is guarantee that if women still ok for a second date,mean she dont mind with me ?
81136
yes on both counts\nso if it's the second of the 2, then your better best self examine yourself to see why you do "suck" and make improvements so that you do not "suck"
311268
Did you ever think she may be telling the truth? Give her the benefit of the doubt. The question I have is why is it ok for men to sleep with someone on the first date and get no rep for it, but for women it is different?????? Besides she might be a really great person and you will loose out on the relationship, remember you were there with her!
456415
I wouldnt say it was a man's responsibility, but it is traditional!\nPersonally I always have enough money to pay for both of us and will expect to pay for everything, especially on a first date.  I will try to refuse her paying for any part of it on the first date (I'm talking meals, cinema etc rather than flights somewhere - I'm not THAT rich!), unless she really insists on it.  As for more dates after I'd be happy to split the cost of stuff.  And if she wants to treat me thats great!
857547
There are no guarantees like what you are looking for. It is probable that your insecurities are a sign to you of the obvious and likely possiblility. What amazed me, and I wonder how many picked it up, was that you did not say that you were fearful of losing her to another female. Now that is interesting!
427578
I would take it to mean she has a loving respect for you, but is not interested in a relationship, but you never know...It never hurts to ask.
2099
If you are the one to invite her then she would expect you to pay! If she invites you hopefully she will pick up the tab to say thanks for all the times you have taken her out. If she doesnt, then most likely she is selfish and inconsiderate! if it bothers you perhaps you should communicate with her more on whats bothering you rather than let it build up to the point to where you will blow up! she will respect you more if you step up and communicate with her, if not then it may be time to put yourself back on the market so that a appreciative woman can have her shot with a good guy such as yourself. Goodluck bro.
722624
I'd be upfront and ask her abou this other person. It also depends I guess on what your intentions are towards this woman.
992750
See if the next date goes as plans.\nIf the sitter is a no show and she cancels, then I would say she is not sure how to tell you she is not interested.\nDon't be offended by the hand shake she might just be a lil nervous, so if you should go out on the second date, you get close to her when you walk her to the door, lean into her body just a tad if she moves towards you a lil that is your signal go for the kiss.\nJust be happy she is not easy, some women like to play hard to get just to see if your really interested in her.  I know women can and are a bit confussing :)
706806
Usually if women are upfront about their dating status and if they tell you there is someone then take it as a sign of disinterest.  You hope she is telling the truth. If she is or not then you can not tell.  Just respect it and take a step back. Let her take the lead and if she decides to open up and let you  closer then you might have a chance, but if you want to keep favor in her eyes step back for now.  It may be better to be friends.  She will respect you more and may even be interested later.   Honor her space.
1116536
if you really think that in her heart she really wants you back, maybe going on a few dates may send a different message to her - that you really don't care about her as much as you said. She seems as if she is taking her time to think about what happened with your relationship and if its a good idea to reconcile. The important thing is that you've been sincere and you let her know how much you love her and would like a second chance, give her as much time as you think to make her decesion, but waiting too long will prevent you from moving on with your life
401574
Well, you might ( well probably) would offend her if say you did it in a non polite way. Try to ease into it, chewing some gum and then offering her some. If it is that big of a prob. then don't see her again. But yeah, on the first date, don't just blab it out, find a nice way to fix the prob.
41208
I would give it at least a week, unless you feel that person is attracted to you as well. The longer you wait, the more receptive they may be and say yes. Also, the first time (or 2), make it a friendly date...try asking what she thinks of certain movies that just came out in theaters and if she says she wants to see it, tell her that you wanted to see it too and be like "hey, we should totally go see that! Wanna go this weekend?" Or ask her opinion about resturants or new drinks...you get the point. Just make it seem like it is not a "date", but just hanging out. After doing that a couple times actually say do you want to go on a date? At least by that time she will have gotten to know you and will not have felt that she needed to act a certain way or be uncomfortable because it is a date :D GOOD LUCK!!!
754695
Hi mate.\n\nI think u r answering urself.\nShe's obviously trying to be nice to u, she said politely she isnt interested and she also tries to avoid you.\n\nIf 2+2 is 4, this woman isnt attracted by you at all.\n\nleave her alone, ignore her for a while, trust me she's  a woman...\nShe'll eventually get back to you when she'll be feeling alone and in a need of attentions.....\n\nAndy ;0)
429886
If she is willing to got to dinner with you again after that, then she might be willing to take it further. She might have started to like you again, but who knows? Either way, take it slowly. Don't try to force her hand like you did last time.
776017
Ahh.  She is trying to bait me in again.  I still won't pick you up for a date.  :-)  \nI would actually probaly be a little shy about it and walk away.  :-)
922408
yes but time is of the essence! when you ask her out show her a soft side( I wanted to tell you how I felt  but I was afraid it might lead to you rejecting me) she will eat that  up !
1008631
I would send an email or text message today (DO NOT CALL) telling her that you had a great time and would like to see her again sometime.  No specifics, just sometime in the near future.\n\nHate to break it to you, but my dating etiquette says never ask a woman out for a weekend after Wednesday.  If she has something else planned (which she might), it will come across as a blow off.  \n\nHere's the workaround.\n\nIf she calls before the weekend (I'm assuming she has your number, if not send it via your text or email message), ask her if she has any plans.  If she says no, mention that you and a friend or coworker were going to see the game.  Tell her that he had to cancel (his parents are coming to town or whatever), and that now you are probably going to the game alone.  Then, act as if this great idea just suddenly hit you:\n\nYou: "Hey, you wouldn't want to go would you?"\n\nThrow a little surprise, like "Wow, what a great idea" in your voice.  If she isn't doing anything, and she likes you, she'll jump on it (the idea, keep it your pants for now).  \n\nDO NOT mention the fireworks until that day.\n\n"Ya know, there's a fireworks show that we could check out after the game..."\n\nIf she says she is visiting family or friends, DO NOT say "Oh, 'cause I was gonna go to the game and see if you wanted to go."  Massive conflict in women.  They don't like to hurt people's feelings for the most part.  By saying that, you put across the message "Hurt my feelings or your friends'."  \n\nDo not accept an invitation to hang out with her family or friends on the 4th (if one is offered).  You will be viewed as the interloper and scrutinized and picked apart by them.  They will tell her everything they find moderately disagreeable about you.  She will side with them (after all, she's known them for years and you for three days), and that will be the end of it.\n\nHopefully that will get you started on the right track. Cheers, mate, and name one of your kids after me.