why would a relationship ended becos the lady just decided to say it all over ,?
85454
As a relationship grows, you get to know your friend more each time you talk to them. Sometimes the longer you talk the greater you find that the other is not ment for you. Leave it alone. Find another.
837276
no one can be talking for him. so i don't think she is putting those words into his mouth. i have dated guys that were separated and i had nothing to do with their relationships with their wives. just because he slept with someone does not mean that he is moving on for her. it was probably just sex. my guess is that he really does want to move. regardless of the other woman.
951325
Let her know that it was probably something that just slipped out. Everyone makes mistakes, I'm sure he didn't mean to hurt you.  Men just put the foot in their mouth sometimes.
1081819
It means the relationship is over and you both need to move on.
681462
yeah, he told me he said something very important to me but i don't remember and maybe that's why he broke up with me.\nWell hello, i don't see why you would say something important while having sex, your not in all those senses of caring, in that point.
390040
maybe she just fell out of love with you.it is still pretty terriable that she did that to you i don't understand how people can do that to each other its so sad and painfull for the person your breaking it off with why do people have to be so crule?!
695035
It means she's through with you and she's playing a power game.  She's trying to take control of her life and take what she feels is hers so that nothing of herself remains in your possession.  She is really angry with you and wants to make sure that you don't have "any" part of her.  It's not a good thing, unless of course your were less than nice to her?
430281
she wants to break up!
623619
She may have been scared, as well.  She obviously knows she can't do without you now, as she's come crawling back to you.  Personally, it means she's ready to commit now, as she's realized what a good thing she had with you, and that she doesn't like life without you.  \nIt sounds like she was scared before, it is a big step sometimes for people if they get engaged, etc.  I  don't know the actual circumstances, but this is what it seems to me.\nI hope this helps a bit..
265387
Not sure, but if it is affecting your relationship it has to end.  Doesn't matter what they are saying if it brings a wedge between you.  Tell her to use the phone.
934488
She definitely didn't mean what she said. Very bad you didn't get the message. Next time she said something like that, you do something sexy to her like hugging or kissing her deeply with some foundling and so forth - trust me, you'll be surprised to see another "her" in love action (lol).
731231
If you're not torn up about it, let it go. If you tell them "this person said you said this..." the situation may resolve itself.\n\n.
618433
She's certainly got you under the thumb.  It seems as if it's just you making the effort with this relationship.  Do you really want to be in such a one-sided relationship?
1122872
I would let her know where you are coming from. It also depends on what level you are with this person. Are you married? Girlfriend? Dating? In any case, you should let her know where you are coming from and that you want to come to some kind of understanding on how you are going to resolve the issue. \n\nP.S.\n\n2 wrongs do not make a right. Communication is key here. Talk it out.\n\nAdditional Details\n\n1 second ago\nOur relationship is very good because we communicate and everything its just sometimes she says the wrong things and I let her know . . . . eventually\n\n\nMy response: It appears as though she is not to sure how to communicate her feelings and in turn says things that hurt you. She also could be saying these things because she is unsure of how you feel so she is trying to get a REACTION out of you. SHE NEEDS REASSURANCE. Communication is still key.
1127482
Either she's done with you and can't tell you, or she needs to breathe and prefers a complete break for now!!\nI don't know but in either case, it's quite alarming.\nTry to set the communication back.
125620
She probably feels inscure about herself or about the relationship.  She might have had some doubts over night and got all confussed.  She might be scared.  Its normal but I would say to forget about it and move on, if she does this now think about what she might do in the future.
129851
I'd say she's lying, because she wanted to let you down easy. My guess would be she's interested in another guy.