what to do?? Someone has hurt me and i feel like i will feel better if i hurt them back.. Hurt or Walk?
437374
walk with your head up...after kicking his balls...
283510
Sometimes our decisions are wrong and we have to pay for those mistakes. You have hurt several people, perhaps because you did not consider the magnitude of your action. Take some time to think about how they feel now and how you can fix the situation. I know you feel bad, but you are not stupid. Try to learn from your mistakes and value your life and happiness. If you give love and respect to others, you will receive love and respect double or tipple than you did. Good luck!
1120867
Well if he really hurt you, then you should leave him alone. Find someone who is more considerate to you, and your well being.
155942
If you really feel bad for what you did apologize to her..but if you are just asking because you know what you did is wrong but do not feel bad about it then do nothing because you will hurt her again, eventually.Hope this help!
637512
Please go and talk with someone, this feeling will pass believe me iv'e been there myself, please don't do anything to hurt yourself, there are people that love you.
1163175
ok you're obviously feeling crappy about something you've done. whatever it was, if you really want to change, make a sacrifice that will make things better for someone that you've hurt. Also, feeling crap isn't enough. You have to make yourself a promise that you will actually change.. but most importantly, you need to actually stop being a bad person, and excercise some will power when the moment of temptation actually comes. that's what it all come down to- the moments of truth.
706027
Just hang in there.  It sounds like you tried to do the right thing by trying to help someone out and got taken advantage of.  It's okay to feel bad about that and pissed too.  Someone else's awful behavior shouldn't make you feel like you shouldn't exist.  I know that doesn't really help sometimes.  All I can say is that a lot of us have been in similar situations and you just have to ride this out, write it out or do something to get it out of your head.
61389
You take it one day at a time. Get involved in other activities & hobbies & force yourself to ignore any of this person's attempts to get you back. You deserve better...just keep reminding yourself that you don't deserve to be hurt anymore...\n\nGood luck!
353871
time will only mend your heart im affraid darlin. dont worry though you sound like you have been affected by this woman, but that is attractive to ladies out there. it shows you care. confide in a close friend that your hurtin. i bet you, you will feel 10 times better after you have had a conversation on how you feel. and always remember, you are worth 10 of ne one that has hurt you ok. gud luck and enjoy your summer being free and single. x
749433
Go talk to someone now!  A parent, friend, family member, someone who cares for you.  Have someone else to help share your burden.  I am sorry for how you have been treated, and I DO understand, believe me.  But you must realize that such people are hurting themselves, and therefore they will hurt people.  \nYou seem like you have a pure and tender heart.  Don't take it so much to heart.  People need you!
415902
Speak to your parents about how you feel. Parents often forget how you are feeling in times like this as they are hurting as well...
498034
... Or should I walk past again??
1026643
So are you brave. Do you have a mouth. Communication is the key to any relationship. If you want to know , be brave and go ask and get it straightened out. Tell the person they are hurting you. Then at least you will feel better that you did something about it instead of sitting back feeling bad. You can't stop people from doing things. They have their own will and have to live with what they think, say and do. So do you. It is not what you say but how you say it. Remember that. Also remember , it takes two people to fight. It is easy to Love those who love you back but it is harder and take more strength to Love those and forgive those who persecute you.\nRev. TomCat
541339
I guess u can't. bcuz, the little things that girls/guys do means something to the other person alot. Would u forgive  him,if he did that w/ur friend? hey, cheer up, if he comes back, i hope you learned ur lesson and if not, move on. Cuz you can't let this bug you for the rest of ur life. plus, ur just gonna feel depress all the time. Hope everything works out! :)
180678
Betrayal is one of the most tragic things that can happen to a person.  Betrayal from a friend is the worst kind.  I hosnestly don't know what I would do.  I would be heartbroken for sure.  would it make you feel better to just go kick his a**? Really, I am stumped on this one.  I can imagine the pain of betrayal, and would be at a loss as what to do.  So, I guess I'd just go to the person and tell them how much he has hurt me and tell them that I'd never get over it, how much I had trusted him, and then try to get on with my life.
372145
If you love someone, Let them go if they return they was yours if they don't they never was. I believe in this whole heartedly. I wouldn't want someone making me feel guilty just because I didn't feel the same way they did. You can not control how you feel. And if you get hurt then you still have to go on. And that doesn't mean that you don't still Love that person. You just can't tell them everyday.(at least not outloud). Just don't hate that person.Because he/she can't help how they feel either.
147829
Probably because you are NOT an evil or violent person and do not want to inflict harm even tho someone is harming you.  I have felt the same way sometimes where I have been hurt very badly but would not hurt in return.  THIS DOES NOT MEAN YOU ARE A COWARD so if anyone says that in response to this question ignore it.  You just operate on a higher plane than the person you are dealing with.