What is the best thing to do when you feel alone?
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It might sound corny, but I always lie down and listen to music with headphones on. Always seems to cheer me up if I can find lyrics that really connect with how I feel.\n\nBut if you want a better but less immediate solution, go out to meet new people, make new friends. But don't let yourself be desperate and befriend a bad crowd. Be smart about it. You can even find friends online in chat rooms (the Yahoo chat rooms on messenger used to work for me) or if you're a teen, teenspot.com is really cool. Just let yourself be heard and don't be too shy! Friends are anywhere, sometimes where you'd least expect them. Just gotta keep your eyes open! =)
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Lonely is a state of feeling unaccepted. You can be lonely on a crowded bus. If you find self acceptance, you can be alone and not feel lonely at all. \n\nGet to know yourself. Talk to your mate and find out what they're thinking about your relationship. Maybe they're sitting over there wondering how they can be closer to you. Maybe they're just lost and confused.\n\nFigure out who you are and what you want. Take steps to interact with people on a deep level. Smile and say hello to everyone you see. Find activities you enjoy and go do them. Choose to say goodbye to lonely.
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Everyone i guess, always gets the feeling of being lonesome. It usually happens when you tend to act on your own and it seem that you don't wanna trust outside. You lock yourself in your own world. TRY TO OPEN UP TO LIFE; TO THE WORLD itself.Celebrate life at the moment, by seeing the presence of others. Once you do this , you will find people around you who accept you, recognizes you and loves you just the way you are.
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1) Go to the art gallery and wonder around aimlessly, being absorbed in the mystery of objects that can be interpreted any way you like. \n\n2) Take up a community course on cooking or dancing (you're bound to meet some nice available girl), or languages if you're interested. \n\n3) Go to the gym or do some other sport that takes your mind out and gives you a good workout at the same time. You'll feel much better afterwards.
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give yourself time for yourself.  take time make friends,  relax.
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Do you feel like there is something missing in your life? Odd to answer a question with a question, but think about it. Yes you have friends and family around you that care for and love you. But is there that ONE person, or even just some one a little extra special? You could also just b going through a really tough time right now. And I know that nothing can suck more than having a bad day and coming home to an empty house(and cats don't count as some one to come home to.) If you want to stop feeling alone then don't be alone. Surround yourself with fun and up lifting people. Do a girls night, don't eat alone and don't keep to yourself. You're feeling down, so tell those people who care and I promise they will help. Who know you better than the people that you love and care for? So it's those people who could probably offer the most help and support in a down time for you. We all have those times when we're feeling down, so you're never alone when it comes to feeling down.
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do something during your free time. have fun with friends, read books, go shopping, listen to music, watch movies (not alone of course), try to learn something new (an instrument or maybe a sport), exercise, join clubs and meet new people.. and the list goes on..\n\nexplore. there's more to life...\n\noh, if you feel depressed or something, try writing it down. trust me, it helps. makes you stronger =)
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My suggestion to you is tht take part in activities,being lonely & just thinking abt it will not help u in anyway so make frnds or if u have c tht u meet them daily for somtime go for gym or look out for job or activity tht keeps u busy all the day.Try to b active go for morning walks or play interesting game or u have sister sit down with her & discuss this she also may b in a state to help u to deal with it. U r not deep in relation with people tht is not a justified reason for u to b depress . try to understand tht there is time & situation for every thing to happen u will get things but b bold to face everything
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I would say try to focus on another goal....like exercise or school...just to take your mind off the loneliness.  I recently had my heartbroken...and it was HORRIBLE, I had school to keep me busy and tried to workout, but in the back of my mind I couldn't stop thinking about how much its sucked to be alone.\n\nSo look at yourself in the mirror and just think...GOD I AM GORGEOUS...and put a cute outfit that you have no business wearing..(like something usually reserved for a special occasion.)  Wear crazy earrings and your favorite perfume.  Keep your 23 suitors on hold, thats what guys do, they play the odds...your a woman, you take the pickens and don't settle.\n\nAll these jerks answering your quesiton are terds looking for points most likely....I genuinely hope that you feel better, just because I know how you feel.\n\nGood luck girl, just be confident and strut around like a supermodel...it will make you feel better.
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Get out and meet some new people. Take a class, join a club, try a new hobby, join a gym, etc...\nAnything to help take your mind off your troubles.
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Go to bed and try to sleep it off\n\nRead a book...escape into someone else's life for a little while\n\nCall a friend \n\nGo to a Dollar store and but myself something\n\nListen to music\n\nJournal---write my feelings down
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Take a deep breath.  Take several deep breaths.\n\nWhere in the past have been good places for you to go and just enjoy yourself?  Do you even let yourself enjoy some time every day?  How do you take care of you?\n\nThink about something you like to do, something you liked to do as a child.  Something just feels good to you, that no one can criticize or take away from you.\n\nLet someone else deal with all the problems.  You need some time to take care of yourself.  What do you like?  What are the good things in your day?  What's your favorite color, your favorite food, favorite smell, happiest moment?  Do you even know?\n\nTake some time for yourself.  Breathe deeply from your stomach.  Read some feel-good books, like All Things Great and Small by James Herriot.\n\nTalk to someone who cares about you.  Give yourself a chance to be held and comforted.  You deserve it.
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Maybe you can start a journal or watch some fun comedys. Or even read some good magazines,I hope you start to feel better, also you can listen to your favorite music cds. I hope I helped.
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Breathe.\nPray.\nMeditate.\nCount your blessings.\nHope for sunshine. Sunlight always makes a better mood.\n\nDon't forget to have hope! When you're completely down, it can only get better. Think back on the good times before this happened, and don't let it get too much in the way of life.
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The best way to get over being lonely is to get out of the house. If you don't have money, go to the library. Read a book, the newspaper, something. Or go "people watch" at the park.........Just get out of the house! Go get an ice cream.  Call a friend! Good Luck with the loneliness. Tomorrow's gonna be a better day for you!!
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take up reading, doing crafts is a good time passer\n\nget a computer, you can learn, play, chat or a million other things on-line.\n\nI know it is hard.  I have a friend who is in a similar situation, for that matter I have been there myself.  I know it can be hard when most of your old friends are married with kids etc and you feel so isolated.  When I was alone and basically broke I tried to just stay busy with something.  Get a pet, they are good company too.\n\nOh yeah....\n\nDon't pay any attention to some of the people who are answering with mean stuff.... they just don't have any understanding of your question, some people can't help but be a@#holes.  \n\nI don't think they understand what you mean when you say you are on SSI.  Some of us do.  I realize that you can't go out and get a job.  There are still many things you can do as hobbies etc.
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I'll always reward myself with little present, spend myself to watch moving "egg: funny movie, meaning full movie", get a close friend go traveling...etc. but what important is yourself must think positively, make yourself happy, do the thing that can make yourself happy. if you can switch your mood positively. go to find a good book to "clean" your sad & lonly heart. Be happy, coz there r still someone care about you.