I am 18 years old & i have been with my boyfriend 4 2yrs. am i too young 4 something like this right now?
92204
Difficult to say, I was in the same situation. I have been with the same guy since I was 15. I won't deny that it has had its drawbacks and that the first few years were real tough...young love always is. Everyone told me it was stupid and it wasn't enough to stop me but it did manage to fill my head with doubts. It's been 10 years a lot has changed, most of it for the best. It would have been easier to not involve myself with something so intense so young but the right choice isn't always easiest. A good rule of thumb don't stop moving forward as an individual. meaning don't let this relationship run your life. Go to college and start your life, you'll feel much worse if this all falls apart and you have sacrificed more then just time. Really only you can decide whats too much for you. Can you fulfill your other obligations in life...if so then I see no harm.
466302
yes i'm only 16 years old and have been with my man for about 2 years and i'm in love with him i love him more than anything in these world..
190240
Yes...How much younger is up to you and what you feel comfortable with.  Just be honest with yourself about what issues the age difference may create and if your willing to deal with them.  It is different for each person and each relationship.  Explore it and if you find it isn't right then end it and at least you will have learned something.
1185473
Well, do you love him? You have had a child together so you have to think of the kid too.. But do not stay for only that reason.\n\nI do not think the age is the problem, I think maybe you feel like you might have gotten with him for a father figure, I am going to guess and say that I bet someone told you that..\n\nIf you love him hun, marry and have a wonderful life.. If you are not sure, then do not marry him...And if you do not love him, then you really should move on and find someone you love and who loves and adores you.. We all deserve that!
887741
you are obviously to young to have aboy friend especially four years older than you,you wont like most answers you get and thats because were older and understand the consequences of what your doing,you had sex? thats what a man four years older than you wanted from you it wont last much longer and if it does it will be just about the sex i could assure you he defiantely is seeing other females behind your back more to his age,i hope you have protection because getting pregnant is the last thing you need
1058830
I know from experience! 21 with 49! You may be happy now and enjoying each other but let's say you get serious or move in together. The movies, music, friends, conversation, style, and attitude will change eventually. An 18 year old has so much more to learn and experience and can do so with an older person, but believe me they will eventually get someone a little younger, closer to there own style or cheat on you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
579356
i know what ur goin through, i'l be married 4 years this july we have nothin in common ,no communication,when we go out for a drive we dont talk.we even sleep in seperate beds .i'v been with him since i was 18 years old now i'm 31 .but i got 2 wonderful kids which are my world. i just want you to know ur not alone.....
1175390
It sounds like you are embarking on your lives together with your eyes wide open. Remember, for women, forty is the "new twenty"... so you're actually about the same biological age. \n\nEnjoy your love, and pursue your happiness!
816675
how old is way too old? go out with the guy you have known for 4 years. It sounds like you may be able to trust him more
718151
i dont think your too young,,i just think your not old enough...haha-gottcha...lol..
851469
Oh dear. You think you love him? What is love, then? You are not yet in a relationship do not go there, yet.\n\nHow old you are is important. A lot younger does not tell us much.\nBy 18 a guy has a few ideas on how to start a relationship, you need to let him start it.  If you are too young (>16) please do not do anything with him even if he does start it.\n\nAsk yourself why you want to be with him.\nIs it to be the cool girl dating a much older guy? (That's bad).\n\nIs it because he is a guy you have become comfortable with and developed a crush due to the level of familiarity? (Date someone your age with similar qualities, REMEMBER eventually you will get comfortable with them).\n\nIs it because he pays attention to you? (Other guys will eventually).\n\nIs it because you have sincer feelings?
200088
It depends in part on how old you are...if one or both of you are, say, under fifteen or so, that's a big difference in terms of maturity, etc.  \n\nWith that said, I'm a bit older than my bf (two years in school grades, one year and a couple months in age) and although I got a bit of teasing about "robbing the cradle" at first (and I'm willing to bet he got jokes about dating an "older woman") we've been together for quite a while now, with no age-related problems :)  So no, there's nothing wrong with that.  Good luck!
411363
I was 16 and I am not with him.  Part of me regrets it and wishes that I could take it back, but it is also part of what defines me as I am.\nIf I may ask, how long has it been that you have been with him?
1152136
wait until you are 18....if he really loves you he will wait...
1080586
when i was 21 i was going out with a girl who was 16. we had a great relationship for almost 2 years and if i had a chance to do it all again i would. the only problem was that as she got older and matured we drifted apart but that can happen with any relationship no matter what age you are. give it a try but don't let him use his age and experience to get you to do anything you don't want to. good luck, hope all goes well
378783
No this isn't a big difference I'am 17 now and my b/f is 21 now, it really isn't that big deal , it's not all about age, if u guys love eachother u shouldn't care about ur ages just follow ur heart.
183925
Yes and no. I would say you are too young because I have "been there done that". Hell at my age I thought I was in love til I realized my ex wasn't "the one". No because there are some relationships that truely can last well into your old age years that start off as young as you are. Trust me you will know when you are in love or lust.