How could you tell if your husband gay???
441853
If you don't know how are we to know?!
21011
hey girl, its alright. the easiest way to find out is to just ask him. use your woman's intuition to judge his response. i got other ways if you're REALLY concerned.
268925
Exactly how do you measure "gayness?"\nEither you like having sex with other men or you don't. \nI don't think it is possible to measure levels of gayness.
349294
Does he know your gay?If not tell him and let him know how you feel.
272553
Just because someone isn't married doesn't mean that they're gay.  \n\nHe's been married once and divorced, and never since married again.
196054
Ask his wife if in doubt....K
492842
Haha. Someone discovered something new. Hey man, your wife is misinformed. And you, obviously have not thoroughly explored your body...till now. We all have played with ourselves. Though, some slightly more than others. There are lots of ways for a guy to have intense orgasms. Anyway, the media and the gay community is always perpetrating that a man who dresses well, who's too good looking and goes to the gym is gay. And that such men should stop pretending and come out. This hype causes these type of men to question themselves with questions like "I like it when I/my gf/my wife plays with my anus so am I gay?" or "I do envy other males with better physique than mine so am I gay?"...etc. This is overblown. And it doubles as a strategy to confuse and turn the fashion conscious, good looking, gym going men, gay. Yes it works. There men who are "recruited" gays. Truth is there's always a reason a man becomes gay. No one is born gay. Anyway the percentage of hetero men is higher than our homo counterparts. Whatever it is, the numerous other reasons n questions that you have, can only be answered by yourself. Some men do experience this phase of self questioning. Some don't. If you like men, lust after men, wanna have sex with men, wanna develop relationships with men or marry or live together. Then you are gay. If you don't, then you're not. Having questions doesn't make you gay. Looking at other guys doesn't make you gay. The decisions and choices do. Simple.\n\nWell now that you've added the details, its certainly more complicated. ok so you've probably had a sort of a gay lifestyle back then. But think of the reality, which is now. Are you happy with your wife and marriage? What about children? do you have children? Do you love your wife? why did you marry her in the first place? think of all the moments that both of you shared. If its all good. Then ending the marriage would destroy her and your children (if you have any). Not ending the marriage, will mean that you're not being honest to your wife and yourself. Either way someone will get hut. It boils down to you. Yes, its really difficult. Think about it and weigh the situations. You could talk to your wife about the problem, maybe with a counsellor too. I wish you good luck.
1052725
well if you think you might be gay\n\nyou probably are\n\n\nhere are some other signs:\n\nyou like to have sex with people of the same gender
398148
You need to be honest with him. If he's straight and not into you then at least you will know. Maybe he wants to know because maybe he's interested in you. Either way you need to be honest with him. If it's meant to be it will be. Show him respect always and by being honest with him it shows him the utmost respect. Good luck honey!
227466
Of course it can happen! He might not be able to explain it because he doesn't understand it himself...he might be wondering how it happened when he has always been straight. It's probably very confusing for him. You say you're in love, and things sound very good. Don't question it with him. For now just let him express his feeling in other ways, through his actions!
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Talk to him and find out...
825187
If he is looking at gay sites he could be curious, but since you say he was chatting too it could be more. Since he is in his late 40s, when he was in his early teens it was illegal almost everywhere for a man to have sex with another man. Being gay was called a choice, and since everyone was told it was a choice many people who were attracted to the same sex married and had children. Guys in their 40s usually go through a mid life crisis where they realize that they are getting older and want to act on things that they wanted to do when they were younger but weren't able to do either due to society or financial circumstances.\nThe thing I would ask you is if you love him, and if so how much? Do you think you could be supportive of him if he were gay? (I am not suggesting that you would stay married, only that it could be a friendly divorce). From what you have said I really don't know if he is straight, bisexual, or gay; but since you say he was not only looking but chatting at gay sites, I would simply ask him "Why were you talking to people at that site, I'm not going to tell you it is wrong, but would like to know why?" and see what happens. You won't know until you ask, and you may not get an honest answer, but at least you'll get an answer.
438264
if you think about physical contact with the same sex like kissing and your loins start tingling, then you're probably gay. if you get a bit of a gag reflex going, your probably straight!
264591
Are you gay and looking to find out if he is too, or is he your boyfriend and your not sure. I need more details to work with... But my advice is not to worry about it. Just be supportive, and if he is gay he will tell you when the time is right.
256862
why would you ask if he is gay? he obviously is.
513844
I don't understand how you can be 100% faithful to your wife and still have a gay sexual orientation. Did you get this sexual orientation after getting married to her or before. If its before, then its amazing you were attracted enough to a woman to marry her though you were gay and i don't know for how long now you guys have been married. But if its after, then its not fair. There is a possibility you could still get rid of the this orientation. Obviously it would not work if your wife finds out. But you should at least be sincere enough to tell her and let her make her choice which is obvious, and would be to leave the marriage, but she would not mind if she has the same sexual orientation. Just be sincere with her and come clean
1106511
Girl is you crazy? Don't convience no other women of anything about your husband! If they want to think he is gay let them think it! This way you don't have to worry about them hitting on him! However keep your eyes peeled. Not all of those friends really think he is gay and they are trying to throw you off their trail of secretly liking your husband. \nAnd whatever you do, do continue to watch sex and the city and bond with your husband. And whatever you don't do, don't make him feel bad because your so called friends haves you thinking he's gay. I mean because you may watch a ball game or action movie with your husband does't make you gay. So why such it make him gay for watching a drama with you. But this is are secret remember! Do not tell your girlfriends!  Good Luck to you and your husband!