I got aids at a young age and i really want to have sex. So what should I do?
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There are alot of people that have it and sex is not all that.  just make sure if you do find someone that you like alot that your them that you have HIV . so they now what they are getting into. and if she loves you she will understand and if she don't then it not worth it.
286995
Well you could have a child but i think it can catch the virus and so will ur partner so you can adopt. I know it won't really make you happy as a one from your womb but from my experience w/ my aunt (who had the disease) and my uncle(who didn't)- there baby is HIV. Just go to a sophiticated doctor who can really give you all the details.
1079887
i am so sorry. i cannot begin to imagine all the emotions that u must be feeling right now. \ndefinitely find out all the resources available to you and do not hesitate to use them. \n\nremember that hiv/aids has come a long way in the last 25 years. with the right meds and diet and making sure you see your doctor regularly, you will have a loooooooooong life. you may  even qualify for benefits (depending on where u r from). i wish i could yell u more..............good luck!!!!\n you can manage this i have faith in u!!
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You definitely need to get out of the relationship you are in. It is unhealthy for you AND your children. Their father is not setting a good example for them, whether they know about his infidelity or not (they eventually will find out). You are lucky that you have not tested positive for HIV, however, do NOT believe that you are out of the woods. HIV can be dormant for a long time before it shows up on a test. And you can still pass it on even if you don't know you have it. You should get tested again 6 months and a year after your initial test to be sure you are not infected. \n  As far as the other man is concerned, I definitely think you should take it VERY slowly. You need to end the relationship you are in and let your children and yourself heal before you jump into a new relationship. If you have found a friend on the internet who makes you feel better about yourself, that is wonderful, but you should keep it at that for now. Don't allow yourself to be swept into a new relationship at such a difficult time in your life, you won't get the real boost of confidence you need which only comes from realizing your own self worth. Once you have ended your current relationship and are on your own two feet and supporting your children, then you can see where this new relationship takes you. Ultimately though, you are the one in this situation and only you know what is right for you and your children. As far as the age difference, who cares!? Seven years isn't that big a difference in my book.
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Please do not have SEX at 13, that is the most ridiulous thing I have ever heard. I am 28 and wish someone would have told me to wait. First of all, who would you sleep with?? Could that person REALLY LOVE you at 13, NO. I have a wonderful husband and a wonderful child and I still wish I would have been a virgin when I met him and would have waited a little bit longer before having my son. Also, STD's are no joke and very easy to get. Do not have sex until you have dated the man for at least a year...NO MATTER WHAT. Anyone who tells you different, does not love or care about you.\n\nDrugs...STUPID question, you know they are wrong and bad for you and can get you into a lot of trouble. They are illegal for a reason.\n\nYou seem like a smart kid, do what you know is right and stay away from people who are trying to ruin your life and YES THESE things will ruin your life.
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When you and your partner are both mentally and physically ready. Sex is not a game and shouldn't be taken lightly.\nDid you know that you can actually die from having sex.\n(aids) So use protection and do it only for love.
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More than anything, you risk never really being 14 again.  No matter how you think you feel about it, there is just no way you are ready to have a sexual relationship with anyone at 14.  You just don't have the emotional maturity or life experience necessary to understand all the risks of sex--and not just the physical ones.  We could talk at length about AIDS, STD's, and pregnancy, but those are the things you can prevent if you're careful.  It's the damage you'll do that's unavoidable that you have to really consider.\n\nIn life, there are many things worth waiting for.  I know at your age you think it'll take forever to be an adult, and you want to start now.  Believe me when I tell you that waiting for this until you know it's the right time, with the right person and for the right reason will make up for all of the anxiety you feel today.
407106
Unprotected sex does not automatically mean you will get AIDS.  You can only catch AIDS if you have unprotected sex with someone who is already infected with AIDS.
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by getting HIV.  AIDS is the symptom
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Education...start with kids early. The family must be involved. Take the mystery away from sex and be open and honest about how this terrible disease is spread. Kids start having sex earlier than parents want to admit, and they have to face that fact. So, the parents must be educated, as well.\nFree condoms should be offered to teens, if anyone is sexually active, they should be taught the importance of having physicals every year, and being checked for the virus. The importance of abstinence until they really know their partner should also be reinforced. But in reality, we must realize that probably won't happen.\nI feel education is our number one intervention and should be started as early as children are able to understand.
1010611
Remove the doubts from your mind and be careful to have sex with strangers with protection.  The chances are getting HIV is limited to your partner being infected with the disease.  Take good advice from a doctor on this subject.
373759
Ok, while ur havin sex and he is inside you, hug him and start cryin and say u got AIDS...he will freak out and scream !
785519
I think there are obvious risks- like unplanned pregnancy and the potential to become infected with a curable- or permanent STD. \n\nAT 15, howveer, there are other risks to having sex that are a lot more subtle. \n\nYou may become isolated from your friends, you may be having sex for the wrong reasons (because of peer pressure- not because you are in a loving, trusting relationship), you may grow apart from your parents, you may get distracted from school and your grades may suffer, you may develop a low self-esteem. \n\nIf you are in a loving, honest relationship with a partner who is concerned about your health and well-being- then you may decide it is time to have sex. But if you are unsure, or if you have doubts- then you may want to wait until you feel ready. Sex is something you can enjoy your entire life- dont rush into it for the wrong reasons. \n\nAnyone who pressures you doesn't really care about you. \n\nBest of luck.
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I have two friends who are both HIV positive both are gay males. One had full blown aids when I first met him and the other had just found out.This was about 4 years ago. I myself just found out 2 years ago that I am HIV. I always thought I was very careful sexually. I almost always used condoms. I suspect I got it from sharing needles(very stupid, I know)while shooting up cocaine which I'm happy to say I have not touched in a year.
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Poor diet,anemia,life style, chest infections can hang around 4 ever... so it seems when u get one! think u should maybe get a HIV test u say u are celibate "NOW" so guess u have had sexual relationships before your celibacy and the HIV virus can lay dormant for many years  as 4 people finding out that u have had a test "its your life" and tho at the moment there is not a cure if u start a course of medication it can help with the symptoms  and some say helps hold back the onset of the big "A" that's all I can say on the subject............. hope u recover soon I really do !
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You will never know until it's too late. Far too many people have AIDS and they don't find out until months and even years later. Just be careful if you are sexually active becuase just because someone looks clean or has been tested ( they could've had unprotected sex after they got tested!) it doesn't mean they are free from STDS.
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its just your hormones, but you should get tested for hiv if your at risk.