I'm a decent guy. I have alot of friends. But some of my friends are mean, in other words, their popular.?
439083
Hey thumbs up for being you.Who ever raised you did a great job.Stay true to yourself.You can never have to many friends,cause latter on in life none of this stuff is going to matter.Noone will care who you hung out with and so on.But someday you will have touched someones life while the popular guy still has to prove himself just to make friends.Most times the poplular get further ahead in life,so it seems and i have seen many who shouldnt .But trust me im 34 and almost everyone i see now,the preps and there life is more screwed up then mine.They may be popular but there missing the one thing they need a HEART. So what comes around goes around.
27670
they arent your friends if they dont care about you enough to not make you feel bad. Dont stoop to their level and do it back, instead immediatly stop talking to them and keep your head high, once they see it doesnt bother you they will stop doing it. Who needs enemies with friends like that. Get some new friends that arent little brats.
157655
Stop calling them your 'old friends' and begin refering to them as what they actually are?\n\nNah, that'd be rude, and you don't want to be that way too, do you?\n\nTough situation, kid. Perhaps they just weren't really good friends to begin with, and you'll just need to cut your losses now and develop meaningful, healthy relationships with your new peers.
1144305
Hmm well if they get on your nerves theyre not your best friend. But by saying that I wouldnt be answering your question. So do my best friends get on my nerves, hmm no not really although i do disagree with wht some of them say a lot of the time, but the thing is theyre my friends and I get over it. Theres no point loosing a friendship over pettiness becaue friends and good freidns are far too valuable
121603
Could it be that you are giving too much credcence to the actions of others.  Just be yourself.  Some will like you others won't.  You can't please everyone all the time.  The important thing to remember is you need to like yourself.  Learn to be comfortable with that and might be surprised at the number of friends you really do have.
778299
There always seems to be girls like this in school. Her meanness will show through eventually. There was a popular girl in my college class once who everyone seemed to idolize. She was really mean to me. Invited everyone to a party but not me. At the end of the year party, which she couldn't attend, everybody let out all their anger and frustration about her. Seems I wasn't the only one she was mean to. I was kind of mad because it made my year awful and somebody could have told me. Anyway, hang in there. Don't do anything stupid. Her karma will get her in the end.
504443
Just tell 'em staight forward that you dont like being called that, and if they cant accept that, then maybe these friends arent the best ones for you
1169383
The ones who dont say shit to you dont even worry. You have to keep your friends circle tight. You shouldnt trust a person as far as you can throw em. Just ask yourself are these the friends whos going to be there when shit hits the fan? Ive lost alot of friends but at the same time you also make new ones. Ive lost friends too. But its something not to stress over. Dont forget about having friends because your always going to need that person your going to need to talk to. I can count my best friends on my hand. The rest are just people i say hi too. But dont beat your self up over it.
469965
Maybe you are just hanging with the wrong sort of people who don't appreciate you! I am sure, if you are nice and friendly, then people will like you.
364085
find some new friends that you get along very well.if you have older friend ( not old but people that you know for longer time) keep hanging out with them.it happened to me too and I found better friends and one day the other girls called and said they were sorry and they said that they envied me for having better and more friends,and they said they missed me.i stick with the better girls of course:)
467017
Stay away from them and don't lower yourself to their level.  Choose your freinds carefully as people tend to judge you based on who you choose to associate with.  why waste your time on these people?
255227
Too damn popular.  You'll have to be mean to some people and remove them from your list.
1142572
i think you need to find that one friend that you can act like a fool with, and slowly hang out with them in public places, then see if yuo can add another, and slowly go from there, and about the who aniety thing, i think you'll over come it, and i wish you the best of luck in everything that you do becuase you sound like a really cool person, and i hope you find your place, cuase you sound like you deserve it, teehee
220689
yeah people do that to me to but their my freinds. He may just be joking around or may like you who nos
158744
Ive been in that situation. In a perfect world, it would be great if you could all hang out together at the same time and be cool.  But since this is the REAL world and they actually HATE each others guts... for your sanity and out of respect for your friends, keep them apart ALWAYS.  Good Luck!
147603
Yeah, I have some fake friends.  I don't really hang out with them, but will talk on the phone if they want to.  I get along with most people, but if I don't like someone, I tend not to make an effort to spend time with them.  Life is too short to put up other people's crap!
988329
you sound great! i don't know why they're such jerks...i like guys who are just friends...i'm not into that bf/gf stuff yet (i'm a teen!) i like guys who respect themselves...you sound AWESOME!!! i'm sorry that people say that kind of stuff :(