If my boyfriend is always accusing me of cheating, does he have a guilty consious or just not sure of him self
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It sounds like your boyfriend is self conscience of your relationship and he is he sure of himself.  Have you made attempts to reassure him that he is the only one and that when you go out you are just having fun with your female friends.  \n\nI think many times we as women forget that men can also suffer from low self esteem and can be just as self conscience about relationships as women.
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Is it a "was" or happening now? Im confused. Anyway, cheaters usually cannot look straight in the eyes of their partners if being confronted about it. Be aware of his actions like stepping a few meters away from you when talking on the phone, whispering and having a good (and naughty) laugh. Suspect him that he's cheating if you do not see your picture in his wallet anymore.\nBut are you really sure or your just paranoid? If he really does, then start asking yourself why he's into it. Examine yourself if you may be in fault. To make him stop, assure him of your love and express (and emphasize in action) why he should be sticking with you more than anyone else. :D
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It doesn't sound like he loves you necessarily. Though, if he seems preoccupied with you, then he may have deep feelings for you... or just maybe is trying to hurt you or make you feel uncomfortable I think the best way to resolve these issues is to break up with your boyfriend (if you cheated on him you are probably not satisfied completely wtih him) and then tell the guy you really like exactly how you feel.
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Well i will like to ask \n1)if he is a cheat? \n2)Does he steal? \n3)His he faithful to you? \n4)Does he keep to his promises? \n5)Does he fight you or get mad at you easily? \nwell if these answers are yes, then it worth you being worried. All you have to do is to kick his fucking ass hole out of your life and get on with your life. A lady with a nice heart like you, deserves being love and cherish by a nice man.
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From the information you have provided I suspect you may be imagining things.\n\nYou have been together for 4 years but are still not married or living together. Is this yours or your boyfriend's choice? If your boyfriend's then perhaps his lack of commitment to the relationship is prompting these feelings that he is having an affair.\n\nYou have only given two examples of his suspect behaviour, the second of which is extremely weak. There is nothing in the SMS message that indicates it was addressed to a woman never mind a women he is having an affair with. The fact that he referred to you as his girlfriend makes me sceptical that it would have been to a woman he is romantically involved with.\n\nCatching him out in a lie about his meeting is a little more worrying. However you indicate that he had an excuse - was his excuse reasonable?\n\nPossibly your woman's intuition is just your subconscious telling you that you are no longer satisfied with the relationship and your boyfriend's lack of commitment and you are looking for a way out.\n\nDo you have any close friends that you can talk to about your concerns? They will probably be able  to give you a better opinion than anyone here.
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If you think that he is cheating, then he probably is.  Ask him.  Don't "spy" on him like people are telling you to.  If you have to spy, there is already a trust issue and that is hard to build up a relationship when there is no trust.  Plus, running around and checking up on him is just a waste of your time, and he aint worth it girl!  Take your extra time and find a decent guy that will spend his weekends with YOU!  Good Luck!!!
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If you don't trust him, you need to ask yourself if you should be in this relationship.  My husband has lazy moments too but it would never cross my mind for a second that he'd cheat on me.
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you don't. but then again, you don't know that he is. if you would have a reason to suspect it, then your relationship has underlying issues of trust.
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Hun i think he's trying to make you feel guilty in a way so he has a chance to run out on you and not have to be a part of any of what you going through either that or he's just plain cheating on you it that thing we call reverse psychology. when their doing something wrong and try to take it out the innocent.
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If there was absolute proof he was lying, i would confront him about it.... If there is one thing in a relationship I cannot stand is someone who is not honest...  No one deserves to be lied to.
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Maybe hes the one whos cheating thats why he keeps asking cuz he feels guilty.You should ask him.*
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i am sorry i am not like this rest of the people but i do think trust and honesty are the two main ingredients in a relationship maybe hes hiding something do not quote me but usually those who accuse are guilty themselves but good luck you should not have to prove your innocent he should have complete trust if he loves and wants a great relationship best of luck hope i help in at least a tiny bit
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Actually, the only way to know is to ask. There are no foolproof ways to tell if someone is cheating. Even an "eyewitness" might have the situation all wrong!\n\nSome people in similar situations find that confronting the person and being upfront with their feelings is the best way to sort things out. You may want to explain how you feel and ask him how he feels about the situation. One thing to keep in mind when talking about cheating — especially when you're not sure if it's true — is to avoid sounding like you're making an accusation. For instance, instead of saying "You're cheating on me, aren't you?" you can say something like, "I've got this funny feeling. I hope it's not true."\n\nRemember, any time you confront or discuss your feelings with somebody you are taking a risk. You may feel vulnerable or may get hurt in the process, so you need to decide whether knowing the truth is worth the risk.\n\nHope this information helps!
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Call it a woman's intuition.  If you feel is cheating, it's probably because he is.
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I'm sorry but if he is constantly cheating on you then he doesn't love you. You wouldn't hurt someone u love. I am assuming that his cheating hurts u.
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If you think he's cheating, then one of two things is possible:\n\n1. He is cheating.\n2. You have a low self-esteem and are overly suspicious.\n\nEither way your relationship is in trouble.  If he's cheating, dump him and don't look back.  If the problem is your insecurity, then dump him and fix yourself before you complicate your life with the eventualitites of a relationship.
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Here are some signs that your man is cheating:\n\n1. Wearing Cologne\n2. Buying new,or changing clothes more often\n3. Making excuses to go out\n4. Concealing his wallet, cell phone, ect..\n5. Looking at the clock a lot. \n6. Sometimes being even nicer to you, because he feels guilty\n7. Unexplained lapse in time when he is gone.\n\nThese are a few things to consider any major changes in routine can become questionable. Men aren't that smart and tend to get caught because they are preoccupied with there affair. Good Luck to ya.. If all else fails Call the reality show Cheaters and have him followed HAHA