What can i do about a girl my husband was talking to and now she wont leave him alone. He has told her 2 time.
443484
He needs to change his numbers. And you need to confront this girl.  Tell her that he is your HUSBAND and you both agree that you want to work out your marriage, and that your plans do not include her.  If she keeps harrassing you, call the police.  There are all kinds of charges (Harrassment, unlawful use of telephone) she can be slapped with
656660
I would stick by my words.\nYou have warned her, that if she did do it again you would tell well she is holding you to it.\nShe has done it and you never told on her.\nI find if you cannot trust the person you love then move on till you find that one to trust.\nHonesty is the best policy! \nAnd look at what she is doing to you! \nAre you not feeling guilty for holding this in.\nI bet she is not! \nSo do the right thing by you and you friend and tell ! \nLove & Blessings \nMilly
300436
Your man needs to tell her to back off.  That is his job.  He should be making you feel secure and happy.  Tell him to get her out of his life.....now!!
502091
There is nothing you can do.  You have to just be there to pick up the peices when she realizes what he is doing to her.  I say this because I have been in this situation many times, and she will eventually realize that he is just using her.  She needs you to be supportive of her decisions, and not to critical or she won't come to you when she needs to talk to someone. \nTrust me when I say she will truly realize that you only want the best for her, but you need to let her make her own mistakes.\nGood Luck!
136609
She shouldn't accept his excuses once, far less ten times. She may be loving and faithful to him but his actions clearly demonstrate that he does not share similar sentiments toward her. She needs to be loving and faithful to herself first. After ten times of cheating this is a habit for him and he's not going to change and she's just hanging around waiting on heartache if she stays.
134613
Tell him you are sorry and that you will never do that kind of a thing again. Never involve yourself with married people. Think about it this way. What if someone else interfered in you blissful marriage and spoilt it. Ask for her forgiveness and stay clear from such entanglements.
975713
It is better that she knows now what he is really like.  If he really did love her he would have never cheated on her.  The only thing I know that you can do for sure is to offer moral support, and try to keep her mind off of what just went down.  But be sure you don't get in the middle of things.  I know that you don't want her to get her feelings hurt but I am telling you that if you get too involved in this situation you will live to regret it.  You might even get blamed for some of the things that happened even though you didn't have anything to do with it.  I know from personal experience from my best friend and then I said some bad things about someone who is now his wife.  A really has created a real burden and hardship on our friendship and we have been friends for a long long time.  So just give her all the support that you can and try just to listen to her but if she asked for some advice be really careful on what you might say because it might backfire.
900711
well first thingsfirast how does he really know that he could lose her to the other guy second of all why ask her to stop doing thisif this is what she loves to do so much and sounds likes she good at it to and here we go again why does he want ababy does he really want one or is this just a trap to get her to stop well he should have a heart to heart talk with her and then maybe she will listen good luck
479545
I am concerned over the fact that he doesn't want her to say anything to anyone.  To me, that screams out that he has another girlfriend.  Sounds like he is cheating on another girl...there is no other reason to keep their relationship secret.
345310
Tell him how you feel about him talking to this chick.  If he still talks to her, then dump him.  You two were together before he knew her.  So after ya'll got back together he shouldn't be talking with her anymore.  That's lack of respect.
912839
Hopefully your husband wants your help and isn't putting out signals to attract this type of attention.  That's another whole problem altogether.\n\nBut what I would do if this is just some ordinary floozy putting the moves on your guy--and I've seen this done very well--is to go up to them and join the conversation with the attitude conveying complete confidence that you are welcome in the conversation.  HE will welcome you, right, even if she won't?  Maybe put your arm around your husband.  If he becomes standoffish, again, that's a problem; he needs to welcome you into the conversation.\n\nThen be sweet as pie to her.  Ask her about herself.  Take an interest.  Never betray that you are anything but completely assured of your wonderful relationship with your husband.  Ideally, bore her with prattle until she leaves on her own (getting her to excuse herself from you two is the best way, it's a much stronger position than walking away).  It doesn't matter if she's interested in you, believe me, in fact, use the fact that she isn't!  Then stay nearby your husband in case she comes back.  If you can't bore her to death, you and hubby will have to excuse yourself from her company and move on.  \n\nIf she gets too pushy or nasty to you personally, say something very pointed in a very nice tone (like "peddle your wares to someone who's interested, honey").  But never, NEVER get bitchy.  It's beneath you.
189177
Do you talk to other guys? Just because he talks to another woman doesn't mean he's cheating on you. Just ask him who she was if your that worried.
317674
The advice that i would give is that her husband should respect her and love her enough that he would not be communicating with females he would play the games against males.I am a female and if my man was chatting like that with another woman I would feel disrespected Its not that I don't trust him because I do,but it is a respect issue. I myself chat but if I find out that it is a male I do not chat with that person anymore because I have respect for my man. I guess what im saying is she needs to ask her husband not to chat with females out of respect for her. \n\n                  Good luck I  hope this helps
677141
You have a right to be pissed.  Make it clear if he is planning on talking to this girl again he better tell you first and it better be for a good reason.  Unfortunately I know how close a group of old friends can be and if he isn't lying then what he did isn't that bad except he should have told you first.  Beyond that your only other option is leaving him but if everything else is good in your relationship that seems like a pretty silly step.
949683
I was actually in this situation. I told my sister that I saw her husband kissing a girl in his work place. She called me a liar and didn't speak to me for a year. She called me to come and get her and her son. She was pregnant and he had run off to California with the same girl I saw him with. So if this person were to tell his sister, he needs to be prepared to take some punishment.
1083572
no you told him if you keep trying it will turn him off from you just let him make his own decisons because obviously he knows she cheated so he just leave it beanyway but he doesnt want to he will have to learn the hard way it takes that for some of us but he is only hurting his self. It will never trust her again anyway.
240952
If it were me (which it's not) I would keep my mouth shut.  But you just have to think about what you would do if you were in her shoes.  Would you want someone to tell you or what?  Women generally have a "gut feeling" when their man has been cheating, so it's possible that she already knows and just doesn't want to admit it to herself.  Talking to him is definantly a good idea.  But why would he cheat and then ask her to move with him.  Maybe you can plant a guilt trip on him and he'll tell her.  But I think it's his place to spill the beans!  Good Luck!