Help I have lost him.?
440000
If you feel you're not ready, don't let the feelings of 'loss' cloud the way you actually feel. If you're being pressured to have sex when you're not ready for it, and he's leaving you because he disrespects your choice, he's not ready for someone like you! It might hurt now...but if having sex with you is the ONLY reason he wants to be with you, sorry, dear girl, but there's probably someone out there who will treat you with at least the same respect that you have for yourself.
1020502
Sorry hon, time to get yourself another boy, and forget him.\nIf you lose a pet, as sad as that can be, you get another pet.\nWith a new boyfriend, you will soon have the old one, out of your mind.
1156685
have you talked to him? if not you should b4 its tooooo  late and you regret it. talking to him would be you best bet!!
919489
i hope u will forget him soon.try to find other guy that myb better than him.good luck.
350528
no i dont sorry i cant help. i hope you find him
576963
well just hope he comes back\n\nmake some new friends and get on with your life
362206
Remember this: it's his loss. if he can just leave you like that then he is so not worth it! It's a really hard thing to hear, especially from someone you don't know, but trust me, I've been through it my self. You need to move on.
801040
First you gotta decide if you actually miss HIM or if you miss the aspect of having a serious relationship.  If you just miss the relationship, then you can always find someone else.  If you miss him specificly, call, email, text message, or do anything you can to talk to him.  Let him know how you feel.  Tell him that you know that your life was a little crazy when you knew him before and now you know you have changed.  (MAKE SURE, you don't want the same mistake to happen again).  Tell him you've grown up and you want to see how things will work now that your out of your wild side.  Just tell him the truth.  If he says no or rejects you or anything, you will know that he is probably not the right person for you and you should take your responsible self and find someone else.
220333
Its best not to dig up old wounds. It has been 5 years. he has probably moved on. Id find a nice guy close by where you can talk to him face to face and not across an ocean.
440165
Yes, come on! It's been 7 months! You said so yourself!\nInstead of thinking about a useless crap, why not hang out with your friends or something? Go to a bar, shop, party etc!\nYou'll see, you will forget him in no time and maybe find another one.
611993
Do you think he's been in an accident? Have you reported him as a missing person?  If he didn't leave you...or you are not separated or anything like that, I would say you need to get the police involved and see if he's been in some sort of accident or something. If you are separated...or something like that, then maybe he's just hiding?? I don't know, that's hard to say.
237771
Its difficult and knowing that the feelings are not there for you by him is the first step to forgetting him. Move on and gradually your feeling will fade. Try not to let it control your life. Best of luck and remember you will find someone else.
570672
How sad!\n\nWhat makes it even more difficult is that you had this attraction for him and never resolved it -- that must make it even more rough.  What a sacrifice on your part:  keeping quiet so you wouldn't lose him.  How terrible that you felt that you couldn't just tell him in the first place, without risking losing what you had.\n\nDo you have an address where you can reach him?  Can you locate him?\n\nHow about sending him a letter?  \n\nMaybe now that there's distance between you anyway, you can simply write out how you've felt this whole time, and be honest.  If he doesn't reply then you've at least said how you feel, and since he's moved away there's less of a loss there.\n\nBut you never know -- maybe he'll write back.  Maybe he'll be flattered that you're attracted and won't mind even if he doesn't return your affections.  I'll bet regardless he'll appreciate the risk you took in being honest.\n\nOr... maybe you'll find out he felt the same way, and you can carry on a fabulous correspondence and one day meet again.\n\n\nEither way, I don't think you have much to lose by writing to him, if you can track him down.\n\nBest of luck.  I hope you find him and it turns out well.
147123
I dont think its going to be easy to search for him, atleast technically. You might have to wait for him to come online again.
260292
just be open to him on this issue abt what you are missing,that u need some kind of help and you need friends also.\nall the best
927502
Oops sorry I let him out for a walk and I guess he hitchhiked to your head. If you would send him back it would be much appreciated. You can just tell him to go home if he hasn't left yet. He knows the way.
496769
There is so many opportunities out there for you sweetie with or without this man. Give it your all, it sounds like you have not lost him yet, and even if that does happen, everything happens for a reason, you never know what is around the next turn, and chances are, it will be better than what is gong on or you right now. \n\nI know you hurt now, believe me, I have been there, but you are strong and can pull yourself through this, and whatever else comes up. BELIEVE ME! You are capeable of handling more than you think you can....\n\nI wish you luck!