how should i ask my boyfriend to marry me?
95115
I wouldnt he might get nervous and run away maybe start to talk about mariage and see what his ideas about it is
389361
ask them to marry you...
536664
I am actually one of those girls that has been engaged for years (2 to be exact). We got engaged before I finished my undergrad degree and decide to wait until I finished my masters. Anyway, it seems to me that just as long as you and your boyfriend have similar life goals, marriage may not need to be rushed into. Maybe you should wait until after you are done with school. Then you will have more money and time to plan your wedding. At the risk of scaring him away, I think that you should at least sit down and have a serious conversation about where you both see each other in the next 5 years. Having a frank conversation about your goals will help you to determine whether he is genuine when he says that you are the one, or if this is simply a ploy he uses to avoid confrontation or a possible break up. Remember that a marriage is life long commitment. It isn't something you should try to squeeze between school semesters out of convenience.
1107896
You just need to straight up ask him where the relationship's going.  If he has no intention of getting married why waste your time trying to wear him down?
794152
go to www.lovingyou.com\n\nthey have all these ideas on how to propose and a whole lot more...I always go there to get romantic ideas for my bf
318342
you will get married whenever that person comes to your life, if they're there and you're male, and have been together a while then propose.....if female maybe he'll ask depending how long you've been together.\nget a job...maybe get a part time one now that way if in school or you can't handle too much stress yet then yeah parttime FOR NOW!\n\n...however, i doubt there are any psycho-kicks...(psyhics) on here ;) \n\ngood luck starting your life though :) it's hard starting i'll tell you
255743
Tell him that you are thinking marriage... gauge his reaction, that will be a good indicator of how he thinks about the relationship.
586369
This is great. If you are of the age to marry, I'd say, he's probably the one! He respects you.  Just show him you respect him and care about him.  Ask him straight out, when the time is right, "Will you just hold me?" Like out under the stars in the park.  A long tight hug is way better than kisses on the cheek.  Ask for what you want! Tell him how you feel!  Tell him you're glad he respects you and tell him it's alright with you if he goes a little farther. Tease him about being jealous of the other girl and that will show him you care.  I hope you can make it work! Just be patient. Good luck!
720406
Right now and ask him to marry you. Casual relations are no relation avoid from.
1117188
Etiquette and tradition state that the man should ask the bride's father for her hand and then propose to her.\n\nWell, throw etiquette out the window and think about it for yourself. \nAre you ready to get married? \nDo you want to propose?\n\nGo for it! It's unexpected, it's romantic, and above all else, it could be you! I promise if the woman proposes, nobody will walk up to her and say, "No, you can't get married until he asks you." \n\nTime's are changing so etiquette just needs to catch up!
351929
i would just say to ask him out....if he says no, then oh well, but if he says yes...well, he says yes! or maybe he'll say maybe and ask you the next day like my boyfriend did!
410741
There is nothing that you can do to make your boyfriend marry you. You have to decide if you want to continue to date someone who is not interested in marriage at this time. Take this time to decide on what you want to do to prepare yourself for marriage. Talk with boyfriend, find out his feelings. I wish you the best.
588438
It depands on the couple's level of maturity.  If he pops the question, tell him that you would prefer a long engagement.  This will give you both a chance to grow with each other and find out it it is right.  I wouldn't get married just yet...  heck, you are only 18, you can wait a year or two...
283943
get married? do you mean a steady boyfriend, maybe when you get one you like make it apparent you want to be exclusive then just treat him the way he wants to be treated (in accordance with your morals of course) and it should be all good.
134021
ok. i'll marry you if: 1. you come all the way to my hometown, get down on one knee, and propose with words that sound like poetry.\n2. i somehow magically fall in love with you if you actually decide to stay in my hometown.\n3. you tell me your name.\n4. you actually manage to find out my name and hometown.\n5. you ask my dad for my hand in marriage first\nsound easy enough? lol
217208
Ask him to be your actual boyfriend
673045
It's all about tradition.  Not only is the man traditionally the one who initiates the engagement, but men don't usually wear engagement rings, so unless he wants to wear a ring (and you don't), you won't have the traditional "token" to offer him when you ask for his hand.  Just some things to think about!\n\nIf you are more progressive and want to propose, Congratulations... have  at it.  Marriage is a wonderful thing and I hope that it all works out for you.