Ever had or thought about having an affair with a co-worker?
453037
I think about co worker, neighbor, my mans really hot friend...lol. and the ER doc that did my surgery...damn he was hot...lol....just thoughts...lol....
273792
Sure...you see an attractive person of the opposite sex and maybe think about it, but as long as you don't follow through or make any attempt to actually do anything I think it's natural.  As a girl, I personally think guys are much more vulnerable to this type of thinking (maybe vulnerable isn't the best word, but you know what I mean).  Yes, it would be devasting to your wife/gf if she found you having an affair.  But just looking at an attractive person isn't bad.  But don't go off flirting with them or anything like that.  Use that energy on your wife/gf!
755002
Yes - unfortunately, I have.\n\nI tend to get obsessed with women I can't have and I can't figure out how to back out of the situation gracefully. Unfortunately, this means that I end up getting embarrassed, and getting my feelings hurt.
261979
Dont ever get involved with a coworker. If it doesnot work out you have created an uncomfortable work enviroment.
206855
No. No. No.  Eventually it will affect your work, the relationship with other co-workers.  And in the end, if you get fired, you can only think...  If you start dating, sex cannot be far behind.\n\nBased on your question, it can be said you do like your boss and you do have feelings for them, even though you say you have none - but it's in the air.  There's also sexual tension coming from your boss.\n\nAnd the answer is still NO!
530422
well i have never cheated but not saying i havent thought about it.\nfor me if i did it would be for the reason that someone else would be new and exciting \ni guess different\nbut it wouldn't last long and then i would be in a divorce so thats why i dont
1082618
I was caught by a boss and his assistant having sex with a coworker under a staircase, then I was caught on camera having sex in the staff room with an entirely different person !\nI left that job shortly after.
1162571
Yes.  I dreamed I saw my husband having sex in our home with my best friend.  I confronted him and it turned out to be true.  They were having an affair, and he was very unnerved when I told him how I knew.
698665
I have many a times!\nEither the relationship gets boring as hell, or the pace of it is moving too damn slow!
896728
Have you tried sleeping with him?
505579
YES, its way normal to have an imagination. I do that often as well. What I would do to be able to grab the back of my coworkers ratted hair and slam her head on the desk a few times......
848235
this why people say no affairs at work.\n\ndon't let it happen again.
97447
I don't think people look for it as much as they just find it.  With both people working in a marriage, you spend more time with co-workers than you do with your spouse.  When that happens, work relationships can turn into sexual relationships.   One day at work I turned to a co-worker of mine and I said to him, "Do you realized that you and I are the only two employees here that haven't been in an affair?"  I worked with about twenty people and the next month he was in an affair also.
1175955
I think this is pretty much a done deal.  You can't go back and change it.  Consider it a lesson learned.  Never mix work and sex.\nNow, put on a happy face, go back into work, and don't let it happen again.
948562
I was totally into a guy at work.  He was soooo sweet and sooo adorable.  We were talking on the phone one morning after work and he asked me to come over.  I was sooo excited, but when I got there, I realized he was fat.  Seriously fat and I could tell he was very self conscious about it.  I wanted to turn around and walk out but I felt so sorry for him that I did it anyway.  He was actually really good, though.  Like three times really good!!!!!!
1150720
yes, i think it's very possible to do that, and am pretty sure i do it alot.  it's the whole defensive wall thing.  my daughter told me the other day this girl in the restaurant was blatantly flirting with me and I didn't acknowledge at all, she was quite hot too.
471408
work relationships are complicated, they can distract you. if it all goes wrong theres always a pretty high chance you'll end up office gossip. plus alot of companies frown on it so if u do go there, keep it quiet.x