lonely and dont have friends?
95653
Hey there!!   YOU have YOU!!  You're the best friend you'll ever have!!
585823
are u ugly? that could be it, plus alot of crazy ppl think they are normal... do u have any friends or have they disowned u too? if u have no friends, i think ur just a weirdo probably, and that is why, if u have friends, ur probably ugly and they are embarrassed of u
350630
just know that you are blessed to have family and friends that care about many people don't have that. once you realize that you won't feel lonely. It's a blessing. (and no I'm not religious)
480034
Being alone and being lonely are two totally different things. If you are alone and get bored, try a hobby or call a friend. If you are lonely, that is a different matter. Still you might try getting out and doing something and maybe meeting some new friends to have dinner with, see a movie, etc.
1177014
anyway why are feeling alone? You should have family members or frens around you.  make more new frens.\n\nmy email add is srileela29@yahoo.com
557104
This isnt the place to meet people, go out be social join a group...there is no reason to be lonely unless you choose to be like that....good luck
40366
friends are everywhere! u can find anyone that can suit your personality. you could have just put your particulars(asl) as you post your question or some few good reasons how come you dont have friends. we are all friends here, i suppose.
1068187
I feel like that sometimes... Like you don't have any "real" friends and have to talk online.  Just think of your aquaintences... the people you see every day but don't think much of.  Co-workers, the people at the grocery store... anyone.  They are all potential friends, you just have to ask them.  Ask someone to grab coffee with you, or go shopping with you.  Ask them over for a neighborhood gathering.  You'll be amazed at how many people really care.
115019
Being a loner is just an extension of your inner personality.  It's all a matter of preference (although friends are never a bad thing to have) and should be taken as thus.
359282
Don't have any.\n\nWill you be my friend?
794133
get some good friends and have fun.....
392911
Everybody should have friends, no matter what age you are, live is really hard if you don't.Good luck.
983365
why don't you try joining a group like the college paper or a team? something that helps you and others meet new people. just make sure it's something you like, if it isn't then you wouldn't make friends that you would want to hang out with.
1096227
My suggestion to you is tht take part in activities,being lonely & just thinking abt it will not help u in anyway so make frnds or if u have c tht u meet them daily for somtime go for gym or look out for job or activity tht keeps u busy all the day.Try to b active go for morning walks or play interesting game or u have sister sit down with her & discuss this she also may b in a state to help u to deal with it. U r not deep in relation with people tht is not a justified reason for u to b depress . try to understand tht there is time & situation for every thing to happen u will get things but b bold to face everything
424927
We're sorta in the same boat then. I don't have many friends... I have a friend who lives a few streets away, a friend who lives 1/2 an hr away, even tho we have each other's #, we still only talk online... :s Rarely see each other. Then there's my bf of course. I make friends & then I somehow lose friends... :( Sometimes I choose to not be friends w/ them cuz I don't deserve to be treated the way they treated me. I'm a nice girl... why can't I make friends ? Why won't anyone be friends w/ me ? Maybe I'm so nice that I'm regarded as a "loser" :( I don't drink, smoke, or do drugs. I don't think that peeps accept me cuz they think that I'm a "goody goody" :s :( (N)
443461
Your emptiness cannot be filled with people, I don't think. Find something creative in your life, something you can do all by yourself. That way your boyfriend's presence in your everyday life would be sufficient. Use your sense of loneliness to create. Try to sing about it, write about it, or draw it. A creative project may easily be used as a form of therapy. A good artist is one who uses his feelings in his line of work. You have your feelings, now you need to find the right application for them. In some community college in your town they ought to have art classes or crafts or something you can learn. You seem to have lots of creative potential that needs to get out so that you wouldn't feel miserable. To me, it's a clear question of self fulfilment, or lack of it, that troubles you. I think you want others to fill that hole inside of you that only you can. \nBut if I am wrong, here is another idea. Try to find online friends, then you wouldn't need to live close to them. And if you think that you need to make friends faster, you have to change your attitude. Don't think of your shyness or aloofness while meeting others. Think instead, picture it in your mind's eye, how those strangers become the friends you are comfortable with, how they replace the 5 you lost.\nPicture it as something that has already happened, due to your efforts. Feel the sense of ease and pride, because it is behind you. That kind of creative visualisation helped me to overcome my own shyness and reach out to others when I needed them. And it would still be better if you had something behind you, some creative ability, diploma, something that would remind you of your worth. This would give you the necessary confidence for continuing meeting new people, in spite of all the fear and reservations. Whatever you do, the way to diminish your loneliness is to change your attitude. It is hard, as I well know from personal experience, but quite possible, especially with the right kind of motivation and creative imagery. Hope this helps. Good Luck.
1017829
Definitely make some new friends.  Even or especially if they seem to be totally the opposite of people you are normally friends with.   Join an activity/club/course (sports league, book club, cooking class, etc.) and new friends will come automatically.  You may also gain a skill that makes you more confident.\n\nAlso, going to the gym or riding a bike, taking a walk, etc. will make you feel better b/c of the endorphins that exercise naturally provides.  Do little things for yourself -- like even taking a different route on your way to work/school/errands, or taking a walk in a park you've never been to, can make a big difference!