What do you do if you love a guy and you love another guy and they ask you out on the same day?
94064
Pick one, the only thing is if you string them both along disaster will follow.
589582
Allways listen to your heart and gut but just because you love the one does he love you too! If so he would make time for you no matter what! But Me I dont thingit is posable to love 2 men at the same time You can love many people at the same time  but Not LOVE them! So really follow your heart but if your gut is telling you hey something is not right check in to it find out what is wrong! But If you really Loved either of them you wouldn't be so confussed you would know! Who do you think of all the time when you wake up? when you go to bed? Which one is always on your mind if some one was at your door right now who would you want it to be! Who's eyes do you look into and see a future with him! There are a number of questions you need to ask your self! And go with your HEART!
67554
Thats kind of odd that someone with a girlfriend asked you... and if you feel that it would not be appropriate to go with the other guy then don't.  If there is someone you would much rather go with, feel them out about if they would want to go with you!  Overall, just do what you believe is right.  And most importantly, forget the drama and have fun!
618143
yea, just make up an occation for you 2 guys going out with other friends, then have them take for you as many pitures as you want. That's so simple.
286384
word to the wise, don't even try.  If you come between two men you will cause problems and one or both of them will eventually resent or hate you.\n\nMake it easy for them date both of them at the same time.
1068354
Better not ask him out together since both your friend and you like the same guy. I got a friend in the same situation. Later he got together with one of the gals and the 3 of them are like really awkward! Think of your friendship!
409976
i understand you might love the first guy, but if he doesn't feel the same then move on, and love this other guy, you should let it go and follow your heart.  yes you might not love the 2nd like the 1st but not all love is the same.  You will probably always think about the love you had for the first guy, but the key thing here is that he doesn't feel the same, and you can't make someone love you.
405947
Be straight with the guy you like the most and find out what he wants, if he turns you down then take the rejection and all you have lost is the affection of one man.  If you don't go for him you will always be in wonder of what may have been.
626976
If you do not like them both then tell them the truth.  If you like one and not the other tell them the truth.  If you like them both then, go on a date with each one and see who treats you better.  Not girlfriend boyfriend dates, just friend dates
1176603
you just need to follow your heart which guy do you have more feelings for and which one treats you the way you want to be treated? ? no one on here can make that choice for you. you just need to decide the one your happiest with and go with it
1103557
a friendly date?Sure why not,nothing wrong with friends hanging out.If you are interested in one of them and you have other things in mind and you ask them both out ,You could ruin your chances with either of them so be careful.You can only love one of them or else you are considered a jerk.
240556
hun, if you like him then go out with him. Do you. If they are your true friends the will accept your relationship. Dont give up on what you want because your friends dont want you to go out with him. Its your life and you only live it once. Good luck.
284657
I think that you should go out with the boy that you think is the BEST for you, and who is the sweetest to you ect. I really like this one boy and I think im in love too! If I were you I would go out with the boy who was the sweetest to you and who really showed that they care about you, thats what really matters!
245022
doesn't make you gay completey....you may have a BIG PROBLEM......you have to make a decision sooner or later.  If you like both girls and this guy you say you are in love with you will have to choose mind over matter.  I'd love to hear from you so e-mail me.
409394
First, sorry that first guy didn't feel the same.  Second, why did your friend say that to the second guy?  If you like this second guy as a friend, then his reaction shouldn't matter, he's your friend.  But to answer your question, it sounds like he feels like you do.  He is your friend.  Your friend is causing problems by asking this second guy.  My advice would be to approach the guys you like and not your friends do it for you.  It may be tough, but then you will know for sure.  It will make you a stronger person.  Good luck, there are a lot of fish in the sea.
468485
That's kind of a question you need to answer yourself. But I can give you some advice. What you need to do is sit down and think. Get three separate pieces of paper and write down all of the good things/moments about each guy and see which one has the most. Don't end it at that though. Think it through and see which guy you would be better off with. Who cares what your friends think? The decision is up to you. Whichever guy you pick, tell the other guys you're sorry and you think __________ is the best for you. They will eventually move on and get a separate life. I hope my advice works out for you and good luck. -Cody
1169964
get over the other guy and go out with the next and the next.....have fun......the other guy missed out or maybe you did not put out....or maybe you did to quick......either way forget him....talk to the other guy to see what he is about....you might just like it