Imma white female who loves black men, but please some one tell me why i get hated on all tha time?
436296
It goes with the territory and you say you love it.
674476
AH THE SAME THING HAPPENED TO ME!!  Don't apologize, keep being racist and funny.  Go to like an AIM chat room, everyone is calling one black guy a cotton picker and whatnot.  It's really great.  These people tend to be more uptight.  I don;t know what you did, but I'm guessing it was funy.
959203
what is the matter with you anyway? I bet you are one of those blacks who went to an all-white school and was teased about your African features...get over it! Look in the mirror every morning and learn to love what God gave you. Convince yourself that you are somebody special and you are beautiful because God loves variety and concentrating more on being educated and bettering yourself as a person instead of your looks.
977345
People hate what they can't or don't understand. I'm certain you're a very loving person with a great personality. Try and not let the haters get you down!!!!
183598
DUDE. WHAT IS YOUR PROBLEM?  EVERY QUESTION I SEE FROM YOU IS ABOUT SOMEONE LIKING YOU OR OTHER PEOPLES OPINION ABOUT YOU.  GET A GRIP.  YOU NEED TO LOVE YOURSELF.. WHO CARES ABOUT THE OPINION OF OTHERS AS FAR AS YOU ARE CONCERNED.  THE ONLY OPINION YOU NEED TO WORRY ABOUT ARE YOURS AND JESUS.  SCREW EVERYBODY ELSE.  GET SOME SELF ESTEEM!
1007510
You are one of the few who are outspoken about this history which is awful for sure. But I think a lot of black and white women aren't knowledgeable or aware of it, so then what would cause the perceived hatred between them? Personally I haven't seen it, but I live in a small northern town. My guess would be that now that black people are finally getting educations and rising above the circumstances set against them from their history here in US that there seems to be a desire in black men to hunt out white women which can understandably aggravate black women who want to preserve something about their culture apart from the ecclectic mix of cultures that we enjoy here in the US.
771585
Im being hated on for sure
49855
I have many reasons : Denzel Washington, Will Smith, Dr Benton (ER), Dr Burke (Grey's Anatomy)...That really hot guy who sat across from me in highschool math...Oh the list goes on and on...\n\nWhy aren't I with a black man? Cause the guy I married happened to be white.\n\nI do agree that many white women like to look at black men from afar, but don't want to get close. There still is a social stigma to interracial coupling (as evidenced by the previous poster), for whatever reason. In part, I think it might be that to a 'white girl' a black man is rather intimidating up close. I live in a very small, rural town in nothern Illinois, with, literally, no 'people of color'. The first time I went into Chicago, I was 15 and amazed at how tall some of those men are! It was a system shock for sure...
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Hell, no one is going to give you an honest answer.  The fact is, black people have totally different values from Anglo/European people.  White people look for very specific kinds of status and beauty and language, and anything outside of that target zone is just plain ugly.  And there ain't nothin you can do about it except be yourself and hope that maybe a part of you is beautiful enough for the whiggers around you to take notice.  \n\nTruth be told, I hate most black people.  They want me to fear them, they expect me to respect them, and they don't have anything I need.  But I met a black guy who was so much smarter--at electronics and money and worldly things, more things than I could count--than anyone I knew (and I've known some of the smartest in the world)... that I just had to take my hat off and say, "you're a superior man".  \n\nBut look, even then, I took a look at his life - a fat wife who didn't give a damn about him and wouldn't let his friends stop by because it made her jealous... and he couldn't divorce her.  She treated him like utter crap, treated his kid like utter crap, and he was lonely... and it turned him to getting drunk every damn night.  Here's a guy with all the brains in the world, plenty of money in the bank, and all the motivation to be the best x y or z there ever was - he was a judge in the South decades ago -- black man, judge... business man... more than I could even say here.  But in the end, this man was UNhappy.  Why?  I blame the negro in him.  What did I just say??  It's not racial, it's cultural.  The negro in him just kept pulling him back - back to what?  The ground?  I don't know.  It pulled him down.  He couldn't break whatever he had spent his life trying to strive for.  \n\nAnd that's something that my race tries to be the opposite of.  We try to be the supreme.  We try to own and never be owned.  We try to be on top of things, and never let them be on top of us.  We try to not only be rich, but to invest that money.  We try to be number one, and nothing less than that will suffice.  \n\nSo to you I say, yeah... the negro in you has no honor in my book.  Out of the corner of my eye, if I don't have to get to know you for real, all I see is just another thug, waiting for the chance to swipe my wallet.\n\nI am truly sorry.  \nBut know this:\nI don't blame you, either.  \nFirst, white man brings your race here as slaves, \nthen we give you no place to go.\nYou can't go back to Africa, \nand you can't feel at home anywhere but the ghetto.\n\nLook, white man has been doing this to other white men for centuries.  The only way to get up from under it is to say, "ya know what?  F*CK YOU", and ride out the consequences.\n\nI guarantee you one thing... you do that, and *I* will tip my hat to you.
629520
Where's the problem?  Do you parents or friends dislike you dating someone white?  Sounds like it's not a problem for you, as if you were against dating someone white then he wouldn't have made it to boyfriend status; keep loving him and let anyone who objects know your feelings.
553146
Girl, you have real issues.  Can't you find another way to get attention?  Perhaps by doing something positive with your time instead of name calling?  Or are you vying for Rush Limbaugh's job when you get older?\n  I just wanted to add, (we're white and..) my oldest son is married to a mexican,  and at one time my youngest twin was dating an african american and my other son is gay.  Racist?  Be for real.
537760
Be ourselves and not allow society to form our opinions or our judgments.  I'm a white girl, but my boyfriend's black.  We're madly in love, and both of our familys accept each of us...because we got to know eachother before making any judgements.  I hear rude stuff all the time, like, "He's a trader," and "Uh-uh, that don't make no sense."  I even get evil glares from white men when we go out...but I don't mind, cuz he's the one that I go home with at night, so that's all that matters.
1003514
I agree with you, yes you are better at sports, singing, dancing and the way you dress you are wicked, but i'm white and I don't underestand why you have so much hate for us I mean why are we different? You have never meet me and I could be the nicest person in world you could really like me if you knew me. Its only people's nasty minds that make us worlds a part when is it gonna stop? I totally agree with you aswell about Bush I live in the Uk :o( and i'll never forget his reaction to New Orleans I could'nt belive it. But I think he's genrally an evil person anyway and if it is true about 9/11 and he did really make that nightmare happen then he hates every human does'nt he as the towers and New York were'nt just fall of blacks were they? I have four black guy friends who are all like big brothers to me they look out for me and I love them to bits. It is now 2006 when if ever are we all gonna to see through the outside into the middle the part that really matters. Please don't hate us all as were not all the same honestly. xxx
1136795
geeze im not even black and the way some people answered ur question is terrible , cmon people this isnt very becomming of u. all the black hate stuff isnt called for , knock it off. god its a difference in skin color thats it , my god how low can you be people!
1048563
I have read all your questions and answers, it seems to me that you have had a traumatic childhood with your white father and his white mistress' and you have lived the rest of your life as a racist and a mean feminist. Not all white men are cheaters or get the best paying jobs....and not all white women are whores........your 32 years old....grow up and get over it, life is too short.
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Honestly, there are good and bad in every race of people.  There are some moments that makes me wanna put a foot up their behind, but doesn't mean I'm gonna place hatred on black people for eternity no matter how stupid the reason is.  I grew up in a mixed suburbs where I really didn't have that many problems at all with people until I moved to an all-black neighborhood.  There, I was taunted and bullied based on my intelligence...and yes, for speaking articulate...notice how I didn't say, "talking like a white person"?  On your mental thinking, you're right, no one will ever shake you out of it, and I won't judge you on that...but I do think that your conclusions of black people are based on your negative reactions and experiences that you've obtained throughout your life.  I can tell you, I'm going through the same stuff, but I won't ever think of hating my race...that's like hating my father, mother, and everyone else in my family.\n\nAbout the dating out of race, you have your reasons...hopefully, this better not about hair texture or how exotic your child will look!  I hope you'll love that person for what kind of man he is, and not what race he is.
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After looking at your other questions, answers and myspace page I can understand why he doesn't want you around. \n\nYour "self esteem issues" about being fat come across as being very fake and a "look at me! look at me!" tactic. \n\nYour constant comments about being pretty come off as being desperate for attention.\n\nYour only real supporting evidence for being a "perfect" friend is having good grades, being pretty, and dressing in preppy clothing.\n\nLastly, the biggest thing (which I'm betting is his main reason for separating you from is daughter) is your attitude towards black people. You are without a doubt, a racist.\n\nYou come across as being fake, arrogant, insincere, and racist. No wonder he's booted you out of their life! If you want to remain friends with her, you're really going to need a complete attitude make-over.\n\nOften times, the people with the worst behavior are seen as representing their entire race. You need only ask a European what he thinks of americans and you'll see what I mean. We all get labeled because of people like you.