what do I do when my husband wants to explore with others sexualy.?
86556
You have two options.. Both are extreme.. Become very God-based and spiritual.. Or... D-I-V-O-R-C-E..
631541
You should give me a call. No, seriously...it's totally normal to have this type of attraction. Talk to your husband about it. He may actually be excited by it and you could integrate him into your fantasies. If he is not okay with it, I don't think you should act on your feelings unless you get a divorce.
401297
Sweetie, without knowing what you two have tried in the past, it is difficult for anyone to know what to suggest. Since I, myself am a bi-woman who has been in a relationship with the same woman for about 6 months now, let me suggest what we do. Sometimes we will go to a sexy underwear store and check each other out with different new things on until we are so hot for each other that we have to leave. Maybe go to an adult store and get some kinky ideas there. Into s&m? Spanking? Bondage? Maybe get a new toy or two. Definately get some fantasy magazines. Sometimes we "park" in a secluded place and make-out like teenagers. Have you ever gone skinny-dipping together? How about camping? It is so refreshing to "get back to nature". Find some sleepingbags that zip together. Be creative, hon. Even on a tight budget you could go to the grocery and pick up a few cans of whipped cream, chocolate syrup, and some cherries, Then make a girl sundae out of each other before eating each other up. YUMMY. Have fun and enjoy.
316332
For a minute there I thought I wrote this.Or maybe we've married the same man.lol.Why do they expect us to get all....excuse the saying...hot and horny from boob groping.I really cant answer u but please let me know what people suggest.The only suggestion i have is grab him roughly (u know where) when he least expects it.Let's see his arousement then!!!! lol.
525295
Primal sex is quite often a fantasy of most guys, if I were you I'd have a chat with your hubbie, theres a good chance he will be happy to help you, as long as your not asking him to hit you or anything like that, just tell him that you want him to come home from work and with out saying anything to you, throw you up against the wall, hike up your skirt and rip your panties off and have at it right there on the kitchen table...I serious doubt he will have any problems with that. Talk to him thats the best advise I can give you...Hope this helps, IM me n let me know
938077
Sorry to say this but if your husband is having sex with other men he is either gay or bi and he will probably do it again.  I would be furious because he lied from the very start.  A heterosexual man is not going to sleep with another man so therefore he is gay.
364474
well hun its who u are u cant just shut it off believe me i tried. talk to your hubby see if he would be willing to let u see a girl. be honest with him. \n\ncongrats on being bi and admitting it.
280246
listen.........here is the absolute answer that you need\n\nFOLLOW YOUR HEART! Do you feel that this will make or break your relationship? Don't be influenced by what other people have to say, they don't live your life and they're not in your marriage. If you and your husband feel that this is something you want to explore the F*** what everyone else says it's nobody's business but your own. \n\nJust make sure that you both are completely honest with one another and that you are both completely secure in yourselves and in your relationship. In the end whatever decision you make will be the best one. \n\nBe safe and enjoy whatever you decide!
291578
tell him you have a headache.  That seems to be a tried and true formula.  Unless you're talking about your husband having sex with someone else, in which case I think you should let him have his fun.
592868
THIS IS A VERY TOUCHY SITUATION. I DON'T KNOW ANY MEN THAT WOULD GET SO DRUNK THAT THEY WOULD ALLOW ANOTHER MAN TO RAPE THEM. YOU SHOULD HAVE A SERIOUS TALK WITH YOUR HUSBAND TO SEE IF HE MAY BE HAVING ANY HOMOSEXUAL FEELING THAT HE IS TRYING TO SUPPRESS. COULD ALSO BE THAT HE IS BISEXUAL. EITHER WAY  THE DESIRE TO BE WITH ANOTHER MAN IS GOING TO HAVE TO BE SOMETHING HE IS GOING TO HAVE TO FACE EVENTUALLY IF THIS IS THE CASE. THINK ALSO HAS HE GIVEN YOU ANY OTHER REASON TO THINK THAT HE MIGHT BE GAY. IF SO I WOULD CONSIDER LEAVING HIM. BETTER TO BE SAFE THEN TO END UP WITH AIDS. BUT BEFORE JUMPING TO ANY IDEAS TALK WITH HIM AND PRAY ABOUT IT.
598142
OKAY GIRL, OVER SHARE!!!! I MEAN REALLY.  OKAY, NO.  BUT EVEN IF HE WOULD, SWEETIE THAT WOULD SERIOUSLY STAY BETWEEN US.  HOWEVER, IF YOU'RE LIKE FREAKED OUT ABOUT IT AND YOU WANT TO PLEASE HIM, BUT YOU'RE NOT SURE IF THAT'S JUST DISGUSTING, ALL I GOTTA SAY IS TO EACH THEIR OWN.\n\nYOU DO WHAT YOU GOTTA DO AND WHAT YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE DOING.  IF YOU DON'T FEEL COMFORTABLE, THEN YOU LET YOUR HUSBAND KNOW THAT YOU AIN'T GONNA GET DOWN LIKE THAT YOU HEAR?  YOU DON'T HAVE TO DO SH*T YOU DON'T WANT TO, I DON'T CARE IF YOU'RE MARRIED!
976780
Just sit him down and tell him that u like women and that if u don't want me to be with a women I wont cause I love u and respect u. But if he don't mind  which alot of men wont then tell him that before u are with a women u will let him know so that way he will trust u and it wont be cheating. I'm bi curious and my husband knows and he doesn't care as long as I tell him when I will be with a women so he wont be in the dark. And he knows that I kissed women and it doesn't bother him. But n e ways u have to be honest with him because every relationship should have 100% trust and u don't want your relationship to be based on lies....
889300
Just do it....Your husband is one of the maucho guys that wants to be the pursuer and is turned off by the female that is the aggressor in the equation of marital bliss.  \n\nIf I were you----I would do the tease thing---the sexy lingerie flaunt it in his face routine and then give him the turn down treatment when he WANTS what he WANTS!-----  Let him see how it feels to be rejected for advancements.  \n\nYou should really communicate what you want in your marriage relationship----Open up to your spouse and tell him of your sexual frustrations---"IT LIKE HELLO---MCFLY are you home"\n\nPleasuring yourself is healthy don't feel guilty about it....It's a great stress release ----Maybe you should watch an X rated movie when he's not home and just get the feel of yourself.  Sometimes those kinds of movies are necessary to stimulate the brain!
168020
Sharing your sexual fantasies with your spouse is a great idea and can definitely spice things up. A little alchohol before sharing would help most of us.\n\nSharing your fantasies with other people is a very bad idea.
431654
Most men want a threesome.  I think you need to have a long talk about why you don't like the idea, and why he wants another woman.  Inviting others over for group play can wreck a marriage if the marriage isn't 100% sound.  If there are no hidden agendas, jealousy, marital problems, homophobia, group play offers a new dimension of pleasure to love-making.  \n\nIf both of you are not completely happy and secure in your marriage, I would advise against it.  But please don't reject his fantasy outright.  \n\nIf you do decide to do it, you pick the girl, make all of the arrangements, discuss ground rules and get a hotel room.  You are granting his biggest fantasy, keep control of the situaton.
1126553
If you love your husband, and you want to maintain a sense of enjoyment in each other, you have to grow together and have fun.  This means discovering each other anew, trying different activities that are fun, communicating like you used back when you were dating and getting to know each other.  People get used to the daily grind of life - once you get a sense of fun with each other back, the sexual attraction will blossom again.
901256
I feel the same about my wife.  I still love her but I look at other women & find them sexy & want to be unfaithfull but I have never done it.  It's a difficult one but all we are doing is denying ourselves a beutifull sex life.  I think all that you could do is have casual sex with no strings & try not to let your partner find out.