why after having sex so many times it still hurts!?
452645
I had the same problem for a long while.You need to see your doctor.My problem was that my hymen was still intact.That's the piece of skin that makes you a virgin.Mine was still intact after having two children!!It was a simple in office procedure to take care of it.
602165
I can see why you're worried. Sex shouldn't be painful. It shouldn't make you bleed, either. That said - it doesn't mean there's definitely something wrong. But it does mean you need to get this checked out. \n\nSo please visit your GP and explain everything. You can ask for a woman doctor, if you prefer. Your doctor is likely to examine you internally to check all's well. It may be your vagina is inflamed for some reason - this would make it sore and likely to bleed. \n\nNext time you have sex you'll probably be scared in case it happens again - so please put your mind at rest and get this sorted.
520777
That can be caused by lots of things. She should definitely go to a gyno and have it checked out. One possibility: my husband is pretty big, and we have to be careful about angle or I'll be sore afterwards. If you're bigger than average, maybe y'all need to try some different positions to see if that helps. Also, make sure she's lubed, relaxed, and turned on.
608462
If you aren't a virgin and this has happened more than once it could be very serious! Please, read the list in the website I have sourced and talk to a doctor. You only get one body so make sure you love, respect, and take care of it to the best of your ability.
638985
Yes usually it hurts the woman. Be careful and gentle and take your time. If it hurts to much take a break and maybe talk about trying another time. I hope you will use protection and be responsible.
570237
Go to the Dr hun... need more info tho is it only after and what kind of pain........
13968
It could be you were over stimulated.For instance you were in escence rubbed the wrong way.If you still continue to itch after a few days you may want to see a gyno.
218788
I think you should seek counseling.  Also, the abortion thing may be a much bigger part of this then you think. Have you always experienced pain during intercourse? Did you tell your doctor about the abortion? I know you might be embarrassed, but you really need to tell him/her.  That could be a big part of the problem.  It is not uncommon to hear about infections or internal injuries after that procedure.  I would make sure you are open about that with your doctor and then ask him/her for a referral to a psychologist so that you can start to recover from the psychological impact this has had on you.  Sometimes it may take years to recover from this.  If your doctor does know about your experience and the physical pain does not go away I would see a GYN and get a second opinion.  It is not normal to have physical pain during intercourse.  He/she may be missing something.  I really hope that things work out for you and I understand what you are going through.  I have been in a similiar situation. - Take care : )
889906
hymen doesnt always break the first time, or even the second.  Need to take lots of time, lubrication, and gentleness.  If pain persists, then could be dyspareunia, a physical/psych problem.
703498
Please just go to the doctor, you should never leave things like this for any amount of time, so please go to your doctor now. I am not even going to suggest what this might be as you safe you practice safe sex all the time, it just doesn't sound good to me, get it checked out.
846347
Healthy women enjoy sex as much as men. It is more stimulating than making out. That should be obvious. After the first few times sex should not be painful. If you or your partner is experiencing pain during sex, they need to see a doctor. Pain during intercourse can be caused by a number of things including sexually transmitted infections.
1138134
Just because you bled doesnt mean it was popped again and again. If you are a smaller chick then just the stretching of the skin can cause some bleeding, now if we are talking a lot of bleeding, then there could be other things. How much blood, how long was it between you had sex, and did it continue. Hell, it could mean you are pregnant and are experiencing implantation bleeding if you bled the first time and didnt do it for a couple weeks then tried again, or your period is going wacky, stress, who knows. I would say more than likey though if you had sex pretty soon after each time, then he's just stretching you out. you will get used to it.
265785
man, that`s so f*cking good ! \nbut that`s great by the way your ex is not normal also coz She felt pain after a 15-20 minutes of intercourse man you are fine !
527580
hi,\n\nsore vagina after intercourse can be due to lack of lubrication...if you are not aroused enough and have other things on your mind at the time of love making...it can cause dryness in the vagina and having intercourse without ample lubrication (natural or from OTC lubricants) can make it painful and sore...please try and relax during intercourse and have alot of foreplay to get natural lubrication and if that doesnt help buy a KY jel or similar lubricants OTC and use them.....shud help....if all this fails see ur gyn to rule out any other prob...
486074
you have a vaginal infection, not disease, you need to go to the doctor and get treated for that, because every time you have sex it will get worst
587480
Well here it doesn't apply the 'The more you use it, the bigger it gets' saying.\n\nIt's a normal reaction: it's trying to recover and gathering energy.   But it's not getting any smaller.    Some ppl observe the same reaction after having sex.\n\nThe best solution I can give to you is to STOP j-o AT THAT RHYTHM!    You could irritate it, you know...
1076612
that's caused by sexual deprivation for too long after sexual fulfillment. He couldnt possible have it all the time, since it is about a 1-2 day experience after not having been sexually fulfilled for a while, and it doesnt come back untill a while after you have orgasmed again.  Tell him to suck it up and let it pass and it wont come back until after he has another orgasm and then doesnt have one for a while.  If he cant handle the pain, tell him to masturbate.  And tell him to stop complaining, because even tho it seriosly hurts, noone wants to hear about it.