I have a high sex drive and my doesn't.?
446759
no magic, sorry but you can try more aggressive foreplay
768947
dude its normal!U are suppressing a wild beast :p .Just let it go man and try to have some more sex.Try not to think abt girls that much or ul become a "sex freak".Figure out whats the most thing abt a girl that excites u the most and go and ahead and seek it and try some intercourse once in a while and satisfy ur sexual desire.
487771
don't mess with mother nature! it's perfectly natural to have a sex drive and it is BY NO MEANS natural to impede this drive because of some silly social construct. \nyour problem is exactly the same as all those Victorian women had, only that they had it worse since they were being told that they weren't supposed to have a sex drive at all. until Freud came along, that is. and he wouldn't have had a clientele if it hadn't been for women with problems like yours. \nso, let's face it: either give in to your drive or go mad within this next year. \nif you already know your husband-to-be - why not have a word with him about your problem? \nif you've made this promise to someone who is not yourself - rethink the promise. the only person you are responsible to about your sexuality is YOU! \nThis is the 21st century, for f***'s sake!
106102
I hope you will accept a males answer but I do think I have one.  Most folks who have a lack of sex drive isnt because they dont want to have sex its because they aren't properly warmed up to the idea and anticipation of having sex.  Often men forget that their partner needs time to warm up to the idea of having sex.  Have your partner talk to about wanting to have sex subtly in the morning....write you a sexy love email over lunch....then talk about sex a little often times its just getting your mind a sexual state that is the key.  It is very hard for some people in the stresses of life to keep their minds in a sexual state.
569861
Vitamins will not increase your sex drive.\n\nNor will those over-the-counter sex stimulants, like Horny Goat Weed, All-Nite Long . . . Don't buy them, they are all scams. \n\nHave you had any serious injuries or surgeries? These can affect your sex drive.\n\nLately, have you been depressed over some other thing going on in your life? Job woes, family problems, marital issues. . . ?\n\nIf you can't visit a doctor, then here is some advice:\n\nfind a way to relieve stress. Exercise is the number one means of reducing stress and increasing your sex drive. This doesn't have to be hardcore exercise, but a brisk 30 min walk everyday, or playing touch football or a pick up game of basketball. If you can make it to the gym, do some treadmill, elliptical running, and stationary cycling.\n\nNext is nutrition. Fried and high-fat foods reduce sex drive. Fresh fruits and vegetables reinvigorate you. If you can eat some whole grains, like brown rice or 12-grain bread, then the B-Complex that is included in those grain products will stimulate your central nervous system. Give it a go.\n\nThis is not an overnight cure. Give yourself some time to honestly question why your sex drive is reduced. Do try the above activities and if your sex drive is not improved after a few months, then a visit to your doctor is in order.
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Some people just have lower libidos than others, I guess there could be something wrong with you medically speaking but you seem normal enough to me!  Has it always been unenjoyable or is this something that's more of a recent problem?  \n\np.s.   TAKE CARE OF YOUR WILD-THING, and don't let those ugly old men sneak up and slip you the tongue.
1185116
Feel lucky you have such a great sex drive! As long as you are not participating in unhealthy behaviors like having multiple partners without condoms and your masturbation and sex drive is not interfiering in your day to day life, you have nothing to worry about!  Your one of the lucky few!!! I've had an abnormally high sex drive like you since I was 16 and still have it and my husbands friends and my friends husbands are always very envious of our relationship. Many many women loose their sex drive as they get older!
1185650
It sounds like you have a lot going on inside of your head.  Financial and emotional issues, work issues, family issues = stress, which can really impact your sexual desires.  Have you tried talking to a counselor/therapist?  \n\nDon't worry about your lack of desire; that will be fixed when you fix whatever's going on in your life that you don't like.
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The reason for the intense sexual feeling is because of the increased blood flow. "they" say people who need to boost their sex drive should work out.  It gets blood flowing, your heart pumping and gives you more energy.\n\nFor the satisfying part...I'd say find a girlfriend.
748036
Maybe it's tiring him out by wanting it that much. Different people have different sex drive levels. Stop doing it so much? Or try asking him why.\n\nAnd yes, it is normal. :)
1098760
Maybe she is having a low sex drive right now and do you spice things up in the bedroom and make things exciting for her???? Talk to her and see why she feels this way and also suggest to her maybe seeing a doctor or sex therapist. She could be having affairs too!
895474
Stress is the #1 cause of this...  The best way to help is to exercise and maintain a healthy diet, and make sure you are getting plenty of sleep.  They say you should force yourself to have sex as much as possible, since the more you have it the more you want it...you somewhat have to retrain your brain!
84204
This is a good question.  My husband would love to know the same thing.  Currently my sex drive is low because of menapause.  I'm going through it very early.  Usually a bottle of wine and somd actual romance will help.  You do know what I mean when I say romance.  Dinner without the kids, rose pettels on the bed,going out on a date with eachother, slow dancing in the livingroom.  These little things open opportunity for flirting.  Thus increasing the want for sex.  b4 menopause I worked sooo much.  My joib made us do a mandatory 15 hrs overtime per week and it took me 2 hours each way to get there.  Then once home still had to check homework cook dinner make sure the house was in order.  I was constantly going and you have the nerve to want what?  Switch roles for a day. see how you feel..  or. start helping around the house if that is the ccase.  but remember  flirting.
1029762
there are sooo many things to do to increase your sexual drive... if that's the question... \n\ngo to a sex shop. they have fun games (not necessarily vibrators), and lotions... and things that tast good, and warm up that you can put on her body... find out what her needs are, or what she wants that you dont do for some reason... try something new... and make her body feel like the sexiest and beautifullest body you have ever seen or touched.
463076
You must have a low sex drive.  I think about it almost every minute of the day.  It drives me crazy, and is most likely because our job as humans is to reproduce and create more of us.
529202
Sorry but you cant increase her sex drive.   What you can do is, encourage her to want you more often.   Heres a few suggestions.\n1) Set the mood.  Maybe cook her a meal, light some candles etc\n2) Give her a sensual massage (massage everything)\n3) Let her know how beautiful you think she is.\n4) Be sensitive to her needs, as well as your own. \n5) Surprize her.   May a picnic, a movie,etc.   Just something you know she will love, and you wouldnt normally do.\n\nI hope these help.   Good luck
84606
I've noticed that my husband also orgasms quicker when we don't have sex frequently. I suppose a part of it is the underlying excitement in your mind. I find sex to be better and more exciting when it's not a daily thing, perhaps that's why.