how can i tell if my boyfriend is cheating on me?
446063
Why bother, if you can not trust him then he is either not worth the effort or you have serious trust issues. Either way finding out if he is cheating on you seems to be a waste of time and energy.
953654
All men aren't the same and don't react the same way. I always say that actions speak louder than words. Watch his actions...is he coming home late or having private phone calls, etc. These are signs that he is cheating. Only you know if you need to worry. Take a good look at the relationship and how he treats you and you should find the answer.
264059
you don't. but then again, you don't know that he is. if you would have a reason to suspect it, then your relationship has underlying issues of trust.
378175
Some signs of cheating:\n\n1. smelling of perfume...not yours\n2. seems freshly showered\n3. money missing from account that you can't account for\n4. charges on charge cards you don't recognize\n5. working late a lot\n6. always tied up over lunch\n7. not as interested in things going on at home as was before\n8. sex frequency may change (some want more, others less)\n9. wants you to try new sexual adventures\n10. concentrates more on his appearance\n11. check out his cell phone bill \n12. is he starting to find fault with you? nothing you do is right\n13. may accuse you of having an affair due to his own guilt
308440
Follow him or hire a private detective to follow him.  Check out his cell phone and wallet.  If he is cheating...dump the loser!  Women do have that intuition thing...if you think he is, he probably is!
434285
You don't correct a wrong with a wrong!\n\nYou are saying that you 'think' that your  boyfriend is cheating! So you have no hard evidence that he is. Supposing that he isn't and you go out there and take vengeance, what would that make you? You will be the one who is cheating on him.\n\nTalk to him and tell him your fears. If you both want this relationship to move on you will work it out.\n\nIf you have solid proof that he is, be dignified and confront him. Be rational and not a drama queen! \n\nTalk it over. If you can not continue with him after that, break it up with a Coupe de Grace! \n\nIf you are willing to forgive him and give him another chance, be it but make sure he knows that you are really hurt and that because you love him you are willing to give him another chance providing that it is a final chance.\n\nGood Luck!
399848
I think he is cheating. Those are sighns
451442
why do you think he's cheating?
89508
WELL U REALLY DONT KNOW 100% SURE IF HE IS OR NOT BEING FITHFULL TO YOU.IF HE IS THERE FOR YOU THEN YEAH HE IS BEING FAITHFUL.BUT IF HES NEVER THERE OR NEVER CAN BE FOUND OR WHERE HE SAYS HE BEEN DONT ADD UP THEN YEAH HES CHEATING.YEAH IT COULD BE WITH AN X.LISTEN TO YOUR HEART.IF YOU GET THAT SINKING FEELING IN YOUR STOMACH ITS TRUE.OR IF HE COMES BACK TO YOU AND ACTS DIFF,LIKE DONT WANT TO KISS OR IGNORES YOU OR JUST CRAPPY TO YOU YEAH HES CHEATING.THEN U NEED TO SIT DOWN AND TALK IF HE IS HATEFULL OR KEEPS SAYING WHAT EVER WE R JUST FRIENDS NOTHING IS GOING ON BETWEEN US.THAT ISBULL FACE LIES.GIVE HIM A CHOICE U OR HER.
533261
She's bored with you and everything else. \n\nShe's wearing new clothes, new makeup. \n\nShe's more independent. \n\nShe's giving excuses for why shes late. She's all of a sudden busy.\n\nYour sex life has changed. \n\nAll these are "indirect" signs that she's cheating on you. \nDon't be too alarmed if its only one or two of these.
447049
If you have absolute proof I would present your case to him. If you were in his shoes, wouldn't you like to know that your guy was cheating on you? Make sure you are absolutely sure though! Don't just go off of what other people have said.
231350
Trust your instinct, it is usually right. Leave him. Even if your instinct isn't right, then you should still leave him. Because you don't trust him. You'll just be putting yourself (and him) through a lot of stress wondering if he's cheating or not. Then you'll end up with a bitter breakup. \n\nSo, once again, break up with him.\n\n**Mr. Curious, you're an a.s.s. I guess the whole world should be as perfect as YOU. Right? You sure think a whole lot of yourself speaking to this girl the way you did. Seriously old man, I know the hemroids make you cranky but don't take it out on girls. Go get some tucks pads or something. Mabey taking a nap would help, too.**
474685
Nah.. your boyfriend is cheating on you.\n\nOr you girlfriend.
945260
i think you need to sit down with him and have a heart to heart talk. ASk him if he is happy with you or tired of you. don't want to scare you but from experience, sounds like he is cheating on you.   Good luck and God bless
991498
Is it a "was" or happening now? Im confused. Anyway, cheaters usually cannot look straight in the eyes of their partners if being confronted about it. Be aware of his actions like stepping a few meters away from you when talking on the phone, whispering and having a good (and naughty) laugh. Suspect him that he's cheating if you do not see your picture in his wallet anymore.\nBut are you really sure or your just paranoid? If he really does, then start asking yourself why he's into it. Examine yourself if you may be in fault. To make him stop, assure him of your love and express (and emphasize in action) why he should be sticking with you more than anyone else. :D
309347
Honestly, if he was cheating you can tell by the smell. He may smell too clean or like he put on an extra dab of cologne. There would always be the last dead give away, his sudden need for "privacy" about his work, or outings at night or afternoons. I think that the best way to know is to flat out ask him. I have never once had a guy try to lie to me about it. Mostly because I give him "the look" if you know what I mean. As for a female cheating, there is always the same common need for sudden privacy in their situations like that. They wil avoid looking directly in the eye and come up with excuses for going places, secret conversations with other men or women, whichever is their preference, and at top most, wearing more make up and dressing up for work more ...provocativly than usual.
440490
Some Clues if your bf is cheating:\n*if he's so cold at your relationship;\n*he's packed with lots of reasons on not seeing you or \nbeing with you at a long time. \n*he doesn't inform you most of the time on where he's going & turning off his cellphone or not answering any of your calls...\n*or he's not letting you to be with him on most of his agenda...even just on paying a bill...\n\nANYWAY, there's always a seperate time to our loved ones no matter what, if that situation repeats again & you're not getting enough attention & most times ignores you...then, he is cheating!