What does it feel like to have sex?
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It's different for each person.  I assume by your avitar that you are female.  If that is the case, it will probably hurt the first time, maybe the first few times.  \n\nI would recommend waiting until you are married, it is definitely worth the wait!  It's also nice to know that your first is someone who is planning on sticking around.
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Who are you occasionally having sex with?  It is a regular partner/Significant Other or just random?  If you're not with someone who you trust it can lead to you not feeling as free or relaxed and therefore not enjoying.  Also a regular partner starts to know your body and then can usually please you better.\n\nHow intouch with yourself and your sexuality are you?  How will another person or a person in sex know how to please you if you do not know how to please yourself.  A significant part to enjoying sex is being comfortable with your body.  Do you like what you see in the mirror, do you accept it?  Do you how you like to be touched?  Being okay with yourself and understanding your body can limit your pleasure when having sex.\n\nLastly why are you having sex if you are not truely enjoying it?  Do what you find pleasure in, even if that is not total intercourse.  If you feel like you should be having sex or enjoying yourself more that can decrease your pleasure.  \n\nNothing is really wrong with you.  You just need sometime to figure out what you enjoy, and make you feel things totally.
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ive SKYDIVED A FEW TIMES,AND ITS LIKE BEING REBORNE ITS THE MOST AMAZING FEELING YOU COULD IMAGINE,IT MAKES SEX FEEL LIKE A SLAP IN THE FACE,YOUR STOMACH GOES INTO YOUR BRAIN EVERYTHING IN YOUR LIFE IS FORGOTTEN,I SUGGEST YOU TRY IT...WANNA CHAT  mr_millhill  AT YAHOO.COM
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PLEASE FOR GOD'S SAKE ... NEVER DO IT .. YOU WILL FEEL JUST LIKE WHAT I FELT WHEN I GET USED TO IT .. THAT I BECAME A MERE ANIMAL.. IT'S UNNATURAL .. SEX IN MARRIAGE IS HOLY SUPPORTING THE MARITAL HOLY LOVE .. BUT WHAT IT WOULD BE FOR TO DO IT IN 3 SOME.. MERE ANIMAL ACTION .. \nBELIEVE OR YOU WILL REGRET .. \nIT'S MERE DEGREDATION AND HUMILIATION OF YOUR HUMANITY
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Feelings or emotions are not foremost in "sex." To have sex is to seriously just go for the animal instinct of pleasure.\nTo feel good........to break free and let loose and go with the feeling at hand without regard for any feelings or consequence. With love making.......the feeling is so intense BECAUSE of the emotions involved. It feels good because of what it means between the two people involved. It isn't just an act of passion.....but passion in the act.
196058
well if you have had sex u wont ask. it feels very exotic.
438671
First-time sex shouldn't be painful, provided you are with someone you love and you feel completely relaxed with. You have to be completely ready for sex and totally comfortable with the idea. There should also be lots of foreplay to make sure you are well-lubricated. Provided all this is true, you shouldn't experience any pain.\n\nHowever, if a girl feels unsure about having sex, or unsure about the person she's having it with, her vaginal muscles will tense up, which can cause a lot of pain. This is true of any sex, not just first-time sex.\n\nBe safe, have fun.
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It's perfectly okay. Touch and explore. It feels nice. It's all part of being a being on this earth. Some people have more desire than others to touch. As long as they are yours do whatever you like with them.
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To be honest I was not satisfied, I had this built up image of sex in my head, I thought it was going to be great and enjoyable. But it wasn't, It's not the same as pleasuring yourself lol, because your starting off with that person you have to learn what each others likes and dislikes are, but that was just me, I dont know about other people, I talked to some people and they felt the same way but I guess thas something that changes with time or from person to person well hope your first time is a blast! have fun.
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This is very true.. especially since I have never experienced an orgasm..  I find that even though I have never climaxed in my life( by the way I have been sexually active since the age of 18 and I am 22) I still enjoy sex. I enjoy the emotional connection I feel with the person rather than physical. Don't get me wrong I enjoy the physical aspect. But what truly makes me feel satisfied is the feeling of oneness with the person I am sharing my body with.
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yes it feels good,  It is supposed to feel good,  thats why humans have sex.. us and dolpins are the only species to have sex for fun.
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1) Sex is pleasurable\n\n2) To be as close as possible to someone you love.
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Yes it does... Depending on what your religious beliefs are and/or what nationality you are it can be essential.  But... the biggest to consider is you... Your age, your emotional status, and maturity.  Having sex is not just a physical act but it is also a emotional act...  Are you emotionally mature enough too be able to deal with all the emotions of the sexual act... That of love and passion, self esteem...Self esteem is a HUGE factor... \n If you have a low self esteem, having sex is not going to increase that self esteem. Rather having sex could make you feel so guilty that your self esteem would lower.    You should never, ever have sex just to please another idvidual or to hold to that individual because if your partner is pressuring you to do something that you do not feel that you are ready for then you are going to feel even worst about self and having sex them is not going to guarentee that they are going to stay.  A person that pressure you to do something that you are not ready for also does not respect you in the first place and still will not respect afterwards either..... no matter what they tell you.   Being a Virgin is a special person and once you have given that virginity away you can never ever be a virgin again... so make sure that person is someone that is very special too you and better yet you are as special to them as they are too you... because you are going to remember that first time the rest of your life
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i think what is so great about sex. is the intimate feeling you have with your bf or husband. its defiantly a mind blowing experience. especially when your in love. their are no words. how great something can be when two people love each other and sharing their souls with one another.
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Not at all.  Well, not unless you do something wrong & she slaps you for it.  Otherwise, it feels great.  This is probably why we're usually more obsessed with sex.
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For me it feels more comfortable, but it won't feel comfortable if you are a virgin.
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how does it feel..it  feels like you are on top of the world..especially if its someone that you love then the pleasure is sooo out there..I dont know how to explain it..but it feels damn good...Its something that I love..I love when my man does it..he is soooo good at eating my you know what :)...