When will women grow up and start appreciating the good guys?
445501
I am afraid that it is a two way road on that one. A lot of woman dont appreciate the good guys and a lot of men don't appreciate the good women I have had guys tell me how good and sweet I am and this and that and then they drop me like a hotcake. \n\nI see that problem with women and I wonder why the heck they dropped the guy like they did. \n\nI think everyone needs to grow up and appreciate what is good. Honestly. \n\nI know that there are lots of good guys out there and there are lots of good girls, it's just a matter of them meeting one another.
1023875
i used to like the bad boy guy but not anymore. the nice guys are starting to look really good...
1185101
they only do that while they are young..but once they hit about 30 and they have had their hearts ripped out by some hot looking chic..all of a sudden they realize its not about looks anymore..its about whats on the inside..older men are more grounded unless they got married young or something and their wife got old and fat and then they hit 40 then all of a sudden they cheat on their wife with a 20 yr old...men are all very complicated...study psychology,it will help u understand the basics of human nature and why we do what we do...we are all trying to compensate for what we feel is an emptiness..whether its sex,religion,food,cars,clothes or whatever...basically it boils down to we are more intelligent now and have more time on our hands and we dont have to hunt and gather anymore and run from wild animals while wearing furs or skins of animals...weve evolved and do not know how to handle all the glamour of it....but a good psychology book will help out on the boy situation...
1128928
Nice guys will get laid when the females realizes how much the other guys are bad people. They will then want to hang out with the Nice Guy. It is only a matter of time till they get laid.\n\nComplex formulas could probably predict it, but I'm not in possession of such formulas, or else I'd be selling it.
251982
Because they are not ready to settle down; they still whant adventure so they look for the "bad guys" to have fun. When they get older and they are ready to settle down, they look for a good guy.Same thing happens with us men.
586670
It is hard in the world to find a good woman and if you have one hang on to her. Women can be foolish at times and have their bad days but so what we do also. That young stuff doesn't really want you. What they want is the quest of seeing if they can get you.............
132981
I find it truly interesting that all the anwers above are from women. I agree with their answer myself, but alas I know that beauty would probably win out. At least in the case of youth. With age, hopefully, comes some level of wisdom so I , as I grow older and leave my raging hormones behind, can now look at a women as a person an not just a peice of ass. My hope is the day will come when women are not objectified and served up to hormone crazed young men like so much raw meat; but alas, this is not that day.
40562
If you are a responsible, strong and good hearted woman, you will find a man that will be attracted to your good heart. Just remember the girl in you that believed in love, so that you can recognize when this man come to your life. \n\nWhat happened to that girl? Maybe she dreamed of that ideal man she'd one day give her heart to, and she knew at that moment she dreamt of him, she had already fallen in love. And each day, each moment of her life, she carried that love with her in her heart, waiting for the day when it could be released; released and given to the one who was worthy. What would it be like to realise that after all the sorrow and tears... that person had come along?\n\nBut you need to keep a good attitude so that you are aware when this man is in front of you.
181898
Pathology, childhood trauma like molestation can even cause many victims to unknowingly become attracted to people with some attributes reminiscent of their molesters... that and many women can't admit the truth that they can be shallow and can't resist their urge to go for a seemingly more primitive male than one with "good guy" qualities... they want the keg-stander with no goals in life at first but then they try to change ape-boy and they get all butt-hurt and turn around and cry about how they want a good guy and men are pigs when studies have shown women USUALLY bring the jerks upon themselves\nTrippy huh?
242259
Good Question!!! Well It wont make much differance if women becomes political leaders or come in power....bcoz greeed, jealosy, ego prob- these things are both in men n women. We can get a better world only when ppl stop being selfish.
701115
Well what happens it, us woman like the bad guy early on in life.  We think we can change them and some of us even have fun trying.  As we get older, and more mature, we realize that what we want is a guy we dont have to change.  One that already has all the qualities we want and one that is honest and caring.  One that makes us feel secure.\n\nMost woman who are ready to settle down look for the NICE GUY!
1155235
They lust after a bad boy until they become a woman. Then they look for a good man. Hold on kid your bad girl is out there for you.
338539
a true gentleman will still be a true gentleman then. \n\nJust single moms who work the same job and do as well or better then men want the same pay, that is all!!! It is the single moms that are raising most of the kids. If the men are true gentlemen they would do what is right. I do realize some do, but many do not!!!\n\nMen have the upper hand some now. I see that changing soon.
528385
Old fashioned values are great and I would love to see them continue on.  But, there is such a fine line anymore.  Some women seem to want to get away from those values some and take charge more.  I think that is great too.  I think it all boils down to getting to go out with the person that you like.
320777
Women are attracted to your bad boy style till after marriage.  Then they want you to quit being immature.
263928
That's interesting!  What is a good woman?  I'm a life-long psychologist without will to serve other patients since I'm not yet done with serving myself.  I'm some kind of data hop/pig/greedy for it!  Knowing a thing just get my mind into euphoric excitement.  like WOW!  I DONE LEARNED ABOUT A NEW MENTAL ASPECT OF SOMETHING SIGNIFICANT!  I think, I search my mind's places and look into the tiniest boxes and what do I garner on the aspect of a 'good male,' and I'm a male too, one and all, there is no good male.  So yes, hop back to it, what is a good woman?  PLEASE TELL ME!
535770
immaturity. because the women who like the bad boys are immature. the bad boys seem to have a lot of confidence and that definitely helps, too. i don't like the bad boys anymore. i think i'm growing up!!!