Why do christian men cheat on their wives?
88533
Probably for the same reasons Christians wives cheat on their husbands, they are selfish and feel entitled to have their needs met outside of marriage instead of putting in the time and effort to build a good relationship with their spouse.\n\nThey are lazy and disprespect themselves, their spouse and God.\n\nThis is not a man/woman issue, it's an issue of respect.
57822
They rarely do it for any specific reason, it isn't about the woman they are with, often it isn't even about the other woman!!\n\nFor men who cheat, they do it because they can. \n\nIt's down to opportunity, geography and an assumption that they won't get caught.\n\n(The hallmark phrase is "it didn't mean anything to me" - as if that somehow makes it OK!).
47292
Because there christians
761031
To make a long story short. I have been married for 18 years when I found out(not by accident I was snooping) my husband had been cheating on me for 3 years that I no of. Only he and his whore no for sure.In my heart I knew something was wrong I just couldn't prove it until I started looking.When a husband cheats, his wife feels something is wrong she just doesn't want to believe her husband would or could do that to her.Husbands count on that trust they no their wives would never believe that they are capable of sleeping with another woman especially when she gives him everything he wants and needs.That is where we go wrong we don't and couldn't give a man what he really wants and that is someone different to have sex with.In a woman's eyes that makes him a horrible person but to him and his way of thinking it makes him human. their is only two things you can do. You can look the other way and pray it will end soon or leave him.One thing I wouldn't do is talk to him about the calls because all you will get is lies.I wish you all the luck in the world.
1116550
I agree with you Adder, I have dealt with this issue many times in churches. This often a point of control, to make men feel like they constantly need to repent simply for being attracted to women. \n\nIt's takes a very conservative point on some scriptures and misses the point that marriage is still about very much about sex, and sex is still about (you guessed it) sexual attraction. How many Christians do you know who marry without any consideration of looks? What then is the point of simply being vocal about being attracted?\n\nI assure you, this is a "Christian Alpha Male" move to manipulate and control men into feeling less about something they don't need to feel less about...\n\nThere is a fine line to lust though, and that should be taken into account. But for goodness sakes don't let others guilt trip you into feeling bad about being attracted. That's just stupid.
772912
No. I am an adulterous Christian. (divorce, remarriage)\n\nOne sins no greater than the other. Let them be.
223629
Because they aren't getting what they want from that loved one. Or maybe some men are just idiotic and selfish and think that the world revolves around them and they can do whatever they please. If you honestly feel that you man is cheating on you though, confront him and explain why you feel that he is.
764919
Many Christians I've known can empathize with those people because they do the same thing, sneak around and commit adultery, steal, cheat, that sort of thing. Seriously, there is an emotional masochism in certain people that makes religion very attractive to them -- heaven knows (pun) there is a load of masochism and guilt in Christianity, which many Christians enthusiastically suffer and rejoice in. \n\nSome masochists are drawn to Christianity because it supports their "me sinner / me saved" emotionally self-punishing psychosis.
651980
Because man is not able to serve 2 gods. If he is focused on his wife he can not devote himself to God and the Church & if he is focused on God and the Church he can't devote himself to his wife.
621017
i think that many men that cheat, don't cheat for the love, it is sex,or being bored with their current, g/f o. wife..ect, They don't do it like women. Women cheat for feelings, unless they are just horney, and are not getting what they want from their man/partner. Women seem to want the relationship and the feelings to be deeper than a man wants. Not that men do not have deep feelings....many men love very much, but it seems that many women cheat much more than men these days? women seem to be cheating quite a bit..the big stereotype of only men cheating has totally turned!
834716
Everbody is answering as if your question was: Do all men cheat on their wives,............   but what you wrote was:  Do all men cheat their wives?\n\nTo some extent, all men (and all women) cheat their spouse out of something.   Whether it is your 100% attention, love, loyalty or providing a 100% consistently fulfilling sexual partner......... there are times when each of us cheats the other somehow.\n\nAs to whether all men cheat ON their spouses.  No, I believe that some men are capable of keeping their promises and staying faithful.  Unfortunately the 'bad-apples' ruin the reputation for men.
685686
Because men get tired of what they know they "have".  A wife is like an insurance policy that is always there when he cant get any play somewhere else.  As`sad as it is, its the truth.
278640
The same reason why a married woman would cheat.
1090312
I don't believe in cheating on people either. I think people do it because they want the excitement of the beginning of a relationship where sometimes both people are on their best behavior, etc. or maybe they like the "conquest". Anyway neither reasons are very good because the next relationship will be the same eventually. I think some people aren't mature enough to realize that  they could just put their love and affection in the present relationship and it would be just as exciting. If a person lived by "do unto other as you would have done to you" they would not cheat.
731515
"why do men cheat on there wives" correct question is "why do people cheat on their spouses" this is just the way some people can get the feeling of being younger without thinking of the ones at home and being hurt, the words "I'm sorry" may fix the glass on the floor in Pieces but not the feeling of having your partner cheating on you, you know what you need to do, get yourself out of the home and file, you need to see that there are men out there that will treat you as the queen that you are and finding one will be one of the simplest things to do, start off by treating your self as number one and under standing that this was done to you, not your doing at all. get rid of the dog and never look back. i see to many reasons why not to stay in this relationship. open your eyes and get on with your life...
525911
Because he was supposed to be set aside for sacrifice! Had he taken a mortal wife, he would've been communing with sin through the fact that as a mortal, His "wife" would've borne Him offspring with the sin curse placed upon them by the Fall of Man at the Garden of Eden. A Scripture says, " For what communion hath light with darkness and what concord hath Christ with Belial?" These things have people angered because they were taught to understand that Jesus had to be pure so that His sacrifice would be powerful enough to overcome ALL sin for ALL time! The reason it is permissible for pastors to marry is simple; they're human like everyone else and are apt to sin and temptation like everyone else! Another Scripture says, "For if they cannot contain, let them marry for it is better to marry than to burn." The Church, comprised of all believers is meant to be the Bride of Christ because through His cleansing blood shed on the Cross, we were made perfect enough to commune with Him. People are mad because the secular world is suggesting that the most perfect Man in history could possibly give in to the lust of the flesh, which is impossible because He had encounters with Satan himself and overcame him! Satan took Him to the top of a high mountain and tried to tell Him that if He would bow down and worship, he'd give Him all the kingdoms of the world. After this and many other temptations of Christ's flesh and spirit, He told Satan, "Get thee hence!" Or basically, "Get away from me!" Which is of course the same authority all Christians have over sin and temptation if they grasp the concept of salvation and their rightful place in God's kingdom as heirs to Heaven.
1032147
it's Men and Women.  Cheaters are classified as people who have issues with themselves and can't deal with conflicts in the relationship so they simply cheat to get their needs met.  Their needs can be anything from loneliness to neglect, lack of sex, lack of self esteem, lack of attention, lack of affection and so on.  IF these needs are not met, some people cheat to get them met.\n\nTHE PROBLEM with this method-cheating- is that these feelings that I mentioned in paragraph one are lacking with a cheater and most people don't understand that they have to tend to their own needs and not expect others to fix them. In other words, someone who is lonely has to help himself, not expect his spouse to and then when his spouse can't deliver, they cheat.\n\n  You see, most people who cheat are expecting their partners to fill these voids that I mentioned above when in reality, a person who is emotionally grounded understands that these are things one gives to themselves through proper self esteem and self love.   So many people lack those inner feelings (due to upbringing and environment) which is why so many people cheat.\n\nHow do you spot a cheater- you don't but you look for someone with self respect, self love, self esteem, honor, integrity, empathy, generosity and all those core values.  The more one possesses those qualities, the less likely they will resort to cheating when they feel a void.