i have been dating this boy for 2 months, are we ready to have sex?
438891
not at all...i cant believe that u know him that well to see if you are ready and a question...do u think your ready?? and if not then why are you letting him talk you into this?...i didn't have sex wit my boyfriend until a good 6 months into it...but then again it may have been taken too slow..but 2 months is def. to fast...good luck
780296
To be truthful only time will tell. If you care about each other then I'm sure it will work out. Don't look at all the negatives then you start doubting the relationship. Just look at the positives...at least you guys will see each every two weeks.
578842
Your in lust for him, it sounds like you need sexed. Relax, you will find someone
1175444
no. sometimes its better to take things slowly, and get to know each other really well. then when you know you trust them, you can go ahead and do the things that you wanna do. i have been going out with my boyfriend for 8 months and we havent had sex yet. he knows i want to wait, and he respects that. but if your man does'nt want to wait, then he is'nt worth your time. no guy should have to be that way.
97658
only if the feelings is mutual. if all you want is to have sex also, then do it. your probabaly young and when your young, its all about the sex. the serious stuff will come later. enjoy yourself and him. `
384910
you got me confused,but I think I know what you mean. U wanna do it, but you have regrets (conscience). I personally think your too young, so wait on it. U mentioned you both respect each other and that makes the relationship reasonable. Why don't you both wait. Sex will always be there and in high school you can't turn the clock backwards to make things right.
975426
Tell him honestly that you dont wanna sex up until you are 17.Hope he understand and respect your decision,if he doesnt dump him.You desereve someone better.
1186946
If you've been together for 5 months, it hardly qualifies as a one-night stand.  If you're ready to have a sexual relationship with him, just be sure you've thought about all the possible consequences, such as pregnancy or STDs, and make sure you're protected.  You don't mention your age... and you haven't mentioned whether this will be your first time.  If it is, you should really think about whether you're ready to take that step.  Only you can decide, and don't let him pressure you into it if you decide you're not ready.
137948
NO!!!!  I'd tell him you want to see how things go for awhile before you go on vacation with him.  Not having sex is going to be hard enough on both of you going on vacation just the 2 of you is way to tempting.
407966
Six months is definetly too soon. If he really cares about you then all you need to do is tell him that you aren't ready for this because you think it's just to early in the relationship. Tell him that maybe after you've been together like a year and a half, you might move in with him. Don't be afraid to tell him the truth. If he's got a problem with it then he's not worth it. \nJust remember that you are still young and a committment like this is too much. Work on the relationship before taking it to the next level.
484459
Well, first of all you need to take some grammar school lessons before you ask another question. Second of all, as in waiting for him, what do you mean? If it's relationship wise, then, do what you think feels right. You're young, explore life.
285694
by "hook up" do you mean sex? if so , you may not be ready for all that yet. if you mean dating ya'll should got to the movies, or something. walk the mall whatever it is that yall young teens do. just dont have sex yet, you're just in middle school and it's only been a month. i mean I ant ya moms so i can tell you what to do, but respect your body.  kissing and all that aint so bad, but let him know what the deal is before he jumps to conclusions.
465864
If you aren't ready, DON'T DO IT!  You'll regret it, trust me.  And honestly, sex doesn't make a relationship, so if you're boyfriend is begging you, he only wants you for sex, not the relationship.  A real man (one you deserve) will wait forever if he has to.  Tell your man to shape up or ship out!  Don't give in just because your guy has no self-control.  That's his problem, not yours.
77040
Tell him that you need to wait and both you and your boyfriend should consider finishing schools or any carrer goals so that you can provide for your child.  If he loves you he can wait until you are ready.
43612
If he says he broke up with her, that's all you have to go by.  If you like being with him, then continue on and don't worry about it.  I'm concerned that you have already slept with him, since you haven't even known him for 2 weeks ... but that's your choice, I guess.  I would definitely wait much longer before choosing to get so intimate with some one you don't really know.
1167112
Girl, if he is willing to wait, I'd wait. Apparently he must have some feelings for you and that counts for something. If you really want to have sex, let him do oral and get yourself a toy. No harm in that and it's safe. Let's just call it "protective fun"!
466555
I would give him two months, this gives you time to make some phone calls and connections and will give both of you plenty of time to decide if this is truly what you want.