how can i pretend if i'm hurting?
454751
U want to pretend its not hurting u? Smiling when peoples are around? Talking like they are not hurting u in some ways? Well, thats kinda hard thing.. I always do that when I don't want them to think that I am week, I am not good enough in some situations, that I am no longer on standing on my feet...\n\nits difficult.. but u can smile to them, talk and act naturally like ordinary day.. no hurt.. no pain.. just hold ur anger.. the pain.. the hurt.. take deep breath while doing that... think ur smart, ur stronger than u know, ur free, its not hurting u, its okay.. everyhting is fine.. think about that..\n\nafter that u will feel "yes, I did it" but after a while.. u will feel empty.. sad.. lonely.. \n\nwhat i am trying to tell u is.. be urself... express what u feel.. think good.. always do the right thing..\n\ngood luck!
1028307
Take her to the park or a quiet serene place and say: \n\nI'm sorry I hurt you - it has been on my mind since I did.  Please accept my deepest apology. I will never deliberately hurt you again.  Tell me how can I make it up to you?'.  \n\nSay this with all the sincerity you can muster and she would reconsider.
1035907
Tell her the truth... It will hurt but it is better than being fooled...
701494
Tell her that you feel both of you said harsh things to each other, that you are hurting and imagine that she is too.  Apologize for hurting her and see what she says.
689512
sit them down and be honest make sure you are alone and use a sincere tone just look them in the eyes and tell them you cant help hurting them because everything has its own consequences. The more you think or plan something the worse consequence would happen. look out for yourself but just be soft and considerate to that persons reactions and then make any further moves.
1048328
Stop doing whatever it is that is making them hurt.  Get up and walk.  If all else fails take some tylenol and call a doctor.
1097728
Act the way you did before unless u did somethin really hurtful
377823
You can go to a doc.  and have it either frozen off or burned off.  In either case, that will hurt like hell at first, be uncomforatable for awhile, then feel better later.
937315
Its only one of 2 things at that point.....either they  care about you or they are trying to torture you.  Personally I would not answer because if you were the one who got hurt, then you are opening up old wounds.   live in the present and forget the past.
804473
If hiding the truth does not physically or emotionally hurt a person than it is sort of alright to disguise the truth. Outright lying is never a good solution. It always creates more pain than it prevents.\n\nThe only reason to hide the truth is to reduce pain. The best way to handle that is to disguise the truth. That way you have not so much lied, as made the truth sound a bit more gentle.\n\nTake care,\nTroy
859679
Hi!..excuse me...are you new around?or if you touch her..Pls excuse me:did I hurt you? try not to be tensed.Be yourself..and words will come naturaly from your own soul.
528748
Well there are several kinds of "hurts"\nphysical\nemotional\nmental\n\nWhen it comes to physical there are a ton of possible ways to torter people. I would probaly try to give some one an upper spinal injury. That can cause a constant pain without killing.\n\nWhen it comes to emotional you can tell some one that you love them then tell them you don't then you can always tell them lies, like that there bf or gf is cheating on them\n\nwhen it comes to mental all you have to do is make sure that they are in a constant state of fear. \n\nthis is what i would do......\nnot that i would.......\nunless some one was cheating on me..........&#92;\nand in that case i would do all of the above and kick him in the nuts\nthen i would cut his you know what off when he is sleeping,\nthen i would kill him
1148519
go to school.  its good for you.\nmoms always know when you're faking.
193640
If you really mean it.. let your emotion go in a personal one on one conversation and cry. \n\nAllow your heart to let your eyes weep and feel the remorse in your soul so you will never make that mistake again by remembering the pain it brought you and the person you are sorry to.
722458
Ignore them, and act like you love them, even if you don't and just remember that you're there for a paycheck for yourself and your family. And remember to smile, even if it hurts!
759583
Cry as much as you need too. Reach out to others. Believe you aren't going to die from a broken heart and when you are ready keep your heart open to receiving lots of love and good wishes from others.
983203
life is short...play hard.  U will get hurt someday and u will get over it.