Just married - need to change witholdings?
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You should probably change your withholding so that it is more in line with your new situation.  If done correctly, it will end up so that you get more in your paycheck each week, but a smaller refund next year.\n\nBecause you are now married, you need to either file "married filing jointly" or "married filing separately".  It is tough to tell whether your tax will go up or down without more information, it you were going from single to married, total tax between you/spouse would probably go down.  But since it's HOH->married, it might go up.\n\nTypically, couples are better off filing jointly than separately, but that must be decided based on your circumstances.  I'd try both ways, and file whichever way gets you the lowest taxes.
316951
You can't. You cannot make someone else change something about themselves, especially if they don't want to. You can only change something about yourself - with difficulty. Please don't think it is your responsibility to make sure that your husband makes it. You can only sort out yourself. Far be it for me to cite organisations but check out an Al-Anon meeting if you can. They can show you some signposts. It is up to you how you choose to follow them. Take care of yourself. Best of luck with your own recovery.
600252
whats more important is what not to wear out. That is your welcome. Go to the wedding and get out.
1008269
You'll  probably be better off consulting with a lawyer.You will have to petition the court for termination of his rights,be required to post a public notice,usually in a newspaper, to announce your intention.A lawyer could very possibly make the transition faster and easier,especially in regards to your husband adopting her, and the subsequent name change.
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You will need to submit your marriage certificate (original) and you passport (original) to the Passport Services office.  They will mail everything back to you.  In the back of your passport it will have a notiation of your changed name.  That is how I did it after I got married.  \n\nHere is the website from the governement about it:\nhttp://travel.state.gov/passport/fri/ChangeName/ChangeName_851.html\n\n\nSend a completed form DS-5504, U.S. Passport Re-Application Form, a certified copy of your marriage certificate or your name change court decree, two recent color photographs (2” by 2”), and your current valid passport to the following address: \n\nIf using USPS:\nNational Passport Processing\nP.O. Box 13290\nPhiladelphia, PA 19101-3290 \n\nIf using other delivery service:\nNational Passport Processing\nATTN: Department 13290\n1617 Brett Road\nNew Castle, DE 19720
209100
Call your provider and they can walk you through the changes you want done.  They helped me.
995665
Actually when I got married the first time I kept my name and added my new husbands. Therefore I actually had 2 last names. My husband didn't like it that much, but as I told him, at least I took his name, but I will never lose who I was before the wedding. I would never take on a name for the reason to make one happy. Only reason to take the name is if you really want that to be your last name.
547541
its very impotant for you to wear it. both of you should go together and get it resized. Its a symbol of your marriage and your love for eachother. You really do need to wear it.
149305
Changing the partner between rounds.
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Jules you can use whatever name you want whenever you want, go back to your maiden name now its your choice, good luck honey xx\ndon't know who invented marriage but personally I think it was a very bad idea x
1107849
you have to take it back to court. you will have to explain why you want it changed and prove that you need it changed
78183
well I don't know how to change the name .\n\nbut you can change your  out going name and address by going  to the Options and than go to General Preferences .
701176
You will need to get a lawyer and make an amendment to the divorce papers. The divorce is final, however, you can petition the court to make changes. Been there done that.
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Try this "contact us" link on the website.  It is not specific about an address change, but they should be a little more helpful.
619945
You need to change it in court. They have to give you a legal document stating what your name is changing from and to. You can take this form then to secretary of state and social security offices and get your name changed- It is easy to change if you are getting a divorce ( and going back to your maiden name). But to change it just because you want to requires a court appearance and a judge ruling.\nGood luck
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You can if you want to.  A lot of brides do.  I'm getting married in a few weeks and we decided not to exchange gifts just because we don't have the extra money, plus we decided to buy a dog after the wedding.
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no change is required, she said it herself. and as far as your ex being on the deed will be a problem in time, what if something would happen? does your ex have any rights to her 1/2? look into just changing your names on the deed, the courts may be a help full tool with this, or maybe it already has, did the judge have a ruling on this during your divorce? and if so did you do anything? just trying to keep you out of the doghouse down the road. good luck with the new family.