Which is worse physical abuse or mental bause.?
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Both are bad situations.  If I had to, I would say Mental abuse is a little worse.  Physical abuse can leave "physical evidence" that abuse is actually taking place. For example, If you see a child with an unusual amount of visable scars, you may take action to help that child.  But if somebody is being abused Mentally, There are still scars, but they are on the "inside"... The average passer-by usually never notices the victoms of mental abuse, thus The abused person is forced to deal with the situation "on their own"  I truely hope this was a hypothetical question, and you are not the victom of any type of abuse.  If you are in a bad situation... Seek help!  The longer people wait to report things like this, the worse they can get.  Oh, by the way, thanks for your answer reguarding a question I asked about depression.  You seem like a wise, and compassionate person.... God Bless.
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LMAO! After hearing some of the horror stories from my brothers I would have to say having an abcess drained. Either way you'll be drained of something depends what you can afford to lose.... fluid or sanity! Good Luck! =-P
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beating and humiliation
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The things that have happened to you are terrible and of course it is abuse.  You really need a trusted adult to help you.  The fact that you were able to post on here means that you are ready to get the help you need.  I'm a licensed psychiatric social worker and I came from a really crappy upbringing too.  My dad was physically abusive and my mom was pretty depressed and didn't stop him.  I managed to get past the abuse and lead a productive life but even today, I remember the abuse and have to deal with the feelings surrounding it.  You are too young and your life is too precious to be lost in the cycle of child abuse.  The sooner you get help the more likely you are to move on successfully with your life.  You don't need your parents permission to seek counseling.  School counselors are an option.  I recognize that trusting adults right now is probably difficult and I'm sure you still love your parents to some extent.  What you need to understand is that if your parents are abusing or neglecting you, they are sick too and need help.  Right now you need to realize that you are worth saving and not all adults are bad.  Your life can and WILL get better.  I don't know where you live and what resources are available there but I would be happy to help you in anyway I can.  Please feel free to email me if you need more help or someone to talk to.  My email is jazzy_59602@yahoo.com.  Please stay safe and reach out to someone.
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i've gone through a lot of emotional issues from the time i was little. My father as an abusive ex-drunk and my mom has always been somewhat verbally abusive. How do i feel about it?I hate the fact that i was never really allowed to have a care free childhood and hate having memories of my dad beating me up or having to leave my house at night because my mom and dad had fought.
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mental or physical tiredness.
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Emotional and physical neglect
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Mental asylum.\nA better class of people!
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The abuse usually only gets worse. Why would you want to put yourself through that again. Hon, your in love with love and what might or could have been. Please think about it before getting back into that again....Nicky
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If by "mean" you mean physically abusive, then call the police.  There are also organizations, such as the Safe At Home Foundation, that can help.  Look them up in your local phone book or online.  \n\nIf you need further help, feel free to privately email me.  I'll do what I can to help.
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I would rather take a beating and get it over with and to listen to someone i love hurt my heart with their hateful words against me.  It weakens the mind and heart.
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Having a physically abusing wife is serious and dangerous not to mention demeaning to you.  While it may not be reported often, because of the stigmatism associated with a man being beat by a woman, it doesn't mean that its not as serious.  \n\nDomestic violence of any kind is very serious, and there are support groups, shelters, and counselors that can help you.  \n\nPlease seek a family counselor to help you get over your physically abusive wife.  You will either help her to stop abusing you, or you will need to leave the marriage for your safety and protection.\n\nPlease call a counselor, speak to your religious leader, or go to a support group in your area.  \n\nDo not ignore this or try to handle it alone.  You should talk to someone about this.  \n\nPraying for your safety and peace.\n\n:o)
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I can totally relate to what you are saying. I live with the same type of thing every day, unfortunately the person in question is my boss. Sometimes I think if I let loose one day the consequenses might just be worth it. Horrible, I know, but this kind of person can cause the most severe and aggressive frustration! My advice is to avoid him as much as possible, which is what I do with her, but should you happen to proceed with a physical confrontation I admit I would find it comforting to know that at least someone had some consequence for their constant crap behavior and maybe will think twice about it in the future.
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Would the best time for you to think about you be when you are being hauled out on a stretcher or in a coffin? If you are being abused, GET OUT. I went through the same thing. Depression made hubby #2 the same way, and his mother thought I was just awful for leaving him, but you know what? Mommy wasn't living with his abuse 24/7!
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both... because human being suffers most..
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Physical health - no. Mental health - yes. You create a dependence for yourself, and it's never good to have a dependence of this nature. It always turns into something worse. It starts as masturbation, and almost always turns into pornography, and all of the crime that follows that. \nThe best way is to learn to control yourself, and do it as rarely as you possibly can. You'll become a lot stronger mentally.
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Violence: Physical force with perpose of damaging or abusing,one.or thing.