Why am I not able to attract a hottie female into my life?
442979
You answered your own question.  Have you ever seen "Shallow Hal"?  I'm not saying get a 300 lb girlfriend, but some of the "hotties" out there (OK MOST of them) are shallow because they get anyone they want.  Try chatting - it's great for getting to know personalities before looks.  \nThat being said, when it comes to attracting females, there is only ONE way. CONFIDENCE.  It's the most attractive thing about a guy. Borderline cocky- don't take it too far, but nothing is more attractive than a guy who walks tall, talks easily, smiles a lot, and is totally at ease with himself.  Just do some people-watching - you'll see that the confident guys, even if they're not great looking, get the girl every time.
774106
Maybe you are just not attracted to her. It takes more than good looks to be attractive, you know.\n\nIf you're still interested in trying, perhaps you could gently explain to her that you feel like you're doing all the work and would prefer if she looked alive. Some girls don't think they have to do anything in bed... just lay there and be a passive sperm receptacle. You need to encourage her to get into it. (Then again, maybe she's not into it at all and you're just not turning her on?)\n\nIf that doesn't work, just face it and accept that you two are just not sexually compatible.
225127
First, see if she's attracted to you. If she's not, don't waste your time, look for someone else.\n\nIf she really  IS attracted to you, then try to interact with her regularly and things will flow from there.
130797
You haven't stated any additional info?\n\nMaybe you haven't met the right girls so far. It's all about timing and also chemistry. Patience is the key, whats the point in throwing yourself to any girl cuz your desperate. You might lose the opportunity of asking the girl of your dreams out.=)\n\nGoodluck Bro
256143
Because ur attracted to the type of woman who is conservative and has future plans.  Try dating outside your comfort zone.  Ask women out that you don't think you'd be attracted to at first.
839440
You're the type of guy who seems to have all the qualities that really count. And when the right one comes along, she will LOVE you for them. And thats all that will matter.   I think mostly you're just going to have to believe in yourself and have faith that theres a woman out there for you...and be patient, thats a big key...and the lady who finally gives you a chance is going to love those qualities.  It seems physical appearance is halfway to mostly important right away...but its all those qualities you listed that matter once the relationship begins. Anyone worth your time will agree. \nSome ladies do have that bad boy attraction...but if you change yourself for that you may just miss a great one out there who wants someone like you and not a bad boy. \nWe like someone who can make us laugh, but doesn't have to try hard to do it...someone who does cute things for us - but not excessively..\nSomeone who CARES about her feelings and shows it by listening and trying to understand.. \n and being honest is big..dependable is big...all those qualities you have are key for a long term relationship. So once 'the one' finally comes along..  I believe your relationship will go far because if you're really how you said..those are the things that matter.   So just believe you're worth it...shes out there.\n\nby the way all those ASSHOLES who answered up above saying women just want money and you have to trick us...those are the losers who know women SO LITTLE that is why they are bitter and single. Don't listen to that CRAP
830289
Have you tried talking to her and ask her out?  If not, I suggest you do that and if she turns you down (which won't be the end of the world) then you know she wasn't interested in you for whatever reason. You seem like a confident person by the way you describe yourself so why do you take those good attributes that you have and respect her decision and move on to someone else- There's alot of fish in the sea!!! Good Luck!!!
106583
Stop being so silly.  If you're attracting a girl that things its "cool" or "sexy" that you're a "bad boy" then you're probably just attracting the wrong type of girl. Long term, wouldn't you rather have someone that really cares about you and enjoys you for just being you?  Wouldn't you rather be with someone who you don't have to entertain to keep them around?  Trust me, you'll be much happier with a gal who wants to laugh at your silly jokes and smiles at you when you're being really genuine.  Be yourself, and don't risk a criminal record just to get a girl to like you.  She probably won't stick around in the long run anyway, and look at what you might have lost if you had spent all that time trying to impress some girl.  \n\nOn the other hand, if she's a quality girl and you really do like her, then take your chances by confessing to her that you've got a crush, and you keep trying to impress her with your trouble-making, but that your real hope is that she's crushing on you too.  You might just find that she's attracted to you and NOT the trouble your causing.  Maybe she's trying to show you, "hey, I like you. Even if you're causing trouble."  Talk to her, ask her, and don't be scared.  Girls like guys that are honest, and if you are able to communicate your interest in her, she'll most likely be really impressed!  Good luck and keep us updated!  Oh, and stay out of trouble. Jail is NO FUN!
1149010
For women it isn't all about the looks.  A little extra weigh makes you a teddy bear to some girls.  Just keep your chin up and look for someone who matches your personality.  Be romantic and sweet and you will find a nice girl.  Good Luck!!
185193
Don't be so dependent.  If it works out with her, then it does.  If it doesn't, don't worry there are more women looking for a good guy.  Hopefully you can communicate better than you spell.  Intelligence goes a long way, unless you date stupid girls..
921215
i think you were attracted to her because she grows different comapred from her childhood.\nif you love her, don't make the temptation lead in your mind. face the reality. god is watching us and he knows what we are doing. if you can't hold it, live it to the god because he find way to put you in right situation. just pray.\n\nin addition : i think you are a good guy. god give you a trial to confirm that good guy still exist in this world.\nif i'm right, hope my becoming bf is like you.
659890
Dude listen, get the book "the system". It works, women love cocky and funny guys. If you find yourself interested in someone, treat them as you would your little sister. It drives women crazy!!!!
427112
Just ask!! Confidence is key. Even if she isnt attracted to you, she might get attracted to you because of the fact that you had enough confidence to ask. Or she might think of you as a potential friend and you'll gain a friend. My advice: ask! even if things dont work out, you'll gain confidence for the next time. :-)
1038938
Don't know why that seems to be the case, but it is.  There are more immature, insecure young women in this world with self-esteem problems than those who are not.  But you probably have much higher standards than that anyway and you may have been saved from a fate worse than death.\n\nMany desirable women are looking for someone just like you to come along -- trust me on this.  Just keep livinig!
715802
First of all there is more to a women then her body. If you want a girlfriend you have to get up some nerve. By what you wrote, with you moving and all, I don't think now is a good time for you. Why don't you get moved, work on your self-esteem, and find someone in your new home town! There are beautiful women everywhere!
879047
Not all girls are. But you have to ask yourself, are you superficial.  A lot of guys in your position look for a hot chick, when there could be a perfect girl for you that isn't the most beautiful or the skinniest.  If you aren't superficial then you'll find her eventually. If you are, prepare for heartbreak.
14275
It could be because you just haven't found the right person yet. I know, I know, it sounds totally cliche, but I'm 22 and have a similar problem. The best advice anyone has given me is to just focus yourself and what you want in life and the right person will come along.