If a girl doesn't give an answer when you ask her on a date, does that mean no?
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May be she is waiting for someone else to take him out and at the same time she does not want to refuse you.\n\nYou should call her, and drop the question to her, my bet is that she will she total ignorance to your earlier forms of contact and that means she is not saying no but is undecided, whereas, if she says no on the phoen that this is it, move on.\n\nJust do not remain hanging in the middle.
168505
if when u talk to her she acts differently than with other guys\n\ni would no\n\ni am a chick\n\nlol\n\nand i told the guy i liked tht i liked him and he asked me out the next day fyi
129352
If she is giving you excuses not to go on a date . . . three strikes she is out.\n\nIn most cases she is not interested . . . in you . . . so move on.\n\nIf she tries to become chummy . . . ignore her . . . don't be a wimp . . . be a man and move on.
936261
Well, if you really like this girl, you should try asking her out again.  If the same thing happens, then I would definitely take a hint and not bother again.  I feel if they are interested in you, then they would make an effort to go on that date that you plan.  Sure things come up but if it happens repeatedly, I would take it as a sign.
1048341
Give her a call. She's prbably wondering what happened to you. I can tell you from a girl's perspective that when a guy is given a girl's phone number and he doesn't call either not at all or for awhile, the girl is going to think something is wrong. So you give her a call, see if she is still interested in seeing you, if the answer is yes, then ask her out and be honest with her. If and when she asks you why it took so long for you to call her, you tell her you had some business to take care of and things are just now slowing down. That way you're neither lying nor is it giving her too much information than what you want her to know. As far as her reaction, she may be upset a little that it's been 3 weeks since you've had her number, but on the other hand she'll be glad that you finally called if she wants to pursue something with you. Hope this helps you.
133304
Just be you. Maybe you will feel bad or unlucky if she say "no", but then not forget that she also for some days maybe might think, that her answer was wrong.
564416
if she calls you as much as you call her, if she doesn't respond enthusiastically to your advances then she isn't interested. most girls are honest and obvious when they really like someone
633696
If that doesn't happen so why don't you just go and ask them by yourself =D\n\nthey might be shy, you know.
878008
Rejection is part of life.  If you are that afraid of it, then you shouldn't be asking girls out on dates.
674172
ask her out. she sounds like you really like her. the worst that she can say is no. maybe she really was busy, girls get busy sometimes, just like guys. girls are not so different, go for it and good luck. i agree with the other answer that suggested that you ask her if she is really interested or not. say, I LIKE YOU A LOT AND WANT TO ASK YOU OUT AGAIN BUT YOU KEEP SAYING NO. DO YOU REALLY WANT TO GO OUT? put it in your words. i know that this would be difficult to say but...girls like vulnerability. hope it works out.
1133684
if he says no it means he only wants to be friends. you asked him out and if he wants to go out w/ you he will ask you. obviously, you don't want to wait for him to come around cause you seem to really like him... maybe you should show intrest in other guys and he will ask you before they do! good luck.
146149
Obviously if she is nonresponsive, she is not that interested. Why would someone not respond to someone they had interest in? I've done that before...just tried to ignore a guy. Use a little common sense.
427578
I would take it to mean she has a loving respect for you, but is not interested in a relationship, but you never know...It never hurts to ask.
915246
She might be playing hard to get since you didnt ask her the first time. I mean boys can be slow and they dont make it easy for us to ask them. I would ask her i mean it wouldnt hurt to ask her to the movies. I think she may still be upset with you thats why she acting differently like she just doesnt care anymore. If she starts acting cold and mean then forget about her and move on. IF your sure she likes you then ask her. YOu will never suceed in something you want if you dont go for it. It might end up floating past you.
502369
When you go out on dates, she insists on paying for stuff on an equal basis. ( ie : you pay this time, she pays next time). However if she pays for her own stuff every time, that means she probably isn't interested in you sexually, doesn't want to lead you on, and doesn't want to feel indebted to you in any way.\n\nShe shows a strong interest in your life, asking a lot of questions about your hobbies, family, job, etc.\n\nShe changes something about her appearance just because she knows it will make you happy ( for instance, she gets a new haircut, starts wearing shorter skirts).\n\nShe offers you a sip of her drink, or takes a sip out of yours (Essentially she's telling you she's willing to swap saliva with you !).\n                           and if u wanna ask her\nThere are several cheesy techniques you can use to lower your chances of rejection (such as making a bet with a girl and the loser has to make them dinner) but these kinds of games are unnecessary. If you are straightforward, and don't beat around the bush about what you want, a girl will respect and admire your confidence.\n\nOptimally, you would ask her in a face-to-face setting. However, if that is not possible, either because the opportunity won't present itself or because you aren't confident enough, your best alternative would be over the phone.\n\nAvoid, at all costs, asking through email or any other written medium (Instant Messenger, a note, etc.). Not only do these methods scream "CHICKEN!" they also leave behind a paper trail that may or may not come back to haunt you.\n\nOne way to avoid looking like an idiot is to have something in mind to say for these three possible reactions to your question so you won't be caught off guard :\n\nIf she says "yes"\n\nHave a plan in mind; know your schedule and have an idea to suggest.\n\nIf she says "no"\n\nDon't act shocked or offended. Just be like, "Alright." Then carry on the conversation as if you never asked. Be friendly and polite. Too often guys take a "no" personally and get ticked off. Girls don't admire or respect a negative reaction. The fact that you were able to brush off her rejection so easily may actually raise her interest.\n\nIf she says "some other time"\n\nHave a plan B in case she is busy. If she still acts like she has too much to do it's probably because she's not interested and doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Accept it as a rejection and move on.\n\nOf course, you go into it expecting her to say "yes" but it's, as with most things in life, it's important to be prepared for the worst. \n\nTips on how to ask a girl out\nThe real key to getting women to say "yes" when you ask for the date IS TO MAKE SURE THAT THEY ARE ATTRACTED TO YOU.\n\nIf a woman is attracted to you then why wouldn't she want to go out on a date with you ? It makes sense but most guys don't think of it that way... they miss the point and focus on "how to ask" rather than focusing on raising her attraction.
718357
Guy, no means NO. If you think otherwise, you may find yourself reconsidering that thought in a hospital bed or jail cell. If a girl is playing some kind of games with you where she means yes and can't say so, then that girl is TROUBLE. Find a girl that knows what she wants and doesn't mind saying so.
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She's probably given you enough signals that she likes you and thinks that the ball is in your court and yet, you're not making a move!!! That gets frustrating for a girl.  Why don't you ask her out or anything that would give her a sure sign that you're interested in her and see how she responds.