What do I do, its a tough spot to be in.?
439683
Tell her how your feeling and that you don't want to harm your excellent friendship, but tell her
460981
Unless you can find a kind soul to take you in off the streets your chances of a happy existence are really not good. You need some stability in order to complete you education, which you won't be able to do if you are scrounging to find food and shelter all the time. Try to withstand the mental abuse for a little while longer until you are ready to strike out on your own. Seek family counseling, I bet lots of people can assist you in finding help. Running away should be your very last resort.
814053
Don't worry about how you got there.  Just figure out how to get out.  First step is to get a job - any job, you are not making a lifetime commitment to the job so you can always change jobs when you find something better.  First concern is getting a paycheck and second is getting medical benefits.  Once you have a source of income. find a cheap place to live.  Get a small apartment, and keep expenses down.  You can eat cheaply by getting nothing ready-made.  Save whatever you can to give yourself some breathing space.  (The one luxury I recommend is pets, possibly two cats.  If you get two they can keep each other company and if you go to a rescue place you can get an older animal so you don't have to train a puppy or kitten.)  Improve your skills one at time so you can get better jobs or move up where you are. Sign up a community college and take one class at a time, or more if you can manage it.  (Besides improving yourself, that takes up time so you won't spend as much money doing other stuff.)  You are young, you don't need to have it all together at this point.  Just work on moving forward!
497717
Face it head on. Try to drill down specifically what you're worried about, visualize the best and worse case scenarios, and aim for the best. Good Luck!
629779
yeah i know how you feel, thats why you gotta go out and make your own place in the world. join a club or group, volunteer, do something where yo feel you should be there and you belong- or be like me and up and move to a new state lol :)
997571
what about going to your church and if they cant help maybe they can lead you in the right direction to get help. I understand the hard times as I have had my share but some how it always worked out.  Good Luck
470596
You need to save yourself. You can ask all you want, it ain't gonna to happen. Take charge of your own destiny, because no one else will.
572240
The best advice that you can get in a situation like this is going to come from a trained professional--a therapist.  It just might help you find a way to excel on your own, and find the confidence to be anything that you want to be.  Gl, be strong!
224100
I think that you should spend a lot of time alone in a quite place...maybe take long drives and start talking to God.  Be honest with Him and tell Him how you got where you are and that you need direction in your life.  He will be your best friend and a present help in the time of need.
1159263
Right now he is going through a tough time it seems like. Maybe he is just stressed out and need to be alone to think about where is like is right now. Just give him some space, but if that don't work than just move on.
148759
you have to look at the hole situation come on now your barely friends right so put your self out there see where is goes you only live once so live it up and get your groove on...if that dont work brush your shoulder off and move on...
1185795
Please do not get disheartened moving to a new place i s avery difficult experience everytime even for the most adaptable person. But all one needs to remeebr is that these difficulties are all temporary. soon, u will start finding things that you will like in this new place and one by one things will start falling in place and you will have a great time here. So keep the faith and remember to keep a smile no matter how hard the times are..the good momments are around the corner.
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Im very sorry but I only have 2 advice for you...\n\n1.) LIVE YOUR OWN LIFE...\n2.) DECIDE WITH BOTH HEART AND MIND IN EVERYTHING YOU DO...
393076
Bad luck.\nMake better use of your education if you are educated.\notherwise find a respectable place like working in a store or grocery shop etc.
848937
If you believe in yourself, i have experienced it in my life, don't work under anyone. Start your own one and see where life takes you. Initially, you may have some financial problems but tackle them and you'll reach your goal very soon.
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Try it. Remember that it will take some getting used to. Give it your all and try to stick it out. All you can do is try.
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The hardest part is making up your mind to do it.  Once you really have, the rest is fairly simple.  Decide if you want to lose yourself in a big city, or if you want to be part of a community in a small town.  Jobs might be scarcer in a small town, but odds are you might like the job itself a little better because of interacting with neighbors and friends.\n\nIf you have a lot of possessions you need to take, then the planning can get more detailed.  In that case, take your time, do some research, rent a truck if you need it, take care of things where you are, and go.  It helps to have a plan and a place to stay when you get there.\n\nBut it sounds to me like you might be looking to get away from something or someone, and I don't know if you have to do this in a hurry or on the sly.\n\nI have done it both ways.  I've done the carefully planned out move, and I've done the grab what money I can and run move.  They both work out, one can just be a little tougher than the other.\n\nHaving a job in the new place first always helps, but depending on your skills or experience, some jobs are just easier to get if you're already in the new town.  Temp jobs while you look for the right position could tide you over.\n\nThere are cheap motels that rent by the week, and while they're not always the best places to live, it gives you a roof and a base to work from while you find a job and a home.\n\nBut keep your chin up - this could be one of the most positive experiences of your life, if you just look at it that way.  A little time to be self-sufficient, empower yourself, maybe even get to know yourself better.\n\nGood luck to you.