Why do you need to be with someone to feel complete?
80364
I happen to agree 100% with you. But everywhere the masses get it drummed into their heads that they have to be with someone. Radio, TV, movies, books, family, friends, i mean from everywhere. Personally, been there, done that and i'm happier now than i ever was when i felt i needed to be with someone.
102243
I think it is a sense of comfort or stability... Remember why you left that person or why they left you??? Keep that in mind the next time you want to go back with them...
226633
It feels wonderful and it can bring you closer to someone if you are comfortable with them and you decide for yourself that you want to do it, however it can make you feel wretched if you are pressured to do it before you are ready or if you are with someone that you don't really care about.
1060011
When we're incomplete, we're always searching for somebody to complete us. When, after a few years or a few months of a relationship, we find that we're still unfulfilled, we blame our partners and take up with somebody more promising. This can go on and on--series polygamy--until we admit that while a partner can add sweet dimensions to our lives, we, each of us, are responsible for our own fulfillment. Nobody else can provide it for us, and to believe otherwise is to delude ourselves dangerously and to program for eventual failure every relationship we enter.
665059
Maybe you should just be single for a little while!  From what you are saying, you just don't want to settle...there's nothing wrong with that!  Nobody should settle!\n\nTake time off of the relationship to just get your mind straight!  Have a little fun!\n\nYou don't have to be in a relationship to feel whole!  \n\nIt's crazy...you sound a lot like me, except I'm 22!  I'm older than that in my mind though!\n\nGood luck to you!  You can get ahold of me through messenger if you want to talk!
522821
There is a time for everything.  If your partner havent arrived yet, it is because it is not the right time and that you are not ready for him.  \nA relationship comes when you arent looking for it.  When you NEED a relationship it means that you arent fulfilled in yourself and that you need someone else to complete you.  It will lead to disaster anyway.  Dont go fishing.  Use this time to work on yourself - phisically, emotionally and spiritually.  When you can be alone and happy, then that person will come because he will be happy with you to.  People dont want to be in a relationship with someone who has issues.  Sort yourself out and dont take the first best thing that comes your way.  If you get to know yourself, you will know what you want in a partner and you'll get it!
257220
You have reached the highest and deepest state of love when you feel that someone is your soul mate. You will feel like they know you like no one else in the world, you can read their mind and feel what they feel, like they are always watching you even miles apart! You will communicate without words.\np.s.- it's a torture if you can't be with that person :-(
619991
It's important to be happy with yourself. You can't define yourself by a man, or your relationship status. Most people like companionship, and so while you might be "happier" with a boyfriend, you need to be comfortable enough and confident enough with yourself to also be alone. It is important because you will be a more complete person when you know yourself better and accept who you are, which will make any future relationships better for you.
284542
dont love yourself. insecure, low self esteem, a guy loving you fills that emptyness, helps you feel more secure.
1096587
LOVE IS PUTTING SOMEONE ELSE'S NEEDS AND WANTS IN FRONT OF YOUR OWN. WHEN YOU DO SOMETHING YOU THINK ABOUT IF THIS IS GOING TO AFFECT THIS PERSON IN A GOOD OR BAD WAY. NOT WANTING THAT PERSON TO BE UNHAPPY. WHEN YOU ARE NOT WITH THAT PERSON YOU ARE THINKING ABOUT THEM AND WONDERING WHAT THEY ARE DOING EVEN MISSING THEM WHEN THE TWO OF YOU HAVE ONLY BEEN APART A FEW HOURS. YOUR HEART STARTS TO RACE WHEN YOU SEE THAT PERSON. YOUR HEART, MIND BODY AND SOUL JUST HAS THIS FEELING OF FULFILLMENT LIKE NOW YOU HAVE THIS FEELING OF COMPLETION SINCE YOU MET THIS PERSON.
1132284
I'm one of the guys that loves to be romantic at all times.I like to give surprises that a woman would never forget In her hole LIFE!!!.Love makes me feel that Im the chosen one to be happy all my life,It makes me do things I didn't knew I could do.I feel weak and strong at the same time.It's incredible the magic of love,gives you unexpected cualities you can use to do everything for that one person In wich you mantain the connection of the word "love".Without that person you feel you ain't anybody,because its what you feel that mantains a pure and sincere relationship at all costs.
85649
People are afraid to lose things that they feel they need. The feeling of ownership comes with a dependancy on a person to define you as who you are. I believe that if you were truely secure with yourself you would not need someone else to do that. In so resulting in a comfort with a lovers' individuality.
728298
The number one reason I think is laziness - Let me explain\n\nIf person A feels loved with flowers, cards, weekend trips then person B needs to do those things to express their love for person A that way.\n\nIf person B feels loved with sex then person A needs to express their love for person B that way.\n\nIf person A gets sex and not flowers they will not feel loved.\n\nIf person B gets flowers and not sex they will not feel loved.\n\nJust because they are our spouses does not mean they feel loved the same way as us.  \n\nConvenience is doing it the way we want it.  Love is doing it the way they want it.
54763
A boyfriend can be a good thing. You won't feel lonley you'll always have him to hug u and kiss u and make u feel good all over. U always need somebody like that so u'll never feel u're not worthy.
151655
Maybe she is confused about what she is feeling.  She most certainly must feel a loss from the companionship she had, and this may be a way for her to fulfill this need, even at the cost of delaying her own healing process.\n\nWe all need to love and be loved, but we also need to heal after any emotional or psychological devastating pain.  Not allowing ourselves to go through this process of healing only delays our self-improvement, but creates additional complications and possible emotional imbalance.\n\nIt is easier to attach ourselves to another person and get a sence of "quick fix", but it is a false solution.  Eventually, we are left unhappy, lacking in ourselves, still needing to heal.\n\nAfter a break-up, time alone to contemplate who we are and who we will become is the healthiest solution to peace, happiness and balance.
41413
Why do you have to feel that way?\n\nDating someone doesn't make you any more complete. :)\n\nYou should be happy regardless. Although, i know that it's sometimes hard..but sometimes when you're not looking for it, you'll find one.
1062094
you have someone to be with you and care for you. with him your never lonely and when your hurt you got someone to comfort you. when u go to him u got someone to play with and lean on. he keeps your happy when ur sad and sometimes sad instead of happy but ur always gonna love him.