is it possible to be in a commited relationship if the guy looks at females alot?
90641
don't worry about it! i'm a guy and just got married with gf i've been dating for 3 years. i look at girls alot, even with her... its not a serious issue. i love my wife, and likewise, but this issue is not gonna change the bond we have. we sometimes discuss how the girl dress and stuff... its kinda fun talking about it... trying to find who's the hottest girl in the mall... maybe u should open up more and he might feel alot more comfortable going out with u.
714163
i would not ask, no. sex for men is simply a conquest--the woman is another notch on his bedpost, one more chance to get off in a long line of them. if he looks into your eyes a lot while having sex, he is hoping you will close them so he can sneak away to your sister's room
436911
I think so, but he has to find a way to do it without making her feel like just a piece of meat. You just have to find the right girl at the right time. Good luck.
414751
maybe, but if he's willing to admit there are other girls in his life proceed with caution!  keep it casual and let him know you're interested but stay busy.
430146
If you're in a trusting relationship, it all depends on expectations.  Obviously, he should respect you enough not to cheat, but if you let him know that you are uncomfortable with his actions, he should care enough about you to at least tone it down.  It's natural to admire people of the opposite (or same, if you swing that way) gender, but it's not okay to be overly gawking if you are in a commited relationship.  I always try to join in on the action by agreeing with him.  Is it enough to know at the end of the day that he's going home with you?
443902
it all depends on the guy. I know i have been faithful to my girlfriends, but some of my closest friends hardley are ever.  So i think it will depend on the guy not the girl
944852
A friend to a guy is different from a friend with a girl...Usually guys have lots of girlfriends because the idea creeps in of "keeping your options open"...men seldom have girl friends (2 words) and it not go through the man's mind at some point that his friend has been considered for something more.....one major exception is if the girls he talks to are girls he knew for a long time...through school, church etc....then it feels like brother and sister...but if he has just recently met these girls then in all likelihood he is keeping his options open...
247438
All men look at other woman, it's ok as long as he stays faith full to you. You should start to worry if he doesn't look.
164575
It seems so. To know you have to ask yourself is he trying to go out of his way to see you or talk to you. And remember body language like, is he still looking at you after your done talking. He's probably thinking the same so he's looking to see if your looking. Eye contact can say a lot.
447143
not what you might think.  most young guys think with their package and not their brain.  If the person was following your thoughts then He would think of compatibility in social lines not the coupling thing.  Each person is different and follows patterns that are formed by earlier relationships and how mature they are.  You should be concerned with your thoughts and if Yo9u can look at the relationship's potential.  The hard part is getting thru the smokescreens.  Be objective and put your expectations up against what the guy has to offer.
1116818
First of all, it depends on age, and past experiences. If you're under the age of 25, then guys really don't want to make a commitment to one woman. I know, this sounds horrible, but guys like to believe they can get any woman any time. Also, if a guy has had his heart stomped on before, then he will have trouble making a commitment. When a guy makes a commitment in a relationship, he usually puts it all out on the line. He gives you his heart, he spoils you with whatever you want becasue he is so in love you. Then one woman can ruin it all by breaking his heart, because next time around he will try not to let a woman in close, because he is afraid of getting hurt. Men don't make commitments, because they are protecting themselves again the pain and anguish they have felt in the past. Kind of like when a kid touches a hot stove, he never touches a hot stove agian becuase it hurts!
869158
Yes. I think that just makes us human. Just because we are with someone, our sense don't suddenly die. It is normal to still find others attractive. As long as we don't act on these crushes/feelings/attractions, it is perfectly normal. Faithfulness and loyalty is what counts.
1144304
depends on how the relationship is.  it can be vice versa.  if the man is really happy with his woman then he wouldn't be able to think of anyone else same for the woman
288659
no offense but do you think that you may be asking for the fights ??? people look at other people some times its because theres some thing they like about that person or they are reminded of some one else that was a good thing in there life , what ever the  reason if you bust his chops over it then he is going to get fed up with it , weather he and you split up over it depends on how hard you push this subject , its only human nature , and if this girl is real nice to him even if its just on a friendly side then you may even push him to her because you could breakup and he will look to her just to piss you off , I'm am sure you look at other men even if its an actor , sport personality , or some one your friends ask if you think he is hot , every one looks!!!! its if he isn't looking and touching that you have to worry about so dont give him a reason to feel that you being a bytch about it all and looking for a fight , i have been with the g/f for 5 years and i still look and have looked right along but i don't want to cheat on her i just look , and as far as how she looks beauty is in the eye of the beholder , maybe he likes fat chicks and he went with you because he saw something in you that made him like you , you may be the hottest chick to some one and a real dog to some one else , if she got 3 kids some one liked her enough to give her 3 kids !!!!!
393767
dont be soo uptight. hes a guy. and youre a girl. dont tell me you dont look at the occasional eye candy from time to time. next time you catch him you should be like, wow, she is hot... and leave it at that. hell most likely be like "damn, thats hot, shes confident enough to appreciate another womans beauty".
890100
Wow...really tricky question, my friend.\nWell, considering it...generally my answer will be " I don't think so." If a man had slept with lots of woman or girl before, it would be definitely impossible for him to have the pleasure by imagining you. Surely in one moment of your sex pleasure, his mind will come across with other girls (whom he had experienced before). Besides that there are many other factors (in which I must not state here for I am like betraying my own kind or species. :>).\nWhatever it will be, my friend, it does not happen in all men. Only certain and some men may have the genuine and true heart to show their love to you including during the time of having sex with you.\nOverall, what I can say to you is the general rule is never ever trust a man easily. For if not...in most cases, you may end up being dumped or being used only. \nHope you get my point here.
303732
i think its yes and no. it depends on the girl. i mean some girls look at guys as much as guys look at girls but some don't. like for instance the type of girl whose nose is always in her books studying, probably hardly spend anytime checking out guys. Then their are the type that love to party and have fun and love checing out guys. u wanna know what girls love to check out, well, they love to check out the ASS and the MUSCLES.