What are some signs my marriage is over?
455122
Maybe he has erectile dysfunction and doesn't feel like he can talk to you about it.  Maybe it is a similar issue, why do Women always jump the gun, unless you want it to be over and in that case why would you ask us (Yahoo people).  If you are ready to move then don't try and find every little 'bad' thing about your man, just do it.
1051929
Key indicators...\n\nMood swings, goes from happy to sad, feelin bad to feelin really good.\nMissing items, or missing money\nstays in the bathroom for a while, and if it is your spouse, you know usually when it is odd.\nIf he is snorting, then blowing their nose, before coming out of restroom, and wiping their nose..\nlack of sex drive, depending on what they are on.\nsleeping for very long periods.\nin a hurry to go somewhere..... \nI hope for you this is not the case, it is miserable. My husband has been on painkillers for years, and i had no idea, until after i married him, so it is hard to live with and accept...
604066
I actually just told my husband to leave me alone the other day,but he asked me what was wrong and I said,'hormones...just leave me alone'. He did though and I felt better after having some time to myself. I think your husband needs to realize that no one is happy all of the time. We all need time to ourselves and it is good for you and good for the marriage to be able to take this time. As for having a big blow-out about it...I would've walked away. I don't take that crap anymore. It isn't worth it to me to talk til I'm blue in the face,trying to explain 'why'. I shouldn't have to. An argument doesn't really get you anywhere. I tend to wait until things have settled down and then have a conversation about it and find out what he is feeling then. I gave up a long time ago on trying to justify myself to him. We actually have a better marriage this way. Good luck to you.
611209
My former marriage became loveless.  Symptoms included: Constant Criticism, un-achievable "expectations", no eye contact (unless angry), lack of communication, no physical contact, no interest in the others needs or desires, blaming the other for not reaching personal goals and own poor self-image, regular suspicion of motives, questioning of simple decisions......to name a few.
189658
Just because she asks for space doesn't mean its over, she just has to find peace with her insights about you. you should still call her and go see her and love her. maybe even going to see a marriage council may help. and yes they do offer help to engaged couples. to make her more at ease about you, invite her out with you and your friends and anything she needs to find peace. but still give her her space. If all else fails and problems seem to get worse, maybe it wasn't meant to be babe. all will work out in the end and good luck in your relationship, you deserve a good lady by your side!!! :P
883294
Yes...I was married for 18 years and the last few years felt like this all the time OR didn't want to be at home when he was there.  As hard as it was I realized it was because we had outgrown each other and weren't making each other happy.  We have since separated and are living our own lives.  We are MUCH better off as friends then we were as a married couple.
26696
You and your wife should see a counsler because something is not right in the marriage.For Real!!!!!
118932
I don't believe in soulmates, so I don't believe that you can know that. On the other hand, I believe that some people are meant to be together for this life. That's determined by God, so I don't think there are any predictable signs that you can look for.\n\nSince you are already married to him, the question should be moot to you. Both of you work to make it better every day, and no soulmate could make you happier.
636974
My ex-wife's went away after a few months. If it doesn't, ask the doctor. They should know.
1147913
Wake up.  Don't you watch the show Cheaters?\nThat's what he's doing to you. Don't fall for it.\nHe doesn't care how you feel about things.\nThat's a big sign that things are over. If he loved\nyou,  he wouldn't hurt you by living with other\nwomen. I bet he and his male friends got a big\nlaugh off of that one.
785858
I have been married for 8 months, after being toghether for 4 years. The relationship went worst and worst from the 4-th day of marriage, and now we are waiting for the year to pass, so we could divorce... 0.001% satisfaction... :(
859949
lol maybe u should look at ur marriage again and find out wheather u have a good realtionship with her ;)
724509
Sure, there are signs, but only if you're willing to see them.  Shall I make a list?\n\n1) Loses interest in sex.\n2) Doesn't want to be home as much.\n3) Unexplained time away from home, or excuses that don't hold water.\n4) Hang up calls to your home.\n5) Odd numbers on your partner's cell.\n6) Your partner starts taking greater interest in his or her appearance.\n7) All of a sudden has the urge to try new sexual things.\n8) Takes up new interests or hobbies.\n9) Unexplained use of his or her money.\n10) Doesn't want you to go to what should be public affairs.\n11) Doesn't give you as much attention.\n12) Gives gifts or is sweeter than normal for feelings of guilt.\n13) Starts acting mean to you, saying that you nag too much, are lazy, or some other excuse that would justify an affair.\n14) Comes home and goes directly to the shower.\n15) Isn't hungry when he or she gets home, indicating that lunch or dinner came from elsewhere.\n\nThere are tons of signs, but these are the most common.  If there are more than four of them, on a regular basis, I would hire a PI.
1023064
You need to talk to him. The best way to do this is to go out to a quiet restaurant for dinner together one evening. Stay positive but get your point across to him about how you feel. You also need to ask him what has happened, at least in his opinion. Also, talk about the good times the two of you have had together. STAY POSITIVE! This will help both of you. This could be the start the two of you need to open up the talking again. The more the two of you can talk and stay positive, the better the chance you have of saving your marriage! I can tell that you still love and care for him, I wish you luck!
148440
There is no way of knowing. But what you can do is make the right choices to make your marriage work.
50206
My husband and I have been married for 29 and one half years.  Some years were great some not so great.  But we hung in there and are more in love today than when we married.  Best wishes.
871571
Does it end? Cuz we've been together over 3 years, just got married less then 3 weeks ago and it still feels brandy new to me.\n\nAs far as your husband talking like that to you, clean your dishes, make your own meals and when he leaves his stuff around put it into a box and leave it on his side of the bed with a note saying, since I don't have time to clean up after your mess working full time and going to night classes, you figure out what to do with this junk. I actually can't stand when guys do stuff like that.