whic is better? sex before love or love before sex?
87000
love before sex- definately
840099
I have no idea. Personally I don't have a problem with sex before marriage as I would want to know what I was getting before I got married to a man for life. Not that sex is all a relationship is but I think it's an important part. I don't think you should sleep around indiscrimately regardless of being married or not though.
64839
TRUST HAS MY VOTE.  SEX IS SO MUCH MORE PERSONAL, AND SENSUAL WHEN YOU'RE W/ SOMEONE YOU TRUST AND HAVE A CONNECTION W/.
941723
FIRST PRE-MARITAL SEX IS IMMORAL !!!\n\nGET MARRIED FIRST !!!\n\nTHEN BE GENTLE WITH HER !!!
409031
I agree with that (with you that is).  Sex is the deepest kind of love that a man and a woman can experience together, and if you do it before marriage with one guy and you break up, who's to say you wont do it again with another guy.  That would take the love that sex with your life long partner is supposed to hold and ruin it.
436032
The reason for what men and women have sex is absolutely different. Fo men sex is just an activity that can help them to come out of stress, and rejuvinate. Whereas for women it is more initimate form of expression of love. Therefore women need commitment before they are having sex. for men sex is just sex and it can be totally devoid of any love or comittment. so man want to have sex before or after marriage. It does not really matter to them.
157359
No I do not believe in sex before marriage. I got married when I was 24 (a little more than a year ago) and that's when I lost my virginity, and I am damn proud of it.. no regrets, extremely happy about :o) People should try it out, it's not like they're NEVER going to have sex... besides, it's more special.
177348
The best thing is to wait until you're married. Okay, enough on the parent speech. The most importantthing about sex is to learn what makes your partner happy. It changes from person to person so its not about what you know, its more about what you're willing to do in conjunction with what your personal likes are.
993992
Most cultures have taboos regarding premarital sex.  Some have evolved from religious beliefs while others are merely a traditional more.  I think it is important for an individual to decide what role sex will play in their whole being.  If sex is just a rhythmic release of raging hormones and something to experience for pleasure then pre or post marital doesn't matter.  If however, a person views sex as the ultimate culmination of an evolving relationship between two people, then it takes on a more mysterious, almost religious aura...that special sex that binds a covenant between lovers should be reserved for marriage. Regardless of the level that sex plays in your life, it is imperative that you practice safe sex...not just to avoid an unwanted pregnancy, but rather to protect yourself from sexually transmitted diseases like HIV-AIDS, hepatitis, chlamydia, syphilis, gonorrhea , and herpes.
438767
of course it does! it just means that you're really up for love and not for lust... though sometimes your decision depends on your morals, but in my opinion, it's very much ok to marry a man first before having sex with him. since you're both legal to do it and if ever pregnancy issues come alaong you wouldn't be scared since marriage already took place. =)
944819
Neither one is 100% guaranteed, so if you are going to be having sex and don't want to get pregnant, it would be a good idea to use both!
278947
Yes of course. Why would you ever want to have sex with someone you didn't love? I have loved every woman I have ever been with. I think love without sex is much much better then sex without love. Hope you find what you are looking for either way.
738638
Definitely choice A!  Sex can be good and bad, like so many things in life.  If young people aren't prepared for it, it will end up being a bad thing.\n\nI often compare sex to fire.  Both are very good things that are necessary for survival, but only when one knows how to properly use them and take adequate precautions against any hazards.  Most of the hazards brought on by fire will never be faced by the majority of children.  This is probably because they are educated about it early in life ("Don't play with matches" "Stay away from the stove!" "Only YOU can prevent forest fires!"  "Stop, drop and roll." etc) and come to respect it.  And yet, when educating children about the dangers of fire, I have never heard someone say, "Hey...maybe we shouldn't teach them about this...they might get ideas and try to burn down the house."  The same principle should be applied to sex ed.  Who knows?  Maybe there would be less STDs and teen pregnancies if children were educated about it before they got the drive to have sex.  Too many are simply unprepared because people don't want to give them ideas.
668331
In my honest opinion it can be both. It depends on the persons involved, some only have sex for the sake of sex, while others prefer the emotional connection it brings. Sex in a commited relationship really is the best there is ddue to the connection that the two people have. When you can couple that with no fears or inhibitions you have an awesome potential for ecstasy.
1096772
sex is good when Love's involved that's why it's called "making love" sex without love is just an animal instinct.
1105676
Okay, you asked for opinions and here is mine. People who compare sex to making love are really defining their emotional feelings to a physical act.  \nSex is a physical act between two people. Making love is much more intimate and surrendering your emotions to your partner.\nIt like the difference between dining and eating. You eat when you are hungry. You dine when you prepare for a fine meal by putting some thought into what you want to have, how to have it cooked, what best goes with the meal from start to finish. Like an appetizer, dessert, etc.  Same principle....get it?
330976
Sex is not a hobby.What ever happened to being in love before you have sex.Sex is suppose to be beautiful between two people.I don't want to seem rude but cant you just stay with one partner.??