why do people love someone and then they love somebody else/?
443725
Because it wasn't love to begin with,it was infatuation and infatuation dies..love never dies.When you love someone there's nothing to stop you from loving them...but when your infatuated,it's easy to get over at be infatuated with someone else..
19702
Well,\n\nthere are some people and there are many people\n\nthese "many people" start loving these "some people"\n\nwhen that love becomes greater than some odd number x, the "some people" are called celebrities.\n\nSince "many people" have already started loving the "some people" who are now called as celebrities, they continue to love them.
644366
It's a fact of life that people who are 'in love' will eventually simply love one another. It's impossible for the raging fire that was once your feelings for each other to continue indefinitely. This is very normal. Eventually, you will feel the same and you will accept it and be happy that you have someone who loves you. There are people in this world who never have that.
1084954
its giving of yourself to someone else, love can be romantic or motherly love or paternal.  Friendship love.  just loving everyone in general without wanting to harm them but to help them who ever you meet
307673
i don't know, i really don't, i guess, you know you love that person from the start, you just don't want to admit it, so when the person go, the feeling get strong, and you can't help it anymore, then you'll regret all the things, and question yourself why you ever let that person go in the first place,. then only you realize that that person have to go first then you'll realize you love him/her. i actually don't know myself,
1126564
I think a person can be in love with two people at the same time. However, I think it's wrong for them to carry on two relationships simultaneously. They should choose one person, and let the other go.
999272
When you truly love your partner, there is no way you will do it with someone else because you wouldn't want to do anything that could hurt you love and oftentimes you wouldn't be feeling interested to anyone else...people who like having many partners just havent  found their match yet.
1137096
You know you really love someone when you put their needs before yours. When you do what you can to make them happy, help them when they are feeling down, and want to be with them because you feel complete with them. You feel a bit lonely when you are apart, but not so much that you can't go on with your day. You are happy and excited to think about them because you know that they make you happy, and you want to make them happy too....does this make sense?:) When you love someone because you want to make them happy, it is called altruistic love, and it's the best kind there is:).
174850
because of the HOPE that the LOVE you gave to that someone will be reciprocated in the end. the thought of being loved by the one you love is one of the most wonderful feeling a person could experience.
997201
I think most people love someone more then themselves. If they dontthen they are missing an important part of life.
536141
loving someone is getting to know them and truly caring about them.  being in love with someone puts a shield over you and u feel like life is perfect, but sometimes are in for a rude awakening.
104787
Because you love the person.
753889
To love them as much as one love's himself.
178747
even though people dont mean to hurt the people that they love the most, the people that love the person hurting them deeply care about that person and dont want to see them make the  same mistakes that they have made and it hurts them that the person making them hurt wont listen to them. or the simple fact of pulling away from the people that you love hurts them very deeply. dont burn your bridges, and if you have start to rebuild them with patients and kindness.
209018
you can love someone and not be in love with them, but you can't be in love with them and not love them . You love a person for what they are , you fall in love with a person for who they are.
372356
Wow the answer to this one is endless.  There are different things for different people but what makes things work for two people to be in love over time, is what they intentionally share with each other.  Needs (emotional, psychological, physical) and what the other person has to offer to meet those needs.  Goals, shared goals and the ability to accept or support goals that differ.  Similarities and differences in personalities that compliment each other or that emphasize the strengths of the other.  I think most importantly though is choice.  Choice to work at life beyond it feels good and into the desire to maintain the life with a person because that person provided those things listed even though it doesn't feel like it at the moment.  Love is a wonderful combination of every need, desire, drive, action and choice.
646126
To me, it is a recognition of the value of the person. \nFeeling that this person betters your life and helps you grow as a person and knowing you help them grow as a person too. When you can put the other's persons needs before your own and are willing to put any effort it takes into making it work. \nThere is a big difference between being in-love, loving someone and being in love with love. To be in love I believe you have to care more about the other person than yourself but someone whom you admire and respect who will help you improve and improve life's joys.