If a man falls in love with a Transsexual, Does that make him gay???
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Love is blind... a transsexual man or woman is still a person with the same needs as everyone.  I personally think you're not gay for falling in love with someone that many Closed-Minded people would think is gay.\n\nKeep in mind, the definition of gay is someone who is a man that is attracted to other men. A transsexual who is biologically born male and clearly is now a female is a woman, not a man.
484942
A person is gay if they prefer sex with someone of the same gender. Wearing certain clothing doesn't "make" someone gay.
790025
of course it does. love is not bound by gender
471746
What if you met someone, fell in love and then they said they were bi, would you leave??  no way....  If you really like this person and this person wants to hook up with someone and this doesn't bother you, have some fun!
814490
Hmmm, me thinks it shouldn't be all that important if he is gay or not. I don't feel like judging him, so I cannot diagnose if he is gay or not.\n\n\nTo be honest, Does the fact a man is gay or not really determine his abilities as a weatherman?
483038
Wait...he's not getting a sex change so that he can be gay, is he?  If so...don't worry about it.  I imagine sex change operations to be quite expensive, and I highly doubt someone would go through with the experience just to be with a girl that isn't attracted to males.
420268
Well, although you're mixing transgenderism with homosexuality, you are essentially correct. \n\nA woman who feels her gender is incorrect may get sexual reassignment surgery to become male. If she finds men attractive beforehand, but doesn't relate to them as a woman, she may be a transgendered gay man.\n\nA man who feels his gender is incorrect may get sexual reassignment surgery to become female. If he finds women attractive beforehand, but doesn't relate to them as a man, he may be a transgendered lesbian.\n\nIt doesn't happen often, but there are transgendered gay people. I've heard of a few trangendered lesbians.\n\nAs to being born gay, current scientific thinking is leaning toward a series of hormonal and genetic changes in the womb which determine sexual orientation. There are studies on birth order, twins, finger length, etc. all of which are determined in utero.
1187233
Just because he's a dancer who dances contemporary dance, is good-looking, has a nice hair style, and has a cute lisp does not make him automatically gay!  With that said, I have no idea.  Besides, your friend can have a huge crush on him even if he is gay.  Why should that change anything?  I highly doubt she'll ever meet him in real life in order to have any chance of hooking up with him, so it should be perfectly fine if she has a crush on him.
506220
Well, I dated a guy for like 18 months who I didn't know at the time was a little bit of a cross dresser.  But he was all sorts of weird things!  The kinkiest it got when I was with him was that he liked a n a l and liked to fantasize about men...but then w/his next girlfriend he did a lot of crossdressing and planned to have a sex change.  But last I heard, he changed his mind about all that.   Guess it was just a phase?
838348
just because he may show his feminine side does not make him gay. i know a man raised by his grandmother who showed both sides and he was all man. don't never label your boy gay or guesstimate. you tell someone or somebody that long enough you can make them that way. make sure he mingles with both sexes. if, by chance down the road he is would that make you love him any less?? i hope not Kat
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He could have been confused and tried denying how he really felt... especially since you both are so close it would almost be natural for him since there's already a connection between the two of you.\n\nI doubt he was leading you on and if he wasn't letting anyone know that he was gay there would almost be no way of you knowing.  He probably feels worse than you do right now and he might even be thinking be that he did lead you on in some way.  \n\nThe only thing I can say is that the longer you wait to talk to him again the more ackward things are going to be.  The sooner you get things out in the open and talk about it, the quicker everything will go back to normal.\n\nI'm bi and I actually had a similar expirience with a friend of mine who was gay.  We use to work together and he was always touchy feely; I assumed maybe he was bi like me... needless to say I was wrong.  (Even though I now know he is as gay as gay can be, he's got this thing with boobs lol, which I guess all guys do.)  \n\nI felt stupid for a long time but I didn't want my misunderstanding to affect things between us.  We talked about it and I realized that it wasn't an option to be his lover but "friends" aren't bad either.  I knew that keeping him as a friend meant I wouldn't lose him and losing him was the last thing that I wanted to happen.\n\nEverything is fine now and we're still really good friends.  Don't think that you're the first girl to fall for a gay guy because that's not true at all.  You get a man with the caring part of a woman... all straight ladies want that!!!  Just talk to him and let him know that no matter what you're going to continue to be there for him just as he will be there for you.
553019
"becoming" gay does not sound correct. Either you know inside that there is something different when you look at either a male or a female which ever one you prefer. You can't just become gay,,,you actually feel the desire to be with that particular sex...now what you do afterwards to either keep it going or difuse it is totally up to you.
71103
Is it about friendship or relationship?  Knowing that you are gay is big enough already, don't add that you are in love with him to the mix.  It will be too much to handle.  Coming out is hard.  You do risk losing him as a friend also.  Not everyone's upbringing has prepared them for this.  If he is a true friend with a reasonable upbringing, he will still be your friend.
117982
who cares what the law of god says. if you are a hermaphrodite be happy with who you are, you should not have to worry about this god person or anyone who is a member of a religious denominations, just like I said to another question about a person dating a passable transgender.\nBe happy for who you are, NUF said
600188
He can't change his sexuality.  He is what he is.  Gay men are attractive sometimes because they are just more in touch with their feminine side (sometimes) and also because they understand the frustration of dealing with men in love relationships so they make great "sob sisters".
204959
Of course, and I happen to know someone who fits that description!\nPlease note, though, that transvestite and transgender do not mean the same thing.
928901
only if it is possible to turn a straight guy gay.