Confusing friendships?
449698
When you thanks him for the time and effort he put into the visit with the wine and chocolate, you should have asked how he felt or at least did some feeling out. I'm sure he is wondering what's up with you, too. Flat out ask him where he would like things to go, tell him how you feel and how impressed with him you really are. Best of luck to both of you.
939007
. Maybe it is time to consider finding a new friend Friends accept us for what we are the best of and the worst. If you feel strange there problem is something going on. Are sure they are friends and can you really be yourself around them. If so how can you be thinking you can mess things up? Life is to short to be up happy either ask them straight out or accept the way thing are.
922852
You obviously have an awesomely amazing friendship. Girls seem to be more in tune, with one another...in comparrison to guys being in tune with girls. I can see how this attraction came to be. I'm sure its been quit awkward. If the two of you don't want to loose your friendship, you should try and discuss the issue. Perhaps you could get her a card, or something light...that lets her know, that whatever happens, you will always be there for her. You could talk about your attraction to one another...and find out if it was just curiousity or if it involves more. Regardless, let her know, that you will always be her friend. No matter what. She is probably just as shocked as you. I've always believed that women could relate to women on a more "natural" level...you've both got in you you...you both owe it to yourselves to get to the bottom of this. I wish you the best. I'm sure it will be a Halloween to remember!
649575
Girls are weird when it comes to friendships.  Usually when they say **** about each other is because the first one that started saying **** about the other, was in some way jealous of the other.  Then when the other one started saying **** about the first one, it was because she was hurt by being talked badly about.  I don't know if that is what is going on in that situation or not, but most likely.  I don't know that there is really anything that you can do, other than not get in the middle or take sides.  If one of them say **** about the other to you, just tell her that they are both your friends and you do not want to get in the middle or be put in a situation to where you feel like they are wanting you to choose between the two of them.  I hope that everything works out well for you.  Best of luck!
836611
Why do you want to stay friends with someone that tries to confuse you and it sound like she doesn't respect your feelings. If your not lesbian let her be... Its actually very bad for her to do it over and over again, not very nice person. Just let her know that if she doesn't stop your going to go you own way, she her reaction i she stops you'll know she is a true friend,
942055
I think that you should talk to him about it. He may be feeling awkward because you told him how you felt and he's not ready to make the transition from "friends" to "more than friends." Talk to him and see where his head is at, try to make him feel comfortable so that he won't blow you off. Things like this are never easy, but you'll never until you ask. Good luck....
30580
I think there isnt anything to really worry about.  People who are close tend to blend together in some areas.  Clothes being one of them.  likes and dislikes are sometimes already similar in friends so it just gets strengthened the closer you two get.
665694
Wow!  I'd sit him down and really talk things out with him.  Discuss the possibility of a romantic relationship and a friendship.  But really, build it all back up and do it without other friends interferring.  Just talk it out.  He's probably confused too.  Good luck and I hope everything works out well.
1152601
this sounds confusing???
188019
This could be a wierd relationship to get into, and could end up ruining your friendship. I would be careful, and watch out for peer pressure, serious trouble. Listen to your own heart, not the advice of someone elses!
322031
Everyone has their flaws.. I have two friends like yours too, and they're my best buddies... Sometimes, both of them are there for me, sometimes it's just one of them, and sometimes neither.\n\nWhen neither are they for me, it's time i question their loyalty. But then i realised that maybe they just aren't comfortable dealing with the problem i have.. because they are clueless of what to say. sometimes they have other bigger priorities, like family... I dun think we can expect our friends to be there for us the 24/7\n\nMaybe you should spread out and find other friends.. to help you deal with different situations. we can't hold on just to several people.
1020579
When that happened to me many years ago, it was devastating to loose a friend who I thought was "a friend."  Now, as time passed, I figured that she was an acquaintance, some one who comes & goes in your life time.  If she was that weak minded to just take his word for something as important as that without consulting you to straighten it out, then she's not your friend.  Get a new one who values your friendship.
688132
Tell her you are confused and discuss what you perceive as mixed signal.  Discuss those things you mention in your question and ask her if she is having second thoughts about you two just being friends.  Tell her if she is having second thoughts you would be interested in giving your relationship a second try.\n\nThe worst she can do is tell you she isn't interested, which would answer your question and relieve your confusion.\n\nThe one thing I wouldn't do is let this drag on for too long.  You are entitled to a life and hanging around with her while she decides just doesn't qualify.
632201
Friends come and go.They drift apart and come back together. If this friend does not understand you then maybe they never knew you You are and always will be your own bf You just have to enjoy being with yourself. And until you completley know yourself,how can you begin to really know someone else?Be careful of who you call friend.
458037
Yes, that can be an annoying problem.  It sounds like your friend may have some insecurity problems and feels people will only like them if they like the same things.  Your friend should learn to like what they like for themselves.
50965
you should ask her straight up.  Just say, hey, what's going on?  tell her that you're confused.  communication is key, man!
471897
This is like most relationships. Its give and take...Your friend wont be a real friend if she cant deal with your feelings and opinions. You may be wrong, so what, you have the feelings correct or not. If you talk things out you will find a common ground.