How many dates do you wait before making a move?
89781
I would say the 3 date get to know the person
713420
I will take the first step to be social towards a man but I don't know about 'making a move'. I guess, if you call being the first to talk to him etc making a move then definately. My fella is very shy and he thinks I'm way above his league so he would never have made the first move to talk to me, thinking that I would straight out reject him. I could definately tell that he was interested so I made it easier for him. If I hadn't done that, we wouldn't be together so I'm glad I did.
621844
I would tell him that I would have to get to know him before we went on a date. It looks like you do know him so just say no if you don't want to go!
602781
First off, please please speak and type in proper english. And if you want to date all four, then do it.  Don't make a commitment to any one of them and you shouldn't have any problems.   Until you commit, you are free to date whomever you want.
1167175
As soon as you start dating.  you should only date one person at a time.
697304
If I where you I would wait for the guy to make the first move.
942447
Wait it out if they end up not working out make your move.\n-NmD!
250716
Well, it depends upon the situation whether you'd want to or not.  I can tell you that out of most dates and stuff, I would never kiss on the first date.  Heck, on 2 first dates, I gave the handshake; once because I was sick and the other because I just felt like it.  What did it get me?  It got them to like me and want me more.  It left them with something to be desired.  If you try to rush things for the sake of rushing, you're going to ruin things.  What makes someone desirable is good timing and knowing when not to give too much.  Too much of something or something that's too soon can ruin the whole effect and make something special bland.\n\nThe same could be said about seeing someone.  If you try to see them everyday too soon, you're going to get sick of them.  If you get someone clingy, you're going to get sick of them.  Having the right timing is right.  Since this looks like your first date or something, I suggest that you would pace yourself.  Don't fall head over heals too soon.  Relax and keep yourself busy with school and other stuff.  Chill with your friends.  Avoid talking and referring to her too much, because you'll over analyze stuff and end up thinking too hard and second guessing yourself.\n\nMost of all, have fun.  If there's anything to be gained from this experience is that you could learn how to kiss better and have more self-composure about dating women.
109947
Sounds like you're gonna have to.  I know if girls waited for me to make the first move they'd still be waiting.  I've always been way to shy in person and in a way it's worked out for the better.  If you want this guy, you'll probably have to do all the first moves.  Don't worry though, once he's confident he's not going to be rejected he'll break out of it.
874387
If you arent going steady or engaged or married you can date how ever many you want at a time. Just be honest about the fact you dont date exclusively.
526843
That's bull.  You can date as many guys as you can handle.  My friend used to date as many as 8 guys and even squeeze in an extra 5 if space permitted in her calendar.
867404
Me I tried to date a friend of mine but I went to fast.So I would say to slow down and talk things out before you jump.Life is like a box of candy you never know what your going to get.If you say he does like you I think you should go for it but remember to take things slow.
224983
I've gone out with 5 guys all together and the fifth is my soul mate.  With the other four, I rushed into the relationship because I felt no one cared about me.  I didn't want to be left out so when they showed any interest I was hooked.  When I met my current boyfriend, I decided I would take things slow and be very cautious.  We've been together for two years.  We've been through A LOT of trying times and are still as much in love as the day we met.
331869
depends on wat kinda guys u r talkin' about. guys who r lukin' 4 serious relatiohship may lose interests in u rite away if u do cuz they don't want their future soul mate 2 b 2 open. nevermind them cuz if then can't accept ur openness, ur relationship won't go any furher anyway. guys who r lookin' 4 short term relationship would love it if you make the first move cuz that indicates u r willing to have sex with them as soon as after the 1st date.  if u think that guy likes u but he's a little shy, single him that u r interested and willing to accept a date initiated by him. if he's still chiken, then u'll have to make the first move. but make sure that u make him feel comfortable around u. don't make him feel pushed cuz he may run away. after all, come on! b a woman! it's 2006!
296255
It depends, I don't mind when a woman makes the first move. I also don't mind if she let's me do the first move.  I guess its all a part of if you want something then go out and get it and not always do we get what we want.  I am for it.  It is OK if she speaks up first and if she makes the first move.  It can's hurt.
824451
If it was a serious relationship involving love, there is no true time limit. It all depends on when your ready. I would say six months. You never know, but if you try going out and it doesnt feel right. You would know that means your not ready.
323214
NEVER ever NEVER miss a chance to meet someone new, even if just to be friends there was obviously some chemistry being you both saw eachother more than once and were both too uncertain to make the first move, sometimes being a little more aggressive can pay off, just imagine if you would have just said hello and introduced yourself, you could have possibly at worst have a great new friend to hang with.. my personal advice for the future is you only live once and make the best of every experience you have in your life no matter what it is!! Good luck on your next chance at Mr So Hot!