What do I do when my best friend hangs with someone and dosen't do anything with me.?
81200
Try not to take it personally that they want to spend time with others, too. I know it's hard-- everyone goes through it. Try to find someone or something else to occupy your thoughts and free time-- and really enjoy the next time you do hang out with your best friend. Just remember: "best friend" doesn't neccessarity translate into "only friend".
330484
ask them whats going on... if they ditch you again, get new friends!
1025371
Try to spend time with both of them separately. You can't make them like each other and you can't make them be friends. learn how you can balance your time between the two of them so you can keep both friends. I am in a similar situation with my best friend and his new girlfriend. She and I don't get along so he makes sure that he spends time with both of us. Just manage your time well and things will  be OK. Good luck!
684916
you didn't say how old you are but i'm guessing you are pretty young. friendships sometimes have ups and downs, if she has found a new best friend then maybe you should too. there really isn't much else you can do, except maybe talk to her and ask her about it.
341975
Well, what I do when my friends do this to me, I let them know it. My ULTIMATE best friend in the world has done this to me, many times. Basically, all I do is tell her that I'm kind of upset how we seem like we are drifting apart, then I comfort her by saying that if something is bugging her she can tell me. You have to be the one  to do something, she won't realize that she is hurting you. I wish you the best of luck.
920337
Brush you're self off and get back up... You don't need so called best friends who all of a sudden stop being you're friend there not worth you're time or you're friendship..so move on and find another friend who is worthy of a true friend like yourself...Keep smiling!!!!\n\n    Hey don't Listen to Zink she came in here and gave everyone thumbs down on helping you out about you're best friend now what kind of friend would she be? Not one i would want BACK STABBERS stay away from them!!!
744215
Communicate with her!\nIf she is supposed to be your friend then you need to tell her how you feel, it's the grown up thing to do, don't just be sneaky and ditch her. You should maybe also stop to think about how *she* feels,  why is she acting this way? Ask her, maybe she is feeling left out, have you ever felt left out, it's not a nice feeling and It can make people act out and say things they don't mean. \nJust take her aside on day and talk to her and ask her why she is behaving like she is. She will probably apriciate your honesty.
463138
Your friend is very insecure- if she can make you look bad she feels superior.\n\nYou need to find another best friend because if she were truly your friend she would not do the things she does to you.\n\nWith friends like her you certainly do not need any enemies
375154
first of all why is she your friend? second ignoring is the best weapon always. just ignore her. her threats to commit suicide is just the weapon to control u. trust me she won't do anything, or if she does she certainly will fail with her attempt.
614903
how long have you been friends??? frankly, it really should be okay because you've moved on, right? unless, your friend is your bestfriend and she knows how you still feel about him, then maybe that's another question...so, maybe you need to ask your friend what is going on...you know, talk to her or something...but if she's not that close, leave it! like i said, you've moved on right? go find someone else better...someone who deserves you... ^_^
569767
ha, she wouldn't be my best friend anymore! yeah, just tell her your mad. if she's your bff, she'll know better than to keep it up. she should pick u over the guy, and if she doesn't, shes no friend. good luck!
291542
It sounds to me like you need a new best friend.\nIf he acts like that toward you then he is NOT a friend.\n\nI doubt if he will change back to how he used to be.  I've never heard of THAT happening.\n\nSince the two of you were freinds for SO long, that tells me that YOU are a great friend to have.\n\nIt should be VERY easy to replace him with someone who will appreciate having you as their friend.\n\nLeave the loser alone, move on and find new freinds so you can go back to being happy!
38405
well...you could commit manslaughter, but then you wouldn't have any friends except the mice in your jail cell.\n\nreally, i'd just suggest telling the one friend that they have no right to do that.  and if your best friend is avoiding you, ask her why, because that's the only way to find out her reason for avoiding her friend.  your best friend shouldn't avoid you if you are her friend and also, your other friend shouldn't be saying that to her, because if she was really your friend, then she wouldn't say something like that.\n\nit's sad, but some people do things like that.  all you can do is tell them how you feel and then be yourself and be nice to both of them.  that might seem unfair after what your one friend is doing, but it'll be the best.
1097926
you should'nt forced yourself to be friend with someone you don't liked. Your bestfriend would understand if he care for u.
227086
maybe you just need some time out from your friend, if they have been a good friend you should try and maintain that friendship... be careful about your decision in whether you no longer want the friendship, you could regret it later... like I said time out, you need a break, see how you feel then
1013684
I think you should talk to her and tell her that she keeps ignoring you and it's been hurting you. You shouldn't end it if you haven't talked to her about it yet. Sometimes it may be because you talk about something, that offends, or it just gets "annoying" or sometimes it can be because you call her too much. If she doesn't respond, then she isn't really a good friend, and maybe you should let her go for a while.
65544
hey girl if ur are her best friend she don't want this from u it dosn't matter if she has boy and u don't the thing is try give more time to ur friend ship talk to ur girl hang with her like always and try to find some thing u can do not to be lonly when she is not around i been there honey and i think the problem start when they don't have time for ur frindship so try to make time for each other