There is this person at work spreading rumors about my dating life, What do I do to stop it?
441207
GO TO YOUR SUPERVISOR AND REPORT HIM, THIS IS A FORM OF HARRASEMENT. OR JUST BEAT THE SHIT OUT OF HIM.  GOOD LUCK
787724
If it's work, then keep it professional. It's not personal, it's work. Deal with that person as politely as you can when you have to, but stay away from them the remainder of the time. If it's causing trouble with your work or that person is not meeting deadlines, then you might have to escalate the problem to management or HR.\n\nDon't spread the word that you don't like this person either. It's most likely nothing to do with you and all about the person who's doing the ignoring. I bet they'll come around.
339247
You sound like you have some trust issues with her.  It is totally normal to give someone a ride to work.  Some people adjust seats and leave them that way.  I am sure he is not getting too comfortable.  I am sure it is no big deal.\n\nIf you trusted her then it would not be required for her to tell you that he has dropped him off or not.  How would you feel if she said that to you and you were totally innocent?\n\nYou really need to take a look at the trust issue you have with her.  Why are you concerned with this?  Do you think she would cheat?  Do you think she would lie?  What has she done in the past to make her think that she would?  Analyze that and maybe you will uncover a deeper problem then giving a guy a ride to work.\n\nGood Luck!
928204
Very proud of people like you! If i were that girl i would be so happy for someone to let me know before i ruin my life even more. there needs to be more people like you. I would for sure get the message to her asap. But do it without him knowing of course, because your going to want to keep your job. You need to make a new email address and make a new name and everything nothing that has to do with who you are. And find out her email address. Use this "fake" email to send to her letting her know what is going on, and explain how you know for sure what he is doing. Dont give out that you work with him and that hes your boss, that too much information. Just tell her what you know about him cheating. And see what she does. Thats all you really can do. Send this email at home not at work. And dont give your real name, use the one you use at for your fake email. And just use that email for typing her that message and only for her. You dont want to send anyone any emails besides her, or someone will figure out its you. After wait for a week to see if she responds to you, if not write her once again, this time just asking her if she got the email and to write back letting you know if she got it or not so you will stop writting her. After she writes you back, thats all you can do, its up to her to make her descion you did all you can do. Than just delete everything and earse that email, and never use it again.
47041
Just ignore her.  Try not to hurt her feelings any more than you have to, but when he comes to your work be EXTRA friendly with him.  Look very happy and pretend like you arent doing it on purpose.
320405
Looks like you have a problem.  If he is not going to the police and press charges it might be best to just leave it alone.  If this person is in your office, do not add more fuel to the fire by denying what is a lie.  A lie can not have legs unless you give them legs.  You have I suppose stated you did not steel anything, and that is the end of the issue.  There can be no proof, cause you have nothing that he can prove you have done.\n\nI would distant myself from him.  Make sure you protect yourself, so as he does not try to set you up in one way or another.  \n\nIf there is a superior you can go to have him put a stop to his actions at least at work.\n\nThose that know and love you will take you at face value.  Do not disappoint them. Stay true to yourself and get on with your life.  Those of your relationships that would believe a lie, then let them go.  as they say, "friends like that you don't need."  Make new ones.\n\nBy the way, I am taking you at face value and believe you.  Now walk in the truth and put the lie behind you.
86868
well they already spread around. so it is good if you hold your head up high. as long as you know that it is not true. then you shouldn't even buy in to all of that. if somebody asks you is it true, then tell them no. if they start all these questions like well she/he said that you did this or you did that then just ignore them. just try to lift your head above the clouds. but, not too high as if you are conceited. before you know it you will no longer be in their conversation. there would be no more rumors about you and you will be able to go on. then you will be able to go on in life and not have to worry about them anymore. just be patient it will happen and you will be ok!!!!!!!!!
316520
Sounds like someone got a hold of him and told him something nasty about you.  You might to want to set the record straight.
1088732
dont worry ... u can get rid of all these just be ignorin them...and its good u have not spoken to him....don't talk to him in future as well cos uptill now ( when u have not talked ) he has spread wrong rumours then think wat will happen if u talk to him...\n\nso just ignore such nonsense....dont go for looks go for inner beauty.
395365
Smile..... If you know they (the rumors) are not true it truly doesn't matter.  You are who you know your are and that is that. If it is true... then change it... if it is not then LIVE.  You are not made by what other people think of you but of what you know you are.
421921
its rather infringing on the rights of your senses especially your nose, but a straight forward honest and non disrespectful comment or hint to that person may just turn them into a good mate of yours, tell her you telling her this cause people in the office is talking about her and you thought she may like to know.
156944
Depend  on your relationship with the persaon\nif he is you play mate tell him or her your job has stop \n and see he/ her reactionh
752797
It is your responsibility to report the situation,she is not trustworthy.Let the chips fall where they may or you might be implicated in her indiscretions.\n  Don't confront her,or she will drag you down with her,and accuse you of "sexual harrasment"..you don't want that tag..women who like to climb ladders in a company love to use that as a way of achieving higher success,and use you to do it . \n  Don't get caught up in her lying world by trying to be a nice guy. \n  Nice guys finish last.
852415
Touching your back/shoulders and stroking your neck? Making perverse comments? Sweetie, this is called sexual harrassment. As for why they act this way, basically, they're idiots. Don't write them off as just "goofy." There is no excuse for their behavior. One guy went on a date with you and then told everyone? Is he still in high school? They think it's fun to embarrass you. They way immature men like this think, it wouldn't surprise me if they have some sort of bet going as to who can get you to give up your choice to wait until marriage first. The first thing you need to do is not date any of them. That's just a good policy wherever you may work in your life. If it ends badly, you still have to see that person every day and it can cause a lot of problems. Second, when they say inappropriate things to you or touch you or make you feel uncomfortable in any way, you need to tell them they're behaving inappropriately and ask them to please stop. If they don't, or they just think that's part of the game, you need to go to your supervisor and ask him/her to intervene. Just know that if the boss does intervene, this may make for a hostile work environment because then you'll be the girl who "can't take a joke." Sad, but it happens. Conversely, the boss may think you're overreacting and not do anything. At this point, you'll have to make a decision: file a complaint with the EEOC (Equal Employment Opportunity Commission) and let them handle it, again possibly making for a hostile work environment; quit and find another job with mature, professional coworkers; do both. Unfortunately, there is no easy solution to this. If it were just one or two guys behaving this way, it might be easier because they'd be the minority. But if all the guys you work with do it, they'll be more apt to stick together and form a united front against you, saying that you're exaggerating or even making stuff up to get them into trouble. If there are any other women who work there, talk to them and see if they're having similar experiences. If so, it will corroborate your claims and give you more credence. I'm sorry to sound so cynical and/or pessimistic, but this is an all too common situation for many women in the workplace. We've all read and heard about things like this. There's even a movie based on a true story about the first lawsuit against a company for condoning sexual harassment called "North Country" with Charlize Theron. It's a disturbing, sad movie, but it shows what some women have had to go through just to earn a living. Finally, don't let yourself be intimidated. Stick to your values, know that you don't deserve to be treated this way and you don't have to put up with it. No one has the right to put their hands on you without your permission. Be strong and stick up for yourself, and someday, if you have children, you can pass that strength on to your daughter or teach your son to have the proper respect for women. I wish you the best of luck.
532057
Please stop spreading rumors!!
676878
The guy (friend) is spreading rumors because he wants you to break up with your boy friend so he can get a peice of YEAH get rid of the shlt talking SOB all will then be fine!
27053
Maybe he's going through something that he doesn't want you to know.  If you are truly worried about him you would ask him.  He may say it's nothing, heriditary or something, that means it's none of your business.  If it's something serious the last person you'd want to know is your boss.  So, just let it be, but keep an eye out for him.