My boyfriend was fine one day then the naxt he just stoped talking to me all together did i do anything wrong?
80017
That isnt the way a mature individual reacts to a normal relationship problem. He may have some problems or he may be cheating or something like that. Either way, someone who deals so badly with a girl he said he loved is not someone worth your time.
54973
Maybe he was afraid. Possibly he could have shown you pictures of someone who is not him, and would be ashamed if you found out. Or, he was just afraid. Possibly something came up, or he's a cheating jerk.\n\nI suggest you IM or eMAIL him today or tomorrow about the situation, and if he doesn't respond within a week, drop him. He does? Decide if he's worth it, and be sure to tell him you want nothing to be kept secret (other gfs, etc.) and that he should not be ashamed of any of his qualities with you.\n\nGood luck!
500729
Don't dump him just yet! Maybe he was in a life or death situation (i know this sounds far-fetched but give him a chance to explain) If he stood you up for some really stupid or insignificant reason then by all means... nail his ass to the wall!!! But if he keeps doing stuff like this then he doesn't deserve to be reasoned with.
762633
He sounds like a control freak. Move on! Good luck to you!
1159993
maybe your boyfriend wasn't nice.\nlet's hope he is more considerate when he leaves you.
227283
I think maybe you should take a break from this guy.  Sounds like you are the only one getting back together with him.  There is someone else out there for you.
185944
It may be hard for him.  Don't get too upset, after a year's relationship that is probaby a very uncomfortable situation for him.  He is right to tell you not to spoil your life because of him.  Maybe he also felt you were still hanging on for some reason or another and thought the best thing for you, personally, was for him to not be around.  Sounds like he is a nice guy and things just didn't work out.  I would move on.
530117
you r absolutely right and smart to stick to your schedules. thats how you flush out the big phonies!! trsut me there you did not lose anything precious here. if he ever call again dont even bother having anymore conversation with this pervert. learn from these expereince and fell out guys like that in the future!! good going girl!!
236181
i think that he may have possibly overreacted. however, if you only waited like 5 minutes, you're probably not giving him enough space. if you waited a few hours though, there may have been something more. talk to him about it and let him know how you felt when he said that to you. also. listen to him and geta reason for why he said that. a realtionship is about listening and being able to talk to your dating partner about everything andbeing able to compromise when you make a mistake.
245188
He may have a lot of issues or feelings unresolved that need dealing with on his end.  Some men find it hard to relate their emotional feelings to their partner especially when they feel overwhelmed.  If he doesn't want to communicate with you in a few days I would definately be thinking you need to have a long talk.
54084
Nope.  He's just trying to keep you around for the time being.  You need to move on.  He had his chance.  And he blew it big time.  It'll happen again.
795847
wow!!! what a drama!!! baby girl, when he open up to his true emotion, he expects for you say the same and pour out your feeling also. but in this case, you didn't act the way he expected you to. so, this had scarred him. here is the deal, he wants you talk to him in the comforting to his shattered heart. this will take time to rekindle the flame. let him have some space, but be there for him.
980785
sure, try again and leave it at that. you could say something like, "do you want to talk?"...if he doesnt respond, maybe he just wants some time to himself (or possibly he could just not be paying attention to his msn)...he's probably experiencing a lot of difficult emotions right now, and people sometimes isolate themselves in times of difficulty. he may need someone like you to talk to though, so i'd so try once again.
81818
unfortunatly I have to say i reckon men are like that it has happened to me. We do not do it on purpose though. It is just that things seem to get into a routine. Do something dramatic and unexpected. Add a little spice to the relationship. Tell him to chill out, shut up, and have some dang fun or else. LOL    another thing is he could be going through some things in his life. Try talking to him and find out what is wrong.
476170
Because you froze he thought you didn't want to. Lots of things will be going through his mind so he was probly unsure wot to think. Now yourve said yes he will be happy, but i guess unsure wot to do! its not everyday this happens, so prehaps he doesn't know what to do next! try and spend a weekend away together, just you too. He can't escape so you will have plenty of time to talk and errr....well wot eva else you choose to do!!
883914
Are you sure your not being too clingy? Are you giving him some space? He might not be joking but not admitting it. Of course I cant judge it because I dont know how you are but you should ask him to be  bluntly honest with you so you can deal with it if it is a problem.
86428
Did he tell you this before he said he couldn't talk to you for that amount of time, or he didn't talk to you for that long? Did they sew his mouth shut? Did he break both hands? Does he have any friends who could have called you, or at least emailed you during this time?\nIt sounds like an excuse to me. Most likely, he found someone else some place and when that didn't work out, he's back online with you. That sucks, but if he were serious about you, he would have thought up a way to contact you. If he couldn't think of a way to contact you, then he's not very smart and you need to find someone who knows how to add two and two and come up with four, not someone who doesn't even understand the question.