If one of your friends gets with the person you like what should you do?
438680
You tell exactly how you feel. Let her know that you liked the boy first and she know that she was wrong for going with him. When you tell her this make sure you do not say it mean but in a way to let her know that you are trully hurt. Trust me this will work, I just told my best friend how I felt and she broke up with her boyfriend.
1103557
a friendly date?Sure why not,nothing wrong with friends hanging out.If you are interested in one of them and you have other things in mind and you ask them both out ,You could ruin your chances with either of them so be careful.You can only love one of them or else you are considered a jerk.
297705
stay quiet. or take the chance of losing a friend over a guy. it is your choice!
520249
I suggest you make sure they are not bf/gf.  You stated she likes?  and then stated her bf.  If she just liked him, then you did nothing wrong. As that is past tense.  If it is her bf, then you did something wrong.  So enjoy life and I bet yourfriend is going to last longer than the guy you kissed...
724069
I would say its a bad idea. If this person is your friend then going after someone they were with is just bad karma. The best thing I can suggest is to talk to her and tell her how you feel.
72433
Don't do anything.  If nothing develops with your friend and the guy for a certain amount of time, let's say a month, then tell your friend you wish you could date him.  \n\nShe might be cool with it, if not, then you should really try to hook them up with each other, because it would be no fair to you, if she didn't do anything at all.
912085
If they are such great friends then I suggest she just go with the flow...If they are meant to be together then it will happen naturally...dont tempt fate...it could ruin everything.  tell her just to remain his great friend and things may aventually happen...good luck
338713
if you like each other, hang out together and do what you both enjoy.
651123
If your friend hasn't made a move you should.If your friend has made a move wait and see.There is more fish in the sea.And friendship is more inportant then a girl.
889934
Whatever you do dont break the unspoken rule which is dont date your friends exboyfriends. Let it go if its a really good friend if not then wait til they break up. What I mean is dont worry so much about it, if it happens then it does if not then oh well. Date whom ever you'd like for now and if it were to work out that you were single at the same time only then pursue it if it wasnt a good friend.
50898
Does the someone else like you in return? The honorable thing to do would be to end the current relationship (whether the someone else likes you or not) since you're obviously not that into it. But I'd like to know I had a backup plan first, if possible...
367443
hey girl if your friend went out with this guy you shouldn't try to get with this guy but if you really like him you should talk to your friend about this little crush but before you do that you have to know how he feels about you and you also have to think about what you want her frinship or this guy cuz you probably can't have both!
121172
Just be a real friend to both of them. They both like each other. If you make a move for her, you could lose both of them. There may be another chance later on if this is meant to be.
1161924
Tell your friend that you can see why he likes HER, but it's too late because you already know that she likes YOU.  \nThen tell him ' I hope you don't get mad about it because we're buddies."
641049
Go for the girl you like... if you start dating her friend then you'll NEVER get to date her if it doesn't work out with her friend.  If you go out with the friend, you'll just regret it because you'll see the girl you like all the time but won't get to be with her.  Don't play her friend unless you think you can grow to really like her, because it'll end up being a waste of time for both of you.\n\nIf I told a guy I was "kinda dating," it'd be because I wanted the other guy to stay interested.  It's almost like a "wait for me until I get out of this."  She probably doesn't want to come off as rude and just dump the guy for you, so stay persistent.  You like *her*, not her (your other) friend so much.  She's the target... So aim and fire.
62271
May the best friend win!  But if he picks her, still be friends with her!\n\nAnd if he picks YOU, have him select one of his friends to introduce her to.
538036
well, i think you should chose the one that would be best for you. if you like one guy, but your friends dont like him or he gets you in trouble, then you definatly shouldnt go with him unless you like that type. well, i would write more but i dont want to run out of room. i hope it works out with you and whoever you chose