im suicidal because my exgirlfriend just broke up with me, help me?
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u have to try to be strong...think about why she broke up with u if u dont know ask her. try to stay on her good side and fight to get her back but dont allow her to see how hard u r tryin if she is takin u for granted cuz she will never take u back she will keep playin with your emotions but if she needs to see how hard u r tryin to get her back let her see. if there is no way u can get her back then seek help from a pro. meanwhile talk to someone about it cry if u have to and make sure u think about the good times and not the bad cuz that will make u feel worst. if u really love her then i think u should put up a fight its better than not tryin at all. as time passes u will start feelin better u will not see it now bcuz she just broke up with u but as time passes u will see things gettin easier. its not gonna happen over night at all this is a healing process. if u wanna talk further about it ill be there for u. email me at jbhola87@yahoo.com...till then feel better. PRAY!
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Sorry dude, this is the way of the world. The truth is that you were dating "the kind of girl" that would do that. So, it's better that you not be with her. \n\nConsider yourself a free man. Go forth and date other women. Just make sure you don't take her back or act like it is ruining your life. You need to be the better man (or at least act like it). Your best bet is to show confidence and near indifference to what happened. Other girls will flock to you.
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Hey Thor, I've been there. So, i can feel what you are going thru. Let me tell you this..Leave the past alone. Dont think of it. I didnt see you writting that you love her. True that u have feelings for her & she is ur 1st. But still, she broke up with you.i.e dont want to be with you. Move on...leave ny thing that remind you with her. Look to the future. It will take time to move on i know...but time is all what you have
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Sounds like your girlfriend isn't really in a "fun" mood right now, friend. Honestly, just be there for her. There is nothing you can say or do to help her get over such serious traumas, so always be ready to lend an ear or a hand. I promise this is help you guys get closer, and by the time she's ready to move on with her life, you'll have a better relationship than you would have without any og this.
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Call the suicide hot line talk to them they can help you and perhaps even get your friend to talk to them. \n\n1 800 suicide (784-2433)
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just do nothing la!!!! just kidding... what about make her happy... just let her go... 1 day when you are gone from her life than she will know how meaning full you are.. then try again... if it does not working, there is something wrong with you man... I'm 14 to so i know how to handles girls at my schools....
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that's a very bad situation. only advice i can give you is based on the experience i had last year. my situation started out like yours and ended with me stayin in a crack neighbor hood and my boyfriend tryin to kill himself cause of the ex. i think it's a bad situation and you need to take whatever steps you can to get her to stop. legal or illegal. if this situation is f*ckin with your head then you NEED to get out of it. don't put up with S*it like that, you don't deserve it. there are other ppl out there
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You sound depressed and suicidal.  Hon, get help.  It's not here.  Good luck
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Say "Good-bye", give a great "Sponge Bob" wave.  \n\nDon't waver from this...unless you want to look foolish.  If your ex wants you back, they'll let you know.  So, you can hold your dignaty and bow out, or you can beg and beg and beg only to be rejected more and more and more.\n\nIt hurts, all I can recomend is find something that makes you happy...Go find happiness.
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Oh my GOD!!! That has to be the saddest story that I have ever read on here. You poor poor fella. This is for you *A great big hug* If it helps I have some nice boobs. I hope the best for you, and you have to remember that Tomorrow WILL BE BETTER!!! It has to be. You should think about dumping that skank of a ho girlfriend You deserve a lot better and you know that you do, and you should think about going to the doctor and if you need a little help there is no shame in it, I too have been cheated on and it is the worse and most horrible feeling, I had to go on Zoloft, but the good thing is that it helps and once you can come out of the fog of depression you can see more clearly. You deserve better! Get you a plan of action and figure out what you need to do, Evalute every aspect of your life... is it time for a lifestyle change... change of job, if at all possible kick her out because adding a move on top of everything is going to be more stressful, and what a B*tch to laugh at you after what you went through, find a safer jogging route... and did you ever think that maybe that guy punched you because she is banging him? I kinda wondered that when I read, because that is just too strange that a guy would punch you for NO reason, and then she laughed on top of it... Go out with some friends or family, if you don't have any... make some, you need to surround yourself with loving and caring people. Best of luck to you, and I hope that your nose isn't broken a nice guy like you doesn't deserve that. *Another big hug and maybe a  little kiss on the cheek*
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go in a chat room or something try yahoo chat rooms, or a suicide hotline.
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first things first you will definately be hurting her no matter how you dump her....the qsn should be how do i dump her gently so as to reduce the amount of hurt.\n\nfirst of all, dont delay it tooo long, choose a suitable location like her house so that after breaking the news she does not have to walk out in the street crying but can lie on her bed and cry.  tell her the relationsip is not working and dont give too many details esp. if their is another girl involved dont tell her this trust me she does not want to know. tell her you would still like to be friends coz you like her as a person. \n\nall the best dude, breakups are never easy.
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Sweetie, you are not alone. If I was there with you I would give you a big hug and you could have a good cry. Then I'd feed you ice cream and just sit with you. Maybe we could go outside and enjoy the sunshine if you felt up to it.\n\nLook at all these people who care about you! Please reach out for help again--like you have here. There are community call centers run by caring people who can help people like you who feel suicidal. Please, look in your phone book. Or go to the hospital or urgent care health center.\n\nOr check out www.samaritans.org.uk/\n"Samaritans is available 24 hours a day to provide confidential emotional support for people who are experiencing feelings of distress or despair, including those which may lead to suicide."\nhelp available via:\n-phone\n-text\n-email
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just move on with your life.hang out with your old friend..do the things that u usually do with ur girls.participate in a sport or any club that u once have in ur mind.just forget him/her. i mean totally forget him. dont even think about your past with him/her,it will make it more worst.
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go to the doctor and get treated for depression.\nit sounds like that is more of the problem than your ex.
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Don't know your circumstances but I will tell you what worked (eventually) for me. \n1. Pretend your ex has died. Sounds severe but forces you to forget about "getting back together".\n2. Make yourself absolutely un-available to the ex. Take comfort in knowing they will miss you. Be a mystery.\n3. Rid yourself (or at least attempt to) of your worst personal defect. Are you overweight? Any addictions? Unemployed? In debt? Pick one and do what it takes to fix it.\n4. Don't take heartbreak or the break-up too personal. I personally think testosterone (and estrogen)cause insanity.\n5. Remember this: You cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved.The rest is up to them. Go to link below for more like this.\n6. Above all, do something positive, for you.
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Love sometimes hurts.  This is one of those times.  You must either break up with her or insist that she break up with him.  This type of situation can lead to devastating results.  What if he finds out you are having sex with her and goes crazy?\n\nIt sounds like your total breakup is only a matter of time.  That being the case, the sooner the better.   The longer you are involved, the more hurt you will feel and the deeper the pain will be.  If she cheats on him, she will cheat on you.\n\nIf you get back together,  learn to be more considerate.  Better to bite your tongue off than to say things just to be hurtful.  Write your feeling down.  Read them back to yourself two days later.  Then you might want to edit what you wrote or even destroy it.\n\nI'm sure you know a lot of other girls.  Wait a while to heal and get to know some of them better.  You will be so much better off.\n\nGood luck.