how to help a guy not to be so nervous.?
436629
sounds like you're talking about me
24436
Yeah, have some fun and new experiences. And if u get scared u'll get some comfort 4rm him. hehe
478654
Make him feel comfortable, because if he isn't, he won't admit anything.  Tell him it's okay to share his feelings, and that you're there for him.  Be sure to tell him that you just want to help, and you're not asking to poke fun at him.
212310
Don't worry if he doesn't make the first move.  He probably wants to but is just shy.  If you make the first move he'll really like it and it will reassure him.  Then he'll act more naturally.
1030847
just be calm and relax and if anything just tella  couple of your friends to go where your going adn watch and make sure he doesnt try to do anything
226417
Because he does not know how to do it...do things in common like a sport or a hobby for example, and he will always have a topic to chat with you about...or maybe he´s shy and feels inadequate to start up a conversation with you..In any case, make him feel comfortable about you being with him...that will boost his confidence.
421222
Im a guy and a pretty shy one when it comes to that. I think it would be a lot easier on us if you ladies would speak your minds and let us know a little more. Besides, he would probably feel intimidated and you would probably keep the upper hand in the relationship if it goes that way. Personally I like it when a woman takes control and isnt afraid to be herself. good luck!
70952
just tell yourself that any guy would be lucky to have you. if you have confidence, it will be much easier. pump yourself up before you know you will see him. try not to look nervous...just go up to him like he's your best friend and be like.."hey, what's up" be casual and let things happen naturally, don't rush it.
1043578
You're probably not shy...just nervous...and that's natural.  Different people react differently to uncomfortable situations.  Remember that he's probably nervous too.  Don't worry so much about what he MAY or MAY NOT be thinking... You'll get better at this with time...we all do!
1024692
Just be friendly and a little encouraging.  But not too much.  Guys like a challenge and a mystery.
86634
I feel ya on this one, this goes back to my question I just posted about letting your guard down. I would def. talk to him b/c if he feels something different and is to afraid to say something or maybe its the opposite, things need to be worked out. Communication is the key
777887
It's perfectly okay to be nervous. Sometimes we worry "Oh god, what will he say or think of me? What if he doesn't want to talk?!" Just breathe, relax, and tell yourself that if he didn't want to talk to you then you wouldn't be dating. He's interested in you, so go ahead and chat it up!
249891
Just tell him that you love him. Why you are thinking that he will be scared?
918375
well if hes kind and understanding he will understan just tell him "i like u alot(if u do) and i havent had my first kiss yet and im nervous and he should understand b/c he was once in tht same position or just relax an t let it happen naturaly
281012
4get that u r nervous !!! U need 2 build up confidence in urself and hold ur self at a high position !! Y the hell should v b nervous ...it should b the opp.person who should b affected by our persona not ourselves...Cheer up !!
180114
letting your nerves take over is your worst mistake. just be yourself, explain to him that it's your first time and let the mood take you from there. dont forget the protection!!!!!!
723420
Your nervous, He's nervous.  Go up to him sometime and just chat.  Nothing to it but to do it!