how can i convince my parents....?
439014
insted of saying your going to your boyfriends say your going to your friends.lol or say your going to the mall and don't go back
38273
Try talking to them, show them how much you realy love and respect them, and try to compromise. Your family, specially your dad and mom, will always love you, even if they sometimes dont show it due to your unobediance or stubbornness.
171988
You didnt say how old are you, and what you mean about privacy and life by your own.\nYou have to talk, talk and talk, comunication is the tool to get everything you need. But to talk, comunicate and convince others you have to have very strong arguments.\nAnd as you want them to understand you and think about you, you have to understand them and think about them for a while, parents will be parents for their whole life, and you will be their baby, it doesnt matter how old you are, how independent you have became, or how strong you feel. \nGive them information, so they can feel the security that you will be ok, and that you can deal with the problems and issues you find in your way; so they can let you go easier. \nRemember they do whatever they do, because they love you so much, that you can't imagine, you will figure it out when you become a mother.
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From my experience, coming home late or breaking curfew was a major way of testing my parents trust. Considering your ages, I am surpised that your parents are so restrictive. Ask yourself, what is this 'bad' that they think you're doing? Did your parents come from deeply religious families? Were your parents also restricted by their parents? What about her parents? It may not be fair, or make a whole lot of sense these days, but that could explain some of their methods. Do you or your girlfriend have troubled pasts, maybe trouble with the law? Did you ever have a truancy problem with school? Don't think that I am blaming their behavior on you, I just want you to think of all  possibile reasons. It almost sounds like you two live a bit far away from eachother, and that might explain why you're only allowed to see eachother twice a week, and talk on the phone for only half an hour a day. Have I nailed it yet? No? Okay, parents may not seem to make any sense some of the time, but they are your parents. Like it or not they have say into your relationships. The more you show respect for them and their wishes, usually the more trust they'll have for you. So if you're considering sneaking around after dark or anything like that, don't try it. Chances are you'll get caught, and just imagine how often you'd get to see her then? Probably not at all. I know this is a hard time for you both, you're almost legal adults, but until you turn the magic age of 18, you just have to bite down and endure this. You will get through this, just be patient with her and your parents. I am going to assume that talking with your parents wont make much of a difference, but there is nothing wrong with trying. Ask them what it is that they fear so much, and do your best to put that fear to rest. Assure them that you intend to follow their wishes, and do so when you're out with her. If they see that you're true to your word, the less likely they are to shorten the leash. I get the feeling that their fear is your sexual activity. It is my personal opinion that you two are at the ages when your sexuality is your business, however a parent will feel like your business is always their business. You can be 50 years old, and they'll still consider you their baby. Being that your sexuality is your business, I hope you wont mind if I give you a piece of advice: protect you and your girlfriend and use a condom every time. Anyway, you will get through this, I promise. Good luck.
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Try asking ur parents
421049
talk to them, earn their trust. seem interested in whatever they might say. act like you have nothing to hide(which you might not), and smile. also act polite. meeting the parents is never easy, but it must be done eventually.
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Tell your parents when they are both home.\n.Tell them when they are not busy\nOnce you start keep on going with it no matter what they so or how they react while telling them.\nBe understandable with their feelings....\n\n\n,
459145
You can't do anything in regards to your parents. BUT I say stay in school get educated and then move out on your own. If your father is wrong then give your mom support. And right now, from what you have supplied here your dad is dead wrong.
69100
My parents wrote me a letter once where they told me how much they loved me had planned for me and how much they pray for me, I also went on a retreat. They told me they were proud of my achievements and that I deserved evrything the world has to offer. As far as being assertive its going to be very difficult b/c he is still a teenager and at that age you want to belong to something, but keep talking to him, tell him not to be afraid to stand his ground on what he believes is right.
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Just sit your parents down and tell them. If they dont understand, explain it to them. If they get really mad, just say how you really feel. Tell them this is who you want to be. You want to be you. Dont hide it from your parents, it can make things much worse than they already are. Hope you can do it!!! Kaylee if you need to talk to me my email is angelfiregurl_09@yahoo.com or my messenger is angelfiregurl_09
1051102
Talk to his parents???
60854
When they ask you to do something, do it right away.\nMake sure you are having a good attitude about it.  When a thought come into your mind like, "that's not fair", or things like that, push them out of your head.  When you start thinking that way, it will just make you mad at your mom, and dad, and you will not want to obey.  \nAlso, try to think often about the good things that they do for you, that will help you with your attitude, and will help you be more thankful for things.\nAnother thing you can do is tell your mom and dad that you love them.  Give them hugs, and thank them for things.  This will help you to have a better relationship with them, and will make you want to obey them.
699044
You really don't have a choice if your parents will not allow it. Explain this to your friend and maybe he will understand.>
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Ask you parents to do it.
252728
Tell your parents right away and take them and yourself down to the police station to report them!!\n\nDO NOT let them intimidate you ... that is unacceptable!!
994427
If you can believe what I read these people should be more than happy to help you.\nI'm not sure what it takes to convince them.\nhttp://www.gatesfoundation.org/
54621
JUST COME OUT AND TELL THEM     AND IF THEY DONT BELIVE YOU ASK THEM WHAT KIND OF PROVE THEY WONT BUT YOU SHOULDN'T HAVE TO PROVE IT TO ANYONY WITHOUT REASON