If you are really shy and this dude is shy too who would make the first move or should i make it??
442951
I remember my first date with my extremely shy now-husband ten years ago. We had been friends for probably six months, and we both knew *something* was there but were both so hesitant. All of our friends but us were going out of town one weekend, so we agreed to see a movie together and afterward grab a couple of beers. There was a simultaneous *move* in there somewhere. So my advice is to take it really slow and add some mood relaxers to the mix. If you feel confident enough, go for it. Even now with my husband, if I waited on him to do anything, I'd be sitting an eternity. If you're a strong woman, take control!
32202
It sounds like he likes you, so if he is too shy to make the first move, it may be up to you to make it. Try asking him if he has seen, or wants to see  a certain movie that is playing. Then say you want to see it too, but have no one to go with... He might just get the hint, if not, then say, "Hey, why don't we go together!?" That way he will know you are not adverse to going out with him and from there, he SHOULD take it. Good Luck.
359035
I think a guy should make the first move. It depends on the guy. Some guys are so sweet yet so shy at the first time. So if you want him to like you, then you should make the first move. Ohterwise, let the man be in charge then after you will be incharge of him until you break up.
555934
try and read the situation, if u think there is a mutual attraction then make a move as he might me too shy to make the first move! if he pulls away then its obvious u have read the situation wrong! you never know until you give it a go! it could turn out the be the best move u ever made!!
562726
No.  Let him make the first move.  It will be more rewarding for both of you.  And you will know that he is interested on his own rather than just because you are available.
844129
Approach him!  You are a woman, prove it and be the assertive one!  Who says a guy has to make the first move??  ;)
521423
I can't answer for everybody of course, but if I like a guy and want him to make a move I'll let him catch me looking at him, smile shyly and then look away quickly, as if I'm embarrassed that he caught me. I also might say hi to him and smile, or say something to get him talking. Good luck!
958508
why dont you make the first move for him
713420
I will take the first step to be social towards a man but I don't know about 'making a move'. I guess, if you call being the first to talk to him etc making a move then definately. My fella is very shy and he thinks I'm way above his league so he would never have made the first move to talk to me, thinking that I would straight out reject him. I could definately tell that he was interested so I made it easier for him. If I hadn't done that, we wouldn't be together so I'm glad I did.
597700
Maybe he is just shy that you wouldnt want to date him. OR he could be waiting for YOU to make the first move... You know, trying to play hard to get... But usually, guys wont do that, not that any I know anyway...
966418
I would definatly talk to him about it. Or be the sly, sexy, one and write him a cute little note asking him out. I was in this situation, but he ended up asking me...but if he won't make the move, make it. Or suggest that someone else is going to ask you out, making him want to ask you first. If he still doesn't budge, he's bein a stupid guy.
770909
i think u make ur move first.. coz u say he is shy. so that mean he might be afraid 2 kiss u. so if u do ur move i think he would feel comfortble instead of feeling uncomforstble. and u bough gonna end up kissin each other for hrs ;) u bough gonna feel gr8 after it.. and u wont feel shy 2 kiss each other another time:)\ngurl u go 4 the kiss ;)\nGood LUCK:)
947977
i would definantly want him to make the 1st move
897195
I think shy guys are easier to keep personally. You can get them to open up to you and they get more attatched to you! Plus they are shy right??? no other girls come into the picture wooo!!! so its up to you! if you want someone who you could get attatched too and a long term relationship I would go with the shy guy..... the other not so shy at all guy could end up being a player or get to cocky if he is outspoken. Thats my my personal opinion good luck!
326829
Well, you can always wait around until some other chik comes and takes him, then you can wonder: "what if I did make the first move" for the rest of your life, or you can shoot! I would deff. say go for it. Good luck!\n\nGarrett
305372
Well , it depends . If she's maybe always looking at you, or really shy around you then maybe she likes you. You should make the first move if she's shy because shy people don't really know how to do that lol.
183259
You make the move yourself. If he's that shy it probably won't happen otherwise. But don't worry, if he's interested He'll be completely thrilled and you both will be happy. Then he'll have plenty of time to grow more comfortable and become less shy around you.  On the other hand, if he's not interested and he rejects you, he'll still be flattered and he'll be too shy to say anything that would make you feel bad. So it's a win win if you think about it. ;)