i am 7months preg and my bf dumped me.he says he doesnt want 2b with me,but i want 2b with him.what do id do?
444877
what an a$$hole, dont ever get back with him. you can do it on your own, im a single mother, i've been alone since i was 8 months preg. and get him for child support you dont need a boy like that in yours or your childs life. and i say boy, because a real man would not leave his pregnant girlfriend. good luck and be strong, you deserve a real man.
674509
Move on because your "current" is really not a good bf because he is not there for you.  Women always overanalyze these kinds of things when it is soooo simple.  When a guy wants to be with you, he's there and you never have to feel the way you are feeling.
676119
If you love this guy, you should give him a chance. Since he hasn't cheated you, don't push him on something you might regret. You're pregnant, the more you need someone to give you support. think about the baby. just think how much he cares about you and how patient he is whenever you get jealous...
709736
I was in your exact situation.  Seems like the timing is never right, there's always something. Just tell him how you feel, and that you are ready to get this ball rolling.  Don't give him an ultimatum b.c you are right that will just push him away.  But definitely stress on the fact that you aren't getting any younger.
972448
he sounds like bad news. having someone cheat on you is heartbreaking and you should concentrate on your baby instead of his drama.  you deserve better.
284723
Dear girl, Oh my... I wish you had asked for advice 2 years ago; perhaps much of your pain could have been avoided.\n\nYou say you two have NOT been in a committed relationship for over 2 years and you are still with him. WHY are you still in this relationship? He's NOT committed to you and hasn't been for 2 years! Is he sleeping with other women? Are you sleeping w/ other men? Have you even thought about the risk of HIV and AIDS? You two have a child now. And my dear, why did you get pregnant with a man who hasn't been committed to you? You should never have sex with any man who is not committed to you. He gets sex, you get hurt. It happens every time. Unfortunately, you are not the  only one getting hurt; you have made a baby and brought your child into this situation. \n\nDo you two still live together because you have a child, or because it's easier than moving out? Let me ask you, does he support you and your child financially? Are you you paying any of the bills? Are you paying bills for your baby? If your baby's father is not supporting you 100% emotionally AND financially, then you are better off leaving for good, once and for all. I am sorry to say this, but it sounds to me like he may be using this "money issue" as an excuse and he doesn't have the guts to get out of the relationship. Some men can't handle being fathers, especially if they are not in love with the baby's mother. Having a baby brings a couple in love even closer, but couples who are not in love do not get closer after the baby is born.\n\nI wish I could tell you otherwise, but I definitlely think it's time for you both to be grownups. Living the way you both are is not the adult, responsible way to solve this problem. Make an agreement regarding the child's support and visitation and part company amicably. Many women with small children meet other men who do love them and will be committed to them and their child/children. My father met my mother when she was a yound divorcee with a 2 year old and married her and proceeded to have 2 more children with her. They were married 53 years until he passed. There is hope for you to do the same.\n\nIf you are not good with $$$, then take some money management classes (@ a local school, community college, aid center). You will need these skills whether you are on your own or not. \n\nIf you were not honest regarding $$$ with your partner, then I suggest you get to church, temple, etc., and you start being honest with God and yourself. Remember, you have a child you need to be teaching good values to now. If you were honest, then you're okay there, but going to a place to have a relationship with God will still be powerful for you at this time. \n\nYou CAN start a new and better life. Don't give up on yourself, no matter how hard it may be at times!
992419
i'm in the same situation.....i guess the ball is in your court now...play it cool to see what he wants. Then you decide if you wanna be with him or not...he might do it again and break up with you.
415007
Don't go back with him. if you did want a baby then you should get married first. but he'll just do it again and i'm sure that he slept with this girl for more reasons then u think
914867
Ask him where this is going. Just because you have a child with him does not attach you indefinately to someone who doesn't want you completely. If he has a hard time answering you, maybe you need to consider if you'd be better off without him.
461829
Talk it over and be frank about how you're feeling. I do hope you don't talk like you spell. It could be disatrous!!!\n7 months is too short to get so hooked on a guy! God made plenty to go around girl.. get a grip and move on if you are feeling unstable but dont let it hamper all of your other relationships.
305245
he still loves you but the baby is over whellming the both of you for first time parents. i would suggest you to just take a night of leave him with his grandparents and have a night to yourselfs to just relax and chit- chat.
764821
your situation seems like a very complicated one.. maybe the next time he says that he loves you, you should ask him why u arent together then. i dont think its a good idea to continue to do gf bf stuf with him unless you start dating again. he might be just using u and u really dont want to get deeper than u already are if he is. maybe theres a different reason he broke up with u.. fam? but i dont noe. if i loved someone else i dont think i would be able to date another person at the same time.
2484
Personally, I would say no.  He sounds like he does not know what he wants, or worse, like he was waiting to see what would happen with her before he moved on to you.  And you should never accept being someone's second choice.
929725
I think you may have left something out, here...\n\nUnless you're really shallow, you won't dump him just because he had a child with someone else before he met you.  Now, if he lied to you about the kid or the baby's mother, that's something different!\n\nMake sure that whatever decision you make is based on HIM and your relationship with HIM, not on the simple fact that a baby is now also involved.
616650
He is using you. If he left you while you were pregnant then he is a looser. Then he just wants to have sex. He is just using you until he finds someone else don't put your self in that mess with him. You feel guilty because you have his child. Don't be that girl.
1058388
Why should you wait?  He is not waiting, I am sure.  Give him all the space he needs and move on.  You don't need this kind of turmoil.
588833
HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU!!!!!!   and there is nothing wrong with you!!!!  I'm sorry if this will hit you hard, but from what you are saying something is definetly wrong with this guy, and he is just using you!!   If he is telling you to get away, then you may need to make some Big changes with yourself and your baby