Are men intimidated by me? Why don't they ask me out more often?
453147
Some men are intimidated by a female who is very intelligent and/or beautiful.  They don't think they will add up.  Try not revealing everything about yourself all at once.  I know your proud of your degrees, but let these men know slowly about all of this.
1069709
I'm a guy. It's hard because you don't want to mess up something that could be a potential go. Why don't you put yourself in our shoes.... We aren't sure if you like us in return (perhaps you already have a boyfriend), we're nervous because we probably think that you're out of our league and so on...... It would be easier if you let us know how you feel first. then we would be alot more comfortable telling you how we feel.
458067
that sux, maybe its cause guys are itimidated by ur beauty and they think they could handle a woman like u
561072
WAY too little information!  Can you tell more about your sitution?  Feel free to email me if you'd prefer.  1st thing I'll want to know is how old you are.\n\nAnyway, here's a very general answer for starters:  Maybe you are projecting an attitude of disinterest or unapproachability.  For instance, there definitely IS such a thing as being 'too cool.'  Most people want to spend time with people who show an interest in them.  If you're not sending clear enough signals of your interest, many guys won't bother risking what looks like a very good chance of rejection.
413997
maybe the guys do like you but intimidated by glasses and the quiet type.tell him you like him see what happens
64493
In my opinion, there are 2 reasons men are hesitant to approach a woman.\nA. The women are with a group of close friends. This would mean If the guy gets rejected, there will be a large audience to watch the whole thing.\nB. The woman is beautiful. Men think this woman can have anyone she wants, why would she care for me?
660172
Simple:  the guys are intimidated by you.  Point blank.  I had the same problem in high school...you will find better opportunities when you get out of high school and into college!!  Just keep doing you and achieving all you can achieve...they will come to you in the end!!!  I know because it happened to me!!!
871426
Be Careful you don't want to seem desperate, And your not really supposed to be asking guys out anyway. Although it is a bold move and I think that if more women could say what was on there mind there would be a lot more couples together today. And vice versa of course. But my advice to you is to speak your mind be confident. And don't be afraid of rejection. take it slow, be patient but most of all don't settle and Be yourself
460371
thats because hes shy and hes scared of a rejection, make him feel confotable with u that way he will gain enough confidence to ask u out!!!
379908
Not all guys are like that. Anythime I have hit a girl it was by accident or either she was trying to kill me. Sounds like you are inb the wrong crowd. Look elsewhere for guys or try giving the quiter shy guys a chance. Like the guys that admire you from across the room but are to nervous to get up to ask you out. good luck
880447
Sometimes girls need to make the first move. Not all guys have high confidence levels. Just ask him if he would like to go out for drinks or dinner. If he says no there is your answer.
355931
Why is it that the men your refering to know they don't have to have a lasting relationship with you or why is it that your relationships are not lasting...I have found women think they can attract a man one way and think they can keep him another way...You sound intimidating and perhaps your a challenge, and once they realize your just like other women, they lose interest or consider the challenge over...there can be many reasons...just try and be the person you are and allow Mr. Right to recognize thats the person he wants..good luck.
114591
This guy probably really does like you but he most likely is afraid of being turned down. You can use the suttle approach and ask him out. Say something to him (privately) like: "If I say yes to a date, would you ask me out? If he says yes but doesn't follow through, respond by saying "well, go ahead! ask me out." It would of worked for me if I was given the chance.
799165
yes i agree with the other answer ask him or at the very least tell him where you stand,even thought the guy traditionally asks it is the new generation and some guys just dont know how.or also fear rejection..i hate asking people out its tough to know what to say and evryone isnt so easy about whether you sound""nerdy""or not good luck
740245
Unfortunatly that happens quite frequently.At first men do everything in their power to attract you and to make sure you notice them. They treat you like a queen etc. Then as soon as they know that you are theirs and ain't goin' nowhere, they stop trying. What to do in this situation, is to show him, that you are still desirable to others and if you wished you could have any man you want, and you won't hesitate to trade you b/f! Perhaps that will scare him into showing you more attention, and make him work to keep you!
577229
It is true that some guys are intimidated by women that are more successful, or more intelligent than they are, because they are into the whole "macho" thing, and think the man is supposed to be the "breadwinner", and smarter, more successful, and all that. I find intelligent, successful women very attractive myself, but I don't have a problem with my masculinity either. I am a man, in deed, and action, and don't try to prove it to anyone. If I had that kind of woman in my life, I would encourage her to be the best, most successful woman ever. Together , we would make a great team!
952261
hey there...he probably is nervous or unsure as to whether you like him or not...before you go leaping into asking him out or anything make sure that you can cope with someone who may be very shy...i know i couldn't it would drive me nuts,lol...but it might be just your cup of tea...think about it though because shyness in a guy can initially seem cute but can often blend into you having to do all the work and that can become tedious...just advice and it depends on you...it may well suit you down to the ground...good luck whatever you decide ;0)