the guy i like have a baby by other a woman and that he would not talk to me now?
445435
Sorry to hear that but you have to get over him honey. He has a baby and he has to be there for his kid. Besides wouldn't you want you first kid to be your man's first kid as well. Get over him or you will get hurt.GOOD LUCK!
838485
this is a tough situation...I'm in one similar.  I would tell him how you feel...DON'T give him an ultimatum on choosing his kids or you because chances are you will loose.  Maybe you guys can work something out where half the time you spend with his kids and the other half is just you two.  You have to let him know how you feel though otherwise you'll go crazy and be bitter about him not spending any alone time w/you.
415789
No.\nAny man who has an ex girlfriend who is currently pregnant and has started dating again after only 3 short months is not exactly the most dependable person.\nI would leave NOW, before you become the next girl on his "My baby's mother" list
848185
sounds to me that hes hurt about you moving on....... find a new sitter and tell him if he cant call and be nice ,, dont call back ..... the fact is that he is the father and will be in your life but for your babys good you need to work out some reasoning with him
922407
You are just hungry for that "perfect family".  Unfortunately, you didn't choose the perfect man.  He left you when you were pregnant.  That's not a real man.\n\nFocus on your baby and yourself, leave the man out of the picture.  And don't jump into any relationships with anyone.  Make your child your priority.  It's had doing it on your own, but you can do it if you just remember what's important.
606587
Well since that happened to me a yr ago, I suggest that u tell him that it's over and that u want him to be part of the baby's life. In my situation her and me have an understanding where I get to have him for 2 weeks out of the month and so does she. She just came out and told me, I wasn't so happy about it but I got use to it and realized that she really wanted it to be over. Anyways if U need some more advice on this e-mail at elguapo_v12@yahoo.com Well good luck and remember just sit down with him and tell him what u really feel...
305039
It is admirable what he is doing but without question they will form a relationship around that child that you do not have. Now that's not bad if  he is true. If he is not you could find that the significance of the bond between a man and a child can become more important than the bond between you and him. At least for a moment. Talk to him with out accusing him but let him know that you support his efforts but not in place of his feelings for you.\nIs the baby calling him daddy or are the two of you auntie and uncle?
88556
depends on the guy. Some guys find a woman at her sexist when she is carrying his child. But then some guys are wierded out by it or feel that they may harm the baby if they have sex with you. You need to sit down with your man and see what he is feeling. May be taking him to your next doctor visit might help as well.Then he could ask the doc questions and stuff.
367120
i can understand where you was coming from. not that you should have hid it from him. but he must really love you and you should hang on to him, and always show him how special he is to you. i don't mean just tell him i mean show him. congrats on baby and new man. good luck, and GOD BLESS YOU !!!!!!!!!1
1087103
Ooh...what a mess! Ok, first, should have waited a little longer to cohabitate. Now that makes it hard on you, your boyfriend and your son. All things in due time, my dear. Next, I do have some good news here...you'll probably always love your son's father in some small way because he shared with you an experience no one else has, which is creating your child together. This will change with more time, though I can't say if your feelings for your boyfriend will change. I loved my ex dearly but he wasn't in love with me. He accidentally got me pregnant and we both decided it was for the best for me to have an abortion. We're still great friends ever since we broke up, but that will always tie us together, even though no one else knows what truly bonded us. It took me time but I didn't move on until I was really ready and it sounds like you did. You're also really young and you already have a child so a lot of this could stem from those early 20's feelings of newfound independence and sowing wild oats. Only you can decide. Take some time for yourself and figure out what it is you really want. Once you clear your head, you might realize you do love this man, or you might soundly be able to declare to yourself that you don't. Remember that love takes time to build and establish, and you haven't been with this new guy for too terribly long. Whatever you decide, best of luck to you.
303693
You yourself said it was a fling..leave it..talking to this guy wont make any difference.. if you need it off your chest..post a question on yahoo answers!! As for closure..he is with another woman now..is that not closure enough.. the thing here is your expecting some form of logic in this situation..relationships..even flings dont work this way..live and let live...spend your precious energy on someting and someone worthwhile..including YOU..\nGood Luck..
229612
Unfortunately you have no control over what someone else does.  If your baby's father cares about your feelings, he will ask that girl to stop calling him.  Otherwise, you probably need to look for a new man in your life.
801374
Honey, all i can say is.. take some time with him.. not enough soo other girl will become suspecious. Im sorry to say that but, you know you cant do anything about it... like going to him and saying hang out with me more.. or some thing like that.. last thing you want is both them not talking to you.. but i got to say, be happy for him girl!!! if you think he likes her more.. then thats o.k. you just know he  has not forgotten about you girl. He still knows you, not like your out of his life.. he wants to hangout with you too.. just do this.. give him some space for a while.. and things will be ok.. life goes on.. and we cherish the moments we had with another.. i promise you that doll face.. nothing we do or happens to any of us in the world can be changed from our minds.. it is always there which keeps us moving on in life.... having a family.. kids... house.. it never stops.. just be happy you know him now, and that he knows you... try asking him to like hangout with you.... see what he feels about it.. he can choose who he wants to be with.. if things dont go well between you two... dont worry.. cant express that enough.. its not your fault if he makes a decision you dont like..\n\nHope it works out for best of you anne\nSincers\nShawn Miller\nToronto, Ontario
438860
What if she is your one true love?\nI say go for it, because true love doesn't come around much these days and when it does, people are usually too distracted with whatever is going on in their lives to notice anyway.\nBUT if she did have the baby and kept it, be prepared to be a part of that kid's life. That is a major commitment. It adds a completely different dynamic to the relationship, it'll still be worth it if she really did satisfy you the way you say she did though.\nAs for this other guy, you say you USED TO call him so, you have no obligation to him. F*ck him. Just make 100% sure that she feels the same way about you after all this time before you make your move!\nGood Luck!!
839218
Hi TaTa,   I hate to see you get hurt,but this guy is a player.He only cares about hisself and his needs.You will never be happy with this jerk. The problem is you cannot ever trust him again. Without trust you don't have a relationship.Besides that he will do it again and again. Kick his sorry A S S to the hurb, and find you a man who will treat you, and your baby with respect,trust and a caring man.You deserve alot better than your getting from the jerk. I'm wishing you and your baby all the luck and have a happy life. A Friend.\n\n  Clowmy
697846
Girl i was in the EXACT same situation!!!!!lol.I went with my gut and i went with the good guy.....my baby's father showed his true colors and cursed me out,and that's when the simply fact of him changing was fount out to be a lie!I thought to myself,my good guy would NEVER do that.....we've been in situations that we were going to stop talking,and a curse word never even left his mouth.....go with the good guy....baby fathers never change.....trust me in a couple months when he's still in his dirt,you'll be kicking yourself for letting a good thing go.
229874
Girl you do not want to be the girl on the side trust me from what i experienced its not good i was in a similar situation but vice versa he left me for another chick and i was miserable for months i finally learned to keep my head up and there he was wanting me back but he didnt want to leave his girl b/c she had no where to go so b/c i was so in love with him i went along for the ride but it was wrong for me to do that b/c i was just hurting myself id did so much for him and didnt ddeserve to be treated this way no woman does and sometimes you should move with the best intentions for him and especially now that he might have another baby mama just adds more drama to your life and you dont deserve that baby girl just move on and really time will tell how things will work out for the both of you. From one woman to another.