I told my boyfriend that I wanted to break up?
439270
NO.  If you're unhappy enough to drown your sorrows in drink while blaming him, then this relationship is already over.  Sober up and get on with your life.
868131
Honey - you said it all already - you knew he wasnt right for you.  Sounds like you are just lonely now and your current relationship might not be the right one for you as a marriage.  Its too late now, and no matter how much you might want to - you cant go back in time and change things.  And truthfully, you probably really wouldnt want to.  Whatever made you break up with him, it would have gotten worse.  Chin up dear girl, plenty of fish in the sea :)
50434
Contemplate and think about the reasons that led up to you feeling that you need to part from them.  Then think about what you want to say very carefully and then tell him.  After you tell him that you don't want to be with him anymore and then why, cut off all communication.
43089
Why would you break up with him if you didn't think it was true then? If you can trust him, then just ask him. Listen to your gut! *It knows!* You don't need anyone to make your decisions for you - listen to your gut. Good luck!!
643810
ask urself one question.. how would u feel if he did that to u? do u love him and want to be with him ?(current boyfriend) if u dont... end that relationhip before u try to start up another one...its not fair to anyone involved
277418
he prolly just dont know how to break up with u in a nice way ......he doesn't want to be with u but then he doesn't want to hurt u ... its really bothering him ......... you might just wanna save him the trouble and tell him that ur just gonna give him his own space and to let u know when and if he's ever ready to come back around then all he has to do is call u.
105171
I think he was just trying to dump you easily. Though it sounds mean for him doing it, he was trying to be nice and blame hisself and not you for him wanting to break up. As for why he wanted to break up, I wouldn't worry about it because atleast you know it's over and you can find someone now that wants your love.\n   Good Luck.
1058897
How about "I'm breaking up with you because _______. Bye.". Then click the ignore button to prevent any further annoyances. You don't want him trying to convince you he's what's best for you, do you?
836880
It is admirable that you told your boyfriend and also apologised.\nWhat you should do is to give him time and see what happens\nSeriously i think that you are a very brave girl\nGood luck
148042
There is no good way to break up with a person. No matter what,  if the person still cares for you, they will be hurt. My advice would be to either call him, write to him or go and see him and be as honest with him as possible. Give him the reason why you wish to break up, tell him you are sorry and then end either the call, letter or visit. If you can remain friends that is always the best.
496927
You sound confused. If you don't want to be with him ad want to break up, why wait. You are stringing him around, and at the same time you are holding on to him in case you don't like what you have got planned with the other person
1070700
you already know the answer to this question.  you left your boyfriend because you didn't or don't love him and you think you love this guy.  well, we always seem to want what we can't have.  you should have broken up with your boyfriend because it's not fair to him for you to be with him and have feelings for someone else.  you can't have something with someone who has a girlfriend, unless you plan on trying to break them up.  i think you should take this break from your boyfriend as time to reflect on what it is you actually want.  do you want him back or someone else?  decide what you want before you do something you might regret later.
146533
Well, if you don't want to break up the only suggestion I have is talk to him about it. If he is in love or even if he just cares about you he'll understand what your needs are and be more considerate of you.
631266
Hi\n\n   I would say it totally depends on the reasons you broke up with him in the first place.......
65502
It sounds like if he's truly understood that you're gonna break it off with him and yet he still hasn't changed his attitude, then he's probably wanting you to break it off. Maybe it's one of the whole, "I don't want to do it so I'll MAKE her do it" type things. Give him this last chance, try to go out and do something that both of you enjoy without the distraction of friends and family. Let him know that it really does bug you when he acts this way. If he still seems like he wants to hang on and will change, you decide, you go for it or maybe you've had enough. But if he's STILL acting that way by the end of the "date" call it quits. Move on to a guy who'll treat ya better! Good luck girl!
987048
The problem probably is that your not being direct enough.  You say your doing everything but you haven't done what needs to be done if you want to be with him.  You need to actually talk to him and tell him that it is him you miss and that you want to be a part of his life.  Right now he probably feels like you ended things and that he isn't willing to risk getting dumped again without being sure that this is what you want and that your willing to actually be with him through the bad times and not end things so easily.
1067314
Your boyfriend is breakin up with you.  I've done it like that b4 myself.  dont need to come out and say it, just let it drift apart n by the time the girl asks whats goin on, i'm already with someone else.