i want to have a three some with my hubby how do i go about asking him and finding the other guy?
436547
If your asking this question your husband may not be accepting of this kind of conversation. Why not watch a movie with a threesome like Dreamers and follow it up with a stimulating conversation.  The movie will provide proper block so no accusations can fly about.  Maybe offering to have a threesome with a woman may allow him to become more open to the idea.  Good luck, it's a wonderful experience if your in the right relationsip, with a trusting man.
526766
You could go and ask one of his guy friends that you can trust.
1147578
talk to him on the phone first, make sure he is not some weirdo.  If you decide to meet him, make sure it is at a public place and bring a friend with you.  Good luck.  I met my husband online and we have been together for 3 years and have a 18 month old daughter.  \nJust be cautious!
1103150
bring in another partner..3some
820389
Go for the 3some man!!
310684
I hate to say it but yeah its normal for a guy to want a 3some.  Just be honest with him, tell him why you don't want to have one, let him know what bothers you about the idea of having a 3 some, but don't get upset if he gets upset at you for not wanting to experiment with him.  Good luck
70613
You should try the website below.  It helps couples meet other couples for "fun".
432518
Ummmmm - that should be pretty easy.  EVERY guy wants a threesome.  he is probably wondering how to approach you about bringing another girl into the bedroom....
987364
As some one who has done open relationships for the last 5 years, I can tell you that your husband can cheat on you with or without you there.  Is there a chance he'll leave you for this third girl?  Yeah, its small but not impossible.  But there is also a chance he'll leave you for a woman he works with or the babysitter or someone from your church.   There is always a chance that people can betray us, can leave us, and can fundamentally screw us the f*ck over.  However, I've seen a lot more lies, cheating, and general-fucked-up-ness in the "closed" relationships of those around me then in my open ones.  In an open relationship, when you want something, you ask and discuss and set reasonable boundries.  In a mongamous relationship, you hide your desires, get all secretive and weird, and end up sneaking around and lying to your partner.\n\nBut this shouldn't be your primary concern in having a threesome. \n\nIn order to be really ready to have a threesome, you have to feel like \n1) pretty damn sure you're so awesome that you know that your hubby won't leave you      AND\n2) sure that if he does, that it is not in any way shape or form your fault.  It's because he's the jerk not you.\n\nYou're coming off insecure here, and only you can decide how insecure you are and how far you want to go.  Don't jump into anything with serious serious issues, because it isn't fair to any of the three of you.  It's not fair to your hubby to do fake being ok and do this half-assed, its not fair to you to do something you're nto ready for, and it certainly isn't fair to your 3rd, who has nothing to do with any of this and shouldn't have to deal with your issues.  \n\nIf you don't want to have an open relationship, don't have an open relationship.  It's that simple.  Having a threesome doesn't summerily force you into anything you don't want - and anyone telling you otherwise is a total f*cker.  \n\nThere is a lot of stuff to worry about with threesomes (who?  how?  where?  what is ok?  what is off limits?  why do we want this?  when?  does one of you want it more?  etc).  But if your own insecurities about losing your partner are the first thoughts on your mind, then you need to slow down and get yourself all fixed up self esteem-wise before you rush into this.
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I'ts hot to think that two women would wanna be with us and pleasure us, at the same time !!!!\nWouldn't YOU like to have two men pleasuring YOU, at once ????  WINK\nEmail me at    wildmanblonde@yahoo.com and we can chat !!!\nLove,   Sean
316159
See if they are both up for a threesome
234882
hi. I tried and I found 5 guys by that name. They are all over the U.S so its up to you.
243683
Just ask him, if he says yes then yipee!!! If not, then ask out another guy!
586851
OK...all the answers have a good point....but here is another side of the coin...First off, Did he say you needed to be with the other girl.????\nI have been in a couple of threesomes myself and the ladies where both straight...Now another point....think about maybe having a threesome with him and another man..both guys for your pleasure...See what he says about that....If you go to him with this idea.....Hey you want to have a threesome...OK....you and I and another man....If he is really a player or a swinger he will say OK..or he will forget about the whole thing.\n\nNow on the issue of needing sex....I am 41 years old...I grave sex all the time..I can never get enough sex...Is it a medical problem......HELL NO....It is a guy problem.Tell me of any guy that does not think of sex all the time..I will show you a gay man...\n\nThe issue of not being able to leave him bothers me...Why you say.????\nWe all have the right as being american to choose our paths in life...If his path is not going in the direction of your path..then hun it is time to cut bait...\nI am not sure of your age or your lifestyle.....I just wish more people would think of themselfs in times like this and make a move to better them selfs.it is not like it would involve anything other then your future.....Think about it....\nIf you would like to chat about the swing lifestyle feel free to e-mail me at tanear1964@yahoo.com..I have been a swinger for 18 years....I may be able to give you a little more insite into the world....I hope this helps....
836039
Oh God...more of those?!! If you don't know how to make up your mind which guy you want and you are seeking advice online, sorry but there's something wrong there...\n\nOh, and if it helps,choose the new guy...of course he deserves a chance the poor guy...oh, bless
24654
YoU wIlL Get HIM  BAbE!!! WhY wouLd He DumP THe OtHeR 2 IF ThErE WaSnT SoMeONe BettEr???  You WeRe LasTTTTT!!!!!!
394417
quit being a wuss and just ask him :-)