Do YOU feel the need for self-change?
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I am constantly evolving - hopefully for the better - but that isn't always possible.\n\nI see my life as a painting in progress - a long sidewalk mural maybe. I am constantly improving and updating, repairing. Sometimes people drop by and help me work. Some of those people stay for a while, others for mere moments. Some people come by to distract me. Still others come to destroy my mural. Sometimes the damage is severe, other times minor. Usually I am able to fix the damage, but sometimes it can't be repaired.\n\nI don't know why I went into all that.
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I wish I could say yes.\nI am ashamed of myself and all the times I have told myself that I would change.\n\nI am trying day by day to live a life that Jesus would be proud of.
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Sometimes. I dislike the amount of effort I feel I have to exert when meeting someone - whether they are new, old or permanent fixtures.\nI am quite self concious and social events are a nightmare to me. I'd rather curl up with a book or a movie any day!\nThen again, every now and again I'm struck by bouts of an excessive need to be sociable  - I kind of get my fill every few weeks or couple of months and then I'm sated for a while and content to meander about in my own little bubble.
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Of course! What you 'think' inside of your own head is your own business-- 'doing' something about it, 'acting' on your desires, requires a lot more forethought.
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Do you want to do the same ? Have you lost the will to live? Please try GOD.
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In therms of my body, I don't think I would change any part of me becoz God in his love and infinite wisdom created me how he wanted and to change something would show disrespect. Not to mention the fact that those changes are only temporary becoz eventually the problem may reoccur or may get worse.\n\nAs it relates to my personality, I love it because i'm a really nice person and I love to help ppl but unfortunately for me, not every 1 else I meet is like that so in a sense I would have to toughen up a bit but it can be challenging at times.
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Nope, nothing phony about me.  Whether or not you are happy with the way you look, It's you.  Why change yourself?  The problem isn't how you look, it's how you feel.  I would seriously consider counseling before I went under the knife.
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why should i wish?\ncould a new life should changes the things aroung me? If i think soo...........nobody could help me.
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you should be happy with urself if not change so you are
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start loving yourself
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Do you really need to?
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I think this requires a great deal more than just changing someones beliefs. You have to get them to see that what you are saying is in thier best interest, and not just a selfish change that you want them to make to meet your personal need. But, on a root level I do agree you do have to get them to believe they need to change.
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Yes change is possible. Change is also a possiblity when we decide to change for ourselves first, not when somebody else insists that we do it for their sake.
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Do you need attention or something?
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Are you in a bit of a rut?  Maybe need to change a few things.  I mean, do you do the same stuff every day?  Change your routine, go out, live a little!
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BE YOURSELF... Once you start changing yourself to please others, you will open the door to living your life changeing to please everyone but yourself. There is a tendency to loose your self identity once you travel down that path. Besides, there are plenty of people who will like you just the way you are...
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Sometimes. I feel overwhelmed by little things sometimes because the big things seem to drain me. Sometimes reaching out to help that certain person is just too much.