Lonely Soldier in Iraq...... Again?
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well, since I am married sex is out of the question. I would make him a big homecooked meal with all of his favorite foods. I would draw him some nice hot bathwater so he could take a relaxing bath. I could give him a back and foot massage.I would write him letters while he was in service. send him care packages. Would that be enough? I can not think of anything else.
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try googeling "military .com" this can hepl if you know what unit he was in. ... otherwise , no dont ring a bell.... try just googeling his name ... i found a friend that way
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Hi Kerry \n\nI've been in Iraq myself and spent half the year there and i know first hand what it feels like and what goes on in your mind when you are over there.\n\nYour desired man works in security in Iraq where he is faced with  real danger,im sure you av seen from the news and everthing else,the rest isn't for me to say.I met someone when i came back on leave and it was the best thing ever to happen to me but in my head i had this feeling what will happen to her in case  i dont make it back or if something happened to me will everything still be be same with us.I survived all that and my days were hard to get by.\n\nIn your case im sure this guy is thinking along the same lines and probably feels that he should not make you wait in case he never makes it back or if something happens to him will it still be the same between you guys,more like a state of mind to get you through that time,but im sure deep down he hopes you will wait for him and as long as you have the will power to wait for that long and expect anything to happen afterwards, i think you will have given yourself the best chance with him and who knows were it will take you.
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Deployments never get easier.  My husband is now looking at his 3rd deployment to Iraq, and I feel the same way I did when we got news of the 1st one.  I know when he does deploy, the first couple months will be the hardest, and then I will get back into my routine of being a single mother again, waiting faithfully for his call or a chance to IM and see him on the web cam.  \nJust keep yourself surrounded by positive people, other military wives, and your FRG.  \nIt is a given, as soon as he deploys something always happens at home, the car breaks down, the washing machine quits on you, the kids get sick, ( my sons appendix ruptured 3 days after my husband deployed last time).  Remember that you are not alone.\nIf you need someone to talk to feel free to contact me anytime.\nGOD BLESS OUR TROOPS
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Lonely On Valentine's Evening!!!
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A very lonely woman....
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Sounds like he likes you.  He may be thinking of you when he says he doesn't want to start a relationship before returning to Iraq, in that such a relationship can be very difficult with the distance, not to mention the looming specter of death.  I say appreciate it for what it is, enjoy the time you do spend with him or talking with him, and let it be for now.  If he returns, you will be able to see pretty quickly about striking up something more serious if you both want that.  Or maybe you'll fall for someone while he's gone.  Don't try to plan too much, just let it happen.
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i amin an infantry platoon in the army currently in iraq most of the guys have myspace pages but most of them arent good guys but they are in the military
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I take my neighbor out to dinner now and then. Her husband is in Iraq and she has no family in the area! I also help her with yardwork!
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No, to be honest, nothing you can do, my hubby's in the army been gone for four months and won't be home till January of 2007....and my heart aches everyday and I still haven't found a way to stop it..sorry, God bless
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He's in a cave somewhere in Iraq or Afghanistan...that's why he's so hard to find
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Actually it depends in part of the country they are in.  We didn't have wireless service where I was stationed in Iraq.  But Ballad did and so did a few other places near the green zone. Most MWR's have internet access if the base has been around for awhile.  The rainy season is just about over so you shouldn't have a problem talking to someone over there.  My space has soldiers on it . Yahoo has military chat rooms.  Good luck You could also look into adopting a soldier or a plt. Their are a lot of soldiers over there with no body waiting at home for them.
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i do not belive in frendships after knowing the person underneah his or her clothes. there is no friendship possible if there is attraction from one side.friendships between a man and a woman are extra rare. do not have sex with the guy because you feel bad about him being in Iraq. after surviving such hard life experiance he will be changed and use all his charm to get you where he wants. find out if he still has feelings for you. if he is the only one he has to accept your decision just to be friends. i have met an american solider from North Carolina who had also been to Iraq. i do not know a lot of man who have charm like his. he said talking to me is like being in heaven.
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Have you tried contacting his squadron, that would be your first bet to get into contact with him. His First Shirt would be the one to talk to. Don't call the Red Cross without contacting his unit first, it could cause problems in the future. Use his chain of command within the unit, they are there to support you while he is deployed.
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god bless you. my hubby is also in iraq. i would suggest reading, spending alot of time with your friends over there, and exercising in the gyms there. try also to talk to your chaplian when you are stressed out. good luck to you.
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loneliness is juat a state of mind....
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Military.com has a buddy finder, but you have to join to use it. Membership is free.\n\nBest of luck.