how long should one wait to ask someone out....?
443671
dont wait you may lose your chance .....  the worst thing can happen is they say no ....   you never had them in the first place so you lose nothing
314015
Hell yes! If a guy even waited 1 week to ask me out, I would be wondering what was going on with him. Ask her now before you lose your chance. Good luck.
886751
just stay friend for now with both of them. i know what I'm taken about these are words of wisdom I'm telling you. really people get hurt don't mess around with this ok?! \ntell yourself that u are going to wait.\noh and if that guy says he can't waite than ask him if your worth waiting for. look him in the eyes when u ask though. guys will respect a girl that wants time for this kind of thing. and respect is important in something like this.\n\nnow remember "am i worth waiting for" ask them both why don't yu than u can see both their eyes and look for the truth not what you want to see. \n\ngood luck hope u do the right thing.\ni'l pray for you.
288656
Take a deep breath and do it.\n\nThe longer you wait, the worse your chances. There was a girl I liked, and I waited too long to ask her out. Now she has another boyfriend, and I feel so stupid, especially when I found out that she had been interested in me as well. Don't make my mistake.\n\nYou may want to get friendly with him first, if that makes you more comfortable. But no matter what, you have to do it somehow, so seize the day.
821027
Why wait for him that could take days or weeks!! Just ask him make it casual like he what are you doing this weekend? If he says nothing as well you wanna go see that new movie what ever the movie is with me? 9 times outta 10 they will say yes and if he doesn't they he aint worth it anyway!
434731
You'll KNOW when the time is right.. but some signs that you want to ask someone out are that you can't stop thinking about that person, and you want to take the relationship to the next level.  First though, you might want to find out whether she might like you or not, just to make sure she'll say yes.
31330
Quit beating yourself up and GO ASK HIM OUT!!!  He will either be flattered and accept or will say no ... either way ... you have saved yourself a lot of time and wondering
1101731
This is the 21st Century ... should be Equal Opportunities time. There really isn't any reason why a girl shouldn't ask a guy out :)
1187329
hmmmm....after 3 years of you asking him out and he said no..and he stll hasn't asked you out....he is either not interested or too nervous to go out w/ you...try one more time...after that give up...Good Luck!!
148585
There is no set amount of time to wait.  The guy should ask when he feels that he is ready to make that commitment, and the girl shouldn't accept until she feels ready to make that commitment.  Everyone moves at their own pace so go with your heart and let it be your guide.
683036
ask the guy out. you might regret later if you don't
115173
Yah, I'm thinking he'll probably ask you out around 9:00, so be ready. How the hell are we supposed to know?
928535
just ask the girl out already. time... whatever. it depends upon the person & you just never know how long they will need. so, ask her out now rather than never or waiting forever. hey, maybe something else is bothering her, so take that into consideration. yes, she may also be responding to your behavior as well.
866761
I'm a guy, and let me tell you: we're shy. It happens all too aften that the girl keeps waiting for the guy to ask her out (or to just say something), loses patience, and in the end, she has to be the one to ask him out. And why don't you? \nYou could also create the ideal circumstances for him to ask you out. If you talk about movies, and you mention you haven't seen a particular one, he might get the hint and ask you if you'll join him to see it.\nBut really, he likes you and you like him, why should he be the one to pop the question?
1000108
like 20 mins ;)..... well if she gave you her number she prolly wants u to call her...  if u wanted sombody to call u how long would u want them to wait?
1057796
If you're asking how long to wait until a woman chooses you, I'd say you will have to wait until one does, eh?\n\nIf you're asking how long you should wait to find out if a *particular* woman chooses you, I'd think that would depend on how much you want her to choose you!\n\nWomen (and men) are not always honest. Sometimes, in order to keep from hurting others' feelings, they may say "I don't know," when they really mean "No!" I think this is silly, but it happens all the time. Of course, not all cultures value blunt honesty. You could say that you'd prefer to be hurt to being treated gently, but that could be bad if she really doesn't know.\n\nAlso, it's an important choice, so perhaps she simply wants to be very sure. In that case, wait until you are unhappy waiting.
373726
seriously, i would wait forever...but i would probably lose interest...so i think that you should ask her out when it feels right for you...