unlike the child why the adults are not forgiving the mistakes?
83210
because they are not childs who just forget things
148786
Because kids are learning who they are and they don't understand all the feelings inside of them... It can be a confusing process to become an adult.  \n\nRules of society and all the ideals that are around them - make it hard to figure out what is right and what is wrong and how to go about living thier lives... they are getting more freedom but with that comes more responsibility.  That can be painful to learn.
1048394
because in today's society no one accepts responsibility for there actions or for there kids actions. So they have to blame any one they can. And when they blame someone else it takes the blame off of them. sad isn't it
178287
They do this in part because they are not mature enough to deal with the real world.  I'm not being critical of them. I have too many problems of my own.  These "kids" were not taught a great deal of personal responsibility as children.  That rests squarely on their parents shoulders. Now they are having children and have less chance of teaching their own children responsibility.  It will likely get worse before it gets better.  Some day maybe parents will step up to the plate.
1096265
I think its for the same reason people thank God when something goes well. In both cases, they don't want to take responsibility for their actions.
1162670
Yes like we can't think for ourselves! They need to focus on more important things than telling adults what to do!
922477
If the very wrong thing you did did not involve the harm or violation of children I just don't get it.  Send them out a plea, tell them what you just wrote.  Sometimes life really stinks, you do the right thing day after  day and one mistake can ruin everything....\nThey need to look in the mirror, I would be willing to bet they have made mistakes too, who hasn't?...\nYou can't make them forgive or forget but you sure can plead your case...now is the time.  \nIf they can't come around try to understand that it is thier problem not yours, don't let them make yo believe you are bad, you just did a bad thing...let he who has not cast the first stone....good luck in this hard time...not to get too religous here, but god forgives you, remember that.
811075
Um, because they are NOT adults.\n\nSociety reserves some privileges and some punishments for adults because they are deemed to be mature enough to make decisions. A juvenile is not mature enough to fully comprehend the consequences of some actions, so they are prosecuted differently.
919385
Most lack maturity to make properly informed decisions. As do many adults.
366158
You know it's not your fault. Don't let people tell you it is. Children at the age of 4 cannot cause anything bad to happen - it is the adults in charge of the children who tend to do the bad things (as in your situation). Don't listen to them, try and rise above it.
1044063
As an adult who was recently a child, I can sympathize with parents thinking that they understand what's going on in their child's head (my mother still thinks that), and with parents making decisions that don't seem right, and sometimes aren't. Parents are people and make mistakes, however, you should stop to consider that you'd be much worse off without them. They might make decisions that cause you to miss out on things, and they might make you do things that you don't like, but they are older and wiser, and can make more informed decisions. This does not mean that they will always be right, and if you think they are wrong, you shouldn't be afraid to discuss it with them. However, screaming or throwing a fit would only show that you aren't mature enough to make very many decisions for yourself. You should have a say in what you want to do, and I'm almost positive that, if you think about it, you do. Also, if you gracefully accept some things your parents say that you don't agree with, they're more likely to let you make more decisions, or at least more heavily weigh your opinion.
516569
For some states the reasoning is that children 12 and under will not understand the wrongness of their actions.  It becomes borderline for 13-15 whereas the reasoning is by 16 and above children should have a good sense of right and wrong.  This goes back to the concept of doli incapax, or incapable of mischief.  I'll agree that children can understand that the crime they commit is wrong and that's why most states have procedures for trying children as adults even very young children if it can be proven that they knew what they did was wrong.
611129
Everyone makes mistakes. Only when we make mistakes it's not on the news. Noone is a perfect parent.\nSome babies are too long for the car seat before age one and you can't face them backward anymore.
117745
I feel that the young adults are nieve in this world. Kids are not being guided by their parents anymore. When they are faced with adult issues and get into trouble they don't know where to go for guidence or help and everyone is too eager to throw them in jail and throw away the key.\nParents really need to be there for their kids and show them how to be better people and then the "struggle" is less of a struggle
54944
Because they are frustrated.  they are smaller than almost anything else.  they are given concepts that their minds cannot understand.  They are expected to do things that make absolutely no sense to them and when they don't, they usually get a really quick lesson in bigger is badder.  Come on you would be frustrated in that situation too and children when they see frustration in adults get anger as a response.  They learn what they see.
7663
Hmmm...I think it's because they want people to treat them like adults,but they still don't know what to do exactly when they have a problem. So they think they're too mature to get help from an adult,but they can't fix the problem by themselves,so they just run away from the problem
426682
its the parents fault