Why is thee a double standard for girls and guys when it comes to sex?
96993
Well, it is easy: If you look at the statistics, most women at the age of, say 25 have had more different sexpartners of the opposite sex then most men of the same age... so they have more experience and - if You look at it from a male perspective in a way most males think - are BETTER then the males when it comes to sex... so men have to find a way to "win the competition" after all and got used to bragging about their experiences... and making the women feel bad about theirs...
541089
Because sex is a part of life. It is very pleasurable, exciting, and fun. People want to talk about it and ask questions to make their sex lives even better.
131376
That is a generalization! \n\nI happen to be a man and I find it offensive to assume that all men are just wanting sex from a girl! I met my girlfriend on a blind date and when I saw her I did not want sex from her...but, in all honesty, I did want money from her.
492141
Not many young people do understand it perfectly my friend. Many children have a lot of stigma attached and as they grow up they consider girls good only for having sex with.
305937
It is a doubble standard and not fair.\n\nThey expect you to think of them as whole people and enguage them as such, but they feel completly comfortable viewing, and treating you as nothing more than a sex obsessed horn dog.\n\nIt's not fair, but that is way it is.\n\nLearn to be confident - look down on them, and make them look upto you.
788576
Great question. \nI have pondered this question many times as a woman. Its a double standard. Women it seems do not have sexual freedom among many other freedoms. \nI happen to love sex and sometimes this standard bothers me. Who is someone else to judge me? Its none of their buisness what I do in the bedroom as far as they are concerned.\nThe way I deal with it is that I am an Adult and I do what I want to do. They dont pay my bills? sex makes me feel go and I feel that I deserve the pleasure that is my human right, what God gave me and deserve the same respect as men.\nOf course there is need for protection in this day and age.\nI usually keep my sexual life private and dont talk to anyone about it- thats what society has done to me. Women hate sluts I guess because they have it ingrained in their head from society that sleeping around is wrong. I dont sleep around, I am respectful to myself...but if I find myself in the heat of passion and it feels right I will do it because it feels good.\nMen..humm I dont know why they judge if they were raised to believe that sex is okay and good. They even get praised for it.\nI think women should do what they want and not care about someone else's opinion.
690164
I can tell you why. Its because of alot of things. 1. our magazines promote this heavily. I mean, alot of girls read these magazines when they are young, and therefore think sex is appropriate and cool.. 2. TV. I mean look at all the shows on now? its all based around sex and dating. Its not cool.. once again kids then think its cool and appropriate to do. 3. To be honest, even things like 'yahoo! answers- because i mean.. have you seen some of the questions that have been asked in this site?? Some people can be so gross and kids will think this is cool. so, because of things like this, kids get obsessed.. and lets not forget that they are who will take over our society next (know what I mean) and this is why our society is sex driven.
479016
I think you know the wrong chicks, not all girls do that, its like saying all men cum to quickly? or ALL men care about is one thing: sex? makes sense huh? it did to me lol, anyway NOT all chicks are the same we all have our differences which make us all unique from each other, U need to find some decent chicks fast, NO woman should use her sex appeal to get what she wants, i get what i want by using honesty, i enjoy sex with my partner, as he does with me, to much to even try and think about with holding
244824
That's a pretty sexist question... I mean the young girls are doing it with young boys, so why not address that as well??? Try not to have such a double standard...
973734
It is a social flaw.  Men believe that it is OK to be with many women, while women feel ahamed to say how many men that they have been with.
937694
You are so right.  I hate to see girls answer questions about problems us guys have with our equipment.  I think most are trying to be funny or trying to get 2 points.  As far as your worrying about sex, just forget about everything and have fun with it because that is what it was made for.  We all have certain times when things don't work like you want them to work, but they usually are far and few so relax my friend, and enjoy!
652669
No, not at all...and if you do, then you are setting a double standard (if your a guy) and if you are a girl, don't worry about it...
242999
Because most women like to think that they are complicated and not s1uts.  When in reality, men and women are just about the same.  Men just don't put up false fronts to protect themselves from others seeing who they are.\n\nIn my previous life (happily married now) I hooked up with a couple of girls via booty calls.  You are completely right; everyone would rather be pleased then have to deal with bad sex.\n\nWomen who are secure in who they are, emotionally and physically, have a short list of people they call when in the mood (although most have prerequisites such as dinner or small talk to make themselves feel better).\n\nGive it time and you’ll find a lovely woman who knows who she is and what she wants.  Until then, try to ignore the little girls who “never do that” – because those are the ones who end up making horrible choices in relationships down the road.
809592
Well, I happen to not agree with you. Yes, women can withold sex from you, but you could do the same. There is nothing wrong with a woman saying that she is not willing to give sex to just anyone. In fact, it is better for many reasons that she be picky about who she has sex with.  If she gave it to everyone - it would mean nothing. And if you want to have sex with a girl - you may have to meet some requirements.  That is her right. Your rights say that you can tell her no and look elsewhere. Or, you can withold sex from females as well.  So, I don't see where you are thinking this is unfair.
30530
I don't know about a single WORST double standard but some of the worst ones involve Men/Women.\n\nOne that comes to mind is that Circumcision is fine to do to a baby boy, but if you cut a girl's genitals, it's MUTILATION!\n\nAnother one is that Men and Women are equals, yet MEN are supposed to pay for everything.\n\nHow about this one, an adult woman can molest a boy and it's alright because "He likes it". If an adult male has sex with a minor female, it's a CRIME!  A girl psychologically matures faster than boys, so isn’t it WORSE to do that to a boy?  Even though he's chronologically 16, mentally he could be just 14!  A 14yr old boy is NOT ready for a sexual relationship with an adult woman, no matter what his body is telling him.\n\nHow about the one where Men "Mentally and Verbally" abuse women, yet nobody acknowledges that women Mentally and Verbally abuse MEN!  Women are vocal at an earlier age than men, and they continue to be more vocal.  Girls bully and torment other girls in school with psychological torture and verbal abuse.  When they do it to men, they just call it "Being a B**ch".  Men just aren't allowed to show they're hurt, yet they're berated for not being "sensitive" or sharing their "Feelings"...\n\nWomen use sex as a weapon against men.  They withhold it because sex is how men receive love and affection.  Isn’t that sexual abuse??  If you FORCE a woman to have sex it sure is!  Why is it that withholding it from somebody who needs it, isn’t??\n\nI should stop now.
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Alot of females lack an amount of respect for themselves. So they deem the amount of sex or the intensity of the act as a means of actually being with someone. Rather than establishing the relationship first and allowing the loving to be the icing on the cake. It's kind of like when we were kids and played make believe. However,the difference would be that we adventually snapped back to reality. As mentioned previously, woman are emotional creatures and once a guy hitz it the right way or tells us something we like to hear. Woman pretty much lose their minds...so sorry fellas but that's just the way it is...
28062
because its seen as unlady-like. most women do it... hell i do it. guys are seen as more openly sexual creatures and women are supposed to be modest.