Why is it so hard to get a decent date when your a funny woman?
436350
You may be annoying to the person, not funny. There is a fine line between the two you know. Then again maybe they aren't very clever and can't get your humor.
1160403
Sure if you want a one bout dating..because your in a wrong section buddy,,,try the jokes/riddles section\n\n*sigh* great to ruin someones day by telling them they are wrong..great isn't it?
333964
Hello, Im not a freak...yet I find it hard to find decent women. I dont look at appearances but the heart and soul...You can change that by being yourself ...sean. Ps. and when a quite guy like myself is afraid to approach you,maybe because im shy, maybe because im normal...go and talk to him....he may be the love of your life although he may not drink or dance like the other guys...
430235
i think its because we are all afraid of rejection or being used.as a woman i feel like it would be desperate of me to chase a guy , and my guy friends make jokes about girls who moon over them , even if she is just extra nice when they are around.
1060505
I am bald on the top of my head too, and I get lots of dates. First, I go where there are lots of people. I smile, wear nice clothes, and am friendly with everybody. I wear cologne,  after I take a shower, and then I dance. Ladies LOVE to dance, and it doesn't matter than you can't dance well, but you dance anyway. We laugh, cut up, and have a good time.  Before the evening is over, I will have had several offers for dates, or whatever. It works for me, and it will for you too. Get out there!
302216
I don't know what these people are talking about, I flirt all the time and because of this I have never had any trouble finding someone to be with. The trick is to be confident and sweet. And if you have a good sense of humor use it like crazy... but don't bray at your own jokes like a donkey, that's NOT attractive. Give it a try ladies and gents, it works ;)
333760
Honestly, there's a lot, I'm kind of picky. But I like women who can smile and joke and not take everything too seriously, but who know what to be serious about.
419508
Maybe the girls are too intimidated by your good looks.  Maybe they think they would never measure up.  Make sure you are extra friendly and "approachable" around women, then they'll probably be all over you.  OH, and have fun and laugh, women adore that!
376546
my idea of a perfect date would be able to spend time with the right man. so it doesn't matter if we stumble upon something that make either of us look silly... we can just laugh it off - it is more about enjoying ourselves
228340
No, but I don't think its easier either.  It's hard for everyone to find someone who's physically attractive, mentally stable, compatible perosonality wise, and for the mothers accepting of your children.  But that's why you date, and hopefully have fun, before you meet that special person!!
144360
If your like me, Then it's because you have had some pretty nasty girlfriends who have used and abused you. Today's women can be modivated by greed, selfishness, and the desire to emotionally hurt men for the fun of it. \nBut it does not mean you have to fall for the same trap twice.  read "who moved the cheese" great book for changing your perception in life. \nThe sad part was I brought it on my self because of my low self esteem. \n\nThe best thing you can do is FLUSH the past and start with a clean slate. \nStart by reading books on Self Help, and work to rebuild your Imiage. Smart love is one good book to start with. but by it self it will not get you over the hump. \nAfter you read smart love start dating again. but this time follow some of the advice, and learn to prescreen your dates. your looking for certain things that wave the red flag about a girl, but you want to be subtle in your approace so the girls do not understand. (THE SMART ONES WILL THOUGH ) \nOnce you find a Lady who has passed the first screening, then you can persue this relationship and see what develops. What your looking for is can this woman meet your 5 basic "needs" if you marry her. ( suggest you abstain from sex until you feel she is worth marring her. ) this way you can see if she has the stability to meet the other 4 basic needs. The sex will take care of it self if she does. \nRead His Needs, Her Needs, to understand the differences between men and women in relation to the 5 Basic "NEEDS"\n\nAlso read 7 habits of highly effective people, by Covey\nThis is an AUSOME Book for learning good people skills. \n\n\nGood Luck and God's Blessing be with you.
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You still talk about your "other stuff" on a date, but you don't dwell on it.  No one wants to hear all about your painful divorce or terrible ex on the first date.  Mature people who date are looking for someone who is fun to talk to.  They look for someone who is a good listener and has a great sense of humor.  Lets face it, by our age we have learned to laugh at life's efforts to knock us down.  We see the humor in the world around us and no longer take everything so seriously.  Just keep things light and fun on your first few dates.  You will get the hang of it!  Dating is different at our age.  We tend to skip most of the games that we dealt with in our youth and just get straight to the talking and getting to know the other person.
849539
It isn't necessarily the joke that is told but the presentation. Try to relax and tell her an incident that happened to you that you ended up looking or feeling silly, where you can laugh at yourself. Actual events or familiar happenings are far more funnier then a rehearsed joke. Just watch comedians.
1021272
You can 'try' but you will lose. Women are more witty than men. :P
817380
I use to have this problem, but now I dont. Basicially all u have to do is go up to them with respect, but at the some time be funny. Women love a guy that makes them laugh! Be confindent! Dont be afraid! Rebuke your fear! Look for something on them to start a conversation. Women also love compliments! Look at it this way. If u dont talk to her, u have o% success. But if u do, your success just increased! 50% is better than 0%! Dont be afraid!
390489
You are so funny! and so right!\nWomen are terrible...and there are heaps of us!\nFortunatly for me I am fantastic and talk none of that junk.\nYou are hanging around the wrong sort of women. These ones are either\na) shallow - interested in only appearances of herself and others\nb) self conscious - which is why they need to discuss others appearance\nc) uneducated - and have no knowlege of the world to actually have some sort of intellegent conversation.\n\nJust keep looking. And run away from these types.
458774
Take it easy! A date is just a date. I know it can be nerve-wrecking sometimes...but just chill! Keep in mind that you are very interesting, very nice, very polite and give yourself all kinds of props! It will help you feel better! Then when you are actually on the date, just be casual, be funny--don't let your nerves get the best of you--women don't like nervous men, because that shows insecurity! So if you feel nervous just smile, think of a joke in your head...you know, keep yourself thinking positive! If you want to know more....visit Payton Kane's website...I leave the link below