If you love it let go,if it comes back it was yours,if it doesnt,it never was. Is that true?
443398
No...Sometimes things are meant for us but we can screw it up. I believe that we all control our own fate and if you want someone or something go for it...you don't leave it in the hands or anyone or anything else... Because while you are waiting for someone to come back there will be someone else who will get in the way of that and change the path. If someone loved you it was for a reason and if their mind changed from that you can change it back...nothing is written in stone. Don't wait for fate to come to you make your own. Don't hold on to the love theory of letting things go...if you drop a priceless gem into the ocean and you sit on that shore do you really think you are ever going to see it again...NO....If you let go someone who is priceless to you there is a ocean full of people for them to meet and love do you really think if you just sit there and do nothing they will just float on back...NO!
3828
yes - the one who gave it to you initially -\nwhat comes around goes around
383789
no cz they will always link it back like oh remember when we were so and so (and the so and so always happens to be when they were intimate)..it's either love forever or never
1034505
no never not if you have been kind to it and you have treated it well .you could go away for months and they would still remenber you .they are faithfull and loving
821266
i am a huge fan of this theory.  just like the old saying "if you love something let it go.  if it never comes back it wasn't meant to be but if it does come back, love it forever".  go with your first instinct.  it's usually the correct course in action.
332084
if u love something set it free...............if it doe'nt track it down and...............
179007
only if you let it be
468364
i think it's true..you could get it out of your mind for sometime but the memories and everything about your first love will always be with you..
506491
sounds like she was something you owned , like she was your possesion, maybe that's why she left in the first place
830500
yes it can be reopened if you chose to drop it. but you'll probably be filing for divorce if it doesn't work out this time, rather than a legal separation, right?
649461
of course. cause the sayings true -- you dont know what you got til its gone.
209639
I had a ex of my get it once. it was about 2 years ago.  I thought about it the other day, brought up the "what if" question, but i wasn't in the position at the time to devote everything to a kid, so I think of it that way.
414935
Unfortunately we don't usually get the choice. If it's headed to a bad place you can try and salvage at least a descant departure. However, if it's from someone you really loved you can't help but be hurt regardless who ends it. Sometimes it's just not meant to be!
600648
sure it happens. You may be in love with something specific or an idea and that thing has left the equation.
1049446
yes i believe so you see if your meant to be then you two will find your way back to each other after life has taught you some lessons you are both meant to learn,just how life is seems hard for that moment,however in some cases it might not work either i have been waiting 7 years and still he never came my way maby because we live in different countries i dont know but sometimes if you truley love someone then why have to let them go keep them close to your heart tell her how you feel and cherish your every moment because you never know when you might loose it
728944
this is a question i had asked myself for 13 yrs. I had fallen in love when i was young and in high school. We had to move to another state so that my mother could find decent employment to take care of us. My mother told me that because i was young, i would soon forget. Me and this guy lost contact a year later after I had moved away. 4 years later, we made contact once again and began a phone relationship. We made plans to reunite. Things didnt go as planned and that trip was not made due to him becoming incarsarated for a crime that he did not commit. I began another relationship. I have had several relationships with other people since then. None of them had ever compared to the one we shared, until recently. Once again, I went about finding him. He had since married and had a child. We talked on the phone and we once again spoke of our feelings. It was known at that time that we both had always felt the same way. I was getting married 6 months after that phone call and I knew what I had to do. I had to go see him. I owed it to myself and to my future husband. My fiancee left me over this, but had i not made the trip, I would not have known what I know now. The love I have for him, will never go away. However, seeing him and his family together instilled a peace within me. I know that he is happy. I finally recieved the closure I needed to move on, knowing that we will always share a bond. Since then, I have met a man that I know will have my whole heart, the way that he should. Finalizing a former love relationship is the most important thing you can do for your self and the other person involved. It is what will allow you to move on and make future relationships work.
465517
I think if u tried ur best to find it u won't find it...just forget abt it and it'll come back to u one way or another