Would you consider having a relationship with a different sex on-line would be cheating to your spouse?
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It may not be cheating in the usual unedrstanding of the word, but it most certainly is not being faithful. Consider how you would feel if your spouse had fallen in love with some bimbo on line and was sneaking off to have hot sticky computer sex when you weren't around? \n\nDon't betray your spouse.
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I think you should talk to a marriage counselor or psychiatrist before you talk to the third party.\n\nWhat is missing from your life or your wife's life or your marriage that a third party would fill?  Are you bored with each other and won't admit it?  Does your wife want to explore unsettled gender identity issues?  If so, there are ways to do that without dragging a third party into a potentially hurtful situation and potentially destabilizing your marriage.  \n\nI'm not trying to defend conventional morality for the sake of defending my own moral standards, I'm just suggesting you might be papering over or distracting yourselves from issues that should be addressed directly.  I also question the ethics of using someone for an experiment like this.  I know you're not coercing the woman, but are you sure you're not messing with her head?
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Sounds like you're interested in this other person, so it probably will lead to cheating. You aren't being honest with him or yourself right now.
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im not married so maybe this wont help u out...but its not wrong as long as the chat isnt geered towards a sexual mannor and ur wife knows ur going online... some ppl make great pen pals ...even if u never meet them face to face its good to get another prosepctive on things and to talk about things with various ppl and sometimes u get a different look @ things with ppl of the opposite sex because they think differently.  keep the lines of communication open and things should be alright :)
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Bisexual, but with someone of the opposite sex right now.
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Well, that depends on if my "friend" was a male or female.  I'm a bi sexual woman, and my boyfriend doesn't have any issues with me hooking up with girls while he's gone, but he does have some issues with men.  \nThe bottom line is this:  I would never do anything to hurt my boyfriend or betray his trust.  If you're in an honest, open, mature, loving relationship, you have no reason to stray.
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is that when people are married in the internet world, but not actually in the real world? interesting concept
43599
Fantasizing about the same-sex for women is quite common, and a "true lesbian" would be the easiest to experiment with.  I still love my ex-husband very much, but I am supposed to be with a woman.
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Oh sure it's very possible it's depends on the person u want to share the relationship wit some are eat and run person and some ppl really mean it but those eat and run ppl has tanished the image of others. So ppl will be thinking that they are Birds of a feather. And sometimes it will depends on how best u are in expression. But online relationship is possible, cuz one of my frnds is in a deep relationship wit someone out of our country and they are now living 2gether as Husband and Wife.
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I say no, because I refuse to see it any other way. I believe if a woman is being who she needs to be for her man and vice versa for husband that shouldn't come up or if they're are problems the relationship needs to be open and strong enough for your spouse to come to you w/ any issues. Am I right or wrong?
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I don't know about right.  People have told me to put on online personals either looking for male or female, but not to put both.  I guess that's just so people know what you are more into.  I always identify myself as bi if asked.\n\n~Daniel
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Have sex with somebody of the opposite sex to see how it feels?
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I believe it is possible.  My son met his wife over the Internet and they are very happy and good for each other.  Like anything, you have to be careful because there are a lot of idiots out there.
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Not a good idea.  It is possible to cheat on someone without physical activity between you.  How would you feel if your husband/wife was chatting away on the phone with someone and getting all excited about it?  Put a stop to it right away.
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If you feel you are a man in a woman's body or vice versa, I think it may be a good idea.  You will have to live as a member of the opposite sex for a while before the op.
528709
That's a sin some where. And any way would you like you wife to cheat on you? "Do into others as you have them do into you" Get it think about that  for awhile!
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Neither, I ain't cheating on my wife, plus I'd get arrested for dating either one of ya.\n\n2 pts.