my cycle is probably 36 days, what is the best time to have safe sex it is before or after my  period?
443572
NEVER!!!!! Im sorry to say but that is the truth. Woman have gotten pregnant before, during and after their periods. The body is very complicated and if getting pregnant is not something you want, then its not worth taking the risk. Forget the risk of getting pregnant for a second, what about the risk of disease or infection? The only safe sex is no sex, and as we all know that is not an ideal solution, then use protection.
346076
First question, how long ago before your cycle did you have intercourse?  Are your cycles regular?  If you start on the same day everyday and you are sure it is your menstrual cycle and not ovulation, you may not get pregnant.  However, if you had intercourse a week or so before your cycle, you could still get pregnant.  My OBGYN told me that I didn't find out I was pregnant until the third month because you can still have a cycle after the initial fertilization.  You could do one of two things.  Wait out the next couple of months or wait a month and get a test.  Your best bet would be to see an OBGYN as soon as possible.  I assume you are young and that you are afraid to talk to your parents about this.  If this is the case; see your guidance counselor and tell them you would like to keep it confidential until you find out for sure.  Good luck.
155505
Safe pereiod is the 1st to 8th day and 18th to 28th day of a woman's menstural period of 28 days. During this period if she is having sex sshe may not become pregnant.  But it is not cent per cent fool proof and unreliable.
1025879
You're ovulating.  That takes place about 2 weeks before your period.  Nothing to worry about!!  It's the most likely time to get pregnant (although no time is "unlikely".)\n\nThe "cottony stuff" should go in far enough so that you can still feel it with your fingertip.  It shouldn't be outside of your vagina at all, but just right inside and the string should be all that hangs out further.
721871
People are ragging on you for something that was probably a typo. Ugh. But yes, sex during your period is perfectly safe. Boy won't get an infection, it won't hurt the girl, and can actually help with cramping! Just make sure you lay down a thick dark towel if you are bleeing heavily and wash off afterwards. You may still need to use lube if you normally do because blood isn't really that great of a lubricant, suprisingly.\n\nSome people go completely squick over this, and some don't. Personally I wouldn't do it because the thought of a blood coated penis really doesn't get me going. But if you and your partner are comfortable with it, go ahead! Baby wipes are great to have next to the bed too if you only have a little clean-up to do.
414021
Protection is not foolproof. If you should have started on the 18th, the chances of you being preggers are pretty high since you had sex 10 days before. If you're going to be screwing around, at least learn more about your body first. And remember, the only safe sex is masturb ation.
371188
count from the first day of your period. about 12-14 days later, you ovulate. about 12-14 days after that, your period should begin.
256442
Your in the "danger" sone nine days befor you period\n\nThat is if you don't whant to fall pregnant if you are trying then that is your perfect time to try
301466
why not? i hope you will get twins if you have sex in near middle of days between a period like after 7 days of period.
467308
You ovulate approximately 14 days after your period. At this time you are most fertile.
633650
Yes, depending on what you mean by "after my period"  Ovulation usually happens 14 days after a woman starts bleeding, and it can be fertilized at any point thereafter for about 4 days.  It doesn't implant in your uterus for about a week after fertilization though.
247459
just watch when you are most likely to have your period and try to have sex either before or after the period... maybe both before and after.
534497
wait till right before your period, when you feel most that you're ovulating. You'll really feel it when you are. Drink lot's of water. ovulation supposedly occurs 14 days after a period(for normal ones.)
554454
Women are really horny during their periods actually. And you should wait 2 days after she has finished her period so about 5-7 days after it's started.
690686
count fourteen days from the first day of your period and that is the begining of your ovulation you should be fertile for aprox three days
619444
If you start taking the pill on the first day of your next period, you are safe to have sex after 7 days. For the first seven days, if you are having sex, use a condom. Although you're less likely to have sex then as you'll be on your period.
191179
Ovulation occurs on or about day 14 (day 1 being the first day of your period) if you have a 28 day cycle.  Reproductive drs usually recommend having sex every other day starting on day 10 or 11 up to day 16.  Ovulation predictor tests can help you pinpoint the exact day.