will i ever be happy in my own skin?.....iwant to be content  !!!!!!!!?
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YES!!!\nyou will be happy... life always gives us up and downs but remember to always look at the bright side.. after all things happen for a reason.. the roots of life are bitter but the fruit is sweet.. so relax, enjoy yourself and if you hold resentment.. i know its hard but try writeing it all out on a piece of paper and when your done.. simply rip it into tiny pieces and throw it away and move on.. appologize if you have too... and start over.. life is wonderful.. just like im sure that your a wonderful individual also!!!\nxoxo
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don't lie to try and make people happy be yourself i know that it is hard at times just tell people the truth and be all you can be. it doesn't matter what everyone else thinks be yourself and if that makes you happy then you don't have to worry about anyone else don't let ither unhappy people stop you form being happy. stay positive about yourself it is nice to try and help other people be happy but just don't forget that you don't deserve to be unhappy because other people are unhappy
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Everyone cares about what people think of them, no matter what they tell you!  But the only thing that should matter is finding what makes you happy.  Self happiness is the best thing anyone could ever do for themselves!  People, Magazines, Movies... Society will always say you need to act like this or look like this... but if your happy the way you are, who cares if someone doesn't like it, because around the corner there is going to be someone who thinks its unique and cool.  Yes i am a girl i deal with it everyday its and ongoing struggle for me! I am my happiest when i am alone in my car listening to Jack Johnson.
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sure there are millions of happy people all over the world ! I'm happy because I'm alive...  I have love , family , friends ,a home food and clothing... the world  is still here... so there is still hope  for our future .. there is  plenty to be thankful for... I could concentrate on what I don't have ... like many unhappy people do...   but why make your self so unhappy ??
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I would suggest counseling. It sounds like you have some deep rooted issues that need to be worked out. This is something more complex than a self esteem problem.\n\nLove yourself, you are beautiful and deserve to be happy!
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happiness is a state of mind...fat or thin, rich or poor...it depends on how happy you are as a person and how contented you are to yourself...
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First don't worry about what others think.  If you try and define yourself in anothers terms then you never will be happy.  Some people might think you are heavy but I don't I think that's a great combination of height and weight.  You though should be happy with who you are first then find someone that is just as happy with you as you are.  If you aren't happy and barring doing anything unsafe then work toward making what changes you think you need.  The reason you never will be happy if you try and define yourself in anothers eyes or terms is that once you conform to their idea of perfect then they will always find something else wrong.  Also you are attempting to conform to what you THINK they are thinking or what you perceive they are thinking which is usually always wrong.  I think you look, sound, great .. I bet you are and hopefully you'll feel that way also.
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there are a lot of reasons why its hard to be happy...for some people (like myself) being happy isnt easy and it doesnt come naturally...i believe the key to begin with is not to be happy...its to not but unhappy...whether that be mad, sad or ect...after you can get passed the point of "down" the middle ground is a lot better...and at that point you can have a better idea of how you could be happy...it may sound childish but sometimes the pro con list can help...write everything in your life in either the pro or con section...you may even have a indifferent part...i dont know if that will help you in anyway...basically all i can tell you is that i tried the whole depression medacine and it was okay but what helped me the most was some good self examining and reflecting...i hope things get better for you and if you need someone to bug sometime my email address is always open...i, in a weird way, like to listen...
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I've so been there.  A treatment center would definately be a good idea.  It would take you out of your usual environs, maybe get you sorted out with some medication, and be constantly monitored.  Ultimately, though, its up to you.  You need to decide to love yourself, and know that you deserve to be happy!
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inner peace ... what good is money if you aren't happy or content?\n\nthey say money can't buy happiness, but I wouldn't mind giving it a shot lol
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Realization is the first step..What you have to ask your self now is, do you enjoy being stuipd? Do you enjoy being a whore? If the answers are yes and you are content, live your life the way you want. If your lifestyle is leaving you feeling empty, sad and full of self loathing, then you need to look at what truly makes you happy. That means you not everyone else.
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The answer to this question is what "you" think, not what anyone else does. Look in the mirror and ask yourself if you should. If you're happy and you feel great then don't worry about it.
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WOW! you sure what a lot don't you? There is no way that a human being can always be happy, just like there is no way that you can always be sad. You can have a general good outlook on life and try to be happy with the situation that you are in. If you live a honest, decent life where you try your best you will find happiness.  If you help your fellow humans by volunteering of your time, talents and/ or money you will find happiness. Thinking of and helping others lets you know that your situation could be a lot worse.  In turn this makes you thankful for what you have.  If you try to always find happiness through materialistic things that you own, you are doomed to always be unhappy for the most part.  There is always something new and better around the corner. If you spend  some of your free time with family and friends ,you will find happiness.  You sound very young and unsure of yourself.  Be proud of what and who you are.  God bless you and Good luck!
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Learn to love yourself and make yourself happy...when you do that...the lonliness will leave! Trust me...I KNOW!
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man i undestand totally where you are coming from...like you do your best to please them and its just not good enough. well i say if the best you ddi was good enough for you then you should be happy, b/c trying to please people that aren't going to be happy for you either way...is just a lost cause. it will cause more stress for you in the long run. All i can say is keep you head high, its hard, but be strong, you'll be a better person in the long run. and feel free to email me or yahoo messenger
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your life is your own to make the best of.\ni would think you would want to be happy as best as you could in a world that has so many flaws. so now...answer your own question what is your goal in this life? do want to spend it making someone else happy? or are you committed to making yourself happy?remember the happier you are the better postion you are in to spread happiness around you and your enviornment
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Right now, I feel pretty good about myself. I'm doing something wonderful and positive with my life and I've never been happier. It took me a long time to re-gain my self esteem, but now I'm stronger and happier than ever.