i want to go oral to my girlfriend.how do i do it?
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OK here's what dramatically improved my technique.  Get this book called Guide to Getting it On (Amazon has) and do what it says.  But basically you want to realize that your tongue is capable of all kinds of subtle moves and strokes, and you want put a lot of teasing into it and suspense, not just zero in on the clit and go like a jackhammer.  Be unpredictable. Lick along the lenght of her lips, inner, outer the groove between, and only play a little at the clit and then go away again to something else...and then come back... keep her guessing.  Try different things with a pointy tongue, the broad flat of your tongue, short strokes, long strokes, slow strokes, fast strokes, curvy strokes, whatever.  And make sure you lick her thighs, right where they meet the crotch.  And after a while you can spend more time on her clit and the skin surrounding it, and you can actually suck her clit into your mouth, between your lips, and play with it with your tongue while it's in your mouth.\n\nYou don't need to go fast, that'l just tire you out. Go slow, and last for a long time, that's what she'll appreciate.
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I am not a man, so the best thing I can tell you is this.  If you want to go longer without using some gadget to help you.  When you feel that orgasim coming on, pull out better yet make love for just a little bit then stop.  Notice her breast and neck?  pay close attention to it. Kiss her neck and suck on her breast. Do this over and over until she tells you that she is ready for you to come back inside. When both of you are in the heat of the moment, more than likely you will both come at the same time and pleasure will be for you both.
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Your girlfriend doesn't have to use her mouth. Use olive oil for lube and just use the hands.  It works great!...)(
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OK, you happy fella........\nI think YOU want to know how to do it right, huh?\nWell, first, the number one rule is GO SlOW.\nMake sure your face is smooth and get into a comfortable position. Lick and kiss all the way up--over her cl*t then back down all the way to her sensitive anus, then back again, doing this for awhile. When you're ready to concentrate on her cl*t, make sure you apply pressure on it, and lick up--not down--it feels better. Rule 2 is--if it tickles too much, it ain't right.\nFeel free to use your fingers, one at a time, to trace all over, and don't forget the labia majora and minora. It's quite wonderful to a woman to feel like she's being explored by her man rather than making her feel like he's only doing it because she wants it. Put it in your mind that YOU want it too!!\nA woman's orgasm starts in her mind, so don't dare distract her with B.S. She may stop you cold if you do.
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ill assume that you're a guy by your name. if u dont have that much experience with kissing, then let her lead it. dont do anything crazy and just copy what she does. that way, ull know thats how she wants it.
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tell her u make a secret 2 tell her and git closer and trip and kiss her \nher lips will break your fall
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Don't bother with what people see, its your pleasure and your partners.  Not your neighbors, media, conservatives, gay libs, or anybody elses business.  Now heres, how it should be done.\n\nFirst it has to be done slowly. not like a porno. She really has to be turned on and relaxed.  "It" has a lot of nerve endings and sensetive tissues.  LUBE, LUBE, and more LUBE.\n\nSlow, let it expand.  Its going to take a couple of tries. \nDon't force her or she will never do this.  Take small tries and before you know it, you both will discover the pleasure.\n\nOf course, use a condom if you both haven't been tested and exclusive to each other.  \n\nIt's great.
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Just walk up and kiss her. then take it from there...
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let her explore you body at her leasure. that usually gets em ready to blow.
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Have sex with one of your best looking friends whilst he watches... then after a while let him join in.\n\nIf you do something really hot, like jamming your tongue in her bumhole, you'l earn extra points.\n\nLet him screw you while you are eating her out too.\n\nAnother one is to let her sit on his face whilst you ride him.\n\nAnd finally the both of you suck him off at the same time
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Well, I don't think you should spit it out of the blue. Ask her out, take her to a place you know she likes and then gradually tell her. That's both more romantic and she can absorb it better.\n\nGood Luck!
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Get an ice cream cone and practice on the ice cream lick her the same way you would an ice ream cone.\nYou can also try writing the ABC's with your tongue on her clit
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Gently and vulnerably let him know how much you'd enjoy experiencing the passions this intimate act will lead you to...and be willing to do the same orally for him. (Contact me for more details: meister_of_subs@yahoo.com ~smile~)
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not to me. you just have to know what you are doing. most girls like oral anyway.
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Have dinner in bed, chosing food you can eat or better still, lick from each other's bodies. Put grapes or olives into her you-know-what and get them out using only your tongue. Drink champagne out of her. I LOVE that!!!
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Good tongue action, but not the stabbing tongue. Suck on the bottom lip a little bit, and kiss the neck the ear and then move back to the lips. Do not suficate your partner.
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Well I believe it is very important to please your partner...For me,   oral is one of the most satisfying ways...as long as the you communicate to the person what you like....