My b/f always asks me for my permission for him to do things...?
445324
He's probibly just feeling very insecure and wants to make sure that you know that he values your opinion. \nIt may seem annoying, but it'd be even more annoying if he just went off and did something and you had no idea where he was, or you had something planned.\nAt least he's keeping you in mind when he's going to do something, instead of not.
395525
That's normal.  He could get the job done on his own, take matters into his own hands, if you don't want to.\n\nWould you rather that he didn't want to touch you with a ten foot pole??\n\nI would take advantage of it while you can.  Don't you like too have sex with him?
1108058
YOU ALL ARE WRONG...LOL....when boi/man tells you he wants you by his side, he basically saying he wants you as his girlfriend/bestfriend to be there for him. When we say we want you by our side we are almost saying we want you to be there for us, experience things with us N do things with us, N all by our side. In no bad way is he saying what you think or that he nolnger wants you trust me. If you do not feel comfortable with my answer or the other ones, feel comfortable to ask him and im quite sure he will tell you.  Then once yall talk this will help with your comminucation with getting things off your mind to each other a little. Hopefully this helped you enough.
96103
Sounds like he's getting the best of both worlds. He gets to keep you (at a distance, with NO strings attached), and he also gets to do whatever else he wants. I think you are being taken advantage of. What you decide to do about it is your deal. Good luck.
1001896
Remind him of all the times you indulged his little fantasies. Let him know that it's only because you get a kick from it and that it's your little secret. It's not like you're asking him to parade around town in them are you?
510785
It sounds like he may be trying to push you away in the hopes that *you* break up with *him.*  He may be too chicken to do it himself.  The problem is, is that it's affecting your self-esteem.  You don't deserve to be treated that way- being used is no fun, so don't allow it!  Think about where you see yourself in 5 years.... still in the same place???.... .don't waste any time.  Believe me, there are guys who will treat you right.  We teach people how to treat us- don't allow it anymore!!
540425
do yourself ,make him watch ,show him how to do you properly ,tell him how u wanna be done
1047063
yea... call him... if he is your b/f then he wont get mad
939257
hey\n\nwell you know my intake on that! definately not love. he  wants the power over you to control you .  and you dont want to be with a guy who just uses you.
778078
Yeah, but then again, I do everything on the basis of reason. Tell him your breaking up with him unless he stops. See what happens. Only if you want to.
175115
Tell him he needs to spend more time with you. That hanging out with friends is cool but you are his girlfriend and he needs to spend quality time with you too. If he won't agree to do this then you need to just get rid of him and find someone that will. If he does decide to do it then you guys can come up with days for quality time, days for friends, and days for yourself. Then if something else is happening you guys need to give each other advance notice of it. I hipe this helps you. Good luck.
483828
if he is willing to do it FOR you he is willing to do it TO you. \nchances are he will do this if he is your boyfriend (or worse) i would ditch all feelings for him and find another love intrest.\nor, you could talk to him and tell him how you feel and see how he feels about you and go from there. just remember the very top of my post.
521761
hey ya umm well ur boyfriend wants to take things slower than maybe u do my b--freind is like that to me it drives me nuts
799366
Just tell him how much it bothers you that he isn't keeping up on his promises, and he needs to start calling you when he says he will.  Let him know you are serious about it.  If he still keeps not doing what he says he will, then yeah you should dump him.
939778
First I can guarantee you that he will use you\n\nSecond - just let him do it because you are insecure and want to be accepted by him.
564949
You can't make him do anything.  If he *wants* to give you that something, he will.   \n\nYou need to show him you deserve that something.  You need to earn it.
757480
He wants to keep his options open... not be tied down. You need to stand up for yourself and tell him its all or nothing. Dont let him run the relationship.... it is supposed to be 50/50. Tell him that you need to be commited to him. If he really cares about you he will comply!