how do you not talk to the guy that you really like?
91602
easy just don't call him or look at him or run into him- i know its hard but eventually when he doesn't call you or come looking for you he will disappear, or at least go to the back of your mind.\n\nthink of all things that made you not want to talk to him.  how did he treat you? what did he do? what did he say or didn't say?  think of that and it will give you strength.  \n\nsweetie you are deserving of a guy that wants to talk to you and that you want to talk to
1030758
Sadly, stopping to think about him is one of the hardest things to do. There´s no way to just stop. And you´re doing it cause he´s obviously a really important person in your life and you really care about him.\nSuggestions:\n1- Go for it! ask him out.. get a friend to set you guys up... or at least hang out with him more so he can see the great person you are\n2- Find someone else that wants to be with you... unless you´re in Love with this guy you´ll forget about him\n3- Wait... a long time... i don´t suggest this that much because you´ll go pretty insane. Either you´ll end up liking him less or just getting use to the pain and the obsession. But i really suggest either trying to be with him or going for someone else
1033466
stop talking to other men while your with him.
275280
I don't know if this will help but it's what I do before when I like someone but I don't want him to notice.  First, know his interest and then if you can strike up a conversation be genuinely interested then  if he appear to  be interested in you too, try to appear busy and not so interested anymore.  Be a little distant then let him do the move.  Some guys like mystery in a girl and they want to  be challenged.  Actually, I noticed that they get bored easily in girls who try hard to be noticed.
266371
OK i have that problem with a lot if guys so if like they do stuff 4 u or they ask u out etc. U email them, call them,etc. and tell them that u don`t like them the way that they like you and that to just be friends!
429786
start by not following him everywhere.if they ask you before goin out if you wanna tag along just say no thanks and don't call to check in on him
1151066
The problem is when you like a guy you become really insecure and possessive over him in your mind. Then you eat yourself up about and wonder why he never notices. The key point is, stop procrastinating and let him know. You see you cant let fear get in the way, the reason why most people dont make the other person aware is because they fear the worst. The worst he is going to do is reject you and if he does, so what move on. You would rather be with a guy that loves you then with someone that does not. If you feel you can not tell him, write him a letter and then give it to him. Its a good thing to break the tension in your mind. If you do not tell him then perhaps he will find someone else and then you missed out on the opportunity. Dont let him be the fish that got away.
397096
Maybe the guy you like is staying away cuz you accept the advances (flirt, friendship, etc...) of the other guy, so you do not appear to be available. I would not want to "take a number" either.
609159
With a guy like him, you just have to tell him you are no longer interested in being with him, and just end it.  Don't continue to talk to him at all or anything.  If you don't like him as a boyfriend, don't even be friends with him at this point because he'll always be hanging on and you'll just get irritated with having to deal with him.  Then he'll never leave you alone.  It seems mean, but I've had to do the same.  You will find someone better and more emotionally stable, I hope!
74400
you like him or you don't like him? If you like him then tell him and explain that you need your space. If you don't then tell him you are not interested in a relationship with him.
583582
Hey Confused, this is 2006. It is okay to talk to the guy. Tell him that you are really mad at manipulative people. And that you noticed him and want to know more about him.\n\nYou say you really like him. Well, you must know something about him, what he likes, etc. Ask him to tell you more about himself. Guys are suckers for that. Really. Sit there and listen. If he plays an instrument, read up on it. Ask him what his favorite band is. You know things like that. Ask his opinion about movies, team sports.  Find common interests.\n\nIf you want him to ask you out, he has to know who you are and find you approachable. When he finds out you are easy to talk with, guess what? He will feel better about asking you out. Play it cool. \n\nAnd killing yourself? Hey, that is forever. Never going to get that good looking guy that way. Hang around. Be interesting and interested. Develop yourself and your own interests. Being not as eager is also a good thing. Remember this, dogs and men chase what runs away.
643320
How do you know he'll stop talking to you when you say you like him. That happened to me. Well he knows now. My friends told him because he was guessing who I like and himself. My friend is a honest person. Just tell him write a note and type it. So he dosn't know you did it. Don't say it was you. Or just sit there and enjoy the moment. Thats what I do every time when I'm with the person I like.
180766
YOU WASTE ALL YOUR TIME OBSSESSING ABOUT HIM BE-CUZ YOU REALLY LIKE HIM AND CAN'T LET HIM GO. I GUESS HE LEFT YOU WITH SOMETHING THAT NO OTHER GUY HAS LEFT YOU WITH AND THAT WHAT MAKES HIM SO SPECIAL TO YOU. JUST TELL HIM AND IF HE PUTS YOU DOWN THEN JUST LEAVE HIM. HE'LL COME BACK AROUND AND REALIZE YOU WERE BRAVE ENOUGH TO TELL HIM. THAT'S JUST MY GUESS THOUGH.
52785
tell him that you are not interested dating him but rather being his friend. or you could just flat out tell him that you like his bestfriend.
67897
you have so much nerves in you that makes you feel kind of a stage fright feeling,major butterflies.maybe someday you will be able to not have those feelings and actually talk to him or he will talk to you.if you dont talk to him,you might be loosing your chances with this guy.you never know.just try to say a simple hey,or hi or what ever you say.
287735
If you really like this guy , talk to him and tell him how you feel about this, if you are so-so , leave him and find someone "guyly" that you really like.
974952
Any guy that cusses at you isnt worth your time. On the other hand, if you still like the fellow you cannot make him tell you that he likes you, but you can tell him that you like him. However, in doing so you run a risk of him swearing at you which brings me back to the original point that i first stated. In the end however, balls in your court. good luck. :)