Is there anyone who is an active "swinger" or who has advice on the subject?
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If you want to do this with her, lay out the ground rules in advance, get involved in a local swinger's group, and realize that if she enjoys sex with somebody else, the odds of her leaving you are much, much higher if you swing because you are allowing her to 'shop around', so to speak.  \n\nMost likely you want to do this so you can have sex with other women and aren't thinking about how jealous you could be if you see your wife enjoying sex with somebody else instead of you.  She might also realize how unsatisfied she is by you and your marriage will suffer, especially when the other guy is much more experienced with pleasuring a woman and gives her orgasm after orgasm.  \n\nYour odds of picking up various STDs will also increase.  Remember that a condom will not protect against all of them, such as genital warts, and you could both end up unlucky recipients of STDs that you'll carry the rest of your lives.        \n\nBut if you don't mind all of these factors, go have fun!\nYou might also try just being more adventurous in the bedroom with your wife.  There is a lot you can do together without involving other people that will really spice up your sex life.
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Type in swinger, Dallas, as your search words. Be safe
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you can check out a swingers club,you would be suprised at the people that are members. doctors lawyers all kinds of people
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exercisefriends.com is a great source to find a buddy or readytosweat.com is good as well.  you might want to post an ad on craigslist looking for a buddy as well.  otherwise you might want to check on meetup.com as they have social groups based on interests. maybe you'll be able to find something helpful there. good luck!
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You seem to be talking about two different things.  The original Swinger's started in the 1960's and usually involved a group of couples who were neighbors/work connected/belonged to a regular group such as a county club.  The idea was that happily married couples could enjoy each others spouses openly.  the original name was "Wife Swapping"  What you seem interested in is a type of polygamy.  I've often thought I would enjoy having a co-wife who could share the household work and my husband.  The sex part could be worked out to suit the individual.  I don't agree with these jerks that want to add a new younger wife every time he sees one he wants. Even Mohammad said a man cannot do justice to more than two wives.  \nI had some flower children friends (years ago) that jumped over a broom and declared themselves married every time they got the urge.  They didn't usually last too long and resulted in a lot of STD's and babies with weird first names.  \nFor it to work, you need to know the people you're jumping in bed with.  That is if you are planning a relationship that exists out side the bedroom also.  Be Very Careful!
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My wife and I have an extremely happy marriage.\n\nSwinging is not a "legal" method to cheat.\n\nSwingers have the ability to:\na) separate sex from love  and\nb) openly communicate their wishes, desires and fantasies to their partner.\n\nThere are as many types of swinging as there are swingers, some are exhibitionistic and like to have sexual play strictly between themslevs but like the added thrill of others watching.\n\nSome are voyeurs, and fit nicely with the aforementioned group.\n\nSome have special "friends with benefits" who they not only participate in sexual play with, but also go to movies, and dinner, vacations, play cards, have bar-b-ques, etc.\n\nSome have what might oddly be termed "monogamous" relationships with a third or another couple with whom they play exclusively.\n\nCertainly there is a percentage of the culture that are "serial swingers". My wife and I refer to them as the "notch on a bedpost crowd" who seemingly play with anyone and everyone, they are definitely in the minority.\n\nSwinging has dramatically improved our marriage for a couple of reasons - first, it absolutely requires honest, open discussions and conversations, and anytime a couple improves their ability to communicate with their spouse it will help the marriage. Second, we do not worry about affairs and cheating, there is no need for it, if one of us is attracted to someone else, we simply talk about it and decide as a couple whether we will pursue an opportunity to play with that person/people. Third, our sex lives have improved for a multitude of reasons or sex with each other is better and more frequent now.\n\nFeel free to contact me with questions you may have and I would also recommend that following sites for more information on the lifestyle and culture.\n\nhttp://www.swinglesonline.com\nhttp://www.theswingersforum.com\nhttp://www.swingersboard.com
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Living an alternate life style is harder then a straight life style at times. Love is still love no matter what life style you live. It sounds like your counselor does have other intentions for you. You have to be very careful on your decision on meeting her at the club or not. I am assuming that she is a licensed counselor. If so then she took an oath and can't get involve with her clients. By her dropping little hints about clubs and that she is going to be at one, it may be she like to get with you on a more personal level. If you go to meet her try to keep it on a friendship relations for now and take it slow and easy. Love is strange and happens in ways and places that can not be explained. Love is very pianful at times. The pain help us grow into a complete person and gets us ready for that one true person that we can love for a life time. Follow your heart but be mindful of your desires that they not cloud your true self.
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Definitely. I do it, and I'm very happily married!! lol Yeah I still have a partner, and I'm very happy sexually, but I still it's very important to still know how your body works, and what turns you on. Things are always changing, so it's almost necessary to keep in tune with your own body.
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Most that know my wife and I have no idea that we have been swingers for years.  The reason why most do not know is because of the closed-mindedness of most.  We love to get out a few weekends a month and hang out with other couples. We are definitely happy with each other and it makes our sex life when it is just us two even better.
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Well, I'm not big on Swinging at all. I got invited to some few years ago.\n\nMy personally view of it, usually that only one party in the marriage is into swinging, and the other one just put up with it. In my case, the guy ask me if I would go forth with it. I told him no, and he say his wife is the one who is going it and have no problem with it. My point was I will have a problem with it! Regardless of his wife way of life and his way of life as he has to become a swinger in return.\n\nYou then wonder, why the hell do they get married in the first place. If they are to be sleeping around, why not do it when they are single? instead of being in a marriage?\n\nThat is my view on this.
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Hehe, nice. But anyways, here is a website I found just now about it. http://www.xlaevis.com/sexing.html
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Guys and stats.\n\nHow many?  How old?  How young?  How often? How many positions?\n\nYour question should be: I've only had X number of partners and I'm X years old - is this normal?  That's what you really want to know.
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swinging is when a couple swap with another couple. you're not involved, so he's not a swinger. there's something strange going on there though, why don't you ask him about it? isn't the key to a good relationship communication?
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Its a lifestyle and both partners have to be 100% sure they want to do this and if their relationship is strong they will have great times.\n\nIf not 100% then dont even attempt to try swinging.\n\nAnd Majority of swingers do use protection contary to what others say.
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It really depends on where you are meeting these people. Most "social networking" sites and general "dating" sites have a prevalance of fakes, wannabes and picture collectors - thus leading to the type of cautious behavior you are describing.\n\nSites like myspace.com, yahoo, etc. are not really designed for swingers.\n\nMy advice is to find an actual swingers site, and connect with other couples there.\n\nParticipate in discussion forums, and as an active member of the site and you will soon develop a reputation as a "Real" couple.\n\nSome sites even have a "Certification" system, where other couples and people who know you can "Certify" that you are real.
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The best answer to this is a swingers site.\n\nMany couples prefer to play with single men for a variety of reasons - recovery time is one, the cuckold fantasy is another, and many women have a double-penetration fantasy as well - typically there is no male/male contact.\n\nIf you are interested in male/male contact, make sure you specify that in your ad, or response to an ad.\n\nThe advice about going to a swingers club was also good, make sure you call ahead to the club you plane to visit to be sure they allow single men, most do, but make sure before you go.\n\nSome sites you may want to try include:\nhttp://www.swappernet.com\nhttp://www.swinglesonline.com\nhttp://www.swinglifestyle.com\n\nFor a listing of clubs in your area visit:\nhttp://www.theswingersource.com
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Scott has some good advice there. However, even in an adult group, you still have to follow Yahoo's terms of service, so be sure to read the link to the ToS carefully (included at bottom of every page).