does jaime still think about me?
85171
Only they can answer that.
821659
Had many of the same feelings when I first met my fiance.  Luckily they have subsided a bit and am now more able to lead a more "normal" life.  I still do think of her quite often and by no means does it mean that I think or respect he any less.  It's just that the initial honeymoon stage has worn off, took about 2 years and so am a little more grounded now.  Best of luck to you and yours.
172705
yes..i have ..one regert..there was a boy..who is behind me for two years..i never loved him..after relation of three months i told him..this..but he still want to continue as friend..then love happened to me..n i had a break up after six months...this guy then helped me out ..laid a hand for me..i thought i must give a chance to this relation...so i given..literally..we hanged around..i always said him i love u bt i never felt him...n the day i again fall in love..i left him without reason...he runs behind me..again but this time to say final good bye....i personally feels i done bad..i used him..wen i needed..n may be becoz of that today my husband left me without reason...
381259
That is awful. You should go...\n\nI have found that the words said during an argument are thoughts that have been bouncing around in their head anyway. So whether he means it or not, it's probably not the first time he's thought it and if he's thinking it, it's a seed that will eventually grow into abandonment for you. \n\nLeave him now why you're young and still have your figure. You're much too good for a guy like that! ;-)
784282
I think of women all the time. I have this crush on a dear friend with whom I have been friends since we were in school. We never had a relationship but have been there for eachother through many tough times. We had moved apart and after a span of 4 years reconnected at this time things fell into our close selves despite our new lives and situations. We feel a sexual charge when we are together wether it's with company or alone. We both sense it and it kinda shows. We still have never done anything towards or with eachother, although I think that it could and how I would love for it to, I treasure her true friendship more. I do think of her often. We 've had some very intimate situations but were able to keep ourselves in check.
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Yes, I would say that you are. I believe the only reason she talked to you was to transition and to fill a void that her BF left and then when her former BF changed it was a reason to give him another chance. I understand you think she likes you, she just doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Leave them alone and if she gets hurt again you will know when to make your move.
891033
I think if he is still with u some part of him still cares about u so much!
752391
GOD! I've been dealing with that for 10 months now. And I run into them at the dojo ALL THE TIME. It's been excruciating.\n\nYes, I do have lingering thoughts of reconciliation. I am still very much in love. And yes, I know the reasons I left are still as strong as when I left them. \n\nI do hope to be friends with them, though. They were both very good friends before we became lovers. One is very gregarious. She's been able to bridge a form of mild platonic relationship that has seemed to work. Still, it's difficult with someone you love.
788505
Maybe.  Sorry to say this, but the only one who REALLY knows is HIM.  And even HE might not know (boys are like that).  It's possible that when you told him how you felt, he wasn't interested at first, but has now had time to think about it and has changed his mind.
408575
This is natural, but try to see how much you two [current beau] get along; are you very compatible?]  If you still have these feelings for boy number one, talk to him and see how he feels.  It may be easier to ask personal questions since he thinks you are taken.  He may just tell you how he felt and feels now [about you.]  If this works out, test the waters before you get in too deep with the current one.  If it's already too late, then I'd suggest you push #1 out of your head.  Look at him like he's a not-so-likable person or something.  If you want to leave a favorable impression, don't be disloyal to your man.  If you don't give a shi*, go for it.  A piece of shi* is still a piece of shi*.  Just hope you aren't one.  I'm sure you're not, so be true to yourself.  Check it out without doing the nasty.
240359
that he still hasnt moved on and that he is interested in what you are doing. he could still be carrying a torch for you.
851047
yes.not so long ago when i was standing on the great wall.i was left on my own & things fell into place when i thought of who i want to spend my life with
297609
no, if he has stayed with you for a year so far, then you guys pretty much are exclusive, if it really bothers you though, then you owe it to him to bring it up, but dont be too forward, kind of bring it up in a round about way, ya know, in a non threatening manner. he wants to know how you feel just as much as you want to know how he feels, he just doesnt want to feel like hes getting an ultimatum. your off to a good start, he sounds like a keeper, just keep it at the pace it is at right now and know that even though he doesnt verbalize, hes yours and your his. good luck, i hope that i was able to help
635271
i was told once, that where there once was a flame, there are still embers waiting to be lit up again.......or something like that lol........basically, it seems quite possible that he may still like you, but honestly, the only way to find out is to just tell him how you feel and find out how he feels. life is too short, as cliche as that may sound but i've seen too many people lose their opportunity to tell someone how they felt. don't let that be you. worse thing to happen is he doesnt like you, but you're friends and you have been for so long, that it shouldn't affect the relationship. hope that helps, good luck!
952230
Everyone likes to feel needed and wanted. think of how bitter life would be if we didn't have someone that cared about us.It shouldn't bother you, it should flatter you.It sounds like this person has a high level of respect for you and really cares about what you think. She probably chooses to call you because whatever relationship you had , had an impact on her life. Sometimes long distances from acquaintances will cause you to reminisce. You start thinking about the good times you had and that old flame, doused it may be, will start to re-kindle a little and those old feelings show up again.If I were you, I would be happy that I had a friend that cared as much and thought of me as an important person in their life. I hope all goes well. Good Luck.
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I think "Christy" is tough, but right.\n\n"She already said she doesn't think about you in a romantic way and that's not likely to change." On that point, she is right IF you keep doing all those nice things for her.\n\nOf course, it's great that you do all those things, but you gotta think strategic, buddy!\n\nYou're giving away a lot, but you're not getting what you want (no, I don't mean THAT. I mean her commitment and her giving herself, her whole self.)\n\nShe's not taking a risk with you, and that could be a problem. What if she becomes attracted to another guy? Then you might feel bad about not taking a stand sooner.\n\nFor all sorts of reason (timing, emotional unreadiness, etc.) she might be in her right not to get involved romantically. But that doesn't change the fact that a guy has got to stand up for what he believes. If you believe you guys are good together, then express that conviction in no uncertain terms.\n\nGood luck!
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If she loved you once, there is still something in her that make her still think of you. If she was serious about being in love with you, she will always have feelings or you. She won't even remember why she loved you, but she will.\n\nProving that you've changed will take a LOT of time. You can't just expect her to assume that you changed just in the course of couple of months. It will take at least a couple of months, and may even take years.