what do you do if your fiance doesnt defend you against another girl?
441778
yes youre exactly right. sometimes we as men (yes i am a man) get caught up wit our selves. he prolly was lovin the fact that she was flirtin wit him and when you told them off he felt like he had been embarrassed and felt that when she cursed u back out that she was sayin all the things he wanted to say and couldnt get away wit.
669005
I would find out what he is saying to her about her comments of you not being good enough for him.  Take his attention away from the computer during the times you know he is on it with her if you can.  Keep reminding him of why you guys got married in the first place.  There is such a thing as an "emotional relationship" and this will lead to other risk taking opportunities if you don't get a handle on this quick!  ONlY your husband is responsible for his actions not her...so don't be mad at her.  He has the choice to defend you and not let her take control of his own emotions in your relationship.  Good luck and remember you still love him.
212987
Talk to him about. You have to COMMUNICATE with the other person involved in your relationship. But I would give him the benefit of the the doubt with this one, it's kind of stupid to give another girl your number when you're physically with your girlfriend.\n\nIf this crap continues, confront him.
515572
keep up the good work....trust is EARNED\nshe must have been hurt REAL BAD b4...\ndon't EVER give her a reason to not trust you\nif she EVER catches you flirting with another gal...it'll take EVEN longer for her to trust you again...
409266
I think her boyfriend needs to grow up a little.  People dance at weddings. My boyfriend and I have been to weddings where one of us was in the bridal party and the other wasn't. Which at most weddings it means you have to dance with another man or women for at least one dance (when the bride and groom are asked out on the dance floor, then, the bridal party is asked to join them).\n\nUnless, the guy was doing something really inappropriate like grabbing her butt, then, it is no big deal.  He needs to get a grip on his jealousy. You have to deal with your significant other interacting with people of the opposite sex sometimes. It is a fact of life and one that he needs to learn to accept if he wants any type of meaningful relationship.\n\nTruthfully, if he is going to get angry about something so stupid, then, she is better off without him.  Next thing you know he'll be angry because she talked to another guy.  It will never end.  A little bit of maturity and self-confidence goes a long way.
974735
sometimes you just have to tell people straight\n\nboth you and you boyfriend should tell her to back off !!!
944420
I'll advise you stick to hope that things will improve with time. Your friend's brother is probably still angry about something that may have happened in your relationship with your fiancee or with himself. You may need to summon courage to ask to discuss your differences. Meanwhile stick to hope and the positive - the fact that your fiancee still sticks up for you. She and mom are still on your side, aren't they? That's enough to sustain hope. Best wishes for a happy resolution.
857085
Maybe this will answer your question......would you want some girl chasing after your boyfriend? What would you do?........You would kick her a**. Tell her to leave him alone. If he leaves his present g/f for her then he will eventually leave her for yet another girl.
838743
Leave things alone and let it work itself out. You haven't done anything so if you start trying to fix it then it's only going to make you look even more guilty. He'll learn in time that you never did any of the things she said and he'll have to be the one to find a way to make it up to you. Let him see that your a stronger person then what she is making you out to be. and he will respect you more for it. I would just let him know that your not guilty but your not going to start trying to prove it to him either, and that he'll have to work it out himself. If you start having to prove things to someone you will be having to prove things to them from now on. If his going to believe you then let nature take its course. As for her why are you even friends with her. Dump her and if you do date her ex so what, that's why his her ex.
443484
He needs to change his numbers. And you need to confront this girl.  Tell her that he is your HUSBAND and you both agree that you want to work out your marriage, and that your plans do not include her.  If she keeps harrassing you, call the police.  There are all kinds of charges (Harrassment, unlawful use of telephone) she can be slapped with
286081
I'm in the same boat, but I AM THE "SOMEONE ELSE. Please accept it. I am constantly being harrassed with phone calls and I had to get the police involved. Please don't let it get to you like that. It will only make you look foolish. There is someone for everyone out there and when yours comes along you will forget about the guy who is hurting you now. Trust me when I tell you that if he really loves this other girl, you don't stand a chance anymore. Let him go.
521054
Anything you "do" is going to force her to defend him.  I know how frightening the situation is.  It could build in to full blown abuse. If this is what he does when drunk it will only get worse.  Sounds like you have already been through plenty with this relationship. It is so hard to stand by while our kids make big mistakes.  Been there done that! Just be there for emotional support, she will need you.
51457
I would go confront the girl and just ask her do you like (John Doe)and more than likely she will say no. Just tell her thats your boyfriend and you just wanted to know. Don't approach her in the wrong way because then there will be a confrontation (argument). Don't be afraid to confront the gurl.Remember its all about the way you approach her.Tell your b/f to stay the heck away from her too.
266535
This doesn't sound like a healthy relationship. You need to, sooner or later, bring up the problem to this other person, but if there's the risk for physical damage bring someone capable of dealing it out... who's on your side. A bodyguard of sorts, ne?\n\nIf physical damage isn't apparent, the best thing to do is face the music. I'm sorry I couldn't answer the way you probably would've like me to answer, but I've been in a slightly similar situation. Sure, the other party/person/whatever will probably be angry, but there's nothing you can do about that.\n\nI'll sum up:\n*Doesn't take out anger on you: Talk to them. Explain your problem as objectively as you can, with clear benevolent (good) intent.\n*Takes out anger on you: Bring a bodyguard.
855235
Battling with the other half rarely does much good.  Just be the best parent figures you can for his daughter.  Try to keep a positive co-operative relationship between the girls parents.  Make a stand if and when you are sure you must, just be sure she will benefit from it more than she will lose or be hurt by the conflict between her parents.  She already been hurt a lot, no doubt.
549107
I think your doing the right thing and you should explain to her that you are just friends and if she continues you'll have to separate yourself from, unless you want your girl to beat your friend's ass.
652990
tell her how to tackle those girls well if they both are involved in eachother why don't they marry u should check if ur cozin is really intrested n ur friend and if he is sincere than whatever and whoever the girls are just don't the hell worry....and give them some space alone to be close and far away from those stupid girls