what do i do when my best friend wants to go out with me but isnt completely over his ex?
453699
I know how u feel.Im 11 2.   \n    Okay, before you decided to do anything, ask yourself this question:\n\nIs he worth all the trouble?\nDo you want to keep your friend or just get the guy?\n\nI really don't think you should go for the guy. There are many others guys. "Yeah..duh I know that." you're probably thinking. So get a guy who shows interest in you and a guy who would be great for you. Also remember, you're only in 6th grade. I know a lot of people already at this age are dating and all that junk. Don't be pressured to rush things though. The truth is you shouldn't be dating till atleast 15. I know, it seems like forever from now. When the time comes though, it's sooooooooo worth it.\n\n\nHope that helps, and good luck!!
1072575
umm stay with ur man u guys just gota do somethign diff to spice things up... from my experience dont go after ur BFF's ex..my ex and i broke up and she went out with my best friend... they ended up breakin up and she tried to get back with me... now i dont like either of them.!! its just not right and could cause a bunch of problems like not ever talking to ur bff anymore and u said he is your friend then if u guys break up u might not be friends anymore.... so stick with ur man!!!
70510
well if ur best friends goes out with the guy u like u should either look for another boy or man or watever or say something to ur best friend and say something about it......\npeace out\nmanny
659502
Your probably looking for someone to tell you its ok. Well I'm not going to lie to you.  Guys have this rule bros before hoes.  Its totally wrong for you to go out with his best friend.  Even worse if you sleep with his best friend he will eventually tell your ex everything you guys do.
800954
Forget about it and move on.  Not everything that comes out of someones mouth is meant to come out.  You know, sometimes your mouth moves faster than your brain can censor.  He made a verbal slip-up.  If anyone brings it up again, say:  "OH, I'd forgotten all about that!  I'm sure he meant nothing by it." Then change the subject.\n\nYou don't want to be with him.\nHe doesn't really want to be with you. \nAnd your best friend wants to be with him.\n\nForgive, forget, and move on.  :-)
919214
forget the ex-best friend and be so happy ur ex is giving u another chance
126618
I don't wanna be too judgemental, but I'd never do something like that. However, it all depends on you and on the person you wanna date. And, of course, it also depends on your friends feelings, but, in any case it can be extremely difficult for all people involved. So, in my opinion, it is much easier to stay away from ur bestfriend's ex and not complicate ur life.
162081
Little confused with question but I "think" i got it.\n\nYou have the hots for your ex-boyfriends's best friend. But the bugger isn't calling you, even though you have told him you are interested.\n\nAssuming I got it right ... here goes....\n\nGoing out with your best friend's Ex-girlfriend is ALWAYS a bad idea..... I can't imagine too many "friends" who would do that easily.\n\nI am also a little troubled that YOU would try to jump the fence and hook up with your ex-bf's best bud..... what if your ex didnt like the idea of his friend going out with you? You would be causing friction between two friends and in my book .... thats totally UNKOOL.\n\nAnd last choice is that NO he is not interested in you.\n\nI highly advice that you bat your eyelashes towards someone else..... there's no way that these two guys are the only two guys in your whole world...... find someone else who isn't directly connected to ur ex.\n\nOf course if you do hook up with your ex's best friend, I am sure we will see a new question one day:\n  \n"I still have feelings for my Ex... but I'm involved with his best friend... what should I do?"
223471
Screw his best friend, and make sure you tell his friend he's got a bigger penis and is a better lover than your ex. That will pretty much put and end to your ex touching you and messing with your head. Then you can move on. Because he's just looking for no-strings-attached sex from you now.
884723
This one is going to be difficult, so let's see if I can help.\n\nFirst, your ex.  Now, I take it he's your ex for a reason.  Ask yourself, is there a chance for a relationship with him?  And, if there is, would things end up differently if you two got back together?  If you answered "no" to either question, then rule him out.\n\nSecond, your guy friend.  This is even trickier because if you do chose to pursue a relationship with him, it could end up being either being the best thing you ever had, or ending your friendship.  Does he feel the same about you?  If he does, then you may lose him if you don't date him.\n\nI hope this helps a bit.  Sorry I could not be more of a help.
751971
wow girl you have some problems.. those guys are going out with your friends, if you do make your move on them you'll prove to them exactly how loyal you are. and you just can't do that shyt to a friend, if you really do think of them as your friends. \n\nand if they ever do break up you should talk to your friend first before making your move on her ex. \n\nit's just a unwritten rule that you don't go out with your friends' boyfriends/exes. unless you really do want the drama.
889934
Whatever you do dont break the unspoken rule which is dont date your friends exboyfriends. Let it go if its a really good friend if not then wait til they break up. What I mean is dont worry so much about it, if it happens then it does if not then oh well. Date whom ever you'd like for now and if it were to work out that you were single at the same time only then pursue it if it wasnt a good friend.
1079193
"My ex-girlfriend dumped me cuz I was being a jerk" SO you wanna date her best friend, and continue the jerk saga LOL...\n\nCode of friendship is you never date your best friends ex, so if her best friend is wanting to date you, then she isnt your ex's best friend.\n\nAnswer to your question, is no do you really want to ruin their friendship?? is it just revenge? dating her bf will not turn into a good thing, steer clear of her whole social circle it will keep her and you apart and sane
686096
Most people I've spoken to believe that dating a friend's ex is off limits. Others feel that it is acceptable, as long as you clear it with your friend before anything happens. Even so, it is almost always a problematic situation. If you are really interested, you should certainly feel free to discuss it with your friend. and thats wat ur friend didn't do,she shud have discussed it with u.but anways,u need not worry coz she will b regretting what she did soon.........
920051
Tell your friend first how you feel about him.  You don't want to lose your best friend over a guy.
2452
In my opinion you have to look at a few different things. Are you a nice person or not. If not then you have no rules. If you are a nice person then read on. \n1. Are you and you your ex still friends? if you are you might want to ask  if they would mind. otherwise you might upset them and lose a friendship.\n\n2. make sure the bestfriend wouldn't have a problem with it(obviously).\n\n3. Make sure you don't have any feelings left for your ex. Cause if you do it could cause problems.\n\n4.Usually the best thing to do is just not go out with the bestfriend. in all cases I've seen it usually ends in 3 lost friendships. Hope I helped a little.
106369
It matters if you're going out because you love him, or for revenge. If for revenge, please dump him LIGHTLY. "I'm sorry, I'm just not ready" should do the trick. If because you love him, try to exaplain that to your best friend. But if you even once find yourself doing something with him for revenge to her, I suggest you let him go.\n\nGood luck!!! ^^