trouble with boyfriend (again!)?
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Firstly Spending Money Only Helps With His Problems And Does'nt Give Him Any More Attraction With You, Look AT It This Way, If He Way Paying For You And Buying You Clothes And Stuff You Won't Feel Any More Of AN Attraction But A Feeling Of Comfort - Why Not Give Subtle Hints Of Love Through Other Cheaper Means.....I Like Giving Out Notes With "Thinking About You" Slipped Into There Jackets Or So\n\nYou Can Always See Other People And See If There Fun, Remember Though No Kissing But Flirting Is Fine, As it A Selection Process And Not A Sexing Process, You Understand Pretty ALien
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I wouldn't sit around and wait on the call. If someone has to provoke me, that's not a boyfriend. Is he trying to start a fight over guilty feelings about something???? The only way to get past this is to have an honest talk. Why does he provoke you....why is everything "in his hands"....why the hurtful talk....???? Both sides need to be honest with each other and act more maturely and respectfully towards each other.
1146391
I believe this "boyfriend" is a looser and you should dump him.  He sounds quite selfish and immature.
374552
Seems to me the best way to address the situation is to be forthright and talk to him about your concerns.  If your decision is to move on to find someone more accessible to you, then say that.  There is no real way to break up with someone that won't result in hurt feelings.  But to be true to yourself and the most fair to your boyfriend, tell him how you feel and what you want.  Personally, I would recommend doing it face to face, even though it may be uncomfortable.  You may want to continue seeing one another after talking about it, but if it does end, be able to step away knowing that in the long run it may be the best thing for your both.
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Ask him if it's you, or is there anything you can do to ease his troubled mind.  If he says no, then its best to leave him alone, go out with your girly pals until he gets over it.  trust me, once he's sulking all alone in a dark apartment for hours with his pathetic poor-me bullshit, and starts to imagine you playing 3-D naked twister with your girlfriends, he'll get over that imature I-Me-Mine game real quick!
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Tell him straight and dont frequent anywhere you know he will be and if he keeps appearing and harrassing you it would be wise to take out an AVO.  It is proven that jealouss boyfriends do become violent if they can't get what they want so don't muck around get rid of him today.
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Dear Am I Being Unreasonable:\n  I know how you are feeling unfortanely I have been in that same situation but I was on the other side. I had a best friend whom I had forever when I started dating this guy.Well the boy friend didnt like that fact that we "hung out" so much. He "just knew" that we were doing something. Well it turns out he was right we were and actually ended up getting married after a long drawn out process. The point Im trying to make is if your boyfriend is keeping things from you and lying then you dont need him. You deserve better. It sound like he wants his cake and eat it too. A realtionship is built on trust (or suppose to be). I haop that I have helped. I have enclose my email and yahoo messenger if you want to hit back at me !!
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OMG! well then talk to ur boyfriend adn confirm if it's true. then, tell him to fix everything. as for ur friends, ruining a friendship over a guy is so low.,as for u, yes u r caught in the middle because u have responsiblity on both parties, they are both ur friends and it invovles ur boyfriend so what u can do is be the pacifier, pacify the rift if ur friendship really matters to u adn if ur friends are still acting that way, talk to them and ur bf. say what u want and mean what u say., all that stuff.,
706426
Get rid of your boyfriend, not your friends!  He's too controlling and that will create major problems for you later!
815897
Maybe you have deeper problems in your relationship that you don't want admit. Are you sure is everything ok with your bf? Sometimes we use to substitute a relationship with another 'cause we know there's something wrong, so, in your case, I think you need to think about the whole situation and be honest to yourself. Maybe it would help if you look for some professional advice. Good luck, God bless!
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sorry girl they are annoying no matter what ya do!!!  sounds like he feels insecure about the relationship, is there anything you can do to make him feel more secure?  Are you providing him with his love language?  ( what ever makes him feel most loved, etc., gifts, words of affirmation, or acts of service?)  if not try something, anything that will help him know you are still in love with him.
850123
this reminds me of my relationship.. it's hectic. give him some time.. you already apologized to him. Tell him to call you whenever he feels like talking to you. GIve him some time you already said sorry so that's good that you've accepted your error.. but yea goodluck... try not to disrespect each other.. once you disrespect each other then it's really hard to work things out... and remember everyone has arguments... just be straight foward with him and tell him that you already apologized to him and to please not be in a bad mood... communication is the key! goodluck hopefully he's not moody anymore... and ask him why he's moody maybe something else was making him moody :P
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Talk to him and tell him it's not working out.  Try to be cordial and just get it over with.  Dragging out the relationship is just going to make the break-up more difficult and painful when it finally does happen.
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seriously? i know, you know what you should do...but alright...i'll push you some more..\n\nyou have to break it with him otherwise your relationship will all be based on lies which is not good...one of the many purpose of having a boyfriend is to make you happy and not to make you miserable!...so think about it..
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Go out with both of them..what's wrong with that...neither are your boyfriend...you're simply dating!! You won't know which one you are more compatible with if you don't test the waters with both....Girl go have fun with both...hell have both dates in one weekend...LOL
1074488
A liar makes a horrible boyfriend. You might want to consider trading up. But if you want some information, I'm putting in a Website that might help. Hope this helps.
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All these suggestions are good-- I also suggest counseling or therapy. . . Whatever he's angry about, he needs to forgive himself for, or make amends if it's possible.  After that. . . this is what Homer Simpson says, and I don't even like the Simpsons!\n\n"You can't keep on blaming yourself. Blame yourself once and then move on. . ." pretty good advice, now that I think of it.  Finally, your boyfriend is lucky to have you care about him.  Convince him that you both deserve a hopeful future, and that he needs to get help and move on.  Take care. . .