a distance relationship can resist ?
448008
To make a long distance relationship work there has to be a lot of trust - if you don't see each other all week or sometimes for a few weeks you have to be certain the other is serious about the relationship.  It is also good to have very regular contact.  One good thing about not seeing each other so often is that it keeps the relationship alive and you always have separate interests and therefore loads to talk about when you do see each other.  However, this type of relationship can take a long while to get off the ground - much longer than a normal one and there has to be a lot of feelings to keep it going.
507360
Chalk it up as a life experience, and move on. Long distant relationships seldom work, especially, it would seem to me, ones between two different countries. It is possible, I suppose, but brothers and sisters seldom hold hands in America, that would be more of a European thing. Really, you two live so far apart, how is it going to work out anyway?
1096887
Keep your distance far away.
843107
Yes if the feelings for each other is sincere and everything else is in place, surely you can't knock someone back because of where they come from. Except you are saying it might be a problem because of the distance, I can understand that but then you can work round that provided both of you are committed to travelling and ensuring that the relationship works. Finding true love is not something that happens everyday and as such if you are lucky to find it,  enjoy it.
414475
of course it can work. it just depends on the commitment and love and trust, just like any in-person relationship. in a way, the long-distance has the benefit of not having to deal with the daily in-person details that sometimes weight relationships down.\n\nmy husband and i maintained a long-distance relationship for more than two years before our situations allowed us to be together.\n\ntalk about it.
1125713
I have to say  that a long distance relationship can only work if both parties are really committed to eventually being together, but if you stay apart too long, lots of things have a tendency to change. Time won't stand still for anyone. \n I was involved in a long distance relationship for about 7 months, and it is very hard for people to just hang on indefinitely. \n I married her and we could not be happier, but I am afraid if I had waited too much longer, I would have lost her because being "together but apart" is very difficult to do.....
1049499
Yes.  I moved to another place about 6 - 7 hours away from my previous address.  Then all of a sudden a former female co-worker / friend of mine e-mailed me and basically professed her love to me and that she was willing to have a long distance relationship.  \n\nI was totally caught by surprise!  To make a long story short, I told her that I was not interested and that we should just be friends because most likely long distance relationships won't work.  Besides, I was never into her.  Sure, I was friendly to her, but I had no intentions in going further.  \n\nThen I got a barrage of hateful e-mails from her that lasted for 2 weeks.   I just ignored each of her hateful e-mails, and she never e-mailed me back, and I never heard from her again.
628172
They can be though but then again they can work. If you both like eachother and will not change your minds and sway off course you will be just fine... who knows maybe in the future you may be closer then you ever imagined.
157344
it depends G. it really depends on how strong ur realationship is. for instance, i really lvoe u and u also do. no matter how far i am maybe or u perhaps. u'll still be faithful. actually, it's much more better. u really can prove ur love for him or her. whn u r far from him/her. and vice versa. and it sucks if u always see each other right. u know what i mean. u'll get use to each toehr and eventually u can only see his/ her bad side. which is not healthy. and the realtionship might be choke. haha! "choke" or suffer. u know what i mean. goodluck. i tried but it didn't work. but u never know. just trust eahc other and stick to ur feeligns.
934949
When we graduated, we didn't see each other every day.  We moved a part, heck, she even lives in another country now.  Yes, we've faded.  But she is still my best friend, and when we do see each other, which is 1 time a year, it's all back to what it use to be.  If you have a strong and wonderful friendship, nothing will break it, even distance.  So in a way, we are stronger, but just geographically farther.
534882
It depends a lot on the people.  I have 2 friends who live very far away.  The first got married, had a kid, & has changed a lot since moving.  So, naturally, our friendship has changed & we aren't as close, even though we have nothing against each other & would still be there for each other in a crunch.\nAs for the other one, he & I are actually closer since he moved away.  We stay in touch, talking at least once a week, & plan to take a cross country road trip next year.  He & I are both unmarried, have no kids, & are career-oriented, so our continued similarities probably help maintain our friendship.\nHe has noticed this as well, because he isn't as close to some people he used to be really close to in the past.  As some of his friends have gotten married & had kids, they don't seem to have time for him anymore, & have less in common.  With their focus on their families, they have less to talk about with guys who are still hanging out & chasing girls on the weekends.
989002
distance either makes the heart grow fonder...or makes the heart wander...it would be hard not having him around, but try love conquers all boundaries, including distance..this is your challenge to know if this is meant to be..hang in there and have faith in his love for you. Whatever happens happens for a reason. \n\nGood Luck
30580
I think there isnt anything to really worry about.  People who are close tend to blend together in some areas.  Clothes being one of them.  likes and dislikes are sometimes already similar in friends so it just gets strengthened the closer you two get.
231247
Long distance relationships are very hard, but I know couples who are married and are still long distance. So nothing is impossible. It just depends on how much you love and Trust each other to be apart but still stay together. But warning: long distance relationships are Tough. You both need to sit down and talk about the possibilities and if you both decide to stay together, talk about how you'll both deal with it. Make sure you're both prepared for all the hardships to follow, such as missing each other, trust issues, traveling to see each other, etc... Goodluck on your decision!
50416
Yes, it can.  It depends on how hard you work at it, and how much they are working at it.  You have to keep your commitments of calling when you promise, being on line when you promise, of coming down when you promise, and vice versa.  Sometimes starting out in long distance relationships actually make them better.  One reason is that you know from the beginning it is going to take work and are ready to take that on.  Second, you learn to communicate verbally with each other on every topic, and that will last through your relationship if it leads to marriage.  Also, it forces you to take things slow, and really get to know the person over time.  Sometimes if we can see the person every day, we fall too fast, and fail to recognize the warning signs that we would see if there were some distance put between us.  I know of a couple that dated from Scotland to Canada for two years, and just got married.  You know what?  They wouldn't have traded the past two years for anything, because now they talk to each other every day about everything, and it has taught them a lot about confiding in each other and trusting in each other.  I hope it works out for you. :)
1144986
No, I wouldn't let it come between us. Eventually, one person would relocate, but that's just logistics. Hummm...about meeting someone online? I guess it would depend where you met them. Typically people you run into in chat rooms or on free sites don't tend to be of the same quality (or want the same things out of a relationship) as people who use paying services.
77090
distance relationships are generally bad unless your trust level is extremely high. where and when do you fit the quality time. I am sorry you may want to move on at least until the distance becomes a non-issue.  :(