If you have suicidal thoughts then what is wrong with you?
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I think suicidal thoughts are actually caused when someone feels trapped in a hopeless situation. You don't really want to be dead or end your life. You just can't find a way to end the situation you are in. You aren't dumb and you aren't stupid, you're scared and you don't know what else you can do. \n\nWell, the best way to end those thoughts would be to give yourself an alternative, a third choice.  What can you do? \n\n1.Do you still see your father and brother on a regular basis? If this is a problem, think of ways to avoid them. Devise a plan to move to a location where you will be far enough away to never see them. I would guess that you don't owe them anything, so don't worry about them.\n\n2.Are you plagued with thoughts and feelings that remind you of your past? The best thing to do is see a doctor. You can take some medication to calm your nerves and allow yourself to maintain an emotional balance. You can see a psychologist to help you deal with these memories and attack the problem at it's source. Many people also find meditation and exercise theroputic. There are many books on this subject.\n\n3.Do you feel alone, like no one understands you? There are many people who have been through similar situations that you have been in. Thanks to the internet, many of these people can talk to each other and discuss how they deal with it. \n\nIt may not happen over night but by putting a plan in place you can begin working on that goal.  You have been asking a lot of questions and it is clear that many people here care about you a lot. Remember that we are thinking about you and we want you to take control of your life and begin healing.
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This is disastrous.\n\nYou must list everything in your life that makes you happy. Any goals you wish to achieve and dreams you would like to come true.\n\nYou may think that nobody loves you, but this may be untrue as your thoughts might be clouded with depressing thoughts.\n\nDuring times of suicide-thinking, then you need family or if no family you need to join a church or get a pet Or all three.\n\nI'm an agnostic, but I think that a church is a great place to rehabilitate. There is no fee to join and people are open to making friends there.\n\nFurthermore if you have weight issues or drug issues, you should go into rehab or join a program to fix those things.
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people who say that are hurting but are either afraid to kill themselves are hoping life will get better but don't know how. If you can please try to get help for him .
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Wait. You said you think too much? Like how? This might be just like me. I don't know what's wrong with me. Maybe I have the same thing you do. Please explain what you mean by thinking too much.
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Yes there is something terribly wrong with you. Maybe someone needs to slap the sh!t out of you.
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Is  There Something Wrong?
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Yes, I have. I was hospitalized for suicide ideation and was diagnosed with depression (sounds weird but I had no idea I was clinically depressed!). I started taking anti-depressants and seeing a therapist regularly. They both have helped a lot.\n\nSuicide is one of the most selfish things you can do. You have SO many people around you who love you and care about you; your death will cause them lots of pain and heartache. I know, because I had a really good friend commit suicide a couple years ago.\n\nI can't tell from your question whether or not this is something that you're thinking about; if you are, I would suggest that you get some professional help. Working out the sorts of issues that are causing you to think about suicide may seem overwhelming, but there are plenty of supports out there for you.
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I have been like this for a while now ,someone told me the worst thing you can do is worry about it so I don't.Keep writing things down and being organised and enjoy your life and have a laugh at yourself when you do something silly.There's worse things could be wrong with you.
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Call some on this list that can help you!\nIf you kill yourself, your dead.  Then nobody can help you, you can't even help yourself.  My brother committed suicide.  Not the best option!\n\nSuicide: Don't let despair obscure other options\nDespair and hopelessness may lead you to think about suicide. But you have other options, from weathering an immediate crisis to creating a long-term safety plan.\n\nWhen life doesn't seem worth living anymore or your problems seem insurmountable, you may think that the only way to find relief is through suicide.\n\nYou might not believe it, but you do have other options — options to stay alive and feel better about your life. Maybe you think you've already tried them all and now you've had enough. Or maybe you think your family and friends would be better off without you.\n\nIt's OK to feel bad, but try to separate your emotions from your actions for the moment. Realize that depression, other mental disorders or long-lasting despair can distort your perceptions and impair your ability to make sound decisions. Suicidal feelings are the result of treatable illnesses. So try to act as if there are other options, even if you may not see them right now.\n\nNo, it probably won't be easy. You may not feel better overnight. Eventually, though, the sense of hopelessness can lift. You can find support, appropriate treatment and reasons for living.\nWhen you need immediate help for thoughts of suicide\n\nIf you're considering suicide right now and have the means available, talk to someone first. The best choice is to call 911 or your local emergency services number.\n\nIf you simply don't want to do that, for whatever reason, you have other choices for reaching out to someone:\n\n    * Contact a family member or friend\n    * Contact a doctor, mental health professional or other health care professional\n    * Contact a minister, spiritual leader or someone in your faith community\n    * Go to your local hospital emergency room\n    * Call a crisis center or hot line\n\nCrisis centers or suicide hot lines are often listed in the front of your phone book or on the Internet. They generally offer trained counselors — usually volunteers — who can help you through an immediate crisis. Some crisis centers with an Internet presence offer e-mail contact, but remember that responses may not be as prompt as they are with telephone support.\n\nTalking to someone about your feelings — connecting with someone — can help relieve the burden of despair and isolation, even if just temporarily. It may help you shift perspective and more clearly see that you have options beyond suicide.\nDaily coping strategies to manage thoughts of suicide\n\nYou may struggle with suicidal feelings frequently, perhaps many times a day. Develop a strategy to cope with those feelings in a healthy way. Consider asking a doctor, family member or friend to help create a strategy tailored to your specific situation.\n\n\nThat strategy may mean doing things you don't feel like doing, such as talking to friends when you'd rather hole up in your bedroom all day with the curtains drawn. Or it may mean going to the hospital for a mental health evaluation. But stick to your strategy, especially when you're in the grips of despair and hopelessness.\n\nAs part of your strategy, consider these measures:\n\n    * Keep a list of contact names and numbers readily available, including doctors, therapists and crisis centers.\n    * If your suicide plans include taking an overdose, give your medications to someone who can safeguard them for you and help you take them appropriately.\n    * Rid your home of knives, guns, razors or other weapons you may consider using for self-destructive purposes.\n    * Schedule daily activities for yourself that have brought you even small pleasure in the past, such as taking a walk, listening to music, watching a funny movie, knitting or visiting a museum. If they n
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It is definitely dangerous to constantly have these thought.  If you are having daily stresses that cause you to think these things, you need to relieve some of the stress in your life. Look around you and see what you can change, eliminate, to destress yourself. Also, with anxiety and depression, see your physician ASAP. There are many different medicines to help with that. If you get on antidepressants, you will also lose the suicidal tendencies and thoughts.  They will also help you not to be afraid of life. I think the depression and anxiety combined is your problem. Seek help immediately before you ruin your life and those who love you's life.
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First of all, listen to the mystic man!  He is absolutely right.  Thoughts of suicide are frequent in times of desperation and anger.  It isn't a way out, it's a way into something that you know nothing about.  It feels like you are saying to the people who have failed you, "See!  Look what you finally did!!  Don't you feel terrible about the way you made my life so unhappy?"  It's a feeling like you will get the last word.  It won't be viewed that way by your friends and family.  They will say things like, "We did the best we could, we can't help it if he/she went crazy and did something like this.  He / she must have  been on drugs or in the wrong crowd."  Then you will never have your chance to prove them wrong!!    \n\nBe strong for now, we never know why we are put through the things that we are put through.  Later in life, maybe you can help some one in a position like yourself.  You can overcome what is going on now.  DO NOT let them win by breaking who you really are.  I am e-mailable, feel free to e-mail me if you wish, I just hate to see some one give up when you haven't really even started your life yet.   \n Please call one of the hotlines if you think you are in need to that one of the other people listed for you.  Just do not do anything rash that you will regret.  You may have a great future waiting for you!!   Most strong people who are very successful are that way for a reason.  You would be surprised at the people who over came the past and went on to have a life filled with success and happiness.
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Well, suicide is never a great option in my honest opinion, but here is a great list of why one wouldn't want to kill themselves.\n\nhttp://www.wingsoffiresurvivors.com/reasons.htm
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Because you're not considering the consequences of your suicide on other people. Suicidal people tend to get so wrapped up in their own problems (i.e. Everyone hates ME, *I* am never going to succeed, *I* can't take this anymore) that they fail to consider how anyone else feels, they just assume that their pain is the only thing that matters. Imagine how a mother would feel when her Child kills themself, the child may have thought that the mother hated them or whatever, but all mother's love their children. The suicide of their child is like the child turning round and saying: "You failed, you didn't love me enough, you didn't keep me safe nor make me happy. Now I don't care about you, so I've killed myself to spite you"\nThe only person who really benefits from the suicide is the person who kills themselves, because they don't have to deal with the massive emotional trauma they just inflicted on anyone whoever loved or cared about them.
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It could mean that your depressed you should probably see a doctor about your issues.
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Ok, same problem. Me and my boyfriend broke up, my grama died, my great grandparents got into a care accident, my sisters treat me horribly, my mother tells me I am a mistake and she hates me, my father is in jail, and IM SUICIDAL!\n\n\n\nand you think you have problems=[
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Dude, you may have a serious psychiatric condition.  Seek help.
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Find out what you are doing that is wrong (at least in their eyes it is wrong) Basically talk to them, tell them how you feel. It is possible that you need to seek professional help. You need to find out what you feel is important to you.