my boyfriend is going with his cousins what should i do???????????????????????????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
442109
dont panic calm down and go out with your girlfriends
837541
You go, girlfriend!  Sounds like the two of you were meant to be together.\n\nIf you make it to the movies, "Kissin' Cousins" with Elvis would be a good choice. Might help you two break the ice.
756424
It's completly legel, n it is goin back quite a few generations. It just depends how u feel about the relationship, I no sum1 hu is goin out wid there 1st cousin. continue it if u feel u want to/can! :-)
1007488
Well if your cousin is of legal age and beyond the age of consent she is free to pick her own boyfriends so to keep from sounding ignorant its probably best for you to say nothing at all.
733740
Kayla.....LIVE>>>>Rock out and enjoy yourself. Tell this dude things are done and over with. He is controlling. Do your own thing. Do what you do and have fun. Dont worry about your friends...they will be there.
401583
If that is the case, there is absolutely nothing you can do.  It would really be up to your boyfriend to speak up and mention to his family that he is in love with you.  If he is not saying anything to his family about you, you might as well kiss your boyfriend good bye.
170805
awww...that's so sad--dump the girlfriend--there are other girls out there who won't cheat on you--forgive your cousin--blood's thicker than water
112951
If you feel weird about it don't do it.  I think it would be better if you keep your independence and don't rely upon them.  It is great to be close to your bf's family but there also should be some distance so you can be you without having to worry that they may be watching every thing you do.
22702
This may not be exactly what you want to hear but I'm going to answer your question in the adult manner in which you asked it.\n\nIf the relationship is meant to be, it will last the test of time...time for both of you to grow up a bit more & wait to date with your parents approval. I know this doesn't help much but everyone, including your boy-friend is trying to look out for you & do what's best. Personally, it always annoyed me when people did this for me when I was your age so I can understand you feeling like you don't know where to turn.\n\nMy suggestion is to remain friends with this boy & don't try to take things too fast. There is always time for dating in a few years, not to mention all of the other things that tend to come with dating. While you might feel ready for some of that now, you will appreciate it much more after having waited for it & building a stronger friendship. Yes, I know you may not believe this right now so, please, read this little story about my cousin...\n\nI have a cousin who met a boy when they were both young...just about your age, in fact. The two of them became friends but he was shy &, as time went on, he never asked her out. He didn't go out with anyone else either & always spent his free time with her. Well, when they turned 16 & 17, he finally asked her out & they dated only each other. As it turned out, the boy had asked my uncle long ago what his rules were about dating his daughter (when he was about 14, I believe) & also told my uncle of his intention to marry her someday. While my uncle didn't believe it at the time, he certainly did as the years rolled by & the boy refused to date anyone other than my cousin. All the way through high school & college they were a pair &, believe it or not, they didn't even go in for the things that most teenagers do, if you know what I mean. To everyone else it just seemed like a sweet & gentle relationship.\n\nWhen they finally moved to that next level of a relationship, they were already in college, having been together & waited years with nothing more than kisses & hugs. They are now married with a beautiful child &, I promise you, have one of the strongest relationships that I have ever seen. I honestly think this is because they were friends first & took their time learning everything about each other.\n\nI hope this helps & that you can learn something useful from my cousin's story...
1178492
I would think he likes his cousin and thinks you are being disrespectful (which you are) to be making fun of his girlfriend.  Grow up and stop acting like your 10.
648380
Is that not for your cousin to worry about,,don't get involved in your cousins crap!!!!!!!!!!!
1161363
I think you should run as fast as you can from this guy. He is your cousin's boyfriend and hes using you for sex  if he loved you he would break off with your cousin and not keep you on the side. You will cause a lot of family problems if you stay with him first your cousin will hate, you then both your parents with get involved. Find a nice guy who is only interested in you and you totally. You wont have to sneak around behind every ones back and you will feel a lot happier. Bump the jerk and so should your cousin........
1094430
ask ur cousin y he or she told u 2 stay away from him. if he or she has a good reason then u should probably stay away but if it is just because he or she doesn't like the guy then use ur good judgement.
716867
Talk to your aunt and talk to your cousin.  Tell them you've noticed there reactions and ask them what is going on, why are they behaving this way.  Then tell them straight out that you are not interested in him and never have been.  Best way is to be direct and hope it works.  good luck!
381271
dont stress over him there are better men out there, i mean how much of a dream can he be if he is with your cousin after you two were together?
931096
DO NOT TRUST THEM. I don't want to see your story in the paper! I don't want to get an Amber Alert on your baby. Keep him with you. If he wants to see his grandparents, go with him, meet them in a neutral place, and DO NOT leave him alone with them. You're being very smart to wonder about it. Be careful. And, of all times to need him close, it's at a family holiday like Thanksgiving. You need his company way worse than they do.
127835
go hang with you boyfriend (if you have one) how old are you???\n\nif you dont have a boyfriend spend some quality time with your family