Do you stay with the a man who loves you and has a big heart but no intimacy?
449132
it depends, the most important question is how do you feel about him and what do you want out of this relationship? can you create some intimacy maybe? if not and that s your main focus for this relationship then you need to forget about this man. if your in this for mutual platonic love, then you have the right guy!
485512
That all depends on your current relationship and wheter or not there is love and trust for eachother. Really the only ones to answer that are you and him.
347046
Do you love him? If so you are going to want to stay together and try to make the relatinship work. I suppose if you don't know if you could love him ask yourself this: Could you see yourself marrying this guy? No? Then maybe it is time to move on. Break the news to him as gently as possible and maybe you can retain the relationship by just being friends.
834709
love them ? sure ...true love doesn't change however it would put a damper on sex life and relations. i couldn't STAY in that relationship but i could still love them
693350
yea, ok, stay with him, maybe, just maybe, one of these days in a fairy tale land far away he will finally wake up and come around.\n\nlast thing i remember about love was that you cared for a person and didn't let them down.\n\nif you are content with being in a relationship with a guy who cares more about his money than you and your KIDS, then so be it, i don't know what to say except hang in there i guess, eventually he should come around
1000199
I love him,I'm in love with him.He has captured my heart with his  magnificent love.\nIife without feeling his love=0\nI long to grow deeper & deeper in loving and knowing him.\nGod bless u....
879211
I would have to say stay with him, and try to make things work. Of course, if you loved him like you say you do, you wouldn't have to ask this question. You know he won't be gone forever. He'll be back. True love knows no boundaries. No distance should keep you from staying with him. Especially since the move is only temporary.
562712
Does he make you feel truly loved, do you feel a real connection when making love, and does he also meet your needs? If the answer is yes then he loves you.
414828
Do what you feel is right, if you settle for him, he'd only take it furthur and i don't mean marrage. Most relationships that one person always sacrifices  for the other, usually end with mental abused and tramatised people. You sound like a kind of person that's really independent. If he loves you and you love him, you both will make comprimises and come to a mutual agreement, even if that means long distance. I hope this helps even tho it's not really an answer.
1163406
Agree with machelle. This is true love, from the wife -- unconditional, but probably also for the financial security, social acceptance, for the kids etc. All very good reasons to stick together. Plus probably a deep understanding of who he is. He won't leave her because that depth of guilt generates such a huge debt of gratitude. As long as he treats her with reasonable respect and dignity, she will stay, and as long as she is reasonably tolerant, he will stay.
733118
Well probably not unless he really really loves you.
674995
I would but my man is like he's not the romantic type. It doesn't interest him but I feel like if he really loved me it wouldn't be a problem for him. It's not like I'm asking to be spoiled or anything I just need more affection. I feel like asking him to be romantic is just asking for more affection shown in a more effortful way. But he thinks it's a weakness or something always trying to be hard.
64370
I would , wait I have . I loved him more than anything sadly enough me being thin was his problem . We had an amazing relationship we had fun , we laughed we had everything in common along with GREAT sexual chemistry as long as you have those few things size does not matter . Follow your heart .
217877
Yes, there are kind of person like that. They probably have some other interesting things to do in and maybe all their life, and neglect their partners (although they don't mean it).\n\nIf you marry him, you'll find really a roomate than a lover, believe me. There will be the moments you want to cry, wishing you were the other gal you see her with b/f or husband and they are so affectionate to each other ... If you watch around, you'll see even a male and a female animal in couple are affectionate with each other ...\n\nI even wonder what has been keeping you 9 years in that relationship ... Haven't you ever felt lonely in your heart ?
1159061
Yes, I was married to a man who was wonderful, but there is a downside to it. In order to stay in love the intimacy needs to be there. We later divorced and remained good friends, which was what we were in the first place. I have since remarried and I am glad because I missed being intimate with someone. Good luck.
1033653
Well....it really depends on how you feel for him. If you actually LOVE him then yes but if you can go without him and not worry about him being around or not. No don't create bad relationships. \n\nSincerely-Fudge
19053
i think the arguing is a clue that there is a lack of love somewhere. remember actions speak louder than words. only you will know if he truly loves you or not