is it just ok to ask your bf when would he propose?
442962
Don't rush him into it.  Give him time.  I'm sure he'll propose soon since you said that you all have discussed marraige.
995449
If you are Christian yes. But only if you love her , have been knowing her for at least a year or two and are compatible on the important things in life. Sometimes ppl think opposites attract, that relation does not last, because eventually opposites end up hating each other. \nHowever If you really wanted to get married you would not be asking here.\nTHINK OF IT MORE BEFORE YOU PROPOSE
504384
Okay first this is a decision totally based upon when he feels ready. Pressuring him will make the sitiation intensely more difficult But the good news is he actually sounds as if he is planning something...I was very confused just like you before my fiance proposed he always made it clear to me that it would eventually happen just not as soon as I wanted but sure enough he proposed..So let him do this at his own pace..Your realtionship sounds solid so just give him the time he needs this is a HUGE step for both of you....I have a feeling congradualtions will be something you will hear soon!
356957
Well ask yourself do you think he loves you enough that you guys have a chance of getting married? Do you love him or do you love the whole idea of being married?? I believe that whatever happens later, will eventually happen. He can change his mind later on and so can you. I dont see why you guys should break up if you love him.
899324
Proposal? Because making a proposal to marry is romantic? I dunno...
961355
if you love him than theres no rush.  You already know you want to be together and hes expressed feeling the same way for you.  He will ask you when hes ready.  Who knows maybe he has something planned for a special date coming up, if you were to ask, the surprise would be ruined.
688044
if u have a best frnd and u wanna propose her go ahead.\nu have 95% chances to succeed.\nreally, after coming that close , love is just a step ahead.\ni hope she says yes!\ngood luck!
461966
Maybe this would be a good time for one of those "Where are we going with this relationship talks." Obviously you have plans for a future with this guy. Take some time to have a one-on-one with your fella about his plans for the future. Maybe he wants to be in a certain place in life before he makes the commitment to you, or perhaps his plans aren't quite the same as yours, OR he could just not know that you want to marry him. \n\nWhen you do talk to him, remember that it could be a bit of a touchy subject with him... don't make a big deal about it, but make sure that you two have some time alone that sufficient to have this conversation. Also, try your best to avoid sentences that start with "You..." these can be interpretted as accusations. Another thing you should try to avoid are the words "always" and "never".\n\nGood luck, and I wish best for you and your boyfriend.
1054186
Who knows?  Maybe you guys really aren't ready to get engaged.  There's alot of pressure on couples when they get engaged.  People EXPECT that you're getting married pretty soon and they want to know a date and they want to know what you're planning for the wedding.  It sounds like your man shouldn't have promised something that he wasn't sure about.  It's unfair to say that "by this date we will get engaged" because things happen.  It doesn't necessarily mean that he doesn't want to get engaged, it just means what he said, you guys aren't ready.  Maybe there's financial reasons behind that.  But a really good solution to this problem (because I know you are disappointed) is if your boyfriend still wants to get engaged and married in the future....he should buy you a promise ring.  My boyfriend and I have been together for four years and we're not ready to get engaged or married yet either.  But a promise ring lets you and your friends and family know that you guys are planning to get married one day, just not right now.  I wear my promise ring on my left ring finger like an engagement ring and I'm very happy with it.  I think you would be too.  Sit tight dear, you'll get married one day.
1046472
When he wants to marry you he will ask. Until then I would not think to pressure him cuz then later on he will feel pressured
487879
I say, propose to him, and if he accepts, go looking for rings together.  Many wedding rings have engagement rings that fit or go together.  By shopping together, you'll get his input on what looks nice and what he'd like for you to have.  If you want to buy him a ring as a surprise, go ahead!  Who has to stick to anything traditional?  Whatever you may feel makes you happy- GO FOR IT!!
8427
Why in the world would you agree to this?  If he is worth marrying he will wait and you should wait.\n\nResponding to youknowit below:  All the more reason to wait and have a nice wedding.
582951
I would just do kiss him when the time seems right...It just doesnt seem right to ask...But a question like "would you feel comfortable kissing me" might be a good question or instead of saying me you could say "a girl you just met" or something like that...
300311
proposal of marriage should be something personal... take her to someplace special for the two of you... make it a memorable event that she will remember and look on with joy forever.  I have helped many of my male friends propose... this one happened about three years ago on easter... my best friend led her on a scavenger hunt for plastic easter eggs.... in each one was a clue to where another one would be.... things like where we first met, first kissed, first date... and at the last place he stepped out with an egg and opened it showing the ring... he asked her if she was ready to place all of her eggs in the same basket.  She said yes... crying with tears of joy.
341104
So long as you are speaking from your heart...she is right, it won't matter, where, when, or how you ask her...she will love it.  These are the words women wait their whole lives to hear, it doesn't need to be some over the top production, just an honest, heart felt proposal.  Good luck!!
351929
i would just say to ask him out....if he says no, then oh well, but if he says yes...well, he says yes! or maybe he'll say maybe and ask you the next day like my boyfriend did!
182742
If you've liked him forever than I definitely think you should ask him out. I know that it's cliche, but what's the worst thing that can happen, right? I know that "no" isn't the best thing to hear but at least then you can move on and have no doubts. And if he says yes then you might just have something and love is always an amazing thing to share with someone.