It becomes more and more difficult  for me to fall in love,I am getting older but more beautiful.?
440029
Maybe because you're beauty, more guys are getting attracted to you. This will definately attact the Jack---es, where as before you had men interested in true love. No, I'm not telling you to get ugly, just that the guy will be harder to find, and will have to love you for you, and you'll have to love him for him. Maybe you're biting on looks too when you look for a guy, then find out his personality is not so good. Can't tell with the amount of info, but keep trying!!!
1011655
I have the same problem its happened about 4 times to me. But i think that its meant to happen. i know its hard right now...and i know everyone says it will get better and i truly think it will. But you just have to remember there are a lot of good people with good hearts out there. And one of them is absolutly meant just for you. I hope that you find that someone soon.
830339
Must be your first love? It's going to happen more in your life so get used to it. Everything passes in time.>
594565
Get used to it...all women are somewhat crazed, especially when it comes to men. I wish I could tell you that it will get better when you get older but it wont, it's just one of those things you have to learn to deal with.
26477
Well, unfortunately for those who think you cannot change, it's impossible.  You will change.  Your likes in music will change.  One day you'll love something and the next day you will be sick of it.  Don't worry, you are changing.  As you grow older, you will find yourself liking less physical activities... Why?  Circumstancial situation -- your body aches and things get difficult and you decide you cannot run a marathon like you could when you were 20.  This means that you might love running now, but in 40 years you'll hate to even walk.\n\nIn terms of relationships, usually if you are comfortable enough, you will change to adapt to that relationship.  If you love someone a lot, there are certain things you will do because you are not alone anymore.  It's not me, it's we.  Maybe if you like something with a passion, she cannot ask you to drop it because she wants you to do that.  She could try but will you let her?  On the other hand, some of your things such as taking a vacation whenever I feel like it for however long is a different story.  You cannot simply dissapear without word. You have to talk with your significant other and tell her stuff.  Remember, it's not just you anymore.  She'll change too!  If you live together, she'll pick up a few habits that you never thought would happen that will make your lives easier.  It happens.  She's changing too... The first sign of change, believe it or not, is the fact that you learned to love her.  Your views on her are different, therefore it's the beginning the way she's making you change.  And remember, if there are things that are absolute (like you cannot change the fact that you hate meat or something) make sure she knows that before she tries.\n\nDon't worry, people's personalities are dynamic, not static.  The person you love in the beginning will not be the person you love at the end of your life.
239129
I'm not saying I have all the answers, but it is pretty humiliating when someone doesn't want you. You're afraid of falling in love again; ok, you've been in love. Has anybody told you they love you, or has it been all theoretical and one-sided so far? You're afraid of love; have you been loved, manipulated, used or just misunderstood? How have you been hurt? These are questions you need to determine before you can decide what to do next. I'd say talk to a counsellor. Figure out what actually happened, what you want to do eventually, and what you can try next to achieve your goals. If you are still nervous after that, try to work your way up to it gradually. Start with just caring about people, maybe neighbors, children, the elderly. Do you know anybody in need? There are many ways to express love. Are you looking for a tender, warm caring love, or a rough, wild, sensual love? We all need various things from the ones we love at different times. Some people express love by sharing, some by providing, some by giving gifts or surprises, some by being romantic, some by being reliable, some by challenging their loved one to excell. Try to meet up with the pople who are looking for the same thing(s) you are. Good luck!
202279
Be yourself. Don't feel too pressured to be in a relationship. When the right guy comes along, it will be worth all the frustration that you are experiencing now.\n\nYou will find that the guys you are attracted to now will not necessarily be the same kind of guy that you are attracted to as you age and get a bit more worldly. \n\nTake your time, date a bit, resist the temptation to put out and you will find happiness.
535122
Yes.  But as time grows, you will become more comfortable with each other and their imperfections.
751675
nope never to soon to be in love and never to late. \n as far as your relationship goes if at this point your feeling UN easy about saying it then don't just wait but you certainly say i am really getting to like you more and more that sort of thing but love is wonder full and powerful like a great rapids don't jump in with out looking at the water and finding a good spot to start off even then watch out for rocks and under tows
451810
Age isn't a barrier to love.  I would guess that a lot of the 'eeew' comments are  made by those who are in your age group.  I'm older than your boyfriend, and I can tell you that however old he is physically, he probably doesn't feel that old mentally.  I still feel about 34 but I'm in my fifties! (And I don't look that old, either!)\n\nHowever, you must be practical.  When you are 42 he will be 63.  When you are 63 he will be 84, and he may well be very elderly at that stage while you still have the energy to go dancing.  If the thought of caring for him at that stage doesn't put you off, then keep going, and disregard the funny looks and comments!
601505
You really won't know when you will fall in love. So, if your heart tells you that you are in love now, then you really are. Even if you are at that age, if your heart tells you that you are in love then you are in love. Just remember to take things slowly. You are still young and there are still lots and lots of opportunities awaiting you in this world. I wish you the best.
1100504
it could be your genetic make up....accept yourself as you are...it's the inside that counts the most....beauty & good looks change over time...some of the most gorgegous ladies are ugly now they are old...the handsomest guys can look like a prune & go bald at 50....\n when you feel good about yourslef,have a kind heart and laugh at life people never even notice the outside....
901378
Listen I'm only 25 but if I was 54 and single I would never give up on the possiblilty of falling in love again.  Why would you want to put yourself through that torture?  Your life is not over, life doesn't end until you die and you are far from it.  You have 30 or 40 years left, why spend it alone.  I would kill to be 54 and to feel those buterflies again.  Get out there and get some LOVE!!!!
510241
no it takes time to fall in love
450389
Yes, it can happen, but don't expect it to last. Everyone's growing and changing at that age and unless you're very lucky, you'll grow apart from each other rather than together.\n\nAs for what it's like - more intense than anything you'll ever experience again, so if you do fall in love, cherish it! Love when you're older is just as good, if not better, but it's never quite the same.
351512
i think its a phase of ur life and it will to pass so be in CONTROLall the time.thts my piece of advice for u dear.
791791
Trust me it happens with older women as well, and not surprisingly there are some men who experience settling for second best instead of being patient. The root of the problem is while we want to have a successful career, money in the bank, a big fine house, and the 2.0 children, we don't want to wait until the right person comes along who feels the same way about certain things in life as we do. Therefore, we settle for someone far less mature and serious about life than what we had intended because we don't want to be alone. We hate being alone, we hate spending time with ourselves, we can't stand the quiet. For some reason we believe that it is easier to be with anybody than with nobody.