I like my bro's best friend and I think he like me! How do I get him to like me without letting my bro know?
449086
Your brother is going to find out anyway, its inevitable. If he's really your bro's best friends, you're brother WILL find out. You'll just have to figure that out on your own.
586992
Well the worst thing you can do is sleep with the brother, that is a serious bond. The brother would never let you come between them if it were to come out. Second it is normal to be attracted to this guy ..but do you act on it NO. You just felt comfortable with him he was a different man taking an interest in you . A little crush that's it. If your not interested in your guy just let him go. Don't use him to get close to the brother.
188433
Since your best friend is good friends with him, maybe you could find ways to be around him more.  Be yourself, but make sure that you direct some comments his way!  If you two become closer friends, it will start to become more evident if you have things in common, and will be easier to transition into dating.  I hope it works out for the best!\nP.S.  I got tired of always waiting for guys to make the first move, so I started speaking out a little more, which was hard, because I'm a little shy.  But I had to make sure that they at least knew I was alive. In most cases, they did have an interest as well, which is good because it saved me the pain of rejection. Just don't throw yourself at him or act like someone you're not.
616504
slap him and force him too... lol thats how i get my brother to admit he is gay infront of all my friends ... good times good times
819239
If you and your best friend likes him then he should automatically be off limits to both of you. You don't want your friendship to be ruined over some guy. There are plenty other guys that you will like.....don't risk your friendship
702076
Does she know you like the guy?  \n\nIf she does...\nleave it on the guy to see if he is interested in either of you.  If he chooses you, she needs to respect that.  If he chooses her, you need to do the same.\n\nIf she doesn't...\nbe honest with her.  Tell her you are also attracted to this guy.  But assure her, if he does have feelings for her, you will respect their potential relationship.  If this guy hasn't professed feelings for her, then you haven't done anything wrong for liking him.  You can't steal something from someone if they never really had it.\n\nBut you need to be honest and respectful toward your friend.  This guy may come and go.  But you don't want the same to happen with your friend.\n\nBest of luck.
497440
if you guys are best friends then there might be a chance that he might be thinkin the same way as you. build the courage and just tell him your feelins. if he's really your best friend then he wont hate you, or avoid you.
52785
tell him that you are not interested dating him but rather being his friend. or you could just flat out tell him that you like his bestfriend.
204588
Woah there is alot of "liking" going on here...sounds like a middle school love triangle....that's cool. Just remember this, there will be plenty more of him liking you, while he likes your best friend, but she likes this other guy, and he thinks he shouldn't like niether one of you...so he decides to like your sister, but your sister doesn't want to hurt you becuase you like him, in the future.
157488
If u dont like him, just say I like u but not in the same way you like me, maybe if you hung out with him, u might find out u like him like him. I did.
558479
it's ok, girl! life goes on. see if there might be another boy out in the world you like..\nbut if this keeps happening (which i really really doubt that is possible), MAKE UR MOVE!! dont be shy, MAKE HER LOOK BAD!! unless she's like your best friend, or something, but try talking to him a little bit! \notherwise, idk what to do...
219121
well since she's ur best friend u can tell her anything right? tell her dat u like this guy then the both of u figure out a solution to this problem together. if she decides to 'bac off' then tell him u like him.
132737
Tell your friend that you like him and hopefully she will be nice and not push you out of the conversation. Does he know that you like him? If not, you won't know if he likes you if you don't tell him. If he only likes you for a friend it just means that someone better will come along later. Good luck :o)
121525
Ok blue, i know how u feel, so talk to him about your feelings. A guy friend of mine liked me but i didnt cause i just like him as a friend, just like what ur going through. It sucks i know, but i went up to him and asked him if we can talk and so i told him i dont have the same feelings for you. Plus ask him if he is willing to put your guy's friendship on the line if u guys go out, you know what i mean? You guys are probably good friends, right? I know u dont want to loose that,so let him no that. Speak ur mind and he should respect that no matter what.
1073436
Well, I think, if you guys are really good friends... tell him. Let him know how you feel about him. maybe he don't even know you like him like that, so he hasn't noticed you... tell him... what's the worst that could happen... you get him?
920051
Tell your friend first how you feel about him.  You don't want to lose your best friend over a guy.
913311
well u are right, they both are important. But think about it, if your brother dosent want u to like him, then clearly its for a good reason. maybe he sees another side of him that u dont see when they are together at practice. if he was a good guy i think he wouldnt mind you two being together. i suggest u talk to your brother and ask him why it is that he doesnt want u to be with him. If he gives a good reason then listen to him, if he says somethin dumb or he doesnt even know the reason why then just tell him how u feel about the guy and he should understand that he means alot to you. hopefully, he'll come around.