i have an arsehole of a boyfriend who is acting pricey. what should i do?
97040
If it really bothers you, find you someone that you can be happy with and let him move on to someone else and let them deal with him. Find someone who makes you happy and cares about you and yyour feelings.
836787
Does he really want you? Will he continue to shower you with affection after he has got you?\n\nIs the guy you are with asking for the things you are spending your money on or are you just buying them assumng that he wants them?\n\nThe fighting is another issue. Does he prefer saving money for the future? New car or house? If so, you cannot fault him for that.\n\nThe important thing to remember is that being spoiled rotten with gifts is not love and in the end will not make you completely happy. It seems like you need to do a little soul searching.
1104864
I would tell him that hes pissing me off and upsetting me by saying those things and talk to him about it. see if he will agree to stop it. then if he keeps on, i would just dump him and move on. there are PLENTY of guys who will make you feel special... you dont need one who tells you that you need to change just to suit him.
50700
Tell him to get over it! Tell him that he can't "afford" you! Make sure you do it in front of others, so the dramatic effects are there!! Hehe! He'll want to slither into a corner!! Good luck!
565407
I think you did the right thing by letting your boyfriend know how you felt about it. If he wants to have a moocher friend over, fine, but let your boyfriend foot the bill. If your boyfriend has a problem with that and wants you to pay for his moocher friends, perhaps a new boyfriend would be in order. Good luck!
398929
My boyfriend thinks he has to pay for everything too! He will throw my money on the floor in shops so I can't pay. It annoys me too so I let him get on with it. I do other things like buy him clothes when I'm out shopping and try to even it out a bit that way.
715027
Total up all your costs on paper and divide it by 2. Highlight the amount an leave it for him so that he can see what you are talking about. You are not the only person who lives in your home - you both do. You both are responsible for the household. If you feel strongly about it, let him know that if he doesn't pull his share, he can do it all on his own - as a single man.
343543
confront him, tell him "look, why am I always paying", and if he acts up then dump him.
719279
Start respecting yourself more than that!!!!! This man is paying you for services. kick him to the curb. If was giving you money to help you out he wouldn't want to sleep with you. Pay him back when you get on your feet and find someone who respects you. Don't let a man use you like that.
90790
sorry, darlin' but he's already said no, hasn't he? He's not gonna buy the cow when he gets his milk for free. Time to move on. You both want different things. You are good enough and deserve better. Just imagine finding a great guy who wants the same things you do...and you're wasting time not finding him because you're involved with Mr. Wrong.
118233
your behavior seems very irresponsible.  look at yourself.  take responsibility for yourself, your feelings, your actions.  Learn from your mistakes in this relationship
125769
He has made it very clear that your feelings arent very important to him, and I dont think he loves you as much as you love him, or as much as you deserve to be loved!\nYou sound like a wonderful girl, and there are plenty of good guys who would treat you right and appreciate all that you do. Hold out for just that!\nYour boyfriend might be sorry, but he needs a lesson in life. You cant treat people badly and expect them to put up with it!
1155230
He's the one with the problem not you...rise above it and hopefully your boyfriend will sort it out...if he's the sort worth having!
543987
You need to talk to him.  Assumptions are bad in business, horrible in relationships.
1108727
I would express my hurt feelings. Then tell him he has to ask for it back  and return it and buy me something twice as expensive and extravagant. If he won't, I will simply close my mouth and stash money away and leave when timing is right.
596186
DONT DO IT, YOUR BOYFRIEND DONT REALLY LOVE YOU IS HE A PERVERT YOU NEED TO FIND SOMEONE THAT LOVES YOU FOR REAL AND RESPECT YOU; TELL YOUR BOYFREIND I SAID TO F**K HIM SELF AND TO RESPECT YOU YOU ARE WORTH MORE THAN A STUPID RISE AT WORK... THAT IS WHAT I THINK
742653
See's Candy (or other good brand)or\nFlowers   or \nScented candle.\n\nYou are not obligated to buy something expensive just because he is rich, and he would not expect you to do so.  This is when the thought really does count!\n\nDon't forget a thank you note afterwards!!!!