does ejactulating before a physical activity help or hurt?
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if it is a competitive sport it might reduce your aggressiveness. the chinese used to push on the part in-between their balls and their butts to have an internal orgasm to save their sperm. try it right before you have an orgasm.
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"Prostrate" is not a body part; means to reduce to extreme weakness and incapacitation, or to be thrown face down on the stomach.  Unless you're looking for a pretty rough massage, I'm guessing you meant prostate massage, and my advice on that is--gently.  You can use internal or external stimulation depending on your comfort level, and pressure is going to be the most effective source of enjoyment, not patterns of touch, because the prostate is protected by membranes and can't actually be directly touched.  For internal stimulation, I recommend the use of form fitting latex gloves to protect sensitive internal membranes from finger nails as well as plenty of water-based lubricant.  As far as technique: \n"It will not be a good idea for the giver to move their finger in and out of the anus. There should only be one reason for the giver to remove the finger, and this would be to add more lubrication. \n\nThe giver is now ready to seek out the prostate:  this can easily accomplished by crooking the inserted finger upwards, and feeling for a "roundish" to oblong protrusion about 2 inches inside the rectum. Applying pressure to the prostate will provide a variety of sensations, the most desirable of which is the feeling of impending ejaculation. By applying more or less pressure to the gland, the giver will be able to control these sensations; even to the point of inhibiting the receiver from ejaculating. The ability to control ejaculation through prostate massage, allows for nearly unending stimulation of the receiver's genitals. The penis may be massaged by the giver, or by receiver himself, to a point of near ejaculation. Only to be kept on the brink by varying pressure on the prostate. \n\nDuring the arousal cycle the giver may begin to rhythmically move the inserted finger partially in and out, so as to stimulate the rich and super sensitive nerve endings around the anus."\n\nHope that was the answer you were looking for.
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i believe masturbation offers more than just stimulation. it should be part of a sexually active mans game plan. if any of you men have had those days where you are having sex with your partner all day, then you know. the second hard-on last longer because you've already been relieved. thus being part of a game plan. if you don't think you are going to have sex more than once, then stroke it, and relieve pressure. then when you get get your member will not be so anxious.
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It has been scientifically and clinically proven that masturbation does in no way what so ever do any bodily harm!!\n\nThat's an old wives tale, to keep boys from masturbating, and to save parents from the humiliation of walking in on them.
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Connection between ejaculation frequency and prostate health \nhttp://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/4961.html\n\nQUESTION:\nI have been coming across articles on the connection between masturbation, ejaculation, and overall health. I was very surprised about this article from the Cancer Council Victoria in Australia . It was a study that confirmed that ejaculation frequency is important for a healthy prostate. The protective effect was most significant in men in their twenties who ejaculated on average 7 or more times per week. It compared this against same-age men who ejaculated less than 3 times per week. I made a New Year's resolution to pay attention to my body and to ejaculate at least once a day. I feel much better for it and my penis strength and sexual urge has increased immensely. I feel balanced. After a year, I can't imagine going back to my old repressed frequency and probably couldn?t keep from cumming for a whole day if I tried now. Why aren?t people made aware of this need? After getting used to daily +, I often have the urge to do it even more, but hold back. Are there any physical problems with over ejaculating? \n\nANSWER:\nWhat a fabulous New Year’s resolution to pay attention to your body!  Your efforts are worth applauding, as being in tune with yourself and your new masturbation schedule seems to have paid off, as you note that you feel “balanced” and “much better for it.”  Happily, no physical problems are associated with over-ejaculating, so don’t worry about giving in to the natural urge to enjoy and pleasure yourself more often.  You clearly have a strong awareness of the positive effects of masturbation on your body, so go ahead and experiment with masturbation frequency – in this way, you can determine what frequency feels best for you and your regular routine.\n\nYou also ask why people aren’t made aware of the “need” to masturbate often.  Good question – especially in light of the study’s findings that frequent ejaculation helps reduce the risk of prostate cancer.  Unfortunately, self-stimulation – as with most sexual acts – is often viewed as shameful, dirty, immoral, and all sorts of other negative adjectives.  Wouldn’t it be great if masturbation could be seen as the healthy, enjoyable, and beneficial activity it really is, openly talked about and (gasp!) endorsed?  Perhaps one day it will be – with more people like you who are open-minded and bold enough to talk about it in a positive light.  \n\nEnjoy – and pass that article along to friends, family, neighbors, co-workers, and anybody and everybody else!
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that is not true. there have been many studies that report that the male body will produce higher levels of testosterone after sexual intercourse and if might even be a good idea to have a quicky before working out and make sure you eat a protine bar so your muscle can build its self back up after you're done tearing it down.
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reconditioning the physical body is the aswer. the whole should remain healthy in order that all the organs funtion normally. no to viagra but yes to natural foods exercise and therapeutic massage.
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Before or after the orgasm?
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if the problem is you getting off to fast, practice. if you masturbate a few hours before you have sex, you will last longer. if you put pressure on the perineam it also prevents ejaculation, and makes the erection harder. the perineam is the area behind your testicles.
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i have never done it, but i am guessing yea. everyone says it feels good. really, really good.\nscientifically, it should feel good. because your genitals are very sensative and should normally feel good if anything stimulates it. and just the thought that you are having sex, would probably make you feel good too.
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Masturbate before you have sex it will help you to stay hard for a lot longer.\nWhen actually having sex stop thrusting when you feel ejaculation is starting and think of something not exciting till you've calmed down enough to start again.\nDo a lot of foreplay so that way you are satisfying your partner as much as possible, it will help lessen the guilt feelings.\nSee the doctor as it may be a medical problem which could be sorted very quickly
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One thing my guy tried was right when he felt he was going to ejaculate, he would tell me to move to a different activity or position. That way, it gave him a few seconds to relax, and then he would have to take more time to get it to be erect again. Also, you don't necessarily need a girl to help practice; that's one advantage of masturbation. There are also alot of books on this that most regular book stores carry (sex, masturbation, erections/orgasms, etc). Or look online for sites about it as well. Plus, if that's the only reason women are with you is for sex, then forget them. You sound mature, and you don't need people like that who are only going to use you. Well, I hope that helped.
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It might be wise to consult with your doctor first or even a little research on the net.  But, in my opinion, I don't think it would hurt a thing.  It's noninvasive.  I'd do it if I wanted.  But, remember, ask the doc to be sure. It would take a few minutes to ask and you wouldn't be worrying about it which could in turn effect you sexual satisfaction
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I've had mine done and it doesn't really hurt that bad.Some places will numb you before they Peirce it.Just remember to practice good hygiene and NO SEX for at least 2 weeks to allow for healing.If you want to numb it yourself......use orajel or some other teething remedy.
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Yes. It can actually stop any "stiffness" necessary to get started.\n\nThe easiest way...More foreplay, find ALL of the erogenous zones, and take the time to build up the feelings.\nDepends on his shape...\nIf it bends up - him on back, you sitting up on top.\nIf it bends down - doggy style.
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Yes it does hurt the first few times. If you are nervous or scared it might make it hurt worse, and make sure you are not dry down there. If you are you might need to use some extra lubrication.
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Nothing as natural as this is harmful in any way whatsoever.  Us guys right after this, though, lose interest almost immediately and like to relax.  That is not the same as feeling weak.  We simply have worked out and then want to take it easy for a bit.