How many fights (aka = physical confrontations) have you been in in your life?  What will cause you to fight?
449484
Well I am only 13 but i was in 1 fight from 5th grade when i was like 11(?). i barely remember that the fight was over a boy... but she did start it and she pushed me down during recess, so we went at on the floor during recess and knocked desks over, pulled hair, and all that crap. i won.\ni almost got in a fight this year but teacher broke it up before it started.\n\ni will never start a fight, but i won't just stand there if someone starts one with me.
773179
what about going to gym, or buying boxing bag and everytime u feel like getting violent, u simply punch that, instead of hurting someone. u can yell during that as well:]
304348
I deliberately picked fights with my guy, to see how serious he was about the relationship. See, it's like this- he doesn't get mad- ever. And I had to know- if it came to a fight, would he get mean? Would he shout and scream and go psycho, or storm out? Would he hit me, or what? So, I was pretty mean to him, just to see what he'd do. I feel guilty about it, and haven't done it since.
256444
You are both individuals, like everyone else and being an individual you are going to have your differences.\n\nTo be in a relationship and to love and respect each other, you must accept each other's differences and different point of views as they should yours.\n\nfighting/arguing is normal in a heatly relationship, but it depends what you are fighting about all the time. If it is about the same thing each time, then you know where the problem lies.\n\nIf you are fighting about something different each time, then maybe you need some time apart and re-evaluate what you both want from each other.\n\nIf you are fighting because one of you just decided to pick a fight or just to be awkward, then maybe you need some time away from each other.
1138914
I have a 7 yr old son and a 9 yr old daughter...an all they do is fight!  LOL!  It drives me absolutely crazy some, no, everyday !  I have asked the pediatrition and a councelor at school and they both gave me the same answer.  They will when they are more "grown-up" meaning mature.  They are trying to figure out their importantance in their own right.  Where they fit into life and they are actually learning from the process.  I know that it is painful and terribly disturbing, but they will grow out of it.  They are learning to deal with conflicts, try to let them work things out and intervene only when necessary.  I, myself, have a hard time stopping myself from telling them to "Quit it", but I am getting better.  Give them some space, explain to them that there are rules to arguing...no name calling, no loud voices, they should remain calm, and talk through the situation.  Compromise is the name of the game.  Give it a try, they are preparing themselves to be adults.  If we as parents teach them that we all must argue some times in our lives, but that there is a proper way and an inappropriate way to receive the results we want, the world just might yet become a better place.  Here are some articles I found:\n\nhttp://www.utexas.edu/student/cmhc/booklets/fighting/fighting.html#anchor104643\n\n\nhttp://members.aol.com/AngriesOut/fairfigh.htm\n\nhttp://www.bartongoldsmith.com/articles/fightfair.htm\n\nI only quickly read through each one, so I'm not sure how they differ.  I searched "fighting fair", if they don't help.  Good luck, and I hope that all works out well for you!!   :)
197319
Fighting is never the answer unless all sensible dialog has failed, even then in most cases it is not necessarily going to prove anything to fight. Fighting is a pretty poor solution to a problem. Fight only in self defense and only when it is unavoidable.
1040535
The first thing you should do is have some amatuer fights. Then after at least 30 amatuer fights(depending on your weight class) you should have an idea of where you stand.
654108
cool cool.  you should randomly pick a fight then.
884767
ABSOLUTELY. Often, people fight about petty issues, just to air their other issues. When someone's complaining about stuff all the time, they are obviously unhappy in general. If you get into an arguement, or verbal fight, ask the other person to stick to the subject. I've done that, and it usually makes the "fighter" back down, and re-think their gripes.
971086
Of course fighting is never right but if you let someone push you around without doing anything they will push you around more and more as time goes by.  You do have to show them that you will not be treated like that.
261588
Yes - my ex-husband hit me three times during our marriage.  I was raised in a peaceful houselhold, so the first time he did it it caught me completely by surprise.  However, I realised that I didn't want my young son to think this was the normal way men should treat women, so I divorced him.  He's on his fourth relationship now.\n\nI married again 23 years ago.  When you are a victim of domestic violence (and mine was pretty slight compared to some stories here) it toughens you up not to accept it again, so the first time we had a row and my then fairly new husband raised his hand to hit me, I told him ' if that connects, we disconnect.'  And I meant it - and he knew I did.  We're very happy together now!
270770
It depends on how bad the fight was and also how close of a frend that person is to you I would say two-three times a day and if they wont lisetn to what you have to say then there not being a very good friend whether you're fighting or not.
687858
1)depends on who's fighting\n2)hormones!!!\n3)my girlfriend
851961
.Have you ever been in a fight? Yes sadly!\n\n2.Have you ever witnessed a fight? Yes\n\n3.Have you ever gotton into trouble for fighting? No! I was attacked, had to try and restrain attacker\n\n4.Have you ever been in a fight to which the police were involved?\nNo\n\n5.Have you ever had a fight end in hospitalization?\nNo only bruising (Attacker meant to steal my bag)\n\n6.Do you or have you ever carried a weapon?\nNo i don't believe in them\n\n7.Have you ever used a weapon in a fight?\nNo! I just tried to restrain the man without hurting him, keeping him at arms length\n\n8.Have you ever stepped in to stop a fight?\nNo\n\n9.Would you ever step in to stop a fight?\nIf someone vulnerable was attacked then yes i would as i woul;d have loved some passers by to step in when this guy attacked me with a knife\n\n10.Do you think fighting fixes your problems\nAbsolutely not
654245
ya lots of times... when i was younger i did karate and i was like the only girl and when i used to fight with them with gear on, of course, i used to beat every guy and once i even knocked the air out of one of them from kicking him in the stomach, and of course i had armwrestling contests and i beat them in that too!!
66107
Real fight, no.. but I have taken boxing, kick boxing to be exact, and it was for a small amount of time.. but the first rule is defense.. keep your fists up, just below your eyes about 4 inches from your face, with your thumbs towards you, and thumb outside of the fist.. or you could break your thumb.\n\nWhen you punch, throw your shoulder into it, and knocking the wind out of them by a solid hit to the stomach will usually break them for a moment for you to say, "ok, enough, I don't want to fight, and you have had enough". Walk away.  \n\nIf she persists, go for the eye, not the nose, you don't want to have to pay doctor bills if you break the nose, and a good black eye will blur her vision and leave a mark of "don't mess will me". But always keep your hands up and ready to react in blocking..\n\nAnd girls don't fight fair when they are mad, or are just punks, be prepared for sucker punches when you least expect it, and for clawing, biting, and hair pulling...The dirty fighting can be bad, and whether anyone knows it or not girls have a "privates" sensitive area too.. same place as the men, that bone once hit, or kicked, hurts really bad.. don't use that one unless she just won't stop..(try to remember riding a boys bike for the first time and falling against that bar).. now thats pain that you can recover from, but it'll take a while.\n\n(Do not have your hair in a braid, or ponytail if you are going to fight, it gives them something easy to hold on to.)
988931
Yeah, lots but I just stand my ground and just give the best I got back. I played soccer yeaterday and its like a competitive sport and I tackled the guy for the ball and he called me a dick. And i just said yeah okay prick now we are equals. But yeah it happens lots of times. Just don't shy away and show your afraid, stand up for yourself but don't fight. I'm not a fighter and I would say that. Just be smart about things like that and beat ppl with your brain.