Are thick women better in bed than thin women? and what about blk women and wht men?
446579
i'm thin, and my bf tells me and other people that i'm the best he's ever had.  I'll do just about anything, i dont see why being skinny or thick has to d with sexual preference, but. . whatever . . . maybe it was just the personality of the girls you were with, lots of crazy sexual skinny chicks, trust me
790028
Women are sexier! (Oh come on, you know it!)
1103932
I have a very good saying when it comes to men. "They are only good for one thing and three quarters of the time they can't do that right either." Every woman has had problems with their man's member, to short, to long, to skinny, to fat. I have only slept with one man who did all the right things with his member and I married him!!!!!
660649
It really depends.  It is what is on the inside of her that really makes her sexy.  A heavy woman can be much more sexy that a perfectly shaped one, as long as she is beautiful on the inside.
341016
Black guys like the thickness of a women and can appricate it and white men just like skinny boney women!!!! But you'll be okay Duckie!!!!\n\n                              Love, Turtle
348166
Most men prefer a woman with curves. I know I do! My wife is very curvy and voluptuous and she is PERFECT!.\n\nTrust me, most men - notice I didn't say boys - definitely prefer a woman that looks and feels like a woman.
412271
This is tricky question.  I want to be sure of what I am answering.  My friends and I all agree that 10 pounds too heavy is better than ten pounds too light.  So we actually prefer a "real" woman complete with curves (love those curves ;) ).  If you are asking why men prefer a weight height proportionate woman to an obese woman that is a different question.  The truth is (this will shock you) that generally speaking thinner women are more self confident.  Large women carry a chip on thier shoulder and often do not believe they are attractive and so they are not.  Half of a woman's beauty is in her self confidence.  If she is confident it it shows and if she is not she will be an emotional burden.  Constantly reassuring someone that you love them when they see no reason to love themselves is an overwhelming thing.  \n\nNow as for the other half... the physical fact is, I suspect that some of the answer is biological, that is a thinner women appears to be a fitter candidate for bearing and nurturing children.  Part of it is certainly cultural.  Part of it is also the idea that if you pick a thin one they will live longer and thus you will have more time with them.  They have also proven that they have self control (please no flames, I know about thyroids and etc, but a lot of obese people simply eat too much of the wrong foods and do too little of the right physical activities, sorry it's the truth!) and thier ability to care for themselves hints that they will be able to care for thier significant other  and/or children.  \n\nIn short the most attractive thing to a man is health, physical, mental, emotional and spiritual and the care of the body can be used to an extent to judge the health of the individual.
259408
I know this is not going to be popular with most, but I don't care if a woman is skinny or a bit chunky, as long as she is okay with herself.  If she has a good body image she will be better in the relationship, and more confident which is more attractive than body shape
933753
skinny women are supposedly ideal ... which is why those who do not reach that "ideal state" talk badly abt them ... skinny men on the other hand, are not particularly "ideal", and as such, no one really cares if a guy is skinny or not ... :)
746706
Well, maybe I'll reverse the question and ask who would want a woman who was hung up on a man's penis size?  After all, it is not how long it is but more a question of how good a lover and sex partner you are. So if you are one terrific person and know how to please a partner in and out of bed, and they turn you don becaus eof your size, then they are pretty shallow and don't deserve you in the first place.
235959
thick to obese.they don't work out,so they don't expect you to,there is ALWAYS food around and they have almost always had to take time to educate themselves and develop a personality.most of the time they are just funner to be with and they usually will do more to please there partner than those so-called hot chick with the bad attitudes.I'll take a big girl with a sense of humor over a skinny girl that complains anytime.
701696
Ha thats where your wrong. Women are just as horney. We are just much better at controlling ourselfs because we are the stronger sex
605307
I find chunky women very attractive.  I like a little meat on my bones.  Don't care for the skinny, anerexia type.  A little chunky is sexy to a lot of men.  Don't think that they are just hitting on you.  If you are pretty outside and in, that's the secret to being attractive no matter what your weight.
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Hi.\n\nThis is basically a cultural thing.  It really is not healthy for anyone.\n\nIn some cultures, however, being overweight, especially for women is desired.  It shows that they can tolerate stressful times (excess energy is stored up), so if there is a challenge in getting food - she'll survive.  (That is one reason)\n\nThe other reason a more robust woman may be desired is that she is direclty correlated with pregancy and motherhood, which are very desirable attributes in most cultures around the world.  In fact, in several areas sexy drawings or sculptures have been and are made of preganant women, or just large women for this reasons. - health, progenity, and fertility.\n\nLastly, in the West (the U.S.) being more and more slender has become a trend due to the fashion industry.  One era where it really started was in the 1960's with "Twiggy".  After that models began to become more slender.\n\nYou might remember from history, TV, or documentaries that they looked at Sophia Loren and Raquel Welch and Jane Russel (or Mansfield) as full-figure - GORGEGEOUS, Sexy Women.  (They were at least 20percent heavier than today's models. (go ahead and verify my percentage here - I'm going on memory) \n\nYou know - without any weight, it's pretty hard to have much of a figure: where are the breasts or hips?  You need some stored energy to have a really nice figure - at least for most women - maybe not all of them.  Some look feminine and great quite slender, others don't.\n\nUnfortunately, the more we read those fashion magazines we think we have to measure up, and that their standard is "it".  Not so.  Also, unfortunate: guys are starting to "buy into this philosphy" - for women.  That is not healthy - women/girls Don't need more pressure to fit some mold.\n\nLastly, did you know it's white women who have more of an issue with body image than black women?  It's the training, it's the sex typing, it's the culture, and it's what you expose your brain to and accept.  (I'm not making this up - this was part of my Gender Psychology class).\n\nWell, hope this adds good stuff to your answers.\n\nTake care.\ntiny feet
73211
girl there are more guys out there that love thick girls than u think? you just have met the dumb ones out there that think skinny is better. I married a guy that loves me for me when I was skinny and now that I have had his 4 kids I am thicker than I use to be and he still loves me. Plus I have found out that even of you are thicker than the norm as long as your dress to suit your character and are confident about yourself, you would be amazed at the guys you think wouldn't approach you come up to you. It's all about how you see yourself and the determination you want in a man that is willing to take you as you.
637830
Truthfully speaking, I believe most men are attracted to women with curves, but they are afraid to admit it, as if it were illegal to do so. You see society predicates what is beautiful, and honey we aint it!, and that's a shame, because the average woman is a size 14.\n\nSociety needs to reconfigure its idea of beauty, and realize that "REAL WOMEN HAVE CURVES" not every man wants a twiggy. Society views a woman with curves to be overweight, and she may not be, there is nothing wrong with being healthy and having some junk in your trunk too. Most men dont want a bone, most men want meat on their bones, you know what I mean!\n\nI wish that us thick girls could get some love too, just like our thinner counterparts. I guess guys are afraid of what others will think, as a matter of fact I have a male friend that is attracted to thick women, and all his friends tell him he's a chubby chaser, now that is just not fair, but he doesnt care, he tells them they dont know what their missing, but you can see where I'm going with this, his friends are the equivilent of how society views us thick girls, and that is just so sad, because we are the majority not the minority!\n\nHowever I am feeling confident that slowly but surely societies ideals of us is changing, thanks to people like Mo'Nique and Toccara, they are starting to break down some barriers.\n\nI hope my answer, as long as it is, was helpful to you. Keep your head up sistah, we gonna get in there....\n\nI hope I was able to help you out!!!
264019
its easy to tell since women are more curvaceous than men, men on the other hand are more broad-bonewise then women.\nIf u still meet a gal and a guy who look the same physically i suggest you stay away from then cos one of them just aint right.