we lo ve each other so much but the problem is he's married. he forced to marry. what can i do?
91116
I know from experience, messing with a married man is just heart break waiting for a place to happen. I am guilty of dating a married man on more than one occassion, and both times I was the one left alone and crying! Though it may not seem fair, it is true.... \nIf you truly feel that he loves you, tell him that you can not handle the stress any longer, and he needs to choose either you or her. Give him no more than 2 weeks to make his decision as you want to make sure it's one he won't regret. Then while waiting, sit and pray that everything will work out in your favor! During this wait also realise that you are not the first one to go through this, nor will you be the last! \nAlso realise that while you may not want to hear everything we say in this forum, that we are all speaking from our own life experiences, and that we do not want anyone to face the pain that we have suffered....\nI wish you luck, and pray that you pain is as little as possible!
529365
Here's a little trick. Picture yourself married to him, doing the things married couples do, meeting his friends and family, facing problems together, etc.. Do you like what you see? If not, give yourself some more time to know him better and do the mind excercise again. If you don't like it still, stop waisting your time and find another guy you can be comfortable with.
1172600
LISTEN VERY CAREFULLY!  It looks like he made his choice already.  A man will never leave his wife to be with the other woman.  If you guys were talking before he got married and he still married the other woman...I'm sorry to say, but he is not thinking about leaving his wife for you.  He has his cake and eating it too..so to say.  You are only hurting yourself if you continue to pursue this relationship.  Save yourself from anymore heartache and just end it.
364354
If he has already moved on then you just have to accept it and reorganize your life..you cannot put your life on hold waiting for him to come back... Don't dwell on him, he left you and gave up on your marriage, he is not worth it, even if he comes back this time, believe me, he will do it again, so move on and concentrate on bringing up your kids and finding a man who deserves you...
190671
If you ever listen to anybody in your life--listen to me now.....step away from the married man!!!! he will cause you nothing but pain and misery. There are 900 billion other guys to choose from--let the dumb-a s s that married him-put up with him. Go find a real man--not a back-stabbing-2-timing little worm of a man like this guy.\nYou don't want to be "the other woman" - do you?
9442
You cant hold on to something thats not there...You can continue to do your end of the vows and pray that he will have a change of heart but ultimatley in marriage love comes and goes but its commitment to that person that will keep a marriage.  Apparently hes never had that commitment to hold on to you for "better or for worse".  He obviously moves according feeling not any thing else.  You keep your end if hes not willing than let it go--More advice? chrystaldr@yahoo.com
355443
There's some boundaries people shouldn't cross. That's one. Try not to be around him often,you can still be nice and talk to him,just don't so often. And if he's flirting with you then he's crossing a boundary. Don't flirt back & tell him it makes you uncomfortable cause he's married. And most importantly,find a guy that's AVAILABLE & loves you for you & you love him & I promise you'll get over Mr. Married. :)
100142
That's something between you and your wife.Not, for others to have a choice on.Talk to her and see for yourself face to face to the one you married.
755771
Let it go very quickly. Get out of that relationship, he's an a===hole and won't change.  Be happy he's showing his true colours now and not when you're married.
95590
Leave him...He needs to deal with his marriage before you and him can have a chance at a relationship.  Right now you are blocking his chance to try and work out his marriage.  By leaving him he will be forced to either make his marriage work or to get divorced and move on.  You deserve a guy who is dedicated to you and a relationship with only you.  If he can't do that then you should find someone who can.
39650
If he is already separated from his wife, this is one thing.  However, if he is still married and has not yet filed for separation, this is a bad situation to be in.  I would get out of the situation and put some distance between yourself and him.\n\nHe needs to decide whether or not he wants to be married.  It's even worse if there are children involved.  These situations are difficult and, in a way, he could be using you to convince himself to get out.  In the worst case, he's just stringing you along so he can have his family and a mistress on the side.  He might consider this "the best of both worlds".\n\nConsider also that this married man is cheating on his wife with you.  So, what will happen if you marry him?\n\nIf, after this man has separated from his wife and has gotten things figured out, and you have not found someone else, then, and only then might it be worth rekindling the relationship.
361335
i guess you better let go that person, even though you love him/her because he/she is already married and from that fact, you can't do anything about it. i guess that person is already happy with his/her married life life and i think it's just right not to spoil such relationship. Love really hurts, especially in your case (or in your question) but the best thing to do is be happy for that person and wish him/her the best. Move on and after a while you also find the one that is really meant for you or the one that will give back your love. That would be nicer than being "the-would-be-third-party" right?
287679
You can't.  He is married.  Leave him and his family alone.  You need to work on your own marriage. If your spouse is abusive, then you need to leave him, but going with a married man is not a solution.  Besides, if your married guy is cheating on his wife, what makes you think he will not cheat on you too if you got together with him?
765153
You just anwser your own q.!Why stay married,apparently you don,t do it for him and he needs other woman to sadisfy him!He,s a Pig and _sswhole,I think you should leave he,s sorry -SS NOW!your better than that piece of -hit!Hollywood
587530
Get married.  You had to file a compliant on him for money or file for welfare for the government for support to get involved.
663587
ohhhh!!!\nu can talk to him \ntell him that u don't want problems but he is going too far!!\nremind him u r married\ntry and get him a girlfriend so that his attetion is directed at her instead of u \nGood luck
117844
Probably not...He has no insentive to move on because he has you on the side and still gets to stay married to someone else.  If he is having problems with one of you then there is the other so why would he need to ever choose.  The longer this goes on though the more likely it is he will break it off with you and return to his wife.  In the end your the odd one out and the easiest to get rid of.