Is it ok to get pissed off by a nice person?
440160
It's fine. You're at work to get stuff done, and this person is in your way. If you were out for a day at Disneyland, it would be another story.
1027847
I've been guilty of that "super nice, but I am really hating you at this moment" kind of behavior.  A lot of the time it's because we want you to know why we are upset.  Not just that we're pissed- but the reason you pissed us off!  It can be tough figuring that one out, I know...  And the whole niceness thing is fake, you know that.... we want you to know we are ticked and trying to hide it...\nI think most women assume that men are emotionally retarded and think we are making it easier to understand us, when actually we are making it harder.  Good Luck with your girl...
2799
No. If you are a good student you need to stay that way. If you are looking to get back at the teacher there is nothing better than killing someone with kindness. They do something bad and you do something nice. They don't know what to think and you can't get in trouble for being nice. It is a win win situation.
381346
no its not ur fault bieing bitter after hurtfull experience...but on the otherside if u are bitter it would be hurtfull expernce for other person also standing in front of u...so dnt have so much hard feelings..life is beautiful u should enjoy it...problem comes and goes away...its time which is the best healer
565513
I think we all do it.  The question is: how do we respond when someone does it to us?  If we respond in kind (get pissy or huffy or rude) it just fuels the fire.  If we could just understand the power of realizing that when we treat people who are nasty to us (for whatever reason) with a little kindness and compassion, they will usually show a whole different side of themselves.  We all seem to have hair trigger tempers these days and ugliness begets ugliness.
248980
Being rude and disrespectful to ANYONE takes away time that would be better spent doing other things. HATE is a very strong word and I have avoided it my whole life. Why not try to look inside yourself and see what makes you hate someone. Then try to resolve that hate. Do you feel the person is rude and disrespectful to YOU? Do you feel the person doesn't treat you right? DON'T put up with that from anyone. Speak on it and resolve it. If the person still won't act right, just avoid and ignore them.-- Don't let anyone bite your joy. Kind of hard to avoid and ignore someone who has authority over you so I would suggest you work on a resolution or else get ready to vacate....\ngood luck
430900
Everything is relative.  There may be different best-case scenarios for a variety of situations.  Although being rude or spiteful does not rank so high on the maturity ladder, I would not say that there would never be a time when this response would be the best thing for cheering up your friend, assuming that no one else would suffer any real long-term harm.
933093
Yes. What goes around comes around. When I was a cashier if people were unpleasant to me I would be unpleasent back. But if they were nice I was always nice to them. I always try to be positive and usually people respond by being nice to me.
1010652
well, depends. do you like drama?\n\ndo you really want to piss off ex gf?\n\nYES?? OK, then go for it!
747844
Well, I know it's human nature to be petty but some people overdo it.   A lady here reported me because I said 'Luv YA!" in response to a question she asked..can you imagine?
1143779
Sometimes its worth it to give kindness to your enemies. They wont expect it and going against their expectations is a way to keep them off balance and you out of their traps. Perhaps being sweet to your enemy could turn the situation around and they might be less impassioned about harming you. They is really only so much that hatred, anger, and meanness can accomplish. If your enemy is starting to be sweet to you it could mean that they actually respect you, they might want to lessen the conflict, or they could be trying to trick you. Respond in kind and wait and see. It depends on whether it is sarcastically sweet or whether there is genuine warmth and/or affection there. Even if they are deciding to be nice to you now, they have a ways to go to earn your trust. You can be nice to someone and not trust them, you know.
1035924
No, however most people are sick of people who feel they are so perfect that they possess the right to make comments on all sorts of situations they know nothing about.  At least those who seek out solutions for their own problems are looking for a solution.  \n\nOn the other hand, there is no cure for being as rude and surly as you appear to be.  Hmmm, kinda makes me wonder what your hiding by puitting others down instead of taking care of YOUR OWN business.\n\nThose of you who are offended by such irrelevent disregard for another human being can click on "Report Abuse" to the left of the abusers posted comment.  Scroll down to the catagory "insulting Other Participants", type in your reason for reporting the person, then press "Submit".  \n\nHomestly, do these people have nothing better to do?
656797
I think a rude answer, but why waste your energy trying to get back at someone?  Just ignore them and let it go, then you are the better person.
133953
focus on somebody else. you dont want to wreck a happy home and have a bad karma afterwards right?
998418
Not nice,some people have no respect for others ,put it down as experience ,soon you will meet someone decent and be glad you were stood up
855008
Yes, you overreacted, and your response was childish - might as well run over and dump your food on her head.  \nIf someone offends you, don't assume that they will just magically realize this.  (and how is your swearing and vulgar gesture any more polite than her swearing?  two wrongs don't make a right!) \n\nWhat you should have done is gone over to her and politely said, "Pardon me, but would you please refrain from swearing so loudly?  It is disturbing other people.  Thank you."  \n\nAlso, part of your anger problems stems form the fact that you perceive this act as an attack on you, something you need to "retaliate" for.  You need to remind yourself that people do not do these things to piss you off, it is nothing personal against you.  They are simply absorbed in their own lives and actions - they are thinkig about themselves, not you... just like you.  \nPlease consider anger managment therapy, and try to let other people's rudeness be your inspiration to be more polite, not less.
987815
YES!!!\n\nHoly CRAP!...What kind of a jerk do you work for?\nFiring someone during a party, Christmas, birthday or ANY pleasant  event is socially and business wise, unacceptable\nbehavior and bad judgement.\n\nWhoever is planning to fire you at that party is going to fire you the next day, anyway, so you might as well say your farewells at the party and celebrate!\nHAVE FUN!!!  You don't want to work for a jerk like that anyway.\n\nGood riddence!...HE'S DOING YOU A FAVOR!!\n\nENJOY THE PARTY!!  For crying out loud!