at 11 years old can you love somebody in your school... not in your family?
446211
No honey you have a crush but you can like the guy but don't fall for anything that kids say now a days you be more disappoint with your self for falling for anything that they say. I've been there and done it, now it's biting me in the ***.
696117
Well he is a lot older but I don't think that's a problem. It's sad about your parents and you but if they were with you maybe you could ask them. I don't think there are any laws or anything like that against your situation. I mean why in the world should you stop liking someone\nor dating someone or something like that just because of their age?
823394
hey sweet girl, b/f g/f r only a craze in school times. it's n't ur mistake , in ur age these tye of feelings r normal. when i was at ur age, i don't have b/f, and i don't want to b, but honestily speeking sometimes i also feel bad when my frd talked about their b/fs dates, gifts, etc. etc. even when i was in college i face the same situation....iat college time my frd force me to do friendishp, but i refuse, even now i m in uni situation is same, but u know now i m hapy on my decision....bcoz now the fact come in front of ne and ny age group.\nthat b/f r like a dream which never come true, but on the same time it gaves u lot of problems like main is daiting.im sure u know others.\nnow those girls r crying who had b/f. how can u trust on a person? believe me babay mostly boys  most of the time want only one thing from girl thats physical relation.\nlike glamour world it's a myth that if u want 2 papular then u want a b/f. i don't have b/f still i m popular, coz i have my own id, i m different from others. boys give more respect 2 me. they r good frds.\ni think u must take advise from that person who have b/f, who is older then u. two whom u know. who have life xperience. what ever i told u it's my exp.\nremember one thing if ur frds r true thren they will accept u as u r not as they want u.
820544
Sweetheart listen, \nI was in a relationship for thirteen years with someone that 25 years later still makes me weak in my knees and I let my family screw it up, but now I am married with 2 great kids and we live hundreds of miles away. My ex-lover and I still talk and I can not tell you how bad it hurts not to be held by her at night and the guilt I have for actually loving two different people so much and for different reasons. My mom would say "you are not gay" and I believe that you can't help with which person you fall in love with, and sweetie here is the deal if you are in love I mean really, really in love then love this person regardless. I know how hard it is to not fit into society but take it from an old broad love who YOU are and love the one you are with.
171740
Iguess their is no specified time but its the matuarity of the person that matters the most and ofcourse are in love with the person in question,if you are not yet 16 just dont put your tender heart to test.
866755
I dated a 6th grader while I was in 8th grade (regret it now) but I'm sure yours is different, go for it, but beware, ppl will react differently, they're not so accepting
1155974
you can fall in love with anyone no matter what a third person sees as 'differences'. personally though,8+ years is to much.
785607
It depends on your university.  I know how it is to fall for your teachers; I think I've fallen for every one, male or female, and I've dated a couple of teacher assistants extremely seriously (flirting with marriage).  However, with an actual professor I doubt that something will come from it.  Doesn't he have a girlfriend/wife?  How do you know he feels an attraction towards you?  If you can, for now try to renegotiate your feelings along the lines of friend or father figure.  If something comes from it (again, I'm seriously skeptical, but it's certainly not impossible) it will probably be a while, as you are currently his student and there is still something sketchy about jumping into a romance right away.  He's young and probably wants to keep his awesome job and not tarnish his record.  Good luck!  I feel your pain.\n\nAnd while I'm sure the attraction for him is electric, you should try to get to know his person outside of the context of teaching before jumping his bones.  A lot of your assumptions about him may end up falling apart when you deal with the real man (this isn't necessarily a bad thing, but be prepared).  I say this from experience.  Before I could fall in love with the man behind my TA, I had to give up my idealized notion of him as a TA- and it was first uncomfortable for me, but ultimately a good thing.\n\nEDIT- Oh and I also dated a man 11 years older than me.  I don't have any regrets about it- we worked wonderfully together, but were at completely different points in our lives which ended up causing a lot of tension (and which ultimately led to our decision to split, if just for some time).  I am currently looking for someone closer to my age.  Unfortunately I can't tell how old my crush is.  \n\nPeople are correct when they label what you have as infatuation.  Again- the man behind the teacher probably does not live up to the ideal you have in your head.  And hopefully, he has some regard for his much younger students (not taking advantage of his power position, etc.)  This is why I say that if you really like him, there is going to be a LOT of waiting and a LOT of uncertainty.  It's a delicate situation and I wish you luck in getting through it however you do.
936890
one of the girls I went to high school with had a very similar relationship--they are still married today, more than 15 years later. Love comes wherever you find it--I wish you luck
50110
You surely can, Love does not have a age on it. But another thing, parents may tell you that you do not know the meaning because of you age, but to be honest with you parents sometimes don't know the meaning themseves. Just remember love can make you happy, and love can break your heart. It's a part of life. So just get prepared for it. It happens to everyone.
1167853
I really don't think a student can fall in love with a teacher unless the teacher allows the student to get too close.  It takes more intimate knowledge than the infatuation, puppy love or lust that a student can feel by just having a hot teacher in front of them during class.  The teacher needs to have spent time with the student and discuss each other on a level that is inappropriate for a teacher/student relationship.  I don't know what you did to mess things up, but I hope it was to discourage any possible relationship with you.  There have been too many reports of this sort of thing in the news.  Don't ruin your life, reputation and career over this.  Good luck.
651513
Why is this something that you are even concerned about?  "Farthest I should go?!?!?!"  I agree with the other posters.  Sitting beside one another in class or at lunch!!!  I can't believe your parents allow you to have a boyfriend at the age of 12.
338741
if the student is underaged, then no. but if they're both adults & have an attraction or feelings for each other, then why not?
803342
dont worry about the guys in your school.  Look for an older guy that will take care of you.
666706
ur asking what love is??? heh little kids... i guess if u don't even know what love is ur too young to have a boyfriend stick with ur school years and btw if some person u never met b4 calls u i think hes pretty much gonna kill u....
56926
nooooo. the student may be living out a high school fantasy by pursuing you, it is doubtful they are mature enough to be in a relationship with someone 10 years older for awhile. It seems a bit unethical to me as well.
586826
Possible, I think yes. \nIf you are in middle school, I would wait around, date around in high school, stay friends with the person, and if it is meant to be it will come about when you are much older (like 16 or 17, or even when you go to college, which is when a lot of unusual and good things happen).\n\nI would suggest that if this is a crush type thing, maybe just see what happens. Everyone goes through these ( I remember thinking I really liked a few) and everyone needs them in order to do well in relationships later.\n\nWell good luck, and remember, be patient! If you force it too fast you both might not be ready to stick together for that long.\n\nPeace out, tell me how it goes.