My ex keeps coming back to me..what should i do?
442848
Obsession is dangerous, Look at "Moby Dick".\n\nYou need to let him know that, although there are some wonderful feelings you still have for him (I assume that is the case), it just never worked out. It is time to let go and move on.\n\nIf it gets too weird, you may have to report his as a stalker.
537486
Move on. if your ex has already moved on then you should too!
671875
tht guy always try to be in touch with u any how, keeps calling u, and whn he start do thngs differently for u only.
481226
If you do not want to get back with your ex then you should not be involved with him and his present partner as just a "FRIEND".\nThat may be the root of the problems that they are having that send him running to you for "ADVISE".\nHe feels comfortable with you because the two of you have history and he maybe testing the Waters to find out if you are willing to forgo a friendship and try a relationship once again.\nThe best thing you can do is steer clear of constant contact with them as a couple.
908769
It sounds like he's very hurt by not only the break up, but by your harsh actions of how you treated him after the relationship ended. He's seen you in a new light that was not good and now in turmoil over whether or not to get back with you. Best thing to do now would be to back off to give him time and space to figure things out. By you constantly calling and asking him what's he going to do is probably just making matters worse. Let him have his time to think about things and so he can make his decision.
284303
Let him go and tell him don't come back. Let him know your time and you are to precious to be messed with and make your actions go with that. There are to many other things in life to trip on than some troubled ex-bf.You know what I mean?
531819
He isn't coming back no matter what you do. Take a deep breath and move on.
389873
First of all, stop sitting around waiting on him to want you again.  He is trying to control you.  Whether you are over him or not, you can still "move on."  Don't wait on him.  When he finally decides to call, reverse those rolls.  Tell him that you got a date, but when you need one, you will call him.
315188
NO! you need to find out why you can't let go! you sound like a stalker. move on with your life. if this person give a damn about u they will contact u when they're ready.
733745
Move on...find someone who truely appreciates you like you deserve to be.You should not try to get him back because obviously he has not been able to see the great, lovable , caring girl inside...so let him go and find someone who can find her and take care of her.There is nothing greater in life than being truly appreciated.you deserve better.I am sure there is someone just round the corner or right under your nose that you did not notice when you are so hung up on the ex.Let go and let the real thing find you.Bless you,sweety
376422
the fact you are trying to hide it is what shows so obviously...no one can hide true feelings... get a rebound, thats the only way to get over someone. your ex sounds like a jerk!
226717
Well, you need to consider a few things first.  Did your ex read the emails?  What were your emails about?  Was there anything that would make your girl think that you were trying to get back with your ex?  Were you lying to your girl?  Did you tell her about the emails or did she catch you "red handed"?\n\nThe best thing you can do is to be honest.  Tell her the situation...the whole truth.  It may take a while for her to trust you, but she may be willing to work with you.  If she does not want to listen or does not want to forgive you, you may just have to let her go.  If she can't trust you (when you tell her the truth), then the relationship can not work.  If you've ever lied to her, you will have to rebuild that trust.  Good Luck.
333139
Sounds like he is just coming back for some action because he hasn't got anything better going on at the time.\n\nThe thing about most men is that they will take it wherever they can get it.  And the more you forgive them and keep taking them back, the more they will think they can get away with.\n\nThe more often you let him come back, the more strongly he will believe that you will always be around whenever he feels like coming back to you.  If he really felt anything for you, he would stay.  You need to tell him no, or he will continue to use you like a yo-yo.\n\nForget about him and find someone who will be there for you all the time, not just when it is convenient for him.
54084
Nope.  He's just trying to keep you around for the time being.  You need to move on.  He had his chance.  And he blew it big time.  It'll happen again.
271435
get a new number and only give it to people who ABSOLUTELY need it.  or screen your calls.  also, i'd consider get a restraining order, seriously.  i had a bf once who's ex called CONSTANTLY, it was bad, we contacted a lawyer and managed to get an order stating she had to leave us alone, because she was stalking us.
967887
she's your ex\ndeal with it\nyou cant demand anything from her at this point, as she doesn't play a vital role in your life anymore.\ngive her time, she may come around.\ngive her some space, about a week.\nthen try again with the calling.\ngood luck with hearing her voice
1168130
if it's really true and he has been seeing someone else, then just let him go.  if he's doing it to get your attention, then he's really immature so again, let him go.  just keep ignoring his calls and he'll go away.