help needed with x gf!?
87517
u should let her kno tht u would like to see other people before you jump back into that relationship again, there's probably a reason tht u broke up in the first place!don't disrespect her...treat her as though nothing happened between the two of you.\nhope i could help!! good luck!!
376173
Make her feel special, like she matters to you. Don't make her feel like an object or a possession. She has a brain, ask her what she wants to do. Sometime girls like ot do feminine things. Be willing once in a while to go see a chic flic or walk in the park. She doesn't have to rule the relationship but she does need to feel like her opinions matter and like you genuinely care about her health, feelings and ideas. Not just her body!
526157
I can understand why your g/f is mad. Why wouldn't you want to blow off another chick if you already have a girl friend? Just politely tell the other girl that you're taken and that nothing can happen between you both. If she doesn't get the hint, then stop talking to her and tell her to leave you alone. Make sure your gf knows that you love her and no one else. Do something special for her that you would never do for anyone else. Ur gf feels threatened. Girls are almost always insecure and think that their man will be taken away buy someone else, so just let her know that you don't want or need any one other than her.
109600
You could always get the jump on her by breaking up with her. Or you could talk with her and ask her why, there might be a way to fix things (99 percent chance there isnt).
437811
love her for who she is and just ignore the glitches. she's been through alot and she needs your love and support. she might, at times, need time to be alone, and at other times need to talk your ears off. just be there for her.
190222
You should force her to be your girlfriend whether she likes it or not. I mean, she owes it to you, right? Or, maybe you could beg, cry, change everything about yourself to make her happy. That almost always worked for all the pitiful guys I ever dumped!\nSERIOUSLY- MOVE ON.
592056
Find yourself another girl for that month and your current girlfriend she just wants some time to have sex with this guy that's if she haven't already.  Don't let her play with your emotions if she needs time let her go for good.  If she really loved you she wouldn't be asking for time because another guy.  Come on shes obviously a whore.  Don't buy her any gifts and for that whole month don't call her shes gonna realize she lost a great guy that B.I.C.T.H!!!!!!!!!!
902559
Sorry:-))) But i am kind of amused...You know, the first thing that men have to learn about women is to give them their space. Hey...if your parting words weren't bitter, there is no cause for alarm. I am sure she'll call..giv her some time. You said she had a boyfriend..well, maybe she is busy..there could be a thousand things you dont know...So dont miss her too much. Try and concentrate on ur GF. I am sure she be in touch shortly.
793468
ur girl's crazy. i know im a jealous gf so i know wheres shes coming form. BUT if you let her do that kinda stuff like spend the night at a guys bed. then she should trust you. but if i was you i would dump her!!!\n\n\nGood luck with the crazy gf!
14868
"How can I politely tell this girl that it isn't working out and that I am no longer interestd in her?"\nYou're doing a great job already... Tell her exactly what you've told us. She'll probably be hurt, but that's life. At least she'll understand why you guys aren't working out and she can work on it in her next relationship.
1176735
You got a gf? Then get her to "give you a hand". Or better still, a BJ. \nAnd don't forget to return the favour.
18931
Wow, tough problem. I think what I'd do is have a heart to heart with the girlfriend. Maybe she really does want him to be happy with you and maybe it's him that's holding out hope for a renewed relationship with her. If that's the case, she'll need to back off, but you need to find out if that's really the way it is or not first. Good luck. I feel for you.
623377
Your g/f is very immature. I know you said to answer yes or no. But you need to know something...If she is this immature and selfish (which is what it is) then that means she will "growup" in time. When she does its very likely she will also "out grow" you. I don't mean this as putting you down. I mean it as a warning to you. You have accepted this behavior in her. When she changes she may very well decide that she doesn't want a guy who would put up with this. DON'T put up with it. Its rude. And she needs to know you can't treat people this way.\nGood LUck To YOU!
493598
well first off, her ex sounds like a *bleep*, so she need to dump it's butt! now for what you feel for her and she feels for you, if it's genuine, feel free to experiment but I wouldn't jump into sex, I would go on a few dates and maybe kiss, you still feel love and not lust then you might want to start thinking about the future with her...*hug* good luck!
669002
Well thats gonna be hard without hurting her feelings but what i would do is buy some strong gum and eat some then when you guys are together offer her some. hopefully that will help :)
387097
Just put a little pressure on her shoulders when kissing. She will get the message. If this doesnt work after a few dates then ask her, if that fails then dump her and move on.
1026275
Just bring up the subject and see what she volunteers.  Share a personal story, then say, "What would you have done if it'd been you and your girlfriend?"  Like your asking her advice or opinion, she might just say that she has had girlfriends or say that "when" she has a girlfriend....   Get the picture?  Just don't corner her.