How do I orgaism before my partner does?
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He should bring you to climax by oral before he has intercourse with you.  This ensures that you get yours first, because not all women can achieve climax just be intercourse.
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beatoff  before sexual intercourse
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This is  called premature ejaculation. If you are young, masturbate half an hour before you engage in sex with a woman.\n\nDuring intercourse, when you are about to ejaculate, divert your thoughts. Think of your business for instance. \n\nSqueezing your scrotum when you are about to ejaculate can also help.\n\nMind control is the best remedy. \n\nNote many a marriage is ruined because of man's premature ejaculation. It is very important to give satisfaction to your partner.\n\nEngage is long foreplay to arouse your partner so that she climaxes soon after penetration.\n\nHope this helps.
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First, get her very, very turned on. Whether orally or otherwise, the more she is excited and the higher her peak of excitement before intercourse, the greater likelihood she will have an orgasm. So don't skimp on foreplay. Being in a hurry here will get you nowhere in the end.\n\nAssuming you've done the above and you both want to assure that she has an excellent orgasm, teach her this little trick (I just hope you're old enough and mature enough to be learning all this). Regardless of the position you use, tell her that you want to touch herself, masturbate, while you are in her. Most women don't get stimulated where they need to be from most forms of male intercourse. The clitoris has to be given friction in some way for orgasm. If she manipulates herself and you do what you can, she will likely have the best orgasm she's every known.\n\nUnfortunately many men don't like to think that they can't make a woman orgasm just by themselves. Sometimes they can, but the way I describe above is almost guaranteed. Some women are too modest or are not used to self-manipulation, and they need to be assured that you want them to do this and will not think less of them for it.\n\nEnjoy. Please practice safe sex.
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Start with fourplay and oral is a must since that is what gets you going.  Always let him try various positions at the time and go back down and lick your clit.  It is a process and try drinking some wine,  watch some porn or something that can stimulate the moment.  Doggy style is usually the best for you to have an orgasm, the motion is making his balls slap your clit while his moving.  \n\nGood luck!
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Once somebody aware of the sexual act just prepared in advance the body with some enema.  It was the pre-condom time!\nNow with condom that usance is in disuse, but with your stable partner and if you don't want use condom,  you even could ask for that again. It's good and useful!
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There are many ideas on the matter. Exercising the PC muscles is a good start. They are the same muscles you squeeze when you stop a flow of pee or when you ejaculate. Practice squeezing without using your butt muscles. You can do this exercise whenever you remember, driving, sitting, walking, anywhere possible. Stopping your pee midstream helps strengthen it too. Another thing is to practice delaying your ejaculation. During masturbation bring yourself to the point where you are just about ready to ejaculate then stop and squeeze your penis right below the head until the sensation passes, then continue masturbating until you again reach the point just before climax. Repeat the exercise until you can't stop any more and you orgasm. The more you practice the better, soon you'll be able to tell when you're about to climax and so stop yourself from ejaculating during intercourse until you and your partner are both ready. Be patient, it takes a while to be able to catch yourself and stop just before you climax. With time and practice you could have sex for quite a while before you allow yourself finish.\nAnother method calls for squeezing the scrotum just above your testis when they move up as you near ejaculation. You can do this to yourself or you can have your partner do it. Don't squeeze your testicles or you might lose the mood, you just want to grab the scrotum and pull them down not allowing them to move up into position for the climax. Hope this stuff helps.
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Personally, I think the best way to please me and to have simultaneous climax is to make sure you're stimulating the clitoris while you are having sex. I've found the two best ways for me is with the man on top if he moves upward so that his pelvic bone is stimulating the clitoris and I move my hips up that way he can feel me getting more excited and I can feel him and then we find a rhythm together. Since it's usually harder for women to orgasm the man usually has to wait for the woman to start and then kinda let themselves go when they feel her kinda tighten and make more noise. The other position that works for me is spooning. I can keep my legs together which gets more stimulation and he or I can also use our hands to help stimulate the clitoris.
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As with any sexual experience take precautions. Start with good hygiene, etc and then take things slow, use astrolube (and if you choose a latex or rubber medical glove), and let your partner know what is comfortable and not. Fisting does not have to involve full penitration.
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Okay first use lots of lube and have him finger you first with one finger than with two to get you use to it or you could use a butt plug put it while you are having s*x than switch to an*l have him go real slow and just try to be really relaxed if you do it right it feels great. Good Luck and P.S. always try to be opened minded when it comes to s*x you never know what you just may like.
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take care of yourself, if you know what i mean, before having sex with your gf. youll last longer that way, and might even get a better org.
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First of all before you try anything you have to be really turned on (So my girlfriends have told me) But start off sticking something small up there for starters. Maybe have your boyfriend put his finger up there as he's going down on you. Use a oil based lubricant, it's more messy but works best. Try putting a b*tt plug up there before hand, that way you'd be in control and it will loosen you up a bit and make it less painful. Also I've heard that poppers relax the ar se muscles but you'll have to check that out for yourself. Lastly tell the horny little bugger to go slow and be gentle. oh, I've notice that some women feel a bit dirty after this and need plenty of cuddles and lovey dovey treatment afterwards. So give him your orders before hand.
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Jerk off before intercourse.\n\nLearn how to delay orgasm during your own masturbation. It takes some practice but you can 'retrain' your body. Most guys have originally trained themselves to get off as quickly as possible so they don't get caught or because they have no privacy or whatever. This can be reversed.
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Use lubricant. Also, you're first few times having sex are going to hurt- however, it your guy is working with a large package- then it may take some getting use to. Best advice: lubricant!  You're vaginal area will adjust with time. So, keep having sex- but make sure you're partner knows it hurts and tell him to take it slow. Don't take the pain! A man who cares for you will make the experience enjoyable for you too!
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RELAX. Don't worry. Out of the ladies I met, more than 50% of them have this problem. My solution is, have longer oral sex, say for example an hours oral sex. Ask ur b/f to suck your entire body especially ask him to spend more time licking ur private parts. ask him to penetrate his tongue deep into ur private part. I bet surely u will get orgsm.. there after have internal sex. again u will get orsm..
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stop-n-start\nJust before you'e about to ejaculate, stop yourself & relax for a few seconds before starting again.\nIf you're having sex, keep changing positions! Makes it exciting & you'll last longer as well!
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try changing position or rhythm or try to stop and do something to your partner.  i tried it several times and the next problem was my partner came first so try to come at the same time.