how is it having sex the first time and is it fine to lose ur virginity?
439010
Dang girl...\nYou gotta come on line and get an answer coz u have no faith in ur conscience.
459776
The first time is usually pretty uncomfortable, probably painful, mostly disappointing... \n\nbut after a bit of practice its great.\n\nJust don't expect it to be wonderful the first time and don't expect either of you to be good at it the first time. \n\nIts not magical like in the movies, its like most things, you need to have a bit of practice and work out what's good for you and whats not.
850731
.....well, to state the obvious, losing your virginity involves a giving and receiving between two people, not a person and their appendage. Also, once you do lose your virginity, you will see that using your hand and being with a partner are more different than you think..trust, it doesn't count.
1004966
lier lier is all i can say.. even for a guy when losing his virginity it is kinda a nervous-ish experience. i am sure not as indepth as the ladies BUT STILL AN EXPIERIENCE..why? well there is a stereotype for guys and this dude you speak off seems to be exemplifying this stereotype... more than likely his first time was shorter than that.. maybe 5 to 15 minutes the most... why well even if he was with an experienced female... she probably would have orgasmed by then... with me and my virginity it was like 5 minutes.. i didn't have an orgasm and the primary reason for the above turn out was because i was doing it with my girlfriend and it was her first time as well... in all honesty after like 30 seconds of actual penetration and trust we stopped because it was painful for her... the first time usually encounters physical obstacles... the pain of your hymen breaking... I have had this same experience with 3 more young ladies where they were losing thier virginities. A couple times went by like this until they had healed up, gotten over the psycological fears of pregnancy and all that.. and actually got into enjoying the feelings actually generated by the act of intercourse/making love...after those initial 2 to 3 times ...well it's all climax from there!!!! no pun intended.. hoped this helps.. \n\none more thing.. don't be in such a rush to loose your virginity... it makes a big difference in your life... i guarantee it.. picture yourself at 21 or 27 and a friend asked you about your first time... the answer can either go one of two ways.. ohh its something i'll never forget cause it was with a great guy.. boyfriend of mine where we had a good and long relationship OR i regreted my first time... it was wack... i didn't really feel anything (emothionally or otherwise) i don't even remember that guy. i wish i had waited longer...  when that time comes.. i guarantee you'll remember The Thinker!
635967
when the time is right and you meet the right person who wants to do it. *winks* I have a friend who loves being the first with a virgin.
776371
If you're asking about having sex for the first time, it's not now.  You shouldn't have to ask.  If you have any doubts, you're not ready.  Don't let him tell you otherwise- trust me.  I listened to my bf, and I was depressed for four years.  Take care of yourself.  He can take care of himself if you say "no".
926916
I lost my virginity at age 15? As you can tell, it didn't mean much to me. I wanted the guy to love me, so I did it. No, I definitely did not have an orgrasm during sex the first time. Almost all women don't their first time, and I know alot of girls who have never had one during penetration. They might've faked it .....  I definitely regret it. I wasn't with the right guy, and I knew it. I would consider waiting, I know I wish I did.  By the time my true love came around (he was a virgin), I had already had sex with someone else. =(  It's not that it's bad to have sex. You just want to make sure that it's the right person, and that you wont regret it later on. I know I was so eager to lose my virginity, and I was like oh, I wont regret it, and yet I do. If you decide to, make sure he's gentle and cares about you enough to stop if you ask him to. I have a friend who told me that the guy she did it with, just went at it, without caring that it hurt her "like hell." Best of luck, sweetie.
385129
No. I'm not a virgin. I lost my virginity at 15. It was not a good experience. I was with someone I loved, someone I'm still with to this day (over a year later). But I wasn't ready. In truth, I didn't really know what was happening until it was too late. Don't get me wrong, I knew what sex was. I just didn't know we were going to have it. Lol. I felt pressured. He was 18 and extremely experienced. And when I say extremely, I mean he'd been with 33 girls before me. I also didn't like the WAY it happened. There were no candles, no soft music. Just a movie playing. And it was rushed and tense because my grandparents were in the other room. So if you're thinking about having sex for the first time, loving the person's not the only thing you have to worry about. Make sure you're completely comfortable with the idea. Make sure you're alone and you use protection. (Which I didn't.) Plan ahead of time. And make it special. Remember, you only get one first time.
565607
there is nothing wrong with you still being a virgin, may god bless you.  sex is an act of true love that should be shared with someone that you are committed to for life. U can tell when that someone comes along when there is no pressure concerning sex during your relationship.  your correct there is no concrete proof that sex is safe and no you are not missing out on anything.
299796
It's certainly something you will remember. She could also teach you a thing or two. It's not that bad. I doubt they have STD's because they use condoms. I am sick of hearing you should have your first time with someone 'special'. Tell me out of all those people, who actually stays with that person for the rest of their lives? Not many at all. After they break up they can remember their first time was with that asshole who broke their heart. Fun! Lose your virginity in a way you will remember fondly ie. with a chick just because she's hot, or your suggestion, a prostitute. I lost my virginity at 15 and am 20 now, and my first time don't mean s-h-i-t compared to other sexual experiences. Do something fun!
1022683
We all loose our virginity eventually.  Whether its a good thing or not, really only depends on you.  If you felt it was right at the time then why bother with anyone else.     The only person to judge you , is you and no one else.   Now that you have lost your virginity,  just be careful.   And it does get better.   I just hope the guy likes you too and isn't just using you.   Take care.
865375
Haha. Encouraging answers you've gotten so far, eh? The truth is that virginity is a very flexible concept. Some consider a virgin is someone with no sexual experience whatsoever... some say intercourse is the step that ends virginity. Some even think it a physical thing, with unbreached hymens belonging to virgins and only virgins (when in fact you don't need to have sex to break your hymen OR break your hymen to have sex).\n\nMy point is.. just tell him what you've done. Period. There's no need to decide whether your technically a virgin or half-virgin or whatever-- skip that step and let him decide for himself.\n\nThe website I've given isn't  my source, but rather a female sexual health site that might be interesting to you. It should answer all the questions you need answering as well as some you don't even know to ask. ;)
188960
NO!  I lost my virginity just before I turned 14.  Please don't do it, I wish I would have waited.  You have your whole life to have sex and you should share it with someone that truely deserves you.  Don't give yourself to someone who is not worthy of such a beautiful gift.  If you do decide to do it, please, please use a condom and get on birth control.  There are some nasty people out there.
870966
Please, stay a virgin! I'm one and I'm proud of it even though some may consider me a loser. I'll bet a lot of your friends secretly regret losing theirs to some idiot boy that didn't really care about them. Do not feel pressured to lose your virginity; you're too young and boys at that age are very immature.
702246
first time getting laid
200362
Not forcing you into anything, he must be a very nice guy. If you've had sex before and you feel the desire then go for it. But if you are a virgin you should think really well about it. In my opinion virginity is something sacred which you should lose it when you truly have no doubt that the reason your losing it is a sacred one.\n\nSex is the most wonderful thing when it is done while you're in love, otherwise is nothing but an instict which all the animals have.
718370
Hey dude. Sex is the most pleasurable moment in a persons life. Since this is going to be ur 1st time. I wud suggest you not to get carried away woth it. Bcoz often it has been people who have been deprived of it try to make the most of out when subject to opportunity for the 1st time. Its a flavour which u need to taste in due course of time and can be enjoyed over longer and extended periods of time. For the 1st time I would suggest you to please try oral sex. Kissing, fondling with private parts, Intense kissing. Then when both u and ur girl are confident and cant hold it long. Just try watching some Soft Porn movies like "Body Shots", "Wild Things", "The Lover". These movies will guide you exactly how to go about sex @ the 1st shot.  All the best and Good Luck !!