Would you stay married to a man that only time he wanted to spend quality time with you is when he wanted sex?
441558
No I would not..  Marriage is not based on just sex...  It is based on communication, honesty, trust, love, passion.\n\nYou should do things together. Like go to the movies, dinner, for a walk, sports etc.  \n\nYou should ask him why he doesn't spend any quality time with you..  Other than when you are having sex....   And let him know you feel about it...
1117418
Have you seen the man in my picture? He's mine and have been for the last 13 years. Everyone tells me my husband is hot. And he's a good provider and family man to boot. How lucky am I, he's what have been turning me on for the last decade plus. My hubby is a tiger in bed, a cheetah on the track and a gentleman at all times.
1162337
The issue isn't if your husband is cool with it.  Are you?  I would guess not, or you wouldn't mask your emotions under a cloud of alcohol.  Or is the husband thing your excuse for being drunk?  I don't know, only you can.  Having great drunken sex is a plus in any relationship, but I don't think I would stay with someone just for the O factor, but hey, I don't have it that way! Personally, I stayed in a bad marriage way too long.  I would either find a way to make you happy in the current relationship or find a way to live without your husband.
614663
when you only hear what he is saying when his pants are off. lol. Do you enjoy each other outside of sex (sex includes dates that are only meant to lead to sex)? Would you still want to be with him and would he still want to be with you if there was no sex involved?
4578
you should wait until you are married if that is what you want. chances are if a guy has sex with you now he probably might only want sex. If a guy really loves you and repects you he will also wait until you are married.
649114
sex is not everything that is true but having no sex even after marriage is something unnatural if that persistsmay lead to unwanted situaton if your partner feels the same only than it's ok
171549
I personally don't think that you should set an exact time frame tell him that you would enjoy sex if it were more sparatic, that if you get it less you will enjoy it more..... just have sex when you feel like it.... don't limit yourself to once every two weeks and don't feel that you have to once every two weeks if you don't want to
562479
I sure do, I spent many yers uhappily dating and had lost my job and was desperate and got a job at a taco bell.  I found the man of my dreams there and we have been married for 2 years.  He is absolutely everything I ever liked in a specific guy I dated all wrapped up in one.  The funny thing is that I think he is the sexiest thing on earth and come to find out he never thought he was sexy at all before he met me.  That makes me know that he will never leave me...how could anyelse love him more than me, they couldn't and he knows it.  Best wishes
504131
Just for one night stand?. Please... Have sexwhen you get married.
516648
Not really.But don't be too dependent on him.Having sex almost everyday is great but he needs to rest.
587600
I think great sex should never be lost in a marriage.  Even if you're already married you should keep the mystery in you.  What I do with my husband is even if we are very close I always keep a safe distance and time for my self and he said it drives him crazy to feel that even though I am already his wife it seems like he can never get hold of me completely.  To keep the spark in a marriage, a man should be kept challenged.  Keep your individuality but be a good and loyal wife and mother at the same time.  I think that'll do it.
292576
looks like you might have married the wrong woman.  maybe the sex will get better and i supppose there is a chance youll fall in love with her.  These things arent supposed to be left to chance... Was it an arranged marriage?
868340
Yes....he'll come back. When he wants sex AGAIN. But get prepared.....he won't stay.
44129
it depends on your relationship, and how long you've been married.  i know people who have been married forever and still do it everyday.  then there are some people who sleep in different rooms, so there is really no answer.  it depends on how much you are willing to sacrifice in order to keep sex interesting and satisfying for both of you.
907601
yes, I would be anyway.\n\nworst case, its very very flattering. Might only happen every decade or so for some guys, if that. \n\nif he and you want each other then maybe more, find out I think.\n\nHappily married or not? It matters I think.
928565
He'll come back for more.  If sex was the goal and you give freely then why worry.  What is to be shall be.  However if you 'put-out' just to satisfy him, then chances are you either enjoyed it or felt obligated to do so.  If it's the latter, then I'm sure he didn't enjoy the ride and will probably not be back.\nI know this may sound harsh and not 'PC', but here goes.  Relationship are based on trust, friendship and commonality. Sex is sometimes the goal, another for the books.  So what I prefer is to get the 'deed' done at the onset.  With that out of the way I can work on the rest of a relationship, if there is to be one.
1086534
This guy sounds like a jerk and yes he will use you and then dump you. If he does not love you enough to respect your wishes you need to get rid of him. I'm very proud to see someone who waits til they are married to have sex. You Go Girl!! I know it must be hard because you love him but you will find someone who respects you and your values. Don't let this man pressure you into something you don't want to do.