Ex and Current-Torn in two?
93053
Follow your heart and it will lead you the right direction.
1052964
You were with your ex for so long that now you feel like no one else can compare. You are so young, now is the time for you to find yourself. To find out what you really want out of life, and a guy. No way you can no that if you have no experiences to base your decision on. I say you move on and focus on you for a while. If its meant to be with you and your ex... you'll get back together again.
324938
Girl I hear ya! I am in the same boat, my ex did me very wrong, but yet I still find myself drawn to him like he is some kinda evil magnet. But you know what I do to keep myself from not getting too attached again..remember how bad he made me hurt amnd then I listen to one of the many song I listened to when we broke up and then I realize he's not good enough for me, either is ur ex!
274344
It is pretty obvious that you did not have everything resolved when you divorced the ex.  I think the only thing you can do at this point is to discuss your feelings with your current husband.  There is a reason why you are with him and this is something that if left unchecked may cause a problem in your current marriage.  Next, maybe you need to seek counseling with your current husband in regards to your feelings about your ex.  I am quite sure there are people out there that still have feelings for their ex's, but they realized they are divorced for a reason.  I guess what I am saying is you need to do some soul searching and try to limit any problems before things get out of hand.  Be honest with yourself and seek whatever help you need to preserve your marriage (current) because that is who you chose to spend the rest of your life with.\n\nGood Luck with what ever you decide and I'll pray for you!!!\n\nWT
1050061
a soon -to -be  ex relationship
1060458
They are an ex for a reason, move on.   \n\nTake care of yourself first, you dont' have to DATE NOW.
429758
Your ex is an ex for a reason...& I'm sure you remember those reasons, don't you?..So why would you look back!!...Give you new friend a chance at least, if not, move on...There's always bigger & better fish out in the sea..
841353
If she can't let go of the things in the past because yall have a history together, then maybe it's time to find someone new, whom you have no history with and they cannot yell at you for your past faults. Maybe you won't mess the new relationship up!
225773
Just think about this, He's an ex for a reason~!! If your love for him overpowers that reason then go back with him.
73673
Why do people stick with the past? I don't get it. Maybe humans are creatures of habit and resist change, but in your case, I think you should erase, format and delete your ex- from your brain. History should not repeat itself, especially since you broke up once with that person. I know, it's tempting, it's easy...but you won't be happy knowing that there are other guys lining up for you.
1027491
Take some time for you. Your ex is your ex for a reason! If the new guys really wants to help than he'll understand that you need to be your own person for awhile. That wall is up because Mr. Right hasn't found a way in.
31921
Honeesstlly? Bad bad bad idea, coz one time or the other you'll keep getting to see your ex, and thats not too good unless you have something else on your mind ;)
418889
Sometimes, its hard to get over an ex.  It sounds to me like you jumped into a relationship with your new boyfriend quickly after the breakup of you and your ex.  Thats not really a good thing, as you need time to come to terms with your feelings and to get over your ex.  \n\nI think you need to consider your feelings for your current boyfriend.  Do you really like him?  Do you really want to be with him?  If so, you are going to have to let your ex go.  There's only so many times he can be called another guys name without freaking out!  If you find you still have overwhelming feelings for your ex, maybe you need to put this relationship on hold while you sort your feelings out.  You can't be with someone and still hold a torch for someone else.  Its not fair to them and its not fair to you.
223342
NO, ONCE AN EX ALWAYS AN EX! TAKE IT FROM EXPERIENCE TRIED THIS TO MANY TIMES IN THE PAST. IT NEVER WORKS OUT. HOPE THIS HELPS!!!
526328
doesnt coutn as cheating..but you obviously still have feelings for your ex though..so you have to decide which one?
579003
Your ex is your ex for a reason. Remember that. It sounds like you have a good relationship with this other guy, I think you need to let your ex go and forget about anything that might take you back to him. You are not being fair to either guy by running to the other when you have problems. Instead, get on yahoo answers to help solve your problems...lol! just kidding. But seriously, you need to move on with this new guy. You might feel things for your ex and that is natural because you have a past together...but it's just that, a past. Time to look to the future and move on. Good luck!
254168
Assess your emotions first, who do you love more? Who treats you better? Do you really think your ex still loves you or does he just want someone to help him with his baby? \n\nAnd before you do anything with your ex, talk with your current boyfriend.\n\nDon't just follow your heart, use your head as well.