how do u get ur gf to admit she cheated?
95330
Do you really want to know? that could be the end of your relationship. If you suspect she is still cheating then thats diffrent. nip it in the bud. but if it was in the past and things are ok now, let it go.
928007
I think you should tell her right away. She'll be more likely to forgive you, since you didn't try and keep it a secret from her. I personally hate secrets, I htink we should lay them out in the open. Tell her you're really sorry, too. You shouldn't have cheated in the first place.
1035907
Tell her the truth... It will hurt but it is better than being fooled...
53110
Every time he's spent away from you (even if it's 22 seconds), accuse him of cheating.\n\nNag. Works every time.\n\nInsist on watching Chick Flicks\n\nCook him a disgusting 54 course dinner.\n\nSay in a seductive manner "oooo it's hot in here" then turn on a fan and say "that's better"
110156
For Godsake, honesty man! If she can't trust the things coming out of your mouth, she can never trust you with anything. Particularly her heart.
603305
You say you care about your girlfriend. Cheating is not the action of a caring man. If you want something/someone else then first split with your girlfriend.\nTell her that you want something different ... Honesty is the best (and kindest) policy.
940523
Don't ever admit to anything. The best thing that you can do is accuse her of giving it to you,and then file for divorce on grounds of adultery.
107017
Talk to her. Discuss what it is that makes you think she's fooling around. \n\nTry to be non-confrontational. Try to avoid "You always..." or "You never..." Say instead, "When you do (or don't do) this.... I feel this...." Or "When I see you do such-and-such, I wonder what it means."\n\nAsk her what it means. LISTEN to what she says. Repeat it back to her: "I think you're telling me....."\n\nIf you do not feel much better after this discussion, sorry, sweetie, time for a new girlfriend.\n\nI hope you're wrong, and I hope this helps.
981595
sorry to hear that both of you started the relationship on deceptive terms.  she's being a hipocrit.  and I know you say you love her, but why would you want to be with someone that has cheated and lies.  trust is the foundation of any relationship, without that you have nothing.  you will be in the relationship always having questions about this that or the other.  to much stress and not being happy.  keep looking for something better.  good luck
800543
Trust your GF man, she wont go anywhere. And if she decides to cheat ,she will find the way. You can not stop her, can you? Moreover it was last summer.....past
252152
not without proof or a confession... unless your just looking for an excuse to dump her...
273269
Unfortunately, some peoples trust can never be regained. Don't lie, always tell the truth, you will get in less trouble if you tell the truth instead of a lie. Talk to the new girl that your with, say your sorry, and explain. tell her you realize that she might not trust you now but i am willing to work on it. You mean so much to me and i would hate to lose you over my stupid(yeah,say stupid)mistakes. Good Luck:) I hope this helps. If not Sorry.
583663
Would you want her to tell you if your boyfriend had cheated on you?  I know I would want to know.  Friend's look out for each other.  Just make sure it's not just a "rumor" first... if it is a fact then yes, tell her.
931079
call the number and ask. tell the person u want to divorce her and need them to confess. if she is really cheating, the guy would want you both  to divorce and tell u the truth.
590099
Tell him you dont cheat
592379
She's insecure.  Get her to admit it, and find out if she's willing to work on it. Don't threaten to dump her because that will just make her worse.  Obviously her trust has been violated by someone else, so try not to take it personally.  If she won't admit she has a problem, there's nothing you can do...a relationship with someone who won't admit they ever have any problems is going down much faster than someone who has an admitted problem they are dealing with.  \n\nIf she does admit she has a problem, you need to decide whether or not you can be a part of the solution and show her that trustworthy people do exist.  It's possible for her to come out of it, but it will take some time, and patience from you.  \n\nIf you feel you're not up to the challenge, by all means, end it sooner than later, but try to let her down easy because she's obviously has had enough to deal with already.
169866
hey man, are you dating my girlfriend?  I cant believe there is anyone I can relate so well with - \n\nI guess all I can say is to just trust her until something really messed up is proven to you- give her the benefit of the doubt man!  Does she tell you she loves you? I know they can lie about that too, but at least they are saying it.  If she turns out to be a liar, dont do what I did once in my past- dont even attempt to make her feel guilty, because chances are she wont anyways.