How do you tell your girlfriend you just lost your virginity to her best friend?
91810
by the time you are through with reading all these answers, you will have forgotten about all your troubles and worries, buddy ;-) good luck
545008
have your best friend ask her best friend. girls tell their best friends everything. even which guys they like. trust me, i am a girl, i know all about how girls minds work.
254500
It depends on you... what you would want to happen? \n\nThere are 2 options:\n\n1. If you really want to be have a love relationship with your best friend and he/she is still single then of course the best way is to let him/her knows about your feeling. But mind you, he/she might get scared by your sudden confession. Remember to give him/her some time to think about it and comes out with a good conclusion for both of you.\n\n2. But if he/she already have a partner in life, then I suggest that you shd keep the feelings to yourself in order not to hurt your relationship with your best friend.\n\nSo, good luck!
423441
I take it that you've already told him you weren't a virgin.\n\nListen, your virginity is something that you only have once.  It should be something to be proud of, not ashamed of...especially this day and age.\n\nI hope that you are with someone who will help you take this at your own pace.
664892
Are you saying she's a virgin? If so, you have to take it slow and easy. There's no way for it not to hurt the first time.
1086652
Ideally your husband. But remember, your virginity can only be given away once. So whomever you choose to give it to make sure it is someone that you can reflect on the experience with love and fond memories. You will be in "love" with whomever your choose forever so choose carefully.\n\nIf you choose your best friend it may change your relationship with him forever because he could start getting jealous when he sees you with other guys, or you could start getting jealous seeing him with other girls. Then you might not be friends anymore. That would suck.\n\nif you choose your boyfriend, he might take it for granted. Or if he really loves you he may become insanely attached to you. Or you may become insanely attached to him and then he could totally blow you off. That would be bad. \n\nYour ex doesn't deserve it. I am sure he is your Ex for a very good reason.\n\nI say don't give it to any of them, but if you have to choose one, make it your best friend.
1046175
no... you really can't. Sorry about your sitch, but that's... not even close to the truth. Even if it was only ONE guy, it still counts.\n\nOn the other hand, who cares? virginity ain't all it's cracked up to be anyway, and it's really nobody's business except for your next partner, and if you two really care about each other, it won't matter.\n\nBe honest. don't even try to fake this one.
1147491
Not sure where the diploma falls into things *scratches head* Is that new catch phrase?  Do you mean diaphram?  Some kind of birth control?  Anyway...\n\nStart by telling him you're a virgin.  Then tell him how much he means to you, how he makes you feel, and what's so special about him.  Tell him that you have so much trust and respect for him that you want to share this experience with him.  If he feels ready to move into that phase of your relationship, then he should reciprocate.\n\nBut... if you're too shy to broach the subject so gently, just blurt out, "Hey!  Wanna bump uglies?"\n\nHave fun, safe sex.
752418
The only one that can answer this is you. You have to understand that things will probably change between you if/when you have sex. Your relationship will never be the same. I would love to be the one to tell you to go ahead because you both feel comfortable with eachother and know that nothing you do will make you feel awkward but great friends are hard to find. He will find someone to lose his virginity to. You have to decide if you're ok with your relationship changing.
661694
the absolute best thing you can tell her is what you just asked.  tell her you like her a lot, and that you don't know what to say because you don't want to sound lame.  tell her you're nervous because you haven't had a lot of girlfriends.  she'll appreciate your honesty, and she will probably say that she doesn't know what to say either, and you can laugh about it together, and it will bring you closer.
387839
This will probably haunt you for the rest of your life if you don't come clean with your friend. Take her to a quiet place and just be honest with her. Remember friends should be able to tell friends everything! Of course you must expect her to be upset at first but if she is truly your best friend she should forgive you. Be honest. Tell her why it happened and why you are telling her the truth. This will also let her know what type of guy she is dating. \n\nI hope it works out for you.
168662
you have romance (kissing, holding hands, sex, etc) with a girlfriend.  a girl who is your friend is like a guy.  you can tell them anything.
565755
Take her to the place where you guys had a first date, assuming it is somewhere romantic. Tell her you love her in about 10 different languages and get on one knee and let your feelings out. If she loves attention, and only if you think she will like this take her to a ball game, football, basketball whatever and in front of a million people tell her you love her and ask her to marry you. If someone did that, I think I'd pass right out! :) Good luck, and best of wishes to you!
105127
Hey man\nwhat you did...I think it was great...I hope she doesn't...if some how(by odd chance you find out she didn't) please let me know...lucky1_29_91@yahoo.com...it will be a real blessing to know one less girl will still be a virgin
998213
The best way to do is tell your freind is to be brave and be wise on what she tells to her best freind, at first i didn't know what you were talking about just as then i noticed ur friend's best friend is all over her bf the best way to do is tell her best freind and have  a chit-chat about it. mayb it's bcaz she doesn't know how ur freind feels that's all! so go ahead and tell her.
82889
Go have some drinks with them, the alcohol will allow you to break the news at the right time during a conversation. \n\nDon't get too drunk now! You don't want to go confessing your love to your friend and ruining the relationship by trying to lick their ear or something stupid like that.\n\nThat should work. And besides, if it goes badly and you get rejected, THEN you can proceed getting drunk to ease the pain since your already at the bar.
695763
You and your best friend dress in sexy skirts, walk up to him, stick out your hand, introduce yourselves with handhakes. You be the one doing the introductions, introduce yourself first, then say, "and this is my best friend..." and give her name. Then give him a wink and say, "and we share EVERYTHING." Ask him for his name, and when he gives it, thank him, then you both turn and walk away.