whats the best way to ignore an not well timed orgasm or irritation?
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think of ur mam naked trying to hit on u
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get some slip so that u wont feel it again
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Wow... so many people answering "just don't make it feel as good".\n\nWhat's the point of having sex last longer if it's BORING?\n\nOkay, in order to make it last longer and still feel just as good, without having to resort to doing things like use a topical anaesthetic on your penis, do this:\n\nFirst, when you're having intercourse, pay attention to the muscles you're using to thrust with.  Chances are they're the muscles in your butt and in your thighs.  Believe it or not, that makes you have an orgasm quicker.\n\nInstead, let those muscles relax and switch to thrusting with your lower back.  It will keep intercourse feeling just about as good as always, you don't have to lose any of the sensation, and it will last longer.\n\nSecond, if you prefer an approach where the female gets to be on top, lay down and instead of keeping your legs flat on the floor (or mattress, or whatever), pull them up so your thighs are at a forty-five degree angle away from you.  Then while she's on top, let her lean back against your legs.  This not only gives her a bit of support to relax on, but it points your penis down and away from your head, which again prolongs the period before you ejaculate without having to sacrifice the sensitivity.  \n\nThis also works if she likes to face away from you.  All she need do at that point is lean forward and brace herself on your knees with the palms of her hand.  It puts your penis at the same angle and provides the same effect.\n\nNo fancy toys, no de-sensitizing lubes needed.\n\nAlso, as always, I recommend learning to become multi-orgasmic (yep, it's possible for men, too).  Check out the books "Any Man Can" and "The Multi-Orgasmic Male".  Both are excellent instruction manuals to keying you into getting to not only last longer, but have a whole lot more fun than you thought possible while doing it.\n\nAny more questions, just let me know.  =)
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Well, if you can buy a "bullet" I would recommend it! They are at adult shops. It vibrates at different speeds. Just slightly rub it on your clit and you'll orgasm in a few minutes! An orgasm can be tricky to tell, but usually you start breathing heavy, maybe shake a lil and your body temp. rises a lil. It just feels like an "explosion" Trust me, you'll know it when you have one!
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Slow down your pace. You would know the tempo which is best for you; just slow it down.\nAlso, you can control your orgasm with your breathing... if you hold your breath you'll come faster, if you make a deliberate attempt to slow down your breathing, everything else in your body adjusts accordingly (that's the core to tantric sex).
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1) A desentizing cream or lotion, but be advised that it can transfer over to the woman and cut her pleasure as well.\n\n2) Change of position. One that does not offer as much stimulation as another.\n\n3) Understanding the signals tha tyour body gives, so you can slow down, back off or stop altogether.\n\n4) There is a book out there called the Squeeze Technique witch helps in delaying orgasm, but I may not have the title right.
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Long hot showers, meditation, exercise, screaming into my pillow, just about anything. I have a lot of trouble with patience too. If there are certain people that drive you crazy the first thing is to remember your being upset doesn't do anything to them. Sometimes you just have to let go of things. (Easier said than done!!)\n\nI also find it helpful to talk with someone. Let someone else know how you are feeling. Talk about what is stressing you out. Chances are someone else has gone through a similar event. While they may not be able to help you now, knowing that they survived will help relieve some of your stress.
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try man on top and tell him to go slow! when it hurts, speak up. \n\ndo you use tampons? probably not. they hurt first couple times. Try using tampons on your next period. \ni know this is different but they are related. in the shower you may want to practice "that" feeling and insert your index finger as far in your tunnel as you can. it hurts but it will help you prepare better. \n\nrelax and go with the flow. when you tense up every muscle tenses up include down-there muscles. Always remember to speak up b/c good communication is essencial!!! :)\n\nI'm still a virgin but know alot about sex, wierd? dont worry- waiting until marriage.....
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The quickest way would be to try all types of positions. I think everyone has a certain position that brings them an orgasm.
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Have a candle-lit bath, with bubbles and candles, dim the lights and just soak. It's really relaxing, it may sound kiddish but it really works. After light some candles and insence and settle down on the couch and just take deep breathes and maybe watch some soaps or feel-good movies or chick flicks, not anything too dramatic and violent but something that you like and makes you feel good. Another thing is that you should do what you like! whats your hobby? for example, I love horsebackriding, so I might go on a nice peaceful trail in the woods  for an hour to calm down and realize life is a good thing. Or if your a painter, start painting! you could even make crafts, which actually allows you to express your anger on paper and your work, instead of other people and your mind, self confidence and yourself. Go scream on your pillow! if you just feel like screaming, go right ahead. Thats what I do when I'm frustrated angry and confused. It really helps get the stress out. You could bang stuff around scream and shout and tell everybody to just get away from you. We all understand. Or, what I do is put a favourite CD on and sing along like nobody's listening. It helps alot. Or sometimes I call a friend and we talk for hours, and it keeps your mind off things, or you could go to the mall and shop. Shopping cures anything! lol. Something else is to make yourself beautiful, dress up, do your make-up, paint your nails, it keeps you consuntraited and focussed on one thing at a time. You should also spend time with your family or friends. Family and friends really helps in these situations. You should also call up people your might have angered, and say your sorry and for them to forgive you. It will make you feel alot better and less upset. Hope ive given you some ideas, and i hope this day really turns better for you!
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To fake an orgasm:\n\nJust say "ah ah" and increase in intensity and speed as you go along. Try to move your pelvis repeatedly inv arious directions.
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try a massage and a long BJ
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A vibrator should do the trick!
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AN ORGASM WILL ACTUALLY CAUSE CONTACTIONSAND PUSH EVERTHING OUT FASTER...ASK UR OB/GYN
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Try foreplay! Too many times you guys are in too much of a hurry...the ladies like it slow and easy...give her time....and try the new KY Jelly with the little "tingle"... its a warming massage.
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when you are about to cum just stop relax some and start again and keep repeting the process. try that and try to keepp your mind on some thing else but still be there.
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no talking..more orgasms