My ex has been cheating on me and I heard shes telling this guy Im hitting her,what do I do?
96482
If she is your EX, then she isn't cheating on you.  And if she is an EX, why would you care what she thinks?  Obviously, you are better off with this woman being your EX, leave it alone and move on, you are better off without all this mess!
600938
Be careful with that. If she is just lookin for another guy or something you don't want to get hurt. She first needs to gain all your trust back, I think before you should start dating her again, unless you want to get hurt.
979141
That's a tough question.  I would say that honesty is the best policy.  Hovever, you need to be certain that you are being honest with yourself first.  Are you sure that she is playing?  Has she done anything that would tell you she is just playing?\n\nIf you find that you just can't trust her, perhaps you could tell her that you are just not able to maintain a relationship at the level that she deserves.  Tell her you wish her the best, but it is time for you to move on.  Break ups almost always hurt.  You can't make the pain go away completely, but it's nice to try to cause the least amount of damage possible.
490684
Just leave it alone, they'll most likely find out what she's doing eventually, but it's not up to you to point it out if you're not saving anyone from a dangerous situation or anything -- you're just looking for vengeance when you need to move on.  Believe me, you'll be better off if you just let this go...you'll get over it faster.
474755
You should be thankful that you are no longer with this jerk and find someone that is better suited for you.  Your ex sounds like a mindless idiot to me.  I mean, sure I listen to my friends input on a person I am dating to some extent, but in the end I would never break up with someone because my friend said to do it.  You need someone that can stand up and say "This is my girl!" with pride and respect for you!  Don't settle!  We all deserve better than that.
1082287
You should have a discussion first with your friend.If she's doing this to you then she's not your friend but your enemy!\nAnd talk to your ex too.Tell him what you feel for him.Maybe he feels the same way.Talking to him is the only way to clear things out...
1156925
Look im gonna be straight w/ u .... If u cheated on her apologize and go leave her alone. If you beg 4 forgivness u just mite get it, BUT she will NEVER trust u again. She may not say it she may cry ask why and take u back, but wait a few months things will slowly change she mite bite ur head off 4 something small, she may start calling u 20xs every two hrs. Follow u... its endless, but the worst part will b all this time u r thinking things r getting better, she is blowing up w/ resentment over the "mistake" i figured u called it and one day you will wake up and see a different person and you wont understand where all this hate/ mean/ bitchy snaps r coming from, cause u forgot about it and moved on, believe me she never did she just had time to get over the shock the heartbreak, the broken trust, and now she hates you for what u did but don't exactly know how to handle the situation. One day things will b fine the next she will just look at you eating and want to smash your face in. I am so not kidding on this, IF IT WASN"T CHEATING....Go with the whole truth a sincere apology, let her know you love her and only her, ask HER how she feels, listen to every word and tell her, if you mean it, u will do everything you can to make things right 4 her. Do not lie and just take responsibility for what you did, b4 some jackas* rats u out. If u feel shes the kinda girl that would want something, get her something she likes so she knows you really know her,  you listen and of course remember what she says. Good Luck
417518
not a good situation, she is telling you he is cheating to leave him alone and then as soon as your back is turned she is all up on him ! Ohhhh But Noooo, She is the one you should concider getting rid of !
644343
I would ask for a stronger defination of your relationship.\n\nFlip the tables back on her. How would she feel if you were still in contact with your ex?\n\nHer answer dictates your next step.
469639
Hell yeah!!!  SOunds like she wanted you and your ex to split so she can make her move.  Kick her to the curb girl.
289669
Laugh at them. I mean, she couldn't handle being single and fell into a rebound relationship that is doomed for failure. It's painful, I know, but don't worry. You're over her, what she does shouldn't bother you. Let her find another guy, let her screw up that relationship, and push her from your mind. You'll find someone else soon enough.
788247
she wants you back cuz ;the other guy is not meeting her needs!!!  she is lonely thats why she is with him, she is hoping you will call so the two of you will reconcile.
954178
You need to break up. Its never going to be the way it was. There is no trust anymore, and she will always wonder in the back of her mind if your lying, if your cheating again, or if she can believe anything u tell her.  Its hard to trust a person who betrayed you when they were supposed to love u.  I dont think theres anything you can do to fix it except break up and move on.  And honestly .... how can u be mad, there are reactions for every reaction.  Did u really think she was going to be able to forgive u and forget... please.... no. Nobody every forgives and forgets for a cheater. They can forgive... but they can never forget!
256282
If you don't trust her things aren't going to get any better between the two of you.  My ex lied to me about something HUGE and when he was caught he apologized and I took him back but I NEVER trusted him again and it led to me breaking up with him again.  You deserve to be with someone that you can trust and that respects you.  The best thing that you can do is end this now and stop dragging it out.  The longer that you drag this out the harder that it is going to be on both of you.
308882
I went through this, but the guy cheated on me. I still have anger for him, which happened a little over 3 years ago, my current boyfriend though the same way your girlfriend is think about the anger. You need to tell your girlfriend that you have anger built up towards her because what she did was wrong and you can't forgive her for that. But one thing I do suggest is that when your around your girlfriend don't mention anything about your ex cheating on you, pretend you don't even know who she is now. It is hard but trust me it pays off in the long run. I know don't even think about my ex cheating on me, because I love my boyfriend now and I'm happy with him. Just talk to your girlfriend and tell her exactly how you feel about the whole situation.
39094
The question, is not how to, but why.  Think about it.  She's in a relationship, and she meets a charming new guy.  A guy who sweeps her off of her feet,a "grass-is-greener" kinda deal(ahem, that's you, ahem)and she leaves her man for you.  What do you think she's gonna do the SECOND you BORE/ANNOY/TICK HER OFF??!??  That's right.  She's gonna lay down and luxuriate in some REALLY GREEN grass.  Dude, really.  Girls that you can TAKE, you don't want.  Believe me.  Chalk this up to a lesson learned, and keep on lookin.  Ex-girl to the next girl, that's what i says.
746496
take note:she was ur ex girlfriend..so it doesn't really matter if she dates another guy.. if u decide to take her back remember that u don't trust her.. so why invest or taking her back? u will go on the same cycle when u were with her....probably ur just bothered coz she moved on already while u r not.. \nit's normal.. try to get urself busy.. go out with friends and please try to forget her.. it won't do good for you.. i know u can do it.. so good luck