How do I get rid of my husbands know it all buddy with out causing probs with hubby?
444846
No, your not wrong.  A guy deserves to have his friends, and your not going to like a lot of them, but he needs to also respect you and how you feel.  It seems to me that since you work on weekends there is obviously time for him and his friend to hang out, and that it shouldn't be a big deal to send the friend home once you get off work so that the two of you can spend time together.  A marriage is about compromise and committing to what is important.  In this case what is important should be you and the compromise should be a little less time spend hanging out with his friend.  Doesn't seem like a lot to ask keep the marriage going.
582877
Boy, this is such dangerous grounds.  You want your husband to know what a slimeball his friend is for making passes at you, but you don't want to start a fight between the two of them or get in between them.\n\nI would wait it off for a while.  Try to make a huge point to your husband's friend that you are *not* interested.  Be rude right back to him if you have to.  If that doesn't work, then you will probably have no choice but to tell your husband to get the issue resolved and get his friend to back off.
99302
In all honesty, if he planned to stop, i'd tell you to keep it a secret because you could ruin their marriage...but since he's gunna keep doing it, you have to come clean to his wife.  He's being disrespectful to her and he's being an idiot.  If he loved her, he wouldn't need anyone else and he's probably not even worth being with her...tell her the truth and let them sort it out
453280
listen home wrecker!\nStay away from married women.
1124108
It is obvious you are just trying to p i s s your husband off. Have fun with that.
48340
Get off the computer and spend some time with your husband!
106398
Sit him down, don't dramatize the situation and just explain to him in a mature and resolute way that you no longer wish to share the living arrangement you currently share. The best way to deal with any problem is just being honest about it with the people involved because nothing sucks worse than being the last know especially when it's a life altering decision that affects you.
308103
Just stop and think of all the good things your husband has done and the reasoning behind you marrying him! Change the subject every time you find your self getting ready to nag! I nag alot too but I just have to stop and think can I do anything about the situation, then I try and do it! As long as you know you are doing it at least this is the first step into getting better, You can do it just slow down and think before you speak! Also know there's a time to be quiet and a time to speak out loud! Certain things that really get you mad just talk to him about them and see if he can help you with any of them, others just try and do whatever it is your self! Good Luck and God Bless!
1028211
First off, yes Oh my gosh I get so pissed at my husband for the smallest things.  I think it is because we become so comfortable with them, and they are constantly in the same living space as we are, that you can't bottle every little irritation up you have to let it out otherwise you might explode one day and not be married anymore.
829118
Dump the bum and quick!  Sounds like there are some problems going on in this guys head and you don't need to be a part of it.  I think you already knew you have to get him out of your house and out of your life, you just needed confirmation and support from people not so close.  Well, you are getting plenty of the same advice; so listen to all of us strangers who only want the best for you - GET RID OF HIM . . .NOW!
244209
You need to sit your husband down and explain to him exactly how you feel.  Then you need to avoid your in-laws to salvage your mental health.  Allow your husband to visit them whenever he wants, but you stay home or go to a movie.  Seriously, my mother-in-law hated me and she broke up my marriage in the end.  It sounds like you need a vacation....
762508
As long as your man isn't getting in trouble with the law also then it really creates no problems.  Sad truth is though that people judge others by the company they keep. Therefore your man may be gaining a reputation that he neither deserves or has earned as some may look at him and say "run with dogs you catch fleas".  Speak with your husband and tell him of your concerns and how you are afraid that it may affect your children by his choice of acquaintances.  Best of luck and I hope that it is just a phase that your husband is going through and that he outgrows it for everyone involved soon.
613989
i'm sure my friend got married and she still has all her shopping cards. you need to get rid of him if he wants you to loose the cards!!
489150
Good riddance to him. He is not a supportive husband. He is useless. Don't regret what you have done.
798553
Your hubby needs a hobby.
940513
I'm in same boat with my hubby i'm lucky i'm on computer now to answer this the way he hogs the computer.   Give him errans to run and if you want to spend time with him find things you know he'll want to do like go to a guy flick.  I finally got hubby off to go see saw 111.  Try creative things he may be feeling bored and games are is only outlet.  I try and play games with him i hate it but at least we;re together.  Also be open about how you feel i did and he cut his game playing in half lol i'm working on the other half now lol
572150
Send a buddy you have in you're town to have a little "chat" with him and have him tell him when you come back, you'll be "visiting" him too. Maybe your wife can file a complaint somewhere, so they get rid of him, or she can go somewhere else then. that stuff pisses me off! I don't even know you, but Id go there for you at a drop of a hat! Take care over there, watch each others back and come home safe.