My fatherin law constantly ben on my case lately for just anything what should i do?
441223
Just listen to his advise...consider it..and make your own decision. His ideas may actually be good. Ask him nicely to please watch his language in front of the child.
1170330
don't force him to prove anything. let it come natural.it could be the smallest thing he does that he never does for anyone else.keep your eyes wide open and watch those little things he does
36118
Honestly, I know you are hurting but your main priority should be your child. Let the man go. I see they have restraining orders on you, did you confront them? Go seek sole custody of your daughter. That move is to protect yourself. He is not the only man on this earth. Sign the divorce papers.
842078
You run a thin line with slander, especially if he has put the incident behind him. Discuss it with the police first to see if anything can be done
472843
You may need to call the police if he is threatening enough. And from what it sounds, it's getting worse and there needs to be something done, but I don't fully know the situation and don't want to be judgmental of which I don't know the whole story. However, I have seen the same stuff happen with great guys. If you don't want to go to the police, talk to someone who is very close to you, i.e. your mom, sister, brother, best friend, dad. You don't want someone who will overreact and actually try to handle it themselves though. He probably will have to get counseling and you will need it too. Although you don't have the problem, his problem affects you. And if your children have witnessed any abuse, whether it be verbal or physical, they may need counseling. Tell the person(s) you choose the whole story and let them give you advice on what you should do. And WHATEVER you do, Don't let pride get in the way of you talking to someone about it. Alot of times that is people's problem, they don't want everyone knowing they made a mistake. Everyone makes mistakes, and you just have to try to fix them or move on. Or you may need to divorce him, but I hope not b/c divorces are rough on the whole family. They know you and your husband alot better than I do, therefore will be able to tell you better what you need to do. I hope this helps and I hope you and your husband get this settled.
784286
You know what I have to say to you.... WAKE UP!!!!! AND REALIZE WHAT DANGEROUS GROUND YOU'RE TREADING ON!!!!!! YOUR FATHER IS THE DEVIL!!!!!! PLEASE REPENT OR YOU WILL SUFFER HARSH JUDGMENT FROM GOD ALMIGHTY!!!!!!!!
584854
Try learning how to spell, then file for divorce.  Document his abuse with photographs, or by telling someone, so that you will have evidence for when you go to court.
199133
Sounds like dementia. Maybe the husband needs to declare her incompotent and become her legal guardian and power of attorney if she is becoming too much for him to handle he should consider an assisted living or nursing home good luck
273464
well you know what i think taht ou should take him to court ad tell then that he has threatend you and even if you can record it and you have proof and you can also tell them that he has overdoesed and youdo not feel safe with your daughter in his home thank u for the question
944403
Tell him to stay put.  \n\nSee if you can get you and the kids on an even keel. See if he can get on an even keel.  \n\nIf he can call, come by, treat you guys with respect, maintain his job, his car and his home, his bank account, and take the kids sometimes to give you a break, then you might have something.  \n\nPay attention to his decision making skills.  Can the man make a decision and stick with it or is he all over the board?  \n\nDate for awhile.    DON'T let him sleep over at your house, unless you want your kids totally confused.  Give yourself enough space to objectively evaluate his behaviors.  Then decide if this is a healthy, loving, family relationship for everyone involved.
705100
Tell you husband you need more help when you are at his parents house.  Have him listen up and the next time your MIL directs concern to you he can jump in and handle it.  The other option would be for you to ask your husband to handle it in front of your MIL so she can get the message you are equally responsible for the kids.
333348
Hmmmm...tough question.  Have you confronted him about the problem and given him the chance to straighten up?  If you haven't then I'd say that you need to confront him straight up with the facts, nothing more.  Anger won't help to do anything but give him the evidence he needs to secure his argument.  If you have talked about it before, I'd say it's time to split.  I realize that your son will have trouble with that, but if you want to, you can arrange for some kind of visitation, so his "daddy" isnt suddenly gone from his life.  That way, the two of them can still have their "playtime" but at the same time the constant aggrivation and anger.
151641
If he has shown no repentance you can seperate yourself from him for a while. But if you have no proof you need to be very careful. If you suspect he has done this there are probably other deceitful things going on as well that feed the suspicion. If he has not admitted it you need to focus more on the things that you do know and search yourself for you wrongdoings as well. Ask him if you have wronged him in a way that has made him pull away from you. I highly suggest the book "love and respect" by Dr. Emerson Eggerich. This book has been a marriage saver for many. \n\nIf in fact your husband has been outside of the marriage you have the right to divorce. But Jesus wants us to try to make it work anyway. If we can show forgiveness in that sort of situation then we can begin to understand the forgiveness he has for us.\n\nAre there children involved? You kids are learning how to treat people and handle situations based on how you and your husband do these things. Pretend for a moment that your daughter was in the situation you are in now. What would you advise her to do? Or maybe even pretend that your daughter in law came to you with the suspicion that your son was cheating on her. What would you advice your daughter inlaw do do about your son? Looking at it like this helps put things in perspective. \n\nAlso the most important thing to do is PRAY. Ask God for guidance. Try to pray with your husband. I will pray for you now.\n\nDear Heavenly Father,\n\nLord I bring this situation to you in humble prayer and inquisition. May you shine a light here in the darkness. May you guide this woman on what to do. Let her hear your words and obey. I pray that you convict her husband and bring him to repentance. May this couple see the significance their marriage has. And how marriage is a holy union to represent the Christ/Church relationship. May you wipe away the tears and give strength here. Lord let us remember the forgiveness you have as well as the wrath. Bless this womans search and may her efforts be pleasing in your sight. In Jesus's name. Amen
842092
My advice to you is DO NOT give him any money. Hang up the phone when he calls. If he has been beating you notify the police in your dity or town and get a restraining order on him if possible. If you feel threatend by him you might consider going to a women's shelter. You can find numbers for them in your local phone book. Don't let this crazy ruin your life. Do whatever you can to take charge of your life and stay away from him. Men who beat their wives cannot be trusted. Do not believe him when he tells you he will not do it ever again. He will. Get to a women's shelter AS SOON AS POSSIBLE. Do not tell your friends or family where you are going just go. These places have all kinds of resources to help you and to get you moving in the right direction. You need to get your life back don't let him ruin you or your life. Please do this for yourself you do not deserve to be treated badly just because you married this guy.Please get help TODAY!\nLL
1013550
get help with counseling you need it if he hasn't given you no reason do doughs him then fix your problem i am not saying this to be mean but i have the same iusu
321884
make sure you have all the evidence you need and just tell him. the longer you dont let  him know the more he will keep doing it. let me know asap and deal with the issues if you can.
764999
If it doesn't concern you then mind your own business. Sounds like your a busy body. Just let it be he will get his in end.