I have a realy mean teacher and she hates me i have to spend all day with her what do i do?
437645
What does she say/do that makes you specifically think she is mean?\n\nInstead of worrying about what she is doing, you should be thinking about what you are doing. Teachers REACT to student behavior. Therefore, there is probably something you are doing that angers her. Are you doing your work, staying quiet (except for class discussion time), helping around the classroom during cleanup, waiting politely for help and asking courteously, etc.?\n\nIf your HONEST answer to each of the above is yes, you are hard-working, courteous, and helpful, then look at the overall class behavior. Are there people who are just absolutely driving her nuts? If that is the case, talk to her about your feelings when she yells at everyone when it's only a few people... and time when you are going to talk to her carefully. Wait for a moment when she smiles when she sees you...lol!\n\nIf all the students are courteous, hard-working, and helpful, then she's stressed out about her colleagues or her private life. Talk to your parents about your feelings, and remember that the end of the school year is very soon!
170654
That is very rude and surely causes the kid alot of pain. The teacher should be dealt with by her superiors. She should know better. You might try becomming this kid's friend. He could probably use one that's understanding and kind. If someone starts taking his side that person may get some flack but the best part is knowing you're doing the right thing for the right reason. Good luck.
707023
This isn't about fair. It's about two different perspectives of what happened. It's about getting through this and getting the best grade you can while keeping your relationship with your teacher intact (you do have to stick with her for a while, right?)\n\nThe best way to handle this, in my opinion, is to ask the teacher which assignments are missing, and ask if there is a way that you can either do an oral re-cap of what you wrote on your assignments, or if you can do them over and turn them in a little late. Or, perhaps she can come up with another solution, especially if you seem intersted in working with her.\n\nDefinately don't try to make this into and "I'm right and you're wrong" situation. And certainly don't cry "not fair." Try to negotiate and find a middle ground where you can both be happy. Not only will this be a happier way around the situation, your teacher might actually be so impressed by your maturity that she'll be really nice and give you the benefit of the doubt! (Don't count on it tho :)\n\nIf you find that talking with your teacher is upsetting for you, ask a friend or family member to role-play with you before you go in and talk to her. I know, it sounds lame, but it really does help. In your role playing, you not only will you get a chance to practice steering the conversation to the positive, but you might also come up with some other ideas on how to work everything out.\nGood luck!
250664
I got the same thing. Im sitting next to this boy thats a faget. He talks to himself, hits like a maniac and is a big B****. The teacher probably does that so we cant talk. You can always sit next to a person you dont want because maybe your teacher hates you. I hate my teacher and he hates me.
847774
If you or your classmates are angering that person on purpose, you only have yourselves to blame. If your teacher is just mean for no reason, set them up on a date.
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Ignore her.  Don't hang out with her.\n\nIf you can't do that, just be nice to her and pretend that whatever she does doesn't bother you.  She is probably one of those people who likes the reactions she gets from you.  If you stop giving those reactions, then maybe she will stop doing whatever it is that bothers you.
972515
Dude that's totally jacked up. My teacher hates me too and she calls me out for things I didn't even do, I think she should be taken to court because she lies. Stand up for yourself. I did
852994
lay down the law with her. tell her that for not getting good grades or not doing it u can take away priviledges. that should persuade her. if not, tell how much it hurts u to see her get bad grades. tell her u want to see her succeed in life and that she cant do that without doing her homework.  also, dont just take away priveledges, set aside time to check up on her. if she is doing badly, lower her allowance or take away more valued priveledges, like friends or phone. then again u dont want her to hate u, so dont come down hard on her the 1st time. but if the bad behavior and grades continue, start getting stricter. she needs to know you mean when u say it. if u say 'the next time you get a C or lower, your grounded', when she gets a C, follow up on it. she'll probably remember those words and say to herself ' moms not serious about this grade thing'. ur words need to be powerful, but not overwhelming.
816946
Just talk allot about your wife,and how she is the best ting that has ever happend to you.  Don't give the teacher any attention,because she will stop if she sees that you ignore
473645
Try dealing with hundreds of little A-holes all day!  Actually, the teacher's lounge is a gathering place to compare notes on trouble makers, and how they can combine to make his or her life a living hell!  Feel you are being treated poorly by several teachers?  You must have been the daily topic in the lounge! By the way, nice grammar!  go to school!
701080
Tell her to leave you alone . The only reason people do that \nis because they are jealous of you . Ask her what's up with her .\nIf all else fails tell the school counsler to call both of you\nto her office to see what the problem is . This way if she\ndoes start anything with you there is a record ofthe problem .
1005654
This teacher is not behaving the way she should. She is being seductive and she could get into alot of trouble. You need to stay away from her because she is not following the rules. Please talk to your parents or a counselor about this. She is going to get some kid into a real mess -- worse than you can imagine.
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Tell the teacher exactly what you told us. I'm sure the teacher will understand and don't be shy. I'm sure it'll work out fine. I myself have experience Believe in yourself.Ask your friends to help too. I think the situation right now is she is spoiled and she thinks she is so hot and smart! Is that right? I hope this helps with your problem at school, but remember one thing DO NOT APOLIGIZE TO HER!!! That will make her seem like she is the queen or something. Just choose a song yourself and perform it.\n\nGood Luck!
900129
How is she abusing you? And you need to tell someone. Tell your school principal or call the police. Tell someone.
391869
Run!!!\n\nJK....\n\nI'd definitely try to avoid her, and if it gets really bad, you need to talk to somebody--parents or teachers.  You shouldn't have to go through that at school.
679575
your idea is totally genius! I always say... kill them with kindness! It will annoy her that you are being really nice to her, and when she realizes that you aren't upset when she's rude to you, she'll get bored and start to ignore you. Most likely she'll entirely move on to someone else (to annoy) good luck! This method has worked for me MANY MAnY times!
495302
act like you like her.  don't get on her bad side...  just stick it out because there isn't that much time left in the school year anyway. you can probably handle it for 5 hours a week.