How do i tell my family that i think i may be bi?
91936
Dont make things hard on yourself.  If you think you may be bi, dont say anything until you know.  Even then I still wouldnt say anything unless you fell in love with a women.  Family will always love you but dont put yourself and your family through stress they dont need.
530079
Sexuality is not a choice, you are what you are. If she wants to be Bi-sexual, she should follow her heart.  Being honest is not a bad thing. Better to find out now before an entire family's future(kids, husband...) could be at stake. If she is just experimenting because she is curious, that is OK to.  Just be SAFE.
767038
Well considering shes your teahcer there isnt much you can do in that department. i mean you cant really approach her. i mean i guess you could. Really , I just think you should explore the fact that you like girls and go from there. If you feel you really do like them for sure and you may be with women in the future then you can consider telling your parents. From my own experience though, you must know that more than likely if you tell your parents now that you think you are gay or bi they are unlikely to believe you so be prepared and have a strong support system from some friends.
496329
A few years back I was in the exact same boat.  Now I'm openly bisexual.  \n\nI wouldn't worry about it dude.  If you're not finding any guys you want to jump, then just say you're straight.  If you find a guy you like, then go for it and see what happens.  Maybe you're bi, maybe its just a naughty fetish thing.  You're not going to know until you try it, so stop with the worrying and the drama and just see where life takes you.
274799
I don't know,  abot two years ago, I came out to a friend of mine when I was really drunk.  I know that is not a excuse, but I really liked her and wanted to tell her.  When I told her she told me that she was also bi, and wanted to tell me for a long time but was afraid that I would not accept her.  Her reason that people think it is bad, because they have not tried it yet.
117443
Tell her that you're gay, but to not tell anyone because you don't want to come out yet.
320251
There is absolutely no easy way to tell family these things.  I think it's easiest just to be honest.  Ultimately, the decision is yours not your family's.  \n\nDon't be nasty about it and say something rude.  Just ask that they give you a chance to tell them how you feel about this person.  But remember to let them share their feelings as well.
763281
Well as they know you have slept with guys already it is perhaps not going to come over as too much of a shock.\n\nWith friends, unless they are a little bit "easily led", they are more than likely going to laugh at you and say seomthing like "err, tell us seomthing we didn't know".\n\nAs for family, about the only reaction I would expect would be a little sadness perhaps as the realisation that they are probably NOT going to given grandchildren from you after all.\n\nAs for the Catholic side of things, I am not sure where it would make that much difference "being bi and sleeping with a guy" or "being gay and sleeping with a guy".\n\nMight just be me, but as you say family and friends already know you only sleep with guys, I think they might well be one step ahead of you here :)\n\nWarm Regards\nMark
936219
There's no need to declare yourself anything right now.  In a year or two, you will know if you are or not gay.  \n\nYour attraction may just be envy of guys who have matured physically ahead of you, or perhaps what you want to be  That doesn't make you gay, it makes you human.  \n\nRead up on it if it still nags at you.  Ask more questions.  Talk to someone you TRUST.
620309
You have the thought of being bi? Umm you are bi if you like both sexes! You have to be honest and up front with your girl! Just tell her your feelings. She might understand. But if you truly love her then you wouldn't do anything to hurt her.
1065693
I am out to my friends and family.  I did not come out until I was 23...a few years ago and it lifted such tremendous weight off my shoulders.  I cried to my Mom and told her that my "friend" was more than that and I was tired of hiding my feelings.  I actually feel free now.  No more trying to have a girlfriend to look "normal" in front of my parents.  No more calling my boyfriend a "friend".  No more hiding from people when I want to hug the person I love.  No more lies. Period.\n\nOne thing I did learn is that you cannot rush it to come out.  Your time will come. Just be yourself.  You may have to cover up things you really do not want to, but be cautious of who you confide in and expect some people to shun you and not want anything to do with you.  But don't sweat it. Your real friends will be accepting and it won't eve be an issue.  Being gay shouldn't be the topic of every discussion...it's just an extension of you are.  You happen to like someone of the same sex. People just need to accept that.\n\nYour life will change, but for the better.  You do not want to go through life hiding and faking.  That is more difficult than just coming out an dealing with people who dislike you for being gay.  It makes it easier for you to know who can be your friend when they know the real you.  And, coming out is a journey.  You do not just come out and blabber it away to everyone.  If someone asks...tell them the truth. But, if they don't..it's none of their business.  The time will come when you need to tell them if necessary.\n\nIt's up to "us" to educate people and let them know that we are just as normal as they are.  Who we sleep with has nothing to do with our pesonality and our capablilities of being successful in life.  \n\nSo, again, don't spend to much time thinking of when you should come out.  Your time will come.  If it's now...then do it.  But be ready for good and bad.\n\nUltimately, you will find happiness in yourself and the people that love you will see that.
868596
First, do you think most people know that you are bi or gay?\nOf course not. So, the guys that you believe are straight, could very well be bi or gay. Keep your chin up!!!
168829
If you are attracted to both sexes then date both sexes.  You don't need to define yourself by saying you are full blown gay or you are bisexual.  Enjoy yourself and when you are ready to settle down for good you'll know which sex you want to do it with.  Let it come naturally to you and don't stress.  Hey, you have the both of best worlds so enjoy it.
700020
First of all, there's no reason to belive that your brother is gay just because he hangs around with a bunch of theater guys.\n\nBut if he is gay, it's probably best that you let him tell you when he's ready rather than confronting him on the subject.  Create a welcoming environment.  When you discuss gay issues, make it clear that you are accepting of gay people and that you support gay rights.  Then be patient.  If he really is gay, he'll need some time to come to terms with his own sexuality before he's ready to share with his family.
492955
Yeah I know that one. I told my mum and she totally flipped. I was trying to tell her so she wouldn't be surprised if I told her I was seeing a guy. She didn't understand, a lot of people don't understand being bi as opposed to gay or straight. They can't understand it, feel it's some sort of sexual perversion, "wanting it all". You will prob even find that being bi it will be really hard to find a relationship because there is always the fear from your partner that they can't give you something that the opposite sex to them can.\n\nAll you can do is let them know. Maybe talk about a previous relationship and tell them after that you tried... and found that it was good too and that you want to let them know so they don't have to deal with a big shock should you end up in a relationship with someone they don't expect. Either way it can sometimes be harder than being gay.\n\nGOOD LUCK!
38022
you don't have to make a research on " how to say to your love ones that you are bi sexual ", coz, just act the way you want to, by the time they notice that you are bisexual, absolutely, they will ask you, then answer them...
443009
This happend to someone I knew.\n\nwhat I suggest is keep on truckin' and be who you are.  Unfortunately in our society there will be people who will not accept for who you are, family included.  \n\nSometimes its too hard on them when they see you as a woman, some families prefer to just turn a blind eye and pretend that everything is alright.\n\nHopefully you have an open-minded family.\n\nClose-minded religious folks + GLBT is like oil and water.