i like this guy at church and found out he likes me.A LOT. problem is im not allowed to date.what should i do?
436543
I don't know how old you are. You didn't say, but, you need to talk to your dad and if he doesn't want you to "date", then you need to do as he says, but, you talk about church. Talk to your dad about being able to do things as a church group(functions)with the boy you like. Or going for burgers with other friends included. See what he says
970332
Well you could tell him if he really wanted to spend time with you he could go with you to church. You can tell him he can be jealous of alot of things but you given your soul to Jesus shouldn't be one of them.
469203
Absolutely not!  You should feel lucky to have him.  If you want the relationship to grow then you always have that.  I too am a christian (getting baptized this Sunday!) but I believe what you have is far from wrong.  It seems that your feelings for him are deeper than sexual and that is something Christ cherished, LOVE.
608723
look...dating sometimes is not the answer...\ni don't know if you should date him or not....but first you have to be sure that he wants to date you....if he doesn't want to date you then don't....coz like this you will make your self a whore running after him....\nand don't feel that you are a whore if you don't date him...\njust forget it....and live life the way it was
116365
no, i don't think it's ok. i'm a Christian too, and i have made a list of my standards and what i want in my guy, u should make one too! but like u said, ur not gonna marry him ever and do u think he wants u to date him jus cuz ur bored? also u said u don't want to get sidetracked from God, that's why u wouldn't marry him(or another non-Christian) so what, he's not gonna sidetrack u jus cuz ur dating him? i think he would sidetrack u! and u r only 15, u still have plenty of time to date and find the right (Chritian) one!\n but also think about this, if this guy is so great, what is the guy that God has for u gonna b like? he's going to b even BETTER!!! so keep holding out for the right guy! good luck!
1158123
Well if the guy likes you he will say yes, but you can't force anyone to date you. If he don't like you, its useless to go on a date with him. If he says yes though, you should wear whatever you feel best in. For instance your favorite outfit. Good luck on your maybe date.
683591
ok, i DO NOT have a bf, but i do REALLY like this guy at my church.... the reason i like him is because he is sweet, funny, kind, cute, dumb(in the funny way, like he's clumbsy around me) and he's just a sweetypie and i have no clue why he DOESN't have a gf yet
729374
he wants to get into your pants but he is afraid you will not let him because of your religious beliefs. if he respected you and your religion he would not have been touchy feely in the first place. do not confuse this for love.
394714
well you have to rule out for sure that you will not be able to be with this person.  If it's a no go for sure. you can just lust for that person till your feelings dissipate.  Don't pout get out there and meet others.\ngood luck
1088901
do you go to church with him? \n\njust keep dating him, you'll eventually have deeper conversations and you'll learn as to where he stands with many issues and by living his life you'll see how important his values/convictions are. you'll know, trust me. you need a man that pushes you to grow. don't worry if he's not for you.\n\nand keep asking God, if he's not for you God will pull a string and you may break up, or God might even tell you himself who you should be with.
704317
Don't make this more complex than it has to be. HE likes you. YOU like him. Tell him you want to move your friendship to the next level and start dating. This is a GREAT thing !!! I am happy for you two.
386980
Just be honest and tell him the truth. I am sure that he will understand why that you are not ready to date yet. If the guy leaves you then you dont need him. Good Luck.
92218
u had better tell him cause he might like u and he might think u dont like him and not make a move on u because he is scared of rejection, go for it
266190
I think he might like you..... But he sounds like he is keeping his options open. Be up front. Say if you don't want to let me go. Then you have to be with just me. Cuz if you want to be with other people  then u must not want to be with me. Ask him how he would feel if you wanted to see or like other people.
427814
i have the same problem except the religion thing. Well if u really like him that shouldnt matter, just telll him how u feel and that yalls religion shouldnt matter, then if ur parents get in the picture talk to them and tell them how u feel about him, and if that doesnt work, ur parents dont ALWAYS have to know who ur goin out w/!!!LOL
707720
Find a new boyfriend.\nRelationships are complicated enough; add on different religions, and relationships become impossible...\nHaving a relationship with someone of your own faith will prove to be a bit less complicated.
194781
One place for you to meet a guy(and take it from me b/c im a guy) is church or even the gym. You have nice men that go there. But the main thing you must know is not to rush it. Don't act desperate for a man,because if you act desperate then that would send out the wrong man radar and then you'll find yourself dating a rapists or something. Your priorty is your children first, but if you want guarentee great men, church. Or maybe even at your job. But dont be in a rush to get a man... the right man would come to you.. and there is a right man for you somewhere.. Just dont go out on dates by yourself.. go in like groups first.