how can i get a guy who i love back?
447158
dear,\nmove on he is not into you! There is someone out there for you i promise. And you can do better that him anyways by what it sounds like. Good luck I f you need any more help contact me esmerelda_sanchez@yahoo.com.
66124
Be straightforward with him. Get him when he isn't busy and tell him you need to talk to him. Just say "hey buddy, you know that I love you. But I need to know if you feel the same way about me. If you don't please tell me, because I am not going to waste my time loving someone who doesn't love me back." Just say something similar to that. Good luck girl...
1063866
I'm sorry that the person you love doesn't return your feelings.  Unfortunately,  you can't  make anyone feel the same for you--no one can 'make' love happen.\nYou still have chances to find love.  If the guy you care about doesn't notice you--don't worry.  You will find someone who does, and who you can love as well.  \nDon't rush anything.  Something as precious as a relationship is worth doing right, and that  takes time, patience, and the willingness to keep being yourself and opening up possibilities to grow as a person.
423107
say you love him and miss him and want him back
1124879
There is no way!  No matter how hard you try-actions and words.  The guy will constantly think of the one he loved and shared so much with.  You need to give him space.  Don't talk to him on the phone as much or kick it with him.  You have to look out for your feelings.  Just be there when he really needs someone to talk to.  He will come around, just enjoy life until then!
104377
if you want to have him back...ACT to change yourself...u will watch the magic...i bet..!!\nNow wat and how to do, is ur job..
393466
If he wants you back he will find a way.  You might have to accept that he has moved on and try to do so yourself.  The pain goes away if you let it.x
898006
Make up your mind already will ya? You want him when your with him and when he leaves you want him back. I think you need to take a break from men in general and find out who and what you are all about and what you want. When you have established you then men can be in the picture. Write a list of all the good and bad qualities of this guy and give it to him, let him ask what this is for and if you truly want him back explain. Let him know you have been thinking of him and can't imagine what was going through your head before. I think you need to look into yourself for some love and then you can truly give the love he needs. Sorry if this hurts but honey, life is to short for anyone to be playing 'I want you, I don't, I want you again'
398975
Hay ..i just broke up wit my bf a month ago....the only way u will win his heart back is stop calling him and stop seeing him..dun make contant wit him not even if u wanted to ...u hav to be strong .. i know it hard to do and it imporsible to do it if u really love them ..but u want him right!! dun beg him to come back to u ..the more u ask them to come to u the more they will run away ..pretent u dun need them to make ur life happy ....that way they will wonder why!!!and they will think they make a mistake.. People wanted wht they can't hav ...i try this idea to my ex and it kind of work ...altho we didn't get back together he stay willing to be my friend ..if u r friend wit him it always hav time to get back ..and now he said he miss me ....i hope it will work for u if u try my way ..Be strong ...if he didn't come back he dun derseve u ...girl u hav to be strong ..mostly Move on wit ur life ....
135018
if he still has feeling for you, he himself will have to decide to come back.  You can't make him.  try not to force him to do anything.  be yourself, and it he loves you as much as you do him, he will come back.\n\ngood luck.
597945
Sitting around, wondering & doing nothing won't get either of you back together. If you think it's worthwhile to try again, make the first move & see what happens. I'm not saying go all out and tell him outright. That's just me & I'd much prefer the guy to take the lead to let me know where he's headed. Just call and say Hi or leave some kind of messsage that let him know. See what he does next. Be prepared for the worst though as he may have moved on. At least you won't spend your life wondering.
922795
I know this is gonna take alot of guts but call him and tell him how you feel and ask him if he would wanna have a relationship with you again and if he refuses then you need to move even though your emotions towards him doesnt just date occassionally trust me the right guy will come to you, you just have to have patience!
1077683
lets just say that im Mr Right\nyou'll have to do quite a bit to get me back\ntheres a small chance that you will get him back......\nif you were wrong he might of thought he was wrong and he might of changed his mind already\n\nJUST GO FOR HIM!!!!
95675
the best way to get him or her back is to tell them u still have feeling for them if they dont want u back forget about him/her and go find somebody new to show them they cant have u down show them u can get somebody else
129144
I'm in the same situation\nBut all u have to do is walk up to him and just tell him how u feel. But let him know that if he doesn't love u back that u guys could still be friends.\nBut I also know this is easier said than done. Trust me
620644
do not get your hopes up onless u are interested in him then, if u love him back and he tries to win u over do just give him the chance punish him for a while before u accept else he might think that u were desperate for him so he might start fooling again. but may the phone calls might mean nothing it might be that he just wants to check on u. so do not gt your hopes up else u will get hurt.
1112997
If you mean cheating on him, you probably won't get him back because he has lost his trust in you.  If you mean other things, maybe if you stopped doing whatever it is, you could show him you have changed and he might be interested again.