I'm in love with my ex boyfriend who is my best friends boyfriend?
451050
you have to be strate and tell both of them
1086652
Ideally your husband. But remember, your virginity can only be given away once. So whomever you choose to give it to make sure it is someone that you can reflect on the experience with love and fond memories. You will be in "love" with whomever your choose forever so choose carefully.\n\nIf you choose your best friend it may change your relationship with him forever because he could start getting jealous when he sees you with other guys, or you could start getting jealous seeing him with other girls. Then you might not be friends anymore. That would suck.\n\nif you choose your boyfriend, he might take it for granted. Or if he really loves you he may become insanely attached to you. Or you may become insanely attached to him and then he could totally blow you off. That would be bad. \n\nYour ex doesn't deserve it. I am sure he is your Ex for a very good reason.\n\nI say don't give it to any of them, but if you have to choose one, make it your best friend.
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You need to get on the phone and call all of your friends. Have lots of girls nights out. Have some fun. Forget about him. Its hard, you will think about him all the whole time. But force yourself to keep busy. Keep your mind busy. Eventually it will get easier. Your ex is playing you and his girlfriend. He feels insecure about himself and his current relationship. He isnt worth your time of day! Don't you feel sorry for her that he is actually leading you on. Telling you that he is going to come back to you? Wouldn't that be considered "emotional cheating" on her? Think- if he is doing this to her, then he must have done the same to you. You are better then him. Go OUT ! Have fun while you are single. If it was meant to be, then so be it. But don't wait your precious time sitting around waiting for him when you could be spending it with people who really care about you- "your friends & family" Who knows, one of these days you might meet somebody who treats you with respect, "unlike your ex" and then you can tell him.... "Now who will be sitting around waiting..."\n\nHave fun!
401220
never.. move on... Going after a bestfriends boyfriend/ ex boyfriend is the worst thing i person could do. Forget him
901404
you let him go for whatever reason that may be or you all split up, therefoer you dont really have a right to have a say on who he dates but you can tell your best friend how you feel. Even so if they love each other there isnt much you can do. Just let them go, if it was meant to be between the two of you it may not work out between the best friend and him and then you can ask him back.You  also should tell your  ex how you feel about him still.  But honestly you should move on because there will be many loves in your life. Dont get stuck on someone who doesnt share the same feelings for you as it can only lead to endless pain.\nSorry if that wasnt the answer you wanted but I honestly dont think theres anything else you could do without getting your heart broken or making one or both of them angry with you. Because if you try to split them up or sabatoge their relationship it will only cause them anger and resentment towards you.
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hehe it's either that ur bestfriend is a blabber mouth and says everything u say to everyone.. or people can know that ur in love with this guy from ur reactions when he's around!
1131255
Wow, I am in a situation similar to yours as well.  My next-door neighbor and I grew up together, and I found out that he had a crush on me since we first met each other, which was about 7 years ago.  I was in a long-term relationship with my ex, but me and the neighbor remained friends throughout the whole time.  We didn't start getting closer until the summer of last year, when we started hanging out more and more, and I finally saw a different side to him, a kind, considerate, more gentler side.  We became fast friends and I started developing feelings for him.  We eventually talked about it and we aren't together now (mainly because he's in the military and is about to go to Iraq---he didn't want a relationship while he was over there), we have been talking and thinking about the future, because the feelings are definitely mutual there.  To make this long story short, you should tell your neighbor how you feel about him.  Who knows, he could have the same exact feelings.  Take things slow and gradual, and something could eventually escalate from that.  I'm very happy right now, even just as best friends, and even though it's hard for us to really hide our feelings for each other, I definitely know those feelings are still there.  Wish you nothing but the best!!!
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I haven't been in EXACTLY the same situation, but I'll give you the benefit of my advice, anyway! \n\nFirst, don't do anything until he breaks up with his current girlfriend. That might mean you have to wait a bit, but it's the right thing to do- and besides, you'll put the guy in a bit of a tight situation if you say anything now! (And his girlfriend won't exactly love you for it...) So, wait til they break up. I know it's tough, but wait! \n\nAnd THEN, go for it! Don't worry about it ruining your friendship, because it sounds like you two really are best friends, and a friendship that strong, isn't going to be hurt by something like this. Tell him how you feel. \n\nThe best relationships are between people who start out as best friends- I know, from personal experience!\n\nGood luck!
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Stop accepting gifts from your ex-boyfriend and apologize to your boyfriend.  Because your ex-boyfriend is an ex, it's best if you don't remain friends with him.  He's buying you stuff, so he probably still has feelings for you.  However, you're with a new boyfriend now, and you should value him more than your ex.  Your boyfriend has a right to be jealous and angry that behind his back, your ex is trying to get with you again.  Tell your ex that you don't want to have a relationship with him if you want your current relationship to last.
920051
Tell your friend first how you feel about him.  You don't want to lose your best friend over a guy.
655054
2-my best friend....my boyfriend
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I would definitely say this guy likes you. but do you want someone in your life that could do what he has done? he is with your EX best friend she is an x and so is he. You sound like a young woman who enjoys life and is attractive. My suggestion to you is remain friends with this guy but nothing more. expand your circle of friends, open your horizons. You may just find a guy that will tickle you and only you, If you continue with this boy don't be surprised if you end up in tears or being used.
919214
forget the ex-best friend and be so happy ur ex is giving u another chance
223471
Screw his best friend, and make sure you tell his friend he's got a bigger penis and is a better lover than your ex. That will pretty much put and end to your ex touching you and messing with your head. Then you can move on. Because he's just looking for no-strings-attached sex from you now.
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Figure out what you want for real. Do you have the habit of moving from one guy to the next? If so, stop and take a few breaths before you get involved next time.\n\nAs for the guys, stay away from his best friend. You never should date a boyfriend's best friend unless the old relationship is long dead. And even then, it can be a sensitive topic.
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Yeah, I totally have a crush on my bestfriend's boyfriend, he's so hott!  U handle the situation by being a good friend don't do anything, not like i would ever get the chance, but friends first.
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I have been in this situation, and it is very hard to deal with, esp if you were into the guy before he got together with your friend!\n\nAll I can say is keep your feelings buried for now - it wouldnt be any good to let either of them in on houw you feel, because that would just ruin your friendships. Who knows, given time you may move on, meet the guy of your dreams and suddenly all feelings for your friend's guy will be out the window (it happened for me!). Otherwise, it may not work out between the two of them, in which case ONCE THE DUST HAS SETTLED (its important to wait until it is well and truly over for both of them, or someone will end up hurt) you will be free to see how he feels about you. \n\nIf you do end up dating him though, make sure your friend is okay with the idea, as I have also been in the position where my ex ended up dating two of my friends - weirdly enough, I was fine about it when he dated my best friend soon after we broke up, in fact I set them up, but by the time he dated the other friend a good while later, it drove me mad seeing them together, and it made me realise I wasn't over him at all (but thats a whole other story!).\n\nThe last thing I will say though - while I repeat it woud be a bad idea to tell either of them about your feelings right now, one thing that really helped me through everything (both being the one with feelings for my friend's guy and seeing my ex date my friends) was having another friend whom I trusted completely and who knew everyone concerned but wasn't part of the group so much. I was able to tell him everything that was going on in my head and getting my feelings out really helped me to get over them - keeping your feelings to yourself with no outlet will not help you move on, it will only intensify them. So tell someone whom you trust not to blab, even if its only your diary!!!\n\nGood luck, and if you need a chat, get in touch any time!\n\nJoji x