why do you think friends turn on you in life?
94939
If they turned on you, they are probably not a true friend.
906185
They probably think you were hurt badly and are too afraid to want friendship with anyone who might hurt you worse. It must be lonely.\nGod Bless
690530
I have found that it is usually best not to mix work life with personal life.  Sure, sometimes people get lucky and become friends through their jobs, and nothing bad happens.  But often the person you become "friends" with will try to take advantage of the situation, or worse, one day may get promoted and become your boss, creating an awkward situation.  Co-workers especially in an office) tend to be back-stabbers who will stop at nothing to get ahead.  They just might "accidentally" tell the boss about a mistake you made and corrected.  Or put you in a position you do not feel comfortable being in (lying to cover for them).  Or steal the promotion/raise that you were supposed to get.
381613
You seem like a very nice person. At some point, you have to quit letting them treat you like dirt. It could be because somehow you value or long for their friendship. Make them see things from your point of view for once. Some people are just mean, and they do not consider the feelings of others.But, some of these excuses (although they seem lame to you) could be for real. If the same person is doing this over and over ( 3 is my magic number), drop them like a hot potato. Not everyone is like that.
788219
Nope... Your friends are just messing with you... Or she's jerking you around... Either way, it's bad news...
1046402
It sounds like your friend is jealous. Sometimes people do really mean things when they're jealous without having a reason.
1062018
It really depends on your closeness. if u know each other well nd are friends for a long tym, then i think it's just for the fun of it. but a clue is: can you do similar thing to them? if yes then you are just friends nd nothing wrong with it. but if it's d other way round then probably they just lyk to annoy you and most of d tym they are jealous of somethin u hav...
575162
those people who do that are just jealous. there has to be some quality about u that causes them to hate u for it. you just have to be the better person and ignore them. Because for everyone, there will always ALWAYS be someone who will hate you for what you are and what you stand for. u just have to decide whether their opinion of u will change how u think of yourself.
1012836
I would guess that she was jealous that you got the attention and not her. The are a lot of reasons she could be jealous. I would express to her that this hurts your feelings. You treat people how to treat you and if you put up with her behavior she will continue to do it. If she is truly your friend, she should understand and make attempts to stop the behavior.
121603
Could it be that you are giving too much credcence to the actions of others.  Just be yourself.  Some will like you others won't.  You can't please everyone all the time.  The important thing to remember is you need to like yourself.  Learn to be comfortable with that and might be surprised at the number of friends you really do have.
261848
if a friend likes you he or she would act different around you then with other people. They would talk to you every time they see you, they may even say sweet things about up to other people or you.
1013078
I am guessing that one of your friends told you this to goad you into having sex with him or someone else.  Get yourself a new friend.
378214
Sometimes it happens over jealousy. Other times, it happens because your interests have changed. You evolve as time goes by, and sometimes, your friendships go into a different direction. Sometimes, this is a good thing. Just spread your wings and fly! (as the song says.)
382084
A lot of times it's because they WANT you to be with whom you really like. So it excites them. People like to feel needed and helpful. That's why a lot of times they will run and tell the person. It's not to embarrass you even though it does! The next time someone does that to you just know it's because they genuinely do care for you and they just want you to be happy!
104737
Some times, yes. then again , sometimes, no. Some peoplr pretend they are your friends and they are really using you for their own selfish gains. But then there are those who good honest friends who you put your life on the line for, Those are hard to find.
82002
A true friend will never turn their back on you.  A true friend will give advice as well as ask for it.  They will listen to your problems, and ask you to listen to theirs.  They have you in mind, not just themselves.  "Friends" cannot do all the things that I've explained above.
99255
It doesn't bother me. If they are saying nasty things, and they can't even back it up, it's because they are jealous of you. You have things they don't. Maturity, intelligence, amongst others. Don't let it hurt you, they'll only do it more. You are better than them and can rise above them.