How can a shy girl get a boyfriend?
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flirting takes practice. the only way that you can get good at flirting is to practice it. the best way to start flirting is to smile at any boys that you think are cute whenever they look over at you. it doesn't have to be a big smile, it just has to be noticable. if you have trouble talking to guys that you don't know very well (like i do) try talking to your guy friends more often. the more that you talk with guys, the more comfortable you will be around them. you can't flirt well with guys who you aren't comfortable around. if you don't have a lot of guy friends, try talking to guys who sit around you in your classes. make sure that no matter how you flirt and who you flirt with, always be yourself and never do anything that feels wrong in order to impress anyone. good luck with your flirting!!:)
458296
try a love note and flowers.  sorry; i don't know a cure for shyness.  I used to be, but it's been fading recently.  Just try diving in and doing it.  If you start hesitating, just do it without thinking (worked about 50% of the time for me)
213500
A) Maybe You are intimidating. Make the first move on the guy you like. Young or shy guys have a big fear of rejection.\n\nB) Be more friendly. Hint on the guys you like. Flirt a little.
545956
Are you a shy geek?\nFirst rule, you shouldn't care about other men, and shouldn't care about being shy.\nSecond, how many beautiful girls in your class?  If it's only one, then, your chance are very slim because it's mathematical probability.  If your chance are very slim, you should forget it and get the average girl in your classroom.\nThird, the only way to make girl to like you is to know how to talk to her.  You need to master of conversation with girls. Girls like to talk about themselves and you need to make her laugh with funny stories.\nYou also need to smile a lot.\nYou need to have confidence and self-esteem. \nFourth, you can watch and learn from movies like Hitch or 40 year old virgin.
227760
I used to be shy, so I know where you are coming from.  You have to take the lead on this one.  You have to ask him out and everything because he won't.  A shy boy will not know what to say to you because he can't think of anything.  Just make him comfortable with you.
605936
It is okay to have some time between relationships with guyes.  Hang out with your girl friends, be nice to yourself and  treat your self.  Work on your shyness by voluteering for things that gets you out of your shell,  talk to people.  \nThe best place to meet nice guyes is in church.  God loves you and if you go to church, God will bring nice guyes into your life.  You are probably a nice girl, dont settle for a scum-bum over the internet.
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The best way to find a boyfriend is to do activities that you enjoy with other people, and through that you may meet someone that is compatible with you.  \n\nFor example, maybe you like to do country line dancing, so you go there and dance, and maybe you'll meet a guy who also likes it and is interested.  \n\nOr if you like reading, go to the library and read out in a large area with chairs next to you.  You never know who might come sit down next to you.  \n\nOr you can try online dating sites such as Yahoo Personals (I met my wife through this site when it was free), or try speed dating.  \n\nIf you just sit at home and wonder why guys aren't knocking at your door, it is because they don't know about you since you are sitting at home.
665240
The best way to end up talking with a shy girl is to go through her friends.  She is shy so she is probably a little insecure.  If she see's that her friends accept you, she will in turn accept you.  Get everyone into a good conversation and make sure you include her in it.  If you show that you want to know some stuff about her she will begin to open up.
109984
It's hard when  your shy to talk to girls..but if you wanna girlfriend you have to get over this...start out small..start with saying just hi to a girl  you like..then start with a hi how are you..then add a little more at a time you'll soon realize it's not as hard to talk to people as you think...a lot of women like shy guys...you'll find some one just be yourself..
329573
I am a shy person too, and most shy people want u to take it slow with them and don't push thing to far. Talk to her\nas a friend first and see what she enjoy. You might have something in comment with her and you may hit it off. Don't rush nothing
408348
practice, lol, it seems difficult, but the more you try, the better you will get, the more comfortable you become, the happier you become. Girls look for confidence in a guy, one who can express them self. You may be able to take little steps in your efforts to talk eloquently to her, dont worry though, shyness wears off, Good luck
972133
Hey don't feel down. I don't have a boyfriend either. Do you want a boyfriend? And do you need one badly? If so go ask a guy out that you think that he's interested in you. It's either you that's having a trouble finding a boyfriend or you are not sure if you want one. Or it's either the boys? You have to venture out more in the world if you're shy or quiet. Trying too hard can also be a problem. But either way good luck, just find out what you want.
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Hi there,\n\nHere are a couple of websites that give you some tips on how to overcome shyness: \n\nhttp://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/howto/shyness/index.asp\nhttp://www.shakeyourshyness.com/
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Well you brought it up...so to you it is a "problem". Id bet you have no girlfriend because your shy. Being shy is ok...letting it define you actions is letting it go to far. Make a deal w/yourself (or your shyness). When you want to move forward with somthing (or someone), Like: This is to important to me to pass-up and think about it no further, say hi, ask about THEM and give yourself a pause to take in how that person responds to you. Youll learn and get accustom to haveing nerves...they can turn to stainless steel if you keep learning and refining. As far as the outcome goes...your guess is as good as mine. They only thing you do is conduct yourself. You can start small or you can start BIG...how do you know what those are? The one that sends you  spinning...ThaTs the big one! Take on those and live through the outcome...youll become King. It takes time so pace yourself.
692959
I think the same way about myself, and I'm shy too. Just go up to him and make friends. If thats too hard, at least try to talk to him sometimes. If all of that is too hard ask yourself if you really want to be with him, that will get you going.
186660
Shy girls like men who are partially shy but able to make the first move on them (on the girls.). Well, you could try talking to her about starting and running your own business.\nBut you have to know what kind of business.
719267
The best way to get a good boyfriend is to just be yourself.\nDo not put on airs. Do not try to attract guys. Always remember, some where there is My Right for you.\nMost boys do not like girls that fuss about them or giggle all the time.. JUST BE YOURSELF.