How do i file a harassment claim on an ex-boyfriend?
450624
Start with a restraining order. It should have more details.
987442
call the cops. i had to do it before and it's what it is. sometimes it's the ONLY thing to do. trust me. it beats years of harrassment. speaking from experience here. *hug* God bless you and take care hon...oh...and thanks for the best answer points! :) from the other question.
817974
Of course he is going to deny it. He seems very immature and apparently has issues. Tell him that you will get the police involved if necessary and have your phone number changed. That's bizzare, since he's the one that broke up with you. Steer clear of him. Something just don't sound right.
433904
then get tough on him. Make it clear that its over. If push comes to shove it can be harassment if he calls or emails over and over.
337286
There are remedies for this. First off, in most states there are laws against harassing phone calls. They don't have to be threatening. Second, you can get a criminal protective order. It is similar to a restraining order. Again, no threats have to be made. I see them issued all the time at work. \n\nWhat other posters are telling you is correct. This guy is potentially dangerous. The stalking law probably won't apply. That takes a credible threat that has placed you in fear for ou safety.
671242
The Federal Communications Act and many state laws prohibit telephone harassment. People who commit telephone harassment are subject to fines, prison or both. If you are a victim of harassment, you should contact the police. If the police can identify the caller and find sufficient evidence, they will forward the case to the District Attorney's office to prosecute the caller. The phone company can also help track down the caller. A lawyer can help determine if the caller's words are obscene and if you are entitled to any civil damages, such as emotional distress, as well; to learn more about your rights, defenses, and the complicated legal system, only if you want to go to extreme to have this matter settled by law.\n\nThere is another option you can try, that is to set up a password with your phone company, which you only give it to people you wish to keep in contact. For outsiders they would have to know the password to call you up. I think this is an effective method to put into consideration.
344921
make sure your not sending mixed messages - tell your ex VERY FIRMLY that if he tries to touch you again you are getting a restraining order and consider getting one
84208
File a restraining order.
500699
Yeah...it sounds familiar ...I have an ex who tried the same...basically you have to set boundaries as it's not appropriate for him to visit you given his feelings and the fact that you're committed to another man. Tell him to use the phone or mail to communicate but don't expect him to go away -it's been 18 years since my ex has been doing this but as he's basically harmless I haven't really cared. The important thing is -is your ex harmless? Or is he someone who may act on his obsession? Finally I want to say -be sure you're not sending mixed signals...I've seen too many women not be clear about their wishes only to whine or press charges later when it's their fault for not being direct in the first place! Be honest with him and tell him to scram! There's my advice...I hope you take it! Edit~ I got your mail....If you hate him as you say AND HE HAS 'HURT YOU SO BAD' then why are you putting up with him then? Get a restraining order! Call the police and file a complaint and ask them to tell him to stay away! I thought maybe you still liked him on some level but since that's not the case you need to be pro active! Don't sit here on yahoo talking about it-do something about it -and I mean right now-today! Make sure you don't regret not doing anything!!!!!!!!! Everyday you let this go on-you encourage him more, and give him hope and he will become more relentless! You have been warned!
8864
If you have charges filed against you, you may contact the court to appropriate steps to take to answer the charges.\n\nIf an order or proctection/injunction against harassment has been filed against you, you can request for a hearing before the court that issued the order/injunction.
317068
This guy is one messed up creep.  He lied about you too.  That is unforgivable.  Even if you had done it, him telling people is unforgivable.  You need to tell him in no uncertain terms to leave you alone or you will get a restraining order and follow through.  Start documenting the harrassment, you will need it to get the restraining order.  If you have to, you can add call block to your phone and block his number and everytime he calls from a new number hang up and immediately block that too and don't forget to document it for the courts.  This guy is sick.
772644
I THINK THAT ANSWER IS ABIT HARSH SWEETS.\n\nHow do we know if this man has lost contact purely because the ex has moved away and not told him where they are..\n\nThat does happen, and its no joke.\n\nI think you're going to have to seak real legal advice for the answer on this one, try the Citizens Advice Bureau first. As you may be entitled to free legal aid.\n\nwww.citizensadvice.org.uk \n\n\nAnd do your self a favour and ignore the sarcastic comments off some.\n\nGood Luck
1122912
there are several ways to go about it, \n1. hire an attorney\n2. go through rural legal services \n3. do it yourself- just go to court house and ask for the paperwork and file it yourself. \n4. hope the ex files
416680
First you need to start by flat out telling him that she is not intrested in a relationship or even a friendship for that matter.  If he makes any threats you need to contact the local police.  Also let him know that if he contacts her again she will consider it stalking.  As far as is he a stalker already, its not really fair to call him that if you havent already asked him to stop trying to make contact.  If after you do so, then yes he has issues
590310
Living well is the best revenge. If this person is really trying to ruin your reputation, you can go to court and file a harassment charge. Other than that, you can simply do business in an ethical way, be active in your business community, be good to your employees and customers, etc. In other words, you build a reputation that flies in the face of what she says. She will eventually dig her own grave. Trust me.\n\nThis happened with a former boyfriend who broke up with me. He tried to justify it by telling his friends and his new girlfriend all kinds of things about me. I got even by being totally sweet to all of them. It was the best way to prove that his lies were not true and that I was better than he was, anyway,.
553201
Tell her directly that you want nothing to do with her.\n\nIf that fails, start documenting when she harasses you.  Note the time, date and what happened.  After 3-4 times, contact the police and request to file a complaint against her.  Also request for an order of protection against her from the court.\n\nIf she violates the court order, she will face charges.\n\nBe clear, send the right message to her.
579405
Is he your boss? He cannot fire you without proper justification.  Unless you broke a company policy or rule, you're fine.  If he fires you just because you guys broke up or he doesn't like you, you can file a harassment suit.