What do you girls look in a man?
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umm...as a girl i can tell you that we look for...a connection with someone...someone we think that understand us and that we can understand...as far as looks, personality, wit, humor, confidence, we all have different views...one might think he is confident, yet another might think he is arrogant...my point...be urself...this gonna sound gay...but SHINE
195393
depends on wether you mean "boys" or men. i think that its truly not as superficial as the other answers make it out to be. i look for someone that is fun to be around, trustworthy, smart (smart is sexy), clever, a good sense of humor, chic, and beautiful. in the order listed.
423582
Personality and looks.
488560
it all depends on the guy. \ndifferent guys have different preferences, fetishes, etc.\nbut for me, hair, eyes, then the body.
1122249
I look for how a guy acts. His personality. I mean looks are a definite plus, but thats not what matters all the time... good luck...
566481
when i was younger i only looked at a guys appearance...but now that iam 18 i realized that looks doesnt count anymore! my bf has to hav these things: 1) he has to be confident 2) he has to be honest 3)just be himself at all times 4) he has to be able to make me smile when i feel sad 5) adventurous 6) has to make me feel comfortable 7) smoking is a BIG NOO!! 8) respect people around him 9) a cute smile 10) if he plays guitar...a big YES!!\nHope u find the answer you are lookin for;-)
1169256
Humor - a guy has to make me laugh, and be able to laugh at himself, or at least not take himself too seriously.  My boyfriend is really funny, and everywhere we go, he can make people laugh...even angry grocery store clerks.  Intelligence is equally important - including overall knowledge of what's going on in the world, politics, and also problem solving skills, objectivity.  Caring about other people is also a big one - compassion and eagerness to help others by volunteering or just helping someone with directions.  And with all of this, he's got to be "manly" - as stereotypical as that sounds, I like a guy that isn't too emotional, is physically strong, knows how to fix stuff around the house, and helps me do things that are easier for him - like carry heavy luggage, etc... \n\nI just realized that I've described my boyfriend perfectly...so I'm suddenly very happy to realize what I have!  Thanks for asking!
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Humor. Girls love guys who can make them laugh. Being a gentleman doesn't hurt (open doors, give them your jacket when their cold, etc). I think most girls like the clean look...but I prefer the unshaven look...\n\nI don't think I have the same likes as most women... I like the sleazy guy who'll put his hands all over me in public - only if we're together in a monogamous relationship though, I'm not a skanky ho.
461306
Eyes and smile mainly for looks. Intellectually, I really like it when girls are smart and witty, to me a quiet intelligence is very appealing. I also like it when girls have a sense of morals and honesty.
357917
Hmmm...wot do guys like in a gal? It's a li'l tricky question, I must say. Yet, I'll try to answer the best I can manage.\n\nI think, whenever a guy looks at a gal, the first thing he's gonna notice are her body, her clothes and probably the way she carries herself. And then again, if those 1st impressions pique the guy's interests, he might go up and talk. In that case, what matters, what  personally feel, is the substance in her words, the way she talks, her choice of words, how intellectual she is...and yeah, definitely how funny she is.\n\nNow, what a guy might like in a gal are obviously dependent on himself and that the criteria are definitely subjective. I think u shall just need to look out for the right signs and decipher them to realize what your guy likes about you and improvise on them!!
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Honestly. A pretty girl. Most guys won't admit it, they'll say oh i love a great personality but guys really lke if you put effort into what you look like. Even if you're not beautiful all they want to see is that you care about what you look like. Also they like a girl they can relate to, show them you care about some of the things they do, it's hard to start or keep a relationship going if you guys have nothing to talk about.
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of course u notice looks first ... then personality ..  if u think about it .... if the guy looks like frankenstien ..has 1 damaged eye.. but his personality is perfect ... come on ... u are not goin to date him ..or think twice about him
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Hi AJ,\n\nThe most important things in any long term relationship are honesty, kindness, a good sense of humor and a willingness to be there during the good times as well as the bad.  That said, the first thing that attracts me to a guy is his smile and the way he carries himself, with confidence but not too cocky or over the top.  A guy who is clean, dressed appropriately and who has a pleasant demeanor and makes the first move conversationally will get my attention and that of most ladies out there.\n\nBTW: Any woman who would value a man for his wallet alone is in the same league as a man who values a woman solely for her looks, both types are players and ultimately bad news.\n\nGood luck and best wishes from bookyone :)
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First thing I notice: clothing. what you wear says a lot about who you are. generally I look for clean clothes, comfortable, perhaps buttoned shirt or polo. Jeans and their fit say a lot about a person. a person who wears jeans that expose their posterior and most of their boxers says "I'm a faux gangster tryin' to live tha thug lifestyle before mommy comes and picks me up. I have no ambition and fewer prospects." (I should mention that I'm in my early 20's, and this is still the impression I get about guys around my age) a guy who has slightly baggy pants, but shows no a** tells me "I'm relaxed and easy going overall. I'm not too conservative, but I'm decent". a well dressed man in slacks and a nice shirt says "I'm corporate. I make money and I'm doing well for myself". guys who tuck in their shirts and wear tight jeans with big belts say "I'm a dude, and I don't take S**t from women" (basically, it appears they have a stick shoved in their rectum... and who wants to date that?) guys in dirty or seriously ripped clothing says "I don't care about me, and I'll care less about you". and guys in all black with black hair and black painted nails scream "I want to suck your blood and make love to your corpse". Run!\n\nThe next thing is build. since I'm a bigger woman, a man with a small frame is not a good suit for me. I'll break them in half before anything good gets going! then again, huge muscles are kind of creepy, in my opinion. a medium build of medium height is sufficient. weight doesn't really bother me all that much. it's preferrable to be shorter than the guy, but I'd hate to be accused of being sizist. you just don't know who's a good guy until you look.\n\nNext I look at what they are doing. are they flirting with everyone? not really a good choice. their attention is easily divided. are they having a good conversation? that could be interesting. are they looking around? they're interested in what's going on, and so might be easier to approach. are they approaching me? sure, I'll give you the time of day. are they being infantile? Sorry, I'm not a pedophile. I want to be with a man! there are many more situations that can make me assess things in all kinds of ways. but the number one rule: if they are with another woman, HANDS OFF! you automatically assume he is interested in her, and poaching is not cool.\n\nThe last thing to scope is the face. look at the eyes. You really can see a lot about a person in their eyes. knitted eyebrows, small, hard eyes, round, open eyes, laugh lines, etc. all the little details in that area give clues about who you are talking to. the mouth: is it tightly set? is it smiling? scowling? laughing? frowning? going up to a moody guy is not my idea of fun.\n\nOther than that, it's a free-for-all. That's just the preliminary 2 second staredown that I give. for more permanent situations, I'd have to write a book, which I don't think many people would want to read. hope that answers your question!
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when i first meet a guy i always see these first...\n\n1) height\n2) outfit\n3) the way he stands\n4) body type\n5) smile\n6) hair\n\nthats just me personally but usually the eye gets the first impression. just remember that body language is everything. the way you stand or shake someons hand says a lot. make sure that you stand up straight, your head is up, and your hands are NOT in your pocket. i wish you the best of luck!!! im only 15 and i might be young but i know a thing or two. good luck!!!
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I myself look for a girl that is almost always happy and smiling. I also look for looks that are at least decent and up. Most important though, is their smile.
350701
The main thing I look for in a guy is a good sense of humour. He has to make me laugh. I really don't care about looks. I like a guy who can laugh at himself and make me laugh.