I want to ask my boss to leave me in my assigned position. How do I ask him and not be selfish ?
79626
This may not sound too nice but you have a right to be a little selfish...you have the seniority. If the other person is the one initiating the change, you have a right to express your wishes as well. Just tell your boss that you don't wish to move & that you hope he or she wil respect your wishes. If you are a top-notch performer, you can also point out your various good points that should keep you in said position while also noting that, "I shouldn't have to feel like I am fighting for the job & currently have...but..."\n\nGood luck!
519234
Be honest with your boss. Tell him that you enjoy your job, and you think you are an asset to the company. Hopefully your charts have examples of how you have helped the company to make more money. Because that's how you can convince him that you deserve a bigger piece of the pie.
885734
sound like he didn't think you would get the job.  I'd remind him of what he said.  If he still feels the same way I'd head off to the new job telling him he can join you if he'd like.  If after what you would consider a reasonable amount of time he still feels the same way I'd take my job over him.  He's being selfish.
464402
Go get some leads and do some interviewing.  Get yourself two offers for more money then ask your boss if you can set an appointment to meet with him.  Explain that you enjoy working there, that you feel your efforts produce a positive value for the company (provide examples), and that you really don't want to leave, BUT that you have two offers for more money than you are currently making.\n\nIf you're a good employee, valued by the company, he'll make you an offer.  If you're a schmuck and wasting their time, they'll smile and tell you to take the offer.
545731
the last place i left, i wrote a letter that stated my real reasons for leaving. my boss cut my hours because i took vacation when it was "inconvienent for her" i had seniority over everyone including my boss. i felt i should have been able to take vacation when i wanted to. you should write the letter with the exact reasons for your leaving. maybe they don't know what's going on or why they can't keep help and maybe they'll realize the error of their ways if you let them know exactly why u are leaving.
424459
Just go to your manager, say "when you have a sec, could we have a chat?" That way, the ball is in their court. Make the meeting informal (as much as possible), tell him/her that you've been offered another job (don't say that you looked for the job, it came to you), but you really love this place and don't know if you want to leave. The manager will probably ask why don't you stay? Then you can talk about money. Don't be forceful as though you "deserve" a raise....\nGood luck!
493593
Be  respectful  and be your self  .Just  ask  if you can  speak  to  your  boss and tell him  that you need time off and  reason    why and if you love your work tell him how  happy you are to be employed  by him and for accepting you  for this  position that you  do .HMmmmm  no pay   you need to  talk to  some one  from  it called  proof of work and  go  see labour board you  do not  have to  work  for nothing make sure  you  understand 2 week waiting period  for pay in any job .Then you are payed one week then if by\nweekly.
709878
You can ask to withdraw your notice, but your employer can make you stick to it.\n\nThe best thing is to talk to your manager, if they are having trouble recruiting for your replacement and love you then they will probably be happy that you have chosen to stay. However, they may have concerns about your loyalty and commitment and might want some new blood - so it could go either way.\n\nBut talk to them, what have you go to lose?
1146056
Write a polite letter stating your departure date and thanking your employer for the opportunity to work for them.  You do not need to tell them your reason for leaving in the letter, but leave the option open for them to ask.  Many employers reserve a right to a "departure interview" where they will ask why you are leaving, but a lot of places don't take the time to ask, they just work on replacing you.  Here's an example:\n\nDear Boss,\n\nPlease accept my resignation of my position as *whatever*.  My last day will be *two weeks from date of letter*.  I have enjoyed my time at your company and greatly appreciate the opportunities provided for professional and personal growth.  I will be happy to speak with you further at your convenience.\n\nSincerely,\nMe
544487
Make use of your boss as a resource to learn how to do your job.  Carry a notepad with you and after you ask them a question, WRITE IT DOWN.  This way you'll be able to refer to it and not annoy them by having to ask them again.\n\nAlso, try to figure out (either by asking or talking to co-workers) what you boss's major priorities and biggest problems are.  Then make sure you adopt a strategy that makes you useful to your boss in tackling those priorities.
830376
You're only spell can be changing your attitude. If your employer is egotistical, then buy into it. Tell him ow wonderful he is (not directly), but with statement like, "What a great idea!" or "You're so smart", or "I wish I'd thought of that". If he wants things done his way - even if it's wrong - do it his way, but show him what you think is the right way, too, as though it is his idea. Everyone loves an employee who makes him/her look good. Unfortunately there are a lot of bosses who let their positions go to their head and usually they will self destruct over time on their own. The only thing you can do is laugh internally at his idiocy and become the best you can be. I've learned a lot more from bosses I couldn't stand than the ones that I loved. Good luck!
267349
you must tell you boss all about it.. give a good notice period and wait for the reaction.. no matter what it was you did what you had to do and he is the one who will feel bad if he reacted in a disrespectfull way
1013321
give ur boss enough time, at least 2 wks. notice, and just tell them the truth. also, if ur wanting ur job back when u return let them know that as well
715779
Be honest with your boss.  Tell her that you want more out of life than than the job you have now.  She will understand, and if she doesn't then you really don't need her, do you?  Good luck finding something that makes you feel better about yourself and works to your advantage in the long run.
1049108
Put her off by saying you will as soon as you have a free minute from your own work, but you are swamped! Say it enough times and she will get the hint. If the boss asks you if you can help tell her the same thing.
556726
Tell him that u got a better opportunity or tell the truth whatever it is. Y to hv a hitch dear friend. Face the boss boldly. He is not going to eat u. Try to be polite and use a very humble and sweet tone while facing the boss. Boss is also a human being like u and me. So, y to worry.
1103396
CONGRATULATIONS LOU!!\n\nAfter 2 years of working with the company: if your employer did not think you were worthy and 'Deserving' of the promotion, then you would not have been given it: especially without asking for it!!  \n\nTherefore, rejoice in the fact your boss/boss's think so highly of you they wished to promote you, and no doubt give you extra responsibility, & a Higher Salary!!  \n\nNow you have to show your employer & your colleagues, that you are deserving of the position you have been given: & ESPECIALLY if in a position of authority or responsibility!!\n\nAre the people talking behind your back: or is this just a paranoid feeling you have?  You must have ‘Friends’ amongst your colleagues: try talking to them, and see what’s being said!!  If necessary, pull the ‘catty’ colleagues to one side and point out to them that you did not ask for the promotion, and that if they have a problem with it, to take it up with the boss: as you are sure he will be interested in what they have to say!!\n\nJealousy amongst colleagues in the workplace is rife in any company, for a multitude of reasons: Promotions: office politics: who Fancy's who, etc... \n\nYou must rise above it, and ignore their catty comments and childish actions!!  In NO WAY: must you give in to them, and return to your lower post: not unless the job is too much for you!!  You have worked hard no doubt to get where you are today:  you have worked for it: you have earned it: you deserve it: let no bugger deprive you of it!!\n\nStand tall & be Proud!!\n\nGood luck & God Bless!!