Do you think its possible for a swinger to stop swinging for the rest of his life?
452800
It depends on the person.\n\nHuman nature and habit are two really tough aspects of life.\n\nThe person has to want to. If there is no strong intent to stop swinging, forget it. He's only fooling himself and hurting those around him.
453415
Girlfriend; there isn't any thing innocent about being a swinger, once you start you don't stop, he lied to you straight off jump street. Swinging can get mighty KINKY.
449653
Yes. I know some of them. Once you get to a certain age, it seems, you have your own way of doing things and begin to enjoy that freedom of not compromising.
659064
Yes they can do that....you want the truth....stop having sex until you are married....then she won't have to be checked for something she has no business doing right now.  The two of you need to build a strong relationship (without sex) if that can last.....hey, you may have a good future together.  But, for now, yes...there are ways to know if a person is sexually active.
1145568
is it conflicting your natural process of life?? if so then yes. \nif you do it in all of your free time, than i don't really see it as a problem. but if you have stopped doing other things to do it..than yes. you do.
361194
YES-when I was 23,kicked him so hard I  broke my toe(found out he cheated on me.) Now 35,would I do it again--no-I stick his balls in a Fn' blender and make him a unique
916146
Your imagination will die off if you never use it.\n-\nMy golfing skills have died off. I was a scratch golfer. \nI don't play anymore. I'd have a hard time breaking 90 now\n-\nMost machinery will die if you never use it. They'll simply freeze up.\n.
335403
wow. that is a tough question.  Imagine what the world would be like if we could all figure out the secret to your question.  I think a lot of this happens as we age.  weather it be due to a chemical change of hormones, or the experience we gain as we grow i couldn't say. I do however believe that we can make a conscious effort to mature in that way.  somethings you could do is intentionally deny yourself of something that really isn't adding anything to your quality of life but that you really enjoy (chocolate, TV, shopping spree, etc.).  This way you will teach yourself self discipline and will be able to see the bigger picture Little bit better.  Karate was something that taught me a lot of self discipline and i would suggest it if that is something you can afford.  if not try milking cows.  another thing you could try doing is serving others.  just do something for someone that you don't have to do that will help that person.  if you can try doing it without being recognized.
6859
Heck no, Tiger is raking in the money. He'll never retire as long as he has a chance to beat Jack Nicklaus's record for winning major championships. He also has a good shot at winning the most tournaments all time, which is currently held by I think Sam Snead at around 80. \n\nTiger wants to be the greatest ever, so he won't retire until he's exhausted all his skills to achieve that goal.
586851
OK...all the answers have a good point....but here is another side of the coin...First off, Did he say you needed to be with the other girl.????\nI have been in a couple of threesomes myself and the ladies where both straight...Now another point....think about maybe having a threesome with him and another man..both guys for your pleasure...See what he says about that....If you go to him with this idea.....Hey you want to have a threesome...OK....you and I and another man....If he is really a player or a swinger he will say OK..or he will forget about the whole thing.\n\nNow on the issue of needing sex....I am 41 years old...I grave sex all the time..I can never get enough sex...Is it a medical problem......HELL NO....It is a guy problem.Tell me of any guy that does not think of sex all the time..I will show you a gay man...\n\nThe issue of not being able to leave him bothers me...Why you say.????\nWe all have the right as being american to choose our paths in life...If his path is not going in the direction of your path..then hun it is time to cut bait...\nI am not sure of your age or your lifestyle.....I just wish more people would think of themselfs in times like this and make a move to better them selfs.it is not like it would involve anything other then your future.....Think about it....\nIf you would like to chat about the swing lifestyle feel free to e-mail me at tanear1964@yahoo.com..I have been a swinger for 18 years....I may be able to give you a little more insite into the world....I hope this helps....
49788
I learned probably 80% of what I learned in golf from caddying for six years. You see a lot of different swings, good and bad. My suggestion might be just to watch a lot of golf; see what people do. See what's comfortable for you, then get out and practice, and find something that works. What Tiger does for a good swing might not be what you do for a good swing.
1007338
Strangely enough swinging IS becoming more common.  I attribute this to the Internet. Meeting couples prior to the Internet involved swing clubs and or advertising in swing magazines. The success ratio in these traditional ways of meeting couples was pretty slim.  The Internet offers a degree of anonymity where you can discuss, trade pictures, and converse with others who are curious or into this lifestyle. You can ease into it and just as quickly back out unlike placing an ad, or walking into a club. It's not for everyone however. It's been described as a "marriage enhancer, or destroyer." For us it's been an unbelievable marriage enhancer!  We've been together 15 years and married 8. We feel we are solid.  We're now 4 years into this "lifestyle" and there has NEVER once been any feelings of jealousy or insecurity or whatever. We enjoy it for what it is. Pure unadulterated pleasure.
990902
Most that know my wife and I have no idea that we have been swingers for years.  The reason why most do not know is because of the closed-mindedness of most.  We love to get out a few weekends a month and hang out with other couples. We are definitely happy with each other and it makes our sex life when it is just us two even better.
635548
tell him you do not like what he'd doing. if he doesn't stop, start talking about other guys and swingers, etc.\n\nor you can do the easier part. dump him. he is absolutely self-centered that he's probably not worth moping on
717979
grow up and don't do it. he might have some pain stopping. \n\nnothing in life is easy. bottom line it's just a choice.\n\neither stop cold turkey. or continiute to destroy his life.\n\nyou can't have your cake and eat it too. it is one or the other.
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=years ago I married a bonifide PSYCHOPATH.  Of course I didn't know it at the time he was so charming and absolutely perfect in every way.  Then the problems surfaced.  He unwillingly went to a psychiatrist who told me it would take at least 10 years of therapy to "re-wire" his brain and asked me if I would be willing to hang in there.  I said yes, anything for my husband.  Long story short..he quit seeing the psychiatrist cause he thought the doctor was trying to extort money from him, his problems got worse and we got divorced.  True story.
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You will not make the descision for him or her.  As a ex-smoker, it was not my wife who made me want to stop - even though she tried for 20years - I made the choice.  Give it time, and when they do give up don't talk about it, just let them get on with it.