How can crossdressing can be controlled?
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I have tried and tried to stop dressing but its not just a matter of quiting like quiting smoking. I wish I had the clothes and shoes I have thrown away not to mention the makeup and such. anyway I assume you are straight so I suggest to find a woman that will accept your alter ego and live with it
995148
nope, they could be cross dressers??
836850
Wear clothes of the oposite sex.
189240
You are a work in progress.  Not necessarily gay but right now you like crossdressing.
787344
Yes. Be yourself, dress how you wish to dress, and behave professionally. "Highly educated" people don't worry about such things. Most of the world cares little about fashion. If you're concerned, don't be.
568486
If we had true equality for gender, then there would be fashion freedom which means no discrimination on how someone dresses. Some people will cross dress for fun, some because they are more comfortable dressing in a fashion that suits their personal feeling. If people were less bigoted , there would be no issue as to how someone presents themselves, provided they are not threating or intimidating
330738
Just dress-up appropriately so they won't rape you...don't seduce!
472349
Take is slowly. Define yourself first. What type of crossdresser are you? Casual, all the time? Do you dress as a fetish, or is it deeper for you? Have you talked with anyone else about your crossdressing? \nWhat are you hoping to accomplish by telling her? If you are looking for support, what are her views of other crossdressers? In today's say and age, you see crossdressing on all sorts of TV programs and other media, I am sure she has seen it as well. What is her general reaction towards it. Who's clothing do you wear? If it is your own stuff, how well hidden is it? You might be suprised, she might actually already know and be waiting for you to trust her to tell her.\nTake it slow, because if she is not ok with it, she might have a lot to process. I would make sure to inform her that you are not GAY, and by wearing clothing like that, it does not make you in any way GAY.\nIf you trust her, and she trusts you, and you want to tell her after you have found out who you are, then go ahead.\n\nI am not sure how well this would work, but you might make a game out of it, or a bet. Maybe do something that she comes up with you dressing up, like set a bet where the looser has to dress as a maid or something, and be all macho about it so when you loose, it looks painful that you have to dress as a maid. Heard that one somewhere, not sure the results. Would give you a deep insight into your wife's view on crossdressing from her reactions though...
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Just tell her that you are a cross dresser and probably gay too.
104960
it's called gender sensitivity man. what a man can do, a woman also can.
345819
because they can.\n\nbecause in the sex driven world of pop culture, role models are forced to reveal more and more of themselves just to make an impression. so hordes of followers, unwitting and otherwise, remove their clothes in an effort to attain the elusive goal of the norm
69914
you are so retarded you crossdressing freak
32714
i am sure u can do this :))) surgically, of course. but i am not sure a doctor will replace and the genitals. it is impossible, as i know. i am student in medicine, your phenomenon is known as transexualism. enjoying to wear female clothes and to change your comportament into a female one. you can try satisfy your need by transforming your exterior in one wich seems like a girl, but anyway, muscles, hair and voice will folow forever your identity.
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A lot of crossdressers are completely straight, and they just like how the clothes feel on their body.  Men's clothes are not as soft or silky as women's.  Then there are the men who are confused about their gender.
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Remember the only person that matters is YOU.  So you get funny looks and stares, its not the end of the world.  Just make sure your safe.  You may not be gay, most crossdressers are not.  But to be "safe" you may want to go to a gay club to cross dress until you get stronger in your convictions.  Good luck!!!  Or perhaps there are (and yes there are!!) other men in your area that feel the same way.  Its just a matter of finding a way to connect with them.
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Go online like the rest of the crossdressers.
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its do with control, they want the women to run around dressed in layers of clothing  and think its ok to have several marriages all at once... sod that for a laugh.. \nLONG LIVE FREEDOM AND INDEPENDANCE OF WESTERN WORLD WOMEN..