should i trust a guy who broke up with me and dated a girl the next day and they still talk and im wit him now
439183
I know for a fact you want to trust him bacause i've been in this situation and I'm going to tell you what I did.  Trust him but to a certain extent.  Let him know that you don't feel comfortable with the situation.  If he still talks to her, let him go.  If he doesn't, give him that second chance.  You'll be able to tell if he really does still love you, because if he respects your feelings he won't talk to this girl anymore.
763351
Simply, curiousity with a little bit of wonder, maybe even jealousy.  Jealousy is questionable.  However, you don't understand why he was with her and really you don't need to or have to.  You might want to know why they broke up.  You may have deep down fears of them coming back around to each other since you don't understand why they were even together to begin with.  What you should remember is that he is with you and not her now.  If he isn't doing anything to see her, be around her, or have any sort of contact with her you really have nothing to be worried about.  If he is, then have concerns.  If he talks about her etc.  Put it out of your head if those things aren't happening and just enjoy that he is with you.
869677
i strongly believe in trust and open communications.  If you have dated her for about a year, you should feel free to talk to her about anything.  If you haven't come to that stage where u can both freely talk about anything, maybe you need to think why hasn't the relationship matured to that stage and work towards that before you do anything else.
586159
Forget him and just move on to someone else. You shouldn't be with someone like that anyway. And your friend is also immature what doing what she did, are you sure she was telling the truth. I wouldn't trust her again.
1003212
Forget him...there was obviously a good reason why you broke up with eachother..and honey...he was cheating on his gf wit u ....what makes u think he won't cheat on u wit someone else??Find yourself a real man!<3
282408
They dont know from experience. I know, and if you want to find someone new, they are just around the corner. I found someone the week after I broke up with my boyfriend because The guy I broke up with was dating again.
582718
A week straight? And he's already said he loves you? But he hasn't taken his ex-girlfriend's voice off his voicemail? This guy is playing you. Dump him fast. He's a jerk and is stringing you along. He still has a girlfriend and is just looking for a little action. You deserve better.
394784
Well, I'm sorry, but it really doesn't sound like this boy has his loyalty values placed in the right spot in his mind. He toyed with this girl, let her toy with him in return, and kept secrets from you. That is definitely betrayel, and you have every right to be bothered and upset. Could you give him a second chance? Of course. Especially because he seems to be respecting your wishes now and not talking to her anymore. If he didn't care about what you wanted, he probably could have broken up with you and gone on seeing this girl. The decision really is up to you, though. If you feel like you can forgive him for this and give him another shot and staying with you (assuming that he has learned his lesson), then by all means go for it. But if you are still really bothered by this and think that it could definitely happen again, and he still has strong feelings for this girl, then maybe you should consider moving on. It would be very hard because you love him...but if he is not going to be loyal to you, your relationship would never last. And love is not very useful in a non-existent relationship.\n\nThink it over carefully. Talk with your boyfriend about what you are feeling, and see what he has to say about it. If he cares for you, there is bound to be something that he can do to make you feel better. Base your judgements off of a sound conclusion that you are certain of, and remember to do what you believe is right, and what will be best for both you and him. Sometimes decisions like this are all a matter of the heart, especially when dealing with forgiveness. I wish you luck!
1186307
I would tell her the truth,. that there really isnt anything going on with you two and her friendship means to much for you two to let a guy inbetween you. Shes feeling insecure because she can see how easy it is for that guy to get another girlfriend in short time. Can you imaigine if he did secretly want to go out with you? Then what.\nI'd give your ex and her some space and not even get close to that situation untill he finally breaks it off with her...Believe me he will real soon.\nRemember shes only the rebound girl...aint that sad.shhhh dont remind her of that point tho....heheh
345242
if you cant trust her you gotta bounce dude. seriously, if you stay with her your paranoia will eat at you until you drive each other apart, even if she isnt doing anything. chill out about it and trust her, or walk away.
1010575
if you go wit another girl dont let her be your rebound.... and if your not ready to move on then dont it would be weird to go wit another girl i know cuz it was for me and i couldnt do it i ended up breakin up wit him in just 3 days.... i couldnt do it....
746496
take note:she was ur ex girlfriend..so it doesn't really matter if she dates another guy.. if u decide to take her back remember that u don't trust her.. so why invest or taking her back? u will go on the same cycle when u were with her....probably ur just bothered coz she moved on already while u r not.. \nit's normal.. try to get urself busy.. go out with friends and please try to forget her.. it won't do good for you.. i know u can do it.. so good luck
1160813
My b-friend and his ex talked the whole first year him and I were together.  She too broke up with him and I knew she really hurt him.  It drove me crazy too.  1)  I had to decide if I trusted my b-friend or not.  If I didn't trust him then I shouldn't b with him.  \n2) If the two of them ended up together then him and I weren't meant to be.  \nWe've been together for a little over a year, the ex has faded quickly.  Just hang in there, she's an ex for a reason.
869248
The question is, where does your heart lie. with your ex or with a new guy. you should follow the path which you trust more, who respects you more, and knows who can treat you best.
852768
I think you might not want to because they might be the same and he just wants so booty..so i would check him out first....and i don't think you should worry about your ex because you caught him with another girl when you guys were still together!
891002
To be honest your best off ignoring it if both you and your girlfriend trust each other this should not be an issue anyway. The ex is more than likely only doing it to annoy you hoping it will cause problems so don't rise to it. She is with you not him :)
154722
It will depend on how open you are with your new girlfriend.  Keeping secrets about your relationship with your ex can make things tight when your new girlfriend finds out.  Be up front and honest with her, and openly tell her when you two spend time together and what you do together so that she isn't questioning in her mind what you two are up to {it's only human to do so, even if you trust the person} and it shouldn't be a problem.  Honesty is the best policy, and if she can't handle that, then I would look for another girl, or examine your friendship with your ex to make sure it is a healthy one, and one you should keep in the context it's at.  Good Luck! :)