Am married but always fall in love,not really for sex, But i always desire making friendship.is it inorder?
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Did you ask your wife or husband about this?  How does he/she feel about it? what ever you think they would say is your answer.
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Your right hollywood is full of fiction all to easy for people to believe .Personally when I first met my wife I didnt like her round face that much but I gave it time and got to know her heart and character we were married 30 years .Back to your question yes you can get out of the just friends zone into a relationship really that is the best way to find a lasting relationship .You are more likely to know each other such as likes and dislikes their sexual habits how well you can comunicate together and care for one another all of which are important for you to know before you marry someone .By just meeting a new person they will probably hide the real them to keep you but after you marry crunch time comes you find out the one you married isnt like you thought at all.
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Of course. That is healthy. Some, like friendships, can be dropped if not healthy or they've been outgrown. Others, such as marriage, will take work to keep healthy instead of using it as an excuse to fall back into our own selfish habits or to selfishly say that we aren't "in love" and leave.
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I have been married 11 years this year. A lot of people think that marriage is going to be fun and full of lovey feelings, holding hands and skipping through a field with flower petals showering down on you. No one thinks that sometimes it rains, hails and can even blow you off your feet with extreme hurricane winds. This is when most people bail. Marriage is pulling together and fighting through it. Love is not a feeling that you feel for your partner, but an action. It is staying when you feel like leaving. It is hugging them when you feel like pushing them away. It is telling them how much they are to you. It is putting this person above even yourself. It is developing a friendship and putting that person above your friends and family. Your husband/wife should be the single most important person in your life. It takes work and most are to into themselves or lazy to work at it. A friendship is the best thing to give your partner along with a healthy dose of appreciation.
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It sounds like you're lonely and craving an understanding and intimacy that you're not getting from you wife.  Before you make a huge decision that will alter yours and many other people's lives, really think about what you're thinking about doing.  My guess is that you and your wife had a very passionate relationship that cooled down after you married.  Once you married, life's monotonous routine got in the way of passion and communication.  Now you're looking outside the marriage for that spark.\n\nBefore you act, do yourself and your wife a favor and talk to her.  Be honest about your feelings.  Maybe her job/friends/family etc... consume all her energy.  Maybe you'll find that she's just as lonely as you are.  Give her a chance to work with you to make your marriage work.  If you feel you can't talk to her, then suggest couples counseling.  If that fails, then I would consider the possibility of ending the marriage.  But before making that decision, please please please give you and her a chance.  Don't give up yet!
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I think so, yes.  For most women, their sexual desires come from the warm feelings they have towards their partners.  The friendship bonds between women can be quite strong, often emotionally stronger than the relationships they have with their husbands.  It's only natural to let all that warmth, friendship, love, and safety flow into curiosity about lovemaking.  Every woman has thought about it, and if a woman says she hasn't, she's lying.  The more defensive and angry a woman gets when asked this question, the more she's thought about being with another woman.
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Married.  I've got a best friend 24/7!
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I have a really really best guy friend ( woman here), been friends for 5 yrs now. He has been w/ me thru everything. I am married now but b4 now, he wanted to be more than friends. Told him I didn't see it that way, it would ruin our friendship I thought. That if he didn't see it same way, we coulndt even be friends no more. Still friends today!..Some things are better left alone!
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Its ok to fall in love with your best friend. I think it can possibly make the relationship stronger because it already has a foundation. I married my best friend....
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Remember, physical touch is not the basis for love. We can get physical with someone yet have no real love for them. Love is a commitment and a sacrifice (Remember those vows you made to your spouse? "Til death do you part.")Though you may have no plans to meet with your chatmate you have obviously developed a bond with this person that is reserved for you and your spouse alone. So, yes this infidelity.\nDump the chatmate and reignite the passion for your spouse!
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I've wondered the same many a time.. I think itz because we've heard so much about love and relationships that we tend to stretch friendship to a higher level. Just imagine, if you knew your best friend is engaged to be married or is already married, you would feel nothing but friendship towards this person. The fact that hez single and available makes things different. You tend to open up a lot to ur friend..After you become quite close, you become so comfortable with the person that you think, "how nice it would be to have such an understanding person in life?". There love starts to blossom.
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Line of communication is a huge thing. I have been married for 11 yrs and above all else this a huge factor. No good marriage is easy. You have to love that person and like them because passion comes and goes and you need that friendship and unconditional love to fall back on
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i think someone should be your friend before they are your spouse\nopposites attract, but after awhile they repel
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of course you can! my best friend and I hung out for 6 months, what made him my best friend he never asked for sex .And we always had the best time together ! we end up getting married ..stayed married for 17 yrs..\n\n\nBasilche, good to know there are still good guy out there !
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no. there is no friendship without love be it the same sex. in the case of the opposite sexes somewhere and someplace there will be fatal attraction!
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I suppose it would depend on what kind of friendship it is, and what type of Love you are referring to.  Sometimes friendship turns into a Loving relationship, which involves a great deal of intimacy on many levels, and other times it turns to Love without the intimacy.  For example, there is someone that I do Love, and it is my wife.  I also Love my children.  I have a friend whom I Love, and our relationship is more like a counselor type relationship where we counsel one another, and help one another.  The last two have different levels of intimacy, and different types of intimacy than the first one ... yet, I do give Love in each of those scenerios.\n\nWe are called to Love everyone, including out enemies.  So I would think that friendships come from Love, but not necessarily from intimacy.\n\nI hope that helps you.  Good luck.
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Just because your marriage of 25 years is "ok" doesn't mean you can't have a strong attraction to someone you describe. People change throughout their lives and it sounds to me like you're gay.To reiterate, that you have spent a pleasant 25 years with your wife says no more than this time has been tolerable. If you're saying (sounds like you are) that you've been feeling earth shattering passion and obsession about your married friend, it's fairly obvious.