How do I get over the embarrassment of bragging about how wonderful this man is and our big wedding day coming
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Don't be ashamed because he only made himself look like a fool. You are not stupid or unworthy. Actually this was probably a blessing that he did why would you want to live with a jerk...K
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I would love it if my hubby said such sweet endearments to me. But, I must admit to much of a good thing turns into a bad thing. \nJust tell him that he says them so often that you seem like their a programmed response rather than an enjoyment for him to say. Maybe that will help, and he'll tone them down a bit. \nBest of luck to you!
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U NEED TO  DO WHAT MAKES U HAPPY, SO WHAT UR FRIENDS DON'T LIKE HIM\n\nTHIS IS UR ONLY CHANCE\n\nBE BLUNT, FOWARD, HONEST, AND OPEN COMMUNICATION ARE THE KEYS TO REMEMBER\n\nWHAT HAPPENS IF U END UP MARRYING THIS PERSON ?\n\nU NEED TO LET UR FRIENDS KNOW WHERE U STAND, THAT THERE ARE THINGS THAT MAKE U HAPPY AND IF THEY CAN'T ACCEPT IT THEY DON'T HAVE TO.\n\nI HAD THIS PROBLEM SEVERAL TIMES, AND I EXPRESSED MYSELF TO BOTH PARTIES, AND THEY BOTH UNDERSTAND HOW I FELT, AND GUESS WHAT ?\n\nI ENDED UP MARRYING HIM BECAUSE I KNEW THAT THIS WAY MY ONLY CHANCE\n\nAND AS FAR AS MY FRIENDS WERE CONCERNED, THEY ACCEPTED IT, AND THEY SHOWED RESPECT TO ME\n\nWE BOTH PROVED THEM WRONG, THEY SAID THAT WE WOULDN'T LAST NO MORE THAN 6 MONTHS, AND WE HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR ALMOST 2 YEARS
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Even though it may seem hard... just ask him. I had to make the first move with my baby, but I'm happy I did cuz we are planning our wedding. The worst that will happen is it won't work out, but you will have grown stronger/ more (for lack of a better word) agressive which allows you the courage to take risks and go after what you want. In the long run no matter what the outcome you'll have self respect and a new experience under your belt. Good Luck Honey!!! I'm sure you will get your man.
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It is your wedding do what makes you guys happy. And don't worry about what other people think.  But if you do feel it a bit awkward, or want to find another way.  Have a picture blown up, or leave a chair open durning the cermony.   But this day is about you guys so do what your heart is telling you.
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Hmmm...well, since you married him he probably (or atleast should) already know that you love him.  However, it's better late than never, so find a nice, quiet time where it's just the 2 of you, and all of his attention is focused on you, and then just say it!  Good luck! ;)
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The key to this is to keep your focus on... you.\n\nI'm sorry he broke your heart.  It's tough. My fiance broke off our relationship three weeks before the wedding-- and we worked together.  Turns out he was involved with someone else and like your guy,  he was "on top of the world."  I was underneath it somewhere.\n\n But, if you keep the focus on you, you'll be working on your depression.\n\nI embrace spirituality... not religious... and when you see this guy, maybe you can just say to yourself, "I forgive you... and I release you to the universe"  \n\nYou concentrate on being the best person you can be.  The rest... will take care of itself.\n\nOh, and take the high road.  Never let him see you depressed.  (Therapists may not agree with this,  but ultimately, it made me feel better)\n\nGood luck.
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You really want to know?\n\nTreat him like you did when you were trying to get him to ask you to marry him.\nOnly compliment.\nOnly praise.\nOnly .... laugh at the bad jokes. When he does anything right praise him. Compliment how he looks, acts, touches, kisses. \nMake sure you do everything you did to get his attention. Did you wear things when you where with him that would draw his attention?\nDid you do stupid things to make him laugh? Did you act childish? \n\nHave you told him lately to grow up. Have you told him that he did something wrong, why did he not do something else. Oh wait those are things that he never heard from you before you were married.\n\nI have a lot of other stuff that I've seen happen after the ring went on if you need more examples.\nI also have a TON of stuff that happy couples do.
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This is not good, and I believe that You know that, You would just like to have it validated.  So I am validating it for You.  You teach People how to treat You.  You have to sit Him down and tell Him that You believe in Your vows, but You need him to honor them as well.  It is like drawing a line in the sand, and saying if You cross this, it is over. And He crosses it.  So you draw another line, knowing that there is no way that He would cross that one, but He does.  So You just keep drawing them, and He just keeps crossing it.  Tell Him that You want to get Counseling, You will find out real quick what His intentions are.  Demand More for Yourself.  If You are afraid of His reaction, have Someone there with You, but possibly in another room, just in case.\n\nBe Strong, and Follow Through.  God Bless
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First of all, your self esteem shouldn't be achieved or sustained by male attention. You should know that you are attractive and sexy simply by being you. If you don't feel that way, then you need to find out some good ways to achieve that feeling. Maybe working out, or going to the salon and getting some pampering or simply buying an outfit you really like. \n  But if you feel like your husband has taken you for granted and you need some compliments to make you feel appreciated, then you should find a way to communicate that to him. I know when I feel that way with my husband, I tend to get sarcastic and call myself the house-troll/slave. But usually, I"ll ask for what I need from him. Because I know that I don't fall all over him the way I used to either and its easy to get caught up in life and forget that other's need to be appreciated and wanted.\n   Your husband loves you and may not be as sensitive to your needs for compliments. But I'm sure there are many ways he shows how much he cares for you that perhaps are more substantial?  And if not, don't be afraid to ask for what you need. But going to another person(online or not) to get warm words to make you feel good is not going to help your marriage....\nI've also found a good BJ never hurt in the obtaining compliment/adoration department >>:)
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Okay. You never have enough time for anything that dayand feel so stressed and rushed. I recently got married and was 20 minutes late for my hair appointment which made me 20 minutes late for my own wedding. So first advice, plan plenty of time between your hair/makeup/dressing and the time you need to be at the chapel. plan for any snafus and traffic. make sure everyone has directions to the chapel(another thing that made me late). Bring a "fix-it" kit with you. Include white chalk which can cover up any stains like makeup,pack a  sewing kit, tissues,deodorant,perfume, and I would pack some mints. Maybe some extra batteries if your family will be taking pics. And most importantly remember to eat something that day. I know its supposed to be bad luck to see your fiance before the wedding but my whole family and my now-husband went out to a huge lunch before the wedding and it really calmed my nerves to see him before all the hustling began with my hair and makeup appointments. Have fun! Its the best day of your life and no matter what goes wrong \n(and something will go wrong) when you look back it will be perfect. I promise.
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I remember how I felt when I left my sweetheart.  I was only able to see her once a weekend.  She lived like 20 miles from where I lived and I had to take the bus every Saturday to see her.  Man, what great times.  But at day's end, my heart hurt something fierce.  Don't feel embarrassed.  You may be afraid to lose this great feeling you have.  You don't ever want it to go away.  This is your insecurities talking.  You need to know that you are everything he wants.  Gain confidence in you and your relationship.  You possess the power.
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i can understand where you was coming from. not that you should have hid it from him. but he must really love you and you should hang on to him, and always show him how special he is to you. i don't mean just tell him i mean show him. congrats on baby and new man. good luck, and GOD BLESS YOU !!!!!!!!!1
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Sounds like your doing a great job already, you must really love the guy.\n\nAll I can say is never forget to show him how much you love him with loads of love and affection and he'll never forget
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Let's back up one step.\n\nI suspect that there is a good reason you have recently begun "telling him how passionately and deeply you love him".  You feel insecure about his love, and are hoping he will affirm his devotion to you.\n\nYou should feel insecure!  After all you've given your heart and body to him for six years yet he hasn't shown you a committed kind of love - by asking you to marry him.   You just keep giving yourself and giving yourself hoping to keep him, hoping to coax him into loving you more, hoping that his devotion to you is equal to your (desperate) feelings for love-security.\n\nForget wanting his words of affirmation.  Words are cheap - used car salesmen and politicians use lots of nice words.\n\nGet a commitment or tell him to get lost.\n\nThen you will know.
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Oh! Dear, mh!. You are suffering from a so-called “blindness of nature and reality”. The background of friendship lines and marriages, are far-far apart. You cannot feel the hotness of a liquid without a media. \n\nThe very same mistakes, many of us committed before we got married which result to an endless selectiveness efforts. You know why, many of us lied standardizes lines, that Our lovely ones must contains,  and get stuck if one least line misses. Hopeless thought.\n\nListen now, I assure you, that is a best husband for you. The inner of you confess it but surroundings doubts. Those surroundings disappear as the momentum of marriage life set to operate.  I suppose you close some tool monitoring your standards, co’se your mind-knowledge filled with blank entities you don’t fully defines them.\n\nI Evidently assured you that, People who are living together without an authorized marriage (no matter how long they are or how many kids they produce) , people who share a “hidden love”(day-night see you..bye.), and all the “fonicas” committers, all such groups knows nothing within authorized marriage. They define marriage as a fucking game. That is all.\n\nMarriage is a decree, principled from God, from there now, definitely you can get the divinity; 1+1=1\n\nContact me via  Bihagaze@yahoo.co.uk    for more
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He probably means himself. But it sounds as though he is not real swift in the sensitivity department. I think you might want to tell him that you have heard that "joke" enough now and it is time for him to wrap it in tissue paper and store it in the attic.\n\nDefinitely don't take it personally. You are probably exotically gorgeous and he feels very lucky to have such a beautiful wife. He may be worried that you don't find HIM so great-looking. Another tactic you could take when he says it again is to say,"Nonsense, honey, with me so beautiful and you so ruggedly handsome and masculine, our kids are gonna be the most beautiful ever born."\n\nLighten up. Don't take him seriously. Some men are kind of stupid when it comes to women. LOL.