what should i do if my best friend ex boy friend ask me for a chance?
454745
What does she say about it?
1031437
Follow your heart, give him a chance. If they are true friends they need to respect your decisions and choices unconditionally.
730396
You need to decide, do you want more than friends, or nothing?\n\nBecause most likely the friendship is over when you reject him.\n\nThe best thing to do is whatever is best for you.
348860
Get to know another guy (probably friend) find out some about them, then try to guess if you think you'd stand a chance or not. If you think you'll get rejected just don't try, if you think he might be curious, then go ahead and give it a shot.
330939
oh you like him, or at best the attention he is giving you and want to justify the fact that he is your ex boyfriends mate, well it is not a moral issue really ,if you fancy him and he makes a move tell him how you feel as regards his mate,being your ex and go with your heart.\n\nGigi
42709
ask him how he really feels about you, but be careful, because one way or another, after you cross that line, your friendship will feel different. in other words, you have to make the choice between a good friend that you already have and a potential partener. this is a gamble you have to be willing to make and possibly lose, but the payoff is worth it because the best loves are your best friends, ask anyone who is really in love
762561
I would just ask him.  if you have been friends for 5 years, then it should be okay.
901404
you let him go for whatever reason that may be or you all split up, therefoer you dont really have a right to have a say on who he dates but you can tell your best friend how you feel. Even so if they love each other there isnt much you can do. Just let them go, if it was meant to be between the two of you it may not work out between the best friend and him and then you can ask him back.You  also should tell your  ex how you feel about him still.  But honestly you should move on because there will be many loves in your life. Dont get stuck on someone who doesnt share the same feelings for you as it can only lead to endless pain.\nSorry if that wasnt the answer you wanted but I honestly dont think theres anything else you could do without getting your heart broken or making one or both of them angry with you. Because if you try to split them up or sabatoge their relationship it will only cause them anger and resentment towards you.
191083
it sounds like he just wants to be best friends for now.......;)...hang out some more and maybe your luck will change....
835268
I would definitely say this guy likes you. but do you want someone in your life that could do what he has done? he is with your EX best friend she is an x and so is he. You sound like a young woman who enjoys life and is attractive. My suggestion to you is remain friends with this guy but nothing more. expand your circle of friends, open your horizons. You may just find a guy that will tickle you and only you, If you continue with this boy don't be surprised if you end up in tears or being used.
524350
Ask him out although your friend may be crushed. If you break up then she can ask out.Or the three of you could date each other
519581
yes, i think you should make the first move. why let something get away when he was your first. if you don't then why be mad your the one standing back letting her do this. best friends are few and far between and if she'll do this to you then what else will she do. so tell yourself the truth she is not your bestfriend.friends stand beside each other not behind each other.
5289
You can't do nothing about it. Just go on with life. Plenty of other fish in the sea. But, next time you like someone, don't have your friend go up to him and ask if he likes you, because that's lame and you wont gain any experience. Boys like confidence in woman, so next time, ask the guy yourself instead of having messengers ask for you.
444696
Going after a guy that your friend has dated is always tough. It depends on how their relationship ended and whether your feelings for him are strong. I am currently very interested in my ex-best friend's ex-boyfriend. WE stoped being friends when she found out that I liked him. But I couldn't help how I felt, he's different than any other guy. If you feel like he's special and you could be avoiding something that could be really great for both of you, don't. Go for it, if your friend really cares about you she'll want you to be happy. Best of Luck!
970293
Tell him again and dont let him think there is a chance for something more. I can't promise you that your friendship is strong enough to be there when this is all done, but you HAVE to be straight with him.
310010
HES YOUR FRIEND so its OK. just ask. If he blows you off just say that you had no one 2 go with and he was da closest thing to a date you can find -and laugh it off. Use flattery and be jokey. Than ask him if he knows anyone you can go with to change the subject this way you can still be friends if he gives you the crunch- GOOD LUCK
404750
Sounds like he isn't ready to move on cause he's already turned down one of your friends.  You said you were with him when you were 13.  Depending on how much older you are now, I wouldn't try and re-establish some sort of a relationship unless you are ready for one.  To be fair to your other friend, if you truly feel a desire and need to find out if you and your ex have anything to build a relationship on, tell her first.  Explain to her one of your other friends liked him and he turned her down, and she wants you to get back with him, which leads me to believe he wants to try with you again.  So to keep your other friend that thinks she is totally in love with him, from getting hurt and rejected by him, talk to her, explain the whole situation and she won't feel so foolish.  The worst thing you could do is go back with your ex without explaining to her the truth.