how do you know you are out of love?
445075
She sounds as if she doesn't treat you the way that you would like to be treated. I wouldn't like it, but I am not you.\n\nYou sound like you need someone to hash all of this over with to make sure you know what you are thinking. On observation, you have not been close acting for a while. If you can't tell her, write it a couple of times to get confidence. Then drink a beer or a coffee one day and tell it to her straight. \n\nThen do what you have to do to be happy. No use wasting the rest of your life pretending. Time to be free to be true to yourself.
19136
you need to make sure you recognize falling out of love, and just moving into a different kind of love.  After being with the same person for a while, the sparks/puppy love/lust goes away and you have a deeper friendship sort of love and companionship (if its the right person, if its not, you will just fall out of love I guess)\nI would suggest checking out books by Dr. Helen Fisher.  She is a sexual anthropologist that writes about types of love and the biology behind love.  Really fascinating book.
389135
I think you're asking because you already know the answer.  You should leave but of course you don't want to because you need him/her.  Ask yourself if perhaps you are addicted to being hurt, to playing the victim of a never-ending game of being loved and abandoned.  A lot of us do that.   We become attracted to people who will surely hurt us and leave us...and we love it.  Then we have a chance to be broken hearted and miserable again.  When you get fed up of the pain, there will come a time when you will be honest with yourself and start making different choices.  He/she is not the problem, it's you...face yourself now.
813256
you can't tell that you are in love or not but time will tell you. give some time to yourself and everything will be clear itself. so dont worry and let you feelings come out and express .\ngood luck
867625
when enough is just enough....\n\njust when i think i can't take it anymore and realize that i'm much happier without that person in my life
148483
How do you know you don't love them anymore?  Because there's no "tingly" feeling?  You'd be surprised how much you'd miss them if they were gone.\n\nUnfortunately we live in a day of disposable relationships.  We traffick in souls like commodities.  Our emotions and feelings are good servants but poor masters.
870425
I don't think that you can ever really fall out of love with someone.  Everytime you fall in love, you leave a little piece of your heart with them.  The best thing you can do is find something that can fill that empty dark hole.  Good luck.
630324
Wow...that's tough. I wish I knew what to tell you.  I think if you feel like you DONT want to fall out of love then you wont. Because obviously that shows you love the person.  Sounds like the relationship just needs some serious work.  I know this sounds corny but Men are From Mars, Women are from Venus is a GREAT relationship related book and I think it helps A LOT. It will help you understand your man/woman so much better.
22304
This is always tough and really, it depends on your situation.  The best thing you can do is be honest; tell them you no longer love them (and maybe this means you never really did) and explain why (this is the important part because it sucks to never know why someone fell out of love).  If you want to take the cowards way, just start cheating on them until they get the hint or the next time they say "i love you" say something like "yeah...about that love thing..." but you really do just have to say it.  They'll understand eventually even if it hurts them a lot now.  And be gentle, because they obviously care about you and you cared about them at some point
478023
If you have to ask, then you are most likely not in love.
459590
My dear.. The first thing to do is talk to him about how you feel when you are both relaxed and the problem is behind. Don't confront him immediately after what happened. You have to also assess how much you love him and how much he loves you. If you think the love is still there, then give it a chance and talk about what you like and what he likes and come to a compromize. However, if you feel that the love part is missing, then don't waste both of your times and put an end, it will only increase your agony. Unless, there are kids involved, this means a whole new strategy that you should consider them. If no kids, and no love, then separation is the best.
87865
When you feel like your whole being is being entwined with the other person's. When you look at them, and can't imagine life without them. When you don't feel 'in love' but you know deep down that part of them is inside your heart, and part of you is their's to keep. When no matter what they do you know you just need to make it work.
318672
You won't until you fall out of love with them.
470359
Yes! I believe that you can still love a person and not be in love with them anymore. I've been there and its hard, but its very possible.
81629
If you have to ask, you're not there yet.  Love can creep up on ya and just kinda take your breath away.  You'll know.  It's an awesome feeling, but at the same time it can be very hard.
609184
you cant be without your loved one, feel out of place without him, have no reason to leave, etc
634176
Guy's always stop. It doesn't necessarily means he doesnt' love you anymore or isn't romantic, he's just comforted in teh relationship to believe he shoudln't have to do all that shet anymore to prove anything to you. If it bothers you that much, tell him. Take him out to dinner. Unless he's falling out of love with you, well then....shitty.