do you think it is sexism to let girls enter the pub for free and boys have to pay?
447000
It's usually called girls night and they do this to even out the female to male ratio.  So I don't think the guys mind too much.
228729
no he is wrong . its girls who take care of boys , infact its girls who give them birth THEY SURELY HAYE A TOUGH TIME FOR THEM :-)
131228
Well I think it depends on what type of gang you are in. If this gang is up to no good (stealing, fighting other gangs, violence, drugs,drinking, getting "jumped in", etc) then it is wrong not only just for girls but for ANYONE. If it's a good gang, such a getting together to help clean up litter, help the elderly etc. then of course there is nothing with that. If you are in a bad gang, I suggest you get help immediately and try to find a way to get out of it. It may seem fun now, but it could end up deadly.
155364
Yes, you can if you intern at a prestigous company and if you show initiative and in response to the previous answer actually, girls actually get paid less than guys, just because their female
493510
It happens to me many times, usual for men dominated area. I don't think it will be harmful to take their invitation, as long as you really know them and lunch in public places (restaurants). The most important is don't let them focus on sexist jokes and never use obvious physical contacts. Based on my experience, they do respect female colleagues, and I find it more advantage of being female among males, they put us in priority :))
118464
Because, we, women, always expect the man to be a gentleman. We like it when he shows he wants to make us feel like a queen. To me, a man who lets the lady pay for dinner or for anything on a date is half a man. I have never paid for anything when I went out with a man and I'll\nnever do it.
1161138
Nah.  Why not go ahead and label it. Women put out with guys all the time for gifts, diners, pay the bills etc... At least a hooker is on the up and up about it.
838136
WOW.. \nYou know I have to say I do agree with you.   \nIn today's society, it seems it's okay to flush everything your parent's have taught you, away with the old school ways.  And in with the rudeness, and disrespect.\nI was just hoping I wasn't a dinosaur for teaching my children  the same values that was taught to me, and my siblings. \nMy boy's sometimes get irratated when I say ..."be a gentleman" open, or hold the door for a lady.   \nOr when I tell my daughter... "it's not lady like" .. blah blah blah blah...\nHowever, I'm hoping I'm teaching them the right things.  To stand out and be different then society!   \n\nGood Luck, I hope you get good responses.  I'm curious to read some of the answer's to this question.
793728
I would say that it is fine for a girl to ask a boy if he would like to hang out at the mall or to see a movie.  Women have achieved a great deal of equality and a confident girl can feel that it is socially fine to let a boy know that she wants to spend time with him.  Friends of the opposite sex can be a great deal of fun as well and it doesn't need to be seen as a romance.
21311
It's called "Girls Night Out"...if they just hang out at one of their homes, that girl is obliged to be the "Hostess"... at a bar, they are all free from that kind of responsibility and can just drink,gossip, dance and guy watch without worrying about cleaning up or overstaying their welcome or bothering the neighbors (or their husbands/housemates/children)
929225
He should have just said "thank you" and let it go.  It isn't a big deal.  \n\nAs far as I know, modern etiquette would have it ok for a woman to hold the door for a man.  The way I see it, its a nice way to let men know they are equally valued/cared for.  Why should they have a life of nobody ever doing anything nice for them just because they're men.\n\nMaybe at a formal event it would be nicer to stay with traditional etiquette, but if people are just walking into the drug store I don't see why formal etiquette needs to be followed.
886249
alot as we spend a lot more money than men.\n\nonly ever been to one salon where there was a young male trainee. \n\nso i would pressume that the owners are female.
715096
I actually have a friend who used to be a bodyguard for one of these services.  What the escort services advertise is paying somebody to spend time with you, which is not illegal.  The girls in the escort service he worked for were not required to have sex with the guys.  Depending on how big of a tip the guy gave them past the initial fee then they would decide to have sex with the guy, and some cases they wouldnt' even have sex.
431860
see i guess im old fashioned cuz i always have to pay.. i just hate when you go somewhere & they expect it to be paid for.. like snobbishly though.. cuz i have no problem paying for any of it.. especially if i ask.. but even if im invited i usually slip the waiter my card without her knowing \ni think a guy should pay but its cool if a girl wants to pay once in a while
61466
In a nation free of hypocrisy anyone without legal say should not have to pay. What are they paying for? They get no benefits. But as it is now. It is all about the money and pleasing the female voting base. Those vipers in Washington would vote in all males to be castrated if they knew they had a loophole to get ut of it, just so the female voting bloc would be locked up and they can stay in office.
415291
I was at a friends house and they where playing one of those episodes from a website. From what I glanced at it seemed a bit staged to me or at least the money was offered down the road before it all took place. I mean how many Guys that are getting a BJ would not take a sneak peak from under your sweatshirt someone put over your face to see the supposedly chick that is supposed to be giving the BJ and realize its a Guy at the end ? very doubtfully but I think the answer to your question is Yes and No .. yes some guys will do anything for money and some guys couldn't have a tin can to piss inn and wouldn't do it.. Maybe its morals judgment etc. ? Guess i don't really know the answer but over all i think its SOME would not ALL
1079835
It does seem to be a forgotten practice,but I blame the whole women's lib thing that has made it somehow wrong for a lady to enjoy being treated like a lady...sad indeed.\nRomance,courtship,and chivalry are all missed,even by those of us we never really had a chance to enjoy such things.