How often do you bring home a guy/a girl you met in a club/bar?
444905
F#CK THEM ON THE BAR THEREFORE YOU DO NOT HAVE TO TAKE THEM ANYWHERE.
575612
I know where ur coming from, cause i was in a 5 yr. relationship and i lost all my friends and when i ended things with my b/f i had no friends left.  I had a couple of girlfriends from work, they begged me to go to a bar with them 1 nite and i did.  u'll be surprised how many people u'll meet at a bar, resturant, or club.  a lot of my friends now (which i've had for over a yr.) i met at those places.  so put urself out there.  get dressed up all sexy 1 nite and find 1 girlfriend that will go with u and hit the clubs!
638703
I was 20 and i met this navy guy at a bar. actually he was totally checking me out at the entrance and i got so mad because i hate when someone is checking me out. So, i went inside the bar and i saw him and i was like: you'll pay me back! so he was dancing by himself and I went to say hi and asked if he wanted to dance with me. after a while I could sense he was a nice guy. we made out and I asked him if he wanted to have sex with me and he said yes. we got a hotel room and he was sooooooooooooo sweet that it made me feel like we were meant to be together. after that i had to take a taxi home and he wanted to make sure that i was going to get home safe that he decided to go with me!!! I live in Tijuana Mexico and he was from San diego. after we got home he asked for my phone # but I never thought he was going to call back. and the next night he called!!!! saying he wanted to see me because he was missing me like crazy! I met him again 2 days later and he asked me if i wanted to be his gf. OMG that was the sweetest thing ever!! so, after that he would cross the border every single day to be with me. right after get off work he was on his way to see me. He used to get to my work around 230 and he would be there with me until it was time to go. he met my family (the whole family) a week after and i was so nervous because one of my brothers is soooooooo jealous but they became buddies!\nNOW THE BAD PART: he told me he had an accident and that he had to take medication for back pain. In Tijuana there's lots of pharmacies that will sell medicine without prescription and every 3rd day he spent more than a 100 dlls on medicine. amyways, he was so sweet and we were madly in love. he was separated and getting ready to get divorced and i was so happy because he wanted to marry me. Once i went to his base and I saw he had room for nothing, no privacy or anything and i asked him to move in with me since we had two bedrooms that we were not using. everything was so great and so perfect and i was so in love. gosh! thinking about it makes me want to cry! well, one day, crossing the border, the customs agents found the "medicine" he used to buy in Tijuana and he got in trouble for that. the navy opened a case for him and he got discharged from the navy and had to go for rehab in Maryland and have a surgery for his back. he told me that after that he had no future, no money and that he couldnt even get a job because noone was going to hire him after being discharched from the navy. after he got caught at the border i never saw him again. he left me and he said it was for the best, that he was a loser and that he didnt really love me, that he said he was in love with me because of the drugs side-effect. I had lost my dad 5 months before that and when i thought i could be happy again this horrible thing happened. it has been 6 years and i still wonder if he thinks of me, if he loved me at all... for me it was the best bf I ever had and still is. I've been with my current bf for over 4 years but sometimes I wish my bf could be as sweet and romantic as my bf back then was...
1169755
well when I was engaged to my fiance I went out every saturday and usually did not come back home till like maybe 5 or 6 in the morning.  I went out with my cousin and some of her friends and we went out to the same spot every weekend.  My Fiance did not mind.  I mean its jut like him going to hang with the boys.  They might not go to a club but they are hanging out and sometimes might go to a bar for a drink or something so I dont see anything wrong with it at all.  And no I would not be upset
726869
I'd give the guy extra points if he dared to come up to me in a group. What most guys think is a girls night out isn't true most women do go out cos they want to meet guys. It'll show your bravery and most women appreciate that. Go over and introduce yourself to all then start a conversation with the one you're attracted to...pick up lines I'd prefer something unplayer-like...a basic introduction, 'Hi I'm so and so, have I seen you here before?' That way you are playing it safe, she can't kick your ass for it.
789456
no, i have done that many times at clubs and bars, if u do it everywhere then it mite be considered easy\n\nalso if guys can without being considered easy  then why cant girls?
697971
As long as any girl takes the extra time and doesn't make anyone wait on them, I see nothing wrong with doing all the above. Some of us don't have to get drunk to have a good time. Some of us can come home with the same glow that we left home with. I find that to be very sensual for the guy.
207395
Once a day, I think is fine.  To say hi, love you, hope your're doing well.  That lets her know you remember her.  And to start working out whatever your differences are.
601138
I was in the same situation not long ago.  I went out with friends or sometimes by myself to the local Lounge to listen to the band.  Men will usually buy you drinks and ask you to dance.  Don't try and look for someone, just go out to have fun.  Love will find you
979656
Sounds like you're maturing!  They say men mature around the age of 25....... I think it is possible to find someone for a meaningful relationship in a nightclub....but you should find someone that you are interested in talking to instead of just taking home for a quickie!
874913
Yes, if the guy is attractive and sexy enough. I probably see a guy about once a month or so that makes me feel this way (don't know how often guys feel this way about women - is it like every day or something???)
1180553
hey man just wait until her cocktails kick in...then you'll know her intentions. just hang out with her, if she wants you...she'll let you know, for sure man.
40913
Depends if they're your girlfriends or if you're just meeting up with four of your girl mates for an evening.
381996
depending on what city you live in, you dont have to meet females in the club/bar, etc. you can meet people in the mall, at the library starbucks, anywhere.  work on your people skills, you'll be o'k.
640058
NOT in a bar, any more than heterosexuals looking for LTRs. You aren't that different from the rest of us. Bars are for one-night stands.\n\nTry one of the three churches that won't stone you to death for being "possesed by the devil" - MCC, Congregationalsist, Unitarian-Universalists.\n\nWork on a gay rights political committee.\n\nWork for a straight politician with the balls to admit you guys are human and stand up against the right-wing crazies.\n\nTake it slow, obviously. It's harder for you than for the straights; all anyone in a gym, sierra club hike, book group or night class who asks a lady for lunch risks is a turn-down. You can spoil a casual friendship fast by asking someone out if they don't play in your league.
520866
Not too soon.  I would say at least a month or two.  That way, you get her out of your system. Go out and see other people.
57364
According to public perception yes. In my personal experience not every day. Not unless it's a new relationship.