i think my best friend might be gay, do i ask him? he'll still be my best friend no matter what. i'm str8.
443412
i had the same thing with my bezzie a few years ago, and for some reason out of our little gang he felt he couldn't tell me...he told everyone else.  don't ask him, just be a friend and make him feel comfortable in himself be open so he feels he can talk to u about it if he needs it.  He didn't tell me coz he thought i'd hate him and dissaprove!\n\nI love him, he's a mate!\n\nIt doesn't really matter whether he's straight or gay aslong as he's in your life!\n\ngive him time  \n\nxxx
471017
Kindly tell him that you're not gay and therefore not interested. He should understand. And it's up to the both of you to make sure it doesn't get weird and you remain friends.
259639
If he is your best friend, this question wouldn't be necessary. Best friends know each other deeply. I suspect he doesn't feel the same way you do, but you would like it to be that way. Ask him straight out and expect the truth. A best friend will not lie to you.
364730
Well firstly is your friend bi or gay? Does she know how you feel about her?\n\nContact me if you want to talk  - epsonc760@hotmail.co.uk
871750
no you are not gay. there will always be times like this when you will be confused  by friendship over attraction. just let it go.
804369
Sounds like an episode of Will and Grace.  Maybe your friend is bi-sexual.  Regardless, you will never be sure if he closes his eyes and fantasizes about Kevin Cosner when you get together.  I would say be his friend forever but don't get your hopes up
1109946
If you come out, it should be about you, not your friend. You could mention to your friend that you might be gay, but dont be trying to 'convert' him. You are either born gay or you are born straight.
905197
There are things you cant tell your sister no matter how close you are! Sometimes it is easier to tell friends. I have many gay guy best friends.
804820
I'm not sure what the actual question is here... is it a bad thing that he might be gay? What would you do if he was straight? If you feel like you need to act, just make sure that he knows that you love and support him no matter what. If he is gay, it will be extremely difficult for him to admit it to you and your family. The next time you're talking to him you could bring up one of your gay friends in passing (or make one up if you don't have any) so that he knows that you are okay with homosexuality (assuming he is gay and assuming you're okay with homosexuality).  However, just because he doesn't share his personal life with you doesn't necessarily mean he's gay. My brother is straight but doesn't particularly like to divulge information about his personal life to any of us.
449086
Your brother is going to find out anyway, its inevitable. If he's really your bro's best friends, you're brother WILL find out. You'll just have to figure that out on your own.
154681
if your gay go with the guys.if not girl.but if the guys are your best freinds never dump them for a girl....
887893
my best friend in high school pretended to be gay for 4 years. i was naked in front of him, i kissed him on the lips, we massaged each other ( but nothing more) at graduation he told me that he was never gay and had a crush on me since freshman year! we are no longer friends.
1026273
my real life best friend is male...and i love him with all my heart...and trust him with my life and vice versa.  and what is even better...is my man and my best friend have become very good friends...so i consider myself quite lucky.
458994
My advice play it safe, and just become friends with him at first. Then once hes comfortable with having you around start talking about a gay issue and watch his responce, try and do it when there is no one else around. That will be a dead give away to his orientation.  I dont have a lot of experiance with this, but its the advice i ALWAYS get.
699581
There is nothing wrong with being gay-friendly.  Most of my friends are str8 men, but that doesn't make me a heterosexual.  Also, I think some of my str8 friends 'act' more gay than I do.  Leave your friend's husband alone to be however he wants.
965823
Why do you have to do anything?  What does sexual orientation have to do with friendship.  If you care for this person as a friend, I don't see the problem.  I have gay friends, and it has never come between the friendship we share.  If it's something troublesome to you, talk it over with them, I'm sure they would appreciate your honesty.
467501
Sure it's okay to have gay friends. I don't think there is anything wrong, it's like having a friend who is a different religion, as long as they don't impose their beliefs on me, I'm ok with it. So as long as your gay friend doesn't impose his beliefs on you, it's ok.