i would like to marry as per my parents advice...is there anything wrong with me?
442763
Be careful, your parents CANNOT possibly decide what is best for you unless you are a child.  Please LIVE and LOVE your own way in life...there is sooo much to be lost otherwise!
740869
I have never supported the idea of arranged marriages for the simple reason whose life is it to live? Part of being human is to make our own decisions and take the good or bad results of these. Your parents are living their lives, maybe they should let you live yours and forget about the cultural stuff. If you live in this society, you have an obligation to live as we do.
1043389
dont listen of all of them are u going to run to this man tell him marry me as my parents are forcing me to get married?haha hes going to be a man dont do that.during this time dont be in touch with this guy tell ur parents i wont get married now go off get a new job move to a new place then date man u love if not find a nice guy get married settle down marriage should be based on love and marriage shouldnt be for any other reason then two people themselves wanting to spend their life together not parents.
185252
If they are as close to you as you say they are then you would never lose them over marrying this girl. If so they are crappy parents at giving unconditional love and support as they should be. How old are you by the way? If you are young that could be a reason. Parents are usually almost always right about these kinds of things. You are a grown @$$ man though and they need to back off and let you live and learn. Fallow you gut feelings, not your heart. Your heart will ALWAYS get you into trouble!
1170654
love has no bounds... if your guy loves you so much so that he can go against this world.... go with your guy.... its very difficult to find a pure love.... if you think you have found one, do anything to save that love.... people are not always so lucky.....\nif you dont have any blood relation then i don't see why you both can't get married.....\nbut before telling your parents... talk to your guy... as to whether he will be there standing with you or not.....
294674
If this was the ONLY reason for your getting married, I would be very worried, and advise you to get help. BUT that is not the case, your already engaged and planning to spend the rest of your life with this person. The only thing holding you back is finances. \n\nSo even though the last name thing is one reason, its not the main or only reason for getting married. So I'd say go for it. As long as you love each other, and want to be joined in the eyes of the government why not?
488736
if you don't like the guy don't marry him, cause it's not your parents who are going to live with him the rest of their lives, but you. think about what you want and moreover about what you feel. \nGod says that two persons have to love each other to get married, otherwise they offend the holy union of marriage. \nprobably your parents want the best for you, but they cannot be sure of what is really best for you.\nand anyway they cannot force you to say yes before the priest. wait a while, if your parents really want the 'best' for you, they'll stop blackmailing and harming you.\nif they'll continue doing that, it proves that they have other interests with this marriage.\ndon't fight them, just tell them calmly that you won't marry that guy and that's all.
441952
Yes you will marry because your are desperate enough to ask about it to total strangers. Yes you will because getting married is the most important thought in your mind right now. If you live in a place where marriage is arranged by family, that might very well happen to you. Try to avoid it by being as atonomous as possible.\n\nInitials? well lets see. TRP. \nYou're almost 25 now. Well look at that my birthsay in July 20! Don't rush. Finding someone stable is not easy. Men are usually slower to commit.
1162889
Well right or wrong on what you become and what you do with your life, family should be there not matter what! I'm going threw it right now. I met and married a wonderfull man, and family is distant from me cause they didnt agree with it. In time if they still dont like what you become, then tell them that your you and you will be what you want and they can be by your side or not, that if they choose not to be then its not stoping you from becomming what YOU want. I didnt let my parents bring me down cause i married a guy they didnt know. And im not giving up my husband for them. They can take me and him as whole or keep living there lifes without seeing there grandkids or future grandkids. But I know in time they will come around, as a matter of fact they have a little. Just be who YOU want to be dont let anyone bring you down or tell you do what they want. Be yourself and prove to them you can do what you want on your own. Good luck!
513834
No, not really. Do whatever your heart tell you to do. Sometimes spontaneous marriages work the best! This way you do not have a certain expectation of a person and you learn to love him for who he is!
875435
I would not advise getting married. You are too young to be debating marriage. Don't rush into marriage. Marriage is more than "I Love You".
212840
Not unless you want to be the only person who is responsible and you have lots of money.  Kids are expensive and take a LOT of time.\n\nAlso, are you ready to do some major explaining if the child wants to know why he/she has only one parent?  They will ask a lot of questions and might resent that they have only one parent as they get older.\n\nIf you're okay with all of that, or if you have a mate who will hang around but you just don't want to get a marriage license, go for it.  Weddings are just ceremonies, they don't change much of anything except in your mind.
579377
I wouldn't worry about what others say. As long as your happy, then that's all that matters. Your still young, you have lots of time ahead of you to get married if you want to. Wait until you find the right person. A lot of people don't marry until they are in their 30's or 40's. They want to make sure the person they marry is the right person for them to spend the rest of their life with. I say ignore the remarks from people and enjoy your life.
267267
What the f*** has it got to do with your parents?! You're marrying him not them. If you pay for your own wedding you can arrange it how you want and that includes choice of groom.
1023716
If you love each other, then marry each other, of course if you are old enough.  \n\nIf have found in my own life that any man I brought home, my parents found something wrong.  They simply want the best for their children.  Go with your heart.
970748
Wake up sir and please for once be more realistic! \n\nLove has nothing to do with caste! If you love her with your whole heart and you know that she'll be the only one that can make you happy, then go for it despite your parental objection.\n\nSometimes in life we have to make our decision. Our parents wants the best for us but IT IS ONLY US THAT KNOWS WHAT WE TRULY WANT AND WHICH BEST IS RIGHT FOR US!
111100
Maybe it s not that there is something wrong with you, but with your conception or idea of what marriage is and what sharing your life with another person FOREVER means to you...  There is long way to talk about this, I have some personal experiences... if you want to contact me I can try to help a bit giving you some ideas of what you can do...