i got my ex's back and he ask me if he can live with me and he sleeps somewhere else?
445849
THAT IS MESSED UP. YOU SHOULD JUST CUT ALL TIES CAUSE IT SEEMS TO STILL BE AFFECTING YOU. SO JUST LET HIM GO
821614
he wants you back in his life thats why he wants to know what you are talking about
1171190
You can still care for him, but think about the reason why he is your ex.  And the fact that you haven't talked to each other since the breakup shows that there was obviously something wrong with the relationship.\n\nDon't waste your time dwelling on the past and wondering "what if..."\n\nLook to the future and think about your own needs.
379750
Can you ask your ex if he has it?  Would he answer you truthfully?  Otherwise I think you are out of luck.
908715
Call him and see where the two of you left of ask him if he still has the same feelings he had for you before you moved
132566
i think its okay if you're okay with it. do you want to go back to your ex?  if so, talk to him about it first. commmunication is key.
559556
IF YOU HAVE BROKEN WITH YOUR EX THEN USE\nCAN I HAVE MY THINGS BACK
279570
he might simply be missing your company and want to try being friend (one of my best friends is a guy i dated for 2 years) if he broke up with you...and now wants to get back...let him explain to you why he left you, and why he wants to get back together...from his answer, you should be able to tell if he's serious or not.  and then make him work for it...but be careful...if you're unreasonable, you might lose him again.  just make him think that you might have moved on by pretending to be busy.  don't just see him at a drop of a hat...ex. tell him you're busy today but maybe you can meet up tomorrow etc.
267419
Why is he your old boyfriend? There had to have been reasons for breaking up and if I were you, I would take that into account. Also, would you be moving in together or just near him? Is it economical for you to move, will you be able to work, find housing? I don't know, it just doesn't sound like something that you should do...find a new boyfriend, one that lives closer to you or one that would move to be near YOU!
789947
its possible he needed time away but i never have ever believed in breaking up then getting back together. if he did sleep with other women then know it was when you were broken up and trust him. if you cant get over it and live happy then its you with the problem.
1129279
Go sleep on his doorstep!...haha just kidding (sorry) I'd say keep yourself busy. Especially if he's not trying to contact you. Hang out with your friends, rent movies (not romantic ones), pick up a hobby you used to have, etc. Or do like I do, go dye your hair and get it cut in a new style. It always makes me feel like a million bucks and it's my ritual after a break up. It literally turns you into "a new person" and you feel prepared to face the world.
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When I got deployed I was lonely and called my x whom I broke up with cause she treated me bad. When I returned I realized I just needed a security blanket to get me through till I was in a familuar place again. Your his security blanket. He will be great till he gets back in his groove, then you'll be on the back burner again. Go for the other guy.
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Bigger question:  Do dreams really EVER mean anything, or are they just the brain's way of trying to make sense out of random electro-chemical reactions between synapses?\n\nBut, to answer your question:  Probably not.  There's a reason you broke up.  I'd focus on that rather than a dream.  (Aren't you glad that you are not pregnant with his child?)
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It looks to me, that when he got 'bored' with you he had no problem letting you go. Now, he is probably 'bored' again and seeing how you are making a life for yourself may want to get back with you and probably use you.\n\nI think that since you manage to live a whole year without him, you are better off like that. It looks like he likes to use woman, do not let him...
1161918
I'm sure that if things were reversed and  you were coming home at 1am every night, he would ask you were have you been.  You can ask him the question but you may not get a truthful answer.  Either way, he's being disrespectful towards you.  I wouldn't jump into this with accusations, but I certainly would want an explanation.  After wards, you have to decide if you can trust him, or not.  Remember this, if he is cheating on you, you don't know if he is using protection, be careful with this.  Don't become a statistic.
94615
You shouldn't sleep with him. He probably wants to just to reinforce his "control", to help make him feel superior within himself. AVOID sleeping with this guy!
445092
You are going to be fine if you and your ex are on good terms.  Don't lose any sleep about it.  Dress nicely and bring a book and a snack because there will be a looooong wait.  But don't be afraid to say something if you feel something isn't quite right or fair.