Is this love?am having some contacts with my ex-girl and she wants me back.Am in love with my new girl what do
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Is this love?  It does not sound like it to me.  If you loved either and you knew it, you would not feel confusion.\nAs for romance, you make your choices and you take your chances.  If you heart is not screaming that you do not want to live without one of these girls then you might end up living without either.
329116
Sorry to say but most likely shes seeing someone else. Sounds to me like shes just calling you up when she has nothing better to do. I don't mean to be so blunt but I don't know how to sugar coat that one. She probably wants you to stick around because shes unsure of the guy shes seeing and wants you on the back burner in case things don't go well with him she has you to fall back on. Sounds to me like your a pretty good guy. At least loyal. You should just ask her about it. If she can't give you a straight answer then the hell with her. Just move on. Good luck and I hope I'm totally wrong and you get your girl.
506818
if she's seeing someone else she probably doesn't feel the same way you do. And think about it do you really want someone back thats willing to dump you and be dating someone else right away??
672690
hi, i feel that you should not be talking to your ex, if\nyou are still close that good but he has a girlfriend, and\ni feel it very  disrespectful of him to be talking to you\nabout his problem with her. because if the shoe was on the\nother foot how would you feel. he need to get his situation\nwith her together and  if it meant for you and him to get back\nyou will. the big guest ion you should ask yourself seriously\nif he so unhappy with her then as you stated why is he still\nthere.
978552
Congratulations! You are the rebound guy. Dude she's definitely using you as the rebound guy. She wanted to date around and he didn't that's why he's not calling her back. If he was to say to her "okay let's have a open relationship", she would lie to you about it and act like she's acting now, like everything is fine. You have the proof that she is willing to be unfaithful to you, now what are you going to do with it????
160366
When you figure it out let me know.I am kinda' in the same situation.I am in love with a girl who is in love with me,yet she is with someone.
494709
It's clear that your ex is very jealous or wants to revenge or something like that and wants to brake your relation with your actual girlfriend. The best weapon u have is YOUR GIRLFRIEND. If you really love each other speak all things you re feeling now about the situation and give her an example with the same situation but with the players inverted. If she really loves you she will understand and will stop your ex.
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Damn that sucks. Caught in the act. Damn you really are in some serious S**t. Well I don't blame your first girlfriend for not wanting to talk with you after she caught you getting a bj from another girl. I mean I wouldn't if I was her. Well lets just say, you'd have to pull some serious s**t out of your a** to get her back cause I don't think so she'll settle for anything less than a "I'm sorry" statement. As of right now, you're on your own. But don't be surprised that she won't want you back. If she does take you back, you better take your relationship more seriously with her. But good luck. And hope things goes back to normal. Sorry, but this is a problem that you have to cure for your self. I don't think so no one can help you but your self right now.
511712
There's not much you can do.  If you tell her, you risk the chance that she'll think you want to get back together.  Are you really sure your not just being paranoid?  Not everyone plans their life around their enemies.  If you really have proof, just go up to her and ask her if the other guy is what she really wants. hope it goes well.
574207
Depends why she is your ex and what sort of help she needs. It also depends on whether you have a new girlfriend and whether she would mind you helping your ex out. Only you know your situation and only you can decide...
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I personally think you have made a smart move and are taking responsibility for what is yours. I would NOT stay with or talk with the ex girlfriend. (why mess up what you are trying to recreate). I can understand why you were made at your wife, but she is your wife and more importantly the daughter is yours.
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Dear girl,\nI am suspecting that you are quite young if you're still not backing up since your Ex told you to. I would recommend, please give it a time. I know how you feel inside. I've been there, and it felt horrible at the time. But, trust me! After a while, maybe 3 weeks, maybe 3 months, but you'll feel much better. You will get over him! And you'll wonder why you were suffering as you are right now! The possible reason for your Ex acting this way is maybe that he have found his true love. And now he doesn't want to ruin it. Probably, his new girlfriend doesn't want you guys hanging out. So, please have some dignity and let him go. Don't be surprised though, if you get a call in few years from your Ex. So, I hope that you understand what I'm trying to say. Good luck!
644343
I would ask for a stronger defination of your relationship.\n\nFlip the tables back on her. How would she feel if you were still in contact with your ex?\n\nHer answer dictates your next step.
862198
Don't make contact - you are settled and so is she.  She will  be a completely different person now than she was then.  She will also look very different.  Keep your fantasies in the past.
324993
Well You did not give the reason of your breakup so it's hard to give an advise.  Anyways, I think you still in love with her so why not try to court her again if she's still single.  Don't wait for her to call, she might waiting for your call as well.  Do the first move, she probably waiting for you to call her. Talk things out, or just say hi.
1089342
The new girl isn't going to fill any voids - she might keep you preoccupied for a little while, but thats about it.  You need to let your feelings for your ex come out - and you need to deal with them in order to really move on.
212180
If you want her back, apologize and promise to be good, and keep that promise. Otherwise, get out in the world and start dating again. You'll find someone new to care for.