A guy that I work with always has to be right. Even if he doesn't have info backing. what should jack and i do
84008
Everytime he's wrong bust him on it with info to back you up. My cousin was like that.
623640
do you have any reason to doubt him? if he's a generally  trustworthy person then yes believe him. and if you are just his friend who cares anyway? its history, you are probably better off thinking about today or maybe tomorrow than you are fretting about something in the past, it can't be changed and its already done. let it go and move on.
98073
You need to be true.\nBecause Honesty is the best Policy!
1183099
ask the company to be more reliable
91623
Tell him the truth.  Just say "hey, I think you're a great guy, but I really don't think you're the right person for me.  I want you to be happy, and I want to be happy. I don't think I'm happy right now; but that is not your fault.  Like I said, you're a great person, but just not the great person I want to be with."
417736
sense his tone \nor remember a thing he told u and u think its a lie then ask him about it latter like a week or smt\nusualy ppl don't remember there lies for more than a cople of days ;)\ndo more than once and make it look like a casual Q. \ndon't make him feel ur investigating him or that u don't beleave him
276320
I like a guy who is secure enough to allow me to do my own thing if he is not interested in it, and has activities of his own that he can also do without me.  Even if he does not agree with someone else, he should respect their right to their own opinions and views.  He should be someone who knows who he is and is consistent, not a chameleon who changes everything about himself depending on who he is talking to.
1021681
take charge, i am always in charge, but sometimes he can as well, you should definetely talk to him about it.
581783
This question is in Careers and Employment, so I suggest you dump them both, get a job and earn your own keep instead of playing one guy against the other.
927513
Don't be mad at my simplistic answer but "Do the right thing!"\n\nYou obviously want to - I can tell from your information - but what I find is that 'the truth always reveals itself!' You may lose more in the end if you go the wrong way.\n\nI pray for your success.!
1100539
My boss gives me full reign to handle my department as I see fit but it's because I keep him in the loop on everything that's important. I inform him (them really, two share the position) when something is going on or when I suspect trouble somehow. And I always do my research to be sure I give him the right answer when he needs something from me. Also, I always give him the credit if something comes up, say in a meeting, that we have previously talked about. I try to always make him (them) look good. And he (they) do the same for me. I've known them both for years and we've been in the trenches together.\nFinal point, I always lighten things up with a little appropriate humor. A little inside humor can really ease a difficult situation but that may not work well for everyone.\n And understand that it's just a job. Life goes on beyond the office. We do our best at work but we are all human too. My boss knows that and he (they) enjoy my efficiency and thoroughness, but a little tasteful and appropriate humor every now and then too. But again, that may not work for everybody.
975605
Tell the client the truth and keep them updated.  You can't go wrong with that.
754322
Be firm and straight to the point and back up what you say with verifiable facts. It doesn't hurt to imply that if the issue doesn't get resolved at that particular level that you are prepared to pursue it further up.
567876
Talk about what you talked about to other people, why should he be any different?  Say what comes to mind and don't worry about if its good enough.  Not everything has to be perfect.\n\nAnd I don't know if this applies, but it goes two ways, he needs to ask you questions too and let you do the talking!
27408
I suggest you ask him and explain why you are asking him , has he given you reason to think he is ? Or do you have trust issues ? Your best bet is to talk to him and be honest seeing as though that is what you would want from him right ?
690279
Have a mutual friend ask him about it without letting him know you were behind it. You don't want to scare him away if he's a good friend.
302313
Wrong!!! He's wrong for not giving you the information that you need.  You should demand that he divulge information about himself.  What is he trying to hide.  You need to be very direct and firm in your approach.  Good Luck!!!