Has anyone ever been out with a guy and he broke up with you and you have not saw him since?
446389
Memories are forever, you won't totally forget them. But I would try to keep busy, and be happy. After 3 yrs I don't think he's coming back anytime soon. Go out and mingle. Chances are you'll find someone else to think and talk about.
791731
he is so not worth going after.. he probably doesnt have any money with him to take you out... but still that is no excuse for not showing up to see you... a nice guy who really loves you will take you out and meet you anywhere *food or no food* and he will love you until the world ends... you will be treated like a queen put on the highest pedestal... next time you see the guy who didnt meet up with you... tell him next time he wants to meet up with you , you will have another guy on your arm... (like the guy i described above...
1046736
I met my boyfriend through a friend. Our friend wanted me to go play cards and stuff with him and maybe a little more. Then like I went home and the next day he called me and said you remember the guy that had to leave early? And I responded yeah...why and he told me that he wanted me to go to the movie with him the next Friday. I agreed and we hit it off decent. Went out the next day (Saturday) again and it just kind of happened. I wasn't really looking for anyone at the time but just hoping to get with the guy that hooked us up. It all turned out well though a little of 6 months later we are still happier than ever!
806054
He might think you are a sure thing.  Not trying to be mean!  \nYou are familar ground for him - easier than meeting someone new. \nBe very careful of going back to an ex.  \nYou broke up for a reason!  Think about those reasons.
865546
yeah my guy and i just had a fight..and I am so devasted..I love him soo much..but then again he is an as*hole...if you feel like you need time..then take time..but if you feel like you can move on with someone else then go out with friends and make new friends..usually after a break up..I like to take time for myself and get back to me...good luck\nps..if you still love him then call him and try to work things out
98987
Hmmmmmmm, In your story it did sound as if he was still intrested. well being that you haven't heard from him he is either not intrested or something has happened to him.\nI really wish guys could be honest it would make life much easier, but if it'll make you feel better just keep in mind what goes around comes around.
297305
u shouldn't have told. it's a trust issue. now he knows that he can't trust u that's why he broke up with u.
89198
Depends on how you broke up...\nif he ditched you then theres nothing you can do\n\nand if you ditched him you should be "nice" and let him be happy with someone else.
847385
weird, maybe he is with someone already, and was just teasin u?\nhope not
1057900
it happens mostly all the time. He could be hiding them because he doesn't want to get back together or that he keeps reminding himself about y the two of yous broke it off. If not and he does want to be with u then keep on trying, if it doesn't work then leave it in the past. i mean u shouldn't wait around for him too long. u could miss out on something way much better. just really think about it.
116136
This is a toughie for me.  In retrospect, I felt in my gut whenever a guy wasn't the best one for me--but I often stayed because I doubted my own instincts.  Things generally end or fade away because the universe no longer sees a need for us have them in our lives; we have learned our lesson and it is time to move on.  The pain of a breakup is FAR less damaging than the choice to stay and suffer holding on long after you should have let go.
634873
its only hard for us if we love the guy.  My BF of 4.5 years broke up with me 2 weeks ago and at first I kept calling, but I realized that I can't do anything about it. He broke up with me because he is trying to figure out what he wants to do with his life and doesn't want a GF right now. I realized that if he wants to talk to me, he will call.
222769
he has no boyfriend, he has a girlfriend who's name is olivia, i think they broke up, i haven't heard of her in a long time
807121
At a bar. We would go to the same club regularly and he was friends with a friend of a friend. We would hang out the bar almsot every weekend for about 6 months. It wasn't planned though. We just liked the same scene. He was dating other girls at the time, but had his eye on me and I was interested in something strictly casual, but never tried with him because he was cool and I thought we'd be 'just friends'. \n\nWell, one night he called me because he broke up with his girlfriend and wanted to come over and eat mushrooms. I had nothing else to do and thought he was cool, so I let him come over and we had a good time. Nothing happened that night, but about a week later I got extrodinarly wasted and we hooked up. It started out as a casual thing scratch that as a very casual thing and I had little intentions of it being serious, but we ended up falling in love and I settled down a little bit. \n\nThis was after he moved in because his 'rents kicked him out of their place and he was staying in his car. We were already sleeping together, so I said he could stay at my place for a few days and that few days turned to months and that casual time with a guy who was actually worthy of my friendship unlike my other casual boys turned into a serious relationship. We've been together for almost two years and plan on getting married in 2008. \n\nWhat makes us stay together? Well, our geniune love for eachother and partially our own narcissisms. We love ourselves and I'm his female counterpart and he's the male version of myself. Our similar interests and goals and problem solving techniques help as well as compatible senses of humour.\n\nThe story I tell my parents and family? We met through friends of friends at church.
1074737
I agree that you make a list of reasons you broke up and go back to read it when you need to. Just make sure he doesn't find it.\nGood luck.
107231
Throw a going away party for him when you break up with him.  He lives a couple of minutes from you and you see him every 2 months or so?  What's up with that?
92592
Feelings are hard to understand.  My best advice is to give him time.  Give him space and do not call.  If you have changed, this is your time to prove it and lay off for a little while, if there is hope for the relationship, it will shine through.  However, be mentally and emotionally prepared for him to not come back.  In the end, this is not the last guy you will ever date, you're life might have just begun.