how can i get a girlfriend if im shy?
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Ask a girl out. Just cause you're shy doesn't mean you can't ask her out. It just means you'll be a little nervous doing so. That's just fine.
291776
It's really hard to be shy, I know.  The best thing you can do is be yourself, always.  The next thing is eye contact and smile.  Eventually you will work up enough nerve to say "Hi".  You'd be surprised, a lot of guys really like shy girls!
676484
As they say practice makes perfect. Just try casually talking to different girls and see what happens. You could also try joining a club or something that alot of girls are in so you can be more socialized and to face you fear of shyness.
280252
go somewhere u have something on common with other ppl and say hi i know ur shy but trust me i used to b shy till i made it though college and got tired of it surprisingly ppl dont mind you talking to them as long as u have something in common \n\n\noh there is some pill for it too (imagine that) but seriously its for ppl with social anxiety disorder
695106
be yourself, be friendly, know that things won't always be this way.  You will find someone who will accept you for who and what you are.  Try to have a girl as a friend and then maybe she will become a girlfriend.
607200
read this http://www.stwing.upenn.edu/~jenf/writing/rant04.html girls will eventuall grow out of that, im in your exact position, you may not have a girlfriend but in the long run, you will be a winner on it. I hate how it is but thats how the world is, have you tried to ask someone out? even to just a group outing (don't call it a date), or if your in hs, have you asked a girl to a dance? the girls always like nice guys, but they usually take us for granted, as there and someone to talk to. all i can say is try what i said above read the stuff on that site and be confident. best of luck\ncontact me if you have anymore questions, maybe i can be a bit more helpful since im where you are
50305
be your self and dont be shy
224075
Dude, I used to be in the same exact boat as you. I never thought I'd get a girlfriend...So I stopped trying. A few days later, I actually got a girlfriend. One year later we are still together and are both very happy. So, just stop trying to get a girlfriend...Go hang around with friends and stuff, you'll most likely meet a girl, and just be yourself. Also, be very confident. If you don't like yourself...who else will?
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hi there...  For what you wrote i think you could make a woman very very happy... and i actually believe that besides being shy, you got everything to have lots of dates. Try "indirect meeting" some of your friends might know someone you like, ask them to introduce her to you.. once you are in front of her, remember my words... with your personality you have success almost totally assured...  Try talking about something you might have in common. Do NOT try to show her what you are, let her discover it. in a few minutes, the conversation will continue by itself....\n "Emotional, supportive guy" are very appreciated qualities. Find someone that deserves you. if you fail once or twice (or more times) dont give up, there's always somebody special.
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I used to be just like that. but you dont really get over being shy, you jsut get better at being outgoing. the first thing i did was join a club that takes you all over the U.S., it's called FFA. I got a job and it was a waitress at a bar. so there are many opportunities there. just go up and talk to the guy, any guy, it's how i did it and now im still shoy to an extent, but hey, im get out there and i have fun while chatting up some hottie. so jsut break away and strike up a conversation with some random guy, like a guy from school, in the grocery store...anywhere...even in the mall. it works.
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TAKE COURAGE ! THERE IS HOPE.\n\nTry to be yourself in front of girls and don't be afraid of them. They won't bite you. Don't be like "OOh, what am I gonna do?" kind of thing when you are talking to them. Build your confidence by going to the gym, learn some skills, wear presentable clothes, improve your communication skills then I'm sure along the way, you will find yourself having a hard time choosing the best girlfriend.\n\n\nTry this as well: \n\n1. Start with your interests/sports. Hang out with your friends in those places (say, bowling alleys, swimming pools, etc.)\n2. Carry yourself modestly. Don't overdo it. \n3. A well behaved men sometimes attract women (i think).\n4. Attend parties for singles.\n5. Ask for referrals.\n6. don't go to the bars (it's risky).\n7. If you are good to one girl, this will be passed around in a jiffy. And you will meet more girls...for you to choose from.\n\nALL THE BEST.
350414
I used to have your same problem.  First get in shape so that you are confident about your appearance.  Then go out to bars and clubs and talk to as many girls as you can.  At first you might have to pump yourself full of drinks to get the courage to approach the ladies.  But believe me, like anything else, the more you practice the better you will get.  Once you start taling to a lot of girls, by trial and error you'll know what and what not to say, and how to act.  Eventually it will become second nature to you and you will have the courage to just ask girls out.
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stop being shy dude\ni was and i neva got a girl\nbut if i were u give it a shot
142463
Hang out where the shy girls hang out.  They will be glad to know you, too.  Quiet places, coffee shops, book shops, the corner of the cafeteria.  Good luck
549127
If you have honestly tried your best to fight your shyness with little , or no, success, you might need to go to the doctor, and be put on some medication for it. I, too, am shy, but I fight it every day, and "make" myself talk to people, and interact. Good Luck!!
734877
Find some confidence.\nIts pretty simple if you can overcome fear of rejection.\nBe fairly direct. Just ask.\nSecret:  Girls(women) are attracked to self-confidence.\n\nBut also be real, dont lie.  It is much easier to be yourself than someone else.
46339
FIRST OF ALL, DRESS NICE WITH CLEAN CLOTHS. KEEP HAIR CLEAN AND TEETH BRUSHED. LAST AND MOST IMPORTANT. ATTITUDE. IF YOUR OUT GOING CONFIDENT AND NICE YOU WILL CATCH THEY EYE OF THE OPPISITE SEX.  I USE TO BE REALLY SHY AND DIDNT KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO GIRLS AND HAD FEW GIRLFRIENDS. THEN ONE DAY I GOT FED UP AND DISNT CARE IF I LOOKED LIKE A JERK ANYMORE AND I STARTED TREATING GIRLS JUST LIKE I WOULD TREAT MY NORMAL GUY FRIENDS AND BAMM. NEXT THING I KNEW I NEVER HAD GIRL PROBLEMS AGAIN. SO CONFIDENCE HAS TO BE THE MAIN THING. DONT BE AFRAID TO WALK BY A GIRL YOU LIKE AND SAY "HEY I LIKE THAT SHIRT IT LOOKS COOL" THEN WALK AWAY IT JUST MIGHT SPARK UP A CONVERSATION BETWEEN THE TWO OF YOU