Im married and i would like another girl 3som style, how can i convince my wife???
96170
Tell her, I got a new friend for you honey.
1000221
You need to be honest to both women, You just got back with your wife, don't let her hear this from anyone but you. This is the fastest way to ruin trust. Be nice to the Friend, tell her you like her but only want to be friends. You can also tell her that you may be working things out with your wife. Don't let both women think you have been leading them on. you can loose your wife for good and that doesn't sound like what you want. Tell HER Now. Marriage is a blessing and your wife's feelings should come first. if the friends gets mad then so what. At least your wife knows you're not trying to play games with her.
44876
I would suggest you don't hurt your wife that way and come between two sisters. Will you really be able to live with yourself knowing that you came between two sisters. Obviously if you love the sister or anyone else, you should be asking for a divorce, but DO NOT tell your wife you are in love with her sister, dude.................
345882
Do you want to be married? You are thinking that the grass is greener on the other side. The grass is greener at home. Stop communicating with the woman online. Did you expect your wife to allow you to be with the other woman? I am glad to hear that the woman online did not respond. You with 2 women is not fair to any party involved. Since your country has arranged marriages-then you have religious beliefs. Think about your religious beliefs and answer your own question.
463042
Well sounds like you need to decide for certain which is more important....your sexual fantasies or your relationship with your wife.It can't be healthy to  have 3 in a relationship where there should only be 2. And you should talk to your wife about this too. Maybe it's time to get rid of the 3rd party. Also it would make me feel strange and not so loved to know that my man wants me to be with another man. Either way sounds like it's time to re-evaluate your situation. and sets your priorities in order.
558416
Problem??? you dont want to be 'with" your wife??? then why you going to get married??\nwhat does she think? ask her this question\nmarried people should communicate TO each other and not online.\n\nTALK TO YOUR "NEW WIFE", COMMUNICATE TO HER!!!! \nSHE CAN TELL WHAT SHE LIKES AND TAKE IT FROM WHAT SHE TELLS YOU!!!\nDONT JUST DO IT THE MANY TIMES THAT PEOPLE SUGGEST ONLINE::\nTHEY DONT KNOW YOUR WIFE OR YOU.\nONLY YOU 2 KNOW HOW OFTEN YOU BOTH WANT TO. NO ONE CAN GIVE YOU A NUMBER!!!!\nBE CONSIDERATE OF HER FEELINGS. TALK TO HER!!!!!
1177494
You can ask her a general question, like what does she think of the idea, without suggesting you want to do it.  You can also ask her first if she's ever thought about sex with a chick.  Her answers will tell you whether or not you should ask her.   \n\nI will say though, if you really love her, don't do it.  Introducing a third party into a relationship is asking for trouble.  Most open relationships don't last.  \n\nNow what are you going to do if she likes the idea but wants to do it with two guys instead of two girls?  You open the can of worms, you may get an answer you're not expecting!   And fair's fair...if you get your wish, she's entitled to hers!
948540
Talk this thing out.  Set some ground rules if you want to establish another relationship.  I stongly recommend that you look for a relationship and not just sex, not just friends with benefits either though it may start out that way.  To the extent that she is comfortable with knowing, let her know exactly what your doing, who your seeing and how much you like this person.   A long term committed loving relationship is not out of the question.  Let the other person know that your wife is part of your life and that will never, never change, no matter how involved you become with her.  \n\nIf you exclude your wife from knowing this other woman, knowing what your doing (and I don't mean all the sexual details) and when, giving your wife an opportunity to know her (her choice to act on it) then your marriage will fail and badly.\n\nHonesty, which it seems that you have with your wife, is key.  \n\nWhat you should be looking for is some form of polyamory.\n\nI have much (though not in every way) the same situation here for the past 15 years and my marriage is wonderful.  But it takes work and honesty.\n\nIf you'd like to learn more about this you can find out more information at:\n\nhttp://www.polyamorysociety.org/\n\nor you can email me.  I have an email link in my Answer profile.
750773
Why dont you discuss it with your wife.  You said that she is a sweetie, work it out with her.
1103150
bring in another partner..3some
262109
I asked the same question about my wife and got these answers.   \n\nhttp://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Agn7HJTOP6UQyQAP1KFvciTsy6IX?qid=1006031910035\n\n\nWe have a son together and I'm looking to spice things up too but don't know how to approch it from a women's view.  \n\nFrom a guy's view I can say that as long as your not trying to do him or have a 3 way with another guy they are sorta open to it more than women seem to be...although the predomonant male fantasy is a 3-some with 2 women.  But in the end men can be a little scared about doing anything to out there....just start with something small and work your way up.
712081
yes,give her her fantasy,u had ur share of fooling around,let her have her share under ur supervision,coz after that she will be married to u and no more foling around,so grant her her last wish before marriage.it is only fair thing to do.
1010766
your mom probably hates "losing you" not your wife. Spend some time with your mom, one on one... let her know she is still the number one girl in your life, but would love if she could accept the number 2 girl. tell her the things you like best about your wife and that she takes good care of you. then be sure to stay in contact with your mom, including that one on one time every once in a while. your mom probably feels replaced
405997
Chat with your wife - trust me.  She will have the answers you're really looking for, and if she doesn't a marriage counselor will.  Chatting with another woman on the internet is NOT going to help your situation, and will almost definitely make it more complicated and/or worse.
554681
No way!... if you don't like sex with her why don't you teach her how you like it?  You made a commitment to your marriage, you can make it what every you want it to be. What you are saying is just an excuse.  I am sure there was a time that you found her a turn on. Well find it again, and if there is things you like then introduce her to it. Talk to her, be open with her. Seek counseling, it really helps!   There is no better turn-on than the ability to do what ever with the person you really love...
1001270
you need to talk to her and explain how you are feelin about having another child...maybe you 2 could come to a compromise
1022136
have your wife go to a club with you and pick-up someone.  alot of guys would love to be in a threesome.  it's worked in the past.