how do i let her know i forgive her for breaking my heart?
441424
Wow, that person with the whole exes are like poison has some serious issues.  Trust me, I've never had an experiance like that in my life, so I think he's just a little bit out there.  Re-infected every time you talk to an ex?  WTF?  Can we say "can't move on"?\n\nI've been able to remain friends with many of my exes, but I think part of that is because most of my break ups were mutual.  I think that if you got dumped by her, it might be harder.\n\nI would suggest writing her a letter or email with whatever you want to say.  Tell her that you were really hurt when you broke up, and you just wanted to say that you've made your way through it and would like to see if a friendship between you would be possible.  Then the ball is in her court, if she doesn't respond, then don't push the issue further.  If she gives you a call or send you an email back, have coffee together and talk about what has been going on in your life since the break up.\n\nJust don't have coffee and re-hash the break up, I doubt your ex wants to do that and while it might make you think it will feel better, in reality it will probably just make both of you uncomfortable.  If you start feeling like a friendship is making you feel worse, then its not the right thing to be doing right now.\n\nWork on building a new friendship with an eye on the future, not on the past.
247805
Just put some distance between the two of you. If you can't forgive, at least don't throw it in your friend's face. That'll just keep the anger strong and even make it grow.\n\nTell her(him) that you're hurt, and that there's no room in your life for her(him) right now.
325310
Depends on what you did to her. Give it time: she won't be able to get over something major overnight. Write her a note telling her how wrong you were & sorry you are. Give her flowers. Good luck!
1046968
Yeah you should defintaly send her some flowers and a card that says I"m really sorry.  You know make her feel like shes the only person in the world that matters to you!
390755
Recover by turning around and walking away.. then wait for her to call you to apologize.\nif she never calls, she's a c**k tease. don't waste your time.
752516
Apologize again- letting her know you are not trying to get back together, that you just feel sincerely sorry for what you said and that it was uncalled for etc. She may be worried that she'll have to do the rejecting bit again, and no one likes that!
598491
If you apologized and you were sincere, there is not much else you can do. Did she forgive you? Maybe you can just keep being nice and take her somewhere special to make it up to her. Most important, trust her. Possesive men are scary. Show her that you trust her and maybe not call her too much. Let her have some freedom. Good Luck.
634945
That is awful, there is no room for that. You are precious in God's eyes, and love is what God offers to you. I would go up to the person that has hurt you, and tell her that you forgive her for all the mean things she has done to you. A gentle answer turns away wrath, so forgive her, and I would talk to the counselor as well. You should not be treating like that, but do tell her that you forgive her, I bet it will be something if you tell her that.
193640
If you really mean it.. let your emotion go in a personal one on one conversation and cry. \n\nAllow your heart to let your eyes weep and feel the remorse in your soul so you will never make that mistake again by remembering the pain it brought you and the person you are sorry to.
785403
The best thing to do is to tell her how you feel and apologise if neccesary.
106638
the only was is to get her to listen to you and it seems that she is not ready for it. you might forgive her but may be she did not forgive herself. \nyou have to do anything you can to find her address and phone # she might not even check her emails....
427480
well what did you do.. if you dont want to say it online, that i fine, but you should give her some time!! b/c running up to her right after it happened is never a good idea!! jsut let her some time to breathe and then try again!! let her kno that you are really truely srry!! try giving her a present or a card or something that tells her how you feel!! adn then.. dont ever do it again.. unless you really just want her to NEVER forgive you!!
554173
if you are truly sorry she should forgive you as long as its not something like you cheated on her. Tell her to her face and not in a letter that may have a better outcome. If she does not know who you are when you call tell her. Its no big deal some people sound different on the phone then they do in person. If you are honest with her and she shares your feelings things will work out just fine. Good luck.
190378
Lies are always the worst course of action, ALWAYS.  So, what do you do?  You have to accept it.  You lied to her and there's no way to erase it.  Apologize to her.  Tell her you know that it was wrong to lie to her and that you're very sorry.  Try to explain to her why you lied.  Don't make it about how you were afraid of her reaction -- make it about how you were too cowardly to stand up and be honest.  She'll appreciate that more, but if she doesn't want to hear it don't force it on her.  Tell her that you understand why she needed to break off the relationship, but that you still love her and you will do everything you possibly can to rebuild the trust in your relationship, even if it is just to have the possibility of having a best friend in her because she is worth it.  Then DO it.  Let her vent to you about if she needs to... if she snaps and says something cruel and hard to take like, "It's too bad you're such a liar..."  Even though it makes you feel indignant and unfairly judged, don't react to it.  You broke her heart and to her heart, you are a liar...   Apologize if she does that, and tell her you never meant to hurt her, you were just afraid you weren't up to her standards... \n\nEtc, etc, etc...   Oh, and don't do any of this if you're not genuine (i.e. a liar).  She doesn't deserve any more heartbreak...
1113286
i think you should try to talk to him in a nice way... be sincere and know effective ways on how to talk to him. its just a matter of right conversation. i believe that everyone of us is capable of committing mistakes so never give up on making him see that you're truly sorry for what you had done to him. i think you can do it...
577852
sit down with her and tell her how sorry you are and how dumb you were  for acting the way you did , and tell how much you love her and you won't be an ass like you were again .
480847
if she doesnt forgive you just forgive yourself and go on.some people cant take constructive criticism.maybe she can forgive you.i wouldnt loose any sleep over it ok.good luck and keep your head up. =)