i need tips about dating?
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Hey ^_^ Look, getting the girl (the one who has a heart and soul, yeah, you know her, the one without the paper bag to her mouth when her nail breaks), isn't hard, even when you're not the best looking guy out there. Just be courteous, show some chivalry, y'know. Oh, a nice tip,\nget her online, an IM her, tell her she's the only one you can trust with your little secret (being you have a crush on someone close to her). Finally(and I mean finally, like a couple days after she knows the initial secret (girls are curious by nature!!)), after letting her really get to know you, tell she's the girl. ^_~ It worked on me,lol and we've been together for almost a year now
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If you're looking for one special girl, consider following these tips to get a girlfriend. \n \n   \n \n  \n  Steps:  \n1.   Know what type of girl you're looking for. Make a list of traits that appeal to you, such as intelligence, looks, ambition, sense of humor, or respect for other people's feelings.  \n  \n2.   Resolve old hurts and disappointments. Make sure you're ready for a new relationship by setting aside any grievances about old girlfriends.  \n  \n3.   Attract the type of girl you're looking for by emphasizing your best features and downplaying undesirable traits. Make the most of what you have, both physically and mentally.  \n  \n4.   Learn how to make a girl feel good about herself by taking an interest in her life and her aspirations.  \n  \n5.   Consider any unattached girls at your school or work. Do any of them match the qualities that you want in a girlfriend?  \n  \n6.   Get involved in activities that you enjoy to give yourself the chance to meet new girls. Expand your horizons and your circle of friends.  \n  \n7.   If you have your eye on a certain girl, let mutual friends know about your interest in her. Ask someone you trust to discreetly tell her about your interest.  \n  \n8.   If you don't have the nerve to directly approach a girl who has caught your eye, consider being her secret admirer for a while. Send her sweet, anonymous messages or notes (with a few subtle clues about your identity) to let her know about your interest in her.  \n  \n  \n  Tips:  \n Love can surface in unexpected places and at unexpected times. Keep your eyes open for the right girl for you.  \n  \n  \n  Warnings:  \n Don't settle for anybody just so you can say you have a girlfriend. Be selective to find the right girl for you.
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first, you need to what till you get out of elementary school before you date.\nTwo, when you do take some English classes.
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Just be yourself. Don't allow yourself to be used. And remember some people consider "dating" a job, they are only out to get paid. so be careful . I LIVE by the old saying "treat others as u would want to be treated" if you know u r doing nice things in a mutual feelings relationship you will not only be liked but you will be loved, which lasts so much longer.
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Communication is a good start. Don't be too shy. Make her LAUGH! That's how guys get my attention. Be charming, give her compliments, ask her about herself; like what she likes to do, or her favorite restraunt. Then maybe if you think she's flirting with you, ask her on a date, to the movies, out to eat, anything romantic. It could even be a double date! Those sometimes seem to break the ice a little bit and make everything less akward for your first time!
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I'm guessing you're a girl from your nickname and avatar. \n\nAs a guy, I can tell you that there is nothing more frustrating than a girl who just expects everything to be done for her, and I don't mean picking up the bill, which is okay, but just keeping the conversation going, and making some effort on your part, is a good thing. Asking what you asked just now shows you're one of the good ones :) \n\nIf you do some homework on your date, you can find out what he likes, and then take him to an appropriate place. Best thing is to avoid the awkward silence. Going to a museum, for example, is a place where you can start talking on many things. If that's too brainy for a date, you can go to any place you feel comfortable in, that gives you opportunities to talk(best if it's something you like to talk about). Also, make sure there is a place to eat near where you're going, we always appreciate good food. \nYou can make a good date out of walking in the park, if you manage to keep good conversation. That doesn't mean talking all the time, just keeping him concentrated, and listening. \n\nMake sure it's not something that will be interesting to him as much is it is for you - usually girls like the opera and and ballet and things like that, and most guys fall asleep in those places(if he says it's interesting, he's probably lying). A first date can be some place neutral, that he can like too.
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You can try online dating, just be patient.  I would suggest you try pre-dating (predating.com) or 8 minute dating (8minutedates.com).  That's always a fun way to meet people.  \n\nThere are always single groups on meetup.com that you can join as well. Good Luck
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I just helped a friend with this actually. Two simple pointers:\n\nBe mysterious: This doesn't mean be so vague it's annoying, it just means don't leave yourself completely open to everyone. Be outgoing, but don't give away your life story. If you pull it off correctly, it makes it look like there's a lot more to you than there really is.\n\nListen: Become their friend, ask them how there day was, and pay attention. Don't interject with your own stories too often. (If you do, make it brief to show you empathise, but don't try to out-do them.)\n\nAnd for anything else, I would recommend the dating game articles on outpostnine.
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Don't try too hard, be yourself and your date will feel more relaxed and not as if you're trying out a stand-up comedy show on him. Be mannerly, use body language to your advantage. Subtle mirroring of your date can make them more attracted to you as "we like people that are like ourselves." Eye contact- but not so much that your date feels stared out. Have a positive attitude about the datm not like "this one better last as the others haven't been successful" but more of a cool attitude: "if it works it works, if not, there's somebody else out there for me...." Be interested in your date, but don'e annoy them with too many questions. Don't be over-enthusiastic about what your date enjoys as this could be intimidating. Don't move too fast, its okay not to kiss etc on the first date as you're only getting to know the person, go with your instincts, not the so-called "rules" of dating as they are made for ppl who are too afraid to be spontaneous. Be YOU more than anything, and best wishes with it! :)
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Carefully.\n\nEnter in to some general conversation. Be polite and a gentleman. Try to identify what the two of you may have in common.\n\nThen, with a deep breath...smiles....ask her to join you for lunch.\nLunch is very safe. It is not really a Date..more like having Lunch.\nWe all have to eat.\n\nShould she not accept, no real feelings are hurt...and you save face.\n\nHint: By the time you have approached her, she has already made some observations about you. Women are very observant.\n\nHave a great time at Lunch.
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Be yourself. Go places you enjoy. Chances are you'll meet someone you like. Don't be shy (at least too shy).\n\nI know one place you may not find your b/f...in chat rooms.\n\nGet out and be active.\n\n= )
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be very cautious about online dating, dont jump to conclusions just by knowing eachother online, try to meet in person and know about each other very well, be very cautious....just so that u donot get hurt at a later stage....\ngood luck
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my best advice would be to just go out on a date...it doesn't have to be with someone you're attracted to if that's easier...maybe a male friend...someone you know will me nice to you...so you can see how it should be.  Maybe meeting someone someplace like church would help...or a group in your area for people who've had abuse in their lives.
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Just be yourself. Start as freinds just be nice, but not to nice as to be fake. You have two ears and one mouth, listen twice as much as you talk, chicks love to talk. Ask easy questions and really listen, ask other qeustions based on what they talk about and keep listening. Be clean, do not stink. Brush your teeth, no bad breath. Look neat and put together, chicks are into that and notice. Don't just try to jump their bones, be a freind get close, start dating and it will flow. Remember to be a freind. May the force be with you, good luck bro. xoffice.com
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try giving her a smile and start a conversation. Dont be so nervous! Even if no dating ends up you might make a really good friend Be brave!!
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Don't date online. I have too many friends that have been roped into becoming emotionally invested in somebody they're "dating" online who turns out to be nothing like the person they presented themselves to be. Just stay away from it.\n\nAnd don't worry about inexperience. Most guys your age arn't all that experienced, either.\n\nJust make sure you know that none of the first 5 guys you date are going to be the guy you marry. The thing people learn in those young romances is that falling in love with the idea of being in love only leads you to heartbreak.\n\nI started dating by picking a guy I worked with who was a lot of fun to be around, who had a great sense of humor, went to my best friends' church, and had a reputation for getting around. I picked him because I was ready for a lover, but not for a relationship. That's exactly what we had, and nothing more, and I've never regretted it.\n\nDon't get a boyfriend. Get "guys you're seeing" and then get "lovers" and someday get a "significant other" and someday you'll have a husband. But the experiences you'll be having now are to get to know yourself, to get to know what kind of men are out there, to get to know how relationships work, what you have to put into them, and what you can expect to get out of them.\n\nObviously, your parents had problems. In my opinion, many married couples have problems because they didn't date enough first. Sometimes, they get curious as to what it would be like to be with someone else. Sometimes, they don't realize how much work needs to go into a relationship to keep it going. Sometimes they think they should be getting more out of the marriage. Sometimes they realize that they are with someone who doesn't treat them the was they deserve to be treated. \nThe reason people date when they're young is so that they know the answers before they make a commitment.\n\nSo remember: \njust because you feel strongly for someone doesn't mean you're in love with him; \njust because you don't think you'll spend the rest of your life with someone isn't a reason not to go out with him and have a good time; \nbe yourself: misrepresenting yourself won't ever help you to be happy; \nand you're only young and carefree once in your life, take some chances and enjoy it. \n\nOnce this time is gone, you'll never get it back. Be brave, be forward, be confident in yourself, be a woman.
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All guys have different taste.  Being yourself is the most important thing.  Don't ever change.  You have to like who you are to be likeable.  I'm sure you are a wonderful person, and who wouldn't like that?  Always present yourself in the most honest way, and the right guy will notice you.  Don't be in a hurry.  Enjoy life.  If you are not dating right now, focus on God, your friends, and your hobbies.