how can i make her mine?she is so confused.how can i make her to say truth?.?
447415
You can't exactly make anyone yours, if they are truly meant to be with you then it will come with time (naturally).  The fact is you can't make someone love you because then it's not really love, real love is reciprocated, not a one way street.  If she's confused, then give her some space and time to sort out her feelings, don't force her to make a decision because then it might push her further away from you.  Believe me, when the time comes, you'll know whether or not she belongs with you.
220475
you have to be there and intune for whats best for them. talk to her about it but dont push it. Once you have sat her down and explained it to her then its her turn to either turn her self around or screw up her relationship.
461662
I think the best thing that u can give her is your honesty.You can tell her really how much you love her and give a night or day to her to ask you everything she want and do it for her.
406319
Be straight forward and tell her the truth
520541
You can't make anyone do anything.  You can only be yourself.  Be kind, be generous.  If you have what she wants she will come to you.  Spend time with her if she will let you, but you can not make her feel something that she doesn't want to feel.
739129
Just tell her whatever u have in mind. If thats what u have in mind, then write it. Whatever comes from the heart is sweeter than anything. So tell her whatever u have in mind and in ur heart. And whatever u say, will melt her heart no matter what.
101827
Just ask her!  If you're not convinced with her answer, don't press the issue.  Ask for ways for you to improve her experience.  If she's worried about your feelings, that will give her the opportunity to 'help you along' without embarassment.  Real men appreciate any advice from their lady- so the fact that she offers it- does NOT mean you've been doing it wrong.  And remember, you're not born a great lover, you BECOME a great lover- take any advice graciously.
246487
Dont push her. It will only make her run. Be patient. Give her time and space to think about what she really wants. Dont be afraid to discuss the issues with her either. But you must be understanding to her needs. If you truely do love her.
273585
If she needs someone to read her mind she is going to be looking for an awful long time.\n\nYou can only be yourself ... make her laugh ... gain her trust ... and love her for who she is ... beyond that it is all up to her!
34963
ask her and when you do, do it with compasion and look her in the eyes. Her eyes will reveil the truth.
282944
Most people lie because they don't think people will like them for who they are, so I would simply say "I'm sorry but I don't believe a word you say and until you stop lying to me and yourself I think it would be better if we put our relatioship on hold" If that's too bold try calling her on it everytime you know she's lying. But I think the 1st option is the better only because u tried confronting her and that didn't work. Propose therapy; that's why I love my horses--they don't lie and complain! It's sad to say but we can't change others the only thing we have control over is ourselves and our behavior other than that it's all in God's hands, baby! Good Luck...
639341
MAKE HER SOMETHING!\n\nI know you don't have much time, but it sounds like you have lots of skills, and imagination... put your mind to work!\n\nWrite her a letter about how much she means to you, and frame it... You have a pretty nice start on your response to "Which dream would you like to come true."   TELL HER THAT!\n\nShe'll love it more than anything you can buy!!!\n\nLet me know what you did, and how she liked it... I'm holding you to it :o)\n\nIt sounds like both of you are really blessed to have eachother!
928207
Maybe you should flip the script on her.  Reverse the situation and YOU play hard to get.  As a matter of fact. A great way to put her to the test.  Conjure up an imaginary love interest and tell her that YOU have plans.  Then sit back, look at your watch and count the seconds until she comes running behind you like a little puppy.  Girls love what other women have.  Whether it's their, shoes, purse, or their man.  Then you will be able to tell if she's real.  She doesn't want anyone else to have you, but she doesn't wanna do what it takes to keep you!!
100836
just tell her. you cant exactly tell someone how to do that, cause it needs to come from YOU. your heart, your mind, your soul. not anybody elses. hope i could help.
361555
How old are you? your question irk me! Please answer this, Are you the best for her? If you can't even convinced your heart, how would you be a good man for this woman? she needs more than your "doubts". It's not just your marriage you're talking about, it's her's too, and tell you what, she might have that very same doubt about you! imagine why the so-called strange words (as you said)! Grow up!
504984
Just show her you love/like/want her. Either she'll reciprocate that feeling or you'll have to try harder. But you can't force your feelings on other people; either they feel the same way or they don't.
330908
Well, go ahead and make her mad, if that's what it takes to get the point across!! She sounds like she has a lot of growing up to do, if she changes her mind about a lifelong belief, just for overhearing a conversation about your belief.  I think that what your friend is going through is finding herself and establishing her own truths through experience. I think we all go through that at some point in life. But, I feel you should talk to her at least to let her know to be her own woman and not just another gulliable follower. Just my opinion.\n-Reggie