What's a good way to fall back inlove with your husband of three years?
445077
just think about the times when you first started the relationship. reminisce and remember why you fell in love the first time. don't take each other for granted. there are TONS of things that you guys love about each other but just forgot. have a fun evening somewhere nice. don't talk about work. don't talk about problems. just laugh by remembering all the funny stupid things you guys used to do. Good luck. let me know how things work out.
201663
move in and love him back.  he's not saying all that to B.S. you!
983837
Find a support system. Though a husband is supposed to be part of it. Get out there and make friends, people who share your interests and viewpoints. On the husband, make mentions of whats going on in your mind. He may feel as insecure as you do about living in this new place and may not know how to comfort you if he cannot do it for himself. Most people keep things inside and queitly seeth. Its rare to find people who can communicate well in a relationship. Find someway to open the lines.
179038
I am sort of in your situation, but in reverse.  I have started falling out of love with my husband.  I don't want to, and am trying very hard to prevent it.  I will tell you right now, I know why I feel the way I do, and have tried to tell him, but he just sees it as my nagging him.  When someone does something that hurts you, I believe that you should let them know so that he/she has the opportunity to recognize when it happens again, then stop it, or apologize if it does.  Well, the way it started with me: The failed attempts at communication and the fact that he acts like he doesn't have to lift a finger to keep this going...keep the flame alive so to speak.  I can tell you right now that the main reason why I am here is because I made a commitment to this man, but if I had not, I would have left him already.   Have you "listened" to your wife?  Does she feel loved?  Don't think that just because you come home to her every night she should feel priveliged.  Actually "make" her feel loved by doing the little things.  Open her doors (even as independent as some women are, this is still a sign of wanting to take care of her), write her a note, buy a card or flowers.  Take her out on "dates" even the movies is great.  Just hang out with her and talk about nothing, but have have fun.  She should be your best friend, the person you can joke and carry-on with...act dumb and laugh at and with each other.  Just let her know every day that you love her...genuinely.  Do not ever leave her or hang up the phone with a "byeloveyou".  Tell her "I love you and I will see you soon".  A lot of times the way you say something and the tone of voice say a lot.  If you are geniune, and let her know in your actions that you want to be there with her and be the one to take care of her, then she will do the same for you.  I may know what she is going through.  My husband says he loves me but more than not, I feel taken for granted and like an annoyance.  I can feel myself not wanting him anymore, and I can honestly say that I love him, but I am no longer in love with him. If you love your wife, give it everything you can with all of your heart.  Don't let her leave you (either physically or emotionally) thinking "I should have".
496803
Don't let a single day pass without letting him know in word and deed how much you love, honor and cherish him. Make sure that you never stop talking and sharing the things that happen in your lives. Make sure that you create time for just the 2 of you, especially after you have children. A strong and healthy marriage is the foundation of a happy family.
381385
Well since you love LOVE him very much do not worry about what other people say. Is he loving enough back to you? Does he honor you, does he respect you. Every body is imperfect and makes mistakes it is how you deal with the tough times and live the good  times so I would say just keep doing what you are doing and maybe just do little sweet things for him like make him a sandwich for lunch at work if he is into that, because you know how guys are so forgetful at times and they don't think about food well he might forget it in the fridge so just think of small little things to make his day brighter. Good Luck lots of love
499514
Taking time with your spouse!
72243
take a day off from work that is the best gift u can give each other.wear wat ur spouse likes u to wear.go out to some romantic place and if possible see some romantic movie,have a condle ligth dinner and then spend the rest of the night in ur bedroom.
1040528
If you have a camera, you could make him a tape - got to all the places that have good associations for the two of you (first date, first intimate connection, etc etc), and at each place film a single "reason why I love you", linked to the place, but speaking honestly about your feelings. If you're very brave, you can even touch on some of the difficulties you've been having, and express your hope that the love the two of you share will help you get through this time, and future difficulties, together. It's a good idea to think the tape through first, so you have an idea of how it's going to fit together.\n\nIf you don't have the camera or can't get hold of one, you can still do the "reasons why I love you" thing - write them down, one by one, on good quality paper and tie them with some ribbon. Then when time allows, hide them around his life - if you can put them in different places - his place, your place, maybe work (depending on whether he'd be laughed at for romantic things at work), in his car etc...\nJust so that wherever he is, he can discover a little of why you love him, and feel you with him throughout his day and night. For added effect of course, you can add a drop or two of your perfume to the paper.\n\nAfter a little while of this, when he comes home (or to your place), have a hot bath poured for him, lots of tealights (though not anywhere in his path to the bath(!)) for a romantic atmosphere. Have an alcoholic beverage ready for the two of you. Maybe even bathe him if you're both comfortable with that. Foot massage to finish off, while telling him how you feel about him. Then take him to bed - either the romantic mood will ignite into passion, or, perhaps even better, you can pull him close and hold him to you for the warm, romantic connection of it, untill he drops off to sleep.\n\nJust some ideas. Hope things go well for you.
485109
Oh man, my hubby and I will be celebrating our 3rd anniversary this Oct and 5 years of being together. It has taken us a long time to figure this one out. The answer sounds so simple but it can take ALLOT of self control and discipline. The key to a successful relationship is having a forgiving, unconditional love for your partner. Being able to accept blame and admit wrong doing and knowing what to do to change is a big key. When we talk "fight" we do not tell the other what we don't like about them but what we recognize they don't like about us. This way its not assigning blame and creating defensive walls but acknowledging wrong and working together to change. We are best friends, lovers, and we embrace all things together as a team. Marriage is the HARDEST thing to do in this journey we call life but I PROMISE it has the largest rewards! My husband and I got divorced last year and realized on the day of our divorce in the courtroom that we were running from our problems and making the biggest mistake of our lives. You have to go THROUGH your problems, you can not avoid them in any way. Good luck to you
718007
im sure that your first thought would be to do something grand and over the top, but i would suggest that you do something simple. a little quiet time with just you two will be a good start. if you want to have a welcome home party for him, i would suggest that you have it the week after he gets home, to allow him time to adjust. and as for you... be prepared for some changes, and dont expect things just to fall back into the place where you were when he left. accept the fact that your husband is a changed man. because he is. just be patient with him, and take things slow. caution your friends and loved one not to make him talk about his experiences. he will tell you when he is ready. and above all, just make sure that you are there for him. out of everything that you want to plan for him, do for him, and do to him, im sure that all he really wants is a hug from the woman he loves.
1088474
I have decided after two marriages that there are different kinds of love, you do what makes YOU feel the best.  You won't be able to change your husband, and I know from experience, they may try to change, but it rarely works out, and if so only temporarily.\nIt ends up not being fair to either one of you.  Don't take a chance on losing your new love...........
1082057
every day just remember how much you love your husband and his child. that helps alot
347218
Well the first thin is is that you both need to be able to:\ncommunicate\ncompromise\ntrust\nbe honest \ngive as well as receive\nbe able to be patient and understanding\nbe able to allow them to have a life away from you as well.\nto want to do things special for one another once in a while. like:\nplan a walk at the beach and have a pic nic\ncall them up on the phone jsut to say "i love you", "i miss you" and/or "I'm thinking aobut you"\nplan a candle light dinner at home\nhave a nice warm bath waiting for their return possibly with( candles, music, oil or bubbles and/or rose petals in tub)\nOn your partners day off, play hooky to spend time with them on cuddling on the couch watching movies and talking.\nIf you two can do this, seek a marriage counselor, counselor will be able to bring up some other importatnt things to thik about, that most people don't seem to think about.
583107
Maybe turn back the clock and remember what brought you both together and go back there and re-kindle the flame.*\n\nAfter five years there love there that will never go away.
54924
Prepare his favorite meal, or in case you don't cook order it in his favorite restaurant and have them deliver it to you. \n\nSet the table really nice, and don't forget the candles!!!!!!\n\nIf you like to dance you can do it at home, just turn the stereo on (romantic music, of course).\n\nAnd then, if you are married or live together, take a bath together before going to bed.  Fill the bathtub with warm water and add lots of red rose petals to it (and I mean LOTS of petals!!!!) don't add anything else, the petals will give you a magic and romantic essence.  \n\nNow, while you are taking a bath, you can turn romantic music on, place candles around the tub, turn the light off and have a glass of your favorite wine and ENJOY YOUR NIGHT!!!!!!\n\nHAPPY VALENTINES DAY
421897
DON'T  do anything!! hoepfully you have not acted on these feelings, but if you have, you need to come clean with your husband. Sit down and talk with him and tell him how you are feeling,and what made you go out side of your marriage. I am telling you now, it is not going to be an easy task. But there is always hope. Pray about this situation and ask the Lord to restore your marriage.\nDon't Let the Green Gress fool You!!