i have a person in my live that i have feeling for but i do not know how to handle it because they is marry.?
439940
move on they are definitely TAKEN. there is someone out there for you.
201273
Give it some time. Love at first sight is just that, sight. Find out everything you can about this person and let them do the same with you. Once you have done that if that feeling is still there then think about the big Married thing. Whats the rush? If you love them today and it's real you will love them tomorrow.
535989
you are probably just nervous. the wedding jitters?? everyone feels like that. if you really love her then go for it. youve been with this woman for 7 years already.
781805
well, you can try to like other people and be more open up to you feelings to accept others....get on with your life with other people... if u and her( the person dat u like rite nw) were meant to be together, it wnt go anywhere, it will still come to you....Patience is the answer...and you cnt force love..... \nBest of luck.....
354541
You need to make a choice then if you are willing to give up everything you have in your life for a possible relationship with this other person with who there are no guarantees.  A lot of married people get crushes on other people, the key is not to act on them and throw away what you have.  Sit down and decide what you want in life and what price you are willing to pay.  If it is this other person then you need to get a divorce and pursue that relationship after the divorce.
428838
how long have you known this woman . marry outside of her religion well i am not the kind to stand in the way of love my frien but have you known her for a while or what well that your right i guess let me be the first to say i hope you and this woman will be happy together in my opion it is you as well marry a woman in her religion she cant marry out of her religion i guess well hope all is fine with you in about.2. years from now god bless in my opion i really hope you know what you are doing well anyway i wish you the best you i figure will need it i am not a person to stand in the way of love but that was quick wish you and the woman the best again ?
878320
I look at it like this.When u get married u will lose all your rights in doing something alone.So u need to stand your ground and do this for u.Plus explain to her what u just said to us. If she doesn't understand then u need to really evaluate your relationship with her. I mean if she is this troubled about something this small then what happens when u two have real problems.I wish u all the luck.
68050
Could be the one for you.  Somewhere outside of work, you should let that person know the way you feel.  He/she may feel the same.  But be prepared for the worst, and if that is the case, you have to move on and forget about it.  If you don't think you will be able to do that, forget about it and move on because you two will have to work together.
100456
You can't marry somone you don't love.Trust your heart.I think you already know the answer.good luck
508061
if he had feelings for her than he wouldnt be with you, he would be with her. dont bring complications into your marriage, if hes not giving you a reason on why you should think that than dont. if he is giving you a reason than try to talk to him about it and let him know how you feel. good luck!
413726
You can't ever tell that.  It is just complete speculation as to when you will meet the person you will marry.  It will happen when it happens and you can't change it.  If you are so worried now, you need to grow up and not be so desparate!  People can sense that a mile away, and I can sense it through the computer.  Just live your own life and you will eventually find the person you are to spend your life with.
216655
hun i know its a weird feeling when u dont know if u want somebody or not when u dont know if u have feeings 4 somebody or not n ur just lose n confused n want help but dont know who 2 go to when u just wanna break down n cry cuz u dont know what else to do when all u can do is think abt that one person n its complicated when u dont know if u like him or not . but like u said dousnt matter if ur not attracted to him if u like his personality n feel like u can trust him n be safe in his arms thats all that counts n it dousnt matter abt ur age k look if u really like this guy  go 4 it look the wedding is coming up if u dont do anything abt it not make a move i swear to god ur gone regret 4 the rest of u life its gone drive u crazy ur gone be more sad n confused just think how awwful it will be if nothing happens on the wedding n u go on like this 4 the rest of ur life thinkin abt him n just wondfering if he was the right one or not evey day. omg that will be so bad thats y plan out think abt it what r u gone do at the wedding look dousnt matter what plp think ur not gone sit there all shy n stuff ur gone go up to him n talk n dance n tell him srry 4 not sayin bye u were in a hurry n that u had a great time last time n thank him 4 it it may sound crazy now look but trust me when  ur at wedding  ur gone be so drunk its not gone be hard to say all that to him lmaoooo but seriousl do it k see what happens. i just wish eveything turns out right well good luck n be strong k i luvv u hun take care remember eveything happens 4 a resane
727164
huh?...well what the hell I'll take a stab at it anyway...do you love someone already? then marry them...if not and you are not likely to meet anyone for whatever reason and you are getting older...go for the arranged marriage...never know you might love him after a while...it could happen..
98541
First off, make sure your not being blinded by that early part of a relationship where everything is all roses and wine.  Take some time to be realistic about really look at the relationship closely.  Liveing together will give you some idea about what it would be like to be married to someone but it won't give you the whole picture.  If after all that your still feeling the same way, just start by mentioning little things about marriage to him to see if it will start a conversation that will reveal his thoughts.
343723
call him up- tell him how you feel- and get it out of your system.  Chances are he'll still get married, your feelings will be hurt, but at least you'll know you tried.  Too bad you didn't speak up sooner, it could have been you marrying him.  Learn your lesson and let people know how you feel while there's still something that can be done.  Good luck.
1070570
Be miserable, like I am. It wouldn't be so bad if the man I married loved and respected me. I guess that doesn't help you, but these things happen. Do what you need to do to make things right, if you can.
451772
go and meet him but you have to see carefully if he actually loves you or not.\nIf you actually feel that he loves you, marry again