Does virginity still matters to men of today? I mean what if the woman you truly love is not anymore a virgin?
455092
No, it doesnt really matter..coz if she can accept the fact that im not a virgin, well so can I...
892315
Sex before marriage is a total no-no for me. Virginity is the most prized possesion for a women and the most deserving man can get the most prized possesion.
457236
There simply are no differences physically whatsoever.  Nothing changes, nothing can be observed.  The only way is to ask a guy and trust that he will be truthful and honest.  Be careful though.  We need not answer a question if the person asking has no need to know or right to know.\n\nThere are a number of questions with the word virgin and what it truly means.  It seems to mean different things to different people, especially today.
463072
If you give away something special then your virginity is lost. Virginity is more than penetration.
566444
Being a virgin makes no difference. if you are a virgin it seems to have more of a damper since you have to kinda prep the girl first. Not a virgin is a plus but too much experience might make him shy away. If she is a virgin and she doesnt tell me she will be in a bit of pain, since im a bit rough. A female should always tell her male if she is a virgin, always.
1020360
I'd rather the man for me would be a virgin, if I ever find him, but I don't expect him to be. Virginity just doesn't seem to be important to very many people anymore.
919662
No hes not a virgin anymore just half a virgin.\nVirgin its just a word for guys is not the same as for woman man can say they are or there not but cant actually prove anything but woman can.
597264
Not a lot of girls deserves a virgin man, and many wouldn't want one these days. but if there were more men like you, we would be in a better shape these days. and girls/guys relations would be much healthier. with no illusions about bad guys or cheating girls matters. but unfortunately its not whats going on. and the dating game will continue to rule our relationships.
1103196
I would say it depends on if the man is a virgin himself, if so I think it is ok, because then the couple would be sharing the same morals. But if the man is not a virgin then I think it is wrong for him to want someting from the woman that he himself could not or would not do, hypocritical to me. Also, if you fall in love with someone who happens to have had sex already then I think it would be dumb not to marry her solely for this reason, it's not like it's something she can take back, and should not be denied love by you because of something that happened in her past.
681706
I think that there are spiritual elements to sexuality that make virginity important to marriage. Not essential, but still important.
544988
I think it also includes purity of your thoughts, your conduct, your speech and your attitudes.  It's not just about being a virgin.  You can be a virgin and still have a very impure inside.
131757
I think it's wonderful your staying a virgin thats the way it's suposed to be..your suposed to save it for when you married thats the most wonderful gift you can give your husband...if this man doesn't respect your decision then you need to find someone who will..it's hard in todays world to find someone to respect that but you will and when you do you'll know he truley loves you if he will wait for you..good luck
533818
if you have had sex with her and she did not bleed it does not mean she is not a virgin cos some girls donot bleed for the first time and bleed later or even some donot bleed at all the only way to know this is your trust in her and her faith in you if she loves you she will not lie and you need to make her feel it that even if she is not a virgin you still love her
579628
Don't get into technical stuff. A virgin means purity and its has got a lot to do with mental purity than just a physical one. A girl is a virgin if she offers he body to a guy whom she loves and she continues to be a virgin if love is involved in any such relationship. Virginity is lost only if she offers her body as a object for fulfilling a man's desire for any reason other than love.
582301
if you've had sex, but come to God and ask for forgivness and ask Him into your heart...and REALLY change...then yes, there is such a thing as a born-again virgin...but NOT literal. that's done for life. your hymen is broken, you've had sex. you can't take that back. but you CAN ask for forgiveness for it.
185126
i think both are equally important. in my own honest opinion a person should lose his / her virginity only to the most special person for him / her.
355806
i don't believe you would still be a virgin, but that should not mean it is any less special when you chose someone to share your first consensual experience with. you are still pure and being victimized does not take that away. you define yourself any way you wish and make sure any potential partner respects that.