How do you  find a girl when you are ugly on the outside?
94944
First of all im going to start off by saying that I am not an ugly girl at all. I have dated club owners of well known downtown clubs in Houston, and many other successfull business men. I am curently dating a pro baseball player.I was the type of girl that went for the looks right off the bat, only because i had to be physically attracted to a guy if I was going to date him. But since then I learned a very good lesson while dating all of those men. Looks are not everything. At least there not to me anymore. I now look at the guy in the inside. If you have a good sense of humor and your just a really positive person YOU WILL ATTRACT THE RIGHT TYPE OF GIRLS. That a good guy like you should want. A good honest decent girl who  wants a man that has a heart and  a good head on his shoulders. you need to stop looking at what you dont have and focus on what you do have, all of your good qualities. I love a guy that is confident and knows that what he has to offer a lady is more then just looks. Appearence is not everything. Good luck in finding that girl and keep me posted. Sorry if that wasnt the advice that you were looking for.
140716
Look for the girl with the lowest self esteem and go from there. Money is always an option
154450
I can tell you where you won't find one.  Here.  \n\nGet out and be in an environment where you are comfortable and enjoy yourself.  It helps you with the opposite sex, unless, of course, you are confortable in places where women don't hang out.\n\nHowever, I do know you won't get a girlfriend here.
212294
You can not. You only have control over you. If you're happy with yourself, you will find the girl who is right for you when you least expect it.
1131525
Castration is an option.\n\nSo are ugly girls.
404928
You need to first know how to spell girl before you will be able to find one. Look all around you and you will find one...N
532443
wow that's so kool usually it's the other way around and  you must live millions of miles away from me so that's totally outta the pic so I would suggest you just be yourself depending on where you live you should find some. But just note that black girls are more difficult to approach cause they r more fiesty but just be relaxed and go about it the same way you would with any other girl and eventually you should find one.
366450
If you're looking for one special girl, consider following these tips to get a girlfriend. \n \n   \n \n  \n  Steps:  \n1.   Know what type of girl you're looking for. Make a list of traits that appeal to you, such as intelligence, looks, ambition, sense of humor, or respect for other people's feelings.  \n  \n2.   Resolve old hurts and disappointments. Make sure you're ready for a new relationship by setting aside any grievances about old girlfriends.  \n  \n3.   Attract the type of girl you're looking for by emphasizing your best features and downplaying undesirable traits. Make the most of what you have, both physically and mentally.  \n  \n4.   Learn how to make a girl feel good about herself by taking an interest in her life and her aspirations.  \n  \n5.   Consider any unattached girls at your school or work. Do any of them match the qualities that you want in a girlfriend?  \n  \n6.   Get involved in activities that you enjoy to give yourself the chance to meet new girls. Expand your horizons and your circle of friends.  \n  \n7.   If you have your eye on a certain girl, let mutual friends know about your interest in her. Ask someone you trust to discreetly tell her about your interest.  \n  \n8.   If you don't have the nerve to directly approach a girl who has caught your eye, consider being her secret admirer for a while. Send her sweet, anonymous messages or notes (with a few subtle clues about your identity) to let her know about your interest in her.  \n  \n  \n  Tips:  \n Love can surface in unexpected places and at unexpected times. Keep your eyes open for the right girl for you.  \n  \n  \n  Warnings:  \n Don't settle for anybody just so you can say you have a girlfriend. Be selective to find the right girl for you.
345076
Be yoself and turn on the charm! You don't make a girlfriend, u get 1! Don't be too smooth coz women won't trust you and don't look at every woman u see on the street as a potential candidate! Look for someone u can reaaly click with and interact with, the physical aspect alone does not help. I know what i am talking about, i am a woman!
82532
try going for a run and trip in public in front a lot of girls. one may help you up, or they will all get a good laugh out of you looking stupid.
377333
very ugly..an ugly girl will treat you better because they are just grateful to have a date.plus they will usually pay for everything.
684693
First of all, you shouldn't just go after any girl just because youre single or eyeryone else has a girlfriend except you. Wait till you actually find someone you're interested it.\n\nAnd when you actually find you're girl, just be yourself. Most girls usually hate boys who act like huge show off's in front of them. \n\nFlirting is not really hard. Imagine a scene where youre talking to the girl you like. Just keep eye contact while you're talking to her, but dont stare into her eyes [it makes girls feel uncomfortable]. Then while youre talking to her, just touch her somewhere, like hold her hand [but not for too long]..and or rest your hand on her shoulder. But remove it if she starts looking at your hand [which is on her] uncomfortably.\n\nYou could also try to throw in a few compliments here and there. Girls like beng told that they looks nice or they have pretty eyes or they have a wonderful smile.\nAnd if you want to ask her out on a first date, just ask her out for a movie or dinner. And if you are rejected, don't worry. There is probably some girl out there who has fallen for you're smile. You just have to find her.\n\nWish you luck,\nkiller_queen
446436
go outside!! it's a lot better to find a gf/bf when you actually MEET!! good luck!
188873
Sorry but im taken..ha ha j/k.You have to find her...the girl thats right for you. you cant let someone pick her out for you.
1149010
For women it isn't all about the looks.  A little extra weigh makes you a teddy bear to some girls.  Just keep your chin up and look for someone who matches your personality.  Be romantic and sweet and you will find a nice girl.  Good Luck!!
402909
It's all about self-confidence, not what others tell you.  Don't think your hot because other people tell you, think it because you know it. (but not too much so, vanity is only good in small doses.)  work your way back into hitting on girls, go to a new bar and find girls that your not "really" interested in, and just try different approaches (don't go in looking for sex, but looking to find out how to be confident in your mannerisms), get comfortable talking to new girls, and then try on someone you actually like, and maybe good things will happen.  Eyes are the key, a woman's eyes will tell you everything.
503533
theres bars and clubs were you can find some ladies. trust me there out there your just got to get out thhere and look hunny....