Is making out w/ another guy cheating?If so, should I tell my boyfriend about it or not?
85290
Yea it is not good mostly cause your man and him are pals.. you should not let it happen again.. thats sooo bad.
928056
I think most people would consider this to be cheating. No you aren't going out and actually doing it, there's still that feeling of betrayal. I would suggest that you stop doing it, so that your partner doesn't find out and end up getting angry. If you enjoy doing it, try doing it with your partner, you guys might find out a lot of new things about eachother. \n\nGood Luck!
743463
If you are in a committed relationship with your boyfriend but then have sex with someone else (male or female), you are cheating on your boyfriend.\nHowever, if you and your boyfriend have NOT committed yourselves to each other, then he needs to understand that he cannot stop you from experimenting.  He's jealous and most boyfriends would be jealous if their girlfriend wants to experiment in a potential lesbian relationship.
57694
This is going to end badly for everybody.\n\nIf the person with whom you're cheating also knows you're cheating he probably is going to be very happy about seeing you re-commit yourself to your boyfriend, especially after having been with him for four months.  On the other hand, if the boyfriend finds out (does the other guy know him?  if so, he may tell your boyfriend about your illicit relationship)from someone other than you THAT is going to be really ugly.\n\nSo, if you want to stay with the boyfriend then tell him what's been going on, and then break it off with guy #2.
438009
If my bf f*cks someone else, it's cheating. If it's just kissing, fine.It's still me he's coming home to.
40435
Is a sucker bite a hicky? If it looks like one then find out if he messing around. Have some friends ask around or try to find out yourself somehow. If it's true then I am pretty sure you don't want to stay with a cheater.
575126
if your sleeping with another guy then your not really in love with your boyfriend, if you really wanted and loved your boyfriend then you wouldn't do anything to mess your relationship up, so I think you should break up with your boyfriend and find one that you couldn't stand to cheat on.
201962
Sorry to hear your angst ... I'm sure it's very hard and mixed up for you right now.\n\nBottom line girlfriend ... if you REALLY love your boyfriend, you'll forget about this lust you feel.  If you have the desire and feel you cannot accept not experiencing this other guy and getting it out of your system, then you have no other choice but to get out of your current relationship.  Otherwise, you're a cheater and a user.  You may not even know what could happen if that encounter were to happen, you may lose everything because it just wasn't everything you expected.\n\nGood luck in your choice, whatever it may be!!
193498
no its not cheating, cheating is if you go out with both of them and they didnt know and all that stuff. wat u did was nothing. if ur boyfriend doesnt trust you,than he doesnt deserve you. dump him. go out w/ someone else (not his cus,only if u want to make him jelous)
645595
At some point you're going to have to face what you did, I mean were there other people who saw who could tell your man, or do you think this person you kissed will take it personally. I understand what happened, we all have done some stupid stuff drunk. I would talk to the guy you kissed, no matter how uncomfortable it maybe, the last thing you need is this guy thinking it meant something and harassing you, you need to draw the line and say it was a mistake (who knows maybe he thinks it was a mistake too). As for your man, it's up to you whether you tell him, although IF there is even the SLIGHTEST possibility he will find out from other means then YOU need to be the one to tell him if you hope to stay with him, he will think more of your honesty if you come out with it than he will your dishonesty if he finds out through someone else. ALTHOUGH IF there is NO possibility he will find out I would say keep it to yourself, there's no need to drag your guilt out and punish him, believe me I know my boyfriend told me about some girl he had sex with then afterward he said, I feel SO much better for getting that off my chest, yeah well then I felt horrible and I wasn't the one who had done anything wrong!
915282
I bet you kissed the other guy cause you wanted some attention that Greg was failing to give you. This happens. I kissed a guy and lost a boyfriend. He wasnt your boyfriend so dont worry about him. Im sure you are not leading him on and being cocky. Give it some time. Let him come to you. If you werent together you shouldnt be trying to prove anything to him. He has an issue with it and in time he will tell you what it is. In the meantime carry on with the norm.
486504
depends on the standards in your relationship, some people don't see kissing as cheating, while others do. so its going to be anything you know your partner would find inappropriate.
608657
i agree... just keep seeing them both... if its not a serious thing yet, or an exclusive thing...then it isnt cheating...eventually you'll figure out which one is for you..\n\nGood Luck
1046446
Temptation is normal, but don't let it get out of hand.  It's okay to have a little crush on this "other guy" for now, but just weigh what you and your boyfriend have and what you and this "other guy" have.  It sounds like you and your boyfriend are strong, moving past a problem like cheating, but obviously, you like your boyfriend MORE than this other guy.  That's why you're with him...YOu LOVE him, right?  If it is as you say, then you definitely don't want to give that up.  You tried the other guy 4 months into your relationship with your boyfriend, and you didn't decide to run off with him, but you stayed with your boyfriend instead, meaning that you want your relationship to work out with him, and he seems like he is prepared to stick it out with you as well.  If you truly love him, then you won't leave him for this other guy, even if it may seem more exciting or if you still have left over feelings for him.  The goal is to leave feelings from the past, in the past.  Since you have a commitment with your boyfriend now and you love him more than anything, the other guy is merely a temptation.  Like I said in the beginning, temptation is normal, but don't let it get out of hand.  We're all human...we all have hormones, adrenaline, sexual feelings... ;) ...Even happily married couples have temptations, but it doesn't mean they drop whoever they're with and move in with the other person.  Theres that self control and rationally weighing what you could lose if you go either way.  Now ask yourself, is the other guy worth losing your boyfriend over?  As time goes on, and you realize how much you have and don't want to lose, the temptation will subside.  If however, you realize you don't have much after all (and you don't actually love your boyfriend), then you should look further.  Don't make a decision until you are absolutely sure, because you may not be able to turn back.
192337
If you are asking, probably! Ask yourself two questions: Does it make you feel guilty? Would you object to your partner doing what you are doing? If you can truly answer NO, then you are the ONE man in the world who isn't cheating!
153949
If you are stiil messin around with that person and the other person has a girlfriend then that is called cheating.. \nand that is just wrong\n\nYes you may have feelings for him\nbut he has someone else
503352
Sounds like a case of him feeling guilty for what he was doing so he makes up something to blame you for to cover it up.  You should confront him and find out why what he is doing with this girl isn't considered cheating.