Should I tell him again that I love him?
93919
Yes, dump that loser and go for the hero?
252182
if u also love him why not then...start the relationship...if not then tell him frankly...
788376
Did you tell him about your feelings for him?if not,then tell him.Who knows he might just ashame to tell you that he loves you too.
438176
if you really love him, just say it, it might be hard to start but when you say the first word, you won`t be able to stop, besides it feels good, and he will feel good as well. good luck!! make sure you say it not over the phone;)
626454
Well I would normaly tell you that  if you love him, try and work it out, but you should under no surrcumstances, know matter how much you love someone, let someone treat you like shi*, you are worth so much more than that..... but if you love him let him go, and if it was ment to be him will come back    good luck and god bless
1152456
well, whats have been done is done...so,if u still in love with him, wait for the right moment and explain again to him what really happen!i think he's gonna understand it!!
739806
Say that you love him
110448
you should go for it. Otherwise you may always regret not doing it. Sure, you may have changed, but if you explain to him it was an impulse that you had to follow or live with that regret, you'd be happy no matter what the outcome, because you had achieved your goal in at least seeing him again.
1005638
dont hold back now.\nin all things, hiding your true feelings never really gets you anywhere that you wanna go. you know? cause if where you're going is based upon your true feelings, then you shouldn't wanna go there...nevermind. :-D\nanyways, yes, you should tell him you love him, because nothing is going to change that. and you could wait a million years...but what good is that gonna get you??? tell him- guys are more mellow than you first think. if he doesn't feel the same way, i'm almost positive he'll take it all in stride, if he does the feel the same way-then well, you've got a match!\ngo ahead, don't hold back. they're your true feelings, what harm are they gonna do???
377517
you shouldn't have told him that you love him if you aren't. You know what kind of damage you could do to a persons emaotion playing him like that. You have to sit him down and let him know that you care deeply but you don't know if it's love yet. He should understand if you say he love's you. Never tell some one that you love them and you don't that's just mean.
1018192
yeah the first answer is correct. let time heal and if yuo still love each other i guess it's worth a try once more.\nbe honest and tell him you still love him and dont want to let go.\nwhatever his answers is. respect it. atleast you did your best and you tried lowering your pride. you wont lose anything for doing that. a more respect  for your self.
294116
Unless you can feel what he feels you'll never truly know.  If you love him as much as you say then you should trust him to tell the truth when he says he loves you.  \n\nAsk him to describe what he feels for you.
13146
It's a timing thing.  But don't do it too soon.. telling someone that you love them lets say 2 weeks into a relationship then that might scare the crud out of them.  If you have been together with someone for lets say 6 months to a year and everything is fine and dandy then go ahead and say it.  \n\nA good icebreaker for these kind of things is to say this\n"I know that we have not been together for very long BUT, I just wanted to let you know that I love you.  I don't expect you to say anything till you are ready but I just felt that you should know what my feelings are."  \n\nThis worked just fine with me and my BF and we have been together for 10 years. \n\nGood Luck!
1037077
Saying I love you isnt as powerful as showing it. If he is still treating you the same then you have nothing to worry about. One of the important things in a relationship is trust, if you dont have that then the relationship is doomed to end. Either you trust him and stay with him, or you dont and you move on.
1037427
I think if you truly feel that you love this guy, you would wait until he gives you a sign that he feels the same way.  If he is not in the same page as you are, then telling him how you feel about him might scare him away.  Or worse, he might not feel the same about you, yet.  Be patient, you will feel it when it's right.  \nBest wishes,
1137383
Alexandra, i think when you like somebody...or love somebody you should not wait...just you should go and tell him...god knows within a year if he finds his best match then what will you do?  so just go and tell him that how much you love and wanna spend life with him....best luck!!!
1026283
Look, unless you plan on doing it again, there's no reason to tell him.  You would be filling his head with doubts that he just doesn't need.  Typically the only reason you would tell him is to make yourself feel better, and that's not necessary.  Honesty IS the best policy, but only if you plan on continuing this extra-curricular activity.  \n\nOn the other hand, if you feel you MUST tell him, be completely honest.  And who knows, like many of the guys that have posted already, he MAY want to start looking outside the relationship WITH you for other playmates.\n\nGood luck.