My man was rght. My best male freind likes me. freind & I know longer talk. I still miss our ten yrs. Do  im?
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youre married. right, email him why not? you missed your ten years then rebond again but talk to him. make sure he respect you as a fren and only a fren. youre married remember that. and be happy for him if he has a soulmate already
1079370
So you know each other for 2 years..I think it a quite a bit of time in which you might have known each other.\n\nIt is very natural that best buddies often think of next higher level.You also told that he openly confessed he likes you.Now make sure that you also have the same feeling before you go ahead because you said 'I think I like my friend'. Make sure that "I think I like my friend" becomes "I like my friend".\n\nIt is wonderful to be in relationship with someone you know for a long time.\n\nAll the best!
666599
He is obviously not matured enough to continue this friendshi. Don't hold on to him. Just let go that baby. If you are interested in another guy don't keep yourself busy with thoughts about the old one.
737556
did ur frn say something to him?.. or may be just got bored??? but my dear online frns???.. trust me and i speak from exp... don't waste a sec more on him....move on ....
1127647
Well, I was guilty of messing around a little bit with his best friend... but never went all the way (and I am glad).\n\nI went on Vacation and he had a long talk with my bf while I was gone... so, you can imagine that I had some explaining to do when I got home...by the way ~ it didnt help my relationship any if that's what you are wondering...\n\nLet us both ponder this... what "friend" would even consider getting with their homeboy's girl?  Maybe friend isn't the best word?   hmmm?
853516
god! she  is where i was a yr ago. My best fren told me that he loves me, i said 'no lets be only frens'. but u know what a month later i realized that i love him. she would realize it too. the way he made me confess was- he stopped saying directly, but kept dropping hints that he loves me... like how lucky the guy who marries me will be... and how cute i am. \nn then he stopped talking to me for a while, then i mailed him that i really love him. try it. good luck.
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Hi, this is Cat...After 1 1/2 years did you not know how he felt about you? If he's clammed up, obviously he wasn't ready to hear how you felt about him. Usually a guy will be responsive how he feels way before a year has passed, he might not say so, however his actions will speak louder than words. I suggest you give him space real fast, leave him alone for a couple of weeks to a month to think and to chill out. He's probably afraid of commitment or he does not feel the same about you. Do not approach him again regarding this issue, he may bolt like a wild horse and never come back. Instead just be a friend to him for now, if it's not too late. Lesson well learnt, you know what to do next time.
452951
I think you like him more than a friend too. I have rather recently started a relationship, and all I ever think about is her! I hope you are as happy in your thoughts as I am in mine.
647150
i had a 5+ yr friendship with someone     we became best of friends   then we decided we wanted more.... todsy he is my hubby......
449837
option 3. he wasn't much of a friend before, and now that you have relationship baggage and nothing strong platonically to bind you from before, there is no friendship to revive here. too much complication and effort on your part. let him go and make different friends, see different guys, be free!!
172560
I think you should move on. Wait until you find someone that finds you more important than his friends.  If they are friends they understand that an intimate relationship is more important!
614903
how long have you been friends??? frankly, it really should be okay because you've moved on, right? unless, your friend is your bestfriend and she knows how you still feel about him, then maybe that's another question...so, maybe you need to ask your friend what is going on...you know, talk to her or something...but if she's not that close, leave it! like i said, you've moved on right? go find someone else better...someone who deserves you... ^_^
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It's not uncommon.  It is more prevalent thatn you think.  You are probably just infatuated with him a little maybe because of the way he looks or the way he acts.  If you don't want to lose your man then don't pursue his best friend.  Just accept things the way they are and don't worry about it.  Sooner or later you will lose interest in his friend.
324709
da best thing u can do now is to lay evrything out on the table n to c where things go from there... tis better to b honest... da thing is, v, as women, can only wait so long... he's got things n issue tt he needs to sort out first... so, u gaf him time...but u shld haf stated how long i guess...but u say u liked him n not loved him...so, if he still hasn't gotten back to u on tt matter, jus move on my dear fren... there r better pple out there who r more worthy of ur time ok?\nchin up... :-)
602974
Dont Wait. Continue On with Your Life. You seem to be a Sweet Person. You will Make a Man Honored and Happy to be with You.
367520
I feel u, im in the same position but its only 3 yrs not 5 ;p well i told him abt 4 months ago that i have feelings (he's my best friend btw) and that i need 2 take a distance to get over him and we stayed like that 4 a month and it didnt work...try 2 get urself involved with other ppl, convince urself that u like some1 else...(i have no idea why am I giving advice) just try 2 get urself 2 think of some1 else
636712
This sounds like a case of too slow too bad to me.  You never mentioned your feelings to your friend and he made his move before you.  Let it be until hes out of the picture.