can i trust a guy since he had say "i love u"?
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never trust a guy, espec`ially if he loves you.  Always make sure you are independent enough of him that you will be alright if he turns out to be a jerk.... and never let him spend your money.
310501
Chances are that if you talk for a few hours everyday, he likes you too, and he may be afraid to say it.  The only way to find out if he loves you is to tell him that you love him.    You always take a chance at being hurt when you tell someone how you feel.  But, if you don't tell someone how you feel, you take a chance at losing them.
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Trust is what keeps relationship rolling!\nU may start wondering, DO U TRUST HIM? DO U TRUST YoURSELF? DO U STILL BELIVE THAT u 2 CAN WORKOUT TOGETHER???? And only than, if U belive, \nask him a qestion, look him strait in the eyes, and U'll see, TRUTH or LIE, but U'll just know...
649452
My man didnt say "I love you" till we were dating for 16 months.\n\nThats how I knew that when he did say it, he meant it.\nOther than that. Ask Jesus\nGBU
656154
Has this person ever hurt you before? Lied to you? Gone after something that was yours? Taken something that was not theirs to take? Cheated and you knew about it? Shared a secret you told them? Gone behind your back and told something about you?  If the answer to all these questions are no, then you can pretty much bank on the fact that you have someone you can trust. If the answer to any or most are yes, look very carefully before you leap!!
1037077
Saying I love you isnt as powerful as showing it. If he is still treating you the same then you have nothing to worry about. One of the important things in a relationship is trust, if you dont have that then the relationship is doomed to end. Either you trust him and stay with him, or you dont and you move on.
1037675
what guy you talking about? Dont fully understand the question. \nBut honey, you cant trust any guys!!!!
428859
Trust the guy himself.  He can tell you & more importantly, show you he truly cares for you by his daily actions of respect, attentiveness, etc.
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It's largely up to you.  If you beleive it was a one time thing and that you can trust him now, and if you still love him then just move forward.  With time it should get easier to handle.  However if you're not sure if you can trust him or not THAT is a different story!  Trust is at the foundation of any good relationship.
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That is right! If you say you love someone, you gotta trust him. But before you fall in love with this person you gotta get to know him. If you are willing to accept him for  who he is, then it is LOVE!!!\n\nI have done that and I am now happily married to this man!
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You could start by saying, you know was thinking about how to accurately evaluate my feelings for you and I think I could love you.....If you were to evaluate your feelings how would you say you feel about me?....\n\nDon't be surprised to hear I don't know....Means he's probably scared to say he loves you.....If that occurs, don't be disappointed continue to try to convince him that he loves you.\n\nGood luck
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I would not count on it.  Unless he tells you he loves you and you feel that it's genuine, then he really does love you.
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you won't know.. men are bunch of liars. they can pretend to be trustworthy until you find out that they are not. just be careful. i mean, trust your man but use your common sense.
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I wouldn't believe him, men will tell you "anything" just for you to fall again for their lies. But...at the end is your decision if you want to continue the relationship and try again.
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Well...if you are driving down the road with him and he says it for no apparent reason (other than to let you know) he probably means it. It is hard enough for most men to say "I love you".....However...the thing that should be of most interest is if his capacity to 'love" is equal to yours
338130
No. If you love yourself then don't trust him again.\nHe did it once. He could do it again.\nIf you're smart enough, Don't fall for the same trick twice.
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Since he said 'ur mine', that would indicate to me that he likes you.  However, I wouldnt feel comfortable with his comment.  You should not be a possession to anyone.