How can I learn to stop hating people?
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Why stop a good thing?  Keep on trucking!
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ok.. first of all, u are AWESOME. seriously, u should really be proud of urself for turning such horrible negativity into something Positive, and not letting it ruin ur life! :) and i bet u don't hate ur mother, u just feel sad when u think of why she treats u that way.. wow, good for you. it is SO HARD to think that way, so EASY to be angry and hurt and HATE people for that kind of stuff.\n\nmy advice to you is to continue what u are doing, but also add a bit to it:\n\nWork on your Confidence and how to meet people. this is so u can create a NEW life and family for yourself.. whether it be friends, or a boyfriend, eventually husband and kids, ok? :) In my opinion, confidence can be "worked on" in 3 steps:\n\nAppearance: exercise. work out. take care of ur Body. take care of ur skin.  get a new, flattering hair cut, makeup, and clothes. the better u Look, the better impression u make on others. also, exercising can get stress out, and give u endorphins (happy chemicals). and lastly, the better u look, the better u FEEL about yourself!\n\nMind:  study.  read more, learn more. keep an open mind.  develop interests and hobbies. take some classes. excel at your job.  remember, if u start joining classes and activities, more likely u can meet some friends who have Similar interests as you. also, u are being Productive and enhancing your strenghts and qualities. :)\n\nRelationships:  typically i say w/ Family and Friends.. but as u say, family is far away/mean, and friends u talk on the phone. that means NEW PEOPLE. u need to concentrate on peopel around you. try with coworkers or peers at school (or at the gym, or walking ur dog, etc).  remember, the better u Look and the more you Know, the less SHY or scared u will be when talking to someone!  also, try to get to know teachers, guidance counselors, etc.  the more people u can speak to with confidence, the better.  eventually u WILL make friends, and then meet their friends..and that is how u create a network of family/friends around you.\n\nAlso, remember to always seek Positive, Healthy and Happy people around you. if anyone is negative, mean, or tries to force u to do something uncomfortable, keep ur distance. u are working on ur life for the BETTER.  the stronger, happier, confident u are, the more opportunities u will have, more doors will open, u will Attract positive people, AND u will be able to get thru the hard times in life w/ ur positivity (case in point: u and ur family!).  \n\ngood luck, and taek care ALWAYS.  the future equals the Ability to Change! no matter what, u can change something little or big in ur life. so don't ever be upset at urself or others for the past. look forward to tomorrow, work hard, and play hard, be Happy and Healthy and u will find Positive things~
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Consider this a great opportunity to practice letting people know you don't like them. Why? Because you should not be expected to like everyone. You should never, ever beam fake smiles at people or laugh insincerely at their jokes just for politeness' sake. Who is that helping? \n\nYou don't have to be mean, just let your true feelings show. They will eventually leave you alone.
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I hate less all the time.  It gets easier and easier to become forgiving as time goes on if you get on that track.  I don't think I was ever particularly hateful but now the only thing I seem to hate is hate itself, and when people chew with their mouth wide open or panic.
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Violence - Get a punching bag & beat the crap out of it. It will help relieve the anger and hate for a while. Hit the gym hard, work out your emotional pain physically. You will be too tired to be bitter. \n\nRemember the beautiful things in life and go visit scenery that makes you happy. Be with people who make you happy-friends,family \n\nhope it works out.\n\nMy bitterness & hate is only for one person- my ex. Those things help me for a bit.
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Just don't be with a flamer.  Hate does not fix things.  There are obnoxious people in every type just take it as that. Love yourself and your life and understand it takes all kinds.
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Actually the truth is you never disliked the person.  It was a wall you put up.  I mean try to figure out why you couldn't stand them before and then try to figure out why you like them.  Most of the time it will be the same reasons.\n\nThe other reason it could be is they grew on you.
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Make a list of their bad habits or traits that irritated you so much...\nRemember all the bad things about them and be glad you have another chance at happiness in life...\nThis is a blessing in disguise...\nI have been there and done that...\nIt seems terrible at first, but later on, you look back and think, what was I worried about...\nAnd you find yourself in a better place than before...\nBest of luck...
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Do you really hate yourself, or do you hate what others perceive you as?  \n\nWhat have you done to hate yourself so much?  Answer that question and ask for forgiveness in your heart, and move past it.  \n\nI don't think you can love another until you can learn to forgive yourself and make amends for whatever causes you to hate yourself.  You can have strong emotional ties and feelings, but until you can forgive yourself, how can you expect to love someone and forgive their faults?  \n\nI wish you luck in finding your way.
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Start an I hate you guys club.  Don't worry too much about people like that, they are probably just jealous of you about something. Screw 'em.
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insecure , uneducated or group raised mentality type of people  tend to hate another group of people, be it based on race, religion or sexuality\nbut you can only educated so much, if a person is hell bent on hate and refuses to see beyond there own limitations, then that deep seated hatred and little you can do to change there minds
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The negative people are very much motivated by your own negative feelings and mind it they are very sharp to detect these. And of course, all of us are - more or less - negative.\n\nThe problem with the negative people is that they spread the 'evil' and their negativismk is contangious. \n\nThe best way to get rid of him is to just keep your positive side spruced up and to let him be offended by your positive thinking; optimism and generally good humour. He would perhaps be scared of this and prefer to run away. \n\nAs a last resort, you could just tell him to stay away from you.
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There are a lot of very nasty people out there in the world. There are also some very caring, nice people too. It is often hard to know who is who because the nasty ones make themselves seem nice. But  don't stress about them as they are a part of life. Everyone you meet, everything that happens to you, sets the stage for the next scene of your life. Your personality is molded through these experiences; they can make you wiser and be able to have empathy and understand others better. \n\nJust stay true to who you are. You seem to have good morals and beliefs. Don't let nasty people take away the niceness that is in you. I believe in karma and they will all eventually get what's coming to them.
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Going out on a limb here... You could try\n\n"I hate you"\n\nI don't know if you'll get your point across, though. Good luck!
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I think you should have your daddy write your sentences for you.  I am sure that is were you learned your hatred.  If you had a clue to what the real truth is you would be humiliated by the situation.  You need to tell your people to stop hating and learn to get along with all people.  Life is too short to be hating...  Learn the truth, forgive your enemies, live to get along with your neighbors.  Teach this to your father and tomorrow will be a brighter day... for all of us...   peace    please
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hate. getting jelous or other relationship problems
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YOU CAN'T HATE PEOPLE!!! DO NOT DO ANYTHING STUPID!!! MY FRIEND GOT SUSPENDED FOR WRITING THAT SHE "EFFIN" HATES SOME GIRL AND DRAWING HER AS A LESBIEN!!! LEARN FROM MY FRIEND'S MISTAKE!!!  although i disagree with your hatred, here are some jokes:\nher doctor is so stupid that when she was born, the doctor thought she was a girl :) (no i didn't make a mistake typing it)\nshe's so ugly that when she was born the doctor thought her mama was "using the restroom".\nwish her luck on her part as king kong's stunt double.\nremind her that buses aren't twinkies and that she should be on that diet anyways\ntell her not to get offended when the candles try to run off the birthday cake to get away from her breath.\ngive her breath mints and say she desparately needs them.\nshe's so fat that when she sat on the rainbow, skittles didn't fall out, but she broke it!\nshe's so fat that when she fell in love, it broke.\n--do not NOT EVER EVER EVER try 2 kill her or anything stupid like that!!!  also, admit that you don't hate her (even if it's not true )and you won't hate her as much anymore.