What should I do about my husband...?
451003
Firstly how long have you been married?\nSecondly has he acted like this before?\nIs your husband in a a lot of stress from work? Maybe he is venting on you - which is not fair on you! Does he have a problem with your friend that is coming? \nI cant seem to see any reason for this behaviour? Try dropping it for this weekend and do something else with your friend when they come. Maybe try to talk about it some other time - after a bit of time has passed - when he has calmed and you have gathered your thoughts as well. Point to note: he doesn't get violent on you does he?? Because that should not be tolerated AT ALL. Remember you are not a punch, physical or emotional. If this behaviour continues - he has no right to vent all his anger on you. That is not fair on you. \n\nIt is good that you want to work it out with your husband and I really hope that you do. Best of luck.
1107585
Just tell him. He's your husband..You should be able to know how to tell him in such manner where not to hurt his feelings.
612557
sweetie. you need to have a talk with him. don't continue to be unhappy. it's not healthy. ask him what are his plans as far as the marriage is concerned. hope things get better for you.
826608
Honesty is the BEST policy...\n\nTalk to him about what's bothering you...otherwise...what is he suppose to do? He can't read your mind. \n\nMy husband works his butt off too and comes home, showers, eats and sleeps...gets up the next day, goes to work, comes home, showers, eats and sleeps...and so on.\n\nI feel the same way you do at times, but we need to understand, (which we both do) that he is tired and drained.  This does NOT interpret that he does not love you or find you unattractive...he's just tired.\n\nTry scheduling something for you and him on his day(s) off something special to do...don't wait for him...just do it.\n\nPray for courage and uplifting...\nTry to get some sleep... :)
998473
Leave him. You can do better.
541280
I really think you guys need to sit down and talk.  Tell him EXACTLY how you feel.  trust me, not talking is worse. My husband and I never talked about our feelings, and if your on here a lot you know my situation. If not, after 20yrs. of marriage, I'm looking at DIVORCE.
87815
I believe you should try to talk to your husband upfront and explain your worries. Men think differently than women in most things and he might just not notice that he's actually hurting you with they way he's been acting.\nIf he really loves you he'll rectify the situation, or at least try to make compromises if the problem is that some situation has changed for him. He might even open up and explain what has been going on with him and why he's acting that way. Everything is possible!\nThe thing is... communication is the key. What's behind the door is a whole different topic.
960553
You should treat everyone with respect. \n\nYou may not be ready for marriage yet, but he may be.  Have you considered whether he might be the right husband for you?\n\nIf you decide he is, don't let him get away.
1116318
Try to talk it out... if that doesnt work then leave. Remember he has to make changes for himself not for you only!!!!!
720951
Makes me wonder about what kind of person your husband is if he has friend like this.  Apparently, he has no respect for how you feel. I would tell his friend that if he cannot behave like a decent human being then he needs to find another place to hang out and tell your husband if that is the kind of friends he likes then he needs some professional help.
1146329
Make a time to sit down and talk with him---try to do this with as few distractions as possible. Find out what kind of support he wants. Since he's complaining, insist that he be specific. After you've listened to him, then make sure he listens to you. Be specific about the support you are providing, and also tell him your needs. This is your turn to be specific. Write everything down, compare lists, and try to come up with compromises. This might help disarm the negative emotions. Just because he's in pain, doesn't mean he should be disrespectful and ungrateful. You can be sympathetic for his pain, and still take up for yourself. You and your husband are modeling an adult relationship for your children.
767848
look for another husband....apparently he is looking for someone that is not you.  Which means he is not happy with your relationship.
997901
Have him buy you stuff. If not tell him you will tell his wife and others. He is the one that has things to lose not you.\n\nHave fun.
185789
love him more ,do what he likes as long as it doesnt bother you ,let him think that you cant do any thing without him ,(but of cource you can ) these tiny things moves there head dear \ndo it and see
414753
you need to divorce him...NOW!!!!
556068
Holy crap you sound EXACTLY like me. Keep doing what you're doing. Sorry to all the wives out there, but you have no obligation to anyone except yourself. He's the married one, so he has to take responsibility for his actions if she finds out. Enjoy yourself. Life's short.
489150
Good riddance to him. He is not a supportive husband. He is useless. Don't regret what you have done.