what does it mean if they get shy or nervous and sometimes refuse to answer when u ask her a question?
86337
It can mean several things, depending on the type of question you asked they could be uncomfortable talking about the subject, or it could mean that they like you and are just a bit bashful about things. It could also just mean that they are a shy person ;-)
1112666
She will get nervous, try to look interesting or look at you and turn around without any expression (she might get embarrassed). If you have any more questions contact me!
633696
If that doesn't happen so why don't you just go and ask them by yourself =D\n\nthey might be shy, you know.
45868
This can be taken two ways. 1. Either they are insecure due to previous experiences or personal doubts.  2.  Somewhere along the line that person has given them reasons to doubt.  Once you know that - you know how to deal with the problem.
777887
It's perfectly okay to be nervous. Sometimes we worry "Oh god, what will he say or think of me? What if he doesn't want to talk?!" Just breathe, relax, and tell yourself that if he didn't want to talk to you then you wouldn't be dating. He's interested in you, so go ahead and chat it up!
842227
Two words for you. Be YOURSELF. I totally understand how you feel when you say you're frantic because you're trying to keep someone interested, and I had the same problem. But, I've learned that when you feel something, or you want to say something, just do it...Once you break that barrier, it's smooth sailing. People are comfortable when they can just be themselves and when they can see that the other person is also being themself. Getting to know someone is more fulfilling when you "Just do it". A good way to strike up an interesting conversation is by asking her about herself. When you ask questions and she answers them, you can spot out things you both have in common. This is when the conversation gets more interesting and easy going. People need feedback from the 2nd party in order to keep productive conversation. Smothering your significant other would only make her want to go outside for fresh air. In other words, she'd eventually get tired of being smothered and if she doesn't tell you so, she doesn't want to hurt your feelings. She'll become distant and eventually, everything heads downhill. Tell her how you feel, and try not to overwhelm her physically with the smothering. She'll appreciate the fact that you can openly discuss your feelings with her because most guys are kinda personal about their emotions. Be open-minded.
585141
It could just mean that your shy, or it could mean you have Social Anxiety - the fear of being around a crowd of people, being nervous and feeling paranoid of the people around you.  I have that also.  You want to join in on convo and talk but you get so nervous thinking about what you're going to say that you can't think of anything to say.  You can't be yourself....there is medication for it but I'm not on it.   I try to get over it myself, and so far it's been ok.
270454
By realizing they are people too, and chances are that some of them are nervous or shy about talking to you.  It's okay to be shy, we like to open up surprises :)
562012
same reason girls are shy about asking a boy out - fear of rejection or embarrassment.
800825
Either she doesnt wish to appear to challenge your authority or territory, or is insecure about having to ask or deal with the problem she is asking you about.\n\nBut she appreciates it and maybe it took a lot of herself to have to ask it, how ever trivial it may seem to you.
461882
Shyness is the fear of rejection, rejection is better than not ever knowing, take it from someone with experience, rejection doesn't sting that bad after a few hundred of them, but it never stung as bad as not knowing. Just a little tip from your uncle Will...
968442
I think at times when people talk about feelings they kind of shy away from it cause of fear of getting hurt. You may have to just be patient with her for now. Good things do come to those who wait.
548877
i dont know that is a good question...cause i am shy around my boyfriend its like when we aint dating we can talk but when we are then we never talk...but that is something to think about.
103287
I think its maybe. Maybe It s a reaction to love. First reaction. Or maybe she dont want u understand her emotions and hide them with this actin...cause she shys...\n\nI think this answer is to optimistical..
954099
Usually being shy is an indicator of not being confident. When you find out someone is interested in you it naturally makes you feel as though they are observing you (no more hiding in the background). You have come to someones attention and they approve.....so far......now the pressure is on to not make any social mistakes so that they won't figure out you aren't who they thought you were.\n\nThat is my amateur psychology opinion anyway.
884695
Shyness and fear of rejection are there for a reason.\n\nNature is trying to stop you from being rejected.\n\nIf you think a woman might reject you, she almost certainly will.\n\nIf you ever meet a woman who you don't feel like that around, ask her.
753187
I think shy people tend to only talk when they are spoken to first.  They avoid eye contact, and probably look uncomfortable if they are in a situation where they don't know many people.  I'm extremely shy (around people I don't know), and I've been told that I come off "mean" and act like I'm "better than everyone else" when really, I just can't get the courage up to talk to anyone!