If you are married do you lie to meet others and why?
440331
No, not me.  I am married and have kids.  I wouldn't play games with other people either.  I'm a good guy....at least I feel like I am. It would be horrible to meet someone to find out later that they are married. I wouldn't do that to someone.
726078
No, and it shouldn't. Honesty and communication are the only way a marriage will last. And those two lead into trust as well. Little white lies, that are non-damaging to the marriage, are natural. But to lie to someone to save feelings or yourself, they can lead to bigger problems and build up, until it explodes and makes the situation worse. Whether you have good intentions or not. Honesty is the best policy. So, I think you answered your own question. :)
773000
Hai,\nY do u want to keep a relationship secret in the first place? Well if both of them are married to different people ofcourse thats a sin. At times its normal to feel attracted to others ( whn u are married ) but dont let that attraction take u to different directions.I believe its sin cheating ur wife or husband. Its being totally an untrustworthy person !!!! Thats like being a CHEAPO !!!! U would not like if ur wife does that to u right !\nIf u both are not married, then its ur choice to keep it a secret or not and if u both are gonna get married then thats perfectly fine.
976386
When it comes to infidelity, it's true, the spouse is typically the last to know.  Most likely, not only did your in-laws know, but a lot of other people probably knew or had their suspicions as well.  No one wants to be the person to tell, so many people both actively and passively try to prevent the truth from coming out.  If I had to guess, I'd assume that your in-laws behavior isn't all that atypical.  So, I'd treat them as I would treat anyone else who had hurt me.  I'd let them know exactly how I feel about what happened.
848214
Yes. I think we all put on a face for people we are interested in. We tell them all the great things about us and inflate some of the good things about us. Men tell women, they are lawyers, and they are really paralegals. Same circle of lies happens all the time. I think little white lies are fine, like income and inflating your job title. But you shouldnt lie about kids, prison records or anything that will potentially blow up in your face and make you seem like a liar.
755820
I think it's better to be happily divorced than living a lie married to someone who treats you badly, like i did stupidly for 17 yrs, til one day i woke up and realised that actually i did deserve happiness and staying married to someone just because i had got married in church, was wrong, especially as really the way i had been treated, my ex had already broken his vows in the first year i married him!
54219
Some people do that because they may be afraid of committment. Others because they have a trust problem. They had bad relationships in the past. So they have a hard time trust their spouse. Or because they are stupid.
338624
I think having good friends will help you succeed in your marriage.  Rather than end the friendships you have, take the time to encourage your spouse to get to know your friends.  You should also get to know their friends as well. It's too much to expect one person to be your spouse and only friend for a lifetime.
375261
Yes why not. I'm happily married but have female friends who I call.
189171
Some people will ike you a lot and some people won't be able to stand you.\nI am  like that and they either like me or can't stand me because of it. The more phoney they are, they more they hate me.\nIf you mean like should you lie about things you do or not, don't. The truth will always come out. It is fun to be blunt honest all the time. fun to see people's reactions.
819792
Yes if you don't claim to each of them that you're monogamous. If they all know about each other, what you're doing is "dating".
413643
Lying isnt sexist, its something we can all do to everyone. As a happily married woman, I see honesty as a way to deepen my relationship, so its something Im always aware of.That beeing said I try to be very honest with myself first and foremost,its taken time and courage because you have to be humble enough to always admit when your lying .I dont worry so much about other people lying anymore because I know why people do it,and when your telling the truth and others arnt their behaviour seems to just seem a bit sad.
1098521
I would definitely say, nip this problem in the ass before you get married. Believe me, it is much easier to get married than it is to divorce. If he will lie about money, chances are, he wouldn't have a problem lying to you about other things. On the other hand, try to be receptive, and understanding, so he is more apt to tell you the truth in the future.
348680
When I got married a lot of people didn't turn up, I was a little disappointed but fully understood that the world does not revolve around me. Anyone who has their head out of the clouds will be ok about it as long as you let them know in advance that you won't be attending. I was a bit annoyed that a few people didn't do that for me & a lot of food was wasted because of it.
1164156
I would not try to do that unless I met you SS! Anyway, why marry if you want to have other people? Well maybe for a tax break.
100344
it could mean you are married that often puts the lid on friends visiting regular
1099608
Has your man always been up front and honest with you?  What reason would he have for lying to you and keeping you hanging on?  How often do you talk?  My cousin is going through a similar problem (though not married) and I asked her what she would do to move on if he was lying - though with this particular guy it would be a shock.  She replied that she would go out with her friends and socializing soooooo. . . going out with friends and meeting new people is not cheating.  If you meet some other guy you like more in the process then it was meant to be.  \nIf this girl knew about you why would SHE still be with him?  Sounds like she may be trying to start problems so she can have a shot.  Then again, why is he friendly with this "crazy liar"?  You should know his nature well enough to answer these questions yourself, but I understand it never hurts to get a second opinion.  \nBest of luck with everything.