For men out there. Do you cheat on your girlfriend or wife? & Why?
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It may be cowardly to cheat, but more so to lie about it. Admitting that cheating is a problem, a vice, could help one to stop. Admitting to cheating usually has the worst consequences, which is logical.\n\nCheating is a high, like a cigarette for a nicotine addict, a cheater must conquer a woman to prove his manliness. this in turn most probably makes him feel weak, which in turn makes him need to prove his "strength" once again, continuing in a vicious circle. \n\nThe reasons men cheat may vary, but there is also an explanation given in Evolutionary psychology. Humans are but an instrument of gene pools. Men can have 1000 different women and produce 1000 offspring. However many partners a woman has she is still limited to a maximum of 20 children. Weird explanation. \n\nSo you can say that men who cheat haven't evolved much from our Neanderthal ancestors. \n\nIf you've been cheated on, know it is not your fault. You are probably not the reason. \n\nIf you can be compassionate with the cheater and limit your relationship to a non sexual one until he has matured into the New Age, maybe then you can try again... \n\nGood luck and God Bless
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People cheat because they are selfish and there are selfish partners who will cheat along with them.\n\nThis is not a man/woman thing, unless all of these men are cheating with other men.  They are cheating with women.  Therefore, there are as many women cheaters as men.\n\nNot everybody cheats on their partner, not everyone in an affair is married.  But both parties are guilty of violating YOUR vows (if you were married, I see this was "just" a boyfriend)\n\nIt's not a man/woman thing, it's a character issue, and the character of both cheaters is the problem, not gender.
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Is it okay for guys to cheat??  Is it okay for your girlfriend to cheat??  Why not?  You are doing it.  Actually I hope she already knows what you are doing and decided she is going to do the same thing.  Hats off to her!!!\nAnd remember...ONCE A CHEAT ALWAYS A CHEAT!!!!
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It may not be cheating in the usual unedrstanding of the word, but it most certainly is not being faithful. Consider how you would feel if your spouse had fallen in love with some bimbo on line and was sneaking off to have hot sticky computer sex when you weren't around? \n\nDon't betray your spouse.
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why, are you cheating?
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CHEATING HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH LOVE. IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH IF YOU LOVE YOUR MAN OR WOMAN. IT IS SELF CONTROL AND FIGHTING TEMPTATION
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man what is it with women ?do you girls love being crapped on cuz if a guy figures out that you will stick with him threw all the crap and cheating he does 2 U ,he will keep doing it so just a quick bit of advice i am sorry 4 the shit i put my wife threw but she should have left me B4 we got married cuz if i was her there is no way in h-ll i wood have put up with me but i also learned from her how 2 treat a women better some guys will never learn that for the most part leave him cuz if he wants you he will prove that you r the women he wants "I DID 2 MY WIFE" good luck
426736
Fisrt its better if u answer to this Q:why u cheated her ,even not once,but twice???????????
98426
is that your wife or gf in your picture? if you have a wife and girlfriend, obviously you don't love either one of them
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I have been in both situations.  When i cheated in long-term relationships it was because i had gaping, aching needs that were not being met in my relationship but i wanted to keep the primary relationship because of various reasons like love, the kids, social acceptance, financial, codependence, etc.\n\nNow i am in a long term relationship and not cheating and it is so wonderful to finally be fully open and honest.  Such a relief.  Now i see that  my deception made it impossible for my primary relationship to be satisfying to me.  Because i was distancing myself from it by the cheating.  I understand the motivations to cheat.  But i don't recommend it.  Deception is a wound on the soul.  A gash down the middle of your life.
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lmao!! Good for your wife!! I hope that this has taught you a very IMPORTANT lesson!! DONT CHEAT!
884607
that's a tough one.....if he had to cheat I would rather it be with a woman I didn't know............
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THOUGHT OF YOU WANNA CHEAT ON YOUR WIFE ALREADY MAKE ME ILL.. NOTHING FURTHER.. YOU'RE A SCUM IF YOU SCREW HER.. I HAVE NO RESPECT FOR MEN THAT NOT TREASURE THEIR VOW OF MARRIAGE.
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if a guy cheats on his girlfriend it means he will cheat on her always and he will cheat on his wife as well when he gets married. cheating is a weak personality. it doesn't fix until one partner breaks the relationship.
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You have a girl friend who knows you love your wife? She knows what she got into. Leave your Girlfriend, Confess to your wife & face the consequences
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i've NEVER cheated nor ever will. but what really got me mad once (besides others cheating on me) was i once went to caribbean by myself to relax; didn't even look at another guy. a week or two after i came home by boyfriend ended it. what a jerk... i could've had a better time...!!! grr.
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yes !\nyou vowed to love and be with only your wife !\nhow could this not be a form of cheating in a way ?