if you felt love from the first moment you met someone how long should i wait till i ask her for marraige?
92984
All the experts say you should date for at least 1 year
114923
I met my husband on Valantines day, 2weeks later we were dating, two months later in may we were married. We have been married for 3 yrs and we were both happy we didn't waste time with what we knew was right. Do what you feel is right. there are no timelines you must follow.
1181061
DONT KNOW WHEN YOU ARE READY... YOU COULD GET MARRIED IN 3 YEARS OR YOU COULD WAIT FOR 10 YEARS BUT I CANT TELL YOU WHEN YOU WILL GET MARRIED ONLY GOD KNOW WHEN YOU WILL GET MARRIED..
96771
1st - DO NOT MAKE THIS DECISION WHILE HEAD OVER HEAL IN LUV!\n\n2nd - What is marriage to you?  What have you defined marriage to be?\n\nWhat will happen 1 year after you're married.  Do you want to be the provider and have her stay home? Do you want both of you to work so you'll have a great home? Do you want kids right away?\nWhat do you want in 5 years into the marriage? \nWhat do you want in 10 years into the marriage?\nWhat do you want in 20 years into the marriage? \nSit with yourself and ask these tough questions.  Then re-ask these questions in a week.  If you feel confident that you're honest with yourself, then approach your girl. If you're not quite satisfied with your internal question, keep asking and answering yourself untill your confident.\n\n3rd - When you're confident in what you want ... Ask these same questions to your girl friend.  BEWARE ... She'll freak and probably start crying thinking you're asking her out!!! Make it clear that this is a discusion only, and you're trying to figure out the "Next Step".  Then ask her several times after the first questions <Just like you did with you>. \n\nIf you've evaluated the situation and feel that for the two of you to form a union, you can then you can pre-pair that special occation with the ring, and the right setting to ask for her hand in marriage.\n\nBest wishes.
1043571
hmmm ... from your question, if you are married, I guess its time that you and your wife visit a marrige councelor.\n\nCheers!
191001
Wait until you feel it. Don't say it just to say it... say it when you know in your heart that you love that person.
1052160
wow how funny this question was asked, i told my girlfriend i love her today. and when i did i felt very good, and then i started thinkin ahead like 5 years and that i might be married to her.
995449
If you are Christian yes. But only if you love her , have been knowing her for at least a year or two and are compatible on the important things in life. Sometimes ppl think opposites attract, that relation does not last, because eventually opposites end up hating each other. \nHowever If you really wanted to get married you would not be asking here.\nTHINK OF IT MORE BEFORE YOU PROPOSE
136983
When you know you are ready to be married and that you love a person you won't have to ask yourself if your ready to be married or if you love that person. It's just something you feel.
1151680
Seriously I know how you are feeling, I was that way, and I waited and now we are getting married.  It isn't just the ring or the beautiful dress, Remember you will be with this person for the rest of your life and No turning back because you can't handle it. The rate for divorce is very high, So have patience, Alot of people don't know what they are going into. But TAKE IT EASY.
1182001
one word: pray. If you pray and believe then she will come back to you. Or you can ask her for a second chance. Remind her of your wedding vows. Til death do you part. For better or worse.
194643
If you are going to do it the old-fashioned way by asking her parents before asking her, I would say that you should do it right beforehand, as in 1-3 days. You don't want to be on nervous pins and needles for very long in between, and her family won't want to have to keep that kind of news under their hats for very long, either.
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It sounds like it could be love to me...\nIn my experience love is always enduring.  There's been girls I've felt incredible about and had a great time with, but it wears off anywhere between 6 weeks and 6 months.  Of course everyone is different, and I don't know how long you've been dating, but if you still feel this way after 10 or 12 months I'd say it's most likely love.  You'll be able to look past all of her weird little issues and accept them and love her anyway, and you won't be able to imagine life without her.\nIf you've been dating her less than 4-5 months, then it's still possible that this feeling could wear-off.  I know I wouldn't feel right planning on marriage before having known her at least 1 year.  A lot can develop/change in the first year, for better or for worse.  Good Luck!
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We waited till marriage\n\nWe havee now been married for nearly 14 years and are very happy together.\n\nI think being able to wait did encourage us to put our relationship into areas that we could build our friendship on - and that i find to be the most important part of marriage is being able to like and respect one another and being able to relate to one another.\n\nSex - great - but if that is all the relationship is based on then it wont last very long.  Also if you hav waited and the first night isn't the best then you still have commitment from each other to work on it rather than on relying on it to pull you through.\n\nResisting temptations - if that is really difficult then don't have a long engagement - bring the date forward if need be.  The marriage is more important than having a 'big' day after all.  But meanwhile - resisting temptations - try not to take long periods of time alone indoors (chaperones?) - that is when temptation can strike most often.  also avoid heavy petting - and bear in mind if you haven't got one then PAWZOFF until you are married (and NO i am NOT referring to not touching his car or her microwave!)\n\nI hope that some of the above helps\n\nand God bless your upcoming marriage\n\nwhen is the happy date?
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You will know when you feel like you have to be around this person all of the time.  When you begin to realize that they compliment you, brighten your day, and they are the first person to see when you wake up and last person when you go to sleep then you want to marry them.  Hope I helped!!
1095876
It depends on your relationship.  My husband told me the first time we went out that he was going to marry me.  He asked me officially 4 months later.
787073
tell her you love her so much, you're going to wait until you're married before getting intimate..  that'll prove you love her..