am married with two kids in love with a guy , a bachelor, who doesn't know am married..he loves me equally.
453767
Tell him the truth if you want to be with him.  Nobody can stop you from doing what your doing..if its just sex....at least have safe sex ..you don't want to end up on Maury not knowing who the father of the baby is.. just don't get caught.
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Sure, an old friend whom I've actually known since elementary school did just that. They've been together for the better part of 30 years! I think they waited until they were out of college though before actually tying the knot though. Anyway, now they're happily married with (at last count) three kids. I think a lot of what ties them together is that they are both very devout practitioners of their religion (Roman Catholic).
1069287
First, you should of told him what you were doing before it became a year relationship. Second, If you feel like you can't really relate with him then your really not in love with him. I would just sit him down and explain everything to him. Yea, he's going to be upset because you wasn't honest with him. You better let him know now before you are married with 3 kids. He may leave....he may not. It's up to you how you tell him. Lay it on him easy. He should understand. Good luck.
838485
this is a tough situation...I'm in one similar.  I would tell him how you feel...DON'T give him an ultimatum on choosing his kids or you because chances are you will loose.  Maybe you guys can work something out where half the time you spend with his kids and the other half is just you two.  You have to let him know how you feel though otherwise you'll go crazy and be bitter about him not spending any alone time w/you.
925339
Yes, he SHOULD love you more than he does the kids, but very seldom does that happen. In my case, I definitely loved my kids more than I loved her, and we ended up divorced after 25 years. If I had loved her more than the kids , it might have ended up differently. If I had it to do over however, I think I would still love the kids more......they're MY flesh and blood!
152131
yes..the guy that i am getting married to has that same belief
162794
Are you really in love with him or the fact that you can talk to him?  Remember, what exists online is a unique enviroment where we all feel protected to some degree.  In the real world the level of comunication between you and this other person will probably not be the same.  Plus there is so much more to being in love with someone and having a relationship.  If your married still then do you really want to risk what you have for something that may not exists?  If your not married, then go slow and get to know this person gradually outside of just chatting because its not just your life but your kids life that you have to be concerned about.
421509
I HAVE 3 MY SELF AND LOVE KIDS ....... NO PROBLEM WITH ME
347838
Yeah... I know how this feels. If you think you truley love him then you should be care full and tell him in a time that you feel is right. And don't judge him by his past. I mean his kids could be great and just because he can't get over his ex dosen't mean that he still dosen't love you back. Good luck ^_^
318124
i have fallen in love with a teacher before but he didnt like me, though he would tease the hell out of me, about it, and even though i am pretty much married with three children nothing compares to the feelings that i had for the teacher
813821
I really feel for you, thats a tough situation.\nAre you sure that you are really in love with him, as you only said that you believe you are in love with him. Be careful not to confuse other feelings for love.\nDid you know he was your uncle before you got involved?\nI know you fall in love with who you fall in love with but there is a brief window in which you can apply the breaks.\nWhat about the other woman he is with? Has he spoken to her yet?\nIf I were you, I would try to steer clear and if he manages to end the relationship with the other lady and keep his relationship with the kids maybe you could think about him again.\n\nI don't know about the law and deformities. I would say no to both questions, but just think of the people involved in this tangled web and how your decisions will effect them\n\nIts tough I know.\n\nGood luck.
857527
They are now engaged to be married. Although, I think I would look better with him...but then again, I am married...=P
1015361
Absolutely...I'm getting married in March. I'm so in love. I thought I was "in love" before but that was infatuation, idealism, or whatever else...but it was not what I feel now. Also, my parents have been married for forty years, as his parents have. It's hard work and sometimes hell; but, as I've heard many times, "When you're going through hell - keep going!" His parents and mine are living proof that it still happens. People just get screwed up by thinking it's all easy and there is no hard work.
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Love your kids first.  Always.  An ideal man for you will love you and your kids.  I know it is hard not having a father figure around and I also know it is hard not having a spouse around to help.  Take your time with it.  Find a man that treats you and your kids like royalty.  As for the guy you kicked out...good move.  You can do better for you and your kids.  Pray about it.
239502
My wife is my best friend, the coolest person I know.\nWe talk, we hold hands. We love. We both have two children from previous relationships, I love the way the kids smile when they catch us kissing or chasing each other around the house and pinching bums.\nWe are a team, we both do laundry, we both cook, we both care for our kids.\nI love her every moment.
747514
My youngest and oldest have both had babies, I was extremely happy about both.  Both My kids are still my babies, no matter who came first or last, I love them both more than my own life.
203009
I am married.  I love him and still lust him, with all my heart.  He turns me on both mentally and physically and he makes me feel like I am special in his life too by doing things for me all the time.  He's kind, gentle, honest and hard working.  He makes me laugh, he loves me unconditionally ... my heart still skips a beat when I think of him :) ... just talking about him here, makes me smile and realize how lucky I am to have my soul mate with me!!