How does a guy who is rich, athletic, and handsome fight the perception that he must be conceited?
79310
Well HELLO Mister P! "Dated beneath you" maybe you are more conceited than you think, or just a lazy typer.  Assuming that you are honest to the best of your ability, any woman who gives you a chance will see the real you.
295483
Only when you bring up the issue of whether they own a car.  Then a guy who doesn't have one can let his confidence slip a little.  Other than that, there's no difference.
249956
u can make that guy think you exist by not changing how u  act or look because u still going to be beautiful how u is in your heart never change your ways for a guy do u here me or u can be stupid and look like someone your not I had to learn the hard way from that so act like u was already yourself.
442432
In traditional social standards, the man is supposed to be the head of the family and stuff, the one who makes decisions.\nDespite all the politically correct speech about sexual egality, that image is still very present in people's subconscious.\nBut if in a couple, the woman is largely smarter than the guy, then his decisions are likely to be permanently challenged by the woman, then not only he will be frustrated but he will lose credibility to the eyes of others, like "look at this guy, he's totally dominated by his woman, what a loser."\nSee the picture?\nNow, I think most guys wouldn't mind being with a smarter lady if she's not permanently showing she's superior. So you should ask yourself if you don't act arrogant or at least that the guys perception is that you are arrogant. I think it's more about that than the smartness per se.
681320
it sounds like he has low self esteem. You should point out his good attributes as often as possible.
581737
Learn by watching others. Learn by experience.\n\nGirls like well groomed guys but also guys who are confident and friendly.And a good personality.
339175
People Who Have Not Delt With The insecurities, Tend To Take Their Frustration And Uncontrable Surges Of Emotinal Unbalance To People More in Control Of Their Life, Or Who Seem to have Certain Qualties That They Believe They Lack, Thus Being Your Rose Petel Beauty, He May Lack A Certain Confidence, Warmth And Charm, And Posscess Other Unattractive Elments That Make Him Less Appealing To Women\n\nSo To Answer You Question, Don't Think, Visulsie Or Even Suggest Any Realtion Ship To The Word, Thinking Neagtive Thoughts Only Feed You That Information In Other Ways, Hence It may Make YOu Incomfortable With Love Making......Let It Go Miss\n\nYou Can't Help A Wussy Boy
671369
Handsome is a plus but what I look for is someone who is confident, kind, ambitious, and most importantly.. someone who thinks I'm the bomb.
892530
I admire men who have good control over their impulses and demonstrate good charactert their strength is an attractive and admirable thing.  I think very little of women who have to resort to offering sexual favors to get what they want. Being smart, clever and respected is far more effective. (unless you are bribing your husband to take you to the ballet..that is an altogether different matter and great fun.)
1012004
Be Handsome\nBe Attractive\nDon't be unttractive
37146
A wise man one asked me, 'what is the perfect woman's body shape?' I didn't know of course, so he replied, 'the shape of the woman whom he loves'.\n\nPeople can be easily influenced by what their friends think, men as well as women. It seems to me that men want their friends to think highly of them, perhaps even jealous of them. One of the ways of doing this is to have a 'desirable' girlfriend. Unfortunately, (especially in the US it seems) men are very fixated on having a 'hot' woman, I suppose to make themselves to be seen as successful, or more desirable-\n\nIt's a pity that people can be so shallow, life is not about looks it's about having fun!\n\nSo, it sounds like this guy probably did like you, but then was influenced by others, and instead of being strong about it he succumbed to his own feelings of inadequacy.
788225
Sorry hun, but that sounds like a typical male to me.  He wants to be seen as the stud he probably portrays himself to be.  It was just sex to him and you neither your feelings are attached to it.
933437
I think I am cooler than both of them combined.  I think that because I am so handsome and smart, and I am also talented in many ways.  I am an award winning journalist and musician.  Need I go on?  Also, my girlfriend is extremely attractive and faithful to boot.\n\nThere is no way those guys can compete.
774545
A short story about this topic:\n\nMy male cousin went to my school and was the "hot" guy.  He would not talk to me because I was a nerd.  He went to the same university as I did.  One day I saw him on campus walking alone and looking so dejected.  He wasn't the "hot" guy anymore.  He was just another student among 20,000 other students.  He could not handle it and dropped out of college to get a menial job in our hometown where he could be the "former hot" guy.  \n\nThe moral of the story:  Intelligence and personality will get you farther in life than good looks alone.
698579
Hmmmmmm, here I go being Shallow Hal again, but I can't help being truthful. There first has to be some sort of attraction in the physical sense, and for most of us that means different attributes. After the initial attraction, I listen to them speak and watch how they treat other people. I look for people who are intelligent, but not arrogant or bossy. I like confident women, but not mean spirited or waspish ones. People who show respect for others without being wishy washy or kissing ass also get high grades from me. Most of all I look for people who are confident enough with themselves that they realize they don't have to try and change or "improve" others around them. That, to me is a manifestation of great inner insecurity and a lack of sensitivity and respect for others.
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why on earth u think like that?????????\n\n\n\nyou will be absolutely brilliant if u trust urself ,,, be confident..  you will be assume if u convince urself that ur not ugly,, and that everyone likes u....\n\n*belive me.... when u ask any girl in the world by saying:\nwho would u choose to be with : a successful guy, but he is ugly,, or a hot guy but he is absolutely dumb and not successful...???,, I think most girls would prefer the successful guy.... \n\n\n(((((always think that the inner beauty is more important than the outer beauty))))  that is the most important thing TRUST ME!!!!\n\nlook,,, no one on this earth is PERFECT... give urself a chance.... and i promise u that you will be perfect...\n\nI mean who the hell are u talking with....they are humans just like u ( they have 2 eyes, one nose, two legs..etc) what is so special bout them!!!\n\nyou are number 1.......lol ;p\n\ngood luck anyways ;p
104501
Sometimes it's just a way to cover up feelings of insecurity and inadequacy.  A real man who is capable of feelings and is generous and considerate does not need to act this way.  Bypass a guy who is self centered and a player