how can i know that a guy loves me or his just using me?
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how does he treat you? how is he towards you when your around his friends? thes4e are some questions to ask yourself hopefully you'll get the answer your looking for.
836285
You'll sense it. His actions, his speeches or whatever the slightest movement will give him out if he likes you. So watch out for his behaviours and learn to understand the body languages, you'll find it exceptionally helpful when it comes to interpret one person's doing.
125694
If you find a guy always around you and looking at you always trying to help you,then no doubt he is in love with you....  but dont be in hurry you will find lots around you,\nbe patient make a good friendship with him and then choice is yours.....
612383
Ok I've said this before to others and I'll say it again. The best way to find out is to just ask. Start out by just jokingly playing around or something. But then if he plays back with you then it's serious.
249836
That one is a hard one to answer. Maybe you can gently and in a round about way ask him how he feels about you\n\nWhen a guy is in love with you he cannot do enough for you. If it is long distance, well I cannot say there is no true way of telling unless you ask him or unless he is direct with you
992785
In both words and actions. If he treats you with respect, is open in his communication and is excited to be with you. He loves you.
835918
You can't tell if he loves you by the things he did and it's too early to know about things like that. But by what you are saying, that guy really does like you a lot. It must be so exciting!
1134915
If a guy really loves you, you won't have to ask, you will feel his love. He will put you first,look after you,tell you he loves you often,and want to express his feelings to you. You won't have to chase after him and worry where he is when hes not with you. He will want to spend time with you and do things with you.It happens without any effort.
200334
Usually it's just something you know in your heart. As for outward stuff, usually he will seem completely and totally committed to you. He loves spending time with you, and seems like he can barely stand being apart from you. When you look into his eyes in a quiet moment between you two, often you can find the answer right there as well. Just watch him closely. When there is love between two people, usually it is only one of the two that can decide whether the other is in love with them or not. This is your bond. Do you think he is in love with you? Ask yourself that now and then when you are with him. You may just find that he is showing more of the signs than you originally realized.
353184
This is a pretty open question.  The first thing I look for to tell if a guy likes me would be if he is open with me.  It really helps if you are friends before lovers!  This way you can tell if you two would be compatible enough for a more loving relationship.
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You cannot...trust me.\nHowever,you can tell when he has put some or alot of dedication aside for you-if he chats/emails alot...if he responds on time/most of the time...and if he always checks to see if there are messages from you in his box.Those are some signs that means he cares for you somewhat-if he cares you will notice by the kind words in his message concerning you...words like-I love you,I miss you,I want to be with you so much,I want to make love to you,I think of you all day,I can't stop thinking of you...and the list goes on.True love comes with real experiences & time...you're in a virtual relationship(are you not?)...this does not count as true love...but may be the start of a beautiful relationship...which can lead to love.
652415
You can't. Unless a guy tells you what he's feeling (and even then there can be some doubt), you'd be guessing at best. However, if he expresses affection for you, tries to talk to you/contact you on a daily basis, and has made sexual advances to you, it's probably safe to assume that he's attracted to you at the very least.
428859
Trust the guy himself.  He can tell you & more importantly, show you he truly cares for you by his daily actions of respect, attentiveness, etc.
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let me see...\n#1 if he treats you mean..\n#2 if he seems distant..\n#3 if he don't kiss or hold you like he use to do..\n#4 if you think he dont trust you anymore..\n#5 if the sex is'nt as good as it use to be..\nand #6 is the feeling of him loveing you gone?
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When you catch him just looking at you. When he'll go out of his way to do things for you. When he hugs you even more. When he seems to miss you when he hasn't seen you for a while. When he'll ditch his friends for you every now and then (NEVER expect anyone to do this all the time, you wouldn't do it for him, so why should you expect him to do it for you?) When he mentions you to his parents/siblings/exes/friends. When he asks his friends what they think of you. If you notice a few of these signs, he's smitten. Never be afraid to say I love you first though. If you feel it, say it. Don't expect him to say it back. Just let him know, and when he's ready he'll say it back. I told my boyfriend I loved him after only 3 weeks, then went travelling for 5 weeks. He was falling in love but not quite there, and he did the right thing by not lying and saying it. When I came home and he said it back to me a few days later, it was one of the happiest moments I can remember. We're still together 7mths later. Good luck!
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when he goes out of his way just to be with you and just to please you...when he compliments you in a sincere manner about your personality...when he is constantly present in every important occassion or activity in your life...when he cares for you, your family and even your pet..lastly, when he treats you like a princess..\n\n(3 or more of these scenario should be enough for you to know that he's serious...lucky girl!)
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I kind of think that if you have to ask yourself, "Am I being used?" Odds are, you ARE being used.  If someone does not make you feel your full worth, and if the energy he is putting into your relationship does not match your effort, then you should seriously re-evaluate the situation, because honey, you deserve one hundred per cent and no less. We all do.