I'm not smiling anymore? I'm so horrible!!!?
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Alright, slow down and write down what it is that you did or you think you did. Then, write down what you should have done. If you did something bad then you need to ask for forgiveness. Communicate to your friend. Sometimes, we do stuff that is hard for someone to forgive. Your job is to ask for forgiveness. Don't expect forgiveness right away. If you care about the friendship then give it your best try. Wait, and then see what happens while taking care of yourself.\n\nOne of life's meanings is that you learn from your mistakes. You will grow from this if you choose to learn.
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You are not ugly, girl. You may want to talk to a counselor about this problem of yours, but stay away from antidepressants! They are addictive and cause abnormalties in the chemical processes of your brain. And if you smiled, you would look very pretty. Talk to someone about it in a messenger thing or to a couselor who you know for sure wouldn't be saying things like, "Oh, don't be rediculous! You're beautiful!" like something a best friend or parent would tell you. However, I usually find that this makes people feel worse about themselves. My best advice: talk to a counselor.
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ya i feel that loads of times but its not true and you most certainly are not ugly even though i have not seen you before. Its easy to feel unhappy but try smiling and see what a big difference it makes!
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I know how you feel. I've been there and its really a bad way to feel. If you want you can e-mail me. eula_hill7@yahoo.com I would be happy to be your friend.
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wtf? Naw- my attitude sucks @ss, because my life sucks @ss right now. I am EXTREMELY pessimistic.
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I'm a bit confused...lol umm...I guess exercising your face muscles should help...Smile and laugh lots! :-)
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That is great that you feel good about yourself, but saying this on here will only bring out the worse in people..Good Luck..Janie
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You know that you are pretty, so nothing anyone says can change that.  Try writing a list of all of your good qualities, i.e., nice hair, nice handwriting, good body, pretty eyes, smart, popular etc.\n\nYou might want to check some self-help books out of the public library--there are many--and can be very helpful.  You also might want to see a doctor or counselor--you need to let it all out to someone you can trust.\n\nI hope you feel better very soon.  :)
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I think we all feel this way at one time or another...my famous description of myself is the b.o.n....blob of nothing lol...it is horrible to feel so low...but then,...I feel so guilty when I look around and see people so so much worse off than I am, and I wanna hit myself in the head and knock some good sense into it...I bet you have wonderful qualities, and sometimes, when it just don't seem to ever go your way..we have to step back and remember just what God gave us...and thank Him for giving us His Son,...as a sacrifice so that we CAN go on and live...Please..start remembering those things about yourself that shine and how  you can help others...and somewhere along the line, you will start to feel better..and say your prayers darling,..they will be heard...He always hears us...God Bless
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see a psychiatrist or try yoga to help you channel all your negative energy.  I think you need a boyfriend.
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I'll toss ya a shovel so you can dig your way out! It sounds like your having a wild ride! I know from some of my close friends how bad depresion can be! But there's not much you can do! I advise to ride it out, or try and think of all the good times you've had without guys, or just the good times ytou've had in general! You seem like a stong, intelligent, young girl, and i'm sure you can through it! Just don't give up, and keep on digging your way out!
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It's called depression. You might want to see someone about that. Feeling sorry for yourself all of the time is not good for physically or mentally. Talk to someone, you'll feel better. Best wishes!
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i feel the exact same way. kinda' sucks, huh,so dont really know what to tell u buddy. srry.\n                                   im new , so not much of a  help, althuogh therre are some unplesant jerks on this site, (not me of course)some of them are nice, ive already made some friends!\nonce again srry. im not much of a help, but keep trying!
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Put your favourite song on, turn it up loud and sing and dance around your room. Works every time for me!! \n\nI just saw you wrote this question nine hours ago...so I hope you shook that bad mood! Treat yourself, you deserve it.
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I'm actually having that same problem. In my case, yeah, I made a mistake, but I fessed up to it, was honest about it, and tried to apologize for it. I still feel like the other person is trying to make me feel guilty, and I refuse to be around people who are always negative all the time. I thought that I liked people like that, and maybe I did once, but now it just brings me down. I want to feel better, not feel how alone I am, and how much the world sucks. That's my story.
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sounds to me like you need to be applauded! I feel like the more horrible the experiences you have in life, the more of an opportunity you have to see ultimate beauty and positivity as well. Thich nat Hanh says that the seed of hate and regret can grow into a cancer of hate and horrible feeling, which is garbage. But only the stinkiest, foulest, wet, nasty compost grows the best garden. Many times we have to experience every corner of hell and despair before we recognize what good fortune really is, and it sounds like you have. Kudos Mom!
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Snowbunny, feeling the way you do is perfectly normal. Sometimes you don't know what you had until you loose it, I kow how you feel... No matter who you talk to, its like nobody understands or they can't grasp what you're going through and so you can't seem to get over this depression because even the advice your friends or parents give you still doesn't feel good enough. You just want to cry, you feel like treating everyone around you the way you feel. Can't eat, Can't sleep and you can't remember the last time you really smiled from your heart, but trust me when I say, if its meant to be, he will come back and you guys can try again. It won't be tomorrow or next month, no one knows but trust me. And what ever you do, don't consider hurting yourself over something that might feel "like the end of the world" to you. I've got a scar for every heartbroken event in my life when I was either used or mistreated. 5 years of bad memories but looking back now, I found someone who loves me the way none of those in the past could, even though I thought so that time. Thinking of you snowbunny..... good luck hey!