Why do men cheat and then want you back?
440535
my god, i no totally ask myself the same question!it happened 2 me, but my bf was a complete minger , but i was blind2it!and he cheated on me and then dumped me over a txt!but now wen he sees me, he really wantz me back! and is totally gutted at what he did and wot he lost!personally i think the answer 2 ur question is just that they dont thhink and end up doing stupid stuff, but wen they realise the consequences they want the gud stuff bk!dont get back with him, show u are worth so much more than that and how dare he cheat on u! he made his decision and now hes gota cringe! just enjoy the satisfaction!
313756
because men have a double standard, they want to do it with everything but they expect you to be faithful and be there when they come back.
716899
Once a cheater always a cheater...forget about whether he likes or not but think about what kind of person he is that thinking about going out with you while having a girl friend. He has to finish the relationship and then move on to you.What! Is He holding the girl he's dating as a back up...or he's thinking you as a back up!
271569
some people like to sabotage their relationship by saying things like that so that one day, when you are finally pushed and do cheat or leave him, he can say, "you see, i told you so!"  it's a twisted way of thinking, but it's a defense mechanism like they're preparing themselves for it to happen.  he's obviously been hurt before and he really shouldn't take his frustrations out on you.  all you can do is be open.  those who have nothing to hide, hide nothing.
492300
if he cheated while unhappy and attempted to cheat while happy, this guy seems like a serial cheater. some guys are like that. no matter how happy they are in their relationship, they just need attention form other women. you deserve better than this guy.
144810
i don’t cheat cheat my self if i am with you i am with you (i look but i never touch)\n\nAllot guys don’t have control their feelings enough so think before they act specially at a younger age, they don’t realize that their actions will hurt those they love but there are those who do it just because they are jerks and think they can get away with it.\n\nif he cheated on you and you forgave him he is most likely to do it again so be careful. if he cheats on you make him see how upset this makes you but don’t let him back in your life too easy make him show you he is worthy of you and that he wont cheat.\n\nwhat good is a relationship if is based on lies.
2019
if he almost cheated then make him want you back but keep your eye on him
1003546
he know's he did the wrong thing by dumping you. he's probably trying to act like he is in control. and it's obvious he still likes you but won't admit it coz he's a guy and wants to act like a 'man' and 'tough' n all. all i know he wasn't thinking when he dumped you and did something very stupid. \non the other hand he is also jealous when you talk to other guys or other new guys take an interest in you.\n\nb happy ur free n single coz he lost you now ;)
1042141
That is so classic. He wants what he can't have dude but if he gets him the thrill will be over and he will be back in a bad relationship. \n\nIt's all about the chase and being jealous because he sees your boyfriend as moving on.
299134
because men want a get away from what they already have...its common !!!
823407
I asked my boyfriend the same thing.  We have mutual friends and one of our friends was cheated on by her boyfriend, and it brought up the conversation.  What he said was that men like the feeling of "getting away with it" and that they want their cake and eat it too... they want the best of both worlds.  It's not necessarily the fact that they don't tove their significant other anymore, they just want more out of the relationship, and their mate isn't providing it.\n\nMen are more prone to cheating, I think because they have a keen sense of keeping it on the down low, I think women are more afraid of getting caught adn risking it.  The difference between men and women is that men think short term, the now, while women think of down the road, the future, and what exactly they are risking...\n\nWhile this is only my opinion, I think you should ask people who've cheated.  And me being one in the past, I'll tell you, its just for the fun of the ride.  I loved my ex very much, why I cheated on him, I'm not sure...\n\nIt was myfault for getting caught though... lol. :)\n\nHope this helped!
29306
I think some husbands cheat on their wives for the same reason why all men cheat... they want to see if the grass is greener in other pastures. They may not be getting the attention they want at home or they may simply just be jerks and not care about their wive's feelings.
575062
i hate to say it but men are selfish...i think they will always continue to cheat because they just cant control themselves if another woman happens to show interest. if he cheated once yeah he prob will cheat again but its not ur fault he just doesnt respect himself how could he respect you?
755853
The person above is right, he is just using you.  Besides if he talks to you like that when he wants you back, how is he going to treat you once he has you.
182356
I was cheated on once in my life and it wasn't a fun experience. I believe women and men cheat for different reasons - guys usually cheat for sex or different sex then what they are getting, and women usually need more of an emotional attachment. This is totally my opinion and not necessarily true in every situation.  I also believe that once somebody cheats and a trust is broken, it is very hard to remain in that relationship and be happy.
667796
well it is because you love him and you are use to him and you dont want the relationship to end and its just like other things in a relationship you think it can be fixed,cheating in a serious relationships destroys it you no longer can trust that person and it causes alot of emotional pain and guilt on both people it really is a selfish act on that persons part too but us as woman are the ones that try to fix things and we have the mother instinct so that is why we put up with alot of bs but usually after cheating a relationship doesnt last and if it does it is never the same it has been broken in two it is sad but you will find someone else someday just dont put up with it a you will grow from this experience good luck
646505
The reason is that he is probably still cheating on you. And thinks you maybe doing the same. It's called a guilty conscience.