i like someone buti am afraid to tell my feelings because i might be rejectted... what should i do?
80714
Has he shown any interest at all? If he has then you should be brave. When it comes to the matters of the heart, one should have courage... for cowardice knows no rewards and apathy is death. If you feel for him and you feel that he feels for you too, then be brave. Go about it in a subtle way. You don't have to go up to him and say it straight to his face without any warning, that might freak him out. Do it with finesse. Hint at it, mildly at first, if he's slow in the pick up, do it a little more boldly. If he really feels for you he'll grab the opening at the slightest hint you may give. Good Luck!!!!=)
1095328
if you tell him what you told me then that is a good way to express your feelings. If he doesn't like you then, he is not the right guy for you. I bet your a great girl and he missed out on someone terrific!☺\n                                   ☺♥♫ Your friend,\n                                                            Chuchi
92218
u had better tell him cause he might like u and he might think u dont like him and not make a move on u because he is scared of rejection, go for it
22867
Just tell her you have feelings for her, and she how she reacts. I think laying it out straight may scare her away if she doesn't feel the same. My guess is she probably does so you have nothing to worry about I'm sure!  I wish you luck. I hope you find someone as great as I have found!
980455
I think you should go for it. We all know what happens when someone doesn't express their feelings for someone. Later on, the subject will come up and you will realize what you missed. More than likely, she will have the same feelings, if not similar.  Sit her down and lay it out, don't beat around the bush. She will think you're not sure, and if she does have feelings for you, then she would probably start feeling doubtful about them. Good Luck!
421310
I think you just need to come out and tell him how you feel.  Say something like; You know that you were my first love don't you?  Well, after hanging out with you for the past several years, it seems that I still have the same sort of feelings for you.  How do you feel about that?  \n\nIt is ultimately going to be a risk, but think of the reward!  Isn't it worth it if he feels the same way but was too shy, nervous or afraid of rejection like you?  Nothing ventured nothing gained.  Good luck!
681914
Learn to have no fear of rejection... I know, easier said than done. If you can't get over your fear of rejection you will suffer for the rest of your life... Just try imagining that she is definitely going to reject you...what would you say to her if she flat turned you down? Prepare for the eventuality and it makes it less scary... and think about who else you might want to ask out when/if she rejects you...if one girl doesn't want you another one will....you just have to be willing to ask them!
520638
!~ Just tell her how you feel, she may reject you or she may give it some thought but its better than waiting around for her.... if you dont do it your going to spend the rest of your life wondering "what if" ~! *all the best* and remember life is good and so are you !!! (^_^)
757934
Well,  the only  thing  you  SHOULD do  is  very kindly and  gently explain to that person that you really  aren't  interested in a "relationship" right  now.      But, not only that,  there is another person in your life who is rather  "special" to you, and  when  you have got certain plans for the future sorted out a little more,  you are intending to  ask  that  person to share them.    That  way, this unattractive person who is attracted to YOU,  will not be given any reason to think  that it is his or her looks that are  the  reason for your rejection.     Being  gracious should be  your primary concern,  and  a  little  kindness  far  outweighs  the  fact that you  would  have had to tell a  little  white lie.
86946
It's best not to reject anyone at all. Simply be honest with them. Let them know you are genuinely not interested in an intimate relationship with them, and that you respect them to much to play those types of games.  Any intelligent person can respond to this, without getting overly emotional.  If they do, better now than six months later when the feelings have become much more involved.
899628
tell the truth...cuz that person might like you back and if not then just say u didnt want to hurt the persons feelings so you said yes.
362896
I have been in that place years ago.  I felt something special with a good friend of mine and it was confusing.  I got the courage to tell him directly how I felt about being something more than a friend but I was rejected.  I cannot say that it is not painful but at least the situation was clear for me and we are able to keep our friendship.  Actually, he is one of my best friends now.  I suggest that you tell him directly but you have to be prepared that he may not be able to give you a positive answer and you can live with that!  Anyway, if you continue to hide your feelings, it may be quite painful and confusing!  Good Luck!
65802
If your not scared of rejection then go right up to him with all the pride in the world and say are you involved with someone, let him answere first before you tell him why and if he says no then tell him how much your digging him and if he say's yes then say oh cause a friend of mine liked you. But if your scared of rejection then write him a note and hand it to him and walk away with a smile
636896
i think that it is imoportant for you to tell him how you feel.you never know, he might like you too.but what you really should do is to do what you feel is right in your heart =)
470376
tell him/her what u feel..  nothing is wrong in admitting the truth.. yes, truth hurts but its how u face ur fears.. \n\nif he/she reject u.. go on.. move on.. let them go.. thats life.. sh*t happens..
486964
Normally it would be in a guy's better interest to do the asking, but that's changed alot over the years. My suggestion is try to hang out and let your feelings out in a private moment then see what happens from there. the worst that could happen is that your crush says no, but then you'll still feel alot better for trying anyways.
63845
Express your interest in him. The worst that can happen is that you'll hear no! Trust me, it won't be the first or last time that you hear that word. Don't beat around the bush, say whats on your mind!