How to court an older woman?
443347
Awh you said court! How sweet!\n\n...I think you should just tell them you want to court them, then.
47504
You think a 25-30 yr. old female would want to date you? Here's a free dating service: Go to a senior citizen's dance, they are more your age. Maybe someone there can teach you how to grow up.\nP.S. If women your own age don't want you, what makes you think a younger one would? Geesh!
596246
AGE REALLY DOES NOT MATTER!  ALL THAT MATTERS IS IF YOU RESPECT HER AND SHE RESPECTS YOU, THAT YOU CARE ABOUT HER, AND THAT LOVE CARRIES ALL RELATIONSHIPS!  IF SHE FEELS THE SAME WAY, JUST MINGLE YOUR WAY IN!  IF IT WORKS OUT, THEN EVERYTHING WILL FALL RIGHT INTO PLACE!  GOOD LUCK!
212725
Im pretty certain that there are women in their 40's looking for a male companion for love if you check out some of the dating sites on the internet, you will probably have a bigger field finding a lady on a dating site than what you may find here... good luck...\nthis isnt a love match site is it?
50741
First, & I don't want this to sound mean in the least, this is not the type of forum to find a mate. If you want to find someone via the Internet, you'll have much better luck with a dating service.\n\nSecond, again, not being mean, if you are looking for a quick fling, then your question (or lack thereof) will probably get you just that but you will also run the risk of a lot of borrowed problems as well. After all, how do you know that the person on the other end of the keyboard is who or what they say they are? True, in time you can find out but how are you going to handle it if you find that the person you've been talking to is one of the "old" people you mention?\n\nMy best suggestion for you is to get out there & get involved in some hobbies, whatever they might be. This will put you in an arena with like-minded people with whom you will already have something in common.\n\nStill, it sounds to me from your details that what you are really interested in is nothing more than a cute, young thing; sorry, but this is the way your details have come off to me. If this is the case, just hit the bars & you'll find someone to warm your bed. If you are looking for something more, however, you are severely limiting yourself by talking so much about younger ladies & calling those of or about your age "old". It would make me wonder why your marriage of 25 years ended...maybe you found her too old for you suddenly? If this happened to be the case, how do you think women will react to learning this?\n\nI'm not trying to be hurtful in any way; I'm trying to honestly explain to you how your above approach might look to women. Me? I'm very taken & you wouldn't be interested anyway since I'm 40 :)\n\nGood luck, whichever route you end up taking...
280053
PROVIDING YOU'RE OLD ENOUGH TO DATE....WHY NOT A MOVIE? OR THE LOCAL BURGER JOINT? OR PERHAPS HER FAVORITE PLACE TO SHOP? THE MAIN THING IS TO PLEASE HER!!!--NOT YOU! RISE ABOVE THE "PLANET OF THE APES" AND BE A GENTLEMAN!!! SHE MIGHT ACTUALLY ASK YOU OUT AGAIN.....
896580
It's not too old !! but i hope you're not one of these men looking for 20 or 30 year old women because then u will havea hard time, and plus that is gross.\n\nTry church gatherings(if you are religious), volunteer organizations because there are lots of women there and they love men who volunteer as well, or even  senior meetings and dances (avaliable at your local recreational center amongst other places).\nGood luck !
123366
What a question! Being an older guy myself, I'd say yeah, but you need to show him how serious you are. You wouldn't believe the number of younger women who are after me. Go for it.
8148
How old are you and how old is the lady you are interested in?
1164528
show her that u have change, court her, start from step 1. be her friend etc etc do not rush on things. slowly but surely
266049
i have PERSONAL experince dude.  listen to this. i met a woman when i was 24, and she was 34.  the sex was amazing, she was very experience. but thats the only thing that was good.  her mentality was more mature than i was and we didnt have any common intrest, im not saying that it wont work out for you. you just have to see how you feel about her,  there are couples out there who are that big of an age difference and they are happy with it.  but most of the time it wont work out. when you reach 20 she will be 30. etc.  are you willing to be with an old woman when you are 40 and she is 50.  thats the question you need to ask yourself.  but in the mean time, enjoy each other and see waht happens, just enjoy the moments, thats the best advice i can give you
305615
invite her for a duel
506157
use charms and looks to lure her in. talk to her and make sure you are funny and charismatic. get her #. then spend tons of money on her and get her to want to hang at your place (since you're under 21). people tend to attract people like themselves, it's a law of the universe. you need to look and act the part. oh, and be confident like you don't need her. women can sense desperation.
895945
Take her out for dinner. \n\nVisit her,  give her flowers and a cake. Tell her to give you a call if ever she needs help around the house (things that an old woman can't handle, emergencies etc). It's good that she has your phone number and you hers in case you need to look out for her or help her. Older women are prey to intruders and robbers. Always keep a look out for her safety. \n\nIf she doesn't have relatives over on special occasions such as Christmas, Thanksgiving etc, try to include her in yours at least once a year or once every other year.\n\nYes, you are a very thoughtful young man. Your parents are a success having a son like you and you are a great success for who you are. Bless you.
517636
Depends on how much you really like her.  If you do then I would maybe try holding off for awhile ( it's just sex - you can take care of it most of the time on your own if you had to )  If you aren't willing to give up sex for awhile then move on and find yourself another 40 year old that looks 25 .. or even better find yourself a real 25 year old .. they're in their Prime !
1012237
dude, when I was 26 I dated a 36 and 37 year old within a 6 month timeframe, and it was the best time I ever had.  unlike 25 year old girls, they were so much more comfortable with themselves, their sexuality, and what they want.  they didn't play games at all and they were so much fun to hang out with!\n\nin terms of how to get them?  I didn't do anything special, I would say try not to be too eager.  you may want to approach them, but do it in an easy going style.  women in their mid to late thirties are entering their sexual prime like we were when we were 18 (im 34 now and married).\n\na women in her 30's is more interested in confidence, maturity, being layed back yet fun and having interests, and just being a nice guy . . . .. as opposed to a girl in her 20's who is more interested in looks, cockiness and whether the guy ismarriage material or not . . . good luck!
532539
This may sound childish but you’ll never know unless you try. (ROLE PLAY) walk right up to her and introduce yourself, ask what her name is and if she’ll mind if you call her some time. Then do call and (TALK) & (LOSTEN) and ask if she’d like to go out some time this week you know a great place *Note: if you have kids make arrangements so that she can’t say NO and if she can’t go ask her out again (do the thing you as her husband knows she likes, it’s like dating allover again, but this time you have the cliff notes)   get creative, get romantic, don’t let your second chance blow by.