why do girl always say "she is pretty" and guys doesn't say "he is handsum"?
94667
Guys (even old ones) aren't comfortable enough to say "He is handsum".  Truth is: it's not guy-like to do it.  Women can say handsum or pretty because it's feminine, but a hetero guy won't normally do it because it just doesn't come natural.  A gay guy may say it, but it's because he's more comfortable behaving feminine.
1084760
Yes you are a very pretty girl\n  Don't ever think that you are not cute\n  It's what's inside that counts not what's\n  outside.
1082164
yea but guys are hard to read and if they dont want to tell you something theyll get around it.....girls look to their friends to let them know what a guy is thinking cuz they know that theyll be honest and they cant figure it out for the life of them so mayb their friend can.
398460
When a guy " holla" s at a girl and she responds to it, she is a hollaback girl . Which means that if you aint no hollaback girl, then you want respect from a man and wont reply to a disrespectful or degrading attempt to get your attention.
186676
I think the people that should build a girl's self-esteem fail her, from mother, father, siblings, etc.  They need the reassuring, and they are taught bay the media that it is to be expected.  How many times does a guy tell an attractive girl or woman that she is beautiful?  She knows it, but her self-esteem has not accepted it.  Those with self-esteem want more than flattery.
1091480
Be patient, a lot of girls take time to warm up to good looking guys because most of them are cocky, also a lot of girls don't use looks as a basic must have in a boyfriend. It's all about compatibility.
398369
its not how u say it.. but how to prove it.. its how u respect her..its now how u wrote it but how u give time to her.. most of the time guys are like this..
732949
you are likely very beautiful.  if guys say it, they think you are hot.  if women say it, they might be jealous and are trying to make you feel bad or slutty.  ignore the girls!!
28354
As a guy, apperance comes 2nd for me.\nIf a girl has a great personality and has a certain amount of confidence, that will make the girl prettier on the inside(cliche but true.)\nA girl with JUST good looks will get boring after a while, she has no real "core" to her.
578458
May be the insecurity complex of Handsome people coz they cant stand competition. Second that knowning their face value they know they can get anyone easily, and they often do, so they want to make sure it doen't happen with their partner -- while they ceat around the 'ugly' partner stays honest. Third, since they are handsom and God had to make some compromise so He reduced their senses, and they cant appreciate beauty anymore, while the 'ugly' partner is compensated and gifted with sense of beauty, thus chooses the good looking. Least but not the last ;) looks are only shallow, what matters is heart --- and whether ugly or handsom, if you have a beautiful heart, you will see beauty everywhere. :)\n\nLast but not the least -- my lover is very beautiful!
918492
cuz girls look better then guys.
468531
Yes and No.\nWhy Yes:-\nDepend on the guys, some guys are very talkative and want their girls to answer them back. And like Women they love to hear nice compliments.\nWhy no:-\nSome guys are not that talkative, and only want short sentences answer. And does want to talk to their girls everytime, they have other time passes.\nIn modern world, guys are like women, they are gossipi, like style and fashion, like to hear compliments\nThere are only few % of non talkative guys.
558100
It depends on the person who calls them beautiful.  Even within the television "beauties" people's opinions differ on who is beautiful and who is not.  When I've let myself get beyond the surface (upon meeting a nice guy), I've noticed that his character overshadows his looks.  I hope that is true for women.
40655
Personally, I am very cautious and only say it when I mean it, because somehow it does scare most men.  In my opinion (just my opinion), some women are insecure and feel if they say that, it will show that they are giving affection to only YOU, that one special man.  Just like men, women aren't always honest and sometimes say what they think the man may want to hear or that it will benefit them in some way.
905847
First of all it's not in the human nature to see the good in people. Secondly, u cant blame anyone man or woman for questioning gestures especially when it comes to a man woman relationship (especially if ur dealing with attractive members of the opposite sex). Like if a guy approaches an attractive lady  and if the guy is attractive himself (or vice versa) the first thing on ur mind is usually not 'oh he's such a nice guy' it's usually where's the attached string or what does he/she want. Some people try to deny this NATURAL reaction and be like oh I didn't think anything of it. Granted, sometimes there aren't any hidden agenda's but unfortunately an evolution has occurred in the boy girl relationship world (partly thanks to the media) so u just gotta go through the whole process. Prove to whoever it is ur interested in that ur sincere and see if it works out.
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It's a little bit of both with normally personality leading.  Normally a guy won't like a girl that he can't stand no matter how good she looks (note I said normally, there are exceptions out there).  Guys will also sacrifice looks if a girl's personality is awesome (to an extent).  So all in all, guys will lean a little more towards personality.
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That's because most men are oblivious to these things.\n\nI appreciate the effort that women put into making themselves look good.  As a man you should compliment the women if possible (but of course in a non-degrading or provocative fashion).\n\nI am sure you probably get "looks" or get some "head-turning" action but most men don't vocalize.