is it ok to look bad boyish but still be really loving and affectionate?
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Most girls do not like this. But if you like this, keep dressing this way and be yourself. That is all that matters.
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HELL NO!!!!!\ndo I look like a whore?????
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You shouldn't feel guilty, that's the normal response by all guys.   I also like to see girls dressed beautiful with gud shape.   If I say, I like to something ugly, do u think u will believe me?  It is normal as what it is.  If u not doing something to harm anyone, or urself, then ur fine & pretty ok!
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There are no nice guys and bad girls. They are all people like you and me. Forget about labels and stereotypes your friends want you to believe. The only important thing is what's in your heart. How do you feel? My advice is to stay healthy and attractive to the opposite sex. That means caring for and loving people that care for and love you.
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It is so right for many reasons. I say go ahead especially if you guys are in love. Men are not accustomed to being treated special, they have all the pressure of having to be sweet and romantic because society has labelled that their role, so when u do a simple thing like open their door, or pull out their chair, or give them a nice massage they feel so pampered.\nGo for it , May God bless you both
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If you do love him very much, and he loves you too, you will be able to work this out.\nThis is very common with men, I think its really just down to the fact that men are only allowed (by Western society) to wear men's clothes, while women are now able to wear women's AND men's clothes.  Men are therefore unable to express their feminine side, and are unable to ever look beautiful.  We are bombarded every day by images of perfect women looking absolutely beautiful and sometimes (for me at least!) it gets you down knowing that you will NEVER be able to look that good.\n\nIts quite sad really, especially when you consider that other cultures (and even our own many years ago) allowed men to express their personal beauty through clothes and face/body paint.\n\nPlease remember this is incredibly common so I'm sure there are groups you could talk to if it is that bad - I don't know if its just him at home, or if he wants to dress up and go out on the town.  Also, many women get excited when their fella puts their clothes on!  So its not all bad.\n\nGood Luck! (and tell him he looks nice!)
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There is nothing wrong with you its just you have a certain taste in men their is nothing wrong with that. You will never be happy if you don't love all of him. If their is no physical attraction it will never work out. Sorry :(
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Girls always want the bad guys...Until they really get a bad guy! I just got out of a relationship and I can assure you I am no longer interested in any guys who are remotely close to bad guys. Be patient...You will find your true love (and she will never leave u for a bad guy)...My only advice is maybe evaluate how you act..are you clingy? do you need to much attention? too too nice? trying to control by being too nice? i found my bf would be like "just quit working i will pay any bills you have"...girls like their independence....well...WOMEN do anyway.
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I completely agree with you.  We are confident and no exactly what we want from our life and our lovers!  We just want a good man to appreciate us in so many ways.... (i'm sure you know what I mean)  I like to always dress sexy - coz I am sexy.
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i am not skinny myself and i have been with a very good looking faithfull man for the past 4 years so it will happen for you.  i think it is very important to feel comfortable with your weight though because if you are not comfortable with the way you look then a man is not going to approach you for fear of rejection the way you are rejecting your body.  if you are not comfortable in your skin try to do something about it.  see a dr. if you have tried and nothing worked.  but most importanly you have to love yourself before any one other than family will fall in love with you.  we all have a beauty of our own,  combine your physical beauty with your inner beauty and your man will come but dont rush it.  the right ,man will come along  probably when you arent looking for it.  and there are men with a prefrence for larger women.  good luck and god bless
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love him as he is and shower him with your loving attention. If he knows that you have accepted him as he is - flaws and all- he'll start to look great. The feeling of being loved and cherished will transform a man.
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You will know when Yall do things that he would do with his boys. When he's around dress down. If he's attracted to you without the makeup and clothes then he will definately like you when you look like a dime. So tell him the truth about you and dont make him feel like you want him. Tell him you feelin him but you aint lookin for anyone. The thing is guys love a chase. Play the games they so call dont like to play and you will have him on a leash in no time!!!
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probably.... i have a problem with that myself.... i think its that with every new bad-boy boyfriend, i feel like its a challenge, like, maybe he will want to change for me... because im the one.... its not true, and its foolish.... \n\ni wish i could give you an easy way out, but unfortunately i cant. i'm finally out of that phase, thank God! But i know this, the reason i cant give you a list of ways to change is because you have to learn the hard way....it will make you appreciate your good guy some day so much more, and it will make you wise....\n\ngood luck, be strong! remember, actions speak louder than words, it you hear things from more than 2 random people, it's probably true, and don't beleive everything you hear.... our parents were right about one thing - guys will say ANYTHING!
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You should love a person for who they are,not what they look like. If you have alot in common with a person and get along with them that should be all that matters
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absolutely, love has nothing to do with looks. and youre lucky and blessed in life when you know that, and if you dont you are missing something, and will be cursed. oh well.\n  hey its funny you said ugly "OR" fat when some fat people are so gorgeous!!!!!!! hmmmm
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There's no person in this world who cant or does not deserve to be loved. No matter how non-girlish you are, people will adore your qualities. If they go only for looks, they are not worth changing yourself for. Infact, its easier for you to decide who is best for you. Dont go all out with wanting boys to take you out. Be calm and just give your guy a hint. I am sure he will understand it if he really cares for you.
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Hasn't anyone told you beauty's only sking deep? Because it's true. If you really love her, she'll know and your looks won't matter to her. Personality, mind, and spirit are way better to have than a nice rear.