how do you make your not-so-nice girlfriend be nice?
441364
You dump her. =D\n\nSeriously? That actually might help. If she's "not so nice", then does she deserve you? Are you bothered by her actions?
1181125
Do everything in your power to be extra nice.  For example if I am working, and you are bringing me my favourite beverage and food, massaging my back, maybe kissing a bit, but not stopping me, or saying anything about how much you want me to pay attention to you, I am much more likely to actually do it then if I am either being forced to do it or if you just show up naked(that is that method can wear thin quickly if it is used too much).  Being a great girlfriend never gets old.
908334
You can share your feedback with your girlfriend. Her reaction will tell you if she is receptive to feedback & whether she would be willing to change. If she is offended by your remarks or gets angry take a cue & move out.
122355
ENJOY IT.\n\nI spent 20 years being "nice guy" on the outside, too. It just gets you used.\n\nJust make sure when you go "rude", that it's by being funny, and not cruel. Besides, whether they admit it or not, chicks *REALLY* like that; even more than they realize.
562707
She is not nice. WWJD?
453354
Try and talk to him. tell him that you don't like it when you guys fight and it really bugs you.Also, you can just avoid him or try and count to 10 and start being nice to him.
1987
The truth is this, there is no way to satisfy your girlfriend, or anyone, for that matter.  Men and women, it seems, have this belief that they can "please" each other or "make" each other happy.  It is a nice thought, but it doesn't really happen that way.  Think about this, you are upset and your friend tells you a joke that makes you feel better...right?  Wrong.  You chose to feel better by seeing the humor in the joke and allowed yourself to open up enough to be influenced by the humor, losing your grip on those negative thoughts and feelings you had previously.  It is the same with women, in this case, your girlfriend.  \n\nYou can't satisfy her, but there is something you can do to improve the situation.  First start with you, being the best person you can be...to yourself, to others, and to her.  Be confident, be yourself, be all the things you want to be when fear and self-consiousness set in, and be true to who you are.  Then be selfless, helpful, caring, compassionate, diligent, and patient with those around you.  As for your girlfriend, you should follow your heart, care for her, give her yourself, be WITH her when you are around her, share, be thoughtful and kind, and show her that you care.  Although you cannot "force" or "make" her do anything, you can still be the best person possible, making each day you live worth living, making yourself a person of value, and creating a certain magic in your life.  All of these things will not only draw better people to you in your life, but your girlfriend will be more "open" to your influenc and "willing" to share whatever you wish with you.  \n\nA last note.  Women "feel" rather than "think" their ways into better relationships.  Men are mostly the other way.  If you love her and care for her, you should take the risk and tell her what is in your heart as often as you can, show her what you feel without the "act", and do for her what you would want done for yourself.  The best advice in any relationship, including the one you have with yourself, is this: "If you don't want people to treat you like an @ssho!e, then don't act like one".....in your case it would sound more like this "If you want to satisfy her, then let her satisfy you".  Do all the things to her that you want her to do to you (or have done to you, if you are content in the relationship).  Relationships are a balance, and if yours needs some adjustment, then make those adjustments.  Don't worry if you think you are working too hard, when she realizes what you are doing, she will be more than willing to do her part as well (if she is right for you, that is....and doing this will give you a good indicator if she is or isn't "the one"....)\n\nI hope this helped.  Good luck!
255484
best thing you can do is be nice ot her.\n\ntreat her with undeserved kindness. pretend like she is a nice and good person and treat her that way.
1157943
Make her a list of things she should do. Make a list for yourself of things to do too. Try to be fair with the amount of work. Post up the lists to remind her. Make sure she doesn't tear down the lists. Just do your lissted chores and leave her share of chores to her and don't do them. Be firm. Loving someone doesn't mean being weak, spoiling them or being a pushover. If you don't put down your foot on this matter, she will climb over your head on other matters too. Show her your leadership position and that you mean what you say. If she doesn't want to cooperate, use "tough love" , ie don't cooperate with her in things she wants you to do as a retaliation.  If she is really incorrigible, dump her.
912134
Be sure you are dressed properly for the occasion - find out which restuarant and what their dress code is.  Make sure your clothes are clean and ironed and your hair is combed - I know this sounds very lame but it means ALOT do parents that you present well.  It really does help them get a good impression to base your relationship.  Be polite - shake hands with the man and the woman - if she puts her hand out first.  Rise when one of the females does at the table.  Seat your girlfriend when you get there and her mom too if it's feasible.  Pick up your fork to eat after they do.  Make sure to put the napkin in your lap once you are seated.  Don't do alot of physical contact with your girlfriend.  This is an important beginning.  You can hold her hand but not kiss her in front of them.  Not yet.  Ask them questions, too - about where they live, what your girlfriend was like as a child, vacations they have been on, etc.  Answer all their questions politely and honestly.  And if THEY should be unkind or rude - just go with it for your girlfriend's sake.  Shake hands again when you say good bye and walk them to their car so you can open the door for the mom.  Try not to be nervous.  I wish you alot of luck - and I must say I'm glad I don't have to go thru something like that again! :)  I knowit's not easy!
424894
The problem isn't being nice, popular or helpful.  The problem is expecting a girl would drop by and become your girlfriend. \nYou have good qualities, just find the one girl and be extra nice to her and treat her special. Take the leap and get the girl of your dreams.
290390
Just be nice. Tell her you have a girlfriend or think she is really nice, but this isnt a good time for you to go out with people right now.\n\nDont be mean to her!!
111273
Tell her that you don't love her and that she needs to stop harrassing you.
533605
There are many ways of showing her you care, by seeing what she likes, enjoyes and show her that you also enjoy her likes and dislikes. Good Luck
671027
Listen to her and remember what she likes. Then use the information she gave you on what she likes and be creative with it. Example: I love milk. My boyfriend buys me milk every time I come over to his house. He makes sure that he has milk before I get there. \nShow her that your interested in her. Don't call her beautiful or hot, call her pretty or gorgeous. Perhaps lovely. \nShow her how much you care for her.\nGive her pet names.\nBuy her flowers.\nBe romantic.
879704
Just explain that sometimes you would like to do it a bit gentler. Do it her way sometimes and your way other times.
939331
I have just copied and pasted this from my friends website, thought it would help-\n\n1 . Tell her she is beautiful (not hot, fine, or sexy)\n*2 . Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its just for a second.\n*3 . Kiss her on the forehead.\n*4 . Leave her voice messages to wake up to.\n*5 . Always tell her you like her every second of the day.\n*6 . When she is upset, hold her tight and tell her how much she means to you.\n*7 . Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.\n*8 . Sing to her no matter how horrible your voice is.\n*9 . Pick her over all the other girls you hang out with.\n*10 . Write her notes. (she loves them)\n*11 . Introduce her to family and friends . . . as your girlfriend.\n*12 . Play with her hair.\n*13 . Pick her up, tickle her, and play-wrestle with her.\n*14 . Sit in the park and just talk to her.\n*15 . Tell her funny jokes, tell her stupid jokes, or just tell her jokes.\n*16 . Throw pebbles at her window in the middle of the night . . . just because you missed her.\n*17 . Let her fall asleep in your arms.\n*18. Carve your names into a tree.\n*19 . If she's mad at you, kiss her.\n*20 . Give her piggyback rides.\n*21 . Bring her flowers just because.\n*22 . Treat her the same around your friends as you do when your alone.\n*23 . Look her in the eyes and smile.\n*24 . Let her take as many pictures of you as she wants.\n*25 . Slow dance with her, even if there isn't any music playing.\n*26 . Kiss her in the rain.\n*27 . If your in love with her . . . tell her.