How do i get break up with a guy who has done nothing but bought me stuff? I feel obligated to stay w/ him!?
446161
Ha ha!  He got you good, the more he buys, the more you oblige!  Hooked ya!
836787
Does he really want you? Will he continue to shower you with affection after he has got you?\n\nIs the guy you are with asking for the things you are spending your money on or are you just buying them assumng that he wants them?\n\nThe fighting is another issue. Does he prefer saving money for the future? New car or house? If so, you cannot fault him for that.\n\nThe important thing to remember is that being spoiled rotten with gifts is not love and in the end will not make you completely happy. It seems like you need to do a little soul searching.
396441
Dear Am I Being Unreasonable:\n  I know how you are feeling unfortanely I have been in that same situation but I was on the other side. I had a best friend whom I had forever when I started dating this guy.Well the boy friend didnt like that fact that we "hung out" so much. He "just knew" that we were doing something. Well it turns out he was right we were and actually ended up getting married after a long drawn out process. The point Im trying to make is if your boyfriend is keeping things from you and lying then you dont need him. You deserve better. It sound like he wants his cake and eat it too. A realtionship is built on trust (or suppose to be). I haop that I have helped. I have enclose my email and yahoo messenger if you want to hit back at me !!
188419
I think it all happend because you've been a little too much committed to him, and he knew it always. If you try to grab it so hard then you'll be ending up losing it. You'll have to let it go, and its not only your duty to put it together. My advice would be, let it go and show him that you don't care, and if it comes back in a short time then take it back, and know that he was always yours, and if it doesn't then you have to agree that it has never been yours.
9077
break it off.  If you don't "feel" right around him, then it would really be better to stop the relationship soon, especially if he is giving you money, as that may create some animosity later.
208568
Well before you do anything you need to get your life in order and become self sufficiant.  Because if you break it off now he might just leave you to fend for your self and you don't sound prepared for that.  Ultimately though, yes, you need to find a better relationship than this one.
700216
Break up and find a different boyfriend.  By staying , you're encouraging him to stay the way he is.
537187
just tell him that u left cuz you were upset because he said that you cant be trusted. i dont blame u for walking out on him, unless you gave him a reason to not trust you. just be mature and tlak to him.
790107
At the end of the day, you have to put yourself first. That can be easier said than done, but you do yourself no favours by staying in a relationship that causes you unhappiness. When you do eventually walk away, you will soon realise that it was a good decision, and you will feel better for it. In fact, you will wonder why you did not do it before. No good person wants to break a relationship, but no bad relationship is worth the suffering of a good person. It is your goodness that he is exploiting, but he probably does it unknowingly, because he is not well. I imagine that he needs help, but professional help, and that there is nothing that he will let you do for him. Maybe your departure will alert him to his defects. Let's hope so.
498249
It's still early on in the relationship. If you don't feel it's the appropriate amount to spend, I'd talk to him and let him know how you feel.  And maybe come to terms with a spending amount for both of you. I know you may want to get it for him to make him happy, but then you may resent it and this feeling will not be good towards the start of your relationship.  You have to do it from the heart.
303808
FIRST: KICK HIS SISTER OUT!!\nSECOND: KICK HIS STUFF OUT!!\nTHIRD: BRING HOME A HOTTIE AND GIT IT ON WITH HIM!!\n\nand why do you love a loser who cheats on you. Instead go out, party, have fun and better yet keep his stuff and sell it on ebay and make extra money so you can go buy yourself designer apparell and maybe go on a vacation and meet hot new guys!! =P
992419
i'm in the same situation.....i guess the ball is in your court now...play it cool to see what he wants. Then you decide if you wanna be with him or not...he might do it again and break up with you.
928709
Don't buy him anything. Bake him something. Or spend money on a fun event you guys can plan - something you can both enjoy and from which you can create memories. \n\nYou're only 13, broke, as you say, and your relationship is very new. Christmas is a time for celebrating life and the people in our lives. Don't let capitalism lure you into the stores and trick you into spending money you don't have. \n\nJust a little tip from me to you.
65502
It sounds like if he's truly understood that you're gonna break it off with him and yet he still hasn't changed his attitude, then he's probably wanting you to break it off. Maybe it's one of the whole, "I don't want to do it so I'll MAKE her do it" type things. Give him this last chance, try to go out and do something that both of you enjoy without the distraction of friends and family. Let him know that it really does bug you when he acts this way. If he still seems like he wants to hang on and will change, you decide, you go for it or maybe you've had enough. But if he's STILL acting that way by the end of the "date" call it quits. Move on to a guy who'll treat ya better! Good luck girl!
1002354
Sit down with him and tell him exactly what you posted. Well, maybe leave out the 'loathe' part but he deserves to know the rest. \n\nDon't stay with someone simply because of the financial obligations YOU have. That's unfair to both parties.
620164
honestly!\n\nwhy are you bothering?\n\nYou'll end up the person who will be supporting his habit 'cause he needs to borrow $20 (and he promises to pay you back, and he never does!)\n\nHe'll sweet talk you, he's probably got a way with words... but you'll be wasting your time! What do you expect to get out of this relationship?\n\n...And to top this off, be weary he'll eventually be stealing from you too! (This will definitely happen if he's out of work, can't hold a job down!)
764065
The boyfriend doesn't respect the gift he bought for you - and doesn't respect you.  Is it your gift or a leftover?  It sounds like you need a new boyfriend.