Is it true that girls like me will never find real love?
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Nobody finds love.\n\nLove finds them.\n\n\nIt's waiting for you to stop chasing it.
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Girl trust me I do the same thing, and ask myself the same question. I finally came to realize that I don't think we do it on porpose, sometimes it just happens that way. Maybe we are afraid of being happy, or maybe we grew up in a really strict family, and we are good girls, and opposites really do attract. It's kindof like we realize that we will never be bad girls, so jerky, bad boys are what attracts us. Sometimes for me it's fun to get my heart broken so that I can be sad. You will realize though girl that in the end it's not worth it. I regret turning down good guys for jerks, cuz in the end I always lose. And a lot of times the good guys are nerdy, because since they have no looks they have to treat girl good. Maybe we are just to picky. But trust me there are good looking guys that will treat you good. Just don't give up.
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not all guys are like that. i know i'm not. i can think of only one thing in life that comes before a serious relationship, and that's my daughter. i know plenty of guys that would love to get into a serious relationship, but they need to find the right person first. it takes time, but you'll find him sooner or later as long as you don't give up on love
513143
You cannot go looking for true love cause you will never find it.Believe me, let it find you, true love will fall into your lap when you least expect it.
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"almost always never, never ever always." in other words, there is no way in the world all guys are heartless. but i understand your point. like i have met 15 really heartless, selfish guys. At that time, i thought the same thing: "all guys are heartless". but then i met this one REALLY nice guy and he's been my boyfriend for two years. So never give up searching. you'll find a nice guy when the time is right.
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I knew a few girls like that. It can vary from case to case. Obviously what i say could be completly wrong, however it could be completely right. The things that i began to notice with those girls is that they refused to focus on themselves. they always used  a relationship to validate their lives. Often doing this they would put so much "weight" on it so quickly that they would be moving way to fast for the other person, or they would not think that the relationship was going anywhere prematurely.
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i never im pure of heart and treat all girls the same. anyway thanks about before.\n                     nick fennema
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you can never really find love when your looking for it.
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You should just give it some time. If you stay true to yourself love will find you eventually. It might not be right when you want it to happen, but it will come. Don't go out there and start looking for somebody to call your own out of desperation because that could mean disaster. Just take care of you and be patient.
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Yea.you just have to be patient.you'll find true love one day.love doesn't just knock on the door you know.you have to go out and find it!!
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I would say yes you will find true love. Don't put a time limit on it. All good things will come in good time. \nI have been in a rl for 3 years and I feel as though this is true love, but it has grown into true love it didn't start out as true love, it started out as a simple rl. Over time it has grew into the love and apprectation that we now have for each other.
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excuse you? I do not think so.  that is definatly a girl trait.  I've only ever met one guy like that in my whole life and he's wonderful.  guys like that are the keepers trust me.  hang in there.  it took us a while to find eachother.  you'll find the right person soon enough.  you just have to be very patient.
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No, for me it's not. coz it's good atleast they have tried. many or not even ready to try.I think it's better to appreciate that they have tried.But this is not about few girls who just try for name sake alone.\nchoose me if u like my ans
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Not all of us are like that. I promise! It is always nice to do things when they are not asked for so don't stop being nice,but I think you need to try some different places to meet girls. I think normally you can tell if they are going to be like that from the beginning. Look back and see what they all had in common. Please keep trying because there are more of us out there than you think.
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I've never been in a relation either and I'm 19. And I don't date, I'm not looking for love but rather letting love find me. As of yet no such luck, you just can't rush these things. Being patient is the key. For every man there is a woman and vice versa.
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Dear Silver465,  Never give up on love, when you least expect it, it can creep up on you and bite you on the butt before you realize it.\nYou will find love, I don't know where you live, but there are nice girls all around.\nIf you are a church goer, try going to the single get-togethers. \nI don't recommend on-line dating, but that is up to you.  Do you have any single guy friends that may be able to hook you up with someone???  \n\nGood luck, sweetheart, and I hope that you find someone SOON, God bless you,\n                                                                                                Juanita
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Yes, boys really love girls.  The boys you're talking about aren't in love with the girls they are lying to.\n\nSomeday, they will actually love a girl and she will break their hearts.