My  ex-boyfriend wants another chance...?
435783
He made his decision long time ago. He cheated on you, let him prove that he wants to be wtih you. But what you should be asking yourself is can you get past his cheating and never bring it up can you forgive him and will you get past this and be in a healthy meaningful relationship. You owe it to yourself and to him.
393466
If he wants you back he will find a way.  You might have to accept that he has moved on and try to do so yourself.  The pain goes away if you let it.x
641436
Ummm If u gave him 1 chance and 2 chance u alway give him a 3rd one Just try it.. And if it doesn't work try to find someone else better..Also that means he really loves u unless he has cheated\n\nGood Luck!
116127
well if you are going to take him back then you have to get over it. otherwise let him go. i cheated with a guy and we got back toghether and he treated me bad because of it instead of like loveing me and us chillin because i was faithful to him for a while and well guess what i did it again and we are now broke up. but you are not wronge to give him another chance. people do change and though it is not an excuse yall were both going through some pretty bad stuff so i mean he could really be sorry. but if he does it again which he may not then leave him unless you want to give him another chance (there is no such thing as to many chances but when you get tired of soemthing you area tired of it) so i hope if he does keep cheating you will leave cause youdeserve better but its really up to you but this could work out for yall and i hope it does. good luck and God bless.
1127003
if u still love him think about giving him another chance but b4 making ur decision u should think about why u broke up with him in the first place and if ur rlly over wat he did to u. ask urself if u can rlly trust him again and if it's rlly a good idea to get back together with him the choice is urs \nGood Luck!!!
446669
Ummmmmm wait a sec - do I have this straight?\n\nHe cheated on you - you forgave him and gave him a 2nd chance?  \n\nYou later cheated and he won't give YOU a 2nd chance?\n\nWell that about says it all if I have that straight.. he doesn't want to give you that 2nd chance because this is HIS way of getting out and 'blaming you for it'.  I bet he has another 'side'.... I'm so sorry, and realize that you have already punished yourself enough, and that you TRIED to be honorable and tell him the truth, and if you could forgive him and he won't you, he's being a JERK!  I'm sorry /comf!
1107537
You didn't mention why you broke up...If it was because he cheated or got uninterested after the miscarriage, chances are he might do it again....But what the heck, everybody deserves a second chance.....And  if you really feel in your heart that he meant every word he said and if you are still in love with him, I advice you to go for it..after all, love is lovelier the second time around...good luck
883579
No you shouldn't try and get back with him. He's saying that he's enjoying the single life, due to this reason he's not going to want to get back with you is he?\n\nYou obviously still like him, but he is your ex for a reason, besides which is is dating someone, whether or not its casually, he is seeing someone and you don't want this girl to have a go at you. So just leave things as they are. You are still on speaking terms but leave it at that don't let it go any further because in the long one you are the one that will come of worse
908769
It sounds like he's very hurt by not only the break up, but by your harsh actions of how you treated him after the relationship ended. He's seen you in a new light that was not good and now in turmoil over whether or not to get back with you. Best thing to do now would be to back off to give him time and space to figure things out. By you constantly calling and asking him what's he going to do is probably just making matters worse. Let him have his time to think about things and so he can make his decision.
997839
it sounds like he is trying to be a player. I suggest you leave him in the past as an ex. The way he tells you he wants to be back with you, and then see's the other girls, is a strong indication that he is not going to be loyal to you, and will end up hurting you.
111090
In most cases it's best you just let go of the past and try to move on. It also depends a lot on how things ended and how things currently stand. My thought is, if it didn't work the first time for obvious reasons then chances are it probably wouldn't work out now. A few of my X boyfriends have proven to me after quite some time why it was best to end the relationship and never venture down that path again. The best advice I can give is just to move on and find someone to start something new with someone who is right for you NOW --besides fresh new starts are always a lot more fun anyways.
376714
This sounds more like it's confusing than like an actual problem.\n\nTry to relax and let your ex make up his mind.  He's obviously not sure what he wants at this point.
251364
You missed your chance with him and now you are out of luck.  He has moved on and made his choice so let him go and find a single guy to chase after.  If he is doing it to just make you jealous then don't play his games because you deserve to be treated better.
132566
i think its okay if you're okay with it. do you want to go back to your ex?  if so, talk to him about it first. commmunication is key.
775325
i think u should consider it again....think about it carefully...ur fate will depend on ur decision...give him the last chance... if he do it again, dont hesitate to leave him...im sure there's someone better than him..good luck!
1130437
I think you should call him. But don't be like, "I made a mistake, I want you back." Because any normal person is not going to take you back & not have any grudges. He might be like, "Yeah, she want's me back, so now that I've got her, I'm going to make her suffer a little bit so she will not do this to me again. She made me hurt, I'll make her hurt." and although he may want you back just as much as you want him, he could ACT like he could care less & keep you hanging. Soooo, I would call him, ask him how he is doing, and start a nice conversation. Tell him that although you broke up with him, you still love him as a person & you want to be friends. Then let things maybe slowly grow back into a relationship & tell him after he's not mad & hurt anymore that you made a mistake. But you really can't listen to anyone but yourself, If you feel like you should tell him what a mistake you made now, do it. Everyone's relationship trials are different. And since no one knows this guy, no one on here will know how he will react except for you. So go by that... If things don't work out, or if he refuses to take you back, just remember it wasn't meant to be & it just means there is someone else out there even better. But before you do anything, you need to review why you dumped him in the 1st place, if your friends don't like him & say he is a jerk or something, try seeing thier side. But only you will know if he is right for you. I know a lot of people say my boyfriend is a jerk, but we have been together for 8 years and I KNOW he is not. Doubt and insecurities about you guys relationship will only make it end again. So make sure you resolve all issues before you get back together. Good luck!!!
181428
Only HE can decide if he wants to get back together.  You cant MAKE him.  And if you do, it could be worse.  He needs to make the decision of WANTING to be with you.  If he is unable to forgive you for whatever you did. DO NOT force the issue.  Try very hard to move on.