what is the easiest way to fall out of love?
439938
If you figure it out, please let me know!  I am trying to do that myself.  It has taken me about a month of being on my own to actually be able to look back and realize little things in our relationship that could have been better, and that is helping.  It is also helping that I am starting to see him not as the perfect person I thought he was, and that I am getting angry with his behavior.  But even after being angry and noticing flaws in our relationship, I still love him, and I have no idea how to stop that.
1081714
You're in an abusive relationship. And you're not happy. People do change, only you can decide what you want to do. You don't have to decide by yourself, contact you local doctor, hospital or womens shelter for some counseling. I believe you can fall out of love as easily as you fall into it. Sounds to me like you deserve better, and you'd probably do just fine on your own. Ask yourself Dear Abby's famous question: "Would you be better off with or without him?"  Then go from there. Don't be afraid to ask for some help, I think you'd find it useful.
1127860
keep walking....\nlife doesn't end after a relationship
894432
tell him for whatever your reason to fall short of your love, that u need some time on your own
446020
no matter what if you love her it will hurt and will hurt badly. Perhaps if you exaimine the reason why the relationship is drawing to close there might be something that you can do to prevent it. \nIf you really want to become more independant then do more things either: alone or with friends(excluding her). Jusr dont spend as much time with her. If I were you I would brace myself for the end, but at the same time try to fix it. \nI know that sounds hard to do and I would most likely fail at it, but I do think it would be the thing to do.
137386
Very easy, just forget about him and move on.
78232
“It is impossible to fall out of love. Love is such a powerful emotion, that once it envelops you it does not depart. True love is eternal. If you think that you were once in love, but fell out of it, then it wasn't love you were in. There are no 'exit' signs in love, there is only an 'on' ramp.”\n\n-------------------------------------------------\n2) Our hearts are heavy and empty. We feel betrayed, hurt, resentful. How could they allow such ruin? We do not feel good about ourselves. The sun has stopped shining, the old oak tree is wicked looking, with gnarled twisted branches, your eyes have dark circles under them and there is a dragging shuffle in your walk. You have fallen out of love.
769684
Just do it. He probably never really loved you anyway. He moved on so you need to move on. There is no easy way to do it. If there was then nobody would be asking the question.>
752969
Stop seeing her more often.  Let the relationship die by distancing yourself.
1003492
Walk away.  Seriously.  Don't waste your life because you don't wanna hurt her.\n\nI stayed with a girl I didn't love for a year and a half after I realized I didn't care about her any more... why?  Because she loved me and needed me.\n\nIt's lost time, and I'll never get it back.
427042
falling out of love. or rather the other person falling out of love with me.
18229
Chances are you are going to hurt them, so just accept that.  Best approach is quick, swift, straightforward, and make a clean break.  Tell them it's time for you to move on, and that you will always wish them the very best. Don't answer all their questions, just tell them it's not a love match for you, and leave it at that.  Do not try and stay friends, you will only hurt them more.  Just move on and cut off intimate contact.
476642
Hmmm...the best way to get over your ex???? Get a group of friends together and go out and have a good time! Go dancing, go to a movie, even invite them over to hang out. Do anything you can to keep your mind off the ex. Then, throw out anything the ex ever gave you. Get rid of it all, burn it if you want. Have a "cleansing". Take a nice long shower, indulge in some bubble bath even, do something nice for yourself. Go spend some money if you've got it, and then, when you are ready, go shopping for another person to be with!:) GOOD LUCK!
658202
The best way to get over it, is to move on. Get a new love in your life, and devote 110% of your time and attention to him. You'll be amazed at how soon you'll be "over him'. Good Luck.....
30793
well the answer is: DON'T.\n\nIt's hard, but If you truly cannot be with someone you feel this way about, then loving them will only bring pain.  Moving on is the only way.  Spend time with friends.  Go on a trip.  Spend time on a hobby you enjoy.  These won't make you feel better right away.  But it's all you can do to occupy your mind with something other than the person you cannot be with.  Someday, someone else will love you and it will be someone who you CAN be with.
562661
Tell him you don't love like the way you used to.  It's easier to be honest with someone rather to string them along.  It's going to be ugly, but it has to be done if you want to be happy.
1180972
Sorry but there really is no easy way. You care about him and don't want to hurt him even though he has hurt you. Tell him what you said to us. Let him know that even though he had your heart from the beginning you do not feel like an important part of his life so you need to end things so that both of you can find other people who may be better suited for the types of relationships that you guys want to have.