is it possible for someone that acts like they hate you to really actually like you and look up to you?
91637
yeah, some people are just weird like that... it could be a clsh of personality... you hear often how opposites attract and when others don't get along because they are sooooo much alike... that's the way love goes
795206
No, because it is like you are taking advantage of that person who kind of likes you. Good Luck.
544760
I think the best way to tell if someone really likes you is by the way they treat you. Actions speak louder than words.\nThe only way to tell is how someone treats you is the TEST of TIME.  Being a friend through thick and thin, good and bad, ups and down --good hair days and bad hair days....
929301
It all depends how they act towards you now... feel around it before you do...
411748
Someone that likes you will treat you nice and want to spend time with you; someone that hates you will be rude to you and not want to spend time with you.
536380
You never will.\n\nWe never truly know if anyone loves us, hates us or exactly how they feel.  We only know what they tell us (which can be a lie) or how they act (which can also be manipulation).\n\nHowever, a good start is when they hang out with you a lot and don't do things to hurt you.  That would probably be an indication they like you.  As to how to know when they love you...the former answer is correct...when they say they do.  But you can never truly know, sadly.
397165
There must be a reason to why he hates you... was it because you did respond to his fondness of you?\n\nBut what ever it is, the bottom line is, if he once did like you, there is a very high possibility that he can like you again. Go and talk to him. Don't just keep quiet. That would just give the wrong impression that you are arrogant and will not communicate with him.\n\nJust try talking to him and one day he will give in. Build a friendship and who knows, it might take a turning for the better. ;)\n\n\nAll the best in you quest!! Take care
714121
Haven't read your last question but one thing for sure, you shouldn't hate someone because they got in there first. You are using the word 'fancy' so it sound that the person is only an acquaintance. Don't fret over it. Go out tonight and I'm sure you'll spot someone who's not already taken. Good lick, sorry good luck. Freudian slip there.
507810
If hes that good of a friend he wont hate you for what you say. Hes probally waiting for you to ask cause hes scared of you hating him for having feelings for you.
846731
Well, if he hates you because someone told him to hate you, then he's not worth your time anyways.  Move on to someone else.  If you keep thinking about him, you'll just end up hurt.
1039149
aww, i no how u feel. but dont b a stalker like me, cuz wut i did made him hate me. just sum how find out his sn, and let him no u like him. for sum reason, its a whole lot easier online than it is face to face!!
114155
If a person hates you, they do. You can only be yourself. Say you are sorry once and if that's not enough move on.
153573
You really can't MAKE someone like you. \n\nChanging your appearance would make him like YOU, he would like how you look.
871313
Yep, he likes you. Guys are like that. The people we hate most, ironically, are our brothers (or friends that are so close they're like brothers). Its because our bros know the buttons to set us off and we love to make each other squirm, but when the line is crossed, we stop. \n\nThat guy has the hots for you and his friend was loving it watching him be uncomfortable. The look was to let the friend know that he crossed the line and the teasing stopped. Why don't you call the guy and flat out ask him? If you take the initiative, he'll most likely be truthful.
359787
Yes and no.  In my opinion if they don't know that you hate them the only person that gets hurt is you.  If they somehow find out, then they it may hurt them, especially if they care about you.
662854
you can tell a fake smile by the eyes, it doesnt necessarily mean he doesnt like you. if you want to see if he likes you be cold with him for a while, no eye contact, just answer his questions yes, no etc. be very busy. if he doesnt notice this aloofness, or he is cool too, or not really bothered then he does not like you, men are very simple really.
140291
This questions is too complicated to answer without more details.  Much depends on why the person is (or you perceive them to be) your enemy.  One answer is that it may not be possible and just move on.  Not everyone in this world is going to like you.