I have this cruse on a family friend for along time i'm 13 he is 17 should i tell him i like him or not?
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Well if this message is for me then, I guess I already know.\n\nYou may not want to tell him because once he turns 18 he can't show any romantic relations for you do to the law.\n\nBut, say you will wait for him, if he promises to wait for you to turn 18. This is for him to stay single or true to you, hopefully. Its not an exact relationship to be in but hey; its love. If he feels that the two of you shouldn't date or what not he should be kind enough to tell you nicely that it may not work between the two of you.\n\nBut, feel free to tell him that you have a crush on him. It will make him feel happy to know that he is adored by younger girls.\n\nI sure do hope to God that you didn't mean the word CURSE!
138057
Im having the same problem... and im in the 8th grade too....(check out my ?) well ne ways i called his older sister and she told me how he felt about me and gave me advise, i was sooo glad she did. If he doesnt have an older sibling that you can talk to, then ask one of his friends....they will tell.. trust me.... ok check out my question.... thanx
1093566
it took me a while to read  ur weird english,anyways ,why not if he is only 5 years older thats not a big deal..u dont have to be the same age to like him.good luck.
1044433
you should keep on dating him its not whats on the outside that matters its what is on theinside imagine if you do break up with him how hes gonna feel and you 2 if u love being wit him and he might be the one stick wit him and you should tell ur family that his race or age doesnt matter
689941
i think ur too serious about luv since ur only 13, but it sounds pretty commiting . u should ask and see if he feels the same about u before u get into any thing
495535
you should tell him maybe he feels the same way too. I told my guy friend i liked him and now i am marreid with twins on the way. you never know unless you tell him who knows maybe he is your destiny and keeping this from him can change your faith.
780344
u're right, at ur age u should be able to go straight to him and ask him if he feels the same way...u have to do that, there's nothing to loose especially if u say u have very strong feelings for him.\npull urself together and tell him how much u like and appreciate him and if he feels the same ask for his phone number.\nas for ur friend if her brother likes u , well then too bad for her...she'll just have to accept it.\nmuch courage to u !
35348
you shouldn't tell him unless you know for sure he likes you too. he might get scared and it would be weird afterwards if he doesn't like you back.
82180
go for it. tell him. what's the pro? be wiser and be brave. nothing is as good in our world as expression of feelings.\n\ngood luck
484579
your going way too fast. Your only 13. And you don't want to get labled as the neighborhood slut. Tell him you like him and would like to become better friends. But if you do invite hiom over to your house make sure your parents are around.
643803
you should talk it over with your family and tell them why you like the person. then try to get everyone together and make minor adjustments to see if that helps. for the record family ties are very important, but you have a life of your own and you need to live it.
818779
if you like him it really doesn't matter what your friends thinks...besides, being older can be an advantage in a relation.\nand if you waited for three years, come on! you shouldn't give up just because some fuss\nif you leave him just because of the age, and because of your friends, it would be really silly and insensitive with your own feelings.\nIndepending on the age, you can be good together, and when your heart is broken and you feel alone, there's nothing your friends could do for you (nothing like being with the one you want!)\ngo for it.....care about your feelings....
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well i think you should tell A your feelings about him and you never know he mite like you too but he is just to indarist to tell you. then with C u should tell him that you dont like him that u like someone eles because if he finds out that you like someone eles he is going to be hurt but its better hearing it from you that someone eles!
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Hi\n\n  The only thing that I would have to suggest is to just try and talk to him and tell him how you really feel. If he is mature about the situation tell him it should not matter what his friends think if he really likes you. I know it is hard because everyone wants almost everyone to like them when your in high school and you don't want to appear different. In the end it is his choice and I hope all works out for you both. I hope I helped!
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If you really like the guy then go for it.You should never be afraid to let someone you like know how you really feel.Even if your scared of his reaction,you should just do what your heart tells you to do and don't have any regrets,because whatever decision you take,it's sure to be the right one.\n                         Eric
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Be honest to yourself and him. Tell him now or you will regret it when you get older. Write it down or tell him face to face. Tell them upfront so when you get older you wont think of it as much, at least you will know how he feels about you good or bad. GOOD LUCK
92218
u had better tell him cause he might like u and he might think u dont like him and not make a move on u because he is scared of rejection, go for it