What you do if you don't want your boyfriend to talk to other girls?
452632
You need to loosen his leash!  It's perfectly OK for your BF to talk to other girls.  It's the actions that you need to be concerned about.
663505
Ok, first your boyfriend looks at other females, it's normal a guy can't help but to look as long as it is looking instead of touching...If you love him, you wouldn't let him go......If he wanted to date someone else, he wouldn't be with you....Just ask him what does those other girls have that you don't.....What will it take for him to be proud of what he has.......Maybe he looks and thinks that you have them beat!!!  Who knows what runs in guys head!!  I caught my man nodding at another girl, talking to another girl, and looking at a girls butt......But he is still with me!!!  Just don't let it get to you......It will all work it course!!!
846746
If he is believing what this other girl is saying, then he is unlikely to want to talk to you.  If I were you I would put all the truth in a letter and send it to him.  Try to keep it as brief as you can with all the details in the first few lines in case he thinks it is just a ploy to get him back.  What you write in your first couple of lines need to hit him in the face so he wants to continue reading.  Maybe getting to the point straight away saying ..."such and such(girl who is spreading rumours) is telling you lies, I have proof, please read on"  That should get his attention so that he will read on to get your side on things.\n\nYou have friends on your side, so that is a real plus, they obviously believe you over her and if you have their support it wont be long until your ex finds out the truth too and this girl is exposed for who she really is.  It will be her who loses out in the long run.  Vindictive people only have their victory for such a short time and then it all blows up in their face.  You have the truth on your side and the truth should always win out in the end.  Note I say, should.  Your ex may genuinely like this girl so wont be ready to believe the truth even if it does hit him in the face.  If she has won him over, then it is going to take some pretty clever thinking on your behalf and you have to start thinking of ways to expose this girl so that no-one will have any doubts, including your boyfriend.  Maybe talk to this girl yourself....set her up and tape the conversation.  Your ex boyfriend cannot deny the truth if he hears it with his own ears.  Girls at your age are pretty smart at working out ways to get back at the "bad" guy.  Use your imagination, there are ways to expose this girl.  Get together with your friends, think as a group how you can achieve what it is you want.\n\nI wish you all the best and I hope you get your boyfriend back.  But even if you dont, a girl as loyal as you wont have any problem finding another boy who trully trusts you and wont easily be put off by words of a stranger, and basically that is what has happened.  He has known you for much longer than he has known her, yet he has believed her over you.  If he believed in you, he wouldnt have been so easily put off. so I would really be questioning if he is the right one for you.  It was too easy for this girl to pull him away from you, so it seems to me he hasnt much loyalty and is too ready to believe the negative instead of trusting his girlfriend.\n\nGood luck...hope it all turns out the way you want it to.
672004
It really isn't your place to be "speaking" for your boyfriend. If he truly cares about you and doesn't want to keep getting the attention from the other girl, than he will tell her to leave him alone. The letter just makes you look like an insecure, jealous girl. It won't have any affect on the other girl except to maybe make her try even harder because you make it sound like she is a threat to you and your boyfriend remaining together and that she has a chance of breaking the two of you up.\n\nk.m.
777508
Honestly if this is the only reason you want to break up with your boyfriend, you might be the one who has to work through some issues.  What makes you so insecure around these people?  Do you think he will cheat on you?  Do you think you could possibly become friends with them as well?  If you don't think you can handle your boyfriend having friends of the opposite sex, you might want to end the relationship.  However if you truly love him and you trust he won't cheat on you with these friends, you need to get past the insecurities.  Best of luck to you.
489512
ask him to whisper to your boyfriend what he said then you don't have to tell your boyfriend yourself
995238
Your boyfriend should not want to be in a realtionship if this is the kind of behavior he likes to do with his female friends. There is no way you will ever feel better about what he is doing. Sound like he doesn't have to much respect for you or your feeling.
351062
you know when your boyfriend is using you when:\n1. he never talks to you anymore!\n2. he never hangs around you anymore!\n3. the girl he is using you with never hangs around you or talk to you anymore as well!\n4. he chooses to talk to other girls rather then you!!\n                  and that's pretty much all!!
429818
Just tell your girlfriend but reassure her that you don't want to be with this girl and you're trying to handle the situation.\n\nIt's better to come clean than have your gilrfriend somehow find out and think the worst of you.
310375
Sounds like he's a loser.. I would seriously think about getting rid of him. \n\ntalk to him and tell him that it hurts you to see him talking to other girls.. if he's not willing to talk to you about it and how he feels about you with other boys.. then well he obviously dosn't love you as much as you love him. and why waiste your time and life with someone who doesn't love you, eh?
107059
No. My boyfriend have friends who are girls. I have male friends. We're cool like that.
283891
How you ever tried talking to your boyfriend about it, sit him down, talk to him and let him know that you feel less desired when he is not giving you the attention, that he shows to others.
226066
I'm going to be as honest as I can without hurting you. Telling him you have feelings for him even though you know he has a girlfriend is inappropriate. If he's with another girl, you need to start looking for other guys. You don't want to bring a lot of unnecessary complications into your life because she thinks you're trying to "steal" her boyfriend. Teenagers are incredibly territorial and very immature.
830332
I know you don't want to hear it but you can't make someone feel the same way you do about them. But you can always try the old trick of getting another girl to make her jealous just be sure to tell the other girl what your doing not leading her on
1001661
SIt her down and talk to her. Let her know that you didn't try to talk to her ex. make her belive. tell her you would never be that low-down of a person.Tell her you can tell that has caused her to distrust you but you really don't want to get with her boyfriend and explain that you would never hurt her
246598
if that's what she wanted to do then that's her although I've never experienced that before, I dont even want my boyfriend to see me having sex or do sexual things with someone else, and most definately dont want him to do it, but like i said she shouldnt feel bad because you gave her permission, but once you two get into an argument dont bring that up because you told her that it was cool, and if she ever want to do it again, you already gave her permission, how could you let another guy touch her anyways, or let her touch another guy? I cant see it, if my boyfriend's gone be with someone else, he's going to sneak and do it
887555
Have your boyfriend forward that forwarded message back to the girl friend. A few people may grow up a bit.