why cant boys take wat I say bout just bein frends?
448768
its hard just trying to be friends with the opposite sex\nwhen you say u are just trying to be friends they are thinking yeah i no i am going to have sex with her because we are going to be very close and do things together so they think sex is part of the deal
601907
aw man try to understand why and talk this over with them, may be you are sending mixed signals, i have done that, but i am just friendly and others take it the wrong way. just tell them your true intentions and be nice, good friends are really hard to come by! friends rule!
449313
its not that girkls dont want friendship with u its becoz they want boys to be after them then they aceept someone , and else u be shy to be after them ,always , it depends on u , how u behave , but ne honest and self confident u will surely get many , but dont be eager to and i nthat way u may get some  stupid girls as friends
646203
If they make fun of you then they aren't your friends.  You seem to have fun with the girls and later in life, the other boys will envy your ability to get along well with girls...when they are having trouble talking to girls, you will have plenty of girls at your side.  Think of the future..and oh what a future!!!
534788
girl, thats fine to have guys as just friends! I have tons of guy friends that are JUST friends! the relationship that I am in actually came out of being friends with him since Jr. High but I have lots of guy friends!  They are so much easier to get along with and just chill..I love it!! so dont worry about it! thats what my parents thought aslo but then they learned that they were just friends. so keep being freinds with the guys!! and dont let what your parents think get into your head about it!!
313408
I think that these boys were not your friend to begin with and just wanted to leer over your body(you must be gorgeous). You don't need them! Hold your head high and go and find some good friends who like you the way you are. You deserve better than people who judge with looks.Pretty soon you ll get your confidence back and will show those boys up. YOU GO GIRL!!!
680405
some boys are shy and when they get your number they dont know what to say i mean alot of boys "front" in front of their friends but they really are shy deep down...and some boys want a gurls number for the show...to be like yeah i got her number and her number...so you really have to figure out what kinda guy he is.
76696
Some guys are just so unsecure with themselfs that they put up a front. Some are shy etc etc etc etc. Then again some are just jerks that have to put on a show for their "friends" so they do not lose face. If a guy really wants you to be around, he'll do just that no matter what his "friends" think or do.
764977
Youre in high school I assume. Keep in mind these are boys you are dating not men. They will say things without thinking and are still somewhat immature. You should let it go and give him the benefit of the doubt.
858217
Utoh....watch what you say.  Maybe you should bring it up in a light way, like "boy B is such a flirt".  Then let the chips fall where they may.
968886
Maybe you are doing what you might think of as harmless flirting, but apparently your friends dont think so. They think its inconsiderate and disrespectful to them. All you can do is apologize and back off when thier boyfriends are around.
347148
becuz really they like u alot n its too hard 4 them 2 show that side of themselves in front of their friends....they dont want 2 be made fun of or 2 look weak' when in reality, when ur not around, all they can do is talk about how great u are n beautiful n perfect...its just hard or them 2 be so gushy when their guyz are around usually cuz they dont want YOU to think that they are lame!
961892
Gurl, that's a question we all ask!!! But i have a lot of brothers so i can probably help u out. First off, boys have this thing where they have to fit in or they cant look lame or something like that. They have to try n act all hard and gangsta around they 'niggas' or they 'homeboyz' or wateva!!! They have to act like they have control in a relationship wit a gurl, dat's why its so hard to find a really good/loyal/committed boyfriend b/c they alwayz tryna front around their friends. But we as women have to learn to deal with it and get on with life! So just keep ya head up! =)
485355
Being friends w/ someone you really cared about is very hard for guys , I dunno about females. Im talking loved, im not talking a one night stand fling... If these guys are people that were really special at one time , you just have to understand where they are coming from and they need to respect you as well w/ your choices.. Now if they were flings.. lol then you have a real problem
222738
as long as ure born then u can have a boy freind im sure that u have boys that r ure friends!!!!!!!!
105940
Who told u that?Maybe u just haven't meet the right friends yet, just be yourself, be confidence!!
405546
You don't need to be on Y! Answers. You're too young. You need to pay more attention in Spelling class and stop obsessing about what boys think of you.