why would a woman start arguments and accuse a man of ruining her day.is normal for a female?
85121
she probably dont like u anymore...as i know hen a women starts fighting for no reason she is either cheating, found a better guy or dont wanna break it off herself and is trying to get you to do it so she looks like the innocent one
1027847
I've been guilty of that "super nice, but I am really hating you at this moment" kind of behavior.  A lot of the time it's because we want you to know why we are upset.  Not just that we're pissed- but the reason you pissed us off!  It can be tough figuring that one out, I know...  And the whole niceness thing is fake, you know that.... we want you to know we are ticked and trying to hide it...\nI think most women assume that men are emotionally retarded and think we are making it easier to understand us, when actually we are making it harder.  Good Luck with your girl...
900043
YOUR DEFENCE SHOULD BE BASED ON THIS STATEMENT-YOUR HONOUR-I LASHED OUT IN THE HONEST BELEIF THAT I WAS ABOUT TO BE ATTACKED. I WAS A LONE FEMALE THIS IS ALL THE DEFENCE I HAVE TO OFFER!!. you will be fine-trust me.
540643
Men are ot emotional as women are. After an argument, a few minutes later, a man usually has forgotten it and want to be close to you. But women hold it in and be emotional and want to talk about it. The best way is to approach him and tell him you want to talk about what you all argued about. If you aproach him with anger, you will get anger in return. Its all about the tone you use. If he is not a good listener, write it in a letter and let him read it.
919849
ummm.. well if he doesn't like when you start a fight, he shouldn't continue it, and then he wouldn't have to worry about you ending it lol... men are crazy...  good luck communicating/having discussions about anything remotely serious/personal/upsetting... it sounds like his pride is very sensitive.. what is with guys and their egos?!
497474
I don't know, but isn't it annoying?  If you think it is bad, trying being the best friend of one of those cry-all-over-you types.  I have three or four friends that will call me in the middle of the day to cry and tell me about a petty problem that would probably be fixed if they could just make a decision.  I prefer logic over emotion.  If something isn't going right, I fix it.  Please, don't think all women can't control their emotions, most can.  Those that can't are just more noticeable.
1071827
some guys take it as an insult to them and get defensive (acting mad) instead of seeing the problem and remedying it (making suggestions).  i would just try to talk to him and tell him you want to talk about it to help your relationship not hurt it.  At least you're honest and towards the first step of making it better for the both of you.
12145
You are not overreacting.  You're being quite understanding.  She's out of line and he should respect your feelings more.  If the tables were turned, I doubt he'd have this cool reaction.  You'll know when to leave, when you're tired of being tired.
892323
So what is her problem? she has serious esteem issues if you ask me! and Im a woman, she needs to get a life. Its no wonder some men are afraid to open their mouths in case of such an idiotic reaction.  If she hasnt been complimented in 5 years, maybe she needs to work on her people skills and be approachable.
1003191
I don't know if you're a man or woman, but if you're a women it's probably because she's jealous and/or just plain stupid. Most women who make fun of other women are jealous, and others just enjoy hurting people's feelings and starting drama. Just ignore her or give her a witty statement right back.
225660
Confrontation, most men don't like women who want to argue all the time.
1088730
Maybe it was a stressful day and she is over reacting because she doesn't know how or where to take her frustration out.  It would be easier to think all her problems would be solved by a simple I'm sorry (even if you dont mean it) than for her to go on thinking she's alone in a very very stressful world.  Try that tactic.  Choose your battles.  Some are just not worth the fight or the outcome.\n\nI do think she is over reacting.  I don't think you should be angry that she doesn't know where to take her frustration out.  Just say I'm sorry and enjoy having her as your love for yet another day.
201462
Not good.  First, he is taking you for granted.  He sees no consequences for his actions and treats you like the dog that gets kicked for no good reason.  He may have frustrations, but has failed to learn or remember who really cares for him above all others.  This is a sign of emotional immaturity.  He needs a wake up call and needs to grow up.  How would he feel if the shoe where on the other foot?  He probably wouldn't stand for it, so why should you?  Don't.  The next time he pulls this crap, I suggest you react in a calm, yet defiant manner by explaining that you care for him, while he seems to have forgotten what a healthy supportive relationship is.  If he wants someone to take out his anger on, then he's got the wrong woman.  End of story, so no more of this behavior against me...no hard feelings.
1051938
when i get mad, i usually just vent out and that's it... there's no need to get even. i just talk to the person concerned (of course after i have already calmed down) so we can have this straightened out. you don't have to get even, it will make matters worse.
598518
That's called 'victim blaming' and is appalling.  Yes, some women put themselves into compromising situations, but it goes both ways.  Men should be able to control themselves.
459753
Men don’t get subtleties. If a woman has a problem she should tell the man. If she doesn’t say anything then he will assume nothing is wrong and therefore not realize he has something to apologize for. If he even does.
806140
Honest to God, my head is just spinning after reading some of the bull roar some of you women are answering with.\n\nTo the person asking the question: Read what most the zany women are saying and pack it away in your brain.\n\nThey are rationalizing with excuses and not claiming responsibility for their actions. Pure and simple.\n\nWhen the shoe is on the other foot they scream it out loud and clear when a man cheats, how terrible and nasty it is.\n\nThis my young man is known as a typical double-standard that MANY women base their thought-processing skills on: Being irrational while judging others and complete hypocrites.