married3/82.spouse says go.no$,car,place togo.footinjury&medical condishns.legaly mak me if i say no?liv in AZ
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My opinion is ; If your spouse wants out of the marriage then your spouse should go, but  how will you manage ? If by chance your spouse was the sole provider of the household there may be grounds for some support. But the bottom line is you should consider becoming a more independent person GOD bless the child who has his own. Finally it sounds to me that your spouse is your wife is that so ? There's a few other things that COULD be said but I'm sure you've heard them already
369202
Sounds pretty good. I hope I never have that opportunity.\nThen I would be a hypocrite. I think everyone should play by the rules.My spouse came here legally 9 yrs ago and has never spent one illegal day in this country. I think everyone should pay the price the same way. What is good for one person is good for the other. Don't reward those who disregard the laws.
457406
call a laywer and ask for sure but i'd think so... i mean, if you pick up and leave they can't legally proove that you weren't spoused to.
615369
Listen up buddy!  It is the right thing to do.  I know it comes off insensitive.  I know it sounds harsh, but you are not dooming your relationship.  You are not saying that you think your wife is gonna leave you.  \n\nUnfortunately, family court is so unfair and slanted towards the female that us men are backed in to this position now.  If you marry her and she decideds to get with your buddy, she still gets half of everything you worked for before you met her.  Is that fair?  NO!  I know your to be wife isn't gonna do that.  The fact is that if you guys are married till death do you part, she is going to obtain the benefits of whatever you are protecting anyway so why should it even matter?\n\nIf she isn't willing to accept it, I would question her motives!
68352
I BELIEVE THAT IT IS 6 MONTHS AT A TIME...I HAVE FRIENDS THAT DO THIS EVERY YEAR AND GO TO ARIZONA AND THEN GO BACK AND IT SEEMS THAT THEY SAID THEY HAVE TO GO BACK FOR AT LEAST 24 HOURS AND THEN THEY CAN COME BACK AGAIN. YOU WILL GET THE BEST ANSWERS FROM THE AMERICAN INS ONE WAY TO MAYBE SPEED THINGS UP IS TO COME HERE TO HIM GET MARRIED AND WHILE YOU ARE HERE FOR THE 6 MONTHS HE CAN FILE FOR YOU TO STAY BECAUSE THEN YOU WOULD BE HIS WIFE
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Have you and the ex-wife had altercations before?  If that has happened I can see how he would be leery of having you join him in court for fear of another ill-feeling event.\n\nBUT - despite that...it doesn't mean he's 100% right.  The ex-wife should not have control over whether you go or stay and by telling you not to go - he's giving the ex wife control.\n\nYou are his wife and he should trust you enough to know that if you and the ex did enter into an argument in the past...you understand the intensity of this court battle and you wouldn't do anything to jeopardize it.  \n\nTalk to him about it again and assure him you won't do or say anything out of line and express you just want to be able to support him.  If he still says "NO" then leave it alone.  He's already under a ton of stress I'm sure and the last thing he needs is another argument.
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you will want to check with the Immigration rules on this one but i am sure you are good to go . as long as husband and wife's name is on the birth certificate your OK  but I'd still get professional advice even ask a lawyer won't hurt better to be safe then sorry ..wish you all the luck
31821
I had attorney friend who offered to do my divorce for $250 for the both of us, but then husband would not meet with her.  If both parties can agree on division of property, etc., attorney will represent both of you much cheaper than "fighting" in court.
350749
You do not have to go.  He is hoping you will "consent" to his questioning.  Everything you say can and will be used against you in a court of law.  Contact an Attorney.  More than likely your Attorney will suggest you remain silent.
712704
Oregon. I've told my husband that if anything awful happens, take my ass to Oregon - don't starve me to death.
1144202
wife unless otherwise specified in will
155432
she will have to divorce. Their marriage is legal as long as they married "de civil" by the law. Alot of couples from mexico may say "mi esposo/esposa" (my husband or wife) and that they are married, when they are only living together. Make sure that they are actually married. If they are by the law in Mexico, they will need to divorse, otherwise they cannot think about getting their papers here.
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Kansas is not a community property state.\n\nSo the question is, was the car that she was driving registered to you? Are you on the Title of the car?\n\nIs your wife on the title of any property that you own?\n\nDo you have any joint assets with your wife.... bank accounts, investments, where you both are on Title?\n\nAny businesses where both of you are listed as owners?\n\nThe plaintiff's cannot go after your income. However, if you answered yes to any of the questions, the law suit could be amended to include you as a defendant, and after judgment, the plaintiffs could go after your properties, business, and assets for payment.\n\nWhile it might be too late, you should probably put any assets and property, where there is joint title, in your sole name, before you are named as a co-defendant, and before the plaintiffs do an asset search.\n\nOne last thing... whether she moves in with you or not is irrelevant.
728243
I was watching a top divorce lawyer on the wright stuff this morning!!!\n\nWell a woman called in and she asked,"would she be entitled to anything, she lived with her partner for "9 YEARS" and had a young child with him and the answer to that was "NO"\n\nYou will have to pay for the child of course.
1068567
It is not ileagal to drive bare foot in California, or any other state I know of. How this myth continues is amazing. You can drive with no feet (with proper controls) If it were ileagal what would be proper foot attire, thongs, house slippers, heavy socks, combat boots, six inch spike heels etc. See the problem\n     Retired C.H.P. Officer
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IF EXPLAINED IN COURT, I'M ALMOST 99%SURE YOU'D GET IT ALL, WAS THE CAR YOU WERE DRIVING A POSSESSION OF YOUR MARRIAGE OR WAS IT A CAR YOU HAD BEFORE THE MARRIAGE?.....DID HE AT ANYTIME, "LIVE IN YOUR BODY AND SUFFER YOUR PAIN?.....I THINK NOT........YOUR EX IS TRYING TO INTIMIDATE YOU, I'D FILE A RESTRAINIGN ORDER ON HIM WITH ONLY SUPERVISED VISITATION WITH YOUR CHILD WITH A WITNESS PRESENT AND ALWAYS EITHER RECORD YOUR CONVERSATION OR VIDEOTAPE IT. THIS WILL KEEP HIM AT HIS BEST MANNERS AND HE'LL KNOW YOU ARE DOING THINGS BY THE BOOK. MAKE SURE YOUR ATTY. TELLS THE JUDGE HE IS INTIMIDATING YOU AND THAT YOU ARE AFRAID OF HIM, IT IS OBVIOUS THAT HE IS MONEY MOTIVATED (bad for him in court)AND JUDGES LOOK DOWN ON PEOPLE WHO INTIMIDATE WOMEN. IN ALL STATES
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yes unless you are married