Hey People I'm very young well i think and i was just wondering is it too young to know if I'm gay??
446577
Well if youre really young then maybe you just havent experienced anything with the opposite sex. And so give it time, experience different things... Its kind of hard to say whether you are gay or not if you havent had a taste of life. Once you've had fun with the opposite sex then maybe you'll see that as more pleasurable. Then after that if you still find the same sex attractive.. your bi. I dont know, Im not gay but I really do think you need to try things out before you totally say you are one or the other.
466622
there's no way to become straight just like no one can become gay.  It's just a matter of finding yourself and accepting yourself for who you are.  I know it can suck right now but trust me in the future you'll be okay with who you are.  if you're still young it probably sucks but it will get better.  Trust me.  Good luck!!
99481
actually i am impressed that there are still guys out there that arent so pushy. I dont think you are too young to be kissing and trust me everyone feels wierd at first. It really all depends on how mature you are and if your ready to be kissing.  Only do things that you are comfortable doing-and things that you can live with doing-even if it is just a kiss!
563820
Born that way? So I was born heterosexual? Wow, thanks for telling me because I really didn't know that.\nHow many heterosexuals out there knew they were born that way. I didn't even know what sex was when I was 2 or 4 or even 10.\n\nMay be stupid thoughts but they are my thoughts.\n\nPeace
1165353
ask your parents...but id bet your probably too young
457526
yep your question sure shows that you probably are thirteen! I am not understanding the real question.. are you trying to find out how many people share your narrow minded point of view??? that would be my guess!
797025
Welcom to the wonderful world!\n\nDont worry u are normal and fine - we are all intrigured by homosexuality but few of us admit to it....
759088
Hi,\n  My heart really does go out to you because this is a very touchy question. For starters I am not gay I am a woman but all my friend are gay and I did call one of them to ask him, so I can understand you. I do not want to suggest something inappropriate, for you are only 16 so gay clubs/bars are out of the questions. That is where my friend and I go dancing. We really have a blast unlike regular clubs. \nBut anyhow,\nIt may be a bit challenging since you are not ready to come out of the closet. l\nLook in to the Internet for say some kind of under age/legal club or groups in your area. Since you are not ready to come out I would not look to much into school for kids could be very mean and can make it even more difficult for you until you are truly ready to come out. I wish I could give you a better answer but just try and look into that and I hope it will help.\n\n                                                            You take care :-)\n                                                                   ALEX
854037
Sounds like you are questioning yor sexuality!Or just coming out? whatever just don't worry unless you deside to stalk, then see a therapist please. There is medicine for that! Be safe and have Happy Holidays !!!!Dude
692553
whatever rocks your boat, hun. I mean you are extremly young to be even thinking about sex. If you feel that you are ready and safe, then just be yourself. Don't care what nobody else think of you.
662767
You're gay. Being Gay, I know a thing or two about gay... and you are definately gay.
822888
Stop thinking of it in terms of gay and strait. As a matter of fact forget the two terms exist at all. Then just pay attention to your emotions toward everyone around you and the answer will just kind of come to you. Thats how it was for me.
831734
Found out?  As if anyone could keep a secret from themselves?  You may find out what gay is, but I seriously you doubt one could suddenly discover they are gay.  The only epiphany to be had is knowing what to call it - most know already.\n\nPart of me wanted to be a smart aleck and answer that I would beg myself not to tell my husband, but I resisted!  ;-)
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How to tell if you're gay: \n1. If you are over 30 and you have a washboard stomach, you are gay. It means you haven't sucked back enough beer with the boys and rather you've been sucking-off the boys and have spent the rest of your free time doing sit-ups, aerobics, and doing the Oprah diet. \n\n\n\n2. If you have a cat, you are a Flaaaayming gay. A cat is like a dog, but gay: it grooms itself constantly but never scratches itself, has a delicate touch except when it uses its nails, and whines to be fed. And just think about how you call a dog..."Killer, come here! I said get your butt over here!" Now think about how you call a cat... "Bun-bun, come to daddy, snookums!" Jeeezus, you're fit to be framed, you're so gay. \n\n\n\n3. If you suck on lolipops, Ring-Pops, baby-pacifiers, or any such nonsense, rest assured, you are a Gaylord. A straight man only sucks bar-b-q ribs, crab-claws, raw oysters, craw-fish guts, pickled pigs feet, or titties. Anything else and you are in training to suck El Dicko and undeniably gay. \n\n\n\n4. If you refuse to take a dump in a public bathroom or piss in a parking lot, you're in a deep homosexual relationship. A man's world is his bathroom, he defecates and urinates where he pleases.\n\n\n5. If you drink decaf coffee with skim milk, you like a high hard one in the poop-chute. Coffee is to be had strong, black (or with thick, wholesome milk) and full-aroma. A vagina-eating man will never be heard ordering a "Decaf Cafe Latte with Skim" and he will never, ever know what artificial sweetner tastes like. If you've had Nutrasweet in your mouth, you've had a dick there too. \n\n\n\n6. If you know more than six names of colors or four different types of dessert, you might as well be handing out free passes to your bung. A real man doesn't have memory space in his brain to remember all of that crap as well as all the names of all the players in the Major league, NFL, NBA, college ball, PGA, and Nascar. If you can pick out chartreusse or you know what a "fresier" is you're gay. And if you can name ANY type of textile other than denim, you are faggadocious! \n\n\n\n7. If you drive with both hands on the wheel, forget it...you hungry for meat-popsicle. A man only puts both hands on the wheel to honk at a slow driver or to cut the dude off. The rest of the time he needs that hand to change the radio station, eat his hamburger, hold his beer, finger the bi-atch in the passenger seat (whoever she happens to be), or, if he's Latino, talk on his cell-phone. \n\n\n\n8. If you enjoy romantic comedies or French films, mon-frere, vous sonnez le Gay, oui? The only time it is acceptable to watch one of those is with a woman who knows how to reward her man. Watching any of the above films by yourself or with another man is likely to result in SHC (spontaneous homosexual combustion), which is what happens to fags when they flame out too quickly.
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I didn't make up my mind about being gay (which I am), but whether or not to accept it in myself and then decide how to tell other people about it.\n\nMy mind, my self, and my soul were already there.  I just had to learn to accept what was true about me.\n\nThe factors for me that showed me who I am were: by your age, I had absolutely no romantic feelings for or attraction to the opposite sex; on the other hand, I did have those feelings for my own gender. I had tried to force myself to have feelings for the opposite sex and failed dismally; I had had sex with guys and I enjoyed it thoroughly.  I would look at porn with women... just nothing.  \n\nI know the parental and cultural thing, coming from rural Southern Baptists.  Oy.  They have very little to do with me, so I have largely made my own "family" who don't care about my sexuality, they care about me as a person.  I think that if my parents are not able to accept all of me, then it is their loss... something friends have also said.  \n\nDon't rush your decision about coming out.  Don't feel there has to be a schedule, and don't say anything in anger or during an argument.  It would forever taint what you have to say.\n\nThink "what doesn't kill us makes us stronger" and try not to get killed! =)  Now, think what advantages this gives you: you are tackling difficult social and personal issues when many of your contemporaries are merely worried about their complexions.  Already you are a more complex, sensitive, and concerned individual because of what you are facing.
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I hope I am not as sarcastic as some others on here and I hope to give you a little insite.  People often find themselves attracted to people of the opposite sex.  It doesn't necessarily mean you are gay. Regretfully it doesnt mean that you aren't either. It is common (especially with teenagers) to have some doubt about your sexual identity.  I think it best to be who are and not let other people label you.  The real you will shine out in the end.
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I think everyone is a little bit gay... and everyone's curious, even if they don't admit it.  I say do what you want to do.  No regrets.  As long as you don't hurt anyone else in the process, go get yours.