my boyfriend only like to have a*** sex Ive learn to like,but he makes me feel like hes a homo?
447738
Wait a minute let me STRESS this point to all who may not grasp the concept...if your man was as you put it a homo then he would be doing this with guys and not you! If a guy prefers this which by the way is common it means that this paticular area is alot tighter than the other....
298720
Stop making an issue of him being gay. He is a person just like anyone else and Im sure it would please him to be treated as everyone else. Going out of your way to  "please him" in some special way will comeoff as fake and he will feel it.\n\nJust be yourself and work as usual.
1042501
Sounds like he could be the one for you! He doesn't want to mess up high school with a sexual relationship, why do you? It's showing that he does Really care for you, if he wants both himself and you to be more mature BEFORE you enter into a mature relationship! Get your mind out of the gutter, and be glad that he feels that way about you.  If you are upset and want sex, no excuses, then perhaps he is the more mature one in this relationship.
601920
Kudos on ur boyfriends attitude... can't u see what he is doing?  he's got u all worked up, his building much anticipation, and that my friend leads to awesome sex encounters.  SUAE.
96262
Sounds like your boyfriend has less imagination than he thought he did. Or, he took it slow since it was your first time together. I would hope for the latter.
895059
he probably thinks that u like it. Maybe you should talk to him and tell him you know i really love it when you touch me but sometimes i feel it is inapropriate and a little too much..
1005913
My psychic opinion is yes, he is gay...   but either isn't completely aware or hasn't completely accepted it yet.\n\nIf you enjoy the attention, tell him so.  If you do not, tell him to stop.  If you would like to take it further, next time he is rubbing your stomach, tell him he could do that a little further south and you wouldn't mind...  this should get you where you want to go.\n\nGood luck and have fun...   \n\nPS  don't forget the condoms.
154819
NEVER just stick your finger in a guys a hole just at a random moment.  And if you do stick a finger in it, LUBE IT A LOT.  Now if you reach behind and could stic a fist in, then that's another matter entirely.  Even if he liked it does not definitively mean he is gay.  Sexuality is learned, and so is butt hole play.
1071049
Some gay guys can have sex with women and still be gay. There's no 'turning' either way. You are or you aren't or you're Bisexual. He may be confused, he may be bi, or he may be having a spell where he think's he's going to hell or something. I'm the gay guy magnet, I know, I'm the ultimate f@g-hag and I've seen just about every case. lol Maybe you should ask him if he could ever see himself spending the rest of his life with a woman. If he says yes, he's bi. If he says no then he's probably just a horny jerk. Guys are jerks sometimes, gay, straight, bi, or sluts. lol
157048
Well, first off, you can't *make* someone like you.  \n\nSecond, tell him EXACTLY how you feel.  If he doesn't feel the same, and all he wants is a piece from you while you want more, kick him aside and find someone else who respects you for YOU and not your genitals.\n\nIn other words... communicate.  If you can't communicate now, you'll never be able to in a relationship, and before you know it?  You're on an episode of COPS, getting beaten up by your meth-addicted boyfriend who only wants you for sex.
1079019
What the heck? It's definetely odd. Just tell him that you don't feel comfortable with it I guess.. lol
1093738
He may not be comfortable expressing his romantic side with you because he is unsure of how you will see him. He may want to be seen as masculine and may see showing tenderness as feminine. This is why I don't get into the gender bending stuff. He may be confused that real men don't want to kiss and he sees you as his woman so he is not going to initiate anything tender. Or maybe he is used to not having to initiate anything. If he has only been with guys much older they may have done everything to him so he didn't have to make a move on his own.  If he enjoys the sex then he will eventually learn that you require some heating up on his part and you need to give him positive reinforcement. When he does even the smallest nice thing for you praise him as though it where a grand romantic gesture. As he realizes how much that turns you on he will gradually expound on that. \nOne other thing that might just might help. Talk to him. Tell him you want him to take the lead every once in a while tell him you need him to take your hand on occasion and sometimes you would like him to just reach out and grab you, pull you close and kiss you. It may be awkward at first but if he gets enough reward for his efforts then he will continue with gusto.
660985
I am sorry to ask you that why do you have this feeling does your boyfriend likes you or not.Why is this feeling aroused in you.See if he had not loved you he might have left you long time back and had gone to some other female so which means that he does'nt love you but if he is there with you and take's care of you that means he certainly loves you.So why that feeling.See what i can tell you is when you love a person never doubt him or her until and unless you feel and see that something is wrong with themBut if nothing that thought of suspesion is there then enjoy loving and enjoy living.
166683
Hmm, well first you have to be able to admit to yourself that you "girlfriend" is really your boyfriend. You have to make the decision of whether or not this person is the one that you want to be with (reguardless of sex). Also, you have to admit to yourself that if you stay with this person, you are homosexual, and you have to be ok with that. Just don't be in denial.
118364
I'd say...he's confused.  Chances are he's gay/bi and not wanting to admit it to himself yet.  You are a guilty pleasure to him that he doesn't want to admit or confess to.  In his heart, he's hoping the feelings will just go away, but when you are together, he can't stop them.  Go slow and give him time and space.  Let him figure things out on his own.  And protect your own heart too.  Don't get hurt in all of this if you can help it.
606394
maybe u need 2 give ur sex life a shove. Try sumthing new like new positions. find sumwer els 2 do it instead of on d bed (do it in d car, u'll enjoy it). Ask ur guy if he wants u to try sumthing new d way he likes. Maybe a bit of change is all you need
507734
My advice to you is be honest and open with him, You can please yourself while he is making love to you. Communication is the key here. Tell him what feels good and what doesn't.