Which test will prove that wife is having an affair?
438629
The muscles of the vagina (learn how to spell) don't get all baggy just because the woman has had sex! Honestly, I can't believe the extent of ignorance about anatomy on this site. If she's doing things with you now that you didn't do together before the separation, I'd have to think that would be a give-away that someone's been keeping your side of the bed warm in your absence.
938158
Get a test and prove it.
684697
hire a detective or do it yourself. just be carefull and dont get caught .your married check the phone bills dont let him leave with cologne on smell him when he gets home make sure theres no  girls spray on lipstick hickies act like you want to have sex and smell his dick and mouth and underpants for a womens scent
93181
If you can prove she cheated (talk to a lawyer first), then she may already have broken your contract by having the affair, depending on the wording you agreed to.  Good luck. Too bad you didn't marry someone with ethics to begin with.
135946
Joe, I can relate to your situation. My husband is in work release and right now he is accusing me of the exact same thing. Just when I think that we have gotten past this something else pops up and we start this mess all over again. Are you positive that there is an affair going on? Speak to your wife in a loving tone and really let her know that this is bothering you. Let her also know that you won't stand for any lies. If she is unfaithful then the pressure of you being nice is going to make her feel guilty that she will admit to her wrong. Just so you know, I have never ever cheated on my husband and I wouldn't ever because of the love and the respect that I have for him and myself. Marriage is a give and take and both husbands and wives need to do this more and more. Good luck and may God bless you through this journey.
313807
If she knows that he is married, the hell yeah!!! But if she doesn't know and he is lying to her as well, then no.
1113576
no easy way, she will find out eventually so just be honest. Good luck.
34801
Lying is part of the Affair. First print a hard copy of the BLog, and all Emails for future referance. Chances are it has gone farther and she is covering it up. \n\nThe only way to get through the lies is to catch her in the act. I suggest you contact a private investagetor to look into the matter, They have knowledge and resourses that you would not have, plus by having a third party you get honest information and not biased based on how you feel. Now if you learn that she is not cheating, "yet" then I suggest you work on the relationship before she does. \n\nI would suggest you seek help in counciling. Your not going to be able to resolve the issue by yourself. She is looking at other men probably due to an unmet "NEED" at home. You can read books like those listed below to help identify what those needs are, but until you begin meeting the "NEED" your self, and expose the lies you have no chance of saving the marriage.
936642
Yes, and she could also get pregnant. Maybe he is testing her or maybe he is passing the blame onto her because he is guilty of cheating, Tell her to go get herself checked.
99338
I'd recommend getting a therapist or religious clergy person involved in this process.  You both need someone neutral to help work through trust issues.  However, the counseling will only help if you and your wife are BOTH interested in mending your relationship.  It will be a long road, but you can get through this with time and support.  It will be more important than ever to be honest with each other and make time for your relationship.\n\nWhile some say "once a cheater always a cheater" that is often true.  In my experience that's been the case most often.  However, it's not an absolute!  I've also experienced the other side.  People can change and people make mistakes.  Relationships need to grow and perhaps it was just in the growing stage during the affair.  If you are both committed to make it work you can get back to what you had.
763222
she is divorced\nmaybe make it legit
927961
Well get a device and put it on the car or have a friend you trust follow her and record her or call cheaters or be forth right open and honest and tell her to her face; I believe you are cheating on me, if you deny and I find out its over, if your honest maybe we can work this out. Why hide? If you want the evidence up front hire a detective.
358416
Unless they admit or you catch them at it - you cant find out.\n\nYou just have to trust your partner or you'll push them into the arms of someone else anyway.
552851
I would first confront him with it and then tell her I knew about the affair just to see what she would have to say about it. Trust is an important part of a marriage so if you don't have that you need to think about what you want out of life...............
130494
Go to the principal, the dean whomever w/ proof you didnt cheat. That is wrong for her to accuse if she has no proof
26696
You and your wife should see a counsler because something is not right in the marriage.For Real!!!!!
617769
There are lie detector tests, Jerry Springer, Murry. You can ask your best friend.You can ask your bf. You can hire a PI.\nBUt if you have a good gut feeling then they probably are.