what should i do if my b/f does not come see me and always has an excuse not to come see me?
87002
then he really doesn't want to be with you. don't put up with it . break up with him and if he comes back then he realized that he does like you and you're not as needy as he thought...but don't just sit at the house waiting for him and calling him. make other plans . don't let your life revolve around his. you need to be in control. don't act needy
307767
Sometimes we go through these things before we find out why we left to begain with and than we want them back. So one more chance dont hurt if you still care. Go buy her a present and you two enjoy a special brithday together and if someone knocks on the door dont answer it. This will be both of your time alone.\n\nI came back and seen what else you typed she didnot show up then but if she is wanting to make up, try one more time you have nothing to lose. This time maybe different i sure hope so you seem to care alot and thats hard to get from someone is the love you have for her. From me to you i hope you find away for you both.
332627
Let him know how you feel and tell him if now is not a good time to go visit to tell you the truth because you don't have much money but on the other hand you are going there to see him .... so ... if now is not a good time go another time and spend the whole day with him...  but if he wants to see you then go and see him when he gets outa work or after he goes with his friends....  \nQUESTION::: WHY CAN'T YOU STAY AT HIS HOUSE>?
252066
If you think there is a possiblity that he could be still doing this if i were you i would tell him that you dont think things are working any more and you think you two need a break. If hes not knocking on your door telling you how much he misses you in about two weeks then you know hes getting it somewhere else. If he does come knocking on your door. well then you know where he stands
998194
Block your number and call him or get someone else like your friend to call and ask for him to see if he's really there. One question: if you think he's home, wouldn't he come on the phone since you are his GIRLFRIEND?
939469
There is no excuse for a guy to treat you badly...you dont need to be in that situation ( I was in that situation for 3 years and even though we arent together i still get treated bad) If you are getting treated badly leave him and never turn back
160844
you tell her that you really care for her but are very busy with your schedule. try to find a time on weekends when her trailer is quite empty and your x-bf isnt there
856716
well you can show up at his place with a surprise dinner and if someone else is there then you have your answer if no one is their have a great dinner. Also if he is cheating on you their are a lot of signs like he doesn't call as much, cancels dates. and you should know the difference between girls "stuff" and women's "stuff". also asked your friend where they saw your man with someone and confront him with that information. keep your eyes open and good luck
360781
The best thing you should do at this point is to give him some breathing space. TAI (Temporary Avoid and Ignore) technique works most of the time because you will get him thinking what exactly is going on. Just stay away for a week or so. He will, just like all men, sense the lack of attention and regardless of how he feels about you, will feel compelled to get back to you sooner rather than later.
192525
Well, if he has to work he has to work. You can't get upset at him for that. If you feel he is just neglecting you I wouldn't invest anymore of my time into the relationship. He may care for you but honestly doesn't have enough time. You sound like a clingy woman so it would probably be in your best interest to find someone who can devote more time to you.
995405
TRY ASKING HIM...BABY YESTERDAY I WANTED TO GO TO YOUR WORK TO SURPRISE YOU AND I DIDN'T FIND YOU THERE? I KNOW YOU FOUND OUT LAST MINUTE THAT YOU WEREN'T GOING TO WORK BUT I FELT CONFUSED BECAUSE YOU DIDN'T AT LEAST CALL ME TO LET ME KNOW. I JUST REALLY MISS YOU BECAUSE WE HAVEN'T SEEN EACH OTHER IN A WEEK I HAVE TO AT LEAST KNOW YOU ARE OK BECAUSE I GET WORRIED THAT YOU WORK TWO JOBS. LET HIM KNOW MAYBE HE WAS A LITTLE TIRED FROM THE TWO JOBS AND TOOK ADVANTAGE OF THE TIME TO REST. BUT TELL HIM COMMUNICATION IS SUPER IMPORTANT IN A RELATIONSHIP
1082031
You both have to meet 50/50.  Talking about it is the best way.  Do other things to fill your time but if you feel like he isn't giving enough then move on.
688877
Sounds like your boyfriend is using YOU as his excuse for anything and everything!!\n\nMy opinion and advice?  Get rid of the boyfriend, find someone else who will value you more, and treat you like you're a human being, and not someone to use and abuse as an excuse because they're no good!
271328
If he make excises for being late all the time, if he calls and cancel on you. He starts hang out with his friends more often than before without asking you if u want to come along. he doesn't want to get intimate with you. these are the signs that I'd look for.. stay strong and take cares!
663183
wait..well u should've waited a bit also b4 getting involved but it's ok wait for a while now and if he doesn't call u do and dump him >:]
150756
Well it's not official over until one or the other says so. my advice would be to try to save your relationship while you can. It also seems to me that you guys are playing that "since I'm too busy to call you game. I don't have time to call you either". Don't play that game give him a call if you feel he's too busy. Try letting him know how you are feeling right now. Don't let it just pass by like that you need to let him know because he's not a mind reader and neither are you so talk to the guy and find out what's really going on.
1159993
maybe your boyfriend wasn't nice.\nlet's hope he is more considerate when he leaves you.