why do black males date more women outside their race.?
447987
Because they were historically denied white booty so they're compensating now\n\nAlso they're mostly in prison so the few that arent in prison are living it up
635469
It's not really about being "black" for me, it's about being different from the norm, or anything I have already had.  My fantasy has never been to date a black girl however...just to sleep with one.  Not that I wouldn't date one if I were to develop those feelings.
1097878
A personal observation: I have notes more so lately than ever that there a quite a few Black women out there with men not of the black race. Interracial dating is happing at both the high class and lower class levels, of black women. So I think that as black women we are “expanding our horizons” but unlike some others we are not forgetting our “past view.”
274182
Speaking as a Black female I think there is a very strong double standard in our (African-American) culture.  Black men will date a white female in a New York minute, but cry foul the minute they see us with a white or any other man.  We tend to get hassled more by other Blacks for dating outside of our race.  Also, many (not all) white men are raised to appreciate a more Euro centric standard of beauty (blonde hair, blue eyes, big boobs, skinny body, small butt, etc); in spite of the "browning" of America this beauty standard still dominates.   Black females don't fit into that particular beauty standard so I think it's hard for some (again some not all!) white men to see our beauty.  I also think it's hard because of the painful past that Black women have with white men.  When white men do approach us, some of us tend to be suspicious of them.  This is just my opinion for why you don't see more  Black females with white males.  If you're really serious about interracial dating, there are websites that are dedicated to this.
837162
While I don't like the idea of mixing the races, I have known some nice couples who were in mixed marriages.  We are living in the 21st century and things are changing.  Most my black friends don't want any white woman dating their men.  Most my white friends don't want to date black men.  However, in our extended family, there is a white man married to a black woman.  We have had to accept it.  Either you accept the facts as they are or you will lose the person you love.
840438
Seems like you have met some good women, and from the way you phrase your question, have not met "many black men". There are plenty of black men that are building, if not already on, a successful career path and place family values at the same level that the "dignified" women you have met do.  You might want to expand your associations to include some of these men.
320025
People are still prefer their own race. A documentary was on TV recently that showed how black women preferred black men over white and hispanic. The men had to earn an average salary higher than the black man to even be considered.\n\nYou theory about black guys pertains to black women only. Hispanic and white women both preferred their own races in this study. Search CNN for more information.
1185794
i date outside of my "race" all the time...in fact, most of the time i do. i don't let racism stop me at all nor do i care what my family thinks. besides, as far as i'm concerned...there's only one race and that's the human race.
1114329
Ok, I am black, I am a woman and I am 39.  \n\nHere is the thing, there are a TON of good men and I do mean BLACK men out here.  Its just that black women dont look at these particular guys.  They are not looking at Henry the mechanic, who is not the best looking guy in the world, but he is a REALLY a great guy.\n\nI truly can't say i have ever had a "bad" guy.  They were all different and all decent.  What they lacked in one area, they definitely made up in another area.  Sometimes you look at these beautiful women and these not so hot guys... and wonder, "what is that about".  Believe me, she knows. :)\n\nSynopsis:  If they stopped asking Thugs to be Good Men, and actually took the time to talk to the Mail man or the Mechanic, they would find one, right before their very eyes :)
1092669
I've seen alot of Black men with small dicks and a lot of non-black men who are well hung. This stereotype is false. It has nothin gto do with race.
790541
i think that's stupid as hell how one race would get mad because someone of their own race is dating someone of another race.. honestly it's none of their buisness. Society today is too nosey in other people's buisness. They should worry about their selfs.
285783
I consider myself a very attractive latina women. I have noticed that alot of different types of men find me attractive. Recently I have noticed an increase in black and hispanic relationships. I think that it is a beautiful thing, to be able to date whoever you want. It has to do with love and respect not color.
563351
I'm a 22 yr old black girl and i dont date black guys. I used to like them when i was younger, in my teens. But i find them very boring and not very intelligent and they dont seem very articulate. I find it hard to have a decent conversation with a black my age. Alot of them are about rap music, sex, and cars and nothing else. \nI find white guys more attractive and intelligent. I like their pale skin in private places!! White men are just alot more interesting to me. \n\nHowever I dont think white guys treat girls different to black guys, men are men regardless. You have to judge the individual on who they and how they behave. \n\nI agree that there are more white guys with black girls and they seem to be quite possessive. If i walk past a girl with her white man she give you evils lol. Like i care,the girls ive seen are uglier than me anyway. each to there own.\n\nI would marry a white man, my family are from jamaica and i will never on this earth date a jamaican man! Black men are a no no for me. As for sex, white men are far more gental and understanding.
512008
Im a black man. Had a few races of women but in my opinion I feel black women are the most beautiful in the world. They on top of my list ,instead of the bottom of the totem pole
578391
I think thats analysing too much!  Im sure that a black guy or any colour guy can be attracted to women of any colour and its not a conscious decision to go out and prove a point by dating a puerto rican, asian or white woman.
40287
Funny - this is one of those stereotypes that never seem to offend black guys.  You'll never get called a racist for asking this question, I can tell you that.\n\nOn average, a brutha may have a little advantage on guys from other races, but what we need to talk about here are the EXTREME cases.\n\nFrom what I've observed, and I've seen quite a few dix in my days, every now and then you'll come across a black dude with a big long one - one that seems to defy the laws of nature.  \n\nI was at a nude beach once and this black guy walked by.  I'm telling you, he was huge.  All the gay guys got up and applauded.\n\nBut another time I say a 17 year old white boy that put that brother to shame.\n\nSo who really knows... or cares?  The girls I've  been with have consistently told me mine's huge (but I know there's bigger out there).  One told me mine was really thick but she's seen longer.  That's cool too.  in fact, if I had a real tiny one, i might even get off if a girl said, "oh... isn't that cute?  cootchie cootchie coo"\n\n\nBut that's just me - I try to make the most of what I've got.
586913
a lot of white guys love black girls...my bf's dad is white & his mom is black. well i think some white guys are intimidated by black girls bcuz of the kinda stuff they see on tv. for example, most black women are portrated as being sassy, tough, & have that dont-take-$hit-from-nobody kinda attitude. thats probably why. but i know that all black women are NOT like that at all. i have a few black friends that are like that, but once u get to know them they're really sweet girls =)\ni have seen a lot of white guys date black women & most of em have no problem with that. i think a white guy would have no problem dating someone like u and if they did...then theyre not worth it. u should look 4 a guy thats willing to date u for YOU & not be intimidated by the stereotypes they see on TV. if u see a guy ur into, & u get the vibe that hes a lil intimidated by ur race, try talking to him & getting to know him a little & soon he'llsee that u r just like any other girl. well hope this helps a little! good luck 2 ya.