While having sex with my boyfriend, his sister accidentally saw us! What should I do now?
435442
Hm, I have to say that depends largely on how is your relationship with his family (particularly with his sister). If you really care about them, (you really shouldn't have sex with him in the first place. You're so young...!) you should come and talk with her. \n\nApologize first. Admit that you'd done wrong.\nMake her understand why you did it. (Your boyfriend should talk with her too) How you feel about her brother and that it is normal that her brother is going to belong to someone else (that is, his wife).\n\nIn time (especially if she has a bf on her own) she would understand.\nBut assure her that nothing will ever change how her brother feels for her, and how YOU feel for her.\nAND remind her that it IS a wrong deed, and she should never follow your step.
836880
It is admirable that you told your boyfriend and also apologised.\nWhat you should do is to give him time and see what happens\nSeriously i think that you are a very brave girl\nGood luck
389996
Just get him drunk first then he may not know it's his sister (If that matters to him). Getting him drunk will also take care of the question of does he find her attractive.
554671
What? Was it not what it looked like? How can you accidentally make out with someone?\nIt's just like being a little bit pregnant. Don't tell her but be ready for fireworks if she 'accidentally' finds out
261332
It's very hard to read your question but what I got from it was that your sister called her boyfriend who had one of her friends over there alone and so she thinks he's cheating, am I right? If so then I have a question, does she know for sure? If she doesnt then I think she needs to talk things out with her boyfriend if he is cheating and she for sure knows that then she needs to dump his a** and her friend too!!!
984812
Well it sounds like each sister looked up to the other and maybe should not have when it came to this. You have your head on right which is what is most important but your concern for your sister who is way to young to be doing this - and did you say two guys were doing this with her?? \n\nObviously she does not respect herself or her body. She is way too young to even understand the body sexually, what it means and does, how it feels, precautions to takethat sleeping around causes people to talk crap about you and think poorly of you, that waiting for someone you love to share that with is the most important thing.\n\nYou know you are careful so you are not a hypocrite. You are also not 13. Where are your parents? Someone has to start keeping an eye on her and not letting her have boys in the house. She needs some rules and restrictions.. it sounds like she just runs around and does whatever she wants - where are the parents here? As her sister though, you can start to create some rules she should follow - and keep your eye on her. Don't let boys in the house. Not only does she not respect herself but not even the house she lives in. She is way out of her league and can get all types of diseases too - not just a baby. You have to tell her this - that STDs and HIV can be transmitted even when a condom is used, that pregnancy can occur even with a condom.\n\nMaybe she wants attention and takes anything - even negative attention rather than none. I feel bad for her though and your family that no one watched over you all enough to teach you right and wrong. It sounds like you got it so how did you learn that but no one else did?\n\nShe has to respect herself or no one EVER will. Men respect women that are picky about who they share themselves with - not ones who sleep around and treat their body like it is worth nothing. Make her understand how precious this is and how sexy not having sex and waiting can be - how much better it is when you love someone - talk to her very openly. She is not having it because of the way it feels - she has no clue.. she is doing it to feel attractive, get attention and feel better about herself. Try to help her boost her self esteem and spend time with her - hold her hand nad show her the way.\n\nMost important, teach her about how to be safe - about condoms, birth control pill.. everything - go  to a Planned Parenthood (they have a website) in your area and have a counselor there talk to her. She should know having a kid that young is not going to be good - it can end her life essentially - any other dreams she has... anything - watch her, talk to her, show her the way.
576872
Had sex with my girl friends brother!
379188
Oh geez, fucking your sister. What do you think? : P
750587
I hate to say this, but it would have saved you some trouble if you asked that question to him BEFORE having sex!\n\nIt appears BOTH of you got caught up in the moment!
954130
oh Lord have mercy. You are in deep trouble, buddy. no more 2 hours of coitus!! 2 hours of coitus!!!\n\nJust let her do her own freaky thing...I have a sibling on here too and we just stare, open mouthed at each other sometimes, like WHO THE HELL ARE YOU?? after reading each others crap on here.\n\nout of respect, I DID have to take off the black vinyl femme dom outfit spread eagle avatar of myself..it was just too much and I did not want it brought up around the Thanksgiving table.
1021103
You can do the right thing and that would be to keep it to yourself.  HE IS YOUR SISTERS BF FOR GOD SAKE.
382026
Have a talk with her and tell HER to stop and get a man of her own!  Does she feel  or percieve herself as THAT worthless  that she has to go after another girls sloppy seconds to feel desired?  Her and her clitoris may cost you your friendship with your best friend. Don't take sides with your sister in something like that! Just because she is your sister doesn't take away from the fact that WRONG is WRONG!  If she doesn't stop sleeping with the gentleman, inform your friend.  She will appreciate it as I'm sure you would if you were in your best friends shoes!
31677
Talk to your brother. Tell him he picked a whore. Expect a mad brother, but a wiser one. Make sure he doesn't go back to her. It's guaranteed you're not the only one who was dipping his wick. \n\nStep away. Cut off all contact from the woman. \n\nYou might think of getting tested for VD if you didn't use a condom.
996990
he made fun of you during sex? what an asshole. how would he feel if he took off his pants and you laughed at him? \nyou need to tell your boyfriend how his stupid comment offended you and made you selfconcious. and if you try again (which you should even if it's not with him) take your time. it can take a while to learn the right rhythm but you'll get it. practice makes perfect.
287223
stop trying to convince yourself, ok you did what you did before but still that is your sister. if you want to give him booty go ahead. cause you probably will anyway. you are still sprung girl you gotta shake it off. he is only a man or boy. spend time with yourself get your mind right .go out meet new people.
645595
At some point you're going to have to face what you did, I mean were there other people who saw who could tell your man, or do you think this person you kissed will take it personally. I understand what happened, we all have done some stupid stuff drunk. I would talk to the guy you kissed, no matter how uncomfortable it maybe, the last thing you need is this guy thinking it meant something and harassing you, you need to draw the line and say it was a mistake (who knows maybe he thinks it was a mistake too). As for your man, it's up to you whether you tell him, although IF there is even the SLIGHTEST possibility he will find out from other means then YOU need to be the one to tell him if you hope to stay with him, he will think more of your honesty if you come out with it than he will your dishonesty if he finds out through someone else. ALTHOUGH IF there is NO possibility he will find out I would say keep it to yourself, there's no need to drag your guilt out and punish him, believe me I know my boyfriend told me about some girl he had sex with then afterward he said, I feel SO much better for getting that off my chest, yeah well then I felt horrible and I wasn't the one who had done anything wrong!
985016
The ONLY right thing for you to do is to report it to the police.  She's in a vile situation with a monster, and if she's too afraid of reporting it, then be the best boyfriend that you can be and report it for her.  You can do it anonymously if you want to.