how do you get people to stop talking crap about you?
442421
Live better than them and ignore what they are saying.\n\nPeople who talk crap about other people ae almost always jealous of the person they are speaking ill of.
266682
if you have known these people fora long time and this just started happening and you dont just wat to stop being friends, you definately need to bring what they are doing to there attention. let them know how you feel, but be calm about it. dont yell at them or be overly dramatic or just act angry and stuck-up because they might not even realize that they were doing it. i have been in the same situation, and i did talk to my friend about it and she said she was sorry and didnt even realize it and then everything was cool between us. \nalso, try to include YOURSELF in the conversation. if you "but-in" to the conversation, you are showing that you want to be part of there conversation and that you are there and you have something to contribute. if you just dont talk at all, it might be your own fault that they are ingoring you.\ni hope all this helps!
196169
The best way to deal with such ppl is to hurt their ego....... a simple ignore will hurt their feeling of superiority....... make them feel as if their existence doesnt matter to u
200981
Tell him or her they're annoying, if that don;t help dump them as ur friend.
942016
Not enough information, such as how old you are, or if you're living at home. I'm guessing you're 14. Anyway, you can't make them go away, but you CAN make them lose interest in you by not reacting to anything they say. Get a life - like join a sport club or some group, or maybe get a job. Those things really are more interesting than a bunch of F.A.S.s. and if you are really busy, you'll foget about those losers.
42447
you don't. it's natural.\n\nor, on the other hand, you could try and be sensible, and just block it out from your mind. or you can just change your attitude from i'm-mister-super-caring-all about  what-people-think-of-me to i-dont-give-crap-and-i'm-gonna act- as-though nothing's-bothering-me.\n\ngot it?  now that's how you gotta stop carin about wat otha ppl tink of ya. alrightty?
196582
Take the high road each and every time.  If you succumb to these rumors, you will have lost already.  If you come across someone who's acting weird or evasive probably because of these rumors, ask them straight out and persuade them to talk about it ("perhaps you've heard something about me?...) in a non-confrontational manner.  Tell them that you would be more than happy to clear it up and would entertain their queries which you would appreciate because it's something that you could respond to having been said to your face. If you know who started the rumors, you can do this same tactic also.  This usually makes them apologetic because they can't take full frontal frankness.
642026
When   people talk about other people to you, say nothing back.  They will soon stop talking bad about people to you completely,  and they will look at you differently,    in a good way! It really works!
883135
tell them to shut up.
752591
I have...sort of the same problem. Mine is kid of reversed because I talk too much. Of course the conversation only lasts 3 minutes because they get so annoyed of my constant chatter that they walk away. Figures, right? Anyway, talk about current events. The events you talk about depend on your age. If you're a teen, start with, "Omg, did you hear about the latest Brit/Kev breakup?" That should open up doors of celebrity scandals and gossip. Or if you are an older person, try "You know, the gas is....blah blah....economy....blah and so on". I don't really know much in the adult field so yeah.
29874
Say pleas stop folowing me
272084
STOP SPEAKING CRAZY-TALK\n\nREPORT'D 4 TROLLING
230439
Honestly, there's not much you can do. You can try to talk to a guidance counselor or teacher, and that might help. The only thing that worked for me when I was in school was ignoring the crap that was said. There was this one girl who bullied me for years and we would consequently bad-mouth each other. Finally, I just quit saying anything about her and let her talk all the trash she wanted to. Our mutual friends realized after a while that she was the one causing all the drama and so even though she was still talking trash about me, our friends just tuned her out when she would do that. And it made me look like the better person. (which, of course, I am... ;) )
1177024
i know how you feel about that and I have tried explaining it to the person that i don't feel respected by but he doesn't understand or maybe doesn't want to understand my point.\nThey probably don't mean anything by it no harm or so but they need to stop.. I agree on that but how to show them and make them realize to stop i have no idea sorry. It is very very hard to do.
101447
1.don't be annoying cause people hate annoying people who follow them around  \n2. Give them personal time to talk and think\n3.smile and be confident!!
604165
Be Real With Him!!!! they hate that but just flat out tell him shut up you don't know everything!\n                      OR\ndo it my way just ignore him and say yeah your right!! \n   theres nothing to argue about then!!!
765199
Ignore them. If you show no offense or interest in what they're saying they will drop you as a topic in their conversations.