Why do you need 'love' on the side?
443607
He isn't truly happy if he's looking for something on the side. And if he was a decent person, he wouldn't be going behind his wife's back and taking a chance on getting caught and hurting her. If he truly loves his wife and family, he wouldn't be doing what he's doing. And not all men are like him, at least I hope not or I might as well give up now!!
482693
at first I was thinking to reply YES to both questions, \n\nbut now that I think about it...\nto love mean ppl presents more of a challenge than loving nice ppl...I think mean ppl test your love and strengthen your character if you are able to love them and God does call us to love meanies.\n\nBut I guess that's kind of selfish, huh? ooh, I hope i'm not mean. :(
1096587
LOVE IS PUTTING SOMEONE ELSE'S NEEDS AND WANTS IN FRONT OF YOUR OWN. WHEN YOU DO SOMETHING YOU THINK ABOUT IF THIS IS GOING TO AFFECT THIS PERSON IN A GOOD OR BAD WAY. NOT WANTING THAT PERSON TO BE UNHAPPY. WHEN YOU ARE NOT WITH THAT PERSON YOU ARE THINKING ABOUT THEM AND WONDERING WHAT THEY ARE DOING EVEN MISSING THEM WHEN THE TWO OF YOU HAVE ONLY BEEN APART A FEW HOURS. YOUR HEART STARTS TO RACE WHEN YOU SEE THAT PERSON. YOUR HEART, MIND BODY AND SOUL JUST HAS THIS FEELING OF FULFILLMENT LIKE NOW YOU HAVE THIS FEELING OF COMPLETION SINCE YOU MET THIS PERSON.
444786
Love doesn't always involve sex.  Some people don't need sex to be in a healthy relationship.  It just adds a lot of fun and spice into your relationship.  You don't NEED it, but it's still nice.
15134
Because love is beautiful and wonderous. It gives you hope and a reason for living. Not just boyfriends/girlfriends. But family and to a certain degree friends. life is always fuller when you have love. I'm not sure that answers your questioon but I did my best.
1137547
YES, it's essential.  love is very hurty sometimes, but that's life for ya.  feel better soon.  :)
165217
Any human with the capacity to love gets attached pretty easily. There's nothing wrong with that either. Yes, we do have to separate ourselves sometimes and try not to get too attached to some things or people (like puppies you're going to sell or give away) and it can be tough sometimes, but ya know what? Thank God that you are able to love because those that cannot love lose so much. I'm sure you've heard the "tis better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all" quote, (may not be exact, but you get it), well, never was a truer word spoken. When you love, love with your whole heart, never half-way. God bless. =)
456480
Love is a connection on a deeper level than friendship. It has a component that is committed and loyal. You love usually when you share values and attitudes. You love when you can disagree and still be respectful of the other person's opinions. Though I use it in reference to my old cat too. He liked being around me and being cuddly. The current cat  I'm just friendly with heh.
16833
The spelling of course...!!! (just kidding...) Well, life requires practicality and sometimes forgets the emotions.It often use the brain rather than the heart.Love, on the other hand,forgets to be practical.It gives much concern with the feelings of the heart over the brain.. But i think it is healthier to live a LIFE full of LOVE... after all, you go both ways...
212691
"Love" is the "voluntary" commitment to the welfare of another, to nourish them and give the life.\n\nWhen you are voluntarily committed to another person's welfare, you are "choosing" to "love" them. When you make this choice to give from the heart, your heart is nourished when you give.\n\nThat is why it feels so good when you give.\n\nJ
1079601
Now you are going to start a new life where care is one of the most important feeling or base of love, but should not become possessive because of it. If you do something, you should not expect the same from the other side.In this way, you will be always happy and enjoy your life in a family .
657959
Love: She makes you want to be better than you are, each day. You find that you are willing to sell out, to give up EVERYTHING you own and know to make sure her tomorrow is better than today, which was in turn, better than yesterday. You would give your life that she may life. You would go hungry that she might be fed. To go cold that she may stay warm. You do this because you really want her to be safe, protected and comfortable. Not just because you want her to like you. Love is you would cherish her even if she didn't love you back, and there was no quid pro quot. Love is like having a home you are eager to move your furniture into, and do not want to move out once you have it in there. Love endures no matter what transgression is done. The hurt maybe there, and you may never forget it. But you are willing to forgive or at least deal with it.
529359
People need someone to fill the empty space in their hearts. You need a husband and kids to fill it up. Someone to share you thoughts and feelings. Someone who could make your life very meaningful.
724665
No.  That's not necessary.  All we really need to do is be kind & treat each other with respect.  That's not dependent on anything else.
100834
Love is everything kiddo, it makes the world go round and round. And people love because it is a natural tendency of one to connect with another. It is not a waste of time but yes, love hurts but with the pain it brings, there also comes growth, wisdom and more love.
286729
What do you need help with? do you not want to be in love? Being in love with someone and having strong affection are easily mixed up. If you are in love there are no ifs, ands, or buts. You'll know it.
718933
They feel they need someone else's advice to weigh their love life. It shows your really not ready for a serious relationship if your depending on complete strangers to fix your love life. You have to go with how you feel, it's YOUR relationship, and it needs to be YOUR UNBIASED decisions. But hey...more points for me!