Why is it so hard to find a honest woman?
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I get the feeling you're calling all women dishonest because you've had one bad experience.  Don't let her do this to you.  You've got to trust.  Go out and meet someone new.  Spend time with her.  Tell her the truth about yourself.  She'll pay you the compliment of being honest with you, too.
1017813
I think it depends on where you are looking and how!!  My friend asked the same question but was only looking in bars and just really wanted a girlfriend so he didn't have the highest standards.  Many times it's when you aren't looking and you are happy with where you are that someone comes along.  I met my boyfriend through a mutual friend.  Meet up with people who enjoy the same things with you.  \nTrust me... there are great honest girls out there.. you just have to look hard for us! :)  Good Luck :)
613814
Actually there are NOT a lot of nice guys out there.\nIt doesn't take BEING NICE to fulfill ALL the needs required!\n\nWomen aren't getting what they want, besides the obvious!\n\nI feel it is mainly the sensitivity woman have and want!\nAlso the appreciation we require!\nWomen are sensitive to all aspect to many things at one time. \nMen seem to be able to focus on only one thing at a time!
463306
Um, maybe it depends on the type of girl you are looking for.  I usually don't have a problem finding dates.  \n\nMy problem is in finding women who have the qualities that I want to date.
362432
It's not hard, but it seems to me from my experiences that women say they want one thing then actually go after another....\nI'm yet to meet a woman who would go for a genuine nice guy over an asshole who treats them like crap, maybe they just need something to complain about to the nice guys they just want to be "friends" with...
1142524
Funny, I'm having problems finding a match..\nOh wait, we might be looking for different things. \nGuess that's why we all have to either, wear a sign that tells everyone what we are about, or we have to sit and talk.\nOr do a bit of both.\nAnd then the hard part is being honest with that other person so that we really find out if we want what the other is offering. \nMany times people spin what they think the other person wants to hear to "win" them, then later those pesky little problems start popping up. And then the women want the men to grow up, and the men want the women to keep giving lap dances. Neither understands why the other changed or won't change from before the dating started.\nOoops did I let  secret slip out?
1043192
It hard to find a girlfriend this days.
237613
WOW you some up all women in just a few sentence. I think most women look to find that someone that makes them happy physically and emotionally. Most will find just what they are looking for, and other may not but will not settle. You will find women that are perfectly fine with out this so called perfect mate or soul mate but would never settle they are just fine. It is so easy to put people in catigorys whether they fit or not.
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It is always increasingly difficult to find a new relationship the older we get.\nIf you are well-liked as a friend then that is a bonus as many people can't even get friendship.\nHave you considered asking a close woman friend why she thinks you are having trouble? sometimes just seeing yourself from the womans point of view can be a great help.\n\nAre you coming across as desperate? maybe they think you don't care who you with and will settle for anyone that can be off-putting.\nI think you need to build up your feelings of self worth and self respect also cos to describe yourself as unattractive shows you don't think much of yourself.\n\nYou need to make the most of these friendships and get advice from any of the women you trust and realise that just like in job interviews you have to sell yourself to potential new friendships no-one wants to feel they are "better than nothing"
38338
world always need honest people.... but they are always very few....
255247
yes we are out there and looking for the real thing too but as you know we all have to sort thru all the fakes i know it sucks but we all have to go thru it i myself am still looking for the right lady but.... i guess being from the midwest myself i have found that alot of women are looking for a way out from where they live they want a man to take care of them no goals of their own if you are true about looking   you can get to know  me if your brain isnt wasted you will know how to contact me ......waiting for a real woman
335176
Just try to be yourself. I've found that women like honesty and are not impressed with pick up lines. Most women just want to talk to a genuine guy who is not looking to get laid right away. Stay away from really good looking women. They are messed up. Remeber ths song "If you want to be happy for the rest of your live, never make a pretty woman your wife". Go out to social scenes like hikes, bike trials, etc. The bars are for losers.
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There are a few decent and honest guys out there, but you got to look in the right place! Bars, clubs are meat markets, stay away from that kind of environment. It also helps when you stop looking so hard, just relax, when the time is right it will happen. That's how I met my hubby.
865005
Sorry to intrude (I'm a guy) but I think you need to be more specific about what sort of women you have in mind.  I have a bit of experience with women, and I can tell you they each look for different things.  Young women tend to be more idealistic (speak about things like "honest, caring, sensitive, handsome, ...") while some more mature women are looking for stability ("commitment, financial stability, supportive, ...").  Only one answer mentions "money" but I think it's naive to not stress that.  Most women are looking for a successful, confident guy, who will be able to take care of them (I have never met a woman who didn't love a nice gift).  I almost forgot "smart/capable" - woman seem to really like that too.
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There might be different reasons. One is that they might think you won't find out about those little things, thus missing the point of the importance of being honest. Another is that they are afraid of ruining their image before their girlfriends, which shows immaturity.\n\nThe list goes on and on, but you better figure it out from personal experience.
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I can tell you from experience that you can find great women via Craigslist.\n\nI have met more attractive women via my ads there.\n\nI can't speak on Match.com\n\nBest of luck,\nJeffrey
88972
That's a tricky question, cuz not all men are the same.Like me, I look for nice personality, honesty,and someone to love me for me, not for what I have.Most importantly, she has to have high self esteem.All the physical things come in a little later.