Is it wrong to not go see your girl?
95299
She is not being as open as you think. You should see if she tries to contact you before you contact her. If she calls explain your concern with a mild manner. Give her time to tell you what she wants to tell you and decide on whether this is a good cause to be concerned or upset.
702772
Is she your girlfriend or is this just a second date?\nIf she is your girlfriend, it doesn't matter where you go, as long as you enjoy being with eachother. She doesn't even need to your girlfriend. Again, as long as you are enjoying your time together, it doesn't really matter where you go. Just be with each other!
726676
Hi, i think you should do what your heart desires. In other words if you want to stay with your girlfriends stay but if you want to meet guyfriends go for it too. but , honestly i think you should talk to your girlfriends and tell them how you feel.
677526
it is kind of embarrassing for a girl to visit a guy.He suppose to go to your house and have a good time not you.
516293
It's not fair to your girlfriend if you don't think it's going to work out. You THINK you love her? You do or you don't. You need to figure out what is going on w/your girlfriend before you start planning for this other girl. Not wanting to hurt someone is not a good enough reason to stay w/them-that sounds harsh, but you'll just end up resenting her.
532784
If you don't think the relationship is going anywere and you don't love the girl than you shouldn't be with her anymore, however if there is somehting there then just stay with her and see where things get you
273530
If she wasn't going to tell you and couldn't even be honest with you when she was going out on that date, I'd say you did the right thing.  You can't build a life together if there are secrets and lies.  And to me, omission is as good as a lie.
630732
think about this first..... you go out with this girl, you break up....... you risk losing 2 friends......\nnow do you want 2 go out with her?
28665
If you want to see him, then do. But if something inside is telling you not to, you ought to go with tha tfeeling, wait longer if you want to, or break off the whole relationship if it keeps having that weird feeling. The fact that you're asking strangers if you should meet a guy shows that you probably don't want to. Think it over.
1183728
Youve never seen each other? Hmmm well it would seem you are long overdue to meet the girl you love. You should prolly come up with a way to meet for the weekend and go from there, u know? And of course I agree with Beauty tell her your having these feelings and its time for you guys to move to the next step OR move on with your lives. Good Luck and I hope you get all you want in life sweety either way. God Bless
1005597
Absolutely not! You're never too young to start taking responsibility for your own life and choices or to start treating a girlfriend with the respect she deserves. Continuing to see her while feeling the way you do is disrespecting her. If you are afraid she will make a scene or have a violent reaction, you can send her a letter or e-mail explaining how you feel. I recommend that over a phone call because it will give you a better chance to get your ideas in order before she begins reacting and it will give her a chance to adjust to the idea before she has to see you again. Less chance of a huge, ugly reaction. Good Luck and let us know how it goes.
728389
What happens when you don't suggest hanging out? Believe me, if a guy wants to be with a girl, nothing is going to get in his way: not war, flood, poverty and certainly not pride. Back off a bit and give him space. If he doesn't call you - find someone new who will.
380361
Loving her as a woman (by a man-like heart/feelings) is a sin yes. But now that you finally loved her as a friend or rather as bestfriend, I think both of you should know the limitations of your relationship by now. It is possible that, during your adjustment, you find yourself doing things that you used to do while you were lovers. Try to be watchful of your actions. I'm not advising you to avoid her but I do advise you to avoid being off guard just to caught yourself doing your old ways again. If its hard to control, its about time for the two of you to take a week off not seeing each other.
67554
Thats kind of odd that someone with a girlfriend asked you... and if you feel that it would not be appropriate to go with the other guy then don't.  If there is someone you would much rather go with, feel them out about if they would want to go with you!  Overall, just do what you believe is right.  And most importantly, forget the drama and have fun!
357766
No you shouldnt go out with him cause he obviously has no respect for girls. You do not want to be with someone like that because there are guys out there that will treat you like your the only girl on earth that matters to them.
37636
NO! Would you like your girl to do that 2 you. IF they have an understanding(and you should find out) IT doesn't matter. Don't mess with it!
646010
Try to go see her. Tell her you will go to her if she can't go to you. If she doesn't want to see you at all I would say you should consider dumping her. anyway talk to her about it.