hai how to reduce inferiority complex give me the best approach?
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Desiderata\n\nGo placidly amid the noise and haste,\nand remember what peace there may be in silence.\nAs far as possible without surrender\nbe on good terms with all persons.\nSpeak your truth quietly and clearly;\nand listen to others,\neven the dull and the ignorant;\nthey too have their story.\n\nAvoid loud and aggressive persons,\nthey are vexations to the spirit.\nIf you compare yourself with others,\nyou may become vain and bitter;\nfor always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.\nEnjoy your achievements as well as your plans.\n\nKeep interested in your own career, however humble;\nit is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.\nExercise caution in your business affairs;\nfor the world is full of trickery.\nBut let this not blind you to what virtue there is;\nmany persons strive for high ideals;\nand everywhere life is full of heroism.\n\nBe yourself.\nEspecially, do not feign affection.\nNeither be cynical about love;\nfor in the face of all aridity and disenchantment\nit is as perennial as the grass.\n\nTake kindly the counsel of the years,\ngracefully surrendering the things of youth.\nNurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.\nBut do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.\nMany fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.\nBeyond a wholesome discipline,\nbe gentle with yourself.\n\nYou are a child of the universe,\nno less than the trees and the stars;\nyou have a right to be here.\nAnd whether or not it is clear to you,\nno doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.\n\nTherefore be at peace with God,\nwhatever you conceive Him to be,\nand whatever your labors and aspirations,\nin the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul.\n\nWith all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,\nit is still a beautiful world.\nBe cheerful.\nStrive to be happy.\n\nMax Ehrmann, Desiderata, Copyright 1952.
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hey just be confident and outgoing if u stay quiet n dont talk to ne body then ur just going to feel worse n idk wht ur situation is but take some advice from some one with the same feelings n stay positive n stop thinking of ur self as a loser
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Build up self confidence by always believing in your self. Laugh at your self when you know you have made some stupid mistakes. Act a little more slowly in carrying out any activity. People will definitely see a different you. They may even rate you a genius. Good luck.
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1 - Start having better communication with your parents... guardians... grandparents... whoever...\n2 - Internet... library... DOCTOR! all of these are good sources for information.\n3 - Don't compare yourself to anyone else... you are you... not them.
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Don't worry , u are going just right. The more people feel jealous of u and the more they talk about u, it indicates that u make them feel inferior and that's because u are superior to them. In this world of 6.5 billion people even if you are reasonably good looking and intelligent, there would be at least 3-4 billion people inferior to u and they all will have some opinion about you ( mostly negative) so one has to live with it if one wants to progress in life. Be immune to such duds
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A girl still would not find you attractive if you take steroids.  It also won't help your self-esteem because you would have taken an easy way out to try to feel better about yourself - thus, no reason to respect yourself.  The best way to get over your low self-esteem is to work hard, exercise & eat right so you can get in shape.  If you honestly work at it you'll know that you've accomplished something and you can be proud of yourself for it.  Then you can think to yourself, "If I can do this, I can do [insert anything here] too."  Good luck!
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Weakness is all in your head. Become more self confident, and you will be a stronger person.
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A tried and tested technique to improving self-confidence is as follows:\n\nLook in the mirror every morning and tel yourself you are beutiful, you are clever and you can achieve anything.\n\nLook in the mirror every night before bed and tell yourself that you have done your best today in everything you do and tomorrow you will do better.\n\nDo one thing each day that scares you.\n\nBe with friends that value you for who you are and remember you are a human being and as such you are special.\n\nYour family loves and values you and if you smile the world smiles with you.
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boy i dont know why u have low self esteem!?\nur not ugly! and yes people have different taste but ur not ugly so dont get those things confused.\ni think the only thing thats keeping u down is ur lack of boldness.\ndont be scared to ask a girl out. \ni guess u first have to feel good about urself so that vibe goes out and then others follow.\nits all about the vibe u send out!\nso try to feel better about ur self!\ndont hide behind ur hair or glasses\nlook up\nand proud!\nand i bet in a while once it comes  natural youll get the courage to ask a girl...if once u dont succed....then try again!\nno one person is good enough to give up after them!\nremeber that!\n\nwell hope i helped\nChau\nand feel better ok dear!
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Treat others how you'd like to be treated. Everyone is human. Everyone has feelings (cliche) but it's true. If you're nicer to others you'll feel better within yourself. Obviously being nasty to others won't have a positive impact on you.  \n\nHaving more respect for others will allow you and others to have more respect for yourself. Everyone is on this earth for a reason (an unknown one at that). Life is hard enough as it is without people being twats to each other, that's commonly human nature though. At the end of the day, it's only you and your conscience that will enable you to be a nicer person to others. You just need to be more considerate to others, even if they aren't considerate back, you can rest knowing you've done the right thing. Directly that person may not appreciate it, but you'll notice others will (and they will)\n\nI hope this has helped.
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Be consistent.\nWe all are unique with very unique qualities.\nDiscovering these qualities & living in & with them (in the positive way) would in the long run impress others.\nAll the best.
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Be professional and mature and remember to think as the higher person because the person who is making fun of you is obviously extremely low and you don't need to stoop to their level.  Just tell them you do not appriciate what they are doing and walk away from it.  It really makes you look like much of a stronger person.
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No! I have tried enzyte all it does is make you $50 poorer so like the gals said just be happy with what you have and train yourself to be better in other ways... What's the point of having a big c0ck and having a bad personality.
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sorry to hear that, just realize that EVERYBODY has these problems, they just hide it in different ways.  you may not believe this at first, and it sounds like one of those things sympathetic people say to give insecure people a boost, but once you get over this you will see. e.g. ask someone old and wise if donald trump possibly has insecurity problems...'dude probly has a 2 incher for all we know!\n\nnow, to solve the problem at hand: work on being good at something. pick something that will be useful for you in the future and become good at it. nothing wins like winning, capice? hang out with someone from another country, learn their language. try not to focus so much on "am i adequate?", just go and do something that will be INARGUABLY SUCCESSFUL - in other words, next time your insecure side tells you that you suck it will be forced to face the hard facts that you in fact kick a*s at something. eventually your condition will go away, but it won't if all you do is brood over how you suck. don't waste your time, there is too much cool sh*t out there in life to go see!
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Stay strong, Hold your head up high and go for it. Unfortanatly rude people are everywhere. Just remember to keep the faith and believe. Nobody is better than you.
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firstly say to ur self that u can concentrate well ,then im sure u will do the best!!!have confidence in urself.
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love yourself as you are. cherish your uniqueness. no one will pay any attention to you if you dont see your true nature. dont be obssessed with people, just relax and respect yourself.