do soulmates really exist? Or is it all a bunch of hype?
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THEY MOST CERTAINLY DO. WHATEVER YOU DO DON'T MESS IT UP BEFORE IT GET'S STARTED THOUGH. YEAH THAT HAPPEND TO ME
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god has a plan for all of us. That is what i beleive. I have been hurt so many times but i never give up hope. i will find my soulmate, and so will you.\n\nps. there should only be one perfectlove and you will know it when you find it. Many people settle for second best i feel, i havent decided what i will do yet, maybe as i get older i will get less discerning!\ngood luck anyways (hug)
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Sorry to be a wet blanket, but soul mates are a nice nyth, nothing more.  Relationships are hard work, and you get back what you put in.
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Why not?\n\nIsn't a soul mate just the perfect partner?
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I Believe in soul mates they are different than Twin Flames or split aparts.  A soul mate is simply someone you have lived a past life with.  Your whole family probably consists of soul mates, even those we don't like can be a soul mate.   \n\nBut twin flame is special and its not always ideal.  My husband and I are twin flames.  We were both born under the same sign but there are more things than just that.  Little things that let me know he was my twin flame.  My reaction when I first met him was oh Gods not him not now Im not doing that again.  <grins>  Im a pain in the butt to live with but the male version of me is even worse.   He lacks 9 days being a year older than me.  My intitials before we married were JRC  His are FRC  Im still JRC.  It happened to my grandparents as well.  Grandpa lacked 9 days being 4 years older than my grandmother.  His initiles were RCC hers before they got married were MCC.  She died before he did but he died on the 4th aniversary of her passing.  Little things like that have always been significant to me.  But, how do I know hes my twin flame?   Here in about two hours I will get up and walk to the end of the driveway.  As I get to the end of the driveway he will come over the hill and be home for the night.  Hes never home at the same time.  I don't do it by the clock I do it by the feeling I get when he gets close to the house.  I know if hes hurt before he calls. I know if hes going to be late before he calls.  I know because when I close my eyes I can hear his heartbeating in time with my own.  our souls are one and always have been.  I dreamed about him as a child.  He has always been with me to protect me and make me laugh even when driving me completely insane.  Its not an easy path or even the best one.  Most people would be better off pick a soul mate to marry and be with forever.  Not everyone can survive the struggle of trying to share the same soul in such close proximity.  Seperate but not seperate is harder than people think.
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Anything's possible.  There are a lot of love stories that started online, but that's just a start.  You need to have some real live in person contact to see if ya' hit it off in more than just a fantastical way.  Some people who are great on paper are not all that great in real life...and I think love is better in real life than fantasy.
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I believe that true love exist. I think that there is more than one person out there that can make you experience it. No one will ever be just perfect for you that is way you get to have possibilities. If there were only one person out there that is right for you then it will be nearly impossible to find them.
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I believe that there is the possibility of finding someone who is a soulmate. There has to be something about a person that just feels "right," almost like you consider each other equal. In some instances, you may even feel a slight pull to this person, like the couple is 100% compatible in all aspects. This does't rule out fighting, of course. What relationship doesn't have fights? But, in the long run, if there is a person you would consider a soulmate, the fights wouldn't matter.
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You dont search for your soul mate, you find eachother. Soul mates are connected, even before you meet. You cant look at someone and say "thats my soul mate." It just doesnt work that way. Like they say, "you cant help who you love." best of luck.
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I don't really believe in 'soul mates'.\nI think it is a romantic notion which is all very nice, but in reality I do not believe that there is only one person in the whole world for you.\nIf that was the case, it is a big coincidence that most people find their 'other half' in their hometown or at work etc.\n\nI believe that there are a number of people out of everyone that you meet and know throughout your life, who you will 'click' with on an emotional and intellectual level.\n\nAs far as God wanting you to be with someone, I'm sure there are many believers who have gotten divorced, so I don't think that God chooses your partner.  If you 'believe that God wants us to be together' is that really just an excuse to go and get them?  I suppose you could go and say 'I love you and I want you to be mine', just be prepared for them to say 'Thanks, but I'm in love with someone else'.\n\nIt is difficult if someone you know (and possibly love too) is with someone else, but they are entitled to that, so I suggest a common sense approach.\n\nBeing in love is great, but being loved back also is even better.\n\nGood luck!
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I think that every one does have a soul mate out there some where u just have to lokk for that someone!!
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Yes, it exists!!!\n\nApparently you haven't come across someone who is a good match for you, who has the same goals, life views, world views, and idea of perfect relationship that you do.  \n\nWhat is it you are looking for?  Do you know?  What is your definition of "true love"?  It could be that so far you are dating people whose definition is different than yours.\n\nThe best match is someone who makes us laugh, whom we make laugh as well; someone with whom we have a lot in common, including short term and long term goals, and world view, someone whose habits and characteristics you can live wiht, and who can live with yours; and someone with whom you have mutual respect.\n\nSometimes it takes a while and meeting a lot of people to find a few that come close to what we are looking for.  Don't settle for less.  But do get to know yourself and re-examine your thoughts on what true love is, just to make sure you are being realistic.  You may be . only you can decide that.\n\nYour love is out there!
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I dont' know if I believe there is only ONE person that you can feel is your soulmate. When you do find a person you feel IS your soulmate, you stop looking, and you don't need anyone else. I DO think it is very significant when you do find someone you feel like that about however. There could be any number of people in the world that would be ideal candidates for being with you, with similar interests, values and beliefs. That doesn't mean that the one you find is the only one, but they are the most special one, because you found each other, and that's all that matters, if you're happy together.
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Big ne.  Personally I think you have to be pretty deperate to go to the internet to find a BF/GF.  Somehow I dobut God wanted the internet to be used for dating.  I mean, your soulmate could easily be right in front of you and you MISS the chance to be with them but then you meet a so-called SO on the internet.  So in my opinion, only despearte people come to the internet for their so called love.  How can it be real?  Its not its fake.  There's an old saying, "Don't look for love, let it find you."
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The thing about searching for your soul mate or life partner, is that they never show up when they're expected. Its usually when we are not looking, or possibly given up on searching, is the time when they rock up in our lives, change everything, and we're never the same again.\n\nMy point is...you cant select your life partner, it just isnt that simple. Be content with your self, and get to know yourself and your needs as a person, and so when the right one does come along, you'll know if they're the right one for you and can meet all your need as a partner and bestfriend.
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That's an age old question, and a little romantic too, I think we like to believe deep down that there is such a thing as a partner that seeks one person as they have a cosmic connection that extends beyond this life. \nIf one believes in the soul, then why not believe in soul mates.\n\nI personally believe in soul mates, as I too believe in true love.\nLove n light\nxx x
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That is a difficult question. I say yes. Been there and done that and my heart is broken right this moment. However, after talking to someone about it, I have to ask myself, is it real? My heart/emotions says definitely yes. However, logically, you've never been with that person so you really don't know how they really are. I say if it is possible to get together, it could be real love if you get to meet. Did that make sense?