if your mom was talking to 49yr old man how would that make you feel .?
97105
Well, age really isn't important.  If the man is nice then who cares?  How old is your mom?  It really shouldn't matter.  Much more important is his integrity.
231040
My initial reaction would depend on how and why she died.  But ultimately, it's just an overwhelming feeling of emptiness, anger, and sadness.  My father died in July 2005, his birthday was yesterday. Although he was sick, his death was sudden and unexpected.  I don't think that you ever really get over it.
760126
Maybe nothing. Since he's been treating you like this, I don't think any word you say would carry any weight. He just won't listen or care. Try to bury the past in your heart along with your grief and hurt. It will take you a while to heal, but you will be fine. THis man is long gone, even though he's still around. I just hope that this experience will make you a stronger and more loving woman. Best wishes to you and your children.
188536
i know exactely how that feels like!!!\n...still haven't been able to find my grandpa, and to tell the truth--don't think he's still alive..\n\nif u want to talk to someone, leave me ur mail/ mess adress and i'll get back to u.  what do u say?..
99625
Probably my mom's because i think she's getting ready to leave my dad for this other dude, shes always on the phone with this person and i never can make out what shes saying, and i found a e-mail that they were writing back and forth that was really disturbing too. So thats probably what i would do.
696248
Imagine if YOU were living with him and an old flame popped by to say hello.\n\nHow would that feel?
584518
id cry, i wouldnt wanna be that old. id be put on the spot everyday with stuff like this.\n\nid go to a professional basketball game and the camera points at me and commentators go, here's the world's oldest man, he is celebrating his 200th birthday today. \n\n5 minutes later they'll go to the sideline commentators and say what do i think of the game.\n\nHe'll say, "he loves it", ill probably be sleep or dead, nevetheless i aint say ****\n\nToo much special treatment.
171591
Can you add more details please?\n\nNever mind, I get it now, i read your other question.  Um, woah, I really dont know what to say...Regardless of how bad you felt for her I dont think that was the right thing to do...Maybe you could have gotten someone else to have sex with her...\n\nOut of extreme curiousity...how has this affected your relationship with your mom??? Is it weird now? Also who started it, you or her??  Good luck, I hope everything works out for you
1096604
I am sorry that you feel this way, how terrible for you.\n\n I think you need to sit down with your mom and have a dicussion--not a screaming match-- and tell her honestly how you feel. It may be that she honestly has not realized that the situation makes you feel like this. Nomother would deliberately make their child feel like that on purpose, but Moms are people who have have feelings  too, and of course they makemistakes like anyone else.\n\n I hope you can have a good talk about this, and work it out.
937149
"You are as old as you feel" or as a friend of mine once said, "You are as old as the woman you feel".......but I think that theory only comes into effect once you hit 40, so no worries.
120970
See how he treats his mother...
59161
yes in fact my mother while I grew up always told me she wished I wasn't born and that since I was that I should of been a boy. (THAT HURT!). I don't know allot about my father, but I wish I could of been with him from birth on and not my mother. I do love her for she is my mother but I know she loves my brother more than I and I know my dad loves me allot. I am 35 and this is a true story!
715261
If I did, how would that make you feel?
708771
Talk to your mom about it
324805
how old are you? and why were you in the bed with your mom?
596584
I am so sorry for your loss.  I would like to say that I think your mom would be proud of you and would love knowing that you love her and you miss her.  Instead of spending today being sad at her loss..spend the day rejoicing for the woman that she was and for the memories that will live on in your heart forever.  ((((((((hugs)))))))))
503339
my grandfather was the kindest sweetest man alive. he died 16 yrs ago and there will never be a man that will replce him. when i do bad i think hes turning in his grave and i feel horrible. my grandma is 92 and shes still as spunky as they come and shes a trip. she whacked my son with her puse recently!! love them both but gramps took us fishing gram took us shopping