I have been dating my boyfriend going on 5 yrs now i want to leave him what should I do?
451426
I think you should seek a counselor.
1180340
Plenty of fish in the sea. Chances are even if you date this guy you will not be with him in 5years.
1001344
LEAVE HIM!!!!  I HAD ONE OF THOSE .. DIDNT LEAVE HIM WHEN I SHOULD OF AND NOW HAVE A KID WITH HIM...\n\n\nIT ONLY GETS WORSE.... TRUST ME..... AND YOU KNOW WE DISERVE BETTER.. THERE REALLY IS MEN OUT THERE WILLING TO SPENT THERE LAST PENNY ON YOU RATHER THEN ON THEM SELF...\n\nIF YOU CONSIDERE THIS A PROBLEM AND YOU ARE ONLY DATING HIM WAIT TILL REALITY HITS YOU WHEN YOU LIVE TOGETHER....\n\nYOU NEED A MAN TO TAKE CARE OF YOU ...\nNOT A CHILD TO LOOK AFTER...
266959
Just do it and get it over with. Why do you want to break up if you love him so much?
539025
5 hours is nothing.Take a long weekend and spend some time together.And switch off,he comes to see you,you go to see him next.But you really have to trust each other to make it work.
68740
hell no! you should leave him because from the start, knowing his sexual preference, the relationship would never work. Face facts, what would you feel if he started going out with other guys? You can save yourself from more pain if you let him go
458021
i had that problem before i accually am going through the sane thing right now but have found  as long as theres is mutual love and trust in the relationship it will work for a long time i have had a relationship where i only saw my girlfirend onnce every six months as well and we stayed toghether for three yrs and then she moved and we lost touch but if you really love him and trust him stay with it. otherwise talk to him and ask him what he thinks would be best for the two of u. wheather that would mean breaking up or staying together. just follow ur heart and u will find out what to do! :) good luck
184423
Then leave, its that simple.  If you are not happy and neither of you are going to change, you will never be happy with him.
670273
i think you need to have a heart 2 heart talk. lay you cards out and be open with him. just because you dont spend time together like you used to dose not mean it should be over. in relationships things change and the only way to keep the rship alive is to adapt to the change. maybe he thinks you are the one who is changing. you will never know if you dont find out. if you care about him you wont let him go. good luck
502623
Sounds to me like you need a break, at least for awhile. You need to re-assess where you're headed in this relationship, and whether or not , that's where you WANT it to go. Take a while off, and get away from him.....see if you really want to continue....or not!
474622
you need to sit him down and tell him how you feel. it sounds like it is time to slow things down, alot. you both need to sit and talk about what the 2 of you want out of this relationship. when the 2 of you are on the same page it will be alot easier.
441703
It is easy to sit here looking in and say leave, but only you know what is right for you. If you are asking this question then you already have one foot out the door only you can decide if you want to walk all the way out. Look deep inside yourself and decide what you really want and what bothers you in the relationship. Tell him how you feel and if things don't change put that other foot out and start your new life.
1005449
you have doubts!!!?? write them all out and think whether the objections you have right now -aka the things about your man that you are not so happy about - and really THINK and decide whether these are the things you are willing to live with for the rest of your life. If in 5 years you will still think those things about him are as bad as they are now ( well bad enough to give you doubts). Its better to do a favor to both of you and be very SURE before committing to marriage. Good luck =)
374552
Seems to me the best way to address the situation is to be forthright and talk to him about your concerns.  If your decision is to move on to find someone more accessible to you, then say that.  There is no real way to break up with someone that won't result in hurt feelings.  But to be true to yourself and the most fair to your boyfriend, tell him how you feel and what you want.  Personally, I would recommend doing it face to face, even though it may be uncomfortable.  You may want to continue seeing one another after talking about it, but if it does end, be able to step away knowing that in the long run it may be the best thing for your both.
1091699
It sounds like your doing fine as you are.\nStay in school.  Loook forward to college and getting a good job.\nIf he is still the one, then he will be fine with keeping things the way they are, and you can make it more permanent in about 5 years.
875941
Ok- you may not like what I am going to tell you but this \nrelationship isn't really what you want because if it was, you wouldn't have all these doubts.\n\nSweetie, you need to value yourself, your life, and your time.  You can't be this man's rescuer.  After 5 years you've got to recognize that if you plan to live a fulfilling life, stop doing what doesn't work.
10725
If you really want to be with him give him some time to sort things out.  If he wants to be with you he will come around and end his other relationship but time is key since breaking up is not an easy thing to do wether you want to be with the person or not.