Why are some of the pretty girls so mean to chubby guys about dating?
452665
Because people don't thing about the fact that you have feelings and are a person just like everyone else, before they open their piece of crap, ignorant mouths and say something that has no purpose in life but to harm you. I promise one day you'll end up with the hot girl in the long run, if you keep your confidence and defend yourself. You could make them see why they have more wrong with themselves than you do, but then you would be acting like them. Find a friend like me who will do that for you. I used to fight the guys and make the girls felly really bad and go off and cry after they said some hurtfull things to people around me that weren't exactly like they are. Just remember you have the better personality and are more humane. You will be rewarded for your sticking with it one day.\n\nAnd they will all have to live with the pitiful guilt about how they treated someone in their past.
1048675
I agree with you. People that think money is more important than how they treat people get what's coming to them.... They're probably trying to attract the best looking female they can, but very shallow if you ask me
241907
Actually, most of us will take any girl who will have us.  To answer your question, though, there has to be chemistry, or either party will lose interest in the relationship fast.  Lots of chubby girls get good guys, and it is because they are secure with themselves and know how to act hot.  When it comes to sex, guys would go for the hot one first, but in the long run, if it is to be repeated performances, they will go for the one who performs better in bed.
25850
Being a BBW I never realized how much I actually do that. I think part of it comes from being overweight and being made fun of by thinner women. I also think it comes from fear and jealousy. I don’t want my man going to someone else, especially a thin person. It’s a feeling of not being good enough. It’s a fear of loosing to someone who doesn’t make you feel good. And yes in my case there is jealousy that you can be thin and I can’t. Well not as easily as it seems for you. I for one apologize on behalf of BBW's that have made remarks or made you feel bad for who you are. I agree that it's not acceptable.
577032
I don't know, but most of us seem to attract a particular type. In your case it's big girls, but it's not that bad is it? Some guys really like it.
1075290
I think under most circumstances people tend to date others at their own level of attractiveness. Sometimes you will see a great looking girl with an ugly guy or vice versa, but usually its a 1 to 1 thing.\n\nI'm not making any judgements about physical size and attractiveness. Just maybe see if you are setting your sights too high. By the way, I'm slightly overweight myself just so you don't think I'm being unfair here. Good luck!
1033245
Well I am not a guy But I see the inner beauty in the men I date. After all the cute is gone you are left with a cute asshole nobody. I figure it is that way for men also when they look for a mate. Of coarse everybody wants that perfect person who is all that .but think of it this way "our skin is just our garage where we                temporarily store our souls."
289412
I kinda know how you feel.  I have a guy friend who feels the same as you and he talks to me about it sometimes.  Yeah it is kinda true.  I'll be honest with you and I don't mean to be rude or offend you but I've noticed that a lot of physically attractive men turn out to be @$$holes but on the other hand, the sweetest guys usually aren't the best looking.  So, like most women (and men) will go for someone who looks hot but in the end, they get hurt.  They want a shoulder to cry on and knowing how caring you are, they'll go to you.  I used to go after the good looking ones but I kinda gave up on that after I realized they all turned out to be @$$holes or perverts.  I mean, I still won't date a guy who is ugly lol but they still have to look at least decent.  I have found that these kinda guys actually respect women more and are very sweet.  So, with that being said, sorry to be blunt but you may need to change your looks and the way you dress.  I know it sucks but its true that people tend to be attracted to someone by looks and believe it or not but it does affect they're decision if they'd date you or not.  Also, I'm sure you'll find a good girl.  Hey, there's 3 women to every man on this planet...that's plenty enough for everyone.  Maybe you should stop looking.  I think they tend to come around when you least expect it and aren't looking.
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Most guys I know arent pickey, especially when drugs or alcohol is envolved. But some guys are more pickey and only get with skinny girls or bigger girls.  Its preference.  I know a few guys that are down right rude to bigger girls cause they like thin girls. My brother will poke literally any girl with a vagina, no matter if she's 400 pounds or 90 pounds. He's definatly a man-whore.  Right now hes with 2 girls, and niether one knows of the other.  I don't think thats right.  I personaly dont car if she's big or small, as long as she's of age ,(18+ ),(I'm 24),pretty, and most of all has a good attitude.  I hate snobby stuck-upgirls, and girls with any form of bad attitude.  On most first dates it is taboo to talk about having kids oneday, but I took this girl to the local amusement park. Everytime there was akid in front of us, she would say how she hated/HATED kids, and whisper things in my ear about throwing them over fences and stuff.  I would like to have kids one day.  Regardless I didn't say anything to her but then it got to me towards the middle of the day and I told her I had to go home.  She ended up meeting some friends that day and got a ride home.  But she had a real bad  attitude. The worst part is we worked together, and her mom was my boss. Crap that was bad, I had to quit a week later. Sorry I keep rambling on Im tired bye now.
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i dont think its the fact that they dont find you attractive it could many reasons\n1. They could be afraid of gettin hurt again-cuz a lot of guys are the same (cheaters, drunks, immature, players...) \n2. You havent found the right girl yet\n3. Maybe you shouldnt worry so much about lookin for a girl cuz when your not lookin thats when the good ones show up\nI was single for a couple of months and i was hatin it then i got with my boyfriend now and he treats me better than any other guy has and i dont want to get hurt again so maybe if you let her come to you she could be the one you marry you never know and about the lesbian thing that is just nasty if your a girl date guys if your a guy date girls but hey thats just my opinon
308166
no cause they tend to be annoying, they're always try to prove they can be like guys. plus, most of them aren't even attractive.
386579
it's always a plus to date beautiful girls.  But just having a good shaped body doesn't do a whole lot for attracting them.  And if you are looking for the looks first off, you're probably not going to be really happy, because all people who go through life relying on their looks are bound to be uncharismatic.
346912
I have dated alot of men in my lifetime and found out that the handome men are stuck on themselves and they think that they are gods gift to women.  The average men have different personalities because of how they are treated by women in the past and the ugly men are very much insecure about their looks.
396472
I would date a fat person if, they are cute. You must be ugly because ugly people like to judge others. Don't get  mad at fat people just your parents.
939664
I think guys are overly nice (or 'smarmy') to girls they fancy.  But they can be just normally nice to girls they just see as other human beings, if they are a nice person, and in a good mood (!)
270044
GUYZ LIKE H**Z BECUZ THEY NOT TRYNA BE IN A LONG RELATIONSHIP AND THEY KNOW THAT H**Z AREN'T LOOKIN 4 ONE EITHER SO THEY LOOK 4 THEM NASTY AZZ H**Z INSTEAD OF THE NICE CLEAN WOMAN THAT AIN'T GOING 2 TAKE S*** FROM NO H** AZZ BOY.
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Look around you. The world is fixated on beauty and "average" looking girls don't stand a chance, even if they are beautiful, it is hard to believe it when guys are drooling over the "hotties" on television right in front of them. And we wonder why there are so many eating disorders out there. Girls need to remember that half the women on television have either had plastic surgery of have so much makeup on that their skin just appears flawless. If most guys weren't so hell bent on beauty and skininess, most girls would be alot happier. If a guy does not like you for who you are, get rid of them, they are not worth it and just say goodbye and wish them luck on finding their ideal "beauty" who is as beautiful on the inside as on the outside, it is rare!