Men, answer : Do sex toys intimidate you?
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I am not intimidated by toys, actually, it's refreshing to speak with a woman who can be open about her sexuality.  On that same note, I think it's very important to communicate with your partner- non-communication leads people to fill in the blanks, and that's where jealousy, paranoia, and anger creep in.\n\nDon't feel guilty, but don't think him odd for his insecurity.  Talk to him about it.
770157
Sex toys are not for everyone, but offer diversion from the tired old solo adventures, at the very least. Some toys are more simple and affordable, and others are more expensive and difficult to hide...\n\nBut in my case, I use something completelly out there...\n\nA picture is worth a thousand words, so a thousand pictures are worth a million words!\n\nhttp://groups.yahoo.com/group/bbb-01-/\nhttp://groups.yahoo.com/group/BBB-HJ-03/\n\nCheck these (and more in their links) groups about my own favorite and "odd"/different/"weird" masturbation techniques, centering around the B-doll fetish... Don't forget to use lubrication!\n\nCheers!
1154461
It depends on what moral standards you were raised with, to begin with. There are many different forms of arousal, but if you want to get teknikal about it, sex is when penetration occurs.  Fooly Cooly.
629481
I am not a big one for toys, buy my partner occasionally likes them.  I suggest going to a reputable sex shop WITHOUT the peep shows--like The Lions Den.  Then you can see what you are buying--on line you just can't be sure.  Adult sex toy parties are very popular in some places, a straight friend could even have one and you could feel the vibrating ones.  Go small to start, increase later if necessary.  And be careful when using them some can hurt if used improperly.
510196
I would and I do! Vibrating toys can make a guy crazy, in a good way. I think all women should have one for their guy, plus it is a easy way to relieve some of their pressure. I had a BF that could sleep well, so if he was tossing a bit, I would rev up a toy and wear him out a bit, slept like a baby....lol
525878
Chances are if he is getting new ideas about sex they are coming from somewhere. But don't assume the worst! It could be adult magazines or videos. Have a real conversation with him about your fears. Make sure he knows if you are open to expanding your sexuality, but do it as a couple. Let him know you if are not comfortable with him springing new ideas up in the bedroom. Communicating is the most empowering thing you can do for a relationship.
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Is it a sexual thing?
1139621
Yes,my mums partner tried it on years ago.yuk.I kept it to myself.he leers and ogles.old perv.I stay out his way
197075
You need to let them know it's ok to talk while making love. And it's ok to ask them what they'd like. Just yesterday I asked my girlfriend what I could do better. She replied; I'd like to do something but wasn't sure if it would bother me or not. I told her go ahead...didn't bother me at all and she got off on it.
634756
I wasn't aware that they were. But if you're receiving answers regarding sexual matters "boring", maybe sex in general is "boring" to you, or maybe your current sexual situation is boring to you. Sexual answers are meant to inform, not to excite......once informed, then you can go on to the sexual encounter with the tools you need to protect, provide satisfaction to your partner, yourself, whatever - that's the exciting part. (-:
930145
That's actually a pretty common fantasy/kink/fetish.  I see it in the Goth community a lot.  A guy might be freaked out by it, sure, but as long as you are comfortable with it yourself (meaning, when you ask, you don't feel like a freak for asking, you are just calmand relaxed, or maybe even turned on), then he will get over it---or he might get turned on himself.\n\nThe delivery is very important in this case..
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The Brits are so because they never say what they really really think, when people say what they think and take the risk of not agreeing, well it could lead to a fight and they couldn't allow that, oh no, they have to leave it to the Americans and ride our coat tails. Wow, where did this come from, I guess I'm more patriotic then I thought, quick someone shoot me. That's a joke for all you gun owners out there.  I don't really know, you tell me, do guys always think about sex? As far as the challenge part, I'm glad you feel that way, because there's no challenge like a crazy American girl. ;)
458659
tell him you arent into those things and you like the read deal not sex toys man he has problems in my opion ?
205516
When I'm having sex, my mind becomes a lot less verbal because I'm so into it. I feel like I become more animal. So I wouldn't worry about him not being into it, he's probably really into it. But if you like dirty talk, you should tell him. I don't think that would scare him, it would probably turn him on and he would try it.
980816
Hey, Conan, here's a newsflash:  you're normal!  Right, some men aren't quite as driven as you and some are even more driven.  But they're normal, too.  As long as you don't hurt anyone, including yourself, ain't no sweat.  And as long as it does not bother your GF...Look, there is no absolute regarding what endorphins do or do not do for you.  There is a range of acceptable responses and yours do fall within that range.  By the way, if she gets you that hot 'n bothered, would ya mind posting her pic so's us other guys can see what we're missing?
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bring some toys into bed for some fun, my husband and I did and it has done wonders for our sex life, there are toys for woman and men now and for both to use at the same time during sex they are great!
89643
Ok my ex uses Cialis- PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE if you havent used either of these. Before you thinking of just taking the free samples and going on a humping spree. Consult your doctor. Not every male is going to have a good react with these pills.