whats it mean when my bf sees a girl and doesnt stop trying to take sneaky glances at her?
93221
I began writing a quick, "guys will be guys response," but then I saw your additional info.  The important question here is, why are you still with this guy?  It's unacceptable to behave that way in the situation you describe, and it shows a lack of respect for you and your relationship.
272819
You shouldn't be worried about your bf flirting unless he has or you expect him to be cheating on you. Many people flirt with others to know that they are still desired. He knows that you find him attractive because you're with him, he wants to make sure other people find him attractive. It is fine to feel insecure when he flirts but, don't let jealousy get the best of you. It might push him away. If it really gets to be a problem for you then you should talk to him about it.
1100480
no.... coming from a guy, if a guy is looking @ you, you catch him and he does not look away, he likes you. I mean he wouldn't be looking in the first place if he was'nt intrested right? It just means he is uh..... Not afraid ob being caught.
239203
There's no way for this to not be a two-part answer. Firstly, he's right in that it is human nature for males to notice other females *and* for females to notice other males - it's just an animalistic, survival thing.\n\nHOWEVER, it is *exceptionally* disrespectful toward you for him to admit being aroused by looking at other women, or to blatantly look at other women (especially when in your presence.) It is not at all unrealistic of you to be upset by his behavior and ask him to tone it down. He should care enough about your feelings that he won't want to intentionally hurt you by keeping it up.\n\nIf you explain that it hurts your feelings (and probably your self-esteem) when he behaves this way, ask him to be more discreet, and he *still* doesn't bother, it may be time to look into counseling. This is obviously his hang-up, and he may need help to see the effect that his behavior is having on your relationship. Good luck.
288659
no offense but do you think that you may be asking for the fights ??? people look at other people some times its because theres some thing they like about that person or they are reminded of some one else that was a good thing in there life , what ever the  reason if you bust his chops over it then he is going to get fed up with it , weather he and you split up over it depends on how hard you push this subject , its only human nature , and if this girl is real nice to him even if its just on a friendly side then you may even push him to her because you could breakup and he will look to her just to piss you off , I'm am sure you look at other men even if its an actor , sport personality , or some one your friends ask if you think he is hot , every one looks!!!! its if he isn't looking and touching that you have to worry about so dont give him a reason to feel that you being a bytch about it all and looking for a fight , i have been with the g/f for 5 years and i still look and have looked right along but i don't want to cheat on her i just look , and as far as how she looks beauty is in the eye of the beholder , maybe he likes fat chicks and he went with you because he saw something in you that made him like you , you may be the hottest chick to some one and a real dog to some one else , if she got 3 kids some one liked her enough to give her 3 kids !!!!!
81192
Hard to say from this point of view.  Some guys think they're getting signals if a girl looks at them at all, while she may just be wondering what he's staring at or just accidentally got caught scanning the room.  Others have to be slapped in the face with it.  If you think someone is sending you signals but don't want to be over cocky about it, pay some more attention and maybe let her see you sending some signals.  If not, okay, let it go.  If so she'll let you know and you won't have any problem seeing it.
978176
OK step:1. if he looks at you and smile a lot that's a sign \nstep:2. if he pays more attention to you and not his girlfriend\nstep:3. when he starts sizing you like looking up and down \nand i guess that's it. but if he has a girl then you should probably wait til they break up or look for another guy.=]
121659
He may have someone else around him but his heart is not attached. If this guy keeps throwing you side glances and exerts efforts to at least be close you or at least strike a conversation, girl, he might have his eyes on you.
356468
Gawking..is beyond looking or staring..  it's openly and obviously "staring" continuing even after the other person becomes aware of it..And yes it is creepy..Are you sure you don't want to dump Mr. Creepy for someone who will at least curb his lust for other women when you're around.
980432
Tell him you're feeling like he could be interested in someone else.  He'll either 'fess up, or do everything under the sun to reassure you that he would never even dream of glancing at another woman.  Either way, trust your instincts.
286462
PERHAPS HE CARES FOR YOU SO DEEPLY,HE FEELS YOU MIGHT GET "CONVERTED" OR "CORRUPTED" BY THEIR LIFESTYLE...OF COURSE,YOU HAVE A MIND OF YOUR OWN AND THE WILL TO CHOOSE WHAT YOU DO...MAYBE HE IS SIMPLY UNCOMFORTABLE WITH THE THOUGHT OF OTHER WOMEN EYEING YOU--AND LOOKING YOU UP AND DOWN. IN ANOTHER WAY,HE'S SAYING,"YOU ARE SO PRETTY--THEY MIGHT TRY TO MOLEST YOU!" TAKE THAT FOR WHAT IT'S WORTH, OH DIVINE MISTRESS....
631936
no! of course not. Guys look to & get a glance to sexier girls even if their girlfriend is at their side with them!
256124
I stare at a lot of women's rears and it doesn't always mean that I want a relationship with them.  You need to find out more about him and his current situation before you jump to any conclusions.
817063
Explain to him that you are flattered by the attention he is showing you and you are pleased that he likes you so much because you feel the same way, but you know he has a girlfriend, and until that changes and he's "single" again, the flirting has to stop.  He'll respect the fact that you don't want to break up a relationship or get him into trouble with his girlfriend, and you aren't putting any pressure on him - you're merely being honest.  Always take the high road.  If he is being honest with you, and he wants to pursue a relationship with you, he will move on from his current relationship.  If he doesn't, you'll know that his flirting was just that and nothing more.  Good luck!
15411
It is okay to look at others, but a person should have respect not to do it so obviously in front of his girlfriend.\n\nI don't think he will do anything with the other girls.  But every girl likes to feel that the boyfriend only has eyes for her.  He is insensitive to this issue.\n\nI think you are right.  If he continues to do it, do it on his own time.  If this doesn't slow down, it might be time for a new boyfriend.  One that respect you.
462092
well that could be a way of flirting to keep u wanting to look at her...or it could mean that she is shy
585834
It could be that he's attracted to you. You can be attracted to more than one person at a time. But you choose to be with one person. Unless he breaks up with his gf, don't let him do anything with you. You will end up feeling used.\n\nOR maybe he sees you as a friend, just someone he's comfortable with. Maybe you misinterpret his looks and because he feels like you're a good friend, he tells you his news first.\n\nI guess, you could always ask him! But think about it, if he's willing to flirt with you while he has a gf. And then breaks up with her to be with you, most likely he will do the same thing to you!