Should my Best Friend go out with my ex Boy Friend?
448866
i have been dating one of my bestfriends ex-boyfriend, and weve been together for 3 years, we also plan on getting married. You cant help the person you fall in love with, and who are you to stop something that could be one of the best things that could happen for your best freind? if she really is your best friend then treat her as such dont let something like that bring your friendship down. let them try and see if it wroks out for them, if it does just be glad she found something a lot of people dont get the chance to, and if it doesnt work dont give an i told you so, compfort her as you would if you didnt know the guy. Keep smiling and find you someone who you can have fun with a be real with.
718882
I think you should do what your heart says. If it is telling you that you love this guy, not a little middle school or high school crush, but actually love the guy, its a tough decision. I was in the same position about 4 months ago, but luckily it worked out for me, my friend did get over my now boyfriend. But I had to sit down and have a talk with her. I actually asked her permission to date him. I didnt want to lose a friend over a guy. It can work, and if she says its ok, then she would have no reason to be angry, but if she says no, she doesnt want you to, then just think of how akward it would be to go out with him? she would always be angry, and it would hurt her alot. What if she made a move for him without talking to u? wouldn't that hurt you? Talk to her, and really consider what you say, how you say it, and listen to what she has to say. do it when things are not rocky, or else it will go horribly wrong. It sounds to me like you two need to talk it out, and if necesary, not have either of you date him. it is weird for a while...trust me. and if she says its ok, then it may be akward for a while, but eventually she will be ok with it unless she really does like that guy. And also be sure this guy is really worth it. Trust me, if its a crush, it could ruin both friendships. just have one on one time with him and talk things out with him too. remember, comunication is key. without it, it can all splash in your face. and listening to how ur friend feels is always important, so dont blow it off, or she will be very upset. more than if u hadn't asked her in the first place. just talk to each of them one on one, get a perspective from both of them, and be sure this guy is worth it and make sure he isnt best as a best friend...make sure u want to take it to the next level. who knows, maybe u guys can be as cute of a couple as everyone claims me and my bf is...and one more thing, GOOD LUCK!!! :)
628687
If I found out they were dating behind my back, I would dump BOTH of them, not 1. Just to make the process more efficient! :)\n\nCheer up, sh..t happens, you know.\n\nGet a new best friend, and a get a new boyfriend, too.\nHarsh to say, but this may be the only clean way out of this mess. \n\nDon't torture yourself... but defend yourself, as much as you can. Don't let your self-esteem go down beause of the two pigeons.
593760
you should stay with him ok. im dating my bff's ex boyfriend. i like him and he likes me just because he's your bff's ex dont mean you cant like him
288675
well do u like him? after u and him go out your relationship with your friend will never be da same that is if you don't lose her after going out with the guy
587199
Look, like some of them said, forgive him, and i don't know if you loved him or not, but any boy that will do something with your BESTFRIEND is not a good man. you have all of your life to find that right one, and if he wants to be with her let him be with her. hell she mite not be the only one that he has messed with anyway.
528983
I have been in the same situation 4 months ago.I went with my ex's friend.Let me tell you that did'nt work out!!!You will always have to see yor ex,and when he moves on to another girl,well that is just unbaerable.Find someone new and exiting.OUT WITH THE OLD AND IN WITH THE NEW!!!
524350
Ask him out although your friend may be crushed. If you break up then she can ask out.Or the three of you could date each other
217476
No, my best friend is, just that, my best friend.  Her EX is, not fair game.\n\nI played this game before, lost out on both counts.  the ex, only wanted to get back at her, she wanted me to "date" him and see if he wanted her back..\nend of story, everyone hated me, for playing thier game!\n\nNO
115058
Well..if it was me i wouldn't go out with my best friends bf, cause it just wrong. No matter how hot the guy is. And plus (this is an old saying but who cares? xD) Theres pletty fish in the sea..meh..i guess you could not ingore him though just if things starts getting back to flirting and more than flirting, then i subject to stop with the flirting if it gets to far (hopefully that might answer your question.. >.>'')
1124058
Well if your best friend is gay then that means you two dont really have much of a chance.  I guess i would tell him how you feel just to get it out in the open.  It may be easier for you to deal with it that way.  Even tho you may not ever get to be with him, he will still always be an important role in your life.  Boyfriends may come and go for both of you but you'll still always have eachother as friends.
109273
Just brake up with him because your friend probably said she didn't care if you to dated in the first place but she really did. Trust me my EX best friend dated my brother and now we now longer talk at all because she began choosing him over me and everybody else and remember bf come and go and true friends are forever. Do yourself and your friend a faver and stop it now before it ends up like we did and stopped being friends all together.
577114
How old are you? I get the feelin that you're not that mature. Your BEST FRIEND broke up with her boyfriend and youre already  in the line to get him? C'mon, you're kidding. Of course she's mad at you! Don't go out with him if you wanna keep this girl as your friend. Haven't you heard; guys come and go, friends are forever.
2452
In my opinion you have to look at a few different things. Are you a nice person or not. If not then you have no rules. If you are a nice person then read on. \n1. Are you and you your ex still friends? if you are you might want to ask  if they would mind. otherwise you might upset them and lose a friendship.\n\n2. make sure the bestfriend wouldn't have a problem with it(obviously).\n\n3. Make sure you don't have any feelings left for your ex. Cause if you do it could cause problems.\n\n4.Usually the best thing to do is just not go out with the bestfriend. in all cases I've seen it usually ends in 3 lost friendships. Hope I helped a little.
348008
It is up to you. If you want to go out with him then go for it but if you dont want to date him then just be his friend. The choice is yours and yours alone. Good Luck.
611852
if your ex's friend is willing to go out with you then he isn't much of a friend. there is an unwritten rule that you don't date your friends ex's. that goes for both men and women. it can create problems down the line and hassles that are just not worth it. now having said that you cant help who fall in love with. so if you both feel the same way and are ready for the possible consequences then go ahead and see where it might lead. he could be your soul mate. good luck to you witch ever way you choose.
678633
YOU BETTER NOT DARE GO OUT WITH YOUR FRIEND'S EX-GIRLFRIEND! DON'T BE STUPID. USE YOUR COMMON SENSE BOY. FRIENDS NEVER EVER DATE OTHER FRIENDS' EXES. SHE IS AN ASS FOR SURE AND ONLY WANTS TO HURT YOUR FRIEND, SERJIO BECAUSE SHE KNOWS IF YOU END UP WITH HER SHE WILL DESTROY YOUR FRIENDSHIP WITH SERJIO...THAT HEIFER. I KNOW I SHOULDN'T BUT I HATE PEOPLE WHO LIVE TO RUIN FRIENDSHIPS...GRRRRRRRRRRRRRR. DON'T YOU HURT HIM. HE IS YOUR FRIEND!\n(relaxes) ok...i've calmed down now. no more yelling. stay loyal to your friend please.