why dont i just make a move?
453773
Because he is shy and u are waiting for HIM to make the move.  Thank goodness we live in 2006 and IT IS OK for u to make the first move!  He may be worried that you will slap him, or not want to kiss him back.  So if I were you just jump right in there and lay a lip lock on him that he will never forget!!!!!
930224
This is totally situational... but...\n\nIn general, I love it when a girl makes the move. As a guy, we have an automatic disadvantage, because no matter what, we have to work for it. Now, this is a gross generalization, but most of the time it is true: women can find someone if they really want to, any time.\n\nMen on the other hand, well...\n\nSo to have a woman come up and make it known that she's interested makes things easy. Not to mention, it's not like there's anything to lose really.
446703
STOP BEING SHY!\nThe fear of doing it is greater than actually doing it.\n\nThe next time you see her just ask her if you could take her out for lunch sometime.\n\nDon't listen to the girl above me.\nIf you're attracted to someone you can make the first move...doesn't matter if you're female or not. If you sit around waiting for someone to come to you it's probably not going to happen. \n\nWomen today aren't afraid to do what needs to be done to move forward, doesn't matter if it's their "duty" or not. \n\nAnyway, back to my orignial advice:\nJust ask her! That's the only way you'll know for sure.
918783
Hey i'm 26, and dont have a g/f, but then no one advances towards me, and if they did as long as I find them attractive, I would make a move.  He does have an AA, so he did something.  He is just alittle lazy, but he can find a job with an AA degree.
401354
i would'nt neva makec a first move all i would is flirt
880447
Sometimes girls need to make the first move. Not all guys have high confidence levels. Just ask him if he would like to go out for drinks or dinner. If he says no there is your answer.
374844
Honey you have to allow the guys to make the first move. Don't be scared you will know what to do when the time comes, it's natural.
29785
o my gosh...WHAT ARE U WAITING FOR....make ur move..!!!\n\n~*becca*~
521423
I can't answer for everybody of course, but if I like a guy and want him to make a move I'll let him catch me looking at him, smile shyly and then look away quickly, as if I'm embarrassed that he caught me. I also might say hi to him and smile, or say something to get him talking. Good luck!
134367
if u have to move then do it \n\nbut if u have no reason so why ? \n\nany way its up to ur feelings and ur thinking too
980103
You can always make the first move by approaching him and just introducing yourself. I know this might sound cheesy, but how else are you going to know if he's interested in you unless one of you makes the first move? Hope this helps and good luck :)
587799
You can make the first move in a club or a social environment, but online is different (with all the weirdos). So, a guy would ask you first to make sure it is alright.
980999
Well guys are probably intimidated by your beauty. It just means you'll have to make the first move. Good Luck!
526657
Act really sexy...\nThis same thing has kinda happened to me...\nso put on tight nurse clothes or something, then you have to make the 1st move./..\ngood luck....\nJENNY!
1042469
A lot of guys wont make the first move. So this may be something you'll be waiting for for quite a while. Usually a guy joking around is a good way to tell, joking around as in picking on ya, etc.
55462
I would recommend that you "make a move".  Some really nice guys are too shy (or afraid of rejection) to make the first move.
349732
u can make the first move. not sexually if u don't want to but jus walk up to him and tell him how u feel. but i do recommend that you prepare for the good and the bad. after you tell him how u feel wait for his reaction and if he says he likes you then it's good but if he says he only likes you as a friend don't get mad jus say "ok" and "well i guess i'll see you around" then leave.