why are guys mean to u when they like u and dont ask u out when they like u?
97510
so u notice them and just to be assholes
351238
Don't worry too much about it, maybe he went out with you and decided he didn't like you as much as he thought he did.  Men (and women) are like this all the time and instead of being honest and telling what it is...they do things like this.  He's trying to "let you down easy" and not confront the situation.  My advice is to get involved with other things (friends, family, etc) and keep it moving.  You can't get someone to be interested in you if they aren't.
977290
Maybe he thinks you're not approachable. Be nice, be non-threatening, and show him that he might have a chance. Or you could talk to him yourself, tell him you like him and ask him out. Sometimes, you just need to take the initiative. Good luck!
731302
he's just giving u the cold shoulder or simply trying to get U more interested in him, its just basic love strategy.  It is common just do the same thing to him and you will be surprised on how he reacts.  U will have good results. Good Luck!
162269
Guys won't talk about their feelings until they feel they can trust you.  If you ask them outright, they'll avoid it because it's being forced out, or they feel threatened.\n\nYou have to understand that men act the way they do, not because they're jerks, it's that they are different from us.\n\nMen normally SHOW, I repeat, SHOW their feelings, they don't talk about them.  Most guys don't really understand how they feel.  Asking a girl out is the hardest thing for them, because it's showing that they like you.  If you don't accept, they've left themselves open to attack.  I know it's stupid but that's the way they think.\n\nIf you want a guy to ask you out, drop hints about it, like "I don't really know what I want to do on Saturday".  Or "what are you up to this weekend?"  Stuff like that.  When you want a guy to talk about his feelings, don't outright ask him, because he really needs to think about it for a while before talking about it.  Start talking about how you enjoy doing things, and how much fun it is.  He'll start to respond.  Never ask a guy about what he's thinking about, because most of the time, he's not really thinking about anything.\n\nThe real way you can tell if a guy loves you?  See how hard he tries to do things for you.  See how hard he tries to make things good for you.  If you want him to like you even more, thank him for doing these things.  Tell him something flattering about what he did.  He'll brush it off saying it was nothing, or something like that, but he's trying to minimize it, and avoid being embarrased.  Inside you just made him feel really important and special.
277599
He is not interested in you. Probably, he is just having a good time just flirting with you. He is not serious. And since he replied in negative when you asked him out, he is not keen on you. It would be wise to forget him and move on.
106408
I think by the way he acts around you. Some boys act mean and make fun of you and that usually means that they like you. Though that is not always the case.
602067
It means he wants to ask you out but is afraid of rejection. If you say that you would say yes, then he will ask you out. If you say you would not go out with him, then he knows not to ask you. Basically he's asking you out, without asking you out first.
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Some guys like the "Art of Flirtation".  They literally practice on you just to get it right.  And they LOVE that you respond to it.  \n\nOther guys are just too shy to go up and say they are interested in you, yet forward enough to actually flirt. If this is the case, you might have to ask him out.
597700
Maybe he is just shy that you wouldnt want to date him. OR he could be waiting for YOU to make the first move... You know, trying to play hard to get... But usually, guys wont do that, not that any I know anyway...
451667
its a guy thing, they dont want it to seem like u beat them and got the girl so instead of being the guys "who got rejected" they claim they never wanted her in the first place.. hence they didn't lose out to you !!
429666
You're probably just attractive and wanted. Why not ask them why they like you? Or go out with one if single!
829108
Well usually it would mean that he wants to see how you react and what you are going to say. Each person has their own opinion on it I guess,  and if he is asking you, tell him what you would want someone to do to you so that you know that they like you. And I am assuming if he does like you he will use that tactic.
337246
ok, first of all, awwwww!srry. had to secondly there is a very, very GOOD cance that he does like you but it's only the start of a relationship if one of you makes a move. So mabie he's just shy - you never know - ask him out! Guys like that. : )
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Sounds to me that he sees you as very good looking, and he's working hard to impress you but he may have some fear to ask you out because he thinks you might say no. Although you had acepted him and let him talk to you, asking you out is a little harder to do for him. I had this situation happen to me once, when I was in high school . One of the cuttest girls has chosen  to sit by me on the bus. I didn't even know Her and She just  told me to sit in the seat next to Her one day. I did,  and from then on, She sat by me everyday, and we talked alot. But even though She has shown me great compassion and friendliness, I could not get up enough courage to ask her out on a date! I kept waiting and hopeing she would bring it up, or ask me out. But in those days in 1972, Girls were not yet asking boys out or making aproaches on guys, maybe some but I don't remember. I think its cool that some girls are doing  this now and alot of men like it! But thats up to the Girls if they want to roll play iniation at times. In a way, its a good way for a girl to experience what its like to us guys having to ask girls out and stuff. And you can see it itsn't easy to do at most times. I myself find it harder to talk to cute Gilrls because the fear of rejection is stronger in me with cute Girls. The cuter the girl , the stronger the fear of rejection is! \nThats just the way it is with us guys.\nHeres something for you Girls should know. If a guy doesn't talk to you that you haven't met yet, Unless he hates you for some reason or he's mad at you,   it means that,  he thinks you are cute and good looking! and he really wants to talk to you but he's afraid to approach you because of fear of rejection!   I find it  alot easier to aproach or talk to Girls who may be a little short on good looks, because I have not the fear of rejection at hand! Do you get what I mean?  best wishes sweetie,    JoeyMars..
970273
personally i dont like it when girls ask guys out so i would just tell you to drop hints about your feelings and try to get close to him and tell him nice things
160823
It probably means that you need more self-confidence.  It's really not a matter of nice, but guys who don't have the confidence to make the first move, etc., often come across as being "too nice."\n\nBottom line:  Don't be a jerk, but don't be afraid to make a move.