I am a decent shy medical professional and need a girl for some discreet dating, please advice.?
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I'm not exactly sure where you're residing, but sometimes the local newspapers do provide a list of events happening in your area and the idea is just having the nerve to step out of your comfort zone to attend one of these events.  Even if it's just for a day.  Good Luck Doc!
945614
Slip her your phone number and ask her out. Don't be shy.
499008
Well... as a guy myself, I personally don't think that there's any great secret to getting a girlfriend or boyfriend. If shyness is a really bad problem for you then... just sit with some guys and join in their conversation a bit (btw go with your friends though). Seriously the guys probably won't mind.
770479
hey, my names john, im 16, i used to be exactly like you, until last year i had never even held a girls hand i was so shy, but some things have helped me get over it, send me an email at sox5d@yahoo.com and ill help you out, right now you are being offered one of the greatest gifts i've ever received, you'll be with so many more girls, reply if you're interested...\n(this isnt just about girls but about being the best possible person you can be)
93044
yea..ask if she is single first and get tha digits..that way u can get 2 know her..and then work from there
84608
For the shy male, start with the internet. This type of forum lends itself greatly to those who lack social skill. True personality decides how the relationship works. The level of safety depends on what you are willing to reveal about yourself. If someone is interested in you, you may have major keyboard time ahead of you. \n\nRelax and be yourself. People can sense when you have bad intentions or if you're not being genuine. Start off with friendly conversation. Don't force your way into someone's personal life. If they want to talk about it with you, they will.\n\nThink about what you have to offer in a relationship. People who can make people feel good about themselves have a better chance of maintaining a relationship.
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you could try it. i think it might be good idea. i want try it too. i am really shy in person.
643907
Privacy is the key word... dont embarass urself or her.. use a laid back aproach... such has asking her to go for an old fashioned date, such as a movie or a pizza or both... keep it simple and private in case it doesnt work out for one of you...aproach her with the simple guestion of *Hey, would you like to go to ______________, (fill in the blank) with me friday/saturday nite ? if she says no dont take it personally or make a big deal of it.. most times it is what happens after the guestion that makes the impact of rather you will look like an idiot or not...... good luck.........
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Dear I am a smart man of perfect personality and keenly need a sincere and fully discreet relationship with a woman of mature mind and body. Even I can predict that this relationship may also turn into marriage but after witnessing each other potential on bed and day to day life. Remember I am a serious person without any jokes. Also pl. keep in mind that I am not an expert on line chating. I will appreciate if you like to reply. I m of good body , fair complexion , educated with a personality which hopefully no woman may like to refuse but unfortunately I don't flirt so thats why no relationship. I even prefer if you may have one or two kids. Thats OK. Take Care.
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There's nothing wrong with being a little shy....some guys find it attractive.  But, if YOU don't like being shy, retrain yourself.  Start by making eye contact with strangers while your shopping.....add a smile....eventually a "hi, how are you?".  I know-it sounds simple and goofy...but it works.  Strangers aren't as threatening as people we know or like. It will still feel uncomfortable at first.....but what have you got to lose.  It also helps to have a few ready made questions for you meet people.  They could be school, family, or hobby related......you get the idea.  Good luck.  You'll be happy to know that confidence comes with age!
494132
You have to behave yourself and try not to be desperate! The right guy will come your way! Good luck!
896446
Exactly what you just did. Find a nice way to say it. Like maybe I am interested in someone else. And do not elaborate on it.You walk with your dignity as well as her keeping hers. Good luck. Post script. Question for you. What are you looking for on here? Be honest not only with yourself but to your friends online.
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I don't want to be mean but if you ask me, I would never go out with a semi-disabled guy. Beside being there one for another emotionally, in a couple sharing activities is the best way to be together. \nI'm a curious person, I always want to do new things, even extrem sports, I walk very fast and I can't imagine being with someone who would keep on slowing me down. I couldn't climb a mountain anymore because my friend can't do it and he will be lonely? No way. \nNo offense but you need a girl who would act as a nurse. You can find girl like that if you look hard enough. Every girl is different, you should find a girl like you, not too outgoing, who likes to talk more than you do, not very energetic and first of all a girl who loves for what you are. \nGet real and try to get better, go a doctor and fix your problem, get more self-confiance and take care of your inner and out look. You should stop looking at the bad parts of life and please don't be sad when someone tells you no.
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Practice strike up a conversation with girls you do not know but are not necessarily the most attractive to you. Watch them stumble that will help you released you are not alone, help them when they stumble this will help you gain confidence for your own game.\n\n Good luck man remember pretty women have the same problem as you, sometimes both sides are equally interested but both players are bad at the game and personal insecurities make each party feel that they are at fault and the conversation fizzles.\n\n Avoid these phrases at all cost:\n  Nice day today.\n  Man this place is busy\n Have you been hear before?\n  Are you here with friends\n   *** The problem with any conversation starter like the above is it is easily answered with one word. Give her something to work with.  It is way too hard to recover from a Yes and No conversation its mechanical, no way to find common interests.
566604
Right on bro! Girls are not objects and it's best to find the right one before you go all the way. Besides there are to many diseases out there.
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Throw your girlfriend out and focus on your business and career, there will always be girls for a latter date. Good Luck
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Jeff, you need to adjust your outlook. If you approach a woman thinking that they won't have you, then you're right... they won't have you. You have to look confident without being a cocky jerk. (But I doubt that will be your problem.)\n\nCheck into activities that don't cost much money -- classes through the Parks & Rec department, adult ed at the local high schools, group outings for hikes or other things you like to do, etc. If you don't have money even to participate in cheap activities, then it really will be difficult to meet a woman. \n\nFirst rule - to meet an interesting person, you have to BE an interesting person. Join a book club, take square dancing lessons, do volunteer work. Hospitals are always looking for volunteers, and most of them are women. Join a non-profit board. Volunteer for a political candidate. You'll meet much better women than what you'll find in prison.\n\nAnd stop being so desperate. Nothing turns off a woman faster than sensing that a guy is desperate. And even worse, no woman wants to feel like she is choosing a guy that nobody else wants. So drop that outlook right away. You may be scaring them off before they've had a chance to know you.