for women only : what is your judgement when your bf try to look at your cleavage everytime they have chance?
81624
Yeah, it can get annoying, just tell him, hey I like that you find me physically attractive, but could you look and listen to me and not my chest? If it works then great, if not then maybe he is not interested in anything else. If that is the case, do you really wanna keep him around?
699427
If you can't tell a woman's bra size just by looking, you are obviously not really into breasts - my bf ALWAYS knows with just a casual glance.\n\nBut yeah, it's  VERY rude to ask that at all, let alone on a first date. I think you should be a gentleman and overlook the fact she was not a lady, but not see her again. Or else ask her how many men she's slept with, as you don't want too many people's leftovers.
1044260
Guys are funny about breast size.  Some guys drool for large breasts while others are like me, and like a good butt. (not that big breasts are bad, they are certainly good too).\n\nInsecurity is a tough thing.  Some people use this to put the other person under their thumb in a relationship.   If you care about your b/f and you are certain he cares about you, all you can do is trust him.  If you truly don't like his attitude and you think he's overstaring at other girls and maybe using the boob job as leverage, maybe you need to set him straight.\n\nDo you look at other guys?  We all look, it's whether or not we touch/talk etc. that damages a relationship.   If you've always wanted a boob job, why do you keep asking him about it, or telling him about it?\n\nGet comfortable with yourself.  Get confident.  Love yourself as you are.    Think of the boobs as an "extra".  They will never really be "you" anyway.     Good luck!
203702
I know I am a woman but I have to agree.  I love dressing sexy.  But every time I let a little leg or a little cleavage show I feel like guys ogle me.  In fact, I went to a party this weekend.  It was a theme party and I dressed really sexy.  There were three guys maybe three feet away from me and I heard them say, "She needs to be the bartender she has such nice tits."  And they proceeded to talk about my boobs.  I said something to them of course but why should I be made to feel this way about my body?  Women are beautiful and it's a shame we can't be more respected for our bodies.  I'm not saying we should be able to go naked everywhere, but I'm with you, I want to be able to wear a short skirt in the summer without some guy trying to see what kind of panties I am wearing.
316468
I like looking at attractive women.\nThe question for women is this-Why do you wear revealing clothes, if not to have other men checking you out?\n\nIf men never looked at you, you would probably complain that you got all dressed up, and nobody was admiring your best assets.
122807
I don't see how you can really expect your bf/gf to not look at other people, isn't that just human nature. Besides, does it really mean anything?
915894
CANI JUST SAY...I AM LARGE CHESTED AND ITS HARD. MOST MEN NEVER LOOK AT MY EYES FIRST THEY ALWAYS LOOK AT THE CHEST. MEN THINK ABOUT SEX EVERY 6 SEC OR SO ...SOO NATURALLY THEY THINK SEXUALLY WHEN THEY SEE YOUR CHEST.
311892
I don't mind. My bf goes onto porn sites, but he doesn't ALL the time and he doesn't let it rule all his time when he's off work. He doesn't get too into it. I actually watch a little my self, sometimes. It just depends on the TYPE of porn he watches, as long as it doesn't get too wild and perverted, and he doesn't watch it all the time...I'm cool with it.
504024
I can only speak for myself on this one, as all dogs, ah, I mean, men are different.\n\nWomen are beautiful, and most of the time, a look is just a recognition of that fact. It doesn't mean you wish to sleep with her. You haven't even given it that much thought. It's just a look. \n\nNow if your guy STARES at her and won't let the look go, well, not cool. \n\nAnd not...\n\nSMART.\n\nDoghouse behavior.\n\nJust a momentary admiration. You might not like this, but it really is no different to a man than seeing a great car, you simply notice.
1091446
I look at guys with their shirts off....i check to see if they have a nice chest....i love a nice chest....mmmmmmm
1172523
why do guys look at girls butts and boobs?
727148
Great question! Most of the time, but there have been some guys that are MASTERS at it... and they pride themselves on this quality. It's pretty amazing that I have been stared at all night sometimes by a coworker and NEVER knew. Others knew, because they would spot it, but he had a way of never letting me see. My boyfriend is really good at this too. He apparently stares at me all the time according to him and others. I don't notice it very often though. Sometimes I catch him. He says he's had years of training sneaking peeks and trying not to appear obvious. I guess will practice you guys can be pretty good at hiding it.\n\nThe one most obvious thing though, is when you are talking to a girl and you look at her breasts. It is SO noticeable! Just the shift in the eyes, it's just SO obvious... don't do it, it is really awkward.
506631
Some girls are just touchy about different parts of there body. If you don't think your attractive with out a bra on i think most likey your boy will. lol I was afraid for a long time to let my boyfriend see my armpits.... i know thats stange but i don't like them (not that theres anything wrong with them) so i figured he wouldn't. Well he really doesn't care. you just need to get over your fear!
877717
Why are women so arrogant as to think if they are dating someone, that she is the only woman he should ever want to see again naked?\n\nC'mon...geez...porn is harmless (unless it becomes an addiction)...guys are more visual than women and they like to look at naked women...why does this trouble you? It doesn't mean he wants to do the chick in the pic...\n\nDo you not EVER admire a nice looking man when you are in a relationship? NEVER??? If you don't, then you are a rare bird...because it's only human to admire others...\n\n...however if we (and you) admire others while we are dating, we should feel bad right? Because our partner should be all we ever think about or look at in an appreciatively admiring way....right? (wrong)\n\nWhy does this trouble you so? Why are you jealous? Perhaps you should look at why it bothers you and fix those things within  yourself...\n\nHOWEVER the fact that he lied about discarding it is an issue...what else has he lied about? I think you two have bigger issues than porn to deal with.
870248
They are comparing. Are mine bigger? Are hers saggy? Why would she be wearing that shirt? Oh look at those ones! Does she even have any boobs under there? And so on.... \n\nI do check out boobs and butts, but for reasons other than comparison... *wink*
866110
This question could be a research topic.  For the answer to what women look at when they look at a man, I will have to defer to Hott_Tamale (face, jaw line, physique).  I think that when most guys look at a guy (assuming the guy is one newly met; not a familiar acquaintance) they look first at the chest, as a threat assessment.  Then they look at the face to read "friend or foe".  Then they do an overall assessment.  But, that's just me thinking about what steps I might go through.  Like I said, it could be a research topic.
1101355
it depends on whether the woman wants that attention or not.If they see someone looking and they crouch down more so their shirt will open up more,then it's probably like that attention.But I mean if it bothers some woman they tent to ask that person to stop looking or wear more conservative clothes.There really isn't much that we can do because it is there and we can't get rid of them.