how can i help others who have lost loved ones recentlyas people have helped me online?
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That is so awful.  They say you always lose people in 3's.  Anyway, it is important for me to tell you this...Before we all came to this place we had a plan already written.  In that plan we have 5 ways we can chose to leave this earth to go to the other side.  You sister was needed by God at that time.  She left to help God.  You great-grandson was never meant to come to earth yet, so God took him back until it was the right time.  Our world just wasn't ready for the great being he will now be in another life.  Your daughter had to go to the other side because it was in your life plan to take care of your granddaughter.  I know this all sounds really freaky but believe me... you are doing a great job holding it together.  You shouldn't be worried about helping other people especially on Yahoo!Answers, because your family is going through thier own grieving process and they need you.  You are their rock.  This is your plan.
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Find a way to help someone in need.
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Lord bless this grieving person Lord fill her with your spirit to see them through what it is they are facing's them to fill your presence Lord around them and bless them with a peace in their heart knowing that you are their for them what ever their needs are fill them Lord with your love and compassion.And allow them to know that he will never know more to ever suffer again.The Lord will see you through this just call own Him and He will come to you.Talk to Him like you would anyone else...God bless you for I have been were you are at and with out Jesus I could not of made it..What ever you need Jesus will fill you with.Ask Jesus for strenght.And Love your Father and do all you can to make Him comfortable.Spend every minute you can with Him...Talk to Him ask Him things....And above all make sure He is saved and ready to meet our Lord....God bless you And you and your Father is in my prayers...May the Lord shine His light own you and guide you through this...
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First of all, I am very sorry for the loss of your friend. I know it feels like the whole world just got up and walked out of your life, doesn't it? It hasn't, just a part of it has, one that meant a great deal to you. Do you have anyone at this time that you can talk with on a regular basis? If not, then get one. It will help you grieve for your loss and be able to accept it and move on. A support group is absolutely your best option for now. Not only are you hurting inside but there are others there that are hurting just like you, as well. There are others at group therapy that know what your're going through and know of ways to offer support and help for you too.\nPlease go and seek out a support group in your area. You don't know how therapeutic talk therapy can be until you have gone to one of these meetings. It's free, and not only will you shed tears but others will be right there with you to help you and they too will shed tears. I am sure your friend would want you to move on and take care of yourself. You are also having I'm sure what is called situational depression and might need the help of a pyschiatrist right now. Call your doctor if you feel like your suicidal or if you feel like your gonna hurt yourself in anyway then call 911 and get help please. I wanna hear back from you to know your okay and gonna be alright. Think of all the good memories you had with this special person. I believe in the spirit world and I think those that have left before us are still with us just in a different way.\nTake care of you, and the best of luck to you my friend.
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It is not easy, and I am sorry to hear about your loss. You know all the reasons you must go on though. Try to develop new friends, and maybe a new interest, like playing the guitar or something.
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I'm very sorry for your losses. Allow yourself to grieve, even if you have to be strong for everyone else. Find someone you can talk about it with, even if they only listen. Find a friend to talk to that has lost someone and can understand how you are feeling. You could also find an online chat for people dealing with a loss. I hope things get better.
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Just offer you condolences and be there to talk if she needs to. Everyone deals with grief differently. \n\nyou can try flowers or a card.
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Im sure there lots people in your area would help you out. Im so sorry for you loss.
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Time.  That's what you need.  It always seems to hurt a little less.  Don't pretend the person is not gone, but.... don't dwell on it either.  Make sure to stay in contact with those that you love for support.  Those that care for you will come through NOW- more than ever.
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I hope you know your friend well.  Some of us appreciate a friend who is there without being asked.  Some of us prefer to be left alone.\n\nDon't give me that pap about his being in a better place or that he is an angel now.  That doesn't help.  (Been there...)\n\nIt would be nice if three months down the road someone called just to talk.  Don't ask how am I doing...just talk.  Ask if I want to go out for a bite to eat.  Don't bring up the loss unless I start talking about it.  Don't tell me, "You'll feel better if you talk about it."  You don't have a clue.\n\nNo one can know how a mother feels when she loses a child, so don't act like a TV educated psychologist.  Just be there.
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People die when it is their time to go - there is a mixture of good and bad - in all of us - some of us show more good than bad, but others seem to be completely bad and they hide their good aspects.\n\nI am guessing that you lost a loved one recently - my condolences to you if you have.\n\nThat good person left a very good person behind - YOU - and you are not alone.\n\nJust remember all the good things that happened between you and keep those wonderful thoughts alive in your heart and soul - and that good person will never completely die as long as he/she lives in you.
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im sorry to hear that i just lost my dad in november from cancer i have soom websites but ill have to get them from my stepmom it is a diffucult thing and they dont want any help in times like this but thats what us friends and family are for god bless and good luck ill get those tommorow for u
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Im sorry for your loss.  Be there for them by listening to what they have to say, crying with them and remembering memories and good times that you have had.  You of course are going to lose it at some point and do not try not to.  That's really all you can do at this point.  Pray wtih them also.  You will get thru this.
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I feel bad for you.  I'm so sorry that you have lost someone in your life that sounds like a soul mate.  I hope you will always be friends with this person even if you are not "in love with each other or anything like that."  I would not accept loosing this person in my life if I was you.  Not with computers and pen and paper and phones.  I would talk to my Mom about it and I would contact him and tell him how you feel, that he is important to you and that you would like to remain friends even 3000 miles apart.  Good friends are worth the effort.
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its hard im going thought the same thing right now but its my best friend who commited sucide you just have to think about the good time you had dont think about the death you can talk to someone you can even talk to me if you want to i can try to help as much as i can but you cant keep it bottled up iside you it makes it worse so if you want to email or something my email is   lisa6948146@yahoo.com   also i have yahoo messinger too if u wanna add me
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I am sorry to hear about your loss. This situation is probably the hardest to handle of all situations. You do need help. It may sound crazy but you are not crazy, this loss is making you crazy, but only temporarily. You may never stop hurting but in time the hurt can be managed so you can have a happy productive life ahead. \n\nYou must get help. Talk to someone that has training to help people in grief as you are. A Pastor, a therapist, a family member or all the above. Cry and resist any temptation to end your own life. Give it time. You may not feel close to normal for a long time, but it comes back.\n\nReally, get to a professional and you will get the help you seek.
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My deepest condolences for your terrible loss.\n\nYou have my heartfelt sympathy at this time.\n\nI regret that I am unable to attend the funeral services.\n\nPlease know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.\n\nPlease let me know if I may be of assistance in the future to you.\n\nWarmest and Kindest Regards.....