why is it so hard to meet a well rounded Christian  African American female in Baltimore City?
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How about your Church? is there a singles group?  Visit other Churches.\nIf it is your desire to marry then there is someone for you.  God fulfills us till that person comes along.\nIt IS hard to find good Christians male or female but do not settle for less.\nAs you are in a big City, it should have many churches with single/single parent groups.
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You've been meeting the wrong kind of women--materialistic bimbos. Not all of us are like that. I hope you find the right one. Good luck.
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i cano often be found at church.  im only 22, but hey, age is just a number.  seriously though, we are a bit harder to find than an average guy.  usually (i know in my case) we are a bit shy.  we don't often hit on girls, we think it rude.  ergo, nice guys finish last.  some of us do respect women, personally i had no choice growing up, having 4 sisters, no brothers until i was 11, and a step dad that i really didnt get along with, it wasnt hard to learn.\n\n\n\nmaybe try lowes, or star nursery.  stay away from wal mart though.  unless you want a good deal on something.  \n\n\ni got you beat on how long its been since a date, too.  i know its not a contest and i probably get the loser award, but im working on 22 1/2 yrs.  also known as "never"
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The truth is that America is not ready for a female president, like they are not ready for a black president.  You have to realize that majority of America is still in the mentality that this country was founded on (White, Christians, Rich Men).  If you live in a major city, you have more diversity.  But most of America is not like that...its made of small towns and ideologies of generations upon generations (women belong in the home or "to know her place").  It will take time before America can accept full DIVERSITY....until that time we as a people have to fight for these things.
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I would date a black girl. To be honest (and attempting not to be Micheal Richards) the majority of the black culture is very unappealing to me. However, I've known a handful of black people that I can get along with and hang out with. So if I found a compatible match then it wouldn't bother me.
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Wow that's a bit "abnormal" for a pastor... \n\nIf that dosn't settle with you, then by all means find a church you are overall comfortable in!\n\nSimply put!
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i am an educated black woman and can not stand thuggish men.  they are disgusting to me and we have nothing in common.  i disagree w/your statement and think most (educated and classy)sistas like brothas w/class and education. you may just be focusing on a few examples of nice black woman w/thug wannabes. you may just be meeting the wrong type of women and going to the wrong kick it spots.
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I've relocated several times and the one reliable place to meet good people is at church functions.  Especially when they have a fundraiser, volunteer to help out in any way you can.  It's a great way to meet people.
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It's hard to answer this question without getting to know you. Maybe you have to just talk more to different girls and get involved with different people in environments you wouldn't normally go near eg; church, charity organisations, sporting clubs, shopping malls whatever gets you out of your rut.
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No, but I don't think its easier either.  It's hard for everyone to find someone who's physically attractive, mentally stable, compatible perosonality wise, and for the mothers accepting of your children.  But that's why you date, and hopefully have fun, before you meet that special person!!
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Maybe there's something in your aura that turns black women off.  Or maybe more and more black women are have decided to broaden their horizons and not all of them are looking for a black man.  You ever figure that maybe some black women just aren't interested?
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Oh, no, don't try chat rooms! I'm begging you - I can tell you very bad experiences about that. How large is the town in which you live? Is there a gay community center? They often have singles groups. Is there an MCC church? Even if you are not a religious person they may have activities in which you could participate or opportunities to volunteer. Volunteering on any lesbian related project is always good. Do you like sports? That can be a good way to meet girls, too. (And if you are a terrible athlete, like me, remember that they always need a right fielder!) Are you in college? Does your school have a gay alliance? Are you in high school? If there is a gay community center in your town then they might have a youth group. And, yes, Home Depot is always good! (and in Denver so are folk concerts for some reason) And be nice to all the lesbians you meet, even if you're not interested in hooking up. Some one who is way too old and in a couple might have a wonderful friend, niece or daughter.
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Speaking as a Black female I think there is a very strong double standard in our (African-American) culture.  Black men will date a white female in a New York minute, but cry foul the minute they see us with a white or any other man.  We tend to get hassled more by other Blacks for dating outside of our race.  Also, many (not all) white men are raised to appreciate a more Euro centric standard of beauty (blonde hair, blue eyes, big boobs, skinny body, small butt, etc); in spite of the "browning" of America this beauty standard still dominates.   Black females don't fit into that particular beauty standard so I think it's hard for some (again some not all!) white men to see our beauty.  I also think it's hard because of the painful past that Black women have with white men.  When white men do approach us, some of us tend to be suspicious of them.  This is just my opinion for why you don't see more  Black females with white males.  If you're really serious about interracial dating, there are websites that are dedicated to this.
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Yes A F Lamb, there definitely are some left. I was wondering the same about men. You know you get sick of hearing "Whats for you wont pass you by" etc but at the end of the day whatever will be will be. I think its harder to meet male/females now because there is sooooo much competition and sooooo many out there looking for the same. Ive been hurt in the past but you know thats life. You'll find her if you dont you can have me :0) Sunny!
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I was going to ask that too.  They are very rare, so rare that when you see it it really stands out.  I've dated black women and felt like everyone was watching, and I have a friend in LA that is married to a black woman and after 9 years he says it's always uncomfortable, especially around black men.  I can't say anything about the asian part but that you never seem to see at all.  Believe me, it's not because white men don't find black women attractive either.  I just dunno.
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I don't no why this questions seems to outrage, it seems a normal question to me...\n\nI guess the simple answer as is yes, you can meet dames at church.  Actually, I've hear a lot of ladies say they are on the look out for a man at church - so there you go.  Happy hunting!
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Maybe Maria is finding it very difficult to get a date and maybe you are the right person at the right time. \n\nPlease describe yourself, attach a photograph and your contact details and let me see if I can get her to drive over to your place. :-)