how can i take  back a guy that i know  still loves me but is  too proud to come forward?
454419
Ask yourself do you really want him back?? Or do you want the feeling of being in a loving relationship?? If it is him, that you want back, does he want you back? I think that best thing that you can do for yourself is to go on with your life. There are others out there and you are holding yourself back wanting what you can't have. We always want what we can't have,but while you are pining away for the past you are missing out on the future. If you two are meant to be together than it will happen. You can't make someone want you and you can't take him back, he is not yours he belongs to himself and he has to find his own way in life.
61389
You take it one day at a time. Get involved in other activities & hobbies & force yourself to ignore any of this person's attempts to get you back. You deserve better...just keep reminding yourself that you don't deserve to be hurt anymore...\n\nGood luck!
129144
I'm in the same situation\nBut all u have to do is walk up to him and just tell him how u feel. But let him know that if he doesn't love u back that u guys could still be friends.\nBut I also know this is easier said than done. Trust me
1001165
infact every person is alowed to make mistakes if not, that means you are not human.to start off just be yourself and take the bull by its horns that means take a chance and say that you are sorry if he still declines your pardon dont take it the wrong way.in fact maybe he had wanted to drop you a long time but did not know in which way to do so and from that little mistake he capitalised on it so,the best thing is to start from scratch again the many times you fall down doesnt count its the many of times you get back up to survive and have a happy life is the way to a journey for glory so try to find someone that will accept your love and for who you are even mistakes in a relation will never mind to a guy that loves you dearly.trust
269325
You walk away with pride and honor because you are a woman.  Then, you understand that he could not have been good for you in your life, and you set new goals for yourself.  You put your memories of him behind you and move forward with a smile and a very positive energy.\n\nWhat else would you possibly want to do?  You must grow and learn from all of the experiences in your life.  This is just another of them.
585821
Well this depends how he says hey is it a hey kind of quite and looks away, or a hey like he forces himself to say it. If it is a quite hello then he obviously wants you back as much as you and is NOT going to step up and say it! Most guys just will not go first. So take the plunge and just tell him Since the day we broke up you have been on my mind! I want to try to make this work again!!! And he will either say He has really missed you or be ignorant and say something stupid like "well I don't know" but don;t worry he will come around if he was truly in love with you! Guys actually have stronger emotions they we give them credit for but half the time they just don't say it b/c they may feel stupid or don't know if you feel the same way. So usually the girls have a make the leap! GOOD LUCK I hope I have helped!
333526
if you fought so much, ask yourself, do you truly love him? is he right for you? if the answer is yes, you should probably follow your heart and try to win him back, but if the answer is no, the just forget him, and move on, since each experiences in life only make you a stronger person
102169
Why would you want to?  You're obviously not a priority for him, so don't give him the ego-boost that would come from you crawling back to him.  Living well is the best revenge; go find yourself a better man who will put you first and foremost in his life.  He's moved on - it's time for you to do the same.
612724
trying to get back at some one doesn't help anything. Be the bigger person and go on with your life. Obviously if he doesn't think highly enough about you to be honest, he's no worth it. Be the bigger person and show him whats he's missing.
435367
If that's how you feel then you have no choice but to put it all out there, just like that.  There's no time to beat around the bush, or hold back your words.  Worst case scenario, he rejects you- but then you'll at least know where you stand, and that you did EVERYTHING you could.  You don't want to have regrets later on, or wonder if there was anything else you could have said or done.  Good luck, and know that no matter how this turns out, you were true to yourself, loved him with all that you had, and fought for what you wanted.
398975
Hay ..i just broke up wit my bf a month ago....the only way u will win his heart back is stop calling him and stop seeing him..dun make contant wit him not even if u wanted to ...u hav to be strong .. i know it hard to do and it imporsible to do it if u really love them ..but u want him right!! dun beg him to come back to u ..the more u ask them to come to u the more they will run away ..pretent u dun need them to make ur life happy ....that way they will wonder why!!!and they will think they make a mistake.. People wanted wht they can't hav ...i try this idea to my ex and it kind of work ...altho we didn't get back together he stay willing to be my friend ..if u r friend wit him it always hav time to get back ..and now he said he miss me ....i hope it will work for u if u try my way ..Be strong ...if he didn't come back he dun derseve u ...girl u hav to be strong ..mostly Move on wit ur life ....
129666
That is tough.  At least he called.  If you don't sweat him and give him the space he needs, he will find his way back to you.
399514
if you really want him back too, i suggest you do..but if not, tell him straight out..i also suggest you rush thinking about it because if you take too long, he might pick up and leave, something you might not want to happen..
22576
You could do something that reminds him of a time that both of you were loving each other.  If that does not work, you have to accept that people change and have to move on.
449242
YEAH, you go girl.  Forget the loser!  Dont you dare let him back into your life!!!
1135480
by not telling him your hurting him more. the day will come where you will crush him better to snatch the bandaid off rather then slowly peel it away. be open and honest and show respect but do it soon.
903441
You broke up with him because you wanted him to change.  Now, you want suggestions on how to change him back.  I think you should stop focussing on how he should act, and focus on your own behavior because you can only control your actions, not his.  Obviously, it seems like you should have thought through breaking up more before you actually did it.  You hurt him.  You have to show him that you can be trusted.  Apologize, be honest with him about your feelings and let him be.  If he comes back to you, he is in your future.  If he doesn't, then learn from the experience and the next time you're with someone you're totally crazy about, don't get caught up in fixing his flaws.