is it good for me to get married because im disabled?
447040
Is this from a financial point of view? I think you should only marry someone because you love them. Living with someone isn't always easy normally in a loving relationship...it can be hell if it was done for other reasons!! Financially, you could actually lose certain benefits depending on the state you live in.
824998
If you are concerned about the legal benefis when you marry someone then you should probably not get married. Marriage is about love, not material things you'll receive.
483852
You need to get a lawyer either way.  Disability is a federal program, not regulated by the states, though you have to go through the state social security system to get placed on disability.  Unless you are missing both arms or are completely paralyzed you NEED a lawyer to have any chance of getting disability.  They deny over 90% of initial applications and without an attourney you have almost zero chance of making an appeal.  If you can show that your condition (no matter what it is) is completely preventing you from maintaining gainfull employment you can get disability.  Right now you'll get about $600 a month plus a supplement for your kids but it will take at least a year (oh, and legal representation ;) to start receiving payments.
308198
let me try then i tell u whether you can marry or not..
1127803
I don't want to be mean but if you ask me, I would never go out with a semi-disabled guy. Beside being there one for another emotionally, in a couple sharing activities is the best way to be together. \nI'm a curious person, I always want to do new things, even extrem sports, I walk very fast and I can't imagine being with someone who would keep on slowing me down. I couldn't climb a mountain anymore because my friend can't do it and he will be lonely? No way. \nNo offense but you need a girl who would act as a nurse. You can find girl like that if you look hard enough. Every girl is different, you should find a girl like you, not too outgoing, who likes to talk more than you do, not very energetic and first of all a girl who loves for what you are. \nGet real and try to get better, go a doctor and fix your problem, get more self-confiance and take care of your inner and out look. You should stop looking at the bad parts of life and please don't be sad when someone tells you no.
449349
As long as it isn't putting your child in a bad place, e.g. bad schools, worse chance at life, I don't see why not.  Why not get married first?  Will your parents let you back if you decide it isn't right?
1098971
Yes, most of the time.  I have found out that now being disabled, that because of a disability, people pass you by and won't give you a second look.  I had a friend who has kept hitting on me for the past 13 yrs, I'm married and she knew it but was still hitting on me so I'd leave my wife for her.  Once I was hurt and now declared disabled, she wants no part of me what so ever.  And I tried to go to her, because of my wife and I have been fighting because of my disability.  I feel invisible too from everyone my friends have abandoned me and most of my family(mother, brothers, sisters, cousins, aunts, uncles) have basically shut me out, like I'm an outcast.  I want to scream at the top of my lungs sometimes, "I am still here, I am the same person as before, but now with limitations."
293909
Check out http://disabilities-r-us.com
851065
IN CERTAIN PLACES MARRIAGES IN THIS RELATION IS ALLOWED.  BETTER YOU TALK TO YOUR PARENTS OTHERWISE GO FOR COURT MARRIAGE.
245441
You would be surprised at some of the reasons some people marry. But being able to tolerate them is a priority. \nStrange. LOL
122489
As a person with a SCI, I would suggest making sure he is really involved with the planning of the wedding. I can't imagine why things would have to be any different than if he did not have a SCI. Just make sure he really feels comfortable with all the details along the way, and congratulations!
855960
It sounds to me like a bit of reverse psychology....... just do what you feel is right in your heart. I would marry my partner to if it were legal,but I can't, and yet I still make love to my partner on a daily basis...... don't let your mom behind your closed doors. Those are decisions that you and your partner are going to have to make.
154410
marry him!!\nowh wait..before that..\nfirst of all..only you can sort this out..if you think you can cope with problems you may face..(due to the 'no qualifications' thing)..then you should indeed marry him..\ni advise you that its the best anywayz..but ever heard of this?\nwhen poverty knocks on the door,\nlove and trust flies out the window..\n\nmake your own decissions..age is no issue!~
578794
I hope you mean 'Why can't I marry someone I love?'\nBecause what I can see from your icon and your name. You family has already promised you to someone. If you decide not to follow through you will have put 'shame' or you have made your family lose face. If it is that situation, I know how you feel. I am not a piece of property to bargin with. That is why I know the anger/sadness you feel.
411087
If you feel as though people are not 'giving you a chance' b/c you are disabled, that is discrimination and you can sue for that. Also, try Wal-Mart. I don't know about your disability, but Wal-Mart and other grocery stores are pretty good at hiring disabled people. Good luck to you and your husband.
1131438
I'm sorry for your heart break. I became disabled a year ago. I walk funny but I still get dates.
1107294
Don't know. MY uncle os disabled and he works for the national park service. You should try the government.