How can a person that has always looked after otherslook after herself ?
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The most important is to change the focus from others to your own well-being. Remember that YOU are and should be the most important person in your life. There is room for sacrificing your own needs for others, but if you neglect your own well being you will become less able to understand and care for others; it is called enlightened self-interest
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BELIEVE in yourself.  Feel good about yourself.  Know yourself. LIKE yourself.  Think of all the great things you do, and say. ENJOY your own company.  I bet you could easily think of a lot more things. \nTo start with, it's all about YOU.  Then you move on to others. Making others feel good about themselves.
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status and self-image is ALL SELF APPOINTED-\n\n*STOP caring about what other people think\n\n*ALWAYS think highly of yourself\n\n*NEVER accept second class behavior from YOURSELF OR ANYONE ELSE\n\n*NEVER feel the need to explain or make excuses for ANYTHING IN LIFE,take full responsability for your choices and actions\n\n*ALWAYS do the HIGH CLASS/STATUS thing-ALWAYS!\n\n*make MORE DECISIONS and make them OFTEN\n\n*ALWAYS CARRY yourself like $1,000,000-people cue in on the VALUE you give to yourself and treat you accordingly,do the SAME to others\n\n*ELIMINATE ALL second class and poor behaviors and thoughts\n\n*NOBODY CARES ABOUT YOUR ISSUES OR INSECURITIES,people are way too self-absorbed and worried about themselves to care or pay attention you.It may seem like everyone is judging you and that your insecurities ares shinning through..but in reality..nobody cares! you are your biggest critic and worst enemy,it's best to accept things the way they are and yourself the way you are-and if you don't like something about yourself..improve it!\n\nin order to change the way you feel, you must first change the way you think,it helps to change the way you think by changing what you do! \nGood luck!
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List down the things you think you are good at.  Be proud of them.  List out things you cannot do.  Ask yourself whether you can live without doing these.  Ignore those you dont need to pursue. Pay attention and sharpen those skills that you wish you could develop.  Practice hard.  Dont rely on what others say.  Be good at your own work and have ample faith in yourself.  Whilst at this do not get self centred.  Look around and be sensitive to others needs.  Helping someone who is in real need will surely make you feel good - no great!  Go on - try to come out of your shell as the world outside is beautiful.  Good luck!
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Do everything you can for others and ask nothing in return\nDon't harm anyone or anything, including yourself\nLearn everything you can and make well informed decisions\nBring joy to people and do good things\nuh... hugs not drugs...  lol
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1) put your interests last and the people's first\n\n2) Remeber where you came from and treat others accordingly \n\n3) True strength is shown not throught power but compassion
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look after yourself, your teeth and hair. Keep your clothes clean and tidy. Be confident, smile a lot, try not to be depressed all the time, people like to be around people who are happy and confident.\nIt doesnt matter what you look like, if you make the best of what you have by keeping groomed and clean and being happy and confident people will feel drawn to you.
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Always consider their current and future needs and wants.\nIf that person is selfish or not considered then forget it.
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Don't focus simply on your own academic success or run of the mill volunteer work. Firstly, ask yourself who benefited most from something you did? Did they tell you how great they felt, or how your help somehow turned their life around or helped them through a bad patch? \n\nFocus on others; helping someone else is always a great achievement.
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* Always be the better person\n* Be respectful of other people (no matter how rude they can be)\n* Work harder... no, hardest!\n* Watch your back
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I don't know how old you are or what your resources are but I can name a few.  Be a big brother or sister, help out at your local mission, take things you and your friends no longer need or use to a homeless shelter or to a battered women's home.  Teach someone to read.  Reading builds self esteem and words are powerful tools.  Whatever you do don't give advice to someone if you really don't know the way yourself.  \n     there are lots of people who need help out there, and it's not hard to  help and elderly person with shopping, or even just letting them know someone cares.  Read to sick children at your local hospital......  there are a few, it only takes time and willingness's and you seem to  have that. God bless you for caring.
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i take care of myself so...i dont know how to answer this question. lets just say i am easy to please
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Treat others like you wouldike to be treated.Always try to be honest, loyal, and loving.
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A confident person will always treat others with respect because they have self respect and assume that others do as well.
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Start by defining your expectations of yourself.  Such as:\n\n1)  I expect to keep myself safe.\n\n2)  I expect myself to think through my decisions.\n\n3)  I expect myself to be truthful with others.\n\n4)  I expect myself to allow respectful people into my life.\n\nI look at is this way:  the only person you can control is yourself.  Don't pin your feelings and self-esteem on other's failings.\n\nIf you have high expectations of yourself, you will have a higher chance of attracting people who have high expectations of themselves.
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take care of your needs
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I would say that making sure that the people close to me are happy and have all they need that is in my power to give them. I think of others before I think of myself and try to lead a good life so as to be a good example for others in my moral conduct and values. nurturing is all about serving others and caring about thier well being. It takes humility.