still on the subject of my husband and female friends?
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this guy is being unfaithful and hes trying to cover his tracks but listen if he was not guilty then why does he get so defensive.ill tell you why because he has a guilty conscience and another reason is men hate to get caught! it makes them look like a bitch.so my advice to you is to check him and if he cant respect what you ask then hes hidin something so be careful and goodluck gurl!!!!!!-lisa
374437
I found my best friend online - my wife.  It was nearly 4 years ago now.  Keep trying - but never rule out finding friends in the real world - they tend to have less to hide!
571698
I have several female friends and I am married..there is nothing wrong with being friends with the opposite sex,in fact it helps you to get their views on things..specially relationships..ignore the people that make the gay remarks they are shallow..just remember you can never have enough friends..and I am sure she is more of a friend than the ones calling you names
583272
Will you have a little talk with MY husband for me?\nLOL\n\nSounds like your wife is a very lucky woman, with a wonderful husband!
53927
Why can't you allow your boyfriend to have female friends?  Why are you so insecure?  I have female friends and I have been happily married for several years.  I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone so insecure that they would force me to choose my friends based solely on if they have a penis or not.  What's up with you?  Do you sleep with every guy you know?  If not, cut some slack.  On the other hand if you can't trust your boyfriend based on his behavior that is a different story.  Remember you don't have to trust everyone who enters his life, you just have to trust him.  Now here is a heads up for how guys think.  If my wife is even slightly jealous of a female, I love it.  It's just another way for her to say "I love you".  Of course she trusts me and I have never given her reason not to.  Stop nagging and start bragging.  Tell me I'm a saint and a king and I might believe you and act like one.  Tell me I'm a dog and a snake, and who knows?
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I have fantasized about being with another woman. Yes, my husband was the first to know. And it was more than one occasion, however, I have never been with a woman, physically. Not the one friend I have fantasized about or the celebrity/entertainer in our area.
720951
Makes me wonder about what kind of person your husband is if he has friend like this.  Apparently, he has no respect for how you feel. I would tell his friend that if he cannot behave like a decent human being then he needs to find another place to hang out and tell your husband if that is the kind of friends he likes then he needs some professional help.
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As long as both people know that this is just an exchange of e-mail greetings and no one is trying to approach the other person in a way that would compromise thier marriage, it's perfectly ok.\nI have talked with several ladies on here and I am happily married.\nThey know that and respect it. \nGood question
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I think your wife if still trying to grow up.  I don't think she understands the MAGNITUDE of her decision to become married.  This may be cause for concern because it's not a good idea to make out with your wife and her friends, and still think you'll keep the same relationship.  You may need to sit her down and let her know that this behavior makes u uncomfortable.
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Mine talks about PC games, anything having to do with computers, movies, music, and food up coming game system games and that's about it.  \n\nHe and his best friend have a male bonding thing about once every one or two months where his friend comes to spend the weekend with us at our house and they just do, man things...I try to stay out of the way..lol...but its funny to listen to them talk.  I think men are much more laid back then women are.  They don’t seem to worry or complain as much when they talk to each other.
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I am a woman, but my mother gave me the BEST advice I ever heard.  She said, "If you want your marriage to FAIL, then go in the chat rooms!"  My husband and I vowed to never chat online with someone of the opposite sex.  Actually, we do NOT take our problems to the opposite sex at all.  That is how most affairs begin.  I am old fashioned, I suppose, but I think that married people need married couples for friends.  Anything else could be a little dangerous.  I know others will say it all boils down to trust, but even the most trusting person can be seduced.
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being married, i believe that he should realize that when he married you, he GAINED a new best friend.  HOWEVER, there are things that i do with my buddy john that i don't do with my wife...football games, baseball games and my wife hangs out with her "homies" doing what women do.  But, everyday is ridiculous.  Bored you ask, yes...bored it is.  Plan a "date night" for the two of you.  Like every saturday or friday, whatever is convienent.  go to dinner, to a movie, go dancing at the club, have drinks at a bar, go to a comedy club, go see a concert...WHATEVER, the point is return to your roots of spending time together.  he is content to believe that you will always be home waiting for him, when he returns from where ever he goes. This is not petty, it is unfair.
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My husband is the same way but it is normal as long as you don't over react on the situation. For some mean it's a control issue and for others it's a love issue. My husband always told me it's because he loved me so much but he didn't mind me talking to other guys as long as that's as far as it went. the hanging out is ok but make sure she invites you to go along if she's asked that will tell you everything. Hope this helps
1000221
You need to be honest to both women, You just got back with your wife, don't let her hear this from anyone but you. This is the fastest way to ruin trust. Be nice to the Friend, tell her you like her but only want to be friends. You can also tell her that you may be working things out with your wife. Don't let both women think you have been leading them on. you can loose your wife for good and that doesn't sound like what you want. Tell HER Now. Marriage is a blessing and your wife's feelings should come first. if the friends gets mad then so what. At least your wife knows you're not trying to play games with her.
57846
NO WAY!  My husband and I live 3 lives in our home.  My life, his life, and the life we share together.  We dont let those 3 collide.  He has his friends, I have mine and we have joint friends.
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Introduce her to some of your online friends...I'm sure they would be more that willing to form friendships with her too. You, from other questions you have posted are a happily married woman with some insecurities in your marriage...so, giving her some of your guy friends might allow a little more time for you to reconnect with your husband and make happiness where it really counts: at home:)\nSo, I say let her take a few of these friends off your hands...let someone make her feel good about herself, sounds like she needs it.
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If your friend is a true friend she would encourage him to speak to you and not bring all his issues and problems to her.  This is exactly how cheating in every sense of the word starts, they are connecting in ways that will ultimately bring them closer and soon he will be telling her everything and anything.  I think as a friend it is her responsibility to encourage communication between the two of you and not be so willing to accomadate him when he needs to vent.  Why must she make herself available to him even if it is just to listen.  You should let him know that you don't appreciate it and how would he feel if you found a real sexy hunk of a man and confided in him instead of your husband?  Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.\nNip this in the bud, before you lose your husband, if he is a keeper do what you need to and if he is a loser/dead beat then maybe she is doing you a favor listening to all his crap anyway.  Maybe he is a bore anyway. Just kidding