At what age do u think its ok to loose your virginity?
451239
It is not about age. It is about whenever you are ready to assume the responsibility of caring for another person in an intimate way.\n Besides the person you are having sex with you might also consider if an accident occurs what you are going to do about pregnancy.\nThat you ask the question might be an indication that you are\nnot ready.
792500
It's normal and healthy to be a virgin at the age of 11. Kids on school buses always tease younger kids, and this is apparently the best they can do - obviously there's nothing else about you that they can tease you with.\n\nAnd yes it's normal to start thinking about sex at your age and to have sexual thoughts and feelings. It doesn't mean you act on those feelings. \n\nWhat if someone asks you for sex? You say NO, I am only 11! \n\nHolding hands or getting a kiss on the cheek should be a big deal at your age. There is no way that you can be ready for sex at 11.
556380
Listen to yourself on this one.  You know what will make you happy.  And you should not be doing those things until you can handle the full weight of responsibility they can bring.  Be yourself and hope that you can be OK with the out come.    If you asking the question you are not ready to loose your virginity, just a little hit.
345796
I don't think there is realy an age that is appropriate, because all people have different maturity levels at different times in their lives. I lost mine at the age of 16 and I'm 22. My boyfriend got my drunk and basically took advantage of me. Don't get me wrong, I could have said no, but I didn't. Today I wish I would have waited. Thinking about when my son gets older and if he ever asked mom, when did yo first have sex. Most parents would never hear that so I probably won't, but what if they were to ask? Although, I would never take it back because it got me where I am today, I've been happily married for two years with a gorgeous ten month old son. People make mistakes, but hopefully they learn from them. Society isn't the problem I don't think. i think the parents and schools need to start at a young age teaching values, because they are lacking somewhere.
564039
be patient and dont go with sum1 just 2 loose virginity,its not a illnes :) the girl/boy who u will decide 2b with will appriciate that u waited with this for a special person! Good luck!!!
1169276
You can't really control when you fall in love, can you? So I would say, no, 13 is not too young to feel love. \n\nAs far as having a boyfriend when you're 13, I would also say that's ok as long as the relationship is pure. Plus, it depends on what your parents think. If your parents think you're too young to have a boyfriend you should respect that, because a Christian should honor their father and mother.
489362
what do u mean "is that okay?" it IS best to stay out of sex. At your age? isn't the time for you, not even the time to think about it! Best to put that thought double-locked inside a metal safe. ^_^
720377
No, 14 is just waaaay too young.  Having sex comes with a lot of consequences, emotionally and physically.  \n\nWait until you're older and meet someone you really love, and whom you know loves and cares for you.  \n\nOnce it's gone, it's gone, so make sure you don't regret it later.
210459
If this is my child, the answer to your question is: You are still too young if you think there is a "right" age. There is only a wrong age that we can be certain about, and that is any age where you would be incapable of taking care of and supporting a child which could result from having sex. As long as you cannot take full responsibility for your actions, you should not take fully responsible actions.
367884
virginity when you got it seems to be a burden that grows.\n\nbut when it is gone ,it will be a loss.\n\nit will suprise some girls ,but it will also blow their mind and somebody might just apreciate it no end and be so much the happier for it.\n\n\nif you got this far ,you could hang on a little longer,25 is a good time to get married any way \n\ndont blow 25 years of control on a cheap thrill.\nthat it keeps getting harder I can well imagine,probably every day.but try to keep it up.
1009990
Well, I definitely don't think it's uncommon for guys to choose the "wrong" girl. Guys tend to think about the wrong thing when it comes to virginity, which is what they're doing instead of who they're doing it with. To me, it doesn't matter how old you are when you lose it, because it's not a contest. It's all about feeling comfortable with the person you're with and wanting it to be with them. I say to hell with today's standards because there are kids in elementary school these days having sex and getting pregnant - it's ridiculous! But somehow our society would rather have that than being embarrassed by a plethora of 25 year-old virgins.\n\nI never was phased by my peers when it came to my choices. I lost mine at a fairly "normal" age, which was 15, and it also needs to be kept in mind that I am much more mature in my thinking than others that age because of how I grew up with a bunch of brothers who were pretty promiscuous. I knew I wasn't going to do it unless I REALLY felt it was right, and that's exactly what happened. I am glad that I did it, because it helped me learn even more (but in a good way since it was my own content choice). And, I haven't had any other partners since him.\n\nI say, don't have any shame if you lost it at 20 - I actually praise you for that because most guys would have broke down just to be a part of the crowd well before that. But if you wish it was with another girl, just take it as future advice for yourself. You can't change what happened before but you know how to feel about it now, so I think that's what's important. I'd rather be like that than someone who does it with 10 wrong girls.
693825
I was 16...and now days..if a 16 y/o lost her virginity that would be considered "waiting a while"..lol and I am only 23!\n\nIf I had it to do over again.I would have waited on my now husband (who I have been with since I was 17)He was a virgin and it would have been special to have waited.\n\nI guess that is depends on the girl,but most girls now won't wait...it makes me hope I never have children!!!But I dont think there is a certain "time" I think it is just either #1 when they get dam good and ready.. or #2.when peer pressure steps in!\n\nThank you sweety...\n\n\nvote 4 me
811872
I doubt it'll last long if you already have your doubts.  I'm not ragging on you for having sex at 15 (as long as it's safe and you really honestly think you're ready for the consequences if something happens), but not many ppl know what they want at 15.  Best wishes and please be careful.
1082480
I was a few months into 16.\n\nand know that i think about it,\nloosing it so early made me grow up quicker than i was ready for.\n\nReally, make sure you are 100% ready.\nloosing your virginity is something so special,\nand should not be taken for granted
389711
I think its a good thing. If you're not a virgin though its not a bad thing. Just don't go crazy and do everything that walks... be careful for STD's and pregnancy... that can hit you hard later on.
42210
i was 18, we were together 4 years. hun, your body is not ready to have sex yet. and you know what, you can only lose your virginity once. it never comes back, you never have a second chance. if you have sex with this guy, i GUARANTEE you he will break up with you shortly afterwards. then, when you are older you meet the one, you get serious. you cannot lie and say you are a virgin, cause once you have sex he'll be able to tell. a man will respect you so much more if you hold out (in the long run). it's hard to tell whose the one to lose your virginity too the only way to make sure is to make them wait, and wait and wait. it will be worth it. i started dating my fiance at your age and made him wait 4 years. he has even told me if i would have given it up easy he wouldn't have respected me and we wouldn't still be together. people may pick on you but that's normal in school. i guarentee you these people picking on you are gonna end up with a std or pregnant before you get out of high school! another thing to look at... you start at 14.  even if  you have sex with people after 6 months to a year cause you feel so strong about them. now that doesn't work out because guys at this age are all about the sex and having it with as many girls as possible. that is 1 to 2 people a year you have sex with. no big deal to you now but imagine when your 25, 30! hun just do your self a favor, put your head in those books, become a strong independant woman and worry about the sex later. the emotional part of sex lasts longer. it takes minutes to lose your virginity and it may be something you regret the rest of your life.\nI am 21! i'm not old, just seen all my friends make the wrong decision and had to listen to them bitch about it all the time.
14131
You should not do it until you really feel you are ready and responsible to handle the consequences.  Having sex too young can be very confusing for a girl.  I would say no earlier than 17 or so, when you are thinking more like an adult.  If I could go back, I would have definitely waited until I was out of high school at least.  And I'll tell you one thing.  It is SO much more enjoyable when you wait to do it with someone you really care about and who cares about you.  Oh, and use protection!!!  I know too many people who have gotten pregnant or gotten sexually transmitted diseases (at any age)!!!