Is it ok to sleep with someone on the first date?
437715
sleep w/ someone on your first date, as long as you wear pjs
16499
That is a personal question and being such everyone has to answer it individualy.  However its my belief that if you make out on the first date your too in a rush for life and need to slow down and smell the roses.
311268
Did you ever think she may be telling the truth? Give her the benefit of the doubt. The question I have is why is it ok for men to sleep with someone on the first date and get no rep for it, but for women it is different?????? Besides she might be a really great person and you will loose out on the relationship, remember you were there with her!
828660
I think that too.  I mean, it just seems that people will sleep with someone on the first date and it's no big deal.  Then they wonder why they get hurt in the relationship.  Men and women seem to be sleeping around serially.  I don't understand.  I think that women have a natural tendency to bond with men they sleep with, so why would they do it knowing that the guy is going to play them and move on?  Is there no self-respect?
307283
Depends were your morals ly.  Do you really care about her then you will wait for the right moment.  But if she agrees on the first date then she is easy and just good enough for a snag and nothing else.  But if she says wait then she's the one.
912298
sometimes and sometimes not. some look down on it, but if you both get that feeling and you both see it as okay, why not? as long as you both want to sure. but don't over do it. i wouldn't making out, all over each other w/ groping. that's just a little too much for a first date. a simple little goodnight kiss can be a perfect ending.
1021189
A guy should be gentle, nice, and keep his hands to himself.\n\nHe should be respectful to the girl(this is a 24/7 deal but especially on the first date.)
825852
It's a good idea on the first date - that way no one has any right to expectations of "tit for tat", so to speak.\n\nIf the first date goes well, I've always taken turns.  That sends a clear signal that you're on equal footing financially but want to continue seeing each other just because you like each other.  If you can't afford the same type of restaurant, pick something in your price range when it's your turn - or eat in.  Nothing beats a home-cooked meal for ambiance!
1166001
If they're both okay with it, then there's no problem.\nMake sure that you're careful and use protection, because while you are honest about who you're sleeping with, doesn't mean that they are.
1083695
It's not normal a date is a chance to get to know more about the person other than how they look.  Sex isn't something you should do just for pleasure you should do it with someone you really love and care about.
276619
I think, as a general rule, the less people u sleep with over the course of your life the easier it is to stay faithful to one.  If you sleep with lots of peopel you get used to teh idea that you can swap partners frequently and sex loses its power as a special bond between two people.  So to stay with the first girl would be possible and best..
343889
nooooo.... dinner then maybe a walk but u can't seem to sappy on the first date.... believe me... if the guy is tooo romntic then that means that he's not being himself... find out from her or her friends what she likes.... indirectly...
47152
He, he, he.\n\nBecause guys want what they can't have. And as much as they say they want you, they also want to respect you (even if they don't think they do) which is why there is such a double-standard persisting in society, even in this supposedly advanced world we live in today. If a girl is intuitively ready to have sex on the first date, how many more mornings after actually happen? Generally, women are not permitted to enjoy sex as freely and openly as men, and so you're up against not just his desire for you on the first date, but also the whole of humanity as you ponder, tonight or the next?\n\nLet him put in an inch, and then he'll want to unleash a mile...you've got to hold out, because generally that means he'll stick around, growing more curious and enticed than ever before because there's a mystery about you, an air that you carry that he's forced to keep sniffing out until finally, you give in... Keep in mind this applies only if you're into this sort of thing. Women can be just as ruthless and incisive as men when it comes to getting laid. Which is great, since women, like men, should be taught to love (and respect!) sex too.\n\nI guess it all depends on what both your motives are. Do want to be chased? Or do you want to be chewed up? That is the question...
516253
Of course it's ok!\nas long as you are comfortable with it and take protection.\nIf you both are consenting adults, why not?\n\nBe careful though... sometimes those one night stands can develop feelings for one of the participants.  \nThat can make things ackward.
1166010
in my opinion any woman who wanted sex on the first date with me, regardless the age or reason. I would never sleep with nor date again. For the simple fact if she would want that and know so little about me. Would tell me she would sleep with anyone and I rather be with a woman who respected herself more and would get to know me before giving herself to me.
549227
do you mean on the first date? if you do, don't expect him to call you back.\n\nit depends who you have sex with. it can be really bad if you're not careful....and wait till you good and ready, not when he is
612086
My fiance let me sleep with his coworker about 6 months ago.\nMy fiance and I are closer than ever, and we still hang out with his coworker all the time.  \nI don't think anything is wrong with it as long as everyone knows it is just sex and nothing else.