why is my wife insane?
84438
She is a woman and it gives her the right to lose her mind...once in a while. Do you think we like being crazy??!! It's not really fun...at least not to me.
26696
You and your wife should see a counsler because something is not right in the marriage.For Real!!!!!
499921
No, dear.  See, what is happening is she is letting you think you are right just to make you feel good.  She is wise, your wife.  It is one of her many clever ways, to once in a while "admit" to being "wrong."  Of course, she is never wrong!
1156407
She sounds crazy; if you keep her around, she is going to continue to try to controll you.  Drop her.
456531
Unfortunately, I don't think you can stop him.  My wife has bi-polar mood disorder and when she is at her worst she will lie beyond belief.  When confronted she sticks to the story and demands proof.  Even when confronted with the facts and proof she either sticks to her story or tries to twist the facts to fit her situation.\n\nAs I said, I know she has a mental condition and I understand sometimes that affects it.  However, I have found out that very fortuantely we can't do much about liers.  Instead, either learn to live with it, work around it, or move on.
645445
Unfortunately the beaten wife syndrome has got a hold on her.  Its very sad to see these women who do this on a regular basis.  But they are the only ones who can change this.  Sure, you could have your buddies whoop on him, but then you are lowering to his level.  Until she realizes that she needs to make a change, this will continue.  Some women never get it and end up dead.  Maybe suggest that she go and see a counselor about it.  Then once they are no longer together, Have 6 of your Buddies kick the shyt out of him.
630689
He is nuts. really. THis is a no brainer, and being with him will make you insane. Find another to love. It is off the wall,s off the vharts, out of reality.
157133
you really are insane.
809951
NOT TO BE HARSH BUT I GREW UP WITH A CRAZY LADY LIKE THAT(MY STEP GRANDMOTHER) SHE DROVE US ALL CRAZY RIGHT ALONG WITH HER DON'T LET THAT HAPPEN TO YOU.IF SHE IS ACTING THIS CRAZY I DON'T UNDERSTAND WHY SHE IS NOT LOCKED UP . WHEN MY STEP GRANDMOTHER WOULD GO NUTS THEY WOULD DO AN EMERGENCY LOCK UP AND SHE HAD TO GO AGAINST HER WILL. I WOULD CONTACT THE POLICE DEPARTMENT OR A MENTAL HEALTH CLINIC OR LAWYER  AND SEE WHAT NEEDS TO BE DONE TO HAVE HER COMMENTED FOR YOURS AND HER OWN SAFETY.WHEN THEY DO AN EMERGENCY LOCK UP IT IS NOT HER CHOICE TO GO BUT THE JUDGES COURT ORDERS OR THEY DO IT BY PSYCHIATRIST WORD AND SHE HAS TO GO.PLEASE LOOK IN TO IT BECAUSE I DON'T KNOW HOW IT WORKS IN YOUR STATE.IF YOU DECIDE TO LEAVE HER WAIT UNTIL SHE IS LOCKED UP OR BETTER SO SHE WON'T HURT OR KILL HER SELF!JUST REMEMBER SHE IS SICK AND CAN NOT HELP WHAT SHE IS DOING SO THINK IT OVER LONG AND HARD BEFORE YOU LEAVE HER SHE NEEDS LOVE AND SUPPORT TO GET BETTER! IF THEY LOCK HER UP PLEASE GO AND SEE HER! YOU GUYS ARE IN MY PRAYERS AND GOOD LUCK!
1170233
I ignore her.  My hubby wants to go to church with her, sometimes I go, sometimes I don't.  If she flips me any shit, I let her know in my own way not to even go there, so she doesn't anymore.  I have a tendancy to get really evil and wicked with my words without raising my voice or cussing when I am provoked.  That and I think about the fact that she won't be around forever.  Talk to her and your husband and hopefully it will get better.  Hang in there...  She really won't be around forever, ya know.
530403
It's Postpartum Depression.. The best thing to do is for her to take medication. HOWEVER, some women would think that people think they are crazy when they are asked to take medication.. So just do not push her too much and give her time and space. \nIt's all part of being a woman. :)
722854
My wife does not seem to think so.
799799
Why would i argue with someone who is completely insane and contradictory?
216832
Get the counselling. It sounds like she's struggling with deeper issues or she wouldn't be sleeping in the same bed as you. I think she still loves you. Make sure you support her through this or you may run the risk of losing her. Listen alot and don't ever tell her that what she is thinking is stupid.
279114
The fact that you see your fault in your current marital problems indicates that you are NOT crazy.\nI do think, however, that you should maybe see someone about your jealousy issues PRONTO.\nIn what I've seen here, it doesn't sound like you don't trust her, just that you're making your own self crazy, and making her a little crazy too.\nYou need to fix what you can, and fix it fast.  \nWhat you CAN fix:  You, anything that has to do with YOU, what it is that YOU do, what YOU think, what YOU feel, etc.\nWhat you can NOT fix:  What someone else does, what someone else thinks, what someone else wants, what someone else feels, etc. (someone else = your wife)\nIf you're smart, you will get off it & keep your mouth shut, before you do have a hand in driving her into someone else's arms, be it this guy or anyone else.  FYI, you stated yourself that their relationship is more professional, and again I say...you've not indicated in the slightest that you do not trust your wife.\nGet your head on right, and stop pressing the issue before it's too late.\nAnd to answer your initial question:  They're only friends.
230421
Do some reading on pregnancy!! HORMONES are rotten and maybe you could go with her to the doctor and discuss the mood swings.  It's really important for you to be there for her.  \n\nI realize you are going through a nasty divorce, but in a sense you created this 'mess' by not finishing up the marriage and 'starting a new family' with someone else.  Now is the time to buck up and take it.......she needs your support and she is carrying your child!!  \n\nGo to the doctor with her and ask about the hormone issue - have the doc reassure the GF that it's hormones.. if it's exacerbated and uncontrolled see if the doc can do anything. The next thing you can do is read up on pregnancy .. books online whatever.. to help you cope.  She needs reassurance and support and it's only for a few more months.  :)  Good luck and Grats on the baby and the divorce :D
916942
Sounds like your wife is getting the attention from Mr. X that she wasn't getting from you.  \nUnfortuntely, when there's difficulty in a marriage, and then all of a sudden there's a new baby, life goes into overload.  However, caring for an infant makes a woman feel almost invisible because her life, especially in the first few months, is only about (breast)feeding, diaper changes, and putting the baby to sleep.  With the lack of sleep and the limited amount of personally time, women need EXTRA pampering and attention to keep from disappearing.  Sounds like she was just going thru the motions of a routine boring life, and the old flame has brought some excitement and a spark back into her life.  She's feeling alive at the moment, probably something she hasn't felt in a very long time.  Hard to say what you can do at this point, especially if she is adamant on going to see him.  Don't blame her if she does.  Maybe she just needs to get it out of her system.  Who knows.  Maybe you can reflect on what your position was in all of this, and if you weren't as attentive and loving as you should've been, try giving her what she needs now before it's too late.  Pampering and attention... that's what she needs.  Go sweep your wife off her feet!