I like this guy but i dont know if he was straight or not.. how do i know without asking him??
90558
i had the same problem. I asked him about it. I finally got the truth when a sexy girl walked by and him and a friend's head turned to watch her walk away.\n\nso get a pretty friend to walk by or ask him staright.
609498
The fact that you are asking indicates that you are considering it, if you weren't you would have told him no flatly right out.  He must detect that you have tendencies because I doubt he would bring it up otherwise.\n\nYou have to ask yourself some tough questions, are you gay, bi-curious, you need to search your soul for some answers.\n\nIf you are, you need to acknowldge it and accept it, there is nothing wrong with it.  \n\nIf you are straight and want no part of it, you need to make that known to him right away, if he's your friend he would understand, if not then you need to re-evaluate your relationship with him.\n\nGood luck.
473086
Well, to begin with you have to ascertain that he is in fact gay or bi. We got a couple of ways to go: just ask him would be my best advice. Second to that...does he date anyone? Does he have friends that he regularly hangs out with that you could ask?\nIf he is gay/bi...just tell him how you feel. It is my opinion that nothing bad can happen when you tell someone how you feel. Could he reject you? Absolutely. But you haven't lost anything if he does...you're not dating him now. You will have the benefit of knowing that you tried and knowing exactly where he stands, even if its not beside you.\nAs for your girlfriend, women know that you can change your mind (It is out pergotaive :) ). Your friend probably will rib you a little and then help you implement your game plan. \nHope this helps and good luck to you!
310110
Just ask him its the best way to find out, if he says not in that way just continue being friends, it wont be wierd after he knows you like him
253304
That seems normal. Be happy you have a good friend who can be so honest with you, he knows he's not going to ever have a chance with your bf - who is obviously straight. That is why he told you - he is good friends with you and is comfortable telling you anything.
611522
Just walk up to him and ask him, "Yo", "I was wonder if you like me because I have a strong attraction towards you and I was wondering if you feel the same way about me?"\nThen you will find out the hard way but at least you'll find out right away.  The only way is to be blunt and that is the only way, got it?
700934
Well, it is better to know than to not know.  So, by asking him you know right away if he digs you or not.  If he doesn't, you aren't wasting a lot of time pining over him and you can move on.  Once you get over that hurdle and fear of rejection you will find you take chances in other areas of your life, too.  Life is about taking risks.
148391
You could ask him. You could ask a friend of his. You could have a friend of yours ask him or his friend. You can also tell (usually) by the way he acts around you. The sillier he acts, the more he likes you.
866269
well if you guys are friends, then ask him if he likes you..if he says yes you have your answer..
365475
i would try to talk to him, and hint to whether or not he likes you. but don't directly ask. maybe have a friend talk to him, or even talk to his friends. try talking to find stuff out about him- so you have a foundation of your relationship. and good luck!
889743
if u r gay he may be interested indeed!\nbut if u r not then maybe u ve gotta see more signs b4 drawing conclusions!!\nthink bout it!
169371
Talk to him and find out how he truely feels. This way you will know where you stand instead of always having to wonder or wish you knew.
935538
a closet straight?  he told you he is bi but more gay than straight.  what's the problem?  you want every person in the world to know he is bisexual in the hopes that no one will sleep with him except you...you sound very immature and jealous/obsessive.
48180
Ask him. Straight up because if you don't you will never know and you could waste precious energy on someone who doesn't like you. If he does then there you have it, no more guessing. Get some courage and ask him! You have nothing to lose.
324270
youll never know for sure, thats what i honestly think. ask him? you still may not know for sure. try just seeing him as a friend and watch carefully how he acts around you, you can maybe get a general answer that way. good luck...
278682
Does he know about your sexual orientation ?\nHe might like you too but is also not sure if you like him or not ?\nIf he knowes that you are gay, and he does all these signs that make you doubt that he's gay, it could be because he's trying to sense some signals from your part too.\n\ntry to find out about his environment. what do people around him in his community think about gays and lesbians? maybe he is but he's afraid of being rejected for who he is?
768654
if your not "out" then it might not be as much of flirting as you might think/hope for. If he thinks your one of his buds, and is straight it might just be him being pals. don't read too much into it, I know you want to, and I know he seems like the perfect one for you, but stop and think about it. If he is not bi, then you could really ruin your friendship. Maybe feel him out a little, bring up something in the news or current events like gay marriage and see how he reacts to it. \n What ever you choose to do, go slow, and be smart.\n and as much as it sucks remember their is a big difference between love and lust.