What do you do when you have a partner that plays all the time.  It's getting to the point where it's a pain.
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Life's too short to take serious.  There's rules and regulations around every corner, you shouldn't have them at home too. Maybe he's under a lot of stress and that's his way of just letting go. Would you want a stick in the mud?  My girl's father has absolutely no sense of humor or communication skills- I was young when I met him but now I'm just bored. I have to make my self laugh! \n\nSo smile, laugh and play with him, the world doesn't let you any other time.  It also sounds like he's happy. Maybe he just loves life, his life with you, his family.\n\nConsider yourself blessed!
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Let him know how you feel if things remain this way get out while you can. If he loves you he will change his ways. Things will only get worse if you done deal with them now.
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talk to them,tell them how ur feeling about it let them know that everyday u are worried that they are actually gonna go through with it and u are gettin tired of it.just let them know that u love both of them and u want them to just decide what their gonna do already instead of worring you constantly.good luck and hope it turns out how u hope
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Tell him to let you know where he's coming from if he wants to continue on in a relationship or give up.  And be firm about it.  Stop playing games.
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first try to work things out. talk to him, go to counseling.. if he still does not want to work things out  try to find out why he does not want to be with you anymore. and if it's something you can fix put on your game girl and step up to him.
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Give him some time to deal with his issues and all.\nTalk to him about this after things settle down some.\nMaybe he feels you are the dominate one in this relationship.\nIs it really that hard to deal with?\nHang in there a bit....OK!
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Good Question.  It's one that I have has to struggle with for a few years now.  Just add a kid to the picture too, that's rough. \n\n Well, you should always remain supportive and try not to be negative or seem like you are putting down his dedication to his job.  Make him love the time that you two do spend together and maybe he'll find more time to enjoy you.  The most important thing to do is to be patient and understanding.
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My advice is, not to push the issue. He has said he needs time, and I know that's frustrating, but you have to give him time....or move on!
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Look I went through the same thing with my ex wife ....I started to realize it wasn't any thing I could do.... Cause it wasn't just up to me it was up to her too.....You can only carry some one for so long before you end up being the same person....I know it will be hard but maybe it is time to move on ....Don't be anybodies fool... You need to start a life that gives you some comfort and happiness..Sounds like you need it....And I know you have a child ,but wouldn't you rather have you child have all the love he/she could get from you ? Rather than you being so worried about what your husband is doing late at night.When you woory about what your husband is doing you take away the focus your child needs .... Hope that helps a little\nEXPLAYA here
986512
You're going to need professional counseling. It sounds like he has lost motivation in the relationship and the underlying cause may be hard to find without a counselor's help.
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He shouldn't go there PERIOD!! It doesn't matter how bored you are! There are millions of places to play games on the net, if you're bored. Don't believe him...he's a cheater and a dog! If you let him get away with this...he will continue to do it and Lord knows what else behind your back! Put your foot down now! Tell him he's gone if you find that crap again, he has NO reason to go there if he's in a happy relationship...and tell him if he's not happy, he needs to get steppin'.
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It's great if you love someone, and they love you back.  However, if you don't feel that she loves you, then you should probably move on.  \n\nPlaying games is not something that people do when they love another person.  Attempting to change IS.  \n\nSo if she keeps playing games, move on.  If she is making an honest attempt to change, then stay with her and see if it works out.
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You can't unless it is you playing the games, otherwise you are just in a place that you have to be the better person and not allow the person who still wants to play these games get the best of you. Only you can choose to play with them or to ignore what they are doing.
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I know that you don't play to long!!!   Why play hard to get if you like  him?  Life is to precious to be wasting time...get together and enjoy each other!
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Listen,my man does me the same way,but I don't play with myself,I'm just a Bitch for the rest of the evening..This maybe hard for you,but it works for me..Next time he wants it turn him down a few times and show him how it feels then maybe he'll give it up to you more when you want it..Don't cheat on him,that's the worst thing you could do..Since your into playing with yourself just get your own little toy and use it..Or just quit playing with yourself and be the biggest bitch to him and let him know how you feel..Tell him hay your not giving me want I want and need so I'm about to cheat on you..Life ain't nothing without making love..Just give turning him down a try without playing with yourself and see how it will make him feel..If you do that I hope it works..
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Tell him how u feel once and for the very LAST time. YES I SAID "LAST" cause u cant keep going back and forth like a tennis ball. Even a tennis match has an outcome.I think u both should make a pact to stop sleeping with other people. If this is going to be a serious committment then u will also need to know what he wants, so ask. And ask yourselves is this what i really want? Make sure u both know what exactly went wrong to have gotten to the beginning of the divorce phase & ask yourselves, "have i dealt with it? overcome it? and am i ready to try this again, and now?" Being all alone isn't fun. it's not enough and you know this. Love may not be the issue, committment sounds to be it. Only you two know. You both need to not only want this but be willing to try and give your ALL. Situation sounds iffy. If u both get on the same page i say GO FOR IT! But dont rush someone who just isnt there. move on in that case. :) keep faith but dont be a fool ok
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Just confront him in a respectable manner. Tell him how you feel and ask him why he plays favorites. If matters are really bad offer to have the whole family go to counseling. Good Luck!