Is it rude to kick and punch someone on the first date?
449254
it depends on situation but if he disrespect u... go on girl!
53001
well im a guy and i know how it is. on first dates guys would like to get a little lap dance and mabey a kiss on the first date.
559984
It is not rude to ask anyone on a date, but if he is really cute, maybe he has many girls like you asking on a date and will not accept, but go for it, you have nothing to lose!
652794
I think so. You don't really know him. You know nothing about him. You are attracted to each other because you are both good looking, unless he or you were drunk. You shouldn't kiss the entire first date!
272771
You should never be uncomfortable with the person you are dating.  I think you know the answer to this...Dating is supposed to be fun and relaxing.
56436
You guys are unbelievable. I can't believe you all are answering questions in the Etiquette area.\n\nSometimes, you just have to put up with listening to stuff you don't want to hear.  Politely excuse yourself, period.  Tell them you have to go.\n\nBeing rude will net you nothing but another enemy. There's no reason for that - you never know when the person you're talking to now will appear again in your life -- maybe a boss, a co-worker, or a friend's friend, or worse, a waitress or waiter who has the ability and opportunity to spit in your food.  It's always a good idea to be polite to everyone, and it's just the right thing to do.
912665
I've had experience with this.  Arrogant and rude guys do not like violent women.  All you have to do is talk about your "experience" the "other day" about a guy who you thought was cute, but then you decided not to respond to the pass he made at you and he made a rude remark.  Tell this brute that you went to college with that you had been thinking about how you've never really done anything about someone being rude in the past and blacked out, grabbed a nearby object/rock/tree branch - take your pick.  Tell him that you smashed the hell out of this guys face and how good you felt doing it.  This "bully" will leave you alone.  Guys like this only go after girls/women who they think will be submissive or in the least be uncomfortable about confronting them about their rude ways.  In the most, he can run around telling every guy he runs into how "crazy" you are, but on the flip side, the other guys will definitely reconsider before being rude with you themselves.  In the least, he'll think about the risks of being with you and I will bet an entire paycheck on it, he's gonna back down.  The key is that when you tell him this, you have to be emotionally charged, convincing, totally out of character, and non-chalant about it.  I've given other young women this advise and they've said it worked.  The other thing is that you can't show him any mercy when he calls you with his problems and wants your "sympathy".  You have to act like you're reading a book while he's talking (if you ever talk to him again), and chew on crunchy things in his ear when he calls.  DO NOT SAY SORRY WHEN HE COMPLAINS.  You say, "hold on ok".  You leave the phone there and you walk away.
532762
No, not at all, if that type of behavior turns your float, floats your shipyard, dismantles your  lock, stock and barrel, then ask him out. And if anyone has a great idea for a first date send them in. Let's help this woman out.\n\n\nGreat question by the way and I'll do the cooking.
883058
If you want to know if it hurts, then it is the most excruciating thing that can be done to a man. (I've never been kicked there but due to my own stupidity and sometimes other stupidity i've been damaged there numerous times).\nIts actually also one of the most dangerous thing to be done to man. A girl in my sisters year at school kicked a boy there (he was being quite the jerk) but he ended up in hospital and needed surgery. The girls family was sued because there was the chance he may not be able to have children. I'm sure this girl felt satisfied but i doubt it was worth it in the end. There was also another situation recently where a friend of mine was getting a lot of unwanted attention from a guy and did the same. She was arrested for assault and now has a criminal record. She also told me she was very satisfied after doing it but since would do anything to take it back.\nMy advice is just to embarrass the guy rather than assault him. If he's a jerk he deserves punishment, but i'm more concerned for the people dishing it out, i wouldn't like anything to happen to these girls or yourself when you are definitley in the right! :)
549227
do you mean on the first date? if you do, don't expect him to call you back.\n\nit depends who you have sex with. it can be really bad if you're not careful....and wait till you good and ready, not when he is
586206
That would depend, If it's your long term girlfriend, wife, sister, best friend or mom, go right ahead! Exclaim loudly  "Damn woman, what the hell did you eat for dinner"?!\nHowever if it's your grandmother, new girlfriend, a stranger, your boss, or a woman you know could actually kick your butt. Just don't - EVER! ( especially to your grandmother)
825852
It's a good idea on the first date - that way no one has any right to expectations of "tit for tat", so to speak.\n\nIf the first date goes well, I've always taken turns.  That sends a clear signal that you're on equal footing financially but want to continue seeing each other just because you like each other.  If you can't afford the same type of restaurant, pick something in your price range when it's your turn - or eat in.  Nothing beats a home-cooked meal for ambiance!
826318
A lot of guys do like it when a girl kicks their a-ss. Obviously his ego is too fragile for that. Don't worry about whether you hurt him or not — you won!
60953
I live in the US where we have become very slopy when it comes to things like this. \nYes, you should stand up. Not only is it rude, it is akward to shake someone's hand while one person is sitting. \nI can see no reason why you would not do this other than sheer laziness.
643773
If you let him kiss you on your first date, shame on you. If he don't kiss you on the second date, shame on him.
693204
Sounds perfectly normal to me. You are just into serious kink, are looking for someone you kick to beat the crap out of you...sort of a sexual thing you have gotten into. No problem, but be careful of lost blood, it can add up. Suggest wearing pointed cowboy boots, kicks are much more effective if you can puncture skin while kicking...very manly. LOL
49183
There are so many "worst" things a guy can do on a first date. \nHere's a short incomplete list:\nnot showing up\nshowing up smelling bad, looking god awful\nwearing dirty clothes\nnose hair\nbad breath\nno cash\nno gas\nno car\nbeing cheap\nstaring at other women\nstaring only at her boobs\nnot opening the door for her\nbeing mean\ntrying to have sex with her\nnot trying to have sex with her\nforgeting the condoms\nthe list goes on and on and on....\nBe aware that there potentially can always be something that will piss her off.