when the people erated u to say many time u r made then what should v think and say to other to shut down mout
453088
just ignore them, those people are trying to make ur self esteem down, have confidence in urself. and don't allow anyone to degrade you.\nIf you had to answer then tell them:  Yes I am mad because I allowed myself to talk to someone silly and  shallow like you.
883135
tell them to shut up.
85148
Give them a chance to get back on track and if they still don't listen say you guy are acting like childish 2 year olds I am out!!
503621
just ask them in a polite way first by saying "excuse me but this is important , please allow me to finish" and if they persist then you have the right to walk away from them and continue your conversation elsewhere or if they persist you can tell them in a more angered way (in a nonviolent way of course)
616102
Honestly, just ignore them. Tell yourself.. "Who cares", smile, and walk away. If you get upset by what they say, its their gain cos thats what they want. The key is not to take what they say seriously, even tho' it may be a major OUCH phrase they use. Just think of it as (the lamest and unfunniest) joke ever, and move on. :)
828876
try deacff, dear\n\nwhy worry what other people think?\nnext time they ask you whats wrong, say "I'm tired of people asking me whats wrong! Thats whats wrong"
1090692
No manners at all. They should atleast have waited til you guys left to make those comments. My guess is they were purposely trying to get a reaction. Some people are so stupid they don't think before they speak. Maybe one day they will run into the wrong person someone not as kind as your family.
87840
Sounds like they r 2 far gone to listen to anything u have 2 say, some people have to learn from their own mistakes.\nJust B a good freind and help them get through.  They'll know next time.
521190
Stay out of their bussiness, it's not your place to say anything, If he or she wants people to know they'll say it on their own, they deserve their privacy
1006539
Just say it. Theres no point in trying to mix up the words. Just let them out!
783388
dint get to mad with yourself you got caught up in the moment nervously it happens and you forgot to say something just try harder next time and yes i do do something but yet again a racist person will always be so whatever you say or do wounts change them just make the target fell better knowing someone cares enough to speak up behalf of her and what not
1023270
Confront them.\n\n"Why would you say such a thing?"\n\nIt will leave them speechless, and they will think twice before prejudging someone again.
1154844
IGNORE WHAT THEY SAY. NEVER BELIEVE WHAT THEY SAY. LET THEM SAY WHAT THEY WANT.
762525
the best answer is keep your mouth closed and listen to what they have to say and when people come to help you watch out people will try to mislead you have a small note book and take down things you are suspossed to learn and never talk about another person you work with . or it's called back stabbing be polite and listen listen . just do your job to the best you can. good luck
321876
you need to be up front and ask them what there problem is. if they dont tell you just blow them off. they will come around
206292
Listen first.  I mean really listen to what they are saying.  Try to see it their way, and agree with them.  Something like "I would have probably felt the same way!"  Then ask what you can do to make it better. \n\nThey probably just need to vent.  Just DON'T take it personally.  Some people of course are completely ridiculous and you can't help those ones, but most are somewhat reasonable, especially if they think you care.
472994
you can't force people to think the way you wish them to. if you put up with this, continue and don't complain. if this bothers you, move