OK How should i approach a lady in a club"Whats a good open line"?
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<Make eye contact with her a few times and you should be able to tell if she is interested without saying a word.If you think she is interested just walk over,say hi, introduce yourself and start talking.You don't need a line.
964871
Well if you are at a club or bar or place like that with a social atmosphere, approach her and say "Hi, I kept noticing how beautiful you are and I finally got the guts to come over here and introduce myself" A guy said that to me and it totally worked..good luck!
73958
go up to her and say 'hi, are you single?'
571826
Come up with a REASON to talk to her. Maybe in a coffeeshop she's reading a book you liked. Maybe in a bar, she's really enjoying the music, and the band members are friends of yours. Maybe she's drinking a weird drink you also enjoy. Starting an actual conversation will always win you more points than just telling her she's beautiful. Either she's heard it a billion times already, or she'll think you're lying for some hurtful purpose. Possibly both. Oh, and whatever you do, this is seriously a problem- don't let the first words out of your mouth be "Hey lady- got kids?"
1102684
ask them questions.........ask them to help you out in anyway........ask to help them in anyways...........ask about their hair or clothing............make up excuses to communicate with them........are you really really shy? start by simply saying "Hello" to them as they pass you by as you walk..........very casual........make yourself comfortable with saying "Hello" to them. All of them! Say "Hello" to any woman......then when you feel comfortable with this add a simple question such as "Excuse me, do you know what time it is?" or "Pardon me, where is the nearest public telephone" As you have more experiences with women you will feel more comfortable approaching and talking to women you find attractive.
955099
She is cute, i looked at the link. Surely, I would not say "hey babes" how about a simple hello! the conversation should flow from there. Good luck
1177210
Well, say, "Hi!", or something!  Tell her that you like her outfit or shoes or hair-do.  You need to be honest about what you say, though.
544048
maybe you have a kind face, who knows?but you sure wont find out without talking to her. next time she says hi ,speak back to ask her if she wants to meet in thecoffe bar or library somewhere you will feel comfortable or simply if she would like to walk with you , that way maybe you will get to find out,
1029663
The best time to talk to a girl when you see her for the first time...talk to her when she's stopped somewhere like in a store or at a drink machine or something, not when she's walking.  Give her a genuine compliment like "You look nice today" or "You have a pretty smile."  Most of the time a girl won't shrug you off or look at you weird when  you compliment them, but there are some people out there who think that every guy who looks at them wants something.  A nice girl will thank you and smile.  Take it from there with something like "I was thinking about buying this cd (name a band or something), have you heard them?  Are they a good band?"  Ask her opinionated questions and if she's nice and wants to be approached by you, she'll continue talking to you.  If she doesn't want to be approached by you, she'll keep it short or give a reason to just walk away.  Don't sweat it.  It's not as hard to get the NICE girls as it seems.  The bitchy ones will be difficult and put up a fight. lol.
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First you need to get some self esteme man picking up women in a bar tells me that you are just looking for an easy drunk mark have a little more respect for yourself and women and i have a feeling you come off like you are trying to hard so just take it easy and make them want you
981772
=This is an easy one. Next time you talk to her ask her right up front if she is just interested in getting to know you and go from there. Good luck
1180553
hey man just wait until her cocktails kick in...then you'll know her intentions. just hang out with her, if she wants you...she'll let you know, for sure man.
98918
Just go up to her and say hi.
904958
You friend needs to work on his confidence regarding how he feels about himself before he can feel confident with "the ladies". Women hate cheesy chat up lines so I think the best way to approach a woman is to have something interesting to talk about, a good sense of humour and a certain degree of courage. Of course the best way is to make friends first if at all possible which is why pulling in a pub or club is usually a bad idea if you actually want to get anything out of it. Hope you find someone.
131894
Just start small, say hi in passing, and then eventually maybe you will be comfortable enough to actually start a convesation with her. Just relax and be yourself, its the best advice I can give you.
530204
Go up to her and introduce yourself and then break the ice by complimenting her on something then take it from there.  Try to find something to talk about from what she's wearing or what she's holding, like if she's wearing a baseball hat, talk about baseball.  Don't be intimidated and just go with the flow.
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I'd give the guy extra points if he dared to come up to me in a group. What most guys think is a girls night out isn't true most women do go out cos they want to meet guys. It'll show your bravery and most women appreciate that. Go over and introduce yourself to all then start a conversation with the one you're attracted to...pick up lines I'd prefer something unplayer-like...a basic introduction, 'Hi I'm so and so, have I seen you here before?' That way you are playing it safe, she can't kick your ass for it.