No Violence.  No Infidelity.  Divorce due to not "enough" money and "not happy" -?!?
91839
- Money is one of the more important remedy for life.\n- Nowadays Women are more meterialistic the Men.\n- Times are changed. Money plays a major role to decide the depth of the love.\n- If women is given handfull of money everytime, she loves her hubby life anything.\n- But truly one cannot say money alone will not satisfy the life.\n- Best advise is try to earn more money. Stay your own.\n- If you earn and saved money then everything come and joing to you.
470924
Well if divorce is not an option, I can't help you.. Although a loveless marriage is no way to live, it would be better of separating and finding a new love, you can always visit or have your kids visit you...
552253
Divorce is never as easy as some people say.  Seek the guidance of a marriage counselor in your area and spend the money!  It's worth far more than a new car.
780634
I think that if a marriage is miserable and efforts to make it better have failed, a divorce is the right thing to do. So that's a yes from me I guess.\n\nI'm happily married though, so as for my own marriage, I'd say no.
735140
If married no problems but if just living together DO NOT have a joint bank acct,,,,Keep your money in your name and protect your butt,,,everything should be  split, 50/50 including sex,,,,smiles, Good Luck ps Money causes more problems than  any other subject and mode of living,
496595
If you want to have a relaxing time, go to a health spa; marriages are worth plenty more than deserving of ruin for a moment of relaxation. If you think otherwise, perhaps you ought not be married.
691180
I would have to say because people here are selfish and dont want to put the others above their own needs and desires... We live in a selfish and self gratifying society here in the states.... It is supposed to be til death do you part but today it is most of the time til one person is unhappy do we part..... Very sad indeed.... Also states like NV allow divorce for most any reason and that is very sad too.... You need to be committed when you get married and be ready to be married! I only feel divirce is necessary for 4 reasons... Adultery, Fornication , abandonment with no intent of ever coming back and if the unbelieving person wants out and also in cases of abuse to the point one person may be killed and also if the kids are being sexually abused and hurt by either partner and they are not willing to get help or change.... These are the only reasons i believe in divorcing.... This is mainly my opinion here but alot of it is Biblical as well...... I dont know all of the answers to this and i hope others can shed light on this as well!
411816
A certain amount is necessary.  When I was first married we struggled to make ends meet.  We're married 12 1/2 years now and we're in a much better financial place.  I don't have to worry about how to pay the car insurance with takes away alot of the stress.  However, I was very happy then just as I am happy now.  Money is a facilitator, but by itself won't make you happy.
903411
I think Prisons have free divorce help, he needs to ask. If not, the papers are free on line. With no children, and no assets, he should have no problem filing as a low income person in the state, or one of the counties he is incarcerated in. Just needs to check on the computer for prices in each county.
359176
Making peace with myself.  Money is nice, relationship is nice.....but rather have peace with myself above all.  If have inner peace, then happiness usually follows. :-)
912771
If you plan on cheating, then you certainly should not get married.  Divorce is not easy.  It's hard on everyone involved, and cheating is enough to cause divorce.  Only marry for love...nothing else.  It won't work any other way.
947495
My Mom gave me the best advice a long time ago: "Never enter into a long term relationship with someone if your happiness is based on the other person becoming something they are not now. "  Since money is one of the most common reasons for marital discord and even divorce, you need to sit her down and talk to her about what is going to happen once you are married.  Will you have a joint checking account, or will you have separate accounts?  Will she keep working, and if she does, will her money be her own, or how much will each of you contribute to the household? Who will be responsible for paying the bills so that you don't end up getting your electricity turned off, or losing your home?  Can you put her on a budget?  Will she accept you taking over all the finances to prevent overdrafts, which are expensive and can trash your credit rating as well as hers?  What will happen if she continues to do this after you are married?  You are right, she needs to learn to manage her money better, and you should stop bailing her out and make her face the consequences.  You are teaching her to take advantage of you, and if you don't put a stop to it, you will be paying all the bills while she spends all the money she can on unnecessary things.  I'll bet she could have paid you back, she has just chosen to spend her money on other things first.  Sooner or later, you are going to resent her perfect nails and the new outfit she sports while still owing you money.  You need to make her pay you back, even if it is only $20 every 2 weeks, or whatever she can afford.  Work this out now before you get married, or you probably won't be married for long.  My suggestion: put her on a cash budget.  Take away her checks and credit cards, so she can't spend money she doesn't have.  Once she learns to manage her money that way, gradually reintroduce checks and credit cards, as long as she stays within her budget.  It won't be pleasant, but better to solve this now, even if it means breaking up, than to find out after you are married that she can't be reformed.  Good Luck!!
732856
I have everything else in life.  I have an incredible wife, two wonderful kids, a good job that pays the bills, and a house in a great neighborhood.  Money at this point in my life would do nothing but positive things for me.  It can't buy happiness if you aren't happy to begin with.
773204
I never heard that marring for money would make you happy. i was taught it just as easy to love a rich man as a poor one. I married the man I LOVE. \nPs he is poor but works really hard and is a good man to his soul.
195726
I have much REspect for you.Please be STRONG for your children!I am a married woman.I'm 34(he's 35)and I have been with my spouse since high school(15yrs old)!Lately,I have been thinking Alot about divorce!We have had our share of problems in this marriage!(we've cheated,seperated,etc!)Please don't fill like a Failure!You are a mother!Although you may not be a wife,anymore.A mother is the most IMportant thing you could ever do in your life!And you should REspect yourself for that!I have two beautiful daughters as well(ages 12&8).And,they do not want me to seperate from their father.However,I am not happy.I am miserable.It really seems as if we have grown apart throughout the years!Although he will NOT admit it.And he will not leave!Because,he would have to go and live with his mother.He was laid off,collected UNemployment for 6 mths.Now,He has ZERO income.But,it's not even about the money.I have a decent Income.But my money goes I pay all of the bills,etc,etc!With no help from him.He ignores me alot lately.He yells at me if I ask him when he's gonna start to look for employment.We do not sleep together,anymore.(Rarely)!But yet,I won't get rid of him because I am AFRAID!I am afraid of being alone!I am afraid of being a single mom!I do NOT have much support!No family or friends that wanna hear about it!My only family is my mother and she flips out when I mention his name!Because she despises him.And thinks he is an UNfit father and husband,she has even tried to fiX me up with others.Don't get me wrong,He has worked in the past.But there aren't alot of great jobs here in our area.But I thought since he isn't working he would help me around the house more!He does a lil bit but NOT much!He just sleeps constantly,OR plays that damn XboX,or watches Tv 24-7!And it is starting to drive me crazy!We could be tottaly broke need gas,need bread and milk,everything.And he would sit all day and play xbox/or watch tv and act like everythings all good??Please is anyone else out there eXperiencing this with their man/hubby?I would love to hear from you!I would go craZy without this site!lol.I am so ready to call it quits!But,I am just so afraid of being alone.But,It would be so GREAT to find a man who loves me like I love him!One who works,likes the outdoors,fishes,hunts,etc,etc!And one who is good with children!Believe me hun,they are out there!They are just hard to find!But,don't give up!Pray!I bet you time will heal the hurt you are feeling now!And,when you do meet someone else you'll be ready!And hopefully happier than you ever were with him!And I agree with the above look into some support groups they will definately help you!(maybe I should take my own advice,huh?lol)Plus,you may meet someone there you never know.Or at least make some NEW friends!Hey GOOD luck to you!And hey your not all alone dear!You do have us!lol Even though it's just a website.We are all here to help you and give you advice!Sometimes I think I would rather be ALone!Than be with someone who is abusive.And makes me feel Unloved,UNwanted and Neglected!But then again,I might freak out(seriously!)I am just so dependant on him.Even though the marriage is done.And it's stale.I continue to stay?Yes,I am in counseling.But, no that hasn't helped much either!I am on anti depressants,and a whole bunch of other meds.But,I still feel the same.Maybe I'm too afraid to be loved?I don't know what it is anymore.But think of it this way,At least you can be proud of yourself for standing on your own two feet,and raising your children!May I ask why you got divorced after so many years together?Was it your idea or his?If you don't mind sharing.I am really curious about what happened?Thanks!Take Care and good luck to you and the kids!
224542
inner peace ... what good is money if you aren't happy or content?\n\nthey say money can't buy happiness, but I wouldn't mind giving it a shot lol
405024
Mmmmm Everyone has a right to be happy, if your not happy fix it.   Either Love her and leave her.  Or Get counseling if you feel its worth saving.   I guess it depends on how much you love her and how much you would do, to get things back the way they were.