if a man speaks in the woods and a woman isn't around to hear him, is he still wrong?
447827
Yes.  Im sure there will be some woman out there that will hear him and she will call her friend from her cell phone.  Her friend will call her friend whom will call all her friends and it will get back to the "mans" woman before he gets home from the woods.
837276
no one can be talking for him. so i don't think she is putting those words into his mouth. i have dated guys that were separated and i had nothing to do with their relationships with their wives. just because he slept with someone does not mean that he is moving on for her. it was probably just sex. my guess is that he really does want to move. regardless of the other woman.
528572
It shouldn't be this major issue, if you don't want to ask her then you wont know and you should trust what the woman says to you otherwise, why are you with her in the first place. There should be no use of a lie detector nor is there a way to tell other than asking. Same goes for a man, the only way for a woman to know is by asking them and trusting their word.
90688
What does it matter what people think?  What matters is what his wife thinks because there is a marriage at stake here.   Why is the man spending so much time with a single female?  Why is his wife allowing that to happen - if she knows?  \n\nIf it were me, I would follow him and find out what he's doing away from home so much and if I find him with a single woman more than once, it would probably be the end of a marriage.
693474
I would tell him that he is no longer with them, and any problems you guys have, stays between the two of you. He needs to stay away from them. If he needs to talk to someone, he can talk to you, and that is that. No way would I bend on that. How do you know he isn't still sleeping with any of them? I don't trust a man that has to run to another woman. If he insists on still going to them, then tell him if that's where he feels the need to run to, then he should stay there.
459753
Men don’t get subtleties. If a woman has a problem she should tell the man. If she doesn’t say anything then he will assume nothing is wrong and therefore not realize he has something to apologize for. If he even does.
657623
Go with your intuition.  If he can't have a conversation with her when you're there, there's more going on than just conversation when they are together.
60472
I think it is possible to have friends of opposite sex, but what concernes me about your story is that he  is not open with you about this friendship. He should have no problem with you being present during his conversations with her. Another thing is after you get married, friends fade away a little and your spouse becomes a focus of your life, so it is unnatural to spend that much time even with your closest friend. If you have concerns about her, tell him about it, and if I was in this situation, I would insist that he only talks to her when I am around at least for a while so you could see for yourself that there is nothing more to the story. If she is just a friend as he claims she is, he won't have a problem with you being around while he is talking to her. But make sure you keep track of all the conversations you are aware of and see if those are the only ones that appear on the phone bill, but do it without him knowing that you are keeping track for two reasons: you won't come across as insecure and controlling and if he is doing something wrong it will be easier to catch him. I hope I'm making sense. Try not to accuse him of anything right away, just tell him that his relationship with that woman makes you unconfortable and you want to work out a situation that will work for both of you.
412838
is is right if he sexualy harassed her.. if not.. then it's wrong
372334
It is a foolish thought. \n\nHe will be telling her how unhappy he is, and that he and his wife no longer have sex. \n\nHe has the best of both worlds...one at home, and one on the sidelines. \n\nPlus, would you really expect, that he wouldn't turn around and do unto her, as he is currently doing to his wife? \n\nIt is not a good scene....for everyone involved.
536996
out in the woods if you are into the outdoors... you dont have to worry about much if you keep it quiet!!! and it is free!!
631818
I have found it's better to be silent, and be thought a fool, than to speak, and remove all doubt. For any man to tell a lady that her butt "sucked" in a pair of jeans, is not only a fool, but a mean, uncaring fool at that. And to do that to a wife???? You need to dump that cruel joker if he told you that.
147778
Heck yeah!! He shouldnt be out there walking the woods in the first place. He should be fixing the car, going to work, and that shower head isnt going to stop leaking on its own!!\n\n(grinning:)
868879
It depends on how many other men are in the woods with him..... Then you will have several wrong answers...lol
720611
Well, that person was making an innacurate assumption. Don't let it bug you. You know you aren't gay. There is nothing wrong with being quiet.
39901
Yes. It would be like saying things don't make sounds because deaf people can't hear it, It still makes sound, just no one is around to hear it.
594425
NO... not really. My significant other said he was going camping with his buddy. LOL hopefully it doesn't end up like Brokeback Mountain. I trust him. Not all men are idiots... Just most of them.