Here's the truth. I was adopyed, and yet my parents only told me now. What should I do?
452115
I agree with Raffalo. Specially if they were good parents. It`s important to be loved. Whatever happened with your real parents, the ones who took their place are kind people, I`m sure. If they didn`t tell you before, you must try to understand their reasons. Discuss this with them if you haven`t done it yet. We all make mistakes, so we must try to accept other people`s.
549530
You have become an "individual" with whomever you are with....you left the nest and are beginning a life of your own...enjoy the freedom :) Your parents had this experience.. now it's your's :)\nLove Life :)
312875
there is no easy way to tell them. If you know for sure that your parents will accept that you're bi, then it should be a problem telling them. They probably already know and just waiting on you to say something.
726723
listen to your parents....they actually know what they are doing. its for your own good. you'll thank him one day. trust me. i was your age only a few years ago...and sometimes i wish that i had obeyed my parents more...i would be a lot better off i think.
611427
It's called rebellion.  I had 3 teenage girls at the same time.  A teen feels they are old enough to make their own decisions and don't need their parents telling them what to do.  You don't realize that your parents were once teens also and they know and understand what is going on with you because they went through it to.  truth is, you are not old enough to know better.  You think you are, but you are not.  Parents only want what is best for their children no matter what age.  As hard as it may be, try listening to your parents.  Sit down and talk.  Ask them why they are being so forbidden on certain liberties that you want.  You will be surprised how understanding parents can really be.  Don't give up...it gets better, believe me.
960131
Sorry, honey, they are your parents. Obey them. It sucks, lots of things in life do, but there will always be rules set by those above you, and, sadly, you must follow them.\nNo one ever said life is fair.
33525
Tell them.  Sooner or later they're going to find out.  When that happens they may assume you were up to no good. Why?  Because you didn't tell them.  If you want any chance at seeing and talking to him then tell them first.  Besides, don't you want your parents to trust you? You trust your parents?  It's a two way street!!
1027222
you should have waited for the right time.. but what has been done has been done...i just hope u never regreted it... and if u think it will help you to open that up to your parents,why not...just be ready for a 1 month ground...kiddin!
298723
well just let your parents know about him and let them see that you are a responsible adult by letting them know. you shouldn't hold it in and then they find out on their own and then it will all go down hill from there. that's my advice.
484819
Your parents will provide whatever you ACTUALLY require. So you should turn to full time study.
127533
ask them.  be respectful.  have trust with your parents. and most importantly dont ask to go to something you know for a fact they wont let you.
1067583
What are your parents' concerns?  If you can help answer or address their concerns, then maybe they'll let you go.  Or maybe they have legitimate concerns that you have not considered.\n\nI hope you can work it out with your parents.
954972
LOL, think you did the right thing there.  The child really needs to talk to his parents about it.\n\nI've been asked before by a niece, and I told her that she needed to talk to her mom.  I said "Well, I don't know, I have never had a baby, but your mom had you...why don't you ask her?".
1147905
I feel sorry for you. I hope you have a good job and provide for yourself with your own money, because that is what the court will look at. Would you have a place to stay for the next couple of years? If I were you, and this is very important for you to consider. You could call Children Services and talk to someone there. They will want to know all the info that you have shared here and all the info that you have not shared here. You have to tell the truth. Most likely the police will get involved and your parents may go to jail, depending on what they find when they come to your house. Children Services will take you and any siblings out of the house and put you in foster care. You may like the home you go to and you might not. If it is as bad as you say, don't hesitate to call them. If you need more advice you need to go to your school counsellor and they will get things rolling for you. I wish you the best of luck.
170920
You tell him the truth about how you feel and should respect your choice.  If your under 18 though I encourage you to wait and not just jump into this.
672751
I would pay more attention to my parents. It's hard to find out now that they have been right all those times....
1182558
You should tell your parents first----just say it like it happened, no guilt or sadness, but with an attitude, "we are here, how do we move forward in the best manner possible? ". You are going to need their support as much as your BF's, and not knowing your financial situation, definitely you may need that as well.\n\nTell your BF later--if things don't go as you hoped, you will need a fall-back, and that is your parents, even though you are an adult.\n\nAs to baby's name: Michell\n\nGood luck.