i work in a small building with 4 other people (one male 3 females)?
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I'm not really sure what your question is, but I'll take a stab.  Based upon the limited information you provided, he could be just looking because you're a person and he notices you (like when I walk down the hall at my job and tend to look inside the offices whose lights are on and which are inhabited--it means nothing).  If your cubicle faces the door, does he have a choice about whether to look at you or not?  It would seem not.\nBy the way, if you can possibly avoid it, do not become involved with someone else's husband.  You are bound to create for yourself, his wife, and his children a word of pain which could take a lifetime to overcome--for all of you. Sorry to preach, but this is an important topic.  \n\nGood luck to you.
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You should worry.  You are now an accessory.  Your coworker has just pulled you down with him.  He is not your friend.
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Are you hotter than them? Maybe it's jealousy. Do you actually do a better job than them other than the few mistakes you made? Maybe they are intimidated. Its sounds like they are immature. I'm not sure why this job is so valuable to both of you but maybe you could consider transferring to another department? Maybe contact your human resources or equal opportunity section, if you have one, to see if they have any advice. If not then maybe mediation is the only option. Tell your boss and the other two that its not a healthy work environment and you think production in the office would improve drastically if something were to change...maybe more solo projects or moving cubicles to allow a little more privacy. It can be hard confronting superiors but what it sounds like is they are threatened that you might outshine them, my best advice is to keep doing your best, eventually you will get recognized and hopefully their bad attitudes will get recognized too (in a not so good sort of way)... GOOD LUCK!!
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running or working in a group home
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get friends at the workplace.  who works 16 hours a day?  that's tough!
906251
If your manager has not filed any complaints on you,then he shouldn't allow this "fellow" employee to harass you with it. Maybe they ought to check out this fellow employee first. I would file a complaint with the manager on the "fellow employee" for harassment. Especially it I know I am innocent.
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don't worry it takes about one month. the best thing to do is ask questions it you do not know what to do.as for fitting in just find one person that you are comfortable with and talk to them about what is going on and in no time you will be getting along just fine with everyone, number one rule stay away from work drama..ie gossip
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There is no I in team.  Teamwork is very important in the department.  Help someone out that is having a bad day, and maybe in time they will help you when you need the help
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We don't have nearly enough information to answer your question.  Ask your manager.  If you think the answer is unfair, we can research the law, but we need details of your job and your location.
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I used to do the same thing , until an older employee said to me " You know who's fault it is, YOURS." I replied "your right and  I'm going to do something about it now."went out and took care of the problems with the employees and never complained again. As for being in the office with the boss, you have alot pull, that other people don't, because you got his ear all the time, you can plant ideas, good rule of thumb, don't push ideas, just suggest them, like i heard that company A lets their people off on this holiday, etc. and see what happens. most of the time you just have to plant the seed, by saying something and you can watch it grow. another thing you can say is "it seems awful cramped in here, think we could add on , so i could have more space for files, etc..  Always look at the positive side of your situation.
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work relationships are complicated, they can distract you. if it all goes wrong theres always a pretty high chance you'll end up office gossip. plus alot of companies frown on it so if u do go there, keep it quiet.x
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I didn't realize you guys worked together.  Yes you can go in early or if you know what time she is off be there just a few minutes before she leaves
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I am at work, I am a office manager for neuroscience at a residential treatment center for boys aged 10-21.  My Boss is in another building and my supervisors office is on the other half of the building I am in.  Plus I currently have nothing to do.
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get a good system administrator so employees cannot alter time on system clock\n\nuntil then: stand at door when she comes in, look at watch when she sees you...
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In a big building with lots of puters
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Now let me get this straight....You have workers and employees...??
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four times today at work