i do anything to make her love me but, she only sees me as a friend?
81425
you cant make someone love you, but you can show them what they are missing. sometimes love is right under our nose and we never thought to look there...go figure.
113811
if she doesnt love you there is nothing you can do to make her love you.sry, but thats the way love works.i wish it wasnt but you cant make people love ouy
957751
the best you can do for now is just Waite it out.If she likes you she'll come around now that she knows how you feel.If you like all the same things maybe at lest you can be friends.
822692
she's not attracted to you, shes being polite, but shes not in love with you\n\nlucky for you, attraction can grow. keep her as a friend. dont hound her or suffocate her by trying to be around her everywhere she goes. play her game. be "friendly". take her video game shopping. challenge her to a game of thumb wrestling. talk about sports and chicks and "guy topics" with her. treat her like a bratty lil sister. do things to rub it in her face that she's the one that wanted you guys to "just be friends". then she'll become attracted to you in the way you want her to be\n\ndont beg or supplicate. dont mope. be the guy that enjoys whatever life throws at him and makes the best of it. you'll get her if you dont chase her
921591
It sounds like she just wants to be friends with you right now. Maybe she was interested in you before, but now she seems to be more interested in your mate. If you like her a lot and you feel comfortable doing so - make a move....like bring her flowers or something to let her know you're interested in being more than friends.
262931
You might have feelings for her that she doesn't have for you.  Telling her that you love her would even make it worse.  If you value your friendship, you have to give her some space, give her time to realize that your friendship is important.  It's probably a good idea NOT to mention that you love her, especially if she only wants to be friends.\nIf it's hard for you to be friends, then unfortunately you are going to have to move on.  Many good friendships have been ruined when one person falls in love with the other, but the other doesn't fall in love back.\nGood Luck, remember, this isn't the end of the world, maybe the end of the friendship...but you'll love someone else again.
729658
Maybe in telling her that you liked  her eventually lead her into liking you. Maybe she likes you, but isn't sure if she wants a relationship with you other than being friends maybe becuase she think it will feel kind of weird with a friend or that she isn't good with relationships and doesn't want to ruin your friendship. You can try to spend more time with her to make her more comfortable around you..or something. =]
527064
i have one for you.just tell her that you dont feel the same for her as she does for you and that you would like to remain friends
992454
Her desire to continue being your friend may be her way of keeping her options open.  Be honest with her.  Tell her you're still in love with her and you aren't able to be JUST a friend to her because it hurts too much!  Break it off, forever, and begin dating immedialy.  You know the story....If you love something set it free, if it comes back... you did alright...
826205
I think she doesn't know what she wants. I think she's playing mind games with you. I would try being her friend and take it from there.
595627
She loves you but not willing to give you 100% of her heart and soul..She obviously cares but is in doubt of a future with you..She seems to be questioning her own motives for being in a relationship with you..Maybe shes not totally satisfied with the relationship or feel solid enough in it..Seems to me she is willing to be friends but from a distance..Do not give her an alternative..thats instant death!Give her understanding and your friednship but your heart would be more appreciated elsewhere..Good luck!
577013
well, I really appreciate your kind heart..\nalthough there's no chance to prevent her hurting feeling...\nbut I believe, it's much much better you tell her the truth, that you can only keep her as a friend, than act like you're her someone special...\ncause it will be more hurts...\nbe brave.
885801
Sorry, but you cannot make anyone love you.  If she wants your friend, you are not going to be able to convince her that she wants you instead.  Besides, if you introduced the two of them, presumably you wanted them to like each other.  It would be really sh-tty of you now to try to undo that.\n\nAll you can do at this point is to stand by and let things run their course.  People tend to forget that all relationships end at some point.  (Well, if you are lucky, you find one that doesn't, but all the others do.)  So, stand back, be supportive of your friend and the girl, and wait to see what happens.  Almost certainly, they will fizzle out somewhere along the line.  If you stay friendly, but on the outside, she may eventually look at you again, and discover that there is a really cute, nice guy that she overlooked.\n\nGood luck!!
1182832
At first it feels like hurt thats what i felt i been i there but you must realize that if you love and she only likes then there is a difference in your equation i say just give her your all and let her know how you feel and if she doesnt apperciate it then still be friends but change your love to like cause love cant last forever with a girl that only likes
961521
I Think she is thinking as more than a friend. And she thinks that you are only one who can understand her feelings and can give some kind of support to her. Plz let it continue the same.\nAnd i think you have to wait for the right moment to express your love.\n\nALL THE BEST!!!!!!
749780
believe her and find someone who will appreciate you...she is playing too many games....friendship only" is the kiss of death..
648435
Just be really clear with her about what you want and give her the chance to choose if that would work for her. If she isn't into it, there are plenty of girls out there who will, provided you treat them with the same respect you would a friend without the benefits!