If a woman doesnt have any orgasm during sex...?
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Most women don't have an orgasm without direct clitoral stimulation.It doesn't mean that sex isn't enjoyable.
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Most women who have trouble with orgasming have problems with the strength of the muscles of the vaginal wall.  Even when they do orgasm, it isn't very intense and it's hard to tell.\n\nA healthy woman though will have strong muscles.  When she orgasms, these muscles squeeze down on you hard.\n\nIf your woman doesn't do this, get her one of these and have her strengthen her muscles.  You'll be very glad you did:\n\nhttp://www.kegelmaster2000.com/
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There body will contract. Literally contract. Forget about noises - they can be fake. But honestly, when a female orgasms, her entired body will contract.
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This sounds like a situation your girl needs to work out herself.  And I do mean by herself, she needs to really masterbte (I spelled it wrong so it wouldn't get bleaped out).  Maybe she could drink a little, (just to relax, like 2 beers or a glass of wine) and by herself in a dark room at night just before she will go to sleep, she should really get intouch with what all her stuff is like down there.  Any time a child is restricted from exploring their genitals they tend to disconnect with how good it feels to be touched there.  So your girl needs to re-explore her parts.  Most women are not sexually arroused by the first touch...it's dry, fingers are a little rough, and it takes TIME to find the right softness/ pressure that is neccsary.  Sometimes masterbting is a work out, you have to build up.  Also, at the top center where all the folds kinda come together is the clit.  All the penis like feelings of orgasm that she can get will come from there.  Like a penis head it wants smooth wet, but not to slippery, friction.  Also like the penis it gets hard.  Above the clit running vercically (up and down) there is a blood vessel like tube, also like the part that makes a penis erect, which can fill with blood raising itself and the clit making them "hard".  No orgasm will be accomplished without this happening to some degree.  However, unlike men women dont get "hard" at just the thought of sex.  A women has to feel comfortable, relaxed, free with her body, all body parts of a woman can be building up to getting her "hard".  If your girl can lay alone and think maybe about if her hands were your hands.  Tell her before then how much you love her body and rub her whole body gently and tell her she has soft yummy skin and kiss it, etc.  Then she could be more free with where she touches cause the night before or whatever you touch her all over and were clearly thinking loving thoughts and so she can go back to that and use her own hands to do the next thing that feels good.  I really beleive that she can do it.  But remember you have to change it up what feels good to get hard wont do the trick to get off.  You know you cant just wiggle a litlle and go, you got to work it up and end with a grand finale.  P.S. never forget the nipples!
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According to Kinsey, only 15-25% of women can reach orgasm through penetration alone, so, she's not too weird...\nTry a simultaneous G-spot/or@l, see if that works...
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(sigh)....70% of women do not achieve orgasm with penetration alone.  Our sex organ is our clitoris, which requires stimulation....if I had a dollar for every time I've typed this....(sigh)....I put my hand down there and do it myself during sex....One-it assures me that I get off...Two-Guys think it's hot anyway.
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Only if your woman says you are. She might be sore after 2 hours, and not having any pleasure at all, or she might be loving it. \n\nWomen are a case by case basis, none is the same. I would say if a consensus of your lovers say you are good, then you are. Even without such physical traits and stamina a man can please a woman just by asking what she likes, and trying to make it happen. Not all women have an easy time getting to an orgasm, so don't let that be the sole factor that you base your performance on..
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Maybe she is having a low sex drive right now and do you spice things up in the bedroom and make things exciting for her???? Talk to her and see why she feels this way and also suggest to her maybe seeing a doctor or sex therapist. She could be having affairs too!
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All women are different.  Some women orgasm in a few minutes and there are some who have never had an orgasm.  About the guy finishing first ... that depends on what you do.  some guys like to get the girl off before they finish off.  Others get the guy off first and then work on the girl.  But do whatever you and your partner feel comfortable with, relax, and have a good time!
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definitely try to bring her to her orgasm first,u go afterwards...that good in lot of ways--thats a good way to preserve your stamina,and thats a good sign that you care about her and you are The Giving Kind.
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Women respond to sex differently than men.  Find out what her favorite parts of sex are pay attention to them.  I myself, don't even START thinking about my own orgasm until I have satisfied her at least once.  If she's not enjoying it, it might be that you're not putting her needs first.  Believe me, you do that, she'll be MORE than happy to make you happy.
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everyone is different.Some women never orgasm at all.Some women only orgasm through external stimulation some only through penetration.You just got lucky. Wish it was that easy for me
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It might just be the intimacy that satisfies you. You can have great sex without an orgasm. Who ever tells you different obviously doesn't know the meaning of intimate feelings. Of course its always great to orgasm, once in a while great sex without one is OK.
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Some women have a hard time reaching climax. Once you figure out the most effective way to bring her to climax she'll want it all the time. She might not know what she's missing. Some women go their whole lives without having an orgasm. Try watching lesbian porn to see how they give each other oral sex, then try it on your girl friend.
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You'll be one of those sad sad women who never orgasm.  \n\nIn order to come during sex you have to figure out how to make yourself come.  That means you need to spend some quality time with your right hand (or left if you're a leftie) and your brain.  Think about what YOU like, what turns YOU on, and how it makes YOU feel.  It has been my experiance that women who do not orgasm do so because they have no idea what they even like.  They see sex as something you do for someone or with someone, not something you do for yourself.\n\nBuy books on the subject, from fantasies to anatomy to technique.  Get a hand mirror and check yourself out down there.  Look at internet porn.  Read some erotica or Harlequin romance novels.  Spend a lot of quality time with your hand between your legs.  Think about buying a vibrator.  Learn the shower head trick.  Take mental notes on what works and what does not.  \n\nYou have to take a certain ammount of responsibility for your own sexual pleasure.  You're the only one who can make it happen.
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Many women haven't reach orgasm for a long period\n of time and they moan to convince their body that they  are enjoying the act even if they are not, in-order to reach orgasm.
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Your technique may not be pleasing her.  Remember it takes a woman approximately 20 minutes to reach orgasm and only 5 to 10 minutes for a man.