my best friend is in the mental instituation again?
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Well you seem to be going through alot! I am sorry! I will be praying for you and your friend! I wish I had all the answers -but I don't! Off course you want to help her- she is your friend- but it sounds like she needs help you can't give her! You need to decide do you want live with her! Can you deal with all the drama? Really search yourself- because she is going to need support and a lot of help! I wish you the best! You sound like a really good friend- when she will let you be her friend! A word -- never cheat! No matter what a person says to you! Just not a good plan! You take care- if you like to talk- http://360.yahoo.com/cloeenloe
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I think that with anyone that you spend lots of time with, you are bound to get annoyed at times with your best friend. it just means that it's time to give each other a little space and maybe not hang out every day. Even if it's just a weekend off. But if it's more intense than that, maybe you should discuss it with them and see if they are feeling the same way.
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You have to sit down with your friend and have a long serious talk with her and tell her how much your nervous for her because of what she is doing and how she can get hurt from all her negative actions.You shouldn't try to make her feel guilty by saying you'll start cutting again because that won't help and it won't persuade her because  she'll just say she has the right to get high as much as you do cutting.Let her know that if she doesn't get rid of her habbits that you don't feel comfortable with her having she could lose you as a friend.Don't get mad at her or yell be calm and be the best possible friend that you can and motivate her into becoming something better and hopefully she will reconsider.If she doesn't listen to you,you must tell an adult you trust and they can take it from there.
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I'm with jbpammy004,  what is your question....I hope you find the answer....However i think i understand what you are saying.  Sounds kind of sad....Hope you have had a chance to see your friend again....Good luck....Don't be sad.
570781
believe your best friend!! unless you know that she's the jealous type or prone to lying, believe her! think about it, why would she LIE to you?
1006611
Isn't it surprising how easily one gets into a 'situation' without really meaning to? It´s time to move on, you'll survive. Stop seeing the 'ex-best friend' and maybe you two will get together again in the future, much wiser for the experience.
298992
if he does it routinely and often he could have bipolar and could be holding on to something deeper than you think when he is your friend try and get close to him and be his friend and explain what kind of hardship he is causing you and how you feel about it try and steer him into a hobbie or do more things with him.
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i think my old friend is experiencing that too, since i just met a new friend. i'm tring to spend equal amount of time with both of them but it just doesn't go that way. but i still like my old friend more. i think your friend feels the same way that i do
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Hmmm... Really sounds strange huh? Well, I'm a Man but I think I can answer your question... Maybe you're right about what you suspect for the reason she doesn't want to be friends anymore, but you really have to talk to her because there can be many reasons for this situation, maybe you can ask her if someone was backstabbing you and telling things about you against your friend... Right? Losing a friend like yours is very depressing because both of you have been to lot of ups and downs... For now, try to take time for her to think it over, same to you as well, think of the things that possibly you've done that hurted her feelings too... Because if she was your friend for 12 years already, jealousy is not a big factor and she should be proud of you as her bestfriend... Maybe jealousy to other friends of yours is a reason... Try to talk to her ok? But at the right time... Goodluck to your friendship and I'm sure you will get her back...
180857
Ther is obviously something going on in her life that is making her act this way. Talk to her. Friendships are the most important things you can have in life and good ones are very hard to come by.\n\nI have had a best friend for 27 yrs and it hasn't all been pretty but each time we found our way back to each other and I am so happy to have her in my life.
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Tell him exactly what you are feeling.\nTell him you would like to still be friends but have concerns.\nTell him why you are concerned & explain quite simply that this can not continue to happen.\nTell him how it makes you feel and how you would NEVER do that to him...\nAfter saying this, listen to his reaction & proceed however you think is best.\nMy guess is things will change for the better, but this is up to you to decide. (If he really was a good friend, give him a chance to redeem himself and make things good again.)
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Well... it sounds like there isn't anything you can do!!! If she wants to "dumb" for him, it's all up to her to relize it's time to get smart!!! She really isn't asking for your help in this because if she really wanted help, she would take your advise. Just be that ear for her. And if you feel like you don't want to be friends anymore, still be there, but keep her at a distance.
499050
I think you need to tell her. I think you should also make it very clear to her husband that he is in the wrong and you will not tolerate it. Your best friend maybe angry at you for a while, but it won't be toward you. It is the situation that she will be angry at at, but take it out on you. Hang in there with her....give her space....but never go to far and be there when she returns. She will need you then, especially if she told him where to get off!!!
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The best friend is a human being, so he thinks, feels and maybe some times he judge you and he don't always say what he think. \nIn my opinion, there are situation when you can't trust him. sicerely, i don't have a best frind because it's better to have a small circle of good friends. But it's good to have someone who can help you when u have a problem.
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For now, just let her be.  She's really smart to isolate herself after getting such evidence that she is too trusting, and has poor judgment in who to trust.  Let her take her time, get close to people slowly, and find her "comfort zone."  If you are her friend, then she will probably trust you more than others, even if she is cautious even about you.  She's afraid to be hurt because she's been fooled before.  That's not irrational, after all.  She just needs time.
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Your best friend doesn't have to care as long as she is a good listerner. That is the main thing. Alot of times you just need to talk. If she is atleast listening....then that is really what you needed aways. Does she help you when you really need it. Can you call her anytime to just talk? Can she call you anytime to just talk. Is it just one sided. Are you there for her every-time she needs something? Does she ever need you and you don't help? Good friends will help you kill someone...Best friends will help you bury them..LOL (only joking) Really ask yourself why you are asking this question,,. It may be because this friendship is one sided. Or  it may be because she has other friends that you are jealous of. I know that doesn't sound good. But, hey it happens..I had what I thought was a best friend. She would help me with anything. Then she moved on...I was hurt and jealous. .She is still a friend. but, I found out she could only have one real best friend at a time..She moves on about every 4 years. She has been through about 6 now. We hardly ever see each other now days.  (Almost Forgotten)
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greetings...\n\nif you tell her your feelings she might feel ashamed to talk to you again thus destroying your friendship.  heres what your going to do, treat the way you want to treat her and the way she want to be treated, sooner or later she will get the idea.  always prioritize her happiness.......