Is it  OK to send my wife roses when she wants time away from me?
439477
I wouldn't do it. She wants time away give her time away. To me that's not what marriage is about. You don't take time-outs in marriage. If someone needs a time-out in marriage you goto the gym or go for walks in the park or find a yourself little hobby.
838462
Well, my husband was in the same boat earlier this week we were separating. He started with flowers ( red roses ) and brought me some special cookies from Cookies Creation. Then we sat down and talked it out. We are now both at home again and trying. I liked that he actually thought about my needs instead of just his. Any type of small gift will show her that you do care...be sure to say a lot of I am sorry's. Good luck.
469059
I will, I will!! How and where do I send them? Would she like them before she's gone or after. And could it be Carnations?
111234
hey dude... give her a rose as of now 'coz ur sayin u dont luv her yet .even a greeting card will do. good luck!
33849
I don't enjoy flowers as much as my wife does, but if she got me some I would still consider it a good and noble gesture.  So I suppose it depends on the man, but I would think it's a fine idea.
1013422
First, asking this question was pretty good.  At least I know you're thinking in the right direction.   Listen to everyone's advice - I like it when you help out around home without having to be told - I would love it if you would find a sitter for the kids one evening and make some plans for just us - and yes, I do want to know what you're thinking and feeling, stop building a wall before me.  \n\nThe roses and gifts would just be icing on the cake, and you know I prefer my cake without frosting anyways..\n\nI love you too!
183984
Since you wrote the love notes, I think it's best that you give them to her and let her read them. We all feel a certain inspiration when writing and sometimes there are things we feel we can express only through writing. Your first instinct was to write her not talk her.  So I believe you should stick to your original plan.  Unless of course you strongly feel otherwise.
528560
Well, call me crazy but you should probably just tell her, and give her some flowers or something special only to her, something that relates to something she has told you or something you have dont together, something that shows you have thought about her. You might want to spend less time on here too ;-)
182549
If your job is what is taking u away here is an idea that may help her adjust.  Buy little things- I dont mean diamonds and gold- just little things and send her something each and everyday!  Make sure once a week she gets flowers.  Send her cards of love every single day.  Call her on your lunch breaks just to say u love her- send her photos on your cell phone of u missing her!  I would also try to move closer to her before she gets too lonely!  But some of these things will make her soooo happy and make her feel so loved she might just move to be near YOU!
457542
Send emails,call..appreciate the times when you are together.The absence makes the time together that much more special.You need both..there is a dichotomy in everything.A high and a low..an opposite,that is necessary for the Universe to function.So for you to be together,there must be time apart... simple.It may not be an equal time,but it is there.
1170371
Well, she did give you a heads up that she would be busy this weekend. I'm sure this is question requiring a sensible answer from a female. But what i would think is wait till after the weekend and maybe just one more day. If no reply, two possibilities, a)She's REALLY busy b)Something's wrong between you two. Face things as they come and dont get paranoid. And ease up on the emails and texts.
101066
Send her some flowers.
576514
no its not okay. she is already taken and if she is unhappy or if she wants to be with you let her come to you on her own, it is not your place to break up a marriage. how would you feel if you were married and some guy was trying to steal your wife away? its a matter of respect. think about your pride and your character.
1027117
You don't have to get her a whole 'nother gift necessarily. Maybe take her to dinner and get her some flowers. I wouldn't expect another gift from my partner. Hope you guys have a really EXCELLENT anniversary with lots of hugs and kisses.
99330
Always better to show them how much you care by spending time together. Doesn't have to be fancy. Just take them somewhere special.
208056
How sweet. It is good to read married people care about each other. If you can't fit in the luggage, then get her a hallmark card and slip it in her luggage without her knowing with a single flower (from her favorite kind of flowers) and give her the remaining flowers at her departure.
966096
She is gone.  Leave her alone or risk having an order of protection slapped on you.  She made it clear that she wants to be away from you...by moving all her stuff out.  Let her be. It's only going to be trouble if you don't.