What do you do about a two faced jerk?
453111
Ignore him, turn the other cheek.
507432
I'd be very careful with him. First impressions are usually correct, and your first impression was the guy was a jerk.
1115237
Try turning the tables on them - "kill them with kindness".  This works every time.  \n\nYou can invite the person who is harassing you to lunch and calmly ask them if you have, in some way, offended them.  Continue on with "if I have offended you, I apologize - I was not aware that I had done so".  Ask the person if you can start over with a clean slate.\n\nUsually this will stop the harassment.  If it does not stop, I suggest that you document everything and when the time is right, along with the documentation, speak with your Supervisor.\n\nHave a lovely rest of the evening.
895709
Ignore him. He might stop after a while.
565164
how about this option, talk to your brother about your intent and let him know..."look, if this guy turns out to be a jerk and hurts my feelings and is cruel to me, I'll let you know ASAP" and make him promise to leave him alone until you give him the word.
37264
Walk out of the situation before the anger takes control of you. Like 'babygirl' said, it will give you time to cool down & think through the situation sensibly instead of causing harm, whether physically or verbally, to the other in a fit of rage.\n\nThat's what I do, just walk out on the person or just don't talk. I am known for a vicious temper & that's how I deal with it. :)
300483
talk to the guy...if the guy acts like a jack@$$ beat his @$$
1017900
ACT FRIENDLY.  Don't remind them of their visciousness.\n\nBut don't trust them about anything.
1025525
well, we''ve all been there.  But as you get older.... you WILL see that life has such an incredible way of taking care of things like this.  It's called Karma and I don't care what anyone says....  karma exists and people get back what they put out.   Trust me.\n\nIf someone truly is a jerk, they're going to be a jerk in more ways than one and with more people than just you.  It's their issue not yours so believe me, he's getting his justice.   \n\nJust relax and realize that sometimes, you may not witness someone else's karma or it may not be on your timming but it happens.
1067609
Just ignore them.  The only reason they keep doing this is because you are reacting.  If you quit giving them any change in your facial expression and quit saying anything to them about it and maybe just give them a laugh and walk off, they will stop.
338082
ignore them or just simply tell them to leave you alone. if that doesnt work then maybe just giving the cold shoulder will give them the hint.
104049
You can not control the actions of others.  Your friend will continue to wear two faces as longs as it is beneficial.
815634
Advice?  Easy.  Run back to the guy that has blackened your eyes, broken your nose, and used you as a punching bag for years.  He'll eventually kill you.  Then, he'll go to prison for life, and not endanger some innocent woman.  OR, you can stay away from the jerk, and perhaps build a life where you don't get beat up.  Your choice.
695689
it's not about being mr. In Your face  either.\nIf your going through a personality conflict or just dealing with a hostile person , then consult proper authorities or do as you say\nstay clear of that person.
776455
I would sit and have a long conversation with him and try to get out what was bothering him. Evidently something is or he wouldn't be acting like this. Either he wants to be with u or he's making up excuses to leave u. I would find the truth and get to the bottom if it. No use in wasting your time on someone who's a jerk.
831253
Yeah...next time you're alone with the jerk, tell him you're not going to be treated that way again in front of his friends/gf's etc.  If he can't respect you while others are around, he doesn't need to talk to you at all.  Godloveya.
153905
go ahead and confront him about the issue( you liking him and him knowing before you were ready to tell him), he'll understand and if he don't he's a jerk and you don't need him anyway.