What does it take to hhave a marriage and a carrer?
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time management skills,and being able to set priorities.Obviously.Being determined to work hard to support your family,yet still spending enough time with them can be a stretch,but where there is a will there is a way.Make time for each important thing in your life,and stick to a routine,that way there will always be enough spaces in the day to spend with your family.There is a time for work and a time for play,balance is the essential factor here!
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I think u should speak to a trusted family member or a marriage counsellor (try for one of ur own religion).\nJust be sure u ask someone with a happy wife (or husband, if ur asking a woman).\n\nAnd yes, if u and the girl are from a conservative community, then she will probably be shy. Be patient with her.
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COMMITTMENT!\n\nThink about the old marriage vows (some people still adhere to them)\n\nFor better or worse\nFor richer or poorer\nIn sickness and health\netc.\n\nThat means you make a committment to see it through the tough times, NOT just say "ah, if he does something I don't like, or she gets on my nerves" I'll just get a divorce...\n\nCommit to making it last.\nAfter the committment you do need love, trust, understanding and patience.
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Well the first thin is is that you both need to be able to:\ncommunicate\ncompromise\ntrust\nbe honest \ngive as well as receive\nbe able to be patient and understanding\nbe able to allow them to have a life away from you as well.\nto want to do things special for one another once in a while. like:\nplan a walk at the beach and have a pic nic\ncall them up on the phone jsut to say "i love you", "i miss you" and/or "I'm thinking aobut you"\nplan a candle light dinner at home\nhave a nice warm bath waiting for their return possibly with( candles, music, oil or bubbles and/or rose petals in tub)\nOn your partners day off, play hooky to spend time with them on cuddling on the couch watching movies and talking.\nIf you two can do this, seek a marriage counselor, counselor will be able to bring up some other importatnt things to thik about, that most people don't seem to think about.
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Marriage only get's worse when the people involved stop doing the things they did to build the relationship. \nFor instance if a relationship is based on Lust. how long to you think it will last when you both stop being creative in bed. \nNow if it's based on communication the same thing applies. \nhow long will it last when money is tight and your both working to pay the bills, then have a child or 3 and they demand your attention due to the care they require. How often do you think you will have those long heart to heart talks? It's the loss of each person "5 basic needs" that triggers things like affairs, marrital abuse and the empting of your love bank.\n\nRead a few of the books I listed below. They can really help BUT you need constant work in a marriage. just because you said I DO does not mean it will get easier. in fact that is when the real work begins.
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God needs to be the center of a union of marriage. Once partners are in tuned with eachother and their relationship with God is secure, your spouse will tell you what he / she wants and you can follow the program.
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It all depends on what nationality the foreigner is and where they plan on getting married. The basics are that one of you needs to get into the other country legally, which may require just a passport or maybe a visa. Once there, you need to get a marriage license following the rules of that country and have the marriage solemnized by a priest or judge, etc. Each country has a different process for allowing new spouses to live in the country.
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The first 2 years of marriage is the hardest. You are now trying to meld your living styles and marriage expectations to meet each other preferences. You both need to be honest, and talk, like 2 best friends, who are there to help each other (not change each other). Make deals on who will do what, and take turns doing what neither of you wants to do.
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Well marriage is a bond between two souls, so i think that all the four factors mentioned by you are important but the most importannt and required factor is understanding and your perfection towards the responbilities that you have to fullfill at your family. if you fullfill all the responsibilities well and if you are able to understand your husbands's emotions and situations, you can make him happy.\nmost importantly i would like to say that all these factors should be from both the sides i mean your husband should also have all these qualities.
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marriage is between a man and a woman.  bottom line.
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Wow. that is a tough one. It depends on your morals and beliefs. Is the marriage strong enough to handle the consequences? I once watched Dr. Phil and he said that is never a good idea. no matter who wants it or how long you've been married. What do you want? sometimes you have to stay true to yourself.
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A successful marraige does not depend upon how it was fixed...rather than it depends upon how the partners get along after marraige....there are lots of adjustments to be done...basically a marraige can be successful only if both the partners are tolerant to each others mistakes
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make up your mind about your marriage first. then do what you have to do,
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The sad and simple truth is that you can't. It takes two people to make marriage work, and one person working overtime to salvage something that may or may not be there is very heart wrenching and quite simply not fair to the person making all the sacrifices to make things work. Eventually feelings of resentment kick in and you end up fighting more than you did to start off with, because you're trying harder than the other person.\n\nThe best thing to do would be to accept failure (both your spouse's and yours,) and try to move on with your life from that point. Trying to hold on to the past when you're the only one working toward a brighter future only brings about more pain when the "end" eventually comes (i.e. divorce). Start preparing yourself for the worst, but know that you have done everything in YOUR power to save your marriage.\n\nLife will eventually work itself out, and you will be a happier person in the long run. Finding love again with another person can happen when you least expect it!! Good luck..
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Marriage.  Sadly, even that isn't 100% secure for some.
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Marriage is a great experience. However, i would strongly suggest that you are prepared for it. It's a lot of work and compromise, but if you're truely dedicated it's so worth it.
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A relationship changes in many subtle ways after marriage, especially because you're with the person almost all the time instead of only a few hours.  It takes a great deal of commitment and understanding in order to make it work.  One of the first things to do is talk about who will manage which aspects of the daily routine, and go from there.