what does a gal desire in a guy before saying yes to a proposal? (gals only)?
436443
Somebody with a good sense of humor, very nice, and completely trustworthy. She would NEVER like it if she found you cheating on her.
16714
Well, dinner before proposing is a very good idea.\nAs for how to ask, be direct, say to her "If you're free next Friday, I'd like to have dinner with you at Such-and-such place." Unless you've left out some important detail, she is not going to be angry about being asked out for dinner, if she says "no" accept it gracefully and just say "Maybe some other time" Her response to that will tell you if she's interested or not.\n My only other advice is, if she accepts your invitation, don't go to an italian restaurant...you'll be nervous enough without high risk foods like pasta and marinara sauce.
173449
If you're a good girl and want to show that quality to a man, ask him what he wants from a good girl.\n\nIf you're a bad girl and want to show that quality to a man, show him what he's too afraid to ask for.
522946
a guy who knows what he wants.\n\n\nitll be much easier if he wants me.\n\n\n\nAsiH\ngosh that kind of guy is Sexy!
968942
He wanted to gauge your reaction. Im guessing he wouldn't want to propose and be turned down so, he just brought it up to test the waters before jumping in.
1041418
I have been a guy since i can remember  and when a girl asked me out I always was very impressed that she was asking me and not me asking her .  For a guy just that is most of the battle Ask very directly like hello hey I would like to know if you would enjoy a nice dinner together or whatever you prefered be blunt with men we dont like the flimsy ones.
868611
These are some that I look for in a man, and he better have all of these or it will not work for me, he can have more, but up want these up front:\n\nFaithful, this is the number one thing!!!\nsense of humor\naffectionate\nwants to work and be a good provider to me and the family\nhonesty, he has got to be honest\nwill communicate with me about everything,\nwilling to listen to me when I want to talk or have a problem,\ntalk to me about his feelings\nrespect, he has to have respect for him self and me\npatient, I am a slow learner so he has to have patients with me\nromantic, I want him to be romantic toward me, giving me             flowers and taking me out to eat from time to time\n\nI know this is not 10 but don't want to try for the impossible. I don't think there is a man out there that fits this any way.
783101
Well, from what I like, I like a guy to be upfront with me about asking me out and things like that but I like the anticipation before having sex, that makes you want it even more.\n\nMy suggestion is to be upfront about asking her out and calling her but always build up anticipation about fooling around and sex.
778252
simple things.\n\nlooks\nhonesty\nfaithfulness\nsmart\ntime to spend\ngoals\nhe has to know how to treat a woman\nrespectful\n\nthats the basics....... is that too much to ask for? lol
1041707
It all depends on the female. She may just want attention, she might just want someone to take care of her and buy her things. Every woman wants a guy to propose to them and get married one day. But the key to a female getting what she wants is to be straight foward and honest about it, alot of males, believe it or not are not mind readers.
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http://dating-advice-coach.info/WhatWomenHATEMostAboutSingleGuys.htm\n\nWhat a women wants, and what they are attracted to is two different things.  Check this out, it's long but an excellent read, let me know what you think.
1040429
Im glad that u asked:) ........  keep in mind that woman have always had a vision of the way that they want to be proposed and an idea of their ideal wedding.....also keep in mind that woman enjoy the fantasy......\n\nso....u must be created....make sure that u really think thru how u will propose to her......for example.....renting a limo to take her out to dinner to a nice 5 star restaraunt....then maybe a qiuet intimate spot where you guys have a beautiful midnight scene going on...couple wit the mood being right.....hit her up with the ring....now thats just an example....the idea or key rather, is to be creative and keep in mind that woman LOVE the fairytale.....\n\nHoller Back\nSincere
441100
I always hate it when a guy asks what do I look for in a guy.  Its really a double edged sword type of question.  And if she asks you, you had better be careful what you say. Try to find some common interests, thats always a good place to go.  I find I like the person more when we like something the same.  I think your thinking about this too much.  I agree that you don't want to have no conversation, but just make sure your not scripting what you are going to say.  Relax and go with the flow of things.
410130
ask him..many men would prefer for the woman to make the first move.
630766
This kind of question comes up often enough, I feel like I should just save my answer so I can paste it right in!  :D\n\nFirst thing I look for is a happy personality!  Seriously!  No matter how striking a woman is; if she looks like the whole world is a burden on her, why would I want a wet blanket like that dragging me down!\n\nYeah, looks are important, but not nearly as important to me as Hollywood/the magazines/etc. make it out to be.  An average/too skinny/flat-chested/what-have-you girl who is fun to hang around with will get my attention any day.  That's not just a bunch of words, either:  I've been attracted to all kinds of women (except very large ones.  What can I say, I'm still human!)\n\nGood conversation is a must:  you need to listen to what guys say, not just wait for your turn to make a speech.  If I just want something pretty to look at, I can hang out anywhere & browse the eye candy without wasting any time/money/effort of my own.
67811
Simply say looking at her in the eyes but not too lustily " Would you like to go out with me(plz)?"\nI'm a girl and it's always cute and touchy when a guy asks me to be his girlfriend in such a tender, hopeful and uncertain way. Good luck.
1032483
It depends on the women usually. What i want tho is a guy who is strong not only as in muscles but a strong mind. A guy who is real not fake, not a cheater,not a moocher, but a real guy. A man who is sweet but not too sweet. Oh, i go for the bad boys too. LOL. A man who can live on his own and has been thro stuff in his life. But if you mean like in anything... Just a man, and some money, beauty products and thingys like that. But personally i'm not all about the jewlry and stuff.  I'm more real and i as a women want to party!