is it strange to be 16 and never had boyfriend?
444399
dont go searching for love coz it will automatically find you .. besides think of it this way. no guy could have the luck or fortune to be with such a nice girl . age is just a number . and dont let the fact that you are 16 matter coz you have plenty of life ahead .at times like these you've gotta show "girl power".think of it this way ... do you think having a boy friend at the age of 16 and then breaking up a few months later is better than patiently waiting for that special one ? besides your man will worship you if he is the first and only man in your  life ... think about that???  pretty cool right .\n                       hey i'll let you in on a little secret..... you wont find love unless you stop looking for it .... and when you do .... no matter how far away you run from it you will run directly into it . be bold ...be strong ... be a real girl !!!!!!!as your cyber sister ... i know that you arent ugly .... ( now do NOT read deep into that!!!!!!!!!!)
173373
I am also single and don't like it.  What type of help do you want?  Some advice?  Socialize, meet new people at school, in town, etc.  Build a social network, including clubs or hobbies you have, with people your own age, and the exposure will help you meet lots of new people.  Be open and relaxed (not desperate or needy) as you introduce yourself and take things slowly.  If you are in college that is a great place to start meeting people like yourself.\nBest of luck in love to you!
290624
there's nothing wrong with never having been on a date or never having been kissed at the age of 13. i'm 17 now and i still haven't been on a real date or gone out with anyone for more than a month. i didn't get my first boyfriend or my first kiss until last october when i was 16. don't rush into going out with someone just because other people think that you should. your first kiss should be with someone that you really care about so that you'll be able to have pleasant memories of your first kiss for the rest of your life. you don't want to regret kissing the first person that you kiss. don't listen to what other people tell you to do. you still have plenty more years to find someone special that you want to share your first kiss with. good luck!:)
720411
Nothing wrong with that at all. People start dating at all different kinds of times. You shouldn't just wnat a boyfriend for the sake of having one, you should wnat to be with someone you love and loves you in return. Not everybody ahs a boyfriend, and there is no rush to get one if you aren't quite ready. Just do what feels right. Good luck! :]
790726
I'm like you. I'm 30. Never had a boyfriend either. I  never had my first boyfriend. I think it's time we both did. Only I need to get out more often and be flexible. You're lucky you meet guys. Don't give up. There's plenty of fish in the sea ... I hope.
431957
theres nothing wrong with you i was 16 when i had my first boyfriend
535903
All depends on you. Society will tell you however that there is something wrong with you if your not with a boyfriend by your mid-twenty's. But its all about you and everyone is different. Just do what your comfortable with..
732622
Sweet heart, I do not think you should have a boyfriend, you do not need one. You are very very young and you should be having lot's of fun with your friends. Why would you want to have a boyfriend who is only going to give you headaches???! There is enough time for everything in life, when you get a little older you will have a boy friend! When you decide to have one then you will probably stop hanging out with your friends and you will not even get the chance to meet other guy's and become their friends until you actually find the one that is "Perfect" for you!!! HAVE FUN, DO NOT COPY EVERY ONE ELSE, DO NOT GET A BOYFRIEND, BELIEVE ME!!! Good Luck!!!!!
1096475
Well U have just joined the world of millions of females who feel the same..\n\nYou dont have to settle down so soon..u are just 16, enjoy it while it lasts..just make sure u dont get yourself hurt or abused by someone...\n\nAll the best!!
311686
Mad props to you!!!!  You're more mature than most girls your age.  Teenage girls are notoriously insecure and petty, so many of them feel they need a boyfriend.  Pathetic, really.  You can have fun (sometimes more fun) without a boyfriend!  So they way you feel isn't a big deal.  And I've met a lot of girls who didn't really date until they were in their 20's.  A lot of them wanted to focus on their school work and their friendships in high school.  So hey, if you're happy without a boyfriend, you're better off than most girls your age.  You're happy with yourself.  Celebrate it and be proud of it.  And some day, a guy will love you for that.
831824
Sweetie, i feel you.\nBut check this out...I'm a 26 yr old who has NEVER had sex before! (now I'm getting married next year though)-my point? DONT take a boyfriend because you see yur friends doing it.\nSecondly, I see that you harbour a fear of the unknown, I'll quote one of my quotes for you..."Love is to be given only to those you trust, but how do you know who to love if first you dont trust?"\nMy point...take a chance.\nBeing more precise, make a list of things you want in a guy that are not negotiable(eg maybe, spiritual convictions etc), make another of "good to haves but not must haves" (eg maybe, color of hair etc). Then cultivate friendships without labelling every guy as a potential bf or not...just enjoy friendships and things would fall in place.\nLastly sweetie, there's no crime in being single AND learn to trust. ;) \nThis may sound corny but it sure helps-You may want to pray about the issue too.
675005
Yes it is . I re-call the 6th grade. I viewed my mother as VERY STRICT, as i couldn't date until 16. However two of my friends that did date at the time (i thought their moms were so cool) both ended up with babies. Your not mentally ready for the problems associated with dating at such an early age. To have a boy/girl as a friend is the best because u can get inside info., on the opposites outlook on a lot of things. Honey spare yourself the additional homework of trying to figure out your boyfriend/girlfriend, just focus on your education for now . Trust me, there is  no need to fall head over heals in love just yet. There's plenty of time for that. Remember have guy/girl friends for friendships , that's what's important. You would want to be popular in the right way. Many reputations have been affected by immature activity.  I'm sure both u and your parents  would hate to have u caught up in a ugly rumor at your school
400249
There's nothing wrong with not having a boyfriend at the age of 26.  Heck i'm 20 and i don't have one, you can live without one but if you want one what are you doing about it?  You need to go out and actually find one, he's not going to all of a sudden appear out of no where and romance you.  Go out with a bunch of girlfriends to public places like clubs, or sporting events or whatever and look for single guys don't all just stand around in a pack though, it's going to be intimadating for a guy to approach a group of girls ;)
514465
im 16 and there is nothing wrong with not having a boyfriend now...you should wait to go out with a guy that you really like and not just some loser who doesn't care about you!!!
489322
16 to date, dear. I have 4 girls 7, 9, 11, 12. They (the oldest ones) are allowed to have a boyfriend, but in name only. No touching, no dating, the only thing they would be allowed to do is have the boy over here to visit, with me here to supervise. I am shocked that you already had your first kiss. Take it easy, you have the rest of your life, and the sooner you start, the younger you will be when you actually do IT. You don't want to be wearing maternity clothes in the 12th grade. Slow it down, be friends, no dating, and tell those boys to keep their paws to themselves.
575055
I don't think there's anything wrong with you. I think 15 to 16 is the average age most people start getting asked out, so it could be right around the corner for you! Just to be sure, take a quick once over inventory of yourself. Are you clean? Do you smell good? Are your clothes clean and your hair brushed and your teeth brushed? If those answers are yes then more than likely it not you, it's the guys being too shy. You could probably help them along by talking to a lot of people. This shows you are approachable and friendly and will make it easier for a guy not to worry about rejection. Have fun...the most exciting times of your life are about to happen!
610511
im 13 but im not looking 4 a bf we could b friends though i dont have a bf but i dont think its not appropiate to have a bf online