How can I be more confident in talking to girls?
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Do it with a close friend who is more confident first until you build confidence.  Make sure he is in on what you are trying to do.
639776
Don't worry about impressing her. Be yourself, and she'll feel more comfortable too. But if you do stumble over a few of your words, or forget what you were going to say, be willing to laugh at yourself. It will make you look more confident than you feel. Good luck!
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Open your mouth and let the words flow.\nTry this, pretend you are on a planet that does not differentiate between beautiful and not beautiful. Start talking.\nNever assume that because a girl is pretty she won't talk.\nIf you act like a leach, then you'll have no luck with any girl, no matter what she looks like.Be a gentleman.
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You are just nervous.  Try to relax.\nYou might try telling the girl you are nervous, maybe she is too.
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Just be casual. order something and try to have a light sense of humor while trying to make conversation. go easy at first..keep going in to order stuff and keep making conversation. girls like shy and sense of humor but be shy about it..u know..look cute..she will get the hint eventually..after u feel comfotable ask to have lunch or a cup of coffee w/ you....hey, let me know if it works..just remember don't be caulky like "i'm all that" girls hate that but don't be to shy either..be cute,sexy shy..
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How about being geniune first and foremost, cos girls well most can suss out phoney's who are after only one thing...\n\nStarting a conversation is a start without being crude, asking her questions whilst listening about herself and dislikes ,likes etc..\nThen some info about what you like to do etc is a start....
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Sounds like you're a real ladies man! I don't think you have anything to worry about. If you like a girl just approach her. Don't be cheesy with stupid pick-up lines or anything. Just general conversation. A genuine compliment never hurts either, just don't gush. As far as you exuding confidence, smile and stand up straight. Be comfortable in your own skin and just be yourself. Don't put on an act just to impress a girl. She needs to like you for who you are. If you try to put up a front to impress her it will come back to haunt you eventually.
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Girls pick up subtleness.  Say something like, "I am sooo glad that I count on your friendship."  Or talk about some other girl that you are interested in, and she will get the message.
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practice, lol, it seems difficult, but the more you try, the better you will get, the more comfortable you become, the happier you become.  Guys look for confidence in a girl, one who can express them self.  You may be able to take little steps in your efforts to talk eloquently to him, dont worry though, shyness wears off, its like you are a Caterpillar becoming a butterfly
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Just be yourself. don't pretend to be anything you're not. Be kind and polite. Don't use corny or cheesy pick up lines. and just have fun and enjoy yourself. Don't think badly of yourself. i mean just go up to her nice and casual and start a friendly conversation with her. I mean the worst that could happen is that she turns you down. Or you freeze up and she starts laughing in your face.  But i mean at least you know that you tried. Don't go hide under a rock each time a girl turns you down. there will be alot of that in your life. Just learn from your mistakes.  There are plenty of girls out there that will accept you for who you are. You just got to look. Good luck with your problem though. I wish you the best, and know that you will find luck eventually. Just don't stop believing.
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i like all girls. You can be shy, but that shouldn't stop you from showing your interest to a guy. You don't really need to talk...just flash a smile. most of the time thats all you need to do.
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You can start a conversation about anything... the weather, school, anything.  The most important part is to just try to relax and not look like you are trying too hard to find someone.  Girls are attracted to guys who look like they are having fun.  Compliments might work too.  Tell a girl you like her hair, or the way she smiles.  Good luck.
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Yes!!!! Look Being shy is alright.. but not being tooo shy.. because then a girl would get confused.. she wouldn;'t know  how you feel around her.. you need more confidence in yourself so you can talk to girls.. ask ur self these questions.. Why am i scared to talk to girls??? And you will get ur answer.. \nAnd remember.. Girl's wont go for tooo shyy guys.. so be aware.. good luck.. it will take time.. but u can IMPROVE!!! be Bold n go talk to girls!! datz all  ican say...
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wen u see a girl u like...make eye contact..smile...and before u walk over to talk to her...breath...wen u go up to her don't worry about remembering a good line...just say 'hi'..if she smiles..u'll feel more confident and the words will come naturally..if there's no reaction from her theres no harm done..u just move on to the next :-).. remember to breath :-)
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If you aren't that comforatble around girls, get with a shy one so it can seem like you are more brave... =) But if you want to break out of your shell, get with a girl that isn't shy and will always have something to talk about, so you wont have to think about what to talk about.Don't try to get a GF rite now, you should talk to a lot of good girls and get comfortable first, then get a GF.
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Hi,\nI'm also tremendously bad at approaching girls.  Something that works for me is finding a girl that you like, smiles at you and lets you catch her eyes.  Ask her to go for a coffee or something.  That way the pressure is less than being on a date. After you do it a few times it gets easier. Best, JSP
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Well you're shy, so then the confidence thing will only work if you're slightly cocky.  So we'll ignore that approach.\n\nYou're best bet is to find something in common with the girl you're interested in.  If you can't strike up a conversation with somebody, it's not going to happen, YOU GOT to be able to casually strike up a conversation.  If it's someone you 'sorta' know, be able to say hello & find something that relates to her & you.  If not, then say something random that you like & see if she responds (NO PICK UP LINES!!!)  It really doesn't matter what you say, just the fact you said it.  \n\nNow from there you can ask for casual dates, if you are not comfortable asking for 'dinner' or 'going back to my place'  You need to be able to find out what she is interested in & then find something that would interest her in doing it with you.  If you're talking about movies, find a great movie nearby & ask if she wants to go.  If she like coffee, go for coffee, if she likes plays, find something like a play.  IT DOES NOT HAVE TO BE AWKWARD!  All you need to say is 'Hey you like ______?  Me too!  They're showing ____ at the ______ on _____!  Would you like to go?'  If she says no, than move on.  If she says sure, casually ask for her number so you can 'coordinate' it & give her one phone call so she knows it's all arranged & off you go. \n\n* Important at the end of whatever you're doing don't just go straight home, find something else that can detain her for awhile, so you can talk about whatever you chose to do.  This'll show your interest & then you can plan (Or run away) for what happens next*