what should i do about 2 loves?
445436
Having both is impossible,but you can do one thing,make a small test, give them both the oportunity to show how much you mean to each one, try unembaressing ways,the financial part maybe, or even how much one can sacrifice for you, this would be a test were you can pick the right person for you...after all you want someone To live with you happily didecating his life for your relationship,,i hope i was clear. best luck
1107778
Obviously if you have two then your not ready for a real relationship....when you really like someone then you want to be only with them......i mean how would you like it if you were being played........thats not fair and people do have feelings and get hurt.....rememeber "karma".....so be careful what you do.....
515100
although you seem to be going through a lot of pain, and i do feel for you, the problem  is still the same...you want two wives! can't do that man, sorry. there is no way that you can fully love two people the same. you have to let one of them go. you might not think it's fair to you, but that's selfish. have you ever thought about what the women want? stop being selfish and let one of them move on and find someone who is willing to be with only them.
921912
toss-up.....this s a way...\n\nwell,,,You dont need cancel one of them...its possible to go on with both of them....\n\nif you want to desire gf with one,,,you need to think which one sexy....Thats all....
616296
The most smart thing 2 do would prolly b 2 leave em cuz dat sayn "once a cheater alwayz a cheater" but errebody iz diffrent...But wen u love sumbody it ain't as easy as errebody say...But if u love him & wanna give it anotha try id say go 4 it cuz errebody deserve A 2nd chance but don lisin 2 nebody follow ya heart gurl do watchu feel iz rite!
679461
that is a very difficult question i think you need to do what is right and stop before u hurt someone including yourself. just either choose one or let both go it will be the best in the long run
1119027
I know most people will tell you no, but I think it is possible to care deeply for more than one person, and isn't caring deeply about someone what love is about? However, the problem here is that if you truly love both people, you will have to come to accept the cold truth: you will have to hurt one or both. If you love them both, then this will be a difficult decision. If you don't choose, though, you will hurt both people by default. I would think that you would want to save the love of one person, instead of losing both, so you had better come to a decision before it's too late. My recommendation would be to save the 11 year relationship. At least you know that love has staying power, but what about this new one - will it only be thrilling when it's new?
764668
well i don't like 3sums i think that its wrong cuz you should have 1 lover and that's all. but hey that's my opinion, uhmm so yeah but if i was in your situation i would do what you were going to do trust them first then talk to them about it. well yeah Peace Out
557910
Say you are sorry for your mistake on dating him before. Cry for a drama. Explain that this is the best for both of you. Find something that you don't like. Never raise your voice. They will appreciarte you if you say it gently. If you really like the second, it's okay. I understand the matter of hearts problem.
409976
i understand you might love the first guy, but if he doesn't feel the same then move on, and love this other guy, you should let it go and follow your heart.  yes you might not love the 2nd like the 1st but not all love is the same.  You will probably always think about the love you had for the first guy, but the key thing here is that he doesn't feel the same, and you can't make someone love you.
779624
Don't screw them both. Take a time and think all over. There are going to be consequences whatever you do. How you can handle is you.
463790
Find someone else who will deserve my love and affection. I won't accept any other relationship that he has whether it is a fling or a serious thing or a one-night thing!\n\nHow will I deal with it? Ditch him and find another.
898935
Sounds like you are being used.  Love can be blinding.  You need to let her go, she is not the only woman in the world.  But if you keep treating her as "Ms. Universe" she will keep treating you the same way.  You said she is obsessed with another guy.  Let her go because you are obsessed with her.  Maybe if the other guy hurts her, then she will rebound to you, but any man with pride would leave hear alone under any circumstances.  But if you love her and you can't live without her, tell her and if she decides she wants the other guy, let her go!!!
1121244
just listen to them both...... but thats the best you can do, do not suggest anything cuz they must be responsible for their own actions..... you dont want to take responsibility of being a home wrecker... do not at anytime suggest that they breakup with their existing partner and try each other out..... cuz they might blame you for the disasterous results\njust ask them to talk to each other and sort things out for themselves.....\n\ngood luck
863416
go with your heart, it sounds like the second one has more of the same life style as you do, go for him.
862153
Run!  Ditch the pair of them and find somebody worth your time.
870773
You have to have two to have a relationship...It seems more like an arrangement. Are you happy? Then break it off and go find someone that will treat you as you deserve. BTW...If David told you that you are too nice and he's trying to get you to think about your "relationship"...I'll bet money (if he's single) that he's just waiting for you to make up your mind.