How do you get a girl that is afraid of relationships?
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Build up a friendship first. Just be her friend, and make sure that she knows that you are her friend first. After a while, once the friendship is solid, ask her out on a date.\n\nCouldn't be simpler.
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First of all, it's important that you be yourself.  Don't make yourself into what you think she may want, it'll end in failure.  Girls like to be approached by nice guys who are real.  Be inviting and fun.  Make her laugh and show that you have a genuine interest in being more than friends.  Don't rush anything, or be too bold, but do be honest.  Good luck!
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1. Don´t try to be her friend, because you do not want to be her friend, you want to be her  boyfriend.\n\n2. Don´t think near her that anybody is better than you, when you are whith her, you are the best.\n\n3. Tell her nice things, you have great eyes, a great smile, but when you say it, you mean it, confident and it does not have to sound like a friend, you are say it to get her.\n\n4. The way you write it, it seems all hard, all this things are complicated, but if you keep trying one day you will get your girl
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Sometimes, when you yourself look or feel uncomfortable, the other person starts feeling the same way.  Other times, it's just them.  No matter what the reason is, best way to break the ice is to go out and explore interesting places.  Break the ice!  Maybe go to an amusement park or a skating rink or watch a movie or go out clubbing.  When the focus is not you, or him, you both become more comfortable.  Also, talk to him.  Ask him if why he's nervous.  If he can't explain it as well, then just let things flow.  Moving from friendship to a romantic relationship is a big change.  It will take time for both of you to adjust.  So, I suggest, don't rush.  Take it slow.  Enjoy moments together.  Tell him that although you are now in a relationship, your core foundation of friendship still stands true.  That means that you don't have any big expectations.  That you still see him not only as a boyfriend, but also as a good friend and confidante.  Follow what your instinct tells you. We women are supposed to be very good at this.  \nJust a note:  Congratulations!  The best and the most lasting romantic relationships usually starts from friendship! Enjoy the ride of your lifetime! =)
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First of show an interest in the potential girlfriend i.e. compliment her on her clothing, jewelry, appearance, what she likes and dislikes, what she likes to do, mutual interests, etc.\nAsk her to something she has interests in. \nBe kind, considerate, and don't talk more than she does. Don't attempt to dominate her. Let her be herself and be yourself, also. \nDon't smoke, drink, and above all NO DRUGS. \nTell her yourself if you like her - don't get someone else to tell her.\nI don't know how old you are, but experience counts. \nGo for the one you think you like best first. If it doesn't work with that one, there are plenty more. \nDon't take rejection too seriously.\nKeep yourself clean and don't wear wierd clothing.
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fear of commitment comes from past relationships, she might of been deep in love and gave her heart 2 another man and he shattered it, my wife was like that when we met, sit down and talk about trust with her and make a solid foundation that the relationship can grow on and time will do the rest, talk 2 her about past relationships good and bad and share ur experiences with her to. good luck
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Always be there for your girl.\nStand up for her honor.\nAlways open doors for any girl.\nAlways be polite.\nShow her that shivery isn't dead.\nLet her know your feelings, we can't read your mind.\nLook in her eyes when you talk to her, and she to you.\nBe a shoulder to lean on.\nHave open arms to hold and cuddle her.\nBe her friend to talk openly.\n(Just listen. No answers required)\nWhen you kiss, kiss from your heart.\n(not from any other part of your body)\nLet her lead you to anything more physical.\nBe honest in all things.  If you're faithful in the small things you'll be faithful in all things.\nWe want someone to love and trust too.\nRemember not to smother us.  But be attentive to our desires as we try to take care of yours.  Good Luck!\nIt's not the gifts or the money spent, But the attitude and gift of your heart that makes us love you.
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Try one way, and another, and another; until you learn how to get to know a girl without making an idiot out of yourself. But certainly, you should first lose the fear of making a fool out of yourself, and that's 50% of the battle won. The rest is practice.
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Try not to come across as a whimp, so that she doesn't need to fear to hurt you?
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Start with chit-chat.Then go out on a bunch of dates where you both are with a big group and when you feel you've made a strong emotional bond she is yours.\nTHIS IS FROM A SHY GIRL TO A SHY BOY.
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If a girl thinks all you want from her is sex, you're going to get the "let's be friends" line from most you meet.  (Sluts don't count.)  The strongest relationships start as friendships.  My advice to you would be to slow down, don't try to get your nookie on the first date, and spend some time getting to know the wonderful world of the feminine mystique.
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Be yourself! Be honest authentic with yourself and that will project to her, maybe she will appreciate honesty and most "girls" do like sense of humor, someone who makes them laugh but also someone who can protect her and know how to listen to her problems.\n\n   Its important to listen as to express yourself in creative ways, be rational because in relationships emotions seem to be above logic and reason.\n\n   The most simple is the most perfect, you want to be perfect, be simple !!!
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If you want a relationship with a girl then just ask her out. If she won't go out with you then suggest that the two of you get together with each others' friends and hang out. Once you get to know each other she just might say yes. And one more tip, be yourself ALWAYS!!! We want the truth from the get go. Females don't want a lie.
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The only way to avoid being "scary" or giving her the creeps is to avoid pickup lines or trying to hide your agenda. If you are talking to her she going to assume it's because you are interested in her. Be confident and ask her to do something specific like having coffee at three.  Don't ask if she has a boyfriend or if you can take her out sometime because it makes you look weak and insecure.  If you can make her laugh without trying too hard you are golden.
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well at least she can talk to then; buck that shyness and just wait for the right time to tell her that you Are attrackted to her and you were curious if she felt the same; tell her no hard feelings(get it into the open)if she says no then thats on you to ask her not to come talk to u about her deals with guys
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if you're afraid, then what does it matter if she has a boyfriend or not.  As soon as she breaks up with the boyfriend, you'll still be afraid, and you will continue to be afraid until she gets another boyfriend.\n\nSolution:  Deal with your fear of rejection before you  go any further in life.  This is what limits boys, and later men.  It sucks.  I can tell you first hand.
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ok heres what you do find one friend who has the same problem you do and hang out with him when he talks to a girl watch him and make a mental note of what he does wrong (watch the body language) but most of all if you find a girl that your into TELL HER the worst thing she can do is say that she isnt interested (and belive me thats gonna happen alot in life) but dont give up just move on to the next one and try again. its not hard all you have to do is strike up a conversation with her and after a few mins just say "ya know, i really like you" and then tell her why (so she doesnt think your full of @#$%) ie. your really funny or fun to be around and if shes cute tell her that just be honest. but dont get all upset if it doesnt work out THERE ARE MORE GIRLS OUT THERE. just take your time and relax when you talk to a girl they are ppl just like us. and they can smell bull@#$$% a mile away.