GUYS why does my bf only act like he loves me when i dont get mad if i see him look at girls or check them out
97555
Don't exactly trust me on this because I am 18, still single, and a virgin.I don't know but I think you should confront him about it. If he really cares about you then he will get over his "looking problem". If he gets angry again then you should ditch him because he doesn't seem to respect you enough to pay attention to you.
288659
no offense but do you think that you may be asking for the fights ??? people look at other people some times its because theres some thing they like about that person or they are reminded of some one else that was a good thing in there life , what ever the  reason if you bust his chops over it then he is going to get fed up with it , weather he and you split up over it depends on how hard you push this subject , its only human nature , and if this girl is real nice to him even if its just on a friendly side then you may even push him to her because you could breakup and he will look to her just to piss you off , I'm am sure you look at other men even if its an actor , sport personality , or some one your friends ask if you think he is hot , every one looks!!!! its if he isn't looking and touching that you have to worry about so dont give him a reason to feel that you being a bytch about it all and looking for a fight , i have been with the g/f for 5 years and i still look and have looked right along but i don't want to cheat on her i just look , and as far as how she looks beauty is in the eye of the beholder , maybe he likes fat chicks and he went with you because he saw something in you that made him like you , you may be the hottest chick to some one and a real dog to some one else , if she got 3 kids some one liked her enough to give her 3 kids !!!!!
286462
PERHAPS HE CARES FOR YOU SO DEEPLY,HE FEELS YOU MIGHT GET "CONVERTED" OR "CORRUPTED" BY THEIR LIFESTYLE...OF COURSE,YOU HAVE A MIND OF YOUR OWN AND THE WILL TO CHOOSE WHAT YOU DO...MAYBE HE IS SIMPLY UNCOMFORTABLE WITH THE THOUGHT OF OTHER WOMEN EYEING YOU--AND LOOKING YOU UP AND DOWN. IN ANOTHER WAY,HE'S SAYING,"YOU ARE SO PRETTY--THEY MIGHT TRY TO MOLEST YOU!" TAKE THAT FOR WHAT IT'S WORTH, OH DIVINE MISTRESS....
701365
you know, i think every guy is different.  i prefer to look into eachothers eyes when we are laying together, or making out, or whatever.  i feel a real sense of closeness and honesty.  here is the deal...when im in a relationship where i am crazy about a girl, i want to be with her all of the time.  i have had women say "i would just like some time apart" and i have also said that.  every relationship where that was said, either she wasnt into me or i wasnt into her.  i guess the key is...if he says something like he just wants to spend his time with you...but his actions dont show that...he is probably just trying not to hurt your feelings.
68055
it sounds like he is realy immature,or playing games, or looking for the best of both worlds... either way don't let yourself be treated like a basketball. have the self worth to say "i deserve better" and let him know. IF he really does love you he will follow his heart. all you have to do is tell him your not going to be some second place when he says he loves you and only likes her. \ni know this doesn't really answer your question, but sometimes the best answer is to a different question, that you havn't asked... good luck
130301
Yes--I would be upset because it messes with your self-esteem, But.. Hes a Guy! Guys do that ! NO matter how much you dont want to believe it, they look, when they are with you or without you.. THey peek.. They Glance.. It happens!Its not about disrespecting you.. GIrls peek too, I mean.. we dont really look for butts, but we look for cute faces, and it doesn't hurt to sneak a peek. It doesnt mean you WAnt that person, and It doesnt mean your boyfriend wants to be with her, hes just looking. If he loves you, then he loves you and no one can take your place. So, yes, Its understandable to be upset, but.. dont argue with him about it.. Unless Hes Gawking, Staring, Drool slipping out.. Lol.
913976
he treats you more like his girlfriend than one of the guys.\nhe gets jealous if you talk or flirt w/other guys.
787905
He talks to other girls because you let him. You get upset, but you keep seeing him. He has online friends and you still love him. He has learned that he can do whatever he wants because you "love" him and put up with his crap. He doesn't like you talking to guys because he knows the kinds of things guys like him say to girls online.
180777
He probably doesn't want to give his new girlfriend the wrong impression about you and his relationship. Yeah, I know, it doesn't make sence, but when we find a girl that we really like, it makes us do things that aren't typically things we'd do. Plus, he's probably out more and simple has let it slip his mind. Don't take it personally, just guys showing interest in one thing at a time.
428822
I know exactly how you feel. My bf thinks I'm looking, I'm not. I just find the people watching is relaxing, that's all! I told my bf that he should know that if I wanted another boy, I'd be gone, but I'm with him and I really enjoy his company. I don't know how to make your gf realize that this is a pastime you like to do, but all I can say is reassurance is always the key. So Watch On!
815418
Odds are he is looking at internet porn. But don't worry...EVERYBODY looks at internet porn. It doesn't mean he doesn't love you. It just something guys do. Ignore it. (my wife just makes fun of me for doing it)
823340
i had that same situation, my boyfriend told me "i wasnt flirting i was just being nice", from my eyes what i saw it didnt look like just being nice i got so mad that day, he  is still with me and says i love you,  my point is if he is with you still and didnt dump you for other girls that means he truly loves you.
658855
There is nothing wrong with your boyfriend wanting to watch you with another,he just want to maybe fullfil a fantisy and he wants you to be a part of it.and i think that is very good of him because most man will do that behind there girl back.and how do u go about finding a girl to do that, if you have a best friend that u trust and she is willing to do that with no strings attach with yr boyfriend whatsoever u don't have a problem.
1136032
I have the same problem and this is what I do tell him and if he gets mad then tell him you need a man who respects you.  But like they say you have to worry when they stop looking because that probley mean that they are cheating on you.  Ask him why he stares and hits on other girls and ask him to stop.  If he gets mad or deosn't stop then he never respected you and you don't belong wasting your time on a guy that doesn't respect you.  Jamie
509736
It's not that he doesn't love you it's just sometimes guys get mad at the things we do and that just say things or do things that may sound like they don' love you but that's not true he is just mad so just leave him alone and he will be fine.
260825
you need to let him know that him checking out other gurks makes you feel insecure.he is a man he know no better. but he needs you to let him know what bothers you. i truly think he does love you. i dont think he tries to upset you, but he probably doesnt know he is hurting you. you need to let him know that you do so much for him and in the end it feels like he is disrespecting you and doesnt appericate what you do for your relationship. after you talk with him face to face im sure things will get better for you two, if he truly cares. just dont let him keep treating you bad because he will take it for vantage.\ni hope things work out for you hun and hope i hope my advice worked for your relationship.
808959
Try to look at the way he looks at the girls. Guys look at girls they think are hot differently. It's subtle but you can see it. Also, keep an eye out and see what he looks at when he's talking to the girls. From there on you should be able to tell.