Should I stay with the man who loves me or leave and wait for the one I love?
447656
Not bad but selfish.  You cannot make yourself feel passion but you can make yourself feel intimacy and committment.  If you are unwilling to do that then let your husband go for his sake, not yours.
1176603
you just need to follow your heart which guy do you have more feelings for and which one treats you the way you want to be treated? ? no one on here can make that choice for you. you just need to decide the one your happiest with and go with it
406917
do u love someone new or who u have known for a while? who is nicer and more affectionate?? just follow your heart.. .. do u really want to end it with ur husbband??way down deep u may miss him and love him more.
316734
well all u got to do is follow ur heart. if u really love him and he loves you then yeah u should. just think of who is at the end of the love chain. is it him, or someone else.
1133796
If you are not sure if he love you, ask him if he love you its ok, but if he doesnt all you have to do is move on with your life. no use stuck with someone that dont love you
366766
This is a very difficult situation especially if you still love the man.  The best advice I can give you is to make a psychological and personal decision as soon as possible. I don't know your exact situation, but if you still love this person and if he loves you, and you think there may be a chance to work things out, then you should try to do so by all means.  BUT, you need to think of this very seriously, because it sounds to me that your relationship with him may be something in the past. If this is the case, you MUST learn to get over him. This is very important, for your sake.  This is very difficult (I know from experience), and it can hurt to see the one you love with someone else. But if it is not going to work, you need to learn to move on and allow yourself to forget about him.  You need to realize that this isn't easy, and it will take time.  But if you keep thinking about him as a lover, you will always be tormented inside.  Go out, meet new people, get your mind off of him and with time I assure you that life will go on, and you will find happiness again. Good luck!
1137813
I would wait until you no longer feel scared..if you love him and he loves you then you can wait...whats the rush?
643675
Stay with him.  Give him  some time, if in 6 months, you still feel this way, then leave him.
789087
The grass is always greener...  IMO, stick with your current boyfriend and forget about the first one. Or, stay single. Perhaps you aren't ready for a commitment with either yet if you are having difficulties deciding between them.  Goodluck with whatever you decide to do. :-)
310211
well, give the guy some time, may be hadn't realized yet , that u love him.well, u can't stop lovin' a person just like that,even if u leave him, u'll atleast once in  a while think of him.have patience. if u truely love him ,  no matter how much  ever late he is , u'll wait.but if the relationship isn't workin' , better to part .have trust in ur relationship.if u trust him, relax  nicely., there's no problem at all.\nor it might lead to a misunderstandin'.sum times it either takes   a person too long to realize or just takes a minute to realize sumthin'. so have patience.i suggest u better have a chat with  him to clear the  mess, so that u don't regret ur decision later.gud luck !
693350
yea, ok, stay with him, maybe, just maybe, one of these days in a fairy tale land far away he will finally wake up and come around.\n\nlast thing i remember about love was that you cared for a person and didn't let them down.\n\nif you are content with being in a relationship with a guy who cares more about his money than you and your KIDS, then so be it, i don't know what to say except hang in there i guess, eventually he should come around
1058857
stick with the one you like more and let the other go. dont hold onto someone when he could be finding someone who will care for him more
1058388
Why should you wait?  He is not waiting, I am sure.  Give him all the space he needs and move on.  You don't need this kind of turmoil.
406677
You should follow your heart. Date both for now... time will tell which one you are supposed to be with.
264752
No leave him. He's not worth it.\nIf he left you then he didn't care about you. \nHe still doesn't care about you.\nLeave him there are plenty of other guys you can go out with who will not cheat on you. You just have to wait.\nPray to god for a man or be independent
35607
You don't know.  It's a decision your going to have to make.  You know him.  Is it worth the wait?  You will make good choices and bad choices in life.  But make sure you make the choices and don't let someone else make it for you.  GL
930708
I am in a similar situation...dating 5 years, live 3 hours away and just moved back home after living with him for about a year. I know the feeling to miss the other person when you are at home far away but also miss home when you are with him. \nIts a hard decision to make, but I think it is most important to do what makes you happy and take care of yourself. Having your own life and career are great things, and if you are set on staying where you are, it will be up to him to decide where he wants to be. I hope things work out for you no matter what happens.