is it true tht heavy or we say fat person is more fun loving people thn anyone else.?
447239
I think that they may be - they seem to have more interests (not just the opposite sex or how cool they are) while in secondary school than the people who are considered "normal or thin".
1081729
Most heavy girls don't get  "it" that often, if ever.  So if they do, they really get into "it".  They are better in bed than skinny girls, in the giving aspect of "it".  Plus the waves of fat that just ungulate after you get going are just so sexy. NOT!
1183898
It is very rude. People that are obese are humans also.\n The word fat pertaining to a person is very uncouth.\n Obese people sometimes have a low self esteem . Why add to the agony.\n It just not nice to call a person fat. \n If you have to ask this question , you must be one of those non caring people.
208617
I think that they are.  Guys who are fat is the norm for us (USA).  I mean I work with several HUGE men.  But I also work with a few HUGE women.  Who gets the most sh*t about being overweight?  The woman.  Most people think that a pretty girl is a skinny girl.  I'm overweight but not grossly so.  I hate feeling the ugly one when I happen to be standing next to a skinny girl and a guy checks her out and ignores me.  But hey I don't really hvae to worry about it.  I have a loving guy in my life who loves me for ME.
882594
It affects me much because when you are in love so bad, you will keep on striving to keep your partner next to you by giving him or her the best thing you could, including the well shape of your body and your healthy body as well. No one wants to have big fat unhealthy junkie partner.
998910
i used to be slim until i got ill. i have to take medication and it has made me put on alot of weight. not all overweight people are like that cos they eat too much etc. alot of them have medical conditions. when i see them, i always feel for them and hope they are happy and loved, cos that is all we really want. i am very overweight now but im ok with it. i asked my daughter how she felt about me and she turned around and said, i prefer u this way!  it can be an awful struggle for an overweight person to lose weight, just the same as its very difficult for skinny people to put on weight. we are the way we are. i never thought id end up being the size i am but i accept it. i am still me, there is just more of me to love!
343470
I don't really know which is worse, but as a very skinny person it certainly feels like its worse to be us at times.  The reason I say that is because with really fat people, other people will snicker and gossip but will never actually tell the person "wow you are so fat," like they will with a very skinny person.  I used to be very self conscious about how thin I was, so comments like "you are so skinny" and "you are so tiny" and "you look like i could break you" were very painful and made me feel horrible.  It would also imply that my friends thought I had an eating disorder, which also really distressed me.  And what's worse is that you can't really diet or do anything to gain weight if you are naturally thin.\n\nThat said, I can't imagine that it would be easy to weigh alot either.  Especially considering the health risks--obesity, diabetes, heart disease, etc.  And when you add those up to the stares and comments it's probably equally ask crappy as being looked down upon for being thin.
245845
Why the mentioning of the "fat" so what if you are fat. That shouldn't be the reason why you feel he pays attention to you? I think fat is georgoeus and find yourself some1 who aint hitched already. It just goes to show that you want to boost your moral, and besides, forbidden fruit is always the best.
417289
This is what I love about the young...so judgmental and so lacking in compassion.\n\nYes, a heavy man can have sex appeal.  Some of the hunkiest men are the most obnoxious people when it comes to personality.  The young seem to think looks are everything...they are not.\n\nAlso, many men were once thin...age changes your body.  Many of you, who are so judgmental and so shallow, will lose your shape in years to come.  Your body doesn't last forever but the personality does.  \n\nIt isn't weight that provides the sex appeal, it is the personality and the way the person treats others.  Why do you think so many good looking men have women that you would consider unattractive?  It is because they learned that beauty is what's inside...not the wrappings.
598654
Hey man - the girl may have serious muscle like me. \n\nit is hard to describe youself to the opposite sex - for example, I am muscular and athletic and I have a large frame (long legs, broad shoulders)... But if I described myself in a small ad as large frame - then people immediately think it is obesity.
860912
Because we live in a society that that demands perfection. People want to feel beautiful and an example of beauty. Like models. Skinnier people are more confident with their body and how  they expose themselves. Some overweight people get depressed and offended easier. They also might feel like they don't belong.
660727
Definitely, go the route of muscle weighs more than fat.  Gaining weight because you are all muscle is healthier and a heck of a lot more attractive than just being fat and not caring about your health.
635858
Neither, it's never nice to make fun of people. If it was you who was the fat one how would you feel?
178450
I do that alllll the time.  My husband is ex military and some people see him as very rigid and a down right a** but my opinion is yep- he's an a** but he is MY A**.  Also my sister is 5 ft 5 inches tall and weighs 378 lbs.  BIG GIRL and its ok if i tease her once in awhile but not a stranger- she is MY SISTER!I think its cuz we do it out of love and we r close to these people but a stranger well- bull crap they have no right to say it cuz its not done with love and fun in mind
403946
Was is some stranger who walked up to you on the street and said "you're fat?"  Or was is someone you care about who was concerned for your health and well-being and worded it better?  It's not necessarily bad.
872084
That's what it seems like to me - jealousy!  It's ok to be happy with your wieght even if you're overweight, but to judge others for their successes is just wrong.  Whether they are doing it for the right reasons (it's not healthy being overweight) or for other reasons (just for looks), it's none of her business and not her place to judge!
801496
She is fat, but then again some people out there like 'em thick.