I walked in on  my 9 yr old son exploring his privates , what should I do?
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Its very normal. usually little boys do that around 4-5. Just explain to him in passing that we should always take care of our bodies, and that some parts are more sensitive than others, and that messing with his private parts can cause infection, just as much as sticking your fingers in your eye. \n\nyou should take this time in his life to also reassure him that no one but himself and his parents should ever have a reason to see him unclothed, and that no one but himself should clean or touch that private area. He's a big kid now after all.\n\nAt that age he should be in about 3 or 4th grade thats generally when they start adressing parts of the body in class, its possible he never realized that part of his body was really functional for anything but going potty until then.\n\nA boy of his age would be expected to wonder about his.. bits and pieces. Just reassure him that he's normal and to always take care of himself. It doesnt need to be a huge sit-down discussion.\n\nAlso, if you havent had the talk with him, you might want to take time to do that now. I have never known many children of his age and grade range who didnt know. If he hasnt heard from you its quite possible he's heard from a school mate. Talking about sex is only as difficult and uncomfortable as you make it. So be calm and cover all the bases, your a big grown up person, he's a little kid who has a need to know how to handle his body.
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Don't buy your son pornos.  Men who learn sexual technique from pornos are terrible in bed.  They are only actors performing for visual stimulation.  A woman needs more than wham bam for 20 minutes.\nAn option would be to buy a sexual instuctional dvd.  These are narrated by health care professionals, with discussions on sexual technique and many other areas of sexual health.  These are not  stuffy sex-ed films.  They show adult couples performing sexual activities, but with respect for each other.  You should watch it first, so you can answer any questions your son might have.  Of course, this depends on how old your son is.  If he is old enough to drive a car, he should be able to watch this.
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Perhaps he has an infection and you should take him to see his doctor?  I'm  surprised that he likes to whack it so much since he's only 8.  Good for him, I guess.  Since he rubs it so much it's probably just sore and you should try to keep him from doing that.  If it's the kind of "itch" that I think you're talking about then maybe a little sex talk might be in order..... mainly just to let him know it's normal, and it's okay.... in private.
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You know your son. You know if he respects you as the authority figure he truly honors. You know in yourself if pleasing you is important and disappointing you is something he really does not want to do. If that is the case, as much as you are tempted, don't spy on him. Be ready in any case to intervene should things get inappropriate, if they do. On the other hand, if the relationship with your son is strained and he does not appreciate his parents, then the battle is already lost. If you move to spy or stop him, then he'll move the activity somewhere else where you are not.
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u can put him in ur diapers\nthats all, next time it will not threat u
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The level of stimulation is close but only on the surface. He needs to reach a little deeper. Teach hm to explore you a little more.
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Go back in time and get different parents.\n\nSeriously, you are the only person worried about it.\n\nFind something else to worry about like making more money and whether penile impants are in your budget.
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BOY; BE GENTLE\nGIRL; MAKE BOY USE LUBICATED CONDOM
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Best to contact the local police department to see if they have any volunteer programs and such. You want to cover your butt legally because it would be a shame for YOU to be the one accidentally getting in trouble (if someone sends you child-porn and you knowingly keep it, even with the intent to report it- that could put YOU on shakey ground).\n\nI would just monitor your 9 year old's email and chat conversations... and report ANY inapproprait contact to the authorities. \n\nSome men are sick and perverse and assume that any FEMALE is out there to sexually please them (where did the days go when you could wear a short skirt simply because it feels sensual?). It is REALLY pathetic that grown men mistake preteens' natural curiousity for being anything sexual!
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Place it under the sun for a while, then wash it thoroughly -only this stuff nothing along with it, put perfumed detergent (am sure that you would have already done).\n\nIf the smell is from undergarments and other clothing stuff then it is only becuase of cultured bacteria that has taken home in your sons stuff, the sun ought to take care of it.\n\nIf all else fails -burn it before he is held responsible for starting a pandemic (LOL).\n\nGood Luck
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ur hole is fresh! itl take a lil time to introduce mr. penis and miss vagina, eventually they will have fun together! and wil be more enjoyable
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Hi  there! 4 boyz your age, this is natural. You are exploring body parts and you are very courious about sex. You are exploring your body as well as others by watching this. Talk to your dad if you can about sex, If not , Then maybe an older brother. Watching porn is okay (To me) because you are courious about the human body. You should get sex education in school also. That also helps. If you want to stop watching porn, substatuite it by going outside with your friends and doing things.  Listen I hope this advice works for you. -HOTTIE-
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Oh, No, NO, NO!!! Do NOT take his string away!!!  Do NOT try to break his habits, until you have gotten training in how to do it without making him withdraw any further from the world!\n\nAutism is a very tricky problem. He is responding to the world the way he really does see it. How would you like it if, every time you did anything, you were not allowed to do it?  No, you can't scratch your itches, no matter how much they hurt... No, you can't look at anything pretty or interesting? No, you can't do anything you enjoy doing?\n\nYou may not understand what he sees in that string, or what he feels that cause him to have his other behaviors.\n\nThere are special programs designed, through research and through the comments and suggestions of those intelligent autistics, now adults, who are able to communicate effectively, to help your son learn new ways of seeing his world, and learn new behaviors.\n\nHow old is he? If he is under the age of 22, he (and you) should be receiving specialized Autism programming through the public schools, with home training services linked through the school social worker.  If he is under the age of 3, you are eligible for service support in your home (Individualized Family Service Program). If he is age 3 or 4, he should be in a specialized preschool program. If he is ages 5 through 21, he should be getting specialized programming through the nearest public school.\n\nSee these links:\n\nhttp://www.autismweb.com/\nhttp://kidshealth.org/parent/medical/brain/autism.html\nhttp://www.autism-society.org/site/PageServer\nhttp://wwww.spedusource.org/
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If he has a small penis, maybe some oral sex should be played with. Tell him to lick that horny pink meat with his wet tounge in a counter clockwise motion inside and outside your vagina and do the same with 2 or 3 of his fingers.  Just make sure that there is plenty of lubrication at hand.
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You can get him a chastity belt.\nI had 4 made, for my girls. Customized.\nTry breaking thru that sucker, Romeo.
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Well, if you want to know what he is up to, that part is easy, download and install this Keylogger which remains invisible unless the proper key combination is pressed, http://www.download.com/Home-Keylogger/3000-2092_4-10264521.html?tag=lst-0-1\n\nAs far as restricting sites this program might do the trick, NetVada Safety.Net which includes parental controls, http://www.download.com/NetVeda-Safety-Net/3000-10435_4-10382920.html?tag=lst-0-8\n\nIf your son finds out you installed these programs he might take it the wrong way so be sure they are well hidden.
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Hey kid, go back to your Sesame Street. If you were an adult or even out of kindergarten you would know where to go. Now go tell your mommy what you did so she can spank you.