How can someone break your heart and just walk away and never feel bad for their actions?
441113
Some people's hearts are so hardened, they just don't care. They probably haven't heard from their conscience in years, assuing that they had one to begin with.
485763
that's kind of hard, he might still b upset with u 4 leaving him, my advice spend some time with him and c how he acts, if the vibe is good then try flirting with him a lil, but i think the best thing 2 do is let him know how u feel, tell him your sorry 4 what happened and that u were going through a ruff period.
207883
Sometimes the love you gave is thrown out like a bag of garbage. Sometimes they never know you loved them so much. Sometimes when they do something that hurts u deep and cause such untold pain in your heart...\n\nWell the list goes on... A Broken heart is hard to mend, but still time is a great healer of many things, even a broken heart...\n\n.:Fishie:.
150830
You cant mend a broken heart. Go ahead and feel the pain, by not getting to angry and dont put to much blame in his direction.\nFeeling the hurt will make you much stronger...and make it go away much faster. \nYou feel like you want to die...but I promise, you wont. It is something we all go thru at some time in our life and it hurts real bad. but just hang in there....it will get better!!!
638616
Its always easier said than done.. but say goodbye now..!! Why because experience speaks for itself.. I had the same problem i forgave him once, but then it happened again and again and again.. It was the hardest part to say goodbye to someone u love too much, but its rips ur heart apart to know they're abusing the love and affection you give them...!! And remember this, wen women hurt, they hurt badly and then there comes a point where they go COLD and then theres no turning back... so its best to say goodbye now and save yourself from the more despising feeling of anger and hate... Best of luck with the decision u choose :o)
538690
I don't think you can break it off without hurting with them.  But you do owe it to them and yourself to be honest with them.  Good luck.
1157684
just walk away without looking back
165047
You can't just walk away angry and distract yourself with the next encounter.  You can't escape yourself.\n\nUnderstand your feeling.  Analyze it.  Understand the other person and what they did, unpalatable as it may be to do.\n\nThey may never give you "closure" so give it to yourself.\n\nResolution, not escape.  Thats how.
189649
You never really mend it ... you just move on and dare to be vulnerable with someone new. I could list seven names of people I feel have a piece of my heart, but number eight, my partner, has access to the overwhelming majority of it.
22730
Your used to someone, used to having fun with them, used to loving them and used to just generally having them around.  When you get your heart broken, its unlikely you can remain friends with someone you've had such a deep understand with and thus its more then like that you've got to start from scratch.  Mainly, its the fear that you'll never have that again and never be happy again.  The best way to get over a break-up is to tell yourself that "she/he wasn't worth my time and that some other lucky person will be worth it in the future".
1169665
When people break up it is hard not to think about each other and many things bring up memories.  It takes time to get over someone. You will know though when you hear your favorite song and you are ok listening to it without crying.  Sometimes it is hard to let go of something that we can't have.  So what you have to do is take one day at a time, smile, be confident and know that you are better than crying over him and then when your knight in shining armour comes along he will sweep you off your feet and you will wonder why you ever cried a tear.
236533
1. Don't think about it. \n2. Hang out w/ friends.\n3. Try something you never done before.\n4. Occupy your time.\n5. Cry @ 1st and then get over it.\n6. Move on.\n7. You were too good for him anyway. \n8. Help others.\n9. Focus on you. \n\nJust to name a few...lol. Just try some of these. I hope u start feeling better and remember you will be fine in time. I promise in the future you will look back and say what the hell was I thinking for being w/ him in the first place!
553250
Take a good hard look at that person  -- understand that if they have no other fault, they are not right for YOU if they don't feel the same way you do.  It's terribly difficult, but you deserve to be loved in return.\n\nRemember: you can't change how anyone else acts or feels, you can only change how you react to them.  Good luck!
514617
Well.....definately you have to do it in person, trust me....I'm not ashamed to say that I've been dumped through the phone, and trust me that hurts like a b**ch!\n\nWell, there isn't a way to break up with someone without hurting them, if they care about you of course they're going to get hurt, but they'll understand, if you give them good reasons for wanting to break up, and if you're dealing with an understanding person, I'm sure he or she will understand! Just try to talk to the person and be completely honest! Think of a way you would like someone to break up with you and try to follow it with the person you want to dump, you know what I mean? Well, anyway, just try to be sincere and try to be soft, you know? I hope that helped you! Good Luck!
651717
there is no sure-fire successful way to do this.  i would recommend that you extend the olive branch to them.  time can heal wounds or can cause them to fester and grow worse.  it all depends on the people involved, and the depth of the hurt.  an apology can't hurt, and might even make YOU feel a little better to get it off your chest.\n\ntrust is even harder to pin down... once it's gone, it is very hard to rebuild, and even if it is, it's never quite the same.  people aren't machines, and don't respond very predictably when feelings and emotions are involved.\n\nif you've done all you feel that you can do, eventually it comes down to the other person. (is it your sister, by chance?)  it is up to them, and there is no way to force yourself upon them.  and when you think about it later, why would you want to be around someone like that anyway?  \n\nsad, but it may be time to be at peace with yourself and move on.
531119
Try to find it in your heart to see this person as just a sad someone who will never be as fabulous as you are.  Cultivate compassion and forgiveness for him or her, and be happy that you are nothing like him or her.\nDo not forget this person though, or the harm he or she has done to you, and recognise the lessons that this person has taught you about your own feelings.  \n\n"Forgive them Father, for they know not what they do".\n\nLove is always the stronger force, and hate leads to your own personal destruction.  Let go of the anger and find the peace and you will be all the more a better person for it.
1037739
Good question, even loser's hearts can break.\nLook at his friends and how he interacts with the people close to him, especially female family members.\nWatch his mood, see if it changes.  Date for at least 4 seasons, you can see how his mood changes through the seasons, a lier can't keep a lie going for too long before his true colors come out.\nBe careful that you don't hurt the wrong guy, because you may never get a chance to mend  their broken heart.