Uggh such a hard desicion.....?
441715
Are you nuts?? If you do that, she will think that you plotted that all along.
36079
Hard? maybe\n\nToo hard? no.....we can handle this. \n\nNo matter what it is, there is someone that will listen, someone that will help you. That's how it becomes not "too" hard. But you have to let someone know you need that aid. Many want to help.....don't be afraid to reach out.\n\nFor example......asking your question on here was a big start!! Next......call someone......and talk to them about it too. I so hope all works out. Good luck! (and reach out.....don't forget!)
125555
If your faith is too hard to hang on to and you are struggling with it, then you need to find something else to have faith in.  Of course all of the holy rollers here will tell you not to listen to me and all of the crap, but every person has soemthing to learn from another person.  I learned that from the Desiderata.
370732
Is it really that hard to behave?
689190
If you have no control over the situation, you might just have to face it!\n\nIt's probably one of the hardest things to do in life, but sometimes it has to be done! It takes a strong person to stand up and admit the truth!
746489
yes it is harder...we do it bc were afraid that if we give the next person our trust  that the same thing is gonna happen...it sucks to have ur heart broken...bc it makes u wiery in the rest of relationships to come...once that trust is broken...u put a wall up...thats the only way we know how to protect our hearts from shit like that...
1067011
it's possible but it's extremely hard. No pun intended.
716560
lol i dunno u seem to be breakign down already\n\nit's so hard to stay away ;P
846916
thinking difficult  :- (\n\nshopping easy! : )
1013448
This comes from a lack of understanding, and more so the unwillingness to do so. People seek the easier way out - be ignorant about others' and their feelings. They would rather not have to listen to the other side of the story. They are afraid that those who do not think or act like them will someday take away what they believe is the "right way". This stems from their insecurity about the fact that human nature does not follow black and white rules, but follows a path no one person can define. This jeopardizes the cozy compartments people have built around themselves to protect what they believe to be true or righteous.
210648
It just seems like they are hard on you, in the long run it will all be worth it. You will be a better person for it. You won't let anyone run all over you, and you will stand up for what you believe in. Just look at it like they are molding you into a very responsible human being.
303567
it's not easy...just get it over with...don't be a coward...
72971
Its a challenge to walk the talk, thats why. You actually have to change your life to do it...and not everyone is willing to step outside their comfort zone. As to where they are hiding...you got me!
1055345
get over it thats just nasty
759599
It is very a difficult job.may be the lucky ones only get.Anyway do not loose heart try try hard and try to be fair and true to yourself.
1029556
yes , it is very hard
24521
it's hard, why fight it, they say the best way to fight temptation is to circumb to it. let urself go (wisely) and after you have done it, you'll realise you didn't need to in the first place and be able to move on not having to worry about what if...