Virginity....If You Saved It?????
454795
since i was raped i got no reason to say i am still a virgin.  i have had sex for the longest of time.  but for the past year that has changed and waiting for that special person.  cause for some odd reason i am very single.  hope she understands where i am coming from once we meet.
883266
NOPE... Virgin is such a relative term, but basically any sort of sexual penetration makes you no longer a virgin. Sorry sweets!
9655
YES!!!. You ARE still considered a virgin...That's like saying "I wear tampons, & my hymen broke, so I'm no longer a virgin"....Until you have actual sexual intercourse, you're still a virgin!! :)
955171
It's called oral sex so no I wouldn't say that once you have had oral you are still a virgin.  Being a virgin means you haven't done anything sexually.
530836
Yes i'm sorry to say but that was too young to lose your virginity. Your lucky you didn't get pregnant. It was just luck i guess. But you can't just hope next time you don't get pregnant. Because you might not get lucky next time. But i think that you spended some time to think about it and i think that your a couple of years younger than usual but thats perfectly fine. Nowadays its natural.
576950
You are never to old! Virginity is SUCH A SPECIAL THING!!!! DOn't let it go to just anyone! Wait till your married to that special someone and give yourself to them, and them only!!!
493300
You sound somewhat like me a year ago. I don't have Christian values, but I valued myself enough that I didn't take sex lightly. I waited until I was 21 and would have waited longer if I had not found the perfect guy that I know I want to be with forever. Stick to what you believe and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. There is NOTHING wrong with being a virgin and waiting until you're ready to have sex. Worry about school, that's the most important part, not what your friends think.
1022683
We all loose our virginity eventually.  Whether its a good thing or not, really only depends on you.  If you felt it was right at the time then why bother with anyone else.     The only person to judge you , is you and no one else.   Now that you have lost your virginity,  just be careful.   And it does get better.   I just hope the guy likes you too and isn't just using you.   Take care.
393929
If you're a virgin, you will experience some pain.  Hopefully, you will stay a virgin till your wedding night and let this intiment event take place during the special time it was meant for.  Never feel pressured to lose your virginity.  Be proud of it and be different.  Once you lose it, it's gone forever.
254334
Yes it does. Let me congratulate you for still being a virgin! You hardly ever find any more these days.  Don't be in a hurry to lose your virginity. Might I suggests that you wait until marraige.  I was a virgin unti I was 18. I am married to my first and only lover, but I truly wished that I had waited until I was married. The sex is just so much better, and it is pleasing in the sight of GOD.
105127
Hey man\nwhat you did...I think it was great...I hope she doesn't...if some how(by odd chance you find out she didn't) please let me know...lucky1_29_91@yahoo.com...it will be a real blessing to know one less girl will still be a virgin
23648
nope not a virgin, Not being a virgin is classified as penatration process. If it goes "in" your not a virgin anymore.
30499
I believe in no premarital sex. Say you meet someone you supposedly love, and you decide to have sex. Then if it doesn't work, you have no way to take it back. Then after that you find someone who is a virgin and you love them, you are going to regret your first encounter. Yes, I'd rather wait.
564039
be patient and dont go with sum1 just 2 loose virginity,its not a illnes :) the girl/boy who u will decide 2b with will appriciate that u waited with this for a special person! Good luck!!!
314044
Virginity is as the most precious gift you have to give, so it should be highly valued.  Think about it: It is the only thing about you that you can give away just once.  So you should be extremely particular about that.  I wish now at 39 that I had been more particular when I ws 20!
355806
i don't believe you would still be a virgin, but that should not mean it is any less special when you chose someone to share your first consensual experience with. you are still pure and being victimized does not take that away. you define yourself any way you wish and make sure any potential partner respects that.
1004036
No your not dumb. It takes a woman to stand up to her friends and say YES I'M A VIRGIN and DAMN PROUD OF IT TOO.. It also takes a MAN TO RESPECT YOUR DECISION. I applaud the 2 of you for your decision. Just ignore what your friends are saying to you because they don't need to know if you had sex or not. If you promised your dad and yourself why break that promise now. I was 24 when I lost my virginity, not because I made any promises or had a religious beliefs and just never found that right guy. And besides most of the time many would say that they wish they would have never lost there virginity and still would keep it that way. Good Luck!