why life is so painfull?
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If life wasn't this way we wouldn't apreciate it. And I mean imagine how boring life would be if everything was perfect. Remember that we come to this life to learn how to fix our mistakes. Thats a shame that you see life this way when life is a gift that we have borrowed remember that we have to live it the best we can't no matter how many rocks are on our way we have to still go thru them and move them out of our way to keep on going probably somehting happen to you who knows but hope but my advice will help you.
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I think you are over exaggerating, obviously everything could not have gone wrong for you, if it did, you won't even own or have access to a computer and Internet access to be able to ask this question, you could have been in Indonesia and be among the over 2000 people that died for not fault of their yesterday. \n\nYou could be among the many who are frustrated about life and have tried again and again to end it.\n\nAnd so many other reasons. I don't know what you could be going to that makes you feel that way, but try and look at the bright side once in a while, it will help.\n\nThere are times when i am walking and i hit my foot against a stone, at first it feels like my whole body aches, i am clutching my foot and groaning in pains, but gradually, the pain becomes isolated to my foot and after some time i don't even feel it any more. That how life is, sometime it feels like you have lost everything and your whole life is coming down, but just think about it, you are still alive to read this. God speed
1065972
Because nobody said life was easy. Without struggle you wouldn't become a better person. That's why you get so much obstacles in your way.
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Love is painful that is why it is love..Well i really dont know the correct reason when u come to know do tell me also..
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NO!  People can truly be in pain because something is going on in their bodies.  I think it's possible to make the pain worse by dwelling on it, but believing that pain is only in the mind is simply ridiculous.  Just ask a cancer patient, or someone with kidney stones, or a gall bladder problem....
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Most ppl cut to redirect their attention to a pain that is perceived as less than what is really troubling them.  #1 reason is that they have been abused (usually sexually).  Without proper therapy things will worsen!!
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It shouldnt be unbearable OMG im gonna die painful....if it is see a doctor....maybe you arent ready
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If life didnt suck a lot then the great parts of life wouldnt be so beautiful
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You make life what you want of it. There are always going to be hard times but you move on and get over it. There is a lot more easier times in life than hard one just look forward to have a chance to do the things you want to do in life.\n\nHave a good day
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Honey, life isn't supposed to be easy.  Hard times can help a person learn and grow and mature.  It helps you appreciate the times when life is good =)
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get some serious help....you cant go through life like this, this is very sad im sorry you have to endure this. Please get some help, love is a wonderful thing and for you not to be able to experience it is so sad
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And this is bad how?\n\nIt is quite possible to empathise with people without having to go through their traumas, why wish more suffering in this world?
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Emotional pain affects every part of you not just the body, it can alter our feeling about everything & change our life.\nEmotional pain scars out every feeling & emotion we have and can make life unbearable.\nEmotional anguish can also affect health from things like excema & psoriasis from stress to heart attacks and even suicide attempts.\nPhysical pain can be treated with painkillers or an operation emotional pain is much harder to fix, there is no short term solution even counselling & anti-depressants take a couple of months to start working
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Yes, all of us have had bad days, but few of us have experienced grieving over a murdered child. My sympathies and thoughts are with you!\n\nWe all feel alone sometime, and we all try to deal with that in our own ways. Sometimes by endlessly seeking distractions, sometimes by facing our own fears, doubts, anxieties...\n\nBut life requires that of us. Growth is almost always uncomfortable and sometimes very painful, but it's pain for something, if we're honest, if we're true to ourselves and if we genuinely care about the meaning and effect of our lives.\n\nI would much rather experience the pain of facing myself... and accomplishing something of substance in my life... then run away from myself... and at the end of it all, look back and think... "What was it all for? What real difference did I make?"\n\nGood luck to you.
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You have to accept and face the fact of harsh cruel reality. You might not enjoy the something, but as it has to be done, you have to face it brave in the face and accept it as part of life. Have a more optimistic and positive outlook so that you can be more cheerful and probably excel in the something in life.
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Love hurts! Even in the best relationships things go wrong, and it hurts.  You can't avoid the pain love can bring but always remember what doesn't kill you can always make you stronger.  Keep that in mind ;)
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thats a difficult Q u have there... lemme think..\n\ni normally think that life sucks esp during my lowest hours, but actually, life is great... we're so lucky 2 b able 2 enjoy happiness, sadness, love, pain, health, sickness, etc..\n\nGod is so good that he gave us everything in pairs. He wants us to feel both sides of everything he created..\n\nI think my answer wud b, d mere fact that i'm alive, loved by my family & friends & being able 2 give love 2 all those poeple I care 4 -- makes me like LIFE...