What should I do if there is nothing in my mind except my crush and the computer?
440717
it was difficult to make the connection first. your love 'crush' is online? its a 50/50 thing. everything from you're in danger(!) or could be, to; you two will find love and get married. my advice - move carefully. never meet in person one on one.
30868
I know how you feel. I've been there. The best thing you can do is go up to him and start a casual conversation.  It doesn't have to be anything gushy. It can simply be about music, movies/tv shows, or any other interest you may have in common with him.  Do you know anything about him?  I know it's scary but you soon get use to it.  I use to have a major problem like that. feeling scared of rejection. Be yourself.  There is no point in him noticing you if it's not you.  Plus, trying to be someone else is very uncomfortable and you end up worrying even more.  As I said, trust me i know.  Walk up to him.  Find something appropiate and causaul for the circumstance. Is it at school?/work?/anywhere else. Do you know what kind of music he likes? If you don't, ask him.  Maybe you'll find a common interest. Just say,"Hey! What's up! So what kind of music do you like?"
158575
i wuld be very sad......i like my computer
866121
Now your anxious about it.  For one or two nights, try a sleep aid pill.  When you're more confident, you'll be prepared to try by yourself again.\nIf you're like me, always thinking about work, about your next day appointment, about the dinner party you have to plan for Saturday, etc etc, I suggest keeping a pad and pen beside your bed to write stuff when you think about it.  This way you won't be anxious to forget this great gift idea you just got or that file you have to save on your flash drive before leaving for work.\nWhat I mean is, find the source of your waking up...
120552
The best advice I could give you is to keep your mind busy on anything else but her. Keep yourself active, busy. I know its hard, believe me, I do. It will pass with time.
335312
let me think? what could u do? \nwel probably u should have gone to bed but u dodn't go alone. u went there with a guy. u want some details???:P
769454
Just don't say anything to him...don't speak at all...and after a while when he will notice than...and ask you why you don't talk....you say to him that you accepted the fact that he loves more computer than you...and tell to him that you are really hurt...and maybe just maybe will have success's this. Just try it.
470563
First of all find a queit relaxing place with no electronics or distractions! (i go in the bathroom lol nothing distracting there!) second makes note cards and study witha freind.
945590
I think you are obsessing about this girl.  It's not uncommon, we all did that...I know I did, boy after boy after boy when I was young!  The reason you can't sleep is you can't find an outlet for your feelings.  The only way to get rid of your restlessness and obsession is to let your feelings out or to act on them.  You know I bet if you were to talk to an adult about this...to a school counsellor, someone you trust to hold your confidence in this matter, they could help you.  Someone who knows you both could actually even pull you together, at least close enough so that you would TALK to this poor girl who is likely clueless to your feelings towards her.  \n\nWhat do you mean it's "a crush on her personality".  That sounds like you really admire her and have a great deal of respect for her, that she has qualities that you either like in a girl or would want for yourself.  Sometimes we obsess with people because we want to be like them.\n\nYou should try to get involved with her somehow, in conversation, in class, in a sport or event.  If all else fails you could write her a letter and tell her your feelings.\n\nJust say, hey, I have to get this off my chest because I can't stop thinking about you and I am very shy, but I think you are terrific.  I don't want you to panic.  I'm not going to stalk you, but I just had to let you know that you are the epitome of a woman and you just had to let her know....something like that where you are not saying I LOVE YOU!!! or making her feel scared or threatened or self-conscious. \n\nYou know even if you write these letters and never give them to her, you will do yourself a favour.  But you can't go on the way you are obviously...so one way or another the story has to end...or begin...the point is something will change when you make a move forward, maybe for the good, maybe for the bad, but at least you won't be "stuck"...which is the worst thing in the world...I know I've been there and sooner or later you gotta take the risk.\n\nYou sound like a really nice boy.  My daughter is goign through this phase in high school and I think girls like it when guys just be themselves and make a move and do anything...like this boy threw leaves in her hair today and she's telling me about it and yesterday he told her she looked goth with her hair the way she styled it...it's little baby steps that get you there...say nice things to girls...they like that...just be yourself as you would with any of your other friends and you're already friends with her brother...so let her see what a great guy you are when you're with him.  You're already IN there...get over that shyness boy! :~)
933370
I am going to go with leave the crush at home.  That would be plan A.  Tell Him that You haven't seen Her in a while and would like some girl time. \n\nPlan B, invite the guy Friends.\n\nHowever You did say crush, not boyfriend.  Might be a good test, but then again You may not like the grade it brings.
374030
You start praying! :)) Nothing else could help you in this situation!\n\nNow seriously...you have to calm down and try to have some rest after all...because you've got to have your mind fresh and open for new ideas. Sometimes it's better not to read anything at all if you don't have time to study thoroughly, because you will then find yourself very stressed about the fact that you cannot remember the exact words, ideas etc.\n\nBut if you haven't studied anything at all...there is nothing to be stressed about (I mean regarding what you have to remember...you haven't read a thing!) and if you do manage to calm down then you'll maybe be able to come up with some ideas of your own (that's what I usually do...I just try to think about the subject and what I know about it from other sources than my books...maybe from tv, the internet, a discussion with a friend...)
570296
well u could do what i did.... do nothing... let it guide u whereever it takes.. and pleassse dont try to think  sooo much... ur wasting on such wonderful time.. :D\nPEAce
397619
Just relax and enjoy the things you like doing. It happened and there is no point dwelling on it. Talk about to someone if you must
295366
its not, for many reasons ..i will explain some , by some questions ,\n\ncan the computer feel for u ..and be sad for ur sadness or happy to ur happniess ?\n\ncan u make the computer think alone without give him what to do ?\n\nwhom found each ? the computer found the brain , or the brain found the computer ?\n\nHope i did answsered u ;)
265498
use your imagination all you want. it's good for your brain and as long as no one gets hurt and you aren't obsessive...it's perfectly normal.
750480
1) Go to the art gallery and wonder around aimlessly, being absorbed in the mystery of objects that can be interpreted any way you like. \n\n2) Take up a community course on cooking or dancing (you're bound to meet some nice available girl), or languages if you're interested. \n\n3) Go to the gym or do some other sport that takes your mind out and gives you a good workout at the same time. You'll feel much better afterwards.
746727
Find someone else to think about.\n\nSeriously it's the only way.