can someone tell me why  the man I love doesn't me the same way I love him?
90470
There can be many reasons, but what I beleive is this:\nMay be he loves you also but you are expecting too much of him.\nDo not try to measure the emotons betwen each other. Man loves a woman in different tone and reflects in many other ways which may be different from that of a woman.\nHave faith in him and speak to him. Thats the best I can advise you.
254671
No, a guy like that isn't in love with you, he thinks of you instead as his possession.  If someone loves you then they trust you.  Tell him to go find a new possession and find yourself a man who will love you and trust you.
728741
you no what mate, it happened to me to, but if you both still care for each other and h does like you say he does, then he would talk to you about this, or maybe he just wants to have the both of you, sometimes man cant really say what they wish to say as it's hard for them, but if he wont leave her, then maybe he dont love you the way he did when you were both together, i no it's hard but you will find another man, when you decide its time to move on, take care good luck mate
1005727
"Like", and "love" are often confused as cut from the same cloth. Actually it is not. Upon closer inspection you will see love is the silk to the likes satin.\n\nLike: You may think of him all the time. May like him parsonality, his habbits. May even get frisky with him or get boned down by him in the bedroom. But you will not sell out for him. He is like a vacation home. You know you are not going to retire there. Or move your furniture there. Like can put up with a lot, but there is a breaking point where if they did it one more time, you are gon. Or if they did something bad enough, gone. You do nice things BUT, more so that you want to get them to like you and that is the catalyst to your politeness. Like: is like a lease, love is like ownership\n\nLove: He makes you want to be better than you are, each day. You find that you are willing to sell out, to give up EVERYTHING you own and know to make sure his tomorrow is better than today, which was in turn, better than yesterday. You would give your life that he may life. You would go hungry that he might be fed. To go cold that he may stay warm. You do this because you really want him to be safe, protected and comfortable. Not just because you want him to like you. Love is you would cherish him even if he didn't love you back, and there was no quid pro quot. Love is like having a home you are eager to move your furniture into, and do not want to move out once you have it in there. Love endures no matter what transgression is done. It is a total surrender of your heart to the other, no strings attached. The hurt maybe there, and you may never forget it. But you are willing to forgive or at least deal with it. \n\nYou know you are in love if you can imagine yourself with the other person through the worst. Dana Reeves had true love. even though Christopher was permanently injured early in her marriage she could not imagine not having him in her life. To love someone, they make you want to get up, to do more. To be more You want to do for them. Not to make them like you. Not to get anything form them. Just because you have so much loyalty, faith and devotion for them you want each day they breath to be better than the one they left yesterday. If you can think 25, 30, 45 years down the line and they are there, and you know you would still love them as you feel today. Them maybe you are in love.\n\nMost people are hell bent on attaching love(or what they think it is)to sex. Because they do not want to appear as shallow, sefl-obsorbed, and impetuous. They want to appear to be in it for more than the booty call, when actually that is 87% what it is all about
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IF he feels the same way, he will wait if that's what you want to do.  You have to follow your heart.  Take time and think it through with your brains not your hormones.  Good luck, I know it can be confusing.
398798
You can not make a man love you. If you could would you really want to have the power to say love me more and he does. How would that benefit your emotional needs, because you would never know the degree to which he loves you. Everyone progresses differently. Are you sure you love him more, or are you being dominating and he cannot express himself.
990163
Same story, different person, different day. That's the way of the world and life. It's a learning experience. If you learned anything, you will not go back with him ever. You know his faults and what he did to you. Respect yourself and get on with life without him...........
924476
Give it time, let him get to know you, my bf was the same way but after we spent time talking and just hangin out he realized that I was different and that I did not want to hurt him or mess with him, now we are in love and I know that I want to spend the rest of my life with him and he feels the same way. I hope everything works out.\n ~Kim~
376230
well obviously he doesn't feel the same for you, otherwise he wouldn't be cheating.  Cut your losses and move on!
304167
im confused about my guy as well...i guess no way out.. unless u wanna ask which i dont think is the best idea... do wht im doing - waiting, if he loves u, he iwll tell u someday...just b patient
378348
It sounds like you are infatuated.  You don't know him well enough to love him yet.
481751
If you truly love him, what other people think shouldn't matter.\n\nSounds like you care more about what your 'group' thinks than you do him.\n\nThat isn't love.
727158
I love him...but? I don't think you do love him in a way that will sustain your relationship. I think you know that too. It's time to move on.
190794
Ask yourself if you can live with all the in differences sounds like it might be difficult to always have him being the one who is right and in control you have to do what makes you happy any relationship is a 50/50 deal :)
1165397
im going thru the same situation..its like u love the person soo much that u dont wanna leave him..and its like u cant live with or without him ...how i wish the guys understood this! mayb give him some time..try to explain....take one more chance..cuz if ur in true love,u wont b able to leave him..but rather adjust his way cuz in a relationship,one has to submit to other's wishes.
635786
It sounds like you need to talk to your man. Tell him exactly how you feel and ask him where do I stand in this relationship? Then come right out and say Do you still love me?
1038933
maybe he does he just doesnt like to show it. give it time, things take time, maybe you'll even find you dont love him as much as you think, or maybe he loves you more than you know.\njust remember: you cant force love.