Have you ever cheated on your husband or wife?
440127
I'm doing it right now with no shame and I'm doing it because my husband is verbally and physically abusive and I love the way the new guy treats me.
231228
The question is why did you cheat?  Something has got to be missing from your marriage to make you cheat.  Yes you can still love him.  And I think you might feel a little guilt because you asked this question.  You need to fix what's wrong in your marriage.  Is is something he has done or something he is not doing?  If so, maybe you should tell him you cheated and why you did it and see if you two can fix what's wrong.  Or is it something you have to settle with yourself?  If it's nothing he has done (or not done) then don't tell him, and settle with yourself.  Good luck sweetie!
181347
Yes I have cheated but I figure it was mutual because I had also caught him cheating and he did not know so I cheated on him with another friend of mine and went home to him so he could perform oral sex on me right after sleeping with someone else an hour ego. I would say I did it out of the anger of being with him for 5 yrs. and him throwing that away in one night.
213578
Good for you! I've been going with the same guy since 1974 and we've never cheated. That's how it goes when you love someone and make a promise. They used to call it getting married.
713973
Yes its possible, my wife cheated four years ago, I do love her.  Our marriage is different, no more blind trust, and the love is not as deep as it once was.\n\nGo tohttp://www.network54.com/Index/32374\n\nand read or post your story in Open-Affair recovery support group.\n\nThis site, the links to books and other sites, the people there saved our marriage and its anonymous, free, and worthwhile.
704876
some do and some don't , most of the time I feel they do, but I have seen people that haven't cheated on their wives ever again, or else they got real good at sneaking around, I guess in time if you stay with him you will find out if he has or hasn't, its going to take alot of time for you to totally trust him again, Good luck to you
940167
i have never cheated anyone~
943812
Yes, my wife had two affairs, when I discovered the second one, she admitted to the first one.  She ask God's forgiveness and then mine.\n\nGod's was much quicker, mine has taken about four years, but I am feeling the love she has for me and I for her.  Its the trust that has been the hardest thing to rebuild.\n\nMy mantra through all of this has been..."Forgiving is not forgetting...It's remembering with your mind at peace!"\n\nI have found peace.
383914
Haha, no i haven't. My buddy lost a bet with his GF and had to wear her thong to work. He got caught lol. His older brother found out and was pissed all to hell. That was some funny sh*t though.
410878
That's a very interesting question. \nOr maybe it is my answer that is interesting.\nIn my family.......none have ever cheated...no divorces or cheating.\nFriends: I am forty three and I think I only have four friends that I know of that have been cheated on.
988463
Did you ever think maybe he was cheating on her with you and not the other way around?
766833
My husband and I did.
1186494
i had an affair with a married man for 18 years. i ended it last october.\nbest years of my life wasted.
169650
Yes I have, quiet a few times.  But I got cheated on in my last relationship.  It was a slap in the face, I had never been cheated on before.  So my karma came back around and taught me a lesson.  I will never cheat again, I can't imagine causing someone that kind of pain.
1109114
no..... but my wife married one
632878
I have been married 27 years going on 28.  Ihave never cheated ad never will since my wife is my best friend and soulmate.  It may sound old fasioned but it works for us.
625859
Yes. Three times and I married two of them. One got away. The first one I married and I didn't really realize how much I loved her until she cheated on me and we got divorced. She was a mix of things good/bad, bithc/angel, honest/liar. I never really ever figured her angle out. She lost her way. I feel bad about things went between she and I. The past is the past.\n\nThe second, I never married her or even had relations with her, but I suspect that I loved her the day I saw her walking down the street. I remember it almost like it happened yesterday, but it was almost 20 years ago. I said that I had to meet her, I met her, we went out on a date, and it never worked out like I wanted. We became very good friends but she never felt the same way about me. \n\nThe third, is my friend, my wife and the mother of my son. I love her dearly and would do anything for her.