how do i know if my boyfriend truly loves me?
86639
if you have to ask then he doesnt. you should feel it when he walks into a room and as much as i hate to quote cher .... its in his kiss if he loves you and you cant feel it from a kiss you might as well bug'ger off cause its not worth wasting your time.
605551
You said yourself, he is YOUR boyfriend, he has, I understand, said that he is serious and that he loves you.\nWhy are you insecured?\nThere two points I want to mention here:\nTrust is the strongest feeling and if you are going to build a future together you must trust him and his feelings for you.\nAnd second, a woman just knows if her man loves her.\nCome on, believe in yourself more, you say you are a bit on the heavy side, well....this guy knew this and still he fell for you...didnt he? \nEnjoy this lovely time...your love...his love for you..dont go around seeing possible ghosts....\nHow would you feel if he asks you..do you really love me? are you really serious about us?\nBe happy mi girl...just be happy!
80073
Hmmmm.  I don't think how YOU feel is any indication of whether or not your man really loves you.  I think it's best to put your feelinging aside for a bit and take a look at how he treats you.\n\nDoes he respect your ideas, opinions, attitudes, feelings, and behaviors?  Does he support your values -- allowing you to follow your own system of beliefs?  Does he allow you to express yourself, and is he willing to work with you to reach compromises when the two of you disagree?\n\nDoes he know your weaknesses, good and bad, and allow you to be "less than perfect"?  Does he protect your weaknesses rather than criticise you or open you up to ridicule?\n\nDoes he treat you with gentleness and kindness and yet know when you are ready to break loose in a chicken fight or giggle fest?  \n\nDoes he share some of your most personal interests?  Does he share your goals?\n\nDoes he know you well enough to love you for you -- whoever you are and whatever you are living through right now, at this moment?\n\nDoes he say he loves you?\n\nIt's easy to mix up our feelings with someone and assume the other person feels the same as we do.  If there is any question, let some time pass.  It takes time to know someone well enough to know if there is love between you and not just chemistry.
438143
If you're not sure, you probably don't. I mean, you might like his company and have a comfort level with him that you could confuse with love. But when you're in love with someone, you know. It's not something you have to sit around and think about.\nSo, basically, no one can tell if you love your boyfriend, only your heart.
348220
you will know if hes your true love because he makes you feel so special when he looks at you or if he kisses you and you get chills if he treats his mom wiht respect and is nice to her thats the way hell treat you trust me its true and if your heart is telling you to say i love you then hes your true love goodluck
264224
I think you can see it in a person's eyes. You can also tell by their actions. As others have said actions speak louder then words. \n\nI know when I that I love my girl and that I am always trying to do things for her. She hasn't opened a door since we've been together. I get her little things just to surprise her. I assume your to young, but I even leave her a little note on her car about once or twice a month. \n\nI doubt there is really any ONE way to figure out if this boy loves you or not. But why worry about it? Enjoy the experience your getting. I am sure there will be more then just this one guy in your life. Life's a ride, so enjoy it... Ride on!!
625565
When he holds you and touches you, gentle and lovingly. When he does everything he can to make you feel comfort and joy. When he drops everything to make sure you are safe. Telling you he loves you is not enough, showing you is the best way that you can know for sure.
1108225
u will know when he makes u laugh & makes u look at life in a positive & good manner.  he will never raise his hands on u, truly loves u, respects, values yr opinion & be there for u.  he will communicate with u even when u guys have had a quarrel. remember it works both ways. u have to do the same not only him.  relationship is a two way thing.  hope this helps & all the best =)
154527
he probably does really love u if he is really ready to wait for u to say it. it might not be a month long stand. so just wait and say it when u mean it. i bet it will mean a lot more if u wait untill u mean it.
615654
Your real love will be the most precious gift for him.\nIf he really loves u.
58209
That's just it.  You don't.  You never do.  If you love him for who he is and he loves you for who you are, the best thing to do is take a chance and hope for the best.  It may not be perfect, but if you both truly love each other, it will work.  \n\nBut be careful.  Some people think that love is simply saying "i love you" or performing intimate acts.  It's not.  Its something that is much deeper, stronger.  \n\nThe only way to see if he is the one, is to take a chance and see what may come.  But don't start believeing "he is the one" going into it.  Learn for yourself if he is.
1058005
Has he told you that he loves you? If he has, then he is probably patiently waiting for you to express your love for him, so he really won't care how you do it, as long as you're authentic. If he hasn't then he's most likely too shy and is wondering how you feel about him...
382054
when he goes out of his way just to be with you and just to please you...when he compliments you in a sincere manner about your personality...when he is constantly present in every important occassion or activity in your life...when he cares for you, your family and even your pet..lastly, when he treats you like a princess..\n\n(3 or more of these scenario should be enough for you to know that he's serious...lucky girl!)
630428
definitely, in true love! & there's someone out there for everyone. you just have to believe. i've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now, and everyday, my love for him keeps growing. this is my second boyfriend. my first boyfriend was a jerk.
1166479
You just have to believe what your heart tells you to.My fiance' tells me he loves me every 5 minutes when we are together or on the phone.I believe him with my heart and so I would have to say if you think deep down that he really loves you then he probably does.
736411
You will just know hun :) I promise!  You will be able to tell by the way he looks at you and by the little things he will do for you that he doesn't "have to" do.  He will maybe put you before himself and think of you when you aren't around.  Men act a little goofy when they first fall in love...but thats why we love them back right :).  Good luck!
424759
Its better to ask him directly, you never know may be he loves you.