What should you do if you're in love with your friend AND you have to work with him? Do I tell him or suffer?
452444
You should be careful, did this friend show any type of feelings towards you. Don't mess up a good friendship be careful.
272245
well, you cant be with someone that you dont know what you feel for him. so tell him how u feel and keep him as a friend until u are sure of your feelings. do it soon before his feelings get stonger and you hurt him more.
486099
Accept the friendship and hope it grows.  Don't force it or you will drive him away.  If you really care for him, you will be okay with just being his friend as long as he is happy.  It may hurt but, if you love and care for him, you want what is best for him = not you.
592460
i know exactly how you feel... well, at least i think i do.. i am in love with my best guy friend whom i have known for almost 11 years... we are reallyc lose and a week ago, he confessed that he believed that we were meant to be.. blahblah.. and then we kissed.. and it's been a week and i have a feeling that he's avoiding me.. he's always busy and within the last week, he called me ONCE... that's it. and it was for a brief conversatio. i don't know what is going on... its really hard to do anything.. because i know that we were friends first.. and i dont want to risk it..\n\nmy advice to you... confront him before you assume anything and talk with him... talk it through... conversation is the best option you have... dont do like what i did and talk it out. it will save YOUR HEART from a lot of pain....
182099
well....if you don't love him than tell it to him so later he won't feel as bad as he would now.....or else you could just say that you just want to be friends now
1051561
my friend is in this situation... the best thing to do is tell him, it may be hard but otherwise everything you do... will lead him on.  until you tell him bluntly you dont want to be more than friends he will always be hopeful and then hurt every time you like flirt with another guy etc.  really regardless of how hard it is, you need to tell him so that his healing can begin and you can go on the road to becoming the great friends you were before the whole thing started.  if you did decide to try things with him just remember that it could destroy your friendship and it sounds like you dont want that.
1157610
It must suck to be in this position.  If I were in this sticky situation, I would be too scared to tell my best friend that I'm in love with him/her.  But hey, it's not like your best friend in with anyone right now.  Technically, he/she is single.  You can try to make yourself more noticeable and drop a few hints how you feel.\n\nIf you're confident enough, it would be great to confess.  Don't worry, if you guys are best friends, it totally wouldn't ruin the friendship.  I've had two best friends who confessed that they liked me, but we were such good friends that we didn't let that affect our friendship.
855816
i would tell her....you having these feelings and holding it in is already changing your friendship more than you realize, but be carefull how you go about it coz sometimes nothing good can come out friendships evolving into more espeacialy if she doesnt feel the same.\n\nid suggest a strait forward conversation with your friend.    \n                                goodluck!
213658
I know what your going through because i still am im in love with my best friend and before you decide to tell him or not to just relize it sticks with you dont tell him  that your in love with him if its just a crush because it could ruin your friendship maybe not ruin but change it thats how mine is with my friend now  i told them how i felt and was told me they didnt like me as more than a friend,im not discourageing it i think that if you really like him and its not just a crush that  it will have  ruined the friendship even more because when your in love you never just want to be friends cuz it hurts so remember either way you choose if you dont tell him you know youll regret it if he felt the same way about you.Good Luck
924519
Okay i was just in this situation. I love my friend and we have been friends for a while. I mean we have fooled around and stuff and I fell for him I mean really fell. However he didnt feel the same for me he just kind wanted to do stuff. It made me mad about the whole situation I mean if you do try and go for stuff like this make sure your friend is feeling the same way torwards you. Dont pressure anything make sure it is the right thing to do for the both of you analyze the situation and if you decide you should just be friends that is great.
481623
Yes, you should tell him because yall are friends so yall should be able to communicate about this type of issues, yea if I were u i would tell him the truth and maybe yall can take yall relatisonship to the next level...!!
584698
u need to tell him or otherwise u will dwell on it 4 2 long and the right person 4 u wont be there at all....my best friend told me that he liked me when he knew that i was in love w/ my husband (he wasnt my husband then tho)...he knew it was never gonna happen but he did it neway...we're still best friends...if ur friend is the kind of friend u say he is, then he shouldnt mind u tellin him at all
1116724
You probably want to stay clear of that one as you may lose a friend.. You can tell them  you are gay.. That's accepted today.. BUT if you tell him you are gay and you are in love with him,  you risk losing him as a friend.  Start out with baby steps and then if he is cool and opens up to you too and tells you he is gay, maybe you want to begin with trust, going out with him, working out with him etcc... He will get the message and you will see from his demeanor whether you have a chance or are even his type.. To recap, you can come out to him.. If he comes out to you, then you need to be passive and let him figure out that maybe you are the guy for him.. BUT don't comeout and tell him you love him.. Disaster waiting to happen..
195825
if you love him/her, accept it, but if you aren,t you can tell him/her, he/she is friend for you couse this is the best relationship for you and her/him now. tell him/her if it become more than friend may be your relationship become not close again!
230871
Let him down easily to ease the working relationship.  Try to still be friends.  It may be stressful at first...but it can work.
546262
Tell the truth. That he is a very close friend, but the chemistry is not there
743097
You agreed to be his friend, but youre acting like a jealous girlfriend. If you cant handle it tell him now.