Americans claim to want to be multi-cultural in their relationships,do you agree?
448306
they just don't "get" other cultures or ethnic backgrounds. you'd have to be completely whitewashed in order to be accepted. In some places, though people are more multicultural... especially in places with smaller populations. It's just with the bigger the population things start to split down racial lines.
639649
I think it's natural we are attracted by people who are different from ourselves. \nYou're not a hypocrite!!! Not at all. Many of us find other races attractive but only some of us are ready to talk about it directly. Those who hide the truth are hypocrites. The problem is that former generations rarely allowed the couples to mix. I think it was the matter of identity and fear of being judged by other people.  \nFortunately, world has changed now and people have changed as well. We are used to a view of 'mixed pairs' and I love the view! I dream I will also be in such relationship someday...
507249
Yes and no. Yes, every culture has their own way of mannerism. No, as human, manners depends much of one's own upbringing despite of one cultural's background.
940450
It's not a matter of for or against. An individual has a right to decide who s/he chooses to date. Some like blondes, some brunettes, some redheads. \n\nAnd there are others who prefer to date outside their race. It's just a matter of personal preference. However it is preferable for both to understand the culture of each other. Otherwise friction can occur in the relationship. \n\nMy women have been African, Caribbean and Latin American, by the way. And the woman I am going to marry has a bit of all three!
797095
No. I don't care if other people think it is. I've been accepting different people since I was born, and I am positive that many other good American people are accepting. You cannot assume that the entire population (or race, whatever you want) is of one mind.
643230
Americans have many cultures mixed into one and demonstrates the progress of living together with our different beliefs yet have one unified goal for the peaceful survival of our human race and protection and management of our environment. Every culture around the world must be involved in the later, the environmental protection and it's economical management along with the hope for world peace between cultures has evolved into world wide communication and the belief that one voice counts.
638144
I think intercultural relationships have pros and cons.  One big pro being the excitingness of the situation..two different people from different worlds and backgrounds...sharing new ideas and experiences which add spark and makes things new fresh and interesting!  On the flip side... especially when things may turn serious in the long run, ie marriage...marriage in itself is hard enough, add to that two conflicting cultures...makes for alot of different viewpoints and colorful arguements (speaking from experience here!)  On the other hand...personalties play a big part...regardless of culture, religion, or any other difference, if both parties are mature and both personalities compliment each other...I think the success rate is high and this last is probably the best recipe for a lasting and exciting relationship.
232340
i do, my husband is asian =)\nand most of the modern and open-minded caucasian female doesnt mind the race of the partner as long as they love and respect each other
442994
I don't know why.  You have a good point. I usually state that I am a New Yorker.  If I answer a question and they ask if I am an American I will answer yes but I always state that I am a New Yorker.  My g/f is from Holland.  My family has a tendency to state shes European.  No she's Dutch first. Europe is a big place.  Just as America is.  Need to be more specific in my opinion. People have been known to generalize.  And I for one dont like to be generalized so I help clarify where I am from.
632898
If two people can find each other and connect, that's what really matters.  I always tell my kids, I'd rather have them be with someone of a different race they love that loves them and treats them well, than someone of the same race that doesn't.  Love doesn't know color.
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by understanding that the superficiality associated with the American culture is not exactly what all persons are; that all Americans are not greedy, aloof, or stupid (though I definitely know quite a few that fit the bill!) And know that many more than projected are aware and not apathetic and do become involved in their nation's happenings out of actual concern rather than the chíc/vogue aspect of it...oh, also...try to understand that the American culture is the only one that some of us know, and not by choice (i.e. African American) If all else fails...your opinion's as good as the general!
415494
OH NO! not another one. When will people finally "get it".. We were all sent here to watch over each other and follow Gods rules. People are people. Color, race or creed should not be a reason to not like someone.. Get to know the real person. Yes, we are all different but in a good way. Our ancestors and our roots make us who we are. Be proud of your families roots but respect others too. We have all brought so much to the table of this melting pot we call "America". We have all added to our culture that has become "American Culture with our loyalty to the US. Our US flag and a country our brave soldiers (now and then) have fought wars to keep safe. Alot of those soldiers were a combination of many backgrounds like African American, Italian American, Irish American and ect. We have all fought together to save this country. If you do not want to be American, go home or join the wonderful melting pot we call "America". If you hate groups don't want to be around a country made up of a history of many immigrants, you can leave to. I am German American and my hubby is Italian American. Our ancestors gave 100% for this country and we like all other Americans have every right to live free in this country. If you hate groups have a problem with that "Bye Bye". Good Luck finding a place on this WHOLE earth that is "YOUR TYPE".
1169970
My husband fell in love with an American...  Something he swore he'd never do as he grew up watching the annoying American tourists come through his town.  We're celebrating our 1st anniversary in 2 weeks.  :)  Go for it, just be prepared to work with a little culture clash on occasion.
401865
Yes, I am currently living in another country and it does get alienating sometimes. Despite the hype about "Americans don't have any culture", that is really not true. When you live in other places you are shocked by some of the cultural norms in other countries. Certain things that are legal in other countries are illegal in the US.
97063
well its the fact that its an exotic thing, what i mean is that a japanese women could be with a american black male, and from other cultures there personality and thoughts are different when it comes to relationships. for instance in the example i just gave it may be a perfect match
329571
I think America still lives in the 50s sometimes. I really do. A lot of people still think white should stay with whites and blacks should stay with blacks. You would be surprised at how many people since 9/11 think blacks are scum all over again. Its just what a taste requires. Gotta remember who your audience is for. Example, the show Boy Meets World.. Shawn dated Angelea and the reason it was okay to bring that into the show is because they were trying to show teens its okay to date other people with different skin colors. But adults might take it differently.
1068822
Who is "you guys", you mean Americans?  If so, it's cause we are a different culture, so accept it, we are all different!  Would it be any fun if we were all the same?  Plus, we're Americans and we do what we want to cause we think we're free....  But that's another story to talk about!!!