Why can't we be sexually attracted to in-animate objects?
437557
I think maybe if society brought us up to be physically attracted to chocolate, we would be. Or maybe it's just in our nature to be aroused by our own species, because in the end, that is what gives us life?
245250
maybe it's just touchable! sometimes when we se something we like, we can't help but reach out and touch it! ;)
648537
I see that the majority of you, not all, prefer inanimate objects.  Is this for the fact the you cannot get the real deal?  Or are you not sexual enough to have the real deal satisfy you? \n\nYeah, a sex machine is so up close and personal.  HA.  What a lonely life you lead.
248910
dude your a human being, and your biologically wired to be aroused when you see a member of the opposite sex. So why wouldn't you be aroused when you see them actually performing sex? your human nature is in conflict with your morality. we all go through that. Its a good thing really, otherwise we'd just fuck and eat everything with out thought of the consequences.
284899
dont think of a person as male or female...look inside and you will see the real person, We as humans, are attracted to people for many different reasons and in many different ways.Sometimes the person we are attracted to are of the same sex...JUST BE HAPPY!
575385
In the logic of evolution theory, heterosexual intercourse is likely to be an innate drive, otherwise our species would be bound to disappear. This for the physical part of it.\nNow in the domain of mental perceptions of sexuality, there's a greater part of acquired things rahter than innate ones.\nBut your question actually contains a paradox, as you state about the internet growth (more generally the spreading of information because TV, advertisement, magazines also contribute to make us more, err..., kinky). We are actually being TAUGHT to become more kinky, striving for various alternatives to the classical hetero one to one.
1079802
The human response of love and of attraction is partly based on a persons appearance and health.  Most of what is considered attractive or beautiful is also biologically an advantage.\n\nCheck out this page for more:\nhttp://www.healthandage.com/default.cfm?curr_navi=02&curr_content=02&spr=en&framedef=1&curr_paramlist=healthandage;2617;2;haa_online_from;2;1;3;-;dsp_tooldetail
1112105
Yes, i believe you can crush on someone and not be attracted to them sexually. It's all in how you feel towards a person. I've crushed on a guy before but never wanted him in a sexual way. It really does depend on your feelings towards the person.
377022
Only if you're looking for it. Everything in life has a sexual element if that is what you're looking for. It is a sensual world and we are sensual beings living in a culture of mixed messages - personal sexual repression and cultural sexual promiscuity. That's bound to cause problems including breeding urban myths such as this one you've mentioned. The only thing I've ever found hidden in the current crop of Disney entertainment madness is their greed.
478898
OOOOO i learned this in my human sexuality class.... you insert fingers(object) 1/3 of the entrance and go up ... and you should have WONDERS!!!!!!!!
310052
there sort of are.  hormones are released during puberty, and they start your "sexual awakening".  you become more nterested in romance and sex, and begin getting ready for the reproductive process (ejaculating for guys, menstruating for girls). if you are a guy, you may have wet dreams.  That is normal.  But attraction is just based on your sexual orientation, age, and preferences.  being attracted to someone in particular is all in your mind, not your hormones.  Im not quite sure that last part was accurate, but the first i know was.
135352
It's possible, just most people don't have the mental capacity for it. If you don't have the mental capacity for it, you're going to think it's not possible. A good friend of mine has two girlfriends he loves beyond physical/sexual attraction, and they know and hang out with each other.
374039
It is a good question but I don't think there are any hard and proved answers.  There is a grid called the "Klein Sexual Orientation Grid"  Alfred Kinsey along with a few others don't think that sexual orientations are eternally fixed.\n\nI am in somewhat a similar situation.  I was mad about girls just girl crazy as a teen etc.  I have also been interested in certain aspects of males too.  My interest is more than it was before in males.  Thinking more about males has not been my choice it just happens. I don't think that sexual orientation is in anyway a choice.  I think it has something to do with perhaps chemical changes in the brain.\n\nGo with the flow and accept yourself for who you are now.  Can you regain your attraction to women if you nurture it? I really really doubt it (it is not a choice). I wonder the same thing for myself too. \n\nIt may have something to do with androgen's or the Hypothalamus in the brain.\n\nI have included a helpful Wikpedia link about Biology and sexual orientation.  Have a look under Studies of brain structure.
999140
you are attracted by both sexes
51820
The idea of pleasure in non-human form is hard to grasp and the answer impossible to know.  However, it seems likely that every species is driven to procreate not out of an abstract idea that it is good for the species, but because the act feels good.
561909
Well, because you don't.  Neither males NOR females can experience orgasm with direct contact with the sexual organs.  Now, of course, if you are standing there diddling yourself in public (how classy) that is a different situation, but you don't have orgasms from just standing motionless or simply because you're looking at a cute guy.  Try selling that story to someone who is a bigger fool than me.
515450
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.  I cannot date someone I'm not attracted to.  But I might be attracted to someone someone else finds ugly.