What if you think you found the perfect guy but he isn't ready for a serious relationship, how long do u wait?
86849
ask yourself, how long are you willing to wait? and is that either with or without any assurance? because in a relationship, there is a so-called give and take and it applies on some instances such as yours. you cant make yourself wait that long and then it will all be in vain.how about considering your own happiness? go out and make yourself available to others, after all if the perfect guy is really meant for you, love will find a way so goes the cliché.
428176
dating, cool... \n\nif it goes further than fun I'd just make sure you didn't give your heart to someone who is not ready for commitment...\n\n\nHowever I'd also add that by looking at your other answers you seem like a together, feet on the ground individual, so I'd guess you've picked a guy who's pretty together too.\n\nI wish you all the best
780903
you wait till after he doesn't have a gf anymore ;-)
738098
If you have to think about it, then you aren't ready. There is no harm in waiting.  If he loves you he will wait and be patient.
1105542
no problems, took me a long time to find someone myself.  Just be happy with what you got, keep your eyes open, not only for someone but for that little click that just tells you it's right.  Be confident as well.  A nice guy will come around when the time is right.  Just don't make yourself paranoid while you wait.
443691
Give him a chance.  If you think later that you dont think he is right, then breakup.  I wish the people I asked out would...
148585
There is no set amount of time to wait.  The guy should ask when he feels that he is ready to make that commitment, and the girl shouldn't accept until she feels ready to make that commitment.  Everyone moves at their own pace so go with your heart and let it be your guide.
188971
not all guys are like that. i know i'm not. i can think of only one thing in life that comes before a serious relationship, and that's my daughter. i know plenty of guys that would love to get into a serious relationship, but they need to find the right person first. it takes time, but you'll find him sooner or later as long as you don't give up on love
580174
may be u rush up? start thinking bout commitment wen u shud br tryin to get to kno him more? analys all ur previous relationships n find out wat was common.how did it start? who approached first? how long did u date him b4 u started thinkin it was forever...dont rush up in ur next relationship in fact take a breake n enjoy being single (grls night out etc)dont go out wid da intention t&#92;of hitting on guys. but just to have fun.den if u meet some one interestin do interact but dont think only in terms of posibilities. let da relationship grow on its own
337013
You can't trully know about any serious intentions until you get to know him. I mean really get to know him. If he's popping serious questions now, he's kind of shallow,or he is totally going at it on a feeling.Feelings tend to change,or be heavily conditional. Which means those feeling are only there when the conditions are right. Proceed with caution.
564882
How much time has passed?  If he's not willing to commit, then he's probably not right for you if that's what you are ready for. You can hang on for years with him, or get on with your life and find someone who will really value you, and want to make that committment.
315241
You don't. You never really know. You think that person you're seeing right now is the "right one", but maybe 2-3 years down the road they may not be. Things will change no matter what you do. Learn to accept each other. Work out your problem. When you truly understand where each other are coming from that is maybe when you have found the right one.
504584
Maybe he isn't ready for a new relationship yet.
930505
He might just not be that into you. If he's not ready, he's not ready. You cannot force it; otherwise it will end.
824451
If it was a serious relationship involving love, there is no true time limit. It all depends on when your ready. I would say six months. You never know, but if you try going out and it doesnt feel right. You would know that means your not ready.
394341
depends on what your intentions are... if you're looking for long-term, he has to be someone you can and want to trust and has a personality you can find attractive.  it goes much much deeper, but everything else falls into place around that\n\nif you're looking for a short-term relationship, don't keep high standards; just enjoy it while it lasts.
699499
Give him three months at least. That is a decent enough time for anyone to gather one's senses and wits back. Then, tell him that you are confused about his interest (or lack of) in you and think that it will be better for both of you to move on. If he agrees or doesn't improve by that time, its time to move.