ONe of my best friends likes me. I'm scared he'll ask me out. What should I say???
95909
If your mother will not let you go out, that is a fine answer to give. It is the truth. And to tell you the truth, I also think that 13 is too young.
1052962
so..your in the 6th grade? if so it explains the name...anyway i dont really get the question,but i see one problem you told him that you like him that takes guts but it was problem no. 1.see that will freak out guys, and thats problably the reason that he said he just wants to be friends. try to really get to know him first. hang out w/ him but not in a stalky way... then when YOU think HE likes you make your move... i mean you are talking about asking him out right???plus the short thing does not matter...and if he still does not like you dont worry there are many other guys out there...good luck!
71800
Tell him that you like him but you're getting mixed signals and you need for him to tell you how he feels.  I know it's scary, but even if he says he just wants to be friends he'll stick with you if he really IS your friend!  Either way, it's best to get things out in the open.  You'll be glad that you know and don't have to just wonder all of the time.
67697
you got to be careful. He might just be shy and don't want to tell everybody that he likes you yet. Or he is playing with your heart. Or he might like your friend and want to ask her out also.
696437
If you want him to admit that he liked you you should say that my friend said that you like me on myspace. And if he denies it, then say that you were the one who asked him not your friend. But since you were the one who ask if he liked you you could just ask him out. That's like literally asking him out without him knowing that it was you. If you had the nerve to ask him if he liked you on internet find some more nerves to ask him out in person or ask him of what he really thinks of you. good luck
188433
Since your best friend is good friends with him, maybe you could find ways to be around him more.  Be yourself, but make sure that you direct some comments his way!  If you two become closer friends, it will start to become more evident if you have things in common, and will be easier to transition into dating.  I hope it works out for the best!\nP.S.  I got tired of always waiting for guys to make the first move, so I started speaking out a little more, which was hard, because I'm a little shy.  But I had to make sure that they at least knew I was alive. In most cases, they did have an interest as well, which is good because it saved me the pain of rejection. Just don't throw yourself at him or act like someone you're not.
402170
Be honest with him. Let him know that you appreciate and are flattered by him wanting to be your bf however, I like you only as a friend and nothing more.  We could be friends if you would like??  This way the damage is minimal and you let him know that you appreciate his offer.
168355
First talk to his friends or if you don't know them get your best friend to talk to him for you...find out who he likes. If he likes you, there's no need to be embarassed b/c he won't turn you down. But if he doesn't, don't worry about it. You can't like him THAT much. Move on. You'll be glad you did when you meet that one guy and fall in love for the first time. You'll wonder what you saw in him in the first place.
382768
From my opinion is is best to be honest. Just tell him how you are feeling, and also explain that you are scared of what he might say. He will only respect you for what you have told him. I'm pretty sure your friend wont exclude you. Remember just be honest and open about it. who knows. he might feel the same way =P
1152229
I think you need to ask him about it and tell him how you feel but dont scare him off. Say something like i am beggining to kinda like you...But if you are not into me then i would love to still be friends. But tell him that no matter what happens i want to still be your friend.
121525
Ok blue, i know how u feel, so talk to him about your feelings. A guy friend of mine liked me but i didnt cause i just like him as a friend, just like what ur going through. It sucks i know, but i went up to him and asked him if we can talk and so i told him i dont have the same feelings for you. Plus ask him if he is willing to put your guy's friendship on the line if u guys go out, you know what i mean? You guys are probably good friends, right? I know u dont want to loose that,so let him no that. Speak ur mind and he should respect that no matter what.
1140909
Well, the advice I would give to myself if I had this problem(which i have had before) is to go for it! Tell him in person that you likr him and you hope he likes you to. I have alot of guy friends and they all come to me for advice on girls. They all say they hate to get notes from someones best friend asking them out. They love girls who are brave enough to ask them themselves! And if he says no then at least you know and you can try to move on!! Keep in touch and tell me hoe it goes. sammie_robison@yahoo.com
1112937
you could hint that you think he is cute or something like that.  dont push things or be too forward he might get scared. If you drop a few hints and he responds then maybe he likes you too.  If he just ignores you then maybe you should just stay friends.  This can be tricky cause you can lose friends like this.  But I had a guy friend that was my best friend.  I told him I thought he was cute and he ended up thinking I was cute.  We hooked up and have been together for 2 years, got married, and are very happy with each other.  Sometimes your best friends can be great boyfriends/husbands.  We are still best friends and love each other very much.
903645
Hi. I am Renee. I have some advice for you. Ask your friend or your best friend to ask this special guy's best friend or friend if he likes you. If your friend "reports" that his friend doesn't know, then ask him yourself. I had that happen to me once. I asked him . And guess what? He became my boyfriend 2 days later. Hope you follow my advice!!
679859
Do not end the friendship with him, but don't pursue him romantically either. Guys come and go, but best friends should be forever.  \n\nHowever, if he likes you and HE makes a move, talk to your friends about this and ask if they think it would be okay, because they would likely say yes, and you get to be with him and keep your best friends.\n\nBut if you make a move, your best friends may not like you so much anymore, and if he doesn't return the feelings, then you have no best friends and no boyfriend.
1073436
Well, I think, if you guys are really good friends... tell him. Let him know how you feel about him. maybe he don't even know you like him like that, so he hasn't noticed you... tell him... what's the worst that could happen... you get him?
777464
The most important thing in a friendship is being honest. So just tell him the truth that you like him, and why would you be afraid of losing him if hes your friend? If he was a real friend to you you wouldnt have to worry about losing him.