Is it a bad thing to be sociably unacceptable?
447050
Socially unacceptable is relative! If you really care, change schools, or just don't care what they think. Everyone is different- why would you want to be another barbie clone? You are cool the way you are.
1028637
Is it wrong to do a smaller bad-thing, when others are doing what in your mind is the worst bad-thing?\n\nDo you want an answer that says it is less wrong to poke holes in your body to make yourself feel beatiful and to verbally abuse people, than to take anothers life?\n\nAre you trying to draw lines between far-away things in order to blur your perception of reality?
486676
This, of course, is one of those nasty things you think about but never do. It really depends on the person. Generally, whatever would humiliate them the most or cause their reputation to change for the worse.
626458
Yes, but just try to avoid them until they calm down. If they have any decency at all they'll apologise to you later. On a more serious note, if they are like that then they shouldn't be in the job role they're in. This is unprofessional and certainly doesn't make you feel that they are approachable. I hope I am not like that to my lot.
144546
No.  If you don't have something nice to say, you should keep it to yourself and mind your own business.\nThe Bible says when we die we will have to give account for every idle word we say. How ashamed will we be at some of our careless words and gossip?
274580
Good, when your priorities are right, but bad when it can hurt others.
86724
you have a bad attitude if other people just plan don't like it ...  don't worry about "them" your attitude is most likly just fine
368089
Putting ones elbows on the table demonstrates low class and self disrespect. However if you wish to be rude and selfish go for it.
1082065
Take stuff on here "with a grain of salt" as we say where I live ... some people will be rude and others will get upset when they are rude ... it is just Q and A from total strangers ... not exactly of earth shaking importance in the overall scheme of things ... don't let it get to you ...
628345
It's okay if you are socially friendly with each other, but buddy, buddy sounds like you are screwing him.  Don't be a sl*t and back off.
79439
It depends on the person. If you don't know them it's probably not a good idea, they might be offended.
154291
If your bad reputation has spawned from something that puts a damper on your life, then maybe it should be removed, bad reputations usually have some truth to it.However if your rep has been created from something that should not be chastised, be your self and those who doesn't accept you for you don't deserve to be your friend anyway. I know this is easier said than done but pretending to be some one you are not will make you very depressed and lonely.Just be truthful!
832586
I think it is totally unacceptable but at the same time I'm not in your situation.  At the end of the day you are still going to be your own person and make your own decisions.  If you do decide to carry it out then I wish you the best of luck and I really hope it doesn't blow up in your face.\n\nGood luck!!!
309178
It doesn't make you "bad." It separates you from the pack and it's a reflection of your personality. People who respect and value you will accept you for who you are.
983796
It isn't unacceptable. Some people have issues, that's all. You will have to decide which relationship is more important and which one you want in your life and work accordingly.
1102666
On the contrary you are a very nice sensitive person. Fearing confrontation is not a bad thing, but be sure not to clam up when people are being nice to you.
599752
Sweetie, there is nothing wrong with being a nice person. Nothing at all. And you can still get what you need/want by being a nice person. Sometimes though, you have to assert yourself. That doesn't mean being a B*tch. That means the next time you go to check into work, and someone butts in front of you, or the person checking you in lets someone get ahead of you, you simply step up and say firmly and politely "So sorry, but I was here first". Being assertive and getting what you need is not being mean. Sounds like you almost have a case of being too nice. Don't let people push you around. Unfortunately some people percieve kindness as weakness...Prove them wrong.