How can a 35 yr old man facinate a 16 yr old girl?
443372
I'm not sure I understand. Do you want to fascinate her? The answer would be, you have no business doing so. If the question is, you have fascinated a 16 year old, and you don't know how you did it, as I was 16 once myself, an older man is always more exciting. Because to a 16 year old girl, 16 year old boys are childish.
423710
if you are 17,  you can have consensual relations with 13-16 year olds and older, as long as you are within 48 months, at least how I read the law. You will want to get a lawyer to tell you specific legal advice.
160813
I am a 35 year old father of three girls....\n\nPlease, for your sake, be carefull with what you throw out there.\n\nLot of creeps on this site.
629503
Well, of course it is absolutely acceptable!!! You're not his councilor any more, are you? A 24-year-old girl cannot be worrying about that in the 21st. century. Stop wasting your time and his, and say yes to this guy.
505188
I would say ask their father ! But, at LEAST 21 in your guy's case.
1143241
Be responsible. Think clearly. You should study the consequences surrounding sex. I know you're a minor, but that doesn't stop kids from doing the deed, so if you feel that you must -- which is not advised, do your research man. Make sure you aren't passing anything along to her, or that you aren't going to get her pregnant and put both of your lives on hold. Make sure that you know what can happen as a result of doing anything beyond kissing and hugging. It leads to sex, which is what I'm thinking you might want to experience. Trust me, it can wait. You will not die and of course you may be picked on by the fellas who have done so, but some of them will even be lying about it. Your girlfriend won't be ready, I can tell already, she is still getting around the stage of getting to know you, you've been dating for a month. That's why there are different types of diseases out there because people don't fully know the people they're dealing with, shoot, there are 30 year olds that don't even know their spouses. But in any case, I wish you luck and hope that you will consider waiting to experiment sexually, because if not you may deeply regret it later on in life, and also by waiting you won't freak your girlfriend out either.
473311
depends on her age, the older we get, you know, try being romatic dont say hey u want to bang....and start taking off ur clothes.. why not have wine candles and be sweet give her a back rub w/ scented oil and maybe have a small gift for her that may help
153326
Goodness gracious.. who cares how old he is, I would like to know why he's still able to have crazy sex with women only a quarter his age!
1012303
be patient...do a lot of foreplay..use some lube and wear a condom...she's 18 so some drinks are not out of the question...start kissing, caressing and pleasuring her and she'll let you know when she's juicy and ready for entry...and consider yourself flattered that she asked you to be her partner for this special moment.
651099
Unfortunately, most people are simply lousy at guessing ages, so there is a chance this could happen...you can tactfully pre-empt a potentially hurtful/embarrassing/awkward moment by proactively introducing her as your girlfriend. Make sure you gaze lovingly at her while you're doing this...it's very important that you make it known you're glad to have her on your arm.\n\nCongrats, by the way. My male friends say that some of their most satisfying relationships have been with older women.
659733
Not trying to be sarcastic but, trying to impress a guy who's really hot with a gun doesn't sound like a 29 yo but more like a teenager. Would think at 29 you would have developed an adult viewpoint. I would think that it would be a bad idea if this "hot" guy has that much influence what will he want you to do with this gun to impress him even more. It's easy to start down a path like that but dealing with the consequences can sometimes be difficult to cope with.
231396
try to get him/her to like someone else your age!
86939
By being sure of himself, knowing what he wants from life and working toward that. Maturity, women in this age group do not want men who do not know how to treat a woman. Sincerity is extremely important and having a sense of humor. Make her laugh, sense of humor and not "bathroom humor" will make her eyes shine. We older women have lots to teach younger men though I am myself no longer available, I have my younger man.
241863
being a young man of faith... excuse my language.. shes going to be literaly ****ed over! there is no way in Gods name a 14 year old girl is in love with a 20 year old guy.. 2 hes only looking to get in her pants... (being a guy i would know how horomones function for my "speicies) thirdly... at 14 hardly ANYONE knows what love is even if it bit them in the butt. im almost 18 and ive found the girl i love, but she is 2 years younger.. granted not a good combo but she actualy realises what i want and what i see love as being. honestly if you cant talk to her... talk to her MOM or her DAD.. cuz any decent parent will NOT EVER allow a 6 year time difference untill the "young woman/man" is atleast 18... and if he touches her... theres a reason for the saying "16 will get you 20... 14 will get you 40!" so if she loves him... she may just want to concider waiting just a bit longer...
660197
well, if your not married, dump her.\n\nshe is a control freak who always got what she wanted.\n\nand she cant have it her way all the time.\n\nshe is immature and uses the tactics of a 16 yr old girl.\n\nif shes your wife, then tell her that shes being immature, and that you dont really care, you will just find someone else who will ahve sex with you.\n\ndont actually do it, but it will piss her off.  \n\nactually thats not a great idea since she will probably make your life a living hell.\n\nso just cheat on her and make sure she dosnt find out !!
100766
First of all... old men that like young people are sick losers and should be in prison.\n\nSecond... 14 year olds should be at home after 9pm.\n\nThird... I think 16 year olds can date 14 year olds but make sure that just bc you're a little older you don't put pressure on the sex issue.  Wait a few years PLEASE.
479404
im not saying it cant happen, but morally it shouldnt. teenage girls are not mature enough to handle adult situations, they dont have the experience. i think older men are just taking advantage of young girls, a lot for their own egos. i dont beleive that men in their forties are not after sex. again, i dont think its right.