Have you ever cheated on someone you love?
96786
I don't think you really love someone if you can cheat on them! if you really loved this woman you are about to marry, you wouldn't have done it. my advice, tell her, so she can dump your sorry cheating a**.
518282
I have never cheated. When I said my vows, I took them to heart. Besides, I could never do something so cold hearted or heartless. When your truly in love, cheating never crosses your mind!!!
267077
yes !\nyou vowed to love and be with only your wife !\nhow could this not be a form of cheating in a way ?
367276
asuming of course that ur man cheated, i`m kinda curious about the details of the infidelity, however it is common for a man who cheated to do it again, i know i have! yes i`m am a pig and i don`t deserve my girlfriend, and i know that to be certain... still she wants to be with me, go figure.  I`ve told her every single detail, and had given her a way out u know a choice!  she didn`t want it, i still enjoy a lot of her character and sense of humor and we get along just fine... except for the above.
558312
When my x cheated on me, I pretended not to know anything and I made him like me more. I did a make over and tried my best to really get his attention. After I made sure That I had his heart back and he was falling head over heels for me, I cheated with another guy in front of his face. And when he found out, he was so mad it made him cry.hehe.\nIts bittersweet revenge.
988463
Did you ever think maybe he was cheating on her with you and not the other way around?
520142
Answer me this. How many people have cheated in a relationship \nin some form or another?? If all you people would not go out with someone you knew cheated a majority of you would not have boyfriends, girlfriends, husbands or wives. They may be great and wonderful to you, but left that little piece of information out because close-minded people like the ones on this site have already rejected them before getting to know   them. I don't believe in the "once a cheater, always a cheater" saying. People cheat for various reasons. Some people are serial cheaters and do it for the thrill and  can't commit to one person. Some people cheat because they were abused in some way in the relationship (physically, emoitionally, verbally, ect...) And for whatever reason they could not get out of that abusive relationship. I have been in an abusive relationship. People don't know exactly how hard it is to get out of one. I put up with mine almost 6 years. I cheated, yes I did. I felt I could not get out of my situation and wanted to feel special from the person  I cheated with. I don't regret it for all the bad things he (my ex)did to me and how crappy he made me feel about myself. I am a very faithful person. I would not cheat on someone I loved and who respected me as a person as not to abuse me the way my ex did. I was faithful up until the 4th  year. So yes. I would give somebody a chance. Find out his reasoning for cheating on his g/f with you. She may have abused him in some way (yes, men can be abused by thier women) and he turned to you for comfort. Just be careful of being the rebound chic....
244303
I have! TONS of times. I'm married. :)
1176338
No, they never cheated.\nGet some spy stuff and have fun with it.
1068917
I couldn't and wouldn't.  I love the man I'm married to. If you love the other person...how can you betray them?  He/She may never find out...but.........you would always know. Can you look them in the eye after betraying them?  Could you live with yourself?  Would you feel the guilt?  Then maybe one day...the guilt builds up, you feel your mate deserves better than what you've given. There goes the relationship.  Besides..........."How can you REALLY be SURE you can get away with it?"    If it ruins your relationship, you didn't get away with it.  Think about it.   The grass isn't always greener on the other side. And you usually find a lot of weeds.    If the person you want to have an affair with is willing to do this knowing you're cheating....how can they trust you not to cheat on them if it were to lead to more than an affair?   Cheating is never the answer.   Be true to your man/woman.  And....be true to yourself.
677388
I don't think I could ever cheat on my husband, I love him too much. I also have been the victim of a cheater in my own past, and had my heart torn to bits by a ruthless cheating bastard (my 1st husband). If you love someone and you simply cannot conntrol yourself enough to be faithful to them in every way, then perhaps you do not really know what love is?  Or you want to have your cake and eat it too.\n\nPeople who cheat, usually do not want to admit it or they try to lie, deny or cover it up, then it only hurts twice as much when the truth does come out. A cheater would probably try to lie, and that's just like stabbing someone you are supposed to love in the heart everytime you lie.\n\nA marriage often cannot survive cheating and lying, so if you love your spouse, you will not cheat in the first place!
394284
Yes it is. I was very much in love with this guy and almost married him. But found him cheating on me. Needless to say his butt went to the curb. Then I met another man and married him. Been together for 16 years now.
461661
No i have never cheated on my partner and i never would if it got to that point i would have the respect to leave him before i even thought about another man
804574
I have cheated everytime I am with someone. I think its because I haven't found someone who I CANT cheat on! When I do find this person I think that I will NEVER cheat again!!! BUT I will say I have NEVER BEEN CAUGHT!!! So NO ONE HAS been hurt!
336122
Honestly, if you truly had a deep love for her, I don't think you would have cheated.  If the bond is weak enough that you both felt the need to stray, I'd have serious doubts about giving it another go...unless you both were willing to work hard to discover what caused these problems to begin with and were willing to work to resolve them.
399117
I HAVE NEVER CHEATED ON A GIRLFRIEND. MOST OF THEM HAVE BEEN GOOD GIRLS. THE ONES WHO CHEAT ARE JUST LOWLIFE SCUMBAGS JUST LOOKING FOR A PEICE AF #SS. LOSERS THATS ALL THEY ARE.
649917
i've NEVER cheated nor ever will. but what really got me mad once (besides others cheating on me) was i once went to caribbean by myself to relax; didn't even look at another guy. a week or two after i came home by boyfriend ended it. what a jerk... i could've had a better time...!!! grr.