what should i do if the girl i love likes my best friend who has a girl friend?
439685
Since she all ready knows of your feelings toward her and that your friend has a girl friend, I would say once more, that if she ever decides she's interested, you would like to take her out.  Leave it in her court and drop it at that.  If she does decide to give you a chance, AND You are still available, then take her out.  But don't wait for her.  Keep your options open, look for someone new, otherwise you are doing exactly what she is doing, hoping the one who doesn't care romantically will suddenly 'get smart' and love you back.  You both need to stop pining away for someone who isn't interested or available to you.
733579
you are in a very good situition right now. What u can do is to be her best friend. Let her know that she can tell u anything and u will always be there to listen. Then one day she may have a fight with her bf and break up with him so u can tell her that you have been waiting for so long to tell her that you really like her.
1054521
Unfortunately, there is nothing you can do to change the way his best friend feels - and the worst thing you could do is try to come between them.  \n\nI'm sure that she does have strong feelings for him because that's what happens when you are best friends with someone and you really care about him.  This doesn't mean that she's in love with him though.  Love requires giving and receiving and, if he is in a relationship with you, it's clear that he is not returning her feelings for him.  This has probably only magnified her "feelings" for him because we always want what we can't have.\n\nI would suggest continuing your relationship with him as normal.  It is probably quite painful for her to see the two of you together and she is probably scared that you will take his friendship away from her.  If you make her feel included and let them continue their friendship as they always have, she will realise you are not a threat and will respect your time with him in the same way.  \n\nJust keep in mind that he sees her as a friend and he always has.  Being in a relationship with you will not suddenly make him believe that he loves her.  If you trust him, don't get jealous and don't try to compete with her, he will appreciate you all the more and realise he would be silly to lose you.
828084
I know she's your best friend but this is your life were talking about not hers.Tell her you know she means well and is looking out for you, and that you take her opinions seriously but you really like this girl. And if this girl, no matter who or what she is or does, will make you happy/have fun, then as your bestfriend she should just let you be happy. Loyalty is part of friendship, so even if you ask this girl out, she'll still be your best friend. Tell her or explain  your side to her and just simply ask this girl out. If you're making a mistake, then she has to allow you to make your own mistakes, if you guys turn out happy together, then be glad you didn't let yourself get heldback.
856153
WOW! I think she loves you but knows so much about you and you about her that it's become too difficult to broach the subject of you two being a potential love match. I think you need to ask yourself do I love her in that way? If you do you've got to bite the bullet this weekend and ask her if she has feelings for you other than as a friend? Tell her you want a relationship with a girl and are confused as she seems like a friend most of the time but then when you discuss the subject of other women she doesnt seem able to ddeal with it. DO YOU LIKE HER????? i hope you do and that she feels the same and can finaly get the strength to let you know, some of the best relationships start with 2 people being friends first I think you 2 stand a fair chance of settling down together unless she is just a friend and a possessive one at that. If that is the cse you need to tell her you are interested in having agirlfriend and she needs to allow you to do this if she cant deal with that then you need to meet her a little bit less cos no girlfriend will put up with you having such a female possessive best mate! Good Luck!!
1023868
Your gonna have to talk to your best friend. He's going to have to convince her that your ok, I mean if he likes you and they're in a relationship then she shouldnt have a problem either. She's Probably just a BIATCH.\nI had that problem too. Except My friends girlfriend tried to kick my ass later. ShE had a TaZeR (ouch) =( But eventually she got over it and I got wit her friend We still going out right now.\n\nBut gewd luck wit dat anyway yo
430017
Go with the flow.  If you still like him, get back together.  If you don't, make sure he knows and move on.  But tell your best friend to be careful.  He might get upset and go out with her just to try to make you jealous.
1068053
hope both of them find some one better and leave you!!!!!!!\n\nits not fair of you to keep 2 girls hanging on till you find out which one likes you the most!
977611
If it's your best friend's girl friend, stay away from her.  If you don't care about your best friend, tell you best friend what you just told us.
107572
if she is your BEST FRIEND, tell her how you feel. tell you don't want to put her in an awkward situation, but that you need to let her know, for your own sanity at the very least. being your best friend, she may be able to accept you even if you like her, but she may also turn away from you. remember that whatever you do, you risk your friendship with her. if she does decide that she likes you back, then great! on one last note, DO NOT TELL HER IF SHE IS IN A RELATIONSHIP.
651179
If your best friend is really a true friend, she'll be happy for you. There shouldn't be any problem between the two of you. She's probably happy that at least one of you two got him. If you like the guy, then maybe you should accept.
418304
This always seems to happen. Best friends are best friends because they like the same things...including guys. She isn't doing it to hurt you, she can't help the way she feels. I think you should talk to your boyfriend about it. See if he has any friends that she may be interested in. If you have a strong, open relationship with your friend, maybe you could talk to her & find out her intentions, tell her how much he means to you & warn her what it could do to your friendship if she tries anything on with him. Don't be mean about it though, not unless she intends to steal him from you.
121172
Just be a real friend to both of them. They both like each other. If you make a move for her, you could lose both of them. There may be another chance later on if this is meant to be.
395345
which one do you love? which one do you have more in common with? Which one makes you happier, which is less annoying? Thnk about these things. Maybe see if they are bi, then you can have them both. Tell one of them you don't want to reunion your friendship with her, and tell her you would rather have her as a friend rightnow. And see where that goes, this is coming from a girl. Always keep in mind the other one will always be there for you also.
721370
UNLESS you are the best friends ideal woman true love soul mate ETC you are quite screw, male frindships especialy best friends are way too close and sharing a woman is not unheard of , you might make then fight for a while but in then end they will be friends again , and you will end up loosing bouth of them plus you will become the bad one of the story \nSO if you you really really like they guy , brake up on friendly terms with your boyfriend and wait out a until your boyfriend finds someone else , then make your move , most likely the best friend will ask his Buddy if is ok with him (keep in mind that for him to do so he must really liked you  way past any phisical attraction , otherwise he wont bother do so ) \nNOW  if is phisical attraction just plain sex what you want , is easer to go for the 3 some , deal and make it think it was his idea, that might work , if all you want is to scrach an ich \nNOW commun sense would be no to do anything , most likely whatever you do you will be the one that ends up hurt and alone , and you dont need that , the choices above are just choices but it dosent mean they are the correct ones ,\nI understand how can someone end up liking someone close to their parther it happends all the time  but when you are considering acting on it , maybe and just maybe instead you should be wandering what is missing in your relationship , and see if you can work at it or move on , but dont get yourself into a mess
738192
b4 asking her out, talk to you're friend.  if he's ok with you dating her, then go for it. but if not then you should just stay as friends, you wouldn't want to loose a friend over a girl.  a girl you probably wont stay with forever.  will it be worth loosing a friendship?  it's obvious she likes you but she's probably still has feeling for the other guy so it's not a good time to move in anyway
852622
Well, if she is a friend and she really likes you mabey you should just tell her you arnt ready for another girlfriend!!! If she really likes you she will understand and wait for you!!! And if you still love your ex-girlfriend go over why you guys broke up in the first place!!! Mabey you and your ex-girlfriend can still be friends and mabey you might get back together!!! If you love her the least you can do is try and if the other girl really likes you she will let you go and just be your friend!!!!!!!