Karma: If you feel remorse for a bad thing you did to someone, will it still come back to you?
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Not all things come back to you.  Life is not a story book were all the villians are punished.  That said, what may happen is that your deed is remembered and another person will suffer for it, because they won't be trusted.\n\nYou wrote "there is no way I can apologize". You can apologize, but what you are afraid of is that there is no guarentee you will be forgiven.  That's a chance you ought to take, not only for your sake, but for the sake of the person you wronged.\n\nThe word "Forgiveness" comes from a Greek word which means "to let go".  To let go...of the past, the anger, and whatever else is involved.  Perhaps,....just perhaps...you will have a chance to experience what forgiveness means on a deeper level. \n\n Take the chance.  Apologize.
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yes sometimes\nbut when i think back that person really didn't deserve so much hate or attention from me. \ni guess often we feel like such when we personally feel insulted or hurt, but i guess its okay to think about it a little to vent it off and NOT do anything on it.
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I recognise this reply may hurt your feelings, but any damage done is minor compared with how you'd feel if you wound up in jail following a guilty verdict.
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Yes for most people. Giving someone else a second chance also says a lot about yourself. Some things simply cannot be forgiven, but they tend to be things of a violent nature. Try to forgive and forget when posible.
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U may forgive the one by thinking that whatever happens....happens for good. \nAny way i liked this question as u have asked "How to forgive?" instead of "What punishment should be given to the person who takes ur money?" The person who forgives is always greater than than the person who takes revenge or gives punishment.
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No. The reason why I'm here and answering this question is because I did things in my past that I regret or even hated. These things that we have been hating and want to get back at or rewind are the reasons we are who we are today. \n\nIf ever we regret the fact that we are who we are, it is the same thing as regreting what we chose before. Because if you ever wanted to undo the bad things that occured to you, there is no way to redo the good things, or even bring back the times after you changed your fate.
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I'm with you. It's not just saying it but actually getting the message across the recipient that you mean it. Sometimes just talking and explaining why the mistake was unintentionally done and a show of remorse will usually warrant forgiveness.
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We all have our indiscretions. You made a mistake, you know it, get over it.\n\nYou need to forgive yourself and move on.  It doesn't matter what others think.  What matter most is what you think of yourself. \n\nThe fact that you feel remorse makes you a good person with values who needs to move on and not make the same mistake again.
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Whatever you did happened in the past and you can do nothing to change it. I happened. If your deed involves hurting someone you love (that most likley the reason you feel bad about it) then it might be a good idea to talk with the person about it. If that person cares about you he or she might forgive you,especially since you didn't do it intentionally or without planning. \nIn any case it was something you did "without thinking" therefore you didn't plan, there was no "intent" more an "Impulse". Learn from the expereince, file it under life happens and go on.
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Hopefully it will serve as a lesson to others that "it ain't over till it's over." \n\nI felt bad for her, I mean she knew she had done something foolish and it cost her, the only good that can come from it is if others don't make the same mistake she did.
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was abused by my father, but was able to forgive him. but if you are unwilling to try the best forgiveness ever given. then you will carry this pain for ever in you and it will suffacate you. please think about finding true forgiveness before this destroys your life. God helped me and my father threw axes, hoes, and tried to run me over. yet hold no grudge.
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Well, if you tell him, I hope you will also honestly tell him that you genuinely feel bad about it.  What you did was hurtful and he's probably going to be hurt when you tell him.
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karma in one way literally means deeds. each action has got a reaction. only when we finish  an assignment or task then onlly we will be able to comprehend the results whether good or evil, whatever our intention was.   an action which was already performed or completed cannot be changed or revised.   likewise the cycle of bith and death are beyond our desire or control.   we deserve the rewards whether we like or dislike for our deeds, good or bad.    so that is rather justifying our reward and the natural course decides the phenomena of our birth to reap the consequences of our past deeds.    since it ils rather unknown while being alive we do not regard them much and think only our mind and self  are  the supreme authority and indulge in activities in contrast to the dharmic karma- the righteous path- and repent in leisure.   still  GOD  is gracious enough to tread our path with options and if we chose the right one we get not only consolation but also salvation.
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focus on somebody else. you dont want to wreck a happy home and have a bad karma afterwards right?
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I personally feel like if it happens once shame on them if it happens a second time shame on you for letting it happen. Trust is a hard thing to build once its lost you can take that friend with a grain of salt because even if you do give her a second chance this incident will always be in your mind
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If you feel you did bad, and you believe in karma, you will naturally attract what you feel you deserve.
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There is no excuse for not admitting or apologizing for something you have done to another... that is if you are truly sorry for what you have done...especially if it is someone you love...For someone to not do so is just childish and selfish...or maybe the person doesn't think he or she has done anything wrong at all...or maybe they don't realize the extent of the hurt they have caused...If that is the case you need to let them know the pain they have caused and if they still don't get it...You must know your worth and not allow that person do hurt you ever again.\n\nRemember: "Know Your Worth or No One Else Will"...Good Luck