Is it OK, to still have sex with your ex???
447764
Only if you are both ok and not getting attached. If one of you are falling in love all over again, or not accepting that it is over, then sex is only going to break your heart. If both of you understand that it is over, and happy with just having sex no strings attached, then go for it. However, be careful, this sort of thing can backfire, and in my experience, usually it is best to just let it go and move on.
190121
There's no hard-and-fast rule.  The consensus seems to be that it's not a good idea because of the harm it may cause your ex and the awkwardness it may create in the new relationship.  However, if your ex is out of the picture, and it's unlikely you'll see him again, and his status as your ex doesn't pollute the current relationship, I don't see any reason why you shouldn't explore it.  If it's inevitable that he'll find out, and you've been with him for a long time, you should wait a while before pursuing his friend, and you also should consider letting him know your intentions.
335433
Well-Its very healthy for you IF you practice safe sex. HOPEFULLY  with the same partner.
475474
how long does it take for you to get over your ex. its never good to get into another situation if your not over the first. just like having sex and before i cumm you move on. get it
85193
It would be un-healthy if you were in an un-healthy relationship before. It would also be a problem if one or both of you were in a committed relationship now. But other than that I can't see how it would hurt.
33518
Go for it. Your ex should not have any say over who you date. That's why it's called "ex."
325596
I respect you immensely for not wanting to.  Sex is a very serious thing and it ties two people together permanently.  (Have you ever noticed couples around you who need to break up because they're miserable: the reason they won't is because they're having sex) It is a very serious decision. Treat it as such.
1187557
My fella and l aren't officially "a couple" any more, but only for the past few weeks, we're still having sex though.\nlt doesn't feel like a bad thing cos we only split cos of my weird family, we still see one another(well have sex) but it doesn't feel bad cos we both want it and we know we would still be together any way if not for my family.
1095505
A ex is a ex..  that is why they are called ex's.  There is nothing wrong with being friends with an ex.  I am friends with an ex.  We talk on the phone about evey 4-6 months.  He calls at Christmas and that is about it  We ask about the kids and how each other are doing.  End of conversation.  \nSo, I say she is not comfortable with you.  It is truly hard to be in love with someone whom you have only known for 6 months.  Not imposbbilbe, so she is has a greater bond with the ex.  But then my question would be why did they break up if she feels it necessary to text and talk to him all the time?\nJust because her family is good to you is no reason to be treated like the thrid wheel in your relationship.  \nShe is selfish and wants the best of both worlds.  As for the sex issue, you didn't seem stressed over that.  But meds can have something to do with it and I would sugggest she contacts her Dr and lets him know the side affect and he might be able to give her something else. If you truly love her and I mean in love with her you will and can work through this if not.\nYou have only invested 4 months so move on and someone out there will appriciate your for you.  You will not have to prove yourself and should not have to prove yourself to anyone who loves you,  Nor should you be lied to or feel there is no trust level when love someone and as I said truly love someone.
484856
I think if you're living with someone, it's perfectly acceptable to be having sex.  After all, you're in a healthy, committed relationship that's one step away from engagement/marriage.  The only thing missing is a certificate.\n\nWith that said, no I don't feel I need to refrain and... 67 days.
907849
Of course it's ok, BUT can be dangerous in terms of STDs or even violence, so one has to be very careful and wise, to say the least, and then there is still a risk.  I see nothing morally wrong, but potentially physically dangerous.   So be very cautious and savvy, my friend.  :)
993102
why are you still having sex with someone that you are breaking\nup with, i would not be haveing any thing to do with you on any\nlevel, so what up with this......
275121
No, A divorce is a legal state, having sex does not change that status.  Yet the moral implications are what gets blurred in this situation.  Do you want to continue having sex with someone who doesn't want you around?  Do yourself a favor and don't complicate the situation...sex makes it hard to end.  Good luck
538191
I've done this, did it a couple of times, actually... Never worked.\n\nI did have one friend who kept doing it to one of her ex's. However, she would constantly sleep with him again, and then assume the relationship was back on. Don't get me wrong, he's a good guy, but he's not going to turn down sex, especially since he didn't know what was going on through her head. If he did, he never would have slept with her. \n\nNow, if you're not in communication with the ex, and you try this, keep in mind that you may not like what you see. That happened to me, and I'm not proud to say that I crawled into a bottle immediately afterwards. \n\nBut hey, it can be interesting, so why not try it! Just bring along a friend to share in your joy or pain. And let them drive.
891002
To be honest your best off ignoring it if both you and your girlfriend trust each other this should not be an issue anyway. The ex is more than likely only doing it to annoy you hoping it will cause problems so don't rise to it. She is with you not him :)
341836
Yes you are still broken up, but she also wants to get some on the regular.  This can happen when things are physical.  I would let her go, and not sleep with her again.  If you do have sex with her again it's going to get harder and harder to admit it's finished.
144545
GOOD question. It all depedns on both of your levels of maturity and self-restraint. If you had a good freindship before you might be able to keep it up after. Just be willing to distance yourself from him/her in the event you find someone to be intimate with. It never works out with your current man/woman to be spending too much time with the ex. Too much opportunity for "heart string pulling". As long as you have rules and bounderies things should work. I'm fine with my ex. She has the kids, her new girlfriend...No reason to be bitter. It's just how life panned out. Good Luck!