gurls plz i need your advice?
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try to just be yourself
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Bottom line to a very long dissertation is DON'T DO IT ,,,, You didn't mention your age or age bracket but I'm assuming that you are in your teens ,,,,,that doesn't matter because this advice could fit anyone ,,,,, You have your whole life ahead of you ,,,,If I'm right and you are in your teens then you aren't in a position to handle the problem that can arrise from this ,,,, There are allot of red flags here ,,,, One of them is that you are a challenge to any guy ,,,,,, you have something they want and most likely after they score they will move on to another target ,,,, Don't submit yourself to being anyones play thing ,,,, Any guy that wants you for that has no respect for you at all ,,,, To them you are only warm and have a pulse ,,,, Guys your age aren't near ready or mature enough to settle down with just one girl at this point in their lives ,,,, Think long and hard and from all the angles where this is concerned ,,,, Use your head ,,,, don't let them use your body ,,,,,
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Put your hand down below do you feel two balls? Good now use them go up to her and tell her how you feel. Girls like men who are sure of them selves. Good luck. Tell her Listen _____, I have this huge crush on you and I wanted to know if you would just have dinner with me. So we can talk.....If she agrees you got your self on the right track if she says no. then it was never meant to be. It has already been 2 years don't lose your chance.....
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dude, ive been here before so i knw how u feel. wat u DONT wanna do is straight out ask. get the good mood n vibe goin, n then do sumthn creative. wat ive done before is take a pic on my phone of sumthing saying things like "will u go out with me" or "will u b my girlfriend". so b creative n most of the time itll work. like i said, get a good conversation goin before poppin the question. happy to help!:)
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Practice strike up a conversation with girls you do not know but are not necessarily the most attractive to you. Watch them stumble that will help you released you are not alone, help them when they stumble this will help you gain confidence for your own game.\n\n Good luck man remember pretty women have the same problem as you, sometimes both sides are equally interested but both players are bad at the game and personal insecurities make each party feel that they are at fault and the conversation fizzles.\n\n Avoid these phrases at all cost:\n  Nice day today.\n  Man this place is busy\n Have you been hear before?\n  Are you here with friends\n   *** The problem with any conversation starter like the above is it is easily answered with one word. Give her something to work with.  It is way too hard to recover from a Yes and No conversation its mechanical, no way to find common interests.
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Just become really good friends before you start a relationship! Trust me, I've gone into a relationship based on physical things (without a strong friendship) and things didn't work out! I think it's great that you are willing to wait until she seems ready to "make a move"! I wish more guys were like that. Find out what type of things she likes to do. Maybe you could invite her to go bowling you and a couple of friends, or go to coffee(i suggest Starbucks), or out to eat,  or somewhere else that you guys could just talk.  I know the movies are fun but you should do something where the two of you can talk. You can't really get to know someone that well by going to the movies. To keep her interested in you maybe you could just flirt with her a little, every girl likes to be flirted with every once and a while. Good luck! If you want any more advice on it you could always contact me.
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i use to be shy just liek you. but get comfortable. it depends what kind of a gurl she is. if she is one of them flirts then you have to take control...if it is one of them shy gurls u gotta go say wassup and do ur thing. evreyone has thier on type of game but you just gotta do what is in ur heart.
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Just say no. He'll respect you more, and poss. consider you more of a gfriend material later on, if thats your goal. girls who put out to easily aren't gfriend material, they're just somthin' on the side.
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The best advice you can get from me (a girl) is to just be yourself and true and she will come your way...no girl likes a cocky guy...
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Remember, that every person has a style.  For some girls, talking is very important, however for others it may not be a priority.  You want someone who will appreciate you for your unique qualities.
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flirt with her, tell her pretty thing so she will feel unique and spacial, but the most important.. be yourself man, if you don´t catch her attention being like you always be that girl is not the one. (of course if you normally act like a perv  or like an ass you`re in trouble)
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Do me and yourself a HUGE favor, DON'T TELL THIS GIRL HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HER!!!\n\nThink about it.  If she is an 8 or 9 as you suggest then she probably has a million guys fawning all over her every day.  If you tell her how you feel you'll be just another one of those average chumps! She probably hears the same sh*t over and over again and it probably bores her to death!\n\nDo something to make yourself stand out.  Give her some attitude, dude!  Don't be an a-hole, but don't be a kiss-a*s either.  Treat her like your annoying little sister and bust her chops.\n\nIf you say she's been teasing you a lot, that's because she likes you.  If a girl is into you she will tease you.  It's as simple as that.  What you need to do is have fun with her and tease her right back.\n\nThe first line of your question was "...at the beginning...she was into me, but I ruined that by showing her too much love."  If that didn't work in the past why do you think that would work now?  It's like putting spoiled milk back into the fridge and checking it again a month later to see if it some how is drinkable.  Crazy, huh?\n\nIf you want to drive her wild, then make sure and flirt with every other girl at your weekend event!  Women don't want a guy that no one else is into. They think something is wrong with him.  But if you are chatting up a bunch of ladies and they are all laughing with you and smiling she will think, 'Hey, what does this guy have that all these women like being around him?  I want him to want me, why is he paying no attention to me.'\n\nI guarantee that if you don't approach her and are the life of the event, she will come up to you.  In fact, I will back up my guarantee.  \n\nDo this.  Pay attention to everyone but her.  Maybe give her a glance and a wry smile, but do not approach her.  If she does not come up to you and start chatting you up, I will send you a $10 gift card from Starbucks so you can ask her out the lame way you want to (no offense intended) and tell her how you feel.  \n\nWhen that doesn't work (which it won't), at least you'll have the comfort of knowing that you didn't spend your hard earned money on her and you are no worse for wear except knowing that being lame is just that, LAME!  And that you have to try a new approach with ALL ladies.\n\nThere are 6 billion people on this planet, half are women.  If she fizzles out that leaves only 2,999,999,999 potential others.  Oh, what will you do?  On the flip side, there are the same number of men out there who will try to woo her with their 'feelings for her' and their gifts and she will shun most of them.\n\nLadies out there, please weigh in and post your thoughts.
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Just ask her!  If you're not convinced with her answer, don't press the issue.  Ask for ways for you to improve her experience.  If she's worried about your feelings, that will give her the opportunity to 'help you along' without embarassment.  Real men appreciate any advice from their lady- so the fact that she offers it- does NOT mean you've been doing it wrong.  And remember, you're not born a great lover, you BECOME a great lover- take any advice graciously.
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Just try to be yourself, and have confidence. I don't know any girl who doesn't like a man with confidence, but don't be cocky about it. Slip it in casually and don't make to much of a big deal about it. Something like "hey hows it goin? If you're free tonight did you want to (insert whatever you're asking her to)?" Whatever she says stay calm and say ok that's cool. And don't linger around for to long after, that makes things weird.. Good luck. =)
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Be honest with her. Honesty is the best policy. Don't be smothering about it. Girls like guys that are honest not pushy. Be her friend.
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Get out and talk to every girl you see. There's only "yes" or "no". If your looks aren't that good try to get in a conversation. But don't go for the gold yet. Wait on that until you've more experience.
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Advice on a guy . . help . . .