if a guy was cheating.. dont u think he would stay out all night... with that girl hes messin around with?
92370
if a guy(ur bf) stays out all nite long.. hes just a dumbass, wanting to get caught... a guy whos cheating would just want a "WAM BAM THANK YOU MA'AM" not a full blown date!\n\nof course this applies IF HE "IS" CHEATING. cuz he can stay out all nite long with his friends.
1112056
You kind of answered your own question.  It sucks to be cheated on so why would you want to put another person through that?  If the girl really wants you then she should dump her man and be with you.
418522
first, it is NOT okay if a guy cheats...they are just as guilty as a girl when she cheats...\n\nsecond, there is double standards in this society....either way, the girl is always going to be stuck with the bad reputation while the guys gets to be the player or the pimp daddy...it's never fair
302326
Sorry to say but even though he sleeps with you ,HE is married to her. and 9 times out of 10 they will never leave their wife. they like having the best of both worlds. he might be screwing you but she has his last name . And why would you want him? if hes screwing around on her what makes you think he wouldnt screw around on you?
539184
There is a strong chance that he is NOT cheating!!!!\nBUT he is surely not attracted to here sexually.... BUT he might like something in her that he values more than sex.... that could be a reason that he is still around!
1157992
First of all your not the scum he is. If he is cheating on her with you then he will cheat on you with someone else. Since your relationship with him has been sexual I would tell the girlfriend. She has a right to know what she has been exposed to. I am not saying that you have anything but the guy may be seeing several other women and not just you. It is also very common to be angry at the other woman and not yourself or the guy. If you look at this logically then you would see who you should be angry at. For the last two years this guy has been leading you and his girlfriend and God knows who else on. When you found out about the girlfriend you probably thought that he would dump her and stay with you. It doesn't always work that way. If you dont tell her and leave the guy you are always going to be second guessing what he is up to. You are always going to be comparing yourself to his girlfriend and you will never be happy. Telling his girlfriend would only be fair to her. You have known about her and have seen what this guy is like. Maybe his girlfriend needs an eye opener. And the guy deserves to be alone.
181129
Only you know.  Would it matter if it is a younger girl?  Why would turning 18 have anything to do with if he would cheat?
424649
Different reasons. Depends on the guy, the girl, the situation... same as when girls cheat I supposed. Sometimes it's just because they are selfish and thoughtless and don't actually care about who they are with.
1017075
Send him to a place around other girls. Have someone "spy" on him. See what he does. If he cares, he won't do anything. I know this sounds a bit "cheap", but it is sure-fire, trust me.\n\nI am a guy. I have seen it a gazillion times on reality shows and talk shows AND in real life. Any guy who is NOT serious will cheat. I've known lots of them (and I'm a good honest man!!!) \n\nJust don't tell him you had him "spied". You can wait several years before you do that  : )\n\nBlessings,\nJon
423830
If he really really cared he wouldn't have been out sleeping with other girls.  I don't know him but I have known many in your situation and everyone that took the guy back ended up being cheated on time and time again. You don't need the drama of boyfriend with a child from another girl, that girl will more then likely be in his life until the child is 18.
245563
Love and cheating are two different things. When a guy cheats, its doesn't necessarily mean that he doesn't love his gf anymore.. Guys need to feel wanted and desired all the time.. They always want to make sure they still have "it".. That they can still get any girl they want.. It's a bad habit, and the most important thing is if his gf knows about  his cheating, and if she will be able to tolerate it..
997496
No. You are just setting yourself up to be cheated on again and again. It is like telling him he can walk all over you because you won't stand up for yourself. Besides, if he is sleeping around, he could bring home an STD. Take care of yourself first!
878055
If a guy is flirting and talking to you for whatever reason and doesnt mention he has a woman then no he really doesnt care for her. And if i were you i wouldnt be the next one to go out with him because im sure he will do the same to you. Its obvious he has no quam about cheating on his girlfriends if he has to hide the fact that he has a girl in the first place. Hes no good.
261332
It's very hard to read your question but what I got from it was that your sister called her boyfriend who had one of her friends over there alone and so she thinks he's cheating, am I right? If so then I have a question, does she know for sure? If she doesnt then I think she needs to talk things out with her boyfriend if he is cheating and she for sure knows that then she needs to dump his a** and her friend too!!!
750606
Simple he is a liar and a cheat. I would not take it so personally, if it had not been you it would have been someone else. If he told you he was single, it was not your fault. This is his issue, you are not the bad guy in this situation. However, let me also say that not only men do this but many females also. A cheat is a cheat is a liar is a liar. The world is full of amoral people. God bless*
528629
Hi, without a doubt in my mind, if I ever found out my man was cheating I would dump him, no questions asked.\nSome of you may say "he/she made a mistake.Yes, it is a mistake, and sadly some people repeat them over and over again.\nI would never be able to trust my boyfriend again. Women are emotional and are imaginations are highly active. I would not trust my boyfriend again. I would always have a vision in my mind of my boyfriend bedazzling another woman.\n I also would have a low opinion of myself. I would feel like I am not pretty, or sexy enough for my boyfriend (even though his actions were not my fault). I would also feel like he didn't love me. Because sorry, but if you truly love someone, you don't cheat, bottom line. I don't care if you are drunk, or your having a bad day..Its something you don't do to someone you love.\n  I would be so devestated if I found that out about my boyfriend. Also, when partners do cheat, they put YOU at risk. At risk for a disease....And believe me, several cheaters out there have given their girls and wifes, husband and boyfriends diseases. So my opinion, you would not want to put your love at risk.\n  Cheating is a disease for some people. They have to do it to make themselves feel high. Guys and Gals alike, don't fool yourself into thinking you are different or that these people can change. And to those of you who are going out with married or attached people, you are just as bad. You are an enabler. Some people cannot seem to stop cheating.\n  To you who have written this question, Good one. And I hope to a higher power out there that you have not been cheated on.
797413
not to sound mean,  but the guy sounds like a loser. He just had sex with her, he prob loves her, my best advice, stay away. There are probably so many other guys that r intrested in u.