if a guy usually says i g2g on IM does that mean he really gots to go or he doesn't want to talk?????
449749
probably both. don't stress over it.
901421
Words are cheap.  Obviously his actions are speaking much louder than his words...\n\nSounds like he said just what you wanted to hear so he could get into your pants..  Once conquered he has lost interest.  You are a notch on his belt.\n\nI'm sorry this happened to you.  Move on and learn from your mistake.
636907
In the same boat with ya miss lady. My guy is overseas though. It's difficult because they figure once they 'got you' they don't have to keep trying, but interest can be lost at any point and he has to do his part to keep you happy as well. An email, phone call, text message, hey...even a post card is just a simple and quick way to say 'hey, I may be busy, but your are on my mind and I want you to know that." It doesn't take much for someone to make you feel like a million bucks. But lack of communication leads to loss of interest which makes you distant from him mentally as well as physically. He needs to step his A-Game up. You should worry a little, but I've noticed with men, you have to constantly TELL them what you want, unlike women we think back to the last point of our conversation before things went downhill. Men move on and don't worry, just send him a signal that he should worry and that you are losing interest on his part. Be subtle and smooth with it, he'll get the picture, nothing major to make him overly jealous but a red flag to get his heart beating a little so he'll know you might be out of his grasp if he continues....Good luck miss lady!
925612
It's obvious that he flaked in this case.\n\nBut, don't be overly critical or judgemental of this action of his --- he probably needs time to resolve his internal issues.\nTry not to bite off his head too much, but do let him know (subtly, if possible) that such kind of conduct is not appreciated.\n\nAnd bear in mind, this DOESN'T mean that he has ditched you. So, keep at it!
495222
YO, MAN THANKS FOR UR INPUT, BUT LIKE U SAID, JUST TALK  2 HER AND SEE HOW IT GOES, G2G HIT ME UP L8TR AND TELL ME HOW IT GOES.
721765
he's probably trying not to loose you (for now) by telling you he's leaving.  if he tells you he's leaving he has to deal with hurting and leaving you.  by not telling you he avoids that. you're gonna be hurt when he leaves either way. he might be trying to hang on to you for now. he may just be protecting feelings.
478906
I do not know what you are talking about. If a man tries to talk to you and you tell them that you are involved or not interested, you become a snob. Sometimes womwn are just not interested!!
814716
yea well usualy this would mean he lieks u-dose he ask about how your day was? if he acts intrested in your life then definitly---otherwise u know somtiems guys r jus phone talkers....ask him next time he calls if he is much of a phone person.....ask inconspicuasly if he says no then it means he likes u if yes he might still it depends on the guy if he is a shyguy definitly he likes u no amtter what cuz they don call gurls less the like em\nhope it works out for ya!\nAlways\n`Ally
737556
did ur frn say something to him?.. or may be just got bored??? but my dear online frns???.. trust me and i speak from exp... don't waste a sec more on him....move on ....
731059
maybe hes nervous, if you guys haven't been going out long i wouldn't worry about it. I know a lot of guys who don't really like to talk on the phone that much anyways guys don't really talk much on the phone so i don't think there's much to worry about, good luck
885652
He basically means he's not interested in YOU. \nTrust me, if he was, he would jump at the opportunity and hook up with you before someone else does. But he said it clearly, he's just not into you.
154112
Well, you must remember most guys are lazy when it comes to phone conversations. They like to talk in person. It seems to be a good feeling to have the girl present when conversating. Now, if you keep calling and he doesn't answer, then it means he was "playing" you girl. Though you must consider the fact that he's probably afraid of losing a wonderful girl like you and he wants to take things a little slow.  Give him some time.  Set a time to meet again and hang out a little more or have him plan things out with you.  He will eventually warm up to you and then you won't have to worry about phone calls because he'll be there by your side to conversate with you in person. Just remember that men are a bit slow. LOL. Be a little patient if he's worth the time. Sometimes, you might have to get to know the guy a little more to find his sweet self.
634191
What a jerk!!! You really need to stop trying.  Maybe once you stop trying he will wonder and come back...but I guarantee it will only be temporary.  If he were really a friend he would not do that to you.  I am SO sick and tired of players...that's what he is...a player and you don't need him.  I'm sure you have lots of other IM and Myspace friends to chat with...give it a couple weeks and you'll feel better about it...but I know it's hard!!!!  Hang in there and be strong. :)
1034049
Please don't read too much into his casual email or in-between his lines. Key words in his emails are "babe" , "wet kisses", "hugs" so this is definitely not a good-bye, or dump-you email to set you back in your heals. I am a guy so I can translate his guy lingo easily.. all he is saying is that he is not in a position to give you an opinion on your life or anything, either he does not have the knowledge or that you two are not a "couple" to decide on things together. So all he said is that ..."please decide as you wish, on anything that needs to be decided on. I am not yet in a position to advise you on your life" He must be at work or in a rush when we wrote that email coz he just did not pick his words carefully. Relationships have become a commodity these days and people forget the value of emotions and feelings. If you like this guy and if you think he is a keeper, let go of what he said, its a harmless guy lingo and don't read between the lines. Most likely he said this and forgot all about it already. so next time you meet he will be giving you all the wet kisses and hugs. Please don't fret on this or lose a guy over it.
732745
Girlfriend: there're 2 scenario's! Number 1 is he's playing you. Now I know you don't wanna hear this, but keep an open mind! He's either met someone his own age (or younger) that might not 'intimidate' him as much, or he's just being stupid. Second scenario: he really digs you, but he's too shy/afraid/clueless as to how to tell you this. (Let's both hope for your sake this is the true reason for his being distant...) Either way, keep your chin up, and your head open. Don't go losing your heart to this guy just yet... Good luck!
788627
Yeah, it sounds bad. He wanted to cut out quick, and that's good. You don't want him hanging around just to be polite, do you? The fact that he hasn't called yet, doesn't mean anything.. guys are not usually phone hounds like women are, but not coming in was the clincher.
934451
He probably means call him tomorrow, saying "call me" and meaning "go away" is more of a girl thing...guys usually mean it. It's kind of tricky because traditionally the guy is supposed to make the call but in this modern, freaky world calling a woman might get you labeled a stalker or something lol.