How does a young guy attract older(30-45) women?
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By being sure of himself, knowing what he wants from life and working toward that. Maturity, women in this age group do not want men who do not know how to treat a woman. Sincerity is extremely important and having a sense of humor. Make her laugh, sense of humor and not "bathroom humor" will make her eyes shine. We older women have lots to teach younger men though I am myself no longer available, I have my younger man.
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Are you talking about younger men or older men?\n\nDo you really want an answer . . . \n\nLet me explain . . . when young men try to date girls their age . . . the majority of the time . . . they get shot down.  It isn't because they have no game . . . it is because the girls are looking for more than an immature male (in their mind).  Plus you young girls are looking for older men or men with potential . . . who can be your sugar daddy.\n\nSo . . . these guy look at older women . . . for stress relief (trying to be clean). . . and these women usually give it up easier because they (in their minds) think "boy . . . I still have it . . . these young boys chatting me up, telling me I look beautiful like girls his age."  Meanwhile these guys spend little or no money on them and get all the action they need . . . in some cases these ladies become sugar mommas . . . (Like you young girls who have sugar daddies).\n\nMeanwhile, these young guys . . . go to college. . . get their degree . . . and make six figures when they reach their mid 30's (the guys you are currently dating - who will eventually dump you) . . . and they will start dating girls approx. 10-12 years younger than them.\n\nI've been there . . . done that.
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Depends a lot on how old the men are.  If they were in high school with you and recently graduated, okay.  But if they're just old guys looking for young girls, there's only one thing on their minds, because there isn't much they have in common except working body parts, if you know what I mean.
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I'm 56 and women your age want to date us guys cause the women your age say younger men are too immature! But it is your choice of what you want out of life? Myself, a women has no age limit for me as long as we are compatible.\nGo for it girl, all you need is self esteem!
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Older men like younger women to make themselves feel young as others have said. But if the girl is a lot younger it makes the man seem even older and other people will think he is the girl's father. They might think the girl is only after the guy's money. Let's face it, just as a man doesn't want a woman who looks old, a young woman won't want some old guy's wrinkled old a-ss either. An age difference of 10 years is still ok but anything more than that starts to become inappropriate. And let's not overlook older women. I've seen some very hot older women out there.
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i have PERSONAL experince dude.  listen to this. i met a woman when i was 24, and she was 34.  the sex was amazing, she was very experience. but thats the only thing that was good.  her mentality was more mature than i was and we didnt have any common intrest, im not saying that it wont work out for you. you just have to see how you feel about her,  there are couples out there who are that big of an age difference and they are happy with it.  but most of the time it wont work out. when you reach 20 she will be 30. etc.  are you willing to be with an old woman when you are 40 and she is 50.  thats the question you need to ask yourself.  but in the mean time, enjoy each other and see waht happens, just enjoy the moments, thats the best advice i can give you
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This is for all you girls 30 years and over.... and for those who are turning 30, and for those who are scared of moving into their 30's...AND for guys who are scared of girls over 30!\n\nThis was written by Andy Rooney from CBS 60 Minutes. (NOTE: This was e-mailed to me so I'm not sure if Andy Rooney wrote it or not - but it's still true regardless.)\n\nAndy Rooney says:\n\nAs I grow in age, I value women who are over 30 most of all. Here are just a few reasons why:\n\nA woman over 30 will never wake you in the middle of the night to ask, "What are you thinking?" She doesn't care what you think.\n\nIf a woman over 30 doesn't want to watch the game, she doesn't sit around whining about it! . She does something she wants to do. And, it's usually something more interesting.\n\nA woman over 30 knows herself well enough to be assured in who she is, what she is, what she wants and from whom. Few women past the age of 30 give a damn what you might think about her or what she's doing.\n\nWomen over 30 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you, if they think they can get away with it.\n\nOlder women are generous with praise, often undeserved. They know what it's like to be unappreciated.\n\nA woman over 30 has the self-assurance to introduce you to her women friends. A younger woman with a man will often ignore even her best friend because she doesn't trust the guy with other women. Women over 30 couldn't care less if you're attracted to her friends because she knows her friends won't betray her.\n\nWomen get psychic as they age. You never have to confess your sins to a woman over 30. They always know.\n\nA woman over 30 looks good wearing bright red lipstick. This is not true of younger women.\n\nOnce you get past a wrinkle or two, a woman over 30 is far sexier than her younger counterpart.\n\nOlder women are forthright and honest. They'll tell you right off if you are a jerk if you are acting like one! You don't ever have to wonder where you stand with her.\n\nYes, we praise women over 30 for a multitude of reasons. Unfortunately, it's not reciprocal. For every stunning, smart, well-coiffed hot woman of 30+, there is a bald, paunchy relic in yellow pants making a fool of himself with some 22-year-old waitress.
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Slow down, Daddy's Best Friend.  Her smiles do not necessarily mean she's coming on to you.  Older men are naturally flattered by the slightest bit of attention from an attractive young woman; don't read more into her actions, or your reaction, than is likely to be there.  Be pleasant and polite and keep your hands to yourself.
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Due to their loudly ticking biological clock, all 30 year old women are hot. Just find a local 30 year old near you and ask her out.
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you have to put your self in the path of a man in order to catch him.Remember you have one thing going for you right from the start most men like younger women.If its a guy you know already ask him out.
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Nice guys tend to be in nice places. You won't catch a brook trout in a storm sewer. Join a church or the Young Democrats or the Young Republicans or the Sierra Club. Volunteer for a work day at Friends of the River. Join a gym. Look for single dads at your kids' activities. Stay clear of bars.\n\nTake it very, very slow. Assuming you are past 35, from the list of problems, you will probably have to settle for someone 10 - 15 years older than you. It is an ugly fact of life that there are about 2 nice women for every nice guy out there, so the guys can pick and choose.\n\nMy wife works in a large medical building with a lot of nurses. We belong to a large church, and I work for a meduim sized-corporation. The lack of reasonable men is astounding. I know just 2 single men I would not hesitate to introduce to anyone. I know a dozen women I wish I could pair up with nice guys.
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Thank you "Lady Wyn"...very good answer...I am 42 and my girlfirend just turned 21 and It has nothing at all to do with her age on why we are going out....its all about liking the same stuff....we love the same music, the same books, the same tv shows, the same places to eat....we both love to play pool and love the beach...and in general just enjoy each others company. I have dated women from 18-50 and had a great time with all of them and I don't keep looking for one certian age group....its whoever appeals to me and who I also appeal to...so stop being so shallow!
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Im 27yrs old, and divroced for almost 7mos, the ex messed aorund on me, since I started dating one of the things I have relized is that girls are attracted more to older guys, most of the girls I have dated have been 19-25 not to make myself sound like a man whore or anything, but I think Im more attracted to the younger girls because they tend to want ot have more fun, and make me feel younger when Im with them. Its not about the sex.
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I've "dated" a few younger guys, mostly for the sex.  So there are other MILFs out there I'm sure.   Your approach may be off and normally these things just sort of "happen" you don't go looking for it.  Or you don't wake up and say "I'm 35, I think I'll find me a nice young 20 year old to *uck".
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It sounds like he might be interested. If he's single and he's really a nice guy - just see what happens -- and let it flow naturally. Don't try to force anything. \n\nDon't listen to others who are hung up on the age difference. Age is a state of mind. But do beware that getting into a serious relationship with someone who's older is a little different than someone closer to your age. If you get serious and end up together -- there will come a point where you worry about him being so much older.....just think - when you're 41 - he'll be 60....when you're 51 - he'll be 70.....\n\nGood luck:)
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I am older also.  I like younger women.  I am vain.  I am not attracted to many women my age.  I look great for my age so probably 10 years younger.  In many cases the girl has chased after me. Make sure that he is taking you out and exposing you to culture.  You should be going to plays and concerts and nice restaurants with him.  He should be introducing you to his friends (parents later).  See the book Pygmilian which my fair lady is based.  Your older guy should be expanding your horizons.  If you are just going to cheap restaurants or not really doing anything then you are simply giving it up for the price of a happy meal.
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Im pretty certain that there are women in their 40's looking for a male companion for love if you check out some of the dating sites on the internet, you will probably have a bigger field finding a lady on a dating site than what you may find here... good luck...\nthis isnt a love match site is it?