Ladies, If you care about your appearance around coworkers more than your lover what is that saying?
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Petals is right. People you work with today, especially if you are young are always trying to be and act better than the other, especially if there are lots of girls. That is all, it has nothing to do with cheating, which, I presume is why you are asking. Plus they are in the public (if its a public type job) and they don't want to look like they are gross and have no hygeine.
1162035
That's their way of "playing the game".  To have a different personality in the workplace to get ahead is a common practice.  It may be due to the fact that people are very guarded about their "true selves" and their private lives that the work environment and the relationships there aren't deemed worthy of the same level of trust.
494951
The saying goes, Hoes before Bros.\nHow important is your friendship?\nThere are more fish in the sea!
333031
Stop thinking everyone else actually cares what you look like. They don't. And I don't mean you only. They don't care what you, me, your mom, my friend or anybody else looks like. I feel beautiful because those that matter to me think I am beautiful. Outside of that, it just doesn't matter.
225681
No offense, but who said you're good looking?
1021258
i am losing my beautiful  gf right now because of my own rediculous behavior seeking out attention by flirting with other women because of my own insecurities and feeling tha i am not attractive . if you're in love with him/ her find a way of getting past this or maybe you need to just have a mutual friendship rather than a relationship.
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It might help if you picked up a grammar book. Appearance means an awful lot, and by the mis-spellings and poor grammar in your question, you're appearing illiterate and sloppy!\n\nPut some thought into your work, into how you appear to other people and especially to your boss.
800990
Depending on your relationship with the person, it was an insult, a compliment, or he/she was being arrogant.\n\nThis line has historically had 3 meanings:\n1) A friend says that to you, it's a compliment.  He is saying that you look especially good today.\n2) Someone who doesn't like you says that to you, it's an insult.  He's saying that you are vain, conceited, egotistical, you have an Eros complex, or he's making fun of the way you look.  (This quote has been used more recently by advertisers to get overweight people to join expensive gyms or pay for expensive diet plans.)\n3) Someone you know to be full of himself says this to you or in general, he is reaffirming that he thinks he looks good and is probably way too sure of himself.
670201
(Cold comfort version):  "This too shall pass."\n\n(Better):  You get off from work soon!\n\n(Best):  Hey sexy! Your silver-tongued charm will be     fully operational again tomorrow, so all of the a**** will be charmed off the donkeys again, and you can rejoice once more in being your own suave self!  :0)
1037648
It means just that, both women and men find you attractive, and i would be flattered if i were you! And i know what you mean by saying you like it more that more women find you attractive, because to me, that means so much more than a guy finding me attractive, only because it makes me feel better about myself, it makes me feel beautiful, considering i am a woman and other women find me attractive. If you are turned on by it, it might make you a lesbian. But you wont know until you experiment!
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Ronald Kornblow: You know, I think you're the most beautiful woman in the whole world. \nBeatrice Rheiner: [eagerly] Do you really? \nRonald Kornblow: No, but I don't mind lying if it'll get me somewheres.
970663
Take it for what it is meant to be: He cares about you. Stop trying to look for something negative in his compliments.
814758
"As an employer, do you find physically attractive person to be of advantage to the organisation ?"\n\nI think that's a very good question to put in ur questionnaires !\n:)
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Hun:\n If she says you're sexy then dumps you it means she wasn't interested in your mind, just your body. If she says you are sexy and you know it, she thinks you are full of yourself. If this is something that happens often, try paying close attention to the things you are saying. Sometimes women mistake self-confidence for egotism.
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yes, sadly.  looks are so important in our world that people only see the outer layer of our beings.  why should it matter if you are a little overweight? a little older? not too pretty?  these are the hidden prejudices.  and don't let anyone tell you they aren't there. \nolder employees are a valuable resource:\nolder women re-entering the work force aren't looking for husbands and trying to start families, so they would be more liable to stay in your employ longer.  \nolder employees aren't apt to be phoning in 'sick' [read hung-over /stoned from too much partying].\nmany men, and women, miss out on wonderful relationships because they are looking for that 'perfect' person.  and employers are the same. sad but true .\nif i were in h.r. i would be different from the norm and hire that gal that is a little frumpy or that fella with the 'not so perfect'  teeth as long as they fulfilled other qualifications.  i would suspect they would be far more loyal employees than the 'pretty ones' if only because i gave them a chance.  pretty people don't have to try as hard as they quite often can get by on their looks.\nhaving said all that there are exceptions to every rule!  my theory may not always prove to be right, but i'm thinking it is most of the time!
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sexy is not with you but in your partners' idea about you
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You can handle this situation in 3 steps.\n\n1...Know that every time she talks she gives you compliments in disguise. Jealousy is the root.\n\n2...Very important. Stop listening to what was said. If you make clear to every one at work your non-interest to hear any gossip, by so doing, from her part, why talking to deaf ears. You will make her non-existant.\n\n3... Show yourself the bigger person. Say to her with a smile good-morning/good-night. I guarantee you: she will be crushed.