what would you do if you found out you husband and brother in law had a sexual relationship?
448891
Is the brother in law your sister's husband or your husband's brother? This is so sick that not even the J e r r y  S p r i n g e r  S h o w  would touch. Ok maybe he would ... :-0 I can't believe you're asking our opinion on this!!! Isn't it obvious to you what you should do? If this is your sister's husband make sure to tell your sister..there are too many diseases out there. btw if you stay with this loser you will deserve all the heartache you will get! Be smart-get out now!!!
552851
I would first confront him with it and then tell her I knew about the affair just to see what she would have to say about it. Trust is an important part of a marriage so if you don't have that you need to think about what you want out of life...............
704309
HECK YEAH!\nnah i would just go up to my father & tell him to tell my mom cuz i wouldn`t wanna hide that from my mom & then if he doesn`t tell i would tell her but that would make things BAD between my father & i. but he was the one who had the affair.\nso i would : \ngive him time & if he doesn`t tell then i WOULD tell.
621506
Sharing intimacy with anyone other than your spouse is cheating. May it be physical or emotional. It's deception either way. You should leave if you are missing something at home.
792426
Reverse the situation--what would you do if you found out your husband was cheating on you with your best friend?  \nIf your answer is "I'd join in", forget I answered your question.  \nBut if your answer is something like "I'd leave him", think about the consequences if your husband ever found about your indiscretions.
421290
I have a huge crush on my husband's brother.
482923
go to him and say sorry .. what if later on he shows up the same way u did and does the same to ur wife ?
618127
For two spouses?  You sound surprised to learn that TWO people can engage in sex.  Geez, what's been going on in your life, pal?
842322
You are an adult---there is no way your family can force you to stay in the marriage.  If you were only missing sex with your wife, why not give the marriage another try, for your son's sake?  Having an affair was wrong, regardless of the reason.  You should both go to marriage counseling and see if you are willing to work on all your marital problems.  I agree that your wife was dishonest in not telling you about her sexual problems, but if she is truly ready to work on them, it may be worth a shot.  If you are so repulsed by her that you do not want to try, then you should divorce her and move on.  Your family does not live you life, so they should butt out.
80325
Did you ask your wife or husband about this?  How does he/she feel about it? what ever you think they would say is your answer.
666112
Go ahead--admit that it's your brother and it shouldn't be a problem!  Seriously, see an attorney asap and if you can't afford one go to your local legal aid! No SEX! Just get it done, but hurry, in some states there are time constraints!
134613
Tell him you are sorry and that you will never do that kind of a thing again. Never involve yourself with married people. Think about it this way. What if someone else interfered in you blissful marriage and spoilt it. Ask for her forgiveness and stay clear from such entanglements.
509458
Just the thought of money changes people. You should have a conversation with your husband and be truthful about how you feel. Make him accountable so that when you are around they feel uncomfortable about doing that in front of you. As far as cheating be patient time will tell just watch what he does not just what he says and make sure they are both in line. As far as his brother either he stops its or you may have to say something about it in front of both of them. Give him a chance to fix it first
970290
Perhaps you could confront them by letting them know that your husband is aware of what was said, and that you feel betrayed because it had been a private conversation between close friends. Let them know that you feel hurt as well, because it has as you have said, made a very tense situation even worse. \n\nIn some ways it is to be expected that these friends of yours would tell their husbands, that is their life partner. What is terribly wrong is for the husbands to turn around and not only repeat your private words and cause more problems for you, but these husbands also ratted on their own wives by telling. Goes to show you that these husbands did not even think about how their actions would afftect you or the bad position they put their ownnn  wives in. Now these women of course will have to face you with what they have done. All around not a good situation. \n\nI would be very hurt by their actions but as well, I do not think they told their husbands to be mean or to do it as gossip but to share in what you are going through and perhaps as women do... run it by someone else in order to get another's opinion.  Perhaps you could keep this in mind as you confront them. They do owe you a big apology..... as well as their husbands.  Good luck... I hope everything turns out ok for you.
79186
if u think there is even the slightest of possibility of ur husband coming to know about it from some other source .. just tell him urself!\nor else simply ignore it.. \n if he is not all that broadminded to accept it!!!
500029
Absolutely NOT! that is your brother and you should be able and comfortably joke around with him like that, His wife just has a self esteem problem. By all means your brother should not allow his wife to interfere with you and his relationship.Wife or no Wife! You WAS NOT WRONG!!!!!
615166
maybe nothing did happen...but..sitting and thinking about it  .. guys are pigs women are bitches..so go with your gut cuz wondering about it will drive you mental.. and sometimes even worse than catching them in the act.. move on.. there is a trust issue as well.. you have to ask yourself .. 4 hours??? and if you did the same what would she say??? tell the wife she should know