I am a married women and i have fallen in love with another man what do i do?
447098
What does MARRIED mean to you?? Figure that out and you'll have your answer.
1115272
I think you need to make your feelings as regards this relationship with another woman known to your husband. he is your husband and you have to save your marriage. tell him he needs to see the damage his relationship with this woman is doing to your marriage. as you have spoken to the woman and she has refused to let go, tell your husband the woman has no respect for his marriage, he needs to choose between his friendship with the other woman and his marriage (his wife and kids). dont go fighting him, do things with wisdom, love and gentless.endeavour to always show him love and always communicate with him.communication is very important in a relationship
696621
Please, you are in lust with her I am doubting that love has anything to do with it.  You and your wife need to try and rekindle your marriage.
161999
This is something you should speak to your husband about. My wife had a similar problem. She married me at 18 and I was her first. She expressed her desire to be with another man for the experience, and assured me that in no way was she interested in leaving me for another. Since I love her with all my heart, I wanted to do anything possible for her. Through our discussions we have decided that we will pursue that in the future if the situation arises. I am working through some issues over it, but as I said, I love her and will do anything for her. If she needs to fulfill this, then I will allow it to happen. We may bring another guy into the mix with us or it might happen with her and him alone, we haven't decided that yet, but we will discuss everything and both of us must be comfortable with the situation in order to proceed. Communication is the key. I'm quite sure that your husband has some fantasies of his own that he hasn't shared with you yet. This could possibly be an opportunity for you both to discover new things in your relationship. Have a conversation with your husband. If your husband loves you as much as I love my wife then he will at least ponder the thought. Good luck.
515100
although you seem to be going through a lot of pain, and i do feel for you, the problem  is still the same...you want two wives! can't do that man, sorry. there is no way that you can fully love two people the same. you have to let one of them go. you might not think it's fair to you, but that's selfish. have you ever thought about what the women want? stop being selfish and let one of them move on and find someone who is willing to be with only them.
318389
The heart is a very fickle thing, you can't help who you fall in love with...you may have to accept that the other person may never love you, but would only ever be your friend...but many marriages have succeded on this basis.\nBut sometimes, when you love some-one, the best thing you can do for them is to let them go their own way...You could get hurt, or you could end up with a great friendship.
819037
You are taking your affections outside of your marriage and that is cheating.\nHe was trying to be understanding with the first escapade but now it is becoming serious and you need to listen to him or your marriage will fall apart.  \nIf you abslolutely cannot control your need to be with a woman, you will have to stop telling him about it......
357880
You need to fall in love all over again.  Try planning a weekend at a hotel together.  Pamper a woman and make them feel that she is all you want.  Women love to have attention and if she gets that from you, she will return the same affection.
115414
Be pure luck and the grace of God, I think I have found my TRUE love after 2 marriges and a string of broken relationships.\nWe are both happier than either of us have ever been and she says she feels the same as I do.
306746
First figure out what feelings these are you have and how strong.Second imagine yourself without the person who at one time (and probably still do)you loved with all your heart,(loved enough to make her your wife). If imagining her gone and with another man doesn't bother you, then I'd say "its over",but if it does BOTHER you-Then stay away from whatevers tempting you,and focus on yourself and your wife.
442792
just explain that you do not want to be the other woman. you love him and want to be with him and for him to be only yours.
1046446
Temptation is normal, but don't let it get out of hand.  It's okay to have a little crush on this "other guy" for now, but just weigh what you and your boyfriend have and what you and this "other guy" have.  It sounds like you and your boyfriend are strong, moving past a problem like cheating, but obviously, you like your boyfriend MORE than this other guy.  That's why you're with him...YOu LOVE him, right?  If it is as you say, then you definitely don't want to give that up.  You tried the other guy 4 months into your relationship with your boyfriend, and you didn't decide to run off with him, but you stayed with your boyfriend instead, meaning that you want your relationship to work out with him, and he seems like he is prepared to stick it out with you as well.  If you truly love him, then you won't leave him for this other guy, even if it may seem more exciting or if you still have left over feelings for him.  The goal is to leave feelings from the past, in the past.  Since you have a commitment with your boyfriend now and you love him more than anything, the other guy is merely a temptation.  Like I said in the beginning, temptation is normal, but don't let it get out of hand.  We're all human...we all have hormones, adrenaline, sexual feelings... ;) ...Even happily married couples have temptations, but it doesn't mean they drop whoever they're with and move in with the other person.  Theres that self control and rationally weighing what you could lose if you go either way.  Now ask yourself, is the other guy worth losing your boyfriend over?  As time goes on, and you realize how much you have and don't want to lose, the temptation will subside.  If however, you realize you don't have much after all (and you don't actually love your boyfriend), then you should look further.  Don't make a decision until you are absolutely sure, because you may not be able to turn back.
201273
Give it some time. Love at first sight is just that, sight. Find out everything you can about this person and let them do the same with you. Once you have done that if that feeling is still there then think about the big Married thing. Whats the rush? If you love them today and it's real you will love them tomorrow.
259144
First of all, think that you have a life and a future!! I assume that you cannot live forever with a secret love and need someone who can share your life and go to any place openly. When you need love or feel lonely or when you need her, if she is not there (busy with the other man) what would you do?? You will suffer lot mentally. So the best thing is, find a partner that you could love and share your thought and someone who can hang around with you. \n\nIf she can cheat the other man, surely she can cheat ANYONE!! What she is chasing is extra fun and protection. When things go wrong she (and others) will pass the blame to you. Love is something no one can explain, it has to come from the bottom of your heart no matter what other people say or do. \n\nAt last what I see is, she is wants the financial security of her life from the other man and mental/sexual/extra fun is from you.
581299
The fact that you are even thinking of this guy doesn't speak very highly of your feelings for your husband.  If something is meant to be, then it will be.  Maybe that guy was supposed to be "the one", maybe not.  But since it didn't work out when you had the chance, I'm leaning more towards "NOT."  Please put him out of your mind and focus all your love and attention on the man you married.
726181
Once the passion has faded and you've been living under this bad cloud, it's hard to change your feelings about someone.  It's been a lot of water under the bridge.  With respect to you family and children, it might be too much to expect that you will find the magic again with your husband, even though you've become able to stand your own ground.  Contrary to those that will advise you to go to counseling and turn to religion, my guess is that it is a lost cause.  Thus your choice is to remain, yet life a double life which includes a discrete affair, or just part ways and move on.  Good luck with this decision, it's not easy for anyone.  Enjoy!
669138
You love the father of your son eventhough you knew of his infidelity.You are truly a woman of substance! But you didn't get the just reward of your devotion.How true is your love for this man?\nIf this man can make a turnaround to notice this true devotion of yours and give up his philandering ways,I say its right you stick with him.On the other hand, as a woman, as a fellow human being,you also have the very right to be able to love another more worthy.