Why did  Hilary Duff turn into a anorexic was it because of her boyfriend.?
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she's getting sucked in by the whole "pop icon" image and the need for more fame.  She gets alot of competition and is compared to girls that are skinnier than she was...so she lost wait....and thinks she looks good when really she doesn't.
138734
The girl from VH-1? I guess because she got fat.
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First you have to honestly ask yourself whether the changes you want are out of love for her, or out of love for yourself?  If they are out of love for her, then you'll definitely have to be an active supportive participant in this.  Exercise WITH her.  (Don't wear her out all at once; she'll be intimidated.)  Cook WITH her... try some low-fat cookbooks with lots of veggies and minimal carbs and meat.  Good-tasting food that doesn't make you look like a blueberry muffin IS possible, but it takes work.\n\nAlso, be sure you let her know that you love her and you're concerned for her well-being.  If she cannot accept that, there's not much you can do.  But if she can, you could really go somewhere with it.  One of my friends was very overweight... ate way too much and was extremely lazy.  Well, she is still overweight.  BUT she is losing some of it and eating more healthy and getting into shape.  And it's all thanks to the good influence of her boyfriend.  Now I don't think he's such a good influence in some other areas; but about that he's good.\n\nAnd finally... wear her out with some good sex.  hehe.  ;)  J/k... sort of.
801122
She looked way better when she was heavier.  Now she sorta looks like a Blow Pop, skinny body and a giant head.  I hope she's able to get her anorexia under control and put some weight back on.
461216
Maybe if they stop putting skinny as* celebs in there then some of the weight-loss s*** will finally subside. I mean teens look at Paris Hilton and Lindsay Lohan and see them ridiculously skinny and they say "Wow! I wanna be just like her!" and then they learn that they're making themselves throw up and they start doing that. It's getting really ridiculous.
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love handles on who?  Herself or boyfriend?  On a boyfriend it depends, but most of my girlfriends (myself included) love it, because skinny guys are no fun to hug, all bones, feels like we are hugging another girl!
838254
Anorexia doesn't happen to normal well-rounded people.  It usually happens to girls between the ages of 16 and 18.  It stems from self-hatred and believe it or not, it's a control issue.  The person loathes themselves for being fat or unloved by others and they feel like they have no control over things in their lives.  I had anorexia when I was between 16 and 18.  I hardly ate anything for 2 years!  I hated myself because I had a terrible alcoholic father that resented having us kids because he couldn't take all his money and gamble with it.  He had to support us.  I think it was my way of getting back at him and being liked by my peers all at the same time.  Don't be afraid to diet.  If you have normal feelings about yourself and have some control in your life, you'll be fine.
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People gain weight for different reasons.  Some may simply be lazy and not care about their health or physical appearance.  Others may be depressed and use food as a comfort zone.  Others again may intentionally put on weight to make themselves unattractive to others so they are not hurt by a relationship going wrong(usually as a response to being hurt in the past)\n\nIt really depends on what their priorities and motivations are.  If they don't make their health and appearance a primary priority ultimately it will suffer.  Also note that it's one thing to be thin, it's entirely another to be healthy and fit.  You shouldn't link the two of them together.\n\nEdit/Addition: Actually numerous people here have answered your question.  It's not easy to just flick a switch in your head and reverse or change the things that are causing you to overeat or not exercise.  If it is a deeply traumatic issue that you have trouble dealing with usually it takes a LOT of work and a lot of motivation to break out of it.  The answer to your question is threefold:\n\n1. Some people are too emotionally depressed to make a change for the better and hence continue along the same self-destructive path OR\n2. They're medically ill and cannot help it (quite a rare case compared to the other 2 OR\n3.  They're too lazy\n\nHope that clears it up
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Before you can address the issue with your boyfriend, you need to address your issues with your body image.  Instead of picking yourself apart, build yourself up.  If you feel you're "chubby", try losing weight if that will make you feel better about your body image.  If you feel you're "plain looking", try a little makeup or a new hair color to see what works for you.  \n\nIt's a cliche, but true beauty really does come from within.  If you don't love yourself, how can anyone love you?  Guys get bored with girls who trash themselves.  It's like saying to them everyday, "Why are you with an ugly girl with me when you could be with someone prettier?".  Basically, you're second-guessing his high opinion of you.  It's may be a matter of time before he starts to agree with your poor body image and moves elsewhere.  \n\nJust because you value meaningful things like art over binge drinking and freak dancing doesn't make you less of a person, or unattractive.  Intellectual pursuits are much sexier to the right kind of guy.\n\nAs for the jealousy thing, you either trust your boyfriend or you don't.  If you think he's actually going to make a move on these other girls, maybe you should reconsider dating him.  If he is geuinely uninterested in these other girls and your insecurities are driving this persistant jealousy, try and find your own sex appeal and work on building yourself up!\n\nDon't waste another minute hating yourself.  Life is too short, and one day you'll realize you had nothing to hate about yourself to begin with.
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I think that hilary duff has very bad atitude.....so what people change......i think that hilary duff should learn to forgive..........i am a very big lindsay lohan fan.........and i am not saying this cuz i am fan of her......its cause i care for Lindsay's friendship and hilary duff's!
667149
That isn't very nice. I used to be anorexic! REPORTED....anorexia is a disease
312948
YES ... my boyfriend is fat BUT i find him the most handsome guy on the earth .. its not about how people look like from the outside coz the inside what matter most on the long term !! and don't you forget that people looking can change suddenly because of a sudden accident or any other thing so don't you count on the appearance so mush !!
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u're a really cool friend to be looking out for her! are u sure she hasn't got an eating disorder...obviously not anorexia, but maybe bullemia?? it's just an idea, so don't go accussing her of anything! she might just have a really fast metabolism, but dizziness and tiredness don't sound right for that! i dunno, maybe u can just ask her if she wants 2 talk about it or sumting...u're obviously a spesh friend to her!!!
986546
I love it....I always wondered what she was doing with him...she can do alot better. I think he ruined her reputation...caused her to look like white trash.
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This is a good question but what I think is that "pro-ana" girls are conciently trying to become anorexic and that's why I guess they are proud that they reached their goal ...\nI might be totaly wrong though but it's another form of self-abuse that they don't think is a psychological problem.\nThey like to have control over their own body and this is a way to proove to themselves that they have strong personnalities.\nBut it's very nice of you trying to help them though, don't take it personnaly I'm sure they didn't mean to offend you, they are just lost in their own world that's all !
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no. tell him to back off. he is obsessed with you and he needs to stop. tell him to leave you alone. if he doesn't, tell authorities. then if he doesn't, get a restraining order against him. \nWho cares how much you weigh? whoop de do- you're 135. i'm 142 and 5'7". who gives a crap??? why is being 95 lbs. so damn special??? she's just a stick- most likely anorexic or bulimic. i feel sorry for her... and if he likes you- he wont like your stupid friend if she's a cheater. just tell him to leave you alone and quit worrying about your weight. trust me, most guys with any brains at all dont give a shit about how much you weigh.
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She looks nasty, the rapid weight loss made her age really fast. It's sad cuz now she thinks she is beautiful because she's skinny when in reality she looks real awful.