Why do women want to be with me and men want to be me?
447910
because you are just THAT freakin' cool. please please please let me bear your lovechild! ; )
558299
Women really want a good man that will love them , respect them, treat them as their equal, and be a MAN! They want to feel appreciated, not used and abused. Women want the kind of love that they have seen in movies, where the man "adores" her, and cherishes her. They want a small token of man's appreciation, like flowers, or candy once in a while.
370298
Because your a guy and men like women!
52066
Some women do not know what they really want.  Much of human relationships comes from the unconscious mind.  Many women have no idea of what is driving them to do what they do because it is coming from their own unconscious.\nOnce stuff starts to surface, then it is a whole ‘nudder ball game.  Now the conscious mind can directly see what is happening.
1008612
Women want a man that wants to be with her and only her no cheating.  We want respect and still be able to contol our lives we want you to be understanding and truthful.  Love us for us tell us we are beautiful surprise us with things and not always things that cost money.  If you get a sec call us just to say hello and that you love us.  Take us out to dinner(not mcdonalds).  Dont' be afarid to let us in.  Don't think we can't open a jar of pickles or something.  Don't always assume that we are pussies.  Give us the remote and watch one of our movies even if you don't want to.  Let us make some descioncs to.  Women are complicted.  Jamie
926291
I am guilty of that, the reason I give myself is that when I feel like they are going to leave me I'd rather cut it off to save myself the humiliation of being dumped. Perhaps its the biological chasing game...men seem to be a bit more okay with being rejected than a woman is since men are the ones chasing. I would never want to feel like the fool who needs to be told in her face that she isn't wanted, perhaps women know there are other options readily avaliable and she wouldn't have to start all over cos there'll always be some other man wanting to get in her panties.
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It's because women are so much more emotional than men and for some reason we sometimes like to know if our man is thinking something good (or bad) about us. I know it probably gets annoying to men, but just have patience. Women are just wired differently than men, emotionally. And we feel the need to do things sometimes that feel perfectly normal to us but seem silly to men.
59563
They feel they are too important to have to choose.We women know it is almost every guy's fantasy to have more than 1 woman AND for the women to be cool with it. It's basically an ego trip.
953383
We do it because some of us want to be perfect for the guy... and if you are like me, having been in some pretty bad relationships, some women never feel they are good enough for any man..
802732
Too bad you are in another part of the world. I love to be treated like a Lady and very few men know how. One of the problems is that just like you, you treat some one that way and they don´t want to be treated that way. Is it old fashioned? I don´t think so. I think it is sweet.
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Yes, I like being a woman but it's a lot more difficult than being a man.  No offense, but we're a lot smarter than men...but we have so many more responsibilities.  And we have to deal with the emotional aspect of everything as well.  But we're better at maintaining relationships and making people happy, and we're very good at multi-tasking.  I'm definitely no feminist, though, so I love being pampered by a man.  I still love having the door held open for me, that sort of thing.
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I think it is interesting how many women are answering this question.\n\nMost men want a commitment, but women think that men are incapable of commiting.  What men want is a low maintenance relationship, kind of like they want their lawnmowers.  Take it out once or twice a week to mow the lawn, keep the oil and filter clean, put gas in it everyonce in a while and it is happy to do its job.  Whenever you go into the garage, it is always in its place, just waiting for you.\n\nSome women are more like Space Shuttles when it comes to relationships.  They are tall, shiny and really fast. It takes so much to make a relationship with them work, you get her off the lauch pad once, and you don't want to do it again, and go back to mowing the lawn.\n\nNow you may think I'm joking around, but men are really simple creatures.  We want food, sex, beer and our hobbies and the knowledge that the woman we care for will always be there.  We don't want to constantly worry if she is content. When a woman stops expecting so much from her man will she truly find love for that man.  She will appreciate being taken out of the garage a lot, instead of being launched into space only once.  That what makes a relationship is the long term work and goals, not the short.\n\nMen are like little children, but that is okay, because little children can be really fun and affectionate.\n\nHope this helps, keep it simple, best of luck.
310769
hmm..tough one. but i would have to say these women naturally have more testosterone (since they're attracted to women in the first place) which causes them to look like men.  they want to resemble men to make other women like them as if they were men. hope that helped.
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It might start off that way, but feelings change and eventually one person will want more out of the relationship than the other.  From my experience, it's usually the women who think "maybe it'll be different with me".  Women tend to be more emotional and invest a lot more in these types of relationships than men do.  Men are much more able to stay "disconnected" until they're ready for a relationship.
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Honestly men are divided even amongst themselves on this matter. For example, many are out for the one night stand... they are very easy to spot by BOTH sexes. Then there are the "I'm not sure I want a relation" guy who teases and then when it comes to the moment of truth, they flake. Then there are the type that just loves YOU... the feeling that you give when you talk seriously, when you smile.... and this is a killer... being you and standing for what you believe... being a woman. Of course we men are programmed to go wherever the opportunity is... but trust me when I write that there is a small percentage of us who dream and wish for a real woman to come our way and be our life partner.
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Some men have this amazing ability to make a woman feel like she is the only one in the world when they are talking to her.  I knew a boy in highschool who I still love to talk to...  He gives me his undivided attention and looks into my eyes as I speak.  He showed me that he had been listening by referencing what I'd said in his next comment.  He acts slightly protective of me, even though we're not dating.  He treats me very tenderly.  He makes me feel like I am really important to him.  \n\nWell...that's what gets me, anyways.  I'm sure that as the personalities of the women differ, so will the personalities of the men they are attracted to.
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Hmmm... for a start there's a wide difference between women's and men's expectations, simply because we are different in nature, though we belong to the same species and for this, there will always be certain expectations that both will have in common.  \n\nMEN: (I'm not)  I think they want you to tell them what you want and how you feel instead of giving for granted that they already know it.  They also want:  Space!!!!!!!!!  Freedom!!!!!!  Fresh air!!!!!!  They don't like you to be over them all the time.  The women themselves... ha,ha... that's their nature and because of this first they expect us to be understanding towards this.  They expect you to know about cars and sports, if not, to show a little bit of sincere interest or at least not to make a blackmail because they're interested in them.  They want us to understand that they're not 'money-machines', sometimes all financial pressure relays on them... cuz must women want the money they earn for their own... (not all).       \n\nWOMEN: They want men to know what they want without even having to say it... they want them to catch the hints they drop at first but this does not happen.  They want their space too, not as much as men -I think- but they need certain time for themselves.  Women want men to understand they need to be recognized for the work they do(housework/job out there)... they want love and care though differently... sometimes words and hugs are better than what for them comes to the fore... \n\nTHOSE SHARED BY BOTH: Control!  So in a good relationship it should be shared but that's utopian... and easy to prove just ask a couple who has the control... the one who answers, is the one who has it and he/she will arguee they share it!  Just be aware of when you shold hand over.  Both need time on their own and for their own...  Both want trust and love from the other... loyalty, faithfulness... \n\nAnd there are many many others but this arthritis is killing my fingers... hmmm