do women usualy can say a man r not worth to meet again,just by judging his not good first impresion at 1date?
86661
Yep - and men make the same judgements too.
534434
I haven't been through that.  For me, it's usually if I go out with them 1 or 2 times and I see that I don't like him, than I'm not going to put myself through for what I might think would be a bad relationship in the future.  It's not about whether they respect you or not for not giving them a chance to be with you, it's more about chemistry.  Either it's there or it's NOT there.  I wouldn't waste my time or his time.
214324
you have to try to understand what happened in arouba, he might have met someone and is having second thoughts about you...you never know with guys, you have to be always on your toes....he might never admit it, if that was what happened, but you will understand it...as you said, men have this problem with being truthful and straight forward, at least 99% of them, i guess it's got something to do with their egos, they think it's clever to play games with us and it shows they are more in control...strange creatures and so immature, right??!
436918
Because its the first thing that a guy sees. But if a guy is attracked to a girl, then he wants to get to know her. (after he checks her out).But first impressions arent usually of someones personality, that seems to come in second.
538239
Does he do it a lot? Is this a one-time thing? Does he have a history of it with other women? Is he sorry? Is he serious about not doing it again? Only you can answer those questions.\n\nIf it's a one-time thing, then I'd give him a second chance. If it's habitual, I'd find a guy with a better sense of loyalty and ethics.
95171
I think everyone deserves a chance to make a mistake.  If the person forgot about the date (I did once) don't worry about it.  They at least should apologize.\n\nIf you get stood up more than once by the same person, then it's good byre Charle, as they say.\n\n\nBest of luck,\nJeffrey
1146260
Sweetie, you are suffereing from the "I am worthless" syndrome. Get over it NOW! You are the same person you always were, have the same merits and weaknesses, the same love for others locked inside. One bad relationship does not mean you will have another. IF what you want from a date is a quickie, go for it. IF you are looking for something more, wait until you have your ego and self-worth back together. We all have been there, but ... unfortunately, I have found that being asked to go to bed is NOT a compliment, it is just what it is...the same guys who want to bed you down will go down a line to the first who says "yes." It is amusing to watch it in bars...Try watching and laughing. You will get a great sense of perspective. The best of luck to you...nothing in you has changed.
706806
Usually if women are upfront about their dating status and if they tell you there is someone then take it as a sign of disinterest.  You hope she is telling the truth. If she is or not then you can not tell.  Just respect it and take a step back. Let her take the lead and if she decides to open up and let you  closer then you might have a chance, but if you want to keep favor in her eyes step back for now.  It may be better to be friends.  She will respect you more and may even be interested later.   Honor her space.
146036
Depends on the guy and the situation.  I have some friends who think a girl that puts out on the first date is not worth going out with agian, and I have friends who have had sex on the first date that are or were involved for a long time with that one person.  There is no right answer here, like I said it depends on the guy and the situation..Hope this is of some help...
106166
Well, it's something that cannot be answered just like that.  A woman just knows that a guy is for her or not for her.  It's instinct.  Hard to describe.  I would want to know if you're seeing someone or married.  That would be my first question if I met you in public.  You are good looking, BTW
1028990
Yes everytime.....but no onw will ever see him again because man can not survive with out a woman!! Think about it!
296255
It depends, I don't mind when a woman makes the first move. I also don't mind if she let's me do the first move.  I guess its all a part of if you want something then go out and get it and not always do we get what we want.  I am for it.  It is OK if she speaks up first and if she makes the first move.  It can's hurt.
195479
well if she just met him and had sex with him, chances are hes not looking for a relationship, usually that makes a guy think youre easy what ever goes through their heads, also if he was willing to have sex (especially that much) after just meeting, he probably does that with other women, sorry to say. Men like a chase, so if she really wants him, she should not be 'available' all the time, and definately not have anymore sex with him (if she wants a relationship). if he decides not to try anymore, he was just in it for sex and hes no good anyway
311268
Did you ever think she may be telling the truth? Give her the benefit of the doubt. The question I have is why is it ok for men to sleep with someone on the first date and get no rep for it, but for women it is different?????? Besides she might be a really great person and you will loose out on the relationship, remember you were there with her!
226841
You shouldn't think about it that way.  If they are a prospect worth having over the long haul, the advice you can give in one meeting shouldn't undermine your value over the life of the relationship.  Instead, think of the prospective meeting in terms of karma -- to receive you must first give!
1006904
relive your very first date...a woman appreciates it when her guy remembers special dates and the things that are associated with each special dates to remember...my guy remembers the date that we first talked on the phone...6 months ago!!
105547
where are u getting ur facts...most women?  no dear im one of a billion that has not.... why do the ones do it cause they risk everything and then find out when it is too late they have lost everything   then move on usually to a guy who is not near as good as the husband,,,or in some cases same as before   but they move on!