how do i go about meeting women in arcata california?
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MEETING CHICKS IN ARCATA:\n\n1. Wear a Greenpeace shirt and ride a mtn bike around town.\n2. Participate in the next peace rally.\n3. Register as either a Democrat, Green Party, or Socialist.\n4. Do volunteer work with PETA.\n5. Buy some quality Red Hair Sensimilla and hang out in the park with your drum.\n6. Go into Starbucks and demand they serve you only "Fair Trade" coffee.
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I am basically your male counterpart...so, I will tell you where you would find us.\n\nI am sickened by the thought of the bar thing too...so meet people and just do things..let it develop organically!\n\nWhat things do you like to do?  I mean the things you do that get you around other people.  Do them and be open, approachable.\n\nIf nothing comes up, then take a class...go to talks, events that you enjoy...(I met a woman "like you" a 7 years ago taking Aikido.)\n\nDO THE THINGS YOU LIKE..someone like you will be out there doing them too!\n\nIf you liked literature, we would meet at a reading from Edith Wharton...we might discuss the richness of the simple gestures she writes about...and there you are.\n\nI have always met people everywhere I have lived.\n\nI must confess, where I am living right now (a temporary situation in a small town), I have not succeeded in meeting anyone that I would be interested in spending time with.  \n\nHowever, I have not been out much around here...there is not much other than outdoors stuff that interests me here.  \n\nWhenever I travel I meet the most spectacular people...that drives me mad!\n\nI will be moving soon...so maybe when I get to a real town!\n\nDon't be afraid.
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Try going out into the real world and meeting some women.\n\nDo you honestly believe you're gonna get some action by posting here? The best you'll get is a 71 year old hooker who'll charge you double the price cause she had to chase you and pin you down.
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Libraries or book stores.  \n\nI have a female friend who originally met a number of men she dated in the aisles of Walmart!\n\nMaybe there's an adult co-ed sport league you could join, if you're ok at whatever the sport is.\n\nAnd, as was mentioned:  If you have a church, become more active in it!  That's where you'll find the best women, anyway!  Good luck!
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Well, it's really easy. Finding them, or her, is simple. Many or most young women don't think about it, so they are not looking for an older man. \nNow I've only done this a few times, and all the younger women fit a profile. Usually mature. Well educated. Self-confident. Have had a few relationships. \nBe yourself. Be open. Listen. If you get involved, do it only with a young woman that you like. \nTo find one, well unless you're really objectionable, here are the places: through your employment, girls you work with or contact.\nAsk for their ideas and be willing to meet their friends.\nIf you're in a restaurant or an upscale bar suggest that one or two ladies should join you, BUT, don't "hit" on them. In fact in all cases, never "hit" on them, forget pick up lines. Treat any young woman that interests you as a friend, only.\nSometimes the real problem is one that you didn't mention.
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I don't know what state you live in now, but there are probably scores of women of all kinds living there, including those with the specific assets you seek. Why not seek them out there, rather than move away?
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grocery stores (ask them advice about food), long lines (dmv, etc.), night classes, volunteer groups (woman are statiscally shown to volunteer more), and generally any other place is potentially a good place to talk to woman. I find one of my favorites places is when they are working...cuz they have to be nice since you are the customer you have the upper advantage. They love a laidback sense of humor. good luck
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Good God...if you can't find one in that part of our nation then you must be a blind man!!!!\nGO TO "BAY AREA" if it's that hard for you.....\njust walk up to one and be nice...
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Turn off the PC, get up, go out. Go to a church, gym, political rally, club, volunteer organization, river cleanup, softball league, etc. You can't meet quality women instantly through the Internet the way you can order books from Amazon. It takes effort and time.
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This is for the entire south bay area.  Hope this helps:\n\nClub NiteLife: San Jose, CA; (408) 292-0129; \nEmail: WLHJR@clubnitelife.Com; Web: www.clubnitelife.com A Private Social club for adults over 21, located in San Jose, California. Our members are hedonistic people like yourselves, known as "Swingers", and who share an appreciation for a cornucopia of pleasures. Our evenings begin with the tasting of fine Champagnes, Cognacs, Ports and Wines, which you, our guests, have selected and provided from your own personal cellars. Our buffet table offers gourmet hors d'oeuvres, such as Pate de foie gras, selections of fine aged cheeses, fresh fruit and vegetable platters, regional pasta dishes, chilled prawns, gourmet sandwiches, and festive international selections. We also provide soft drinks, spring water and ice. NASCA [2371]\n\n Blondie's Playground for Sensual Pleasure: Blondie/Vince, 92 & 880 Junction, Hayward, CA. 94544, (510) 847-8837, E-mail:blondie@blondiesplayground.com Web:http://www.blondiesplayground.com Blondie's Playground for sensual fun is a "non-smoking, on-premise" adult club. It is our belief that where a woman is comfortable exploring her sexual nature, men will be in grateful attendance. We provide an sensual spa-like atmosphere. Parties are by invitation only so please visit our website or e-mail us for your invitation. Couples, select single men and women are all welcome Parties are free, but membership is required. "If you are experienced or a newbie, you will feel right at home." Reservations required. NASCA [5237]\n\n\n Arena Swing Club: Ashton & Mike, East Bay Area; \n(510) 623-1354, E-mail: info@ArenaSwingClub.com \nWeb: http://www.ArenaSwingClub.com The *ARENA is an exclusive "on-premise" adult social club located in the East Bay. Our safe and pressure-free atmosphere offers consenting adults an exceptional environment to explore their fantasies. Our amenities include: A Cocktail Lounge w/fireplace, tables & couch seating, theme rooms, private & large group rooms, voyeur rooms, game room, dance floor, outside smoking area, special theme parties and events! We host parties for couples and select singles every Friday evening. On Saturdays, we feature couples and ladies only parties. Reservations required. Out of area NASCA affiliate membership cards honored. NASCA [3717]\n\n Explorations: Dot & "J" East San Francisco Bay Area CA. 95736, (408) 687-1833 \nE-mail: Play@ClubExplorations.com Web:http://www.ClubExplorations.com Explorations was designed by and is operated by a female for the comfortability of the 'Ladies' in mind. (All the while making sure the gentlemen REALLY enjoy the atmosphere also) The parties are a relaxed and comfortable upscale environment that is modern with music and events. Parties are by invitation only, visit our website or email us for your invitation. Parties are held in the finest suites in some of Northern California's most luxurious hotels every Saturday night from 9pm till ? Centrally located for the ease of access from San Francisco, Sacramento, San Jose and Stockton. Couples and select singles. The age of the people that attend ranges from early 20's to late 40's. We provide a food buffet, soft drinks, ice, cups etc. BYOB if you chose to drink. Join us for what will be the most pleasurable lifestyles party you can experience in Northern Ca. NASCA [5153]
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~ this one - you can enter your area code then they give you a local number to call and you can chat on the phone ~ http://www.questconnects.com/  \n\n~ same as above on it's the web sight ~ http://www.questpersonals.com/\n\n~ this one matches you up with the perfect dating service ~ http://www.soulmatesource.com/questpersonals.html\n\nMy sister swears by the first one I gave you, she says she has met many guys, and now she married one of the guys she met from the line (she used the phone chat service) so they do meet ya. try them out see what happens.
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Maybe a key is to meet single women with one child of her own:\n\nSupermarket\nLibrary\nOnline\nParent Group: You would get all the Attention there\nSchool\nTell your friends you are looking\nOnline\nParents w/o Partners\nVolunteer Functions for Children\n\nGood luck1
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http://portaltools.na.org/portaltools/MeetingLoc/\n\nPut in Sacramento for the search.\n\nTake It Easy.
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Not sure but if you try any of the search engines and type in 'friends', it will bring up tons of dating/friends sites.  you could probably narrow it down to 'free sites for friends' or something similar so you not going to charging sites.  In the search you can select woman looking for woman.  Not sure if this will bring up straight women looking for female friends or women who are looking for female partners - worth giving it a try.
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Contour-Arc-Inc\n(949) 837-5790  \n23122 Alcalde Dr # A\nLaguna Hills, CA Map\n\nBuild robotic systems
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Try Craigslist.  Start here...\nhttp://losangeles.craigslist.org/about/cities.html\n\nFind the city you live in, or live closest to.\n\n\nThis is a large community site with free ads for housing \nand rentals, finding new friends or lovers, pen pals, items \nfor sale, want ads, personals, services, job openings, \nlocal events and classes, and global discussion forums, ...\n\n\nThey have personals sections to post free ads.\n\nYou can post for a one-night-stand, all the way to \nmarriage, and everything in-between!  Straight, gay, bi- or \n???\n\n\nBest of luck,\nJeffrey
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Try this: \n\n1. Start with your interests/sports and invite her there (say, bowling alleys, swimming pools, etc.)\n2. Carry yourself modestly. Don't overdo it. \n3. A well behaved men sometimes attract women (i think).\n4. Invite her to parties for singles.\n5. Ask her friends what her favorite food is and invite her to YOUR house for dinner.\n6. don't go to the bars (it's risky).\n7. If you are good to one girl , this will be passed around in a jiffy. And you will meet more girls...for you to choose from.\n\nALL THE BEST.