how do u keep a relationship goin?????
454191
By constantly trying new things and having good times.
453660
Stop taking each other for granted.  Say thank you more.  Notice each other more.  Candle-lit dinner.  Weekend away.  Picnic in the park.  Flowers.  Bath together.  \n\nAll this helps things to go well, but you can't make him want you more.
20149
Get to know each other and take it from there.  And let your heart and feelings guide you in your decisions about your relationship. And be yourself you might as well start now so you don't have to be someone you're not just to make them happy.
817989
well...ur situation is just like mine now..lol\njust think carefully....do u still wnat this relationship to continue?
490133
Just be honest. And learn to let go if he doesnt respond. Being cool or being sexy doesnt help holding on to a man, you can just have one for some time. Honesty sure works.
171698
definitely try to communicate!! it will probably help your relationship, but, even if it doesn't, it'll help YOU in the future, trust me.
69757
Stick with it. \n\nBut more importantly, enjoy yourself. Guys come and go. Eventually one will stay longer than the others. But no one is around forever. \n\nYou only have yourself to rely on and you are the only one who will ever fully understand you, so don't put too much stock in your relationships.\n\nEnjoy them while they last.
753623
Try to spice things up by being spontaneous, but if you honestly don't start to feel something then its time to move on. A relationship can't work if you're bored with the person, and if you are still bored after trying to be spontaneous then you should let her knoe because it wouldn't be fair to either one of you to stay in a boring relationship.
580827
Married or not, yes, you should set up dates on occasion.\nEvery week? No.  When it works out? Yes.\nIt is important Not to let your relationship go stale.  Dates, or impromptu meetings for lunch are nice too.\nFor instance, call your mate and work out a quick meeting for lunch, or Even before work, Go to breakfast.  Keep things going and keep thing fresh, and you will have a good chance of keeping your relationship healthy.
1113393
Continue with this relationship and see if it gets better.\n\nI wish you love\nstw
241431
Be Open and Honest with him, tell him how you feel..communication is essential in any type of relationship romantic or otherwise so talk to him and make him understand that you care but, that the two of you have all the time in the world and there is no need for rushing into anything. take your time and don't be pushed into anything that your not ready for. Follow your heart and instinct. Good Luck!
991510
That's a tough one, maybe you two can hang out and try to avoid conversations that will stir up feelings from the previous relationship, but then it will seem like they are avoiding the situation, so maybe the best policy is to talk about whatever has happened and ask the person how do they think they can move forward. Maybe they may say they need sometime to themselves or something, or maybe you can suggest to them that they take up a hobby, like exercising, or jogging or something like that. Hope this helps!!!
852920
So what is stopping you? If you get into the heat of things, then just let go a little bit and let the hands wonder. It will come to you. You are right about not wanting it to hold your relationship up, so just relax some and let things happen. Be sure to make sure you want it though. Good luck and relax. That is the important part.....SAM
343081
I know this is probably not the answer you are looking for, and I don't know your age... but you are probably still young.  Just take a break.  Normally if you keep getting together and breaking up over and over... well it's most likely not going to last anyways.  If you are young, remember you are going to have TONS of relationships.. and first thing is first... if you 2 have trust issues IT WILL NOT LAST.  You need to be with someone who you trust and who can trust you, the first sign of trust issues is when you need to back out.  You should have fun and not stay committed to just 1 person for a long time (if you are young)  Go have fun.. and you will know when that one guy comes along that he is for keeps!  I went through rough relationship after rough relationship.. and then one day I met my husband!  And I have been happy eversince.  But also remember, learn from these relationships you are currently in and going to encounter... they will help you in the future when it comes to finding your TRUE LOVE!
617810
no one ever knows how to move on. Thats the worst thing about realationships. Just keep yourself busy and stay away from places where that person might be. Dont call and hang up. Dont call and ask for your stuff. Just so fouced on life in general.
803329
You must stay busy, busy, busy.  Do your best not to think about him and keep your mind occupied with other things.  Hang out with your friends and family.  It will take time but you will eventually be able to move on.  Good Luck.
375107
what about you?  what about what you want and need in the relationship.  Cut out the "physical relations", tell him what you need out of the relationship, and see how long he sticks around.  Then you'll have your answer