i have a new friend and he is really hot but he is just a friend and i already have  a bf what do i do?
443161
What you usually do.  You are trying to create a problem where there isn't one.
452951
I think you like him more than a friend too. I have rather recently started a relationship, and all I ever think about is her! I hope you are as happy in your thoughts as I am in mine.
409394
First, sorry that first guy didn't feel the same.  Second, why did your friend say that to the second guy?  If you like this second guy as a friend, then his reaction shouldn't matter, he's your friend.  But to answer your question, it sounds like he feels like you do.  He is your friend.  Your friend is causing problems by asking this second guy.  My advice would be to approach the guys you like and not your friends do it for you.  It may be tough, but then you will know for sure.  It will make you a stronger person.  Good luck, there are a lot of fish in the sea.
120595
You dont think you like him? Sounds like you might like him. But if you are sure you dont, just tell him you would feel more comfortable if you two just remanined friends.
237246
You continue to be their friend. Take it from me; guys aren't normally friends with girls for nothing. I guarantee you there's something about you that he likes. You wouldn't be his friend if there wasn't. Just remain close to him and let the other relationship do its thing. If it doesn't work out between them, then and only then, do you tell him how you feel. Let him take it from there. The best thing you can do is to not interfere with or try and sabotage his relationship with his girlfriend. If he ever finds out he will resent you. You will forever lose his trust and you two will never be together. Remain his friend, but don’t waste your life waiting around for his relationship to fail. You have fun, too!! Find your own guy to date. Maybe him seeing you with another guy will get his attention. But don’t date just to make him jealous; date because you want to. You never know, there may be a guy out there who has already fallen in love with you like you did with your friend! And you may miss out on a wonderful guy that’s been waiting to make you feel so special because you’re waiting on a guy who's already involved with someone else...
273944
You need to get to know the both of them and see what they offer, and are they good for you, dont go out with them just cause there hot, thats taking advantage of them,but try and get to know them. You might just like the other better than one!
836681
Dont tell your bf about the new guy.Just tell him that you are young and just want to date.There are many things to do on a date,,movies,,go out for something to eat,,whatever there is to do where you live.Even if you just want to hang out & get to know each other or go out with other people in a group.
637409
well thats a tough one but i think u should talk to your friend and tell her that u and this guy like each other and she's kind of stepping in. also ask the guy whats up with him. does he like u or your friend. hope it works out for ya
643516
that first answer about usin you was a bunch of BS\nif it is true, dump him... but I hope for the better that it is not. I'm a guy with a lot of gfs too (cept I kinda wanna be single over summer, so I'm  not makin any moves) and I'm sure they are all jealouse when I hang out with one or the other. Its natural, just like I'm jealous when the one I've liked forever hangs out with other guys. If you talk to you bf a lot, then it should be no problem talking to him about this. If you don't talk to him, then you should either start talking to him or rething about whether or not this is the guy you want to be with. There are plenty of guys out there, and one will eventually be the right one for you. just hang in there, and if you lose this one, it'll be alright\n-- God Bless
479146
jus..b d same as u r right now....but try...2 hav much closer relationship..wid him... make urself nd dat guy very much comfortable..wen u hav each others company...enjoy... his company... nd plz... dont go 2 deep into dis...u neve knw...he may dump u any time..but let ur friendship go on...
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It seems to me that the both of you are more than friends with benefits.  If you guys are not together as a couple, than neither one of you should be jealous of the other, unless there are more feelings involved.  \n\nSit down and have a serious talk with him.  See exactly where things stand with you.  If he doesn't want more than, just being friends.  I would suggest to take the benefits away or let him go...  Life is too short to waist every minute on someone who is not willing to talk about the future....
476069
It is so nice that you care so much about  both your friend and you.\n\nYou see whatever happened has happened. It can't be changed. So either you find ways to move on or you just slack back.\n\nYou said you are best friends. A lot of things happen between best friends you know so this should not be a hard one to tackle. It happened because you were both passionate about each other. It now appears you are both bi. No big deal.\n\nFirst you said you liked him and now you are saying you don't know if you like him. NO problem about that, you will soon know if you like him or not.\n\nHowever, since you said you have not seen him in a month and this whole thing is getting into you, well i think is about time you talk with him. It does not matter if you are different persons or not, you still have to find out where you stand. You need to talk with him and find out if you are both embarassed about the things that happened and if you still want to be best of friends. If you both still want to keep on having sexual feelings for each other, well that is when to find out, by talking to each other. Please tell him your mind, what you think, what should stop, what should go on and stuffs like that. It will work out.\n\nYou and i both know you don't want to lose a friend like him. Then i think it's about time you spoke to him.\n\nPlease don't feel shy. OK. Open up and tell him every single thing in your heart.\n\nYou will definitely find your answer. Keep it cool and GOOD LUCK.\n\nHave fun too.
736185
How about you and him just hang out together. Not like bf/gf.. But as friends.. then y'all can dicide from there if you two would like to see each other as more.. But there will be a strain on you and your friend relationship if you and this guy see each other and it ends in a bad way. You need to think about that.. But why not just all of you hang out and see where it goes from there. there is nothing wrong with making friends.. friends are forever...
171070
just dont think so much. Calm down and act like you always would around anyone else. put the hotness thought in the back of your head and just let things flow.
493465
Well he is taken you should have spoken sooner.  Life is to short to wait on something, you gosta take chances, and the worst he could say is no.  I have liked a friends bf before but i didnt proceed, because our friendship was more imporiant.  And boys will be there forever there are only some friends are a one out of a million\nIf you have any further ?'s you can email me blondiewifabooty14@yahoo.com
718882
I think you should do what your heart says. If it is telling you that you love this guy, not a little middle school or high school crush, but actually love the guy, its a tough decision. I was in the same position about 4 months ago, but luckily it worked out for me, my friend did get over my now boyfriend. But I had to sit down and have a talk with her. I actually asked her permission to date him. I didnt want to lose a friend over a guy. It can work, and if she says its ok, then she would have no reason to be angry, but if she says no, she doesnt want you to, then just think of how akward it would be to go out with him? she would always be angry, and it would hurt her alot. What if she made a move for him without talking to u? wouldn't that hurt you? Talk to her, and really consider what you say, how you say it, and listen to what she has to say. do it when things are not rocky, or else it will go horribly wrong. It sounds to me like you two need to talk it out, and if necesary, not have either of you date him. it is weird for a while...trust me. and if she says its ok, then it may be akward for a while, but eventually she will be ok with it unless she really does like that guy. And also be sure this guy is really worth it. Trust me, if its a crush, it could ruin both friendships. just have one on one time with him and talk things out with him too. remember, comunication is key. without it, it can all splash in your face. and listening to how ur friend feels is always important, so dont blow it off, or she will be very upset. more than if u hadn't asked her in the first place. just talk to each of them one on one, get a perspective from both of them, and be sure this guy is worth it and make sure he isnt best as a best friend...make sure u want to take it to the next level. who knows, maybe u guys can be as cute of a couple as everyone claims me and my bf is...and one more thing, GOOD LUCK!!! :)
546636
Tell him not to rush into any kind of relationship with a guy, to give himself time to work and think things out.  Then just don't treat him any differently, keep being his friend and tell him that won't change.  It sounds like you are a good friend already, just keep at it.