whats that girls like to find in a guy when she sees him for the first time?
451117
great smile...nice eyes....
353184
This is a pretty open question.  The first thing I look for to tell if a guy likes me would be if he is open with me.  It really helps if you are friends before lovers!  This way you can tell if you two would be compatible enough for a more loving relationship.
210695
No but wat i look for in a guy is \n-kind \n-funny a guy that can take a joke\n-NOT CHEAP with money even little things they will get on any girls nerves even if she does not show it\n-Does not make a girl feel scared to say wat is in her heart \n-NOT CHEAP \n- does not say mean comments just to scare her\n- not boring\n- adventures
12091
If the girl likes you she will often look at you with a sweet eyes and not with a seductive eyes. Girls who love to manipulate guys has a seductive look on their face and in their eyes seduction is so clear. You will know that she loves you when her eyes sparkles and her smile are sweet. If it is her first time to have a crush or serious chrush she will shy away. If she loves you she treats you differently than other guys. If you remain gentle to her no matter what she do out of her shyness or uncontrolable feeling that leads to an appropriate action she will come to love you more and one day express it in a better way. \nIf you become her lover she will care for you, would want to see you often, would want to know what you are doing for the momment, would listen to you, would feel what you feel like you two are same people lol, she will be honest to you, she will be afraid to let you down, she would want to know the new you every now and then, she would want to be love by you, cared by you and understood by you and if you will not be able to give her what she needs she will be leave you but never forget you.
415877
usually depends on the type of girl, but for me and most of my friends, someone funny, good looking and is sweet to you. and isnt a total jerk to you when he's around his friends. and doesnt mind to tell you he likes you. that just about somes it up
910195
To be honest, the physical part plays a HUGE part, but once we get get to know the girl, intelligence and a good heart.  Smile, eyes, hair are big pluses.... and source of our inspiration.\nA good sign will be that he becomes shy with you or too strong on to you..
934887
i think i fell in love at first sight.\ni saw him, and told my frends; oh my god that guy is sooo cute look! and since then i stil rly rly like him, not sure if its actually love but still it was the first sight that did it, then i got to know him a bit better now were frends i like him for his personality as well though. problem: he knows i like him now and things r getting awkward between us. but you know, it was like or love or crush or wateva at first sight. IT  DOES EXIST!
482985
Signals:\ntouches you while you are talking\nlooks straight into your eyes\nshows interest in things that you like (music, books, movies, etc.)\nhangs out with you even when she doesnt have to\n\nGirls really look for a guy who is caring and funny... she wants a guy who she will always have fun with but he still respects her.
1128022
wow... that's almost poetic. seriously.\n\nnow as to your question, most guys notice looks first. after all, they see you before they talk to you. it's only now that online dating, chatrooms, and email penpals that have taken over that personality has a chance to shine before your appearance does.\n\nwhile looks are what will initially reel a guy in, it's personality that makes him stay. you know how parents used to tell their kids looks don't matter as much as personality? well they're half right.\n\nlooks are necessary in a relationship. if you can't feel something physically for the person you like personality wise then you WILL have problems. and while not everyone has a supermodel body or superhero looks, they usually have one feature that is their best (eye's, hair, smile, and yes.. their body too)\n\nnow that they have a starting/point of interest. the fun begins and the personalities of the individuals comes out and you find out whether you are compatible with each other. this is where a cute or plain girl can become beautiful in the eyes of a guy... and where a guy who at his best can only rate "cute" uses a sense of humor to go a bit higher in the scale to a "really cute" (or so i've been told :P)\n\nthis is also where a really hot girl can show how shallow and empty headed she can be... just like the bad boy "hot" guy can show how his head is comparible to a piece of wood (yes yes i know... these are sterotypes... but they are stereotypes for a reason. i.e. there were enough instances that it BECAME a stereotype. i know there are exceptions to the rule, trust me, i've met them)\n\nyour looks let them know there is a girl nearby... your personality lets them know that YOU are nearby. hope this helped ;)
574543
Personally, I first find the looks attractive. I know its kinda shallow, but after that i make a decision based on who she hangs out with, how she acts, her personality and her sense of humor. I think her personality is the biggest factor after I get to know her more. But, first impressions are looks.
575648
Well a first physical attraction would be about looks. You wouldnt walk past a guy / girl and say to your self "yeah baby, I bet he has a good personality."
708138
all girls love it when guys ask them out whether they like them back or not\n\ntrust me I love it when guys ask me out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
87464
well i like when a guy just is plain and real about asking and i love when a guy takes me somewhere silly for the first date its a great icebreaker (try something like chukie cheese) and if you can win the girl a prize " to remember you by"
680094
He has to be charming. he listens to you and doesn't get distracted when another girl's butt goes pass by you. He wants to spend his time with you, he knows what you like, he opens the door of the car, he opens the doors and lets you go in before he does, he pays the check most of the times. He loves your smell and he is not afraid to meet your parents or your friends. He introduces you to his friends and family.
717537
Sense of humour, ability to laugh at himself, ability to converse with you as if you matter, expectation of a woman to be clever and to have ideas and wishes and needs.\n\nIf he's also good looking, that's a bonus.
614666
I look for honesty and a person that has a good heart! I want to be able to laugh and have a good time anywhere we might be! I want a girl to be neat in appearence and clean looks isnt everything but I do want them to smell good and enjoy sex as much as I do when It comes to that point in our relationship!
147363
When you find the right guy for you. Someone you can see spending the rest of your time with.. :-)