How do i know that my boyfriend is actually in love with me?
87092
Because when you are with him everything feels right and nothing can seem to go wrong and whatever you go through you know you can count on him to be there no matter if its raining or shining if your right next to him or half way around the world... \n\nthat you know his friends \nhe doesn't pick up the fone becasue he is with his love\nhe knows what your favorite author is and if you love dogs\nhe knows your parents and is on a first name basis and that he is around you and would do anything\n\nbasicly the realiest reason you can tell if he is in love with you is by the way he looks into your eyes and he can see what no one else can deep into your soul and mind and that can make your knees weak...
803661
No one can tell you when youre in love.  Think about it, how can they?  Only YOU know your heart.  It is true however that those around you might observe the signs that you are truly in love, but to be able to tell you the exact point at which you know for sure is not an answer that anyone can provide for you.  You have to search your own heart.\n\nThese questions may be helpful.  Do you have more concern for you partner than you have for yourself?  Can you see yourself with this person until you die, faithfully?  Can you see yourself with anyone else?  How would you feel if suddenly your relationship ended?  Can you live without him or her?  Consider this one:  if your partner became a vegetable, would you remain with him or her?  Would you want out of the situation?  Does this person give you a feeling truly unlike anything youve ever felt before?  Just  a few things to consider.\n\nGood luck!
169371
Talk to him and find out how he truely feels. This way you will know where you stand instead of always having to wonder or wish you knew.
590421
if he treats you like no man before him has, when he loves spending time with you as much as you love spending time with him. When he has told you all his deepest secrets ( you know the ones that shock you) when you meet his family and or closest friends. When he can look you straight in the eye and can say I love you and you can truly feel it. ( passion in his eyes)
204504
When you catch him just looking at you. When he'll go out of his way to do things for you. When he hugs you even more. When he seems to miss you when he hasn't seen you for a while. When he'll ditch his friends for you every now and then (NEVER expect anyone to do this all the time, you wouldn't do it for him, so why should you expect him to do it for you?) When he mentions you to his parents/siblings/exes/friends. When he asks his friends what they think of you. If you notice a few of these signs, he's smitten. Never be afraid to say I love you first though. If you feel it, say it. Don't expect him to say it back. Just let him know, and when he's ready he'll say it back. I told my boyfriend I loved him after only 3 weeks, then went travelling for 5 weeks. He was falling in love but not quite there, and he did the right thing by not lying and saying it. When I came home and he said it back to me a few days later, it was one of the happiest moments I can remember. We're still together 7mths later. Good luck!
459521
I think you answered that one yourself.. If you think he is really the greatest boyfriend, he has obviously given you a reason to think so. Like the gURL said.. if you want to know.. ask him.
264224
I think you can see it in a person's eyes. You can also tell by their actions. As others have said actions speak louder then words. \n\nI know when I that I love my girl and that I am always trying to do things for her. She hasn't opened a door since we've been together. I get her little things just to surprise her. I assume your to young, but I even leave her a little note on her car about once or twice a month. \n\nI doubt there is really any ONE way to figure out if this boy loves you or not. But why worry about it? Enjoy the experience your getting. I am sure there will be more then just this one guy in your life. Life's a ride, so enjoy it... Ride on!!
424759
Its better to ask him directly, you never know may be he loves you.
80073
Hmmmm.  I don't think how YOU feel is any indication of whether or not your man really loves you.  I think it's best to put your feelinging aside for a bit and take a look at how he treats you.\n\nDoes he respect your ideas, opinions, attitudes, feelings, and behaviors?  Does he support your values -- allowing you to follow your own system of beliefs?  Does he allow you to express yourself, and is he willing to work with you to reach compromises when the two of you disagree?\n\nDoes he know your weaknesses, good and bad, and allow you to be "less than perfect"?  Does he protect your weaknesses rather than criticise you or open you up to ridicule?\n\nDoes he treat you with gentleness and kindness and yet know when you are ready to break loose in a chicken fight or giggle fest?  \n\nDoes he share some of your most personal interests?  Does he share your goals?\n\nDoes he know you well enough to love you for you -- whoever you are and whatever you are living through right now, at this moment?\n\nDoes he say he loves you?\n\nIt's easy to mix up our feelings with someone and assume the other person feels the same as we do.  If there is any question, let some time pass.  It takes time to know someone well enough to know if there is love between you and not just chemistry.
296541
Well, how long you've been in the relationship has a big factor in telling if he loves you. Also, go on our feelings, but don't let them take over. I myself have an extremely active imagination...\n\nBut sweetie, you also have to trust him. If he hasn't done anything in the past to betray your trust, that you know of anyway, then chances are he won't and is a genuinely good guy. And also, does he tell you he loves you a lot? Is he affectionate to you? How much time do you spend together, etc. If he rarely sees you, it would make a little more sense if you get a little worried, not that it has to mean anything. Just talk to him. If he does really love you, and respect you and your feelings, tell him you love him so much you don't want to be hurt by him, and want to really know his feelings for you. If he really loves you you will know it. Just don't ask him too many times because if he is true in his intentions, it will upset him to be questioned so much. Good luck!
951575
It doesn't sound like he loves you necessarily. Though, if he seems preoccupied with you, then he may have deep feelings for you... or just maybe is trying to hurt you or make you feel uncomfortable I think the best way to resolve these issues is to break up with your boyfriend (if you cheated on him you are probably not satisfied completely wtih him) and then tell the guy you really like exactly how you feel.
1028011
ask him if he's ever been in love before....this will be a good way of getting him to open up about any feelings he may or may not have towards you.....if he only says yeah in the past or yeah once or twice and doesnt make any reference to being in love at the moment then he's not in love with you yet, or it could be that he is uncomfortable with sharing his feelings if he really loves you he will share it with you in time and when he feels ready....dont give up just trust your intuition...usually when a guy is in love he will want to share it with somebody.....you can always ask one of his friends, or a close buddy who he confides in to see if he has any hidden feelings for you if he is not opening up to tell you quite yet.....
1155769
You will know when man loves you when he is totally faithful to you, doesn't hide things or lie (ie. is open and honest), when he treats you like you are the most important person in his life, when he respects your opinion (even if it is different from his), when he puts you first before himself and when he makes you feel like you are the most beautiful woman on earth to him and he sincerely means it. I know because my man of 18 years still does all of these things every day!
517612
You cant tell. Well, try to talk about your relationship and see if he gets all soft on how he loves you and such.
149772
Flirts, talks, hangs out, isnt shy around you, seems to stare at u alot..i think you just know, my boyfriend and i just knew that we liked eachother and got together...u have a instinct in u:)
93682
Since I don't know your boyfriend personally, it's hard to offer good advice.  I think that some of the following guidelines would show whether or not he loves you:\n\n1)  Does he respect your wishes and morals, or does he try to pressure you into activities and ideas that he knows that you are not in favor of?  A guy who loves you will respect your wishes, even if his wishes are different than yours.  He will not try to pressure you into doing something that you have already said "no" to.\n2)  Does he ever say, "If you loved me, you'd... (fill in the blank)" or something similar?  If he has, he's using you.\n3)  A guy that loves and cares for you will encourage you to be your best self, and look out for your best interests.\n\nHope that helps.
800584
If he really truely feels the same way, he will tell you. If he's crazy about you, he will not stop talking to you and saying sweet things to you.