Why are bisexual females reluctant to experience Polyfidelity? (I am not talking about polygamy)?
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I believe the reluctance is fear. As you say, we were all raised to be monogamous.  In short, raised to hate or judge negatively any romantic relationship that is not monogamous.  Which, is no different than many of us being raised to hate, making negative judgments about Catholicism (or Protestantism), Jews (or Christians), Blacks (or Caucasians), Gypsies, gays or bisexuals, family members, psychics, organic food (smile–but true) and etcetera.  \n\nSo, it comes down to the problem being “conditional” relationships—all about conditional love.  Monogamy stickily is based on conditions. . .  Stating, “I will love you and only you, but only as long as you only love me and in the way I want your love.  Otherwise, I will stop loving you and hate you and make your life as miserable as possible as I obsess on destroying you.”    \n\nAnd, monogamy is called true love, I beg to differ. . .  Not to suggest that many who are in monogamous relationships are not truly in love—they are.  That is, until one or the other of them meet another soul-friend and fall in-love.(smile)  \n\nSo, to my reasoning the reluctance of bisexual ladies is about fear based jealousy---wanting to own the relationship even if it is owning one relationship with their man and owning another with their bi-lady friend and not to mix them.  There are many bisexual women married or in a relationship with a man that will not allow their man to come near their bifem-friend.  Of course, this possessiveness extends to their other female friends as well.\n\nSeems that conditional-monogamy raised us to be egotistically and emotionally immature, demanding “ME-ME-ME. . .MINE-MINE-MINE!”  \n\nSad that we cannot see how much more fulfilled we would all be if we would open our hearts and minds to nature and the loving intentions of GOD rather than the small-minded dictates of men and women.    \n\nKeep smiling. . .  True Unconditional-LOVE will overcome.
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I think the main reason that people can't or don't commit to relationships is immaturity and selfishness.  They often want to keep playing the field or go out and play the field.  There is also the fear of being hurt and the fear of what a commitment to a lifelong relationship entails.  I think another problem is their not knowing what they want or what is best for both of them.  I had one friend who dated a girl for about 8 years until he felt that God wanted him to marry the girl.  That girl was frustrated beyond belief.  She had 4 other roommates in the house, including my future wife, and all of them met and married guys after the two of them had started dating.  It really is a tough thing to do since the onus seems to be placed upon the male to ask the lady if she wants to marry them.  Heck, it is hard enough asking a woman to dance with the fear of rejection!!! ;)
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No, not always I was rarely monogamous during relationships until I met and started dating my husband.  I am so happy and fulfilled in every way I don't need anyone else!
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Meeting the physical and emotional needs of one woman is taxing, let alone trying to meet the needs of more than one. If you find yourself bored in a monogamous relationship, you're probably not giving your partner the attention they deserve.\n\nWhile curiousity may get the better of you when looking at other people you are attracted to, that's a part of being in a relationship. It's a part of learning why what you have is so great.
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I think to some degree, weather huge or not, everyone is bi...we all "check out" the same sex...for comparison reasons and it's natural...\nAs for means of turning on...i know dozens of straight women whom don't purposely check out other women as an added boost for arousal...\nBut I do stand by my previous statement...Hun, we are all Bi to a certain degree...Though personally, I don't like men physically at all...
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I think bisexuals are the luckiest of all sexual persuasions. Bisexuality isn't about lusting for men and women equally, bisexuality is about being sufficiently emotionally flexible that you can fall in love with either sex. \n\nThink about it. Heterosexuals are limited to half the world's population when trying to find a potential mate. Homosexuals have the same problem. But bisexuals (theoretically) have twice the possibilities because love can strike them anywhere, with anyone. \n\nThat, my dear, isn't a case of confusion. In a world where everyone wants to be loved, being bisexual is a type of manna from heaven, or maybe just plain old-fashioned good luck. Take your pick.
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I am Bi amd married. I believe there should be no secrets in a marriage/relationship so I have told my hubby about it. We have a mutual girlfriend. One does not have to CHOOSE, you can be bi and be happy! I am!
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first off you are not bio  you are BI curious  I think that alot of women are.  I had a 3 some with my ex husband  I got hot thinking about it as well but there were rules he could not penetrate her.  It wasnt as good as you would think it would be.  I would rather have wild sex and keep the fantasy alive than doing it.  It is not that big of a deal.  Plus are you ready to watch your husband touch anf kiss and lick another?  That id=s difficult.  We actually had a 4 some anotehr couple we only performed oral on the other ppl and the guys watched us then we had sex with our partners.  I was accused of cheating that next day cuz i gave head to the other guy  I would seriously think about it and make sure that you want to take it to that level
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Because for every unfaithful man, there is a woman who disrespects marriage as much as the man she is cheating with.  She may be married, she may be single, but she certainly has little if any respect for marriage.\n\nSo why is ANYONE, regardless of gender unfaithful to marriage?\n\nBecause they are selfish.
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I believe that it is very unnatural to only be with one person. It is human nature to want to spread our seed. However, if you have decided to commit yourself to one person you must be true to them and only them. If you don't think it would be possible for you participate in a monogamous relationship, maybe you need to find another person that shares your same ideas and values on relationships.
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Bisexuality is about loving a person, not a gender. Someone bisexual is not on the fence or fooling themselves; a bisexual has an open heart. I'm polyamorous and I have no problem with two male partners loving each other as well as loving me.
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People consider themselves bisexual because they are sexually attracted to partners of either sex. They date whomever they feel more compatible with at the time.
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This is an individual situation.  You can not lump all females in one group.  Some females enjoy sex more than their partners.  Some do not.
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Have you ever heard of polygamy involving more than one husband? I like it about as much as the idea of a threesome with two women. Don't men have enough problems with just one wife?
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anyone can have a monogamous relationship.  sexuality has nothing to do with loyalty.
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Yeah basically. I'm not scared of relationships, but I think the traditional 2-person relationships arent natural, which is why so many people cheat once they get married or have been together for so long. You know what I mean? If human beings were meant to live in that kind of relationship, why do so many get unhappy while in them? Me, I'm polyamorous. I like it much better this way. Youll notice that free relationships last much longer and are much more satisfying in general...Or at least thats what I think. Oh well. Everyone decides how they live for themselves. Hope that helps you...\n\n\n\nPeace
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Maybe it's because they've never been taught about the consequences.. i mean, so far all i've heard is how we shouldn't stop two people who loved each other from marrying, even if they're the same gender. Or, the relationship is ethically wrong. A majority of people aren't taught about the dangers of it. I don't support this kind of marriage also.. because i was brought up knowing that it ruins the marriage institution (between a man and a woman) and etc. Maybe what you said could come true, but it will take years before others  to open their eyes and see what has happened.