I need advice on Australia Law divorce?got divorced 4 mths go and now ex want to provoke it on some basis..???
87913
It sounds as if she is bluffing...talk with your lawyer.\n\nK
596597
GET ANOTHER LAWYER AS SOON AS POSSIBLE WHILE YOUR HUSBAND IS STILL AROUND.IT WILL BE HARDER TO GET HIM BACK WHILE HE IS OUT OF THE COUNTRY.HAVE YOUR DOCUMENTS AT HAND......WHO IS YOUR LOCAL MP?HERE IN THE UK IT PAYS TO LET YOUR MP KNOW BECAUSE USUALLY THEY ASSIST YOU AND LET YOU KNOW WHICH OTHER CHANNELS YOU CAN TAKE.GOOD LUCK AND BE STRONG.
466507
Alot of things,but each person's case is not the same. Go out to a club and ask people who've done it!!! Some people who are divorcing are okay with it,while some are not!
817069
you have to back off and let them work it out. Let the guy know you'll be there for him, but people make mistakes and they are still married. If he still wants the divorce it'll go on. But you need to step out of the relationship because she could use that against him now that she is wanting him back. I've been there done that. I was the wife who made mistakes and wanted my ex back. He didn't want to make things work, so we divorced. Good luck and don't make things worse.
636207
You can get a legal separation, but do everything right so your entitled to half of everything, even if you were only married for a short time.  Also they may use cruel & inhuman treatment, sounds horrible, but dont focus too much on that.  If he wants a divorce to it should be a breeze, if not, do what you have to and cover yourself financially. A good lawyer, good-luck.  They are theives...be carefull. Do some reading first, because the less you no the more they will take advantage of you and guess what that means $$$$$$$$.
595893
Enjoy it while it lasts, cause ur up sh-t creek. Get a Lawyer.
782982
no change is required, she said it herself. and as far as your ex being on the deed will be a problem in time, what if something would happen? does your ex have any rights to her 1/2? look into just changing your names on the deed, the courts may be a help full tool with this, or maybe it already has, did the judge have a ruling on this during your divorce? and if so did you do anything? just trying to keep you out of the doghouse down the road. good luck with the new family.
263479
File for divorce . . . do not mention it . . . in the documentation for the divorce . . . fight for majority of custody of the children.\n\nGrounds . . . mental abuse . . . of both you and the children.  Because she uses the children as pawn . . . thus mentally abusing you and the children.  You loved her . . . tried to make it work . . . but her hostility is just growing and you worry about the mental health of your children.
386371
Talk with a divorce attorney before doing it . . . they have free consultation . . . ask them . . . you kidnapper.
743437
is this just a temporary thing???\nyou have a responsibility - you ex - partner still needs to make ends meet??   More details please x
700409
Well he has to be charged first.  Is this what you want - to continue this war you have with your ex-husband?  What do you gain from this - he is now some other woman's problem - why are you making it yours now?  If your divorce is now final here is the US I am not sure what you personally gain from going after him.  As to going through a divorce procedure in Peru that isn't necessary regardless.  \n\nJust let it go and Good Luck in your new life without him.  It sounds like you deserve it and you certainly deserve someone better than him!!!\n\nWith Respects!!!
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You need a better lawyer. Get a female lawyer, they are meaner than heck and can do a lot better than a male. Might cost you more in the short term but should pay off in the long run.\n\nI hope that things work out better the second time around\n\nGod bless you and be with you in your time of need
678904
Breaks are ok like this, logical and smart.  He's being very mature.  You not going to like how I say this, and I honesty don't know a better wait, so i'm sorry in advance.  But this is your warning from him if I'm reading what you wrote right, your behavor isn't acceptible to him and he's not going to put up with it.  If you can't control it, you might want to move on, save yourself the divorce later.  Hope you don't, sounds like you lucked up and got yourself a good guy.  Alot of girls would love to be in your shoe's.  Don't blow it.
1143503
Oh,Honey do I know how u feel!I am going through the same thing as I write.In fact I go to court this Thursday.Let me tell ya,it's very,very hard to deal with.Whether u did something wrong or not doesn't make it any easier.I'd like to tell u about my situation and how I deal with it,but this site does not allow enough space.If you want to talk more about it e-mail me @ kalasmom3@yahoo.com Or IM me @ either yahoo messenger or AIM.I'd love to try to help.Maybe we can help each other.Also,since I have almost 18 months in one child's being gone and 7 years in the other maybe I can offer some advice on how to fight to get them back.oh,my screen name on AIM is turntheclkbac.
1144538
Oh my dear lord.  You are in for a rude awakening.  Divorce is almost never cheap and it is almost never fast.  It is a horrific experience to go through and I'm sorry that you're going through it.\n\nThat having been said, the best way to do things is if you and your soon to be ex-spouse work together.  If there are no major conflicts and no major disputes over property or children, then you can get an attorney or paralegal to draft the necessary settlement documents.  \n\nGo to www.martindale.com for a listing of divorce attorneys in your area.\n\nGood luck.  You're going to need it.
177106
Go get yourself a divorce, and file for custody and child support. The courts are usually behind a woman who wants the best for her child. If he's a truck driver and on the road a lot, I have a feeling everything will go in your favor. Just remember, get yourself a decent lawyer, one who works in your county and knows the judges in the courthouse. Most importantly, do not slander your soon to be ex- husband, be calm, cool and act intelligently. Sounds like he has an anger management problem... you will not have to tell anyone but your own lawyer, chances are he will become angry in court and he'll be his own worst enemy.
860895
Isn't the distance grounds enough for a divorce?what is your reason for coming back in.?the reason you have given here is not enough.\nmove on with your life.your absence is abandonment.