what can i do to a guy that claims he loves me but never spares a minute to call me? does he really love me?
444549
It might be just personal nature. I, for instant, do not call frequently, yet that has nothing to do with how much I love them. . .Another possibilty could be that you gave him the feeling he is not that welcomed, so he fall back a bit. . .Know your man then you will easily find the appropriate answer. . .
509736
It's not that he doesn't love you it's just sometimes guys get mad at the things we do and that just say things or do things that may sound like they don' love you but that's not true he is just mad so just leave him alone and he will be fine.
154527
he probably does really love u if he is really ready to wait for u to say it. it might not be a month long stand. so just wait and say it when u mean it. i bet it will mean a lot more if u wait untill u mean it.
606014
WELLL U SHOULD JUST TALK TO HIM AND BE OPEN AND HONEST IF HES TRUE LUV HELL LISTN AND WONT GET MAD AND YOU SHOULD CALL HIM HE SHOULDNT ALWAYS HAVE TO CALL YOU
330490
only you know what is like and if things are not normal then you need to sit down and talk to him. ask him does he still love you and why has he stopped saying it to you. it sounds like he may be losing interest in you but just cant say it to you. tell him you need to honestly know if the relationship is to go any further. dont let him use you.
716866
Well you just act really happy and carefree around him and have your hair and make up on and cute clothes. Be friendly and then when he starts acting interested, act nice for a while then start to pull away, this is once he starts calling, etc. Be busy sometimes, or don't pick up the phone. Don't let him know everywhere you go or what you do all the time when he's not around. The worst way to get to his heart is to act dependent or let him know you are waiting for him to call or come over. too bad it has to be this way but I have had a lot of experience at this and I can say, the guys you treat the worse love you the most. Good luck.
491399
You have to realize that everything is not about you... might sound very harsh, but I had to realize that too. He is most prop just busy or might be chatting to other people... It is sometimes hard for us not to be the center of attention, but unfortunately his got work, friends and other things to take care of as well. \nWhy don't you ask him and then you two can talk about how often he should make contact and all that...\nDont just decide that he does not care or love you... Talk bout it!
837623
wait for him. if he realy love u he will call u.
308082
Try calling him and asking him what's up with the two of you. If he continues to ignore you, just break up with him and move on. He can't be so busy that he can't even talk to you for a month.\n\nIf he really loved you, he'd make some time for you.
351051
You wouldnt be the only one that acts differently online or on the phone to what they do in reality. Its a way of life. Some people find it easier to be more outgoing and adventurous when theres no one to confront them face to face. If your feelings are that strong for this guy then be open with him. He should love you  because your kind caring trusting honest and genuine not because he thought you were sexually adventurous. If its true love then he'll understand and something will come of it
726322
a man will only do what you allow him to do. he is responding because you dont tell him no to. you keep answering his calls and things like that. i bet if you leave him alone completly, he will go away. plus you are giving him more reason to use you and disrespect you. when my guy and i were on the outs, i would call and text, he would call back but the convo wasnt the same. i thought the same as you, if he didnt want me, he wouldnt talk to me right? well i was the one initiating the conversations, he gave me the feeling that he didnt want to be bothered by me and i knew he didnt but i wanted him so bad. does he make the effort to call you w/o you calling him?
875848
It depends....does he finally call and not mention it...or does he tell you why he hasn't called. I suppose some guys think this is fine and it is...if that's the way it has always been..but if this is something new I would worry..sounds like he's losing interest to me. If you don't say anything about it the days between calls will become more and the times he does it more often. If I were you I would find something else to do..turn the tables on him and let him wonder where you are. It will stop you from worrying about him , you could have some fun,. and maybe meet someone that will appreciate you...this guy sounds like he's trying to control the relationship and seeing just how far he can go........OH and also...guys do NOT always let you know when they want to break up with you...they try to piss you off til you break up with them ..they don't have the cahones...I have this on very good authority...a MAN...lol
972231
well 2 my guess he much have feeling 4 u if hes trying 2 call u and stuff...if ur really missing him like the way u say u r then u might be in "love" with him....2 tell u the truth guys aint very good and telling/showing there TRUE feels and if u really want them 2 tell u just ask and tell them what u feel...and if hes braking plans with u..u need 2 talk about it...or start braking plans with him and let him c how u feel when he does it 2 u!!
187530
If he is truly your friend he is probably wondering if he should call. So why not give it a try. the only thing that could happen is he will hang up. But at least you will know how he feels and he will know you care if he ever needs you.
838994
Hmm...this is a tough one!  Everyone shows their love in different ways and everyone needs different amounts of "me" time.  If I guy was going to use you, he would be using you for sex.  If you think the only time he wants you around is followed by sex, then YES...you are being used. If he really cares about you, trying COMMUNICATING with him!!
233851
Baby...you could do better. I think that he doesn't really love you. If he did, he would do anything and everything to brighten up your day up. Just think about it, is this what you want?
1049423
You are being used sweetie!  He is not ready for a serious relationship, and he is making sure he has you to fall back on all the time.  He is immature and selfish!  He is a cheater and cheaters very rarely stop cheating.  Get out of this  lost relationship.  He doesn't love you, he loves himself!  Toss the trash in the garbage where it belongs.  Don't waste another minute of your life with him.  There are many guys out there who will treat you with love and respect.  Your self-esteem should be rock bottom by now and this jerk is going to keep knocking you down and hurting you inside.  Get on with your life and I know there is someone out there who will love you for the beautiful, loving person you are.  Good luck!