When breaking up are u right to the point or u beat around the bush?
94024
get right to the point, it will prevent a lot of drama.
870262
they will go off what you make regardless of what happen in the relationship. and if you got a messy ex the yes it is best to go through the courts cause if you don't she might try to screw over you
462997
my ex and i always fought. and i'm not exactly the best guy. i tried my best though. but i realized that i dont make her as happy as i used to and that probably, others can. so i gave her up. i broke up with her, because i want someone who'll be good to her... someone better than me. (dont do this if you and your girl are really into each other)
993943
No, do the right thing and break up in person.
401810
Just what do you want to make right?\nWork that out and ask the question again.\n\nA lot of times people leave one relationship but don't resolve any of their own issues. They know what the other person did wrong, and they know they wern't happy. The problem is unless we ourselves grow and change, we will most likely just repeat the same mistake over again with a new partner.
789379
ok yeyyy, if theres something that happens alot to me, thats getting dumped lol, but at 2 1/2 moths your still in the safe zone of saying you just don't like himt hat way, but honestly if he puts his friends first he probably won't be to heart broken, al you have to do when you break up with a guy is be honest say whats wrong, and then say and because of this, i don't think we should go out anymore, give the problem, then break up, then walk away, he might be stuned for a few min, but then he be glad you where honest..... because honesty is valued, if you leave for a guy admit it, we find out later and it only hurts more, i mentioned that to state honesty to break up with a guy will be the only way to do it, tell him why, and thats the easyest way
921826
Holy crap.  You are still in the process of "breaking up".  Finish it.
780162
Breakups hurt. Whatever you do don't string it out because it wil hurt more that way.
971189
No I wouldn't just break up with someone because I couldn't spend enough time with them, I would break up with them because of the truth...usually people say one thing and mean another because they are afraid of hurting someone, I don't know why people think that the truth is gonna hurt more then finding out that they are lying but they do. and its stupid.
29714
let go of your expections of your partner. or the things that couse conflict.                                           dont let go of your relationship and the things that make it work.
673245
In a word YES. In theory, you both did the right thing.\nThe time to decide this may not be for you is BEFORE you walk the aisle. Working that out before the wedding was a blessing for you. Imagine what would happen if he came up with that NOW. Yes, its true that the ones you love most have the greatest ability to hurt. That it still hurts shows how invested you were then and now. Perhaps a review of attitude is in order. When he broke up he said he didn't love you but realized he was wrong. Unless he's given you cause to question his love now, remember that his hindsight (always 20/20)showed him that he does. Try to view that time as a reaffirmation that you belong together. Then the feelings will become positive. The ability to look past that kind of thing and get over it will prepare you for staying in the relationship and work it out. The more you replay that time the greater the chance those feelings will get in the way of your relationship today.
168372
Are you happy? Life is too short to be miserable. It sounds like the inevitable is breaking up. Of course it's hard and you'll question yourself a million time. People don't change, if you fight now you will always fight. Obviously you have some concern if you are even asking. You probably know deep down what's the right thing to do. It's never easy to go through with a break up. Sometimes you have to do things that make you unconfortable. If you don't think that you are going to get married then you are wasting your time. You could be out there finding Mr. Perfect but instead you are fighting with a person that isn't right for you.
631266
Hi\n\n   I would say it totally depends on the reasons you broke up with him in the first place.......
798715
when you are leaving someone or they are leaving you.
316813
I think that yu should wait until they break up, if that takes too long tell you friou end how you feel
663307
You can't worry about hurt feelings.  Mine were hurt when my girlfriend broke up with me, but she played it straight, I knew where I stood, she was in the right and it was the best for her.  Just be truthful as to why you are breaking it off.
655954
When they have made it clear that they have moved on. If they have new activities and new friends and are happy.\n\nYou are best off doing the same. Ironically if you are independent and happy and out doing interesting things our ex may find you more attractive, but you should do these things for yourself.