what to talk about??!!?
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DONT TALK ABOUT SEX. Not yet anyway. Find out all you can about him. His hobbies, ask in detail about his job, his family, school, vacations he may have gone on. Talk about things that interest you and things you have done. Like if you like art, talk about your favorite artist. Make sure to read the paper or watch the news so you can throw some into in about whats going on in the world. (don't get into a convo about ex's u want to keep the focus on the 2 of u and also dont get into a convo about religion or anything else that could get the 2 of u heated up) Unfortunatley the more uncomfortable u feel the more anxiety is going to build up and the worse the situation is going to be. Try to relax (i know its easier said than done) When you know the 2 of u are going to be alone try to come up with a list of questions u want to ask him before you see him.\nGOOD LUCK. Hope this help u out a bit.
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what the hell are you talking about??
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just talk about things in general if it is cold, snowing , if it has rained for weeks , ask them about their children if they are adults about their fav toy if they are children why they like it If they have a tv in there ask what they like tunning up If there are flowers around ask if they are their favorites .... asking generates a flow and you will discover their interests which will make keeping a conversation easier some ppl like to talk about their illness someothers get just depressed it is better to begin with a general topic to break the ice..
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"So, how's work/school?  Anything new with/the bf, sibling, or ?  My bf/sibling did/said...Did you buy those new shoes /jeans, shirt, etc?  Have you seen/new video, movie, TV show, etc? I saw (so & so) and he/she said/did/wore....  Did you see/have you been to that new store at...?  I'm thinking about/ cutting my hair/dying it red/ rinsing in blue highlights/ etc.   I like (person) because they are so interesting...always have something nice to say"  Will this get you started?   I was SO very shy when I was young I had a hard time carrying on any conversation.  Now, it's hard to shut me up.  Best wishes!
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Do something outside. You can go play tennis or have a picnic. If ya'll are gonna have some trouble talking go do something like watching a movie.
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i just act casually, eventhough inside i am already giggling to death LOL...\n\ni usually keep the conversation short and simple...if you're both working, then how's work, the weather is good blah blah...if still studying, talk about something in your school, sportsfests, school activities blah blah...\n\nso many things to talk about which doesn't involve personal feelings and will not show that you're really that interested...LOL\n\ngood luck!
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let it come naturally, just discuss the obvious around you without making it much of a big deal. depending on the response u get which can lead to a conversation. but dont push it if the other is not interested in talkin with u.
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you should talk about something you like and you are good at (for example a hobby) or about an issue that really interests you. this way you won't run out of ideas and won't make embarrassing pauses.and try imagining the audience in underwear,it works :)good luck
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It depends on what you want to talk about!
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I dont know how old you are but i went through a phase of not having a lot to say i was happy to just listen.\n\nMy parents interpreted this as me being rude or a sulky teen. But i felt that where i didnt have anything particularily constructive to say or add to a discussion, there was no point.\n\nJust be yourself when you are comfortable enough and confident then talk if not, just enjoy life as you please.\n\nAt the end of the day it its your life. You are NOT boring you are a thoughtful individual with your own ideas.
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talk  to them on issues they relate to. its about bonding, find out what they usually talk about, joke about, say sports, etc. talk a little about it until they accept you...
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What r u talkin about
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talk, expouse your fellings
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Talk about the girl you're dating. You may not just ask questions directly, though. You have to turn every topic around so she becomes the topic. Girls love to talk about themselves.
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I have...sort of the same problem. Mine is kid of reversed because I talk too much. Of course the conversation only lasts 3 minutes because they get so annoyed of my constant chatter that they walk away. Figures, right? Anyway, talk about current events. The events you talk about depend on your age. If you're a teen, start with, "Omg, did you hear about the latest Brit/Kev breakup?" That should open up doors of celebrity scandals and gossip. Or if you are an older person, try "You know, the gas is....blah blah....economy....blah and so on". I don't really know much in the adult field so yeah.
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what the heck are you talkin about?
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You have to talk about something that everyone wants to talk about.\n\nSimple as that... But at the same time... Not easy!\n\nPlus you have to promote it so that people can find it.