How do I get my boyfriend to tell me the truth about how he feels about me?
446433
Give space and let him come to you! He is with you so he must not hate you too bad. Give it time and if you really want him to talk just say that you feel like you guys are going in different paths and if he doesn't tell you what he wants then your gone. If that happens you will be happy eventually. Just give yourself a new look at life and find friends. If he talks to you and opens up trust what he says and don't question it. Your wanting to know and if he feels pestered by you he won't open up again.
487127
I too hate lies and believe people deserve more respect than to be lied too. Cause if the shoe was on the other foot they wouldn't appreciate it. Try not to over react though it could scare him away. Men lie cause they are too afraid of telling the truth cause they will look bad. It is good that you let him know that it affects you though. Cause in a relationship honesty is the best policy
736986
Tell him that you was just wandering how he felt about you and if he tells you then you need to tell him how you feel.  If he asks why you want to know then tell him that you want to know how he feels in case he was to go to war somewhere.
425436
be completely honest with him...it helps you guys to understand each other and now each others mind...he really really helps..trust me...especially telling him when he does something you don't like...it really tightens the bond
631730
Basically stop listening. Give him the "yea, whatever", and most important don't let it bother you when he says it. He has a guilty conscience. If you want to let him off the hook that's up to you, but you really need to be aware that not only does he cheat, but he showed you he lies, and to top it off, he avoids responsibility by turning it on you. Others will see this. The more you try and stop him the more credence and attention he gets. \n\nGood luck with this charmer!
452726
Tell him that you're not ready to say it and put that sort of label on your feelings. But that you feel for him. That you care about him. When my man first told me, I din't say it back. I told him That I feel for him. It made me really nervous. I told him never to say it unless he means it, because I would never say anything empty.
624251
Just tell him how you feel. Make sure it's from the heart and your not saying it just because it sounds good.
605479
Whats wrong with telling him how you really feel about him?
227996
It depends on the man. Some guys just say what they think you want to hear.Maybe he does you should talk to him about it and let him know that he needs to be honest with you.
798349
Tell him the absolute truth about how you feel...either he'll fall for you or he won't...you can't force him...
192327
just tell him what u feel about him.i know it's easy to say than to do but u  have to be honest with him and to YOURSELF. good luck =)
281462
You can't always win. If he has a boyfriend the best you can do is support him. From experience I'm telling you DON'T tell him you think you're in love with him! That will make your relationship uneasy and he won't want to talk to you because he'll be uneasy and wonder what you're thinking. It's always best to hold onto a good thing. Wait it out and see.
22893
Just tell him.  Find him, go up to him & tell him.  You can't live your life wondering what would have happened if I said this.  So even if he is not responsive to your statements, you know in your heart you were honest and did everything you could possibly do to make it work.
675610
Tell him the truth and be honest with him and say whats on your mind and heart. Your heart knows best.
388104
well, sorry to tell you this but it's all depends on your partner..but here's what yOu can do. First of all never starts anything with lies. no matter how hard it seems, no matter how bad they'll hate you after, dont lie. say anything you want to say, say everything you have to say, and never try to make things better with saying, "it's not you, it's just me..." and other self-blame-cliche-excuses...and let them know that you still want to have a good relationship with them cuz no matter what they still a part of you right? but then again, you have to respect their decision if they refuse you at first cuz it's really tough to accept the fact that you cannot be with someone that you really care...am i making a point? dont think bout it too much..time heals..
738713
Honey you can't force him to say how he feels that comes over time... I suggest just give him some time... as long as you know he cares then why should you have to hear it? I know sometimes words are just as good as actions but sweetie we all fight to get the guys to show it and they always just say it! so be proud you found one who can show it for once and for right now enjoy the letting him do what makes you happy. trust me that will change after a while! Good Luck!
559354
You are not responsible for his emotional state, and it is not fair on you to stay with him to protect his feelings.  Besides, lying makes it much worse for him, because lying usually comes out in the end.\n\nHard as it may be, honesty has to be the only way forward.  It will hurt him, and he may have a nervous breakdown, but you can't put your life on hold for him.  He is the only one who can get himself help if he needs it.  You are not his mother - you are his girlfriend.  If you need to get out of the relationship, do so.