If your friends "man" hit on you would you tell her?  Why?
95558
The girls answer is "Yes we would definitly tell" and "Yes we would want you to tell us"  I mean I could dump him then he could be with the person he's tryin to get with behind my back no strings.  Well wouldn't you want to know if your partner was cheating or trying to cheat?
920983
If you like it dont tell...You'll end up the bad guy if you tell her...If you dont want him touching you, pop him upside the head...
535539
you should go straight to your friend and tell her before it gets out of hand.
617859
I want to say that your friend is wrong for going about it the WRONG way. She should have been honest and maybe it wouldn't feel so bad when it's happened. You have every right to feel betrayed because she was not completely honest with you. Nevertheless we all are humans and as the person before me stated, people act on their instincts. She had a crush on him, or maybe she thought she did or whatever it may be, the realization is that they're having that special thing while you're hurt from it. What I would do is move on. I'd give her my well-wishing and if I could handle being friends with her, I'd maintain contact with her. Don't fall for the "third-wheel" plots, I hate those, make sure to avoid them because you may find yourself becoming extremely angry at your friend and her not knowing it. That's all I can see myself doing in this situation is just moving on. Good luck with this.
624679
just tell her the truth about how you felt about the guy before (but not 'n' more)just friends after all.
496252
women always like to hear how beautiful they are so tell her.  You have to ask yourself if you can handle what happens if you never tell her, because some other guy might be braver than you.
810958
if  she  was your real friend ,, she wouldn't ask you to do that ...because her weather she like him or not, it shouldn't matter , she should want you happy , and if he make you happy, she should be happy  for you.  that not fair her to answer that of you
3989
I think that u should b a man and tell her she will either respect u for your honesty and either she likes u too and u guys hit it off or she hears u put and accepts it and just want to remain as friends...Makes sure that u can tranfer easy into friend to boyfriend and girlfriend because there is a difference so just b careful...
82691
Yeah, he's worth being friends with. Put yourself in his shoes - who would you pay more attention to, her or him? I'm assuming you're a guy here.
219139
Why would you need to tell her?
913919
if you like men=tell her that you appreciate her friendship but are not interested in a sexual relationship with her.
217539
You could, but why would you want to? What would you get out of telling her? Sympathy? If you're hurting, talk to a close friend about it. I wouldn't suggest telling this girl about how much she hurt you - what is she going to do about it or than avoid you for here on out?
413961
She digs you for more than just friends. I did this same thing only 4 months ago. She has a "crush" on you, otherwise she wouldn't waste her time. See, pouring out even the simplest thing like telling you she has a crush makes her vulnerable. You will have to spill the beans on how you feel first and bring it out in her to feel comfortable being a bit more candid.
179247
ok hon, these guys are keeping things secret for a reason... even if they are making a poor job of it.\nThe one and only thing you can do is ignore what you know. any comfrontation will not go well at all, just be extra nice to her and act like nothing bad has happened, it sounds like she didnt know how to react to your friendship with the guy she was keeping quiet and his apparent attraction to you, so just make it easy on them and let them have their own space while you are friendly and open and there if she needs you.\n\nWhen she gets her head round her feelings, she will prob share this part of her life with you, but let her make the moves, ok?
481623
Yes, you should tell him because yall are friends so yall should be able to communicate about this type of issues, yea if I were u i would tell him the truth and maybe yall can take yall relatisonship to the next level...!!
262650
then how about asking your friend to help you out....? you could ask her to try to jokingly ask him about being with you or how he feels about you? its better if you get a guy to ask about it because usually guys then to answer more honestly to the same sex....
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I wouldn't bring it up.  It will cause a wedge between you and your male friend because it would be breaking his confidence to email her.  Let it go and keep him as a friend.  She needs to trust him more if she wants to keep him.