if the men dont mind, actually is it ok / not to have sex when the women r having her period?
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I have met girls who will and girls who won't.  Personally, I think if a woman wants to beg off sex for a few particular days it's not a bad idea do be accommodating.  There are always others to pay attention to.\n\nOn the other hand, almost all young women I've known become very affectionate and even horny during their period.  They may not want to have sex, but they definitely like to hold hands, kiss, play, go down, and pay attention to you if given the chance.  I haven't seen any research, but my wild guess is that oxytocin production is elevated at this time.  Another theory is that they're just happy to know they're not pregnant and won't be for at least a while.\n\nPeople will say it is messy, but I've not found this to be true.  Menstruation varies from woman to woman and even from occasion to occasion.  Sometimes there is very little blood. \n\nSome cultures have taboos on sex just before, during, and just after menstruation.  Even if this means nothing to me, I understand they may be very important to my lover.
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i think is a turn off.\nwhen she's produce lot of vagi.. lubricate is more exciting.but when she's in her period,no way.
1073306
As long as there is some sex during the week, it should be okay. Sex is not the main thing in a marriage, I know, but a complete lack of it indicates something very wrong.
971675
I don't agree.  I know men who are not really that much into sex.  Me, being a woman, however, I  need it often.\n\nI don't mean with different people
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I don't know...I am not freaked out about this sort of thing. and if someone thinks I am using them myself then they are idiots.\n\nand I am not freaked out when you discuss your periods because I know what it is and I don't find it disturbing.\n\nand if you think I am gay for saying something like this then remember this, say what you want, it doesn't mean it is true (only put this last part in because some idiots I go to school with think I am gay even though I am not simply because I listen to women's problems)
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Sweetheart, yes.  The answer is yes.  The Bible also says adulterous women should be stoned (but not men) and it's against God to have sex with a woman while she's on her period. (for interesting reading, read Leviticus chapter 19... there's a lot of stuff that's said to be unlawful in the eyes of God that we have no problem with today).\n\nFirst of all, you are harming your wife as much as yourself by carrying on this charade.\n\nFurthermore, a recent study proved that gay men reacted in the same way that women did when smelling male pheromones.  The link is provided.  This points to a biological basis for homosexuality.\n\nDon't feel bad about it, hon.  There is nothing worse in life than living a lie.  Don't let your guilt ruin you and your wife.  \n\nI'm including two links in my source:  One is for the Gay Christian Network.  It is a non-profit group that supports men and women in your particular situation.  Please visit this site, it provides very specific information and can lead you to a better life decision for you and your wife.\n\nThe other is about the aforementioned pheromones study, published a bit back in the NY Times.\n\nGood luck, and God bless.
649304
Im not sure what peoples concern is with "proper" anything. As long as the male and female are consenting adults I think you should be more concerned with compatibility than with age difference.
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Yes ...it should hold off your next period. It is not uncommon for females to use this to abstain from having a monthly.My gyn said that there is no harm in this practice ...but that once in a while you should allow yourself to have a cycle.
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I think it is a personal choice. I personally enjoy sex and it is a big part of my relationship. I don't see anything wrong with people having sex. I would hope that they are wise enough to use protection in this day and age. \nLove & Light\nSharon
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yes, i think it is fine as long as it doesn't interfere with the couples normal sex life.
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I'm a little unclear as to what you are asking.\n\nIf you are going to a movie or something, I don't think the information that you are having your period has to be mentioned at all.  It is, after all, very personal information and has nothing to do with watching a movie or out for dinner.\n\nNow, if you are asking what do you do when you have your period and you have the habit of being intimate with your date--and I trust this isn't DATES, but a DATE you are speaking of,  it's not much more complicated than the first situation.\n\nIf you are old enough to be intimate with a person and you know the person well enough to be intimate with him, then two things are true:\n\nThe date is old enough to know that women have menstrual periods and shouldn't be shocked to know that you have one too\nand\nYou should be comfortable enough with the person you are being intimate with to talk to him about something this unremarkable.  If you aren't to the point of talking about personal subjects, why would you be getting so (ahem) personal with him?
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NEVER!!!!! Im sorry to say but that is the truth. Woman have gotten pregnant before, during and after their periods. The body is very complicated and if getting pregnant is not something you want, then its not worth taking the risk. Forget the risk of getting pregnant for a second, what about the risk of disease or infection? The only safe sex is no sex, and as we all know that is not an ideal solution, then use protection.
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It's normal! It has to do with your hormones and your cycle. Sex during your period can even reduce cramps. If you can't stand the mess, try having sex in the shower or throwing down a towel on the bed and then shower and just throw the towel in the laundry right after. Remember, you can still get pregnant or STI's while on your period, so if you're not on the pill with a trusted monogamous partner, use condoms!
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Those are two different things that have nothing to do with each other. Your body will naturally menstruate(period) when it's ready. Orgasms happen during sex, but they're not definitely going to happen for a woman. You have to learn about your body and your partner needs to know about your body as well.
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so wat if she told u her period date n to her other guy frenzz too...dat does not, i repeat, NOT mean dat she's lost her virginity or sumthin....dats actually a very crazy notion......\n\nif ur uncomfortable wid her talkin such a thing, tell her not to tell u such things in da future....
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People are ragging on you for something that was probably a typo. Ugh. But yes, sex during your period is perfectly safe. Boy won't get an infection, it won't hurt the girl, and can actually help with cramping! Just make sure you lay down a thick dark towel if you are bleeing heavily and wash off afterwards. You may still need to use lube if you normally do because blood isn't really that great of a lubricant, suprisingly.\n\nSome people go completely squick over this, and some don't. Personally I wouldn't do it because the thought of a blood coated penis really doesn't get me going. But if you and your partner are comfortable with it, go ahead! Baby wipes are great to have next to the bed too if you only have a little clean-up to do.
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relax man..first let me commend you on having sex with your girlfriend, secondly dont worry about gettin girls pregnant..lots of people have sex man..and as long as you guys didnt have sex in one of those periods where shes more prone to get pregnant throught her monthly cycles then you got nothing to worry about bro..i say do it again so you feel more comfortable