I asked my doctor for a second opinion. Alright, he said, " You're ugly too." Should I be upset?
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No, it´s only an old joke, I would be glad to have a doctor like that, mine it´s just too serious, I think you have a good relationship with your doctor and that´s good, so, why are you complaining for?
466364
YES.  I have always had serious issues with how I look.  No matter how many times people tell me that I look fine, or even good, I always think they are lying to me and just trying to make a fool out of me.  It's not just my body size that bothers me.  It's my hair, my face, wrinkles, nose shape, smile, you name it.  I've done crash diets, workout excessively, put all sorts of chemicals and creams on my face to improve whatever I think is wrong with it this week.  Gone to doctors for various consults to see how much it would cost to 'fix' parts of me.  My husband is at his wits end with me because it will take 2 hours for me to get ready to go out because all I can do is stare in my closet and cry that nothing I have will hide the parts of me that I hate in just the right way.  Living this way is h*ll.  I never realized that I have BDD until recently and I'm honestly not sure what I can do about it because I've heard so many people say, 'yeah, everybody has body issues', but I think my case is a bit more than normal.\nWhat is your case?
528486
get a second opinion.
959183
Don't worry about how you look, but how you feel about it. Would you prefer to know or not? I would rather read them. I am a worse critic of myself than anyone else, so if there is something negative to say, I can do that myself already and am not afraid what others may say or think. \n\nIf you want you can ask your sources what they prefer and follow their wishes.
1110088
Yes i have, and i asked to be assigned to another doctor, which worked out great. How else am i suppose to know if I'm healthy or not, if i can't understand what the doctor is saying?
543893
I wouldnt care how you looked,coz your personality shines through more :)
438852
It's pretty sad when you're the one saying you're ugly..... the only thing left is to be slutty I guess.... good luck with that.
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I'm so confused.  You "know" a female who has ugly legs.  She's not you friend---just an acquaintance?  \n\nI have a question for you:  What if you worked around a person who had only one leg?  Would that also cause you distress?\n\nWhat if you worked around a person who was blind or deaf?  Would that cause you distress?\n\nI'm sorry not everyone in the world is beautiful enough to ease your day.  Heaven knows, the universe absolutely must revolve around you!!!\n\nMaybe God is putting that person in your path so you can learn compassion, understanding, and maybe help you mature a bit out of this superficial, selfish, and unkind phase you're going through.\n\nI hope so.......because the lady's legs you think are so ugly, are not have as distressing as your attitude towards her.
545248
Get a second opinion.
876989
You're not ugly.\nF*ck that B**ch!
576085
If that's your picture, I'd say that you are anything but ugly!\n\nHot is more like it!
626229
Like anything else, you have to sort through the crap and pick out the best answers.  Ever heard of a second opinion from a physician?  It is sad when you really have a legitimate question and you get a bunch of wise-ass answers, let alone answered with correct spelling.  I hear you, sympathize with you, and will do my best not to answer with some sort of a joke.
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Ew...that's awful!  Your height and weight are pretty average in actuality.  Okay, so you aren't a skinny, boney model, but who is?!  If he's being mean about it, he obviously doesn't care about your feelings.  He only cares about what you look like.  Try talking with him at first.  But if that doesn't work, leave him.  There are plenty of guys out there that will think you're beautiful, even if you gained another 20 lbs.  No reason to stay with someone who makes you feel bad, especially over something as superficial as weight.  Stay true to yourself and good luck!
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Personally, I'd want to slap him the next time I saw him(don't do that though,seriously), but instead you should make him say he's sorry. If he starts being a jerk, ask him why he went out with you if he thought you were ugly. By the way, I'm sorry he said that to you. That would hurt. I hope you cheer up.
237725
i dont think u should be. who cares if people make fun of u? and if they dont like u for what u look like then screew them! and they cant just judge people like that. ppl can be so mean!
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if it really bothers you so much you should consider getting braces . or just deal with it I'm sure you are a beautiful person inside and out it isn't all about looks all the time.
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This is your body and I feel it should look beautiful if you can maintain a good curvaceous figure, as you put it. I think you sound gorgeous !!!!! Keep it up. If others have a problem with your fine and graceful body then they seem to be jealous or perhaps, envious.\n\nDo not bother about their views since it is your body and you have it great.\n\nBest of everything for you in your life.\n\nabnash25@yahoo.com