please give me tips on how to get my ex-boyfriend fall madly in love with me again though he has a girl friend
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ya can't.\nforget him.\nmove on.
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You need to know some things before you try to get him back.\n\n1. why did he leave?  Did he leave because you don't put out and this tramp does?  If that is the case, I agree with the rest, don't bother.  If he left because of a fight/misunderstanding then i think you might want to try.  People have fights and then will do almost anything to win, so things might have been said, that neither of you meant.\n\n2. Why is he with her.  Is she like you, apart from the trampyness?  Is she the opposite of you?  Depending on your sex life with him, he may just be on a bootycall.  Doesn't make it right.  But if she is just like you, he might want you back.\n\n3. Why do you want him back?  how old are you? how long have you been dating?  What have you done together (meaning go to college, school, other?)  Maybe he was just serving his purpose for those times but wont work with these times.  We are all human and we have all done that.\n\nSo if you want him back, how bad?\nif you need him back you got to tell him and sex him up.  (If that is the only way, i say leave him)\n\nIf you love him, but still lead a life of your own, then tell him you need him and tell him you are sorry for what happened.\n\nfinally, if you are stil pissed at him and don't care if he comes back or not (but would like him back) then just say hey we need to talk and make sure he knows everything about how you feel and ask him why he did it.
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I know exactly what you're going through.  There's no advice that anyone can give you to get you through this, which makes it so much harder.  And I think you're doing the right thing by acting happy and like you're fine.  You don't want to wear your heart on your sleeve.  That's only for your closest of friends to know - and that's what they're there for.  You need to continue your life without him as hard as that is.  \n\nIf you know there's 0 chance of getting him back, just realize that that's the reality.  You're probably beating yourself up trying to figure out how to win him back, but reality hits hard and you just need to accept it.  You have to be happy for him if he's happy and just know that you did what you could and you can't do anymore.  \n\nSomeone once told me that guys always realize what they've done wrong when they're older and wiser, but they'll never admit to it.  Just continue with your life the way you are and cry when you need to.  If you live day to day with a sad face, it' s not going to help your situation any more.  It's not going to bring him back, not going to make you happier, not going to change anything.  \n\nTime is the only healer.  I think about my ex all the time.  He won't return any of my calls or talk to me.  So I just leave him messages telling him I'm thinking of him and if he needs anything I'll be there.  But I still don't hear from him.  So slowly, I'm letting go.  I know it's already been 4 months.  But I've known people that it's taken them a year or more to get over someone.  \n\nMaybe it just wasn't in the stars for the both of you to be together.  Take what you've learned in the relationship and only remember the good things.  I'm sure he's a wonderful guy, but that doesn't mean you'll find someone more wonderful who will make that committment to you and stick with it.  Don't rush into another relationship because you know you're still not over him.  Be honest with yourself.  That's fine if you think about him all the time - you really love him.  \n\nBut if you really love someone, let it go.  If it comes back to you it's meant to be.  And in this case, since he's moved on, it just wasn't meant to be.  I'm sorry.  I definitely know break-ups are not easy, but don't forget to continue respecting yourself.  You're not alone...
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I have an ex like you and three years later he still has not given up.\nGive her space or you will ruin the friendship and there will never be more more. If she does not want you back at the moment  do not make yourself annoying.\n\nTRUST ME the best thing you can do is prove you respect what she wants. Good luck I hope things work out between you but don't push it too much, what happens happens and although you think you could never ever love anyone else, with time you might just find out that you can.
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I know for a fact you want to trust him bacause i've been in this situation and I'm going to tell you what I did.  Trust him but to a certain extent.  Let him know that you don't feel comfortable with the situation.  If he still talks to her, let him go.  If he doesn't, give him that second chance.  You'll be able to tell if he really does still love you, because if he respects your feelings he won't talk to this girl anymore.
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A loyal heart like yours is hard to find.  The sad, sad thing is that you can't make a person fall in love with you again, nor should you try.\n\nYou need to be the best person you can be: your happiness shouldn't be dependent on another person, no matter how beautiful, no matter how lovely or nice. You need to move on, to value yourself.\n\nIt's fair enough to feel bad after a relationship ends. But you need to admit that it's over, and grieve for it. You need to find a way to go on, to make new friends, and so on.\n\nThe thing is, even if you were to get together again, it wouldn't be the old relationship, it would be a new one. Five years is a long time, and as you say, she's grown up... and chances are so have you. I've got a lot of respect for you for ensuring her safety, and for not expecting sex when she stayed. Seriously, you sound like a stand-up guy. You will find someone to make you happy, and you will make that person happy too.  Things will work out for the best.\n\nIn the mean time, do as she says, don't read too much into you hanging out. Treat her nicely, and as a friend. That's all you can do.  There's a slim chance that you might get back together, but that can only happen if you don't make her feel obliged. If you're happy and confident and self-sufficient, that's a much more attractive package than needy and desperate.  And it will feel better for you, too.\n\nIf you get to know each other again, and there's still a spark there, then let things take their own time. If there's not, nothing will make it come. But appreciate the good things about yourself, and try and believe that there's someone for everyone, even if it's not who you initially expect.\n\nGood luck, either way.
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Get out and do things that won't remind you of the ex. Go with friends and have some fun and when you think of him or her think of the reason they are the ex...............
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You can't. If you get back with him it will not be hte same as before. He will not trust you for whatever reason you broke up int he first place. Find someone new & start fresh.
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You probably cant.  Just keep a few things in mind when considering it.  First of all there is a chance they are still in love and may always be.  Second of all, they are with you now and make that time special and make them remember who you are. \n\nYou may not be able to stop them from loving their ex forever but they may love you.  Loving someone doesnt mean you would go back with them ever.\n\n  If they dont share kids with their ex and they spend lots of time with them stating they want to be friends, I would be concerned, but that is not a sure-fire way to assume.  Besides to assume makes an asse out of U & me.
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He's not trying to make you jealous.  You're already jealous.  It's not your place to tell him anything about his girlfriend.  First of all, you don't even know if those rumors are true.  I know that you want something to be wrong with their relationship because you still like him.  You asked this question earlier and you didn't get the answers that you were looking for.  So you asked it again hoping that someone will make it okay for you to sweat your ex. The fact to the matter is...Your ex is in a relationship and there is nothing you can do about it.  Stop allowing your ex to flirt with you because it is only making matters worst for you.  When he flirts with you remember he has a girlfriend.  You are allowing him to have his cake and eat it too.\n\nMove on and find someone else.  This relationship is over.  Don't jump on his back  for rides it only makes you look easy.  He will think that he doesn't have to get back with you because you are acting easy.  Why buy the cow when you can have the milk for free? The only person that is getting hurt is you.  I bet he's on the phone right now with his girlfriend so move on.
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Honestly if you still love ur ex dont cheat the new person out of finding someone that loves them entirely. I mean would you want someone to treat you with half of their time and attention cause that is what you will really be doing especially if you start hangin with your ex and you have the feelings still. You will cheat. I would honestly break up up with the new person to prevent hurting them and dont run back to your ex because there was obviously some isues as to why you guys broke up in the first place. So just stay single you can still talk to your ex and communicate to solve the problem and then maybe try being together or you have to decide that you guys are better as friends and thats its. That way when you are with someone else and your ex wants to hang out it will be as friends and you dont diss your friends. I speak cause I have been there and done that. Trust me. make sure that you are completely over your ex though, otherwise you will be in a world of hurt
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Give the man some time.\nhe only needs to trust you. He feels like he could go through hell again to try and feel the best thing in the world. You need to prove to him that you really care and you are not like this other girl. Do the things you want out of him and I can promise you everything will fall into place.
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I have been in this situation before and the best way is to make him jealous.\n\nBe the girl you always wanted to be; go to the gym and get fit and tone, splurge on a new wardrobe that'll turn heads. Open up more, become the office flirt that's fun to be around. When you're turning everyone's head including your ex-BF's and he wants you but can't have you, damn that's a good feeling.
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If your ex girl friend was not in love with you then you treat her just a normal friend but if ther have been love between you both then getting back being friends is difficult. Give the best to your present girl friend because she is your present. Don't loose her because then you will have problems so keep your life hassel free
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Why would you want someone back who would believe rumors about you? He obviously doesn't "Love" you if he would believe his friends over you. You learned a very valuable lesson from this experience.  Even if you did manage to get back together, the same thing is going to happen the next time his friends or someone else spreads rumors about you. You need to realize that you deserve better than this and move on with your life. There is someone out there who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated and who will trust you. A good relationship is based on honesty and trust. Without them the relationship will fail. He doesn't trust you, so there is no way this relationship will work. Move on and live your life well. He is the one that loses. The best revenge is to live well. He will soon see what he has lost. Good Luck!!\n\nA.H.
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You continue to be their friend. Take it from me; guys aren't normally friends with girls for nothing. I guarantee you there's something about you that he likes. You wouldn't be his friend if there wasn't. Just remain close to him and let the other relationship do its thing. If it doesn't work out between them, then and only then, do you tell him how you feel. Let him take it from there. The best thing you can do is to not interfere with or try and sabotage his relationship with his girlfriend. If he ever finds out he will resent you. You will forever lose his trust and you two will never be together. Remain his friend, but don’t waste your life waiting around for his relationship to fail. You have fun, too!! Find your own guy to date. Maybe him seeing you with another guy will get his attention. But don’t date just to make him jealous; date because you want to. You never know, there may be a guy out there who has already fallen in love with you like you did with your friend! And you may miss out on a wonderful guy that’s been waiting to make you feel so special because you’re waiting on a guy who's already involved with someone else...
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a)  get a hot new gf, even if your not like that, itll make you feel better\nb) punch the guy out in front of the whole school.  you might get punished, but itll be worth it\n\nAbove all, dont hold on to hope that you might get back together with the girl.  Life is too short, and reunited couples rarely happen.