Give me some good tips about how to have a time fingering myself lol?
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Sadly, girls fingers are usually not long enough to do the trick.  If you really wanna good time you need to buy a toy that would, get your bf to do it (if u have one), and if not call me, im hot, 21, and single.  1-567-230-0675 ask for Clay call me at home at 1-419-927-9555
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Well, if he loves surprises try this; my wife tried it and it works like a charm :)\n\nStart slowly the usual way as if this were just going to be the typical, garden variety style, you know? If it gets too slow, just do a little dirty talk so that you can buy some time........At the precise moment when he says the words "I'm gonna cum, etc. etc. ..just prior to climax.......scream out these words ver batim.."Chuck Norris ass-raped me in the Singapore Zoo panda cage!!! My tits are full of cream cheese and sausage!!!!  Midgets taste like lamb when you grill them on an open flame!! I am a convicted felon and I fuck the milkman when yu are at work!!!!!KILL ME! CHOKE ME!!!!!
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get urself realy worked up like to the point were u would hump a table leg insert ur middle finger in ur vagina about  3 quarters of an inch u should feel a spongy spot that feels like the soft spot on the roof of ur mouth thats ur g spot rub that for a while and that should do the trick
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Give her loads of compliments and take it slowly. Take your time over foreplay and give her lots of attention. Talk about things you enjoy and get her to show you how she pleasures herself. She is the best person to tell you what she enjoys so make talking about it fun and lighthearted and be open minded to her answers.
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Just use 2 fingers and feel around...believe me a woman will tell you by her body movement what she likes...
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Want to be more confident when you, er, take matters into your own hands? These "manual sex" techniques (my editor won't let me say hand job) will make him want to give you a round of applause  - not to mention return the favor.\nPick Your Position\n\nAre you left-handed or right-handed? Which is your "best" side? All too often, women try to deliver the goods in a position that feels uncomfortable or unnatural. You are allowed to move, you know! Simply roll over on top of him or straddle his lap, plant a long, slow, delicious kiss, then climb off to the side that suits you. Don't be scared to deviate from the usual side-by-side position either. Try him standing in front of you while you sit on the edge of a bed or lie on your back while he hovers above you straddling your tummy.\nUse the Slippery Stuff\n\nWomen have (rather handy) built-in lubrication systems, but men don't. So when they masturbate, they use lubrication such as moisturizing lotion. A dry penis is a sensitive one; it likes gentle stroking. Sliding your hand up and down the shaft  - the standard male masturbation technique  - can feel more like a vicious yank than an erotic escapade when done without lube. Saliva is better than nothing, but clever girls come prepared with good-quality personal lubricant. He'll be pleased, not turned off, when he sees the tube, so don't feel remotely embarrassed squeezing some into your palm. But don't use too much; being too generous removes friction entirely.\nGet a Grip\n\nSexperts worldwide dispense the same advice on this one: Women need to be touched softer and slower; men need to be touched harder and faster. Lots of women make the mistake of being scared of his most prized part. Holding it between finger and thumb like it's made of spun glass isn't sexy  - it makes him think you don't really want to touch it. Instead, take a good, firm hold and move into a well-practiced, self-assured technique.\nPractice Until You're a Pro\n\nSimply read up about hand-job techniques, and you're liable to give up before you've even started  - it sounds like reinventing the Rubik's Cube! Try some moves out, however, and you soon realize it's more like connecting the dots. Keen to impress but don't want to look like a twit in front of your new lover? Practice on a prop, such as a curtain rod or a carrot. This is the basic motion you need to master: slide up, circle, slide down the other side. More specifically, grasp your hand firmly around the base of the penis, and slide it upward until it reaches the head. Once you're there, pause  - and rub your palm over the head in small, slow, sexy circles. Next, let your hand drop naturally down the other side of the penis, grasping the shaft until you're back to base camp again, but on the opposite side with your hand facing the opposite way. Do that 10 times, with each motion lasting 10 seconds, then add one quick, firm, up-and-down pump stroke. Repeat that cycle over and over, each time adding an extra up and down. But decrease the number of pumps if he's dangerously close to losing it (and you've got other plans on how to use that erection!).\nEmploy Backup\n\nIf you only use your hands, you risk having to dispense the longest hand job in the entire world due to overstimulation. No matter how deft and clever your handiwork, most men enjoy (often need) extra stimulation to intensify and speed up the process of orgasm. So while one hand is working on his penis, use the other to cradle his testicles or stroke a nipple. Use your tongue on his testicles or nibble his neck, the inside of his thighs and his nipples. Try holding one hand in an L position firmly at the base of his penis, pulling the skin back from the base (in the direction of his pelvis). Not only does it make him look bigger, but it also heightens sensitivity.\nUse Props\n\nIf you and your guy are adventurous types (and even if you're no
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1)Well first off, don't be intimate wit a lot of girls. Dats nasty...\n\n2)Da tongue is not all you use but if you do...please use it well cuz a female will express dat if she doesn't like it. Sumtimes combine it with fingers if she likes dat. Stick your tongue in...Don't be scared of da pusssy and it's fluid cuz it will happen and all over your chin, nose and face.LOL!\n\n3)Must kiss lips and lick nipples and touch parts to stimulate her. BE GENTLE.\n\n4)Don't be afraid just beacuse you're new at it...doesn't mean you're gonna be bad. My first time was with an extra experienced girl and she neva knew she was my first.\n\n5)It also depends on your role. Are you butch? Is she butch? Sum butches don't like to be touched on their breasts and genital area. They are juss fine pleasing their girl. Also I am butch but I like to be touched. I juss don't like to be penetrated. Most feminine chicks do. I havent met one who hasn't. Strap not recommended unless requested by your lover. Just ask her what she likes and truss they'll tell you.\n\n6)Also grinding...what people don't realize is dat da female orgasm is achieved from da clitoris not da interior so basically a man without a penis is da perfect man during sex and dats pretty much a woman cuz you don't have one and you're right on da clitoris. I have made my girl cumm da hardest doin dat. Kiss her while you're doing dat. \n\nAlso you need to get a feel for your lover and what you feel comfortable doin together. My girl I feel made me better in bed and open to tryin new ways to pleasure her or recieve pleasure. \n\nIf you have anymore advice email me jusslisten@yahoo.com \nI don't mind giving you tips on here. I really need to know if you and your girl are butch or femme.\n\ngood luck and have fun\ndont be nervous.\n\n-m
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When you feel yourself coming, stop what you are doing, and don't move until the feeling goes away. Once it does, slowly go back to the motion. Once you feel yourself coming again, stop, and remain still until it goes away. Do this several times, every time you are making love to a woman or masturbating. In fact, you can get in plenty of practice from masturbating. No joke intended.\n\nWhat you are doing is plainly obvious. You are training your body and brain to hold off the orgasm for just a few seconds more. As time goes by, with you training yourself, you will find that you can last up to fifteen minutes of constant thrusting if you want. Although she wouldn't want it, because, again, most women's bodies can't produce enough fluid to keep their vaginas from drying out for that long. So you may not even want to shoot for fifteen minutes. It's not really necessary.\n\nWhen doing this technique with your lover, be in your most favorite position. You may have read from other sources that instruct you to do the opposite, because when you are in your favorite position, it will only make you come faster. Well, you want to be in your favorite position, because you WANT to train your brain and body. Why stay away from your favorite position?!\n\nIf you are VERY sensitive to being inside of a woman, to where you come to orgasm with juts a few minutes, you may want to buy a "Pocket P*ssy." This may sound strange to many of you, but a pocket p*ssy fells almost like the real thing. Using this sex toy to practice with works wonders. Don't laugh. It works.\n\nStart doing this training right now. In just a few weeks, maybe longer, you will find that you can hold your orgasms from happening longer. It's a surprisingly effective technique.
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You should know that anal sex can be very, very pleasurable, even orgasmic, when done right, so don't give up hope!\n\nYour partner needs to understand that your anus needs a little preparation.  Have him finger you, starting with one (lubricated) finger, and work his way up to three...slowly!  When you two graduate to penile penetration, make sure there's plenty of lube (the rule of thumb:  if you're think you're using too much, you're using just enough), and have him go SLOWLY, allowing you to become comfortable before he proceeds.\n\nPlus, make sure you're CALM.  Nerves will tighten you up!\n\nYou should push out as if you're having a BM, and while it's not very intimate, being on all fours will allow you to be the most "open," ideal for this situation.  Save the fancy positions until you've become pros  :)\n\nWith that in mind - patience, calmness, and lots of lube - you should expect a very, very good time!\n\n\nI hope that helps, hun!\n\n\nps) don't EVER use lube that "numbs" the area!  The idea is help you enjoy it too, not cease to feel anything so he can get his rocks off!  :(     Unacceptable!
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Try to be confident first of all.\n\nTake his penis in your hand and hold it firmly but not too tight. Begin stroking gently from tip to base. Use wrist action rather than your arm because this can be more gentle.\nWhen you are ready, take the tip of his penis between your lips and gently suck the tip. Use your tongue to moisten, then slowly go down, taking his penis as far as you feel comfortable. Try to curl your lip over so you don't catch him on your teeth. some women can't take it all because your natural gag reflex stops you, but take as much as you can. When you come back up, start sucking gently at first, then continue going down on him, sucking all the time.\nTake a quick breather by just rolling your tongue around the tip and use your hand to continue stimulation. \nVary the suction power and the speed and always keep him guessing.\nAs you are sucking, gently rub his balls too. If he is laying down, just stroke the bit of skin that is between his balls and his bum. There is a sensitve spot there that if you apply gentle pressure can really drive him wild.\n\nA lot of men like to put their hands on your head. some will just stroke your hair back because they like to watch and others will gently push your head further onto their penis. Try to go with it, but if you are at all uncomfortable stop!\nAs you are sucking, look up and watch his face. Show him you using your tongue because this is also a turn on for some men.\n\nThere really is no perfect way to 'give head' just relax and go with the flow. Try to relax and enjoy yourself.\nThere is no shame in not being able to swallow. If it is your first time it could be a bit of a shock, so allow him to c.um and taste it first............... you might actually like it!! \n\nGood luck x
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use baby oil, it gives the wildest sensation, try cyber sex, it helps when someone is doing it with u
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Start with some gentle 4play and then... Turn that pu$$y OUT!! give it special attention, and get creative. You can start by using your hands while you kiss on her neck and lips, then if you REALLY wanna please her, you could try some oral. And finish her off with a good deep f^ck! \n\nWhen she can barely catch her breath and gets vocal with deep moans and soft screams, you hittin that spot. And if it gets really good to her, she might even call out your name. Not in that subtle fake way, i mean really scream your name out. Then you deffinately hittin it right.\n\nAnd when its all over, she'll be knocked out like a newborn baby. Then she'll wake up, and clean the house and make you somthin to eat. Congratualations, you handled that @ss like a pro!\n\n~Hope that helps! mwah*
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Sit in your computer chair with pants on and use vibrator, rock back and forth while looking at smut. mmm good. or open your drapes a hair and lay on your back and envision someone peeking through watching. Voyerism. Or use, a dildo and spread legs doggie style and put vibrator on floor and ride it up and down. Or use your imagination and i bet you can make yourself cum.
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foreplay is a must. i'm not saying you have to do it for an hour but i think atleast 2-3 minutes is needed
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Use some kind of lube - whatever you have to hand\n\nMoisturiser will do, oilier the better\n\nDon't expect to be good at this right away, your arm may not have the stamina!\n\nMost importantly, if you feel you're getting nowhere, ask him if he wants it to be gripped harder, pulled faster, etc\n\nMy gf is excellent at this now, but it took a few years
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Dude - just relax when having sex, and don't get caught up in how good your c.o.c.k. feels during it.  Concentrate on pleasing your partner!  Try spankin it until just before you c.u.m. and then stop -- don't allow yourself to shoot. It may be difficult at first, but with practice you will learn to control you orgasm. Happy f...ing!
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Dude.. \nFirstly build a confidence. Don't be nervous before act and don't prejudice that u will end up early..\nSecondly, work it out..yeh..she told it right.. Masturbation is grt exercise for that.. but u need to do it with an intention to stand long.. Just thrust 5 times and stop (count 1 to 5).. then repeat.. this will give u more fun and increase your stamina also..\n3rd.. do a good foreplay to satisfy ur partner but enter your instrument only once she reaches peak