When a friend buy me something for valentine's day does that shows how much he cares?
84673
Not necessarily.  Most people buy valentine's day gifts becasue they feel obligated to.  You can tell how much he cares by how he treats you every other day.
834043
I know how you feel... Two of my biggest hits for low-cost heartfelt presents have been: 1. I wrote a "book", which doesn't have to be big, on how they make me feel, the things I love about them, it was like a journal directed at them and about them.  And suprisingly, he loved it... but I think this is for a more serious type of relationship with a mature guy who isn't afraid of feelings.\n2. I created a scrapbook, full of pictures from our time together.  Then I made notes occasionally about how happy I was at that moment, or how great a time we had.  I also included in ticket stubs from concerts or movies... and the little stuff that we keep for whatever reason.  It was a way that we could both look back and see where we came from.\nHope this helps some!
441420
Not neccessarily.  It means he wants to see you plain and simple.  He could care about you or he could just be trying to get something from you.
568699
you are what she likes the time with you and you caring is what makes the day no what you buy. Just get her something with care and that shows you thought about her.\n\nGood Luck and God Bless!!
821040
Honey, if he's your boyfriend be honest with him.  Get him one present and make it for both.  If he cares about you, he won't care he only gets one present...he has you doesn't he!!!
41250
Guys are not as materialistic as we girls are, and if you just make him feel like a man on Valentine's day (or any day) he will appreciate it.\n\nUnless he's the unappreciative type, in which case, why are you with him?
440921
Flowers are nice. Depends on how secure he is and if he actually likes flowers. I like the thought behind the gift much more than the gift. If someone remebered that I said I liked something once. Or paid attention to things I like and got some (like Zero brand candy bars) Stuff like that. But that's just me.
899071
it sounds like he cares give him a chance don't give up on him. Talk to him tell him how u feel and tell him that u care and will wait for him to get his stuff together just keep around him be his close friend it will work out give it time he needs ure help
910630
What ever you feel he like, but don't get into debt trying to buy it. If your doing it out the kindness of your heart then thats all fine and dandy, but always remember money cant' buy love Never. So its the thought that count at least you think that much of him. Take care and have a good Christmas!
906817
well, technically, yellow roses is a sign of friendship. But now a days, it may be cuz they like the color yellow. I would think that the person was trying to be nice to me. ( Or maybe they were the color that was on sale! LOL)
271475
She may be buying him things in the hopes that he will come back to her.  The fact that he's accepting them does pose a bit of a problem, unless they are/were good friends outside of their sexual relationship (you didn't say whether they were, only that they used to have sex) in which case purchasing gifts may not be so far out of line.\n\nLook at other areas - does he hide his friendship with her from you?  Does he keep you a secret from her?  If not, then their friendship is more likely on the up-and-up.
309142
First of all just hang out with her and listen to her then you will know the things she likes and what she wants. Don't buy anything if you feel like you are wasting your money! Buying things for her is nice but showing your true feelings is way better than spending money. Make her things. Write cool stuff to her.I think that if you are buying a girl gifts then you should have already been with her long enough to know if she likes your gift or not. If you don't know her that well don't spend your money!
840693
The fact that you said you "have" to buy him a present makes it sound more like an obligation than something out of the heart. How about just spending time together? That beats everything. But that's just me.
401540
Yes there is such a thing. Some people including women don't show there feelings. That doesn't mean that they aren't there, they just don't show them . You know if he cares by the way he treats you. If he is honest and you feel like you can trust him then that's a good sign. Also if he does little things for you without being told that means he thinks about you. That means he cares. If he blows you off or ignores you when you are around, then that probaly means he doesn't care. When people care about you they treat you with respect. Most guys just aren't in to telling you how they feel. If you still aren't sure, then just ask him. You will know by his response how he feels. Good Luck
761901
Well, Guys generally do not give their Friends birthday gifts. So I think the answer to your question in context would be because that is what woman do.
59416
If your boyfriend really loves U he will get U something.But if U half 2 tell him he does not really,really,really love U.
105067
You mean - Is it cheesy to BUY your boyfriend a Valentine's Day give when YOU'RE young?\n\nThe complete answer would depend on how young you are. Generally, it wouldn't be cheesy at all.  Just don't get too crazy about it, don't spend too much money.  Something small would be fine.