if a person lied about her/his virginity, can u trust them with your heart?
93384
Probably not. People who lie about one thing tend to lie about others, also.
1128702
Trust?   Well I might think their reasoning might be a little off. So I would weigh that in. \nAnd some just plain lie --maybe they believe it--I don't know.\n\nSo I would be careful.
1166791
Yes, losing your virginity means having sex with someone else.
1107373
if he lies to you about everything, it s obviously no trust there. I know it s cut and dry to say this but if there s no trust, the relationship wont work anyway. It s up to you to give him another chance or not. I think you should talk to him straight forward. If you want to give him a chance, go ahead. After all that, if he s still a liar, break up w/ him. Keep in mind, at least you tried your best, if it didnt work out, too bad, you move on.
519453
Yes and No!\n It depends if the person slept around alot but if not I don't think it's right to call someone NASTY for not being a virgin. It's kind of Judging someone because of their past and everyone makes mistakes!
403937
You're absolutlly right. You MUST have trust and honesty in a relationship. You can't build one on a foundation of lies. The relationship will only fall apart and cause pain for you. Of caurse love plays a major role in all relationships too, :)
1020061
trust her if she says she was then she was or the guy that did it with her before she dont care much about
195418
No. Being that you are aware that people have the ability to lie about EVERYTHING. You were not raped. Saying that is the same thing as saying, "I bought a car last week and this week it is on sale for $5,000 less. They stole my money." Well you know that car dealers have sales and you could have waited. So you should wait until marriage to have sex. Waiting takes all the pain and heartache way from all the shoulda-woulda-coulda's or in this case the shouldnta-wouldnta-couldnta's.
360237
its tough..i wouldnt be able to trust..i'd be tempted to but i think we would just end up moving around in circles..and i've learnt this from experience..although i always tried my best still i ended up with the wrong end of the stick..you end up givin it a try cause u will be blinded by the memories but the facts wud be extremely different.. if they cheated on you, or hurt you once then you dont deserve them..cause they might if given the opportunity do it again and again.. just look ahead and move on you will find a person that will honestly love you someday..
1087294
yes it is deffy possible... but you can't catch Aids it is HIV that is in question here! aother thing are you sure this person is a virgin?? the same way people lie about their age they lie about their sexual experiences!! also note that if you had to think about this question you are not even certain if the said person is telling you the truth!
129493
What difference does it make whether she was a virgin or not?  You did it anyway.  You weren't trying to save her in a pristine condition were you?  Get over it.  You don't believe her, don't trust her, then move on...
204062
Love and Respect go hand and hand. Wouldn't you feel disrespected if you found that your partner lied to you?
375440
that's something that we can never know for sure...but sometimes we have to trust in our heart and hope for the best...yes you could ask, but people lie everyday...so who are we to think nobody would ever lie to us...so the best thing to do is to follow your heart...because we're the only ones that know how we feel...
265394
You should come correct, Kara.  If I were you I wouldn't have intentionally deceived him in the first place because now he's always going to be like, "If she lied to me about that, what ELSE is she lying to me about?"  \n\nBut, have no fear...  If he's really that great of a guy, he will understand and accept you for who you are and what you do.  You just have to do everything you can to earn back whatever trust and confidence he had in you prior to this perpetuation of misinformation.  You also have to let him know that no matter what you do, you're going to save the good stuff for him.  =)  \n\nGood luck.
966090
It's impossible to never lie.  The idea that total honesty makes you a good person is false.  If your best freind is dating someone that they are extremely happy with, and this friend asks if you agree that their new love is attractive, what do you say if the answer is "no"?  You lie!  Your friend isn't taking a survey, they're just looking for affirmation of their happiness.  If we were all made with built-in lie detectors we would all hate each other.  Being a good person isn't about telling the truth all the time.
607015
Dont check anything.  The answer is yes.  Trust me on this one- would I lie to you?
666498
Honesty is the best policy,  Sometimes the truth might hurt, but a lie is going to kill all the trust!!!!!! Treat the person your falling in love with exactly the same was you except to be treated.