Help! I'm worried about my boyfriend!?
448611
Maybe stop helping so much, just be supportive, and let him know you are available if he wants help or just to talk to. Maybe he is intimidated by the fact that you are so successful in school, while he struggles. Give him some space.He may not feel comfortable accepting help from you.\nAnyway, good luck!
141568
Looking at this and all the other questions you have about your boyfriend leads me to believe that he is not the one with the problem.\n\nYou say you are living with your boyfriend, which leads me to believe that you are at least eighteen years old, but your lack of self-esteem and your dependence makes you seem quite a bit younger than that.\n\nYou may be pushing him away with your insecurities.  Men like independent, self-assured women who are confident in their own looks and personality.  Women who constantly compare themselves to other girls around them, who worry about their boyfriends' every glance at someone else - these women make men want to run and hide.\n\nYou can't change the past.  Worrying about it and snooping around won't come to anything good.  Sit down and talk to your boyfriend about *your* problem (insecurity) and tell him that you want to fix it but that you will need his help, patience and understanding.  Then do some sincere work on just letting go of the past, and building up some confidence in yourself.\n\nIt's not easy but you'll be way better off in the long run.
591018
No, your concerns are gunuine..  Your boyfriend might already have an addiction...  Talk to him and let him know your concerns, especially for his health.  If he does not want to make a change, then let him go...  YOU CAN'T HELP THOSE WHO WON'T HELP THEMSELVES...\n\nMy boyfriend used to drink  a lot when he was younger, now he has a liver disease and only has a certain amount of time to live..\n\nYou care for him, but he has to care for himself before he can care and make a change for someone else...  I'm not saying don't be there for him as a friend, if he needs it, but don't waist your time either on something and someone that you know is only going to be a road of heartache...\n\nThe Lord in time will bless you with someone special...\n\nGOOD LUCK!
260825
you need to let him know that him checking out other gurks makes you feel insecure.he is a man he know no better. but he needs you to let him know what bothers you. i truly think he does love you. i dont think he tries to upset you, but he probably doesnt know he is hurting you. you need to let him know that you do so much for him and in the end it feels like he is disrespecting you and doesnt appericate what you do for your relationship. after you talk with him face to face im sure things will get better for you two, if he truly cares. just dont let him keep treating you bad because he will take it for vantage.\ni hope things work out for you hun and hope i hope my advice worked for your relationship.
477906
Okay, forget what you should do this weekend. Wondering whether or not you should hang out with your girls isn't what you should be worried about. If your boyfriend is violent then you need to get out of that relationship. There is no excuse for a man to lay a hand on you. Tell someone you trust what's happening. Break up with this guy. Keep someone around you at all times in case he tries something. If there's physical evidence then go to the police. Just get out before it's too late and you end up in a hospital or ditch somewhere.
582101
alright gurl i am 17 so i kinda know what your going through...just sit down and talk to him .... don't like just all of the sudden tell him its over ... talk to him and tell him that your concerned about ya'lls relationship tell him that you feel like its going down the drain.. try to work things out and if he doesn't straighten up then break it off with him ... good luck!!!
774156
worrying will do nothing. it sounds as if it is a done deal. if it is - roll with it (you have no choice) just pay a lot of attention to what happens after he gets back.
239963
Don`t worry because I have the same problem with my boyfriend. I`m also glad that you believe him. You should just try to not get all that jealous. Its actually good that your jealous because you care for him and don`t want to lose him.
938888
It sounds like you have a really great guy there but the relationship is too intense. Tell him that you are feeling uncomfortable because you aren't ready for such a serious relationship. He needs to back down a bit. Good luck. I hope you can make it work.
507006
The question is---why is he your boyfriend if you have to worry about getting along with him?  It should come natural.
938920
Your boyfriend is so under the thumb, it's a wonder you don't suffocate him.  Just lighten up, if he is Mr Right then you won't have a need to be so paranoid.
148875
You should be able to tell him!....if not then something is wrong in your relationship....if he wont listen to you then obviously he isnt right for you or good enough....try to talk to him again....things will turn out ok in the end!..dont worry! :)
276096
If you're scared, you need to tell your boyfriend.  It could be your body's way of telling you that you're not ready just yet.  It's okay to be nervous and scared.
285427
tell this very openly to ur bf...let him know abt ur feelings or else kick his ass and just walk off coz he is always concerned abt himself.
478441
TELL HIM TO CHILL OUT. IF YOU WANTED A BODYGAURD IT WOULDN'T BE YOUR BOYFRIEND.
181367
I have the same problem, ive been hurt by friends and family and i STILL think up conspiracy theories. Talking with him will help some, but the change has to be WITHIN you, the only thing he can do is make his life a little more open for you. I try to be as open and honest with my GF as possible, that way she can trust me more, also i tell her where ive been and she even knows my E mail password. She knows who is on my buddy list and who ive called. I do all of this so that there WONT be trust issues in our relationship. BUT she could still be paranoid, so she has to just admit to herself, that if im cheating on her, then it DOESENT MATTER, she will just break up with me and move on, or if i truly repent then fix the problem and continue the relationship. But you HAVE to let it go, go out on a limb and put yourself out there. once you say it doesent matter, and you have "let that person go" then that takes away any walls that were in your relationship before.
23732
First off, give him a breather, get off his case.  then in a couple days (and don't sulk) tell him he is the love of your life and so you have a good long term relationship there are some things you both need to discuss together, not A question and answer , a discussion, start with saying that you have some concerns, don't be acussatory. No one listens well when they are being accused of something.  Waituntil he seems comfortable to discuss the things you are worried about.  If he is the love of your life/soulmate, it is worth putting some extraordinary effort on your part, then to let your relationship unravel over fear