going out with friends every blue moon i have a boyfriend that don't likeit but he don't want to go nowhere
446279
for crying out loud\nget rid of him\nto many guys would want you\ngo have fun'\nlife is way to short and it goes by way to fast for this type of stuff\nget rid of him now
978478
you should congratulate yourself on your decision, and realize that it was the RIGHT one.  If he is so immature as to treat you poorly just because you didn't go out with him, then it's obvious that he would have been a bad choice for you.  He needs to grow up.
270926
You can't go out because:\n\n1) Because you let your boyfriend tell you you can't.\n2) Because your boyfriend is an ass.\n3) Because you haven't dumped him.\n\nThat pretty much sums it up.\n\nI'm not saying the ideal couple never spends time together or doesn't care where the other goes, but he's gone way overboard.
232973
Dump him and go with me.\n=P hahaha\nWhy not try to have a couple date with him and see what happen next?
793355
Don't try to change his mind about what he want it will only make him think that you depend on him.Just get with your friends and do something and let him along cause you don't need to be with some one that don't want to be with you.Try to do something to make yourself happy.When you see him act like you happy so he want think that he running things.
63313
U should be glad he isnt the partying type. Do you know how many ladies would love that. Is there more to this than you're saying? Or do you think maybe you're being a little insecure. You have to realize he needs his space such as you do. Its not good to be around each other all the time. Make him miss you.If the realationship is strong, him going to a party should in no way pose a threat to your relationship. Give him the benefit of the doubt. You should go out w/ some friends or do something when he goes out to take your mind off it.
332519
My boyfriend is the same way, it's work work work and when he's home he's always fixing something outside. He never wants to go to anywhere that's fun. I make him set aside a day out of the month where we spend together. We write things down and put them in a hat, some things would be like going fishing, movies, dinner, a day at the zoo, anything fun that we can think of. We put them in the hat and pick one and that's what we do.
734409
I am in the same boat as you, and I have the exact same feelings. I think that we have this problem because people around us are dating, and we're not so we feel left out. Just try to have fun with your friends, like I do. You'll stop wondering about your romantic future. Who knows...maybe you'll see him that night. Just make sure that isn't the only goals to your plan.
693084
Tell your boyfriend that you don't appreciate his friends "attentions".  That should cure it....
534434
I haven't been through that.  For me, it's usually if I go out with them 1 or 2 times and I see that I don't like him, than I'm not going to put myself through for what I might think would be a bad relationship in the future.  It's not about whether they respect you or not for not giving them a chance to be with you, it's more about chemistry.  Either it's there or it's NOT there.  I wouldn't waste my time or his time.
362426
Sounds like he just wants you to be a groupie of his. If you don't want to, then stick to your guns! Give him the cold shoulder, if you have to. You don't need him.
784428
Just because he is bored of being single, unfortunately doesn't mean he will automatically want to go out with you.  Maybe he wants to take your mate out instead.\n\nAsk him out yourself, to be sure.
237590
Ask him if he'd like to go out sometime.  If he says OK you're on your way.  If he says no you can quit wasting your time on him.
760521
Sounds like he just wanted to hang out with a friend... and this would probably go over nicely with you if you liked his friends. People's friends reflect who they are. I think the issue here is, are you willing to accept your boyfriend, and his friends, the way they are? He has something in common with these friends and that is why they hang out together. Wouldn't it be nice to have a boyfriend with friends you truly liked? Don't pick a fight about this.. it is who he is. What is there to fight about? I'd take a long, good hard look at your companion and decide if he's offering you what you want.
502979
if he won't go out with you, then there is nothing that you do that can change his mind...he is not right for you then...there are better guys who will appreciate you more
545128
I'm the type of girl that gets mad for everything.My man no better then to tell we that "He is going to go out with a girl other then me" YOU CRAZY! let me tell you something man are real crazy well they think that they are.he telling you that they are just friends did you ever hear that song AND YOU SAY HE JUST A FRIEND PLEASE! he want to get to no these girls that he is going out with and if you don't stop it now then he will find something he like in them and leave your @SS. so put a stop to that and fast. ask him why you and him can't go out ?or when he do go out with them can you go too?.girl if you want to keep your man you better get on his @ss don't even let him try to cheat on you.AND THAT IS REAL.
987988
Try to do some things to comfort him like maybe not hanging out AS MUCH with guy friends. Doesn't mean you have to completely stop hanging out with them but do more things with your b/f than you do with other guys. Little things liek that. If he wants you to change more and you don't feel comfortable doing so then don't change. He'll either get over it or the relationship will end.