is sex painfull in first time for virigin girls? plz reply serious?
438671
First-time sex shouldn't be painful, provided you are with someone you love and you feel completely relaxed with. You have to be completely ready for sex and totally comfortable with the idea. There should also be lots of foreplay to make sure you are well-lubricated. Provided all this is true, you shouldn't experience any pain.\n\nHowever, if a girl feels unsure about having sex, or unsure about the person she's having it with, her vaginal muscles will tense up, which can cause a lot of pain. This is true of any sex, not just first-time sex.\n\nBe safe, have fun.
1048174
This all depends on the individual, the first sexual encounter will differ from woman to woman, there could be pain and bleeding, but there might not be. Best idea is to take it nice and slow. It may still hurt many times afterwards, as it does take awhile for the body to get used to the act. There is also a high chance of getting a yeast infection or bladder infection after the first sexual encounter. I would say the best idea would be to go to the doctors after and get a physical done. She should not be embarassed about her age and her virginity. I myself lost it when I was 21, it is nothing to be ashamed of. Losing your virginity is a very serious thing, not to be taken lightly.
419528
Well it can be normal and it can not. The good thing about it is it doesn't sound like you have to worry yet. To try and answer your question as well as possible I will give you an idea. Some girls just have a tight vagina, or vaginal cavity naturally, I have had sex with my ex gf's and if you like it a little on the more explosive side, yes you might have a tendency to bleed a little bit. The problem is even after you lose your virginity depending on your body structure your hymen can be more present then in other women and it is very sensitive, thats one thing that will not only bleed but it will swell a little and become bruised. More bleeding can come from stretching of the vaginal cavity. There is a lot of things I know I have experienced and it doesnt sound to me like your in danger. To be on the safe side though if it worrys you enough to write about then go to the doctors.
440738
Honestly i feel funny answering, but, i will. At first hell yeah it hurts! It hurts worse than when I lost my virginity...but if the guy really lubes up, and doesn't put "it" completley in than it can be pleasurable...u cant just ram it in an out w/that position..be easy and gentle and she just may enjoy it.
38111
Ok lets give a lession in size. There are women I REPEAT that can not handle a well endowed guy. It does hurt them if they never had a well endowed guy before. I can only imgine how much pain it must be for a virgin to take on a well endowed guy. I know from experance and I will explain this. I myself have had the women I have been with say they where glad they where not virgins because the pain would have been way too much. Women that have had children before are usally more able to handle a well endowed guy. For the women that I have been with they say they felt like they where being ripped apart after I had sex with them. But this goes away over time as the women adjusts to your size. I say this from experance.\n\nOk I am going to give you some tips to make this transition easier.\n\nI have had this problem once before with women who was used to a normal size guy. but was not used to my size. She will normaly experance pain the first few times till she gets used to your size. This is normal to experance pain at first. But you have to be very slow, extremly gental and extremly patient. This is the important part. Let her direct you, let her say when to go in alittle more, litte bit at a time and stop. I mean ALITTLE BIT! Don't go in without her direction. LISTEN that is the key. This will give her time to get used to it. Don't be suprised if in the process her eyes get as big as half dallors. If you see she is having pain stop. Let her direct you more when to go in further. Also once you are full in don't start going at it immedilty give her time to adjust to your size. This is a slow process of adjustment to your size. This is also a good time to be further intmate with her while she is getting used to your size. Do things like kissing, hugging and talk to each other. Remember it's not a mataton. This will also make her feel more confortable while giving her more time to adjust. Let her be your guilde. She will tell ya when ya can start. Ya can't rush things. It's about taking it SLOW and EASY at first. If it takes a 15, or 30 mins thats ok. Let her take her time.\n\nI not saying this just say it too to  brag, But I'm say it I am saying it from EXPERANCE I know I have been there. And just because a women is build to deliver a baby doesn't be mean she is build to handle any size. Like I said before Women that have giving viginal birth are more able to handle it. Like I said I know from my own experances with women. Because the last thing you want too is cause the woman ya love pain. Sex sould be a enjoyble expernace for both of you.
1067538
I'm not a guy, but I have to speak up here.  I think that down the road, you will regret having sex for the first time with someone who means nothing to you.  However, I suspect you don't believe that now.  My advice, if you go through with it, is use a CONDOM!
548898
thats a good question...i wish someone answered that question for me when I lost mine... I can say that that sounds about right, regardless its gonna hurt and your bound to bleed, but i quess anything bigger would be worse.. trust me hun sex is not all its made out to be!!!! if i could go back in time.. i would still be a virgin (and im 24). Good LUck!!! and if your under the age of 18, WAIT!!!, TRUST ME YOUR NOT MISSING MUCH!!!
653532
MY 1ST TIME WAS PAINFUL @ FIRST, BUT THEN ENJOYABLE AFTER THE PAIN SUBSIDED...HE WAS ONLY ABOUT 5 INCHES & DID NOT POP MY CHERRY, SO TECHNICALLY I WAS STILL A VIRGIN....UNTIL I CAUGHT HOLD OF MY NEXT SEXUAL PARTNER...WHICH WAS AN 8 INCHER....LOL...I WAS CRYING & HIS COUSIN KEPT WALKING IN ACTING LIKE SHE DIDNT KNOW WHAT WAS GOING ON...NOW 2 THINK ABOUT IT, DA CHYCK MIGHT'VE BEEN GAY...OR THEY MIGHT'VE HAD A LIL INCEST GOIN ON THERE,LOL...........
421555
It is only obvious to be curious at your age.  It is funny I had the same questions and by being too embarrased to ask a grown up and the false information I got from my peers allowed me to explore  for my self.  However, the 1st time I had sex I was 17 my senior year in highschool. It was with my highschool sweet heart.  We had been together since 9th grade and he was already sexually active and constantly tried to convince me to have sex with him,  I wanted to wait til I got married but he would say it doesn't matter because we were going to get married anyways, he also advised me if I got pregnant it wouldn't matter because he was going pro in football so he would be able to take care of us.  However, he did go off to college on a football scholarship, got injured in college, never went pro, works a mediocre job, has 4 kids by 4 baby momma's and we broke up his first semester in college (honestly).   \nSweetheart you are 14 years old try to put your curiosity into something else more positive (education), trust me boys will be around and sex isn't going anywhere. When you are ready and the time is right you will know it there won't be any question about it and make him wait that will show if he really cares.\n\nTo answer your question honestly, sex is definately worth waiting for, the first time you have sex it will hurt. It will hurt probably the first few times and you will be extremely sore and probably never want to do it again. Basically it is like someone is hammering something large into a tiny hole (your vagina) the walls around the vagina will be inflamed and extremely sore.  (Imagine the felling) However, the boy will not experience the pain you are feeling and will probably try to continue ignoring your pain. If you do decide please make sure this is with someone you trust and cares about you. You will probably feel uncomfortable being naked especially at your age (i was) Initially it is not the most fun thing to do and nothing about the first time you have sex is fun or beautiful (even after you get married).  However, waiting for sex is definately worth waiting for and rewarding  because it is the most intimate relationship you can have with someone.  A man will truly admire the fact this his wife is a virgin and the only person they have been with is them.  I was glad I waited until I was older (17), but if I could have waited longer I would have.   REmember your body is a temple and don't let anyone enter it unless you know they cherish it and cherish you as well.  I hope this helps you make the right decision.
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Hats off to u man!!!. dats really sweet of u. u grl even if a virgin seems to be ready for sex. most probably knows all bout it n is also aware dat she is in for lot of pain da first time. so ders no prob der. as for making dis occasion special i can give u many ideas. how bout a romantic date n den taking her to ur place (or any where else u can arrange).or if possible arrange for it at ur place or a hotel room. keep it as a surprise. u cud get into da bath tub or under da shower together. indulge in lot's of fore play. for dis one time dont tell her how to please u. instead concentrate on her grls love being licked n eaten down der. use viberator if u can (if not ok wid oral sex) mutter sweet nothings in her ears. tell her how special she is fr u (women love to here dat) make sure u have condoms or other cntraceptives ready. be gentle wen u put it in her (finger her before da actual act. wud help her prepare)if she complains of too much pain withdraw and den start again.  all the best
609573
For some women it is painful for others they say it didn't hurt that bad. Mostly it depends on if you really ready for it or not. If you are comfortable with the person your with and how much you know about yourself. You need to make sure your ready body and mind. Know what you want and don't do anything that you don't want to do or are not really ready to do. You should love the person that is your first. Go to the doctor before your first time and be check out and get birth control but don't only use that as protection no matter how much you love the guy always use a condom. Be safe if your not ready just say so and if he loves you he will wait. There's no hurry to lose your virginity remember its something you'll never be able to get back and give to someone else you love. If it doesn't work out with this guy its gone there's no going back. Make sure before you take that step.
466798
It really sucked, actually.  Don't have sex just for the sake of losing your virginity or because all your friends are.  Find someone who you really love and most importantly TRUST, because sex won't feel good the first time and establishing a bond based on love and trust is what is most important your first time, not getting your rocks off.
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For some girls, it hurts a little. For some, it doesn't hurt at all.  \n\nThere is a thin membrane of skin called a hymen that all girls start off with when they are born. Its at the opening of your vagina. The hymen is generally what tears and causes some minor pain or bleeding during your first time. But a lot of girls lose or tear it before they have sex just by moving around and being active, normal girls. \n\nSo you may or may not feel a little pain. \n\nI wouldn't worry about it too much.  just make sure your first time is when you are ready and comfortable with yourself and the person you are with. Good luck!
1056028
Yes. Especially if she has a hymen. Then there's lots of bleeding. \n\nMost other times it hurts a little because it's a new experience. \n\nGood Luck!
363483
for some it does for others not. If your having sex with a girl for the first time, the most important thing to do is take your time entering her. Also make sure her pu$$y is really wet. cuz if it's not it may hurt you too.
537380
ARE YOU READY FOR IT??? thats the question u should ask urself. having sex is not just bout getting physical, its about being comfortable with each other. your first time may feel a bit awkward but you'll get the hang of it over time. Dont worry if u think you are gonna embarass urself as its your first time. she'll "take the lead" and you'll learn how she wants to be touched etc. \nsta cool. lots of luck.
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Why is everybody making it sounds really horrible? It really isn't that bad. I was also scared the first time I had to go in, but the most I would describe it is 'a little unpleasant'. \n\nBtw, I didn't have to stand there buck naked, in fact, I got to keep my shirt on and there was a sheet covering my lower regions. Then the gynae inserted her fingers in for the internal exam. Afterwards came the duck lips thingy, but it didn't hurt as they had the lubricants on and I barely felt the swabbing. Some people will have light bleedings afterwards, but thank God I didn't.\n\nMaybe everyone has it differently, but trust me, if you can live through penetrative sex, then you can most definitely survive the gynae exam. \n\nAnyway, you can tell your gynae beforehand that this is your first time and let them know if you feel uncomfortable during the procedure. I'm sure they will try to make it as painless as possible. Hope this help.