Why does everyone think that you are fat if you arent a skranny toothpick and why dont they like ppl like that
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Maybe it is because the people who are calling or thinking you are fat, are so insecure, that they would rather point out your faults, than allow anyone to see their faults. \n\nI am not fat, but I am not scrawny, I just dont believe in being a toothpick, and for this I was commented on my whole life by my sister, and now she is fatter than me. I should have seen that she was the one that had the complex, and that it was never me. I feel for my sister now, as she has no more comments on this topic. Although she still tries to think of herself as thin (she was on the verge of anorexia) but she knows she is not. So now she goes for other areas where she can break me down. \n\nI take it, and forget the comments, I know it is her that has a problem, and not me. Forget what people say about you, rather feel for them. As they are more than likely insecure. If you are happy with your weight and size, then you have no problem to worry about.
631956
I know its hard, but people are jelious of a confident and beautiful woman.\n\nIf they dont call you fat, they will call you ugly, a *lut, a *itch or whatever other horrible UNTRUE names just to make you upset. The best things you can do , is dont let it get to you. When people see that it isnt getting to you, they usuially move on. Its no fun making fun of someone that isnt affected by it.\nMany people have a hard time with people at one point, its just a struggle, we all have to learn.\nYou'll be stronger because of it.\nKeep being the strong and beautiful woman that you are, and dont let anybody's names bring that down.\nIn God's eyes we are all beautiful.\nLet that beauty shine with your strength to say no to walk away from these losers.
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It is very rude. People that are obese are humans also.\n The word fat pertaining to a person is very uncouth.\n Obese people sometimes have a low self esteem . Why add to the agony.\n It just not nice to call a person fat. \n If you have to ask this question , you must be one of those non caring people.
853808
i think being fat in n o way means that u shuld go to other places and websites.its like ur fat then why shuld u urslef discriminate from other girls.if u do urself,others will definetly call u "FAT".
77772
Because they are jealous, and the fat from their greaseburger combos make them even meaner and stupid.  I think fat girls who do that are reverting to animalistic behavior, and I think it's about food aggression.  If you have a pet with that issue, like a dog or cat, you know what I mean.  It might be that and the accumulation of all the additives in the food.  They think that if they project hate on you, it will ease their own low self-esteem.  Your daughter is eating what everybody else is eating, so switch to organic, low animal protein and lots of green foods; you don't want her to become fat and mean and bitter. Fat is inheritable, but so are bad habits. \n\nI don't know, maybe you should move.  Are you in the midwest or the south?  or in some rural or urban hell?  Those are areas noted for high numbers of obese people.  You represent normalcy and sanity in a loony bin.  To counter the nastiness, I'd wear the nice fashions that those whales can't wear, and make sure they see you eat that slice of cake with that flat belly.  \n\nMisery loves company, but you don't have to be a part of it.  Be proud of your body as it is, and go jogging or exercising with your children so that one day, they will move on to a nice college or town where people are not so mean, lazy, and fat.
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Wow, even within these responses you can see the hatred.\n\n1) Not all obesity is because of slothfullness and laziness. A majority of severely obese people do have poor eating habits but also underlying medical conditions that slow metabollism, alter brain chemistry, or other chemical imbalance. Often, merely reducing calories is not enough for these people. Even on a 1000 calorie diet, some people will continue to gain weight. I do not think they should be called slothfull.\n\n2) Many overweight people do not eat more than everyone else, they eat the WRONG foods. In a few studies they showed the calori consumption was within 5% of a normal BMI individual but the food choices were less healthy.\n\n2a) It has been shown that variations in genetics predispose people to like certain tastes, textures and foods. If you look at point #2 and this, the less healthy choices are not always a matter of choice, but dictated by a biological drive.\n\nThat said, it is not acepted in this nation at all. At one time, 'Rubenesque' women were the equivilent of sex symbols. Having some flesh on the bone connoted wealth and prosperity. Now, being skinny is paramount. Even those who are fit and healthy have less status than the uber skinny.\n\nBeing overweight does have negative imapcts. It is not healthy. It places a strain on your heart and circulatory system, your joints, and can lead to diabtes.\n\nOften overweight people earn less than their skinny counterparts, and chosen less often for jobs, and as leaders.  Sad but true.\n\nMost people are shallow and superficial and only look for the supermodel look. Funny thing, in America the overweight will soon outnumber the skinny.
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Because we live in a society that that demands perfection. People want to feel beautiful and an example of beauty. Like models. Skinnier people are more confident with their body and how  they expose themselves. Some overweight people get depressed and offended easier. They also might feel like they don't belong.
1064012
it's because they think they're fat.. and if they cheat on eating sweets or their diets..it makes them feel guilty and bad about themselves
216608
some of them are nasty liars.\none of them took my bacon.\nthey have big teeth.\nsome of them smell like pomegranates (whats up with that anyways)\nfat people come in all shapes and sizes, there are the underfat or skinny people, medium fat like Oprah or bbbw(big beautiful black woman) then there are the more fat people, this list includes, Chris Farley, Elvis and included Oprah before she was medium fat.\nsome fat people are nice, some are mean, most smell like pomegranites.
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i think fat people are beautiful because God made us all and not all people get fat because they eat alot some people get in from there parents or genes so don't judge them because of how they look and the question us would you date a fat person we sre all people just all of us look differet NO man is alike and i would date a fat person once there caring honest, loving i wouldnt wnt to look on the outside and stop saying fat try using a word like chubby, big, chucky, words like that God made us all and he loves us all
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maybe they are sterotyping against fat people? "oh, who wants people to see them as fat? Even fat people will like this, because we can make them thin, if only in fantasy." \nor maybe i'm trying to answer any question just to get points. \nGood question, though. i never noticed that.
199811
I think that the reason people ask other people if they are annorexic is because they are jealous.  Another reason is that people don't think that it would hurt the person's feelings if they asked, even though it would.  People know that people that are overweight are normally not happy with their body, but people naturally guess that when people are really skinny, they are happy with their body and wouldn't care if other people asked.  I know a friend who is in the exact same position as you, and it makes me feel bad when people ask her that.\n\ngood luck :)
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I don't know why people are so weight obsessed. If you get to know someone really well it won't matter any more. \n\nFor the record, I'm a size 0 blond and the guys aren't all over me. Instead idiots decide to say how anorexic I am (which I'm not). That makes me mad.\n\nPeople just care too much about appearances, and it hurts. No matter if you're skinny or overweight, people are still going to be slightly judge mental of you because of that. All in all, people can be idiots. :)
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I'm not from the US, but that animosity is reserved for obese ppl the world over!!\n\nI think it has to do with the misconception that fat ppl got fat cause they have no control over their eating habits and therefore appear to have low self-control, are indisciplined and weak.\n\nIt's wrong, of course. But its human nature to feel superior to any perceived notion of lack of discipline or weakness. Which instead of resulting in understanding and tolerance usually comes out as snide and contemptuous.\n\nMost fat ppl I know are NOT fat coz they eat like mad monkeys, but it’s hormonal or psychological in nature which triggers irregular eating habits among other reasons for obesity.
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your not fat dear.Ever think your mother may be jealous of you a little? mothers can be harsh now a days.  your esteem depends on the person you want to be,not some fallacy someone else has in their mind.if you believe your esteem relies on others compliments,you shall not have ahappy life.
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because some people are so insecure about themselves, the only pleasure the get is from making others more miserable than they are.  only a small mind dwells on the outward appearance of a person or thing.  a small mind cannot comprehend the depth and beauty of a thing that is not instantly appealing to them.  they require instant gratification on all levels and lack the intelligence it requires to appreciate beauty in anything, be it person or object.  chin up, there are many who do not ridicule an overweight person and see the delight everyone has to offer.  do not be dismayed...they are loud, but they are few....
324011
Because to some people, their looks are everything. They want every one to see things the way they do. They believe that the way they look is better than anyone else's who is different than theirs. So if u don't look like them, they hate u just because of that. Some people just can't accept the fact that every one is the same (physically) on the inside whether they like it or not.