Why are alot of guys attacted to BBW, but females aren't attracted to heavy men?
84106
Good lord look around you. There are lots of woman that are not only attracted to heavy men but are marring them as well. People are attracted to others for many reasons and believe it or not but looks do not always matter. Whats inside a person is what is really important.
605307
I find chunky women very attractive.  I like a little meat on my bones.  Don't care for the skinny, anerexia type.  A little chunky is sexy to a lot of men.  Don't think that they are just hitting on you.  If you are pretty outside and in, that's the secret to being attractive no matter what your weight.
356601
Personally I like a woman that is thicker. However some women are just to overweight. The problem is not men its the way that the magizines and TV have programmed everyone into thinking that an attractive woman has to have a figure like a pencil which I find revolting. There are men out there for everyone you just have to find him. Set your standards and never settle and you will have a great guy.
446984
Lots of men like women with some padding.  Compromise...don't gain and only lose enough to be in the healthy range...not to have an anorexic appearance.  Be happy that he isn't that type of man to leave you because you aren't the slender thing he married...men have been known to do that.  Count your blessings!
295095
it shuoldn't matter about appereances but in today's society magazines are aimed at showing that thin girls are beuatiful and guys with abs are hot.if you don't want to lose weight because of society's peer pressure than lose weight for health reasons.but i am really sorry to say that it is hard for an overweight guy to get girls. try internet dating.
93217
Everyone has there different levels of attraction to others. The only reason why anyone would think it is unnatural to like someone bigger than a stick is because society makes it an issue. If you like a girl with a lil meat then hey why does it matter what anyone else thinks. You know thicker women used to be reveered and of importance to men because it showed that she was healthy( i am not talking about the morbidly obese) Skinny women used to be thought of differently than they are today. All in All the way a person looks on the outside isn't really important. The most beautiful slender girl in the world can become the ugliest if she is a b***h with a horrible attitude and is ethically and morally challenged. I've dated  a couple of guys that weren't considered hot because they were good people and treated me well. I did marry a hotty though but not for his looks, for his heart. He is the greatest person I have ever known with the biggest heart and best attitude. Awesome sense of humor too. If hew didnn't have all that I wouldn't have married him. I mean think about it, if a person only has their looks to go by what do you fall back on when it's gone?
201720
First of all no I don't think that is right but people have their preferences on what they like. You will find a guy to like you regardless of your size. I know because the men I have dated love a thick girl. As long as you have high self esteem don't worry about the ones who don't like you because of your weight. They aren't good enough for you anyway. If you want to talk hit me up. I'm Prettythcknsexy.
470433
I think women are more accepting of the changes in men's bodies because ours change so much.Take a look around and see how many women you find with heavy men,or pot bellied ones.Then watch for men with overweight women,I think you"ll be surprised in the difference.Media has caused a lot of men to become more shallow.Be who you are and you"ll eventually find some one to love everything about your body.
656752
The good, canned answer is that someone should love you for what's on the inside, not on the outside.  \n\nThe reality is that some people are not turned on by people who are heavier.  Physical attraction will always be an important part of a good relationship.  On the other hand, some guys really like women with more curves--  \n\nYou need to ask yourself what type of guy are you really looking for?  If it is really meant to be, your weight should not play too much a factor.\n\nI used to be REALLY overweight, and found that I would get to know lots of guys, but they would instantly put me into the 'buddy' category, because of my physical appearance.  They just didn't have any interest in me physically.  I lost quite a bit of weight, and had an easier time as men would be attracted first, then get to know me.  \n\nAs long as you are happy with yourself, and confident that you look good and have a great personality, then you should find the perfect guy for you.   You sound like a pretty insightful, intelligent person... some guy is bound to notice that soon!
576687
It's your version of a fetish. Duh.  If you liked all types of women and some of them happened to be heavy, then that would just be normal, not a fetish.
59934
Well I guess similar somehow to me, since i m big and love others who r big too (well man2man), so I realize how it might attract a person, its a personal taste everyone is sexy to somebody else. And to answer your question try a search in yahoo or somewhere else for big beautiful women (bbw).\nPS. I only know sites for big men :P
19388
Fat women probably enjoy it more particularly the ones that dont get it as often (if they have a hard time finding a guy).  \n\nIt all just depends on how you look at it.  The less you have the more you will appreciate it each time you do it.
421414
I think the first apperance is what attractts a girl. If the guy is good looking she will have second look and then only will go for the physical part of the body. Of course the physical parts do attract the girls and they feel proud to be with a well built man rather than a skinny person. But then it all depends on the man how he carries himself either physically and mentally.
239091
Every guy cares about looks -- that's just the way we are wired.  But not every guy has the same thing that turns him on -- some guys are into skinny women, some are into normal-sized women, and some are into large women.  If a particular guy isn't into you, don't sweat it -- you can't change a guy's preferences, so just find a guy who is attracted to you.  In the meantime, having a cool personality and a good attitude helps too.
338140
Some men don't find women attractive and would prefer the hard buttocks and chest of a man. They love their own body and lust after it too.
320945
I consider myself a nice, respectful guy with a good body, and it's difficult to find girls who are the same way.  A lot of girls think that its superficial for a guy to be interested in girls who take good care of themselves, but it's not.  If someone has an active lifestyle and eats reasonably, their body will show it.
358208
I'm not into girls, but I'll give my opinion anyways. I have a friend that is morbidly obese (500 lbs +) and I think she is beautiful. I worry about her health and I know she has a hard time finding a man that will look past that. Chubby girls are good as long as they are healthy and happy with themselves. I don't think skinny girls are attractive. When I say skinny, I'm talking about when you can see hip bones and and their chest looks almost caved in. I know some girls are just naturally toothpicks. I think girls look so much better with curves.   An ex boyfriend told me that bones are for dogs.