What to do when a women says "Lets stay friends"???
79074
Wait till she calls you, rather than you call her. I've used this line a lot, and I almost never mean it. If she really meant it, she would've said it differently and more sincerely. But really, this is just something that she probably totally doesn't mean, and is just saying to take the guilt off.
461790
Go with your gut feelings.   Woman are very intuitive and if it feels right, go for it.   Who knows, that spark may still be there.   If nothing else, you can always be friends.   People change, but if there is still a connection between you, it won't matter.  Best of luck, :)
16454
find out the things she likes, spend time w/ her. Be interested in the things she likes to do,(or at least pretend) Ask her if she would like to be more than friends, if she says yes, then go for it. If she says no, at least you still have your friendship.
351561
i think you should let her know how you feel about her.\n\ni think it would be much easier to tell her this in person  so i would just ask her to take some time aside on a day and try to go out somewhere where you can talk dinner/coffee/park but somewhere commercial not too busy tho where there isn't eery silence or awkward feelings for reactions to a conversation like that \n\nbye what u have stated it doesn't seem as if she shares the same feelings with you  but i would not know since i dont know her\n\nbut be cautious  because if in fact that she doesn't feel the same way as you do about each other you might be faced with the problem of just wanting to stay friends \n\nbut also don't obsess or show obsession over the situation because that can push someone away and make them feel uncomfortable around you
505672
Dude, hang in there. Women have a habit of changing their minds about once a week. So stay as charming and bright as possible with her, just joke around with her and be her friend, and dont pressure her or ask her if she likes you. Trust me, just cause she told your friend this does not mean too much, go with the flow.
743374
Ask her out on a date.  If she says not right now or we could hang as friends she's not interested in being anything more than friends with you.  If she accepts she's interested.  Sometimes women flirt with men they just want to be friends with just to get attention.
607049
She needs a break and she is about to say "Let's be friends".  It is usually a bad sign.  She may love you, but the real question is if she is IN love with you.  Ask her.
187194
ermm ... just slightly hint to her that you want to be friends and device a plan so she comes to see your question over here . make sure that she KNOWS that this question is about her .
443293
I'd be nice but firm.  Tell her you enjoy her friendship and would like to continue it, but that the relationship is over and that you would like to meet other girls.  Maybe she doesn't realize she's doing this.  If she still has feelings for you, it's gonna hurt no matter how you say it, but eventually, if she's mature enough, she'll get over it and you can restart the friendship.  Good luck!
423711
Personally, I believe that I would try the honest approach. It is my personal experience that women respond to a man who is open, honest and DIRECT. Don't beat around the bush about it, because your time with her is apparently limited. If that is the case, you have nothing to lose and everything to gain.\n\nWho knows, maybe she feels the same way about you but is having problems telling you as well. Look her DIRECTLY in the eye and tell her that your time together has been wonderful and you have connected with her in a way you never thought imaginable with another woman. Tell her that your friendship together means the world to you and it has grown into a deep respect and you hope she feels the same towards you.\n\nI understand what you are going through. I have been there and bought that tee shirt. Good Luck and I hope it works out.
273700
Be Polite. Say something like. ' you are a gret friend but sometimes you get on my neres can you try not to" I think after she realizes she will try her best not to get on your nerves
359284
she's playing the game... give it some time, be there and just let her know you'll be there as a friend(for now! but don't tell her that part) then after a couple months tell her if she does not take to the next level you have to stop seeing her as a friend, "it's to hard" she'll come running right to you! promise! i played the same game and that's how my husband got me, 10 yrs ago!
1055185
I would ask her to stay friends, and if you like(more then a friend) to this friend, go out w/ them. Don't let someone that doesn't really like you mess up a possible relationship that would be better than the one that you are about to get in. trust me, messed up my friendship caused the same thing happened to me!
991317
I think that she wants a long-term relationship. She can't make her mind about you cause she isn't sure if you're wanting or ready for a serious relationship. She's pretty sure that if things aren't going well between you two that it's going to be hard to be friends again. Talk to her. Ask her what she wants, what she feels about you....
598188
just show your sincerity in wanting to have her as a friend.. that's the best start
793929
It is a good possibility that she is hinting at you. Maybe you should suggest that even though you agreed to remain friends you should try dating anyway.\n\nSometimes once an idea is in your head it plants the seed. Perhaps that seed is there for her and she just needs your help to germinate it.\n\nTake care,\nTroy
741643
INSTEAD OF TELLING HER TO LEAVE YOU ALNE, WHY DONT YOU TRY TO BECOME HER FRIEND? SHE MIGHT NEED ONE. JUST LIKE YOU NEEED SOME ONE TO GIVE YOU THIS ADVICE.