what do you you do when your friend is being a big fat b**** without hurting her?
445816
Make her exercise...then she will be a skinny little B#@#$
276640
If this person was a true friend, if they are aware they are hurting you, they would stop doing it and appologize.\n\nTherefore, discuss your feelings and work it out.  If nothing changes, this person is NOT a friend, and you can feel free to stop the relationship.
1067837
If your friend is really a friend and you want to salvage your friendship, I think you should sit down with her and discuss how you really feel.  You should let her know that it really upset  you when she did what she did, and that you don't relish the chance of that happening again, that it's not acceptable behavior from someone who says she's a friend.
831389
don't butt in. if she's willing to mess up their friendship (b/c shes gonna) let her\n\nand if it leads to that, dont take sides, stay nuetral.\n\nmaybe you should just try to prove to him that she is just "using" him in some sort of way.
262060
Just talk to her, tell her what bothers you and if she keeps on doing it or gets mad, well that would mean she is not a good friend
937291
And... why is she your friend? Don't beat her up. Just don't give her the time of day any more.
795992
give your friend the support a good friend would tell her that it is important to stay healthy and not worry if shethinksshe is fat she sounds like she is just right or a little to thin she should be proud that she doesnt have much bigger issues such as health etc.
840604
Well you and your friend put your foot into your mouths,shame on you ha ha ha ha,but it is fix able......Offer her a gift,take it over to her house and say your sorry,suck it up! \n\nA nice gift to offer her,given she tried to explain her problem,would be a gift of rock salt deoderant,it's amazing for just this type of problem,you can buy them at any health food store,and they are only a couple dollars. She will think you actually took the time to think about her,and the problem she tried explaining to you when you made fun of her.
193335
Why does it matter that she says that? Wait, do you mean that people beat her up because she has no fat? That.. uh. Hm.\n\nI learned a lesson when I was in school: The meaner the person is to you, the more sickeningly sweet you have to be. It hurts, trust me, but it pisses that person off even more and makes them look like a complete waste of life.\n\nTry it.\n\n♥
144356
Well, first of all if you hate her guts she doesn't really qualify as a "friend" and in my opinion 99% of the time honesty is always best.  Just tell her how you feel and then quit hanging out with her.
870219
Talk to her about it. If she is going to do everything in her power to hurt you, you don't need her. Tell her she needs to act like a friend for you to be a friend. She is just using you to her advantage to get what she wants.. My best friend did that for awhile but i told her that if she kept using me like that......she will have to find a new bff. She straightened up fast cuz she realized that she'd lose me for good.
119918
Well its your choice what you say.  You can be honest without being rude.  As far as  hurting her?  There is probably nothing you can do about that.  Unfortunately we all get hurt sooner or later.
416631
If you are really her friend and not just someone trying to hurt her feelings , then I would tell her how people view her and that in the long run she is going to be the one hurt by this behavior. I knew someone like that once, and when she decided to change and get her life back on track ,she actually had to move out of state before she could find someone that wanted to have a relationship with her because everyone knew her reputation.
697891
Well the best way to deal with her is by just being her friend. If you are truly friends then don't let it bother you so much.\nShe is trying to "copy" you because she thinks you are better, prettier etc.. Take it as a complement.\nHelp her build confidence in her self and self esteem. Be an encourager, lift her up. When she does something nice... tell her. When she where's something that looks good.. complement her
678751
Tell her the truth. Let her know that the other individual is your friend and that you don't want to talk negatively about anyone. If she can't respect that, she doesn't respect your friendship.
1085685
Tell her to back off and if she doesn't then you will tell your friend
681456
Sit down with her,at a table. Privately. Put all the cards(sorta speak) on the table. REFRESH your FRIENDSHIP. Just like the computer REFRESH. Start over even with introductions. (this will stir a giggle or smile) Shake hands. Apologize to each other...hug.Vow to each other ..never to take the dishonest road again. True friends hold no secrets, if somebody wants to share a "SECRET" shun it. Remember the burns from the last time.\nBlessings to you .