why falling into love is more exicing than staying in love ?
93144
Falling in love happens so smoothly, its when youre just getting to know each other and you love all those lil things she/he does for you,  The once you ahve been in love fo r along time, all that wears off, adn its about maintaining that love and keeping things fresh, which is hard.  You fall into ruts adn do the same things and its gets old.  Its hard work, but well worth teh reward, to know you have someone in your life who would do anything for you and wants to sepnd teh rest of their life with you.  (If you couldnt tell, im still in love!)
309684
I think this is a very important question. Falling in love is an emotional res ponce, not unlike weeping, or laughing, or having a temper tantrum, we are on an emotional high, endorphins are flooding our brains, it's almost like being high or intoxicated.\n\n  But just like any of these other exaggerated emotional res ponces we are incapable of sustaining them forever. As an example, you experience something sad, and you cry.. but you don't cry forever, even if you feel like you will. You become angry and you shout, but you don't shout forever. You become enamored and you fall in love. But your body and mind adjust to this new change and then you are still loving but left with a choice, will you choose to stay with this person or not?\n\n  To change partners simply because you don't feel as if your falling in love anymore is wrong. Long lasting love is a choice. Think of love as a Tree, and falling in love is the planting of the seed. Once the seed is planted it takes years and patience and commitment to guide and nurture the seed into a sapling and then the majestic Oak that we are all looking for.\n\nj.swaney@yahoo.com
271225
Falling in love because there is so much that can happen when your falling in love, the sky is the limit.  To be in love means you have gone through the motions and now you are stable in the love you have made.
1167620
I believe that  people fall in love from the inside out....meaning that when you like the person you are with then you will like the way they look.  \nIf you go for the looks then you could get tired of them and think the person you are with isn't so great.
450904
If you really fall in love with someone, it means that a conscious link is/has been created between your hearts. Love works as a force of attraction, but ultimately it also sets free. Through a loving relationship, we get to heal and buff ourselves.\n\nSo falling in love also signifies, that "your system" really thinks it could become enriched and ultimately rounded out by being in relationship with this person.
119479
U should b careful about with whom u fall in luv... I personally feel falling in luv should b a gradual process and not a sudden rush... This way ur chances of being with the 1 u really want r greater. Ofourse there r no guarentees u won get hurt... but at least if this does happen u would have learnt from the experience as to wat knd of person u want and u would b able to judge ppl better :)
644366
It's a fact of life that people who are 'in love' will eventually simply love one another. It's impossible for the raging fire that was once your feelings for each other to continue indefinitely. This is very normal. Eventually, you will feel the same and you will accept it and be happy that you have someone who loves you. There are people in this world who never have that.
281254
you can't fall in love and already be in love with someone.  You aren't in love if you are having feelings for someone else.
210412
Love comes and goes. It's an emotion.\nThe trick is to fall in love with the same person over and over again. It's called commitment.
10767
Basically, we're screwed up! WE're clingy, dependent and want the fairytale. We always think we can "help" someone and that they will change or what ever. By science, since we as women want to spend so much time with the guy we like, it is normal to eventually come to love that person.Just the act of being around someone, can cause you to fall in love. They actually did a study.
626484
Yes there is a difference. You can love someone but not be in love with them. The act of love is a feeling you can feel for anyone you care about. Your parents, kids, siblings and friends. You love them but when you are in love it is different and only reserved for one person at a time. Someone whom you want to spend the rest of your life with. When you are in love with someone it is so easy to loose those feelings yet it feels so hard to do while you are wrapped up in them. Once you feel out of love with someone your feelings of love usually go with them. That is why you can totally accept the fact that your spouse/partner has left after some time, but if your mother was to leave it would devastate you. Being in love gives you this fake love feeling until it leaves. After that the person ceases to exist.
245617
When a person falls in love, they don't want it to end, even when their beloved no longer feels the same.  They hold onto their own feelings and ignore those of the other person.
351787
love does not fade away. the feeling of being in love is the one that fades away, coz like any other feelings, being in-love will not be a constant feeling. meaning it may be gone today, but may come back tomorrow. What makes a relationship last is the COMMITMENT to love each other even if at times the feeling of being in love is replaced with anger or sadness, etc. it will come back if you will try to remember all the things you've gone thru and all the good and bad times you've shared.
6650
Sure.\n\nSome people gradually fall for someone and some people find themselves falling for someone much quicker.\n\nIt's all in how much time you can spend together and how well things click between the two of you.\n\nBut, I would also say that often times what people label as 'falling in love' is nothing beyond a strong infatuation.\n\n//
990462
No. I dont think there is such thing as falling out of LOVE. Like let's say..A wives husbands dies...she will always love him.\n\nIf someone says they fall out of love, it was never love.\n\nIt could be Lust, Infatuation, Crush, but Not Love. \n\nLove Never Fails...\n\n^thats what i go bY~^
483712
you are not falling in love.   You are attracted to the familiar.   It is part of the human condition.   The same mechanisms that makes us able to adjust to our environment, no matter how trying or downright awful it may be, actually creates a pseudo-preference for that environment.  That mechanism is stronger in some people than others. it makes them adjust more easily. The people who most easily adjust, to new situations, most easily "fall in love" in their work environment.  It's where they spend the bulk of their time.\n  Whereas, people who are resistant to change rarely fall in love with their work environment.   \n\nGet a life! meet some new people.   Don't try to get your S__ and your check in the same place.
171476
It depends on the reasons why you fall in love. A lot people mistake passion and infatuation with love and those are really bad reasons to fall in love with someone because you need a little more than that for that love to real. We all want our love to be requited, but when it's not love turns into pain, desilusion and so on. The worst part is, it happens and there is nothing we can do about (specially unrequited). We can only hope that the object of our affections has been hit by the same arrow and returns the feelings, and then it's great!