Does UR Heart Ache For SomeOne U Cant Have? Is Ur BF/GF Second Best? Be Honest!!?
445686
yes my heart does ache for someone I cant have, cause she is so far away from me and most of all she sees me only as friend but have no GF to be my second best :(
161142
I dont' know if I believe there is only ONE person that you can feel is your soulmate. When you do find a person you feel IS your soulmate, you stop looking, and you don't need anyone else. I DO think it is very significant when you do find someone you feel like that about however. There could be any number of people in the world that would be ideal candidates for being with you, with similar interests, values and beliefs. That doesn't mean that the one you find is the only one, but they are the most special one, because you found each other, and that's all that matters, if you're happy together.
959846
its normal to feel dat..i once like dat..bt i get over\nit..cz no use of thinking bout it..it wont change anything..4me..the moment he let me go..i decided to let him get out of my heart too..its hurt..takes years to 4get cz he's my 1st bf..dat time i was15,nw went im 19 he came back to me asking 4 patch..bt its to late..i get over him already..bt we still be gd fren till nw..  BT..if u  choose NOT to 4gt bout him its ok..cz im still in love wif my ex..he is my 2nd ex,althought its been 2yrs..i still love him n thinks bout him alot..althought we cant be 2gether our frenship is still gd...\nalthought we doesnt talk or meet often..i know deep in his heart he still love me..evn if he didnt say..n i still love him like the way U DID..\nits ok to love although he cant see..as long as it doesnt affect ur daily living..n take care of ur health
511510
I was soooooo in love with my boyfriend about 3 years back.  We'd been together for a and a year later I found out he had another girlfriend, longer than me.  Now I've become very sceptical of men, even though my BF now is the sweetest!  I was soooo hurt the day I f9ound out that I pinched myself to see if I was in a nightmare.  When I got home, shook myself to sleep.  That hurt a lot!!!  What about you?
69872
I've had this situation 4 months ago. We've just talked about it.. I frankly said, that i don't love him. He offered me to be friends. So we are very good friends right now. But I feel that i'm more than just a freind for him...Sometimes i think that it would be nice if we were together but can't do it right now, 'cause i broke up with my ex-bf yesterday. And i don't want to lose my friend.. It's up to a person :)
964202
if you are loving someone then u are going to get possesive and jealous for him. so its part of love. go on have jealousy and also be a bit protective for ur bf. its worth it.
350044
try to make that person feel how much he/she means to u...in ur own little ways..ive experienced that and im tellin u mine was harsh coz after realizin my mistake he told me he's got gf already, just after 2 weeks! that was my first time to cry! and it hurts! damn lol but if u really want someone,its worth a shot..u only live once,.why not risk..who knows, he might also realize how much u mean to him
298326
it feels like quick heart beats, always thinking about th one u love, wanting to be always near him, want to please him by every way possible u can do. Feel hurt wn u miss him. wn love is perfect it is like heaven, wn it is not it is much heart & pain & hell.
495249
Its one of the great mysteries of life - sometimes, we just arent attracted to ppl I think! I know exactly what you mean - a little while ago this guy liked me, and was awesome, really smart, really cute, really funny and a very good friend. I loved him so much, but I just didnt want to be with him romantically. I got really angry at myself at first, because I felt as though I SHOULD love him, but I just didnt. Dont know why. BUt I DO know that you cant force yourself to feel for someone - no matter who great they are. You need to let it be natural, and one day I bet someone you least expect will be the person you feel for most!
932872
in ff do ya mean bf? \nanyways if u still lik him then u should hav feelings 4 him :)
193587
Something similar happened to me and I thought that the other man was the love of my life.I still love and care for him and can't get him out of my system, but I wonder if I would have felt that for anyone who was there for me at that moment,being that I was so needy emotionally.It is a tough thing to deal with and very unfair.I want to tell you go with your heart,but understand that isn't easy sometimes.\ngood luck and I will pray that the universe leads you in the right direction.Be open and honest with yourself and remember you deserve to be happy!
634873
its only hard for us if we love the guy.  My BF of 4.5 years broke up with me 2 weeks ago and at first I kept calling, but I realized that I can't do anything about it. He broke up with me because he is trying to figure out what he wants to do with his life and doesn't want a GF right now. I realized that if he wants to talk to me, he will call.
203571
it is normal for you to have feeling or be attracted to other people. the thing you have to ask yourself is do you love your boyfriend? there will always be people you find yourself liking but love doesn't come around often
917558
wow small world i tell you. i love my bf and he loves me and would do anything for me as far as i know.hes ina different state and hes movin back in a few months. theres this guy that keeps hittin on me tho. honestly theres nothing you can do about it you need to talk to the gurl and have her talk to him about if she truly loves you she will handle it the way she feels it should be handled.thats all i can say i hope everything works out for you guys
415968
Of course!  People say that you can always find someone better...and you might, but what if your heart doesn't want or can't handle "better"?  \n\nUm, but there's that old saying "if you love something let it go, if it comes back it's yours....".  I truly believe this is true.  \n\nI lost a really great guy almost a year ago.  Another great guy came into my life, but I didn't want him.  My heart cannot forget my ex.
212286
How do you feel when you are away from this person?  What are the qualities you like about him?  Are they the inside ones or the physical ones?  When you have truly found love you will always want to be with that person.  They will be everything you ever dreamed, and of course they will still have flaws, but you will be able to overlook them.  If you are still thinking about the first guy what is it about him that keeps you thinking about him?  Does the new guy have those qualities?  Just some questions for you to ask yourself.  I hope that helps!
669752
I just answered a question to another perosn what I think love is, maybe this applies to you, email me if you need help getting over it , I might be able to help. Just click contact Dude in my profile. Good Luck and here is the answer I gave to the other person.\n\nThis is what I think of love, when you have a crush on somebody it is so much fun , when you have a bf/gf you really like every moment youre not with them is wasted, but when your with them you have that wonderful not able to describe feeling. When you are in love and the person doesnt love you back, love is a heart breaker and you are sitting up in your room crying all day. If you dont know whats going on you feel love towards her/him and you sometimes cry cause you dont know how (s)he feels about you, and othertimes you are so happy and are so in love with her/him. It can also and usually does feel so confusing. When you are happy and love her/him so much you cant get get enough of them it is too wonderful to describe but you cant get them off your mind and (s)he is the only one you think about and want to think about, you write poems about her/him you write songs about her/him you sing about her/him, you love her/him so much you dont know what to do. I think love is good but you do get heartbroken sometimes and it is sometimes worth the risk. When you are heart broken, you feel completely lost and dont know what to do, your have that feeling like your heart is seriously falling apart, you can almost feel it break from all the emotions, if you were the one dumped and are still in love, you feel like nothing in this world is important, you feel like a nobody, you dont know what to do, you still love the person and you found out (s)he is not inlove with you, you cant explain how you feel, all you feel like doing is crying, you feel like dying , you dont feel loved at all, you dont know what to do, you feel completely lost. \nI am inlove now and dont know what to think because I dont know what she thinks of me. Hope this helps!