how can I quit mastrbation, and does it affect sex after marriage ?
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Research's been done, too much masturbation causes you to lose interest in sex. That's overexcessive i mean, probably like 5 times daily ??
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give up sex/mast**bation until inflamation subsides.  Also give up caffine.  Drink lots of water to keep it flushed.  After acute pain subsides don't climax more than once a day for several months and you may get back to normal.  I found Dr.'s to be zero help in understanding this problem.
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No, there's no way to stop it, I'm afraid, other than to stop enjoying sex or stop getting aroused. \n\nHe should be more understanding. Would he prefer you to be as dry as sand?
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Any time you have lust that is accumulated to such a degree I'd say it is natural to masturbate.  If you really have it bad, not only 4 days out of a week but a couple of times a day.  You probably became so frustrated (blue balls) that you could not expect to continue the long courtship, which is probably culturally necessitated.  You tried, but obvisously couldn't hang.  Is it possible to speak to her and suggest that at least once a month you meet at a motel and exchange physical liaison away from parents, since you plan to marry or is that totally out of the question?  Don't blame you for masturbating pal, but if she is unavailable, I'd try to satisfy craving away from parents.
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It may sound hard to believe, but when I was 14 I realized how bad (morally and psychologically) masturbation was for me and I decided I wanted to quit. It wasn't easy, and it took a lot of sacrifice and dedication, but I quit. When you masturbate, you trade one bad thing for another. You will receive sexual pleasure true, but right after you masturbate comes a feeling of intense loneliness that it hard to describe. It hurt my relationship with God, and although it sounds weird I would advice you not to get started masturbating. It is very easy to become addicted, and once you do you start wanting more. You want to ACTUALLY have sex with another person, not just masturbate. You'll be back at square 1, wanting a sexual fufillment you can't have. And you do choose to have sex, you will inevitably find yourself comparing your partner to the one you have in your masturbation fantasies. When you masturbate YOU ARE HAVING SEX WITH AN IMAGINARY PERSON. If you can resist the temptation to masturbate now, you will become a stronger person and having a more fufilling relationship with your future spouse.
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Masturbation - \n\nIt is not a sin. it is one way of enjoying sex by oneself with out going to any other person of the opposite gender.  God will not mind if you Masturbate as he is now aware of what is masturbation and your will be doing it in the bathroom or in a separate room with doors closed. \n\nIt will not hurt anyone as you are not going to  beat anyone with your action. Secondly you are not going to do it in front of others. So why worry. i find your worry is baseless and there is nothing harm to do it.  \n\nNow you should know something about Mastubation. What is it?Masturbation is the manual excitation of the sexual organs, usually to the point of orgasm. It can refer to excitation either by oneself or by another (see mutual masturbation). It is part of a larger set of activities known as autoeroticism which also includes the use of sex toys and non-genital stimulation. There are also masturbation machines used to simulate intercourse. Masturbation and sexual intercourse are the two most common sexual practices, but they are not mutually exclusive (for example, many people find the sight of their partner masturbating highly erotic). Some people are able to achieve orgasm only through masturbation and not sexual intercourse.\n\n[edit] Benefits\nIt is held in many mental health circles that masturbation can relieve depression and lead to a higher sense of self-worth (Hurlbert & Whittaker, 1991). Masturbation can also be particularly useful in relationships where one partner wants more sex than the other — in which case masturbation provides a balancing effect and thus a more harmonious relationship.\n\nOn July 16, 2003, an Australian research team led by Graham Giles of The Cancer Council published a medical study [2] which concluded that frequent masturbation by males may help prevent the development of prostate cancer. The study also indicated that this would be more helpful than ejaculation through sexual intercourse because intercourse can transmit diseases that may increase the risk of cancer instead.\n\nMasturbation is also seen as a sexual technique that protects individuals from the risk of contracting sexually transmitted diseases such as AIDS. Support for such a view, and for making it part of the American sex education curriculum led to the dismissal of US Surgeon General Joycelyn Elders during the Clinton administration.\n\nSome people actually consider masturbation as a cardiovascular workout. And while doctors have no proof of this actually being true, those suffering from cardiovascular disorders (particularly those recovering from myocardial infarction, or heart attacks) should resume physical activity (including sexual intercourse and masturbation) gradually and with the frequency and rigor in which their physical status will allow. Some doctors will advise those recovering from heart attacks to resume sexual activity (solitary or with a partner) when one is able to climb two flights of stairs without experiencing shortness of breath or chest pain-.
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There are several ways to control it. And if you don't control / stop it now you will loss your vigour, and you will loss your memory power, your nerve system will become weak, Finlay you will not be able to satisfy your wife. \nfirst the general ways. stop sleeping alone, stop seeing prone sights, pictures, if you are an alcoholism and masturbating it is still worst. \nthe things you see, and imagine are also main cause. i am sure you look at girls with lusty eyes. avoid. \nthen learn little mind control methods. contact me if you are near Chennai.\nThe only best way is to surrender to JESUS, ask HIM help you,\nwash your mind, soul, have a inner healing by the Precious Blood of JESUS.\nJESUS LOVES YOU.
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Try the drug Citalopram. It is a anti depressant used for mood disorders. It is also used for premature ejaculation unannounced to me. I was taking it because I am a bit off a hot head but, anyway. I had to get off of it because I do not have premature ejaculation problems and it was causing me not to ejaculate. I could have sex for an hour or two and still nothing it got to the point where I would have sex until I was exhausted or until my wife told me to get the hell of off her..lol with no success.. I just couldn't get off. It sounds like this medicine would be perfect for you your hyper sensitive so it would probably give you about 20-30 mins tops before you reached ejaculation. Ask your doc and give it a shot. I could have used this stuff a couple of times when I was single..lol Good Luck hope this helped
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I dont know what makes you feel that you should quit masturbation. the correct question would have been how can I decrease the frequency .\nI am sure you are having preformed assumptions about this natural process. have you ever seen a dog licking himself ? Or a bitch licking self? If yes tham you have your answer . They can not use there limbs so they use there tongue. but see the monkey or chimp they fiddle with their stuff . We have been blessed by learning this mechanism of reliving stress and anxiety than why do u wanna quit? Ok think about a day when you are alone at home and you start watching adult movie you eventually masturbate but would you still continue watching the movie? No !!!!! you will not so you can see the strength of this mechanism your sympathetic system immidieatley turn to parasympathetic,because erection and arousal are sympathetic while ejaculation and orgasm is parasympathetic so your brain shifts from one high plain to lower and your mind settels. If you will supress thi feeling you will not be able to concentrate. It is better to give urself 5 min and then work with peace all day.Think about it again . Its natural . All scientific studies say there is no harm except if you are trying to use a bottle or a hole somewhere where you can get stuck and fracture. Its natural 99% male masturbate 1% dont you know why? because the 1% are lying.Take the guilt away . Its the guilt that hurts not masturbation. feel natural . When females can do why cant you? Its AIDS free, You dont spend anything, Its handy, portable, anytime, \nFeel free enjoy!!!!!!!!!!!\nBut remember excess of every thing is bad!!!!!!!!!!!! even drinking lot of water or 100% oxygen can cause damage.
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There shouldnt be. In fact, it is better than having sex to get the orgasm you need if you are not yet married.I've heard that if man masturbates too much,its bad for their eyesights, possibly due to the too much flow of Vit.A from the sperm. But as for women, they dont release like the men. But try not to do it too often because anything done in excess is bad.
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Good question!\n\nThroughout my life, I have changed patterns of masturbation.. depending what was happening at the time.\n\nWhen I was in my teens, it was quite a large part of my life.. and would do it every day, or mostly every day.\n\nAs I became more involved with men, it stayed the same at the beginning..  and tended to become less frequent later.\n\nI've been with my husband for 11 years, and we are very sexually active, which takes care of most of my libido.. although there are times, probably once weekly where it just seems to be the right thing to do.  :)\n\nThere are also times where it just seems more urgent than others..  as I'm in my late 20s, my sex drive is very strong.. and I have times that are daily for a while.\n\nIt's an interesting topic that I haven't given much thought lately.  Thanks for posing the question.  :)
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Yes that certainly is a problem and unfortunately there is no solution. That is something you are just going to live with but masturbation has nothing to do with it. Good luck!
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After Marriage if you dont have sex it wont last, being innovative and active in the bedroom is a very good way to keep me around and happy. I want to make my lady happy in the same manner. Communications is the key, the best sex organ is the mind. Good Luck Happy Easter
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Yes, the excessive masturbation always affects adversely on sperm production. But you can replenish the sperm by eating oysters, meat, eggs, and drink a lot of milk.
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While I will not argue with you believing that premarital sex is not appropriate for you, I would definitely not include masturbation in that category. By not masturbating, you are not learning about your own sexual responses nor are you using the one sure-fire way to relieve sexual stresses that do not involve another person. In addition masturbation is considered to be very safe sex if one is concerned about STI's.\n\nAnother factor in masturbation is that prostate cancer risk is significantly reduced if one has frequent orgasms during their early adulthood and onward. By not masturbating, you are allowing all the seminal fluids to build up in yoru system rather than expelling them.. This can lead to problems later in life.\n\nSo, I strongly suggest you reevaluate your choice to deem masturbation as a form of premarital sex that should not be done. There is no prohibition in the bible against masturbation so if you happen to be a Christian, your religion does not preclude you releasing sexual tension in this manner. \n\nFurther, since your sexual tensions are driving you 'crazy' I might suggest that you either control your sexual urges (which for anyone under 90 years of age is almost impossible) or you take up masturbation. If you continue on your present course  you could easily wind up following a path that is far worse than enjoying a little self-pleasure.  I suppose the other option is to get married ASAP but unless you are ready for that and have a suitable partner lined up, that idea may not work.\n\nThe only other known ways to reduce sexual urges are:\na) removal of the testicles (which may not impress your future partner)\nor\nb) chemical castration - uses drugs to reduce or eliminate sexual urges - but as for any drug there can be nasty side effects. Plus I am not sure how easy those are to acquire unles syou happen to be a convicted sex offender in certain states.\n\nIn your situation, out of the available choices, I honestly would recommend refraining from sexual intercourse until marriage but take up masturbating. The removal of your testicles or taking drugs are not really healthy options.
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I started when i was 13 and am now 26. i have 3 kids and am married got a vasectomy and still masturbate all the time and im fine, so i dont think it will effect anything
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We both know what will happen if the two of you stop having sex.......most likely, he'll be gone. If that's what you want to do, then , by all means do it, but just be mentally prepared for the consequences. I applaud your decision myself! You seem very mature. Good Luck.