why do wild and weird people end up with cool headed and unassuming partners?
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Opposites truly do attract. They actually work the best and last the longest as a couple.
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they don't actually know that they act crazy or weird when they want to get attention. they don't have enough self-confidence to show who they trully are or don't like themselves for who they are, so they act totally different from their real personality. they try to act like someone who they feel will be accepted by people around them and that makes them crazy.
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When you say 'people' you mean yourself.Ask your question in an honest way instead of trying to make some half-baked general observation.\n\nThe problem with you 'people' is that you are fickle and lack any sort of focus. If you get bored it is because YOU are boring.\n\nFair enough?\n\nOakland (above) makes a fair point.\n\nIt is not 'normal' or 'natural' to want a new partner.\nOnly animals without the capacity to reason would behave that way. As humans we are supposed to be capable of over-riding 'instinct'. Sadly too many people are still animals by definition but largely out of laziness. Remember the computer acronym GIGO? Well... that's true for a relationship. Don't look for excuses or see it as normal.If you are bored it is probably because of your own immature and ineffectual contributions to the relationship. And please don't delude yourself with this "I still love him" \ncrap. You clearly have no idea of what real romantic love is.
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i know. its related to psychology, and its simple. by following one another, people feel a sense of belonging. if you're fashionable, people will like you [thats what they think] and if you're not, the wont.these "principals" make a human want to be like everyone else.
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I believe it's because they think it looks "cool" or "hip". In reality, they look like fools. They also often claim it makes them "unique". However, it's not unique when everyone is doing it.
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Yes when weird things like that happen I keep walking too.  Some people make it a practice to learn everyone's name around them even when there is no good reason too.  Maybe they want to befriend you for strange reasons.
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Because they like to "do" the same things. (Haha) Plus they get a guys perspective on everything and don't have to worry about some perv trying to hit on them.
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You may not like the answer, but its probably becaus eyou let them control you, and these people tend to attract each other, I kno wbecause the same thing happens to me!
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People may like each other but not romantically
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I tend to fall for women who make me laugh. If I speak to somebody I like and I have a feeling I ain't going to like them I will leave it be. I can usually tell straight away if i'm interested. Something just clicks and I really do think it's personality overall.
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Yes, it's called Fugly. These are people who normally you might find completey unattractive, but who have a certain charisma or charm that makes them attractive. Example: Mick Jagger
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Sometimes the relationship gets too familiar and the romance or "attention" isn't like it use to be.  For some, it makes them feel sexy/attractive when someone else wants them.  It's an ego booster usually (from personal experience and talking to other women)
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I think the`weirdness' in others is something to do with not knowing anything about them, so they seem `weirdly mysterious'. Also, anything not understood seems weird. You know, it's probably the same, the other way round (that is to say, they would probably think WE'RE weird, `cause they don't know you/us! Get what I mean?! Have a great day!
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Good question!  I don't like too cool.  I've learned to avoid disinterested women.  I'm not wasting time on someone who is like they don't really care one way or the other.  Too obsessive can be scary because I'm independent and don't want someone who has to have my attention 24/7.  Frequently calling can be a problem (more than twice a day  just to see what's up is creepy), but call to show interest or for making arrangements.  Calls over 30 minutes that are just to get to know me would drive me off. Get to the point, get some info, make plans and leave the endless conversations for the date.
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Opposites attract because it's new and exciting for both sides.  The idea of having something or some life that you've never experienced before.\n\nYes, they attract, but rarely do they work for long engagements. You have to have SOMETHING in common! :)\nOtherwise you'll eventually be stuck thinking that the other is weird for being so opposite everything you think is right and it's frusterating. \n\nI think the real moral to the story is to find someone that is not who you would normally go for. Try something outside of the box and see if they make you feel better or worse than the "normal" girls you've seen. Sometimes a good change can help you a lot.
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People adapt the mannerisms of the individuals they most admire eventually they merge these together into their own personality.\n\nLife is a larceny my dear and we are all a product of our associations.
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Human beings are visual creatures (particularly men - no offense intended). It might be something purely superficial, but it might also be that they want to have some sort of visual impression of you to hold in their mind when you're chatting online or on the phone. Of course, it could just be that whoever it is has their priorities all screwed up and insist on having only attractive friends, significant others, and aquaintances...