I am 65 years old and have fallen in love with 20years old girl, what should I do ? our background is muslim.?
448356
what??????????????????????? no way!!!! that is sick!! u need to find someone that is ur own age to mess around with and let that girl lead a full and happy life!!!!!!!!
1137947
why not!!! Age difference doesn't matter, once the two people get on great. All the best for the future! Love doesn't know any limits!!!!
948527
I had a heart throb when I was young but married another.  God knew best now I can hardly remember her.  Once a bond is made it is for life.  You may get another chance if she dies but until that happens you need to hunt another. Life goes on  God will fill your void.  There is another, look for him.
1074495
Sad to hear this. I know the feeling of giving your all to that one girl you truly love. I believe you that it is far more than sex...it's love and companionship. It's that wonderful feeling that you have when you're with her whether in silence or not. The sad part is that she avoids discussing things to questions you deserve answers to.\n\nAt your age, I bet the feeling must be harder. I don't think no answer can quench your thirst but her honesty to why things can't be the same again.\n\nWhen did things started to change? Look back to what you might have done wrong or probably she is not really serious about spending her life with you.  A lot of times, we got to accept the hard facts that things are beyond our control and we have no choice but to accept and move on. \n\nWhat can we do with the pain but acknowledge it and eventually accept and carry on with our lives. Things might not be the same again but surely one day, you'll fall in love over again when you least expect. \n\nGood luck. This stage is hard but things will change, don't let this destroy your life.
727164
huh?...well what the hell I'll take a stab at it anyway...do you love someone already? then marry them...if not and you are not likely to meet anyone for whatever reason and you are getting older...go for the arranged marriage...never know you might love him after a while...it could happen..
1097805
u are 28 and mature enough to take decisions of ur life.first b sure that u love her or its just that u want to have sex with her as u are attracted to her.if u really love her and so does she then just go ahead but u should also take care of -ve aspects of ur age difference.
1140762
Love has no bounds... age is not a concern if the girl will also love you... now the question is how to know that the girl loves you... simple... go and ask her..  the more you will delay, the more hard it will be for saying... it may also be too late... cos she is 24 i guess and many of the guys might already be approaching her.... \ndon't delay buddy... if she is the girl you always wanted in your life.... tell her... thats the only way out...no other go...... \nwhether it is love or not.... well.... you already explained that it is love and not infactuation..... you did so much of her background study... welll.. it has to be love only dude.....
452700
I dated and married a 24 year old when I was 18. Go for it!
696914
I have been with my girlfriend for 8 years . she is 27 yrs older than me. Age is not a factor unless you are  looking for sex then wait till you are 18. in the meantime ask her out . And do not worry about the fact her father is a pastor: today is not  where the ministers of this world teach fire and brimstone!!! If you are a respectable man than the pastor will have no problem with you seeing his daughter.
604969
Why would you not get married its not like you are 65 years old. I no real hurry just wait for your real love to find you. You will see that every thing that you have done has been to prepare you for that real love.
1099911
hi there, this must be a huge dilemma you're facing. i have experienced this before, i'm 19 and probably you would think that i'm too young to comment or give you advice on this but this would be my sincere reply to your question. firstly, is this a mutual feeling? does she love you to the extent as you love her? you mentioned that she loves you as a friend, have you confronted her and made your feelings towards her known? it would be best if you know how she really feels then you can decide on what to do next. if she loves you, and you love her too, and both of you are happy with each other's company- why let go when you can grow and allow a beautiful relationship to blossom? but if she doesn't love you in a romantic way, it is definitely advisable that you let go before it's too late. allow yourself to meet new people and give your chance and someone out there a chance too. it will take more than a short period of time to get over her and resume to the "just friends" status but it will do you good. if she's unsure, give her time to think about it. i hope what i said made sense, there's too much to speak on this. i hope that all will go well and you're able to come up with a solution. do not let this issue put you down, alrite? there are many other beautiful individuals out there waiting to be discovered. and i'm sure that she is also a special person.
420610
Do you have someone in mind or just randomly seeking someone 20 years younger? geez, your old enough to be her dad. Unless she is looking for that paternal figure in her life, chances are slim.
231362
ok do ya love her? well then who gives a sh*t how old you are..Her family loves you right.I mean unless your losing your hair or teeth or memory..lol Psss...Don't worry about it.Be good to each other love each other and everything will be cool.No one cares how old u are...
748275
you should try to go on with your life and maybe later on she will develope feelings for her and if you still love her, then you can try it out.  you are too young to get caught up about one person, you need to date and see what else is out there before you are sure you really love her.
241863
being a young man of faith... excuse my language.. shes going to be literaly ****ed over! there is no way in Gods name a 14 year old girl is in love with a 20 year old guy.. 2 hes only looking to get in her pants... (being a guy i would know how horomones function for my "speicies) thirdly... at 14 hardly ANYONE knows what love is even if it bit them in the butt. im almost 18 and ive found the girl i love, but she is 2 years younger.. granted not a good combo but she actualy realises what i want and what i see love as being. honestly if you cant talk to her... talk to her MOM or her DAD.. cuz any decent parent will NOT EVER allow a 6 year time difference untill the "young woman/man" is atleast 18... and if he touches her... theres a reason for the saying "16 will get you 20... 14 will get you 40!" so if she loves him... she may just want to concider waiting just a bit longer...
74160
Wait til you get older and if you both STILL feel the same way then go for it! No illegal stuff missy!
813013
Hey listen up Bro. I am a black man and I am in love with an asian woman that I met over 2 years ago. I am 37 yrs. old and I have been around the world and seen a lot.\nI have been blessed to find a sincere,loyal,humble,smart and charming beautiful asian woman who is all about me. Trust me, she is a good girl. The kind that you want to bring home to mom.\nShe has shunned away from jealous and evil folks that try to give her evil advice. She will not let ANYONE destroy our love for each other. We both found true love and don't care who don't like it. We have one child and another on the way. We enjoy building a family. I believe God put us together because my love for her is growing sweeter and she feels the same way toward me. I am Happy with this. Go for it. Don't worry about people. Let them die jealous. Last but not least, she is now my Wife and I hold my head up with dignity.