what do i do when i have this friend that i don't want to be friends with but don't want to hurt her feelings
442640
well i kinda have the same problem so let me tell you what i do when they come around i am still sweet to them but i cut back on hang out time till there is none
588406
tell her to get the hell off of ya...your not interested in her that way...you just want to be friends and if she doesnt want just that break the friendship off
494733
THAT IS NOT A FRIEND!!!AND CERTAINLY NOT WORTHY OF BEING BEST ANYTHING.I WOULD CALL THAT A S**T STARTER.GET RID OF HER BEFORE SHE REALLY HURTS YOUR FEELINGS.IF AN APOLOGY WASN"T GOOD ENOUGH,THEN THAT IS HER PROBLEM.WITH FRIENDS LIKE THAT,YOU DON'T NEED ENEMIES.
452485
i have a friend doing the exact same thing. dump her. but only if she's a bit(h. if she's nice, don't. but if you deside to (and you totally can) don't put the blame on anyone. Just say you don't like how the friendship has gone, and your really not comftordable with the situation. so you think it best if you don't hang out anymore. tell her that, and tell her your leaving the friendship with overall good feelings, and that you like her, but that you really just need to end it, and leave it at that. she doesn't need any other reasons, Don't put the blame on her, or you, otherwise she will be mean about it.
1081793
hello,\nYou need to write her a letter that tell her that you do not want to\nbe friends anymore. You don't mind saying hello but that's as \nfar as the relationship go. She need to more on and leave you alone. You will not need to reach me to talk about this issue it is done.
545505
She is jealous and insecure.  You seem to be having success that is eluding her.  So she strikes back by being mean and trying to diminish your accomplishments.\n\nIf you want to give her another chance but not be hurt any more, you will have to tell her that her current behavior is unacceptable.  You don't need friends like that.\n\nBut if you've decided that she is not the kind of friend that you don't want to have, you will have to be honest with her and tell her that you don't need friends who are constantly critical and mean.  You owe her the truth for the sake of your past friendship.\n\nWhatever you decide is really up to you.  But if you just want to know why she did all this, it's jealousy and insecurity on her part.
1149608
well if you really don't want to gf's with them then just tell them in a place where nobody is that, you are not really interested in those things and tell them that you can be friends with them but not gf's.
487718
There is no good way to tell her the first time should have never happen you lead this friend on and now you don't want to continue what you started that going to hurt just be honest and apologize and let her know that you will always be there as a friend and that's all you can be to her
416631
If you are really her friend and not just someone trying to hurt her feelings , then I would tell her how people view her and that in the long run she is going to be the one hurt by this behavior. I knew someone like that once, and when she decided to change and get her life back on track ,she actually had to move out of state before she could find someone that wanted to have a relationship with her because everyone knew her reputation.
94484
well she's not your friend if she wants you to be u to be under her so thats a friend u need to let go
26786
This is an easy one. I've being on the same boat so here goes. Tell this person straight up, that you like them as a friend but it stops there. Let her know that your not uncomftearble with her prefence but you still don't want her to cross the line with u, or it would ruin the friendship. \n\nIf she really values your friendship then she will learn to respect it and not cross the line. If she does then you know that respecting your feelings is the last thing on her mind and you shouldn't even bother having a friend like that. \n\nGood luck...
280936
if u dont want a friend anymore thn plz tell her directly..... dont hurt her from ur any sort of rude behavior..... remember its always good whn any relationship ends peacefully....... u took her as ur frd once so just be direct n tell her wht u feel...
836611
Why do you want to stay friends with someone that tries to confuse you and it sound like she doesn't respect your feelings. If your not lesbian let her be... Its actually very bad for her to do it over and over again, not very nice person. Just let her know that if she doesn't stop your going to go you own way, she her reaction i she stops you'll know she is a true friend,
291405
You are being a bad friend or not a friend at all. If u dont like her why waste your time playing games with her... You and your friends are being cowards
1079382
Well, just tell her that you don't want a relationship with her. Don't be mean with it. And tell her y'all can be friends. If she can't accept that then pay no attention to her or her friends.
884896
nicely tell her that you don't want friends like her and walk away.she will understand(she already has understood that but she doesn't want to admit it and thinks that you guys will forgive her that)Listen to me!
941724
i suggest you keep that secert and just stay distant from that friend , because she might be mad enough to hurt you