How do I get my man to want me more without actually saying something?
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body language.\nWhy do you want this man who doesn't seem to notice you?\nWHY?\nOh, wait, you said "my man" and notice me 'more'.  Hmm... \nSo you have a man and want more sex than he is currently providing?  \n\nOr maybe it's not sex at all, for you said "want me more", which is womanspeak for _________.  Maybe a greater degree of commitment?  Maybe you intent to land this fish but he's not taking the bait?  \n\nPlease be more clear as to exactly what is the problem or question.  Us guys can't deal with the vagueness of your question. Thanks\n\nAnd what's wrong with saying something???  You are playing games and not taking responsibility as an adult should for your decisions and wants.\n\nSpeak the truth.  You are not a child anymore, adults vote.  Grow up and lay it all out plainly.
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Odds are he means what he says.  He's trying to support you and make you feel loved.  If you want to really turn him on, wait until you're in public and discreetly press your butt up against him and give a little teasing rub.  When my gal does this it really drives me nuts.
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It will come out of his mouth. Most men don't talk much.  However, if a man has a desire for something or someone, he will boast/talk about it.  Every man has a plan.  If your in his plan for marriage, he will talk about it, without you guiding him to talk about it.  Without you asking him about marriage.  Don't ever assume on your own, let him lead into marriage, if that's what he wants.  :)
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wow, do you talk to this guy you love? get him talking and see if he is seeing somebody. then if he isn't tell him about your interest though you may want to tone it down a bit at the start so you don't scare him off. some men don't want to hear "i love you" on the first conversation. good luck :)
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Well maybe he doesn't know what to say, talk to him and give him a few lines that you would like to hear from him. I bet you can easily convince him if he knows you are enjoying it.
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Honesty is always best. If you fake it , you can expect the same kind of performance  over and over again  ( Yawn). If you are honest but gentle, perhaps he will try to do better to please you . Suggesting something you like and gently asking him to do it is a good way to get the point across.
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If you don't talk to him, how are you going to find out? You need to communicate SOMEHOW.  But you need to try not to be too pushy so you don't scare him if you know what I mean.  People get scared if they're feeling pushed.  Maybe HE'S afraid to tell YOU how he feels. Try telling him he's really special in your life.  You don't have to come out and say "I love you" -- but everyone likes to hear they are special to others.  Wouldn't you?  I'll be if you heard that from someone (him maybe) -- you wouldn't feel quite so insecure would you?
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you haven't said why he doesn't pay attention to you.  It's for a reason.  It would help to know why you think he doesn't.  Do something to get his attention.  Get a cute make over.  Wear some shiny red pumps get your hair fixed and stand in front of your man naked.  Put on some cute underwear.  Masterbate on the couch next to him while he is watching television. Go down on him while he is sleeping.
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Communicate with him but don't nag.  Tell him simply in a nice quiet way and then let it go.  If he doesn't get it and it's important to you, your relationship may not be what you really want.
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Those 3 words can be important and once you get used to hearing them, you're used to hearing them. However, men can get comfortable and confident that you KNOW it, so they don't have to SAY it.\n\nThat part is true.\n\nI think he still loves you and I think you're reading too much into it with him not saying it. He may have a lot on his mind right now and not worried about it because you should know it.\n\nYou say nothing else in the relationship has changed. Those words shouldn't mean so much to you that the absence of them makes you question the man. If everything else is the same, so is his love.\n\nCut him some slack. Wait a week. If he's still not saying them, just let him know you miss the words. A simple, "Baby, I miss hearing you say, 'I love you.'" will probably do the trick. Give it some time though.
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This is hard...how far are you willing to go.  I only ask, because there are numerous things that you can do. This depends on him and what kind of image he may have of you.  You always want to be yourself...don't try to be something you are not.  Disappointments are not good.  Try to have short conversations with him.  Statements that leave him hanging and wondering...What did she mean by that???  He's gonna come back to find out...if he is intersted.  I once left a post it note on a man's door with my #.  He called 20 mins later.  Subtle things work the best.....Okay, well it helps if you enjoy some of the same things.  Interraction is your best bet.  Some girls don't need to flirt...and honestly you prob don't need to.  If he is a fresh too, he might not get it.  But if he is a playboy...is that what you want?
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It depends on the man. Some guys just say what they think you want to hear.Maybe he does you should talk to him about it and let him know that he needs to be honest with you.
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I'm with you on this one - my husband is the same way. I had to take five years of CONSTANTly telling him how hot he is - make sure he KNOWS how attracted to him you are...jump him...frequently..let him know you only have eyes for him. I mean sadly repetitiveness is the key...it's just like, he can hear it 10000 times, but until HE believe it, it's not going to work.
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Talk to him and tell him that you wish he would give you more attention. Guys are pretty naive sometimes and just don't realize things.
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i think you should just take it easy. go on slow and see what happen. no point forcing him, make him close up more
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Dont choose any of the above! I think I may be in the same boat as u, saying anything may drive him away...Plus, dont ever let a guy know u have something for him... Give it time, see what he likes and how he likes it and start getting him interested in u this way, by being what he likes..WITHOUT CHANGING URSELF (I hope u know what i mean)...BE caring but dont overdo it...let him feel how special u are in his life, let him feel he cant be more comfortable with anyone till e goes online and talks to u, then u can suggest a normal going out thing, no date i mean...LEt him do the rest if there will be any!\nGOOD LUCK ;)
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You have a tendency to punish him when he gives you what you want. That will make him close up and communication will be next to impossible. I'm sure you don't do it maliciously, but you should stop to think how what you say might be perceived.