Ladies, how would you feel if a man says he wants to be you but he also wants to be with other women?
98011
I would tell him that I'm not up for such an open relationship, and that if he wasn't ready to be with me exclusively, then we couldn't be together. That would be the end of that relationship. Sorry guys but I'm not about to give you permission to practically cheat on me.
874913
Yes, if the guy is attractive and sexy enough. I probably see a guy about once a month or so that makes me feel this way (don't know how often guys feel this way about women - is it like every day or something???)
704648
What really matters in all this is you're feeling insecure and that's an awful place to be.\n\nWhen you're the other woman you will always wonder if/when it's going to happen to you.\n\nI think if he did it to her...he'll do it to you...why wait around to see when it'll happen.
442792
just explain that you do not want to be the other woman. you love him and want to be with him and for him to be only yours.
1085031
est relationships are partnerships of two.  Heck, it's hard at times to make a relationship between two people work.  Adding another person (in whatever aspect) will complicate things.  It's your call I guess, but actions have consequences. I say no if you really value what you and your man has.  You might be ok with it and he might be ok with it, but what about that other woman.  Usually when people try threesomes, somebody usually ends out in the cold….  And things get unpleasant.
67701
You should know if you are. Ask yourself if you are developing feelings for other men,if you are then you certainly are. If you are not, you'll get over this feminish phase.
286462
PERHAPS HE CARES FOR YOU SO DEEPLY,HE FEELS YOU MIGHT GET "CONVERTED" OR "CORRUPTED" BY THEIR LIFESTYLE...OF COURSE,YOU HAVE A MIND OF YOUR OWN AND THE WILL TO CHOOSE WHAT YOU DO...MAYBE HE IS SIMPLY UNCOMFORTABLE WITH THE THOUGHT OF OTHER WOMEN EYEING YOU--AND LOOKING YOU UP AND DOWN. IN ANOTHER WAY,HE'S SAYING,"YOU ARE SO PRETTY--THEY MIGHT TRY TO MOLEST YOU!" TAKE THAT FOR WHAT IT'S WORTH, OH DIVINE MISTRESS....
888192
But...but...but...why would you want someone like that?  Once he's with you, he might still be attracted to those "taken women" still?!  Please reassess....you might be just heading for a lot of frustration and heart ache!
1146923
I think every woman can look at another woman thinking wow she looks nice. ( I like her hair, body, bootie, whatever.) I have no problem saying to my husband damn that girl is cute. Although I know when it comes to intimacy I want to be with a man. \nSo just ask yourself if you are just admiring other woman? Or do you think you would prefer to be intimate with one rather than a man? In your heart you should know... Be proud of who you are! :)
2484
Personally, I would say no.  He sounds like he does not know what he wants, or worse, like he was waiting to see what would happen with her before he moved on to you.  And you should never accept being someone's second choice.
937417
Well if he said that, I do not know why you are with him anymore. I do understand what he does say though. I do not think that anyone would ever say anything like that. I think that is something that happens all the time with guys and life. It always is the way, guys want what they can not or do not have. I would really rethink being with him if he is telling you about thinking about other girls.
20887
Ask her if she would feel more comfortable having a 3rd GUY there, instead of your fantasy of having another woman.  She just might say yes!
84625
I want my man to treat me with respect and courtesy.  I want my man to love and care about me the way the I would care and love him.  I want my man to do for me all the things that I would do for him and I would just want to have a 50/50 relationship for give and take.  No relationship is perfect and no man or woman is perfect but I would expect my man to take me with all my flaws and all my good things as I would do the same.
381227
As a guy, I know that I want to be the one to give my wife what she wants. I don't want to be nagged, or reminded of how I messed up and didn't give her what she needed. (not to say you are doing this, but some women do) I think you need to back off. Let him miss you a little. Start doing things you enjoy with friends, or by yourself. Let him want to join your club. Or do something hot and freaky, and keep him coming back for more. Either way this should open things up.
36047
If you love your wife the way you should, you wouldn't want this. Why would you want to make love with another woman or watch you wife make love to another woman. I asked my husband whats your ultimate fantasy, I expected it to be this and when he told me what it was I questioned him on why it wasnt this threesome thing... he said I love you and you are mine I want no one else and I want no one else to have or experience you, why would I want to see anyone else with you in that way loving you the way I do." These were his exact words. He is a great Man and only a man could feel that way. I think you need to grow up there are other ways to put a spark in your marriage than to bring in another woman or man. As for me, I will fulfill the fantasy he asked for and thank my God above that it wasnt one like this.
356271
Im sure he would be very open to the idea of you having amorous encounters with other women. It would probably be arousing to him. Kill two birds with one stone.
837276
no one can be talking for him. so i don't think she is putting those words into his mouth. i have dated guys that were separated and i had nothing to do with their relationships with their wives. just because he slept with someone does not mean that he is moving on for her. it was probably just sex. my guess is that he really does want to move. regardless of the other woman.