She fell out of love with me?
450781
I can tell through your question that you are hurting.  You need to give her some space...people can fall out of love, and it usually isn't easy for them either.  Something has changed and you can feel it and see it...don't prolong the agony for either of you...it will be hard, but you will survive and someday when you meet and fall in love with the love of your life and you are hers...it will all make sense.  Good Luck : )
633439
at this point in the relationship it really does not matter. if she told you she was not feeling you then take it as she said it. SHE IS NOT INTERESTED IN YOU....so in her world it doesn,t matter how much you love her,she doesn,t love you. sorry
241461
I was in your shoes, my friend, years ago. And this is what I did and learned:\n\nI waited & waited to be loved in return... five years as a matter of fact. I had many sleepless nights, I had a whole migration of butterflies in my stomach everytime we spoke over the phone, whenever i saw her, & even a simple thought of her. Not a single day, night & moment went by that I did not think of her. I was there for her emotionally, physically, financially, spiritually... & evermore optimistic for her to one day feel the way i felt. Yet, she did not reciprocate the same intensity & desire as i did. Mind you that nobody knew that i was feeling soo ga-ga over her, so i had no one, not one soul to talk to for advice or direction of what i should do. \n\nSo what happened? What did I do? \n\nWell, one nite i finally broke down, emotionally, like i had before and got down on my knees and prayed to help get over her. A warm blanket of feeling came over me and realize that I was just alone, too lonely & barking up the wrong tree. In that instant my head was clear & had enough gusto to say myself & her "no mo". I moved on. Since then, I had many friends to count on and goals that kept me busy.\n\nThe Truth is: I was infatuated. I "loved" someone who did not loved me back; who did not reciprocated... for five long years! It was a waste of my time, energy & not to mention financially. In that instant in the dead of night, i realized one love is not enough... it takes two.\n\nSo my question to you, my friend, how long can you wait?\n\n-Taz-
907575
Yes, it WILL happen, but only after you've given yourself time to heal. I'm sorry she hurt you so bad, but don't let this stop you from loving, and being loved. Best of luck to you!
1178801
if you two broke up for only her reason of 'being too comfortable', I would not phone her. It would set you back a bit I think- it does for me anyway. She obviously didn't treasure and revere you or the friendship/relationship you offered. I think your line of thinking is best for you right now, she did in a sense throw you away and you need to be surrounded by people who treat you better than that. Maybe some day you two could be friends, but it might seriously take you years to get over her. Don't waste anymore time and let her keep reeling you back in- go on with your life!\n\nGod bless
764904
Give her a little time. It sounds like she must be really confused right now. If she truly loves you she will call you and come back to you. If not you will just have to find the strength to move on. But I would say form what you have said that she is a very confused girl right now. Give her some time to get things straightened out in her head. As long as she is confused things will never work out.Good luck to you cause it sounds like you care an awful lot about this girl.
421852
you are a mess ! talk to her and see if she comes back . if not , keep on truckin'
185871
No, You're too good for her actually. She probably flirted with both of you at the same time, but waited for her preferred option. She just lost you!
268038
you moved out for a reason.  you just want her back cause your lonely.  you ll get over her i promise just give it time and keep yourself busy
711191
yea its normal to feel this way..you just have to be careful not to get hurt..and its really hard...as far as taking her back..its a judgement call....do you think she'll do this again? do u still love her? think about and dont rush to a decision
717019
Go on and propose... Things should be fine. It just sounds like she needed some time apart to see if she really wanted to be with you. Lots of people go through this and may be with other people in the mean time. She found her way back to you and that's what matters.
80981
did you talk and explain to her why you broke up with her. communication is very important. you should talk to her. stay come and try to step into her shoes. if that dont help well than its something she has to get through but atleast you know you made an effort. its like what is that saying you can lead the horse to the water but you cant make it drink.
1110261
Your poor dear. At this point, I think it is best to let go and see what happens. If it is meant to be, she will realize how much you love her. If she doesn't come back, realize that you WILL meet someone that will appreciate your love and love you back. Sometimes the best, and hardest, thing to do is let someone go. I don't think you need to move away though! Give her some space and see what happens, but keep yourself open to meeting new people too. You never know who may be around the corner waiting to meet you!
290831
Good question.  This isn't enough information to work on, however, if she did dump you it was probably because she just wasn't in love with you anymore.  Love sometimes just disappears after a while.  Especially, when you don't see the other person that often.  I would recommend for you to focus on the good times and just take this as step in life.  Focusing on the breakup will make you more bitter and angry and everything negative.  Focus on the good times and look for someone better.  -Love Amber
1082476
She probably decided you and her are not a good match.  Then she gave you some story that was meant to help you realize she was serious.  Realize she is serious and wanted out w/o hurting you.  There are TONS AND TONS of girls out there.  Move on.  Best advice is to learn as she has.  One or two dates, you may hear or realize something and it's time to move on.  Also learn to let go without feeling hurt or taking it personally.
418910
Cut your losses and move on buddy.  Anyone who truely loves you wouldn't have to look anywhere else.  If she loved you whole heartedly, she would never even consider the possibility, or allow herself to become emotionally involved with another person.  She may love you, but not enough.  You deserve more.
134653
It is hard to move on but if she does not want to be with you anymore then you can't make her stay. Maybe your accusations pushed her away or maybe she just was not ready and thinks that she may need some time. Whatever her reason, do not push the issue! If you worry her then that will only push her away! There is nothing worse that someone hounding you. Just let her know that you do love her and that you are sorry that things have turned out the way that they have and let her know that you will always be there for her if she needs you. Leave it at that! If you want her back then live your life, don't mope after her. I personally know how hard it is to lose the one that you love but once I started going on with my life he wanted to get back together so he then seen how it felt to be "on the other side of the fence".