why do men want to have sex with a woman before they get married.?
436032
The reason for what men and women have sex is absolutely different. Fo men sex is just an activity that can help them to come out of stress, and rejuvinate. Whereas for women it is more initimate form of expression of love. Therefore women need commitment before they are having sex. for men sex is just sex and it can be totally devoid of any love or comittment. so man want to have sex before or after marriage. It does not really matter to them.
15162
Probably for the same reasons that married women sleep with married (or single) men.  Because they do not respect the marital vows.
183508
When you know a person without sex first, and you really want to be with each other all the time, the sex will come naturally and be mindblowing.  Courting use to be the way it was done years ago.  I believe that's why older couples have remained married for so long, because they got to know each other first and decided to committ the rest of their lives to each other before they had sex.
1147069
First of all let me say this, when a woman takes a husband, that does not mean that she no longer a person.  I have read the Bible and yes it does say that a wife shall submit to her husband!  BUT it also decribes how a husband is to treat his wife to get theses benifits.  He is to hold her up, to treat her like a princess.  He is to hold her dear and stand up for her at all times.  He is to make sure that she does not have a want that he does not fill.   And I know that when you don't want to have sex with someone, then you DON"T WANT TO HAVE SEX!!!!!!!!!!!!And it doesn't matter if the person is your friend, stranger, husband or family member.  Sex is to be something between two people and it is to have meaning, if it is just hot lets F---! Or giving yourself to someone else.  The point is you are a person and NO ONE can just take part of you without your consent.
868096
I wouldn't say most women find married men attractive. The ones that do however l think are the scum of the earth ( if they act on it that is) and a lot do. I think that perhaps it is the thrill of thinking they have got him even though he is married. Big Deal !!!!!!!!!!!!!! don't they realize they are only sex objects to be used. Those women really need to get a life and stay out of other people's. Then again some just like the idea of no strings attached, still doesn't make it right but they don't give a dam.
484481
I hope to say it better than the other dudes..... if she wants to "make love" with you before the wedding than go for it but don't push it on her if she don't want to. to some women it is very sacred and a very emotional experience. talk to her, see how she feels.
397180
the answer is quite simple. men are perverted pigs who know they can't be trusted with one woman. they want to be able 2 have an open relationship so they can do whatever they want with as many chicks as they want and not be introuble for it..hope that answered ur question  :)
856917
Because when men marry, they can no longer have sex with other women. They can only be with one woman for the rest of their lives. They cannot eat of the forbidden fruit. They cannot sample the goodies.
533133
Because they want to have sex with you.
247119
The reason men die before women do, is because they want to.  It gives them a few years of peace before they see them again in the Great Beyond.
355501
some guys just dont want to get married... if things are good, why not just keep them the way that they are.
493849
I just believe that people will do what feels best for them.  All I know is that I wouldn't buy a car without test driving it first...why would I want to marry someone who I might be totally incompatibale with sexually?
996476
same could be said why sex is so important to you people after marriage...whats the difference? ok, obviously no one wants to be with a "whore" but then again i think that people would want to be with someone that is experienced, i know i would. Cause lets face it, peoples sex lives play a very important role in marriage today, 73% of marriages fail due to this and/or they are deeply troubled because spouses are not faithful and loyal to their signifficant other due to inexperience or unfullfillment in that department. I for one, would like to know that my souse can not only satisfy me spiritually, emotionally but also physically. now, with that said, there are those that feel this way, and then there are those who are extremely active. to each his own but thats where i stand. Hopefully my answer has shed some light on the opposite side of you acusations.
1024141
In my opinion, it is normal for men to want to see two woman together.  It's a major turn on for them.  BUT when you are married, it changes things a little.  Trust becomes an issue, and there are a lot of feelings involved!  I think that with single people, it's a different thing, but married people should be a little cautious!
52238
its very simple now in days you see sex all over the place on TV, music, just talking to friends its everywhere and people are saying "its ok as long as you are ready for it" so young people gets this ideal ok when im ready i can have sex. then the question comes when am i ready? and when they ask this question they get their answer form the tv and the music and their friends and they answer it by say “when you are in love”. so they get this funny feeling inside and they think its love so now they are  in love and they are ready. BUT THAT’S NOT IT your ready when your ready to commit the rest of you life to that person and that person feel the same and then you two make that commit by getting marry and once that happens you are truly ready. So yeah young peopel have premarital sex b/c they are being lie to
1096530
maybe you should get married first then maybe god would help you...but no you are going against god and having sex before you are married.
1021316
Men only care if the woman is a virgin on there wedding day.  It may be more expected today that a woman is not but if you talk to most good men when you can catch them at a serious moment you will find most feel the same way.  They will have sex with most anyone that will let them but when it comes to marriage they want a woman who has NOT been areound.  I have 2 sons and on my sons wedding day he said the best gift his wife was giving him was her virginity.  He was absolutely glowing when he told me, he said she saved herself for the man she would marry someday he was shocked and touched beyond words.  So now you figure it out for  yourself.  Good luck