how can i tell if my boyfriend is cheating on me?
79900
I think the problem is YOU, not your boyfriend. In many cases, when people find themselves in front of one of the most important decisions in their life: MARRIAGE, they tend to get afraid. The reason i think you saw that dream in the first place is because the thought of being married scared. I bet you really love your boyfriend, but you need more security. \n\nThere's a milion ways you can see to find out if your bf is cheating on you, but even if that's so, do you really think he would be proposing you a marriage ???\n\nAnyways, i think you should take some time, go spend a weekend somewhere where you can take your time and think everything through. All the answers to your questions rely in the bottom of your heart, you just have to search for them.\n\nYou're about to make a very important decisions, if i were you, i'd jump out of my shoes from happiness, but i would also take the nescessary time to think this through and see if you're both ready or not. After you've set things right in your mind, talk with your boyfriend. See how he reacts to your questions, the way he talks, the way he looks at you etc.
440490
Some Clues if your bf is cheating:\n*if he's so cold at your relationship;\n*he's packed with lots of reasons on not seeing you or \nbeing with you at a long time. \n*he doesn't inform you most of the time on where he's going & turning off his cellphone or not answering any of your calls...\n*or he's not letting you to be with him on most of his agenda...even just on paying a bill...\n\nANYWAY, there's always a seperate time to our loved ones no matter what, if that situation repeats again & you're not getting enough attention & most times ignores you...then, he is cheating!
1098842
just a thought...........break up with him.  why cheat.  im sure u wouldnt like it if your boyfriend was cheating on you.  to each his own i guess.
474685
Nah.. your boyfriend is cheating on you.\n\nOr you girlfriend.
1033896
You should just casually confront him about the situation and show him the evidence that you have to be suspecting that you believe he is cheating.  While you are confronting and he begins to get really upset for no reason that usually means he is lying.  Ask him to gently tell you the truth and that is all you want to hear.
222775
If you think that he is cheating, then he probably is.  Ask him.  Don't "spy" on him like people are telling you to.  If you have to spy, there is already a trust issue and that is hard to build up a relationship when there is no trust.  Plus, running around and checking up on him is just a waste of your time, and he aint worth it girl!  Take your extra time and find a decent guy that will spend his weekends with YOU!  Good Luck!!!
193498
no its not cheating, cheating is if you go out with both of them and they didnt know and all that stuff. wat u did was nothing. if ur boyfriend doesnt trust you,than he doesnt deserve you. dump him. go out w/ someone else (not his cus,only if u want to make him jelous)
922624
Stop stressing yourself if you don't have proof. If you haven't seen him do it don't worry. Keep your head up cause what happens in the dark ALWAYS come to the light. Believe that, just don't think about it all the time cause then you will start to trip on things that he does and he might not even be cheating. So get the proof first please. Don't give yourself gray hair over a guy that you don't even know if its forever.
354903
If you think you're boyfriend's cheating on you, EVEN IF YOU CAN'T PROVE IT, you have the wrong boyfriend. Understand? A faithful partner wouldn't give you these reasons to suspect.
788601
I would be really careful with this..you don't want to appear to be the 'over anxious' girlfriend, but neither do you want to be taken for a fool.  Keep an eye out for what is happening..and make sure that there are no obvious signs that he is 'cheating'..as in a lot of time spent places that he cannot or won't explain to you.\n\nChances are that if he is willingly talking to this girl in front of you there is nothing going on...\n\nThe best way to find out is to ask him..and if you don't like his answer do something about it...
26731
if hes chanmged and dont tell you he loves you you guys done cummicate thats the main thing to look for you should like talk to him about it but dont let him know your think he is cheating
347173
sounds like hes cheating on you
1079914
Go on Cheaters or Talk to him urself and find out whats going on. If he doesnt tell u the truth. Go with ur gut instincts and leave his sorry butt.
158958
You will know if he's been cheating on you or if he is using you by the way he acts. If he  rushes out the door when your in the middle of a date then tail him. You will know soon enough if he is or not. If you are close to someone who is in a way of great significance, someone who might be on the verge of changing life as we know it in a good way, and then all of a sudden the man who is now your boyfriend shows up and likes you all of a sudden, he is most likely using you.
610339
Ask him and study his reactions. I'm sure you'll be able to tell if he's lying. It's best to be upfront with your suspicions. Tell him why you think he's cheating. If you keep it to yourself, your suspicions will ruin your relationship.
447049
If you have absolute proof I would present your case to him. If you were in his shoes, wouldn't you like to know that your guy was cheating on you? Make sure you are absolutely sure though! Don't just go off of what other people have said.
252673
If you suspect cheating, it is probably happening. Try and contact them unexpectedly, see if they can meet at the spur of the moment. Cell phone activity can be a good clue, emails or text messages. Sooner or later they slip. If you have a friend who is supposed to be at the same place, ask for verification. Check the car, receipts in the glove box, different color hair, smell, etc. Good luck.