im still inlove with this guy would it be ok to send a card to his house he still lives with his parents?
443690
well if you're in love with him and he says that he loves you and regrets what happened, then I don't see anything wrong with it. Just remember, if he lives with his parents, don't write anything that you don't want them to see.
471567
Heck NO, it is great. The card is his way of not saying out loud that he cares very much that you are his brother and he wants you to know that he loves you in that way. Be thankful he did, so many forget to tell each other every day, that when it does happen they immediately think it is weird.
884672
I'd like my life to be just fine, perfect, for a little while.  Just to be able to forget about all problems, leave it all behind and feel grateful for what I have (family, friends, health, job, etc).\n\nAnd of course, my perfect match.  I know him, but he lives in another continent (Nigeria, Africa), so having him near would be the best gift, along with the happy feeling...should I send you his address? :)\n\nWhat would you like?  :)\n\nMerry Christmas from Chile!
364654
well, i wouldn`t advise you but you must try to meet both and get to know each other well..if he really loves you he would do all his best to meet you personally..i myself hav been chattig with a guy for the past 9months but not on the net.he`d taken my num and we`ve been chatting on the phone till now!you know am in the same situation as yours but still i have a hope.i dont know him,he dont know me but he`s coming to my country with his dad to meet me.the fact is that we dont hide anything from each other.watever hapened in the past he tells me and i tell him.am from mauritius and he`s from london!!!!so wat i can tell you is:best of luck!!but still try to get everything clear from him about his past etc..if he loves you he will not keep you in the dark am sure
25343
Obviously, I don't know all the legits about your situation with your mother, however sending a card never hurt. I believe that you should send your mother a card. If she still doesn't like you, at least you know that you tried.
884997
Absolutely, that is how to send a card.  If you send an e-card, it will be forgotten, ar maybe never opened.  I just do not think there is a lot of warmth in an e-card.
406646
Jea, at the risk of sounding like your father, I would advise you NOT to visit.  No, not for the usual “perverts online” reasoning, but for a purely practical line of thought.\n\nConsider the possibilities:\n(1) The person is, indeed, the perfect match.  If this is the case and the two of you are truly meant for each other, nothing will keep you apart any longer than necessary.  But this can also mean that he can come to you when the time is right.  Love has a way of “making thing happen.”  Love never has to feel rushed.\n(2) The person is not “the one” but is experienced enough to know how to “talk” to you.  This person might suggest getting together for selfish reasons, not for love.  These people will always have a good excuse as to why they cannot come to you, but you must come to them.  It tells them how well they have you “hooked.”\n(3) The person has much in common with you, but what you are feeling is Romance, not Love.  The only way to sort this out is continuing the relationship over a longer time.  Romance fades, Love does not.\n\nJust email?  No phone calls?  No letters?  Never a single flower delivered?  Allow a progression to take place.  Experience the closeness and do not allow fantasy to rule over reality.\n\nIf you feel that you just have to meet this person, do it in a public place, during the daytime, in a neutral location.  Do not go alone.  Go with a friend or two.  Let others know in advance what you are doing.  If you are in your 20’s or older, that is one thing.  If you are still a teen, seriously consider your experience and the life choices involved.
152312
Don't 'be a card', and try to rekindle a burnt-out fire - by sending this bum a greet or gift ! [That's at least 5 to 25 dollars saved !]\nLet West be West, and East remain East - and do not waste ur time, imagining that this 'twain shall meet' once again !\nJust forget about this soul-less guy, and move on with ur own life : There are plenty of nice, decent and thoughtful men still around - for u to pick and choose one from !\nCheers !
180999
send him a greeting via email 123greetings.com is an excellent site. Find a card that says something like there's something special about you! They have a wide variety of cards that says different things. Good LUCK!!
678707
if they want to be here, they should do it legaly.... thats the end of the story, you dont want to get in trouble for things that they are doing that you all know are not legal here... so if he loves you he will do everything the right way...
273853
If he is a nice fella, sure ... why not!\n\nWhen the family asks how we met, I can say on Yahoo Answers!
967278
No, he doesn't deserve presents. A card is more than generous. A gift is a gift, it's not mandatory and for your sister to even insist that he get one is not only rude, but down right a poor show of manners. If she is insistent that you get him a gift, then perhaps she can share hers. Whatever you get her, just stick his name on it too. Someone who can't make an effort to get to know the family of the girl he *loves* doesn't deserve anything more.
554464
yes its ok, in most family's both parents work. I bet there is some time when you don't need to be in the house and you could get a job. do it if you need the money or if its something you want to do. your happiness should be one of his highest priorities.
346029
Give it, young man, gifts like that are the ones that mean everything to a woman. Sounds like you really love this one so take the chance, parents are always going to be parents. Love is your choice.
751417
Sorry hon but where I live you MUST have VALID photo id and an adult would HAVE to accompany you. I understand that you miss him but I'm with your family on this one. I doubt he's "right" for you. If he were you wouldn't be in this predicament.
760190
unless one of you will be moving in the future to either the usa or uk then no.\n\nwhat would be the point in even starting as you would have to visit each other regularly for this to work\n\nnot to mention the calls / emails etc etc\n\nthink long and hard over this as i would say you may fall for him and the distance comes between you as neither of you wants to move.\n\n\nits a long way to move only to find out he lives like a pig or is a neat freak or goes to bed really early or not at all etc etc....\n\nyou may think you know them from the visits but to a certain extent you will only see 'best behaviour'\n\ngood luck
510747
When my son was 12 he gave me a Mothers Day Card which he made himself. Before I opened it, there's a small string with his short note which says "pull gently".  I pulled the string and out came 5 hearts attached to the string whose end was neatly pasted on the inside part of the card.  Each heart has a name, his Dad and the 4 of them siblings, the rest of the message made my heart burst with joy. He's 18 now and he still does those personalized cards for special occasion in the family.