i'm 17, and gay, and I still haven't had a boyfriend yet?  is this crap normal?
443296
give yourself some time. most of the guys i knew didn't have a bf until they were 20. yes its lonely, but enjoy being single, enjoy what time you have left with no worries about relationships and bills and all the bs you're about to encounter with college and adult life. you'll be fine.\n\nPS: it is normal to be gay. it is not normal to be a hater and call yourself a christian. (that's for the guy who posted above)
311686
Mad props to you!!!!  You're more mature than most girls your age.  Teenage girls are notoriously insecure and petty, so many of them feel they need a boyfriend.  Pathetic, really.  You can have fun (sometimes more fun) without a boyfriend!  So they way you feel isn't a big deal.  And I've met a lot of girls who didn't really date until they were in their 20's.  A lot of them wanted to focus on their school work and their friendships in high school.  So hey, if you're happy without a boyfriend, you're better off than most girls your age.  You're happy with yourself.  Celebrate it and be proud of it.  And some day, a guy will love you for that.
939199
I am 18. I am a male. I have never had a girlfriend. And I have never been kissed. There is nothing wrong. There have been plenty of times when I could have kissed someone, but chose not to. To me, I feel that I should wait for the right moment, the right person, as you always remember your first time, such as the first time you rode a bike, first time you tied your shoe laces, first day at school. It is something special, something that should mean something. \nBut that is my opinion.\n:)\nEmail me.
1111444
Well, just wait soon enough someone will come along. I'm a good person, nice but never had a bf, its not gonna take over my life, eventually you'll find someone so dont worry about it so much.
487113
u know this happens to be a bigger problem than i had expected... i thought i was one of the only people in my age range that had never kissed someone before...but after being on here i have seen MANY people like me...Im 19 and im a male and i am super hot but i have never kissed anyone before either... i think it is because people are intimidated to approach us maybe...oh im not just saying im hot either i really am...a local modeling agency wants me to sign on with them so i know im not ugly!!! ANYWAYS... i dont know how to help you but when you get a good answer just hit me up at jwilliams@inbox.com...im extremely interested
259794
why do you want a boyfriends so bad?  they're nothing but trouble.  i didn't have a boyfriend when i was 14.  now i'm nearly 24 and been married a year.  don't worry about it just yet.
313050
You mean "caucasian." Anyway, you are 12 and you're too young to date. Guys your age are only after one thing, so don't even bother. Wait until you are older to date, i'd say 18. You can flirt, maybe go on dates, movies, kiss a little but don't go falling head over heels for every good looking guy. Take it easy. Focus on school work hehe :) How do you choose a guy? how about you choose zero, zilch, nada, nothing! trust me, you don't need a boyfriend now. When I was your age I never wanted a boyfriend because I knew they only wanted sex and wanted to have fun then break my heart so I chose not to get involved with any at all and now I am 21 and have a great b/f. Even grown men take a long time to mature lol, how can a young one like 13 grow up?? They want fun and you will only be just that. I'm not trying to get in your case but wait ok, and be patient!! Don't date, don't do anything you will regret; your reputation is on the line and once it's screwed up it cannot be fixed. You are probably an 8th or 9th grader. No boys needed. Chill with your female friends. Ciao.
84428
Come on honey, you are too young to be worrying about this stuff! You're not even a teenager yet and there are going to be many other relationships for you before you find the "right one". So just have some fun and don't worry about boyfriends for a few more years. Hang out with guys as friends and holy cr@p, maybe you should try being a "prude" for a while longer! Forget about this guy, he sounds like a big waste of time, boy wh*re, jack@ss anyway!
575055
I don't think there's anything wrong with you. I think 15 to 16 is the average age most people start getting asked out, so it could be right around the corner for you! Just to be sure, take a quick once over inventory of yourself. Are you clean? Do you smell good? Are your clothes clean and your hair brushed and your teeth brushed? If those answers are yes then more than likely it not you, it's the guys being too shy. You could probably help them along by talking to a lot of people. This shows you are approachable and friendly and will make it easier for a guy not to worry about rejection. Have fun...the most exciting times of your life are about to happen!
496748
u r only 13. its normal. dont worry. it will take its own time.
990136
I didn't have a boyfriend until I was 17.
345975
hey dont beat yourself up over it ..im 18 and never had a bf  and i consider myself a really nice person..i guess the saying goes nice guys finish last which is a shame...maybe your trying to hard and it just doesnt work out when your with a girl ..you cant compare yourself with your friends because everyone is different...looks arent everything most girls are looking for a good personality and someone that will treat them nice...some girls are looking for the so called "bad boy" type which really gets them no where.. maybe your looking in the wrong places ..you can always try a dating service which my cousin did shes 32 ..she has met some nice ppl and shes now getting married to the guy from the dating service..or just ask some girl that you are attracted...just be yourself and have confidence in yourself..dont go up to the girl thinking why dont girls like me ..just take your time your young
664668
I'm 21 (Didn't c the 70's) and not gay, so I don't know!!
94596
Naw, dont worry about it. I am almost the same way. I have been kissed, but it meant nothing. I turned 17 last June, and I went on my first date a few months ago. I guess I'm just waiting for the right girl.
525232
Alright. Here's the thing I never had a boyfriend until my sophomoreyear of COLLEGE! No, I was not a loser. Quite the opposite actually (I was named Ms. THS at my school) Yes, I did go out on dates, but my first date was homecoming at my highschool and that is still a year away for you! You shouldn't define yourself by wether or not you have a boyfriend. Yes, having a boyfriend is nice but give it some time. Right now I have the worlds most amazing boyfriend. He is literally a genius (by IQ), he tells me I'm beautiful everyday, he makes me laugh, and he's really cuddly. I'm not worlds most awesome looking girl (see my 360 page), but he thinks I'm beautiful. There is a guy out there for you! He'll think you are beautiful too. FIRST find what you love about yourself and when you accentuate that (physical or inner) others will see it too. Peace and Love and Good Luck!
573978
Lol, that's a funny way to forget your problems.\nWell, let's see, I'm 17 and have never had a boyfriend, my family moves around every year so I never get to keep any of my friends for very long, my parent's can't afford to send me to high school or college so my future looks extremely dismal, I've never beed outside of Asia, I've never met my grandparents or relatives and I've never been to my home country, my visa in this country expires when I'm 20 so by that time I have to have saved up enough to either put myself though college or leave the country and God only knows where the hell I'll go. \nThere's a little bit more but I don't have space for it here. I hope this helps you feel a bit better.
1185875
im 14 and going into 10th grade and never kissed and never had a g/f =(