why is girls always looking for long relationship and guys just want sex?
454528
because men mature slower then woman and woman just tend to figure it out.  Sex isn't everything, they want to settle down.  Men have to sow their wild oats before it dawns on them.  Why do you think woman usually go for older men?  Old men usually have been around the block but finally figure it out.  (of course even some older men haven't figure it out) You can usally tell by how they treat a woman. They are patient and not pushy.
545971
Simple. It is sex, always sex, always will be sex. If you are lonely you can join a club, take classes do thousands of things where you are interacting with people. Most people here with "Am I in love" questions etc. Are not doing so to get rich. A girl will want be boned down by a pretty boy, or thuggish clod, even if he is as broke as the flea that rode in on the church mouse. People desire and crave falling in love because they are delusional and don't want to seem solely in it for the sex. But what do they do when the sex is bad? Flee the relationship. They don't desire physical contact in the form of wrestling or boxing. they want copulation. If there were no sex between men and women, 82% of the male/female couples you would never see.
503445
Men have a natural driven desire to have sex , Most guys are not interested in a relationship they want to satisfy their carnal lust and move on to the next person . I am having a hard time finding someone that will get to know me and take the time it takes to build a relationship . Most guys are so superficial they just want to have a one night stand . Good luck
279082
My guess is probably the same reason girls want to be with a nice looking guy that has a nice body. Ever see a group of girls out at night in search of ugly, overweight men?
697650
Because women have fought for equal rights and now it is accepted that girls make the first move rather than waiting around for the guy. And lets face it women want relationships more than men do. A girl has to be pretty special for me to ask her out on a date but I get asked out or hit on a lot by girls I may flirt back and be attracted to them but to go out I've got to be the one to ask. I suppose I'm old fashioned like that.
1118227
Everyone has different sex drives. \nIt's a bit of a myth that guys want sex all the time and girls are more reserved. \nThere are lots of girls who hacve higher sex drives than thier boyfriends (I know of a few friends who do). It's not unusual at all, just the product of a myth that society has created. \nI'd suggest a bit of solo sex, it makes you appreciate it better when its a mutual thing.
241907
Actually, most of us will take any girl who will have us.  To answer your question, though, there has to be chemistry, or either party will lose interest in the relationship fast.  Lots of chubby girls get good guys, and it is because they are secure with themselves and know how to act hot.  When it comes to sex, guys would go for the hot one first, but in the long run, if it is to be repeated performances, they will go for the one who performs better in bed.
944350
You know, I am a smart person, I have always been smart, I am also very pretty. But there seen to be these guys that only want girls that want to give themselves to them. I'm not like that. But a lot of smart girls are forced to become that way because we don;t get guys, we can be the most gorgeous women in the world, but if we don;t have sex right away, the relationship goes nowhere and we are left on our butts wonder " what the hell was that?" Look beyond the most obvious, look for the inner beauty (not saying some snaggle-toothed hill billy) but look for a woman that may not be the blonde hair, blue eye buety every other man wants. You may just find the right smart, attractive woman you want.
592081
the like a beautiful girl as they want to show her off to all there friends. some guys will just go for looks and nothing else.\nyeah some guys are a bit sex obsessed!
450955
take it from me, they play that, bc they have to make sure the guy is up for anything. in other words, they want to make sure that YOU are SURE you want to be with them before they devote all their time and energy into a relationship with you. duh! guys hurt gals in so many sick and twisted and horrible ways, if you dont know. everyone is different, i know, but that's why they shy away, to make sure that's what YOU really want, so they dont jump in and scare YOU away like sum guys. its an emotion thing.!!!
399693
all teen girls share some of the same issues....but differently......i knoe it doesn't make sense. but all girls want a good guy, a nice guy, who has money, isn't going to mistreat her, likes her for who she is, doesn't just want her for sex and really wants to be in a relationship with her, not gonna cheat on her and is just an all around good guy.  Now obviously we can't expect guys to change nor should we try to change them, but at least ya'll can try harder at being the best man ya'll can be. hope this help
829652
Guys aren't always liars, it's just that finding ones that aren't is the trick...guys don't want commitment, just sex, and they'll do anything to get it (that's how the trojan war started), whether its lie, cheat, steal (and usually, it's all of the above). I know some great guys, who don't lie, but they've fallen victims to lying, cheating girls, and they've vowed never to date again, bcuz every woman knows that there needs to b at least one decent, loving, caring and hot guy in the dating world...
1145842
You might be looking at the wrong types of guys.  Trust me, there are many of us out there who want an honest, serious girlfriend.  Unfortunately, there are also a lot of guys who don't.
977106
it's about maturity.  when you are young sometimes you only see what is physically beautiful and don't take the time to get to know anything beyond that. girls who do this tend to make huge mistakes in picking a partner that is truly compatible for them. i'm 31 years old and i can tell you those girls would dying to meet a nice sincere guy after they've been played with and heartbroken by the more physically disireable guy.  most times it's the guy no one gives a chance who is the most respectful, honest and sincere who in turns becomes the more attractive person because of this-young girls don't get it until they've been burned.
555123
same problem. i think that every girl is just looking for the same kind of guy, and there are only so many of them, so most of us just get stuck with the left overs. and alot of the times, left overs suck
711218
It's the other way around. the younger girls like the older guys because   they usually have more going for them ...money, cars social power.   guys would love to date girls their age but they wont give them the time of day.
307026
because they are the best kind of girl, they have more qualities, and we guys don't want to embarass our selves in front of them.  They tend to have way more things that guys are looking for.