Is it alright for a person to have a relationship with a married man who has no relationship with his wife.  T
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The guy is just feeding you a line. Most of the time there is no problem the guy is just trying to see if he would still be wanted. Or is nearing an age where he thinks he is old. Or the wife is going through a difficult pregnancy or he is just an a**.\nIf he is married he has nothing to offer just spare moments every now and then. He is just going to use you. You are wasting your time with that loser find a guy who will not have to sneak around with you, who will be proud to show you off who will respect you enough to introduce you to his relatives. Run as fast as you can from that loser let someone else become a fool. If he does not love her let them divorce then maybe think about it, just be assured that he will also fall out of love with you while he is married and feed the same story to another unsuspecting female. You will never be able to trust him, because once a cheater always a cheater.
671507
Yes a married woman can still be in love with her husband even though he has not been faithful. My husband has done it. And yes right now we do not live together but everyday that he is gone the more I miss him and the more I relize just how much I truely love him. That's why they add in the for better or worse in the vows...
737778
Absolutely.  When you don't really know someone, there is nothing about them that can bother you.  When you really get to know someone, well, being that they are human and therefore imperfect, they will start to annoy you.  Living with someone is a sure way to breed contempt.  The trick in a marriage, is to keep on loving that person anyway.
981071
I honestly believe that it is.  Even if your ex-husband says "go ahead...i'm okay with it"...trust me...he's NOT okay with it.  How would it make you feel if your ex-husband started dating YOUR best friend??  Always think about how you would feel if these things were being done to you.....  On another note, after a divorce or a break up, find yourself, and then find a FRESH relationship, one thats not going to continue to remind you of the one you just had.
585666
I see nothing wrong with that. I think my best friend and I have something...but we don't act on it, but if we were to i think it might be one of the best relationships ever...cause we were friends first..and I believe that you should be friends first and continue to be friends when you have a relationship with someone.
357128
Well, first of all don't start any relationship with a married man... (think of a family that you are about to ruin and ask yourself "If I get married, would I want my family to be destroyed by my husband's cheating?" If your answer is no then you'll know how this man's wife would feel if you will agree to be his other woman... second of all, find a single man who will love and accept you for what you are. Afterall, you can fall in love without having to ruin anybody else's life
277706
I like it, but my wife doesn't.  It is just one of those things that some people like and some don't.  The good news is that it isn't one of those things that you should make or break your relationship over.
1087185
No its not wrong... unless you have a wife who's telling ya its wrong.... lol
401392
no...a marriage with a relationship is loving not just living together..
310610
It really depends on the couple.  As long as both partners are up to it and the other person is open and everyone is able to communicate then there shouldn't be a problem.  Everyone needs to be able to respect the feelings of the other people involved!
338946
I think that there is not a problem with her going as long as you are comfortable with it. I think that you have a right to be uncomfortable particularly if they were together for a long time. I think that she should try to include you in some way. I can understand that she feels that you don't trust her but you are her husband so you should be included if not the first time but at least sometime like a double date or something.
295098
Married or not if you have a commitment with someone you should not cheat. You should ask yourself if you are wanting to cheat on someone, why not just leave that person and let them move on to someone who cares for them. I consider cheating when you do anything intimately with another person other than your significant other. That could be holding hands, intercourse, kissing, and even sharing and in depth meaningful conversation. It is wrong because you are taking something sacred from your partner. People, I think cheat because they need some kinda of reassurance that they can attract someone other than they're partner. This is caused by low self esteem. If you are contemplating this don't hurt your partner for your own self gratification. ITS WRONG
1037625
a true relationship is the one i have with my wife.\n\n\n\n\noh sorry.
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Not until they have both completed counseling.\n\n\nDivorce doesn't get to the core of the issues - it only provides a band-aid to cover them up.  And if they aren't dealt with, the same thing can happen in the next relationship.\n\nBest to talk it out with the wife until a viable conclusion can be reached.
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No, it's certainly NOT okay. I think it is inappropriate for your wife to be spending a great deal of time with a male friend. If they have any reason to be discussing things quietly together (as you explained), they should do it in your presence or include you in the conversations. I think you should trust your gut instinct on this - you know it's wrong for her to be involved with this guy, but you probably hate to stir things up with your wife by complaining. Is there anyway you could learn to like him, accept him as a friend? If not, then you need to tell your wife how you feel. \n\nAs Princess Diana mentioned once...a marriage becomes a bit crowded with 3 people in it. It's meant for two. (who have become one...)
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I would say it depends on if the man is a virgin himself, if so I think it is ok, because then the couple would be sharing the same morals. But if the man is not a virgin then I think it is wrong for him to want someting from the woman that he himself could not or would not do, hypocritical to me. Also, if you fall in love with someone who happens to have had sex already then I think it would be dumb not to marry her solely for this reason, it's not like it's something she can take back, and should not be denied love by you because of something that happened in her past.
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It is not a sin, actually it is perfectly fine and has been done by many people.  Your relationship to her is exactly the same as your brother to your brother's wife.