How Can I Make Myself Happy With My Life?
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If anything it's nice to hear that your not much of a slacker in your academics.But do you do it to prove something to your parents?Trying to make up for past events isn't easy now or later in life.You'll learn that the more that you stay out of the party lifestyle will be beneficial.You can put on your public face, but I'm sure your parents love you very much and are just trying to look out for you .The news said there were some teens planning a massacre.So at least your parents are there for you .And just try to talk out a compromise .There's so much more out there to look forward to.Stay strong!!
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Start doing things for yourself.  Follow a dream, get a new hobby, find an activity you always wanted to try.  The key is to do something that you can feel good about doing for yourself, regardless of whos in or out of your life.\n\nIt seems you're thinking too much the guy , a guy  or having no guy.   Your life's about making the most of an opportunity to find and do what makes you happy.  People will come and go and when the right guy comes along, he'll  see how you're enjoying life and want to be part of that... not see that you are waiting for him and give up his life to be the center of yours. Hope this helps put things in perspective.
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You are the only one who can decide if your own life is fulfilling.  It you are happy with the way you are living, then don't worry about it.  If, on the other hand, you are unhappy or lonely, then force yourself to join groups, volunteer, or go out by yourself.  If you do something you are interested in, you'll find new friends and new hobbies that will interest you even more. Good luck!
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To tell you the truth I don't know if you can be happy every day of your life. Certainly not every moment. \n Keeping a positive attitude, knowing that things will be better when they are bad, knowing things could be so much worse. Having a special someone in your life that you love and loves you back. Well those are the things that keep me happy most days. But I am not perfect and the world isn't perfect so I take what I can get and make the best of it.
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hey cutie pie,\ncommon the  best way to be happy is to be with life the wy it brings u and also have a good time tryin g to get new friends and sharing urself with someone.
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You should be your own best friend. There is only person in this world who can make you happy...yourself. Really, as corny as it sounds, happiness doesn't come from being with someone or having someone or the way that someone treats you...its about how you look at life. You have to live this life and if you want to live it crying or laughing...you still have to live it so why not laugh along with it. Try to make new friends, reconnect to your old friends, get some new hobbies, join a club, read good books, listen to great music, travel, get out there and take life by the horns...you're young and healthy and active...there are many people who are sick and dying and who'd give anything to be in your place so thank fate and don't feel sorry for yourself.
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Life is about being with that special someone. Happiness comes in many forms to different people. Enjoy what makes you happy.
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The truth is, happiness starts with yourself and your relationship with God.  If you are happy with who you are then your relationships etc., will be happy ones too.
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Depends on your point of view. If u have religious faith, u can try to be more religious and practise it in your daily life. If u r agnostics, well then I'm sure u can come up with something that can satisfy u and make u happy.
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you apreciate life by accepting what you do and what you have, therefore you can be happy about your life...  you can't always have what you want, just be happy about what you have and don't want too many things...  you can also do things that help others, that may make you feel better about yourself too
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Try and it get over. You are the only one that can make yourself happy. Dont dwell on breakups or hurting other people's feelings. ITs all point of life. Move on. Everything gets better in the end. Lifes short so think carefully :) The best of luck 2 you!
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Find something you do really well, and do it often. (For me, it was singing and martial arts.) \n\nSmile at strangers. It's rewarding when they smile back.\n\nThink only good thought about yourself. (I know, it's corny, but it works).\n\nOnly listen to positive, uplifting music.\n\nKnow that God loves you everyday, no matter what. He created you for a purpose. Find it.\n\nGet plenty of exercise.....it releases happy endorphines and makes you feel better.
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Acheiving personal happiness is the primary goal in this life.One is in this world to experience joys and fulfilment.What-ever be the reason,past is dead.Live in the present and dream about your future . Plan actions for  where you would like to be years hence. Keep youself physically and mentally busy.
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being happy with choices you have made in your life
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Do something for someone else.  Not only will it be nice for the other person it will help you get your mind off of your own problems.  \n\nDrinking, shopping and eating are all quick fixes and may help for a while but I think that you need to look for something more long term that will make you happy.  \n\nWhat do you like doing?  What do you love doing?  Things like guitar, writing, chess, gardening, painting.  \n\nTry different things untill you find something you like.  \n\nAlso make yourself goals and try to stick to them.  \n\nTo get more self esteem you should do things that make you proud of yourself rather than external beauty.  \n\nOh and about finding god.  God is great if you truly have faith but dont try to use it as a band aid for your problems.\nGood luck.
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Every morning when you get out of bed, have a good stretch and say out loud:  'This is the first day of the rest of my life'.   Do not waste a moment of your precious time.  Try to be nice to people - imagine that it is the last day of their life and how you could make it their happiest.  Have respect for yourself and others.  Tell those you love, how much you love them.\n\nEnjoy yourself and may 'the rest of your life' be happy, contented, lovely and with lots of friends and family.  God Bless and good luck.
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Well... look around... Do you like what you see? Are you happy for what lessons you have already learned? Are you pleased on what you are able to do for the better of tomorrow? That is all really. If you are happy. If you are pleased on what you have as a past, to put you in your position you are in now, and where it can lean you from your own ambition from knowing that this is your life. And if you are not happy with anything, well that is something that needs to be worked out within yourself, because you should be happy for everything in your life. Why should there be a reason for you to be un-happy? Are you missing anything? Do you have patience to take the time and effort to get to that point in obtaining that goal? Everything is in your hands. Just remember to take everything as it is and be happy for it. Don't expect anything. Things will flow much better if you do that. Hope this helps. Cheers!