Is it right to fight over a boy you love soooo much??
450318
Fighting isn't going to solve the problem, you either trust him or you don't. If he is true to you then you know where he stands.
196693
if u sure u love him , then go for there is no point of losing true love  , but u must be sure that he is a nice boy and caring guy
181586
This is a very complicated situation. It depends, how much do you like this person? Is it a lot? is it enough to get in a serious argument because of this person? If so, well there's only one thing to do, TRY and get the person back-hopefully though this person is going to have enough feelings for you. If you don't think you should fight for this person, well then you should let it be. Because first of all you guys are not dating for a reason, so deliverate that reason, and think about what you're wanting to get from this person, if it's still there than go ahead. You have to be careful though, because this person may not feel the sameway about you, so I would find out how much this person likes me, before I do anything. Because you can try and fight wit all your strengh but if this person doesn't feel anything for you, or not as much as they use to. Then it's all worthless.
74931
I seen every body sayin FIGHT FOR WATS YOURS but really it don't work that way ... thats jus gon make things worse ...cause it did for me ... My ex-b/f was and still is seein this other gurl .. and I wanted to fight her so bad .. he told me he ain't want me to fight her ... he thought it was childish... ... the best thing you can do is try and move on ... if he wants you ...he'll eventually come crawlin back .. trust me ... mine did !!!
547859
Sounds a little over protective to me!!,If your questioning this sort of behaviour, why would you want to be with him??
346390
Life is too short to spend time fighting.  If you enjoy the fighting, that's different, but if you do not, find another person with which to forms a relationship.\n\nIt almost sounds as if you stick with this guy because you are afraid that he is the best you can "get."  As long as you stick with him, he will be the best you can get.\n\nThe key to any relationship is communication, not arguments.
550088
we, girls, always ask the same question to boys....maybe if you love someone sincerely and you're willing to sacrifice and bear even the most hurtful thing she have done to you....thats the time we will all know how much we are loved.
923263
I think all parents involved need to sit down together and discuss this...it's a decision that could make or brake this boy. Make a list of pros and cons...hopefully you can come to a reasonable decision. I hope it works out for you.
882039
NOOOO, don`t ever make him decide. If he chooses than it needs to be without YOUR help!\nI think his mother was way out of line with that comment. Try not to worry too much about it, it sounds like you have a great boyfriend there! If you want you can have a talk with her and tell her that you didn`t mean to "step on her toes", you are simply in love with her son and wanted to be with him on this important day.
358598
You really should tell them how you feel, and find out what the fight is really about. It may or may not actually be about you. Maybe it's more they are fighting over you. There could some deeper issue involved. Yep, it's official, I've been watching way too much Dr. Phil.
859043
Why don't you just come out with your feelings for him? Just tell him, get it over it. ANd quit fighting. :o)
1031251
i definitly think that a fight can turn out good. in the past my boyfriend and i were always in fights. but with the man im with now, we decided that there would be no name caling. usually when you start fighting its not even about what you are upset about. it takes two to figure things out so your partner has to want to change also.
953900
honey its ok to love him...stop trying to deny yourself x
842398
He is much to young for you, physically but mostly emotionally.  There is a vast difference of experiences and it is very unlikely that this relationship would work own.  Don't hurt yourself and your parents by making the wrong choice, as much as your heart is leading you astray right now. Good luck.
718076
Yes, you did the right thing. You may not feel very proud of yourself right now, but be assured, that many people ARE! It takes a bigger, smarter, more mature person to not fight when someone is taunting you, than to fight. YOU RULE!!!!
716691
i totally think love marriage is the right thing! fight for what you think is right!!
102936
oh please think about what you want to do.  Read you statement for yourself. everything that you are telling us about this man is all the reason to leave him.  I have been though it and i thought the same thing you did. (I love him). but it only gets worse. please belive me shy away why you still can. You don't need to stay with this boy, please put yourself in our shoes and read what you have wrote like you are reading a friends letters and see the sings. you might be in love with him now, but as time goes on and it might take years! you will see that this is not for you and that you can not take it anymore.