Why are so many people quick to judge, but not quick to own up to thier own actions?
447280
I'm sorry people judge you, \nI know I judge people sometimes and I'm struggling with judging people myself so I know how hard it is to jump to conclusions about people, but I think we judge quickly cuz we're born in a sinful world and we want to prove to ourselves how 'good' we are by looking down on others.
581451
No matter how much most of us think that we could never do anything like that, no matter how angry or temporarily insane we become, I guess some people are just more naturally inhibited to cross that threshold than others.  You know how it is, you're watching the news or reading the paper about someone that did something awful, and so often you hear people say something like "he (or she) seemed so nice, I never could have imagined them doing something like that".  Either these murderers were really good actors to fool people into thinking they were so wonderful, or it just says more about human nature.  I'm like you, though, I wish it could all be peace, love and happiness.
495924
I believe we, as humans, judge without knowing all the facts.  It may appear one way to us, but if we knew all the facts, we may see it another way.  I've had people judge me in a certain situation, but they didn't know what I had been through and they only saw the choice I made, not that I didn't have a choice.
212924
Because sometimes people are just so inconsiderate and they think thay can handle it. But in fact they can't. I pull over at times but sometimes when i have emergency calls I would jus talk on the phone, but i'll make it quick. I hope people are more considerate because they are not only putting their life in danger, but other people's life also!
730625
because ppl spend most of their time assuming everything.... judging ppl before they know them, thinking if they are one way then they must be this, this and this.\nIt is the sad state of the world.
1173973
i don't know.. maybe because it's easy to do so? but it's very bad thing to do. I've never could understand such behavior and I've been always trying not to do so,becayse first we have to get to know each other to be able to say sth about the person. still.. judging ppl is bad thing.. the world would be much better place if ppl stop judging the other,but I guiess it's impossible to happen, because we're only humans..
1118755
most people are so easy to judge others because of their own hidden insecurites or inferiorities that they're trying to cover up.\n\nit's easier to 'feel better' about yourself if you elevate yourself to a particular level (i.e. making others look worse).\n\nhence, to judge others could be just another defense mechanism fostered by a particular environment/upbringing.\n\nnevertheless, there is never a good enough reason to be judgmental.\n\n:-)
1180057
That is an excellent question and a very good point. I totally agree with you. What makes anyone think they are good enough to judge others, and what right have they to set the standards for other people. As long as people are doing their very best within their means, people should live and let live within reason, providing they are not causing a danger to themselves or others.
664525
people are not assertive enough, a lot of people consider assertiveness the same as being aggressive or being mean so they would just rather be walked all over
336782
Because it's easier. Because it doesn't require them to come up with their own ideas as to what is 'right' and what is 'wrong'. Because it's easier to make a snap judgement on a person. Because people are strange little creatures. Because when all is said and done most people don't want to put the effort into enriching their lives by understanding how someone else might view the world. Because it's easier to follow rules in a book and then pick and choose those that you like and disregard those that you don't really care for. Because it feels good to judge other people. Because saying that someone is doing something wrong makes the things you're doing wrong in your own life seem smaller.  \n\nThere are so many reasons as to why this happens out there. Mostly I think it happens when closed minded people start trying to 'help' others find 'happiness'. Sure, they want you to be happy..but their methods aren't always right. People like that..should be ignored.
252154
People who think they are better than others, havenot learned of GOD's love. Since I beleive we all came from GOD, how can one be better than another? I feel with age, and much lessons in life, one learns not to be judgemental with any one. We are all here for the same reason, but some think they are better because they arenot really sure of themselves and to compensate that their ignorance, they make others feel bad to try to make themselves feel better.
408205
Because in order for people to feel like they are important, they fell like they need the validation of other peoples opinions. Many people don't want to be judged for being different or weird, and they are scared of being pointed out for these things. Everyone wants to be liked and accepted, no matter what they say. People who go out of their way to be different still care about what other people think, they are just looking for negative attention. =.>
281657
Its because it makes us feel better when we can find flaws in others. Or differences that we can ridicule. Also if we can be a judge, we feel power full.
671500
As of late it seems to me that people are incapable or unwilling to see any side of an issue but their own side. Everyone is concerned about what was done to them and not what they may have done to others. It seems that being "right" is more important than love. This is a sad commentary on life and a the darker part of human nature.\n\nThe next time someone close to you is in a conflict, invite them to try and understand the others' point of view and watch their reaction. Most of the time it is "<expletive> the other person." You will see that most people can only see their side. For example I was in an accident a few weeks ago. This elderly man cut right in front of me. He was makeing a left turn from a stop sign and didn't see me. It was broad day light and he told me that I should have had my lights on. Broad day light mind you. I didn't argue with him I just waited and let the cops explain it to him. He was incapable of seeing any side but his own. In his own mind he could not be wrong. I was just glad we were both okay. \n\nWe have to, we must, practice love if we are to survive as a species on this earth.
682936
Actually, present scenario is changed into a fast moving World. No one has a little piece of patience and lack of feeling of care for any person, that's why, you faced such a rude behavior from peoples. This fast moving life made the people very irritating in every matter. They don't want to repeat anything, if they are not at the fault. They don't even think what other person feels about their behavior, becoz they thinks they are doing this normally, which is not right at all.
1158746
im not sure but usually when i judge people on how they act to other people they are different to me, but i usually wrong when i judge others lol
339366
because some people just don't think about the consequenses of their actions.