Need advice on the right thing to do?
450266
Call her to confirm the date . . . that is it.\n\nWhile you are on the date . . . make sure you get separate checks . . because if she is independent like she says she is . . . she should be willing to pay for her own meal.  If she objects . . . tell her that you are respecting her independence and since you asked me out . . . the asker is responsible for the entire bill . . . and I would rather pay my own way.
647804
Tell them to mind their own business. Do what feels best for you. Don't pay attention to what everyone else thinks you should do.
814747
There's no "right" time. It just happens. Hopefully you decide to have your first time with someone you really care about or love even. If you're asking this question...you're not ready.
890688
You state "any help would be appreciated". How did you get stuck with having to make the choice? That's a he ll of a responsibility. Good Luck.
1157649
Sounds like you have some talking to do... and from that decide whether to 'take it' or leave it. However you are married now, and that is supposed to be for better or worse. As her husband, (now) its really up to you to support her emotionally as financially.
64926
He has a right to know. That doesn't mean that he has a right to determine what you will do. I think that it should be a decision that you make together since it effects the both of your lives forever but the ultimate decision is yours. If it were me, I'd tell him and discuss the seriousness of the matter and make a decision together.
1034202
do whats right for you.  And the child.
338869
Let him know your looking around for a better opportunity.\nYou will probably be told to go ahead.\nBAIL!
889272
i say tell him. take a risk.!!
38928
Don't stay if really unhappy. But be sure about it, sometimes things don't go the way we want, but could be just temporary. Be honest to yourself and whatever your decision is don't regret. Good luck.
319203
do what your heart tells you to do...do not cheat that is wrong
410058
Go in now.  It could be something very serious and it could be nothing.  Don't take a chance.
407524
Tell her... politely.. and tell her that he or she isn't right for them... at all cost.... you must make sure yourself that its in the best interest of her and not for you....
469516
Doing the right thing is doing what's best for the child.  Your child deserves a good life and if, as you've said, you can't provide her with that, you did the right and brave thing by giving her an opportunity to get a good life.  You're a better mother than most in your situation.  They keep their kids and then their kids grow up to resent their mothers and themselves for the life they have.  I think you should be proud of yourself, and since you still get to see your daughter, be honest with her about what you want for her.  She'll be proud of you, too!
392683
I think it is acceptable to ask if the right time presents itself. So set the conversation to where you can mention it, nonchalantly. Regardless though it is important for you to figure out is this a job you really want, are you tired of your old job? If so go for it anyways regardless of the salary. Your family will support you.
346150
Tell an adult that you can trust and let the adult handle it.  This is not the type of thing you should have to deal with alone.
897427
Go with your heart. Home is where the heart is. If you don't go with your heart you may regret it later down the track.