Have you ever gotten in contact with an exfrom your past? If so how did it go?
84697
i'm experiencing that as we speak and it's not good. it seems as if whenever he is down and or going thru something i am always there to help him out of it and when he is over it, it's so long and see ya until the next episode. needless to say one of my new year's resolution is not to be there for him anymore if he's not seriously into me:)
375864
Have you checked to see if your ex has a yahoo id? you can check it out on people search. I'm sure you can find quite a bit of info.
1145890
Did I ever....had a friend that I wanted as more than a friend.  My friend moved out of state,  and we kept in touch my telephone for about two years.  Through a couple more moves on his part and some on mine,  we lost touch, for three yrs.  I connected with a  friend of his and found out he'd be in town,  so we made plans to see one another,  only to have a blizzard cancel plans,  he flew out of town the next morning.  When he got home,  he told me on the phone that he'd been in love with me for the last five years or more.  Time goes by,  we lose connection again,  but for FIVE years this time.  We've now been reconnected by phone and internet for about four or five years.  He begs me to move accross the country with him (even with my five kids, lol, he must have it bad, huh??lol).  I told him he should've said something while he lived here,  but he thinks I should've been the one to say it.  Just one of those things that makes ya wonder????What if????  The bad thing about missing the chance,  is that I know we would've been perfect for eachother.  The good thing is that I am in a happy marriage with five wonderful children.  Regretfully,  there's just no way to ever know,  leaving me with more "wonder" than I really care to have sometimes.
201006
To me if the break-up was that bad, you wouldn't even be this close to getting the option of getting back together. Anything is possible and in almost 2 years people change a lot. What's so wrong with getting to know who you are now? Don't think of it as getting back together. If you didn't have a past with him, would you still want to get to know this guy right now?
434139
how do you know my ex?  :)
506481
Damn, that sounds like me.  Gonna be tough starting up any type of relationship w/ anyone after breaking up w/ someone that you were w/ for the past 3 yrs.  I dunno how I would let down my guard.  Just be truthful and true.  Don't be fake, be sincere. I really don't know...
268057
well, can you get in touch? If not i would suggest taking a night to remember them and then just let go.
229535
Yes, I had a crappy boyfriend in the past who beat me often. I'd try to leave, but he'd find me again. Why it happened....cuz he was a jerk and couldn't control his temper I guess.\nHe finally got his payback--my bestfriend at the time beat him down, and he packed up and moved. Never heard from him again! Yippee!!! ;0)
95476
i have never .. \nand my ex husband wasnt anything like you just described !!\npoor fella . i hope you find a good one next time
560966
Yes I have,my ex love them
646564
so it sounds like you have their email address... so just send them an email.  if it's been a long time since last contact, just say something like "Hi this is {name} not sure if you remember me, but {insert something you two did together}
854149
THAT'S A TOUGHY.\n\nIN SOME CASES, THEY DO, BUT IN MOST CASES THEY DON'T.\n\nPROCEED WITH CAUTION.  GET TO KNOW HIM AGAIN BEFORE YOU MAKE ANY DECISIONS ABOUT GETTING BACK WITH HIM.\n\nIF THE SITUATION WAS AN ABUSIVE ONE IN THE PAST, THEN I WOULD SAY TO AVOID THAT AT ALL COSTS, BECAUSE RARELY PEOPLE LIKE THAT WILL EVER CHANGE.\n\nGOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS!
31921
Honeesstlly? Bad bad bad idea, coz one time or the other you'll keep getting to see your ex, and thats not too good unless you have something else on your mind ;)
1167883
I met a lady on line and finally met her. She was about 10 years older than me and we both knew we didn't want to get serious, just have fun. We had a great secret and private relationship for about 4 years before she started to have physical problems.\n\nThose are 4 years, though that I will never forget. Unlike women my age, this lady really appreciated me and made me feel good. I went out of my way to appreciate her too. Sometimes I wish I could find somebody to take her place, but at least I can dream about her.\n\nTX Guy
120881
yes alott of people have actually. my step mother met my father on a dating website and they have been together for over seven years now.
801643
I do... I'll tell you about two experiences. One happened to my sister and one to me.\n\nThe first was my sister... She was going through a difficult time in her marraige, and was spending quite a bit of time at a local bar. One night she was just sitting by herself, and a young couple came up and started talking to her. The woman didn't give her name, but the man's name was John. They were very nice and they talked with her for a long time. A couple months later, my sister went to my parents' house. My parents collect old pictures of relatives and display these in their home. They had just received a new picture of my great-grandfather when he was a young man. When my sister saw the picture she was shocked. It was the young man from the bar! She had never met our great-grandfather and the only pictures she ever saw were from when he was very old, so she could not possibly have made this up. She believes that he and the woman (who my sister thinks is our great-grandmother) were sent to help her.  And yes, his name is John. \n\nThe second story is mine. I was staying at my sister's new house, which I had never been to. We were up late at night and she asked me if I wanted to see the basement. I immediately said NO! She asked why and I responded, "There are dead people there." She finally encouraged me to go downstairs and show her where I thought the dead people were. I walked to a wall and pointed... Without thinking, I said, "They are in there." At the time, I thought I was wrong because this was a solid brick wall, and I didn't understand how anybody could be "in" it. But I kept getting the sense that there were people in there. My sister told me that that wall had been put up after the house was built, and it sealed a small room. She said that the legend says that there WERE people buried in there. I didn't know any of this before, and I had never been to the house. So, something led me to that secret room!\n\nThose are my stories. I'm interested to read the other ones you get.
233225
maybe b/c of something that happened between you two in the past and/or b/c they are not a real friend