Being married at a young age, is it wrong?
81689
ok,i know this one..lol\ni have been married ever since my fiftenth birthday,and i didnt have to marry,if you know what i mean,i will be 45 in  20 day and im still married,i have three successful children,one a police officer,one a nurse and one going to vet tech,and four wonderful grandkids who i love better than this world its self,and im still young enough to enjoy all of them,though most think im not even old enough to be a mom,i did have to put school on hold for awhile but did go back and finish..my mother married at 16,her mom 14,and they all stayed married.it think it depends on how mature a person is,not their age.
6654
It may not be wrong.  It may be socially acceptable.  You are the one who made the marriage vow.  The real question might be why did you go looking for another man before you terminated your relationship with your husband?  You are the one who must live with your choices.
434329
I don't think there is a particular age to get married,  get married when your ready, mature enough to accept all the responsibilities of marriage, and when you have the person  you could not imagine going thru life without them by your side.....
791920
Kids these days want to grow up too fast without taking into account the consequences of supporting a family at an age where they aren't legally allowed to have a job due to their age. Your personal preferences of marriage should be respected by your fellow peers. If they have a problem with it, then don't let what they say about you spoil your mood for anything. I'm 22 not married, and also don't plan to for a LONG TIME.... \n\nAnyhow, um, if you are from a community where post-25 marriage is looked down upon, then make a stand and tell them that it's just not the time for you.
285530
Marriage is a life time commitment and 18 is a bit young to know what you really want in your life.  At 18, you are still in the very beginning of your life and there are still many things for you to experience.  I understand that if you actually consider to marry this guy, you must really love each other.  Ask yourself this, will you be happy to spend the rest of your life with him?  If you are sure of that, maybe you should seriously consider marrying him(provided that he feels the same).  Some people actually got married at a very young age and have ever lasting marriages, it really depends on the couple.
702743
I'm in my forties and i know of one couple who got married that early and stayed married.You are still growing (mind wise) at that age. You need to be able to date around , see and experience new things with an open mind and it's hard to do that when your married.I know of 12 other couples who married that young and divorced..take my advice..wait until your at least 25..
177224
If you are ready to take the next step and you feel it's right then it's the right time. I'm getting married in November and i know it's the right thing to do. I love him and there is no point in waiting, i'm 25 and my family and friends enjoy his company which made it easier for me to make my decision. If you don't have to change your life to involve the other person but gradually include them, then it's good. Don't think that maybe someone/something better will come along and you might miss out, that's wrong.
544422
I was married when I was 16 and he was 18.  That was 21 years ago.  We are even happier and more in love now than when we were married.  We are each others best friend and ALWAYS make time for the other no matter what.  Communication is definately a must. You can't expect the other to know what is on your mind.  Neither of you are mind readers. ALWAYS respect each other.  Our rule is whoever gets whatever whenever.  Sometimes you need to just spice things up.  It has worked well even with having five kids from 17 down to 4 year old twins!  To really make sure it will last forever...add God and it will!
778456
Whenever you are ready, trully in love, and mature enough. My hubby and I knew each other since we were little kids. We got married when I was 22 and he was 20. We've always been very mature for our age and we knew what we wanted. We've both graduated from college, we have our own home, have a wonderful dog, and we have been married 4.5 years. We're now trying for our first child. We were in love and we didn't want to spend another day apart. We also waited until marriage to have sex, btw. :)
561912
i'm 23, we are still so young, and i think if you don't know for sure, then it's a definite no. i'm finally discovering things about myself and absolutely know that i can't marry right now because that scares me too. \n\nwhen you are ready, getting married and being tied down to a family shouldn't make you sick to your stomach; it should make you excited and happy. so it's not right for now. listen to your gut.\n\ngod bless
772302
There is No 'Right' Age!\nWe All mature at Different Rates!\nOur Ability to Judge Our own Judgment increases with age!\nHence why Younger Folk who leap into marriage do tend to mess up!\nHope this helps You!
174346
That depends on how old you are.  If your 15 and he's 19....no....If you are 20 and he's 24  ok there's nothing wrong.  I'm turning 32 in Aug and my Husband is 38....so there's nothing wrong.
221267
It's not wrong at all if he makes you feel good while the two of you are together.  But you have to think realistically about the long term thing.  He's still very young so he may see things differently then you do.  Just enjoy the time that you do have.  That's all you can ask for.
380139
My husband and I just celebrated our 9th anniversary...He was 19 when we married and I was 20...we have an 8 year old son and are trying for another...(wish us luck:),,,Marriage is not so much about age but compatibility and the willingness to work out the bad times...every marriage has its ups and downs....just marry your best friend and you should be ok....xoxoxoturtlegirl
355165
Once your of legal age, only you can make the choice if your too young or not.  I will tell you from experience though the younger you are when you get married the harder it is to make it long term.  The reason is that there is just a lot of life to experience and live in the next 6 or so years of your life.  I wish you luck because I know that your going to do it regardless of anyones opinion.  So just stay true, and never give up.
925141
Under the right circumstance, the age part would be okay.  But since you are asking, it sounds like you are not sure, and that is definitely not a time to get married!  At 18 and 20, probably neither of you are able to support a household.  If a baby came along, how would you manage?  \n\nIf you love each other, respect each other enough to do this right.  Both of you should get an education first, or at least be well on your way in a career that has a future.  You will know in your heart when the time is right.
1135901
No its not wrong! I was with my husband 10 yrs and had 2 lovely kids,we got married then within 18 mth of the marrage he slept with 2 others and moved out! He said he felt diffrent since we married and to tell you the truth so did I! we are working through stuff but we both agree that we wished we had left things the way we were! If you's are happy why take a chance and spoil things? Good luck to the both of you!!