is it bad not to be a virgin when your in high school?
440266
Gee, I don't know.\n\nIs it bad to have two feet?\n\nIs it bad to have two eyes?\n\nIs it bad to still have all your teeth?\n\nAsk a million people, you will get one million different answers.
346546
no it is not bad. believe it or not, many people do not have their first kiss until college or after. it seems like you're waiting for the right guy. good for you! maybe lower your standards a bit, not much. but make sureself seem open. if you have confidence and have fun, guys will be attracted, trust me. well good luck, and hope you find mr.right! :)
759131
Negative\n\nDont loose your virginity, if he said he can wait then perfect! Dont ruin the relationship because your horny. Hell you can masterbate to solve that problem. \n\nYou only have your virginity once, so cherish it and who know maybe in a couple of years you two will break it off and you will be thankful for not going through it. Hell maybe years to come you two will get married, then you should loose your virginity.\n\n-James
694149
Virginity IS important and its something that has to be thought about before given away. It might not be that important to the girl who's losing it but, think about the people around her and society.\nDespite the rise in teen sex, its still not OK in society for a teenager to be sexual and to have sex. With guys its a little different because guys see it as a status thing. With girls, you either come off looking like a slut or you're seen as easy or "used". \nWhen giving it up, its got to be something you want to do and its got to be something you've thought about. If you're unsure, dont do it. Its not something you can get back.
222082
sure it is cool.\nbut in America it seems like u miss something if u dont loose your virginity...i can see from the movies it is like a tradition to loose it before the students finish thier high school...
194030
There is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 20. You should have sex when you feel ready, not when you feel you are the "right" age
130742
well have fun . . . but make sure you used protection . . . because you don't want to get knocked up yet . . . until you finish college.
144462
man u r 1 geniuss guy i totally agree with u i live in america and i am good looking and i am in high school\nand i am still virgin why coz i am a muslim\nthere was a serway in america about virgin and nonvirgin by time magazzine and out of all american people only 1/2 percents were virgin this serway was about othere religions not islam
493300
You sound somewhat like me a year ago. I don't have Christian values, but I valued myself enough that I didn't take sex lightly. I waited until I was 21 and would have waited longer if I had not found the perfect guy that I know I want to be with forever. Stick to what you believe and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. There is NOTHING wrong with being a virgin and waiting until you're ready to have sex. Worry about school, that's the most important part, not what your friends think.
983806
Nope..High school isint scary..Let me tell you something..Certain things happen in highschool...You first real crush...love...You start to have actual friends..And one thing that you have to know..Life starts getting better...Friends never stays for ever..until you reach a certain age..18-21..The friends you form at that time will be with you...The earlier ones..well..it depends..they might go somewhere else to study or work..\n\nThe best way to have a social life??? Keep in good company...Mingle with everyone..but be a slight bit mysterious...Dont be an open book or predictable..Help out everyone..and dont be too good either...Do something that your teacher dont like..So now you have become a good but sometimes flamable person..Belive me...People come flocking towards this kind of a person...\n\nHappy High School Life..
785519
I think there are obvious risks- like unplanned pregnancy and the potential to become infected with a curable- or permanent STD. \n\nAT 15, howveer, there are other risks to having sex that are a lot more subtle. \n\nYou may become isolated from your friends, you may be having sex for the wrong reasons (because of peer pressure- not because you are in a loving, trusting relationship), you may grow apart from your parents, you may get distracted from school and your grades may suffer, you may develop a low self-esteem. \n\nIf you are in a loving, honest relationship with a partner who is concerned about your health and well-being- then you may decide it is time to have sex. But if you are unsure, or if you have doubts- then you may want to wait until you feel ready. Sex is something you can enjoy your entire life- dont rush into it for the wrong reasons. \n\nAnyone who pressures you doesn't really care about you. \n\nBest of luck.
564175
Technically you are still a virgin since you haven't had sex yet, but some pople consider that you are no longer a virgin if you have cut off the 'maidenhead". So it depends on what you believe. But in this modern day society, you are still a virgin
208177
No!!! If  you have sex, the guy can tell all your friends and make up lies about you. Do you want that? You want the whole school thinking  you a hoe?? Do not worry about sex now, you have your whole life to do that.
293629
Yes, if you've done this many times.  But if this is the first time, No and learn from this mistake.\n\nGuys have their preferences, if virginity is important to them they will surely feel bad about it and most probably shy away from a long term relationship with you.
949840
first you are not alone in this. i know plenty of people whos never had a date in high school, it doesnt matter really because everyone's situation is different.\n\nlook, would you date someone because there is a mutual connection between you two or would you rather date 'just because' you've never had a boyfriend? do you want a relationship because you are in love or because you are desperate to PROVE you can get a boyfriend? \n\nANYONE CAN GET A DATE IF THEY WANTED TO!!! im sure you are really sweet and nice, and you want to see how it feels to be in a relationship. but dont just surrender to peer pressure, its not worth it. wait until LOVE finds you, you are still young, have your first date SPECIAL and REAL then you can go show off and make everyone else jealoused! \n\nnow calm down, theres no need to go 'omg' its perfectly natural. if you really want a boyfriend despite what ive said so far, then be more sociable and join some clubs and activities outside of school. that way you'll meet new people and increase your likelihood of getting a date :)\n\ngood luck and listen to your heart!
393929
If you're a virgin, you will experience some pain.  Hopefully, you will stay a virgin till your wedding night and let this intiment event take place during the special time it was meant for.  Never feel pressured to lose your virginity.  Be proud of it and be different.  Once you lose it, it's gone forever.
1152756
never do until you really ready .... virginity is a big value in your live ... look to your future first ...there is few people out there i consider them winners . be one until you have the  one that care about you than care for sex first . god bless you .