my grandma died 4 years ago i still dream about her and miss her a lot what do i do????
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My advice to people that dream about passed on loved ones is to KEEP ON DREAMING....This is the way people on the other side sometimes communicate with us.... Keep a dream journal and you can get advice from your grandma....
813261
Do not feel guilty b/c you still need to grieve.  No one can you how to react to this situation, you need to do what feels right to you.  Own your grief, anger, and sadness.  You will learn to celebrate her life, but right now you are overwhelmed with her death.  Do try to celebrate her memory but also be respectful to your feelings.  Try a tradition that you and your grandmother did together.  Go visit her grave and talk with her. Pray that she will find happiness in her death and always remember she is by your side.
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spend as much time with him as you can before he passes, you will appreciate that later....after grief however you please and get on with you life instead of dwelling on his death...more than likely it is what he would want and im sure he'd be proud of you
867456
come on..your mom is sad and she needs your help. its not that she is making you guys guilty, its that SHE is feeling guilty. she is feeling that she didnot spend  much time with your grandpa and doesnot want the same to happen to you guys. tell her that it is not her fault that he passed away and that he always loved her, no matter what. assure her that she was a good daughter and where ever he is, he is happy with her.your mom needs you the most now. tell her that you guys will have family quality time every weekends and do something fun. maybe this will make her feel less guilty and less scared.
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i really miss my grandma and grandpa they passed away.
1001767
I just lost mine 2 days ago and I hadn't seen her in 11 yrs. I had left my home country and have not gone back since then. Also I am not able to leave right now to attend the funeral, it is tearing me up so much.  I feel your pain and understand where you are in this.  As hard as it may seem we simply have to think of the good times in memory and how much joy she brought into our lives.  Life is never the same when your mother passes away, however you must go on.  Maybe you can do something together with family that will keep her memory alive.
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You miss your friend.  Thinking of her, remembering things from the past keeps her alive in your heart and mind.  \n\nA lot of people go through a long life, and when they are gone, they leave nothing in anyones heart.  She left you with memories, which will live on with you forever.\n\nEventually the sadness  will ease, sorry for your loss.
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you don't say how old you are now, not that it matters.  However, I would suggest additional counseling for it seems to me that you still have unresolved grief.\n\nI am deeply sorry for your tremendous loss and hope that one day while you may never be able to forget, you can at least find peace.
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You should feel the way you feel, and not how anyone else tells you to feel.  That's the only possible answer. If you worry about a lack of feeling upon this persons death, you must understand the psychological shock of such an incident.  It takes time to come to grips with it. If you were truly close to this person, the grief and pain WILL come-believe me.  The most important thing is not to repress it.  You must let it come, you must grieve, and you must deal with it.  Don't ignore it, or bottle it up.  Let yourself feel it.  To ignore it is to harm yourself, and disrespect the memory of your lost one. God bless, and my condolences.
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FIRST, I WANT TO SAY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS, TO LOSE SOMEONE IN SUCH A TRAGIC WAY AS URSELF, IT IS EXTREMEMLY DIFFICULT FOR ALL THOSE CLOSE TO UR BROTHER\ni feel that it could be for 2 reasons...\n(1) youre having a very difficult time with his death , as anyone would, and it may help to talk to a family member or close friend about ur brother and see if that stops the dream, or...\n(2) which i feel more stronger about...i know most people dont believe this stuff, but your brother may be trying to tell you something. my guess is if someone in the family, close to you ...or you yourself, may not be feeling well,  he may be telling you  to get checked out by a dr. IVE HAD THIS EXPERIENCE...ive also lost someone close to my in a mva, and she gave me a "spiritual message" and i wound up being very ill..i am not a religous person, and i dont go to church on sunday, however i am very sprirital.
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because of the fact that you were so close to your Grandpa and you miss him...he was a big part of your life apparently...some one you could go to and talk about anything...grief knows no time limits...you will cry for him now and probably the rest of your life...its human nature...thats all
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try this...before you go to sleep light a black candle and let it burn while you tell the dark spirits to stay away from your dreams. Extinguish the candle before going to sleep. While you are laying in bed before falling asleep say outloud several times the name of the deceased person you wish to contact.(be reasonable..try to contact a loved one..not Elvis or James Dean..)Then they may come to you in your dreams. Your dreams is the easiest way for someone on the other side to contact you. It May take several tries...Keep an Open Mind. Blessed Be!
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As I am somebody who has the deceased coming to me from my dreams, I may be able to help. Our dreams are complex puzzles. Only you can determine what has been given from within your dream, whether it is YOU missing him, or him coming to you and asking for your help. Something wasn't right for him to take his life. Is the cause of his death known within the family?\nIn my experiences, none of the deceased ever spoke to me so maybe your papa was right with what he said. All the deceased that come to me I become, in the dream was them seeing through their eyes. All were troubled or something left undone. I haven't been able to help all those that came to me, I'm sure some were to make me aware of the gift I have,others were requiring help (not that I have been able to help all)\nOnly you know the answer to your question, take notes of what your dream says, what you see. If many dreams like a continuing story then I'd say there is something in it, and that maybe you're missing the vital clues given.\nTry not to make something out of nothing, wait for it to come to you then make your conclusions on the discoveries of your own dreams and messages within them
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hey sweetie i don't know if it is normal for you to bethinking about this . but i can tell you that not having my mother or grand parents living it is very hard . it does not matter how old you are . you all ways need and want your mom in your life . i miss mine very much and its been 15 years since she died .but i can all so tell you that God he knows whats best for all of us . and he is there for us to . so don't you worry about your mom or grandmother passing away and leaving you . God forbid that ever happened he would take care of you . and you know your so young and life really is short . so you go give your mom and grandmother a big hug and kiss tell them how much you love them . and everyday make them feel special to you . and i have tears in my eyes as i type this to . because its so rare to find such a sweet teenager with a big heart like you have . just live  life and try to not worry and be happy OK ?
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I lost my Mom too, so I know how your are feeling. Losing a mom is a really tough thing and it isnt something that you just snap out of. You need to give yourself a chance to grieve her death..\nSleeping alot could also be a sign of mild depression, talk to a therapist or some other qualified person if this doesnt let up.\n I am sorry for your loss...
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I'm so sorry to hear about your painful experience. Losing someone you love that much is so diffucult. My heart is going out to you.  \n\nI don't know when this happened, how recent it was, but there is always a mourning period where you need to let your emotions out. Sadly, you didn't have the time you wanted with him.  Your future plans are turned upside down. I know a little about that myself. So, I'm sorry for your pain. If it's recent, it's going to take a while to move past this, but you will move past it.  In time the pain will dull and you may try to love again. It's so hard to think that right now, but love can happen again for you.  \n\nRight now your life may seem pretty aweful, it's hard not to have dark thoughts when you are going through what you are going through.  But your life is important to many people, your friends, your family, and especially your late boyfriend.  He loved you and would only want the best for you. I'm sure he's looking down on you and loving you from heaven right now.  And if he knew what would happen to him, he'd want you to be happy for the rest of your life. \nYour long life.\n\nYou don't have the worst life ever, it's just the worst it's been for you as of yet, and probably the worst it will ever be. If you're having trouble coping with the pain, talk to someone- a professional grief counsler can help. They can help you express the different stages of mourning in a healthy environment, and help you keep focused on how to keep your own life on track.\n\nSorry sweetie, this is so rough for you. I'll pray for you tonight.
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Sounds all too familiar with me.  My grandmother, who basically raised me also and was also my friend and support system, passed away almost two years ago...and I still haven't let go.  I still find myself sitting and thinking and ending up in tears because I miss her so much.  It is very difficult, but you have to remind yourself that she is still with you everywhere you go, and no matter who you become.  She will always be with you because it was she who helped to shape you into who you are today...you'll never forget that.  How do you get over that?  You just deal with it day by day and it will get better.  You might also want to keep something near you that she'd given you, or something that reminds you of her...if you need to talk to her, hold it, and speak your mind.  I know it sounds stupid, but it works.  \n\nIf you do, however, feel that things are getting way out of hand, maybe you should consider therapy.  I probably should have!  :)  Just keep your head up and remember the good things...you'll be fine.  My condolences....