why is it that men is prision think that we as women and society as a whole owe them something?
440032
I am 35 years old. I've spent about 91 months of my life in prison. I am now a hard working, tax paying, law ABIDING citizen. I never thought anybody owed me anything. Telling your husband you want a divorce while he's in prison is a hard thing for a man to take. I don't know if you have ever been in prison or not but when your there NOTHING changes but the faces. Same food, clothes you can probably figure the rest out. So if a person who is incarcerated is LUCKY enough to have another person care about him means more than you could ever know. When we lose those things like that while locked up, it can drive a man insane. Being on the inside are hands are completely tied. We can't come see you, comfort you and do what we should of been doing in the first place, being at home with the ones we love instead of out commiting crimes. I am not in any way defending convicts even though I am one. If your husband can not change his ways I agree you should be free from that lifestyle cause it's not a pretty place. IF he can change......??????  He still is your husband and like they ( whoever they are) say "for better or WORSE." You both made big commitments by getting married. If he can't fufill his commitment by being there as a good husband that's his loss. Does he deserve another chance if he can straighten out?????? I went to prison for a meth lab, 6 firearms and about 5 pounds of weed. I ran with a rough crowd. I've been shot and I've shot another human being ( for this I will never forgive myself) HOWEVER,,, I'm leading a good life now, we CAN change. I hope this helped.
934906
To tell you the truth, we have to be, we can't let our true feelings or emotions surface. If we do then were not considered stong, rather, people see a man do this and seem to lose respect for him. It's the world, even you ladies find it bad if we do any thing of the sort. And believe me, when it comes to us gentlemen, we pay the price for it.
601974
Women need men far more.  They just don't need any specific man, and therefore they feel no need to show respect.\n\nWithout men, women act like flailing little children with no home and no technology.\n\nWithout women, men are pretty much the same as they are now.  We know this because we've seen explorers go off on their own and create entire societies in the wilderness.  Men don't need women for anything but sexual relief and emotional completion.  But over the centuries we have found women incompetent even at those things.  And so we invented substitutes - religion and masturbation.\n\nNow it seems as if women don't need men, because men are so incredibly competent at making women happy and healthy.  Now we even give them jobs and money and property and credibility.  They would have none of this without us.  \n\nBut your question is incredibly poignant.  Why should the most competent human beings have us all convinced that it is they who are the sources of our need and happiness?  \n\nThe answer is sad but simple: women are so incompetent that they can't even maintain a satisfying self-image without putting men in the dumps.\n\nWhat a sick bed we have created for ourselves to lie in.  Thank you for exposing it with your question.
537000
because we're men and dont really have the full control of our own minds at the best of times, its childish I know but hey, like mny grandfather use to say "women grow up, men just get older"
334527
Because some men were taught that by their parents it comes from being spoiled to much I think the wrong way when they are younger I believe no one explain to the young boy about how to properly treat a woman and they watch too much TV probably only watch movies and shows that make a woman seem beneath a man...it could just be their cultural beliefs though... and get the idea that they should treat a woman however they seem fit I say it is society it has become our world's greatest weakness with everything!!!!but it also could be because woman allow men to treat them that way thus making it more difficult for stronger women to build a relationship with those men ...oh well life goes on...
78278
"US" WOMEN WANT YOU TO THINK EMOTIONALLY, BUT SINCE MEN NEVER DO AND YOU GUYS THINK WITH LOGIC,"WE" TRY TO THINK LOGICALLY.HOWEVER WOMEN ARE EMOTIONAL CREATURES. WE TRY TO BE LIKE A MAN IN OUR ACTIONS WHEN WERE HURT WE COVER UP HOW WE REALY FEEL BECAUSE ARE EMOTIONS ARE  NEVER ACCEPTED IN THE "REAL WORLD"BUT BECAUSE WE ARE EMOTIONAL PEOPLE WE THEN CHANGE OUR MIND AND STOP TRYING TO COVER UP OUR FEELINGS BUT BY THEN ITS TO LATE.(WE ACT ON LOGIC FIRST THEN EMOTIONS LATTER.)
611060
It has to do with pride.  It's still a way that men are taught by society.  It's also a fear of being inadaquate for the lady in his life.
69770
Mostly it is the way people are brought up that gives them the idea that a woman's place is in the home.  Psychology has a lot to do with that thought.  Everyone has different backgrounds and experiences in life that make them agree or disagree with that debate.  I as a woman dont feel that this statement is necessarily true and feel that a man has the same responsibility over the home as his wife does.  But like I said it all depends on how one was brought up and what ideas they developed on the issue.  For instance, my grandfather made the kids do everything in the house and would ask them to let my grandmother rest.  My mother then developed the idea that she should be a helpful housewife, unlike her mother.  My father, seeing that my mother did everything in the house, never lifted a finger in the house.  I grew up thinking how unfair that was of my father and believe that both should clean up around the house and look after the kids as well as both have the responsibility to work and pay the debts.  Thankfully my husband feels the same way!!!  LOL  We both make a mess, we should both pick it up!  We both spend money, we both should earn it!!
932820
Mainly because men want to be and mostly think they are the "leaders" in the relation; when a strong woman appears, they are afraid they would loose their superiority and that scares them!
1009049
We scratch because we itch. Most men really are not worried about social niceties. The only reason we behave is to impress women. If we are not trying to impress you, we do not care!
629493
This may not be universal truth. However, history shows that women have been the biggest enemies of women! whether socially, financially or otherwise. So you can imagine that if one gender does not respect itself, what could be the consequences. I think women very well understand this yet....?!
500042
you just misunderstand men hun they are not mean they are just acting natural it is  a man natural instinct to be aggresive but those who control it are the ones who are respected...those who dont are plain idiots..lol..see women use both sides or thier brains more at the same time than a man does therefore making us able to cope better with problems men dont use thier brains in the say matter as we do,,,,,
893182
I know how you feel. It seems no matter how much you do for them or how well you treat them they still disrespect you, show too little appreciation, and there never seems to be enough of a  balance, or reward in the relationship for men. IE women take more than they give and think about their own needs more than their partners. I can't give up though because I want to be happy with someone and will keep looking until I find that woman who gives as good as she gets
143427
yes because we have to put up with men... okay that was harsh, but honestly, it is often because they have to put up with much more because we are often expected to take care of children and either go to school or complete an extra income, and many other responsiblities, that are not expected of men.
704572
because women are more emotional and we have to talk about every little thing that goes on in our life as for men they like to say something and they are done talking about it
217891
I think both sexes suffer the same amount of hard stuff in life because men are suppose to be the providers and fighters, whereas women are suppose to be the nurturers and the makers of life. However, modern society has allowed role-genders to change. More women are in the work force and some men are replacing the "house wife". With these changes, it is still allowing both sexes to feel as if they are suffering some hard times and stuggles.
688306
Its the fact that we guys always want to have something that others want but can not have including cars, clothes, watches, and women. So if we don't think our friends think our girls look good then well think she is not good enough.