I am a freshman who would love to be different by being mysterious.Any advice?
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Smile all day long. People will wonder what you got they don't, why you're happy when they're just pushin through.
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Be happy with who you are.\n\nCoach
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No just be yourself, a little bit of nervousness is to be expected, most human beings are nervous with change. Even if they do not want to admit to it. However, you will have the opportunity to meet many different people. And it will not be anything like high school with all of the clicks. Make the best of it. Making friends will be easy. Good luck to you and God bless
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do something that no one else does.\n\njust be different; they will pick you.\n\n: )
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Try not to party too much.\nYes, it is possible. I know because I don't remember much of my Freshman year of College...
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I used to be just like you.  I loved it!  Home was my down time.  I always felt that the girl at school was the real me but once I went away to college I discovered that that act I put on at school took too much energy and the quiet side prevailed.  I suspect you are a person of depth and that's a good thing.  Being able to project a personality while you maintain your inner core is a great gift; a great blessing.  Be grateful for it.  These words from Emily Dickinson may help you to appreciate this stage you're in now (because it won't last):\nThe soul selects her own society \nThen shuts the door\nOn her divine majority\nPresent no more.
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Hey, I remember being your age. You shouldn't let people restrain you from who you are. Also, keep in mind that these are the years (I'm sure you've heard this plenty of times) when people change and grow, so keep an open mind on who you want to be. I've changed so much during my 8th grade year, but make good choices cause these specific years will alter your life for better or worse. Who cares what everyone thinks, because in the end, it's you has to live with yourself. Here is my motto that you can use for anything: "Ignorance is bliss, but knowledge is power." Good luck!
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It was a little scary at first, but I got into the swing of things pretty quickly. Your campus will probably have plenty of organizations to join, and that's a good way to meet people. You'll meet upperclassmen who can show you the ropes, and you'll meet other freshmen who'll probably be just as confused as you are. If you don't know something, don't be afraid to ask. Get to know your professors. It's a very fun and exciting time in your life. Enjoy it.
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sounds like you should try to be yourself and not all those things listed....
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Tired of being the shy person in the back of the crowd? Become the center of attention at an easy, personalized pace! \n\nSteps \nBe confident. Tell yourself that you have great qualities, and don't let anybody bring you down! \n\nSet goals for yourself. Focus on small, daily goals, and gradually become more daring. E.g. try to speak at least once every class period. \n\nIntroduce yourself to new people each day. Most people are nice and will be welcoming to your advances. It is also great practice for more daring behavior, such as talking to cute people. \n\nHold close bonds with your friends, they can be there for you when you crack out of the shell! They'll be glad to help. \n\nTry doing stuff you never dreamed you would. For example: Talk to that cute boy in study hall that you thought would never notice you. Wear something very flattering and colorful to show what a fun person you really are! \n\nLaugh often, at your own jokes and those of others. It will help ease any tension you may be feeling. \n\nLie on your bed and take 3 deep breaths. Then visualize a situation where you might be shy. Now in that situation make yourself confident. Do this for as many situations as you can think of. Do this daily. Do this in the morning. \n\nRepeat positive affirmations using I statements. " I am a wonderful person". "I am a good looking person". Do it even if you don't believe it. Do it daily. \n\nMake a list of things that make you feel shy that you want to try and work on. Order them so that those things that cause you the least anxiety are first and those that cause you the most anxiety are last. Once you have a list of 10-15 stressful situations start working through them, one-by-one. The first few "easier" situations will help build your confidence so that you can continue moving to more difficult situations on your list. Don't worry if you have to go backwards on the list sometimes -- take it at your own pace but do make an effort to push yourself. \n\nTips \nThere's nothing wrong with being shy, but there's nothing wrong with being outgoing either! \n\nDon't go overboard, and just be yourself! Life isn't a competition! \n\nShyness is sometimes seen as classy. \n\nDon't be afraid to seek professional help -- group counseling, individual counseling, and therapy can help you along the way. \n\nIf you are intelligent enough to know when to keep your mouth closed, then there is no advantage to being shy. Rid yourself of shyness, you'll thank yourself later. \n\nOften, being shy is a result of feeling inferior to or otherwise "less than" other people. Think about it, this is almost never the case. A positive self-image is the key. \n\nWarnings \nIf you were known for being shy amongst family members, watch out for the harmless teasing. They mean well. But don't let them scare you back into your shell! \n\nSame goes for people at school, if you are still at school. Some may be uncomfortable with you existing outside the categeory they've put you in, in their own minds. Ignore them.
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dont mind but my point of view says no u shouldnt likin someone is different but forgettin ur limit means a lot and even u r so small for that so concentrate on ur future how to make it instead of these things coz u have whole life for these things but this is the time u should study and become somethin. dont do anythin in haste coz haste makes waste
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Be creative... do something that shows your talents as well as your caring side.  Feel free to show a sense of humor, and, above all, just be yourself.
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self discipline. \n\nYou'll have plenty of opportunity for all kinds of extra curricular activities. However, for the most part, no one will be there to see that you do your assignments and get good sleep and exercise. So you need to have some discipline about managing your time and energy.\n\nWhat I've noticed from my nieces & nephews, too, is that much is to be gained by supporting your school sports/teams. You get a strong sense of "spirit" and belonging and being part of a group. There's a great deal of stress in college and your friends will be important. And some will be your friends for the rest of your life.\n\nCongratulations, Graduate! And All the Best!
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I'm just finishing up my freshman year in high school. Don't worry! You're going to be fine. Get to know your teachers and the building. Ask friends who are upperclassmen what it's like. Joining clubs or doing sports are an awesome ways to meet people. And the best way to get noticed is to just be yourself.
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just be yourself---dont let anyone pressure you into pretending like someone you are not.  If they are truly your friends--they will stick by you
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maybe you could try and learn something new and exciting that compliments your career, or that will take you to where you want to be.. Perhaps joining a class at college would help. For sure, this would make you meet new people in that line etc., and this would open up your mind, plus take away some of the boredom in life?
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You could start out by comparing the beginning of you education to a the cocoon which starts the life of a butterfly and now you can describe yourself as having emerged as a beautiful butterfly now that you have completed your education----------in between you can speak about the beauty and grace of a butterfly ------the free spirit-the guiet nature------hope this helps