my boyfriend is to close to his sister please help?
439791
You are jealous of their relationship and you have no reason to she is his sister, you are his girlfriend. He loves his sister and hopefully he loves you(I can't really say for sure, I don't know you all) but if you force a division between them in any way he will resent you for it.
1085887
Ok, if i had a sister and my bf kissed her and asked her if they want to futher their feeling, and he came back to me and said that he doesnt want to leave mo, i would tell him that he should have never kissed my sister if he dont want me to leave. If she did it once, she will do it again.
961934
Hey ya!\nDon't worry , maybe you can ask your sister about it ,maybe she knows it!\nBut I have brother too and a lot of my friends like him more than just my brother , so If I knew that someone from my friends loves him I won't tell him about it,cause it's something like sisters jealousy.\nIf your sister "don't know it ,but she can ask her" so then you must tell her that it's OK and you'll ask her.\nIt's time to move on ,keep on fun kin and be yourself! :)
911626
Yeah they are right..... You should really talk to your parents first or if you feel uncomfortable talk to your siblings and friends at least you would be considering their feelings....... But do you really love your boyfriend that much? Are you really sure that you two are going to live happily ever after like in the fairy tales? DO NOT ruin your life... Guys come and go but families are forever.
474479
Sharing is caring... just kidding.\n\nWell, if you are really in love with him, as in you both been dating him I guess its up to the man to decide.  But if you both are just attracted and really like him let him decide but explain you both can't see him, or be the good sister and back off.  Tell your sister if she loses interest or something like that it is fair game.
496288
I know how you feel. My boyfriends parents don't hate me, but they tend to always bring up the worst about me. Is he very attached to his brother? My experience has told me that when people are attached theyll do anything to keep them around, even say bad things about the ones they love. With me, any arguments, anything wrong ive said gets brought up over and over again by his mother, and him sometimes and everyonce in awhile they convince him of what theyre saying, usually when hes mad or tired. Anyway, you should care what his family thinks, and the best thing to do is try and get to know them all better and talk to your boyfriend about the situation. I;ve found that getting closer with my BF's family has helped and his sister even defends me now. They're just afraid of losing him, ecspecially since youve been together a long time ( for me its been a year and three months)\n\nI wish you the best of luck.
1120364
I'm in a similar relationship with my sister.\nThe only thing you can do is love her from a distance.\nCall her with little things like, "You were on my mind" and ask her how she's doing.  AVOID anything that might start conflict.\n\nKeep the lines of communication open, but keep your business to yourself.  Helps me.\n\n=^)
1028754
just take a deep breath and say " whats the worst that could happen? " \nif its awkward and the next day he asks u about it . say that it was was ur twin sister. lol.\nbest of luck sweetie
307131
You know, I just love the way big brothers love their little sisters! Your sis must be upset, so give her a hug, make her a nice hot cup of tea (well, it needn't necessarily be tea- anything comforting will do!), tell her her boyfriend's a jerk, and try and cheer her up. I wouldn't suggest beating him up, because I don't think it's do anyone much good, to be honest! Just be there for your sister and give her a bit of advice. If she breaks up with him, then stick with her and help her meet some nice guys, when she's ready. If however, this guy who made her cry, harasses her in any way if she breaks up with him, then have a man-to-man talk with him and tell him to get lost. Don't worry; she'll be fine! All the best to you both!
1157927
Well, first of all!! Your Step-Sister is closer to you than your cousin but then you think that your step-sister is playing your cousin!! So, if something do happen, hopefully not!! but you need to stay on your cousin's side because, as you say, he loves her very much but you think  that she is playing him!! so just stay on your cousin's side!! iight, hope I helped you!! peace!!!!
165735
Start by not making an assumption about your boyfriends mom.  She may just simply not be the type to get close to anyone that isn't yet family.  She is also going to be naturally worried that you might eventually hurt her little boy.  Just relax and be yourself, over time you will prove to her that you are worthy of her boys heart.  In the mean time try to talk to her and find out her interests.  If you show an interest in her as a person and not just his mom it will help.  Sometimes it just takes a comment about how you hope that some day you can get to know her better to get her to open up.
491253
if you truly love one another you will make it through the toughest times but family in your relationship is really hard to make it trough and you probably wont you both need to get far away where they cant be in your business all the time trust me you and him will both be happier.
789556
tell ur girlfriend and her mother..its gonna be worse if they hear it from the little sister cause if she wants u for herself she might add xtra stuff thats not true...they might hate u..but at least they heard it from u...and u will feel better about urself....
128092
it would have been easier if she was a friend or something you could have ignored her completely\nbut as your own lil' sister has a crush on your boyfriend it can get a lil' complicated\nfirst ask her(nicely) if she likes your guy\nit could be she jus likes him as a guy whom you going around with not the kind who she wants to go around with (you getting it)\nif she like likes him then sit and explain it to her (again nicely) that he is your guy and you like him a lot and you like her too and over a guy you don wanna loose a sister \nhave a talk explain it to her that he is your territory and she should find some one else for herself
1102068
if ure boy friend dosen't pay most attention to u and does to ure sister.  like if he does stuuf like help her or do stuff for her then u maybe he is into her.  it will be pretty obvious though.  but if he does like ure sister don't go between them b/c stuff always happen when people do that.
611733
Ask your friend if he's OK with you dating his sister, then ask her out (if he is OK with it - otherwise I don't know).
497431
Go to him when you two have not been fighting and when he is relaxed and tell him exactly what you have asked here on Yahoo answers. Don't try to make it sound like it's nothing so that you two will not end up fighting. Let him know you are not sure how much more of this you can take. Also be ready to tell him exactly what you need from him, or ways that he can make this relastionship work. And lastly, be ready to do exactly what you say you are going to do if he can't give you what you need... Leave Him! When he realizes that he has lost a good thing he will come running back ready to do whatever it takes to make you stay. Or you will find someone else who will respect you and love you the way you need to be treated. Pray about this little sister and good luck.