Why do men cheat and then act like the women did the cheating?
449550
To take the focus off off themselves.  If they put the focus on their partner their partner may not pay as close attention to signs that they are really the ones doing the wrong.  It may aslo make them feel like they have justified their wrong doing although two wrongs never make a right.
261564
Because they know they have lost you and that you ment more than the gal he decided to cheat on you with. He wasnt thinking when he did it. Trust me, My husband did it after 3 years of marriage, he NEVER did it again, He said it was the most stupid thing he had ever though of doing and he really didnt think of the consquences,  we have been married 10 years now.
649354
Women are... who are the ones always catching them cheating...? Our brains are always thinking.
733380
Interesting question. I'd say no in both instances, but . . .\n\nA man's cheating is different from a woman's cheating.\n\nA cheating man generally is interested in only physical interaction.\n\nA cheating woman is generally interested in an entire relationship, physical and emotional\n\n. . . so in a sense, a woman cheater, cheats more completely in the relationship than does a man who is cheating.\n\nAgain, both are devasting to a relationship and no one should ever knowingly or intentionally inflict pain on anyone else, especially those they love
494537
Why I think a lot of men and women lie to get what they want is because it's easier to lie..to go sneaking around cheating..or doing things behind their partners back. I think that when a person does this..it just shows that their cowards because usually people do it so they don't get caught or are afraid of getting caught...just be honest and deal with the consequences...
976975
For the same reasons that women cheat.
29306
I think some husbands cheat on their wives for the same reason why all men cheat... they want to see if the grass is greener in other pastures. They may not be getting the attention they want at home or they may simply just be jerks and not care about their wive's feelings.
524985
date one cheat on the other - thats the way you women work.
910665
I don't like doing long answers ... so i'll TRY keep this short .\n\nMOST WOMEN LIE TO THEMSELVES....\n\n...and not just to men ... they actually make excuses for what they do because they are conditioned to believe that cheating for pure physical reasons is something that only men do ... but those days are long gone...  all this nonsense about an emotional connection (b4 a woman cheats) does not fool real men like me ... \n\n...men just admit that they are weak where this is concerned and accept the guilt that comes with it...  ownership.  \nguys nowadays are too busy being bullied by women ... to pull their heads out of their A$$es, ...stand up and be MEN\n\nDr Bad\nNo one bashes BAd\n\nps. you have been asking some really good questions lately ... this is one of them... keep it up ... or i'll lose concentration.  ;-))
492300
if he cheated while unhappy and attempted to cheat while happy, this guy seems like a serial cheater. some guys are like that. no matter how happy they are in their relationship, they just need attention form other women. you deserve better than this guy.
123863
Because some guys are complete assholes. And they think they are  better. So if they cheat just hit them hard or were it will really hurt, if you catch my meaning. \n\nThinks for answering my questions sarah
500042
you just misunderstand men hun they are not mean they are just acting natural it is  a man natural instinct to be aggresive but those who control it are the ones who are respected...those who dont are plain idiots..lol..see women use both sides or thier brains more at the same time than a man does therefore making us able to cope better with problems men dont use thier brains in the say matter as we do,,,,,
145615
Call it a woman's intuition.  If you feel is cheating, it's probably because he is.
261630
Because by other experiences girls generalize that men are liars... because someone cheated this way, we see a pattern here... just show your girl what you do, take her onece and she will know that you are the exeption to the rule, its not natural, but some women think of you as dogs hunting and she might trust you but not the people you are among of, so let her meet your buddies, and let her know theres nothing to hide she will trust you more because theres information saying how do you feel ok... Be truthfull and this will set you free of explainning yourself everytime you hang out with your friends ok... \nBest of luck!
667624
Because they make it that way. It never should be that hard to love someone, but for men and some women they need a lot of drama in their life. Also some want to blame the other sex for their problems. If a man thinks a woman did him wrong he will blame all women..............
117319
man what is it with women ?do you girls love being crapped on cuz if a guy figures out that you will stick with him threw all the crap and cheating he does 2 U ,he will keep doing it so just a quick bit of advice i am sorry 4 the shit i put my wife threw but she should have left me B4 we got married cuz if i was her there is no way in h-ll i wood have put up with me but i also learned from her how 2 treat a women better some guys will never learn that for the most part leave him cuz if he wants you he will prove that you r the women he wants "I DID 2 MY WIFE" good luck
484346
Because they have no consideration for women. Women are displays of sex and domestic workers. Some men are highly selfish and don/t consider the feelings of the other person. I don't think that  you can completely trust a man, because hey, he is a man, but you can get to a point where you can accept him for who he is as long as he doesn't jeopardize your relationship. Think though, the guy who cheated on me is now being cheated on  with a woman that he is absolutely in love with. Karma is a bitch with highheels and a miniskirt....:)