I'm a lesbian and my girlfriend is ....?
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first off, dont listen to the people telling you to get a man. they are just people who dont get enough sex. secondly, i have severe trust issues because i have been cheated on by EVERYONE except my current girl.yes, im a lesbian. Give it time, do not ask her to prove herself, let her do what she is going to do, if she does what you asked her to, then give it time, it will take time sweety. if you want to talk more, octabreaker, or email me octabreaker@yahoo.com
763182
Looks like ya got a lot of stupid answers. Well,let me be serious.\n   My girlfriend was being honest with me when she told me of her attraction to other female bodies and she has had sex with other women.Let me say this.It is the honesty that turned me on even more than her admitting she is bisexual.So what;she is bi. Since that admission when we go out in public, she'll say,"hey what do you think" when she notices an attractive woman.It seems we both have the same taste.\n   Understand, we have been together for four years and it wasn't until our third year that she told me because she wanted our relationship to be honest and well, she didn't know how I would take it.\n When she wants to have sex with another woman,well, that's okay with me.  I don't, can't and should not have any say in that matter.That's her.\nI'll be honest with you too. It is a turn on for me.\nI'm sorry this was so long.
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I think what she meant by ,'...and then realize I'm really straight' is that since she is confused right now, then she comes out and goes through all that, then she understands that she really was straight the whole time and it was just the girl in the three way.  But I do have to say to you suntan that if you have been having feelings about girls, other than the one you were with, how far off can you be?  I do have a suggestion.  A couple of people have eluded to this suggestion, but none have said it.  Why don't you date a girl for a while and not tell anyone.   Then if things get serious you can bring her around to a few people you can trust to feel out your friends.  You don't even have to tell them that you have always felt this way.  You can say you met her and something happened, you had to be with her.  Something like that, in your words of course!  Then maybe they will accept it easier and if your first relationship doesn't work out the door will already be open for another girl if you choose.  That's what I'd do anyway.  Good luck!  It looks like you are getting some great answers and support on here.  I really hope it all works out for you, truly.  I wish I could hug you!\n\nOh and remember, there is no shame in being bisexual.  I am not saying you are, but if that is what you end up feeling do not fight it, it's ok.
447157
If she was a lesbian, she wouldn't be sleeping with you at all. Maybe she just has a fetish for men who cross dress.
731057
if shes a lesbian then tell her but if shes straight then id keep it to yourself
945546
This happened to me 17 years ago. I was in high school and there was this beautiful woman named Jennifer. Her mother was a teacher at our school and she was prom queen.. We use to stare at each other for days. One day she gave me a picture and wrote on the back. " I'm glad I finally found someone like me". She never told me what it meant :( . I think she wanted to tell me she was a lesbian but couldn't because of society. I was openly Lesbian in High School.. Now days have changed and maybe she will tell you. Try to mustard up the guts to ask her to do something with you. Then maybe you can get closer and be in the situation to ask her how she feels about lesbians...
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ur mum maybe already knows that u r a lesbian but maybe she just wants u to admit it to her.... u should sit down calmly n talk to her tel her exactly how u feel.... if age doesn't matter to the both of then its done already.... a relationship only happens betweem two person other people's opinion doesn't matter.... like me i m a butch but i dun care... no matter how people look at u it doesn't matter.... wat matters most is how u look at urself n wat ur gf thinks... bout the distance u should organize who should take turns in visiting each other maybe once a month... my gf n me live in two different countries but we can still stay loving.... try to talk on the phone more often or even going on9, exchanging pics... it'll be even better if u have a webcam... trust me n believe in urself n ur gf... it'll workout....
280289
Well let me see.  If someone were "doing" yahoo!answers and were gay, that would make them female, 'cause I'm pretty sure yahoo!answers is female.  So, your question then becomes, "how many lesbians are doing yahoo!answers?" \n\nWell, unfortunately, yahoo!answers just broke up with her longtime girlfriend of five years, and I think she's taking a break from relationships right now.  And as we all know, yahoo!answers is not the kind of girl who sleeps around.  So no one is presently "doing" her.  \n\nNow, to answer your question: You're an idiot.
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no i dont think she is a lesbian i think shes just strange!! A little crazy but not les!! I would just ya know call johnny depp and see which one she chooses! if she chooses johnny depp(which she will) obviously shes not fruity!!!i dont have anything against fruity people but you seem to be fruity urself!
699343
You are not lesbian at all. You just get attracted towards girls for their looks for the time being but not forever....
68606
She'll have an Official Lesbian Badge. J/K :P\nThe only way to know is if she tells you herself. Or if you meet her girlfriend-girlfriend.
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It depends on what your beliefs are. You're girlfriend may be alright with it, but it sounds like you're having a problem being with her. If you're not sure of what to do, then don't get involved with her until you are absolutely sure that there is nothing wrong with being homosexual. If you believe that it's wrong then it's wrong to you. Everyone is not going to have the same beliefs, so you can only go on what your gut feelings are concerning this homosexual relationship.
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Sounds like she's lesbian, not bi and you're the last to know.
542948
Just explain to her, that although you love her, because you are a (heterosexual)man, you are genetically hard-wired to admire the shape of women. You did before you met her, you met her because you did, and you cannot (try as you may) ignore it. She will not understand and you will still be castigated but it's something that women (all women everywhere)need to understand(and hear often).
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Wow.  I think you should open the discussion in reference to homosexuality with your friend first to gauge a reaction.  If you feel like the reaction is positive, go from there.  Unfortunately, you need to discuss this a.s.a.p. with your girlfriend, she may already know, but just refuses to accept what's right in front of her.  She's your biggest issue first.
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You are for sure bisexual, but you don't want or are not yet prepared to admit that. You must deal with this first, then you'd better talk to that girl and explain her everything you feel; be sincere if you want to be fully understood. She will know what to tell you, how to guide you into this new "phenomenon". Rest asured, she will perfectly understand and support you, if she realy is bi, as you said.\nDon't break up with her just because you feel awkward when boys are near (you two). You'll hurt both of you, and neither deserve such a heartache...
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take her in my arms and kiss her.\n\ntoo bad you are not a lesbian - fun too.  LOL