Ladies, what do you find most attractive in man? looks? money? personality? education? exellent lover?
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dont go for looks, they can decieve.\ndont go for wealth, even that fades away.\ngo for someone that makes you smile, because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.
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Personality. God knows most guys (including me) could never have been happily married if it was all based on looks.
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Hi AJ,\n\nThe most important things in any long term relationship are honesty, kindness, a good sense of humor and a willingness to be there during the good times as well as the bad.  That said, the first thing that attracts me to a guy is his smile and the way he carries himself, with confidence but not too cocky or over the top.  A guy who is clean, dressed appropriately and who has a pleasant demeanor and makes the first move conversationally will get my attention and that of most ladies out there.\n\nBTW: Any woman who would value a man for his wallet alone is in the same league as a man who values a woman solely for her looks, both types are players and ultimately bad news.\n\nGood luck and best wishes from bookyone :)
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Brains, humor, responsibility, affection, financially secure. Good looks are nice, too, but not a priority.
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i love quiz's\n1.he has to have a nice tight butt\n2.his eyes are the sexiest\n3.personality all the way\n4.not sure of the question but i like a man to have muscles in all the right places but not to muscular just toned
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I can't speak for "men" but I can speak for myself.\n\nBeing a man, I am attracted to beauty.  If I see beauty walking down the street or in the store I will admire it...as beauty...like looking at a sunset, a work of art, etc...beauty for beauty's sake is well, beautiful.\n\nBUT... if I am looking at having a serious relationship with a woman, beauty isn't in my top 3 three things to look for, it's probably in the top 10, but not top 3.  The top 3 things I look for...\n\n1) Intelligence. \n2) A sense of wonderment with life.\n3) Common sense.\n\nBeing that I'm almost 40, been married twice and in my younger years "dated" frequently, I have realized that outward beauty, while nice, pales in comparison to the beauty that comes from a quick wit, a passion for life and the common sense to make decisions about things.
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Attractiveness in in the eye of the beholder. I have dated men in the past that have been unconventionally attractive because I loved their mind or personality. It all depends on what  each person finds attractive. Just be the most confident you can be without being arrogant and show the women what you have to offer.
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1) Good looks and a great body\n2) Honesty, respect, potential, focus in life, humor, intelligence, total fidelity, sincerity and affection.
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Innitally - Height and hair.  True attraction is based on personality.
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You'll find through this question that there are many different things that men find attractive. No one is the same.\n\nPersonally, looks play a little part in what I find attractive. Granted I will admit I do like to look at the "perfect" girls, but look and date is different. 97% of the "perfect" girls think they are to good for most people and have a very poor personality. \n\nIf I am out, the first thing I  notice on a female is her smile. From there it's her eyes.. Then from there it's her personality. I'm not the superficial type that has to have the girl with the perfect body. In fact, I prefer they dont. Those type of girls are more likely to cheat. Looks aren't everything. I've met some people that when I first seen them I was like WOW then after a few seconds of talking I thought what?? No way.. not interested.. It's a total package deal for me. And she absolutely has to get along with my friends and family. Otherwise, we wont last very long. And I have to get along with her friends and family as well... It's a 2 way street...
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charm is one of the best 'attributes' that a man can have =)\nplus, you're honest, romantic, and giving\nwhat else could a woman want?\nage and look are not important these days\nso, if i'm not married, i would surely date you!\nbe more confident with yourself =)
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I look for 3 big aspects intelligence, sense of humour and looks that are attractive to me, which can vary, for me the whole person must be appealing not just one aspect, and if she got a nice butt that helps to.
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I prefer a man who can make me laugh. Life is way too serious. Everyone needs to learn to laugh more. Luckily, I found the right one for me. He is a good loving man. Looks never got me interested. I'm more interested in intellect and a good sense of humor.
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eyes that show his kind heart,lips that caress my lips,white teeth that nibble my ear,arms that embrace me tightly while penetrating me,softly speaking in my ear,slightly hairy chest and stomach tickling my skin. speaks intelligently but never demeaning. loves himself,life,and laughter. can do attitude. physically fit with average looks (or better looks is a bonus).financially secure, adventurous, likes resting his head on my stomach while watching t.v.. he sees the good i do in the world and wants to be part of my life. calm but with a bit of fighting Irish in him. likes to tie one on but not frequently. smells like freshly fallen leaves after a rain and the wind lifts that taste of nature right onto your tongue. must top and bottom. but most important of all is we must love each other.\n   my current partner doesn't posses any of these traits. he is simply made of plastic. is very sneaky and abusive.
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Here's my honest list:\nGodly, Geeky, Brilliant, quirky sense of humor, impulsive, compassionate, politically aware (preferably liberal), honest, sensitive, not afraid of debate, and likes board games.\nAs far as looks, I'm not too obesessed, preferences: soulful eyes, blonde (though I am often physically attracted to African American men as well, so blonde is only a caucasian thing), Clean shaven, tall, skinny, maybe hair a little below the ears-- but that's not important- it's really the personality thing above that does it for me
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Personality and looks.
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In an Ideal world I would say brains..but realisticly the answer is beauty.