how can I make a girl orgasm during sex?
78881
Pay attention to the "spots" on her body.  It's very psychological as well as physical.  clitoral stimulation while performing is a real good trick.  If that doesn't work then simply ask her.  If you are open enough to have sex then you should be open enough to talk about what the needs and likes and wants are.
743701
Give her 20 min. that would be 40 orgasms. Enough right? Then you can get down to your business, and she will be more than happy to do anything for you. After 40 orgasms, I would.
328032
Some women only climax during oral. SO you might start there. Why dont you ask your girl and see what she says?? She can tell you better than anyone what works and what doesnt.
1066618
Your technique may not be pleasing her.  Remember it takes a woman approximately 20 minutes to reach orgasm and only 5 to 10 minutes for a man.
881106
maybe nerves.\nTry something.\nNext time you're with a girl, do not focus on sex. Focus on intimacy instead. Start by giving her a backrub. Make sure you've got some massage lotion. Then move on to her arms, her hands, her butt, her legs & feet. Make it slow & sensual. Don't forget her neck & face! Even get a few scented candles & put some instrumental music on in the background. \nAs you do this, you'll be focusing on intimacy. Your ability to relax with increase as you're talking...touching...getting to know each other. Both of you be nude. But keep it focused on her being pleased & you being relaxed. Maybe go down on her, but you refrain from getting off until you feel comfortable.
418510
Have sex in the female superior position (woman on top) so that she can control the stimulation to her clitoris. Have her to lay flat on top of you, it does not work as well when she sits straight up.
307954
It depends on how you're trying to make her climax.  Some women respond to different stimulation in different ways.  Ask her what she likes, so you'll know how to get her there faster.
1179218
use condom, change position when you are close or try to please her with your other tools (hands or kisses.... depends on your preference)  this will give you time to slow down a bit.  don't wait til the last seconds to switch.
809843
Start with fourplay and oral is a must since that is what gets you going.  Always let him try various positions at the time and go back down and lick your clit.  It is a process and try drinking some wine,  watch some porn or something that can stimulate the moment.  Doggy style is usually the best for you to have an orgasm, the motion is making his balls slap your clit while his moving.  \n\nGood luck!
1105145
for doing sex with girl u have to make her her hot & for making her hot first u have to fingure on his eyes then nose then lips then fingure her hairs & ten try to kiss her when u kiss her u have to put ur one hand her boobs slowly u have to push ur hands inside her cloths then press her boobs. if she will respond u its a sign for go ahead she will not leave u till u press her boobs she will colse her eyes & let u do what u want if she dont do anything when u press her boobs u can do ahead for pussy u can remove her cloths slowely . then u have to fingure her pussy & see is her pussy is leaking or not if yes u can start sex with her & if not u have to fingure her more time & kiss her & suck her boobs. she will pull u over her for sex then u will push ur penies into her pussy u have to see what speed she want for fucking & do it what ever she like thats all ........
357908
Most women do not have the capability to have an orgasm through intercourse alone. You should try to play with your clitoris or let him do it during sex. Many women fake an orgasm to make their boyfriend happy and its perfectly normal but you will reach a time when you don't want to fake it anymore and want to really have one. Try a position where your boyfriend can reach around with his hand and rub ur clitoris while having intercourse. Try doggie style.
960197
You can use some desensitizing creams, found in adult shops, but for me what worked was thinking of other things, making out more (and not rubbing her or me) or just cumming and then lasting more the second time around. After that first cum you can concentrate on her, make her enjoy more, and by the time you are ready again she is hot and willing.
1016492
Like everything else, there is no “best” way, because every girl is different.\n\nHowever, there are some similarities, and some things that most girls prefer.\n\nYou will want to slip between her legs and spread them apart, take time kissing down her thighs, and over her mons.  Blow warm air over her vulva before pulling away and kissing her other leg or belly.  When you get back to her vulva, slip your tongue over her lips, and maybe between them.  Make a noise that indicates you are enjoying the experience.  Don’t underestimate the importance of the tease.\n\nOnce you get started, you can put her legs over your shoulders, or use your shoulders to keep them spread apart. Take a few moments to lick over, around and between both sets of lips.  You will want to use the fingers of one hand to spread her lips open to reveal her clitoris, and her vagina.  You can dip the fingers of your other hand lightly across her vagina and clitoris to check out how wet she is.  If you have done the tease right, she will be.  While you are still spreading her lips open, you will want to dip your tongue into her, and lick up towards her clitoris.  Be through.\n\nYou will want to focus your attention on her clitoris.  Start out by closing your lips over her clitoris and suck lightly, or hum softly on it.   You will want to use your tongue as much as possible, and keep a steady rhythm – nothing kills a girls orgasm faster than changing technique mid-stream.  If your tongue starts to cramp up, you can wiggle it in a different pattern (but keep the rate steady), or you can try a slightly different technique for a moment while you rest your tongue.  \n\nPay attention to your girl, she will let you know what she likes, and what she does not like.  Avoid the things she doesn’t like, and keep doing the things she does like.  Some girls don’t like direct clitoral stimulation, (though most do) so you will have to be less intense with these girls.  \n\nOnce the intensity has started to build – you can slip a finger, and then two or possibly more, inside of her.  Most girls like the feeling of something inside of them, but it is best to not go crazy and try to stick in your whole hand right away or without knowing that she is into that sort of thing.  Just don’t let up on the clitoris, and make sure that your hands are clean, and soft – no rough skin or calluses.\n\nOnce she has an orgasm, she will want you to let up pretty quickly, as the whole area becomes very sensitive and any further stimulation can be unpleasant, so get away from the clit, but you can leave your fingers inside of her if you want to, and if she is ok with it – that is sometimes very nice for a little bit.  Eventually – after a few moments to a few minutes you will want to slip your fingers out of her too.\n\nThat is a basic set of tips – but you will need to experiment with your girl, and develop your own style.\n\nSome additional things to keep in mind:\n\nGirls are pretty self conscious about their bodies and many girls for some irrational reason think that their vulva is dirty or bad, or smelly, and are very embarrassed about having you see it up close, or don’t want you to put your mouth on it – because that will make you dirty or something.  If your girl is uncomfortable with you going down on her, make sure that you reassure her that it is something you want to do, and not something that you are doing because you think you “have to.”\n\nGirls are also very insecure about their bodies and are sometimes uncomfortable being seen naked.  An easy way to get around this is to sit her in a chair while she is still fully dressed, and slip your head down under her skirt, slip her panties off – if she is wearing any, and go to town.  This is also great for a quickie. Or a semi-public place where you might get caught, because she remains fully clothed.
100911
I don't know possible a good "tool" in action will be the great.Respect her during sex or maybe watch the porn movie before sex & learn some sex skill inside might can help.
795649
A girl isn't born with the ability to do this...she has to practice it. When you feel like you are about to orgasm, you have to clench the muscles as tightly as possible, then release them very quickly. She has to know how to control those muscles and the difference between them and the bladder muscles, otherwise she'll pee and that's gross. The best way is for her to practice it, over and over, until she gets the hang of it. I'm sure you can help her out with this one.
1030878
Put your touches in the right places with the right strokes and you can make a girl cum more than once : )
167081
never use the sex toys.or vegetables and fruits.fingers are best, start with soft massage of clitoris then penetrate one  finger then try two fingers vigourously.by the way why she need self pleasure when u are available.give her oral if she is afraid of pregnency,or under age.