how do i know if im ready for sex?
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I was really lucky. The first time I had sex it was with my best friend. We where both virgins and it was really bad for both of it. But it was fun to explore each other because we both knew each other really well and we are still really close friends today and can talk about anything. Many people don't have that in their life and so I can understand why you are asking this question. You will know, when you know. It can happen at anytime. You can plan a certain night for it to happen or it might just come as a surprise. You might want to wait a little longer. And after its all done. Even if it was planned you still might have regrets. But don't worry. Its a common thing among many teens and young adults. Don't be afraid to talk about with people.\n\nThis is a website full of first time sex stories:
63688
if YOU want to have sex, then by all means do it!  but if it is HIM that is pressuring you, you need to tell him that you are not ready yet.  if he loves you, he will wait.  'til then, there are plenty of other things that you can do to keep each other satisfied.
311830
Having sex before I was ready, and not waiting for the right guy.
361816
Until you both feel it's the right thing to do. Get to feel comfortable with each other. Kiss, pet and hug for some time before going right to bed: this will allow you to get to know each other, and what each of you likes before intercourse; and it will also make you value it a bit more when the times comes around. Don't rush things, and don't be impatient: enjoy the different stages of your relationship, and the different things they come with. When you both feel ready, it will also feel right. Good luck and congratulations on your new boyfriend.
1128623
WHENEVER U'R READY, BABE... WE CANT TELL U THAT.. \nIF I SAID NOW WOULD BE THE GOOD TIME.. WOULD YOU DO IT???
165347
I agree with the first person who wrote, you are ready when you dont have to ask that question, when you KNOW its the right time, and you feel completely confortable with it. There should be no doubts in your heart at all.\n\nJust know you CAN say no and you CAN wait. Its your body and you have controll of it.\n\nIt will eventually happen someday, \nif you wait till your ready It will happen at the right time. If not, you may regret it.
601398
hope this doesn't sound obvious, but maybe your just not ready yet, relax, you're normal:)
250162
Time will tell.  You could be with someone for one day and think you know them.  Try to be with them for a year or two and you'll get a better sense of that person.  If this has something to do with fornicating, I believe you should at least wait a few months from when you started dating to see if he meets your expectations.\n\nHere's a thing about sex and timing - you could be with the perfect person but if you have sex too soon, you might ruin what could be there.  Trust me, it happens.
376195
You should kiss when you feel ready
121040
When you are ready to take full responsibilities for the consequences. \n\nCan you take responsibility for a baby (adoption, abortion, or raising it yourself)? Do you have adequate medical care to deal with any sexually transmitted diseases? Do you have the money for contraception? Are you going to be sneaking around and hiding it from people in your life, or are you willing to talk about if it comes up? (I don't mean that you have to go around shouting, "I'm sexually active!" I just mean, could you ask your parents for assistance in getting proper contraception, for example.)\n\nIf not, I would wait--seriously. Sex is a powerful thing--it's the power to create another human being. Don't mess with it if you're not ready.
100750
First of all, I can see by your dream that your babyfather is very protective of you, or a least you believe he is.  The answer to your question is you don't know if you are ready to have sex yet, you think you are ready, but you are not entirely sure.  The fear is in you, but don't worry, because he will be very understanding to wait untill you are absolutelly ready.\n\nWhat you should do is talk to him.  Let him know what you are feeling.  I can't be psychic over the enternet, but I would make a guess and say you will have a marvelous life together, have a few more kids, and live happily ever after.
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do anything wat u want to and be safe sex
385868
When you're emotionally and physically mature to. And not before. Do NOT give in to peer pressure or pressure from someone who "professes" to love you. If they loved you they wouldn't push it. In my personal opinion, I don't think anyone's ready to have sex before the age of 16. Psychologically, you're just not ready to make that switch. And trust me, it CHANGES you emotionally. You feel a small sense of loss. But also gaining. Very difficult to describe. Good luck. And make SURE there's protection damnit!
94650
It sounds like you really want some sex.  Just ask him if something is wrong.
838385
Wait until married...  Funny girl :)  and most of the time totally unrealistic (6000 years that some are trying to control sex life of other people... just wake up, it just doesn't work !!)\n\nIf you feel it, you're ready to begin to consider it.  But wait until you feel comfort, take your time, change of partner if you feel pressure, first times can be really important for the way you'll consider sex and love for the rest of your life.  And most of the time, the first time isn't really enjoyable for the girl, she has to learn how to relax and first time are most of the time not really relax :)\n\nSo, look for comfort and respect.  It means also good place, good timing, good guy/girl, love or something near it, and respect.  And to not fear AIDS or a too soon baby, be prepared.  \n\nYour doctor can give you good advice for those last things, but sometimes for the rest too.  Follow your feelings :)  and when you feel ready, enjoy the ride !
537380
ARE YOU READY FOR IT??? thats the question u should ask urself. having sex is not just bout getting physical, its about being comfortable with each other. your first time may feel a bit awkward but you'll get the hang of it over time. Dont worry if u think you are gonna embarass urself as its your first time. she'll "take the lead" and you'll learn how she wants to be touched etc. \nsta cool. lots of luck.
67846
NO!! sex is something that you should wait until you get marry. and if you have to ask that just means you not ready. dont give it up just b/c this guy wants it. if he turely loves you tell him to wait and to keep his hands above the shoulders