What do you do if everyone in school thinks that you are a MAJOR girly-girl, and you're not?
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2 prove ure not a MAJOR girly-girl kick a tough guy in the balls in a huge croud!
342095
Just be yourself.  Being popular is overrated, and at my school, the "popular" people aren't really that popular - they think they are, but the majority of people don't like them.  You're awesome the way you are.
646787
my school is rumor/bullshit central .. so i know EXACTLY what you`re talking about .. what you do is basically just ignore them .. you know what the truth is .. if they dont believe you then thats their problem, dont let it ruin your school days .. theyre already bad enough because of work and teachers themselves .. lol, anyways .. hope that helps
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Don't do lots of makeup. That will make you look even more blantantly uh you know  trying too hard. Just start with maybe doing your hair nice one day, a ponytail, maybe a skirt or a skort, just do it infrequently at first, then gradually make your girly apprearances more frequent and soon ppl will be sayin "holy cow look at that not-a-tomboy- girl!!" <- sorry I felt like having fun \n\ngood luck
38961
Keep being yourself. ^-^\n..I know that sounds stupid.
699676
Take this long weekend, and treat yourself.  Get your hair done (new style), do your nails and get one new outfit. When you feel good and happy you attract the same to you.\nJoin a club or group at school that has both boys and girls in it.  Or join a civic organization in your town or church that has both boys and girls in it.\nTry hanging out with groups, it's easier to talk to someone in a crowd.  Don't try to hard or force conversation, just be yourself.\nYou can do this.  Have fun!
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im going into 7th too and just be yourslef i guess thats what i learned in 6th grade its okay to be different cause your unique dont buy some shoes because the most popular girl has them buy them becuase you like them. You'll also find kids you like to hang with people who are like you don't be like the PLastics I mean inlest you are like that just be yourslef. And clothes if you like the clothes weAR them you're the only person you have to please. Dont listen to these people who are actually telling you what to wear Be Youurslef! \n\nheres some quotes that I think deal with 7th grade\n \n"When you talk everyone hears what you say. When you talk  your friends listen to what you say. But your bestfriends listen to what you dont say"\n\n"Prep, Goth, sLUT, b****, SOUP CANS ARE THE ONLY THINGS THAT NEED LABELS"
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Eighth grade is tough! This is a time when both boys and girls are trying to establish who they are as people and self-esteem can be knocked down by a single comment. \n\nYou sound like you are a happy person. This alone is a precious gift that probably most of the "divas" at your school don't feel regardless of their outward appearance. Don't lose that quality because you'll find later that most "normal" people want to be around happy people more than outwardly "pretty" people. I personally think it is a shame that beauty tends to be defined by magazines, advertisements, and Hollywood. Most of what we see isn't even real. (Did you know a very popular "sexy" lingerie company digitally alters their models so that their bodies look different? Most have been made thinner, given a tan, skin imperfections airbrushed out, and even their legs lengthened! I saw this on a documentary once on how women tend to judge themselves compared to unreal ideals. Plus, actresses and models have makeup artists that know how to make them look different for the camera.)\n\nUnfortunately we can't make people like us. We can, however, work on liking ourselves. The guy you like may be asking himself how he can get to know you, but is wrestling with fears of being rejected. Let him know that you are "safe" to talk to. Smile and say "Hello" when you see him. If you know something that really interests him and he is knowledgable about (sports, computers, math for example) ask him a question about it. Most of all, be real to yourself. Don't pretend to like or be something/someone that you aren't in order to attract someone else. Don't worry about being "thin and pretty"..focus on living a healthy lifestyle and being genuine to who you are.
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i'm a girl and i don't! i don't think many others do though!
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The best advice I can give is: Be yourself!!!!!  Don't worry what others think of you. Boyfriends will come with time. You won't get anymore homework than you can handle. It's a huge step in your life. You will make so many changes in your life and this is just the beginning. Do your best with your schoolwork and prioritize. School is more important than boys and going out with friends.(even though it doesn't seem that way now). You will see that when you get older!  \n\nGood luck with this transition and all others!!
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let them stare or report them. you can feel pride in your abnormaly large boobies. btw nothins wrong with you your just faster thats all.
684125
Screw the kids at your school. I've had this happen before, it sucks, but the best thing to do is keep your head and laugh along with them, show them it doesn't bug you any. Sooner or later they'll realize they're immature and that it doesn't bug ya.
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know that everyone feels the same way that you do. We all have expectations of what others think of us. Realize that noone is perfect. It is nothighschool anymore, people have matured. Just have a good time, catch up with people.
955951
Honey you just be what makes you comfortable. Just keep up your grades in school. Religion is also very important, but that has nothing to do with who you are. Stay out of trouble and enjoy being who you are. God Bless you. Hope you will have the happy life that it sounds like you are seeking. I love little tomboys myself. They are not snooty or finding fault with others. Good luck my dear and have fun.
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don't be embarrassed, i respect and commend you.  Stop caring what others think.  Be who you are and do what you think is right.
692116
Well F thier not talk'n 2 ya then U got some serious mak'n up 2 do pal!! Here's what U do, have something 4 them, so something that U'll never do unless it's desprete messures like this! U know, F a tomboy hates dress's but will Do it 4 an apology, B that girl, think of something that'll really think that U want them 2 have a good time yet it show's how loyal U'll B 4 them! Idon't know that's what I can come up w/
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Well first and foremost, it's not about what everyone else thinks. You have to feel good about yourself. You have to be confident in your self always! And if there is something you feel is a flaw, like your glasses make it a fashion trend, make it your own. Always wear nice clothes and always hold your head up high. Your 14 honey, you have time to grown into your self and your body