I like Him so much, but I don't want to seem desperate. We talk on the phone but he's never serious. HELP
446283
you may need to talk person to person and after a bit get the topic to change so that when you ask him what his feelings are it won't seem out of the blue.
425755
I'd say thats an easy question to give an answer to, its simple dont answer every call he gives you, dont be rude and ignore him. And remember being honest is the best way to get to the man u like.
498374
girl I know how u feel and all i can tell u is to suck it up and call him. plan out some topics but make it a short conversation so u don't have a chance to run out of things to say.
532244
Be not desperate. Let him come to you.Be friendly towards him.
121671
Talk is cheap...grab his hand and hold on.  Touch is the quickest and easiest way to communicate.
337013
You can't trully know about any serious intentions until you get to know him. I mean really get to know him. If he's popping serious questions now, he's kind of shallow,or he is totally going at it on a feeling.Feelings tend to change,or be heavily conditional. Which means those feeling are only there when the conditions are right. Proceed with caution.
374029
i think u shud et him know tht u r interested but if u go n give him ur no maybe it wud seem u r too desperate.....let the desperateness grow in him (it will grow indeed once he gets the hint that u lik him)\nthn he will ask for ur cell no shoe no street no etcetc
978048
most guys are afraid of commitment like myself..if you initiate contact i guarentee he will talk to you..just go over to him and sit beside him ask him something as simple as "what are we doing this weekend?" you got to let the comfort roll in you can't force it.just show him you like him and if he doesn't have the confidence to speak to you as a bf i'm sorry but maybe you were better off friends.
819328
Well firstly you must act as soon as possible cuz his feelings will grow deeper everyday and the more he tries to smutther you the more you will resist him and believe me baby the last thing you want, is to shock this guy with a sudden timeout or slowdown call cuz then he'll begin to feel rejected and hurt he then might start to think that there is another guy as most of us men do. if he is a fairly intelligent guy then u could start to express your feelings in your behaviour patterns such as shortening phone calls and mildly shying away when he touches u and he will then ask whats wrong and tell him there and then but in a manner that he understands and also state clearly your position in this relationship try not to be too vague and at the same time show some care or emotion in your words atleast this registers some amount of selfworth in his mind that u still care but not as much as he thought. as long as that is cleared up u will find it is eaiser to make a decision whether to stay in the relationship or ends it on good terms
747347
Let him know you are still interested in him. If he feels the same way, he'll let you know. In my experience, you have to be blunt with guys. Don't just act flirty and all that, he probably won't get it. Just ask him if there is still a chance for you two.
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Since you have so many doubts, you also know in your heart that its not time to get serious. Since he is so sweet, he will not try to rush you into something you aren't ready for either. I suggest you just keep the relationship on a slow pace and really get to know each other before worrying about a real commitment from either of you.
905852
Not knowing is the worst.  But have faith.   What are his reations to you?? any kind words, flirting?    Just tell him if it gets too hard.
507599
If you are desperate, show it to him! Be yourself, don't try to act. Guys like girls who are just themselves.\nJust kiss him passionately and be real. It's the perfect receipe for a well-cooked relationship!
199961
Start off with, "hi" and let it go from there.  You can't force chemistry, you either got it or don't got it. If you don't have it, then you have to think to yourself, "he's not good enough for me cause he can't even talk to me." If he can't talk to you and he doesn't have anything in common with you, then he must be boring.
723896
You can try the subtle way. Tell him you like being around him that should do it. Wait and pick the right time.
901677
ask him if you two can talk and tell him its important. then tell him that you liked him forever, he probibly feels the same way about you. then see where things go from there.
931826
Excessive texting means that he is not that into you, yet. And if you feel that he is shy or has some other issue than ask him and let him know that you preferred a phone call. If he still keeps texting you and if you like him then back off from him a bit, give his some distance even when he is trying to communicate with you. If you turn him down a few times and not show that you are dying to go out with him he most likely will chase you down with a phone call. You should know that you are worth a phone call if that's what you prefer and if he is not even going to give you that much then he is not the one for you. \n\nRemember you are worth it, really. It's just a bloody phone call. This is test and don't let him off if he fails.