I am GAY but I have to marry a girl next month. What should I do?
88410
No No No\n\nDo NOT do it.\n\nFind the courage to get away from those people.\n\nYou are only inviting a world of hurt, for yourself and your prospective bride, by getting married.\n\nGet honest, find some courage, and get out of it!!\n\nYou say that you love a man. Does he love you, too? Can he help you and support you through this? Do you have any sympathetic (gay or straight) friends who can help you?\n\nComing out seems impossibly hard before you do it, but what a relief once you have! Find/build a support group of true friends who will love you for YOURSELF, regardless of whether you are gay straight or type O positive! These people DO exist!\n\nPlease try to find an honest way through to happiness.\n\nYour parents may or may not accept your choices, but if they truly love you, they will come around.\n\nIf there is a specific woman that you are supposed to marry, can you talk to her? Perhaps she will support you in refusing the marriage?
867895
girl!!! enjoy your freedom while it lasts!!! find that iner woman and just go have fun! you don't always need a man to fulfill life!
389155
looks like you are asking this question a lot, but i'll give you a simple answer.  don't be jealous of your lil' sis.  who cares?  i didn't kiss a girl until i was in 11th grade, and i was a popular athlete in school.  just didn't really care about what everyone thinks you should do.  i'm married now to a wonderful woman and am very thankful i wasn't a wild child, sleeping with 100's of women before i got married. and no, it has nothing to do with religion.  \n\nas for your crush, JUST TALK TO HIM!  go up and say hello and be yourself.  you will sit around your entire life and wish you had talked to him if you don't.  what's the worst that can happen?  he says to go away and you go back to where you were, not talking to him.  at least then you know you tried and there is nothing you can do, then you move on.  good luck.
142905
Wait until you're out of school. If it's meant to be, it will happen. Are you worried someone else will grab her up? I'm just wondering why you want to marry her now given your circumstances. If it's just so you'll know she's yours, then wait. You're not ready. Good luck.
430985
Depending on laws there is always annulment if it hasnt been that long ....... or else tell her u know a single guy in the states ill offer to marry her and then u2 can be on ur way lol.
270895
Well, hopefully she will become your wife and you will live happily ever after.  Wasn't that the goal when you proposed to her?  If you are having some doubts, I'd suggest a serious conversation with your fiancee rather than asking a bunch of strangers here.  I hope that it all goes well!
263527
Don't rush, and if she's ready to marry you then she wouldn't be afraid to tell you anything.\n\nJust be good friends for a little while.
600536
you need to get married\n\nIt is a great day to be alive!!\n\nGood Luck and God Bless!!
10915
First of all - you're welcome @ answering your "weird fact" question, lol.  Well, I guess it's alright if you are a girl and have all guy friends as long as it's alright that I am a guy and have all girl friends, which I do.  Nothing wrong with it...afterall, It's not like you will be marrying a girl, so why would you NEED girl friends in your life (unless you are a lesbian, in which case nothing changes).  I'm not predjudice, so it is alright if I use this word freely. :-p
386521
just do it and make sure he marrys the girl so you can keep pounding her
245022
doesn't make you gay completey....you may have a BIG PROBLEM......you have to make a decision sooner or later.  If you like both girls and this guy you say you are in love with you will have to choose mind over matter.  I'd love to hear from you so e-mail me.
13465
girl, or what ever you are. Tell them you have to get to know me, and maybe you got to go to the last resort, the church.  If you believe in God, then you should go. There's always somebody you can at least try in church.  Plus they won't try to get into ur panies as quick as some men.  But I promise you whoever you end up with that's the "one" and trust me you'll know who the one is-remember I promised you- you'll be content with them. It's something about love and fate that just trips me out how they truly interact with each other,comebine perfectly and leave you with an epiphany that yo feel as if it were right in your face.
356349
Dont do it. You will hurt ur parents and she will hurt hers. N u will have lots of prob coping wz each others religion. \nFind som1 ur own religion n get married without breaking any1's heart
579498
tell her that u r GAY!!......\njoking\n\nok so tell her clearly u like someone else but u care for her lot so dont want her to be hurt\n\nand tell her that u ll be a gr8 and loyal fren always to help her............dude girls want someone that cares for them......so she ll be fine i guess!!
925194
Tell her the truth bro...The whole "Gay" thing will backfire on ya because then she will tell everyone you know and then people will think your gay....Tell her the truth...I would rather people think that im an A-hole for telling the truth...then think that im a fag for lying.
718404
Marry her (in a state that allows same sex marriage). But that won't guarantee her acceptance by the Federal Government.
544417
Havent you grown up yet or are you your Momma's little boy, she takes decisions which effect your life. Grow up man, be bold and marry the girl you love. Age is not a problem if the two of you love each other.