What percentage of women waited until marriage before making love for the first time?
93762
I thik now a days it should not realy matter to waite till your married there is some men that do preffer a virgin rather than someone that has been with another man,but the woman is not always lucky do find a man that is a virgin. I think yo explre safe in life is not bad due to you only want to keep your marrige happy and know what he and you may both want intimatly.
1028090
sex before marriage with anyone is considered to be a sin & possibly you don't want to be a sinner.if you are getting married than don't why you wait for sometime.the wait is really going to be worth it....\nGOOD LUCK!!!
1007622
Of course it's wrong, but who listens. Everybody's having sex before marriage, they don't care. And alot of people aren't planing on getting married, so why wait. And alot of people loses their virginity before marriage which they planned on getting married, so I guess the world don't really have much to say about that.
430470
Why are you in a hurry to have sex? You have something that you can only give away once, so why not save it for someone who has also thought enough of themselves to save their first time for you? There is NOTHING wrong with being a virgin...ever! Waiting for that special someone it the ultimate sacrifice. Think of how great a wedding present you could both give each other. One that could never be bought with any amount of money. You would also not have to wonder how many partners you are now sharing with the one you love. I'm sure you'll get many suggestions about appropriate ages. But you are putting your future into the hands of strangers, many of whom don't have your best interests at heart. Many will tell you to follow your heart & do whatever feels right. But feelings come and go. What you have can only be given once, then it's gone. Once you give it away, something seems to happen, deep inside your soul. It doesn't seem as important any more. You end up giving it up to your feelings, using it to get what you want. That's not what you were made for. Yes, I know I sound old fashioned. But, I was once where you are, even though I'm a gal. I wish that I had never made that first decision to give away what was supposed to be saved for the one I would eventually give my heart to. Please consider what you're doing before committing yourself to giving this special gift away. Be careful with your heart. <*)))><
1099572
"Everybody waits until marriage to have sex" ? You're kidding around correct? When a woman or man say I Know that person of the opposite sex, and mean that in the biblical sense! That Is Utopia!
113060
I am still a virgin, because I am not married. It annoys me so much that people now think that marriage is an option before having sex.
47052
Fall in love, get married, then have sex. But once you're in love and waiting to get married, I can tell you it's HARD to not have sex, but since I'm a Christian I am waiting until I get married, but it's hard...
248598
Coming from an Indian background (but not Hindu), I can only tell u this:\nIt depends on how well u know each other before the wedding, esp if it was an arranged marriage.\n\nMaybe u will only talk! It's best that u wait until ur wife is ready to have sex with u. If she's shy, maybe just kiss and cuddle the first night so she gets used to u. And bear in mind she probably doesnt expect u to be a sex god! It's nice to learn the ways of love together.\n\nTalk to ur parents or a marriage counsellor in the community, if ur still unsure.
1127697
no it is not right to lose your virginity before marriage because the bible tells you so.  another reason  is nowadays young people want to experience to much to fast and they end up with diseases and other things you can't cure.  like i tell my daughter its not what all your friends tell you is about its about making love you should never want to have sex just to be having sex.
372610
are you asking if someone has had sex before getting married in general?  or are you asking if someone has had sex before marriage with the person s/he are married to?  or are you asking if someone has lost their virginity to the one person they are married to?  those are all very different questions and have very different answers with different meanings.\n\ni can say- yes, yes and no.  i am very happy i did not marry the guy i lost my virginity to.  i was too young and dumb.  i am glad that i have had some experience before i met my current husband.  do i wish i had waited until marriage to my husband to have sex, not necessarily.  but i do wish i had waited a lot longer.  \n\ni am happy that my husband and i lived together and loved together BEFORE marriage.  we were married a little over a year after we met.  we've been together several years now.  the marriage is AWESOME, our sex life is great (7+ times a week- no lie).  but we were not virgins when we met, but we did have sex out of wedlock and became married.  it all depends on your heart's intent, level of religiousness (interpretation) and commitment level.  it CAN and DOES work (against my strict protestant upbringing)!
1152542
Yes I was.  I was a virgin until I was 22.  I don't regret waiting at all.  But I wait because I wasnt ready to have sex with anyone that I had met prior to that point.
185620
It would be best to wait until you are married.  Then you will have that perfect connection with the man you love and who loves you.  The man who truly loves you would be willing to wait.  Also a man's feelings develop deeper before having sex.  So waiting until you are married gives the man time to develop stronger feelings for you.  Finally, you want to have a spouse who you can do more than have sex with, so waiting until you are married will be a good way to make sure that you and your spouse connect in more than the physical.
339169
getting married first
930523
I don't think that 'marriage' should come before sex; I think a true, loving commitment should come before sex.  Marriage is just a piece of paper or a ceremony that represents that, but a lot of marriages are made without that commitment.\n\nPeople can have casual sex and do well, but generally, having sex first before a relationship and dedication can muck things up.  That's my two cents!
142134
I only ever had sex with one virgin.  Married her 7 years later :)
145791
When you're ready to have sex you are ready to have sex.  If it's before marriage, cool.  If you're not ready until marriage, that's cool too.\nI think sexy before marriage is a good thing.  People speak of how it's more special when you save it.  But honestly if you wait until you're married you're going to suck at it.  Not being able to please your spouse on your honeymooon (a very special occasion) would be a shame.  On the other hand, if both partners are inexperieced they'll at least have a chance to grow and learn about sex together.\nHowever, I think it would be foolish to marry a person you've never slept with.  Sex is a very big part of relationships and if you marry a person without knowing  whether or not they can please you sexually you may find yourself in a very dissatisfied marriage.\nJust think about this:  Would you buy a new car without ever giving it a test drive?
462777
It depends on the people not just about having sex right away...but you still should have waited.