why do married men cheat with younger women?
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As a married man, stay at home dad of 3 children, i can tell you why, but I have never cheated.\n\nYou hit the nail on the head when you said he has children.  The wife is no longer sexually active, her focus is now on the children & the man has become a spare tire in the family, only needed in emergency.  You see, the man is made out to be the bad guy here & he deserves it, but the wife has driven him to this point.  If he has sex, it is once a week at most, if he is lucky & she is like, put it in & get it over with.  When i got married, we used to screw almost everyday, passionately, now it is the lame azz something i dont even call sex.\n\nBesides the above, men are PIGS!\nWell, the simple facts are, men have a high sex drive & have trouble saying no.  I told my wife one time, if some fox came up to me & said i want to blow you, my pants are comin down.  I have never heard of any man turning down head or sex---EVER!  If it has happened, he should be in the guiness book of world records.\n\nAs far as him leaving his wife goes, all a line he is feeding you.  Like when i was in high-school dating my now current wife & banging all the other girls that wanted me to leave my girlfriend/current wife.  I fed them anything that got them into bed, knowing full well, i was not breaking up with my girlfriend.  Now, add to that, he has kids & pays all the bills.  If he leaves her, he loses seeing his kids when he wants to + he loses his house, possibly his car.  Plus, he is gonna lose at least half of his paycheck every month + half of any cash he has saved----NOT GONNA HAPPEN!\n\n\nIf you dont believe me, I want to date you too & I promise, I will leave my wife.
424495
Men don't see it as cheating. We see it as sex, and sex is fun and good. Men can keep sex and love completely separate, If women have sex even 2 or three times they begin to love. It is primal instinct. Women are driven to look out for the safety of the offspring and this is done by attaching themselves to an alpha male. Men are driven to propagate the species by spreading their seed as often and far as possible. We are not far from the caves.\n\nj.swaney@yahoo.com
307409
Go the other way.  Married men are off limits.  You wouldn't want to be on the receiving end of a cheater.  Neither does his wife.  And let's face it, if he is cheating on her with you, do you think yer the only one?
543253
They wanted to spice up their lives. If a married woman have an affair with a single man, it complicate things. The man may do something to break the marriage- what if the woman just need a fling- married men are easier to handle, have more experience can easily understand DISCREET.
504910
Because they wanted to make the most of their new lovers and enjoy every bit of the moment they share!\n\nWhat is the importance of their cheating if they don't enjoy and make the most of it?
643168
It's my opinion that it doesn't matter whether it's a woman or a man...I, myself, would not get serious or even date someone I knew had not be faithful.  Even if that person was unfaithful only once.  I could never trust them.  It takes a lot of &*$^%* to cheat!  I've been the victim of one who cheated on me.  We were married.  It seems to be a thrill that they seek, even when the consequences of getting caught could devastate their life.  Who would be stupid enough to take that chance?   I don't understand.
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Most women I know who cheated were either bored with their married lives, or were in an unhappy marriage or relationship and could not or would not wait until they were out before starting something new.  I always say leave before beginning anything new.  Also, the grass is not always greener on the other side.
1070677
I think that is great advice to follow.  It leaves any question out.  No one could accuse them of any wrong doing.  If these young men are having problems being faithful, I would get them in church and tell them to confide in their wives.  That would get it off of their chest and hold them accountable for any actions they may take in the future.  Wives have a way of straightening out their husbands if they know what is going on in their head.
1172664
Women cheat just as much on men so that is really unfair. Women are 90% of the reason why men cheat. That and that they are dumb bastards.
1138783
Most young women see a older married guy as a safe way to experiment and even to learn more about the sensual pleasures without having to worry about a relationship or the complications that come with it.  By the way, yes the married guy can help it - its called self control!
1180746
yes, yes, yes!  I have been married with my huband for 11 years, with him for 15 and have never never cheated.  However, there have been many women who wanted him.  In today's women there is this idea that married men are better and will risk their own marraige to be with someone else.  Maybe they are bitter at their men and are getting them back.  All I know is that women today are catching up to the men with this dirtly litte secret.
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Men are strange creatures. They think in ways that don't make much sense sometimes at least to us (women).\n\nIts apparent he still loves his wife or he wouldn't be putting himself through the whole counseling bull.  \nAnd maybe deep down inside he wants to find out why he is cheating, and he is looking for answers.\n\nI suppose it is possible he wants his cake and icing too. But I don't think there is anything wrong with him per say.
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They don't always cheat. My husband has been in the Marine Corps for over 6 years and has been overseas 5 times and he never has cheated on me.  Most of the guys that I know that are married have never cheated on their wives either.  There is more of a chance that a spouse will cheat while the military member is gone.\n\nSolid statistics don't exist but estimates are that somewhere between 22 and 35 percent of military members, and 40 and 58 percent of spouses, have been unfaithful.
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"why do men cheat on there wives" correct question is "why do people cheat on their spouses" this is just the way some people can get the feeling of being younger without thinking of the ones at home and being hurt, the words "I'm sorry" may fix the glass on the floor in Pieces but not the feeling of having your partner cheating on you, you know what you need to do, get yourself out of the home and file, you need to see that there are men out there that will treat you as the queen that you are and finding one will be one of the simplest things to do, start off by treating your self as number one and under standing that this was done to you, not your doing at all. get rid of the dog and never look back. i see to many reasons why not to stay in this relationship. open your eyes and get on with your life...
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They rarely do it for any specific reason, it isn't about the woman they are with, often it isn't even about the other woman!!\n\nFor men who cheat, they do it because they can. \n\nIt's down to opportunity, geography and an assumption that they won't get caught.\n\n(The hallmark phrase is "it didn't mean anything to me" - as if that somehow makes it OK!).
944939
because they are married...not dead.  I look at men all the time.  That doesn't make me a cheater.
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Looks like everyone is going through another sexist trip . . . I've answered this question before . . . and as usual women ignore the facts . . . . so here it again.\n\nKinsey Report, published more than 50 years ago, approximately 60 per cent of men, compared to 30 per cent of women, were unfaithful to their spouses before the age of 40. \n\nAccording to Maggie Scarf, author of "Intimate Partners," first published in 1987 by Random House, \n"Most experts do consider the 'educated guess' that at the present time some 50 to 65 percent of husbands and 45 to 55 percent of wives become extramaritally involved by the age of 40 to be a relatively sound and reasonable one." \n\nNote that the above adultry statistics of the prevalence of affairs were made more than a decade ago; so based on changes in society during the intervening years, the current percentage of the population who have had affairs is probably somewhat HIGHER. For instance, the continuing increase of women in the workplace means that the numbers for women having affairs is probably similar to those for men—about 60%.\n\nCosmo recently conducted an online poll of 1,000 men and 1,000 women, and 55 percent of guys and a shocking 59 percent of ladies said they have cheated on a partner.