In gay couples how they feel when they have sex ? like i mean one feel like women and other like man?
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Based on what you've said I will take a guess and think you are heterosexual.  You can't use your heterosexual idea of sex and try to understand homosexual activity.  For example, gay couples do not think one plays the "guy" role and the other plays the "female" role because they are both of the same sex...therefore they both play the same role.  Sexual orientation has nothing to do with social behavior.
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Have you guys ever heard of the Kinsey scale I am a 3 on that scale so I am in the middle I am attracted to both sexes and it is both a blessing and a curse. I can find pleasure in the mainstream but at the same time I am discriminated against by both sides of the fence. I am constantly being told that bisexual is just a stop on the way to gayville, and that I am undecided. Well you know what I didn't decide to be this way it is not a choice. I am the way god made me. I desire my wife and yet I also desire men. Why would I chose to be this way. Or if I was just gay why would I be able to find such joy in sex with my wife. I love her and chose her yet still desire to be with a man. That part of me is unfulfilled because I made a vow to be true to my wife. I hope that just one of you people that read this understands how it feels to be denied and questioned by both gay and straights. I am sorry didn't mean to get on a soap box but as a gay person it makes you guys angry when straights ask why you chose to be gay or says that being gay is wrong. And that god didn't make you gay. It feels the same way when a gay person questions if we are truly bisexual.\n\nYenko I love your response I wish I could talk to you.
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For sure it all depends on what they want to do. Some gay men don't really have sex at all, but just fantasize about it. Some get into S & M scenes, bondage, leather, rubber, etc. But most just have what they call vanilla sex. Which means they perform fellatio, do anal things or both. Of course they also kiss, caress, hug, touch, and all of the things they are necessary for forplay. Or, at least they should.
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how does it feel..it  feels like you are on top of the world..especially if its someone that you love then the pleasure is sooo out there..I dont know how to explain it..but it feels damn good...Its something that I love..I love when my man does it..he is soooo good at eating my you know what :)...
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I'm a lesbian, and most of my partners have been women. Right now in my life, the idea of being with a man is mostly repulsive to me, and I imagine it's pretty similar to how you yourself feel.\n\nI have had male lovers, and sometimes I have enjoyed them, but over the years, I have found more and more that I don't think I could ever enjoy them again. At this moment, I have a partner, and I get repulsed by the idea of sex with ANYone else, male or female.
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well if you think you might be gay\n\nyou probably are\n\n\nhere are some other signs:\n\nyou like to have sex with people of the same gender
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i honestly dun feel that they are the same. Sex is when u have no feelings for each other, but love is a long committment kind.
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I don't believe that it makes you gay. But, it also depends on what your definition of Gay is.  I do believe that you have homosexual tendencies.  That means that you may not be actually having sex with or being sexually intimate with men right now.  But, if the right situation presents itself, you may become involved with a man sexually.  Now, whether you will just like guys then or not, I don't know.  However, anything is possible with anything.  Just take you time and find out what makes you feel good as a person and what makes you feel good intimately and that will be your answer.  Don't worry about the label too much.
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We live in a society that apparently feels all races and classes should be clearly defined, and although it recognizes the differences in people regarding religion, race, gender and sexuality, most of society feel that gays, lesbians and bisexuals are a people who practice a "deviant" lifestyle. This is also true in their regard to other lifestyle practices as well, such as BDSM, fetishism, swinging or swapping (sexual) or for instance,  religions which are not North American based, such as Buddism , Toaism and the like. Society as a whole identifies individuals by grouping them into certain categories....their mistake, or should I say oversight is that  although we may desire same sex physical relations, we don't all desire the same type of emotional relationship, or even that we may just be able to accept and love differently than they may.\nTransgender, I feel, is an exception...\nIt is emotionally a different challenge than the rest of us feel. It is psychologically and physically a completely different matter. Mother nature has a way of playing tricks on some of us. Personally, I would go mad feeling like I had been born into the wrong body! If your body says your a man, and your mind tells you that you're a woman with the desires of a woman, does that then make you gay to your body, but straight to your mind? Look, some of us are born with 6 fingers on one hand, so, we don't use it, don't need it and have it removed and replaced with an eyeball, because thats what our mind is telling us should be there...Alright, that makes me different, but it doesn't make me an alien either! Mother nature screws up sometimes, and lots of people suffer for a lifetiime because of it...should we then treat them with any less respect than ourselves? I think NOT! Personally, I sympathize for those suffering that. Be as it may, society has wrongly placed us all into a big file cabinet. The majority can be placed in a drawer named "normal" and then placed in little files from a 2 z depending on religion, race, gender....now as for us "deviants"......we are in a completely different file cabinet on the other side of the room in drawers broken down into  "pervert",   "freak", "faggot", "dike",   "tranny", "CD", \n"sadomasichist", "pedophile" and the like.\nWe are, by societies standards, mentally ill.\nHow little they know!\nIt is simple to us who live everyday with our unique desires...\n"To each, his own".\n *OR* \nDo we REALLY desire something opposite from the rest of them? I think  not! How many of us denied our thoughts and desires for how long? Why? Society. We didn't want to be judged or be labeled abnormal by the other people in the "normal "file cabinet and be tossed out! So, how many of us so called "deviants" are there still hiding in there?\nHA! Way more than we'll ever know!\nNow, as for putting all of us "abnormal" people into ONE GROUP...\nI think they just got lazy and decided to stuff us all in there , lock it up and come back later to douse us with fuel and strike a match!\nHere is how It should  break it down:\nA- MALE\n1) Gay :  men only want men\n2)Bisexual :   men who "generally" seek love relations with women, but who are capable of loving men. And who are sexually attracted to both nearly equally. MAY take a given opportunity to have sex with both at the same time, BUT generally are so adversly affected by the stigma associated with attraction to other men, that they would hide it.\nB- FEMALE:\n1) Lesbian :   women only want women\n2)Bisexual Women:   women who "generally" seek love relations with men, but are capable of loving other women. AND who are sexually attracted to both nearly equally. And would quite often take any oportunity to have sex with both at the same time. ( hey,  maybe we are the biggest freaks of us all!.
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A man once had true feelings for me, we didn't just have sex. He held me, kissed me, cuddled and watched movies, and he made me feel wonderful. I loved him and it felt great. I came to believe that if this is so bad, why is it so wonderful. From then on, I felt no shame and believed truly that love conceurs all.
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I'm not sure I can totally explain how I feel,\nbut when a strong man puts his big\narms around me I melt . I feel as if \nnothing can touch me . I feel security ,\nlove , safety , and protected from the \nbig bad world around me .
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well for what it's worth, I have gay friends who have been in monogamous loving relationships a lot longer than many hetero couples.  They feel the same hurts, fears, disappointments, as everyone else, have the same dreams, hopes and aspirations as anyone else, and pay the same taxes.  Night night :)
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Thank you sooooo much I have wondered the same thing. I think they feel being gay is something the whole world needs to know just so people do not ask them why they are not with the opp. sex.  Also I guess it makes them feel better
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Now teh shoe is on the other foot. This is how gay people feel when the walk down the street expressing affection to their partners. They get stares and whispers. Basically they feel out of place. Go to a gay club and see what it feels like to be discriminated against, even if the differences are not so apparent.
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It's always normal to feel things about the same sex... but if the feelings continue you should explore them some more... and maybe talk to someone about it. \n\nI guess I need more information.. but i hope this helps.
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I'M NOT GOOD AT THIS BUT I WILL TRY TO HELP YOU OUT...WHEN YOU'RE IN A RELATIONSHIP (if you are) WITH A GAY, HOW DO YOU FEEL?ARE YOU HAPPY?CONTENTED?SECURE?YOU NEED TO WEIGHT THINGS OUT, HOW HIGH IS YOU LEVEL OF HAPPINESS. \nand when you are in a realatonship with a opposite sex, how do you score yourself when it comes to commitment, happiness, security etc.\nIf you feel you are more comfortable with living with the opposite sex then by all means convince yourself to divert your attention to the opposite sex. \nall you need to do is to assess yourself what you really like, what makes you happy...the important thing here to consider is HAPPINESS- YOUR OWN HAPPINESS.If you think you're more happy to be with a gay (anyway, some gays do share deep feelings not just sex- just find the person) then go for it, If you think you're more happy to share your life with the opposite sex (other women too just want sex,sex and sex again) then open your eyes and your heart and start looking.\nGood luck...I hope I helped you in a little way.
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The same as us heterosexuals.. Not that we all fell the same all the time either. They're not different from heterosexuals in any other way than that they are attracted to people of the same sex. That is the only difference. Maybe you should specify your question, or get some gay friends :)