this is a lesbian question!  what do lesbian couples fight over that usually lead to a break-up?
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i don't need to be a lesbian to answer this because the answer is in the question.....\nlong distance makes a relationship fall apart...they live in 2 diff states....
261752
Okay well i am married but i still find women very attarctive and if i were to divorce today i would probably try being a lesbian. I have never been with another woman but i have thought about it.
216816
Depends on the reason you broke up.  Was it a bad break up?  Did one of you betray the other and/or the relationship?  Were there trust issues?  What will be different this time?  Do you love him/her?  Do you WANT to be in a relationship with him/her?  Was too little information for such a broad question.
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Fight...\nIf you are single or going throught a break up and you are looking and need someone, please visit my site, join free and start dating:\nhttp://tinyurl.com/ykj7bm
913966
Question: given the drama involved, why would you want to?  \n\nFind someone in common who is not going out with anybody -- it is easier said than done sometimes, but it is much easier than trying to break up a couple to satisfy yourself.\n\nBesides, if a person can be uprooted as such from somebody, chances are good that you might be the next poor guy she breaks up with.
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Time out time!!!  Guys shake this kind of thing off better than we women do - just remember that.  It's a genetic thing, not a personal thing.  Take a long, hot shower, curl up with some brain popcorn TV, eat some chocolate.....go see some violent (non-"chick") film but do NOT mope; do NOT dwell on the argument; do not deconstruct it - do whatever you need to do to turn your brain off for awhile.  \n\nAnd if it is resolved, then let it be resolved - don't revisit, don't re-discuss it, just learn from it.
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Well let me see.  If someone were "doing" yahoo!answers and were gay, that would make them female, 'cause I'm pretty sure yahoo!answers is female.  So, your question then becomes, "how many lesbians are doing yahoo!answers?" \n\nWell, unfortunately, yahoo!answers just broke up with her longtime girlfriend of five years, and I think she's taking a break from relationships right now.  And as we all know, yahoo!answers is not the kind of girl who sleeps around.  So no one is presently "doing" her.  \n\nNow, to answer your question: You're an idiot.
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I agree that certain things are done male or female in some relationships, but it falls to order in what the two people decide.  In our relationship, in everyday life, to all appearances my partner looks more the female, stays at home, babysits an infant, does alot (but not all) the housework  and does all the cooking.  I play the more male role has a very male job (drive semi) does the lawn work,(again not all) the gardening, pays the bills.  However, in the bedroom our roles are switched and it's my turn to be the sensitive one.  And we do this, 99% of the time for 25 years now.  We're frequently told this relationship is quite unique in the lesbian circles, but it works for us.  So it goes to prove, whatever feels good, I guess.
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it depends what kind of fighting it is.. as long as its not serious stuff, like actual hitting or anything like that.. sometimes it can help to strengthen relationships...\nhowever, if the fighting gets way too intense, but the two people still love eachother a lot, they might want to break up but still remain good friends.
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ALL relationships end except the ones that don't!  \n ;>)
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It all depends on your relationship situation, the reason(s) for your separation, and your girlfriend's friends. Ask yourself if they understand the reasons as to why you are ending the relationship and it also depends if they are shallow enough to just hate you just because you are separating. If you did anything to cause the breakup like cheating on her or anything negative at all then you should'nt be surprised on their reactions towards you.
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I fully understand. My Partner adn I are also in a long term relationship and we finally found the *only* gay bar in Oshkosh. People were constantly coming up to ask us things and were very surprised (but mostly pleasently surprised, I must say) that we were a couple and a long-term one at that. Of course we're Lesbians. Perhaps it's different for us? Actually straight bars are just as rife with people looking for each other; it's just that we're used to seeing it more. Blessings.
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The relationship should not end\nThen again coz both of them are stubborn , no one wants to be the first to "make up", so the relationship remains strained.\nIt should not be so , but it is.\nMost of the time it is due to selfishness.
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Well people break up for a reason! Normally cause they can't stand the other. And if one person wants to actually be friends they are generally settling for that cause the other won't give them anymore than that.
525609
The answer to this question depends on the reason for the break-up. Your break-up sounds like it was nasty.
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PRIDE. Usually this is the sole root to the problem at hand. It just rears it's ugly head. Besides pride comes stubborness,anger,resentment. These are the results of pride. Mostly we want the other person to be the first one to say I'm sorry so we don't have to do it.This may break the ice and both parties make up. That's nature for you.
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fight like fist fight? NO! Is it normal to disagree with one another, YES. Afterall you are two different people with different ways of thinking and then all of a sudden you are married to that person and living your daily life together. You better bet there will be arguments. If you never disagree you or your partner is a people pleaser type personality or you just figure its better not to ruffle any feathers and try to bury all your feelings, which in the end will blow up in your faces. If you are having a disagreement over a certain thing all the time, maybe it's better to seek counseling over the issue before there is too much resentment and the problem gets bigger. It's normal to laugh with your spouse as much as it is normal to have disagreements, it's life. How you handle them will definately determine whether or not you are married for long though. Best wishes!