How do you tell if a guy's interested?
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Engineers are notoriously bad at communicationg feelings, I know from experience.  But if he gets nervous talking with you alone, touches you unsolicited, offers massages or the like, or asks you to go to parties with him, you have a pretty sure bet.  Also, if he spends any amount of money on you, you are in.
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There are many ways to find out/know/get an idea that he does (but the only true way is going for the plunge & letting him know you're interested - if indeed you are - and hope that it will be reciprocated)...\n\n...you'll get lots of Answers on this one, so hoping to take a different stance on this so not repeating...\n\n...PUPILS, when you talk to him watch (without being obvious about it) his pupils...IF they get larger at points of talking with him or when first look into each others eyes this is a SURE BIOLOGICALLY PROVEN SIGN that he IS attracted/interested in you.  I've tested out this theory that I saw in a documentary once and it is true and I'd say 99.9% fool proof (don't believe anything is 100% proof in this scenario except literally asking him).\n\nIf you are interested in him, check out the dilution of his pupils and GOOD LUCK!\n\nLong live romance! :-)\n\nHannah
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Why don't you make it easy on yourself instead of spending hours trying to figure it out.  Just ask him, if he does great, if he doesn't well then move on love there are plenty more where he came from.\n\nalso read on it may help\n\nHow to know when a guy likes you \n\nHere's how to know if some one likes you: 1. Keep an eye on how many times you catch her/him staring at you. 2. Take notice of whether s/he smiles at you a lot. 3. Look for whether s/he focuses on you in a crowd. 4. Observe if s/he has suddenly taken more interest in your friends. 5. Pay attention to any significan't changes in her/his behavior toward you recently. 6. Start showing her/him a bit more interest and see how they respond. 7. Have a friend talk to her/him or one of her/his friends about you. 8. Ask, '[name], are you interested in me?' Tips: Hopefully you will not have to use steps 7 or 8, but if you're having difficulty reading her/him, these steps are your last resort! Remember, this is not an exact science, and it may take a few mistakes to perfect your technique. \n\nThe easiest way to tell (for anyone) is to just take an innocent step into their personal space. If they aren't interested then they will step away. If they are interested then they will set closer boundries for you and will therefore not mind your closer-than-normal presense. \n\nOne of the signs that a boy likes you is when he always teases you or makes fun/jokes. \n\nHe seems to find reasons to be with or near you. He may come up with what you think are lame or legit reasons to speak to you, call you, ask something. Try watching if he looks into your eyes or at least eye contact when he talks to you. Does he find ways to be closer to your body, near you, sit close or on the same side of the room as you? Does he talk to you instead of at you? Does he want your opinion? Cares what you have to say? Does he seem to be around you often, when he can? Does his face lighten up or seem to go from stress to unstressed when you walk in or say hello? A guy may not be obvious about it either, especially if he's shy, or maybe a little unsure of himself, which doesn't mean he's a loser at all but probably warmer from with in or more depth to him, more sensitive. \n\nBoys might not tell you directly, but they may tell someone. Or perhaps when you are not around but your friend is there he will ask for you. \n\nYou will know if a guy likes you because he will not hesitate to make eye-contact; he will either stare if he thinks you won't notice or hold your gaze when you catch him in the act (if he has a lot of confidence). If a guy is interested, he will also go out of his way to be as near you as possible without being obvious. Of course, the rules don't apply to all men, but generally, if he likes you, you WILL know it, without a doubt. \n\nI'm a guy and I think it depends, and different guys are different. Eye contact and attention isn't always the best way to tell. If a guy is shy he may get intimidated by girls he likes and actually make less eye contact \n\nI'm a guy, and I find it real hard to let a girl know I like her. I try to be funny, I smile (because I can't help it), I try to be close to her, but I can't verbally let her, or anyone know. Many guys have the same problem. \n\nI'm a guy. If a guy is into you, he will ask you out, or he'll most definitely go out with you when you ask him first. There are no exceptions to that rule, unless he was with someone else at the time and wants to be true to them. So unfortunately, if a guy does not go out with you when you ask him out, he does not like you. \n\nHere are some of the signs: he acts distracted when he's around you and fumbles for things. From the corner of your eye you think he is looking at you but when you look up he turns away abruptly and you think you are imagining things. He tries to like all the things you do. Your instinct tells you that he fee
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Watch him, the way he acts around you. If he pays attention to you or if he wants to be around you all the time and makes jokes with you, then he is interested in you and likes you.
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Just talk to him and ask what his interests are or whatnot. Try to see if your interested in those same things or if he's really nice. I dunno.
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Usually you can tell by the way a guy treats you. If you talks to you alot and flirts with you, and you do alot together then I am sure he likes you. Just ask him to get together and hang out and do something you both like to do.Then if he agrees it can be a safe bet that he likes you.
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If the guy touches you when talking to you he is flirting and therefore likes you.\nBeing friendly doesnt always mean he fancies you.\nMaybe ask a few questions and show an interest in his personal/private life, if he asks you some questions about you then he is interested.\nEven if you drop a hint or make a joke about taking you out for a drink his response will give you an idea.\nBe careful with this one though as it could end up being very awkward!\n\nGood luck
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How to know if he's interested: \n1.)Stupid showing-off type tricks performed to impress you (balancing acts, bike tricks, being a know-it-all, bravado in any form)\n2.) Teasing you, sometimes a little bit too mean, sometimes fondly\n3.) Eye contact that lasts a little longer than it should\n4.) It looks like he's straightened up his place for you when you visit\n5.) Informing/teaching you things\n6.) Chivalrious behaviour (opening doors, lifting things, small favors)\n7.) Finding excuses or reasons to brush elbows/knees with you\n8.) Acting totally goofy around you, even silly. \nHere are the obvious ones:\n1.) Making time to be around you\n2.) You hear from his friends that he talks about you\n3.) He thinks about you all the time and tells you that he's missed you or that he wants to hang out some time. \n4.) He gets incredibly tongue-tied when he's around you, shows signs of nervousness, covers his pants with a book when you walk up to him.\nBasically... if you are in junior high, these are the tactics. If you are in your twenties, thirties, forties or above... just remember: the rules haven't changed, and any combination of the above tactics will usually mean that he likes you.
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Notice how he behaves when he is around you. It really is not that hard to tell if a guy likes you if you can look at his behaviour objectively. If he is very friendly and talkative (more than he usually is) when around you, or if he is the opposite, shy and avoids you (when he usually isn't) then he probably likes you. If he is just a friendly guy overall, you have to be careful what conclusions you draw because he might be like that with a lot of girls. Try to notice how he behaves around other females. \n\nAsk yourself, does he talk and flirt with you a lot? If so, then he probably likes you. If not, you need to look deeper into his eyes. \n\nDetermine if he is shy. Does he always seem to be where you are? If you are talking to one of his friends, does he just come to listen to you, and maybe even have small talk to his friend, not you? If so, he might be shy. Some guys are shy around girls they like, but very open to those they wouldn't really have a big relationship with. If he avoids you at school and talks to you after school and on weekends it means he's shy...it also means he might like you. \n\nWatch him watching you. Does he stare at you for a period longer than normal? While in a class, look away from his direction, then quickly look at him after a few minutes, if he looked startled then he was probably staring at you. What you can do to 'hook' him now is to smile right at him and let him know that you know he likes you. \n\nStart a conversation with him. Ask him a question like, "Do you know what the homework was?" He might sweat, or turn a little bit red. This is another good sign that he might like you. If your eyes meet a lot and then you both look down then he likes you. \n\nAlso, if he is very attentive to what you are saying and tries to really show that he understands you, he probably likes you. \n\nTrust your instincts. If you think he likes you, he probably does. \n \nTry to look at the situation objectively. Ask a friend you trust for their opinion. \n\nThe guy might like you but not know he likes you. If this is the case, try to put him into situations where he will realize that he enjoys spending time with you. \n\nAlways be yourself around your crush...never try to be someone else so he'll like you more. The right guy will come...just be patient and wait for him! \n\nIt is fine to flirt with boys but don't make it too obvious that you're flirting...he might think you're kind of weird. \nIf there is a rumor going around that you like this guy that you don't like...don't let it bother you too much. They'll see that it is bothering you and think that you actually do like them even though you might not! \n\nBeware of friendly, outgoing guys. You might think he likes you but he might be like that with everyone and not realize how it is making you feel about him and his intentions.
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he may be interested in you, or maybe he just likes to flirt. does he flirt with you in other ways? talk to him, see how he acts when you're interacting with him. if you're not sure, then maybe you should casually ask him if he would like to hang out sometime.
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You'll never know till you try.  Just have a casual conversation with him...  Hang out.  See how he acts around you then you might get a vibe from him letting you know if he likes you or not.  Or get the courage and just let him know.  Just ask him "do you want to hang out sometime?"
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Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.\n1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?\n2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.\n3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.\n4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?\nJust remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
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u can tell tht a guy likes u by the way he looks at u. he looks at u when youre not looking and avoids when your eyes meet. he also shows signs of wanting to know u better like your fav food, hangouts, apparels tht u wear n u know, stuff about u.
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If he's interested in you, as you state, then he's interested in you. Duh!
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Sounds like he's interested.  Why don't you let him know you think he's nice and would like to hang out sometime.  This would be the quickest and nicest way to find out.... I bet he says sure!!!
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This is a pretty open question.  The first thing I look for to tell if a guy likes me would be if he is open with me.  It really helps if you are friends before lovers!  This way you can tell if you two would be compatible enough for a more loving relationship.
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One good way is to have a conversation with him and find out what he likes to do. Basically be interested in him. Pull him in slowly by adding bits of yourself into the conversation. Give him the eye and hook if he bits than he knows for sure your interested.