Who ever said cheating was a bad or good thing? What's your meaning?
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Obviously those who do the cheating say it is a good thing and those who are cheated on say it is a bad thing.  It is all from your own perspective and beliefs about relationships.
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Cheaters are HYPOCRITES.\n\nBut cheating has 2 types; cheat for bad and cheat for good.\n\nCheat for bad is, as we all know it, for sure, it will hurt anyone. So don't cheat your BF/GF! Because that is not good in a relationship!\n\nBut there is a cheat for good. Cheat for good means, well, for example, you're actually meet up with you cousin girl, to just discuss about family matter. Nothing more, I mean he's your cousin!. Your girlfriend call your cellphone and ask, "who are you with right now?". You don't want her to feel suspicious because your GF is a really really jealousy person! So you say, "Oh..I'm currently discussing assignment with my friend, John. Why?". \n\nYou're cheating your girlfriend so that she won't get hurt. But YOU know that you're not cheating on her over a really bad thing. \n\nAnother example, you're in a toilet, taking a pee. Your girlfriend call your cellphone, "where are you?". And you say, "Oh...I'm errr...in my bedroom of course!". ;-P
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Hi, without a doubt in my mind, if I ever found out my man was cheating I would dump him, no questions asked.\nSome of you may say "he/she made a mistake.Yes, it is a mistake, and sadly some people repeat them over and over again.\nI would never be able to trust my boyfriend again. Women are emotional and are imaginations are highly active. I would not trust my boyfriend again. I would always have a vision in my mind of my boyfriend bedazzling another woman.\n I also would have a low opinion of myself. I would feel like I am not pretty, or sexy enough for my boyfriend (even though his actions were not my fault). I would also feel like he didn't love me. Because sorry, but if you truly love someone, you don't cheat, bottom line. I don't care if you are drunk, or your having a bad day..Its something you don't do to someone you love.\n  I would be so devestated if I found that out about my boyfriend. Also, when partners do cheat, they put YOU at risk. At risk for a disease....And believe me, several cheaters out there have given their girls and wifes, husband and boyfriends diseases. So my opinion, you would not want to put your love at risk.\n  Cheating is a disease for some people. They have to do it to make themselves feel high. Guys and Gals alike, don't fool yourself into thinking you are different or that these people can change. And to those of you who are going out with married or attached people, you are just as bad. You are an enabler. Some people cannot seem to stop cheating.\n  To you who have written this question, Good one. And I hope to a higher power out there that you have not been cheated on.
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communication....and someone just told me the other day something that just struck me....\n\nA good marriage is loving someone in spite of their faults.  You realize they are human and you love them anyway.
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I am not sure what you will find historically about this quote, however, I know that back in the '50's it was a saying that many "southern" mothers would quote.  The saying, as far as I know and heard my grandmothers and their friends talk about, means that if you 'dig deep into the lie a person obviously is telling, or has told,  you will find that he/she is capable of, or has already stolen. " My mom would carry that statement further and even today, I find myself quoting it: " if you lie, you'll cheat, if you cheat, you'll steal..." I think that also falls into the same category.  In a nutshell, if you are capable of lying, then there is nothing that you probably will not do.  I hope this helps.  It brought back memories.
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No, and I dont ever plan on it, cheating is the stupidest thing anyone could ever do, its completely pointless....why cheat...it just shows you dont want to be with the person you are with and/or your not happy with them...completely stupid!
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The simple definition to me is ANY intimate physical contact with another person which you feel you need to keep from your significant other.  A kiss, sex, etc.  Some relationships are more open than others.  Some partners don't even like the thought of their sig other hugging someone else, some think that's fine.  It depends on what BOTH partners agree is not acceptable.  If something happens between you and someone and you feel you can't tell your sig other, you're probably cheating.\n\nEmotional cheating is WAY more subjective.  Everyone has fantasies about other people, whether it's a passing glance or a crush.  (Fantasizing too much, though, can mean that you're not getting what you need from your relationship and you should probably move on).  Acting on fantasies is what constitutes cheating.  My opinion.
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Hell to NO!!! its just this simple bad character no matter how you put it. And if you're going to cheat you're going to cheat no matter what. But the question is how long will it be before they decide to cheat?? And people think that they really love the person that they're in a relationship with, but yet and still they decide to cheat and also lack of will power, they're a lot of reasons why people cheat. Now I do believe that if you really love someone that no one can seduce you into cheating with them no matter what.
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Well, men and women alike cheat. Not everyone mind you. We are all different and have our reasons for cheating or not cheating. Speaking on behalf of men, my personal opinion is that if a man cheats, he does think about it, even if its at a subconscious level. I have never cheated on anyone I have been with, but that's my choice. I prefer to end the relationship if I feel that I want to be with another woman. Cheating isn't worth the headaches or the risk of losing someone you might care about.\n\nI think if someone cheats, they have very low morals and isn't someone worth being with. This is why I believe that most people get involved in serious relationships too early in life. They should be out there having fun and enjoying their youth. There will be plenty of time to get involved in a serious relationship. Once we learn what love is really about, we can make better decisions on who will might want to spend the rest of our lives with.
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Well, that's a hard one.\n\nOf course I would want to know.  Honesty is the most important part of a relationship.\n\nHowever, if the person has cheated, I would have a hard time sticking to the marriage plans.  I don't tolerate cheaters.  Or liars for that matter.
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It is one sign. Throughout history there's been sex crimes, etc. That people think cheating on a spouse is okay, that's newer.
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Say "are you cheating"?
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If you've thought about cheating then in my opinion you have cheated. Thinking about it is just as bad as doing it.
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I agree those are what most people think, and the main one is Why? I think it comes down to, did I do something wrong, why did he/she do it? If your friends or family know about it and don't tell you I feel that's a huge betrayal. They either don't want to get involved but I think it's wrong for them not to, because then you look like a bigger fool when everyone around you knows but you. Both sexes need to be honest if they're cheating because it catches up  with them in the long run anyways. JMO
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life is good but with a good wife you can have a good life and with the bad wife you can have bad life,so its not your life that is good or bad its the people around you which make your life enjoyable or not!\n\narminnourbaksh@yahoo.co.uk
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I was only married for 4 years, but my best girl friend is having her 11th wedding anniversary next month and I know she has never and would never think about cheating.... I carry the same belief, cheating is the meanest thing you can do to a person you apparently "love".  I also have good news he has never cheated on her either, He is my brother, and I know him better than he thinks, i am not going to turn him into a saint.  I have seen him googling other girls but when push comes to shove he respects the fact that he was lucky enough to find "the one" he wouldn't jeopardize that (coming from the horses mouth).... good people are out there, We just are waiting to find more of us
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Nope, I've never cheated. I think it's not the right thing to do. You should just break up instead of just cheating on them...