can a good-hearted woman find happiness with a two-timing man?  walk through life together hand in hand?
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No. there will always be in the back of your mind if he's two-timing you with someone else or if he finds someone else. The trust will be minimal and I don't believe a relationship can exist without trust.
243640
I believe you can love more then one person romantically at the same time. Maybe I just feel that way because I'm a man, don't know why I just do.
976081
It really depends on the person. If you manage to find someone with whom you can spend the rest of your life, that's great. If you need more than one partner to be happy, that's just fine too.
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I'd be the first one. I, like any guy, have hormones. Male hormones, to be specific. Testosterone does some really messed up stuff to your head. So I'm not going to lie, the second option sounds more FUN. But fun is only part of life. And no matter what anyone says, fun does NOT equal happiness. Happiness, for me, is finding a girl who I connect with, who I can enjoy simply spending time with. It's having a woman who can be my best friend, my wife, my confidant, my lover, and the woman I get wild and crazy with however we decide to. It's all things. And none of those things are ever surface deep. You can never find those happinesses with just any woman, no matter how attractive. As for honor, courage, humility, sensitivity, for me at least, these are things I tend to embrace naturally. Some people say I'm an old soul. I believe in honor and courage and treating others like a decent human being, and these are the things I try to adhere to in all that I do. So, to make a long rant short, I'm definitely the first option.
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Great stuff.... where do I sign up?  Of course a man can "love" more than one: say he loves (in different context) his mother, grandmother, sister, cousin, daughter...  In relationships, same thing.... question is... are they worthy of being loved, in the first place.... Poligamy is the natural order of things.... monogamy the unnatural order of things.... hence typically disastrous.....
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There is no "simple" answer for this one because it's a complicated life issue. For example, there are two other concerns you (and your former lady, too) may have easily overlooked.\n\nOne, although opposites attract in trelationshipg, it is "like-minded" people who experience longevity. Meaning, unless a person is like you, at the core, too many differences will need to be overcome. Eventually such a relatinship finds its natural path toward separation.\n\nIt does not seem that you and your lady are actually and really, two "compatible" personalities.\n\nTwo, regardless of the above, it still stands to reason that it takes an "inwardly happy" person to be able to appreciate and share the happiness of someone else. That is, you attract only what you are inside.\n\nFor example, it seems that you showed your lady in the beginning that you were not completely happy with "yourself." Upon her seeing this, she decides that it is truly better to be without you.\n\nIf you really want to get her back, and keep her, and do it all "successfully and happily," you must enhance your own inner self-contentment.\n\nHow do you achieve that? It's your decision, but you must do it because your peace of mind depends upon it.\n\nOne suggestion is "self-talk." That is, asking yourself bottom-line questions about what truly makes you happy... and developing the courage to follow up, even when the answer is "not" a positive one.\n\nOne of the very best ways to "give" happiness, is to "be" a a truly happy person, satisfied both with your talents and your inadequacies, as well, but still content with peace of mind, no jealousy, no envy, no resentment, and especially, not feeling sorry for yourself.\n\nIt truly sounds like, at that time, you were just too self-absorbed with your own problems, to be able to really appreciate her and give yourself to her without reservation on your part.\n\nIt's never too late to be a better person. And, once she recognizes this quality in you, she will want you more.\n\nHopefully, she will still be available for you, once you arrive at this point. However, even if she is not, you can take such wisdom and peace with you, wherever you go, and it sill boost your relationship's happiness in almost any circumstances.\n\nHope you find this helpful.
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Dear Friend,  A woman is going to love you, ONLY if she feels it in her heart. You can impress her and make her have good feelings and thoughts about you, but you can't make another person love you. They have to feel that all on their own.
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Sucess is subjective. What mekes that particular person happy. Two people can lead exact identical lives and yet one could be less satisfied with it than the other.
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I think your standard is too low if this has been your experience.  Not only do I know of many cases where the man cared much more than the woman and the man was the one that put all the energy into the relationship (which isn't fair either) but if you don't settle for that kind of relationship then you will ultimately find someone that thinks you just rock, and they will work as hard to make you happy as you do for them.
69778
If you love him your friend should understand that. If she is a good friend she will find her own man and let you be happy. Say yes to the man, you might ever find another good man like that. Oh, congrats!!
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just let time keep going. if he makes you smile and laugh. plus make you happy. then things will work out for the 2 of you. just keep the same pace. when its time to pick it up. you will both know it.
106715
the right person will come along when the time is right for the both of you, don't rush it, it'll happen, when it does, you will know. Don't settle for less or you will still meet him and not be able to be together because of your prior choices
435964
When the time is right you will meet your second half soul-mate so dont look so hard that is when you'll see someone you like and they like you. When you least expect it, this is a proven fact.*
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I have always gone with my heart, im divorced and have been for 5 years now.  I recently met a man on yahoo and I never expected it to become so serious.  He wont let me get out of the car without him openning the door.  He takes off my coat and puts it on, he goes clothes shopping with me and helps me choose what I look good in and enjoys it.  He is a true gentlemen and very old fashioned in which I am too.  Yes, I feeel in Love with him and he cant beleive he found the woman of his dreams he has been looking for all his life and that is me.  Now he is a little confused, he cares for me is very patient with me and ive been sick with a bulgeing protrudeing torn degenerated disc and right wrist drop a nerve condtion in my right hand and arm in which it will take 8 weeks till I get the feeling back to use it.  I am now on disability from work.  He lives 1 1/2 hour from me and we spend every weekend he picks me up and we go to his place.  He says hes falling in love with me and I myself feel it but patience is a virtue I will wait for this man because I know he is the one I want in my fututre.  You have to go with your heart make decisions on your own even though you might be unsure I trust my heart you have to learn to trust yours.  I have been in your situation I understand you completely and would love to be your friend and help you through this I am giving you my screen name on yahoo laura_kerner011261 and you may im me if im on or leave me a message my e-mail is littlee8@comcast.net.  I dont know if your suppose to give this info out but I think by talking to you I may be able to help you get though these obsticles in your life.  I want to be your friend I am a 45 yr old female who has lost both her parents to cancer and am loseing my 48 yr old sister to cancer and have been sick alot in my life, but god is testing me maybe to make me a stronger person, I Love myself for who I am, you have to love yourself before you can love others please get in touch with me I know I can hel youiu through this if youiu want to I am a very honest down to earth person and see a physciatrist for panic disorder since i developed it when my child was born 17 years ago .I myself again want to be your friend again im me on yahoo and you will find out your not alone YOU HAVE A FRIEND and that friend is me and I want to be there for you and help you try and find answers to your questions.  I do have voice chat with a mic its easier for me sice i am paralyzed right now in my right hand from the nerve going up my arm.  Again I ask you please to e-mail me with your screeen name from yahoo and e-mail address you can add me and ill add you to discuss this I WANT TO HELP YOU< YOU HAVE A FRIEND and I want to be there for you, you seem like a very special person and i know i am a strong women I know I can help you get through this.  Thank you for reading this  Laura
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women unconcisly look for happiness in an man.I went four years found one was happy and then lots of women started hitting on me because i was happy.Have that shine of happiness in your eyes.
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life is good but with a good wife you can have a good life and with the bad wife you can have bad life,so its not your life that is good or bad its the people around you which make your life enjoyable or not!\n\narminnourbaksh@yahoo.co.uk
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Yes there are decent men out there....love us never having to say you're sorry, because if you love someone, you wouldn't hurt them in the first place....a women's worth is so high, they are the life bringer into this world.........treating a lady is easy... if you truly love them....IT comes so naturally...