Why is it I can't find love?  Is there something wrong with me?
97553
The only thing wrong is that you are very shy and have not found a way to work around the problem. My advice would be to use your hobbies and interests to help you find someone that has things in common with you. Join groups or teams or go places that have to do with your hobbies and interests. The people that you will find in the groups or on the teams will have the same thing in common with you and it will give you something to talk about. Once you have broken the ice it will be easier to continue the conversation. I strongly believe that you don't "Find" love, that it will find you, but it never hurts to put yourself in a place where it will have a chance to find you. By joining groups or going to places that you have an interest in, you are automatically placing yourself with people that have the same interests as yourself and giving you something to open a conversation with that you will feel confident talking about, which will help with your shyness. Good Luck!! =-)
472615
A very vague question which lacks detail. There are hundreds of factors which could be a reason as to why you can't find a girlfriend. I for one for one would not think it is due to your location or your bisexuality.\nPeople who are straight often find it hard to find a lover living in highly populated cities. \n\nIf you believe in love as a in a fairy tale manner where fate and destiny decide for us then you will only need to be patient and yor are sure to find love.\nIf you are a person who believes that you make your own love, then perhaps consider yor approach to finding love...
239129
I'm not saying I have all the answers, but it is pretty humiliating when someone doesn't want you. You're afraid of falling in love again; ok, you've been in love. Has anybody told you they love you, or has it been all theoretical and one-sided so far? You're afraid of love; have you been loved, manipulated, used or just misunderstood? How have you been hurt? These are questions you need to determine before you can decide what to do next. I'd say talk to a counsellor. Figure out what actually happened, what you want to do eventually, and what you can try next to achieve your goals. If you are still nervous after that, try to work your way up to it gradually. Start with just caring about people, maybe neighbors, children, the elderly. Do you know anybody in need? There are many ways to express love. Are you looking for a tender, warm caring love, or a rough, wild, sensual love? We all need various things from the ones we love at different times. Some people express love by sharing, some by providing, some by giving gifts or surprises, some by being romantic, some by being reliable, some by challenging their loved one to excell. Try to meet up with the pople who are looking for the same thing(s) you are. Good luck!
648644
Sometimes, if you just wait, you will be waiting for a long time.  You see, love is one thing that does not necessarily always come looking for you.  I am 18 and i have found love; i have found my one soulmate with whom i am destined to spend the rest of my life.  I almost did not find her, because i was just waiting for love to come into my life.  Only when i started looking and showing interest did she come into my life.  The key is not to look for love in the wrong places, rather, look for it where you'll meet someone who you could imagine spending the rest of your life might be.  Don't go being desperate for love, however.  This will cause you worse heartache than being lonely.  Patience: when it is time, love will come to you; you just might have to help it along a little.  I am sure things will work out for you.  Good luck in love!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
1028064
Don't look for love, it'll come to you. Everytime you go out looking for love it always ends up in bad news. Just be open to new friends and love will sweep you away. BE PATIENT
221119
How do you like someone if you can't find them?  I would assume that either you haven't met them or perhaps you lost them on the side of the road somewhere.  I hope you find them eventually. Good luck.
43457
If you are alone it wont get worse....work on spelling....people tend to notice when you dont spell stuff correctly ...this might help you find the love you seek.
1089820
The same reason that I haven't been able to find a girlfriend recently.\nIt will happen again....
661141
These are all signs of you trying a little to hard to find it, one cannot truely search for love to find it, it must find them. Do things to boost up your confidence, if you look down and feel down inside can you imagine what you appear to everyone else on the outside? Try and do things that you like to do when people see the happy you and playful you it will allow them to really see the true beauty inside and that will attract them to you. Nothing is wrong with you, work on your self esteem a little. Surround yourself with happy people and this might help out.
978528
maybe its just not the right time for you to meet the right person yet!\n\ntry being more happy about your self and stop looking for the right one!\npeople notice when you are happy and enjoy life and they are naturally attracted to that! if they see that u look miserable they might be frightend off from approaching you!\nif you have any hobbies or interests that you enjoy try getting into that more often, \n\ngoodluck, remember keep your head up and be happy with yourselfand let it show, you will soon find that people are following you everywhere ...
232132
hey sweetie keep ur head up. u just might be look'n in the wrong place, don't look for love let it find you. its not just you,
84185
nothings wrong with you. That right person hasnt walked into your life yet. It takes time to find love, it doesnt just happen over night.
211513
You should just give it some time. If you stay true to yourself love will find you eventually. It might not be right when you want it to happen, but it will come. Don't go out there and start looking for somebody to call your own out of desperation because that could mean disaster. Just take care of you and be patient.
293381
what do you not do? are you shy? do you get nervous around girls? are you looking in the right place?\n\nit can be so many things. first off, just chill. not every person is looking for a significant other. think about that too. you could be asking a person who had a bad experience with an ex, they are too busy to be dating other people, or something else.\n\nyou can't always find them and we all go through a sort of slump. try doing this. use your looks to your advantage. be cocky in a funny way.\nex:\nthem- wow! you are ruggedly handsome!\nu- nice try. too many people have tried to use that line on me and it doesn't work.\n\nto hit my main point, learn how to project your self-confidence to other people. that will help you on your quest to get dates. personality counts more than looks. you have looks to reinforce an attractive personality. good luck with finding a date.
556477
Because your looking in the wrong places. Stop looking for the right person and start looking at yourself. Live by the rules of the heart. Love thy self first before you can offer to others. Once you feel comfortable about yourself and stop looking to fill that void...the right person will come into your life. Sometimes if not more often its the person in front of you that is right.
841928
It just does, my friend.\nYou can't explain it. I'm sorry.\nBut I'll attempt to...\nI think that if you keep trying to look for love, it will seem so much longer and more strenuous. Looking so hard will just result in false hope.... false love.... FORCED love.... in a way. It's like you're trying to push yourself to find that one person.\nYou should just relax and have faith in God to bring you that woman. He has a plan for you.\n\nIn my case, I was friends with my boyfriend for a long time. I've gone through many jerks... but he was always there. I never looked for love. It was just so disappointing. I enjoyed life being single. Besides, I was happy not having relationship drama. I had faith in God. Little did I know, my boyfriend was right under my nose the entire time. And we plan on getting married someday. : }
897146
Sometimes being "fine, slim and tall" is not enough.  You have to have a nice personality, and a good sense of humor.  Or at the very least find someone that likes your personality, sense of humor, etc.  It's that whole "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" thing.\n\nSomething else to consider is, maybe you are not the problem, chances are there's nothing wrong with you... maybe the guys in your town just don't have good taste when it comes to women. \n\nBe patient and open-minded... finding someone special is always worth the wait.\n\nGood luck!