how do i stop fallin in love now  that my heart is broken?
447626
Don't give up...cause once you find it the joy and pleasure of being in love is far stronger than the pain you feel right now.  Just take a break and try again.\n\nGood Luck and God speed.
332209
A broken heart is not broken just bruised or hurt.It is alright to cry and talk it out. Remind yourself not to close another out for the human heart will mend and love again.Tell yourself the person who broke your heart did not deserve it in the first place and there is someone who will mend your heart and love you as though you never had a broken heart. Smile even though you want to cry laugh even when you want to fall apart. Love even if you feel you can't.
824658
Here's the thing. When you fall in love with someone, there is no getting rid of them or forgetting them. They will always be there in your head. Now yes you do get over the fact that it hurts eventually, but you never forget them. Love is that special thing that when you share it with someone it essentially is always there. \n\nNow i know that everyone will tell you things like: relax, just get over it, take a bath, read a book, or go to God. More or less you just have to figure it out on your own regardless of what people will say here. Because dealing with heartache, its a natural part of life, its the bad side effect of love. But if i was to offer my best advice, i would say that you should chalk it up to experience. Count it as a learning experience, so every time you start to think about him just think about what you learned from the situation, how it will make you a stronger person, and how it will help you in the future. Love is a big part of everyone's life, and it shouldn't be forgotten, even when its bad. Best of luck in your hard times...
999457
Allow time to heal it. Nothing and no one can fix a broken heart and there will always be a scar from it. It's a lesson learned baby, and you'll be a better person from it. Don't mope around, get out and have some fuuunn!!!! That's the only way you'll get over him and you may even meet someone new who can help with the healing process. It seems like love  can fix anything doesn't it? Good luck baby girl
658202
The best way to get over it, is to move on. Get a new love in your life, and devote 110% of your time and attention to him. You'll be amazed at how soon you'll be "over him'. Good Luck.....
334975
lol, chill out, you'll find better love, i just went through something kinda like that, and it hurt at first, but you will gain confidence by saying no.
1038905
It takes time to get over someone that you have loved and trusted so deeply. I know that's probably not what you want to hear but it is true. The last thing that you need to do right now is to jump into another relationship. Take your time and let love happen to you again in its own time. In the mean time try to occupy your time with other things and don't dwell on missing him so much. I know its easier said than done but trust me in time it will get better.
652699
Why aren't you over this lover? I wouldn't waste my time thinking of anyone that left me high and dry for another person. You need to work on your self esteem because you are missing a person who obviously didn't care and respect your feelings. Move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea who will stay with you and not abandon you. Pray for someone to love you as much as you love them,  go out with your friends more, talk to someone you trust about your feelings, date people(you don't have to sleep with them) and go out and socialize
820230
Hi Dabby,\n\nLife is full of ups and downs.  Right now you are down but you have to get up.  Only time will heal you broken heart  no words that we write will solve you problem but they will definately encourage you.\n\nRight now what you need is forget about men.  Do something that you like the most.  Take a break from your routine life and go for a vacation if possible take some girlfriends with you and have a good time.  U have to make things work for your self dear.  Just give your self a well deserved break from all and do something that you have never done before i am not saying that you will forget all your problems but at least they will become light.  Basically keep yourself occupied just do something or the other.  \n\nSome relationships work some don't but the hope should always be there.  \n\nI wish you all the best in life.  Good Luck
320003
It takes time to get over a love relationship.  Some people say that it takes half the time you were involved to get over it.  The best thing is to just talk it out with friends, or maybe a professional counselor.  It's a process, getting over a broken heart, not an event.  It's not something that you just wake up the next day and say, "I'm over it".  I found getting involved with new friends, or interests took my mind away from my sadness.  \nI'm sorry to hear that you are hurting, I hope that you can find some support and distraction soon.  It won't always be like this.  Some day in the future you will look back at this and realize that it wasn't a good relationship for you.
1179104
Honey get on with your life find a passion that just is about you and you being proud of yourself and who you are...and then sit back and watch true love find you...and in the mean time im sure you'll break...if you haven't already...a few hearts yourself...and they are thinking the same about you...
133947
spend time on your self it sounds like you lost your self in this relationship. spend time with your friends and family fall in love with your self then you will heal
459944
Love and pain come hand in hand. You can't avoid it. Allow yourself to fall, it's the whole point of "falling" in love. They will catch you if they love you in return. It's better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all. It's the only way to live. Push your fear aside and give it your all.
1030758
Sadly, stopping to think about him is one of the hardest things to do. There´s no way to just stop. And you´re doing it cause he´s obviously a really important person in your life and you really care about him.\nSuggestions:\n1- Go for it! ask him out.. get a friend to set you guys up... or at least hang out with him more so he can see the great person you are\n2- Find someone else that wants to be with you... unless you´re in Love with this guy you´ll forget about him\n3- Wait... a long time... i don´t suggest this that much because you´ll go pretty insane. Either you´ll end up liking him less or just getting use to the pain and the obsession. But i really suggest either trying to be with him or going for someone else
193145
The best way to mend a broken heart is to accept the fact you can never have him again and move on by making your days busy and by doing things that will make you happy. Be with your friends because they will really help you ease up the pain.
242969
1.Get yourself involved in some other activities to help get your mind off the person.  \n2. There are other fish in the ocean, and maybe by getting involved in something, you can meet someone special that will heal that broken heart.\n\nThe main thing is you got to move on or nothing will happen.
485509
u never really do.  u just go on wit your life.\nfind more loves but u are never really over any of them.\nu just think of it less as time goes by.\ni suggest journaling all your feelings about ur true love and ur pain as a way of moving thru them.