what would you do if your best friend lies to you and brakes a promise to you?
454375
that's not a real friend. period.
537940
never make a promise that you don't intend to keep...\n\nyou cheapen yourself and your relationship when you do.
1115655
you make him stop lying to you by leaving him.... if you arent there anymore he cant lie to you. If you think staying around will fix it you are wrong. If he compulsively lies to you he will continue to.
202134
just be careful what you say to him from now on...it doesn't mean you have to terminate the friendship...now you know that you can't trust him with certain data...\nwhen my best friend told stuff about me, i just decided that the only info i'd tell that person would be stuff i don't care if the whole world knows...i'd never tell my secrets to that person again, but we can still have fun and joke around...\npeople aren't perfect and you'll never find a friend who hasn't blabbed something about you to someone else, whether their loved one or parents or another friend or whatever...so if other than not being able to keep his trap shut, he's a pretty good friend, then just don't tell him sacred stuff...but you'll be disappointed if you try to look for friends who'll never leak your secrets...you'll never have any...just learn who you can trust with what...
743927
Well you could tell your best friend that it was not nice of her or him to say that to you. cuz you are not stupid. and onone is stupid. And just say to yourself that   you know that you are not stupid. So sorry that your best friend said that.
219723
If he is a true friend he shouldn't expect you to continue to lie and pretend like everything is ok for him. The best thing is to help him because, that's what friends are for. Tell before he ends up in jail or worse dead.
662262
move on he's not worth it if he is goin to lie to you
642739
First things first, you have to find out the truth about what happened. Then you make them feel guilty by saying something like "Why would you lie to me about that?" or "How could you not trust me with the real truth?" (That one might work better... lol). Then you don't talk to them for a while and let him/her sweat it out a little bit, and when they ask you why you aren't talking to them simply say "I'm sorry, but I cannot be friends with someone who is going to lie to me." Then when they apologize, say to them "It's ok, but it's going to take me a while to trust you again". That will make them feel really guilty and they won't want to lie to you again... but that's only if they care about you a lot. Good luck... I hope you and your friend make up soon. :)
188738
I WOULD PICK MY BEST FRIEND. WHY WOULD SHE LIE TO YOU?, AND OF COURSE HE IS GOING TO "SWEAR" THAT HE DIDN'T BECAUSE HE DOESN'T WANT YOU FIND OUT. YOU MAY LOOSE YOUR BEST FRIEND BY STAYING WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND WHO SHE SAYS IS A "CHEATER", AND YOU MAY LOOSE YOUR BOYFRIEND BY CHOOSING YOUR BESTFRIEND WHO HE SAYS IS A "LIAR". DON'T BE BLINDED BY LOVE, AND REMEMBER TO LOOK AT THE FACTS, BECAUSE EVERYTHING WILL COME OUT EVENTUALLY. YOU HAVE TO MAKE THE ULTIMATE DECISION.GOOD LUCK!!
1021961
What you did was the right thing to do, expect the reaction you got from her because that is normal too. Now all you have to do is sit her down and tell her that you need to talk. Tell her that what you said was true, even though she chooses not to believe you, tell her that it hurt you that you were honest with her and she turned against you, that she's letting this guy come between  what you thought was a friendship. Tell her you don't appreciate being bad mouthed by her, (especially if your friends) because she chose not to believe you and that the only person that is missing out is her. She messed a friendship up and has a cheating boyfriend too. She looks like the weak one, because your not the only one that knows, if you saw it it other people have also. And ask her what kind of friend she is. Maybe not the kind you want. After that if your not friends then she's not worthy enough to be in your presence. Find a new friend.
620152
just tell him the honest truth. there is a saying "honesty is the best policy," and it is. if he is your friend, no matter what, he will understand that your friendship is worth more than nothing.
341975
Well, what I do when my friends do this to me, I let them know it. My ULTIMATE best friend in the world has done this to me, many times. Basically, all I do is tell her that I'm kind of upset how we seem like we are drifting apart, then I comfort her by saying that if something is bugging her she can tell me. You have to be the one  to do something, she won't realize that she is hurting you. I wish you the best of luck.
904886
My best friend is an excellent liar, he's lied to me so many times that I reallly don't think that I will ever know just how much he's lied to me.  The good thing is that I know the way he is now so I now know not to trust him immediately.  In the back of my mind there is always the thought that he could be lying to me.  So I simply don't trust him any more.   I don't know if this helped you or not.  If other people see your friend as a liar then it might be true.  Just go with your gut feeling.
749261
You should believe ur best friend if you've known him for a long time and if you trust him more. Analyze on who told more lies. I think she's just a jealous girl who wants to ruin what you have but don't let her do that. Soo I hope I helped.
1180519
Before you could do anything,\nyou'd have to prove he intentionally lied/misled you.
715255
Depends on what the issue is, but I dont think I would bother anyway, cause if you have any doubt that she is lieing, then give her the ' marching orders'.  One quick way to destroy any relationship, is dishonesty, I cant stand liars.  If she is liaing, she will trip herself up in the long run, liars have a way about them, they forget what they tell you, and ALWAYS trip themselves up in the end.  I wouldnt mention anything about the situation, just keep my ears open and sooner or later she or someone will slip and let the truth out. Its a well known fact that liars just hate it when they are not challenged about what they said, because most of the time, they only lie to attract attention to themselves, so if you dont bite or ask, it will drive your friend crazy and maybe he/she will admit the truth anyhow or stuff up.  Move on, they are not worth it.\nGood Lucl
42591
Hmm...tough question.  I would talk to your friend about it.  Tell her not to put you in the position to lie for her.  It's her decision and it's a bad one.  Tell her if she won't stop for you, she should stop for her own health.  If she still doesn't stop after that, you should probably tell someone, even if she gets mad at you.  It's for her your own good.  I know it's hard, but it will help her more that hurt her.