my bf's family came to know abt me n v dont wanna lose each other wat 2 do?pls help..!?
448499
u can say right to them honestly and truthful.if they love your boy and think about his life, they accept you as a good girl and allowed you to marry with her.
602959
Hi, what you feel now is understandable, especially at this age,well-known as crisis of teenager period. But please trust me, if your parents separated it is not because of you and you should not be selfish,they have a right to live their own lives,if they do not want to be together. Would you prefer them to pretend and play happy family when they may not be happy together. Believe me, if they are apart it does not mean they love you less - both love and cherish you and your task now to help them by being understandable. You will understand them when you will start dating and get married. Put yourself in their position: will you live with a person you are not in love anymore. I mean they still love each other but it different love, not passionate. Please be understandable you are mature enough,be brave.
661964
Why, because of the age difference? most people only stay together for a couple years any more anyways. have fun and see where it goes. if you and him are fine with it , why should it matter to everyone else, does your family want someone that will use you and throw you away like a spent condom? their use to be a stigma against interracial coupling , but that has pretty much faded, you are a pioneer, making the way for future generations.
798829
Move out and move on.  You are obviously not happy with him and you need to do what is best for you.  Be positive and strong and discuss the situation with your family.  Good luck.
982665
I wudn't go on any1's.......Tell them that u love both of them dearly and u wudn't wanna lose any1 of them, but it's there fight and they shud be able to get out of it... Give them time and practice ur statement. GOOD LUCK!!
128211
The only way a family will believe you is for them to meet him and get to know him.  An online relationsip is a great start but for a relationship to progress it needs to move into the real world and than includes meeting your family.  If you love him and he loves you and then meeting your family will show them this and they will hopefully accept him.
439689
Well after you get married what are they going ot do, refuse to like him still? Do what you wan't and marry who you love. This might be more of a case where you should look at your relationship with your folks and why would they not wan't you to marry the one you love.
58817
why doesnt your mom like this guy and his family? most likely she looking out for you. i know its how to see or understand that at time but its true. i had dated this one person once and my mom did like her b/c she was bi and she said keep on talk about how it couldnt work out b/c she woould want somting that i couldnt give her...while to make a long story short she was right. you family are always going to protect you from getting hurt by others.
1044433
you should keep on dating him its not whats on the outside that matters its what is on theinside imagine if you do break up with him how hes gonna feel and you 2 if u love being wit him and he might be the one stick wit him and you should tell ur family that his race or age doesnt matter
519457
I GUESS UR FAMILY IS THINKING THAT U MIGHT GO ASTRAY IN A RELATIONSHIP. IF UR MATURE ENOUGH U MIGHT UNDERSTAND IT. IF U R CONFIDENT ENOUGH GO FOR IT.
1133482
try to strike a balance. your family loves you.\nmine did the same for me and i was glad i could help however i could.\nbut, remind them that your time is limited and set boundaries for yourself with them. good luck
827423
Ummm I don't know how old u r, but really that doesn't matter... stay away from the sister's bf....STAY AWAY FROM THE SISTER'S BF!!  All that will happen is drama drama drama.  Stick with your b/f or go find a better one...but you need to distance yourself from your sister's relationship now before it goes any further!!!
541788
Ok I completly understand what both you and him are going through cause I have been there and done that, therefor my advice to you is if you really think and feel you love him try to understand his point even if you don't agree or like it very much. What it sounds like he is doing is avoiding having confrontations with his family and you. The less they know the less they will nag at him, they less they nag the better mood you will see him in. Think of it in a positive way he just wants to avoid problems between his family you and him, besides its also a healthier realationship for both of you, never know he may be thinking of taking the relationship a step higher and want to move in together in a few months and when he does he will drop the bom on them, just keep your eyes open at all times giving everyone and anything the benifit of a dought. Good Luck and take things easy enoy your time
590928
in a relaxed setting, when there calm, etc. if you know that your bf is a good guy i wouldn't worry about your family not accepting him. if its otherwise, i'd think of some crafty way to do it.
188168
No, it's not fair.. but then it sounds like NONE of it is fair.. it sounds to me as though your family has much deeper problems than whether they should accept your engagement or not.  That is a very minor thing, I think.  There are problems there that should be faced and they have absolutely NOTHING to do wtih your fiance or your engagement.  Try to look at your relationship with your fiance objectively.. and your relatinship with your family also..  as harsh as it may sound, being disowned in some situations is not the worst that can happen.  I hope that is not the case with you.  Listen to what they have to say.. hope that they listen to what YOU have to say.. and then think it through with an adult and responsible mind.. and do what you feel is best for YOU. No one else.. you have to look out for yourself, ok?   Good luck.
322162
Keep talking to your brother,he seems to be the only person in your family acting like a grown-up!You are entitled to your beliefs and he is your brother,losing him would be like losing an arm,so keepthe lines of communication open and hopefully your parents and sister will come round,good luck,stay strong.
1076094
Right now, just don't take sides. Trust your boyfriend and try to keep your cousin out of your relationship. It doesn't matter who did or didn't. If you can keep them apart then do so. Tell your boyfriend that with the current situation, you don't feel comfortable with them being together. Make sure to tell him that you trust him. Don't make him feel like it's his fault or you may lose him.\n\n~Pancake