im 18 and have had only 1 boyfriend is that bad?
439760
No, that's lucky. In your 18 years not many bfs have made you cry, isn't that awesome? :)
1171112
no,don't rush yourself into a relationship,k?just wait and it will come..sure,everyone else has a bf/gf but think of all the STDS they are probably getting..keep yourself safe and don't worry about others..your not a looser.u seem to be a lady who respects herself
137955
Guess what! You don't need experience to have a boyfriend. \nIt's the same as having friends but just that it is a boy and you get a little closer. Thats all.And you have feeling inside you that you didn't with just friends. Does that make since? Just let it happen and you'll be fine.
720411
Nothing wrong with that at all. People start dating at all different kinds of times. You shouldn't just wnat a boyfriend for the sake of having one, you should wnat to be with someone you love and loves you in return. Not everybody ahs a boyfriend, and there is no rush to get one if you aren't quite ready. Just do what feels right. Good luck! :]
525232
Alright. Here's the thing I never had a boyfriend until my sophomoreyear of COLLEGE! No, I was not a loser. Quite the opposite actually (I was named Ms. THS at my school) Yes, I did go out on dates, but my first date was homecoming at my highschool and that is still a year away for you! You shouldn't define yourself by wether or not you have a boyfriend. Yes, having a boyfriend is nice but give it some time. Right now I have the worlds most amazing boyfriend. He is literally a genius (by IQ), he tells me I'm beautiful everyday, he makes me laugh, and he's really cuddly. I'm not worlds most awesome looking girl (see my 360 page), but he thinks I'm beautiful. There is a guy out there for you! He'll think you are beautiful too. FIRST find what you love about yourself and when you accentuate that (physical or inner) others will see it too. Peace and Love and Good Luck!
848852
There really isn't a point. I personally had my first boyfriend in the ninth grade and I still wasn't ready! You're just too young at that point. I hated being chained to one person. The girls that switch from one boyfriend to another are just looking for attention. They aren't secure enough in themselves so they find a guy that they think could make them feel better about themselves but it only leaves them emptier.
529864
Well, I'm 31f. I have 2 kids, I got pregnate a month after I graduated H.S....I devoted all of my high school years to being obscessed about boys.  I look back at it now, and wow, was I stupid.  I prefer to be single now, only I'm stuck with my daugther's dad.  Of course this is worst case scenario, lol. Anyways, enjoy high school being single, go to some parties with friends, and live it up. Enjoy your teenage life..cause the real world is not far away.  Besides, once you get a boyfriend, they want all of your time,and you don't get to spend as much time with your friends. Enjoy your friends while you have them. Everyone goes their separate ways after school, I only keep in touch with a couple of my friends. There will always be boys, easy come, easy go....
66587
If you KNOW that you don't need to be with these guys, then when you meet them you need to not let it go any farther.  I know it is hard when you are attracted to them, but in the long run it is better to not put yourself through the same thing over and over again.  I know it is hard being single for a long time, I'm in the same boat, but in the end it is better than getting your heart broken over and over again by guys that you know are going to do it.  Just hang out with your single friends, enjoy being 18 and having fun, and the right person will come along eventually (going out with nothing but couples will end up making you feel worse and like a huge third wheel, trust me on that one).  Good luck, let me know how things go, and email me if you have any more problems, greeneyeddevl@yahoo.com.
431957
theres nothing wrong with you i was 16 when i had my first boyfriend
514465
im 16 and there is nothing wrong with not having a boyfriend now...you should wait to go out with a guy that you really like and not just some loser who doesn't care about you!!!
1100410
sweetheart, you sound like your 25 and going through a mid-life crisis...Don't "look" for any of that, just let it happen.  I know at your age <<under 16 right>> you may feel ready for a relationship, but your much better off with a guy friend than a boyfriend.  Think about the important things like school, friends, parties, fashion....Trust me, boys are trouble....Don't end up with someone and get pregnant at an early age, there is more to life than that....Look for that care and love from your family, you'll be better off.....If your reading this and thinking that you've heard this all before its because its true.....trust me i would know...
6711
No, it isn't weird at all to be single at age 16. It just means that you are taking things slowly and that you will probably have a better boyfriend later on.
858909
neither. There are more than 2 guys in the entire world. Wait until you're 24-25 years old to think about finding a steady boyfriend.
729474
i didn't get my first kiss or first relationship til i was 24. it was a long wait and i know it can be frustrating.. but try not to let it bother you..  there's not much you can do other than live your life and try to keep a possitive attitude..  feel free to click on my profile and send me a message if you'd like to talk further..
400249
There's nothing wrong with not having a boyfriend at the age of 26.  Heck i'm 20 and i don't have one, you can live without one but if you want one what are you doing about it?  You need to go out and actually find one, he's not going to all of a sudden appear out of no where and romance you.  Go out with a bunch of girlfriends to public places like clubs, or sporting events or whatever and look for single guys don't all just stand around in a pack though, it's going to be intimadating for a guy to approach a group of girls ;)
870483
Ok, I wont say you're too young to have a boyfriend, I am going to say you're too young to have A boyfriend... You're still so young, go out and have fun..  date around first. Don't try to get serious so young.. You'll end up heartbroken, married, and with child like me... Anyway, just live life, don't worry about some boy. Besides, it sounds like he wants to do that same thing... explore! It's only natural. Don't know what you're missing till you get it.
743245
NO! I am 12 and I have a boyfriend. Infact, my first boyfriend was when I was 8. So, GO FOR IT! :)