is it  ok to date a guy that doesnt like you but just want to have sex with you.?
97658
only if the feelings is mutual. if all you want is to have sex also, then do it. your probabaly young and when your young, its all about the sex. the serious stuff will come later. enjoy yourself and him. `
690074
You might want to really think about this when the situation isn't right in front of you, kind of like you're doing now.\n\nThere is a lot of room for variation in "I don't feel like having sex".  Are you feeling like you don't really feel like it much, or are you feeling like you REALLY don't want to have sex, that it would be a miserable experience for you?  \n\nIf it's a matter of not being in full mood, maybe he could be the more active partner and you can be more passive.  I don't think that anyone should have sex against their will, but sometimes I used to say no and it wouldn't have really been a big deal to say "yes" either.  Guys don't always need to have extended sexual contact and this kind of time would be a chance for him to sort of have an express lane sort of experience and then go to sleep.\nIt's possible you could become more interested in more extended lovemaking, or maybe you won't.  Who knows?\n\nIf you REALLY don't want to have sex, perhaps you could make a date with him to have sex the next day or in the morning or later that night or...\nwell, you get the idea.\n\nYou could even tell him why you don't feel like having sex--too tired, too worried, whatever.  My experience is that my guy doesn't really want to hear about it and he backs off.\n\nIt's too bad people's moods don't line up better sometimes!
874556
You are entitled to withhold sex whenever you want.  I think, however that Love is not demonstrated just in sex.  Does he do other things that make you feel like he loves you, does he care about your well-being?  about your interest? does he treat you with respect and affection?  If he loves you he would not want to hurt you and confuse you.  If it was me, I would stop having sex, and would start simply dating.  I just want to say that you want a guy who is certain that he wants you and wants to work on the entire relationship not just sex.
1075381
he sounds kinda sketchy.  If you like him go out, but i'd let it play out before i had sex. He might be okay, or he might be a creep.  BUt you won't know unless you go out with him.  \n\nWell, unless you can tell he's a creep already.
467713
Not all guys want sex, I know that from experience. And I think you can get a date, but you are not allowing it to happen. Just relax about it. Go on dates, but don't commit yourself to a steady relationship unless you are positive that the guy isn't like your ex. And some men end up being right, some don't. Alot of times you gotta feel the hurt, before you can find happiness.
188625
If he doesn't want you then you should start dating other people.  Your goal shouldn't be to make him like you, make your goal to be more attractive to guys in general if this is what you want.
1129251
depends on how old you are,if you're below 16,I'd Say yes it's too early,if you're older then I'd say there are no real rules,what really matters is how do you feel about having sex with him? Do you trust & love him enough to take that next step?And more do you feel like having sex ,do you feel ready for it? According to me it's the only valuable question you should ask yourself,your feelings have got nothing to do with any schedule.
839098
I think that you can safely "tease" him for at least a month while you date...you're going to find out more about him, and he will find out more about you.  That will make that eventual sexual encounter so much more meaningful and satisfying!
31479
I'd have to get to know him better, he might be a sex freak, for all I know. I would tell him I want to know him more before going out and if i don't like anything about him, dump him.
1077237
If you feel right about having sex with him then go ahead. But it would be best to wait a while. If he keeps asking you constantly then dont do it. I've been use also for sex. I thought he really liked me but he didnt. He ended dumping me in a few days. Just take your time on sex. Dont rush it. Enjoy both of your company.
483578
join the club honey. i'm with a guy that wants us to be friends one week and then friends with benefits the next wekk....well, it really does suck to only be wanted for sex, but at the same time....he aint going anywhere else for it is he. if you're comfiortable in that type of relationship...then go for it
380107
You have to decide for yourself, can you see yourself with this person for the rest of your life and are you sure that you arent jumping into the first thing that seems like a relationship without getting to know the person. sex shouldnt be an issue until you have become best friends with him. take it slowly that way you won't get hurt
910783
He doesn't want to date you, he's hoping that your horny enough just to have sex with him, he wants to be your sexually rebound guy.
1086534
This guy sounds like a jerk and yes he will use you and then dump you. If he does not love you enough to respect your wishes you need to get rid of him. I'm very proud to see someone who waits til they are married to have sex. You Go Girl!! I know it must be hard because you love him but you will find someone who respects you and your values. Don't let this man pressure you into something you don't want to do.
608723
look...dating sometimes is not the answer...\ni don't know if you should date him or not....but first you have to be sure that he wants to date you....if he doesn't want to date you then don't....coz like this you will make your self a whore running after him....\nand don't feel that you are a whore if you don't date him...\njust forget it....and live life the way it was
1058430
I think you already know how he feels about you. You said it yourself,  He just wants to bang you," nothing more"  and you know this.  Either enjoy the ride, or look for something serious elsewhere
326692
Let me give you a guys perspective, if you give us what we want, we will always take advantage of you. After that starts, you will always end up with guys that only want sex, and it will be that much ahrder to find a guy who loves you for you. Thats what you want eventually isnt it? On a different note, its about the stupidest thing you could ever do.