Should I try to patch up with my girl?
81000
You should be asking yourself this. I think it has something to do with what is inside of you...its also difficult to deal with someone elses rejections. if she is rejecting you then why bother to torture yourself anymore and just move on...really there are plenty of fish out in the sea.
240969
if that's really the case, just continue on loving her and caring for her... but if she keeps on doing what she's doing, talk to her. if it didn't work.... maybe she's not for you.. communication is one of the MOST important things for a relationship to work and last
601180
I don't think complicating things would be a good idea. Though if you really love her and feel that you have to express it. Then you could tell her. I mean, that's not going to ruin their relationship. You're just trying to be honest. You're feelings are also valid.
37636
NO! Would you like your girl to do that 2 you. IF they have an understanding(and you should find out) IT doesn't matter. Don't mess with it!
931603
i sure hope so because, im in the same situation and although you want to date around, ect., there is still that small chance of getting her back or realizing you are the one. dont push it but at the same time, dont wait. best!
246920
Well, you just learned the first lesson of love. You cannot have your cake and eat it too. Unfortunately now all you have is crumbs on your plate. It's not up to you now, it's up to her. And after the way you treated her do not be surprised if she is not to warm to the idea of getting back with you.
644808
Keep doing what you are doing, eventually you will get over it.  Never change something unless it never poses a problem.  You might be a little nervous, but that is ok, because you love your gf. Show more love and consideration still, someday you will see the appreciation.
1033069
If you've been dating for 2 years, it's easy to get into a routine. It's time to stop and really think about your relationship and whether it is holding you back or acting as a positive in your life. \n\nIt sounds like you guys have been through some rough spots, but before you break up with her, I think you need to ask yourself whether you think the good outweighs the bad. \n\nAsk yourself...\n1. What are the good and bad things about your relationship? Make a list.\n2. For each of the bad things, what are you currently doing to resolve the issue? Is there something you could try? Do you think that she would work together with you to resolve it? If you do not think there is a solution for the issue, are you ok with that being a permanent part of your life?\n3. Are both of you guys heading in the same life direction? Do you have the same goals? Is she "The One" ?\n\nI think once you think through these things, you will be in a better place to decide what the next step is. Relationships take up a lot of energy and time that you could be devoting to other, more positive things - friends, family, etc. etc. Make sure that this girl is a positive in your life. \n\nIf you think that it's just not possible to fix the rough spots, you should tell her that you guys have grown apart and that you need to go your own way. It's going to be tough, but you will be a happier, stronger person in the end. You should be with someone who respects you and loves you. Don't settle for less.
72699
Yeah, but you might get popped for it. Make sure she isn't in the company of a big brutish boyfriend.\n\nThen again, she might take care of the issue herself. Watch that knee coming up as you hug her...
434675
You cant dump a girl without hurting her, but she will get over it in time. So you should not worry about hurting her bc you are going to but you shouldnt worry.
1027671
yes.....become friends first...if you love her wait to see if she loves you...go from there...
522098
Hey man, I think you should sit back and really think about your relationship, the first thing you should consider is her consideration of your feelings and perception of the situation  in general. If trust is there AND... a MUTUAL level of respect for each others feelings is there, somehow things will work, I feel once those things aren't in place your outta gas.
1113389
please take some time and wait... for sure he will talk to you again and patched up things... sometimes love needs some arguments to spice up the relationships
715625
You're afraid of commitment. If you love her, or care deeply for her...just run with it. You need to trust this girl. Long term relationships can be very rewarding. You should give it a try.
1082373
Commit to her! If you’re not ready to make a commitment, break things off with her. Otherwise, you are just using her.
137246
No matter what happened to cause this, it's up to you to get in touch with her and fix the problem.  You have to be willing to forgive and go forward.  You start out by letting her know that you love her and that are willing to have an open mind about whatever choices she had made in her life and go from there.  Now if she's not willing to talk right then and there, let her know that she can always call you no matter what.  One other thing, never pass judgment on her.  Give advice, but let her know that it's her choice.
437811
love her for who she is and just ignore the glitches. she's been through alot and she needs your love and support. she might, at times, need time to be alone, and at other times need to talk your ears off. just be there for her.