I'm very shy,how do I meet women?
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For the shy male, start with the internet. This type of forum lends itself greatly to those who lack social skill. True personality decides how the relationship works. The level of safety depends on what you are willing to reveal about yourself. If someone is interested in you, you may have major keyboard time ahead of you. \n\nRelax and be yourself. People can sense when you have bad intentions or if you're not being genuine. Start off with friendly conversation. Don't force your way into someone's personal life. If they want to talk about it with you, they will.\n\nThink about what you have to offer in a relationship. People who can make people feel good about themselves have a better chance of maintaining a relationship.
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I'm very shy always have been.\n\nFunny thing is people think I'm outgoing, yet I often struggle as a quiet 3rd wheel in many interactions.\n\nHe should take a public speaking course.  (Check the Internet for a Toastmasters Chapter).  Although I've never been a part of that group, I understand it to be an excellent way to build even a little self-confidence, and to meet a few people.\n\nIn social situations, he can begin with a firm handshake.  A common interest item should be used for an ice breaker.  \n\nAt work, or school, he should enter the NCAA bracket contests.  Even if he is not a fan, it is an opportunity to talk about SOMETHING with people.  Events like that break social and sexual lines.\n\nHe needs to start small.  Build confidence, thick skin (not a thick head, though), and maintain a sense of humor.\n\nGood luck
937219
Well, you need to get past this 'shyness' 'cause otherwise, you'll be stuck alone...for...quite some time. Unless some girl decides to talk to you first...but usually girls depend on guys to make the first move. Just take up the courage and (if you have someone in mind) go up and talk to her. CASUAL CONVERSATION, not some stupid pick up line...like...if you were a cardoor i'd bang you all night....of course, that's exaggerated. Don't annoy her though...cause that would be bad. Just have some casual conversation and see if she talks back to you and see how it goes. Also, with some girls, you can tell that they like you when they laugh at your stupid (really really really stupid) jokes and no one else is laughing. ALso, if they seek you out in a group, that could mean something.
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Find some confidence.\nIts pretty simple if you can overcome fear of rejection.\nBe fairly direct. Just ask.\nSecret:  Girls(women) are attracked to self-confidence.\n\nBut also be real, dont lie.  It is much easier to be yourself than someone else.
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You should take the risk and talk to them face to face just like talking to them on the internet. believe me it is experience and trying.. be nice, be smart, funny and strong...shy is not so good most of the time, because you won't be able to know what you should say quick...the only thing to change such behavior is go and talk, and start as friends. and be the center, don't be the corner.  \nI tried that before and I succeeded honestly.  and I can go out with any I interested in..but I'm not interested in many now. just some.. and believe me, if you see some don't want, then just don't try... take it from easiest to easier to difficult.
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There's nothing wrong with being a little shy....some guys find it attractive.  But, if YOU don't like being shy, retrain yourself.  Start by making eye contact with strangers while your shopping.....add a smile....eventually a "hi, how are you?".  I know-it sounds simple and goofy...but it works.  Strangers aren't as threatening as people we know or like. It will still feel uncomfortable at first.....but what have you got to lose.  It also helps to have a few ready made questions for you meet people.  They could be school, family, or hobby related......you get the idea.  Good luck.  You'll be happy to know that confidence comes with age!
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Be yoself and turn on the charm! You don't make a girlfriend, u get 1! Don't be too smooth coz women won't trust you and don't look at every woman u see on the street as a potential candidate! Look for someone u can reaaly click with and interact with, the physical aspect alone does not help. I know what i am talking about, i am a woman!
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It's really hard to be shy, I know.  The best thing you can do is be yourself, always.  The next thing is eye contact and smile.  Eventually you will work up enough nerve to say "Hi".  You'd be surprised, a lot of guys really like shy girls!
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Just BE YOURSELF, and don't do anything that you feel uncomfortable with. Act naturally and they will come to you. We like men who are confident in what they do. So be confident. You are probably very attractive to some women, you just don't know it yet. Come out of your shell and show them who you are!
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Just try to be yourself. Ask her out sometime and do not be shy about that, it's so natural. I mean, if you want someone open the door to you, you at least(!), have to knack in it...\nHow more simple can it be?
158755
ok...first of all, it doesn't sound like you have aspergers syndrome!\n\nPerhaps it's because you refer to women as "female types"?\n\nDo you actually approach women and ask them out?  If you don't ask they can't say yes.  Are your standards too high (meaning you value the physical aspects of a women more than the mental).\n\nAre you just shy when it comes to asking someone out?  Try online dating services, it's easier to be yourself when you're typing on your comp than it is to be on a first date.  Good luck!
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First off nobody needs a girlfriend. Being shy is a hardship for dating I know.I can tell you though just be yourself and someone special will find you. Try being friends with some girls first have some of your guy friends and some girl friends hang out somewhere. Having a friend that is a girl is a way to get to know what other girls like too. Good Luck and remember you do not need a girlfriend to be happy and go out and have fun.
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show her that you find her interesting. when you see her ask her how she is. but dont go on her nerves.\nif you are shy then put nice (dont overdo it)flowers on her footstep and a little card. write that these are of you, that you like her and would like to invite her for a drink or a dinner. you can also tell her that you are too shy to ask her directly. Women like when men show that there not always the ''hard ones''.After that give her time to come to you and start to talk. If she doesnt come it means she wont go out with you or she is also too shy to talk to you. just watch her reaction you will figure it out.  hope that helps you
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FIRST OF ALL, DRESS NICE WITH CLEAN CLOTHS. KEEP HAIR CLEAN AND TEETH BRUSHED. LAST AND MOST IMPORTANT. ATTITUDE. IF YOUR OUT GOING CONFIDENT AND NICE YOU WILL CATCH THEY EYE OF THE OPPISITE SEX.  I USE TO BE REALLY SHY AND DIDNT KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO GIRLS AND HAD FEW GIRLFRIENDS. THEN ONE DAY I GOT FED UP AND DISNT CARE IF I LOOKED LIKE A JERK ANYMORE AND I STARTED TREATING GIRLS JUST LIKE I WOULD TREAT MY NORMAL GUY FRIENDS AND BAMM. NEXT THING I KNEW I NEVER HAD GIRL PROBLEMS AGAIN. SO CONFIDENCE HAS TO BE THE MAIN THING. DONT BE AFRAID TO WALK BY A GIRL YOU LIKE AND SAY "HEY I LIKE THAT SHIRT IT LOOKS COOL" THEN WALK AWAY IT JUST MIGHT SPARK UP A CONVERSATION BETWEEN THE TWO OF YOU
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Yes!!!! Look Being shy is alright.. but not being tooo shy.. because then a girl would get confused.. she wouldn;'t know  how you feel around her.. you need more confidence in yourself so you can talk to girls.. ask ur self these questions.. Why am i scared to talk to girls??? And you will get ur answer.. \nAnd remember.. Girl's wont go for tooo shyy guys.. so be aware.. good luck.. it will take time.. but u can IMPROVE!!! be Bold n go talk to girls!! datz all  ican say...
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A lot of the time, if you are not being approached it is because you are giving off the impression that you are not approachable.  Most times without even knowing it! If you get nervouse maybe you don't smile enough or make eye contact.  What type of women are you trying to attract, or have you put much thought into it?  Consider the people that you might want in your life, what qualities they need to have to make you happy. Then get involved in an activity that you are really interested in, get to know the people involved, then persue someone you find interesting that may posses those qualities you enjoy.  You already know you have something in common, maybe that would put you more at ease knowing that right off the bat. It's about something you are doing. You didn't really elaborate much or give people much to go on, but I hope this helps you some.
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Go to bars you like, if you like poetry go to a poetry reading. Do things you like and go to the places you like and meet single women that way. AT least yu know that htye are interested in the things that you are