how do i get a guy to stop bugging me about sex?
92942
Tell him you fixing to join aconvent and become  nun.
350927
No, he's suffering from "inconsideration". He gets his and it's done for him. If you hadn't said "husband" i would have suggested you drop him like a bad habit. But since you're married, sit him down and in a non-accusatory tone tell him how it makes you feel. Tell him you'd like to enjoy sex too. Tell him Men are like ovens, they heat up quick. Women are like crock pots, the take some time to heat up. He needs to be attentive to your needs. He needs to give you a little foreplay. He needs to find out what you like and enjoy and then give it to you. Or you might want to consider not "giving it" to him until he gets a clue. Good luck.
852390
Get couples counseling. Perhaps if he heard it from someone else, he'd realize that his neanderthal view of sex is outdated and unfair, and you are miserable because of it.\n\nIf he won't get counseling and you said talking to him doesn't work, then you decide to stay and keep fulfilling your "obligation" or stand up for your rights and feelings, and don't have sex if you don't want it. Maybe if he had to go without for a while, he'd change his attitude a bit...\n\n...or maybe he'd stray or become violent...\n\n...or you can decide you've had enough, that it's not worth the conflict of standing up for yourself in the bedroom, and you can move on...\n\nYou are choosing to keep yourself in an unhappy situation...do what you can to fix it or get out...if you cannot fix it, then choose to resign yourself to your fate, or get out...\n\nThis life is too short (imo) to be unhappy in our jobs or personal lives...we choose to be happy or unhappy...we make our lives what we want them to be...\n\nWhat do you want yours to be? Make it so.
705030
Don't bring it up. If he is saying yes he wants to see you again then go for it. But just make sure that he wants to see you for the right reasons.Go slow, because when you move slow, you make him RESPECT you. Go to a movie or go to a coffee house, just make sure that he does not want you for sex. If he does, your feelings will be so hurt because you like him. If you had sex with him. then you will again, don;t bring it up,it will just happen naturally. (If he moans during sex, then you know you job is done! He's satisfied!) Use protection.
510541
Ignore him.\nSome men loves the "chase"
1156540
If he isn't satisfying you sexually then find someone who can. Trust me it will only get less and less. Try being around him nude more. Or maybe try something a bit more fun, http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/0962962813?v=glance\n\nIf you can't drum up his enthusiasim with seductions like the ones in 101 nights then maybe talk sex more often. Try keeping sex talk just talk, no pressure to preform. Talk about fantasies, ask him to tell you his fantasies that he thinks you might be offended by. Communication is the number one key to sexually satisfying relationship. If you can't discuss topics like preformance anxiety, jealousy, fantasy, or sexual expectations. then you will never have as healty a sex life as you can. Maybe suggest going to a strip club together
1164160
Nope.  Frankly, I'm the same way.  My gf let me know it bothers her, so, I'm trying to make adjustments.  But, if you keep asking him, it'll just take longer and make him more irritated, maybe to the point where he can't deal with it anymore.  I'd let him know it bothers you, and leave it.  If he's going to change, he'll do it on his own.
593563
He wants to see where you are at in terms of sex. If you are uncomfortable with it, let him know next time he brings it up.  If he doesnt call you anymore, or only calls you once in a blue, then he just wanted to get in your pants.
304865
Try every disgusting thing in the book in front of him, try any type of turn off.  Soon or later he will just get sick of it.  Otherwise try a restraining order, that usually works JK.  Other tactics try to find him a girl that is very much like him, and try to set him up.  That sometimes works.
1169698
Why are you so upset? He is not hiding it from you,\nso no dirty secrets. Ask him if you can watch with him.\nMaybe the male version of this. You both could have some\nlaughs and fun together.\nWhat do you mean by "Our sex life is regular".\nMaybe it should be less regular and a bit more "Off the wall"\n"Regular" is boooooring! Let him try some of the stuff he\nsees on his computer and maybe you could come up with \nsomething new or naughty too - could be more fun \nfor both of you and not soooooo regular. \nMake LOVE not WAR!!!!
471534
I know what you mean. You don't want to hurt his feelings but he's developed a bad habit. What you do is talk to him honestly about how it's really stressing you out and the smart people on Yahoo Answers said that it may cause you to distance yourself from intamacy (meaning that it will hurt/delay your sex life which is NOT what he wants).\n\nIf you're at that point in your relationship, just pick a day/time/date where he can touch your chest all he (and you) wants, but that he needs to be a gentlemen the rest of the time.\n\nIf he's a good guy, he'll understand. Then whenever he tried, you remind him of his promise. He'll forget quickly, but learn eventually.
582274
This is a real problem for a lot of girls.\n\nDespite what most men think about their abilities, most of them could use some serious pointers – especially because they tent to forget that every girl is a little different, and what drove their last girlfriend crazy might be uncomfortable for the next one.\n\nThere are a couple of things you can try:\n\nThe first one, and the best one, is to show him what you like.  You need to masturbate for him.  Tell him that he can’t touch, he can only watch.  Not only is it a HUGE turn on for him (to say nothing of you) but he gets to see exactly how you like to be touched.\n\nSecond – is batting practice.  A guy can never learn to use the equipment, unless he has the opportunity to spend some time getting to know it – which means that you have to be comfortable enough with him to let him spend some time exploring – (I guarantee he is ready to go) and be open minded – he may be able to discover something you never knew about.  \n\nThird – Faking it.  NEVER fake it.  When you fake it, what you are telling the guy, is that the thing he was doing was driving you WILD, and is JUST the thing you need to get off.  When in truth, it was probably something you wish he would not do again.  But what do you think he is going to do again next time?  That is right – the thing that drives you wild and gets you off.  That thing you hate, that you have taught him that you love.\n\nFourth – is communication – which is what all of these are about really – whether he is watching you masturbate or discovering your body he is constantly receiving messages – make sure they are the right ones.  But also – and more obviously – just tell him what you like.  I guarantee he will enjoy hearing about it – especially if you make a sexy flirty game of it.  Whisper in his ear when you two are out at dinner “you know, I am thinking about that thing you did to me last night and I am getting so wet” or “I wonder if you know how much I like it when a guy does ______ to me...” and watch the sparks fly.
911624
Your actions are what turned him off. You sound like the kind of girl that will have sex with any one and every one who is good looking or popular. That will get you a name around school that you don’t want and also don’t want your parents hearing about. When he said it’s too easy he meant you are to easy, free with your body. Easy girls turn off some guys, they want a challenge someone who has an ounce of respect for themselves. He may be a player but doesn’t want to play with you, you are no challenge just another notch on someone’s belt.  Sex with multiple partners is what causes STD’s of which there are many and the worse is AIDS. Sex with one partner is like having sex with everyone the partner has had sex with.↔
493710
it sounds like he also annoys the hell out of you! haha.... i've been there...he's in hardcore lust...if your not feeling him, tell him now, waiting makes it worse... but if you do like him and want to keep him, but want him to tone it down a bit...just sit him down and be real with him... thats really the best way to handle it...
574883
Turn him down as nice as you can if you are not interested.  If he becomes really upset you might consider offering him some sexual release to ease the pain as a goodbye gesture.
127303
You don't.\nThen again, why the hell would you care?\nDoes he do everything to not make you mad?\nJust make him mad.\nMake up sex rules.
361430
The best way to treat this guy is to act as if he had never happened. Treat him like he is one of the guys. When he or if he approaches you about sex again, let him know you are not interested(like the sex didn't mean anything to you).Make him feel as if he was just accessible in your time of need. That should either make him feel like sh*t or show you he didn't care in the first place.