how do you know for sure if your boyfriend is cheating? what are some clues.?
440490
Some Clues if your bf is cheating:\n*if he's so cold at your relationship;\n*he's packed with lots of reasons on not seeing you or \nbeing with you at a long time. \n*he doesn't inform you most of the time on where he's going & turning off his cellphone or not answering any of your calls...\n*or he's not letting you to be with him on most of his agenda...even just on paying a bill...\n\nANYWAY, there's always a seperate time to our loved ones no matter what, if that situation repeats again & you're not getting enough attention & most times ignores you...then, he is cheating!
247951
You can never know for certain unless you walked in on him..  But if you have a feeling that he is and you aren't usually paranoid or prone to jealousy, then something is wrong with the relationship.  Whether or not he is cheating.
791990
If he hasn't given you any indication that he's cheating on you then I would worried that he was sick is hurt. Don't let your pride or stubbornness stop you from doing what is right.
922624
Stop stressing yourself if you don't have proof. If you haven't seen him do it don't worry. Keep your head up cause what happens in the dark ALWAYS come to the light. Believe that, just don't think about it all the time cause then you will start to trip on things that he does and he might not even be cheating. So get the proof first please. Don't give yourself gray hair over a guy that you don't even know if its forever.
494616
If he's asked you to marry him - I doubt he's cheating.  When guys (and girls) cheat - they are thinking that it would be better to be single, not thinking of marriage.  To marry him - you have to be able to trust him!  You can usually tell if you know your man well by differences in his behavior - like he starts picking fights for the supidest reasons, etc.  Good luck!
476832
you can tell if he is cheating on you, if he is acting strange when you ask him questions, if he isnt spending as much time with you as  he use too spend. only you can tell if she has changed since you started your relationship. if you are questioning his honesty now, then maybe he is cheating on you.
852813
Have you been cheatin?\nDo you trust him?\nWhy not?
297196
i think that guys cheat because either they are bored with their current relationship or they only think of themselves. if your boyfriend thinks your cheating it's because you aren't showing him enough affection and he doesn't trust you. i suggest you either set him straight or get out of the relationship because it'll only be a waste of time for you.
863756
From what you have told us I'd say he most likely is doing something he doesn't want you to know about. I won't say he is cheating, BUT, it leans that way. Without having actual proof I would not accuse him of it. But I would look into things. You know his work schedule, so for starters check things out. You might call him at work when he is suppose to be working and if he is there then you can always say you called to make plans for that night as you got the sudden urge to go out. There are many reasons you could use. If he isn't there this is more evidence that he may very well be cheating. At this point you could even follow him or have someone check up on him. Is there a money difference in the amount he brings home? Is he going out more often than usual? Does he shower or clean up as soon as he gets home? Does he at times smell of perfume? There are all so many things or ways to find out. BUT this can take time. So be cool and don't make accusations that you can't backup. (Prove) If he is cheating dump him. You don't need a loser. I wish you the best of luck that things work out for you.
340127
Two ways - covert and overt\nCovert you dont let him know you suspect anything.  In your relationship, make him feel the best and most loved of any man in the world.  This will likely make him show some emotional signs.  Meanwhile, snoop like a PI.  Check phone conversations, you can request a list of the numbers called from your phone company.  Check the bank statements, they will tell you where all the money was spent if by credit or debit.  Keep tabs on the times he leaves and comes home.  Check with work if he says he worked late, or with his friends if he said he is out with them.\n\nOvert - in addition to doing everything in the covert status (except treating him like a king) straight out ask him, get his email password, dont let him talk on the phone without you being there - just make it so hard on him that he breaks or it takes such a toll on his other relationship, he shows some emotional signs.  \n\nSigns he is cheating - a change in sexual appetite, he has some new things that you didnt get for him, money missing from the bank account without knowing where it went, a change in eating habits - if he has already eaten with her, he wont eat at home.\n\nI wish you luck!
1010010
He is cheating.\nYou can't watch him all of the time.\nGet ready and find someone else.\nI think you know this already.\nSorry!!!!
315357
Ask him. Point blank, out of the blue, look him straight in the eye and say: "Are you cheating on me?" His reaction will tell you exactly what is going on.
378175
Some signs of cheating:\n\n1. smelling of perfume...not yours\n2. seems freshly showered\n3. money missing from account that you can't account for\n4. charges on charge cards you don't recognize\n5. working late a lot\n6. always tied up over lunch\n7. not as interested in things going on at home as was before\n8. sex frequency may change (some want more, others less)\n9. wants you to try new sexual adventures\n10. concentrates more on his appearance\n11. check out his cell phone bill \n12. is he starting to find fault with you? nothing you do is right\n13. may accuse you of having an affair due to his own guilt
754163
he probably cheating but you should really   talk to him i mean look him in the eye and say what you want baby i got it  what you need you know i got all i am asking  is just a little love ..
197843
If you think it, usually your right.  You could try to prove it but you might be wasting your precious time.  Just back off and leave him alone and go your own way......one day he will wake up and say,  what happened to that great thing I had?  Where did she go?  And he will miss you and come looking for you.  But you have to act like you don't care.  If he's cheating on you, he's not treating you nice.
399848
I think he is cheating. Those are sighns
788601
I would be really careful with this..you don't want to appear to be the 'over anxious' girlfriend, but neither do you want to be taken for a fool.  Keep an eye out for what is happening..and make sure that there are no obvious signs that he is 'cheating'..as in a lot of time spent places that he cannot or won't explain to you.\n\nChances are that if he is willingly talking to this girl in front of you there is nothing going on...\n\nThe best way to find out is to ask him..and if you don't like his answer do something about it...