How can I get Tamera to stay with me?
436584
If she wants to leave you have to let go, why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you?  Your not making someone else unhappy, but your not being fair to yourself you deserve to be with someone who wants to be with you because they like you for who you are.  Anyway, I know it's hard to let go sometimes, but if its meant to be maybe she will see that after shes gone and want to reconcile.  If she hasn't said she wants to leave then don't worry about it just keep being yourself.  Good Luck to You
754885
Well, the way I understand it, she's lived with you for the last 5 years and all of a sudden doesn't come home?  That's kidnapping, call the police.  But, She is old enough that the judge will listen to her opinion.  Get her friends, get her teachers... get people with you to back you up and go to that hearing.\n\nAsk the police about the kidnapping thing.
999981
First of all, you need to write a letter to your friend to her last known address, stating that it has been 7 months since you left (insert name) with me to take care of.  In that time, I have not heard from you or received any monetary support for your horse.  For this reason, I am giving you until (insert a date and a time) to come and retrieve your horse.  \n\nMail this letter CERTIFIED and keep a copy and attach the return receipt to the letter.  When the date comes and goes, contact the Justice Court to obtain a Civil Lawsuit form and pay the low fee to have her served.  Civil statutes may be different in your state in regards to the maximum allowed amount you can sue for, but you can include everything you have spent on the horse, as well as the fee for having her served.\n\nSince this is a Civil issue, the police cannot help you with this.  \n\nThe local Humane Society will not be able to help you either as they do not have any say in the law.\n\nI feel for you and I hope it all works out!
297879
I have a similar situation. But it is SHE in my case. Plz..help us both(the asker and me).
1063629
This is going to sound a little harsh but, if she enjoys living alone, your companionship with her is going to be necessarily limited by the fact that she does not want to live with you right now.  I advise taking up hobbies and enjoying the time you have to be alone right now.  If you are meant to be together, she'll come back to you.  If not, then you won't end up wasting however long putting your life on hold and waiting for her.  During this alone time, you may want to explore why you "need" companionship and whether you are using a woman/companionship to fill a hole in yourself.
212439
NEVER SETTLE!!!  Take your time, find the right person!  She will come along.  Out of the blue and knock you off your feet!
695931
Just stay away from her.  From what you said, I can't think of any reason why you need to be in her presence.  Tell your boyfriend if he wants to keep you as a girlfriend he has stay away from her too.  People like her are poison.  I'm sorry you had to go through that.
478902
tell her to go away that he wants you
681167
I think that you should let her bring him in and do wantever you can to make he cometo the conclusion that his place is not there with you. but make sure that you do not do it openly manipulate her and let her think that she came to this conlusion on her own
350236
HA u muppet bro!!! just dump her she is an evil cow! you know all she does is p*ss u off and annoy u, she has u round her little finger coz ur such a softy......look bro u know your a lovely lad ur polite, kind and caring get with someone who is the same not someone who treats u like s*it. trust ur big sis alright!!!! and ill catch u later for a beer!
555968
sometimes people are bound to be separated. if she wants to be seperated, you cant force her to have a friendship. you have tried your levels best and you must not be guilty. She might turn up the time she needs you.\n                          you see, such a good friendship could'nt be forgot so easily. She must anlso be remembering you. time changes all. you can only wait.
1090856
spend some time apart .. go hang out with your boys .. sounds like you're getting stalker scary .. haha ..\n\nYou control your own emotions.  Chill out and calm down .. you're not going to die without her !
1166898
Girl, both of you need to get a place of your own. Don't you know that as long as you live with her you are never gonna be your "own woman" in her place. She is always gonna blame you and take his side. She needs to stay the heck outta your business.
930511
Whatever it is, just get a life for yourself and lead a better future! Everyone had been through this stage and see how far we've got! Don't be too upset, it's definitely part & parcel of a growing up stage. Once it's over, you'll get to be tougher and learn to be stronger. Well, all I can say is she's tired of being with you for a total of 4yrs and she's seeking for another lover who can or maybe excite her in different ways. Don't think so much and trust me, you'll SURE get over her. And you'd probably know how great & amazing it is when you finally get her off your mind. Your heart doesn't hurt anymore and you slowly forget the images of her! Ok, what I can suggest to you is do alot of excercises, read books that makes you doze off and try to occupy your time fully, that helps to waste off your energy and makes you tired so you can sleep soundly without having to miss her in the night! Lastly, it all depends on you, if you want to forget her, you must make sure you can do it. It's always mind over body, don't forget that!!! If you've a weak mind, then I can't help much! Ultimately, you shd know what you want!
458672
Allow her to ignore you and be jealous of you.  What harm can it do to you?  Just go about your daily routine as if she did not exist.  She just wanted to to bring her man to your flat so they could have some place to spend time together without fear of getting caught and when you ssaid no she found that you were of no use to her and that you had higher morals.  So she ignores you because she's a selfish B and you won't cater to her, and she's jelous because you're better than her.  Just use her as a daily reminder of the good person you are.
340920
tell her how much you love her... tell her that you wouldn't do anything to hurt her... try talking to her friend and try working things out... maybe you'll get along and you would be able to keep your girl! :)
412988
Stay patient. She will come eventually. If you look for her, a lot of times you will not find her. My two mottos: Go With The Flow and It's Not Woth Winning If You Don't Have To Fight For It. The last one doesn't really matter in this, but the first one is very important.