How do u deal with being alone?
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When you are dealing with loneliness..read a book, watch tv, listen to music, or watch movies. \nI know its hard being single, but you dont need a man to be happy! \nYou probably do have so much to give, but take your time you have a life ahead of you. Right now worry about yourself. Make life plans. Write out pros and cons of having a relationship, make out a list of what qualities you are looking for in a guy. But, don't rush into anything if you aren't ready for it. A relationship is a major thing, cause you have to deal with both your life and be in his life at the same time. Please take it from someone who knows, I finally found someone to be with and I'm happily engaged, it took 5 years, but I waited and I found the man of my dreams!
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You need to feel better about yourself.  Find what it is your good at.. get better at it......... share it with someone else.  You can help someone else and with that, you will never be alone.
565890
I'm sorry about it, really! go out home, go hear people, try to talk with people, listen birds, take care about animals... i dont know what to say to you, hope u can read this answer, try find friends by net, don't give up, pls, Kissses:)
518702
I am in the same boat as you.  Trying to figure it out.  What cannot be cured must be endured.  Keep strong.  Looking at your life without that other person there feels so empty and cold.
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You can think of a friend and know that they think of you. You are never alone, even in the darkest of fairy tales of your life, there is always someone interested and eager enough to be concerned about you, even a stranger at the end of an e-mail ok. Dont be so lonely, there are many wonderful things in life and many to share it with, i promise you.\nNow tonight close your eyes, do whatever the others suggested above, then peacelfully cast your mind east to the Atlantic across its depths to Ireland and smile in the knowledge that i-someone you dont even know-will think about you today. And before i fall asleep i'll do you this same favor today and you certainly wont be alone as you drift off.\nMy deepest kindnesses,\nD
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It depends on whos around. Usually, u just wait till youre alone!
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My suggestion to you is tht take part in activities,being lonely & just thinking abt it will not help u in anyway so make frnds or if u have c tht u meet them daily for somtime go for gym or look out for job or activity tht keeps u busy all the day.Try to b active go for morning walks or play interesting game or u have sister sit down with her & discuss this she also may b in a state to help u to deal with it. U r not deep in relation with people tht is not a justified reason for u to b depress . try to understand tht there is time & situation for every thing to happen u will get things but b bold to face everything
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give yourself time for yourself.  take time make friends,  relax.
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Being 16 and not on your own is hardest when your lonely.  Wait, be patient, read a book, go for a jog or a gym and work out.  Find an interest or hobby that intrigues you, inspires you, and puts you in more social situations.\n\nI'm betting you live in a small town with no gay community.  Am I right?\n\nWhen you're out of school (go to college, it helps!), get a job in Chicago, New York, San Fransisco...a big city with an established gay community.  There, you will find freinds who will help with the lonelies.\n\nNow, for the gloom and doom:  What ever you do, don't pimp yourself to any man with a hard on.  Respect yourself, love yourself, honor yourself.  Be gay, be YOUR kind of gay, not somebody elses kind of gay.
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find peace within yourself\nyou can be alone and not be lonely\nwhen you become happy with who you are, you lose the loneliness.go to your church or social events\nhang out with your friends ,if your marriage is over move on.
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Cry it out for a little while.  Then call your friends and hang out with them.  Keep busy.  Always remember, out of sight, out of mind.  You will get over it.  It's hard but you will.  There is no better cure than friends. Trust me!!
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I have been alone for the holidays for a couple of years now and yes, it can be depressing -- when I allow myself to be (was actually feeling it a bit today, myself).  In the past, I chose to make the day about myself and being good to myself with all of my favorite things -- food, movies, a good book (great wine) -- include those things that you love in your day.  A day to -- first recognize the holiday, of course -- and then pamper myself and appreciate all that I do have rather than focus on what's missing.\n\nSome people deal with loneliness by giving to others -- I plan  to spend Christmas this way. Others need to take care of themselves before they can give to another.\n\nSpend your day by doing those things that are important to you. If spending time with your son is important and he happens to be with his father's family -- then make it about your son and plan/create a fun surprise for his return.
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Break this separation!\nHave a brave, and ask some nice girls.\nBecause its separation, girls are also feel alone as you feel.
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loneliness is juat a state of mind....
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Spend time with your close friends and tell them whats on your mind.  They are guarenteed to be very supportive and do what they can to help you out.  Being with people you have laughs or a good time with will easily make you feel better than sitting in a dark room brooding.  Basically you need to be out and active, have exposure to the sun, start looking at other guys that may help.  And if that doesn't help time will.  Over time you're guarenteed to let it go and move on.  Just remember that this isn't the end of everything good and fun, something else or somebody else will run into you that will give you enough pleasure to be yourself again.
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I think everyone is afraid of being alone
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POOR YOU. like the answer before myself, i would say. thanks for your answer, on (Whats your worst fear.)\n\n it must be horrible to live alone. try and get out and about if you can with friends. and try to live your life if possible to the full.  good luck...