Should I still talk to my ex? Even though she did me wrong.?
453677
Dude if it hurts you to talk to her than I would avoid her. I went through a similar situation years ago. When you're with someone for a while and you develop strong feelings, it's hard to just get rid of those feelings. So if talking to her brings back any of those feelings you should avoid her.\n\nThere are plenty of other women out there man. Get out, do things you enjoy doing and soon those feelings will disappear. Hang in there bro. That which doesn't kill you makes you stronger!
219497
I totally understand what you have been through.  I think she could still be your friend but the question is NOT NOW. You have to move on no matter how hard it is.  You have to re-establish yourself with someone else, and be a whole again...before you can be friend with your ex.  It is very selfish of her to keep 2 men around.  Be strong and let her know that it is for the best. If she still cares about you, this is the least she can do for you.
994820
Hey, hun. I went through that. It was like we never broke up.  After talking we decided to pretend it never happened. Now she and I regret it. But talk to her. You both probably want to get back, a fight shouldn't be the reason you break up.
291616
First of all, why is your ex girlfriend talking to you? Is it just to talk? That's okay. Your girlfriend should understand.\n\nBut if she wants to fool around or get back with you, you should not talk to her unless you do want to fool around or get back with her. In that case, be upfront with your girlfriend about it.
1175613
you did do a selfish thing. she may not want to talk now but trust me she needs time to think. she will talk to you when she feels the time is right. people just cant forget many years in one minute. give her time.
155942
If you really feel bad for what you did apologize to her..but if you are just asking because you know what you did is wrong but do not feel bad about it then do nothing because you will hurt her again, eventually.Hope this help!
383895
hmmm, a guy just did that to me recently.  She has gone through a lot of thoughts in her head by now.  If you want any chance at all, you need to own up to the fact that you hurt her by not talking to her, and apologize and say you'd like another chance.\n\nWhy did you stop talking to her?
372552
go and talk to him...tell him you missed him..and ask for forgivness if it is possible.\n\nsomethimes we should try to be humble and admit our mistakes..or even if we were right, we should do it for getting back our ex...\n\nshow love and kindness..;
805628
Sounds suspicious to me.  Are you sure she's his ex?  How long have you been together?  Call her back and have a girl to girl talk.  She'll give you her side of the story.
377506
What's done is done. You can't change the past, so don't dwell on it, you only waste your own time and energy. Take it as a leason in life to not expect soo much from other people. Deal with her as you have been before the incident, just be a bit more cautious.
660623
tell her your sorry and that you want to be mates and talk to her again
895688
the first thing that i have to say is that a long distance relationship is hard to do and you have to make sure you are faithful. you shouldve never talked to your ex. make her see that you are the right man for her!
597256
Always remember that an ex is an ex for a reason. Obviously you two broke up for a reason and she nees to see that. You should just simply call her and explain that you arent trying to be mean but you dont want anything more with her. It sounds like she has codependency issues as well if she is going from you to a gf so soon. Just simply tell her so that it doesnt get out of hand. Dont ignore her because that can send mixed messages and it could be hard for you to stop later.
65457
Well  to think about it is not wrong but to actually do it would be. What if her life is not going so well? Do you really want to hurt her? Bc that is what will probably happen. Not many women want to see their ex super happy with someone else.  Just my opinion.
919020
what your friend did to you was horrible. I think it's really up to you what you want to do from here- do you want to confront them and have it all out, or would you rather just get away from the situation before it consumes you? Either way, your friend doesn't deserve to be your friend anymore so i would forget about her and move on, clearly she's a pretty low person for wanting your ex.
715726
think your still hurt about what happened and are reading too much into what she says, maybe she didnt mean to say anything like that, best thing is to try your best not to think about it.
682511
If she took it that seriously you can really tell that it hurt her most because she was already feeling like a nobody.The truth is what hurts people the most. The best perspective here is to think that she's not talking to you because she needs you to suffer a little so you can see that you made a big mistake; if this is the case then it's temporary and she will get back with you. I don't think you should face this,for now, as the end of the relationship,if she loves you,she will forgive you. I think you have done all the right things,as you said, asking for forgiveness and owning up to the mistake.