What is reality of relation between man & women , what like most for women to be with man?
435455
if a woman loves her man the relationship will last long as long there is faith in both of them-security also is very important aspect to this .
525230
Yes this is true. A man wants a woman, not just like his mother, but someone who can privide certain things like how his mother did, cooking. Nice home cooked meals to look forward to. You are nourishing him with something you put together. So you can say its food for the soul and your souls are connected, if you want to look at it in that spiritual way.
519395
I agree that certain things are done male or female in some relationships, but it falls to order in what the two people decide.  In our relationship, in everyday life, to all appearances my partner looks more the female, stays at home, babysits an infant, does alot (but not all) the housework  and does all the cooking.  I play the more male role has a very male job (drive semi) does the lawn work,(again not all) the gardening, pays the bills.  However, in the bedroom our roles are switched and it's my turn to be the sensitive one.  And we do this, 99% of the time for 25 years now.  We're frequently told this relationship is quite unique in the lesbian circles, but it works for us.  So it goes to prove, whatever feels good, I guess.
400433
Finally a man who appreciates the hard working woman.  It's just in our nature to get things done.  Women are the complement of men and the backbone of families and that means not resting until everything is in its place.
1127987
women are more relationship oriented. We are wired to talk and have deep conversations. That is how we bond and feel close to a person. Men, however, bond by DOING. So often it is "out of sight, out of mind" for them. They will feel close and intimate when they see you and can interact with you. They may think about you when you are not there, but it's not the same sit by the phone and wait mentality. What can you do? Try to explain how you feel. Tell him what I told you. it took my husband awhile to catch on, but now he makes more of an effort to try. You can try by not flipping out every time he doesn't call you, and try to understand that it doesn't mean he doesn't love you.  \n\nI understand I am generalizing, and apologize for that. Not every woman is that way, and not every man is that way, but that is how it tends to be for the majority of the population.
121106
a women. with a man it just sounds like he is using her and even if that is the case, no women wants to feel used. Make her feel like u need her.
558299
Women really want a good man that will love them , respect them, treat them as their equal, and be a MAN! They want to feel appreciated, not used and abused. Women want the kind of love that they have seen in movies, where the man "adores" her, and cherishes her. They want a small token of man's appreciation, like flowers, or candy once in a while.
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well I have to say as a man, and knowing lots of other men- I dont believe a man can be a good friend to a woman unless he had sexual desires first.  I think it is very possible to be friends after that desire calms down, but I think sexual attraction is the first thing a guy thinks of when he meets a woman and wants to be her friend. \n\nBoys, on the other hand- under a certain age can be friends with girls without that impulse- but puberty changes us.\n\nLots of women get angry when I say this, but being honest isnt always a popular choice to make.  All of my best female friends -started out as a sexual desire upon first meeting them.  \n\nLots of guys will deny this because women cant handle the truth because it disgusts them. Although I think the same goes for women in many cases too. \n\nMen and women really dont usually have the chemistry to be really close friends without one of them having some sexual attraction to the other, at least at some point in the friendship.\n\nI think it is changing though with the internet, because people can get to know each other without any kind of sexual stimulants such as physical attraction. My very best friend (and yes I adore her and yes I have sexual desire for her but...) started out as a complete mental interest.  I liked the things she had to say before I was distracted by her beauty, but of course I fell in love and NOW I think I have finally learned what REAL love is- by getting to know her as a person before I ever saw her, was a great thing.  I dont think it is foolish love, or marriage love as of yet- but I can definitely feel my love growing for her every day.
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Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus, suggests that men and women communicate in such different ways that they seem to be from different planets. Men use communication to maintain independence, while women talk to maintain intimacy. Whether conscious or unconscious, men often talk to establish status from others. Women use words to connect themselves emotionally, to express feelings, or build rapport. Men often share facts and figures, as if in a report. \n\nYou can read more on this through the link given below. Thanks for the question, i could have a peek too into how men and women differ in communication.
82895
In my opinion, it depends on the woman. I myself want something happy and healthy relationship with a man as well as good true friendship.
214103
Listen Mama, I'm going to be frank with you so don't get upset with me about this ok. Women are very emotional beings and love the whole idea of being in-love, married and having children when the fact remains guys aren't. What's changed from 1940 up to now regarding women and their emotions, not a whole lot. You see the same pattern over and over again with different twists that add up to you being the one with the child or children and daddy's ghost. "he loves me", "you don't know him like I do" when you first meet him go on dates to the library and places where people talk meaningful things and see what happens to guy you think likes you. Jesus spent his entire life mastering himself so what makes you think you got your sh*t together in such a short time. Getting to know someone isn't where he works or what he likes it's his little movements, does he keep his eyes locked on your body or your face, can he get his point across without talking for years or repeating himself, etc.. Understanding the opposite sex takes a long time because you're still descovering yourself as well. I sincerely hopes he turns around and wants to be with you&the baby, peace.
639417
No, women do not love the same way as most men.  I am sure there are exceptions to the rule, but the bottom line is I truly believe that physiologically and psychologically a woman loves differently than a man.  It could be the way it's spoken of in the bible...The woman is the heart where the man is the head.  However, that's not totally true because I know men incapable of being the head.  \n\nI also know that a real woman is not capable of having intercourse with multiple men if she truly love's the man she's with whereas a man may psychologically function differently--in a way where he doesn't feel like a nasty skank at the thought of entering more than one kingdom in a week if you know what I mean. \n\nAnyway that's my answer please see sources for more info.
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I think it should be the same for both men and women.  She should be able to communicate to you with honesty, integrity and openness.  She should be faithful, that is why it is best to marry a virgin and be one yourself.  She should respect you and love you for who you are and not want to change you.  She should be a good helper for you, it is good if she has qualities that you don't have so that, between you two, you can accomplish more things.  It is best if she has the same religious, political and familial views as yourself...that will eliminate many fights and problems in the marriage.  As I said at the beginning, these are qualities for both men and women.
554169
No man can be Mr Right for all women. One can be Mr Right for a woman who they share life ideas and life style togetherand of course when he is attractive just for HER eyes.
586731
There's something in each of us which seeks to be close to others. Many women can satisfy this need by friendships with other women. Most men, however, view other men as either competitors or as someone who can help them succeed at whatever they want to be successful.\n\nThis causes men, particularly in Western societies, to view their significant female other as the one person on whom they can always depend to be supportive and non-competitive with them. Thus the multi-level attachment. \n\nYet men are also genetically driven to desire women who are physically attractive ( which is a biological indicator that such women can bear children easily, whether children are wanted or not ). Many, many times this conflict between the need for supportive relationship and the desire for attractive, fertile women explodes into broken relationships, broken homes, and broken lives ( including physical problems, largely due to stress ).\n\nA woman who truly wants to hold onto the man she has chosen would be wise to take care of herself physically and keep herself as attractive to her male partner as possible, and to NEVER, ever use sex as a weapon!\n\nYes, there are numbers of exceptions to these rules, but any man who is being totally honest will agree that there is ( or has ) been an internal battle between his need to be close to his significant other and the all but overwhelming desire for other women.
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There is no ideal, sweetie. It totally depends on...well, so very much, including, the woman, the way the guy works what he has, and myriad other things. More than anything, though, while yes, some physical things are kinda important, the absolute most important thing is the way you make the lady feel both when she's near you and when she's miles away from you (she is stimulated much more in her mind that she will be anywhere else). Hope this helps!
297659
Men are very sexual beings and often offer, or pretend to offer, love for sex.  Women often do the opposite and offer sex for love.  Of course emotional intimacy is the most important part of the relationship and the part that lasts, but men's make up does not really allow for that.  They are physical and visual creatures and women are emotional creatures.  How in the world do we ever pair up???  With maturity, men do come around...that is why women mostly marry guys who are older, they mature at a later age and women need to find ones who meet their own maturity level.