How do I get my four year old grand daughter to stop wetting her pants?
448342
My youngest step daughter used to wet her bed in the early hours of the morning.  We stopped this by getting her up just before we went to bed around 11pm and taking her to the toilet.  Also restricted drinks after 5pm.  During the day, we just asked every so often if she needed to go to the loo.  And if too longer gap between visits she had to go and try even if she thought she didnt need to go.  Also the bed wetting and "accidents" were down played to being no big deal so as to not associate negative stuff with the whole thing.  Most kids either get too caught up in what they are doing or having to much fun to notice they need to go to the loo or they can be stressed about other events in their lives.
109300
enter into therapy there may be something you need to address before you can stop with the bed wetting.\n\nOr any of the following... don't drink before you go to sleep, pee before you go to sleep, set your alarm to wake yourself periodically through the night.
1129671
Don't do anything about it just let her wear diapers and be there for her if she need help changing them
776172
The most important part of your question is she comes out of the water happy.  At 10 that is key.  Practice relaxation at every practice and then before every meet.  Even 5 year old can accomplish this.  To stop the flinches, tell her use her toes to grab the block and grip tight with her fingers.  If she is using a staggered start she is probably bringing her arms around instead of forward and her back leg is lifting too soon.  Both of these can be changed with practice, practice, practice - the right way.
57760
get him to start telling you when he goes to the bathroom and change him immediatly, get him used to the idea of being clean and dry, let him run around without his diaper for a day and when he has to go have him go in training potty in the hall way out side the bathroom door. let him go into the bathroom when you go and make a big deal about yourself going and have him cheer you on. make it fun and not stresfull. he is probably trying to assert some control in one of the only ways he can by not going. so dont lecture him or tease him or god forbid force or punish him. this is going to take allot of time and patience and you may be in over your head you can seek out some occupational therapists in your area, the school system employs some, and you may be able to get some information from the head start program. good luck I hope this helps you
1084027
It’s time to start potty training when your child starts hiding and coming back with a dirty dipper. Also if you can ask you child if he/she is wet and they respond, it’s time. Some people start sooner but for your convenience no later then three, by four they should pretty close to potty pros.
281697
How old is your child. If he is beyond 6 then find out if something is worrying him or her. If around 3 or 4 try limiting liquids at night, including milk or water. You could get the child up sometime to pee again. It usually works. Also  if a child is cold, they could be wetting the bed.
534586
Have your friend try the cleansing wipes.  My son is adamant about using them now.  They can be flushed too.  Greatest thing since sliced bread.\n\nToo, Charmin (I think) has a toilet using (like cleanup and such) packet with hints and tips, samples and a sticker chart to help little bums get cleaned up.\n\nGood luck to her.
982493
Don't let her push you around, she should poop before she comes over,  I'm tired of woman making all the rules.  i hope she stains her pants on the way home
991960
have you tried letting her Gide your member in and is she wet? when my hubby and my self do it he gets too excited and wont's to put it in and cant find it so I'll do it.
1012304
Please read this all the way through, my heart is with you. I have two boys 10 and 6 that did the same thing (flushing). Charging 10 cents every time I found the bowl full stopped my problem. But your daughter seems like she has hit rebellion already. My 6 year old became very sore and he learned his lesson at 4 about wiping. But with your daughter "dirty down there" is not going to work. She's 10 not 4, don't patronize her, think back to when you were 10. Let's face it we were all picking up info from friends about sex. You 3 parents have to get together as a group and realize she is not a child she is a young lady/woman. Lectures and threats are not going to work anymore. She needs to start making her own decisions, educated decisions. Talk to a gynecologist get facts about what could happen if she doesn't clean up her act. Pictures if necessary, of what these diseases can do to her body. She could pick up staf infection just to name one, and wind up in the hospital. (My husband being a fire fighter had a call at one time about a woman with an upset stomach. She wasn't a wiper either her whole body smelt of crap. When they got her to the hospital because no one wanted to check between her legs (which was where the real discomfort was) they found her vagina was infested, stuffed with maggots.)Please do everything in your power to educate her in a way that will help her to help herself make the right choices. Also is she happy with herself, looks, school, and friends. These are all very important to her right now. If she doesn't have it yet soon she will be starting her cycle. You think you have problems now, wait. This is the summer of change for your family. Make it that way, help her, she needs you all just to hear her, and realize she is not a little girl, or even a big girl, she is a young lady/woman. A new hair style, a light colored eyeshadow if not wearing makeup, a few new clothes, you might want to rethink the panty thing. Is she wearing panties that make her feel like a young lady/woman, or is she wearing widebottomed, widesided diaperwear. Help her to feel different about herself. Chin up, no one ever said this parent thing was easy, but think of the good times, keep an open mind, and email me if you need to. We have all been there in one way or another.
362413
There are many causes to bed wetting like bladder development, heredity, heavy sleepers, and hormones.  A really good website which deals with this and gives great information is \n\nhttp://www.goodnites.com/na/index.asp\n\nnot only will the give you great information but they also have product information so you can find products which can help your child and it also has a progress tools section.  I hope it helps.
208078
There is a great new Pampers product called "Feel and Learn".  It is like an Easy Up but has a "wet sensation liner" in it that hold moisture against the child's skin for a bit when they urinate before wicking that moisture away.  This way, the child can feel the wet sensation and learn from it, as opposed to a normal diaper that just makes them dry right away.  Moms have called in and said that their child has been out of diapers within a week of using these.
1035992
Boys usally take longer to potty-train than girls.  My brother is 8 and still wets the bed at night, but I was completely trained by 2.  What really helped my brother for the daytime was a combination of rewards and reminders.  Give him a reward (something small like a sticker or a spoonful of honey should be fine) and rimind him a lot to "check and see."  Good luck.
1133118
If you can lube it off with lubricant.Maybe some ky or vasline/baby oil.If that dosent work, or if you get it off and his sac is hurt or discolored,take him to the er.I know it may be embarrassing for all of you(especially him), you want to have grandkids when he's old enough and married, right?It is funny though...poor thing.Take it easy on him.we all experimented, in some way, when we were young.Also, sit down and talk to him about all of the sex stuff, including this.So next time he knows NOt to use a vacuum..lol
57322
My daughter is 8 and has ADHD, she would also do that, but only at night while she slept. Take him to his Dr and see if that is the cause or if anything else may be wrong. Wetting theirselves can be because of many causes, not just ADHD.
562643
SLOW DOWN an use a sexual lube(anal lube last longest )An try getting her so worked up b4 hand that  she soaked to be gin with.Ive gotten blisters for driving like a freight train for 1/2 hr she dont lube that quick no matter how much she's calling out gods name.