What is the best way to tell your father that  you are in love with a guy of other so that he doesnt get angry
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well just wait till ur parents start searching for a suitable boy..then when ur opinion is asked,just tell them about your boy..be confident dont be arrogant..or short tempered.it wont be such a big problem after all in these modern days.take help of a uncle or aunty you r close with and whom ur parents respect.\ngood luck.\nif it fails im in que.....just kidding\ndont forget to tell his financial status..it helps a lot...money is imp nowa days
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It will pass. Your father is letting his feelings out on you for whatever reason. As bad as it hurts you can not take it personally and you need to focus on YOU and what you want out of life.\n\nHe loves you he just does not know how to show it.\n\nTwo days before my father dies he told me that he always loved me. I knew it deep down.
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tell him that you love him&#92;her in any way.\nexpress your love by telling him/her your feelings.
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Your heart for your dad is in the right place. \n\nYou say your dad's a good person. And he does act like he still loves you. So it's possible that he DOES still love you, and thinks the situation is somehow resolved or that you've managed to move past it.\n\nBut it still hurts you, so you need to talk to him about it.\n\nThink about the fight, assuming that your dad loves you and is a good person. First, was it possible your dad had a good reason (at least to him) for thinking you were wrong in that situation? It's just something to think about, so that you can understand his perspective. \n\nAlso, the comment you claim to have made was very aggressive ("Are you going to let her talk to me like that?!") and also put your dad in a terrible bind -- you basically made him choose between two people he loves. Ouch. \n\nThat's a horrible position for him to be placed in, and some people react in anger at being forced to respond to such things. \n\nYou love him, you're pretty sure he loves you. So tell him you were hurt by what happened, that you feel like he chose this woman over you (despite your having the "stronger" claim in some ways), and you want badly to know that he really does deeply love you.\n\nYou can try to forgive him from a distance, but it will be much easier if you can talk to him openly (without attacking him) about how you felt and how badly you want to know he still loves you.\n\nI would also ask him what he loves about his partner, and the things that makes him want to stick with her, despite some problems. Show some real interest in the things that matter to him. That will help him be more open to you in turn.\n\nThe fight itself (who was right or wrong between you and your father's drunk partner) might never get resolved, but that's not the issue anyway: You miss your father, and you want to feel loved by and close to him again. So focus on that.
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Try to tell him without freaking him out.
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whoever is closest too you and mean the most to you tell them first......bear in mind go gentle when you tell them...as when you do they will never ever forget that time and day.......but you need to tell those you love at least first........it will be easier for you too. and you can also talk it over with loved ones too. \ngoodluck, \nmay god be with you,\njp
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Dear Mad,\nWhen you are hugging...give him a kiss...his reaction will tell you everything...you guys have spent a lot of time on this already so its time for action.
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People have different ways of expressing and receiving love.  Find a way that's meaningful for him and express your feelings that way.
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be honest with him and tell him how you feel
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This might not be the best advice, but it might work. Try to find out what your girl's other man did wrong that makes her father not wanting her to date. Try to find out as much about her father as you can. Try to relate to him, be a friend. Make him like you. Since it isn't a girls heart that you have to win here, its his. Father's are very protective of their little girls, just because of the way us guys think. So pretty much, just find the right way to prove yourself worthy to her father that you deserve to  \nbe with his daughter. If that don't work, then try to have your girl influence him by informing him on how you guys feel for eachother.
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Just tell him. He's your husband..You should be able to know how to tell him in such manner where not to hurt his feelings.
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the best way is to tell him how you feel, and ask him if he feels the same, i know easier said then done. but it works and it will take the wonder wheel off you head. trust me.
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There is absolutely no easy way to tell family these things.  I think it's easiest just to be honest.  Ultimately, the decision is yours not your family's.  \n\nDon't be nasty about it and say something rude.  Just ask that they give you a chance to tell them how you feel about this person.  But remember to let them share their feelings as well.
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hi!\nits simple! \nfight for your love.\nif you really love him,then go to him,\neven your parents don't like him.\ni know that your parents will understand you.\njust follow your HEART
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Who's hormones are we talking about?  Yours or you parents?  Young love girl, do what you want to.  Date the guy and have him talk to your dad!  Let him win your dad's heart, and your in there.  Don't let something like that ruin your chances dating this guy.  If you really want to date him.  THEN DO IT......\nCasper
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Ok, my girlfriend and I are going through the exact same thing. Just keep seeing the guy. Talk to your mom about it. Make her understand that while you understand her and respect her opinion, that this is the guy you love, and then ask her if her parents had told her to stop seeing your father if she would have... That worked when I talked to MY gf parents. \n\nBest of Luck
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the person closest 2 u that u believe is special enough 2 do it for your father. Gender doesnt matter