i dont feel anything for my bf anymore but he says he is way in love with me and i dont want to hurt him.help!
93030
Have some class and tell him.  The more you pull back and hope he gets the hint, the more he's going to want you and annoy you with his wussy love-prattle.  If you tell him directly, leave no room for error. If he's some sort of psycho he'll try to keep you in his world, if he's normal and cool then just agree that you both keep the break-up details a secret (nobody dumped anyone, it was mutual).
553408
apparently you do not really love him if you feel like leaving him. why test him don't you think that is a childish game you are playing with him and he doesn't even know the plan. you do not toy with a mans affection in that way. would you like it done to you? of course not.
371025
I think you should totally tell him exactly how you feel. If he truely loves you then he will change the way that he is to you and if not then obviously it means that you deserve better than. trust me on this i am in this same situation so i know exactly how you feel.
40252
You have to follow your heart.  if you don't have feeling for the person you're with, it's time to move on.  It's near impossible to not hurt who your with now, but in the long run you're going to feel better for it.  Plus, it'll spare the person your with of even more grief in the future.
616689
You want to know so you can what?  If you dont have love feelings for him like "that" why bother trying to find out?  Surely you wouldn't want to try to get involved in a relationship just because he may be in love with you.  If you dont feel the same, don't TRY to feel the same.  Keep it real.
720457
talk to him - i told my bf that i love him and see our futures as being together - try it :-)
888118
He may say that he doesn't love you anymore -- but it's probably because he's hurting, too. I'm sure he still cares about you -- he just doesn't want a relationship anymore. And that's hard. But.. even though it may not seem like it now.. you WILL get over him, and you WILL find someone better than you could ever imagine! It just takes time. In the meantime, do something for YOU.. go shopping or hang out with friends. It always helps.:)
508575
If you feel that way then it's not a healthy relationship and you should dump him. Love should make you feel like you'll burst from happiness. If it doesn't feel right it's not. Maybe one or both of you is/are suffering from depression. Maybe he has no respect for you. Is he Physically or verbaly abusive? If he is he won't let you go that easy. There could be lots of reasons for your feelings. You deserve happiness and should keep looking for it. Close this chapter of your life. Move on. Avoid guys like your boyfriend that make you unhappy.
471395
Life is so short and we have such little time.  If you dont tell him how you feel you will always wonder what might have been.  You will kick yourself in the butt forever over it.  Take the chance on love!  ALWAYS TAKE THE CHANCE ON LOVE!  Its so well worth it once you do find it!  Hang on tight!!!!!!  Go to him and tell him how u feel!  He may still feel the same way about you but just as terrified to say it!  Good luck to u!
1040179
What hurts you most? he's not in love with you anymore or he's love, or he's hunting for someone else? whats the matter?\nIf it hurts that he's not with love with you! carry on and accept it. Life becomes better when you accept things even if they hurt, they are the whole truth. \nIf it toubles you that he is in love with someone, you should dump him, frankly even being a boy i tell you this. He is not worth your pain and tears. \nTry making friends on the net, dont disclose your identity but talk out things with someone who really is understanding and can talk about it to you. Different people's opinoin don't help to lead a life but they surely can give good ideas, accept them and make the best of it to forget your past.\nRemember, only one thing, this was a lesson life thought you and the things you lost was the price for the same\nThere is no gain without pain. So just chill and hang on you will come along be with positive attitude people.
66124
Be straightforward with him. Get him when he isn't busy and tell him you need to talk to him. Just say "hey buddy, you know that I love you. But I need to know if you feel the same way about me. If you don't please tell me, because I am not going to waste my time loving someone who doesn't love me back." Just say something similar to that. Good luck girl...
545326
Hey,\nI've been in this situation b4. The best thing to do is to give yourself some breathing space . Take your mind of this. Try to relax and distract yourself. If you feel that strongly bout your ex, the best thing to do - confess it 2 him. Maybe he feels the same way. Maybe he's just not wearing his feelings. Always b optimistic. The glass is half full........... Frm wat i have read u r  strongly in love with this guy.........express it! Best of luck
818349
It sounds like you both moved a bit too fast and now he's trying to back off a bit.  If you've only been together a bit over a month, it's a bit too soon for most people to be totally in love.  Just give him his space and if he does love you, your relationship will flourish.  If he doesn't love you and he doesn't "try" in your relationship, then you don't need him!\n(The further you get in a relationship, the less often you feel the need to say "I love you".)
674509
Move on because your "current" is really not a good bf because he is not there for you.  Women always overanalyze these kinds of things when it is soooo simple.  When a guy wants to be with you, he's there and you never have to feel the way you are feeling.
342123
ask him... you have a 50% chance of getting the answer you want...... but do NOT force him in to it.. I f you go in just wanting to hear him say that he loves you, then you are smothering.  Just ask him to be honest about how he feels
878566
Hi, \nThe last thing I would do would be to encourage you, only to see you get hurt. \n\nIf you have feelings that he still cares about you, then check it out further. You might want to try writing him a letter and let him know how you feel. You will be taking a chance, but if things work out, it will be worth it. \n\nAlso, revisit the reasons the two of you are not together now. We tend to forget the bad and only remember the good, so if you feel it is worth a try in your heart, then by all means, go for it. \n\nThere is a possibility he may feel the same way about you. \n\nGood luck, and I hope things work out for you. \n\nDarryl S.
31517
Question is, do u want to live with him like that?I think it`s pretty painful to hear that the partner says he has no feelings anymore. I`m sure you 2 have talked about it? It`s a pretty tuff question and i don`t think that anyone can give u an answer to that but ur boyfriend. Keep talking with him about it.... I hope everything works out for u