why do married men look for somebody else?
84702
Most people are just not content. Pain and simple. If a married guy looks your way and you catch him , he will someday cheat on you.
864674
Guys he has to be married because the guy asking the question is married. You just need to go out there and keep lookign they are out there but you just have to take the time to find them. I am in NC and was looking for the same thing. Just keep posting personal adds you will find him soon.
54219
Some people do that because they may be afraid of committment. Others because they have a trust problem. They had bad relationships in the past. So they have a hard time trust their spouse. Or because they are stupid.
868006
so true, I agree with that and have found myself in that position but becuase my parents braught me up right I know not to go after a married man, or even in a relationship, there are plenty men out there that are just as good as the married ones or taken ones, leave the ones that are married alone and if they have difficult times in there marriage they should be telling there wifes before looking at another women, so to the females and males when you know someone is with someone else just be a friend not a sex friend and find someone else that may simulate that one you want, and thanks for making this one so much better then the rest of the questions on here and you know something else we were all born with a brain and taught how to use it wisely, we know right from wrong so come on, were not stupid people in this world, just remember to use what was given to you from the time you were born!
250863
i know far more unhappy married men than happy married men.  i do know some happy married guys though - and there's no rhyme or reason to which guys end up happy and which don't.  it seems pretty random.
261564
Because they know they have lost you and that you ment more than the gal he decided to cheat on you with. He wasnt thinking when he did it. Trust me, My husband did it after 3 years of marriage, he NEVER did it again, He said it was the most stupid thing he had ever though of doing and he really didnt think of the consquences,  we have been married 10 years now.
1187846
It's because some women are very greedy and they just want what they can't have.  Have you every wanted something, but were told you couldn't have it?  It's like that.  I'm not saying it's a good thing.  On the contrary, I think dating married men or women is terrible, but the reason they do it is because if they know someone is unatainable (married or seeing someone) they will go after that person to prove that they CAN have him or her.  I'm sorry about this double-date thing, by the way.
600835
When you find out where to find them let me know!  I work with a lot of police officers from different agencies so I'm around men all the time.  It seems they all want crazy women.  I'm strong and independent, almost to a fault... so I know what you are talking about.  Just know that it isn't anything that you do or don't do that make them wander.  Some men just cheat.  Some cheat because of reasons they think justify it.  I think there is no justification. period.  I have a lot of male friends and I could tell ya some stories!  (probably a lot of the reasons I'm single)  Don't get me wrong, MOST of the ones married don't cheat and are great guys.  But to some, it is a sport.  Feel free to email if you want to talk about it more.
153872
What makes you think that if he leaves his wife for you that he won't later leave you for someone else.\n\nMove on... find your own man.
104317
I think men cheat because they need to know that they are still desired. \n\nI feel they reach a point in their marriage where they know in their heart that they are loved by their wife....but they start to question whether they have been all they need to be. Perhaps his wife doesn't tell him how "necessary" he is anymore. Perhaps his wife doesn't seduce him the way she used to. Perhaps she doesn't brag about him to her friends the way she used to. He needs to know he is still worthy. \n\nSo one day.....someone notices him.......and man...it just feels so good to be noticed again! And then maybe he sees her again the next day......and the next day. And her smile starts to become addictive. He becomes intrigued about who she is......and why she has noticed him. It might start out as a smile.......but it will become a kind comment.....and then a need on her part to 'run into him' just as he has found it necessary to run into her. \n\nMany times the affair is not intended. But all of a sudden it starts to fill a hole and fulfill a need that he realizes needs to be filled. She tells him how necessary he is........she craves the intimacy.......she tells him what a wonderful person he is. All the things that were lacking in his marriage. His needs are being fulfilled.........just not by his wife.
261648
i hope you only want one husband. anyway, i'll probably help you find him. but in one coditiom. help me find my husband first
1075840
It's probably a tool to control you.  Do you back down and give him his way?\n\nAlso, he probably does want out of the marriage and is looking for a justifiable reason.\n\nMaybe he's having an affair or about to.
680935
Is the same reason why women think that they should have more than one men. But not all men/women are like that. Most would settle with one who they think is the right person for them. The usual reason I hear about not settling with one is because they see a little something from each individual or they are treading the water coz they dont know who to choose.
396781
They can get a man of their own and probably do. If the man is interested then why not.It takes two. You can't blame the woman. The men are willing.
1045103
some people do it because they are afraid of being alone......some do because they are searching for the perfect mate.........some do it just because society suggest that marriage is the right way to be.
578773
usually its because they need a change to the same routine, maybe they are second guessing their relationship,maybe they can get what they need from the person their cheating with, maybe its blackmail, or greed or lustor,maybe theyre still in love with their ex partner(if its an ex they slept with), maybe they got into deep into a relationship they cant get out of , maybe they dont love their spouse , maybe its low self esteem , \n\nwho knows there are many different reasons and no one reason is right or wrong, and it has nothing to do with anything except the struggle that is going on inside that person that does it, dont bother to ask why people do it,  just dont do it yourself, and walk away if it happens to you.
278640
The same reason why a married woman would cheat.