Do you think black men treat women outside of their race better than they treat black women?
96209
I treat women in a relationship like how I would like to be treated... Unfortunately the black women I've dated couldn't do the same in return. An as far as dating outside my race the results aren't any better.
835191
Why does it matter that he was very sweet and respectful in regards to his race?  are you more suprised at the fact that you have a good man or a good black man?  Race shouldn't even be in the cards.  Personally, I could care less if he's black, white, green, or purple.....as long as he treats u right, get yours.
619298
Wrong.. White women do not allow black men to run all over them. I am white and my fiance is black. We have a son, and we take care of each other-do things for each other and love one another with all we've got. \n\nHe will go to the ends of the earth for me. Black women (no offense - but I've got to speak the truth) say we take more crap because they feel inferior and need something to blame the black men for, for desiring any other race but themselves. \n\nThey should not feel inferior - but they do. Black men like us for different reasons. My man loves me for the following:\n\n1. My long, soft, shiny (pan-teen style) hair\n2. My green eyes that have flecks of gold and change to gray and blue sometimes.\n3. My Dimples.\n4. My personality - the way i make him laugh\n5. My heart. \n\nNot because im white, but because I am me and anyone else who makes up idiotic reasons - needs professional help because they are feeling inferior about themselves.
433368
Yes I agree with you.  Women should be treated as equals.  It's an old stigma thing that men maintained over women throughout history.  I personally do think some women, in fact many women, are better qualified and smarter in various areas than men.  I am pootie whipped and always give in to my girlfriend though so I may not be the best person to be answering this.\n\nMaybe your guy is just stubborn and maybe he's on the rag.
193156
Well I can not speak for everyone. But I myself find some black women very attractive. I would like to date one some time . I guess I always wonder what my friends and family would think as well as what her friends and family would think but the bottom line is how we both feel towards each other.
723928
Black people today are not feeling the effects of what happened during their Grandfathers era.  There are more social programs from minorities than there are for White Men.  Black have more opportunity for advancement and more opportunity to attend college than most white people.  Look at the scholarships available today, most are for minorities or gays.  I am not holding the Black Man down, I do not owe anybody anything.  There is no free lunch, go out and work and make yourself better.  Don't expect me to help, but I won't stand in your way neither.
1026788
My view is that men of all cultures will make women out to be inferior so they can benefit from the power it gives them within that society. Men desire this power more in some cultures than in others.\nIf a person can be convinced they are inferior to you they will submit more easily to your will. Women are the weak gender ONLY if they are made to believe that they are.
336463
men are not actually a race, they are a sex. And no the only reason they are afforded more privilege than others is because of sexism.
40287
Funny - this is one of those stereotypes that never seem to offend black guys.  You'll never get called a racist for asking this question, I can tell you that.\n\nOn average, a brutha may have a little advantage on guys from other races, but what we need to talk about here are the EXTREME cases.\n\nFrom what I've observed, and I've seen quite a few dix in my days, every now and then you'll come across a black dude with a big long one - one that seems to defy the laws of nature.  \n\nI was at a nude beach once and this black guy walked by.  I'm telling you, he was huge.  All the gay guys got up and applauded.\n\nBut another time I say a 17 year old white boy that put that brother to shame.\n\nSo who really knows... or cares?  The girls I've  been with have consistently told me mine's huge (but I know there's bigger out there).  One told me mine was really thick but she's seen longer.  That's cool too.  in fact, if I had a real tiny one, i might even get off if a girl said, "oh... isn't that cute?  cootchie cootchie coo"\n\n\nBut that's just me - I try to make the most of what I've got.
221973
Some black women have a hard time dealing with black men dating white women because they believe that there is a shortage of good black men and that the white women are stealing their men.  Being a white woman who has dated black men, I have experienced this.  But racism is certainly not limited to black women; I am Italian and my family is totally against interracial dating.  I believe that people should be free to date anyone they want; what matters is that they like each other and treat one another with respect.  Most people who oppose interracial dating do so because they fear that which they do not know.  The only way to improve the situation and stop the hatred is to just forge ahead and date whomever you want, no matter what people say.  Only love is real; the rest is superficial.
258423
no they aren't BUT. i do feel they are easily led into a lifestyle that results in imprissonment which makes available black men harder to find.
703535
I don't really know, but I have a few theories regarding that question that I have not quite worked out yet.\n\nThis is in no way a slam on all Black Woman in the United States or the rest of the world because I have not met them all, but I as a Black man in my whole life starting from my own mother have never met a nice, or pleasent, or kind Black woman....not ever.  Like I said I don't mean this as a slam, I'm sure there are Black women out there who ARE nice and pleasent, I just never have crossed paths with them and it's a shame.\n\nIt's a shame that I am 44 years old and never had the opportunity to have sex with the women of my own race.   Perhaps it's the region where I live that seems to have a large population of Black women who have a problem with Black men, or the Black men in the area I live are so terrible to their woman that about time she wises up and dumps him, I happen along and she's mean to me because of what he did.  This could be a possibility.\n\nI just hope that before I die I get the opportunity to be close to a woman of my own race.  I doubt I will get this chance but a man's got to have something to shoot for.\n\nActually this question really makes me sad.
352539
BLACK WOMEN YES, SINCE THEY ARE UGLY.
889111
Me: African-American woman.  1. Personally I'm tired seeing it...media tends to focus on black men with white women exclusively, this helps to send out the message that black men consider white women to be their ideal standard of beauty...for some black men, having a white woman helps to validate their status in life... however not every black man wants or feels the need to have a white woman on their arm. 2. I also find it very interesting how very little attention is given to relationships between white men/black women. Hmmm, what does this really say about society, and American culture in general?
613193
YOU GO GIRL!!!! lET THEM BROTHAS KNOW HOW WE FEEL!! WE GOOD ENOUGH TO HAVE SEX WITH BUT NOT GOOD ENOUGH TO BE HONEST TO! WE GOOD ENOUGH TO BE WITH BUT LESS AND LESS BLACK MEN ARE GETTING MARRIED. US BLACK WOMAN TAKE THIS SH*T AND THROW IT OVER OUR SHOULDER AND IT MAKES US STRONGER. BUT AT THE SAME TIME THIS SH*T HURTS US AND MAKES US DO STUFF TO MEN THAT ARE ABUSING OUR GENDER. I LOVE YOUR COMMENT IT NEEDED TO BE ASKED ROCK ON MY FELLOW SISTAH!
1114329
Ok, I am black, I am a woman and I am 39.  \n\nHere is the thing, there are a TON of good men and I do mean BLACK men out here.  Its just that black women dont look at these particular guys.  They are not looking at Henry the mechanic, who is not the best looking guy in the world, but he is a REALLY a great guy.\n\nI truly can't say i have ever had a "bad" guy.  They were all different and all decent.  What they lacked in one area, they definitely made up in another area.  Sometimes you look at these beautiful women and these not so hot guys... and wonder, "what is that about".  Believe me, she knows. :)\n\nSynopsis:  If they stopped asking Thugs to be Good Men, and actually took the time to talk to the Mail man or the Mechanic, they would find one, right before their very eyes :)
916480
I haven't noticed that, but there is a cultural aspect that says that black women are maternalistic meaning they are in charge in relationships which would put them off of paternalistic races such as whites, latinos, etc.  in life partners.