What should I be doing?
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Isn't this one of life's biggest questions?  Ultimately it is through your day to day choices as to whether you have a good life or not.  For example, if you make bad or questionable choices at work and end up getting fired, well, that's your fault.  You, however, have no control over other people's ability to make choices for themselves.  Sometimes unfortunately, other peoples stupid mistakes affect us and then we have to deal with them.  If you're in a good relationship, then you chose well.  If your future looks bright, keep it that way by always looking at the bright things.  If you're "ultra-depressed" something tells me that you are not a "cup is half full" person.  Try being optimistic for a change.  When something goes bad, try to find the good things in your life.  I'm married and when things get financially tough for my husband and me we try to look at what we do have instead of the things we don't have: we are healthy, we have food on the table, we have each other, etc.  I know it sounds so lame, but let me tell you, I am a much happier person when I count my blessings instead of being the victim.\n\nI have a friend who has crap thrown her way ALL the time.  I've never seen someone have to deal with as much as she does and most of it is stuff that is completely out of her hands (she has multiple schlerosis, can't EVER have kids, husbands job is crap, etc.).  But she is the most upbeat person I have ever met.  She never complains when it would totally be in right to do so.  She always worries about other people's simpler problems.  She's pretty amazing.  I wish I could have the same outlook and understanding that she apparently has on life.  Maybe try it.\n\nWell, good luck with your life!
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Play on computer.  Make things which were once chores into leisure.  Like, gardening, painting.  You now have time to enjoy doing those things because your not rushed.  If you can afford it take some trips, and don't hurry home. Just relax and enjoy watching the clouds go by, you have earned the right!
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Volunteer with those less fortunate. \n\nSpend time with friends or family.\n\nStart a hobby you have always wanted to try.\n\nBecome more involved with your church.\n\nTravel.\n\nTake classes in something you always wanted to learn more about.
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Do the community service. It will make you feel good even if is mandatory. It will also give you some time to think about how else you could spend your time once the service is done.
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it depends on where you are now. but i would say relax. more will come to you that way. don't try cramming. you needed to learn a long time ago.
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Well...how pro-active do you consider yourself? it depends a lot! but I'd say check all systems around, check servers status, browse some IT webpages in order to learn more, take a break, go back and keep looking around for new updates, make a list of current software installed on yor servers and PC's on the network then take a chat with someone there at office, NOT CHAT, and so make good friends around that way they'll ask you lots of questions that you'll be able to respond! Combine all this activities all days and or invent new ones, those are just samples, then you'll see how fun is your job!  Bye!
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And so then what?  What am i supposed to do about that?
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How you are doing or what you up to.
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Please be more specific. What is doing wrong?
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what exactly are you trying to do? tell me alittle more and i might can help
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what do you have, and what is your goal
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YES! What do I need to do?
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Honey you should probably include your location. Just some advice. lol
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make plan and take action
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What are you contributing to?
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u should be intresting
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Who?  How should I know!