Question About Climaxing During Sex?
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A lot of women have trouble climaxing during sex.  I know i had a lot of trouble making my wife climax for several months after we were married.\n\nyou obviously don't have trouble at other times, as you said, so maybe, this worked for us anyway, have your guy work with his fingers on your clitoris during intercourse.  it may be uncomfortable at first for him, but it will be worth it when you both can climax together.\n\nso have him try using a finger or two (wet of course) to rub or manipulate your clitoris and see if that helps.  we still are able to use missionary or girl on top or other positions, and it has only gotten better over the past three years.  good luck to you both!
247473
ejaculation is generally a term for what males do.  women take longer to orgasm, if you cant wait for her before you blow your load, work her up with lots of foreplay.
720533
This is perfectly and normal . The stimulation of the prostate during sex is what caused the ejaculation , the prostate is what is known as the male clitoris and is the reason that you can reach orgasm at all . So enjoy .
982543
Did you practise holding back when you masturbated growing up. Basically every time I masturbated growing up I'm practising holding back and recognizing the feeling of getting close then backing off. Its just slowing down or slightly changing your rhythm. Its a practise thing. Also pulling out (if slowing down doesn't help) and tapping your glans (tip) against your wife's vagina will stop you from climaxing if you are getting close. (the part facing away from your belly button) Other ways to help prevent climax. Wear a condom. Masturbate relatively often or have sex more often. I have a much harder time holding back if I haven't ejaculated in a while. Experiment with your body in this regard. They also have creams that supposedly delay climax. I've never tried them so I don't know how effective they are. The solution is in here. Good luck.
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lol!!  \nIam so glad you asked that question because I always believed that woman has no ideal how good it feels to a man!...lol I asked a women how does it feel when they are  about to climax and she took my hand and start rubbing it real softly!! If that's how it feels before they are about to climax then that SUCK!!!! big time..lol  For me to describe how it feels to a man would be very hard to do but I will say this, if there is anything a lady want from her man then she should ask him right before he cums! 9 times out of 10 she'll get a yes!
500728
you probably have a lot of pressure built up-both sexually [which would make him finish faster], and emotional.  perhaps a bit of 'performance anxiety'.  the more you make a point of noticing it and wondering how to fix it, the worse it will get for him..and in turn, for you. try to slow things down, the pace, the strength you put in [or he], and try not to be in positions where he'd finish sooner coz the sensation is heightened [like doggy]. good luck
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Oral is usually a sure bet for most women who have trouble climaxing.  You should try having your man use a vibrator on you, or incorporate it into your sex life.  I'm sure he'll do whatever it takes to get you off, because most people love seeing their partner climax as much as they like it themselves.  \nSorry I can't be of more help, I can't really relate too much...I'm very blessed in that department.
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Average time according to physicians: 6 minutes\n\nBut my advice to you: DON'T BE AVERAGE!!!!\n\nReason not to be average: The average time for a woman to reach climax is 12 minutes....
435255
That has happened to me also, but not each and everytime I have sex. I've noticed that if I *try* too hard to please my partner... I don't ejaculate either. Ask him to try and relax and go with the flow of the moment, that might help him.\n\nAt first it was very common in me, specially when I was with a very special person. Now it's not too often, though it still happens.\n\nI haven't gone to the doc about it either.
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You really don't need medicine! Just learn to control your pace. You can practice with masturbation. You just go until you are close to cumming...but stop short and take a break until that feeling subsides...and then continue again. You can really learn to go as long as you want...and oh that ejaculation will feel good when it finally happens (which is whenever you and/or your partner want it to!). Of course when you are f---ing, you need your partner's co-operation in stopping the friction (her moving too!) when you tell her you are getting close. It takes some practice but it works! As a short term solution I would suggest jacking off a couple of hours before you have sex with your partner. The second ejaculation should definitely take longer.
908215
Well.well, maybe time to come out of closet, I ejaculate like I'm peeing but it's not, just like you guys we can cum just as much if not more than you do....\nI have never thought it strange cos all my life (sexual) it has happened , funny tho cos partners have asked if I had wet myself LOL, I call it being a healthy robust woman who has great orgasms...so there is a bit of  trivial info ..LOL
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I'm going to answer this hoping you're old enough to read it. \n\nAs far as I can tell, orgasm and climax are the same thing.  A woman experiences intense pleasure and her vaginal walls contract spasmatically.  Woman can indeed have multiple orgasms, depending on the type of stimulation and whether or not there's enough lubrication. Women don't have a period of retraction (which is what I think you meant, as opposed to refraction), as men do. However, to keep stimulating without a brief respite can be painful.  The clitoris does become very sensitive. But slow it down and give it a few minutes and most women (okay...I'm speaking for me here since I don't know about other women) are good to go again.  The most I've ever been able to do is 8 times, and then it seems that it's harder to contract after that. \n\nAs for female ejaculation, I can't answer that. I've never experienced it.
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I don't think they can... I mean once they (the males) reach a certian peak, it's kind of difficult to shut it off or try to contain it.\n\nMy hubby has experimented alot with these things. He has told me there's a way to help limit the aftermath (i.e. ejaculation) but it doesn't work 100% since it's not possible to prevent an ejaculation once it has begun. Well there are ways, yes, but it isn't easy. It takes concentration, dicipline, and effort, as well as time to experiment. \n\nBasically my hubby can try to reduce his already massively powerful ejaculations to something a little more "normal", although even his so-called "softer" orgasms, he ejaculates much more than all men I've ever seen (except some older Peter North p*rn when he was in his prime). \n\nSo unless a guy has found a way to actually control the amount and volume he ejaculates, I still think men do not have dirrect control over their ejaculations... At least not in terms of controlling the volume and quantity!
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practice by masturbating, when you are about to come, stop masturbating.\n\nwait until you do not feel the sensation anymore, then start masturbating again, stop, wait then masturbate again\n\nThe effect in the long run is that you will ejaculate longer than expected.  \n\ndo it with your gf too. while doing sex, stop when you are about to come, restart when it does not feel good anymore\n\nyou have to ask her to bear with you, she will understand it \n\npractice makes perfect...
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Well I dont know I have read some of the post here and I can get off and keep going I usually dont go limp unless I stop and pull out and keep it out for 5-10 minutes but then I can also become aroused again very quickly about 2-5 minutes, maybe im just a freak i dont know. My personal best was 7 hours and I cant even count how many orgasms I had. Usually when my girlfriend and I are together I usually cum about 6 times in 2 hours and I dont get limp. But I am also in great shape so that has a lot to do with it also, runners have the highest endurance in bed compared to the average guy.
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actually ,most women cannot acheive orgasm by intercourse alone! this is totally normal. Try using a vibrator before and during sex to stimulate your clitoris during intercourse. The nerves from that clitoris actually run through and this is where the mysterious G-spot comes from. It is just an extension of these nerves. most women's nerves terminate too soon for her to have a intravaginal orgasm. So stimulate those puppies externally! Hope this works for you!
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It will take some practice because you need to build up some muscle control down there so give this a try.  When you are pleasuring your self and you feel like you are about to climax stop stroking and squeeze your penis at the base of the shaft and try not to ejaculate.  It will be tough at first but the more you work on this you will be able to work the muscles that will help you control this problem.  It's similar to kegal exercises that women do.