What is the best way to tell a guy you like that you're bi? where, when and how?
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I wouldn't wait until you're married but probably not first date conversation. Wait until YOU trust HIM with the inforamtion.
157945
when he shows you, and dos'nt just say it.\nwhen he truely knows who you are, and what you like, and dislike.\ndon't anylize it to much, if you have a guy thats good to you, just go with it.
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in other words..you like him. yall are best friends. your scared if you tell him he wont be friends anymore...\n\nThe only way you'll ever know what he'll say is too tell him...or have a friend tell if you don't feel confident enough. But guys admire you more if you tell them to their face. The best thing that will happen is you will hook up. The worst is you will lose a friend. Your call...
157116
Tell him you are straight.
868356
Just tell him you like him.  Being honest is the best thing and will get you far.
462168
Gay guys like bi guys because they are easy and there is little commitment.  Bi gays usually are easier to work with because they are more discreet.  Bi guys usually don't want everyone to know their business--and that is okay for a lot of gay guys.  Gays guys think straight men are hot, and a lot of bi guys act more straight.
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If he is truly Bi and he likes to have a girl and a guy, then you might get somewhere.\n\nWhen women do the "how do I turn him straght" bit though I find it hard not to chuckle. Turning a gay man straight makes as much sense as trying to make blue paint red. It really isn't going to happen :)\n\nEnjoy the challenge, but you might want a backup plan - apart from anything else, if he IS bi and you get him, don't be too gutted as and when he wants to flip back to the "home team" :)\n\nBi guys are great, but not *usually* the best choice for a straight long term 1-2-1 relationship.
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Just tell the truth? Ask yourself what is it about that person that attracts you to him/her.\n\nI've been asked such question before and when I know the reason, I say the truth. And when I really don't know, I say "I like you because of who you are. For the person that you are."
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Vice Versa.\nGirls if u like a guy let him know, guys if you like a girl let her know.\nThey would not know until you tell them.
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He would say, "thanks, that is very nice, but I am gay....what are we supposed to do about that? " It is very easy to develope feelings for Gay men, they are open, funny, and easy to approach. Keep your feelings in check, for you know from the start that nothing can come of it other than friendship..which is nice, but not a romantic relationship, if that is what you are looking for. Gay men cannot suddenly become straight, anymore than a straight man can become gay. Leave it at that. Good luck
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He tells you he is guy or gay.. whatever he meant... what are you supposed to say? \n\n"I'm gay"... "well good for you!"\n\nIf he just says he's gay... ask him if he has a question about it, or ask him why he's telling you out of nowhere.
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tell him, its always good to tell someone when you like them
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tell the truth, just not in a harsh way.\n\nsay one of these if you feel like on of these\n\n1)you already have a boyfreind but if you didn't you would say yes\n\n2)he is really nice/cute/smart (whatever) but i just dont feel that "spark"\n\nalso tell him that you are flattered, that helped when i got rejected.
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You should just tell him.  I know it sounds simple, but it's the easiest and the best way.
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Well, to begin with you have to ascertain that he is in fact gay or bi. We got a couple of ways to go: just ask him would be my best advice. Second to that...does he date anyone? Does he have friends that he regularly hangs out with that you could ask?\nIf he is gay/bi...just tell him how you feel. It is my opinion that nothing bad can happen when you tell someone how you feel. Could he reject you? Absolutely. But you haven't lost anything if he does...you're not dating him now. You will have the benefit of knowing that you tried and knowing exactly where he stands, even if its not beside you.\nAs for your girlfriend, women know that you can change your mind (It is out pergotaive :) ). Your friend probably will rib you a little and then help you implement your game plan. \nHope this helps and good luck to you!
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You have the thought of being bi? Umm you are bi if you like both sexes! You have to be honest and up front with your girl! Just tell her your feelings. She might understand. But if you truly love her then you wouldn't do anything to hurt her.
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If it were me I would tell them to mind their own business...in fact I have told them that before. Just be you. If they ask then tell them and do it with out shame or guilt. If you are bi then be the best bi you can be.