to tell or not to tell that is the question?
96100
Well, I would say don't tell.  It would only ease your guilty conscience and would really hurt her.  If she gets suspicious though, don't lie.  (And don't do it again!)
129009
Exactly the way you're saying it now.\nThis shouldn't be a touchy subject, and if she doesn't see that, I'm sure a doctor would be willing to tell her.
1088446
It is never ok. A white lie may be small at first but it becomes bigger in time. I'd rather tell the truth even though it may be hard for  someone to handle than  lie and decieve them. Do the right thing hun.
938358
Sometimes, sometimes not.\nIf my friends and I have discussed a situation to a great extent, and it's obvious that we don't agree, we just stop mentioning it so we don't get on each other's nerves.\nUsually though, I am really open to my friends.  If I'm having doubts about whether to say something, I kind of bring the topic up, but not come right and say anything, to test the waters on whether it will be a confrontational topic.  \nAnd of course, it all depends on the friend.
994165
Does it have to be the truth?
1166454
yeh, you should prolly bring it up. that way atleast it will be out in the air, and any tension will be from peoples open opinions, and not from trying to hide it and stuff.
531694
If they dont ask, dont tell.  If they do ask, be honest.\n\nBest of luck!
882051
don't ask, don't tell...
668520
If he hasn't asked then he's prob just having respect for you and your past and doesn't want to invade. He prob feels it's up to you if you choose to one day tell him. If he tells you that he isn't interested then don't be offended, after all the past is in the past and why is there a need to tell him about it. He's interested in what's going on in the present and not what happened in the past. Don't think to much of it.
868537
no, what goes on in their marriage is really their business. he may already know, or she may choose to keep it from him. i hope that it was some one-time mistake on her part and that they've already worked through it, but it's not your responsibility to tell him.
91349
Yes it is very important to tell the truth but then there are times when it is good to lie. Most of the time it is not good to lie just cause you might've done something wrong or you stole something. But then there are times when maybe u might lie to save or help someone or something. But in my opinion I think that it is best not to lie because lieing alot of the time makes things a whole lot worse. When you lie to people sometimes they make take it peronsal or they might not be able to trust you anymore which trust is always something that you want to have.
170191
u can tell if a person is telling the truth or not.
525351
Not really a question, is it?
624038
It sounds like your guilt wants you to tell, but telling will only hurt her and make you feel better.  If it was a one night stand, let it go, otherwise someone's got to break it to her, preferably you.
970306
Tell him the truth and or tell him you don't know.
233784
Is this a question?  Or are you just trying to tell us this?
350476
I thought we agreed not to tell. What did you do?