I think my husband is cheating what should I do to find out?
447759
Ask him.  Tell him why you believe it may be true.  Tell him everything you see that leads you to suspect.  If you know the woman you think he is cheating with.. confront her too... in front of her husband/BF if she has one.  \n\nIf he isn't cheating he will tell you why the things happened that led you to think he is.  If his reasons sound phoney or far fetched hes lying to ya.\n\nIf he's cheating, it's his secret to keep.  Not yours... put his @ss on front street!
839499
I think you already know what you have to do.  You have to confront him.  It's scary because he might admit to cheating, but then you will know what needs to be fixed.  If you don't talk to him this will eat away at you and your marriage, and worst of all that will affect your kids.  Don't mention the evidence at first.  Just ask him if he has been cheating.  Then if he denies cheating, bring up the things you found.  This will leave him no time to think abou the answer.\n\nOn a personal note:  I wish you the best of luck.  I hope he isn't cheating, for everyone's sake.
1117972
PRAY AND ASK GOD TO REVEALED IT TO U IF HE IS CHEATING . BUT MAKE SURE THAT U R READY FOR THE ANSWER CAUSE U WILL GET IT.IM WHEN U GET YOUR ANSWER.
791990
If he hasn't given you any indication that he's cheating on you then I would worried that he was sick is hurt. Don't let your pride or stubbornness stop you from doing what is right.
991498
Is it a "was" or happening now? Im confused. Anyway, cheaters usually cannot look straight in the eyes of their partners if being confronted about it. Be aware of his actions like stepping a few meters away from you when talking on the phone, whispering and having a good (and naughty) laugh. Suspect him that he's cheating if you do not see your picture in his wallet anymore.\nBut are you really sure or your just paranoid? If he really does, then start asking yourself why he's into it. Examine yourself if you may be in fault. To make him stop, assure him of your love and express (and emphasize in action) why he should be sticking with you more than anyone else. :D
467598
a woman always knows. usually when shes EVEN thinking hes cheating, he is. signs include: buying new underwear/clothes for no reason, taking better care of himself all the sudden, working late, wearing a new cologne, changing passwords, running out for errands more often, not wanting to have sex as much, and taking up new interests. or the more obvious as in my case... i found lipstick/makeup on the shirts, love letters, condoms and late night phone calls. yea, i fired him lol
539656
My Husband never cheated, but if a husband was going to cheat I'd rather know. If its over its over,he should be honest enough to tell you.Two things to be done after that , either forgive him and NEVER bring it up again. Anyone can make a mistake once, only a fool does it twice.And personally I would not stay married to a fool.
65798
You should be concerned that your husband lies to you.\n\nYou should be concerned he chats with girls on webcams.\n\nHe does both...do the math.
684697
hire a detective or do it yourself. just be carefull and dont get caught .your married check the phone bills dont let him leave with cologne on smell him when he gets home make sure theres no  girls spray on lipstick hickies act like you want to have sex and smell his dick and mouth and underpants for a womens scent
266588
you can ask. but just because you ask doesn't mean you are going to be told the truth. \n\nsigns of cheating:\nchange in dress habits\nchanges the way he looks\n(^^^although, he could want a new look, those 2 are tricky)\nhe's never around for you and when he is, he's looking at the clock for when he can leave\ntakes calls in another room so you don't hear them\nhe doesn't answer the phone for you when he normally would and when you do talk to him, he doesn't have a straight answer for why he didn't answer\nasks if your cheating on him\n\njust google 'signs of cheating' and a whole bunch of links show up. Read a few and compare it to your situation.\n\nGut feelings are nothing to ignore. If you truly believe he is cheating, maybe you should go with your heart and leave him.
831577
well see if he is busy and ask him why he does that .and if he keeps doing it i think its time 2 find a new man
90169
Y R U putting up with this, he is trying to pull the wol over ur eyes, if this girl says that he& she slept 2getther she may be tellin the true and he want u to be the naive wife. U need to confront or set up something to see if he'll fall fo r the bait, thats one sure fire way to tell if he's cheating..\n\nU have my email email me and I can tell u how to go about this
684346
it defenitely sounds like he's cheating, just move on, you'll be happier you ended it.
493983
#!----VERY IMPORTANT.  I know from experience.  If you suspect your guy is cheating, don't...I repeat, don't let him know you are suspcicious.  If you confront him, he will take his measures to hide the cheating to a higher level, and it will be more difficult for you to find the truth.  Cheaters get lazy after a while.  Solid clues will come to the top and you will be able to find out the longer you let him think all is well.  Take advantage of his laziness and carelessness.  It will happen.  Then, when you have solid evidence, throw it in his face and give him all the HE!! he deserves.  Don't commmit a crime though.
885720
According to me u both shud go thru Counselling,and sort out the problem by talking to him.,Why is he doing such things. I think he really loves u ,but maybe due to some work pressure he might be able to see u, if u think he is cheating u,better u get rid of this marriage ,or else it will affect both of ur life.Dont marry anyone just for the sake of the marriage,u shud first know the guy with whom u r marrying.Anyways my gut feeling says ur problem will be solved and u will lead a good life with ur hubby.Dont take unneccessary tensions orelse it will affect ur child health.God Bless u
1150675
if it's more than one person independently telling you then he is probably cheating.\n\nlook at the character of the people telling you and decide if they would want to hurt you; or keep you from hurt
521146
Confront him about it. The truth will set you free:)