is playing barry white music when seducing my lady to have sex for the first time a good move?(i'm a virgin)?
443845
Only play this music if she wants to hear it.  Do not make the mistake of assuming what your partner wants in bed!  Ask her what she wants and be concerning when you do it.  She might say "I don't know".  If she does, then tell her to let you know when it feels good and when it doesn't.  Maybe it would feel best for her without music.  What matters most is what she wants.  Most men are sexually stimulated easier than most women.
707194
It's different for many guys. Not to be gross but it depends on how tight the girl is and how fast you're going. That's some ideas. If it's his first time ever then it might be a short time.
1105306
It's a good thing, and not just for how your future husband may or may not feel about it. The fact that you also recognize the dignity aspect speaks well for you. There is also a trend in SOME females to become more cynical about sex when they have given their virginity too early. Instead of being able to enjoy and fully realize the true emotions of making love, for many it's just sex. Which is much the same as a banana split JUST being ice cream. There is so much more to making love than just sex... sad that for many those bonds aren't there..... Good luck!!
623086
no i like missing cause i lost my virginity to that song with my husband...whoo-hoo memories..thanks..
154670
umm anything like my humps , dont cha , this love ,( only because it has a good beat ) , save a horse ride a cowboy , suga suga, madonna erotica, like a virgin , she shook me all night long , girls girls girls , if u uare able to burn music , go to limewire if you dont already have it and type in the songs i gave you it will come up and burn the songs , there are alot of good ones you can use , if you need more let me  know , or even if you need some moves ,my address is right under my avatar , i used to dance a couple months ago and as soon as i find another club im going back , it is very fun , it keeps u in shape and your hunny will love it , just realx . Good luck i hope i was helpful for you .theres also nasy girl , lick , my pussy , and crack
423441
I take it that you've already told him you weren't a virgin.\n\nListen, your virginity is something that you only have once.  It should be something to be proud of, not ashamed of...especially this day and age.\n\nI hope that you are with someone who will help you take this at your own pace.
501765
Why tell him? If sex comes up then tell him. He wont think yuck no guy most of never wanted her, but think wow she did not give into some idiot from high school. NOthing is wrong with being a virgin. And you are not the only 20 something virgin out there, and they are not all gross and ugly, they choose to wait just like you have, and they are better people for it. I have never know anyone who regreted waiting but I do know some who regret not waiting.
722599
The sound of someone having hot sex!
1095915
IT'S A GOOD SONG BUT I DON'T UNDERSTAND WHAT THE QUESTION IS. AND LET ME TELL YA, IF THAT IS REALLY YOU IN THAT PIC THIS GIRL FROM TEXAS THINKS YOU'RE  HOT! SO IF THE SONG SUCKED I WOULD PROBABLY SAY IT WAS GOOD ANY WAY. GOOD LUCK WITH WHATEVER IT IS YOU ARE TRYING TO ACCOMPLISH.
1084194
Virgins on a wedding night are rare, indeed!  I was one.  Many people had some good advice for you, but there's something I don't agree with.  Just because your fiancé has had sex, doesn't make him an experienced lover.  The bottom line is that he's not yet had sex with YOU...therefore, he is inexperienced.  Every woman is different.  \n\nYour fear is most likely rooted in 1) the unknown...the "big mystery;" and 2) ignorance (I don't mean this in a bad or critical way.  I'll explain what I mean.)\n\nThe "unknown" will remain that way until you've joined with your husband.  But even after that first time, it will *still* be mysterious because you'll both have SO MUCH to learn about each other and about yourselves.  What you like, what you dislike, what really gets you going, what makes you giggle, etc.  Have fun learning all that stuff!  You're in this together.  Communicate with each other.  :)   \n\nIgnorance - Maybe you're scared in part because you have no idea what to expect.  Maybe you don't know your own body yet. This isn't something to be ashamed of; it's just a matter of fact.  The remedy for this is education.  You and your fiance should read about and discuss together what to expect.  How a man's body works, how a woman's body works, etc.  Talk with each other about your fears, expectations, desires.  And honey, do yourself a favor.  Examine your body.  Use a mirror if you have to, but get comfortable with yourself.  The more comfortable you are with yourself, and the more you understand about you and your husband, the more confident you'll be that first time around and the more fun you'll have exploring!  ; )  \n\nNow everybody told me I'd feel pain the first time.  I didn't.  Not a bit.  That was partly because I had umm...can I say this on here?  Well, I had an accident as a child that did away with "the veil that causes pain."  You know what I mean.  But sex can still be painful if you are not properly prepared...i.e. turned on.  This is where reading a book on the subject can help you.  Understanding precisely how your body functions internally and externally goes a long way to dispelling some of the mystery and fear.  And if you're properly "prepared," it's not going to hurt. \n\nSo, read together, talk together, talk to close trusted friends, and then finally relax and give each other the freedom to explore and learn.  Wishing you joy and much love.  : )
657037
Any kind, what matters to me is the lyrics. Do you like reggae  and new age music? If you do then go get the 50 first dates soundtrack it's the best! =)
398857
Gah, that could never get answered here man.  But on a high note, i'm jealous, u got most mens dream lady.  Most likely, if u tell her what u just told us, she would get a kick out of teaching u, that would be the best advice.  Anything u get told on here could easily be coming from a 40 year old virgin with a wild fantasy life and be disastrous for u.
241605
Well if she is a vigin then do your best to be the first. But if she is not a vigin and she has done it before then go to a store and buy some viagra pills and wait till the right time then go through the small hole...lol
735806
No not at all, i would kind of find it flattering if i was dating a male virgin and he wanted to do the deed with me.  Even if he didnt want a sexual relationship and wanted to stay celebate i would still respect it.  Any person male or female who has respect for themselves in that way should be commended.
422536
For me its a turn on beacause she will experience the special moment with me.  You know,  it is special.   Sex will probably be the same, but feeling wise it will be different.  Word of advise, if youre a virgin, wait until you really find someone worth it, cause it might hurt u otherwise if its not special.
20711
I haven't tried so far... but congratulations!!! you've certainly chosen the right song to play 40,000 times :D it's one of my favorite :))
819687
No, but I have played it a bit in my younger days.  I don't recall anyone dancing to it.  Of course, I don't recall anything except what I was doing, because that piece takes a bit of concentration for someone of my limited abilities.  I was taken to task for playing it a little too brilliantly and fast once, by another musician in the audience after the performance.\n\nI made out to it standing up, when it was playing on the stereo, does that count as dancing?