i was having a wonderful relation with this guy but we never saw each other so i showed him my fake picture?
97661
blah blah blah blah blah-get a life and meet a real-life man
574521
if he initially lied to you there's a problem. put yourself in his shoes, would you have just told the truth or tried to lie? it sounds like there are some underlying issues anyway because even if he didn't have anything to hide he should've felt comfortable enough to come clean. for this reason, ditch him girlie! the only 2 reasons he can have is that either something was going on and he lied, or he wanted to not upset you in which case he should've felt comfortable enough about your relationship to tell you the truth - either way he's gotta go! good luck hun, you'll find someone better :o)
779088
yes, let it go. if you really are sure he is, then ask him.  He may deny it, or he may not.  Hacking into his account would show you don't trust him!  And if he finds out he is going to be REALLY mad that you don't!
418084
If he didn't leave you a forwarding address maybe he chose not to further contact with you.  Are you a stalker or what?  And why would you be looking for this person when you just posted a question looking for someone to deal with your sexual dysfunctions here on yahoo answers?\n\nAnd if I know him, I would atleast have the decency to respect his privacy and let him know of you first.\n\nBy the way suga...did you defend yourself on everyone else's questions here about your not being a stalker?  You asked, if you don't want to hear what others think, don't ask.  Next time you want to post a defence on something I have said, try emailing me like a normal human being and not hiding yourself behind some avatar without a contact link.
429149
I'm just going to answer:\nIf I go to an online site and I find a profile without a picture, even if the site is telling me is a 95% match I would not contact her. Simply by the fact that I took the time to put a picture of mine in there so people can see how do I really look like, and.....\nbecause if you don't have a picture it might as well be anybody playing a really bad joke.
645134
Sometimes it is best to be straight forward in situations like this.  I know that's easier said than done but with this approach it leaves no room for guessing on his part.  You don't have to be rude but you do have to be honest.  That way he will get the picture and leave you alone for good.  Good luck.\n\nP.S.  I had to do this before and the guy actually thanked me for being honest and we're actually friends now.  He has a girlfriend and everything.
1017966
Are you friends with his friend?  If you weren't doing anything inappropriate, then it could just be your self-concious identifying a person you'd spent time with recently.
859082
Nothing, since he's fake and couldn't have called you. It was just a bad dream, kiddo:-)\n\n\nRAmen!!!
1132733
i can tell you that hes an idiot. i think he judged you by how you look rather than get to know you, the real you. i think he acted the way he did cause he didnt want to be outcast by his friends and to be taunted by other peers. people now hold their reputations up high, ego maniacs. just keep your head up and dont let anyone put you down. there are much better people out there so just forget about that dude. good luck and take care!
102005
This is hard advise and hurting your feelings further is definitly not my intent. Please, don't be offended by my observation. Your a beautiful young girl, as your picture surely boasts, and should not waste your time with someone who would cut off communications with you like that. People can be very cruel when the saftey of distance & computers are left out of the equation. In my opinion the jerk is probably married and was just having a good jerk over having such a young beauty interested in him since he never figured you'd ever come close to meeting. Your better than that dear. It time for the revival of the days when a young women was to be courted and persued by an upstanding and respectable young man with more intent than just a quick roll in the hay. What you have to bring to a relationship is a gift from our creator and is precious. There are many more out there that would never allow you to question there sincerety let alone allow you to be hurt. Keep looking sweetheart!
663377
He's probably just not who/what he says he is. Or he has really low self esteem and no real life friends, and therefore can't handle being rejected based on his appearance. It is entirely possible that he has romantic delusions about you and doesn't want to risk losing that.
1059318
Can you give more detail- what do you mean seeing himself in the picture- is he trying to steall you away form your hubby? Please give more specifics.  You can email me at trialtoid@yahoo.com
384206
Yes, it is very easy for people with no morals to pose as something they are not.  Do be careful and use common sense and everything should be alright.  If your instincts are telling you this guy is a creep, then trust them.  We have them for a reason.
1074165
You were suspicious to begin with, hence you "checked" his email.  Now your suspicions are confirmed.  I would call a marsvenus coach to find out a) what to do and b) how can you regain your trust in this or any man.  You cannot have a healthy relationship where there is no trust.  Time for you to address all your past relationships and childhood wounds to determine why you were suspicious in the first place--was it his behaviour or your problem that drove you to check the email?
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What did you do to make him do that? Usually we keep photos like that and show personal friends but he advertised them. How could he possibly make up for this besides castrating himself? The scars he left on your soul by doing that are going to be lifelong and no one will forget what they saw, theres no way to take it back. You need a reality check.
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You should come correct, Kara.  If I were you I wouldn't have intentionally deceived him in the first place because now he's always going to be like, "If she lied to me about that, what ELSE is she lying to me about?"  \n\nBut, have no fear...  If he's really that great of a guy, he will understand and accept you for who you are and what you do.  You just have to do everything you can to earn back whatever trust and confidence he had in you prior to this perpetuation of misinformation.  You also have to let him know that no matter what you do, you're going to save the good stuff for him.  =)  \n\nGood luck.
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you should just tell him that you real like him and at the time you called it off because you didn't know if he felt the some way you did and you didn't want to mess up your friendship