okay. well when we are getting ready to have sex an starts to put it in it hurts so bad but then when its in?
91332
see a doctor as soon as possible. and try antibiotics...but get to a doctor
1119291
It hurts, but it's tolerable.
638985
Yes usually it hurts the woman. Be careful and gentle and take your time. If it hurts to much take a break and maybe talk about trying another time. I hope you will use protection and be responsible.
867572
It may or may not hurt, depends on how great the foreplay is. If the foreplay is great and you're lubricated enough, trust me, you won't feel as much pain, in fact it can get very pleasurable after a while. If the foreplay sucks, and your not wet enough, believe me, it's gonna hurt, but just relax and make sure your totally ready!
906942
He was probably hitting a sensitive spot or hitting something too hard.  When you feel uncomfortable during sex, change positions.  Unfortunately, if the pain after sex continues, you probably should see your doctor.  You could have a cyst or something like that.
968445
OK - 1st of all please tell me you are going to use protection!!!  Second of all it is different for everyone - guys dont have any pain, women would be the ones who have more pain... it all depends on how relaxed you are while having sex, but also it is a totally different feeling so it might be somewhat painful, for example, for me it was not very painful, just different, but I have friends who saw a lot of blood after or who have had more pain than I did... just go slow, and if it hurts stop and try in a little while...
770303
It hurts really bad the first time (8/10), but then every time after that it gets a little better...if you are asking what I think you are asking, lol.
1083013
You need to go to your local health care professional and have this check \nIf it hurt to have sex there maybe a problem
1103529
It shouldnt be unbearable OMG im gonna die painful....if it is see a doctor....maybe you arent ready
61425
Sex hurts when is the first time, but after that feels gooooddd, and it depends on the positions too but still good!!
1184037
if you're nervous, no matter how much you love your partner, it will hurt. when you're nervous, your muscles are tightened and it'll be hard for you and your partner to engage in intercourse. take a deep breath, relax, and think only good things and i think you will be fine.
413148
Yes it does hurt the first few times. If you are nervous or scared it might make it hurt worse, and make sure you are not dry down there. If you are you might need to use some extra lubrication.
1001460
Ya it happens sometimes, especially if you have sex a few times in a day. Dont worry
730398
mine hurt BAD the first tiem he was huge and my hole was tiny....it was the walls streching that hurt i could almost feel the walls tearing....the most important thing is to be relaxed if you're at all tense it will only make it worse making sure you're 100% ready will help you be at ease
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Girls just get horny..and go in a stage often called "heat"...when u r in heat you may get wet or something like that, but you should feel any pain..if you start to feel pain go to a ob-gyn..if u have your period u may be getting ready to come on...talk to your ob-gyn..
103014
It hurts for a second while they're pulling them out, but once the doc is done, it goes away.\n\nI've always thought they were more uncomfortable while they were in!
442380
try using some lubricant like KY Jelly, also have him only insert it a little at a time until you get used to it. Sometimes it takes a little stretching on your part. Once you have sex several times then you should be able to handle it, and it should not hurt any more. Good luck!