i am going for 4 day  roamntic trip with my husband, any tips on how to make it more interesting!!  sex ??
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God, use this time to reconnect. The reconnection alone should do enough to spark your sex life. Vacation sex comes easily, oftentimes because since you are both removed from the everyday life that is usually the root of whatever problems you have with each other, you start to see eachother in the same light you met in, and it's a chance to fall in love again. Good for you!\nMy one word of advice for putting some spark into sex with a long term monogomous partner is to establish eye contact during orgasm. It's great! It feels like you are passing the orgasm into your eyes, like you are melting into the other person's soul. \nAlso, giving or getting oral with eye contact is interesting to play around with because some of us never get that intimate with our spouses; we just close our eyes and lay back. Try it, it will make you both vulnerable and closer at the same time.\nHave fun, guys!
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When he comes home . . . greet him with a beer and a kiss and a hug . . . clothing optional . . . if you have children you will have to dress conservative . . . \n\nHave dinner ready . . . and allow him time to unwind from a hard days work.\n\nPeriodically, give him a long hug and kiss . . . when he least expect it.  \n\nAlso, when it comes to sex, men are always horny . . . but sometimes we are too tired to act or take the initative . . . ladies please help out . . . because I know you need it as much as us.\n\nGuys, this is not just a one way street. . . you have to appreciate your wives too.\n\nMaybe after dinner . . . offer her to wash the dishes . . . not all the time . . . but once in while.  Maybe during the weekend, periodically . . . cook her dinner . . . and don't make a mess . . . lol.  Give her time to relax . . . soak in a tub with bubblebath . . . while you watch the kids or prepare something special for her.  Also, if she is cooking . . . periodically get off your A**, go to the kitchen and give her a hug from behind.\n\nShow love and respect to each other.
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Try new and exciting things together that neither of you have ever done before.  Any interest in sky diving?  Bungy jumping?  Not that advnturous?  Join a gym together and work out together.  Play board games FOR SEX BETS!  If u win u get whatever u want and if he wins he gets what he wants.  Makes it much more interesting!  Pick something u have ALWAYS wanted to do and then just have him join you!  Or ask him if theres something he has always wanted to do but hasnt and do that with him!!!!!  Good luck to u!
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make a night for just the 2 of you alone, and have a nice dinner  and go by something sexy, my hubby has about the same thing and he gave me this answer, good luck!
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Kidnap him and go on a camping trip next to a river or a lake...or a hotel. Nothing like a romanic evening away to rekindle romance.\n\nGive him a massage. Have candles and oils ready, soft oversized bath towels.\n\nIf this is too expensive, break out the alcohol and lawn chairs. Drive out to the country to look at the stars!
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Well, depending on what parts of the relationship you would like to spice up, all call for different answers. Try new things that you never thought you would.  Surprise really helps to spice things up.  Try just doing something spontaneous. Heres a good one.  Make a little treasure hunt for them.  Put clues around the house or where ever you would like, you can even use a map and have it end  with you as the treasure.  Its just something different. Make it kind of sexy treasure hunt to really get them going. Hope this helps alittle bit.
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Buy some videos on techniques, like giving a better bj.  Preview it and see what you think, but the idea is actually to watch it with him to practice.  He will love the idea that you want to try and the visual stimulation more than your technique improvement I bet!  There are some good videos out there on numerous exciting topics for couples.
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Things I have done in the past include - \nThe two of us getting away to a bed and breakfast up in the mountains. No TV, no radio, just the two of us together in a beautiful room with a giant bathtub for romantic bubble baths, a fire place and during the day we can take long hikes together and have a picnic out in the forest.\nAnother time I gave her a spa day at home!\nShe woke up to breakfast in bed made by me, afterwards I got her in the bathtub where I washed her hair, shaved her legs and then dried her. Later we go to a romantic dinner then come home and make love by candle light and soft music.\nWe usually do this for her birthday every year. She keeps requesting it!\nGood question
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role play, hide a video camera and tape your sex session then put it in the VCR so your spouse accidentally finds it.  they will be turned on and it will be a good experience for you.
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1. Have him draw/paint you nude and then make passionate love to you.\n\n2. Make love somewhere with the risk of getting caught... in a libary, in an elevator, outside, etc.\n\n3. Blindfold him when he comes home. Tie him up to the bed. You take charge.\n\n4. Take a weekend off. Go somewhere exotic. Make love in a swimming pool, or in the ocean.\n\n5. Each of you should write out a fantasy involving the other person. Act out the fantasies for each other.\n\n6. Cook naked together. Include aphrodisiacs such as avocados and chocolate. Have a sexy naked meal; then, enjoy dessert.\n\n7. Get a fancy hotel room and make love in the jacuzzi.\n\n8. Record yourselves having sex, then watch the videos together before going another round.\n\n9. Experiment with temperature. Use ice cubes and candle wax.\n\n10. Go to bed naked. Hold each other and just kiss each other. Stop, and remind each other why you love each other so much. Tell him everything that makes him sexy to you. The result should be an exceptionally passionate lovemaking session.\n\nEnjoy!
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Sweetie, without knowing what you two have tried in the past, it is difficult for anyone to know what to suggest. Since I, myself am a bi-woman who has been in a relationship with the same woman for about 6 months now, let me suggest what we do. Sometimes we will go to a sexy underwear store and check each other out with different new things on until we are so hot for each other that we have to leave. Maybe go to an adult store and get some kinky ideas there. Into s&m? Spanking? Bondage? Maybe get a new toy or two. Definately get some fantasy magazines. Sometimes we "park" in a secluded place and make-out like teenagers. Have you ever gone skinny-dipping together? How about camping? It is so refreshing to "get back to nature". Find some sleepingbags that zip together. Be creative, hon. Even on a tight budget you could go to the grocery and pick up a few cans of whipped cream, chocolate syrup, and some cherries, Then make a girl sundae out of each other before eating each other up. YUMMY. Have fun and enjoy.
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Your husband is lucky for starters, but there are no normal amounts of sex. Sex is like a good marrage, First you have to be honest, open, try everything and you both have to work at it.Try diffrent things eg dress up, play games, ask him what he likes, give and take, but the most important thing is just to have fun.
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Take lots of pictures, you'll really treasure these later, Take video, too. It's really fun looking back at these...We still do!\nMake it fun! Laugh and talk and enjoy your time together\nLook up restaurants on the computer, that you'd like to try.\nLook up the interesting points to visit in the area, and see them and take video\nHave champagne and bubble baths together ( no photos!) \nDo leisurely things, watch a little tv, go have a cappucino together,  see a play if any in the area, have cocktails, go dancing!\n\n (I'm making myself wish I could run out and get married, just so I could have another honeymoon!;~)\nHave  a  wonderful  and  romantic  Honeymoon!
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Well, if he loves surprises try this; my wife tried it and it works like a charm :)\n\nStart slowly the usual way as if this were just going to be the typical, garden variety style, you know? If it gets too slow, just do a little dirty talk so that you can buy some time........At the precise moment when he says the words "I'm gonna cum, etc. etc. ..just prior to climax.......scream out these words ver batim.."Chuck Norris ass-raped me in the Singapore Zoo panda cage!!! My tits are full of cream cheese and sausage!!!!  Midgets taste like lamb when you grill them on an open flame!! I am a convicted felon and I fuck the milkman when yu are at work!!!!!KILL ME! CHOKE ME!!!!!
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Buy him some hand cuffs for a start and ask him to use them on you. As he gets more excited by it encourage him. If he begins to get more excited and interested, let him know how much you enjoyed it when he (insert action here). Let him think he is the one coming up with the ideas, and make suggestions, "Would you like to .... " With my husband, it was a small bit at a time at first, but after a bit, he came round big time.
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Aside from the standard knee-jerk "eeewww" type reactions you received, there was some good advice given.\n\nI'll add my 2 cents.\n\nI doubt that your husband finds you boring in bed. My wife and I consider our swinging adventures to be extended foreplay, not a replacement or a "spicing up". By the way - 5 times a week! Your husband is my hero! :}\n\nThe very first thing you need to know is that just because you attend a swinger's event, there is NEVER any requirement that you participate in ANY type of sexual activity with ANYONE.\n\nThe golden rule in the swinger's world is that "No Means No", if you are asked to do anyuthing that makes you feel uncomfortable just say no, and almost everyone will thank you and drop it. If you get annoyed by someone who decides that if they pester you enough you will give in - immediately go to the host of th eparty and tell them - I'll guarantee that the annoyer will be warned to stay away from you and thrown out if he/she continues to annoy you.\n\nThe other thing you need to know about swinger's events is that you have to prepare yourself for sexually frank conversations - it is really quite ordinary for a near-total stranger to approach, engage you in conversation for a moment and then ask you what you like sexually. Don't be offended, they are simply trying to learn if your wants are compatible with theirs. \n\nIf you are uninterested, simply thank them and tell them you are not interested.\n\nNext. You and your husband need to have a LOT of discussion before and after the event. You need to develop code words and signals to let each other know that you are interested, that you are not interested, that you need to talk, and "HELP! GET ME OUT OF HERE!". As an example, one of the code phrases my wife and I use is "Hey I need a cigarette" - that means "I want to talk to you" and one of our rules is that when one of us uses that phrase - no matter what the other one is doing - we stop and go talk things over.\n\nYou will also need to develop non-verbal signals, you may be in a non-smoking environment for example, so "I need a cigarette" won't work, one of our non-verbal signals is a quick double squeeze which means "Let's talk".\n\nYou will need to include rule setting in your discussion.\n\nRules are CRITICAL for enjoyment and avoiding stress and jealousy.\n\nPlease review the articles on how to set and manage rules effectively located at:\nhttp://www.swinglesonline.com/forum/viewforum.php?f=1\n\nIf you cannot agree on rules, you are not ready to become swingers.\n\nGood luck, have fune and play safe!
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greet him,Act normal, arrange a candle night dinner, wear a sexy outfit that can really make your sexy body look more sexy,make atmosphere so arousal that he just cant think of anything else but u n ur body. I hope he will taste you instead of the food.... and thats not the last.try to make love to him till he and you are completely exhausted