how can I be more confident ? tips please ?
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First, stop caring. Yes, I know its hard but let it go. Remove yourself from negative influences that put you down like family and friends. Minimize your time with them and get rid of them. Smile, fake happiness until you feel it. Establish goals that aren't people related. Goals that are hard but ones that you are able to accomplish, a new career position, better physical conditioning, knowledge etc. Believe you are the greatest thing in the whole universe.
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Have confidence in oneself. God bless*
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The best advice that you can get in a situation like this is going to come from a trained professional--a therapist.  It just might help you find a way to excel on your own, and find the confidence to be anything that you want to be.  Gl, be strong!
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Find some confidence.\nIts pretty simple if you can overcome fear of rejection.\nBe fairly direct. Just ask.\nSecret:  Girls(women) are attracked to self-confidence.\n\nBut also be real, dont lie.  It is much easier to be yourself than someone else.
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Of course! Everyone is attracted to confidence and when you take a leap and make a move, you exude confidence! Listen to that little voice inside and hurry up! Best of luck to you!
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Have confidence!  You can fake it till you make it, but you should look as though you are comfortable in front of that crowd.  Now, how do you begin to gain that confidence?  PRACTICE - the better you know your stunts, cheers, dances, etc. the better you will do.  You should know the moves so well that they become second nature to you.  Then, when the moves are ingrained and easy, you can concentrate on your facials (smiling), voice control (loud and clear), and your attitude!  It is hard work, but VERY possible.  The better shape you are in, the better.  Practice in front of the mirror or video yourself to see what needs improvement and what you do well!  HAVE FUN!
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Confidence is something only you can determine. Being confident and feeling confident is two different things. Like say, if you wore a glamourous dress for prom night, you would most likely feel confident?..yes and no, It's up to you, you may be the prettiest girl, but if you think u're not, then there you are. But you may be wearing rags but at the same time have the confidence of a princess. Confidence is something only you can choose to have. Yes, there are times where circumstances make it hard for us to be confident. And one way to build confidence.. is everytime you look in the mirror, say something nice to yourself, make it a chore, every morning, say something nice to yourself, even if you don't feel like it, smile and say something nice to yourself, cause many times we don't realize it but we actually criticize ourselves a lot. Owh and be confident. Ask God to give you confidence, pray, and trust me, this is a sure way to be confident, cuz as we know, God will never deprive us of anything good and right for us. And if confidence is something you need, u can be sure God will give it to you. So when you pray, You can be sure you will have confidence, you may not feel confident immediately, but you just have to trust yourself and God that you are confident. Like for instance, maybe a real life story would make things a lil easier to understand. ( I used to be a person who had no confidence at all, due to many harsh circumstances, and because I thought I didn't have confidence, I shyed away from people, and because of that, people started not to talk to me, which made me lose even more confidence. Then one night, it struck me that God was always there for me, and He's nvr deprive me of anything good or right for me, so I asked God for confidence, being sure that God had given me confidence, I began to trust that I had confidence and talked to people, some ignored me, but some became my friends, and because of that I gained even more confidence." So all in all, what I'm trying to say is confidence starts in you, and all you need to do is to ask God to give you the confidence, then belive in yourself, and walah, You'll be a changed person. Owh and just soemthing to encourage you if hings don't happen in a snap, "It took me at least a year and a half to build back my confidence.".... so owh well, thats all for now... be confident !..
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Just have courage and you'll start to fell more confident in yourself
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just be nice, not 2 needy, have confidence in ur self. & beleive me it will come 2 u
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darrrrrrrrr lagta he, to chhod do use, its all abt confidence. be a man, buddy
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THER Is A Contridiction here.IF YOU WERE TRUELY CONFIDENT YOU COULD not BE EASILY INTIMIDATED> CHECK YOUR SELF-ESTEEM. CHECK PLEASE OH WHILE YOU ARE AT IT CHECK TO SEE IF YOU HAVE ANY MONEY CAUSE THAT WAS A PRICELESS ANSWER>
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Practice. That's the main thing that will help. I have that problem, and it helped me to remind myself that the person I am talking to is just a human - exactly like me... absolutely no more special, and therefore should have no power to make me nervous. Another thing I do that has helped is observe people with really good social abilities. It doesn't exactly make you more calm, but it shows you more options of how to act in situations when talking to people - which over time will make you more confident in yourself as you become more comfortable with the "talents" you've learned.
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Be confident and don't talk alot...
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You need to become more confident, and decide that people want to have you around.
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CONFIDENT CONFIDENT CONFIDENT
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try a few new things. as you bebecome sucessful at small tasks your confidence will grow
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Hold your chin up high and be yourself.  When you start losing your confidence, take a deep breath and think only positive things and happy thoughts.  It really works.