what do you do when a guy is sending mixed signals?
448937
Well, I'm a man and this is how I see it.\n\nIt all depends on the guy himself.. personally when I 'send mixed signals' I am usually interested in the girl. I will show a little interest first but then 'back off' a little - first of all as it intrigues them - like 'does he like me? or not?' and secondly it demonstrates that I am no pushover, ie: a challenge.\n\nSo it could well be because he DOES like you.. flirting is never as simple as it should be (!). However there is a chance that it could be because he is NOT SURE whether he likes you or not. Then he will give you conflicting signals as a way of keeping distance between you until he can decide what he wants.\n\nIt could be either really, its up to you to read the situation. You should be able to tell.\n\nHope this helps.
950130
It's always worth a shot... Try to flirt some more back, show him you're available... If nothing happens after awhile and feelings are still strong, just ask him out!
10139
FIRST, STOP GIVING HIM MIXED SIGNALS BECAUSE YOU DON'T WANT TO HURT HIM, HE WILL INTERPRET THEM AS LOVE. SECOND, IT DOESN'T REALLY MATTER WHAT YOU DO BECAUSE HE WILL END UP GETTING HURT NO MATTER WHAT. THE ONLY THING YOU CAN DO IS BE HONEST WITH HIM TELL HIM YOU LOVE HIM AS A FRIEND AND STOP SEEING HIM FOR A WHILE SO HE CAN RESOLVE HIS FEELINGS. DON'T TALK TO HIM ABOUT GUYS YOU LIKE OR ARE DATING, THAT WILL ONLY HURT HIM MORE.
401167
Be honest with him. You wouldn't want to be left to wonder why someone suddenly stopped talking to you. Be polite but firm and just tell him the truth. Maybe you could leave out the "cheesy" part and just tell him that you don't have anything in common. Good Luck!
975958
Approach him and clear the misunderstandings. Tell him how you feel about him.
870977
I would be very flattered, however, don't get upset if the guy has trouble answering.  Don't close in on him, let him know that you would like to talk.  Keep that personal space distance until he decides to open up.  And if it doesn't work out, you haven't lost anything by trying.  Good Luck.
160145
You should just say it and be open with him in general. Most guys don't take hints well, and anyway it's always better to be direct. That way you don't waste your time with confusion.
1087721
Never trust your interpretation of a guys "signs"-Just ask him what's up and go with what he says
709393
I would just have to say to take charge. Its hard but a lot of guys like it. sometimes its the only way to get your answers... and whats the worst that could happen, he turns you down or says he isn't interest?? Big deal theirs others, but what if he is interested. Its better to know than just wonder "what if".. Good Luck!
300683
Back him off, keep him at arm's length and force the interaction back to just professional. Otherwise, someone is going to get a broken heart, and it isn't going to be you.
277799
OKAY GIRL, FIRST OFF, HE'S DOING BOTH! HE'S PLAYING DUMB SO THAT MAYBE YOU TALK TO HIM A LITTLE MORE...LET ME TELL YOU GUYS LIKE IT WHEN GIRLS TAKE THE FIRST STEP...IT TAKES THE PRESSURE OFF OF THEM. THERE ARE MANY POSSIBILITIES TO THIS SITUATION...FLIRT WITH HIM A LITTLE BIT...OBSERVE HIS REACTIONS TO THE COMMENTS YOU MAKE THAT ARE DIRECTED TOWARDS HIM...WHEN YOU ARE AROUND HIM JUST BE YOURSELF...IF NOT HE WILL PICK UP ON IT AND IT WILL MAKE HIM FEEL EXTREMELY AWKWARD...MAYBE EVEN MORE SO...PLUS IF HE DOES LIKE YOU, AND YOU ARE YOURSELF HE WILL FEEL COMFORTABLE AROUND YOU AND WANT TO BE AROUND YOU MORE AND MORE...JOKE WITH HIM...IF YOU CAN DO ALL OF THIS WHILE KEEPING YOUR COOL, HE WILL DEFINATELY STOP PLAYING THE GAMES...HE WILL SEE THAT YOU ARE SERIOUSLY INTO HIM...AND TRUST ME GUYS LOVE THAT! HOPE I WAS OF SOME HELP...
572732
you wait or you confront him in a calm manner tell him that i don't want to be confused and you don;t want to receive wrong messages from his gestures,.ask him do you or do you not be honest with your answer it's a one time shot if you lose you will lose a person you really desire. it's up to you, tell him that!
446118
Don't push your new friend into something he is not sure of. I am sure he just wants time to get to know you and do things with you. And if I were you I would tell your other friend how you really feel. There is nothing worse then giving someone mixed signals. So just be honest and things will work out.
296941
hmmm, well, make sure he knows u still do like him!!!  tell him that, us guys aren't very good at picking up the so called "signals" very well.As long as he is a decent guy, hey wont , WONT break up with you, and if he does, hes an A-hole, who doesn't like u, and is using u for ur body
770888
Just be friends.If he has a change of heart,,he will let you know.
910055
Maybe he is shy and doesnt really know how to show his true feelings about how he feels about you. You should talk to him and let him that he is confusing you with all these mixed signals and you want to know what is it that he really feels about you. \n\nI hope I made some sense and I hope I understood your question.
363546
Relax, this isn't all that difficult.  He is probably just as nervous as you and trying to figure out the same thing.  When you are hanging out with him next time just get closer to him.   Situate yourself at some point where your two hands will brush against each other and eventually lead that into holding hands.  This is a simple way of letting someone know your interested and yet gives them openings to back out gracefully without anyone getting embarrassed.