My dad is also my mom's dad. Can this give me problems?
447472
No. Since you can count to twelve on your fingers, you can get a higher-level position at WalMart.
158673
No. There is always something they are going to be conected by, their child whether you like it or not. They will have a lot of issues as parents that they need to talk about. If you love his child at all, you will be greatful for that because the child has both his parents in his life and they get along which is even better.
597863
no but you should realize that your mom and dad need to grow up and alas have failed to do so thus far. its  not about you its about them acting like ridiculous children.
416535
yes it is. i bet ur a man. women are always more protective over their sons. now that ur engaged ur mom could feel like she is loosing you. \na good idea would be for the three of you to sit down together and talk this through. you need to explain to both of them how much this is hurting you. reassure both of them that you love them both equally. \ncan i tell u a sad story. my dad did not get on with my mums mum (my gran). so wen my gran got sick my mum was forced to choose between them. my mum and dad ended up divorced and now i hardly even no my dad. you have to ask urself this...do u want to sort this out NOW and live a  happily married life?? or do u want 2 end up like my parents? think about it! remember communication is the key and although it may seem impossible u cud look back at this one day and laugh. anything is possible if u have a little belief. remember u have to be strong and let ur voicve be heard! u r not happy about their relationship and u need to let them know! All the best xx
1149933
You can't get your dad and his mom to forget their differences.  Some things are out of your control, including how other people act.  OK, that's not totally true, but you've probably done what you can do already by this time.\n\nIf your relationship worth it even if you have to accept how your dad reacts and everything else?\n\nMaybe you need to put this on the backburner too - not make any decisions yet, but be a little lighter about it and let your boyfriend come to you more.  You might find that changes the dynamics a little and shifts the power you have in your relationship and in your life as a whole.  If the relationship has it's own strength it can withstand some time of uncertainty (just don't do anything stupid - be patient and trust that if it is meant to happen, it will).  Do some things that are fun for you and help you remember your own strengths and how you care for yourself.\n\nAre there other problems between you and your boyfriend that aren't about your parents?  Sometimes factors like parents can be a big distraction that lets you avoid being fully honest with each other.
416354
No, there is nothing you can do, just be there for both of them and don't make the mistake of blaming either one of them for the situation... but hey, you have two great parents who are really trying to keep it together and their attitude is really promising, so don't worry, they will get there and it will be fine, just give them the time they need...
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I think you should talk to the local authorities and tell them what's going on. He sounds abusive; if nothing else controlling. You may even be able to get an interpreter, if necessary, depending on your location. They will likely direct to to your local social services office. They can tell you if you need to and are able to file a protective order (i.e. restraining order).\nIt certainly doesn't sound as if you or your Mother have done anything illegal, and if he is your step father and a U.S citizen, your Mother probably went through INS for a permanent residence card (meaning she's here legally). I hope you two are able to work it out.
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i don't really think there is a whole lot you can do. Just be there for her and continue doing what you are doing. Try to talk to her and explain that things did not work out with you and her dad but you still love her as much as before and that you are both there for her. Don't put him down to her. Even if he is turning her against you, she will eventually see thru that. Good luck to you. It will work out. It just takes time.
269553
depends on your parents and your relationship with them
1046850
You poor thing, I'm sorry about your mother.  As for your dad, you have to forgive him and move on.  Whatever is driving him has little to do with you.  It would be okay for you to ask your cousin for your mothers wedding bands, almost everyone not raised in a cave knows they should go to a daughter, not a niece.  Live well, know you did right by your mother and don't let daddy get to you.  At the end of the day, he has to be him but you get to be you.  Forgive him.
684514
its safe for me to say I've been in your shoes because i have.my father and mother were going through the same thing and I had to be the one to tell my father what she was up too...its never easy trust me i know.but if you listen to your heart it will lead you to the right answer...and just maybe heal your relationship with your father as well.BEST WISHES HUN AND GOOD LUCK!
1169352
You might wanna try finding out why he feels that your mom is mental.  It could be something serious.  Or it could be some silly little thing in his head.  But you DO need to communicate with each other if it's to be resolved in any way.  Dont get caught in the middle of conflict between two people that you love.
807302
Your mother may have a claim against your father, but you do not. It is a sad thing that your father did not support you, but you have no right to collect from him now that you are an adult!!
1116890
I think you need to worry less about the legal ramifications and more about your father's health. I think someone better get to mom and ask her why she's playing around with her husband's life!
289549
Trust your mother on this one - she's only got your best interests at heart.  If you love this guy then the fact that your back home with Mum won't get in the way of your relationship.\n\nFrom a legal point of view your Mum's in the right.
1129717
Talk to your dad, your real dad Im sure he will help you.
290595
your dad might drive you crazy but if you say you cant move out theres obviously a reason why...like giving my mom as an example shes living with my grandmother right now because she needs someone there to take care of her or she will be put in a home so my mom took it apon herself to care for her...and my mom is going bonkers let me tell you lmao but she knows that my grandmother wont be here for to much longer so shes doing what she has to do...you only have 1 set of real parents so try to stick with it...talk to your dad,tell him whats bothering you...good luck