i am 17 and when it comes to sex with my boyfriend i dont want it anymore is this normal? or am i just scared?
82607
you need to talk to him, because to me it seem like either you are losin interest in him or you want more than just sex from him and it seems like thats all he wants..... you need to talk to yah man gurl!good luck
454280
19 and I've only been with one man.  I think I feel less shy about sex now that I'm no longer a virgin.  I got pregnant a few months after I lost my virginity so my life has changed in that way.
887741
you are obviously to young to have aboy friend especially four years older than you,you wont like most answers you get and thats because were older and understand the consequences of what your doing,you had sex? thats what a man four years older than you wanted from you it wont last much longer and if it does it will be just about the sex i could assure you he defiantely is seeing other females behind your back more to his age,i hope you have protection because getting pregnant is the last thing you need
528304
Its normal.\n\n& if you dont know these things, you probably shouldnt be having sex.
35393
17.  At the time it seemed right but it did not last. Typical in youth relationships.\n\nYou want to be mature enough to handle the consequences of having sex. Liek STD, pregnancy, etc. Even if you protect yourself you have risks. Do not feel pressured into it and know that yu have your life ahead of you, Choose wisely it only gets better.
14131
You should not do it until you really feel you are ready and responsible to handle the consequences.  Having sex too young can be very confusing for a girl.  I would say no earlier than 17 or so, when you are thinking more like an adult.  If I could go back, I would have definitely waited until I was out of high school at least.  And I'll tell you one thing.  It is SO much more enjoyable when you wait to do it with someone you really care about and who cares about you.  Oh, and use protection!!!  I know too many people who have gotten pregnant or gotten sexually transmitted diseases (at any age)!!!
175612
There's nothing wrong. But it all depends on both of your age. If you are 20+ and planning to live together, then I think Sex increases your level of intimacy and you will become more closer than before.\n\nBut if you are still in school, then probably you both are doing the right thing and leave sex as something you will explore when you are "there"...\n\nHaving sex, for the sake of "i have done it too" is toooo childish.. \n\nAs someone said above, both of ya sit n have a talk about it.. Im sure u guys will work it out.\n\n.:Fishie:.
1116518
love... im fourteen and my boyfriend is 17. we've been dating for almost four months now and never once has he asked me to or pressured me to have sex with him. actually i was the one who brought it up but he said he wanted to wait. i said that's fine with me. we love each other so much and i know he's the one for me and he feels the same way about me. i would do anything for him. there's nothing wrong with a 17 year old boy and a 14 year old girl together. the age difference isn't that much and it is said that women mature faster than men. i love having a mature boyfriend. unlike the other boys my age. mabey he feels like the other girls are way too mature for him and he wants to actually go out and have fun instead of always being bitched at lol. too much drama with 17 year old girls
792500
It's normal and healthy to be a virgin at the age of 11. Kids on school buses always tease younger kids, and this is apparently the best they can do - obviously there's nothing else about you that they can tease you with.\n\nAnd yes it's normal to start thinking about sex at your age and to have sexual thoughts and feelings. It doesn't mean you act on those feelings. \n\nWhat if someone asks you for sex? You say NO, I am only 11! \n\nHolding hands or getting a kiss on the cheek should be a big deal at your age. There is no way that you can be ready for sex at 11.
203237
Yep, get a marriage counselor.  I mean, getting into the relationship you knew ahead of time he was 17 years older and that there would come a time when your sex drives differed from each other.  This should have been taken into consideration from the start.  Just be sure to look inside yourself and find the true reason you are having issues.  Don't lie to yourself and say that you "are getting distant and there is no more sex" when part of the reason very well could be the fact that you want a man your age.
163836
sweetie you are not a nympho...you are perfectly normal and so is he...a males sex drive goes downhill as they get older and a females sexdrive just keeps going and going and going...no matter what age you get hun you're gonna wanna do it all the time...thats just you...he just dont wanna admit that he cant handle your sexual appetite
1015435
i am 21 also and i am a virgin.  I just broke up with my boyfriend who thought he could change my mind about sex, when i made it clear to him that i wasnt looking for a sexual relationship.  i am a strong independant woman, that is my personality
626867
Well, to put it bluntly: nope.  Especially if you're a guy between 13 and 25.  Sex feels good and it's natural to want more of a good thing.
620652
You are ashamed of something.Your mother may have made you think it was bad to have sex.Our subconscious mind is very powerful and this could be answered quite quickly by a good Psychiatrist.This is not a serious matter but if it continues to bother you it could be.These things tend to become normal after many years of acceptance.I would take the time to sort it out now so it is dealt with and you can loose the possible guilt.Unresolved issues become problems.Best of luck to you!
176691
I presume you dont like to have sex? But you both are in Love? Am I right?\n\nThen you need to see a Shrink (doc). \n\nYou need to know that the guy obviously cannot live with you knowing that there is no sex between you both. So do him a favour and find out why u dont like sex... \n\nIm sure you will find a solution to this and your love life will be more interesting and rewarding...\n\n.:Fishie:.
297874
14 is way too young to be having sex. You should talk with an adult that you trust about what your thinking.If they don't change your mind,please use protection.That is so very important.
647272
Don't worry about it. Kids your age have lots of confusion about sex. And don't have sex yet. Wait. You are too young. Just because other kids are doing it doesn't make it right. You could ruin your life if you do something stupid like that. \n\nI hope you can have an open discussion with your father or another relative about sex in general.