is iit wrong to have feelings for my baby mamas little sister.?
448417
It's okay to have feelings but i wouldn't do anything about it... 1.) you'll piss off your baby mama.\n2.) You'll look like an major @$$.\n3.) You'll tear apart the family.
460481
Why not! But at the end of the day its all about how you feel about a women with 2 kids! if its not what you want, dont go there....but if you think that you can take the challenge, go for it and enjoy the love and affection that she has to offer.
759124
gaurav, you are a young man, so your sexual feelings are natural towards another female. it is probably a result of you not meeting enough people outside your family.  and your family not being very liberal so maybe you are not allowed to meet other girls etc. so these feelings have cropped up in your heart. \n\nbut let me tell you what you are thinking and doing is WRONG. \n\ni am a hindu and i can tell you that our religion considers this as a sin. cousins are considered as own brothers and sisters. \n\nin religions like muslim such things are acceptable where they marry their cousins but our religion has certain rules, and there is a reason for these rules and your sexual intentions with your cousins is UNACCEPTABLE. \n\nGod gave you  birth in a hindu family for a reason, dont dishonour your religion. pls stop these horrible ideas and look for some other girl outside. do you not have friends or college mates ? or other girls to mingle with?\n\ntrust me, there are lots and lots of nice and intelligent girls out there and surely your soulmate is out there too, one day you will find her and marry her. \n\ni am very close to my cousins, there is nothing wrong with that. you can be close to your cousin, maybe you two click, so you can talk about things, share your ups and downs, but love in a sexual manner - all that is wrong. \n\nyour cousin too is at fault, she should not have let you advance on her like that. but she is younger than you, and as an elder brother it is your responsiblity to protect her and respect her and instead of that you are making sexual advances towards her ?\n\nthink of the rakhi she ties you every year and the promise you make her of protecting her ? is this how you will fulfill that ?\n\nimagine if your cousin was doing such a thing to your sister ?\n\ngood luck Gaurav, I hope my words make sense and I have put some thoughts ahead in your mind. Pls think about it dear, and make your decision with God in your heart\n\nbest wishes, your sis in London
791876
tell ur partens ur feeling on this and then have ur sister to sit down with u and u ur partens and stringhen her out
159057
If you like each other's company at the workplace then i don't think there's anything wrong with that.  Now if you're starting to develop feelings for each other then i think you need to tone it down because, remember there's two families involve here and you don't want to ruin either one.
186190
why not if no stringed attached anymore between the guy and your sister i think its not bad and its okey,but well you must tell it to your sister as a respect.Tell her the truth about what you feel and maybe she will give you some advices.
629221
Tell her how much you love her, a few good memories you both have together doing something as sisters, and how lucky her husband is to have her and if he screws up you'll kick his a$$!  You want to have a good one, but not long, something that drills the point home.  Make the husband feel welcome to the family though, because if not, it really affects your relationship with her...
348114
I am really sorry that you feel the way you do. I love both my children very much. It honestly does seem like you need a professional to help you connect with your reasons why you don't have the motherly feelings for your youngest son. I am pleased to hear that you tried to get help but my heart aches for you that you couldn't find a caring individual to help you deal with your feelings. No matter what you do your family isn't going to understand your pain and your sorrow. Saying that you feel you can't get close to him and the fact that you don't want to try shows that you do have some feelings for him, not as a mother but as a human being...you don't want to hurt his feelings. I have always found that the best thing to do when family gives you advice is to take it and do what you want with it. If you are interested in attempting to connect with the feelings that you probably have that are dormant within you now that you and he are older you may want to try again finding a counsler to help you with what you have locked up deep inside. Even if you find that you cannot love him as a mother loves her children, at least treat him like a human being.....with kindness and gentleness, the same way you would treat a stranger. That at least might make things less rocky between you and him and your family. Do what is best for you and your son and I wish you all the luck and support that I can via the computer.
551126
You arent being a monster. You have right to say that. It sick that she  wants sleep with her brother.
693517
thats perverted. She is not for u don't be greedy face your wife not her sister. yur sis in law is for another man definetely not for you greedy man. Yu r too lusty
46922
i'm not really down for the keep it in the family thing but i'm not going to criticize you but i'm thinking that maybe you should them and see if they feel the same. but they don't react the same way don't be surprised because they probably not down with incest you know.sorry if they hurt you ok. you'll get over it eventually.
517678
I would. I will do anything for my daughters and my son and I know there is no chance of us getting together. Now, I know that's not what you meant, but the type of love you have for this person needs to change to the same type of love that you would have for your family members. I say that because I don't want you to miss out on having someone love you the way you love them and it sounds like you love this person very much to put their happiness over your own. But don't you think there is someone out there that deserves that type of love? And more importantly, don't you think you deserve to be loved like that? Continue being there for this person, but keep your eyes open for that other person out there that's waiting not only for your love but to love YOU in return....
559955
She is JUST your step-sister.  It sounds like you're both consenting ADULTS.  Sheesh, these idiots who say/think you're blood related or it is against the law, OMG!!!  There is NO blood relation in step-sister/step-brother.  Two people who aren't related get married and their kids are step-brother/sister.  What fools!!!  I say go for it!!  Life is short!!  You might regret it later if you don't!!  Good luck.
836090
that is sick you can love who you want but come to family you realy need to becareful\ni had a cusin that had a baby from her family member and the kid did not trun out ok.
700108
Actually, you are both right.  She is right when she says that she feels hurt because you two are not close.  Who are you to deny her what she feels to be true?  Feelings are not based on facts and truths of historical circumstances.   They are feelings.  Don't look to deny others their feelings.  You are right, too, when you state that you have a different life or different lifestyle than your sister.  You are two different individuals so naturally you will do things differently, and with differences conflict is inevitable.  You can resolve whatever conflict exists between you and your sister by talking to her more often.  Communication doesn't by itself solve all the problems of the world but it certainly smooths out the bumps in the road.
547507
yeah dude thats totally wrong. u will get in trouble if either of them knows the truth than u r a goner man. so try to stop the attraction towards ur girlfriend's sister.
495589
no... its just brother's mother in law.  If it makes you feel better call her mother out law.