i lOVED my boyfriend of 9 months n we broke up n i cant get over him what should i do 2 stop thinking of him?
89103
better nine months than eight years enjoy the freedom try not to look for someone to take his place hang out with friends eventualy the feeling of loss will pass just give yourself the greaving time you need come to terms with what has happened try to learn from it and move on maby the next relationship will be better good luck god bless lol.
138916
You probably will not be over him completely until you are involved with another man.  There is, as you know, a man-shaped space inside your . . . heart . . . that you need to fill.  Choose wisely this time, and you won't have to go through this again.
151427
you may never be able to forget love( if it is real love) bt you can get over it, try things to get your focus of the matter ,like going to gym more, hanging out with girlfriends and so on.... and maybe try going out with someone else, you might find a new love to replace it.
194632
honey i have the same problem but if u truely love him then u can't get over him i tried but it just keeps pulling me back 2 him!!! i say u tell him that u love him & tell him whne ur ready i'll be here but i hope ur ready soon b/c i want u so much & i loveu!!!
925741
I'm sorry to hear you're in such pain.  Unfortunately, hurting comes with the territory; it will lessen over time.\n\nYou can do things to help yourself, though it might be hard:\n\n1.  You broke up for a reason, don't forget that.\n\n2.  He is now involved with someone else, and you may be crushed that he moved on so quickly.  Don't be; give yourself time...his moving on is no reflection on you.\n\n3.  Be honest with yourself about your real motivation for keeping in contact with him.  You've tried to talk to him...he does not want to talk to you.  Accept it and stop torturing yourself, your attempts to speak with you aren't getting you anywhere.\n\n4.  You may think it's wrong for him to respond the way he is, but look at it from his perspective:  You broke up; he's involved with someone else and you keep calling him.  You can let go, and it's annoying to him.  What reason would he have to talk to you other than to tell you to leave him alone?  What if the situation were reversed?\n\nNo, it isn't easy.  Having been there, I promise you you'll get over him in time.  You'll look back on this and wonder what all the hoopla was all about. In the meantime, stop calling him; it's not healthy and you're only hurting yourself.  It's not going to bring him back to you.\n\nTake care...
1013916
its normal to feel the pain because you have truely loved him. i suggest you go out w/ your friends, get a hobby, keep yourself busy so you dont have time to think about him. \ni hope sonner you'll get over him
1149772
He has absued you mentally, reduced your self esteem, made you believe that you love him so much that you  have to hurt yourself physically for him to believe that he has succeeded. My opnion is that you are too good for him because you are still hanging on. If you try hard enough, i believe that slowly you would get over him and recover back to your original self. All I could do is wish you the best of luck.
918319
Stop thinking about him if u do one of these days you will miss out on the right guy for u because u are still holding on maybe thinking that he will come back to u just pray and if hes the one for u hell come back until then live ur life cuz u will go nowhere with that burden on your shoulder
236533
1. Don't think about it. \n2. Hang out w/ friends.\n3. Try something you never done before.\n4. Occupy your time.\n5. Cry @ 1st and then get over it.\n6. Move on.\n7. You were too good for him anyway. \n8. Help others.\n9. Focus on you. \n\nJust to name a few...lol. Just try some of these. I hope u start feeling better and remember you will be fine in time. I promise in the future you will look back and say what the hell was I thinking for being w/ him in the first place!
1184616
that already happened to me...its very difficult to get over this guy...specially if he always talks to you..i bet he only thinks of you as a friend, so when he comes talk to you, always smile and be nice (because someday..act like a friend...but you should try to replace him... look for some new guys and eventually kiss them...make new friends and go out with them.... be sure to always be occupied and try to think of him the least possible... each day that passes you will see that your love will decrease...
1038905
It takes time to get over someone that you have loved and trusted so deeply. I know that's probably not what you want to hear but it is true. The last thing that you need to do right now is to jump into another relationship. Take your time and let love happen to you again in its own time. In the mean time try to occupy your time with other things and don't dwell on missing him so much. I know its easier said than done but trust me in time it will get better.
769771
Everyone keeps telling you it's hard, it hurts...but I wanna say it is an good opportunity for you to take an emotional break. Just take off from the bad relationship you had before. Now focusing on yourself, do anything make yoruself happy. Beatify yourself, dress up, workout, study, go to the beach, meet friends...Many things you can do to make the world starts to spin for you not him any more. When you can't keep your mind off him, just give it a break and do things that you feel most relaxed and your attention can be carried away the easieast. Soonner or later, you will realize you don't need him in your life to make yourself feel better, look prettier, and being appreciated more by people.
970987
get over him by making your self feel better. by this i mean go out and buy all new clothes, get a sexy hair cut and make him look at you. some call this retail theropy! the best answer i can give you is try and be round people as much as possible. i just broke up with my boyfriend and now i live by myself and its very deppresing. and always remember never leave the one you love for the one you like coz the one you like will leave you for the one they love.
812742
It will just take time to get over him.  He broke up with you, which means he doenst want anything to do with you, dont write him notes or try to talk to him, just move on.
339419
You need to move on. You can't get over your ex because you keep listening to the love songs that you listened to when you were with him. You need to realize that it is over and tell yourself that you will never be with him again. Listen to some different music. Music that sings about a women getting out of a bad relationship and moving on with their lives. It won't be easy. It will take some time but, eventually you will get over him and find someone else to love. Maybe when you are over him, you can become friends and that spark might rekindle and you will get him back. But, for now except that it is over. Allow yourself to get over him.
413098
You must have really liked him if you cant get over him when you were the one that dumped him. Think of a break up this way; you are one step closer to the one you are meant to be with. He can find someone that he can truly be happy with and you can find the love of your life.
1010435
don't do it....i did just that thing and ended up very sad and very screwed over. after we broke up i still had to see him everyday, so that made it even harder cause i still cared very much for him. think hard before starting a work related relationship with anyone