Should i have sex wid my bf i trust him loadz im 14 and ive been wid him 4 a year?
455097
what about after having sex?\ndid you ask that?\nwill he tell to all his friends what he have done to you at bed?\ngirls don't ask herself those trivial questions?\n\nwill he leave you after that?
411307
I say DONT HAVE SEX  with him and is you two back together or what. And don't rush yourself (never let a boy rush u into what u don't want to do) And u will be having peddity sex if u do cuz u is only doin it because u scared he might leave u. But first find out what he wants and tell him tha truth on how u feel about having sex. Don't let anyone tell u that if u don't have sex with them then they will break up with you. Remember your body is not a playground and its not for everybody.
811872
I doubt it'll last long if you already have your doubts.  I'm not ragging on you for having sex at 15 (as long as it's safe and you really honestly think you're ready for the consequences if something happens), but not many ppl know what they want at 15.  Best wishes and please be careful.
247397
If your a virgin think this through first.  Is he going to be in your life a year from now?  In the off chance that you got pregnant is he going to stick by your side or say bye-bye baby.  Do you love each other?  Do you have the same interest's.  Do you enjoy talking to each other for hours?  Is he someone you can bring home to meet mom and dad and have them really like him?  These are some things to think about before taking the next step in the relationship.  \nMake sure he's the right one.  Regrets are something that always sticks with you throughout your life.  And they suck big time. If your in high school I would advise you not to have sex.  Things and people always change after high school.  You'll meet the right guy after high school.  \nIf your not a virgin and you have been with this guy over 6 months and you have thought about the questions I have asked you and you realize he is the right guy.  Then go for it.  Think it through first though.\nGood luck with your decision.
633640
7th grade???? thats wayyyyyyy to young, sweetie u have a whole long life ahead of u to experience it, wait, and if ur boyfriend refuses to wait then dump him. i hope ur boyfriend didn't give u ideas to have sex, and don't let him pressure u if he does, trust me just wait for the right guy to come along, but really u should wait till after u get married, that would be the most moral and best thing to do. i hope u make the right decision, good luck.
521178
If you have a sensible head on your shoulders and know how to handle yourself then why not? It may be illegal for him to have sex with you where you come from though and he'll be the one that could get a criminal record if it is! But generally speaking, four years age difference is nothing! Just be very careful, is all I can suggest. Many older men have desires for young girls that are not altogether healthy.\nJust use some good judgment and keep safe!
64211
I would not consider you a ***** but i would advise you to be very careful and use every protection that you can. I would ask you if you are RESPONSIBLE enough to take on a child for the next 18-20 years of your life? Sex may feel good to you, and it is enjoyable, but it does have a purpose. It is the cement that bonds a man to a woman, and it brings forth new life. I dont believe that at 14 you are really ready for a commetment of that nature. Sit down and really think about it.
463238
the keyword of every relationship is trust.and if u and ur bf have trust faith and commitment towards each other then this os not a prob at all.
174272
you should have sex when you know you are ready and you know that you will not reget it in the future! If you do feel right having sex or you are jus doin it cuz every1 else is you should not do it\nGotta love me :\nNina
317571
You need to go hang out with your girlfriends for a while, do something you like without him. Or you will seem needy. Besides you are 14 and there are so many opportunities out there for you yet. Don't go crash-in on any guy at your age, enjoy the time with him but go out and hang with your girls. They will always be there.
222023
I think you're mother is right. What do kids at 13 and 16 know about love let alone sex? Let yourself grow up and then worry about bf's and gf's!
544421
ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!\n\nJeez... this is happening earlier these years...\n\nI don't think you should let him, I mean- come on, you're not even a teeenager yet. Don't rush into certain things. Put boundaries. If you're not comfortable, or if you're uneasy with what he's doing, one word sweetie- NO!\n\nJust say NO! \n\nAnd if you let him keep touching you... chances are you might even end up having sex, and you're way TOO young to experience sex or end up getting pregnant or something.\n\nBe careful.
395439
Sure! I'm a 15 year old girl and i have a bf. A s long as you think you're ready, it's fine!one thing though...make sure you're mature about the situation.... :)
335685
Just be completely honest with him.  Don't worry about embarassing yourself.  If he's the kind of guy you want to be with, he won't care about your lack of experience.  He will respect you and slow down.  I am a virgin, and I told my bf straight up that I wasn't going to have sex in our relationship.  He hasn't pressured me or tried to change my mind in any way.  Be honest.  It will save problems down the line:)
1182673
Ugh, another teenager asking a relationship question.\n\nMost guys want sex. The question is will he marry you and commit?\n\nNot likely - you are both probably too young.\n\nGrow up a little before entertaining the notion of hopping into bed with anyone.
272925
It depends on the person and their maturity level. If you feel that you are mature enough to have sex and deal with the consequences that may come about, then go for it. But you really need to think about it and how it will change you and your relationship with the other person. I had sex for the first time when I was 14 and completely regretted not waiting. You may think the person you are with is the one or whatever, but you may regret your decision later. It shouldn't be taken lightly.
174323
I would say you are safe this time - but this would be a good time for you to start using dependable birth control every single time you have sex. And - she should go visit Planned Parenthood and have an exam.