how do i get him back?
89311
Talking about it is the right thing.  Don't let him avoid this discusion, make him have it.  You both deserve to get this figured out so you can either move forward together or move on with your lives seperately.  If he continues to refuse then make it clear this is over and your moving on.
111565
Stop being selfish and let her be happy for once.  Even if you could get her back, it would never be the same...she will always have some bit of resentment towards you.
211089
He has to want to get back with you.  His reasons for not wanting to be with you may not be in your control.  The best thing you can do is to make your life something wonderful and hope that he realizes what he has lost and wants to be a part of it.
249472
Don't get him back "half" ... but if you "have" to get him back, put something goopy in his shoes or the pockets of his jacket :)
1027002
Find someonelse to get him out of your system. \nMen try to be polite and say sweet things to ease you but then women read this compassionate talk as false hope. Honey, it's all BS because is OVER and is been over since August last year.\n\nIf he wanted to be back he would already been back.\nFind some new friends, go to a divorce support group to be able to vent your pain and share experiences with people that have been thru the same. If you keep on holding on you will continue suffering. Realize once and for all that he is not coming back, come one. you are DIVORCED and you don;t have to keep on holding on the candles waiting for him to make his heroic return. Noone is going to give you a medal for being a marthyr...so go out and have fun, you are a newly single gal. He is out ther having fun, so why are you crying at home?\n\nLet go and move on\n\nGood luck.
921227
the only way to stop feeling like you want to get back with him is to realise all the reasons you haven't worked in the past. Write a list of everything that split you up and then study it. Then ask your self if the only reason you want to get back with him is because it's better than being alone. Which in the long run it isn't.
857301
Sounds like he wants you two to get back together again but is too shy or too ashamed to ask, may be that he is afraid you will turn him down.  Hang loose awhile and see what the outcome will be.  If he still likes you, you will hear from him before very long.  Good luck kid.
895234
This is a very fragile thing your flirting with here. You can get a spell and make him come back to you, but do you really want him back on those terms? You love him-set him free. If he returns he's yours-if he doesn't he never was. Spell casting to strenghthen your love is OK, but to get him to love you back is dangerous and would not recommend this practice. Please rethink what you want, and take a different approach.
948063
Tell him that you are very sorry that you hurt him. I don't know what happened to make your relationship go bad...but I know that if I was dating a guy and we broke up for whatever reason I wouldn't want to hurt him. That would make me hesitate to break up with him. Maybe you could point out whatever difference that broke you up is now resolved. Tell him also that you could start out very slow as friends and then get to the dating stage evenutally. If you really love this guy you will be willing to take as long as it takes to win him back. Good luck.
454419
Ask yourself do you really want him back?? Or do you want the feeling of being in a loving relationship?? If it is him, that you want back, does he want you back? I think that best thing that you can do for yourself is to go on with your life. There are others out there and you are holding yourself back wanting what you can't have. We always want what we can't have,but while you are pining away for the past you are missing out on the future. If you two are meant to be together than it will happen. You can't make someone want you and you can't take him back, he is not yours he belongs to himself and he has to find his own way in life.
460984
Does he want you back? If so, try saying, I know we did'nt click the first 2 times, but you know what they say, the third times a charm,,wanna try again? You never know, it might work! Good-Luck!
784203
There is no harder way then to tell him your feelings...but at the same time, there is no better way then that to show him that you really do care and that he means a lot to you. It sounds like you really miss him and want him to be yours again but I only have one warning. If it didnt work b4 because of the distance then are you goin to try something different if he has to go back? Just dont give up and tell him how youu really feel. You might be scared but it could really work out in the end! I hope it works out for you and you two get back together! Good luck!
206506
Stop playing f***ing mind games . . . \n\nYou told him you needed space . . . he took it as "space away from him" because you are not interested in him.\n\nIf you want him . . . go over and talk to his a**.  If not leave him alone . . . because the only way he will come back to you is if you go to him first . . . unless he is a p***y (And it sound like he is not).
984606
Chick why would you want him back.  A guy like that doesn't deserve you.  He told you he doesn't like you as much as he did before and that he's being mean to you.  Let him go and find someone that will like you especially after a year and will not be mean to you.  You will be much happier if you do.
367246
Tell him you miss him & want him back and you would like to forget the past and move forward with someone you love.
289489
it depends on how he really feels and the way you make him feel if there is something that he likes that you do and you do it you may get him back but i don't know that's the best answer i have for you.
394519
Well,Believe it or Not ! They Say If You Love Somebody Set'em Free! If They Come Back They Are Yours If Not They Never Were !\n\nWell ! Maybe you will get him back if you stop going after him