How to get a girl to admit?
450030
Exactly, Do NOT pressure her to say anything unless she wants to say it!! Seriously, you will mess up something good!!  All good things come to those who wait!!!
459154
Be yourself! Be honest authentic with yourself and that will project to her, maybe she will appreciate honesty and most "girls" do like sense of humor, someone who makes them laugh but also someone who can protect her and know how to listen to her problems.\n\n   Its important to listen as to express yourself in creative ways, be rational because in relationships emotions seem to be above logic and reason.\n\n   The most simple is the most perfect, you want to be perfect, be simple !!!
73840
Don't try to impress her!  Girls like guys who are just themselves.  We find it SOOO funny when guys try to be all cool in front of us and their friends.  Smile a lot, and make her seem important, but don't lay it on too thick.  Don't try anything sneaky.  Girls can see through anything.  Even if you are funny, don't just sit there and like tell jokes.  Pretend she's wicked funny, even if she isn't.  Work on your fake laugh if you have to.  Ask her questions.  That's the best way to have a convo.  Girls love to talk about themselves.  If she asks if a dress looks ugly on her, give your honest opinion.  If it looks bad, say so.  NICLEY.  If you don't, and then later that night, when her friend points out that the dress emphasizes something she dosen't want emphasized, she'll be so mad at you.  Most of all, just give her attention.  Every girl loves to be the center of the soptlight.  Good luck with the girl! :-)
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hey omadon98, you answered your own question. But, writing a note telling her "she has brightened your days up for 2 years" would help with your shyness and fear of rejection. Write her a little note on your way out. Girls dig that.
170942
By being your reasonable, decent self. By making her laugh. By making her feel attracted, and paid attention to. If you want, give her a little something nice and special to show her your affections. \n\nOr, if all else fails, try this: "I'm such an ass. I want to melt your heart away, but it seems my lack of being romantic has failed me once more. And, damn, when I need it most, too... you know, to impress such a beautiful girl like yourself. Any suggestions?"\n\nI don't know who exactly you are trying to "melt", and/or if she would appreciate something like that being said to her, but sometimes a little quirky honesty would do the trick for a little tease-and-kiss.\n\nIt would for me, anyway. ;)
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Be nice to her! And be patient! Being shy sucks. Try putting her in charge of something she's comfortable with. Don't make her talk unless everyone in the group has to and if she does have to talk, make sure that she knows what she has to say so that she's not nervous about having to make something up on the spot! Don't take it out on her for being shy if you don't get an A. We all have our faults. She can't help being shy.
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Well being able to listen to a women is really nice and comforting. Just listening to what she has to say, being there for her, understanding her. \nHaving "game" is not something a guy has to do to get noticed. I think just being yourself will attract a girl that is looking for someone like yourself. \nSo yea, hopefully that answered your question.\n\nIf a girl really likes you, than she will flirt w/ you alot, she will come closer to you when you guys are talking, she will look deep in to your eyes, and if she wants to kiss you, shell look at your lips than in your eyes. \nShell want to go out with you more, shell want to be around you more.\nSome tips...\nListen to your gf, try to understand her, dont control her. Be there for her no matter what.\n1. Dont hug her friends or your friends that are girls cause she'll feel left out\n\n2. Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its just for a second.\n\n3. Hug her from behind (we love this)\n\n4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to.\n\n5. Wrestle with her :)\n\n6. Don't go hang out with your ex when shes not with you, you might not realize how badly it hurts her.\n\n7.If you're talking to another girl, when you're done talking, walk over and hug her and kiss her.... let her know she's yours and they aren't.\n\n8. Write her notes or call her just to say "hi"\n\n9. Introduce her to your friends . . . as your girlfriend.\n\n10. Play with her hair.\n\n11. Pick her up (she loves it)\n\n12. Get upset if another guy touches her and she doesn't like it\n\n13. Make her laugh\n\n14. Let her fall asleep in your arms.\n\n15. If she's mad at you, kiss her.\n\n16. If you care about her, then TELL HER\n\n17. Every guy should give their girl 3 things: a stuffed animal(she'll hug it every time she goes to sleep), jewelry (she'll treasure it forever), and one of his t-shirts (she'll most likely wear it to bed).\n\n18.Treat her the same around your friends as you do when you're alone.\n\n19. Look her in the eyes and smile.\n\n20. Hang out with her on weekends\n\n21. Kiss her in the rain (girls love this)\n\n22. Kiss her just for the heck of it\n\n23. If your listening to music, let her listen too.\n\n24. Remember her birthday and get her something, even if\nits simple and inexpensive, it came from YOU. it means all the world to HER.\n\n25. When she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it, even if you don't (it'll make her happy.)\n\n26.Always call her when you say you will, it may not seem like it, but it does hurt her and makes her think you don't care so call even if you can only talk for a minute. Girls don't necessarily have to have hour-long conversations every night but its nice for us to hear your voice even for a quick hello.\n\n27. Give her what she wants\n\n28. Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.\n\n29. tell her shes beautiful... not hott\n\n30. Hang out with her whenever you are free and u should be free to hang wit your girl friend all the time\n\n31. If u care about her...SHOW her
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Send her a letter.  Write neatly and tell her that you were too shy to tell her in person..that's cute!
303206
just be honest with her and say it friendly!
783312
Sit down one-to-one and just honestly tell her. Education is a must and should always come first when it comes to extracurricular activities. Don't get mad during the conversation though. Just stay calm and if she doesn't "give in" so easily, take a moment to try and see things from her POV.. that'll show that that at least you are considering what she has to say.\n\nGood luck.
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Gosh NO!  How desperate are you?\n\nYes she can get bored & tired of it.  If she says no, she just doesn't want to hurt your feelings, or she's scared of losing you if she sets boundaries, or she's just really immature/insecure.\n\nDoes she never pursue you?  HOW BORING!  Do you not want your girl to show initiative/attraction to you?  Do you only ever want her for sex? Does it not bother you that she doesn't get a chance to show that she wants you because you keep hogging all the attraction communication?  If I were her, I would put you on ice for a month (refuse privileges) until you could see me as a person, not just a humping machine (unless of course I just dumped you right away), and so I could have a chance at the flirting fun too.  \n\nAre you 18?  If not, you should be able to control yourself for at least 48 hours, gee.  \n\n"Please please can I have sex?"  "Oh sure."\nThat's what it sounds like you do twice a day from your question.  D E S P E R A T E men don't keep their women long.\n\nNow, having said all that, you have not given sufficient information to answer your question without assuming the worst possible scenario.  So considering your "every chance" might be once a week if you don't see her much, you might then just want to make sure you communicate that you value her as a person, and if she knows how important sex is to you, she will indicate it through inviting you inside, or    initiating a kiss, or whatever, you should NOT have to beg or ask continually.  Just kiss her, treat her like you want her to feel like the amazing woman she is, and if she is open for more, you will feel it in her body language and you can move in.  Stop asking like a begging dog.
840352
Girls are fickle. Start by introducing yourself. If she goes to your school, ask her what classes she has.
309327
first of all, stop being so obvious about it. girls are not going to go for it if you seem like that's all you're about. you have to use some subtlety, and not be a huge asshole.
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Sounds like she's shy too.  Ask her if she'll like to hear a story about something funny you did (as a child perhaps)then tell her.  \n\nOr talk about a scene in a funny movie you've seen or one of those Freddy teenage movies.   \n\nOr you can be honest and upfront and say to her - I'm normally talkative, but when I'm around you I feel shy, she'll open up as well.  \n\nYou'll be surprised to learn most people think they are inadequate in front of people they like and they feel more comfortable if you tell them you do too.
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First of all...  You never tell a girl a secret about her friend if you don't want them to find out.  They talk about everything.\n\nSecond...  ask her to lunch or something. If she says no, or blows you off, or says anything but "sure", forget it. She has no interest in you.  It's probably too late anyways, cuz if she's known for a month, and it's taking you a month to nut up, any interest she may have had in you will be long gone.  Girls don't like timid guys, pus***s if you will.  Seriously.  \n\nThirdly... there is no faster way to scare a girl off then by having a conversation with her, where it's your first convo, and you are telling her you like her.  Be a man.  Be confident.  You don't tell her you like her.  You can ask her out.  If she says no, say no biggie.  Then make sure she knows you're going out with other girls.  Then if there is any interest, she'll start liking you and coming after you.  Nothing turns on a girl more than not having what others are having.
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The best way to end up talking with a shy girl is to go through her friends.  She is shy so she is probably a little insecure.  If she see's that her friends accept you, she will in turn accept you.  Get everyone into a good conversation and make sure you include her in it.  If you show that you want to know some stuff about her she will begin to open up.
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For God's sake! Talk to her! Simple thing- sometimes hard to do, but most girls don't have a clue if you suffer in silence. Find out what her interests are so you have a safe topic to discuss and then have a conversation. Don't be a show-off or try to impress her with what you've got or who you know. Make it all about her and you're sure to get her interested. Good luck!