Why are ex-wifes such a pain in the A.S.S.????????????
438843
It takes 2 to tango.  You could try being a polite grown up, grit your teeth and deal with her only in a respectful manner and she will eventually come around and do the same.
886184
BECAUSE THEY ARE PAINS IN THE ASS*S
464203
Hey, you know, I am kind of in the same boat as you are, except for I have pretty much gone through having to hear my ex-husband cry to me every single time that I spoke with him to let me know how much is missed me.  I have two young boys with him, and believe me, it has been really hard, but thanks to my dear boyfriend who I now love a lot I have made it through.  I have been thinking about living with my boyfriend too, as my divorce will be in June, but it seems like I can't wait that long.  I don't know, but I just know that women seem to want things done much quicker and we don't like to wait to get what we want.  I would say to do what your heart tells you to do.
942682
I dont feel bad. They probably make their wives mad on purpose so they get divorced and like half of their money. Jerks, smart, but still jerks.
815374
This is suicidal employment at it`s worst. Nothing worse than having to see an ex every day. Even close friendships at the workplace can backfire as well.
102090
It's ok to suffer for the time being, girl..when you divorce your husband, then they suffer, you will get everything...
1035929
Sign up my ex-wife....
984416
MOST of the married couples I know tolerate each other and the women all tell me if they had to do it all over again, they would NOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  And I know a LOT of couples!!!!!!!!!!!! You might find a few here and there who are so used to each other they get familiarity confused with true love.
569914
Sounds like you really miss your ex....
124167
because they are insecure in the relationship. they feel that it won't take much for another woman to break up the relationship. if it's your wife that's gettin jealous then you need to take some time to reassure her that she's the only woman in your life and you wouldn't dream of leavin her for someone else. and don't just say it either, actually show her with actions. like when you catch a woman starin at you, kiss your wife passionately
181996
There is a thought within the Marriage/divorce councelling profession that an ex-relationship needs proper time to mourn, therefore people should not start a new one for something like 6 months.
586521
You have to treat them like they are children, and everything goes smooth. If you treat them like adults that's when the shit hits the fan! They can not do anything for themselves, and once you get married its really worse. I love my husband to death, but sometimes he is just more then I can handle it. My philosophy is just grin and bare it!!!!
978361
my husbands ex wife is the same way. she wants to be at ALL of his family gatherings but she's so stupid because no one liked her before and they dont like her now she just looks pitiful. anyway she only has one child with him which she held over everyones head like bait or something and now i have two so she only looks dumb because no one wants to see her they only want to see his son.
942317
maybe you didn't have closure with the ex.  I know that's the reason my ex still haunts me after 5 years.  fortunately i've got the greatest gf in the world, and i can talk to her about this.  I LOVE NIKI!!!
920077
use a common friend to get to your ex-wife. i think it's very noble of you to try to work things out among yourselves. if your ex-wife still refuse to accept the fact that you're actually doing her a favor by resorting to peacefull means, then you have no choice but to do whatever would be necessary for the sake of your child. you need not feel guilty then if the court decides in your favor because you have tried your best to warn her.
809071
OMG!!!  I can't believe that someone else on earth has had to go through this!!  Last year I found out my husband was having an affair for 9 months with a neighbor of ours.  I was friends with this woman before she moved into our neighborhood, so when she moved in, we quickly became best of friends.  I was very angry, I kicked him out and never spoke to her again.  I had to talk to him because when I filed for divorce, he wanted to talk a settlement in custody of our daughter.  I refused.  I told him that as long as he wanted to be with her, then he wasn't taking my child around HER.  After about 3 months of not living with our family, he decided that he didn't want to be single or with HER for that matter.  I made him jump through a million hoops to come back home (such as switching cell numbers with me, getting a better job, going to counseling, going to AA, plus many more).  Also I made it a condition that if I EVER even THINK that he is talking to her again, then it is OVER FOR GOOD.
732658
A former fiancée of mine used to call me from time to time, crying about how wrong it was for her to leave me, how bad her current dude was treating her, etc. etc. Of course, I'm supposed to forgive her for cheating on me, lying about the cheating and just keeping me around long enough until she could find someone else stupid enough to support her. Even after I got married to another (far superior) woman, she would call and say things like "our children would have....". Well, we didn't have any children together and we never will, but she still had these bizarre fantasies about how things are/should/would have been.\n\nI think she was seeking attention and support and still was trying to take advantage of my kindness. It sounds like your ex is quite similar...using you for emotional support...but in all likelihood once she feels better, she will ditch you again. Once a cheater, always a cheater. It doesn't have to be sex, it can be emotional cheating...and sometimes it's just for drama and a feeling of self-importance (being needed, desired and and cared for by others).\n\nI do thank my ex for one thing; had she not torn me up, kicked me to the curb and ruined my life, I never would have met my wife, and had my two wonderful sons that I have now. At the time when she kept toying with me with her coming-back-for-emotional-needs after she had broken up with me, I felt like a no-good worthless used-up person, and her flattery to get attention from me seemed hollow and insulting. After a while I felt better and ultimately realized that my life was in fact better without my parasitic ex than it was with her. Perhaps you will find the same thing with your ex, and I would be extremely skeptical of anything she says.\n\nMay your future be happier and drama free...and you will probably find happiness where you least expect it.