Would having sex with your best friend make things weird?
450349
YES! This is a no go area, if you are calling this person your "best" friend rather than just a friend you already should know that this person is not like other people you hang out with. It will be gone forever and you will have a relationship, and there is no taking it back. It's about self control and being honest to yourself, if you want a best friend steer clear of that, if al lyou want is sex or a relationship then think hard about the friends you make because it can be a world of hurt
740992
It primarily has to do with sex but I think apart from the sex u'd have to be  really comfortable with that person. the person would be your best buddy behind closed doors only...kinda like a secret agent thing that u both enjoy and no one else knows.
59299
these things have a way of working out. trust me. Its possible to still be best friends with everyone and still be attracted to one of them. Your other friend is just going to have to accept that PEOPLE fall in love with each other especially if they r close. That means if she is your really your friend u r going to have to tell her what's happening she deserves it. maybe you're going to have to make some "rules" for all this to happen. just remember theres nothing wrong with love
108209
There's nothing wrong with experimenting.  If you wanna try something new go for it as long as you know that the decision of going for it is "safe".  \n\nWhy I mean by safe is try to make sure you don't hurt someone by the decision you reach.  Even though people can get hurt no matter what you do (or don't do) you should still be sensitive to them and try your best to minimize the damage.\n\nYou are young and as long as you are alive you have time to try out new things.  I believe that lovers (boyfriends or girlfriends) come and go in and out of your lives.  However good friends (let alone a best friend) are hard to find.\n\nSomeone advice you to talk things over with your best friend because for all you know she may be turned off and you could lose her.  I liked that advice, that's one way to be sensitive toward someone else.  \n\nHowever I would also add that if your friend is as close-minded as to "break-up" your friendship over something like that (you wanting to be with her), then YOU NEED TO FIND BETTER FRIENDS.\n\nI guess the same goes for your silly boyfriends.  Trust me there are thousands of guys that would love to have a bi-sexual girlfriend.  If this guy can't handle it, if he is trying to own you, you may be better off FINDing A NEW BOYFRIEND.  Perhaps find someone that will be more understanding of your needs.\n\nI hope you find this helpful!\ncali_rich_and_smooth@yahoo.com\n\n\ncali_rich_and_smooth@yahoo.com
992606
Trust me, I know EXACTLY what you're going through, I was in Love with my best friend and after we dated, it wasn'tthe same for a while, he actually dated my female best friend and somehow, I managed to stomach it through their entire year and a half realtionship still being best friends with my first love. It could just be that you "gave him your body" so to speak, if you were a virgin before it, you may be tricking yourself into believe he;s the one for you because of that, sex can really mess with your head. Tough it out and see what happens with his girlfriend, try to stay close friends without letting your emotions hurt your friendship.
329899
Yes.\nRight after you tell her you slept with her best friend...or, that thing about 'restraining order'....while on the can isn't that bad, folks.
503723
As long as he still consider it in his dreams, I think it's okay.\n\nC'mon... he's your best friend! Just tell him that you don't like the idea in his head, and tell him to stop thinking about it if he still wants to have a good relationship between both of you.\n\nIt's natural for him to have feeling for you since he probably knows you better than most people, that he feel something sexual for you. But that thoughts can sometime arose from a thing called loneliness.\n\nTalk to him, and tell him that you didn't liek the idea, and that his weird thought might endanger your friendship. Tell him that you'll still be his friend even if he's gay, but there's still a line you need to draw to avoid the worst possibility in your friendship.
303873
I would hope that your best friend would have enough respect for you to not date any of your ex-girlfriends.  Women come and go (same as men), but 'real" friends don't.  But, yeah, I would be a little upset.
149097
Don't be too afraid about that.  If he/she is your best friend, you won't be able to say almost anything to offend him/her.
91152
I think everyone has wondered about that at some point in their life.  There's no way to know for sure, but if you're good friends, then you should talk about it.  It's much better to talk about it, even if it's almost in a joking manner, than to advance to something physical that could make one of you uncomfortable and strain the friendship.
249823
I think you should try going on a date with him. If you don't try it you may always wonder whether or not you did the right think. If he is indeed your best friend, your friendship should be strong enough to handle whatever happens. If you already know everything about each other (like most best friends do) than the transition from friend to boyfriend may just be the natural course of action for you two. However, if you are not physically attracted to him at all, then maybe you should stay just friends because neither one of you will be happy in a long term relationship.
19082
no, but first you should talk to your best friend about this.tell him/her that you really like his/her brother and if ever it didn't work out, tell your best friend that it should not affect your friendship.goodluck.:)
666090
Two things that may happen. Either your bestfriend will accept it and ask you if you want to move the friendship to another level. Or he will be surprise and will start avoiding you especially if he likes someone else. It will surely be a tough decision and you are the only one who can make it.
257150
sure but make sure your friend never finds out because who would you rather have a boyfriend or your bestfriend you choose.\n\ngood luck!
1169756
It's possible as long as neither one of you want a sexual relationship. Could build a stronger bond or could make things really difficult. I say you should go with how you really feel about it. A lot of people couldn't be friends after something like that, but if the both of you are mature about it, then I say go for it. Good luck.
1032209
I think its wrong. but if your bestfriend know about the issue and if she's fine with it, then go for it. but if she doesn't know please don't keep it a secret from her. It'll hurt like H3ll when she fines outs
595465
no its not true i have a friend and we like each other but we are both involved with other people.  when we hang out and get together sometimes the chemistry gets flowing so much that we just end up having sex but that's all it is is just sex with a friend.  now not all people do this kind of thin or maybe if your friends with a girl and she doesn't want to have sex with you its because she doesn't look at you in that perspective...would you want to have sex with someone that loved you like a brother?