dont know how to tell my boyfriend that i am bi sexual and want to b wit a woman?
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ask him what his fantasy is..most of the time they want a threesome with another woman..if thats his fantasy, then you're straight(no pun intended)
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You just have to find the right moment to tell him, if you feel that you are now at a stage where you can trust him and you are 100% yourself then go ahead and tell and if he is a decent guy then he will be there for you all the way. can i ask is the reason you want to tell him because you want to start having sex with him? or you already at that stage with him and you just feel like you need to tell him? I can't help thinking that there is a bigger reason behind you wanting to tell him...but hey i may be completley of the mark!\n\noh and just for the record there is not something wrong with you because you call your self sexy woman and you have been raped, i think its great that you can see yourself as a sexy woman again, i have a friend who was raped years ago and she still has no self esteem or anything what so ever...so i say good on ya that your picking yourself up again after going through onr of the most traumatic things life can throw at you!\n\nerm i just have to bring this up coz i just noticed all the other questions you previously asked and one was that your boyfirend treats you like his whore?! have you had counselling for this rape? hun it sounds to me as if you have actually gone for a guy who treats you the way you actually feel inside....you also asked how do you know if your boyfirend is cheating on you?! this does not sound like the kind of bloke you wann be with....please be careful about anything you do now and GET HELP!!! It will do you so much good in the long run!
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If he is truly Bi and he likes to have a girl and a guy, then you might get somewhere.\n\nWhen women do the "how do I turn him straght" bit though I find it hard not to chuckle. Turning a gay man straight makes as much sense as trying to make blue paint red. It really isn't going to happen :)\n\nEnjoy the challenge, but you might want a backup plan - apart from anything else, if he IS bi and you get him, don't be too gutted as and when he wants to flip back to the "home team" :)\n\nBi guys are great, but not *usually* the best choice for a straight long term 1-2-1 relationship.
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• Why even question something dat's goin' so great?\n\n...then again, I can understand da fact dat u're tryin to b considerate of ur man as well. Givin oral can b (believe it or not) pleasurable for da person givin it. I sometimes get a bigger turn-on by seein how my girl enjoys it while I'm pleasurin her. \n\nIf u'd like to know how he really feels, but u don't wanna just come out n ask him, try askin general questions or have an open n friendly chat instead. Havin both of u talk about intimate things will not only help him open up n tell u how he really feels about oral(without u being direct about it), but it'll also help him understand what u also like n dislike as well. Its a win win dontcha think?\n\nI once found out about a real cool (n kinky) fantasy my ex had just by talkin about da things we love to do in bed, favorite positions, fantasies etc. So I surprised her one day n made two or her fantasies a reality. How cool is dat huh?\n\n...good luck to ya!
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lol, well, i'm a very straight foward person, so i would wait until he asked me what i want, then tell him.... or... get one of your best girlfriends to drop the hint for ya. Just go with your instincts
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honesty is good, but are you reallly sure you're bisexual? think about it. If you are, then tell then you're still the person they are friends with and it shouldnt change ur friendship just becuase you have a different sexuality preference. Unless she feels like you're going to like her, then explain to her that just becuase you like girls too doesnt mean you like every girl, just like she doesnt like every boy. Tell ur bf. Hes gonna be mad most likely...cuz no one wants to share their gf... but its unlimately up to you. do whatever feeels right.
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If you havent found a 'lady friend' to talk to how the hell do you know your gay? I believe 'bi-curious' is the word you should be using, darling!!\nPeaceout!!!
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I'm bi, and I'm open with my boyfriend about it but I don't do girls with I'm in a relationship with a guy. It's not wrong it's just u and everyone around u needs to accept that don't feel weird.
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Get him in private somewhere and tell him! This is the only way you're gonna be with him!!!
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Deal with it. \n\nAccept it, and say that you are not gay(unless you are...).\nTell him to accept you as a hetero.
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well, first of all (and I'm not a sexist) he is a guy. Guys like talking about their sexual relationships ( even non existent one). If he is commited to making the information public there is pretty much nothing you could do. Except either turn it into a joke (it might work), or denying it (it rarely works), ot else you could make it sound that it's not a big deal ( which really depends on your age - if you are less than 25 you wouldn't probably want to do this).\n\nI hope my advice is useful and everything works out for you! Best of luck!
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tell him ur a lesbian because of him
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you're bi-sexual which is ok but you need to be open with your fiance and have some sort of understanding with each other. remember if you don't think you should marry him(as much as a nice guy he is) then dont cos it will cause more grief in the long run.both of you deserve to be happy. good luck
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If your girl is bi too, I'd hope there wouldn't be an issue. I'd tell her. Chances are, she'll accept, and you'll both be happier ::wink wink:: *lol* Good luck.
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Hunny except for age and the fact that I'm a lesbian and not a guy, I know where you're coming from. I tried everything I could think of to try and get my ex's attention and I found that the best thing is to just ask. Start slow though, make small talk and work hints about sexuality into it. Once you get a positive that he "bats for the same team" if you will then relax and tell him. Sorry if that's not the answer you were looking for but I don't know what else to tell you.\nWell good luck sweetheart, I hope you get your man!\nIthy
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What you are - you are you - a unique individual - with feelings different from anyone else and experiences only you have had. \nYou need to do some thinking/soulsearching - You don't need to have sex with a guy to work out if you are bi/lesbian! Do 'straight' people have gay affairs to realise they are straight? No! \nFirstly - Are you attracted to men? Have you thought, imagined longed to be held by a man, for him to make love to you? How do feel about penises? Testicles, firm muscles and chest hair? Think about these and note your reactions inside, what you truly feel. \nRepulsed, intriguged, wanting etc. You say you have a girlfriend -  but don't rush to label yourself - I've seen people announce they are lesbians then later regret it a few years/months down the line because they are attracted to both sexes. \nI'm a lesbian I've never slept with a guy because a)it repulsed me the whole penis thing and b) I've never, ever been attracted to a man. I always preferred womens company, friendship and I was attracted to women before I knew what lesbian or gay even meant.\nIs it your friends that have more issues with this? I know we are in the 21st century but sadly some friends can never accept slight degrees of difference, you need to be one thing or the other - you don't - you have to be what you want to be. \nI advise doing an internet search on the Lesbian and Gay Switchboard finding the one local to you (they are everywhere Brighton, Lancaster, Birmingham, London, Isle of Mann etc) - emailing or telephoning them - perhaps getting some support from qualified staff and support group information. You stay strong and don't rush into anything - the most important question - What do you want? Who do you want to be?
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how to tell a guy that you like him hummm just start talking to him find out what his opinions are about bisexuals and if he says he is cool with it tell him that you like him... hey add me on yahoo messenger sugarwolf212008 or email me @ sugarwolf212008@yahoo.com and i will help some more i had to do the same thing but i am a girl and i am also bisexual.