what can i do to a friend who took my girlfriend away from me?
439237
Don't stress she's going to do the same thing to him and you two we be friends and she's going to get her heart broke if not seriously hurt   I hope it don't happen like that but people don't play when it comes to their heart
1050779
The best thing you can do is approach your friend and tell him how you feel. You don't want to ruin the whole trip because of one person. If he understands then you can ask him to possibly go with her another time. Either that or you could tell him that you aren't fond of seeing hm all over his girlfriend and that you would like it if he stopped. I have been in this position before and what I did was tell her that it bothered me that they did that because it was disrespectful to me and my other friends. Perhaps you could try something similar to that. But what you really need to do is approach him and tell him how you are feeling. Don't bottle the feelings up. That's not good for your mental health.
1020083
Dont ever loose someone for someone else.  If both parties are that close to you - you can come to some agreement between them.  See your friend  - then see your girl.  Let them both know how you feel.  Whichever one is willing to work out the situation is really there for you.  Hopefully they will both understand - you dont all have to hang out together at the same time.  True friends are hard to come by.  They are there for you to the end...But when a relationship goes bad - who do you turn to?  If it is her asking you to give up your friend....tell her no way.  If it is him asking you to give her up - find out why
337243
I can't believe the answers some of these people gave you! How heartless!\nYou can't really know what he meant by it, trust me I know, the best you can do is wait for word from him and know that he is trained to handle the situation over there. When you do hear from him again, ask him what happened and maybe talk about if he ever has to get offline quickly again, how to word it so as not to worry you so much. I hope everything is ok and I wish you and your friend the best.
160738
There isn't much you can do, but you can just tell her how you feel, tell her you really miss her, that you hardley see her anymore since she met her boyfriend. Ask her to come over for dinner or whatever and tell her she can bring her boyfriend is she likes. The key is to support her and not place blame on boyfriend or she could get angry with you.
1101366
wait a sec...u dint tell me tht u got commited so bad of u.. u dint tell to ur friend anyway just tell ur ex gf tht u hav got commited n tell her to stop all these things n also tell her tht u r not interested in her any more
900887
Let her go.....the decision was taken by her, not 2 worry\n\nforget her......find another
225741
Take it slow... tell her that you really want her to listen to you and that you seriously want her to take the time to listen to what you have to say, if there have been many times when you've had a heart to heart and no results, tell her that it'd be best if you get everything out of the way so you can both make up your minds about whatever it is. Tell her you miss her, tell her being 'just a friend' isn't what you want but if it's all you're going to get then it's fine. If you don't think hat way then express how you really feel. Ask her why she wants to be your friend so badly all of a sudden. Maybe she really wants you back or she's trying to start all over again or she misses how you were as a friend. Let it all out, relieve her and yourself of your issues and you can go on from there.
677395
You obviously hurt her badly and it is taking her some time to get over that. Don't push her, try writing her a letter explaining the tough time you were having (I am sure she knows but tell her anyway) and apologise for what you did.  Tell her what your friendship meant to you, explain how you have changed and grown as a person and see what she says.  She may be too deeply hurt in which case you must let her go but at least you have told her why you behaved the way you did and she may come to understand that in time.
598491
If you apologized and you were sincere, there is not much else you can do. Did she forgive you? Maybe you can just keep being nice and take her somewhere special to make it up to her. Most important, trust her. Possesive men are scary. Show her that you trust her and maybe not call her too much. Let her have some freedom. Good Luck.
1035971
you should talk to them and find out what happened and tell them how u felt about bein ditched. i know it sounds lame but it could work and you might forgive them. but if their still being jerks about it then just move on and make better friends.
364707
This is a tough situation.  This person has been your best friend for some time, but has taken a big turn for the worse.  My advice is to call or write her, and without getting too emotional, tell her how much you were hurt when she didn't come to your Quinceanera.  Hopefully, she will understand that this meant a lot to you, realize the importance of your friendship and try to make it up to you.  However, if she doesn't even after you've explained how much she hurt you, then she isn't acting like a friend any longer.  It will be hard, but you'll need to let go of her.  You deserve to be treated better than this by your friends.\n\nGood luck, and if I can be of any help - just write.
456665
There had to be a reason that your friend ditched you. Try talking to your friend and see whats up!
449668
Well, if she won't leave her crazy girlfriend then its because she needs some help herself. OR okay, she can be scared that her g/f will try and kill herself (again). Bottom line, that girl is controling your friends life and its a very bad situation. Tell your friend to seek professional advice on how to get out of that relationship. She is being emotionally abused and needs to get out ASAP. Tell your girlfriend to call a hotline, get advice on how to leave and then just be there for her during the transition and so forth. IF your friend refuses to try harder and at least another month goes by then yes, move on. It may be very hard but at this rate its not fair to you. Good luck!
133497
He's not much of a friend and u need to go after your girl and make her see u in a different light.
319907
If it got to the point they had to call hte cops I would say you blew it.  If you aren't really willing to accept that answer and you are willing to do ANYTHING to be friends with her again then patience is the key.  You have to prove to her that you are sorry and will never act that way again.  Let me tell you earning back someones trust is never an easy thing.  Be patient...wait for her... do what you can to show her you are sorry subtly and if a fight starts refuse to engage in it...
247805
Just put some distance between the two of you. If you can't forgive, at least don't throw it in your friend's face. That'll just keep the anger strong and even make it grow.\n\nTell her(him) that you're hurt, and that there's no room in your life for her(him) right now.