Can you re-establish trust if it is lost ?
439229
yes, but's hard. The more it's lost, the harder it gets to forgive and restablish trust.
758151
you must prove that you really care for him and that other guy dont matter to you.  if the lost one still cares for you he might give you another chance but he will not trust you the same for some period of time. but this might take some while.
529702
Sweetheart, it's going to be tough... but you're going to have to give him his space and somehow prove to him that he can trust you again.\n\nSorry.
141450
A bit difficult to know .It is only trust .
631473
start a new one with someone else.\n\nseriously!\n\nonce the trust is broken u can never fully regain it. u will always be wondering!
265474
You are not doomed if you understand and learn from your mistakes. Sometimes that requires seeing a counselor or even talking with a friend who is insightful enough to give really good advice. (Not just someone who will say what they think you want to hear. You need someone who is honest with you.) Did you cheat on this woman before? Is that why she does not trust you? If you did, then you have to work really hard for her to believe you again. That means staying true and never giving her any reason to doubt you. It also could take a long time to make her feel that she can trust you. But no, you are not doomed to repeat your past... unless you don't learn from it.
746883
You can't. If you get back with him it will not be hte same as before. He will not trust you for whatever reason you broke up int he first place. Find someone new & start fresh.
119592
Simply put, whenever you are tempted to say or do something exhibiting a lack of trust, remind yourself that this "dear man" has done nothing to merit the lack of faith you are about to display.  Also remind yourself that displaying such a lack of faith and trust is likely to hurt someone for whom you deeply care.  Over the course of time, your tendency will become to trust first and ask questions later (at least as far as he is concerned).  Good luck to you, and congratulations on finding a good one!
984025
Trust just like respect is not something that is handed to you in a relationship it is earned.  This is your proving ground now, a second chance in a sense, you earn trust by being trust worthy.  Show her you can be trusted and won't lie again unless you want a nose like Pinocchio!  : ^ )
29744
That's what's hard. You can't ever be 100% sure because if a person can do it once, he can easily do it again. Some people might be able to regain that trust eventually, but I'm not sure that I could ever trust someone who did that to me.
245840
i have been in the same situation, but it takes time and you being honest to her. you will eventually get the trust back
613579
You just have to prove it.  Perhaps you have slighted his trust in the past, and he is having a tough time trusting you now.  Anyway, perhaps when you are a tad older the trust will come back.\n\nGood luck.
968383
There's not much you can do at this point.  If you told someone something and they end up telling someone else, and you didn't want them to, then you have learned an important lesson in life which is not to trust anyone.  Sometimes it's best just to keep things to yourself if it would be hurtful to you for them to get out.  Hopefeully the person doesn't tell - then you will have found a trustworthy person, but they are rare.  I hope you will learn from this and be more careful who you tell things to.  Good luck.
220110
Trust has to be earned back.  Believe me, it's not easy when someone you love loses trust in you.  She was hurt that you kept a secret, and I'm sure it hurt you to hurt her.  Just be careful in all you do, be good to her.  If it's the real deal, she'll learn to forgive and all will be well again.
536853
you can only know that you trust someone unless you feel it in your heart if you know for a fact that they havent broken a promis or lied to you then you should be able to trust them but watch your back cuz ppl do change and i believe that ppl do deserve a second chance cuz everyone makes mistakes and they learn from them "sometimes" but after they break there second chance then they are no good and you dont deserve to trust them watch and listen for bullcrap lies if someone is telling you something and you dont really feel it in your heart and if something is telling you that something isnt right then usually its a lie so just be carefull and listen to your heart dont let anyone fool you and dont let your mind interfear with your heart and LOOK OUT FOR LIES!!!! and you sould be fine\n\nhope this helps\ngood luck
658952
Every situation is different and ever changing. You just have to do what feels right and try to let yourself recover from your loss. Surround yourself with people you can trust, the rest will follow.
468421
With time and some effort on your part - it is quite possible to trust another guy again