Im 16 years old. Is wrong/weird for a kid my age to be attracted to women who are 35 to 55 years old?
450215
when i was 16 i went for the older women as well. so yes its normal. could be that you are looking for a motherly figure, someone like your mother dude.
81043
seems like it's a fantasy u have. if u are looking for love i c no harm being with a woman 35-40. they are mature, knows what they want.
1154812
Sure! Why not? As long as you get along and enjoy each others company, there should be no reason to let age get in the way. However, the only thing that I might be concerned with would be for the difference in maturity levels. There is a big difference in the majority level of a 27 yr old female as opposed to a 19 yr old male. As most men are concerned, they take a lot longer to mature emotionally and mentally than woman. However, for all I know, you could be a very mature male. Every situation is different, and as long as you are attracted to each other and are having fun, there is no reason why it can't work!
372318
Oh yeah. The thing with girls is that as you get older and older the one's you're attracted to stay the same age.
544928
Well my friend just a few words of wisdom, you're lucky to look younger than your age. Imagine when you are 30 & you still look for the female attention you'd look just 27..!! Most 25 year olds today look like they're 30+ & consumed up all of their fuel & gas for life. They live the life actually of a 40 year old. So its good for you, take it in  a positive way. But just make sure you actually don't act like a 16 year old. but a 19 year old. Do justice with your personality... GOOD LUCK MY FRIEND..!!
919354
As long as she's of legal age and limits viewing to others of legal age (that' the tricky part!) then she should be OK.  \n\nThat said, there's always some tight@$$ that so thoroughly hates the thought that someone else might enjoy themselves...
1063647
there isn't anything wrong with you dating a woman old enough to be your mother. the problem only comes if you or she are doing it with an underlying motive. be careful.
213182
It is not wrong. People say it's wrong because they follow a long established social construction that states that the man should always be the older one, because he should be the protector and the provider in the relationship. That's why no one ever judges an old man who is in a relationship with a young woman. People don't approve of an older woman and a younger man because that's not what they are used to see as normal. If you go on with this relationship you have to know that people will have objections about it, and that you as a couple will experience some disagreements because he's not as mature and experienced in life as you are. But on the good side you are both on your sexual prime (20 for the man and 40 for the woman). Every relationship is work, if you are willing to work for it, just do it!
701412
It is fine. I am 24 and my husband is 35. we are very diffrent in age and it is great for us. Also not to say that it should be done or that it is legal and it has to do with the how mature the girl is. I feel it is fine to have relations with someone under the age of 18. many girls have sex befor the age of 18 but it should strongly weigh on her matuity. I think waiting untill the two people know that they are going to be married in the future is best or even waiting untill they are makes it even better. I know sounds a little harsh, but imagine this the people have just been married and how much more the two will want it and feel the romace of it all if they wait. Everyone has their own feelings about that though. If the two of them date for a couple years it is perfectly legal for the two of them to get married in most states befor the age of 18 and in some states can even do it now, but may still need a parents consent to do so. tell your friend and I am sure he will have even more fun making out how much he loves her to her and if marriage is something he really wants with her in the future making those plans with her too.
1124498
Nothing wrong with. I don't know your age, but if your young then maybe you are still growing and feeling the urges allot. And if your older then you are just a horny person. Me too and that's ok....
137372
everyone sees beauty in a different way,  you are far from crazy, from what I see, I think its very odd that you like older woman, but I have my own attractions to woman that other guys think is verry odd.  Don't beat yourself up over this.  You know what your like,  Heck your 40, so why try to change that, stay with what you like.  Don't go with the stereotypical society, they are all mostly immature people that are trying to impress everyone anyways
266049
i have PERSONAL experince dude.  listen to this. i met a woman when i was 24, and she was 34.  the sex was amazing, she was very experience. but thats the only thing that was good.  her mentality was more mature than i was and we didnt have any common intrest, im not saying that it wont work out for you. you just have to see how you feel about her,  there are couples out there who are that big of an age difference and they are happy with it.  but most of the time it wont work out. when you reach 20 she will be 30. etc.  are you willing to be with an old woman when you are 40 and she is 50.  thats the question you need to ask yourself.  but in the mean time, enjoy each other and see waht happens, just enjoy the moments, thats the best advice i can give you
771682
Aww honey thats just normal i guess?? no actually its not.\nyou have to tell her your underage.\nshes 21.\n\nand idk whats wrong with her.\n\nyour probably very charming.\nAwww :)
465237
Well i suppose it is natural to be attracted to these women especially when you say that you are still young and outgoing, regardless of your age. However do not expect too many invitations, unless it is for your money. I am 31, the only way i would be with a man that much older is if he was really rich and i was desperate, or maybe i fell completely inlove. I think your chances are slim. It is not abnormal but a hard call.
126502
You feel that you love this older woman the question is, is it love or purely obession to something about her. I feel that it could be love. Most younger men are attracted to older women.\n\nIm 32 and I know that when I divorced several years ago I had alot of male friends alot of younger ones. Seemed like the younger ones would find me no matter what. I did date a guy who was 18 at the time and I was 25 it was a beautiful realationship but I knew that he needed to finish college and have a chance at life. He didnt need my life not that my life was bad!! I just was 25 and was divorced with 3 children! But my ex cheated on me all the time and I finally found out and wasnt going to tolerate it!! Anyhow this guy needed to expierence life without me. Shortly after we split up about six months I met another man who I have been married to now for five years!!\n\nAll Im saying is Im sure that she hears what you are saying but is probably not wanting to pursue anything serious cause she wants to give you space and time to live your life. If I can be of any futher help just email. Good Luck and keep us posted.
470270
There's nothing wrong with you, it's normal to be attracted to an older guy. However, going out with him now may not be an option. Depending on certain laws, he could get into big trouble messing around with you even you want to, especially since he's probably 18 or older.
674557
um....no your 23 and shes...lets see...16...no u shouldnt