Is courting a lost art?
447937
If that is not your values, don't do it. My man courted me. We went to movies, saw a parade, went for drives. Live and love according to what you want out of a relationship. Things last longer in that context.
641944
Never lose hope...just keep the smile on and plenty of eye contact on your prey.We don't mind a little hunt.It assures us that we have a chance.Sometimes one too many rejections\ncan make even a stud have doubts.We're half way thru with this decade you know..?When are more woman gonna think like you and "take the bull by the horn"?Society has really pulled a number on us guys...women are more in charge in positions/situations than the recent past...and in return men have different views on women.Although,good thing for females we still have our "manhood" down yonder-trust in that!It won't take long now...go out...explore...have fun.WE've been waiting!!!
251789
Nothing... sorry.  But I bet you could find a new one and an even better one if you picked your lips off the floor and quit 'sounding' desperate.  ;)  Men LOVE to chase....make em work for it ;)
999382
I agree, for a guy, probably not that important. It can send a message though-- after all, if you dressin an outlandish way, or totally slob-like, then obviously you may be showing disinterest, or may draw attention to your clothes specifically, when the date should be about getting to know each other more (hopefully). Of course, if that's your style, then I say go for it, and see if the guy digs it.
161917
There have always been those who will not totally commit.People have cheated and been unfaithful fo hundreds or years.Now as to why;Although I am not a psycologists,I do have some experience and I truly think that most every individual is concerned about getting older and losing their appeal to other people.They often combat this by trying to stay as available and see as many people as they find attractive while they`re young ,so that when they`re older they won`t feel as though they have missed something!
70902
No,when a person does not know what they want it is most likely because they are not sure of their feelings neither.Therefore I believe you should not waste your time with this person.Chances are that you might end up getting you feelings hurt.
233925
Love is not over rated. Unfortunately people have become materialistic. So, love is commercialized.
1079835
It does seem to be a forgotten practice,but I blame the whole women's lib thing that has made it somehow wrong for a lady to enjoy being treated like a lady...sad indeed.\nRomance,courtship,and chivalry are all missed,even by those of us we never really had a chance to enjoy such things.
1084771
No i dont think that you ask for much. If it is what you offer to the other individual i cant see why you should settle for anything else. Although saying that you might want to open up and a bit and give some people the chance to show you what they are really like. Sme times people need some time to show their real self
200352
If there was, I would bottle it up and make a fortune.  We all experience broken hearts, especially those of us who are most willing to open ourselves up to love.  The good news is that you will recover.  The bad news is you just have to keep on risking your heart in order to find true love.
703159
not at all, it is just a matter of contact and a bit of understanding individuals that u wish to attract.\nU need to recognize and assess a good qualities and convey in a manner to that person which would enhance his self esteem. it would be effective when it is honest forthright,
325745
Yes, but it's worthy.\n\nBefore you find the right guy, you have to know enough guys to know what's "right" for you.  That's the hard part.
540071
OH YEAH! I' m a graphic designer and there is nothing more attractive than a creative man. And ladies if you don't know............Artistic guys are great LOVERS! \nDon't pass on an artistic man!
1142524
Funny, I'm having problems finding a match..\nOh wait, we might be looking for different things. \nGuess that's why we all have to either, wear a sign that tells everyone what we are about, or we have to sit and talk.\nOr do a bit of both.\nAnd then the hard part is being honest with that other person so that we really find out if we want what the other is offering. \nMany times people spin what they think the other person wants to hear to "win" them, then later those pesky little problems start popping up. And then the women want the men to grow up, and the men want the women to keep giving lap dances. Neither understands why the other changed or won't change from before the dating started.\nOoops did I let  secret slip out?
516781
no.\naccording to the norm...maybe...but who decides anyway? if its beautiful to you, why not?
423926
IT SHOULD BE ART.but it's not because so many do it out of lust and wanting to brag. but if it was used the way it is supposed to be used like for married adults then it would be an art but it is nether it is nothing but a sweaty in and out motion
636200
I believe every relationship whether it is online or real cannot survive without personal touch. When we met someone on Net and then we start sharing similar kind of thought then we have in our mind, we should meet personally so that we can match with the outcome which was till then in mind or heart. After that meeting, we come to final conclusion whether or not we continue this type of relationship. In this Virtual World, telling a dubious thing is very common. I believe in personal interaction, personal eye contact. In my believe Eye is the gateway to the heart of the person. In those cases where personal meeting was pleasant, their relationship existed for so long time and who gets confuse at the time of their first meeting, they just try to avoid in the Net also.