My friend foregets what she says (blacks out) when she screams and yells in anger. Why?
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If what your friend says about the "blacking out" is really true, she may have Dissociative Identity Disorder, formerly referred to as Multiple Personality Disorder.  She should probably see a psychiatrist about this, or maybe start with her family doctor.
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If you are a kind, patient, and loving person you should never raise your voice to another person, regardless of whether the other person raises s/her voice first. It also doesn't matter who the other person is: your mother, your father, your wife, girlfriend, son, daughter, friend, stranger... People who raise their voice are usually very upset. You will be a stronger person if you can control your temper and your speaking level, and they will respect you more. If you never raise your voice to a person, the people around you might stop raising their voices too.\n\nps i don't think it's a good idea to tell people to calm down. people have to come to the conclusion that they are overreacting on their own.\n\nalso, if she yells at you all the time over very insignificant things then she could also be abusing you emotionally.
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look it is not you . so you need to get  your  friend  to talk to you and ask her why is she doing this OK but just be there 4 her or your friend that is what she need and want OK just be there she need you and try no to be mad ta her or she will not talk to you (i know one of my Friend did the same.) hey if you want some more 411 Emil me at (preppygurl0687@yahoo.com) OK go luck i know what is going on i was there to OK
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i used to swear alot because i was surrounded by people who swear when i worked in a factory about 10 years ago.  Training to be a teacher soon stopped the swearing...but also i heard a young woman saying 'F off' to someone and even though she was saying it in a fun way, i just realised how awful it sounds and it gives other people the wrong impression of the type of person you are. ( I do still swear occasionally but it depends on the time and place and i make sure i am not overheard by strangers, with certain friends and as part of jokey conversation swearing can be ok, it is after all just another sound that comes from our mouths to form a word just like all of the other sounds form words too. \n Think of other ways to vent your anger. Exercise can help reduce stress levels . Try and avoid getting to the point when you are so angry you swear, so if you need time out from a situation then take it. Evaluate how much it helps you to get so angry, does it make a bad situation better or worse? What actions could make it better?\n Shouting and swearing are a way of displaying to others how you are feeling and help you to vent your anger. When you get angry your body produces adrenelin getting ready for 'flight or fight' ( to run away from danger or to fight it) try running on the spot really fast ( if you can do it in private) and this will help to use up the adrenaline and stop you feeling worked up and shakey...i do it and it really helps. Maybe take up yoga or something relaxing like that. Good luck, I really admire your ability to recognise your faults and be willing to change. You will do well.
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When I find that I have something to say, but the other person doesn't want to listen, I listen to them first. It doesn't matter if you already know what they are about to say, or what they are thinking, everyone just wants someone to hear them. So after they are done talking/crying/yelling or whatever, then you talk to them calmly about how you feel about the situation. Don't be so quick to blame, just talk. If they still don't want to listen to you, then let them go,  they'll know where to find you once they are ready to listen.
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you may want to seek out an anger management group and pass along the info to your friend. your friend may also benefit from talking to a therapist - clinical social worker, clinical psychologist, etc.
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She might just be half asleep.  People ask for weird things when they're not awake.  Or maybe a neighbor is playing loud music that she can hear and just assumed it was you?  I've done things like that to my parents before (asked them to turn down the TV and it turned out there were just people talking loudly in the yard of the house next door).\n\nIf there's really no music, and she's fully awake, then it might still be nothing, but it could also be a symptom of a physiological or neurological problem.  Is it a normal time for her to sleep? (I don't know what time zone you're in).  Has she been acting odd lately?  Sleeping more or less than normal, talking to herself, anything like that?  If so, she should probably see a doctor.  But if there's nothing else going on, and it's just this one time thing, it's probably no big deal.
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i guess you could report her, or just ignore her, shes just dong that to make yoiu mad, but just dont yell abck or anything cause thats like the only reason shes doing it......
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well i would be pissed off. if she keeps insisting it's fine and she isn't laughing it's not fine. you fucked up. good luck:D
700888
people yell because they're trying to get their point across while their angry  and they believe that their point is the only correct one. By yelling they think they can change the other person's mind which really never works.
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I disagree. Everyone here can only see words- not actions. Obviously if I am making obscene gestures at you right now, that doesn't speak so loud, does it? But if I write these words:\n\nMY THINGY IS SMALL AND IT'S ALL YOUR FAULT!!!!!\n\nLoud and clear, huh?
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well, mabey ur actions made her/him mad at u. u should talk to her/him. if ur friend is REALLY mad, she wouldn't be answering ur question!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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i know what you mean! but you wanna know what i do when she gets on my nerves well, i wanna get on her nerves right back to her so when she does dont look at her make a little tough face like you really dont care and just act like your not even listening than she gets pissed!\nHope I Helped!
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I'd say talk to your friend at a time when your emotions aren't stirred up, and let her know that some of her behavior is bothering you.  She might not realize that you are so upset about it.
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Is it your friend? Keep asking her why she's mad.\n\nIs it just 'some girl'? Forget about her. :/
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this is not the appropriate advice but....\nscream back! you will feel better, if you both scream and make ass*s out of yourselves I think making up is more fun, that and at some point if you are screaming back at him, he will realize that he too is screaming and then see that it's not accomplishing anything.
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aww that's a bit harsh.Just look spaced out alot eventually that person will get annoyed by your lack of attention then the'll leave or stop talking.It works when my friend who was talking non-stop to me I just nodded and went 'um..hummmm'.. I answer her yes or no questions by nodding my head and when she was like what's gonna happen I shrugged she stop talking for the whole day.That gives the person the message to buzz of for awhile.Or just interupt her while she's talking to you and say 'erm..gotta go to the washroom' or 'be right back'.That usually gives the person the message