i am 7 months pregnate and in a serious relationship with the father of my unborn child. is this going to work
453679
there is no way anybody here can answer that for you, the fact that you feel the need to ask is not a good sign though.  make sure you can take care of yourself and your baby on your own in case it doesn't though, its the best way to protect yourself against the possibility that it won't and you are now responsible for another life.  why are you having a child with someone you have so many doubts about?
238870
First of all, winning his heart has nothing to do with having that baby.  To do with winning his heart.  I am assuming that you know him well enough to know what his feelings for you are.  If not just talk to him about it.  As for the baby I sure hope that the decision you made to keep it was for the right reasons and that you are prepared to raise it without this lad.  Don't mix the two together and start telling the truth and to hell with both of your mates or so called mates.
27648
You should be more specific.  Are YOU having trouble or your other half.\n\nBeing pregnant can make a lot of things go through both of your minds.  Sex is no problem unless there's a complication and you should ask your doctor.  For a man it can be a problem just because of the psychological part not wanting to do any harm to the baby.
322145
Sweetheart, you need to sit down and talk to your parents.  If you want to keep the baby then wait for about 5 more weeks before you tell them.  How old r u????  Is the baby's father going to be in the picture?  I would definetely sit down and talk to your parents.  They will know eventually!  Unless they r blind that is.  In about 6 months there will be no hiding it!  Plus you need prenatal care from a docotr as soon as u know u r pregnant.  You need to take vitamins especially for Pregnant women.  They do have them at any drug store but the ones the doctor will give u are better.  BUT you need to be examined.  The longer u wait the worse.  So u cannot keep it secret for long.  They may be upset in the beginning but remember- they r your parents and they love u very much and they only want the best for u so if they seem upset its because they r worried about your future!  Good luck to u
33535
Take the pregnancy test first! If it's positive for pregancy, then talk to him in private about what kind of decision you both need to make together.
960512
Maybe you could find a surrogate to have the baby, using your eggs and his sperm.  Good Luck!
903163
I would say it will probably last.  That said, it helps to walk into it knowing that having children is EXTREMELY hard on a relationship.  From the moment she gets pregnant until the baby is about 18 mos, hormones, sleep deprivation, etc make it very difficult to remember the wonderful things your relationship is based on.  Even if you want to separate, try to postpone any decisions until the baby is 2 (unless abuse is an issue, obviously).  My husband and I had fights when our twins were infants that were truly horrible and completely out-of-character for us, you just have to remember that it will pass and things will improve.  The first response was spot-on -- if the dad falls in love with the kid & and does his part with diapers, laundry, supporting breastfeeding it will be a huge help.  Happily, biology has designed babies to be very easy to fall in love with -- humans are hard-wired to respond to infantile large foreheads & those tiny cries.  You'll spend the first year flip-flopping between extremely happy and very tired & grumpy, but I'm 90% sure you won't regret it.
589990
He is more likely to be ready than you are. He doesn't know where you are and thats why he hasn't initiated anything. If you initiate it I he is certain to accept. You are the one who had the baby he is just waiting for you.
498606
Sounds like if he doesn't want the baby he will leave anyhow. I would kinda get ready for that. He might surprise you afterwards the first time he lays eyes on his son or daughter..You being pregnant you do not need any unwanted stress..I would get my support ready, family, friends, ect and go on with my life and get ready for the most beautufil thing in the world.
480381
Don't get back in a relationship with someone just for the kids sake.  It never works!  If you don't feel a connection with her, other than the baby, then a relationship probably won't last that long.  Just telling you because I know too many of my friends (including me) that's been there and done that!
606587
Well since that happened to me a yr ago, I suggest that u tell him that it's over and that u want him to be part of the baby's life. In my situation her and me have an understanding where I get to have him for 2 weeks out of the month and so does she. She just came out and told me, I wasn't so happy about it but I got use to it and realized that she really wanted it to be over. Anyways if U need some more advice on this e-mail at elguapo_v12@yahoo.com Well good luck and remember just sit down with him and tell him what u really feel...
400730
When I heard 3 month old, I figured that would be a turning point and then you mentioned it started as soon as you knew you were going to be parents...obviously this wasn't planned, and your man is now feeling his life as he knew it is changed forever, what a shame, it could and would be changed for the better if he would only open his heart to the bigger picture of what life is all about, family...early months for anyone is a struggle, after 6 months he should be able to recognize himself within his own sons eyes and begin to form a bond, if you feel he will totally rejects this notion, then seek family counseling, either professionally or thru a local Church, Please don't allow your child to be subjected to such conditions that resulted from his birth to carry on for years and emotionally scar his childhood because his father didn't want to know any better.
429696
First things first make sure he has a DNA test to rule out being the daddy to the baby.If you really love him then tell him.Maybe you guys could just start over and begin a new life together.I would make sure that he understands that you do not want him seeing other women if you do decide to get back together.If he is the daddy to the baby do you think you could handle all the drama it will bring to you.Just think about what you need and want in this relationship.Good luck with everything dear.
100119
sure...you'll be fine...is thgere a rush?.....280 days  plus  or  minus  for  one  of the  most  remarkable  things  to  happen..a  baby\nif  you  both  get to  know  each  other  with  massage.reflexology...just  touching  and  cuddling...youll melt the  barrier.....if  yr  thinking  of  having  a  child  to  satisfy  someone  else  ..a  relative...or   to  satisfy...THAT  includes....some  authoritive  figure  who...isn't arround  but  left  you  with a  blockage...about  children  or  parenting  or  sex.....find  a  mid  wife  they're  remarkable  and  have  a  great  insite....   get  yr  partner  to  go  dancin  together...slow  couple  artistic  dancn...that  will bring  you  a  harmonious  co-ordination....ther's a lot  more  but  these are  fine  openers
32882
I would say try to make it work if you can, it sounds that he is good for your kid.\nDId you loved eachother at apoint?\nIf there is no other way just talk to him
199713
As Tupac said" men have no right to tell a women when and were to create one". BF's come and go but that baby will be with you for the rest of your life don't make the child suffer for the decision he wants to make. It sound like you would be a great mom because that means you have already thought about leaving that sorry man. Cause if he knew he wasn't ready for kids he should have kept his stuff in his pants. It's all on you but let me tell you I lost my second child I don't know if his father thinks about him but i do and it happened 3 yrs ago and hurts every time i see a baby boy. MY Friend had an abortion and she regrets it and is now trying to have a baby but she doesn't know that no other baby is going to fill that void
483646
I do not wantd to scar you but there always is a change of getting Pregnet . You have to wait and see now . If it did happen it is to late for it know . You find out whit in 2 or 4 weeks and then you have to know what you wantd to do .