How do i start a converstion with a girl? Only girl answer please.?
95037
I think it's funny you asked girls to answer. In a way you have already started a convorsation with me and i'm a girl.\nWhen intruducing your self be like hey i'm _____. Be really calm when guys are nervous it puts a weird tention everywhere. Just ask whats going on and dont be freaked out that your talking to a girl. we like calm people that are comfortable with themselves. it makes us more comforatable. hope that helps. good luck
892523
so what, start by talkin to her.
739360
you need to wait till the right time start a converstaion with her do you know her well enogh yet if not get to know her and you need to make sure that when you do it your alreay in a conversation to begin with so she  doesnt excape or vanish
255181
Just ask her for her number.  How hard is that?  Worst she can do is say no, and you’re not playing any stupid games which is a good way to start any type of relationship.
84468
TALK TO HER DUH!!! and just dont say anything stupid or mean to her start talking to her alot and yea
326551
Well first of all it has to be the right setting. You can't just walk up to some woman and start talking. Usually it's helpful if something happens that momentarily brings you together, such as being the only two people left standing on the train or accidentally bumping into each other. You know, like the commercial where the girl runs into the waiter and knockes the glasses over and the bottle falls on the table and spins until it ends up pointing to the guy. But since things like that rarely happen, sometimes you have to create your own moment of coming together. For example, if you have a class with a girl, you time it so that you leave the room at the same time, then you make some comment about class being long or boring or interesting or whatever, anything to set up your "common moment" and get her attention without coming across as a weirdo.\n\nOnce you have her attention, keep it by building on what you already know you both have in common. If she sits next to some idiot that annoys you, too, talk about how obnoxious he is. If there's an upcoming test or paper that's due, talk about how little/how much progress you've made so far...talk about anything that will get her engaged in a conversation. Then take advantage of that moment by making an observation that she might find interesting. In other words, get her talking, and then when you do, try to find common ground. Once you have her attention and you've established common ground, you're on the right track.\n\nIf this is a situation where you're going to see her on a daily or weekly basis or whatever but only a few minutes at a time, then bide your time a little to give her a chance to get interested. Take advantage of that few minutes of shared time whenever possible to chat with her. After a few days/weeks of this, if she's responding positively, you can ask her if she'd like to get together to get some coffee,grab a bite to eat, whatever to talk about your common interests a little further. If you've only got once chance to make this happen, however, then you need to do some major talking. If you can keep a woman's attention for half an hour, then there's a good chance she's interested in you at least as a potential friend/regular acquaintance and possibly something else (check the body language as well). Go ahead and ask if you can call her, get her number, and give her yours as well, and then CALL HER. Not that day, but within a day or two. Be friendly but not pushy and see how she responds.\n\nIn any case, any time you talk to a woman, you're not doing yourself any favors by coming across as bland, generic, or timid. Women love a man with confidence (but not arrogance) coupled with a sense of humor. We don't expect perfection. So if you do say something stupid, make a joke out of it. Laugh at yourself about it and then move on to something else. The fact that a guy can laugh at yourself when you make errors is very attractive, much more so than a guy who speaks in a macho voice and is too much of a control freak to say anything funny or interesting or even just plain goofy. \n\nI'm not kidding. I'd much rather be with a guy who makes mistakes but acknowledges them in a playful way and then moves on than a guy who's too afraid to open his mouth. Get out there and give it your best shot and chock any mistakes or rejections up to lack of experience. Not every women will respond, but that's ok, because eventually one will. And one is all you need.\n\nGood luck!
105626
I think the first thing you should do is to introduce yourself and start a conversation with her.  Try to get a feel for who she is, what she likes, her type of personality.  You'll never know any of the basics unless you even talk to the girl.  Once you know the basics, then that will help you make a decision to ask her out.
294495
Say hi, then ask how her day was. That should get her interested and want to talk more. Remember if you keep her talkin you will get far, just listen or in that case just read what she writes.
810560
Introduce yourself to her and start off with some small chat... let it go naturally from there.  Be yourself and have some confidence... i look for guys that are sincere, honest, funny, cute, can make me smile, a good listener...the usual basic stuff every girl wants.
743473
Communication is the foundation of any relationship.  You have to break free from your shyness and start talking to these girls that you are interested in.  Do your best to have idle chit chat and you should be able to overcome it pretty easily.  Good Luck!
283447
go up and talk to her
869004
you need to bust out of your shell. go up to her and say hi and the conversation will pick up. when you get comfortable enough and the conversation is going well just ask her and go with the flow.
898390
Hi. Then make some kind of general comment. Small talk usually works best to build a illusion of a relationship and then bring on the lines. This may or may not work, but it's better than walking up to a girl and saying "hey baby, wanna fuck?"
362958
Well first of all there is no such thing as a good pick up line. Girls don't fall for that kind of stuff. At least not any girl worth wasting any time over. The best thing to do is to start talking to a girl as friends first, get to know her a bit, but not too much, just so that you could call her a casual friend. The best way to do this is ask alot of questions about her, and don't talk too much about yourself. Naturally humans see good conversationalists as those who ask questions, because in a conversation we love to talk about ourselves. But make sure you mention yourself a little. Also a little tip for keeping a conversation going is to start your next line with whatever she just said. For example\n\nyou: So are you planning on going on holiday anywhere this year?\ngirl: oh yeah I'm going to Mexico\nyou: mexico? wow, sounds nice, it's a really beautiful place during the summer. what kind of music are you into?\ngirl: I like a lot of R n B music.\nyou: R n B, cool, I like a lot of R n B. So do you go to a lot of concerts?\ngirl: Not really, but I went to see Destiny's Child before.\nyou: Destiny's Child, I like them, a shame that they split... etc..\n\nThis is good because the repetition of what she says makes her feel like you're listening, plus it keeps the conversation going. Even if you don't know much about what she's talking about, just ask further questions about it. "oh I don't know too much about that, what's it like?" etc.\nEventually let it evolve into natural conversation. Don't force things too much though.\n\nCompliment her, but not heavily. Just little things once you've gotten to know her a bit such as "your eyes look pretty today", but nothing too much and not too often. Also compliment her on things that don't matter so much, like compliment a freckle, her voice, her hand writing. Little things are often the ones that are mostly appreciated.\n\nAnd I know you said you didn't want to have someone say "just be yourself" but you know, what's the point of being with someone who doesnt want to be with the real you? Hope it works out for you.
51576
Man this is the worst idea for attracting girls.\nyou look so desprate!!!\nnext time try something like: "girls wanna chat??" it works better!!
569623
first start with hi. Then, work up the courage to start a conversation like, "My, it's a beautiful day outside", or "That new brand of chocolate cake I had for dessert was sure good." Then she'd ask what kind of cake it was, and so on. Then, eventually you'll become friends and more. Just don't be afraid to act your own sweet self.
530204
Go up to her and introduce yourself and then break the ice by complimenting her on something then take it from there.  Try to find something to talk about from what she's wearing or what she's holding, like if she's wearing a baseball hat, talk about baseball.  Don't be intimidated and just go with the flow.