What do u do when u truly luv someone but she says she can't date u bcoz of a bad experience she had once had?
451975
well if you real love her you need to let her know how you real fell about her and let her know she can trust you. and if she say she still doesn't want to just give her some time and she well see how much you real love her and that she can trust you it well take some time i know just give it time i was like her to at one time she well get over it one of this days and you well be there for her good luck and i hope thing go your way
247795
If i was you id give her that second chance, but lay down the law and say 2 her that if she does it again, you r leavin her and defo not comin bak 2 her no more b/c she cant keep puttin u through what she is puttin u through, and also ask her 2 find another job if it gets 2 bad and if yous want it 2 work. The trust will come bak soon or later :)
478413
either she loves you! or she's afraid that if you start dating someone you won't spend as much time with her! You should sit her down and have a talk!
286283
Sometimes that just happens and there isn't anything you can do about it. Just remember the good times that you shared, and let her know that you'll be there for her, when she needs you no matter what.
418910
Cut your losses and move on buddy.  Anyone who truely loves you wouldn't have to look anywhere else.  If she loved you whole heartedly, she would never even consider the possibility, or allow herself to become emotionally involved with another person.  She may love you, but not enough.  You deserve more.
278580
Right now, you need her to regain her trust in you. You owe her that, and she deserves all the time she needs. Spend a lot of time with her, be there for her, laugh with her, just show her how special she is to you. Don't just say it, show it. But don't pressure her to get over the hurt. If you do love and care for her like you say, you will be patient. If she decides to move on with someone else, you can only be happy for her and be there if it doesn't work out. I truly think she will notice all these things and will come around when she's ready. Good luck, and no more deceptions.
938922
Gently tell her what you told us.  You should not be forced to do what you're not ready for.  It's not like you're ruling it out - you're just not ready.
624591
I really believe that just when you think things cannot get any worse, they get a whole lot better. Two months is a young relationship. Love is a strong word. I'm not undermining your feelings, but if it is true love, it'll be there even after the worst of things. So, if you don't get the same feelings back from her, ask yourself, do you like to feel bad?
515572
keep up the good work....trust is EARNED\nshe must have been hurt REAL BAD b4...\ndon't EVER give her a reason to not trust you\nif she EVER catches you flirting with another gal...it'll take EVEN longer for her to trust you again...
330803
im in the same situation.. because of my past.. im afraid to get too attatched just to get hurt AGAIN... but honestly.. .if you like this girl alot.. and you're willing to wait to see where it may go, go for it! BUT LIKE SHE SAID.. if what you truly want is to walk away.. do what you gotta do... everyone goes through hard times.. but in the end.. she is probably more concerned with you being happy than anything else!
596718
you have to think about why it is that you feel this way. why do you think you aren't good enough for her. once you figure this out you can start the healing process within yourself. it's okay to argue.. it's part of life. the tough part is how you are going to handle it and manning up to any mistakes you may have made. that is the true test of a relationship. this doesn't mean that you don't deserve her. if anything.. she's putting you on to things so you are aware how you are hurting her, yourself, and the relationship. if she says she loves you .. believe it. communication is the key. have a talk with her and try to sort out your feelings. if you really love her .. try and work it out. but you gotta trust her. live and let go.. easier said than done.. but you'll be happier in the long run with the one you love.. hope it helps..
4205
She really likes you but she is confused, she is not sure if its going to work out or not. she is really scared of getting hurt once again. Just repect her and give her time and space to think.
1116536
if you really think that in her heart she really wants you back, maybe going on a few dates may send a different message to her - that you really don't care about her as much as you said. She seems as if she is taking her time to think about what happened with your relationship and if its a good idea to reconcile. The important thing is that you've been sincere and you let her know how much you love her and would like a second chance, give her as much time as you think to make her decesion, but waiting too long will prevent you from moving on with your life
1163469
WELL, RIGHT NOW I WOULD TAKE THINGS REALLY SLOW.... SHE MAYBE HURT AND IS VULNERABLE RIGHT NOW.... I WOULD GIVE HER SOMETIME TO FIND HERSELF AGAIN AND TO HEAL.... IF YOU ALREADY HAD THE CHANCE TO BE WITH HER.... EXPLAIN TO HER YOU REALIZE YOUR FAULTS AND WOULD LIKE THE CHANCE TO MAKE THINGS RIGHT.... SHE MAY COME AROUND.... AT THE MOMENT SHE MAY SEEM BITTER AND IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU.... SO DON'T THINK SHE DON'T LIKE YOU ANYMORE... SHE NEEDS TIME.... ALL WOMAN DO....
258445
I agree with MissR, let her get her life in some sort of order before you try anything. You should just try to be there for her, a shoulder to cry on and a great friend to talk to. That will mean a lot to her and she will be more likely to come to you when she is ready to date again cuz she knows you will be there for her when she really needs it.
482250
For a start, applogise dearly to her and tell her this time your luv comes from your heart, no string attached..Its your destiny to be wit her..and that you now realise she was also meant to be wit you..
680552
You have to let her know that hurting you physically is not acceptable. If not, you will be hurt again.