When did you last realize your personality had changed?
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I am always learning, my personality really has not changed much, I am not as scary as I used to be, but I still can find humor whenever I need it.
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notice . one thing a change in turn toward you ?
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I used to be very shy and introspective as well. I always wanted to wait for the right time to say things, but that time never came.\n\nI'm not sure how old you are, but that would make a difference. One possibility is that your current friends don't bring out an exciting personality in you. Perhaps you really are just shy, and even among those who you are close with, you are quiet and "boring". You may find that you are very outgoing on the internet, but not so much in person.\n\nThere really isn't a single way to become less boring. Becomming spontaneous is easy, but the results may not be what you wish. Being happy is likewise easy, but at the same time, nearly impossible to accomplish.\n\nBut no matter what you do, a personality shift is not something that can be accomplished overnight. Without doubt, you are an interesting person, you simply need to gain the ability to express it, something very difficult to learn. Simply resolve to yourself to say things more often. Perhaps you could make a minor change to yourself, such as hair style, as a way of reminding yourself that you are going through with the change.\n\nNext time you are in a social situation, make a concious effort to say something. Next time you are in a situation where you are surrounded by people you do not know, make an effort to meet even one of them and be friendly. This may seem difficult for you, but after the first time, the next social situation becomes less imposing, and slowly you will find yourself more at ease around others, and much more likely to be an exciting and outgoing person.\n\nThis is pretty much what I had to do. I still am not as socially outgoing as some people I know, but regardless, I have noticed the change myself, and am happy with it.
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I would say 5-10 years. Maybe longer. People change and develope around eachother. It may have alot to do with how stable of a personality you have. \n\nWhy, how much time have you got?
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Have you made any signifigant changes in your diet lately? That might have something to do with it.
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r u changed for real. then go n  tell him how u feel
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I think that personality improves with time sort of like a fine wine.  They say that with age comes wisdom, but that’s not all we get.  We all grow and change through our lives experiences.  First, don’t try to change who you are, you can’t.  Learn to accept yourself and love yourself for who you are and others will too.  Be liked for you.    Don’t try to impress a person, that’s usually a big turn off, no on likes a braggart.  Just be yourself, that’s who you are.  Good Luck!  :)
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a change in her attitude if she is normaly happy all the time if that has changed or how she acts with certain ppl has changed u will know
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no I use to be but got tired of being pushed around!
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I used to be like that.  I learned to pretend that I was more confident and outgoing than I really was - I mean these people didn't know I was shy etc, so they would not find it strange.  Eventually I just became more confident and outgoing.
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There are several documented (and quite a few more undocumented) cases of people whose sexuality has, indeed, changed over time.  These are people who experience a real shift in their sexuality- they weren't in denial about anything, or really bisexual and didn't know it- they merely woke up one day and realized, with some shock, that their attractions had changed.  I've heard first-hand accounts of tried 'n' true lesbians who found themselves turned into straight women- no bisexual phase edging them back, no history of heterosexual feelings whatsoever in their lives before this.  It just happens like that sometimes.\n\nThat's what leads me to believe that sexual orientation is not genetic, but neither a choice- your desires come from many places and are the result of a complex pyschosexual makeup that is part personality, part experiences, and yes, part of your own willfullness.  But you cannot consciously change your desires- if that happens, it does so on its own, and why- I'm still not really sure.\n\nHowever, most people- and I'm talking most, as in a huge majority- never experience such shifts.  They may be in denial and later come out (whatever way- gay, straight, bi), or be a (unbeknownst to outside observers) bisexual who appears to suddenly change, or may simply fall in love with someone they wouldn't usually (love, of course, being gender-blind).  But mostly people stay the same.\n\nI suppose the question you ought to be asking is not whether sexual orientation can change, but rather what limits to fluidity there are within sexual orientation.  I've heard of lesbians who still identify as such- but sometimes sleep with gay men (but not straight/bisexual men).  What's your take on that?  It's this sort of intriguing question that is really what you're after.\n\nSo, to answer your question- sexual orientation can be, but more often than not is, fluid over time.  Most straight people always remain straight throughout their whole lives, but some do change.  Some gay people can find happiness in heterosexual relationships (like the whole love-is-gender-blind idea)- though whether you still call them gay is debatable in some people's eyes (not mine).  Bi people are no different than gay or straight- if they do have this on-again, off-again aspect of their sexuality, the chance of it occuring is the same as for the others, like I described above (i.e. going from one side to the other).\n\nHope that helps; it's kind of a complex topic.
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yes through time ur body gets used to them and they seem less affective
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well , what are you now??? i would imagine your personality would stay sorta the same,,,,,,,but would be slightly altered by the differece in the way you grew up
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We all have various personalities that we present to the public based on what we are doing, who we are impressing... yet, this is still "who we are."  That core personality that we carry within us, that tells us what is right or wrong... is never going to change.  However, it's expression grows and changes on a daily basis as we all continue to grow and mature.  For some of us, being more mature actually means we are having more fun!  For certain my ability to communicate is much more pronounced than it was when I was 21.  Or 49, or yesterday for that matter.     \n     For me personally, my attitude when I was a young employee was a "eager to please" person.  At the end of my career I was a "sour old germudgen."   Honestly, I use parts of my personality for various reasons.  The truth is, for the most part, inside of myself I see myself as a kindly teacher, a mischief maker, and a sweet old Irish peace-maker who has a bottle of whiskey hidden somewhere in the room with a pocket of tobacco always ready for a fine smoke... should someone need a moment to talk or just want to sit in the sun with me for a bit.  \n     Being "who" we are is a myth.  Our personalities grow throughout our lives, we learn daily and adjust daily to life around us.  Don't misunderstand, there are days when I have to dig deep within myself and find my own core.  What that core has become is a result of years of living, making decisions, enjoying life and just reacting day to day to life around me.  Like a lump of coal that gets transmutted into a diamond due to years and years of pressure on it, our personalities are the same.  Hell, imagine listening to Howard Stern or Pat Robertson every day and then try to image that it doesn't change your personality. \n     We all understand we present to the world a unique personna because we need a paycheck, regardless of what we personally feel.  It would be best if that personna was congruient with who we are as people, but that is not always possible.  We present the personna that keeps our paycheck coming in.  This is a lesson of life we all learn.  It's how we keep our jobs. \n     I find that after I retired, my joyful positive side became it's best.  I really now enjoy telling people to screw off, get frucked, or back away more often than I did before.  I'm less kindly now that I am retired.  But, I wish I had been where I am today those many years ago, for certainly I'm glad to be me and wouldn't have it any other way.\n     Wanna go play?  I'll go get my cane.  If that's too stimulating for you I'll grab the whiskey and my bone pipe, we'll sit in the sun and have a smoke, listen to the neighbors yelling at their kids, the Mexican-cowboy-Polks music from next door, the dogs barking, kids laughing, the sirens in the distance, the TV's blaring and deeply breath in the calming smog of the local environment.  \n     Ah life, aint' it grand!  My friend, I am laughing with you!
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Did your face stop making them laugh?\n\nCongrats.
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He probably has changed, and you have changed too even if yo don't realize it. People change, you just have to change with each other and adjust to the changes as a couple.
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I feel like I've changed a lot.  My opinions of things have changed through the gaining of knowledge and otherwise. Things like philosophy, language, spelling, math, and other assorted pieces of information have really come in handy.  MY opinion of what girls should look has changed.  I really like high school girls now...18 of course, they must be of legal age.  But personality wise I've learned to cope with all kinds.  Good Stuff