will i ever fin a guy that loves and respects me for who i m but i can still have fun w/ him?
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sure,there is alot of them out there, like me! send me a e-mail if there is any other questions. badcoptiger@yahoo.com
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You said in your question, if you take a second and read it again that, u are lucky to have found this guy,u feel self-conscious, and you wonder if u will be able to satisfy him, what can u do? I think what you need to realize is that a man IS satisfied by a woman that treats him good. period. physical attributes mean very little if you give him your love and respect. You have to know that you are a woman with everything on that body and in that heart that a man would ever want. please keep in mind that relationships at your age are probably not forever. it was what i went through as a man then that gave me the wisdom and maturity to see a good woman as more than a physical lust. i took women for granted,blindly, and because of my own insecurities and shortcomings. dont be scared to live and love deeply. dont feel like your body lacks anything. if you do love him, make sure its love you get back. i hope that he treats you right, and respects you like he should. baby, it's not the breasts, it's the heart behind it that makes a man fall in love.
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A guy would do what you allow him to.  If you endure the hurt and stick around and watch as he bring others over, he'll continue to do so.  \n\nHe knows you love him, no doubt.  If he loves you as well, you'll have to make him prove it or you'd have to get out of it and find what you want in a relationship.  \n\nAdditionally, you need to empower yourself and gain your independence....you'd be surprise the fish you'ld hook when you have control
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As long as you are a good person.. what does it matter what guys like.  You are what you are... they can take it or leave it!
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I don't do that.  I've been there done that.  I only want to be with someone who will go out of their way for me.  Someone who will treat me like a lady.  Someone I know I can depend on and trust.  "If you treat me like a queen I will treat you like a king."  Not you personally, but that's one of my sayings.  There is nothing worse then being in a relationship with no trust and they treat you bad.  I'm better then that and I will not settle for less.  When I was young I dated jerks, but now that I'm older I want a gentleman.  It comes with age.
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If he is the one for you, you dont have to do anything but be yourself. He will see you for you as you are as a whole. He will appreciate your positives and negatives, your flaws and perfections. try to appreciate his and he will love you and go no where.
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It's called,: Self acceptance & self respect!!!! Get some,then you won't feel so bad. You don't have to be as smart as he is to like who you are!!!
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u need to get a man that can respect u
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yes I feel like that everyday. then the guys I encounter are less than stellar. I think we all have to have faith, live our lives for our self and have fun regardless of if he comes. If you just sit around and wait you will miss the pleassure of living your life! so cry a bit get over it and do something that makes you happy. you never know you might meet the right person while you are in the mist of having fun...
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Well, let me tell U all U need to do: U need to accept he's not taking U for serious, I guess he only wants U to make a few moves and that's it.\nThe guy who really takes care about U and really appreciates U is gonna call always, and it's gonna be available for U and he'll try to make U happy and to know that U're more than an object and U deserve the best things.\nSee, I don't want to judge U, but have U thought that maybe U have done some things to make him think he can play with U??
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he knows how to treat me as woman and hot having a serious relationship with me
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First He must be have same value (Religion, point of view). \nSecond He must be single.\nThird He shower me with his love ^_^.\nFourth He can make me feel comfort with my self.\nFifth He has ability to make my life bright and colorful.\nSixth He has responsibility.\nOther than that, Hmmm I'll take it just the way he is ^_^
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wow he sounds like a real ass.  please find another guy to like, who will treat you nicely and how you should be treated (instead of being USED by the guy you "love")
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If he's already got a rep theirs gotta be a reason. He's a playa and intrested in only one thing and you know what that is. Hold off for someone who respects you. You'll thank me later.
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Of course you are worth being loved!! Just keep loving yourself and taking care of you. Don't settle until someone accepts and loves you completely for who you are!
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what do you want to enjoy with a guy?  Whayever it is I am sure you will find someone to oblige.
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If this guy was playing with you, why would you want to live like that.   You are a beautiful person, don't let someone bring you down and try to mess you up.  He's probably really screwed up and don't know how to treat people and "Misery Loves Company"\nLet him go and get on with your life.  You will find someone else in time who will treat you the way you should be treated.  God Bless