how do you fall out of love?
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Damn..........\nthat's a thought one. I really feel for you, but I cannot help you this time.
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What is there to break up?
634176
Guy's always stop. It doesn't necessarily means he doesnt' love you anymore or isn't romantic, he's just comforted in teh relationship to believe he shoudln't have to do all that shet anymore to prove anything to you. If it bothers you that much, tell him. Take him out to dinner. Unless he's falling out of love with you, well then....shitty.
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Sweetie...what would be the point of continuing the relationship?\n\nYou would en up being miserable in the end and when that happens you will say to yoruself, "Why didn't I just leave when he said he no longer loved me?"  This just saves you some time and gets you on the road to recovering from this relationship faster.
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I have mixed feelings about this one. I fell out of love with my husband years ago. I stayed because he was all I knew and we have 2 kids. My mistake was that i didn't confront him when i began to notice I didn't love him any more. Instead, i  told myself it'll get better. But it got worse.\n\nIn my experience, once it's gone, it's gone. I am now divorced and am OK with it. You are right about there is something in a woman's eyes. My husband said the same thing to me.\n\nI'm sorry I couldn't give you something more positive to stand on.
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find a good guy for her. a guy who would be ready to love her a lot and never hurt her.\n\nP.S. you can't stop someone from falling in love. \n        Love is inevitable.\n        We don't choose love, but love chooses us.
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You choose to continue loving them.  The feelings of love (normally lust) will diminish and you are left with this person who is not what you thought they were now that you can see them without your blinders.  At this point, you choose to continue loving the person by over looking the annoying habits and doing things you know pleases them.  Find their (and your) love language.  It makes a huge difference!  Check out the love language book at your local library.
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Falling in love is not anyhow a task of life, where you are gettin some problems that can be solved out by asking somebody,"what could be the possible sollution to my problem for this ? " .\nwel its a feeling -----\n                        " direct dil se"\n\nyou wont get any clue when you get the person in front that ya this is the persom whom you have to fall in love.\nrather its very uncertain.\nwe; my dear i cant't exactely tell you how to fall in love,\nbut ya i could tell you the sign when you fall in love---\n\n- you continously keep on thinking of that person\n- if that person hurts you, you feel bad and again after tryin hard not able to forget him/her\n- you feel as if that person remain always with you i.e you like his/her company\n- you feel good when that person is happy and you feel bad when he/she sad and want to help anyhow\n\n\nwel my dear anything related to the signs if you feel ,,,\nit means you r in love, and if you want to fall in...\nthen just go ahed with these. and surely u will fall in love ..\ngood luck
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Many people don't simply fall out of love when they fall in love with another person. I've never fallen out of love with anyone I feel in love with. Six people with whom I'm still in love. Most I've not seen for many years, but a low level of feeling is still there. I met one after not seeing her for over 15 years. It was a lot like getting hit in the stomoch. Much more powerful than I'd have thought.\n\nIf you accept this about yourself and your lovers can too, then you should research polyamory. Polyamorous people form long-term, romantic and loving relationships with more than one person. Sometimes they are intimate, sometimes not, depending on the people involved. The only rule is that everyone involved knows and gives their blessing to the relationships. They are difficult even with that, to add deception or those who haven't agreed is a recipe for disaster.\n\nI was recently in a relationship with two people. They loved each other and me. I loved both of them. The relationship lasted for about a year and a half. It still hurts thinking about the loss of them.
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lol, chill out, you'll find better love, i just went through something kinda like that, and it hurt at first, but you will gain confidence by saying no.
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all of the things that youu have left over from the relationship, (hats, clothes, pictures etc.) put them away in a box and write a letter to yourself, and then to your ex- telling her that you love her, and that you have to let her go. then put the letters in the box, and put the box away in a closet, or something. only look at it once a month, after a while it doesn't hurt anymore. you still love the person, but most of the times you'll figure that if you were meant to be together than it will happen again.
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You can't, unfortunatly, pick and choose who you fall in love with. If you really can't be with him, get out and date others. If he's out of sight, he's out of mind. Only time will get you through this.
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if the relationship has lost the intimacy
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You just end it. It really doesn´t matter why, the point is: you don´t want it anymore and it´s enough. Break up with the person, cry and be sad the time you need and then, be happy again :-)
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well the answer is: DON'T.\n\nIt's hard, but If you truly cannot be with someone you feel this way about, then loving them will only bring pain.  Moving on is the only way.  Spend time with friends.  Go on a trip.  Spend time on a hobby you enjoy.  These won't make you feel better right away.  But it's all you can do to occupy your mind with something other than the person you cannot be with.  Someday, someone else will love you and it will be someone who you CAN be with.
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The best advice to give to you is just keep seeing him then you will eventually tire of him and you will stop having feelings for him coz if you stop seeing him now it will just torment you..the same thing happened to me and I got the courage to walk away once I couldnt take anymore.
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i think it times to love a person and it also takes time to stop loving a person.\nmaybe you should still keep loving that person and if it is to hard for you then do whatever you have to do, to not get hurt.