If u have a friend that is talking bad about you at the back, and can't say it at Ur face. Is that a friend?
435350
Someone that talks bad about you to others is not a friend! forget him and find true friends. Good luck!
372238
First of all, if a person is doing you harm behind your back , that person is NOT a friend!!\n\nPeople do vicious things to other people for various reasons.\nFind out WHY he is doing this.  Then find a compromise or common ground the both of you can agree on to stop this from happening.  By doing this you can create a win-win situation, which will improve your reputation among your peers, and prevent further damage.
288313
You don't have to be friends with her, but it's uncool to talk about someone behind their back, even if you do say it to her face. The coolest thing to do would be to either leave her alone, completely, or be extra cool and befriend her. Maybe you can help her not to be a loser.
641187
she has a bad issue and getting friends i bet? sweetie you just have to slowly slack from her, so she can get the hint, and also tell first and see how she acts by telling her how you feel about the friendship you both have. tell her that to listen to u for a moment and let her know. u seem sweet to let a friend hurt you. be sweet and don't stoop to her level.be straight foward. if he doesn't work and she bitch at you. then she is not a true friend. you can find better.
737643
well did she apologize for what she said that upset you is she trying to be your friend do she even care that u are not speaking to her people say life is to short and we should charish our friends and life is too short but is she really a fried u wanna hold on too that dont care what she says to hurt you
1047926
Yes I too have been told this at times and I too am the most down to earth person I know.\nIt is a very slight put down.\nIt is saying that you are odd, strange, out of the ordinary, different, peculiar.\nI would take it as a put down.\nI would from that point on assume that the person who said it was not really my friend and tuck it away in my mind.\n\nAlways listen to your feelings.\nThe fact that you asked that here means that you are bothered by it. And if you are bothered by it, it means that your inner voice is telling you that this person insulted you. The inner voice will never lie to you. Always trust your feelings. If it feels wrong, it IS wrong.
139754
I know who ur friend is? Isn't the one who comes in front of u when u stand before a mirror....lol :-)\nGuys u must acknowledge other's remarks If u find them funny or educative....bye
40240
friends r ok to have them tell this person,but then it makes you look like ur afraid to talk to that person u dont want that do you\nlet the person see and know how much u like them\nflirt with them a lil bit and most of all TALK!!!
880170
it doesnt sound like #3 is a very good friend i would not want a friend like that #3 sounds like a back stabber and two faced people like that do nothing but cause trouble stop hanging with #3 and save your self before things get worse
487971
actually, it depends. usually i do and i'll tell them that they r dresd funi. i wouldnt want my frends to be embaresed , or embaress me.
98815
if you are sure that they talked behined your back then they are not true frinds i think that you should find other real friends
493682
Maybe it is just a misunderstanding.  You need to approach your friend and make the overtures.  Ask him/her if there is anything wrong and tell them that you have been concerned that you may have upset them and if so that you would like to make amends.  It might not even be you, or it might be something that someone has said about you.  Only by approaching your friend can you get to the bottom of it.
192910
Well some peolpe are and dont know it, If she is a good friend then take a step back and look at yourself, like when you make a comment on someone or someones clothes and such, example: I seen that shirt at Walmart, no way would I where that.
89685
I would tell him that he hurt me whether he was joking or not and if he apologizes, accept it. People say a lot of things they don't mean when they're mad. If he is truly your friend, he'll apologize, if he doesn't then I'd say, "Ya know what? When you decide to apologize, I'll listen, until then, I would rather not be around you."
508792
well, if she's so mean to you, she doesnt really sound like your friend
1067009
You can't tell people something they are not ready to hear. You are probably right and she probably knows it on some level. When dealing with friends you are always taking a chance when bringing up an issue like that, that you will upset them. You did it, now give her time to calm down, then let her know you only want the best for her because you care about her but your friendship is important to you so you won't bring it up again if she doesn't want you to.
1007158
i think that if your "friend" did this, she is not really a friend at all. A friend is someone that you can count on through thick and thin, through any situation that you may be going through. A "true friend" will always be there when he/she is needed. He/she will never turn their back on you.