how do i make the first move?
447379
seriously whatever you do don't listen to the last guy... i'm guessing you're in high school or something. Coffee isn't exactly something you want to offer someone. Find out something that you have in common with her. When she's alone or just with one of her friends... (grow balls) then walk up to her and just be like hey what up? i'm (name here) i here you like (fill in interest) i'm really into that to, maybe we could hang out sometime..., but in high school if you don't look up to her caliber she could just carry you, but either way it's worth a shot.
587799
You can make the first move in a club or a social environment, but online is different (with all the weirdos). So, a guy would ask you first to make sure it is alright.
844281
Just step up and talk to him. He might be the shy one. He probably doesn't want to be the one to make the first move he doesn't want you to think he is just hitting on you.
880447
Sometimes girls need to make the first move. Not all guys have high confidence levels. Just ask him if he would like to go out for drinks or dinner. If he says no there is your answer.
452348
well, i guess you should make the first move.If she avoids you or rejects your proposal, then back off. There is surely someone more interesting around and who might be waiting for your proposal.
410130
ask him..many men would prefer for the woman to make the first move.
1128315
Tell him you love him. Make the first move.
923177
yeah it's true... guy should make the first move though...girls will look so desperate if her make the first move..
778377
make the first move before your friend does, but make SURE its completely o.k with her.
194409
Time and tide wait for none .So don't wait to see what happens next,make the first move.
212310
Don't worry if he doesn't make the first move.  He probably wants to but is just shy.  If you make the first move he'll really like it and it will reassure him.  Then he'll act more naturally.
1001120
Step up and be more aggressive.  Kiss him.  There's no rule that says the girl can't make the first move.  Go for it.  Good luck.
947977
i would definantly want him to make the 1st move
71505
it depends on his personality.\nif he's a sort of guy that seems like he'd wanna make the first move, you could drop little hints you like him, or if he's the kind of guy who seems kinda shy, you could aks him out and he'd probly go with it.
423923
Communication is a good start. Don't be too shy. Make her LAUGH! That's how guys get my attention. Be charming, give her compliments, ask her about herself; like what she likes to do, or her favorite restraunt. Then maybe if you think she's flirting with you, ask her on a date, to the movies, out to eat, anything romantic. It could even be a double date! Those sometimes seem to break the ice a little bit and make everything less akward for your first time!
704825
guys are not likley to make the first move they have this big fear f rejection, so if you want somehting to happen then you need to make it happen
597680
not really. 90% girls expect you to make the first move, so expecting them to tell you first is like winning a lottery. i say you tell her first (if you like her, that is). you'll get your answer there and then