I drive a pink car, all of my friends laugh at it and say i'm gay, should i change it?
444984
My bottom shaped car is a work of art! Any car (be it pink with a penis shaped gearstick, or penis-shaped with a pink gearstick) would be very excited by my car. And if I really squeeze (on the brakes) it leaves skid marks....
395882
That's one possible "benefit" of being GLBT. We aren't (most) immadiately identifyable. Some times you can bounce between the two world and most of the time it isn't anyone's business. Sometimes you benefit from not being identified. Its not fair but most people do it (straight or gay) to some extent. Acting like you know more about cars so you don't get gouged by a mechanic for example. I don't get offended. But its not a compliment to be called something you are not.
138374
Dude, you're just gay nothing to worry about. There are millions of gay people in this country. Accept who you are because you really can't change something as fundamental as your sexual orientation. Take pride in it and find some other gay people to be friends with and maybe more. good luck!!
953276
No.  As long as they weren't being offensive in what they said when gossiping to others about what they believed my sexuality to be.  Most of my Friends are pretty straight shooters.  We try to not gossip over much about things concerning the group.  We tend to circle the wagons.  if she or he WERE malicious in their commentary, I would be offended by the way they talked.  Not by what they said.  And no...I'm not gay.  I'm Italian and Irish.  Very passionate people.  We do alot of hugging.  Way touchy feely races of people I come from.  Could be mis-construed.  I've had a number of gay woman come on to me.  lol   I take it as compliment, but don't take them up on the offer.  :)
1063242
why do u even care what other people think ? It's your car and u like it, thats all that matters, right ? Ladies should like u for who u are not for what kinda car u have or how much money u have, but for your personality for just being yourself. So don't you listen to any of the bitches that tell u broke and S*** , don't try to prove them wrong either ( they arent wort it ) just smile and say "thanks" \nTake it as a complement thats all :)
963494
What the heck is "sounding gay"? You don't like being happy? Shame on you! We don't want to se you moping around all the time! You could always slide into a room in your socks and shout TaaDaaa!!!( works for me!)
896936
LOL - fab :)\n\nJust on the 1000 to 1 chance you are serious and not jsut being funny, then it is the irrational fear of gay folks.\n\nI like your idea best though :)
396294
I would have to think about that one for a minute. OK, I have a suggestion for you. Why can't you just be you? If your mind is a male, then act male. If you want to do guy things, like work on a car, go ahead.\n\nYou would have to make that decision because no one knows how you deeply feel. Are you gay? Are you straight? Those are important questions. How old are you? Are you in therapy?\n\nYou must decide which way you want to go, where you feel the most comfortable inside yourself.
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You are who you are. Accept it. All you can do is ask your friend to do the same. You do NOT change urself for others unless you FEEL that something is wrong with you. As long as you are happy being who you are, it is good enough. So your friend teases you, tell her to accept you as you are. If she STILL teases you, make light of it and join the fun. Its not bad if you laugh at yourself. But make sure your friends know the limits, that is all. And I think you can trust this, because this comes from a guy who gets teased EVERYDAY for one thing or the other and NEVER have I tried to change myself unless I felt some part of me was bad.
137306
Depends on the setting. I usually do infront of my siblings, with people I know will not get offended by it.  I usually do it when I am driving or mad.  (I'm female)
871750
no you are not gay. there will always be times like this when you will be confused  by friendship over attraction. just let it go.
213779
nothing...we do live in america you can choose what sexuality you are doesnt matter what anyone tells you otherwise! of course if someone is straight they probally thinik your weird..but theres nothing wrong..and dont try to change your sexuality cause some idiot decides to share there opinion  be proud of who you are and what you are\nHope I helped!
899200
Sweetie you have to be who you are...you can't be what people want you to be.. It's a tough lesson..but your friend has to understand that it's not your choice to be gay.  You can't change your sexuality so you will have to learn to accept and like who you are...it's not easy...but the end result can be really great..
124724
If thats what turns you on, go for it. Its your life. Don't listen to the homophobic people in here. Who are they to judge. I bet they all have some kinky habits...
457064
Don't change who you are. Your not committing sin for  being Gay so don't worry about it okay.
459432
if you are a guy then put on a pink dress, lipstick, high heels, and a bow in your hair and run down the street yelling "i gotta go pee" or "im gay". make a sign that says "i will be wierd to intertain you for money for a charity drive"
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Jeff Gordon he has the gay-est car.