hey gays,  why u r gays?" may u answer me frankly,?
454256
I don't know why I'm gay. I don't remember being given a choice. Perhaps you could tell me when you chose to be straight?
625820
it feels good.. a gay person is still a person!  they aren't any different except fo their sexual preference!  one of the things that i've learned about the ppl in the gay community is that they are the most open, caring, compassionate ppl out there!  they don't judge ppl because they know how it feels to be judged!
303270
For the same reason straight people want to join.  No, gay does not "come with love everybody peace to all fagity mentality".
706622
Serj, do you not detect a smidgen on gay hate in some of these answers?  I do.  I have never been harmed by gays, approached but never accosted.  I think all they want is to be recognized as equals as human beings.  This I grant them.
396660
Why are we as a society so homophobic??  Of course you can be their friend.  Why miss out on a good friendship because of sexual orientation.
212523
I don't really have a new answer to your question..the other answers I read are good answers, but I would like to let you know that I share in your frustration.  As a gay male, I get tired of those questions/labels and the ever-persisting question of 'are you a top or a bottom'..Those kinds of labels really annoy me
1103433
Yes and thank you for your email. I've never wished I was gay although the girls would often acuse me of being gay. I've never desired or even thought I was gay. I've always Loved being out with lady friends but sometimes they expect sex and I'm just not interested in them that way. But some times I do find someone I'm in Love with not in a sexual way but I'd like to be by her side.I think about sex if that would keep her by my side.But by the time I'm ready for that, she's already found herself another man.
797781
I'm straight but I have alot of gay friends.  I like to answer questions in this category for three reasons:  1) the questions are usually more interesting than in alot of other categories, 2) to show my support and 3) I like to try to give helpful advice particularly to young gay people who are struggling.  I have a theory about these "heteros" who constantly bash, harass and make disparaging remarks about gay people.  To me the ones that scream the loudest in their opposition to homosexuality are either religious zealots or self-loathing, paranoid closet queens.  Most straight people, even ones uncomfortable with homosexuality, don't make such a big deal about it.
8609
Why do non-gays get interested in women? If you can answer that, you know the answer to "gays interested in men question".\n\nSorry but there's no real answer.
798500
Why would anyone choose a difficult life?  Especially when it would be so easy according to straight people to "choose to be straight."  If so, I have a question for them.  Why don't they CHOOSE TO BE GAY?  See all those emotions running through you straights right now?  That's how we feel.  We feel "how can we change, if we could, wouldn't we?  Same as straights who are asked to think gay."  They find it incomprehensible to think about men, as I do about women.  Its just not normal for me, sorry, does that sound like a choice or something I'm stuck with?  I cannot remember feeling anything other way from the age of 5 on up.  The men were always attractive the women were always the nice ones.  So, while it may be a choice for some, it was not for me.  The very idea that I could have CHOSE this life is laughable.
1138475
Thank you sooooo much I have wondered the same thing. I think they feel being gay is something the whole world needs to know just so people do not ask them why they are not with the opp. sex.  Also I guess it makes them feel better
966729
Are you a lesbian or bi?  If so then probably not.\n\nIf not, the question is why are you asking here?\n\nHmmmmmm
664113
u insensitive, prejudiced, homophobic person!!!  u suk!!!
565692
u wasted a 5 points on this question? well u lost 5 points, i gained 2.... oh well ;)\n\nand no you are probably not the only gay one on here.\n\nthanks for the easy question.
221038
i dont know could you ask a gayer question
520001
Hmmm what was that again? \nTell me babe what am i missing? Hehe\nI am Bi and love the attidude you have :') x
882476
First off are u gay???????????