how do you know when a boy is secritly seeing a girl behind you back and says he is not?
83453
catch him in the act.  otherwise, you're just a NAG
749409
Maybe he does not want to hurt your feelings.  Do you still have feelings for him and does he know that?  If so, then he is just looking out for you.  \nThe other option could be that he thinks that he still has a chance with you and therefore does not want to tell you that he currently has a girlfriend, in case that relationship does not work out and he can come back to you??!!!
877252
Just be patient for now. Don't say anything right now because you'll just come off as the psycho clingy girlfriend. It's entirely possible that he is just a flirty guy and everything they've seen is harmless. Tell them to keep their eyes open. If he actually does do something with another girl (or even if you just hear a rumor, etc) then you have a right to ask him about it. Thus far he hasn't done anything to deserve your distrust, has he?
701820
let him catch you in the process of looking/turning away from him. avoid that eye contact by just a split second. he'll get the idea then search for that eye contact soon enough.\n\nif he's under 14 though he may not understand what's going on. such is the mind of a middle-schooler.
1070625
Wow... how young are you???\n\nWhat you described (except for the part about him having a girlfriend) is a typical scenario.\n\nBoy likes girl, and shyly flirts.\n\nGirl too shy to flirt back but secretly likes him.\n\nBoy feels hurt becuz she dont flirt back and ignores her.\n\nGirl feels hurt that she likes him but he ignores, so she ignores him too.\n\nBoy think she is a stuckup bitc.h,  moves on.\n\nEnd of attraction.\n\nYou have to FLIRT BACK to get his attention or he will just be hurt and  forget about you.
264224
I think you can see it in a person's eyes. You can also tell by their actions. As others have said actions speak louder then words. \n\nI know when I that I love my girl and that I am always trying to do things for her. She hasn't opened a door since we've been together. I get her little things just to surprise her. I assume your to young, but I even leave her a little note on her car about once or twice a month. \n\nI doubt there is really any ONE way to figure out if this boy loves you or not. But why worry about it? Enjoy the experience your getting. I am sure there will be more then just this one guy in your life. Life's a ride, so enjoy it... Ride on!!
808959
Try to look at the way he looks at the girls. Guys look at girls they think are hot differently. It's subtle but you can see it. Also, keep an eye out and see what he looks at when he's talking to the girls. From there on you should be able to tell.
138833
girl , wake up and smell the truth! he is hiding something from you , that is for sure! he either has another girlfriend or he has a secret life ;) but i think the girlfriend thing is more probable
572430
Honey, he's yours and unless he is gay he's going to look and that's okay because as I said he's yours. The thing is, maybe he thought he knew her. Maybe he wasn't even looking at her but passed her. Maybe you should ask him :)
685905
If the other girl is not his girlfriend, just hang out with him and see what happens.  If you hit it off, the other girl won't matter to him.  Don't waste your time worrying about her, just hang with him and go with the flow.
1100480
no.... coming from a guy, if a guy is looking @ you, you catch him and he does not look away, he likes you. I mean he wouldn't be looking in the first place if he was'nt intrested right? It just means he is uh..... Not afraid ob being caught.
983308
I think he likes you!!! Go talk to him. Tell him that you have noticed that he has been looking at you and you just wanted to know what was up! Let him know that you have no problem with him looking at you.
1134289
one way you can tell a boy like you is by the way he acts and he always there calls you flirts and act jealous about anything you do tease and get rough that really one way you can tell a boy like you ...
300789
he pays more attention to you than to other girls
179664
Ask him out.  He'll either tell you that he's seeing this other girl, or he'll say that you're not his type but would still like to be your friend.  I hate being simplistic for such a difficult subject, but as the woman, you have the easier end of whatever young relationship you encounter.  If you say you like a guy, the guy is more than likely apt to jump out of his skull in amazement.
86275
ouch. sorry but it sound slike you have been lied to and played. that boy is having his cake and eating it too. he is screwing both of you over and probably making up different stories to tell both of you. you should find a way to call her and ask her. but i would definitely confront him, but he will probably tell you more lies. it sure sounds like he is with both of you, why else would he have made something up to tell her instead of just telling her it was over? and why does he spend time with her and go places with her and call her??? that is just crap!
993412
You'll never know until you go talk to her. Girls love guys with confidence..oh yeah, dont forget to be suave too. (lol)\nBut if it turns out, all this time, it was a "why-is-he-looking-at-me-stare". at least you know..\nSo, stop guessing!!