Do you think  when loose your soulmate can you find another? Is it a one time thing!?
437940
I believe you can find happiness twice in a life time.  You will never ever forget your first love.  You will always have him in your heart.  and you may not find THAT special kind of love again, but you can love again.  Like if your spouse dies after 20 years of marriage, I do believe later on in life you can find a new love and happiness with a new person.  I dont feel it will be the SAME degree and closeness as your first love but I fully believe you can love and find happiness once again.
252459
I believe that there is the possibility of finding someone who is a soulmate. There has to be something about a person that just feels "right," almost like you consider each other equal. In some instances, you may even feel a slight pull to this person, like the couple is 100% compatible in all aspects. This does't rule out fighting, of course. What relationship doesn't have fights? But, in the long run, if there is a person you would consider a soulmate, the fights wouldn't matter.
271598
Hard call. The human mind and heart are so complex and not completely understood that anything is possible at this point. Do you have different levels and intensities of love? Yes. Is it possible that while loving one person you discover someone else who has different attributes and things about them that attract you? Yes. Does it mean you love your other love any less? No. So anything possible. What he needs to do is choose. It's human to have feelings all over for different people. (we have that capacity, intelligence and coimplexity of emotions) But our society dictates that you must be faithful to one and only one. So....he has to pick.
249228
Yes. I believe in soulmates. I have a soulmate, he is a wonderful guy. He has been my best friend for 15 years. I love him like crazy and always will. We have a really cool bond and even though we are not romanticaly involved, it is a bond that goes way beyond that, like we are just a part of one another and always have been....
745360
Sweetie, every woman has gone through this before in life... at least I think so. Ive found that yeah it does take time for me to get over a person but as soon as I do and become myself again someone else comes along that is better looking and has a better personality. Dating should be an experiance that you learn from...take the things that you done and the things that the other person done and figure out what things you want in a mate. Also take the time to think about what that person could have done better and what you could have done better and try to apply it to the next relationship. For example you may have not communicated effectively in the last one....so in the next one try to communicate better. Get rid of the baggage now, dont judge the next person from the last persons mistake! Its all a learning experiance....belive me and the pain that you are going through only makes you stronger!!!! Love yourself there isnt anything wrong with you just keep going-there's something better in the future!!! I promise! Just be strong!!!!
881502
Just as you said: "what if you find another" - to find someone you must have been looking! \n\nIts dangerous when one croses the line- but sometimes you cross the line for a reason- it might not be clear now but think about it.\n\nThere is no such thing as a soul mate- its all about compatibilty, love thrown in together and  a mixture of fate. its all a matter of who appears at the right place at the right time.- but now its more like who appears at the right place at the wrong time\n\nyou must know that the grass is always greener- this person that has the potential to come between your marriage could have been your current spouse. Its all because there is someone 'new 'outhere  who isnt your spouse and thats bloody exciting... but not for long\n\nthis line made famous in the movie ALFIE makes all the sense in the world  "for every fine woman you see in a club there is a guy out there who is sick of shagging her" and vice versa
171244
Sorry to be a wet blanket, but soul mates are a nice nyth, nothing more.  Relationships are hard work, and you get back what you put in.
503040
I truly believe there is NO WAY to find them.  A soul mate appears when it is the right time like my husband did.  I searched all my life to find him and I didn't till I was 48 and we are married now, have a new home, pets, kids, grandkids and a great life.  He is my world.  There are soul mates for everyone I believe, but they find you when it is the right time for both of you.  I truly believe God meant for my husband and I to meet.  What I am lacking, he has an abundance of and visa versa.  We are opposites in lots of ways, but neither has ever loved like we do now.
894835
You have a very good basis for your relationship - your friendship, and evidently there are some strong bonds, as both of you are there for each other. \n\nWhen you have found your soulmate, you will know inside your heart, without a doubt. Sometimes it takes losing someone or not having them around for a period of time before you realise you cannot really live without them. Then you would also know if he is your soulmate.
80609
I really believe in a soul mate...We often must go through many difficult times (and good ones, too) in order to get prepared for the ultimate relationship. The only problem is when you don't open your heart to the possibilities!\n\nGood luck
754372
i did twice, almost at the same time. i was dating this guy that i absolutely loved. we dated a year before we ended it. it was really heartbreaking. he didnt cheat on me or anything, atleast i dont think he did. i thought we were going to get married! in the middle of that relationship, i also became friends with this guy who had a crush on me. i had a crush on him too but we never dated or anything because i was so in love with my boyfriend. my friend and i stopped talking because i wanted to be with my boyfriend and i felt i was cheating on him because i had a crush on him. anyway, bad idea. i got my heart broken twice.... my boyfriend dumped me and i lost my chance with my friend =( im glad to say that my friend and i are friends again and still close. i still believe i lost my chance with him though =/
197569
this is tough. sometimes, when yuo see love around you, you seek to feel the way others do. to find that one special person and share your life with them. they say that there is a soulmate for every person in the world but sometimes they dont find each other in there lives. You can be patient and wait for your guy to come around for you, but he may be waiting for you.
652074
I know there is--I married my high school sweetheart, and two kids and twenty years later, we're still crazy about each other.  We were unusually fortunate, though, in finding someone we were so compatible with at such a young age, and both of us being open-minded enough to allow the other to grow and change as we grew up together.  That doesn't mean, though, that I believe there is only one person who each of us could achieve relationship nirvana with, though.  I think it's a matter of finding someone you can really connect with, and then building a strong foundation rooted in trust, honesty, tolerance, and open communication.
244701
You dont search for your soul mate, you find eachother. Soul mates are connected, even before you meet. You cant look at someone and say "thats my soul mate." It just doesnt work that way. Like they say, "you cant help who you love." best of luck.
719159
at this moment, i am thinking of my future soulmate. I really wish i was in his arms, to be cuddled and loved. So sad i'm still single and I have to go thru my life alone. I hope that good souls would pay tht i find my mr. right who loves me sooooooooo much, soon.. tc, thanks for your question. really made me speak out what i felt.
211322
All four surely? The one you love should be your soulmate, who unless you are very lucky you can't have, so you chase them. Its the same person
45854
Yes it is possible to love someone that you meet and see only once...this feeling is within your heart.. maybe your attracted to that person and you will never forget her..try to keep the feeling inside and someday maybe it will come true...