Would you date an Ex convict?  If  yes why and what is the attraction?
95655
Depending on the reason if it is that bad no but I probably would. They deserve a second chance. I am attracted by the way most of them carry themselves.
1078240
Why is he an ex...think about it...and if he is an ex for a reason, do you want to go through all that again?
1027235
Yes, i have.  I began dating a guy that I met through work.  He was a client.  He began calling me on my business cell and we really clicked.  I really began to care about him, but there was something I couldn't quit put my finger on.  So, I knew a PI and I began asking him questions... and then it was on.  I found out this guy was married with four children.  He was also a police officer and had been fired from jobs in the past for sexual harrassment.  Needless to say, I am VERY glad I found all of this out otherwise, who knows the mess I could have been tangled up in.
409622
Guess it depends on how bad is his crime?  And exactly how much do you LOVE him???  Yup, there's always extenuating circumstances.  It's never cut n dried.  Start with, what do you WANT to do?  Are you willing to wait 5 years for someone who may not be worth waiting for?  Questions, questions......and only YOU are able to answer them.  Any of us, as strangers, can only hope that you ask yourself all these tough questions, so that your're able to make the best decision for yourself.
235473
Why would you waste precious time trying to prove something to someone who is a ex? I would have to guess if your trying to do this you still have feelings for him...K
480917
No.  I've lost friends over it but in the long run I am better for it.  While they are in & out of jail-I'm a regular "joe".  Kids, career family.\nSo again NO\nnot worth it.
912013
*** why WOULDN'T you choose someone who has the same beliefs and morals as u yourself do?  am i racist if i don't wanna date dope addicts?
756939
I find it interesting that this has come up in the last few days, considering my roomate had just found Ben's website yesterday and sent me the link. First thing, he wasnt a man, he was a BOY who had been medicated with a drug whose long term effects on minors was not known at the time.I dated him about 6 months before his initial hospitalization,and dont get me wrong, he was a troubled kid, very sensitive to bad things in his life, but never aggresive towards me or others.\n I saw him the July before the murder at the park, this was after some extended time at Shepperd Pratt.....and he was completely off of his rocker...did the TRIPLE dosage of prozac affect this, absolutely. Was his judgment clouded that night, of course! Does it excuse what he did, not totally. He should have to serve time for his crime, but did he deserve life with no parole at 16 years of age? I know for sure...the whole situation breaks my heart. A life lost, a child without a mother, and a brilliant soul who couldnt see beyond his troubled youth,his life wasted behind bars.
689302
Culture shock maybe.... but you knew getting into the relationship in the first place what " baggage" he was carrying ......... Its not a question of age ..... or of how nice, or not nice the .....ex is .......... its a question of Love, commitment, and communication.
1008553
There definately has to be some physical attraction .....The great personality seals the deal!!!!lol
401240
Maybe he's found another fish. \n\nHoney, inmates are not the best of pen pals. Sometimes they get out and look you up. There are many dead ex pen pals because they trusted the ones who claimed they're "innocent." Every inmate in prison is "innocent." Most are looking for a patsy to support them when they get out. If you knew him before he was sentenced, I feel sorry for you. It's hard to turn away from someone you know but not from a stranger. My advice is to let the matter drop.
567522
Harboring a fugitive is a crime. Unless you want to find out what jail is like, I suggest you get rid of him... now! Are you fond of 250 pound women that make the Terminator  look like a girly man? Things to consider...
199152
its the thrill of an older man. honestly you should keep your distance. in cases like that. their feelings could advance and you might not feel the same way. all they ahve to do is say you made a move on them and your @ss is in jail and there is nothing you can do to save yourself
549338
maybe your better off marry a sex offender like this guy\nhttp://answers.yahoo.com/question/?qid=1006052918413\n(copy and paste link)\nis there any female that will marry a reformed sex offender?
301228
Why would you want to date someone who's married?
946503
Man, you are an ex convict, and you are gay, and you are highly perverted Sick, I would say. You life will be difficult (if I may forsee)
922312
Huh....you sure you're in love?  It's going to be tough being alone while he serves time...and he seems aware of that fact.  That's a big sacrifice--waiting for him I mean.  If you chose that route--best of luck to you.  But even if you don't decide to wait it out--you could still be supportive by communicating with him while he's incarcerated.  Life with a convicted felon is not going to be easy after he serves time either--and your options will be limited because of it.  Just be aware of the sacrifices required to remain with this person.  It sounds like you'll have lots of time to make up your mind.  Find a support group that can assist you.  Good Luck