what do you do when your boyfriend wants your relationship to go to another level but you really dont?????????
79067
First of all u should do what's best or comfortable for u. Do what I did. Set a date and if ur feelings toward him don't change and ur not ready to take the next step,then don't!!! If he truly cares for u and doesn't want to lose u, then he'll wait. If not, move on.
474622
you need to sit him down and tell him how you feel. it sounds like it is time to slow things down, alot. you both need to sit and talk about what the 2 of you want out of this relationship. when the 2 of you are on the same page it will be alot easier.
618014
Tell him to let you know where he's coming from if he wants to continue on in a relationship or give up.  And be firm about it.  Stop playing games.
38183
Talk to him and tell him it's not working out.  Try to be cordial and just get it over with.  Dragging out the relationship is just going to make the break-up more difficult and painful when it finally does happen.
1023887
I think you are doing that best that you can do in this circumstance. Relationships shouldnt be all about promises. I dont think you are wrong. You only keep promises when you KNOW that you wont break them, if u dont think you will, i am not sure that is even enough. You are doing it the right way and if i were you dont get to caught up on it. It shouldnt be that big of a deal I am sorry about this! Good luck!
1177456
First, talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel and what you think could be better. If he's really serious about the relationship, he'll be more than happy to work on things. Don't out it all on him, you both should work things out together, even if it's on his part.
968384
he's just trying to make you jealous.  i would tell him it's not working and that it is just making you doubt the relationship.  if he doesn't stop after that then move on.
99902
COMMUNICATION... Let him know what you want out of the relationship. After all, you don't want to waist your time,or his. Then again, who cares about his?
835628
you have to come on here for an answer??? Leave the relationship behind if it isn't what you want anymore. Move on.
1175176
Tell him you and him aren't on the same level as to what you both want out of life. While you love him as a friend, you want more and since he isn't willing to commit, it's best to end this now. Wish him luck and the very best then get on with your life.
328474
explain to him that you feel you are ready to try taking your relationship to the next level to see if your really ready. thats what I like to hear though, that a girl will set a boundry thats cool.
776728
have a serious talk and if he still insists then break up with him.\nthere are other guys who can respect your decision.\n\nbesides thing could get ugly if you stay with him. from pushy to abuser. he might do anything just to get it. and i mean anything, if you know what i mean.\n\ntake much care
215704
It seems that you two don't see your relationship on the same level. You're looking for some sort of attachment, or commitment maybe, and he's just looking for...fun. \nMy advice is to talk to him and try to get him on the same level, or at least let him know that you aren't on the same levels.\nBecause as of now, it seems to me that he's using you when he doesn't feel like going to other girls. \nUnless you really want to take that, I suggest you talk to him and tell him how you feel about him for one, and tell him how you feel about him going to other girls when you love him and he loves you.\nBest of luck.\nCommunication is the key.
370081
Tell him that you aren't comfortable and to slow down. If he is genuine, he will respect your wishes. If he isn't genuine he won't - then dump him. \nLove and romance isn't a race. You should form a partnership and agree a speed to develop the relationship. Anyone who isn't willing to wait for you is just using you - get out and don't look back.
607518
nothing you can do... Feelings can't be controlled.  You need to back away and let things unfold.  It will be painfull at first, but you never know what may happen.  That relationship may not last, and then he may see you in a different light.  Or you may find someone who sweeps you off your feet.
1106207
Respect him and go at his own pace...be happy that he wants to take it slow! That means he is serious and wants things to be done right. Talk to him about it, share your feelings and have him share his. It will all work out, just don't push him into anything, some people take longer than others.
502623
Sounds to me like you need a break, at least for awhile. You need to re-assess where you're headed in this relationship, and whether or not , that's where you WANT it to go. Take a while off, and get away from him.....see if you really want to continue....or not!