when u have ur tongue pierced why do people assume ur a lesbian????
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thats odd actually, i have my tongue pierced, and no guys assume i am gay, instead they ask me if i would like to try it out on them. this piercings is obviously percieved to be associated with sexual favors.
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There are many reasons why a man or woman gets pierced/tattooed. This seems to be a sexist question.  Why question why do WOMEN get tattoos and piercings?\n\nSome PEOPLE choose it as a means of adornment.  This ranges in desire/values from purely decorative to shocking in nature.  It is a choice.  The range of acceptance differs, so will the range of what those who want to "shock" will "wear" as well.\n\nTattooing and piercing have gone quite mainstream so a brow or tongue piercing twenty years ago would illicit more 'shock value' than it does today.  People have resorted to implants and other extreme means of body modification for that now.\n\nWe get many women in the shop who are getting tattoos as GIFTS for their husbands - I am talking 25th wedding anniversary presents, so this is not just for the youth of our society.\n\nMany tattoos are thought out well in advance and have a very special spiritual meaning.  Let's face it, if everyone liked tweed jackets and hush puppies, look how boring it would be!\n\nHair color has gone extreme, even with men.  It is so much fun now, even in conservative environments, people are loosening up and becoming more tolerant.
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I don't think it is anything about being lesbian. They seem to be cracking down on the rules with everyone. I know a lot of people who were suspended. But no, you won't be suspended because of your name. No one would even know what it stood for if you hadn't said.
716446
OK, you say you aren't a lesbian....you aren't asking a question primarily to gay men, right?\n\nThen why on earth did you post it TWICE in this section?
76642
No, I don't. While kissing someone with a tongue stud is not markedly unpleasant, oral isn't impressive enough to justify the utter obnoxiousness of the constant click-clacking of it against my partner's teeth every time they talk.\n\nPeople with mouth-based piercings (tongue, labret, etc.) are always playing with them. It drives me insane. I've had two partners who got mouth-based piercings while we were together (despite my wishes to the contrary) and in both cases I liked them better before.
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couldnt help but see your name sweetie 16 theres no way I would let my 16 yr old daughter get her tongue pierced or any thing else pierced in less it was her ears. Or any age for that matter. Also when your in school you could get a bad rep people think things that are not always true . Besides that it is really  really painful. and could be something you regret. But with all that said it is your choice and the best thing I can say is suck up for about 2 weeks one isnt enough she will see right through it and wait tell shes in a good mood and have a talk with her as to why you want it. Hope this helps.
592920
Maybe you are bi-sexual?  Lesbians generally have no interest in men.  If you have feelings for both sexes, you are most likely bi.
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Well some parents are "old fashioned" and being a lesbian is probably hard for them to understand. Most people think that it is a choice but truth be told you are born with it....does that make you a bad person? No of course not...but to them "it is not normal...get over it and change.." so this is their way of doing that....soon enough they will realize they can't change you...no matter wat they do...you are who you are.....so let them know that..and keep on doing it...i mean at the end of the day they are going to have to accept it whether they like it or not..
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Try to find out why. If you are attractive, that's a good thing. If your hair is green and your tongue is pierced, it's a bad thing
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Some think they're actually girls trapped in boys bodies.. others just like to be more feminine I guess nobody really knows why, its just the same with lesbians, "Butch" As I am one, It's just how we feel more comfortable and how we should feel.
50694
It's assumed because most married folks, or folks with kids are straight.  There are some who aren't.  So if someone incorrectly assumes your sexuality, politely correct them & move on with your life.  It is no big deal what you are.
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Well were ya lookin for some tongue or were you being tongued?\n\nIs this a normal tongue colored tongue or is it one of them after they drank some cherry koolaid types of colors?\n\nHmmm  beauty is in the eye of the beholder and I suppose the color of the tongue is the color of the wearers wants.\n\nPerhaps they didn't have any other colors and that tongue color is actually a hair lip?\n\n.............think about it............\n\nBTW I have all sorts of colors of lipsticks and wear them according to my whims and wardrobe colors.  Tongue isn't a color thats in this winter I think?  LOL
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It depends on who's doing it.\n\nIf it's a lesbian I do, because I know they're mocking me.  I know I'm a lesbian trapped in a man's body, and they're mocking my disability when they stick out that tongue.\n\nIf it's my ex-wife I don't because I know she's one of God's "special" children and can't control things like her tongue movements and other things you can do with your mouth.\n\nIf it's a child, I don't because it was usually me that did it first.  I mean I want to give them the finger or hit them with a blender or something, but children are the future, and I don't want them brain damaged when they're working to pay the taxes to cover my Medicare.\n\nEverybody else, I don't care either way.  I've tried to invent a freeze ray that would allow me to drop my pants, and back up so that my....  Never mind, family friendly, family friendly.
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it's worst to be many others (i.e, heartbreaker, liar, etc)\nbeing lesbian is being with another girl, loving her, committing to her, just like another healthy relationship.\njust be who you are, as long as you promote love, not sex or hatred!
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If you want to know if someone else is a lesbian, ask her.\n\nIf you want to know if you are a lesbian then answer this quick checklist:\n\nDo you want to f*ck women?\nDo you have sexual feelings about women?\nDo you ever touch yourself thinking of women?\n\nIf you answered yes to one or more of these questions then you are a lesbian or bisexual woman.  If you answered no, then you are straight.  Next ask yourself:\n\nDo you want to f*ck men?\nDo you have sexual feelings about men?\nDo you ever touch yourself thinking of men?\n\nIf you answered Yes to one or more of these questions, then you are bisexual.  If you answered no to all of the above then you are a lesbian.
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Have you ever tried something to find out if you like it or not? Having sex with a man, then having sex with a woman and confirming you are completely lesbian, does not make you any less of a lesbian.
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I think it disturbs people to see someone harm themselves (cutting).  It is a sign of mental illness.  Even then though, people should not be mean about it.\n\nAs far as the gay, lesbian and bi... that is very different.  I agree with you this is a lifestyle choice and not a mental illness or a sign of something wrong.