good man--no gift---no idea---do you?
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Make a cd with your favorite love songs, take him to a special place or maybe somewhere where you can see the city lights and dance to your songs... bring a bottle of wine??
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Traditionally, it is supposed to be the season of giving. To give unconditionally, as Christ gave his life for us. However, lately it seems too many times, to be the season of going into debt, and getting stressed out over what gift to give whom. It seems to be more about commercialism than anything else. My wish for this year, is for my friends and family to give something that money can't buy! Give someone the gift of friendship, the gift of time, or just the gift of knowing that we love each other dearly. I challenge all of you out there to do the same! Volunteer your time to a worthwhile cause, instead of going to the mall! Doing a good deed is a great gift, and it doesn't have to be wrapped! Happy Holidays to everyone!
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No, but a good man who is not married is near impossible to find.
1102980
Hmmmmm, giving money to a complete stranger over the internet? Good idea/Bad  idea, you decide, if you decide it's a good idea, please email me!
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Can I tell you what we did for my Grandfather which may be of help to you.  Like your Dad, he was the cornerstone of the family and didn't care much for gifts--but we did a very special thing for him which made it a wonderful occasion for him. I suggest you do this with a writable CD.  There used to be a television show called "This is Your Life...(fill in a name)" Where someone would be honored for their accomplishments and contributions throughout a life time, starting with family photos when the person was really young, working up through high school and college and then career.  Anything that would be important to that person as memories. During different phases, different people would talk from behind a curtain describing favorite memories until the guest of honor figured out who it was.  For our family, we had all his children telling little stories about favorite times together and tape recorded it, and worked it in with the slide show of photos.  It wasn't mushy, it was honoring.  I'll just be frank here, it's like a living memorial while the person is still alive.  As  a poem I read said:"If you have anything nice to say to me, tell it to me now while I can appreciate it, don't tell it to the cold unfeeling gravemarker, tell it to me now when I can bask in the warmth of sincere appreciation." Or words to that effect.  It is easier than ever to make multi-media CD's now or some photo shops will do it for you. You cazn even have music in the background from the 20's,30's and 40's.  It would mean so much to me to have my children put on CD words that they love me, and appreciate me as a father along with memories of happy times together.  It doesn't have to be a big production, and it would mean more than any store-bought gift whether it be $60 or $600. People like to think that they have accomplished something in their life time--it doesn't have to be anything major --infact for a man it can be just that he raised his family as best he could, went to work when he wasn't feeling well, saw his kids through heartaches and sorrows, joys and happy times and is appreciated for it and loved.  My Dad died when he was 62, and I have wished over and over that I had taken more time to say "Thanks Dad for being a great dad and all that you did for us kids and the family!"  I don't have that chance now. You do.  I know you will do that which is right.\n-Spec
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He is a good person...
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Can't find it.  He may not have one.
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You sound like a great guy to me! We can appreciate a good man but the problem is we may not have good men around us, so unless you live anywhere around any of us we will still go around saying that we can't find a good man.
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I believe. It's been a long irritating silence. To be honest, God makes for a crappy pen-pal. I suppose he has more important things to worry about. On the otherhand, just because he isn't paying attention to me, doesn't mean he isn't there. I'm not sure I'd want that much attention anyway. We leave eachother alone, and things seem to work out anyway. What do you mean leave him? Renounce him, or actually leave? Got yourself a space ship? I'm sorry man, a crisis of faith can be unsettling.
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What is he interested in?  The thought you put into the gift is much more important than the amount of money you spend.\n\nIs he getting ready to go through any upcoming life changes?  Graduating?  Moving out of the house?  Is there something fun and useful you could get him that relates to that life change?
1083152
Maybe he just does not have anything to say to you !!!!
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Can't say i do, sorry, is he any good?
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YES! YES! YES!\n\nI know he exists.  He inspired me to choose kids from a giving tree, and help out senior citizens.\n\nI got a MP3 player for a 15-year-old boy.  Thought I'd go out of my box and pick a 15-year-old boy because they are the one's most often forgotten.  Then I got a fire engine for a 5-year-old boy.  The fire engine was super fun to play with; I got to play with it before I wrapped it and gave it away. I also got a Barbie doll for a 5-year-old girl.\n\nThen for the seniors, I got large washable teddy bears; the alzstimers patients love these.  I also got them pill holders, lotion, scarves, and CD Books (for the blind). All of these gifts together were $80.00.  I’m just a good shopping elf.\n\nSo, do you think Santa exists now??? I'm sure he guided me on the children and seniors to pick.  After all, he knows who's been notty and nice.\n\nDo I still get presents from Santa?  Yes, I get the present of being his little elf and helping him help children and the old.  After all, Santa is the Saint Patron of giving.
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I would watch what he does- not what he says. Does he have a steady job?\nSave $$$\nTalk about the future...(with you)?\nDoes he like his mother???\nGood signs\n\nDoes he work (steady)?\nDoes he spend all his $$ on big ticket items (for himself)?\nHave you been going out 3 + years with no mention of the future??\n\nBad signs
1090157
don't know him..sorry
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Thank them then chuck it away, I know it's the thought that counts but obviously very little thought (if any) went into that gift ... Actually, donate it to charity, make an unfortunate person smile :-)
1065672
don't know him/her...sorry