Im 16 years old. Is wrong/weird for a kid my age to be attracted to women who are 35 to 55 years old?
451242
uhh\nnot if youre a dude\n\ni wanted to bone anything that walked when i was taht age (Female of course)
971993
Erick,\nlet me say this to you.  Age is something that measures time, nothing more.  Spend good quality time with this person, don't let your emotions get the best of you, both of you need to talk about your concerns.  Of course a woman of 34 is going to know more than you sexually, and this can be attractive to you.  Because most women your age, aren't in touch with there feelings or even their bodies yet.  Maybe they just got out of college or maybe still there, they aren't ready to settle down for a serious relationship and shouldn't.  This could also apply to you, but if your mature enough, which that happens to some men, it did with my son, and he has a wonderful family now.\nCommunication,,,,,,  it's that simple, the most important key in any relationship.  Talk to this woman, find out what her goals are, and then see if you can makes things work.  It's not going to be easy, but it can work with a lot of patients.  \nI do wish you both all the best, it would be nice to find someone, who I would consider spending the rest of my life with, and when God feels it's time, then it will happen...  BUT, I am not going to force open in doors, WE all know what happens when you do that...\nAll the best to you Erick,\n\nCurt
1154812
Sure! Why not? As long as you get along and enjoy each others company, there should be no reason to let age get in the way. However, the only thing that I might be concerned with would be for the difference in maturity levels. There is a big difference in the majority level of a 27 yr old female as opposed to a 19 yr old male. As most men are concerned, they take a lot longer to mature emotionally and mentally than woman. However, for all I know, you could be a very mature male. Every situation is different, and as long as you are attracted to each other and are having fun, there is no reason why it can't work!
712770
No i'm the same way. Theres a girl my age interested in me who has 3 kids at 22 and honestly i just don't want the headache.\nI dated a girl with a kid once and it was nothing but baby daddy drama.
201604
I do not think this is wierd at all, your not doing anything wrong...And besides, your old enough to make your own decisions.
137448
YES ,it's normal every woman peaks differntly,i heard in thier 40's.I'm a 36old man and i prefer older women because of better sex and mostly they know what they want.hell feel good about .I think you feel good about your self .Being overly active does,nt mean your a sluty nympho .heck i wish i had a women with that problem..Rock on and have fun..
239333
I don't think there's anything wrong with it.I have younger men interested in me and I just go with the flow. Age doesn't matter as long as you are both adults.
364335
If you like older men, that really isn't a problem.  The things that make a woman interesting to an older guy is no different than for a younger guy.\n\nThe best advice is, do not act your age.  If he is older he probably will not be interested in an immature, childish, kid.  He wants a woman, not someone he will have to baby.\n\nIf you are a minor, however, remember that your actions can irreversibly damage his life for the rest of his life, and only a foolish man is going to risk the potential disaster of a relationship with you.  Do you really want a fool for a boyfriend?  You can send him to prison on nothing more than your words alone, and that wouldn't be a very wise risk to take, would it?
825000
Well, I was six.  She was seven.  That was a good age, I think.  And I've had a thing for older women ever since.  ;)
293492
No i think that is perfectly fine!!! Well i would think that when me and my better half got together i was 20 and he was 29, 3 years later and we have a awsome strong relationship, i was ready for something serious to plant my feet into and so was he, we had alot of things in common, i mean yes there are times when i think wow hes really been around alot more then i have and i can feel a little bit intimidated, but in the long run im thankfull he has those experiances to help guide our steps, I think he has come to believe that im never going to be perfect, even though i really try to do everything well, im not completely at his level on thinking, he has more life lessons to reflect on, but i dont think its a problem when we both discuss everything and keep the lines of communication open, just like any other relationship, my best friend is in the same boat, her husband is 10 years older then her and oddly enough shes the more responcible one, i dont see why any one would think its wrong, now if you were 25 and she was 15 there might be a huge responce to you sick mo fo lol but i dont think there is anything wrong with you liking her, ask her out, she might be into older guys, and with good reason, guys that are 20-24 are enough to make you want to puke, they only want one thing, they havnt figured out yet theres more to life then a nice set of boobs lol they dont know how to deal with money worth a crap, they only look out for themselfs, where older guys have alot more figured out, theres so many more perks to dating a older guy i could go on forever, more or less your more established at 30... id say go for it :) you have nothing to lose
1177035
Sounds pretty normal to me.  Most that I know are into older men though for some reason.  I wouldn't say there's anything particularly wrong with dating an older guy, except that they have other reasons than just love usually for dating younger women.  i.e. bragging rights and such.  ALL men are attracted to young, good looking women, so you'll always get hit on by older guys.  Guys your age are probably still getting over insecurities and such, so that could be part of it.\n\nDon't give up and don't settle, but be careful with the older guys...\n\n*edit* "There is nothing wrong with being attracted to older men who are more likely to be more mature and open to commitment than guys your age. I think its smart of you. "  - That is the most naive thing I've ever heard.  Older definitely does not = more mature or open to commitment.....cripes...so much detail and examples could be given here...
993055
For me, it depends entirely upon the woman.  I've seen very attractive women in their fifties and sixties, even though my natural inclination is generally toward somewhat younger women (I have, alas, a tendency to be attracted to women younger than I am).  Different women age differently, and take care of themselves differently--and, of course, attraction is a very personal matter.  What appeals to one person might not appeal to another.  And a woman who is *nice* will seem a lot more appealing than a woman who is not.  It depends entirely upon the woman.
213182
It is not wrong. People say it's wrong because they follow a long established social construction that states that the man should always be the older one, because he should be the protector and the provider in the relationship. That's why no one ever judges an old man who is in a relationship with a young woman. People don't approve of an older woman and a younger man because that's not what they are used to see as normal. If you go on with this relationship you have to know that people will have objections about it, and that you as a couple will experience some disagreements because he's not as mature and experienced in life as you are. But on the good side you are both on your sexual prime (20 for the man and 40 for the woman). Every relationship is work, if you are willing to work for it, just do it!
716938
No it's not old.  Date the ones your age and stop looking at the ones that are younger.  Trust me your not old.  Ask this again when your 30.
441152
Well, you are both consenting adults, so no it's not wrong. I would make sure she doesn't have "daddy issues" or you could have problems.\n\nBy the way, why would this question need to be deleted? It's a legitimate question. He said she was 24, not 14.
1124498
Nothing wrong with. I don't know your age, but if your young then maybe you are still growing and feeling the urges allot. And if your older then you are just a horny person. Me too and that's ok....
768069
There is nothing wrong with being attracted to older if you are younger and nothing wrong with being attracted to younger if you are older. The problem is when older and really young, under 18, have sex because the younger will see it as more than sex usually and this allows the older to take advantage of the younger.