I have only had "relations" with one person.. is that bad? should I play the field?
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It is normal to be curious about how it would be with someone else.  But if you love him you know that it would never be as good.  Sex is more than technique...its truly a spiritual thing.
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Being unexperierienced is not somthing to be feeling "a how about."  We are and wer inexperience din everything in life until we were either taught or learned on our own through experiences. Personally I do not feel any one person can give you the advice you seek, but I do know that if this is someone you care for, and are in that phase of your relationship, then just take you time and do what comes naturally. Being that close and interacting in a physical manner does not require and instruction booklet. As you begin the process simply be gentle, and aware of the 'vibes' you receive. Just as you can tell if a person is in a room is interested in you, the same way you can tell what is good and works and whats not so good. It is a learning process together, and also if you have the key to any relationship "communication', then a small discussion after (not necessarily immediately after) always helps. I have been in a sucessful realtionship for 11 yrs and I know that regardless of the situation, (1) we are all inexperienced at something at sometime, (2) life is about trial and error, (3) Nothing works or can survive without communication.\nMy best advice is "Do what comes naturally."
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It is okay for you to think about and be curious about your previous girlfriend/s. They were a part of your life. \n\nIt is better for you to not share these thoughts with your current partner. \n\nHowever, you must have a balanced mind and clear understanding that you are not interested in a relationship with your previous gf/s anymore. \n\nIt is healthy and sweet to be concerned and curious about people you have loved in your life.\n\nBut harmony of life must be maintained at all times.
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something exciting & interesting like how many relations have u had, is there stil something missing in ur life... things like that..\n\nim not fond of asking coz i dnt like 2 read rude or nonsense answers so u can ask it on my behalf... :D
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I think you should truly figure out if she is what you want because no ones heart is a game.  I know you have been through it with her but you have allot of time and a family invested with her.  I also don't think its fare to play with any ones feelings.  I have also been in many relationships but never felt they way I feel when I'm with one person.  I believe true love only comes around once and I will never feel that way again.
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Well, if there isn't anything between them yet, there is no problem. Think about it and reverse the situation, if you were talking with someone in the manner you suggest, how would you feel if another attempted what you are contemplating?
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definately not. it means you are one of the few people who others would be lucky to know. Just because you want your partner to be a good person, doesnt make you a bad one. good 4 u!!!
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Hey its not nice to be gready :)\n\nOn the serious note...I guess you 4 have been very close. And have the uniqueness that wows you. I think the thing you need to do is admit your feelings to them. Love isnt just 2 people...But a commitment is 2 people. The right man for you is not shy to tell you.
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You have to realize that there is someone else out there for you.  You go through good and bad break ups for a reason, and as long as you learn from them, I feel that it is the experience that's perfecting you for that perfect mate.  Know that you're not alone.  Some people come in your life who are supposed to play a significant role, and those who choose to pass right through and do you wrong were never meant to be special enough to make an important and positive mark in your life.  Don't beat yourself up, just learn from it.
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Well just keep talking to him and when he brings up the topic of relationships ask him if he is in one.  That way you don't have to bring it up out of the blue.  Sounds like you are a little on the shy side so that is what I would do anyways.
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it's totally up to you.  I too am an independant single mother and now that my 2 sons are both in college, I am proud and happy...it feels really good to answer to no one.  This is something that is personal choice, neither decision will be "wrong".
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You need to back off. You are not ready for anyone. Tell your girlfriend that you want to play the field and are not ready to be dedicated to just one person at this time of your life. It is not fair to anyone to keep up this charade.
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Hi - seems you hit the lonely spot - you are looking at it the wrong way. You already have a life partner - you. Now for companion that's another story.\nLearn to enjoy yourself by yourself - once you are comfortable with yourself - you'll emit attractiveness and someone is out there looking for you!
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You may be doing it without even realizing it.  If you just be who you are, then you'll make the lasting impressions with the right people for you.  There's one, and only one, person out there who is truly made for you, and I wouldn't worry a second about the rest of 'em.
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The key is to accept the fact you are single, and not be bothered by it. \nLet other things make you busy, like work or family or friends.. love will come along without you'd even notice. \nBeing single is not something bad, it's not something you need to learn how to handle.. It's temp situation, don't let it bother you too much.
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As soon as you start dating.  you should only date one person at a time.
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No, I know somebody who entered college without ever having been on a date, and she quickly met her future husband. I, however, had been on a date when I entered college, I am still single. You'll probably have a better chance of meeting people at college.