can i sue my girlfriend for deception for gain? used my income to help secure a re-fi loan. lots of equity?
91775
Do you have any record, written or witnessed that you jointly paid for the house. Any other commitment, definitely it should be in writing or witnessed.\n\nDO your own homework first. The ownership deed carries your name, in case of faulty payment schedule if you are equally responsible then you are equally rewardable too. In case she has not asked you for any CAPEX sharing earlier, that is her fault.\n\nProvided, you have to agree too -leaglly that is, for her to sell the house. If that deed gives you the right then she cannot keep you out. In fact did you share any or part of the equity, and have record or receipt to show for it? If yes, then it is an open and shut case. She will loose more money than you even by going to court, she had waited long for this and now it she pays a price with a premium.\n\nOtherwise, you have no say/no record whatsoever, just remember that the cost of 1.5" of patch and two moons was that much and hope you got your moneys worth.
2043
You might have a hard time.  Regardless of your marital status at the time of signing you could still be what is called tenants in common.  Any two people can be tenants in common.  Go back to your original contract and read what it says.  If it names both of you and both of you agreed then you are probably tenants in common.  Each having half undivided interest.\n\nBut this also means she would be responsible for half  of anything like taxes, mortgage payments and any other expenses with the property.\n\nAbout the only claim you can make to the property would be adverse possesion in he half interest but it might be a stretch.\n\nBut after 25 years of no payment of duties it might equal her half interest anyway.\n\nI would ask for accounting and partition....but see a lawyer.
142726
You can sue her for slander.  You would need to proof she said something about you that she knew to be false and that it harmed your reputation in some way.\nHypothetically, if she said you failed to pay something you owed, and it's true, then it's not slander.\nIf she can show she reasonably believed it was true, it's not slander.\nIf she said something false about you, but it didn't harm you in any way, then its difficult to prove slander (If you are in a business for example, and she tells everyone that you steal from your clients, but you don't lose any business because no one believes her, a judge may not grant any awards)
839845
Bad Idea. I find it hard to believe you'd get a better rate on a student load by using the mortgage (unless she didn't go through the gov't but only through a bank or used credit cards otherwise, the rates are extremely low and you can take lots of time to pay back). \nTrying to build a little equity? You must already have some equity otherwise you couldn't do this. They are not going to consolidate it into a loan for more than the property is worth.\nWhy waste that equity you have now already on something low interest, that you can take a lot of time to pay back.
171811
It would be very dificulat unless you have another source of income. (ie, alimony, investment income, annuity, etc)\n\nHowever, if you have enough equity to satisfy an underwriter (guessing more than 75%) they may be willing to loan you the difference.
716959
I applaud your ambition.  However... \n\nYou, my friend, unfortunately bring very little to the table that an investor wouldn't have - except time.  You've got no money, no experience, no credit, no connections and not business savvy to know that this structure is... if you pardon my bluntness... ludicrous. I wouldn't advise putting an ad in the paper as it would be a waste of money. \n\nI would recommend training for a real estate position, title insurance, mortgage company, property management or property development if you are serious about property.  Someone will teach you the REAL property game with somebody else's equity and give you a salary too. \n\nYour chance of getting a 50/50 partnership is about zero.  Why would somebody trade their equity position for you because you work.  You are better off getting a job related to property so that you can learn the ropes.
691830
I wouldn't think she could do it, not without going to court and making a big deal of it.  The best way for you to get this answered accurately, though, would be to see a lawyer.  Most of them offer a free one or two hour consultation, and that ought to be enough time to get this figured out.  Just do a little bit of research before you do it, to make sure you talk to someone who deals with this kind of stuff regularly.  I hope this works out well for you.
1051009
Is she depending on your money? If not, you had no business telling her to get a job. If she was, then you should tell her you can't afford to support her anymore. Just stop giving her the cash. Do you mean you're living together and she wants to move out? Sounds like a good idea. You can still keep your relationship, and once things get smoother you can try again. Sounds like a good way to figure out if she loves you, or your money. Or do you mean she wants to move to another city? She could be bluffing so you beg her to stay. She just wants to feel wanted, instead of like a burden. Just have a business like conversation. Tell her if she get's a job, even a parttime one, you'll continue to help supporting her, but you will keep a tab, and she has to sign a letter of agreement that she will pay you back. That's fair. That way you can be there for her when she needs you, without being taken advantage of. Attitude very rarely changes. So if you can't live with her attitude, move on.
429866
I think you're past being nice to this woman. She obviously has no problem abusing the system to get what she wants, and I find that completely unacceptable seeing as women who really have stalking problems can rarely get the help she needs. You need to do some research concerning the law in your state on several factors. In my state I know you could take her to small claims court if you can prove that the amount you lent her was indeed a loan and can provide adequate proof that it was so. The burden of proof would be entirely on your behalf so I warn you it could be a long and sometimes unfruitful process. As for her claims to the authorities that you are stalking her, you need to stay away from her period. Any contact could and probably would be used against you. If they approach you for an alibi, provide it, but other than that stick to a don't ask, don't tell. This is only my opinion and if you're really serious about this situation I say approach a lawyer through legal aid to see what all your rights are.
716568
Sorry to say this....but to pursue child support you HAVE to show them pay stubs.....so someone saw hers somewhere. If they miscalculated yours, call a hearing and detest it. But they go by gross not take home. Now if she is fraudulently getting money she has not claimed then you have to prove that! It's rough. I am sorry you are dealing with this.
567359
OFcause you must tell your finance`. You love her and therefore cant start your marriage on a lie.\n\nLove is a very strong thing and you can suggest to her that you both can go together and see a doctor and see what he says.\n\nYou should know your finance`. dont you think she would be upset if you cant even trust her with something like this?\n\nGod Bless you\nTammy
1181907
First off, they will charge you interest.........1.5% per month is the state statute.  They can also assess a late payment penalty.  None of that is very pretty to hear, I am sure.\n\nIf your boyfriend was also named on the property tax bill, this may give you some sort of legal recourse but I wouldn't hold my breathe dear.  What could be a good idea is contacting the treasurer (who you would pay the property taxes to) and discuss the situation with them.  For them knowing something might come to your benefit.\n\nI'm not completely sure of the time frame you have, but I would guess up to two years before things begin to get serious.  Even paying a little every month towards this can help save you from losing the property.\n\nIn any case, good luck.
805884
She's just trying to scare and intimidate you.  It's her word against yours...except you've got physical proof that she did in fact commit forgery.  That's a BIG offence.\n\nYou should contact a lawyer immediately and start working on suing her if you want your money back.    \n\nYou can't go to jail for lying...we'd all be in jail.  \n\nI'll tell you for sure, if you guys end up in court and she uses that excuse the judge will ask her: "why did so-so give you $150, what did you buy with all that money, why did you take the Ipod?"  You can say, I never gave her nor allowed her any access to my money.  \n\nThe worst that can happen is that you guys go to court and there's just too much back and forth that the judge will dismiss the case.  If you plan it out properly with a lawyer you could get your money back and she could probably pay for your lawyer fees too.\n\nGood Luck.\n\nDon't get intimidated!
1112107
As started in terms of contract it seems you have no interest.\n\nThough you may have an equitable interest. Equity takes a subjective approach, and you must come to equity with 'clean hands'. Equity will examine your contribution to the property and expectations you had when the contribution was made. It will also examine the nature of the agreement. Equity will as stated will look at the intention of the parties. \n\nIt is likely you may be granted a monetary sum, depending on the contribution or equity may allow you to keep remaining as a tenant. It is hard to say as you have not given much details. \n\nI suggest you seek a equitable remedy If your going to seek a remedy at all, though again it depends on the facts.
861363
You are right.  She is suffering from delusions of grandeur.  Right now, the most money you can make from a secure investment is to put the money in a CD (certificate of deposit) of 12 months or less.
432667
Once you get the judgment that will show up as negative on credit for 7-10 yrs.  You can also record a lien, filing the lien form (a form you that you can purchase from a legal document store) with the property parcel no. etc in the recorders office.  Just know that up too $100k of her portion of the equity is protected by the homestead act & will get you nothing.  More than likely down the road when she does want to buy a home on her own she will be forced to contact you & pay you off.  Another option you have is once the judgement it done, you can try selling the debt to a collection agency that will harass her for payment.
750153
The trust seems to be destroyed.  Find a lawyer fast!.... swear out a statement, just be sure you are not perjuring yourself, and get the process started.  If she signed your name, then she is guilty of forgery (unless you gave her power of attorney - which means you authorized her to speak/sign for you).....\n\nGo get a lawyer!........... and yes,........... it sounds like she should be paying the taxes for those 9 dependents...... where has she been hiding them,........... and is she gonna claim that you owe her child support!?