how do you know if your husband has cheated on you?
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there are very visible signs like does  stay out or work later than usual...constantly,is he secretive on the phone, has he lost interest in sex,is there money unexplained and missing,is there a strange scent on him like dial soap after 18hrs of working,or cologne that you don't wear,is he hangin with the guys alot.  ya'll really need to go to a counselor or your pastor and discuss this
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Yes, you need to think, if your husband was cheating on you, how would you feel if your sister knew and didn't tell you.  You need to have enough evidence to prove that you are right about the accusations so that you aren't saying something that is not true.  Then you sit them down and explain what you know.  They won't take it well, who would, but at least you kept them from being dragged down even more.
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I guess this happens in alot of marriages!From what I have been reading.It has happened in mine,also!And now My husband and I can talk openly about it,even joke about it!But that takes time.As long as you love him.And he loves you!That is all that matters!The past is the past,hun.Let it be that.I know it's hard!And I know you'll think about it.But in time,the hurt will get less.And your trust will grow back in time,too!I always tell my husband,that I have forgiven him BUT I will Never forget.And he reminds me about what I have done.But we don't argue about it any longer.Because,it has been a while.And time heals.I know that cheating isn't right.But sometimes when you get together real young it's really hard to stay faithful.There is ALOT of temptations out there.And it takes two.Also,NoOne is perfect.And then some people say once a cheater always a cheater,but I do Not believe this either.Because we may have made mistakes in our past.But I feel that both my husband and I have learned from them.And it will never happen again.It sounds as though,your hubby and you have learned from yours too!Good-Luck to both of you!
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a woman always knows. usually when shes EVEN thinking hes cheating, he is. signs include: buying new underwear/clothes for no reason, taking better care of himself all the sudden, working late, wearing a new cologne, changing passwords, running out for errands more often, not wanting to have sex as much, and taking up new interests. or the more obvious as in my case... i found lipstick/makeup on the shirts, love letters, condoms and late night phone calls. yea, i fired him lol
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why do you think you are being cheated
29306
I think some husbands cheat on their wives for the same reason why all men cheat... they want to see if the grass is greener in other pastures. They may not be getting the attention they want at home or they may simply just be jerks and not care about their wive's feelings.
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Have you been cheatin?\nDo you trust him?\nWhy not?
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I think men cheat because they need to know that they are still desired. \n\nI feel they reach a point in their marriage where they know in their heart that they are loved by their wife....but they start to question whether they have been all they need to be. Perhaps his wife doesn't tell him how "necessary" he is anymore. Perhaps his wife doesn't seduce him the way she used to. Perhaps she doesn't brag about him to her friends the way she used to. He needs to know he is still worthy. \n\nSo one day.....someone notices him.......and man...it just feels so good to be noticed again! And then maybe he sees her again the next day......and the next day. And her smile starts to become addictive. He becomes intrigued about who she is......and why she has noticed him. It might start out as a smile.......but it will become a kind comment.....and then a need on her part to 'run into him' just as he has found it necessary to run into her. \n\nMany times the affair is not intended. But all of a sudden it starts to fill a hole and fulfill a need that he realizes needs to be filled. She tells him how necessary he is........she craves the intimacy.......she tells him what a wonderful person he is. All the things that were lacking in his marriage. His needs are being fulfilled.........just not by his wife.
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if you have sex and then he leaves, if you call him and he never answers, if your always the one buying shit, if he never takes you out. If he's only around when he wants to be there. Girl if you feel like he's using you, your probably right. On the madea movie that woman said how do you know if your man is cheating? Do you think he's cheating YES then he's cheating
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Your insecure about your marriage. You and he need to work to make it stronger for your sake. It doesn't mean he is cheating, just you have some doubts...
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Not sure about cheating, but if he is keeping secrets from you that sure isn't a good sign.\n\nK
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why do you think he's cheating?
394254
Ask him. By his response, you can tell if he is lying or not. Look for signs that he is cheating. He is loving you or avoiding you? Follow your heart, but don't be afraid to play the field too!
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Leave his @$$. He is cheating. That's why I left my husband and I am doing much better.
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If you suspect cheating, it is probably happening. Try and contact them unexpectedly, see if they can meet at the spur of the moment. Cell phone activity can be a good clue, emails or text messages. Sooner or later they slip. If you have a friend who is supposed to be at the same place, ask for verification. Check the car, receipts in the glove box, different color hair, smell, etc. Good luck.
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I'm not sure how you can find out if your husband is checking your history, but you can make sure he doesn't find anything if he checks. You can do this by just clearing your history and temporary internet files. To do this (in Internet Explorer), go to Tools>Options. Click "clear history" and then click "clear temporary internet files."
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You can never know for certain unless you walked in on him..  But if you have a feeling that he is and you aren't usually paranoid or prone to jealousy, then something is wrong with the relationship.  Whether or not he is cheating.