how can i find a man???
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I sympathize with you on this one. I grew up with a strictly Catholic mother. Everything was a sin, and my sisters and I were going to Hell for everything we did. Well, you have to develop your own beliefs and morals. I am not very religious anymore, I still attend church every now and then, but I am more spiritual than religious. \n\nI waited until I was 18 before I started dating, not because of my mother, but because I was just not ready. I was like you, I didn't know how to flirt or how to be in a relationship. To tell you the truth, I still don't. I lost my virginity to a guy that just used and abused me. Just follow your heart. 9 out of 10 times, when you feel something is morally wrong, you probably shouldn't do it anyway because there will not be a good outcome. I would suggest trying to socialize with people online or going out with friends. Go on a blind date.\n\nI am 23 now and I have been with a few men, most have been real a**holes and have left me brokenhearted. Just don't settle for any guy, find someone that will understand and appreciate your family and beliefs. Sex is more fun when you have an emotional connection with someone. It involves so much more than the physical act.
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Well if you ask me I would have to say you need  to find different friends. Stop looking for guys they will come to you and that man might be the right one.
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Head on over to http://www.craigslist.org and click on Milwaukee. You can take a look at what's going on under the personals section, and can find someone to hook up with. \n\nEnjoy!\n\n- Stuart
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Do a search of "people finders" on google. Lot's to choose from.
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Tell all your friends that you would like to find a good man to date. Every woman in the world knows at least a dozen good, single men that would "be perfect for you!" Of course, I'm exaggerating a bit, but the principle is "to let people know that you're available, should you get asked out." Tell your family(you know they want the best for you).Be observant when you go to the grocery store.....I'll bet you know at least one guy right now that really "trips your trigger"....find out if he's single. If so, then, start up a conversation,  about, preferably manly things, like, "my car sounds funny", or, "I have a cabinet door that sticks".......see where it goes from there! You MIGHT be surprised!! Good Luck...........there's a lot of decent, lonely men out there, just waiting on a nice lady like you.
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Instead of looking for a good guy, let him find you. Do this through volunteering for a local charity or a political campaign. This way you can find someone with similar interests and philosophies. You can also try the internet where you can chat until you feel comfortable enough for a face to face meeting. You can also only answer or ask what you are comfortable asking or answering. That is how I met my fiancee and I wasn't even looking for a relationship at the time.
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there are many descent guys out there, you just have to find them. Good Luck
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go to yahoo personals, there should be somebody there for you.
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Do a search for "people finders" on any search engine. There'll be hundreds to choose from.
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First get to know yourself and realize that you are a great catch for any man. The reason you do this first is, if you don't you will only find Mr. Wrong.\n\nAfter this step is completed it is time for the hunt. This might sound crazy, but it's the best way to find a good man. When you go hunting do not hunt for a boyfriend, but instead hunt for friends. Again same motto anybody would be lucky to be my friend. After you have some really good friends the rest will just happen. Whether it be with one of your new friends or one of thier friends.\n\nThere is actually other ways I can tell you, but my time is running short, so you can find other of my answers by looking at my answers to previous questions exactly like this one.
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Are you looking for a husband?
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Ok sounds silly but match.com.  i met my man and guess what he lived in my state, but in a different city but worked in the city where I live. Only 10 minutes away from me.  Really weird how things work. I have been in this area for 10 years and it took match.com for me to actually meet him and find out what a wonderful guy I have been missing. \nFind profiles that talk about a man's personality not about his physical appearance or sex preferences. \nOn the internet there are never enough ways to be careful. Always correspond first through the site, then if you are feeling comfortable either talk on the phone or meet in person but always in a public place.
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search to yahoo this: "yahoo dates" and than choose this: you're a man, looking for a ... age ... etc.
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Maybe you should try a dating site....www.mate1.com......Its free for ladies and you can find a guy in your area.
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just go to people finder.
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I was in the same situation not long ago.  I went out with friends or sometimes by myself to the local Lounge to listen to the band.  Men will usually buy you drinks and ask you to dance.  Don't try and look for someone, just go out to have fun.  Love will find you
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Try somewhere where the vast majority are men. A place that you can deal with.Or something you like to do.Get some guts and start talking to one your interested in.Your not likely to get yelled at or the cold sholder.