when is the right time to tell  a friend that you love her?
449009
NOW!  What are you waiting for?  Just do it!
961521
I Think she is thinking as more than a friend. And she thinks that you are only one who can understand her feelings and can give some kind of support to her. Plz let it continue the same.\nAnd i think you have to wait for the right moment to express your love.\n\nALL THE BEST!!!!!!
73476
If you are in a relationship with the person you want to tell, then tell that person straight up, "I love you." If not in relationship, then try, "I love you, ya know that?" It tells the person how ya feel but makes it lighthearted and non-commital. (also gives the other person an opportunity to tell you how they feel.)
191001
Wait until you feel it. Don't say it just to say it... say it when you know in your heart that you love that person.
441359
Tell her.  She may feel the same about you.  The best lovers start out as friends because you already know what pleases the other person.
601180
I don't think complicating things would be a good idea. Though if you really love her and feel that you have to express it. Then you could tell her. I mean, that's not going to ruin their relationship. You're just trying to be honest. You're feelings are also valid.
940757
First of all, your question hardly makes sense. You need to work a little in that direction. Secondly, from what I have understood in your question, you like (or love) this girl neh (neha?) and you are not sure if she loves you. But you have heard from your friends that she was asking about you with them. So, you don't know whether she loves you or not.\n      If that is the premise of the question, then here goes..... Firstly, find out if she really asked your friends about you. Many a times, if you have confided in friends, they could play a dirty trick on you to get your hopes up. Secondly, find out what she was asking about you. If what she was asking is sort of negative, then she most certainly doesn't love you. She just wants to know if you are a creep. Thirdly, if she was asking normal things, then that could mean that she is interested in knowing you better, Talk to her yourself. take her out, spend more time with her and see if both of you can hit it off. If you both feel comfortable after a certain amount of time (atleast 2-3 months), and if you still have the same feelings for her (or even more), and if you think that she feels the same too, then propose to her. Don't base your assumptions just on the fact that she is asking around about you. Rather deal with the person herself and get to know her better
963163
I would tell her, and here's why.  It's a strain on you, and you should probably put a little distance between the two of you for your mental health.  Tell her you've developed feelings for her, it wasn't on purpose, and you don't want her to feel pressured, but because of this you need to put a little space between the two of you for a time while you refocus yourself.  Then be friendly, but cut your contact with her WAY down.  This does a couple of things.  It lets her know your thoughts, which is important in an honest friendship.  But it doesn't give her the instant upper hand she would get if you "confessed your love" then waited around for her to do something (and what would that be? dump the BF?  decide if she feels the same in return?), which almost always has a bad result for the confessor.  Treat your developing ardor as a personal weakness of your own, perhaps a slightly embarrassing one, and assure her you're going to get over it without bothering her, you just wanted to do her the courtesy of letting her know why you can't hang out with her so much.\n\nOnce you go into "recovery" phase (spending less time with her) it does two things.  It lets her know you aren't a lapdog, hanging around, waiting for whatever attention she'll give you.  It actually gives you the closest thing to the upper hand you can have.  She'll also see less of you, giving her the chance to figure out if she misses you a lot.  If she does, she should be the one to bring up that she wants to see more of you.  When she does this, you can say (be nice to her, always be very very nice) "that would be difficult for me without the chance to date you... I'm concerned my feelings are to strong."  Be kind of wistful.  Then give her more space.\n\nYou're trying to get her to come to you.  It's the only way you have a chance after a confession anyway, but it can be very successful if she likes and depends on you, but has been more or less taking you for granted.  It also gives you control over your life, which is always adviseable.  One more piece of advice?  Flirt with some other girls.  But don't overdo it, and never be mean to anyone.\n\nMake sense?  Good luck.
623879
If she is really your friend, she will accept you as you are and not stop talking to you.\nSo I would say "tell her".
932793
make sure you do first. as its not right to tell someone that you love them just for the sake of it.\nThen just tell them how you feel
262931
You might have feelings for her that she doesn't have for you.  Telling her that you love her would even make it worse.  If you value your friendship, you have to give her some space, give her time to realize that your friendship is important.  It's probably a good idea NOT to mention that you love her, especially if she only wants to be friends.\nIf it's hard for you to be friends, then unfortunately you are going to have to move on.  Many good friendships have been ruined when one person falls in love with the other, but the other doesn't fall in love back.\nGood Luck, remember, this isn't the end of the world, maybe the end of the friendship...but you'll love someone else again.
1113355
Tricky ground. But then, whoever said life was fair?\n\nThere is no "right" things to do. Only different options with their own set of counter-actions and consequences. \n\nIf keeping your feelings bottled up inside you is going to hurt you more in the long run then it's best to release those feelings. But choose the way to do it wisely. Be tactful, don't make it an ultimatum. As for her reaction, if you've been gentle and polite and she really is your friend, she will hear you out and tell you how she feels. You can move from there. She might tell you that it's best to stay friends, but at least you will know. \n\nAnd don't think it will make things weird. Weird is what people make of it. You might even want to test the waters and tell her that you "care" for her. It's a nice way of letting someone know that you have some emotional interest without saying "I love you" too soon or under inappropriate circumstances. \n\nIn the end the choice rests with you. Remember, there is no right and wrong in this matter. Go with your feelings. \n\nBest Wishes to you.
16529
well search your heart and find out if you love him or you want to get down with him.  its very goood to clear things out of you or you will hate your self if you don't express your self or you will blow up. but if you love him then this is a way to tell him:\n"i really like you and you have been such an inspiration to me.i don't know if you feel the same way and i hope what i am about to say dosen't ruin our friendship because i like being your friend. i don't know how to put this i find you very attractive and i think i begining to fall in love with you." what about that. sorry i could not help much
722627
Tell her. Tell her how you feel.
476252
Hey buddy!  There is a difference between loving someone and being in love with someone... make sense?  Sounds like you love her, but may not be in love with her... or simply stated, may not have the romantic feelings that she has for you... it's a tough spot to be in - sorry!  \n\nThere is no easy way to break someone's heart or "let them down"... but you owe it to yourself and her to be honest... and ASAP!  The longer you "pretend" or carry on like you have stronger feelings than what you do, the harder it will be for her... after all, no one likes to live a lie.  Focus on the qualities you like about her and tell her how ya feel.\n\nDon't be surprised if this rocks your relationship as friends... it may even jeopardize any friendship you hope to have (especially if you wait to tell her ya feel).  Trust is a big thing!!!\n\nBest wishes!
442346
WHen SHe understands you. WHen she would feel you,help you when your down, And when you do the same for her. When thers a connection of love. You would feel it =p Friendships turns to trust and trust turns to love. DOnt rush take your time in finding the right girl. DOnt rush alright.
277179
because ou have feelings for her and don't want her to get hurt if you really love her i think you should tell her