my boyfriend has lots of friends and there moslty girls what do i do ? do i tell him he flirts and i like him?
87769
I would hope that if he's your boyfriend that he already knows that you like him. \n\nTo answer your question regarding how your boyfriend chooses and interacts with his friends, I have a few thoughts that I'd love to share. \n\nThere is nothing wrong with your boyfriend having friends of the opposite sex, however, he needs to be guarded with how he interacts with you, and if he's serious about you, he needs to make sure that you're ok with his actions.\n\nThis next comment may be a little bit extreme, but it's good food for thought. One way to gauge one's actions is to consider everyone else as someone else's husband or wife. So a question he needs to ask himself could be 'Would I act this way with a married woman'. \n\nThe part that is most difficult with this is that you can't change how he acts. You should definately talk to him about it, and if it bothers you, then he needs to know that it does. If he's serious about his relationship with you, then his actions should change if he knows it bothers you.
584641
Both of you together join som esocial clubs hwere u have ur friends also.Enjoy time with him there .Support him.Indirectly let him know that u would be too happy if he interacts more and more with people.Go on outings with paired friends
877252
Just be patient for now. Don't say anything right now because you'll just come off as the psycho clingy girlfriend. It's entirely possible that he is just a flirty guy and everything they've seen is harmless. Tell them to keep their eyes open. If he actually does do something with another girl (or even if you just hear a rumor, etc) then you have a right to ask him about it. Thus far he hasn't done anything to deserve your distrust, has he?
872465
I would find some else because this person is not loyal to his own girlfriend,and he sounds like what we call "a two timer" which means he likes to see more than one girl, and if you do see him, a big chance he'll do the same behind your back, so don't fool yourself and get hurt later on....so find someone else who is himself not someone who wants to flirt and show off in front of other people to get your attention....thats being childish on his behalf....seek a guy who likes who you are as an person not what you are....the relationship will go a long way.....
419336
Just make sure that no matter what the circumstance, and no matter how many other guys might be after you, that he is the only one for you. An example; tell him you want to go out to place you like, somewhere there will be plenty of other guys. Make sure that you are looking your best when you go out so all the other guys will notice, your boyfriend will to, kind of making him a lil' jealous if it works right.  But make sure that all the other guys know that your boyfriend will be the one taking you home at the end of the night. You'll make him feel like the man and even more confident than he ever has.  And odds are he'll find a way to return the favor.
1062693
my dear you must let him know you exist first. be sure that he knows that. then show your interest in him just a little flirt not something flashy. laugh at his jokes, show interest in the things you are sure he likes, talk to him and listen everybody likes people that listen. dress sexy but make sure you don't look slutty. sorry for that but guys like girls that are sexy by nature, not fake.
1157130
Chances are high that he likes you too. What you can do: \n\n1) If he flirts back and he knows you'r single, chances are even better than he likes you.\n\n2) Get him in a group with some of your other girlfriends. Girls are pretty good at telling whether or not a guy likes another girl. Get the ladys' advice. \n\n3) Keep hanging out with him and see what happens. The last thing you want is to think that you like him when you actually just miss him as a really good friend. Figure stuff out for yourself before figuring out what to do with him. \n\n4) You can always ask his friends. Chances are his guy friends will tell him that you asked about him though. So watch out. \n\nGood luck!
906063
you have been together long enough to know what hes like and what he is capable of. dancing is just dancing. he cared about your feelings thats y he didnt go and he told you, that was his way of saying, i love you and i wont go for you if you know what i mean, even if he made you feel bad im sure he loves you. you have to stop being jealous, also its healthy for him to hang around his friends and you should go out dancing with the girls as well. see how he reacts to that. in the end, only you know what he is like. so is he trustworthy or not?
959111
i would bet that he likes you. one way a guy flirts with a girl is by paying her extra attention. also doing anything to get close to you and talk to you. he is doin all of these things. you have to flirt back with him big time now. smile, giggle, play with your hair, gently touch him when talking, those kind of things. even let it be known to your friends you like him. hopefully word gets round to him and he asks you out. goodluck!
413656
He likes you and is afraid of being hazed by his friends if he were to show his true colors around you.  If you start to have a steady relationship with him just keep it low key untill everyone's maturity level advances a little and eventually he will feel at ease being with you around his friends.  The best  way to do this whole political dance is to befriend his friends and start doing things as a group together; but keep your focus on him every time the group of you goes out to the mall or a movie or somewhere else.
971093
don't tell him...get a friend too. just tell you friend to be like...." i know someone who likes you! " and when they ask who...they will be like..." (your name)"  that way...things can get rolling and in no time, you will have a new bf.  guys are pussies, and once they know a chick likes them, they will start to like yuo back and realize your awsome...which you are..cus everygirl is...\n\nsavvey?
804719
trust his friends. he is prob just the kind of guy who takes a while to get comfortable in any relationship w/ ppl, but wen he does I'm sure it will all be worth it!\nyou just hav to act however u naturally would because that is what obviously attracted him to you in the first place.
233229
Ask him if he's seeing anyone else. If you love him and trust him you will probably believe him. If you don't trust him, even if he's telling the truth it won't matter.\n\nIt could just be that your boyfriend is a shameless flirt! I know I'm dating one. He has more female friends than I do but it doesn't bother me when he hangs out with them or talks to them on the phone because I trust him.
545128
I'm the type of girl that gets mad for everything.My man no better then to tell we that "He is going to go out with a girl other then me" YOU CRAZY! let me tell you something man are real crazy well they think that they are.he telling you that they are just friends did you ever hear that song AND YOU SAY HE JUST A FRIEND PLEASE! he want to get to no these girls that he is going out with and if you don't stop it now then he will find something he like in them and leave your @SS. so put a stop to that and fast. ask him why you and him can't go out ?or when he do go out with them can you go too?.girl if you want to keep your man you better get on his @ss don't even let him try to cheat on you.AND THAT IS REAL.
1144192
Maybe you should stay friends. Boyfriends come and go. Friendship is (or can be) forever. He sounds like a wonderful friend.
1055090
He sounds like a great boyfriend.  Make sure he wants be more than friends. The only guys that I know are that nice to girls are gay.
198750
Is this a question?  He probably likes you but could like other girls as well.  If you like him, try to talk to him.  Then worry about what he does with other girls.