how many people hate theyre parents and why?
440041
i hate you, not my parents!\nlol---dementedly!
574495
Hate is such a strong word to use. I dislike the fact that they are getting pregnant at a much earlier age but that is strongly due to the way their parents raise them. They run free, show little respect, are unmannerly, and they are making bad choices. Now you see a lot of grandparents raising their grandchildren. I believe the drug meth has a lot to do with it also. My daughter got pregnant when she was 14 because I was never there. Now she's 19 and has 3 girls but she is a good mother. I'm very proud of her. She held down a job and continued with her education and graduated. From my past experiences with that drug I knew the pregnancy rate would skyrocket since it is a stimulant. You see, I was the one with the drug problem and always gone and I wasn't a very good mother at all. She was free to run and do whatever she wanted. Luckily, I have many years to live a clean life in case I should be the one raising one of my grandchildren. So please do not lay all the blame on young women.
1085863
i am converting and my parents are catholic and they dont speak to me much..they hate this religion and all ppl in it..its sad really. muslim ppl are so peaceful and nice! they didnt like this idea and still dont like me for it.
1072771
i dont. but the ones who dislike him are careful parents who are worrying about their children.
565769
I think they are because they wanted to do stuffs in their own way because when they were a kid they cant do ir so they want kids to be good but they don't show themselves as a good model so they are basically hypocrites.. If im gonna be a parent someday I'd be the best parent so the generation/tradition/culture of being a hypocrite will stop. and oh yea stupidity has also something to do with it.
553635
i hate people who r soo mean to them \nthey don't understand what they go through every night\nall they want is to support their families!\n\neven though i am not hispanici feel their pain\n\ntrust me ..............i know a lot of racist stories
145769
It wasn't fantastic but who's is.  I mean I always thought it was great until I look back on it as an adult and realize my mom was too controling and my dad mentally abusive.  I still love them but find my self carrying some of their traits and am having a hard time letting the go.
165761
Some of these people really don't have your best interests at heart, telling you to run away, yell, demand, cry. That doesn't get you what you want, and it doesn't help you learn how to deal with the real world, who don't really care if you're having a bad day or not. Not knowing you or your parents, I can only speak from my years of experience, raising my two kids to adulthood (with NO bloodshed!). When my teenaged daughter yelled at me, it did not make me want to give in or get all warm & fuzzy. It made me clamp down and cut her off, sending her to her room, often with a lot less than before (like being grounded for sassing). The best way to deal with parents who have clamped down on you is to find out why they are holding you back. Do they have a reason for not trusting you? Have you done something to make them clamp down on your freedom? If you're too young and you want to do things that only older kids are doing, they are trying to protect you from what could be a very bad situation. They have experience, that's what makes them know what to do. No, parents aren't perfect. We have screwed up lots of times. But, we remember what it was like to be your age, and all the feelings that go with it. That hasn't changed over the years. Feelings are still feelings, no matter how long ago we were kids. When you become a parent, you want to protect your kid from all the nasties that are out there, especially other kids who we have NO control over. We don't know what kind of morals other kids have been raised with, or even IF they have any morals. So, us parents have the tendancy to hold you kids just a little too much sometimes. Even though we know that we have to gradually give you your freedom, the process is sometimes painful for us to see, especially when we see you act in a way that brings too many memories back for us. It's like watching a train wreck. You know what's gonna happen if you don't warn someone to throw the switch on the track, but sometimes the wreck has to happen to fix a bigger problem. That's why some parents let their kids get thrown in jail, even though everything inside them wants to just hold them close and save them from harm. It's better that they learn some hard lessons before things get really bad. So, it really bites, being a parent sometimes. Try to think of what your parents have to put up with. Maybe changing places with them for a day will help you see what they have to put up with on a daily basis. It's not just off to work, then come home and put your feet up & yell at the kids for not getting their chores done. It's more than that. Many kids say they can't wait till they get to be 18 and free. Guess what? With freedom comes RESPONSIBILITY. You are then responsible for EVERYTHING you do & say. One person said it very well...enjoy being a kid for as long as you can. You're getting your eats, heats and everything else for nothing. Out in the real world, when you need a dentist, you have to pay boo-coo bucks just to pull your tooth out, let alone get a filling. Same thing for when you get sick. Just one antibiotic pill can cost over $10.00 and you'll need on the average of 10 pills to get better. And that doesn't even add in the cost of seeing the doctor, which is $60.00, where I live. What I would suggest, little one, is learn to listen a little more, learn to help a little more, and after a while they just might loosen their hold on you. When they can see that you're showing signs of growing up and taking responsibility, they'll give you more freedom. But, don't blow it by taking advantage of their trust. Once you have it, losing it would take you that much longer to get it back. Also, if you ask them how you can help a little more around the house, it would make a big impact on how they treat you in the future. When all you give them is attitude, that's all you'll get back, along with a very lim
725325
I do think a lot of the way people turn out to be can be hampered by nurture and how our parents have treated us.\n\nOn the flipside though I think that as humans we can (if we really want to) break the cycle.  A lot of the time and believe me it can be so easy to lay blame on our parents as it's the ultimate cop out but if we wish to show true character we can try to stick two fingers up to them and be everything that they're not.\n\nI know for a fact everybody that knows me including my husband has said that I am nothing like my parents thankfully and it has been so difficult.\n\nI do have depression which is stemmed from my childhood but for the most I don't like to use that as an excuse to try to make me the person I am\n\nWe all have weak moments but honestly you can really do it, it takes a whole lot of strength but it's worth it just to say you didn't beat me and you're not over me.
43167
All parents are the same. And I used to feel the same way like you. But the things started to change once when I told them: "Sorry because I am not perfect! Probably, you have never made ANY mistake in your life!"
186249
lots of love an effection. They need to be expose to society to. Alot of parents want to keep hem away from it, but its not good.
875204
I hate them and think that those that have them, especially around children are ignorant.  I don't care how docile a person thinks they are, they continuously prove themselves to be capable of mauling and killing.  To those that have children and own a pit bull, I believe that they should have their children removed from their home.
762882
They somehow believe that children spend the most time with their parents or with people that their parents would otherwise disapprove of, but given that their parents have "no personal assertiveness" or are working long hours in difficult and unpleasant jobs they have no time to see what their kids are up to and hence from whom they are receiving their bad influence. Society also assumes that bad parents are a bad influence on their children, whom it is assumed spend all day watching and learning bad habits from mum and dad. I think offspring in any situation get to compare their own parents with other people's families. Every family is dysfunctional in some way. It doesn't matter how you start out, as long as you finish the right way.
1148611
my dad did it... he absolutely hated it!
791147
Sounds like you hate white people to me.  . Every race on earth has its share of good and bad. I am white and I didn't have my first child until I was 32 so that blows your theory
584194
Why do people of this generation hate the previous generation? The answer lies within the question.
678658
I don't hate the people you mentioned.  I do feel sorry for them.  It is sad that they are not proud of their heritage.  It is unfortunate that children don't learn the language of their parents.\n\nThe thing that really bothers me is that many Mexican move to this United States and never learn English or make any attempt to assimilate The US culture.  I think it its great to preserve your families culture but you should not complain that the dominant culture treats you differently when you insist on living your life as a foreigner.\n\nA few weeks ago there was a protest march by thousands of illegal Mexicans demanding civil rights.  They marched down the streets flying Mexican flags and chanting in Spanish! \n\nCan you imagine any other group mounting such a display of nationalism bin any other foreign country?\n\nP. S.  My father is a Mexican. I speak and write fluent Spanish but my allegiance is to the United States because this is where I live and earn my livelihood.