a question for those who are 40 and older???
439812
Wasp yu talkin about?
688370
age is important from the asker.....
133981
you sound great as you are.  30 now? cool, older women.  email me at freddieis18now@yahoo.com
1010832
I can't believe all the bullkaka I am reading here.\n\nSo a man can be 20 yrs older but not a woman?  Get serious people and start realizing that life is not always about your young tight a$$.  There is much more out there than most of you will ever experience, especially with an attitude like I see from some of you.  LOL
777767
oh, yes yes yes.  When I was younger, I didn't have time either, and always thought I would have time to catch up.  Much to my chagrin, I'm now just over 50 and have a hard time doing anything.  Please, do youself a favor, and at least do something
825149
Well, I'm a middle-aged woman, luckily without PMS anymore.....and I've got the impression there are far too few middle-aged women on here.\n\nIt seems to me most of the people on here are teens and twens, to use some expression we middle aged women use.\n\nAnd I guess most of us are here for the same reason : to ask and answer questions! (I can assure you, I have no alterior motive, LOL)\n\nMay I ask why you asked this question to begin with??\nGot a problem with middle aged women, or only with those who have PMS??? (you DO know what PMS means, right??)
1029116
I am 28,  seeing a man who is 49.  I have always dated older, several years older.  I have always been more "settled" than others my age,  never being into the whole party/drinking scene, etc, etc.  I find that older men have "been there,  done that" and are in turn more settled as well.  They better understand that pleasantness and value in just being able to sit next to someone and be content.  I don't really know how to explain it other than being more comfortable and laid back.
859399
32 is not old, you're just in a slump girl, we all get to feeling a little bad sometimes and take it out on ourselves via age or looks or weight etc..  32 is in no way old and you are doing just great!  keep your chin up and eyes bright, things will get better for you and you will once again realise how young you are!  Stop looking for that special guy and you'll be surprised just how fast he shows up.  Did enjoy the "spinster" part though, <thump you on head>  quit being so tough on you will ya please?  LOL  Life doesn't even start until 50 or so they tell me, am surely hoping they are right too.
11000
It all depends on your perspective. The older you get the more you know about what you need to still find out, but may never learn if you think you know it all. You never stop learning. They say that age is all a matter of the mind. I am in my mid forties, and I would never go back to my twenties. The thirties were goo so if I were to stay at a certain age it would be 35. With that said, I am much happier now that I have had the experinces that have helped me grow. On the downside (literally), the aging of the body can be a bummer as it seems that gravity takes on a whole new meaning!
937149
"You are as old as you feel" or as a friend of mine once said, "You are as old as the woman you feel".......but I think that theory only comes into effect once you hit 40, so no worries.
1102331
I'm 40 and I have the same problem with some of my family.  Wish I had an answer for you.  Sometimes I get the feeling that the people in my life really don't think I can do anything right.  At least their actions say so.  I usually ignore their stupid remarks and go about things my own way.  If the remarks really get to me, I'll just plain tell them that I know what I'm doing.  Usually works too.
210736
I am a nurse and see many older people flirting and becoming good friends.Even saw marriages of 80 and 90 year old people in assisted living centers. That is so neat!!! So don't give up. Go out and play bingo, church some functions get all cutied up and go for it!
975230
Sorry I read some of the stupid replies you received first. Its not easy finding new friends trut me. I am in my 40's and single and its not easy for me either. But I do have hopes that will change someday for me too. But I may not live close to you but IM me and we can talk. I am online most evenings and always free to chat with friends.
694257
Getting older!!\nOoh.....just aged some more......
397573
Myself 14 years.  Happy going.\nAjoke for your question.\nA couple is celebrating their 50th Wedding Anniversary.  All the 10 Children (all married and kids) are attending the celeberation.  Lot of rush and friends, drinks etc.  The oldman by the way is seeing all these 10 sons at a time now.  He finds one among them not resembling with all the other nine.  He was restless and still sipping a drink.  He thought of asking his wife and asked her, is (our) 10th child fathered by a diffrerent man, to which the wife replied Yes my dear.  The old man was very very upset and sipped more glass of drinks.  Some how he want to know who that person is maybe one of his friends he wants to know who, abnd once again went to his wife and asked, My dear darling wife can u tell me who is that man?  Again the wife replied "YOU MY DEAR".  \n\nMoral - Dont live for longer periods after marriage or else dont celeberate wedding anniversaries after 20 years.
347552
I'm in my 50's and I love older women my age. Younger ones are all about how they look and what they wear. Older women usually know what they want and how to get it without all of this bull>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
321719
Yesterday and Myself. There was a man that I had a crush on for years. I saw him yesterday after not seeing him for awhile. I waved so hard that I almost fell over. Other people saw me do that. I hope that he was at least chuckling after he got home and was away from his friends. And no-I am not a teenager-I am in my 30's:)