Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 months, is it to soon to get serious?
442944
My boyfriend and I got together and less than 2 weeks later we moved in together, and we were talking about marriage after 3 weeks, he is my soul mat e, my whole life, and my futurte husband, we have been together for 2 years and we have had our bad times, really bad times, but it doesnt make me love him, or us any less, so what Im trying to say is, if your ready and he is the one, you will just know, nobody else can tell you when you are ready except for your heart, dont listen to your head so much, i mean listen to it just follow your heaart, you know what is best for you...I wish you the best of luck and hope it all works out for you...xxx
200138
Couldn't you just take it for what it is and just be?  Sometimes people have differences in when you two began dating.  You might think when it was the first date and got interested in him.  He might think from when he first kissed you or nailed you in the sack.  Hmm... 2 months for a first kiss is tough to say, unless you were not seeing him that often (like once a month).  I'm thinking maybe the latter...
322796
maybe he isnt ready for realtionship right now, keep in contact with him as friends and if you both meant to be together you will be. good luck.
315305
Sounds like a sensible and mature boy for his age.  Follow his lead...be friends and, if the dating is meant to be, it will happen...in 2 years.  You are too young right now anyway.
474622
you need to sit him down and tell him how you feel. it sounds like it is time to slow things down, alot. you both need to sit and talk about what the 2 of you want out of this relationship. when the 2 of you are on the same page it will be alot easier.
817989
well...ur situation is just like mine now..lol\njust think carefully....do u still wnat this relationship to continue?
1080976
If you just started dating him 2 months ago, sex shouldnt be the first thing on your mind. if he tells you he loves you, look into his eyes and see if he means it.
597557
wait at least another year.  Sometimes things dont really come into the clear until you have been with a person two years.
43612
If he says he broke up with her, that's all you have to go by.  If you like being with him, then continue on and don't worry about it.  I'm concerned that you have already slept with him, since you haven't even known him for 2 weeks ... but that's your choice, I guess.  I would definitely wait much longer before choosing to get so intimate with some one you don't really know.
629224
TWO WEEKS??? OH MY! that is just too quick.  He needs to slow down and make that proposal in about another two years.\n\nYou don't say how long you know him - is it only two weeks?\nWhat is the rush??  You have your whole lives ahead of you to be together.  Take the time now to get to know each other, and discover what goals you have set for yourselves.\n\nYou could marry now and in two weeks be a divorced couple.\n\nSlow down - the best is yet to be - there is plenty of time ahead.\n\nGood Luck!
511841
i don't think he is serious about the relationship and like you said, you may just be there for convenience. if you have been together for 2 months and he is making you feel insecure and physically sick, then i can't think for the life of me why you would stay?\n\nmaking plans and doing things together are the normal thing couples do. you making plans to spend time and him not acknowledging or remembering is a sure indication that he isn't too keen on you. I'm sorry if that sounds cruel or hurtful, but it is an honest opinion from a guy.\n\nhim going off on the weekends and being you put off the phone is a sure indication that it's time to call it quits.  leave before your pain becomes unbearable. have faith in yourself and find someone who deserves your love!!\n\nany guy can talk sweet but if he doesn't follow words with action, then i thinking he is whispering sweet nothings into your ear. stop listening to him and move on, girl! life is too short to waste love on a person that doesn't give back.
111324
you have been datong him for 3 months right? well then tell him that you want it to be serious.
680366
Definatly give him a chance.  You've known him for two years and you know you can trust him.  All romantic relationships start off as friends adn then move to the next level with time and even if it doesn't work out you two can still be friends and know you shared two levels of friendship.  Good luck to you two!
81301
It is going to be hard since the two of you are now apart.  Sounds like you are a little unsure about the stability of your relationship.  If you want things to slow down, tell him. Marriage is something that you take slowly to ensure the success of it. You don't want three years from now to end up in divorce... or cheating. take a deep breath and talk to him about the situation.  Maybe you will realize that the two of you are ready, or perhaps the two of you will make the mature decision to take things slowly!  6 months is not very long to be getting engaged!
122515
If you're just "talking" to him and you've had sex with him, it's a little late.  2 months seems an awful short time to know someone before you have sex.  I doubt you're going to get a commitment from him.
580014
If you've been together 2 1/2 years and you don't feel as though you're being heard, you need to tell him as plainly as you've told us how you feel. He may not realize how you feel or that perhaps he hasn't listened as well as he might have. In that case, you both have a chance to make a fresh start at better communication. However, if this is something that you've brought up with him before and nothing has changed, it's time to quit the fairytale dreaming of how beautiful it COULD be 'if only.....' and accept the fact that he doesn't respect or value you enough to actually hear or care. This scenario will NOT get better. How is a girl to choose? By knowing that what you feel and have to say to him is just as important as what he says to you. It boils down to respect...does he have respect for you?
1161814
Since you have so many doubts, you also know in your heart that its not time to get serious. Since he is so sweet, he will not try to rush you into something you aren't ready for either. I suggest you just keep the relationship on a slow pace and really get to know each other before worrying about a real commitment from either of you.