should i be mad at my sister and her friend for going through my stuff?
81226
Of course!  Especially if it involved going into your room.  Try sitting down and talking with her and her friend...might not work, but you tried.
946342
No. I think what you should do is email them and tell them nicely that they have hurt your feelings. That'll make them feel bad and guilty and they might even apologise to you.
497008
Mind your own business and let your friend handle it.  If she or he needs your help, they'll ask.  Then you have all rights to kick that persons *ss for messing with your friend.
142762
Is it your friend? Keep asking her why she's mad.\n\nIs it just 'some girl'? Forget about her. :/
474568
I always live by the rule " IF I HAVENT USED IT IN THE LAST YEAR- I THROW IT OUT OR DONATE TO CHARITY"  I agree with u- keeping so much from the past is ridiculous!  Just keep a few things that really mean something to u.  Or you could always get her to box them up in water proof totes and have them stored in the atic, garage, or even a storage  facility!  Try to reach a compromise like that .  Tell them how u feel and see if they would be willing to do that.  Otherwise u may be stuck in a house full of crap and will never even be able to find the kids again!  lol
344115
record it with a hidden cam corder. If she abuses you , she is more then likey to abuse others too. in my family this kinda stuff happpened too . it drove a space between me and my older sister, i hated her then and now i have little to no contact to her because she treats other still like that in her thirtys. some people need to feel as if they are in control and have the power. I dont want you to end up the tatel tail but if it was my child i would listen. Abuse is abuse no matter whos hand it comes by.
954355
I understand what you're going through. And I hope that you will find something, someday that will make it all dissappear.\n\nAs harsh as I may sound, I don't think your sisters reaction is normal. She is being overly zealous. May be she should have herself checked out also. \n\nAlso, do you fight a lot. Is this just mere sibiling rivalry. Have you tried winning her affection?. If this is not the case, i suggest talking to your parents about your sister, and she might want to visit a behaviour consultant.
584669
Explain to your daughter why you are doing it.  It's a rough lesson to learn, a life lesson for her and you, but if you are strong in your beliefs then don't back down.  Return the gifts to them, be nice about it, let them know that you monitor the things that come into your house and this isn't acceptable.\n\nIf they are hurt and then continue to give the gifts, that's their hurt, not yours.  The pain your daughter feels now is not your fault either, but theirs, for continuing to give her gifts they know she will not be allowed to keep.  That's just plain rude.
926751
i dont think they should did all that.some children pick up things a little faster and that,they should understand.and as long as u are not doing anything 2 physically harm the child it should not b a problem. i would b happy my child learned something so funny from his uncle.dont stop loving him b cuz of your sister keep being a good uncle!goodluck!
422798
PPl are jealous that u have things? then that is their problem. dont let it bother u.  This is their problem
820857
wow you have a problem.  You are going to lose somebody.  If  you talk to your best freind,  Your sister is in big trouble and I'm sure you will be held responsible.  After all, she's not responsible enough to control her own life, its very likely she'll blame you.  If you say nothing and your Best friend finds out you knew,  you lost the Best friend.  I'd say you have to talk to the Best friend and let her know whats up.  She deserves to know so she doesn't make a decision that she will have to live with.
348832
Relax, you didn't do anything wrong.  Sometimes life simply gets too busy to remember to share everything that goes on.  As long as she isn't mad then don't worry about it.
99767
you should if she is really your friend , but take in consideration would she have your back if that hapened to you , if she is a good freind i would tell her who snitched cause  no real friends likes people hiding things from them.
985130
No, he shouldn't brake up with you over this, but you do need to repair any damage that might have been caused between you and your sister. Sit her down, apologize to her, and ask her if she could give you guys a little more alone time together. I'm assuming she's younger, but she might just be reasonable about this. \nRemember friends will come and go, but she will be your sister forever.
900313
Be happy for your friend. Let her have her own time to shine....like you had your time. I can totally see why you'd be upset, though. It'd make me the same way. The only thing I can tell you to do is to deal with it. You may cause a fight if you show your jealousy. Let her have her time in the spotlight, and soon, her time will fade as well. Good luck!
942873
If you are giving them presents because you love them and want them to have happiness, then yes, you should.\n\nIf you are giving them presents to show your sister what a nice person you are, or to manipulate her with guilt, then no, don't bother.\n\nDepending on how mad she is, the kids might never get your presents, even if you mail them.  Keep that in mind.
792566
YOU ARE RIGHT TO BE MAD. FIND A BOYFRIEND AND A BEST FRIEND THAT YOU CAN TRUST!