boy / best friends / love / hatred / help? i need some answers?
440318
You're in a pickle. In the future, ask someone if you can trust him/her to keep a secret before telling the person a secret. Of course it's wrong to have a BB gun and real guns on campus. SO if the important person was the principle, you did the right thing, and the troublesome guy shouldn't be a friend of yours. Relax, find a better guy to be friends with, now that the trouble maker is out of the way.
54843
I had a best friend like this.. you want to know her trick...??  She puts out, or promises to.. don't be like her, you are better than that.\n\nMy friendship with her ended because I became aware of how she interacted with boys, and I didn't want to be labeled as her friend since I didn't want to be labeled as loose..\n\nJust my opinion.. but still...
1075360
I think that your friends should stop fighting, this guy is not worth it. Let them know how important thier friendship is to you and that you dont want to lose any of them because of a stupid boy. If you dont want to be caught in the middle of this fight for ever I suggest that you tell your friends to lose the guy and continue with their friendship. After all little fights like these strengthen friendships. Good Luck
728195
best friends make the best long time partners. they know all your faults and love you in spite of them or because of them. run with it.
919559
It sounds like you have a crush on each other and neither one of you knows how to handle it. Be careful. The best way to forget him is to go on with your life. Find a new love interest but it will still take time. But best friends do sometimes make the best lovers and long lasting relationships. He might be picking on you because your friends and he doesn't know how to let you know he just might want more. If it doesn't work out you risk loosing the friendship.
670349
I'm kind of in the same situation...only I am in love with my best friend so that could be the cause, huh?  Anyway, if your love for him is only as a friend, you're probably thinking of him as a brother, and close siblings are generally protective of each other.  It's okay to be protective, just don't let it get in the way of your friendship.
468485
That's kind of a question you need to answer yourself. But I can give you some advice. What you need to do is sit down and think. Get three separate pieces of paper and write down all of the good things/moments about each guy and see which one has the most. Don't end it at that though. Think it through and see which guy you would be better off with. Who cares what your friends think? The decision is up to you. Whichever guy you pick, tell the other guys you're sorry and you think __________ is the best for you. They will eventually move on and get a separate life. I hope my advice works out for you and good luck. -Cody
75561
i got a friend w/ a similar problem. exept that the boys are also both perfect, sexy, and SOOOO nice to her! i hope people can help u and my friend also.
800883
I know exactly what you are going through! I was always worried either of them were going to pull the question "Me or Him" or "Me or Her". Luckily I talked to my bff and she and I agreed on walking to school together and my bf and I walk home together, while she and our other friends walk home in an opposite shorter way home. If you end up doing something similar make sure it's even for both your bf and bff... my bf had basketball practice after school on Wednesdays so that also gave me and my bff more time together, while from 4:30-7:00 pm on Sunday nights I would go to church with my bf... so it was even and no relationship was broken... and my bff and bf didn't have to spend any time together!!
299169
Be mad at the boy.  He lied to you straight out while on the other hand you told your friend it was ok for her to like him and she probably didn't expect him to ask her.  You should also be mad at yourself.  If you like someone you got to grab on and not wait till later or they will inevitably move on.
470786
Everybody hates their brother.  Even people that love their brother hate their brother.  It seems to be a brother's job to treat the other brother like crap.  It's not fair, it sucks and there's not much you can do about it except suck it up for now.\n\nGood news, though - when you get older everything changes.  Brothers become best friends.  All the crap he did to you will revert into funny memories and the bond you have will be strong and good until the day you die.\n\nMeanwhile, try itching powder in his boxers ;o)
499359
i know how you feel cause i'm going through this too but you have to handle it right , just leave the first move for the boy , if he really likes you he'd talk to you and declare his feelings ..anyway it's just my opinion and you have the last word ...anytime you need me i'd be so happy to offer my help ----> Nancy
1085512
Aw. Well, just sit him down and explain to him your feelings. Tell him you just want to go back to being friends. There really is no easy or "nice" way to do it because he probably will get hurt. But whatever you do, let him know you still think he's a great guy and that you value your friendship.. =). Hope that helped a little, haha. And thanks for answering mine.. our ages are 16.
46638
Aah - that's a sticky situation! I would hope that you have only sent "signals" to one of those guys. And you also need to decide if guy #1 is worth the drama. Because there may be some for a while. But after a couple of weeks I think guy #2 will get over it. He just has to find something else to think about other than you:) Bottom line - if you have strong feelings - go for it and let the best friend know without saying a word that you are unavailable to him. Good luck!\n-GirlShrink
511423
Ok let me clear this ....\n\nI like this guy ...>>>\n\nFine u like that guy.... \n\nwho is best friend with my guy- best friend...(that part is confusing) \n\nI think ur trying to say that u have another GUY best friend and the guy u like is the best friend of that guy. Okkkkkk\n\nFine....\n\nWENT out wit my best friend so its she...obviously...\n\nSo ur guy best friend dated wit ur best friend where the guy u like have been introduced to ur best friend...\n\nAnd u feel that he likes her....\nok \nthat's enough... u pls add more details....\n\n\nBut all i can say is dont think, that will lead u into problems...talk and deside..\n\nGOOD LUCK.
158744
Ive been in that situation. In a perfect world, it would be great if you could all hang out together at the same time and be cool.  But since this is the REAL world and they actually HATE each others guts... for your sanity and out of respect for your friends, keep them apart ALWAYS.  Good Luck!
573818
You need to have a talk with your best friend about how you two are always going to be best friend through thick and thin always and forever.Guys come and go but friends stay forever.