do u prefer looks or personilaty in a friend?
446989
personality.  I have to be able to get along with the person!
1105573
I'll be honest here ... \n\nYes looks are important ...\n\nIt may not be the only thing that's important when dating and getting to know somebody, but it sure does count in my book ...
1179501
For me. I notice her face first. Mostly look for some deepness (intelligence and/or intensity) in her eyes. Then how she moves. If she smiles at me. How her boobs and butt  look. Flaunting a bit says confident to me, I like that. I like down to earth, no makeup, really really long hair, interesting , smart, able to laugh easily. etc.\n\nIts different in what I like to look at for 10 seconds or when trying to make a life connection with someone. Both are nice. I love those, "hey you are very cute", "thank you" sort of interactions. 30 seconds usually but still very nice
423582
Personality and looks.
479700
i'v been with both...and it all depends on the person inside...in my case even a person who may be considered ugly on the outside can become attractive if they are good on the inside and vise versa...
966000
Be flattered that someone finds you attractive but explain to them that you aren't interested in them that way.  It's not a big deal.  If you really are a friend to that person, then you should be able to be honest with them.
449964
You're my first choice.I like my friend to be dependable, sensible and a good criric of me.You fit the bill to a tee.I wanna hang around with you.
307970
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and no not every girl is preoccupied with money or beauty. Sometimes a person's personal traits will outweigh what they might lack in the looks department but I also feel that there has to be some degree of physical attraction between two people for it to go beyond just a platonic relationship. Perhaps one's  mind will appeal enough to overide that but that really depends on the situation and the individual. What is ugly to one might be beautiful to another. But may I ask what is the preoccupation with finding someone who won't base you on your looks when it is apparent that that is what your standards are based on?
43662
It is very true.  Consider this, if you were stranded on a desert island, would you want to be with someone who was hot yet annoying or someone that was homely yet a good friend?  Of course you would want to be with a friend no matter how much of an eye-soar they are.  Therefore personality gets you farther.
82895
In my opinion, it depends on the woman. I myself want something happy and healthy relationship with a man as well as good true friendship.
845962
if i like your inside character, freckles or not is not a problem, i am blk by the way. I don't know if you prefer white skin over blk or something like that.\nBut for me all that matters is your character.
589119
Depends on the person and their minds. Not to sound like an idiot but I look at who they are and what they are like, I sometimes don't care If they are hot or just o.k.
394691
i go for personality, becuase all good looking guys are shallow jerks who are cocky as hell. i used to go for looks too, but as i grew older and more mature, i changed. as long as hes funny, modest and cool, im okay.
1167733
It all depends on the person. If someone really likes you, you will always look good in their eyes. I like one guy and i think he is really cute, while my friends are just the oposite. It all depends
674348
I personally like a guy who's funny and just fun to be around.  It's awesome if I can have a conversation with him.  In terms of looks, I'm not superficial, but I admire a warm, friendly smile.
465633
NO. looks are skin deep, and while alluring at first, her personality can make her seem really ugly. while a person who doesn't look that great can have a personality that makes her seem more cute or beautiful. \n\nI'd definitely go for personality over looks, i always have, and i always will.\n\nthat having been said, if the girls has some cute or nice features, that is always a bonus. :)\n\nanother way to think about it is like this, look at your grandparents (if they are still together) they love each other and they probably don't look like supermodels. looks eventually go, but the person inside the body never changes. this is another reason i will always go for personality over looks.
1077313
big eyes are really nice, but also i like a girl who i can be best friends with aswell as dating, they can be fun, sensitive, bubbly and easy to communicate with. All girls have different qualities but I think personality looking long term is important