Why everyone feel just fine if  women wear jeans but seem scary if see men wear a skirt ?.?
95576
Women are more visually appealing in skirts than men.
839806
It's ok to wear whatever you want.  Don't worry about what people think.  Be your own person.
685608
OW!!LUCKY U!!they're the BEST!!\n  well..u can wear sth comfortable and not very warm cause you probably gonna be between many people!!a pair o jeans or a skirt with a nice top would be perfect!oh!and try to look a little rock too!
724037
If you worry about the way you look sexy to others, you never will. Walk with you're head in the air, smile a lot, be confident and do whatever you want that makes you happy. Then you're sexy and no one will ever say you're not. self-confidence is far sexier then short skirts and halter tops
536720
You have to feel comfortable with what you are wearing for a start if you are not comfortable in how you look that is going to show, in you behaviour. I think if you are going to a casual bar jeans and sneakers are fine, mayby you can dress them up a bit with a low heel or a boot. \n\nI know my husband likes me natural, for most places I go just to be smart casual little or no make up (he prefers none) But if you are going to a smarter bar, do dress up a bit more.\n\nhave fun!
197021
Theres nothing to be scared about. Its sounds frightening and even disgusting, but its a natural thing that we women all have to endure! What it feels like? Ummm...not so easy to explain, as its different for different women. I won't lie and say thats its a great thing, but its more of an annoyance than anything else. Good luck! Just remember, its a good thing to have aperiod...in its most basic sense, it means that you can have children, which is a wonderful thing.....also, it means that you are normal!
625858
Because men are feminized now.  it is really difficult to meat a true man these days.  i cannot stand that style at all. i especially cannot stand it when boys wear girl jeans with glittery belts....
648475
A lot of crossdressers are completely straight, and they just like how the clothes feel on their body.  Men's clothes are not as soft or silky as women's.  Then there are the men who are confused about their gender.
665985
Some think they're actually girls trapped in boys bodies.. others just like to be more feminine I guess nobody really knows why, its just the same with lesbians, "Butch" As I am one, It's just how we feel more comfortable and how we should feel.
706730
i agree w/ shadow... dress like a girl (not a slut) but if thats not your style and you dont feel comfortable in those kinda clothes then dont wear them until you do b/c it'll show thru... just be prepared to be waiting and waiting for guys to notice you b/c of all those guys clothes covering you up... you might need to step out of your comfort zone to get what you want
203702
I know I am a woman but I have to agree.  I love dressing sexy.  But every time I let a little leg or a little cleavage show I feel like guys ogle me.  In fact, I went to a party this weekend.  It was a theme party and I dressed really sexy.  There were three guys maybe three feet away from me and I heard them say, "She needs to be the bartender she has such nice tits."  And they proceeded to talk about my boobs.  I said something to them of course but why should I be made to feel this way about my body?  Women are beautiful and it's a shame we can't be more respected for our bodies.  I'm not saying we should be able to go naked everywhere, but I'm with you, I want to be able to wear a short skirt in the summer without some guy trying to see what kind of panties I am wearing.
220735
Clothing is like the cover to a book. It shows the personality of you. It also tell how you live, what you like. I like wearing jean skirts. They are relaxing but feminine. I like also wearing low cleavage shirt. I like to feel sexy and like people to see the sexy in me. Some people dress "bummy" because they don't care how people see them.
45289
You should dress how you feel! Sometimes when I'm extra happy I dress in many colors. Sometimes when I'm down I dress casual! And the first person who answered your question is right! A guy will notice you no matter what you're wearing! Good Luck!
394803
You know what I say FUCK THEM! If they tell you that your skirt dont look good on you, look at them and then remind your self that you sexy and say thank you. Females (even more at the work place) will always have something to say because they think less of themselves. Dont let anyone make you feel less of your self because of their comment.
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i used to be so scared that people would find my clothes i hid them in al sorts of places \nwhen i used to x-dress at home i would be so nervous som one would come to the door \nevery car that slowed out on the street was some thing to worry about \ni started to disown some of my friends as they would come around at any time \ni never really ever got turned on wearing them \nbut that is some thing that differs me from the nomal x-dresser \nthese days no one i now really cares but those that don't know and see for the first time look and question who/what  i am \ni believe it is all just clothes how can it really hurt some one it can not unless the wearer is copping sh!t for it (that hurts as they are only being them sleves)\nas for california i would not have a clue i live in australia and would not even know where to start\ngood luck finding a place you can be you
541038
I think that it is a shame that girls feel the need to gain approval of men through dressing like tramps.  Unfortunately, too many times these same young women end up being treating just as they appear~like tramps.  It is incredible that you are secure enough to know this and know that you are a beautiful woman! I appauld you for your confidence~  \nMen are visual creatures and with the younger boys/men having so much "available" to them ~ they expect it yet think less of women who do it.  Who knows?  I guess young girls think that looking like a porn star is appealing?  I don't why.  I get sick every time I see girls on television like that Girls Gone Wild thing.  I feel so bad for them and their parents.  You know that they will eventually regret it.\nBravo to you~
1154089
You shouldn't feel guilty, that's the normal response by all guys.   I also like to see girls dressed beautiful with gud shape.   If I say, I like to something ugly, do u think u will believe me?  It is normal as what it is.  If u not doing something to harm anyone, or urself, then ur fine & pretty ok!