My best friends bf likes me. What should I do?
79061
If he's doing this behind your best friend's back what make you think he won't do the exact same thing to you IF you 2 were to hook up? When you say "stop" are you really saying it like you mean it--Or are you being playful with it?\n\nI think if you really express to her how much it bothers you & withdraw being around her soo much she'll get the picture. Why be around something that you know isn't right? I'm pretty sure after she sees how much this irks your nerves she'll stop being so foolish. Just watch your back.
199270
Let me tell you this. its all up to you. It's either he likes you back or he doesn't. I've been in your exact situation before. I'm female and I developed feelings for my best friend who's also a girl. one day, we were just chatting about normal stuff and i basically blurted out to her that i had feelings for her. she told me that what she felt for me was totally platonic and she didn't think of me any other way. Honestly, it killed me for a while. However, today, the relationship that the two of us have is even closer than the one we had before i told her. We didn't have any sort of awkwardness between the two of us. The only shitty thing is that I still feel for her and although I make it seem like I don't feel for her anymore, inside, I just wanna kiss her everytime she opens her mouth to speak. But I have to say that I was really lucky cuz its really rare that two people can overlook the fact that one person feels more for the other than usual. The funniest thing is that til today, my confession is still discussed between the two of us. Recently, I just asked her if it was the right thing to tell her about it in the first place. And, according to her, my confession saved our friendship. Cuz she had already suspected, but she was in denial about it, seeing that i was her best friend and all. But if i had not told her anything, she'd feel weird and eventually take a step back from the friendship.\n\nSo, whatever you do, just follow what your heart tells you to do. You could jokingly bring it up as a suggestion if you don't want to take the direct approach. See how he reacts, and if it's positive, just let it slip. Say that, you didn't really expect it to happen but it just did and you felt that you needed to let him know.\n\nGood luck though.
679859
Do not end the friendship with him, but don't pursue him romantically either. Guys come and go, but best friends should be forever.  \n\nHowever, if he likes you and HE makes a move, talk to your friends about this and ask if they think it would be okay, because they would likely say yes, and you get to be with him and keep your best friends.\n\nBut if you make a move, your best friends may not like you so much anymore, and if he doesn't return the feelings, then you have no best friends and no boyfriend.
217697
For one thing is this your bf as in boyfriend or bf as in best friend, And if that was the case he would probably dump you for her. Or in the second case you should respect the choices she makes of whom she likes or dislikes either way. You can't manipulate others choices.
904195
hi..! well, i understand what do you feel right now.. i know it's hard to let go someone that you like, even though you cannot like them.. i think maybe you should try to 4get your bf's best friend.. i know that would be very hard.. i can understands you.. but that's all you need.. bcuz love need 'sacrifice', it means that you should let go that boy (your bf's best friend),, bcuz that is the beautiful of love.. you should enjoy it, even though it hurts you.. ok sista..
666090
Two things that may happen. Either your bestfriend will accept it and ask you if you want to move the friendship to another level. Or he will be surprise and will start avoiding you especially if he likes someone else. It will surely be a tough decision and you are the only one who can make it.
665503
If you really like him..than explain the situation to your bestfriend..she might be upset..but its better than lieing to her and than finding out..
100359
Quite honestly, you'll never kno until you try. Sometimes, best friends are great as boyfriends. He already knows you -- your likes and dislikes, your tastes, your past relationships, etc. -- and he didn't just become a best friend overnight (15 years of friendship is a *long* time). Then again, sometimes best friends aren't good boyfriends. He already knows you, but maybe he knows you too much -- how you will react in certain situations, how your pet peeves sometimes drive him crazy, etc. Truly, you have to follow your heart and your instincts on this one. I wish there were a "crystal ball" that I could point you to that would give you a definite answer... but I'm afraid the only way to find out is to actually be in a relationship with your best friend. God bless!\n\nHope that helped!
474499
Well if she is your best friend (I'm assuming that is what b.f stands for), and she did that to you, knowing how you felt about him, then she obviously doesn't regard friendship like you do! The joke is on you unfortunately! I would suggests you redefine the quality of what a true friend is and is not! Of course your slowness to be to the point with this guy didn't help. Your friend did what you were hesitant to do and succeeded. You partially have yourself to blame. If this guy is a flirt, it is probably just as well she got him. Flirtation tends to lead to jealously and mistrust. You will see it unfold in front of your eyes, then you can thank your lucky stars that she got stuck with him!
117402
If you like him alot then ask out he will probably understand I liked my best friend and know he is my boyfriend so go for it if you wait someone else might get there first
790912
Hi there,\nIt sounds like your best friend is important to you...you know...there are alot of hot brunette's out there...if she was not a nice girl to your best friend then she will not be a nice girl to you...you like your best friend most likely because you share the same interests and points of view in life or at least like to debate them...you can use your best friend...even though that doesn't sound nice...as a stepping stone for you...if he doesn't like her then probably you wouldn't either...anyway...this advice is my best shot at your problem...hope it helps..good luck.
748171
move on...dont get mad at your best friend...but still be nice to the guy!
593760
you should stay with him ok. im dating my bff's ex boyfriend. i like him and he likes me just because he's your bff's ex dont mean you cant like him
614903
how long have you been friends??? frankly, it really should be okay because you've moved on, right? unless, your friend is your bestfriend and she knows how you still feel about him, then maybe that's another question...so, maybe you need to ask your friend what is going on...you know, talk to her or something...but if she's not that close, leave it! like i said, you've moved on right? go find someone else better...someone who deserves you... ^_^
249545
If your best friend does not want to date you, then chances are that he does think your boyfriend is not good enough for you.  Think about it.  How many time have you seen the nice girl dating the bad guy?  We've all seen it.  Some think the bad boy is fun or really a sweety underneath.  Is this you?  If it is then your best friend is a good guy.  He is trying to protect you.  The fact is that it is your decision.  You'll have to tell him you need to "agree to disagree."\n\nIf your best friend does want to date you, then that is a whole different story.  You may need to choose.\n\nGood luck!
1023868
Your gonna have to talk to your best friend. He's going to have to convince her that your ok, I mean if he likes you and they're in a relationship then she shouldnt have a problem either. She's Probably just a BIATCH.\nI had that problem too. Except My friends girlfriend tried to kick my ass later. ShE had a TaZeR (ouch) =( But eventually she got over it and I got wit her friend We still going out right now.\n\nBut gewd luck wit dat anyway yo
129263
If he loves you then why would he date your Best Friend? And if she is your best friend, why is she dating the guy you love? Sounds like they have a sensitivity chip missing...get away from both of them