how do u break up a long term relationship peaceful without problems and without that person hating u?
95270
i think you should talk to the person give them the exact reason why and let them know you want to be friends and that you moved on.
448086
just walk away that's what i do when i argue with someone i love
207124
Whenever you think of him remind yourself the reason for leaving him. Also, enjoy the feeling of not fighting with him. \n\nIf you decide to go backk with him  you should find a better way of resolving conflicts.  There are many ways to resolve problems without fighting.\nOne way is to brainstorm solutions and both agree on athe best solution that both you can gain something
1136
You just end it. It really doesn´t matter why, the point is: you don´t want it anymore and it´s enough. Break up with the person, cry and be sad the time you need and then, be happy again :-)
986171
You can't but if it isn't working out you have to. It would be worse to stay in an unhappy relationship. Eventually he or she will get over their hurt feelings and realize it was for the best also.
945490
calm down, be happy, do nothig, ignore her\n\n:> peace\n.
555596
Be honest with the person you are with now and finish it - then move on\n\nHonesty is THE best thing, even if it seems very difficult
862703
do not continue the relationship because one of you will always be unhappy with it
403429
you have told him you are going to leave and you haven't?! what is your MAJOR malfunction?  leave or stay with the poor guy.  you staying and hating him only puts both of you in a bad place.\n\nTHE DIRECT ANSWER TO YOUR QUESTION IS NO COMMUNICATION IS WORSE IN A RELATIONSHIP YOU ARE trying TO SALVAGE.  if you aren't trying to salvage the relationship than yelling is very annoying.
538690
I don't think you can break it off without hurting with them.  But you do owe it to them and yourself to be honest with them.  Good luck.
861314
Get to the basics. Let go the ego and the false pride. Accept mistakes and compromise.\nLive happily everafter.
63574
Love - Hate is part and parcel of the game. U will have ur ups and downs in a relationship. In the end what matters is how the two of u let some silly misunderstanding come in between.\nU said u broke up with ur bf yesterday. Leme tell u that along with urself, he is equally responsible for this. He probably did something that got u mad and u wanted to hurt him so u broke off in the heat of the moment. But now that u'v cooled off, think over it again and  ask urself if it was really worth it.\nI mean there is something that u should know - No one is perfect....\nU have got to understand that things will not always be sugary between u and any other guy for that matter. What will count in the end is how the two of u let things unfurl. \nDont let anything screw ur relationship if u really love ur partner. \n\nCommunication is the key word here.\nSo quit waiting for any more answers here, gather urself and go talk to him. If he really loves u too, Im sure he'll be  equally devastated rite now and will welcome u back.\n\nBest of luck.
38183
Talk to him and tell him it's not working out.  Try to be cordial and just get it over with.  Dragging out the relationship is just going to make the break-up more difficult and painful when it finally does happen.
294084
There are no best ways to break up with a partner, specially when he's gonna suffer more than us, it will definetely hurt!\nBut I guess a good way to break up would be to be really honest, to say the truth in a polite way, not to try to make him think things that aren't really true, I mean, not telling him that U don't have someone else if U know that U have him, or not telling him that U still love him but want to be alone for a little while, if U know U don't love him anymore.\nSo... as hard as it is... THE TRUTH is just the best way to make it a little easier for both of U.
37264
Walk out of the situation before the anger takes control of you. Like 'babygirl' said, it will give you time to cool down & think through the situation sensibly instead of causing harm, whether physically or verbally, to the other in a fit of rage.\n\nThat's what I do, just walk out on the person or just don't talk. I am known for a vicious temper & that's how I deal with it. :)
1170478
The best way to do this is to be yourself and move on with your life.  Guess what?  You are very important and valuable and if one person treats you badly, move on and live the most amazing life you can.  The person is a jerk for treating you badly.  He is so unhappy inside and is a thing not a person.  Don't let your anger eat you up inside.  Forget the person and move on, you deserve only the best!!!!
131650
What is there to break up?