Relationships & Ultra Dev?
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If you have the ability to enter a direct SQL statement into UltraDev when you are binding this data, your SQL statement would look something like this:\n\nSELECT a.*, b.* FROM troubleshootingtable a INNER JOIN servertable b ON a.servernamecolumn = b.servernamecolumn WHERE a.recordidcolumn= 'recordid'\n\nIn the statement above:\n\nReplace "troubleshootingtable" with the name of the troubleshooting table\n\nReplace "servertable" with the name of the table that holds your server info\n\nReplace "servernamecolumn" with the names of the columns that hold your server names. For example, if that's called server in the troubleshooting table, then a.servernamecolumn would be changed to a.server; if it's called servername in the servers table, you'd change b.servernamecolumn to b.servername\n\nReplace "recordidcolumn" with the name of the primary key column in your troubleshooting table.\n\nReplace "recordid" with the name of the variable you will be using to get the right record.\n\nIf this doesn't help, follow up and I will try to clarify.
181590
I play KoL and I am addiccted to it. Right now I'm in hardcore so I'm taking it slow. My player number is #465599. And I want a Mr.A... alot... they're so shiny...
191999
great communication and commitment. having a good, Strong relationship is a lot of hard work!
1068036
Behave yourselvs at work and carry on with work as usual.  Romance out of the premises.  I did that and kept a secret for 2 years, people just thought we were friends.
1051202
Relationships are always tough. I have found that the way to make them last is to not worry about the longevity. If all we did was focus on when something was going to end, why bother starting? At any rate if you have a good thing going cherish it. If something goes wrong with your mate, try and help them as best you can. Remember some of the best things about being in a relationship are not only sharing good times but having someone there for you in the bad. And if the relationship doesn't work, cherish that, you experienced something, which is better than nothing at all.
496798
I was married for 20 years...got to the whole "'til death do you part" portion of the deal.  He was my absolute best friend, husband, lover...soulmate.  I do believe that in long term relationships there is no gray area, you either grow together, or you grow apart.  I have become who I am because of the life we shared and by having to survive his death...I am stronger, more independent, and hopefully one hell of a mother because of it all.
264827
Lifetime partner? That's kinda flaky. . . come back and ask again when you can ask what the responsibilities of married couples are.
384678
Aah classic commitment phobia. Your both so scared of being vunerable and saying you want to be with each other that you're pretending it's ok to see other people. What you need to ask yourself is this? Is this really the type of future relationship you want, with two people not able to say how they feel. Either become a couple or leave each other alone. Believe me i've been in a situation like this and no matter how cool and trendy you think you're both being a relationship goes no where, without some honesty.
824852
Good on ya mate!  I love to hear that there are some long term relationships out there.  I've got 26 years in mine and there have been some tough times....and it looks like more on the horizon.  But I am optimistic.  We've made it this far.......I'm sure we can handle this storm like we have all the others.
562739
Heck Yeah...have you ever heard of "Love at First Site"!  It sounds like you took time to know this person and that is a good thing.  Congrats if you are really in love and double Cudos' if the love is reciprocated...
529862
Communication & patience. Always be open about how you feel and be willing to work out the problems that come along, because there will always be problems, no matter who you're with. But if you're both on the same page about what you want and are willing to give what the other needs, you will be able to conquer anything. Love is not enough, it takes work! :)
991541
everything they disclose is all illusional,nothing is real, its all virtual and you are just engaging in a virtual relationship,so exercise extreme caution at all times............sorry i don't want to sound like a lecturer but its a fundamental fact.There's no way you can verify their info. so keep a distance ,act virtual yrself just like them,thats the rule out there buddy!Its human nature,no one would truly like to disclose their character flaws,if it hardly happens in real life,how the heck can you expect it to happen virtaully?!!!!............but people hardly are complete without some kind of a character flaw,don't you think?
883492
I know a couple where he's in the RAF and the wife is a civvy. They are about to move onto a base and the wife is a bit daunted too  - anything new is scary - she's a bit worried that she doesn't know how all the ranks work and stuff but I know she'll get on fine coz she's a nice, friendly funny outgoing person - probably just like you! \n\nI would say, just go with the flow and treat everyone as potential friends regardless of status. Your partner will probably meet up with people he knows from previous tours or courses and things and you've got a foot in with making friends with his friends partners.\n\nLike any group of people, you might not get on with everyone you meet but you've at least got something in common with them all, as well as being neighbours.\n\nGood luck!
495222
YO, MAN THANKS FOR UR INPUT, BUT LIKE U SAID, JUST TALK  2 HER AND SEE HOW IT GOES, G2G HIT ME UP L8TR AND TELL ME HOW IT GOES.
988266
Hey, just like you said to me, friendships are a great foundation for relationships. i live in england anyways lol. bt really, if you have feekings for a person, dont be afraid expressing them, and always be ready to say positive things, because that is what drives people together. Good Luck!
772134
As far as a marriage relationship, two should take time with lots of questions, endurance. Friendships they come and go, it just depends if your in it for the fame or fun. Yet, the ultimate relationship, is the one that lasts. It can only be obtained through (Agape Love). "Go Figure!"
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singles & dating.\n[[under family & relationships]]