How do you know for sure that the guy your in love with is that one to stick with?
442649
I have been in a relationship for 2.5 years, the same things happen you stop doing things, going places, that really doesn't have anything to do with love, we get into patterns and we get used to things and we don't spice things up any more. I believe that you know when you are going to spend the rest of your life with him, if you just cant get enough of him, you love everything about him, and no one else interest you for very long other than him. There are ways to tell if he is cheating just because I have had my suspicions and i have a great best friend who happens to male. 1) Doesn't spend a lot time with you, when he does he really doesn't want anything to do with you or to be around you. 2) Has a sudden interest in someone, with them all the time 3) Buys new clothes, has a sudden interest in their own appearance. 4) Always answers the phone, leaves room for conversations
511839
i can tell you how you know you're infatuated. you think about that person all the time and wanna be with them all the time. you feel like you'd do anything for them!\n\nafter the infatuation wears out in a few months, if you still wanna be with them, that's love. after your love has been tried (fight or something) and you work together to get through it and compromise, etc. AND you still wanna be together... that's love!
112308
You must always remember what it is that you like or want in that person and does this person have what you want.  It takes time unless the other person shows you right off the bat, "I'm not the one."
93822
After two years together I think down deep you know this answer better than the rest of us.  No matter how good a relationship seems, how well two people get along, how much they have in common, there still has to be that extra something that can't be fully explained for it to be true love.  If you have that undefinable feeling and you can look into your future and always see you two together, then I think it is a pretty good chance that he is the one for you as long as he feels the same way.
737972
you know someone is your soul mate when you dont have to ask yourself is he or isnt he.\nyou just know
562113
JUST FOLLOW UR HEART...AND TRY TO SENSE WHO WOULD KEEP U MUCH HAPPIER IN UR LIFE...WITHWHOM U VL FEEL MOST COMFORTABLE AND SECURE...WHO WILL NEVER CHEAT ON UR TRUST,,WHO CAN KEEP U AS PRINCEES OF HIS HEART FOPR REST OF THE LIFE,WHO MATCHES NEAR TO UR DREAM GUY....AND BEWARE...THINK THOUSAND TIMES BEFORE TAKIN UR DECISION..
534002
When you have focus and trust on a particular guy.
313046
Try to use your brain to make a logical decision.  Are you really, for instance just lusting over this someone else?  Do you have a long-term committed relationship that you'll ruin by following your heart?  Or are these both people you've had some kind of relationship with and you simply can't decide.\n\nIf it's the latter, who will be better over the long term.  Sometimes we make choices based on short-term goals (like having a great sexual relationship) rather than long-term goals (like finding a kind person who will be committed to you).\n\nThink before you leap!
594895
Don't do anything that you will regret later.  Something does not seem right here.  If the guy you are living with is so great, you would not be thinking of another guy.
376027
well i think that the one u are with has priority, not only that but if you leave him for someone else 4 what ever reason, it may not say much about ur layalty to people and its something that may bite you in the butt later on. if this person u talk about is back in ur life that means he is not sure of what he wants, what garanties u he wont leave u for someone else. be firm in ur descision and dont betray no one in order to aquire what u need, it doesnt say much about u. over all the things you save save ur heart its special dont brake ur promise to ur current boyfriend. if you waited i think he could wait too n if he waits, n ur relationship with ur current boyfriend doesnt work out n you brake it up justifiably than go for it. but dont brake up out of inpulse u might make the mistake of ur life. remember its never good to live off of memories they will always hurt you weather good or bad. k take care
200334
Usually it's just something you know in your heart. As for outward stuff, usually he will seem completely and totally committed to you. He loves spending time with you, and seems like he can barely stand being apart from you. When you look into his eyes in a quiet moment between you two, often you can find the answer right there as well. Just watch him closely. When there is love between two people, usually it is only one of the two that can decide whether the other is in love with them or not. This is your bond. Do you think he is in love with you? Ask yourself that now and then when you are with him. You may just find that he is showing more of the signs than you originally realized.
276908
You will know when you're both in love. There will be a feeling like you can't get enough of that person.  Like you belong together. You will feel completed and happy with your life.
1104948
Bottom line.... do you love him? Does he love you? Then go for it. There is no secret formula to know if this is the man you were fated to be with or not. In this world, you get love, you cherish it, you don't know when it will come around again. So go for it and don't worry so much.
587076
ull know it once u meet.... ur heart tell u here is the one who is made for u..... u may meet by chance or mere coincidence but ull later realise that u have met ur soulmate
354591
Dude if you don't know then you don't love him\nlove is a special and very strong emotion ..you will know when your in love trust me ... you will kill for this person
630541
When it's meant to be, you won't have huge doubts.  It sounds like you need to move on... you'll know when you've found the person for you, because it won't matter whether that person has savings or not, or whether they have rhythm or not... you won't have doubts when it's right.
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You think all the time for him/her. You cannot find even one bad characteristics in him/her... And you even ask yahoo! answers to find out are you in love :)