How best is it to put accross rejection without hurting feelings or emotions of a guy or a girl?
86946
It's best not to reject anyone at all. Simply be honest with them. Let them know you are genuinely not interested in an intimate relationship with them, and that you respect them to much to play those types of games.  Any intelligent person can respond to this, without getting overly emotional.  If they do, better now than six months later when the feelings have become much more involved.
902420
maybe the way you reject them is abit direct even though you might think you're being nice about it. I think the best way to reject someone is just say ur already involved with someone else. hope this was helpful.
463959
Being open and honest is the way to handle all interpersonal relationships.  Just give them a warm smile and say... "Hey, you know... I like you."\n\nIf they reject something that simple and innocent, it would never have worked out anyway and it's best to just drop it and move on to someone better.  If they respond positively... then great!
817176
If you aren't comfortable with it then turn your response into something humorous.  Say something like, "Yeah, I love me too".  I can't say there is any particular "proper" response, because some people do fall in love very quickly, while others don't.  If humor doesn't work, simply let her know that you don't know her well enough to feel that way towards her.  Unfortunately, there will be negative responses, but it's better than getting stuck in a situation you really don't want to be in.  Most of the time we want a guy to care as much about us as we do about him, and a lot of women don't realize that a guy is showing us he cares when he's honest and doesn't say "I love you" just because he feels like he should.
831229
hi,\n\n    in the whole world,whole human being do this.u r not aolne.if ur clear in u r mind,and wanna him as ur friend.be open and tell him.or just mess ur frndhip also.\n\n    see,what u want as a girl thats important.if u r rejecting him,its not an offence.if u like him than ask him for sometime to think,think harder.and do wat ur mind says.not u r HEART.\n\n    u r spening u r time on this issue and making him also confuse.go ahead do domething.maybe someone is waiting for u both ahead.\n\nbest of luck.
144241
If you don't know this girl you could always tell her that you want to get to know her better because...you find her interesting...you think she is pretty...you like her...you think she is funny... Whatever the reason is. \n\nWhen you get to know her or if you already know her - tell her how you feel! \n\nIf she happens to reject you - yes its gonna hurt a little and may even be a little embarrassing but you will survive, millions of people have. Don't fear rejection - you'll never get anywhere if you don't try. Besides it builds character.
1061877
This question has been ask by every guy who finds a girl he likes. The best answer is the direct one. Just ask. The problem with this is we all have fear of rejection so want to be sure we do this right.\n\nThe result of asking will vary with every girl you meet. So the best way of working this out is to not place such importance on the answer. Look around......how many girls are there that you may be interested in? Most girls will not make that question hard for you. But know this...if one does...she is not for you. You can do better. She does not deserve your time so move on.\n\nJust ask as though you expect the answer to be yes. You will be surprised. There are no good lines you need to use for this. Just ask her. If your not being a jerk about it you will get the answer you want. If not move on.
302552
Yes, go ahead and tell him now. Don't make him do the scariest thing in guy world - asking a girl out - only to be turned down. You can say "I am really glad that I have you as a friend, but I kinda get the feeling that you might want more. I love you and I don't want to hurt you, but I just don't feel anything but friendship for you."
198180
Suck it up, grit your teeth, close your eyes, count to 100...and do it.  You're better off getting over the issue as soon as possible.  If she rejects you.....you ask another one...it's really not that big a deal.
474843
think of a unique way to express how you feel.Just be yourself. Most girls like guys that are sweet and honest.=)
167484
I guess just think about how you would want someone break it to you. Just don't lead him on because that hurts more in the end. In the end if you're having trouble doing it realize that you have to think about your own feelings and not just his.
709870
its always better to let him know in some way than to hold back your feelings and watch him/her get taken by someone else. same thing happened to me a few years back and i never looked back for it. if i liek a girl ill tell her as soon as i can when the mood of the conversation is right =P
734877
Find some confidence.\nIts pretty simple if you can overcome fear of rejection.\nBe fairly direct. Just ask.\nSecret:  Girls(women) are attracked to self-confidence.\n\nBut also be real, dont lie.  It is much easier to be yourself than someone else.
188152
Instead of trying to find happiness in some guy, find happiness in yourself. Once you have found that, then it won't matter how many guys turn you down or how many will accept because in your heart you will know you are happy because of yourself & not because of the guy you are with.
956621
I think that you should take her out make her feel special then when you are dropping her off you should ask her what her feelling are towards you then you lovingly tell her that your feelings towards her are not the same she should understand tell her that she is a very beatiful girl and that she will soon find the guy that is just right for her she will appreciate that, coz if you keep avoiding her she will never know and then if another guy asks her out she will say no coz she will be too busy waiting for you to admit the feelings that you dont have for her well that is my advice i think it is the best way cool calm and collected
138282
rejection. When you open up you feel very vunerable.So many things can go wrong...worst one being that the other person doesn't feel the same way. Life would be so much easier if people were just open!
678615
honestly it is a nice way to rejection . the girl really wants to keep the friendship only friends but concern if she tells you that she isn't into you on a "date" level or bf that she will lose that friendship. truthfully if she was into you as more than friendly there would be no hesitation on a date