How do you find a guy when you are a decent hardworking female, with car, job and place?
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The cooler and less desperate you act, the better your chances.  Try it and you'll see.   ...The cherry on the tallest branch always looks bigger, better and juicier - especially to a mental midget.    ...But if you are looking for the love of your life, just put yourself in the right frame of mind and the universe will eventually bring you together.
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First off, if you are the one that has to approach him, maybe your looking in the wrong group of men.  If he is too stupid, or too lazy to notice you, try someone else!\nSecondly, ever notice when you are NOT looking for something, it's always around, like the car keys, or cell phone.  As soon as you are looking for it, it's lost, where the #@%# did I put that.  \n\nStop looking and it will find you!\n\nBe yourself and the right one will approach you when he is ready.\n\nBest wishes and good luck....hang in there kiddo, it will all work out for the best soon.
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Try Craigslist.  Start here...\nhttp://losangeles.craigslist.org/about/cities.html\n\n\nFind the city you live in, or live closest to, or are \nplanning to visit.\n\n\nThis is a large community site with free ads for housing \nand rentals, finding new friends or lovers, pen pals, \nvarious items for sale, want ads, personals, \nservices,volunteers, job openings, local events and \nclasses, and global discussion forums, ...\n\n\nThey have several personals sections to post free ads.  Try the w4w (women for women) section.\n\nYou can post for a one-night-stand, all the way to \nmarriage, and everything in-between!  Straight, gay, bi- or ???\n\n\nBest of luck,\nJeffrey
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Your outside constantly changes.  GET super smart.  The sexiest men are those that drive around those little VW bugs for the Geek Squad.\n\nWomen will fall for you if you're smart.  We want a man that KNOWS how to treat a woman and can provide for her and is committed.
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Well when I look for a man, I look for someone I can be "me" around. Someone who is attractive in his only way. Someone nice, a little cocky. Nice truck or car is a bonus, but he has to be able to make me laugh.
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Museums are good.  So is a park (when the weather is nice), art shows, flea markets, antique stores, the library, a church (if you attend), farmer's markets, neighborhood fairs, some malls, cafes and restaurants, and so on...\nSound like you might have had trouble at the gym.  (Macho, macho man.  I wanna be.....)\nMore important than the place is your awareness.  Pay attention to the men around you.  Notice them noticing you.  At work, at play, everywhere you go.  The perfect man (or nearly so, as if any of us is perfect), will usually appear in your life just about the time you stop looking.  If you are not paying attention, you will miss him.
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There are a few decent and honest guys out there, but you got to look in the right place! Bars, clubs are meat markets, stay away from that kind of environment. It also helps when you stop looking so hard, just relax, when the time is right it will happen. That's how I met my hubby.
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If you go looking, you will have a very hard time finding one.\n\nLet him come to you.
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theres bars and clubs were you can find some ladies. trust me there out there your just got to get out thhere and look hunny....
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Stay out of the bars when looking for quality women OR lower your expectations. There are surely good women in your area you just aren't meeting the right ones because you're looking in the wrong places or you just expect too much out of them. Good luck hunting!!
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From your description, it sounds like the girls should be all over you. I'm guessing you must be either really shy or have some sort of personality issue going on. Desperation drives girls away.\n\nAnyway, I would recommend coffee shops and bookstores to find girls in the same educational league (so to speak) as yourself. I've never had luck with guys there, but I keep trying.\n\nThe grocery store is good too because you can tell a lot of a woman by what she has in her cart, but that's kind of cliche.\n\nBasically, unless you have a personality issue, just try and be honest, open, and yourself. Women don't like guys who are posturing and fake; women who can't tell when you are tend to be vapid and a little scary, so everyone loses here.\n\nBest of luck.
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Ohcynthia, good for you. The decent job is important too because we don't want going to our jobs while the guy is sitting on the sofa with the remote all day.\n\nCheck out activites that are in another city (because we don't know where you are) - even one town away - that will help you meet a different group of guys. You see, it's not a matter of some guy coming in to rescue; you have to initiate your own rescue!\n\nAlso try taking a night class at a local college, community college or junior college. The cost is usually low, parking fees are waived, and you'll come across people who want to better themselves -- just like you. Best of luck. Things will be looking up soon.
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there are many descent guys out there, you just have to find them. Good Luck
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Yes there good men out there!! Just keep being yourself and Mr. Rigth will find u. Enjoy yourself but be safe finding him!!!
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Try meeting them at a place where nice people hang out.  \n\nI.E. not the local bar.\n\nIf you are a church goer, perhaps there will be a nice lady there for you.\n\nGet involved in your local community, charity work perhaps?\n\nRemember that what you put out to the world is what the world gives you in return.  You don't have to settle for bitter ladies.  There are lots of nice women just waiting on their Mr. Right.  \n\nWho knows, it could be YOU.\n\nGood luck!
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Well, it's really easy. Finding them, or her, is simple. Many or most young women don't think about it, so they are not looking for an older man. \nNow I've only done this a few times, and all the younger women fit a profile. Usually mature. Well educated. Self-confident. Have had a few relationships. \nBe yourself. Be open. Listen. If you get involved, do it only with a young woman that you like. \nTo find one, well unless you're really objectionable, here are the places: through your employment, girls you work with or contact.\nAsk for their ideas and be willing to meet their friends.\nIf you're in a restaurant or an upscale bar suggest that one or two ladies should join you, BUT, don't "hit" on them. In fact in all cases, never "hit" on them, forget pick up lines. Treat any young woman that interests you as a friend, only.\nSometimes the real problem is one that you didn't mention.
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First of all, let me say that evilrob that answered your question is a JERK-OFF!\nThere are places to meet decent men...Garage sales are one...hard to believe, but true!\nThe grocery store...\nThe laundry mat...he has to wash his own clothes...\nAlso, have you heard of a group called Parents Without Partners?\nGood luck, be patient.