what will become of the girl I am in love with? will we ever get married?
435807
The only one who knows the future is God. Don't worry though you'll eventually know.
593191
No you are not chasing an impossible dream. Anything is possible. Hang in there. Nobody knows the future. Just because she considers you as a friend doesn't mean anything. Remember friendship is where a relationship starts. Love takes time and it may be that it is taking her longer to except her feelings. Just because she doesn't say she doesn't love you don't mean it wont happen. Good luck to you hun. I know you will find happiness.
263527
Don't rush, and if she's ready to marry you then she wouldn't be afraid to tell you anything.\n\nJust be good friends for a little while.
816916
Enjoy it! It's so sweet. It seems you have fallen in love. I don't know if I would help you if I could. I guess try really hard to focus on what you're doing. breath.. focus.. and get addicted to the work/thing you need to do. You can keep thinking about her after you're done.
802244
Go for this relation slowly. The girl is young and she may scare out if she sees you at her doorstep with a ring saying "Will you marry me?". So, easy and nice.
1104978
unfortunately if she is in love then there is not much hope for you,as much as it can hurt you the only thing you could do is be her friend and try to move on maby one day things might take a turning point but dont wait for it because if she is truley in love then she is happy and you cant intercept that
623983
No one can tell you that. Only you will know. If the feeling is right, and you know you want to be with her for the rest of your life, then you are prob. in love. But only you will know when it happens
185148
It sounds like it could be love to me...\nIn my experience love is always enduring.  There's been girls I've felt incredible about and had a great time with, but it wears off anywhere between 6 weeks and 6 months.  Of course everyone is different, and I don't know how long you've been dating, but if you still feel this way after 10 or 12 months I'd say it's most likely love.  You'll be able to look past all of her weird little issues and accept them and love her anyway, and you won't be able to imagine life without her.\nIf you've been dating her less than 4-5 months, then it's still possible that this feeling could wear-off.  I know I wouldn't feel right planning on marriage before having known her at least 1 year.  A lot can develop/change in the first year, for better or for worse.  Good Luck!
438375
If you are postponing proposing I'd say you aren't yet ready to take the step of getting married. It takes a lot of courage to admit that. It doesn't mean you don't love her. I imagine you do love her. You just aren't ready to take the step of getting engaged. If she's truly ready and you are not, then you need to talk about it. You may have to set her free if you don't think you'll be ready for a long, long time. You both need to be honest with each other about what you want out of this relationship and act accordingly.\n\nAlso, talk to God. Pour your heart out to Him. Ask Him if marriage with this woman is what He wants you to do with your life. Listen with all your heart and soul for His loving guidance. God Bless.
1099911
hi there, this must be a huge dilemma you're facing. i have experienced this before, i'm 19 and probably you would think that i'm too young to comment or give you advice on this but this would be my sincere reply to your question. firstly, is this a mutual feeling? does she love you to the extent as you love her? you mentioned that she loves you as a friend, have you confronted her and made your feelings towards her known? it would be best if you know how she really feels then you can decide on what to do next. if she loves you, and you love her too, and both of you are happy with each other's company- why let go when you can grow and allow a beautiful relationship to blossom? but if she doesn't love you in a romantic way, it is definitely advisable that you let go before it's too late. allow yourself to meet new people and give your chance and someone out there a chance too. it will take more than a short period of time to get over her and resume to the "just friends" status but it will do you good. if she's unsure, give her time to think about it. i hope what i said made sense, there's too much to speak on this. i hope that all will go well and you're able to come up with a solution. do not let this issue put you down, alrite? there are many other beautiful individuals out there waiting to be discovered. and i'm sure that she is also a special person.
285607
Sorry to say but you are shallow and might be incapable of true love, at least not at this time and certainly not with this girl.  If you truly loved her, she would be the most beautiful woman in the world to you.  So you obviously do not. Don't marry her as you would be taking away her chance at true happiness with someone who will treat her like the goddess that she is.  You give us real men a bad name!
672607
I think there could be a chance. If she is only "kinda" dating this guy then there certainly won't be wedding bells anytime soon. Keep showing her that you're interested but don't be too full on and scare her away. Play it cool and see what happens. Keep your options open though. Plenty of other girls out there!
180688
first of all, picture yourself in her place, predict her next step, and know what to do..\nthen, get to know some of her closest friends, and tell them that you love that girl and be honest,, i'm telling ya if u are not honest, you'll fail.., then, tell those friends, the first time you saw that girl (the one u love)\nand how u felt about her, and how u still feeling and that her love is growing each second in u...\n\nwhen u be with the girl u love,, 1) be cute , (2) be funny (but dont make fun of her at first,, this comes later when she loves u), (3) be generous, (4) be clean, and neat\n5) she have to love your personality (be a man), (6) dont let her make the decisions for you always ( for example dont always say: as u wish, or as u like, ( make your own decisions)..\nat the end, keep connecting with her friends and tell them love stories about you and your girl...\n\nand i hope she will eventually fall in love with you..
122481
unrequited love sucks ass!!!!\ni too am in your boat all you can do honestly is try and stay friends and if something happens which it could quite possibly  could let it happen but remember dont throw yourself out there untill you know she has fallen for you.\nbe yourself and lets hope it wotks out for both of us.\nhope is a great thing my friend and anything is possible
1056558
To your first question: it just happen we don't make it and when u fall in love, u just have to tell the person your true feelings for him and it's after that that u'll know if he share the same feelings for u.  Before jumping into a marriage, u must know him well and see if you wud be adapted to his character.  When u'll be sure enough then what will happen next will just happen all by itself.
215026
Living my life, huh?  I hated it...had the most gorgeous girls around me....asking for advice, crying on my shoulder, spilling their hearts.  I wanted to grab them and shake em and say...I"M HERE!!!!!  The things that make you attractive to these girls, as friends, will serve you well in the future.  Let the world call you gay, you be yourself!  Who cares if the furthest you've ever gone with a girl is holding hands?  (besides yourself, i'm sure)  One day...may be next week, year, 5 years...whatever...there will be someone who appreciates all those qualities in you.  They will appreciate your purity, your ability to listen, etc.  A marriage is a partnership, a friendship, it's love.  You can't force it my friend, it happens.  Most often, in my life anyways, when I least wanted it or expected it.  Sometimes, it even became feast or famine.  That was when my integrity, my loyalty, my trueness to myself had to come through.  I haven't always made the right choices, but am very happily married now to my life mate, my partner and the only woman who could ever love me for exactly who I am.  It will happen for you too.  You may need to be hurt as you seek that person, they may reject you as a partner for them, but that is good.  You want someone to love, accept and respect you for who you are....nothing less will do.  Hang in there Bud and be true to yourself and who you are.  It will get better.  Hope this helps a bit.
372037
love will just come in ur life..u can never find it! it will just come unexpectedly! u cant just teach ur heart to love that girl..just let ur heart do his job! and im sure when the time comes that u find it,it`ll be the perfect love in ur life!