is it ok to marry a man you love before having sex with him?
438767
of course it does! it just means that you're really up for love and not for lust... though sometimes your decision depends on your morals, but in my opinion, it's very much ok to marry a man first before having sex with him. since you're both legal to do it and if ever pregnancy issues come alaong you wouldn't be scared since marriage already took place. =)
697089
In the bible it says that sex before marriage is wrong if there is no commitment between two people. "Marriage" as referred to in the bible is symbolic for a relationship/connection/love/commitment.\n\nThus you don't need to be married (literally) to have sex but you need to be committed.\n\nI feel that it is all about morals and there is no right or wrong. it's your own decision. Personally I believe that sex before commitment/love is wrong
316780
Marry a man with a small p*nnis
125452
AFTER you get married.  Life gets way too complicated if you do it before marriage.  It saves you from a lot of heart ache too.  You and your spouse will be glad you waited, then you won't have to worry about diseases, pre marital pregnancy, past lovers, etc.
824998
If you are concerned about the legal benefis when you marry someone then you should probably not get married. Marriage is about love, not material things you'll receive.
343078
dear mohammad i don't know where do you live,i guess you are in west,but your name says that you are muslim .i am muslim girl .in islam girl shouldn't have sex before marriage.of course we feel love and romance but our religion and traditions protects us from falling.it's a great protection for the girl and for her husband in the future who will be happy to be the first man touching her and will feel happy that this woman will bring up his children.and believe me this is not only in islam but also in christianity.the christ and the holy bible order people to stay away from sex without marriage but these morals have changed in the west due to ideas of liberity.liberity is very important for everybody but it doesn't mean making sins.God bless you daer friend and your future wife and protect your children from her.
1054992
True love waits, my boyfriend and I are both virgins and we intend to till we are married, so go for it girl!
520963
I'm currently on my second marriage and I wish I would have waited until I met the man I'm with now. I was a virgin with my first husband but, we did it before we were married. I chose to have sex one month before our wedding because I didn't want our wedding night to be awkward. If your 100% positive you are getting hitched like I was then I say go for it. I just wish it had been with my second husband instead of my first.
1128783
It's not a question of health, as much it is as...religion. If you believe in no pre-marital sex, don't do it. I personally think, that if YOU are waiting for the right man... after marriage would be best. And again, it's how you and your family members feel about this as well.
623357
I dont think you should have sex before marriage. The sex will get in the way of really getting to know each other.You want know if its love,or lust.If its real and leads to marriage,you will be having all the sex you want. Find out the important things now,fck your brains out later.
350286
Sex with an ordinary man who you love by heart is best. You know why? Because you can TEACH this guy about great sex. And doing that can be an awful lot of fun. But you can't teach the guy who makes you crazy to be a man you can love by heart.
612749
not under any circumstance - you will ruin the kids life if they are not brought up in a  proper family environment and sex before marriage is immoral and well having sex the first time on your wedding night makes it special for both - I would hold back till then
527844
Sadly, a lot of women have been duped into thinking that you must experiment with sex with your partner prior to marriage.  Of course this is false--sex follows love, not the other way around.  They then end up giving up their bodies to dozens in hoopes of finding the "right" guy when all they do is cheapen their own value thus limiting the quality of guy that they will be able to ultimately marry.
154184
it depends on your beliefs, i believe that you should only have sex when u know that you really love the person, and before you have sex u should become friends first and really get to know and trust each other, its not about marriage its about maturity and commitment,
797416
Some people definitely would justify pre-marital sex with someone based on the fact that they intend to eventually marry that person.  Certainly this excuse doesn't qualify in God's eyes, but humans can rationalize alot.\n\nWhat you should keep in mind here is that this isn't something you should feel guilty about.  I'm sure you aren't forcing the man to have sex with you against his will.  He's a man and he wants sex just like the rest of us do.  That's why he's doing it, how he justifies it really doesn't matter.
1172318
Yes!!! Sex was designed to express the love between a man and his wife. That is why the honeymoon is supposed to be special. If you have sex before marriage, then your honeymoon will become obsolete. Also, if you sleep around before you get married, at least give your spouse a list of names in case a few "old flames" come acalling.
1092797
YES IT'S OK TO REMAIN A VIRGIN.   YES YOU SHOULD REMAIN A VIRGIN.  SAVE YOURSELF FOR THE MAN YOU LOVE AND GIVE YOUR ALL TO HIM ON YOUR WEDDING NIGHT.  THAT'S THE WAY GOD INTENDED IT. \nIF HE REALLY LOVES YOU, HE SHOULD UNDERSTAND AND BE WILLING TO WAIT UNTIL MARRIAGE.  (YES...IT'S HARD TO WAIT)    BUT IF HE REALLY LOVES YOU....HE WILL RESPECT YOU AND WON'T DEMAND ANYTHING OF YOU.\n\nBESIDES....SOME GUYS LOOK AT IT LIKE THIS ...........\n"WHY BUY THE COW WHEN YOU CAN GET THE MILK FOR FREE?"     NOT SAYING YOU'RE A COW...JUST USING AN EXAMPLE..."WHY WAIT TO MARRY A GIRL WHEN I CAN GET SEX FROM HER WITHOUT THE RING?"\n\n"MAKING LOVE"  AND "HAVING SEX"  ARE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS.\n\nMAKING LOVE IS GIVING YOURSELF AND ALL YOUR LOVE TO THE PERSON YOU LOVE AND ARE MARRIED TO.\n\nHAVING SEX IS JUST THAT !!!!   HAVING SEX WITH A PARTNER.\n\nIS THAT WHAT YOU WANT?   \n\nYOU LOVE HIM, HE'S DEMANDING SEX. DON'T DO IT JUST BECAUSE YOU'RE AFRAID YOU'LL LOSE HIM IF YOU DON'T.  IF HE DROPS YOU BECAUSE YOU DON'T HAVE SEX ........HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU. NOT REALLY... IN LOVE WITH YOU...BECAUSE IF HE IS..........HE'LL RESPECT YOU AND WAIT.\n\nHOPE THIS HELPS...\nDON'T DO ANYTHING YOU'RE NOT READY FOR.\n\nGOOD LUCK!