How do I find out what turns my fiance on if he wont tell me anything?
443485
I have a feeling this would work wonders: tell him, insinuate that u believe nothing could turn him on, then slyly seduce him in little ways.
479910
I think your fiance has a lot of issues that you guys need to work out before you get married. But hold out on him and he will initiate sex soon enough, trust me, you can hold out longer than him.
116949
Well, try to get him to notice you. Maybe you could find out what makes you his turn offs and resolve it. But don't confront him just yet. Then try to find out his turn ons. If one of his turn ons criteria matches you, thats your secret weapon. But don't get too desperate! Get things slowly done. Im a bit naughty myself :p
1103376
It depends on the relationship.  It depends on how close you are with your partner, and what they like, and of course, what you like.  If it feels comfortable, and it turns you and your partner on to talk dirty, the go for it.  If it makes you self-conscious, then I would keep it to just telling your man how sexy he looks and how you love to make love to him (assuming that is comfortable).  If that stuff is comfortable to you but it turns your man off, then probably you two are seriously mismatched to begin with.  \n\nNorth American culture has severely repressed sexuality to the point where we don't know what is normal and natural.  I think that in our modern society, whether or not to talk dirty is something to be decided by the couple.  If it feels natural to do it, go ahead.
652886
ask him wat would really turn him on in bed something use have never done b4\nmake it excieting\nplan a night where hes out make sure the kids(if u have any) r sound asleep in bed  dress up in sexy underwear\nlight a few candles and wait for him to come home\nhell be well surprised\n\ngood luck
1122767
The most direct way would be to just ask him what he likes.  Most guys like sexy lingerie, high heels, and material things like that, but the thing that gets most of them is an enthusiastic partner.  If you genuinely want to please him and have more fun in bed, be willing to try new positions, locations, toys, etc.  A private little surprise striptease would turn him on, too.  Don't be afraid to be a little bit aggressive and initiate sex more often.
340127
Two ways - covert and overt\nCovert you dont let him know you suspect anything.  In your relationship, make him feel the best and most loved of any man in the world.  This will likely make him show some emotional signs.  Meanwhile, snoop like a PI.  Check phone conversations, you can request a list of the numbers called from your phone company.  Check the bank statements, they will tell you where all the money was spent if by credit or debit.  Keep tabs on the times he leaves and comes home.  Check with work if he says he worked late, or with his friends if he said he is out with them.\n\nOvert - in addition to doing everything in the covert status (except treating him like a king) straight out ask him, get his email password, dont let him talk on the phone without you being there - just make it so hard on him that he breaks or it takes such a toll on his other relationship, he shows some emotional signs.  \n\nSigns he is cheating - a change in sexual appetite, he has some new things that you didnt get for him, money missing from the bank account without knowing where it went, a change in eating habits - if he has already eaten with her, he wont eat at home.\n\nI wish you luck!
110539
What ever turns you on :0)
1022466
love, sex, and attraction are individual things, if u do not believe me just look on the web, there millions of different sights covering everything conceivable and some that are hard to wrap the mind around.  Because it is so individual the souse of your answer is in bed next to you.  Ask him.  The problem is men are so trained to not tell because they are afraid of rejection or being laughed at or lousing respect.  To get an honest answer he must feel safe in telling u.  Nurture this communication and not only the sex but the hole relationship and marriage will flourish.
1002375
First, you need to explain to him what he does and how it makes you feel.Honesty and communication are the most important part of any realtionship.Next, the bedroom.Spontaneity and variety.Always mix things up.Never plan it.Try different things and if your open to it, toys.Life is short and a marriage is very important.I think keeping it fun will keep you both interested and actually enhance your sex life.BUT, you need to communicate there too.Talk to him and see what he likes, what he dosent, and where he draws a line.Maybe find out what his fantasies are(doable ones).This will definitely keep your sex life interesting.For toys, try online ordering(very discreet) or if you want to go look, try Spencers or Priscillas.There are many adult stores  that have womens interests in mind too.Have fun and congrats on your preganancy.
11598
Don't start dropping hints all the time. If you do that he'll prob. just get annoyed or freaked out. Instead, why don't you tell him you need to talk about something and explain how you feel to him. See what he has to say, and take it from there.\nIf you want to marry this man you should be able to have conversations like this, and he will respect you more for being straight forward with him instead of playing games and dropping poorly veiled hints all of the time.\nAfter you talk about it, do not hound him all of the time about it either.
948445
Maybe it turns him on more if the girl is the aggressor and if he is passive. sort of like unconscious role playing. It's like... if I'm laying in bed and my girlfriend jumps on me and starts kissing me all over, say. Personally i like that better than if I have to be the one to reach out. Especially, i think, if he's had any harsh rejections from female figures in his life in the past--it might be reassuring to him, on some unconscious level (not just sexually) if you are the one seeking him in those encounters. It's weird.. that's part of how it works with me though. you should probably talk more about it with him and try to figure it out together. And maybe talking will lead to other things. :-)
646570
showing off. tell him you're turned off by his actions.
133063
Don't tell him, just seduce him. Start by kissing his earlobe gently and nibbling on it, then work your way down to his neck and kiss and lick it gently... take the lead, he'll get the hint. Have a condom ready just in case ;o)
582414
Men gets aroused easily by seeing what they like.. Try wearing those Victoria secrets undies. Why do you think they sell like pancakes... \nhave you ever tried lap dancing? Do that to him and I'll bet you he'll keep on begging for more. Goodluck!
176841
(Oke this is a silly question though)\nwhy you and ur b/f are alone, tell him all the thing you've d liked about him. Lift him up. Be sure you both are in a serious mood. As you tell him all the thing tell him that you really do not appricate the "ickling to death". Tell him politly that its oke till a certain extent or sometimes!!
519553
Try asking her what turns her on. (I would say find out more about your future mate sexually before tying the knot but that don't always work. So communication is the key!!! Never and I mean never stop communicating!!! You wife may have a kink streak that you haven't known existed!!! Three things: 1) Communication 2) Be open minded 3) Have fun!!\n\nGood luck!!