I want to date but guys cant see me?
449814
Your time will come,I see many UGLY girls get guys and I am sure you are not that ugly after all, it's just how you see yourself at this time. Trust me, you will find the one somday,
771555
ok first off, you are GORGEOUS! and you dont need anyone to tell you that....\n\nyou cant be in a realtionship if you are not comfortable with yourself first...if you can't see yourself as beautiful in your eyes, then you will never be satisfied, you need to take the time alone and find your beauty that we all see...when you find that, then you won't worry so much about what others think...and guys will love that
913595
Just be yourself like I am.One day this guy asked me out and i said no after that all the guys started paying attention to me and now i'm in high school they are still think i'm atractive even the people i'm not friends with.good luck and remember be yourself.
871426
Be Careful you don't want to seem desperate, And your not really supposed to be asking guys out anyway. Although it is a bold move and I think that if more women could say what was on there mind there would be a lot more couples together today. And vice versa of course. But my advice to you is to speak your mind be confident. And don't be afraid of rejection. take it slow, be patient but most of all don't settle and Be yourself
141066
First thing you should do is love yourself for who you are.  If you are a size 7 then just make sure you are happy with that.  Boys who only date girls who are a certian way are superficial and will miss out on a lot in their lives.\n\nSecond, If you are not happy with yourself then do things that are healthy and will improve you.  You(like all of us) are a work in progress.  It is always a good thing to impove what you have.\n\nYour date will come.  Not everything that looks good is good for you.  If you are not happy how you are then even if he did date you, then you would be worried that he would want to leave.  If you are happy with yourself then the right guy will see that you are confident and that will be attractive all by itself.
860496
you seem like you are too into yourself.  try talking to guys, some guys wait for the girl to make the frist move.  i mean hell, if you live in ohio ill be happy to take you out on a date:) try to relax and be more friendly and more socialable...hope that helps
775927
There is nothing wrong with that.  One problem is that maybe a lot of men you are meeting don't like that or you are not getting out there and finding available guys.  Are you overly picky on the type of man you will only date?  You also might need to look in the mirror and mind your dress and style.  Also work on your flirting and interactions with men.  Two words:  Self-confidence.  If you are doing any of the said mentioned, then you shouldn't have problems meeting and dating guys.
26582
Dont' worry girlfriend!I was in the same boat as you before.I did the bar scene, all my friends were in relationships, and that's what i wanted desperately.So, i would settle, and i got losers.Alot of guys would hit on me, but i just wanted to date, than i would call them back after, and they had a girl.Too late.So, in that time, I just felt out who i was, what i wanted, and focased on my career. That's when i thought, hay, i can just weed out these guys who just wanted a good time.Well, it worked.I wasn't looking for a guy.My true love had found me.When you are least expecting it, it will hit you in the ass.What i am saying is, relax, and it will come.Do not be desperate, and settle. He will find you! Get out there and do stuff that you like, and he will be there waiting for you.Good luck!
219598
sometimes, depends on the guy I'd like you and I don't know you.  but If I got to know you then it would be a certain thing.  some guys just want whats under your clothes not your skin. Get back to me when you get this resolved firedgaffney@yahoo.com
724379
okay, i have been in your shoes so i can understand where you are coming from, its not easy dating  a white guy,most times when i and friends go out (they'd stare, smile, wink), they do all that but never approach, 2ndly am still a virgin, am 19 and am in my 3rd year of university..so u know what....take this from me....don't worry..talk to people, being shy can be very good but you need to come out of the cocoon okay (at your own pace) don't mind what everybody says, it's your life.....i saw your pics and your'e a pretty girl so just go with the flow for now......i was also raised to feel the guy had to make the first move,  but you soon realise its a 2 way street (someday your'e gonna feel daring and you'll go for it) just take things easy.....when it comes, it comes..if not go out there and get it (cautiously)......as for having a child like face...watever....it's your face.....if they aren' t impressed by that wow them with your mind.......\nhope this helps......
632662
It's probably that the guys you hang out with consider you "one of the lads" You've been freinds with them so you're more like a sister to them than girlfriend material. \n\nYou should get to know some guys that you're not already friends with and be flirty and maybe a little bit girly too. Some guy will ask you on a date I'm sure.
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WAY too little information!  Can you tell more about your sitution?  Feel free to email me if you'd prefer.  1st thing I'll want to know is how old you are.\n\nAnyway, here's a very general answer for starters:  Maybe you are projecting an attitude of disinterest or unapproachability.  For instance, there definitely IS such a thing as being 'too cool.'  Most people want to spend time with people who show an interest in them.  If you're not sending clear enough signals of your interest, many guys won't bother risking what looks like a very good chance of rejection.
53309
Your biggest problem is your self image. You need to learn that you have plenty of great qualities and boost your self esteem instead of reducing yourself to your own negative perception of your appearance. The guys you really want to know could care less that you are a little overweight. It's what's inside that counts. Smile ;0)
514408
You need to find a way to build your confidence.  No offense, but you don't sound like you have much.  Having low self esteem in the dating world is like smearing cheese whiz all over yourself: rats will be chasing you.  Try to build a fun life for yourself that doesn't depend on having male company.  When men see that you're alone and having fun, and you're NOT needy, they'll want to spend more time with you.  Get a life, and men will want to share it with you.\n\nRemember:  being alone is WAY better than being stuck with a loser!
309154
try arranging to 'run into him" kinda. find out someplace you know he might be and try to show up at the same time. " oh, hey. what are you up to, i know it's been a minute since i said what's up, but, um, what's up ?" just try to be confident, don't be too nervous or you'l fer sure slip on the dufus rag. good luck, man-and remeber this-no one is out of anyone's league. I don't know what you look like, and it doesn't even matter. if YOU believe in you, most everyone else will, too. If YOU do evrything you can to FEEL attractive, most people will think that you are, too.i hope you rope yer cowboy, hun. good luck.
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The key to attracting a guy is simple.  First you have to be confident and like who you are.  Second, you have to take a chance and let a guy know your interested.  Third, don't play his games, be in a relationship that you want that you deserve.
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You need to accept what you are and develop positive qualities.  Did you know that the image you project is directly related to how people respond to you?  If you are confident, people find you attractive because this is a desirable trait.  Change you attitude about yourself is an authentic manner, and people will respond.\n\nI have seen beautiful women and "hunky and handsome" men not get a date.  It's because of the insecurity and arrogance they portray.  Sexy is a state of mind.