My boyfreind told me i was judgemental and always had  to have my way!!?
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Sounds like you need to take a hard look at yourself.  It does sound like maybe you are judgmental.  How you can say a movie is stupid after admitting that you haven't even seen it?  Isn't that a good example of being judgmental?  \n\nIt is normal to react to criticism with hurt and denial.  But, take a deep breath, calm down and really think about your behavior and comments.  You could also ask others who are close to you how they feel.  But, do that only if you are willing to hear the truth no matter how painful it is.  Often, we are not aware of how our words and actions come across to others.  \n\nCriticism is usually meant to help us improve ourselves so instead of taking it personally, really think it through.
685462
I go back to what I was told along time ago.  That is, "Trust your first instincts"  If he kicked you to the curb, then to the curb with him.  He will play with your heart.  He knows you'll always be there when he needs you.  You're better than that.  Do you really need this drama.  You know, where was he for these past 2 - 3 yrs.  Undying love....my ass.  He knows how to play with your mind and you're falling for it.  I don't mean to sound harsh, and I totally am not like this.  I guess you just touched a nerve.\n\nGood luck
100568
He was using you.  He told you it was your fault to make you feel back and take the blame off of himself.  He's not worth your time.  Especially if he is abusive.
179319
You shouldn't let your boyfriend control you like that.  It's a sign of things to come.  Now it's a party, but in the future he'll be telling you what friends you can and cant have, what to wear, places you can and cant go, etc.
57057
Damn baby, I wanna date you...LOL. If you like getting walked on, then keep taking him back. If you want to respect yourself, kick him to the curb and keep moving forward with someone that will treat you better. Don't put up with crap. People will only do to you what you let them do.
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Remember, you are the company you keep.  Who your boyfriend chooses as his friends says something very important about who he is and what he values. If his friends are rude and abusive to you, that does not bode well for the character of your boyfriend.  At the very least, you should talk to your boyfriend about what they have said to you and give him a chance to explain and make his friends change their behavior to you.  Good luck.
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Don't let him know because I have the same problem and when I told him what I heard wasn't pretty ... He said that I broke his heart and he doesn't want i happening all over again. make him jealous of you and let him hear about you see you most of the time. If you go after him he will always be running away from you.
788266
He is a jerk... and he was trying to play you. I suggest you move on and find another cutie that doesn't lie and treats you right :)
1159993
maybe your boyfriend wasn't nice.\nlet's hope he is more considerate when he leaves you.
803297
I can understand both your sides. If you can't trust him, you need to figure out why - is it him, or is it you? To me, it sounds like it's you. STOP trying to make him justify himself to you. He is not your son - he is your boyfriend. If it's him, and you know FOR A FACT you can't trust him, then leave him!!!! Either way, stop making him account for his time - he is his own person. \nCould he have called you and told you he was going to be late? He probably should have apologized, and perhaps didn't if you jumped his sh** right then and there. \nRemember, men and women react differently - likely, he is not trying to hide something, he just doesnt appreciate being treated like a child and is trying to reclaim some autonomy.
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dont always belive what people say, unless u have proff then dont acusse him. dont worry about what others say its all about you!
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He sure sounds like a spoiled brat to me. Have brother with the same problem.  Well, 1 thing is for sure: cuddling him like a baby will only reinforce his present behavior.  Forgive me for saying this but his attitude reflects the way he was being brought up.  You might want to explore a different approach than the 1 you guys are used to...probably a firmer approach? you can't be wishy-washy about your decision 'coz he won't take you seriously.  Be harsh if you have to be harsh...if you really love him, find the courage to hurt him for his own good. you can't be there for him forever...if you ask me, son or not at his age he should stop living a parasitic life and should be kicked out of the house. good luck.
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If you're talking about him not letting you do anything, have any say or make any decisions about your relationship, that's not being stubborn; that's him wanting to control you and that is a whole new issue. Get out before it gets Jerry Springer Crazy. \n\nBut if you're talking about regular stubbornness, then here's some help. Tell him your feelings. I know you've probably heard this before, but it is so true; communication is the key to any good relationship. First of all, he should care about you enough to respect your feelings. Secondly, a relationship is a two way street. It should be give and take, not give and give and take and take. One person, (looks like you) is going to get tired of always giving and never receiving. If he insists on not changing, then we're into that controlling issue that I mentioned earlier. We don't want that at all. It's not going to turn out good for you in any way. Get out and find a guy that's going to treat your relationship like you do. Find a guy that's going to treat you with respect instead of treating you like you’re an object or a possession.
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hey baby gurl i know exactly what you are going through inch by inch! you need to look in your heart and see all the good and all the bad he has done for you. once you got that itz like a epsiod of jeperdoy and the facts take it from there if you want to talk email me at ugot_me69@yahoo.com talk to someone who knows where your comming from
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He's playing you for guilt and sympathy. Next you'll give in as expected.  A real man will respect and value you as a whole.  He should be able to wait and walk the same walk, and just don't talk.\nWatch your back and don't get hurt and taken so easily..girlfriend!
490548
ugh he sounds really petty. I don't know his side though. You 2 should try counseling.
108564
Once a dumb-ass...always a dumb-ass!....you need to have more self respect...you deseve better than to be treated nice only in private. If he really cared for you, he would treat you nice ALL the time!...He apperently has some low self-asteem issues to treat you badly in public...get away while you still can!