why am I still with him?
441703
It is easy to sit here looking in and say leave, but only you know what is right for you. If you are asking this question then you already have one foot out the door only you can decide if you want to walk all the way out. Look deep inside yourself and decide what you really want and what bothers you in the relationship. Tell him how you feel and if things don't change put that other foot out and start your new life.
225776
cmon!\ncontinue your relationship,if you guys still meet each other, isee no reason for any kind of break up!\ngo ahead gurl!
713787
If you're engaged.....what the hell do you care. Look, he's moved on...why don't you. Hmm.....perhaps you hate the idea that he's over you.
392468
It's the thrill of a new relationship.  Give it some time and you two should be back together soon enough :)
649524
I'd say that you already answered this for yourself. Why put yourself through what his current on again off again is going through all the time? Find yourself someone who is going to be focused on you and only you.
190424
its just either he still likes you or he still cares for you a whole lot and you should feel good about that. at least you have someone whos there to watch your back.\n\ntalk to him and get things settled...\n\nGood Luck and Enjoy!!!
631933
Bull crap he is leading you on. He wants to keep you hanging just in case he can't find someone else, don't be his doormat..............
130691
He might just have some residual feelings for you, it happens more often than not that one of the two parites holds onto feelings.\n\nI am still friendly with my ex-fiance, who admitts freely that he is still in love with me. I just told him that there have to be boundries and after I said it a few times it finally stuck.
518348
Because he is a Jerk.  Get away from him and move on..
1017516
He is taking advantage of his freedom and figuring things out.  Stop stressing about him and enjoy the other things you have in your life.  Not that that's easy though... There is always the chance that he might come back... but why do you want to be with a guy who broke up with you?  So that he can do it again later on down the road?  I think you should work on moving on... don't wait around for a guy that is probably sleeping around right now.
738044
I am actually having this same problem myself. I love him and I want to be with him, but at the same time I wonder sometimes if he really feels the same way. We basically have 1 of 2 choices..... we can stay and try and talk to them and see if it can work out . or we can just let it go and find someone else. \n\nI choose to stay for a little while longer and try to work on the relationship as long as he is willing to work WITH me to make this work.\nI'm sure you will figure out what is right for you. I wish you luck.
270998
why were u with him for so long??\ni've seen couples like this. they usually stay together.\nwhy? - don't ask me; i hate feeling trapped! - but that's just me...\nif it works for u -ok!\nif it doesn't - cut him loose!!\n...although after all this time u're probably used to him and feelin' safe\nur choice..
448225
Obviously he satisfy your emotional needs, and you probably does the same for him, by way of comfort i mean. He still is with the "other" young lady which could mean that he thinks there is hope, or he's waiting until she's financially stable to let her go. Some guys can care for a young lady so much that her well being really does matter.\n\nThe question to you is, why are you still in this 'relationship" with the fella? It could be that you see something meaningful as a possiblity between you two. If that's the case, and you really think it's worth hanging in there, then by all means stay. But while patience is a virtue, procrastination is bad for you. Not that you are procrastinating, however you may wanna weight the positives and negatives and give them a good review  before you make a decision. Love has many ways of coming at you. But only one way is the best outcome.\n\nIt's really up to you to decide what's the best to do at this point so that you can avoid any complications, and drama. heaven knows we all got enough drama in our lives already. Who really needs more?:)\n\nBest of wishes to you...
603710
It's worth trying.If he's still with you that means that he's got strong feelings for you but he also can't get over the fact that you have cheated on him becouse he THINKKS you don't care for him as much as he does for you.\ndon't play games with him.if you love him too,try to get his trust again..
507888
Well, if you really feel like you're not into him and the relationship isn't going anywhere, what's the point in staying with him? Go find someone that you acutally like and let him find someone that actually likes him. I wasn't very into my last boyfriend, so I let him go after a couple of months. Why drag things out for no reason?
188419
I think it all happend because you've been a little too much committed to him, and he knew it always. If you try to grab it so hard then you'll be ending up losing it. You'll have to let it go, and its not only your duty to put it together. My advice would be, let it go and show him that you don't care, and if it comes back in a short time then take it back, and know that he was always yours, and if it doesn't then you have to agree that it has never been yours.
132046
because he is selfish and wants his cake and eat it too. He probably was hoping that you would sit around and wait for him in case his new relationship(s) didn't work out. He doesn't like the idea that you could get over him. It's an ego thing. Don't worry about it, girl, go get your groove on!