How Do I Survive This?
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Hmmm...sounds like you ARE 'worth' it, but she sure as h*ll ISN'T !!!! If she truly loved you she would support you and wait (seems at least you were trying to get things finished w/your ex) If she 'cheated' then and then turned around and did it again, then she ALWAYS will. You may love HER, but she doesn't love YOU. The hardest thing to do is to 'see' someone you love for who/what they truly are. I had to go thru it w/mine. I loved her and even asked her to marry me; she said no and less than 6wks later married someone else. (found out last week he left and they're going to be divorcing) Also found out after we broke up her nickname from the small-town she lived in was 'the town wh0re' (nice huh ?!) sure you'll probably find out petty much the same thing.....(sorry!) Don't waste your time on someone who won't give you theirs. \n\nHere's the other 'donwside' finding a good woman is about like going on a quest for a unicorn ( we've HEARD they exist; supposedly beautiful, magical, etc; some believe in them; none have been reported lately....... )\n\nTo get a divorce, things must have been bad with the ex-wife; and now then this..!!! Get a Harley, forget about women for a while and enjoy life ! Everything happens for a reason. Her f*cking everyone ELSE happened now, so that you won't have to go thru that later. \n\nIt sucks dude! Been there! you have my complete sympathy!\n\nHang in there.
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Find a support group.  Get to know your neighbors and other members of the community either online or personally on your free time.  Going through a crisis such as this is tough, but it can be made easier by having people to discuss matters with.  The thought of having a regular set of people to take your mind off the situation at home allows you to not wallow too much on a situation that you have no other choice but to deal with ... think "Desperate Housewives" ;)
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be there for them and tell them its not worth it, i went through this with some friends too, but all they needed were reasons to survive, and i gave them some, jusst talk to them and be there 4 them, and let them know guys are jerk's, and no man is worth your tears, and the one who is wont make you cry!!!!!!!! hope everything works out!
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Listen to Sassy.Also you can look on your own.\nIn the meantime try to control yourself,don't lash out at her when she makes one of her digs. It sounds like you are\nboth decent people stuck in a tough situation. Don't let\nwords be spoken that can't be taken back-suck it up,take a deep breath,leave the room if you have to.When you have your\nown place it'll be easier to get along and repair the damage.Good luck and remember you're both human.
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I stay calm..stop!!!breath slowly..access the situation..react  appropriately..ie..don't scream O MY GOD!!!Because you see the dog eating the cat food.. If  you lose it , all around you will lose it .. stay in control and all around you will do the same.. Don't Panic..That's how people get killed..
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Think to yourself that you will never live this day again the clock is ticking for all of us....take a deep breath, open your eyes and go get some life. There is nothing to be scared of out there.
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Unless you can find a kind soul to take you in off the streets your chances of a happy existence are really not good. You need some stability in order to complete you education, which you won't be able to do if you are scrounging to find food and shelter all the time. Try to withstand the mental abuse for a little while longer until you are ready to strike out on your own. Seek family counseling, I bet lots of people can assist you in finding help. Running away should be your very last resort.
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just keep breathing. That's the most important thing.
108297
Pray to God for His help and you can't go wrong.\nGod will help you in any situation you have.
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Just confront your fear. Go on stage and do something... stay there as long as you have to, you would be temped to leave but don't you have to say there until you're calm down. Fear can only last so much
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try looking at the skirts and blouses last. maybe take a cooking class, joining the theater class. Put yourself in the middle of the fear. things will get better.
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It's totally up to YOU whether or not you survive having Depression. YOU are the one in CONTROL not anyone else. \n\nYOU have to be PRO-ACTIVE in your survival. Learn as much as you can on the subject. Consult your doctor. Make it a TEAM effort with your doctor. Do this for YOU!\n\nSleeping makes me clear headed during the day. It's the NIGHTS that get me going. Can't sleep worth anything. Toss & turn all night long.
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Im very sorry but I only have 2 advice for you...\n\n1.) LIVE YOUR OWN LIFE...\n2.) DECIDE WITH BOTH HEART AND MIND IN EVERYTHING YOU DO...
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how you cope i will never now
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stay clam and do your best. Good luck.
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Big hugs coming your way!  I can't imagine going through that.  All I suggest is keep yourself busy with friends..keep your mind occupied, and don't take sides.  Good luck and smile, things will get easier in time!
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Oh Lotte, you will not survive, you will THRIVE, sistah!!\n\nrelease your husband , release your guilt, get to know yourself again and embrace your future and all it's possibilities!!\n\nit will take time, some days will still be sad, but you'll be happy again before you know it.\n\ni am living the same thing right now, i know it sucks. just keep walking...