How can you find the real you?
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There are several "types" of people in the world.  Write down what you like about yourself and don't want to change.  Then, write down what you don't like about yourself, figure out why and decide how to change it.  \n\nTHEN... figure out what "type" of person you wanna be and work up some personality goals that will develop you into that person.  Will this take a week? No...It’s gradual and at it's correct pace.  They pace you take it at:  one day at a time.
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Well in order to see who you are on the inside you have to give them the chance. Find a mutual interest and become friends first. Then they can get to know the true you. You have to judge for yourself if they want a real relationship.
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By being true to YOURSELF ... meaning, follow your instincts, your heart and your OWN mind :)
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The voices in my head tell me what's real.  Just like this question.  It's not real.\n\nNice try though.
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Well, try to punch them and you'll discover how real they really are !\n:-)\n\nBTW : Stupid question !\n:-)
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be real write your own
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Are you asking me or yourself? Look inside yourself and think about your positive attributes. Not just physical but what you are good at. Then think of those things that you need to change.Look again at yourself and the answer will come to you.
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start loving yourself
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Unfortunately the only way to know if someone is a true genuine friend is time, be protective of yourself, and keep private things to you and the ones you KNOW you can trust, Those who are less genuine are masters at deception and is why many get hurt by trusting too soon. So by knowing this maybe you can keep your self safe from this more often.
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Start by trusting your senses. Look at the natural world around you. Don't just glance at it. Take a few minutes and really look at just one thing (touch, taste, smell, and hear when appropriate too). Look at a leaf from a tree. A flower. An animal. Another person. A really nice meal.\n\nWhat do your senses tell you? As long as you feel that you can trust your senses, then you are on your way. What do the complexities of what you are experiencing with your sense tell you? Where are your senses leading your thoughts? \n\nWe are beings innately drawn to the truth. Trust your gut when something seems wrong. If something upsets your sense of peace, avoid it. You are in this for the long haul, don't make long term decisions if you don't know what to believe in? If you are feeling lost, don't run in any direction just to get a sense of movement. Take small steps in a considered direction.
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Psychologist and philosopher William James said, "There is but one cause of human failure.  And that is man's lack of faith in his true self."\n\nMost of us, most of the time, are not living life as our 'true self'.  We worry about what others think.  We make choices and decisions not from the heart.  We spend too little time exploring and discovering who we really are and why we are here.\n\nA part of us always knows when we are not being true to ourself.  That voice may be expressing itself through the feeling of living life fraudulently.\n\nLearn to listen to and follow your heart.  Spend time every day being introspective.  Find your passion and pursue it.  Then your life will be fulfilled and without fraud.
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I must say the number one thing I look for is honesty, not only to me but to yourself! If you can't be honest with yourself you can't be with anyone else...........\nThen along comes trust!
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Be true to yourself. re-inventing ones self is something that happens in music videos.
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Be happy with who you are.\n\nCoach
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honesty and being ur self
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When you know who you are and you are comfortable and confident with it then you are real.
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Pretending to be someone you are not!\nThink about it? You are what you are.\nIf not, you are just a lie!\n\nWith love and best intentions,