How to you handle arrogant onboxoius people?
91336
If it bothers u that much get new friends!! Or u could beat them at their own game.
442421
Live better than them and ignore what they are saying.\n\nPeople who talk crap about other people ae almost always jealous of the person they are speaking ill of.
811850
Don't need to do anything about him.  Every once in a while everyone is going to get someone rude.  I just totally ignore it. It's just like junk mail as far as I'm concerned.
513822
There seems to be more than a fair share of very bored, simple-minded people here who love to rag on others...especially when they remain anonymous...doesn't take much courage to insult others when you think they cannot get a hold of you...Very childish, very dumb, very indicative of what kind of people they are. Ignore them and get on with your stuff. I get email occasionally from one jerk or another ragging on me ... they disagree with something I have said. I could care less..at least I have my email posted.
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Hi McKenna, \n\nHere are some come backs and tactics that will leave them standing with mouths hanging open. \n\nA good tactic is to throw a complete reversal, change the subject, insult them and leave them stunned and you win. \n\nI am assuming these are girls you are dealing with, but some will work either way. \n\nFollowing are switch tactics: \n\nWhen you get the yo mama thing, just ignore what they said, and look them over very carefully, and say:\n\n"That's a nice outfit, too bad they didn't have your size".\n\nIf the person doing the insulting is shorter than you, use this one:\n\n"Excuse me, are you standing in a hole"?\n\nIf the person is bigger, try this. \n\nJust stare at their feet, shake your head and say:\n\n"With feet that big . . . .Mike Tyson couldn't knock you down". or \n\n" Hey, I like your Goodwill Slides" (Referring to shoes).\n\nIf you ever feel threatened with physical contact, email me, and I will share with you some self defense moves that will make you undefeatable. You only have to use it one time, and then no one will mess with you ever again. \n\nIf I were there, I would offer my services in being your protector. \n\nGo get em tiger, and have a nice day, and enjoy your life. \n  \nDarryl S.
744743
Most people who act like that are using it defensively because they're jealous.  So don't feel bad.  They're ugly people, inside and most likely out.  Only go if you want to go to events/occassions.  Otherwise, don't waste your time and don't give them the pleasure of being able to make you feel like crap.  If they say something nasty to you just smile and nod and say "Thanks for letting me know...I had NO idea..."  and then walk away.  They want a reaction out of you and if you respond politely and sweetly they'll either stop or get really pissed off.  My mother always taught me "Kill 'em with kindness"...and it works almost every time!
389001
How bout I report the guy above me for insulting other participants?
719473
Ignore them. Just don't respond while you are having your personal time. I don't.
1130087
keep your chin up... they have nothing better to do and they are to envious probably and only talk of their own faults by pointing at someone else.. wherever u go there will always be bad apples.. i would not associate with those people.. no trust.. take care.. you are letting them get the best of you by your reaction.. if u show them what they say don't meen a dang  thing to ya.. they will eventually stop..
527354
you don't say anything to people like that. the best thing to do is ignore them and act like you did'nt even hear them. giving them a comment only let's them know they have got to you and encourages them to keep on.
55670
Punch them before they know what happens! Then tell them when they stand up that you thought they were someone else!
101447
1.don't be annoying cause people hate annoying people who follow them around  \n2. Give them personal time to talk and think\n3.smile and be confident!!
116115
just act friendly. I mean dont give in to their madness!!! Like just stand up for yourself and respect them as much as possible do not stoop to their level ya know. If they hate you let them hate. did u give them a good reason to hate you? If not its cool just dont mind the fact its not ur problem!!
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Rise above it definately, well you should try to anyway. yet in this day and age that is not that easy.\nPeople who chat about others have such a low self esteem about themselves that all they do is comment on other people.\nI have never seen a content person slagging some one else off so the person who has been talking about you must be feeling bad about themselves. If you look at it like that you can see that you have already won the argument!!
199054
... ive seen some brutally mean response... i reported them but they remained on screen...???.. listen, you got to expect that sort of thing in this kind of venue. that doesn't mean you have to tolerate it... but don't get upset either... their callousness is on them. your response is on you.
745398
Just laugh with them at urself... they would not expect that at all .. and they would definetly stop annoying you...\n\nJust laugh at urself with all ur heart.. :)
588734
Ignore them.  They usually get a rise out of any reaction froom their 'victim'.  No reaction and they'll get bored and move on the next one....