I was my boyfriend's first he says he loves me is he for real or is it just bcuz i was his first?
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I think he do love you, due to the fact you lost your women head to him so there are feelins all around you teo relationship. Just give it a try it want hurt, Just be careful with yourself
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I have been successful, but I've waited until I felt really right.  There is a differnce between LOVE and INFATUATION.  You might have said "I love you" to a guy, when really you were just still in the infatuation stage.  If you have been with your current boyfriend for almost 2 years, I think it is time for you to say it.  He might just be waiting for you to say it first.  Maybe he feels the same way as you do about saying I love you.  Either say it, or actually TALK to him about it.  Be like "I really feel like I love you, but I don't want to say it and make you uncomfortable.  How do you feel about it?"  Hope this works!
823340
i had that same situation, my boyfriend told me "i wasnt flirting i was just being nice", from my eyes what i saw it didnt look like just being nice i got so mad that day, he  is still with me and says i love you,  my point is if he is with you still and didnt dump you for other girls that means he truly loves you.
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Well I think that if he really loves you than he wouldn't care about what people say or do, and would only focus on only being with you...so if he loves you as he says then  why is he with another one? \nand doing anything for each other does not come from one side it comes from both sides of the relationship.(which is you and him)
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Actually he's not my boyfriend anymore, he's now my husband. Our first date, ahhmm... When we first met, were just friends and he always fetch me after work. And when he said he love me, we date in a cozy pizza restaurant. And as I see all of our dates, even in a simple and cheap restaurant to an elegant one, they are all so good and romantic to remember. He's so sweet and I really love him!
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my boyfriend actually.
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you know if your heart speaks to you.\nA man that really loves you would do anything for you, he will love you unconditionally, no matter what the circumstances were/are. He is a man that is honest, and makes you happy. Let your heart speak to you. Learn to Listen to your heart.
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yeh u can say it and say it 100 times over, but u mite not nessecarily mean it!the way2tell is by ur emotions and how you feel when ur arround him!his behaviour will say it all!consider all these things, has he lied2u, given u any reason2 doubt him!ul no if sum1 luvs u, cus theyl be sooo absorbed in u!if u have reason 2 doubt it then it probably wont be love, becus luv is unconditional and can be seen from miles off!although u are doubting it tho, doesnt mean he isnt in love with u!maybe he truely is and ur just wantn it2b tru luv soooo much that ur questioning it becus u cant believe its tru!ul no!hope this helps!
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First, when you ask questions like this and you want some sincere advice or opinions, you need to be more specific. Like how long you've been together for instance. When you say boyfriend, you could have been together for a week or two when he said it, or it could have been years. That really helps when you're asking someone a question that you want help with.\n\nPutting the lecture aside, this is my opinion when it comes to saying "I Love You" to someone. First, never say I love you to anyone unless you really mean it. People seem to let this word come out of their mouths as if they were saying, gee, what a nice day. Other guys have hurt you? Hmm, well, don't feel like you're the only one that's been hurt. We've all gone through this, but we move on. Obviously, he hasn't made you feel comfortable enough for you to not worry about being hurt, as you have in the past, or you have not opened up enough to accept his love for you. You say you're falling for him, but you keep the walls up. That's never a good thing in a relationship. If you feel you need to protect yourself, then you're not ready for a serious relationship. When the time is right, you will know and feel comfortable about saying it. Until then, don't say it, unless you mean it. It does no one any good to hear those words when the heart isn't behind hit. Good luck and may you some day, find a way to break the walls down and enjoy a happy and healthy, loving relationship with someone who makes you feel loved.
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Seems like he's still a bit emotionally attached but not ready to jump back into a relationship. I'm not sure if this means he's in love with you still, or if he's just having trouble letting go, but either way he seems just as confused as you.\nIf I were you I'd confront him. See what his deal is, and hopefully you can work it out.
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If this guy truely loves you I do not why he should lie to You. I f you are sure about his love for you then no problem. But if not, Be careful.
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of course it is!\n\nmy first love was my first BF and i was 16 too. still never forgot him 10 yrs later! he was the only boy who made me cry and broke my heart into a million pieces!!
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HE MAY BE TELLING YOU WITH WORDS THAT HE LOVES YOU BUT THE TRUTH BEHIND IT IS HIS ACTIONS.  WHEN YOU LOVE SOMEONE YOU WANT TO SPEND MOST OF YOUR TIME WITH THAT PERSON AND YOU DO SPECIAL THINGS FOR THAT PERSON. LOTS OF GUYS ARE VERY FREE WITH TELLING A GIRL THAT THEY LOVE THEM AND NOT REALLY MEANING IT JUST TO TRY AND GET WHAT THEY WANT.  GOOD LUCK
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Those indicates that he loves you. My advise would be, to get more intimate with him, just the way he wants you to, and see how he reacts. Even after doing as he wants you to if he questions your work, then he is just saying things, and not being original. I think that's the only way you can surely test if he is being honest with you or not.
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i dont understand, why wouldnt he say he loved you? after 3 years you'd think you'd be married by now. whats up w/ that? if you have true love you would know, you wont have any doubts, if youve got doubts then you dont have it.
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I would not count on it.  Unless he tells you he loves you and you feel that it's genuine, then he really does love you.
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you really dont know, you have to kind of believe what they say. If they are real shaky and have no idea what they are doing then you can take a hint and assume that you would be his first.  Also if he orgasms in less than a minute that would give you a clue too but these days you never know