How do I make a Christian guy like me?
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Wow.  You've got some personal conviction going on.  Why can't he tell that you are Christian??  A necklace isn't going to do it- a lot of hypocrats wear those things, too, not just people who love Jesus.  Deep down, this guy probably desires a woman who is beautiful because God made her, a woman who loves Jesus more than anything (and reflects that by showing love, patience, kindness, service, etc), and someone who is clean fun to be around.  You may perfectly fit that bill already.  There shouldn't be any questions as to which side of the faith fence you ride.  If you have some habits (we ALL do) that you aren't proud of, or you know would make Jesus sad, then make that a priority to change.  If this guy is the right one for you, then it is going to work.  If not, that just means that God has some other things that He needs you to do before getting you together with Mr. Forever.  You'll do fine.
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ok  LET GRANNY HERE TAKE A SHOT AT IT, THERE IS NO PERFECT MAN,&#92;&#92;&#92;\n\nGOD MADE JESUS PERFECT, DON'T WORRY I AM NOT BIBLE THUMPING.. \nALL MEN, AND YES US VISIONS OF LOVILENESS,, FEMALES HAVE DEFECTS ALSO.\n\nWHEN YOU FIND A PERFECT MAN, YOU MUST THINK HE IS AND HAS EVRYTHING YOU WANT AND NEED,,,RIGHT??  WELL AT THE BEGINNING,\nIT MAY START THAT WAY,  BUT AS TIME GOES, AND YEARS GO, YOU REALIZE MORE ABOUT YOURSELF AND YOUR OWN NEEDS,  AND IF THAT PERFECT MAN, DOES NOT KNOW, OR UNDERRSTAND, OR CARE TO KNOW,,  YOU WILL NOT THINK OF HIM AS PERFECT,,\n\n\nI WOULD SAY IDEAL, IS A FAIR WORD..  BECAUSE HE MAY MEET ALL THE THINGS THAT TURN YOU ON,, LOOKS, PERSONALITY,PASSSION SUCESS,\nATTENTIVE, ROMANTIC, KIND, FUN, ETC,  BUT THESE THINGS YOU  ARE STILL LEARNING ABOUT YOURSELF, AND HE TOOO WHERE EVER HE IS,\n\nIF YOU LOWER YOUR EXPECTATIONS, AND FOCUS ON ATTRACTION, AND THINGS IN COMMON, AND HOW HE FEELS ABOUT HIS MOTHER, AND HOW HE SPEAKS OF X-FEMALES OF HIS LIFE, IT MAY TELL YOU IMPORTND THINGS,  IF HE IS ALWAYS TREATING YOU WITH RESPECT, LIKE HE ADORES, YOU IN PUBLIC AND PRIVATE, THATS GREAT, IF YOU CAN DEPEND ON HIM,,  IF YOU ARE SIMILAR IN YOUR GOALS, THAT WOULD BE IDEAL,, BUT DONT FORGET GOD,,  THE NICEST, KINDEST, SMARTEST MEN I EVER MET, PUT GOD FIRST, AND YOU WILL BE SECOND,, BUT IT WILL BE THE BEST SECOND YOU COULD EVER HOPE FOR, AND BE SECURE IN THE FACT YOUR LIFE TOGETHE  IS "PERFECT" as perfect will allow\n\nGOOD LUCK,
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#1. Love God -------------------------check\n#2  Be intelligent ----------------------check\n#3  Be Capable!! ---------------------  ???\n#4. Be mature ------------------------   ???\n#5  Be creative ------------------------check\n#6  Know what Love is!! --------------check\n#7  Be Self/God Sufficient -----------  ???\n#8  Have a good sense of Humor!!--- ???\n#9  Be Financially independant (of Me!!)LoL???\n\nWell the list could go on and on but I'll stop here.\n\nIt seems that in Christ..One is always right where One needs to be. Is this not true?? \n\nHang in there!! God'll do something for you!!\nMaybe it's right under your nose right now??
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Start with what Jesus said was the Greatest Commandment and learn to love God with all your heart.\nNext work on the 2nd greatest, to love others as yourself.  If you do that, you will have friends, both Christian and pre-Christian.\nLast, work on the Great Commission (which comes after the Greatest Commandment).  If you do that, you will share Jesus with others.
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you cant actually make someone like you . most of the time girls try to make themselves someone there not dont do that. if you really want a guy to like be yourself. if this guy has sisters or something try to befriend them theyll sort of introduce you to him and then you might want to dress yourself up a little, dont overdo it, and be the sweet kind person you are.\nDont throw yourself at him either because then hell think your easy and he'll just want to get in your pants.
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Stop trying to look for a girl. If God's got a girl in mind for you, then you've just got to trust Him to bring her to you in His time. Instead, try becoming the kind of person you want for your future wife. Once you focus more on making yourself more like Christ, you won't worry so much about trying to find the girl you want because she will come to you.
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Sorry babe, but you cant "make" anyone like you. That's freedom of choice and no once controls it. Sorry. Just be yourself. If he's a good person he'll like you for who you are, not what you aren't... Good Luck.
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Getting a guy to notice or like you involves the use of basic social skills. You should be honest, direct, pleasant, and reasonable. If you really like a guy, but you haven't really talked to him - you're dying to, but you're too scared - here are some tips to help you say hello. \n\nSteps \nGet a new look. Don't change who you are, just try something different. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. \n\nBe yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it's true! No guy wants a girl to pretend she is something she's not. \n\nDon't cuss. It turns guys off most of the time. \n\nSmile. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. It'll say to everyone, "Wow, she's a nice person!" \n\nFlirt a little - not like crazy, but a little bit here and there. \n\nTry to be around him often, such as sitting near him. \nShow off a little when you're around your friends, but not a lot because then he might think you're just silly. \n\nTry to make lots of eye contact - and when you do, smile! (Guys often don't look at girls in the eyes, so looking into theirs when they're talking shows them that you are interested in them). \n\nGo up to him and talk to him. Try to get to know him a little by discussing things you have in common. \nTell him how you really feel about him once you get comfortable talking together. \n\nBe a brave person and stand up for who you are, and what you believe in. This will catch his attention, and his respect. \n\nTips \nDon't change yourself too much. \nA good way to start a conversation is to ask him a question - something about an interest you might have in common, or even what the time is. Make sure you hide your watch! \n\nSit close to him an touch him on his arm to show him you're interested. \n\nListen to him and don't interrupt him when he is talking. That makes them really annoyed and it's rude! \nAct confident but try not to seem stuck up. \n'Bad clothes' are those old pants you used for painting the fence and the sweatshirt with the pony on it. \n\nWarnings \nNo guy likes a person who is snobby. \n\nIf he tries to do anything you're not comfortable with, tell him that you are not ready for that stuff yet. If he's cool with that, great. If not, then he's not really the nice guy you thought he was. \n\nDon't wear bad clothes when you decide to be brave and walk up to your man. \n\nMake sure to brush your teeth! \nBe sure to have gum, breath mints, listerine strips, etc. around in case you need to freshen up quickly. \nDon't tell him lies. \n\nIf the guy is a jerk, but you find him attractive, don't let him take advantage of you. Find out more about him before you let things get too serious.
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well maybe you just have to be yourself . just remember this: What would Jesus do in a situation like this? try to also be more partient kind humble and never boastful .don't be easiliy angered by any events and remember that God is in control of everything Just remember this. WHAT IS IMPORTANT IS THAT YOU PLEASE GOD IN YOUR ACTIONS. YOU DON'T NEED TO CARE ABOUT WHAT OTHERS THINK ABOUT YOU. I am sure that God has a plan in your life and you don't need to really care if others are jealous of you because God will always be there for you. Just do what you think is right and be yourself and not what others want you to be. just remember that when you do what you think is right and when you be yourself this should be in accordance to God's plan. hope this helps! take care! God Bless!
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There is no actual way of "making someone like you" either as a friend or something else, if you are interested in someone, you should just really (and this will sound cliche but still) be yourself, just let him know how you are and if he is attracted to how you are it will work out, of course you could start by showing him the aspects of yourself you think he could like the best\n\nthe next thing you could to do is actually build a relationship, even if it is not a romantic one, share things, experiences, moments, so that you get to know more of each other and see how you "work together"\n\nand then the tricky part, tell him how you feel, not necessarily out loud because that might scare him, i mean, avoid "i love you" or "you are the hottest most amazing person i have ever met and i want us to marry and have kids" , you can start by telling him you like him very much and how there could be really "something" between you two and it would be amazing if you could try and see what happens\n\nof course, a little bit of sexiness could help too, just never go out of your way or attempt to be someone you are not, you can show a bra strap, wave your hair, wear a skirt and let him sneak a peek like you didnt want him to, and get angry if its obvious he did, use small accessories he could "borrow against your will", get close enough to him so he can recognize the smell of your hair, etc.
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I agree completely with Radio...\nYou have to pay more attention to what He is telling you.  Being a Christian doesn't automatically mean he will guide you.  You need to put all your faith and trust in him, and listen to what he's telling you.  Read the Bible and go to church.
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just be yourself. if you have to change yourself for a guy to like you, then he really doesn't like you. you shouldn't have to do ANYTHING different for ANYONE to like you. your you and if they cant except that then its there lost. don't change a thing!!!
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Good question!\n\nApostle Paul says in 2 Corinthians7:14-18, "Do not be yoked with nonbelievers." If God is speaking to you, telling you that this boy is not a Christian, then you should listen to Him, pray about it, and see what God leads you to do. In my opinion, if he was practicing witchcraft... then within 4 days-a month he probably did not accept Jesus Christ as his Lord and Savior. Yes, DO ask him these questions, to his face-- have a sit-down talk. Is he attending church? Does he profess that Christ is his Savior who died for all his sins? If so, then he is a Christian and you should help him grow by having a Christ-centered relationship with him. Christian dating is focused on marriage. And marriage, the Bible says, must be with a believer. If it turns out that he is not a Christian, and you still feel like you should stay together, then ask God to help you help your boyfriend seek Christ in his life. Take him to bible studies and retreats and church. Let God do the rest. If you feel like your boyfriend is not a Christian, and has no desire to truly discover Jesus and eventually accept Him into his heart, then I say you should break up with this boy. He will not be good for your own spiritual walk, and he might even pull you down to his level. Make sure he doesn't "falsely" accept Christ just to make you feel better. Christ is not a dating instrument-- He is our Savior and Lord who died on the cross for us.\n\nPraise God for this strength that you have for seeking His heart! I wish you the best of luck through this, and pray that you'll find the man of God who will lead you spiritually in love and encouragement-- that is also the man of your dreams!
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Just be friendly and a little encouraging.  But not too much.  Guys like a challenge and a mystery.
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Church can be a good place. Also find a guy whose shy, not like the populur guys at school.
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You really can't MAKE someone like you. \n\nChanging your appearance would make him like YOU, he would like how you look.
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There's really no way to make any guy like you more than he already does. However, if deep down he does or has the potential to like you once he gets to know you, then he'll be repsonsive to you simply being yourself. Just gotta relax and have fun no matter what the outcome. If he's a chill guy, then he'll like a girl with a good sense of humor and kind personality. If he's lame, then he'll like you for all the wrong reasons, like your looks, your social status and your body...