why is it so hard 2 find a good looking girl with a nice personality to match.?
92745
More than likely men have already messed her up. Find an ok girl and make her feel beautiful, then she will become beautiful and it will be up to you not to mess her up.
658497
Personally, I'm not shallow. Sure, a nice body isa  great addition, but I could never like a mean hot girl. I want personality. I want opinions, I want a sense of humor, I want a general kindness and a defensive attitude for everything she cares for. I'd like a girl who was strong, resilent and able to get back on her feet if life throws her.
946259
maybe you are too selective.\nSome ladies get too slective on looks; so they end up with a good looking guy who treats them like crap.\nYou need to look at the whole package.
542685
Definitely a good personality.  Looks are always a plus but it's who the person is inside that makes them special and attractive to you.  Many girls can look hot, but only few can possess that certain personality a guy is searching for.  The beauty factor will naturally go up when it is followed by a glowing personality...something know as the halo effect.
44230
Would you know that sometimes to be a pretty girl is not good at all for her beauty because most of men think that a pretty girl always has empty mind. Even though she is a deeply woman. Everyone will have their own chance to look for a suit person as expected. Pretty or ugly girl will be unmeaning if you don't have a truly love or serious relationship. Be remembered that, depending on the viewer, this one to be suitable or unsuitable for someone. No woman is ugly. Hope you will have a serious idea if you want to have a nice girl indeed in your life.
78622
if I want to date somebody, I depend on personallity, but she should be a good looking person too in order to give me a good impression about her.\n\nface it, if I met a girl for the first time, I can't judge her personality, but I can judge her from what she wears or what she looks like..etc
1149010
For women it isn't all about the looks.  A little extra weigh makes you a teddy bear to some girls.  Just keep your chin up and look for someone who matches your personality.  Be romantic and sweet and you will find a nice girl.  Good Luck!!
74951
i think it's whatever parts of their own personality they find kind of lacking.  sort of the opposites attract theory.\nbut then again, there has to be a certain amount of similarities, such as taste in movies perhaps so you can both enjoy doing something together.  i think in the end, most girls just want a guy who they think is nice.
498941
I would say we always look for a girl that looks good in our eyes and is approved by our influencing friends and family..........also she has to be cool, in her own world....like, have people that look up to her, dress nice, and then ....most importantly ( a girl that the guy can trust in, a girl that he can say to himself....she wont mess around on me...)  Also very important is good for the girl to like the guy alot and show it, but dont go' crazy over us........unless U feel safe that we feel the same way.....
192714
I think looks are not all that important. Some girls may have a problem, but what really matters is what's on the inside. Looks are only skin deep.
1078101
NO....hopefully you are looking for a nice girl, not a hot girl........its great if you can get both i guess, but personality is more important
461387
Being nice goes a long way for me. Of course we all want to have an obviously attractive mate. However, I've met really pretty girls with terrible attitudes that make them the ugliest of creatures. And I've also gone for some really nice girls that may not be the standard in beauty or physical form.\n\nAnother good quality is confidence. Not conceit, but knowing ones self to be good. Confidence is a secret weapon of both male and female. People will be attracted to such a person and may not even know why. \n\nIt also helps if you keep yourself well. Regardless of your physical shape, keep yourself clean and fresh. I've seen too many girls who think that they can just slop by. Every guy wants girl to 'look' like a girl.
298752
Come on, how 'not pretty' are we talking about? Yeah, I'm shallow. I'm not looking for a model or a beauty queen, but she can't be straight up ugly. Personality is great though, and yes, you can become more attracted to someone you relate to. It makes a difference, but sometimes it takes a lot of personality.
1017813
I think it depends on where you are looking and how!!  My friend asked the same question but was only looking in bars and just really wanted a girlfriend so he didn't have the highest standards.  Many times it's when you aren't looking and you are happy with where you are that someone comes along.  I met my boyfriend through a mutual friend.  Meet up with people who enjoy the same things with you.  \nTrust me... there are great honest girls out there.. you just have to look hard for us! :)  Good Luck :)
829067
doesn't sound like you have a very high opinion of yourself so that's going to be your first problem in finding true love.\nbeyond that, i don't think very many handsome guys are looking for ugly guys but i am sure there are some...keeping hoping
307970
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and no not every girl is preoccupied with money or beauty. Sometimes a person's personal traits will outweigh what they might lack in the looks department but I also feel that there has to be some degree of physical attraction between two people for it to go beyond just a platonic relationship. Perhaps one's  mind will appeal enough to overide that but that really depends on the situation and the individual. What is ugly to one might be beautiful to another. But may I ask what is the preoccupation with finding someone who won't base you on your looks when it is apparent that that is what your standards are based on?
576853
Well since you said that you're a handsome person, i guess it should not be a problem for you to get a beautiful girl friend eh ? I think all you need to do is just be yourself at your best. Confident look with a brilliant smile always get you going smooth .. Clean and simple outlook also is a major point, as most girl don't really into vain guys .. Search for places where you can look for girls that're your type .. If not, online matching services also can be a way but that i can't make sure if they're beautiful or not then .. lol