Does anyone else  have an evil sister in law?
87061
YEA I got two---they're both evil, manipulating, useless, wastes of skin that always end up getting their way no matter whose expense it comes at. I convinced my wife that the "family" wasn't stronger than our marriage and we cut them off, haven't spoken to either of those harpies in over two years!
609813
Oh how I so hope not. I'm the good twin. My sister is positively  evil  hee hee
961205
well my ex inlaws were EVIL! (my 1st marriage)  they told my best friends sister we were getting married cause I was pregnant.. I wasnt.  They were suppose to bring food for the reception.. we counted on them.. they didnt, they walked out of our reception WITH thier gifts.. and gave them to my brother in-law (thier other son) and his girlfriend.  When our baby was born, 22 months later.. they flew to Ca to visit other family and go ski-ing in tahoe.. but wouldnt come to our house..... so we packed up everything and our 2week old baby and drove 2+ hours to see them.  They never gave a gift w/o leaving the tag still on it.  They dont talk to thier grandaughter but maybe once a year, but thats my fault (!?!?)  most recently, they sent her a birthday card and didnt even sign it.  do I detest them.... thats putting it mildly!\n\nI dont know my husbands parents as they were both deceased before I met him.
705421
this is so NORMAL my mother in law used to HATE ME before we get married , dont worry she dont know u thats why she dislike u but believe me when she sees u she  will love you ;)
914506
There is nothing you can do to stop your sister-in-law from talking.  But the more she tries to defame you, the more she will make herself out to be a liar, as hopefully your other family members know you too well to believe her.
866362
My Mother-in-Law. Just kidding. A sloth.
540540
I wouldn't know but I have a lovely sister in law whos like my sis.
421609
I'm with you in the same boat, maybe worse!  My ex's bimbo is set to the fact that their was NO life before her and HER kids - my ex and I had a son, who is now 8, and she won't allow him into THEIR house, and he allows her to treat him like that.  They do things with HER kids, and neglect our son.  She's a B**** in CAPS
989798
I don't particularly like my sister's husband and to begin with I really couldn't stand him and I hated the way he behaved and treated my sister. But I just try to tolerate him as much as I can. I don't want to hurt my sister by avoiding him or making my opinion of him too obvious. I love her and if this is what she chose for a husband I'll just have to accept that and try to get used to him.
822963
My Hubby and his Mother have.\n\nIn the house they live in when he was a baby, the previous owner killed himself in the back bedroom because his wife left him.\n\nThe ghost hated woman, and used to poke my MiL all night.  He also pushed her down the stairs when she was pregnant.\n\nThey have been back to the house since, and there was a squatter living there and said that the last tenants we a load of female students, who just left the house screaming in the middle of the night.\n\nMy in-laws also now tell me that there was a ghost in my old house, in my son's bedroom.  And whenever they came to stay it kept waking them up and throwing fireballs at them.
459079
We could have the same sister.  Mine is pretty much the same way.\n\nShe gossips about people all the time (then gets mad when people say something about her), has 5 kids but shows preference for one, tells our mother that she (mom) never did anything for her - when our parents have bent over backwards for both of us, everthing has to be about her - when it isn't she changes the subject to be about her, I could go on and on.\n\nMy suggestion to you is to take it all with a grain of salt.  I quit having to much contact with her and when she calls 90% of the time I don't answer (God bless the person that came up with caller-id), and when we do talk she spends much of the time yelling at the kids or trying to tell me that I must repent my sins - leave the Catholic Church and join up with her church because hers is the One True Christian Church that Jesus intended to set up.\n\nNot to sound mean, but I just laugh to myself.  I have heard all of this for far more than 10 years and I quit forgiving.  In order to be forgiven you must not do what you were doing to need forgiveness for.  For her, that hasn't happened.\n\nI suggest that you keep your distance for a while, make some excuse to not be around her.  I know it sounds just as bad as what she is doing, but you must take care of yourself, and it sounds like her actions are causing you some mental distress.\n\nGood luck.
1012894
Possibly she is trying to help and also wants to be a part of the family.  The best way to deal with it is respect.  Show her respect at all times and remember that the person you married was raised by this woman so she cannot be all bad.  You may also want to consider that it may be your attitude that is the problem.  Try to approach her not as your mother in law but as you would any other person you deal with.
859058
Yes, my brother in law!  Oh, wait, you meant my face! lol
851093
my sis is married to one\nthey r fine they just had a kid\nthey sometimes fight\nand he made my sis cry couple times
893046
only my sister in laws, she thinks she's Betty crocker.\nthen I point out that she made a mistake, and watch her frantically try to fix it. \nBest laugh i have every holiday!!!!\ntoo dumb to figure out it's me. ha ha ha,ha ha ha!!!!
637971
i think my mother in law is an alien
445194
No one should hate it is corrosive to your own health. Mothers in law tend to respond to their children as though they never grew up. This feeds over into the spouse and creates resentment. If you can find a way to see past this it will eventually get better for you.