my boyfriend and i just broke up, and i do not want him to move on. what should i do?
89198
Depends on how you broke up...\nif he ditched you then theres nothing you can do\n\nand if you ditched him you should be "nice" and let him be happy with someone else.
364248
It's gonna be WAY too HARD!! i broke up with my boyfriend of 5 months and 15 days, and i still can't get over it! But i think you should try to take some time for yourself.. Try going to parties, hangouts, gatherings with more friends around or try to go to the gym.. What i'm trying to say is that you should keep busy! that's the only way that you might forget..\n\nGood Luck!!
732013
I would give it a little bit of time and then ask yourself. Are you ready to give this another try or are you starting to feel better and are able to move on?\n\nSomeone once told me people break up for a reason and that they should always stick to their original idea. Of course this is not always the case but just do what you feel is right deep down. \n\nHope everything works out!
827012
First what is the reason(s) that he broke up with you? It all depends on the reason. Give him some space as he won't listen to you now. Don't rush him. For starters, you can be his friend without being too pushy. But it depends on his reason for leaving you because if he really wants to move on, then you just have to do the same.\n\nAs for you telling him that you love him, did he reply? If no, then he wants to be alone.
865546
yeah my guy and i just had a fight..and I am so devasted..I love him soo much..but then again he is an as*hole...if you feel like you need time..then take time..but if you feel like you can move on with someone else then go out with friends and make new friends..usually after a break up..I like to take time for myself and get back to me...good luck\nps..if you still love him then call him and try to work things out
473362
That's a pretty messed up person u're talking about...u're obviously so in love with him...u need to decide to stop loving him...and getting on to better people who deserve that kind of love..\n\ndo not assume u know what he wants deep down...plus u being available to him now...will make him want to go back to u less...if what u r saying is true u need to be unavailable so that he has to break up with her to b with u again...and try to relate what's going on with the reason he broke up w/u in the 1st place
213925
get over him and move on
984509
i think that me and my boyfriend may be breaking up today. i'm really nervous and not sure what to do.  don't call him, just let it all go. that'll be the easiest thing to do.
73669
I'm so sorry that u had a bad breakup. I'm physic so i no. Well they break up because they have minor differences and disagreements and have no intention of compromise. But what u can do is try to get over him. If he is not coming back, then let him go. They say wen u love someone, there comes a time wen u must let them go, so try to get over him. Start seeing new people and pretty soon, it'll be a thing in the past.
991806
Why did you break up in the first place?  Talk to him and tell him how you feel.  He may just be feeling the same way about you.  Don't stay quiet.
1027662
you need to file yourself and get this over with...do not wait on him...and let him go, you may still love him but why? why would you want someone back who has left you and treated you this way...get this over with, the sooner you do the sooner you can move on
633234
Aww honey don't be sad. I just broke up with my fiance last Tuesday and we lived together I know how much this hurts. However you have to remember that what is meant to be will be. If you and him are meant to be together nothing, and I mean nothing can keep you apart. You need to stay busy and dont think about it. I know how easy it is right now to overanalyze every little detail. Don't. Thats just going to bring you down more. Look into the future, always have hope and take care of yourself. Surround yourself with friends and family and remember "this too shall pass"
938797
Convince yourself that you deserve better and I'm sure you do.  Look at it as his loss, not yours and move on.  You can love someone dearly and still be smart enough to know that you can't actually be with them because it's simply not good for you.  I have an ex from 15 years ago that I'll always adore, but we can't be in the same room without trying to claw each other's eyeballs out.  We've broke up 12 years ago and we have remained friends..on the phone. lol
1059036
It always hurt when you breakup with a person you still care about.  However, you had very good reasons for leaving him.  A relationship cannot be based on lies and certainly not with all that fighting you were doing.  Evidently he has moved on...  I know it won't be as easy for you to do the same, but give yourself time.  Don't let him see how much you are hurting...  If it makes him feel better telling everyone that he left you...let it be.  Bottom line, you know the truth.  As time passes, hopefully some of the hurt and pain will lessen.  Good luck and take care!
1123093
I would see where things lead. And if it end up that you two break up for awhile it will be okay. I am going through a break-up right now. My ex did it because he needed time to himself to figure himself out, that sort of thing. He still loves me.\n\nMove on with your life. Moving on doesn't mean that you don't still love him or that you might not get back together one day, it just means that you're moving on. You can't waste your life waiting on someone who doesn't know what they want.\n\nI wish you the best and remember if you're supposed to be with him you will be.
902809
The relationship just aint working sounds like. Give him an ultimatum either you make some moves on me and call me and take some initiative or it's over and I'm moving on. Yes you'll get the hurt of a breakup but you'll some day find a better guy who will actually "communicate" with you. Good luck with all that.
950293
You can't... Especially if the decision to break up wasn't his... He has to get over "your" decision... Remember, you had this entire thing planned and worked out in your head for some time... all the while he probably didn't have much of a clue as what extreme life changing event was being planned and taking place...  the only real help for him now is time...