Just broke up, what should I do?
83228
Try keeping urself busy, if u keeping thinking about the breakup you'll nevr heal, hangout with ur friends, find things that will keep ur mind off the breakup\n\nWho know maybe u'll find someone else. =-)
714469
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43267
stay single for at least six months, clear your head, learn to love yourself again and don't blame youself for this. she obviously wasnt worth her weight in beans. time heals all wounds. hard to believe right now, but it's true. write a song about it!
436878
You can start dating as soon as you want, but concentrate on dating rather than finding a new relationship right away.  Give yourself some space to rediscover who you are without your ex.  You may find that during your long relationship you gave up activities that you enjoyed because your partner didn't.  you may find that now is the perfect time to reconnect with friends.  It's pretty lonely right after you break up with someone, but it's very freeing to go out and do new things/meet new people.
1130166
I usually like to put the blame on myself, it makes the break up go a little easier. Just be honest though but not blunt. If you listen to your heart it will tell you what you need to do. Good luck!!
937936
The only way he is going to know how you feel is if you tell him directly. If you do get back together, make sure that you work on the things that made you break up in the first place. I hope he feels the same way, but if he doesn't, I would move on. I hope everything works out well!
1013122
hello\nim really sorry for break up\ni dont think you can dump her anymore but you can move on and find some else who cares about you.remember when one door closes another opens!!!\ngood luck
497143
Just give it time. I had a situation like that happen to me. I dated a girl for 2 years and 3 days after we broke up, her best friend kinda threw herself at me. No one wants that right after a breakup. I would have dated her where she to give me some time, at least a few weeks before jumping into a relationship again. Just give him some space and be there for him, if there are feelings there it will happen. If his feelings are not the same you will have to settle for being friends. Hope this helps.
489018
You broke up with this guy for a reason. Ask yourself if you really like your ex. Who do you want to be with? maybe you should just be single for a while and just date around. Maybe try to be friends with your ex and see how that works out for you, see if your feelings resurface, but also tell him to date as well. It'll all work out if you think things over.
941715
just do what you normally do and be yourself\nif you break up, it wasn't meant to be\nany guy can tell you what to do and what not to do but in the end you have to really be yourself untill you find a guy that loves you for who you are.
1124948
first thing to do: CELEBRATE. Do your HAPPY DANCE and be HAPPY that your ex is finally out of your life. We don't need selfish people in our lives and she sounds like one of them.
471204
Let me tell you something.  After you break up, it hurts.  Give yourself time and move on.  Someone is out there that is better than that girl.  You may not be able to say that now, but you will.\n\nI met my ex-gf after I met a girl I was very happy with.  I ask how she was doing and she just said ok.  I said I was happy and I met a girl who really likes me and I like being with.  After that, she asked if I wanted to get together and do something.  I just said I was going out with my new girl and maybe some other time.
75140
Dump your boyfriend.  He obviously doesn't care about you that much, otherwise he'd find the time to at least talk to you.  After you break up, then you can go out with the new guy.
140070
Say no. You just got dumped. You don't need to get involved\nwith someone right now. Your wounds need time to heal. And\ndon't even think about dating one of his friend. That will\ncreate a major disaster. wait awhile before you start dating again. Your soul need time to be free of old hurts \nand wounds. Recover time is now.
878068
How to Get Over a Break Up\n\nWant to know how to get over a break up? Here are six secrets to help you get your life together and move on!\nDifficulty: Hard\nTime Required: Two Weeks to Three Months\n\nHere's How:\n\n1. Bond with other Singles.\n      At any given time, you probably have a mix of friends in loving relationships as well as those searching for love. Don't be afraid to look-up single friends you haven't seen or spoken to in awhile and make plans for Friday and Saturday night. You'll stay busy on the weekend and maybe even rekindle an old friendship.\n\n2. Start a Social Hobby.\n      If there is a hobby or activity you have been meaning to try for the first time, or take-up again, this is your chance. Focus on activities that allow you to meet new and interesting people. Examples might include a cooking class, sports league, or bridge club.\n\n3. Go Easy on the Next Person you Meet.\n      Beware of continuing unfinished business with the next person you meet. If you didn't have a chance to truly close the door on your last relationship, don't project your open issues on the next unsuspecting soul. See the new person as a clean slate and allow the relationship to unfold with no connections to your past.\n\n4. Don't Sling Shot your Ex.\n      It can be very tempting, particularly on lonely nights, to look up your ex or accept an invitation from your ex for a rekindle. The more you fall back on your old ways, the harder it will be to truly move on. Don't fall for the short term satisfaction of a night out or easy hook-up at the expense of stirring up all the hurt from the breakup.\n\n5. Apply What You've Learned.\n      Take out a journal and write down everything that went well versus what could have been better in your relationship. Be honest since you're the only one looking at the entry. What could you do better next time? What positive traits did your ex possess that you should look for in the next relationship, or maybe even incorporate into your own style?\n\n6. Talk About Something Else.\n      Everyone goes through a period of venting to their friends and family about what went wrong and how your ex deserves to go straight to prison. It's okay to do a little venting, but spare your inner circle from an endless tirade for months at a time. Commit to yourself that the next time you call a close friend, you'll focus exclusively on them. This will help you get out of your head
354099
You really don't have much choice. He broke up with you, so now it is time to move on with your life. Don't see this as a negative thing, instead see it as the chance to develop new relationships. You sound young, so this probably wasn't the right one for you anyway. Love and respect yourself and know that you deserve better. Don't rush into a new relationship right away, because we usually make the wrong choice on the rebound. Enjoy being free and wait for that special guy to come along. He will be worth waiting for! Good Luck! =-)\n\nS.S.
366301
I don't know of anybody who didn't feel horrible after breaking up. A bond between two human beings is a valuable, special, particularly fragile link. Why not remember the good times you both had? Here's something else to keep in mind: there was probably a reason you both broke up. Was it something you needed to do? There may be a valid reason. And above all: these things take time. You can't expect to jump out of bed the next morning singing and dancing, but it's also equally unhealthy to obsess all the time your ex-boyfriend and your ended relationship. "If the problem persists, it may be necessary to seek professional help," we hear that all the time, but if the problem lasts longer than you think it should, it's probably a good idea to talk to a psychiatrist. ( A female psychiatrist would more likely have experienced what you're going through.)To occupy your time, you could go out with your friends, donate time to a charity, express your feelings through art or writing... however, and I am not trying to disrespect your feelings by any means, you seem a bit young to be dating. Enjoy life.  You'll have the rest of your life to worry about men and boyfriends. You're young, so why not not spend valuable time, instead of thinking of boys, learn to better yourself? Learn to speak German; learn Karate. You'll empower yourself and your self-esteem will rise. I personally wish you the best of luck.