how are girls "first time"? is it painful?
81222
not a question at all!
459776
The first time is usually pretty uncomfortable, probably painful, mostly disappointing... \n\nbut after a bit of practice its great.\n\nJust don't expect it to be wonderful the first time and don't expect either of you to be good at it the first time. \n\nIts not magical like in the movies, its like most things, you need to have a bit of practice and work out what's good for you and whats not.
1048174
This all depends on the individual, the first sexual encounter will differ from woman to woman, there could be pain and bleeding, but there might not be. Best idea is to take it nice and slow. It may still hurt many times afterwards, as it does take awhile for the body to get used to the act. There is also a high chance of getting a yeast infection or bladder infection after the first sexual encounter. I would say the best idea would be to go to the doctors after and get a physical done. She should not be embarassed about her age and her virginity. I myself lost it when I was 21, it is nothing to be ashamed of. Losing your virginity is a very serious thing, not to be taken lightly.
638750
my first time was completely painless.  why?  cause the guy was tiny, i'm talking pinky finger.  so it wasn't a problem for me.  good luck!
673603
Yes some times physical and mental.  If you're a virgin than the first time it might hurt.  The guy should be attentive to this fact and go slow and easy.  And if u tell him it hurts he should stop.  But everything that is good will hurt some some time but not all the time.  U should be able to enjoy sex without hurt.  So girl if you're a virgin go easy.  And if not and u like it fast and hard I'm your man.  Either way I will help u.\nCHUCK\n:--# )
573312
They are probably very new at it and have no idea what to do.  Try a more experienced girl and I'll bet you will have a completely different experience.
1031658
i dont know... i haven't quite been there yet but...\n\nfirst up... before everything else, a HYMEN is a thin piece of covering on the entrance of the vagina. for most guys, thats thier standard for being a virgin if you have a hymen or not. how to tell? well... you BLEED the first time\n\nfor some girls... who have thick hymen.. yes, it does hurt. a lot. because... well... hello? the guy is tearing it up upon entering. and well... its thicker than most so you can REALLY feel the pain.\n\nfor normal girls, who have regular hymen... it tears up easy but you can still feel pain...\n\nsome girls... have hymen so thin, it broke while... horseback riding, biking, taking ballet classes, or any kind of extraneous sport. these kinds dont hurt. well probably just a teny tiny bit.\n\nand a few girls, are born without any hymen at all. \nthese dont hurt. \n\nso yeah, basically, unless your one of those special girls with no hymen, its gonna hurt the first time. hope i helped!
57347
it hurts some girls, and sometimes it doesn't.  Just depends on you and the guy.  It didn't hurt me at all, but the guy I gave it to was gentale, and took things slow.  I was well excited, and we agreed that if I said stop, or slower, he would...\n\nYou know the time is right, when it feels right for both of you.  it is fun and exciteing, but don't rush it, it is so much better, when you are both ready.
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Imagine asking a thousand boys about Doing It. We'd get three sets of answers on the subject of virgins... \n\n1. The "Thank God she's a virgin" answers:\n\n- She's never felt this way about anyone else. How special am I..?\n\n- If I'm rubbish in bed, she won't know the difference. There's no comparison.\n\n- I'll always be her Number One. Like her first day at school. She'll never forget.\n\n- I'm an explorer in unchartered territory - wa-hey!\n\n2. The "Thank God she's not a virgin" answers:\n\n- I can do without being The One - it's too much pressure.\n\n- Don't virgins bleed? Doesn't it hurt first time? I don't want to do that to anyone.\n\n- If she's not a virgin, she won't care that I'm not either. \n\n- She'll know what she's doing - wa-hey!\n\nBut I'd bet large sums of money on this: The biggest set of answers (by far) would be:\n\n3. The "Chuffed to bits whichever way" answers:\n\n- You? In bed? Bring it on! \n\nWhichever way, the past is ancient history. You stick to your guns. \n\nSo judging by the artical above either way a girl is either sexy or unsexy get me?
38111
Ok lets give a lession in size. There are women I REPEAT that can not handle a well endowed guy. It does hurt them if they never had a well endowed guy before. I can only imgine how much pain it must be for a virgin to take on a well endowed guy. I know from experance and I will explain this. I myself have had the women I have been with say they where glad they where not virgins because the pain would have been way too much. Women that have had children before are usally more able to handle a well endowed guy. For the women that I have been with they say they felt like they where being ripped apart after I had sex with them. But this goes away over time as the women adjusts to your size. I say this from experance.\n\nOk I am going to give you some tips to make this transition easier.\n\nI have had this problem once before with women who was used to a normal size guy. but was not used to my size. She will normaly experance pain the first few times till she gets used to your size. This is normal to experance pain at first. But you have to be very slow, extremly gental and extremly patient. This is the important part. Let her direct you, let her say when to go in alittle more, litte bit at a time and stop. I mean ALITTLE BIT! Don't go in without her direction. LISTEN that is the key. This will give her time to get used to it. Don't be suprised if in the process her eyes get as big as half dallors. If you see she is having pain stop. Let her direct you more when to go in further. Also once you are full in don't start going at it immedilty give her time to adjust to your size. This is a slow process of adjustment to your size. This is also a good time to be further intmate with her while she is getting used to your size. Do things like kissing, hugging and talk to each other. Remember it's not a mataton. This will also make her feel more confortable while giving her more time to adjust. Let her be your guilde. She will tell ya when ya can start. Ya can't rush things. It's about taking it SLOW and EASY at first. If it takes a 15, or 30 mins thats ok. Let her take her time.\n\nI not saying this just say it too to  brag, But I'm say it I am saying it from EXPERANCE I know I have been there. And just because a women is build to deliver a baby doesn't be mean she is build to handle any size. Like I said before Women that have giving viginal birth are more able to handle it. Like I said I know from my own experances with women. Because the last thing you want too is cause the woman ya love pain. Sex sould be a enjoyble expernace for both of you.
888181
hey. okay. i was 16 when i first tried a tampon and it didnt hurt just because i really really didnt want it to. i have to say that i wasnt a virgin when i used it for the first time. if you are a virgin, then putting in the tampon will rip your tissue ( cherry) so it might hurt a little bit. i really recommend the pearl in the Jr. or light size. they are very thin so it will be easier to get in. heres an easy position for you to try. put one leg on top of the toilet seat and then spread your legs ( bend your knees) this will open up that area so it wont be too tight and might help the tampon go in easier. good luck, its not an easy thing to do at first, so bring a few tampons in the bathroom with you, in case you dont get it on the first or second try.
957758
Let me start by saying 1. you should not be having sex with someone you are just talking to and 2. THANK YOU for using protection!!!! Most guys your age do not even think about all the consiquences that coem along with having unprotected sex.\n\nOk now to the real business.. your question.\n\nMost girls always experience some pain and discomfort when its there first time ( I know I did) soem will actualyl not enjoy it the first few times. It is up to you to get ehr to enjoy it. Here are a few things you can do that might help. ONE you must know that I am sure she is nervous, she peobably has no idea waht to do so this might make her even tighter and cause her to not get as wet.  Don't jump to the sex part right away. Have some foreplay kiss, rub, get her to the point where she tells you I she wants it. Then its all about patience!! Take your time, there is no rush. You need to be gentle and take it slow, let her knwo you wont hurt her tell her to tell you how she feels if it hurt slow down take it easy... also you can always use lubrication (that might help .. some KY jelly).  \n\nWell if you need any more help just email me.. I dont want to write a huge story here (because believe me if you let me I will..lol)
328555
every girl is different, and srry to tell that guy that answered he really can anwer that. It didnt hurt me and i have never heard a girl tell me that it hurt so bad she would never do it again.
150254
First off, don't presure her, reasure her. Take it slow, when you do eventually.....um do it. Condom, lots of lube, and ease it in. Don't ram it in and start pumping, just let her muscles relax around you. When she feels comfortable, then move, and just make sure to keep asking her if she's okay, and if it hurts her, stop, let her relax, and try again. Comunication is the key. It will hurt the first time, but that's a given, just try not to add to it. But let her know you'd like to try it, and tell her you'll be gentle. (and for the love of god, be gentle, a girls first time can be stressful and painful)
61425
Sex hurts when is the first time, but after that feels gooooddd, and it depends on the positions too but still good!!
363483
for some it does for others not. If your having sex with a girl for the first time, the most important thing to do is take your time entering her. Also make sure her pu$$y is really wet. cuz if it's not it may hurt you too.
700825
I loved her, respected her, and cared for her very much.  I was very, very gentle-and listened to her every wish during the event.  It was a little painful to her, to say the least...which made me feel bad, but she loved me also, and made me feel not so badly about it.  It's not really like having "sex"-that first time.