When is it a good time to have another baby, when you already have a 4 year old and 2 year old?
454192
The time is right when you feel ready to have another child!  If you feel like you can deal with another one now, then go for it, if you don't think you can, then wait!
218381
DEPENDS ON HOW YOUNG.  OF COURSE A BABY DOESN'T KNOW WHAT'S GOING ON.  MY DAUGHTER WAS 3, SHE DID GREAT!  MUCH BETTER THAN I DID.  IF THEY ARE SCHOOL AGE I THINK IT'S EVEN EASIER BECAUSE SO MANY OF THEIR FRIENDS ARE FROM BROKEN MARRAGES, WHICH IS A SHAME IF YOU THINK ABOUT IT.  I PERSONALLY BELIEVE IN STAYING MARRIED BUT THAT'S IN A PERFECT WORLK AND AS YOU KNOW THIS IS NOT WHAT WE LIVE IN.
86213
the sooner the better.  of course, they're not going to have the best dextarity when they're younger--but it doesn't hurt to start them out early.  a lot of people think that other eager parents "push" their kids.  this is quite the contrary.  babies/toddlers/small children love to learn, they don't look at it like a chore or a burden.  while they are very young their little minds are like sponges and they pick up more than what you think.  my 3 year old is able to write the alphabet and never once has he complained when i work with him.  you just have to keep in mind their attention spans.  start out with a couple minutes at a time, a couple times a day.  they will think it's fun and it incorporates a good value of education for them.  don't just stop there though with writing; if you have the time and the willingness you can also teach them math and number values.  anyone that says that this is not "good" for you kids, to let them have a "normal childhood" is not taking advantage of this window of time when children are very eager to learn. keep in mind that this is what kids love and "want" to do. if they can pick up little things from watching tv, why not have them pick up facts and figures?  just make things fun and they will literally be begging you to teach them more.
1161799
you have babysat kids your age? Strange. I think you are stil too young to babysit children under1. i think you could babysit 2 kids at the time ranging from age1- 9. I would charge per kids, per hour.....depending on the age, and what they can do for themselves, and did you have to travel to them or did they come to you.
714863
2 years old is a good age but talk to your pediatrician to be sure.
402769
I have 7 kids. I cant imagine my life without any of them. If you have the capacity to support and love them all...then have a dozen. If you are popping out kids to get more social services(which I have seen people do)then no..you shouldnt have any more.
507267
2 year olds dont know right from wrong they are still too young. you need lots of patience as its a trying time for you and them. be consistant and dont be afraid to get professional help if you feel you need it. its not easy raising 2 year olds and they can be very trying. good luck.
10374
to have 4 wonderful kids. ( i want to have two sets of twins, wich could happen every three generations in my family, there are atleast one set born, and i think its my turn... lol)
724138
We are great parents to one child, and that's all our life can let us handle. Not having siblings will not damage a child, there are lots of only children out there as proof!\n\nYou can have more children, so long as your body and the government let you, but it does not make you a better parent. The number of your children should not be the measure of your parental worth. Some families have bunches of kids and do great, and others raise bunches of unhappy kids. You find what works for your family and be happy doing it. Maybe people need to be more understanding.\n\nIf people give you strange looks about having the one, tell them you are waiting to have the second when your husband can carry it, he's dying to be the pregnant one next time! Works for us.
268561
No.  Some children have been born at 4 months and have lived.  Why not wait the pregnancy out and then put the child up for adoption.
882379
I think around 24 to 27 for me, yes its also the best time for having kids but its also good cause the couple is young enuf to enjoy the marriage. You're not as jaded and irritated with life just yet. As for the busy schedules, well, if a relationship or family life is important you can always make time, our dads and moms did it right? If they could do it, so could we.
434167
i think it is better to have 2 children myself but there is a big age different there. i have 6 kids myself and i love them all very much. my older sister wanted another baby after i had my 3 rd son my #5 lol and she did after 7 years of freedom and she said if she had to do it all over again she would not. its truly a big question you want to ask yourself if you are ready to lock yourself down to another baby and give up what you got. i mean its hard today with kids the rules have changes alot and your age is another thing you might want to look at to the older you get the harder it is to carry a baby my last daughter i thought i was dieing it was very hard f or me and i was only 30. my sister also had alot of trouble she was 33 with her last one. best of luck .
741170
go to your Dr and deal with what comes out of it best do that sooner rather than later.l.At this point you would be worrying   too much and maybe unnecessarily,using up energy you could be using with your new baby and life and yep use contraception if you don't want another baby just yet.Every girls body is different. Good luck
144440
no problem whatsoever, just so long as you are not trying to start a new family, it would be real unfair to the kids you could have, if this is part of your master plan.
747514
My youngest and oldest have both had babies, I was extremely happy about both.  Both My kids are still my babies, no matter who came first or last, I love them both more than my own life.
292788
you are too young baby,cant wait find a little babyto go out with you sorry my daughter is too old,maybe my neice,shes 2mths like younger chicks,he,he,he
58718
Yes, they are. Until we learn to care for the ones already exisitng, we should hold off on creating more of our own. (Just a personal observation.) Perhaps some of these families who like to pop out kid after kid should adopt one (or several).