I have a bf that i love, yet i am attracted to certain girls. Why?
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Sounds to me your curious, which is fine girls are loving sensitive creatures and they are beautiful lovers , there gentle and sexy, maybe your not to sure of your sexuality, eplain these feeling to her and see how she feels,
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Pink bear please don't say that.... Well... actually... nevermind that... Your not bisexual you feel you have a liking on "attractive" girls because of some problems with your relationship with a few people and sometimes want to change your life... Gambate Kudasai(Please hang in there)
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I live with two incredibly gorgeous and endearing women, and not to toot my own horn, but I'm a fairly attractive guy.  We've been friends for the better part of ten years.  Although I admit I fantasize about them every now and again, that doesn't really make them any different than any other attractive females.  I know I'd never want to complicate what we have as friends.
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i have been in pretty much this situation... very attracted to girl who i had become friends with... and possessing a strong desire to do something about it.  i didn't get the sense that she was interested in me in the same way though, so i kept it cool.  found out later that she is actually crazy for me!!!!
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I would consider not believing one or the other if I were you.  You probably didnt have the best of relationships and the ones that you did have you probably got hurt or belittled.  Maybe you just have had so many bad experiences its hard for you to respect guys.\n\nAlso consider the fact that if you have not had any good relationships that have worked for you, then why would you be attracted to the guys?
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The fact that you have to ask the question hints that you place too much emphasis on looks.  I think we all need to be attracted to the one we love on a certain level but ultimately there are always going to be better looking people.  Just think, she is probably thinking the same about you.  Hopefully some day you will realize that looks are not what makes the person because you can be with the best looking person in the world and all it takes is time or one accident for that to change.
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We should all be so lucky!\n\nIt's not really fair for your boyfriend - if you have agreed that you're in a monogamous relationship - to two-time him.\n\nBut if you're attracted to someone else, that may be because you're not satisfied with your current relationship. Maybe that's a wake-up call that you should break up with your boyfriend and date other people. \n\nWhatever you do, make your decision without burdening your boyfriend with the knowledge that you find someone else more attractive than you find him. Honesty is great, but being kind and considerate of someone else's feelings, in this case, is better.\n\nIf you break up with your boyfriend, you don't have to rush headlong into another relationship. Give yourself a little time to re-group.
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Normal is a setting on your dryer. It's alright to be attracted to other girls without acting on it. If your girlfriend is satisfying you mentally, hang on to her, because thats the hardest thing to find. You are a walking hormone right now . Don't throw away a good thing, if that is what you have.
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it means that you are attracted to her
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I completely understand where you are coming from and yes it is totally normal.  I had only ever dated guys before and had also never been with a woman...and then one day everything changed.  I met the person I knew I was going to be with for the rest of my life and she happened to be a woman.  I have never been so attracted to anyone in my whole life, both physically and emotionally.  To some people gender may be a factor but for others it is not.  And it also may not necessarily mean that you are bi either...it may just mean that you find certain woman attractive.  For example, there are probably tons of people who find Angelina Jolie absolutely gorgeous, men and women alike, but that does not mean that all of the women who find her attractive are lesbians or even bi.  I would just recommend that you explore the feelings a little bit more to decide if you are attracted to women in general, or if it is strictly appearance based (like with celebrities, etc.)  Hope this helped!
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Maybe she sort of has feelings for you, even though she already has a boyfriend. It's possible to be with someone, and still be attracted to someone else, right? But maybe she just has really warm feelings for you as a friend, and isn't quite attracted enough to want you as a boyfriend. Sometimes if you're really good friends with someone, you might occasionally have stronger feelings for them, even if most of the time you know that they aren't really what you're looking for in a mate. I'd say you can probably tell the difference between a compliment and flirting by her body language. If she touches you a lot, it might be flirting. Or if she's attracted to you, she might smile differently--a smile that says she can't help smiling at you, instead of one that just seems polite and off-hand. Either way, what's the problem? Affection and compliments are nice, even if they come from someone you're not dating, don't you think?
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There should be some reason that you like both of them. Can you let me know what are the reason. For example, there could be a physical reason that you are weak to your ex or current bf. And also there should be a reason for your ex-bf to like you, reasons like sex or money or he isn't getting attention from other girls etc. Be aware of it. Thanks.
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are you sure you're inlove? Maybe it's infatuation... but yes, a person can love 2 females at the same time...
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You are not lesbian at all. You just get attracted towards girls for their looks for the time being but not forever....
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may be she is attracted to other guys also, just be more with her, and let her know how much you love, so that she can pick you from the list of the guys if she sees.
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Ok, lets break this down.\n\nYou're bisexual, or at least bicurious, because you like men.\n\nYour girlfriend is an obviously intelligent person and is trying to get you to just admitt to it, so she's probably figured it out herself.\n\nAnd you're what?  Worried?  Confused?  Why don't you try being honest?  Say yeah, you've thought about it and see where it leads you.  I don't know what all the drama is for, most bi men would kill for such a cool and supportive girlfriend.
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it is normal for you to have feeling or be attracted to other people. the thing you have to ask yourself is do you love your boyfriend? there will always be people you find yourself liking but love doesn't come around often