what should i do to keep my wife to myself alone?
439693
Do things to make your relationship stronger.  Marriage counseling is good.  Marriage workshops.  \n\nPray for each other.  Pray that you each grow closer to God and that God will help you grow closer together.  We don't really understand what love is until we know God.  He helps us love each other the way we should.\n\nHave common goals that you work toward together.  Treat her the way you want to be treated.  Be respectful and kind. \n\nCheck out "Hidden Keys To A Loving, Lasting Marriage," by Gary Smalley.  You can read a bit of it here:  http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0310402913/qid=1144083134/sr=8-6/ref=sr_8_xs_ap_i6_xgl14/103-4668860-3658249?n=507846&s=books&v=glance
638003
Give yourself a call and spend some alone time together. I am sure she will be thrilled with the attention. Have Fun!
1090856
spend some time apart .. go hang out with your boys .. sounds like you're getting stalker scary .. haha ..\n\nYou control your own emotions.  Chill out and calm down .. you're not going to die without her !
18739
If you wife ticks you off, and you don't know how to tell her, I (as a wife) would do the following.\n\n1st calm down.  Then later ...the same day...  calmy let her know that what she said, did, implied was hurtful, harmful, inconsiderate.\n\nBe polite as possible and try to not make it about what she did, said, etc, but how it made you feel.  \n\nBe honest and polite, and loving.
26278
1. Tell your wife you love other people.\n2. Get a divorce.\n3. Move to Vegas and patrol the many viable whorehouses instead of potentially ruining your own family life and another family's as well.\nHow can you live with yourself in the knowledge you violated your vows to your wife?
194345
I don't think there is really any way to tell your wife and keep her, unless she is extremely forgiving and you are willing to change and be faithful.  Even then, not likely to work out.  On the other hand, you need to be honest and get this out, better she hears from you than figures it out on her own.
644770
Tell wife to grow up!
728079
I have a little sister too and she walks in on me all the time. But the way I've dealt with it is to tell her that we both have things that we need. She needs to be alone sometimes and so do I. So together, we made foam door hangers for each others rooms, I made hers and she made mine. We bought the stuff at a craft store and whenever I wanted to be alone, she'd leave me alone because my door hanger said Please Go Away. And I'd leave her alone when it said Please Go Away. That way, she still feels like she's a part of it. The other thing you need to tell her is that you each get an hour of alone time a day (or however long you think you need). Then, tell her that you'll hang out with her other times. Then, set a limit. If she bugs you 10 times while you are in your alone time, or 3 times when your door hanger is on Please Go Away, she loses an hour of play time with her sister. Trust me, she might be a little upset about it at first but after those hours start going faster and faster, she'll get the picture and start to leave you alone a little more. Don't shut her out completely though.
857594
Tell grandma to relax and let someone else chew up the air for a while. She's your grandma, she's older and deserves courtesy, but she isn't made of glass so she won't break and she knows better than anyone when she's overstepping the boundaries, unless of course, she's been running amok for so long she doesn't recognize them anymore. In which case, point them out.  Say to her "This is my wife, she is here because she enjoys your company, I am going to do some chores for you and I expect to get her back in the same cheerful mood I am leaving her with you.  Got it Grandma?" and then smile, wink or kiss her on the top of the head or the cheek, so that she knows you love her, but that you aren't letting her blacken you or your wife's mood.  Give your wife a flag to waive if you have to, but bring grandma down to earth once in a while.  Leave if you have to, in the middle of your chores or your wife's visit, if she doesn't heed your warning. \n\nExpect from  your grandma the same as you would from anyone else.\n\nEverybody loves to run amok, older people, young people, we all do what we want until someone tells us no. Say no.
400697
There is more to it than you just not paying enough attention to her, but I will let that be.  Pick a weekend when the two of you can be alone together. You know what she really likes to do, so schedule that activity for one day.  You will of course have to have someone take care of the children.  You need to be at least 100 miles from your home.  Get a cabin in the woods or a nice hotel room.  Have flowers waiting in the room when you get there. Have a small gift for her that would really mean a lot to her.  It does not need to cost you a fortune, just get something totally frivolous that she wants , but would never buy for herself.  Pamper her in every way that you can think of.  While she is sitting on a couch or bed, kneel down in front of her and tell her how much you truly love, need and want her.  Tell her that even though you do not say it enough and definitely do not show it enough, that you love her more than anything else on earth.  Good luck!
1044656
you can pull out things like a lucky rabbits foot (so you can say it might better you chances of getting lucky that night), a stuffed crab (if your wife has a since of humor), sea weed (again only if you wife has a since of humor because that would suck to piss her off on your wedding day. Then you would not need the rabbits foot cuz you would probably be sleeping on the floor) Get some white sexy undies in her size and pull them out too. The remote to the TV. Tell everyone she had to hide it so you would not be late to your weeding. Good luck
1183684
What you've suggested is really all you can do. You gave her good advice about communicating with her husband and going to counseling. Beyond that, it's really none of your business and not your responsibility.
229170
Get to know your kids interests, and if its baseball take them to a game, play catch in the back yard. Try to enjoy their interests with them and show them the ropes on some of your own, lets say you like NASCAR teach them how the cars are designed to go faster. With your wife. Find out what you can do around the house to keep her stress level lower, maybe she just would like help with the dishes or help folding laundry, they arnt chores if you find time to do it together and have a good time joking around in the process. Let her know she can vent to you about her day, and when she has a problem ask her if there is anything you can do to help fix it. if she says no then just take it as she just needed to let off some steam and talk to someone about it. But just cause your asking this makes me think your a good husband and a good dad because you care enough to try to be better :)
969628
do it if you have a free time, and take rest about half an hour between once and another, but don't make it affect your regular life,like:work,sleep,social life,sports,watching TV.\ndon't make your wife bored by that.
930820
I would keep doing it.  You obviously have no respect for your wife, so why let her get in the way of your sleezy relationship?
581452
Keep them in case they happen to come back you can be like "i kept your panties to remember you by" ;) Or like my friend who had an ex who wouldn't leave him alone, he knew she was coming over to bother him so he took some girls panties that they left at his house and hung them where she could see them when she came over, just to piss her off and maybe make her leave him alone.\n\n\nOKAY----I GAVE YOU AN ANSWER THAN I SAW ANOTHER QUESTION OF YOUR, YOU SHOULD BE ASSAMED!!!!! YOUR MARRIED!!!!
809958
My advice to you is ,I would just leave her alone for a while even though you love her and belive her give her time to just be without you, Then she will see what she wants and if its truly you you'll know, it might be hard to leave her alone but just tell her you dont want to be like everyone else, tell her you love and care about her and you want happiness in her life, and you dont want to be a part of stressing her out or dragging her down, Tell her you want her to have some time to herself and that you will be there for her when she is ready, and try very hard to stay away for a little while no matter what!! TRUST ME!!! THIS WILL WORK!! if she really knows what she wants and isnt just playing back and forth this will work for you, you cant keep being the one she runs to and get  you no gaurantee in all of this its right for your heart. Best Wishes & Good Luck