explanation of equality for my son?
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Equality
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call the courthouse in your area.\nlaws differ from state to state.\nyour son might GIVE you custody if you ask.
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My son is interracial and he is the most beautiful male I have ever seen. Not just Mama bias, either...strangers remark on how handsome he is. I think it's something to do with getting the best of both races. Whatever it is, I have seen very few (maybe 2) 'mixed' people that I would say are unattractive.
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Just because he is ordered to pay child support does not mean he gets rights to your child.  Visitation and custody are dealt with in seperate legal battles.  Go after the child support.  It won't go against you if you don't go for it, but is it really fair that you're shouldering all the financial responsibility for your son.  Applying is easy.  Go to your state's .gov web address, and search for child support or dept. of revenue.  Once you fill out the application and send it in, they will notify you of any progress with your case, and will assign a court date. (Save copies of all paperwork you send in or they send you)  If your son's father is named on the birth certificate, that's good enough for the court.  If he's not listed, he can either say he is the father, and the court will decide the amount he is to pay or he can contest it, and get a paternity test.  If he doesn't show up to court for these hearings, a bench warrent will be put out for his arrest (they won't seek him out, but if he gets pulled over for speeding and there's a warrent, he will be arrested).  The judge will ask both of you to submit financial statements, and then determine how much he will pay (a percentage of his pay, usually no more than around 35%)  They could also order him to pay back support.  \n\nI'm not trying to say your son's father is a bad guy and deserves harassment.  I just want you to know the process.  I'm a firm believer in child support.  It takes two people to make a child, and two people to support it financially.  Right now, money may not be such a huge deal, but why take all of that on when you're already doing all of the parenting too?  What about your son's future?  What about college?  Perhaps having that extra money could mean moving to a better neighborhood with better schools.  Perhaps it means that you could afford to work fewer hours to spend more time with your son.  Think about the possibilities.\n\nAs far as him being irresponsible in other areas, if you're worried that he'll go after custody, most cases the child will stay with the primary caretaker (you).  They will review his behavior and decide if that's appropriate.  Same thing with visitation.  They will review his behavior and decide if it's appropriate.
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well congratulations On being so accepting of your son being gay!!  The world could use more mothers like you! as long as you are accepting then I really don't see anything wrong with it!!, but I would pull them aside and tell them just that!! Congratulations on being a really cool, mother you seem to be the best!  \n\ncongratulations on your new business you really must be excited I wish you the best of luck and continued susses on your new venture!!!\n\ntell your son and employee I wish them well in their relationship
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I think equality and freedom are two very distinct and separate issues.  Every human being on this earth should have and know freedom.  Equality (as defined) can never be settled because there is always a person, a group or a mass that believe themselves to be superior.  So, in a perfect world, all people would be free to be themselves and do their best and equal to each other simply by being Human Beings.
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see,firstly, it would help your son to decide for himself what is good or bad for him. also, since in the process, he will have you in confidence, he may share the experiences with you and subsequently,you may be able to guide him much better then.
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Live your life as an example for your child. Love your child. Respect your child's mother. Pray together. The rest will come. Good luck.
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When the time is right you'll find the perfect person for you and your son. In the mean time just take time and enjoy your son. He'll only be little for a while and when you least expect it love will find you. Good luck with everything
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Your son is beautiful just the way he is. \n\nBeauty must be defined as what we are, or else the concept itself is our enemy.\n\nTo see beauty is simply to learn the private language of meaning which is anothers life - to recognize and relish what it is!\n\nWhy languish in the shadow of a standard we cannot personify, an ideal we cannot live?
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Little boys with big hearts!\n\nCongratulations to your son.
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The school may provide a program, that is the best bet.  You can check with the school board, or can raise the issue at parent and teacher conferences.  If that fails, you can try algebra made easy books.  I hope this is helpful, and your son comes to understand it, just keep with it, it will sink in.
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I agree with the person who responded previously.  In Canada and the US for sure, and I expect in many other countries,  this discrimination would not be permitted.  Your son would be allowed various options, from having the test in larger print to having it magnified to having it read to him.\n\nCheck with your local department of education.  Do you have a school board?  If so, go to your school board.  Possibly your community has a representative on the school board?  Go to whoever supervises your school.  Find out who is responsible for special education in your area.  Get legal advice if necessary.
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Many people have qualms about it because it's "different". What people don't understand is that "Americans" wouldn't be here if our relatives and ancestors didn't mix. That's what makes us American.\nIt is true that, sadly, your son will have to deal with the confusion of the two races and being picked on. No matter how far in time we go, there will always be someone teaching their children that it's "wrong".\nI would say to not change who you are. Who you love is who you love. Don't let someone scare you or talk you out of it. As for your son, try and make sure he has an understanding and appreciation for both cultures and sides of who he is. And as he gets older, continue to remind him that people just don't understand things sometimes, and they can be mean; but don't hold a grudge. That's the last thing you want him to do. It'll be hard, but continue to encourage him to be himself, not black or white.\nGood Luck and God Bless :)
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http://www.gnanadeepam.org/default.asp\nhttp://www.hindu.com/2005/12/26/stories/2005122616520400.htm\nActually a child who exhibits mild retardation at this age, especially a boy, can surprise you and grow up to be a fully functional contributor to society.  What ever he enjoys and wants to do he can study and prepare.  And it looks like your area is preparing for his future as well.  They even have a disabilities act.  Do not count your son out yet.  He may surprise you.
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"The Gay Agenda" ? Have not read it nor have I ever seen it...interesting though. However, I am Gay and have been with my Partner, registered as we live in California,  for 10 years. Our agenda is to raise our 9 year old son, who is, by the way,  an honor student for all of you right wing crackpots out there,  and be a happy family. We work, do laundry, homework, take vacations, cleanhouse, spend time with Grandmas, Grandpas, cousins, Aunts and Uncles...not really exciting as far as an "agenda" goes. I'd say it's pretty much the same agenda a heterosexual family would have...I was raised in one you know.
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Not sure if they're identical and/or same gender, but making sure to support the expression and development of their own personalities/identities to emerge, giving positive reinforcement for their strengths, and letting them know that they each have their own strengths, like everyone. Make sure to spend about equal time with each and have personal time with each as well. Good luck!