i'm in love with someone but there is a 11 year age difference, what do i do?
445269
IF he feels the same way, he will wait if that's what you want to do.  You have to follow your heart.  Take time and think it through with your brains not your hormones.  Good luck, I know it can be confusing.
1097805
u are 28 and mature enough to take decisions of ur life.first b sure that u love her or its just that u want to have sex with her as u are attracted to her.if u really love her and so does she then just go ahead but u should also take care of -ve aspects of ur age difference.
1094552
Don't even go there. Going any further is potentially child abuse. 12 year olds are sometimes very mature these days but really, I don't think they're capable of being "in love", especially with an adult authority figure. you're in a position of power, and if you were to investigate further, you'd be abusing your position. If I were you, and you were concerned, have a chat to a colleague you can trust, and see if you can get that child moved out of your class.\n\nJust my opinion, for what it's worth.\n\nAudrey\nwww.animalhomebusiness.com
104893
There is a 15 year difference between my fiance and I. I dont think age really matters if you can get along and everything is copacetic go for it.
810632
If you love him and he loves you, it doesn't matter about the different culture or the age difference.\nDon't worry about what others say. You are two human beings no matter what the differences are. Some say that opposites attract and viva la difference ... so be happy with each other and throw care to the wind.
1141933
age is no bar in case of love. but do consider the fact that there is a gap in maturity level. tomorrow the girl gets matured enough and consider everything a mistake you will regret too. take a decision keeping both of yours future
382974
Age is just a number, and this decision should be yours and yours to make.  Try discussing how you feel with your partner and hear what his response is, if the both of you are happy, then I say enjoy it.  Life is way to short and there are many people in this world who aren't happy with there spouses and significant partners, so I say go for it.  I was with someone who was 18 years my senior and didn't care, we were both very happy but religious differences got in the way and we decided to part ways, so if you are in love and being loved, I say work it out.  Your friends either accept it or you can find other friends who are more tolerant and less judgmental.  Good luck.
276342
Sweetie, age has nothing to do with nothing okay.  If you like this guy then go for it.  You never know, this could be your true love.  Just remember, "It's better to have loved and lost, than to have no love at all."
287182
Hey i'd say go for it...if you think you can trust him. I am in the same boat mines 5 years and i really love him. I think you fine with a 9 year age difference...just be careful.\nluvs bobcat chick
127654
Im 29yrs old and speaking as someone older i have this advice for you. Leave age out of it. Your older than legal age so it is not of concern. How do YOU feel about him? Really. if you love him, see where it leads. make sure he treats you right!! I had a friend who was 19 at the time and married a guy 29. they just had there first child - still very much in love. it depends on the situation. one step at a time. see where it leads and make sure he treats you right.
475274
Girl, you are an adult. If you love the man and you handle the age difference and his daughter, go ahead.
328639
Go with your heart...age is simply a number, my ex and I had such a difference and it was a wonderful, healthy relationship.  Her life took her overseas and we could not continue.  Please feel free to ask anything if you need to talk :)
195087
26 and 41 are only years of how long you have lived, and years are just measurement of your age. It's not like you have to be with someone near your age. what is important is u truly love each other and dont let words shatter the two of you, and also that you may not be in the same league at all the time but your hearts are only for each other..,, i'm not saying this because i'm a hopeless romantic but i'm saying this bcoz i know,,.. and i also happen to like guyz older than i am...,, so just follow your heart, girl! for you, I'd say go coz i think you can make..no number of years you have lived will stop u unless u let it..
476292
As long as you are really in love. I don't think love really knows age. Do you love the kid too? You gotta understand that there is a lot of baggage when it comes to a relationship like that and you have to be ready to deal with it (kid, ex, history, stuff like that). Have you always like older guys. You might be lookin for a father figure or someone to take care of ya. Sorry, it didn't say if it was a man or woman-you might also be lookin for a mother figure too. :) Good luck!
550225
I was in love at a young age too and my guy turned out to be gay. We're still friends, but it is just an example of how much can change. I'm now married to a great man I would have never met had I stayed with a guy while I was your age. Keep you options open, but stay with him as long as you are happy. Just don't make any perm. decisions till you are older. You both still have a lot of changing to do. Tell him you love him too, but you don't want to promise a life together just yet. Not because you want to be with someone else, or someone better, but because you both could change and you don't want to make mistakes.
727164
huh?...well what the hell I'll take a stab at it anyway...do you love someone already? then marry them...if not and you are not likely to meet anyone for whatever reason and you are getting older...go for the arranged marriage...never know you might love him after a while...it could happen..
1130653
I was 11 once, so I can tell you that crushing on a 15 year old guy is way normal. But to be honest with I don't think I would of be able to handle a real relationship with a 15 year old when I was 11. I don't know you and I and I don't know her, I do know that most people would that you where abnormal guy just try to get with a girl you figured was easy. I'm not saying you are; I’m just saying that's what most people will think.\n\nI think if you really cared for her that you would never ever make her do anything she wasn't ready for, that you might be ready for. You don't want her to have to cut her childhood short or that will send you to jail. And even if she says, she is ready, she's not no one is ready at 11, 12, 13, 14, or even 15 years old, she will be just trying to please you. So, as long as her parents are okay with this and you respect her and understand she shouldn’t be ready for anything more than kissing for years to come, than you're good. I think that a lot people forget that two people can love and care about each other for years with out having sex. And that two people can connect with each other and be different not just in age and still find common ground.\n\nI do recommend you to take things slow with her, to respect her, and to remember that she may seem older to you in a lot of ways, but she and you are both just children learning and growing, and change.  Be a friend to her first and a boyfriend second.  Also, remember that not everyone is going to approve of this relationship if it's more than friendship, that's going to be very hard even too much for you and her to deal with. You might want to think about being friends for now and more than friends when she’s older. If it’s meant to be it will be, waiting might suck but it also might me the best thing for you both.