Why is it so hard to find a nice, nice-looking guy with a job?
435549
You may be looking in all the wrong places.  There are great guys out there who have hearts of gold, compassion towards others and certainly know how to treat a lady.  Knowing the qualities of the person who would make you happy is a good thing and is not too much to ask.
1093074
It's really not that hard these days. Are you male or female? If you're a young good looking female it's even easier. If you live in the Los Angles area get a newspaper and simply look through the classified section. Good luck with your new career choice.
1058786
there are tons of guys like that, you just have to find them. (we are all over the place) ;)
429482
They're a rarity nowadays. The quinessential gentleman is hard to find... Just rely on serendipity, who knows
613814
Actually there are NOT a lot of nice guys out there.\nIt doesn't take BEING NICE to fulfill ALL the needs required!\n\nWomen aren't getting what they want, besides the obvious!\n\nI feel it is mainly the sensitivity woman have and want!\nAlso the appreciation we require!\nWomen are sensitive to all aspect to many things at one time. \nMen seem to be able to focus on only one thing at a time!
1183086
I agree with you that in general, people who are good looking tend to be "shallow" and lacking in personality.  I too wanted somebody who was beautiful on the inside too, not just the outside.  Of course, you need to be attracted to that person...\n\nI can say, though, these people do exist.  My wife is very beautiful and is often told so.  But, she also has the most wonderful, caring personality and would do anything for anybody.\n\nKeep looking, and you'll find somebody.
565289
I think a lot (not all) females enjoy the bad boy look but would prefer a nice guy. But that nice guy also has to be able to stand up for what he believes in. Basically not be a push over
189874
Take your time with dating, find who out who you are first so that you can find the right type of guy who will treat you with proper respect and love you for you and not who he wants you to be, and the reason why it is hard to find the good guy is because they are either married, gay or are looking for the right woman.
354385
Unfortunately, it's a hold over from human evolution. We're hardwired to look for desirable mates, ones that "appeal" to us. Other than that, society doesn't make it easy to ignore the standards of beauty that are plastered everywhere for all to see. Beyond that, it could just be that we're all brainwashed. Give me someone with a great personality and sense of humor any day... it will last long after the the beauty fades!
1033245
Well I am not a guy But I see the inner beauty in the men I date. After all the cute is gone you are left with a cute asshole nobody. I figure it is that way for men also when they look for a mate. Of coarse everybody wants that perfect person who is all that .but think of it this way "our skin is just our garage where we                temporarily store our souls."
155856
Well maybe you shouldn't worry about the looks.  You need to find a guy with a good heart and keep him  They are hard to come by.  But, when you find a good man try not to push him away.  You are so young you have a lot of life a head of you.  Take your time and have fun.  Life is to short to worry about the small things.
19148
Good-looking women get asked out by a lot of guys, those who are superficial and those who are nice.  So I guess a smaller percentage of the total guys who ask you out are the nice ones, so you have to work harder to sort them out of the crowd.
284994
The reason that you aren't finding a good man is because you are looking in the wrong places and it is not your time to be with a man. Give up looking, let go and let God. It is not in your time, but when God wants you to be with someone special.
946016
Becuase nice guys are outcasts, ladies want the so called bad boys, besides ladies are too picky, and they have stereotypes that ALL men being cheaters. In this cold and cynical world it seems like  good people are in perpetual doom of always meeting the worst of the opposite sex. Its always darkest before dawn, at the end it will all work out,  life and true love always finds a way.
36286
Yes, there are men out there that want the same thing as you, the only bad thing is finding them.  Just from the description you gave of yourself I like you (not like that though) because it's what's on the inside that makes you beautiful or ugly.  I've seen some REALLY beautiful women as far as looks but thought they were ugly because of their 'I'm better than you' attitude.  So just give it time and eventually (even though it may be hard to wait) you'll find your special someone...
1178467
Most women don't know what they want even at an older age. I think most of us go through a period of yes, we do want the type of guy listed above, cute, smart, funny, respectful, but when we get that there just not bad enough. Don't have enough edge, they seem sissy to us. As women mature and grow older then we realize that those bad boys are just well, bad boys and we actually want a commitment from a guy not some loser w/o a job or ambition for anything.   While it's hard on guys, you just have to be patient there's  girl out there that's wanting a nice guy and can't find them and get's stuck w/ losers...hell, i always did. I think sometimes it maybe not so much a sense of false hope just maybe afraid of oh, my gosh what are my friends going to think b/c he's just so nice and this might make them think he's too sissy. I wish you luck in you search. God bless.
1091397
You sound like a very charming person; I'm sure that you will find someone soon. With a personality as upbeat as yours, I think you will find that plenty of guys would love to be around you. Good luck!