i have a serious attraction guys that are too young for me to be looking at.. i need help with this problem?
88001
well lets start with TO ALL THE PEOPLE THAT HAVE A PROBLEM WITH GAYS: why are you even posting any answers to this question nobody asked if you liked homosexuals, and frankly i don't think your opinion matters to them anyway, now FINALLY to answer your question. If you are talking about looking at Kiddie Porn and looking at really young like adolescent boys you do need to get some help b/c thats illegal, their is nothing wrong with being gay but their is something wrong with looking at little boys, so please do yourself a favor and all of us and go get some help.
595603
People place too much importance on looks to begin with. I dont care who you are looks will fade in time and its the personality that will carry a relationship through. If you are attracted to him...and he has a great personality as you stated...what are you waiting for..go out with him. It sounds like you may be concerned about what others will think of you being seen with him. If your friends are that shallow, they are not much of a friend to begin with. Go for it girl and I hope you have a great time.
1065728
hmm then there is problem...forget about them and start thinking about hot and sexy boys who can like you and date you...\n\ncheers!!!
253321
Yeah I have this same exact problem. There are like several guys that i think are absolutly hott and i cant tell them cuz i dont know wat they would say because we are just friends. Well my advise is to just sit him down ALONE and tell him how you feel. Dont worry everything will work out fine. Love, \nCassie
429539
It is not only okay, it is completely natural. If he isn't doing anything other than looking, it doesn't matter.  If it bothers you, you should really ask yourself why.  Don't you ever look at other guys?
1114295
You are growing and changing rapidly - and perhaps - so are your tastes in boys.  For whatever reasons you liked them in the beginning, that has changed.  You don't say whether you got to know them, or if they did something to turn you off.\nAs you grow, you set in your mind the type of person that you seek, and maybe those two boys simply don't fulfill your ideal boy.  You will meet many boys who may pique your interest, but you won't date them all.  It is good to be selective.\n\nIf you tend to do this with every boy you meet, THEN you may have a problem.  You might be considered too picky then.\n\nNext year you could meet a boy who really fulfills your ideals and if so, then you will date him - but for now, you are simply shopping around and seeing what is available.  \nYou are young yet and there will be time for dating in the future.
725336
honey, if your having a hard time keeping your man's attention then you need to find a new man that is more interested in YOU.  but  while your still out with your man and you notice him paying more attention to the 'scenery' than you... you should look around yourself and as soon as you see someone else that looks good, keep your eyes on him even if your man starts to talk to you.. show him what it feels like not to have all of your undivided attention! ;)
396474
Just be yourself.  If he doesn't see how great you are, find someone who does -- believe me, there will be tons more crushes and tons more guys.  If he doesn't see you for what you're worth, it's not the end of the world or your last chance.  Get out there and find someone who sees it.
486752
I agree with tempted and I would add that you should concentrate more on how you feel than how others might upon seeing you.\n\nRemember that true love is blind, which really just means that it is unconditional. Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder and the only eye that counts is the one in YOUR head.\n\nAny onlookers don't know the real him or the real you and if they judge you on appearances negatively then they are shallow people not worth worrying about. Most people are gonna look at you, see your love and affection for one another and be either charmed by it or jealous that they don't have it themselves.\n\nCongratulations on finding the right man!
676577
for some odd reason I can relate to that. now that I think about it I might have that problem too. try looking at their lips and consentrating on the words and how to reaspond. if your talking to some hot person then I can't help you there.
998424
i suggest,go out and enjoy your life,dont agonize over a guy,the minute you stop worrying and focus on something else more produtive,BAM,you"ll notice that guys will be checking you out,most guys i know,really like a confident woman....so go,go have fun,enjoy your life!
881224
Try to find something else to do when you get the urge to look at him.     He will get the idea that you like him.
649840
Go up to one you like and say, "I think you are really hot".  After he gets over the initial shock, spend time talking to him and getting to know him.\n\nIgnore the dagger like looks from all those women who were hoping to get him instead of you.  They are losers waiting around, desperately hoping to attract attention to validate their pathetic, wretched lives.  While they are wasting time doing that, you are walking away with what you both want.  You have it, they don't.  That's the bottom line.
404044
men at that age would never get anyone one better then you you so why are you worried he knows what hes got hes not blind the reason why hes not attracted is because hes trying to get you jealous hes probably insecure about his age and is trying too see what your gonna do maybe hes like that cause he cant get his shiit up and he trys to find an excuse hes old and if you love him you should try talking to him and tell him how you feel and if he really not intrested then move on but  if he says he loves you then tell him either you stop being this way in front of me or I will find someone else and if that dont work make him jealous and pretend nothing he says hurts you and walk away try watching T.V with young and attractive men and see how he reacts (he knows what he got )he thinks that by doing this you wont leave tell him if he likes that kind of woman then you will have one and get him on his own game BUT really the fact is if you dont love him then go and make yourself happy but think with your head and not your heart and give it as much as you can ,,,,if your close to his family talk to them and see what they say make sure he knows how you are and dont get hurt later in your life........
869927
Gosh why are you even worried about that? Those are the hottest guys on earth.. WHITE & HISPANIC. Don't worry about it too much. Just go out with them!
281121
don't rush it sweetheart your pretty and it takes boys awhile to see that at your age,  because your at the age of developement and growing up faster then they are and becoming grown up faces a new world of what boys notice when they get older too., if they seem cruel it's because they don't know what to say but it will come to them when they grow up too. enjoy being the little sweetheart that you are, and time will make them all crazy about you too. and you'll have them calling you and wanting to be around you so much you'll be asking ways to get rid of them here.
892909
You are probably attracted to these guys because they are safe, they don't pose a challenge to you, they don't make you want to become a better person. You deserve better, but you don't believe it. Set some goals for your life, challenge yourself to learn new things, to meet people you would not normally associate with because you "think" they are better than you. Go out and help other people, volunteer at a retirement center, work at a youth center, when you are helping others, you will feel better about yourself and also you will learn that you are capable and Worth something. Live your life like you only have one life to live.