Nervous around girls...?
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Get involved in a group that contains both guys and girls. This way you can be comfortable around your male counterparts, and also get to observe girls up-close. If you play your cards right, you'll be seen as "that shy guy"... which most girls find rather intriguing. Take your time, get to know a girl and realize that she's not a being entirely different than your guy friends. Sure she might be wearing make-up and a skirt... but guys have their own things too.\n\nPerhaps some of your guy friends from engineering know some girls and would be willing to introduce you to them and hang around so you still have someone familiar around.\n\nMainly, just relax, take a deep breath and let what a great guy you are shine through.
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well be respectful, flirty, and honest with girls. and also try to be mature.then, just ask the girl that you like out. don't feel shy, because most girls hate when guys are shy. thats also means you are not confident.
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It is ok to be nervous..It actually is real refreshing to see that a guy is real nervous coming to me. This shows that the girl is not just another peice of A** to him and that he really likes her. It shows that he must like her because if he gets soooo nervous just to talk with her, then he doesn't do this often. If the guys acts real easy and like hes a pro at this.....stay away ladies. Hes only interested in one thing. So hes not acting nervous cause he is already predicting a real good time with you and isn't planning on dating you . So go ahead be nervous it is OK. But if you want to be less nervous. Just let your words come out naturally.. If your nervous....tell her. She'll understand. She's most likely just as nervous as you are. If she seems irritated or compelled by your actions when your just being honest....don't go for it. She is too shallow and not worth your time. She may SEEM perfect. But shes not...ok.
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You don't have to call yourself pathetic. It's ok to be nervous when talking to the opposite sex. I used to get nervous talking to guys when I was younger, but somehow I learned to manage and now I have a boyfriend. I'm still a shy person and I guess that's part of my personality. I guess you have to give it some time. Think before you talk. What is it that makes you stammer? Think of interesting topics to talk about with girls. If it helps,write some of the stuff down that you think you'd discuss with a girl. Then rehearse it so it'll prepare you for next time. I know it may sound stupid but you can give it a try and no one has to know. The key is making yourself comfortable when talking to girls and talk to them like you casually talk to your friends. Once you get the hang of it, I'm sure you won't feel nervous anymore. It's just a phase and it'll go away with time. Don't worry, just relax. Good luck!
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Be yourself and go for it! She might be nervous just like you are! I like it when a guy is himself and asks me out. I get nervous as well and I did say yes!
661694
the absolute best thing you can tell her is what you just asked.  tell her you like her a lot, and that you don't know what to say because you don't want to sound lame.  tell her you're nervous because you haven't had a lot of girlfriends.  she'll appreciate your honesty, and she will probably say that she doesn't know what to say either, and you can laugh about it together, and it will bring you closer.
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yea man.  i can help you out.  pretend you dont care.  if you want a girl just pretend you dont like her, and she'll come crawling back.  never failed.  girls dont you dare get pissed at me either.  you know its true!
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You're not a shy guy, but you're not outgoing, either. Okay. I see where you are coming from. You're a "stuck in the middle" kind of guy. Normally, you are probably not nervous, and when a gal starts talking to you, you do not always get sweaty and start ststststuttering. But, you lack the confidence and machismo to just go right up to her and say, "Wow, you're the only good-looking girl that I have seen all day. I'm So-and-So. Mind if I get your number?" and hand over a pen and paper.\n\nYou DO have the right idea, though. It is a clever strategy and worthwhile goal to try to get the women to come up to you, rather than vice versa. But...unless they are practically drooling over you for some reason, like your disarmingly good looks and manly charm, that is not realistically going to happen - am I right?\n\nDepending on the location and situation, there are many different ways to start up the Attraction Game. Building attraction is definitely the most important part of getting anywhere with any woman. You cannot just stroll up to them and say, "Hey, you are like, so totally hot, and I like, like you, you know?" Unless, of course, you can pull it off in a particularly humourous way and get her laughing.\n\nThat's what you need to aim for. Laughter. Do not come across as being outright goofy - just playful. Even the more serious-minded women out there will appreciate a fine sense of humour.\n\nNext time that you see a lovely girl standing around, and you want to talk to her...look at her for a while. People, as you have probably noticed, tend to have a "sixth sense" that just lets them know when they're being watched. She'll probably at least glance over at you. Don't drop your gaze in a panic, though. Instead, smile cheerfully, and - slowly - move your gaze away from her. Don't stop smiling, either. Then glance back at her quickly, and look away again.\n\nWhat's the point of that little exercise? It builds attraction. A lot of our communication as humans is completely nonverbal - it's body language. By looking at her but not freaking out when she looks back, but rather slowly looking away, you're effectively saying: "I'm not a creep, because I am not staring at you. But I AM admiring you."\n\nShe'll probably smile back, or at least her eyes will shine with some degree of recognition. There's your chance. Look at her again - about the same way, just focus on her eyes (always, always, always look into a woman's eyes when greeting or talking with her!) - and stroll right on up to her. Sure - this takes courage. And sure, you are probably worried about being rejected. But don't be. Repeat this mantra through your head: There's no reward without risk.\n\nYou might even become so smooth at this whole thing that she ends up coming over to YOU, wanting to know what is going on. I love it when this happens; it shows me that the lady has some confidence and fire in herself. :)\n\nOnce you get there, say something spontaneous. This could be amusing and playfully-arrogant, like what I mentioned in the beginning of this post. Or, it could be simple and direct: "Hi there. My name is So-and-So. You are?" It sounds crazy, but this is honestly all you have to do. It's that easy. What you have to watch out for here is turning into a wimp - blurting out words randomly without thought, or thinking TOO hard about what to say and therefore saying nothing at all - but remember. You are already there. You've already initiated the conversation, simple as that might have been. Now all that you need to do is keep it up!\n\nAnd just go on from there. Keep a few things in mind if you ask for her number and go on a date:\n\n1. BE CHARMING, but do not become a "girlie-man." *laughs* I mean, don't let her walk all over you or get you sweating and stuttering. Be confident.\n\n2. BE FUNNY, but be mature, t
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y get nervous...has she been hitting on u, she may order something expensive, wat u scared of your wit ur girl so thas all that matters
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Looking good will probably get you 20% of the way when talking to girls. So what about the 80% you ask? \n\nConfidence. Body language. Humor. \n\nDude, girls are regular people just like you and me. Talk to them like you would to one of your buddies, don't think too much. Life is short, be a man. It'll show confidence. And remember DON'T THINK TOO MUCH.\n\nAlways, I mean ALWAYS look them straight in the eye. Don't look at their boobs or lips or nose or whatever...they'll know. By looking them straight in the eye (without quivering) will let them know you are not intimidated by them. You are in CONTROL. Be a MAN.\n\nMake them LAUGH. Say something random and remember to always SMILE. Not in a creepy way but more of a natural way. Girls don't like sex jokes so forget about those. They like cute and harmless jokes. Find something regular you do everyday and exaggerate a little bit to make it funny. And remember to look them in the eyes when you are talking to them.\n\nYou'll be fine if you master these techniques. May you use them wisely...and DON'T LET ME DOWN!\n\nP.S. Be a MAN. Don't post any questions like these ever again. Shows weakness...and girls don't like that.
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Girls should be the last thing you should worry about. They'll come to you if you are 'good enough'.
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lol one thing dont do.. The cheesy comments.., No girl likes that.., if gives them.., the feeling that., your a major flirt. introduce yourself.., and say, I couldnt resist how beautiful you look, and i had to talk to you.., for i had no oppurtunity to approach you.. and say.. i do admit i was shy.., but it wouldnt have gotton any easier. and ask what her name is.., and if she walks away.. she wasnt interested.. if she flashes you a smile,then shes waiting for you to talk some more.
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I don't think you should be nervous at all to ask for a girls phone number. You should love yourself enough to be able to do it and also to be able to be rejected(because that is probally why your nervous). If that is why you get nervous get over that QUICK! For the sake of your own happiness. No need to fret over some chick-and take that from some chick!! You are the one and only most important person in your life and you always and forever have to put your happiness first before you will ever make any chick happy anyways. And if being rejected isnt the reason then why else would you be scared is what you have to ask yourself.
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tht's becuz u luv her frm heart.. and u r just nervous wen she is arnd.. all u gotta do is wait for the girl to pick up the conversacion! jus give it time and tlk... gud luk!! :D
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Its because they just feel nervous talking and cant keep it up but sometimes girls are the same way too.
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BE YOURSELF AND THEY WILL COME TO YOU!!! dont try to act cool!! cuz girls notice that kind of stuff!!!
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i was really nervous around guys until i realized that they weren't jst these big intimidating things, that they could be thinking the same thing i was! if u see her in the hall, say what's up, or something and she'll think ur friendly and be more comfortable around you. make sure u get 2 know her before u become committed. patching things up w/ her sis can't hurt either. and if she turns u down, move on! i know u've probably heard that a ton, but if u get over it quickly, other girls will appreciate your independence, and who knows, it might even help u get the girl!