im 21 and love sex with older women but i dont think my gf would understand can any1 help?
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Think about this wiseguy, will you understand if your girlfriend says she loves sex with older guys?\n\nif you do send her my way
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Although I understand your situation, it is very hard for a women to think that she can not turn on her mate.  Even if she knows the fault is not her own.  My suggestion go buy the toys and make sure that you have a lot of foreplay.  Good luck to you
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YES!\n\nAnd, what is happening, is that you are actually and truly in love, so the excitement overwhelms your dispassionate view and lust for the physical side of love.  You are emotionally in love.  Sex is OK, but, no longer the epitime of what is 'good' in your life.\n\nTell her, and you both will need to do some role playing and dressing up for it. so that you will have the detachment to please her longer, if that is what she really wants from you.  I don't think her need is truly for great stamina, if she is emotionally similar in the relationship now. But, it also depends upon her age.  Women peak later.  Men peak at aobut 22 to 26, women at about 28 to 34.\n\nSome of us take herbs, like yohimbe, that, in the right amount, which is actually very small, gives the same effects as you described you enjoyed.  Except, some of us are in our 60's and 70's and one fella is 86!\n\nThe ladies ask us to take it, so we'll have some 'lead in our pencil'.  I did the Starlight International Male Well Pack, with the Taurus capsule.  One every 12 hours.  60 tablet bottle.\n\nYou have to look in the phone book for a vendor, or on the web at:
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I don't know how old you are, but obviously pretty young. \nI'll tell you that you should respect what her parents say. This gets you in good with them. They maybe worried that you are trying to give her stuff to feel obligated to do sexual things with her. In which case, that's too serious for your age and mom and dad know that. Okay, so your intentions were good, and not trying to buy sex, but trying to show her how much she means to you. Girls don't know this. They are too young to understand any of that. She confided in you about her deep feelings, feel honored, most girls don't feel that comfortable around any guy. If you want to tell her that you miss the times you had with her, that is okay, that lets her know that you really care about her still, but you understand that you both aren't ready for something that serious. She will then always remember that you are a wonderful boy, and her parents will always remember you were respectful. Wait until she and you are old enough to date seriously, who knows what the future holds. Remember to get good grades and go to college so you can get a good job; no girl (or woman) likes a stupid, broke man. Keep being you.
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try not having sex with her for a month, then tie a bow around yourself and stand there naked, but don't initiate anything, just stand there and tell her "I'm here if you want me" and if she doesn't initiate it then i think you should sit down with her and discuss it.  Women often initiate less than men, it doesn't mean she doesn't love you.  Maybe she could make suggestions to you that will help her enjoy it more.  Listen, don't preach or judge, just listen.
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YES ,it's normal every woman peaks differntly,i heard in thier 40's.I'm a 36old man and i prefer older women because of better sex and mostly they know what they want.hell feel good about .I think you feel good about your self .Being overly active does,nt mean your a sluty nympho .heck i wish i had a women with that problem..Rock on and have fun..
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i had a girlfriend years ago that seems to be so shy but during our first sex, she suggested oral sex or 69, so i obliged.  who am i to refuse?\n\nalso watch with your girl videos with lots of oral sex and she might become interested.
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by ur looks i don't think u need to be dating the older women.... go with someone more ur age if ur looking for a serious relationship
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No it is not too young. I see you do not PLAN to have sex, but things DO happen. Just remember that after you turn 18 YOU are of legal adult age. She is not. If for any reason something goes wrong with the relationship, IF she wants to cause yu a problem she can cause you a world of trouble. Take all that into consideration before you make any moves. Good Luck.
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lol... you are hooking up with the wrong guy.. most men i know luv it!!find a guy that isn't all about himself in bed, and who wants to see you pleasured. usually the older ones are better girl. more wise and more experienced, and boy is there something to be said for experience...
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if you and your gf are close,,,ask her for help.ask her desires and how you should or can fulfill them.what she likes,what she doesn't like.be open to her to be open with you.have no fear.
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Maybe you want to feel looked after or even to be dominated?  Age shouldn't matter really (even tho it can cause certain problems ie lack of understanding). Don't let it worry you, just go with it, it may only be a phase anyway. You are still finding yourself.
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I've been out with lots of men who were older then me... much older. They all seem to be interested in the same aspect of the younger woman... our vitality, our fun loving nature, and what innocence we still have.\n\nMy suggestion is "be yourself", because if you aren't some day you could wake up and relalize how much time you've wasted.\n\nAs for sex... the best part about sex, at least in my opinion, is the experimentation with each other. Communication goes right with it... talk about your sex life, see what you like together, see where you might like to experiment a bit more. Buy a karma sutra book if it comes to it, but don't try to cram it all into the first few months... Believe me, you want something interesting later on down the road to try.
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First and foremost, let me just say that I am impressed that you are so active.  Most men at 48 would not be down the gym everyday, so much respect to you.\n\nI think you have perhaps answered your own question and that what this woman said to you a long time ago has effected your satisfaction.  There are some women out there who are awfully catty when it comes to sex and they don't realise that what they say can have an adverse effect on a mans psyche.  Men are very proud and most men want to please their partner so when a women says something like, is that it, it's kind of like bursting a balloon. \n\nMy advice to you is to relax and enjoy your partner.  If you haven't already done so, tell her about your experience with your ex.  When its out in the open, you'll concentrate more on your partner than the actual ejaculating.  Try different positions.  I could explain a method that always makes my partner wild.  If your interested, email me!\n\nGood luck!
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You don't say how old you are or how old she is....It could be okay if both of you are of legal age.  I have a feeling one of you isn't.
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Age doesn't necessarily make someone better. You can be older and limited in experience, or younger and very experienced. It varies from person to person. I wouldn't jump to conclusions with that kind of assumption. I speak from personal experience! A case in point would be that some older women like to make love to younger men. It is not necessarily because they are better lovers than older men, but because they make the woman feel younger(he may also have more stamina than an older man, but will probably drop his "deposit" sooner as well). Also, younger women like older men, because he makes her feel mature, and she likes to brag to her girl friends that she is with a grown man. Even if it sounds lame, that is what I have heard some women say!
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depends on how old, older is.... at some point your going to have to ask yourself what an older guy wants with a young girl? other than sex... because 98% of the time that is all they want and its easier to use someone with no exper. than it is to use a grown women.... if yu only talking a few years older than that is quite natural, but before you have sex remeber if your parent want to press charges they can when your underage so be careful and think of what best for both parties... \n\nbut you are not horrible, dont allow anyone to make you feel like that... so many girls go through it....