wut do u do wen ur 2 best frends r having relationship proplems and its gettin on ur nerves?
85148
Give them a chance to get back on track and if they still don't listen say you guy are acting like childish 2 year olds I am out!!
703841
your best friend is a bitch, thats whats goin on
85454
As a relationship grows, you get to know your friend more each time you talk to them. Sometimes the longer you talk the greater you find that the other is not ment for you. Leave it alone. Find another.
76712
thats the way it ALWAYS is - its your bestfriend that always gets your significant other ... if your friend is worth it just dont do it ... maybe later ...
770115
This is so wierd because I am in this same situation right now. I mean to the tee. What i have found is that if you value your best friends friendship, then you should just leave him alone. I mean you and him can still be friends but you need to discuss with him that there is a line there and in order to avoid any hurt feeling, that line should not and will not be crossed. it's tough but you can do it. Its just unfortunate that you didn't get to him first.
643945
ask them if they like you or not ask them if they believe you are not ask them if they want u to be happy or not\nif their answers to the three are yes then tell them that both of them are equally important to u and ask them to be friends atleast around you and u avoid meeting them seperately if they agree to this and always remember that u are a goo friend but your patience also has limits
492322
If the person is involved in a relationship at this time or you are, you should keep it to yourself.  If both of you are not in relationships, you should tell the person how you feel.  As best friends, you already have a great level of communication and the other person may be feeling the same way as you but is afraid to spoil your friendship.  You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.  You will still be friends no matter what and even if the other person doesn't look at you that way now, they may start to consider it and you may have a chance in the future.  Good luck!
102027
It is a commitment issue . . . since they are already committed (supposedly) to someone else . . . you are not afraid of them getting too attached to you . . . or you hope not.
1025428
Always, I have that issue or as i introduce my new intrest to my friends... he ends up dating one of them and not me... thats happened way to much...i understand your pain *hugs*
472523
I am in that exact situation now.  I have 2 groups of close friends that hate each other and are constantly bitching about each other to me, who's stuck in the middle.  I deal with it by telling them I get on with all of them and I won't listen to them bitching about each other cos it is seriously annoying.  It's a hard spot to be in but if you get on with them all you have to stay on the fence.
200981
Tell him or her they're annoying, if that don;t help dump them as ur friend.
281056
Have u had a relationship at all, platonic or physical, so that u can't stop thinking about this person?  How do u know the other doesn't like u, have they expressed it verbally or thru body language? Perhaps u should send some signal and see where it'll lead you. Maybe the other person is just waiting 4 u to show some signs, who knows maybe they can't stop thinking about u 2. It could be a start of something good.
518408
Respect their relationship. Don't interfere in between them whilst their relationship is still ongoing. After all, he is your Friend and you should enforce that point. You just can't go on getting in the middle of their relationship by being the third party. You know that if you do that you will hurt someone's feelings or worse, both of their feelings including yours. So, I suggest that you back off first for the time being. Try looking for someone else. And if things don't work out between the two of them, that;s when you can make a move. But, try not to be to aggressive. Just remember to back away from now. You will need to. I wish you the best.
926937
Listen sweetie, no matter how much you may trust a person that is your best friend something will go down that may cause them to stab you in the back. I don't know if it is supposed to happen or what but all I got to say is keep your guard up. Just don't trust everyone or anyone with your most deepest secrets, feelings, or thoughts.
929276
I have the same problem! I dont know what to do! He has a girlfriend too! They have went out before and then broke up and started talking to me a lot and we started to hang out! then him and the same girl started dating again and have been for almost a yr! I try to get over the way I feel about him but when I am around him I cant forget about they way I feel!\nI dont want to ruin my friendship though!
397696
I've had that happen. Be both of their friends! \nBut don't do anything to make them jealous (not that I thought you might), and don't go out of your way to keep them separate. My two friends eventually came to respect each other. Hopefully yours will too! Prayer is always good too.
223662
Understand that it's awkward for everybody involved.\nThen let your friend know that you prefer not to discuss their relationship or the relationship you had been in.\n\nJust hang out doing other things together if possible but if he or she wants some space, be cool with it and build your life with things you like to do.