my best friend has a boyfriend thats a jerk to her what should i do?
439240
Does she realize he's a jerk to her, but won't leave him anyway?  Or is she oblivious to how he treats her?
577114
How old are you? I get the feelin that you're not that mature. Your BEST FRIEND broke up with her boyfriend and youre already  in the line to get him? C'mon, you're kidding. Of course she's mad at you! Don't go out with him if you wanna keep this girl as your friend. Haven't you heard; guys come and go, friends are forever.
718278
Your friend was jelous that you had a boyfriend and she probably didn't have one at the same time you did. She was jelous that you'd hang out with your boyfriend more than her so she's hurt that you'd choose your boyfriend over her. You should tell her that you still want to be friends with her. If she does ignore you, you tried.
358341
he is only talking bad about you because he is fighting for time with his girlfriend, and you are always around.  Maybe you should give them some space.  Tell you girlfriend that you don't feel comfortable around him because he's hateful and put the ball in her court.  If she's a true friend, then she will explain to him that his behavior is unacceptable.  If she chooses her boyfriend over you, and can't seem to find a compromises between you two, then you should find someone else to hang around with.
438586
First of all, your friend is really petty. She should be mad at your mother for calling her a liar, but if she is one, then she just is one. No need to front, but she is not a worthy friend, she seems trashy. I don't care, don't ever talk to your friend's guy. Even if you are not together anymore, that's just the rule. I don't know if you guys were together, but it still applies, don't go after guys your friends like. I have always felt that anyone who would stab their friend in the back like that doesn't deserve to remain friends with the person. End your friendship, if she is doing stuff like this now, imagine down the line, when the guy is your boyfriend, fiance, or husband. What is she going to do when she gets mad at you then, sleep with them to get back at you for a petty argument. Also the guy, you should not even care about him either. He is suppose to be hooking up with you, but hooks up with your friend, knowing how you feel about him, let them be together, they deserve each other. You'll find someone else, but definitely don't remain friends with the girl, she seems very devious.
437147
Here is a defining moment in your life.. \nPut yourself in your friends shoes.. as exciting as it may be to be you right now.. \nHOW would you feel if the sitch was reversed.. NOT too fun to get screwed over by your best friend and boyfriend.. \nDO you become a good person, and decide your BEST friend is more important to you then a guy.. \nOR do you become a beotch (sorry, but that is what you would be) and take your best friends man with no regard for her, or her feelings.. I'm saying.. That would be pretty fu**cked up on your part.. (actually what you're doing right now is pretty f**ked up in itself.. just plotting )to do it.. YOU should be more of a friend then that.. And just remember Karma is a beotch, and who's to say he wont leave you for one of your friends.. ?
108747
Is your best friend male or female.\n\nIf it's a male and not gay, your boyfriend does not understand your realtionship with your male friend, you need to break it down for him. Make him feel less ensure about you relationship with him.\n\nIf your best friend is a female, he may sincerely not like her attitude of ways. Try to convince him that she does not mean to offend him. That is the way she is with every one unless she is seeing something that you don't. \nPlease tell him not to make you chose between a friend you have known for years and him who you like a lot.\n\nTell him you are only trying to make the two people that you really care about to be able to tolerate each other. \n\nDon't make it a habit of inviting your friend with you all the time. You will give your boyfriend the wrong impression.
361974
Talk to your friend and tell her he deserves better, he deserves you. But try not to cause too big of a fight.
483833
If u think she likes them more than u why are you best friends with her? also if u know your boyfriend is bad why don't u get rid of him? In fact get rid of them both and you'll probably feel a lot better!x
703841
your best friend is a bitch, thats whats goin on
1102523
well there is no doubt that if she is really messing with this guy, she doesnt deserve your friendship, so 4get about her because she is not being loyal and sincere. but most importantly, forget about the guy! i cant believe he is doing this with your bestfriend when he knows you like him!
628687
If I found out they were dating behind my back, I would dump BOTH of them, not 1. Just to make the process more efficient! :)\n\nCheer up, sh..t happens, you know.\n\nGet a new best friend, and a get a new boyfriend, too.\nHarsh to say, but this may be the only clean way out of this mess. \n\nDon't torture yourself... but defend yourself, as much as you can. Don't let your self-esteem go down beause of the two pigeons.
1074895
I understand that you are merely trying to protect your bestfriend and make him realize that she's not the right girl for him .... i guess he would be protecting her because he's in love with his girlfriend.  Maybe she was being mean to you because she's jealous about your relationship with her man. Hey, that's human nature... she probably sees you as a threat.  Just let them be, maybe someday he will realize all these .... and mind you, these things don't usually last .... give them a few months :)
351231
Don't pay attention to your friend. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions. I am sure your friend means well, but don't pay attentio to her. you need to go by what it is that you feel and what your heart is telling. \n\nIf you feel that there is a problem, you should talk to your boyfriend about it.
14222
If youre really into your boyfriend and she's really your best friend...\n\n1. Let her know how much of a betrayal it would be.\n2. Seperate them, if you go out, go out in threes and dont leave them alone.\n3. Let him know whats going on and how important your friendship is with her.
598905
First ask your bff if it okay and if you don't like him talk to her. if you do like him decide which is more important, him or your bff.
734820
the fault is with both of them definitely. but the fault is mostly with your best friend.\n\ncome on! if she was your "best friend" she would Not hit on him. by doing that, she has absolutely no respect for you. if she can do it once, she can do it again. this might not be even the first time. she obviously doesn't treat you as her best friend or she is just too selfish to have anyone in her life apart from herself. you deserve a better friend than her.\n\nand john is definitely at fault too. he was supposed to be with you but he cheated on you with your Best Friend!! he should have some self control. even if he wanted to hook up with your best friend in the first place, he should have the decency to tell you that it is over between the both of you. this is not the kind of guy you would want to spend your time with. the fact that he can cheat on you in your bed speaks volumes of the kind of degenerate person he is.\n\nyou should just shut them out of your life.