what do you do when you got fedup with your own life?
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time to re-evaluate and make some changes, take your self on a journey to finding spirituality and what ever you dont like about yourself or your life then simply get rid of or change it.
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Do something for someone else.  Not only will it be nice for the other person it will help you get your mind off of your own problems.  \n\nDrinking, shopping and eating are all quick fixes and may help for a while but I think that you need to look for something more long term that will make you happy.  \n\nWhat do you like doing?  What do you love doing?  Things like guitar, writing, chess, gardening, painting.  \n\nTry different things untill you find something you like.  \n\nAlso make yourself goals and try to stick to them.  \n\nTo get more self esteem you should do things that make you proud of yourself rather than external beauty.  \n\nOh and about finding god.  God is great if you truly have faith but dont try to use it as a band aid for your problems.\nGood luck.
903100
Get over it and get on with life!
383114
Stop feeling sorry for yourself and start taking care of yourself. Why should anyone have to help you when you can help yourself? \n\nWAKE UP and take a look around you! Life can be very unkind, and unless you hit back and make the most of it (without depending on the help of others) you are going to be stuck in a "miserable" life.
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First of all, decide what you want and do it.  You're in a job you don't like.....keep it until you find one you do like.\n\n"The are sort of family"...no they're not.  They're users and abusers.\n\nUntil you take control of your own life you will feel helpless...and that is because you are.\n\nNow get up, dust off and decide what you want and then figure out how to get it.  No one can do this for you...but you.
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i used to... but not anymore..because i found that there is still an opportunity for me to make things get better and here i am i get what i want..get what i deserve and what i wished for. its just a matter of time to get over it and do other things that's is much more better than hating your own life. people hate their life just because they did something wrong or something bad or horrible things had happened or something that made them felt useless or hopeless...that they regret of living.. but as time passes quickly..they will get over it soon... just try to find a way that makes you feel better then everything will be fine... :)
500670
you must find a way to support yourself
376200
find a new job or dont take it ti serious or take some pills that nomaly works for me
635036
neverlate to succeed my friend, i was devorced with a kid and alone working day time and made it, because i wanted too.\n\ntake a good exemble of me, make dreams and move on for the best
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Time. Time. Time. \n\nIf you are asking, you are ready, I think, to do what you need to do to move on. \n\nDo a lot of things for yourself. Get out and enjoy yourself. Go shopping or go read in a bookstore. Do anything you love doing for yourself. \n\nBut most of all, let yourself feel the pain and let it run its course. After the pain, you'll probably be pretty angry. Do things that help you vent and release the anger. Beat up a Barbie doll, I don't know.\n\nBut you have to let it run its course. And the best thing to do while that's happening is do whatever else you can to enjoy yourself. If that means hanging out with friends or spending time alone (or both), do it.
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ok\nyour hung up on yourself
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You need to find a purpose. Maybe volunteer to do some work or pick up a new hobby and give gifts to those in need. Do something that will make you feel good about yourself. Maybe you just need to get out of the house. Go to a bookstore and thumb around some books or magazines and try something new you learned in those publications. You could even go to a pet store and pet some of the puppies or cats in the store. You need to keep your mind busy and entertained. Good luck.
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Well, you decide and then don't do what you decided.\nThis would take complete dedication to a lifestyle\nchange which can be most difficult.  I suggest a\nbuddy to check on you keeping you on the new track,\nor one of those self-help group sessions that you attend. (misery loves company). Good Luck
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Here's the first one.... if you don't fix it now, it will probably continue throughout your entire life, causing poor relationships, in the home, work, with friends, and more. \nYou can do it, just hang in there, and keep doing the next right thing, like putting forth the effort on a DAILY basis.\nConcentrate on concentrating! Work on it now, you will be glad that you did. Some people are so naturally organized, that they will never understand this behavior, but it can be self-taught, and the only difference between those who succeed and those who don't, are that some give up. \n\nTips...... Get yourself a notepad and carry it on you at all times. Continue to write down things as you remember them, and even if its not in order, you will at least have a guideline and know what needs to be done that day.\nAlso, start organizing your surroundings more. Like in your bedroom. Or getting up a half an hour earlier than you really need to, to get your day organized. Start taking control in the ways that seem small at first, but it will pay off in the end.\nPs. And don't forget to reward yourself for improvements, it will help you stay motivated!
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You should stop and think, that's what you should do for openers.\n\nNow, what is it that is so bad about your life?  It can't be literally everything, so what's the worst thing?  OK, now you have a focus for change.  What sort of help do you need to change that one thing?  Who would be the sort of person who can help you, or where would you find the information you need?\n\nMany problems get summed up in a few: money, for example.  If I only had more money, dozens of my current problems would be alleviated. OK, so I go on a rational quest for ways to improve my financial situation.\n\nLoneliness, for another example: many of my current problems would improve if I had someone to talk them over with, someone who cared.  OK, then take the time to figure what sort of person that would be, where you might meet such a person, or who you might get in touch with that you used to know, but lost track of somehow?\n\nYou see, bringing your mind to bear on the problem is the most important thing you can do.  If there are professionals you need to consult, there's a yellow pages on the back of your phone book.  If there are books you need to read, or web sites you need to study, etc.  Put your MIND to it, and stop making it all emotionally overwhelming.  Remember that you can control your responses to events with your mind.  You can decide to be calm, rational and in control of your behavior.\n\nGood luck and God bless!
1080842
You deal with it by coping with your disabilty.  Learn new skills, stay as healthy as posible.  Build up your upper strength.  Do the pity party for awhile and get back in the groove of things.
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Try to get in touch with yourself spiritually and take a time-out. Do something you enjoy and remove yourself from the tension. I know it's easier said than done but it's worth your sanity! **Sending you strength**