I really believe in this guy and he let me down, should I continue to believe in him?
452243
It depends on what he did and if he destroyed the trust you had in him. A good relationship is based on honesty and trust. If you don't feel you can trust him any more than it would be best to move on with your life. Without knowing how he let you down, it makes it harder to give any more advice. I would suggest talking it over with him. Maybe he has a good reason for whatever he did. Good Luck!\n\nS.S.
601141
This happened to me.  I dated a guy for a long time, and inevitablely we had the God talk.  When I found out he didn't believe in God it through me back alot.  I sat down and did a lot of thinking.  I decided I couldn't have a future with a man who didn't believe in God.  I wanted to go to church as a family and celebrate holidays as a family.  \n\nI sat him down and told him I cared about him alot (I even loved him) but said I couldn't be with him because he didn't believe in God.  He offered to go to church with me, but I knew that deep down he still wouldn't believe in God.  I was honest and told him that I couldn't be with him since we didn't share core believes.  \n\nIt was hard, and I cried alot.  But in the end it turned out for the best.  I am now dating someone who believes in God.
1175968
i have had a similar experience. You need to understand that everybody makes mistakes. What really matters is if they learn from their mistakes. If you think that he knew he was wrong and he loves you unconditionally now then you need to forgive him and stop thinking about what happened. If you keep putting him down, chances are he will feel desperate and lonely and will do the same thing again. If you don't want him to do the same thing again then stop punishing him. If he is really sorry for what he did then forgive him and forget the past. You can't build future living in past. Forget it and try building your future with him... =)
581945
No honey, you should move on.  Trust me, life is too short to devote your time to a man/boy that is going to let you down like this.
316693
You need to be friends and earn back his trust. Once that happens it will all fall into place if it is supposed to
245809
Everyone will disappoint their mate sooner or later but they learn from their mistakes.  If you are consistently being disappointed then I would certainly question the validity of his feelings.\n\nAnd sometimes, good people just get it all wrong no matter how hard they try not to disappoint...
484776
well first you need to decide if you do or dont like him that way if you dont then just sit him down and tell him ya know hey this was a big misunderstanding and your a great freind but im not ready for that type of relationship with you and im sure hel;; understand because guys bounce back much faster so no worries he will survive
49411
perhaps you should stop reading things into it, don't try to figure out what he's thinking.  Come straight out and be honest with him, "look, I said those things because I was confused.  I feel foolish, and you may not want to hear it, but the truth is that..."  if he is any kind of a man, he will hear you out.  Don't play games, if he is worth fighting for, be straightforward.  He heard what you told him and he took you seriously.  Don't try to "make him call", just seize the opportunity and do so yourself.  If he accepts an intelligent whole-hearted apology and he feels the same, it was meant to be.  Next time, don't be so impulsive!
213645
man i'd be pissed but then i would realize one of two things. either one the man was a sleeze and i'm not so it would never work out and 2 i obviously wasn't making that person happy, not what they were looking for. and then you move on. You don't want someone that will pretend to love you. go for the real thing.
182082
dont believe everything people tell you. if you think his intentions are well continue on. if youre not sure sit down and talk to him. follow your heart and do whats right for you not for others
303227
If you have doubts about it, then that probably means that your not ready to find "the one", and if you don't think that this guy is the right one yet, then he probably won't be.  There are so many other men out there and you have your whole life to find "the one", don't rush into things, it's not worth it to get hurt in the end.  You have to know that you can trust someone, have awesome communication, and respect for each other.  If you feel that you have these and your still having doubts, then maybe he's not right for you and you need to keep looking.\n\nGood luck!
931405
Are you for real???\nLet me tell you! If you feel your being lied to! then Dump his azz! there are losts of men out there! And some pretty damn good ones too! Sounds to me like The guy in question is not only disrespectfull, decetfull, but is probably inexperianced with women also! Remember!\nOnce a cheat! Always a cheat! Dump him!
233835
You should move on!! To start with he cheated on you and even after you forgave him which i never understand that but people do he still lied to you about little stuff. This guy you will never be able to trust. You have already given him too much information to play you with. He knows that you still love him and that you think of him all of the time and its hard for you to move on talking to him. So the next time he calls blow his mind. Tell him your fine just been hanging out with friends and even found a guy that caught your eye. I bet that will end that. Dont subject yourself to being hurt again. There is more than one guy out there and you deserve a good one!! Move on and dont look back.
1132778
sometimes, verbal revelations could lose the strength of reality.\ndon't expect anymore of any direct love from him.. just go on with your life.... still be nice to him... let him do his style.. dont expect much, otherwise, youll just be hurt... pretend as if you dont mind him... meantime, focus your attention elsewhere...a hobby, a new interesting guy, or your work or studies perhaps..
418246
I would move on to the next lucky guy. Life is too short to worry about why one person fell out of love with a delightful person like you. He just didn't have good taste in women. There is no shortage of guys that would love you!
573677
You're just asking to be hurt...Honey...don't you think more of yourself?? This is not the one for you...you are HIS loss. Get  your self back in the game..
758151
you must prove that you really care for him and that other guy dont matter to you.  if the lost one still cares for you he might give you another chance but he will not trust you the same for some period of time. but this might take some while.