Should people be with someone that makes them feel like their not good enough?
444860
NO,if that is a situation that you are in then get out. You can run yourself crazy trying to figure out if whether or not you are good enough. With people like that,they want you to feel that way just so you can feel like you need them. They string you along because they know that you Will do whatever they want you to do. And,if you really wasn't good enough for them they would have been let you go,and found someone Else. This is a person who has low self esteem himself,and he is just bring you right down with him
889985
well you must feel let down by them and love them so you want them to be together. Don,t worry they still love you, they do not mean to hurt you.  Forgive them.
436818
Yeah, generally you don't wanna do something that might upset her/him or turn them away from you. So you feel insecure. Nothing wrong with that, it shows they're too important to lose.
951002
sounds a bit unfair\nyou should tell her how you feel.  tell her you feel left out and that you really like it.
945918
It makes them feel inferior, unworthy, confused, sad and rejected.\n\nI should know.  I was told that same thing, and this is how I felt.
36988
i wish there was a definitive answer to this question, however it is dependant on personalities and situations. \n\nin an effort to give my (somewhat) professional opinion, i will say this...\n\nat times you may feel that you have wore on someone's nerves a little much or that a certain person no longer feels the way they use to toward you, HOWEVER always remember you can not assume how one feels by projecting your insecurities. \n\nif your question is validated or not the answer could only be revealed by the party(s) involved.\n\ngood luck!
123488
I can answer that with another question.  When you feel bad because of the way someone treats you, does that make you want to be just as bad as they are?\n\nWhy would you?  There is great honor in being better than those around you.
1100927
Do what makes you feel good or find someone that can give you that same feeling
399527
I would think that most people have to be flexible in your situation. If the person is feeling rejected because of the situation I don't think that person should be in the relationship to begin with.
615065
If you have to ask someone about this topics, I think chances are that the individual does not care about you enough.  You seem to be insecure about this which may indicate that you have self-esteem issues also.\n\nIf you feel that you are being treated poorly, you need to let your partner know how you expect to be treated.
507311
sometimes people just need to get away. they need alone tmie to figure things out. and if he's going through personal stuff liek you mentioned, he needs time to figure things out. its natural that you might feel hurt, but its better to elave him be for a bit, because people are a bit explosive when they're in those moods. but once he gets through his problem, things should return to normal. dont sweat it.
449655
There is no way to make a person feel the same about you that you feel about them. So the best thing to do is to express how you feel and move along or keep how you feel to yourself and wait until the right time to disclose it.
360487
NO. It's unfair to the both of you.\nHe doesn't deserve someone who doesn't really love him and you don't deserve someone you don't really love.
481019
Maybe she still wants to be with him but maybe she just really enjoyed his company when they were together. People like to feel wanted perhaps she doesn't want to do anything with him she just wants to remember what their time was like and feel good. \nBut if it's making you feel unwanted you have to tell her it's not fair if it's making you feel bad. She has you does she really want to jeopardize that?
156080
I don't believe you can love someone too much but you can be so attentive that a person can feel smothered. It would depend on what he considers too much and the actual circumstance. If you are devoting 100 percent to him, then its too much. If you are not taking care of yourself and spending time focusing on self then it is way to much. Sometimes what your giving is great but sometimes it is not received like that. I would spend time really looking at the situation, maybe sharing your thoughts with family and friends who know you both and see what their assessment is as well.
1055886
That depends on what your inner being is. It is someone bad, then no. The good of the many must come before the good of the one.
523316
If you are not ready, or everything is going too fast, sit down with them and explain how you feel. If this is too hard to do, then you are not with the right person. If the person loves you he/she will understand and wait or slow down. If an argument starts, then you are not with the right person.