An ugly friend asked me to prom! What should I do?
453884
You are right it wouldn't be fair to take her knowing what you now know. Tell her you are sorry but you just don't think of her 'like that' but she as has been such a good friend it is only fair to say it right out. \nOff course you could end up dateless then what will you do?
840808
My best friend and I were discussing if we could go to a prom now, what would we be like...I said I would be the scary goth in the corner and she said that she would be the whore, dancing with all the guys...so we decided that would be a really good show ~ The Goth and the Whore!
381994
Just ask a guy friend... I asked just a girl friend to my prom and I had a lot of fun.  We ended up dating for a while after that... u know like friends with benefits. She is still a good friend of mine too, it just brought us closer.
123720
why not? are you suggesting that you would feel uncomfortable if some one that is not your size or smaller went to prom? if so get over it and move on. everyone has a right to go to prom no matter the shape size or look. if you cant handle it or dont agree dont go to prom. PRETTY IS AS PRETTY DOES. NO MATTER THE SIZE!!!
253371
If you have any guys that are good friends and don't have dates as of yet ask them.  I went to prom one year with a good friend of mine after we both had just gotten out of relationships and her and I had the best time of everyone there I think.  Good Luck!!!
360110
Walk up to someone who doesn't have a date and say something like, "Hey, wanna go to prom?" Just a crazy wild thought that just ran through my head. It's crazy enough it just might work!
757934
Well,  the only  thing  you  SHOULD do  is  very kindly and  gently explain to that person that you really  aren't  interested in a "relationship" right  now.      But, not only that,  there is another person in your life who is rather  "special" to you, and  when  you have got certain plans for the future sorted out a little more,  you are intending to  ask  that  person to share them.    That  way, this unattractive person who is attracted to YOU,  will not be given any reason to think  that it is his or her looks that are  the  reason for your rejection.     Being  gracious should be  your primary concern,  and  a  little  kindness  far  outweighs  the  fact that you  would  have had to tell a  little  white lie.
31869
You should listen to your friends. Usually they know best. But if they just think he's ugly that's not really a reason for them not to like him. You should talk to your friends and see if there's any other reason why they don't like him. All that really matters is what you think. But if your friends have a serious reason then you should consider talking to him. Your freinds need to like him and he needs to like your friends. Trust me!
773559
Listen hun, \nwhy would you waste your tears on someone who calls you ugly? You are NOT ugly....your beautiful! and dont you forget it! Find someone who will love you for you. And LOVE YOURSELF! Have confidence in yourself and the "right" guy will find you! Chin up babe. No more tears for a guy like that.
805019
wasssup alexis how u doing gurl!\n\nanyway u should dump his usin ugly A.S.S
550139
Tell him that you are not ready to do that with him yet. Tell him that you are sorry that he feels you need to do that with him but you are not ready. Don't let him push you into something that you are not ready for. Tell him that its important for you to wait till you are ready and that you are not ready yet. Your not leading him on if you are honest with him . He should understand that you are not ready for that yet. Hope this helps and have a great time at prom.
724069
I would say its a bad idea. If this person is your friend then going after someone they were with is just bad karma. The best thing I can suggest is to talk to her and tell her how you feel.
341064
i say go and ask her. prom doesn't always have to be some crazy romantic event. i went with my bf but before he was my bf he was my best friend. we had a blast because we were friends first there wasn't pressure to "do things" or stupid stuff like that. i think if you go with ur best friend, ull have a great time!
247759
I understand your frustration about not being able to go to the prom that you really want to go to. But it doesn't mean you have to act moody towards your friends. Your friends didn't cause the those problems with not having a limo to go to the prom. So there is no reason for you to treat them the way you do no matter how upset you are. You have to learn to control your temper and not put your problems on someone else. Doing that will only cause you to loss your friendship with them as they will withdraw from you. So try to change that, or you will regret.
147897
get a fortune cookie and remove the message inside.  type up your own message"will you go to prom with me?"  go to a chinese restaurant and buy her dinner.   when the bill comes give her a very special fortune cookie and watch the ear to ear smile!!!!  She has to say yes!!!
167839
If you've already said yes to the first guy, you should be a classy lady and go with him to the prom.  If you explain the situation to the second guy, he should understand if he's a good guy.
634469
if he makes you wanna hurl, don't do it just because you missed your own prom. If you DO, then be up front and tell him that you're not interested in him romantically, but you would still like to go because you missed yours.\n\nBut if you just go and don't tell him that you're not interested romantically, that's not right. He obviously likes you, and especially because you've been to the movies already, this would be like a second date to him and he would feel encouraged that you like him. So don't string him along. Be honest with him.