is it right to have sex before marriage?
454560
No! I believe no one has ever asked a friend or just someone handling him or her a gift or present to unwrap it before we accept it; we go ahead and gladly accept it and when get home whatever there is in it we take and appreciate it.\nWe all one point in our lifes have faith; we have faith that sitting on a chair we will not fall, why? Thats is marriage for you. Get to know the necessary and don't ovwer burden yourself.
523388
If you are religious, it is wrong to have sex before you are married.  It is a sin, it's called fornication.
529077
One phrase comes to my mind with your question:\n"Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?"\nSex is defiantly rarely valued these days. I wish I realized its value earlier than when I did.\n\nJust saw your add-ins. That's a tuff one. I think sex is alright before marriage, so long as it's done for the RIGHT reasons, and so long as your not a "hoe" or walking STD factory. If you ask me, way too many people are having WAY to many partners, and that goes back to my original message about the lack of value for sex.
612749
not under any circumstance - you will ruin the kids life if they are not brought up in a  proper family environment and sex before marriage is immoral and well having sex the first time on your wedding night makes it special for both - I would hold back till then
154184
it depends on your beliefs, i believe that you should only have sex when u know that you really love the person, and before you have sex u should become friends first and really get to know and trust each other, its not about marriage its about maturity and commitment,
452978
Problem is deeper. It's a Phylosofical problem (usually are not practic). Condom is not the problem, but behavior is.\n\nYou are not allowed to do sex before marriage. \nOnce married you are not allowed to have sex relations with other person. \nAnd MOST important of all: When you do sex, you do to have children and not to have pleasure. After 60's Pope told that having pleasure during the sex is not sin. ... since you are respecting all rules above. \n\nThese are main rules and as a Catholic, you cannot avoid it. If Catholic church allow to use condom, it means that they allow to do those wrong things too. \n\nIt's just a matter of Ethics and cause and consequence about rules. Religion cannot be flexible as moral is. Change this concept means change part of what has been teach during so long time .... and it has consequences.
640005
Good question. don't know for sure til it happens. I plan to wait until marriage to have sex, and if I never marry, I may remain a virgin for the rest of my life. So I suppose I could, but is it really fair to expect that? I am sure that is part of your point. Why should homosexuals be expected to do something heterosexuals are not expected to do? I don't believe homosexuality is wrong, just different from society's definition of the norm. It might make reproduction difficult, but not everyone wants to have kids anyway. only God knows someones heart and the decision should be made between the people involved and God. don't worry about the opinions of others.
1183236
I don't agree....some relationships just aren't meant to be, it has nothing to do with moving in with each other before marriage. I honestly think living together before marriage is a good thing because you get to know the person and figure out if you are going to work out. It better than running off to Vegas getting married in t-shirt and jeans to someone you barely know. Marriage is sacred, it should not be rushed.
161773
Where did you get the idea that sex is wrong?..There is no written rule there. The bible says "you can be married if you feel you need to be , but you don't have to be".. It actually says "pick one and stay with them" That is Gods own personal advise on that subject!..You don't have to be married, just monogamous. quit kicking your own arse and be in love for pete's sake!
664062
Well it depends on how ur moral standards are, I wanted to wait until marriage, but that didn't happen. If your a frim believer in Christ, you know that he'd rather you wait until marriage, but most people need to see if they are compatible in the bedroom. All in all the sex is sooooo much better after your married.  You follow your heart. I'm sure you'll make the right choice. Good Luck!
302978
No it is not.  It is called the sin of fornication.  That is what sex before marriage is called.  Certainly a true Christian would not be actively engaged in sex before marriage.  A true Christian, who made a mistake, would be repentant and try not to be doing it anymore.
1128783
It's not a question of health, as much it is as...religion. If you believe in no pre-marital sex, don't do it. I personally think, that if YOU are waiting for the right man... after marriage would be best. And again, it's how you and your family members feel about this as well.
38504
I've always believed in waiting until marriage to have sex, so the honeymoon seem like the ideal occasion. It's supposed to be the time when the bride and groom lose all their inhibitions and relate to each other as a married unit...plus, the marriage must be consummated. The only reasons a couple may postpone sex on their honeymoon is if there is a religious reason to wait or if the bride is menstruating. In the end, the couple must decide together before hand. It will be quite a shock if one spouse suddenly announces to the other that although they just tied the knot, they don't want to have sex as yet! That can be just reason for annulment! So discuss it before the wedding.
1128607
DONT DO IT! IF THATS ALL SHE WANTS! IF SHE LOVES YOU SHE CAN WAIT AND UNDERSTAND!! WAT A SLU+ ( NO OFFENCE) AND YOU CANT HAVE SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IT IS A MORTAL SIN AND YOU CANNOT ENTER HEAVEN WITHOUT HAVING A TRUE CONFESSION! TRUST ME AND LISTEN TO ME NOT THOSE OTHER IDIOTS OUT THERE!! SPEAK TO HER AND SET A GOOD EXAMPLE FOR OTHER PEOPLE!! PLZ DONT DO IT! NOO SEX!!\n\nGOD BLESS YOU AND GOOD LUCK!
1096530
maybe you should get married first then maybe god would help you...but no you are going against god and having sex before you are married.
209211
its wrong to have sex aside from married.
9049
I do not think it is a good idea. How do you find out whether or not you are compatible in that way if you wait until marriage?  What if on the wedding night, one believes in the missionary position only, and the other likes to expirement?  What if one likes it in the shower and the other thinks it should only be in the bedroom?  What if one really enjoys sex, the other feels it is something they say "let's get it over with" to?