Me and my boyfriend are having sex problems when i ride. Any suggestions?
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I've been there before. My little girlfriend on top thinking that we are doing it, but she ain't even in half way. All I could do is watch her and start laughing, then guide her to the floor where I could take control. She gets real quite after I get it in all they way. And she was the only girl I remember that had a pulsating cervix. When I would finally get it in all the way, I would feel that thing just pulsate, and I can't last long after feeling that! She is gone now, and I don't miss her, but I miss her pulsating cervix, I'll tell you what!
308364
M--- usually causes the opposite problem.\n\nFirst step: Get married or stay out of his bed.\nSecond step: You on top probably enables him to go longer. Try different positions.
146987
If you're a woman, the man's unit is either too large or you may have internal lubricating problems.  \nNonetheless, you should visit an OBGYN...
221139
Let her ride on top of you, but put some hand lotion all over your lap first so she slides around really easily.  The absence of friction will let her move freely and with small effort on her part, and the pleasure will be much more intense, which will enable easier and faster orgasms, and that is intimate!
1043488
Well the simple fact that the two of you are working  two jobs each is a big part of the problem. Why are you? He's tired, your tired and it becomes something else to be done sometimes, instead of being a fun part of your relationship.\n\nIf it's possible try to cut back some of your hours, so that you guys can have some quality time with each other. Or at least a day off together. That will hopefully lead to sex. \n\nTry to sit down and talk to him about how you feel he might not really realize how much your sex life has gone down.\n\nI'm still going through this madness with my boyfriend only the roles are reversed. \n\nDrop me an email if you neeed someone to talk to.
338362
hey sweetie sex won't work believe it or not it's just the opposite however if he gets frustrated and bugs out because of the lack of nookie he was not the guy any way. cudo's to you for standing on your moral principles. my best to you and your relationship
641886
it sounds as if he has anxiety performance problems.\n\nSlow gentle reassuring foreplay may help but he may also need some counselling.  He has to recover his confidence in hinself - your mothers thoughts certainly wont help - share this problem with her at your peril!\n\nSome ED tretament will also help irrespective of whther it is psychological or  not - so gte him to his doctor for some viagra - once he successfully rides the horse again he will be away
1022889
If you're really concerned about it, suggest to him that you spend a few weeks without it... to build the excitement.  Tell him while you're not having sex, you can get into other things in your relationship... whatever suits you guys.  You could just hang out and play games (cards, board games, etc) and talk/snuggle.  You could go to amusement parks or go hiking.  You could go to museums, go to church... just whatever it is that fits you guys.  If you all can make it through that comfortably, and you actually CAN fill your time without sex... then I think you might be alright.  =)
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It sounds like you need to use a little bit more lubrication while having sex.  The vein on your penis becomes irritated when it is exposed to too much friction.  Use a lubricated condom and try some KY Jelly.  Don't use Vaseline or petroleum jelly with condoms.  Petroleum-based lubricants can cause a condom to break, so only use water-based lubricants like KY Jelly or Astroglide.
980883
There is nothing wrong with small, even tiny. now, im sure he is perfectly aware of this, so there is no need to bring it to his attention, it will only hurt his self confidence. Try to get him to pleasure you through foreplay. Oral or you guys can even get a vibrator. If you get your orgasm through foreplay, he can get his elsewhere, then the sexual experience is benificial to both of you. Don't dump him because of this or anything, it is not his fault. there is A WHOLE LOT that he can do to pleasure you without using his penis. If he is willing to use a dildo or vibrator on you, then that would be great. but if he doesnt want to; don't push it. you don't want him to know you find his masculinity amusing.\n\njust find a way for him to get you off before intercourse, then, even if you cant feel the sex, he can get his too. there is no point to sex if both partners arent satisfied
430204
This is going to sound weird but... when you are having sex do the scissors. Trust me I am gay. Also, it helps if you do the frog position. He lies down and you do squats on top of him. Make sure he doesn't stick it in your butt. It hurts.
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This one is easy...GET ON TOP!!!! And make sure he understands that he doesn't c*u*m until you do. He needs to tell you if he needs you to slow down during intercourse so that he doesn't get off before you. Now, straddle that man and get busy, girl. Make sure you kind of lean your hips forward so that your clit is resting on his pelvic area. The back and forth motion that you make while you're riding him will drive your clit crazy...and eventually you will c*u*m. It may take a while...just don't give up. It's a proven fact that most women have to have some sort of clitoral stimulation in order to get off. There's nothing wrong with you. And if all else fails...break out the porn when you're gettin' busy. That will make it more fun for both of you, I'm sure!
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If he isn't satisfying you sexually then find someone who can. Trust me it will only get less and less. Try being around him nude more. Or maybe try something a bit more fun, http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/0962962813?v=glance\n\nIf you can't drum up his enthusiasim with seductions like the ones in 101 nights then maybe talk sex more often. Try keeping sex talk just talk, no pressure to preform. Talk about fantasies, ask him to tell you his fantasies that he thinks you might be offended by. Communication is the number one key to sexually satisfying relationship. If you can't discuss topics like preformance anxiety, jealousy, fantasy, or sexual expectations. then you will never have as healty a sex life as you can. Maybe suggest going to a strip club together
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I don't think its because you had a baby two yrs ago, but I don't know I'm not a doctor. maybe you should ask your doctor. but before doing that lets ask you this. when your having sex do you get on top most women that do have orgasms by riding him? or when hes on top most men do it the 'norm" in and out what most guys don't do is side to side moving there hips to the right to the left they just go back in forth in and out. tell him to move his hips side to side to right then to the left when a man does it like that it gives most women the best orgasms. and if that don't work try playing with yourself and buy some k-y jelly you can buy that at targets, Wall-marts its usually were they sell KO-TeX to let papers,powders etc...if still nothing ask your doctor it could be Hermon's
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RELAX. Don't worry. Out of the ladies I met, more than 50% of them have this problem. My solution is, have longer oral sex, say for example an hours oral sex. Ask ur b/f to suck your entire body especially ask him to spend more time licking ur private parts. ask him to penetrate his tongue deep into ur private part. I bet surely u will get orgsm.. there after have internal sex. again u will get orsm..
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You need to go to a doctor.  Your problem could be mental or physical.  I don't mean to be rude, but it seems that if your boyfriend respected you, he wouldn't want to hurt you.  He should want to help you get help and be there for you.  I read that the way your partner makes you feel can result in painful sex.  That aside, it could also be an infection, urinary tract problems, abnormalities of the uterus or ovaries, or a condition called vaginismus.  I hope this helps.
858682
Wow. Must say that's one of the more interesting Q's I've seen lately.\n\nSome things you could try:\n- raise your handlebars (check w/ a bike shop) so you sit more upright\n- try different saddles, some have those holes in the middle\n- remove the "hardware" before you ride, put it back in while cleaning up after your ride.\n- try going au naturel... remove the hardware entirely.\n\nGood luck... keep us "posted"