How do i get back a girl that has had alot of problems with me and has been my girlfriend...?
94000
prove to her u won't give her anymore problems.\nstop talking bout it, and be about it!
313687
Come on, darlin, open your eyes and find someone new.\nThis girl sas and does things that hurt you?  She cheated on you?  She wants you but doesn't want you now?\n\nPlease move on.  No ultimatums, no if's and;s or but's...move on.  She had her chance, she broke your heart and you can not allow this to happen again.\n\nIf you open your heart and your mind, you'll find a new love that might treat you like you need to be treated.  A new beginning with a new love.  Stop pining over this other gal and let loose of her.  She isn't worth it, believe me.\n  As I said, she had her chance, she blew it.  Once a cheater, always a cheater.  She is just too immature for you.  Move on...............
143745
This is an easy question. How old are you and your girlfriend and how long have you been dating? If she told you she is not in love with you, then she has probably been feeling this way for awhile and finally got the courage to tell you. If you want her back, all you have to do is ignore her, make yourself busy and when you talk, be somewhat short with the conversation. If she still cares about you, more than likely your unavailability will pull her closer. If she really doesn't like you anymore, that will be obvious too. If that is the case, then you should definitely try to not call her as much and find other things to entertain your thoughts so that you can move on.
215303
You can't win her back but perhaps there is a chance you could EARN her back. \n\nBy this I mean that you should replace criticism with encouragement, emotional support and praise. After all, she's not supposed to be a mirror image of you, reflecting only your values, opinions and ways of doing things. \n\nIt sounds like both of you need boundaries. There are things that shouldn't be said, like hurtful judgments and criticisms. \n\nIt is so much more pleasant to appreciate and tolerate individual differences than to bicker over personal life styles!\n\nBest of luck to you and your lady!\nI hope it all works out for the best.
915137
if you have feelings for this girl. go to her. get a new email address and send her an email letting her know your coming anyways that you cant let it go on this way and yo have to see her dont let her ignore the problem any more i bet if you show up there she'll be yours
284735
hey well one sorry to hear that. two well the best thing i think you can do is go talk to her. find out exactly why she broke up with you. if the chemistry just wasn't there for her you will have to find a way to move on. if it was something else that can be fixed well than talk to her and maybe you can fix it. goodluck and i wish you all the best.
278580
Right now, you need her to regain her trust in you. You owe her that, and she deserves all the time she needs. Spend a lot of time with her, be there for her, laugh with her, just show her how special she is to you. Don't just say it, show it. But don't pressure her to get over the hurt. If you do love and care for her like you say, you will be patient. If she decides to move on with someone else, you can only be happy for her and be there if it doesn't work out. I truly think she will notice all these things and will come around when she's ready. Good luck, and no more deceptions.
850873
Give her a little time...try to win her back with little things that you know she likes....and hopefully you learned dont get stupid drunk around her_
398231
You need to do the things that lit the spark the first time around and show her that your are serious. If you just sit and talk about getting back together then it more than likely won't happen. Send her flowers, show her you care because more than likely her feelings were hurt when you broke up with her.
674882
Just try to talk to her. It depends on what you did, but try to tell her you're reasons and say you're sorry. Try to work it out calmly.
33538
To get back at her, simply do nothing. By doing something that would make her crumble, you yourself will be a part of that mess and would not be pleasant if it was known that you did something or that you had even plotted against her. Eventually, she will reach a breaking point since nobody is truly perfect (no matter how close it seems). She probably has already annoyed other people to the point of abandonment.\n\nOverall, just ignore her. Try and try. You need to be the one to take her place :]
873327
Oh goodness, well the first thing I have to say about the situation is that she definitely has someone else...women don't leave unless they have something else to go to!  And as long as she has someone else, someone who in her mind is "treating" her better, there is nothing you can do to get her back.  And if she asked you not to call, then that is a decision you have to respect.  Your calling her is not going to help and it will just push her away farther.   Sorry to say, but this is a situation that only she can (in time) decide that she wants to be back with you.  Give it some time (and give her some space) eventually this other guy will screw up and she will contemplate coming back to you.  If she doesn't come back, then it is for the best.  You deserve to be with someone who wants to be with you as much!
581596
well talk to her about it. don't ask straight forward because she'll likely lie to you. just ask her casual questions like "hows it been going" and try to figure it out from there. but it really should come down to if you want her back.
118546
don't EVER get urself involved with dis kinda girls again.they're bad 4 you.not worth ur time.\nUR BETTER OFF WITHOUT HER.\n4GET BOUT HER.\nIGNORE HER.
295106
SOMETIMES WHEN A RELATIONSHIP REACHES A POINT, THERE IS NO TURNING AROUND.  YOU JUST HAVE TO KNOW YOU WANT THIS AND FORGET THE PAST AND MAKE A COMMITMENT TO MAKE IT WORK.  JUST FORGET ALL THE MUMBO JUMBO AND START FRESH.  DON'T WORRY ABOUT WHAT HAPPENED THEN, LIVE IN THE NOW.  IF YOU CAN'T STOP FOCUSING ON WHAT HAPPENED IN THE PAST, IT WILL NEVER WORK.  AND IT IS POSSIBLE TO START NEW WITH A RELATIONSHIP.  I SPEAK 100% FROM EXPERIENCE.  I KNOW THIS IS A DIFFERENT SITUATION,  BUT LISTEN TO MY ADVICE.  IT WORKS.  JUST ASK HER IF SHE WANTS THIS OR NOT.  IF SHE HAS ANY DOUBTS, THEN SHE DOESN'T.  SHE MIGHT EVEN NEED SOME TIME JUST TO SORT THINGS OUT.  SIT DOWN AND HAVE A NICE LONG TALK TO HER AND DON'T BRING UP THE PAST; ONLY THE NOW AND THE FUTURE.  GOOD LUCK.  IF SHE LOVES YOU, SHE'LL STICK WITH YOU.
1152170
Try to talk to her. See why she left you. Try to negotiate with her. See if you can fix the problem. There is also relationship councilors. Visit them. I know you guys can work it out. Good Luck!
271160
If I was you I wouldn't take her back. If she did it the first time, shes gonna do it again!. Find a real woman that will respect you and love you. You sound like a good guy, You deserve better!!I always think if you are not sure about something, don't do it.. SHE WORTH'S NOTHING! Trust Me!\n\nGood Luck. Hope you find the right one :)