Why does my fiance want to do this??
440156
Not crazy just old fashioned. But I guess at your age it really isn't necessary. Your dad might think it is weird. Maybe you should talk him out of it.
927680
He likes the fantasy...and if truth be told, we all have our own fantasies..there is nothing wrong with that. But most times fantasies are best kept to ourselves...it rarely serves any one well to share them with our partner.\n\nWhat IS definitely wrong is if he keeps asking you once you've told him no. Let him know it bothers you and that you find the question disrespectful to you AND your relationship. If he really loves you he will understand that and learn to keep his fantasies to himself.\nIf he keeps asking, he may not be the guy to plan your future with hun.\n\nxoxoxo
1183638
From what I understand from talking to my fiance, sometimes guys get so into it and so involved and excited that they can't "finish". I don't really understand it either, but believe me, we've been through it too. It's completely understandable since you waited until you were married to go for it(congrats on that by the way).I suggest just telling him to slow down and try to enjoy the moment more. Once he starts relaxing he'll come around..I promise :0)
484481
I hope to say it better than the other dudes..... if she wants to "make love" with you before the wedding than go for it but don't push it on her if she don't want to. to some women it is very sacred and a very emotional experience. talk to her, see how she feels.
605886
That is pure selfish. He wants other women and you too. Been there before....Not something to try and build another relationship on , a threesome. If he truly loves you, he'll put her to the curb and come back to you, no matter what. If he's asking you this, and is separated from you now, then his intentions aren't to fix things, its to have his cake and eat it too. Its not fair to you, move on, find someone who won't use you to get his kicks like your current hubby....GL;)
757480
He wants to keep his options open... not be tied down. You need to stand up for yourself and tell him its all or nothing. Dont let him run the relationship.... it is supposed to be 50/50. Tell him that you need to be commited to him. If he really cares about you he will comply!
545523
he wants you to do it all the time.  Because it feels good for him and he proablly if this does happen think if you do it to him he can to you.  And that you do a Da** good job.  Is why.  I asked my bf that same question.  he said because i did a DA** good job is why he wanted it more and more and more
504384
Okay first this is a decision totally based upon when he feels ready. Pressuring him will make the sitiation intensely more difficult But the good news is he actually sounds as if he is planning something...I was very confused just like you before my fiance proposed he always made it clear to me that it would eventually happen just not as soon as I wanted but sure enough he proposed..So let him do this at his own pace..Your realtionship sounds solid so just give him the time he needs this is a HUGE step for both of you....I have a feeling congradualtions will be something you will hear soon!
1070722
have a fiance! and yes he does!!!
916416
Stick with your fiance...in the end, he will prevail.  Long term relationships aren't easy and they require some work.  You can get the lust back into your relationship with your fiance, you just need to spice things up and talk to him.  You both need to talk to each other about trying new things, tell him what you want him to do and what you like...otherwise he'll never know he's not giving you what you need or want.  This guy may be a good bootycall but not worth losing love over.  You just want excitement and to feel your heart jumping again.  The best way I found to satisfy the thirst for those feelings, have your girls' night out and dance and flirt but don't let it get too far...score some free drinks and then go home and have hot wild monkey sex with your fiancee...lol.  But who I am to tell you how to live your life.  Do what you feel is best for you...follow your intuition.  Best of luck!
740575
He is maybe jealous and really wants to know if he has a chance. It is a personal question. NOT a casual one. Its none of his business! You did the right thing by telling him that was personal. He shouldnt have pressed the issue.
721869
Hi Ann! It doesn't sound like he's ready for the commitment that you want and deserve. You seem like you appreciate straight-forward answers and you seem to have the courage to ask him. It's better to know than to wonder, regret later and carry anger, when you could of had that time for yourself or with Mr. Right. Good luck....and you deserve better!
195266
God does things on HIS time schedule... sometimes, his answer is a blatant "yes" or "no." In this case, HIS answer may be "not quite yet."\n\nHE may have something that HE wants you to reevaluate things. Maybe HE is trying to get you to learn something or change something about you, so as to better honor your future wife. Growth in the Spirit best takes place under trying times, and this time in your life (i.e. when you're relying on God to sustain you rather than your fiance/wife) is when the most spiritual growth can take place.\n\nNow is a time you can change/rearrange things in your life. Seize the day. Take this delay as a message from God to see what in your life needs reevaluating or prioritizing.\n\nOver all, I'd commend you for looking to HIM rather than blindly jumping into something out of selfish motives. You seem to be keeping your sight on the target. Kudos.
47691
Why would someone want to do that?
1052620
why is a guy asking this ???
694714
Oh get a grip woman!  He stated the guy is a true friend...not that he wants to bang him.  Would you had been bothered if he wasn't gay and had your fiance's picture on his page?  What diff does it really make?  Lets say he did want to bang your fiance...why would that matter?  IF your fiance is not gay NONE of it matters.  Get over it.
492760
whether my boyfriend will ask me to marry him..?