Why I havent any girlfriend inspite of being smart,tall,handsome,intelligent&sporty?
79532
Because you are also ugly, cross-eyed, hunchbacked, and gassy.
1149010
For women it isn't all about the looks.  A little extra weigh makes you a teddy bear to some girls.  Just keep your chin up and look for someone who matches your personality.  Be romantic and sweet and you will find a nice girl.  Good Luck!!
961794
Sounds great tbh. Did you know that sometimes being too perfect will put guys off. They might just assume you are already taken or simply 'out of their league'. This happens to a friend of mine who is beautiful, smart etc.\n\nBy the way I'm 18
1139762
Yep, you sound like you'd be a really nice guy to get to know. I'm probably too old for you, or live too far away, & I think I've given up on relationships anyhow. But you sound as if you have an awful lot to offer the right woman. I hope you find her & I wish you every happiness & every success!!!
136129
Yes, but you have a lot of work to overcome our initial superficial thoughts when we first meet you.  If you're an awesome guy, be confident, be outgoing and show the ladies that looks (or height) aren't the most important thing.
980999
Well guys are probably intimidated by your beauty. It just means you'll have to make the first move. Good Luck!
365658
From this moment on, you tell yourself that you are an attractive, interesting guy than any girl would be priviledged to have. Convince yourself you can have any girl you want. Look in the mirror and find the things that make you look good. If you need to excercise a bit to help things along. Once you achieve this basic confidence in yourself. Put the past behind you, concentrate on the future which you are in charge of. You have what it takes to handle any girl, any situation.  Go up to a girl, ask her out, treat her right.
355557
Maybe you need the right blend of agressive and passive.  Plus, some girls and guys go for one or the other etc.  Also, I know it sounds lame, but just be yourself.  And be ultra-charming.  \nI think you should concentrate on improving yourself, for your own benefit.  And, if you improve, women or men will notice and go "hmmm"
515746
Perhaps you have a girlfriend who is not only good looking but also smart.
1003034
I don't think anything is wrong with you, you just haven't met the right girl yet. So what if you're not very tall and you are not very small, you just have to keep trying. That's what the dating game is all about. Are you in school? You could look around campus for different events that are sure to attract many decent young ladies. Just keep trying, it is rough trying to find a mate but it won't get you anywhere if you give up.
1142405
Everybody has certain traits that they are attracted to. A girl that will stay with you a long time is being fickle because not only do you have to find her, but you will also have to figure out how to keep here once you do. No one person is perfect, there are certain things that you will like and certain ones that you will not. You have to find a medium ground on what traits that you will allow yourself time to get used to. This is being the part where you learn how to keep a decent woman. If you do not figure this out-- somebody definitely will and it is your loss!
400288
Hi, you seem too obsessed with yourself, your body, your image. I agree that today especially looks do play an important part, but its not everything. If you keep on thinking of negative things, any girl you might have otherwise interested, will stay clear of you! Please broaden your horizon, take up a hobby, surround yourself with friends, live happy.
301517
I know how you feel. But why do you want a bf just for the sake of having one. There will always be shallow guys around that are interested in looks only. Why build a relationship just on looks? It never works out.\n\nWhy don't you live life to the max! Take up interests that you like. Join clubs that do things that you like. Have fun. Chances are, you will make lots of interesting friends whom you will share common interests with and you'll have a great time with them. And who knows, one of those friends may just be a boy whom you will like. Now that's the best way to develop a relationship: start off as being good friends with lots of common interests.
725110
Dude even though I do not know you - you are not ugly. That is the first thing your self-image is your problem. Sort yourself out! If you do not like your own look and you own self then girls are not gonna feel you confident vibe and thus not notice you. Be more confident!! Be youself your true self will be attractive enough to some girl some day.
472615
A very vague question which lacks detail. There are hundreds of factors which could be a reason as to why you can't find a girlfriend. I for one for one would not think it is due to your location or your bisexuality.\nPeople who are straight often find it hard to find a lover living in highly populated cities. \n\nIf you believe in love as a in a fairy tale manner where fate and destiny decide for us then you will only need to be patient and yor are sure to find love.\nIf you are a person who believes that you make your own love, then perhaps consider yor approach to finding love...
662978
Maybe you're concentrating too much on superficial qualities like looks to the exclusion of more important qualities like intelligence or personality. I'm guessing you're fairly young, and young girls who are extremely pretty also tend to be fairly superficial and stuck-up. If you're going after the most popular girls in school because they're the prettiest, then they're not going to be interested no matter how intelligent or interesting you are.\n\nBroaden your horizons a little. You'll do better in the long run.
944350
You know, I am a smart person, I have always been smart, I am also very pretty. But there seen to be these guys that only want girls that want to give themselves to them. I'm not like that. But a lot of smart girls are forced to become that way because we don;t get guys, we can be the most gorgeous women in the world, but if we don;t have sex right away, the relationship goes nowhere and we are left on our butts wonder " what the hell was that?" Look beyond the most obvious, look for the inner beauty (not saying some snaggle-toothed hill billy) but look for a woman that may not be the blonde hair, blue eye buety every other man wants. You may just find the right smart, attractive woman you want.