How do you know if your man is cheating on yo if you live in two different boroughs?
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I've always heard that if a guy buys new underwear that they are definitely cheating.\n\nI know it sounds weird.  I guess the biggest thing is how deep is your relationship?  If it is just based on sex what do you expect?  Of course he's gonna cheat because if you spend all your time on sex and not on actually developing a relationship, there will be nothing else to attach him.  He'll get bored.\n\nI guess, however, the best advice I could ever give is this: Just talk to him about your feelings.  This isn't a secret coded Cloak & Dagger, CSI game.  Geesh, I think sometimes we forget to just have fun and live life.  \n\nHope this gives you some help.
1123558
I know that it exists, but you'd better hope he doesn't find out.  Blatently eavesdropping on someone else's activities is illegal, and if you confront him with it and things go bad, he could very well sue you.  \n\nMy advice would be to find another way of finding this out or find another boyfriend if you don't trust him.
383980
No, cuz a lot of the time they live too far away. If you go to a chat room w/ peeps who are local, then they may make up excuses NOT to meet up or something. There seems to alwayz be a catch. Take me for example, I wanna meet my friend Mikey. Just to meet. But he wasn't able to meet me. That or he didn't want to :( Well actually, maybe it IS easier ... "to get a gf online" that is. Just that the rel (if there is one) won't be anything physical. Not til the 2 of you decide to meet. Mikey & my friend (who are going out :s) plan on meeting one day. They haven't yet. They broke up but got back together. I think that they're both desperate for a rel... shhhhhhh don't tell them I said dat :$ Also, he's had another online gf. But she lived reeeeeeeally far up north... Hrs away... She ended up cheating on him w/ her ex when she went to visit Mikey... :s How do you know if the person is who they say they are anywayz ? & if their feelings are real ?
572890
Not necessarily. Though does show that he is thinking of her some level. doesn't mean it is in a good way though. Confront him and watch his reaction. you always know deep down when your man is cheating.
571805
I saw a private investigator on Oprah one day and he said that most men are caught cheating by the wife when she hits redial on the phone. Also check credit card receipts for florists, jewelers, etc...check the mileage on the car, unexplained longer distance? Does he shower immediately upon returning home from somewhere he shouldn't have gotten dirty? SMELL HIM-perfume, cigarette smoke and he doesn't smoke? Be aware of everything.
498116
It depends on your boyfriend.\nYou have to give us examples of the things he is doing that makes YOU think he is cheating and we can let you know from there.
692181
if you don't have the chance to check his cellphone check his email and call him all the time preference i the night but if you feel something in your hearth that is not right is because he is cheating you
573164
if you have sex and then he leaves, if you call him and he never answers, if your always the one buying shit, if he never takes you out. If he's only around when he wants to be there. Girl if you feel like he's using you, your probably right. On the madea movie that woman said how do you know if your man is cheating? Do you think he's cheating YES then he's cheating
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I had a man fired from his job, arrested for drug posession, and told his girlfriend he was cheating sothat she would leave him. Why all this? Because I wanted his apartment. It may sound odd, but if you ever lived in New York, you'd know how seperate you have to be to find a place.
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Some signs of cheating:\n\n1. smelling of perfume...not yours\n2. seems freshly showered\n3. money missing from account that you can't account for\n4. charges on charge cards you don't recognize\n5. working late a lot\n6. always tied up over lunch\n7. not as interested in things going on at home as was before\n8. sex frequency may change (some want more, others less)\n9. wants you to try new sexual adventures\n10. concentrates more on his appearance\n11. check out his cell phone bill \n12. is he starting to find fault with you? nothing you do is right\n13. may accuse you of having an affair due to his own guilt
193498
no its not cheating, cheating is if you go out with both of them and they didnt know and all that stuff. wat u did was nothing. if ur boyfriend doesnt trust you,than he doesnt deserve you. dump him. go out w/ someone else (not his cus,only if u want to make him jelous)
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I don't think so because you don't know what, or who that person is doing while he's out of town. If you want him to be faithful, i think u should stick with someone close by.
197843
If you think it, usually your right.  You could try to prove it but you might be wasting your precious time.  Just back off and leave him alone and go your own way......one day he will wake up and say,  what happened to that great thing I had?  Where did she go?  And he will miss you and come looking for you.  But you have to act like you don't care.  If he's cheating on you, he's not treating you nice.
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I have to agree, you will not find out he is cheating unless you catch him. Do you think that maybe that this group of people that are telling you things possibly don't like you? Maybe they are jealous of you and your man and don't want to see you guys together. Question yourself girl. I believe all people, whether or not they say they do not know their significant other is cheating, deep down they have suspicions, that maybe something is not right.  Did you ever suspect him of cheating before people have told you this? How was your relationship before all of this happened? I think you need to evaluate the way your relationship is going. Good luck.
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He certainly has all the signs of it. Be blunt and ask him. At least he'll know you are paying attention. My ex was caught in the act and I NEVER suspected her. I came home from work sick one day and she was at home banging a cop. I never saw it coming because she never acted suspicious. Weird isn't it?
1052802
To put it bluntly, you are both lowlifes and you deserve each other and the misery you provide each other.  Cheat on!
1153907
no i'm not cheating......i love my guy n i'd never leave him no matter how hot the guy across the street is....you have very good princeples,don't let these idiots trick u into thinking cheating on ur partner is cool,cuz it's not hun.....it just hurts people n gives u a bad reputation..........good luck,luv ya