How to have more-Self-Confidence????
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Be your own best friend. Short and sweet!
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Building self confidence takes time, but it can be done.  Our self esteem is partly our personality (what we are born to be) and partly from our early childhood experiences.  Many of us, therefore, do not have naturally high self esteem.  You can upbuild yourself by taking the time to love yourself in fundamental ways: eat well, exercise, and rest.  Tell yourself often (200x/day) that you are loveable, wise, funny, and attractive.  Take good care of YOU because you are worth your own attention.  Over time, your self care will show you how valuable you are.  And high confidence is very sexy!
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im not 100% sure what ur asking but if i had to guess i would say,\n\nbe urself. love who u are as a person.  confidence is loving who u are no matter what other ppl think protraying it is something that happens without trying.  it happens when u be urself.
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Confidence. Low self-esteem
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You gain confidence by believing in your abilities.  By succeeding in things you do.  They don't have to be big things, little victories count too. What qualities do you possess that others admire? Make a list if you like.  \n\nIf you can see yourself succeeding, your confidence will grow. Put yourself in a position to succeed in whatever you do.  Good luck!
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have confidence!! BELiEVE iN YOURSELF!!\nhave good smiles.....\na good body...\ngood posture, etc.!!\nSHOW THE TRUE YOU!!!\nand if u dont make it..its still a fun experience right?
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Sweetness, what you're missing is confidence in your own self. No one can give it to you; it's the sort of thing you have to gain by yourself. Keep telling yourself that you're fine, that people are just "looking" and not judging. Look in the mirror at yourself and tell yourself that you are fine, you are marvelous, wonderous, whatever just so long as you beleive it. I was self-concious in high school too and that's what I did. I figured I could let other people knock down my self-confidence or I that I wouldn't. I opted for wouldn't. Good luck and Blesings.
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i used to be so shy, until i found my now best friend. she was so confident and encouraged me to do the same. maybe try and find friends on your own, so you aren't relying on your now friends to have a good time. Make conversation with a person in a bar or pub, thats usually a good way to get more confident, and if it doesnt work out then you can just leave it at that!\n\ndo things in public that you wouldn't normally do, like singing and dancing when messing about with friends.  Most of the problem is that you are thinking of what others think of you.  Dont worry what they think, theyr the ones having a boring time not you! and anyways, you wont see these people again, so let them think what they think!
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Confidence is the best weapon to so called "haters". If you know yourself deep inside and know that words are meant to be sometimes powerful and mean, then adapt that layer between the person and your head. That layer should adapt to never let anything negative put your confidence down. The best advice a great man once told me was: "Always look at everyone in the eye and know if they are lying about you then know that your confidence is your pride and joy". Be proud with what yo' momma gave you dude and dont let words be harmful.
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Focus on yourself. That doesn't mean that you should become self-centered, but it means that if you spend too much time worrying what other people think, then stop.\n\nI know that it's easier said than done, but be yourself no matter what. It's hard, but it's worth it.\n\nSometimes buying a new shirt or getting a haircut gives me a boost of confidence. It's only temporary, but sometimes it's the boost I need to get working on other areas of my life.
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Simply believe in yourself. You could do anything just as good or better than any other person, if you really wanted to.\n\nTake TV commercials for example, you've seen some pretty stupid ones before, right? And you probably thought, "I could do a better job than that!"\nAnd more than likely, you could!!\nAnd so it is, with most everything.
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believe in yourself, believe that u can do wat is given to u and do it well... trust yourself
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believe in yourself and your own capacities! \nNothing else is true!
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Believe and have confidence in yourself.
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you can't. suck it up, use all of your confidence, and yes, be yourself. relax to seem easy going. most of the time the first word is the hardest. you'll be fine.
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Make a list of the qualities that you like in yourself.\nDevelop those qualities, and be proud.  \nWith that will come courage.
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u have to have confidence in your self and make urself more attractive!!!LOL!!GOOD LUCK!!!