Should i be mad at my friends cause they think the guy i like is a pervert?
438489
well evey 1 has the right 2 have there own opinion but just in case u should find out y they say dat they might know somethin u dont know r they just not ur reall friends n dont want 2 see u happy wit the person u like find out but try 2 not loose either one friends r important but so is ur happiness good luck ..
644618
tell your friends to mind their own business who you like or who he likes or whatever between you isnt their business if they are shouting out loud and telling everyone so if they dont listen tell that guy and you too both of you just ignore them
652352
Honestly, I think you should tell him how you feel. The only reason I say that is because he is the only person that will give the truth about the situation. If you ask your friends they might lead you into the wrong direction. yes, it's nerve-racking but once you find out the happier and less confused you'll be.
530283
Sounds like he gets your pulse racing.  Love to hear about those feelings.  Im jealous.  All that aside, So you like him and he likes you, whats the problem?  Oh, the girl...that could be a problem if she doesnt know about your bisexuality.  I don't see anything wrong unless someone might get hurt...hhhmmm.
404431
Who cares what he thinks? if he was accusing you in a playful/joking way it's not a big deal. if he was saying it in a 'stay away from my friend' way, then he's a jerk. in any case, if it ever comes to your mutual friend's attention, you just have to hope that HE trusts you enough to believe you when you say you don't like him. \n\nbut on that note, are you sure that you don't like him? because having such a strong reaction to an accusation that you do implies that you do like him, but you're just afraid and don't want him to know.
124063
i recently found myself in the same situation, so i know what you're going through.  the guy gets mad because he's worried that (like the other dude said), you guys are talking about him behind his back.  he may also be worried because you two may find out that he was cheating on both of you with the other one...as in my case.  Regardless, if you two really are friends and have lots in common, then screw the guy and thank him for a really good friend.  It'll really piss him off...
824795
Hello Karen, some men are going to do what ever it takes and you happened across one of these guys. I go out with my hubby in micro minis on our date nights. I am with him and don't care what anyone else may see or say. I don't pay attention. In your case you were asking for help and I'm sorry that you ran across someone who did that to you. Just laugh it off and hope he enjoyed his little peek at you. Life is too short to worry about a pervert peeking at you.
361913
if you are a TRUE friend  u would put it behind you..you may be doing something that they are against (i dont mean being straight either)
840386
He's jealous and probably retaliating and pulling away from you b/c of your "guy friends". No man buys the "we're just friends" bit  b/c they always try to read too much into it. Now, if your guy friends are gay they'll tell you to your face what I'm saying now: dump the dude and go for grade 6 tall, dark,handsome & bashful.
195134
He's not a pervert - he's a jerk. You should not tolerate disrespectful behavior like that. By denying the obvious when you confronted him showed that he does not respect your intelligence either! Give him the heave-ho!
504091
I am a 20 year old black male and I have no reason to lie so consider this seriously:\n\nIf a man invites you into his private domain He has to have some intrest in you other than causual.  He has to justify some how to hisself why he is making a Sterotypically un player like decision. So you know that he does care on some leval regardless of how much of that he allows you to see.  There is going to be some kind of sexual attraction and or attention from him so be prepared and not offended.  If you become offended or offend him, it could change things because if you did that to me I would think that either you don't like me that way or you are playing games.  Lose/lose in that situation espcially if that is'nt what you intend to convey.  I suggest that you be sensitive to his ego and emotions.  If you like him and would like to secure your place in his life, you need to take the intiative and do something non-profitable to you and only profitable to him. It will allow him to see that you are irreversably intrested and that you are his unless he fucks up.  I would suggest <please don't be offended and I apologize in advance if this is'nt your thing, but> I suggest that you completly unpromted almost or at least seemingly randomly give him some head, and let him see that you are truly intrested in his personal satisfaction as well as yours.  If you don't want to go the sex rout what you need to do from the gate is say that in a respectful but strong position.  If you do it initially he will want to keep you in his presance and will have no choice but to respect that and he won't try as long as you don't play those types of games.  Just keep it real wit your man regardless of the potential consequences because if you lie you contribute to any uncertainty he alredy has and it will turn into complete uncertainty witch can go way wrong...  So just keep it real and if you are meant to be together there ain't nothing that can't severe that reality. Nothing.  My e-mail address is  toomuchrobb@yahoo.com   .  If you have any other questions and would like to make a new annomous friend then hit me up sometime if you get some. I hoped that I did you some good... Good luck with your decision.  Just make sure that the decision made would'nt disagree with your heart, cause what you really do you can't take back.  So be sure you aren't making the other one. It starts with a Wr**g....
49055
Don't worry about what your friends think about him. They are not dating him. It is your world girl. If he is your type then if they are truly your friends they will respect that
426879
To me it sounds like he is falling for you as well. He probably makes fun of the other guys you like because he is jealous. If you really like him as much as you say, then he probably feels the same for you since he treats you so well. You should just tell him how you feel. And if his feelings are not the same then just remain friends. But honestly it sounds like he digs you!!
878460
Smart girl, you have handled that poking incident very well. It was a harmless prank that some boys play to amuse themselves as well as others.\n\nHe is sort of feeling sore being ditched by others. And who doesn’t? I think he still has a liking for you; didn’t he betray himself by blushing (turn red as you put it)?\n\nPlus the fact that you now have a new boyfriend, it is indeed complicated for him. I sure hope that your friends don’t tease him too much, have mercy. Haha.
724069
I would say its a bad idea. If this person is your friend then going after someone they were with is just bad karma. The best thing I can suggest is to talk to her and tell her how you feel.
968886
Maybe you are doing what you might think of as harmless flirting, but apparently your friends dont think so. They think its inconsiderate and disrespectful to them. All you can do is apologize and back off when thier boyfriends are around.
452080
It just depends. Is this guy/girl hot? Because if so, then I don't see why you don't feel comfortable. But if they are ugly, then I'd tell them to back the f*ck off and don't freaking do it again.