I like to date different men and not one in particular, why do these men have a problem with this?
453109
Because most guys feel the same way as YOU do but once they find out YOU dont want a committment all of a sudden they want what they cant have!!!!!  its just like us women- I go in a sotre with $50 and I see a sweater thats $40 and another one for $60 I automatically like the one I dont have enough money for!  LOL  They just find it as a challenge to their manhood and cant figure you out so its throwing them off!
753204
Why not being honest about this when you meet a man and tell him that you have a problem with this. If he knows about your problem then he may be understanding (if he is a good guy) and call YOU instead.\nI am talking by experience.
848257
Nope, they're are just broadening their horizons like everyone else.  Some who have been hurt by black women turn to not just white women but other races also.  It's the same on why some black women date white men or others.  For some it's a preference to date outside their race but others it might be curiosity.  I've dated other races besides black men and it's not a preference, it's an opportunity to sample the appetizers.  Why have one kind when there is so many varieties?
805745
Bi sexual men do not all have the same taste.
128896
This is a curious topic really. Men ponder the same thing and feel the same way. Most would rather be with “someone” then the right person. I believe that the big issue is that people seem to forget that dating is when you should be getting to know that potential person better. Too many people seem to take on dating like it is a commitment. The only time it should become a commitment is when each person makes that conscience (and verbal) decision with one another.\n\nOne big pitfall that I have found though… everyone changes with time. Some change for the better, some for the worse. It takes a lot of work to keep any relationship working and requires the willingness of both parties. If one is “out to lunch” there is little hope.\n\nHope this isn’t too opinionated but if so, remember it's just mine ;)\n~CLO
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Because we all have different interest, if both of you agreed all the time about everything you wouldn't want to be around each other.\n\nHe has the right to not be interested in some things that you think are serious, and you have the right to have the same reaction to things you really don't have an opinion on about things he cares about.\n\nBut if you decide that there are a few requirements to the person you date, like he has to care about treating his family with respect at all times,( even if they don't return the respect) or care about the rain forest, etc. BUT don't beat the guy up about not having those concerns, just decide to move on with someone else that has your same goals in those areas, or accept that the other things you two have in common are enough.
740457
I'm like you.\n\nAll men are different.
842105
I am the opposite and had a friend like you say, some guys aren't picky and liked us both equally!
600935
Why is this in the singles & dating catagory? \n\nI am guessing you do not date that often.
928074
Well each guy is different. THere could be a vareity of reasons. BUt if they act like that all the timne it is probably best to stear clear of them.
286384
word to the wise, don't even try.  If you come between two men you will cause problems and one or both of them will eventually resent or hate you.\n\nMake it easy for them date both of them at the same time.
788793
Some women desire men that aren't available to them for whatever reason.  It's silly actually, but there are many women and men that use the practice of only dating married people.
680935
Is the same reason why women think that they should have more than one men. But not all men/women are like that. Most would settle with one who they think is the right person for them. The usual reason I hear about not settling with one is because they see a little something from each individual or they are treading the water coz they dont know who to choose.
1151894
Some do and some do not.  It is just the preference of the guy.
941493
Your hurt is very understandable.You can't allways know what the other person is doing in a relationship and this is where trust comes in.We all want to trust someone and not have to think about what may happen if they do go astray.Not all men are this way.Some of us would love to meet someone that feels the same way and would respect a bond between 2 people.Maybe you are attracting this type of person.Look at where you have met these men and see if there is any connection as to the locations.I'm not suggesting that you hang out in the wrong places but maybe the men you meet are there for the purpose of finding women.Just a thought.
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LOL.  You answered your own question.  If they keep choosing to date those kind of guys, then all the guys they date are going to be the same.  It's not rocket-science.  As for the complaining part, they haven't reached the point yet where they realize that the choices they're making are what's causing the problem.  A lot of them never figure it out, too.
799015
That would be very unfair if women put ALL men in the same category. Each person is an individual... I have had my years of dating in my past and women and men do not think alike. Woman cry (I still do) and show their feelings more so than a man which does not mean men do not have feelings, most of the time, they don't show it.... My husband now tells me he would rather hold it in than confront me. I am outgoing and verbal, I will say something if it bothers me, definitely considering my husbands feelings, and my husband Mr. Opposite, keeps it to himself....which again, does NOT mean he does not have feelings just that he does not show them........