i need someones advice please can anyone help?
450200
It is not un common for a guy to flirt with an ex girlfriend of his. If he has treated you badly and is still being a real gerk that my answer to your question would be to move on and find someone new although it might hurt and you will probably still think about him occasionally, it will all work out for the best. If you want to talk more you can email me at adorablegrl1986@yahoo.com                                                       Sincerely                                                                adorablegrl1986
534844
Hope someone can help you, good luck.
1014818
I think that this person needs to get some professional help.  He/she obviously has some serious issues - no one is worth hurting yourself for.
1053221
For sure you must support her as much as you can,( and im sure you are) always make yourself available if she needs someone to talk to. Talk to a social worker at school, your local police department, maybe even visit a church. Dont close any doors,or avenues, you never know what might help her. Gather all your information and along with her and whatevr else you come up with, try to make a decision. Sometimes we are not even aware of the types of help their are for us untill we begin to look into it.  Its kind of like shopping for stuff, sometimes you dont know who has the best sales and best clothes that are just right for you untill you get out there and start looking around.
1137450
Talk to someone close a friend, a neighbor, a counselor. There is help out there! You didn"t tell us why your life is caving in. Could probably help better if I knew!!
556407
Maybe you should try believing in something tangible. Someone who actually will listen to you and help you with your problems.
187576
will am sorry to here what ur going through is realy hard \n\nu must call ur dad and tell him about everything and am sure he will get u out of the house. \n\ncz in my opinion u need someone to help u out u must not stay without talking. u must find help go to police social advicer any one can help to improve ur life cz if u stay like this ur life will be affected in futuer.\n\ni dont know talk to ur mom tell her the truth be honest with her tell her whats bothering u maybe she will lisnt she must lisnt. and remmeber god with u pray to him and he will clear ur path.\n\ni hope every thing will fine.
836442
You need to see a counselor or therapist. He or she will have the ability and knowledge to help you out better than anyone here can.
750375
GOD apparently lol i think not : P seek help from the person or persons you trust the most...maybe they can help you find a way to help yourself
643440
You just did ask for help.  Now find someone, like a friend, family member, or a professional that can help you!
112516
Im very sorry but I only have 2 advice for you...\n\n1.) LIVE YOUR OWN LIFE...\n2.) DECIDE WITH BOTH HEART AND MIND IN EVERYTHING YOU DO...
297879
I have a similar situation. But it is SHE in my case. Plz..help us both(the asker and me).
489236
sometimes your local mp can help with things like that,or at least help you find people who can help..good luck and i hope u do find somewhere or someone that can help.
903337
You can normally have a free session with a solicitor who would be able to give you advise. Contact Citizens Advise Bureau and they will put you in touch with a solicitor who provides this service. Good luck in your endeavours.
1112354
Well she should definately go to citizen advice bureau, she'll get good advice from them.\nIf she isn't entitled to the extra she should take it from the childs allowance, clothes allowance etc. She should tell him they have to last longer as she can't afford to buy now because HE has got himself excluded and costing her extra money. She must teach him to take responsibility for his own actions. If he wants to re-gain this clothes allowance, or pocket money or whatever she takes, then he has to get a job to pay her.\nHe is old enough to work, my eldest wanted extra money as I struggle. She got a job to buy herself what I couldn't afford and it was the encouragement for three of my others too. They love their independance and the thought of earning for themselves too. They also appreciate things more now because THEY HAD TO WORK FOR IT!!!!!\nHe has to learn to grow up, she is the perfect teacher to give him that push!\nGive her my wishes, and God Bless YOU for being a thoughtful friend to seek advice.
1101679
You need to tell someone! So what if she finds out?! She may not be able to ask for help directly, so she's begging you and your mate to do it for her. She may not say so in so many words, but she's crying out for help. It's possible that the doctor she sees isn't the right one for her. And it's also possible that she needs to be hospitalized for a while. Don't delay! Don't wait for those exam results! Tell someone now! Get her the help she needs! Tell her parents, school counselor, someone! Think how you will feel if you don't tell and she succeeds the next time. I pray that you'll find someone to tell and your friend gets the help she needs. She's blessed to have such good friends who care so much!
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You can't help them unless they want help.  It's impossible.  We have run into that problem in our life and honestly, it feels like we are banging our heads up against the wall for all the good we are doing.  When they reach rock bottom, then you can be there to pick up the pieces and try to put him/her back together again.  Sorry I have no better advice for you.