Would you recommend not having sex till marriage?
443048
I would recommend you to wait if you marry young.\nYou should wait but not for too long. Waiting for a prince charming will only make you bear great expectations which might end up in dissapointment.
461533
NO. not at all. First of all, I would like to congratulate you two. You're a match made in heaven. Basically, the bible states that sex is a blessing given to married couples. If you're just living together and not having sex, that's absolutely perfect. It's the most exciting thing you can have once you get married. But if you guys are married but not having sex... then there really is a problem behind that. Try talking to your partner about that.
439618
I hate to look at things this way, but I'm a factual person. The stats show that ppl who live together before getting married are more likely to get divorced. I waited until I was married to have sex. This brings a real sense of security to our relationship. I could go on about the other benefits, but I'm tired.
484856
I think if you're living with someone, it's perfectly acceptable to be having sex.  After all, you're in a healthy, committed relationship that's one step away from engagement/marriage.  The only thing missing is a certificate.\n\nWith that said, no I don't feel I need to refrain and... 67 days.
889927
While I will not argue with you believing that premarital sex is not appropriate for you, I would definitely not include masturbation in that category. By not masturbating, you are not learning about your own sexual responses nor are you using the one sure-fire way to relieve sexual stresses that do not involve another person. In addition masturbation is considered to be very safe sex if one is concerned about STI's.\n\nAnother factor in masturbation is that prostate cancer risk is significantly reduced if one has frequent orgasms during their early adulthood and onward. By not masturbating, you are allowing all the seminal fluids to build up in yoru system rather than expelling them.. This can lead to problems later in life.\n\nSo, I strongly suggest you reevaluate your choice to deem masturbation as a form of premarital sex that should not be done. There is no prohibition in the bible against masturbation so if you happen to be a Christian, your religion does not preclude you releasing sexual tension in this manner. \n\nFurther, since your sexual tensions are driving you 'crazy' I might suggest that you either control your sexual urges (which for anyone under 90 years of age is almost impossible) or you take up masturbation. If you continue on your present course  you could easily wind up following a path that is far worse than enjoying a little self-pleasure.  I suppose the other option is to get married ASAP but unless you are ready for that and have a suitable partner lined up, that idea may not work.\n\nThe only other known ways to reduce sexual urges are:\na) removal of the testicles (which may not impress your future partner)\nor\nb) chemical castration - uses drugs to reduce or eliminate sexual urges - but as for any drug there can be nasty side effects. Plus I am not sure how easy those are to acquire unles syou happen to be a convicted sex offender in certain states.\n\nIn your situation, out of the available choices, I honestly would recommend refraining from sexual intercourse until marriage but take up masturbating. The removal of your testicles or taking drugs are not really healthy options.
415726
not at all.but thats what you belive in, some people belive in no sex til marriage, others dont.\n I would have died, or killed my toy if I had to wait til I got married to my hubby now...almost 2 yrs later? whoa! lol
1071860
sex is sex...but i would wait till i was married
438646
Sex is not a must, it is a need.  However, saying that, if everyone decided against it then we would have not more children which basically means extinction of our species in just over 70 years, maybe less.\n\nGetting back to the main question, no don't have sex till your ready.
655217
If you believe that you shouldn't have pre-marital sex, you can achieve this several ways.  First, do not date women who don't share the same ideal, if you date women who want to have sex before marriage it will be very difficult to resist.\n\nYou can think of this like drug use.  If your friends are using drugs, it will be very hard for to stay away from that temptation.  But if your friends aren't doing drugs, then it will be much easier.  The same goes with pre-marital sex.  If the friends you keep share the same ideals, it is likely that you will have a much easier time resisting the temptation.\n\nThis comes up on college campuses a lot at places like Baptist Student Unions.  If you are Christian, and at a college, you may want to consider visiting one of these if one is available to you.  Even if you aren't in college, I'm sure the Baptist Student Unions would welcome you.
1037317
I believe that you should be married before you have sex. And when I say married I don't mean the little piece of paper saying that you love someone. I mean the marriage that takes place in each others hearts. And at whatever age that takes place it does not matter. But at least learn about using a condom I have so many friends who get pregnant because there idiot boyfriend does not know how to put it on properly, so do your research.
664062
Well it depends on how ur moral standards are, I wanted to wait until marriage, but that didn't happen. If your a frim believer in Christ, you know that he'd rather you wait until marriage, but most people need to see if they are compatible in the bedroom. All in all the sex is sooooo much better after your married.  You follow your heart. I'm sure you'll make the right choice. Good Luck!
527143
well, are you married? b/c you shouldn't have sex until you're married. also you sound doubtful. and if you don't know if you're ready to have sex, you're not.
154184
it depends on your beliefs, i believe that you should only have sex when u know that you really love the person, and before you have sex u should become friends first and really get to know and trust each other, its not about marriage its about maturity and commitment,
16412
I believe so. It's in the bible. Fornication (sex before marriage) should not be committed. Share that special something with that special someone.
1047199
Its not premarital sex if you have no intention of getting married.
529077
One phrase comes to my mind with your question:\n"Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?"\nSex is defiantly rarely valued these days. I wish I realized its value earlier than when I did.\n\nJust saw your add-ins. That's a tuff one. I think sex is alright before marriage, so long as it's done for the RIGHT reasons, and so long as your not a "hoe" or walking STD factory. If you ask me, way too many people are having WAY to many partners, and that goes back to my original message about the lack of value for sex.
161773
Where did you get the idea that sex is wrong?..There is no written rule there. The bible says "you can be married if you feel you need to be , but you don't have to be".. It actually says "pick one and stay with them" That is Gods own personal advise on that subject!..You don't have to be married, just monogamous. quit kicking your own arse and be in love for pete's sake!