Now my friend is lying about the answer and i can't just hurt her cuz she is my friend, what should i do now?
438622
Accept the fact that you have a liar for a friend or dump the friend. The choice is yours.
1125963
well give him time and tell him how the friend told you alot of lies. Just let it be and if its meant to happen then it will.  When he sees how cool you are about the whole situation he will come for you
1126690
Well Fari just call and tell her that they lied to her about tell her all the truth and if she doesn't want to answer your call just keep insisting until she belives that you are saying the true. Wish a lot of luck and hopefully she'll understand your situation.
202410
i can just say 1 thing.. she's not really ur frend bcoz if she really is, she wud never believe any false talks abt u. she wud have defended u 2 this other frend of her & tell her that she knows that u wudnt do such a thing..\n\nbelieving d other frend simply proves that ur frenship is not that strong
424131
i kind of dont know what you're saying. But, i am going to guess you and this friend have problems. I would talk to her, and tell her you love being her friend, and that it hurt when she insulted you. She'll be your friend
1093134
Gently confront her.  Be kind, yet firm and if you catch her in a lie tell her.\n\nLetting it go on will only damage your respect for her and it won't help her in the long run.
167621
You should tell her if she is truly your friend. if she doesn't believe you at least you can sleep at night knowing you told her.
352762
If you are absolutely positively sure that they have lied to you about everything then choose to end this friendship.If your not sure then ask them to tell you something that you already know the truth about to see if they lie.If they do then tell them how it makes you feel and why do they want to lie all time.Maybe they do not know they are lying and maybe they just don't care about telling the truth.Do you lie to anyone?If no then maybe you should find a new friend.
900480
i would ask him yourself. no one else knows him here like you do.  Your friend may or may not of told you the truth either. He may have said yes. But he also may have said no. Have some dignity for yourself and ask him yourself. He would respect you more for doing that.
1041219
Tell her you're sorry for your mistake and say to her that you've\nlearned from it. If she's a friend then she'll accept your apology.\nIf not,she won't  and you'll know where you stand.
203301
why would you make your freindship a mess by asking this ... i dont think there is a harm to be honest ,,, just be honest and i dont think she will mind it
1021961
What you did was the right thing to do, expect the reaction you got from her because that is normal too. Now all you have to do is sit her down and tell her that you need to talk. Tell her that what you said was true, even though she chooses not to believe you, tell her that it hurt you that you were honest with her and she turned against you, that she's letting this guy come between  what you thought was a friendship. Tell her you don't appreciate being bad mouthed by her, (especially if your friends) because she chose not to believe you and that the only person that is missing out is her. She messed a friendship up and has a cheating boyfriend too. She looks like the weak one, because your not the only one that knows, if you saw it it other people have also. And ask her what kind of friend she is. Maybe not the kind you want. After that if your not friends then she's not worthy enough to be in your presence. Find a new friend.
310810
well, try talking to her.  if she won't let you, then dont worry about her. if she's a true friend, she'll want to hear your side of the story. if she's true, she'll come back to you. if she doesnt, oh well. get a new friend.
1093337
Obviously something else is eating away at your friend!  Most likely she believed you and its something else thats eating her. I'd say just let it go.  Things aren't always 100% perfect..... apologize that you didn't go and tell her you honestly thought that they wanted some time alone.  The majority of broken friendships are broken because of miscommunication.  Talk it through and move on.  Go do something fun together and you'll both forget this incident.
821831
dang, dont sound much like a best friend to me. tell her that you dont like that she lies to you and you cant be best friends with someone you can't trust. tell her that that has been bothering you for a long while and wish you could have that special best friend trust with her or it just isn't going to work out, because if she lies so much to you now, its only going to get worse. you might want to mention to her about her breath too.. haha jk!
50152
you need to talk to her about it and tell her that waht she did was very wrong and was not something a real friend would do! You need to tell her that you dont think you can trust her as much as you could before and tell her that you guys can still be friends but only if you want to and tell her that friends are suppose to keep secrets between just the 2 of you! Dont be mean about it to her but tell her that you got so hurt that she did that to you!\n      Good Luck and i hope everything works out!
222599
It doesn't matter what other people think. No one knows what goes on between two people. A good friend is someone who listens to you, gives you advice, and who you don't have to tell to not tell anyone else.  A good friend would keep a secret, however big or small, till death.  She is someone you could rely on at the worst of times. If your friend is a good friend TO YOU then keep her. If you find she's lying to you, confront her. There's many different reasons for lying... Maybe she's just misunderstood by your other friends. Give her a chance though. It can't hurt. And start with small things: For instance, tell her a small secret, and if she tells anyone else, you know you can't tell her big secrets.  And if she can't keep secrets, that still doesn't make her a bad friend... I have loads of gossipy friends, but that's just them and I love them anyway. Take warning from others, but don't make a decision based on it. Learn for yourself about this friend! Good luck!