synonim for troubling?
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Synonyms for "troubling":\n\ndisturbing, distressing, disquieting, disruptive, distressing, intrusive, perturbing, troublesome, unsettling, upsetting, worrisome
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I would use appearance, mannerisms, actions. \n\nI found a link that addresses the subject, also. Good luck.\nhttp://www.soulwork.net/sw_articles_eng/abnormal.htm
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be more specific? give the problem maybe?
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Lunatic \nGone off the rocker\nLoony\nLost their marbles
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hullo\nyou should seek a psychiatric help.\n\nDr.solo
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Call your local Crisis Line and ask them.They will talk to you and suggest various ways to help.Sometimes they will send(with your permission)a counselor to your home to evaluate your problem
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It's not sane.\nIt's not sane. \nIt's not sa-ay-ay-ay-ane.
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YMCA does in a lot of cities, or call child welfare or the public defenders office and tell them you are a little concerned about your temper, and wanna make sure its not inappropriate. tell them you wanna make sure there isnt a problem because of your past, before there IS a problem. there are also crisis hotlines, suicide hotlines and the like, and they usually have information on free counseling, or sliding scale payment. there should also be a free clinic in your area, and they usually have to refer out psych cases, so you might check there.
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try deacff, dear\n\nwhy worry what other people think?\nnext time they ask you whats wrong, say "I'm tired of people asking me whats wrong! Thats whats wrong"
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Try Komyshyn.\n\nHope that helps!\n\nKind regards.
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"synergestic" and "amicable" both capture different aspects of what you might be trying to convey
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please give me a difficult question
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I've not heard of of it, but here is what I would try to do about it.\n\nAnother male (this is very important), who he's receptive to (such as his best friend or father), at a time when he's calm, such as in a bar, needs to point out the problem in the following way.\n\nThey would say, for example, "Were you aware that when you're angry, you actually roar and growl. It terrifies <Name of your 20 month old>".\n\nNote, he didn't lead up to it with something that would get his back up, like "X was saying the other day that you had a big row". He just said it out of the blue.\n\nThe point is, just to state the problem as a fact, without the emotional-baggage. There's no request or demand to do any specific thing. What he does about it is entirely up to him.\n\nThe same sentence coming from you would be interpreted as criticism and start another argument.\n\nThat's it. The friend  just makes him aware of the problem and leaves him to think through for himself what to do about it. Virtually all men love their young children and wouldn't do anything to scare them.\n\nHe'll most likely think about it for a while, then stop doing it.\n\nIf it starts another argument, just tell him you mentioned it to the friend for the sake of the kid, that he's not in trouble, smile, then leave him alone.\n\nDefinitely don't get into a long discussion. The objective isn't to have all the past things he's said to hurt you acknowledged and apologised for. Its to fix the problem. Attack the problem, not the person.\n\nAs far as the rage and rowing goes, it just needs someone (a male friend again) to point out that the problem exists and ask him to fix it in his own way and in his own time.\n\nHe can suggest that he reads up on the internet and in books (see links) on such subjects as the difference in the way men and women think and communicate, marriage-guidance and anger-management. \n\nHe needs to study hard In the subject areas of understanding women and having a good relationship. Now that we have the internet, this is much easier than it was decades ago. Someone needs to tell him that a lot of the stuff he reads is written in a style that suits women. He needs to bite the bullet and extract the 1% that is useful from the 200 page books.\n\nOne key point is that a man's whole personality is based in feeling competent and successful. That's why criticism or anything that can be misinterpreted as criticism causes so much trouble. In most men it causes grumpiness and moaning. In his case, it seems to be at the anger level.\n\nHe can get his own Yahoo Answers account and ask specific questions on here to both men and women (All those "What does it mean when..." questions).\n\nI think there's one thing you need to do too. Have a read of this article. Many women don't understand that having a discussion (even a short one) of a relationship problem stands no chance of having a positive affect and solving it. The exact opposite is true. It has a 100 times negative affect, magnifying the row, because every sentence you say is misinterpreted as criticism and blaming and demands for apologies, etc. The man just has to escape because his mind is mangled by the rate at which new emotional issues are being raised that he has no understanding of and needs an hour per item to think about.\n\nIf there's a problem, just point out that it exists and ask him to go away and think of a solution. Only deal with a single problem at a time.\n\nA man can't fix an emotional problem in an emotional way, just in a logical way, like a car-engine.\n\nWomen tend to discuss every last detail of a problem and discuss them in groups. Men like to work alone, only asking for help when needed. If he needs information from you, just provide it in as few words as possible and stick to the facts.\n\nIf he eventually learns to stop getting angry and things get better, he may event
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communication problems or clashing of ideas
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whatever is bothering me
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Strife\nTrials and tribulations\nAnguish\n\n:)
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Posturing using words to antagonize or argue.