im in love w/my x-bf but liv w/someone that gives me everything wh/do i do?
79840
This is a very tough situation and I think that you need to figure out on your own who you want. So are you IN love with this person who gives you everything or are you just with him for that reason? Can he buy your love? Now what about your ex? Does he make you happy minus the money? If that is true then I think you know who to be with!
92539
If youlove your boyfriend then you stay with him but make sure that the other dude kinda knows whats up in case anything goes wrong with you current dude.  thas what i would do if i was a chick.
1182861
Hmm... Sounds familiar, and I really should (but probably wont) take my own advice. You care or possibly love your boyfriend. And this person is very important to him. They have probably been through a lot together and yadda yadda yadda. So I say you just got to go and deal with it. Trust me, I know it's not easy. But you might find something about one of them that you like. No one said you have to be there best friend.
659764
you have to make a choice....decide who is going to be your lover and who isn't....it may be hard but write down on paper all the things you want out of your relationship and then write down all the things that match up between your two candidates...do pick one and not ruin both of them by playing them along.  Good Luck
217697
For one thing is this your bf as in boyfriend or bf as in best friend, And if that was the case he would probably dump you for her. Or in the second case you should respect the choices she makes of whom she likes or dislikes either way. You can't manipulate others choices.
1043541
ok sweety, don't worry right now, if your b/f is being honist with you right now, he will be in the future aswell and that's great!! just keep in mind that if he is being honist with you now he loves you and well be happy you are loved\nbtw is your name david?
1099748
If you're happy with the new bf (and not just because he buys you things), then tell the ex, sorry bout your luck.  Tell him you actually shuold thank him, because if he hadn't left you you never would have met this guy.  And you are happy, and hope he can find someone to be as happy with.
636357
go for the one who loves you, in time you will see that its a better choice.  the one who you love may not be there for you all the time, but the guy who loves you will be there for you.  i guess it all boils down to the simple question of do you want to be loved or not.
416353
Dont go out on a limb.  He is her boyfriend.  U have to accept that.  There really isnt a whole lot u can do to her and him- try to find someone who suits u too.  (MAybe a gallon of icecream)lol
1141162
Why do you 'want' to love that sort of individual? It's mind over matter thins time girl.  He is all about perversion and betrayal.  Try to think about the principles behind what he has done to you.  He will not choose you over his lifestyle.
675852
You should be applauded for your deep sensitivity in caring about the X. AT least write her a letter stating how you feel and letting her know of your current situation - or an E-mail. Just remember it is natural to feel as you do, but it does not have to change things with your current lover/fiance. Remember time cures all . This will fade naturally . Trust yourself and your good intentions with your fiance.It is only one of a billion memories you will have in your life- not a big deal. Go on and live your life happily and lovingly so. Best to you.
643794
I have been in exactly the same sitation. I have a boyfriend of 3 years. He's the best and would do anything for me. What I feel for my boy friend is ever-lasting love. But.....I also fell in love with my collegue from work. I worked with him for 4 years, known him longer than my boyfriend. He felt the same way. \nI was faced with the dilema; should I leave my boyfriend for my co-worker. \n\nAfter much consideration, I decided to stay with my boyfriend.\n\nThere is a difference between being "in love" and love that will last for ever. The feeling of being "in love" will only last for a short time.   \n\nwhat you need to ask yourself is: Who will be there for my when I have problems, when I get old, when times are hard. It is only that person who really loves you. And that person will most probably be your boyfriend
238945
u should choose someone who loves u more , and u should check the character of both in my guess u should choose ur current bf ,
881229
You need to get over your ex first hun. I have been down that road recently and thats what you gotta do first before you move to another person. If you dont you will just compare your next bf to your ex and end up ending things with them because you still have that hope of having your ex back. It's not easy letting go but in order to make yourself happy get over your ex before you start a new relationship
869248
The question is, where does your heart lie. with your ex or with a new guy. you should follow the path which you trust more, who respects you more, and knows who can treat you best.
771795
I make this short and sweet. If your bf can't and won't wait than maybe he's not the one for you. Find someone who can respect your morals and most of all someone who can respect your body.
626505
You need to let it go.  If they are truly BFs nobody can come between them.  If he is in love with her, do not try and come between that, you will only get hurt worse in the end.  Trust me.