I hate myself all the time. Even when something goes well I doubt and belittle it to death. What can I do?
448720
You know, it's all in your head. Believe me, I've gone thru that way of thinking myself and so has eveyone else, but nobody wants to admit it. Even those bubbly people (you know which ones I'm talking about) they doubt themselves too, but they change their way of thinking as well as their view of life. Let's face it, NOBODY asked to be brought to this world, but now that we're here, let's make the best of it. Thank you God or Budah or whoever or whatever you believe in that you can see, talk, eat, hear, walk etc. without assitance and that YES everything is a test from your personal God, but only so that you can become a stronger and wiser person than before. Believe me, you could be in Iraq wondering if the next bomb is going to kill you next or your family.
625053
i do. im not happy with how i act, who i am, what i look like, or what i do. i know i could be a lot better than what i am, and i always disappoint myself. i hate letting myself and others down, and i feel like its all i do.
719952
no, its a fairly easy question bu requires a few minutes to search for the answer.\n\nyeah. i love myself. all the good qualities as well as the bad. that is who I'm and its not gonna change very soon\n\nso whats the point of hating oneself? you are stuck with yourself. \n\nso you better start loving yourself coz a bucket full of wishful thinking will not change you.
956186
I don't think you should be ashamed of a part of your personnality, better understand where it could come from, why are you acting like that, in which purpose. Try to understand your scheme of thinking. All is a matter of harmony and to reequilibrate yourself you have to fight bad schemes of behaving by the opposite ones, but at first try to understand why you are behaving like that, when you'll find that finally this behaviour has no real justified roots you'll go easier.\nWas just a personal thinking, i'm not a pro, ask a psychiatrist maybe, no shame to ask pro.
145531
Try to trust your true self, and also your friends too, you will find satisfaction, It is only because you yourself hide some part of your frankness from your friends so you feel dissatisfied.
558564
Do you really hate yourself, or do you hate what others perceive you as?  \n\nWhat have you done to hate yourself so much?  Answer that question and ask for forgiveness in your heart, and move past it.  \n\nI don't think you can love another until you can learn to forgive yourself and make amends for whatever causes you to hate yourself.  You can have strong emotional ties and feelings, but until you can forgive yourself, how can you expect to love someone and forgive their faults?  \n\nI wish you luck in finding your way.
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You know that you are pretty, so nothing anyone says can change that.  Try writing a list of all of your good qualities, i.e., nice hair, nice handwriting, good body, pretty eyes, smart, popular etc.\n\nYou might want to check some self-help books out of the public library--there are many--and can be very helpful.  You also might want to see a doctor or counselor--you need to let it all out to someone you can trust.\n\nI hope you feel better very soon.  :)
559143
Get the "I don't give a fuck attitude", and just know that you're better than everyone else... and believe in yourself. I hated speeches, but this has helped me... haha... It's ok if it's a bit conceited.
335956
talk 2 sum1 u trust then take a deep breath and scream. punch a pillow, break a few things like sticks, and then rethink. if u still feel like that,talk 2 a counseler or psychologist
59369
You have to get out of the negative talk in you head that keeps you feeling self conscious.\n\nThe best way to do this is to do something selflessly for someone else. Go volunteer at a soup kitchen, or at a hospital, put change in someone’s expired meter without them knowing, go volunteer at head start , do at least  3 selfless acts a day, with no concern of how you will benefit and or gain from it and I promise you will begin to feel better about your self. \n\nAlso do something nice for yourself at least once a week, paint you r nails, get a facial, and take a relaxing bath, what ever you like. \n\nThe best way to feel good about your self is to give, give to other, give to yourself, and you will begin to receive all the confidence and self worth that you need and more!!
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You are as good as anyone else ,so don't feel others are better than you because you feel things more deeply than they do.Do not try to stifle these feelings. Talk to your close friends and your parents about it . Even if they do not have a fast answer that will feel good to you. They will have some ideas and ask them to share their feelings on things and why they feel about those things.Laughter is a good medicine. Watch a funny movie. Develop a sense of humor as you go thru life humor will help you in the most tragic events,believe me I know. Listen to music and take up a musical instrument, music is very soothing and will also help you !! meow!!! Did you laugh ??lol. Good luck and be well !!
710816
I make jokes about myself to myself, and I also tell a good friend I trust what I did, and sometimes their point of view makes me feel better, and sometimes they think I'm a fool too and they help me laugh about it.  After a while the humiliation goes away and you forget about it until the next time you get embarrassed.  Everyone goes through it, so don't be too hard on yourself.
114107
Why do you hate yourself? You really have to ask yourself that very question. Is it because you have low self esteem or is it because your body isnt the way you wanted it? I have never felt hate for myself so I cant really put myself in your shoes, but what I do know is that you really need to tell someone, weather it be a counsler or clergyman. Please, whatever you do, dont hurt yourself. Things WILL get better. Trust me!
666464
You are basically a good chap. What is wrong with you is you are short tempered. You have to control your anger which can be done by minimising your expectations from others. Secondly, remember that this world is imperfect and to expect your degree of perfection in others conduct is unrealistic. You yourself introspect and discover how imperfect you are. The more you look within and try to take some correctional measures, within no time you will be liked by others; and you will start loving yourself. People do not remember how nice you have been to them but once you are uncouth in your treatment towards others, they never forget and hence never forgive.
1113100
It's called depression. You might want to see someone about that. Feeling sorry for yourself all of the time is not good for physically or mentally. Talk to someone, you'll feel better. Best wishes!
240864
Low self-esteem seems to be a common problem.\nI think that if you try to focus on the positive things\nin your life,get a more optimistic attitude,it would be a good first step in the right direction.\n Other than that,if you can't do therapy,try to recognize\nthat there are people who care about you in your life and that's most important. No matter how it may seem,your world is not really coming apart.From your post,things may not be as perfect as you would like but they could be a lot worse.\nHang in there.
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i would suggest you see a psychologist or psychiatrist on a regular basis.  you just go in there and talk to him/her and you can hear yourself talk and get some issues taken care of.  one thing that helped my self-esteem issues was i started thinking positive.  for instance, when you wake up first thing in the morning, listen to the sounds the birds make.  enjoy the smell of coffee as it brews.  smile at your loved ones.  these ideas for thinking positively may seem weird to you, but I'm telling you, they do work.  and last, but not least, believing in the Lord Jesus Christ is absolutely wonderful.  He takes care of me everyday.  all you have to do is acknowlege that you have been a sinner and ask Jesus Christ into your heart and He will come to you and take care of you from then on.  don't laugh, it's true.