Do you believe there is realy such a thing as soulmate?
452063
Definitely - I was lucky enough to find mine at a young age, (28, him 37) and we have shared a brain ever since the first time we started speaking to each other. . .and we are sooooo happy we make people sick!! My life is wonderful ever since I met him.\nKeep on believin it!!\nIt WILL happen
180725
A "soulmate" isn't necessarily the person you have sex with, or are even attracted to, physically.  It means you bond on a spiritual level.  \n\nIt's ideal if your spouse is also your soulmate...but your soulmate can be a best friend, too!
332556
I used to believe in soul mates.  I used to think my husband was "The One" for me.  Unfortunately, things didn't work out for us, and even though I don't think I could ever really be as close to someone else, I also know that no amount of love can keep two people together if they don't take care of their personal problems, and work hard on the relationship.  \n\nNow I'm starting to think that people don't have a "One" person out there for them, but they associate with people that they find comfortable, people with similar beliefs, and who treat them the way they are used to being treated.  The more someone treats you the way you are used to being treated, the more they seem like "The One".  Unfortunately, that means that if you're used to being abused and mistreated, you will most likely select someone who abuses and mistreats you as your significant other.  :(
315242
I think its possible to fall in love with that person's spirit or how you perceive their spirit and soul. It takes years sometimes to find out if a person is who you believe they are. As for a physical attraction, that will take an in person meeting. But maybe this is how you were supposed to meet your soulmate so take a chance otherwise you might regret it later and always wonder....what if?
171244
Sorry to be a wet blanket, but soul mates are a nice nyth, nothing more.  Relationships are hard work, and you get back what you put in.
277681
Stop searching for your soul mate and you will find her. When you are looking for someone you will never find them. I stopped looking and WHAM there he was. (we are still together) Good luck. Yes true love exists.
472983
Yes, and in kindred spirits too. Though I am a bit of a dreamer. I believe in true love and dreams becoming true. I think its good to want, hope and dream. I wish your dreams to become true and that you will find your true love.
255142
My advice is don't bank on the word soulmate.  People get all caught up in finding their soulmate and once they have found their soulmate they neglect working on the relationship because they believe it's pre-destined.  As,long as your happy with this guy work on the relationship as hard as you can and ask him to do the same.  As long as you both are working hard at making it work it should be fine.
1034586
Yes I believe in "soul mates" well I've been with my huband for 16 years and the way we meet was really crazy but yet cute! I love him and he loves me. Whatz really funny at times I would be thinking about something and he would say it out loud and the same goes for me too! Its like we can read each others mind!  He would think of something that he wants from the store and for some reason I will have a funny feeling I need to get him something from the market and I end of getting what he is wanting. He would be gone and I will be thinking about him and I want to call  him on the cell and a few seconds go by the phone will ring and its my husband calling me and I just start laughing telling him I was thinking about calling him too!  We both believe that were each other "soul mates" no matter how many fights we have we always say "its over" but yet its never true! I know in my heart he will never leave me and he knows in his heart that I will never leave him either! I just cant live with out him in my life and he feels the same too!!!
1018357
Soulmates are people that you just instantly recognize and feel a deep connection with them right away when you meet them. How many times has this happened to you before? Ever meet someone and really feel like you know them and like they're your best friend?\n\nThese souls become your mates in your life as best friends, siblings, lovers, etc. Some people have a few and some have a lot. It's not that hard to really know which ones are soulmates. It is what I felt at first when I first met then, that clasifies them as a soulmate.\n\nYou know about the "love at first sight" thing, I never truly understood what it meant before until it actually happened to me three years ago when I truly understood it's true meaning. I believe that people misunderstand it, and the fact that many have yet to experience it, they want to not believe that it exists.\n\nWhat I found out it really means, is that you are recognizing a former love that you had in a past life. When I first met my partner three years ago, as soon as we met, I had this revelation that this person was my former lover. We truly felt like we were picking up where we left off. We did not have to create anything between us. It had already pre-existed. The love that was there between us had already been created previously and that when we met in person in this life, it became "love at first sight" meaning I recognized the love that I had for this person. It hit me like a ton of bricks when I realized that this person was the same person I had a dream of a week previously. I dreamt that I loved this person so much. I felt this incredible love for this person filling up my heart instantly right after we met. We told each other we loved each other within the first 16 hours that we first met. \n\nDoes that make sense about the meaning of "love at first sight"?
373042
I don't really believe in 'soul mates'.\nI think it is a romantic notion which is all very nice, but in reality I do not believe that there is only one person in the whole world for you.\nIf that was the case, it is a big coincidence that most people find their 'other half' in their hometown or at work etc.\n\nI believe that there are a number of people out of everyone that you meet and know throughout your life, who you will 'click' with on an emotional and intellectual level.\n\nAs far as God wanting you to be with someone, I'm sure there are many believers who have gotten divorced, so I don't think that God chooses your partner.  If you 'believe that God wants us to be together' is that really just an excuse to go and get them?  I suppose you could go and say 'I love you and I want you to be mine', just be prepared for them to say 'Thanks, but I'm in love with someone else'.\n\nIt is difficult if someone you know (and possibly love too) is with someone else, but they are entitled to that, so I suggest a common sense approach.\n\nBeing in love is great, but being loved back also is even better.\n\nGood luck!
467343
I do believe each person has that soulmate out there.  First loves are not necessarily your soulmates but if he is, you will know.  Your presence among each other tells the connection of your souls in love and happiness. That is the main thing to remember, be happy.  Rather, he is or not, you love each other and that deserves something. It's great to be friends and love, at least you know each other.  Good luck.
259486
I strongly believe in soul mates and strongly believe that I have found mine, hes great.  You don't really find him though.. it usually happens at the least expected time.
551733
I think that every one does have a soul mate out there some where u just have to lokk for that someone!!
173471
The whole idea of a soul-mate is that there is another soul out there that is your perfect match.  The thing is, that could be a friend, a relative, or a mate. Just because there is someone out there that you "click" with in everyway doesn't mean you have to sleep with them.  If your lucky then the person you marry is the person you "click" with.
1094545
Yes, it exists!!!\n\nApparently you haven't come across someone who is a good match for you, who has the same goals, life views, world views, and idea of perfect relationship that you do.  \n\nWhat is it you are looking for?  Do you know?  What is your definition of "true love"?  It could be that so far you are dating people whose definition is different than yours.\n\nThe best match is someone who makes us laugh, whom we make laugh as well; someone with whom we have a lot in common, including short term and long term goals, and world view, someone whose habits and characteristics you can live wiht, and who can live with yours; and someone with whom you have mutual respect.\n\nSometimes it takes a while and meeting a lot of people to find a few that come close to what we are looking for.  Don't settle for less.  But do get to know yourself and re-examine your thoughts on what true love is, just to make sure you are being realistic.  You may be . only you can decide that.\n\nYour love is out there!
747294
yeah i believe everyone has a soul mate what i don't believe is that soul mate has to be a lover or husband wife i think when you find that one person you just cant live without that's your soul mate