How you diferrentiate being negative and being realistic ?
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Well ..It basically depends on the kind of charector..some ppl think they r being realistic and they appaer to other ppl as negative... being negative is being pessimistic but u can be realistic along with being positive and optimistic too.
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Best way I can think of is this:\n\nRepresenting something to be factual when it is not in order to gain something by doing so.\n\nOr simply, obtaining something under false pretense.
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instead of waiting to speak, learn to listen to others.  Actually reflect on what they have just said and see what IMPORTANT contributions you can bring into the conversation.  Stay away from speaking about yourself, that only makes you boring.  Speak with confidence and bring about only positive reflections, negativism will make you a turn off.  People want to be with and speak to positive people who listen to them and with whom they can have genuine conversations.
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have patience\nand look for positive things about that thing\nlike if tht thing happens wht will u get \nand if tht thing doesnt happen wht will u get
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That's a hard one.  You have to just try and get them to see if they are negative, why they are negative and try to show them how to be positive.
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There is no way to know for sure. I believe questioning your possible complacency with regards to well-being or happiness is a healthy thing to do. Try to be confident in how you feel, as long as you're not chopping people up to feel it. Ask people directly what how secure/content/happy you seem to be from their perspective.
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What do you mean by real?
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You are just focussing on the negative.  A lot of things go the way you planned but you just don't notice it.  Sit down, relax and have a good look at what is really good for you in your life.  Gratitude is a very important lesson we need to learn in life.
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Your pros should be strengths, and your weakensses should also be disguised strengths.\n\nExample:\n\nI'm working on being a little less detail oriented, but producing accurate work is important to me.  Sometimes I spend too long trying to find minor errors.
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It is easy, every time something bad happened, I always told myself, that there's something that I have to learn. that God want me to get this kind of experience to help me deal with something more complex in the future. The positive thinks is something that you must have it in yourself.
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It sounds like your combining all your negatives into one giant lump which over shadows all the positives in your life.  Break those negatives back down into their separate little pieces so they don't seem so large.  Plus, then you can attack and conquer each of them one at a time.
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Explore your negative thoughts.  They are there for a reason.  They are probably just a reflection of your fears and your programming all throughout your life.  The truth is, a lot of our thinking is irrational and untrue.  There is no point in entertaining the thoughts that are negative if they are irrational and untrue!  If you do, they will cause you unnessary pain, but most of us continue thinking them anyway, because we haven't really taken a good LOOK at them.  When you have a negative thought, write it down.  Ask yourself, Is this thought really true and valid?  And then, write down all the reasons it is irrational.  Writing it down solidifes it more in your brain.  This is all a matter of re-training your brain.  Once you've written all of this down, then, replace it with a similar, but more accurate and positive description of what's really going on.  EXAMPLE:  Neg. thought:  No one likes me at work.  Is this true?  Well, I have no way of knowing this for sure.  There is no evidence supporting this thought.  Infact, someone did smile at me the other day, and we had a nice chat.  THIS would be evidence to the contrary.  NEW pos. thought:  I will try to put more effort into developing positive friendships at work.  If you need to, you can make this new statement a daily affirmation for yourself, to further solidify this in your brain.\n\nKeep cleaning out your subconscious garbage can!  Its good for you...:)
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create a positive attitude about yourself.  Be honest and try to include all in your life.  Your favorite family member is the one you are with at the time show it. If all are present show no favoritism but equal love and respect.  Soon you will overcome the feeling of being negative.
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If it is during and interview, tell the truth: for example, I am goo in computers, but I am not as organized ad I would like to be. Always say the positive points first and then the negatives, everybody has weaknesses nobody is perfect, if you do not say them you are lying
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Remember the threefold law.  This is NOT just a tool to keep your Craft positive.  It is the TRUTH!  Whatever you send out comes back on you threefold.\n\nBlessed Be
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Personally when someone acts real then I feel more comfortable around them. Those holier then thou are fake. No one escape the evil clutches of sin. Might as well live life with all your heart, not all lies.
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The question isn't whether you CAN...but whether you have the capability of doing so and if it is realistic. So, to answer your question: yes. \nbut, if I were to answer the question of whether you SHOULD be anything you want I would say no unless you want to be good things. \nAnd, if you were to ask if it is realistic to be anything you want I would also say no.