My husbandsaid that his brother is lucky to havemarried one from his own culture.I'm foreign.whatdoes thismean
97326
It means he was probably drunk and has an IQ in double digits.
97444
I (a man) have one full sibling (a brother) and my wife has a sister. We had a boy for our first kid in November. So, it happens. Good luck.
1032176
Your traditions are what you make them. They apply to you alone. Make the most of your wedding and marriage. Nobody can ruin that for you. Forget what everyone else does. Don't give their traditions a second thought. Save your energies for your husband. \n\nAnd a big CONGRATS for saving yourself for your husband. It's bold to be different. \n\nHave a great life.
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Nothing. My husband of 45 years married me against his family's wishes and to this day I am not favored. But we have lived a wonderful life because he chose me as a wife. Marriage is between two people not two families. It is nice when everyone likes each other. He gave up part of his family because he refused to give me up but to this day, he is glad he chose me and the ones that didn't like me 45 years still don't like me now. If he can survive with the disgrace so be it.
551831
You won't get into trouble but he is probably marrying you so that he can become a citizen. How well do you know him? He could even be married back in his own country. That happened to a friend of mine.
15223
same with any westerners marrying Thais. Its okay, its win win situation, they want you, you want her. Life goes on.
874826
your name souds like an indian"shame on u be ashamed of yourself" as  an Indian how can u forget our culture.Just imagine if another man is asking the same ques for your wife.Then u'll know u r such a shame less person
394137
my hubby is from peru. does your man come to see you or others? if its for you, then you have your answer. if not. make a trip to see him. that should say it all.
579879
If he is close to his family then look at it this way he will make on heck of a family man. I would feel honored if I was you. Try offering to go to family get togethers with him and get involved with his family. They could become your family one day.
942793
Yep, that's me ;) It's the best decision I made, marrying my sweetheart who's from the States. I come from a country that's very rich in tradition, and I'm chinese. Since we've been involved, he learnt a lot about my culture and the traditions that we have. Although we still have disagreements in our relationship sometimes, but it's the one thing that brings us closer too. Life will never be boring for us, that's for sure.
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I am in your shoes as i type, I am married to a island man, and it was love at first sight, but I will be honest with you, you are going to miss your family like hell! I have no family where I am residing now, but once love is in the air that's all the matters.  I am very family orientated myself, my husband is not!  If you can get him to move where you are at good for you, but if not you just have to follow your heart like i did! Take care! IF YOU WANT TO TALK YOU CAN EMAIL ME SPORTINTAHOE07@YAHOO.COM
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Your husband's behavior doesn't have anything to do with his nationality. Most Iranian mens are, in fact, very respectful toward their ladies.\nI have to admit that some Persian men do get a bit possessive (for lack of a better word), but what you describe is not at all the norm. \nIf I were you, I'd seek professional help.
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My child was born out of wedlock.  We aren't your typical family, as one might think of.  A mom,dad, siblings, etc.  We are a family, a dedicated family.  We are a strong close knit family, my child and I.  We are doing well.  I am doing well by my child and she is doing well by me.  Love overcomes all.
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I guess you are in a classic Kabuashi maru(a no win senario) I am taking that your working over seas in a domestic capacity, being conservative, and having the portential to have this mar the family and hometown you are from an Asian nation or from an Asian culture. If so, I am sure you were quite aware of the risk even if you take way all religious elements out of it. \n\nYou say you love you husband, but by your actions you are not IN LOVE with your husband. that love has moved elsewhere. This situation is basically like having them both on a burning bridge and you can only save one. Who are you going to save? who was the 1st to come to your mind that you would want to try to save 1st? that man is the man you really love. The man who is your lover, did he know you were married? Did he make the 1st move towards being lovers or you? If he made the 1st move, he was letting you know he didn't care or respect your husband or your marriage. He was thinking of him. And if he made the 1st move and you accepted you did the same to your husband. You had dishonored him and disrespected him by living a lie with him where he thought he was the only one of your life. Seeing that you are not fearful or seem anxious to go back you your birth country if it means being stuck there, I take it your children there are not small or grown adults. Is the reason you want to be able to get back to the work country is because of the children there, or him? \n\nThe mistake has been made. they say hind sight is always 20/20. You can not unring the bell just control how loud and long the ring will be. If your desire is to be in the work country with the man you are in love with as oppose to just loving then say nothing and hope that you can return. Or better yet, just tell everyone what has happend and that you can not come for fear you will be seperated from your new family. Eventually the carcase always washes up on the shore. If you are back home and an emergency happens with one of the new kids that need your attention immediatly how would THAT look? Each lie takes 10 more to support it. After a time there is too much weight and it all comes crashing down. If you have any respect for your husband tell him. Why have him waiting for you if you no longer want to be with him? And if you are not planning to live back at home with your husband why care what family would say or the town? You have clearly shown that you want to be with him more than any bad thinking on the part of others.
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My brother (Chinese) is married to a German-American woman. They have two beautiful children... REALLY beautiful ;-)\n\nBut frankly, it has to do with the way our media portray's what is sexually attractive. We're all culturally conditioned to what is attractive, and Asian males are not usually portrayed as such.
861618
Your baby has your nationality.
506511
I would guess that you both found different examples or role models to emulate.  Your brother may have found himself immitating regional accents and people, and you may have focused more on external sources.