Im  a Canadian girl wanting to move to America and live with my American boyfriend of just over 2years?
453718
if you marry this guy you won't have to worrry about the greencard test right away. As for now you might be able to get a exatage student like thing set up, but with your boyfriend
512981
WHy not, the internet has made this a very small world.  I have friends from Canada, US, UK, Aregentina.  I talk to them every day.  Sure Love is possible!\n\nIf you're gonna live life on your own terms, you gotta be willing to crash and burn.
977944
yes. talk to your friends. they should be able to help you. or ask your boyfriend himself what he wants.
563784
My opinion, if you both feel that strongly about moving across the country together, why are you not getting married first?  Marriage should come first, in my opinion.  I once moved south in the past to be nearer to a male boyfriend but I chose to live in my own home.  You will have to make your own choices.  Best wishes =)
756941
My cousin had a long time relationship with this girl, he's from Canada and she's from the States. They meet over the Internet and now their married and still in love. I had a long distance relationship and it wasn't that hard to deal with as long as you don't go crazy with a "what if" in the back of your mind and trust your heart that every word spoken is true. Now we live together and I still love him even more then before, and am excited for the years to come. I say if it feels good, and you both can handle the distance between the two of you, give it a try and see as the days go by.
514620
you are making an excuse "can't keep...living through him."\nif you wanted to be with him you would go with him.\nif you don't want to go overseas, don't.\nit seems completely reasonable that you simply prefer to stay where you are.\nyou are ready to settle down but feel awkward about pressuring him to do so.
391357
i wouldn't do it. \n\ni would never live in another womans home. it will ALWAYS be her home..especially if there are kids. \n\nhowever...asking a boyfriend...to sell a home to move into an apt. doesn't seem very mature either.  especially since you two aren't married nor does it sound like there are any plans to marry. \n\ni would keep my place..have him keep his...and share a bed once in a while. if it gets serious..then both of you move out and buy a home together!
7887
If you really have a good relationship, then where you are shouldn't really matter.  U.S. Immigration on the other hand, is chore to deal with. My advice?\n\nGo to Canada!
425360
Go with your heart. I am in a very similiar situation but we are madly in love with one another. If you are questioning whether you should move, you are not yet ready to do so.\n\nYou will know when the time is right.
418594
Just live together and don't get married until he becomes a citizen.  If he really loves you, he will do it.
565153
you won't be an american citizen.  If you marry outside the US your husband who is american would have to come back to the US and file paperwork to get you a visa to come here.  The process takes about a year, then when your here you have to file additional paperwork to become a citizen, that process depending on the state you live in can take from 2 to 5 years. It a long process been thorugh it with my husband from Ecuador, but if you really love the man it's worth it.
605024
Well funnily enough I live in England, and my girlfriend lives in Florida.\n\nIt requires a huge amount of trust and you need to be sure its worth the heartache.\n\nWe are both working till the finances allow us to sort things out.\n\nIts not easy, but it can be done
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Do you have any family on the East Coast?  Do you have a job, or can easily get one? Would he support you while you looked for a job?  What would happen if you couldnt for a while?  Is he going forever, or will he be back someday?\n\nBasically, if you don't think you could ever give him up and are willing to give up everything in your life now for him then go.  If you aren't then maybe its time to get a low cost long distance plan.
1152897
just  pray  2  god  2  give   u  a  american  girlfriend/boyfriend.
883215
I think you are gonna have to talk to your family first...if you really wanna move in with him, you want to make sure that you are able to settle into a new town, but most importantly, you want to make sure that your family will be there for you, even if you live miles away....no matter where you live, your family will always be there for you when you get married and have children, and if they know ur bf well, then there really shouldn't be any problems.
884126
Be friends first!! Dont just think you can dive into a relationship and expect it to work. Get to know eachother really well. I met my fiance in a online chat room. We were friends first for a few years, now we're planning on getting married soon. I live in Canada and hes in the USA. We get to see eachother in person every few months, and talk on the phone everynight and use our webcams as much as possible. So this new girl you've met could end up being someone you want to spend your life with. Just take it slow. Nothing just happens overnight. As far as wanting to see eachother. Dont just think either you or her have to move to be with eachother. Long distance relationships do and can work out. All depends on you and the other person. If it does turn out that you want to spend your life with this girl, theres options. You can have her move to the US to be with you, or you move there. Right now, I'm waiting on my fiance visa to move to the USA, so thats an option for you. I dont know how the government in the Phillipines works, but thats something you can look into. Remember, one step at a time. Best of luck to ya!
403531
Either take a break from your education and go with him OR keep your relationship open if you guys would mutually agree to that.\n\nOr, if its really a serious relationship - you will go through the two years.