how can I totally change my life?
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I dont believe you. Refugee camp? Wow do they have DSL connections and Starbucks around the corner?
198905
I found talking to a therapist very helpful.  There you can express your feeling and not be judged.  But the only way for things to really change is if you change.  If life feels that horrible, change your life!  Change schools, change friends, live with other relatives.  Sometimes a major change will help you see the world differently.  And remember, no matter how much life sucks sometimes, it's better than the alternative.
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As an adult who had a very tragic childhood, but grew up very stabile, I totally agree with you. You have the power, not as a child, but as an adult, to change your life. If you let your past control your future, then you have lost. You have the power inside to change yourself and your perseption of people. It may take some help from professinals but you have to make the first step.\n\n\nFYI: I had been abused everyway known to man and verybadly and I still am a normal, fully functioning adult.
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You cannot change people... you can only change yourself. Start with that. If you are mean, become considerate. If you are greedy, become generous. \n\nSay goodmorning when you go to school or work tomorrow to all the people you come in contact with. Smile. You'll be amazed at the response you get.
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Do some introspective thinking and find out what *you* want. Let loose and party for hours without caring about a thing. Learn to accept people for who they are and find people who accept you for who you are, not what they expect you to be. Surround yourself with things/people/surroundings that make you feel at peace. Never forget that you only live once, and anything you've been dying to do, or think of spur of the moment, don't let fear stop you, go do it. All in all - live lively.
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Start small. Set little goals every day and expand from there. Diet and exercise do make a HUGE difference. Start a positive cycle and gradually increase it.... and keep it going, of course. Get stuff done. Clean house, call someone you haven't talked to in awhile, go for a walk or bike ride, socialize.... Believe in yourself!
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Make small changes in your life.  Pick something you'd like to do and find a small block of time to do it.  Even if it's just once a week, you can have that time as yours!  Once you make one small change, other changes will be easier.
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take it easy, live your life positively.\n\nok
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By realizing that you have complete control over it in both positive or negative ways.  You should read or listen to books by Anthony Robbins.
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I try to be kind to everyone I come in contact with everyday.  You could change someones life by a simple act of kindness.
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Be true to yourself and make the choices that you think will make you happy! Don't waste time on things you can't change and concentrate on what you can improve! \n\nLife is short so enjoy!
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No- it is impossible.  All of us are forever changing as a result of continued life experiences.
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You have only 1 life, make of it the best you can. You choose your own paths and can change them at anytime. Things might seem down for you now, but they will get better.Take things 1 day at a time. Set a goal and praise yourself for a job well done. Write each one down each day and then look back and see just how much positive you have done for yourself and others. Even if its just the smallest thing like help an older lady or gave a helping hand to a neighbor, you are giving and making others happy that's the best feeling in the world.That makes life worth living. If you want to be loved then you will need to learn to love yourself, respect yourself. You are better then this. Make every moment count , life is precious and a true gift , don't waste yours. You are here for a reason we all are.
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:}\nGet involved with a new lifestyle with new friends. consider church and a life of faith.
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The only thing you can do is set an example.  Live your life in a righteous way, and hope that they see that.  You can't change anyone, it's not your job to change anyone, all you can do is set an example, tell people the message of Christ, and God will work from there.
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Have you ever considered talking to your family and discussing a "life style change"?  You should be able to have "fun" with your family and it seems you've gotten to the point where you need some layed back fun.  Maybe the rest would understand and want to make the changes with you.  Maybe you're trying to live a certain "concept" that is expected.  It's time to shit can the "expected" and do what makes you and your family happy!