is it o kay to be in love with an over protective guy?
451968
Of course.  But you must know that he may drive you insane because he'll think you like other guys even if you just glance at them.  But if you love him, then love him and don't let him go.  You might even be able to help him become less over protective.
313329
Yes, because my husband has shown me true love. He has been there through good and bad and always protects me and our children.  I've ran from his protection at times because I have felt sophicated, that's until I realized how blessed I am to have someone who cares about me so much.  He has every reason to be the way he is because our world isn't safe at all.
56839
From my point of view, first ask yourself why you are in love of this guy, and then take a second look to your strategy to approach him. Not all that is shinny is gold. Maybe he is not the right one for you, so you must continue your life and be more careful to the person you will give your attention, love, and care.
293212
Here's the old mystical I Love Vs. In Love question again. If you Love him and Respect him, ask yourself what would be differant if you where "IN LOVE" with him? You have already stated "we are totally comfortable with each other from day 1. We laugh a lot, rarely argue, understand one another, accept one anothers faults and strengths. The sex is quite fun as well." How else would you quantify a good relationship? Then ask yourself the real tuff question, could you live in England? Are your skills that transportable? Could he live here? Are his skills that transportable?
77174
There is no possible way you could be in love w/ this guy.  You hardly know him at all especially if youve only seen him for 4 days.  You may like him a lot but its not love.  Talk to that friend and have him give Travis your phone number.  If Travis is interested, he will call you.  If not, then he wont.  Dont say you love someone until you have dated them AT LEAST 3 months solid.  You are only asking for a world of hurt then if you say it earlier.
313401
I'd say he feels the same way. If what your telling us is true sounds to me like he's into you. Why not throw it all out in the open? Tell him you want to jump his bones when he gets home... I'm sure he'll be happy!!!
807409
WOW! This is CRAZY! I am in the exact, I mean exact same situation! I have a guy friend (best friend at that) and he is a little bit attractive, and I know he is in love with me because he tells me so, but I do not have romantic feelings towards him. Sometimes I get the urge to let things go further (physically) but in the long run, I never let it get that far. I believe, if something is mentally stopping you from going further with him, then you should listen to your gut feeling. It might also make things complicated after you initially sleep together. He'll be calling you all the time, crying about his love for you and whatnot, and you will have to tell him (once again) that you don't have feelings for him. Trust me, this is what happened when I slipped up and accidentally kissed my guy friend....but either/or, GOOD LUCK!!!
616610
It sounds like he may really like you, but it also sounds like he is a bit overprotective. If you decide to pursue this relationship, make sure that he understands the rules. You have to have your space, and if he insists on being with you ALL the time, he may be a bit more serious than you would be comfortable with. If you don't want to be in a exclusive relationship (which is what it sounds like he wants), I'd look elsewhere.
938888
It sounds like you have a really great guy there but the relationship is too intense. Tell him that you are feeling uncomfortable because you aren't ready for such a serious relationship. He needs to back down a bit. Good luck. I hope you can make it work.
1052466
My boyfriend and I have a fantastic friendship. I love him, he does not yet feel the same way about me.  I too am an INFJ and he is an ENTP.  We are possibly too sensitive for the type....ENTPs are rational and find it hard to express themselves. He probably needs you as much as you need him.  How do you know he couldn't love you....he may be expressing it in his own way.  It is near-on impossible to have a friendship with someone you are in love with - you will never be able to give your heart to someone else if part of it belongs with him.  You are young....there are plenty more fish in the sea.
114998
No reason to overcomplicate things. Just go. Maybe a friendly hug is in order. Anything else...just go with what your gut instinct tells you. GOod luck.
190794
Ask yourself if you can live with all the in differences sounds like it might be difficult to always have him being the one who is right and in control you have to do what makes you happy any relationship is a 50/50 deal :)
81750
You're not in love.  You're obssessed - with wanting something (in this case, someone) you cannot have.  Don't worry is a common human trait ... u just got to wean yourself off this man.  He spells trouble and you already know that.  Just got to let your head rule over your heart for your own good.
425885
oh no, I love my guy and we have had it rough over the last eight months, we work it out. our love is stronger than any fight, but you have to really really know you love him and he love you for it to work.
807571
Hi Friend...that;s wonderful for you!  Nothing sweeter than falling in love! Okay...is he just shy or mysterious? If mysterious...then solve the mystery first which will help you know him better and also will not give you any shocks later! But then again...mysterious is always attractive they say. Anyway, if you love him so much and if you feel that he is the one for you...dont doubt whether you can win him or not! After all, he is your friend and you should know him well enough to tell him your feelings without losing the friendship! It's okay to be scared and have doubts but is never okay to let the moments go by lest someone else grabs him. Tell him today how you feel about him....go to the movies or go somewhere both of you are relaxed and enjoying it and then open your heart. Well, in the worst case, drop him a nice sweet loving card...but it's not that fun! Nothing like expressing your emotions face to face...for good or for the worse, still it's worth it! And if you feel that you would prefer to win his love first...then as a good friend, you would know what he likes the most and what his passions are and so go out of the way to make him feel that you have something for him..and if he feels the same about you which we all wish for you...Bingo! Good luck my friend...wish you loving stars all the way...
967455
If you love him, then you're not using him. If you juist have him around because he's caring and generous then you are. I don't think he's so afriad of losing you as he is a sweet natured man who loves you and appreciate you enough to treat you like a queen. How lucky you are!!
258397
Sure. But the thing is, love is a very strong word and the guy may not be ready to reciprocate. If he says he doesn't think he's ready to say that, do not be discouraged.