I have a serious disease, when is it a good time to tell the person you're dating or going to date about it?
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To be fair to the other person, I would tell them as soon as possible so that you are not left wondering what might happen if you start to develop something and it becomes more and more difficult to tell the other person the more involved you get.\n\nEVERYONE deserves to be loved for who they are, and the fact you have a disease doesn't change that. You are a person, not a label - there are people out there who will love you for your personality and who you are, above and beyond the illness. You may well be surprised how compassionate and open-minded people can be.\n\nAnd to add to what Kuraig put up earlier - yes, ok, some people might consider someone who falls in love with a person with a serious disease as being "not in their right mind".\n\nI would consider the person who can see past someones physical health as being the one who deserves your love and affection. Don't give up.
1180105
First thing you tell women is " I've got some type of disease.
1074809
For the most part people are usually pretty accepting about it. I told my boyfriend at the time (now fiance) that I have genital herpes and he was completely understanding about it. Of course he wanted to know if he could get it and how, and how it is treated, etc. So after some long talks he has come to accept it and the fact that someday  he might get it.\n\nI've never had a bad experience when telling someone I was dating that I have genital herpes. They usually just ask a lot of questions. It might be different though for a deadly STD like HIV/AIDS, since I don't have HIV/AIDS, I'm not sure how someone would react if their partner told them they have it.
972293
If it's so obvious, you don't need to tell them, they knew already. Is it your loved one? Prepare some healthy salad for her. Don't worry and in fact you can influence the person by setting a good example. You do the right thing with her, and leave the final decision to her.
1164838
If you don't want to marry her.. Don't be forced into something you don't want to do..\nRegarding your condition..I'm sure you have your reasons for not sharing this with those that love you. This is something you should not be going through alone. If you have a life threatening disease you should really have those that love you involved. Imagine they not knowing, knowing the thought you kept this to yourself. Please allow them to be with you during this time, by having their support may also help you to heal and fight this disease.
99283
No it isn't, at least not to find one who truly cares for you.  I speak from personal experience.  If you are honest and open, and that person truly loves/wants to be with you it won't matter. Even if it is a bit tougher if that person is worth it they will take you as is. I was very nervous about telling my current boyfriend (he was he first one after i was diagnosed with g/h) but he handled it fine. It is alot to take in at first, but we have a very happy & healthy relationship & an AMAZING sex life.  Don't let this hold you back.  It has actually made us closer that he accepted me & my condition. He is the love of my life.  I wish you the best
287685
you need to tell her right now. you need to get proper medical attention.
237885
That's a tough one, all medical records are completely confidential, so finding a person will be difficult,and most people with it probably won't want to talk about it. You might see if there's a national organization associated with the disease and contact them. They would probably have a spokesperson and ,maybe even ,people available to talk to you about it or, at least, give you information.
282762
Never, but never, beat around the bush!  If you don't care for the guy as a date, tell him so.  If you don't, complications could arise at a later time, and you don't want that. And, don't tell the guy, "hey, I don't care to date you, but we can be friends".  That could burn his ego up so fast it would feel like a 20 lb hammer falling on his foot, or heart.  Just tell him like it is, "sorry but we're not each others "type".  "Like blood, your A+ and I'm AB- they just don't match! - sorry!"  I wonder how you know he "loves" you?  He already told you so?  Don't believe others rumors or guesses, they can be wrong, and you wouldn't want to embarrass yourself assuming he does love you, if in actuality he doesn't.
255128
It's just not worth it to live in your own pain or wait for a miracle to happen. Try to do other things to keep your mind off that person but don't start dating until you're actually ready to move on.
47241
Putting everything into perspective.  Find people that can relate to your situation and talk to those around you about your/their feelings.  Realize that what happens is not in your control.  But the way you respond to illness is up to you.  Try to be loving and caring when things are hard, but remember to be aware of the good times that come around.  Don't let any negativity overtake positive moments.
96136
You could tell him/her that since your previous conversation about dating a coworker, you've had a change of heart. Really, what can he/she do? I've found that it's always best to tell one how you truly feel (in a nice way, of course, if you're upset about something) rather than hold it in. He/she can either accept the invitation to date or decline the invitation to date. Either way, whatever doesn't kill you only makes you stronger, right? I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers, love. God bless you!\n\nHope that helped!
729275
I dunno but I think I'd consider dropping him.  You don't want Hep. B, I assure you.  I'd rather have HIV.  Hep. B is a terminal disease and you need to avoid it at all costs.  So while he's still your "boyfriend", drop him.
676712
Just be firm but kind and get it over with. It appears he already knows or has a pretty good idea it's coming. The whole point of dating is to find the person you have the most simpatico with. Just don't use the line, "We can still be friends."
1100397
Why do you need to tell them?  If it doesnt impact your interactions with your friends, there's no reason why they need any explanation.  You should consider keeping your medical problems confidential - just between you and your doctor.  Good luck.
890568
I think you should tell your friends. You need their support. Most friends would want to be there for their friends and help. I would be upset to hear a friend was really sick and didn't tell me.
166455
When you feel its right. Not on the first date and make sure you know their sexual history and that they are disease free.