why do women only know how to argue?
441914
Because alot of women are insecure and want control of situations that either hurt them or make them feel vulnerable. They will get really defensive and try to assign blame in order to maintain control. Men on the other hand feel more out of control when they actually let out what they are feeling so they just try to avoid the whole thing so that they don't lose their own feeling of security. Basically people in general don't understand why the opposite gender reacts the way it does and thus arguments are born.
748763
Because all she does is "drop hints". Why can't most chicks just tell it like it is? (I am a chick btw)\n\nGuys and gals are wired differently. Guys aren't "clueless" they simply often don't pick up on subtle hints and clues. Also, coming out and saying what you mean/feel helps prevent embarrassment when someone THINKS they are picking up on clues, but they read them wrong (or they weren't clues at all).\n\nStop playing games and just come out with it...then the guys won't seem so clueless.
623247
I hate it when people play games, if she is angry then she should just tell you so you can do something about it, when will girls ever learn that men (or anyone else for that matter) cannot read your mind so you have to TALK TO THEM!!!!!  If you want them to make it up to you then tell them what they have done wrong!
120317
Because it's the worse type of insult to use against a woman if you're mad at them. And also when you're mad you're not really thinking. You're just acting on rage. Never a good thing.....
1122659
Time out time!!!  Guys shake this kind of thing off better than we women do - just remember that.  It's a genetic thing, not a personal thing.  Take a long, hot shower, curl up with some brain popcorn TV, eat some chocolate.....go see some violent (non-"chick") film but do NOT mope; do NOT dwell on the argument; do not deconstruct it - do whatever you need to do to turn your brain off for awhile.  \n\nAnd if it is resolved, then let it be resolved - don't revisit, don't re-discuss it, just learn from it.
872954
Because we seem to have forgotten how to debate.  Instead we stoop to petty name-calling, without analyzing and thinking about the argument.\n\nThese don't really convince me.
744033
maybe she jealous ..........  you don't have to go \nover there either...... to keep the argument down....\n        then when she ask why  you didn't\ncome over.......tell her your  tired of the  arguing.....
421235
No offense intended, but woman are physically weaker (majority of course) - therefore, it would be inappropriate and wrong for any country and woman themselves to think they can fight against men and win... however, in saying that, physically they are weaker but mentally they are just as sound and intellegent... therefore woman can fly or drive military vehicles and/or work from an intellegence basis... they too can contribute heaps!! Because Woman are more confident in making big decisions and are also less prone to making quick mistakes.
1010038
the rationality of the female mind is yet to be deciphered, we know not nor ask not, just roll with the punches
480021
My my.. and I'd think that men are sayin the exact same thing..\nWhy in the world are women so complicated.\n\nWell, we seem complicated to each other because we have different ways of thinking, hence its complicated to them because they do not understand how we think, and they are complicated to us because we do not understand how THEY think.
98496
They tend to be a little more "Right Brained" than most women. They think in a more logical, linear pattern; while women think in circles.\n\nThey fail to take into account the increasing number of cold, calculating b!tches like me.
631271
no, definitely no.\nresearch shows men and women do differ in their capabilities, men are more logical and women are best at communication.\nmen can do maths and comps better\nwomen can argue better(ofcourse not always logical(men are more logical)).\nheheheheh..seems therenomoregoodids got me well.
501160
women are too competitive with each other.
513801
For the same reason that women always act like morons.
991611
I don't know why some of us are like that, I know sometimes I get mad, but we all do. I don't believe that women are not supposed to deal with guys getting mad, they should be able to voice their opinion, but truthfully, sometimes that doesn't solve anything, it makes it worse, and really it depends on the situation. Men are supposed to be the head of the family, the bible says that, but it also says that the husband is suppose to love his wife like he loves himself, and not to be harsh with them. So, sometimes when we lose our cool, we are just blowing off steam, and that is a time where we want to be left alone, but not all men are like that. I know it helps me when a woman tries to help and be encouraging, but we all are different.
1128916
because they like to run around in circles. Men are more direct and have a need to put an end to things thats why even as teenagers when boys fight all differences are settled at the end of the fight...for girls the fight was just the beginning. They say girls don't like confrontation...but then they also don't like resolution. Why wait for us to "figure" it out? tells us and get it over with
1083210
To answer your question: It's because we all want our way.\n\nI think we like to argue because we sometimes think it will get us our way with others.