should i go back to her???
440782
sometimes you forget the bad things in a relationship and always hold onto the good memories, that's why even if you break up with someone, down the line you'll think about how good it was and have regrets.  \n\nIt's up to you, if you still care about her then go for it, but be 110% sure this time, after all there is a kid involved and it wouldn't be fair for him to have his parents on and off like a hand dryer in a public bathroom.
676881
Its possible!  dont call her, and get a new girlfriend.\nshe will come back.
713166
No way man. An ex is an ex for a reason. I'll give you a link to go to and read why you shouldn't even be talking to her. If you want any chance of getting her back go no contact. Start dating other woman and let her find out. She'll come crawling back and saying everything you want to hear. Don't buy it. She just wants what she can't have and when she gets it BOOM you mean shyt to her again. There's a 1 in 100000 chance that says she wants you back for the right reasons. Move on. The damage is done. She's damaged goods and you'll never have as healthy relationship as you think. She may say she wants to see you happy in the long run and personally you'll be happier without her. She won't allow you to move on until she's stable in her own life. Don't let her mess with you. And don't even be her friend. Until you are totally over her. Nothing you say or do is going to get her back. I PROMISE. Good luck and find you a new woman. AT CHURCH
994820
Hey, hun. I went through that. It was like we never broke up.  After talking we decided to pretend it never happened. Now she and I regret it. But talk to her. You both probably want to get back, a fight shouldn't be the reason you break up.
1047945
The relationship ended for a reason.  Has that reason changed?  In my opinion you want her back because you don't think she is obtainable.  If you got her back you would dump her shortly after you got her.  So why don't you do yourself and her a favor and leave her alone.  You will fall in love again and you will forget about your ex g/f I can guarantee it.
1144512
I've had the miss fortune of doing the same thing, except it was in a text message. \n\nI say dont go back unless there is a significant change in the relationship. I mean, he broke up with you..and caused you a ton of pain (I'm assuming)....who's to say he wont change his mind again and hurt you all over again. Its obvious that you still have feelings for him. I think that before you consider getting back together really think about if that is what you want, because it might not benefit you at all.
215683
I have to agree that you should look her up, there's a good chance that she misses you too. And honey you are not being selfish, this woman was good to you and it is perfectly alright that you miss her. Good luck.
776709
dont jump the gun...  she obviously wants you back.. so play hard to get.. thats what SHE wants...   if she wanted to JUMP in to it then she wouldda said  oh baby i miss you you were the best..\n  as it stands,, it sounds like she does miss you and refrets whatever may have happened.. so be with her...  you need to make sure that whatever happened last time wont happen again...\n    it may just be a game... she knows that you love her and likes the attention...  so she will want  while its easy and convienient and as soon as ANYBODY comes along she will drop you.. \n   not saying that thats the case... but i am repeatedly going through that stupid shit with my ex wife... and because i love her and im stupid i keep letting her back in...  yup... dont be stupid like me man....  if  you think shes sincere then do it...    if you have the slightest hint shes playin ya... kick her ass to the curb before she hurts you again
727168
It won't last, she may miss you and everything you were to her, but if she has left you before, she will most likely again.  If you can handle being friends, then great, you will know if you want to be with her forever and if all the pain is worth it to keep trying.....you don't need to torture yourself to see what she wants, you get to make the decision about if you want her ...and all her indecisivness
1163469
WELL, RIGHT NOW I WOULD TAKE THINGS REALLY SLOW.... SHE MAYBE HURT AND IS VULNERABLE RIGHT NOW.... I WOULD GIVE HER SOMETIME TO FIND HERSELF AGAIN AND TO HEAL.... IF YOU ALREADY HAD THE CHANCE TO BE WITH HER.... EXPLAIN TO HER YOU REALIZE YOUR FAULTS AND WOULD LIKE THE CHANCE TO MAKE THINGS RIGHT.... SHE MAY COME AROUND.... AT THE MOMENT SHE MAY SEEM BITTER AND IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU.... SO DON'T THINK SHE DON'T LIKE YOU ANYMORE... SHE NEEDS TIME.... ALL WOMAN DO....
215814
ahh sh*t thats hard man. I can't believe she has the nerve to ask you that. Its easy to say when its not happening to us. But if I was in your shoes I might be a little to pissed to even think about taking her back.
308192
It is not your choice to make, and right now is not the time to try to keep her from going back to her first girlfriend.  She will decide without any pressure from you.  You can only alienate her by pressing the matter.\n\nKick back, and let her have the time she needs to make the inevitable decision.  \n\nThis matter will resolve itself if you just leave it alone to do it.
326696
It is what it is, it will be whatever will be, if your love is for real, and she love you back, Never is inoff,\nLOVE is The ID of the soul, Go for it try it , if she get back with you, learn and be happy ,but do not break her heart again PLEASE
521521
If you really find her to be worth pursuing, go for it.  But if you have doubts about her separating herself from past relationships, it would be best to sit back (and maybe move on) and wait to see how she's going to be after a while.  If she's still having emotional issues with her past, the best thing to do is to move on completely, before you become her past as well.
1184536
Talk to her, apologize.\nHope she'll have you back.  You may have to work at it.\nWomen don't trust men like you, better be prepared to prove you'll behave this time.\n& don't ever make the same silly Mistake again.
679462
if u have explained 2 her that this is the only reason maybe u should check up on that going out w/ 'friends' thing...shouldnt do any harm now...also explain that u still love her and if she loves u back she will at least listen 2 what u have got 2 say...or otherwise its over...i hope 4 the best
301421
Hi\nif she wont return U Should forgot her as love .i mean U can have relation to her as e friend but No love and find new Love for your self but firs be sure that she wont return or she agree with this decision