How can u tell if you have feelings for the same sex?
438264
if you think about physical contact with the same sex like kissing and your loins start tingling, then you're probably gay. if you get a bit of a gag reflex going, your probably straight!
1062664
u can tell if a man is gay most of the time. females r hard to tell that thier gay unless shes a butch.
40826
You're attracted to people of the same sex. That's about it.
284899
dont think of a person as male or female...look inside and you will see the real person, We as humans, are attracted to people for many different reasons and in many different ways.Sometimes the person we are attracted to are of the same sex...JUST BE HAPPY!
628136
Figure which is more important, the friendship you have or the special feeling you feel about her. If friendship, you best keep it inside you(although it's really hard) It might be better for you to find out whether you're really straight or not.
822888
Stop thinking of it in terms of gay and strait. As a matter of fact forget the two terms exist at all. Then just pay attention to your emotions toward everyone around you and the answer will just kind of come to you. Thats how it was for me.
1157158
i quite agree with what everyones saying. it's rlly quite natural to take interest in the same sex... u'ave perhaps just realised how wonderful u as a FEMALE are n hence the inclination towards the same sex...it cud also b tht all the relationships uave had with men during ur lifetime, hav in smeway or the other been incomplete or upsetting and so, u may now subconsciously want to try ur luck with the same sex... we often also feel that a person of the same sex is usually more understanding and sensitive to the issues we ourselves r going thro..and so again,ur prolly just looking to be in a relationship with sme1 who can understand u better and  complete u... i dono if this cud relate to u, but it does for me, n i do hope it helps u in sme way or the other!..
113990
how old are you?it might be a phase that you are going through or you might just like woman which that would make you a lesbian.most people have had fantasies or true experiences with the same sex but i think that is normal.you will know whats going on in time and so what if you like boobs they are beautiful and i am a woman too but i like the male gender they make me feel so much better you know what i mean
877787
you are likely bisexual or at least bi curious
421370
Being Bisexual means that you are attracted sexually to men AND women.\nIf you are male and are sexually attracted to males then you are Gay.\nIf you are a female and sexually attracted to females then you are a Lesbian.\nThere is nothing wrong with any of these orientations, explore your feelings.
462758
It depends, do the feelings such as the 'knot in your stomach', come from a curiosity to explore the beautiful familiarities of your bodies, or does it seem to stem from an emotional, love, reaction.\nI personally experienced my first same sex encounter when I was 19 years old. I am now 44. I had several since. I do not consider myself bisexual or homosexual. I consider myself straight, because I could not fall 'in love' with another woman. I couldn't see myself 'marrying' another woman either. What I did have were sensual experiences with women friends. Listen to your head, your heart. Are you merely appreciating this girl's beauty, and are fantasizing sharing intimacy or do your feelings run more deep.
155013
Well, I'm bisexual; and it feels like... being me, I guess.  I know a lot of people are like, "yuk, how could you like a GUY" but then, women like guys, dont' they?  \n\nWe like to put people into categories but really, we're all individuals.  I'd guess you're having feelings for a person of the same sex.  What that means is, that you have feelings for that person.  But if all your sexual feelings are for people of your own gender then you are gay, and you'll be much happier in life if you accept who you are.\n\nBeing gay doesn't mean you have to be promiscuous.  If you beleive in love, find someone to love!  If you like women, though, you shouldnt hook up with a man, any more than it would make sense for a straight guy who's repulsed by fat women to marry a fat woman.
1148690
I would still deffinately be a woman. That is the biggest misconception about gays and lesbians. That the reason we like the same sex is because we truly want to be the other gender. I had a friend who was a guy who used to always say, "I am a lesbian stuck in a man's body." My first reaction was, doesn't that make you straight? I was wrong. He felt like a girl. He felt he had the wrong body, but he still liked women. It was eye opening for me. But it works the other way too. Just because we like the same sex doesn't mean we want to change to conform to what society want's us to be.\n\nI mean sure women have their "women problems" but hey, at least the whole world doesn't know when we are excited.
99295
Well imagine your life with a person of the same sex,or try dating a person of the same sex that you are attracted in a certain way,and see what you feel.Experiencing will make you know.I'm bisexual,and if you ask me if i could have a wife(sounds so weird)I would say yes,cuz first of all a women knows better how to handle money,how to take care of a child(that can be adopted)and stuff like that.Though i still like boys,it's like the sex doesn't matter,they are all potential partners...:)
65670
just ask yourself do you like to look at other guys only or both guys and girls. if you think some guys are cute you could be bisexual and if thats the case it's ok just act normal and talk to a girl as if you are straight and tell her that you bi but don't put as a bad thing.
645755
Ok, you are bisexual. Feelings like that totally start at that age. Trust me thats when my feelings started and its not weird at all. You are really starting to grow up and realize that you have sexual feelings and all that. I used to feel sexual towards my girlfriends in high school when I was your age. Many of them turned out to feel the same way about me. I had quite a few girlfriends in high school. Just a warning to you though: Don't make it too public that you are Bi I wouldn't really tell anyone unless you seriously trust them. I don't want to freak you out and maybe its because I live in the south but you can and probably will be threatened because of all the homophobes out there. The schools I went to were in the Bible Belt and I really didn't give a F*** who knew I was bi or les or whatever so I made out with girls all the time - but I did get threatened all the time. I really didn't care but you might not want to risk it. No one reall yhad the balls to do anything to me I guess that they were too scared lol... Have fun enjoy your life and don't let ANYONE tell you how to feel or who to love!
1052725
well if you think you might be gay\n\nyou probably are\n\n\nhere are some other signs:\n\nyou like to have sex with people of the same gender