Is it ok to fall in love with someone who's older than you?
435565
Yes its OK providing you are over the age of consent. There is nothing wrong with relationships between older men and younger women providing that both are old enough to consent to what they are doing. \n\nYou are probably not old enough to consent to a relationship so it cause problems. I would leave it until you are both old enough to enter a relationship legally. You or he may have found someone else and have moved on by then. If not, you might want to see how you feel about each other then.\n\nMy brother married a girl who was 13 years younger than him and they have three kids.\n\nBest wishes to you for the future.
102529
I believe age has no difference when it comes to loving someone. If you're married and have no intention to part with your present wife, don't make any promises to that girl which you can't keep. If you're single and this romance might develop into something else, do go ahead and don't let this chance pass by you. I have a son with a man who's 20 years older than me. He was lying to me about being divorced and we spend 2 years living together as man and wife. When I had a baby, I found out he was married and had a wife in another country. We're no longer together, but I tell you age has nothing to do with this. I love every moment we spent together except for his lies that screwed up my whole life. Don't do this to the girl you liked, but definitely enjoy every moment of this feeling if it's rightfully yours regardless of the age difference. Good luck! Nika
229275
oh please do not think it is wrong as age dun matters. the main thing that u should doubt was whether ur love can withstands crisis as the time passes....
611341
i am totally infatuated with a guy who is 10 years older then me, i'm 22 he's 32. he is more experianced, loving, caring, adoring, and knows how to please me!! \n\ngirls love the older guys cause they know how to treat you right!
295629
If they Love eachother then nothing should come in between that.Age is just a number.
169753
Yes, if you like him and are interested in him you should ask him out. Remember, age does'nt matter when you like someone. Anyways, it's not like he's 4 years younger than you.Also remember that there is no age in likeing someone or when you fall in love.
299153
Sure, but only if I was old enough to understand what love is and to actually know that I am in love. If you are like 14, your not in love you just think it..
1058274
As long as two adults find a common ground, they work. My BF is 20 years older (I'm 27) and I can't imagine my life without him. We are on the same level in so many ways - maturity, goals, opinion, etc. Like any relationship, it comes down to a balance of give & take, acceptance, and respecting each other. I believe people come into our lives for a reason, and we learn and grow from them. Being in love is the greatest feeling in the world and age shouldn't stop anyone from experienceing it.
482946
no, i was with someone that was 10 years older than myself. age is only a number, & in the long run there should be no problems, because you both would be mature enough to know that age is only a #.
1077794
There is nothing wrong at all with that. Don't let yourself get wrapped up in the whole 'age thing'.  If he makes you happy and you enjoy his company, then that's all that matters.
1033437
Ofcourse!!!!  There is nothing wrong with that!  I'm 24 & I'm attracted to a woman who is almost 30...   we have been dating for the past two months & things seem to be working out!!!  I have a much more interesting time with her than I do with a girl of my age... some of them seem to be a little imature!\n\nGood Luck with your situation!!!
153828
Yes, you can. When the difference is only one or two years, it's basically the same age bracket. I am married to a woman who is two years older and we feel like we are the same age.\nThe only problem you might expect is when you are, say 11, and the girl is 12. Then it is obvious that the love is more likely to be infatuation rather than love, and the age difference might mean the two people go in completely opposite directions.\nOther than that, you are probably fine.You are of the same generation, with the same cultural values, so it can be definitely alright between you.\nGood Luck.
122823
Age is just a number,as long as u both like/love each other.Go ahead with it.
76151
i suggest as a person who fell in love at the same age that i am now which is 15, dont fall in love. for me as a guy it ruined atleast half my future,so just dont go their at all in the first place. but idk what you should make him.
141933
Hi there sweety,\n    This is SO like my story when I was your age. I was SO deeply in love with him, yeah, some people say that this is not love, that you cannot love, but they are wrong - they only say this because they haven't been in your shoes.\n     One thing is true though - it can never happen. You can choose what to do, but believe me, there is NO WAY he has feelings for you, he may think you are a bright student at the best. \n     You see, even if you feel mature enough for him and think that you can have something together - he is waaaaay to old and experienced to get involved with someone at the age of 20, let alone 14.\n     I guess that no matter what we say to you you would still love him, but do try to keep away from him and don't tell anyone about that. I wasn't so wise as to hide my feelings and my classmates found out and uh it was so embarassing for both me and him...\n     So best of luck, and let me tell you this - if you love him and not someone your age you probably are a bit more mature than your classmates but don't worry - in time you will discover love again.\n\n     Best of luck!!\n\nps: e-mail me on yahoo if you wish
352635
Well, I'm 26 and I have a crush on my professor 60! If it's bad for your, then it must be too bad for me, isn't it? :) Sometimes we can not explain why we are attracted by someone. Sometimes I thought that I'm crazy to fall in love with such an old man who worths to be my grandpa! But, i don't know. I can not stop. I do not know it's the right love or not but cannt keep my eyes off him. What I am trying to do now is to be close with him and find out whether we have something in common or not. Is there really a happy "future"? It may be just a first impression! There must be a lot of difference existing that require us to stand back and think! Calm down and take your time. I'm falling in love but still keep myself concious enough to identify the standard moral.\nAnyway, your case can be acceptable. The age gap is not that big.
663405
I fell 'in love' at the age of 15, but...had absolutely NO idea what that mean't until I was 21!, and by then it was someone else.\nOf course it's possible to be in love at 16 and alot younger, this happens all the time. \nBut in my experience, you need to have a slightly more adult perspective to gauge 'love' in the 'opposite sex' sense.