Around what point in a relationship (time length is fine) is it okay to have sexual intercourse?
454824
You didn't mention if this was your first sexual relationship with a guy. I would have to say let nature take it's course. If the two of you have spent a lot of time together; cuddle time, petting time, even sleeping together with out having sex and your comfortable together; I would say if you feel your ready just make sure you take the proper preventative measures to protect the two of you from any form of STD or unwanted pregnancies and well go for it. *smile*\n If this is your first time; I would suggest if this is something you both want, work your way up to full intercourse. Explore one another's bodies, take a shower together ( that's always fun!! ), foreplay, foreplay, foreplay *laugh* Above all else, once it's time and it is your first time, RELAX and let your body take your mind into ultimate enjoyment. Granted no matter what unless you have really done heavy foreplay and are totally relaxed your going to feel some pain but just as fast as you have it, it's gone.\n\nSo either way as others say, use the proper protection, set the mood, and if both of you are ready, have fun!!
1100082
Depends on how long we've been together. But personally, I won't be in a relationship where we are not intimate. I'm not saying that she has to sleep with me right away, but if we do get into a relationship and consider ourselves monogamous and are boyfriend/girlfriend I want to be intimate with the one I'm with. But the difference here is that I am old enough to be in that kind of relationship. I don't know how old you are, but based on most of the posts here, the majority of people are under aged and should not be worrying about having sex with their partner. Wait til you are old enough to make wiser decisions before involving yourself in a intimate relationships.
117472
I do not see anything wrong with it as long as both are over 18 and BOTH people involved in the act know that it is a purely sexual thing and that is all it will be,as long as you always use protection, and are not looking to do this kind of thing with a ton of people.
455997
no it is not good from health point of view because the reproductive system has not fully developed at that age. if you have intercourse during this period, it may disturb the hormonal balance ,plus , it wouldn't be good unless you have the complete knowledge about sex. it is okay if you want to have it just now, but from health point of view , i would suggest that you wait for a few years more.\n\ni hope i helped. and yes, make sure you dont get a sexually transmitted disease as it could be very painful and sometimes, lethal also.
89305
You should wait until you're both ready. To sound stereotypical, sex is a big responsibilty. No matter how safe you are, there can always be the risk of pregnancy or getting an STD. Be sure you're ready for an consequences that may occur.\n\nBut if you decide to go for it....HAVE FUN!
1068242
Check with your doctor on this matter. I think that as long as you don't exhibit outer symptoms, it is safe to have sex. This is only an opinion from a layman's viewpoint.
1175444
no. sometimes its better to take things slowly, and get to know each other really well. then when you know you trust them, you can go ahead and do the things that you wanna do. i have been going out with my boyfriend for 8 months and we havent had sex yet. he knows i want to wait, and he respects that. but if your man does'nt want to wait, then he is'nt worth your time. no guy should have to be that way.
549447
Absolutely. The general rule of thumb is whether or not you would feel comfortable if it were the other way around. Put yourself in your partners position, and then consider the consequences of your actions.
547152
Depends on how old you are.\n\nIf you are a teen, forget it, I am not justifying that.\n\nIf you are a consenting adult, then I would say whenever you are completely comfortable with that.  If you aren't, then don't.
332864
In my opinion, it is ok and it is not selfish. This is only my opinion... We have laws governing us and most people and societies have rules, moral laws and religious traditions and beliefs regarding sex. There are also medical and psychological studies regarding effects of m*st*rb*tion, both good and bad. To me, as it is a natural instinct for human to discover sexual attraction and discover sexual pleasure simply by stroking the genitals (usually discovered when pubic hair starts to grow or during the puberty period), it must be ok because we are created this way for reproductive purpose and also for a way to release sexual tension.\n\nFaking is not a good idea. I suggest an open communication during sex, let your partner know what you want done and how you want it done and do the same by asking your partner the same questions. And of course, your partner and you have to agree with each other on what you can do for the other for your mutual sexual pleasure. Don't turn-off your partner voicing your dissatisfaction, instead focus on asking what will make you reach orgasm and pleasure without hinting dissatisfaction.
826311
Do you mean sex?  I think it's silly to put a number on how often you want it.  I think it shoud be a mutual thing.  There are people with really high sex drives, and people with really low sex drives.  If two people with conflicting levels get together, there will likely be problems in the relationship (although I think they can be worked out if both people make an effort).  I don't think there is a standard to live up to.  Both people need to decide what is right for their relationship.  Of course non-sexual contact should also be considered.  If you truly connect with someone intellectually and emotionally, you might feel that you are better able to compromise with the physical part.
100119
sure...you'll be fine...is thgere a rush?.....280 days  plus  or  minus  for  one  of the  most  remarkable  things  to  happen..a  baby\nif  you  both  get to  know  each  other  with  massage.reflexology...just  touching  and  cuddling...youll melt the  barrier.....if  yr  thinking  of  having  a  child  to  satisfy  someone  else  ..a  relative...or   to  satisfy...THAT  includes....some  authoritive  figure  who...isn't arround  but  left  you  with a  blockage...about  children  or  parenting  or  sex.....find  a  mid  wife  they're  remarkable  and  have  a  great  insite....   get  yr  partner  to  go  dancin  together...slow  couple  artistic  dancn...that  will bring  you  a  harmonious  co-ordination....ther's a lot  more  but  these are  fine  openers
171549
I personally don't think that you should set an exact time frame tell him that you would enjoy sex if it were more sparatic, that if you get it less you will enjoy it more..... just have sex when you feel like it.... don't limit yourself to once every two weeks and don't feel that you have to once every two weeks if you don't want to
180598
As long as you are both of leagal age. There is no problem with it!
1017415
Most are a month or two. of course there are exceptions... im in high school and ive been with my boyfriend for 2 and half years :)
368571
theres no time and matter when it comes to relationship snad kissing as such. You shouldnt ask when do people generally kiss. its just somethign that cant be answered. its soemthng for one person to experience on their own when the time is right. dont stress over whether or not something is right. when the time is right it will be right. it will not evenmatter to you whetehr or not you did it right or at the right time. the only thing that matters is the momory of it. hope this answers your question.
701412
It is fine. I am 24 and my husband is 35. we are very diffrent in age and it is great for us. Also not to say that it should be done or that it is legal and it has to do with the how mature the girl is. I feel it is fine to have relations with someone under the age of 18. many girls have sex befor the age of 18 but it should strongly weigh on her matuity. I think waiting untill the two people know that they are going to be married in the future is best or even waiting untill they are makes it even better. I know sounds a little harsh, but imagine this the people have just been married and how much more the two will want it and feel the romace of it all if they wait. Everyone has their own feelings about that though. If the two of them date for a couple years it is perfectly legal for the two of them to get married in most states befor the age of 18 and in some states can even do it now, but may still need a parents consent to do so. tell your friend and I am sure he will have even more fun making out how much he loves her to her and if marriage is something he really wants with her in the future making those plans with her too.