Why does it hurt to have sex for the first time?
95322
Not my 1st time. I didn't feel a thing. hehe
118333
Use lubricant. Also, you're first few times having sex are going to hurt- however, it your guy is working with a large package- then it may take some getting use to. Best advice: lubricant!  You're vaginal area will adjust with time. So, keep having sex- but make sure you're partner knows it hurts and tell him to take it slow. Don't take the pain! A man who cares for you will make the experience enjoyable for you too!
735420
It's because you've only had sex a few times.\n\nIt's totally normal.\n\nYou have to get used to the burning sensation though.\n\nYou may want to use a cleansing gel for women's intimacy.\n\nA lubricant is also a great help for relations.\n\nPut it beforehand and it will make it easier.
934176
If you're both virgins, there's not a lot you can do to avoid the weirdness after.  That happens to everybody after their first time.  The best thing you can do is communicate beforehand and during.  It would be a shame if he was into it and didn't know he was hurting you and vice versa.  You have to feel your partner out and learn what s/he does and doesn't like before it will really start to be good.  The first time is always weird...
894204
well sex can be painful for a virgin girl. because your vagina is not broad enogh and during sexual intercourse , the hymen breaks which might lead to some blood loss. first time sex can be painful for a girl
35077
It might, but it shouldn't be excrutiating. If it's too painful, you should go see a doctor. But it shouldn't be very painful your first time.
637799
first time really hurts but after that u get used and the pain disappears
700825
I loved her, respected her, and cared for her very much.  I was very, very gentle-and listened to her every wish during the event.  It was a little painful to her, to say the least...which made me feel bad, but she loved me also, and made me feel not so badly about it.  It's not really like having "sex"-that first time.
69922
YES it hurts the first time, even if your partner is "patient, sensitive, and caring". I lost my virginity after I got married, and let me tell you.. my husband was extremely caring and sensitive AND patient, but it still hurt. It didn't just hurt, it hurt like hell! On the other hand, I enjoyed it without any guilt whatsoever... because I was married and because I was doing it with the one I love, the love of my life :oD
43292
my first time hurt, but i was real tense..lol...\nbut after that it didnt hurt anymore!
362621
If you are a woman, it will hurt the first time...  (bleeding is natural)  But the more you do it, the better it gets...  If you are a man, it will be extremely tight the first time...  (your penis might hurt)  Dont have trouble finding the woman;s hole, study before hand...  Watch a porn movie, or get a biology book..
1077468
Ha..ha..ha..ha..ha!\nWhat a question Kim? I'm sorry to laugh, it's just that you don't usually ask questions like this one. Anyway, wherever your (not you exactly) desires drive you to, surely you'll find joy there. Anything will be painfull until you get used to it, and then pain becomes joy. Normal sexual intercourse is painful at or shortly after loosing virginity, but once you get used to it, nothing else matters in the world except sex. The same principle applies to anal sex. Those who engage in it will surely experience extreme pain first, but once they get used to it, they will completely forget if the vagina has ever existed.
553102
it is not necessary for a virgin girl to bleed in her first time having sex. Bleeding is due to the tearing of the hymen during penetration of the penis, but the hymen can be previously torn during active sports, like gymnastics, horseriding. But that said, even if her hymen is already torn, a virgin girl having sex may experience sharp pain and soreness 'down there', because the vagina is being stretched for the first time.
97001
It's different for each person.  I assume by your avitar that you are female.  If that is the case, it will probably hurt the first time, maybe the first few times.  \n\nI would recommend waiting until you are married, it is definitely worth the wait!  It's also nice to know that your first is someone who is planning on sticking around.
459776
The first time is usually pretty uncomfortable, probably painful, mostly disappointing... \n\nbut after a bit of practice its great.\n\nJust don't expect it to be wonderful the first time and don't expect either of you to be good at it the first time. \n\nIts not magical like in the movies, its like most things, you need to have a bit of practice and work out what's good for you and whats not.
1154308
Sometimes, after having sex for the first time, women experience pain and bleeding. But that is not always the case. So if nothing happens, that does not mean that she is still a virgin. If she had sex, she's not a virgin. That simple. It is not anything to worry about. In fact, she should feel lucky to be pain-free.
295471
You first time can be painfull especially if he is not condsiderate.  It should get better but it does not feel good everytime. Some women don't even like it until their in their 30's .  Some never like it.  Women! Go figure.  Just try to relax and concentrate on your body and how it feels. Don't put a lot of pressure on yourself over it.