i'm 14. I like a girl but i'm too scared to talk to her. What should i do?
440253
Aww, that's so cute! No really though, just go up to her and talk about school...you know an assignment, an annoying teacher, or something to break the ice. Oh! I've heard this cheesy, but pretty funny (I thought) line that you could try using:\n\nYou: Hey~ do you know how much a polar bear weighs?\nHer: Um, no...\nYou: Enough to break the ice--Hi, I'm ____\n\nI thought it was lame, but it made me smile when a guy used it on me (because I've really never heard that one before). Plus you're 14, so I'm assuming she is about your age too. You can try it if you want :)\n\nHave a nice day and good luck!
286456
you need to learn more about yourself first, before you can connect up with someone else.  if you are scared, there is a reason.  talk with someone, write your feelings out, see if you can figure out why you are scared.   you are valuable, don't allow yourself to be pressured into anything you don't wish to do.
30753
Forget your fear and just try it, \nact normal, and be yourself... try to be friendly\nand you'll be fine :)
955747
Talk to her or some other person you trust about it. It depends on the person for what you should do. If you think that the girl you like would talk about it with you, I'd recommend talking to her rather than to another person you trust.
433111
I kind of have the same prob, but with asking this guy out. i don't know what to do, i need to know because i heard he liked me and that he is too scared to ask me out. and i was wondering if it's weird if a girl asks a guy out or not. well, good luck! sorry i was no help! :(
377185
JUST WHAT YOU SAID...CASUALLY AND CALMLY EXPRESS YOUR FEELING TO HER AND SEE HER RESPONSE. YOU NEVER KNOW, SHE MIGHT BE LIKING YOU TOO.........IF SHE GETS SCARED OFF, IT WASN'T MEANT TO BE AND YOU HAVE YOUR ANSWER.
460048
Get up the courage. Tell her you like her and if she would like to go out some time. Then take her some place nice where you can talk, not to the movies. Good luck.
736689
Just have a simple conversation with her. While talking make your eyes as compatonate as posible. After you're done, smile at her and just walk away. You're telling her that you like her but also telling her that you're not afraid to make a move.
97832
Just ask her.  Girls aren't a mystery unless you let them be.  Trust me, if I'd known that when I was about 14, I'd have gotten laid a lot more in highschool.  Try finding out something she likes, talk to her about it for a little bit, then ask her to go out somewhere/time.  If it doesn't work, try it with another girl, and another, and another until it does.  You'll get nowhere if you don't try.
379560
here`s the thing. you probably are a young person or fairly young. there is no reason not to talk to her. i was like you and felt nervous around girls i liked and not around other girls. i have found out as i get older that you should go talk to any girl that intersts you. the only thing they can say is that they are not interested and then you move on to the next one. its not the end of the world and knowing they are not interested is better than not knowing forever... good luck i hope this helped...
976288
I AM NOT SURPRISE TO HEAR A 14 YEAR old girl talk like that. she is still young and full of dreams. She is not ready for a special relationship and so are you. What is happening in you is "puppy love". What you can do now is to just meet her in a friendship level. Don't rush. Just enjoy each other's frienship and not thinking about "being on".\n\nConcentrate in your studies and make friends with other girls. You don't even have to think is she made the wrong decision or not. \n\nALL THE BEST.
845078
Hey, don't sell yourself short!  Just the way you explained your situation was wonderful.  You knew what to say, your charm and energy comes through, you expressed your feelings very well, and it was as "convesational" as posted question can be.\n\nI know it can be scarier to talk to girls without your friends around, but you know what?  The girls aren't all that sure of themselves either!\n\nDon't necessarily approach someone for a conversation thinking of it as a "date conversation" - just be yourself and start talking about whatever, and as the conversation progresses you can always say you would really like to continue and would she like to go out sometime.  Be casual and don't sweat the small stuff.  Remember, she's probably as nervous as you are!  You already are the kind and funny guy who can speak up and talk to girls for dates.  Sometimes we keep ourselves from doing something simply because we're nervous about it.  Life's too short for that, and I can guarantee you that the girls are wondering what they can do to get you to ask them out!  Just relax, be yourself and you've got it made.
323664
Try to get into a conversation with the girl you like and if she likes you she will try to keep talking to you. Otherwise see where she hangs out or what she likes and end up doing the same thing ;-) Dude you just have to keep trying.
100393
It sounds like you are shy. Once you get to know the girl, it will get easier.
1178197
I assume you are pretty young.\n\nFirst, don't worry about being shy with girls.  Stay friends with the one you mention but don't feel that has to be a romantic relationship.  That friendship should help you overcome your shyness, and--if her status changes later on--you might be in a good position to build a more romantic relationship.\n\nDon't worry about the one that blew you off.\n\nMany girls are shy with guys.  There isn't that much to either guys or girls to be shy about.  Friendship can always work.  Don't ask for more unless you're sure.
179533
stop being shy dude\ni was and i neva got a girl\nbut if i were u give it a shot
309400
i had this same problem a few weeks ago. you just need to talk to her calmly and normaly. its just like having a conversation with anyone else. girls are people too. you just need to talk to her and be calm and cool.