If you love a friend but he doesnt know you love him, what do you do?
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just continue offering a pure friendship. just be a true person to him by showing who you are without telling what you feel towards him. wait for the right time. it will come without saying any words. just wait and try to have fun with your other friends. then you will learn what exactly you feel for him. but if that special feeling remain, then you can take the risk. \n\ntelling him will be a big gamble to you, you may just simply loose him, or if he have a "feeling" for you, you will not find his sincerity for you will always think that he just "love" you for not offending you or hurting your feelings.\n\nthat's the hardest part of being a girl-you have to wait for the person you like to "approach" you but sad to say those people approaching you are just "ordinary people" for you. \n\nbut then you felt that bursting feeling can't be hold for awhile then - - tell him without putting down yourself.\n\nmake it simple on telling him, like, :i don't understand myself, "friend" but this thing is new to me - why i always  think of you, and sometimes i want to have more time from you... then smile and wait to his reaction.\n\nkeep your cool.
859146
u can ask one of ur friends or one of his friends to do that\nby indirect way \njust ask his friend to ask him by silly way without know that u who sent him about if he loves u or not\nhe may feel shy from saying it to u face to face\nso he cant feel jelouse because he is allready feel shy from even say he loves u
368695
Seems like your hasn,t the same feelings for you , or he would have asked you out.Don't lose your friend over a love that never is going to happen.as i bet she didn't even know.
278377
Hello,\nWell u are somewhat luckier than me. I loved a girl and when she found out, she stopped speaking to me, and till date she avoids me.\nI suggest you tell him frankly and truthfully about your feelings for him. He will either say yes or no. If yes, then I expect to be chosen as best answer (haha, joking), but if no, then you just have to face it. It wont be the end of the world trust me. U can still have him as a friend. I dont think he will react like the girl I loved. \nRelax, love takes time, if he says no, then u should still be nice and friendly to him, and he will fall in love with you. \nAll the best!!!!!!!!
172723
you know your in love when you and your "friend" feel sum thing special in side \n\np.s give it time yoo'll know
613015
Do you still have feelings for him? If you do try him out again if not tell him frankly that you would rather stay friends if he cant handle that then shame on it all.
159653
Love is strange in its own magical way. Love is like a dam. Once it's released, you never know when the flow will come to an end. Right now, your love is still flowing all these years. If you really want to forget her that much, then do something different to approach this thought process. If you know she loves you as well, then go get her. Don't waste time crying in your hear...in your soul. If know she doesn't feel the same way, then think differently about how you feel about her. Think of it as best friends kind of love: you love her because she matters to you greatly and that your friendship for her will never change. Accept this "new" change of yours and think that everyday. Better to be friends than to be in that hell hole of unforgiving love. Sometimes to have a friend love you is just as loving as having that special someone by your side. Try to move on each day if you can and just remember you loved someone who was wonderful and great, but with conditions couldn't happened. Some where in life, you are bound to find someone new. It might sound a little stupid, but maybe the person who you been looking for could be right in front of you. Just keep a clear head and watch for hints. Maybe the person has already been hinting they have feelings for you and you just haven't realized it. I hope I helped in some way.
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If he was truly your friend, he would have already forgiven you.\n\nsend him a note telling him how you feel, and ask him to respond. If he doesn't...well perhaps you should move on.
604109
he's right you cant, it is hard to love some one who doesn't feel the same but if you don't want to lose their friendship you just need to let her go, and realize that all you will ever be is a friend. and love her as a friend. and let it be.
45348
try to become his great friend then finally tell him how you feel then he will probley tell you how he feels then it might happen to work out.
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You will never know the answer till you ask the question - TO THE PERSON YOU WANT THE ANSWER FROM.\nHaving not asked him how he feels, you are just assuming he loves you. \nWhat are your feelings in this matter? Towards him and otherwise? Do you love him? If so, have you told him that you do?\nYou say you've tried waiting for him; is this something he is just supposed to figure out on his own.\nIf you care about him and have remained silent yourself about the fact, why should he even be expected to come to you.\nThe best policy always is communication. Never to assume you know the thoughts and/or feelings of any person other than yourself.\nBy not approaching him with your questions, you have in a way, set him up to fail from the start.\nTalk to him. You may be surprised. What if he thinks the same way you are thinking and is waiting for you to say something? Well, then you will have both lost.
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I wouldn't recommend telling him you love him if you've never spoken to him before- maybe it's just me, but that might freak someone out a little bit!  You should start by saying hello, make some small talk, then leave.  Next time you can make more small talk and gradually increase getting to know him over a few days/weeks/etc.- and letting him get to know you!  Let your friendship progress and maybe something more will come out of it.\n\ngood luck!
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Just be honest with him.  Tell him that you love him.  Of course, you do have to brace yourself just in case he rejects you by not wanting to take your friendship to the next level, but that's better then where you're at now, sexually frustrated because you love someone but they don't love you in the same way.
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If he doesn't talk to you, may be you will write him an e-mail. Write him everything what you feel. If he loves you, he will understand or at least he will know your feelings
200188
Hmm well if your friends and you hang out alot then maybe you should tell him that you like him if you drop the "Love" bomb on him he won't know what to do or say that is unless he likes you too or feels that way. this is from a guys prespective so maybe listen a lil to my advice
207854
well if you say u love somebody u should know them because i mean how can you love someone you don't know all that well?
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Don't be at his beck and call.  Give yourself some time away from him.  He will eventually realize what a great friend you are and start to miss you.  Good Luck!!