how big is average for the penis  stiff or soft ?  why do some men have small softys but big size stiffys?
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i would say most guys BS alot on this topic, for obvious reasons\nAvg hard is probably only around 6 inch\nAvg soft is something like 3 or 4 ..
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You probably have a good sense of where you fit in the distribution of size for \nmore commonly visible measurements of body size: height, size of hands, feet, \nweight and so on. However, unless you spend a lot of time in a nudist \nenvironment, there are, understandably other measurements for which you don’t \nhave a good sense of where you fit. Penis size is an obvious example. It’s also \none that can make a lot of people uncomfortable. They worry about whether they \nare abnormal, “too small,” “too large,” and so on. As with most characteristics \nof human anatomy, there is a lot of individual variation. You can differ \nsubstantially from average without being unusual or freakish and without any \nneed for concern or medical intervention. If you have concerns, by all means \nconsult a doctor, but chances are good that you have nothing to worry about.\n\nOn the other hand, there is always a fascination with people who are \nsignificantly different for the normal range. This applies to height and \nweight, size of hands and feet, and, yes, also to penis size. So what \nis “normal”? Surprisingly, perhaps, given how common concerns about penis size \nseem to be, there are very little good data based on large samples. There are \ndata, though, and the numbers seem to agree well enough to suggest that the \nsample size must be large enough to give reasonably accurate measures of \naverages and distributions. A good summary of recent data can be found at \nAverage-Penis.com:\n\nhttp://www.average-penis.com/\n\nThere are additional links there to other studies as well.\n\nThe average length of an erect penis (measured along the top) is 16.1 cm (6.34 \nin).\n90% of measurements fall between 10 and 21 cm (4 and 8.25 in).\nThe average girth of an erect penis is 12.3 cm (4.84 in).\nThe average length of the flaccid penis is about 9 cm (3.5 in) with most \nmeasurements falling between 5 cm (2 in) and 12.5 cm  (5 in).\n\nThese numbers appear to be approximately independent of such parameters as age \n(post-puberty) and nationality despite any anecdotal information you may have \nheard to the contrary, though reliable data on such variations is quite limited.\n\nYou can decide what “big” is, but just as you probably wouldn’t particularly \nlabel someone as “tall” unless they were in the top few percent, you probably \nwouldn’t want to label someone’s penis as “big” unless it was larger than the \nnormal ranges quoted above (greater than 21 cm erect length, 12.5 cm flaccid \nlength). There also appears to be a large variability in the ratio of the erect \nlength to flaccid length. Average is about 1.8, but ratios from about 1 to 4 \nare not uncommon.\n\nYou can turn up a lot of additional reading material on this subject with a \nGoogle search on:\n\nAverage penis size\n\nAnd if you are concerned about appearance, you might also want to look at the \nPenis size page,\n\nhttp://www.penis-size-page.com\n\nThis site has many pictures of both average and more unusual penises that you \ncan compare to your own.\n\nI hope this information helps you to better understand what is “normal” \nand “big.” Again, if you have concerns, consult your doctor. You may also see \nmany advertisements for companies that claim to help you increase penis size. I \nwould caution you against considering their services because of questionable \nefficacy in many cases, and because it is unlikely that there is any real \nreason why you should need to change your size.
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Penises come in all sizes! :)\n\nIf you're talking pre-erection, then this is perfectly normal.\n\nIf you're talking about when you're erect, then while that would be on the small side, it's certainly not abnormal enough that you should be worried about it.
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The truth (once and for all): it does not matter! Oh, at the extremes maybe - less than 2" or really huge. But anything remotely normal is fine with us. We may pretend to admire your large equipment because we know how pathetically important it is to your fragile male ego, but for ourselves, nope, not at all. As a matter of fact we get extremely bored hearing about it. We're more interested in the quality of what's between your ears than in the size of what's between your legs. Really! \n\nPlease find some other interest in life - big penises are not an interesting topic of conversation to those of us who don't have them. This question gets asked a lot, and the males always butt in and say, oh, yeah, it's totally important. Well, wake up guys - just because it's important to you does not make it important to us! If it's 3.8" or 8.3" - who cares? Not the women.
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Because they have different size everything. Example my fingers soo skinny and small.. so my penis is the same. and i see other guys with big hands that have big penises.
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Since I have answer to many of these question regarding penis sizes, i recollected most of my answers, read it and you make be satisfy with a correct answer.\nIs a little less than average, but i could predict that at least 20% of males are of that size or under ;) , well actually height does not matter, some people over six feet tall dont have a 5 inch dick! I came up with this after researching it! \npenis sizes!\nless than 4 inches is way below ! >4.5-5.0 moderate > 5.0- 6.3 (average 65% of any male u encounter are around this size!) > 6.7 (10-20% of popul) more than average > 7.2-9 less than 10% (gifted) > 9+ thats a big ******* story! ahhaah 0.1% of the male population *(Different web site and researches show these stat as the average penis 5.1, 5.7, 5.9, 5.877 from these numbers you can conclude whats average, since all those are say to be average, i guess they are diff because are taken in different regions, let say if u take the same test in china you would find out that 4.7 is average! and 6 is to big. well other internet survey say to be 6.2 so is funny beacuse it does not match with true measurement, so self measurements adds more than 2 cms. Be proud of what you have, the average vagina is about 3-4 inches so there is no problem filling up that space! and if the woman loves you, there is no problem.. but everyone wants a bigger penis even I and i have 7.3 :) .... **** dont they say smaller pennis stand up longer? enjoy \nyo dont worry, i bet money that 80% + those that make fun of other with small organs have less than 6.6 inches! cuz only 10% of the population have over 7 inches!\ndo stretching it may give u a few cm\n<proud! \nwill know ur final size when u reach 17... you will gain from .2-1.5 inches from that age up to 17! \n\n\nI had like 6.5 when i was 16 and now i am 18 it is 7.3 ,.. don't feel bad, try doing exercises like stretching! maybe u gain something in 1 month! keep going if u see any gain maybe instead of gaining 1 inch.. u gain 2-3! \npenis sizes!\nless than 4 inches is way below ! >5.2 moderate > 5.5- 6.3 (average 60 % of any male u encounter are around this size!) > 6.7 (10-20% of popul) more than average > 7.2-9 less than 5% (gifted) > 9+ thats a big ******* story! ahhaah 0.1% of the male population\n\nyo, u have 4 in so what? u can satisfy any woman, plus u are oriental so u may be with orientals so u are in the normal size for orientals.. even a person with 3.5 in penis could satisfy an oriental woman! try doing penis massages, i dont know if they work. I do them sometimes but have seen no gains but after all i dont need it, i am like 7.3 inches. :) ur orientals women have seen shorter penis than that i bet! \n\nfirst measurement is soft(unerect, second is erect penis size in inches. Hope it gives you an idea.\n\nUnited States 3.4/5.0 \nGermany - na/5.6 \nSpain - na/5.3 \nFrance 4.7/6.2 \nJapan 3.1/5.1 \nBrazil - na/4.8 \nItaly 3.9/5.9 \nVenezuela 3.7/5.0 \nMexico - na/5.9 \nGreece - na/4.8 \nIndia - na/4.0 \nSaudi Arabia - na/4.9 \nChile - na/5.5 \nColombia 3.5 5.4 \nKorea 2.7 3.7 \n\nMy words are truly and not made to hurt anyone's feelings, I am just answering, I don't know you and probably don't know me either, so I don't win anything from lying.\n:)\n\n let the truth be told.
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Unfortunately, the unbiased truth is that size DOES matter for SOME women. Women are also like men, they come in all shapes and sizes, and some women are bigger, or larger, depending on which term you preffer, than others. I guess it all comes down to a few simple things; is your partner satisfied with the size of your penis ? Is your partner uncommonly larger than your previous partners ? and so on... There are also a few chirurgical procedures that i WOULD NOT recommend if the problem tends to have a chronical depressing effect... In any case, the best thing to do is to talk to a counsellor, doctor or close friend. This is not a matter that can be resolved by simply putting a post on an internet forum unfortunately. Life's like that & problems are a part of it. If you were brought up believing that movies or stories reflect life, i'm afraid you'll have to be re-educated all over. Good luck in any case and don't stop smiling!
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size are in ur genes...\n\n\nThis is in my own writing, it wasn't copy and pasted, enjoy it, it took me a while to write it and hope is beneficial to everyone. Thanks.\n\nSince I have answer to many of these question regarding penis sizes, i recollected most of my answers, read it and you make be satisfy with a correct answer.\nIs a little less than average, but i could predict that at least 20% of males are of that size or under ;) , well actually height does not matter, some people over six feet tall dont have a 5 inch dick! I came up with this after researching it! \npenis sizes!\nless than 4 inches is way below ! >4.5-5.0 moderate > 5.0- 6.3 (average 65% of any male u encounter are around this size!) > 6.7 (10-20% of popul) more than average > 7.2-9 less than 10% (gifted) > 9+ thats a big ******* story! ahhaah 0.1% of the male population *(Different web site and researches show these stat as the average penis 5.1, 5.7, 5.9, 5.877 from these numbers you can conclude what’s average, since all those are say to be average, I guess they are diff because are taken in different regions, let say if u take the same test in china you would find out that 4.7 is average! and 6 is to big. well other internet survey say to be 6.2 so is funny because it does not match with true measurement, so self measurements adds more than 2 cm. Be proud of what you have, the average vagina is about 3-4 inches so there is no problem filling up that space! and if the woman loves you, there is no problem.. but everyone wants a bigger penis even I and i have 7.3 :) .... **** dont they say smaller pennis stand up longer? enjoy \nyou don’t worry; I bet money that 80% + those that make fun of other with small organs have less than 6.6 inches! cuz only 10% of the population have over 7 inches!\ndo stretching it may give u a few cm\n<proud! \nwill know ur final size when u reach 17... you will gain from .2-1.5 inches from that age up to 17! \n\n\nBUT IF YOU ARE INTERESTED IN KNOWING THE IDEAL AND DREAM SIZE, Here goes **\n\nThe ideal penis would be above average size (if you were given a woman what would you pick the same girl with smaller or bigger breast? yes is possible you pick above average and not to big either, is the same thing for penis..) what would that size be? hmm I would definitely say 7-8 inches x 6 inches of circumference..thats a bit bigger than porn actor though, most porn actors have between 6-7 inches but since their are bellow 6 feet their penis look bigger on them... and so there are porn actor with more than 8 inches...(note that those male actors on the internet with mega penis are mostly the same people...there aren’t many with over 10 inches...) like I said is preference some woman may prefer something smaller then 5 inches... or something bigger than 7 ... but at the end you will love a woman with small tities you usually never dump her for that.... it happens to be the same with women and our penis... Hope this helps..\n\nforget the motion of the ocean.... sorry girls but a 4 inch guy can do what a 7 inch penis do ( if they know what they are doing of course)vaginas are 2-2.5 inches wide therefore a penis with girth of 6 inches will reach and stretch you so all ur nerves are receiving pressure, so is ur G spot everything is done by PRESSURE, NOT THE MOTION OF THE OCEAN learn that....a 5 inch penis can almost do the same thing but give the same person different sizes and u will see the different of course anything over 9 inches can hurt and less pleasure but anything from 7-8.5 inches is the BEST of sizes of course if it has 6-6.5 inches of girth\n\n\nI had like 6.5 when I was 16 and now I am 18 it is 7.3,.. Don’t feel bad, try doing exercises like stretching! maybe u gain something in 1 month! keep going if u see any gain maybe instead of gaining 1 inch.. u gain 2-3! \npenis sizes!\nless than 4 inches is way below ! >5.2 moderate > 5.5- 6.3 (average 60 % of any male u encounter are around this si
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A FULL erection is usually pretty close to the same size every time. Of course their are various stages as the penis becomes fully erect so it could be less in length if he is not fully erect. For various reasons (time since last sexual release, etc.) guys may not get fully erect every time they are with their partners. If he can still perform okay, doesn't seem to be anything to worry about to me...put away that ruler!
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don kno fer sure.\n\njust how small is your penis?
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FIRST OF ALL that guy who say average was 7-8 is a big lie... not even 15% of males have over 7 inches hehe so how is that average..*jewels.*\n\n\n\nforget the motion of the ocean.... sorry girls but a  4 inch guy can do what a 7 inch penis do ( if they know what they are doing of course)vaginas are 2-2.5 inches wide therefore a penis with girth of 6 inches will reach and strech you so all ur nerves are receiving pressure, so is ur G spot everything is done by PRESSURE, NOT THE MOTION OF THE OCEAN learn that....a 5 inch penis can almost do the same thing but give the same person different sizes and u willsee the different  of course anything over 9 inches can hurt and less pleasure but anything from 7-8.5 inches is the BEST of sizes of course if it has 6-6.5 inches of girth.. so talking about averages read below.\n\nThis is in my own writing, it wasn't copy and pasted, enjoy it, it took me a while to write it and hope is beneficial to everyone. Thanks.\n\nSince I have answer to many of these question regarding penis sizes, i recollected most of my answers, read it and you make be satisfy with a correct answer.\nIs a little less than average, but i could predict that at least 20% of males are of that size or under ;) , well actually height does not matter, some people over six feet tall dont have a 5 inch dick! I came up with this after researching it! \npenis sizes!\nless than 4 inches is way below ! >4.5-5.0 moderate > 5.0- 6.3 (average 65% of any male u encounter are around this size!) > 6.7 (10-20% of popul) more than average > 7.2-9 less than 10% (gifted) > 9+ thats a big ******* story! ahhaah 0.1% of the male population *(Different web site and researches show these stat as the average penis 5.1, 5.7, 5.9, 5.877 from these numbers you can conclude what’s average, since all those are say to be average, I guess they are diff because are taken in different regions, let say if u take the same test in china you would find out that 4.7 is average! and 6 is to big. well other internet survey say to be 6.2 so is funny because it does not match with true measurement, so self measurements adds more than 2 cm. Be proud of what you have, the average vagina is about 3-4 inches so there is no problem filling up that space! and if the woman loves you, there is no problem.. but everyone wants a bigger penis even I and i have 7.3 :) .... **** dont they say smaller pennis stand up longer? enjoy \nyou don’t worry; I bet money that 80% + those that make fun of other with small organs have less than 6.6 inches! cuz only 10% of the population have over 7 inches!\ndo stretching it may give u a few cm\n<proud! \nwill know ur final size when u reach 17... you will gain from .2-1.5 inches from that age up to 17! \n\n\nBUT IF YOU ARE INTERESTED IN KNOWING THE IDEAL AND DREAM SIZE, Here goes **\n\nThe ideal penis would be above average size (if you were given a woman what would you pick the same girl with smaller or bigger breast? yes is possible you  pick above average and not to big either, is the same thing for penis..) what would that size be? hmm I would definitely say 7-8 inches x 6 inches of circumference..thats a bit bigger than porn actor though, most porn actors have  between 6-7 inches but since their are bellow 6 feet their penis look bigger on them... and so there are porn actor with more than  8 inches...(note that those male actors on the internet with mega penis are mostly the same people...there aren’t many with over 10 inches...) like I said is preference some woman may prefer something smaller then  5 inches... or something bigger than  7 ... but at the end you will love a woman with small tities you usually never dump her for that.... it happens to be the same with women and our penis... Hope this helps..\nI had like 6.5 when I was 16 and now I am 18 it is 7.3,.. Don’t feel bad, try doing exercises like stretching! maybe u gain something in 1 month! keep going if u see any gain maybe instead of gaini
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on a bloke   a nice big stiff one   lol
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Like all others are saying, if you are in love with the person, it doesn't matter what size it is.  However, it can be a little surprising if the girl can't feel penetration at all.  It is not a deal breaker.\n\n"There have been several studies regarding the average size of the human penis. The majority of such studies could be unreliable due to self-selection bias: men with a smaller than average penis might be less likely to allow themselves to be measured, while men with a larger than average penis might be more likely to allow themselves to be measured. It is unknown if this conjectured self-selection bias has been confirmed by any studies, or if any studies have attempted to account for potential self-selection bias regarding penis size."
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size isn't everything! small can be beautiful! I am female and I know i can be satisfied by a smaller than average penis.  its not how much you have but what you can do with it. I'll give you lessons if you like!!!!
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Are men really serious when they asking about the size thing? I have never asked a man on a first date what is the size of his penis.  I have never really given the penis size much thought. If I am in the heat of passion size isn't exactly what I am thinking about.
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well the doctors say average is between 5 and 6 inches erect.blessed is 8-9 and deformed is 10 and over because most girls are to uncomfortable with anything over 8" sense there vagi.is only 5-6 inches in dept but there are some who are deeper and thats just nasty, like they say size matters well heck yeh it does to woman and men guys like a small vag and women like large, imagine that.cant have it all besides sex is not all about size, as long as the job gets done.
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the blue whale . it also has the most semen about 2 hundred gallons a shot. The typical limp adult human penis is about 3 centimeters in diameter at the base and somewhere between 8.5 and 10.5 cm long (measured along the top)–but fathers have been shorter than 3 cm, and lengths as great as 30 cm are reported. In general, smaller penises lengthen proportionally more than large ones do during an erection, but though the difference between small and large is reduced, the larger remain larger. The erect penis is about 15 to 19 cm long, with, again, many functioning very well outside this range.\n\nAs penises go, humans' are not wonders of the animal world. In many mammals–the raccoon, for example–the penis is stiffened with a bone, something men must pay a surgeon to achieve, and in plastic at that.  In size humans are dwarfed: the bull's is 3 feet, the elephant's 5 feet, the blue whale's 7 to 8 feet, and even a small animal like a pig, domestic or wild, has 18 inches.\n\nCounsellors, marriage handbooks, and sensitive females assure us that there is no correlation between penile size and lovemaking ability. Xaviera Hollander, an author who claims professional expertise of a practical sort, agrees about the lovemaking but says size does matter, and comments: “Men worry mainly about length, whereas women care more for girth.… If he's all the way in, up against her cervix, yet there are still two inches on the outside, those are two useless inches. Girth is another matter.… A penis is hardly ever too thick.”1\n\nOne of the most curious facts about the human penis is that, of all the organs of the male body, e.g., heart, lungs, brain, liver, and so on, the size of the penis is least related to skeletal size.2