How do you know it is over in a relationship?
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When you feel lonely when you are with them.
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Just because she asks for space doesn't mean its over, she just has to find peace with her insights about you. you should still call her and go see her and love her. maybe even going to see a marriage council may help. and yes they do offer help to engaged couples. to make her more at ease about you, invite her out with you and your friends and anything she needs to find peace. but still give her her space. If all else fails and problems seem to get worse, maybe it wasn't meant to be babe. all will work out in the end and good luck in your relationship, you deserve a good lady by your side!!! :P
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only you can say when enough is enough because it really depends on the kind of guy you're with... you should give up on love if: \n- you feel like he's only using you to get what he wants\n- he seems distant & cold & won't talk about it no matter how hard you're reaching out.\n- he's draining you emotionally, financially, physically & socially.\n\nit must not be love if:\n- you can't talk about anything \n- you resolve conflicts by kissing, making out or having sex only\n- you argue about everything & can't compromise\n- you're cheating
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Maybe the relationship is over. If he's always "busy" perhaps he's seeing someone else already. Perhaps you should just let it die.
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Truth is give it some time...i know how that feels you may feel like "this is it" "my relationship is over" but he'll come around....give him some time to vent....and when he's cooled down you'll know and then you two should sit down and have a civil conversation and explain to him what you meant and what upset him and talk about it...look at it as a learning experience.....how else would you know what your boyfriend likes and dislikes if arguments don't happen...good luck
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After he has ended it with his girlfriend.\n\nHave a heart.
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It's not a good sign.  You should have a heart to heart and put everything on the table.  If this is not the right relationship, it's time to move on before you invest any more time and energy into it.
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what about you?  what about what you want and need in the relationship.  Cut out the "physical relations", tell him what you need out of the relationship, and see how long he sticks around.  Then you'll have your answer
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you have to be your own judge on this, but  good rule to go by if it looks like a duck, walks like a duck, sounds like a duck and flies like a duck, then its a DUCK.Other words if she/he is seeing someone else ,then you can stick a fork in you , you are done.don't let a relationship with naother person get you down, i'm 52 and had relationships, that i thought i could not go on when they left me, butgive it time, in a few short days, weeks you say to yourself, i can't believe i wasted my time worrying about that person, i'm alot happier now with the one i'm with. hang in there
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At the point you realized that relationship was "bad".  The moment you admitted the truth to yourself, is a great time to end the relationship.  Only you know what is really happening in your relationships, so only you can decide when is the right point to end the relationship.
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well, you say you still love him, and thats really all that counts. but if you are afraid it has done something to your relationship, try talking it out first, and if that doesn't work, it could be the end.
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Trust your gut feeling. We women are blessed with a sense that allows us to know when something isn't how it's supposed to be. Talk to him and tell him how you feel. If he doesn't care about your feelings then get out of the relationship.
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Girlfriend, your like me caught up in the rapture of uncertainty. We want to leave but afraid deep down inside to make that move. Our insecurities allow us to not be more clear in our train of thoughts and we make sudden decisions without thinking them through. You are scared to let go but at some point you have to realize it is what it is, he is a cheater and he's possessive and somewhat controlling. You left and that was the first  step, now move on.\nMEN ARE LIKE A BUS ONE COMES EVERY 5 MINUTES YOU CAN RIDE THE BUS TO THE END OR DO AS YOU HAVE DONE GET OFF AND CATCH THE NEXT ONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Sorry, the relationship is done.\n\nSilent is not the best way to finish a relation, but it works.
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I dont think that its over. I think you want it to be over by giving up so easily. You have to persever babes. Nobody is gonna give you what you want on a silver platter. Shower her with gifts and affection. Give it a month or 3 weeks for the least. If nothing has changed then you should call it quits. By the way the longer you persever this chick will see that you are really into her.
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i think that me and my boyfriend may be breaking up today. i'm really nervous and not sure what to do.  don't call him, just let it all go. that'll be the easiest thing to do.
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When you are having thoughts that make you ask "is this marriage over?"\n\nSeriously, it's over when neither of you can remember the good times. When was the last time you had fun together? Do you remember the specifics?\n\nDo you remember the good times when you were dating? Specific things?