Is it bad to go to a bar or club by yourself to meet single women??
97860
I don´t really think it is bad, but maybe you shouldn´t only focus on bars to hook up  with sby , single girls are everywhere and you never know when you can meet one. bars are not only filled with singles and it has some cons such as one night stands, girls/guys who are drunk enough like not to even remember your face nxt day...join clubs get a dog and take him out on walks, go to parties even if they´re the familiar kind maybe a cousin or a friend of your friends have invited someone who can be for you.. btw internet can be good too but has some cons like everything on this world, personally I was lucky and I met my best half online and now we are happily married!
407372
Well I enjoy going to strip clubs with a group of friends.  We go and socialize and drink, it is just a cooler atmosphere than a normal bar.  I think guys that go by themselves are losers.
601138
I was in the same situation not long ago.  I went out with friends or sometimes by myself to the local Lounge to listen to the band.  Men will usually buy you drinks and ask you to dance.  Don't try and look for someone, just go out to have fun.  Love will find you
126781
Single life is awesome, but after a while you just want to find someone...I go on dates atleast once a week!
1066849
The main thing you have to do is to get out of the house, and go where there are lots of people. Many will be single, and in your city, there should be clubs, and other organizations for single people. I love to go to outdoor concerts myself, and meet tons of singles there. Good men are often at the ball parks, libraries, and other men-type activities. Smile a lot, and dress nicely. Don't be afraid to look, and flirt a little. Use what you've got! Good Luck!!
420772
Definitely! It used to be considered the best place to meet other singles--until single people started insisting on inviting a date. Too bad, because they missed a great opportunity to meet others in a fun, safe environment.
78950
If I absolutely knew, I would be there myself! But seriously, you have to go where they are going, which is anywhere and everywhere. But what I know is that bars and clubs are quickly becoming the places NOT to meet women. Some good choices may be:\n\nAt Work (though this is chancy depending on the type of environment you work in)\nSubway/Bus (I am in NYC)\nDuring Lunch at restaurant/diner\nBookstores\nSupermarkets\nCoffee Shops\nGym (though this is becoming a bad place also)\nOrganizations/Affiliations\nGroup/Charity/Hobby Group Meetings
204823
It really depends on the culture of the place.  In my country (Philippines), people go to bars in packs because they're there to meet up with friends they already know.  If you go alone, you certainly want to be picked up and that's now how we meet decent people here.  \n\nSo check out the culture first. I'm pretty sure, it's okay to go alone.
1116729
I am a single mom and have bascially been single, minus a few not-so-serious relationships, now for seven years. I've gone through periods when I've seriously been looking for someone to settle down with and  times when I've been desperately lonely but hadn't the energy to try again. \n\nThe one thing I HAVE learned over the past few years of dating and not dating, is not to ever settle for less than what you deserve. It may mean that you may go through years of being alone but I truly believe it is much better to be alone than with someone who is not right for you. \n\nDepending on your situation, I think the possiblities of where and how to meet a potential boyfriend are endless. Start spending time on yourself. Go places that interest you.....put yourself out there.......everywhere, with and without your child(ren). Chances are that if you meet this person at a museum or maybe a through other family members, other than the bar scene, you'll have more in common. \n\nDon't  dwell on the fact that you're single; sometimes it shows and you may look a little desperate and then definately will attract the wrong type of guy who could possibly be an oportunist looking for his next prey. When you start doing more just for you and your family you WILL start to feel better about yourself and your situation. It is this positivity that most definately attract the right type of people and soon enough you will realize that being alone isn't a curse and THAT"S when Mr Right is bound to step in and like you for who you are.
937868
The best place to meet women is through association of friends. Why? if a young womans friends are cool to her, then obviously you must be cool enough to at least speak to. You can find these women at partys or other social events that your friends or friends friends may have. Honestly though, you can meet a woman at any place and at any time. Location doesnt mean a damn thing. One thing you can look at is the places you visit on a regualr basis. Like the store, dry cleaners, church, the park or gym where you exercise, school, etc. These places are loaded with women and if there is a woman you admire in one of these places go for it. Hopefully that should get you started.
1057129
try your nearest library or bookstore if you like to read too, and just plainly start up a conversation that makes sense to the one person that grabs your attention. or similarly, wherever you like to hang out. That's what a guyd would do, and if you think that is courageous, pls, you are already a single mom, what could be more courageous already! think about it, you are strong woman and can do this on your own too if you had to, just be selective and go sensible about it. rejection is no big deal, not interested is no big deal, chance to make "just friends" a real plus, chance to find that good man, well hey, that's BINGO
275390
why dont u find yourself first.  i mean, dont u just sit there and expect that a girl from heaven will fall in front of u.  give yourself a time to have fun.  most professionals are too busy to collect money.  that's not how it is.  yeah u are right...being alone is boring.  why dont u go out once in awhile.  but hey, 29 is not old.  dont rush buddy.  dont expect that love will find u if u are hiding.
174762
Yes in deed.... You are focused on the negatives here... Lots of people work nights so that I don't think is the problem.  Get involved in a group in your town of some kind or volunteer.  Quit looking for love, it will find you!  When you least expect it and at the place you would never look.  Get up and get going time is a wasting... Write down a list of all the things  you like to do and start from that as far as find people to socialize with.  Also if you go to church look in your sunday school dept.  Remember women lead  you to women!   So get moving!  wont be long  till your question will be " I don't have enough time for all my friends and work, what do I do?
611596
That is a hard time for you. Been there, 3 times\n1/ list things you like doing, or are interested in\n2/ look up clubs and groups that do these things, \n3/ if you have at least 1 friend that you can persuade to go to any/all of them, go.\nif not, go yourself, you don't have to stay if uncomfortable, remember, some of the people there possibly went for the same reason you did.\nGive it time, Parents Without Partners are good places for your age group. There are others, look up the net\ngood luck.
1135648
Ask your friends if they know of someone who is single. You need to be out in order to meet someone,but it doesn't mean the bar scene. Music in the park? (if you have them where you live) Social events.Good luck.
289393
If you have a chronic problem finding girlfriends, try lowering your standards.  I also find when I'm at a bar, I do a little better if I'm a bit drunnk, but not too drunk
821983
I guess it is you the one that can help you out. \nI have the same "problem" but I don't see it as a problem. Better off alone than in bad company.\nDon't you know girls at job? at the bar? where you go? Try to start a nice chat.\nI am a loner so for me is difficult to start a conversation with someone I don't know, but if I wouldn't like the way my life was going I would try to do those things, and try to be more social. I guess.