How do you breakup with your boyfriend for being too jealous?
454369
Jealousy doesn't get any better... it only gts worst.  You don't go anywhere because of the arguing it will cause if you do... That is what he wants, to isolate you from friends and family, that is how he gets control over you, i lived with a jealous man for 5 years, had 2 kids for him, until the day he beat me... the verbal abuse will escalate to physical and it just gets worst, the more you try, the more control he thinks he has over you... my advise, NOW... tell him you have had enough and want out... he will probably try to change your mind but don't give in, it only stps until he thinks you are under his spell again...\nI have been raising my children alone for the past 10 years and realize today that i made the right decision... for them and me.
877422
Don't let yourself get pushed away. Pull away and run from this loser. \nJealousy has nothing to do with love but it has all to do with abuse and control. Things will get worse. You didn't say what kids on jealous behavior he's showing but here's a typical dynamic. \nHe doesn't like you talking with guy friends. \nHe lightly accuses you or a guy friend of making a move or saying something inappropriate. \nHe accuses you straight out that you're cheating on him and makes you plead your innocence. \nHe talks down on your female friends and encourages you to spend less time with them. \nHe does the same with your family members. \nHe isolates you from your friends and has you convinced that since every one else doesn't want to be around you, then he's the only one who loves you. \nHe has you to himself and is free to treat you like trash and continue to accuse you of fooling around. \n\nYou deserve better. I don't know where you are on my dynamics list but it is not too late to protect yourself and leave his immature butt in the dirt.
512991
break up with them and go out with someone else
1166824
Yea. We all do. We imagine how much easier it would SEEM to be if we broke it off b/c of minor things we don't like about the person. You need to weigh the pro's and con's of how you guys are TOGETHER. You're not always going to like everything about him. But imagine if you did break up with him over that stuff, you'd definately just want to go back to him and realize it was ridiculous.
456826
Stop freaking. Wait at least 24 hours. Then call him with some drama. Then break up with him.
1074876
There is no easy way to do this. I wonder though, if you love him so much, why break up? Consider your reasons and then be straight and honest with him. Then go your own way. Good luck with this.
294084
There are no best ways to break up with a partner, specially when he's gonna suffer more than us, it will definetely hurt!\nBut I guess a good way to break up would be to be really honest, to say the truth in a polite way, not to try to make him think things that aren't really true, I mean, not telling him that U don't have someone else if U know that U have him, or not telling him that U still love him but want to be alone for a little while, if U know U don't love him anymore.\nSo... as hard as it is... THE TRUTH is just the best way to make it a little easier for both of U.
265756
Jealousy is a form of insecurity.  You either don't feel like your pretty enough, deserving of him, or you have some other reason to feel insecure.  You need to deal with those issues in order become a less jealous person.
89804
Jealousy is a heck of a demon to fight. Start maybe with trusting yourself and then your man. As trust is one of main cornerstones of a relationship. Sometimes jealousy is warranted, does he flirt alot when you are right there? That can be uncomfortable. Let him know what he is doing, if he does that and how it makes you feel like a piece of garbage, that he pays attention to another when you are right there. Then again some guys are born flirters and heck they don't even know they are doing it until they get in over their heads and someone takes them seriously.. Your self confidence, is by far the most important thing and has nothing to do with jealousy. It is believing in yourself, your dreams and ideals. It really isn't all that difficult and though so many will try to knock you down in life, you just have to get right back up and know that you are who you are and if they don't like it to friggin bad.\n To many are falling for this idea that there self confidence is no good, it is a way to get you into therapy. There are alot of great websites that will just give you a thought a day. It is thinking positive, yeah negative stuff is going to happen, but you know you can pull through it and that is what counts. Never let anyone tell you different
387200
Truth is give it some time...i know how that feels you may feel like "this is it" "my relationship is over" but he'll come around....give him some time to vent....and when he's cooled down you'll know and then you two should sit down and have a civil conversation and explain to him what you meant and what upset him and talk about it...look at it as a learning experience.....how else would you know what your boyfriend likes and dislikes if arguments don't happen...good luck
743097
You agreed to be his friend, but youre acting like a jealous girlfriend. If you cant handle it tell him now.
910611
Hello:\n\nFirst off, I know exactly how you are feeling. My ex-boyfriend and I spent more time fighting than we did simply being happy with each other. It just got to be so frusterating. Ultimately I just decided that something wasn't working because we were arguing about the same few things. \n\nWe decided to sit down and have a serious talk about it. One of our main problems was that he was an incredibly jealous person, and I usually am not. He would get upset if he saw me talking to one of my guy friends. I have never ever been unfaithful to anyone and just could never do that to someone, and yet he always assumed that I was messing around behind his back. \n\nAnd then he would get frusterated that I was such a trusting person, and that I would never confront him for talking to another girl. So he started pushing the limits a little bit in order to make me jealous, and boy did it work. It just seemed that we were spending so much time hurting each other. And we agreed that the relationship wasn't working out. \n\nNow we are both in relationships, and we remain friends. And both of our relationships are much more successful than we ever were together. Some relationships just aren't meant to be. It was through that experience that I realized it isn't enough to simply love someone, there is more to making a relationship work. \n\nI would suggest having a serious talk with your girlfriend. Figure out which things you are fighting about most often, and I'm sure you will find a common thread. Then you need to decide if it's worth it to make an effort to fix the relationship, or if it's time to move on. \n\nI wish you the best of luck, and I hope this helps!
591822
Break up with him again permanently and find yourself someone who will treat you with the respect you deserve.
519725
Run Away Run Away!!!!!!!!!!!!!\nJust remember jealous boyfriend syndrome- side effects may include you getting your face smashed in or damage to vital organs.
716614
ive yet to master the perfect relationship thing.17 years of tring,i can tell you this.being a jealous person can drive youan everyone else crazy.if you are truely in love,then you have to trust this person,if you cant then someone isnt truely in love,so if you dont trust them to go visit this person alone then you may need to be with someone else,plus you should be able to take your partner alone to break it off,with someone else.it just builds a good understanding,honesty best policy
885125
You may be intelligent and you may be in college, but you're acting very immature.\n\nDid you consider when you met his co-worker at the front desk that (1) she may not have known who you were (2) snapping at her to go get your boyfriend was a tacky thing to do (3) she may have a hot boyfriend and not be interested in your bf  and (4) your boyfriend may have cared only for you, but after your behavior in the place he works, I wouldn't be surprised if he's questionning his choice of girlfriends.\n\nThe first thing you need to understand is that jealousy is a blinking red light telling everyone you are major insecure. And the second point is that you are absolutely, 100%, powerless over your boyfriend, his co-worker, and every other human being in the world. \n\nOnce you accept those two things, you can start changing how you behave because, if you don't, you'll be single again.  And, even worse, you'll never have a healthy relationship with any guy.\n\nYou can share your feelings with your boyfriend, but in a calm discussion when it's the right time.  Your fear of loss is creating, by being jealous, the loss you fear most.  He may not have told you much about his co-worker if he's experienced your jealousy before.\n\nAnd, let's say it's worst case, and your boyfriend choses to be unfaithful to you, you cannot...cannot...do anything about it.  \n\nWhat you CAN do is make a choice not to be part of a relationship if your boyfriend  isn't committed.  Stuff happens, our hearts are broken, they heal, we meet someone new, almost always someone way better for us than our lost love.  And maybe that is the plan.\n\nNothing is going to be right for you, no relationship is going to give you what you need.  Only you can give yourself that.  Work on you.  You may still get your heart broken, but that's on the other partner.  You'll move on.  You'll always be powerless over people, places and things and the sooner you accept that in your heart, and stop trying to CONTROL, the happier, confident and secure in love you'll be.\n\nI hope you listen to my suggestions.  I'm a control freak who finally got that I'm wasting my time, hurting myself and others I love, and driving those I love away.  I learned to remind myself, when I felt the old evil eye of jealousy pop up that I'm powerless, that things will be as they are supposed to be, and start taking care of myself so I always have me to rely on.\n\nGood luck.
263861
Jealous is a cute thing at first then it gets old real fast. It will destroy a good relationship, the jealous person should seek help. Its an insecurity that needs to be addressed. In short it sucks.