If you some you loved hurt you before should you still stay with that person he says he loves you but its hard
81643
I hope your question is this:\n\nIf you love someone that has hurt you before, but you still love that person and he says he loves you would you still stay with that person?\n\nId would say YES... If and only your answer to my next question is a YES...\n\nIs he/she worth all the pain?\n\n-Post Master
344046
You were hurt, and you pushed him away. That can happen to anyone in your situation, but I agree that you should tell him how you feel. Don't drag it out. You should know where you stand and let him know where he stand with you. If it doesn't work out, you will have closer and the ability to love someone else. That may not necessarily be what you want to hear, but YES sweetie you can love again.
917236
even though we say that he is no good for us..we still continue to miss and love that person..and that is the right way to heal..admit that you do or did love that person..next just reassure yourself that you WILL be fine..if you need to cry.. cry..let it out...I wish I could tell you move on..but the truth is that the sh*t hurts like hell..you heart is hurting..part of you feel like you cant go on...\nit took me 2 years to get over a guy that i feel in love with..I remember those sleepless nights..all to well..I loved that guy soo much and it hurt me to know that he could sleep with me and act like he wanted me ..but thats all he wanted was to sleep with me...and to be honest from time to time I still think about him....but today i am glad that we are not together...he is who he is and he likes what he likes...I have moved on but honestly if I see him today..i know that apart of me will melt..sometimes in life we have that one guy that just does this sh*t to us....treat us like sh*t..uses us only for sex..cheats.. lie..and all in all we still fall in love with them and they make us weak in the knees....he is one that we surrender to..\ngive it time...just accept all the emotions you are going through.\npray...good luck
6604
Unfortunately love can be painful as well as joyous.  Remember that just because we care or love someone else does not necessarily mean that person feels the same way toward us.  Its a tough situation when you love someone who cannot return the feelings.  But, its better to find that out now rather then later.  Best of luck to you.
36998
He may cry but if it's the right thing for you to stay here then your just going to have to tell him.  Make sure he knows that it isn't that you don't love him it's just the right thing to do.  \n\nIt's going to hurt no matter what but life isn't about avoiding hurts it about facing them and getting through them.
1036293
I would say that he at least cares about you a great deal. It sounds like he loves you if he is willing to work it out. I know it is hard to look at him when he is hurting but things will get better! \nGood Luck
1152658
i don't know what to tell you...this is a touchy situation...i understand the situation you are in because i have experienced similiar things....it's hard when you love someone and they act like that...you know deep down in your heart that sometimes it's best to go on with your life without this person and never look back....but it's so much easier to say then do.. you have to just take one day at a time and look at things and ask yourself...Is this what I want to go through for the rest of my life?  Weigh your options...look at the advantages of your relationship with him compared to the disadvantages of it...this is something nobody can tell you what to do...you have to not only follow your heart on this one but you have to consider what your mind says too...
556185
Im sure you have been hurt once or twice in your live and as you know it takes time to get over that feeling.Just give him time but dont give up on him,shower him with attention,kindness,and love but dont smother him.Give him sometime to heal and breath but let him know in as many ways as you can that you are there for him and that you will love him,must of all is time heals all wounds.
280348
I don't think you have true love there or his love. If he loved you then he would speak up or for you. Time to move on and find some one else that will.
333526
if you fought so much, ask yourself, do you truly love him? is he right for you? if the answer is yes, you should probably follow your heart and try to win him back, but if the answer is no, the just forget him, and move on, since each experiences in life only make you a stronger person
474402
well every1 will say move on....you need better, but i have been there and its so hard to do.  Tell him how you feel.  and i know this is hard to do but....if you have any ANY dbts about him....leave because in the end he is sure to hurt you.
229949
It depends upon how deep the pain and how much you care about the person who your causing the pain.  If by being with the one you love you know that you could never truly be happy because of the other persons pain then you have to give them up.  If on the other hand you can accept their pain and know that over time they will get over it or that it won't affect your ability to be happy and love then don't give it up.
362206
Remember this: it's his loss. if he can just leave you like that then he is so not worth it! It's a really hard thing to hear, especially from someone you don't know, but trust me, I've been through it my self. You need to move on.
1121997
You should move on.\n\nYou cannot force someone to love you.
9234
gurl i think you love him and if you do then forgive and forget and yea its gonna be hard but then again if you dont think you can do it then move on to find someone better because if he would have loved you then he wouldnt have cheated on you, so he is not to much of a boyfriend
591539
I wouldn't do anything right now.  You've told him how you feel.  You have to give him some time.  I'm sure he still loves you too.  You both need to be sure that you are in love not that you just love each other and are used to being together.  I wish you the best!
113431
The only way you will know rather or not he still like is by you asking how does he feel about you? If he said that he still like or love you is a good thing. Maybe you guys need time apart to really see if things can work out by taking one step at a time. If he say that he doesn't care for you anymore, then you should move on.  It's not fair to you, to keep putting your heart out there and he's being happy with someone new. Love hurts but you have to keep it moving for your sake. I know how it is to be in love by yourself.