Is it unrealistic to think this relationship will work?
443442
If he doesn't want to be with her she should understand that and be a woman, she should also stop using there kids as a crutch he can be with you and his children without sacrificing or neglecting anyone it will just take some hard work and time on both parts. but seeing both parents aren't adults it will be considerably hard. goodluck.
51793
doesn't take that much actually. if two people established enough trust, respect, love, and open communication there are chances of a thriving relationship. Although misunderstanding and arguements are inevitable, patience and a little less pride are also ingredients of a good love life. If talking about reality, money is also a factor, let's face fact.
1178726
its up to you babes, if you feel he is being true to you and you are being true to him then why not there is no reason for it not to work. everyone says he could be lying to you but that does work both ways is he hiding anything from you? or are you hiding things from him?\ngood luck honey\n\ndoesnt matter now tho does it!!!
449618
Absolutely not.  In this day and age, you NEVER know what will happen in the future.  Contrary to popular belief, it's not setting the relationship up for failure.  It's for your safety as well as hers.
843107
Yes if the feelings for each other is sincere and everything else is in place, surely you can't knock someone back because of where they come from. Except you are saying it might be a problem because of the distance, I can understand that but then you can work round that provided both of you are committed to travelling and ensuring that the relationship works. Finding true love is not something that happens everyday and as such if you are lucky to find it,  enjoy it.
683469
Yes it works.\nDistance is not the end of the world in a relationship \nDistance cannot, and will not hurt a bond between two people that is based on mutual respect, trust, commitment, and love. \nAlthough you may feel like you are losing faith in your relationship at times, hold fast and trust your heart! \nI, like you, truly believe that love & relationships are what make your life special, and that ones built on love & understanding are always worth preserving, regardless of the miles that may separate two people. \n\n\nYOU ARE NOT ALONE ! \nAll across the world, there are couples just like you who are crazy about each other but are forced by circumstance to live apart..
342826
Well if you can't see it then you are in denial,when you have been in a commited relationship with someone you really want to make it work out,its not easy to come to terms with the reality things are not working out but deep down you always know.The best thing to do is pray about it and take your time before making any lasting decisions.
41222
Of course. There is always hope. But you want to have that hope and toss in a healthy dose of reality too. Really looka t the situation and determine if it seems like it will work out the way you want.
475280
its not a game and a dream if u really make it happen and can meet in real life ...and are both serious about it and have the same intentions... and yea it can end in a happy ending...listen to ur heart... good luck :)
395334
No a great relationship or a long term relationship does not just happen. maby you 2 are meant to be together but things like that dont just happen if both of u think u should be together forever then you both will have to work towards that its not something that just happens.
856228
i don't think so. you definitely don't know each other well enough yet. it takes years of getting to know each other and experiences and getting through hard times before you can be sure. don't jump to any conclusions too quickly and just see how things go.
670337
If you are sure you guys can make it work then go for it. I know that we think things will and all we can do is hope. If you really love him and he reallys loves you then go for it hun. You have to do what is in your heart. Go with what YOU feel. Good luck
1059039
Have faith, and be careful.  If it's destiny it will work out.  You seem so into him, give the relationship a chance.
1042007
you are both playing with fire here...... a threat is a threat...... and yes there is something not right with a guy who would even make that kind of threat....... and to tell the truth, it does not sound like a healthy relationship to me...... but I could be wrong...... you need to sit down and talk about all this....... a real heart to heart.......... God bless
1166558
Yes. I think the anticipation and mystery and trust that will be built will be very beneficial to the relationship.  So you think the distance thing is just temporary?  That would be real nice.
228059
Don't follow the signs follow your heart!!! only you can decide what is going to work and not work..Be honest and communicate and it will all work out fine
627571
OF COURSE!  BUT IF BOTH OF U KNOW HOW TO COMPROMISE AND KEEPING THE CHANNEL OF YOUR COMMUNICATION LINES ALWAYS OPEN...YOUR RELATIONSHIP WILL LAST.  SO MAKE THE MOST OF IT WHENEVER YOU HAVE A CHANCE TO INTERACT WITH EACH OTHER NO MATTER HOW IMPERSONAL IT MAY SEEM.  DONT WASTE YOUR TIME ARGUING OVER SILLY AND TRIVIAL ISSUES.