Guy Trouble... What do I do?
91991
yes ytou messed up, but it's not your fault, it's guy #1, if he could not tell you he really wanted you or wanted you like a GF, then he is a coward and a meek man, someone you really do not want when it counts, not it sounds like he is showing the hurt poor pity me side to see if he can leverage that into something, you are better off looking for guy #3 and forgetting the other 2 losers
129758
People prefer honesty!  Tell him, he is a noice guy, but that he is not your type.  You are not attracted to him.  If you know of another girl that has some interest in him, maybe you can set them up.\n\nJust do this in a supportive, way, but stand firm.\n\nA man hates rejection, but when it is dome honestly is usually appreciated.
966418
I would definatly talk to him about it. Or be the sly, sexy, one and write him a cute little note asking him out. I was in this situation, but he ended up asking me...but if he won't make the move, make it. Or suggest that someone else is going to ask you out, making him want to ask you first. If he still doesn't budge, he's bein a stupid guy.
715966
Determine if he likes you...sometimes when something like this occurs then it doesn't work, it's just too weird in the end....it's hard to go back being just friends.
296941
hmmm, well, make sure he knows u still do like him!!!  tell him that, us guys aren't very good at picking up the so called "signals" very well.As long as he is a decent guy, hey wont , WONT break up with you, and if he does, hes an A-hole, who doesn't like u, and is using u for ur body
831224
my friend was in a similar situation, il tell u wot i told her.dont ring him anymore(unless he calls u).if he likes u then he will ring u.guys are lazy so wait a few more dayz but if he doesnt ring cut him loose!
406544
ask him out ... or get over it ... sorry but there really are only two options... unless you make it absolutly clear that you like him,,, he wont go out with you... get to know him... then ask... \n\ngood luck .. hope all goes well
141358
Do you like him back? If you don't then you ahve nothing to worry about. If you like him, then discuss this with your friend. Guys come and go, friends are forever.
414528
Let him know your interested if you haven't, so he knows his options.  Don't try to be better then this girl. You are who you are, if he likes you for you, then great. If he likes the other girl, thats something you can't help.  But if he doesn't like you, he's not the right guy, move on cuz theres so many guys out there. he's not the only one.
442583
Forget him.  He's not as interested as you thought.  Move on.
121525
Ok blue, i know how u feel, so talk to him about your feelings. A guy friend of mine liked me but i didnt cause i just like him as a friend, just like what ur going through. It sucks i know, but i went up to him and asked him if we can talk and so i told him i dont have the same feelings for you. Plus ask him if he is willing to put your guy's friendship on the line if u guys go out, you know what i mean? You guys are probably good friends, right? I know u dont want to loose that,so let him no that. Speak ur mind and he should respect that no matter what.
778696
try talking to him... let him know who you are... don't keep waiting    .........                                                                                                                                                                           by the way i'm a guy
90428
do you like him back? if not just ignore him he'll figure it out eventually. you could date someone else then he'll probly say something!
87339
Talk about it with your friend. When you do, don't start a fight because that will make the problem worse. Think about this. What's more important, the guy or your friend?
828004
This sounds a little weird, so I definitely think that you should talk to your guy. Tell him that this is really bothering you and that you don't mean to go crazy on him. If he really cares about your feelings, then he won't just blow you off.
297705
stay quiet. or take the chance of losing a friend over a guy. it is your choice!
844129
Approach him!  You are a woman, prove it and be the assertive one!  Who says a guy has to make the first move??  ;)