after a divorce is over and you get a one time payment for alimony, can you date?
92011
You are free to date whoever you want!
218389
It depends. Did you sign a prenuptual aggreement? If you did, basically what is going to happen is you're going to leave with what you came in the marriage with and your spouse will leave with what he/she came into the marriage with. If not, then it's actually the court's/judge's decision. The judge will make their decision based on the whole situation. Most likely, if there's kids involved, the one who has legal custody of the kids will get the most assets. If allimony comes up, the one who makes more money will have to pay it if asked to. Watch out though, because if you're the one who makes less and you're the reason why the divorce is happening, the judge might not rule alimony payments in your favor, if you ask for them.
619091
No, she will still get child support.   I just got married and have two step-sons now.   The father is still required to pay his child support.
1120550
You can date if you are not in the same chain of command.
989286
"If you are divorced after at least 10 years of marriage, you can collect retirement benefits on your former spouse's Social Security record if you are at least age 62, and if your former spouse is entitled to or receiving benefits.  If you remarry, you generally cannot collect benefits on your former spouse's record unless your later marriage ends (whether by death, divorce, or annulment)."  (www.socialsecurity.gov/gethelp1.htm)  There is more information at this site!  Good luck to you!
394709
Yes you can.  Go back to the solicitor who dealt with the divorce and tell him to you want to start ancillary relief proceedings.
147624
I doubt it. Alimony is totally different than plain old child support.
564225
"When Reagan was President," the pretty lady tells us! Next your going to tell us your last date was with Oliver North.\nWell supply side economics aside, and with the laissez- faire capitalism that exists today, it depends on the supply of available suitors to the demand of you the 'datee.' If you really want that date, you will pay for \nit. On the other hand if you the 'datee' are the goods or service in demand (and that would be my assumption) then the 'dater' should pay for services....in this case a date. Hope that helped  let me know how it goes, good luck with that.
131701
Yes . . . unless you divorced . . . and any shared debts that has occurred while married you will still have to pay off.
154745
You should receive some type of documentation stating how much you received in alimony throughout the year. Then, unfortunately, you have to claim that money as income.
1056988
You can only have ONE first date.\n\nOthers can have their first date with you,\nbut you had yours (lol)\n:-)
628658
i would think that would depend largely on if she is able to get out and get a job herself. if she is able to then she probably won't get half your pay for life. just up untill the end of the divorce.
32795
I do not know if you know this but, if you were married to him for at least 10 years while he was an active member of the military you are entitled to half.  This needs to be stated during the divorce.  If it never was talked about then you need to get an attorney and discuss if you are eligible.  If you waved the right to his retirement during your divorce you will never get it the decision is final and non-reversible.  Your divorce attorney can tell you if he is receiving his retirement pay if you are in titled to it.  If not sorry bout your luck, he does not have to tell you unless you take him back to court to increase child support or alimony.
446259
Once your married for a period of time it can't be anulled so I'm not sure what you're asking or if you simply mistated your question.  Also certain actions preclude an anullment regardless of length of time.
1155505
Part of the therapy for getting over a divorce is to re-join the "human race".  With a divorce, we go through "separation anxiety" ... and that is a very miserable condition.\n\nDon't feel that you have to leap at the first opportunity to date ... but don't shy away from one that interests you.  Ease back into it, maybe by starting out going out with a group of friends, then a couple friends, then venturing out on your own.\n\nThere is no generally-accepted timeframe for waiting.  Let your own heart and needs determine that.  Just be cautious about "rebounding" and jumping into a worse relationship than the one you just left ... just because "it's there" and you're hurting.
1047985
If you think it will affect the divorce, wait until all of the papers are signed. You can expedite the process by filing for divorce via adultery. It's still considered adultery if you are married and separated. However, if you start dating before the divorce is final, then you will not be able to file for divorce on those grounds. Do not get back together with him at any point in time after the adultery either. In both cases, it would represent your endorsement (or lack of condemnation) of it, which the courts would reject a divorce on those grounds then.
175571
In Texas you can give them any name you like.  I was single and I gave him my name.