If a guy claims not to be gay too often do you think he is actually gay?
83567
I find it strange that he has to defend himself so much. Personally, I've known a lot of gay people. Some were open about and some were not. The ones that were not usally had their reasons for not wanting people to know. If he is gay, (and it soinds to me like he is) He has his reason for not being honest about. And truethfully, It's really nobodys buisness if he is, except his.I hope I helped some with your question. You helped me A LOT with the one I had. Thanks again.
812286
If you are really his friend you can mention that you are open minded enough to not care if someone is gay or straight without putting your friend on the spot by asking him if he is gay. If he is in fact gay (and you don't know if he is or isn't) he will tell you when he is comfortable enough to tell you. Just let him know that he can tell you anything and you will stay friends with him because of the person he is, not because of who he likes.
84266
He tells you he is guy or gay.. whatever he meant... what are you supposed to say? \n\n"I'm gay"... "well good for you!"\n\nIf he just says he's gay... ask him if he has a question about it, or ask him why he's telling you out of nowhere.
114221
As a gay person I can honestly say that I don't know. It just is the way I feel naturaly. Like being streight is natural for you. We don't ask to be this way and life would be much easier for us if we had a choice but we don't it is just our nature
380433
I would probably agree with gay, he may be confused with his own sexuality. The only other explanation is he could be shy or a virgin and not really know what he is doing. The best thing to do is ask him. It seems strange.
912010
I don't think so... I don't mean to burst the bubble or anything but I'm pretty sure he's gay.
842191
Many people will say mannerism and body movement and other stereotypical stuff like that. From experience, I've learned that it depends on how, (say, a guy) acts. It doesn't matter if he has a wife or a girlfriend, if the guy say, constantly talks about penis's, fallic symbols, or complains or makes jokes about who might be gay, if basically gay sh*t is usually on his mind in conversations, he might be gay or bi or curious. Why else would the stuff always be on his mind. That is his TRUE action. Especially of the same type of guy physically goofs around with other guys who tend to be attractive. It may seem harmless, but picture him doing the exact same physical behavior with a chick, and somehow it will look like he's flirting. The fact that they are guys he does that to is no difference. \n\nThese are my suspicions if someone is gay.
472708
That could be the reason he isn't coming out, because he is afraid or cautious about what people might say or do. I personally don't flaunt the fact that I'm gay, because it isn't so widely accepted in some areas. Just be supportive of his decision, and he will come out if he wants to.
868625
You say that you are not physically attracted to him so I would leave it alone. If you mess around with him and he wants something more, is that when you tell him you aren't attracted to him? Since he says he is gay, he most likely is and since you live together things could get really awkward.
415429
That's the way gays naturally act if they are effeminate. Not all gays are that way. Many are people you would not suspect. They don't do it to draw attention. They do it because that's the way they are.
213108
Fantasies are just that, fantasies. Many people have them. It does not mean that you are gay.
935538
a closet straight?  he told you he is bi but more gay than straight.  what's the problem?  you want every person in the world to know he is bisexual in the hopes that no one will sleep with him except you...you sound very immature and jealous/obsessive.
847411
I've always thought the people who put down gays the most probably are gay themselves.  I find it highly ironic and will more so if all the allegations prove to be true.
1032469
If you're thinking of men when she uses it on you, then that's a good indication that you may be gay.  If you are thinking of her (or some other woman) while she is using it on you, then that is a good indication that you are not gay.  Even if it was your idea.
852227
No, he's gay  be himself.
362828
^  He's one of those GAYs   ^^\n|                          \n|
932800
What he considers himself is his business.  But that doesn't change the fact.  I guess he can be delusional about himself if he wants to, but to what end?\nIf a man has sex with a man, he IS a homosexual.