Have you ever felt the urge to break up wit a person but dont really have a explantion why?
435407
yeah i have been there. its like you feel something or a certain smell or just something its like i just dont wanna do this anymore. its kinda sucky but it happens
58856
i used to have to think of a fantasy everytime i was with my ex-boyfriend. but lately, with this new person that i am dating i don't need the fantasy. strange, huh?
15955
I am the perfect candidate to answer this one, I think. Maybe not, lol. I think I am.\n\nAnd I always front like I don't want to be with someone, but in fact I really do. Two reasons though: 1) I can be a little shy at times, especially after I haven't been around people for a while. 2) I feel like if people get the idea I am looking, that everybody will start trying to force me into dating someone's best friend's sister who I am not at all interested in meeting. I guess this way, I can walk around securely and pick out the ones I am interested in and the ones I am not.
50434
Contemplate and think about the reasons that led up to you feeling that you need to part from them.  Then think about what you want to say very carefully and then tell him.  After you tell him that you don't want to be with him anymore and then why, cut off all communication.
74696
I am the same way, cant get the courage to ask because he probably doesnt want to be turned down or worse you say yes and somepoint in time you breakup with him and over that time he has begun to love you and doesnt want to breakup
1136
You just end it. It really doesn´t matter why, the point is: you don´t want it anymore and it´s enough. Break up with the person, cry and be sad the time you need and then, be happy again :-)
30832
yes,i have when i was younger with my first love.i felt i wouldnt do any matter then him so i stayed with him.only when he had a nerveous break down i wanted to leave but,his family said he needed me.the family was saying it was my fault of his nerous break down so i had to stay with him."guilt"
961347
I understand how you feel, but why would you want to be with someone who is not worthy of all the love you would be lavishing them with. Sometimes you have to let your head rule over your heart. You have to be able to look at the situation and go, this is going to hurt but maybe fate is changing in my favor. Sometimes what we think we want isn't what we thought it was after we find better.
152282
I know how u feel...i'm having hte same problems. but i had to cut it off with the guy that i dind't like as much... u need to do that now, better to hurt now than hurt much more later...
263145
This happens with ANY relationship. And it happens with everyone. Not a single soul on this planet can say that this thought has not crossed their mind.\n\nHaving said that, do you see all those going their seperate ways? No, right?\n\nSo at times when we are hard pressed and pushed to wall in a relationship, our thoughts invariably go to eliminate that pressure and which is "Wish I was single and not in this relationship..." \n\nNow, what is freedom? To do what you want to do? Well then what is a relationship? Freedom and Relationship doesnt go in parallel. You cannot eat your cake and have it. Compromise and Sacrifice are two strong pillars of a solid worthy relationship...\n\nIts all upto you to be rational and debate that thought with good things that are happening in your life because of this relationship and move forward.\n\nIf you still think "More Freedom" is what you want, I guess you should stay single... \n\n.:Fishie:.
754095
There are many factors as to why people act out the way they do. I think the question you need to answer is: Do you want a relationship with this person? Then decide what it is that has turned you away. You have to get to the root of the problem in order to know where to go. Is the relationship at a stand still? Do either of you have any future plans for marriage, family etc? Sometimes when we get bored with someone it's because a change needs to happen to bring the 2 of you back together & back on track. It could be a vacation, or dancing or sight seeing... some sort of fun activity that you both would enjoy & that will break up the boredom. It doesn't have to be elaborate, just something different. If you decide that you simply are not happy in this relationship & are truly wanting someone different, then perhaps it's time to move on. Try changing your point of view or outlook. Sometimes seeing things in someone else's shoes, makes us realize just how we are behaving & helps us to change those things we don't like about ourselves to become better people.
732013
I would give it a little bit of time and then ask yourself. Are you ready to give this another try or are you starting to feel better and are able to move on?\n\nSomeone once told me people break up for a reason and that they should always stick to their original idea. Of course this is not always the case but just do what you feel is right deep down. \n\nHope everything works out!
776551
Go for it\nThe reason you give for not being with him are shallow, and I suspect that your real feeling run much deeper than that.
301626
If you like someone (which I assume you do, because otherwise you wouldn't have to "Stop liking" someone), why would you want to leave?  But, I suppose thats a question for you.  Really, if you are in a relationship and, for whatever reason, you dont want to be in a relationship, you just have to be honest about it.  Tell your partner just that.  Its tough, yeah.  But anything else would be putting you in a position you truly dont want to be in, all while hurting your partner who continues to give his time to someone who isnt interested in him the same way.  Yeah?
94051
I know I would probably be be happy in some twisted way...  Like - Ha!  you cheated with her on me.. and now you are both broken up too.... \n\nI don't know... it is a very emotional thing to have someone cheat on you.  Of course it is natural to not want them to be together even if you no longer want him any more.  So you may feel like I would.
525496
You can't not hurt her feelings because you are telling her you don't want to be with her anymore.  But I recommend not going into a lot of detail about why you don't want to be with her.  Give her a few compliments so she feels good about herself but not so many that she has hope of getting back together.  Remember to use a lot of "I feel that..." not "You are such a...".  Good luck!
427918
u feel this because u don't love him or their's no feeling for u in him