How do i tell my mom that i'm going out with a guy but that he got locked up?
87704
Hi! If you want to do the good thing, tell your mother. Tell her all the FACTS, don't tell her that you believe him because you love him, that you think that he will change, or that kind of stuff. Just keep straight to the facts. If she asks you for your opinion, go for it, tell her what you think.\n\nIf you go to her in a fact/positive/non BLINDED way, she might respect your opinion, at last, you'll have more chance of getting your point of view of the situation. It will also be helpfull to tell your mother how you are dealing or going to deal with the situation. Also, share with her the letters. She'll see that you are honoring her, respecting her, and that you are looking for a wise answer for this situation. Good luck.
740825
I think that you should ask your mother if you can go on a chaporoned date. Have her come along and meet the guy. She might change her mind on your being able to date.
653094
Call your Dad. Your Mom should be protecting you, not that scumbag. Even if the stepfather doesn't go to jail, maybe your Dad gan get you out of there. No matter how many problems it might cause, remember that YOU didn't cause the problems, that awful so-called "man" caused them when he did what he did. Anything that comes of it is NOT your fault. Call your Dad, please. Get yourself out of there.
1154144
You know you and I are in the boat, but it's my mother who's in my way. I wish she could feel more secure, so I could have more freedom; especially the chance to go abroad. I think your father is the one who feels insecure, so he wants to be in your way. Maybe you can try to take him out with you when you're not going on a date. Hope my suggestion helps. Good luck and best wishes.
277728
I HOPE U TOLD BF#2 ABOUT  BF ON LOCKDOWN. IF HE IS A BIG BOY HE'LL UNDERSTAND THAT IT WAS JUST ONE OF THEM THANGS.AND I HOPE YOU DON'T THINK FOR ONE MINUTE THAT THE BOYFRIEND IN JAIL BELIEVES YOU WERE FAITHFUL WHILE HE WAS AWAY.
133472
Answer them truthfully like you aren't doing anything wrong... cause your not! And your mom just wants to be a part of your life and make sure your not with a dirt bag!  If your mom had a new boyfriend wouldn't you want to know about him?
598211
bring your boyfriend to your home one time, and have your mom talk with him, I'm sure that your mom would let you go out with him if she has met him and thinks he is a nice guy. (of course let your mom know you're doing this, or she'll be even more furious)
1019812
honestly. my family is the same way. its not so much that noone dates, its just that to my parents its taboo, and my sister well, shes an idiot. best advice i can give you. she doesnt need to know. believe me. ive been there, and ive done that. she might not get mad... but she might treat you like an idiot or something. there really is no reason she has to know. unless you are dating this boy... she doesnt need to know. even if you were dating him, dont tell her till its serious. but if you feel the need you MUST tell her. just drop it casually, dont make it a big deal, cuz then she will.ask her how her day was... then just say "oh hey, i like this boy", or "oh, guess what? turns out i have a boyfriend now." something casual. if she blows upp, and gets mad, then your gunna have to deal wiht it. because thats what girls do.. they date. and if your sister cant deal wiht that.. then she has some problems. best of luck. hope i helped.
512215
What's more important to u the friendship of the guy, or being able to feel guilty, since your mom has been though what she has, she should understand, how bad would it be if she found out, would u be in more trouble then not telling her. I don't mean to be mean to u but really that is just selfish, & your mom should respect u for telling her the truth. It's understandable what happened under the circumstanes. It depends on how open minded your mom is. good luck, i would talk to her, i'm sure u feel bad about your friend, also i would tell your princple, that boy will have that on his record. do the right thing.
795994
you should be honest with him because you would want to know if you were in his position,and if you tell him and he freaks out and don't want to date you anymore than it wasn't meant to be anyway. plus, he's probably going to find out soon or later and it's best if it's from you. good luck
309423
You don't, you just say you're going out with some girlfriends.\n\nOr if your parents are homophobes, just say "Mom, I'm going out with this girl.. Okay bye =) "
744804
u pretend like nothing happeneed u r just like him,if u and ur mom r close just sit her down and tell her, she'll b hurt but she will appreciate ur honesty
862407
Talk to your Mom about this, she will know what to do, but do it now you wont be in any trouble and have done nothing wrong, but this guy sounds kind of creepy and you need to make sure you are safe
697711
First determine if he is the kind of dude your mother would approve of. ( what do you think her impression of him would be).  If she'll like him, introduce him.  If she wouldn't like him for what ever reason.  Dont date him anymore.  She has experience and knows and understands things you dont.  The best advice you can ever get is from your parents, not your friends.  Find someone you know she will like and approve of.  Since you only been together a month, you should wait longer to introduce her anyway.  The relationship may not even work out, so you may introducing him for nothing.  Wait to see if it is going to be a long term relationship.  That usually takes many months to determine.  He'll be great the first few months then things may slowly change.
1017119
You can talk to your mom about how you feel about her partner.  Let her know you are worried for her safety as well as your own safety.  You can only let her know how you feel and try to point things out to her - you can't make her see the light or get rid of him.
765581
While it totally sucks........your parents have their reasons for not wanting you to date, yet.  You are, obviously, young..... I am guessing freshman.......maybe a sophmore in high school.\n\nApproach this with a mature perspective.  Go to your parents\nand tell them that you have met a boy that you really like.........\nDON'T call him your boyfriend!!!  Tell them that you would like\nto hang out with him, but you would like their permission.\nAsk to have him over to watch movies.  1) your parents will be there so they can "supervise" without worrying.  2) This shows\nthem that you are responsible and that you are growing up.\n\nYou dad may be a big guy, but he isnt going to hurt your boyfriend\ncuz then he would go to jail.\n\nIf they say no........dont throw a fit.......simply say "ok, I understand".  At least, that way you know you tried and this\nshows your maturity.  It may not help now, but it will help in the long run\n\nGood luck
138791
Call the jail and ask when you can visit, or how to write a letter to soandso. Often they won't tell you if someone is there but if you act like you already know, they'll give you other information.