what do i answer when my pregnant wife asks me if she looked fatter?
86314
Tell her NO!!!!!  For the love of God, man -- tell her NO!! If she continues to prod you, tell her that you don't see her in terms of size, but that when you look at her, you see an aura about her that reminds you of what your love together has produced.  If that doesn't do the trick, and she doesn't beleive you, just wait a few minutes, till she wants taco-bell or something, then be all about getting it for her.  (That'll show her that you aren't concerned about her size.)  AND DON'T MAKE ANY COMMENTS ABOUT IT!!! -- Her doctor, and pain in the rear-end people (other women, your own mother perhaps) will make plenty of those kinds of comments, which you, in turn will hear about.  \n-WR
863164
Honestly, I don't think she was referring to you in any way, but just saying generally. She has already told you your weight is fine, after all she was the one who encouraged you to gain weight in the first place.\n\nShe probably was just being random. Are you quite sensitive about weight issues? HTH : )
804904
If all of her tests came out okay and her doctor isn't concerned about her weight you shouldn't be either.  The biggest risk is gestational diabetes.\n\nSome people can sail through pregnancies overweight and some can't.  There is no way to know.\n\nFor her overall health it would be best for her to lose the excess but only a doctor can advise her as to how to do it during pregnancy.  She wouldn't want to put the baby at risk.\n\nCongratulations!
603586
hmmm, delicate situation! tell her you love her (just lie!), but you can no longer bear to be with her because she makes you nauseated. if she does not understand, then she is a screwed up bitch. \nscarface is good, but to ensure she really hits the curb, tell her she is getting fat.
194370
"I would marry her as soon as she tuned down the attitude"\n\nDude, the woman is pregnant and not yet married, there is no turning down the attitude.  When did the attitude start? How long have you been engaged? \nIn any case, just try to be understanding.  Offer her help with things around the house, stay out of her way, but be there to help if asked.  Other than that, set a date for the wedding.
492766
Girl, get you a cute maternity outfit and let them know that you are about to become a mother, and despite looking like a sexy pregnant woman, you do not feel well.  Then I would grab me a plate of bbq (if you can hold it down) and clean my plate... mingle for about 10 minutes and excuse myself!  If someone thought that was rude... blame it on the hormones!  Good luck with everything!
856787
If a pregnant woman maintains a healthy diet, she will only gain whatever weight is necessary for the healthy development of her baby, therefore only her abdomen (and possibly breasts) seem to grow. However, for a woman who is just gaining weight and "getting fat," the weight does not necessarily stay designated to certain areas of her body.
94380
Just say the MAGIC WORDS:\n\nI THINK I'M PREGNANT...
92853
I'm sorry and I don't mean to be mean but your first qualification is that she's drop dead gorgeous yet you say that your 400 lbs which means that you obviously aren't that concerned about your own appearance. \nI would never want someone to judge me only on my appearance whether I was gorgeous or overweight.  That may be the reason you've been waiting for 42 years, time to change your priorities.
337066
Tell her that it is more important to be a healthy weight than to look a certain way.  If you wonder what a healthy weight is, then check out the nutrition data website.  You can enter your information about age, sex, height, and stuff like that, which then tells you what your healthy weight range is.
641277
i say let her wear it. when you hear a comment from someone go ahead and look at them and proudly say, "yea, that's my wife." be happy shes still hot and gets comments. the best i ever got was, "uhh, you ugly!" it still haunts me. lol. let her look good. and remember, whos the one who gets to take the dress off after the party? YOU! enjoy!
408133
Your wife should just call and ask her doctor.\n\nYou....\n\nYou are beautiful just the way you are. \n\nBeauty must be defined as what we are, or else the concept itself is our enemy.\n\nTo see beauty is simply to learn the private language of meaning which is anothers life - to recognize and relish what it is!\n\nWhy languish in the shadow of a standard we cannot personify, an ideal we cannot live?
573836
If someone asks you:\n\n"Why are you so fat?"\n\nYou reply:\n\n"It's because every time I shag your mum, she gives me a biscuit."
219464
you say;\n\n"momma, sit down honey, cuz  i got sumpin' ta say....\nI made a bad choice, and I left my good judgement at home, so now I have a baby on the way and  I need your help to deal with this' she may get mad, but let her. Just let her cool off and she will be your first line of defence.
568704
pregnant?\n\nkeep them elevated
543054
You have no way of knowing whether what she is saying is the truth, you'll just have to trust her.Need to realize in life, no matter how close you are to someone, you'll never really know what they're thinking, that's just the way life is. I don't think any of her "excess skin" ,as you put it, is from too much physical recreation. It's probably something genetic, and if it doesn't bother her{like in a painful, medical way} it shouldn't bother you. A couple things women pick up on quick is  jealousy and insecurity, and it's generally not perceived by them as positive traits. It sounds to me like you should have ONE long talk about this with her, and then drop it,'cause if you keep bringing it up, she's going to drop you.
128347
Just IGNORE it. Then in a few months say, "See I told you guys I wasnt pregnant, if I was, wouldn't I be SHOWING now?"\nBut more than likely, people will forget about it by then if you just ignore it.