Is it true that once a woman is over a man, she'll never want him again?
436783
yes. that's why it's called being over him.
188166
It's not just women who do that, men do as well. There are NO guarantees that she won't cheat again. The question is, do you want to take that chance? I always say, if they cheat once they'll do it again.
57364
According to public perception yes. In my personal experience not every day. Not unless it's a new relationship.
931224
How can you say you love someone and not want to be around them.  We women spend a great part of our lives trying to please our men, only to find out that they don't enjoy our company any longer, what kind of crap is that?
1015226
Absolutely.  When a woman sees that you can go on with your life and be happy without her, it makes her think about what she gave up.  It shows her you are independent and a positive thinker, the two things that probably attracted her to you in the first place.
653000
Women like a challenge. They are unable to accept men as they are. They always want to make us over & later ask whatever happened to that person they first fell in love with?\nBe yourself & don't give the matter another thought. Some women can not believe they are not irrestible. It shatters them & so the anger
132523
YES!!!  I was in a two year relationship with one and he truely loved me.  He just didn't know the meaning of the word monogamy!!! People, even strangers would take one look at us and comment on how "in love" we were.  Eight years after the relationship ended, he found me and told me how much he missed me and how he felt the relationship never ended in his heart.  I refused to see him because I am married and so is he.  I was afraid that I might fall for him again.  You know, he has a real problem when it comes to women and I had to just burn that bridge completely to avoid being hurt again.  When I was with him, he made me feel like I was the only woman in the world and then when we were apart he would cheat on me.  What a jerk!!!
882385
I mean you had been with the guy for 15 yrs or course your going to have feelings for him.  He is and will always be a part of you and when you do move on in the beginning you will always compare other men to him.  It's just a women thing, Men move on quickly we reply the past over and over.  But when you do move on and years done the road you'll semi forget about him, but for a little bit you'll smile and then go on with the man you'll be with!
665185
no, she isnt the last woman in the world.\nGirls want a man, not a wimp, she will think \n(and be correct) that she is in control of the relationship, and she will do what she wants with you. Screw her man, there are plenty of good chicks out there, if you did something wrong to lose, just promise yourself you wont do it with the next one.
317376
a girl always want a guy that she can't have, it's weird that way. i'm not like that because i can't share a man with anyone.
415968
Of course!  People say that you can always find someone better...and you might, but what if your heart doesn't want or can't handle "better"?  \n\nUm, but there's that old saying "if you love something let it go, if it comes back it's yours....".  I truly believe this is true.  \n\nI lost a really great guy almost a year ago.  Another great guy came into my life, but I didn't want him.  My heart cannot forget my ex.
284594
Its their ego being hurt when they see that their ex can be happy with another man!\n\nI won't allow my ex to have anything to do with my newfound love. I won't accept the reasoning that he is JUST CONCERNED because if he is concerned at all, our relationship should still be intact. Whatever I do with my life after him is none of his business anymore.\n\nJust the same if I see him happy with another woman, I will respect that. PERIOD.
390622
no, believe me, it's very normal. Everyone wants what they can't have. Keep trying, it could happen. But just because she's a (insertwordhere) doesn't mean that he doesn't like her. She might be different when its just the 2 of them.
10864
I think it's an age old problem that has been passed down through the years.  If a man sees a woman who is confident enough to know what she wants, it is a threat.  Men say they hate a whiny, weak female, yet they are gravitated toward them.  I've chased many men away because I speak my mind.  We females who are free and independant have to make up our minds that "SINGLE" is a good thing if it means compromising who we are just to get a man.  That is where a woman finds out where she really stands with herself.  True independance does not fear being alone.  You don't have to always like it, but it is better than settling for less.  There aren't that many guys out there who really want an independant woman.  Independance means freedom and "letting go".  Both sexes have way too many expectations, or rather, the wrong expectations.  The problems start when he/she becomes disappointed when they don't get what they want out of a relationship.  When two people meet and they should be happy that they have each other, and not get so hung up on what he/she can do for me. Love needs to be reciprocal.  Men and women alike "fall in love" because of what they expect to get out of it, not because of what they want to "give" to the other person, and then are disappointed when that person does not meet with all their expectations.  If a person cannot learn to "live alone" first and find contentment with that, then you'll never find it with someone.  Personally, I have learned that I like myself, I like my independance, and if that means "SINGLE", then so be it.  I am sure that if their is someone out there for me to love then that is what I will do - "LOVE HIM".  If he tries to change me, then he doesn't LOVE me, he's in love with an image he has created in his mind and not the woman that stands before him.  Women make the same mistake.  They create an image of what they want in a man, and then work their butts off trying to change him.  If I cannot accept you for who you are, and you cannot accept me for who I am then, "What is the point"?  Walk away before you make each other miserable.  Men and women are not all that different, we just have different roles to fulfill in a relationship, it is just a question of being sure that we are both being real with one another so we know things will last.
601318
I knew someone who was in an abusive relationship and yes, she did repeat the cycle. It was really sad but it seemed like she would only date guys who were jerks. I think women who are in this cycle have such low self esteem that they really don't know that they deserve better.
141126
Firstly, I personally believe you can never completely stop loving someone if you truely loved them once. So yes, in my opinion it is possible for you to get some of your old feelings back when you meet your ex again. I guess if that happens, then you have to weigh up your options and decide what is best for you and what direction to take.
517846
Most of the time it has to do with the fact that they had a poor male role model growing up. Often going after the same type of man they know well in their life.  It is sad, but breakable, woman just have to want it to be different and realize when it is happening. They need to recognize the triggers and check themselves so they don't repeat poor choices in men.