How can you be in love with someone you dislike?  Great morals, etc... but never on the same page with humor?
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It does not sound like you are in love. Just because you have the same morals and great sex does not make it love. One of the best things about marriage is laughing and if you don't have that, you can't make it. It sounds like you are in for a very dull and unhappy life sweetie, I hope you can find a way out.
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That collides.\n\nIts like positive charges meets negative charges. Not a really good mix. It may go so really pointless at the end and you probably just wasting your time.\n\nBut if you still hate him/her, but at the same time, you still love him/her, then that could be a true love or you are made for each other. God Knows.
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There is a fine line between love and hate and only someone who has felt both emotions could ever begin to understand. You can love someone so much that you hate them and hate them so much you love them...Both emotions are raw and passionate, hence the connection.
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I cannot hate people, but I do hate some of things people do..especially to each other.  It is so much easier to love.  Hate burns a lot of energy.
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I think you can be drawn to them, but honestly you can't love someone without knowing them.  You just love the idea you have of them.
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Wow this is like the question i wanted to ask people......\nBut for me it is love.Bcoz i once heard that if a person really likes another person (with all of his Heart)....He may take it seriously and he is in love...No matter what happens\n\nBut he has to watch out whether the other person is not fooling him and taking him as Joke or somthing..
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How can a person with a good sense of humor be irritated?\n\n Most of us are here to learn tolerance through fun, right?
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Some people like having ultimate control over another and you can change everything about that by simply not being vulnerable to it. Tell him you are human and you don't want a romance between you two to become a burden. Let him know you will have your friends and if he dislikes one or all of them, he doesn't have to deal with them...but that you are to also be trusted. \n\nSounds like a lot of tension on his part too, sometimes being the best thing that ever happened to someone is scary.. but you have to learn to stand up and fight back against things that bother you. If he truly loves you, you can never really mess it up unless you're being unfaithful or cruel to him in some way. If you are innocent, I say you do what you want and help him get over it as well.
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Interesting, you should have mixed feelings. Of course you are going to feel terrible but his comments to you should make you feel a bit better. Some people live in dark when they are infatuated with someone.
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Its one of the great mysteries of life - sometimes, we just arent attracted to ppl I think! I know exactly what you mean - a little while ago this guy liked me, and was awesome, really smart, really cute, really funny and a very good friend. I loved him so much, but I just didnt want to be with him romantically. I got really angry at myself at first, because I felt as though I SHOULD love him, but I just didnt. Dont know why. BUt I DO know that you cant force yourself to feel for someone - no matter who great they are. You need to let it be natural, and one day I bet someone you least expect will be the person you feel for most!
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Hmm.. I think it takes alot of maturity to realize when something is  "love" or  infatuation. I can see  by some of these responses" it happens daily" (thundergirll) that you have not matured as much as you need to. Let me clarify, age has alot to do with this, but even older people can be misled with love. You have to think about what makes you think you "love" this person. Is it the way he smells, walks, talks,breathes? Hmm , sounds like infatuation. There are no quizzes or anything to take to find out if you " love" someone. Love to me has alot to do with sacrificing. Are you willing to sacrifice things for the one you love? Do you really care about this person, and will be there for them no matter what? Do you really appreciate them for who they are and what they stand for? Love has alot more to do with the interior of a person. Think about these things,and see if you feel this way.You need to get to know the person, their likes, dislikes, their secrets, be each others friend. That always works!
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Most difficult question in the world !!\n" I love him but she loves other " ???????\nHIm or Her ??? \nChoose the right word !!!!
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First thing I ask myself... Is he fake? There are a lot of people who put on acts, trying to be someone that this particular person expects of them. Then they lose who they really are. So being real, and always yourself, is most important. That takes care of honesty too.\nAlso I do like a person with a sense of humor. Someone who likes to share thoughts, and be a best friend to their partner. Of course there has to be attraction. :)
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Firstly, you can learn why they are unlovable, what has life thrown at them to make them the way they are. You can imagine what they use to be like before this. \nIf you cant learn to love them, then you can at least start with empathy.
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Cheat in love?\n\nIt's own lack of honesty with himself. If he can't love himself, how can we love ourselfs?
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You think all the time for him/her. You cannot find even one bad characteristics in him/her... And you even ask yahoo! answers to find out are you in love :)
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Top 5 loves:\n* any good media - music, movies, books, etc...listening and sharing/promoting - too many to list. if you have time: www.myspace.com/altoidninja\n* my cat, azsha\n* laughing (both the act of and causing it)\n* any stimuli that evokes a heartfelt memory\n* family & closest genuine friends\n\nTop 5 dislikes (hate is too strong a word & not opposite of love):\n* dishonesty\n* not admitting fault\n* narrow-mindedness\n* selfishness\n* in a nutshell, "Fed-Ex", the hubby formerly known as "K-Fed"...HA! (remember laughter as one of my loves)\n\nCheers!