what do you do when your friend goes out with the guy u like just to get back at you?
438586
First of all, your friend is really petty. She should be mad at your mother for calling her a liar, but if she is one, then she just is one. No need to front, but she is not a worthy friend, she seems trashy. I don't care, don't ever talk to your friend's guy. Even if you are not together anymore, that's just the rule. I don't know if you guys were together, but it still applies, don't go after guys your friends like. I have always felt that anyone who would stab their friend in the back like that doesn't deserve to remain friends with the person. End your friendship, if she is doing stuff like this now, imagine down the line, when the guy is your boyfriend, fiance, or husband. What is she going to do when she gets mad at you then, sleep with them to get back at you for a petty argument. Also the guy, you should not even care about him either. He is suppose to be hooking up with you, but hooks up with your friend, knowing how you feel about him, let them be together, they deserve each other. You'll find someone else, but definitely don't remain friends with the girl, she seems very devious.
173844
I know you want him back, its VERY hard to let go of the one you love, i still need to learn that leasson. But you cant force him to go out with you. Just be yourself, and just be his friend, the rest is up to him.
294945
Just forget about him and tell your friend to do so too. Never let a guy come in between a friendship.
468175
nothing. be a good friend and respect what they have between each other. don't try to be with someone that is already with someone else. there are a lot of people out there, why fight over someone especially if your friend is dating him?
726049
if u liked him then u should flirt back if u don't like him then just ignore him
1067362
Why would you kick his ass (if you could)? What would that solve? \n\nYou seem to already have pity on him. Show him the pity. I sure that would piss him off...and he would be reclusive. He doesn't sound like a good friend. Forget him and move on. He seem like a dick. \n\nViolence is a last resort. Only if he strikes first. Trying to kick his ass will get you no respect. What would the girl your "friends" with think?
27406
remain friendly but find someone else to 'like'\n\nif he doesn't like you back, accept it.
242804
Go out with the friend. Don't just go out with the other guy because he likes you, because that would break his heart. He'll realize you are with his friend and he'll go for someone else.
748171
move on...dont get mad at your best friend...but still be nice to the guy!
223946
if you like him...go out with him... if you are comfotable being with him then go out with him... but if you are not comfotable don't go..you will not have fun if you go out with him against your will... but if you can be proud being with him...so go out with him if not tell him politely that you can't go with him... just tell him honestly and politely so that you won't spoil your friendship.
1106096
just move on, go out with the guy he said you were all over
263880
Ok if i was you in this situation except it would be a guy,  I would ask him out, and try to get to know him a little better. Then maybe if he had fun we would go out again.  Who gives a crap if she's spending time with this other guy.  Maybe they are just friends!
699096
O god you poor thing this happened to me and the only thing i could do was try and get over him. If your friend likes him and he likes her chances are they goin to get together so you have to decide if you can support them and be happy for them and if not you should tell your best friend how you feel and see what she says.if she nos that if they got together it would hurt you she probably stay away from him. there are loads of lads out there who will love you back so try not to beat yourself up bout it
979989
Tell him \n"I'm sorry I am not interested in dating you, but i would like to go out with you sometime just as friends."\nIf he doesn't want to be friends after that, then you know that he was only befriending you because he liked you.  That is not what makes a good friend.\n\nOUCH "LALA" that is the opposite of what she wants to do.  B**CHY much!?
41022
Maybe she wants for u and him to go back out, cuz she THINKS u like him, but u say u don't
1133147
I'm a bit confused about your question but I'm guessing you want to know how to get back at this guy? Well first of all, DO NOT let him know you care. Brush it off. Act really casual around him and flirt with other guys but don't seem desperate. When someone gives you the advice to 'forget it and move on' that's because that it is a great form of revenge because it shows that you are confident and do not need him. Do not let him see you vulnerable or sad or losing your cool at all. Guys love when girls do that because it boosts their egos, especially jerks like the one you described! Be confident, be yourself and don't let any man take your pride! You are a strong woman and do not let any man make you look weak and pathetic!
922385
Just deal with it as it comes, they won't all ask you out at the same time unless they are all in the same barbershop quartet though.  The annoying guy will be the easiest, just say you would never date someone who was mean to your friends.  The friend guy you have to be honest with, give him the only as a friend bit.  The two you have crushes on you should let them know that you like them but aren't sure what to do, ask to get to know them better.