about womens sex drive ?when does it go away or do they just hide it ??
92855
They have it longer than men. LOL Men peak at 18; women don't peak until around 30 something.
1176092
There's a testosterone patch (Intrinsa) that's under evaluation for women to boost the sex drive. I don't know when it's supposed to come out or what the status of it is right now. Check with your GYN. He/she should know.\n\nI got divorced after 17 years. That worked for me lol (actually that's not even a joke)
50004
There are many women who can handle this.  Those women are the ones who respect and share your values, love you for yourself, and aren't so shallow that sex would overshadow your good qualities.  You will know that woman when she comes your way.  Be sure to express yourself well enough so she understands why you want to wait, then she won't feel it's because you don't desire her.\n\nGood Luck!
247447
If you want them to return, you need to throw out a teaser, like "when we come back, you will hear from a surprise guest...." or something that will peak their attention enough to stay.  These magazine TV shows always have a sex related story, and they save it for the end.  They don't tell you it will be at the end, but every time they break for a commercial, they say something like "coming up: the secret sexuality of married women."
697253
well, i would say that she is just not interested in you, no offense but, if she was never like this before then i would say you two need to get into counseling to help her to want you.\nWhat takes away 95% of  a women's sex drive? Wedding cake
956832
women' s peak starts at their forties,their libidos pop up.regarding "some"married women,could be the stress of daily life,taking care of husband,children,job,relatives,friends..a lot of things.being with the same man who doesnt offer much of an excitement either,well,what do you think?\nactually,women in their forties are pre-menopausal,their hormones start to get mixed up,this is the time that their sex drive ,and urge is more,cos of more experience,she is more relaxed now,kids are grown up,career is at a secure level,she is financially secure etc.she knows what she wants in life and men,she craves fun ,adventure and satisfaction in and out of bed.so don't  get worried my dear,if i were you,wait til you hit your forties,and u will surely know.i know,i am  now at that phase in my life....
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23 years here, I understand the issues.  (c:  Familiarity does LOWER the labido!  These young chicks do not know that yet <c;  They also do NOT know the rewards of LOOOOONG time relationships.   \nSKIP THE TOYS.  Unless your husband asks about them.  \nTo help with sex drive I  let my mind wander through out the day and remember the THRILL of "great" sex...  As in plenty of ummmm ,  lets say Fireworks *wink* for me.  I make a great dinner , give him a bit of a back rub or foot massage.  These things make me feel like a "good woman"  .  If your married 30 years then you already know that catering to your man has benefits (c:
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Have you been diagnosed with post partum depression?  You have to determine why your drive has decreased.. tired? fear your child may pop in?  Just not into it?  If you're going to attempt changes without the assistance of speaking to your doctor, maybe you need to spice your sex life up.  Initiate.  Be assertive.  Try new things.  Time away with your partner/spouse.  Good Luck!
665167
Uhm, sorry but you're wrong. After menopause, they regain sex drive, but many are in commited relationships and their men have no sex drive or are unable to perform.
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i don't know exactly what casues it. it might be different for each person. but for me it was becasue i was rapped and then the first time that i had consentual sex he didn't know what he was doing and he went to fast and hurt me too much. so i think that is why now i have no sex drive. but it might in her case not be that drastic. some people jsut don't like having sex. there is no reason to be concerned. or maybe she just hasn't found what she likes yet.
251928
My girl is the same way and I am 23. It's sorta weird for me not to be in control of when we have sex. I believe if she didn't want to have sex so much then I would. Its a weird situation but I think its true.
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It is all related to hormones and being tired from caring for the baby.  Don't worry, the sex drive will return.  If you are real concerned about it, talk to your doctor.
356106
I have not had one but I have heard a guy friend talk about his girlfriends sex drive is like zero and that may differ from girl to girl some may not notice any change
279876
maybe u re premenopausal?i would surely consult a doctor first not an Internet. it also can be a tumor in brains which is developing in the area responsible for the sex drive. please hurry to a doctor, it's not a joke
837005
Women's wants and needs change over time. Life gets busy and sometimes we don't get a chance to tell each other how much we love our spouses, maybe she looks to this kinds of sex as a way for her to feel loved.It would be good for ya'll to spend the day together expressing your love. maybe then she will come around and realize that just because she has had kids and gained a little weight you still desire her and need her.
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I haven't met many men who were disinterested in sex, no matter what age, however, performing is another subject.  Many women also experience a decrease in libido as they age,  there are other ways to satisfy ones sex drive that are perfectly normal and do not break the marriage vow.
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Depends on the female and what kind of sex drive they have.