how do you get a date for valentines without asking or working for it?
92023
you can try hiring a date, but what kind of date do you want, one that was a challenge walking up to and proposing to, or one who has no choice coz you have settled the deposit?
550642
work place, store, church, or have one of your friends set you up on a blind date.
214311
Being a guy, I can tell you it doesn't require a manual to do so. Make sure the guy doesn't have a girlfriend already and ask him yourself. Most guys are too nervous to ask girls out, so take charge and ask them. Nothing fancy. All it takes is "Will you go out with me" and most guys are like melted butter in your hands.
905587
ask it if it wants a date - same as making moves on anyone....
117020
Hey there. Do your best to not let Valentine's Day get the best of you. Don't settle for someone because you are tired of not being in a relationship. It won't work in the long run. Don't compromise what you are looking for in a relationship because you might be down or lonely today. This day will pass (thank God!!!) Eventually, tomorrow comes and everything goes back to normal. So... in the mean time, ask yourself -- what are you doing to try to find the right match for you? Online dating? Speed dating? Bars? Church? (I don't recommend bars OR church. You find people just as screwed up at both. They are just at different ends of the spectrum of screwedupness! My word. Like it?) The best way to meet people is through work, through friends, family, etc. Why? Because your friends and family know you much better than any online dating site could ever imagine! Do they all know that you are interested in dating and meeting someone special? Be sure to tell them. The other avenues do work occasionally, but the good ol' fashioned word-of-mouth / common acquaintance approach to meeting people seems to work the best, in my opinion.\n\nThose are my thoughts. I know lots of people that really get down on Valentine's Day. I just wanted to encourage you to keep looking forward. Smile. You'll get back into one.
469596
http://www.daylon.com/dating/\n\nhope that helps!
59673
I will steal an answer I gave to someone else previously... \n\nGo out to a bar and find a girl that is into couples... when your guy arrives home tell him you have a present for the both of you to unwrap! Okay I'm kidding... maybe.\n\nIt shouldn't be about just Valentines day and you shouldn't worry about having to BUY anything at all. Be nice, understanding, loving, sensual, all the time (and even more so during that CRAZY, hormonal time women go through every freaking month). As a guy I can say we appreciate those daily gestures a lot more than just one big one on that silly Valentine's day.\n\nOr you could always make two dice (out of clay or cardboard); on one write body parts and on the other an action (as in lick, kiss, etc). If things get too hot keep the dice in a drawer first so you can use them again next weekend! \n\ncali_rich_and_smooth@yahoo.com\nhttp://profiles.yahoo.com/crazy_monkey_jr010
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Well, that's plenty of options: online dating sites. Some are for free and some are paid ones. Personal-page sites are another option. Mostly they are for free of charge. Set your page as you wish, as attractive as possible. This is also similar to those online date sites but these ones normally have more attractive detail features. Or you can search through Instant Messenger services where you can chat directly with your 'targets'. Good luck!
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336245
The same way as a first and third and hundredth time. Or more likely, a better way that you didn't know the first time (because you've never successfully asked someone to go on a date with you?).\n\nSo the answer is in a straight-forward manner: "Do you want to go out on a date with me?"
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If you're not sure if they already have a date, you could say "Are you going to the dance?" If they don't mention they have a date, then you ask if they'd like to go with you.\n\nMuster up that courage & ask. I'm still reminded of a Sadie Hawkins dance I failed to ask the boy I wanted to be my date. Who knows what may have happened. Good luck!
705910
Don't try to plan conversation......just go with it.\n\nMy one suggestion......pay for the date!
651045
go out and date just dont get married
160627
You can't. Match.com requires you to use a credit card (you can call Match.com customer service to see if there are alternative methods of payment - 1.800.926.2824).\n\nIf you are looking for an online dating service that doesn't charge money, then consider some of the following:\n\nFree Online Dating Services\nOkcupid.com\nPlentyofFish.com\nSladurana.com\n\nBut be careful and safe on any online dating service. Don't ever give out a home phone number and use a free service email address (like Yahoo!) for your email communications if you stop using the services anonymous communication. Always meet in a safe public place and trust your gut instincts. Good luck!
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ehh dont feel like you have to.. its only if your wanting to spend time with a certain someone. dont feel pressured, and dont feel bad if the case is that you just dont have someone that you would like to spend that time with. valentines day has a way of getting people all flustered for nothing.
648367
Don't. It does not happen that way unless you are paying cash up front.\n\nYou have to get to know someone first (however briefly) and if the circumstances are right then you can go ahead and suggest it.
70065
I have to agree with honeybunches. I never had a valentine, so I would love to just have a girl, my girl with me on that specail day. Just being with someone you care about a lot on holiday and events is good enought.