why is everybody telling that i am tall and short,thin and fat ?? tell me why ????????????????????????????????
444573
b'coz they are tall or short,thin or fat!
581044
You sound just like my daughter. Hon, you're not fat. At least not unless you're only 4' tall
161124
if you feel good about the way you look then to hell with "everybody"  if you think you really are thin...have a snack!  good luck
472852
I have a question??\n\nWhy are you so Fat
740955
just trust urself and dont care what others say about u \ni think u r not fat
107228
Ok so lets be realistic here NOONE is perfect and most people find it very difficult to admit when they are wrong. I had a friend tell me something once that I wont easily forget, he said "everyone has a weakness and you can use that for your benefit". After that I saw things differently. Not that Im taking advantage of them but knowing they are human too and being able to look for and find it helped my esteem cause suddenly we were all on the same playing field. now I dont need that to know im a good person and i dont take others as personally anymore either.\n\nThe best part was poking a little fun at my "perfectly skinny friend" who always had a better than me attitude about weight (not that im fat) But i realized she is quite flat chested and it does bother her a bit and that cut her down to size. we are better friends now than ever.\n\nI just thought of something else. If some one says something that bothers you sometimes it helps to repeat it back to them in thier own words. "so your saying....." this creates a little 'yes' in thier mind and builds rapport between you. It also lets him hear himself and think about what he has said.
510869
Its all about how society see you. Unfourtunally they have the Misconception that fat people are lazy and smelly and sloppy. What you need to do is ignore all the negitive energy that they put out and keep believing that you are a great person. Who cares what others think about you. Anyone that makes fun of someone has insecurities about themselves.  Obvisiouly your not what people claim you are or else you wouldnt have found a wonderful man to marry you??!! Right!!
1186770
I'm not a fat girl, and I am.. pretty skinny... and this is just something i want you to know, DON'T EVER listen to what others have to say about how YOU look. You are your own person.I say you don't get fat even if they want you too. If they want you to.. they must really not be someone who really cares for you. Being skinny is a gift to some people and a curse for others. But i think that everything anyone has, is a gift. Don't listen to negative comments. Do what's... right^-^
349137
No you are not fat, it's just that some people when they are smaller have more wait, but as soon as you begin to grow older and taller then your weight and height will even it. It's not that your fat , it's just that you have matured at an early stage but soon you will be as small as your friends as long as you continue to exercise and eat properly.
399308
Wow.. in the last question, you said you were 70 lbs... now you're more than 320?? What's your problem? Seems like you just want attention to me...
965117
Hang around really short people?  Don't worry about it. It's something you can't change so accept it. Besides, if you are tall, everybody asks to to "reach that for me please".
238736
no i am already way too fat!!!!!!! even tho my friends say i'm not but i don't know if they are lying or not.\n\nbtw.... y do u like fat girls?????
95078
Well I am larger than average and I have a very good man who also is larger than average...\nBut I wouldn't say we are exactly fat...\nJust a little overweight...\nHe loves my cooking...LOL...\nHe picked me and I was already overweight...
307156
I felt a little guilty reading this. You are right. We say that we just want a good man, but we look at the abs too. I am short and have a lot of boobs and junk in the trunk, but no junk anywhere else, so thank you for giving me and other women like me respect. I am not fat (fab abs.. gotta brag a little work hard at them) but educated, but I do see your point. (@blonde coley) For all the trash that you just talked, honey you better be a perfect dime peice. To talk that much trash, you need to make at least 100,000 a year, have a PhD. and be the most desireable thing that ever walked the earth. My guess is that you probally are not. I wonder how many heads that you turn at the beach..What makes me sick is when an inadequate person tries to find fault in others. You have to be lacking to be so angry. Before you say that I must be heavy, no baby, I have DD with a 25" waist and booty, but I am confident enough in myself to not have to put someone down to feel better about myself. I have a feeling that you are the skinny, pale guy at the beach that have his shorts pulled up really high in the front, with the swim flippers on.(or the girl that looks like the skinny pale guy)
552008
Hey, don't worry about what other people think! Your weight is your issue to deal with, not theirs! And I don't think most people will judge you by your weight anyways..besides, there are plenty of other people there too busy worrying about themselves! Just get the courage to get out there, and you'll see that it doesn't matter! Have fun..and good luck!
553312
I am weak that doesnt mean im anorexic since im not pencil thin neither fat so it just depends maybe next time eat alot of stuff in front of them so the rumor/gossip goes away;)
1080050
You're only fat if you think you're fat.  If you're happey the way you are now then don't do anything about it.  People should just live there lives happy and not cair what other people think about them.\n\nIf you don't like that answer go see a doctor and ask him what he thinks.