Would giving my g/f a massage after she's had a stressful day calm her down?
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Probably, but be careful not to be too rough. Technique isn't everything, but it is something, you know?
110469
I think a day of pampering is the best.  Like a day at the spa.  Or, you could get the couples package where you go, get massages, eat dinner in your robe, then go and get a pedicure before retiring to the suite you rented for the night with a bottle of wine and candles.  Then you can end the night right and before she falls asleep she will be in heaven.
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It's best I think when it's out of the blue you go over to her when she's in the middle of doing something turn her around and give her a nice big hug squeeze tight but not to tight for a couple of minutes try even giving her a kiss on the forehead  and tell her you really enjoy having her around and in your life that would make her feel great.
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Time is a great gift! You could take her out to a classy restaurant or to the theater for a play or a ballet or something. You could get her a day at a spa for a massage and facial. Pamper her a little. If you have children, you could give her a day away to have some time to herself or with her girlfriends.
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I think to stop worrying so hard\n\nshe is home with you and if you can keep it stable and in a predictable routine then it will help her regain stability emotionally\n\nI know that is hard to do when it is a loved one but sometimes it is the small things in life that can make all the difference
801661
well im not gonna bore you with a copy and pasted bull**** answer that any joe shmo could have googled....im gonna give you the facts of life.\n\nin my years of experience i have never met a girl whom you could talk out of being stressed. i have found that the only way is to take their mind off of the situation. love is complicated, bad relationships even more comlicated, sorry i dont have enough info to help you with that. but you can take her out and show her a good time, make her feel special...ice skating, a walk in the woods, anything to help relax....and hopefully if you arent stressed she will follow your example.
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I would actually explain the situation to my doctor and get some type of medication like xanex or valium to help me relax.  She could perscribe enough for that one day.
612216
I would give her a gift certificate for a massage or something similar to a spa to help her relax.
230352
it depends on if it is a stressful experience for the mother it may be soothing
1109267
I am sure your GF is smart and sensitive enough to know when someone is trying to manipulate her into doing something she is not comfortable with. As long as you give her the feeling you are forcing or manipulating her, she will feel you don't care much about her or her feelings and comfort level. She may eventually come to resent you for this.\n\nGet in a space first that you love her and are happy with her with out her "putting out" during this time. Use this time for other kinds of closeness. Belive me, she will love you for this. She knows your wishes, if and when she feel ready, she will let you know.
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You may have lacked the best part of lovemaking, which is foreplay. It becomes mechanical because you don't observe the 1st commandment. Try doing it a little bit slower from the bottom up. Plenty of VCO/ virgin coconut oil will help. Lather your partner's body from the toes to the thigh up to the up and try massaging, But be careful with it because massage may led her to sleep. Gentle and exploratory manner will do the trick. But again the bottom line is the mind. Control your mind and start undressing her in the mind.
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Yes, a man is extremely sensitive for a few minutes afterward. It is a good time to just relax, cuddle, and caress each other.
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please dont think me rude but a nice night of love making.. they say and i agree it is a great stess reducer.. unless this is the soruce of the stress lol or a day of daydreaming of or a hot shower, moltrin and a nap. or get rid of your stress i know ez r said then done.. any relaxing skills you have use them.. a warm neck wrap.or there is a cream mixture your doc could prescrib.. absorbs into your skin.. helps to relax your muscels.. hope this helps a bit i have and use the cream feel free to e mail for more info if need be
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Seriously. You had no issue with him giving her a massage in and of itself? Seriously?\n\nYour boyfriend is apparently not studying massage therapy. The fact that he gave your girlfriend one is shaky by itself. Now, the fact that she was naked? Does this not send off red flags in your head at all? It's not normal for people who are NOT massage therapists to give each other naked massages. That's called "flirtation and maybe sex, depending on how good it is."\n\nIt doesn't matter whether or not they had sex during the massage! At this rate, if they haven't had sex yet, they probably will soon! I'd get myself out of that relationship if I were you - before you really get yourself hurt!
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There are some great answers here. I thought maybe a gift certificate for a spa day-you two could go together. You know-a manicure, pedicure, massage, facial, etc.. I think it would be fun and relaxing for both of you.
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Have you tried a sensual massage? \n\nPlan a romantic night dinner, candles Oh and slip her a note 1 week in advance to have her book the apppointment. \nDont tell her any thing just make sure she will be there. \n\nKeep slipping hints all week long. leave a rose on her desk at work and don't let her see you do it. \nSend her an Email greeting card with naughty idea's \nsend her a blindfold the day before dinner. \n\nthat day leave some oil in her purse with a note. \n"DON"T LOOSE ME YOUR GOING TO NEED THIS" \nThe little hints all week long should have her wet in anticapation. \n\nThat night greet her at the door with a glass of wine. dress up really nice. wear a apron for visual effect " AND TO HIDE YOUR HARDON" have her come into the house and relax. ask her how her day was. maybe have her sit down and while your talking gently rub her feet. \nafter about 15 to 20 min. excuse your self and serve dinner. make it romantic. \nAfter dinner have her go sit down and you go clean up the mess in the kitchen. then go prepare the bedroom. I suggest puting padding on the floor and ALOT of candles around the room but it's up to you. \nNEXT fill the tub with a nice warm bubble bath. try using her fav if possible, if not visit the store and ask a female clerk. just about any thing would work. \nonce the bath is set. go back into the Living room and collect your wife.\n(( first blindfold her)) Then slowly start removing her clothes. DON"t let her help you. take your time and caress her skin, as you remove an item of clothing explore the area with your hands, lips or even use the hair on your head. place gentle kisses on it. After about 30 Min of caressing her lead her into the bathroom. and help her enter the tub. Try to leave the blindfold on if possible. \nNext use a laufa sponge and gently clense her body. make sure you rub it every where. Work on the legs and feet especially. And on her back, but and scalp. Hopefully the water will stay warm for about 30 min. Spend 15 min. washing her down. then let her relax for the next 15 min. in the mean time warm up the OIL. and prepare the room for the massage. make sure the tempature is above 80 degree's for her comfort. OH and have wash clothe handy siting in cool water.  \nnow go back to the bathroom and collect your wife. dry her off and leave the blindfold in place. or replace it with a dry one. =) Gide her into the room, and have her lay face down. warm your hands up and place them on her back for a moment and just pause. count to 50 slowly and just focus on the though of relaxation. \n\nNOW place some warm oil in your hands gently spread the oil to cover her back. work slowly and gentle into the muscles. Do not put any pressure on her spine this only hurts instead work the muscles next to the spine. and along the shoulder blades. The move to the feet and work up the legs. \nas you reach the hips. gentle caress her eroginious zones, then move back down and slide up slowly again. once you have worked the leg work on the Butt area of that leg. \nbe careful with the oil. around her vagin* but feel free to touch her around the *nus. GENTLY at this point "LISTEN" to seee if she is comfortable or does not like this. DO NOT insert your finger into the *nus just rub around it. Now move back to the other leg and repeat the same sequence. \n\nonce finished have her roll over.\nRemove the blindfold and place the cool clothe on her eyes\nnow work from the legs up. once you reach the "Y" stop and work the other leg. then move to arms into the breast. and finish with the stomach. and vagin* \nAllow her an orgams now and once she is finished move to her head and give a scalp massage. this will allow her to calm down. \n\nAfter this see what happens. \n\nGL mate\nGod Bless
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Yes, but stress comes from a variety of sources. Best of luck on managing it. Remember no matter how busy take time for yourself.