If I tell my GF that i would rather her have a better bf than me. would that make her think i dont like her?
443131
yes she will think you don't like her..its possible that she thinks you are the best..if you feel that you aren't why not just try to be the man you want her to have instead of sending her away?
697432
You're not a horrible person. You're simply a liar. Which is an indication of one or two things. 1. You care enough about her to spare her feelings and you like her enough to be what she wants you to be or..2. You're just trying to turn her out. If you lied because you really like her then she may be understanding and if not then she may be really hurt and disappointed. I was once in this situation and I forgave him because I understand that most guys don't feel the same way about sex that I do and at least he cared about what I thought. Believe it or not some women understand that some men lie because they care. As sick as that sounds. Its not rt but in your situation if that's what you did then it probably won't affect the relationship because I'm sure she wasn't expecting an angel.
623377
Your g/f is very immature. I know you said to answer yes or no. But you need to know something...If she is this immature and selfish (which is what it is) then that means she will "growup" in time. When she does its very likely she will also "out grow" you. I don't mean this as putting you down. I mean it as a warning to you. You have accepted this behavior in her. When she changes she may very well decide that she doesn't want a guy who would put up with this. DON'T put up with it. Its rude. And she needs to know you can't treat people this way.\nGood LUck To YOU!
899295
Well- you have honestly already messed things up for you and her to have any kind of serious relationship.  You have shown her how selfish you are by not listening to her when she was trying to vent to you about an ex.  The next thing you messed up with is not telling her that you liked her.  Do you really think she was happy about hearing that you really didn't like anyone?  You had the perfect oppurtunity to get on her "good" side and say "yeah- I really like you!"  So far you have shown her that you don't care about her feelings and that you lie.  Do ya think she might realize you are using her as a sex object instead of a person with feelings???  Good luck!
708476
no. your bf should of had the decency to keep you away from him without being asked to do so. im sure hes the type that thinks hes helping his friend or being loyal. but if it was my gf id of fucked my friend off a long time ago.
448335
NO! If my bf would think about his ex I would have to break up with him. When your in a relationship you have to give you love and care and respect to that other person. Otherwise you might as well break up with her and get back with your ex. That is if you care about this new girl and you don't want to hurt her.
673763
No. Most girls dont mind!!! Unless they r REALLY christian or sumthin. But uh no i dont mind!! My soon 2 b BF AlWaYz cussez!!! So ask her if she minds, if she does just dont around her. If she dont care, go 4 it!!!
491117
a similiar situation happened to me.  to this day i no longer talk to the girl i used to be friends with.  my best advice to you is find a friend that will not choose their bf over you. especially if the guy is yelling at you and she will not stand up for you.  she is not a true friend!
1100876
If she is going to behave like that then ...don't have her as a girlfriend.  It is up to you to be proud of your feelings and not feel humiliated.  If she humiliates you then you allow that feeling.   Telling someone how you feel should make your relationship stronger.  Make sure that she knows that she is your girlfriend though...then just tell her...
472333
that's true love.if you really love her then go out with her and get to know her better to see if she is your type.if everything goes well then continue dating and soon you'll be gf and bf.also be sweet and funny and creative about what you do
1139237
Hm, a girl who likes you and probably wants to get with you told you something about your girlfriend.\n\nSo.. that you guys would fight and maybe you would break up with her and be single (and possibly date the new girl).\n\nWell, who do you think has a motive to be lying?
856218
well she obviously likes you and not him if shes with you and calling him a jackass.. she should stay with you unless shes a total player and you wouldnt want to be with her anyways if she is like that..
99236
If she has any feelings for you as a girlfriend or a friend for that matter she would respect your feelings.  My boyfriend is a terrible singer but I keep those things to myself because i know they would hurt his feelings.  She is not the right person for you! GET OUT!!!!!!!!!!
1004637
If she doesn't want to do anything with you, then she's not into you.  She may have another bf......  no big deal.  Just ask someone else out.
368806
I wouldnt because they were your friends before you met this girl plus if your friend says luv ya that is different than say i love you.Plus if your g/f really likes she would understand
235683
If she likes you more then he other bf then she should dump him, and your not a girl stealer, me and my friend both liked the same guy and she asked him out like three times and he said no all three times then I did and he said yes. thats just who he picked you can't control who she likes, just who you do, go with who you like if you get with someone you don't like then your keeping your self unavilabe to people who do.
578076
No.. and don't let him assume either.\n\nDepending on how much you like him... I would mention you were asked out by another guy ( don't say who )  and dont say you accepted.\n\nMaybe let him overhear you telling a gf..\n\nJust see how he reacts...  that might give you a clue how much he likes you or not.\n\ngood luck\nstef