When a college girl rejects a guy, what percentage do you think "lets him down easy?" vs. a harsh let down.
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Most people would go easy so they are not thought of as mean. Normally popular girls would be harsh, so over 50% for the nice way!!!\nI think...
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It's really easy for a girl to ask a guy out.  I'm a guy, I would know.  I've never turned a girl down.  Women are observative, and will go with their intuitions when it comes to men.  They can decide in ten seconds whether they'd like a guy or not.  Men always want to see where things could go.  The answer will be yes, believe me.  The way I would ask would just be something like, "Hey, do you want to get together and do something sometime?"  Make it really vague.  The answer WILL be yes.  Now, the ball's in your court.  Make him pick what and where.  Good luck.
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I think it depends on how you portray your confidence.  A lot of times guys think they are just being confident, but to everyone else it seems like they're being cocky.  There's a fine line.
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Depends. Women tend to go by their emotions.How they feel that very moment they set eyes on, does that person match their expectations, is he handsome, sexy, or a bad boy. \n\nMen tend to have this fear of rejection . Every time we are rejected a part of us dies inside. One day there is so much deadness inside us that we give up and settle for something that has an attitude and is disrespectful and mean. The rest of us who remain single laugh and find the right woman for ourselves.
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Shyness is the fear of rejection, rejection is better than not ever knowing, take it from someone with experience, rejection doesn't sting that bad after a few hundred of them, but it never stung as bad as not knowing. Just a little tip from your uncle Will...
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Number 1. Not trying to change the guy. I think we can safely say that guys hate when girls do that. Unless its a serious problem.
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It depends on the guy....\ni don't mind a guy who plays hard to get....
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It really depends on the person. I know thats a shitty answer but its the only true answer. Most guys i would have to say no, they dont really care whether they hurt anyone as long as they get what they want. Woman would probably care more so that guys would. But like i said it really depends on the person. One person might feel horrible for hurting someone where someone else might not care at all.
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I'd be most responsive if the confession that he liked me was blurted out accidentally, against his will, or with uncertainty and a bit of embarrassment.  (So endearing!) If the guy took me out to a movie or restaurant and then told me, as if he'd planned the whole thing, I would probably reject it. In contrast, if we were walking to the train station after hanging out at the art gallery or library, discussing Plato, UFOs, eugenics, Michelangelo and politics the whole day... and he suddenly grew quiet, and asked, "What if I told you that I really like you?" and then blushed and looked away...\n\nYeah, I'd fall for that.
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i'm sorry to hear usually women don't take rejections well at all.  you should reschedule when you had to cancel tell her hey can't today due to "insert important reason" but lets go out tomorrow or _______.  Don't just leave it at i'll call you.
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I would say that it depends on you and the girl in question.  I am usually a girl that is hard to get, but if you showed no interest in me then that would give me cause to think.  Is something wrong with me?  Why is he not interested?  Then I start to do all the kinds of things to get his attention.  Then when your not interested your just not interested.  No physical attraction to the person.
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It doesn't matter how u tell him....as long as u tell him. Whether he's down wit' it or not you'll feel better that u let him know. It's better to try & fail than not to try at all. If u never let him know, not only will it never have a chance to go anywhere...but u may regret missing the opportunity.  Give it a chance.
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Rejection is part of life.  If you are that afraid of it, then you shouldn't be asking girls out on dates.
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its a guy thing, they dont want it to seem like u beat them and got the girl so instead of being the guys "who got rejected" they claim they never wanted her in the first place.. hence they didn't lose out to you !!
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Emotionally weak is hard to put up with, but so is the typical stoic, show-no-emotions type of guy. A nice balance is the best. Physical weakness, it matters to some girls, but not to others. It really just depends on the woman, you know?
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most girl are afraid of rejection just like most guys. that or they are just shy.
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becuase, guys are very intimidated when others know they have a soft side. try being a football player varsity since my sophomore year. yea. most guys look down on other with soft sides. i mean its not that hes denying you, or rejecting your love for him...just that reputation plays a role these days.