I love this man but I can't seem to forget about him. He is bad news I need to go on, give me some pointers?
436293
FORGET HIM.  HES NOT WORTH BOTHERING WITH AND YOU KNOW THE OLD SAYING - THERES PLENTY MORE FISH IN THE SEA.  GET OUT THERE AND START FISHING YOUL HAVE MORE FUN!!!!!
803329
You must stay busy, busy, busy.  Do your best not to think about him and keep your mind occupied with other things.  Hang out with your friends and family.  It will take time but you will eventually be able to move on.  Good Luck.
45405
YOU DONT. YOU JUST PICK UP THE PIECES, GO OUT THERE AND FIND SOMEONE WHO IS GOING TO LOVE YOU WITH EVERYTHING INSIDE THEIR SELF. LOVE IS  NOT HARD ITS THE TRUST YOU GIVE TO SOMEONE THAT IS HARD TO ERASE. YOU WILL BE HURT FOR A WHILE. BEEN THERE DONE THAT BUT YOU DONT NEED TO HEAR FORGET ABOUT HIM. YOU NEED TO KNOW YOU CAN MAKE IT. REMEMBER BE NICE TO HIM . IF HE REALLY MISSES YOU HE WILL CALL YOU. DONT DO OR SAY ANYTHING THAT WILL PUSH HIM AWAY
939537
i have found the best way to get over someone is to think about them as though they have died.  that way you can keep the memories you have about the good times you had with him but accept there will be no more.  stay busy and go different places and do different things than you did when you were with him.   try very hard not to see him or hear about him.  it's a cliche but time does really heal and every day gets a little easier.  don't stay home and be sad now even though no guys measure up right now.  the next one who will measure up is out there and you won't meet him while you're at home feeling sad.  and once you meet him you'll wonder what you ever saw in the guy who made you sad.  good luck!!
27957
I just went thru that.....it is VERY hard if you have a computer you can keep contact that way....that is the most important...don't let him forget you...and don't lay burdens on him...he's going thru enough...support him...love him and let him know it...and remember he's without a woman...send him sexy things by mail stay intimate with him however you can
660109
wow...I'm in the EXACT same position. I could've asked this question because I'm going through the same thing. I've been absolutely infatuated with this guy and don't know what I will do once he leaves. It's so difficult but the best way to get through it is to find another guy. It sounds much easier than it really is because no one compares to "him."
464943
Start listing all the crappy things he has done to you in the past.Take that list and hang in on your bathroom mirror and every morning for the next two weeks go over that list... if you remember anything new , add to it. Then ask yourself these questions...Is he really a lovable person? Is he even worth your time? Is he worth the time you have wasted on him already? Or is he just a total jerk? Would you ever want a daughter of yours to date him? If that doesn't get him outta your head then I don't know what will. Aren't you worthy of better?
319683
PRAY. I KNOW IT MAY BE HARD BECAUSE YOU LOVE HIM I KNOW I'M GOING THROUGH IT NOW FIND SOMETHING TO OCCUPY YOUR TIME. PLEASE DON'T MAKE THE MISTAKE OF JUMPING INTO ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE YOU WOULD BE DOING IT TO GET OVER HIM YOU MAY THINK THAT IT IS GOING TO HELP YOU RIGHT BUT IT WILL HURT IN THE LONG RUN
502370
Let time take its course. There is no real way to forget someone you care about. As stupid as it sounds, time will heal all wounds. Try to get on with your life as best you can. Surround yourself with positive people and give yourself time to heal. Best of luck to you.
863787
You can stop when you stop checking up on him. As long as you dig around to see if he is okay or listen to stories about him, you are feeding your fantasy/dreams/neurosis.\nStop all check/sightings/following. Then when you start to think of him, repeat the mantra "I distinctly remember forgetting about him." This will help reprogram your mind.
1004769
WOW Ok i will give this a shot at!  First thing that came to my mind is , Don't Change anything. If you start to cuddle him more or start changing due to this news, he will feel like you feel sorry for him, and he will feel worse. Stay the way you are, The second thought is,,,He JUST  found out TODAY! So yes allot is going threw his head and will for awhile. Just be yourself, the women he fell in love with. Be there when he needs you. Stand by him. Don't make it the TOPIC everyday, let him bring it up. He will talk when the shock of it all has settled abit. JUST LOVE HIM AS YOU BEEN DOING! My prayers are with him & you.  Peace.
870044
Ya get over him. You just gotta realize that in the grand scheme of things he is insignificant. He may have hurt you but people hurt eachother all the time. You yourself have probably hurt someone at some point. Everything that happens does so for a reason. You learned a hard lesson on what not to look for in a man and hopefully you picked up on that lesson and it will make the rest of your life easier. Life is what you make it and you can choose to live in the past or to take each lesson you learn along the way and create a wonderful future.
1025831
Why cant you take not being with him????? You havn't seen many ppl i suppose or may have had narrow vision. If you talk about Love, then, you cant forcibly take it.... and some1 not loving you doesn't prohibit you from loving him. !! (well, am talking abt true love). I feel its better to let ppl go, and not be possessive. If he's yours, he'll come back to you or else, he never was yours. Would anyone like to keep some1 with her/him, who stabs on back????\nSo, nevermind, be cool, and happily let him go. You'll find a better one for you.\n(Well, hope he's not a billionaire and thats wat bothering you to let him go!! ;)    jus kidding.... )\nGood luck
56839
From my point of view, first ask yourself why you are in love of this guy, and then take a second look to your strategy to approach him. Not all that is shinny is gold. Maybe he is not the right one for you, so you must continue your life and be more careful to the person you will give your attention, love, and care.
81750
You're not in love.  You're obssessed - with wanting something (in this case, someone) you cannot have.  Don't worry is a common human trait ... u just got to wean yourself off this man.  He spells trouble and you already know that.  Just got to let your head rule over your heart for your own good.
750146
I would forget about him. Who wants to be around someone who is so critical and mean. I think that shows the true side to him. Sorry to be harsh: A CREEP! I liked someone, and he was good looking. And he would treat me awful. And I would feel bad all the time. I am glad HE'S OUT OF MY LIFE. What if you married that guy in the future. We marry who we date. I hope you let him go.
971805
I understand!  But life is like that.  It is never fair.  It will take time to try to forget (maybe a few weeks to a couple of months) but you will have to start healing.... make new friends, find new hobbies, study and work with passion!  You will never really forget .... but it will be less painful .... don't run after him okay? ... it will make you look pathetic and needy.  Take good care of yourself!