Does anyone know how to be really romantic without annoying surrounding people??? PLEASE HELP ME!!!!:-S?
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One of the easiest ways is to start slow and gradually introduce intimacy back into the relationship.\nFor instance, you may introduce a rule to yourself:\n"make sure I hug my partner at least three times a day"\njust simple acts like this, which are quick to perform, can have a profound effect with regard adding romance into a relationship.\nOr ,get up early one day and go and watch the sunrise together.\nThis is the sort of thing that many women love, and whilst you may find it a little boring is a classic way of adding romance to your relationship.\nOn a warm night before what will be another warm day, there is something incredibly romantic about sharing watching a sunrise together, as the night and darkness gives way to the light of day.\nThe cool air, the change in light levels and the relative quiet of that early morning gives you an almost humbling sensation or an awe of the true beauty and power of nature, and sharing this together is what makes it so romantic.\nAdvice: Don’t involve your friends in your relationships.
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Awwww...after a little lesson on sweet-talking eh?\n\nIf you really want someone to love you deeply, you need to be honest, and listen to them. Showing a REAL interest in what they say, be complimentary and don't over flatter, as you may come across as insincere.\n\nI think that using corny quotes will only work on romantic idealists and the gullible among us, which could well be your target for all i know!
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Hey if you can find a social scene, like a party or something where you can just walk up and kiss him and not have it happen in front of 100 people, go for it. It's flattering. Otherwise, try and talk to him more often and build up a relationship that way!
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Stay calm, do not panic. Just open your mouth and start talking. Share interests, and be nice. That's all you have to do. Oh and don't talk about anything disgusting!
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go someplace you feel comfortable and can talk & get to know each other.  A nice park can be romantic.  I would suggest you go someplace public for a 1st date.  Remember how important first impressions are.   If your hoping to score a kiss ~ some place where there is water, like a nearby lake, river, pool or fountain can be romantic.  Guys love good food, so try and grab a bite to eat somewhere fun during the date (& dont pick at your food, that is a turn off to most guys).  Best Wishes to You!  I miss those days of 'butterflies' in my tummy!!!
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find a quiet place for u 2 2 talk. when your there ... ake a move.\n\nKatie < : )
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The most romantic times are the ones where you do something together.  It can be exploring a place you have never been to, or having an experience you've never had before.  Go to a different park, go for a boat ride, go to explore a new town, etc.  The next best idea, I think, is to do something where you each have part in completing something.  Even doing a puzzle together can be really romantic.  Or, go to the stores, get the ingredients for a great dinner, and cook it together.   I promise, if you do that, dessert will become unnecessary. <wink>
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stay cool and simple... Unless you want great attention from others then just be yourself and you will end up with the right people that has the same wants that you do..\n\nCheers
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This approach always works for me.  Don't say anything at all, but still be nice and smiling.  For some reason, when you are quiet, it makes the other person talk.\n\nMy close lipped boyfriend blabs up a storm every time I am quiet.  When I am chatty, chatty, chatty, he just clams up.\n\nJust give it a try!
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Silvana gave some good advice.  You need to know, however, that often you do not need to say anything.  A touch can convey so much more.  Hold a hand, give a hug, lay a finger upon a face, place your hand on an arm or sholder.  A kiss on a cheek.\n\nIf you feel that you must say something, express your feelings honestly or tell the other person that they are not alone and you are with them.\n\nYou can always ask if there is anything that you can do.  You can always tell them to call you if they need anything.  Often people do not want to hear that everything will be alright, when it is not alright with them now.
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Watch a really romantic movie...watch how they do it...and of course...practice, practice, practice my dear!
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JUST BE YOURSELF AND LET IT BE.\n\nWISH FOR THE BEST TO HAPPEND WITHOUT TRYING TO "MANIPULATE" THINGS...\n\nAND ENJOY!! :)
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That is a great question. But here's my thing...why can't two people just enjoy the silence? Isn't it good enough sometimes to just know the person you love/care about is on the other end of the line, spending time with you? Why are people so afraid of silence.... Maybe I'm just weird like that.
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I am a romantic like you.  I never thought it was possible because I couldnt just fall out and leave.  Some times its better of not trying to figure it out
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i answered a similiar kind of question earlier. guys and romance, depends all on the guys mood and time and place. but, what u can do is, back off totally from the romance. no holding hands, no touchin eachother, less make out sessions, basically just show him a dry spell :P and then just to amplify the dry spell, touch him in an erotic way, let him brush against u, and then just back off completely. dont do things, that u would normally do, in a romantic mood. this will make him take a romantic approach, and i think this should do it.
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Hiya! You should set up a little love trail for her in her room with little notes saying eg. look under pillow and leave her something special and romantic at end of love trail! Don't make it too long that she gets fed up searching tho. Light a few scented candles just before she gets back to have a romantic fragrance blossom the room! I would love it if my fiancee did that. Good luck!
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You break a introvert with a 2x4!!  Come on! if you dont being around people (or dislike people all together), then why are you so compelled to fall in line with peole that are not like you?  Your confidence has little to do with you wanting to mingle. Trust me, had I a real choice in the matter, I would live so  far in the wilderness that it would take a plane to get to work every day if I had the choice, but its my JOB to interact with people. when the day is done, i want to be left the f... alone!! Take up a hobby that you can do alone yet meet others, like fishing, biking or mountian climbing. \nJoin a Sci fi fan club or RPG group or something. And if you do, make sure its OFFLINE! Stop hiding behind your monitors screen, that'll help a great deal.\n\n There has to be a row of coming of age movies made over the past 50 years that cover the topic of some geeky kid doing all he or she can to mingle with the "in" crowd... rent, look and learn.Dont quit being who you are for the sake of being a part of the crowd.