Hi, I’m a husband but also I love someone. She loves me too much until death. What I shall do?
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You are not death yet, so how can you be so sure ? lol\n\nBut who loves you more and which one is your real love ? Is there anything else in your life you value more than love (your marriage, finance, kids ...).\n\nThere are cases people sacrify love to keep other issue/es.\n\nThere are cases people give up everything else for a true love ...
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u r a brave man, There are many ways to commit suicide, but u have to decide, how u want to die. Peacefully or painfully.\nIf u die peacefully then u will suffer even after death, but if u suffer painfully u will rest in peace.\n\nsince 5 yrs ur in love, but still she doesnt have guts to come with u. May be there is some problem with u, u could not give her so much love, that she wants. she should have felt that if i miss him, i would be missing everything in my life.\nok , now lets come to the point.\n\nNever try to get her with help of sympathy, always talk bold, give wise solutions, let her choose. Say only one thing, what u do i accept it, but never take any decision, which seperates u from me.....................
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to have a long happy life with the person i love
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What you are feeling is perfectly normal. Just because you are married and love your husband does not mean you are dead. I am sure your husband is not perfect and neither is the other guy. It's like the new car smell, eventually it wears off as the car gets older.\n\nBe a friend to your friend and keep it that way. There is nothing wrong with feeling for someone that you like and admire. Just keep both of your families in focus and everthing should be okay.
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Oh HON,\nPlease don`t feel like that. I bet it would break her heart if she knew you felt like this. Please.. SHE loves YOU, Isn`t that enough?? She chose you. She could have chosen anybody else but, SHE CHOSE YOU. Don`t dishonor that by feeling this way. Hold your head up and be proud.. Don`t worry about other folks. \n\nDO they pay your house payment?\nDo they feed you all?\nDo they take care of you?\nAre they there when you need someone?\n\nDon`t worry about other people and what they think.. Just enjoy your life with your wife and count your blessings.. Be happy and don`t worry about this stuff..\n\nGood Luck and God Bless..{:-)\n\n<><
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I think I would perhaps check with your local online sites or perhaps one of the national dating sites.  \nIt must be really difficult knowing that the woman you love is incapacitated and can never come back to you, but I certainly understand the need to find companionship and love in spite of loving your wife.  \nI hope that her suffering and yours aren't too long lived and that you can find a measure of happiness.  And you really shouldn't pay attention to ignorant young people who criticize you without taking a moment to try to understand the position you're in.  \nGood luck and my prayers are with you.
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loving some one does mean you would do anything for them you love them as you would your brother or mother. The love for your partner  should be a completely different feeling a different kind of love! The kind that will drive you crazy if you lose that one person. Its like that person is your world, you feel when their mad, sad or hurt. You can't imagine being or doing with out that one person! That's being in love! Loving is similar but you know if that person is upset in any way you comfort but you don't make it a priority and you know they will live. You have accepted the fact that if this person leaves you for what ever reason that it will hurt but you will live! Their not, lets be honest, the world to you! you will do anything for them, and if something where to happen you'd be there but, you know your world won't end because of it! There's a big difference if you understand what I'm saying. It's hard to explain! Think of it this way between him and your hubby- Which would hurt/kill you more if one of them had to go??? the one you can't be with out is the one your in love with!
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Yes! it sounds to me like you two are definatly in love. and if she didn't give you a good enough reason, like "i met someone else or i want to explore my options" then i think she still loves you, it is just too painful for her to be apart for so long. so i think you need to talk to her. dont just go over there and pop the question right away. but talk to her, make her fall in love with you again and then tell her you need her and that you two need to spend the rest of you lives together...then... "will you marry me?"
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I feel for you...\nIf she is marrying someone else then there's nothin you can do except to let go of your guilt feelings and your love for her.  You don't have a choice but to move on or be miserable for the rest of your life.
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I tell my husband as often as I can, you never no where death lies and at least they'll know how much we love them. Keep telling your husband how much you love & care for him, he should feel like the only man on earth with the only sweetest woman on earth. You will have a long and happy marriage.
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Don't try to force it.  If she is going to love you then you should not have to do anything out of the ordinary.  Will you love yourself if you change yourself just to please someone else?\n\nSometimes people are not always on the same page.  The hardest thing in the world is acceptance.  You have to accept the situation for what it is.  That doesn't mean you stop loving her.  Just be patient. You don't want he to fall in love with a made up you stay the way you are.  Money and gifts can't buy love.  \n\nKnow your heart....
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Well, it's hard to know for sure. But if they love God before everything else, that's the best foundation to love someone else because it safeguards their loyalty to you. But ask yourself, \n\nDoes marriage mean until death do us part for this person?\nWill they care for me when I'm sick, even if it's for the rest of my life? \nWill they still love me even if we fight every day?\nWill they do things they absolutely hate to do (like women clean the toilets that their husbands have peed all over!) just because they love me?\nDo they love me even when I'm not around (respect me)? \nDo they want to make me happy before themselves?\n\nJust a start... :)
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Enjoy the time you have with her and make the next three months unforgettable!  You both need to accept the fact that she is dying and get past this as soon as possible.  Then all you need to do is enjoy each other as much as possible.  Always remember that knowing the situation, puts the two of you in a very unique position.  You don't ever have to say that you wished you would have said or done something when you had the chance.  You have that chance and that chance is now!!! Use it to your full advantage!
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Get married - if you are not a same sex couple - and live happily ever after.  My wife is still my best friend after 38 years.
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If you love him find a way to work this out  get counciling if necessary but stop the fighting.  Life is so very short and you have a lot less time to be together than you might think.  \n\nMy husband died 4 months ago and I regret ever moment spent angry and argueing I would give anything, do anything to be able to have an arguement with him.  If you love forget the rest and hold on to each other while you still have the chance.  You will not care one bit if you bowed down to him alive once that man dies and leaves you a brokenhearted widow.
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My husband and I were married for just short of 4 years and together for a total of 12 when he passed away. Having been widowed for just over a year, I feel that I am at least qualified to offer my opinion on this subject. \n\nI have just started to think about dating here in the last month. It is difficult to say the least and you do have a tendency feel as though you are cheating on your spouse. \n\nThat being said, you have to think about what your husband would have wanted for you...would he really want you to spend the rest of your life pining away for him? And should the shoe have been other foot, what would you have wanted for him? These questions we must ask ourselves. \n\nAll things come in good time and grief and grieving are no exception it can take years to heal or it can take months, alot depends upon the type of death, be it unexpected or terminal illness. \n\nComing from the perspective of terminal illness, I can honestly say that a lot of my grieving was done prior to the actual event taking place. That, however does not mean that I don't miss my husband, I do, daily. But, we had these conversations for over 2 years and I knew what he wanted me to do. He felt I was too young and vibrant to spend the rest of my life alone and made me promise that when I felt ready, I would seek out another relationship. And to me, that spoke volumes regarding the depth of his love for me.
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Her issues are not your concern anymore.  U already made your choice, u gave your vows to someone else.  Concentrate on your marriage instead.