why people become fat after marriage ... specially men?
443654
Because once they are married they dont have to try to impress anyone anymore, and they can let themselves go.
1100886
Because usually women by that time had already given birth at least once already and the saggy comes from being pregnant and stretching of the skin.  We have very little control over it if we want to have kids.  But men-they have no legitimate excuse.  Usually they gain so much belly because of the amount of beer they drink-try to stop drinking beer and you would see how much belly fat you would loose-I had a friend that did that.  Basically while women have no control over it and as hard as they would try, unless surgically removed, that belly sagging can not be corrected. While men are just plain lazy to do anything about it.
815010
Because some men think that after they marry the challenge is over.\n\nmandy
65197
I noticed that when I worked out and got really big sholders and arm muscles it turned on my wife more and I had sex with her a little more enjoyable.\n\nI think the idea behind this is it makes you a more healthy person and healthy people have better lung capacity and all that other stuff so it just works out that the sex is better cause its like yeah I'm your body and I can handle all this stuff cause I've been exercised.\n\nFat people are unnattractive so naturally the more you work out the less fat you'll be and the more sex you are likely to get.
344957
have a baby , 2nd after 10-15 years women get extra fat to their bodies , as of their nature , watch ur mom ,and grand mom , so dont rush for extra fat
818673
This is due to the hormonal dis-order of your body. Some exercize taught by ramdev baba to be followed, by which the hormones will be properly produced. Wrong exercize cannot help you. marriage is the best solution. If you are married, try to be conceived the problem will be over.
1071768
Be careful. I had the same thing happen years ago. But we swapped with another couple. My husband (Overweight & pushy) started the whole thing, ended up they kept solicitating me and wanted nothing to do with him!
41880
There are often a lot of "eating activities" in relationships.  Going out to dinner is a fun date.  Going to the movies and eating popcorn.  Going out for drinks.  All these fun calories add up, leading to gaining weight.  Plus, you might not exercise as much because you want to spend time with your significant other.\n\nThen you break up.  You might be a little depressed or upset, and not feel like eating.  You want to look your best to meet someone new, so you start working out more, and eating better.  And you lose weight.\n\nThen you meet someone else and the cycle starts again!  Until you meet the perfect someone, gain a few pounds, then get engaged.  Now you diet so you can look great in your wedding pictures.  After the wedding you get content and fat again! :-)
705679
No, you're not shallow, just human. We all want to be proud of our guys even if we're not so great ourselves! You sound very level-headed to me. So, don't feel guilty. My husband is bold and I hate it though I love him very much! We all have something in our spouses that we don't like, that even disgusts us. It's how you deal with it that matters. \n\nLuckily for you, your boyfriend's obesity can be changed. If you don't have the courage to talk to him upfront about this because you don't want to hurt him, get some brochures on how to lose weight and put it where he can see it. If he says something, tell him you think it's a good idea to lose some wieight for you are worried about him health. You can also persuade him to go walking with you. Whatever you do, don't dump a nice guy like this just because his overweight. Many of the so called Adonises are so full of themselves that they haven't place for somone else!  And if your guy loses weight, make a big fuss about it. It wil inspire him to pull through. Good luck!
408902
Just another one of God's little jokes... like why do men peak sexually at 19 and women at 35? It makes no sense. When your normally fat riddled body is deprived of fat for a time some mechanism kicks in that starts squirreling away every gram of fat you consume. To be successful you have to closely monitor your fat intake for a long time (years) in order to keep the weight off.
656595
they get fat because they are pregnant
626336
I truly don't know how people persuade themselves of this, but you're right--it is a fallacy.  Unfortunately, a lot of people simply cling to tradition and faith because it's safe and comfortable.  Thus, they never grow, and many of them end up divorced or unhappily married, bitter about life, unhappy in their jobs, unhappy with their weight, and then wonder why "god" let them down.  It's so much easier to go through life when you can blame a god, a devil, fate, destiny, or someone else for your troubles.  It relieves you of the responsibility...
107810
Are you noticing a pattern here? All the people answering this question are women!\n\nI especially like the one who says…”Why do you care? If you love your wife and enjoy her pants area, don’t worry about it.”\n\nThe reason he cares is because he didn’t sign up to be married to some bovine beast in a sack dress. Do you really think he is “enjoying her pants area” if she has eaten her self to the size of the Goodyear blimp? \n\nWhy shouldn’t this hag make the effort to be at the same weight she was when she got married? Why do women think that once they snag some poor slob they can just start pounding ice cream down their gullet, slathering their meals with gravy, and dress in nothing but moo-moos? There is a reason that hideous sack is called a moo-moo ya know….it’s because it’s the same sound a cow makes!\n\nA couple of people pointed out that black has a “slimming effect". NONSENSE! The only thing that has a slimming effect is pushing your self away from the dinner table before you’ve stuffed your gut to the breaking point.\n\nBottom line here pal, if your wife is asking you if she looks fat, THEN SHE IS FAT!  And the next time she asks you if something she is wearing makes her look fat, tell her to shut her festering pie hole and get on the treadmill!
1080790
A good personallity is a must!  If after you get married and you turn into a nag, or a pain, then it will be a sufferable marriage, but if you have a great personallity, then there is a good possibility that you wont be like that.\n\nBody is optional.  With time and kids, your body will undergo changes for the worse, so whats in a body but the mind, and the personallity.  \n\nEvery pretty girl, loses her looks when they get older...its called maturity.. (Though, some with plastic surgery will keep it or enhance it, but, its not them, its vanity then).\n\nA natural, wholesome girl is the best thing in life!  Some one you can take home to his mother!  Not much make up on, no phoniness about her, just what you see is what you got, and thats the best type of marrying kind around!\n\nA girl that is "high and mighty" about herself, is a loser and will get a  loser husband.  If she puts on "airs", then she is not true to herself, others and everyone will tire of her phoniness eventually, and she will lose her friends that she ever made.\n\nI wish you well...\n\nJesse
491410
People have different kinds of views when its comes to love, dating and romance, having you heard that " ONE MAN'S MEAT IS ANOTHER MAN'S POISON" what you like your friends might not, there are many ladies out  there  who loves fat men, you not gonna be the first nor the last.
121796
It does not dir after marrige. It is just that it get more routine with time and pressure on couples. And on ressure I mean - work, kids, money and so on...
838782
my husband changed his diet - he cut out fried food, sweet snacks, ate frequently.....and he lost weight but not in his face or belly.  Then he got a job where he was on his feet 10 hrs a day and walked a lot.  He lost the chins, cheeks, man boobs, and fat neck.  If I were you I would eat frequent small meals w/o fried food and walk, walk often as you can!