why do boys want to kiss at the very first date??
436852
may be coz boys love us alot and show atmost love in their first date itself.
489322
16 to date, dear. I have 4 girls 7, 9, 11, 12. They (the oldest ones) are allowed to have a boyfriend, but in name only. No touching, no dating, the only thing they would be allowed to do is have the boy over here to visit, with me here to supervise. I am shocked that you already had your first kiss. Take it easy, you have the rest of your life, and the sooner you start, the younger you will be when you actually do IT. You don't want to be wearing maternity clothes in the 12th grade. Slow it down, be friends, no dating, and tell those boys to keep their paws to themselves.
53001
well im a guy and i know how it is. on first dates guys would like to get a little lap dance and mabey a kiss on the first date.
394122
i think if he wants to kiss then he should do the first move. guys should always should do the first move...
490597
This builds your relationship on sex and physical pleasure alone.  I don't want that.  I use a first date as a tool to get to know someone and to see if we have any chemistry.  Sex comes way after that.  When I'm ready for an emotional relationship (hey, guys, you give us what we want, we'll give you what you want).  But no, I don't have sex on the first date.  You have to do a lot more to get into my pants.
54406
I don't think you can have a policy of not kissing on the first date.  If it feels right then why not?
616009
oooh so cute your first bf^^ you should do something natural that you usualy do with a friend... don't try to be too romentic the first time, go walk in a park and talk with him... take this first date to try to know him a litle bit more. Good luck :D
869568
No, you have enough time till the first kiss. :)
717401
They don't want to let go of you so soon. Also, it's rather uncomfortable watching people kiss and/or hug in front of you, don't you think? They probably feel the same way. They also might feel that you are too young to kiss, french, etc. because they think it might lead to babies.
465401
Some guys like to be the first to make the move. But some guys like to have you kiss them. Either way you shouldn't ask. It makes it seem to planned. Just be spontaneous and kiss him. I don't know how your guy is but most guys are turned on by girls who make the first move because chances are they want to kiss you but don't want you to freak out.\n\n<3\nPhoenix
374844
Honey you have to allow the guys to make the first move. Don't be scared you will know what to do when the time comes, it's natural.
62705
maybe he is a little scared to do the first move, why don't you try to kiss him and see what happens.  if he doesn't respond or backs off, then there maybe some serious problems.  and you could talk about it.  but don't let another month, week, day go by without trying to kiss him.  it is best to get it out in the open.  just think of the possibilies once you start kissing and he is into it, then you won't be able to get him to stop :P
1156639
in this order, a guy either wants to have intercourse with you, or he really likes you and wants to have a relationship with you, he is not at all interested in either of those things, or he is too bashful to ask you out.  if a guy is interested in either of the two first possibilities he will ask you out.  if you have intercourse on the first date it does not always mean you were used, but a lot of times it does.  after intercourse if the guy continues to call you, he is interested in a relationship.  however, unfortunately there are more bashful guys that you can imagine who are interested in you, and you will never know.  if you have your eye on someone who is possibly bashful, drop hints, create situations where you can be alone with him, and flirt.  i hope this was helpful.
346546
no it is not bad. believe it or not, many people do not have their first kiss until college or after. it seems like you're waiting for the right guy. good for you! maybe lower your standards a bit, not much. but make sureself seem open. if you have confidence and have fun, guys will be attracted, trust me. well good luck, and hope you find mr.right! :)
1141626
because they like knowing they were a guy's first\nand when they get older and know guys like older girls,they go for it
103927
They don't want to look like they like you. Guys never call right after the first day so they can act aloof. And although in theory yes women can accomplish anything in this day and age, calling a guy after the first date should NOT and I repeat NOT be something they do. If you like this guy let him call. If he likes you he will call I promise. But you will look clingy if you call. Plus it feels so great when they call. Guys are lazy in this day and age so they always say why don't you call us? I am old-fashioned in this area and I have always done it that way and it usually worked out for the best when I did it that way. Good luck!
76950
Sometimes it's good for the girl to make the first move.  My boyfriend charmed me into making the first move, and I'm not sorry.  (Actually I'm really really happy!)  And I'm an old-fashioned kind of a girl, too!