this boy that is married that i like him ell he likes me to but he is married.what should i do?
450188
first of all, why worry about married "men" when you are still in school? maybe you should grow up first before thinking about breaking up a marriage. you ask the same questions and get most of the same answers. stick with someone your own age and not married. maybe you should ask your parents what they think.
1176705
Don't guess if he's married or not.  Find out for sure.  Do not pursue anything until you do this.  Drop it immediately if he is.
533807
I was in a similar situation one day and let me assure you... It will end in a heartbreak, and the broken heart will probably be yours, and you will only blame yourself because you were the one who decided to get in between a married couple. So get out of it while you can.
912395
let the person that likes you that you like his friend he will understand.good luck
579064
In REALITY, you don't even know this guy.Best to forget about him.He may be married or committed to someone else.Move ON!
446960
you don't sorry move on .but you know i just bet this guy like you more of what he saying .so if you want your boy hang in there .but don't make a fool of youself it just a game young guys play.
354541
You need to make a choice then if you are willing to give up everything you have in your life for a possible relationship with this other person with who there are no guarantees.  A lot of married people get crushes on other people, the key is not to act on them and throw away what you have.  Sit down and decide what you want in life and what price you are willing to pay.  If it is this other person then you need to get a divorce and pursue that relationship after the divorce.
454460
I did it...8 years ago.  We've been married for the last 7!!!  So, it's ok.  BUT know that once you cross that line, there will be no going back to "the way things were" as friends.  So decide if you like him enough to risk a good friendship before you make your move.  Maybe think about it for awhile before you decide...even if you think you're really, really sure.
349208
Back away from the married man and no one gets hurt!LOL Seriously though, don't put yourself in a position to where you become involved with a married man. He will NEVER,NEVER,NEVER be able to be there for you when you need him, on holidays, for vacations... he'll never be there in the night when you just want someone to talk to or snuggle with...he'll never be totally with you because he already HAS someone he is obligated to spend his time and money on. You can get past those feelings for him that you are developing if you stay away from him as much as possible. As for the other guy, if you have developed feelings for someone else while you were with him, then maybe your feelings for him are not what they should be. Try staying away from both men for awhile and give yourself some time alone to sort out your feelings. Right now you can't be good for either one of these men OR yourself. Good luck to you!!
561757
Now I got your problem- Sweetie... You have to move on your life.. for all you know he might have been married all the time you had chatted with him.. And you dont love him... this is not love... love is when you actually let go of the person whom you say you love and when that person comes back to you... you can say its love. Right now its nothing more of an attraction. Get out and meet new people.. try n get over him... if he doesnt want have a relationship with you stop pusuing him...!!!
162794
Are you really in love with him or the fact that you can talk to him?  Remember, what exists online is a unique enviroment where we all feel protected to some degree.  In the real world the level of comunication between you and this other person will probably not be the same.  Plus there is so much more to being in love with someone and having a relationship.  If your married still then do you really want to risk what you have for something that may not exists?  If your not married, then go slow and get to know this person gradually outside of just chatting because its not just your life but your kids life that you have to be concerned about.
271438
Im sure they r aware of your past with him if not let them know!  I as a aparent only want happiness for my son and i know if he comes to me and tells me he loves someone and is getting married then I want only his happiness.  Go for it girl do not let love get away a second time around life is too short and love too hard to findCongradulations!
1061848
You should value your boy friend's opinion more then them as he is going to be your husband. But you can always talk to him about the situation and try to get him agreed. But you shouldn't be doing anything without getting his permission, because it is his wedding too and it is special for him.
323043
I have seen it happen! It happened to my neighbor and they are happily married for 4 years now. You can tell if you are compatible with someone by talking with them. Just make sure that you are always honest whether you think that person will like you for it or not. After all you want them to love the real you, not who they think you are.
1106056
You respect your friend's choice. He only likes you, you are still deciding what to do. But, your friend is already in love with him. So, as a true friend you should help them to marry. It is not something unique that has happened in your life. It is a very commomn development. Nor you will be doing any sacrifice or great service to your friend. You will just be behaving like a normal civilised woman. That is all.
258144
it is definitely not the right thing.  he is married.  if if he gives you the time of day, he is still married. 9 times out of ten he is not going to leave his wife. and if he does what goes around comes around. it would probably happen to you. find you a single man.  you don't want to be second. you deserve better.
624601
If he is now your husband, that boy deserves it.\n\nGive it to him!