Guys are confusing.. can someone tell me what they think is going on-- read the details...?
446954
Alright, he could have just gone through puberty you know? so, after all that he just get a little confused.. like all of us girls do.. so, give him some time and let him know that u still want to be his friend.. i think it would be best not to confront him being weird and everything, guys dun usually talk about their feelings..\n\nAnother answer would be simply he likes u.. yeah, really. someone once told me that when a guy starts ignoring and acts all different with a girl, that means he likes her and is trying to see if the girl would go after him. So,it's up to u girl, whether to respond or not..\n\nOr... another suggestion is that he may have some inner problem, his family, his friends and other stuff. Maybe he's going through some peer pressure, or he's trying to find out his identity in this world. Usually, ppl like this tends to be a bit withdrawn.. Same answer, give him some time and still let him know you just want to be friends.\n\nI hope this helps! Good luck!
321098
yes!!! if he likes u, he would've called by now. hes probably playing mind games with u. he's stringing u along.  move on!! lots of guys out there who would actually call.
1098194
I'm having that EXACT same problem right now with a guy I'm hanging out with.\n\nAre you friends with him?  does he call you?  Do you hang out together?  Or are you wanting to know whether or not he is interested in doing these things with you?  Because there is a big difference, at least to me.
1159748
LOL!! That was a beautiful way to handle that situation!! <bowing humbly>  There is nothing wrong with what you asked him and if he's never talked to you like this before, I would be a little suspicious.  Why is he so defensive?  It was an innocent question, nothing clingy about it.  Something doesn't sit right with this...I could be wrong...but it sounds like he's trying to hide something.
778595
she's messing with YOUR MIND. it's quite fun to do actually...\nbut i could ask you the same question...why are guys so confusing???
836401
i am in this situation right now. maybe he feels that he rushed into things. maybe he thought he liked you, possibly really did, then realized that there is nothing theree. i need to tell her. damn. \n\nbut really, dont fret. just wait and see.
1068919
It`s a con.He`s having problems with his current relationship or in between women and is trying to fill the gap. Do what you must but be wary,out of the blue,huh? Hope the best for you. There are some decent men out there and I would bet you are a nice person so don`t settle for a drifter.(user)
1002014
My guess would be he's contemplating on something he isn't sure of. Maybe the feeling he has for you. Or he's figuring out whether you can read his mind or not. A communication thing, anyhow!
597945
Sitting around, wondering & doing nothing won't get either of you back together. If you think it's worthwhile to try again, make the first move & see what happens. I'm not saying go all out and tell him outright. That's just me & I'd much prefer the guy to take the lead to let me know where he's headed. Just call and say Hi or leave some kind of messsage that let him know. See what he does next. Be prepared for the worst though as he may have moved on. At least you won't spend your life wondering.
694009
If the relationship is new, it may just be that.  I would ask him, tell him and see what he says.  It may be that he is picking up little clues and gathering the information, or it may be that he isn't interested.  Talking to him is your best bet.
993374
He sounds confused, maybe he doesn't know what he wants..He would love you in the future? Does he have a specific date on his calendar or what? Maybe he likes someone else and just wants to keep you on the back burner..Sounds strange anyways
1091593
Maybe he needs something from you and he's just too shy to comfront you with it. Normally, shy men whos attracted to you behaves exactly what you have described. I think this guy needs encouragement from you, so he would be able to tell you whats on his mind. Goodluck!
626481
Please talk to him about how you feel!! From experience men are not mindreaders and they would truly be clueless if no one clues them in! After the talk if he continues to do the same thing then dump him.
214870
Your right to be concerned.  It sounds like this guy is all talk and no action.  If he really loved you and wanted to be with you then he would.  Right now it sounds like this is just a game for him with you being his back up.
151327
It seems like hes not sure what he really wants to do, hes probably confused. Or he's not really into you and he didn't wanna hurt your feelings. Or lol he's one of those shy guys where YOU have to make the first move
763703
It appears you have a lot of doubts and questions about this man. He is certainly sending up enough red flags. You need to love yourself enough to get out now and save yourself a lifetime of wondering.
947588
duhhhhh he's keepin you around just in case. things might not be going as well as he wished with shit new girl. so he's gettin back with you as "friends".\n\non the other hand, he might be genuinely interested in a friendship.\n\npersonally, i think he's just tryin to keep those lines of communication open. maybe its time for you to move on and find a boyfriend so it doesn't matter what he wants.