men- would you rather do it to a virgin or a non-virgin?
453639
What an adolescent question, there is an obvious ethical choice here, I prefer to do it (assuming ‘it’ is a subliminal reference to what Dr Freud based his practice on regarding what we think about most often…and not something for sale on ebay or some other site) with whom I am attracted to….  Their experience is not something that would matter in the decision.
584950
The only difference between virgins and non-virgins is the choice to have sex or not.  Virgins aren't any better than non-virgins, they have just chosen to go down a completely different path.  You can be a virgin and be just as screwed up as a non-virgin or worse.  But then again who cares, God gives us all a choice and no one can judge us based on what we decide.
21831
Um, well most of the time the standard my friends tell me is around 4 or 5.\nMost of my Asian friends want virgins. \nAnd I prefer my man virgin, which, he happens to be.\n\nWhy does it matter more how many men a woman sleep with rather than vice versa?
1075463
non virgin but act like a virgin ..
1103196
I would say it depends on if the man is a virgin himself, if so I think it is ok, because then the couple would be sharing the same morals. But if the man is not a virgin then I think it is wrong for him to want someting from the woman that he himself could not or would not do, hypocritical to me. Also, if you fall in love with someone who happens to have had sex already then I think it would be dumb not to marry her solely for this reason, it's not like it's something she can take back, and should not be denied love by you because of something that happened in her past.
638613
I think it depends on the guy. If that is what his morals and values are... then yes... he would respect a virgin more than someone who is not. But, not everyone has those beliefs. Personally... I would rather try the milk before buying the cow, and I'm a woman. I haven't experienced any disrespect because I am not a virgin. I feel that as long as you are not screwing any and every one... and that you are actually being selective in who you give your body to. That is what gains respect.
1008099
You should not be ashamed of being a virgin.  If you choose to be, then no one else has a right to put you down for it.  You are making the best decision in saving yourself for the right person.  You may of had chances back then, but you realize that maybe you aren't ready.  People should respect that.  If that is your choice, then don't be ashamed.  Be proud!
457236
There simply are no differences physically whatsoever.  Nothing changes, nothing can be observed.  The only way is to ask a guy and trust that he will be truthful and honest.  Be careful though.  We need not answer a question if the person asking has no need to know or right to know.\n\nThere are a number of questions with the word virgin and what it truly means.  It seems to mean different things to different people, especially today.
682179
Not if the man is a virgin too.
851227
I'm sure it's different for all women or girls. I lost my virginity at 18, after planning on waiting until marriage. I felt i  was ready though and that i would be treated right by the man i was with. He was very gentle and, although it was painful, especially at the beginning (i asked him to stop for a minute becuase it hurt, so he stopped, layed beside me, and petted my hair-i know, sappy isn't it?-and only continued when i assured him i was ready) and i ended up enjoying it quite a bit. I'm sure it also depends on the size of the penis and the woman. Being patient, gentle, and concerned with ONLY the woman can make a world of difference :]
945852
You can certainly be a virgin and still have desires. It's your hormones and soo natural to want sex. Obviously though, you've kept your virginity for a reason. Stand by that. There are other ways to satisfy that urge without losing your virginity.
462008
Abstinence is the way to go.  There can never be any physical, emotional, or spiritual regrets when abstinence is the choice.  Sex is a wonderful and serious form of bonding between a man and a woman, and something this important can wait until marriage.  \nThere are plenty of men out there who would try to persuade you to give up your virginity to them, but it is only for selfish reasons.  Any man worthy of your affections will respect your decision and admire you for it.\nHang in there, it will be worth it.
611028
Frankly, If I were a girl (Having reached the legal age), I would have sex with the boy7man I feel I love without feeling that I have lost my dignity. Dignity is how we present ourselves before the public and before ourselves. I have seen non virgins that a lot noble and I have seen virgins that are a lot bitchy.
100977
No, I don't.\nI will wait till married.\n\nThey who think as your question, I think it's just sex for pleasure. They don't think about marry at the moment, even about love ( if they really love each other, they would thinking about marry).\n\nMy opinion, virgin will marry with virgin, and not virgin with not virgin.
62963
It's very respectable when someone saves themself.  I don't see any problem with people who have had sex, but whenever I meet someone who is a virgin it makes me respect them.
355806
i don't believe you would still be a virgin, but that should not mean it is any less special when you chose someone to share your first consensual experience with. you are still pure and being victimized does not take that away. you define yourself any way you wish and make sure any potential partner respects that.
176350
She is still a virgin.  Playing with oneself does not equate non-virginity.