Stay with him or leave him?
447854
I think you've already made up your mind!\n(it's gonna hurt but,don't be afraid of your decision you need to know what other people have to offer,the only problem you have right now is he is your first and you are use to him.Honey after you taste someone else's cooking the only regret you'll have is tying yourself down to one person at such at young age)
379995
try "leaving him" for 2-3 weeks and see how he reacts; sometimes WE get so busy, we sometimes forget what's important in our lives.... try giving him this "reality" check and see what happens. If he loves you, then he will see the errors of his ways and WILL change. If not, then you did the right thing.... dump him!
844740
I would stay. Because if you knew that you made each other happy and that it would mean they leave this world happy. You cant ever give anyone the gift of happiness greater. Even thought it would be hard knowing that they could slip away at any moment, i would personally stay with them
700216
Break up and find a different boyfriend.  By staying , you're encouraging him to stay the way he is.
1096082
you already know the answer. you will leave him or start cheating yourself to get even. your decision is to leave with your dignity or not.
38928
Don't stay if really unhappy. But be sure about it, sometimes things don't go the way we want, but could be just temporary. Be honest to yourself and whatever your decision is don't regret. Good luck.
1149228
Hey gurl!\nwell if u like the guy and belive things will work, then i suggest u stay together!!\nface problems as they come...\nthis relationship might have more to offer than u may think....so why end it before it starts?\nJean
558655
Of course. To stay with someone who loves you out of a sense of obligation is not fair to the one who loves you. No matter how much they might hurt.
1161118
leave him. only for a few days but it will make him think. he needs to see you as an equal person not a slave.
288441
leave him- you deserve better
422418
It's become a question of comfort it sounds like. He is comfortable financially with this person, but lets this stop him from being true to himself and follow his heart. It's really hard to leave someone, but he needs to build up the courage to do so.  You need to show him that you love him, and make this as smooth of a transaction as possible.  best of luck to you!
507888
Well, if you really feel like you're not into him and the relationship isn't going anywhere, what's the point in staying with him? Go find someone that you acutally like and let him find someone that actually likes him. I wasn't very into my last boyfriend, so I let him go after a couple of months. Why drag things out for no reason?
616432
You have to decide if that is the lifestyle that you want to be involved with.  You cannot change a person.  To stay with him in the hopes that he will change is foolish.  Hopefully you don't have any children so you can make a clean break.  If you don't have children but you decide to stay with him, please don't make any children.  They don't need to be brought into a life like that.  It takes more than love to make a marriage work.
144374
By all means tell him now. He will either run or stay. You need to know which way he will go. It's important for the both of you.
264752
No leave him. He's not worth it.\nIf he left you then he didn't care about you. \nHe still doesn't care about you.\nLeave him there are plenty of other guys you can go out with who will not cheat on you. You just have to wait.\nPray to god for a man or be independent
902669
I'd say...I jumped into this relationship and now I regret it. I don't want to hurt your feelings, but I need out. Then, leave. You are right, if you keep on it will hurt more later and I promise you...the longer you wait, the harder it will be to do.
1001344
LEAVE HIM!!!!  I HAD ONE OF THOSE .. DIDNT LEAVE HIM WHEN I SHOULD OF AND NOW HAVE A KID WITH HIM...\n\n\nIT ONLY GETS WORSE.... TRUST ME..... AND YOU KNOW WE DISERVE BETTER.. THERE REALLY IS MEN OUT THERE WILLING TO SPENT THERE LAST PENNY ON YOU RATHER THEN ON THEM SELF...\n\nIF YOU CONSIDERE THIS A PROBLEM AND YOU ARE ONLY DATING HIM WAIT TILL REALITY HITS YOU WHEN YOU LIVE TOGETHER....\n\nYOU NEED A MAN TO TAKE CARE OF YOU ...\nNOT A CHILD TO LOOK AFTER...