i still love this guy, how can i just tell him?
92758
well  i can understand u the if u really sure that he really loves u   then  the best way  is  make him  feel that if  he'll step forward that won't effect your realtionship in  negative manner. coz that is the only reason that is stoping him . it happens if two ppl are frnds and  if a love feeling start genrating ,most of that time ppl don't express  they afraid of loosing the present realtionship the y have  so dear   b4  expressing ur self make him feel comfortable and let her fear away .. and  may  god bless you  u'll definetly get you love
1167754
Just pay extra attention to him first, and then it should feel easier to find the right time and way to tell him! :)
624251
Just tell him how you feel. Make sure it's from the heart and your not saying it just because it sounds good.
153594
You can do a bunch of stuff to show a guy that you love them but they still want to here those three little words. They truely don't know until u tell them otherwise they keep guessing that u do or u don't. It is just best to say the three words. If you have said the three words then u have nothing to worry about. Good Luck.
265741
It's great that he's so open to telling you.  Definitly tell him.  As wonderful as it is to hear those words, they lose their meaning if it's a constant thing.  We only need to hear it a couple of times.  The rest of the day, show us.  Leave a note on the bathroom mirror, hide a note or card in their jacket pocket for them to find later.  Words are not the only way.  \nFirst you should tell him that you know he loves you and enjoy hearing it, but don't need to hear it all the time.
985859
I think Love is a choice, and as for the telling him you Love him . the best thing to do is say i LOVE the way you...(fill in the blanks) or I Love it when you.... and one way to get him to feel it for you is to copy cat him. not outright bu if he laughs ,laugh back. if he is at dinner and gets a sip of tea, pick your glass up, non chalantly. DO NOT BE OBVIOUS.  when u do this it sends a subliminal message to him that you two really click. he wont know why he feels like that but he will for sure feel it. when he talks be "intrigued " never look away when he is talking. and take an opportunity to touch his hand or pat him on the shoulder or the famous gentle brush against him on the way to the car or in the house. men dont remember what u wore or what the conversation was about they remember the touch and the feeling of connection.the scent you wore and the size of your butt and boobs...COME ON GUYS ...AM I TELLING A LIE?
1071178
Just because the "L" word came out doesn't really mean anything Bad. Like you said you guys have known each other for awhile already!\nAnd telling him that you haven't felt that way in long time... \nWell, that's like telling him that you are not sure if you are ready for that step in your relationship with him... But, this could be a good thing! If he really loves you ... you will know! \nHe will still show interest in you and you and him can get closer in your relationship. Just don't rush it..  I have been married three times and all of them we're great at first! Ya' know? Just can't wait to be with them... all you think about... and that's great!\nAll I'm saying is to take your time if you want it to last... \nPay attention to the bad sides he may have and see if you really want to spend the REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH THIS PERSON...\n\nI don't think you really pushed... if he loves you he will stick around.    If you think you pushed... just go talk to him.\n"What should you do now?"  \n(1)Take your time...\n(2)Let the love grow...\n(3)Spend time together and talk<<< \ncommunication must be open. \nSharing your feelings with the one you love is very important!\nIf you are serious about this guy then try these steps and God Bless...\n later.
994149
just tell him.and hope it works out.good luck
235386
Why do u need to tell him? Maybe he is not in love with u? If he isnt, im so sorry, but i have to tell u, u would not try to tell to him. But if he falls in deep love with u, he will do the first step. Only u have to give something to him which makes him to be more brave and shows ur feelings. I think of some kindness,like a big candy, a nice pen, a book,a music only for him, a romantic pic abt u , i mean some " gift" for him,which shows,u like him more,than a friend. Or maybe will be enough a romantic look up into his eyes....
721271
well just let him know how you feel  and if he really loves you thn he will understand
1180972
Sorry but there really is no easy way. You care about him and don't want to hurt him even though he has hurt you. Tell him what you said to us. Let him know that even though he had your heart from the beginning you do not feel like an important part of his life so you need to end things so that both of you can find other people who may be better suited for the types of relationships that you guys want to have.
605227
If this person is your best friend, then chances are he already knows, and maybe feels a little of the same. it's natural between the sexes.\nDo you want to tell him because you need to nkow if he feels the same? What do you do if he doesn't, and if he does feel something, where do you go from there?? Downhill usually.\nIf there was a strong enough chemistry and bond between you to sustain a lasting relationship, then you both would have had it from the beginning, and gone way past "best friend" status.\nGood luck
147512
ask him, just come out and say i still have some feelings for you do you ahve any for me.
254058
First, ask yourself 'do you love him?'  Really deep down, and be honest with yourself.  If the answer is yes, then sit down with him and have a heart-to-heart, eye-to-eye talk and tell him in the words that feel confortable to you.  No games, just honesty.  It will be scary, but if he doesn't respond positively, then move on.  Don't go back. Don't waste time on guys who don't really care. You will love again...someday, with someone who loves you too.
668311
the best way is to tell him how you feel, and ask him if he feels the same, i know easier said then done. but it works and it will take the wonder wheel off you head. trust me.
1005638
dont hold back now.\nin all things, hiding your true feelings never really gets you anywhere that you wanna go. you know? cause if where you're going is based upon your true feelings, then you shouldn't wanna go there...nevermind. :-D\nanyways, yes, you should tell him you love him, because nothing is going to change that. and you could wait a million years...but what good is that gonna get you??? tell him- guys are more mellow than you first think. if he doesn't feel the same way, i'm almost positive he'll take it all in stride, if he does the feel the same way-then well, you've got a match!\ngo ahead, don't hold back. they're your true feelings, what harm are they gonna do???
334344
Just tell him straight out--because i'm SURE he thinks that he is the one for you too. =^)\n\nI really do. =^)