Why is it so hard to find love these days?
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Because school dont teach the students to love and respect each other. Today's significate of love means money, power, external beauty, SEX. To find love we should start by loving ourselves the way we are, not with plastic surgery or tattoos. Most of the people now is more atracted to the look and not to the feelings of a person. It is hard to find the right person to love but i would say it is worth it when you finally succeed. Just never give up and always have hopes. There's a person for every other in this world.
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I dont want to burst your bubble But none can really answer this Question for you.\nPeople Claim to have all the answers to life and your problems. They Dont. The only One who really knows about this is yourself.\nMost people try to hard to find someone to love and live with but you need to understand love will happen when it happens. It will happen maybe not today but it will.\nIf you go out and look for someone Like your a dog in heat sitting in the corner of the bar you will not find her there. You need to be yourself and the right person will see you and like you for yourself.\nI see so many people that worry about this that they forget to live. they wake up get dressed and try to look like a million bucks. and for what? Be yourself Love will find you.\nRemember this also you CANT make someone love you. They will or wont Though you can make someone think they love you but it wont work in the end. \nBe yourself dont say to your self this lady is a nice person but she does not like this and that so im gonna change everything I do. Let her love you for who you are.
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The reason that you aren't finding a good man is because you are looking in the wrong places and it is not your time to be with a man. Give up looking, let go and let God. It is not in your time, but when God wants you to be with someone special.
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It is called coveting... and it is a normal emotion. Why do you feel you can't get a woman? There are millions of women out there just waiting to be noticed. You will never find a mate if don't get out from in front of the computer and mix with the opposite sex... All of us have fears of rejection, but you just have to take the leap and put yourself out there, the risk is worth it. Peace.
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It probaby seems like that now, but it won't always be that way.  The men that you are comming across just aren't the right ones for you right now.  But eventually you will run into the right one who won't leave as soon as you start to love them.
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When you find your soulmate, you will know it.  Keeping them can be a problem IF you don't work at the relationship.  Relationships are not always 50-50.  There are times that they are 20-80, etc.  \n\nMany relationships don't last today because the one or both bail at the first sign of trouble. It is far easier to give up or divorce than it is to work it out.  So many people want everything to be easy and that isn't how it is.  It is a constant give and take that requires love, respect, love, honesty, love, compromise, love and most of all, love.
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Love isn't something that you can go in search of.  You can't make it, or mold it, or force it or find it. It's one of those elusive things that finds you.
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ive wonder the same thing myself. but you have to leave that up to God. im 29 well nearly and i havent had any one in over 3 years. im very lonely. everyone tells me go to Church maybe u will find ur soulmate there. and i beleive there is someone out there for everyone. maybe its not time for you yet. but yes u will find him one day. just pray about it
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It happens, finding the right guy isn't easy, takes a lot of time. It's basically trial and error. I have the same problem with girls, a lot of them are basically the same and boring.
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Maybe you just haven't found the right girl?\n\nKeep looking, she's probably out there. When you're usually lookin' for love, you're not gonna find it. Just enjoy life and someone will come along eventually.
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You sound like you may still be quite young.  If you are, take your time.  Try to relax and enjoy the friends you have.\n\nI think love is hard to find because you are looking for it.  If you don't look so hard, chances are that love will find you.
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Because there is so many road blocks out there that get in your way. It is not supposed to be easy to find your true love. If it was no one would suffer from heartache. You date other people so, you get an idea of what you want from a relationship and what qualities you want from that special one. When you find them, all the trouble will be worth it.
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You just don't need to rush this type of thing.  Love usually happens when you least expect it and when you aren't looking for it. Just concentrate on yourself, living well, and having fun and don't stress over finding someone, and you may just find the person you are looking for.
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People are forever saying 'Where've all the good men (or women) gone?' You'd think there was no-one left! Well it's not true. I know finding Mr - or Mrs - Right isn't easy. But there are ways to improve your chances. In fact romance is no different to any other part of your life. It's up to you to make things happen! So, forget all the myths - most of them are wrong anyway. And take charge of your love life. It may sound unromantic - but it works! \n\nThe thing is, your perfect partner isn't just going to appear out of the blue. I know we all believe in love at first sight. We like to hear stories about how people fall in love. We adore the idea of two people's eyes meeting across a crowded room. I'm not saying it never happens. Just not very often.\n\nMore often a long lasting love starts when you meet someone who shares your interests, respect and friendship. So a strategy for meeting people like that can pay dividends. Just about everyone wants love, but few work towards making it happen. They think it's a matter of luck.\n\nBut actually, luck has only a little to do with it! Do you remember the joke about the man who prayed every week to win the lottery. But nothing happened. Then one day, in the midst of his prayers, there's a huge clap of thunder and a voice boomed: 'How can I possibly help you? First you have to buy a ticket!' Just about everyone dreams of finding a soul-mate. But few plan for success. We just hope for the best. In fact most of us put more time and effort into planning a party!\n\nMarriages aren't made in heaven either. If they were, then the angels have made a lot of mistakes! God doesn't provide us with a mate. He gives us the ability to make choices. Mind you, many of us make rotten choices - especially when it comes to choosing a partner. So we need to learn how to make them more effectively. And not just to settle for the first likely person to happen along.\n\nBecause, there's loads of possible partners out there. Lots of people have the right characteristics - if you can only find them. So the trick's to get to know more people who match your needs. Then you can safely fall in love with any of them!
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we "modern humans", both men and women, i have seen have started getting such tendencies to seek a relationship outside even if they are satisfied .\n\neven in countries like mine - India - which is much more conservative and where marriages are by and large done once in a life and they survive till both die\n\ni attribute 2 reasons for it - greed and the need for change.\n\nGreed because man & woman want more and more out of life in the area of sexual and emotional fulfilment. Meaning they want such things from more than 1 people\n\nChange because like every other thing, many people have started taking relationships as a commodity, which should be changed frequently. Instead of understanding the partner, they just live them alone for self-good.
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Finding a soul mate. I've been without a boyfriend for almost ten years because I never find someone I really connect with. So I just stick to casual dating. But I have made some good money in those years. So I'd say it's harder to find a soul mate.
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Yes A F Lamb, there definitely are some left. I was wondering the same about men. You know you get sick of hearing "Whats for you wont pass you by" etc but at the end of the day whatever will be will be. I think its harder to meet male/females now because there is sooooo much competition and sooooo many out there looking for the same. Ive been hurt in the past but you know thats life. You'll find her if you dont you can have me :0) Sunny!