you went through something and she forgave him but later say she wants space and he does not want to?
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though you didn't grab her to hurt her, that's your opinion.did it occur to you;you may have hurt her emotionally.it only takes one time and though you didn't hurt her it was all she needed. i cant say whether she would return or not.its a ticklish situation.but i wish u the best and hope you guys work out your differences.
1150918
My ex girl told me that she wanted to space to deal with a frustrating situation by herself...I said 'your pain is my pain' she said ill be in touch :(
383895
hmmm, a guy just did that to me recently.  She has gone through a lot of thoughts in her head by now.  If you want any chance at all, you need to own up to the fact that you hurt her by not talking to her, and apologize and say you'd like another chance.\n\nWhy did you stop talking to her?
229869
That's exactly what happens to me with a close friend of mine.. \nso i've been thinking about it hard lately .. esp after i tried every way with her.. i talked to her about it many times .. i got mad at her.. i forgave her a thousand times.. so the last thing i decided was to tell her for the last time the way i hate it when she does things that hurt my feelings and told her that now she knows what bothers me and that im not gona talk to her or call her until she thinks deeply about it and realizes that i really get hurt and make sure she wont do it again and is ready to change the way she treats me in order for the past not to repeat itself
420676
Depends on the situation...where you fighting?  I've accidentally called my ex-bf by my dog's name during a fight.  If it was in bed...i've known people who have done that, and i think the reason for that is because they're just not in the right frame of mind during that time.  Whatever the reason, obviously she wasn't thinking straight.  I don't think it means she wants her ex back.  I don't think she apologized because she was embarrassed/upset and didn't want to make a big deal about it.  If i were you, i'd let it go this time.
879329
He means he doesn't want to be totally involved with you, he wants to keep some space.
752170
It could be both depending on the person. it could either mean "I don't really want to be with you anymore, but I'm too nice to say it so I'm just going to say I need space and then date someone else without really breaking up with you and just hope you get the hint" \n\nOR\n\nmaybe you are being to clingy and they just need you to take a step back. they just need you to chill while they get used to having someone around so much. \n\nplus you also have to keep in mind what's going on in their life other than you. if something else is bothering them, they may just want space, not neccissarily from you, but from the world period till they figure things out.\n\nwhatever the situation. take a step back. chill. and whatever you do... let them be. the more you push, the farther they'll pull from you.\n\nhope I've been helpful!
1108855
Who knows. Everyone deals with grief differently and you must give her space.  Just remember its NOT you.
446669
Ummmmmm wait a sec - do I have this straight?\n\nHe cheated on you - you forgave him and gave him a 2nd chance?  \n\nYou later cheated and he won't give YOU a 2nd chance?\n\nWell that about says it all if I have that straight.. he doesn't want to give you that 2nd chance because this is HIS way of getting out and 'blaming you for it'.  I bet he has another 'side'.... I'm so sorry, and realize that you have already punished yourself enough, and that you TRIED to be honorable and tell him the truth, and if you could forgive him and he won't you, he's being a JERK!  I'm sorry /comf!
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i think that he may have possibly overreacted. however, if you only waited like 5 minutes, you're probably not giving him enough space. if you waited a few hours though, there may have been something more. talk to him about it and let him know how you felt when he said that to you. also. listen to him and geta reason for why he said that. a realtionship is about listening and being able to talk to your dating partner about everything andbeing able to compromise when you make a mistake.
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MAY BE SHE WANTS TO GIVE YOU A SECOND CHANCE IF SHE DEPENDS ON YOU SO MUCH - JUST TELL HER THAT YOU ARE SORRY FOR WHAT HAPPENED AND COULD WE PATCH UP - A RETURNED LOVE IS MOSTLY BIGGER THAN THE FIRST LOVE AS IT COMES WITH UNDERSTANDING AND A SENSE OF LOSS
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I guess he felt uncomfortable and did not want to create an unnecessary scene. Don't read too deep into him because I think if he wanted you, you would've know it way before the party started...Sounds like he wanted to avoid any possible confrontation. Some females don't take "moving on" too well -  sounds, like you handled yourself very maturely. Good Girl.
855228
He wants to be with her but knows it won't work out.  Disappear next time he tries that and make him earn your attention back.
900244
Tell her you are willing to give her some space, but you are not going to hang on forever.
752516
Apologize again- letting her know you are not trying to get back together, that you just feel sincerely sorry for what you said and that it was uncalled for etc. She may be worried that she'll have to do the rejecting bit again, and no one likes that!
132797
I think she should move on b/c he has not been having a good time with her (he wanted to break up) so she should find someone else that will actually appreciate her.
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No don;'t take her back she is keeping you at arms length and then when something better comes along you will be gone again. Why put yourself thru the hurt!!!! She is now worrying that she will be alone so you get to play 2nd fiddle tell her to go away!!