How do I convince my girlfreind to get intimate with me?
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THAT'S the problem with guys they just don't get it! you rush into situations too soon! you never have good timing for anything!\n\nOK! I'LL try and help you out!\nhere's the plan!   the most importqant thing is you have a girlfriend right!\nnow if you want to get intimate with her, you can't really tell her that you want whetever it is you want with her!\nin other words you are making your girlfriend feel stupid ina way!\nYOU have to be everything to her, meaning good manners, sweet,loving, caring, sharing conversations and enjoying good times wih her!\nthere are certain things you can do for her to get your attention, eg, asking questions on how was your day, a walk on the beach in the moonlight when no one's there, dinner for the two, try cooking dinner for her, doing something extremely romantic for a, buy her roses so that she can be suprised and tell her that you love her but not all the hours she will get sick of it!\ncome on do something lovely, eg. buying her a gift or something that she really wants.\nthen you will get all the love you need!  you have to look for the signs! \njust be really romantic to her and in turn she would do the same!
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talk to her on what she wants to do.\nwell,if you want to do something with her,ask her permission first before doing it.\nbut thing before you act,think what she might answer when you ask her.\nshe might not be a person that would like to take it to the next level and you must decide between asking her and not.\ngoodluck.\noh,bring a contraceptive...lol...just kidding
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No No No this ain't gon play.\n If you really care.  I mean if you really, really care, then acquaint yourself with some of the many many books on the subject and spend some time discovering tthe complexities of making love. Don;t just tke the easy way ou by asking somebody else who has not necessarily got the word on anything but their own possibly narrow experience.\nTake your time and learn the ways of love, Just like you need to with the one you are with. While making love to her,Slow loving attention and showing your appreciation for things that you find particularly attractive and unique about her asking her to let you know what you are doing that she especially likes or would like from you.--all these thing go a long way toward memorable,  mutually satisfying sexual relations.\n  Be attentive to her talk, her clothes, hair, perfume,  her style, her preferences, her needs OUTSIDE the bedroom and all the rest of the time. That's when she learns to regard you as a truly big man. and she develops a stronger longing to be close with you. Follow my advise, make those little efforts throughout the week,  and you wont be sorry when THAT TIME comes. Because love-making begins long before you lie together and if it doesn't, you won't be lying together long if at all.  Believe me .
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Just ask her!  If you're not convinced with her answer, don't press the issue.  Ask for ways for you to improve her experience.  If she's worried about your feelings, that will give her the opportunity to 'help you along' without embarassment.  Real men appreciate any advice from their lady- so the fact that she offers it- does NOT mean you've been doing it wrong.  And remember, you're not born a great lover, you BECOME a great lover- take any advice graciously.
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Spend a quality time with her, try to have a conversation that interest you both.... \n\nand A Simple Kiss and Hug would make any girlfriends day...\n\nDONT FORGET TO SAY "ILOVEYOU" and let her feel you mean it...\n\nThis are better than chocolates, flowers and stuff....=)
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be patient...do a lot of foreplay..use some lube and wear a condom...she's 18 so some drinks are not out of the question...start kissing, caressing and pleasuring her and she'll let you know when she's juicy and ready for entry...and consider yourself flattered that she asked you to be her partner for this special moment.
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Always be there for your girl.\nStand up for her honor.\nAlways open doors for any girl.\nAlways be polite.\nShow her that shivery isn't dead.\nLet her know your feelings, we can't read your mind.\nLook in her eyes when you talk to her, and she to you.\nBe a shoulder to lean on.\nHave open arms to hold and cuddle her.\nBe her friend to talk openly.\n(Just listen. No answers required)\nWhen you kiss, kiss from your heart.\n(not from any other part of your body)\nLet her lead you to anything more physical.\nBe honest in all things.  If you're faithful in the small things you'll be faithful in all things.\nWe want someone to love and trust too.\nRemember not to smother us.  But be attentive to our desires as we try to take care of yours.  Good Luck!\nIt's not the gifts or the money spent, But the attitude and gift of your heart that makes us love you.
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touch her in places that will turn her on. kiss lightly on the neck without being too obvioys rub her arm gently, offer a massage. there are a lot of ways to get it started without coming out and saying a word.
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Let her make all the moves, or ask her if she would like a back rub and just give her that.  And see if she does anything after you stop.  Talk to her.  Tell her no pressure you can wait.  Show her your a man and not a boy also reassure her that there is more than just sex that makes a relationship.
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do more foreplay to her and try not to touch your penis to anything.  you could use your tongue to make her so arouse and if she is almost there, then put it in so the two of you could come together.  nothing is better that coming together/shouting together.\n\nif you come earlier than her, then continue with tongue playing till she comes.  good luck!
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When she starts talking sex, slip into the conversation that if you did (this or that)you would want it to be with someone just like her. Then ask her if you could clone her so you could with a big wink and a devilish smile. I think she will get your drift.  Or tell her if it were not for the b/f you'd be compelled to try to do that to her. That way you can say you are interested without asking
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u need to prove it without begging..... u need to mean each and every word u say without turning your back on her.... appreciate her, that she is the one who changed yr life and tht u always want her around.... tht ull never leave her or hurt her... make her feel like a princes.... leave her sorry cards and flowers.... she'll get totally floored believe me.... girls love being taken care of.... act like a gentleman....\n\ngood luc \n\nmail me if u want
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find out what shes missin in her sex life now, and let her know u got what she wants....then when she laughs at you lmao..tell her.." dont knock it til you try it" ALWAYS WORKs
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Two steps:\n\n1. Believe in yourself\n2. Resort to more of foreplay
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Show her affection and plenty of foreplay. Get her opinion on what she likes you to do.
549125
talk about tryin new things to gather. you just dont want to spring something on her shes not ready for. For starters try watching dirty movies, role play or even try out each others fantasy.
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Honestly, we would have to know what you are doing NOW in order to tell you what would make it BETTER...you know?  Good advice is always ask, ask, ask!  If she knows what she wants then you don't need to ask strangers.  If she doesn't know what she wants or is embarrassed to talk about it, here are some things to remember:  stimulate the clit, be gentle, be generous, use your hands on other parts of her body, make her feel sexy.  Talk to her about what she likes and pay attention to how she responds when you do something.