why do a lady think that she can keep a man by having his baby and the man does not want her anymore?
446942
Sounds like you've got your hands full. With the whole money thing. He needs to give it to her it's a law and i agree. Plus the whole had sex with him while he was sleeping.... then how did she get pregnant??? He needed to shoot it for her to get pregnant. That sounds like a lie to me.
995245
I'M SORRY TO SAY THIS BUT WHAT THE HELL IS UP WITH UR MOTHER? WHAT KIND OF MOTHER WILL NOT STAND BY THEIR BABY GIRL? SHIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AND ABOUT UR MAN FUCKIN KICK HIS ASS TO THE CURB. IF HE WAS UR MAN IN THE FIRST PLACE AND F***KIN UR BEST FRIEND, THEN Y NOT LET HIM BE BUT BY HIMSELF. THAT MAN MAY NOT AMOUNT TO ANYTHING F***KIN AROUND LIKE THAT! GIRL LEAVE HIS ASS AND GO GET TESTED U NEVER KNOW IF HE MAY HAVE SOME KIND OF VANERIAL DISEASE THAT CAN HURT THE BABY! IF U WANT I WILL COME OVER THERE AND TALK TO UR MOTHER AND SMACK SOME SENSE INTO HER THICK ASS HEAD! GIRL, IF I KNEW U I WOULDN'T LEAVE U OR LET U GO ON WITHOUT ME HELPIN U! GAHHHHHH! I HATE THE WOMEN THAT DON'T STAND BY THEIR KIDS IN ROUGH TIMES LIKE THIS! U NEED TO HAVE A TALK WITH YO MAN AND TELL HIM HE BE THERE OR COUGH UP SOME CHILD SUPPORT. NO BABY SHOULD HAVE TO GO ON NEEDIN THINGS. IT SHOULD ALREADY BE THERE FOR HIM/HER! U TAKE CARE AND I WISH I COULD HELP U OUT MORE! TAKE IT ONE DAY AT A TIME AND U WILL SEE THAT THE LORD WILL SHOW U THE WAY!
369914
It's so hard when a child is involved,you are always going to be second best to her baby(it's the same with single dads,I know from experience),but if you truly love this lady and you want to make it work,then tell her how you feel,share your thoughts on children and suggest that you and her son should spend some lads time together,this way you score brownie points and give him a little male input as well.Don't ever change who you are for someone else and if she insists that her son is the ONLY  man in her life,let her go.\nGood luck
607972
"""""Double standard alert""""""\nIf a woman pregnant and she dont want to be with the guy other women cheer her on telling her to raise the baby by herself and take the guy to child support \nIf a guy leaves a woman and she is pregnant, he is wrong no questions asked- this is wrong\nLET FAIR BE FAIR
1039119
Maybe she wants children and is too afraid of having them herself, or she likes the idea of having a family. Or maybe she just likes that person more
196886
its a freaking outrage man, when a guy decides to start popping out babies and such then a guy can get to decide wheater or not chicks should get to keep them if they dont want them.
238870
First of all, winning his heart has nothing to do with having that baby.  To do with winning his heart.  I am assuming that you know him well enough to know what his feelings for you are.  If not just talk to him about it.  As for the baby I sure hope that the decision you made to keep it was for the right reasons and that you are prepared to raise it without this lad.  Don't mix the two together and start telling the truth and to hell with both of your mates or so called mates.
1031724
He likes her a whole lot more than he lets on, especially if he lets her in his pocket like that. Take his butt to court and establish an order for support and get yours. For your baby's sake.\n\nThis goes out to all my baby's mamas...
433248
bcos then the man can have the pleasure without the responsibility! she's already married, so less likely to want a commitment from u...or so u think!
853275
No. It's not that he might be unworthy of trust, but sometimes guys do a turnaround after the baby is born. His priorities might change a lot once he has a kid. Hopefully he will jump in and help raise it, and be apart of its life. In that case, his feelings for his child's mother may change. If not, are you going to be supportive of his new commitment? \n\nNow, what if he doesn't want anything to do with the kid? What will you think of him then? Do you really want to be with someone like that? \n\nI suggest you keep it cool until the baby is born. He has got a lot going on right now, and things might change dramatically in the near future. Protect yourself, and be prepared to share him with another woman's kid.
674263
He thinks of u as his, like ur his property, u have to make up ur mind do u what him back or do u what to move on with your life. I'd say girl ur much better than just being a baby momma. I don't know you but ur God's creations so he has plans for you. He has no right to tell you what u can or cannot do, just like u can't tell him what to do. I say he wants you and he wants his freedom, that's nice and all but it's not ur problem. I say do what makes you feel happy, and whatever you do, do it for you and your baby and he'll be eating out of your hand. When you feel happy and confident it shows and men love confident women. BE INDEPENDENT
498606
Sounds like if he doesn't want the baby he will leave anyhow. I would kinda get ready for that. He might surprise you afterwards the first time he lays eyes on his son or daughter..You being pregnant you do not need any unwanted stress..I would get my support ready, family, friends, ect and go on with my life and get ready for the most beautufil thing in the world.
396781
They can get a man of their own and probably do. If the man is interested then why not.It takes two. You can't blame the woman. The men are willing.
990417
He just wants you for whatever purpose he has for you.  He probably wants sex or some emotional attachment.  Maybe he wants someone to abuse.  It doesn't matter.  If he doesn't want anything to do with his baby, then he's irresponsible and lazy.  You should have nothing to do with him.  However, he should be paying child support for the child.  Get a lawyer and take him to court for it.  If he keeps bugging you, record one of your conversations with him and get a restraining order.
775812
Not surprising.When you start a relationship with a man who leaves another woman 8 months pregnant....you reap what you sow.
177653
Because a woman lets down her guard and allows that man to take control over who she is.  For some, it is safer to stay within the bounds of a controlling male than it is to venture into unsafe waters.
439191
I think she is just afraid of losing you, and she knows that Joe is a good guy and things could progress to the next level. just try not to let it bug you, she likes him she just is worried to things will get too serious before she is ready,lol or she is afraid for you to get too serious and if things don't work out you will get your heart broke and she just is trying to protect her baby.