how do i know my real wife and what qualites will i see in her tha shows she is mine for real?
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Nothing in life is a guarantee. However their are certain qualities that true wives have in general. Honesty, patience, love, understanding and the knowledge to know when shes being used. That last may take time to learn . Also she must be abele to recognize a good man.  A good msan is not insecure but satisfied with himself and thus will accept and respect and love a wife. By the way. dont leave,out respect. Good luck
631631
Well ask her for her surname. Whether she's tellin the truth or not, she will give u a surname. Then try to find her on "Friends Reunited" website. Then see if the info matches what she told u. Asides from this, I dont know any other way u can find out. Not bein funny here, but how come u hav never met her?
510741
Well look at the way she acts, her personality, her way of acting towards things, is she caring? Does she care about you? Ask her questions? get to know her character better! you should have known that already before she became your girlfriend! :)
928207
Maybe you should flip the script on her.  Reverse the situation and YOU play hard to get.  As a matter of fact. A great way to put her to the test.  Conjure up an imaginary love interest and tell her that YOU have plans.  Then sit back, look at your watch and count the seconds until she comes running behind you like a little puppy.  Girls love what other women have.  Whether it's their, shoes, purse, or their man.  Then you will be able to tell if she's real.  She doesn't want anyone else to have you, but she doesn't wanna do what it takes to keep you!!
877841
Whatever SHE is interested in.  Find out by talking to her what those things are...and let her do the talking..you'll find out more about her to love and appreciate - and she'll see a real gentleman in you.
116474
If she is real she now knows your seeking her out and will contact you
69136
Ask her! Anything else is just guesswork. You owe yourself the truth, straight from her mouth.\n\nDr. Barb Nefer, http://www.bnlifeskills.com
526417
if you love her tell her that and explain your vieew and if she loves you she'll understand and respect your opinion
514036
You can't tell who are for real and who isn't.  The best thing for you to do, is find someone who isn't advertising it big time. They are most likely for real.
1064905
The key word here is "your wife" if shes happy then stop being insecure, she loves you..you have what most people only dream about.
518851
Those are pretty general. Ask her what she is passionate about, what things make her feel comfortable and happy, what she likes to do and where she has been in her life, and anything that would pertain to HER and not your sexual interest in her. Good luck.
546642
It's all in how you feel about it deep inside.  Do you have the option of meeting her before marrying her?  If so, meet with her and then see how you feel.
128714
Ask her ( you shouldent marry a woman that you dont trust)
539525
If she is a real person you are looking for, check the "find a person" websites, such as "white pages".
65331
Since I have known here, my wife has filled that role in a way none other ever has.  She is not just the love of my life, but my confidant, my inspiration, my sounding board, my muse, my reality and my fantasy.  She is everything I ever hoped I might have in my life that was good and true and worthwhile.  She makes every day worth waking up for, just to see how it will turn out.  She makes everything better.
763222
she is divorced\nmaybe make it legit
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Here is a crazy idea.  Ask her.  If you do not believe she is being truthful then dump her.  Personally it should not matter.  I was not a virgin when I met my future wife and she was.  For being a very devout Christian that was a big leap for her, but in the end she got around it.  And you should as well, unless she is not truthful.