How can i tell my friend she is a worthless like brat withour hurting her feelings?
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A friend does not talk like this about another friend.  Maybe you need to re-evaluate yourself to determine who the real "brat" is.\n\nHow do you think your friend would feel if she heard that you are talking behind her back and making fun of her?  How would you feel if it was being done to you?  Never, ever treat someone any differently than you yourself would like to be treated.\n\nMaybe you need to tell your friend what a "brat" you are and suggest that she deserves a better friend than what you are capable of being.
529902
OUCH! Dude! WTF?  Just say you're sorry and explain to her how she makes you feel about yourself and that you were just venting.  She does not sound very reasonable anyway so all you can do is try.
515264
Life's hard enough without having our 'friends' treat us like that. Tell her it was nice knowing her but you feel your friendship has fizzled out & you need your own space & so on. Don't go playing her at her own game & calling her names, try to part on friendly terms cos she sounds like the sort to hold a grudge & may go out for revenge if you end it by telling her where to go.
247805
Just put some distance between the two of you. If you can't forgive, at least don't throw it in your friend's face. That'll just keep the anger strong and even make it grow.\n\nTell her(him) that you're hurt, and that there's no room in your life for her(him) right now.
449703
write to her.  you can't lash out at a peice of paper.  tell her that you love her very much and that her behavior makes you worry.  tell her that what her friend did made you very sad as well but now your soul concern is her.  although you don;t think she would ever do the same thing, the way she is acting has you fearing for her personal safety and you love her too much to just look away.  if that doesn't work, and she really is staying in drunken hysterics, talk to your fellow family memebers- hve an intervention or have her committed.
870219
Talk to her about it. If she is going to do everything in her power to hurt you, you don't need her. Tell her she needs to act like a friend for you to be a friend. She is just using you to her advantage to get what she wants.. My best friend did that for awhile but i told her that if she kept using me like that......she will have to find a new bff. She straightened up fast cuz she realized that she'd lose me for good.
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Life is too short to dwell on a petty persons actions isn't it? \nYou know the rumors are not true, and so would a friend, so anyone who can be turned against you so easily, sadly wouldn't have been a true friend.\nI am sorry she is being so bothersome, it can really disrupt someones life to have that happen to them, and I hope things settle down soon for you.\nAs you've already said, about her actions not speaking of intelligence, it sounds very true.\nShe may have a lot going on in her life, but it is not fair of her to play such childish games.\nLive your life, and don't give her the satisfaction of letting her know it bothers you, she just wants to get your goat. \nIn fact, just brushing it off completely, and being happy that you are not the one being so impish would even be better!
233233
tell her how stupid she is acting and if she cant trust your advice to find some one else
1068514
We have all have one or two Friends like that in our lives.\nYou are holding back becos, she is ur friend and u really care about her.\nBut part of that caring means u have to be honest with her about how u feel. She probably doesnt know how annoying she really is...so hopefully, u'll be up to the task of helping her to be a better person.\nHope ur Faith teaches Patience? Cos u'll probably need it.\nAll the best to u and ur Friend.
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okay , if you value her friendship, you need to withdraw from her and give her some room, don't keep on pushing and pushin coz all you'll do is push her futher. obviously she is hurt. \n\nwrite the following:\n\ndear\n\nI have been really upset about not having your friendship and realized what a jerk i have been, if i could undo time , i wud turn theclock back and restore our friendship, i do not expect you to forgive me , however i would feel heaps better if you did and i am sure you might too. give it a shot.\n\nif that fails then try\n\n\n"dear ...\n\nlook you slimy little bi*ch, i said i was sorry and all you do is lift your nose each time I talk, i think you can get fu***, and in doing so i hope you get fu*** real bad, now go crawl back under that rock you crawled from under!\n\nyour's ...\n\n( how's that ? ... not good )
551343
A good friend should be able to tell her friend anything.  If you really feel that she is making herself look bad, then it might be a good idea to let her know that you care about her and voice your concerns in a tactful manner.  She might not react well as it sounds like she gets validation through her actions.  But it might get her to start thinking about why she feels the need to advertise her personal life.
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To get back at her, simply do nothing. By doing something that would make her crumble, you yourself will be a part of that mess and would not be pleasant if it was known that you did something or that you had even plotted against her. Eventually, she will reach a breaking point since nobody is truly perfect (no matter how close it seems). She probably has already annoyed other people to the point of abandonment.\n\nOverall, just ignore her. Try and try. You need to be the one to take her place :]
283260
Let her go. Have a talk with her and if she does'nt give just say: I'm hurt by what your doing to me but if you really feel that way and really don't care, that's fine with me! Bye!
818828
I, too have drifted away from friends I know since childhood. The best thing to do is have a peer mediation. Sounds totally, dorky, right?  Talk to her privately, so no one get embarrassed and tell her your honest feelings. i know it may be hard at first, but trust me, once you get going, it'll be easier. Set up some rules, like no interruptions, and let her talk. Tell her she's been hurting you, and that she's too bossy! don't raise your voice or tell her you hate her though. =P LET HER TALK TOO! Maybe she's been going through something. when my friends and I did this, I let them talk also. WE all ended on the floor bawling, but it was GOOD. I felt...RELIEVED. My friends and I are A LOT happier, and now, we know to talk BEFORE we blow up. Let her say what she needs too, but IF SHE starts getting aggressive, or rude-WALK AWAY. You don't deserve that. Maybe your friendship can be salvaged, most likely no, but at least you won't end the friendship on bad terms. Tell her that this is what's best for both of you, and you know longer desire her he company. Be the better person and walk away if things get ugly.\nGod bless, hun!
755538
try and be subtle and not hurt her feelings when you talk to her about it, the last thing you want to do is ruin your friendship with her.\nif she is a true friend she might listen to you, but i really do feel that all you can do is tell her gently how you feel, and if she choses to do nothing about it, then all you can do is sit back and wait until she comes to you for help.\n\ngood luck with it
748555
You cant be honest with someone who cant be awake to what her actions have caused!!\n\nAll actions have consequences is one u can say!! She isnt a child, she needs to face up to what she has done.. you sugar coating it wont help hun!!\nA true friend will tell her how it is then be there for her regardless of how things go down!!\nFriends have to beable to be honest!! If she cant handle it then she is a bigger idiot than i first thought!~!\n\nGood luck!
641187
she has a bad issue and getting friends i bet? sweetie you just have to slowly slack from her, so she can get the hint, and also tell first and see how she acts by telling her how you feel about the friendship you both have. tell her that to listen to u for a moment and let her know. u seem sweet to let a friend hurt you. be sweet and don't stoop to her level.be straight foward. if he doesn't work and she bitch at you. then she is not a true friend. you can find better.