My bf loves to talk about sex, any opinion why is he like that?
439613
Boyfriends and girlfriends always talk about sex. It's natural and normal.
876655
Tell him to get of the past and that you don't like it when he talks about past relationships. Because no one likes it when the person they are dating talks about past relationships. If he continues doing stuff that annoys you leave the relationship. As for sex if you don't want to have sex don't if he really wants to be with you he will wait and if not he will leave but it's no real loss there are plenty of guys out there.
748036
Maybe it's tiring him out by wanting it that much. Different people have different sex drive levels. Stop doing it so much? Or try asking him why.\n\nAnd yes, it is normal. :)
725524
It sounds like he wants to tell you but is a little afraid to. I think its kinda nice that you can both still talk together. If he thought you were trying to control him then he wouldnt tell you at all.
531616
Openly talk about this with him, what kind of relationship do you have if you can't talk about sex, if you both can't talk about it then one or both of you aren't ready for it.  If he wants to wait, learn to masturbate.  If you aren't happy after this, dump him, why waste your time in a relationship if you aren't happy with it.
54480
He might be ashamed to admit his fantasies to you, especially if they're considered "taboo" by general society. Trust is often something that has to be built and earned. My boyfriend and I share everything, but it took a while for us to get to that point.
463992
Oooh thats a toughy.  You don't want to offend him.  Maybe try suggesting new things...Or you could just flat out tell him out of the blue (not during sex)
567163
Dear heart,\n\nIt is more normal than most men would be able to admit.\n\nYour bf is an honest and fairly courageous guy to confide in you about this.  This is unusual and might be a good reason for you to invest more time in him.\n\nWomen check out other women constantly and this is not regarded as "abnormal".\n\nMen are also human, usually more human than they are able to admit.  \n\nAnd times are different now.  The older generation of men could not possibly own up to what your bf is saying.  He is actually with the times pretty well.\n\nAnd even if he is sexually attracted to certain other males, it does not mean he is not a good partner for you.  \n\nTruth be told, a LOT of males are sexually attracted to certain other males at times.  Most do not admit this to themselves, and it festers and screws up their relationships.\n\nSo I think you do have a bf who is honest with you about important things.  And that is a good thing.\n\nHope this helps.
434120
No judgment, but, during sex is probably not the best time to bring up something so sensitive. Perhaps she might discuss it with him before or afterwards (if she wants to give it another try) - maybe she can guide him as to how he can satisfy her - that's up to her (it really depends on how much she likes him OUTSIDE the bedroom). \n\nIt's a delicate issue, but I'm sure she can find a way to deal with it without completely demolishing his ego (there is a risk of that).
593563
He wants to see where you are at in terms of sex. If you are uncomfortable with it, let him know next time he brings it up.  If he doesnt call you anymore, or only calls you once in a blue, then he just wanted to get in your pants.
657618
Back off him for a bit for starters, he's probably exhausted! No men like being badgered into more sex, the pressure sucks and doesnt make it very enjoyable. FInd out when he likes doing it, try different things, get that spark back, just try asking him what he wants/likes!
927680
He likes the fantasy...and if truth be told, we all have our own fantasies..there is nothing wrong with that. But most times fantasies are best kept to ourselves...it rarely serves any one well to share them with our partner.\n\nWhat IS definitely wrong is if he keeps asking you once you've told him no. Let him know it bothers you and that you find the question disrespectful to you AND your relationship. If he really loves you he will understand that and learn to keep his fantasies to himself.\nIf he keeps asking, he may not be the guy to plan your future with hun.\n\nxoxoxo
82607
you need to talk to him, because to me it seem like either you are losin interest in him or you want more than just sex from him and it seems like thats all he wants..... you need to talk to yah man gurl!good luck
514194
People might just have different sex drives.\n\nI have two questions for you.\n1. Do you love him?\n2. How important is sex to you?\n\nAnswer these two questions and you might be able to figure out what you need to do.
1173264
I have the same problem...my bf is like that...he thinks it's a serious thing, I think it's because he feels like if I do that then he isn't satisfying me himself, so it's kind of letting himself down. That's all that I can come up with.
446427
I am not intimidated by toys, actually, it's refreshing to speak with a woman who can be open about her sexuality.  On that same note, I think it's very important to communicate with your partner- non-communication leads people to fill in the blanks, and that's where jealousy, paranoia, and anger creep in.\n\nDon't feel guilty, but don't think him odd for his insecurity.  Talk to him about it.
655333
Thats because he is worried abt the commitment .Men usually are like that .. so take it easy .. dont talk much abt it ..