What do you think of a friend or lover who feels the need to spy one you? For no reason!!??
447349
Red Light, Red Light, Red Light!!!!! Look at those warnings seroiusly, your friend is a control freak and a powertripper, let him/her know it's not on otherwise it will only get worse and your relationship wont be able to be repaired.
1043467
yes I would be furious and think he was cheating or looking to. If it was innocent they wouldn't be using fake names and keeping it from you. If they were just friends he'd have no problem telling you
233264
I think he is the one not playing it safe.  What if he was to break your heart? Then you have all his personal info at your disposal to harm him.  I am not saying you are the kind of person that would do that.\n\nIf he is remotely interesting give him a chance to woo you!
889366
I think it si a sign of insecurity for someone to lead another on.They are feeding their own ego.I agree with you and think a person should back off if they have no interest in the person they are flirting with-especially when they know that the person has feelings.There ARE people with more cahrachter than this.I hope that you find one,and I believe you will-Otherwise,are you sure the person in question does not really like you back,and.how do you know?
263750
Something surprising like a friend who has lost in touch with me..........or a secret admirer !!!
143022
WHy?...stalker (just kidding)... or not
483384
Feel sorry for the other person, who is unwilling to return their feelings. for they must be egotistical and self-centered. BUT if you knew or know that this person is seeing someone else. then maybe you should look at the selfish mirror. it's true we want what someone else has and if you try to lure someone your way,. It's just as easy for someone to lure them away from you.\nlook for someone who is interest in YOU .
301732
why do you care?\nare you a stalker or what?
1108437
Heck yeah, I am not above snooping and playing detective. I justify it by saying it is for their own good!!!!!!!!!11 LOL
627761
That depends on why you are checking them out.\n\nIs it to get a boyfriend/girlfriend jealous - dumb reason, but then make it obvious\n\nDo you want to spark their interest and hope they come talk to you?  Make it obvious\n\nIf you are just curious about them, but aren't wanting to connect - then don't let on....at least for now...until you can determine if you want to learn more about them.\n\nI would think the only reason one would do it under disguise (as you say) would be that they are shy or not confident enough to deal with the interaction.  OR they are flirting with the concept of cheating....\nI say, just make it known and see what happens next....\nlife is an adventure!
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YOU HAVE COMPANION YOU DONT AWARE AN ENEMY OR NEGATIVE THINKER AND DONT BELIEVE YOU TRULLY.WATCH OUT BABE!HE/SHE MIGHT DESTROY YOU!IN DIFFERENT ANGLE OR ASPECTS!MAYBE?!
795722
No kidding, I couldn't agree with you more...My wife has a friend that she talks to on the messenger and this guy is so freaking obsessed with the girl...He'll even go as far as to report someone who doesn't like her, and if you talk crap about her around him, he gets mad and goes off on you. Talk about being obsessed, that's just sick.
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Warning!!!Even if u have a confidence (trust) in your friend and do not want to hate him (her) do not tell him (her) your confidential things (secrets). ;-)
277868
Yes you do.  Why in the world would he do this?  Doesn't sound like much of a friend to me.
483685
Who says spying has anything to do with trust or mistrust? And relationship? Please! That is the dreaded R word! Mean have trouble enough with the C word -- Cccc...oh, heck! commitment. Talk about relationship and you can get the biggest guy in the room to run away.\n\nOK, spying. Trust but verify is a good rule. I think that an occasional checking up is a healthy thing. You cannot ask someone to trust you. You do that and people start checking their wallets. Don't believe me? Try it! Go up to someone and say "Trust me!" Right!\n\nOK, so what can you ask for (especially if there is a lack of trust issue?) Accountability. It does not have to be really secret, nor does it have to be very open either. But it does help trust if you occasionally check to see that the person is telling you the truth.\n\nYou may say I am cold-hearted in this, but I have been left by a woman who swore in front of God in a Catholic church (and her Austrian Catholic mother) never to break the marriage vow. She took off with another guy. \n\nSo, yes, trust but check, too.
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They may be just people he met befor you on the service and he just wants to keep in touch. Its the hardest thing in the world to imagine and to confront when your not sure, you dont want to make yourself look insecure, but obviously your feeling that somthings up and once you feel that you always be judging your own intuition.Id create a fake person on the site and try to see if he falls for the bait> if he mentions you everythings probably fine if not you better run
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If the spouse has done something to make you suspicious, it is okay to snoop. How else are you going to find out if something is going on or not? You certainly won't get a straight answer out of them and if they are trying to hide something, they will try to cover their tracks better because they'll think you're on to them. So when you feel suspicious, you should snoop right away - don't give them the chance to hide any evidence. You will either confirm your suspicions or realize that you were overreacting.