how to get someone off your back?
452894
just be frank with her, do not embarrass her... just take her aside and talk to her frankly, tell her you are not interested in having her in you life by any means and you would appreciate her understanding.\ntry to assertive and sure, but do not be mean!
383572
try to avoid him, or either tell him off.
372238
First of all, if a person is doing you harm behind your back , that person is NOT a friend!!\n\nPeople do vicious things to other people for various reasons.\nFind out WHY he is doing this.  Then find a compromise or common ground the both of you can agree on to stop this from happening.  By doing this you can create a win-win situation, which will improve your reputation among your peers, and prevent further damage.
798462
Learn how to get her off.
520516
Fight back and show that they are not getting to you. You are stronger than they are...they are obviously feeling threatened by your abilities. Good luck. You show em whos boss!!!
61389
You take it one day at a time. Get involved in other activities & hobbies & force yourself to ignore any of this person's attempts to get you back. You deserve better...just keep reminding yourself that you don't deserve to be hurt anymore...\n\nGood luck!
1163095
cut off all connections with this person\nget rid of all that reminds you of them\ngood luck
49360
you cant...however if this person pushes you away constantly, tell them how you feel, if that doesnt help, leave them be, sooner or later, they will come to terms
169316
yea, tell them to back off.  unless you like him.
300793
Just give them their space and let them work it out on their own.  Never take sides..Just listen if someone needs to talk..that's all.
341454
run jog walk, use the treadmill. do the "bicycle": lye on your back and move your legs (above ground) the way you would move a bicycle. it works. you can even bicycle against someone with their feet against yours.
592473
say that you have back problems. \n\nor suck it up and play. \nif you suck then make fun of yourself and act like a total dork. have fun. if your boyfriend cant except you for who you are then get rid of him.\n:))\n\n\noh and its school. no offense
132702
I had that happen to me It is just that the person that your trying to get to go away wants you even more the more you try to get rid of them you just need to lay it down that you dont want anything to do with them and ignore them if they talk to you
472279
It's hard to admit it. But honey! Let him go is the best solution. When man turned his head away, He would never turn back. Believe me.
450007
Get some spine in your body lady. Don let someone push around. You need to tell her to back off. In fact, you should tell her to she should leave the group because she is olding all of you back.\n\nJust stand your ground. This is life lesson 101. If you dont do it today, then you will have a hard time in life.
206208
avoid them and hang around with better people (thoses who are you friends no questions asked). also stop letting them use you can also be attempted so that they will get the hint and get lost.
33538
To get back at her, simply do nothing. By doing something that would make her crumble, you yourself will be a part of that mess and would not be pleasant if it was known that you did something or that you had even plotted against her. Eventually, she will reach a breaking point since nobody is truly perfect (no matter how close it seems). She probably has already annoyed other people to the point of abandonment.\n\nOverall, just ignore her. Try and try. You need to be the one to take her place :]