Ladies, have you ever looked for love in the wrong places Explain and give examples and results.?
89352
yes, I guess I like the thugish type of guys. I was going out with a real gentleman when I seen this sexy thug type of guy in the mall...Sadly I cheated on my boyfriend with this guy for a week(no sex)...broke up with my original boyfriend...went out with this guy...dated him for a year...found out he cheated on me and had a baby with another girl...completly wrong place...the sad thing is, is that I still have feelings for him and I'm finding it hard  saying "no" to him about getting back togather...man!!!!
707788
I have. When I see a good looking man that I desire, I have no problem starting a conversation and dropping him little hints here and there during the conversation that let him know I am interested in pursuing seeing him.\nIt usually works like a charm.
291672
Sure have....and it is wonderful when you do!!!  Don't look for him/ her though...when you least expect it....there it will be!!
320825
It is possible, it happened to me last September when I married the man I looked for all my life.  You can't look for them, you can't be anxious, it happens when it is suppose to.  I thought I loved before till I met my husband, now I know the others were not love.  He is my world, I couldn't picture my life without him, he treats me like the most important person in the world. I hope everyone finds the one of their dreams.
122044
ya know looking for a true love....u cant find it here but can find may friends......who can help u...
832667
I hear people find 'true love' on internet dating sites. A lot of people have bad experiences, too. Match.com has a good reputation. In the UK, there's also:\n\nhttp://www.singlesclub.co.uk/\nhttp://datingdirect.com\nhttp://flirtbox.co.uk
567866
naw, chica. you just haven't found the right guy. and neither have i. well i did. but we didn't go out because he lives in tahoe and i live in sacramento/
441033
I've been in a few before, and found they worked...but i'm not the lovey dovey sort and don't tend to miss people so i think it depends on how each of you are - good luck :)
1039590
As a teenager I met and dated only girls I met in church.  They at least had an inkling of how fundamental Christianity shaped a young persons thoughts.  I dated to have good times away from my parents, to grow in ways they couldn't help me.  There was one girl who I wanted to marry after graduation from school, but my parents sent me to a college a thousand miles away and we lost touch. She died of a drug overdose a few years later, while i was in the service.  I never found another soulmate, but I did find sexual mates.
1170024
I guess if you get too close, sure! Who would have thought that we'd have to worry about that! Isn't looking for love in all the wrong places bad enough!
1151206
i have a story for this...this is nice...read through\n\nIn a brief conversation, a man asked a woman he\nwas pursuing the question "What kind of man are\nyou looking for?"\nShe sat quietly for a moment before looking him in\nthe eye and asking "Do you really want to know?"\n\nReluctantly, he said "Yes." She began to\nexpound..." As a woman in this day and age, I am\nin a position to ask a man what he can do for me\nthat I can't do for myself. I pay my own bills. I\ntake care of my household with out the help of any\nman...or woman for that matter. I am in the\nposition to ask "What can you bring to the table?"\n\nThe man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she\nwas referring to money. She quickly corrected his\nthought and stated "I am not referring to money. I\nneed something more. I need a man who is striving\nfor perfection in every aspect of life." He sat\nback in his chair, folded his arms, and asked her\nto explain.\nShe said, "I am looking for someone who is\nstriving for perfection mentally because I need\nconversation and mental stimulation. I don't need\na simple minded man.\n\nI am looking for someone who is striving for\nperfection spiritually because I don't need to be\nunequally yoked...believers mixed with unbelievers\nis a recipe for disaster.\n\nI need a man who is striving for perfection\nfinancially because I don't need a financial\nburden. I am looking for someone who is sensitive\nenough to understand what I go through as a woman\nbut strong enough to keep me grounded.\n\nI am looking for someone who I can respect. In\norder to be submissive, I must respect him. I\ncannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking\ncare of his business. I have no problem being\nsubmissive...he just has to be worthy. God made\nwoman to be a help mate for man. I can't help a\nman if he can't help himself." When she finished\nher spiel, she looked at him.\n\nHe sat there with a puzzled look on his face. He\nsaid "You are asking a lot."\n\nShe replied "I am worth a lot."
169650
Yes I have, quiet a few times.  But I got cheated on in my last relationship.  It was a slap in the face, I had never been cheated on before.  So my karma came back around and taught me a lesson.  I will never cheat again, I can't imagine causing someone that kind of pain.
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Funny, I'm having problems finding a match..\nOh wait, we might be looking for different things. \nGuess that's why we all have to either, wear a sign that tells everyone what we are about, or we have to sit and talk.\nOr do a bit of both.\nAnd then the hard part is being honest with that other person so that we really find out if we want what the other is offering. \nMany times people spin what they think the other person wants to hear to "win" them, then later those pesky little problems start popping up. And then the women want the men to grow up, and the men want the women to keep giving lap dances. Neither understands why the other changed or won't change from before the dating started.\nOoops did I let  secret slip out?
75363
Sorry to hear that.But you can't base HER on all women.You can't give up on love.It's just like it you tasted a bad beer, would you not try another? Me too, i had bad experience with a guy(hadly man), and i came out feeling quite bitter, but than i found a great guy!Don't close the door, some awesome girl out there is waiting for you!
1153269
Hi, i hope you are having a better day today! Not all women look for money or looks. Most are looking for true love and concern, they want someone who will love, respect and treat them tenderly them for who they are. What touches us most isnt sex, it is true emotions and feelings. \n\nBut i understand how you feel when you get disappointed in love. I spent the last 5+ years loving someone wholeheartedly and now he says he's lost the feelings for me. But i still believe in love and finding it. I am overweight too but i try to keep myself happy and positive and going out to do what i want, so i am in control of my life. Love yourself first... you've probably heard that one before... but there is some truth in it. Take heart! Don't give up! :)
660662
rare, but possible. Women have to be careful about meeting guys any old place!
103756
as far as the perfect guy there is not such a thing. Perfection is something to strive for that one can never attain. as far as where to find them i know where not to find them. if you have had bad relationships in the past and go back to where it started or where you met them and meet someone else and that turns out badly then do you think that maybe that is not the right place to be looking. try the library, religious gatherings if you are religious, places where people of integrity go.