How can I find a women to talk to openly about my marriage isues ?
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OH! COME ON,DON'T BE SILLY DON'T YOU KNOW THAT LADIES CAN FEEL THE PLUSE BEAT OF EVERY MATURED MALE, AND BELIEVE ME HOOKS THEM LIKE A FISH AND EAT THEM THROUGHOUT THEIR LIFE VERY SLOWLY. AND IF IT SMELLS OR GETS ROTTEN KICKS THEM OUT OF THE HOUSE WITHOUT ANY MERCY. NOW TELL ME, HAVE YOU FOUND ANY NEED FOR THEM TO TALK MARRIEGE. SO WAIT AND BECOME MATURED. FROM NOW PRACTICE HOW TO SAVE YOURSELF WHEN ONE FINE MORNING YOU BE SURELY KICKED OUT OF YOUR OWN HOUSE OK. NO, OK WAIT AND SEE.
427284
Hamed this is not the place to search for a wife.\n\nI have given you 2 links where you can meet German Muslim women.\n\n\n\nInshallah these will help you.
188279
show her that u love her and willing to work on marriage show her that u care talk to her in a way that she answer u honestly whats bothering her and she can open up .. and don't give up if really want this marriage to work it will if u just make her understand that u love her
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First, you need to speak with ur wife.  If you love her you do owe her honesty and the opportunity to be involved in finding a solution.  \n\nIf at this point, you'd rather just keep it private from her because you have rationalized it as not wanting to hurt her, then...\n\nDo what a lot of guys are doing.  It is sleezy, but it works.  Set urself up on yahoo personals or myspace.com or adultfriendfinder.com and meet women that way.  DO NOT write u seek a f u c k buddy, cuz it will chase away all prospects including those who may seek relationships like that.  There is a certain dance that we as humans must do to get the sexual attention of another.  Don't seem desparate or like a player.  Don't mention ur wife.  Women are disgusted by men who use the "wife" excuse for a poor sex life.  Valid or not.  Be willing to take her out, work a little.  But honestly, most women on the net, if you get them out on the date you don't have much work left.  \n\nIf you are not stunning, be generous.  If you are not charming, read up on something and fake it.  Be cultured and refined.  \n\nNever set up encounters in ur city.  Try to call her, private.  Say it is a work phone.  Lie about ur last name.  Never leave her alone in ur vehicle.  Other than that seem very open and honest.\n\nHope these help you.
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~ this one - you can enter your area code then they give you a local number to call and you can chat on the phone ~ http://www.questconnects.com/  \n\n~ same as above on it's the web sight ~ http://www.questpersonals.com/\n\n~ this one matches you up with the perfect dating service ~ http://www.soulmatesource.com/questpersonals.html\n\nMy sister swears by the first one I gave you, she says she has met many guys, and now she married one of the guys she met from the line (she used the phone chat service) so they do meet ya. try them out see what happens.
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This will require time patients and tact on your part.\n\nFirst start by reading books on marital relationships.\nA good place to start is either the 5 love languages, or His needs, Her needs. \nLearn how to work on marital communication FIRST. \nonce you know her 5 basic "NEEDS" are meet, and you have a way to talk with her about emotional issues important to you. then you can address experimenting a bit.\n\nAt first try things you can mutually agree look safe.\n\nLight bondage is a very good one. \nas are blindfolds, and a bit of voyerism ( in the home and just for you) you can even try giving her a sensual massage ( women love this) and it can help break the ice between you. \nTry to include romance for her benifit. \nlike make dinner, prepare her a bubble bath and finish with a massage. work on her pleasure with out expecting any fulfillment for your self for 1 night. make a game out of how many times you can satisfy her in one night. \nYou would be suprized ohw it can open up things in the bedroom. \n\nAgain work on meeting her 5 basic "NEEDS" the rest will come together once you can open up emotionally, and learn how to listen in an effective manor. \n\nGod Blessing be on your family.
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what the heck??? how r we supposed to know what ur talkin about? why dont u ask your wife? u SHOULD be able to talk to her about anything but then again if ur asking if she loves u, maybe not..\nsheesh.
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You need to find some women dude, here's a start:\n\nhttp://www.angelfire.com/planet/websolutionspromos
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go to church and talk to the women there
147877
Been there...don’t let the situation fester. You should go alone and work on your issues first(we all have them). You can not make her, or anyone, do something they don’t want to do. She will see that you are serious, making an effort and a commitment. You will learn how to ask her in a way that she would be willing to start going. Be a leader and take the 1st step. Besides it may take a few attempts to find a counselor that you like and trust. It may be helpful to find a female as your wife may feel less threatened. It worked for me and my wife. Good luck.
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Just tell her. If you're married she'll understand and listen to what you have to say.
963961
Go to Yahoo matrimony. Good luck.
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You have answered your own question.  All the things you mentioned - you will need to bring back.  Opening the communication is the 1st step to recovery.\n\nOr you could sigh up for Wife Swap.
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probably better to ask a marriage counselor : ) it could be lots of things, some which are "fixable", some which aren't.
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I think there is more to the issue than what has been shared and suggest that maybe going to a marriage counselor might help in discovering all the real underlying issues affecting both of your behaviors.  A lot of men say you can 'ask them anything' when you have concerns but often become defensive or unable to express themselves.  Perhaps a third person who is objective might be able to help find out what is really going on in the relationship.
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You might want to try using a chat room.\n\nHope this helps!
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eHarmony has a very nice site and asks you a slew of questions in order to find compatable matches, most of whom are also serious about finding someone as well. They do advertise that they have the highest percentage of marriages of all the dating websites. I actually happened to find my wife (coming up on one year in March!) on Yahoo! Personals. No lie! But I had to do more of the matching myself. You do have to ask yourself if I really want to find the right person for me, how much is that worth? People that have paid a bit to be on a site are more likely to be a bit more serious than someone posting somewhere free. Good luck! God's got someone out there for you!