Have you ever relied on someone so much n they let you down?
86628
First of all, your life is not meaningless.  Even if your father has changed, try to talk with him.  Mend any old wounds because you only have one set of parents and one life.
335666
I have had the same problem and no it isn't right it is more pain and agony on you especially if you even have the smallest of feelings for the person. I have hung on and tried and worked with it as a matter of fact this weekend I just called it quits myself. It hurts to much and it gives the other person multiple people at their becon call and your out in the cold.
830823
No, when I really need something I rely on myself.
127610
This has happened to me many times. I try to learn from it and then move on. I pray for an evil person and then let them go off to their own life.
750375
GOD apparently lol i think not : P seek help from the person or persons you trust the most...maybe they can help you find a way to help yourself
321474
Well, if I understand what you're trying to ask...I let this guy, who I could care less about, fall for me, then I let him down...harshly.  I didn't regret it until someone did the same to me.  I'll never play with anyone's emotions like that again. It's not cool.
706027
Just hang in there.  It sounds like you tried to do the right thing by trying to help someone out and got taken advantage of.  It's okay to feel bad about that and pissed too.  Someone else's awful behavior shouldn't make you feel like you shouldn't exist.  I know that doesn't really help sometimes.  All I can say is that a lot of us have been in similar situations and you just have to ride this out, write it out or do something to get it out of your head.
308196
no unless you make him understand it after you've done it..it makes him feel that you are someone he can really depend on..i believe its not bad..keep on the good work girl..but be sure not to do it very often..
666031
who actually has done the most for you??
690059
2 months a go when my boyfriend held my friend and both fell\nbut then 3 weeks later he dumped me :(
916795
sounds like u need some one you can trust
954139
wow hard one to answer and only you knows the answer to that,i guess it depends in what ways your fellow has let you down.\nYou cant keep forgiving him and will he allways be that way as it wont just be you he lets down but your child together to.\nYou need to take each day as it comes and lay down a few hard rules and see what happens,trouble is will you follow your head or your heart\ngood luck
412255
I had a friend that was like that too. I liked her a lot, she was sweet, but she was a pest and she did not know how to let up!!! That girl! \n\nWEll, I had to nicely tell her, please don't call me all of the time and when I was in school and she started her stuff, I would ask her nicely to leave me a lone I wasn't in the mood. \n\nYou know,sometimes you do have to be a little bit gruff. That is sometimes what it takes.
22597
Don't give her another reason to not trust in you and be patient with her you just have done something real bad to her you can't blame her being aftraid to trust in you again - imagine yourself being in her shoes before you say you have lost your patience on her.
1010729
I'm going through a similar situation because of things I did years ago.  They never really trust you again. Not fully anyway.  It is always there, waiting for the opportunity to show up and force you to feel guilty about something.  I've been going through this for 13yrs.  It hasn't gotten any better.  Maybe you need to learn from your mistake and move on. I don't know why I stayed,but I wish I hadn't.
460135
Unfortunately I have.  I've regretted it ever since :(
1014969
I tink itz gr8 bt if dis continues ppl will continue to rely on u 4 advice& if ur advice goes wrong they will blame it on you 4 giving them bad advice.Trust me,been thru it b4