how do  u get a boyfriend but i am ugly?
438852
It's pretty sad when you're the one saying you're ugly..... the only thing left is to be slutty I guess.... good luck with that.
240758
Before you can address the issue with your boyfriend, you need to address your issues with your body image.  Instead of picking yourself apart, build yourself up.  If you feel you're "chubby", try losing weight if that will make you feel better about your body image.  If you feel you're "plain looking", try a little makeup or a new hair color to see what works for you.  \n\nIt's a cliche, but true beauty really does come from within.  If you don't love yourself, how can anyone love you?  Guys get bored with girls who trash themselves.  It's like saying to them everyday, "Why are you with an ugly girl with me when you could be with someone prettier?".  Basically, you're second-guessing his high opinion of you.  It's may be a matter of time before he starts to agree with your poor body image and moves elsewhere.  \n\nJust because you value meaningful things like art over binge drinking and freak dancing doesn't make you less of a person, or unattractive.  Intellectual pursuits are much sexier to the right kind of guy.\n\nAs for the jealousy thing, you either trust your boyfriend or you don't.  If you think he's actually going to make a move on these other girls, maybe you should reconsider dating him.  If he is geuinely uninterested in these other girls and your insecurities are driving this persistant jealousy, try and find your own sex appeal and work on building yourself up!\n\nDon't waste another minute hating yourself.  Life is too short, and one day you'll realize you had nothing to hate about yourself to begin with.
719267
The best way to get a good boyfriend is to just be yourself.\nDo not put on airs. Do not try to attract guys. Always remember, some where there is My Right for you.\nMost boys do not like girls that fuss about them or giggle all the time.. JUST BE YOURSELF.
768413
I guarantee you, that if you have a decent personality and a cheery outlook on life (nice looks help too), there are guys who like you.\nYou dont need a boyfriend right now - even if your friends have them.
229506
first, desperate women don't care what a guy would look like, but I guess that's solved since you aren't a woman yet. second, you're too young to absolutely NEED a boyfriend. third, if you are searching online and exclaim you're desperate it's a bit redundant. and fourth, if you're such a cutie, why can't you find a guy in the real world?
913595
Just be yourself like I am.One day this guy asked me out and i said no after that all the guys started paying attention to me and now i'm in high school they are still think i'm atractive even the people i'm not friends with.good luck and remember be yourself.
245702
Woah, girl. You dont have to do anything to have a boyfriend. dont change yourself...you are most likely perfect the way you are.  Besides, men will ALWAYS believe you are sexy, as long as you do!!!:)
1066580
Be beautiful.  But don't be superficial.  Be beautiful where it really counts... in your personality and your relationships with people.  Then no matter what your outer appearance, whether you're ugly as you seem to think boys think you are, or not, as your friends say, it won't make any difference, because everyone will be happy to see you come along.
560905
Take your time getting a boyfriend. Your young and don't settle for one and get messed around by someone who will not treat you good.............
444380
ur self confidence is so low that you are depending on a bunch of random people to tell you that you are pretty so you can award them 10 points.. well you know what.. I dont think ur pretty .. i think you are ugly.. U - G - L - Y .. UGLY!!!!!!!!!!!!
601522
ignore the stares i know it's tough but u have to learn to turn the other cheek a real friend wouldn't care how u look anyway so if they don't want to be your boyfriend cuz of your disease then they wouldn't be a good bf
301517
I know how you feel. But why do you want a bf just for the sake of having one. There will always be shallow guys around that are interested in looks only. Why build a relationship just on looks? It never works out.\n\nWhy don't you live life to the max! Take up interests that you like. Join clubs that do things that you like. Have fun. Chances are, you will make lots of interesting friends whom you will share common interests with and you'll have a great time with them. And who knows, one of those friends may just be a boy whom you will like. Now that's the best way to develop a relationship: start off as being good friends with lots of common interests.
440029
Maybe because you're beauty, more guys are getting attracted to you. This will definately attact the Jack---es, where as before you had men interested in true love. No, I'm not telling you to get ugly, just that the guy will be harder to find, and will have to love you for you, and you'll have to love him for him. Maybe you're biting on looks too when you look for a guy, then find out his personality is not so good. Can't tell with the amount of info, but keep trying!!!
455655
Listen to me and I will say this with no doubt in my mind, there is always going to be people that are better than you, thats just life. The thing that makes you better than them though is accepting the fact there is no number one beautiful girl, or gorgeous guy, it is whatever you make it. One of your problems is exactly that when you start realizing your fighting a battle none of us can ever win and I mean nobody, you will calm down with that a little bit, your perfect in your own way, everyone is. \n\n As far as a boyfriend you will definetley find one but dont just settle with the first guy that asks you, you have the right to look around. The best thing to do is to force small talk, even if your not popular who cares! Those are highschool BS stereotypes and I know you say its different when your there, but I have been there. Talk to people be sociable, but most importantly dont change anything about you. As a matter of fact the chances are there is a certain someone that may like you and you just dont know it yet. Keep your head up. It will come.
149571
God help us all. Now boys are becoming sickly over concerned about their looks. How old are you? Please don't do things to change yourself. \n\nDo these things: bathe and comb your hair. Wear clean clothes. Try to dress in something comfortable and in style. \n\nIf a girl is worth having, she'll want you for you.
745048
just think about how many really ugly people are out there,and how they would be happy to look like u.im sure u do look good and well done to u,that u managed to loose w8.fight ur selfcoonciousness,because it does affect life bad,if u dont feel good in ur own skin.my exboyfriend was very insecure and i know how much it ruins his life.be strong.
850256
boy i dont know why u have low self esteem!?\nur not ugly! and yes people have different taste but ur not ugly so dont get those things confused.\ni think the only thing thats keeping u down is ur lack of boldness.\ndont be scared to ask a girl out. \ni guess u first have to feel good about urself so that vibe goes out and then others follow.\nits all about the vibe u send out!\nso try to feel better about ur self!\ndont hide behind ur hair or glasses\nlook up\nand proud!\nand i bet in a while once it comes  natural youll get the courage to ask a girl...if once u dont succed....then try again!\nno one person is good enough to give up after them!\nremeber that!\n\nwell hope i helped\nChau\nand feel better ok dear!