should it bother you that you had a great talk with your husband??
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He just wants to be short and sweet with the answers... its good that he's a great listener, most guys don't even have the patience to stay still for minutes... if u really want to know what on his mind, well just ask him... gdluck...
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Well it depends. How long have you know the other half? If you just met the other half then I wouldn't but if you have know him for a while then....I don't want to sound mean to you but sometimes we all have to do things we don't want to do. If this friend was a true friend try to talk to her about it. She should understand. \n\nOn another note.... CONGRADULATIONS! I hope the best for you and your future spouse!
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what about the fact that he cheated on you?\ndoes that bother you at all?/
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The question is do he talk to you about what his exes want? I would ask questions instead of flaring off at times because if he has not shown you any signs that they are still involve it shouldn't be a problem. Do they have children together? If so that could be the conversation. You two should communicate much more than you do so you will feel more comfortable about the visits. I understand the hurt. First you should go to God for answers to your marriage because He made you two and He knows best for you two. God bless you.
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This may sound silly, but my husband can make me laugh in the toughest of times. It may sound like he's being insensitive but he's not. For example, they found a lump in my breast and I had an appointment for a mamogram. When I told my husband how scared and nervous I was he responded with, "If they have to cut off both breasts then we can just get one real big one put in the middle, then take pictures, people would pay to see that:" Sounds corny, but it made me laugh and at that moment a laugh was really needed. I think it's also his way of dealing with things as well. I love my husband so much and I would be lost with out him. He is my best friend and we can talk about anything with each other! Communication and Honesty goes along way in our marriage! When things have been bad, we just didn't give up! We agreed that we're in this thing for the long haul, good and bad!
542123
it sounds like it..just talk to him about whats going on...ur married and i hope everything works out..congrats on the new baby
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I married the perfect guy, but I still feel something for the man I was suposed to marry. I've contact him after 11 yrs and he is still mad at me, besides we have an ocean between us, and I dont want to leave my hubby! wilmary69@yahoo.com
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He may have some feelings of insecurity going with a younger person, so that comment would have bummed him out big time. I don't think you were being insensitive or him being up tight, it sounded like it was said without any thought, but wrapped in the moment of chatting and laughing. Do you know what I mean? I sometimes say some dumb as stuff and then realise I said something that was offensive, but had no intention to.
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I think that you should talk to him and ask him what is bothering him?. How long has he been accusing you of this?. Did something happen lately that made him start acting like that?. How long have you been married?. The first year it the toughest so hang in there and just try to be open and honest with him. communication is very important, i have been married for almost 19 years and i can tell you communication is very important
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My husband and I have two children. It's hard. What we do is several things....sit outside together, have dinner in a public place, walk around the block together, sit with each other on the couch, switch kids with a friend so we don't pay for a babysitter, and we just lay in bed together. We don't have to say anything alot has to do with body langauage and facial expressions. How does your husband treat you? Does he do little things like doing the dishes, make dinner, or open the door for you? The littlest things count not just communication.
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LOL\nYour husband pissed you off or something?
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Nope.  Frankly, I'm the same way.  My gf let me know it bothers her, so, I'm trying to make adjustments.  But, if you keep asking him, it'll just take longer and make him more irritated, maybe to the point where he can't deal with it anymore.  I'd let him know it bothers you, and leave it.  If he's going to change, he'll do it on his own.
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Do you really think you should be on here saying this? Maybe you should be going to talk to your hubby about it and you never know he may feel the same way. How would you feel if he saw this and found out that way before you even talked to him? Think about it.
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Because we (husbands) are basically different life forms. I agree with other anwers that you should talk and communicate more, but remember, what you are saying and what he is hearing are often two very different things (and vice versa). My wife and I find it very helpful to tell the other person what we just heard, i.e. "you are feeling..." "you think I"... more often than not we disocver that we were having two very different expereinces.  I don't know if this is gender related, person related or what, but that is what works for us.  I also think it is great to be with someone you don't completely understand, if I knew everything there was to know about my wife it would boring..
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What does your husband think?
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Speaking as a happily married woman, that has been asked similar questions by longtime friend...my answer is no I did not and would not have answered that question. #1 by answering these types of questions I would be being disrespectful to both my husband and my marriage, and #2 what does it matter what I might do if I weren't married because the fact of the matter is I am happily married and that is all that matters to me. I will also tell you, I am no longer friends with the man that asked these questions of me, because it was obvious that he wanted more than a friendship with me, and I am completely devoted to my husband and found it very rude and disrespectful for a friend that knew how devoted and in love I was to keep bring such a questions up. I think your friend is either flattered by the attention she gets from you, is insecure and needs to feel wanted by all men and is therefore afraid that if she said no then you would quit giving her the attention, she uses the comments and attention you give as a way to cause jealousy or make her husband feel like he's the luckiest man to have her or she is not happy in her marriage...It could also be any combination of the things I have mentioned. however, if she were truly, happily madly in love with her husband and secure in herself and marriage, these naughty conversations you are having with her would not be....
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I think you and hubby need to have an open, honest heart to heart. When he complains about your "cool" behavior tell him, it's easier for you to be more attentive and affectionate when he is treating you with the same loving care. It is possible that he has some under lying problems that he needs to talk about, there may be some changes that he is looking for in the relationship....Just go to him and listen with an open mind. Find out what both of you are missing from the relationship, and make good effort to be sure to do those things...spend some one on one time with each other, doing things you both enjoy, maybe even discover a new hobby together....enjoy loving each other again. We all hit rough patches in our marriages, we just have to work through them.\nGood Luck....you can email me if you need someone to talk to .\n\n\n**** wanted to add after seeing all the cheating answers that yes, they might be a possibility, but I think there would be other signs if that were going on....and This type of behavior doesn't always equal cheating!! Like I said he might just want a little change in the relatioship, or have other problems he needs to work out or talk about.  **** DON'T JUMP TO ANY CONCLUSIONS that could make matters worse, but keep your eyes open. ****