My boyfriend and i have no communications. Whats wrong with our relationship? Why he does not txt me?
81822
Sometimes men don't like talking alot like women do. Have you told him that you want to talk more? Are you sure he is the right one for you?
345979
give it time. he probably doesnt want to rush things. \nif its really buggin u that much just ask him. be open and honest with him. communication is the key to a happy relationship.
869109
Sounds to me like he got a lil flaky on you and his attraction for you is wavering because of a: You not responding and b: maybe it'st just his thing. The tables have turned so if you really want to persue this relationship, go and do more then just call him up. Meet with him and discuss things.
927622
1) he could be busy. maybe something in his schedule changed. for instance when i was with my ex she would answer my calls most of the time. but then her aunt got sick and she spent alot of time in the hospitol and barley answered the phone for a while.\n2) maybe he is hiding something\n3) maybe he wants to break up but doens't know how to tell u,\n\nif u wnat honosty its not gonna be good. don't get your hopes up. and good luck. i hope u find someone who treats u better.
780748
It sounds like need to move on. He is not satisfying your needs and he has anger issues. What are you trying to hold on to? It is obvious that he doesn't do it for you in more ways than one. Cut your losses and move on. Make that a birthday gift to yourself.
294496
I would think that we are lacking something in our relationship. Otherwise he wouldn't have the need to look for it anywhere. I would talk about it with my partner.
763800
I don't think you love him...not yet, especially if you and he can't have a conversation over the phone yet.  A lot of guys don't like the phone, and they aren't like girls who can just sit around talking about things.  Don't call him unless you actually have something to say to him...whether it be, "hey, come over for a while", or "what do you want to do this weekend"...don't just call and make "what did you do today" the whole conversation.  Maybe what he is doing isn't even worth mentioning...in his eyes anyway.  It seems to me that you need someone that can stimulate conversation, and in this relationship that's going to have to be you.  Ask him direct questions and you will get direct answers.
1038823
I am in the same situation honey.  I would say to be completely honest with him, and be ready to compromise.  The best way to get through this is to talk with him about how you feel, and then try to find a solution together that suits both of you.  It may still be hard, but it will be easier if there are a few things you can both agree on.  The other thing you need to ask yourself is what is really bothering you?  Are you upset because you feel he is ignoring his resposibility to you, or do you think that you may be insecure about your relationship and worried that he's doing more?  Once you figure out exactly why you are upset, it will be easier to fix.
36966
i dont know either maybe he isnt ready to really say it to you.he might also have things to worry about,but i know for sure that he doesnt want to lose you,because he is not saying it.u are proably right he does love you,might be to nervous to say it.im sorry that he is not saying it to you.maybe you should talk to him.dont rush him on talking to you,though.good luck!
814860
My boyfriend also has a difficult time talking.  We've been together for almost 2 years and while we are not a long-distance couple yet (he's joining the military) right now he's in university so I only see him once a week or sometimes even once every 2 weeks.  We try to talk on the phone, but our conversations are boring.  I don't want to talk about what groceries he bought from the store that night.  So I try to schedule times when we are to discuss important issues.  In the past I have e-mailed him my concerns that I feel we need to talk about.  That way he has an idea what it is that I need to talk with him about and he has a chance to think about what he wants to say.  Sometimes I think guys need time to come up with answers (they're not as quick on the ball as women are).  But so far, we haven't been able to discuss anything important over the phone.  We wait until we are face to face.  This is a huge concern for me since all long distance relationships require communication.  If you can't talk openly and have meaningful conversations with one another, a long distance relationship will NOT last.  Good luck.
629986
If you live 3 states away, daily communication is unreasonable under the best of circumstances. This is probably wearing him down emotionally. I know that I get completely overwhelmed at times, especially by relationship issues, and just shut down. It doesn't mean I don't care; it just means I'm overwhelmed.
125003
why would he not talk to you? he is not worth it.girlfriend find someone else.
1173820
if he did not call you back,this means that he is not interested in you at all.dont waste your time with someone who does not love you.find a better man.
790322
Why cant he talk to you?
195674
Guys are really weird.  I don't understand it, but I've learned to expect it.  My boyfriend will chat on and on and on with me in person, but when I call him up it's all long silences and irritated phones and 'what do you want???'  guys just do NOT like to chat on the phone.  Don't sweat it, and don't take it personally...    just call him when you want to make plans with him and get together in person.
378771
It's possible. Don't call or email him anymore. If or when he calls or emails play dumb at first, (ex. Him: "Hey this is Jason" You: "Jason?......Oh, yeah," blah blah blah) That will maybe make him think you aren't as clingy as you may have first let on. It is also possible he just hasn't got around to calling you, or maybe he's not the type to check his email everyday, or your email got sent to his junk mail and he never got it. Either way, if he can't call you back then you don't need him anyways! =)
567269
Hi There...\nUs gals seem to have much less patience then the guys do as far as relationships go. We want to know NOW if this is a "real" thing or not. The guy, on the other hand, may think you are the cats pajamas but doesn't have the same brain chemistry as we do so he doesn't think to call. But you need to know...MEN are NOT mind readers. You need to have a conversation with this guy. If he really loves you and wants more with you he will say so (hopefully) if not then you can move on now instead of wasting more time wondering and waiting by the phone. TALK TO HIM! Good Luck.