me and my mother are arguing what can I do to stop the arguing?
448086
just walk away that's what i do when i argue with someone i love
392810
pick and choose your battles. life is too short to bicker over ridiculous sh*t. when he is being an a** kill him with kindness or act like you can't be bothered with his silly commentary. problem is you all are around each other 24/7 and you'll drive each other nuts no matter how compatible. if you can be be apart for several hours out of the day or go stay at your mom's over nite it'll make you all miss each other and realize the good things about each other. but seriously you need to get some wheels and get your independence back! that'll make a huge difference!good luck!
334159
Being real about it all. \nYou are the blame for this madness. \nThey fight over you so this means that you are the focal point to their differences. In some form or another you may encourage their actions \nI suggest you cancel both of them and remove your self from them both.
744033
maybe she jealous ..........  you don't have to go \nover there either...... to keep the argument down....\n        then when she ask why  you didn't\ncome over.......tell her your  tired of the  arguing.....
147536
You haven't given us enough inforamtion to be as helpful as we might be otherwise.  The answer depends on how old you are and what it is your mom is doing that is annoying you.  Is it that you are doing something she doesn't agree with and trying to stop you and so you are annoyed?  Is your mom extra stressed or tired right now?\n\nI agree with other posters.  YOu need to think about what you are doing too.  Moms don't usually change and become  annoying for no reason.  Talk to your mom and see what the problem is.\n\nYOu will only ever have one mom and she won't be around forever, and someday you may look back and wish you had been more understanding.
59185
I am going to assume that you are a teen still living with your mom.  \n\nThe sooner you tell her, the better!  Be sure that you go in to this conversation without an attitude, and do NOT fight with her.  Apologize for dissapointing her and tell her that you will do your best to make it as right as possible!  \n\nI wish you the best!
836263
tell her outright. and tell her to make her stop.  If mom does not listen tell dad.  She is abusing you and that is wrong.
587461
just slow the relationship down some. Cause your only going so fast to spate your mother
567718
Relax, parents often jump to conclusions and assume the worst.  It is just a part of being a parent.  What you have to realize is that the reason she thinks this is because what you did do caused her to lose her trust in you.  I think it is important that you take some time to talk to your mom and discuss why you did what you did and what you really did do so that you two can bridge this communication gap that has led to her losing trust in you.  Then you need to figure out how you can rebuild her trust in you because once it is lost it has to be re-earned.
297862
first of all shes ur mom.. how long can she b angry with u. things wil cool down soon.. give her a good hug.. she wil surely calm down..say ur sorry.. even if ur not wrong.. it doesnt hurt to say sorry.. does it!!??
1079612
Seems like you need to get away from your mother and boyfriend.\nI also think you should tell them that they are at the point of driving you insane.  If need be, get a boyfriend that will cause you less stress. Since you can't get a new mother, just limit your contact with her.
908452
Its hard with a mother like that i would ask her why she says these things and confront her about it and tell her if she continues to make you feel miserable then you might be better off without her.  Its not always the best thing to do but sometimes you have too
808083
It takes two to argue right\n\nSo if one of you cut off the energy of arguing the other person will give up \nAll you have to say is :"I am here to talk but not to argue" and walk away \nIf that is impossible take the option of writing what you have to say on a paper, let the other person read it, and reply until what ever the problem is is solved \nUsually what ever you both are arguing about has nothing to do with the problem at all \nSome small problem you both can not discuss turns into little bits and pieces to argue about lol \nI hope that helps you as it has been good advice that I have gave that has helped many : )\n\nLove & Blessings \nMilly
600060
The most you can do is by example. You have to remain calm but forceful in your arguments during discussion. Stay focused on the issue at hand and not allow trivial attachments to those issues to become separate issues. You're only one half of the equation and if she follows your example then things should work out fine. If you set the example and she's unable to reciprocate in attitude then my suggestion would be to think hard and long about the life expectancy of that relationship.
929752
there isnt a thing you can do ... i am sorry.... i have a iffy relationship with my mother too... (and i also work with her)....\ni have tryed since i was young to get away from her but somehow it never works out ... although my brothers seemed to have managed it!...lol oh well... just as i get older i try to ignore her "ways"....sometimes its hard ... but at least i do live away from her with my children and husband... but its hard and i think it probably always will be.....just breathe..... and work hard to get your own place!...lol... where you can interact on your terms!... good luck!!!!
434168
You two need to stay apart.  You're like gasoline and fire.  It happens.  If you were 5 year olds, your parents would separate you.  Now you're adults, so separate yourselves and move on.
1017228
Live your lives and stop worrying about" ma" . Time to grow up. She will come around after a while. You two are giving her the power to control your lives. Stop it.