I fall in loved with my married cousin. Is it a sin? Should we proceed?
94020
it's a sin..because you're cousin is cheatig on his/her husband/wife..and you are liable because you contribute on his/her evil act...that can be considered as an evil act because it's unfaithfulness.
75856
if you guys still love and wait for each other, then it's worth continuing. My uncle and aunt had been in the same situation. They waited for each other for 20 years, and now they are married with 1 kid. If she's your true love, then it's always worth waiting.
746930
I once hooked up with my cousin, but she was distant like 7th cousins. she was hot though and we promised never to tell anyone. She is hot though. But yeah I think that you have some serious issues. One of them is incest. But if you must marry her come to the States and you can marry her in Las Vegas.
658478
love does'nt c any age...try to tell ur cousin first if she is close to u
628692
Get over it. \n\nhow old are you two? you did not explain what do you mean by cousin and where in india you live.\n\nin north India you can not marry your first, second or even fifth cousin. it is agaist law. and marriage between cousins is not good even geneticlly.\n\nshe is your sister and it is incest. nobody dies without each other. that is childish notion.\n\nA marrriage or any long term  relationship needs too many other things to survive besides infatuation or lust. The effect of your romantic relation with your cousin will start to affect both of your lives.\n\nIt is against rules of society.\n\nIt is agaist the Civil law.\n\nIt is against genetics and not scientific relationship.\n\nwherever you go sooner or later this relation will deteriorate. forget others if you have children some time in future even they will come to know your blood relation with each other. will you allow your chidren, a brother and sister to carry on, if they say the same thing you are saying now?\n\nGet some help . both of you.
1121218
I think that you should over think this! You shouldn't get married to someone that you are not in love with. Liking someone and loving someone is completely different. Once you marry them that should be it. You shouldn't go into marriage counting on the divorce card as a back door. You really have to stick together through good and bad, sickness and health, richer or poorer and it should be forever 'til death do you part. People that go into marriage half-hearted are the ones raising the divorce rate. If you feel this way, you should talk to him about it. If you know that he's going to propose and you go and date someone else...that's a sure way of knowing you are not ready to settle down with him. You should be truthful to him and yourself. At the same time, you should marry someone that you can be yourself with. Best wishes.
208961
Our God is a wonderful savior who knows our predicaments and our shortcomings.He also is loving and kind. We need to in sincerity turn to Him in our times of trouble and He will help us. Yes worshiping idols is a sin and God forbids us to do so. Sincerely pray to God and ask Him to help you in your situation and God will open a way for you. Slowly open up to your in-laws and show then Gods love and pray for them that they would know Jesus Christ in a personal way. Keep loving them and this way God would touch the hearts of your in-laws and also of your husband. Gods understands our situations and He gives us time to set our life right. Pray sincerely join some church or fellowship and above all start having family prayers every morning and at night apart from the quiet time that you can have with God alone. God will set you free from this Sin and problem. Trust God to help you. You have made the right decision by accepting Jesus Christ as your Savior. You can never lose. Trust God. We too shall be praying for you sister. If there is anything more to know please leave a note here and I will add to it. God Bless you sister.
594989
I've done it before.  Again, it was a distant relation through marriage.\n\nTo me it depends a little on how close your family is.  If it is going to cause some odd family dynamics, you may not want to let the relationship create any problems in the family.  But if you do not have a close family and you don't think it will be a big issue, go for it.
980065
You have a right to change your plans that were made through the eyes of a young girl years ago.  Back then your cousin was someone you most likely were with quite a bit, and you felt kind of like sisters.  It is perfectly fine to want your sister-in-law as your matron of honor.  Go for it.  Ask your cousin to be a bridesmaid if you want to include her in the wedding, and if there is any trouble just tell your family that you wanted to honor your brother and sister-in-law in this way and you are still having your cousin in the wedding.  They should respect your wishes as you are the bride and it is your wedding, not theirs.  If feelings do get hurt, they need to think of the fact that you were both little girls making promises when things were different, and that now you are rethinking things logically.  Even if you did all bridesmaids, there would still be an issue of who is standing where, so don't even bother with that.  Enjoy your special time, and do not worry if someone is petty enough to fuss over it.  Best wishes!
973921
i dont think there is a rule to this one.. sometimes it takes time and somtimes it doesnt.. my parents fell in love over time and my aunt and uncle was love at first sight..both couples have been together for over 50 years... hang in there girl..
1093725
You need to realize that your not really falling in love with him but that you still have a crush on him and that your feelings are based upon the past and not on your current life.  He may be a wonderful guy but the reality of it is you really have no idea if you two could ever really be together and be happy together like you and your husband are.  The best way to deal with this is just to keep reminding yourself how lucky you are to have the life you do and stop focusing on what you can't/ don't have.
711457
you're definitely not in love. its all infatuation. would caution u to think twice before making such decision (to marry). when u have doubts, don't do it.
773000
Hai,\nY do u want to keep a relationship secret in the first place? Well if both of them are married to different people ofcourse thats a sin. At times its normal to feel attracted to others ( whn u are married ) but dont let that attraction take u to different directions.I believe its sin cheating ur wife or husband. Its being totally an untrustworthy person !!!! Thats like being a CHEAPO !!!! U would not like if ur wife does that to u right !\nIf u both are not married, then its ur choice to keep it a secret or not and if u both are gonna get married then thats perfectly fine.
171380
admiring a teacher and being infatuated by one is two totally different things, I see that you are very young,so telling you my opinion and your heart telling you what to do is going to conflict;however here goes!\nFirst if he is married,I strongly reccommend you let this go, breaking up a marriage is not good, Secondly, I see that you are under age, this will create a serious legal problem for him that could possibly lead to some jail time and if you care for him, I don't think you want this to happen, finally, he would lose his job, so if you give in to your heart you will cost him all of this, and drive a wedge between the two of you that neither will probably never recover from. so weigh you decisions carefully, perhaps after your 18th birthday if you still feel the same, AND HE IS SINGLE, you can pursue it with a clear conscious.
696621
Please, you are in lust with her I am doubting that love has anything to do with it.  You and your wife need to try and rekindle your marriage.
437572
If you really care about your cousin, love her unconditionally. When you start putting conditions on love, it is not love. It would be great if you could concentrate on yourself : you are worried about what people will think about you. People will judge you by your actions, not the actions of your cousin. You have BOUNDARY problems. Try to accept all people as individuals.
461936
i feel your pain. i'm crazy about a blood cousin aswell. Dont feel bad. you cant help who you fall in love with. Tell her so that she can know what you're feeling and so that she can undersand why you do certain things a certain way when she's around. Tell her you love her, but dont react to what the love is telling you to do. make her understand that you cant help yourself and make sure that you keep your distance because after all, cousins make dozens.\nsave your family the shame... i did, and we're happy.