How do you ask a girl out if you have not asked a girl out before?
451167
i am in middle school 2- and i am a girl- so just either get someone else 2 do it 4 u or if u r really brave and don't care about what other people think, get her to b your friend, then get her alone and ask her really seriously without much pressure-girls don't like 2 b pressured, remember, we are just as nervous and insecure as you are!
234083
first, start off by thinking of her as someone you'd like to get to know as a friend. friendship can lead to romance later. this may take away some of the pressure. try to think of her as just another potential friend and it should help it feel more natural. once you've gotten to know her better, then you may feel more comfortable asking her out. if you know what she likes to do, you could talk to her about that. for instance, any sports she is into, music, theater, ...
451469
Girls love being asked out so just say excuse me um would you like to go out sometime if she says no then just say ok and remember that it was good you asked her because if you hadnt you would have never known what she would have said also if she says no just know that she isnt right for you and mabey try again later if she says yes then good for you
62049
I know its not easy most of the times to ask a girl out, even if you are almost sure that she's gonna say yes. But just gather your courage once and tell her that you really like her and you want to go out with her. Since you already know her, you should hopefully have some idea about her feelings for you. If you think there is a chance that she likes you, then chances are that she does..so go for it.  If you think otherwise then wait for a while and see how things progress..but make sure that if you ask her, then ask her either face to face or if you are too scared then at most over the phone. No emails, ims or text, since you'll never know when she'll get the message (she might be in a bad mood when she does which might go against you). Good luck!
402105
Be brave,ask her out. Simple as that.Some people spend too much time wondering,if I do this,will he or she do that.Just jump right straight to the point.Hi,what's up or whatever and then boom-hammer down-ask her out. Say something like Hi(her name)I'm going out to say a concert,would you like to go with me. All she can say is yes or no. When she says no,don't ask her out again. Make another choice for a girl you would like to date and date them instead. Sometimes when a girl has seen the boy that just asked her out with another,it kinda makes them wonder a little.Especially if she were to find out how much fun was had. Plan someplace you'd like to go that is fun.Then go,maybe even ask others-go as a group.Just have fun. When I was dating,fun was the in thing. Dating wasn't as fun as going in a group because it made the girls feel too attached to the person they were dating,but going as a group,you had more fun,everyone not so serious.Most times each person paid their own way. We used to go to the rivers(had large picnics-cook-outs,Sometimes we'd all get together and go to the local beach,or we'd decide on a movie,you follow what I am saying. Going as a group seems to let everyone be themself more,without all the love stuff involved in a date.Sometimes,no matter what you think of a girl,that girl could be nerveous about being alone with you.Nothing you do to cause this,some girls are just that way.Make it easy for her to say yes.Going as a group,she has time to get to know you without being totally alone with you in a relaxing atmosphere.I think it's funny how some boys think they know everything about girls,but unless you are a girl,how would you know. And about that dance,does Debbie dance well?If she doesn't she may have been scared for you to see how she dances.I see you like to dance,so that is a major plus for you.Almost all girls I've known just love to dance and admires a guy who will dance  with them.Dancing is a universal language.If she can't dance well offer to teach her how. (she'll bug you for dances once she learns)
681914
Learn to have no fear of rejection... I know, easier said than done. If you can't get over your fear of rejection you will suffer for the rest of your life... Just try imagining that she is definitely going to reject you...what would you say to her if she flat turned you down? Prepare for the eventuality and it makes it less scary... and think about who else you might want to ask out when/if she rejects you...if one girl doesn't want you another one will....you just have to be willing to ask them!
503845
ask her out, and see what happens
656299
I think if you want to ask her out, you should first become more confident in your self. Girls can sense insecurity, and it's a total turn off. Then you need to just ask, like "I was going to go to go see... on friday, wanna come?"\nthen at least you can play it off like you just wanted to chill, but if it works in your favor GREAT!!!!
776965
Heres how it sounds dumb but it works, If you already know her and you have somewhat of a neutral relationship just straight up ask her out say "Go out with me" she'll probaly say "what?' or "are you serious" or try to wriggle out of it, if that starts say "its the right thing to do" Dont be afraid, just do it! the worst she can say is no and if she does no biggie you guys can still be cool just dont put so much pressure on the situation.
622968
Ask her and see if she likes you first. If she does then get to know her and then when you are ready ask her out. If she said no then just be her friend and make her feel comfortable with you then once she is ready then she will tell you.
446703
STOP BEING SHY!\nThe fear of doing it is greater than actually doing it.\n\nThe next time you see her just ask her if you could take her out for lunch sometime.\n\nDon't listen to the girl above me.\nIf you're attracted to someone you can make the first move...doesn't matter if you're female or not. If you sit around waiting for someone to come to you it's probably not going to happen. \n\nWomen today aren't afraid to do what needs to be done to move forward, doesn't matter if it's their "duty" or not. \n\nAnyway, back to my orignial advice:\nJust ask her! That's the only way you'll know for sure.
391476
The girl will think more of you if you ask her out yourself. I personally think it's cute when a guy is shy. Approach her when she's by herself. Take your time and just tell her what you're thinking. I wish you the best babe!
430298
Yeah..I would ask her out too.  What do you have to loose?  Besides, if you don't ask her, someone else will and then you may never have that chance to ask her again and you'll regret it.. Ask her out, Man!!  \n\nGood Luck.
813848
well ask her.....trust me girls hate it when u ask them out any other way thn face to face....get some curage, be confident, but not to much
1038422
if you and this girl are friends or if not just ask her alone, only because some girls get nervous around other people, and if you ask her around a bunch of her friends she might just say no or yes and not really mean it. So if you want a real answer ask her alone by saying straight out without beating around the bush....say (her name) may i ask you a HONEST yes or no question?...and when she giggles and says yeah..say would you like to be my date for the prom? .....all she can say is yes or no. if she starts babbling and coming up with an excuse then cut in and say...no need to explain urself it was just a yes or no question if its no, its no,,,thats all, no hard feelings, were still cool...and if she says yes then make plans from that point on..just whatever you do dont look desperate and dont get upset if she says no..there is always a girl who gets stuck without a date on prom night..so play detective, and find another girl to be ur date..
370005
First ask her if she's going. If she says yes then ask her if anyone has asked her yet. If she says no, ask her if she would like to go with you.
806571
If you're trying to ask her out if means you're not doing it. Go up to her like a man and say the words you want to say. No excuses.