If a girl moves in with her boyfriend, is it okay to talk to guys she had sex with in the past if asked not to
447755
Do you love your boyfriend? If yes, cut off communication.\n\nDo you love those other people? If yes, why are you with your boyfriend?
835121
GIRL dont u dare move that girl into your house!!! Your man wont be just yours for long if you do. That's like a personal invite for her to come in & take all that she sees & they'll swear up & down its "just sex", no strings attached. PLEASE. Dont let them play you. Be a woman & stand up for what u know in your heart is right & do what makes u the most comfortable. If your man outs up a fight with this decision, then there u go. U already know sumthing isnt right if he's that insistent on moving her in. I wish my girlfriend would try to move another chick into MY house....HA!!!
1090951
Only in terms of STDs you might have, or if you have been raped or sexually assaulted - things that might impact on your current relationship.\n\nI think the past is the past, and you don't need to discuss anything you don't want to.
968096
!!!Well , you have a problem there!! I would in this particular situation most likely would somehow leave the (cheating) situation alone and let him now how it feels and that maybe he should think twice before making out with some girl he met that night. Also i would not go out with him because he sound like a slut , especially if he is making out with a girl he just met. I can give you advice but i can not  make the decision for you.\nTootles!!!
397945
Honesty is the best policy however sometimes it's needed. This theory could be used in an incident that happened to my friend. Here it goes. She hooked up with a friends ex boyfriend shortly after they broke up. A year later after that guy died in a terrible accident a mutual friend told her that they hooked up. That was something that would have been better left unsaid!
1123270
No.  But you shouldn't kiss other girls unless your boyfriend can watch.
172241
Seems to me that she wants you herself. I think that you should not tell her. It's any of her business, unless you want her to know. Why would you sit and discuss the way you please your girl in bed? Thats invading privacy. Maybe she wants to join. If i was your girlfriend, and she asked you that, your friend would have some problems with me. That is disrespectful. DO NOT TELL HER ANYTHING. Respect your girl.
116930
talking about what? sex? so you care about them, which means you may or may not be in a relationship. i assume you are not, you would have said my boyfriend was talkin with another chic. lets take it both ways:\n\nnot your boyfriend, but you have the hots for him and he knows it: then he has decided that he is a player and that he can have 2 or 3 chics on a string at all times. but its still his business, this is the time you can either decide to 'be' with him or the time to decide that you are worth more, deserve more and can get better. (thats what i would do)\n\nHe is your boyfriend: assuming he was talking with another chic about hookin up, then why play with him? he obviously doesnt care enough about you to not do it.\n\nI would just confront him, say: look fella, i like you, whats up with talking with suchandsuch chic? you trying to hook up with her? cause if you are, you need to go ahead and do it, just dont lie to me about it, let me know so i can start hunting me another man down
603570
Sometimes you meet girls that just tell you personal things for no reason (evident to me anyway) and this might just be a case of that. But if it's something that really bothers you, Your boyfriend should be willing to settle your mind by casually mentioning you exist to the girl in question.
310650
it depends on you if we are together and u are acting like a slut. then for get it, but if change and show that i can trust you then for get about your past. Remember trust is the only thing that keeps people close to you when you lose that is never the same.
240952
If it were me (which it's not) I would keep my mouth shut.  But you just have to think about what you would do if you were in her shoes.  Would you want someone to tell you or what?  Women generally have a "gut feeling" when their man has been cheating, so it's possible that she already knows and just doesn't want to admit it to herself.  Talking to him is definantly a good idea.  But why would he cheat and then ask her to move with him.  Maybe you can plant a guilt trip on him and he'll tell her.  But I think it's his place to spill the beans!  Good Luck!
358081
i apologize for those girls who do this - because i've done this at least one time in my life.\n\ni can't speak for everyone but when i did it, it's usually just to make my boyfriend a) jealous, b) sit up and take notice that i know that he's not the only catch in town, or c) get THEM back for flirting with other girls, too.\n\ni suppose i never thought about how the guys i flirted with would feel...sorry...
555630
It's okay, as long as it's okay for your girl friend is out scoring with an old friend at the same time you are banging\nyour neighbor.  You'll never know about it, so what will it hurt?
506090
'...before you have moved onto a new relationship?' You'd better decide who you are going to have the relationship with...the new guy or the old one. It might create problems.
598796
Well hopefully you've been honest if your past has come up in conversation with your current girlfriend.  If not; then maybe you'd better be worried........Otherwise, it is possible for the current and ex to be o.k. with each other although; not too many of them can be true friends.  There are too many unanswered questions that will come up between them, and usually trying to make that type of relationship work usually backfires sooner or later.........
1024233
Some people are bothered by their partner's sexual history, others are not - I guess it depends on the person.  If you are sexually active with them it's probably good to know their sexual history and medical history - there is certainly nothing wrong with asking about a partner's sexual history.
334129
As long as you don't phone up your boyfriend during sex with someone else - that would p#ss him off a bit!\n\nOther than that scream the house down!\n\nF76