was it a big disappointment to guys if the girl do the first move towards the person they love?
452167
Most guys feel relieved if there's mutual attraction and the girl makes the first move. If he is unsure as to whether his affection will be returned, he might not want to say anything.\n\nIf he doesn't like you, he's not going to be disappointed. He'll likely be taken off guard. If he's a good friend, there aren't going to be negative feelings
245809
Everyone will disappoint their mate sooner or later but they learn from their mistakes.  If you are consistently being disappointed then I would certainly question the validity of his feelings.\n\nAnd sometimes, good people just get it all wrong no matter how hard they try not to disappoint...
474929
These things happen to most of us, but if you like some one, you should really tell him/her about your feelings, don't wait for them to make the first step. Once you make the first step, all is easy.
79987
Let me tell you this...as a 'guy' guys only go after girls who they like!!!!! they wouldn't approach someone they didn't like unless its for somekind of advantage.
459990
I was always told by the way they dance. If a girl moves real slow, hands up, showing off her {hmmm....} attributes, that's good. If they're like frenetic, dancing real fast, making no eye contact, then that's bad.
939825
Of course,i do.This is quite common to me coz i always fall at first sight but later realise that the guys were nothin but jerks.So now i am careful about falling for guys at first sight as i believe its not good for me to fall for anybody without actually knowing them well.
409433
Sure, if you want.  Follow your instincts. I am sure he would be flattered.\n\nSometimes, girls have to make the first move.
497196
For me, no.  My husband was very quick to kiss me and become very serious.  I had just broken up with my previous boyfriend who I had dated for over 3 years, so I was in no mood to move quickly.\n\nThankfully, I hung around to see what it would turn into, and now we're married and expecting.  You never know where that first kiss will lead... give it time.  (And if the first kiss was phenomenal, all the better!)\n\nGood Luck.
611691
Sometimes, men actually want women to make the first move.  take me for example: i have never really had a whole lot of relationships, but when i got together with my fiance, i made all of the moves, except the first kiss.  I was quite often uncomfortable making the first moves because i was unsure of how she would react.  On the night of our first kiss, i really liked how sweet and sincere the kiss ended up being.  And i know that i would not have made my move that night, because i was far too nervous.  She could see this, and decided to take initiative.  I personally liked it.  It also shows me that the woman knows what she wants, versus "needs" the guy to make decisions all the time.  By the way, it sounds like if he doesn't really look at you, he might be a little nervous around you, and is unsure of how you'd react if he asked you. Go for it!!  I think that most men don't mind if a woman takes initiative, unless that man is insecure about himself and needs to feel "macho" or something by being the decision maker.
431193
Hell no! It takes the pressure off of US to decide if she's interested or not.\n\nBesides, how often do guys get to do the first rejection? Not very.... ROFL
733411
Girls show guys they are interested in all sorts of weird ways.  The most typical are: touching(when unnecessary), Laughing (way to much), and finding any excuse to be around them.  I personally just tell the guy I'm interested and go from there.
436918
Because its the first thing that a guy sees. But if a guy is attracked to a girl, then he wants to get to know her. (after he checks her out).But first impressions arent usually of someones personality, that seems to come in second.
75955
Personally, I would rather let the guy make the first move. But, sometimes guys need help in doing this especially if he is a super shy one. One thing that you can do is give hints to him that you like him.\n\nIf he truly likes you, he probably have sent you some birthday gifts, valentine cards, or something.\nRespond to his tiny move by telling him that you appreciates his gestures.\n\nmake it the LAST effort for you to actually make the first move.\npersonally, i would not think a girl is desperate when she makes the first move (actually, i think it's pretty cool).\nBUT, I am just one guy. I CANNOT SAY THAT YOUR GUY WOULD THINK THE SAME LIKE I DO.
181851
If you have the right guy for the first time, and he's gentle, it shouldn't hurt at all.\nIf it hurts, then he needs to know and not make something happen that's not going to.
532061
It depends on the individual. When my last girl first told me she loved me, I was suprised because we had only been going out two weeks. I thought it was beutiful personally and then had no problem telling her the same.\n\nIf I were you though, I tried and work out if your guy is the sort who will appreciate it. Some guys love to hear their girl say it. Some think it's the sign that they want more commitment and back off. Be careful, don't hurt yourself by jumping in too soon though.
832282
i hate it when i have to text guys first...girls love it when guys make the first move....in anything! so yes. and...talk it slow. become good friends, which you say you are. DONT go through other frineds to find out. talk to her, to her face, and tell her how you feel. but also explain that you dont want it to mess up your friendship if she doesnt feel the same way...that you'd still want to be friends. but i think she probably will....good luck!
662377
yes he does and u would relax and not get so jumbled up u would realize that i mean he grabs u by the waist... when a guy is comfortable around a girl he will tend to do that kind of stuff but more importantly it means they like them because they're so comfortable...\n\nand yes the next he goes u should go with him im sure he was wanting u to the first time so u could be more alone in a comfortable inviroment so yall can talk and get closer emotionally and a little more physically