ladies does it hurt 2 have sex the first time??
437795
Sometimes... depends on the guy!!! \n\nI know I be leavin' em' hurtin'!!!!!!!!!!!!!
920510
I assume that the first time that you had sex with your boyfriend was the first time that you had had sex ever - so if this was the case and you was losing your virginity to him then it is normal to feel some discomfort at that point. \n\nNext time should be better, as your hymen is now broken and the discomfort (and in some ladies out-write pain) should be gone. \n\nMake sure that you are turned on and 'wet' before he tries to enter you as this will make the experience more enjoyable for you both.  This will mean a lot of foreplay and ask him to perform oral sex on you as this should get you really moist down there and may even lead to a pre sex orgasm. \n\nFailing that go to a chemist and buy some lubricant to use, apply a small amount of this prior to entry and you shoudl feel that everything slips in fine and makes the whole experaince more enjoyable. \n\nI would suggest always using a condom as a way to prevent pregnancy and STD's and it should not feel a great deal different to you than sex without a condom. \n\nAs to how a  man feels with/without a condom.  Without a condom increase the pleasure, however although this feels better in the begining it can also lead to a shorter period until he climaxes, which shortens the period of sex.  So although you can say initially that it is better as it is normally a shorter performance then this has to be taken into the equiation too.  \n\nI find that as i use a condom i last longer, which is great for both me and the lady, also i am not worried about her getting pregnant, which is great for my security as i know that i will not have to support a familly and that i wont be catching any nasty diseases - so with or without for me?  With everytime! \n\n\nGood luck and enjoy
61912
I Made Love for the first time on my wedding night. I was 28 years old at the time and it did hurt a little bit but, not much. It did feel good & hubby did a lot of forplay before hand. I did bleed a little bit. Afterwards I felt tired but, about a half hour later I was ready to make love again!  We got to the hotel at about 12:00 AM that night and didn't get to sleep until about 4:00 AM! We made love 3 times that night and once more before we got up at about 9:00 AM!
537380
ARE YOU READY FOR IT??? thats the question u should ask urself. having sex is not just bout getting physical, its about being comfortable with each other. your first time may feel a bit awkward but you'll get the hang of it over time. Dont worry if u think you are gonna embarass urself as its your first time. she'll "take the lead" and you'll learn how she wants to be touched etc. \nsta cool. lots of luck.
293629
Yes, if you've done this many times.  But if this is the first time, No and learn from this mistake.\n\nGuys have their preferences, if virginity is important to them they will surely feel bad about it and most probably shy away from a long term relationship with you.
647816
For some girls, it hurts a little. For some, it doesn't hurt at all.  \n\nThere is a thin membrane of skin called a hymen that all girls start off with when they are born. Its at the opening of your vagina. The hymen is generally what tears and causes some minor pain or bleeding during your first time. But a lot of girls lose or tear it before they have sex just by moving around and being active, normal girls. \n\nSo you may or may not feel a little pain. \n\nI wouldn't worry about it too much.  just make sure your first time is when you are ready and comfortable with yourself and the person you are with. Good luck!
126199
Yes, it does hurt, but it is totally bearable and worth it, if you are ready and want it. Just make sure you are ready and there has been lots of foreplay and you are relaxed as possible (although you will be understandably nervous). Your body will tell you when you are ready. Make sure you care about the guy and he cares about you. Not trying to preach just want to make sure its is a happy memorable moment.  Oh and dont expect it to be perfect. Sex has awkward moments, especally if he is a virgin too. So good luck and be safe and have fun.
1090967
Go ahead, as long as you and your partner STAY FAITHFUL to each other.  But if it is your first time, my advice for you is, to try to go slow and use a lubricant that will work best for the both of you.  The first time won't be easy, but in the long run it will get better and pleasurable for you two.  Don't rush into having sex, otherwise it will be painful for you both, mainly your partner.  But all-in-all, if you both love each other very much, having sex won't be so hard.
215361
It hurts very bad the first time. He doesn't have to go deep the head is the biggest part. He does need to be very gentle and easy so that he doesn't hurt you too badly.
163983
OFCOURSE IT HURTS!NOT JUST THE FIRST FEW STICKS BUT THE FIRST FEW TIMES.AFTER THAT YOU LL SEE THAT SEX IS A BEAUTIFUL THING.OFCOURSE IF YOU DO IT WITH SOMEONE WHO AT LEAST RESPECTS YOU! GOOD LUCK :)
894204
well sex can be painful for a virgin girl. because your vagina is not broad enogh and during sexual intercourse , the hymen breaks which might lead to some blood loss. first time sex can be painful for a girl
97001
It's different for each person.  I assume by your avitar that you are female.  If that is the case, it will probably hurt the first time, maybe the first few times.  \n\nI would recommend waiting until you are married, it is definitely worth the wait!  It's also nice to know that your first is someone who is planning on sticking around.
519640
Yes. Partly it's physical, partly it's fear and not knowing what to expect. Partly it can also be if your first time is your guy's first time, him not knowing what he's doing and rushing things can hurt. \nIt gets better the next time.
959164
It may hurt the first time but after that it shouldn't.  It is possible that you have a strong hymen that needs to be releasd by a surgical procedure.  Or you might be anticipating pain and not able to relax and lubricate well.  Try a longer foreplay and a lubricant like KY or something similar.  Take it slow so there is no tensing.  Good luck.
664892
Are you saying she's a virgin? If so, you have to take it slow and easy. There's no way for it not to hurt the first time.
548898
thats a good question...i wish someone answered that question for me when I lost mine... I can say that that sounds about right, regardless its gonna hurt and your bound to bleed, but i quess anything bigger would be worse.. trust me hun sex is not all its made out to be!!!! if i could go back in time.. i would still be a virgin (and im 24). Good LUck!!! and if your under the age of 18, WAIT!!!, TRUST ME YOUR NOT MISSING MUCH!!!
1075249
The first few times one has sex should be rather uncomfortable or painful.It shouldnt hurt after a bit.