why is my friend neglected by her parents?
80276
What do you mean by neglected? Maybe your friend has brothers and/or sisters and she might just FEEL like she's being neglected, even though she's not. Or maybe she just feels neglected at the moment because her parents are busy?\n\nIf you are sure she's is actually being neglected, tell a trusted person about it.
115369
maybe she doesn't like you any more and has a new best friend far better than you. Just maybe. Or maybe her parents think/know that you are a bad influence on her. Or maybe she knows your a little pchyco.
956629
they may not forget, may be they are made to forget by their parents...! girls cant be as daring as boys na...!
545993
If I were you, I would comply and ask.  Just go over there and visit to start with.  Surely her parents aren't that strict that she can't have "friends" over.  The more they see of you I'm sure the more comfortable they will be.  Also from what you described, she appears to be the oldest.  Most parents are protective of their first born.  They will eventually have to cut the apron strings.  Be brave, if you don't step up and do this, someone else will.
598475
There r many things that it could be. Try sitting her down and talking 2 her. They tend not 2 listen if u don't sit them down. Try not 2 yell and be direct. Good luck
193197
I THINHK U HAV TRIED UR BEST . N UHAV PLAYED A FRNDS PART .NOW ALSO SHE`S NOT LISTNIN SO ITS BETTR U TELL HER PARENT S OR LEAVE HER MAY BE SHELL REALIZE HER MISTAKES ON HER OWN
110385
Without the parents support, good luck. \n\nThey really are doing her a disservice by not having her help out.  She is getting a misconception about how real life is as well as not gaining the confidence that being a capable, contributing member of a family brings.  \n\nIf you also live with them, a family meeting might be in order.  You might try spending more time with your niece and encouraging her, but she probably won't respond too well.  It's a tough situation because you love her and probably aren't liking her too much right now.  \n\nGood luck.
112960
Her parents should be strict. You should mind your own business. :)
131521
How lucky this young ladyis to have  you for a friend! She sounds as though she DOES have an eating disorder. She needs help and your responsibility is to tell her parents, her teachers, the school counselor and be supportive. These eating disorders are very difficult to treat and certainly out our expertise. She needs professional help NOW. You go tell adults that can give her that help and continue being her friend. You sound like a wonderful person!
180213
I know you really care about your friend, and that is very good.  I am afraid in this case, you probably should advise her as well as possible about STD's and the like.  In fact, rather than talk to her parents, I think you could educate her yourself.  Take her to Planned Parenthood, and let them really inform her about what she must do to be safe.  You can threaten to tell her parents if she doesn't--a little leverage.  I think, however, that is the best compromise.  She has free will, and must be allowed to both trust in you and make her own choices in life.  Because you care, it is your right to "stack the deck" in favor of safety by connecting her to sexually safe information from a place like Planned Parenthood--who, by the way, is COMPLETELY confidential.  She cannot say no.  So sneak her away for lunch and a session at PP.  Make it a fun day.  Call ahead and make an appointment.  In fact, it may be wise for you to consult them about your situation.  They have dealt with this 1000's of times, and can probably add great information to what I have already told you.  Good luck.  Being a good friend is sometimes hard, but a betrayal to her parents is something you will never get to change.  IF she screws up herself, it is not your responsibility.  Sometimes people only learn when things go wrong--sad, but true.  Be sure to follow up with what happens if  you decide to consult them!!!  :)
829307
Tell your parents.... They need to handle her, you shouldn't be expected to.
103023
You sound real young also.You need to understand that she looks up to you .And you need to be her little friend.And for your cell-phone if you show your parents that you can be trusted and responsible than you'll have a better shot.
1175001
Report to her parents.\n\nHow can you don't know your friend's address?  What kind of a friend are you anyways?  If only an online friends...so what there are others you will meet.
932675
Sorry to hear that, sweetie.  Maybe you should find another adult to talk to that will LISTEN to you and be there for you.  Parents sometimes get so self absorbed that they lose touch with their teens and think that the teen just wants independence and no longer needs guidance.  You really should point this out to your parents and let them know how you feel.  They just might not realize how much you truly need them.  Hope this gets better for ya!
349965
I definitally think you should call him! If he is having issues about him thinking that no one cares about him like his parents, maybe him knowing that you care regardless and someone that isnt soposed to care or isnt responcible to look after him cares or loves him enough to look in on him, might just make him see that regardless of what his parents are doing or not doing somone out there gives a shiznet about what happens to him and someone is out there to give a helping hand and give guidance when they dont have to do it, by all means stay in touch with this kid, if he really doesnt have his parents he can have you, i wouldnt pressure him to talk to you about everything but just let him know that you will always be there and you will always hear him out, no matter how lost or confused he is :) Dont be just one more person to turn their back to him, thats just going to make his situation worse ya know :) *HUGS* its awsome that you care!!!
962816
Don't ever ignore her, you need to speak with her face to face and tell her you are confused about the way you feel about her. Tell her you need time to sort out how you feel, and for the time being, you need to still remain friends. She should understand, the family thing about them ignoring you maybe you being paranoid, it happens. Be honest with her about everything and things should be fine.
153103
Forget the hyperbole about "can't live without her."  You really mean "don't want to," and that's different.  So what are the problems with her parents?  If they do not like you, or do not approve of you, can you find out the reasons, and try to reassure them that you are a good guy, and worthy of their daughter?  Or does she have trouble between her and her parents, and you fear being stuck in the middle?  Perhaps all that is needed here is time:  time for both of you to mature, time for her parents to get to know you and get used to the idea of the two of you being together, etc.  If there really is little reason to hope, then she may have to make a choice between you and her parents, and that's a very hard one to make.  Try not to pressure her.  Be patient and sweet.