To all guys: Why is it that when a girl doesn't have a boyfriend they get labeled as a lesbian or worse names?
94207
because most of the male population are jerks,in groups of three or more ther I.Q. drops about 50 points,but if you get them alone,i'm sure they'll be a little more understanding
353788
they don't. all girls (well...MOST girls) r into the good guys. it's just that the bad boys r usually the ones daring enough to ask them out, so they're the one's they end up with coz the others weren't man enough to make a move
667571
Sounds to me like part of you wants male companionship but deep down inside you want a lesbian relationship.  Can you not find a balance and have male friends and female lovers?  I have had kind of the same experience when I was younger and had to find a healthy balance.  Sometimes we just want to be with males because it is what is "expected" of us.  Spend some time with your thoughts and feelings and be honest with yourself to find the answers!
870131
some lesbians grow really tight bonds with men that they work with and see everyday... i am a lesbian that had not had sex with a man in three years before the two weeks ago that i slept with a male co-worker that really adored me...i am with a woman now and so is he...we are still friends but we were there for each other and we had a great night that is very private and discreet....i think that he loved the fact of being with a lesbian but he never disrespected me as a person, and still respectes me.... and no he did not pay money....he was just a great guy that i trust and respect....
499002
Its because those guy who plays the heart of girls are sick of their lame lives don't worry they are not worth it maybe they are not used in long term relationship and a lot of guys are like that...so don't focus your attention to them because your life will be miserible if you always think about them and as a matter of fact many girls are surviving w/o boyfriends
285620
Errrrrr...perhaps because they don't have a fiance(e),\nor their girlfriend or boyfriend is not ready to get married yet...or maybe they are gay/lesbian and the laws of their country say they cannot get married!
231775
they think it will put some excitement in their lives but really it just makes it harder i personally would rather have a guy without a record. some girls just need to realize those guys arent any better than the guys like you Good Luck!
726310
It's a way that people flirt. Take it as a compliment. They're saying that you are so great and goodlooking that they can't possibly believe yoiu are single. If you like the girls that are saying it then that's your in to start to flirt back.
600935
Why is this in the singles & dating catagory? \n\nI am guessing you do not date that often.
373222
I must admit its something that baffled me as a lesbian would obviously have no interest in the guy :0) I guess its more to do with it being more than one woman involved.
902213
Now that is what gives us a bad name.  No offense, but I would not want a guy to think he can change me to being straight, was never there and never want to be.  I would rather be with a lesbian anytime.  So, the answer to your question is no, I have never tried to convert a straight girl.  Too many lesbians out there, more than enough to go around.  Have a good night anyway.
1065730
the meanest way i rejected a girl was by walking up to a guy and kissing a complete stranger adn saying "i'm not lesbian!"  even though i had a girlfrend at the time!!!! And then after me and my g/f broke up i hooked up with that complete stranger!!!!
271951
First off, good for you. Don't let other people pressure you into finding a boyfriend, that will only trap you in a pointless relationship. They pressure you because they feel like they're helping, it's hard to tell them all their interference makes the situation worse. Tell them, 'I will have a boyfriend when I find one I like.' If that doesn't stop them, tell them you're thinking about becoming a lesbian.
609510
Don't kid yourself, men get called names too. Sadly there is a double standard for women, who men look upon as wives and mothers, and are supposed to be saintly almost.\nBut just because a woman gets a name, doesn't mean that is what she is. Sometimes it is someone else being jealous, or having a grudge against her. So never judge a book by it's cover.
431358
Well, single gurls don't want others to know they are actually single and hence don't go alone. Single guys, on the other hand, just think they can get a chick if they go to clubs. It's that simple!
727797
It has nothing to do about having a secret,do you know how many gay people who come out (including myself) who loose everything they know,because they came out,its a hard decision to people still in the closet because of what they see around them. I lost my family because they dident want anything to do with me after i came out but ya know thats ok..i dont want anyone like that (small pea brains) around me anyway..yeah it sucks but to myself i did something for myself by coming out its called a life!!!!! personally i and other lesbians i know wont date anyone still in the closet because you just dont have a life with someone still living in a secret world..yuke yuckkie yuck..bye
678264
I am a lesbian. I date girls that look like me and the ones that you are describing. I see that you are naive so I will make this as easy as possible for you to understand....no matter what she looks like she still acts like a girl. Even if she walks and talks like a guy once you get in a relationship all the womanly traits come out such as sensitivity..prime example. Lesbians aren't lesbians just because they like the look of other girls. It's more of a connection thing.