I just want to enjoy my sex life.What should i do to make my husband excieted and to hold more time during sex
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Both should be romantic, there should be foreplay atleast 30 minutes before actual start, this will help him maintain the coming time, convince use different positions, watch porn movies, moans n groans are necessary for maximum satisfaction atleast from the female, avoid being complete nude other than sex time, start wearing sexy clothes during night (lingerie etc), make sure u look and smell good always and good luck.
51668
Relax, Relax, Relax. Tell him what feels good. When he does it, tell him not to stop. Repeat as necessary for proper results...
308364
M--- usually causes the opposite problem.\n\nFirst step: Get married or stay out of his bed.\nSecond step: You on top probably enables him to go longer. Try different positions.
1057103
Candles and Hip Hop help me.\n15 yrs of marraige (Awesome sex still)\nLay on your back eagle spr and let him arouse you for 10 min.\nDo not let your wrists or ankles come off that bed no matter what (close your eyes during ), There is something about not seeing it but feeling it .Than let him do it fast & hard Not Slow and Easy!\nOnly when he is playing with you.\nGood Luck!
350927
No, he's suffering from "inconsideration". He gets his and it's done for him. If you hadn't said "husband" i would have suggested you drop him like a bad habit. But since you're married, sit him down and in a non-accusatory tone tell him how it makes you feel. Tell him you'd like to enjoy sex too. Tell him Men are like ovens, they heat up quick. Women are like crock pots, the take some time to heat up. He needs to be attentive to your needs. He needs to give you a little foreplay. He needs to find out what you like and enjoy and then give it to you. Or you might want to consider not "giving it" to him until he gets a clue. Good luck.
180580
Try a cock ring or when you are a feeling that sinsation stop for a minute and start fourplay again.  Once the feeling slows down start again.  Also, exercise and eat right.  When your healthy so is your sex life.
302940
Decreased sex is completely normal in a marriage. It's your responsibility to spice things up in order to keep the passion alive. Try in on the floor, in a public place, use toys, do something taboo, anything new. Continue to give each other compliments especially about each others bodies and what you like about it. Be naughty! It's not just the mans job to keep it going, take the initiative and he will appreciate it I promise!
33274
Yeah, what they said. Just give some more time to for-play to get more arroused. Your body will do the work for you.
291578
tell him you have a headache.  That seems to be a tried and true formula.  Unless you're talking about your husband having sex with someone else, in which case I think you should let him have his fun.
309573
The key is to keep him panting. Hold off on everything, especially sex. He will respect you more
385871
After Marriage if you dont have sex it wont last, being innovative and active in the bedroom is a very good way to keep me around and happy. I want to make my lady happy in the same manner. Communications is the key, the best sex organ is the mind. Good Luck Happy Easter
529266
well, for a little while and then let him get involved.  Not just sit there and watch you go to town and make yourself orgasm.  When I'm going down on my wife, she will sometimes push my head away and do it herself for a while.  It"s hot, but then I want to finish what I started.
958635
Masturbate before intercourse to last a bit longer...or....think of sports or a tv show while having sex...just dont tell your partner you are doing that.  Good luck!
835863
if it aint broke, dont fix it... why play games w/ your husband? only causes probs\n\nthe way to get him to appreciate you more is not via witholding sex.  he might end up having less appreciation for you.... and even if he does have more, it's false appreciation bc you are just manipulating things.
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It sounds like having intercourse with your wife is more than just a sexual release for you. It is "the whole package" - the emotional bonding, as well as the physical response.\nStart slow. Make time for sitting together with your arm around her. Use that time to talk about what's happening in the every day events of your lives. "How do you think our kids are doing?" "How was work today?" "Are you interested in changing our routine (the foods we eat, who does the cooking, where we go for entertainment)?"\nThen discuss with her that you've been considering her recommendation, but think it would be unsatisfactory. She may be more understanding of your need for her touch.
587873
He clearly likes more than a quickie, if this is a problem, pleasure yourself until he finds time to enjoy you!  Good luck.
990150
If you can talk to him, does he listen to what you say? If he does listen to what you say, then tell him directly that you prefer not to receive oral every night. Perhaps he could vary his advances so that your lovemaking does not become stale after the same repititive thing night after night. Happiness in the bedroom with your loving partner will be better received if there is variation applied.\n\nIf you and your partner can not come to a resolve about this now, it will be more difficult after marriage. Keep all apsects of your relationship out in the open. You are sure to have some disagreements from time to time, but two loving people will find a solution to what is best for both of them.