Party at your parents house?
450010
I partied at a friends house one time...we hired a band and had kegs.We cleaned up everything we thought...a week later his dad took him and sat him down and dumped a pile of ciggarett butts in front of him. About 100 butts and several different brands. OOPS we forgot the butts from all over the yard. We were busted.
1042793
Speak to your parents. Quickly.
127869
Depends upon who can afford it, I guess.  But in general, I would say whoever is planning it.  If you and your siblings wanted to do something simple, and your parents want something more elegant, I think you should contribute to the party, but I don't think it is fair for you to get stuck with the entire bill.  Unless, of course, you can do it for a fairly comparable price.  That might be possible, too, if you have the dinner at someone's home.
830258
Maybe ask your parents if you can have a New Years Eve sleep over.
690265
Happy Birthday... Have a party
1171673
fooling your father around\n\ni think it would be better to let him do it if he's drunk
555571
A beach party is a fine idea.\nAre you getting your license?  Maybe you can get your parents to let you have a car scavenger hunt and you can have a car-themed party.  Guests can break into teams and search for items on a scavenger hunt list.  Give each hunt party a polaroid camera to catch their items on film.  You can also have a treasure hunt where you hide something (or bury it, if at the beach) and the team that finds it gets to keep the prize.  If your parents are giving you a car, suggest your friends bring you car items for presents:  a gas card, organizers for the backs of your seats, special floor mats, something to hang from your rearview mirror, seat covers, keychains, and a CD organizer.  Hit a relative up for a cellphone (like a Tracfone) and minutes, if you don't happen to have one.  Have a great birthday!
211684
Respecting your parents, family members, curfews, helping around the house with chores, eating together as a family, etc
784449
Okay, first of all...who is footing the bill for this reception?  If it's the parents, you should abide by their wishes.  Also, because they are non drinkers does that mean the do not wish to even see the sight of someone else consuming alcohol?  Perhaps you could have a small reception immediately following the wedding (the ol' church basement thing) and a larger party later in the evening?
267747
Call up all your friends and invite them over for a party!
31397
no. if the party is at his house you should bring a gift of wine, drink, or flowers.
237824
Your party seems good to go! Have fun!!
209650
House party. Then you don't have to drive home, and you can let people crash there if they need to.
536150
I'm going to be at my house! And maybe go to parties! I don't know! ANd you?
103759
Have a pizza party at a nearby hotel with a pool.. no clean up for your parents... and all night goofing off and having fun...\n\nHappy Birthday To You.. Happy Birthday To You!!... Happy Birthday Dear MEEEEERRRRREEEEEE... Happy Birthday To You!!!\n\nHope you have a wonderful one wherever you go or whatever you do.
106898
What about baby sitting or dog walking? Or what about cleaning the house for your parents?
479706
Take her home to meet your mom.