To Ladies: How long should a guy wait before he calls after he met her at a club or anywhere public?
97669
LEAVE A MESSAGE!  There is something disturbing about people who do not leave messages.  It is almost like they do not want to leave a trail or do not want to appear as if they are needy.  If you leave a message - keep it short and easy...  she will appreaciate that instead of a blank call.  Do not wait more than two days...  she may forget or think that you are 'trying' to make her wait.  Do not play games... be upfront...
1082506
you should wait for quite a while like maybe a week or so. you dont want her to think that she has more control over you. you want to be in control. then once she has your number, and she tells you to call her later or tomorrow, dont call her, wait till she calls you, that proves how much she actually cares for you and that your in control. make an excuse on why you didnt call her back.
861761
Call him if you want.If he said you could call him maybe that was a hint that he wouldn't mind you making the first move:) It's 2006 NO Woman has to wait for ANY man to call.LOL So do it!!!
158603
His just proably very busy and his thinking about you. Maybe his thinking about what to do with you next. Relax you dont want to scare this guy away. I've been there and done that. Its not cool becuase you hurt yourself for what you did. Just go with it and get to know him first. Don't jump to the marriage part. you guys just met.  I really think that there's things he needs to do and haven't had time to call you.  GIVE HIM THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT!!!!  unless you go out one day and caught him with someone else then just look at it like you don't care but don't let him see you be hurt. " Those who wait will be reward!!"
1026348
take some initiative and call him,let him know you had a fun night and you enjoyed the conversation and all that. He probably didn't know what do to either and didn't want to be too forward or overstep any boundaries.So if you call him I think that would make him more comfortable and it would be easier for him to "make a move" the next time you go out.(hopefully there's a next time) Good Luck!!
68572
I would say too soon.  In my single days, I never shared my number until a few phone coversations with the other person!  I always asked for their number and blocked mine when I called.  I would wait a few weeks or even a few months...but that's just me.\n\nMy work doesn't even have my home number, just my cell - I'm very secretive about that.  :P
122515
If you're just "talking" to him and you've had sex with him, it's a little late.  2 months seems an awful short time to know someone before you have sex.  I doubt you're going to get a commitment from him.
982033
depends. i would probably wait until he surpised me or something. and the moment was right. depends if he is just a f*ck buddy for someone you might see you spending time with alot.it just depends.
951866
Forget about it after 3days.  Yea, the guy asked for your number but it could have been because he thought it was what he was supposed to do after you two where hanging out that night or because he wanted to look cool to his friends for getting a girls number at some party. What ever his motives are, this guy is a loser and you should totally forget about him!
660992
do not call first, wait for him to call you!
700683
Most women with class and self respect have a time limit to when they will have sex with you, even though she is sending sexy signals , the signals are to let you know that when she is ready she will have sex with you but until then they will play coy and flirt with you like crazy. for me  i have 4 month rule.  and the reason for the 4 month rule is to make sure that the guy is all he says he is. and i will tell them from the beginning that i have a 4 month rule right away it weeds out the get em and hit em guys. and for me and my experiences not many guys last but the true man really do and for those who have waited the wait is well worth it . and that's when i know that i have a pretty decent guy lol
1088344
Maybe he is not ready for any kind of relationship just yet maybe he might be testing the waters before he try it. I don't know but maybe the reason why he didn't want to call you is this you are out in a club or bar and he bought you a drink and you exchanged numbers. Well guess what? He was testing you and seeing what kind of girl you are....some guys do that for the sake of there manhood.\n\nIf he hasn't called you by now then he may never call so move on and have a fun life and if he does call then maybe it was meant to be. :)
604266
i think you should wait til you have been with him for at least 2 months!! good luck babe!!
195616
no one should put a time limit or expect anything in any certain amount of time. it will happen when you are both comfortable with one another. dont try to rush it, four weeks is not a long time. if you want to charish that moment then wait. building momentum and imagination is so sexy. i think it means more to wait and build on something more than sex. wait cause you already know it will be worth it.
564715
Only if he wants to. If he is actually wanting to date her, she will be very happy to know he is still interested in her to the point he would like to call her now. Personally, if he doesn't call the next day just to say he had a nice time, I write him off and move on since I believe he is trying to play the coy thing and I don't care for games. I think he should go for it, just not gush when he calls her. He could use the call to set up another date for early next week if that's what he wants to do. If not and he just wants a friend, it is irrelevant as to when he calls her since he just wants to shoot the breeze. He should call her when ever he wants. Hope this helps!!
218116
The next day. If you met her in the evening, call her the next afternoon. As someone above said, don't call her after 9pm, & don't call before noon in case she likes to sleep in. =)
614857
if i were you i would call the guy again and if he still doesn't call you, you should move on to the next.don't let anyone have the upper hand on you.most likely he's no just seeing you and that's why he hasn't called.on the other hand he could have something going on in his life right now that's consuming all of his time.if it's meant ot be it'll happen no matter what.in the meantime go out and enjoy life.