How  can  a  big  sister  help  her little  brother  stop   pinging  on  his  self?
81741
What's pinging?  Seriously, did you mean pee-ing or ejaculating?
630471
well try being nice to her and if that does not work than try to teach her a lesson that she will never forget.That is wat i did to my brother and trust me it worked!!!!!!!
1037394
Make sure you perform better in life than them.\nThis way your mum will have more acute problems on her mind than all the faults in your life and turn all her attention to your brother or sister.\nThis also works with older siblings!
355523
I cetainly wouldn't tolerate anyone going thru my things, I'd call her on that one, but as far as playing the big Sister role...she just may think because you are surrounded by brothers, you may want the "sisterly" advice...once you set her straight on the privacy issue, and she continues to "snoop", THEN tell your Bro, he wouldn't want your friends going thru his stuff either....as far as the "big sister" role goes, that probably won't last too long... and she may not either, chances are if she's annoying you this much already, she's probably annoying your other brothers in some way or another as well.....
336307
I've been through this before...\nAlways try to tell them that everyday you see your brothers and sisters getting hurt because of their selfishness... Act as a grown-up and let them know they are hurting their loved ones... If they fail to realize that, then perhaps their breaking up is for own and your siblings good, because no one can live with such parents...
767385
ok, so i lost you there at the end, but... there is always someone who gets all weird & acts distant to the family. they usually have other issues & i really suggest just staying out of it all & avoid such drama. making a fuss is only going to piss the brother off instead of making him WANT to be around the family. you can't assume it is only the woman who wants to keep him to herself. unless he says that. there may be much more to the situation than what you realize. so, i would just enjoy the family you have & accept your brother for the decisions he chooses to make.
965159
Depends on why your sibling is ignoring you? Best thing to do is give them some space. Let them cool off or think about what is going on. Things can be said or done in the heat of the moment and get all blown out of proportion. Give your sibling some time i advise atleast a few days and then try to call and figuire out what is going on and try to smooth things over ...possibly with an apology. Family is family and no matter how mad we can get at eachother we always make up. Some are sooner than others....good luck.
544381
save your breath, interfering battle axe. just accept sis's new cling on. if you are employed, you can contribute to loser boy's maintenance. tell sis to get some overtime, since jo jo the dog boy probably can drink her under the table! or, if you can pick your drunken @ss off the floor, you can try REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY. start hitting on hero boy, and tell sis to back off, he's yours. comment on his nice wallet and harley. make sis jealous by telling her that he wants you.  if all else fails, drug sis's drink. when she becomes unconscience, ask hero for help, because by that time, loser boy will be rifling through sis's purse and pockets! you can always take loser boy aside, and give him a twenty and tell him to leave town!
943892
Let my brother deal with it on his own.  He's an adult, let him work it out.
464886
Let your brother learn about life the way that YOU have......it is a better lesson coming to him that way.\n\n\nNot to be mean-spirited..........but people have to learn about love themselves.\n\nIf you need to teach him something teach him about fishing or football, etc.
728079
I have a little sister too and she walks in on me all the time. But the way I've dealt with it is to tell her that we both have things that we need. She needs to be alone sometimes and so do I. So together, we made foam door hangers for each others rooms, I made hers and she made mine. We bought the stuff at a craft store and whenever I wanted to be alone, she'd leave me alone because my door hanger said Please Go Away. And I'd leave her alone when it said Please Go Away. That way, she still feels like she's a part of it. The other thing you need to tell her is that you each get an hour of alone time a day (or however long you think you need). Then, tell her that you'll hang out with her other times. Then, set a limit. If she bugs you 10 times while you are in your alone time, or 3 times when your door hanger is on Please Go Away, she loses an hour of play time with her sister. Trust me, she might be a little upset about it at first but after those hours start going faster and faster, she'll get the picture and start to leave you alone a little more. Don't shut her out completely though.
1088172
i am sure your brother knows she is a jealous controlling woman.  He just thinks he can't find another woman.  First get yourself plenty of girlfriends and have him come over to fix something at your place, then have them make a move on him. find him a job so he can rebuilt his confidence.  i can only tell you what people have done, i do not condome revenge. Post her picture on paper flyers printed from your computer and have her number on it. put it in bathroom walls of men restrooms. the post should read I am a xxx so please call me and tell me that i am....next get a calling card and use it on a payphone. have your girlfriends call her and tell her things. when you visit so they will not know it is you.... order pizza to her job or place and give her name. so they will ban her from recieving pizza from that place when she makes them deliver and loose money..... call mental institutions and ask them to send you literature to your home address for your personal problem, such as drug offender, prostition, depression and give her name and address instead of yours, call from a payphone so it wont come back to you...call the school where your child goes and cuss at the nurse or the secretary and give her childs name and her name and ask to hold meeting with the princilpe and ask for a confirmation letter send to her address and use her name, when she fails to attend , they will loose faith in her....
1013191
it is not your problem, just show him that you are a sister that can be trusted. for ex, if he has a problem give him comfort, help him to find a way to ease his prob. show him that you are a sister that can lean on.
196629
Mean? In what way? Stealing the last cookie in the jar? Yelling at you because she just tripped over all your textbooks lying over the floor? \n\nSisters can be mean-spirited to one another at some point or another. However, the key is to accept the other and to treat them like a live-in best friend. Try to tell her that yelling, snatching remotes, and the like upsets you. Slowly and surely, try to build a communication bridge between you two. \n\nBecause, i know, it's always a good thing to have a close sister when you need help dealing with the outside world. I have an older sister, and because we have such a close relationship, I know sisters are the best thing in the world.
475830
You're joking, right? Tell your "niece" to stop using IM or learn to deal with it. You want Big Brother to step in and take away the rest of life's painful stuff while they're "dealing" with Great_Rocker592?\n\nMy word people are annoying in their sensitivities.
15673
That is just what siblings do. It is a constant battle for sibling to compete for the favor of their parents. Be happy that you have siblings and ignore her behavior. If you do this she will get tired of it. Your parents will hopefully get tired of her telling on you and ignore her asw well. Be kind and do what is right and she won't have any ammunition against you. Eventually you will both grow up and learn to love eachother for who you are.
589963
It's not nice to bug your little sister and cousin.You may get into big trouble so you better be good.Do not do anything bad to them just ignore them if they are bothering you.