How do i tell a guy i dont love him anymore?
91623
Tell him the truth.  Just say "hey, I think you're a great guy, but I really don't think you're the right person for me.  I want you to be happy, and I want to be happy. I don't think I'm happy right now; but that is not your fault.  Like I said, you're a great person, but just not the great person I want to be with."
370161
be honest with him and tell him how you feel
1128014
It's obvious that you need to tell him that you're not compatible. Honesty would be the best way to let someone know you're not feeling them. You shouldn't necessarily go into the drug-use and the ignorance unless he leaves you no choice. If he pulls a dumb-one and tries to act as if you're doing something wrong by telling him that you're not interested in him anymore, then let him know what exactly you're trying to say. He should get it then. Good luck with this.
839631
Just kinda do the whole sorry I don't like you that way speech.\n\nIt's better to break it to him then to avoid it.\n\nGood luck.\n\nAnd if he stalks you get a restraining order.
388353
i know it's tempting to hurt him like that, but you will regret it in the future. just tell him you're leaving him and don't go into details.
760915
You want what you can't have.\n\nIf you act like you no longer care for him, I guarantee he'll suddenly be hurt by the loss of your attention. Make yourself that unattainable object of his desires.
173246
u told him in a nice way that u dont want him, then let it go. u cant baby him through this. just assure him that you want to remain friends THATS ALL
22304
This is always tough and really, it depends on your situation.  The best thing you can do is be honest; tell them you no longer love them (and maybe this means you never really did) and explain why (this is the important part because it sucks to never know why someone fell out of love).  If you want to take the cowards way, just start cheating on them until they get the hint or the next time they say "i love you" say something like "yeah...about that love thing..." but you really do just have to say it.  They'll understand eventually even if it hurts them a lot now.  And be gentle, because they obviously care about you and you cared about them at some point
367992
just say no.... end of story......\nyou hate him... and chances are a no isn't going to break his heart
81097
tell him that it isn't working for you any more and be honest with him!
859975
Tell him again, write him back, don't pull any punches, don't sugar coat anything, don't tell him, that he's a nice guy and your not interested in him, tell him straight up.. to back off your not interested in him, you have a boy friend, and you don't want him to write you any more messages. You might of sent him mixed messages in the past, so tell him one more time to stay away, if he doesn't tell the principal or your boyfriend, because the guys is stocker, and a lain idiot
486750
Just tell him that you don't want to hurt his feelings or lie to him by staying with him when you just don't feel the same way for him so it is better to break up. Honesty is always the best answer. It may hurt still, but its better than a lie.
640806
well, I was going to say kick him in the balls and tell him he's a rotten scumbag, but if you really like him, just tell him it's over and you won't let him do that to you anymore.
948063
Tell him that you are very sorry that you hurt him. I don't know what happened to make your relationship go bad...but I know that if I was dating a guy and we broke up for whatever reason I wouldn't want to hurt him. That would make me hesitate to break up with him. Maybe you could point out whatever difference that broke you up is now resolved. Tell him also that you could start out very slow as friends and then get to the dating stage evenutally. If you really love this guy you will be willing to take as long as it takes to win him back. Good luck.
283572
If you ever truely loved him than you owe him the truth so he has a ligitimate chance to move on. Tell him it just isn't working out anymore. Tell him the truth in the most respectful manner possible. Sorry but there just is no easy way to do it.
554346
Lay it out, tell him you don't want to be with him. You deserve better doll, don't ever let a guy make you feel like you can't be a real woman. Just tell him straight out. You don't even need a reason.
574883
Turn him down as nice as you can if you are not interested.  If he becomes really upset you might consider offering him some sexual release to ease the pain as a goodbye gesture.