My boss is constantly starring at my chest? Should I do something?
451460
I guess it depends . . . do you enjoy it?  Is it bothering you (since you are writing it here, I am assuming it does).  \n\nIt is, without a doubt, unprofessional.  However, most sexual harassment policies and laws require you to let the other person know, in some manner, that you don't appreciate it.  I think the best thing you can do it approach him, and say something like, "I'm not sure how to bring this up, but there are certain things you do that make me feel uncomfortable.  We are both here to do a job, and I hope we can do it friendly, but you need to know that it is making me uncomfortable".  Document what you said, how he responded, when and where you talked to him.  \n\nIf things don't change, or you sense any retaliation, take it immediately to Human Resources.  \n\nOh, and you may know that he is doing this in a lewd way, but I had a situation where an employee was staring at the chest of people when he talked with them - turns out it was a nervous gesture, and had nothing to do with harassment.
1047385
it seems to me that you may not be around alot of guys....you need to get out and meet more guys....I'm sorry about the crush you have on your boss but remember that he's taken....knowing that alone should help get over the crush...stop worrying about everything and everything will work out...Are you going to dr about panic attacks?  if not, you should...then you won't feel so strange if you are given some help..good luck!!
329427
Rise above it. If she deliberately embarasses you, then she is the problem. Do your work well and professionally. Talk with her and inform her that you would prefer to be told about your mistakes in private so that you could remedy them. Always be professional and job oriented. Bosses hate office politics....Document all incidents that are caused by her, if it continues over a period of time approach the person over both of you. If you are doing your work well, it will show.  If she is the boss, get out now while you still have some self esteem.  Good luck.  Be proactive, not reactive.
154666
I would say your boss already knows this coworker is negative.  Running to the boss only makes you look childish.  The reality is that we are powerless over how other people behave and this individual may just be a negative person period.  You nor your boss can change that.  Actually most of us will never really change unless we have some overwhelming and huge life experience or spiritural experience.  With all life problems we have 4 choices: "do nothing", "change it", "accept it", or "get out of it".  Since you are asking the question, I assume you are unwilling to "do nothing" and just grumble about your co-worker and be miserable.  Since you can not "change" your co-worker, you are left with "accept" them just as they are and practice kind tolerance, or "get out" and get a new job.  Your happiness is your responsiblity.  Oh and also, you can't help your co-workers either.  They have to decide which of the 4 options they want.
387751
What is she crazy? It's a win/win situation. These situations never backfire and always work out!(Can you feel my sarcasm?)Or maybe your female bosses are afraid that once they have a taste of you they will always be craving you and it might interfere with work. I,m the same way with your questions, I can't stop answering them! \n\nIs there brown on my nose? Don't pick me for best answer again or people will think I,m your "answers pet". Ahh who cares, pick me! Pick me!
583264
You should worry.  You are now an accessory.  Your coworker has just pulled you down with him.  He is not your friend.
1078983
Try ignoring him. Anything you do to irritate him may reflect poorly on you which is what you're trying to avoid. Also, keep a journal of incidents which can be considered harassment and go to your supervisor with more information to file a formal complaint if his actions continue. Good luck!
520516
Fight back and show that they are not getting to you. You are stronger than they are...they are obviously feeling threatened by your abilities. Good luck. You show em whos boss!!!
214039
I have alot of experience with this and I have learned one important thing....there are one of these people at every single job/workplace.  If you are not his supervisor, do nothing.  It seems the boss likes him so your best bet is to go to work, do your thing, keep to yourself, then go home.
360855
tell boss u have have Anal Glocuma.. you cant see your ass getting out of bed.
787386
Nobody likes it and you can put a stop to it. Here is the deal, people will treat you exactly how you allow them to treat you. That is the top and bottom of it. Let these managers know what you will and Will not tolerate. If something bothers you that they have said or done, let them know in a calm as possible manner exactly how they have made you feel, right at the moment they do it. And, make sure you are looking them directly in the eye. Do not let anyone let you feel belittled. If you can take charge of what you will and will not tolerate, you will earn some well deserved respect. Also remember, everybody has a boss..let your hiring managers know that you know that.
941012
I think she is MORE then that because the woman that hired you shouldn't be winking at you. That is known as sexual harassment. So, go try to find her supervisor and complain or get yourself another job. Good luck.
1043060
It's very common, and I don't think it's wrong, unless you act on it. It might be awkward if you are working with him, but I don't think that you should change your plans just because you're attracted to him, unless you find a better position. There will likely be more bosses and unavailable coworkers in the future that you will find attractive, so if you want to live your life, you might just have to grin and bear it.
441173
If it bothers you, especially the slapping thing, at minimum, make your objections known to him, tell him it must stop now and documant doing so in writing.  Another alternative would be to file a sexual harrasment complaint.  What he is doing is just as wrong as when a heterosexual male does the same thing to a femal employee or co-worker.
163637
Don't go there, That is grounds for a sexual harrassment case waiting to happen.  If you let on that you like him, or if you reported it to others, either one of you could be fired.  Find another job before you even think about telling him you like him.
451592
Who cares? He has a terrible attitude and isn't worth your time of day. However, this is abuse that should not be tolerated in the workplace (thought it often is), and you should go to your compliance officer/human resources liaison immediately. If you want to be nice, tell him to knock it off, grow up and be professional. If he doesn't, then take it to the top.
21757
Ditch him once when he has to make an important presentation to his boss. I have a similar situation in office..there's a guy who steals what I do and presents the same to the top management. Once when I was doing some research he asked enquiring I explained in the same style and taught him a few wrong concepts. He made a presentation and I was also part of it. I asked him a few queries and he looked like a fool in front of the crowd. \nOther was to do it is mark a bcc to the top management