I don't talk to my ex girlfriend at all..and she has a bf? am i handeling it fine?
97771
Maybe she is just moving on with her life and not thinking about you at all.  I would say if she is not trying to talk to you that she doesn't want you to be jealous, she is just moving on.  So I would suggest you do the same, let go of the past:)
713166
No way man. An ex is an ex for a reason. I'll give you a link to go to and read why you shouldn't even be talking to her. If you want any chance of getting her back go no contact. Start dating other woman and let her find out. She'll come crawling back and saying everything you want to hear. Don't buy it. She just wants what she can't have and when she gets it BOOM you mean shyt to her again. There's a 1 in 100000 chance that says she wants you back for the right reasons. Move on. The damage is done. She's damaged goods and you'll never have as healthy relationship as you think. She may say she wants to see you happy in the long run and personally you'll be happier without her. She won't allow you to move on until she's stable in her own life. Don't let her mess with you. And don't even be her friend. Until you are totally over her. Nothing you say or do is going to get her back. I PROMISE. Good luck and find you a new woman. AT CHURCH
420676
Depends on the situation...where you fighting?  I've accidentally called my ex-bf by my dog's name during a fight.  If it was in bed...i've known people who have done that, and i think the reason for that is because they're just not in the right frame of mind during that time.  Whatever the reason, obviously she wasn't thinking straight.  I don't think it means she wants her ex back.  I don't think she apologized because she was embarrassed/upset and didn't want to make a big deal about it.  If i were you, i'd let it go this time.
746496
take note:she was ur ex girlfriend..so it doesn't really matter if she dates another guy.. if u decide to take her back remember that u don't trust her.. so why invest or taking her back? u will go on the same cycle when u were with her....probably ur just bothered coz she moved on already while u r not.. \nit's normal.. try to get urself busy.. go out with friends and please try to forget her.. it won't do good for you.. i know u can do it.. so good luck
972334
If you didn't trust her you wouldn't be asking her ex and why does this bother you so much?  Sounds like you have doubts about her past.  Either accept her story or move on to someone you can trust.
886317
ask her why is she always talking at her ex cause you don't want to hear her talking about them and if she misses them that much then she can go back to them cause she is totally disrespecting you in always how would  she like it if you talk about your ex girl friends but tell her if she doesn't stop you are gone and will be looking for some one different good luck
574207
Depends why she is your ex and what sort of help she needs. It also depends on whether you have a new girlfriend and whether she would mind you helping your ex out. Only you know your situation and only you can decide...
640106
im so sorry for u..i see how confussing this must be for you..<i could barely understand this it was so conf..> but i think u need to start from the begginning..why did she think u were ditching her...and tell her "i have a new bff and so do u, u should have thought about ur decsion before u got a new bff" so untill then..lets just stay bf..ok.."\n\nhope this helps..i hope things work out for u..\n\n: )
942317
maybe you didn't have closure with the ex.  I know that's the reason my ex still haunts me after 5 years.  fortunately i've got the greatest gf in the world, and i can talk to her about this.  I LOVE NIKI!!!
1186307
I would tell her the truth,. that there really isnt anything going on with you two and her friendship means to much for you two to let a guy inbetween you. Shes feeling insecure because she can see how easy it is for that guy to get another girlfriend in short time. Can you imaigine if he did secretly want to go out with you? Then what.\nI'd give your ex and her some space and not even get close to that situation untill he finally breaks it off with her...Believe me he will real soon.\nRemember shes only the rebound girl...aint that sad.shhhh dont remind her of that point tho....heheh
767477
There is definitely trouble brewing.  She obviously still has something for him, since she sought him out on MySpace and is actively chatting.  Never trust a partner who still talks to their ex!
1160813
My b-friend and his ex talked the whole first year him and I were together.  She too broke up with him and I knew she really hurt him.  It drove me crazy too.  1)  I had to decide if I trusted my b-friend or not.  If I didn't trust him then I shouldn't b with him.  \n2) If the two of them ended up together then him and I weren't meant to be.  \nWe've been together for a little over a year, the ex has faded quickly.  Just hang in there, she's an ex for a reason.
342246
forget snooching32 advice!! you think, if you were in a twelve year relationship, would you be able to stop contact with that person completely,? NO DIDNT THINK SO, my girlfriend was with someone for 7 years, and they still have contact, i dont like it and i feel insecure and sometimes inferior to her ex, but like me, you will have to learn to deal with the ex being on the scene for some time, but eventually, this person will start giving you the attention and the ex will fade away into the background.\n\nthis person has been honest with you and told you his ex was there, and that nothing happened, the two of you hve a special thing, you can communicate, you talk a lot everyday, that is hard to find, dont throw that away, tell your friend how you feel, go round, take a bottle of wine with you and sit and talk it out, see the outcome, you will find a lot more out about each other and its the only way to find out how he really feels for you\n\nyou might be pleasantly surprised. but you will never know otherwise!\nthere are a lot of negative people on here, dont listen to them
598796
Well hopefully you've been honest if your past has come up in conversation with your current girlfriend.  If not; then maybe you'd better be worried........Otherwise, it is possible for the current and ex to be o.k. with each other although; not too many of them can be true friends.  There are too many unanswered questions that will come up between them, and usually trying to make that type of relationship work usually backfires sooner or later.........
292206
I think what you did was within your right.  You talked to your bf and he said that he talked to her about it and it didn't stop.  I don't want you to not trust your bf but there is a chance that he never said anything to her.  I had a similar situation where my ex-bf's ex-gf kept calling all the time for advice.  I realize they were just friends but she would call at all hours of the night becuase she had a fight with her current bf.  I talked to my ex about this and he said he would talk to her.  One night she called around 3:30 and I picked up the phone.  I told her that I wasn't happy about her calling this late and my bf had already talked to her about this.  She told me that he hadn't said anything to her at all.  So with that long story ;) that was my point there is a chance he didn't tell her that you had a problem with it all.
560212
This ex girl of yours needs to get a life and take responsability for her actions. SHe's just trying to make you feel guilty.  Stay away from her, avoid her... otherwise she's just going to take you down w/ her. You don't need that. You are who you are.
219497
I totally understand what you have been through.  I think she could still be your friend but the question is NOT NOW. You have to move on no matter how hard it is.  You have to re-establish yourself with someone else, and be a whole again...before you can be friend with your ex.  It is very selfish of her to keep 2 men around.  Be strong and let her know that it is for the best. If she still cares about you, this is the least she can do for you.