If  exboyfriend calls me after we have broken up, does that mean he still has feelings for me?
84936
Most guys are clingy like that.. They still want that attention from you... He might or might not want you back... He's probably not fully over you because ifhe was, he wouldnt call u....
65531
Just means he still cares about you and doesn't want you do feel bad about your relationship ending. Depends on how long you were together and what ages you are. Did he love you? If so, love never goes away it just changes form. I would say leave the option of friendship with no pressure open. If you are meant to be together again it will happen.  If it isn't meant to be don't try to push the issue. Or just pick up the phone and say "Do you still love me?"
1066086
No it's not weird, it's him trying to be honest for a change, see most likely he still have some lingering feelings for you and, know that the break-up is still a little fresh, you know how they say, "It's like putting salt in a wound".\nYou to are not ready for a true friendship at this moment, at least not to were you two should be in a place that is not public, He is on his way to the service as well, so he is going through quite some emotion and need to talk to someone he feels is  able to understand him some what, and who could that be if not an ex-girlfriend.\nUnless the two of you are going out for coffee or to a group function maybe the phone is the safest place for you all to talk, because you don't want to get in a situation that will confuse your feelings for one another, like in up in bed and regret it the next day or end up trying to be b/f & g/f again for the wrong reasons.\nI hope this helps some, he is not trying to hurt you but trying to fix it so you to will be able to be real friends one day.
609074
I understand that you’ve broken up with him, though I guess you can still be a friend...as in friend....especially when he needs help.\n\nPlace yourself in his shoes. He's just another person with emotions and currently is looking for your support and help. Do help him though clearly underline that your support will not go beyond what’s called for in a friendship.\n\nYou can also tell you current BF of your intentions just so that he doesn’t build any wrong notions in his mind about your relationship with your EX.\n\nTake care.
937936
The only way he is going to know how you feel is if you tell him directly. If you do get back together, make sure that you work on the things that made you break up in the first place. I hope he feels the same way, but if he doesn't, I would move on. I hope everything works out well!
164142
question is...  what do u want from him now?  if u want to possibly start a romantic relationship w/ him then call him back.  but if u just want to be friends...  if he's not over u, then it would hurt him more for u to be makin ur way back into his life.
460029
Well, start by not stereotyping all guys because your ex does something. He's probably still just upset about the breakup, and is taking it out by saying bad things about you.
809120
it probably means that hes not happy, depressed, or just feels bad about the whole breaking up thing.... or he might just be shy around you now that you guys are broken up he might feel weird talking to you
142561
He probably feels reluctant about getting his feelings to involved, cause he thinks that you might patch things up with your ex,the best thing to do is let him know that you care and that you dont have time for silly games and that you want to to be in a meaningful realationship.
837380
Hum... hard question... he might be sincere, but i REALLy don't like the fact that he broke up with you and then called to say how sorry we was.... sounds like one of those guys who slaps you in the face then begs your pardon.... why did he broke up with you? how did he do it? only you know what to do, but i'd think twice if i were you... good luck!
908715
Call him and see where the two of you left of ask him if he still has the same feelings he had for you before you moved
558265
Perhaps he realizes that he's losing his control over you and you are interested in someone else.  Follow your heart, was the reason for the break up valid?  Is it still valid?  Was it silly and stupid?  If any of those apply then he is where he needs to be, a ex.   Guys are funny, they think that they don't want you, and don't, till they see you with someone else, like your life stops because you was with them.
881182
it means u should move on, since he already did.   sorry I have to break the news but blame your chick sh!t friend whom couldnt have the balls to tell u himself.
908769
It sounds like he's very hurt by not only the break up, but by your harsh actions of how you treated him after the relationship ended. He's seen you in a new light that was not good and now in turmoil over whether or not to get back with you. Best thing to do now would be to back off to give him time and space to figure things out. By you constantly calling and asking him what's he going to do is probably just making matters worse. Let him have his time to think about things and so he can make his decision.
898676
So you broke up.  Then he started missing you and wanted to get back together.  Now he wants allot of it, and you're not sure if he just wants it or really cares about you.  Is that about it?\n\nWell, one way to tell is to give him as much as he can handle, and then see how he reacts.  Once he's satisfied, and he still wants to be around you, then it's easy to tell he really cares about you.  Otherwise, he's doing what guys refer to as a 'booty call.'\n\nAnd if the idea of giving him allot just doesn't make you comfortable, then that's your voice of reason trying to shout through the fog of love, that you already know he's just making a booty call and doesn't really care about you.  Trust your instincts.  There was a  reason why you two broke up in the first place.  ;)
479243
Ask him, but what does it matter if he likes you or not, you already said that he doesn't want to get back together so why do you care if he still likes you? GET OVER HIM!!!
527247
It is natural to have feeling for the EX, just remember, there is a reason he's called EX, and you are the only one that really knows the reason for that, so as you began to get these warm feelings inside for the EX also remember what usually would happen after that warm thought would come remember the reality of why you made him an EX and EX-ommunicate your thoughts for even going in that direction, okay, Sista Girl.  Remember, you want your PRESENT to work out, so please, leave the EX, as an EX. He had your PAST, DON'T let him have your FUTURE.  PEACE.*