Can a "Love/Hate" relationship ever turn into love?
450772
Haha, I too myself have had similiar relationships. First of all, you guys enjoy making each other mad because both of you have a lot of feelings for each other. It's not that you guys mean to harm one another, it's just another method of "flirting". The both of you can try talking things out and see if you two can get serious. If you really want to get into a relationship & he cares how you feel, then you guys may "soften up". If he doesn't want to, then just continue the way you both are, as long as it does not bring harm.
213113
Personally, I believe that you learn to love someone. All of the men I have ever truly loved took time. When I first met them I had very different opinions of them. Also, you change as you get to know these people. Different people have a lot of new ideas to offer. I think that there is definitely such thing as instant attraction, but if they are ugly on the inside, after you get to know them, that attraction evenually fades.
331175
It is very possible.  Hard, very, and takes some time, but very possible.  If you truely love them, you want them to be happy, even if it's not with you.  Thats why love sucks.  = )   Good luck
181962
yes! although falling in love is a choice, we can still, in some cases, fall in love without knowing it. loving someone is a magical feeling that oftentimes, if not all the time, very hard to comprehend.
921397
That is channeling your negative into a positive.  However, I would say love kicks hates ass.  EXAMPLE:  If somebody tries to destroy that which I hate, it does nothing for me.  Somebody tries to destroy that which I love turns me into the Angel of Death!  A merciless killing machine designed to thwart your design of ruining my existence.  Since I love very few things though, this has yet to come into play.  Hint:  Lave my family alone and you will not be harmed.
77732
no, it is not possible. it is not "love" you feel, it is only your ambition about possessing him or her. i recommend you to read "die Kunst des Liebens" by erich fromm then you'll see what love is.
376967
Yes. Usually when two people fight all the time, a sexual tension builds up. However, that's all it may be. Just physical. I don't think it would be love.
120515
Love cannot be caused to happen. :-)
58953
The way you asked the question, it means you want to transform love into math. I don't think that's possible.
349635
nope, coz deep down...the reason a person who says they hate love... want to be loved. And mark that i said - \n"who says"....coz they want to hate love (for the negative things that happened in life (coz of misjuding love...real love doesnt hurt) ...but love is too powerful positive force to hate.
188389
In my opinion that's not love. Love never exalts itself and it is never self seeking. The emotions have a tendency to run wild when being satisfied, but i wouldn't confuse it with love. \nIf the sex stopped, would you still hang around?
678561
Anyone can change, but only on a personal level. No one can create a change in a person, or cause reason for change. love is love and hate is hate, but only the person in question has the ability to choose how they will react to stimuli.\n\nTrust is also hard to repair, its can be hard to trust an abuser after you have been the recipient of their abuse. Besides that it is natural human behavior to want retribution for suffering, in that, if the abuser truly changed they would have to understand the complex emotional trauma that must be undone and dealt with in the people they have abused. \n\nIf you, or a loved one, is subject to physically OR emotional abuse from a spouse, parents or some other family member please encourage them to get help. Abusive behavior is the result of wanting to gain control, an that control is kept by silence. Just as much as the abuser needs professional help, so do all the recipients of that aggression.
479329
You can't make somebody like or love somebody...love comes gradually and naturally.
984957
You can't.....the true measure of the self is how we handle ourselves through adversity....do we turn to love or not?
328399
just give it time...no it's not love yet it's appreciation...but you never know it could turn into love
680642
Hi Dear,\n\n"Love" is one emotion that cannot be forced into. U can be forced to get angry, Forced to be frighten, Forced to do things u don't want..... but to love or make some one love u is not possible. \n\ni would suggest that you be as you are you inner beauty will draw your true Lover/ love to you... Don't search for love let Love search you.\n\nBest of Luck!!!
47168
Yes, Loves does exist. May not seem like it at times with the divorce rate high like it is. \n\nK