My so called friend invited the guy that I like to her house and didn't tell me. They was under the covers.
449791
Sounds like they are both playing you.  She is NOT a friend if she could do this to you.  Even if she doesn't have a lot going for her, it's just an unwritten rule that you don't go after people that you know your friend likes!
86275
ouch. sorry but it sound slike you have been lied to and played. that boy is having his cake and eating it too. he is screwing both of you over and probably making up different stories to tell both of you. you should find a way to call her and ask her. but i would definitely confront him, but he will probably tell you more lies. it sure sounds like he is with both of you, why else would he have made something up to tell her instead of just telling her it was over? and why does he spend time with her and go places with her and call her??? that is just crap!
391525
I would ask why I was not invited
637286
you really should not abbreviate as much as you do. I had to read one of your other questions to find out what "b-friend" was. Never invite a female to stay with you. No matter who she is////
637727
You should totally just stop by when you know shes home but ur friend isn't and offer to help her out with something or just start up a conversation. complement her a lot on her looks and other things. You might even try to flirt with her if you don't mind never seeing your friend again if she really doesnt want you and tells your friend what happened
539073
thats messed up. do your friend know? Dont get involved cause she might say that you tried to mess with her
1018726
1st, u shld have told your frenz who the guy was ..what they did was wrong but on the other side it was bcoz of your arogance..frenz share intimate feelings and decided not to .what they did was what they thot was the best for u since u did not want to open to them..well we cannot cry foul over spilled water .whats left for u to do is if like the guy then go for him and if your dont POLITELY tell him how it all happened..he will understand .but for your frendships sake go out with the guy .u loose nothing in the end.............
448393
The guy is probably no longer interested, but is too embarrassed to admit that in front of your friend.  I think, however, that he owes her an explanation -- just so there's some closure to this.
677526
it is kind of embarrassing for a girl to visit a guy.He suppose to go to your house and have a good time not you.
690279
Have a mutual friend ask him about it without letting him know you were behind it. You don't want to scare him away if he's a good friend.
830812
Well, you kind of confirmed his suspicion that you wouldn't take it well with your sarcastic email, didn't you?  Perhaps they found out that they both really wanted to go to the same place, it was cheaper to go together and since 1.you'd been split up for over 6 months and 2. he wasn't your best friend anyway, there really was nothing morally wrong in what they were doing.  You could look at it as a compliment that they thought enough of your feelings not to want to hurt you and that's why they didn't tell you.  Yes, it would have been a courtesy to let you know, but really, you don't have any right to interfere in the lives of two people you don't have close relationships with.
795188
That's completely dumb on her part.  Maybe you should have told her, but the fact of the matter is you didn't act out on it.  You actually told the friend that you didn't like her like that.  Hopefully your girlfriend will come to her senses.  Guys get hit on all the time, you can't freak when some other girl hits on your man.  It's bound to happen, if she can't trust you because of that then she has issues.  That's small stuff, believe me.
1037345
It may be that they forgot to invite you....every one make mistake...but if its not a mistake then remember that somewhere-someone is always waiting for you. i hope you will understand this and move forward in your life.
1004590
if it is a friend with benefits then it really is not neccesary to go into any detail.  he would just as well be truthful if it is a mutual agreement that it is ok.  you sound like you have more feelings than what you thought you had?
923522
OK, lets look at your question...  "while I was housesitting this week I accidentally ran across undeniable evidence that he has a boyfriend".\n\nNo, you did not "accidentally" run across "evidence", you were being nosy. To justify you being nosy you then turn around and say "he's been LYING to me over and over for months and months". If you feel so hurt and angry, how do you think he will feel when he finds out about what you have done while housesitting? Yes, you should confront him...  about you being judgmental and not being the true friend that you have pretended to be to him.
878453
Tell him in the kindest way you can if you are a true friend you will stand by him and help him understand she is a cheat why was he baby sitting while she was out partying anyway?He sounds a nice guy don't let him be deceived by her.
790287
Sounds like you were really excited to have him come to your party.  Too excited.  Too much pressure.  It sounds like he took your number to placate you.\n\nLet it go.