My wife got scars & burns on her face from an acident.  What is a nice way to tell her I want a divorce?
435690
Considering the type of reaction your question engendered I would say that that was exactly what you were trying to achieve. I don't believe that I have encountered anyone with a low enough mentality who would seriously ask this question. However, I could be wrong.  In which case ask God.
729422
You've done something pretty bad I take it, and here is your first problem in trying to get your wife to give you another chance- you keep calling whatever it is - a "mistake". Big no no.\n\nYour wife wants you to accept full responsibility for what you did. Say "I was wrong", etc. Calling it a mistake is minimizing your role in it. Like maybe you "accidently" had sex with another woman, or punched her, or gambled away your kids college fund, or whatever.\n\nI don't know what you did, but your approach to get her back is backfiring on you. I know from experience.
471789
Divorce the person. ha ha;\n\nSeriously, extreme attention to personal hygiene is the best alternative here. Removal of glands has other complications you probably wouldn't like.
201876
You cant and you shouldnt have done that in the first place. Thats called adultry and your wife can devorce you for everything that your worth for that. So break it off now with her.
77831
Read this article about emotional cheating.\n\nhttp://www.nydailynews.com/front/v-pfriendly/story/335439p-286396c.html\n\nYou're a brave man to put your - and your kid's picture - on the net, next to this question. Let's hope your wife and all of her friends can't read. ;-) Do you want her to find out? Is this a cry for help? A way of starting a conversation? I am not judging you, I am only asking because I can't understand it completely but I admire the frankness and openness in it.\n\nGood luck!
130066
well its really hard to get back the trust..be patient..just give her time to think..be sincere of all ur actions and all ur saying...... and assure not only to ur wife but also urself that u will not hurt her again
301957
Seriously, dear, I want to first apoligize because no one should ever have to go through such a turmoil. And for being the most important day of your life, I would have been appalled. It is one of those situations where one day you might back at it and laugh, and but for the mean time me per say I would say that you should be the "bigger adult" and live on your life with your new hubby, within 10-15 years you can re-new your vows and have something even greater. As far as forgiving her I seriously would say no, and on the same note not even give her the time of day. I would more else let the time pass on until you are ready to talk to her, not on her turf, but yours. I wish you all the best of luck, and I know eventhough that you didn't get a chance to have your wedding video taped,just know that the people who were there, and you ended up being with person of love, those memories will last a lifetime!
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1.  Move on, buddy.  Buy some roses for a blind date that you get set up with on Valentine's Day.\n\n2.  If things were going to be "worked out", you two would've done that previous to the divorce.\n\n3.  You need to explain to your daughter that her mommy and yourself are not together anymore, and that is okay.  Your encouragement of her prayers for your reconciliation is,  quite frankly, disgusting.  You say you're a wonderful dad...it is time to act like it.
934163
You could be blunt! Tell her you feel unconfortable when she does this.. and that your happily married. Then point out how would she feel if everytime(old ugly whats his name) did that to her,,, how would she feel?
1128921
Just love her and be patient with her. Tell her that you believe in her and that she isn't any of those things, and that you think she is wonderful. Emotional scars take time to heal.
255280
coming from a woman point of view that has been where your wife is,"yes the same reasons get tiresome to the ear and heart,we have to leave with the kids somewhere safe until everything dies down and you calm down from being so angry! when we go as far as a restrain order,trust me it's not because we don't love you it's because were afraid,and we do what we can to protect the children as well as ourselves. I'm not upholding you for your wrong doing,yes you need time to get yourself together and give her time to regroup,and maybe she'll forgive you,but remember time brings about a change!get yourself together keep your hands to yourself,stay in counseling and let GOD work on you too!I am a firm believer that she hasn't thrown away 13 years overnight with kids.I pray that it works out between the both of you,but she has the say,now she's in con troll!! good luck "T"
701452
well, thats a big problem ryt there. you gave her chances and she took advantage of it. why dont you talk to her over it again and explain what are the consequences it might cause her, you and your child. Its all up to you if you wanna be practical and warn her if she goes overboard you'll have to leave her. If she still doesnt care well you can tell her that if youl be like that i'll leave you for good and ill take our child. open her brain that you guys have a family and  if you leave she'll not even be sure that the guy he is with will take her in lyk you did. explain to her that you love her and that guy will not do good to her. \n\nask her what if im gone would your bf:\ntake you in\nlove you the way i do\nwould he take care 4 our child\ndoes he really love you\nis he using you for sex\nis he serious with you\n\n2nd problem is her smoking\nyou may warn her but thats still her decision its either you leave her to teach her a lessonor put her in the rehab. \n\nyour problem is huge so the only way to fix it is 4 u to be gutsy and face it. you have to make an action because your wife can take advantage of you cuz she myt think your weak. show her you're the boss. \n\nincase you and your wife separates temporary or not you can take care of it or while you're working leave your child with a relative or fwend and pay them at least a little if they insist. nxt is that you can go to govt helps. \n\nif my ans dont work i insist you should go to a marriage counsel.
926791
Look, let me share what i think here...You STILL have not mentioned any GOOD reasons for a divorce...Being attracted to other women, first of all, is pretty natural for men. Resisting that temptation is part of the vows you took. also, you say she recently was diagnosed with Diabetes. Again, this is when your wife needs you the most. I can understand not wanting that kind of responsibility, but again, that's part of the vows. And lastly, the peach fuzz thing is hardly worth mentioning, EXCEPT that it reveals the fact that you are afraid your wife will let herself go in all areas, if she hasn't already done so. It just seems to me there are some deeper issues stirring around here, and it might be worthwhile to really examine what you're feeling.\nI can see where you're coming from, But I think divorce is a hasty idea for you. As much as we don't like to admit,  ANY relationship is hard work sometimes. This is one of those times. The trick is NOT to give up. If you do that, all you'll ever do is start over again and again, and mistake the lust for new people for the possible real connection you could keep with your wife. \nYou loved her enough to marry her, after all. Try to work it out and good luck.
587606
If the model-type was good at fellatio, I'd marry her and buy her a lifetime supply of breath savers, listerine, and eclipse "cinammon inferno" gum. And I'd see if I could get a dentist to do something about it. I think it would still cost less in the long run than plastic surgery for the fugly one.
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DIVORCE, so just b/c she does wrong you will too, word of advice, 1. two wrongs don't make a right and 2. Your going to bring yourself down to her level and I garuntee she will beat you with experience. You wanna-be PIG.
461970
Well, if you're willing to leave her and can manage on your own, or have someone who can help you, you can file for divorce. Only you know if the pain is worth the wife and what she offers. However, I think she's wrong to do this, and if she ever blames you, because of your condition or something, she married you like this. she knew what she was going to be going through.
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I would try something natural like aloe vera after washing with soap and water; and if she is old enough (you didn't mention age), tylenol for the pain.  Watch the site for signs of infection; reddness, pain, tenderness or drainage. Also a small ice pack wrapped in a cloth to prevent skin burn will help.  A hug always helps too.