What is the best thing about being in a relationship? The worst thing?
454971
Best - You've always got someone on your side... be it in bed or in lifes difficult situations!\nWorst - having one tv and two opinions!
875542
A good romantic relationship is like starting a fire.  If you use heavy oak wood....it's hard to light, but burns slowly and for a long time once it's lit.  A bad romantic relationship is like burning light pine, as it lights easily but burns fast, hot, and intensely, but doesn't last.  \n\nThe best relationships take time; the worst start and end fast.
839350
I think the positives of marriage center around being with someone I couldn't imagine my life without. It's like having your best friend, best lover, and biggest supporter all in one person. The negatives are you loose your "life" in certain ways... you can't behave like you're single anymore. You no longer can do things simply because you want to...you have another person to consider. Plus, if you get married too young...well, it's almost like fighting our human nature to go out and procreate....it's hard to completely "settle down" when you're young
932193
Marriage has it's advantages, it's not always fun but it's not always bad either. It is a compromise, a give and take sort of thing if you will. There are always going to be problems with any relationship and marriage is no different. The main thing is the two people involved have to be compatible for it to work. Marriage can be wonderful thing. It's nice to always have someone to rely on and to comfort you but it is a two way street.>
464444
first how bad was it??? don't know the details, but weigh the pros and cons of the relationship. if there are more cons get out and don't look back. more pro's proceed, but with caution.
490393
Such a good question. I think the most important things in a relationship are friendship and trust. Passion comes and goes and if you're not friends and don't trust each other... you'll get a divorce eventually. So I vote for reason!(You do have to love the guy of course :)
799727
Well they shouldn't. If you need to have someone in your life you will likely not be in the best relationships. You end up being in a relationship for the sake of the relationship and not the person. The best and healthiest dating occurs when you both parties are comfortable with themselves and don't 'need' the other person but 'choose' to be with the other person because it enhances thier life. If you think you need a boyfriend you would probably be best served by being single for awhile. You'll find out a lot about yourself and be a strong more confident person in the end.
552875
Sometimes when people are in relationships, they forget that they're supposed to maintain the relationship, like dating, talking and hanging out. Strange since those are the things which got us into the relationship to start with.\n\nMany years ago, a friend and I decided to date, knowing the difficulties we had had with previous relationships, we decided to create a relationship contract so that we would know what was expected, and know the penalties if we didn't live up to those expectations. It was one of the most enjoyable relationships I've ever had. She's still one of my closest friends.\n\nHere's a link to a copy of the contract\n\nhttp://jdoggiedogg.livejournal.com/4093.html
320799
The best thing is being happy.  If you are happy with yourself it is a GREAT thing.  The sooner in life you find what makes you happy the happier you will be.
186679
The best relationships are usually ones that comes from being best friends first!  I say tell your best friend and hope that a beautiful and wonderful relationship comes from it!
496410
hi dear,\n\ni think understanding is the best thing of one love. what you need now is to have a long and deep talking with each other, focusing on your problems recently.\n\nface to face talk is the best and most successful way to solve problems, not only depending on what are you feeling. some times good things disappear only because some misunderstanding between two person.\n\nperson is person, different people has different opinions, even they are lovers or couples. try your best to know each other and to be patient to listen to each other's idea of life. Listening is a very important thing in your life, try to do it well.\n\nthings already like this, no use to regret, only use your real love and show your great love and understanding to her, if you really love her so much.\n\nbest wishes.
387773
I love being married.  There is nothing better than being with someone who knows your every emotion.  Knows when you need a hug, or when you need to laugh.  Or just someone to be silly with.  Burdens are halved and joys are doubled.  It couldn't be better to do all of that with someone you love and who loves you.
998864
commitment, sometimes the relationship will suck... sometimes you wont want to be with them and you cant see why you love them, but its the ideal of commitment,especially in marriage that pulls it thru. the idea that *we* will wether this storm and every other one too...
201620
No offense, but if you have to ask, niether relationship is probably a good one. When you truely love somone, there is no doubt in your mind as to what decision to make in this type of situation.
622282
Love is a blessing. Even if it ends, the time that you had together is a blessing. The good memories, you get to keep and treasure forever. The bad memories, you get to learn from and make future relationships better.\n\nLove makes you feel happy. It's the other stuff that makes you unhappy.
811971
Personally speaking, I think the best relationship you can be proud of is between a guy and gurl who were friends. What's friendship, if I may ask? It's getting acquainted with someone for a period of time to the extent that you think, speak, behave or act almost in the same way. I want you to check around and compare relationships built on friendship and those built on infatuation. The outcome is very obvious. Cheers.
696379
I think communication is really important.  Obviously you don't want to scare anyone off, but its nice to be able to talk and see where both people are at in a relationship.  Depending on the people I think its good to find out what each of you want, without planning anything or making any real committments