how come girls think there fat when there not???
88959
It's a matter of tv,magazines,and the world.In easy words they just compare their body to models or other friends that have less body fat,so they think they're fat.Understand?
429725
Stop worrying about it. Girls are a lot less visually oriented than men. If you have a great personality, intelligence, sense of humor, etc...who cares if you have a little extra weight?
119474
Its the social stigma of "fat" girls....which sucks...people look down on you because you are bigger than the average norm or what people think is normal and it gets better when you are older...As long as you are happy with yourself and so what you are "big", "Fat", "overweight" etc. if someone can't love you for who you are or even like you then you dont need them and to me they are pretty shallow...Tell your girl Love yourself and the right guy will come along.
195143
Not all dudes like skinny women! No one in my family would even bring a girl home if she didn't look like she could handle herself/or has handled her business at the dinner table.\n\nI am totally of the belief that the person God designed to be your mate is attracted to your body as it was designed (including someone's set point).  Women worry about their weight all too often and don't realize that it is irrelevant if a dude thinks you're fat. Why do we do this to ourselves? Different strokes for different folks, and if he's not interested in strokin' ya ...well, there will be others!
441937
women with self confidence...i don't want to hear, oh my god im fat and ugly... she has to act like she's hot, but be kind and caring.  don't dress slutty, but don't dress like a nun...wear something slightly revealing but leaves something to the imagination...also she needs to know what she wants, not just bouncing from one guy to another
555377
Girls are funny like that. But this is because they are uncomfortable and not ready to tell everyone about their problem. It takes some time for them to be ready to come out about it, especially to their friends, because girls are afraid of what their friends will think of them.
1159563
b/c they think that they are prettier and fit in with society, (WHITE society). but in the long run lighter girls are the ones with the most problems and more insecure about life.
172831
Low self-esteem.  Many girls are heavily influenced by what they see in the media.  What girls see is misleading.  It really is too bad.  Everyone is beautiful in their own unique way.  We all can't look like supermodels so let's not try to strive for it unrealistically.
463295
I know what u mean, i saw it also, i think it's the woman's nature body shape, even if she is thin from above till this part of body the shape starts to get fatter and buts appear to be a separate part of body. Some times if this shape is reasonable the girl look sexier but lots of other times it needs surgical solutions.
174951
For me (and a lot of guys) it's all about proportions.\nThat said , there are a lot of men out there that say the fatter the better, these guys aside most (including myself) think like this:\n\nFor example, if a "fat gurl" as you put it, has no or small breasts then we probably not that interested.  In other words if her gut sticks out further than her breasts it's not good!\n\nIf however she has big breasts (ie curves in all the right places) then yeah we're probably interested.  I'm talking about real curvy women here, not huge women
598315
Yes, that's absolutely and perfectly healthy. You are NOT fat. For some reason, most girls think that calling someone fat, even if they aren't, is the best way to insult them. Just don't pay attention to whoever it was who told you that.
105043
Do you have big hooters? If so, guys are probably not really looking at anything else and your girlfriends are just jealous...\n\nj/k\n\nIt doesn't really matter what anyone else thinks about you. It only matters what YOU think about you - you'll waste all kinds of time worrying about what others think - so don't.
566294
Why tell her that in the first place. If you know you can't just say the good part without leaving the bad one out, then don't say anything at all. I have seen girls do terrible things to themselves just because someone told them they were either ugly, or too fat, or too thin, or too busty, the best thing is to just leave that part out. Trust me
1081729
Most heavy girls don't get  "it" that often, if ever.  So if they do, they really get into "it".  They are better in bed than skinny girls, in the giving aspect of "it".  Plus the waves of fat that just ungulate after you get going are just so sexy. NOT!
832197
The message is not a negative one!  The guy was actually complimenting her!  When a guy says you have a fat Pu$$y, it's a very good thing!  Guys tell me that all the time!  It means that her private part, her outter lips (labia) is a bigger size than usual.  that's why he said that!  He's not calling her fat or anything!  It's a very good thing!  I like it when guys think it's fat!  The average size of a Pu$$y is just average, but when you have a nice fat juicy one...you should feel special! :-)  She should take that as a compliment, not an insult!
943016
not every girl like that.\ni do think girls like that somehow "stupid".\nbut i think it's because many men prefer big breast, don't they?\ni think men who see girls just by their looks also "stupid" or shallow.
836436
Tell her she's not fat, make sure she knows that you think she looks good, healthy, pretty, that you don't like it when girls are too skinnny and unhealthy looking.  If you suspect a serious problem, anorexia or bulemia, please seek professional help with her.  Good luck!