how can i get a guy at school to ask me out?
449561
Your not doing anything wrong.  7th grade is a time where boys typically are not yet mature enough to recognize girls even exist.  They are into the video games, etc.  Relationships at this age are best left as best friends like with Gordo in Lizzie McGuire show.  You should always allow enough time to get to know a person and to be respected by them before you think about going out with them at all.\n\n    Instead of being frustrated,  take control of the one thing that you can do.  Look at yourself in the mirror and say "Your the best" and "I promise to always make you the best that you can be".   If upon doing this excercise you realize that you could improve your health, or your complexion or your clothes or whatever, then spend your time investing in making yourself the best person that you can be.  \n\n       Over time,  you will be happier with yourself, and when that occurs, you project that happiness like a radio broadcast in how you walk, how you think, and how you act. At  this point, you will have to have voicemail with all the attention you should be getting.\n\nHope that helps.
749358
just go up to him and ask him out
584488
just chat casually with him, and once you get to know him ask him out. make up an excuse to talk to him. for instance is he plays a sport, say "i saw your game the other day you did really well' or something like that
742008
I will tell you as a tutor I have liked a few girls I tutored and wished I could have asked a few out myself but I didn't want to lose the money from tutoring if they said no and thought I was being bad.\n\nHe is probably thinking how to get you to ask him out!!!\n\nSince he is the one in a PAYING position here - you NEED to ask him out!  Why not take the chance?  What do you have to lose?  Nothing.  He just might feel awkward but if he asks and you don't like he may lose the job.\n\nSo, you are in a MUCH better position to do the asking!\n\nGood luck!  Just do it!
703466
well this guy is a pefect carbon copy of me.\n\nSo if you make a move on him he wouldn't look you down or anything, but as he is a man/guy he prefers to make the move. So what you basically need to do is to make it very easy for him so that he feels very comfortable to ask you out.\nI would say it wouldn't hurt if you become a bit bolder and show some confidence yet at the same time asure him that you are not embarrased by his shyness and you want him to ask you out. \nI know there are ways of doing this without talking much. I can't tell you since I am not a girl. But show him something. If you get the chance touch him ,like on his back or something. And show a lot of smile. The kind of smile the says " Come here baby, I want you" \nI still do believe he should make the move.\nI don't know this is exactly my problem. What I told you is what I think best if a girl acts in a way so that I would feel conmfortable talking to her.\n\nGood luck.
777724
Just ask the dude out!
533070
well u shuld ask u'r friendz if they kno and if they don't then ask him u'r self. if he says yes, just say "oh i didn't kno" or somethin' lyk that. if he says no then ask him out u'r self or get a friend to do it for you. it's not that hard, expecially if u kno he lyks u bak.
869553
screw your peers and just ask him out.
81633
Do you have any classes with him or share any same interests that you could call and talk about? You could always call him and ask a question about homework or just be natural and call him and tell him that you were wondering if he might want to hang out sometime. Take a deep breath and just make the call, chances are he likes you too and conversation will happen naturally once you get past the hellos!
255263
just ask him out what if he says no what are u goin to do about it just ask another ask out untill u get a ayes!
704599
If you're shy, you can start by talking to him about school, ask for homework help, stuff like that. After he's helped you, you can give him a little gift, or make him a thank you card. That'll show that you're interested in him without being pushy about it.\n\nIf you're really really shy, well, just smile at him whenever you can and find ways to get close to him, like join the clubs or classes he's in or get into projects with him. \n\nIf you're not shy, well, that's good, just go right ahead and ask him out. Don't be afraid just because nobody else is dating anyone else. It's your life and you must do what makes you happy.
977154
Just come to him and deliver these lines with a complete straight face:\n\n"Hey, [HIS NAME]!\n\nI've seen you around and [PAUSE] I was thinking what kind of guy you are. You look like a cool guy, but a little bit shy. Am I right?"\n\nNow, when he is trying to convince you he is not shy, ask him why he looked at you so many times but didn't ask you out.
152500
Ask him out for coffee or something like that so that he gets the message that you're interested.
149829
Well it depends. Are you friends already? (suggest a common activity without other friends) Not friends right now and contemplating him?...risky. Is there a way to get to know him better before asking? (i.e school activity?) If you are pretty sure about his feelings, go ahead. You know how guys asked you, just do the same! :) I have always been the one asking, worked great for me! Hard to do, but definitely worth it.\nThere's always the risk of being rejected if you're not sure, but you know what, even if it was a NO, at least you'll know how he feels about you and you can move on.\n\nYou go girl!
92263
Approach him as you would a stray cat - slowly, gently, offering food. Men are skittish. Call him about whatever subject your class together was in; tell him you are stuck for ideas on a homework problem, and your teacher doesn't explain things well. Guys love to give advice. If he helps, wait a while (a week or so) and ask another question. Bake him a muffin or something to say "Thank you".\n\nSlow and gentle is the key. So is mis-direction. If, to take a bad example, you called him, told him you thought he was hot and could you go to the drive-in together, he'd either bolt or figure you wanted to set the county speed record for getting your underwear off.
665475
hi\n\nwill u might not be just anyone in class.. may be he likes u and sees u diffrently than the other girls in ur class.... he could be shy to admite he likes u or hes worried that u might reject him if he asks u out or something... just wait and c what happens  ....if u dont like the guy ignore his presence and dont give him the chance to try something so he wount be hurt...f u like him then try to be there when he loooks for u :).\n\ngoooooood luck..
362897
try and be the 1st 1 to ask him out