i just told my hubby that i might have feelings for another guy and know he is being kinda weird aand he wont?
441883
If you really love him how could you tell him something so hurtful . Love doesn't hurt the people it cares about .  you may love some other guy but the thing is that other guy is not your husband .  You really need to sit back and pull yourself together .  You promised you would love your husband till death parted you . Don't break that promise I think he loves  you and you crushed him .
556089
He is playing a game with you....OF COURSE HE MEANS YOU!   Listen a best friend always makes the best relationship....you know everything about each other, and you know how the please the other person....I would just straight up tell him how you feel.  What do you have to lose?  But when doing this, say "listen, lately I have really enjoyed spending more time with you than usualy and I have started to have these feelings for you, I felt you should know b/c you are a friend....and regardless I always want that first...but I do like you, and I hope that something can come out that."  GOOD LUCK GIRL!
636896
i think that it is imoportant for you to tell him how you feel.you never know, he might like you too.but what you really should do is to do what you feel is right in your heart =)
149849
not sure. maybe he has an interest in you but because of his conflicting feelings with the other person he probably doesnt want to hurt you until he gets things straightened out.
807695
it is possible to be in love with more than one person. i am guessing you love your spouse and are comfortable with them. and the other one is more exciting now since it is new.that excitement will wan. try and picture yourself with out your husband and examine how it really makes you feel. you have to weigh the pros and cons. good luck i have been there
339859
How would that mean you still have feelings for each other?  The fact that you are even asking this question shows me you still have feelings for him.
445269
IF he feels the same way, he will wait if that's what you want to do.  You have to follow your heart.  Take time and think it through with your brains not your hormones.  Good luck, I know it can be confusing.
1071178
Just because the "L" word came out doesn't really mean anything Bad. Like you said you guys have known each other for awhile already!\nAnd telling him that you haven't felt that way in long time... \nWell, that's like telling him that you are not sure if you are ready for that step in your relationship with him... But, this could be a good thing! If he really loves you ... you will know! \nHe will still show interest in you and you and him can get closer in your relationship. Just don't rush it..  I have been married three times and all of them we're great at first! Ya' know? Just can't wait to be with them... all you think about... and that's great!\nAll I'm saying is to take your time if you want it to last... \nPay attention to the bad sides he may have and see if you really want to spend the REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH THIS PERSON...\n\nI don't think you really pushed... if he loves you he will stick around.    If you think you pushed... just go talk to him.\n"What should you do now?"  \n(1)Take your time...\n(2)Let the love grow...\n(3)Spend time together and talk<<< \ncommunication must be open. \nSharing your feelings with the one you love is very important!\nIf you are serious about this guy then try these steps and God Bless...\n later.
1059086
Honestly, I'm not a marriage counselor or even close to it.  To me though, it sounds like maybe you and your husband aren't as connected on an emotional level if you ask me (which you did, haha).  Maybe the reason you feel this way for someone else is because you've lost those feelings for your husband.  I know it's hard, after marriage and two kids, but it's important to stay physically, emotionally, and mentally involved with each other.  Just try things like going on dates with your husband.  Try to reconnect with him and remember all of the reasons why you married him.  Maybe your husband has a great personality, wit, and a beautiful mind also.  Maybe you just need to remind yourself of it.
1060904
hes probably feeling the same way as you, confused.  thats why he was trying to beat around the bush, figure out if you were interested in someone else.  but when it comes to figuring out things like this, guys dont sometimes pick up on things so you probably have to be straigtforward with him.  before i starting dating my now hubby, i think we always sorta had a crush on eachother, but were friends for about 5 years.  anyway he had asked me questions like this, and even tips on how to get a girl to like her.  and i just wanted to scream at him that i already did, bc i knew he was meaning me, he was just trying to get it out of me, cause guys actually do seem to be shy on the subject.  i wouldnt think of your situation as good or bad.  you should try going out again, if your still interested. but this time let him know
1173288
what you should do is go back to school and learn how to right a complete sentence. "I feel like me and this guy are made for each other." that does not sound right. it should be " i feel like this guy and I are made for each other."\nby the way i never said i loved two guys. it's  just a question to post up.\n your the little s.l.u.t. trying to take another women's man.
971078
geez i kinda have that problem to\nif u find the answer let me know\nbut if i could take a guess on what i/you would do i would come outright and ask him..if u get turned down bleh there's other fish in the sea..if he feels the same way then YAY good 4 u
439089
I believe he likes the fact that you have a crush on him an doesnt want your feelings to change. He sounds kinda unsure about hisself. I would have to say I bet he feels the same way about you just didnt know how to reply when you told him how you felt. GOOD LUCK LOVE!
1107585
Just tell him. He's your husband..You should be able to know how to tell him in such manner where not to hurt his feelings.
1069161
I think you need to be completely honest with your husband. If you haven't already, and i am sure you have, i would tell him about what happened. Try to find out why he is thinking about leaving you. Maybe he is a little bit insecure?? Or perhaps he has gotten the impression that you are still interested in this other man. If you truly don't want him coming by and ringing you all the time, see if you can't talk to the police about it, sometimes they will simply go and talk to him and he'll get the message. If nothing else it would tell your husband that you are serious about staying with him. Good luck..... on another note, it must be rather disappointing to have your husband not stand by you, and choose the easy way out instead?
694598
u know its funny...this has happened with me and my extremely close friend just recently...we always flirt and it feels like something more than just a regular friendship and i want that...but she is confused and doesnt want to lose me.  i still have feelings for her and we talk a lot and are very close.  i am still trying to be myself yet i am trying to develop a different and closer relationship.  i say you just keep trying to do what you want and just see how it turns out.  whos to say another guy wont come around if this doesnt work out. good luck
467450
Flip the situation and ask yourself how you would feel if he told you he wanted to be with another man.