Q: Why does a woman cry with joy when she walks down the marriage aisle?
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probably because she is thinking that she wont be able to do the same things when shes married that what she did before. Example: GUYS!!
1008577
This happened to my husband and I also.  Exactly, almost word for word.  Look.  She wants to know where you are and what you are doing because she loves you sooo much... more than anything in the world...  she can't bear to be without you and so when you are not around her the devil starts making her insecure and making her think there could be things going on.  AND that doesn't neccissarily mean cheating.  He could be telling her that she's not good enough for you, or that you could do better, or that you want out, or that you can't stand being with her.  So many different possibilities.  As far as her thinking that you are mad at her all of the time.  The SAME thing happened at the SAME time with us when we first got married.  I was always crying and always scared that he was mad at me for something...  Even though he wasn't.  He started getting really freaked out and the same thing happened to him.  He lost his sex drive because of it.  Which on my end made it worse because I thought that he didn't love me anymore because woman use sex with her husband that she loves with all of her heart as a way to feel close to him and for her to get the feelings of love from him.  The threats are normal!  No matter what ANYBODY says... they are all normal... Divorce, this, that... NORMAL!!  I don't think that you should divorce her.  We had a lot of struggles with the same thing .. EXACT same thing.  and we have been married HAPPILY married for 2 years now.  DON'T DIVORCE HER!  Especially if you love her.  As far as counceling goes... I didn't want to go either.  It's just a hit to my pride to know that I have to get counceling from somebody else about something that is supposed to be mine to control and make all better.  If you or her wants to talk to me or my hubby email us... it's hurleybabeprincess20@yahoo.com... seriously... \n\nDon't listen to these other idiots.... I would love to talk with her... \nNO marriage is perfect.  And you always have to take time and extra effort to make things work.  Make sure that you go to church regularly... and make sure that the church that you go to is a good church.  You can ask your wife if you can talk to the pastor on your own time about it personally... you will know by what the pastor tells you... if he is called to the ministry.  There will NEVER be a divorce option if he is.  The Bible is specific on the reasons for divorce.  You don't have any of them.  \n\n\nYOU KNOW WHAT YOU SHOULD READ... THE POWER OF A PRAYING HUSBAND AND GET YOUR WIFE THE POWER OF A PRAYING WIFE... BOTH BY STORMIE OMARTIAN\n\n\nbtw... where are you 2 located?
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yes very happy through both good and bad times, there is no one i would rather come home to or spend time with. we have been married for eight years and it just gets better everyday. the primary reason is that she understands/forgives my hobbies and interests and i understand hers. give and take and flexability on both sides make it much easier. the first year was just getting used to each others habits, and the more rigid (i will not/your fault/my way) additudes just scew it up. and forgive and forget. no grudges.
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This is my favorite part:  if the Husband solemnizes a “religious marriage” with another woman without permission of the Wife...\n\nRight.
1095399
It comes from a fear of the same thing happening. The best way to alleviate that fear is to make sure you are being trustworthy. There might always be that "feeling in the back of her mind," because she really loves you, and it would crush her if it did happen. But show her that you are not her previous husband. If you already romance her up, then good. If not, then start. Make her feel like she is the most sublime creature that walks the Earth. Let her know that she is your Queen and you are her King, and there is NO other woman for you but her. Trust me, it's nice when a woman hears the words. You have to embed it in her mind. And keep it that way. Don't let the hard work fly out of the window.\n\nGood luck to you.
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YES, you should feel upset, and you're not overreacting. Sounds annoying and angering. I'm surprised he even asked you to marry him. Do you think he'll keep the promise to walk down the aisle? I had a man like that once. He promised to propose to me year after year after year. He promised he'd do it after he paid off his credit card. But when he did, he just bought himself a brand new car. Then he wanted a big projection television. Et cetera. It's hard to pinpoint exactly why some people do crap like that: lack of ability to commit, laziness, control, or just plain meanness. Talk to him about it...tell him that it makes you UNHAPPY, and be sure to stress that word. If you're unhappy, then it can lead you to fall out of love with him, and leave him. That should show him that he needs to be more trustworthy with you.
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That may be his sense of humor.  Something he thinks he is expected to do around "the guys".  There is a stigma around marriage that it should be miserable.  Your hubby may be one of those who wants to fit in so he subscribes to the stereotypes people hold of him and his life.  (I could be wrong)\n\nIn private I would tell him that what he said really bothered you.  Ask him if he really feels that way or if he was just trying to be funny.  Inform (gently not confrontationaly) that it wasn't funny and jokes as such really hurt you, especially around other people.  If he really feels that way it may be time for some marriage counseling.
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A couple other viewpoints:  \n#1 She may feel that someone has to be responsible for you, and it is her until you get married then her responsiblity is gone and your husband is responsible for you.\n#2 She may feel that your social status (and thus hers) is higher if you are married.  She may want to brag to her friends. \n#3  She may feel that you will be more secure (financially) with a partner, someone to take care of you.\n#4  She may be hoping for a wedding etc. and trying to live vicariously through you.  She may hope you could have everything that didn't work out for her.\n#5  In her day if you dated a guy and did not get married you were being taken advantage of.  \nI think you should ask her why it is important to her for you to get married.  Then just listen and try to understand
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I think because marriage is the ultimate committment (or its supposed to be!). You're pledging to love and stand by your significant other for the rest of your life...its a big deal and it is something women have been trained to want and dream about!\nPersonally, I have no idea when I'm going to head down the aisle, as I'm currently single. I'm in no rush though, there are so many things that will be harder to do while in a committed relationship!
485160
I saw a wedding where the step-father walked the bride down the first half of the aisle and then the "real" dad stepped in and finished up the walk.  It was very touching.  Of course both men would have to agree to it but I thought it was a nice way to include both of her dads.
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People make mistakes, they marry the wrong people or for the wrong reasons.  Some people are fickle and fall out of love easily.  Others love the feeling of "falling in love" but when the honeymoon is over, it' over.  Others develop problems farther down the line.  As many divorces as there are, there are reasons for the divorce.\n\nPersonally, I don't want to restrict myself to a number, because as soon as I do, I'd break it.  I'd like to not ever want to marry again.
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When you feel like your of "one Mind" and it is a very special and warm feeling.\n\nTrue love is a meeting of minds. Anything either than that is not true love. Kinda explains why the divorce rate is so high, being that divorced people were never really in love in the first place, but they thought that they were because of selfish reasons - mainly material gain or money gain.
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I feel the question is to vague for an answer , what are your regrets ? You say your spouse and family would be devastated , so are we to assume that your spouse still feels that everything is ok in the marriage? are your regrets things like , what if I had done this or what if I had married this person instead or my life would have been so different if I had never married or had kids? Lots of people at some time and point in their lives wonder what if , that's normal . But if there is nothing truly wrong in your marriage , I feel that you owe it to your family to make it better , to many people today get stuck in ruts and start thinking that the grass is greener on the other side but the reality of it is if you don't find out for your self why you feel this way or make the change within your self to make things better , then it's only a matter of time before the grass on the other side turns brown as well. When you take your vows you make a promise for better or worst , sickness and health , good times and bad , the power is in you to make your marriage and family a success. Think about what you are feeling ,why you are feeling that way, before you jump ship and possibly repeat all the same mistakes and regrets all over again
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concentrate on your marriage. what then was your reason why you went to the aisle and said "i do"? \nif you can't control your emotions, let go of your marriage. i guess there's no reason why you have to go on with it if your attention and yeah, love drifted away and shifted to your best friend. isn't that cheating?\nif you want to save your marriage, forget your friend...
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Her First Wedding\n\nAttending a wedding for the first time, a little girl whispered to her mother, "Why is the bride dressed in white?"\n\n"Because white is the color of happiness, and this is the happiest day of her life.", her mother replied. \n\nThe child thought about this for a moment, then said, "So why is the groom wearing black?"
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lol tell me about it. I thinks it's a self-preservation thing for the unhappily married ones.
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It depends on the type of person she is, I mean she might just feel guilty. I would be curious as to why he feels the need to come but I would just try to get to know him if you really concerned that he has other intentions. Other wise don't make the bride to be angry it is dangerous! She is under a lot of stress as it is. Congrats