How long do you wait b4 seeing someone else after a long relationship?
441794
There's no time limit,just when you are ready to move forward and feel comfortable doing it! Life is short,so go out and enjoy it!!!!
1017324
I don't think there is a certain "time limit" it is more like how well you know the person.. if you like them two seconds afer you meet them... what makes you think you will two years from now...(speaking for long term relationships) Get to know the person and have a group date see how well they react to that before going with them alone.
106789
Back when I was an bad boy before I decided to settle down, I would say I wasn't ready to commit. What this really ment was I was after someone else and when that didn't work out I'd exploit my ex by keeping in contact as a back up plan. You can give him a chance but at the first sign of uncertinty I'd toss him cause it will just be a cycle of heartache if you don't
959323
It depends, do you love the ex? If you are unsure then take things slow. Maybe you and the ex could date, hang out etc and get to know each other again. Explore all the reasons you left to begin with, have any of those reasons (issues) been resolved? If not, nothing has changed and you will leave again when the "new, fun" is over.\nMake sure you don't go back just for comfort.
448515
Well u went a yr,,, some people can't even go that long without wondering if they should call the ex, \n\nBut if u want to call just 2 say hi it's cool, if ur calling because ur hoping may be u can get back together with him  be prepared, it's been more then a yr he could have a girlfriend by now. And if u find that out it could hurt all 3 of u, hurt u because u were hoping u could get back with him, u her because his ex is calling after more then a yr and she'll know why your calling, hurt him because  he will having some explaining to do.\n\nSo think about it first.
132474
There's no specific time that one should wait after 6 years of being with the same person.  I would suggest you take time to focus on you for a little while.  Don't be in a big hurry to jump right back into dating.  Use your time now to get your life together and do things that you enjoy.  Mr or Ms Right will come along eventually.
992282
Leave it for a while, 4 months really isn't that long. Leave it till your one year anniversary.\nYou would make any normal bloke run away by talking of living together after 4 months especially a commitment phobic.
441459
If it's been 8.5 years and you two still haven't been married, then it would have never been meant to be.\n\nBroken hearts can last with the most pain for 1-3 months. After that, you slowly begin to forget about it start finding someone new. When you find the new person, you forget everything about your ex except for the tiny spot in your heart where you effected you the most. Everytime you think about your ex that tiny spot will hurt, but other than that you new person should confort you enough to forget about the ex.
893083
Long distance relationships are hard to maintain. I don't think there is a specific length of time you should wait because I don't believe you should wait at all. It sounds like you need to just live your life and not count on this fellow being "the one." Like my Ma used to say-"there are a lot of fish in the sea". If it is meant to work out things will progress but why not get to know someone who lives close. There is a lot to say for building a relationship based on spending time together doing things not just talking or e-mailing each other. LOL
597557
wait at least another year.  Sometimes things dont really come into the clear until you have been with a person two years.
1016098
Let it go.  If it's been six months..just let it be.  Learn from what went wrong & that relationship (something did..since it didnt work out) and apply it to your next relationship.  The "one" is out there somewhere..dont be so wrapped up in the past that you are unable to see him.
706858
It seems like you are still hurting over your first separation. If she wants to separate you might just let her go and take some time to heal. Take as much time as you need to care for yourself before getting involved with someone else. If you are still not over this other separation you may not be ready to commit and it will make your new relationships difficult for you and your partner. If you wait until you are truly ready, I think you will be able to form healthier relationships with others.
413830
How far of an ex is this?  Were you guys serious or just fooling around?  Either way, I'd say not.  There are so many men out here you haven't been with, what was the point with that one?  Will she even wait until he's an "ex" the next time?  Will she be the reason he is one?
9543
Oh, Geez.  These people are crazy.  The only thing that will help you get over him is TIME.  If you think you were soulmates, you may never get over him, as a piece of your heart has been taken.  Time will still ease the pain, though.  Rumor has it that it takes half as long to get over someone as the time you dated them.  So.. if you dated for 2 years, it will take 1 year to get over him. If you were meant to be together... somehow, somwhere, you will hook up again, and you'll pick up right where you left off.   Chin up... things will be ok.  I promise.
982033
depends. i would probably wait until he surpised me or something. and the moment was right. depends if he is just a f*ck buddy for someone you might see you spending time with alot.it just depends.
374567
First off, did you all of a sudden realize the current relationship was unhappy only when your new savior arrived? Or was it already crumbling? If the former is the case, then the fact is you're looking for something new and need a copout. But if the relationship you had was already on its way out, then let that fall completely out and see how the new thing goes. I warn that this may just become a quick fling. Infatuation in rebound over a long-term relationship occurs extremely frequently. But if that's what must be, then let it be. Just understand that you're probably not on the way to a new romance with the sitter's brother, but rather a stepping stone on the way to recovery with the soon-to-be-ex. I hope that if you take this course of action, you do not end up regretting it and realizing you had it so good with the ex and now it's too late because an impulse got you to think you found something that just wasn't there with an old flame.
286545
You really don't have to wait unless you know she is really hurt and upset.  Just let her know that you know she may need some time to deal with the break up but that once she is ready to date again you would really like to go out with her.