Girls pls answer: I have a high sex drive but do not want to cheat on my GF. What do i do?
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Turn your girlfriendon. I don't believe in women with low sex drive, I only beleive in good and bad lovers. No offense meant, but maybe you still haven't got a clue what makes her hot. There's nothing but practise, man. In the meanwhile, take matters in your own hands.
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Sorry but you cant increase her sex drive.   What you can do is, encourage her to want you more often.   Heres a few suggestions.\n1) Set the mood.  Maybe cook her a meal, light some candles etc\n2) Give her a sensual massage (massage everything)\n3) Let her know how beautiful you think she is.\n4) Be sensitive to her needs, as well as your own. \n5) Surprize her.   May a picnic, a movie,etc.   Just something you know she will love, and you wouldnt normally do.\n\nI hope these help.   Good luck
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If you really don't want to cheat on him, you will not. I don't believe sex desire is stronger than real love. Besides, that is what makes us different from the animals, we can think and decide, we can hold our sexual desires. \nNow, there's always a way to enjoy sex all by yourself, just use your imagination!
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What I think you should do is the same thing to her. Make sure that you get off first and then roll over and be done. I have to say that depending on how strong your relationship is will have to be the deciding factor as to if you really want to do this, I am a firm believer that if you don't have good sex a relationship probably won't work.
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Movies do without question decieve one into thinking that good relationships are plentiful and easy to get.  They are possible--but never easy.  As for sex--it can not only be fun, it can be the thing that makes your relationship stronger.  Sounds like the two of you were just young, inexperienced kids.  Nothing wrong with that, but only having sex once every 4-6 months isn't going to grow bonds.  Those few that told you to go to a novelty shop and buy sex toys are insane!!  That will only freak her out and make her think that nasty, naughty or "sex for the sake of sex" is all you want.  She needs to FEEL and KNOW that she can trust you.  Now, I'm sure intellectually she does, and would say so were you to ask her.  But to subconsciously FEEL it is another thing.  That comes from a bond that grows from knowing someone as well as, or better than yourself, and having no insecurities about their motives, desires, dreams, etc.  It takes effort and patience, and is sometimes not easy.  But then, the best things in life never are.  (And THAT I learned from a movie--The Weather Man.)\n\nTake time to simply appreciate her beauty, spend hours careessing her, doting on her, telling her your thoughts and all WITHOUT any implication of eventually having coitus in that session.  Let her know by action that she is your, well, goddess, if you will.  Find those little freckles of hers divine, discover the little baby hairs on the back of her neck and treasure them--especially the way they look in the morning light.  Get dreamy and romantic, it NEVER hurts--it's actually quite fun and will only make her swoon.  Swooning is always good.  Think of new ways to flirt with her, to make her blush, to make her feel and know she is ULTIMATELY the most special thing to you.  Then slowly she will reciprocate.  Once she feels truly safe and loved and utterly admired for just being her, she will bloom like a flower.  But NEVER abuse this, never ignore this, never take this--her for granted.  If you take the time to appreciate all the little delights she has to offer with out the forboding of scary sex, then she will love you more and want to give more.  You will truly know what it's all about.  It's possible, but it takes effort and perserverance.  Much luck, and best wishes.
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I just answered your question about how to prove to your gf that you love her.  Sounds like you might be the one that could be insecure?  Don't worry man.. just chill.  Girls are more attracted to confidence than anything else including looks, smarts, ...
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You say you care about your girlfriend. Cheating is not the action of a caring man. If you want something/someone else then first split with your girlfriend.\nTell her that you want something different ... Honesty is the best (and kindest) policy.
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When next you have sex get ur mind off the sexual action and may be think about something else or something outside the sex. You will stay longer. and also don't rush anything take it slow and steady. Don't let her rush you either.
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relax man..first let me commend you on having sex with your girlfriend, secondly dont worry about gettin girls pregnant..lots of people have sex man..and as long as you guys didnt have sex in one of those periods where shes more prone to get pregnant throught her monthly cycles then you got nothing to worry about bro..i say do it again so you feel more comfortable
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Beats me but here's what works...guarenteed. The more you pretend to not like sex the more she'll want to have sex. See if you give her the impression  that you don't want to have sex with her she'll think she's undesirable and there's something wrong with her. So she'll need to prove to herself that she's desirable. Got it?
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I don't think there is anything wrong with loving sex. Everyone has a different sexual appetite, yours is just strong. You are only a slut if you sleep around. Find other ways to get your fill of sex if you're not with a partner. There is no reason to be ashamed of a high sex drive. Enjoy it. I'm sure your partner will love you for it!
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Just tell your girlfriend but reassure her that you don't want to be with this girl and you're trying to handle the situation.\n\nIt's better to come clean than have your gilrfriend somehow find out and think the worst of you.
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Any exercise will give you more energy, thus increasing sex drive. A healthy balanced diet will do the same thing. Spicy food gets your blood pumping, try roleplay, foreplay etc. If it's endurance you're after, then ask your ladyfriend not to touch you intimately until just before penetration. Also try focusing on giving her pleasure, and not yourself. Good luck!
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sounds to me like you're looking for an excuse to wander. if you have to ask why love and loyalty have to come together then i seriously question whether you have ever really felt true love. \nif you feel like you have to "force" yourself to be committed to anyone then you really aren't ready for that committment. that's not wrong. its ok to not be ready. just let her know that although you have strong feelings for her you are still not ready to settle down. just let the girl know that you don't plan on being physically faithful. that is a matter of health as well as heart. if she chooses to stick by you while you make a more firm decision, hurray for you. you found someone who really cares about being with you. \nyou can't be blamed for wanting to explore more of what the world has to offer. i encourage every male AND FEMALE to explore heavily before making a decision to be with that one person. just please let everyone involved that someone else is involved. \nand WEAR A CONDOM.
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You're in a relationship, you're not dead! There is nothing wrong with having a perfectly healthy sex drive. However, cheating is wrong. If you love and respect this woman you will remain faithful to her. If you really want to be with other women you should end the relationship.
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Unfortunately, yeah. You are the homewrecker.\n\nPut yourself in her shoes, would you want your BF doing it with someone else?\n\nIf you say yes, by all means continue, but I think most of us wouldn't want to be hurt like that.\n\nHave a little respect for her and for yourself. Go for a guy without a GF. Heck go for a guy who respects women a little better than to cheat.
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Dude you cann't make chicken soup out of just water. The point being you can't make her something she not. Seems your sex drive is no where close to hers. It could be you two just don't match up.\n\n It will not get better, maybe you jusy don't turn her on. With a lady its about all things the way you treat her and talk, how you make her feel. Its also maybe your just not  sexually incompatible. You need to think she is not enjoying the sex as much as you.\n\n There is alot more to this then can be talk about on this short note.\n\n Also you could try this, either cook her a nice dinner or take her out to dinner. when you get home just put on some good music just make the connection that you once had. \n\nIts not good to have her think all you want is sex. \n\nHave a nice day Don