i like people. i wanna find a nice 35+ gay btm to share experince and culturally minded. How difficult is this
92747
its not difficult check the personal websites
102790
this is not a singles site. try looking for singles sites if you want to meet people
655360
There's a place called Blacks Beach.  It's in SD.  I'm not sure if it's a gay beach, but I'm sure you can find plenty of hot sexy gay naked men to put a smile on your face.  Let us know how it goes!  :-D
162186
If you havent found a 'lady friend' to talk to how the hell do you know your gay? I believe 'bi-curious' is the word you should be using, darling!!\nPeaceout!!!
851397
Oh. Go to www.gayromeo.com or go to gay.com. Those are great gay chatrooms and they are free.
729853
I know two couples who met on the internet - dated - and are now happily married.  One couple for three years - and the other for two now.  I think the internet is a great way to weed out the people you are not interested in - because you can say things like "No smokers.  No overweight people.  No Jesus Freaks" - or whatever it is that turns you off.  You should  be aware that people do lie about stuff - mostly their ages, weight, success in life - but that happens OFF the internet too.\n\nIf you don't like the "high tech" route - book studies, churches, and night classes are sometimes good places to meet woman.  You said you are an introvert - so it's unlikely - but not impossible - that you would perform in a play.  BUT - there are lots of things to do in a community theatre - and there are LOTS of women involved in them - and A LOT of the men there are gay.  So if you are not a homopobe and you'd like to meet women who spend their time doing theatre and encounter mostly gay men - go and act in a show - or gather props - or help build the set - or run the lights or the sound.  The ratio of women to straight men is usually at least 5 to 1.  And if you are just a quiet, nice guy who is hanging around - they'll notice you.
1176680
Hi buddy,\nI'm gay. Click the link below go to my MySpace page. Talk to you later.  Friends is all I'm interested in, so don't worry about the age difference.\n\nTerry
648888
You can try craigslist.com, but be warned that the people on there can be kind of strange.  If you're of the younger sort, definately look into xy.com.  There is also manhunt.net, and gay.com.  There are several others, but I have given you these sites because I have made some really good lasting friendships and a couple of good relationships from these sites.  Happy hunting!
920777
I can't answer about your community because I don't know which community you're talking about. If you mean here on Yahoo answers, you sure can feel lonely. \n   The number of questions about homos and lezzies are way out of proportion to the general population. Something here seems to attrack misfits.
645023
im a straight male, but i like to make friends.  if you like to chat email me at party_2_hearty@yahoo.com
541007
WOW. these people really brought u back down to earth. i will piggyback off of what they're saying and put it like this, it's probably hard for u because: U DON'T HAVE WHAT THE GUY YOU DESCRIBED IS LOOKING FOR. what do u have to offer??
850251
You're lucky to have the whole range of people to choose from. I wouldn't worry too much if you can't find any guys you're interested in. Girls make perfectly good partners too. But I suspect it's not easy to find the person who's just right for you, whatever gender they are. I'd just keep an open mind, and who knows, Mr. or Ms. Right just may pop up ;)
774366
Yes, it is possible. I have several male friends who are straight. We even talk about other people we go out with together. It's not a big deal. We enjoy each others company but in a purely platonic way.
182653
Go to your search and type in  just what you asked it should bring it up or go to one of the dating things on here and put in your area (sign UP) what your looking for, that would be your best bet. there are all kinds of people looking for people on those things. like friendfinder.com or american singles.com , www.adult-seeker.com, there are lots out there.
127300
okay...try swappernet.com.  you can look for men, women, couples, single females...whatever you want there.  i think that you can sign up for a free month or something. otherwise, i would suggest bars in your town.  but, i know that's kinda hard.
527325
i like gay people for friends but i am a woman and married! :-)
224727
Well yeah...like everyone says...gay bars are good for meeting the local gay population....but not everyone likes hanging out in bars...maybe you don't either.\n I would suggest you try finding local gay/lesbian support groups online...or going into gay/lesbian chatrooms...if nothing else, it passes the time and you might find someone you wanna get to know better.\n Get your profile onto a dating site or two...you never know what could turn up.....but if you're just looking for friends then please be sure to state that on your profile.\n I do wonder why you're in the closet...hope that coming out isn't going to be too traumatic for you whenever you do decide to come out to the people closest to you.\nGood luck sweetie :-)