why do gays always have to throw their sexuallity in everybodys face??
440781
i do agree with u but not all gay ppl i don't do that and neither do my gay friends but u have a point the majority of gay ppl do that i really don't know prob 4 aproval or just attracting attention in a couple of years though i think it will slow down as more and more ppl are accepting us
496527
Probably because you personify what many wish they had the guts to admit too.  You may have an awesome 'aura' that people pick up on as well, since you are comfortable with your own sexuality.  Who knows?  Just be true to yourself, and just because they ASSUME you will sleep with them doesn't mean you will or have to!
255507
Guys are just like this, makes them feel macho if they tell the guys they've had sex,  all  you can really do is tell people no you didn't and ignore it...something else will come up and they'll forget all about it...
580209
Court a lesbian and leave your friend alone! You are the reason that gays and lesbians have a hard time wanting to come out to their friends because they don't want them thinking that they are automatically going to be attracted to them.
105695
an i suppose you'd say we should get to know you intimately so as not to be afraid or predjudiced or overreact to the obvious differences that you as gay people try to press on straight people as being "normal" and that if we'd try it "we'd like it" and "homo's are smarter.." yeah, i'm sure. i'v got nothin against gays- i just can't stand being hit on in very impolite ways and i refuse to give credit to ingoramous women who think themselves above being polite to a stranger that isnt because the dykes and fags can eat themselves when it comes down to it.
1039650
Homosexuals are as God made them.  What they do in the privacy of their own homes is their business.  I am sure there are some heterosexual couples out there who are into some pretty weird stuff.  Everyone is entitled to express their sexual feelings any way they are comfortable.
925445
They legally get to do immoral acts on you while telling you that they are the moral ones. What I mean by this is they manipulate and psychologically skew reality until you think the way that they do. THIS is no different than brainwashing and cult behavior. It ought to be illegal and everyone who knows of such a place ought to get together with friends and a van and go down and BREAK THESE people OUT and HIDE THEM from these bastards that claim to be doing gods work. HOW many GAY CHILDREN commit suicide EACH DAY? THIS has to stop. STOP telling people that theyre SICK or UNLOVABLE BY "God" because theyre gay, this is so damn Naziesque. Please understand that fat men in drag do not represent the majority of homosexuals, they just represent the ones who want to be seen at these events. Most peple think Im straight and look shocked when I tell them. Alot of gays are 'fat' because theyre depressed as hell- and theyre depressed because society tells them theyre NOT wanted. They dress in drag because the ONLY role models gays have are those who go out of their way to stand out, the flamboyant ones in drag. If gays became more ACCEPTED in society you would see more people like myself representing the gay community instead og 'fat' drag queens. I PERSONALLY dislike the whole shake your ass in tight leather shorts while wearing lipstick and saying "hey honey!!!!" because it continues the idea in straight peoples minds that we are freaks. But like I said, its the gays with balls enough to get out in public and say "Im HERE IM QUEER GET USED TO IT" that are getting the attention, and unfortunately theyre the only role modles. THANK GOD Neil Patrick Harris came out of the closet. OTHERS like him need to stand up and say ya know, Im gay, and I look like everyone else and act like everyone else, so use me as a role model to show youre gay. Up until recently its just been the ones who apparently are so depressed that they feel they have nothing to lose by 'showing their asses' in public. Which is really what I feel that sort of behavior is, acting like a fool. BUT, thats my opinion and as Harvey Firestein (sp?) once said "exposure, at ANY cost"----but the cost seems to be having everyone believe that all gays act this way.
948684
I think its because a part of them wants to have the experience and are curious. But being that so many people say its wrong they don't come out and say it up front. I have straight friends that want to try it with a girl but dont know how to go about it and still remain "straight."
275689
It makes immature people uncomfortable, because all they think about are the "acts" of a gay person. Then some decide to hide behind scripture as a defense for there intolerance. For the record, if you believe the same god powerful enough to create the entire universe cares what two adults do in the privacy of there own bedroom as long as there not hurting anyone else, you need to reevaluate your spiritual priorities.
622467
Honey,\n\nIt's not that you are gay.  Most people use gay as a synonym for quiet (Beta in anthropological terms if you would) and attack bois that they perceive as weaker than themselves, in order to build themselves up.  This reduction of the humanity of other males perceived as weaker than the self dates back to ealier times -- when commonly the males of a victorious army raped the losers, not because they were gay, they weren't -- but rather because it demeaned those raped and clearly demonstrated their dominance (it is the same mentality that prevades prisons).\n\nYou are not picked on because people really think you are bi or gay -- though you happen to be, most of those who call you a faggot would be extremely surprised to discover you are actually homosexual.  You are picked on because you are thought of as weak.\n\nPity those who do this.  The fact that so many males of our species have not evolved past that point is truly pathetic.  Be yourself, and don't worry about hatred of fools.  If you need to talk to someone, email me at believeinyou24@yahoo.com . \n\nRegards,\n\nReynolds Jones\nSchenectady, NY\nhttp://www.rebuff.org
781634
We're like everyone else.  Some do feel that way and dwell on it.  Then there are those at the opposite end of the scale you see in the Parades, the "in your face, i'm here and i'm queer and i'm not going away to make you feel comfortable," kind.  I'm somewhere in the middle.  I want people to know because its who I am and if they hate gays, I want them to despise me.  (I don't, but I want them to have a FACE to see, when they think queer).  The more people that comes out, the better it is, why?  Because we're in almost everyones families and if they had to confront that we're good, everyday people with problems just like them, they may have to rethink WHY they hate us.\n\nSo, let them fear, discriminate and persecute me.  I can dish it out as well as take it.\n\nI'm not saying this "flippantly" or having fun with it.  I was "fag bashed" and robbed.  The RN quit counting stitches at 60 in my face and head (which they had to shave).  But I was okay and that was what mattered to me.  They didn't know me, so it didn't bother me.
896209
a straight is a hetrosexual, the reason they keep spewing in here is cuz they know we are superior to them and their small minds just cant handle it..as long as we dont let it get to us we will be better for it..what doesnt kill us makes us stronger..
1181820
That sounds like a problem with the other people, not you or your friend. \n\nI'm sure he isn't the only gay guy there. Perhaps the only one brave enough to come out, knowing that uninformed people will look at him weird. Share his bravery; be yourself, hang out with who you want. If people want to hold that against you, that should teach you something valuable about those people. And the next time someone else wants to be themself and come out, or be friends with your friend because he's a good guy, they'll be that much more likely to do it.
1091432
I think everyone is a little bit gay... and everyone's curious, even if they don't admit it.  I say do what you want to do.  No regrets.  As long as you don't hurt anyone else in the process, go get yours.
1054202
Because they are homophobic and or ignorant!!!!!!\nhttp://godmademegay.com
333111
Because all guys are nasty little perverts. Who only want to see your goodies. It took me ten years to figure this out.
74747
It's really not possible to give GAY a face. Gay people are as diverse in their appearance, mannerisms,and backgrounds as straight people. For every gay person you can spot in a crowd there are several you cannot. As a gay man I've realized that other than my sexuality, I have little or nothing in common with many gay people I've met. I don't fit the stereotype well at all. Society needs to realize that gay is not a culture, a look, nor a belief system. It is simply a condition, like being short or tall.