i asked my boyfriend do he really wants to be with me and he said he is not sure what should i do?
93357
First, be glad he's honest and not pulling a line.  Second, don't be hurt just because you don't like the answer to a question you posed.  Third, realize these things have to work on their own time; you can't mandate a schedule.  Fourth, at some point this indecision can just be a delaying tactic, but don't jump to that conclusion now.  If the relationship is badly stalled for months and you're not happy about it, then you have a real problem.  But you need to let some time pass before you declare it badly stalled.
953988
Ask for goodness sakes!  How are you going to be able to find out if things are going to get better if you don't take the next step.  Are you going to wait and depend on him?  He is probably totally oblivious.  You might have a long wait.  SOMEBODY needs to make a decision.  Good luck!
560607
I think both of you need a serious talk. If he says his feelings decreased but he says he made a huge mistake you need to ask how he feels now. Cause if he doesn't want to be with you in that way, you're only torturing yourself by hanging out with him and talking to him on the phone. If he feels that he wants to get back together then he should tell you when both of you have your serious talk. If he says he needs to think about it and you want to wait then don't pressure him. Show interest but not insecurity. I know it would be hard to stop talking to someone that you love if it wont work out. But sometimes you need your heart to hurt a little bit so it would heal. Just keep yourself busy. If it's meant to be then it will happen. There's plenty other relationship experience's that you will go through and not all of them will work even though your certain they're the one. And yes, I'm telling you this from personal experience. Good luck...
650431
talk to him, let him know how you feel, let him know what you want and need in a relationship . . .see how he responds . . .
195113
Those indicates that he loves you. My advise would be, to get more intimate with him, just the way he wants you to, and see how he reacts. Even after doing as he wants you to if he questions your work, then he is just saying things, and not being original. I think that's the only way you can surely test if he is being honest with you or not.
484459
Well, first of all you need to take some grammar school lessons before you ask another question. Second of all, as in waiting for him, what do you mean? If it's relationship wise, then, do what you think feels right. You're young, explore life.
122598
Maybe he doesnt want to be with you anymore and is saying he does because he doesnt want anyone else to have you because you are attractive and a sweet person to be with. Dont let him talk down to you and make you change for him, change for yourself.
198528
Ask him, point plank, what his intentions are. Perhaps it's time to find out what kind of future your relationship has. Be very clear about what you want and expect from him.
187121
don't do it, he is scared he is losing you and that is the only reason he is ready of the commitment.  you need to find someone who really loves you and will marry you for the right reason, not just because they don't want to be alone.
413731
This is a really sensitive issue.  Your boyfriend seems like he has real commitment issues.  The best thing to do would be to sit down and have a little chat.  Tell him you want to be in an exclusive relationship and nothing else will do.  After your chat, you should both sit on the couch and drink some heavy lager and eat a couple of bowls of bran each.  Then you will both find out what your a-holes are really for you couple of mincers.
663949
About time, you asked what he thinks of you. It seems that you have slipped into that friendship realm, not the boyfriend one.\nUnless some change is made, that's all it will ever be.\nSpeak up, and ask him outright.
10725
If you really want to be with him give him some time to sort things out.  If he wants to be with you he will come around and end his other relationship but time is key since breaking up is not an easy thing to do wether you want to be with the person or not.
962251
If he is only making comments about the two of you being together when you are alone, I don't think he is very serious about creating a different relationship.  If he says these things in front of others, then he probably wants to pursue a romance with you.
695655
If you have to ask then he's not worth your time. But if YOU think that he is, then ask. Ask, ask, and ask, he wants to tell you but is afraid and eventually will. He's been feeling guilty about it or else he wouldn't be with you anymore.
676276
You assume he knows the answer to that question.  Sometimes guys can look at a girl and be unsure of how they feel (and vice versa).  Sometimes they just want to see what path the relationship takes on its own.  \n\nNow, the question is, do you want to see where that path goes?  Or do you want something more definite if not now, soon?  \n\nI can't tell you what you should do, other than feel around for it.  Search your heart.  And you can take a walk with this and not be committed to him 100%.  Personally I avoid confrontation since it has a tendency to back people into a corner, but if it remains ambiguous and you are unsatisfied with the relationship, I'd talk to him about where he sees you going, if anywhere.
607813
Honestly i think he's just confused and needs time with out you so that he can see how much he needs you. He might just need room to realize that you all do belong together. Talk to him get all your feelings out because if you keep anything in and away from him you will lose him for longer than planned. trust me. My boyfriend and i were about to take a break and i told him exactly how i felt i was scared to do it because i didn't want him to feel like i was making him stay but he said that he was glad i told him because it let him know that i care deeply for him. Just try talking to him about it and see what happens from there.
236759
is it really love?  thats the first thing you have to ask yourself  and the next thing is if he really wants to be with you it will happening dont make a fuss over him . he will play you. if he dont respond then youre most likely better off without him. after all you have your whole life ahead of you. there will be plenty of guys