i am successful,30 yrs old, very single.how can i approach a girl who is a stranger to me??
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just be nice, not 2 needy, have confidence in ur self. & beleive me it will come 2 u
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Keep looking. Believe me good women are out there. When you meet a lady watch her a little you can fine out a lot about someone just watching them in conversation with other people. I hope you fine your young lady.
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But you are not me.  You are you.\nTalk with her.  Get to know her and allow her to get to know you.  Be honest, play it straight.  No games.\nListening is important.
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man all you have to do is be yourself....no need with pickup lines...just talk to her as apersopn and you have nothing to worry about. Confidence is a trait to have when dealing with the opposite sex and on top of that worst case senario she could say no..or she isnt into like you are to her....
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just be yourself. you have nothing to worry about if you have to try to call her...you have to find away to get to know her...how well do you know her. have a friend talk to her if you have to.
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Take a walk anywhere "nice" women are walking (e.g., sidewalk in a nice part of your city). When you see someone really interesting, say, "Hello," introduce yourself, and take her with you. If she is busy at that very moment, get her phone number and make sure you call her. If she is married (also a possibility), apologise and move on; she will be too flattered to hold a grudge. Do this until you get someone. By the way, if you don't see anything that you like at any time, wait until you do. You will see someone you like soon enough.\n\nAnother place to pick up nice girls is at a grocery store. However, keep in mind that others will be near you there, so you won't get as much privacy to ask for her number; and it is good for the two of you to bond from the beginning -- just the two of you, even for a moment. If she has only a couple of items, insist on paying for them at the register, then walk her to her car. It will not cost much, but you will already be getting her attention that she can rely on you. (No, it is not a money thing, it is a security thing.) Again, if she is married or attached, apologise and move on. Soon enough you will wind up with someone you are happy with.
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First off, most girls do NOT like being referred to as Chicks.Other than that, meeting women involves risk and alot of trial and error. Get out more! Go to where girls/women are likely to be and always ask your friends if they know female friends who would like to meet someone.Saying Hi to a random girl is a good way to start a conversation. Avoid pickup lines, fancy outfits, and bar scenes and just be yourself. Being confident about yourself and curious about other people is very appealing to most women(at least in my experience). Don't see rejection for a date as failure, simply move on and accept advice from your rejector if she gives you any.
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1. What is the question? how to get her?\n2. First of all, girls...all girls...are attracted to confidence. You sound like you do'nt have too much of that...If you ACT like you have confidence, that is attractive to women.\n3. It's all about the game of "he who cares less"\n4. Start small - talk to her. Do you have classes with her? Start with little things like..."hi"..then progress to little things like "did you see that movie last weekend?" See? At least get on her radar.\n\nBut really it's the confidence thing you can do.
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Well, it's really easy. Finding them, or her, is simple. Many or most young women don't think about it, so they are not looking for an older man. \nNow I've only done this a few times, and all the younger women fit a profile. Usually mature. Well educated. Self-confident. Have had a few relationships. \nBe yourself. Be open. Listen. If you get involved, do it only with a young woman that you like. \nTo find one, well unless you're really objectionable, here are the places: through your employment, girls you work with or contact.\nAsk for their ideas and be willing to meet their friends.\nIf you're in a restaurant or an upscale bar suggest that one or two ladies should join you, BUT, don't "hit" on them. In fact in all cases, never "hit" on them, forget pick up lines. Treat any young woman that interests you as a friend, only.\nSometimes the real problem is one that you didn't mention.
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try your nearest library or bookstore if you like to read too, and just plainly start up a conversation that makes sense to the one person that grabs your attention. or similarly, wherever you like to hang out. That's what a guyd would do, and if you think that is courageous, pls, you are already a single mom, what could be more courageous already! think about it, you are strong woman and can do this on your own too if you had to, just be selective and go sensible about it. rejection is no big deal, not interested is no big deal, chance to make "just friends" a real plus, chance to find that good man, well hey, that's BINGO
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Politely introduce yourself and tell her you would like to get to know her, offer your number, that way she won't be worried about what kind of person  has her number.  If she accepts you will feel more confident in meeting other girls until or in case she doesn't call.
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Just start with "Hi" or you could try and include her in a discussion as she walks past "Hey what do you think of zyx, by  the way I'm 'name' and you are ...?", or pick one thing about her that you like "hey sally, that's a nice necklace, is there a story behind it?"\n\nHave a look at the link below for more ways of approaching women, and the lessons learned can be applied to other areas of your life.
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Did she give you the phone # ?  If so,then I guess she wants you to call. And that could lead up to asking her out. If you got it another way, will probably be the only reason you're seeking help on how to attract her.
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if u r nervouos try sending her a greeting, or say hi over the phone.that way u gain courage as u dont meet the person face to face.
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You are too desperate... You've asked this same question several times!  Perhaps if you work on making yourself interesting girls will want to talk to you... but they will run away if they sense desperation.\n\nBTW, the correct word is 'there' as in "Is there any girl out there (who is) single?"  Girls like good spellers too.  :)
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If she knows you exist, thats a beginning.\nFind out what interests she has, value her mind and feelings.\nIf you havent met yet make lots of eye contact and smile (not too hard though)
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Practice strike up a conversation with girls you do not know but are not necessarily the most attractive to you. Watch them stumble that will help you released you are not alone, help them when they stumble this will help you gain confidence for your own game.\n\n Good luck man remember pretty women have the same problem as you, sometimes both sides are equally interested but both players are bad at the game and personal insecurities make each party feel that they are at fault and the conversation fizzles.\n\n Avoid these phrases at all cost:\n  Nice day today.\n  Man this place is busy\n Have you been hear before?\n  Are you here with friends\n   *** The problem with any conversation starter like the above is it is easily answered with one word. Give her something to work with.  It is way too hard to recover from a Yes and No conversation its mechanical, no way to find common interests.