how can i bring up my buddy list so i can see it?
85119
jsut go into your messenger and sign in and it brings up the list
260551
join other group with the same category as your group and have them know the existence of your created group by giving a link as you just did...goodluck...
594539
on there profile, there should be  box that says 'add friend' or 'add buddy', press that, it then sends a friends request to them and they may or may not accept you.
157907
Go to the link below. It should show a list of your profiles. You may have to make a new profile and set it as your default.
627985
Are you using AIM Trinton? (The newest version of AIM). If so, first, right click on a buddy, hell, let's use my sn. \nEXAMPLE\n•••BUDDY LIST•••\nX teh pwnerer   <--- right click and select "Edit Buddy"\nYou should be able to type in a first and     last name but you can type in one or the other. For example purposes, you would type "Claire". Then, click "Save". Then, up at the top right hand corner of your buddy list window, click "View" and select "Friendly Names". My name would then show up as "Claire", and yes, it would have the " " surrounding the name.\n\nHope this helps!
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I use AOL, so this may be a bit different, but:\n1. Add yourself to your Buddy List\n2. Click on Buddy Chat \n3. Type in the name of the chat you want to go to - you should be able to invite yourself.
1159044
If you were using yahoo, you can still sign into the web-messenger list in yahoo... Your added messenger list friends would be on there...
800797
OK..ready?..C/program files/Yahoo/Messenger/profiles/your screen name/Archive/messages...this will give you a list but you will have to do a bit more work to be able to read them
686688
If you ever have a person who puts you on their buddy list and you want to remove yourself from their buddy list then use a program called DERMOTS DENIAL. \n\nIt will allow you to remove yourself from ANyoNes buddylist whether they like it or not. I used to use it all the time because I had psycho obsessive men that wouldn't leave me alone. Here is a link to download it....\n\nhttp://www.geocities.com/feckage21/DermotsDenial.zip\n\nOnce you deny the person it automatically takes your name off their buddy list then it sends them a message telling them that they have been denied by dermots denial. lol or you can add a message of your choice to them. Its a fantastic program. Saved me from many a harassment from crazy guys.
625112
You can change the settings so that only people in your buddy list can IM you. It is in prefrences somewhere.
384588
cut and paste the archive and email it to youself...add yourself to your friends list and copy and paste there if you want or just keep it in email
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its in your profile setting, there are like 3 ways you can have it show, just click the one that says use id and save
629017
Sounds like a bad file.  Trying uninstalling and reinstalling and hopefully that will resolve the issue.  As your buddy list, etc. are stored up on the server, you should be able to do this without lossing anything.
61429
I think they have to add you also.\n\nThen you will be able to see when they are on line and chat with them.
661863
k, what u want to do is keep them on ur list and goto ur strangth list (right click on the name, go to strangh, go to put person on the show me offline to this person) this way u never have to go to the invisible mode.
287391
the same way you do if she has dial-up. Easiest thing to do is, next time she IM's you, on the IM window, click "add". It will add her to your list.
659285
Go on the yahoo, or Lycos site and enter world friends into the space bar.  follow the link (s).  good luck.