"Love Marriage" or "Arrange Marriage"?
438656
Marriage, by far. But I'd be open to arranged marriage, if one was to be arrainged for me, and I liked the girl.
82365
Well, i am not particularly a fan of it, but i dont necessarily think itsa bad thing either. The idea of it is marry first, fall in love later.  Iprefer to find my own mate, because if the marriage fails, then it was my fault and atleast i can say, i did love him and for all the went wrong, look at what went right.  When the marriage is aranged and fails, then the tendency to harbor blame and anger exists.  But i think in a way, it still exists all over the world, even in USA.  Being set up  on blind dates, meeting ppl through friends...etc are all formsof arrangements, just not so final.
753934
marriage is a religious and social status.  i've been with my partner for 5 years and we are not married.  our relationship is great. he is always there for me, as i am for him.\ni'm not saying marriage is not a beautiful thing.  or that i don't believe in it.  i'm just saying that some people don't have to have approval from society and the church.  i'm not knocking it, i'm not saying we aren't going to get married.  i am saying that we're happy with our situation right now.
198250
BOTH!   HOW?\nwhy not marry someone who won't mind u following ur dream?\nor marry someone with the same ambition to help!\nCongratulations!
587172
Dont know about traditions.....but....marriage basically means understanding each other so as to live together for lifelong and care for eachother and respects eachothers ideas and individuality...its a overall process of understanding eachother in all aspects...\n\nhence this process is a never ending one and sex is a part of this process which can take place anytime when both wishes....
373215
If you are forced into the marriage do you think they might be forced to be together?  I don't believe it in.  We should have freedom of choice to fall in love with whoever we want.  Everybody deserves to be in love with their mate.  Even choice marriages lack love.
542977
every relationship has to have three Cs.commitment,communication and compromise.\neither its love marriage or arrange marriage,that is immaterial.but for the success of marriage these three Cs are indispensable.
559364
Love marriage of course...unless you're such a hopeless case that you can't find a wife otherwise then arranging a marriage with her!And what the hell has that to do with tennis?
795570
Arranged. the parents picked the bride and groom for their children and did not ask their permission instead they thought they knew best and would marry them to whoever they wanted. They usually looked for good, respectable families who were hard working and possibly rich, the boys parents would have the right to ask for a dowry (which was money gifts, cattle, anything of value) and the girls side would be expected to meet this requirement.\nMany children respected their parents and did not question their decisions but with time this all is changing now, people still have these type of old fashioned arranged marriages but they have a slight modern twist they meet each other and may even go on dates before a decision is made- it depends on the values of the family and the tradition and education they have received as to if this still happens.
166465
Yes, it is called Marriage.
902784
many arranged marriage takes place without love - some grow to into a very deep and real love which will outlast the first honeymoon passion and some don't grow at all and crash.  The first throws of passion are short lived and in its place comes a very deep and real love with a deeper passion that should last many years. The thing with arranged marriages is that they do have a potential to last longer because when you fight you are more willing to keep at it and not let any little thing get to you because you went into the marriage eyes open - there is nothing like love though so decide carefully because although some arranged marriages do grow into a great love and respect some become extremely lonely
459306
Love just happens, but you have to remember that people can grow to love each other.  I know of countries that still have arranged marriages.  I think that in these instances the two involved are less fortunate than Americans who get the opportunity to find love on their own.  But, this has been going on for many many years.  I don't believe that Americans should set up two people with the intent for them to be happy.  As an American we know that happiness comes from the heart and has to be aceived on our own.
873527
Dating is better than marriage as you have the opportunity to date many different people.  Whereas with marriage, you are stuck in a monogamous relationship with the same person.
995885
Arranged marriages, offer more protection, security to the women. As the parents decides the family. Parents make use of maturity and wise decision while choosing suitable spouses for their children. The mature decision of parents sometimes helps to make the right choice. But it doesn't mean that arranged marriages are ideal marriages. Even in an arranged marriage there is a different sort of social pressure. Social evils like dowry, caste system, matching of horoscopes and community issues are taken at such extreme levels that people don't support arranged marriages. So whether it is love or arranged ultimately it is up to the individual to decide, which one to go for. Love or arranged both is based on empathy, responsibility, commitment, love and concern
248244
Are you talking about marriage or work????????????????
947177
Hi.. Josie .. how are you?\nHope you remember me.\n\nDowry marriage is still existing in many parts of India. But the percentage is really decreased. The people are not demanding nowadays. But ther are happily accepting whatever the bride's father offers.\n\nI hope this trend will go soon.\n\nHowever this is not applicable for love marriages.
302427
Neither.  Either phrase comes across as love is a condition.  I believe that love is unconditional.\n\nSo if one's intent is to use love for a purpose, then the first phrase conveys it more so than the second phrase.