how would i find out if my husband filed for divorce without me?
79483
Depending on the State. He may not need you there to file for divorce. But, he will need your signature to finalize everything. Check at your town hall or local courthouse.
213507
check out your divorce papers \nmaybe your custody papers \nif there isn't either you need to file a custody suit
769509
go to the family clerks office in the town you were married in and request a pro se divorce (do it yourself) you do not need a lawyer AT ALL.  I did my divorce this way and it cost me $225 to file and $90 to have him served.  He didnt show to court and he didnt have to.  I was granted a divorce 90 days after the papers were filed.  Whooo hoo
639364
First call the court clerks office where the divorce was filled.( what county the divorce was in)\nAsk them for the amount and address.Tell them you need it certified. They will ask you to send a SASE and check.\nThen they will stamp it and send it back.
284460
You are able to search on their website.  Just enter your firend's last and first name to check.
289889
you can :\ngo to your county's website and axs the court info and see if they have any prior arrests and then u can go to the auditors website and see if they own any property and where..also you can go into the probate cout's website and see if they have been divorced , married ans or filed for a marraige lisc!
696215
Divorces are a matter of public record..\nCall the court clerk in the county in which he was divorced\nand ask how / where you can look at the divorce records..
280548
Whether or not this is public information depends on the state where the divorce was filed.  I would suggest you try the local courthouse of the city and state where the divorce was filed. That is your best bet for finding information on a pending divorce case.
251883
CALL THE COURTHOUSE IN THAT CITY AND ASK FOR A COPY OF THE DIVORCE DECREE. THEY WILL CHARGE FOR COPIES ( it varies) BUT IT IS OPEN TO PUBLIC RECORDS FROM THE COUNTY CLERKS OFFICE.
660957
You may be out of luck, but in some states you can get a filing fee reduction or waiver if you fill out the right paperwork. Some states require a certain time period of waiting along with running advertisements in the local and last known address newspapers when the other party is absent. If he knows where she is and the divorce is uncontested and no children are involved, he can look in the classifieds or thrifty nickel papers, I've seen "divorce experts" advertise in there for like $300 plus filing fees.
515195
whereever you are married there is a record. try contacting the courthouse or church  you were married, there will or should be a copy in the nearest city or town hall.\n\nVin
1037209
Yes to both!!!  You definitely should (get help if necessary) make a copy of his profile on a CD-rom or diskette and also copy stuff you can find in his email or Internet history.  This (along with phone records, if applicable) is concrete evidence in divorce court as proof of unfaithfulness.\n~~~\nFeel free to click my avatar/profile and contact me (and include your email if you want me to email you back).  As you can see, I have been helpful to others in the short time I've been on this site.  I cannot imagine your pain, confusion, shock, and humiliation, but I know that you don't have to put up with it, nor do you have to struggle through this trial all by yourself.\n~~~\nCheck out some sites for betrayed spouses, join a local group or organization, or visit a family therapist or marriage counselor.  Any of these sources could help you decide what steps to take for your sanity, happiness, and well-being - and that of your family/kids.
1018358
Go to the clerk of court's web site for the county you're looking in. They might have marriage records online - most do. You can search and find out if he got the license and the ceremony date. If it's blank , it usually means there was a license applied for and approved, but no wedding.
113709
If you havent heard in 90 days ask your lawyer to send them a letter. Also you can check on the status online.
462749
First of all, I would ask if you have kept your committment to the terms of the divorce. If there are some specifics, then you could probably answer your own question.\nSecondly, just let her know you've moved on and if there are kids involved, plz consider them.
861442
The Child Support Agencies may operate differently in some states, but normally, they track through the SS # and will find him through his job. \n Since Homeland Security was formed, information is not readily available for general public.\nOnly he can find out by calling the Child Support Agency in the state where the divorce originated and they will tell him.\n\nBottom line..you can't get the information from a website.
750254
Ring the court up that you got divorced in. They will be able to help you by telling you who to phone or write to.