i had a really good friend and ....?
437596
you and my girlfriend have something in common. She knows what it is like to be in your shoes. Her one time friend was my ex-girfriend. After my ex and I split up a year after, I began seeing the girl i am with now. we have been together for almost a year now. I posted a question on this subject a while back. \nto answer your question... I think a letter is a good way to start. If you were to approach her, pride might keep her from listening to what you have to say with open arms. If you send her a letter, she can read what you feel in privacy... without having to be forced to control her emotions and her curiousity will allow you to get everything out to her. Then its up to her of course.
54843
I had a best friend like this.. you want to know her trick...??  She puts out, or promises to.. don't be like her, you are better than that.\n\nMy friendship with her ended because I became aware of how she interacted with boys, and I didn't want to be labeled as her friend since I didn't want to be labeled as loose..\n\nJust my opinion.. but still...
283478
You have A friend in me...
716005
no it sound like to me that she was just trying to make really sure it was OK because sometimes that is a problem for a lot of people and she did not want it to affect your friendship/// sounds like a great friend to me
762944
Sounds like he didn't value your friendship as much as you did. Friendship is like love in a way, sometimes we get burned, and there's nothing we can do other than just move on and keep going. I hope you have other friends to bring joy back into your life.
773921
yea... I was friends with a guy 4 like a week nd i gave him my# nd we still talk nd nothing bad has happened. And hez like 1 of my best friends now!
618044
my best friend. at one time in my life, a few years ago when i was eleven or twelve, my parents divorced and this guy broke up with me and i was really hard on myself for a while, and i never wanted to do anything anymore, like i lost interest in life and stuff. All i thought was, "what's the point?" until i told my friend. I told her everything. My confusion, my anger, my depression... and she helped to sort me out. And now i've become a much better person. I'm the way i used to be. I'm myself again. Those few months when i had no self-confidence and stuff, they were really horrible and scary, but my best friend talked to me and comforted me. Without her, where would i be now? I'm glad i had a friend like her to look out for me. My life now is much happier than it was then, and it is much better than it would be if she hadn't helped me. I hoped that answered your question! :)
662179
This is just my opinion but I don't think a true friend would be mean to me just to impress another girl. And I think you are focusing too much on the fact that he was with another girl and not so much on the way you were treated.  You deserve respect and I think you need to surround yourself with people who will treat you right and will be true friends. Good luck hun!
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WELL TELL YOUR FRIEND THAT IS HAPPENING TO ME CAUSE I FEEL REALLY BAD....\nI ONCE TOLLED HER I LIKED HIM AND SHE TOLLED ME SHE LIKED HIM TOO.\nI WAS SOOOOO INVARESED. AND LATER ON SHE ASKED ME TO PLEASE DONT STILL HIM AWAY FROM HER ALTOUGH I TOLLED HER OKAY I STILL LIKE HIM.BUT SHE NOW UNDERSTANDS SHE CANT CONTROLL MY FEELINGS.
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I have been in that place years ago.  I felt something special with a good friend of mine and it was confusing.  I got the courage to tell him directly how I felt about being something more than a friend but I was rejected.  I cannot say that it is not painful but at least the situation was clear for me and we are able to keep our friendship.  Actually, he is one of my best friends now.  I suggest that you tell him directly but you have to be prepared that he may not be able to give you a positive answer and you can live with that!  Anyway, if you continue to hide your feelings, it may be quite painful and confusing!  Good Luck!
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Well you're in a good position b/c most good relationships start with good friendship... but @ the same time, it might be hard for her to adjust to the fact that u really like her b/c she thinks of u more as a friend and she's probably never been in a situation like that. Just give it some time... if you two are really good friends then u dont have anything to worry about! =)
876473
Sounds like you have a good heart and an open mind. My advice is to just let it go. A person like you will have no trouble making more friends, and maybe these two will grow up a little and it'll work out. Don't worry about it in the meantime. Just look on the bright side, you know you're a good friend no matter what.
863473
try talking to him and be honest. If it ends the friendship, then he was obviously just playing at being a friend while his mind was working in a different direction.
946161
Hold on to your virtue sister.  It is ok to have him as a friend.  Better a friend than an enemy.  There was probably no hard feelings when he went his own way.  He probably still likes you but he is just a man who will get it any way he can.
594698
Yes and no.  If you want to be a good friend you should find out what is going on and find a way to help him.
659356
There are still some good guys left.\nThere is nothing wrong with him holding on to a happy time in his life. He and his wife obviously have trust for eachother and because he holds no grudges against you means that he rather have you as a friend that not at all in his life. Because he took so much time to contact you probably meant he is finally fully over you and wants to complete that with sharing his happy times with you and also make you realise that its ok to be friends.\nSo go for it but don;t expect more than a very good friend.\nGood luck!
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I hope she realizes how lucky she is to have a friend like you.  You cared enough about her to let her go and be happy.  I wish there were more ppl like you out in this world.  take care...