how do i show my date that I am NOT a gold digger?
443136
don't request anything expensive.  go to cheap places.
108144
Tell them that you promised yourself you wouldn't date till a certain time.  Then tell them that it is important for you to keep your promises and not to have friends trying to "help" you break them.
424991
just ask . how about saying" lets go to a movie/park/ restorant?". just do not assume anything. see how the things turn out.
601099
i am not a prostitute so no
536273
The proper thing to do is to quietly say, "Oops, you've got something stuck in your teeth."  There's no shame in doing that.  If your date gets offended, well, you've gained some valuable information then, haven't you.
981756
this is not a personals site\ntake it elsewhere
270439
you may want to start with making yourself available. respectable people don't date cheaters.
109024
Offer good value? wtf? are you sure you are looking for a date? :->
232630
You should go to the bank and get 100 one dollar bills.  Then, around two in the afternoon go to a bar where girls dance with  little or no clothing.  Have some alcoholic drinks while you are there so that you get relaxed, this also makes you more appealing to these lovely ladies.  \n\nThese ladies are very impressed by relaxed gentleman that give them dollars bills and fondle them repeatedly.  It makes them want to be with you in other places.  They will protest some and pretend they dont like you, but in reality they are impressed with your class and demeaner.  The more they protest the more they really like you.  NO means YES.  Onxe they seem really peeved at you, ask them to meet you for a date or after their shift, tell them you will be waiting for them outside.  \n\nThis way you will meet attractive and ingellegent ladies and start rewarding long term relationships
712783
A kiss on the check is a good idea if the date went well. If not you don't sense both of you had fun, better skip the kiss all together.
109350
Meet one, date for several months, then pop the question.\n\nOr flash her your cash and head to Las Vegas tonight.
489305
tell her indirectly that you are not up for commitment right now and that if you do get commmited these are the criterias you are looking for (obviously none of the criterias will match her!) dont just come out and tell her you dont feel for her directly because that hurts a lot. keep your space from her and ignore her calls or stop meeting her if you are, she will get the message in time.
290153
I just helped a friend with this actually. Two simple pointers:\n\nBe mysterious: This doesn't mean be so vague it's annoying, it just means don't leave yourself completely open to everyone. Be outgoing, but don't give away your life story. If you pull it off correctly, it makes it look like there's a lot more to you than there really is.\n\nListen: Become their friend, ask them how there day was, and pay attention. Don't interject with your own stories too often. (If you do, make it brief to show you empathise, but don't try to out-do them.)\n\nAnd for anything else, I would recommend the dating game articles on outpostnine.
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The next time you go out on a date dont wear panties, in the middle of dinner lean over and tell him your going commando, trust me, you'll br lucky to finish your meal.\nor\ngo buy a sexy piece of lingerie and a wig, yes i said a wig, and greet him when he gets home in it, that should be interesting.
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Quickie:\nAdd some romance to your day by taking yourself out on a date. Splurge a little!\n\nOverview:\nWhile current circumstances may not paint you in the most flattering light, you know that you'll be vindicated in the end. Let that foreknowledge influence your behavior now. Be compassionate and forgiving.
594621
Why not? If its a great date, then you scored.\n\nIf its a so-so date, at least you got out of the house.\n\nAnd if its horrible, then you will have a funny story to tell later on!
473046
Try match.com or yahoo match.  I know they exist.  Don't waste time with the bums.  Also, you should tell them you're a woman and not a wemon.