how come I only have male friends but no female friends?
454130
Beacuase girls are so dramatic sometimes, but hey I'm the same way. I get along better w/ guys than girls, but I too wish I had more female friends b/c some are so much more fun than guys, if they're trustworthy.
1001924
Only a girl friend , no other else!\nI think u need a real friend for sharing .
1017381
uh, why do either of you need your own friends of the opposite sex? Any friends me and Hubby have, are both our friends, (usually other cpls) but we never have over friends of the opposite sex that we are both not friends with. He is 'friends' with everyone @ his work, (male and female) but never hangs with them other than at lunch, or the 1-2 times a yr their is a work party, or Christmas party, both of which I go to with him. One chick tried to get some alone time with him, but he told her no. (this was a few yrs back) I know what she was trying to do and it made me mad as heck, but he thinks she meant nothing by it. Wrong! Guys are very naive sometimes. Sounds to me like she's trying to wedge herself in there. I wouldn't suggest you getting a 'friend' too, I would suggest counciling to figure out why either of you feels the need for seperate friends. I can totally relate though, cause men always assume if you talk about another guy, (like oh so and so did this) or whatever, even when it's nothing, just you mentioning another guy's name, even in telling a story, makes them think you want the guy. But yet they can't see that when a woman hangs on to their every word (like she appears to be) or tries to spend time with a married man, that she is up to no good. A good councelor may be able to help him see that. Make sure you go to one that believes in manogomy though, because I know there are some strange councelors out there that swing and all that though, (saw one on Montel) so be careful where you go. I would definitely put an end to it, though.now.
289118
Guys tend to take childhood female-friend as buddy rather than girlfriend material. At least until you give them a different impression. I'm not saying that you should not be yourself.. but maybe show them the other part of yourself.
714421
i'm a tom boy and i always seem to get a lot of guys, be a little flirty but subtle and not obvious, be a really nice and respectful person, be their friend and flirt so they know there's room for more than friendship, i love having guy friends so work on that first.  You've got to be confident cause that what attracts them, if you act like all you want is a bf then you're not going to find the right one.
368369
You can have a friendship between a male and a female without it turning romantic.\nI have a lot more male friends than female ones. It just turned out that way because I grew up with 5 brothers and their friends. I feel more comfortable around guys than girls because there were no snide or catty remarks.
106780
friends and boyfriends arent alike.... just feel lucky that you have lots of friends though u aint have a boyfriend... maybe its not the ryt time for you....
279316
It doesn't matter what sex your friends are.  You shouldn't worry about getting guy friends!
1135829
I do with girls only dude
286680
BECAUSE YOU WANT ATTENTION FROM YOUR FRIENDS. . YOU WANT TO BE THE CENTER OF EVERYTHING . . THATS WHAT IT SEEMS LIKE TO ME AND THAT IF YOUR GUY FRIENDS FIND GURLFRIENDS THEN YOUR SCARED THAT THEY WONT HAVE TIME FOR YOU ANYMORE
881535
Set your goals in a more appropriate order.  Guys are fun.  Focus on having guy friends first and try hard to not put any expectations beyond that.  You'll find that guys love to have girls to pal around with.  As this works for you, you'll learn to lighten up and not put so much emphasis (and your self esteem) on having a guy like you.  You'll have guys like you - certainly as a friend at first.
888201
Guys make much better friends than girls.
800659
I have the same problem only I am a girl  I think if you get a girl friend it might help I am looking for a boy friend so if you are single please e-mail me at caitlyncookiedough@yahoo.comor caitlynrocks93@yahoo.com I am not a stalker either I am being serious
559406
I am not like that and I am a girl.  Friends are the most important for me after my family of course.  Boys come and go, but real friendship never.  I know it is hard to find a friend. I came here 5 years ago and in the beginning I though that in New York no one cares about anyone but themselves.  However, with time I was able to find couple of special people:)) It just takes time and I guess luck. So, good luck!
1095436
try to make friends with people of the same gender.
428801
By "girl friends" I assume you mean friendship & not dating. That being said, I ask you why they shouldn't? Some of my best friends are of the opposite sex. If those friendships are open enough, it can be invaluable to get answers from a woman concerning questions about what a woman really meant by this or how she might feel about that.\n\nThere's no reason for people to only be friends with other people of their own gender.
1033065
Because girls also need friends....duh...why do guys have gal---friends??