GUYS ONLY PLEASE! How can I get a sweet and caring guy?
451421
Go to the places that they will be at & get to know them & as long as you are a sweet & caring lady you are sure to find your match.
1082943
Dont' try so hard, guys can see how desperate some girls are. The best way is to have a large group of friends and have some of your friends pair you with someone that would be good for you. It'll take a little bit of time but if you want something, go and get it, don't expect everything to be handed down to you. Good luck
1184735
be patient! keep waiting and the right one will come! giving your figures wont let others determine if you are a beautiful person. as long as you think you are, thats all that matters and that should give you the right amount of confidence to get the guy you want! just don't settle. be the best you can! good luck and keep staying fit (that is a +)!!!
931997
hi.i'm 17,Asian,Christian & i'm still in college.ok.i have a good friend who's a guy.i met him recently in my new college & even though we've only known each other for a few months up2 now.we have so much fun & he wants to take the same career path as mine.\n\nthe qualities i mostly look for in a guy for a great friendship are the ability to have fun & to joke around,ability to carry on a great conversation,respects me-THOSE ARE A MUST FOR ME!has to be outgoing,adventurous & should care abt me too(as a good friend)like,calls me when i'm down to cheer me up & helps me out in a situation.& something else is that i love it if a guy protects me(not overly-protective),like in a brotherly sort of way.should be somewhat of a gentleman,like open doors,offers you his seat..oh,they shouldn't also mind my bugging them,hehe(this applies only to some girls,lik me,lol)\n-my best guy-friend is exactly like that!\n\nanyway,hope i covered everything-cheers! :)
459293
ask him...guys will be flattered and tell you...and besides if he is as sweet as you think hes not gonna hurt your feelings right?
344658
Dont try to look for a bf... just make sure you associate with guys...guys can be found anywhere... but clubs and youth groups are good places to associate with guys... so ther real question is HOW to get one... \nMake your self attractive,,, not nessary hot but attractive... like but a little makeup on,,, dress with style....\ndon’t worry about trying to MAKE guys like you. There is someone always there. The more you think about it the less likely something like that will happen. This is what happened to me until 2 weeks ago and finally got my first boyfriend. Be yourself and don’t look unless you want to ask. Guys can tell if a girl just wants a boyfriend or is sincerely looking for fun.. (guys don’t like to be used either). Make sure you do talk to guys though. Just don’t be desperate and take the first guy you see (unless you like them) ....to get a real relationship you will have to actually stand the guy!!! So overall BE YOURSELF, TALK TO GUYS and HAVE FUN... (don’t just try and land yourself a boyfriend)
796050
I am sure there are a lot of cute boys..  just dieing  to date you, probably as much as you are anxiously wanting to be with a boy.\nTry not to be in such a hurry. The whole dating thing can be such a pain... Guard your precious heart, it will be broken many times so don't give it away to easily.\nFor now... start by doing things with small groups of friends. Keep your relationships as friends, you will learn more about your self in what you really like or do not like in a boy. Some of these lessons are so hard and can hurt so bad...\nSo again I say "guard your precious heart"\n\nOh and good luck
980374
Go for the nice guys.  I know sound nuts, and it just might work.()
998923
I want a guy who's sweet,honest,sensitive to my feelings,loyal, and will be willing to risk his life just to save mine.
498088
Just be your sweet self and you will find a guy who will like you for you. Don't ever try to be what he wants you to be... be who you are. If he cannot like you for you, then you don't need him. That's great that you have lost the weight, now you just need to find your self esteem. Join clubs, go out with your friends, volunteer - just get out there and meet new people and don't worry about finding The One. It always happens when you don't look.
358143
I think you need to find out what you want first in a guy.  Money, power, good looks, or just someone that makes you comfortable and happy.\n\nIf that doesn't work, just grab the next guy that comes along your way and train him to satisfy you...
864212
you need to ignore him & get really involved with a couple of nice guys (doesnt hurt if they are good looking or quite popular)   make sure to have animated conversations and laughter.... THAT will get his attention.. but then  hopefully you wont want his attention anymore  ;)
200918
TALK TO SMART GUYS.... this way both benefits from each other, you learn and they get to be seen with you [assuming you are good looking and that is the reason guys are nice to you]\n\nnote: this only works if you are smart.
373131
i am a guy. if you find the right guy we are looking for some one who is kind caring loving and trustworthy.to get a boy friend find some one you like more than a friend. ask them to go hang out at a public place get to know them. if all go's well try a few more dates. if you prove you are loyal and if he is loyal your all set. you now have a good healthy relationship and a boyfriend. don't try to change just be your self some one will love you for who you are. trust me i have had a great relationship for 4 years.
207950
The best way is to be yourself and not try too hard. \n\nIf it's a specific person who's attention you are trying to get, let him know. But don't make it all about you and how you feel. What is it you like about him? What are his good qualities? Tell him what they are and what you like about him. That will definately get his attention. Then go on to tell him what his good qualities do for you, or how he makes you feel. Boost his ego and make him feel like the man and he'll be yours ;)
520948
Girl, don't try to be something u are not, be yourself, if they like u, cool, if not don't worry about it. u will find a guy that will like u for u. DON'T EVER CHANGE YOUR PERSONALITY FOR A GUY. I'm sure u are a smart pretty young lady and when that special guy come around, u will know because he will be interested in the real u and not the person u are trying to be to get along with the other guys.....good luck!
714421
i'm a tom boy and i always seem to get a lot of guys, be a little flirty but subtle and not obvious, be a really nice and respectful person, be their friend and flirt so they know there's room for more than friendship, i love having guy friends so work on that first.  You've got to be confident cause that what attracts them, if you act like all you want is a bf then you're not going to find the right one.