Is it right that your boyfriend checks out other girls when you're right there?
444110
Let it go, he left the store with you...not her! Guys will be guys and they will ALWAYS check out other girls no matter how commited they are to you! You could dump him for it, however, your next man will just do the same thing. It is just programmed into their brains! Not much you can do about it. I am sure it was harmless!
472281
Listen this is coming from a girl just like you. It's not jealousy or insecurity. It's the fact that he's your man. You feel as though you can give him everything another woman can. It's perfectly natural. Don't beat yourself up about it! Girl, if he See's you looking at another man he'll feel the same way. Trust and believe. Just remember that you got him and it doesn't matter if he talks or look at other women he's still yours!
909707
I'm straight...my boyfriend watches them sometimes...
992587
you can look but dont touch,.. put urself in his/hers shoes,. would you like to see ur partner checking out someone else or hitting on them,..
444520
Trust your boyfriend, is there anything wrong for you not to trust him? If he has his own bath and room and knows he has a girlfriend then she should respect that. Just make sure the girl roommate understands he's taken. Your just going to have to trust your man and spend time at the house in the begining so you can put her check.
1085108
My boyfriend always flirts and looks at other girls, but we are older (mid 30s-ish).  We know that our base relationship is rock solid and we are both comfortable that flirting is just fun and that we would never act on it.\n\nIt depends on your relationship with him.  It's hard to tell with younger guys though.  They sometimes are real pains-in-the-rears.
239203
There's no way for this to not be a two-part answer. Firstly, he's right in that it is human nature for males to notice other females *and* for females to notice other males - it's just an animalistic, survival thing.\n\nHOWEVER, it is *exceptionally* disrespectful toward you for him to admit being aroused by looking at other women, or to blatantly look at other women (especially when in your presence.) It is not at all unrealistic of you to be upset by his behavior and ask him to tone it down. He should care enough about your feelings that he won't want to intentionally hurt you by keeping it up.\n\nIf you explain that it hurts your feelings (and probably your self-esteem) when he behaves this way, ask him to be more discreet, and he *still* doesn't bother, it may be time to look into counseling. This is obviously his hang-up, and he may need help to see the effect that his behavior is having on your relationship. Good luck.
623184
oh hell ya...."my boyfriend asked another girl out while we were together" that is all i had to read, i think you should dump him because no guy needs another girl in their life if they are in a relationship no matter what the sitution is.  NEVER EVER let a guy do that to you because if he did that and you still stay with him then i am sure he will do something else and think "she'll still stay with me".  if it was me i would of dumped him without even thinking about it.  u deserve better, every girl in that position deserves better than that.
297727
It IS a guy thing. Even the most commited guys look at other girls. Maybe even sexually. If you (can) trust him, everything should be fine. Perfectly normal, all guys do it...sorry! *lol* Don't worry.
631936
no! of course not. Guys look to & get a glance to sexier girls even if their girlfriend is at their side with them!
936666
Yes, I think a boyfriend would feel more comfortable, except if their girlfriend likes girls as well as guys. But if she's faithful, then he shouldnt have to worry.  =]
430146
If you're in a trusting relationship, it all depends on expectations.  Obviously, he should respect you enough not to cheat, but if you let him know that you are uncomfortable with his actions, he should care enough about you to at least tone it down.  It's natural to admire people of the opposite (or same, if you swing that way) gender, but it's not okay to be overly gawking if you are in a commited relationship.  I always try to join in on the action by agreeing with him.  Is it enough to know at the end of the day that he's going home with you?
41782
I know how ya feel, I've had girlfriends who were the same-I got in trouble if I "looked" at a woman! To be honest, he loves you & is afraid of loosing you, It's what ya call "insecurity".
203466
ok, first up, i'm a guy. I've actuall spoken about this to my friends and NONE of us have ever cheated with our partners. The general consensus is that if you want to sleep with someone else, you should leave your current partner. having said that, however, we ALL look at other women when we are with our partners. We just do. I dont stare and dribble or anything but if theres some girl in a short skirt with nice legs, I'll quite happily look. The rule that applies is that it's ok to look. It isn't ok to touch. You cant really expect your boyfriend to go to the beach, for example and just look at the sand, now can you?\nI think  however that this isnt the only issue you have with your boyfriend. if you do have a bunch of other s,aller issues with him but this is just the bigger, then you should talk to him about those too.\nGood luck and smooth sailing sister
395049
He is totally in the wrong here, and it's not too nosy to find out someone has a girlfriend of Myspace, if it's on myspace it's pretty public.  Be mad at him, tell him to go back to his girlfriend and leave you alone!
1123270
No.  But you shouldn't kiss other girls unless your boyfriend can watch.
621206
Well if you guys say you are the perfect couple you wouldnt be paranoid and if you trust him enough than you know hes not cheating but if you wanna know so badly just ask him whats going on exactly between you and me cause im being serious about us how about you and go from there you wont feel paranoid and just tell him whats making you paranoid like the girl with the books never know he may be just being nice but hes still showing you two off as a couple to all the other girls and guys so what hes comfortable with them looking at you why not him and other girls it may be difficult but at times you have to get use to it and get over it