should i stop sleeping w/ my friends man even though we had a thing for each other when i hooked them up?
97922
You are the reason I pay so much in taxes!
591873
If the guy you are with now love and cherishes you stay with him love him let yourself be loved. For your friend stay clear he will only end up ruining what you and your guy have. Tell him you do not mind talking to him once in awhile but not all the time and that you are very much in love with your man.
85290
Yea it is not good mostly cause your man and him are pals.. you should not let it happen again.. thats sooo bad.
586992
Well the worst thing you can do is sleep with the brother, that is a serious bond. The brother would never let you come between them if it were to come out. Second it is normal to be attracted to this guy ..but do you act on it NO. You just felt comfortable with him he was a different man taking an interest in you . A little crush that's it. If your not interested in your guy just let him go. Don't use him to get close to the brother.
705244
How long were you together? If you were together for along time then I am sure that he still has some type of feelings for you. I don't think that it is a good thing for you to keep sleeping with him. That will only confuse things. If he is going to be your x then you need to cut him off from everything. Not just your feelings.
1007323
There've been some fine answers so far, I would encourage you to ask what God would have you do, whether He wants you to go to bed with anyone at this time in your life. Do you think you can have a permanent relationship with either of these people? I'd really encourage you to wait for the moment when the answer to that question is yes before you take any action.\n\nIn the meantime, you need to take charge of your thought life to avoid going crazy. Sometime when he's not there, before you start thinking about doing it with him, you need to decide on a way of thinking about him that will allow you to keep your sanity, treat him and yourself with respect, etc. And you need to practice thinking in this new way when he's not around until it's automatic.\n\nSupposedly it takes 3 weeks for a new habit to take hold, so there's your light at the end of the tunnel, so to speak. Now, I realize that since he's your homeboy, you might have to get a bit creative to avoid him until you've got that new thinking in place. But I think you'll find it's worth it...
371836
You need to evaluate how you are choosing men to sleep with and why you dont feel good about yourself. You need to be in love with yourself in order to love others completely.
702634
He probably does like you, but not the way you want him to.\nIf you weren't in a committed relationship there isn't much you can do.\nI am a firm believer in NOT sleeping with someone until he/she is committed to only you.\nOf course, if you're okay with just having casual sex, then there is nothing wrong with it...but if you think you have feelings for the person, and they haven't told you they want to be in a real relationship with just you, then you can't fault them if you sleep with them anyway.\n\nIf you're looking for more than a casual fling, then keep dating hun...you'll find the right guy. Just hold off on sleeping with them until you're sure its for real!\n\ngood luck!
1082481
Well I would just continue to wait for the right person to do it with. The longer you wait trust me you will forget about it. On the other hand you could go and have a one nighter but make sure you wrap it up.
560416
IT'S NORMAL TO DREAM ABOUT PEOPLE. DON'T WORRY ABOUT THAT. \n\nYOU MAY JUST LIKE HIM BECAUSE YOUR FREIND DOES. IF SHE DIDN'T LIKE HIM YOU PROBABLY WOULDN'T EITHER. \n\nLET THEM FIGURE OUT IF THEY'RE RIGHT FOR EACH OTHER ON THEIR OWN. DON'T MEDDLE IN THEIR RELATIONSHIP. \n\nIN THE MEANTIME FIND YOUR OWN MAN. IT'LL TAKE YOUR MIND OFF YOUR FREINDS MAN. \n\nTHEN WHEN THEY BREAK UP, SEE IF YOU'RE STILL IN TO HIM OR NOT. CHANCES ARE YOU'LL HAVE MOVED ON TOO.
570718
Your friend may or may not be homosexual/bisexual, he could just be curious. To advance on you in your sleep is a bit odd, I must admit. \n\nIf you were not comfortable with the situation, tell him immediately, even going so far to say you do not want to spend the night with him again. Do not attack him for being gay or curious - he made a mistake.\n\nAnother aspect that probably will not be covered, is that this was a private moment for him and your having this against him makes him very vulnerable. Don't blow the friendship completely out of the water by telling anyone who walks by what happened. Just talk to him about it and move on.\n\n~Miss Cris\nhttp://lendinganear.wordpress.com
379851
Depends on how you feel.  If you decide and wait then you could miss out but if you go forward with taking your friendship to the next level, there are going to be things that are different.  First off, you need to analyze the entire situation.  Sometimes being in a certain relationship is best for the two that are involved.  My advise for you is to continue to keep your relationship going, be open about how you feel with him and yourself.
1049222
no, its not ok!! you make it known you have a problem and ask him how he wud feel if u stayed up talking to guys on the phone!
594948
You are better off not having neither one of them in your life. Karma's a bitch and what goes around, comes around. To make your life easier for you so that you can move on, talk to your friend. Tell her how you really feel. She betrayed you by sleeping with your boyfriend. Your boyfriend betrayed you as well because he knew exactly what he was doing and he didn't even stop it. It will take some time to get past this, but give yourself a chance on focusing your healing process and continue doing what you're supposed to be doing. Things will get better and you will have a new friend and a boyfriend that will not betray you. You don't have to forgive your friend if you don't want to. It is up to you and you have to do what is best for you right now.
124661
My dear... just stop sleeping with him! under all circumstances!!! he will be nice in the beginning and soon will lose interest if he just wants to get some. do not settle for a such a man
934321
Ouch!!\n\nOK to me you are doing the right thing in being honest and stopping the sleeping part of your new found friendship with this lady but I cant help feel this new friend is trying emotional black mail on you if she is living with her ex as you mentioned and who isn't to say she isn't sleeping with him why she has been with you?\nI would be more concerned about STD in this situation than her letting go.\nJust stand your ground and be firm and stick to what ever you decide.\nI think your current relationship will rekindle if you both put time and effort into it like you are.\nThey say a break is as good as a holiday.\nSadly some people can think they are in love because they are craving for any type of attention which they could be lacking in there own life or present relationship so they go and search for it else were.\nWe are all guilty of that at some point of time in our life! If we are honest.\nSo once someone nice like you seem comes along and gives them that attention and gives them the inner emotional needs like sex or comfort,then financial help and any other type of assistance whether its companionship or just a cuppa and chat and most times can be taking out of context making it hard for you in this case to break away or "get away".\nSadly some people cry wolf when they see another vulnerable person like them selves which is an easy target to latch on to.\nAs she has found with you!\nPlease just end this other connection with this other lady but sadly I cant help feel she may start giving you a hard time if not your partener of 2 years. \nAs she will feel jealouse of you going back to her and most probly wonder what is wrong with her for you to leave her after a month but honestly this her thinking and doing and not yours.\nDont fall for any emotional words as they are based on making you feel guilty..\nBe strong..And good luck.
348985
it's time to move on.if your freinds let him flirt with them they aren't your real freinds anyway. i think you know the answer just by asking. good luck!!!