I screwed up a good relationship. Now I want her back. What do I do?
85945
If she has moved on,then she has moved on. IF you do like her as much as you do, just tell her how you feel and tell her you'll wait awhile for her and then serouisly wait a while but not for ever. But if she just plan out says there isnt a chance any more then just move on.
1011174
You obviously really like this girl, and if you want her back you should tell her. The worst she can say is 'no' but if you never ask her you will never know. I really think you should try talking to her. Be completly honest, first of all ask if you can talk to her for a bit and then explain to her your reasons for why you broke up with her and how you have changed your mind and you would like to go out with her again, say things like she has a really good sense of humor and a great personality. Complement her but don't over do it because she will know you are being false. Hopefully she will listen to what you have to say and reconsider going out with you again. If not, don't worry, try and stay friends with her, tell her you want to be friends. Most importantly, tell her how you feel, if you don't, you will never know her response. Good Luck and have a good day xx
757413
ive been there done that, and i did end up gettin back together with my ex, for a lil while.\n\ni suggest u think abt the fact if she would still want you back? does she love you? do u love her? can u work things out??\n\nthink abt these questions and answer then, and once u have a solution go and decide what u want to do,\n\nyou see, maybe she still loves you and she is going through the same thing so all hope is not lost, uve just lost her for a lil while, but if u hang in there, and since she is ur ex girlfrind that means u know her already, so try figuring out what she wants and what she needs, try fixing what went wrong, go back into her life and try being the man that she needs you to be\n\n\njust remember to have hope and hang in there, and maybe if after reading this u wanna call her, go and do that, but just incase it does not work out with her, its a lesson learnt and soon u may  just meet the one for you\n\n\nall the best, \n\nremember its your life, its in your hands, try figuring it out and live it
331346
First analyze what made you break up.  Has enough time passedc for both of you to realize what each of you have done to damage this relationship and make changes to yourselves?  \n\nMaybe she is not aware that you want her back.  Once you have thought long and hard about it, sit her down and tell her how you feel.  Let her know that you repect her dating someone else, but you know you two will be together again and you will wait patiently for her.  This will not only flatter her but also instill doubt in her mind about the person she is with.\n\nAfter that, just be patient and kind to her and treat her with respect and consideration.  Be her friend and listen to her.  Be there for her.  Don't let he take advantage of you, but be the one she can turn to.  Sooner or later she will realize that she loves you still, also.
214459
look, you made an honest mistake, i mean from the sound of things, it came from the right place. grow a bit of a spine and admit to her that what you did was wrong, but explain to her how what she did made you feel; that maybe she should have gone about it in a different way. don't beat yourself that much over it, you are only human and will make some mistakes, especially with those you love.
455516
If she left you because of this new boyfriend, then theres no point your pursuing her again beacuse she may not want you back after dumping you for him. If she loves him more than you, you are going to be disappointed in this one-sided love. Go out and mix around with friends and get them introduce you to other girls and start a new life without your ex. You both wont be happy in future knowing she had a past later on. So why waste your time and brood for her? Enjoy your yourself, man. She's not the only fish in the sea!
425646
awww :( i'm sorry...try to go back to the someone that you love....tell her how much you love her...if you want her back....6 years is a long time, and its not too late to save it from slipping away
1152170
Try to talk to her. See why she left you. Try to negotiate with her. See if you can fix the problem. There is also relationship councilors. Visit them. I know you guys can work it out. Good Luck!
776709
dont jump the gun...  she obviously wants you back.. so play hard to get.. thats what SHE wants...   if she wanted to JUMP in to it then she wouldda said  oh baby i miss you you were the best..\n  as it stands,, it sounds like she does miss you and refrets whatever may have happened.. so be with her...  you need to make sure that whatever happened last time wont happen again...\n    it may just be a game... she knows that you love her and likes the attention...  so she will want  while its easy and convienient and as soon as ANYBODY comes along she will drop you.. \n   not saying that thats the case... but i am repeatedly going through that stupid shit with my ex wife... and because i love her and im stupid i keep letting her back in...  yup... dont be stupid like me man....  if  you think shes sincere then do it...    if you have the slightest hint shes playin ya... kick her ass to the curb before she hurts you again
111565
Stop being selfish and let her be happy for once.  Even if you could get her back, it would never be the same...she will always have some bit of resentment towards you.
1130437
I think you should call him. But don't be like, "I made a mistake, I want you back." Because any normal person is not going to take you back & not have any grudges. He might be like, "Yeah, she want's me back, so now that I've got her, I'm going to make her suffer a little bit so she will not do this to me again. She made me hurt, I'll make her hurt." and although he may want you back just as much as you want him, he could ACT like he could care less & keep you hanging. Soooo, I would call him, ask him how he is doing, and start a nice conversation. Tell him that although you broke up with him, you still love him as a person & you want to be friends. Then let things maybe slowly grow back into a relationship & tell him after he's not mad & hurt anymore that you made a mistake. But you really can't listen to anyone but yourself, If you feel like you should tell him what a mistake you made now, do it. Everyone's relationship trials are different. And since no one knows this guy, no one on here will know how he will react except for you. So go by that... If things don't work out, or if he refuses to take you back, just remember it wasn't meant to be & it just means there is someone else out there even better. But before you do anything, you need to review why you dumped him in the 1st place, if your friends don't like him & say he is a jerk or something, try seeing thier side. But only you will know if he is right for you. I know a lot of people say my boyfriend is a jerk, but we have been together for 8 years and I KNOW he is not. Doubt and insecurities about you guys relationship will only make it end again. So make sure you resolve all issues before you get back together. Good luck!!!
301738
You want her back bro. This is man to man sh*t here. Blow her off. Seriously, just trust my advice and blow her off. Pretend you are on and better off and she will see that and realize you are intriguing to her again and she will start talking to you again. But play semi hard to get with her. Take it like you don't give a damn about nothing and if you 2 ever get together again it doesn't make a differance to you. But try to be exciting around her. Do something you normally wouldn't do. Take a chance and make sure she sees it or knows about it. You can handle it. Woman are complex creatures but once you know how to get through to them, you are golden for life. Well until they catch on to your knowledge of their ways.
738845
good luck. try to win her back.
385680
If you try to dig it further, you will obviously find a lot of proof to believe that she was completely distracted from your love relationship. She was just trying to keep you as a back up. I can say that because, from my experience, I know that these things happen when it doesn't even matter for her if you stay with her or not. You can be sure of one thing that she is one of the worst girls in the world. So, please try to control yourself and forget her bit by bit.\n\nYou have done the perfect thing. Just think of it! If someone has feelings for you, she will obviously try to make you happy and if you do not like something, she will try not to do so. But things are totally reversed here. So, you can be sure that she does not love you anymore. And you also should not be with her anymore.\n\nBest of luck!
100997
It is quite possible that she really does regret her actions and will never do it again, especially since she told you.  But, having been in your situation before, I've found it extremely hard to "forgive and forget."  Both of you have to be really committed to make the relationship work after a major setback like that, but if she is truly sorry and you think you can trust her again, it should all work out.
279455
Give her and yourself some time.  You may get back together, or you may find someone else that you like.
873327
Oh goodness, well the first thing I have to say about the situation is that she definitely has someone else...women don't leave unless they have something else to go to!  And as long as she has someone else, someone who in her mind is "treating" her better, there is nothing you can do to get her back.  And if she asked you not to call, then that is a decision you have to respect.  Your calling her is not going to help and it will just push her away farther.   Sorry to say, but this is a situation that only she can (in time) decide that she wants to be back with you.  Give it some time (and give her some space) eventually this other guy will screw up and she will contemplate coming back to you.  If she doesn't come back, then it is for the best.  You deserve to be with someone who wants to be with you as much!