my BF refuse 2 wear a condom but i think he's cheating,how do i tell him we need 2 start useing condoms again.
94380
Just say the MAGIC WORDS:\n\nI THINK I'M PREGNANT...
165592
Obviously if he is cheating you and your baby aren't that important.  If you really can't leave him...tell him that "you can't live without him but you'll have to if cheats again." because by cheating he shows he can live without you...\ndon't subject your child to a unfaithful man...
1058900
Sounds like he's trying to let you know what's going on...you're not listening.  If he's in good health overall (not overweight, smoker, etc) then it could be due to him holding out for you, preoccupied, stress, etc.  There are a lot of reasons why men lose an erection.  A lot of the time my b/f holds out for me and then when I'm good..he's good with that.  He's held out so long, it goes away.  He's usually ready to go again in 10 mins, though.  The fact that you cheated on him really doesn't help.  He may be picturing you doing some of the things you do with him, with someone else.  He's going to be questioning every new thing you do in bed.  "New tricks?  New man?"  It's all about communication.  Let him know you're concerned and really LISTEN to his responses.  You two will work it out if it's meant to be.  He needs to truly forgive you for your mistake and move on if he wants to make it work...you'll need to bring his trust level back up.  Hope I helped...
1031892
Cassie, you guys are being very careful and he needs to understand that the chances are of you becoming pregnant while taking all these precautions are slim to none. Yeah, nothing is ever full proof when it comes to preventing pregnancy, except, of course, if one person has been diagnosed as being sterile, but you guys are being very responsible and safe. Try to explain to him that he is taking the fun and desire out of it for both if you guys with his paranoia. Get him some reading material on the issue and see if you can educate him further on this subject. He obviously enjoys sex and he should want it to be a fun, intense, romantic and joyful experience for both of you. If he is having panic attacks and constantly worrying about this it has got to put a damper on it for you as well as him. Maybe he does need to speak to a doctor about this. If he is having true panic attacks maybe he needs some medication for anxiety. I wish you the best of luck with this and I think it is a problem that can be overcome. Good luck.
933823
As a nurse, I am going to tell you up front - nothing is 100% effective against pregnancy except abstinence.  That obviously not being the case, you should also be using a spermacide along with your birth control pills.  STILL this will not be 100% effective.  You could also use condoms...  Even with condoms, you're still at risk for pregnancy.  Of course knowing your partner is clean is essential.  Have you both been tested for STD's?  Please, take it from me, you DON'T want or need a disease.  BE SAFE.
144106
try to asks so that you will not get mistake again in buying condom. or try to buy an ordinary one or a common size of condom.
92829
Get yourself tested for STDs ASAP, especially HIV.\nSecondly, as tough as it may be for you, leave him. He's told you he wants to do it again, and he will, with or without your consent. His behavior will also put you at risk.
406362
It's a possibility but the only way to know exactly what is going on is to see your doctor for an exam and testing. It would also be wise if you are sexually active to have your partner use a condom.
547965
Tell him you love him and that you woudn't cheat on him and that it hurts you. Tell him that if he won't stop, he would lose you 'casue you can't have a realtionship without trust!
66750
No it's not the female fault but we have to be accountable for our actions. If he does not wear a condom then you should take it upon yourself to have protection if you don't want to get pregnant. When no one is taking the responsibility to prevent pregnancy, you are gambling with the possibility of getting pregnant. Yes people always say it's our fault because we have to carry the baby and they figure if you really don't want to get pregnant then you'll protect yourself. My advice to you is to protect yourself so that you don't have an unwanted baby.
789090
The next time your boyfriend brings up sex let him know that you are a virgin. Make sure he knows that you aren't ready yet and it makes you uncomfortable when he is constantly bringing sex up. Tell him that when you are ready to have sex you'll let him know. If he really cares about you, he'll understand. If he doesn't, then you know he was only with you because he wanted to have sex with you.
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Talk to him. Work with him using the "squeeze technique" to help him last. USe a "delaying condom" and then a normal condom (yes 2) the reason for two is not to make him feel less, the delaying condom does that and this si mostly in his hbrain anyway, the scond condom is to keep you form getting numb.
724242
I feel bad for you!  I wouldnt know what to do either??  I guess if he's worth it just be safe and use a condom.\nGood luck and I hope everything turns out OK!
929202
Realistically, You should MAKE him use a condom, bu if that denies him having sex with you, you should at least take steps to protect youself by using a femidom of some sort. Many are free from clinics, just  like condoms can be easily obtained. Alternatively, find someone else.\n\nIt is most definetly NOT SAFE
1165029
Just go to him and tell him truth that you have broked his/her faith, You have done mistake and you not gonna do that again and also tell that u dun need their anwer as u just wanted him/her to excuse you. Be prompt. ur frnds gonna trust u again. I can't say the period but they will for sure gonna trust u again. But Just please dun break it again or try it.
1048736
i think you should go to the doc, and ask, but come on for being so young, and having your whole life ahead of you, have him wear a condom, dont put yourself in the position, teehee
1162226
If you have sex without condoms and your partner has HIV then yes you can get it. If your bf won't use a condom them make him your EX-bf