What do guys first have in mind when the feel interested in a girl after their first meeting?
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not what you might think.  most young guys think with their package and not their brain.  If the person was following your thoughts then He would think of compatibility in social lines not the coupling thing.  Each person is different and follows patterns that are formed by earlier relationships and how mature they are.  You should be concerned with your thoughts and if Yo9u can look at the relationship's potential.  The hard part is getting thru the smokescreens.  Be objective and put your expectations up against what the guy has to offer.
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Trust your feeling, when you look at a girl and you think she is beautiful and you feel like you would like to be with her, spend time with her, it's the one you got to go for. Then, the tricky part is to show your interest and see if she is interested to you.  Here is the trick I used the most when I was dating girls: if i would feel the girl seems interested in me, at one point, I would take her hand. If she removes it fast, she's probably not interested.  But if she holds your hand, you win the J A C K P O T.
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Depends on how well it went with the first meeting and how anxious you are to do it. I think it might be kinda romantic if she got home and there was a message from you on the machine.
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Communication is a good start. Don't be too shy. Make her LAUGH! That's how guys get my attention. Be charming, give her compliments, ask her about herself; like what she likes to do, or her favorite restraunt. Then maybe if you think she's flirting with you, ask her on a date, to the movies, out to eat, anything romantic. It could even be a double date! Those sometimes seem to break the ice a little bit and make everything less akward for your first time!
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it could mean many things, why not choose an explanation for it that makes you still feel good about her and about yourself, and leave it out there for a while.  Maybe she will get interested, maybe she won't, but carry yourself with a balance of confidence and compassion and know that you had the courage to ask in the first place.  Regardless, your interest in her is flattering.  \n\nI suggest that you leave her alone for a while, and if she comes to you at all then that is a sign that she wants you to pursue her.  Listen to yourself, do you feel welcome in her presence?  What does her body language tell you?  Does she avoid you?  Does she smile at you?\n\nOne way or another, you will know the answer eventually, so have some patience, and be open...good luck!
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girls need to look at a guy and immediately feel safe with him. He needs to have that quality,. he should be genuine and should be a good listener.
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The guy should make the first move.  That way, the girl knows that he is confident enough to go for it, and the guy doesn't have to sit around waiting for her to make a move.  Any confident guy will make a move on a girl he likes.
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A girl always want to feelt special, not if its on the first dates- then she probebly wonders if u still thinking of this girl while ur eating. if you are togehter for sometime you can take her later cause then she already has some special places with u.
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Maybe the first date wasn't all that.\nShe still can be interested in the guy but feels that there is no chemistry, so then he is now added to the friend list!
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A guy should be gentle, nice, and keep his hands to himself.\n\nHe should be respectful to the girl(this is a 24/7 deal but especially on the first date.)
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first place you met her, first date place, romantic be by yourself place... do something special, something she'll remember... just think about what YOU would remember
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the conversation starters will come up spontaniously in your own mind when you first set eyes on him and see something 'more'. at that point it is make or break.\n\nyou will find you feel a strong urge to go and say something to him.\n\nseize the moment. there's no more successful way. \ni alwasy feel so stupid and guilty when i don't seize the moment! no joke, there's some special energy in that first moment which, if you can flow with it, will sufficiently buffer you against the perils of failure (you will just feel so great and exhilerated for being so honest and brave and acting on your feeling straight away!) and create such a charge in your eye, voice and actions that you will be at your most enticing!\n\nor at least you will be very interesting and a rare encounter for them for your honesty.\n\nthis is a fun and spontaneous thing to do, it becomes drudgerous and embarressing when you don't go with the initial impulse because of fear.\n\nlet it go if that happens and wait for the next opportunity! that's what i'm doing, rest assured they just keep on coming!
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Step One, Eye Contact!\n\nUsually the first contact made with a "Potentially Interesting Person" (from this point forward they will be referred to as "PIPs") is eye contact. There are a few different types of eye contact.\nThere is the "Across the Room" eye contact, the "In Passing" eye contact (when a PIP is passing by you) and the all-important "Conversational" eye contact. Each is different in many respects, but similar in that they are all ways of sneaking in communication without words.   \n\n\n\nIn order for that contact to have the desired impact, it must be delivered well. It is fun and easy when you know how. Perfecting this ability will be incredibly useful for you in meeting and attracting quality men! \n\nSo you're at the 7-Eleven, a restaurant or club, the market or any public place where you see a PIP. How do you get from hmmm?. . . TO HIM! Often in these situations, you'll need to make eye contact before a conversation can begin.\n\nWhen making this kind of eye contact, remember that you are trying to convey a message with your eyes. People have told me that they are no good at eye-contact flirting because they always end up looking away - when really, this action is in fact conveying the desired message. \n\n\n    Think about it. If a man stares at you and when you look back at him he doesn't end up looking away, you feel uncomfortable and intimidated - more like you're being stalked than flirted with! A man will also feel uncomfortable if a woman overstays her gaze.  \n\n\nThe ideal "Across the Room" eye-contact flirt only makes contact for two or three seconds, and then shyly, must turn away. Usually this will make you smile, which is again a perfect communication - friendly and pleasant. It shows you're happy that he looked back and showed interest in you. Even blushing works in your favor, so don't try to hide it. In these ways, you are using your nervous energy to your advantage. It's important that you let him catch you looking back at him. Subconsciously, this tells him you are interested. If he doesn't catch you looking back at him, he may decide you are not interested. Then he may not be able to get up the nerve to come over and start a conversation with you. \n\nSide note: If he's looking at you when you look back at him, that's a pretty good sign he is interested in you. \nIf he isn't looking at you, that's not necessarily a sign that he's not interested in you. In a situation where you have the time, this entire sequence of looking, looking away and looking back, should repeat itself a few times before you move forward. This kind of eye-contact flirting is most effective in a restaurant, club, or in line at an amusement park or the DMV. Use it in any situation where you and the PIP are going to be in the same place for a while.  \n\n\n\n\n\nList of Top Ten Flirting Tips \n\n\nBy Fran Greene\n\n10. Flirting is an attitude: \nA good flirt is self-confident and not afraid to take risks. \nBe enthusiastic and positive, it works! \n\n9. Start a conversation: \nThe best opening line is saying hello.\nTalk about the surroundings, ask a question, ask for help, state an opinion.\n\n8. Have fun: \nBe playful, light-hearted and spontaneous. \nShow your vulnerability. \n\n7. Use props: \nNever leave home without a prop. \nProps are natural conversation starters. They encourage conversation and others will be compelled to start talking to you. \nGreat props include: dogs, kids, unusual jewelry, a irresistable scent, a sweatshirt with your favorite passion, interesting ties, hats, or an interesting book or newspaper. \n\n6. Be the host: \nChange your behavior from the role of guest to host. \nYou are not the passive person in waiting, but rather the welcome committee. \n\n5. Make the first move: Move closer to the person you want to meet. \nSay hello! \n\n4. Listen: \nYou have two ears and one mouth bec
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Oh, I have the same problem, ever since I could remember. I guess it's the general thing of wanting to be liked but being afraid of rejection.\n\nYou don't have to splurge out absolutely everything about yourself in a first meeting, just smile and be polite (you can never go wrong with a smile) ask general questions like how are you, where are you from, do you have any family, what are your hobbies, what kind of music do you like...etc. and in return answer the person's questions. \n\nYou may not relate your deepest darkest secret but you can share general things, no one is going to condemn you for liking a particular band or the colour green.\n\nI've tried it and I think it works out pretty well, the key is to smile a lot ^^ (that way they can't tell if you're freaking out internally)\n\nsure it will be a tad bit uncomfy at first but as conversation progresses, you should naturally ease up and things should flow from there...\n\nGood luck for future endeavours ^^ I'm rootin' for ya!
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I agree with "Pie" -- some physical attraction and some kind of personality connection.  I can usually sense whether there's any connection within a few minutes of talking.
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The first thing you see on the opposite sex, is their personal appearance. Thats is what motivates you to start a conversation with them. Once you get to know them, you decide if you wanna be with them because of their looks or their personality and brains.\n\nMe personaly have talked to girls that are drop dead gorgeus but just dumb as a brick, so i would never work out. Other great looking girls have an attitude that would make the devil him self shake.\n\nI've also talked to some okay looking girls that know how to treat everybody with respect and that makes them beutiful in the inside and outside.\n\nI would tak epersonality and branins over beauty any day of the week. \n\nIt's pretty hard to find the total package, don't care if your a guy or girl. You just gotta let things go once in a while.
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hmm, I just met someone at my practicum a few weeks ago and the same thing happened. we were polite, but maybe a little over the top and i think there was something extra going on. we shook hands, looked eachother directly in the eyes and chatted for a few minutes and when i had to go back to a different building, we were like "it was nice to meet you, (then he said my name)" and he wished me luck in my practicum blah blah blah. who knows though. if i'm not some kind of psycho i think we were pretty attracted to eachother\n\nso if you feel that way, i think you probably are right. so see how things go.. i'd chat her up a bit and eventually ask her out for tea or something.