Whats ur reaction if u found out ur adopted?
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Oh Thank GOD!\n\nTHAT EXPLANES EVERYTHING....
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i wud look into his eyes, melt, then give him a big hug and ask if i cud see all my dead family!! have a reunion!! xx
530885
how do u feel about that
826427
so you found your son
750872
Well, the good news is, you can contact the adoption agency your parents adopted you from. Ask your parents...they know where they got you.\nThe bad news is,  it's going to cost at least $100 CDN to start the process...usually the agency contacts your biological parents...but if they don't want you to know who they are, you're at a stand still. The agency can't give any information they are not authorized to give. So, be prepared for all possible outcomes.\nGood luck.
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if i were you i would adopt. if you believe all things happen for a reason then maybe your suppose to adopt a child. and something good will come from adopting a child. you could be saving a childs life. and i dont think blood relation will really matter if you love the child.
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No I am not adopted.  I think it is PATHETIC that you get teased!  Just remember this...you were a very BIG blessing to the parents that adopted you!  You were SO wanted!\nAlso, a womb is just a greenhouse.  The parents who RAISE you are the real gardners!!
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Why would you want to REVERSE AN ADOPTION?? \nI am going to assume that the reason for wanting to do this is that you are no longer going to be with the natural parent of this child and you want out of the responsibility for that chid as well. If that is the case it is the most selfish thing I have ever heard of! You agreed to be a parent to that child!! This is as bad as parents that skip out on their natural born, you chose to be a parent to this child and now you are choosing to leave it behind. Imagine what you are doing to this childs self image and esteem!! Have you really thought about what you are doing?
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We have adopted several families...and were adopted once....The reason we were adopted was because we were totally down and out because my husband had a heart attack a month before Christmas, we had not applied or expected to be adopted, so it came as a total surprise to us and the children, and the group of people that adopted us went all out.  They arrived on out doorstep a week before Christmas with a tree, and a good months worth of groceries including everything we would need for Christmas dinner.  Tons of toys for the kids delivered by Santa himself.  It was a local factory full of people who heard about us and just decided to organise it.  It was a bit embarrassing because we were used to being on the giving end, not the recieving end, but it was a true blessing.\nWe have adopted many many families threw the years.  You can find names of families threw churches or local agencies like Federal Indepence Agency (what used to be call the welfare office)  They will supply you with names and ages and sizes, needs and wishlists.  Organize people to help and donate items, we usually gave each person that offered to help a name and the list for that name and they would buy and wrap those items.  Don't forget to get food as well.  A gas card is also helpful.  For one family we also took cash donations and pre paid their winter propane bill.  Just use your imagination, and remember to treat the family with dignaty when you deliver, as it is alway embarassing to families (often single mother's) to be on the recieving end.  Merry Christmas...giving is the best part!
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Yes! I have an adopted daughter and I have twin girls. I love all the same but there is a difference in the closeness I think because I gave birth to the twins
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I will wallow and cry. I will stare endlessly at her picture, trying to figure out what when wrong, what i did wrong and how I can get her back.\n\nThen, I come to the realization of the fact that we are just too different to ever make it work. I get up, dust myself off and look for someone else.
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My heart goes out to you. You can change and this is how I did it. \n\nI was the same as you, when a young girl. I was so worried about what people would think, that I would cross the street rather than take a chance on being snubbed. I constantly worried  about my appearance and worried I would do something stupid. I was a mess! \n\nOne day, I was sitting by myself at home and reflecting on how unhappy I was. I came to the realization that I was far more concerned with myself than anyone else was. I decided from that point on, that I wasn't going to let anyone, or anything, take away from me, my sense of self worth. I was going to be happy and to heck with what anyone else thought. I stopped crossing the street to avoid people and found that many actually said hello before I could. I made myself smile, when inside I was scared to death. People returned those smiles! \n\nMy transformation took a lot of effort and bravery but I did it. I am well liked by my peers and have many friends, I would never have found as my old self. I am no longer shy or embarrassed to meet people. If they like me, that's wondeful; if they don't, they don't know what they are missing.\n\nRemember, you are a special and precious human being. You have as much right to be happy, as anyone else. Go out and grab it!\n\nI'll be rooting for you!! Give us an update in a few months and let us know how you are doing. A lot of people care what happens.
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If he's been living with you for all these years, i think it's best if you tell him. Hearing you're adopted is tough enough.. hearing it from strangers that are actually your birth parents would be terrible. Tell him, let him know you love him no matter what and tell him if and when he's ready, then he can meet the other parents.
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I am not adopted. But adoption is an issue close to my heart. Trying to share my thoughts here:\n\nIf you really are bothered by this question, I think you should explore this;  no one can blame you for it! As midn'tsmokerchic says, it might be a good step for you.\n\nBut the responses, in short term and long term, might depend on the personalities of the other people involved. Would there be a way to contact your birth-mother's parents, siblings or friends first? This might not only let you learn more about her but also help you learn about her husband and other children before meeting them.\n\nGoodluck to you!
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LOL as preppipunkboi said or they  adopted a child :P:P (or an affair occured :P:P... but preppipunkboi is right
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God did not choose you to be adopted. Your birth mother did.  Your birth mother did the most unselfish act by giving you to a person that she thought would be better for you than her.  It is too bad that your adopted mother didn't have disciplinary  skills.  Hitting a child only promotes hitting.  Don't get me wrong a light spank on the bottom when children are to young to reason with is OK.
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Ask your adopted parents. And/or the adoption agency.