Why do people (men) say that we cheat on them, when we don't?
447121
Insecurity, they don't trust themselves so they always have their eyes on you and saying your doing something when your not.  Little do they know that pushes a woman away, so when they start that game just keep your eyes and ears open cuz they gonna tell on themselves in a minute lol.
1162434
I do believe you mean "who" cheats more. If so, then allow me to give my opinion. I think men cheat more because most women are attached to their feelings/emotions when involved with a guy. Men are more analytical and think less with emotion. Women like to be held, talked to sweetly, respected as 'thinking'  people with viable opinions and last but not least deeply and honestly appreciated. Men on the other hand rationalize, often wrongly,   womens intentions, needs, wants, desires so they tend to decide in their favor what options they have. Also, men are 'hunter's'. That should tell you a lot right there.
642197
I have never cheated but have heard that the main reason a woman cheats is because she is not fully happy at home. Something is missing, which could be a lot of things...
4419
nope.  if they say they are, they're just looking for an easy out.  I know several men who have been in the same monogamous relationship for decades and have never cheated, and they're happy.  there are lots of men out there who are very interested in a committed, monogamous relationship - and they're the good ones :)
1032147
it's Men and Women.  Cheaters are classified as people who have issues with themselves and can't deal with conflicts in the relationship so they simply cheat to get their needs met.  Their needs can be anything from loneliness to neglect, lack of sex, lack of self esteem, lack of attention, lack of affection and so on.  IF these needs are not met, some people cheat to get them met.\n\nTHE PROBLEM with this method-cheating- is that these feelings that I mentioned in paragraph one are lacking with a cheater and most people don't understand that they have to tend to their own needs and not expect others to fix them. In other words, someone who is lonely has to help himself, not expect his spouse to and then when his spouse can't deliver, they cheat.\n\n  You see, most people who cheat are expecting their partners to fill these voids that I mentioned above when in reality, a person who is emotionally grounded understands that these are things one gives to themselves through proper self esteem and self love.   So many people lack those inner feelings (due to upbringing and environment) which is why so many people cheat.\n\nHow do you spot a cheater- you don't but you look for someone with self respect, self love, self esteem, honor, integrity, empathy, generosity and all those core values.  The more one possesses those qualities, the less likely they will resort to cheating when they feel a void.
734719
*Yawns* Why are men so hippocricial about cheating when they do it equal or more than women anyway??... Sorry dude but I found men to be very untruthful and will never admit to being wrong as well. It's not about gender it's about human nature.
305633
Men are weak and so are women.  Both cheat the same, actually statistics reflect that women cheat more; women are smarter at not getting caught, we've learned from men in all the prior decades.  \n\n[Married] humans can fall weak for someone else and realize at the end that we made a huge mistake because we realize that the person we are with is a "better" person.  \n\nThe grass may seem greener, but it hardly ever is.  When humankind realizes that, cheating may not be such a big problem.\n\nMen are smart about this, knowing to differentiate between "love" and "lust". That's why they run home and tell their wife they LOVE them.
643168
It's my opinion that it doesn't matter whether it's a woman or a man...I, myself, would not get serious or even date someone I knew had not be faithful.  Even if that person was unfaithful only once.  I could never trust them.  It takes a lot of &*$^%* to cheat!  I've been the victim of one who cheated on me.  We were married.  It seems to be a thrill that they seek, even when the consequences of getting caught could devastate their life.  Who would be stupid enough to take that chance?   I don't understand.
4019
Why do Women cheat on Men?\n\nI do not believe that it has any thing to do with the gender of the person but the character of the individual.  If a person (male or female) is not committed to or satisfied with a relationship there is not much you can do to stop them from looking somewhere else.\n\nPeople suck and sh** on others all the time it is human nature.
612392
They don't like to cheat, well some don't..it's that they are immature about problem solving...they don't know how to end the relationship, or cant push past the temptation..It's all about maturity
1049408
Most people who cheat are too immature to face their partners or spouses with the truth. They are typical cowards and haven't grown up yet. It is sad but true. People can be awfully brutal. Some just don't even care and want their cake and ice cream too. It is always very disgusting and sickening to see that happen.\nIt really hurts a person's heart and causes pain. How can a person say they love you and cheat on you behind your back? That is not the type of love I am looking for. They can keep that.
785852
I think you aren't being fair! all men don't cheat. My wife is the one who has cheated on me! And I thought I was being the Ideal husband but I found out wrong. I'm sorry that you think all men are cheaters, but keep in mind if it wasn't for the willing woman out there men wouldn't be able to cheat.
424495
Men don't see it as cheating. We see it as sex, and sex is fun and good. Men can keep sex and love completely separate, If women have sex even 2 or three times they begin to love. It is primal instinct. Women are driven to look out for the safety of the offspring and this is done by attaching themselves to an alpha male. Men are driven to propagate the species by spreading their seed as often and far as possible. We are not far from the caves.\n\nj.swaney@yahoo.com
126444
I think not all men lie. The ones who lie should not even be givin the time of day. If you are accused of cheating or lying, and you are not, then they are most likely cheating or doing something wrong to you. Dont waste your time.
137600
Not necessarily. Some guys say that so a girl will think he doesn't cheat
829652
Guys aren't always liars, it's just that finding ones that aren't is the trick...guys don't want commitment, just sex, and they'll do anything to get it (that's how the trojan war started), whether its lie, cheat, steal (and usually, it's all of the above). I know some great guys, who don't lie, but they've fallen victims to lying, cheating girls, and they've vowed never to date again, bcuz every woman knows that there needs to b at least one decent, loving, caring and hot guy in the dating world...
424649
Different reasons. Depends on the guy, the girl, the situation... same as when girls cheat I supposed. Sometimes it's just because they are selfish and thoughtless and don't actually care about who they are with.