My boy friend dumped me...?
450808
first grow up, call him, tell him you want to set the record straight for your reputations sake, if he says he's still not inerested just say 'ok, thats cool. see you round' act like your not bothered and he will be chasing you lke you would not believe
676771
Yes, make this move: Find a NEW boyfriend.\n\nDo you think you would treat him the way he treats you??? He is playing you. Forget about him and do something good for you, and this time choose a MAN not a child.
1022284
Dump him... and date your friends...
774080
It's the holiday syndrome!  You were dumped probably over he did not want to feel obligated to buy you stuff!  There are so many awesome guys outthere for you, just throw your stuff, use your talents, and body and most your smile to get some postive attention!  You go shopping for another guy, and move on!  Get some dark choclate, exercise, and get pep for shopping for moving on to search for a new romance kind of guy!  You landed this guy, remember?  So you still got your stuff!  You go girl!  Don't worry about this exboyfriend, you gotta to move on and know he is all history in your history profile and don't open that chapter again!
372825
Uh, if he needed space, why was he in a position to be dumped by someone else. Sounds to me like he just wanted to be with someone else, since he can't be with her, you're better than being along. Don't waste your time with him.
413891
He wasn't ready for what ever reason to commit to you. Don't beat yourself up over this, there are people that will come and go in our lives, some for the good and some for the bad... it just makes us stronger people. Obviously you invested more in this relationship than he did, and it's going to hurt for a while trying to get over it. Grieve for a while, if you want to cry and feel sorry for yourself, do it.... it's all part of the process of loss. Just always remember your self worth, and that we are not the lessor of our selves, we are the sum of ALL of our parts, and that is something phenomenal. There may be more men like him in your future... and then again you may meet your soulmate tomorrow.... just don't let life get you down...it's too short to waste the energy on negative people. God bless you, good luck, Peace.
1096246
I would move on....he apparnetly doesnt care about you sence he left. I wouldnt waste time thinking about it. Do you think he is thinking about you?? I know its sad situation and I feel for you I really do, but the best thing you can do for yourself is to not think about him anymore. Go out and do stuff.
773422
Move on.\n\nThere is no point beating your self up over a guy who has no respect for you and enjoys playing games with you.  Either he likes you or he doesn't.  Sounds like he doesn't.\n\nIf you are heart broken, talk to your friends about it and get everything out of your system.  Maybe write it all down and then destroy the paper - shred or burn it and dump what is left.  You need to allow yourself to be sad and angry or whatever you want to feel.  Get it out now, so you can then see what went wrong on your side, and for someone like him - how to spot someone similiar (in behaviour and attitude) so you don't go out with the same type of guy again.\n\nEventually you will get over it, and you will find someone much better.
827466
okay...so your friend and his girlfriend broke up.  You think it is because he likes you.  He is under the impression that they broke up a week ago, and she just told him that it's over.  Is that pretty much it.  So basically she ignored him for a week, and just got up the courage to end it.  \n\nWell...if he is your friend, then let him talk to you about it.  That's what friends are for.  You may be the reason, but may not.  Maybe she was jealous that you and him were friends.  Right now, it's not about you, it's about him.  If he wants to talk about it with you, then you, as his friend, should be there to talk to him about it.  \n\nGood luck!
1031963
How about a bad break up story? \n\nI was waiting for my b/f to bring me my boom box to teach a dance class. He was supposed to be there by 8pm. We waited and waited for him. At 2am when the place closed, I walked out with my students and friends to find a note on my car. He said that he had waited for me but since I didn't come out (like I was supposed to know he was outside!), he had to leave a note. What it came down to was that he was a coward and couldn't break up face to face and in front of my friends. \n\nAnyway, after telling me that afternoon that he loved me, he told me in the note that it wasn't working out........what a loser! I am better off without him!
7355
he want to dump u but does not know how to tell you. or a bad news. good luck !
175390
my roommate just got dumped by her boyfriend, and he told her that he wanted to be good friends, and nothing would change but their title, and all this crap. now he wont even look at her when he passes her on the way to class. basically, boys are stupid. they go through times when they are in a relationship with an AWESOME girl and they realize how much they care about that girl, and they start to freak out. thats when they dump the girl. it makes no sense to me why a guy would dump a girl that he really cares about. that could be what your boyfriend is doing, trying to protect himself from getting hurt because he really cares about you. thats what it sounds like to me, especially since he told your bff that he didnt want to get hurt.
656947
do u care a lot about the guy ur with like u do now with ex bf? cause if u don't just dump him and go out with ur ex bf and make him happy again. ur ex bf prob. had deep feelings about u and u ruined it for  him and now he is upset about it. so i'd think it over if i were u.\n\nShorty
1003546
he know's he did the wrong thing by dumping you. he's probably trying to act like he is in control. and it's obvious he still likes you but won't admit it coz he's a guy and wants to act like a 'man' and 'tough' n all. all i know he wasn't thinking when he dumped you and did something very stupid. \non the other hand he is also jealous when you talk to other guys or other new guys take an interest in you.\n\nb happy ur free n single coz he lost you now ;)
343906
Again...learn to spell, for crying out loud.  Maybe he dumped you because you don't have a brain.
426623
You might consider getting right back on the horse as they say.  Find another boyfriend, (hopefully one with some fidelity and honor).  I don't think revenge is the answer, and I don't think that you could get revenge anyway.  Just dump him and move on (which is hard i know) but honestly sweetie, there is sombody out there who will love you for you.  Just hang in there.
1167716
show your current boyfriend some respect.  if you don't love him anymore, breakup with him.  it may be hard to do but it's easier to get over being dumped than it is to get over being cheated on.