What is a good way to feel close to my girlfriend, without intimate contact?
439992
Why don't you go visit her parents, the place she grew up, her first school, or maybe you could arrange a night out with her brothers/sisters. I'm sure she'll appreciate your effort to get close with her family and somehow you'll get close with her.
961972
give her an intimate massage
453926
One of the easiest ways is to start slow and gradually introduce intimacy back into the relationship.\nFor instance, you may introduce a rule to yourself:\n"make sure I hug my partner at least three times a day"\njust simple acts like this, which are quick to perform, can have a profound effect with regard adding romance into a relationship.\nOr ,get up early one day and go and watch the sunrise together.\nThis is the sort of thing that many women love, and whilst you may find it a little boring is a classic way of adding romance to your relationship.\nOn a warm night before what will be another warm day, there is something incredibly romantic about sharing watching a sunrise together, as the night and darkness gives way to the light of day.\nThe cool air, the change in light levels and the relative quiet of that early morning gives you an almost humbling sensation or an awe of the true beauty and power of nature, and sharing this together is what makes it so romantic.\nAdvice: Don’t involve your friends in your relationships.
376173
Make her feel special, like she matters to you. Don't make her feel like an object or a possession. She has a brain, ask her what she wants to do. Sometime girls like ot do feminine things. Be willing once in a while to go see a chic flic or walk in the park. She doesn't have to rule the relationship but she does need to feel like her opinions matter and like you genuinely care about her health, feelings and ideas. Not just her body!
920903
give her big hug to indicate that u will always protect her and kiss her on forehand to indicate that u always want to see her happy i thing no bigger gift then protection and happiness
524182
Don't talk about it just do it. Trust me if you bring it up in a conversation you'll just make her feel uncomfortable. Make sure the time is right and then plant her with a kiss!! \nGOOD LUCK
899521
Spend time together and don't worry about how you look around each other, how you talk and sound around each other or whether you feel stupid when you're with each other.  And just because you don't show public display of affection doesn't mean you don't love each other.  You just feel like being nice to the rest of the world and saving us from a disgusting scene.  I save my stuff for when I'm not in public. (wink, wink)
166868
Be real and honest.  Don't play games. Touch her face from time to time.. run your fingers through her hair.  The slightest touch can mean so much. We don't want complicated any more than you do.. Keep it simple.. keep the little stuff little and pay attention to the little stuff.. it makes the big stuff easy and natural.  :)\n    I heard a saying from FranklinCovey's 7 Habits f Highly Effective People...  "Begin with then end in mind."  Have an idea or even know what you are looking for in a relationship.  Then you can begin working towards that.  Happiness is number one.  Good luck
717781
Communication is the key, I know it's hard to have someone who is so far away, but if the love, trust, and communication is there neither of you will strsy. We all get urges sometimes and want someone else to physically be there to comfort us, and you can do that but don't cross the line with it. I speak from experience. If you need a more elaborate answer don't hesitate to ask.
329352
well...for a woman, let them know how fantastic being so close to them was, Let them know you wouldn't have wanted to have it with anyone else- they made it as special and plesurable as possible.  Then suprise them in the morning with a breakfast in bed, or have them wake up to a massage.  Showering together is also cool, and hot chocolate is good for those particularly cold mornings.
952877
Think of what you would like and think of what might freak you out, mostly if someone comes on too strong.  Have fun, do girl things, do things that get you in contact with each other, put your arm through hers as you walk down the street as a friendly having a good time gesture but don't let her go.  Holding hands in public might be too much right off.  Keep it subtle and easygoing.  If you enjoy yourself then she should enjoy herself and then maybe you can enjoy each other.  Good luck.
156313
Yes. Spend a loooooooooot of time.\nI m not talking abt the time 'with her'. But while you are away too. And that will make you really really close to her, and by this you will even know almost her reaction to situations. They love that feeling,that you 'understand her' more than anything else. And remember....that is a loooooot of quality time! You have it with u? Then ur girl will really love you.
401645
I keep a picture of my sweetheart next to me. In my study breaks, I look at his picture and it makes me so happy! You could write about how you feel. Even though, I don't keep a journal (paper trails), it makes me feel better and then I burn it. (I don't want to leave evidence!) It would be like being in prison and the sound of how tragic to be far away from the loved one is just...Well, that's just me. To occupy your time, watch Jon Stewart! \n    Seriously, you could excerise, take a walk in the park. Listen to music, relax, study. Do the things you enjoy. It shouldn't seem nervewracking if you both know that both of you would be faithful to each other. As long as you know he loves you, love can conquer all.
492932
It would depend on lots of things as to whether 2 move in or not (who is she to you, whats the age difference if any,have you bothered to look for any true signs that she is interested in you?)even so- regardless of all that you should NOT - NO WAY just go ahead and do it anyway- if your feelings do turn out to not be reciprocated she may well give you a damn good slap!  I know i would if someone i didn't like just came along and planted one on me; respect her personal space and portray yourself as the gent you are!  Also if you will have to continue to see her it could get most awkward!  Do you even know if she has a boyfriend? Do you even know that she is straight - not from her smile thats 4 sure!  Also you just never know what issues a person has from their past - close, unexpected physical contact from some one could be quite disturbing for them.  I'm not saying any of these things are so; but how much have you REALLY truely thought it all through?  Or have you just thought you did!?(when really you were just playing your romanticised version through in your head?)  I honestly don't mean to be a wet blanket - but i would advise picking a discreet moment where you can have a quiet talk with her; explaining how you feel and finding out if she SAYS she feels the same-if she does you could always break the inevitably awkward silence with a kiss couldn't you?! but i certainly wouldn't reccommend stealing a kiss!And what's this "make ravishing love to her without saying a word" all about - don't you watch tv or keep abreast (forgive the pun!) of current affairs? ALL blokes are strongly advised to get a loud and clear, VERBAL "yes" to a straight, direct question - it's called consent!  Sex without consent/rape/illegal - there are many terms for it none of them being too good for either of you! PS Women should be able to SMILE @ random people (men or women) without running the risk of being jumped on! A smile alone means SQUAT!
955228
Find something to do that both interests you and her. Try to keep her occupied and try to make her feel comfortable and feel loved. Hope this helped, good luck!
370418
just take your time and relax...do what feels natural and don't put so much pressure on yourself, if she feels the same way about you it will be a great night for you both
468710
It's easy to make emotional connections with people you're close to, regardless of your usual sexual preferences.  If I were you, I'd enjoy the happiness that being with her brings, and try not to worry about it.