Ladies: why do girls treat virgin men with contempt?
441626
I don't, but I know that a lot of women do.  Those of the female species who are not so in-tune with their own minds and bodies say that they want certain things in men, but on a deeper level they are not really aware of, they see things like virginity and sensitivity and respect for women in men as signs of weakness.  In short, even if they are not aware of it, many women see you as less of a man because you are still a virgin, and they are not even fully aware that this is what they are thinking.
991905
The worst thing a guy ever did when i was on a date was to talk about his previous sex lives, and threesomes-talk about making me feel like crap. i was a virgin at the time as well, and he found out and told me i should wait till i was married! i got outta there fast after that!!!
1162841
Imagine asking a thousand boys about Doing It. We'd get three sets of answers on the subject of virgins... \n\n1. The "Thank God she's a virgin" answers:\n\n- She's never felt this way about anyone else. How special am I..?\n\n- If I'm rubbish in bed, she won't know the difference. There's no comparison.\n\n- I'll always be her Number One. Like her first day at school. She'll never forget.\n\n- I'm an explorer in unchartered territory - wa-hey!\n\n2. The "Thank God she's not a virgin" answers:\n\n- I can do without being The One - it's too much pressure.\n\n- Don't virgins bleed? Doesn't it hurt first time? I don't want to do that to anyone.\n\n- If she's not a virgin, she won't care that I'm not either. \n\n- She'll know what she's doing - wa-hey!\n\nBut I'd bet large sums of money on this: The biggest set of answers (by far) would be:\n\n3. The "Chuffed to bits whichever way" answers:\n\n- You? In bed? Bring it on! \n\nWhichever way, the past is ancient history. You stick to your guns. \n\nSo judging by the artical above either way a girl is either sexy or unsexy get me?
611028
Frankly, If I were a girl (Having reached the legal age), I would have sex with the boy7man I feel I love without feeling that I have lost my dignity. Dignity is how we present ourselves before the public and before ourselves. I have seen non virgins that a lot noble and I have seen virgins that are a lot bitchy.
257203
Why do guys always think this double standard is fair? Its the same thing that causes teenage guys to say "hey I went out and got laid last night" and his buddies pat him on the back .. but when he tells all his friends who he got a piece of she is labled as easy.\n\nIts disgusting!!
99228
dude, i can relate. maybe we've known each other from childhood. i am also a ladies' man (not the playboy kind but the gentleman kind) and i've seen and been with women with mates who treat them like dirt. and somehow, i've managed to make some of them to wake up and break up (ooh, a rhyme!!!)\n\nsee, what i do is, i protect the girl in any means possible, be there for her when she need a shoulder to cry on, and probably (but never did) kick the guys sorry a**!!! women are fascinating people that should never be taken advantage of, so that's why i try my best to be the gentleman they want. consistent persuasion might work, and don't let the girl look at herself as a doormat. she should learn to get respect from her partner, coz deep down, we know we only want their happiness...\n\n=P ~^_^~
231449
Women get used to being treated like dirt. It's sad, but it's true. When I met my "great guy" it took everything in me not to toss him away because I didn't know how to react to a guy listening to me, giving me good advice, opening doors for me and offering to pick up the bill instead of "borrowing" money. I think women often get the idea that they don't deserve to be treated well. I definitely think one should be careful with the use of those three naughty words (I l#v! y@u.)  I've had to tell friends to calm down and enjoy the ride when they've freaked out because they're being treated well---I think it's the acceleration a relationship can have when things go well that can often lead to catastrophy. Most of all, if she can't take your good treatment, SHE DOESN'T DESERVE YOU. That's the downfall of good guys. The gentlemen just need to stay gentlemen and know that they are worth something. We don't need our good men going to trashy b*tc%es anyway.
788588
Well most guys avoid girls because they've been hurt or messed about in some way. They'd rather not get hurt again thankyou very much!\n\nThe guys that lead girls on and then go cold are the majority I'm sad to say, and there is no excuse for them or their behaviour.\n\nSometimes its all about being hurt before and wanting to play that game themselves. Other times the guys are just miserable sods who aren't worth the water and salt they're made of.\n\nThe minority, by that I mean we men-folk who at least try to be gentlemen sometimes get it wrong too. But at least we don't actively mess women around.\n\nI guess its all a matter to meeting the correct person for each of us.\n\nThe Iceman.
421133
You got some pretty good answers, but the best one is definitely f*** off!! Some guys have no respect!!! so you shouldn't treat them with any respect either!
363370
most girls more or less need men who make girls FEEL GOOD about themselves and protected. They need a man who cares and makes her feel like she is the most special person in the world. If you are hot, and are only out for one night stands, and treat girls like pieces of meat, they'll treat you back the same way. simple.
717298
First off, most boys are too immature to know how to treat a lady. Second...........many females don't act like a lady, so men aren't going to treat them like a princess if they are acting like trash. A real man will know how and when to treat a lady like a princess and he will also know how she wants and needs to be treated behind closed doors. \n\n@--->---
545761
We think we are not worthy of you.\n\nAt least that's how it sounded in my head.  More often people call it 'lack of confidence', or a 'fear of rejection'.  Girls don't realize how truly terrifying they are to a young guy.  But most guys get over it.  Or at least, they meet a girl who they feel comfortable enough around.  It's perfectly normal.  It even has a name.  It's called 'Natural Selection'.
196729
Simply put because they are BONEHEADS!!!!!!\nFor real though because it's in the history of men. And because they don't understand the word "comittment" which in turns makes me want to say " Screw Them All"!!!!!!!! On all real just talk to him and asked him why?\nThen in return you can come back and explain to all us females what's their problem is.
740974
she dont wanna have sex with you!!!\nand she also aint a bloody toy either!!! grr!\n-------\nfunny how you said it dont bother you, but its bothered you so much that you had to write it on here!!!\n\nand if they aint virgins, you will always get seconds thirds etc\ngrow up you silly little boy!!
62963
It's very respectable when someone saves themself.  I don't see any problem with people who have had sex, but whenever I meet someone who is a virgin it makes me respect them.
640493
Well, I dont know if you're refering to all girls in general or just the majority. I'm not offended at all. I'm 16 and proud to be a virgin. I think that these girls are just becoming more and more stupid and immature over time and guys tell them they love them and the girls are like omg he loves me let's have sex.
451686
virgin always be good. traditionally most of men want marry virginial girls. so virginia girl is the main reason maybe.