whats the point if gods real why dose he hurt me at every chance he gets?
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I have wanted babies since I was a kid.  I have had three miscarriages, and have no living children.\n\nMy second loss was in the second trimester, when everyone said I should've been fine.  I struggled with God a lot during that time.\n\nI didn't know why I lost my babies, but I did know that God could have prevented it, and I didn't know why He wouldn't.  I didn't want to live.  I wanted to be with my babies.  And I was angry at God.  I wondered the same thing, "Can He see me?  Does He care?"\n\nWhat I lost was a lifetime with my children, and that just seemed senseless.  But then I thought about eternity.  I don't get to be with my babies here, but I long to meet them and live in eternity with them.  I have that priviledge through Jesus.\n\nI know that God isn't in time.  Time has no bearing on Him.  But I wonder if the time that Jesus spent on the earth was the longest time God ever endured.\n\nGod was parted with His Son for 33 human years, so that I could be with my babies for eternity.\n\nDoes He care?  He cares enough that He suffered through that separation for me.\n\nWhat then shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us? He who did not spare His own Son, but delivered Him up for us all, how shall He not with Him also freely give us all things?  Romans 8:31-32\n\nWhen my father and my mother forsake me,\nThen the LORD will take care of me.  Psalm 27:10\n\n\nTherefore humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you in due time, casting all your care upon Him, for He cares for you.  I Peter 5:6-7\n\nAs a father pities his children,\nSo the LORD pities those who fear Him.\nFor He knows our frame;\nHe remembers that we are dust.  Psalm 103:13-14\n\nAre not two sparrows sold for a copper coin? And not one of them falls to the ground apart from your Father’s will. But the very hairs of your head are all numbered. Do not fear therefore; you are of more value than many sparrows.  Matthew 10:29-31\n\nYou number my wanderings;\nPut my tears into Your bottle;\nAre they not in Your book?  Psalm 56:8\n\n\nYou have moved my soul far from peace;\nI have forgotten prosperity.\nAnd I said, “My strength and my hope\nHave perished from the LORD.”\nRemember my affliction and roaming,\nThe wormwood and the gall.\nMy soul still remembers\nAnd sinks within me.\nThis I recall to my mind,\nTherefore I have hope.\nThrough the LORD’S mercies we are not consumed,\nBecause His compassions fail not.\nThey are new every morning;\nGreat is Your faithfulness.\n“The LORD is my portion,” says my soul,\n“Therefore I hope in Him!”\nThe LORD is good to those who wait for Him,\nTo the soul who seeks Him.\nIt is good that one should hope and wait quietly\nFor the salvation of the LORD.\nIt is good for a man to bear\nThe yoke in his youth.\nLet him sit alone and keep silent,\nBecause God has laid it on him;\nLet him put his mouth in the dust—\nThere may yet be hope.\nLet him give his cheek to the one who strikes him,\nAnd be full of reproach.\nFor the Lord will not cast off forever.\nThough He causes grief,\nYet He will show compassion\nAccording to the multitude of His mercies.\nFor He does not afflict willingly,\nNor grieve the children of men.  Lamentations 3:17-33\n\nHe sees you.  He hears you.  He cares for you.  Just hold on.
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Are you saying you haven't given yourself completely to God? He created you. He knows how many hairs are on your head. He loves you. If you know in your heart that God is real but are getting confused, Let me tell you that you will not find peace in your heart if you don't give yourself to him. How would you feel if your child turned on you and never spoke to you? That is how God feels about us. He loves us all and sent his Son to die on the cross for our sins. Pray and you'll find your answer.
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Because god will contact you in his time~not yours, you have to be patient with him as he is with you!! Just keep talking with him, your day will come!! :)
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You profile says "life sucks but if God is with you its not so bad" maybe you need to repeat that to yourself a couple times.  My grandma always said God will never give you more than you can handle.  Whether you believe in God or not, suicide is not the answer. I think you know that or you would not be asking us about suicide methods.  You obviously want us to stop you from making a horrible mistake you could never take back.
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There is no way to shield yourself when invoking evil spirits. Since God is more powerful than anything you could call up, why don't you try asking him for something and see what the answer will be?
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basically god always wants you to try helping yourself first as best as you can then pray to him. after that? patientce and have faith ;)
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god to me is a belief , to help be on our right path, by loving him ur promosing to ur self to TRY to avoid dong sin.But no one is perfect, if god exist and he will understand it too
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I was just having this conversation with God yesterday with the same question?  I didn't know it was for you.\nThere is only one reasonyou are feeling this way.  Everything, believe it or not, was created for a purpose-- even you. \n          " For I know the plans I have for you, " declares the Lord, plans to prosper you, not harm you.  To give you a hope and future."  Jeremiah 29:11\n Sex was for made for the coming together of a man and a woman but not outside of the marriage guidelines.  Sex is a beautiful thing and even more beautiful when it is with someone who loves you despite your bad breath, messy hair.  It is even more beautiful when that person is someone God has especially chosen for you and has strengths that you do not have and sees that a relationship with God is first priority and being everything that God has created him for as being part of that (loving husband, good provider, great father).  This person does exist.  Now that i know the truth of the matter in those people who might seem like they are happy are not happy they just have not been told by someone how special they are and that they are loved and accepted no matter their flaws.  So they go with what everyone else or so they think, does.  Sweetie,  you are special and there is no reason for you to sell yourself cheap.  You have been bought for a high price already and no one can pay as much as He can for your life.  I wasn't a virgin when I got married,  but everyday I wish that i could have waited.  God didn't set up laws to punish us, but to protect us( needless hurt, pain,  wasted time, disease and baby mama/daddy drama).  There is no such thing as separating love and sex unless you have a heard heart or no heart at all.  Don't try to fit into the world's standards-follow God's and he'll send you your true mate.     \nJesus loves you.( now smile)
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Ofcourse!! I believe God could do anything. With GOd everything is possible. You ask me how do i know? trust me i know God will never ever want to see you hurt, although there are times where you may feel things are on top of ur head and ur world is upside down, and you wonder why God isnt doing anything about it? i believe hes waiting for the right time to fix our mess, because he sees if he fixes it wont be good for you later on. Im not very good with explaining but i hope you get what i mean. God bless you and help you with ur friendship.\n(i myself is losing a preciouse friend of mine...but i know God will help me through.)
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I CAN'T BELIEVE THAT YOU ARE CONSTANTLY FAILING GOD, IT IS JUST THE DEVIL WHO WANTS YOU TO BELIEVE THIS, TO MAKE YOU STOP DOING GOOD....SO MY ADVISE FOR IS DON'T STOP AND THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU DID WRONG, JUST THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU CAN DO RIGHT, DON'T LOOK BACK, REMEMBER THAT GOD FORGIVES, SO THE DEVIL GAME IS TO MAKE YOU FEEL THAT GOD DOSN'T LOVE U AND IS NOT SATISFIED IN WHAT YOU DO, THEN YOU START GOING IN CIRCLES, SO STOP THAT CIRCLE AND THINK POSITIVE AND PRAY A LOT!! AND REMEMBER THAT GOD LOVES U!!!!
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Why do you feel the need to make rules for God? He does what he wants when he wants to do it. He doesn't have to answer to the likes of you. This is the Earth, not Heaven. \nLife happens the way it happens for a reason. \nYou can question him all you like. He's also answering. You're just not listening. \n.
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haha God doesnt punish you for future mistakes.  sometimes He doesnt punish you for mistakes you've already done, if you repent to Him and ask forgiveness.  you have a horrible day because you are only focusing on the bad things that went wrong instead of the good.  you dont know how many times today God has saved your life, or tried to show you something beautiful. at least you didnt get abducted and tied to a tree and beaten.  thats something positive
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God gave every one a "holy" spirit in the beginning (birth) ... until you turn away from Him. It means, everybody has His given spirit and of course He wants to retrieve back all His people to live with Him in paradise.\nSo, He understand well, that when you were led astray earlier, means you were just misled by parents, friends & environment or un-exposed, or un-introduced about the goodness and truth about God. God will be very patient in guiding you, waiting for your understanding to develop and He will send people inviting you to accept God in your heart.\nWhen you were led astray in later years with well developed intellectual and analytical prowess... it just means...you willingly choose evil than goodness... or satan than God (whom God was deeply hurt)... or choose eternal burning of your spirit in hell  than  eternal happiness with us in heaven.  \n...but God will always try to forgive you...\nSo, be sure if you`ll come back to God...it comes from the bottom of your heart, make Him happy this time, make Him smile in every action you make, let Him felt satisfied and happy to witness that you willingly choose Him over Satan, in every seconds of your life...\n...and your forgiveness will become very, very, very meaningful.\nB e                  B l e s s e d   !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Realize that for everytime you are hurt in life, it is helping you to become a stronger person. In the end, God will heal your heart and give you a new love, one of which will be so abundant you will not have enough room in your heart to receive it. It could even be the person that broke up with you, but maybe God has to work on that person and on you to make you perfect for each other. If not perfect for each other, He is making you and someone He will send to you perfect for each other. So just hold on, keep your head up, and have faith. Love will endureth in the end! You are in my prayers!
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I have often wondered why God "lets" things happen.  However, I've thought a lot about it and God doesn't let things happen.  He cannot intervene in our lives other than to give us strength when we need it, along with a host of other virtues to help us through our rough times.  God laid down the law many years ago and stated how things would be and how they would get.  He gave us freewill to make our choices.  God does not make people do bad things, people make choices, good or bad.  He cannot give evidence that he exists.  You have to believe on faith alone, which is why he cannot interfer.  People are people, we sin, and that is why the world is the way it is.  If you believe biblical prophecy, then he will return and take the saints and leave the sinners.
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At one point in our lives, we all go through situations that will test our faith, that would want us to end our life.  I should know because it happened to me as well.\n\nWhat I am trying to say is that no matter how bad things get, never give your hopes up:  For yourself, for your boyfriend, and your situation.\n\nYou need to pray and seek God because at the end of every line, it is only Him who can give us all the answers we need.\n\nJeremiah 29:13 says "If you seek me you will find me when you seek me with all of your heart."\n\nIt means that you need to seek God with every fiber of your being.\n\nSometimes, we may not like the answer He will give us thinking that ours is better, but know that He will not do anything that will cause us harm.\n\n”‘For I know the plans I have for you,’ declares the Lord, ‘plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.’” (Jeremiah 29:11-13, NIV)\n\nEnding your life should NEVER be an option.
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yes God exists for me... in times of need i asked Him lots of favors and He grants it... sometimes He doesn't because it was my fault as well i acknowledge... try... when you are in need pray and just wait for it to be answered... you cand ask him to talk to him directly....