Why do woman use sex as something to control men?
93986
a) because we can\nb) because we feel like it is all we can do\nc) because we can\nd) because you let us\ne) because we can\nf) because it gives US a power trip\noh, and \ng) because we can
177653
Because a woman lets down her guard and allows that man to take control over who she is.  For some, it is safer to stay within the bounds of a controlling male than it is to venture into unsafe waters.
207350
A few reasons:  to boost a man's ego, because they want to be done with sex, or because they can't and feel that they are expected to.  \n\nOnly about 10% of women can have orgasm from penetration "only", and as many as 10% have profound difficulties achieving orgasm.
1045319
No they don't, because women have more of a need to share their sexual experience with someone they love and care about.  It's not the same doing it alone.  For men it is the same...at least from what I've been told.
267232
I asked my boyfriend this question and he said that maybe some men like to control their woman and if she is independent then he can't control her. I say stay the way you are and you will one day find who you are looking for. I did.
432575
the average man is controlled by pride and ego and by being a chauvinist it boosts their self esteem. they want to be in controll of their affairs and want to be in command therefore they prefer women to either be or pretend to be less important, intelligent or able than they are.
171742
Its the greatest ego booster for men. By nature man is a hunter, a conquest in sex is the same. Immaturity and inability for long term relationships only prompt the desire further.\n\nIn any case sex means a whole lot different to men than women. Its less romance more lust. Premature ejaculations prove that satisfaction to their needs is greater than pleasing the other party.\n\nBeing a man, I should know, been there done that......
667347
Biologically speaking (and I don't agree with this at all, just so you know), women really only need to have sex about once every ten months. Makin' babies takes time, you know.\n\nBut men can just have a party and spread their genetic material all around all the time-- this is how they fulfill their biological duty.\n\nSo, I think our modern conceptions of the woman who sleeps around vs the man who sleeps around have something to do with our subconscious understanding of what is needed for each gender to fulfill its reproductive role.\nBut I think those ideas are outdated and are now merely an unfair way in which a dominant male-run society seeks to maintain its power by putting restraints on women.\nI'm not saying all men are like that, or that men are bad, just that on the whole it seems to be how society works.
55500
men and women can go without sex pretty much the same. its just will power.
15827
Thousands of years ago, subsistence depended on strength. Men had more strength, because of their higher levels of testosterone. But these same higher levels, prompted him to have a higher sexual drive.\n\nWomen discovered that, and started to use this on their favor. They started to control men, and with the advent of civilization, to write laws to give legitimacy to this situation.
702236
you see.. Women HAVE to play hard to get whether we want to or not, because we get labeled as sluts, hoes, whores, etc. Men have the ability to be easy and sleep around and not get labeled. If men do get labeled its always meant in a good for you sense, unlike for women it means we're slutty and need to learn to keep our legs closed...\nIt's just the way human nature has stuck itself into peoples lives.. the old days do live on.....\n\nSo now do you understand why women have to play hard to get whether we really want to jump you right then and there?
13020
Not only in today's society, but for most of histroy women have dominated men using the higher sex drive of men to controll them.
725592
Women do our heads in because we men are on a hopeless struggle to please them. How can we give them what they want when they either don't know or have changed their mind? The latter is viewed by them to be their privilege.
206723
Because in the end... it's all about sex..Think of it... why do you want to have money?->to feel more secure->to have women want you -> to have sex with women...Why do you go to the gym?-> for health-> for good body->for sex... Why do you get all dressed up before you go out-> to look good -> to attract-> to have sex... It's aaaalll about sex...
209178
It has nothing to do with the woman.  The man has power issues--he wants control in an unhealthy way.
681221
Women are like drugs in some cases. However, it's not always the sex. Its the feeling of being with that particular person. Then you have whores who are shallow, dont care about women, and just think they are cool to have sex. It's so they can go around and tell all their buddys that they banged the local hot chick that lives next door.
354705
Most definately. As a woman who has slept with many men, I can count on 1 hand the amount of men who can control themselves. I can also only count on 1 hand the amount of men who really know how to please a woman. This is a very sad state of affairs men. You need to practise and have sex from the woman's perspective. Very disappointing.