how can you tell if a person is gay?
453690
Just by looking at them. All the homos have that certain "look" about them. It's okay that they're homos, I'm just saying you can easily tell.\n\nPlus they all lisp.
27337
First you need a mirror.  Go up to everybody you see and hold the mirror exactly 1 & 1/4 inches from their face.  If you don't hold it that exact distance, they might be able to fool you.\n\nIf you hold the mirror up just right and they don't have a reflection, they're GAY!\n\nYou have to hold it REAL close though.
75483
There's a device you can install in order to detect if someone is gay, its called 'Gaydar'
149248
YOU CAN'T! Just like you can't tell with ordinary, non-celebrities!! There is no 'gay-dar', the only way to know for sure is to hear it from the lips of the celebrity themselves, otherwise, it's just unkind speculation.
540848
Strike up a conversation about someone who is gay and see what their stance is. Then tell them if it isn't too terrible.
724757
You can't really tell with just a casual conversation.  You have to be around the guy quite a bit -- if you are pretty good friends, sooner or later, his guard will be let down and he will give hints: he'll stare at men, he'll talk about "other lifestyles," he might talk about dating women but rarely if ever actually do so. \n\nI've got some news for you though:  Most bi guys don't let on what their true orientation is to their male friends.  They have a whole other set of guys they hang around with for sexual purposes and the two sets of guys rarely mix.  And many times, they don't even consider their sexual partners (other bi's or more likely gays) friends.\n\nOne of the ways to lose a male friend is to ask him something like that.  The chances are, for one thing, even though he may actually be bi, he'll deny it to save face and to protect his privacy.\n\nIf a man (bi or gay) is looking for sexual activity with another male, you'll know it.
655396
DON'T ASK HIM. - he needs to find the right time to tell you. If you ask him he will be offended and he WILL dislike you. Turst me on this one. I'm bi and people use to ask me occasionally if I was gay, I wasn't and I hadn't come out and it used to really piss me off, even friends said it and I would hate them for saying it.
520232
How to tell if you're gay: \n1. If you are over 30 and you have a washboard stomach, you are gay. It means you haven't sucked back enough beer with the boys and rather you've been sucking-off the boys and have spent the rest of your free time doing sit-ups, aerobics, and doing the Oprah diet. \n\n\n\n2. If you have a cat, you are a Flaaaayming gay. A cat is like a dog, but gay: it grooms itself constantly but never scratches itself, has a delicate touch except when it uses its nails, and whines to be fed. And just think about how you call a dog..."Killer, come here! I said get your butt over here!" Now think about how you call a cat... "Bun-bun, come to daddy, snookums!" Jeeezus, you're fit to be framed, you're so gay. \n\n\n\n3. If you suck on lolipops, Ring-Pops, baby-pacifiers, or any such nonsense, rest assured, you are a Gaylord. A straight man only sucks bar-b-q ribs, crab-claws, raw oysters, craw-fish guts, pickled pigs feet, or titties. Anything else and you are in training to suck El Dicko and undeniably gay. \n\n\n\n4. If you refuse to take a dump in a public bathroom or piss in a parking lot, you're in a deep homosexual relationship. A man's world is his bathroom, he defecates and urinates where he pleases.\n\n\n5. If you drink decaf coffee with skim milk, you like a high hard one in the poop-chute. Coffee is to be had strong, black (or with thick, wholesome milk) and full-aroma. A vagina-eating man will never be heard ordering a "Decaf Cafe Latte with Skim" and he will never, ever know what artificial sweetner tastes like. If you've had Nutrasweet in your mouth, you've had a dick there too. \n\n\n\n6. If you know more than six names of colors or four different types of dessert, you might as well be handing out free passes to your bung. A real man doesn't have memory space in his brain to remember all of that crap as well as all the names of all the players in the Major league, NFL, NBA, college ball, PGA, and Nascar. If you can pick out chartreusse or you know what a "fresier" is you're gay. And if you can name ANY type of textile other than denim, you are faggadocious! \n\n\n\n7. If you drive with both hands on the wheel, forget it...you hungry for meat-popsicle. A man only puts both hands on the wheel to honk at a slow driver or to cut the dude off. The rest of the time he needs that hand to change the radio station, eat his hamburger, hold his beer, finger the bi-atch in the passenger seat (whoever she happens to be), or, if he's Latino, talk on his cell-phone. \n\n\n\n8. If you enjoy romantic comedies or French films, mon-frere, vous sonnez le Gay, oui? The only time it is acceptable to watch one of those is with a woman who knows how to reward her man. Watching any of the above films by yourself or with another man is likely to result in SHC (spontaneous homosexual combustion), which is what happens to fags when they flame out too quickly.
398528
he pretends not to be gay because he knows there are people like you trying to figure him out for a good bit of gossip. \n\nLeave him alone.
509063
It doesn't necessarily mean he's gay.  Thats a very sensitive place for men, maybe he just wants to see what if feels like.
1062664
u can tell if a man is gay most of the time. females r hard to tell that thier gay unless shes a butch.
1110723
I seriously doubt that he's gay but I don't know if he's married or not. Maybe you could ask him yourself somehow.
256862
why would you ask if he is gay? he obviously is.
1052725
well if you think you might be gay\n\nyou probably are\n\n\nhere are some other signs:\n\nyou like to have sex with people of the same gender
84266
He tells you he is guy or gay.. whatever he meant... what are you supposed to say? \n\n"I'm gay"... "well good for you!"\n\nIf he just says he's gay... ask him if he has a question about it, or ask him why he's telling you out of nowhere.
18498
ASK THEM !!! Most people that are gay but dont say anything about it do so because they think people will judge them . As long as you act mature about the persons answer (whether yes or no ) the question should soon be forgotten .
561433
What a great question! This is something that gays and lesbians wonder all the time. Can someone tell if you are gay or not? Some people believe there is such a thing as "gaydar." Gaydar is a sixth sense that gays and lesbians have to distinguish gay or bisexual people from heterosexual people. \n\nIs gaydar for real? Some people will swear it is. Personally I think that we gays, lesbians and bisexuals develop gaydar as a type of survival intuition. We need to be able to suss out who is and who isn't gay because hitting on the wrong person could be big trouble for us! \n\nYou will find some people who are convinced they just can't tell who is and isn't gay--even ones who are gay themselves. And then there are those people who fool everyone--even the ones who think they can tell. \n\nTo answer your question: Can people tell if you are gay or not? My guess is that they just sense that there is something about you that seems open. Maybe they are just hoping you're gay. You may even be giving off signals that you are not even aware of because now you ARE open to such kind of flirtation.