What is the main quality you look for when meeting someone you might be attracted to?
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Intelligence.  Hands down.  If they cannot carry on an intelligent conversation, then I know for a fact that I could never have a relationship with them that wasn't superficial and shallow.  If they have read a book in the last month and have an opinion about it, they are head and shoulders above almost anyone else in the running.
1049607
Respect, trust and honesty are the MAIN qualities, but intelligent, funny,handsome,wise,loving,caring, sharing, good listener etc. are ALL good qualities. Yet, every person is different; and some characteristics may stand out more than others in most people. Therefore, YOU have to know what U want in UR mate; as well as what turns u on and arouses u. What makes ur heart go pitter patter when u see ur guy, when u think of him, or what makes u go crazy just to hear his voice or his name. U have to know what u want in order to find it. Overall though, make SURE u have communication; in fact that's the #1 key to anything successful.
1140336
Friendliness and kindness.  The person I am attracted to is nice to everyone.  He is always willing to go out of his way for people.  Plus...and this isn't perverted...he is pretty hot!
270014
What I look for is, ............ a man that is honest, loving, fun,respectful,faithful,has good morals and values, ambitious, caring,has a good sense of humor,is self confident and has respect for themselves. =-)
575648
Well a first physical attraction would be about looks. You wouldnt walk past a guy / girl and say to your self "yeah baby, I bet he has a good personality."
740666
well I have asked this question to my husband when we first met and he said that it is a combination of looks and personality if the  man is looking for a serious relationship. If they are looking for somethhing else then its looks.
1168211
Make yourself as attractive as possible, then define the type of man that you're looking for (don't settle for less), then find that group of single men (personals, on-line etc) and sort through them until you find what you're looking for and hopefully the one you choose was also looking for you as his ideal woman.
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dear, as far as i am concern i like humorous , kindhearted , loving n charming personality. there is always room for beauty as we are man , but if you ask for just friendship , the inner beauty of a person count most
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I look most for creativity and open-mindedness. A unique person who isn't afraid to do things a little differently than the common stereotypical. Secondly I look for health in both mind and body. If I am going to be with someone, I want her to have stable and controllable emotional health and concordantly a flourishing body. This is the pure truth and if the standards are too high for some, then so be it.
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Everyone looks for something different. It depends on the personality. If you've got someone in mind, ask her. If you don't have that special someone yet, don't try to be something you're not. Just be yourself and when you meet the person who you want to spend the rest of your life with, you'll probably have all the qualities they're looking for in forever. If not, just keep looking, you'll find her.
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umm...as a girl i can tell you that we look for...a connection with someone...someone we think that understand us and that we can understand...as far as looks, personality, wit, humor, confidence, we all have different views...one might think he is confident, yet another might think he is arrogant...my point...be urself...this gonna sound gay...but SHINE
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The main thing I look for in a guy is a good sense of humour. He has to make me laugh. I really don't care about looks. I like a guy who can laugh at himself and make me laugh.
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This kind of question comes up often enough, I feel like I should just save my answer so I can paste it right in!  :D\n\nFirst thing I look for is a happy personality!  Seriously!  No matter how striking a woman is; if she looks like the whole world is a burden on her, why would I want a wet blanket like that dragging me down!\n\nYeah, looks are important, but not nearly as important to me as Hollywood/the magazines/etc. make it out to be.  An average/too skinny/flat-chested/what-have-you girl who is fun to hang around with will get my attention any day.  That's not just a bunch of words, either:  I've been attracted to all kinds of women (except very large ones.  What can I say, I'm still human!)\n\nGood conversation is a must:  you need to listen to what guys say, not just wait for your turn to make a speech.  If I just want something pretty to look at, I can hang out anywhere & browse the eye candy without wasting any time/money/effort of my own.
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Hi AJ,\n\nThe most important things in any long term relationship are honesty, kindness, a good sense of humor and a willingness to be there during the good times as well as the bad.  That said, the first thing that attracts me to a guy is his smile and the way he carries himself, with confidence but not too cocky or over the top.  A guy who is clean, dressed appropriately and who has a pleasant demeanor and makes the first move conversationally will get my attention and that of most ladies out there.\n\nBTW: Any woman who would value a man for his wallet alone is in the same league as a man who values a woman solely for her looks, both types are players and ultimately bad news.\n\nGood luck and best wishes from bookyone :)
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Well, everything is based on an individual person.  Some people are more into looks...some personality. I am personally attracted to a person who is mentally attractive. Intelligence, wit. Not just book smarts but can conversate, debate, flirt, or just partake in witty banter for awhile lol. Common interests are a must. A good sense of humor. Basically the same things anyone is looking for..what would YOU look for in a woman...that's prolly very similar to what another woman would be looking for in you. By being you, you will attract other girls like you.
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this depends on the type of guy you want to attract.  I you just be yourself then you will naturally attract the one that is right for you.
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Obviously, the first thing you notice about someone is their appearance. There are still a few of us guys that look beyond that though. I have dated some very good looking gals that I lost interest in due to lack of conversation. I have dated several ordinary/plain looking gals and had far better relationships with them. To some of us, what's inside means more than what's outside, but noone wants someone they aren't physically attracted to.