Does she still love him?  it hurts?
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I think that her hiding your relationship from him can mean many things. One she may think that he would take it badly, and it would hurt him. Two, she may not be over him yet and hoping that she will get another chance. Three, he may be a real arse hole and didnt want to introduce you as her partner as he could of hurt one of you. There could be many reasons for this. The best way to find out which it is would be to sit down and talk to her. You will get no where just guessing and you may make the biggest maistake of your life if you leave her.
821756
hey, leave it out guys he wrote "in love" he's distinguishing between saying he loves her and being "in love". so u say she's great and u must be feeling the butterflies in your tummy and everything.. i know that feeling, i'm still feeling it after six months and loving every minute of it..and i'm glad i took the risk...i wanted to bail at the start because i had been burned badly in the past and was afraid of the really strong feelings i was feeling..afraid of being hurt again\nbut there's no fun without the risk...and there's never a guarantee\n\ntake the chance, enjoy your time with her, if she's as great as u say she is then she won't treat u as a doormat and take advantage of u, love is a two way street... she'll be thrilled to have found a partner who's not afraid to show his feelings!\n\nand it'll work out...\n\nand if it doesn't be glad of the time u had together, of the feelings u felt.. i never thought that i'd be able to open up and let someone in.. but i could and i did and it was the best thing i ever did..\n\ncut the girl some slack, sounds like she's worth it...enjoy the time and good luck :)
561450
She still loves you. But the difference is that she's not in love with you. Sometimes pain and disappointment is so great till it's not worth the salvage of the relationship.\n\nYes, she angry because of the hurt and doesn't want to be in this situation anty more than you do. Just give her sapce and take care of your responsibility.
107553
Yep..But that kind of LOVE is very heart breaking. I'd stay away from him because if he's not happy, he won't be with her long and then you could let him know how you feel. But if he leaves her for you, all of you will suffer from it. Let him have happiness if you love him,.... even if it's with someone else.   Good Luck*
710981
she has been hurt before and is afraid you will hurt her again --- dont push it --- she knows how you feel and you know how she feels --- care for her love her and be there for her
81643
I hope your question is this:\n\nIf you love someone that has hurt you before, but you still love that person and he says he loves you would you still stay with that person?\n\nId would say YES... If and only your answer to my next question is a YES...\n\nIs he/she worth all the pain?\n\n-Post Master
584899
she doesnt sound like a honest person, i think you better move on before you really get hurt...sometimes loving someone means letting go.....
97304
I think its time to let her go.  Age really shouldnt be an issue if you are both legal.  If she's hurt you too many times then i think its time for you to find someone who can love you and not hurt you.  And also think to yourself...  Do you "love" her or do you love the "idea" of her.
681576
Is she happy in this relationship?  If she is, then you have to forget it.  You can't ruin her happiness so she can be with you.  You may like her, but she might love this guy, and you shouldn't try to tear them apart by 'making your move'.  She's taken, sorry.
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I wouldn't do anything right now.  You've told him how you feel.  You have to give him some time.  I'm sure he still loves you too.  You both need to be sure that you are in love not that you just love each other and are used to being together.  I wish you the best!
1174057
well ... there is nothing u can do ... she is convinced that she loves this guy ... and nothing can ever change her mind ... cause if she realize how much he's hurting her ... she wud have left him looooooooooooooong back ... the best thing for u do is support her ... be there for her ... and when she's having a fight ... or if she feels like cutting herself ... take her out ... go shopping ... do anything to get her mind off of things ...
191673
He probably feels like he does. The question is do u love him?
1090028
yes, you hurt him but not intentionaly. So tell him that he is the only whom you love.
548920
If she stays with him, she is not only hurting herself but him as well. He may be a great person but eventually she will come to resent him because he is not "the one". She is also keeping him from finding someone that really loves him and someone he has a spark with. I hope that she finds what she is looking for. I have also been one that picks the ones that don't want to commit. I wish her luck and hope whatever she decides to do it is the right choice for her!
606467
No,....first they are extactic....then they slowly lose intrest...until its just comfort.....yet you still love him....just not a 100% satisfied.
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It will hurt her.  You know that right?  \nBut, as unfortunate as it is, it does happen.  That doesn't mean you can't be gentle about it.  You just need to sit down and be honest with her.  The longer you wait, the harder it will be on all three of you.  \nMy ex husband found someone else while we were together and he told me immediately, before he cheated.  I respect that he did at least leave me BEFORE he went to her.  PLEASE Consider that fact if it's not too late.
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It's amazing how someone can break your heart, but you still love them with all the little pieces.\n\nBe Careful