what should i talk about with my boyfriend?
89241
If you can't think of anything, I mean anything at all to talk about then maybe he shouldn't be your boyfriend
1006971
charities, music, your favorite food... find a hobby you both would like- like wine tasting or something and just get into it. anything. you don't even have to talk.. you can sit together quietly looking at books/magazines and drinking tea.
361171
its sad that you have a fear of talkin to him. if you want to be in a relationship you have to talk to. just open up and tell him whatever you want to. that is part of having a good heathly relationship.
1013952
What do I like to talk about. What am I interested in?\n\nMe.\n\nAsk guys about themselves. Listen. When it's your turn to talk, tell him about your feelings, be honest, but make your point and stop. Then ask him questions about things he's talked about and listen some more.
27761
If it is shaky, then do not make it better.  Make it real.\nTalk.  Talk a lot.\nIf talking does not improve the relationship, then so be it.\nIf talking does improve what is happening then find out what else you need to talk about.\nIf there are areas that the two of you avoid talking about, those are your problem areas.  Either find out how to talk about them or find someone else.
454599
Ask him what are his likes and dislikes for future reference. If you cant get your conversational skills fired up with him before too long it probably isnt a good idea to stay dating him. I mean one of the key things in a good relationship is communication but if you just met him too there wouldnt be a whole lot to talk about so i would at least give it a little time. Try asking about siblings or if there are any nicknames he has or tell him a joke. Maybe try loosening him up a little so he will not hold back and feel comfortable. You could even try telling him something outrageously stupid you've done we've all had our moments maybe then he wont feel silly about telling you his that might spark a really interesting conversation. Hope this helps
486209
find a commom intrest that you know a lot about and ask him about it or ask him his opion on it. It alway's help break the tension when you are both talking about something you like or enjoy
461966
Maybe this would be a good time for one of those "Where are we going with this relationship talks." Obviously you have plans for a future with this guy. Take some time to have a one-on-one with your fella about his plans for the future. Maybe he wants to be in a certain place in life before he makes the commitment to you, or perhaps his plans aren't quite the same as yours, OR he could just not know that you want to marry him. \n\nWhen you do talk to him, remember that it could be a bit of a touchy subject with him... don't make a big deal about it, but make sure that you two have some time alone that sufficient to have this conversation. Also, try your best to avoid sentences that start with "You..." these can be interpretted as accusations. Another thing you should try to avoid are the words "always" and "never".\n\nGood luck, and I wish best for you and your boyfriend.
1107141
Stay calm, do not panic. Just open your mouth and start talking. Share interests, and be nice. That's all you have to do. Oh and don't talk about anything disgusting!
1138991
sit down and tell him whats on your mind girl!!
662241
u need to talk things over. communication is one of the keys to a healthy relationship. You both need to listen to each other's opinions and thoughts. Why not try spendin time alone w/ yourself first.Collect your thoughts and asses yourself.Try to see things in an optimistic way.Do not let insecurities overcome you.I'm sure he likes you.Sometimes,there are just things that don't go the way we want them to.
90842
i mostly talk about school.  ask him what classes he's in or how his day went.  maybe you've had one of his teachers before or you have the same class, just different times.  that way you can make fun of the teacher or talk about how lame the homework is.  if he's in sports, ask him how his season is and if you dont understand something, just ask.  also, you could talk about music to see if you're interested in the same stuff.  movies is always a good thing to talk about too.  see if you two like the same movies....that way you can ask him if he wants to see a movie with you sometime.
244012
First off, I think you are putting too much emphasis on time. You could be with someone for 11 months or 11 years and know them equally. The best way to get closer to someone is obviously through talking. The easiest way to approach this is by doing something you both enjoy or try something new to both of you. This way, there will be plenty to talk about. If you start talking about a topic that is more general and less personal, it is usually easier to then slide into a more serious or personal one. Also, if you love him and he loves you then he will want to hear what you have to say and learn more about you. You just need to relax and not put so much pressure on yourself. You are looking for that comfort level that all couples want...but it develops gradually. In the meantime, have fun and you'll see that it will get easier to open up.
38206
tell your bf but keep the number and call. check it out, maybe theres some things you two need to talk about.
1118575
do you two like any of the same activities? if so then do that together, do something to have fun so you will both be relaxed and not so focused on forcing the other to talk
451094
Flirt with him.  It'll jump start his engines.\n\nI suggest you talk about whatever you think is worth talking about.  If you have some chemistry, he'll be able to relate and also contribute to the dynamic (flow) of the conversation.
241431
Be Open and Honest with him, tell him how you feel..communication is essential in any type of relationship romantic or otherwise so talk to him and make him understand that you care but, that the two of you have all the time in the world and there is no need for rushing into anything. take your time and don't be pushed into anything that your not ready for. Follow your heart and instinct. Good Luck!