Is this a waste of time and just a heartbreak?
78785
Your 14 things will change you will change and although you think your going to texas you might not at 14 I was positive I was going to stay with family and become a vet and now I'm an actor in hollywood wich is 3000 miles away from family life changes and you will change but if you think she likes you go for it other wise you'll regret it for the rest of your life and if it ends in heartbreak you will learn from it trust me I've had plenty of heart breaks in my life and I learn from each one.
962951
Been there, done that. All you're gonna get is heartbreak in the end, and eventually you'll get tired of waiting for him. Believe me, you're taking a trip down heartbreak lane if you keep waiting for him.
899934
Why are you wasting your precious time, in such small things. Forgive her, and move on with your life. Ignore her, and try to get rid of her. \n\nYou will get a good life.. my wishes
550745
He's NOT worth your time.. Move on to someone else.. He's just playing w/ your emotion..
959299
I can relate to you perfectly. The guy I have been with for just about a year did not know if he wanted to keep the relationship going. After a long talk I said I was willing to work on it but he still needed time to think it has been like 6 days now and he hasn't even called me. Your entitled to be sad and angry after all she wasn't 100% honest with you and that is always painful. About the being torn part the best thing I can say to you is to pray and ask who ever your god may be to give you the strength to get past this and to open your mind and heart so that you can know what it is you have to do. Also taking a break with her might not be a bad thing after all you never know what you have until you lose it. Good luck and I'll keep you in my prayers.
729134
maybe you won't. and that's not ideal but it is what it is. if you really want to move on than just give it time and keep yourself busy -- this might be a great time to learn a new trade or language :-).  Avoid sad songs and love movies.
272851
No, you did a good job.  It is important to let people know how you feel.  I'm proud of you for taking a chance rather than never taking a risk and letting him go through life not knowing how you felt.  I hope it works out for you.
691651
wow.. im not the emotional sort, but i heard you crying while you wrote this! i feel for you, we all been there, you gotta CHANGE your out look and overview! it's over, he's cheated it wont get better, it cant, it will be tough, but you will get by it, find out your old girlfriends get back in touch with them, and start again.  company will help you through, and help you meet other people, dont give up look forward to the change ok?....ok?
378369
My advice would be to get away from this person as quickly as possible. There are enough things out there to agonize over, don't let another big one like this one tear you up anymore. Life is meant to be enjoyed, not destroyed. If there were kids, then that would be different. Run girl, like the wind. Good Luck
573677
You're just asking to be hurt...Honey...don't you think more of yourself?? This is not the one for you...you are HIS loss. Get  your self back in the game..
1029051
He is just being the typical immature guy.  Don't waste your time.  Do you seriously want to continue going through these types of senarios with him?  Please...you can find better.
993372
begin the healing process. It will be hard and will take forever. keep yourself busy. Goodluck
633234
Aww honey don't be sad. I just broke up with my fiance last Tuesday and we lived together I know how much this hurts. However you have to remember that what is meant to be will be. If you and him are meant to be together nothing, and I mean nothing can keep you apart. You need to stay busy and dont think about it. I know how easy it is right now to overanalyze every little detail. Don't. Thats just going to bring you down more. Look into the future, always have hope and take care of yourself. Surround yourself with friends and family and remember "this too shall pass"
568433
It's not a good sign.  You should have a heart to heart and put everything on the table.  If this is not the right relationship, it's time to move on before you invest any more time and energy into it.
1094390
Don't waste anyone's time here. Be upfront out of respect for himself and for you. Just let him know that the feelings just aren't there and it isn't him it's just the way you feel. This way you both stand a chance of meeting the right person.
732013
I would give it a little bit of time and then ask yourself. Are you ready to give this another try or are you starting to feel better and are able to move on?\n\nSomeone once told me people break up for a reason and that they should always stick to their original idea. Of course this is not always the case but just do what you feel is right deep down. \n\nHope everything works out!
1098347
Nope. Once someone states that the love is gone..Well that's just it.\nMove on, and get someone who deserves you :)\n\nBest of luck