I think about him day and night..is it a crush or an obsession?
80466
I have the same problem with my new guy. . . i think its the anxiousness of weathere or not hes thinking about u, wondering waht hes doing, wondering if youll ever be an item, wondering SO MANY THINGS about him, spend time with him and try to get to know him better then u no for sure about everything he does u WONT HAVE TO WORRY OR FEEL TOTALLY WEIRD
452951
I think you like him more than a friend too. I have rather recently started a relationship, and all I ever think about is her! I hope you are as happy in your thoughts as I am in mine.
1021636
u can tell if he's all u think about and if u walk in a room full of guys with him hes the only guy u see. I u smile everytime u think about him if u can't go a day without hearing his voice. if just seeing him everyday makes ur day. I can relate to u because im in love with my bf and its hard to explain its like u just know that ur in love. Good luck with u and the guy ur in love with. Only u will know if ur truly in love can't nobody tell u if ur in love
736674
You need to stop fixating on this guy. I like someone, and i can't be with me, especially seeing as i rarely see em, and it means i just think about them, then like them more, and its a really bad cycle\nSTOP\nthe more you think baout him, the more you'll like him. If he thinks your a stalker, then hes not gonna go out with you! You need to take a chill pill, stop obsessing. It will scare him off. Be cool, act uninterested and as if it was jus rumours that escalated. He's more likely to like you that way. \nHe sounds like he is a concieted jerk, but i no how easy it is to fall for em. And if he IS a jerk, the fact he knows you arent running after him MITE annoy him, guys love it when they have admirers, so wen u disappear he could veyr well want you back\nYour not a looser, your gorgeous, if he doesnt reckognise that then f*** him, its his loss. Don't let your self confidense take a dive like mine did when my guy didnt like me back. Be strong, life is full of hurdles the more you overcome the mroe grgs u are ;)
1059363
at least have some self respect and move on...you are just obsessed...what ever you think of him is all in your imagination and it's not real!! there's no mercy in love.....
674856
Not necessarily. You tend to dream of anything that has been on your mind through out the day. If you think about a guy you dream of him even if he is not interested in your shadow. It just shows that you like him, but who knows, he might by chance be the one.
1174844
O.K.sounds like you're obsessed.............If you really like somebody and if he LIKES YOU ALSO you should go for it thou..............call 'em but don't make him feel that you're trying to control 'em.........that's not right................Call 'em
181355
If you haven't met this guy yet, you could just be in love with the fantasy of him. It's okay to let him know that you think about him. I would try to get a idea of what his feelings are for you first.
194419
Sure, attraction can be very strange. You can know that someone is not right for you, know that it would never work, they could actually annoy the heck out of you, but you still can't stop thinking about them. The heart doesn't often pay attention to your head.
451968
Of course.  But you must know that he may drive you insane because he'll think you like other guys even if you just glance at them.  But if you love him, then love him and don't let him go.  You might even be able to help him become less over protective.
487168
yes i hav being. because i cant stop thinking about him in whatever i am doing. it lasted for 7 yrs then we broke up and i am still in love with him and dont know if i will love anyone the way that i love him
707236
Sounds like it. Do you ever think about doing things with him too like going to a movie and stuff like that? Then I'd say yes, you are in love.
237398
You don't know, no one knows.... and its impossible for you to be all he thinks about. He'll be thinking about his job, school, what he's doing later that night. If you mean you want to know if you're the only girl that he thinks about then thats a different story. If you're in a relationship with him then yes you're all he thinks about (or should be).
893280
Yes, I feel that a crush is more than being attracted to someone.  One can be attracted to a lot of people, but that doesn't necessarily mean they have crushes on all of these people.\n\nA crush, in my opinion, is when your heart beats faster at the thought that you will be with that person shortly; it means you take twice as long to groom yourself when you know you will see him; it means you can't keep your eyes off of him; it means you wait and wait sometimes for hours for him to call, and when the phone finally rings, your heart stops beating for a couple of seconds; it means you get jealous just at the thought that he may find another girl attractive, etc. etc. etc.\n\nA crush is not true love.  Most people have many crushes on people in their lifetime.  However, true love usually only comes around once or twice in a lifetime.\n\nBest of luck to you!!!!!
103964
when it's a crush you love him or so you think...so much you are willing to overlook things about him you can't stand like, he lies and steals, but he is so sweet to me and so cute. When you love someone they may have faults but you can overlook them because they aren't a big deal. It has nothing to do with how cute he is. You are happy when you are with him. Even if you are seperated for a long period of time. He is all you think of. You are not interested in other guys. You would not want to hurt him in anyway as he would not want to hurt you. You couldn't imagine being with someone else. Their love feels like it completes you. If years go by and you still wonder how they are where life took them, are they happy? You probably loved them. I had/have that with my first love. Sometimes Time tells. Crushes you'll barely remember their name or what they looked like. Trust me. It's been ten years since I have been high school and many guys I dated are a vague memory except for my first love.
575048
Well, I would say yes. If this is truly what you are into follow your heart. Don't be a stalker but let him know how you feel and hope he feels the same way also. Good luck!
892197
You can't help what your heart want's and does not want.  It's not always right, but most of the time you should get it a little credit.  Maybe you don't want to admit that you are growing out of this guy.  As for the long distance thing, that is sorta an out of sight out of mind thing.  But if you think you don't feel strongly about this boy maybe he is just not worth it.