My best friends guy... what do i do?
437147
Here is a defining moment in your life.. \nPut yourself in your friends shoes.. as exciting as it may be to be you right now.. \nHOW would you feel if the sitch was reversed.. NOT too fun to get screwed over by your best friend and boyfriend.. \nDO you become a good person, and decide your BEST friend is more important to you then a guy.. \nOR do you become a beotch (sorry, but that is what you would be) and take your best friends man with no regard for her, or her feelings.. I'm saying.. That would be pretty fu**cked up on your part.. (actually what you're doing right now is pretty f**ked up in itself.. just plotting )to do it.. YOU should be more of a friend then that.. And just remember Karma is a beotch, and who's to say he wont leave you for one of your friends.. ?
65049
i agree with mortgage. its hard if you continue the relationship with that guy. if you really care for your bestfriend, just set him free. but if you care more for the guy, then "YOU GO GIRL"...lol...just kidding...seriously, go find another man.
602357
this is very difficult coz u hurt someone dear to you-your bestfriend. i don't think you'd choose this guy over your bestfriend.get away w/ that feeling before it gets worse.there are a lot of guys out there who are not committed.why not entertain them instead of entertaining your feelings for your bestfriend's guy.
427793
If he is your best friend then you should be open to telling him anything. Let him know how you feel about him and he should be okay with that. Maybe throw some hints out there that you have slight feelings like that for him and ask him about when he tells you he loves you.. does he mean he "really" loves you or "just as friends" loves you!? You have to find out what his feelings are to be able to decide really what you should do!\n\nThey do say that the one you are supposed to be with is going to be your best friend. \n\nGood luck and I hope this turns out being the way you want it to be!
657297
It is obvious that you care for his guy. So tell him that. Tell him that you love and care for him but not with the passion that a girlfriend should have for a boyfriend. Tell him that you know it will be hard to change the level of your friendship one notch down...but you still want him to be your friend because he is your best friend.\n\nI know that this maybe hard for you to do..it will hurt you both but think of it this way...suppose he too want you only as a friend as well and is also afraid to hurt you?
569767
ha, she wouldn't be my best friend anymore! yeah, just tell her your mad. if she's your bff, she'll know better than to keep it up. she should pick u over the guy, and if she doesn't, shes no friend. good luck!
1035613
How much do you like him?  Because if you all was friends first would that mess up your friendship if something don't work out?  Is it worth it to mess up a friendship? Try asking him with a trick question and get his understanding on it.  You might need to think this really through, because you could lose your best friend.
740504
Before you do anything, talk to your best friend. You do NOT want to lose your friendship over ANY guy. Maybe you could flip a coin and agree that the winner pursues the guy and the loser backs off. Do this with maturity and everything will be okay. Whoever loses will feel hurt, but at least it will have been done to save the friendship.\n\nOtherwise, if you let your hormones dictate what you do, and you go after him, you risk irreparable damage to your friendship.
637409
well thats a tough one but i think u should talk to your friend and tell her that u and this guy like each other and she's kind of stepping in. also ask the guy whats up with him. does he like u or your friend. hope it works out for ya
877998
Well.. I would say that she isn't your best friend.  I have had the same problem.  My so called best friend loves a guy that i have loved for ever.  She went behind my back and asked him out without telling  me.  Then i realized that she wasn't my best friend.  Oh yeah.  Talk to her about it.  If she is all cocky and like let me love him shit. Then just flirt with him more to get her mad.
870617
If your best friend is going out with him, then she's not a very good friend is she? If she's not, she respects you a lot. Be there for her when the guy dumps her for someone else, and if that someone is you, remember what happened, and tell him to find someone else's heart to break.
1014593
Tell your friend how you really feel about him. Who knows? He might feel the same way. Any kind of relationship starts off as friends and it could develop into something more. It will also give you guys an opportunity to find out how you really feel about each other.
1183545
TELL YOUR BESTFRIEND TO GET A LIFE.. AND GET HER OWN BOY..  DON'T TOUCH WHAT'S NOT BELONG TO HER.. \nYOU CAN GET ANOTHER BEST FRIEND.
359945
I think, stay friends for a while.  Just don't always hang around him and make some space between you guys.  If your other friends feel the same way, tell him, or just stop constantly hanging around with him, he should get the picture.    Sometimes, people'll change if you give it time.
739912
IS THIS WORTH IT ???\nIF NOT THEN MOVE ON !!!\nTHERE ARE ALOT OF FISH IN THE SEA !!!\nYOU'LL GET OVER HIM !!!\n\nP.S.~ KEEP THE "BEST FRIEND " !!!
529659
you really have to ask her what's the deal with what happened.but since i assume that she's your bestfriend,then i say that don't let a guy come between friendship.no matter how much you love him.and IF she wants him for herself and she lets this guy come between the two of you, then later down the road you won't be the one feeling guilty about a guy possibly ruining a beautiful friendship.
737826
Well remember, ur friend will always be there for u but guys come and go. If u end up w/him and eventually "u will" break up- odds are. Then what? u don't have him and ur best friend has found another. Let me tell u, I had a very best friend in high sch. and we were inseperable 1 day another friend of mine says;tell her or I will! Sooooo.. my frined say's I F*****-John (my bf) I was heart broken! she almost laughed. She was my best friend!? what the hell? but now he ended up being a loser and she ended up w/3 kids to 3 diff guys and she's w/none. I am married 16 yrs w/2 kids and happy. I know u didn't need to hear my life story but u got it anyway. Chose ur friend! plenty of guys will come along later. Don't b a friend like mine was to me.