2 ladies to choose from one a christain the other a Muslim,black and a white what do i do?
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umm why are you even asking other people? you should be ask urself "who do i love?" ur the one that have 2 live the rest of ur life with her
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Sounds to me that you dont need to make a choice.  They're your friends.  If you had 2 girlfriends, would you need to choose only one of them as well?
324656
Convince her that the christ returns from your seed.  That an angel came down upon you and spoke these truths.  "Impregnate your true love and a new christ shall be born."\n\nworked for me.\n\n\n.
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She is an educated Muslim women who has chosen her way of life.Close minded are those who cannot not accept her freedom of choice.
483643
in this case ur mind and heart wud chose two diff options.. follow da choice of ur heart... it wil never let u down
309173
Pick whoever you like more, pick the one that complimets you the best and will be there for you when you need her. Sounds like miss x needs a boot.
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I am a Muslim. I will teach her what Islam is. I will also advice her to dress properly . Final decision of what to wear will be her choice.\n\nbtw, many people think women are forced to wear hijab by men. I know many women who wear hijab, eventhough husbands to do not like wearing it.
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Sister/brother,\n\nWho are we to say one is Muslim or not.  Only Allah knows and let him decide.  Cause if they are Muslims and you are labelling them otherwise you will be a sinner.
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It's really up to the bride; if you do decide to have one and not the other, I would be sure to ask the other one to do something of significance, like maybe be your personal attendant?
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Consider your choices: One of you have to convert to the other religion or see if there are any civil ceremonies instead of a religious one.\n\nGood luck, congrats
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Yo bro i went through the same thing, all you have to do is let them know why you cannot do those things then they will either respect you, or reject you.\n\nIf they respect you, they will be interested in your religion because of your sacrifice.  They will not change unless they see change in you.\n\nIf they reject you they are not your friends, they are either using you or trying to brainwash or manipulate you.\n\nKeep strong in Iman, its hard to do these days.\nSalam.
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"Chosen people" choose themselves!\n\nWe are all equal in God's eyes. If someone tells you that they are "chosen by God," stay away!
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go an see maniratnams Bombay, my advice is dont change ur religion.. that will be stupid thing to do.\nToday u will change ur religion, next day u will change something else.. \nman u ask urself, do u love each other ? if yes, then why religion coming in between. U can even marry her without changing religion.\nTry to convince her the same, she is probably afraid of her society. Tell her not to worry as nothing complex will happen.\nYou both need not change anything just stay where u r, and love each other.
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be honest with yourself and both of them and make the best choice for you but you have to choose one . (please note: i've assume you are involved with at least one of them)
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I have a friend who is a Christian and married a Muslem.  It is important for the two of you to discuss whether you will want to worship together (will you go with each other to services, or go seperately?) and how you will handle religious regulations in the home.  It is essential that you also decide how your future children will be raised.  Being on the same page with this is key for your future.  Good luck.
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opposites attract. when it comes to looking for your one you have to pray
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As a person married to a spouse of a very different religion, I can say that anyone who offers an "easy answer" has probably not been in that position.  Make no mistake, it can be difficult.  That said, this is decision time for your daughter and prospective son-in-law.  \n\nIf they are ready to be with each other, they are going to have to get used to navigating religious and cultural differences.  And this is an opportunity to decide whether they wish to cleave to each other or to their respective families of origin, to the extent there is some conflict between those two loyalties.  If they cannot prioritize being together over parental approval, the marriage is better off not starting, for its future is not good.  On the other hand, if they establish that their love for each other is something they wish to put at the center of their lives, learning that now can create a valuable opportunity to build a foundation for a future marriage.\n\nI would encourage them to:\n(1)  Engage his family's rabbi (or another rabbi, if his family's rabbi refuses to participate) in the dialogue;\n(2)  Talk about mixed-religion marriages with others in similar marriages, particularly Christian-Jewish pairings;\n(3)  Pray to their shared God/G-d in their two very different ways for guidance and help for their relationship.\n\nBtw, even in Orthodox Judaism conversion for purposes of marriage, and marriage to converts, is acceptable.  Try the Book of Ruth.  Possibly this is actually about cultural, rather than religious differences.\n\nImho, despite the challenges of interfaith marriages, they may play a very important role in moving our world from the present mutual hostility of all the world's faiths towards greater mutual understanding and peace.  And that is certainly a noble pursuit.\n\nMy blessings and my wishes for good luck to them and to both your families, which may yet become one family.