What do i do to get over the boy i loved and is still in love wit him?
447013
ask you self do you like being abused you know what you need to do so quit trying to sugar coat it and get rid of the bum before he seriously hurt you love does not hurt and if he did love you he would never try to harm you mentally or physically.
744929
if he doesnt love you honey you need to move on and find some one who does and fall in love with them.  you can love more than one person in your life trust me i'v been there.  if he isnt still in love with you and with you then you need to find some one else and i'm sure there is osme one else out there that is more perfect than this guy.  if he's moved on hes moved on and probalby does not love you anymore...if he loved you he'd tell you guys are straight up like that most hte time.
878566
Hi, \nThe last thing I would do would be to encourage you, only to see you get hurt. \n\nIf you have feelings that he still cares about you, then check it out further. You might want to try writing him a letter and let him know how you feel. You will be taking a chance, but if things work out, it will be worth it. \n\nAlso, revisit the reasons the two of you are not together now. We tend to forget the bad and only remember the good, so if you feel it is worth a try in your heart, then by all means, go for it. \n\nThere is a possibility he may feel the same way about you. \n\nGood luck, and I hope things work out for you. \n\nDarryl S.
1090556
You will not be able to get over it, but with time, the pain will feel less and less.\n\nEven though he was just a little wee baby, he was defenseless and you didn't get to know him nor could you protect him from what happened.  \n\nYou may be trying to keep him in your mind in case you fear you will forget him - you won't forget him so it's okay not to think of him all of the time.\n\nSpeak to your parents about how you feel, I'm sure they will want to speak with you about it.
839019
I think you've done the best anyone can do to try and open him up and if he isn't then get rid of him. He will regret having lost someone as nice and good as you and there's nothing that will change, because you deserve better than him and if he isn't willing to try than move on. Find someone who will love you back, has feelings and will treat you the way you deserve to be treated (which is very good, just so you know). Good Luck
1044869
Yes, you are still young and believe me what you feel for this boy is not love. You need to move on with your life, and definitely, for future reference, never be the "other woman". I hope this helps.
383491
Take it easy.  Give it time.  Since you used the term "boy" I am assuming that you are not an adult.  Trust me, the feelings you have now will no longer exist when you become an adult.  When you get older, this boy won't matter to you at all.  Therefore, you have only two options here. Either way you have to first realize that this REALLY isn't that big of a deal in the grand scheme of things. \n\nhere are your options...\n1. Realize that your situation is nonsense and forget about it altogether.\n \n2.  Realize that none of this is going to matter at all one day so you have nothing to lose.  Just tell him how you feel.  If he doesn't feel the same about you, oh well.  Doesn't matter.  Move on.  \n\nIn a few months or years you'll have a new crush and you can make this decision all over again at that point in time, with the same two options.  Also, if you go ahead and tell him how you feel, there's always the chance he feels the same and you two can do whatever it is you plan to do with each other.  (yay!)
316303
The reason you can't get over him is because u can't let go.\n\nY do u want him back sweetie? I know it hurts that he's with someone else and if u don't let go and move on ur only hurting yourself.. He's not thinking  or worrying about you, so why waste time that could be spent getting yourself together  or dating other guys? U get the strength by \n\n1. Keeping busy\n\n2. get rid of anything that reminds u of him\n\n3. Stop worrying about what his doing or who he's with\n\n4.Get out there a date\n\n5.Know that he's not the ONLY guy and if he was worth it he never would have done this to you\n\nI hope you realize that in life people do breakup and it will hurt, but what don't kill ya makes you stronger.\n\nGo out meet other guys and enjoy it until you met the next guy who will not leave you for another\n\nHe's not worth your tears, next time u cry about a guy cry because your so happy with him
545326
Hey,\nI've been in this situation b4. The best thing to do is to give yourself some breathing space . Take your mind of this. Try to relax and distract yourself. If you feel that strongly bout your ex, the best thing to do - confess it 2 him. Maybe he feels the same way. Maybe he's just not wearing his feelings. Always b optimistic. The glass is half full........... Frm wat i have read u r  strongly in love with this guy.........express it! Best of luck
236533
1. Don't think about it. \n2. Hang out w/ friends.\n3. Try something you never done before.\n4. Occupy your time.\n5. Cry @ 1st and then get over it.\n6. Move on.\n7. You were too good for him anyway. \n8. Help others.\n9. Focus on you. \n\nJust to name a few...lol. Just try some of these. I hope u start feeling better and remember you will be fine in time. I promise in the future you will look back and say what the hell was I thinking for being w/ him in the first place!
803329
You must stay busy, busy, busy.  Do your best not to think about him and keep your mind occupied with other things.  Hang out with your friends and family.  It will take time but you will eventually be able to move on.  Good Luck.
226937
you need to put yourself together. Go out and do things that you like [ helps take your mind of him ] Find someone to share your life with. In any event you need to move on. Life is to short, to sit around and do nothing. Know how you feel, been there. Hope this this helps you. Don't think about what happened. move on
669574
It takes a long time to heal a broken heart. Take it 1 day at a time. Allow yourself a certain time every day to think about him, cry laugh whatever.  Think positive happy thoughts about the 2 of you. Lean on your friends for support. Remember him with love.  Try to get on with your life the rest of the time, keep busy so you,re not always sitting around feeling sad. It will take time , but you'll get there.
815168
sometimes when your in love with someone it is hard to move on, but things get better within time. try doing things that you like to do to keep your mine off of the guy stay away from things that  reminds you of him one other thing  to do pray and ask God to give you strength to get over him and it will come when you least supect it to good luck
870044
Ya get over him. You just gotta realize that in the grand scheme of things he is insignificant. He may have hurt you but people hurt eachother all the time. You yourself have probably hurt someone at some point. Everything that happens does so for a reason. You learned a hard lesson on what not to look for in a man and hopefully you picked up on that lesson and it will make the rest of your life easier. Life is what you make it and you can choose to live in the past or to take each lesson you learn along the way and create a wonderful future.
608931
U have got to give urself time to get over him....u will soon..time is a great healer.
412571
time heals all wombs it's going to hurt and yes you will miss him but just give it time and you'll get over him if you really want to and you try try going out finding someone new stop talking to him and in time it will go well