how will i know that a guy is gay?
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The closet gays are kindah secretive and to themselves. They only talk to or want to hang with you at certain days and times and will not welcome surprise visits. I have never met a gay man who keeps a messy house..for some reason they are very clean and present themselves a little more pleasant and more neat then straight men (unless the straight man has a woman that dresses him, buys his clothes, and irons his clothes) amd sooner or later..they will break out that pink shirt. Also if you see them in the company of men more then women then this is a sign as well..closet cases like to keep at least one lady as a friend so their cover will not be blown but the relationship is moslty platonic.  They can be affectionate with women but when things appear to get heated they cool you off real fast.  The flambouyant gays are obvious with their eccentric clothing and purses
117648
It's not like you are actually going to see some one having intercourse with some one else to be able to determine this.\n\nHere's an interesting website that gives other people's views on determining if some one is gay or not:\n\nhttp://www.ehow.com/how_17204_determine-someone-else.html
934578
The best thing to do is to steer the questions ever so subtly to the gay without saying it. If he knows you're gay then it'll be a little trickier, but if not just say compliment a guy and see if he agrees... Worked for me in high school... it's just so much harder cause so many guys have "gay" mannerisms and gays usually play the "straight" (if there is such a thing)...
561433
What a great question! This is something that gays and lesbians wonder all the time. Can someone tell if you are gay or not? Some people believe there is such a thing as "gaydar." Gaydar is a sixth sense that gays and lesbians have to distinguish gay or bisexual people from heterosexual people. \n\nIs gaydar for real? Some people will swear it is. Personally I think that we gays, lesbians and bisexuals develop gaydar as a type of survival intuition. We need to be able to suss out who is and who isn't gay because hitting on the wrong person could be big trouble for us! \n\nYou will find some people who are convinced they just can't tell who is and isn't gay--even ones who are gay themselves. And then there are those people who fool everyone--even the ones who think they can tell. \n\nTo answer your question: Can people tell if you are gay or not? My guess is that they just sense that there is something about you that seems open. Maybe they are just hoping you're gay. You may even be giving off signals that you are not even aware of because now you ARE open to such kind of flirtation.
875448
i dont know the guy probably was gay
785169
Hmmmm....well I suppose he could be gay. But trust me if you keep staring at him and stalking him, whether he's gay or not, he's gonna be creeped out by you.\n\nRelax and slow down. What's your hurry? He knows you're there...and if you quit bothering him (pretend like he's not there) that'll probably peek his interest and bring him to you.\n\nTake it nice & slow.
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What makes you think he's Gay?  \n\nMany Gay people do their 'best to fit into society' by joining up with a person of the opposite sex to keep the appearance of being 'normal'.  They marry and have kids sometimes as well -- all to keep up the facade and DENY who they are to themselves and his family.  The thing is, if you believe this to be true, then first thing is ask him.  If he denies (he will I'm sure), then be on your way if you are that convinced.  Because no matter how attractive you are, sweet, loving etc.. he will NOT change who he is attracted to - it's in his DNA/Biology who he is attracted to.  So do yourself a favor and just walk away from that.  \n\nI hope it all works out for you, but there are no 'sure tests' to be 100%.  If your GUT is telling you he is, then trust your gut, because most of the time, your gut is never wrong.  If your friends have 'gently commented/asked about it' then it is 'for sure' time to break it off.  Do your best not to hurt his feelings and your own feelings.  Be good to yourself and there is NOT something wrong with you that you 'fell' for osmeone Gay.  \n\nGood Luck and be well! :)
1064602
Is he gay? If so, be yourself. Ask him if he's interested. If not, there are other fish in the sea.
422179
i don't no but just ask, or if not tell him u want to watch a gay adult movie and see if he gets excited over it.Plus i think some men are feminine and no necessarily gay. Additional some men are gay and not feminine
817851
Look in all the right places. Mr Wrong is always at the bars and etc... Mr Right might be at a cooking class or a singles group. (gay relationships can be difficult it is not like you can always spot each other on the streets) reach beyond your horizons and desperately seek Mr Right instead of Mr Rightnow....\n\nI told a friend that I was sitting at the house waiting on Mr Right.... He laughed and said no, thats the postman.... He is straight..... (so I went out and searched until I found him.... 4 years now.... Happy I  saved myself for him...
161709
To court my guy friend just to find out if he's realy gay.
1138681
You can tell if your friend is gay by asking him.  \n\nIf you are not gay, you may want to mention how his behavior is unpleasant to you.\n\nIf you are gay, and he freaks out when you ask, you can point out that you're not the one who has been making sex comments and running around naked, and perhaps he should think about his actions.
900414
I think you should just ask him. Does he know your bisexual? maybe he doesn't and feels the same way you do. Don't flirt with him all hardcore either, it will make you embarrased if he is not gay. So i think afterall you should just tell him "I like this guy ..."see what he says. or maybe if your brave just let him know you have a crush.
123920
That is such a stereotypical answer. Acts like a girl... Not every gay guy is feminine... For every type of straight guy, there is a gay guy. Gay guys like sports, drink beer, are outsdoorsmen too. Yes there are those who like theatre, are creative, but there are straight guys like that too....\n\nThere isn't a science to knowing if someone is gay. I would suggest if its someone you are close to, let them come to you with that information... You might want to give signals that you are okay with it. So they feel comfortable. It is a very scary thing, coming out!!!\n\n\n... just a FYI, if a guy likes to dress in womens clothing it means hes a cross dresser, not nessissarly gay. Those making these statements about gay guys acting like a girl, do you personally know a guy who is gay?????
595729
There is no way to know if a girl is gay or not. All woman look and dress their own way. We all sorta look alike in our own ways.\nGirls may think your a nice person and friendly. Theres nothing wrong with that. If they are trying to pick you up .\nIn a nice way you need to let them know your really not in to that kind of thing. They will understand.
812286
If you are really his friend you can mention that you are open minded enough to not care if someone is gay or straight without putting your friend on the spot by asking him if he is gay. If he is in fact gay (and you don't know if he is or isn't) he will tell you when he is comfortable enough to tell you. Just let him know that he can tell you anything and you will stay friends with him because of the person he is, not because of who he likes.
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Well to be honest with you if a guy remotely seems liek he's hitting on you he probably is. As a general rule (99.9%) if he's straight and he's talking to you and or your friend chances are he's up for dating and I can promis you he's atleast thought about it. Out of curiosity you shoudl try asking them when you think they are.