If I marry an illegal immigrant, and realized I made a mistake, can I leave him right after?
454013
Well it seems you've made a mistake. Tsk. Just divorce him. And Hell no can he reapply for residency. Heck if all of them started thinking like that, then people would just be getting married just to obtain legal status.
393629
Shouldn't they have told you that, with immigration? Where you deported for drugs or something? Are you married to a U.S citizen or have any children from the U.S.
712994
Yes, just notify immigration of your address change (something ALL aliens are required to do within 30 days of an address change).  One point, if you are getting a green card based on a marriage to a US Citizen and you change your address, but not that of your spouse, it could be grounds for denying your permanent residence status.
740499
You made a mistake how can telling him correct the mistake?  Is your purpose in telling him to help him or attempt to lessen your guilt? Perhaps you want him to feel as bad as you do.  Perhaps you want him to assume some of the guilt and responsibility for your actions.  I would not want to be told because once you told me there is nothing I could do to fix it.  \n\nI suggest you try and get your lifes back to normal as soon as possible if you want to continue the relationship.  You say you have a " fiance".  I am sure you are aware that in several States you have a "husband".  In Texas living together, purchasing and or estasblishing a home together, having a child together, living together for over a year, allowing someone even one time to believe you are a married couple are all ground for the State to declare your relationship a "Common Law Marriage" if ever you separated. \n\nPerhaps you will recall the guilt you are suffering the next time you are tempted to cheat and will not do it again.  You made a statement that is very confusing to me, "... this relationship couldn"t get any better!" obviously it could.  Why would you be tempted to cheat if the relastionship was so perfect and you were aware of it.  I believe a problem exist and the two of you should try to find it.  You have an emotional need that is not being met and that is what you should have communicated before you cheated.  It is not too late to begin communicating those needs now becuase those are the things you two together can fix.\n\nThe time you would spend telling him about somthing neither of you can change should be spent trying to discover the real reason you cheated in the first place and fix it.  I do not think perfect relationships exist and good relationships are hard to come by.  It seems to me your relationship is worth saving and protecting and I do not think telling will make the relationship better or preserve it.  Good luck.
548632
Ouch, sorry to hear that because you are going to get served with some pretty bad consequences.  Are you an illegal immigrant or an American citizen/legal immigrant that brought them over?  If you are the former you will probably just be deported.  If you are the latter you are probably going to jail.
835442
Hi! The order for deportation can be stayed if you can prove that you and your kids will face unusual and unmitigated hardship if he gets deported. Ask the advice of an immigration lawyer.
580826
Man you need help!!get it now before you hurt her. what happened to love? You must have loved her to marry her.I'm not for divorce but in your case I think she should run for the border.
604292
If you get married while you are still a resident, you can petition for him as an immediate relative, but he will not be able to apply for his residency until either you naturalize, his priority date becomes current, or he applies on his own (i.e. through employment). As a resident, the fiancee or spouse visa is not available to you.\n\nMy suggestion would be to go ahead and get married, file the immediate relative petition, and have him extend his work visa (assuming he is not maxed out on his time in that particular classification). Then just wait out the time until you naturalize. Once you become a citizen, he will automatically move to the front of the line and can apply for his green card based on marriage to a citizen, as opposed to a resident. \n\nIf he has maxed out his time on his work visa, then he will either need to find an alternative visa classification or plan on returning home.\n\nGood luck!
524285
Don't do it, you'll regret it later.  I did it and found out things I didn't want to know.  Trust him or leave him, that's the new motto.
759266
Sorry, there aren't too many options.\nAbout the only thing I can think of is to set him up with one of your friends & then he can marry her instead.\nOther than than... he can apply for re-entry after he's deprted. He'll probably have to wait at least 10 years though since he's being deported.
322075
Ehh, I am going to go out on a limb here, and say that you shouldn't AUTOMATICALLY leave him, unless he is still activly particpating in his marriage, in which case you should.  I have to say that I was married, but not (we were separated), and I started a relationship with an amazing woman, but I was up front about my status.  Give him a chance to explain himself, if you don't like what he has to say then you can slap him and leave.  Don't act to hasty, get the lay of the land before you make a decision.  Good luck my dear, I hope it turns out ok.
150258
He gets a conditional green card first and can change it to a permanent one in two years if he is still with you. But I just wanted to say, that you shouldn't let this thought eat you up inside. Doubts like this can ruin a good relationship. I know it sounds corny, but you should know in your heart whether he loves you or not. Best of luck to you and hope it turns out to be a happily ever after story for the two of you.
988555
Your status (as stated above) will not change and will remain the same as the day he walked out that door! Additionally, If you have reached the age of majority (18 yoa) your status will rely 100% on your actions!! not your fathers!\n\nBy the way...where are you now and what is your immigration classification? From your statement, you should of also receive your Green Card as a Family Preference Alien...are you just trying to get a free ticket to citizenship??
1097199
Looks like you are stuck between a rock and a hard place. Hmmm....should you turn him in thereby ruining his family's life or keep your trap shut so you can exploit their situation? Maybe you should try to do something morally correct and help them out? You could see if there were a way for you to sponsor their citizenship.\n I lived in Mexico for a while. They are wonderful, helpful, hardworking people that want the same for their families as you do for yours...a good life, freedom from oppression and an education for their children. And I think it is the same in all countries.  I don't think we should open our borders but I do think that we should do something about the illegals in our country right now. If they are contributing to the economy and are not involved in criminal activities then we should keep'em. The rest go home and others stay home.
746391
the fiance visa became worthless if you did not get married within the 90 days ........if the person  got married to  a US citizen ,which was the way to get the fiance visa anyway ......\nsince you did get married legally , there is not a problem , \nthe person is not illegal in the US if the mariage did take place in the time allowed .........\nplease do not fear and write to them , if there is an adjustement to be made ? \nhere is the US immigration link :\nhttp://www.uscis.gov/portal/site/uscis\njust write and ask ,it will be okay .............))\n\nIf you became a conditional resident through a marriage to a U.S. Citizen or permanent resident, submit Form I-751,\nyou can do electronically on this page :\nread please ..........\nhttp://www.uscis.gov/portal/site/uscis/menuitem.5af9bb95919f35e66f614176543f6d1a/?vgnextoid=54c2fed8172cd010VgnVCM100000d1f1d6a1RCRD&vgnextchannel=9059d9808bcbd010VgnVCM100000d1f1d6a1RCRD
151536
Are you talking about legally? I am going through the same thing with my Sweetheart in South America. Your best bet to avoid any problems is to contact an immigration attorney in your area. \n\nThere are two marriage visas. There is the K-3 that is where you would marry him in Mexico and then you would have to leave him behind. Of course you can visit as much as you want . Then there is the K-1 visa. K-3 takes longer K-1 is 6-8 months depending on the country's consulate. \n\nK-1 is cheaper\nWith the K-1 you file the paperwork and follow all of the qualifications\nOnce approved he can come here to the US To get married he will have 90 days from the time to do so \n\nbest wishes to you
591888
No, they don't. The marriage would be scruntinized by the INS to be certian the marriage is real and not sham "wedding of convenience". However, the person would most likely be allowed to stay while their case was examined and verified. How long that may take is anyone's guess. Once this is approved, they could begin the naturalization process...