how do u ask a guy out..whats the best way? and 2 the guys-do guys prefer to be asked out or to ask??
438097
If a woman asks me out, that would earn her many, many points. She would not be turned down.
1034594
Just ask them out.\nThe fact that you ask a "nice way" means that you are trying not to get turned down. DOn't look for a manipulative way to ask someone out......your perfect and if they don't recognize that or want to take the time to, then it's their loss.
777724
Just ask the dude out!
657151
Since both you and this guy are rather shy you will have to get over your shyness in order to talk to him directly. You don't have to ask him out, but start to really talk to him and get to know him. Build up a "talking" relationship where he feels comfortable talking to you and you feel comfortable talking to him. When you're at that level you can see how you feel about him then and assuming you're still attracted to him you can move on to possibly dating.\n\nIn general, you should wait for him to ask you out, but there's no problem with you being bold and taking the initiative.\n\nTake things one step at a time, but take the steps!
155024
Come on-the year is 2006.  It is no longer frowned upon for girls to ask the guy out.  Go for it.  He may be too shy to ask you so I'd ask before he moves on.
799165
yes i agree with the other answer ask him or at the very least tell him where you stand,even thought the guy traditionally asks it is the new generation and some guys just dont know how.or also fear rejection..i hate asking people out its tough to know what to say and evryone isnt so easy about whether you sound""nerdy""or not good luck
887439
Guys are flattered when a woman makes the first move, just be direct and walk up introduce yourself and start talking to him. Then if you like ask him out. The worst he can do is turn you down, the best you have a wonderful time. It will be worth it.
151170
One of the oldest questions in the world.... It really depends on age and maturity the guy... I guess you could ask or make the first move and ask him out..IF you are grown up enough to date..
379566
ok, so i'm a girl and if a guy asked me out and were pretty good friends then i would say yes.. the thing is tho that u guys need 2 talk a lot like to each other, and then one day just pull her aside from like something and ask her the big question! soooo romantic i think!!
1032227
if u don't ask and he won't ask then have on of ur friends ask him out for u or ask on of his friends to ask him out for u either way one of u have to suck it up and ask one another.
905869
Guys are funny. \n\nPerhaps you're right and you need to take the initiative... but perhaps he's not prepared to have a significant other in his life due to a variety of reasons- Immaturity, past relationships gone bad- whatever the reason.\n\nI think that asking to hang out is a reasonable request- but if he's as painfully shy as you say- he might say no. This doesn't mean he doesn't like you- he's just too shy.\n\nAlso something to think about- If you're outgoing (I don't know if you are or not...)- then is a shy guy really the best match for you?\n\nAt anyrate- getting to know the guy better is good no matter what- you might find that he's just not the type for you- or it could lead to him feeling comfortable enough around you to finally ask you out.\n\nBest of Luck!
895546
ASK! (that is how I got my man) We flirted everyday and then I just asked if he wanted to go have a drink some time and he took me to lunch the next day.  We laugh about it now (3yrs later) about how I was more of a man than him by asking him out. Go for it girl, worse come to worse he will say no.  You can not live your life hiding go for it. A man likes a women who is not afraid to take risks.
199200
Just ask if he wants to out for drinks some time.  If he declines, then he is not interested, if he says maybe, then give him your phone number.  There's really no worst case scenario, so just ask.
866761
I'm a guy, and let me tell you: we're shy. It happens all too aften that the girl keeps waiting for the guy to ask her out (or to just say something), loses patience, and in the end, she has to be the one to ask him out. And why don't you? \nYou could also create the ideal circumstances for him to ask you out. If you talk about movies, and you mention you haven't seen a particular one, he might get the hint and ask you if you'll join him to see it.\nBut really, he likes you and you like him, why should he be the one to pop the question?
503927
What I would do is something similar to everything that got said before. If you aren't already, be friends with him, get to know him, let him get to know you. If you still feel the same, and he hasn't already done so, you should ask him out. As awkward as it would seem. As a guy that's been asked out in the past myself, I can personally say that this might be the best course of action for you, and maybe een for him.
29415
You have to give a little more detail. Some are too shy to come out openly and ask.\nHay, if you want to go out with him you could come out and ask him if he is asking you out.Honesty is the best way to live. You could just ask him out.\nGood luck
533070
well u shuld ask u'r friendz if they kno and if they don't then ask him u'r self. if he says yes, just say "oh i didn't kno" or somethin' lyk that. if he says no then ask him out u'r self or get a friend to do it for you. it's not that hard, expecially if u kno he lyks u bak.