will get together again in the future, much wiser for the experience.