I am getting married in April.How do you think she want me to take care of her now?
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Support her in anyway that you can.  Decide what colors you guys should have.  Decide what kind of Wedding you both want.   It's a lot of work, but at the end your fiance will be happy and proud that you helped her.  I know this because I'm getting married in 3 months and wish my fiance would pitch in more.  So definately help out your gal.  She needs support.
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There are no promises that you will be safe....  so how do you make that commitment to her that you will be.  The men in your platoon(or whatever) will be trained to do their very best and obviously you want to come back in one piece if you are deployed.  But it takes a while to get training.\nYou can tell her that God will be watching over you (because he will) and that you look for
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whats more important is what not to wear out. That is your welcome. Go to the wedding and get out.
1032349
Have you even asked her yet?  Did she say yes?  Did you get her husband's permission?  Are you old enough for her?  If all the answers are yes, then will you invite me to your wedding?
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all the answers you received are good ones already.  I just have one suggestion:  ask her about how her wedding was planned.   If she answers she did, then tell her how much you want to do this also.  If she answers  her mom or mother in law, ask her how much she enjoyed it.   Then find out one area that you can delegate to her as her special responsibility like, "I have always wanted yellow and white roses on the tables at the reception; will you get them and arrange them for me?"  Even if you would like them done differently, let her do something.  A wedding is for a special day--a marriage is for a life time.  And you are paving the way for a long term relationship.  Thank God she wants to help you have a beautiful day--means she likes you. Already a positive step.  Your willingness to ask the question rather than trying to put your fiance in a bad position shows your maturity.   Way to go.
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Why would you treat her differently? Just be there for her when she needs you.
967133
Tell her to contact Social Services. You should not have to take care of her. Give her a deadline for making other living arrangements. Break it to her as diplomatically as you can but have a heart-to-heart talk and let her know that you were willing to assist her in an emergency but now both she and you need to move on.
456109
be calmly persistent.  My husband was and we have been together for 11 years.  Just be there for her/ be a friend first
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Give her something that will remind her of how much you care. Make it personal. Make her a coupon book for when she gets out of the hospital. Figure out what she liked to do and also what she should be able to do when she gets out. If she's able to walk, make one thats good for a long walk in the park... and so on.
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WHY DO YOU WANT TO KNOW? WILL IT REALLY MAKE A DIFFERENCE ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HER NOW? THIS IS SOMETHING YOU SHOULD HAVE WORRIED ABOUT B4 GETTING MARRIED, SO I THINK YOU SHOULD LEAVE IT ALONE!
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one night you should tell him to take it easy, and you should cook like your favorite meal, and then pop the question.....make it a speech tell him "He's my homemaker, housewife and my everything when I get home from a long day of work. I manage a large portion of a company and have just recently been too sick to function. He has nursed me and been by my side the entire time, never leaving me for more than a few minutes at a time (he has to shower and go to the bathroom afterall.) We're a solid foundation together, and now that I'm feeling better (and I have a ring).. I want to do it." its very much from the heart i can tell, good luck sweety with everything and congrats on the baby!!
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how long have you known this woman . marry outside of her religion well i am not the kind to stand in the way of love my frien but have you known her for a while or what well that your right i guess let me be the first to say i hope you and this woman will be happy together in my opion it is you as well marry a woman in her religion she cant marry out of her religion i guess well hope all is fine with you in about.2. years from now god bless in my opion i really hope you know what you are doing well anyway i wish you the best you i figure will need it i am not a person to stand in the way of love but that was quick wish you and the woman the best again ?
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I agree with you it doesn't sound like she's a stable person for you step son to be seeing on a regular basis! but in answer to ur question the first full weekend in april starts on friday the 7th.
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Well, hopefully she will become your wife and you will live happily ever after.  Wasn't that the goal when you proposed to her?  If you are having some doubts, I'd suggest a serious conversation with your fiancee rather than asking a bunch of strangers here.  I hope that it all goes well!
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The best I can think of is too make sure you tell her how much you are looking forward to being a family with her.  Give her an idea of how you picture the future with her and you together with you two against the world.  You'll want to be more specific and personal then that, but the idea is to make sure she know that you want her to be with you and why for the rest of your life.
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lots of love and attention. Hold her hand in public tell her how special she is dont forget to kiss her goodbye and dont forget to tell her you love her everytime your apart.Wine and dine her in the new dress you just bought her. i think you get my jist babe good luck xx
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Book her an appointment for a pregnancy massage. She will feel like a new woman trust me. This is one of those anniversaries where the hubby is to pamper the wife...sorry. But maybe you can go out to dinner where you had your first date like my hubby did. Very romantic. Just let her know how much you appreciate her and be very sympathetic of carrying a baby (it is very hard in the last months). just a couple of suggestions!