How do u girls feel if ur bf is virgin at the age of 19?
440058
well if the girl isn't virgin well that is kind of bad that means she couldn't wait any longer so there you are 19 yrs. virgin with her. so if i was you i would lie to her but believe me once she looks at it she will know you are virgin so i think you deserve someone better someone that is virgin. by the way if i had a boyfriend that is 19 and is still virgin wow i'll get  all excited i am virgin and i would have sex with you so both would be virgin so if you wanna talk to me as a friend and tell me your real problem i would gladly do so www.billypapi@yahoo or call me 9565726222 and my name is marisol yes this is my real number people!!!!!!!
947375
Kudos for you still being a virgin, I hope that my daught will say that many, many, many years from now.  And the right guy will be comming along.  Just dont stress.  you will be noticed when you least expect it.
385129
No. I'm not a virgin. I lost my virginity at 15. It was not a good experience. I was with someone I loved, someone I'm still with to this day (over a year later). But I wasn't ready. In truth, I didn't really know what was happening until it was too late. Don't get me wrong, I knew what sex was. I just didn't know we were going to have it. Lol. I felt pressured. He was 18 and extremely experienced. And when I say extremely, I mean he'd been with 33 girls before me. I also didn't like the WAY it happened. There were no candles, no soft music. Just a movie playing. And it was rushed and tense because my grandparents were in the other room. So if you're thinking about having sex for the first time, loving the person's not the only thing you have to worry about. Make sure you're completely comfortable with the idea. Make sure you're alone and you use protection. (Which I didn't.) Plan ahead of time. And make it special. Remember, you only get one first time.
197908
i think it's good your still a virgin. I'm 25 and still one. I'm one who still believes you need to be married to have sex.
532210
I was 19, and it wasn't the best thing ever. In fact thinking about it, it was awful. Given the chance again, I would wait to find someone who 100% respects you and that you would feel honoured to give your virginity to.\n\nGood luck :)
454280
19 and I've only been with one man.  I think I feel less shy about sex now that I'm no longer a virgin.  I got pregnant a few months after I lost my virginity so my life has changed in that way.
243225
Odd statement, men brag about how many girls they've been with yet when the find the right girl to have a relationship with they want a virgin. If all these guys had so much sex, who did you think they were having sex with? 15 Guys isn't alot for a 26 year old woman. Another thing, men are revered for having all this sex while women become sluts. If you like this girl why do you even care about how many guys she's been with, why are you even talking about it with her. Now I know how guys think and I understand. Trust me when I say this, grow up and deal with it. If not it sounds like it would be your loss.
844418
I would, for a number of reasons. First of all, the fact they haven't had sex shows that they have a lot of self respect, which is extremely sexy in a guy. It's also nice to know that if you sleep with him, you'll be his first, and not just another girl in what could be a long list of them. Thirdly, if a guy who has kept his virginity decides he wants to sleep with you, then he obviously has a high opinion of you, which is really nice to know too. Fourth, they won't forget you because everyone remembers their first. Finally, you make the experience amazing for them, and cause none of you are sure what to expect, it creates suspense - pure turn on.\n\nXXX
13718
First of all, if you're that worried about this you're probably not mature enough to have sex yet.  Secondly, if he tells you he's a virgin and insists on it and whatever just believe him.  I don't understand how someone can "look like a virgin."  We were all virgins at some point.  Lastly, it's really easy to find out about sexual things from movies, books, the internet, magazines, friends and so on and so on.  Knowing about sex doesn't mean you have it all the time.  Just don't worry so much and enjoy being a friggin teenager.
293629
Yes, if you've done this many times.  But if this is the first time, No and learn from this mistake.\n\nGuys have their preferences, if virginity is important to them they will surely feel bad about it and most probably shy away from a long term relationship with you.
870201
This is how I feel about it ...\n\nYou should stay a virgin till you're married.\nGod intended it to be that way.\nBut many, MANY people abuse that.\nAnd God looks down on those people.\n\nYou don't just give your virginity to just anybody.\nIt is the best present you can give your future husband.\nIt is you... it is all of you.\n\nIf you become pregnant, you can handle it better when you're married.\nYou'll have that person beside you who promised to always be by your side.\nIt won't be some random guy or some guy who you THOUGHT loved you.\n\nSex makes many things complicated in an unmarried relationship.\nIt takes two very mature people.\nYou do not want to get yourself lost in everything that comes with sex.\nMost people nowadays tend to just BASE their relationship on sex.\n\nI am a virgin myself. I have a boyfriend of 9 months that I am completely in love with. We talk about marriage and how I want to wait till our wedding day to have sex. He truly does love me... he respects me. That's when you KNOW you have a great guy. That's when you KNOW he's in love with you... when he has absolutely no problem in waiting. Actions speak louder than words...
1011817
I AM THE DECIDER does not give an informed opinion, how would a virgin (at least with a female) know anything about this!\n\nHe thinks he has a girl friend, but actually since she is repulsed by him, she is not giving it up, so he is used to being in a sexless relationship!
433067
sex isn't just an act there are emotions that will go along with being with someone in this way . If he really loves you he will wait dont comprimise your morals  your only a virgin once once you have you cant go back  yes you can remain from having sex but your so young sex will always be there. i dont know him  but the guys i dated will tell you what ever it takes to get you into bed the good ones wont pressure you    i know  its hard  we have all been there   also if you happen to get prenant are you really ready for  all that respnsiblity  it will change your life .  some people are more mature than others at this age  just write down your thoughts  maybe seeing it on paper will help you decide    go talk to girls your age and get there input the ones that have babies on just the ones that have been through this stuff   you said you have morals and goals    if you are a religious person  go talk to a  teen  counselor than can help without judging  you . and if your parents  change their mind and decide to press legal charges against him because of his age  prison isnt going to be a place for him    dont risk  doing that to him     even if you dont want them to they can still override  and go to the law    i'm  not trying to scare you  just want you to get all the  facts before you make the decision   i wish someone would have told me about all the emotionally things that go along with sex    i have been with several  guys  when i was your age  i'm 20 something   and i still have  emotions from my first time  and  the times after  that.  there is so much life to experience  take it and run but be carful.
95318
thats perfectly okay. i am 17 soon to be 18 and my boyfriend is 21 soon to be 22. i love him with all my heart. older boys are hotter more experinced and know how to treat a girl. i'm his little princess. but tell your friend to be careful some boys are in it for the booty action. so i wish good luck to your friend.
1129251
depends on how old you are,if you're below 16,I'd Say yes it's too early,if you're older then I'd say there are no real rules,what really matters is how do you feel about having sex with him? Do you trust & love him enough to take that next step?And more do you feel like having sex ,do you feel ready for it? According to me it's the only valuable question you should ask yourself,your feelings have got nothing to do with any schedule.
863527
Definetely tell him if you aren't ready. If he pressures you when you don't feel ready, you might want to re-evaluate your relationship with him. If he's a real gentleman, he'll realize that you're worth the wait and not force you to do anything.\n\nAs for the fact that you lied, it would be a bigger deal if you had lied about being a virgin when you weren't. But, since that's not the case he shouldn't be too mad, and if he is, he is overreacting. \n\nGood job on sticking to your morals and not having sex whenever, wherever, you should be proud of yourself and don't let others eat away at your self-esteem. Doing something just because everyone else does it is rarely a good reason for anything. \n\nPeace and good luck!
8885
Being your first is a great priviledge for a man, so just make sure that he deserves it. And you have to be old enough to understand all the possible consequences of a sexual relationship: children, deseases and all that fun stuff. Just don't think that your virginity is something you have to get rid of until a sertain age or else...