what would you do if this were your situation....?
445970
There are self esteem issues you need to work out with a counselor. I have plenty of really skinny friends that they still rag on themselves for not being this and that and not liking how they look in clothes or bathing suits. Just because you are skinny don't necessarily mean you are going to be a happier person. You will be happier with getting more attention but just going on looks likely to be more negative attention. You need to be happy with yourself no matter what size you are! But, you also want to make sure you keep yourself healthy. Just eat right or just moderate what you eat altogether don't go on this diet food kick and if you can try to get out and walk around the block or if you can afford it join a gym. They have new classes like belly dancing, exotic dancing and jazzercise to make it more interesting. Try to look at it as being more healthy and making healthier choices not just as being skinny. There are skinny people that are out of shape and not healthy that can end up having the same health problems as someone who is overweight. Hope this helps.
872229
Call a lawyer, you might be able to take legal action.
470877
Pay off my house,buy another,pay off my bills & credit them for years to come.I would pay off my church's building & remodel it,give some to family members,charities & tithe 10% to my church.  Now out of curiosity,what would you do with that much of money?\n\nBe Blessed
507750
Just move out, did you consider doing so.  What you're about to do might seem nice and hot now, but will you be able to deal with this in the future??? Can you just think of how terrible the consequences might be?  Start thinking of it backwards, if you will be able to deal with this and the possible consequences of this than go right ahead, if not, I suggest you take a real action like moving out, we're all weak and if this is how you feel now than there is a big chance that you both might weaken again one day.
297879
I have a similar situation. But it is SHE in my case. Plz..help us both(the asker and me).
911197
Do what she says or go live on your own.>
647573
I would say get out of there as fast as you can! Leave and go find a different place to stay! My prayers are with you, Please be safe! Cuidado!
544332
Buy something that you have been wanting for a long time or save it until you need it!!! that is what i would do
266411
I would pay off all my debit...Cars, house, college, credit cards...All of it. I would change everything in my house that I have wanted to. Buy all the land around me, so I have privacy. Give 10% to my church. Come up with a good amount to give to my loved ones. Set up a college fund for my son. Go on more vacations. Donate to charities annually...There are so many things I would do. I would NOT blow it. I would NOT buy a new home or a bunch of new cars. I would make my life a bit easier and help others do the same.
890688
You state "any help would be appreciated". How did you get stuck with having to make the choice? That's a he ll of a responsibility. Good Luck.
988221
Do what you feel is best for your situation!
602821
Oh man I would settle for like $500. Or even less, I'm so stressed about not being able to pay my bills I think about it alllllll day long. I'm working over 50 hours a week, going to school, raising my son, and trying to make ends meet. So I would be happy with anything right now. Anything, if someone walked up to me and GAVE me a dollar I would be so happy.
493567
when you don't have anymore money........
34581
Uhm. Open a bank account?? *shrugs*\n\nI'm sorta thinking life wouldn't change.......or maybe I just wouldn't allow life to change. I'd probably donate it to the "Won a kazillion dollars in the lottery and don't know what to do with it" Organization that would make sure it got to the people in need in this world that rightfully deserve it. And then I'd go call the one person I enjoy being around more than any other and ask him if would like to go to a baseball game. yeah.....that's "now what." :)
727061
I would call the police... she could end up hurting you , lots of weirdos in this world!
337905
well, i would stay wit her or try to get back wit her. cuzz i moved to california from philadelphia and i was in the middle of a relationship. n me and my baby still togetha!!!!!!
984361
I would say let your husband and his ex take care of that,and focus on what you need to do.