why can't I be happy with just one man?
98126
sounds like you just haven't found the one  your looking for yet cause when you do you won't want anyone else..if you get bored with one man and move on to another theres nothing wrong with you..its good to shop around and compare before you settle down...when you find that special someone that you care about you'll no it..till then just have fun and be happy
1096124
yup. happens all the time. pick the one who REALLY makes you happy. somebody you can tell everything about. discuss stuff. be close with. don't get carried away with attraction only.
158903
You can't make somebody be happy.  Sorry but it's true.  You must make yourself happy and if the person you are with is happy that you are happy with yourself and with life they will be happy too....
393752
Probably cause you're comfortable with yourself and don't need someone to lean on ,Try having multiple partners you'll see that its easier cause you don't have to commit to just one .Peace
529615
This is a reality "WAKE UP CALL" : You do not need a man to validate whom you are, because if you do, then you really do not know whom you are at all. This is a trying and difficult situation, to feel lonely, but this too shall pass. First thing is to be selective about the guy you are interested in, don't just go for the hard body with the great face and bad boy attitude{ these guys are good in the sack and little else}, try to find a guy you have a bit in common with, this will make you happier in the long run. The kindest thing you can for yourself is to not be so desperate, it is like blood in the water, you do not want to cause a feeding frenzy among the sharks and you my dear are the bait.
322194
It is nice 2 know there is another "one" out there similar 2 me. I asked the same question in a mens support group I was in once, Thank u very much! The answer is 3. lol
1318
It is much easier to manage one person (yourself) than two people. Having a significant other doesn't always mean all sunshine and roses. What it does is it widens the spectrum of your emotions and your life. You will be happier than you ever felt, and other times sadder than you've ever been.
37322
It's supposed to be so happy because it's a day of love and mush, and love is happiness.  But for single people, they don't really have anyone to love, and seeing all the people in love, especially on this day just makes them sadder. If you focus your attention on somehting else besides your lack of love, it can be happier. I've found voulenteering at an old folks home, showing your family how much you love them, and then buying yourself chocolate and something shiny helps.  Especially the chocolate part.
856652
yes it is definitely possible to love more than one person at the same time.  its b'cos all of them could be really decent and good to u, in their own kind of special way.  it means that u r good, that u found the good characteristics in others.  u dont have to feel guilty about it.  just that u have a choice, whereas many are too critical and selective and filter all the people.  they finally dont seem to have a choice in their life.  they like only one guy and end up marrying him.\n\nbut in your case, of course u should GO IN FOR THE MAN WHO IS HEALTHY, b'cos of course there is no point in marrying the one with the terminal illness.  u could be a good friend of his, and give him all the moral support that he deserves.  BE PRACTICAL , MY FRIEND, the healthy man is who can be your life partner and not one who is counting his days, or months.  u better make your choice fast and let them know it too.  being a little bit selfish here will do u a lot of good in the long term, and in the actual sense, it is not being selfish at all.  it is your life and u have every right to look for a long term relationship in marriage.  go ahead and marry the healthy man and be happy for the rest of your life and dont feel guilty about it.  this is my sincere advise my dear friend.  good luck and God bless.  do let us know of your decision fast. bye.
367575
Do you believe in happiness? How about trust? Of course there is such an emotion as love. Read your bible.If you are asking this question then you obviously have been hurt. Honey theres someone for everyone and half the fun is looking for the right person to love. The other half is realizing that your special someone is someone who will make you feel like a special gift to be cherished till you die.
945960
no he cant cause when u love some one u cant love a second person,i cant call it love,its just a desire.........maybe its just about sex for the second person
478757
maybe hes the one for ya... so find another one :)
351579
Just get on wiv ur life and find a new guy and maybe you'll find that you will be happier.
570538
A person can be deeply in love with more than one other person.  If this were not so, first children would have it all and later-born siblings would be up that famous but stinky creek without a boat or paddle.\n\nI phrased it that way to try and help relieve some of your anxiety.  Yes, one can be deeply in love with two guys.  It will be a real challenge, but you will probably have to choose one over the other.  The worst thing you could do would be to allow either of them to think that he is your number one.  They should know of the importance of the other in your life and that you're still trying to choose.  They should each also know that your choice may not, in the end, be either of them!  You may find another with whom you are much more "in tune", and decide that he's the one you want to spend all your time with.  \n\nWhat to do?  Be honest with both gentlemen, and take your time.  Don't rush into a one-to-one relationship before you're really prepared for that.  Marry in haste, repent at liesure is still, after a thousand years, a very meaningful phrase.  Wait until one of 'em proves he's worthy of a special woman like you!
416371
No. \n\nIt is my belief that God wants us to be with one person only.  Besides, its hard enough to give of yourself to one person and still retain your own identity, let alone trying to give of yourself to multiple partners.  Someone is bound to lose out, and it will probably be your own identity that gets fractured.
73510
I went through the same thing.  I was always a one woman guy, but it was always one woman after another.  None of the relationships were lasting.  I finaly realized that I was "making" these relationships happen.  When I stopped the search and quit making relationships happen, guess what?  That's right, the right relationship happened on it's own.  We have been married for over 11 years.  She has told me that one of the things that attracted her to me is that I seemed so happy and complete!  Good thing she didn't see me while I was feeling incomplete and searching for a relationship.  People can tell, and hunger and emptiness inside is very unattractive.  So my answer to how to find love?  Find yourself.  Make peace with your life as it is today.  Enjoy wherever you are in life to the fullest.  Make being alone wonderful by appreciating what you have and by being of true service to others.  If you honestly do this you will find happiness.  If it is meant to be, a lasting relationship will then develop.  If it is not to be, what the heck, you will still have found happiness and purpose.  Workded for me, and I didn't invent the process.  It has worked for people since the beginning of recorded history.  You are not unique in this problem.  We are products of a society that tells us to "primp up and hunt".  Remember that society tells us this, not because it works, but because there is money to be made from this philosophy.  Finding your inner beauty and peace is not advice that sells makeup, diet pills, clothes, cars, or dating services.  Quit looking outside of yourself, find your love within and become a beacon of attraction rather than a billboard of desperation.  Stop the ratrace and begin a worthwhile journey.  You are worth it.  You are loved.
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I believe there is one true person for everyone.  You can spend time with a lot of people and like many qualities in them, but when you find your soul mate, it is like finding your best friend that you have known for years.  You can finish each other's sentences because you know what the other one is thinking.  You both share a common respect and genuinely care for one another.  There is no anxiety about being together; things just seem to fall into place naturally.  People are truly fortunate to find them in their lifetime.