i like this boy and he found out and he told told everyone at school i was ugly. What should i do?????????????
445479
tell everyone you saw him touching a boy after school the other day
16327
Personally, I'd want to slap him the next time I saw him(don't do that though,seriously), but instead you should make him say he's sorry. If he starts being a jerk, ask him why he went out with you if he thought you were ugly. By the way, I'm sorry he said that to you. That would hurt. I hope you cheer up.
676924
Just be yourself and tell him so. If you get rejected, then at least you can move on and look for someone else.
285438
I like you! I think it's too bad you have to worry about your face. People should like you any way you are. We all have imperfections, some are just hidden.
885160
yes it sounds like he's just after the pretty face... he was a crush when you were young, just leave it at that.. he appears to only want you for the trophy.. stay clear of him, he'll only treat you well until he gets what he wants and deep down you already know that.. theres lots of nice boys out there that will treat you like you should be treated..but not this one... good luck..
658528
you should hold your head up and realize that there will be a lot more boys in your life and that if he hates you it's just too fucking bad for him , the best way to treat him is kill him with kindness, just remmember someday you will be beautiful and smart ,,and he will be fat lazy and stupid,, so get over it and enjoy your life
31869
You should listen to your friends. Usually they know best. But if they just think he's ugly that's not really a reason for them not to like him. You should talk to your friends and see if there's any other reason why they don't like him. All that really matters is what you think. But if your friends have a serious reason then you should consider talking to him. Your freinds need to like him and he needs to like your friends. Trust me!
157482
have some respect for yourself and leave that boy alone. there is plenty of fish in the sea, feel free to look elsewhere. after the fact they will only label you as a hoe or slut and i am pretty sure that neither guys are worth the drama that will follow if you do choose to date his boy.
1061715
He sounds very confused and juvenile. This actually takes me back to the days of 5th grade....Maybe he thinks that you're attractive but doesn't value you as a person. Maybe he's trying to "tease" you but is coming off as mean. Guys can be stupid when they try to show a girl that they like her. Don't waste your time worrying about him -- he's not worth the brain cells.
1183682
numba one tell him how you feel . I am sure he will understand but probably not cause some boys are immature
589807
Ha ha. I know exactly how you feel. Just act like yourself. If you pretend to be someone else, chances are they won't like you later on when the real you comes out because they will know that you lied to them. And if they don't like you, it's not your fault. Your boy friend likes you and that's all that matters.
925337
I'd tell the obnoxious one to seriously lay off. If he doesn't lay off and still gets too close, you can always tell a higher authority exactly what he's doing to you. They'll be able to scold him, and they may be able to do something a bit worse than a simple scolding, also.\n \nAnd to be attractive to anyone, you just have to be yourself. I believe "trying" to be attractive doesn't work out, because eventually you try to be someone who you're not. \n\nI advise you try to confront this shy guy and tell him how you feel in some way. If he really is shy, he won't make the first move if he likes you. Have courage, it'll be worth it.
86256
quit worring about the guys and focus on yourself. by your other posts i see u are obsessed with guys, health issues..etc.\n\nfor right now you need to focus on your health,self esteem ,and school.seeking answers from your peers or strangers is only going to confuse you because you do not tell the whole story.If you cannot talk to parents...talk to boys/girlstown national hotline.
1171233
Girl don't waste your time on that boy.  Either confront him or dump him or both.  Dont let him act like hes a playa.  Youll have the power when you DUMP HIM!!
63719
Get his attention.  You cannot force anyone to like you.  However, if you are not visible he will not know you exist.\n\nSit in the front, be showered and well groomed, and get good grades.  The GOOD ones will notice!
273216
Sweetie, just be his friend. If you get a chance to get him alone, talk to him and just let him know that you like him as a friend but you usually don't talk to him around his friends because you know that they will make fun of you. You can't make someone like you so if you offer him friendship and he rejects it, then he's just a shallow jerk and who the hell needs him anyway? Hold your head up high and be proud. Don't let them make you feel less than you are. I can tell that you have a good heart and you're a very sweet girl, so if they don't like you, you know we do! I think you're very special and sometimes people in this world just don't know what to do with a good, genuine heart like yours. If they don't, then they deserve your friendship in the first place. It may not be much, but you do have us and we'll be your friend. The people on YA are good, caring people who don't give a damn what you look like. And don't say that you're unattractive. Email me and I'll give you a few tips to improve your appearance if you're really that concerned about it. Just realize that true beauty comes from within and from what I can tell, you are a true beauty. I've seen your answers and questions and your a sweet soul with a beautiful heart, so the one's that don't think so can just piss off! God bless.
852155
Tell them you broke up with him... then ACTUALLY BREAK UP with this loser.  What kind of a moron do you have to be to be KICKED out of school?   C'mon, you really feel that bad about yourself that you need a loser to make you feel better?