i have a crush on someone but my friend has a crush on this person too.so what should i do.?
448461
Never fight over him but if he likes you more than so goodbye friend if she cannot handle it because if the tables where turned this would be what would happen to you if you did not like it. Through life many thing like this may come up so if she is your friend she will understand if he likes you more. And if he likes her more the same goes for you.
1068354
Better not ask him out together since both your friend and you like the same guy. I got a friend in the same situation. Later he got together with one of the gals and the 3 of them are like really awkward! Think of your friendship!
40406
You need to sit your friend down and tell her how much you care about your friendship with her. Then after that tell her that you like him alot and you like to talk on the phone with him personaly. And if she cant understand that then you two need to start haging out with other friends. Tell her how you feel about it. Good Luck.
511888
well good,, this tells u tht u really don like the guy u like now,,,,go n try out the guy u start liking now whom u hav crush now,,,maybe hes the one...
112562
you just kow. but the other person has to feel the same way! so ask them, or tell them how you feel
449791
Sounds like they are both playing you.  She is NOT a friend if she could do this to you.  Even if she doesn't have a lot going for her, it's just an unwritten rule that you don't go after people that you know your friend likes!
373006
I don't feel there is anything really to be done.  The only thing I would be concerned about is the fact that if these two men are your best friends and you share everything together, then why didn't tell you in the first place instead of you finding out like you did.  \nI can understand the frustration and surprise at finding them in that situation.  As for the crush, only thing to do there is to get over it.  There isn't a chance there.  I would talk to them.  Be honest.  Why didn't they tell you?  Is there a trust issue that you were not aware of that they couldn't tell you up front?  That sort of thing.  I think it's the best advice I can give.  I hope it helps you out.
955136
Depending on how long him and his ex have been going together depends on how much time you need to wait until you let your crush on him progress.  Just take you time and try and be there for him as a friend.
1014542
I understand your problem, my best friend is completly straight and I am bi, when i say he is straight he is. But like you I have  a crush on him and still do,we have and still do go place with each other but I try not to let my self get to close to him. Just be there for her when she needs you but don't cross the line again unless she cross first.
752906
Personally, I don't think it's right for your friend to be looking for ways to get closer to that guy when she already has a boyfriend. \n\nI think perhaps you could wait for sometime to observe if your crush likes you? You can tell him your feelings and see if he feels the same way. But I don't think it is entirely right to keep ur friend in the dark too. You should tell her how you feel about him soon. Yeap. If she is really your friend she will understand that you have a right to crush him too :)\n\ngood luck!
235683
If she likes you more then he other bf then she should dump him, and your not a girl stealer, me and my friend both liked the same guy and she asked him out like three times and he said no all three times then I did and he said yes. thats just who he picked you can't control who she likes, just who you do, go with who you like if you get with someone you don't like then your keeping your self unavilabe to people who do.
130713
Well it depends, does your friend know you have a crush on that guy? If she does, that's fucked up what she's doing. Well if she doesn't know then tell her and tell her that you don't appreciate her flirting with him. Also ask her if she likes him. If she does, don't ever let a guy come in between you and your friend,cuz friendship is more valuable than a guy, I can guarantee you that!!!\n\nGood Luck
396009
Just wait it out and do what feels right. Wait for a little bit until you know them both better, and take it from there. Don't think that you need to make a decision right this very second. Give it a bit of time.
340739
hmm i dunno if this is possible but why dont you both invite them somewhere, cinema whatever as friends, bowling i dunno. See which one of you gets on naturally with him more. you never know there may be a speical bond between a certain two. talk to her afterwards about it and tell her how you feel but say you dont wanna hurt her. at the end of the day, its kinda up to him, it may just wanna be friends with you both!
553672
well, how close are you and your friend? if that was me in this situation, i would talk to your friend first. you wouldnt want weird feelings between you and her! make sure she is ok with you two dating eventhough she likes him too! if she isnt ok with it, wait it out until she is ok with the fact that you like him and want to date him! well another question is, do you like him? if you do talk to her..it will help!
900190
this has happened to me before also. if you didnt say anything, find some way to tell your friend that you did, if you did say something, be honest and let her know you are sorry for saying something about her. try to text, IM, email, or get someone else to talk to her in person. im not sure what to do about the crush you have on him, but if he flirts with everyone, than i would forget about him. he is probably a player. my suggestion is find someone else, and say the same to your friends.
190513
talk to your friend.  If she knew that you liked him before she did it, she either is playing a game with you or really does not respect you.  Either way, you cannot trust her and therefore she is not really your friend.  If she did not know, let it go and in the future tell her when you like someone.