How do I know that the man I've been with for the past 2 years is the one for me? we have the same interest.
93822
After two years together I think down deep you know this answer better than the rest of us.  No matter how good a relationship seems, how well two people get along, how much they have in common, there still has to be that extra something that can't be fully explained for it to be true love.  If you have that undefinable feeling and you can look into your future and always see you two together, then I think it is a pretty good chance that he is the one for you as long as he feels the same way.
272113
u don't. if it is right and real u will know. if you have second thoughts then why not wait a while until u r sure he is for u. why waste time money and feelings over a legal document?
60222
Does he love you? Are you compatible? Do you have some of the same interests? Do you agree on how to spend and save money? Is he kind to you? If you answered yes to these questions then you'll probably have a great live together.
621439
No, just because there are feelings between you doesn't mean that you are even still compatible. Those feelings are there b/c this person represents the first time you had strong passionate feelings in your life. Just discuss what you have been doing since the "old days" and move on.
33602
I would be honest with him. The longer it goes ther harder it will be. Only seeing you 1 or 2 times a year is kind of odd for someone who claims they care so much for you. Just be honest, who knows, you both might feel the same way, but are scared of what the other will say.
489782
it could be real. but be cautious, because in these situations it's common to have that "what did i lose out on?" or "what could have been?" or "maybe i can have a second chance?" feelings. \n\nas long as the attraction you are feeling is not based on what happened in the past or based on memories of good times. think about it as if he is a new guy. look at him as he is now (since it has been 2 years, and people always change).\n\nif there is mutual love, respect, trust, honesty, and willingness to compromise and communicate feelings and thoughts, then maybe it is worth the try. there's always a risk, but it is your decision whether the risk is worth it or not, as with all relationships.\n\nthe 1st time you broke up, was it because he was going out with another gf? is that what you mean? if it is, then i would be wary of trusting him. people can change, BUT usually people don't learn. he may just be lonely and wants to use you. just be careful.
371956
two people can feel they are right for each other when they first meet, definately. i had it happen to me, five months ago. we were together for a couple of weeks and then i had to go back home... its been 4 months and i still havent even thought of having a relationship with anyone else. we talk every day, the feeling Is still the same. so the point is, it can last, for sure! :)
927679
Lucky you.  Sounds like you have the perfect ingredients for a great relationship.  You already know eachother very well and you already have a great time together, so go for it!
320460
Your choices will always interest him. Learn to know whether his interest is a matter of not losing you or whether its real. You can learn this through checking his attention throughout whenever you go out on a date.
600667
If that guy meets the requirements you're looking for, both of you have something in common, and you enjoy each other's company. That is when you'll know that you're with the right guy.
761709
It sounds like you need to clarify the relationship. If you are happy with the way things are then go with it. If you want change then do it. Who knows how he feels about you, he may be interested in a relationship but hasn't brought it up or thinks you are happy with the way things are. If you don't at least try you may never find out what could be. Good luck
139633
You say you have been dating . But have you made a commitment to each other? If not just consider it for what it is. He found you to be a friend and some one he likes to be around but,  he is still looking for his one and only.
115279
Just wait for the future and see if you two will gonna be married. If you do, he's really the one.
168878
you know when you are want to be with the person and you have interest in them besides looks
320718
it sounds like you guys have a basis for a great relationship. It sounds like you guys genuinely enjoy each others company, so you know what I thinK? I think that yeah, follow your heart. Its obvious you are digging this guy and he is probably digging you so go for it!
226402
Its hard to know for sure but one thing you definitely need is time. Don't rush into anything.  After a while, if you can't see your life without them, and you want them and only them then he's the one.
121745
I feel you should know the person very well, if you two have been living together for a while. But in the same token you should ask how well does your know you? It must be a reason why this question is asked, for there might be some unresolved issues that may be at hand.  Just something to think about.......Feel me!