Would your feelings be hurt if people kept telling you that you can't drive good?
435776
A little bit but not much. If it's true then find a way to improve. always turn the negative into a positive. Show them\nyou can do better. Police do give tivkets for bad driving. \nIt's best to work on it. Don't get so upset. I have people \ntell me how something I made or did wasn't right. So I just\ndid it better. Then they shut up about it.
1019829
Yes I have done that. One time I was so discouraged with how things were in my life that I truly thought I would get in the car and just drive for hours and hours. I thought if I could make it to the mountains some where, I would be able to just go around and curve and not make the curve. Thankfully, I never did it and realized that tomorrow is another day!\n\nThe point of life is to enjoy it. You need to live it to the fullest. I am sure the people you speak of yelling are probably your parents. One day, you will be grown and gone and making your own decisions, you just have to bear with parents. We learn on you all and sometimes we make mistakes. \n\nIf you are an adult and people are screaming around you, I think you might want to rethink whatever situation placed you where people yell all the time. Do you really need to be in that situation?\n\nGood luck and let me tell you, don't drive off the road. Tomorrow is a new day and you might have a life changing experience and if you drive off the road, you'll miss it.
988829
Sometimes people are just plain rude and think the world owes them something.  I guess depending on the way I felt is the way I might have acted towards that man.  I would have to say that the lady who gave up her seat might have had to sit in a middle seat but she probably had a better flight then you because she was away from him.
491934
What you are experiencing is verbal abuse, and you need to get out of this situation immediately. To answer your question, yes, it really hurts when people accuse you of something you're not guilty of......but they can ONLY do it , if you allow it to continue.....you sound like a nice person, your self-esteem is a little low(understandable), and you need to get out of the situation you're in, DO NOT continue to let him abuse you! Good Luck!!
697512
Some people do get carried away & try & convert you but if they haven't got the gift to do it they shouldn't do it because they will turn people off \nif they had the gift of doing it you wouldn't get upset because it would be done in a way that was not upsetting.\nBut their hearts are in the right place \nthey think they are helping you to have a better life etc so really \nhow can that hurt knowing they care about you even if they are wrong in your opinion
839363
People are drawn to or thrive on negativity. Think about the headlines in newspapers. When was the last time you saw a "good feeling" story in the headlines.It is always about and accident,hurricane,scandal in politics or in the church,murder or other types of mayhem. \n  We don't stare at good drivers on the road either,we always take a moment to look at bad drivers,or accidents on the road possibly causing other types of accidents to someone else. \n  It is human nature. \n  If tomorrow's headline reads,"Good Samaritan works in soup kitchen and feed many"..,then I know that I am wrong.
1035042
Sorry that people can be jerks. You should not give a crap what anyone thinks. Listen to what you like. I listen to whatever I feel like. When I am mad I listen to metal, when I am sad I listen to country, when I am happy I listen to everything under the sun.  When I am stuck in traffic I turn on Bluegrass music really freaking loud to piss of the people in the car next to me. It is great.
86429
cool down - getting upset isn't good for you.  Plus, if you know it's crap, why let it upset you?  Show that you are superior and let them know "hey, what you are saying just isn't making any sense!"
123488
I can answer that with another question.  When you feel bad because of the way someone treats you, does that make you want to be just as bad as they are?\n\nWhy would you?  There is great honor in being better than those around you.
254759
i hear u 100%-- its like if u cant tell the truth be on ur way- u want the real deal, its like it makes them feel good inside hurting others which means they got issues and someone needs 2 get them in check. i been lied 2 so many times and it suxs. for people who do that i think need 2 grew up and take a look at everything.
713528
Honestly; given the circumstances I don't think you being unable to drive should be an issue for *most* women. Unfortunately you are correct; there are shallow women out there who see a man's ability to drive as a status symbol. You don't want to date any of these women anyway. \n\nFor any woman who truly cares about you for you, it won't be an issue. For any woman who is bothered by this, they aren't worth your time anyway.\n\nGood luck!
629340
No. Considering their feelings will change your question, and then you won't get the answer you may need.  Never censor yourself just to mollify the feelings of others.
429693
Feel good, and I would if you were in the car with me.  <wink><wink>  \n\nI hope that I didn't offend anyone with my answer, and if I did, it was not intentional and was only my opinion. Your mileage may very. \n\nHugs ~:)
794495
It is important for ANYONE to report someone to the police or to the DMV who is a danger to themselves and/or others when on the road.\n\nMy father's eyesight, as he got older, got to be absolutely awful.  Once, when I was in the car with him, he almost "merged" into a red car.  I asked - no TOLD - him to pull over and hand me the keys.  My kids were in the car with us.  He got pretty mad at me.  I told him when we got home that I would NEVER get into the car with him driving again...and that he should never drive again.  Told my mother that, too.  He drove for a while longer after that until he had an accident in which he was completely at fault...and was pretty badly injured.  His license was taken from him.\n\nHad someone listened to me at the time, this wouldn't have happened.\n\nWhen my mother had a series of small strokes (TIAs), her doctor requested that she not drive for a period of time so that her doctor could evaluate her condition.  She continued to drive.  Her doctor and I talked about it and decided that she was a danger to others.  We decided that the DMV needed to be notified if she continued to drive.  I let her know that this would happen if she continued to do so - hardest thing I've ever done - boy, was she mad at me!  She stopped driving.  Stopped talking to me for a while, too.  In the long run, though, it was a good decision because she kept having the small strokes, which would have meant she would have continued to be a danger to herself and others on the road.\n\nSo, yes, I, personally, think that everyone has that responsibility.
527475
Wow - this is the "Hey Jude" of questions - it never end, and it may be the longest question I've ever answered. Anyway, one of my pet peeves ia when people or businesses misuse quotation marks (For instance, in a restaurant - Try "Our" Famous Clam Chowder, or "Try" Our Famous Clam chowder, or even Try Our Famous "Clam" Chowder.\n  Secondly, of course is BAD DRIVERS!!  Drivers who don't signal, go under the limit, or who pull out in front of you at the last minute.\n  In an unrelated area, though, I would like to comment upon your apparent negative feelings toward women.  It sounds as though you have been hurt and are carrying some anger about that.  I would address those issues or your anger can make you a very unhappy person.  Good luck!
1069313
Yes. You need to learn. You can. Everyone else can. I've seen some really bad drivers too.
348331
They still feel the pain so they have to blame someone even though they didnt always do it. Sad but true even though you didnt do anything too her she might hurt you just to make herself happy.