Why do fools fall in love?
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Fools do fall in love because love is emmotional.
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When you fall in love with someone. you fall in love with everything in his life. You cannot ask them to give up there children. \nMy last girlfriends daughter hated me. I accepted that and yet still loved her. I cared for her child even tho the child seamed like a brat at times. \nChildren deserve all the love we can give them. No matter what there problems are.
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A girl falls in love when:\na) someone makes her feel safe, protected.\nb) she feels herself alone (the main, without father or father love) \nc) the guy speaks a lot!!\n\nbut the cause that impacts my reasons is her imagination.
483712
you are not falling in love.   You are attracted to the familiar.   It is part of the human condition.   The same mechanisms that makes us able to adjust to our environment, no matter how trying or downright awful it may be, actually creates a pseudo-preference for that environment.  That mechanism is stronger in some people than others. it makes them adjust more easily. The people who most easily adjust, to new situations, most easily "fall in love" in their work environment.  It's where they spend the bulk of their time.\n  Whereas, people who are resistant to change rarely fall in love with their work environment.   \n\nGet a life! meet some new people.   Don't try to get your S__ and your check in the same place.
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its a natural instinct to want to love/lust someone and since there are so many people that you have to use your hearts judgment ,and as you said, test the waters a bit seeking that one of your preference.
1079137
because they are blind. have you ever heard about the say,"love is blind." that why they fall in love with you. I even start to love you, can you believe it!
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Because you love someone does not mean you are a fool. Love is the greatest thing in life. You may have rough times while in love or get a broken heart, but if you seriously think about it, it was worth it, because no matter what nothing can change the fact that the two of you, together, had a moment in time that was just yours.
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I think we are in love with both.  You fall in love with a person because he has the potential to make you happy and loved.  You will never be sure if he can pull it off though and that's where the leap of faith enters the picture.
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I think you may be asking the wrong question.  The right question is "Why do people fall in love?"\n\nIf you're looking a a simple answer based ONLY on sex (which is a dreadful mistake), it likely has to do with the reputation black men have for having larger "equipment" than whites.  It has also been suggested that some women are turned on by the contrast in skin colors.\n\nWe are in an age when those barriers, for the most part, have been broken down and it's no longer "taboo" for interracial relationships.\n\nThus ... the real question is ... "Why do PEOPLE fall in love?"  The answer is the same ... because they find someone who treats them the way they want to be treated, and they develop a loving feeling toward them.
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Love comes and goes. It's an emotion.\nThe trick is to fall in love with the same person over and over again. It's called commitment.
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You fall in love because of pheromones, it is initially just lust. It hurts then when you try and make your relationship work after the lust has worn off and one or both of the people involved aren't big enough to stick it out through the bad times to enjoy the good.  There are always good, but people seem to like to focus on the bad!  You just have to be brave and hope that you can find someone who will be willing to be a team player with you so you can enjoy and remember those good times together, cause over time the lust does come back for you and your partner.
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no, there's nothing rational about why you fall in love.  it's an impulsive and emotional thing, always has been, so if you see somebody who 'seems to be' just what you're looking for at that time, you definitely could fall in love.\n\nmy advice is to not worry about looking foolish in the future.  keep your eyes open and learn about him for sure, but don't be so jaded as to worry whether he is the right one forever.  as long as he is the right one for right now, enjoy each other!\n\n'love is the triumph of imagination over intelligence'.\n                                      -h l mencken
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No one can MAKE anyone be interested in them or fall in love with them.  That's the beauty of choice.  When you do find someone perfect for you, they get to CHOOSE you and you get to CHOOSE them.  Then you get to live in this great dynamic where you know everyday that you had a choice but chose this person, the same for them.
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The reasons why people fall in love are varied. Some talked about chemical attraction (pheromones), and apparently it plays a great part in it. Of course, there's also the physical attraction, and that's more linked to what people called "lust". \n\nI take it that you can make the distinction between going out with someone, and loving someone.  Also, I'm only going to consider that the two persons involved are not commitment phobics.\n\nWhen people fall in love, they unconsciously tend to notice only the good things about their partner. Also, they tend to do more things for their partner. So that when the passion goes away and you get into a routine, you notice all the "shortcomings" of the other. Sometimes, it works out, but sometimes, you realise that you'll never be able to live with this person.\n\nEven if you don't mind the other's shortcomings, routine can be difficult to avoid. It can be difficult to keep love alive when you share everything with someone. Also, in a relationship, you are bound to compromise at some point - if you want to stay with that person, that is. \n\nThere's a book called "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" (it's a best-seller) and, although he could have summed up his ideas in 15 pages, I think it's a good book to read to understand how men and women think. Sometimes, you really want your relationship to work, but you don't know how to do it because you don't understand the other. Communication is VERY important in a relationship, but even if you try to communicate, you might be doing it the wrong way. I'm not saying this book has THE answer (everybody's different), but I think it's a good way to understand why couples fight for apparently no reason. \n\nI think that before people get married, they should go out for a while, then live together for a while, and see if they can handle their problems. \n\nPS: of course, sometimes, love just fades away.
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Falling in love because there is so much that can happen when your falling in love, the sky is the limit.  To be in love means you have gone through the motions and now you are stable in the love you have made.
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all human will fall in love.... and lots of love being misintrepreted as lusts.
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I think everyone would like to marry the one they love, but I think that sometimes people confuse love with lust or infatuation and that is why people "fall out of love" so often today.  They don't wait to see if it is really love.