what does it mean by holding hands without asking the person?
442846
It just means that the two of you are comfortable in each others company...there is a trust/bond.  Holding hands also means that you like each other very much.
225819
I can't speak for everyone but it's nice to be held/cuddled for a while.Maybe ask if thirsty and offer to get drink etc.Or take a shower together.Never just get up and leave the room and not say anything!
122124
when you say he asked you out, do you mean on a date or to be his girlfriend? if he holds your hand he's being sweet not alotta guys do that. my fiance is one of those rare types that likes to show affection no matter when or where. it's very romantic!!
970518
Simply hugging is considered TABOO in countries such as KOREA AND JAPAN especially with the older generations. So if that's considered a TABOO can you imagine what it woould mean to kiss someone.  BTW ,,, I work in the USA and kissing is/can be considered SEXUAL HARRASSMENT.
679117
Yup, there are times that is just do not want to touch someone else's hands, nothing personal, just a want.  You know like the 3 feet of personal space some people insist on.  It just night feel like your invading that space.  Who knows?
225822
Simple. Ask.  It's not going to hurt anything if you just causually say "are you seeing anyone?"
970097
Inadvisable. You should wait until you know them well enough to see if they are receptive to this. Americans place a lot of importance on personal space. You should never touch someone you don't know. At best this would make them awkward and uncomfortable, even if they didn't make a big deal out of it.
891177
Congratulations! well, let's see... you should probably be the one who initiate the move of holding hands first. You can do that by asking her if she's cold? and take her hand and warm them up and dont let go? it's chessy but it works! and take things slow. if you are going to give her a hug, don't rush into the hug... make sure you see where her head and arms are... you don't want to bump into her like an idiot... give her kisses on her hands, then cheeks then watever... but like I said, take it slow and be aware of where you are and who's watching.. make sure she's in a comfortable environment. don't worry about it, this is what makes being in a relationship fun! goodo luck
284749
Did I just read "no personal communication"?\nWhat does that mean?\nDon't pose a question unless you don't care about the answer- it's the rules
1068971
Have you already talked to the person about it?  Simply take that person aside and say something like, "Hey, <insert name here>, I noticed that earlier when we were talking you touched me.  I appreciate your friendly attitude, but I am uncomfortable with being touched like that.  I also feel that you stand too close to me.  I would feel more comfortable if you didn't come within 2 feet of me and if you wouldn't touch me at work.  Would you please stop?"  It's entirely possible that this behavior is simply the way that the person is expressing collegiality towards you, and he/she may not realize that it makes you uncomfortable.  Being direct and stating exactly what behavior you don't like, as well as what behavior you would prefer, will leave nothing up in the air.\n\nAssuming that you have already talked to the person about it and directly asked him/her to stop, and you feel that your discomfort is affecting your work performance, mention it to a supervisor or HR.
436246
In business yes it is somewhat true you should not offer your hand unless or until she offer hers.\n\nBut, in life it is nice if a gentle man to instead of waiting for the lady to.\n\nThat's what that always happen.
717040
when you don't have to ask.
400720
It totally depends on the circumstances.  Holding hands is common among friends in many cultures.  For me, a lot would depend on how he approached it and how he acted once he was holding my hand.  If he was trying to get romantic at the same time, it would probably bother me.  If he just held it and went on like nothing happened, I would probably assume it was just a friendly gesture.
311884
The train station could mean that you are about to embark on a journey (not necessarily a physical one) of change. The crowd emphasizes your feeling of loneliness, because this is a step you have to take on your own. The guy who grabs your hand is a symbol of your fears regarding that departure. The old guy is a father figure who protects you...
335203
Hugs are the most natural thing in the world, and way less dangerous than anything else you can imagine.\n\nOf course, there are different kinds of hugs...\n\nWhat's the alternative, handshake?  What country are you in?  Knowing the culture would be essential for meaningful answers.\n\nI write from USA, where things are a little weird, now....
624566
to show that we are not holding any weapons, a open hand as such
574243
I wouldn't assume that automatically.\nIt sort of depends on the context, did he have his hand in your hair and it got pulled or did he purposefully grab it to yank it - with no other conceivable reason.\n\nYou might want to ask him about it.  \nMention that it was uncomfortable (in a polite way).  It could be that he was overexcited and had no idea of the amount of pressure.  \n\nThe important thing is you let him know it hurt and that he not do it again.