What is the best way to approach a woman in a bookstore or a coffee shop?
452411
those are probably the easiest places to approach someone. possibly strike up a conversation with what they're reading or drinking. you'll be amazed =]
273475
Eye contact and a friendly face/smile.  Normally if a woman look approachable she is sending  you the signal.
773655
1. Call her cell\n2. Ask for help from the front desk\n3. Look around in the Library\n4. or you can sit and wait for her to come\n5. Do reasearch or read a book while you are waiting
1176586
Give her a call back man.  She'll be more than happy to hear back from you.  If she doesn't pick up the phone leave a brief message letting her know you got her call.  As for your first date...Don't lean towards her and instead lean back.  When you lean forwards you send her the 'needy' signal.  In general, you want to use your sense of humor and entertain her while flirting like hell.  During the course of the date do NOT touch her at all.  Let her be the first one to touch you.  When she does finally touch you that shows a sign of interest.  Another sign of interest to look out for...put your arms in an unordinary way on the table.  Watch her body language and if she responds by putting her arms in the exact same way that is an unconcious signal of interest.  She is showing you that she's in sync with you by doing so.  Another sign of interest is dialated pupils, unless of course, you're in a dark room because they'll be dialated anyway.  As for where to take her, do something simple.  Do NOT blow tons of cash on her or buy her roses or chocolates.  The best thing you can do is take her for a nature walk or out for a cup of coffee (depending on your age).  NEVER ask a woman where she would like to be taken.  Women hate to make these decisions and wil appreciate you being the "man with the plan."  Spend as little money as possible and use your personality to make her want you.  In general, the less you try the more success you have.  And finally, be chivalrous at all times.  Open every single door, help push in her chair, and at the end of the night, walk her to the door.  Women appreciate a man that is looking over them.  Despite what may seem lame to men, women absolutely love this.
394469
Ask her if she wants to get a drink or a cup of coffee. Make it casual.
586006
Give her a note that her co-workers can't see. Just ask her if she would like to get coffee some time.  Put your phone # AND your email. She may be too nervous to call you, and that's slightly awkward anyway. But, she is MUCH more likely to answer you through the email.  By doing that, you don't put her on the spot. You let her decide in HER own time, and it also gives her a chance to initiate conversation on HER terms. \n\nEven better, use a COMMON INTEREST as an excuse to leave her the email. And I would make a couple of more trips to the bank to initiate more conversation. That way you'll no that she is interested and not just friendly.\n\nHey, that's how I asked out a librarian assistant and a couple of waitresses. IT WORKS!!! And they responded to the email, but not to the phone #.
1044360
I always think the straight forward approach is attractive - it shows you have some balls, yet not in the typically pseudo-masculine obnoxious way.  Ask her if she like to grab a drink sometime, or if you are not yet 21, to grab some coffee.
640619
simple go to a shopping mall and go to a womans clothing store or check the web
193387
first find out what her likes and dislikes are....what shes interested in...this is for when you approach her you dont end up saying the wrong thing and she completely blows you off. you could "accidently" bump into her one day...then compliment the way she wears her hair or the smell of her perfume....or say she has a pen or some other article...you could ask her where she got it from...pretend youre interested in getting one...(good conversation starter)\ngood luck!
420425
I would suggest approaching them within the first three seconds of noticing them. Don't think about anything. Just go up to her and speak. Make sure to maintain eye contact. Make sure you smile.\nJust speak honestly, tell them your mostly shy, but you want to get to know them.\n\nIf you fail then don't worry about it. Don't kick yourself in the arse - its not the end of the world. Every time you do it, you'll get better at knowing what to say... just make sure your attention is on the person your talking to (not on your own behavior or attitude). Women like confidence. Even if you can fake it.
724469
well, shop, train, bus station is a good as place as any. at the club, yeah... sometimes people are too desperate. either U come off desperate, or the girl does.\n\ntry joining some clubs or activities that will ensure that u have a common interest, and u will see them more than one time. for example, church, bible study group, exercise class, art class, etc etc. if u do ask for a girl's # , and she gives it to you, then call back in 2 days.  ask her out for coffee....and try to be confident, relaxed, and comfortable. ask her questions and show that u are interested.. buy her coffee, and if u have a good time, ask her out to dinner.  go out for like 3 dates, and if u want to get more serious, tell her u'd like to date her. if u don't like her, then either tell her u wanna be friends, or stop calling.... no more dates!\n\ngood luck~
195998
i would like to talk to woman live
114323
Be bold and strike a conversation. When some familiarity is in place you may then let her know your interest and feelings towards her. It all depends if she will give you audience and not play hard to get
98918
Just go up to her and say hi.
628146
Approach her before you get to the hallway, ask her something about the class, get to the hallway (hopefully you're going the same way), and ask her "would you like to go out sometime?"
73958
go up to her and say 'hi, are you single?'
86670
Be daring and brave. Make some eye contact and then go up and say hello. If he/she doesn't know you, introduce yourself. Just don't be shy or you'll never get anywhere!