The Ex! Serious answers only!?
443842
I don't know anything about myspace but I suggest (if it can be done) that you block her.  That way, she can't keep contacting you.  I fear she is a wolf in sheep's clothing.  She is after your man or she wouldn't be telling him things about you.  She may claim to be happy in her new relationship but if appears not to be true.\n\nIt could also be that she is one of these ladies that had no problems ending the relationship with your man but doesn't want anyone else to have him.  \n\nNo matter how you look at it, she is bad news and is trying to cause problems.  I suggest that both your fiance and you block her from making any further contact.  Why confront her when it is unnecessary and she won't listen anyway.  Do a block!
973811
You said it yourself, he is your EX.  Get over it and get on with your life.  And I'll bet he really doesn't want to hear that.
881408
the slight possibility and the only now and again says something....he may want to get back with her, so just leave him to it...don't mean to sound bad when i say this but i think it's time to just move on...he has stated that he wants to be just mates with you...so respect him for being honest...you'll find someone else, but waiting around for him is a waste of time...he still has it for his ex
644343
I would ask for a stronger defination of your relationship.\n\nFlip the tables back on her. How would she feel if you were still in contact with your ex?\n\nHer answer dictates your next step.
471969
What?  I have no freaking idea what your question is anymore.  I am not even certain of who broke up with whom. I am not sure if you got back together again or what.
1078240
Why is he an ex...think about it...and if he is an ex for a reason, do you want to go through all that again?
275198
actually i did not do anything just to get even with my ex, no need. because if you really wanted to move on you dont have to get even just to show him that you're now a better person without him, well that is not the basis for that. just do whatever you want to do, without being affected or it is because you're just doing all those things its because you wanted to get even,it only means that you're not yet over with that guy.so the best thing to do is once you already have a new relationship is you have to show all the love and respect to that particular person.so dont use your ex just to get even, just move on with your life.. and be thankful instead that he became part of your life =)
478448
Does "ex" not break it down enough? why waste your precious time calling him if hes no going to call you?
383008
Definitely HERS.  Your ex is just that - your EX.  He no longer has any responsibility to you and doesn't have to answer to you (even though he should no better).  But your "friend" should DEFINITELY know better.  That is just something you DO NOT do to your friends.  She should have come to you and explained the situation and told you that she really likes this guy and asked you if it would bother you if she dated him.  Instead, she snuck around behind your back like a coward.  That is not friend, honey.  Get rid of both of them.\n\nAs for kicking someone's ass - it's so not worth it.
500679
get rid of her!! trust me i went through the same shit with my ex and turns out he was just playing me and another girl at the same time
413830
How far of an ex is this?  Were you guys serious or just fooling around?  Either way, I'd say not.  There are so many men out here you haven't been with, what was the point with that one?  Will she even wait until he's an "ex" the next time?  Will she be the reason he is one?
474755
You should be thankful that you are no longer with this jerk and find someone that is better suited for you.  Your ex sounds like a mindless idiot to me.  I mean, sure I listen to my friends input on a person I am dating to some extent, but in the end I would never break up with someone because my friend said to do it.  You need someone that can stand up and say "This is my girl!" with pride and respect for you!  Don't settle!  We all deserve better than that.
1050061
a soon -to -be  ex relationship
376422
the fact you are trying to hide it is what shows so obviously...no one can hide true feelings... get a rebound, thats the only way to get over someone. your ex sounds like a jerk!
1160813
My b-friend and his ex talked the whole first year him and I were together.  She too broke up with him and I knew she really hurt him.  It drove me crazy too.  1)  I had to decide if I trusted my b-friend or not.  If I didn't trust him then I shouldn't b with him.  \n2) If the two of them ended up together then him and I weren't meant to be.  \nWe've been together for a little over a year, the ex has faded quickly.  Just hang in there, she's an ex for a reason.
1150267
Why would you want to get back with your EX HUSBAND . there had to be a reason for the breakup in the first place . RIGHT? Sorry for being so blunt about that issue!
561546
NO, don't be friends with the ex. ESPECIALLY if he's being an a*ss