do yu ever wonder if people are nice to be fake, or do they really mean it?
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That really depends on the individual. Some people are really genuinely sweet; I've known many who are, and have many friends who are loyal and very nice. I've been blessed to be around these sincerely nice people.\nOn the other hand, I've known some real fakes, some who appear all nicey nicey, but they would stab you in the back, if there was a chance. So...I would say that some don't really mean it; they're fake!
946021
Good to know I am not the only gullible, trusting, honest person out here.  I wouldn't want to change to be more like them as I sleep better at night knowing I did not try to screw someone out of their self worth.  Also, it will catch up with them in the end, as they will want happiness, but it will not come.  Being like WE are also makes me strong in my convictions, which people like THEM are not.  We can stand for what we want, love, believe in, hate, etc.  They live a lie all the time, they are what everyone wants them to be.  It would suck to be that way to me, as being myself makes me so much more independent.
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It all depends on your nature,if you have a nice nature you will have problem with being bad and if you have a bad nature you cant be nice.\nif you believe in faking out,it may work for sometime but not for rest of yourself.fakeness washes away with time.Its always good to be yourself and let people love you and like you for who you are.I would not want to change for anyone,i would rather have someone or people to like me and appriciate me for who how and what i am.Life would be and is easier that way.\nBye
1009506
yeah myself! i act fake alot, depending on the situation. i'm also a total hypocrite and i don't give a sh*t :)
608006
A lot of times yes. Or insecurity. They are not sure of themselves, so they have to create a big scene or just act an azz so that they feel better about themselves, or so that they will appear a certain way in other people's eyes.  And its a shame cuz usually people can see right through them.
179812
You catch them talking behind your back, or they only are around you for your material possesions.\n\nDrop them fast.  Fake people are as useless as plastic surgery on old women, they are still old, just with tighter skin.
858819
Sometimes.  It depends on who's answering.  There's some people who will be straight up honest with you and then there's smart*sses who just want a good laugh at other people's expense.
395764
Personally when someone acts real then I feel more comfortable around them. Those holier then thou are fake. No one escape the evil clutches of sin. Might as well live life with all your heart, not all lies.
36122
I think Oprah, Jerry tends to seem a little fake to me (atleast I hope those people aren't real!)
452655
depends, may be some are just funny and some serious, just look around those ones who really look u in the eyes and those who always say good and like your hapiness, about u,
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The easiest way to know if a person is nice or not is to watch and listen.\nEven if someone tries to fool everyone into believing that they are nice, if they are not so nice, this will come out.  Nobody can hide the way that they are all the time.  Eventually, the person will do something which does not seem so nice.\nNice people are usually nice all the time.  They have manners.  They do not try to hurt others.  They usually are more careful about what they say.
575539
Sometimes i do pretend because i want to protect that person from something they should not see. We all have to pretend at some point of our lives.
986119
Yes my friend Honesty is very much alive in this selfish world !!\n   A bit difficult to understand this fact....i am not being hyperbolic but to tell u v all live different lives and our lives r so busy and ignorant, we are accustomed to listening to people speak  lies almost every day, yes we sometimes also do speak lies, now at this moment of time, if u meet a person who tells u the truth u always start spying on that person !!I because its all our mindsets that sets us to think that there is no honesty in this world and that no one is honest!!\nwe fail to recognize that person through observation, behavior,speech eye contact, body Language and other such aspects which show the level of honesty in that person!!\nSo ...I think its time to look around I think u should find people who are quite Honest!!
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The  problem with  that   question  is  in the  definition of "nice".    Lots of times  people  are  described  as "nice"   because  they  are  always   r eady to  just  "go along"     They   don't  want to "argue"   or "say  no"      "Will you  watch  my  kids?"  sure.   "Can   I borrow  your car?"    OK.     Can I borrow some money?   Oh,  all right.    Those  kind of people are not being "nice"  they  are being  stupid  and they will   forever be taken  advantage of.      Yep,  they   always finish  last.\n\n                               It  is   possible to be a  TRULY  nice person  and still be  strong,     and   confident,  and alert   to  situations  where    somebody is  trying to "slip one over  on them"   They  stand  up for  themselves, smile,  and  say NO.       Soon others  see them    as "leaders"  confident,  well  organized in  the  way they live  and  deal with the situations of life.   BUT -  they keep  the smile on their  face,  do not lose their sense of compassion for  the  REAL situation when a  person is genuinely i n  trouble  and needs   a  leg up, and  they  are clearly  alert, well informed,    and    very  very good  a t  analysing any given  situation to  know   if it is  genuine or not.       You can't put  one over   on that kind of person,  and  anybody who  tries will go  away disappointed.    But  everyone will  agree on one thing.   That person is not only smart..  but  NICE with it.     And that  person,  guaranteed, will never finish   last
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They are pretty accurate. They can be fooled, but you have to have a lot of self control and know what you are doing to trick it. Most of the time the best people can do is just give inconclusive results, not pass off a lie as truth or vice versa.
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Whether they're faking or not....it just sets the bar higher...bring it
784761
Not all girls act "fake" in front of their friends. I personally think that they want to fit in, and be just like their friends, so they want to seem perfect to fit in, which can led to them becoming fake.