How can I meet a pretty girl with mental illness.?
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Son, every woman has a mental illness, just take a pick.
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Just be yourself, a guy that's really worth it in the long run will take the time to get to know and love the real you.  I understand that it can be a hard thing to meet people when you have an anxiety disorder. A few suggestions, Please realize that you must be out there and available in order to meet someone, go to church events,sports or social gatherings or whatever you are interested in. Second, if the anxiety is severe and limiting your social interaction consider seeing a doctor that can prescribe medication or support to help you relax and over come your fear.  In any case I wish you the best of luck. Don't despair and remember there is a special someone out ther just for you, give it time you'll find them one day.
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Practice strike up a conversation with girls you do not know but are not necessarily the most attractive to you. Watch them stumble that will help you released you are not alone, help them when they stumble this will help you gain confidence for your own game.\n\n Good luck man remember pretty women have the same problem as you, sometimes both sides are equally interested but both players are bad at the game and personal insecurities make each party feel that they are at fault and the conversation fizzles.\n\n Avoid these phrases at all cost:\n  Nice day today.\n  Man this place is busy\n Have you been hear before?\n  Are you here with friends\n   *** The problem with any conversation starter like the above is it is easily answered with one word. Give her something to work with.  It is way too hard to recover from a Yes and No conversation its mechanical, no way to find common interests.
859758
go shopping, join a gym......go out more and hopefully u will meet someone special.
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Hey don't worry - do some lifestyle changes - you want to meet girls - join a gym/aerobics class/cooking class/take a night course etc\n\nIf you want to meet someone in your own faith - join a prayer group/study group/youth group\n\nIf you want to meet someone in your profession - attend seminars/go to profession barbeques etc\n\nIf you want to meet someone fun and adventurous - join a secular charity group - say Rotary\n\nIf you want to meet someone who has social consciousness at heart - do some volunteer work at the soup kitchen or at the local red cross etc\n\nbe comfortable with yourself, work out a bit so that your body is in good shape, read widely so that you have a lot of topics to draw upon when you meet that gal...oh yeah browsing for books and shopping is also a good place to meet girls...\n\nDon't gush too much when you meet someone, don't relate everything that has happened etc and especially leave out miserable stuff out....listen listen listen and listen to what makes her tick...and enjoy her company...actually the less you say about what you have done the better...\n\nhave fun
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Have a great personality and an awesome sense of humor. Be a good friend and show her the beauty that is inside you. Looks aren't everything. Its what's on the inside that really matters most. If you are a fun person to be around she will want to be around you!
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try looking on the Suicide Girls website
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Encourage her to do things for her. Help her to raise her self esteem.  Let her know that she is important and that you care for her. Tell her she looks fine.\nAnd you can talk normally with her, I'd recommend don't say to her how pretty are top models or other women (above all if they are skinny or very skinny). You can let her know that the people very skinny can affect their health. That every one must find one their ideal weight, and it is the weight you feel confortable with and also is healthy for you.
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Hi, you seem too obsessed with yourself, your body, your image. I agree that today especially looks do play an important part, but its not everything. If you keep on thinking of negative things, any girl you might have otherwise interested, will stay clear of you! Please broaden your horizon, take up a hobby, surround yourself with friends, live happy.
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Well, I think you are wrong.  I tend to have the same problems.  You are too serious even in your approach.  Girls just wanta have fun.  If you approach a girl with such a straight forward attitude you'll scare her off.  Big Yes on the self-confidence though.  You need to come across like you're fun to hang out with and you're looking for others that are fun to hang out with.  Friendship first buddy.  Ask general open-ended questions then listen.  School, work, hobbies, pets, etc  LISTEN to what she is saying and don't let your mind wander.  I know what happens.  She's talking and your thinking, oh crap what do I say, she's pretty, does she like me, how do I look, how can I be funny, what do I say, oh crap... If you're not listening then you can not 'join' the conversation.  The more you talk the more you both will loosen up.
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Finding a girl with the qualities your looking for isn't impossible to find.You just have to look harder or sometimes stop looking and she will come to you. Best way to find that type of girl, be open minded, be yourself, be honest with her.
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you should look around, or mingle at friends parties...don't go out in the street and look for someone...or maybe you might find the right girl somewhere unexpected...
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You def. only have an idea of this girl..like that other person posted...def. meet her and talk to her alot more in person...its a whole other character face to face....you'll have to suck that up and get comfortable in person..otherwise..you have no relationship...
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Sweety i hate to say it but in these areas you may be dealing with someone who is not who they say they are. Trust me on this one. I know from experience that people are mean and its best to meet from within. Try finding a nice church to attend with singles groups to meet more girls. Nice girls!
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Well if you are looking for live support check the mental health section in your city or county and they will be able to tell you where to find one. There is one very good site that I know of online and I will place the link below. Give it a try the forum is run very smoothly and the site is taken care of my pyschologist.
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The best advice anyone ever gave me to find a girl was this... STOP LOOKING. Find something you're interested in, join in and you'll meet people, and then you'll meet guys. Or join a group and you'll meet people that way.\n\nSo take care of yourself first, build up your confidence. You apparently don't think you're pretty if you say your friends do? Take care of yourself first. You have to like yourself before others will like you.
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there are alot of places to meet ppl but on the net maybe for real go out for dinner with friends. make new friends they will have others in there groups you could met. this way yr widening yr scope for meeting the right girl