LoVe ProBLem (whole situation)?
94761
Show a bit of interest, but don't over-do it. Men want what they can't have. Let him chase you a little. He'll like it. Plus he'll appreciate your affection more if it doesn't come easy.
742758
Well, if there isn't anything between them yet, there is no problem. Think about it and reverse the situation, if you were talking with someone in the manner you suggest, how would you feel if another attempted what you are contemplating?
692867
She has to be as unselfish as you are, maybe she has to do the sacrifice!!! You were not right to make this lie because it will only make things harder now. If you both like him, then there's only one way to settle the whole issue, which is to wait for him to make the choice and then at least none of you would be the cause of pain to the other. You will not like her any longer if she continues like that and eventually wins his heart, you will not even bear to e around any of them.
1031126
I had that problem but it turned out that inside i really had feelings for him. If you really love this guy then stay with him. If you dont then tell him the truth. I would think if you like him but know he is not for you then stay with him i would. Go with your heart and inside you to make your desition.\n\nGOOD LUCK
597996
you seem like such a lovely guy and to be honest.. from what you have said   that girl does not deserve you.. You deserve someone who will love you as much as you love her.. and im sure she's out there somewhere.. it seems like this girl is keeping you on standby just incase things don't work out with the other guy..and even if she does loose this guy she will have another on standby sooner or later...she knows your too good for her and she's taking advantage of it!!please do yourself a favour and start the process of letting her go now cause it will take time .. and time heals!! and the one thats right for you will come along after you have healed from this girl.You derserve better and i think you know it !!It's not worth loving someone who doesn't do the right thing by you hun!It eventually makes your heart turn cold!
600485
The solution that will please everybody is to wait.  If you are so much in love neither of you is going anywhere then just enjoy being together and please the families, you have your whole lives to spend together enjoy it.
540800
Well, you should really think about who you like the MOST. Either way, whatever decision you make will hurt someone's feelings..it's a really hard situation you're in. Sit down and think about who you really like and decide. Good luck!
737036
Give sometime...to this relation..it can be love..a real love..but chances are less...the same happen between me & my ex...n i have lots of friends with same situation....so give time..till then enjoy this wonderful feeling.........
1099911
hi there, this must be a huge dilemma you're facing. i have experienced this before, i'm 19 and probably you would think that i'm too young to comment or give you advice on this but this would be my sincere reply to your question. firstly, is this a mutual feeling? does she love you to the extent as you love her? you mentioned that she loves you as a friend, have you confronted her and made your feelings towards her known? it would be best if you know how she really feels then you can decide on what to do next. if she loves you, and you love her too, and both of you are happy with each other's company- why let go when you can grow and allow a beautiful relationship to blossom? but if she doesn't love you in a romantic way, it is definitely advisable that you let go before it's too late. allow yourself to meet new people and give your chance and someone out there a chance too. it will take more than a short period of time to get over her and resume to the "just friends" status but it will do you good. if she's unsure, give her time to think about it. i hope what i said made sense, there's too much to speak on this. i hope that all will go well and you're able to come up with a solution. do not let this issue put you down, alrite? there are many other beautiful individuals out there waiting to be discovered. and i'm sure that she is also a special person.
223734
Whats wrong with you. Of course not.If you even think about leaving the one you love for someone who you like, then you probubly dont really love that person to begin with.
703560
Tell your friend that she probably does love him and that's why she's doing this. Maybe she's thinking about being with him for the rest of her life but she wants to make sure she is doing the right thing, so she wants to see what life is like without him. If she didn't still care about him then she would have said so and broke it off all together. Tell him don't sweat it, if it was meant to be, it will be. Hope I helped and let me know if you need more advice. :-)
817989
well...ur situation is just like mine now..lol\njust think carefully....do u still wnat this relationship to continue?
797026
I would say you are stressed about the situation - something similar happened to me many years ago. Try to start thinking about your own needs, rather than the situation with the girl you like.
835216
hmm.. wad cause the broke up in the first place? is the problem still around? and way to solve it?\n\nthis is the few questions u gotta ask yerself... if there isn't any problems at the moment.. will there be any coming up? will u guys be able to handle it togther or u  guys gonna break up again?? \n\nif u can answer this question, more or less u know whether to stay and wait (cos she's worth the wait) or move on (cos a break up will happen anyway)...\n\ngood luck to yer dude,,, u need it,,,
99182
Try the Long distance relationship thing.  It may fizzle out soon, but if she loves him, then it won't.   Curiosity... What is HER point of view??
530625
go with your heart but don't let it rule you 100% listen to both the good and bad fairies on your shoulders an dthink it all through i suggest you write a list of pros and cons for the relationship and once written the answer will be clear from that... good luck x
711457
you're definitely not in love. its all infatuation. would caution u to think twice before making such decision (to marry). when u have doubts, don't do it.