Why do guys always go back to the girl who treats them like crap?
442129
You should be careful, someday you might get lonely and then you would have found a real answer to your behaviour!
1164684
Guess she thought you were way too good for her or maybe she was cheating on you and you didn't know about it or she went back to her ex. Could be any of these... if you really want to know your answer than get a hold of her and ask her why did she treat you like this... u certainly did not deserve this! and now you do deserve to know the answer... ask her rather than assuming stuff!
93611
Could be a lot of reasons, but most likely jealously and insecurity.  Men do this exact thing too.  Some of it has to do with possessiveness, but my feelings are just worries that the new girl would hear all the wrong things about me, or not treat the guy as good as I did, or stole him (that hussy)
528374
here is the thing. men love the chase. he sees you as a target to chase since he's not with you anymore and he knows how to push your buttons. if you get back with him he will do it to another girl. he seems very immature and inconsiderate. if you allow him to do anything, even a date, your friend will not forgive you (even if she says that she will) and you will lose them both. i suggest you tell him to BACK OFF and not allow him to make you a target of his chase.
308932
Here here! Mike, you have a very good point sir. I've noticed women start out young picking the abusive, hurtful, untrustworthy bad boys while blowing off the "good guys". Years later after being used and abused they're ready to settle down with a nice guy and expect us to be like we were. Sorry ladies. While you were off being stupid, we were busy being rejected, damaged, and "just friends" in the interim. You want the best of both. You want to have your fun and then settle down when you're ready. Then you complain that there are no good men left. Now you know why. \nWe had patience waiting for you to smarten up. Now you have to have patience while we're learning to trust you again.
893182
I know how you feel. It seems no matter how much you do for them or how well you treat them they still disrespect you, show too little appreciation, and there never seems to be enough of a  balance, or reward in the relationship for men. IE women take more than they give and think about their own needs more than their partners. I can't give up though because I want to be happy with someone and will keep looking until I find that woman who gives as good as she gets
942812
He is keeping you as a back up sorry to say.  Plus why would you want to break this girls heart by getting him to leave her?  Don't think of only yourself but her feelings too.
438081
ummm yeah girl, dont get caught in that falling for losers while the nice guy watches and picks up the pieces trap. You should kick your ex's behind. You dont disrespect a woman by putting your hands on her OR calling her out of her name. If he has to physically hurt a woman, it shows he is a punk anyways and not a real man. Maybe his mistake in falling for you is that you didnt have a penis, which is what he is really looking for.
982302
Because they like to think they can get whatever they want .. like everything comes to them either easy or eventually ...\nAnd they like to be treated like dirt ... love to be teased ... i think they really hate believeing that they are not worth having a specific gurl or that a gurl can be special ...\ntwisted creatures >>> Tell me about it!! ;)
1009663
Men fall for the wrong girls for the same reason girls fall for the wrong boys.  Face it, relationships are complicated things and there is so much emotion involved it is difficult to know what you really want.  \n\nUnless he is clear that he wants nothing to do with her (because she treats him bad) then consider this a big red flag to not have a relationship with him.  Either he is having an unhealthy relationship with her already (and you don't want to the "other" woman) or he is a player and is just using her (and will use you also).
607296
I know.\nWhy?\nThey feel bad about themselves and make themselves feel better by going to someone nice.\nThey are just embarressed of themselves.\nThey know that they cant get someone so they go to a guy they can get and then they end up hurting you.
99228
dude, i can relate. maybe we've known each other from childhood. i am also a ladies' man (not the playboy kind but the gentleman kind) and i've seen and been with women with mates who treat them like dirt. and somehow, i've managed to make some of them to wake up and break up (ooh, a rhyme!!!)\n\nsee, what i do is, i protect the girl in any means possible, be there for her when she need a shoulder to cry on, and probably (but never did) kick the guys sorry a**!!! women are fascinating people that should never be taken advantage of, so that's why i try my best to be the gentleman they want. consistent persuasion might work, and don't let the girl look at herself as a doormat. she should learn to get respect from her partner, coz deep down, we know we only want their happiness...\n\n=P ~^_^~
276488
They have other priorities, like intelligence, appearence or social position-- but it's very rare for a girl to ultimately settle down with a guy who's a jerk, it's usually a great fling-- one other aspect here is that rude is in the eye of the beholder... you may think he's being a jerk but sometimes she thinks it's funny or just agressiveness but not necessarily rudeness
376551
because women like them better than someone who treats them decent. i guess they see it as weakness. i cant make myself be abusive so i dont get the girl. dont bother sticking up for her either, they somehow get offended by that.
487565
He needs to grow up! why do you bother with him when he treats you like that? he has no respect for you and by the sounds of it, for no other female either! it's rich calling you weird when he's the one with the problem! you can do better than that!
946259
maybe you are too selective.\nSome ladies get too slective on looks; so they end up with a good looking guy who treats them like crap.\nYou need to look at the whole package.
65575
u should just move on u don't deserve a guy that treats u like sh** because i bet theres going to be somebody u like even better and is nicer to u and doesn't blame u for everything