Why do boys cheat on you and think it's okay but when you cheat on them you get cursed out??
83460
First of all, for me i would cus him out before he even think of sayin a word to me. second i wouldnt even care i would jus dump his ass.
297196
i think that guys cheat because either they are bored with their current relationship or they only think of themselves. if your boyfriend thinks your cheating it's because you aren't showing him enough affection and he doesn't trust you. i suggest you either set him straight or get out of the relationship because it'll only be a waste of time for you.
414489
no way - nothing wrong with you...boys are dumb and want what they can't have. It's the battle of who cares less. If you act like you don't care, they love that...let THEM do the chasing.
1077129
They just are so they can whine about all men being bad and cheating on them and then they can whine about there being no decent guys on this planet.  I think they should give thier head a shake.
507110
People cheat because they have a lack of self control.  If you know that something is wrong, and you do it anyway, then you are showing an amazing lack of self control, and your immaturity is showing as well.  It takes strength realize the truth.  A person does not have to cheat.  You simply tell your significant other "I don't love you enough to respect your feelings, or care if I hurt you."  Then leave them.  Because that is the exact message you are telling them when you cheat.  You are just too chicken to tell them to their face.
502179
I dont want to sound rude, but if they are all doing it, then maybe you need to look into yourself and work out why, there is no one reason why a person cheats on another, all we can do is change our own attitudes toward it so that it doesnt continue to happen. \n\nIs it possible that you have low self esteem and they are picking up on that? If not i suggest you do a little soul searching and come up with answer for yourself, i'll bet there is one there, but you dont want to face it. \n\nGood luck - nobody can help you, but you on this one.
447878
Obviously those who do the cheating say it is a good thing and those who are cheated on say it is a bad thing.  It is all from your own perspective and beliefs about relationships.
32496
Oh, you will get over hit and you'll get over him once you get rid of him.  There are so many guys out there that will treat you so much better.  Just staying with him is saying that is okay that you cheated on me.  You won't be able to trust him and you'll just be beating yourself over it. If you have any self-esteem left you'll leave him and show him you're over him.
344939
Although you may not want to admit it to yourself, your partner may just want out of the relationship. They were not thinking of you when they cheated, and now they don't want to be forgiven. Maybe they hoped that you would find out and then break it off so they didn't have to do it. Besides, you should find someone who won't cheat on you. You deserve to be able to trust your lover.
461994
You are correct, if you cannot trust someone than why be with them.  Trust is so hard to get, yet so easy to lose and next to impossible to ever completely get back.
526121
Because you allow men to cheat on you. It should be over when they cheat on you, not when you retaliate against them. If a man cheats on you and you accept it without ensuring that it will never happen again and you just do the same thing, the relationship is already over.
706044
Because when you put you heart and faith into someone and they betray you, it is natural to question your judgement.  Look people make good and bad decision all the time.  You have to chalk this one up as a mistake and move on.  Naturally you want him to feel bad about losing you but truth is you never really had him so let it go.  He doesn't seem like he has any self control so don't be suprised if somewhere in the future he crosses you path again.  That will be the time that you will be happy because you made the decision to move on and he will be wondering what he could have had.  It happens to all of us at some time.\n\nKeep you head up.
947077
Cheaters get mad because they have been caught!  Simple as that.  They probably feel ashamed of themselves when in reality they should feel ashamed of what they have done to the one they cheated on.\n\nMy ex attempted to make me feel like it was my fault when I was walking out the door for the last time.  I think it was because he knew he f**ked up and he knew there was nothing he could do at that point to get me to stay so, why not try to hurt me on the way out.\n\nSome people still haven't evolved.
330882
because you are cheating!!!\nyou are making it unfair for others!!!\nso its mean!!!
391006
because they are not real men.They want you to feel like you can have no one else but them.Insecurity.But you can do better.
667796
well it is because you love him and you are use to him and you dont want the relationship to end and its just like other things in a relationship you think it can be fixed,cheating in a serious relationships destroys it you no longer can trust that person and it causes alot of emotional pain and guilt on both people it really is a selfish act on that persons part too but us as woman are the ones that try to fix things and we have the mother instinct so that is why we put up with alot of bs but usually after cheating a relationship doesnt last and if it does it is never the same it has been broken in two it is sad but you will find someone else someday just dont put up with it a you will grow from this experience good luck
454805
its wrong...the survey told that mostly guys are cheating on girls as its general tendency of boys who cann't satisfied with a single girl..if boy get the chance he can involve with other girl easily but if the girl get chance its not easy for her to involve with other guy while having a boyfriend.