is it worth losing your virginity?My friend donna wants to know an i dont know what to tell her?
88439
What would she get in return? Possibly an STD. Maybe a baby? She could also get a reputation that she doesn't want in school. Now you tell me if it is worth it.
1153579
As a 33yr old male, I remember being very disappointed at the age of 15, when I lost my virginity.\n\nThe peer pressure from friends, making out it was the best thing since the Sega mega drive (Hey I was 15 at the time), the newspaper problem pages, TV and Film industries, all lead me to believe that it was going to an absolutely mind blowing experience.\n\nAnd when it was done, using protection, with my steady girlfriend (also a virgin) I was like, what? That's it? \n\nIt was the build up I found to more exciting, the thrill of the hunt, teasing, trying my best to reach the prize.\n\nSince then I have had many more experiences and found that with experience it does get better, a lot better when in a loving relationship with an experienced partner with similar likes and dislikes in the bedroom. \n\nBut sex is still not the be all and end all of a relationship, the ability to communicate and be best friends is far more valuable then being joined at the hip.\n\nHope this helps.\n\nPlease remember to use adequate protection whilst experimenting, and not loose your virginity to some idiotic loser who is going to run bragging to all his mates. Make him respect you first by holding out until you feel the time is right, don't be forced.
910850
So, you're a virgin? Hold up. That is something really, really special, and in my opinion, you do not want to lose it through some hook up. Sounds like this guy has major commitment issues, and just wants to get in your pants. I mean, hell, he even admitted that he is "awful at having a girlfriend." Sounds like he's trying to seduce you.\n\nYou really need to think about what you want. You need to realize that it is a very possible situation that he could have sex with you, then completely ignore you/leave you. Either that or you guys try to work out a relationship and it fizzles. These are very possible outcomes, and if you want to have sex with him, you need to be prepared for the outcomes. If you want to see him again, but don't want to have sex, you need to be vocal about your needs. You need to actively tell him "I don't want you to touch me here, etc, otherwise I'm leaving." He needs to respect you, and he has no right to touch you where you don't want to be touched. \n\nWhat is this bit about him having sex for only 20 minutes? What? Is he a virgin or not? Sounds like he had sex but he is just trying to down-play it so he can tell you he wants to lose it to you. Sorry, but that just sounds like another way to get you into bed. \n\nIt sounds like if you two get together again, something might accidently happen. When things heat up like that, you might end up doing something you didn't intend to do. I just want to really emphasis how important your virginity is, and you really need to keep it for something special. You will always remember your first time. Is this how you want to remember it? \n\nIf you do decide to have sex, please use birth control & condoms. And think hard about this, because this guy doesn't sound like he would be staying.\n\nGood luck.
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well if the girl isn't virgin well that is kind of bad that means she couldn't wait any longer so there you are 19 yrs. virgin with her. so if i was you i would lie to her but believe me once she looks at it she will know you are virgin so i think you deserve someone better someone that is virgin. by the way if i had a boyfriend that is 19 and is still virgin wow i'll get  all excited i am virgin and i would have sex with you so both would be virgin so if you wanna talk to me as a friend and tell me your real problem i would gladly do so www.billypapi@yahoo or call me 9565726222 and my name is marisol yes this is my real number people!!!!!!!
541469
She should get away from him!!!! How could she love him while knowing that he doesn't love her, only her body? Her virginity is much more important in this case. No one should ever let go of their virginity until after they're married! If you're a real friend you'll stop her from doing that and get her away from him.
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Being your first is a great priviledge for a man, so just make sure that he deserves it. And you have to be old enough to understand all the possible consequences of a sexual relationship: children, deseases and all that fun stuff. Just don't think that your virginity is something you have to get rid of until a sertain age or else...
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I didn't lose my virginity until I was 21. I kept it because I thought it was what God would want me to do. Once I lost it, I almost became a nympho. I felt I had to make up for lost time. All of my friends were out getting laid and partying and now they still think of me as the nerd. You might as well know that one day, sex is going to be a huge part of your life...for the rest of your life so when you feel the time is right, I say go for it. Don't be a slut, but for that person you have feelings for, go for it.
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You didn't lose it hon, you gave it away.  Should've really thought about it!\n\nYou need to get over it though, because hating yourself wont' maek you a virgin again...\n\n*laughs*
907382
First we need girth\n\nAlso either she's figured out you are a virgin, or she wonders why you haven't tried to sleep with her yet\n\nPlease make sure you you find a way to let her know before you have sex that you are a virgin - it really sucks (pardon the pun) to be getting down to it and figure out that he is scared to death - she needs to know that she needs to take the lead - and please please listen to what she is telling you  - you can learn a lot from a girl if you just do what she says - she's not going to ask you for something in bed if she doesn't really want it -  and don't forget the protection\n\nlet her know \nrelax\nlisten\nprotection\n\nAnd the other girls are right about don't believe the 9" stuff - not in the real world ans also smaller is better a lot of the time - I personally don't prefer pain
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I was 14, on the floor of my ex's mother's travel agency. I dont regret it for a minute. I had fun. It was fun. But you should do it when it feels right to you. Dont listen to us, what we did might or might not be right for you. YOu will know when you want to loose your virginity. And remember its not the age, its not the time its when it feels right to you. Whatever you do, be safe, and be cautious, and make sure that you NEVER EVER regret anything that you do. Otherwise, remember it won't be fun the first time; and it might even hurt! So, be careful. And just enjoy the moment!
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Virginity is as the most precious gift you have to give, so it should be highly valued.  Think about it: It is the only thing about you that you can give away just once.  So you should be extremely particular about that.  I wish now at 39 that I had been more particular when I ws 20!
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you guys are young!\ni was in a situation very similar to hers. \ni thought i would die if the guy i loved didn't take me in his arms and "consummate" our relationship (as you say) \nand well he caved to my wishes and it hurts now. every so often i regret not being a virgin. and we are in a long distance relationship too. and even though its working its tough.\n\ni would say wait. tell her whats in your heart. and it sounds like you have her feelings in mind in deciding not to have sex with her and if u explain that to her I'm sure she would appreciatte that you considered her emotions.
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Imagine asking a thousand boys about Doing It. We'd get three sets of answers on the subject of virgins... \n\n1. The "Thank God she's a virgin" answers:\n\n- She's never felt this way about anyone else. How special am I..?\n\n- If I'm rubbish in bed, she won't know the difference. There's no comparison.\n\n- I'll always be her Number One. Like her first day at school. She'll never forget.\n\n- I'm an explorer in unchartered territory - wa-hey!\n\n2. The "Thank God she's not a virgin" answers:\n\n- I can do without being The One - it's too much pressure.\n\n- Don't virgins bleed? Doesn't it hurt first time? I don't want to do that to anyone.\n\n- If she's not a virgin, she won't care that I'm not either. \n\n- She'll know what she's doing - wa-hey!\n\nBut I'd bet large sums of money on this: The biggest set of answers (by far) would be:\n\n3. The "Chuffed to bits whichever way" answers:\n\n- You? In bed? Bring it on! \n\nWhichever way, the past is ancient history. You stick to your guns. \n\nSo judging by the artical above either way a girl is either sexy or unsexy get me?
188960
NO!  I lost my virginity just before I turned 14.  Please don't do it, I wish I would have waited.  You have your whole life to have sex and you should share it with someone that truely deserves you.  Don't give yourself to someone who is not worthy of such a beautiful gift.  If you do decide to do it, please, please use a condom and get on birth control.  There are some nasty people out there.
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virginity when you got it seems to be a burden that grows.\n\nbut when it is gone ,it will be a loss.\n\nit will suprise some girls ,but it will also blow their mind and somebody might just apreciate it no end and be so much the happier for it.\n\n\nif you got this far ,you could hang on a little longer,25 is a good time to get married any way \n\ndont blow 25 years of control on a cheap thrill.\nthat it keeps getting harder I can well imagine,probably every day.but try to keep it up.
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Please, please, please wait. It is so important. My husband was a virgin when we married and I wasn't. I wanted to have my virginity back so badly when we married but it was too late. Our honeymoon was great but it was bittersweet because I had to deal with the regret of him not being my first. It could have been the best experience of my life. And everything else counts too. I wish I wouldn't have even held hands, kissed, or anything like that until I married. It would have been so special. Please save it for marriage.
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It's you and that's a good thing. Your virginity is sacred and you don't want to give that to just anyone. Keep it for as long as YOU want to. Don't feel pressure to lose it and give it up because you think that's what everyone else is doing. Believe it or not, they aren't. Don't worry about still being a virgin. Just live your life and enjoy being a kid/teenager/adult (since I don't know your age). I hope this helps! :)