Me and my friend we are very close I tell her everything about my relationship but she tells me?
438996
Well its really not up to her. THe real Question is do you think you sould break up with him cause one she might be trying to help but then she might not.
63315
Ummm...thats really wierd i think you described me.I think it's a girl thing cuz i do the same thing to my bf all the time. I really can't describe why i do it. I know its pissess him off. Now does she tell you after a while or does she never tell you whats bothering her?
893448
Maybe she is just afraid of what your reaction would be. Maybe instead of hinting you should just come out and say what you feel. It sounds like maybe you are both hinting to one another but neither one is stepping up to the plate. Even if she doesn't see you as botfriend material right now she might later if she knows the opportunity is there.
743530
look mrs. josh\n\nwith all due respect.. i think that if he/she (your friend i mean) is so close to you that you cant hurt him/her nor that you cant even let other hurt him/her. so i think that better way is to tell him/her the whole scenario. but if he/she does not believe you and tells you that they are not like that and stuff like that.. and that you are backbiting on them. so tell him/her that "Dont regret it later" \nokay. now click on the best answer, cuz i know i am the best hehe"
882005
Did it occur to you that your friend may have her own things going on and her own problems to deal with? She may want to be there for you, but have to deal with her own stuff too.\nIf you ask me she does care about you a great deal and it hurts her to see you hurting so much and that is why she is telling you that you need time apart.
530077
Of course, it's frightening to confess your own feelings when there's a very important friendship at stake....but is also true that a truthful relation always lean on honesty, and then you should tell her what's happening in you. Don't take it as a confession, think at that as an issue to talk about together, since you intimately know each other. She will appreciate your honesty, and if it's really a true friendship nothing will change between you two. So definitely, go for her...maybe she's feeling the same way and she's afraid to tell as much as you do...if not, you must go for her anyway, otherwise you'll always live in doubt. Remember, regret is always less painful than repentance. Good luck!
108366
well chances are, she IS lying to you.  It may not be that big of a deal, and there may be some good reasons for it (although I dont think theres ever good reasons to lie)\n\neither way, I am sure she has her reasons, if you cant bear with it, leave her.
474345
Yes, it should bother you.  Because she is your friend doesn't mean you should put complete trust in her.  People you feel you can trust are the ones that WILL STAB YOU IN THE BACK! Besides, friends are supposed to respect eachother.  Right now she is not and neither is your boyfriend.  Be careful, because it sounds like there maybe something going on or about to happen.  If you want to avoid problems and don't want anything to come between your friendship, then put a stop to it now...\n\nGood Luck!
346597
She sounds like she's confused. next time you talk to her, just tell her that you think she's cool but you don't want to get in the middle of her and her bf's relationship. If she wants to be friends with you that's fine but if she wants to take it further she needs to say bye to him. Good luck!!
795118
SOUNDS LIKE SHE FANCY'S YOU MORE THAN YOUR BOYFRIEND....I THINK SHE WANTS YOU
145400
tell her of course i would like to help u but 1st tell her how do u feel about her maybe she feel the same to you maybe she say that to make you feel jealous to see u how to react about that .if she dosn`t like you or she won`t to go out with you tell her that our friendship is the most important thing to you and i am glad to help you with that.write to me soon to find out what have u done my e-mail is nana_nona_nana2000@yahoo.com
89044
She means you are a close friend, closer then a best friend but not as close as a boyfriend. You're someone she can go to and take her problomes to, someone she can trust above anyone. Dont break that relastionship.
264055
She's BRAGGING. But I think she has some interest in you or else she would not tell everyone about it. So why not talk to her about it. Confront her and see what she says. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain, right?\nGood Luck.
180550
This is so sweet really. you have been through the same ups and downs as any normal relationship as friends. It would be a huge mistake if you don't tell her how you feel. This could be the person that you are supposed to be with. Just tell her how you feel. Since you have been friends for so long she will understand where you are coming from even if she is not ready for a relationship. Please don't go the rest of your life feeling this way. Remember always be honest, and besides you would want to know if it was the other way around even if you didn't want to go down that road with her. The best of luck!!!
42471
The damage is done - you've already ****** him, so now you need to have some respect for your friend and tell her the truth. You're too worried about what she'll say to YOU, and how YOU'll feel. . . when what you should really be concerned about is how she's going to take the fact that you've been lying behind her back for the past while. Just fess up already - you'll BOTH feel a lot better in the end about it.
694854
probably. just tell her she is such a good friend u want to keep it that way in all ways.
963742
Hmm....seems like she has mixed emotions but I'm not too sure. It is possible for her to like you and her boyfriend at the same time and she may be confused about her feelings. She probably likes you more than a friend but is too afraid to tell you in fear of rejection or ruining the friendship. Therefore, she has a boyfriend so that way she won't act on her feelings towards you. Little does she know that she's already making it obvious. Dude, if she hugs you all the time and says that she loves you then I'd say she definitely likes you more than a friend. This is what I think of your situation but I could be wrong. I mean you said that she was never like this before so why the change? Obviously, she has developed feelings for you. So to sum it up, yes she likes/loves you but she is afraid of ruining the friendship. So my best advice for you is to wait until she breaks up with her current boyfriend and then express your feelings to her. Believe me I know what it's like since I've been in a similar situation before.Good luck and best wishes.........