What would you think if a man you have been chatting wjth online for a week sends you a gift?
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Well he is sending a good message. He likes you obviously. However you have to be really careful. It would be cool for you to on ahead and being flattered and everything but you have to watch out. Bad things can happen. However dont let that stop you from enjoyin this intelligent man as you say. Just stay cautious at times and be careful, whatever you decide to do. I mean hey, he did send you a gift so you might as well go for it. Great men are usually distnaces away. But they will get to you one way or another ( i mean that in a good way)
209296
Please be very careful, what you may read in or hear, isn't what you may get. Online words, are just words. How do you know you can trust this person, they already know what you desire, or what you want just from chatting with you, the person could be saying all things that you want to see and hear but it may not be real. Just don't jump to fast, marriage is a big step, a commitment. Please slow down and have him slow, for both parties to make sure this is what you really want. I wish you luck and happiness.
239326
Chat with him online!
659334
Well clearly he likes chatting with you because he is already doing that. So really it's a very small step to take to make that a chat in the real rather than virtual world. Whether he has stronger feelings is really not relevant at this stage. Just suggest it would be good to meet up when you get back and have a chat over a cup of coffee, I would be stunned if he say's no. Then take it from there, maybe you will just have a friend maybe it will be more but you will never know unless you take that small step of asking.
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If you are going to give a gift card - make it a game for him to find it so that the gift IS personal.\n\nI made up computer generated "coupons" for all sorts of services (including adult content things) and left post-it notes all over the house telling him where to go next like a scavenger hunt...sometimes he got "favors", sometimes there were silly things like a Snickers bar or a bottle of wine...when he finally got to the end of the trip, he found the card inside a pair of underwear (that I was wearing) that said "both of these are for you"...\n\nIt was fun and he has asked me for a gift card again!!!
188265
i really dont know how to help you because guys are different from girls...if it was a girl then i could help since i am one...anyways, honestly, if he hasnt sent a reply in over a month, i dont think he ever will : ) but i could definitely be wrong! mayeb he never got the email or something? just go with your instinct!
738628
I dunno really... \nMaybe, gift card, a new pair of clothes.... Maybe.... you can give him a (regular) card....
884672
I'd like my life to be just fine, perfect, for a little while.  Just to be able to forget about all problems, leave it all behind and feel grateful for what I have (family, friends, health, job, etc).\n\nAnd of course, my perfect match.  I know him, but he lives in another continent (Nigeria, Africa), so having him near would be the best gift, along with the happy feeling...should I send you his address? :)\n\nWhat would you like?  :)\n\nMerry Christmas from Chile!
1102980
Hmmmmm, giving money to a complete stranger over the internet? Good idea/Bad  idea, you decide, if you decide it's a good idea, please email me!
874903
it's been done before and he will be surprised because he is not expecting it since you already told him what it was, he will expect a different gift.\n\nLots of fun isn't it.  Merry Xmas
853357
Do you expect us to believe that you haven't talked to any men in....what did you say... a year? He came home to you didn't he? Sounds like you have some trust issues or you wouldn't have been checking up on his internet usage. \n\nA little advise here..... people will find what they are looking for.... and that goes for trouble too!
911312
Well, it sounds like maybe he needs a little prodding...maybe you should get him a gift that signifies something meaningful to the two of u, and then plan a night that he wont soon forget.
266886
If his being with you has made your life happier or more meaningful, there would be no sweeter gift than to somehow let him know this.
761901
Well, Guys generally do not give their Friends birthday gifts. So I think the answer to your question in context would be because that is what woman do.
291594
Well if the e-mail was from you. I probably would look at it, and not reply for two weeks-because I"M A GUY!
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I personally wouldn't give him a video game or anything. I would give him an ornament that he can keep forever, or maybe a scrapbook. give him baseball tickets. or a baseball/basketball signed by you with a message. Merry Christmas!
360969
He has been with you for two years, so this must mean something. He says he loves you and I am sure he does. Is he a generous and  thoughtful guy as this is an indication why he gives money to that girl. She is probably in a difficult situation and has no one else to turn to. Is he replying to a text rather than sending them which is a bit different. Give him a chance. Dont throw away the time you have been together. Play it by ear for now.