One night my friend and I played with each other's penis'. Does that make me gay? I'm 16.?
435781
Are you interested in interior desigan, the arts, or musicals?  You probably just wondered.  I play with them when I wonder, too.
871750
no you are not gay. there will always be times like this when you will be confused  by friendship over attraction. just let it go.
717229
There is nothing wrong with loving your best friend and he being another guy. Or are you saying you want to be in a relationship with him? If that is the case then...Is you guy friend gay? You need to decide if your friendship is strong enough to handle that kind of question. If you two are best friends you should know what his sexual orientation is. If you are "best friends" you should be able to tell him anything right...
369859
Dude, you know what this means.  You're not an idiot.  You're gay or bi.  If you want to get f*cked in the a$$, you have my permission to go forth and get f*cked.  It seems like you really want it, and it is probably going to make you happy.  Go forth and enjoy the world of gay sex :-)
154819
NEVER just stick your finger in a guys a hole just at a random moment.  And if you do stick a finger in it, LUBE IT A LOT.  Now if you reach behind and could stic a fist in, then that's another matter entirely.  Even if he liked it does not definitively mean he is gay.  Sexuality is learned, and so is butt hole play.
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Although it is rather common having sex among friends in this era, do not ever assume that because this guy has a sexual relationship with you that he will end up having intimate feelings for you. It is interesting how you think that he is "a good friend," when in reality, this guy might not have concern about you as a person, other than just a friend, or how his behavior is going to affect you later.\n\nYou have to be able to involve yourself in a real relationship with someone who is actually to have true feelings for you, to see you as someone to spend the rest of his life with. This is not a good situation for you and it certainly will not turn out the way you would want if you had sex with your so-called good friend.\n\nThe only way to see in this situation is your friend gets in for the sake of having sex with you, and chances are never become emotionally involved. You can have fun for a while, but the novelty of having a "sexual buddy" starts to wear thin. You may begin to get upset after you and he get physical, because he may not be able to give you the emotional part of sex that you deserve. \n\nI would suggest to hold on to your urge of having sex with your friend, rather than heading for an unknown disaster in the future. You should cherish your friendship and not salvage it for sex.
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you've been friends for more than 8 yrs. If he's gay he would have sex with you already!! Sometimes there's a fine line being good friend and being in a relationship. Perhaps he doesn't even know how to express his friendship towards you. He wants to be grateful to you yet do not want to mislead you into thinking he wanted a relationship cause he is not gay. We are brought up with heterosexual mentality and define male as musculine and female as feminine. It confuse the heck out of straight guys how to handle their frienship with their gay men's friend. Especially those who have close frienship. I believe some of them do cross the line of sex. Which would make the situation worse. He is appreciative of your frienship and I bet he knows you are into him. In his mind he's probably thinking should he sleep with you to show his appreciation and betray his own sexuality? As for you I would not be so quick to invest that much emotion into that direction. Yes, I know it's very difficult and very tempting. Ultimately you have to protect yourself from heartbreak and more important to preserve your friendship with him. One of this days he's gonna fall hard for a girl and you gonna need to tear yourself off him emotionally.
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That's a tough call.\n\nIf you think he liked it and there could be something there, then you need to catch him, sit him down, and talk about what to do next.  He could just be scared because it was his first time with another guy and his best friend at that.\n\nIf you don't think he liked it and you think he might be looking at it as one of those drunken mistakes, then you need to call him and tell him you and him both made a mistake and explain how one night can't get between so many years of friendship.\n\nEither way, you need to contact him and talk it out.  Things will work out - it should take a lot more than that to end such a close friendship.\n\nGood luck and feel free to contact me if you need anymore help.\n\n:)
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Your still gay. You are just expermenting some bi feelings and there is nothing wrong with that. I think it happends to a lot of gay people. They just don't like to admit this kind of thing. I know I have been there. It seems like other gays don't want to hear it and the same with the opposit sex. Im jost letting you know it normal to have feeling like that. Your still gay and thats ok..
1105074
Well... I am gay... Don't really think I was born gay, as a child I never really thought about having sex with people. Male or female, when I was in grade school I had girlfriends which I ended up dumping because I found them boring. Never really thought about having sex with them either, nor did I have that sexual urge to experiment and play "Doctor" with these girls. My first sexual experience was with my best friend, behind a shed with him humping me. Yes, I know. Sounds perverted and it was only humping but from the moment on it was like... That wasn't sooooo bad. Then this boy and I had a whole love triangle thing going on with this girl we both liked, draaaaama. During this time in school, about six grade I started to have these feelings for some of the boys in my class. Like... Odd to explain, urges to like touch them. Not really sexually, I just wanted to be around them a lot and touching them... lol\n\nHigh School, was... High School... So, bleh. Was popular enough to not be a geek or nerd but not enough so that I was hanging out with cheerleaders. Football players maybe, it really is odd. Even then football players would stick up for me if anyone ever even tried to make fun of me. That is mostly why I find it odd that people act the way they do on here, I've been really sheltered from Gay Bashing... Since... Everyone I've known has seemingly liked me for who I am not who I wish to have a relationship with. Besides of course my mother, who says I am going to hell.\n\nI am tired and rambling, sorry. I believe you become gay, not always by your own actions. You have no way to control being either way, it just happens. You can't blame something on just being born that way... I never have. I am who I am, there is not enough prayer in the world that could make me straight. Women just bore me, no offence girls, they always have.
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Man!your luck i did'nt loose my virginity till I was a sophmore in college.Anyway it might lead up to what happend in your past.But how can your a past affect you falling in love with the sme gender it's not normal,your gay! Hey I may be wrong because I can't read or see that in people.So I hope you got your answer,I just wanted my 2 points.
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A close straight friend had me suck his dick regularly for 6 years -- as in 3 or 4 times a week -- when we were young.  When he didn't have a g/f it was more.  He was never gay.  He loved sex. I was one of his best friends, and he said I sucked dick really well.\n\nHaving sex with a guy doesn't prove anything unless its all you want inside.  Sex acts don't make people gay or straight.  Preference does.\n\nRegards,\n\nReyn
1015599
not neccesarily "gay" but maybe a little freaky...If you let a guy do it...then your gay...I let my girl finger my ass just before I cum and I usually cum so hard I nearly pass out! And I am not gay!
880743
Go on and ask him. He's very open to the idea of being gay. You guys should help each other discover your sexual orientations and preferences. But don't rush into things that fast because you guys are still young. People switch teams all the time. Just take things a step at a time. Focus on discovering who you really are. G'luck!
907679
ewww you masturbate in front of each other um yeah.....thats strange.  i'm straight but that doesn't mean its okay for me to masturbate with my guy friends.
1075922
No of course it isn't.  If you want to poke your dick up another man's bum, then that's fine.  It doesn't do much for me though!  Mutual masturbation/sucking is OK.  It's always better to masturbate with a friend rather than by yourself - or it was when I was at school.  Kissing another man - when there are so many beautiful girls around?  Not for me!
1117632
How long has he been your friend? I'm sure that if he hasn't tried anything with you yet, he won't. And since he's your friend, he probably knows that you are straight and won't try to put moves on you. It's not like he JUST turned gay, he's still your friend (I hope), accept him for who he is.