is it true? Do nice guys finish last?
438923
It may seem like it, but eventually life experience will teach you that nice guys don't finish last, most young girls just have to through the illusion of the not so nice guys to realize how they really want to be treated. If you are truly a nice guy, don't let the disappointments of other peoples actions make you change...they'll need you before you need them and they'll be the losers when you are the successful one... by then, they won't matter to you. Check out the "gorgeous" girls 10 years from now!
1064653
It depends how you define win and what it is you are winning. \n\nBeing nice makes us feel like a loser because we're taken advantage of.  Maybe you're missing the point, we may have lost, but we won in some other way. \n\nI don't think the good girls out there would go for bad guys. I don't think cheating gets you anywhere in the end. \n\nGood guys win the real battles. Good nice guys win the girl. Nice guys win in life.\n\nUnless you're nice guy, you're winning the wrong battle. In short, only nice guys win the right battle.
352897
it depends if the guy has a nice personality. =)
268848
Nice guys finish last doll and it takes us dumb women a long time to see that, we want the bad boys and sometimes it gets us in trouble.   \n\nI also believe that foreplay if you will starts at the word hello it's that soft touch, a hand on the shoulder or the small of a back or the slow dance that makes the night, jerks that look at you and nod their greasy heads towards the floor well that's being forceful. \n \nAlso to explain something else my husband use to be one of these jerks.\n\n When I meet him the first time he was just a jerk looking for a smoke, \n\nthe next time I saw him he was shooting straw papers at me from across the bar, \n\nthen I meet him again and he was a short order cook and I was helping his girlfriend hold onto him,\n \nA month later he asked me out and I told him no I wanted to be friends, \n\nand now 13 years later I married him, he has changed, and we have a son, \n\nso for some these jerks there is hope, but then some not.\n \n\nBut you darlin if I weren't married to a nice guy you'd would be 1st on the list. hope that boost ya a liitle by the way nice 360, yeah i had to check it out, sorry.\n Black belt huh, wow ok good night.
329577
nope sorry! is he a nice guy?
324138
Of course the saying goes to each cat their own rat. Not everyone loves the bad boys and most nice guys eventually do win in one form or another. The most interesting thing ive heard as to why this occurs is that its some kind of evolutionary kick in type of thing. When looking for someone to mate with, pass on you genes, stop the biological clocks ticking, whatever you want to call it, women (conciously or not) look for a dominant, assertive, more evolutionarily "fit" man. These type of guys are typically the ones you describe, though they arent all abusive and unfaithful as much as they are assertive and aggressive. If you believe women decide what role a man is going to play very shortly after they meet them, then it stands to reason that a more assertive approach = more response from women, as a boring or too nice approach takes a little longer to cultivate.
978676
I should hope not .. People say Im pretty and I have hot guys always pestering me .. but they arent nice guys .. they only care about a girls appearence. I like nice guys!
300696
As a nice guy myself, I can assure you that women don't want nice guys.\n\nHowever, since you cook, clean and do laundry, I'll let you move in.  Just don't expect me to put out.
79620
I like nice guyz because they give you RESPECT un like bad boyz who don't. To me it doesn't matter if they are alone or with their friends but it would be easier to talk to a guy that is not with his friends.
631852
no some guys are just genuinely nice. i do favors for any friend, male or female. just because a guy is nice to you it doesnt always mean he wants sex.
129392
maybe the answer lies in the fact that most person seem to like or want what they can't or don't  have, instead of appreciating what is already theirs. With the bad boys, you never really have them. Nice guys are always there and available. Although they might not admit it, most women find that boring somehow. Probably women feel they have the uoer hand on nice guys who realy care, and that just is not attractive to them. The same works with men toward women I think. A lot o men willl take the nice woman, but go after a totall different type at the same time.
301991
Absolutelly not go for it, from a guy we are very chicken at times especially the nice guys the more agressive guys that would ask you out without breaking out in a sweat are probably not nice guys. Being confident is a sign of knowing what you want and sure of yourself a rare thing. I wouldn't say it would come off as desperate. Just knowing what you want and going for it!
31284
There are some nice guys.  One of my friends has turned down sex from girls because he thought they were moving too fast, and he wanted a long term relationship with a nice girl.  The problem is that these guys are not normally the "popular" ones.  Even though they can be very cute they are probably also quite shy.  Also, never let anyone pressure you into sex.  If the guy really cares about you, then he will wait.
1039507
Many women say they wish there were more nice guys in the world. I bet most women want to know why there are so many A-holes in the world. Well I will answer that but most women will not like the answers. The truth is that 9 times out of 10 a nice guy will finish last. Face it a guy you call ‘a so sweet guy’ is usually followed by the word ‘friend’, not ‘date’. Nice guys are not exciting to allot of women, but bad boys are sexy. A bad boy represents danger, thrills, and excitement. All these factors go hand in hand with sexuality. I’m sorry to say that there are many bad boys in the world because they have figured out women love A-holes. Just look at how many girls complain about being with an A-hole, if you were with him he did something right. You do not see any posts of women complaining about the large number of competition for the squeaky cleanest boy in town.
522383
Ever heard the words..."nice guys finish last"...well its true, treat her like shit, ignore her and see how long it takes for her to come back. Girls like a little competition and some challenge in a relationship...trust me I have been there. If all else fails, kick her to the curb and find another girl that is worth your adoration. Good luck.
594262
I think it depends on how you portray your confidence.  A lot of times guys think they are just being confident, but to everyone else it seems like they're being cocky.  There's a fine line.
490546
Personally, I like a guy to come up to me first, I guess maybe that's because I'm a little shy myself. They say good guys finish last and I guess as the saying is also for girls that is why I am still single myself, but in reality although women may seem attracted to bad boys so to speak I think that all they really want at the end of the day is a nice good guy. Perhaps consider being more forward, I know it feels hard but women will respect you for that. If you're good looking and are really a nice guy then you don't need to worry about a thing, she'll come along soon enough.\nHey, if I had met you myself already I probably would have taken the need for you to ask that question straight out of your mind ;o)\nGood luck, relax and try to have fun out there. x