is it weird that i wont give my bf head because i love him?
80177
yeah, a little weird but to each his own, Honey. Do what makes you feel comfortable.
1079019
What the heck? It's definetely odd. Just tell him that you don't feel comfortable with it I guess.. lol
214550
I don't think a boyfriend is going to care.\n\nBut if you don't want to do that stuff, then keep it quiet, or he might expect you to do it.
496908
Ask him or casually bring it up ina conversation. If you feel uncomfortable with the situation you're in(Like the laid down rules), then let him know. If he loves you, then there shouldn't be a problem. Good luck.
770365
well.....i have the same problem! whenever im with my bf, hes as sweet as he can be and just awesome! but whenever hes around his friends, he can be a real buthead! and i think that the only reason he does this is to show off! but idk.........im confused about him!
644808
Keep doing what you are doing, eventually you will get over it.  Never change something unless it never poses a problem.  You might be a little nervous, but that is ok, because you love your gf. Show more love and consideration still, someday you will see the appreciation.
151416
Not really knowing your boyfriend, the best general answer I can give is sexual favours. There is not a man on earth who wouldn't like for his SO to put out.
219878
no!!! my bf always try to do that to me, i dont let him... he says it feels good... maybe to you guys, but definitely not to us women coz there are no sexual stimulator in the @$$...
363227
You don't seem comfortable with your bf. If you are still shy with him, ask yourself why? Why can't you open up with him? Better know yourself before you proceed. \nCommunication will be a good way to let him know how you feel, if this is just your nature even with intimate partner. If he can understand your apprehension, he make try to change his conversation with you.\nBest for you two will be to be comfortable with each other, where there is no barrier too what you both can do. Remove any possible misunderstanding in your relation and talk.
689885
You are what you are and if he truly loves you, he will definitely respect your feelings. Dont do anything that you feel uncomfortable with now... make things clear now- its better than repenting later. Understanding, mutual respect and honesty are the very basics of any relationship. If he cant compromise and make adjustments now, it doesnt bode well for the future too, does it? So speak out whats in your mind- let him know how you feel. Explain to him that you come from a conservative background and that you dont feel comfortable with the relationship getting physical so soon. DONT DO ANYTHING THAT U FEEL IS NOT RIGHT!
938888
It sounds like you have a really great guy there but the relationship is too intense. Tell him that you are feeling uncomfortable because you aren't ready for such a serious relationship. He needs to back down a bit. Good luck. I hope you can make it work.
414962
hmmm?? i think its oky,but the more your star making that naughty thing the more u want to try more on that and began to make sex with your bf. buts its up to you if you want to give your personality to your bf..
203238
If you have to ask if you love him, then its pretty safe to say that you dont. You probably had a good thing going with him and thats why you get jealous, but it doesn't sound like you're in love. And if it doesn't work out and your munky really is chunky you can always holla at me :)
626925
ask your'e boyfriend how he feels about it...if he says that hes uncomfortable with it, then respect his wishes.
907070
Actions speak louder than words.  Even he says he loves you, if he does not show it, it means nothing.  He might not realize this either.  But when you love someone, you would want to spend as much time with them as possible (though work may be hard), and do nothing to hurt your partner's feeling (including reciprocating another girl's interest in you).  Why don't you take a break from each other and see how much you mean to each other?  You may find that there are other men out there who would appreciate you more than your current bf does.
82600
It is normal to be curious about how it would be with someone else.  But if you love him you know that it would never be as good.  Sex is more than technique...its truly a spiritual thing.
632910
If you are not so sure then you have to say No.  Tell her you are uncomfortable with it and that it will change the dynamic of your relationship, and not for the better.  Don't give in just to appease her,  you will not respect yourself or her.  If she loves you, she will respect your decision.