how i can improve my behaviour....?
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Read book "Games People Play" by Eric Burne.
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First improve your body language. Sit up straight, always have a slight smile on your face even if you are not doing anything(this encourages people to be open to you and even ask what your thinking), look directly at the person so they will feel trust. Ask questions and really listen to the answers.
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you need to work on your confidence level and learn to tell people to fuck off and move one with your day, put yourself first and who cares what others think there retarded anyways right?
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Lack of self discipline, just like me! I'm at uni too and answering this question. LOL
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Have you thought of counselling? That may be the 'easier' road you are looking for. Ultimately though, you will have to talk to others in social events to be able to learn to do it with confidence. Experiencing life like travelling, can be a good way to build your confidence, for the more you know about something, the more you can talk about it with passion.\nGaining a better view of ones self (self esteem) can also come when presented with challenges that one overcomes, so challenge yourself-give yourself tasks that you know are hard, but that you are able to overcome. Do you have a fear of spiders for example? Overcome that and you will certainly want to tell people about it! I did!!\n If you would like to chat more about it, feel free to email me from the link at my avatar and I'll try to help.\n\nbest of luck
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Take responsibility for yourself instead of relying on others. \nGet an alarm clock.
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Try to lead more.  Perhaps you could organize a night out with your friends, but don't tell them where you are going.  That will make you lead and they will follow.  You could also have them over to your house with lots of fun things planned (movie, games, snacks, etc) that you could do.  Teach them something new.\n\nYou may also want to work on your self esteem and know that it's okay to fail and that it's okay to do things differently from your friends.
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start a rewarding programme with the rewards that is something he/she really loves.  For everyday he/she behaves, rewards is earned.  bad behavior - no reward.  Stick to it.  It may be hard in the beginning but the best reward will be yours when he/she behave
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become knowledgeable about a lot of subjects. I read on the bus on the way home. Always listen activley more than you speak. Being a good listener helps you inject more data into a conversation and be perceived as interesting. Smile lots. Learn to see when a person loses interest and move conversation.
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be a good listener first.\nthink positively and act accordingly.
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You can't change the kind of person you are.  Clearly your beliefs are strong to you, and it matters to you that others see things your way.  If you fee bad about blowing up at people, then try to talk slower, take deep breaths, and count to 10 when you start to feel it coming.  Sometimes you can catch more flies with honey you know.
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eat more meat...sugar... and talk to your body..... you are in charge....,. your brain is stronger than the rest of the problems.... you alone can fix it and are in charge.... take control.
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focus on the good things in your life and think how you can make the negitive things better. Good luck!
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Following things to a T wont work. You have to let yourself some leeway for messing up, otherwise the first time you actually do mess up you wont want to continue what you are doing because it isn't perfect. \nDont shoot for perfection. Aim for progress. Do a little bit at a time. Instead of drinking 8-10 glasses of water, aim for drinking some during the day.\nThe way I increase my will power to do something: Visualizing the end result and not wanting to feel like crapola anymore!!
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start writing a journal, reading it back will help you discover more about yourself.\nread a lot of books.\ntry and start overcoming your shyness, meet other people and realise that you are fun to be around.
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Discipline to do it regularly. Try mixing up the location such as in a park or just before going out.
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Here are some suggestions for boosting your self-esteem: \n\n"Be positive about yourself and accept compliments that point out your strengths and abilities. \nBe realistic about what you can do. Trying to be perfect and comparing yourself with other people can damage your self-esteem. \nRecognize that everyone makes mistakes. When you make a mistake, do not put yourself down. You can learn from your mistakes. \nListen carefully to others, without judging. \nRespect people's differences. Recognize their strengths and\naccomplishments. Acknowledge the things others do that help your family, your workplace and your community. \nSupport and encourage other people's efforts to learn new things. \nGive people in your family unconditional love. For example, when a child does something wrong, make it clear that you dislike the behaviour, but you still love the child. \nSpend time with people who make you feel good. Do things that make you feel worthwhile."  Hope that helps. \n \nI got that info from site listed below.