my boyfriend broke up with me because he wants a new woman and now I am mad and want?
454215
Yeah, it's normal especially if he thinks that your appearance is not good enough. If that is the case he is a jerk and guess what? If he is looking for MIZZZZZZZZZ PERFECT SHE...DOES NOT EXIST AND HE IS GOING TO BE LOOKING FOR A VERY LONG TIME. Maybe he will find some girl that treats him like crap because she is MIZZ perfect and she knows it and she knows she can have any guy she wants, if that is the case, he deserves it. What goes around comes around. \n\nNow as for you my sweet friend, Don't go losing weight and getting yourself in shape for the guys, do it for you. Don't do it just for looks, do it for your health and well being and you know what, maybe you look just fine, but you are letting what happened to you get the best of you, which is normal too. \nHang tight. The guy is a jerk, he is not worth your energy. \n\nI bet there is a great guy waiting out there for you. \n\nYOU GO GET HIM TIGER!!!!!!!!! ;D
320142
And we guys can't understand you girls...but anyways, there could be a number of reasons as to why he broke up with her, and him saying that he's bored of her, he sounds like a bastard to me. I don't think that's a very good reason, and it's probably not the reason he did, but then again i don't know the guy. He might have been interested in her at the beginning, just looking for a good time, but now he's found another girl who's  different, which he finds interesting, but will get bored with. Using "I got bored" is a cheap way out, and I'm sure he uses it on all kind of girls after he's had his "fun." Obviously he doesn't love her enough to stick with her, and to talk and say, "We could make more our relationsship more interesting." I say stay away from the guy, get over it, and move on.
669059
Are you sure this new guys isn't really after you for your body??  It certainly can't be for your brains...or at least your spelling and writing ability.  I just love needy, weak chicks who can't live a second without a man in their lives.  If man #2 didn't show up, you'd still be happy with man #1.  You said nothing that he had done wrong.  You should break up with #1 and stay away from #2 for a least a month so you really know what you want.
879093
It means he is just using you. that crap he told you is just an excuse. You watch, if his new relationship doesn't work out and he is alone again, he will all the sudden want to be with you. Its call buying insurance (or you giving him time off so he can buff other chicks)!! Either way, you will be there to cater his needs.\n\nYou might think I'm a a55hole for saying this, give it time and find out for yourself!!
1176452
Im sorry  that you had to experience a messed up relationship. First , you should not compare yourself to another woman. Sound like your more woman than the one he cheated on you with. It could just been about sex and nothing more with your ex and "butt-a-face" .Sometime women and men dont know when they have a good thing until its gone . Hopefully next relationship you wont be with someone who you "know" is cheating on you .
212481
If you are not into it, leave him.  It is obvious that he does not think that you are enough for him, and he is going to go out and be with other women, regardless of how you feel, or even the risk of disease he will be putting you in.  Just tell the loser to get his sorry ass away from you, and move on.  You deserve better.
266990
Girl, you dumped him for a reason, right? Guys usually don't change, lol. Probably something going on where you are feeling lonely, bored, etc. Go out with your gfs, make some new gfs, get a puppy...anything. Don't look back, lov ya!
265605
I would confront him but dont be angry about it at first, because he could have a reason. My boyfriend had the same issue , but once i found out the reasons it became okay, talk to your boyfriend calmly , he will react better and might not get so defensive. i would have him delete her from his list so that he couldnt talk to her, that way you and him would feel better. Explain to him it makes you unhappy and that you have insecurities about begin left and that you are worried that you are not making him happy , and he wants what he had. He should then feel sad and will want to cuddle you and then try to be emotional that way he knows you do care about the two of you begin together. Good Luck
282641
Aww... That is soo sad. If only you could just snap your fingers and make it all better... Honestly, I don't think that he has much interest in you anymore. He may think that spending quality time and communicating with you is no longer necessary. Most guys don't understand how to keep a woman happy. You should really try and talk to him about how you feel. But there is no guarantee that he will change. But don't think about breaking up with him until you have a talk with him first. After the two of you have a talk, and he doesn't change... move on. You deserve better, and you know it. However, keep the child in mind, whatever you do.
299799
Stay away.  You dumped him, she took him.  Respect your friend, your boyfriend, and yourself.
995747
Well why did you broke up with him in the first place. Why are you reconsidering going out with him donot make it be because you are bored and have nothing else to do that is not a good reason.
470195
maybe u need relationship guidance or he needs more than 1 woman 2 satisfy him coz hes greedy.
594897
As I've learned on a question of my own, you cannot expect a real answer 'cause we don't know how you guys even broke up. We don't know who dumped who and how are things between you two now.\n\nThe truth is probably this, assuming that I have a real insight of the situation from your question: You are still a princess to him and he still finds you beautiful. But you are not HIS princess anymore. He surely does care.\n\nThe fact remains - he is trying to destroy your self confidence so you don't find somebody else. It is a cruel tactic, but the man still cares and he's out of ideas. Talk with him.
987048
The problem probably is that your not being direct enough.  You say your doing everything but you haven't done what needs to be done if you want to be with him.  You need to actually talk to him and tell him that it is him you miss and that you want to be a part of his life.  Right now he probably feels like you ended things and that he isn't willing to risk getting dumped again without being sure that this is what you want and that your willing to actually be with him through the bad times and not end things so easily.
392468
It's the thrill of a new relationship.  Give it some time and you two should be back together soon enough :)
71824
It looks to me, that when he got 'bored' with you he had no problem letting you go. Now, he is probably 'bored' again and seeing how you are making a life for yourself may want to get back with you and probably use you.\n\nI think that since you manage to live a whole year without him, you are better off like that. It looks like he likes to use woman, do not let him...
1070700
you already know the answer to this question.  you left your boyfriend because you didn't or don't love him and you think you love this guy.  well, we always seem to want what we can't have.  you should have broken up with your boyfriend because it's not fair to him for you to be with him and have feelings for someone else.  you can't have something with someone who has a girlfriend, unless you plan on trying to break them up.  i think you should take this break from your boyfriend as time to reflect on what it is you actually want.  do you want him back or someone else?  decide what you want before you do something you might regret later.