What do girls think about dating sober guys?
443655
Alot of guys don't drink for many reasons, I don't because I want to stay in shape. You don't have to get into your life history, in fact I would not, unless she asks.
295932
Did u see the movie hitch?????  I am dating a guy right now who becomes more and more attractive to me outwardly than he would be to most.  He was a friend that was always there for me, always a great communicator and never ever once found a flaw to bring me down.  He is now my boyfriend.  I get the occasional what does she see in him, and if they only knew what a kind person he was I would be fighting them off daily.  You are probably not bad looking just lacking confidence.  Stay true to who you are inside, and you will have a woman that truely loves you.  Quit looking at outward appearance when it comes to women.
182811
Absolutely! If there's a spark, what's the harm in dating. I mean, it's nice to know the person isn't a psycho, but assuming they didn't appear to be when you met them, going out after that would be fine. Attraction is key in the long run so if it starts out that way, it at least has potential.
72369
Haha!  It's good to be back - computer was down for a few days.  Well.. I'm not a guy, (obviously), but unless things go REALLY well on a date it's a turn-off when the guy is all over you.  You've got to conquer the gettin-to-know-you before you jump on that.  So if it's a REALLY good date then you did get to know each other and it's okay to fall into that animal instinct.  If you're like 99% of the guys out there then maybe it is a good idea to relieve your stress before the date.  You may not get the urge to, er, be selfish on the date, and that will tell the girl that you respect her.  Also - it might give that first impression that you're a laid back bad-a*s type that most of the ladies can't resist.  So yeah - I think it is a good idea!  HA!
619236
It depends on their confidence level.  I've dated a heavy guy who was very confident in himself, he didn't have that "hang dog" attitude about him. He was carefree and was self consious when we went out. But I also dated a heavy guy who was the opposite.  He would refuse to dance with me when we went out because I guess he thought people would look and laugh at him.  We broke up.  Heaviness I can deal with, low self esteem and self loathing I can't.
329452
I agree with the cute ghosty. Guys need you to be obvious. They don't do subtle. Sometimes you have to be obvious many times before they get it.
307879
as long as she's going home with the b.f. what's the problem?\n\ntalk about it when she's sober and decide together how many drinks each will have. \nwho knows, maybe there is an underlaying problem she might discover. he needs to be supportive and not walk away if this is the case.(what comes around goes around)
771533
If she slep with him the first night at the bar , he might be thinking she's (easy) and he can get it any time he wants.If he seem's interested one minute and not the next, that's just the way guy's are!It's like there trying to make (Themselv's)beleave they don't need anyone.If she likes this guy she should keep seeing him,but dont make herself  look too available.Dont sleep with him for a wile,have fun doing other things together.Alot of guys are dogs, but the goodguys want a respectable girl.Show him she is!
43863
Yeah He is aveilable , But He may not be interested In a girl who demands so many qualifications before starting a relationship.\n\nSo They prefer to be single, or They are already taken.\n\nIf you find one , GOod Luck, But then he isnt smart enough to stay away form you.
466662
wel im the honest guy but ther shy guy also .what i lkke is a girl who likes long relationships who hasnt soiled her virginity nice talkative. great persnoality. looks good. doesnt cover herslef in makeup. boobs are just an extra to me and ass i could care less about if u want to talk im shy_guy0123@yahoo.com
909300
you can only try so much before you gotta say to yourself this is her problem(s).  it is hard to see a friend get involved with that kind of shtuff.  it's hard to watch a friend open herself up to even greater potential problems especially under the influence of pot or booze.  gotta pay for it somehow.  it does affect the way you make decisions.  and guys dont really think straight when there is a drunk/high chick passed out somewhere.  try to get her straight before some bad shIt can happen.
595189
I believe in second chances so if I were you then I would casually date him for a couple months, maybe like once a week and just see if he has changed. Don't commit yourself to him and don't let him suck you in. Be sure to make yourself happy, like going out with your friends some nights. If you spend all your time with him your going to get blinded. Who knows, maybe someone else will come along and you will suddenly no longer want this guys attention. But make sure that he knows your not committed and your an independent woman.
886857
Coming from a mans point of view, if he's really into you and respects you it won't matter. also he may be glad you are inexperienced as you wouldn't know if he was any good or not!
978369
i dated a guy for a little while who was great at first, really complimentary and crazy about me, and suddenly this started to get a bit stifling so i dumped him, he started to drink heavily and annoy my friends about how he was ever supposed to get over me, honestly he turned into such a stalker. (i only went out with him four times!)\n\n1)i felt dumb for ever thinking that a guy who is technically "perfect" could be the one for me! guys have to have a little bit of a b*st*rd in them to keep it interesting! \n\n2)every time i see him or think of him i feel physically ill and get the shivers.\n\n3)i do my best not to think about it, but it has forever ruined songs like sting's "i'll be watching you" cos they sound like anthems for stalkers, when boys who think they're real romantic by fighting for our affection can't get the hint!!!
120767
That sounds pretty on the money to me. A sincere guy is easy to read. What they say and do reflects how they feel (again if the guy is sincere). Girls, however, are more complex - filled with doubt, questions, and uncertainty you know that they are thinking, and not always about what they are showing.
180933
No, I wouldn't go on the show Elimidate.  It is implied that you date whoever the winner is.  I wouldn't compete against other men for a woman because you can't be yourself around her.  She is also not necessarily the woman I would want to be with anyway.  I also wouldn't like a bunch of women competing over me.  Maybe some people would think of that as a fantasy.  If you think about it though, they are acting immature to try to be picked as the one you want.  However, why would I want to pick a woman who is immature?  Isn't that going to have a negative effect on the relationship?  If it's just to sleep with her and not have a serious relationship with her, then why do it at all?  I could just as easily find someone that shallow who just wants to sleep with me at a bar.  I know this is a long answer, but I don't look for immaturity as one of the good qualities in a woman.  So, no I wouldn't go on elimidate.
835156
It sounds like he does like you but is to into drinking to slow down and carry on a relationship. If you feel like you can put up with it when you get in a relationship then talk to him but if he has trust issues and you get in a relationship he probably wont like you getting upset about his drikning.