am i ready to have a boyfriend?
436771
It's a good sign that you're wondering if you're ready for a b/f. If you feel that you want that it's all good. Just be careful not to go too far too fast. At that age it feels like it will last a Lifetime, but the reality is 3 mos. and another 3 yrs. of heartache. But that's how you get better at relationships down the line. Take it light, have fun, go out, do stuff; just don't spend all you time in the bedroom. Relationships are about a LOT more than that. Yet it's also hard to resist at that age. (I know how I was, and maybe that's the farthest thing from your mind. All I'm saying is don't give too much away too fast.)
638687
no u might just be more picky then her and waiting for the right guy. there is no reason to just accept who ever because u feel like u are lacking a boyfriend. wait for the right guy he will come along.
220313
to begin with honey, he doesn't love you. if you're not allowed to have a boyfriend yet, i'm sure your parents have a good reason. they are just trying to protect you from having to make decisions you're not quite ready to make. if you've seen me on here you know i'm gonna tell you to take this time to learn and to grow without complicating things. learn about yourself. learn about others. and as you're ready, learn about life. you've got a lifetime ahead of you. don't rush into things. :)
691117
Well it depends on the guy you're looking for. Guys really like it when you can relate to them about something. It's hard to start a relationship or keep one going if you don't have something to talk about. And always show that you're interested. If you don't have a boyfriend right now then it can't get any worse if u try so it's always worth trying to get a boyfriend. You don't have to be hott to get a boyfriend, be yourself and as long as you try everything'll fall inot place. Give it time, be patient. Everything'll work out.\n\nGood Luck!
673812
Be yourself, if you are fake, guys will know!\n\nAnother point of fact is, you don't need a boyfriend, you are whole as you are, so stop being desperate.\n\nWinning something has nothing to do with getting a boyfriend, you can be pretty on the outside, and seriously ugly on the inside, are you ugly on the inside?
1073296
Look first of all relax. Plus don't ask a guy out just because your friends want you to, it only matters what you want. Second are you sure you are ready to have a boyfriend, and not be taken advantage of? before asking the "boy" in your class start off by talking to him, like you would talk to your friends so that your "stumic" can get used to the idea of talking to the boys, then when you are confortable ask him out.
277308
Just because your in 8th grade doesn't mean you have to have a boyfriend!\n    Listen if you dont have a boyfriend it probably because your not ready, or if you like someone it's probably beacuse your not ready or don't feel comfortable telling them. You know just because your friends have boyfriends, or are always talking about them doesn't mean you have to get one. Maybe a guy likes you but is too scared to tell you...boys at this age are stupid and aren't ready to commit to a relationship. Believe me having a boyfriend isn't all that.....there is heartbreak no matter what. Just look at your friends when they are dumped...you really want that?\n    When your ready to have a boyfriend you should feel comfortable with that person ,and around them. If a guy only likes you for your looks than he's most likely a pervert. If a guy doesnt like you for your looks, or something like that then...well....first. he doesnt like you. second. he needs to stop being shallow.third.. he needs to get to know a girl b4 he goes out with you.Most guys date the pretty girls or skinny girls or w/e and then dump them because they are stuck-up and rude. lol. plus if you think its ur weight, its not. if a guy liks u it sould be your personality and whats in your heart. boyfriends arent everything these days.....ull thank me someday wen u find the right guy ull be happy u didnt go though out all the breakups and waited for the right guy!!!!\n     \n           *i wish you luck, and now i hope you understand looks arent everything!!!!!!!!!!
32063
You shouldn't try hard to find a guy who likes you. If a guy likes you, then he will like you for you. You don't have to pretend to be someone you think he will like, or anything like that. \n\nI didn't date until I was 16, and up until that point I had REALLY wanted a boyfriend. God gave me a boyfriend when I was ready for one. He is the most amazing person in the world. I am really glad I waited, otherwise I might have just over looked him.
638347
Talk to your boyfriend and tell him that you've realized you are not ready to jump into a relationship. We all miss-judge and make mistakes, he should understand that you were confused. I think he would appreciate your sincerity.
559118
No, not really... They'll find out somehow... You need to try and convince them that you are mature enough to have one...\n\nOr wait until you can get out on your own, then you can have as many boyfriends as you want...
870483
Ok, I wont say you're too young to have a boyfriend, I am going to say you're too young to have A boyfriend... You're still so young, go out and have fun..  date around first. Don't try to get serious so young.. You'll end up heartbroken, married, and with child like me... Anyway, just live life, don't worry about some boy. Besides, it sounds like he wants to do that same thing... explore! It's only natural. Don't know what you're missing till you get it.
786159
A lot of boys will only be interested in you if they think they can control you.  You don't want one like that. Being your own person is more important than having a boyfriend. Good luck !!!!!!!!!
1127224
you don't go out and look for a boyfriend...when the right guy comes in your life, it'll happen....but take your time so you get a Good boyfriend...
1030560
You should have friends that are boys.  I wouldn't think that you are ready for a one on one relationship with a boy yet.  That will come later when you are about 16 or so.
867306
You should just wait. When God has a guy for you he will let you and the guy know that this is Mr. Right.
377228
You don't need a boyfriend until you are done with school and living on your and are ready to start a life. Just live a little and go to Church and find a male friend there. Eventually, he might become the man you want.
687820
Well now, first you need to figure out what exactly you want out of this thing.  Do you want a friend, or do you want a boyfriend? You know what I mean? I think once you make up your mind, you'll know just how to handle it! \nGood Luck!