Is difficult to find a stable gay paretner?
80833
love happens. you don't have to 'find' it :)\nsometimes you love someone so much, but if the timing ain't right for either of you, it's a regret, no?\nsometimes, you don't really love that person so much, but he comes @ the right time, & vroooom! you have a stable partner.\njust choose a committed partner, & see how things move on from there...\ncheers!
599083
No, but a good man who is not married is near impossible to find.
296088
Don't loose your hope. Second, stop looking for him. Try to meet men without hoping them to be available or Mr, Right. \n\nIf you expect to find Mr, Right you never will. None of us are perfect.\n\nSecond, don't worry if they're taken. Relationships aren't forever, people break up, get divorced and die, so there are good people becoming single all the time.\n\nRelax and it will get to you once you've stopped looking.
903314
I am single for 26 years.. look am I frustrated...\n\ndo the traditional way of finding.. "Keep looking
1115556
keep tryng but be careful. If you still can't find someone good, then be prepared to be single.
1020414
not all men are the same, good things come to those who wait, so eventually you will find the right one for you, just keep the faith....
16427
There is no such thing as perfection straight or gay, you just need to be happy with who you are and who you choose. Try gay dating websites, gay clubs and or if your tuned in enough you'll just know when somebody is that way inclined believe me. Be comfortable and proud about who you are and this will attract peeople always!
957959
If all you're looking for is some "a**" then perhaps that is why you have a problem finding someone.Most people prefer not to think of themselves as just a lay.I would suggest trying for more then just sex.But if sex is all you care about then there is always the option of checking to see if you have enough money to pay for some.
224727
Well yeah...like everyone says...gay bars are good for meeting the local gay population....but not everyone likes hanging out in bars...maybe you don't either.\n I would suggest you try finding local gay/lesbian support groups online...or going into gay/lesbian chatrooms...if nothing else, it passes the time and you might find someone you wanna get to know better.\n Get your profile onto a dating site or two...you never know what could turn up.....but if you're just looking for friends then please be sure to state that on your profile.\n I do wonder why you're in the closet...hope that coming out isn't going to be too traumatic for you whenever you do decide to come out to the people closest to you.\nGood luck sweetie :-)
701401
Just be yourself.  I've known hundreds of gays in my life.  Some are flaming beyond belief... the "gay guys" you refer to, I guess.  But most are regular people who have jobs, go out, date, and you'd never know they are gay.\n\nIt's a hard thing to balance, really... if you go to a city where there is a big gay population in which you can blend and find a life, you'll find a huge flaming population.  But if you stay in middle America or smaller towns, you'll find very few flaming people... but also very little life either.\n\nJust ignore the flamers... there are regular folks out there, more than you'd think.
472615
A very vague question which lacks detail. There are hundreds of factors which could be a reason as to why you can't find a girlfriend. I for one for one would not think it is due to your location or your bisexuality.\nPeople who are straight often find it hard to find a lover living in highly populated cities. \n\nIf you believe in love as a in a fairy tale manner where fate and destiny decide for us then you will only need to be patient and yor are sure to find love.\nIf you are a person who believes that you make your own love, then perhaps consider yor approach to finding love...
1133899
Just wait sweety it will happen. I was like you thought that all decent guys were taken or gay. They are not, I have the best bloke in the world and he is my best friend too. We started off as friends and it just went from there! Good luck and be patient. xx
320555
You sound absolutely divine to me.  If you were straight, I'd chase you down like the meat-free hottie you are.  You are not eccentric.  Listen, I know several gay men with values similar to yours.  My advice?  Move to a university town with a diverse, cosmopolitan community of people.  Take salsa classes.  Join a animal rights group.  Attend a Unitarian Universalist church.  You will find men like yourself, I promise.  Just be firm in your beliefs, never compromise yourself, and trust that the right man will enter your life.  Believe me: He is out there and he probably feels just as isolated as you do.  Good luck.
629864
Well - Im affraid its complicated because I believe that I am Gay Man - I ve only had the occasional one night stand and d ont live with anyone. My earliest memories aged around 9 or 10 tend to suggest I preferred the Boys at school and have done ever since. I am a Christian that is a choice but my sexuality I d ont believe is. As for God he loves us as we are not for who we are.
1187678
No this is  okay but be careful. It is hard to find the right person..
228340
No, but I don't think its easier either.  It's hard for everyone to find someone who's physically attractive, mentally stable, compatible perosonality wise, and for the mothers accepting of your children.  But that's why you date, and hopefully have fun, before you meet that special person!!
465690
They are very hard to find but don't loose hope.  You may have already passed a few good ones bye.  The question may be on yourself.  I know it was on my shoulders after I asked the same question at the same age with the same situation.  I got involved with playing volleyball and then joining a health club and going to church on a regular basis.  I picked apart each and every guy I got a date with.  I finally realized that they must be doing the same to me and then started to look at myself and decided that there are faults in all including myself so I needed to look for someone that wasn't what everyone else thought was great.  I needed to find the greatness in the man of my dreams.  And 2 years later found him.  He loved my daughter as his own.  We have now been married for 9 years with 3 more children, and it is as good as it was when we first met.  Good luck to you and hopefully you too will find the man of your dreams.