So why is it that guys don't want their girlfriends to do certain things while they themselves do it?!?
80845
Its happening since the ancient times.Guys love to rule and control their gals while they enjoy everything.Its not fair.
383993
Its kinda like a test for our egos. Its like ok he has a GF but i bet i can get if i want him. and most the time girls just do it because WE CAN (lol)\nAnd when you dont and cant get one its because either they dont know how you act in a relationship or that they just dont want you.Girls get very jelous and just like to have what they arent supposed to have like theryre an exception to the rule
299204
This is from a guy. For all those guys for whom this is a big deal, I suggest you bring it up while dating, not after you become boyfriend/girlfriend. This way, guys, you can decide then & there if you want to pursue this relationship any further knowing you probably won't be getting what you so desire.\nWith that said, guys really need to spend more time in foreplay with their ladies.  Too often, the sex will become routine for the women as the guys are only worried about getting their own nut off, and thinking that the woman is alright because she's been faking it just to make the guys feel good about themselves.
845769
I know you hear people talking about "working" on a marriage or relationships, but its not like putting a wing on a house.  From what you say it sounds like you want him to be more sensitive as you perceive yourself to be.  Men and women are different, why do you want to feminize him?
988840
Boyfriends who talk bad about their girl when their girl isn't around. Dissin' them!!
361058
Not all men do. I know that I, as well as some of my married buddies, take our relationships and marriages very seriously.\n\nSome men just want to conquer women s#xually, and then they move on. Some men get bored and want some excitement, and some are like little kids in a candy store, unable to keep their hands to themselves.\n\nUnfortunately, it is up to women to separate the wheat from the chaff, if you will.
118748
First of all you have to keep in mine that guys will say and do just about anything to get in a girl's pants. For some it's a game, a conquest, or even pressure from friends. The bottom line is they know that it won't make things better and that it might make things worse but they don't care. Now I'm speaking from experience, run!!!!  If you want to hold on to your most prized possession until you fine the man that not only deserves it but appreciates it run, in the opposite direction; and don't look back. Like I said they know that your relationship won't be better he's basically testing the waters to see if you'll give in. Be strong girl.
543603
Often because they feel that the girl friend has stolen their friend from them. Imagine it, the guy has his friends, they hang out together all the time, get drunk, pick fights, whatever, they rely on each other and trust each other. Then, all of a sudden, a girl comes along and the guy is dating her. Next thing you know the guy has two demands on his time, his friends' and his girlfriend's. Obviously he could hang out with them both at the same time, but most guys will want to spend time alone with their girlfriend, so that doesn't normally work. The guy will typically end up spending more time with their girlfriend that with their friends because of:\n\n1. Sex, intimacy etc...\n2. The guy won't really know how to keep the girl happy and will want to spend alot of time with her to prove that he likes her and because he's afried she'll dump him if he spends too much time away from her.\n3. It will never occur to the guy that his friends will be jealous, he trusts them and thinks they want the best for him. \n\nAnyways, the guy's friends (because they're *his* friends) are far more likely to blame the girl than the guy for the fact that he spends nowhere near as much time with them anymore, so all the jealousy and frustration gets targetted at her in expressions of contempt and suspicion.\n\nIt should be pointed out that sometimes they're right, the girlfriend feels alienated from the friends and wants the guy alone to herself, so she deliberately sets things up so the guy spends more time with her than with them.
841128
girls - guys really dig alone time.  it's a time away from everyone where they can just do whatever they want around the house, build stuff, watch sports and just lounge.  I'm 25 now and as I get older, I really find myself just wanting to chill out and watch the discovery channel, or work on my engine to my 71 chevelle.  its just a guy thing.\nHere's the deal though; we realize that you girls love for us to be around you when you do stupid sh**, like shop or going to starbucks.  thats alright, we'll do those things every once in awhile as long as you respect our alone time every once in awhile too.  Its give and take.  \nthis isnt to say we dont enjoy spending time with you ladies, cuz thats not it at all.  we just need to chill by ourselves now and again, thats all.
267232
I asked my boyfriend this question and he said that maybe some men like to control their woman and if she is independent then he can't control her. I say stay the way you are and you will one day find who you are looking for. I did.
882918
Guys definately like to be told the little things that work best.  This is because guys want to offer their girls more sexual gratification than anyone else.  If you tell them how to do this, they will be more confident in doing it.  It is also an easy way to get what you want.  \nIts difficult to know what is the right amount of flirting.  I think that this would be different with every relationship.\nGuys find it very sexy to feel like they are offering some degree of protection to their girlfriend.  Guys are designed to be protectors and providers.  This truth has been evident from the beginning of time.  Historically, men have been the hunters and gatherers.  We want to provide protection and meet the needs of our families.  Knowing that we do a good job at these task improves our opinion of ourselves.  To feel this level of gratification is as sexy as it gets.
1065765
At home with their wives, who take care of them. Being in a committed relationship requires a lot of communication and understanding. I hate to say it because women do not want to hear this but if you are trying to do it all, your man is going to need more attention than you can give him, and the commitment you are seeking he will not be able to honor.
37636
NO! Would you like your girl to do that 2 you. IF they have an understanding(and you should find out) IT doesn't matter. Don't mess with it!
1143863
I realize you said guys only but you do realize there are females who date females too right? And the same thing of not calling when they say they are going to runs on both men and woman not just men. No I do not think it it is right but it happens all to often. But reasons this may happen is if they are not really intersested in you, could not deal with conflicting personalities, have a job they need to complete, are out with friends or family, possibly cheating or just plain forgot. If this has happened to you which I assume is the reason you are asking this give them a chance to explain before you jump to conclusions. There may be a good reason for him not calling you when said. It may just be they forgot or got busy doing something important. Good Luck with your guy.
60987
There might be different reasons. One is that they might think you won't find out about those little things, thus missing the point of the importance of being honest. Another is that they are afraid of ruining their image before their girlfriends, which shows immaturity.\n\nThe list goes on and on, but you better figure it out from personal experience.
806399
well men just don't quite function like women.  It's hard for them to understand our emotional needs.  They're like little kids.  Full of energy, jumping from exciting activity to another sometimes they just forget that we exist.  Emotional stuff is just not really in their train of thought unless we sit them down and tell them exactly how we feel and tell them what we want and need.  After he knows exactly what we want then he has no excuse for ignoring our needs.  We fullfill their physical needs they should do so for our emotional ones.
990538
They feel insecure and inferior of themselves. Or maybe their gfs are those type that fools around with other guyz thus they don't trust them ;)