is chating a good habit with a person whom we don't know?  can it create any problem?
443707
it depends on what your chatting about.it could be dangerous, you just have to chat the right conversations and never try and hook up with that person, that could be dangerous!!
273405
I know how hard this could be I have been in this situation before. I have found out however through my own experiences that complimenting my friends on their best features is a great way to start out, this open the line of communication and allow for that individual to become comfortable with you and trust your judgement on things. I recommend that if you want to tell someone something make sure it is a individual you have history with, do not attempt on giving someone constructing criticism without establishing some sort of recurring trust. Remember choosing you words correctly is important in conveying a constructive critique. See ya!!
158183
by developing a rapport with a person
922387
All the above comments about this being harmless and a good thing are all very good... however from my days as a commuter I know there is another aspect to this. If most of the other people on your train are commuters then I can think of 2 reasons why they might not want strangers striking up a conversation.\n1. On the train I used to get there you saw the same people everyday, so if you had a conversation with them, then the ice had been broken and you 'knew' them. After that it would feel rude to sit and read your book, or whatever and not talk to them in future. There would be no escape!\n2. When I was commuting my train journey was a part of my day that I used like any other. So I would study for exams, or read a novel or catch up on sleep. I already had plans for that time. So if someone wanted  a conversation with me it meant my plans had to change, without me really having any say in that.\n\nSo I'm certainly not saying that you shouldn't talk to people on public transport, just trying to shed some light on any negative reactions you may be getting.
54819
you dont want to tell them about your life (personal) just talk about gerneral things and see if you have anything in common if so it will be fine from there. Oh yeah the more you think about NOT saying something stupid YOU WILL! so dont think too hard.
1080687
Yes; probably because it feels nice to have someone to talk to, someone like a 'friend'. Don't worry, enjoy! :)
640396
Listening is the most important part of a conversation.  It appears that you have been doing that.  If the person you are communicating with seems to know a lot about everything, you need to direct the conversations toward some topics you know most about. Keep yourself informed about current events and topics you and your friend find interesting.  If a "good conversationalist" talks all of the time and never listens, then he is NOT a good conversationalist.  He is then, a "know-it-all", lacking in listening skills and in consideration for others.
1148844
it;s ok......i have a lot..........\nbut i chat with those when i am free .......\nif u have u feel glad u can share ur problems with those..........when ur not in good mood if u chat with those u feel fresh............\nbut 1 advise dont be addicted to chat with those always i mean daily because then it becomes habit.........\nthen go enjoy..........
750632
There is nothing wrong with that. But it is always good to have close friends too. Maybe you should try to have a close friendship with some of the people you talk to.
109775
When chatting with someone online you have no idea who they are. You just have to be careful.\n\nK
1020273
Sometimes I counteract negative gossip by making kind remarks about the person who is the subject of the gossip.  Most people are basically nice and this appeals to their better nature.  If the gossiper persists I don't worry about offending them with silence.
427558
it depends, if they only have their friends and ppl they know, then yes. It is a fun experiance and a great way to keep in touch.
923023
I have before, yes. I wouldn't say I do it frequently though.\n\nI usually go with friends because it's nice to have someone to chat with.
1151459
Of course it's possible, I have a few friends on the net that I never talk to other than email, but we can talk about anything.  It takes the pressure and judgment off that you might get from someone you know for real.
749602
There's nothing wrong at all with silence in a conversation; in fact, I find it preferable to meaningless, silence-filling phatic noise.  ("Phatic": good word; look it up because it truly describes elements of your sitch.)  To keep a convo going, be a genuinely interested audience.  This could be challenging if the one talking is prattling on about something in which you have no interest, but I suspect that's not the case in aborning relationships.  And it's absolutely OK to re-direct a stalling conversation by changing subject; just do it with tact and charm.  Your communication skills, which are apparent in your query, will serve you well.  As for being out of practice, dude, we all are.  As the so-called rules change (which they do continuously), it's either adapt or avoid.  The fact that you're seeking suggestions speaks volumes: You're wanting to participate and not merely be a passive observer.  Take risks -- safe ones, OK?  And try not to let less than desirable results devastate you.  Have patience and kindness for yourself, the same as you do for your friend(s).
250977
you never finish gettin to know a person...there are plenty of things to talk about. i for example like to talk about mine/their childhood, its always a good piece of conversation bc you get to know the person as a child if you didn't know them as a child. its a good inside into their personality, family and friends...trust me it works!
424381
Why else would you have a conversation?  In fact, I think it is impossible to have a conversation of any kind and not stimulate neurons.  \n\nNow, if you mean, have an interesting conversation, well, the best thing is if the other person is well-educated on the subject they are talking about.  Also, it is important if the other person actually listens to you, and you have an actual reciprocal conversation, instead of being lectured to.