I'm in a long distance relationship and get super lonely?
454973
Myspace. Try to find a friend in your area. But don't ever forget that your relationship deserves a fighting chance.
345164
I would ask the guy these questions. Long distance relationships are hard to maintain. It sounds like he just came up with a bagful of excuses for not wanting to be in a relationship with you. It's easier to pet a cat that's close to you than it is to pet one far away. Your hurt will heal in time. I'm sorry your feeling so much pain. Sit down and have a good cry. Then call him and ask him for the truth so you can put it behind you and go on with your life.
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The bold thing to do, of course, would be to suggest marriage, if that's how you feel.  That's a strong commitment.\n\nIt sounds like he is leery of getting into a long distance relationship.  I'm not clear if you are moving or he is, but in either case, the best way for that kind of relationship to work is for it to be a temporary distance.  If he is causing the distance, you'll have to find a way to tell him you'll be short distance again too.  \n\nYou might consider writing a letter, reviewing your good and bad times, and then let him know you can't see going through any more good and bad times without him to see you through.  Put it all in perspective for him.\n\nGood luck!
498995
I am in a similar relationship, but I know she's the one, the circumstances are just tough for us.. being so far away. Test your love.. while he's away, take space and see how you really feel without him. At first no matter what, it will be so hard.. but it will get better. Then.. the test comes.. after not having him in your life much, have a long talk and see how it feels. I lost her because I doubted someone so great could love me.. but after she gave up on me.. I realized how much she really does love me.. and slowly I am gaining back her trust, and she has all of mine.
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I'm bad on the phone too. We just leave the phone for when we make plans, and have actual conversations face to face. If you're in a long distance relationship and need to communicate this way, talk about your day and then use the events to spark up conversations on your thoughts about certain topics.
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well i think long distance relationship dun wrk but since u already in it den u cud jus go on n experience it urself. da reason y long distance doesnt wrk cuz sum how probl comes lyk da kinda probl u'r in now. wen u in love or lykin sum one soo much especialy long distance relationship, u goin to feel desperate to c dat person, spendin time wit dat person or sumtime jus to b able to tlk to dat person face to face. n wen dat point come to deep it bcome frustion n dat's not gud. cuz either one of u goin to want to b c-in each otha but dere'r no way y'all can. so whoeva thinkin of it feel lyk dey shud giv up bcuz it's no point. n dey feelin r gettin tired..n tired. rite now i think u shud giv him all ur love n support. dun pressurin him animore to c u. or mayb u shud b da one who came ova dere to c him if u'r old enough to do dat. OR mayb dis whole things of him actin weird was jus so he cud break'up wit u but he hope u undastand cuz he doesnt want to hurt u. fo u to find da rite answer, u jus gotta tlk to him n ask him urself. dun b afraid...things only wrk out if u tlk about to either person..mak dem feel comfortable enough dat dey cud tell u wateva dey feel..
936859
I'm also in a long-distance relationship. They ARE hard but I've been making mine work for over 3 years now. We have another year 10 months or so to go before we can finally be together permanently. We HAVE spent 2 of the 3 summers together so that's good but other than that it's usually a weekend once a month.\n\nThings we do to keep happy is...staying busy. I never let myself sit around doing nothing because I will inevitably start missing him and feeling upset about it. So I try to keep myself busy with homework and activities and friends, of course. We talk every night to stay up to date in each other's lives and email sweet, cute and funny stuff throughout the day. We sometimes send letters with really nice teabags to remind the other of us. We send pictures and make things that remind them of us so that when we look at them, we feel happy to have them in our lives instead of immediately going to "why aren't they here?" Long-distancing is certainly not for everyone. It takes a certain kind of person and a certain kind of relationship.
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Sounds like a young love problem.  Long distance relationships are always tough.  If he is away doing things with his family and other friends it would be very not to call.  This does not at all mean he does not like, or even not love you.  He just needs his own time, and sometimes talking on the phone for hours every day can be too much of a strain on his life.  As you get older you will see that just because you dont talk to someone for a few days doesn't mean that the love is gone.  You have to have security in your relationship and trust him. You are also young and need to live your own lives first.  GOOD LUCK!
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You can't force these things, she either loves you or she doesn't.  Sounds like she doesn't.  Also possibly because your relationship is long distance you romanticise about it too much.  If you lived together day in, day out, the rose-tinted spectacles may have come off long ago.  You sound like a lovely guy, you deserve better.  Let it go and find someone who will be there for you and love you the way you deserve to be loved.
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Whatever it takes bridge the distance to a point that your relationship stays out of the brinks of doubt, trust or love.  Make plans for periodic visits, and look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself to look at the facts of everything because there is no room for things that are made up or do not exist.  They will kill the realationship faster than lighting starts fires.  Be fair, control emotion and set dates to accomplish things that will help to bring you together more quickly and work on them together.  Plan ways to be together and work them as you would any other goals.  It will take the lonliness and waiting out of the time, give you something constructive to do during the absence making the time go by faster or giving both of you shortcuts to bridging the gap or distance.  Use cams and microphoneis on the internet for close times.  Do anything but sit and do nothing as that will create decay and cause you to feel horrible things maybe that don't even exist.  You can get through it if both of you want to and you can make it fun,  use you heads and minds.  Be smart people.
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Call and talk to him about it first off.  \n\nThen you need to find someone close to you because long distance relationships never work because there is always that thought that they maybe with someone else in your mind.  Relationships aren't worth the headache in that aspect at least now when you can find a comforting one close by.
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I understand what the problem is. The only reason why you like C is because she lives closer to you and you can see her anytime you like. And M is fading away because your inner conscious is starting to forget about her because she lives far away and youre forgetting about all the love y'all shared together. If you love M then you should try to work things out unless yore not good with a long distance relationship and can remain faithful. If M is still not trying to hear it, then just remain friends with her and find someone that is worthy of your love.
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A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP CAN WORK IF BOTH PEOPLE REALLY WANT  IT TO WORK OUT.BUT YOU NEED\nTO TALK TO HER ABOUT HOW SHE FEEL. BECAUSE YOU DONT WANT TO PUT ALL YOUR EGGS IN ONE BASKET\nSO TALK TO HER ABOUT WHAT GOING ON. THEN GO FROM\nTHERE. BUT IT CAN WORK IT SELF OUT.
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Atrabel, I was once in your shoes. When i broke up with my ex which was about 4 years back, i really felt lonely. It took me 2 years to get over her. Guessed I really loved her back then. Loneliness comes because you don't get to do the usual routines with your bf anymore i.e talking on the phone, shopping, etc. In this situation, one might feel depressed and lonesome. But hey, I was lucky I have good friends to support me. You don't have to do those things with your bf, you can share it with your friends and family instead. It might feel weird for the meanwhile, but trust me, u'll get over it in no time. Time will heal the wound, and if u need love... families and friends will do. They give tremendous sense of security. In the mean time, don't just sit there doing nth. Go out and meet new people, make new friends! There are so many things that you can enjoy doing urself as well. I've been single ever since, and i'm still happy. Time will tell when I'm ready for a steady relationship :) all the best sweetie!
700014
A relationship is what you put into it.  If you put great things in, you will receive great things.  Long distance relationships can work if you are willing to work on it.  You have to set boundaries and rules that each of you must abide by.  Also, try not to go out to bars and things a lot while you are away from your significant other.  This can lead to unnecessary arguments and fights, and it's really not worth it.  Lastly, you have to MAKE time for each other.  Phone calls, letters, weekend trips, all of these things will really make a difference.  It's a give and take thing.  Good luck!
365478
I don't think I'd do anything quite yet.  You should probably wait and see what happens. I understand you're worried but if your relationship is strong, you 2 can work this out.  Some people can make long distance relationships work out, some can't.  He says he's taking you with him, do you even want to move? That's something you'll have to decide and that could give you the rest of the answers you need.\nBest of luck to you!
227393
Don't break up, just say you need some breathing room and your feeling mentally claustrophobic, Agree not to see other people because that will send the wrong message, but just maybe for a week, limit calls to once a day, and spend more time doing what you want to do. I guarantee when your mini-break is over, your relationship will feel like new