What do you think a man would prefer 1st?
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Cute usually attracts attention first but to keep the attention the smarts come next.
105984
Stop looking. The man you want will show interest in you first.
1011134
honesty, sweetness, romance, surprise, trustworthiness, a genuine caring attitude, sense of humor, strong sense of family, a good work ethic (not too lazy), fun\n\ni also think it's great when a guy really likes music, won't be afraid to dance with you, not ashamed to hold you in public, not afraid to meet your friends or introduce you to his, takes care of himself, smart, likes to read, likes to cook (or try to cook for you anyway). \n\ni probably missed more qualities... but that's what i want in a man anyway =)
698740
Your love. What more could a man ask for?
1181005
Deffinetly personality. Looks aren't really important to me. I mean, yeah, clearly if he's got a great personality and he looks hot, I mean, yeah, that'd be a great bonus, but as long as he's got a great personality, I'm set.
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well for me..... it starts with a physical attraction, but then he has to be sweet, and just gentle, but also mean and manly. he needs to be soft and hard. but it can also start as a friendship, trust me i have been with someone i wasn't attracted to at first but after we started talking i became attracted to him after i found all these qualities in him. so every woman's opinion will very which is why there is someone for everyone
247096
are u a man or u want a man
888492
We like a hard working man.  We like someone who we think is going to be a great father.  We (if sincere) like to have a little extra money, but if since don't ask for too much.  We like a man that KEEPS HIMSELF CLEAN!  We like to be able to be around to take care of the kids.  We like a man who is open and honest but not anything hatred or hurtful.  We like patience and kindness,  We like softness and gentleness.  We like patients and understanding.  We like being pampered in general.  It takes love to give love.  The more she feels like you love her and doing for her, the more love you will get in return!!!!  Get the hint?!
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It depends on the women usually. What i want tho is a guy who is strong not only as in muscles but a strong mind. A guy who is real not fake, not a cheater,not a moocher, but a real guy. A man who is sweet but not too sweet. Oh, i go for the bad boys too. LOL. A man who can live on his own and has been thro stuff in his life. But if you mean like in anything... Just a man, and some money, beauty products and thingys like that. But personally i'm not all about the jewlry and stuff.  I'm more real and i as a women want to party!
230572
Depends on the guy. Everyone has different tastes. Generally?\n- Commitment\n- Affectionate, shared/mutual love\n- Most of the time, decent to good physical features\n- Intelligence\n- Genuine understanding\n- Open communication
1165773
That sounds admirable...why not ask him what he would really like, only he knows what turns him on!
777308
It depends on what you are looking for and what your definition of the right guy is.  My first advice is to be less vague.
1159526
what would your brother want?
45014
it can go either way. i have asked guys before
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Because it is one of the primary choices for guys, we each pick one of the following\n\nA) creepy\nB) wimpy\nC) macho\nD) sensitive (see B)\nE) athletic (see C)\nF) intelligent (who are you kidding)\n\nWell, its just easier to pick A)
1065839
I prefer me on top and in control.    Besides you can move better being on top.  When you can move better all goes well.  The other way around seems uncomfortable for the man.
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I want a woman that is comfortable in EITHER role.\n\nOne that feels like she can INITIATE... or be WOOED.  (or the old.... "coax me")