popular boys are always makin fun of me! I'm not a nerd at all!?
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Ignore them. They are just ignorant.
670935
NO MATTER WHAT DO NOT fall into the popularity death trap! Being popular is NOT the most important thing in the world! YOu will find much better friends that are normal (not popular but not nerds) than you will if you hang out with popular people. They will get into so much trouble and they're what, 12?! Take my advice from experience: popular kids are nothing but trouble! OMG I remembr the populars at my middle school getting into drugs, drinking and even... well, I don't know if you know about that last one yet, but it aint very good! Just remember this: CHOOSE YOUR FRIENDS WISELY! that's the best piece of advice that I can give you. I wish I knew that when I was in middle school!
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haha i'm the same, but i never get called a nerd. anyways, i think a nerd is someone with huge glasses and doesn't have many friends and stuff, and doesn't like to do anything but study study study and is actually INTERESTED in educational stuff. sooooooo.... i don't think you're a nerd, and i don't think i am either cuz even though i get straight A's i like to do things other than study. so yay... GO un-nerds!!! or.... go nerds!!! \nnerds have a different meaning for everyone, i just told u my point of view. and for some, it could be a compliment and just means they're reeeeeeeeeaaaaaalllyyyyy smart. so take it that way, cuz that's good.\n\nbtw, take hermione granger for example. now SHE'S nerd. hahaha!\n(which isn't necessarily bad)
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im very shy but im alot of fun once u get to know me...im very mature for my age...im considered popular in my own crowed...which is a group of a bunch of...idk what they are..part jock...part prep...pary geek...so i pretty much get along with everyone...but the full blow popular crowd really needs to get a clue that they are not the only people in the school who matter...the emo kind of people need to stop cutting themselves and realize that they only get one life to live...the creepy scummy kind of people need to learn that soap is good for them and the jocks need to learn that takeing drugs only make there  u know whats smaller...and the durggies...they need to get a fucking life...but my group...the geeks need to just...loose the sweater vests...the jocks need to learn that there is more to life then sports..but i think if they both gave eachother some of them everything would be perfect..but itll never happen... what kind of person r u?
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If you really are this shallow, maybe you should leave the nerd alone.  Why should he get his heart broken because your friends don't approve of him? \n\nSomething to think about pretty young things, today's nerd is tomorrow's millionaire.
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you need to ignore him & get really involved with a couple of nice guys (doesnt hurt if they are good looking or quite popular)   make sure to have animated conversations and laughter.... THAT will get his attention.. but then  hopefully you wont want his attention anymore  ;)
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You already know the answer to this.\nShame that you also believe that you are cute and entertaining.  I'm sure other children might even agree.  Such a waste of time and energy.
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Hey, I'm a nerd too (at least in high school I was LOL) but I think I've learned a thing or two since then so here goes...\n\nFirst of all, unless you want to be a laughingstock, I wouldn't recommend springing yourself on a group of people in public- they will all be together and you might end up the butt of the joke.\n\nProbably the best thing to do is figure out what it is about that group of kids that attracts you to them-- is it just because they are popular, or do you have an interest in common with them?  If you really have something in common, then try getting close to one or two of them by sharing your common interest... if you make friends with one, chances are the group will pull you in.\n\nBut if you're just wanting to be with them because they are popular and they look like they're having more fun than you are, maybe you should join a club or group where you can meet people you can really relate to.  It's the difference between having "friends" and "acquaintances."\n\nGood luck!
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OK, here the deal, i just did the same exact thing, only, it was like four months ago so i already resolved my problem. don't tell them that they are boring or any of that stuff. but, you do have to confront them. the most important thing when confronting them is to stay calm. just tell them that you have a different personality and that you feel more at peace with the other group. they should take that at face value. if they are still upset try the approach of getting back with that group and be yourself. it is obvious they cant stand a person who is not a clone of themselves (the thing with the hair) so, if you are original, they will not want you around. be loud, be happy, talk about boys and crushes, they will go NUTS! then, you will be free to go to the group that fits with you. either of these should work, but try the first one first. the second one is gunna be harder for you to pull of. i promise one of these will work. tell me how this all works out OK? my email is dangoman_1@yahoo.com. if you don't write, its cool, but i still want to know how you resolve this problem.
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Nothing is wrong with you! you seem like a pretty, smart, and funny person. Guys like someone who is confadent and likes herself, and you do so yes guys do or will like you I promise\nthey can just be immatute sometimes.
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HI May be you are trying to hard.and being funny all the time they may think you are just one of the boys. and if you are a dare devil. it may put them off. try being more like a girl than a tomboy.and don't be in to much of a rush to get a bf. i bet if you just in-joy yourself with your girlfriends that special  boy will come along.best wishes sammylee,
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you are so shallow! maybe because "popular girls" would never want to date a jerk like you!
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Stay away from them. Forget about them. You are only 13. You have a lot of time ahead of you to meet decent men when you are older. Don't waste your time trying to impress these little boys right now. spend you time with friends and family, focus on school, and eventually they will flock to you. Just don't be so anxious.
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I encourage YOU to get to know the real you.  Find something you are passionate about and great at.  Begin doing that thing.  Are you a good singer?  Consider joining a choir.  Are  you great at math?  Join the math club, or sign up to be a tutor.  When you begin pursuing whatever it is that really drives you, you will meet people who are interested in the same things.  Most likely, they'll notice the real you first, and then your personality will shine through.  I also encourage you to laugh at yourself.  So what you are "ditzy".  You can't change your personality!  You sound like a fun girl.  Don't harp on yourself...  I do stupid things all the time, but I have so many friends because I know how to laugh at myself.  Good luck!!
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no way - nothing wrong with you...boys are dumb and want what they can't have. It's the battle of who cares less. If you act like you don't care, they love that...let THEM do the chasing.
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Honey you just be what makes you comfortable. Just keep up your grades in school. Religion is also very important, but that has nothing to do with who you are. Stay out of trouble and enjoy being who you are. God Bless you. Hope you will have the happy life that it sounds like you are seeking. I love little tomboys myself. They are not snooty or finding fault with others. Good luck my dear and have fun.
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Just because someone is smart, others DON'T automatically think they're "not cool". I was A honor roll, National Honor Society, Class President, and all that fun stuff - yet no one ever saw me as a "glasses-wearing intellectual", because it's all about whether or not you know how to have FUN! You can ace every class, and it just matters how you act about it to everyone else. Just relax and try to not be so rigid.