whats a good way to make amends?
444172
some believe that repentance is enough some require some sort of restitution still others are not happy unless the offender is punished in some ways you have punished yourself enough direct restitution is not possible repentance will have to do good luck and above all be happy
65492
Simply apologize.  Let him/her know why you are sorry.  Anyone can be sorry and not know exactly why they are.  It has to be sincere.  You have to allow them to let you know how you made them feel and not be defensive.  Own up to the mistake you made.  They will see that you really mean what you say.  If the person values your relationship...they'll look at the circumstances and may be willing to make peace with you.  This does not guarantee that your relationship will be the same.  If it does not return to the same relationship; know that you did everything you possibly could to resolve the matter.  Respect their decision.
164193
i suggest you should start any activity with fixing "out comes" not the "input".Unless you reach that outcomes you shoud not revise anything. if you use this principle of fixing outcomes you will never need to make any revision.
640188
Write a letter apologizing for your behaviour.
115125
We need more details to help you out here.  The best I can do with what I know about your situation is a general appology.  Be sincere, and don't try to explain your side of it.  If you do, this may come accross as an excuse.  If you are truely sorry for what you did then say so and never say, "I'm sorry but...".  This will make the person think you don't really mean it.  Take full responsibility for your actions and admit what you did was wrong.  Ask them to look down deep in their heart and please forgive you.  Remind them of what your relationship means to you and how important they are to you.  Finish the letter by saying over again, "I really am sorry for hurting you.  I will do what ever it takes to earn your trust and restore our relationship."\n\nGood Luck!
576510
The only way, is to accept it proudly. Stand up at ALL the decisions you made, bad or good, realizing the mistake or the good point you have contributed.\n\nSomebody said, regrets are only regrets, before you take responsibility. Then they just become old mistakes.\n\nEven if, you have the ability to erase the mistake of the past, it isn't guaranteed that all the mistake you turned into good choices is about to amount in the "biggest good choice" in your life... It might just amount to a bigger mistake in your life. \n\nBasically: good, plus good, plus good, does not necessarily mean, equals good. Sometimes it goes like this: good + good + good = BAD. Sometimes it is like this: bad + bad + bad = Good. Don't you agree?\n\nSo, the question is, would you trade everything you have now, and run the risk of ending up worse?\n\nSometimes, we get caught up with perfection that we forget, that it does not exist. Victories are sweeter with tastes of defeat.
770164
Best thing to do is just dress nice (business casual), go to court by yourself, hold your hands in your lap and apologize for your mistake.  Ask the DA if there is anything you can do to fix the situation.  Usually they'll work with you, as long as you be sure to say "Yes, Sir/Ma'am" and "thank you".  Be polite and businesslike, and they usually either let it go or just charge you a small fine (and if you show up, the often make sure it doesn't even go on your license)\n\nGood luck!
319267
Depends that - on what u feel sorry, if a major mistake it is advisable to appologize & plea for forgivenes, if it is some minor stuff then leave it u felt sorry that itself is enough
211660
have a talk wit her \ntry to find out d reasons for her actions & try to explain her about her mistakes.
324599
Tell directly to him/her.\nIts is ths simple and most effective way\nJust tell I am sorry by heart.
920149
Treat them nicely...?\nSaying "sorry" doesn't do/mean anything if you don't prove it.
404642
Man,your apology is good enough...email her a freakin love letter but not too long and not real short.She'll come around-don't worry!
258679
stop trying to fix it. you are not in control of the universe. try looking at what you have done to contribute to the problem, and apologize without expecting them to apologize too. true forgiveness is realizing there is nothing to forgive.
475829
Apologize, apologize, apologize.\nThen just be honest and talk to him. Will he take your calls? If so just tell him what you just told us, that he is the best thing that has happened to you, and that you made a mistake, while under the influence and that it will never happen again, that you don't want to lose him as a friend, or as the man you love. \n\nAsk him has hasn't he ever done something he truly regrets in a moment of weakness and bad judgement. We all have to grow and learn life lessons as we go
861136
Stop messing up maybe.  Sometimes people won't take apology's if you keep repeating your bad actions. Show her your sorry instead of saying it.
266598
There is no such thing as an anonymous apology, part of an apology is being grown up enough to say hey I was wrong...just tell him you are sorry. It will mean alot to him and will show that you are a good person... your true friends won't give you any grief on this. i had friends of all walks of popularity, and part of what made people like me was that I didn't let my friends dictate how I felt or who I could talk to...you will feel much better after you have owned up to your wrong doing. Be strong, Good Luck.
1127211
You can't do much if they won't forgive you and let it go.  You can apologize to them from the bottom of your heart and tell them how sorry you are - thats your part to do.  Their part is to forgive you and really mean it and move on.