Do You think it is CHEATING, when a spouse or partner is caught "having sex" with some one else with a webcam?
449045
My personal opinion, is that if you are doing something of a sexual nature with someone who is NOT your partner, it is cheating unless you have the partner's consent.\n\nOtherwise, it is a betrayal. You wouldn't be getting "caught" if it weren't wrong for your situation. You wouldn't be hiding out if it were ok.
549909
I don't cyber anymore after my computer caught me with the tv.\n\n1. I'm in a long distance relationship (but we know eachoter in real life) and it would be cheating, by heart and mind. I'm sure we both would agree.\n\n2. a very good friend of mine, he has an internet girlfriend who he has never met before, and to him, I think it would be cheating even if he cyber kissed someone else. \n\n3. I met a psycho (in real life) who asked me to have sex with him when he had a girlfriend, and he didnt consider that cheating since I said no. I think it was cheating.\n\nand no, it's not real sex.
483937
My wife and I have an extremely happy marriage.\n\nSwinging is not a "legal" method to cheat.\n\nSwingers have the ability to:\na) separate sex from love  and\nb) openly communicate their wishes, desires and fantasies to their partner.\n\nThere are as many types of swinging as there are swingers, some are exhibitionistic and like to have sexual play strictly between themslevs but like the added thrill of others watching.\n\nSome are voyeurs, and fit nicely with the aforementioned group.\n\nSome have special "friends with benefits" who they not only participate in sexual play with, but also go to movies, and dinner, vacations, play cards, have bar-b-ques, etc.\n\nSome have what might oddly be termed "monogamous" relationships with a third or another couple with whom they play exclusively.\n\nCertainly there is a percentage of the culture that are "serial swingers". My wife and I refer to them as the "notch on a bedpost crowd" who seemingly play with anyone and everyone, they are definitely in the minority.\n\nSwinging has dramatically improved our marriage for a couple of reasons - first, it absolutely requires honest, open discussions and conversations, and anytime a couple improves their ability to communicate with their spouse it will help the marriage. Second, we do not worry about affairs and cheating, there is no need for it, if one of us is attracted to someone else, we simply talk about it and decide as a couple whether we will pursue an opportunity to play with that person/people. Third, our sex lives have improved for a multitude of reasons or sex with each other is better and more frequent now.\n\nFeel free to contact me with questions you may have and I would also recommend that following sites for more information on the lifestyle and culture.\n\nhttp://www.swinglesonline.com\nhttp://www.theswingersforum.com\nhttp://www.swingersboard.com
553913
He had an "emotional" connection with this person, so...by definition, he already cheated, hence a "real affair".  Sometimes it is worse than when it is just for physical gratification, with no emotion attached.  Don't know if he would have a physical relationship with someone other than his wife...some men prefer to not go beyond the cyber thing, as that is what their turn on is, so it's just a matter of who and how he is, and how sound the marriage is.
816569
No.  There is nothing in the rules against it; anyone else who wants to can do it too. How could that be considered cheating?
718074
If you met him on the internet, it does NOT mean he is just after sex, I met my husband on the internet.  As for trusting, whatever happened to giving people the benefit of the doubt.  That's what's wrong with this world today, everyone thinks everyone else is out to get them.
343257
It really depends on the terms of the man's relationship with his wife.  I know a couple who are happily married but they have sex with other people (separately, not like a three-some).  Each knows that the other has multiple partners but that is the terms of their relationship and they're ok with that.  So, if this was previously discussed by the couple and the wife is ok with it, then no, it is not cheating.  However, if this is not agreeable within the terms of their relationship, then it would be cheating.  \n\nThe best thing for the couple to do would be to sit down and discuss this.  They may need a moderator, such as a couples counselor, or they may not.  But it needs to be resolved otherwise the guy will be miserable and the longer it goes on the more hurt the wife will be.  People need to be free to express themselves sexually and being bi-sexual is something that he sould have brought to her attention before they were married.  Now they've got to work it out.  \n\nIf this is a real situation that you know of, give my best to the couple and wish them luck for me.\n\nFR
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I would not be happy at ALL I would consider this cheating, if not cheating then pretty darn close, if you are truly committed in a relationship you don't need to look else where and if pictures are being exchanged with nudity I would consider that looking elsewhere. \n\nGood luck--JammieGirl
159786
Nope, I've never cheated. I think it's not the right thing to do. You should just break up instead of just cheating on them...
192337
If you are asking, probably! Ask yourself two questions: Does it make you feel guilty? Would you object to your partner doing what you are doing? If you can truly answer NO, then you are the ONE man in the world who isn't cheating!
658417
i dont think it is cheating if that was the only motive.. you know, i love to meet new people and chat but if it was upseting my partner then i would stop
758823
Cheating is not the sexual act.... It is the lies, deception, the lack of disrespect that your partner has for you by going behind your back.\n\nA kiss, no matter how passionate or dispassionate it is is cheating if your partner hides it from you, same with cyber sex, if your partner is going behind your back with it, you can't see who your partner is talking to, then it is cheating.\n\nVery little, if anything, is cheating if both of you are honest about what each of you desires, talk about what is happening (not the sexual specifics but what is going on with the people,( etc. ) you are inovolved with or flirting with., and agree to... \n\nSo, your answer is a moving target governed by trust and honesty. The less honesty that exists the more activities would be considered cheating.
1044445
Cybering isn't wrong and it doesn't have to be done on Cam, it can be all text even.  To me though, it is high tech masterbation more than anything else.\n\nI think people think it is wrong because they feel that you are being intimate with someone you can't possibly know, but anyone who has tried it knows that it isn't that intimate - it can be fun I guess, but nothing beats the real thing with someone we care about.  The nay sayers think those who do have cyber sex have forgotten that or that all sex outside of wedlock is a sin.  \n\nHow about having cyber sex with your spouse while they are out of town - I wonder if they think that is a sin.
56702
I doubt it! Some people will cheat no matter what you do, other will if given a reason. Dont give your partner a reason!
121537
Not a good idea.  It is possible to cheat on someone without physical activity between you.  How would you feel if your husband/wife was chatting away on the phone with someone and getting all excited about it?  Put a stop to it right away.
229232
I have thought about cheating, but have never acted on it and I never will. I have enough respect for my husband than that! Plus, I would hate to break up my family over my stupid actions. I think if someone's going to cheat, they should have enough respect to end the relationship first!
1153907
no i'm not cheating......i love my guy n i'd never leave him no matter how hot the guy across the street is....you have very good princeples,don't let these idiots trick u into thinking cheating on ur partner is cool,cuz it's not hun.....it just hurts people n gives u a bad reputation..........good luck,luv ya