Is love at first sight mean love or lust?
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i think it might be very rare to actually fall in love at first sight but it can happen. now, if you see someone and all you think about is "wow, they must be great in bed" that would definitly be lust. but if you feel like you really want to get to know them then yes, i would say it was love. only because that has happened to me. when i first saw my boyfriend (we both met at church) i totally knew that i cared for him. but caring is not the same as love. but it did turn into that. so it is a long process, sure there was attraction but also a deep mutal respect and care for that person as well. sorry if this is confusing but love is sometimes a confusing thing.
660746
first love is that will touch to your heart and soul....fist love happein in seconds it doesnt requir time to happein if you see some one and you fell you r in love
198838
No only lust at first sight.\n\nUsually anyone who falls in love with you at first sight ends up having MAJOR emotional problems.
177331
You can see it in the eyes of the one you love.  You Heard of love at first sight.
991467
ATTRACTION ..at first sight is the key word i guess. \n\nWe always know we are in love during the relationship of course, otherwise we won't open up ourself if didn't feel any love.  It is.."after" THE relationship when we feel the magnanimity of that love.  Usually, the reason why we only say that you didn't loved a guy/gal after a relationship it's because he/she have caused you too much pain. But later on you will realize especially if your into another relationship, wherein you can compare your past that you can really say how much you loved someone.
1101477
Blind or not blind, love should never happen at first sight. I think a blind person is at an advantage as he/she is not going to make a  choice by looks alone.
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Love is a process, perhaps born out of lust and/or hopefully when in love, or even in marriage in love, we can still lust for our mate.\n\n  Lust is a physical reaction to a form of attraction,,,IE: Arousal.\n\n  It may pass as rapidly as getting rejected?\n\n  Love, by popular opinion should be lasting, emotionally involved, respectfully expressed, joyfully shared and not taken for granted.\n\n   It's also an irrational emotion, often causing pain in the same heartbeat as joy. It may have many definitions, and all may fit with respect to the Two who are personally involved.\n\nRev. Steven
874956
Lust is when you let your body do the talking and after 30 minutes or so  you feel uncomfortable. Love is when you let your heart and spirit do the talking and after that you suddenly finds that it is the year 2056 and  still madly in love.
599541
Ok....you can't define love as one thing.  Love is something that you feel towards someone or something.  But please do not get love confused with lust.
65251
Yep, I do believe in love at first sight. Because it happened to me.
22504
is there really, cos i ever felt. love at the first sight is just like you ever know her/him,even if you never meet before.but is not happen in every1 in this world,thanks to god if it ever happen in your love life
884629
Love at first site is actually lust at first site.  It takes time to fall in love.\n\nLong distance relationships can work if both individuals are committed to the relationship and have trust in the other.  It really helps to have frequent communication and set a date on when you can finally be together.
355215
it takes time to know that you love someone. some people believe in love at first sight; i just think thats lust
95056
Yes, I do beleive in love at first sight cuz it also applies to friendly love, all of my best friends that I've been close to for years, the first time I saw them, I knew I loved them, I knew we'd be close, and I was right, same thing with my husband, I was 15 and I literally saw him across a crowded room and I saw what my desire for a pertner looked like in the flesh, he told me he was confused about the strong feelings he had for me the first time he saw me too. It is not just lust, it's recognizing your soulmates.
309655
Do you belive in love at first sight.. or do i need to walk by again? ha
580019
Looks are very important in a relationship.  You have heard of “love at first sight”.  That doesn’t mean that the guy has to be great looking or the woman has to be sexy.  It just means that at the time those two people saw each other they were drawn together because of the way they looked and they connected with each other.
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The sexual attraction is there for starters, if its strong flirtaton! But love come with time , lust comes first I think, but there is a saying LOVE at first sight , so are you in love with him or is it lust? There is a difference but you got to be in a relationship for a while my opinion is , so the lust grows into love and that could take from a day to a week , to a month , and it's good to find out if you got the same interests and beliefs early in a relationship. When I met an ex of mine we were in lust , but we played a game one day down on the beach , it was a great setting and we asked each other what our favorite coulors were , till we practically new each other inside out and it was great fun to see if we liked the same things, that relationship lasted ten years but alchol made us grow apart. So go out some where like a quiet cafe , and start chatting , play the game , ask what he thinks about love and then he could ask you and maybe you will find your answer just like that and have fun the same time laughing when you both kissed when you were little and did you run like hell or was it fun and ask child hood pranks you both got up to , you will end up having a whale of a time and it wont even cost a lot of money , just a couple of coffee's . You could find a nice quiet pub, and have a few glasses of wine to pluck up the courage to ask questions, say you saw this survey in a magizine and would he like a laugh and have a go at playing it, what have you got to lose, I hope at the end of it you have a good relationship and you will FALL in love . Best of luck , go for it lv D, jones x Ps. I gave the same advise to a similar question b4 and had good feed bk frm it .... so have fun x