should i go out with my bestfriend?
441940
i think you should take the risk...i started going out with one of my good friends, and we ended up falling in love.  since you guys started out as good friends, i think no matter what happens you'll always be close.  who knows, maybe he'll be your true love
212426
Aw you poor thing, i can see where that'd be embarassing:( if you wanna date her, go for it! (i posted a question because i have a crush on my best friend - a guy - so i know how you feel, hehe) but if you dont wanna be anything more than friends (or she doesn't) then maybe try easing off the cuddling a little bit or something...
920844
woooooow your just about 4 or 5 years younger then me and you still seem a little young, girly you are a little too young, but anyway you need to ask yourself whats more important, your BESTFRIEND or some boy thats going to end up breaking your heart anyway...i dont want to make it seem horrible but who's to say the same thing he's doing to your friend he won't do to you?  how do you know if he's going to be promising your best friend a 'relationship' when you and him are together (3 years from now). just know that boyz come and go but friends last for ever. so ask yourself is he really worth it?
540348
yes, bestfriends can become lovers...i even think that it's actually better because you know each other really well, you care,trust and respect each other and you have the strongest bond: love... i think that you may not have heard from him because he is as confused as you are...he doesn't know if what he did was right and if you feel the same way for him...this kind of thing can be confusing, you see...you want to have this relationship but you're both so scared that if something goes wrong, you lose the friendship you have...since you love him too, i suggest that you do the thing that you said you didn't want to do: confront him...he did the first step of telling you how he feels...it's your turn now...tell him you feel the same, tell him you're scared too but if you talk about it, you cand find a solution together...tell him you don't want to lose your best friend even if things might not go the way you want them to...tell him that you want that 2nd kiss too...hehe!good luck!i hope you work this out... ^_^
796149
Go for it!!!  This guy sounds like a keeper!!  Talk to your best friend about it, if you are worried what she may think...she may be absolutely delighted!  This guy knows how to cheer you up at the right time??  What a prize!  The worst thing that can happen is you still have two great friends.  Good luck!
117402
If you like him alot then ask out he will probably understand I liked my best friend and know he is my boyfriend so go for it if you wait someone else might get there first
651179
If your best friend is really a true friend, she'll be happy for you. There shouldn't be any problem between the two of you. She's probably happy that at least one of you two got him. If you like the guy, then maybe you should accept.
126618
I don't wanna be too judgemental, but I'd never do something like that. However, it all depends on you and on the person you wanna date. And, of course, it also depends on your friends feelings, but, in any case it can be extremely difficult for all people involved. So, in my opinion, it is much easier to stay away from ur bestfriend's ex and not complicate ur life.
55966
don't even think about it! if you think about him in a cushhy way,don't! wait,and if they break up you should ask her if it's alright to go out w/ him.\nBut otherwise if you make a move on him or flirt and you bff sees than your in trouble,and then iono she might do something like say i hate you! or i can't believe you did that!something like that but try not to do anything bad.
828084
I know she's your best friend but this is your life were talking about not hers.Tell her you know she means well and is looking out for you, and that you take her opinions seriously but you really like this girl. And if this girl, no matter who or what she is or does, will make you happy/have fun, then as your bestfriend she should just let you be happy. Loyalty is part of friendship, so even if you ask this girl out, she'll still be your best friend. Tell her or explain  your side to her and just simply ask this girl out. If you're making a mistake, then she has to allow you to make your own mistakes, if you guys turn out happy together, then be glad you didn't let yourself get heldback.
395633
yea if u dont break up wit her then ur best friend would hate u, but there is a chance ur best friend might hate u for going out with his or her lil sister
223946
if you like him...go out with him... if you are comfotable being with him then go out with him... but if you are not comfotable don't go..you will not have fun if you go out with him against your will... but if you can be proud being with him...so go out with him if not tell him politely that you can't go with him... just tell him honestly and politely so that you won't spoil your friendship.
602047
Ask her if its ok to go out with him. After all, its her ex and its wise to ask as certain people find it unsettling to see their ex's going out with another person already even if its with their best friend. It also depends upon how long they have been seperated. If it was quite long ago, ask her else look out for someone else.
492322
If the person is involved in a relationship at this time or you are, you should keep it to yourself.  If both of you are not in relationships, you should tell the person how you feel.  As best friends, you already have a great level of communication and the other person may be feeling the same way as you but is afraid to spoil your friendship.  You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.  You will still be friends no matter what and even if the other person doesn't look at you that way now, they may start to consider it and you may have a chance in the future.  Good luck!
254500
It depends on you... what you would want to happen? \n\nThere are 2 options:\n\n1. If you really want to be have a love relationship with your best friend and he/she is still single then of course the best way is to let him/her knows about your feeling. But mind you, he/she might get scared by your sudden confession. Remember to give him/her some time to think about it and comes out with a good conclusion for both of you.\n\n2. But if he/she already have a partner in life, then I suggest that you shd keep the feelings to yourself in order not to hurt your relationship with your best friend.\n\nSo, good luck!
711551
Well i did it when my best friend liked our guy best friend and i asked him out to the dance and she got really pissed cause she found out i liked him. We didn't talk for about 2 months and now we're sorta friends. But technically i'm really happy i went to the dance with him cause now i'm really close with him and i love him to death! So yeah definitely go for it. Living isn't living without taking risks.
553707
Girl...If you and your best friend are like "paper and glue" close, I think you should think it over. Think "Would she/he do that to me?" Make sure you know whats good for you. A Girlfriend/Boyfriend come and go, best friends are for LIFE! (If you have the right one)