How can I convince my spouse that "doggy style" sex is not degrading and can be pleasurable?
450107
i'm a spouse and i think that sex is very healthy for the marriage. And when you get married it should get better because there are no rules , you are married now and you should do more than you used to because thats you partner for life in the eyes of God. And God says that when you get married the bed is under file nobody's watching and you can get nasty and dirty as much as you want, thats the beauty of beeig married, there is no sin in it.
36571
It's funny sex and love are two different things. I'm sure he isnt trying to hurt you,but he is insensitive to your feelings. You should tell him what you want...not what you don't want. Part of being satisfied is rolling with what turns your partner on so they are satisfied. It's much easier to get yourself off if your partner is happy. Not to reward him for being selfish, but I would give a good acting job just once to see how he reacts if YOU are the one that is getting off to porn.
327807
Joe is right,  candle wax is nice. Try incorporating aphrodisiac duch as strawberries and chocolate. Almost anything that can be fed to you is erotic. Also try different games in the bedroom. If you have any NOVELTY stores nearby, go look around and find games or things that interest you.
368880
you have to make the decision yourself, do you feel natural doing this? if you do then accept that and stop worrying about what you "should" do. if having sex with dogs doesn't feel natural to you, perhaps you might consider why you're still doing it. do you have orgasm with animals? with humans?\nthe behavior is not "normal" in the sense that most people do not do this, but "good" and "bad" are judgements only you are fit to make for yourself.
473280
Stay. There is sooo much you can do to improve sex. Maybe just talk to him, give him gentle hints. Maybe add some toys or videos. Maybe you both can learn alternate ways to please each other. Go on line, maybe Dr. Ruth has a website that can be helpful.
227715
I am not sure what they call the position, but have your husband lay you down on your stomach on a bed. Put your but in the air, and have him straddle you. It is like doggy style, but he can get in real deep. You might like it, or try anal.
999324
its simple. if you're willing...Oral sex. doggy style or invite another partner
478987
I suggest sitting down and talking to her about it candidly. Try new things, buy her a new "toy", something sexy to wear to bed, a little porn (it works, for either arousal or a giggle sometimes, I swear) a makeover day...Chances are she's not sure how to change the same issue you're not sure of either. You both probably need a change, try something you never thought you would, and I bet the spice comes right back!..GL;)
1116064
yes tried it, it works! have him lie down on his back and insert lubed finger and place finger in "come here" position (as in when calling someone over) works better when giving oral at the same time.
781520
My God!  You just tell him. But be sure he is either experienced enough or else has studied enough about sex and female anatomy to know how to gently and lovingly deflower, or else you will be quite disappointed.  Look at Brittany P's answer.I recommend you and he take several months pleasing and orgasming each other manually and orally before having intercourse in order to know that he cares to please you as he should.
1017626
I'm with you; I don't see the appeal of that way but some people dig it.  If he really can't let it go, maybe you could just try it once, as sort of a wifely sacrifice, and then if it's uncomfortable for you, I'm sure he won't want to repeat it.  I pray that this isn't one of your last options.  In my view, it's sodomy, and I can't see God approving it as a regular practice.  Blessings to you!
682291
I do. I will usually know or find out their likes and dislikes before engaging in sexual play, so I don't have to take time out to find out if what I am doing is pleasing them. I enjoy sensually petting my partner all over while leading up to sex. I tease them by only briefly touching, kissing or simply avoiding the obviously erogenous zones. I breath deeper when getting nearer the neck or ears. Once I have them actively engaged in receiving pleasure I move on to more heavy petting and slower deep breathing accompanied with low toned sounds of delight. I might then move directly to an erogenous zone and continue to "mmm" or otherwise pick something that I know they will enjoy me doing to them. I might take it slow and tease all the way and pick on them using this a a basis for some nasty talk or sometimes I will turn the heavy petting into a total control and move them to my will. I might go slow and teasingly easy or I might delve into deep holding penetration accompanied with hair pulling, throat grabbing, or shoulder grabbing deep thrusts instead.
500445
better for what?  a women may get more clitoral stimulation from the cowboy position.  In doggy, deeper penetration occurs which could be a plus for both partners.  Also, men get a great visual as well in doggy style.  personally, I like big butts and I can not lie...
889300
Just do it....Your husband is one of the maucho guys that wants to be the pursuer and is turned off by the female that is the aggressor in the equation of marital bliss.  \n\nIf I were you----I would do the tease thing---the sexy lingerie flaunt it in his face routine and then give him the turn down treatment when he WANTS what he WANTS!-----  Let him see how it feels to be rejected for advancements.  \n\nYou should really communicate what you want in your marriage relationship----Open up to your spouse and tell him of your sexual frustrations---"IT LIKE HELLO---MCFLY are you home"\n\nPleasuring yourself is healthy don't feel guilty about it....It's a great stress release ----Maybe you should watch an X rated movie when he's not home and just get the feel of yourself.  Sometimes those kinds of movies are necessary to stimulate the brain!
851526
Yes. It can actually stop any "stiffness" necessary to get started.\n\nThe easiest way...More foreplay, find ALL of the erogenous zones, and take the time to build up the feelings.\nDepends on his shape...\nIf it bends up - him on back, you sitting up on top.\nIf it bends down - doggy style.
927617
we just do it in the shower(stand-up doggystyle), not  a problem. If he's squeamish(I'm not) just tell him not to look down. The water washes it away fairly quickly anyway, but make sure you use lube. My gf says she likes it cause it speeds her period up by about a day, and makes her flow seem lighter.
963672
You could try, "fighting fire, with fire", by doing the same things to him in a very annoying way to let him see what it's like. What you're doing is NOT working, so give it a try. What do you have to lose? Every time he comes around, grab at his crotch...not in a sexy way, but in an aggressive way. He'll get the message!