Gay couple moving... need help finding a good place.?
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It's great that your putting some thought into your move. I have seen too many gay guys (especially younger ones) get into a real bind because they moved to "Fabulous" gay areas like Hawaii or New York City that were way too expensive for them. I have met many gay guys who moved to Chicago from smaller towns that often have a tough time adapting to the expenses of living in a large urban area. \n\nFirst I would encourage both of you to make your education a priority, as I am sure you know the opportunities and earning potential for someone with a college education are better. \n\nIf you can't go to school full time, you may want to live somewhere with affordable colleges such as community colleges or a branch of a state university. College towns are usually more liberal and open minded then most communities. Most college towns also have active gay and lesbian communities that will be helpful when moving to a new town.\n\nIf you live in Texas have you thought of moving to Austin ? a university, thriving economy, active gay community ? Other towns that come to mind are Kansas City, Denver, Columbia, MO, and Phoenix.  \n\nI live in Chicago which has a large thriving gay community but it is expensive and if you have never lived in a large urban area or are used to long, cold winters this could take some time to adjust.
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well, the gay thing rules out my first choice, a church, but u could get involved in the community. Join an organization in the town, there is bound to be at least one lesbian in the town.
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If you are moving to Tampa, go to South Tampa.  I have lived in Tampa my whole life and have seen every area.  Trust me South Tampa is where it is at.
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I guess it depends on what you are looking for specifically.  I moved to Burlington, VT 4 yrs ago.  It is safe, beautiful and extremely kid friendly with a lot of family geared activities.  However, the lack of diversity is a problem for me, but....it is changing.  hope this helps and good luck!
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I would suggest the New Bern area.  Housing prices are now going up, but the people are friendly and the area is beautiful.
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the river walk, there are several clubs along the river walk and a real good gay club not far from the alamo or river walk called bohnam exchange\n\nenjoy
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as for your map, sorry however I do know that London, Ontario, Canada has a wedding chaple here that is esspecially for gay couples
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The obvious place is the gay bars (yes, I'm gay), if you're not into the bar scene try internet dating sites...go to yahoo search and type in " gay personals " and see what you come up with\nor type in " free gay personals "  you can email me at kenp_30@yahoo.com  My name is Ken
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I would check the Internet for community groups or organizations within a reasonable distance near your town. \n\nThere are many great accepting gay organizations nation wide that would welcome you with open arms. \n\nWho knows? Maybe you will find Mr. Right there. \n\nGood Luck - Jude
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We have relocated many times: \n\nFirst of all..do you work for a company that can transfer  you to that area? What is the draw there? Family? Friends?\n\nI would take a vacation to the area to make sure you like it first. Research the weather and community to make sure they are amenities you would want. \n\nLook for housing to see how expensive it is...go grocery shopping...all the things you would do if you lived there. \n\nThen look for jobs and see if you are employable in that area. See what the median income range is and make sure that you would be able to afford the cost of living for that area! \n\nMake sure that any family you would be moving with you is on board with the idea! Do you need to look at school districts for your kids? Is your wife ok with the move? Will your partner need to leave their job to acoomodate this move? Will your mom stop talking to you? \n\nAFter you do your research...then..try to get a job first. \n\nAFter you have a job..you can always live in a motel for a month or so while you look for an apartment or house or you can look online especially if you did your research while you were there. \n\nmove your stuff, sell your home where ever you are now with a trusted agent...and enjoy your new life!!\n\nNow, if your company offers a transfer..that is different! The company may have a relocation service available to them and you will already have a job..but make sure that you can afford the cost of living on your salary!
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craigslist.com has personals for these kinds of things in every major city.  also your local independent paper will have ads for gay bars and clubs, and other things of interest to the gay community.
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Try Craigslist.  Start here...\nhttp://losangeles.craigslist.org/about/cities.html\n\nFind the city you live in, or live closest to.\n\n\nThis is a large community site with free ads for housing \nand rentals, finding new friends or lovers, pen pals, items \nfor sale, want ads, personals, services, job openings, \nlocal events and classes, and global discussion forums, ...\n\n\nThey have personals sections to post free ads.\n\nYou can post for a one-night-stand, all the way to \nmarriage, and everything in-between!  Straight, gay, bi- or \n???\n\n\nBest of luck,\nJeffrey
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Try Craigslist.  Start here...\nhttp://losangeles.craigslist.org/about/cities.html\n\n\nFind the city you live in, or live closest to, or are \nplanning to visit.\n\nThis is a large community site with free ads for housing \nand rentals, finding new friends or lovers, pen pals, \nvarious items for sale, want ads, personals, services, job \nopenings, local events and classes, and global discussion \nforums, ...\n\nThey have personals sections to post free ads.\n\nYou can post for a one-night-stand, all the way to \nmarriage, and everything in-between!  Straight, gay, bi- or \n???\n\n\nBest of luck,\nJeffrey
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If you truly love him and him, you, then I would find a way to see him.  Talk about the both of you moving to a more central location if possible.  Thats really not that far a drive but can be a hassle.
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I have some high chool friends that moved out there after they got married. they love it. good place to raise a family.
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Church would probably be the best place. I need a good husband and they are hard to find. People tell me of different places..... bars and such. But I really think church is a good place.
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Some churches welcome openly gay people and couples[yes even in Atlanta] that might be a place to look for someone who wants a LTR. Try the Lutherans I think they welcome every one here in Fla. Remember God made all of us and God doesn't make mistakes!