Why boys always ask girls to lose weight ?!!!?
446613
because they are BOYS.....a real man will love you for who you are and not be sooooooo shallow Minded.   You are you no matter what size you are and if you are happy with yourself then you should be with someone who is happy with you too.
756482
SHES NOT FAT !! why would she listen to you !!! AND DONT U dare saying that GIRLS NEVER LISTEN .. we do listen ONLY if our men asked for somethin possible
836676
Are you serious? That kind of mentality has NEVER worked out. Be yourself. I know it's a cliche but it's so true. If you wanna lose weight, do it because of you, not trying to please a man. What happens if you can't? Will he accept you then? Will you accept yourself? Will you do something drastic to lose the weight? I hope not.
80519
i dont know  , its kinda like guys asking why is shopping sooo important to girls.
574746
There is nothing wrong with a girl liking these things. No one ever said that sports was just for guys or cars were just for guys. Sometimes girls can just do things better than guys and guys can do things better than girls at some things. Ignore the girls, tell them they're just jealous cause you get all the guys.
85931
Sweetie, you need to gain some weight. I weighed 135 at you age and had to fight the guys off with  a bat....LOL  just kidding about the bat but I was up to my eyes with guys. No guy wants to hug a skeleton. Take you some 3x5 blank note cards and pretty colored makers and write in different colors: I AM BEAUTIFUL. AT 14, 135 IS A HEALTHY WEIGHT ! WHEN A GUY SAY'S I LOOK GOOD OR, I'M  HOT; HE MEANS IT ! I WILL NOT LET MY EYES, MY MIND, OR OTHERS TELL ME THINGS THAT ARE NOT  TRUE ! JESUS LOVES ME AND SO DOES 1 MAGIC MOM ! JESUS LOVES ME LIKE THERES NO OTHER GIRL IN THE WORLD !  Now tape on the wall where you can see them from your bed, stick them in your school books or note book, in the bathroom near or on the  mirror or on the mirror in your room. Sweetie, please ask your parents to get this for you as soon as possible.  TEEN STUDY BIBLE ISBN  0-310-928370 at The Christian Book Store it is $16.95. It is a soft cover book full of wonderful things for young people like you. I have one I recently got and I love it. Pssst....I am no longer a teen on the out side but I sure am one on the inside because of the love that is found inside the cover of this and the King James Version of the Bible. If you like E me at*** springmagic2002@yahoo.com *** I will do my best to help you if you'd like. I can tell you this; I know a young man who should weigh at least 175 but had lost to 145  because this girl he knows told him he was fat. He is nearly 6foot tall, and the weight he had lost was starting to cause him problems. He had to change chairs at his computer after the pillow he sat on didn't help his boney behind. It took a bit, of kind words when he lost his temper at me. And hugs when appropriate, along with a lot of encouragement. The more weight he gained the better he looked (not pale, thin, and sickly) but strong, musclar,color in his face. This was now how he should look when at a healthy weight; and when I went by to see his family and saw how well he looked; I pulled him to the side and said young man have you looked in the mirror lately? If you haven't then go look now, you are soooo handsome looking! I meant what I said too. And I believe he could tell by how I said it that I meant what I said. But if I had thought he looked handome then, the next thing he did made him moreso. He smiled....and his face looked like a lit up Christmas tree as he started blushing at the compliment I had gave him. He has kept his weight up where it should be and has told me he likes it better than when he was so thin that even lying in his bed had started to hurt him,not just sitting up. I would never have known about the lying down, he was the one who told me. And before I left that day he stopped me and gave me the biggest hug. This young man is not a teen but a young adult with the weight of the world on him. He's not just losing onee parent to illnes, but both. He is my friend just as I am his. And he knows I am an  e-mail or a phone call away if he needs a friend when things are hard to deal with.Just remember God made every thing beautiful in its own way.And I mean it when I say gain up to about  130 and see if you don't get compliments from others. What does your Dr say about your weight; what about your parents?                 I am rooting for you to gain weight and look and feel better. I hope others will do the same for you. *^*
411512
not all females feel that way. in the long run, the **boys** (as you say) with the good personalities and who treats the females right WIN..  Some female are vain, but not all
813888
no they dont have faves the truth is boys demand more than girls your the middle child and your feelings are hurt because your not the baby and you arent the first born just remember your special ,your the only girl they cant top that WAY TO GO GIRL!!!!!!
797231
Well it all depends I have the same problem and the boys literally told me that they aren't looking for wife material which they claim is what I am. They're looking for the dumb females who is willing to give it up right after they have met. They told me that I'm the only damn good looking girl who takes her education seriously and has things going for herself. So really it's a good thing because they see you as a respectful young lady and not a $2 whoe.
504045
I think this is really an unfair generalization!!!\nMaybe younger girls do, but I mean, women are not stupid beings who can't make deicisions and keep up to them!\nI'd rather say that those guys they have crush on are so uninteresting eventually, that they have to keep on looking!
601298
because girls think that they can change a bad boy into a good boy. Bullshit. It never works. GO FOR THE NICE GUYS!!!
290619
I know is important that men are atracted to you..but the real reason you have to loose weight is because of your health(cholesterol,heart attack,diabetes etc) besides your self steem!!
1119853
Ugh, another teenager asking a relationship question.\n\nBoys are immature, so expect them to act that way.
930215
i blame that partially on society itself.the idea that if your not a size 4,or look like you survived a concentration camp,you wont be successful or find a man,or a have anything of value,all based on looks,all media is guilty of this and young,naive girls see this and that's where they get the idea,some parents are also to blame,I'm sure there have been plenty of parents that have a negative influence when it comes to that,like,'OH DONT EAT THAT,NO MAN WILL LOVE YOU',that type of mentality.
605003
Girls are smarter at the outset but that is their nature in the long run they are normally incorrect if she has no gender complications.  Guys do not like telling half truths besides girls still hate rejection as this society still treats them the same as yesterday.
507366
physically its not bad, but if talk aboul health... better avoid being one... the reason why girls don't want to be fat is that they are health consious.... and also, most men nowadays are driving them to be slim and sexy... almost all men today want those girls whose sexy and slim that's why...
731578
Cause most girls are dumb, vain and egotistical people who think the world eveolves around them. This is how a bad boy gets em. He tells them everything they want to hear and they believe it and are hooked.