how to make wife hot "like to have more sex with me" couse she say most of the time she is tierd??
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When she says that she is tired then she is not actually looking forward to it. Perhaps there is no motivation or reward that she can get out of it. Maybe you get your rocks off or are too demanding for your own wants.\n\nDo not just think of your satisfaction, aim to satisfy her. Beleive me once you get her going on those lines, she will make sure that she finds a way to get laid. And your hearts desires/perversions will only get her more turned on.\n\nMy advise, start playing around with her the whole day, show your concern by helping her with her work, stay in the same room while she works and talk to her, a show of affection, steal a moment and yet do not demand anything till she comes to you for it.\n\nOnce you have gotten a woman going, it is very hard for her to turn off till she has had it.\n\nAim to please her.
519553
Try asking her what turns her on. (I would say find out more about your future mate sexually before tying the knot but that don't always work. So communication is the key!!! Never and I mean never stop communicating!!! You wife may have a kink streak that you haven't known existed!!! Three things: 1) Communication 2) Be open minded 3) Have fun!!\n\nGood luck!!
25321
just make sure you listen to what she has to say 100% of the time... relationships are not all about sex... I have sex with my wife three times a week and she always has an orgasm... my motto is "ladies first" she has to cum first before I do... so even if we don't have sex very often, we make it very special...\n\nalso... there are forces from up above that count women's tears... so be careful
115717
First figure out what making you come so fast. If your chicks hot dont look at her if shes moaning tell her to shut up try beeting off before your incounter o yea my problem went away with age or the wife got ugly and of coure vigra is the bomb hope this helps
1169963
same problem. Wife gets me tooo hot. I can't got to distance sometimes really sux. Get her to be on top and run the show, that helps.\n\nAlso, taking a really hot shower before getting in the sack can help. as well as pounding the poodle before hand. You can last longer that way.
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make her feel like a princess- buy her things, let her know that you'll do anything for her. also tell her she's beautiful- women love that. if she argues, persist. call her honey, baby, etc.
59533
My guess is that you're not talking about a day-to-day thing. What you want is for her to get dressed up and for you two to have crazy monkey sex. Awesome.\n\nIf you two talk about your sex life, bring it up during one of those conversations. Say "You know what might be fun to try one time?"\n\nDon't try to change the whole of your sex life in a day. A good guideline is that only 1 in 3 sexual encounters with your partner should be "enhanced" or "special". If you were to start asking her to dress up like a porn star every time you two made love, she would likely feel less than confident.\n\nIf you two are open enough, head on over to a strip club. Buy her a lapdance. I went to a club and got one and it was superfun. I left the club thinking it might be fun to dress up like a stripper sometimes. Your wife might get the same ideas.\n\nHowever, if you bring it up and she says something along the lines of "I'm not a tawdry whore", make it clear that you want her to be beautiful and classy, just like she already is. If she still says no, drop it. The more you pressure her, the more she'll feel like you don't like her for who she is.\n\nMost women will agree to do something that they're not entirely into every once in a while for the sake of their partner. Besides, if you respond enthusiastically, she's more likely to do it again.\n\nGood luck!
1150908
Try to compromise with ur wife to make up sometimes for sex as u need it.
17834
First you need to open up her sexuality by helping her see women as sexy.  If you have not went down on her yet...do so it might open her up more and take her out to a club or bar that you know has women willing to swing.  Get her drunk ...Get her kissed by another women ag it on...Get her to dance with other women and let her know how sexy you and every other guy in the place think she is...Then you will have her right where you wanted her...
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Just ask her!  If you're not convinced with her answer, don't press the issue.  Ask for ways for you to improve her experience.  If she's worried about your feelings, that will give her the opportunity to 'help you along' without embarassment.  Real men appreciate any advice from their lady- so the fact that she offers it- does NOT mean you've been doing it wrong.  And remember, you're not born a great lover, you BECOME a great lover- take any advice graciously.
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lets see start with foreplay, add in more foreplay and then more foreplay!!  a women is not just a va*ina - spend lots of time exploring her other erogenous zones and always always fully pleasure her before you even think about yourself!  no tricks just good decent hard sweat work!!!!
1036949
You have to go the extra mile.... not just expect sex because she is your fiance and/or wife or girlfriend.... Sometimes a woman wants to feel the same way after being married or engaged as she did when you were FIRST trying to get it.... you "wooed" and "wowed" her then... now the only question is, "what have u done for her lately"?  \n\nIt has nothing to do with how well endowed you are or are not... if she is happy with you during the day, she will make you happy during the night.... \n\nSo compliment her, help her out and not just when she asks you to, but do it all on your own.  Just decide to do something that you KNOW needs to be done with out provocation from her... Buy her something pretty even if its as simple as a flower... (and i do mean 1 flower)... just because and for no other reason... show appreciation for and towards her and she will fold into you like warm butter on hot bread...
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Why should she have to ask you for more? \n\nYour question is evidence that you already know your performance is not good enough. Why don't you try to improve without making her ASK you to improve?\n\nNext time you're having sex with your wife, think about how you are disappointing her by lasting only 1 minute.  \nHopefully, this will make you feel bad enough that it will take you longer to come.
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Make sure that she is relaxed and in the mood for intimacy before you initiate a sexual encounter with your wife.  She will probably respond best if you are considerate of her feelings outside of the bedroom and take your time to please her.  If you do that, your reward will be worthwhile.
1128273
simply surprise her on several occasions.you know your wife better and know what can do the trick.
1098760
Maybe she is having a low sex drive right now and do you spice things up in the bedroom and make things exciting for her???? Talk to her and see why she feels this way and also suggest to her maybe seeing a doctor or sex therapist. She could be having affairs too!
150404
she's always right. ur job is to just smile and say "ok baby ur right." rub her back, rub her feet, run her bath water, cook for her, compliment her on how beautiful she is, spoil her - when she's not in the mood for sex just give her oral and dont expect anything in return. CONGRATS!