people... wat can u do wen u r dating a guy and ur under age but ur ma doent ac. but u no both of u luv 1anoth
93354
Depending on you and your 'lovers' age, can you really say that you are in love with one another? Haven't you ever seen them commercials with sexual predators on it. Older people don't always mean what they say when they are going out with someone much younger than them.
717614
try to tell him about u r feeling if the age differance between both of us is not more than 5 years I think he can understand u. go ahed coz love and feelings are limit less and unbounded best luck
890669
U just like those guys to hang out with. I would date either one of them. Because once ya'll start dating,things are going to change, rather you like it or not and you might not want that to happen. But if you want to date one you have to sleep on it for a long time. Jusst think of whats going to happen. or see which one is more important. Maybe you shouldnt date him.
1158891
no, you can date him, but u can not have sex unit he is 18
74464
How old are you? The first guy I dated, it took us 3 months to kiss, but it worked out fine in the end. \n\nYou'll get less freaked out with time. When you're ready to kiss him, both of you will now it.
891153
Uhh...nope...but it depends if your into girly guys..evidently you are because your dating him. stop worrying about what other people think and just have fun. your not marrying him so don't fret.
391679
move on. there will be others. as hard as it is to think about right now... and plus.. if he isnt "allowed to date" that leads me to believe you are younger.... sooo dont think that what youre feeling is true love. dont rush into being soo adult... you have a LOT of time.
819701
My personal opinion is that the age difference is not as important as the fact that you are not 18 yet.  I would wait just two more years... you will be 18 and he will be 27.  It is technically against the law in most places for that age difference when you are a minor.  Again, the age difference is not the biggest deal here, the fact that 16 makes you a legal minor.  I date much older guys too... but I waited till I was 18 and a legal adult.
945552
ok look....this can be a touchy thing..but you shouldnt let age get in the way. If you really like him it shouldnt matter. My bf is 18 and i'm 16 and we work out fine. I can understand why he lied because i was dating a 12 year old when i was 15 and he lied to me too. the only reason we broke up was because of distance.  I don't think it's wrong at all. Like I said if you like him, then forget his age...and he obviously wants to be with you..take advantage of that :)
904386
You don't mention your age, or his. Age is really just a number, the level of maturity is what matters. As long as you have stuff in common, get along, and like each other  - that's what's important. Also, don't let him influence you to do anything that you wouldn't do on your own - he may be sexually active, and you may not be ready.
1127281
Your age right now makes all the difference.  You may not understand the reasoning behind the decision to not allow you to date him, but I promise there are good reasons behind it.  I've been there, and it was one of the big mistakes in my life.  Be young, enjoy it, embrace it.  You'll be older soon enough
997732
It is fine to date him... have fun with him, be young at heart.\n\nYou may be more mature than him on some fronts ~ but remember this ~ you learn from every relationship.  Go for It.\n\nSounds kinda Interesting... I am 27 ..... hmmm...\n\n~Best Wishes ~
222809
I was only 12 yrs old when i started secretly dating a 19 yr old guy.... it was fun because it was forbidden and nobody knows until my Dad caught me. I was grounded to have dates intil I was 18... My point is, there is nothing wrong in dating someone older than 18 while you are an underage. As long as its a harmless date. Harmless in the sense that both of you are just enjoying each others company (no sex involved). Its only a DATE...not marriage.
673024
If you are 18 and in school still, it's that old rule \n\n"as long as you're under my roof you do as i say"\n\nif you're 18 and live on your own, date anyway.\n18 is too old to not be dating, my fiancee and i talk that when our kids reach 18 then it's fine for them to start dating... any younger, it's just a huge no no.... \n\nshe may not have felt you were ready for that, but let her know kindly that how will you ever find love , or learn to love and lose if you never get to experience it, let her know (if you have a close relationship) you will keep her up to date on your relationships, not all details because some are personal like kisses and such... but still if that will get her to let you...\n\nif all else fails, date anyway, tell the guy the situation, and he may enjoy it because you're both dating and sneaking around with each other behind your mom's back....\n\ni know that's somewhat disrespectful but by law 18 years old is an adult... so good luck with that :)
1082621
ur to young to be dating.
232948
Just ask him, depends on the age though. \nLike if you are 15 and he is 19, he might not want to date somone so young. But if you are 21 and he is 25 it might not be such a big deal.
40891
how old are the guys?  I'd be concerned if they were a lot older than the girl.  It's best to go out with a group when you're younger, reserving individual dating until you're older - like 16 or 17