I'm 18 and I' m still a  virgin. Is this weird and what can I do to get laid?
435729
You have gone 18 years with out it why not wait till you get married and that way your wife will have something she can be real thankful for.
1075463
non virgin but act like a virgin ..
78368
No there is nothing wrong to being a virgin at 18 and you shouldn't be concerned about what guys think be secure with yourself in being a virgin.Losing your virginity is not a race.I lost my virginity at seventeen and I wish I had waited because I lost it to the WRONG guy and truely regret it.But it is just my opinion that guys like virgins.You are fresh and un-touched.You have got something going on that alot of girls don't.Guys like the idea of having something that nobody else had.My guy knows I am not a virgin but just the thought of another guy that has been up in there causes him to cringe he doesn't want to think about it.Be proud you are not a hoochie that gives it up to every body that gives you a second look or shows interest and be very selective to whom you give your virginity to.
188960
NO!  I lost my virginity just before I turned 14.  Please don't do it, I wish I would have waited.  You have your whole life to have sex and you should share it with someone that truely deserves you.  Don't give yourself to someone who is not worthy of such a beautiful gift.  If you do decide to do it, please, please use a condom and get on birth control.  There are some nasty people out there.
553517
stay a virgin untill u fell ready .. if u were u wouldnt b askin wat 2 do .. if u have a girl have fun wit her in w/e ya do n 4 get bout the guy .. n seriously if u have problems wit how u look then do somethin bout it start a diet exercise but do it FOR YOU not cause of wat ppl think r say .. make urself feel good bout ur body change w/e u want but not 4 others wen a person likes u , loves u they dont care bout ur looks only they care bout wat u have inside wat kind of person u r .. so dont do somethin u'll regret
565062
i am 15 years old and i am still a virgin . and i am proud to be one.
684312
There's nothing wrong with being a virgin at 24, I was 25.\nIt's all about meeting the right person at the right time- don't lose it just for the sake of it.
390024
I'm sure there are some people who want to stay virgins. I wish I could. But girl just because your friends are pregnant doesn't mean you have to be. Be smart and wait or else you really regret it when you are my age. Plus sex will alwayz be there and it will be more romantic and passionate if you wait til your wedding nite.
303886
Only shallow people give this more than a second thought.  Who cares how many people you have/have not slept with.  Lets face it, you can never win anyway.  If you sleep with people you get called a whore/man whore and get a reputation of being untrustworthy, dirty and fickle.  If you do wait and are a virgin, you get called frigid, there is huge pressure on when will be your first time.  If you leave it long enough it can become a social stigma.  Just look at the film 40 year old virgin.  \n\nBasically your damned if you do and damned if you don't.  so just forget about it.
870966
Please, stay a virgin! I'm one and I'm proud of it even though some may consider me a loser. I'll bet a lot of your friends secretly regret losing theirs to some idiot boy that didn't really care about them. Do not feel pressured to lose your virginity; you're too young and boys at that age are very immature.
530836
Yes i'm sorry to say but that was too young to lose your virginity. Your lucky you didn't get pregnant. It was just luck i guess. But you can't just hope next time you don't get pregnant. Because you might not get lucky next time. But i think that you spended some time to think about it and i think that your a couple of years younger than usual but thats perfectly fine. Nowadays its natural.
268134
NO! virgin is someone whose never had sex. and sex is something that happens between (at least) 2 people.\n\nbut it might tear your hymen, if that's what you're worried about
743371
Honey, you're only 16 and now you've gotten yourself a reputation.  Guys talk about this stuff!  Then guys will ask you out for sex only.  Guys who have never gone out with you will tell other guys that they have "had" you.  The guys who really like you are having trouble respecting you.\n"If I don't do it, they won't like me."!!!!  If you don't do it, what have you really lost?  Only someone who is using you, but you do gain back your self-respect, even if you are the only one who knows why.\nThe sad truth is that you may never be able to shed the reputation as long as you are going to that school.  The good news is that in two years, you will have graduated, your world and the people in it will change and you will be able to start anew. \nThis happened to me when I was in HS, and I never even had sex!
940471
Ok, this may shock you as I have different feelings about sex than you do but hear me out. Sex is not that big a deal. It is a natural thing that occurs everywhere all the time. Losing your virginity is NOT that big a deal either, it shows you the beginning to a world of natural instincts, however it has consequences so be careful from now on. Get it out the way (not from a young age mind you, I was 17 when I lost mine and that is a common age even though sometimes I feel the kids of today are starting to blossom earlier - I am going on now...). Nothing came from having unprotected sex did it? No babies on the way? No STD's or diseases? No? Then realise that you had a good time with no consquences of a physical nature and move on, not point dwelling on the past - you can't change it. Just learn from it. Don't be afraid to try new things either, its fun and you're not the first ever to try it ok.\n\nLife is not always that bad, not always great but not that bad either. Partying is always fun, but going to the extreme and partying all the time is bad for your health. I suggest you join a group or get a job (good luck with the interview by the way) and meet new people that way. Charity work is always rewarding and you meet new people too. As for your roomate, there are ways to live with people even if you don't like them. I work with guys I can't stand and as I am in the Army, its hard to get away from them, I learn to deal with it. It strengthens my character to be the bigger man and act like the mature adult I am rather than stoop to their lows. Just remember that there are others out there less fortunate than yourself and pick up your head. \n\nOn the God thing..... I am agnostic. If he exists, which in your case you believe he does, you must seek him, not the other way around. He won't come and say hey, pick your chin up and be better for it. You have to do it yourself, and thank Him for the realisation that the only thing you can do to help someone is to show them how to help themselves. \n\nSo remember, sex is great, join a social group, find a charity to work for or a paying job (school first though), live life with your head held high and proud, and look after yourself in a hard world. Good luck.
83777
If you are wanting her for just that what does it matter if she is a virgin or not? I think the question is how do you get her to have sex with you? Start slow by holding her hand and then go further, like a silent game of chicken. Always worked on me.
113060
I am still a virgin, because I am not married. It annoys me so much that people now think that marriage is an option before having sex.
190935
I was a virgin until I was 25. Then that situation was happily remedied.\n\nI think that life is a lot more than just sex. Obviously, sex is something we all desire. And, we do deserve at some point to experience that joy. It can seem like it will never happen when you go so long before you finally "get some", but for some of us, things just have to fall into place first. \n\nMy suggestion isn't the same as those freaks that just say "let it happen naturally"... I had to realize that I was getting older and it wasn't happening for a reason. It wasn't them - it was me. And, the best thing is, the only thing I can change is ME.\n\nYou can change yourself. Some things you can't change, but some things you can. Make an effort to have more FRIENDS of the female gender. Be a genuine friend. Don't guilt them over not having sex with you, don't pressure them to date you. You can start out just by being nice to random ones you meet (work, college, etc). Be positive around them. Even if inside you are still bitter - only let the positive out. Eventually someone will appreciate your effort, even if she sees through it. Effort earns a lot of points. Things will fall into place.