What can a 18yr male do to deal with retarded ejaculation, afraid to confront parents to see doctor, etc..!!!?
83299
Sounds like your medication to me. Allegra or Allegra-D? Some antihistamines and most all decongestants are known to cause retarded ejaculation and can even prevent erections. They are also known to cause at least a minimal abount of temporary (during the efect of the medicine) bladder neck obstruction and can prevent you from urinating. In older men with BPH (benign prostating hypertension) or enlarged prostate gland, the drugs can prevent urination to the degree that a cather would need to be inserted into the penis. Consult with your doctor with your parents outside the exam room....tell him the problem.
504194
See a urologist.\nIf you are under age, ask your parents to take you.\n\nPossibly you have one testicle that is "larger" than the other, and if there is a big difference, you want to rule out a tumer or growth.  I don't want to scare you, but you should see a doctor, just to make sure.  Even if it is embarrasing to you, they deal with it all the time.\n\nMake sure there is no serious condition although if you are not feeling pain, or discomfort, there is probably nothing wrong.
404774
Simple and easty is to massage ur penis with vitamin E oil daily for 3-4 minutes . and just have jerks not ejaculate ..\nbye ..\nu cud get excellent result ...
1053675
you'd better see a doctor \n\ndon't start using things like viagra on your own\nif you like to enjoy it for some time
748412
hi mahe \nmy dear young boy, u r very intellegent, brilliant science bio. student having more than 80 percentage marks in XIIth standard, what u have asked earlier, i have seen all and what u have replied, i also seen all those. u should not worry about your anxieties regarding sex and sexual activities, it is very commen at your 20th age. masturbation is also not bad, but if u can control it, then it is better, even if u can't control it, don't worry, it is alright. i will also suggest to do masturbation to get rid of tension, whenever u feel. so don't worry all about this.\nfurther, i will advice u to prepare yourself for your cpmt, aiims etc. exams, so u can reach your goal to becoming a doctor, when u will be a doctor, u will answer to others about these things.\nwith best of luck for your enterence exams towards MBBS
1184832
go to a dr.  Tell your mom its for something else.  Go in by yourself and let your dr know at the time of your visit you dont want your mom to know.  By law your dr cant discuss any sexual problems/issues with your parents even though you are a minor..  if you  cant go to the dr right away call and leave a mess to call you back when your mom is not home.  This could lead to other problems so go right away.  It also sounds like you could have a major infection and if not treated right away could lead to you being sterile
1036119
well try meditating or a cold shower or pick up a bible that should help if not go to a sex therapist.
749198
It's not an uncommon problem but it would be best to seek  professional help. Check with your doctor or there are  men's health centres that specialise in these areas.
159389
I feel for ya. \nBy the way, I noticed your question about premature ejaculation, and wanted to help.\nTo help him help himself, get him to excercise his "pc" muscles--stands for pubococyxx, or something like that, and you have them too. When he urinates, have him clench down to stop the flow--those are his pc muscles. The simplest way to excercise them is by stopping and starting urination. Then, when you two get back in the bedroom, he can clench down to stop ejaculation--although it does take willpower.\nFor external help, there are several possibilities, depending on how kinky you want to get. Wearing a thicker condom is a good solution, most of the time. There are also creams availible. And of course, you can try a c0ck ring--or c0ck rings. Play around, have fun with it!\nAnd in the meantime, feel flattered that you excite him so much.
1104371
Nothing wrong with that, but it is unusual at that age to not have multiple spurts.  Make sure you are keeping hydrated by drinking enough water, and you might try Kegel exercises to strengthen the PC muscle, which will allow ejaculations to be stronger and more prolonged.
1064467
I know its embarrassing but you may need to go talk to your doctor. This is not normal. I'm sure you are going to get a lot of responses, like hey baby call me  lol.   Maybe its a chemical imbalance or something. So don't go out and have sex with the next random guy, because that probably won't solve the problem. There is such a thing as sex addicts, so I don't think that you are the only one suffering from this.
929290
What kind of stress is happening in his life? A 19 year old is at his prime and if he can 't get off masturbating something isn't right. I would find out what stress is going on. If there is not anything important enough to to suffer through ED (erectile dysfunction), there might be a prostate problem or something to do with the urinary tract.\n\nAlso, one thing can lead to another. If there is emotional problems it could affect his sexual performance. If it is medical, and can't or won't talk to about it, it might cause a psychological problem. One problem might beget another.\n\nI wish you guys the best of luck! This should be one of the happiest time of your life!
903129
Honey, if you are 16 and you take it upon yourself to go to the Dr...I feel sure he (she) will take you serious...But I dont know if they will treat you without your parents consent.\nWhy do you not want your parents to fine out?....They need to know.....\nIf you dont tell them they cant help you....Of course I know that there are sometimes circumstances that make that difficult.  Go talk to someone.....a school counselor or teacher that you trust.  Dont keep this to yourself.  Its not shamefull to be depressed......IT happens to the Very Best of Us sometimes....There is help....REACH OUT for it Baby!
170225
try to masturbate if u ae comfortable with it.. it helps..
7470
There are creams that slightly numb and prolong ejaculation. You can also try a couple of condoms instead of one to desensitize.
607343
My first reaction was talk with a doctor about all of it, get checked regularly by your doctor.\n\nBut then I thought, heck you exist and apparently there many people in your family, so the odds of you being able to finish school and have kids afterwords seem to be in your favor.\n\nGood Luck with school and family, seriously a doctor can give you much better advice than anyone here can.
320213
You are obviously looking for the best advice possible, so please if you can do anything to rectify this situation then do it and as soon as possible. I am so proud of you even though I dont know you, for recognising that this man is in difficulty, please go to someone who can help him, go to his or indeed your Dr. and seek immediate advice. This is wrong, you know it I know it and I am sure every other user of this site will see it for what it is.  It is abuse of the worst kind.  I have a son with special needs, and this is my worst nightmare. I applaud your concern, now please get help for him....