i love to sing but i just cant make myself sing in front of my hubby,can any one tell me why?
435421
you are afraid that you might not sound good and he might reject you or laugh at you but a good man would not he would cheris you for all that you are. my advice to you is to sing better than the fat woman and blow his mind away and if he does not like it then too bad insult him a bit but not too much
186435
I would not sing with a throat like that if I were you. Your entire instrument will be off and you do run risk of hurting yourself. Take it easy and get better, then you can sing.
39547
Voice training and lots of practice.  Sing within your voice range or you can cause alot of vocal damage.
702507
I had the same problem. You just have to wait for the perfect time and not rush things. My boyfriend use to be so shy but now I can't get him to shut up. J/K.
964422
Hello! I love to sing too! In the past, I practised by lying down and singing out loud. You've gotta feel your muscles at your stomach area and evetually you'll have the strength. Now, i can hit high notes without my voice cracking! Good luck!
145676
The only way to get over being afraid of singing in front of other people is to actually sing in front of other people. You'll end up getting used to it and after awhile it won't even bother you anymore. It just takes time and getting used to. Don't let your fear stop you from singing. Keep on singing and good luck!
992345
God has given me a voice to sing his praises. I love to sing in all different churches. I would like to sing and touch someones heart thru my singing and have the Lord Jesus Christ to come into their hearts. I would love to sing in a gigantic auditorium for everyone to listen to His praises. I know that I will get lots of flack from some people but that's okay.
774247
not bad, but i think it still needs a little more work!  \n\nare you a professional singer or still an amateur?
533413
This isn't an unusual problem.  Why don't you masturbate in front of him.  1- This shows him what to do/how you like it. 2- It also gets you and him a bit hotter.  I'd also suggest taking as much time as you need to get you ready, taking advantage of all of your sensitive parts.  Let him work on you a bit, then do it yourself a bit.  I'm sure if you keep working at it you will come.
554715
I agree with Theo.  Record yourself and listen to yourself to see if you sing well.  Just don't go on to American Idol unless you've done this and know you can sing well or just want to make a fool of yourself!  But the whole recording thing reminds me of that Friends episode where Pheobe finally gets to hear herself on her music video, completely oblivious to the fact that someone else sang her song.  So make sure someone else doesn't sing for you if you do record yourself!
1152644
Iam not married to one, but my hubby likes to do the same crap.\nIt's him not having his way, doing his fits is so childish like. Tell him how it makes you feel, get some therpy for it. \nI use to stand there, while he has his fit and stuff. Then when he had one, I had one right along with him. Two can play at that game. Tell him, you want to be married to the man you fell in love with. \nNot raising a child.
943755
Be confident everytime you sing..... show them off your "talent"..... let them realize that even you dont have voice like celine dion or mariah carrey... you can still belt in!!! hola girl!!!! the show must go on!!!!
226443
maybe you guys are in a rutt...same partner for three years,...maybe you need to spice thigns up try something different or have vacation sex...always works for me.  seems like its easier to let go and get loud and wild when youre not at home with the neighbors listening
617697
That is a perfect idea girl. Video tape it, and watch it with him. Then have your little talk afterwords, but not while your eating. lol Good luck. BTW I had a husband who snored his a** off, and talk about loud ,Man! Anyway I taped him one night, and let him hear it for his self, because he would say he didn't snore so that was a shock to him so he didn't mind if we slept in separate bedrooms. We're divorce now, I found someone who doesn't snore. That's not the reason I divorced him though, I feel in love with someone else. Chow.
922557
I seriously do this all the time.  My sister in law hates to go shopping with me because she says I'm so embarrassing.  Anyway, I just smile and sing and dance....most of the time, I get smiles back.  If someone glares, just say "isn't this a great song".  Just be super happy and perky.  Who can't smile back at that??\n\nKeep singin'
469417
What would people think?  Beleive me, people aren't spending their time worried about your exercise habits, and even if they were, what difference does that make to you?  I think it's grand that your hubby wants to spend more quality time with you.  Don't be self-conscious, have a good time!
13716
Sometime my feet just get cold. Not a prob for us. Could be a control issue. Tell him that if you have to take your socks off, or if he makes an issue out of it you are not going to do it. Bet his tune changes real fast.