why is it when  u are looking hot  and fine no one does approach u as much as when u are not looking that hot?
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If you are infact looking very hot and fine, maybe they are intimidated. scared. think of it as if you are on fire and they dont want to get burned.\nwhen you take it down a notch or two, you seem more human and normal.\nif instead your just being full of yourself, think about instead, feeling sexy and beautiful rather than looking it. if you feel it, it works well too.
943454
If your really that hot then, us guys think your too good for them and want make a move, What I like is when really hot girls gives me hints to know that she is interested in me, try hints like saying "your hot too" or "thanks sexy" when they complement you. If they don't make a move then there either gay or in a relationship already. Us guys don't always know what a girl wants. And a lot a of girls don't make it easy for us. Good luck.
388274
Be yourself, not everyone goes on good looks.  If you are yourself around someone they really appreciate it and they can also feel comfortable too.  No matter how someone looks it's what's inside that counts.  If that person doesn't like you because you're not as good looking as them then they are really shallow and you're better off without them.  Money doesn't always get good lookers ppl!
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i think that is just the personality of some ppl. you just have to be aware of how other people are feeling around you, that's all. i sometimes notice if i'm making someone feel small, ignored or uncomfortable. just try to monitor that more... i know about the stress... it's crazy
427139
go talk to them instead of waiting for them to approach you.. maybe you seem un-approachable
494376
we call someone hot who is attractive and who u cant get ur eyes off.... sometimes its just the attitude u need to be HOT....... :)
1094769
you seem alittle stuck on yourself i mean if you gotta ask complete strangers to look at your pictures to see if your hot then that means you know it and are fishing for the compliments
637168
It is not that they are trying to get someone else's attention, it is because they feel empowered by dressing provacatively. This is usually because the person is on the look out for a particular person and is waiting to get noticed by that certain someone. However, if you don't fit the standard they are looking for, you just better not linger your gaze too long. It is about being available but only to a certain type.
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Well, it really depends on her confidence level.  I'm not very self-confident, so if I see a guy that I think is super-hot, I really don't think I have a chance with him, so I'll act pretty shy and aloof, and you know, check him out when he's not looking.  Secretly, I want to go up to him and start a conversation, but I'm afraid of getting shot down.  Of course, each girl really is different.
1134061
Because most people aren't as beautiful as you.
185999
Oh.. u sound sweet. Listen, if some guy is to shy to approach a girl, then i think that the guydoesn't like here that much
769038
i have the same problem, yes, just try to relax, and smile a bit, but dont much or you would look awkward
386939
Perhaps you want to ask yourself first, could be due to you not smiling most of the time and so you look intimidating to them? Or perhaps your shyness made them think you are arrogant and aloof? Of course you are not like that from what your friends and family said, but rmb that those people are new to you, they dont know you well. So i would suggest that maybe you want to smile and look friendlier.  Then naturally, people would be comfortable to talk to you. If you are already very friendly looking, then maybe you should forget abt your shyness and make the first step to get to know peopel. A simple smile will do, and perhaps a Hi. Before you know it, conversation will flow smoothly. And I must say smth abt your looks. It is NOT because of your physical appearance that people dont want to know you. We(most of us) make friends based on anything but NOT appearance! If they care abt your appearance, then that is not true friendship. Rmb, be natural, be yourself. Friends will come knocking! XD All the best. Take care.
133305
we are constantly checking out guys we are just better at being subtle.\nusually girls know how hot they are
288318
it could be your not being social enough or...your not putting your self out there letting your self be known...or\nit could be quietness
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if you are taller than them then that could be a reason that you way more but are as skinny or skinnier. thats how it is for me.
907639
Its easy to feel that way ..when in fact, sometimes people are staring at you because they think you are attractive, or even look like someone they know..and they start staring at you and don't even realize they're doing it...If you were sure they were singling you out..if it is at all possible, without prejudging them...you could ask them point blank, if there is something you can do for them..now if they are just some stooge looking for a fight..then just walk the other way and dont oblidge them..unless you have good reason to think that someone is out to get you...you should try not to let your imagination run away with you...Maybe you are very nice looking and just dont know it