How can i last longer during sex and give my girlfriend an orgasm?
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WHAT THE HELL? YOU DO NT EVEN GIVE HER AN ORGASM!! BOY YOU NEED TO MAKE HER ORGASM SO MANY TIMES TILL SHE SAYS TO STOP (AND THEN!!!!) GO A LITTLE MORE. AT THAT POINT YOU CAN DO ANYTHING YOU WANT. EVEN CHEAT BECAUSE IF YOUR GOOD IN BED SHE AIN'T EVER GONNA LEAVE. BECAUSE YOU WILL BE THE MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
575978
try masterbating.   or have her hand do you.  or between her breast.  or better yet you should masterbate.  dude 5 times a day is bad for a girl when she doesnt want to. it hurts.  if she wants it then cool...and you should work on making her want you more.... by the way have you ever thought of waiting for a great big orgasm rather than small ones several times a day??...... get creative
100602
try showing your partner how to touch you, how you like! Sharing how to turn each other on even more makes the experience better AND the orgasms more regular!
83215
stop-n-start\nJust before you'e about to ejaculate, stop yourself & relax for a few seconds before starting again.\nIf you're having sex, keep changing positions! Makes it exciting & you'll last longer as well!
515832
You really don't need medicine! Just learn to control your pace. You can practice with masturbation. You just go until you are close to cumming...but stop short and take a break until that feeling subsides...and then continue again. You can really learn to go as long as you want...and oh that ejaculation will feel good when it finally happens (which is whenever you and/or your partner want it to!). Of course when you are f---ing, you need your partner's co-operation in stopping the friction (her moving too!) when you tell her you are getting close. It takes some practice but it works! As a short term solution I would suggest jacking off a couple of hours before you have sex with your partner. The second ejaculation should definitely take longer.
788978
whack off before your date.... then you'll last longer.\n\nwear a condom...
1129925
Take it slow, soft, and gentle, you will have to stay on or around that special spot for quite some time. Also it helps if you go just a tiny bit off center because that spot sometimes gets too tender and it will make her jerk and move away. Ask her to guide you by the movement of her hips or her hands. Some women get very embarrassed having oral sex performed on them and can't let go and end up just giving up. It all takes, time, patients and understanding. Also it helps to be in a very dark room if she is insecure and or embarrassed. Hope I could be of help! Oh, one more hint: A lot of women will be right there, but then the person changes to another spot and the woman losses it ! You can do a lot of other things down there, in the beginning, but when it is time to bring her to orgasm, you must STAY on one spot till the job is done! Good Luck!        P.S. I was in the middle of typing you this answer, when you asked the next question, I am a slow typer!
221139
Let her ride on top of you, but put some hand lotion all over your lap first so she slides around really easily.  The absence of friction will let her move freely and with small effort on her part, and the pleasure will be much more intense, which will enable easier and faster orgasms, and that is intimate!
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1. Take it slow\n2. Switch positions occasionally to avoid becoming overstimulated\n3. Find positions that stimulate you less & her more\n4. Use some climax control cream\n5. Try grinding motions instead of thrusting motions\n6. Push into her & play with her clitoris while remaining deep inside her
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i'm a guy, and damn i wish i could hold my orgasm back longer than i do... it's not something i can help... i try to think of other things like drums, baseball, etc but still i'm "10 second Tighe" to my wife's dismay, i usually do some vibrator work on her (or watch her do it while i service her chest, neck, ears, etc..) before we get going so i at least last longer than getting undressed. i also usually have my wife on top so it lasts longer and she can orgasm, she doesn't pump up and down, just kinda moving her \nhips back and forth this way there isn't much jerking motion on my "friend" yet she's rubbing her spot back and forth... \n\nanyway, yes, your argument is small... neither one of you needs to "change"... a leopard can't change it's spots, you need to not sweat the small stuff cause it's just small stuff. \nnever say any sex is a waste of time, just suggest different ways of doing it, some days are better for me (ok, most) and some days are better for my wife.\n\ngive and take, push and pull, laugh and cry, argue and make-up.\nthat's a relationship.
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I am not a man, so the best thing I can tell you is this.  If you want to go longer without using some gadget to help you.  When you feel that orgasim coming on, pull out better yet make love for just a little bit then stop.  Notice her breast and neck?  pay close attention to it. Kiss her neck and suck on her breast. Do this over and over until she tells you that she is ready for you to come back inside. When both of you are in the heat of the moment, more than likely you will both come at the same time and pleasure will be for you both.
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Begin a good lover starts WAAAY before you get in bed.  Stimulate her mentally - talk to her, listen to her... engage her brain before you try to engage her body parts.  Spend time warming up the engine... try to find errogenous zones other than the three basics that men seem to gravitate towards.  TALK to her about what SHE likes in bed... getting her to open up to you about that stuff will require you to build up some trust.  She isn't just going to "blab" that info to just anyone.  THEN, when you FINALLY have her between the sheets, don't rush!!!  Listen to her.  Did you know that the majority of women do NOT have vaginal orgasms?  This means you are going to have to stimulate her in an additional manner besides good ol' fashioned intercourse.  Make HER satisfaction your goal.  You KNOW you are gonna get YOURS at the end of the deal...make sure she is pleased before you are done.  And if you should finish first, you aren't done... make sure she gets hers too!!  And don't forget this most important thing... practice makes perfect.  A great lover is one who sticks around for more than a one-night-stand...and keeps coming back for more and more practice!!!
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I guess that your request is connected with your partner satisfaction.\nIn fact, the most part of women need longer times for reaching orgasm than men.\nYou know that the average time is within 15-30 min., but it gets no sense if our partner needs a different time. Therefore, we must compare our time (short or long) with our partner’s one!\nAbout your question, excluding functional diseases, you know that during the sexual act our mind has a relevant duty. Thus, we have to fight against it mainly.\nSome therapist or psychologist put some different methods to follow, and about them, you should buy some specific book.\nI only can give you some advices now.\nTry to begin the full act (penetration) as late as possible using in the meanwhile other methods (FOREPLAY) to excite your partner. While “acting” try to think about different stuffs, just to distract your mind. Somebody stops the act a bit before the apex, just to avoid the forthcoming ejaculation or stopping many times the penetration during the act (continuing to excite the partner anyway).\nThen, if we are able to have two acts consecutively, the most will already be done!
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Some women have a hard time reaching climax. Once you figure out the most effective way to bring her to climax she'll want it all the time. She might not know what she's missing. Some women go their whole lives without having an orgasm. Try watching lesbian porn to see how they give each other oral sex, then try it on your girl friend.
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the best orgasm ever was from anal sex.  you should do it int he spooning position with a lot of lube and make sure that you go in very slowly.  an inch at a time  good luck she should be fine  but make sure that you clean your self right after to prevent infection as well as do not enter her vagina until you are clean
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Try a cock ring or masturbate about eight hours before sex.\n Failing that, go for it, ejaculate give it a couple of hours and go again you'll last way longer second time round. Make a virtue out of your problem.
328212
Try pleasuring yourself 10-20 minutes before sex...also there are her pleasure condoms that have some sort of topical anesthetic that numb the wang...or be really really drunk to the point where you cant ejaculate.