Is my relationship really based around true love?
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True Love ....\n\nIt's as mysterious as the stars it was written on, as elusive. It is everything it's hyped about to be. It's worth taking every risk, it's worth fighting for, and the problem is if you don't risk all then you risk even more. Love is kind of an elixir that lures us out of reality and into the realm of fantasy. It's like a drug creating an altered state of consciousness.\n\nLove is the moment when an unfavorable act becomes favorable, when you make excuses for some one else's mistakes, when you learn to tolerate, when you learn acceptance, when sacrificing becomes the beauty of life. \n\nIt's the courage to tell the truth especially when you believe its unspeakable.\n\nIt's the time when seeing some one, being seen by some one and thinking about some one feels good, when you learn to find happiness in the smallest of moments.\n\nThat's love--when you learn to put down your ego and love some one more than that.\n\nLove is forgetting your self and remembering some one else. \n\nLove is choosing your partner exactly as he is, and supporting him in his choices. It's honoring your partner's truth and wanting best for him.\n\nIt's not controlling or possessing but rather respecting and trusting.\n\nIt does not mean owning some one, getting some one, rather it means being happy in your loved one's happiness.\n\nLove means living without judgments. It means treasuring your beloved and never taking him for granted. \n\nLove means being able to forgive and learning to give more then you get. It means reaching out when you don't want to, communicating rather than assuming and asking questions rather than jumping to conclusions.\n\nIt means working things out rather than fighting, fighting rather than leaving, and staying through the hurts and disappointments, knowing that through commitment all can be healed. \n\nFalling in love is like being enveloped in a magical cloud. The air feels fresher, the flowers smell sweeter, food tastes more delectable, and the stars shine more brightly at night. You feel light and lofty as though you are floating through life, and your problems and challenges suddenly seem insignificant and easily surmountable. Your body feels alive, your skin tingles and you awaken in the morning with a smile on your face. You are suspended in a state of supreme delight.\n\nLove is a feeling and an action that arises from the most primal place within us. Making a relationship however, is a process that is learned. A relationship is the vessel that carries the precious cargo of love through time.\n\nRelationships are like a precious antique lamp; it takes a little polish and some effort to restore it to its valuable condition. A relationships love and luster will only improve with age if you continually give it the care that keeps it beautiful. But once you uncover its essential beauty it will bring you joy for years to come.\n\nAfter having said all this I want to say that you have to make the decision on your own, on one hand love is magic, on the other it's time tested relationship worked hard and furiously at.
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I believe   true love starts with the relationship you have with yourself......... once you have mastered true love for yourself.... only true love for others and from others can occur........
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Simple, if its true...It wont fade!True love will never die, it may not always seem top have the same spark it once did, but TRUE love will never die:) Look to god for these questions, he can answer them better than anyone on here:) God is made up of nothing but pure, unconditional Love! By looking to him u cant go wrong:) Good luck and God Bless:)
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Just tell him how you feel and come clean about things. If you get butterflies in your stomache when your around him and if you can picture a life with him in the future then yes its true love!
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You give the two of you plenty of time to experience the ups and the downs of the relationship and to see how its affected by other experiences in your life.\n\nIf he's your TrueLove, the two of you will be able to enjoy the ups and work through the downs.\n\nYou also see if you keep being you and he keeps being him;  that the two of you help each other to grow.  That's the best kind of love.
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Hey true love never ever dies but we fail to recogonize true love.Its not easy to identify love between all the attractions and fakes that occur.When you will be in love you will undestand all.Bye
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You've got to get to know her to know if it's true love... Going out and having fun is great, do you have conversations? Do you share funny moment? Do you make each other smile?\nYou should listen to your feelings about this one, no one else but yourself can tell if this is love or not. Goodluck.
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Ok, first, true love doesn't just happen.  But it does exist!  I think we fall in Lust too quickly, and that is why most relationships don't work out. \n\nI think that true love starts with a friendship.  Your lover must also BE your best friend.  One must bear in mind that as we get older, for alot of couples, the lust isn't there anymore.  Then what do you have?  If you have your best friend next to you until you are old and retired, you will at least have companionship, trust, love, respect and conversation, even when there is no longer the need or desire for sex.  There you go : True Love.\n\nFriendships are known to last the test of time, so surely this is in actual fact "True Love!"  So no  -  don't settle for lust because it won't last!  Settle for a best friend  -  and experience the meaning of True Love with your partner !  I think you may find that True Love and your Soul Mate walk hand in hand.
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Follow your instincts,they are usually right. If you don't feel comfortable and are asking this question here there is probably some playing going on.\n\nWhen real love,true love comes into your life,there are no doubts,no fears. There is trust and endless happiness.
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Dear Pretty Girl, it is possible to love some one in short time, But I don't think it is real love, maybe it is just a infection or attraction towards him. for real love you have to spend quit long time with each other Then only you can figure out it is real love or just attraction. so be careful before taking any step.
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Umm true love, a big issue....\nPeople are from different kinds and different characters, love could exist for some as true love, and for others it could be just an illusion because of the type of person they are and love exists in many different forms, built on different things, like your love to a friend is different from your love to a family member or a gf or bf and so on... as for loving girls, there could be true love but very hard to exist 100% because true love means that if that person lost many things you love in you must still feel with love for him and that isnt correct for many people because some love for appearance, some for personality and so on.... and everything in a human beings change by time, the person you love will change in looks, personality and so on, and the idea of the ideal person you search to love will also change, so love is a very big and hard issue, but i hope that you will find the best and truest love to your heart :D
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Real true love is very strong. It's not something you have to ask yourself about. You will just know. When you are with that person then everything around you stops. Nothing else matters and time does not exist. You dont think about anything else other than that person. But you have to be careful because infatuation is quite similiar. Ever see William Shakespear's Romeo and Juliet? If not then watch the new version with Leonardo DiCaprio. They died for eachother, thats love.
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NO it is not true!!!  You will find throughout your life that you can fall completely in love many times.  Personally I couldn't deal with an agreement.  So don't worry about "what if he/she was THE ONE!  There are more people out there who will love you and some will actually love you for life unconditionally.
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"True love" is inside of you.  The love of yourself is the most important.  Think of it this way, if you love yourself, others will be more apt to fall in love with you.  Stop looking, it will find you when you least expect it.  Good luck in your search.
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True love is not something that just happens. True Love is the result of two people who come together and are able to understand the needs they can and can not fulfil for the other person. Then, they work dilligently to meet those needs that they can.  (no one person can meet all of your needs) This creates the happiness that is associated with what we consider "True Love". I believe we can have "True Love" with many people in this world. Although there may be the *potential* for True Love with some, if they are unprepared and unwilling to do the work it takes to make a "forever relationship" actually be just that, *forever*, then they can never manifest that True Love WITH you. At that point you must know that there are others out there who may be capeable of creating this kind of love with you. But first and foremost, YOU must be "THE ONE" and then you should be able to attract YOUR ONE, to you. Never let the concept of True Love capture you in a bad relationship. I've always found a lot of freedom in the following quote "I love you, but it doesn't mean I have to live my life with you." Good luck in becoming and finding The One.
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That is what called real love. He is really loving you and don't want to make disturb you by inviting you in his life.  If you could more happiness than he can deliver, he is more satisfier than anybody.\n\nHe is really loving you.  Don't think negatively.  Be positive.
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Yes.  I believe in true love!!!  It doesn't happen overnight.  It really is something you have to wait for.  Trust your heart...you'll know it when you find it.