Should I ask him to marry me. He's just quiet but always talks about our future but not mentioning marriage
440556
Why dont you try talking to him about marriage first, when he talks about the future and growing old and dieing with you just say, dont you think we should talk about getting married before we talk about the house with the white picked fence? Just bring it up, there might be a reason why hes timid on getting married or maybe hes talking about the future fishing around for a good way to ask you about marriage and hes worried that you might say no or something, you never know hun, just ask him if hes thought about it or if in his plans on the future if hes planning on getting married, just bring it up you might just make his day ;)
354589
It sounds as if he is not ready to marry just yet. If this is okay with you than stick with him, but if you want to marry and start a family you might have to come right out and say hey we have waited long enough and if he gives some excuse then it might be best to re think the situation...Cejay
411371
hi ,yes its fine to ask a guy to marry you ,but its not very nice what he said to you ,its not his turn ?? how many times does he want to get engaged ?? this could all to do with the MALE EGO thing !! he asked someone and probably got hurt ,and doesnt want to get hurt again ,marriage when it comes down to it is a bit of paper and a ring ,what you have this now is him and you and a future together,enjoy that and things will work out and anyway you never know he could be the one to ask you  good luck have a greeat life together XX
321744
You should try talking to him when you can get him alone. See how he acts around you. See if he drops any hint of liking you. I am the one that made the first move in my relationship and after only a month of being with him he proposed to me. Now after only 3 months we are happy and talking about our future plans together. Happy endings can happen, but I wouldn't do it if your not sure if he even likes you a little bit. May God Bless You though.
1128403
it upto his mind baby.\n\nmay be he does not like it before marriage\nhe is honest & normal\n& loves & respect u & your verginity\n\nbut may be u can talk with him freely & solve the issue.
720406
Right now and ask him to marry you. Casual relations are no relation avoid from.
1064937
well marriage is just a piece of paper after 4 yrs together you should know that he is  committed to you.   IF he is going to ask you to marry him it should something is wants to do and make a surprise  you don't want to him ask just because you are forcing him to.  i say go with him.
187121
don't do it, he is scared he is losing you and that is the only reason he is ready of the commitment.  you need to find someone who really loves you and will marry you for the right reason, not just because they don't want to be alone.
1105775
Ask him to marry you. Explain that you don't wish to invest any more time in a relationship that isn't going anywhere. If he loves you, he will say yes. If he says no, you've saved yourself some wasted time. Good luck either way.
343723
call him up- tell him how you feel- and get it out of your system.  Chances are he'll still get married, your feelings will be hurt, but at least you'll know you tried.  Too bad you didn't speak up sooner, it could have been you marrying him.  Learn your lesson and let people know how you feel while there's still something that can be done.  Good luck.
666289
First, are you sure he wants to marry you? It could also be that he has cold feet and is like most guys, bnervous to commit.  I would sit down and talk with him and ask him why he can not commit to a date... work out all the nicks before you set the date and get married.\n\nBy the way, there is nothing you can do to make a guy set a date... if he is ready to get married, then he will.
462980
He's testing the waters, but isn't completely serious yet. \n\nIt sounds like he really likes you, but it's early. I knew I would either marry my wife or know her forever after the first day I met her, but I spent a few months getting to know her first (and confirm if it just wasn't hormones).\n\nI wouldn't get too freaked out...well, unless you want him to propose to you.
274333
THAT JUST DEPENDS ON YOU!! IF HE DOESN'T HAVE TIME FOR YOU NOW THEN IF U WERE TO GET MARRIED WOULD HE HAVE TIME FOR YOU THEN!! DO YOU WANT TO SPEND THE REST OF UR LIFE BEING 2ND OR 3RD OR EVEN 4TH IN HIS LIFE!!IF HE REALLY NEEDS YOU THEN HOW COME HE NEVER HAS TIME FOR YOU THAT IS WHAT I WOULD ASK HIM!!!
678557
I agree with just about everyone.  If he hasn't said it, either he doesn't feel it or he is afraid of committing to you.  Either way, if you want a committed relationship you should talk to him about it.  Saying that you love someone doesn't mean that you have to get married!  A year is plenty of time to know how you feel.  If it was something like a matter of weeks or months I'd say cool it and wait, but it has been too long.  He needs to tell you how he feels.
219336
I would bring it up with him. You are already living together which is a huge part of marriage and so what's the holdup?
1184640
I think you should talk to him directly, he might be suffering from something that you don't know, he might need your help. Make sure he loved you as much as you say you loved him, make sure that the time you send together wasn't just time pass, if all is ok then ask him out and get married. Share his feelings, and share his problems, and you can expect him to share your feelings and problems and your life.
360211
First you need to ask why he refuses to get engaged. Does he want all his ducks in a row, i.e. good job, money, house, before he wants to start a family, or is he just scared of commitment. You really need to ask him. He may want his life in order before he has a family. If he's scared you might need to consider is he worth waiting around for?Also where are you at at this point of life? Do you want a family?