i m getting in love with a guy who is already married he also loves me tell me wat to do he dont loves hiswife
440039
emotionally dilemma for him..\n\nget a grip and don't rush things...let him settle his matters with his wife first...before you proceed with your relationship..
1043616
I'm afraid you don't have any option here. If he's married then you should let him be married and find yourself someone else. You can't expect your MARRIED friend to return your feelings. If you consider yourself his friend, you wouldn't even think of breaking his marriage and even if you do, just remember the consequences and what goes around comes around. So if I were you, I'd save my feelings for someone who's not taken.
514681
how's about waiting till he's divorced!!!  holy coes he know u LOVE him  (OMG brutal) and if he wants you AND wants to stay married, you best be ready to remain #2 for as long as ur with him chick.......think about it!!!!
1164449
Everyone remembers the One. You got married to someone eals so im sure that you love him too. the heart is a crule thing it has no limmit on the amount of love it has. the heart always makes more. So yes it is verry easy to love two people. You have to decide if your marrige is worth keeping. If it is then dont worry about the strong feeling for the other man. It will be hard but it will get better.
144734
you can't make somebody love you, maybe you should revalute why you are still married?? If he does not love you , why stay with him. You have to make your own happiness.
170006
there is only one tru love be hanest to your self and find your tru love then go for it.but if you have children stick to your marej and forget the other one.you will fall in love with your husband agen.then DONT EVER EVER let this hapen agen!!!
827179
he was never yours to begin with. You need to find happiness in your own backyard. find out what you need to make your own marriage happy, and filled with the  passion that you shared with this other man.
645961
I would just be that person that he feel in love with at the beginning, I would not try to change nothing about our relationship, because I have to remember what he feel in love with from the beginning.  So, I will just continue treating him like the king he is...
397434
Really, cut your ties with this man, he's not a future for you. You continue to see this man and you will continue to get lied to and cheated on too. He doesn't know how to be honest or faithful. To love someone like that isn't really love. Your feelings for this man hon, isn't what you really think it is. I don't know you, but I see that your taking who ever says nice things to you. Shoot, I could feed you with all kinds of nice words, but doesn't mean I really mean it. I wouldn't even give a another second to this man. Let him and her work through their own problems. Take your loss now and bail out sweetie. It's not worth it. Staying on with this guy or telling his wife, what will you gain from it. The satisfaction of telling her. No, wrong! Maybe for a while but later down the road. hhhmmmm Trust in your self and move on. Good luck to you.
11403
DANGER, WILL ROBINSON.\nDo not do it.  Look for an available (read unattached) man.  \n\nHe may cheat with you, and find you the most facinating creature on earth.  He may treat you like a Goddess and tell you that he can't live without you, that you are the love of his life. \n\nHe felt this way about his wife, once too.   He loved her so much he married her and had kids with her.  \n\nIf you do intice him to cheat, how can you ever have anything real in the future? Even if he does leave his wife and kids.  There can & will NEVER be trust between you because look how it started.  \nStay away.
1054623
He understands perfectly.  He is just trying to get you to change your mind.  Stand your ground, you are doing the right thing.  Tell him you are engaged, very much in love and respect your fiance.  Do you know his wife?  Tell him you will ask her opinion of his proposition.  If all people had your attitude, there wouldn't be anyone to cheat with. I applaud you.  Best wishes on your upcoming wedding.
293081
I married the perfect guy, but I still feel something for the man I was suposed to marry. I've contact him after 11 yrs and he is still mad at me, besides we have an ocean between us, and I dont want to leave my hubby! wilmary69@yahoo.com
777653
I am happy that you found someone that you can give your whole self to.  No hiding no secrets.  Since you've known the married guy for a while and I'm sure you love him - I know it will be difficult to tell him, but if he really loves you he would want you to be happy.  There's no easy way to break up with someone you care about. In your heart you know you're doing the right thing.  Tell him how much you appreicate all he's done for you.  Tell him that you are going to take all the good that he's given you with you.  You got to tell him - you pass this chance for love.
348662
i think that you have to think about the long run... \nfor the first guy:\nyou seem to be really into him, and you can see yall getting married.. thats no joke, it actually has potential\nfor the second guy:\nHe is married, and if you decide to get serious with him, what makes you think that he wont do the same to you as he did to his wife?\nFor the third guy:\njust because you are attracted to him doesn't mean he worth hurting the first guy whom you seem to be in to the most.\n\nI think mainly you have to think about which ones are LUST and which one is LOVE!
256228
It will not be easy, but the best advice I can give you is to pray and ask GOD to take away the feelings that you have for this man, and to renew the love,desire and passion you once had for your husband.
582694
go out and about meet new people--develop new friendships-- he is getting married so you have 2 move on and realize that there are many more men out there
346000
Ma'am I know you are in love and that this will be hard to hear but, you will be waiting a lot longer than four years. If he has not left his wife yet, he never will.\nHe may have lots of reasons why he hasn't and may even tell you when he will divorce....but, bottom line is......... if he didn't love her and wanted to be with you, he would have left by now. You are worthy of having real true love with a man that does not have to be shared.