15 -17 year old guys- Advise PLEASE!!!!!?
448641
yea thats gotta suck i wish i could help u out there
295904
I have a 15 year old son and asked him this for you.  He is very very smart-honor roll and very cute also.  He is on basketball team as well as trak.  He is not what you would call HOT but very cute.  He says ALL the guys go for the pretty girl with a great bod.  They r teenagers afterall!  BUT once they realize she is in love with herself- once she opens her mouth- HE doesnt want her anymore!  lol  They may look at this girl and want her just on the physical.  And that DOES NOTCHANGE AS THEY GET OLDER EITHER!  lol  BUT the great news is- most of them realize rather fast that she is just some girl.  My son says when you have a certain boy in mind- find out thru your friends or his the things he likes to do and make that YOUR new hobbie!  Ask his advice on it.  Learn to play his favorite video game and ask for help on it.  If he goes skating every weekend GO SKATING!  Laugh and have fun.  Be yourself.  Make yourself approachable by smiling alot.  And before u know it YOU WILL have a boyfriend!  Good luck to u!
453699
I know how u feel.Im 11 2.   \n    Okay, before you decided to do anything, ask yourself this question:\n\nIs he worth all the trouble?\nDo you want to keep your friend or just get the guy?\n\nI really don't think you should go for the guy. There are many others guys. "Yeah..duh I know that." you're probably thinking. So get a guy who shows interest in you and a guy who would be great for you. Also remember, you're only in 6th grade. I know a lot of people already at this age are dating and all that junk. Don't be pressured to rush things though. The truth is you shouldn't be dating till atleast 15. I know, it seems like forever from now. When the time comes though, it's sooooooooo worth it.\n\n\nHope that helps, and good luck!!
84428
Come on honey, you are too young to be worrying about this stuff! You're not even a teenager yet and there are going to be many other relationships for you before you find the "right one". So just have some fun and don't worry about boyfriends for a few more years. Hang out with guys as friends and holy cr@p, maybe you should try being a "prude" for a while longer! Forget about this guy, he sounds like a big waste of time, boy wh*re, jack@ss anyway!
418096
14 is way to young and if you go for it i hope your folks find out and have him arrested, shame on him, and you better start acting 14 or you are going to regret it big time, plenty of time for that junk later, have fun hanging out with your friends and keep the serious boy/girl stuff on hold!
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A) You are still very young and guys are far less mature.\n\nB) Guys don't get signs, hints or looks...\n\nC) Don't get sexaul... At most kissing and holding hands and not too heavy at that either.\n\nNote and this is someone with no problems suggesting people go further in high school and Im REALLY open attiude wise.\n\nIf a guy likes you and not a dickhead he will like you to ask him out. Though if you do give him a choice of date or with mates choice...\n\nUsually if a guy fancies you he will be staring like you... Mostly at your boobs...and usually just as awkards as you if not much more.\n\nHowever as you are very young you can't lay it on to thick to get his attention as Id advise older girls too.\n\nDon't try and be them. You aint yet and doing so will only hurt you.\n\nGet involved in things like skateboarding, Join a martial arts group (get fit, learn to fight and can play wrestle him if get good) Whats he into? get good at that.\n\nLearn the guitar too.\n\nIf you get on a date nothing to formal...something like bowling or cinema.and rest up against him.\n\n\nIf he is confused he may not fancy you or even be aware of girls much and you are staring at him like stunned which he may feel strange as aint done it himself yet ie fancy anyone. He don't get whats going on Im guessing.\n\nDon't mean he won't.\n\nGuys often develop feelings for girl mates, especailly if they are lots of fun but in a couple of years
993003
Cyber Love?LOL...You're 15 and have plenty of time to do all those things when your older.Worry about the things that are more important in your life right now.Like finishing school.
29738
That's the problem - boys... Not that when they become men it gets much better. But some mature. Get a good Christian man and your chances go up =)
967609
Speaking as a Dad with a daughter about your age I have to tell you that I would worry about it... Boys his age have very strong sexual urges... If your mom finds out that you have had sex with him after he turns age 18 then he will get arrested for statutory rape and will go to jail.  That will most likely ruin any chances of him ever having a normal life with a good paying job... \n\nAlso, there is a big difference in mental age between 14 and 17... He may already be driving and is starting to find his way in the world... If he goes to college you can be sure that he will find a college girl because there is so much freedom to do what you want on a college campus and more social situations will come up... Do you think that he will want to show off his 15 year old girlfriend to his college buddies?  Don't bet on it!\n\nHave patience.. Stick to someone your own age (or no boyfriend at all... just friends who happen to be boys).... when you are in college a 3 year difference in age won't seem that bad but at 14 there is a world of difference.\n\nYou may not like my answer but you did say that anyone with an opinion can answer...  Good Luck!
456099
look hon, you are young and you don't need to stress over somthing like this. i know you don't want to hear the usual, "your too young, concentrate on school" but i'm not stupid and i know that you will probably pursue him anyway. just have fun but don't stress,(you don't want wrinkles before you get to high school right? ;)
988500
Be very, very careful. There's nothing better than being 15 and in love, but things can and do get out of hand very quickly. The things that you're feeling are natural but if you make the wrong decision it could change your life in a heartbeat. You don't want to pay for "being in love at 15" for the rest of your life. (a baby)
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You have to be real careful out there on the net.  Alot of guys don't care what you look like... they only want what they can get out of you, and thats sex. And even though they say they are (lest just say) 18, doesnt mean they are.  \nI wish you watched Dr Phill on Friday nite... it would shock the socks off you.  Do NOT go meet any guys unless its in a totally public place!!! \n\nI highly reccommend that ALL of you young people (and all the parents here too) check out this site :\n http://www.familywatchdog.us/\nIt could save a life!! \n\nTake care and keep safe!!
183704
well 15 here but if ur older than me just wait lol the right guy will pop ur right in front of you !SERIOUSLY!
346409
Well, it you are at an appropriate age (15 and up in my opinion), and you are really interested in this guy... not physically please (remember...true love waits)... I encourage courtship... there's a book called "I Kissed Dating Goodbye" by Joshua Harris, and it's wonderful (it's about courting)... that way you and your parents can be involved and there won't be any secrets and the respect can still remain. Believe me if you are open and honest with your parents and help them understand that you want a healthy friendship with this young man, there shouldn't be a problem.  Best of luck...es
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Bottom line to a very long dissertation is DON'T DO IT ,,,, You didn't mention your age or age bracket but I'm assuming that you are in your teens ,,,,,that doesn't matter because this advice could fit anyone ,,,,, You have your whole life ahead of you ,,,,If I'm right and you are in your teens then you aren't in a position to handle the problem that can arrise from this ,,,, There are allot of red flags here ,,,, One of them is that you are a challenge to any guy ,,,,,, you have something they want and most likely after they score they will move on to another target ,,,, Don't submit yourself to being anyones play thing ,,,, Any guy that wants you for that has no respect for you at all ,,,, To them you are only warm and have a pulse ,,,, Guys your age aren't near ready or mature enough to settle down with just one girl at this point in their lives ,,,, Think long and hard and from all the angles where this is concerned ,,,, Use your head ,,,, don't let them use your body ,,,,,
635423
Yes, sure I would, doesn't really matter how the girl looks. I'm not picky at all. But you're just 15, so I'd put off dating for a few years. It isn't like you're "not ready" as some parents or other adults might say, just you should enjoy life and not worry about dating or if you have a boyfriend every moment of every day. Take some classes, play sports, read, write, learn, and relax.
827342
how bout ... Gorgeous? thats what i always use and im 17 so... yeah... guys ive dated hav never had a prob with that =) Good luck