what will you do if youre boyfriend still have comunication with his x girlfriend?
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If it was NOT on a regular basis and just a once in a while hello how are you; fine... But if its constantly I would definantly speak up and tell him that its bothering you
189177
Do you talk to other guys? Just because he talks to another woman doesn't mean he's cheating on you. Just ask him who she was if your that worried.
135477
If you feel the need to check your boyfriends phone maybe you need to end the relationship.  Sounds like there is a trust issue.
138833
girl , wake up and smell the truth! he is hiding something from you , that is for sure! he either has another girlfriend or he has a secret life ;) but i think the girlfriend thing is more probable
729285
If you don't care for him anymore, you may want to ask him to stop texting/IMing you.  Your current boyfriend might not like it that the ex is still in the picture and might not take your word for it that the ex means nothing to you as appearances can be misleading.\n\nIf you've moved on, does it really matter what his feelings are?  Besides, he can't care for you that much if he's swayed so easily and talks against you at the drop of a hat then apologizes later to you in private.  If he loved you, he'd stick up for you in front of his friends.  He sounds wishy-wasy and not a man you want in your life anyway.\n\nBid him begone and be happy with your new beau.
380742
just tex or fone the girl & ask her who it is, say its yr boyfriend who's foning her & u want 2 know y? she will b glad u did it as well if he's mucking u both about
116930
talking about what? sex? so you care about them, which means you may or may not be in a relationship. i assume you are not, you would have said my boyfriend was talkin with another chic. lets take it both ways:\n\nnot your boyfriend, but you have the hots for him and he knows it: then he has decided that he is a player and that he can have 2 or 3 chics on a string at all times. but its still his business, this is the time you can either decide to 'be' with him or the time to decide that you are worth more, deserve more and can get better. (thats what i would do)\n\nHe is your boyfriend: assuming he was talking with another chic about hookin up, then why play with him? he obviously doesnt care enough about you to not do it.\n\nI would just confront him, say: look fella, i like you, whats up with talking with suchandsuch chic? you trying to hook up with her? cause if you are, you need to go ahead and do it, just dont lie to me about it, let me know so i can start hunting me another man down
767477
There is definitely trouble brewing.  She obviously still has something for him, since she sought him out on MySpace and is actively chatting.  Never trust a partner who still talks to their ex!
1154752
Thats a tough one.  Does he cheat on her with you?  That might break them up
225776
cmon!\ncontinue your relationship,if you guys still meet each other, isee no reason for any kind of break up!\ngo ahead gurl!
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No, I don't talk to any of my ex's.. but one thing I would do is ask the ex what his intention to get in touch with oyou after so long is.  He is probably unhappy in his relationship and wants to bring you into his life for some reason.. If he was single, I would think his intentions were okay.. but since he IS in ANOTHER relationship, he needs to break up with his current GF and then pursuit hsi ex's.  Word of advice for you-- tell your current significant other!  He should know from you then ever finding out by accident.  Good luck with this sticky situation!!!
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she's still talking to him through the messenger, but why cant she see him physically to talk to him, or does he have a speech impediment? either way if she has no problem with it and she's content with the relationship let her still date him....
1082402
Meet with your x, have a long talk then afterwards decide what to do. If he really does like and care about you then he'll let you go(distant relationships never work out). Don't let anyone control you, it's your life, your feelings, you decide what to do.
289773
Well it sounds like he is still in love with her. I mean if I am seeing you and then tlaking with my ex on a regular basis then something is up. Look I have been in this situtaion before. No matter how much he denys it, the fact is that he can't let go. Let him know that he has a choice between you and that other girl. If he really cares for you then he will move one. Now I just hope that you are not doing the same. I think it is important that you both want the same in thing. And no matter what he tells you it is obvouis that he still loves her. Look the worst thing is to countue talking with someone that you were with and then deny that you have no feelings for her. I think you have a choice and it is up to you if your gonna play second place to that other girl.
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I know for a fact you want to trust him bacause i've been in this situation and I'm going to tell you what I did.  Trust him but to a certain extent.  Let him know that you don't feel comfortable with the situation.  If he still talks to her, let him go.  If he doesn't, give him that second chance.  You'll be able to tell if he really does still love you, because if he respects your feelings he won't talk to this girl anymore.
1070391
u show him the pics of u and ur ex :-)\nor  to be serious why do u bother if she is his ex. Just think that he is yours now and thats all.
877252
Just be patient for now. Don't say anything right now because you'll just come off as the psycho clingy girlfriend. It's entirely possible that he is just a flirty guy and everything they've seen is harmless. Tell them to keep their eyes open. If he actually does do something with another girl (or even if you just hear a rumor, etc) then you have a right to ask him about it. Thus far he hasn't done anything to deserve your distrust, has he?