Ladies and Gentlemen: Nice guys DO finish last?
443163
Well....not everyone learns their lesson.  I'd rather be with a handsome sweet honest guy.  Sometimes girls dont learn that "bad boys" are toxic and they just keep going after them cause they want to "help" them.  Though...It is far better to be with one who is nice and appreciates you.\n\nI also dont understand the opposite, nice guys with girls who are drama queens and treat them like dirt and tear their heart out and rip it to shreads so that they can hardly believe that there are good girls out there.
1064653
It depends how you define win and what it is you are winning. \n\nBeing nice makes us feel like a loser because we're taken advantage of.  Maybe you're missing the point, we may have lost, but we won in some other way. \n\nI don't think the good girls out there would go for bad guys. I don't think cheating gets you anywhere in the end. \n\nGood guys win the real battles. Good nice guys win the girl. Nice guys win in life.\n\nUnless you're nice guy, you're winning the wrong battle. In short, only nice guys win the right battle.
23745
The question should be "What should I do to find a nice guy".
613814
Actually there are NOT a lot of nice guys out there.\nIt doesn't take BEING NICE to fulfill ALL the needs required!\n\nWomen aren't getting what they want, besides the obvious!\n\nI feel it is mainly the sensitivity woman have and want!\nAlso the appreciation we require!\nWomen are sensitive to all aspect to many things at one time. \nMen seem to be able to focus on only one thing at a time!
56500
it really depends on the guy - what kind of a person is he, is he nice, est.\nIf he is OK - Of course!
1004802
I am totally on the same page!  I'm so tired of jerks.  Met a guy the other day, hot, seemed real nice.  He got my number, seemed real attentive.  Then he disappeared.  A girl was dancing like a stripper and he was all up in that!  Jerk.  \nI think the nice ones are too shy or already taken.
957808
nice guys dont finish last, but guys with low self-esteem do.. if you dont like yourself, how do you expect anyone else to like you.  challenge yourself and you will learn to like yourself more.  the opposite sex will notice you when you like yourself...
324138
Of course the saying goes to each cat their own rat. Not everyone loves the bad boys and most nice guys eventually do win in one form or another. The most interesting thing ive heard as to why this occurs is that its some kind of evolutionary kick in type of thing. When looking for someone to mate with, pass on you genes, stop the biological clocks ticking, whatever you want to call it, women (conciously or not) look for a dominant, assertive, more evolutionarily "fit" man. These type of guys are typically the ones you describe, though they arent all abusive and unfaithful as much as they are assertive and aggressive. If you believe women decide what role a man is going to play very shortly after they meet them, then it stands to reason that a more assertive approach = more response from women, as a boring or too nice approach takes a little longer to cultivate.
29808
People tend to be passive aggressive at best.  SO, this is a comon reaction.\n\nHowever the comment that 'last guys finish last' is actually flawed.  Mainly because most nice guys may finish last in short term relationships and endevors, but, in the long run, they usualy tend to finish ahead of the pack, because they know how to properly play their cards, and learn from their's and others mistakes.\n\nAs to cheaters never prosper; in short term relationships, and endevors, this is actually false; those who tend to cheat, or bend the rules, usualy do very will in short term things; however, over the long run, cheating can lead to cut cornors, misplaced aggression, and usualy failed relationships.\n\nSo, as you can see, both comments are subjective to the type of context that they are used in.
76653
whatever, no women really want a "nice" guy. We say we do, but I've been with nice guys and I walk all over them. The balance is getting a guy that is mostly nice but has boundaries and will not let you walk all over them. a guy that has enough self confidence to stick up for himself and you know that he would be ok without you but he really likes being with you. Men that are like this are married. Men that are gay, I agree with one of the other comments, they are 'safe' and therefore we are more attracted to them. If they are not available you can't have them, and if you don't have them you can't lose them, and they can't hurt you.
864436
Let my answer your question with great sincerity and thoughtfulness.  If I were to meet a good man who is confident, intelligent, romantic, honest, faithful, mentally, emotionally and physically healthy, I WOULD SHOUT THANK YOU TO G-D FROM THE ROOFTOPS!  Does that answer your question?  Need I say more?
460599
i would say nice guys don't have to be found they just come... you will find a nice guy just don't focus so much on looking for it.
1001283
no - he usually finishes first
106497
no...in the end the nice guys will find the best girls because the best girls know who the nice guys are and they realize that looks dont last but being nice and respectful will last forever!
102215
be a nice guy in the real world.
434396
We're all nice, it just depends what kind of 'nice' you are looking for!  There is a match for everyone out there!
411732
Some are,some aren't.You just haven't found a nice guy yet.When the time is right,I promise he will be there.You just have to be patient.I know he is out there somewhere,just trust me.If you ever want to talk,drop me a line sometime ok?