If a gay guy flirts with me and I'm not cool with it what should I do?
437241
Just tell him "I don't swing that way" and hope he gets the messasge. If he persists, be firm, tell him he's barking up the wrong tree. If he keeps on, punch him. If women could beat up men who do this to them, they would be punching out men all the time. It's the same thing, an unwanted advance.
640813
Pick a gay guy then you know he doesn't want to date you. Or someone who has specifically said that they don't find you attractive, though they could be lying.
130713
Well it depends, does your friend know you have a crush on that guy? If she does, that's fucked up what she's doing. Well if she doesn't know then tell her and tell her that you don't appreciate her flirting with him. Also ask her if she likes him. If she does, don't ever let a guy come in between you and your friend,cuz friendship is more valuable than a guy, I can guarantee you that!!!\n\nGood Luck
955383
Hmm... I think it really depends on what kind of guy did it. If it's a popular guy, maybe he is flirting with you? If you don't think so, comfront him directly or just give him a cold stare. \n\nIf it's a more unpopular guy, he could also be flirting. Also bring it up directly, but you could do it publicly and, if he is relitively unpopular, most people will be on your side. Hopefully, it will stop. I hope that helps.\n\n~MMT~\n\nP.S- Good luck finding the guy
972589
You should try everything once.  You might like it.  And you're friend lost his self respect because he's obviously not comfortable with his sexuality.  Get over it, it won't make you gay.
577584
well, ... since you are a guy and you are talking about a guy, unless you know that he is gay, that can be VERY touchy... I would be careful.  Normally I would say go for it babe, but be careful.
31163
Well tell them or him that if he wants you to respect them for being  gay, they should respect you fro being straight, and that they know that your not gay or intrested in them in the way they want u 2 b
568913
It depends on what your goal is.  Are you trying to turn the guy that's flirting with you against you and make him think your the biggest idiotic loser of all time.  If the answer is Yes, then you should flirt with the other guy to make him jealous......Hopefully, you will have grown up by the time you read this.
647543
no its not wierd. i have a friend like that. theres no harm in some meaningless flirting. as long as your not leading him on. make sure he knows that you dont like him like that and if you do like him like that then just keep doing what your doing.
345391
Well if your not attracted to him, dance with him, dont flirt with him and if by any chance he flirst with you tell him in a nice way your not into him in that form.
932113
Well, first you need to make sure you're not advancing on someone who is against gays.  If you get the vibe that he'll crack you in the head for standing too close ... I would move along.\n\nBut, if you've known this person for a while and feel that you both have a connection, then I would ask him to hang-out sometime.  Maybe grab some pizza or hang out at the mall.   Go back to your place and "study" or whatever.  Find out who he is and if he is interested in you as a friend or something more.
384135
That would depend upon whether this normal guy was gay or straight.\n\nHe may want you to beat him, but you'll have to negotiate that with him.  Slap him?  You sound like quite the man's man.  Ignore him? That's real polite.\n\nWhat would a straight guy do if a woman he wasn't interested in approached him?  Would you beat, slap or ignore her?\n\nThe best thing to do would be either take him up on the offer if you were interested, or say "No thanks, not my thing, but thanks for the compliment".
976060
1st of all don't worry about the first answer...he hates everything. Why not just ask him out to a gay place for a fun time and tell him that you are not coming onto him...The truth usually works.
569916
Tell us your gay. That one is painless. \n\nAlso, most women can take the "I'm just not into you". \n\nI would rather know that a guy just isn't into me than for him to give me a whole bunch of crap like "It's not you it's me"\n\nNOW if you want to through in diamonds and things (axe the fur......fur is wrong) then go right ahead. Nothing says closure like a pricey shinny thing. :)
563104
Deal with it. \n\nAccept it, and say that you are not gay(unless you are...).\nTell him to accept you as a hetero.
348985
it's time to move on.if your freinds let him flirt with them they aren't your real freinds anyway. i think you know the answer just by asking. good luck!!!
755873
Maybe he is being REALLY nice.LOL! I wouldn't say anything unless he like says something gayish. like want to go out or wut eva. Then definitely say something, but if he just said that one thing, then i wouldn't worry about it. but that is my opinion. If you feel like it is really bugging you, then say some thing. Good Luck