u like a guy evrybdy likes.ur not prettiiest girl n class. u can choose from him or 1 of your fat guy friends?
436388
if you really like the guy everyone else likes you have to look at it this way is it because he's cute or his he really nice, as for your friend you say its just a crush but you probably like him more than you think you just haven't realized it.
148123
I dont really like a girl by the way she looks I will love the girl inside. I may have a good looking girl and she is all stupid or have a ugly girl who cares about me and the other around me. Doent really matter I love all girls!!!!\n\nI wont mind a fat girl!
471525
well i dont think it matters what kind of body type you have\nthis is actually kind of weird because most guys like a nice curvy girl like ourselves. you know not skinny but not fat. lol really it doesnt matter i think maybe you should just tell him that you like him and he may just surprise you.... maybe your wrong about his likes and dislikes
41139
If he's interested in "better-looking girls" then he's probably better looking himself.  Why don't you go after a not-so-good-lookin guy and you won't have that problem.  There's many out there, trust me :)
585088
That depends entirely on the particular gal. Most gals would prefer a slender, guy and not obese. You are seen in public with her.. and with her friends. If you are much overweight, it tends to work adversely on the friends of the girl.
682613
Well... You can't really help who you like or not. If you really think that the guy you love is more important to you, stick with him and if not you shouldn't pressure yourself that's for sure...
415877
usually depends on the type of girl, but for me and most of my friends, someone funny, good looking and is sweet to you. and isnt a total jerk to you when he's around his friends. and doesnt mind to tell you he likes you. that just about somes it up
479705
Hmmm... well first of all think about why you like him? could that be the reason other people like him too? \nMaybe it has nothing to do with him being fat, normally and sadly to say, being fat is a disadvantage to people, but perhaps because he is fat people don't see him as a threat.\ninstead of feeling pissed off about it you should realise you must have really good taste in friends if everyone likes him. It would be worse to have a friend that no one wanted around. \nAlso when people meet someone new for the first time,they tend to make more of an effort to make the person feel welcomed into the group and that is why they will talk to him more as they already know you . \nPerhaps he is funny and kind and is interested in other people and not just himself. Also if you are getting pissed off this will manifest itself and you might come across as cold or moody and that doesn't attract people. \nJust try and relax about it, be happy to have this person as a friend and try to focus on the good things about him and not just this one thing,\n \nIn life, if we have a belief about something we tend to look for confirmation of our beliefs...you believe your friends ignore you when your other friend is around so you constantly look for confirmation and signs to reaffirm what you believe....you will find it. If you change what confirmation you are looking for ( such as, my friends are really comfortable with me and like me) you will find that also...focus on the positive not the negative...it is getting you no where.\nhope this helps but you have to work at it.\n\nps: if you do as WELZENN suggested and make fun of him it will make you look dislikable and jealous and he doesn't deserve to be made fun of. that is not the way to treat a friend.
582851
The best thing you could do is leave him so he can find someone less shallow.  It sounds like you really don't care about this guy at all, or you would accept him for who he is.  Why did you get with him if you're embarrassed that he eats a lot, anyway?  You admit he's "really fat".  This is what really fat people do.  But even if he is really fat, he still deserves better than someone who is ashamed of him.
830627
how the hell would we know. we dont know what either of u look like, but i can tell u this, neither of u should go out with him, bc its not right for him to do that to either of u, ur friends. and no boi is worth loosen ur friend over. i just see this guy as being a problem for both of u.  bc if u or ur friend date him, one of u will get ur feelings hurt, or try to take him away from the other, and oh boy just a big mess.
1084085
i think that guy is just playing with you. don't take him seriously he lost his chance so well it all depends on you really do u still like ur actual bf or ur willing tobreak up him to go with the other guy. dunno this is complicated.
741584
A guy is not worth losing friends over. You should all find another guy to like.
559854
try talking to ur friend first if u can. Well do u like the guy too??Cause that will deff. make a difference. lol. but if u do like him and he likes u maybe u guys could be. and if ur friend gets mad, then tell her that u already told her that he dont like her and she didnt want to accept that. Then it would be her fault,that she didnt get him and you did. But if u dont like him then dont go for him juss tell him that u dont think that it would work out cause u dont want to hurt ur friendship with ur b.f. or something along them lines. Hope i help  good luck!
155735
I prefer a man that has a "thick", I dont like muscular, but I like a bit of extra fat on my guy. Thin, makes me think he is weak... but that is just my opinion on it....
811337
babe, you just answered your own question.\nyou obviously dont want to waste your time on someone who isnt really interested in you , he's more interested on your friend.\nwhy would you let yourself have feelings for him when you know that he dont like you like that. and you know that you're gonna get hurt. dont do it to yourself. just be honest with him and be like you want to be with someone who likes you back and not your friend.\ntell him that you could find someone else that likes you coz of you not coz of your friend. \nbut, why did you ask him out in the first place if you knew that he liked someone else??\nplease dont be blind and leave the guy and go for the other one who really likes you the most. trust me, you'll be a lot happier with the other one.
297705
stay quiet. or take the chance of losing a friend over a guy. it is your choice!
742315
Both, he should like you of ur personality to, if he just likes you because your hott, then he's not a good person!