my bf was supposed 2 cum up to my work and eat with me but he stood me up for his friends shud i b mad @ him?
454646
your boyfriend sucks...you are never supposed to stand a beautiful woman like yourself up to go hang out with your "boys"...you tell him for me that there are a lot of men out here that would love to be with you , and we wouldn't stand you up...
537524
I would be going mad! I wouldn't trust him, i bet he is going to shag a load of hookers!  If he loves you he would of invited you let alone not let you go!  He's taking you for a fool, dump him, you dont deserve it, find yourself a bloke you can rely on, and trust.
1149809
yea, it was wrong of u to lie to him in the first place. but from how i see it, i dont think u should just sit around and wait for him to come around. who knows when he'll get over it? n the idea of him suggesting u two becoming sex buddies made me confused about his intentions. and men dare say women are complicated! but anyway, i think u should just go out and see other people. if he gets upset, ask him what are u suppose to do? wait for him until he realises that he wants u more than a sex buddy? what would that make u? sounds pretty desperate to me... BUT, if your heart thinks he's worth it and he is more than what u made him appear to be, then stay home, be good, show him you're worth falling in love with, and keep waiting. just make sure u're happy. it's all that matters.
93221
I began writing a quick, "guys will be guys response," but then I saw your additional info.  The important question here is, why are you still with this guy?  It's unacceptable to behave that way in the situation you describe, and it shows a lack of respect for you and your relationship.
1133751
He's being a jerk.....because he made plans with you. That is extremely rude.\n\nHow long have you been dating. Maybe, he feels that you are guys are in that 'comfort zone' where he can do stuff like that.  You need to tell him why you're mad though.
1060702
yeah like he said you should ask him first before making assumptions ....you need to apologize and hope next time keep your jealousy under control...otherwise you will drive him away wihtout the help of other women!!
491969
I THINK HE IS JUST BUSY AND YOU SHOULD DEAL WITH IT LIKE I DID (AND STILL ARE) WITH MY BOYFRIEND. IT IS NORMAL, DON'T WORRY
549500
He has a strong sex drive. Skipping work once in a while to have sex sounds like fun to me though. He's probably not going to change how often he wants sex - why do girls always think they can change their boyfriend? You may need someone who's slightly less needy. That sounds a little excessive to me - he could be using that to control you. He is also not considerate of you in trying to manipulate you into doing more. The getting mad part is a huge problem - you shouldn't put up with that.
459019
Wow maybe you should try  give him some comments back when he tells you something nice! believe me we man like a lady in the streets but a freak in in the sheets so dont try to compete with the slutish. ask him wats he doing on the weekend or somting  then said something like you want to go see ice age2 or something see if he invites you. if that dont work then you should try to talk to him and let him know how you feel if that dont work\n leave him alone for while see wat he does if then let it go!
130844
I think thats why he called you a psycho right there... your reading to much into simple words and look how upset you have gotten yourself. A guy dealing with a chic like that...is not at ease, he always has to becarefull what he says to not freak you out. Maybe you have been a little clingy lately or something. Talk to him later on today, if everything seems fine then just blow it off as passing conversation. It sounds to me like he was trying to make light of you missing him, a form of trying to cheer you up, or maybe just trying to get you to talk about something less sad/depressing. No worries though, ask him about it when your feeling more calm.
338585
Your not doing anything wrong, he is a friend and if your bf becomes jealous maybe he isn't the right bf for you. Karma may come back on you but you have to determine if want to be with a jealous person.
191589
well..personally, i would have been a little offended if you had called me up and told me you couldnt go all the sudden...mainly because it seems like the way you told him wasnt exactly sorry, or anything...i think you should have been sweet and called him up and just explained what happend and ask if you could go on the date maybe later, or another day, and be really sweet about it...on the other hand, i think he overreacted and he should have at least called you and told you it was over...i think its okay for you to call him..you both should talk through this and either make up and get back together, or make up and go your sepreate ways...and for in the future, always talk about whats going on, and be sweet about it..guys have a tendency to be stupid and think that if you cant do something you dont want to be with them..i kind of went through this with my gf a bit, and now we talk through everything and even though we disagree on stuff and sometimes get upset with each other, we can always work through it and make each other happy :) good luck!
786616
maybe HE wanted you to be part of his sex life. And you turned him down after you got him excited. I would be mad at you, too.
622974
Your boyfriend is using the situation to manipulate you into doing his sexual fantasy.  He has got this idea into his head as to what he wants you to do, and now he is looking for any excuse to get you to do it.  He probably wasn't even that mad about the phone call, he just saw an opportunity to get his way.\n\nFrankly, the guy sounds like a loser.  He is trying to completely control you and force you to do things you don't want to do using emotional blackmail.  Move on.
1005746
He is a shy guy and you are is second girlfriend. Give him time to be comftable around you. He is probably nervous that you will not like him. I am shy too, but after a while I'll trust and feel comftable around guys I meet. \n\nBut I don't get the part of his friends following him when he was following you.
975286
you have every right to be concerned, i would be too. the choices you make with regards to what your against are your right to make.  it seems like your man is friends with a rotten bunch of guys but ultimately he is a man and if he stoops to their level then he is just as bad as they are. i really feel for you because i can really relate to your situation. i am sure you really love him and are not ready quite yet to give up on things. you need to deal with him over the sex issue and get to the bottom of that because thats where alot of your insecurities come from. when it comes to his friends i will tell you from experience that the more you express how much you dislike them the more he will want to be friends with them simply because he is a man and doesnt want to be controlled by you. you're going to need to bite your tongue on the friend issue and play it smart. you are going to have to act as though the issues with his friends is not there and if he is going to have some fun with then why shouldnt you go out with your girlfriends and have a great time without him. act confident and secure despite how you really feel and that will grab his attention. let him wonder whats going on with you and why you seem so happy. fake it til you make it whether its with or without him. the odds are in your favor if play it cool and if after a while things dont improve and you're still unhappy you need to move on.  time will only tell where your relationship is headed but do not compromise your morals and values so he can live his life and have a good woman like yourself. just keep your eyes and ears open for anything out of the ordinary but try not to let it consume you because that alone can ruin what may be left of your relationship.
989926
you need to sit down together and find out why he get home so late as you find iy disrespectful. if he can't give you a straight answer he may be cheating on you. i would'nt make him choose between his freinds and you though because it just another argument that i don't think you'd win.\nask yourself if you can trust him because if you can't then the relationship is doomed to a dumping.