is it okay to like your best friend and ask him out or would it be to weird?
454460
I did it...8 years ago.  We've been married for the last 7!!!  So, it's ok.  BUT know that once you cross that line, there will be no going back to "the way things were" as friends.  So decide if you like him enough to risk a good friendship before you make your move.  Maybe think about it for awhile before you decide...even if you think you're really, really sure.
799218
If you want him to ask you out, I would suggest telling one of your friends to "accidentally" let it slip that you like him and see what happens the next day.  It might be weird with your friends and him if you went out with him, but your friends will get over it if they know how much you really like him.\nGood Luck!
261061
not necesarily but you should throw some hints if you like him and maybe it will push him over the edge and he will ask you out of just leave alone if he thinks your kind of weird for doing that-lol
437147
Here is a defining moment in your life.. \nPut yourself in your friends shoes.. as exciting as it may be to be you right now.. \nHOW would you feel if the sitch was reversed.. NOT too fun to get screwed over by your best friend and boyfriend.. \nDO you become a good person, and decide your BEST friend is more important to you then a guy.. \nOR do you become a beotch (sorry, but that is what you would be) and take your best friends man with no regard for her, or her feelings.. I'm saying.. That would be pretty fu**cked up on your part.. (actually what you're doing right now is pretty f**ked up in itself.. just plotting )to do it.. YOU should be more of a friend then that.. And just remember Karma is a beotch, and who's to say he wont leave you for one of your friends.. ?
555834
I diagree with the first responder.\n\n\n\nSex with your best friend doesn't always change anything.\n\n\nMy best friend (I met him in my fall semester of College), and I have recently become,well, to put it bluntly...\n\n\nSex buddies. But our relationship stays 100% the same. NOTHING at all is weird between us.\n\n\nI live by a motto:\n\nThe best friends make the best lovers.
711551
Well i did it when my best friend liked our guy best friend and i asked him out to the dance and she got really pissed cause she found out i liked him. We didn't talk for about 2 months and now we're sorta friends. But technically i'm really happy i went to the dance with him cause now i'm really close with him and i love him to death! So yeah definitely go for it. Living isn't living without taking risks.
1143506
you shouldnt ask people out all of the sudden. you might freak him out. first get to know him and become friends. then if he seems to like you and you still like him, go ahead and ask him out.
686998
Okay, you like him, and you don't just like him........you LOVE him, and deep down inside, you feel REALLY upset that he likes your best friend, even though they go together, you still want him, but I guess only patience is your only option, I'm going through the same thing- except I don't know if my crush likes my best friend, I don't think he does either. But yeah, only time will tell. Hope this helps.
410041
I think you should ask your best friend and find out how she feels.  It would be wrong to loose a friend over a guy that you are not even sure you like.
473310
I think that deep down that you truly love each other and want to be with each other.. just give it a shot.. your best friends already.. so go for it!
224925
Yes*\nAnd he turned out to be the love of my life. AND I later found out that 'the friend' was not really a friend at all.  \nHowever, the rule of thumb is, if your best friend likes them, 'their off limits' until either they break up or she moves on. And even then, your supposed to ask your friend if its ok to make a play for that special hottie
255700
You didn't word the question in correct English, but I think I got the idea. Yes, you should date your best friend! That is the most ideal mate any girl could ever ask for.
903645
Hi. I am Renee. I have some advice for you. Ask your friend or your best friend to ask this special guy's best friend or friend if he likes you. If your friend "reports" that his friend doesn't know, then ask him yourself. I had that happen to me once. I asked him . And guess what? He became my boyfriend 2 days later. Hope you follow my advice!!
377165
most guys would prefer to have their best friend for life.\nand falling in love is the best way for that.\ntry suggesting it casually. and i hope he has not told u already abt his engagements. if yes also u still have a chance. after all. hes ur best friend. and he knows it. and guys dont usually let go their best friends.\nand dont be too late.\nBest of luck.
828143
`Is the guy single?  Is he dating your friend?  If he is, would you want your best friend to stab you in the back?  If he is single then perhaps it may he may be fair game?  In any case, I would choose friendship over love.  Plenty of people out there in this world to date.
838275
I wouldn't make a move on my best friend without being 100% sure he feels the same thing. You might be risking a lot if u tell him and he doesnt feel the same. \n\nSo i'd say if u like other guy start from there... maybe it works with that guy and u forget about ur best friend... if it doesnt work then just wait u have something more concrete before telling anything to yur best friend.
192150
YOUR FRIEND MIGHT FEEL A LITLE WIERDED OUT, BUT EXPLAIN TO YOUR FRIEND THAT YOU STILL WANT THE FRIENDSHIP AND YOU RESPECT THE FRIENDSHIP. YES YOU MAY LIKE THIS PERSON BUT YOUR FREINDSHIP MEANS MORE TO YOU