DO guys not like fat women?
449507
yeah of course thay do, the bigger the cushion the sweeter the pushin.
174899
Most guys like slim girls but many guys like all shapes and sizes.  Its just personal preference.  I have a friend who only likes girls who are at least 250 pounds and he is only 170.
686834
It's all about preference. Everyone has their own. Of course, some girls like big guys. Some women are just intimidated by bigger guys.
436284
Most guys I know arent pickey, especially when drugs or alcohol is envolved. But some guys are more pickey and only get with skinny girls or bigger girls.  Its preference.  I know a few guys that are down right rude to bigger girls cause they like thin girls. My brother will poke literally any girl with a vagina, no matter if she's 400 pounds or 90 pounds. He's definatly a man-whore.  Right now hes with 2 girls, and niether one knows of the other.  I don't think thats right.  I personaly dont car if she's big or small, as long as she's of age ,(18+ ),(I'm 24),pretty, and most of all has a good attitude.  I hate snobby stuck-upgirls, and girls with any form of bad attitude.  On most first dates it is taboo to talk about having kids oneday, but I took this girl to the local amusement park. Everytime there was akid in front of us, she would say how she hated/HATED kids, and whisper things in my ear about throwing them over fences and stuff.  I would like to have kids one day.  Regardless I didn't say anything to her but then it got to me towards the middle of the day and I told her I had to go home.  She ended up meeting some friends that day and got a ride home.  But she had a real bad  attitude. The worst part is we worked together, and her mom was my boss. Crap that was bad, I had to quit a week later. Sorry I keep rambling on Im tired bye now.
208617
I think that they are.  Guys who are fat is the norm for us (USA).  I mean I work with several HUGE men.  But I also work with a few HUGE women.  Who gets the most sh*t about being overweight?  The woman.  Most people think that a pretty girl is a skinny girl.  I'm overweight but not grossly so.  I hate feeling the ugly one when I happen to be standing next to a skinny girl and a guy checks her out and ignores me.  But hey I don't really hvae to worry about it.  I have a loving guy in my life who loves me for ME.
656376
No.  Not fat, but certainly not skinny either.  More about having nice looking curves.
975492
You are using negative terms to describe your own body. "Fat" and "overweight" are not part of a good body image. Until you learn to love your curves and except them for what they are no one else will find you attractive. \n\nA high self esteem is one of the sexiest things that anyone can have, and if you got that then, then sweetie it doesn't matter how much you weigh someone will want to love every little inch of you!\n\nSo keep your chin up ok, there are a lot of men out there who would rather date a wonderful person, even if she is on the heavier side, then some stick model with no passion or humour.
658431
yes, granted you are not beefy.\n\nwe dont like butch girls
385217
I don't like skinny lanky men too much, I tend to date taller bigger guys.  Just personal preference is all.\n\nAnd no they don't intimidate me, hahaha!
734899
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605307
I find chunky women very attractive.  I like a little meat on my bones.  Don't care for the skinny, anerexia type.  A little chunky is sexy to a lot of men.  Don't think that they are just hitting on you.  If you are pretty outside and in, that's the secret to being attractive no matter what your weight.
384549
Because peer pressure says they should be and they have no respect for a woman's mind rather than their body. Don't sweat it though, there are plenty of guys who like bigger girls out there, and besides almost everyone of those guys will end up with a girl that eventually will be fat anyway after the kids and life takes it toll, so screw 'em.
577032
I don't know, but most of us seem to attract a particular type. In your case it's big girls, but it's not that bad is it? Some guys really like it.
950732
Because they are immature boys with no self confidence.  There was another question similar to this one.  Here is what I wrote on that one:  \n\nIn my opinion, as a woman, I have always assumed that men wouldn't want to date a BBW or plus-size woman. (I'm 43 yrs old). About a year ago I met a really great guy who expressed interest in me - extreme interest. I came right out and asked him why he was paying so much attention to me (we had only met and emailed) and he was very honest and he said that women with big hips and thighs turned him on. I nearly fainted. We have been seeing each other over the past year and the attraction has grown. We have talked many, many times and I told him that I thought most men don't want plus-size women. He told me that I would be surprised the number of men that like larger women. Via the internet, he has shown me how much. The number of men who are attracted and adore plus-size women, is absolutely amazing. Believe me when I tell you....it gives us plus-sizers hope. \n\nThe relationship that I've had with this guy in the past year, has been better than any I've ever had. Previously, I never had a guy who wanted to see me in sexy lingerie. I never had a guy who wanted me to dress up in a short skirt and garters. I never had a guy who constantly tells me how beautiful I am. It is incredible and is absolutely wonderful. I can't get enough of it!! Talk about an ego booster and talk about boosting my self esteem! He has made me feel so much better about myself and my body. \n\nMen need to realize that plus-size women are no different than average size, or thinner women. We want a relationship, we want sex, we want exactly what other women want....there is more to us than the exterior. Don't assume we are just stupid fat women. We are regular people, and have feelings too.\n\nMen who like plus-size women need to stop worrying that their friends will laugh at them for liking plus-size women. A woman is a woman... tall, thin, short, average, plus-size... doesn't matter. Be a man and be with who you want to be. \n\nHoney - you need to be more self-confident and be happy with yourself and your body.  No one can do that for you....  A man will notice a self-confident woman.  Your self confidence will improve after he shows you a little attention.  That's what has happened with me.  But generally, you must be happy with yourself first.  \n\nJust be yourself.  Don't try so hard to be what you think guys want.  Just be you....
637830
Truthfully speaking, I believe most men are attracted to women with curves, but they are afraid to admit it, as if it were illegal to do so. You see society predicates what is beautiful, and honey we aint it!, and that's a shame, because the average woman is a size 14.\n\nSociety needs to reconfigure its idea of beauty, and realize that "REAL WOMEN HAVE CURVES" not every man wants a twiggy. Society views a woman with curves to be overweight, and she may not be, there is nothing wrong with being healthy and having some junk in your trunk too. Most men dont want a bone, most men want meat on their bones, you know what I mean!\n\nI wish that us thick girls could get some love too, just like our thinner counterparts. I guess guys are afraid of what others will think, as a matter of fact I have a male friend that is attracted to thick women, and all his friends tell him he's a chubby chaser, now that is just not fair, but he doesnt care, he tells them they dont know what their missing, but you can see where I'm going with this, his friends are the equivilent of how society views us thick girls, and that is just so sad, because we are the majority not the minority!\n\nHowever I am feeling confident that slowly but surely societies ideals of us is changing, thanks to people like Mo'Nique and Toccara, they are starting to break down some barriers.\n\nI hope my answer, as long as it is, was helpful to you. Keep your head up sistah, we gonna get in there....\n\nI hope I was able to help you out!!!
965855
Its just the sexy appeal. Not ALL women like it... I don't really care, I mean its nice to see a guy take care of himself and have a flat stomach maybe with some muscle there but when its too cut, thats just overboard.   Why do guys like women with large breasts and flat stomaches and long legs?  All the same thing...
97863
why do guys rather have skiny women than of have fat women?