from when i  was born till now i feel  myself that  one day i  wil be a vip,a very  big person, why?
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Well, most people think they are born to do something and succeed and help mankind somehow. Its not like majority of people start off young thinking I am going to be a nobody. It would be great if you could reach the goal you have set for yourself though. I am a little confused with the line you have..."but I feel that I was born once". If thats what you think you were called to do though, then go after it. It is never too late to live your dream.
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It is normal. Children may feel excitement when their birthdays are near. Some adults still feel it. But most adults don't feel great become older. If you think your life there won't bring you any good, please don't be scared to change it. Try new things, don't let work be the only thing in your life as you only live once. New activities may bring you to new friends. Moving to another place could be a good option. Good luck.
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I used to be just like that. You have to realize that you have to please yourself before you can really please anyone else. Don't go through your life regreting what you did not do and resenting someone else because of the choices that you yourself made. Try it slowly at first and see how it works for you. You will be surpised at how much better you will feel. Take baby steps. The world was not made in a day.
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Well to tell you the truth it makes me feel good about myself. I am 16 and my familys rich but i love the feeling of making money on my own! And plus its a false sense of being wanted for the short time period. i would never give it up for the world.
1126032
I believe in myself. Thats a big deal because not alot of people can say that. I believe that I will be successful and wealthy.
100125
Definitely!  I think because we play so many different roles in life, sometimes we feel like different people.  It is important though to keep in touch with your own personal values, morals and priorities so that when you "people switch" you are still you!
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i think that is just the personality of some ppl. you just have to be aware of how other people are feeling around you, that's all. i sometimes notice if i'm making someone feel small, ignored or uncomfortable. just try to monitor that more... i know about the stress... it's crazy
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I think it has a lot to do with unreal expectations that we as people can put on ourselves, others, and on situations. When we are young, we are emerging as people so it is understandable to be insecure. But as I got older, I was able to gradually accept who I was and no longer had to try to fill the role of some fantasy character that I imagined that I could be. I just learned to let me be, let them be, and to let things be. And now I am happy.
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because my body is in PERFECT SHAPE...i work hard at it, it is like a goddess.....and someday it may not be and i want to remmber how great i was in my 30's
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There are others who feel as you do...please avail yourself. Sending you some links...\n\nWhen you are ready...at a time and place of your choosing...reach out...and learn from those who have been where you are...and are taking steps.\n\nPeace and blessings...good luck.
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Ah now I get the question, thanks for changing it.  When you do something you know is right it's sometimes like dieing to be re-born.  They call it the dieing stage.  You can feel totally flat for a while but all of a sudden you will rise and feel stronger.  Each time this happens you feel yourself getting stronger and stronger.  Trust me it is worth it.  Keep at it.x
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Nope, I think that feeling comes from not being happy with your current situation. Change the situation and you will feel fulfilled.
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well, are u not happy about urself cuz of how other people react towards you?? or is it just cuz u wish you had more "positive" qualities, and don't naturally have them?\n\nif it is the 1st, u may need to learn how to be more comfortable w/ yourself in a Positive way, no matter how others treat you. if it is the 2nd, i think it is great, because you WANT to have certain traits and you can change, and work on yourself to Become Better....always.  that's what's so great about life.. u can try hard to make different changes and see what works best for you tomorrow! and if that doesn't work, try, try again!\n\nmy mantra is this: first work on your Appearance (exercise, work out, take care of ur body. get some flattering hair styles and clothes. feel good about how you are presenting urself :D)\n\nnext, work on your Mind (study harder, read more, learn more, excel at your hobbies...the more u Know, the easier it will be for you to have something to say to others.. keep an open mind).\n\nnext, work on your Relationships (w/ family, friends, eventually strangers! and because u look Good, have smart things to say, u have more to be confident about, and less to be shy about).\n\nafter all that, if u STILL feel unhappy, then i think u have a dilemma. but until then, u can't really complain until u do something Proactive, Positive, and Healthy in your life. u will see a major difference in ur attitude, ur relationships, and the good things in ur life vs the negative. good luck~
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You look marvelous from here. Personality and a strong sense of individuality are far more important in the long run.
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If you possess abilities,recognised principles, and positive attitude towards life and you are conscious of such features in your personality,you will definitely respect yourself. Consequently, other people will respect you in appreciation of your merits and will try to emulate you. One must have some thing exceptional in him or her to become a role model for others. As such, people respect those who respect themselves.
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I've wondered the same thing myself recently. But I've concluded that you can never really know who you are, because you're constantly changing and growing. So you shouldn't expect other people to understand you either, because you're different so much. Keep on writing though, you'll be happy to be able to look back.
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Trust me I know exactly what your talking about. I'm a fellow Sag myself. (Dec. 18th)!!!!!!!!!!! I find that I need change constantly because I get bored very easily. I'm from one thing to the next. It's like I feel like I'm missing something if I don't try to broaden my horizons. I also don't like to feel caged in no matter what the situation. We Sags love our freedom very much. I love to travel just like you. If I could have my way I would travel 95% of the time everywhere in the world. I want to learn things, meet unique and different people. Most of us Sags want to learn the truth behind things and we love meeting new people and places, especially if it's different cultures. Don't worry sweetie your not the only one that feels this way. By the way Happy Birthday in advance!!!!!!