what must be the frequency of sex in the age of 38 - 40 years which does not harmful in any way ?
449525
As much as your partner will let you! And if the partner refuses, you know what to do to release the tension! ;)
413100
1-3 times.... it keeps me sane.\n\ni think i have an overly active sex drive...\n\n im 20yrs
24529
if you had sex 3 times a day for 50 years, that would be around 55,000 times.  but on average, most people have it once or twice a week.
465461
Men and women have stronger libidos at different stages in their lives. Ideally a woman in her thirties is a perfect match for a man between 18 and 25!
111331
Yes it is very healthy to have sex every day-multple times at that!!  It gives great relief to everyone involved!!
744889
Dr. Phil said on his TV show that there's reliable statistics that from age 25 to 55 the frequency of intercourse is amazing uniform at 3 times per month.  (The audience gasped at this, presumably because they thought it too low.)  If he's right, that's 36 times per year.\n\nBy the way, some of your other respondents are probably wrong.  RobinATL says she's 24 and has had sex 2500 times.  If she started age 14, God forbid, that means she's had sex 250 times a year, or about 5 times a week, for ten years.  Not impossible, but very unlikely.\n\nEven worse, Boz4425 says she's done it 4000 times by age 26.  If she also started at 14, she's done it 333 times a year, almost every day, for 12 years.  Ridiculous.\n\nDr. Phil commented that it's very hard to get accurate information about this subject because this is one question that people lie about more than almost any other.  You've got at least two examples here.
1177642
Sex is the best the older you get. Age is no object. As long as everything is still working.
477611
The fast answer- when you are raw, red, and painful, it's too much. The experienced answer- depends on age. When you have raging hormones like peaking teenage or 20s boys, it seems you can never get enough. Women peak in their 30s. Married couples without gray hair, 2-3 times a week. Now the serious answer- what ever suits the two of you with no pushing the other. New boyfriend? WEAR PROTECTION, THAT MEANS A LATEX CONDOM EVERY TIME!!! Remember...whenever you have sex with someone, you are having sex with everyone else that person has ever had sex with. Loving boyfriends aren't always totally honest. Who wants to ruin a good thing. Strong hormones can make boys do stupid things, I KNOW! All it takes is one mistake to ruin your life forever, and that's a long time. Please be careful.
55377
it depend on the gender,female should be around 20 or at least 25.while the male should be around 28 latest 27/30.dat is because peole do live about 60 or 70 years now,any ags more this -is not ideal.
674905
He should have it as often as he desires.  Whether it be through intercourse with a partner or if he must jack himself off through phone sex or looking at xxx-rated movies and pictures.  The real answer to the question would be another question.  How often does the 56 year old man's penis get hard?  That will determine how often he should have sex.
115646
Of course we can live without having sex, individually. As a race, it is essential for the survival of the species, though.\n\nThere are also health benefits to having sex and children.\n\nFor example, a woman that has a child before age 20 is less likely to get breast cancer.\n\nA woman that has a child after age 35 or so is expected to live more than 5 years longer, since the hormones that pregnancy generate reinvigorate the woman's body.\n\nFor men, an active sex life reduces prostrate problems later in life.\n\nOf course taking a responsible approach to sex is the most important thing. With sexually tranmitted diseases, and such, it can be a very dangerous thing. An the responsibility of raising a child is also something to take very seriously.\n\nYes we can live without sex, but the best approach, at least in my opinion, is a responsible sex life is the best way to go.
42991
There's no real guide to how often to have sex.  Once a month can be fine if both partners are happy with that - same for three times a day.\n\nThere are NO health risks for having sex many times a week.  Unless you are having unprotected sex with strangers where once a month is too often.
555951
Nope! I speak from experience! (I am 65). Actually guys reach their peak in their late teens...for gals it's usually about the mid 30's. This can vary with the individual of course...but for most of us it's true. There is a VERY slow decline after these peaks but most people can remain sexually active throughout their lives (yeah Viagra helps for many of us older guys!). Of course people can become more sexually active in later years just because the opportunity presents itself. An older dude can find a younger woman is attracted to him for instance (maybe because of his money, maybe something else!) and he could find himself do more f--ing than he did in his twenties. For myself, I needed sex release through intercourse, oral sex or (lots of!) masturbation  at least once a day in my teens and twenties, 4 or 5 times a week in my thirties and forties and still 2 or 3 times a week in my 60's. I still think about sex every day even if I don't jack off every day as I did as a teenager. What I am getting at is it is a VERY SLOW decrease in sexual desire over the years. Nothing to worry about at all!
455997
no it is not good from health point of view because the reproductive system has not fully developed at that age. if you have intercourse during this period, it may disturb the hormonal balance ,plus , it wouldn't be good unless you have the complete knowledge about sex. it is okay if you want to have it just now, but from health point of view , i would suggest that you wait for a few years more.\n\ni hope i helped. and yes, make sure you dont get a sexually transmitted disease as it could be very painful and sometimes, lethal also.
26451
First define "normal"!!  I am 35 and he is 47 and we have been together for 6 years, living together for 6 months, and on average I'd say we have sex with each other 4 times a week.  Usually it is weekends 2-3 hour marathons 2-3 times a weekend as well as about twice during the week before saying goodnight!  I have found that too often can sometimes take the fun out of it so when you start seeing signs of sexual "overdose" it's good to refrain for a week or so and don't be afraid to experiment with new positions, places etc in order to keep it alive and fun!
474643
I waited until I was married (when I was 27) - and wow was it worth it!\n\nBut unfortunately (in my opinion) too many people are engaging in sexual activity at a younger age - I'd be surprised (by hey I am old) if it was lower than 14.\n\nThis has been linked to the rise of sexual transmitted diseases, abortions and loss of fertility (due to chlamydia).  I also believe (from friends who work in counselling) that it has a knock-on effect on people's self-esteem.  But I'm sure people will rubbish me.\n\nThe real question isn't "is this the norm" but "what is the best".
342316
good exercise.  it is a proven fact that if you have sex once a day you will live longer.  try it you'll like it!!