I saw my neighbor fall down a flight of stairs, it was the funniest thing, I feel bad, what should I do?
89571
I can almost picture you trying to leave your house and peeking out the window before you set foot outside to make sure he is not around.  That's also kind of funny!\n\nSo it occurred to me, what if you embarrassed yourself in front of this guy and that way maybe you would be even.\n\nSomething simple would be, go visit him (with the excuse that you want to check on how he is doing) and when you start laughing if you laugh so hard that you start to pee your pants (or skirt whatever the case may be), just let it happen!  You'll be so embarrassed that the next time you see him you won't want to laugh (or maybe both of you will laugh at each other like crazies).\n\nYou don't see yourself doing that?  Well then just face him and after you are done laughing apologize, you may also be embarrassed about laughing and maybe after that you will be able to leave your house and talk to this again like a normal person would.  I hope this helps!\n\ncali_rich_and_smooth@yahoo.com
820529
Call the police and report your neighbor!
766525
I have been like this for a while now ,someone told me the worst thing you can do is worry about it so I don't.Keep writing things down and being organised and enjoy your life and have a laugh at yourself when you do something silly.There's worse things could be wrong with you.
706027
Just hang in there.  It sounds like you tried to do the right thing by trying to help someone out and got taken advantage of.  It's okay to feel bad about that and pissed too.  Someone else's awful behavior shouldn't make you feel like you shouldn't exist.  I know that doesn't really help sometimes.  All I can say is that a lot of us have been in similar situations and you just have to ride this out, write it out or do something to get it out of your head.
828755
First of all, stop beating yourself up.  It was a mistake.  People make mistakes all the time.  You are not a dummie.  And I certainly don't think it's worth killing yourself over.\n\nNow that you have realized this was not the right advice, you need to tell him asap!!  "Look, I made a mistake.  The network cables and electrical wires can not be put together in the same pipe."  He will be happy you let him know sooner as opposed to later.  It's always easier to fix early on rather than letting them realize after the fact that there is a problem.  And stop fretting about it.  I'm sure they make mistakes themselves all the time.
1104114
I was at home one night and 2 policemen knocked on my door.  They came in and said "did you know there was a report of a fire in this street today" ?   I said "not a clue, i was at work until 3 then i picked the kids up fom school and we went out".\nThey went on to tell me that my next door neighbour had received a call (her phone was in the front of the house in the lounge), telling her that her kitchen was on fire.  She's  a lady of about 90 and was obviously very scared.\nThey then went onto tell me that she had accused me and that they would be running checks on my home and mobile phones to see who i had phoned that day !!!!\nI was so upset and scared. My husband was at work and i was in the house with my 3 children who were also upset.  This accusation made me really ill and i ended up in hospital with pneumonia a week or so later. (When i am stressed i always get a chest infection but this one turned into something worse).\nAnyway, it turns out they decided not to take things any further with the accusation...but can you imagine that happening ??????
569201
yes, worry about it - better safe than sorry. keep your eyes open, if you live with a room mate/boyfriend/family, tell them what happened. if i were you i would be keeping a baseball bat handy at home. if you have some mace, start carrying that in your purse.\n\nif someone follows you like that again, DO NOT GO HOME. keep driving, try to shake him off. try to read his license plate as you're driving and memorize it. if you can't lose him, drive to the nearest police department or police barracks. if he follows you into the parking lot, go inside and have a chat with the police.
954157
Take a Deep Breath! Relax...Remember "Everything happens for a reason" Don't let your problems get the best of you...God NEVER gives you an obstacle you cant jump over...Hang on!
349499
Fix the leak on the roof before the roof falls. Half of the roof fell.\n\nTake care of gingivitis before you lose your teeth.  I lost many of my teeth.\n\nSay "I love you" to someone you love before that person dies. I never said that to my father.\n\nDon't burn your bridges behind you.  Someday you might have to go back.\n\nTake care of yourself first, then you will be able to take care of others.  I neglected my health while taking care of others.\n\nMost important, love yourself.  If you don't love yourself, you'll never be able to love others.\n\nDon't sacrifice your life for others.  You might one day resent them.  And then feel guilty for resenting them.  It's a horrible feeling.\n\nIf you like or love someone, tell him/her.  What's the worst that could happen?  Nothing can be as bad as wondering what might have been for the rest of your life.
163610
i think u should tell the person or if ur afraid send him a leter or note with sumone and tell them how u fell and c how they react
222292
go kick someone else and run it will make you feel better....jk
106392
i feel bad for you it reall cant be that bad. i think if you are going to go anywhere you should go to a doctor and talk to him about your problems. i hope you get the help you need.
263230
I recommend just kind of laughing it off and telling him, "Hey, sorry about that. I should have knocked. But I want you to know that it's OK to do that, and it's perfectly natural. You just might want to lock the door." Then change the subject and move on.
41273
Try to talk her into going to the hospital, particularly if she shows signs of sleepiness since the fall, (could be from a concusion).\n\nTell her you can't relax unless she takes care of this some way or another ...\n\nYou can permit yourself only enough guilt to help you remember not to repeat the error which caused the incident, any more guilt than that will make you twisted - for real!
1016435
Oh my GOD!!! That has to be the saddest story that I have ever read on here. You poor poor fella. This is for you *A great big hug* If it helps I have some nice boobs. I hope the best for you, and you have to remember that Tomorrow WILL BE BETTER!!! It has to be. You should think about dumping that skank of a ho girlfriend You deserve a lot better and you know that you do, and you should think about going to the doctor and if you need a little help there is no shame in it, I too have been cheated on and it is the worse and most horrible feeling, I had to go on Zoloft, but the good thing is that it helps and once you can come out of the fog of depression you can see more clearly. You deserve better! Get you a plan of action and figure out what you need to do, Evalute every aspect of your life... is it time for a lifestyle change... change of job, if at all possible kick her out because adding a move on top of everything is going to be more stressful, and what a B*tch to laugh at you after what you went through, find a safer jogging route... and did you ever think that maybe that guy punched you because she is banging him? I kinda wondered that when I read, because that is just too strange that a guy would punch you for NO reason, and then she laughed on top of it... Go out with some friends or family, if you don't have any... make some, you need to surround yourself with loving and caring people. Best of luck to you, and I hope that your nose isn't broken a nice guy like you doesn't deserve that. *Another big hug and maybe a  little kiss on the cheek*
90588
why would you need to feel any responsibility for an accident that happened to you. it was an accident and you fell down, hurt yourself, and others saw and reacted. Don't feel bad or worried about some kind of backlash is coming down on you. I think you will get a lot of positive support from everyone including the people who fainted and cried.
957817
stay at school. if you leave today, it'll just make it harder to come back tomorrow. if anyone comes up to you and says something, then make a joke about you falling...take it easy....more embarassing things will happen to you....trust me. i was a teenager once...just a few years ago.