i want to ask my mom to wear a padded bra but i 'm afraid she will say no !?
448222
just ask her don't be shy i asked my mom and she sAID ITS OK.
1138068
I'm not entirely understanding your question, but if I bent over, people would see down my top, and yes, my bra.  Wa-hey.  If people find them that exciting they should go hang out in a lingerie shop.
1063899
be honest with her but say it in a nice way.."mom, please..i don't wanna talk about it anymore.." even if she gets mad, eventually, she'll know you really don't want to talk about it.
812780
I don't hink wearing bra will cuase breast cancer. Deodorant is one of the biggest causes and obviously if it runs in the family genetically you could also be prone.\n\nI found in Marks and Spencers the other day these stick on nipple covers that will just go over your nipples and prevent them from getting rubbed
948906
Go without a bra and give him a reason to make demands. Or better yet, don't wear a jacket!
434486
Try this: "Hon, if there's a chance to have something in my body part be changed what would it be you like to be changed? "After she answer try this: "How about yours...do you wish something be changed and what would it be?" If she answer it is her boobs well offer her if it is not try this: "Well..I guess you look almost perfect even your boobs are beautiful but if those are bigger it would be awesome! What if I'll pay breast implant for you...would you like it?
1036503
you got to obey her she is your mother but try to convince her that this something you really want to do and that if you love it that much you will risk spraining your ankle and getting sunburned tell her it wont kill you
86314
Tell her NO!!!!!  For the love of God, man -- tell her NO!! If she continues to prod you, tell her that you don't see her in terms of size, but that when you look at her, you see an aura about her that reminds you of what your love together has produced.  If that doesn't do the trick, and she doesn't beleive you, just wait a few minutes, till she wants taco-bell or something, then be all about getting it for her.  (That'll show her that you aren't concerned about her size.)  AND DON'T MAKE ANY COMMENTS ABOUT IT!!! -- Her doctor, and pain in the rear-end people (other women, your own mother perhaps) will make plenty of those kinds of comments, which you, in turn will hear about.  \n-WR
1107265
Why don't you try a sports bra...halter top type thing with built-in support.
248121
Yes they do. You can request to not have them put on if you would like. For my mother-in-laws funeral we told them that we did not bring a bra ( they told us to bring one) Because she never wore one in her life. You can request anything. Although who will look underneath her clothing to see if they put them on???
834154
Go with the one that fits you best. As you grow, you will increase the size of the bra, or the cup size. But if you buy one that is a bit too large, it is going to chafe and be very uncomfortable. Trust me, it's really a factor. Other people won't necessarily notice, unless you get  a padded bra that sticks out to there, when you were flat the day before. So don't worry about that. But do be concerned about your comfort because you're going to be wearing it all day and it's important that it fits you so well that you forget you even have it on.
943733
Maybe you could talk to her about it and tell your friends they can't come over so much?  Hopefully your mom will be sensitive to your feelings and put her children's needs first, which is how it should be. It's perfectly natural for you to feel how you're feeling. Parents are supposed to set healthy boundaries between their children's friends and themselves.  Good luck to you, sweetheart.
260589
she loves and cares! enjoy! sometime u'll get a freedom of being not dependent from your mom and her opinion what to wear and u'll miss it with a smile :)
143573
no,she will never.stop worries,it can be easily healed even without surgery.its great that you love your mother so much,keep that up till the end.show this answer to your mom & i am sure that she will treat herself for the sake of the ammount you love her.i pray to Allah almighty to cure your mom soon.
541744
Given that your breasts are growing right now, the pain you're feeling is probably perfectly normal.   I'm glad your mom set up an appointment, though.  I think it's always better to be safe than sorry.\n\nThe chances of you having breast cancer at your age are very, very, very slim.  So slim that, if you were my daughter, I wouldn't be worried about it one bit.\n\nI hope that helps and "Happy Birthday".
904525
It's not your mother's business as to what you wore.  If you were comfortable and it was impossible for anyone else to see or know about it, that should have been good enough.  Besides, it was really impolite of your mother just to walk in on you as you were changing. Nobody knows how to knock any more.
1061207
Everyone develops at their own pace, there is no need for "your cuz" to be worried. Some develop early, others pretty late, in time she will go through the changes that all women experience. And some people are just more flat-chested than others, me being one of them! It really isn't that bad and if it really bothers her, she can invest in some padded bras!