i like my best friend but can't tell them what do i do?
445652
Maybe you should try talking to them. Tell them how you feel, but make them promise that it won't afect your friendship if they don't feel the same way.
897631
have you really tried to sit down with him and talk about the way you feel maybe he just needs a little nudge in the right direction he may not be telling you how he feels because he does not want to be rejected and just remember if you do tell him it may or may not happen and that friendship line would be crossed so think about it really hard before you act upon anything good luck
327203
tell her how you feel. i made the mistake of not telling her. i lost one of my best friends ever. dont let that happen, keep your friend and tell her how you feel.
733579
you are in a very good situition right now. What u can do is to be her best friend. Let her know that she can tell u anything and u will always be there to listen. Then one day she may have a fight with her bf and break up with him so u can tell her that you have been waiting for so long to tell her that you really like her.
583552
well if u really think that u love her u can\nand go speak with ur best friend and tell her that u love eachother and try to make him understand it \nGood luck
259639
If he is your best friend, this question wouldn't be necessary. Best friends know each other deeply. I suspect he doesn't feel the same way you do, but you would like it to be that way. Ask him straight out and expect the truth. A best friend will not lie to you.
605227
If this person is your best friend, then chances are he already knows, and maybe feels a little of the same. it's natural between the sexes.\nDo you want to tell him because you need to nkow if he feels the same? What do you do if he doesn't, and if he does feel something, where do you go from there?? Downhill usually.\nIf there was a strong enough chemistry and bond between you to sustain a lasting relationship, then you both would have had it from the beginning, and gone way past "best friend" status.\nGood luck
588381
you need to tell you friend your true feelings because she may feel the same way be\n\nI know this because I myself am in the same boat and my friend had a crush on me and I had a crush on him but we would say that we were best Friend and not intrested in one another but by lying to the public we lyed to each other
556089
He is playing a game with you....OF COURSE HE MEANS YOU!   Listen a best friend always makes the best relationship....you know everything about each other, and you know how the please the other person....I would just straight up tell him how you feel.  What do you have to lose?  But when doing this, say "listen, lately I have really enjoyed spending more time with you than usualy and I have started to have these feelings for you, I felt you should know b/c you are a friend....and regardless I always want that first...but I do like you, and I hope that something can come out that."  GOOD LUCK GIRL!
40406
You need to sit your friend down and tell her how much you care about your friendship with her. Then after that tell her that you like him alot and you like to talk on the phone with him personaly. And if she cant understand that then you two need to start haging out with other friends. Tell her how you feel about it. Good Luck.
116175
Girl, you HVE TO TELL YOUR BESTFRIEND! Friends will always be friends, it will offend her more if you keep it as a secret. Are you not aware of what they call "Girl's Instinct"? For sure, she feels something and is just not sure about it or is just waiting for you to tell, so go, tell her. You'll see how relieved you will be.
1040810
Aww iv had this problem, what can i say mine worked out i finally got the guy i wanted to be with and we've been together for almost a year now. It's a complicated matter and i know how you feel, its either: let her know how you feel and ruin your friendship or not let her know and keep wondering. I say give it a bit more time it may seem like forever but you must know guys and girls can't be friends cause sexuality and emotions kick in, its a fact. But if u have a good feeling that she likes you back then go ahead and tell her how you feel. Girls hide their feelings very well.
250682
FOR STARTERS, YOU NEVER TOLD US IF YOU LIKE HIM BACK OR NOT!\n\n-----\nI say that if you two are REALLY good friends then you should find a time (wait for a time) when you are both alone and both feeling very comfortable (not cuddling, but sitting on a curb outside or just chillin in the car, talking) and then tell him what you just told us (it seems very innocent to me),  .... tell him that you really like being his friend and for everything in the world you dont want to lose that friendship.  Then say "keeping in mind that i dont want to lose the frienship for anything,  lately we've been spending a lot of time together and we seem to be getting closer and you seem to be ready to come over to my place at any moment and you seem to always want to be around me, and i was just wondering .... what do you think about the idea of us being more than just friends?"  He might say "what do you think?"  Then smile and say "i asked you first."  smile.  ---but before he answers, tell him that no matter what he says, you'll still like him just as much.
127172
There is always a risk in this situation and only you can decide if it is worth it.  One way to get a hint about your best friends feelings might be to joke with them about the idea or claim you heard someone talking who thought you two were together.  Maybe what they say from there will open up a dialog that will give you a chance to figure things out.
135999
You know, you really should talk to him more about who he really likes. Just casually. If you're best friends you should be able to talk about things like that. Maybe he likes you too, but he's too afraid to tell you. And he might think that you might suspect him of it if he gives you a valentine. One day, you're going to have to pop up the answer that you do like him. So, think about the right time you can say those words.
206569
I was in love with my best friend and I told him. He didn't feel the same way as I did but that didn't hurt our relationship either, it actually brung us closer and our bond grew because of it. It's a huge risk to tell her but if you really feel strong enough, I say go for it. Who knows, your best friend could always become the best girlfriend you ever had and if nothing else at least she will understand how much you care about her.
753485
there's this guys that's like my best friend and i'm not sure if i like him or not, but i wouldn't tell him cuz i don't want to take chances with our friendship :P