This guy likes me but I only like him as a friend. A compatibility test showed us together. What should I do?
94220
Oh well, a compatability test.  Well, you should definately date him then...no wait, that doesn't make sense.\n\nLook, you are in a relationship.  You have to deal with that first, long distance or not...you have to respect yourself enough to honor that.  If you want to stay committed there can be no question of dating other people.  That should end the questions right there.  If you aren't sure about the long distance relationship, end it or stipulate that you are going to see other people.  Once you are there you can make a decision.  \n\nGoing on a date with your friend to see what happens does not commit you to him forever, but it can be cruel and encourage him.  It could also endyour friendship (wow, I just broke the guy-code and encouraged you to use the "I like you, but as a friend line".  I'll probably burn in guy-hell (which is probably a lot like ballet performed by drag queens) \n\nIf you don't feel like you are romantically interested in him you should tell him.  By the way, it is okay not to be in a relationship at all, if it comes to that.
827400
Why not?? If you like him...what's stopping you...\nWho knows he might be the one!!\nYour friend will understand, and probably be happy for you!!\n\nGood Luck to you!!
287898
I'm in the same situation. I'm thinking about just letting him come and ask me out. Do you think he likes you? Send a note if you don't think that will work then get a a trusting friend to ask him if he likes you more than a friend. I don't get the blame if it turns out wrong!!!
121525
Ok blue, i know how u feel, so talk to him about your feelings. A guy friend of mine liked me but i didnt cause i just like him as a friend, just like what ur going through. It sucks i know, but i went up to him and asked him if we can talk and so i told him i dont have the same feelings for you. Plus ask him if he is willing to put your guy's friendship on the line if u guys go out, you know what i mean? You guys are probably good friends, right? I know u dont want to loose that,so let him no that. Speak ur mind and he should respect that no matter what.
511814
i think u should just move on....if he doesnt like u...then who cares if hes sooo hot....find another hot guy who likes u for being u..and in the future...u shouldnt care about who ur friends like and dont like...unless they have a really good reason
912395
let the person that likes you that you like his friend he will understand.good luck
730396
You need to decide, do you want more than friends, or nothing?\n\nBecause most likely the friendship is over when you reject him.\n\nThe best thing to do is whatever is best for you.
160451
I THINK THE ONLY WAY TO TRUELY FIND OUT IS BY ASKING HIM..ITS HARD TO BUT THATS REALLY THE ONLY WAY...JUST FLAT OUT ASK HIM..DO YOU LIKE ME AS MORE THAN A FRIEND??
1006695
considering you two are so close, you may just belong together. if he feels the same way, then go for it. \nbut i'll advise you this: are you sure you can risk losing your friendship with him? i mean, what if you break up and then are you sure things will be the same as before?\nthink about it...\ngood luck
518864
Just step back and see this picture as it is. He is not the one for you. Move on. If you want to remain friends and have your feelings all mixed up for his benifit go ahead, because he is more important than you right? I did not think so, so just put this dude in your history book and be thankful he was honest enough to let you know who he really is before you fell more into him.
928405
Take a breath first! You gotta be honest with him asap..the longer this goes on, the more he's going to think there is something between yall that's more than friendship.. Tell him you like hanging out with him, but you like someone else..He can take it, the sooner the better..it's cool that you care so much about hurting someone's feelings..
1042203
its meabs that yes he likes you alot but in the end you guys really dont CLICK so to speak!  You guys are prop more better as friends i think and in the end you will either be friends or ull work it out.  But if he is saying there is no chemistry now then most likely there will never be.  Sorry girl, so times things like this happen.  You should go away together or something first thro to see if you can find the missing link.  If so i wish you all the best, if not its ok you will have a great friend and there is plenty of fish in the sea!\n\nCheers  :)         -SENDING YOU WISHES OK-
768454
Did you talk to him and find out what his motives are and where does he see this relationship/situation going in the future?  If he is think you guys are friends and its just that, then I think you should move on. Its not fair to you if you want a relationship.  So talk to him and see whats on his mind.  Then you will have a definite answer and know what the next step is.
389074
well if you really like him does it matter what your friends think? just follow your heart and it will lead you down the right path. i hope you make the right decision because it sounds like this guy really likes you.  just try it!!!! nothing will happen and if you really and truly like him and you want to stay with him tell your "friends" that they should accept him and if they refuse tell them " hey f**k off!" and just ditch their assiz if they don't like him but you do and their willing to give you up for a reason like that their not true friends. hope you take my advice and god bless!
219109
Of course you aren't bad. If he is a friend, then you obviously have things in common to start with. Sometimes the relationship grows from there to a romantic one. It is tough though when the guy doesn't feel the same way. It can ruin the friendship.
650690
From the way you describe him, I wonder why you care whether he likes you or not. He's a looser, find someone else.
970293
Tell him again and dont let him think there is a chance for something more. I can't promise you that your friendship is strong enough to be there when this is all done, but you HAVE to be straight with him.