How can I get my husband to notice me again?
442144
Get some lingerie nice dinner and do something exotic to him bet you that will help out!!!
469598
My best advice to you is to tell him how you feel. I told my best friend that and we have now been married for 2 years. If they dont feel the same, you can still be friends, you telling them might just get them to look at you in a different way. Good luck.
460211
Try to get another thing to forger about him. Some hobby or something, love is one thing, but work is another. Do something in the house and you will see that you will be able to forget about him going to work and when he return you'll be overjoyed.
920648
umm if you want a mans attention try buying him something sweet and from the heart.  that might get his attention, i know that has worked on me before.  try writing a short but sweet note in class or something.  try suprising him at his house when you know he is home with no one else.  dont try to make him jealous cause they may cause some tension...hope that helps
1022684
My husband and I tried this but it didn't work...maybe it will for you guys. \nWhen we decided to have the "competition" we wrote down a list of things we would like the other to do...(IE It can be sexual or maybe some home improvements you have wanted and he hasn't done...dates whatever you want) Put each item into a box or hat of your own. \nNow...each week keep track of your weight and at the end whoever lost the most got to reach in and pick something from their hat/box of which then the "loser" had to do what the "winner" wanted. \n\nOurs didn't work because all hubby wanted was sexual things while I chose to go the house hold chore route(Wanting him to do dishes...laundry and such) He didn't like that and got upset since he only won once for the month that we did it and refused to do my things..\n\nGood luck...hope it works better for you guys than it did us!
390337
walk up to him and talk to him first say hello and ask him anything that may be on your mind then you'll probably exchange numbers and heill probably cal you about 3 days later :)that is how i met my husband 2 years ago
925555
Trust that he had something more important to do than email you at that current time.  If he treats you great like you said give him some slack and not fret over a missed email he diserves more credit than that.   Maybe if you try treating him like a prince he'll notice you pay attention to his kind efforts and will do more for you.  He sounds like a good guy, little things shouldn't erase the big ones hope i helped good luck :-)
912839
Hopefully your husband wants your help and isn't putting out signals to attract this type of attention.  That's another whole problem altogether.\n\nBut what I would do if this is just some ordinary floozy putting the moves on your guy--and I've seen this done very well--is to go up to them and join the conversation with the attitude conveying complete confidence that you are welcome in the conversation.  HE will welcome you, right, even if she won't?  Maybe put your arm around your husband.  If he becomes standoffish, again, that's a problem; he needs to welcome you into the conversation.\n\nThen be sweet as pie to her.  Ask her about herself.  Take an interest.  Never betray that you are anything but completely assured of your wonderful relationship with your husband.  Ideally, bore her with prattle until she leaves on her own (getting her to excuse herself from you two is the best way, it's a much stronger position than walking away).  It doesn't matter if she's interested in you, believe me, in fact, use the fact that she isn't!  Then stay nearby your husband in case she comes back.  If you can't bore her to death, you and hubby will have to excuse yourself from her company and move on.  \n\nIf she gets too pushy or nasty to you personally, say something very pointed in a very nice tone (like "peddle your wares to someone who's interested, honey").  But never, NEVER get bitchy.  It's beneath you.
359950
There are other occupations where spouses are seperated for long periods of time and alot of those survive. Tell him that you think the marriage is starting to drift because he isn't around much anymore. Ask him to prehaps take sometime off and possibily cut down hours (if it would allow him to see you). Also another soultion would be to move in with him.
1018598
You know what? I don't think it is fair what some of the others have said..i think it is entirely possible to lose abit of that...and what you need to do is relive a lot of the past...remember a lot fo the romantic things you did for him and sneak those things back in to your repetoire...by that I mean...I sent my wife an Easter card when she went back to see her family in South America and she loved it..my wife and I started off by writing and emailing and while we've known each other for 11 years we've been married for 7.  I always try to do things, read old letters, look at pictures and read diaries of things we did together and I try to do them again...go to fine restaurants (tough with a child) but we do what we can.  I haven't fallen out of love with my wife but I think that it is necessary for you to start dating your husband on a weekly basis so that it doesn't happen again-FLIRT WITH HIM-go park..hehe whatever.....life is a long journey..sometimes it seems as though your priorities with children and work that sometimes you may lose the spark a bit..just light the pilot light again and do what you can to get his attention and it doesn't have to go back to the bed-especially if you are trying to see where his feelings lie with you...(no pun intended)...yeah that will get his attention in the short run..as it will in most men...BUT....it won't stand for the long run...so there has to be more.  maybe play hard to get a little..make him feel as though he has to give chase a bit...don't play the game too long...but...entice him..take him out for ice cream or even to a ball game EVEN if you HATE baseball or football...or a concert if he doesn't care for sports...\namusement park..you get the idea...do things that he LOVES to do that you would normally not care so much for because you CARE about doing stuff he is interested in...it is just an idea...surprise him...
20313
Don't bother dating, just renew the marriage & MAKE IT WORK!  You can do it...it is hard...but you can do it!  Then you won't have to worry about the label, you'll be Husband & Wife again!
621785
You need to channel your feelings into appreciating your husband a little more instead of his past escapade.  What are the things that your husband has done for you to show how much he loves you?  Think of those things instead..\n\nIf he really loves you and is truly sorry for what he did he won't do it again.  I've known a lot of people who has done it once and never again.\n\nIt is not even worthy to reveal it to him, he will only feel hurt that you still have not forgotten about that..it will make him feel inadequate.  Everybody deserves a SECOND chance, how much more your own husband??
144328
I have NO idea. My first boyfriend, with whom I did NOT get intimate with and whom I dumped, still insists on trying to talk to me even though I ignore him all the time. He even tries sending me messages with other people which, of course, I just ignore. I have no idea what I did to make him not forget me. It has been almost 4 years.. he has GOT to get over it, it's pretty annoying. Especially now that I am married and expecting a baby who is due in a week or so.
784842
Try some homemade gift.  A "ticket" book you've made with coupons for back messages' future night's out, sex, homemade food (his favorites), a chore you'll do instead of him,etc.  \nI did that, he presented the coupon occasionally and I followed through...it was fun!
710655
Stop reminding him.  Tell him once and for all that you are tired of this and let it be that.  If there is something that he knows he needs to do and then he doesnt do it..........let him reap the consequences.  Sooner or later he will take responsibility.  Good luck
692936
This is a seemingly growing problem. Years ago people were together more. Now it seems we barely get time to say hi and bye. Life has changed the dynamics of relationships these days. However, it doesn't mean it's impossible to reconnect on an intimate level with your hubby.\n    You asked can you fall out of love with your hubby after 5 years? And the answer is a simple, Yes. Can you also reconnect and fall back in love? Again a simple YES! \n  The first step was the realization that there is a problem. The next step and maybe the hardest step is to change the way things are. In order to make changes, (and I know I have said this before, but I think it's worth saying again) You have to do the exact opposite of what you are doing now. Which means stop doing what you are currently doing, it's not working! You mentioned you had no "us" time, and that is what I would start with first. MAKE COUPLE TIME! Put your child to bed and sit down and watch a movie together. Try to go to bed together and if nothing else, just cuddle. Talk about your day, and how you can make tomorrow better. You each need to talk about your dreams, goals, and what you want for the future. You each will have separate goals, but you will also need goals as a couple. \nI would also recommend counseling. You can use your pastor, (if you have one) A close family friend with whom you trust and can be neutral, or a professional counselor.\nOther things that you might want to try is a "date" night for you and hubby. Get a babysitter (one you trust) and go away for the weekend once every 3-6 months. Spend quality time together as a couple. it doesn't have to cost a fortune. All you need is a desire to want things to change and a creative mind. I wish you all of the best!
827204
Get him a cd that will remind him of you.  You could create a cd with  songs that are special for both of you.  My hubbie and I have one and it is awesome..