My girlfriend recently left me. How do I get her back?
88515
You don't.  She has made a choice that you need to respect.  The best thing you can do is move on and concentrate on you.  By making your life the best it can possibly be without her there is a slim chance she might realize what she lost.  The key is that you deserve to be happy and you can't be if all you do is focus on getting her back.  She doesn't want some guy who begs to get her back, she wants a guy who has his act together.
484138
You have to give her some time for her heart to heal, be there for her and talk to her let her know that you understand that she has been hurt may times but also let her know that not everyone is the same there are kind nice sweet men out there she just hasn't found the right one...Don't push her though because u don't want to push her away from you because if u do u will either fight like hell to get her or u will never get her at all hope this helps good luck
361514
Keep being her friend for a while and find out what went wrong with the relationship. Once you find out what went wrong then fix that little at a time just wait for her to ask you out because she might think that you are despert and that you want her back. You might also want to try to talk to her and wait for her and not date anyone else for a while just be her friend and be honest and trust her. Good luck.
91337
Call her...that would be sweet!\nAnd tell her how much you miss her and wish that you were with her there.
384939
Depends on why you lost her.  If it was something you did, make her realize that you've changed.\nDo every single thing you can think of to show her that you love her and you want her back.  Send her flowers, send her emails, write her poetry, mind you...this is a fine line between showing love and becoming a stalker.\nGood luck
383690
Right now buddy, the best thing that you can do is to love yourself... If you don't know how to love yourself, how can others love you back... Always remember that ok? I know that you are in a very tough situation now, that's why you find it very hard to eat and to sleep, and that's normal, but you should take care of yourself because that can lead to too much depression which can be harmful for you... About getting her back, I think that you should follow the advise of some of your friends who are girls because they understand what a woman feels after a hurtful situation like that, unlike us guys who are tougher and can handle situations like that... Always remember that girls are emotional and its really hard to earn back their trust, you must first prove to her that you are sincere with your apology and show her how you still love her by waiting her make-up her mind... Give her time to think because girls always want assurance before they make a tough decision... And always be prepared and be open-minded whatever her decision will be, you should learn to accept whatever her decision is because that is your consequence, you are the one who cheated... And don't be too aggressive on her, let her think... Actually, your girl is too kind coz she still accepted you to be her bestfriend for now after wht you have done... The only key to get her back is give here some space and time to think and prove her how much you love her by waiting and accepting patiently for her final decision about your relationship... Goodluck buddy... And don't do that again because it is not only her trust that you will lose, but also the trust of your future girlfriends if ever...
301738
You want her back bro. This is man to man sh*t here. Blow her off. Seriously, just trust my advice and blow her off. Pretend you are on and better off and she will see that and realize you are intriguing to her again and she will start talking to you again. But play semi hard to get with her. Take it like you don't give a damn about nothing and if you 2 ever get together again it doesn't make a differance to you. But try to be exciting around her. Do something you normally wouldn't do. Take a chance and make sure she sees it or knows about it. You can handle it. Woman are complex creatures but once you know how to get through to them, you are golden for life. Well until they catch on to your knowledge of their ways.
676881
Its possible!  dont call her, and get a new girlfriend.\nshe will come back.
299537
Don't mean to be cruel to your ex but the boat has sailed, you've obviously moved on so don't give her an excuse to hold you back. Whether she's playing games to save face, because you were the first to move on, or whether she realises what she's missed I'd do the same for both: Tell her kind but firm that you've moved on and she should too. If you let her outburst achieve anything she could use it more often or feel she has a hold on you, so make sure she knows it isn't going to work. There'll be tears but you're letting her get over you
821901
Hate to break it to you but you are an "after thought" to her....She came over cause she was "bored."  You are too special to be a replacement for whatever she has lost.  She lost you before, heck she walked away. You need to do the same.  I know from life that girls like that DON'T want guys that are always there.  They just use them.  Sorry for the tough answer but I am answering as if I was talking to my son, which I have done and he is now 23.
455516
If she left you because of this new boyfriend, then theres no point your pursuing her again beacuse she may not want you back after dumping you for him. If she loves him more than you, you are going to be disappointed in this one-sided love. Go out and mix around with friends and get them introduce you to other girls and start a new life without your ex. You both wont be happy in future knowing she had a past later on. So why waste your time and brood for her? Enjoy your yourself, man. She's not the only fish in the sea!
95675
the best way to get him or her back is to tell them u still have feeling for them if they dont want u back forget about him/her and go find somebody new to show them they cant have u down show them u can get somebody else
766848
She wanted to test the waters and now she's seen that what she had was better so she wants you back. You have to let her know that you aren't the "fall-back-on" guy. You have your own life and to be able to fully live that life, you need for her to leave you alone, you aren't interested.
439162
There is nothing you can do.  It was her decision and unless she changes her own mind she won't come back.  Sometimes you just have to accept that things are out of your control.  If you try to manipulate her into coming back it makes you seem immature and pathetic.
779211
Earning trust back is hard; it takes time.  But start of small, show her that you care and that you are indeed there for her.  Try to take her out, even if it's just as friends.  Don't try to get ANYTHING from her.  Make sure you don't hurt her again and make sure she knows that you won't.  Get her something special that will show that you are putting thought into her and how you really feel.  Take the time to call her daily, talk to her.  Even if it's just texting her to say "Hey, I just wanted to make sure you were okay."  It's okay to still tell her that you love her [if you do] But don't try to move onto her too fast.  Give her some time and let her realize what she wants.  But just make sure that she knows you care.
1152170
Try to talk to her. See why she left you. Try to negotiate with her. See if you can fix the problem. There is also relationship councilors. Visit them. I know you guys can work it out. Good Luck!
319519
Dude I just went through this same exact thing.  Your only missing her cause she was there for you and now theres no one.  I took her back after she tried the new guy, and two weeks later, she dumps me for other guy she just broke up with.  I wasnt hurt cause I knew it could happen so I didnt let myself get too involved.  But my advice, just move on, find someone new to love, there more fun, and you dont have to worry about her going back for the other guy.  She already left you once, dont let her walk all over you.  Hope this helps.