Dating married woman. Can wife really dump husband for the 'new one'?
447429
Yes.I was married 5 years had a child with him.Left him for my lover.Been married to him now for 12 years.Still going strong.With 2 children of our own.We(all 5 of us)Are very happy.
62094
You can't forget her because you're always thinking of her. Then why you have a new girl at present? You still love her but you have a new one. You're already married and you have to be faithful with your wife. But if you can't, then what's the use  of staying at your present relationship if you're not happy?
339467
Chances are slim, plus why would you want to see him and even think of a future with a married man? Women amaze me that we would even think of doing other women this way. Show some pride in yourself and walk away...K
704876
some do and some don't , most of the time I feel they do, but I have seen people that haven't cheated on their wives ever again, or else they got real good at sneaking around, I guess in time if you stay with him you will find out if he has or hasn't, its going to take alot of time for you to totally trust him again, Good luck to you
49901
You'll have to be patient, she was married when you met her so you had to have expected the baggage.  But you're involved the way you are so just help her out if you can and stick with her and hope for the best. It's more complicated the way you're doing it but every situation is different.  If she wanted out of her marriage and started up another relationship make sure it wasn't just something to boost her ego or something before devoting your life to her though.
526581
Although it is possible to love two or more people at the same time, I do not believe that this is the case.  I think that the romance has gone out of your marriage and you find it easier to be romantic with another woman than to rekindle the romance in you marriage.\n\nFor a married man to have a romantic relationship with another woman is folly.  It is thinking with the "little head."  Either divorce your wife to pursue another woman, or go to counseling with your wife to correct your martial problems.  Do one or the other before someone gets hurt.
136609
She shouldn't accept his excuses once, far less ten times. She may be loving and faithful to him but his actions clearly demonstrate that he does not share similar sentiments toward her. She needs to be loving and faithful to herself first. After ten times of cheating this is a habit for him and he's not going to change and she's just hanging around waiting on heartache if she stays.
379976
Yes, you most definitely made the right the right move in dumping him. He is showing neither you or his wife any respect by asking you to be 'more than friends' whilst still married, and i assume, still sharing her bed too. He is trying to have his cake and eat it too. Stay strong and don let him wheedle his way back in to your life. Good luck! =)
918770
Do yourself a favor and stop the relationship immediately. If he hasn't changed his ways in the last 7 years, he isn't going to start now.  You cannot change people, they have to want to be different, and they have to want to make things better for themselves.  What is it about him that makes you want to stay with him?  And be HONEST with yourself.  Is it merely because you've been with him so long it's comfortable?  I hate to be this blunt, but you need to break this one off or you will just be very unhappy as a married woman, and I can almost guarantee you will end up a divorce statistic.
1170041
I think it's their view on the whole relationship. When you are just dating someone, you always know in the back of your mind, on some level, that you are not really completely attatched to that person, that you could "break up", even after having kids and owning a house and all that. Being engaged brings new excitement, and some level of selfishness, knowing that the person loves YOU so much that they are willing to make that commitment to YOU. Once you are married, it's a little euphoric, the rush that you went through with it, the blessing of the families, and the excitement of starting something fresh, something new. After that wears off, your feelings can change into thinking different thoughts such as "being stuck" or knowing that the person has no intentions of EVER leaving, and some men start thinking all the excitement is gone. That's when they start seeking that excitement agian, and usually the ones seeking it end up cheating on their wives, not understanding that if they are caught, she WILL leave. When she does, they all of a sudden think she's a b*tch or something of the same catagory. I wonder why they don't go back to the feeling of wanting to hang on to her because she is leaving. How exciting!! \n\nIt works both ways. I have known women to go through this.\n\nAlso, I don't believe EVERYONE goes through thinking thoughts about their life being over, a LOT of people are extremely devoted and happy with the ones that they have chosen to spend the rest of their lives with.
1172600
LISTEN VERY CAREFULLY!  It looks like he made his choice already.  A man will never leave his wife to be with the other woman.  If you guys were talking before he got married and he still married the other woman...I'm sorry to say, but he is not thinking about leaving his wife for you.  He has his cake and eating it too..so to say.  You are only hurting yourself if you continue to pursue this relationship.  Save yourself from anymore heartache and just end it.
411620
Are you really in LOVE with HIM?  Or is it the idea of new love and that feeling of new love, that you're in love with?  Especially being a married woman, after a little bit of time you lose that new love/lust euphoria.  Perhaps there are some things that you are missing in your marriage that you are looking for in this new guy.  I know it doesn't answer your question, but perhaps you should work on the marriage that you're already in and see if you can improve it, because you must have LOVED your husband at one time
457289
obviously the first wife wasn't suitable. because if she was y'all wouldn't had got a divorce... so the first wife is right.. but the second wife could be jealous or envious of the history you have with the first wife... that happens...just tell them to cut it out.. and act like adults... and go on with your life with your present wife... okay.
553798
I know my husband isn't the cheating type, but at the same time why would you want to put a person in the position to have to make that choice? The temptation is to big if he has already said that he is attracted to her. So no I wouldn't have it!!
203398
H*ll no!!! Me allowing myself to chase after a man that has a wife already, is basically telling him to do whatever he wants b/c I don't respect myself anyway. I would feel terrible knowing that Im chasing after a man that belongs to someone else. Imagine being with a man thinking that he loves you more than ever, and finding out that he just dogged you out b/c of some female that didn't mean anything but a nightly screw@!!!! Oh yeah that's right many females know about that already I answered some of their questions on Yahoo Answers!!!!
24224
They can if they want to. Unfortunately, if they do it once, they'll do it again. It shows a character flaw that they alone need to work out. The only way you can help him overcome his tendancy to stray is to let him know you'll not put up with it in your relationship. It's a deal-breaker of the first kind. Without trust, it's really hard having any kind of meaningful relationship. Not impossible, just difficult. It can be worked through, but both people have to want to work through it, with the cheating spouse working hard to restore trust in their relationship. <*)))><
246175
The grass isn't always greener on the other side. Maybe you need to examine your marriage and figure out why you would even consider ruining your marriage for something that happened in your past? \n\nOr if you feel that this person is really your "soul mate" then life's short live it happy, and if this is what is going to make you life happier and more fullifield then do what your head not your heart thinks is right.