is it wrong to date a 17year older when u are 14?
447125
No I think its okay. No one can stop love. Love is really powerful and if you love him/her then don't let anyone try to stop you two from being together. You're together for a reason and don't let anyone take that reason away from you. Follow your heart, be true to it.
435565
Yes its OK providing you are over the age of consent. There is nothing wrong with relationships between older men and younger women providing that both are old enough to consent to what they are doing. \n\nYou are probably not old enough to consent to a relationship so it cause problems. I would leave it until you are both old enough to enter a relationship legally. You or he may have found someone else and have moved on by then. If not, you might want to see how you feel about each other then.\n\nMy brother married a girl who was 13 years younger than him and they have three kids.\n\nBest wishes to you for the future.
1076972
yeah, that's wierd.\nIf you are 14, don't go out with anyone over 18, because that's just asking for trouble.
295499
Yes.  It is better for a woman to date a guy who is older because of the differences in maturity, but if a woman is okay with that, there is nothing wrong with it.
619792
Age should not make a difference. I should know, I am dating a younger man. So as long as the age is legal I see no harm in it. But, honestly, what do you think you have in common with a 20 y/o?
229275
oh please do not think it is wrong as age dun matters. the main thing that u should doubt was whether ur love can withstands crisis as the time passes....
600707
It's not wrong for you to like older guys.  It may well be wrong for you to act on it, especially depending on what you mean by "older men".  I mean, are you talking about a 16 year old or a 30 year old?  Any "man" interested in a 14 year old has issues.  You'll be old enough for men someday.  In the meantime, enjoy being a kid, explore interests OTHER THAN boys, and have a good time hanging out with your female friends (chances are they'll be around a lot longer than any boyfriend you'd have at this age, anyway).
856664
I'm 15 and I date and so does everyone in my high school.  You can't put an age limit on love and attraction so it shouldn't matter how old you are, as long as you are being safe.  I think that teen dating is great because i sure can't imagine life without it.  It's great that you've found someone that you love and you shouldn't let anyone tell you that you are not old enough to have a serious boyfriend.
945413
No it is not wrong, all parents get stricted especially when it comes to their little girl dating, they get abit edgy on this subject cause they think you might have sex and also think a guy might force you to have it and all sorts of things.\n\nIf your dating that just fine just remeber dont have sex til like 18! and remeber have it with someone who you love and at the right time, hope this helps.
902084
i was dating a 17 yr old & we were gonna stay together when he got to be 18 (we're not together right now but thats cuz he moved & wanted a break)but sure u guys can date but i suggest to keep it secret
639587
as long as you are both of legal age, then yes there is nothing wrong with having a relationship with anyone, no matter what age. good luck.
85131
Nothing wrong with dating someone twenty years older if it works for both of you.  And you are at least 18.
832347
There's nothing wrong with it, especially if your feelings are genuine, but keep in mind that you could get hurt pretty bad given you start up a relationship. He could use you, or date you for a while but then flat out tell you that he's uncomfortable. Six years is not that big of a difference, but even age differences like that could result in some professional frowning-down on his part (like if he has a big corporate job and they find out he's seeing someone younger). But like I said, six years isn't that MUCh of a difference to be worried about. I knew someone who was about 19 or 20 and she dated a 36 year old guy, but they broke up because of the age difference.\n\nI just read your edit...I have to tell you that twenty is a whole different world from fourteen. So like I said, be careful!
819701
My personal opinion is that the age difference is not as important as the fact that you are not 18 yet.  I would wait just two more years... you will be 18 and he will be 27.  It is technically against the law in most places for that age difference when you are a minor.  Again, the age difference is not the biggest deal here, the fact that 16 makes you a legal minor.  I date much older guys too... but I waited till I was 18 and a legal adult.
899810
I dont see anything wrong with dating a younger man, as long as there are limits to the age difference(not 18 or younger)  \n\nIf his maturity level is good with you, he treats you good, makes you laugh, has a  job, and is an all and all decent guy I dont see anything wrong with it.    \n\nPLEASE BE AWARE THAT ALOT OF THE ONLINE DATERS DO LIE.  SO PLEASE BE VERY VERY CAREFUL OUT THERE IN CYBERSPACE!!!!!
441152
Well, you are both consenting adults, so no it's not wrong. I would make sure she doesn't have "daddy issues" or you could have problems.\n\nBy the way, why would this question need to be deleted? It's a legitimate question. He said she was 24, not 14.
1135564
yes if it's just in a friendly manner, but NO if it's relationship-wise.  If you are over the age of 18 you should not be in a relationship with anyone under the age of 18.  But it's okay to be friends with them.  I have a friend that is 15, (I'm 23) but I've known her since she was a baby 'cause her dad is my dad's best friend.  She's the coolest person ever heehee.