I just wanna lay down and cry...they guy i like doesnt like me and i feel like an idiot!?
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the same thing happened to me i liked a girl for two years i thoguht she liked me we would go to stores together she hugged me i kissed her on the cheek i thought it was ment to be but i was wrong she didnt like me she told me and i was very sad she even went into another boys house that was not as nice as me i was very sad and hurt but i thought at leased were still friends but then she told me she is not my friend and she never wants me to speak to her again i was so hurt and sad \n\nbut you know what i thought i had many problems before many and i got thru it that got is not going to dump to much on you and god never steered me wrong before why would he now w keep your head up let it all out to night the sun well and always coems out tomarrow brush your self off and get back up its easy to fall but its hard to get back up life i sa funny unpredictable thing and i like the element of surprise good luck
650005
i'll start with a question. did you like this guy? if you did you should atleast talk to him ask him what's up and why he is acting like such a jerk. if you didn't like him than simply don't let it get to you. guys can be stupid at times, well most of the time. sometimes it doesn't seem like they think before they do stuff and they dont consider the outcomes. he is probably trying to make you jealous but not in the right way because it's most likely making you see the dumba#@ side of him. so basically either talk to him or let him go!
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hun like i said b4 ur a teenager not fully developed or grown ur going throught sum tough times n ur getting all this differnet felings. n there confusing u more then u already r. i know how that feels when one moment u like somebody n the next u dont n like a whole day u cant get them off ur mind then there r days u dont even think abt them i know its weird n even scary but its k it will go away just give it sum time. when u feel like u dont like him its usually when ur havving fun n laughing u kind of forget abt him at those times but then when there is nothing to do n ur bored his all u can think abt thats when u start liking him its normal it happens to many teenagers especially me. look the wedding is coming up n im reminding u again its ur last chance to make move n his too so if u both dont do anything ur saying u gone forget abt him well we will c if u do trust me its not gone be easy forgeting him. i feel exactly like u somewhere in my heart i feel like u guys r gone be together n then i feel like nothing is gone happen i guess well c what happens at the wedding. look babe if u feel like he is the right one n u can spend the rest of ur life with him n u said that u fee like u can trust him n be safe with him if u felt all this n u only saw him once prabebly he is the right one who cares if ur not attracted 4 him his 2 shy to make a move y dont u ??? bye hun luv ya
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i know exactly how you feel... well, at least i think i do.. i am in love with my best guy friend whom i have known for almost 11 years... we are reallyc lose and a week ago, he confessed that he believed that we were meant to be.. blahblah.. and then we kissed.. and it's been a week and i have a feeling that he's avoiding me.. he's always busy and within the last week, he called me ONCE... that's it. and it was for a brief conversatio. i don't know what is going on... its really hard to do anything.. because i know that we were friends first.. and i dont want to risk it..\n\nmy advice to you... confront him before you assume anything and talk with him... talk it through... conversation is the best option you have... dont do like what i did and talk it out. it will save YOUR HEART from a lot of pain....
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i know how you feel cause i'm going through this too but you have to handle it right , just leave the first move for the boy , if he really likes you he'd talk to you and declare his feelings ..anyway it's just my opinion and you have the last word ...anytime you need me i'd be so happy to offer my help ----> Nancy
914029
if your feeling stupid..felt that too, and you know wat i got???HEARTBREAK
666938
I know exactly how you feel!Only in kind of a tighter position. Just look at my Q & A.But since your the guy,YOU need to make the first move.Dont be shy,it sounds like you guys really like each other.
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Don't feel guilty.  Get up and have a fantastic time with this new guy.  You aren't mourning, sweetie, you just broke up with someone!  Enjoy yourself and do what makes you happy!  Never feel guilty for doing something that makes you feel good!
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i had the same problem with me guy friend and all i said was (Dont spent your time upset just think about this .You r a great guy and any girl would be lucky to date you and if she didnt see that than she isnt worth it.)and he actually felt better.\n\n\n                                                                      try it you wont regret
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i know how you feel cuase i maybe just getting out of that right now...\n\nsee i haven't had a real boyfriend for almost 2 years  and about two weeks ago i asked a guy that is a grade younger out, he said yes becuase i knew he really liked me.. we went out for a week then i said i am just a lil over welmed by the feeling and just need to take a lil break.. after a while he started talking to my friends and practically the whoiole school found out we liked each other and now everyone considers us to be dating...  and we just kinda go with everyone cuase everyone else thinks it is great now im not so overwelmed with the feeling... i think the overwelming i use to feel was that i was afraid of being heartbroken again.\n\ndon't worry you will grow out of the feeling a lil while after you begin dating.. depending on however your emotions work..\n\nnothing to really worry about
312145
just tell him that u like him and if he doesn't like u just stay with his friend but if he does say that u feel kind of wierd around him to u'r boyfriend and u will break up and then u can ask the guy u like out
734409
I am in the same boat as you, and I have the exact same feelings. I think that we have this problem because people around us are dating, and we're not so we feel left out. Just try to have fun with your friends, like I do. You'll stop wondering about your romantic future. Who knows...maybe you'll see him that night. Just make sure that isn't the only goals to your plan.
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Don't say you're an idiot...I don't know you but I'm sure you are a nice girl...no one really is an expert or born knowing how to deal with relationship matters...for what is worth it sounds like you wish to have a REAL relationship...you mentioned that you guys had agreed on not having a relationship but see now you have feelings for him...and the longer you wait the more damaging you are doing to yourself(if he's not interested). Tell him how you feel about the situation.if he runs away then YOU'LL KNOW that he is not the right one..BUT DONT FOOL YOURSELF and hide your feelings...BEST OF LUCK TO YOU.
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go and ask him how he feels about u. guy will play dumb so u might have to explain to him. and do it when noone else is around. ppl act different when others are around.
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why do you think there is anything to do?  You told him--and good for you for being brave!--but apparently he doesn't feel the same way and that's life.  Move on, you took a chance, it didn't work out but you should feel good about acting on your feelings.  Some day you will tell someone you like them and they will say they like you, too.
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So am I, in love and feeling lonely and uncared for :-(
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If this guy doesn't like you, sweety there is nothing that you could do. I have been in a situation like this before. I had a crush on someone for three yrs. Everytime i saw him, my heart melted right into my hands. As time went on with him knowing how i felt, and not once did he care, i gradually got over him, it took some time but i did. Compared to the type of women that he was dealing with, in my mind i felt that he just let something good slip right passed him. If a man doesn't realize what they could have had, then hey their loss. If he can't see the good woman in you, then someone will. He's not worth your sleepless nights, your tears, your pain. Get up from there, fix yourself up, and take yourself out.