How come it seems that some white guys find it difficult to approach a black women.?
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Some men are insecure about being approached by ANY women. Also, many men are afraid to approach WOMEN.  The prettier the more difficult to approach a girl -- because they're afraid of being turned down.  \n\nI'd continue to do what you're doing--work the odds.  Just because you get turned down sometimes, doesn't mean you will always get turned down.  Just make it clear you're interested -- stay approachable.  Guys are so weak about being turned down.  And they play the double standard by acting like women are too agressive if they do the approaching.  Not all though.  So you've got to play the odds.  Trust me, it will all work out.  Just hang in there.
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I don't see the big deal.  If white women are dating all the black men, why can't black women date white men, Mexicans, etc?  Plus I feel like a lot of the black women who are upset by seeing a white woman with a black man have issues with themselves.  Seriously, there are pleny of black men.  If you can't find one re-evaluate yourself.
833494
I don't think they have an option, similar to when white chicks sleep with black guys they are just not good enough to get with a white dude so they have to settle.
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Ok, upfront, I'm white.  I have a couple black lesbian friends and aquaintences, so I'm filtering what I say through those experiances.\n\nSome black lesbians only want other black lesbians.  Some only want other black lesbians but will settle for white lesbians because of a lack of black lesbians in the area.  Some don't care.  Some like white lesbians.\n\nHowever, it has been my experiance that black lesbians can be kinda insular, in that they tend to be very tight with other black lesbians, and somewhat distrustful of white people who seem pushy.  You have to remember that black lesbians have three strikes against them: 1) black 2) female 3) lesbian.  That can make them kinda irritated with white people who don't have to go through a lot of the same shit they do.  They see white people all the time, so they're not going to go running you down to be friends with a white woman.  And they're going to be somewhat sensitive to a person who only wants to be friends with them because they are weird and other-y, especially if that person is white.  I'm thinking that the phrase "I've always wantedt o have one of you as a friend" is not going to get you anything but gaping scorn.  It makes it sound like black gay women are objects, like "I've always wanted one of those statues" or "I've always wanted one of those dogs".  It's.... weird.\n\nDo I think that you can be friends with some black lesbian or bisexual women?  Sure.  Just don't be pushy or weird about it, and if they're not interested, respect that.
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Some men are intimidated by a female who is very intelligent and/or beautiful.  They don't think they will add up.  Try not revealing everything about yourself all at once.  I know your proud of your degrees, but let these men know slowly about all of this.
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Some do, but it is mostly black men wanting white women. The reason vary. It is a conquest for some. For others it is pay back for societies mis-treatment of the black man by sticking it to the white man and for othes it is just to show off their white ware.Some believe in the mongolization of the races. In a thousand years we will all be the same tint, if the world suvives that long.
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They are harder to get as well as very picky. So men tend to stay away from them.
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I treat women in a relationship like how I would like to be treated... Unfortunately the black women I've dated couldn't do the same in return. An as far as dating outside my race the results aren't any better.
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Funny - this is one of those stereotypes that never seem to offend black guys.  You'll never get called a racist for asking this question, I can tell you that.\n\nOn average, a brutha may have a little advantage on guys from other races, but what we need to talk about here are the EXTREME cases.\n\nFrom what I've observed, and I've seen quite a few dix in my days, every now and then you'll come across a black dude with a big long one - one that seems to defy the laws of nature.  \n\nI was at a nude beach once and this black guy walked by.  I'm telling you, he was huge.  All the gay guys got up and applauded.\n\nBut another time I say a 17 year old white boy that put that brother to shame.\n\nSo who really knows... or cares?  The girls I've  been with have consistently told me mine's huge (but I know there's bigger out there).  One told me mine was really thick but she's seen longer.  That's cool too.  in fact, if I had a real tiny one, i might even get off if a girl said, "oh... isn't that cute?  cootchie cootchie coo"\n\n\nBut that's just me - I try to make the most of what I've got.
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I asked a similar question a couple months ago, because my wife is somewhat butch and constantly gets approached by men.  It does seem to happen a lot!  I think it's a combination of challenge, the woman being naturally attractive, men wanting a woman they can relate to as a friend, and men just having more interesting and varied tastes than they're told to have by the media.\n\nHere's my question and its answers:\n\nhttp://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AlHNZxGSruq3IcPhOzlBSrzsy6IX?qid=20061011084416AAZGDNJ
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I'm a white male that is currently in a long term relationship with a beautiful black female...I've dated both white and black and just prefer a black woman...Just some of the black woman I've seen or dated were naturally beautiful...they dont need to spend 3 hours globbing makeup on to look good. Also in my experiance a black woman knows how to treat there man better than white women. That brings up another point..I have NO idea why black men flock to white women..For all you WHITE guys take advantage of that..its the best feeling in the world to have someone that cares about you and treats you like a king..JUST MY 2 Cents ;)
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They're not all like that. There are some great guys out there, just hard to find 'em. As for the ones that are, I'm still yet to find out why hurting us women seems to come so naturally to them. You've probably just experienced the ones that think and feel with their dicks.
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first of all most black guys treat women(white or not) better then most white guys. if white guys would grow up and stop acting all stupid then white guys might get more white chicks. also size is not always true cuz i have been with a couple of black guys and not all of them have been all that big so that's not everything. its mostly about how a guys treats a girl.
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It's a cultural thing still with a lot of people. I'm caucasian (White) and I've dated African-American women and I know that a lot of AA women are uncomfortable with dating someone of a caucasian part of the race. AA men dating caucasian women is a male "look at me, I'm dating a white girl, are'nt I a stud" kind of thing. It will take another generation before "black" and "white" are truly comfortable with one another. The sad part is that we are are all genetically the same, skin color is meaningless. Slavery did not help relations between human beings at all. But the genetic history of the human race is that we ALL came from Africa and that the caucasian skin color was a fairly recent  (about 3000 years ago) in the scale of human history.
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That's a wonderful question. My cousin acts foolish when she sees a hott black guy with a white girl. The girl can be asian, latin, or whatever and if she's not black then Tameka is like "nah that girl is white." She doesn't even stop to think that I'm a bit offended b/c I'm half white. But back to answering your question. She has explained to me that all the good black guys are with white girls and she's left with the drug dealers, ex cons, scrubs w/ baby momma drama, and broke down living with they mom guys b/c the rest of the black guys were either gay or in jail. That's her take. I see her point, but I got a man so I ain't trippin off nobody else's happiness. If you happy do what you want. The problem is these angry black women are looking in the wrong place for black men and they're looking for the wrong traits. Don't worry bout the size of the wallet, think character. Leave the ghetto and look for a man with education, go to the library, even better go to college.
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Cause black women dont have time for men sneaking around behind their backs or games and most men are afraid to have a realationship like that, cause they know they wont win
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I can agree with that to a certain extent, HOWEVER, its not just the black guys.  The white jobks are like that also.  Especially in College, MAJORITY of jocks don't go to class, and the ones who do have a hard time understanding.  Maybe its because they spend most of their time playing sports that they don't think that its really that important.