Why are the really cute guys, mean jerks???
453246
because their egos are bigger than their brains!
588861
hot guys aren't mean and stupid.\nThey just have higher standards. so if you don't fit there, that means that you are not good enough for them.\nsome ugly guys are ready to go with girls my dog wouldn't date. so they can just treat you better.while a hot guy finds you worthless.\nso forgive us if we can't lie to our selves.
998931
Are you serious??? There are still guys like that? Haha. That’s quite funny because you don’t find many guys who think or feel that way anymore.  And when you do your lucky. The reason girls feel like that is because that’s probably all guys had wanted from them before. No matter how many times guy say “not all guys are jerks” The moment we start to believe some guys are nice and give them a chance, is when we end up getting fooled and hurt. Some girls get so hurt by the fact of being used and being told lies so that guys could get what they wanted. If you really are interested in a girl, prove to her your not like that. It may be hard work at first but in the end, it’ll be worth it. Goodluck.
47514
Girl trust me I do the same thing, and ask myself the same question. I finally came to realize that I don't think we do it on porpose, sometimes it just happens that way. Maybe we are afraid of being happy, or maybe we grew up in a really strict family, and we are good girls, and opposites really do attract. It's kindof like we realize that we will never be bad girls, so jerky, bad boys are what attracts us. Sometimes for me it's fun to get my heart broken so that I can be sad. You will realize though girl that in the end it's not worth it. I regret turning down good guys for jerks, cuz in the end I always lose. And a lot of times the good guys are nerdy, because since they have no looks they have to treat girl good. Maybe we are just to picky. But trust me there are good looking guys that will treat you good. Just don't give up.
1000080
Listennnnn... Can i be real with you? I can... thank you. First off not all guys are jerks i know ladies i know there are dogs out there but there are some female dogs ( i aint gonna say it) out there too. But if you always on look out you might push away some real good guys. A good way to tell is look at his friends and how he acts with them if most of them are assholes he might be too. Ask other girls about him. Other thing is most girls let there friends pick there male counterpart I say what do you think do you feel he is? So Listennnnn to ya boy give him a chance you only live once.
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CUTE GUYS CUTE GUYS CUTE GUYS!!!!!!!!!!!
422223
most guys r jerks because they acts like jocks or they try 2 show off way 2 much. most girls dont like that. just, be yourself.......good luck with the long term!!!!!!!!!
884385
Most like the assertive type,,, a take control kinda guy,,,,,,,, but they are the first to trash guys because guys are just ass holes,,,,,\n\nnow if they dated more quiet reserved guys they would see a whole other side,,, but the "nice guy is usually left in the dust,,,
276488
They have other priorities, like intelligence, appearence or social position-- but it's very rare for a girl to ultimately settle down with a guy who's a jerk, it's usually a great fling-- one other aspect here is that rude is in the eye of the beholder... you may think he's being a jerk but sometimes she thinks it's funny or just agressiveness but not necessarily rudeness
480105
Because guys are shallow
416677
i agree with you, most guys need to get some things straight.  although i disagree with you on the decent guys being taken.  i have quite a few friends who are decent guys and they are upset that all the decent girls are with these pathetic guys that you mention.  guys nowadays think it's perfectly fine to treat other people like crap.  they care only for themselves, so if a girl dumps them for being rude or unkind, they shrug it off and try to find someone else.
1178210
In most cases, when someone is making fun of someone they are doing it because of some kind of insecurity thing inside of them. They lash out at something that someone else has in order to not have to face something that they have. Does that make sense? I was told a long time ago that when a person points a finger that there are three fingers pointing back at the person doing the pointing.\n\nThose "jerks" must have a problem. It is not all about handsome. It is about character and feeling and being real and they just do not get it. I understand. I have never been the "handsome" guy that makes people stop and take a second look. I am a nice guy. Sure, I have been over-looked by people. I understand the feeling. It sucks. Sad to say, it is how our society is today. They always use the "beautiful" people to sell products. You never see a chunky girl dive into the pool, swim to the ladder, climb out of the pool and say, "I got this way drinking diet coke." It is life. \n\nBe you. The hell with them. Be the beautiful guy that you are. The ones that matter will notice. You will not have to wear a mask. You will be and you are beautiful, just as you are.\n\nI hope that I said what I meant to say and it makes sense.
458785
Those kinds of guys are usually the dumbed-down jocks who tend to view life as a pie-eating contest, and view all women as nothing more than somekind of dessert. It's people like that who cause everyone else to be stereotyped, because all they are interested in is constantly working to outdo and outperform each other in every way they can, and prove they are somehow better or more macho or other really dumb and ridiculous bullSh like that.
345367
They treat you nice in the beginning to bait the woman in then once they get comfortable the real jerk comes to life.The reason why some men do this is because if they really were to act like themselves, they would never get any sex!!!!
384927
Because nine times out of ten the jerk has the nerve to go up to the girl and talk to her. Or that's been my experiance from tlaking to girls. They want the nice guy, but they want the nice guy to go and ask them out not just be-friend them and beat around the bush.
450955
take it from me, they play that, bc they have to make sure the guy is up for anything. in other words, they want to make sure that YOU are SURE you want to be with them before they devote all their time and energy into a relationship with you. duh! guys hurt gals in so many sick and twisted and horrible ways, if you dont know. everyone is different, i know, but that's why they shy away, to make sure that's what YOU really want, so they dont jump in and scare YOU away like sum guys. its an emotion thing.!!!
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Why . . . because they have no game . . . and they don't know how to play.  They are dirt a** broke . . . and are desperate for companionship.\n\nI may not be the hottest guy around . . . but I still get my pick of the litter . . . and I don't have to say a word to do it.