how can u let  guy know that u want him to marry u but u dont want to make a fool of urself?
78896
tell him you want to spend the rest of your life with him
720406
Right now and ask him to marry you. Casual relations are no relation avoid from.
859464
okay well this guy is head over heels for you. i think he is trying so hard because he thinks you feel this way about him deep down and your afraid to get out your feelings. what you can do is be sensitive with him. tell him that your more than flattered and surprised that he proposed to you, but we can only stay simple friends right now. im not ready top get married right now and believe it or not i have dreams and goals i want to make come true. and i know you do too. and dont tell me that the only dream you have is to be my husband. i know you have things to accomplish in life. so thats why. we can still be really good friends b ut thats all we are going to be. if you liked me this much you would accept it and move on."if after that he still doesnt understand then maybe you shouldnt talk to him anymore. try avoiding him if he makes you feel uncomfortable. if he does understand then thats one less thing to worry about in life.
301533
At least he's nice enough to wait for you... Maybe he knows that you don't know what you want too.\nYou are not pushy when you let people know what you want.  It's a good way to communicate.  Plus it will save both of you a lot of time & confusion.
1014485
This is how I feel about "getting" a man to marry you... I would be insulted if I felt as though a guy was marrying me out of pressure or because he feels obligated. Best thing to do is talk about what you want and go for it with someone that wants the same things.\n\nYou are young, and you have plenty of time. If you are sure that this is a guy you can spend your life with and you believe that he really does want the same things you want - stick around for a while, stop the pressuring, and see where things go. \n\nIf things don't work out, then next time, make sure that you have someone that wants the same out of life as you do, and within the same genera time frame, before you get too involved.
1135936
NO, but...discus it with your "now" guy first. "IF" he rather you not then don't. It's about "respect", and if you respect your guy then do what he asks of you. BUT remember he may say yes, he doesn't care, but if you know him well enough you should know that he's saying " please don't".
750903
Be sweet and be yourself at all times. Don’t talk about marriage unless you have been going out for a long time and are well into your 20’s. And then only do it if you have some idea it is on his mind too. If it is meant to last it will last. ♠
446559
realize him that you love by indirect means.look trendier,smart,and show that u have everything what he wants.Then at some day say him to help you in some work then slowly slowly propose  him.
691692
Thinking that he might want to ask u to marry him. \nExplain to him that this is driving u nuts and to please talk to you, or wait for him... thats all u can do.  No sense in driving urself nuts wondering.
714442
Ignore the guy make him want you. Some times we want what we can't have ;)
727506
Oh, poor guy... Just listen to what you're saying: you're basically TRYING TO MAKE HIM marry you. With that kind of attitude, I don't think that guy will marry you without doubting himself whether this relationship will work. If you try to push him here, what else does he have to expect, once you're married and live together? He won't have a second of freedom to breathe - that's what you're telling him.\nDon't get frustrated. If he doesn't propose just yet - he's got a reason to do that. Either he is trying to make a surprise for you, or maybe, he is still trying to figure out how will this whole marriage thing work. If you think he's not really planning to propose - then why in the world do you insist on him to do that? If he does plan to propose and waits for the right moment, you're pushing that moment farther and farther away, because you're thinking about it all the time, and he can't propose to you by surprise if that's all you think about. Maybe, he's been carrying a ring in his pocket for weeks now. But when you two meet.... "Hi, honey, when are you going to propose to me?" -" Oh, yea, I was just going to do that..." Sweet surprise, isn't it? Give him time and space, let him get ready. It's a big step in both of your lives. And it's not every day you get married.\nBtw... Me and my gf have known each other for almost 3 years. And yet I still haven't proposed to her (even though we too talked about marriage many times). We are still figuring out each other, trying to understand the relationship better and soften out sharp egdes, which have a potential of ruining our relationship. Once we both think we've got to know each other well enough, then we'll start making plans of a wedding. Until then, we enjoy each others' company and get to know ourselves really well. One thing neither of us wants to happen is to find some really bad surprise about another person when we're already married. Way too many relationships brake up because they started too quickly. If people in those relationships would get to know each other before dating - maybe they'd never want to date another person and save tons of nerves and time.
531005
Make us work for it. Play hard to get.  make us let you know that we want to be with you.  don't be easy.  If a guy thinks you are easy for him, he will think you are easy for everyone.
653792
why r u going to get married to him if u don't want to get close
2566
if u have to ask then i dont think your ready to marry this guy. dont give up on him though. everyone says you just know, thats true but its easier if the feelings are explained.when you can look at him and know that you would give up your life for him and if a bullet was going towards him you would be the one to jump in front of it then you know.when you know that his face is the face you want to wake up to for the rest of your life then you know. when you can look into his eyes and know that you can trust his word no matter what then you just know.
788395
The next time that he brings it up just tell him point blank you are not ready yet, and if he would just relax a little about it maybe you will feel more comfortable getting married in the future. Just be sure to let him know that you do not want to loose what the 2 of you have now.
836248
I would feel hesitant about marrying him. Sounds like "he just not that into you". But I hope that isn't the case.
628663
You can't "Get" a man to marry you until they are ready, or mutually like yourself, think the relationship is ready to take it to the next step. Think about it, would you want to force someone into marrying you now just because your ready only to find out later (after a divorce) that they weren't ready to be married?