a guy called me 6 times in 2 days and left 4 messages on his phone in 2 weeks after are date is that bad?
454147
He sounds a little scary to me. You definately should not call him, he sounds like the type of guy who will turn out to be a stalker.\nIt's much better to be with a man who will give you some space and not leave 4 messages in two days. If you didn't call him back after the first message he should not have called you again.\nFor your own sanity and safety, find a man who isn't so desperate. At some point, this behavior he has shown will drive you crazy if you pursue this relationship.\nGood luck.
320367
When you go out with a guy or give him your phone number....the "rule" is...he shouldn't/won't call you for 3 days.  I guess this is to avoid looking desperate.\n\nThere is also the "3 date rule" which is:  the guy expects to get laid on the 3rd date/the girl shouldn't give it up until the 3rd date.\n\nPretty dumb if you ask me.
852017
I can't speak for that guy, but going from seeing you several times to stopping the calling and bailing on dates is a prime indicator that he has either gotten what he wanted out of the relationship and is done, or he is focusing his attentions towards someone else...\n\nMy recommendation would be to forget about him and move on.  I promise the next time he calls you will be to hook up for one night...\n\nSorry, but that's how most guys are...
160235
There is nothing wrong with it, what makes it bad are immature men who are really boys, that like to talk crap and degrade women so the sterotypical thing to do is wait but you can tell on the date if he is a genuine good guy and if the chenistry is there then go for it.
440654
Maybe he just doesn't like to talk on the phone.  Maybe your idea of "as much" is too much for him.  It doesn't mean he doesn't like you or is trying to seduce you, while that may be the case you have to see it from his point of view.
966378
it depends on the guy but usually it freaks them out so i wouldn't call to many times atleast not in row anyway...you must really like this person ...but no matter how bad you do want to call him and stuff don't call to much you don't want to mess it up by freaking him out b/c you called to much
1006846
Doesn't sound good.  I would not want to marry a man that didn't accept my phone calls 24/7  especially when I have his 16 month old, and anything could be wrong.    Sounds like he is spending time with someone, especially since he wants his weekends free.\n\nNo man like that is worth your time, get out or get answers before you even think about marring him.
232015
AS a guy, i would say you should call him every one hour on his cellphone one day. Call him atleast 5 times in one hour, 3 times the next and 1 time every hour till 10pm. Make him feel that you want to meet him, but dont meet him, keep calling him on the phone. You dont have to talk for too long, but strike up a conversation. it can be about the weather, a sports game he likes, or your friends, or his work/classes. \nAfter this, day 2, you should call him again once every two hours. Then, talk about something intimate. Like your family or something personal to you. Dont expect him to talk too much. He will say only a little.\nDay 3, you should try to say, 'i like you' in a different way other than words. One way would be to send him a flower and something else he likes. If he likes football, send him the latest scores. If he likes cars, send him a car magazine. Send it to him  or give it in person.\nDay 4, meet with him and ask him out on a date. It might be strange, but if you LOVE him, you should as him on a date. He should pay the biils still, but its like you pay half the bills. Take personally on the date. and try not to be too obivious.\nDay 5....continue this with your own efforts. You should use your own heart to guide what to do next.
939950
Maybe he is really busy with something...wait a bit more...it has only been 6 days since you last talked...and you don't talk everyday...so maybe he is just a little busy....
567269
Hi There...\nUs gals seem to have much less patience then the guys do as far as relationships go. We want to know NOW if this is a "real" thing or not. The guy, on the other hand, may think you are the cats pajamas but doesn't have the same brain chemistry as we do so he doesn't think to call. But you need to know...MEN are NOT mind readers. You need to have a conversation with this guy. If he really loves you and wants more with you he will say so (hopefully) if not then you can move on now instead of wasting more time wondering and waiting by the phone. TALK TO HIM! Good Luck.
956144
Sure sounds like stalker material to me.  Just stop seeing him/returning his calls and eventually he lose interest.
1125919
Maybe he was just being sarcastic or funny? Or he thought you'd be flattered?\n\nI'm a guy and I'll tell you: either A) He didn't mean it or B) He lost his phone with your number and the text message was never received (this didn't happen - I'm just trying to save your feelings here. See A)
1172070
yeh it depends on location and his commitment.  if he says ur calling too much, then ur calling too much. otherwise, dont listen to the pessimists
248185
4 phone conversations isn't enough??? If you want him to call you, try NOT calling him for a while (I'm talking 5-6-7 days here, not 2). Guys generally don't have the same urge to talk as often as you do. He may be perfectly willing to call you, it's just you're not giving him an opportunity to miss talking to you.
1186709
It sounds cool to me.  I have multiple ex bfs in my phone and I would never cheat on a guy even if I was unhappy with the relationship.  Unfortunately sometimes ex contact is necessary.  Don't fret.
1082902
ok what this sounds like to me is that this guy is a real selfish jerk! When you really like someone you are never too busy for them. Think about it this way, he cant be so busy that he cant take at least 10 minutes out of his day to give you a call and say hi or 1 minute to send you a textmsg. Busy is a lousy excuse.I mean when you really like someone im sure you're never "too busy" to think about them. If he thinks about you so much he wont wait a week to call you. Stop trying to figure him out you're only gonna be wasting your time. You deserve so much better than a jerk who is supposedly "too" busy!
875848
It depends....does he finally call and not mention it...or does he tell you why he hasn't called. I suppose some guys think this is fine and it is...if that's the way it has always been..but if this is something new I would worry..sounds like he's losing interest to me. If you don't say anything about it the days between calls will become more and the times he does it more often. If I were you I would find something else to do..turn the tables on him and let him wonder where you are. It will stop you from worrying about him , you could have some fun,. and maybe meet someone that will appreciate you...this guy sounds like he's trying to control the relationship and seeing just how far he can go........OH and also...guys do NOT always let you know when they want to break up with you...they try to piss you off til you break up with them ..they don't have the cahones...I have this on very good authority...a MAN...lol