do you think i should as out a girl even if her dad says she can't date yet?
79028
you could be opening a can of worms your not ready for i am the father of a young teen girl and i say she isnt ready to date how ever i will allow her to have male friends over to watch a movie or for a b-b-q on occasion but her friends are a little afraid of me as i am a very large man[see my profile] so they at least act like they respect me because they think i will really hurt them even though i wont although a lot of dads will do crazy things because of their daughters so in short becareful and dont P** O** the wrong dad
203399
How old are you? If you're old enough to make decisions about your life, then this one has to be your decision, too.\n\nParents have a habit of not thinking anyone is good enough for their little girl, and there's a good chance you'll never meet anyone that meets up to their expectations - or if you do, he won't be right for you and you are the one that has to put up with him, right?\n\nAs long as a guy is good to you and not abusive or doing anything illegal, then your parents - as difficult as it may be - will just simply have to accept whoever you decide to love because it is your life, not theirs.
69593
He is her father and hopefully she can just tell him. Have her set up a "date" with him and let him know that she has something important to tell him at the end of the date.  He may be upset or confused at first but love will overcome everything else and he will accept her.
1117459
Nope.  Your in the wrong here, you are lying and disobeying your parents.  You probably aren't aloud to date because you aren't old enough.  Whether you believe it or not your parents make rules for a reason and you should respect them.
756142
If you really care for her stick by her. May be she is having a hard time dealing with her sexuality. It sounds like she is into you. She told her parents.Just give her time.
528570
It's possible, but the relationship shouldn't be too serious.  Maybe start with "group dates" with friends or just hang out together.  Just be sure your parents okay it before you get yourself in a relationship.
568455
Yes, tell her it all.  Unfortunately, she may not believe you and it may cause a rift in your relationship with her, for awhile anyway.  You shouldn't have waited though.  It may sound like sour grapes at this point and your mom may think you are making this up because she is making fun of you.  I would tell her that she could believe you or not.  It is her choice, but to not be surprised to find out that your stepdad, has been cheating on her in the past, or will be cheating on her in the future.  Tell her that you are not saying this for any other reason than that she needs to know the truth.  I'd even tell her that you really thought that he was being a great guy by coming all that way to help you out and that you wouldn't say anything against him if it was not true.  Tell her that you do not want to cause any problem with her and your relationship with her.  I would also tell her that you do not want to be alone with him or have your daughter left alone with him.  It may make your point stronger.  Good luck!
39560
I'm 14 too,ask you parents if they would be alright with you and her hanging out in a larger group, so it would be a little less like a date, but more like hanging out with your friends. You can always hang out  more with her than the rest of the group. But whatever you do, don't lie to your parents about going out cause they probably will find out and then you will just have to wait longer to be able to date. hope this helps. =)
624634
This guy might be interested, but dating the boss's daughter is quite a responsibility.  He's probably freaked about that.  Talk to him and talk to Dad about him.  And call him on his lie.  Say, well you told my dad that you didn't have a girlfriend.  What should believe?  But yeah, if he's interested in you, he's probably spooked by Dad.  Talk that out with him and if your dad likes him, it may work to his advantage.  Good luck!
767038
Well considering shes your teahcer there isnt much you can do in that department. i mean you cant really approach her. i mean i guess you could. Really , I just think you should explore the fact that you like girls and go from there. If you feel you really do like them for sure and you may be with women in the future then you can consider telling your parents. From my own experience though, you must know that more than likely if you tell your parents now that you think you are gay or bi they are unlikely to believe you so be prepared and have a strong support system from some friends.
1059630
2 years can be a lot , then nothing at all if your 16 and she's 14 that's a problem .You don't say how old , you may be too young in her parents eyes to date .If your 17 and she's 15 then there could be legal problems .Now when your 23 and she's 21 , That's not the case but can you see what I'm trying to explain.If your 14 and she's 12 ,I'd be very upset your wanting to date at 14.I honestly can't see an answer without knowing the ages .Your shy is not a bad thing ( not totally ) Give yourself some time and get to know the family ( if you can ).With so many very young parents , many of us are guarding our teens from the possibility of it happening to ours,It's not to say your not a great guy , just not the right time . Parents should be respected , they support the children and have earned this right .If you were a parent How would you react ? What age should your daughter start dating ? If young and something happened , would you care that happened ? Sometimes teenagers don't look into the view of the parents .We want you to be happy and date and enjoy life But rules are usually for the interest of the child / young adult .
903061
Age is mind over matter: if you don't mind, it doesn't matter. The distance isn't that big of an issue, people make much longer distance relationships work but if you don't have a job to pay for gas, it could be a little problem seeing her as much as you'd want to. If her parents know you, they should know you are a respectable person to date their daughter despite your age. If she is someone you care about, give it a shot.
57487
Well let me see.If your of age and you want to date this guy and the guy wants to date you that should be it.But you say dad is not crazy about him.Well I think thats easy.Start out by telling the guy to take dad out a few times.Have the guy take dad out to eat and maybe a drive in.By that time dad may just say take this guy and go lol.I'm not trying to be funny but you are the only one that will know if its right or not.Dad will just have to wake up and see it's you that needs to be the happy one not him lol.Get the guy and go have fun.\nbob
69469
Best thing is to only tell people you trust, like a close friend preferrably a girl, they seem to be more understanding than a typical guy friend. I wouldnt tell your parents just yet I would hold off until it feels right, it seems to me your learning about yourself right now and you found something that interests you, and it may be something that passes and it may not so I wouldnt alarm anyone just yet. Take a deep breath and think about what it is your looking for and go for it. When the newness wears off and your sure you will always be this way, then tell your family because then you will be more confident that this is how you are and they have to accept you. I have seen alot of parents go to the extreme when finding out their child is not as perfect as they hoped, or they have different looks on thier life than their parents expected, just something to think about. Lots of luck bud...
1054236
I think you should accept him for who he is.  If you can't accept him, let him go so he can find a girl who appreciates him.
168958
I say let'er rip all at once, like a bandaid, quick!  My ex-girlfriend didn't come out to her parents till she was 33 and told her about the girlfriend at the same time.  Worked out ok for her.  Good Luck!
51408
The quality of girls relationship with her father will affect how she is with men for the rest of her life- you on the other hand are an adult and should be able to accept decisions/behaviours  more rationally. Its completey understandable he would put her "first" but rather than thinking of it that way it needs to be presented as being able to balance his relationship with you with the one he has with his daughter.\nBe wary if he's being over protective of her but also try and consider it from his viewpoint- would you let a man come before your son?