How do you get sex if your 40 yrs. old?
94093
a prostitute and a 50 dollar bill
1071087
Adams Morgan...i dont know about 40, thats old but mid twenties yes.   OR you can e-mail me and we can get together.  21 man and 30 woman...both in our sexual primes.  shektor9@yahoo.com
1145897
go out and have alot of sex
737760
I'm in the same boat as you... just use this time to re-center yourself.  Go out and just sit and have a beer by yourself.  Just sit and think.  A similar soul might approach you and share in your misery for a while.  Eventually, it will pass.  If you want a shortcut (which I'm not recommending); playing on a girl in a weak situation will make you feel powerful if a little guilty.  I am NOT advocating date rape of ANY SORT!  However, alot of guys are too nice for their own good and don't realize that a 24 year old woman is completely in control of her situation.  Smooth talking and being a player does not necessarily mean you are taking advantage of someone.  Girls like sex just as much as guys, and almost every girl worth her salt has some douchebag at home that they are on the rocks with.  In other words, go hook up with someone hot, by any means necessary short of physical force or breaking up a marriage.  It will boost your confidence in the short run, but don't forget the "re-centering your self" part.  It's the only way you will find true happiness.
897415
Sex=Make love @ 25 after I was married.
419561
I'm only a few years older than you but I would never have sex on the first date.  You need time to know each other and see if the relationship has possibilities before jumping into bed.  Even at 50, you can get a reputation as a sl*t.  How do you know that this guy would keep his mouth shut?  You don't know something like that until you know the person.  Definitely not what I would do but to each their own.
593977
Go sit in a bar and talk to a group of 50 year old guys.\n\nThey'll give you all the answers you need
895474
Stress is the #1 cause of this...  The best way to help is to exercise and maintain a healthy diet, and make sure you are getting plenty of sleep.  They say you should force yourself to have sex as much as possible, since the more you have it the more you want it...you somewhat have to retrain your brain!
955284
you are married and you cant even figure out how to initiate sex???  oy!
212725
Im pretty certain that there are women in their 40's looking for a male companion for love if you check out some of the dating sites on the internet, you will probably have a bigger field finding a lady on a dating site than what you may find here... good luck...\nthis isnt a love match site is it?
1042153
well, im not 60 yet. but, i'd rather have someone with a personality, lately i'm not too enterested in sex. havent had any in about a year.
1068825
Why do you sound so surprised that you are attracted to women in this age group? I dont think it tapers off, it may just become a little less intense. Remember when you were a "young man" and sex was like fireworks all the time, what does it feel like now that you're 44? It's the same for women
1100069
I think a lot of it would have to do with the total situation of your life as it is now.  First of all, are you male or female?  If your male, your sex drive could have simply decreased.  Also, in the case of both genders, in your thirties you aren't nearly as carefree as you are in your teens, & you are under a lot of stress.  Such stress may hamper your enjoyment of sex, if you're allowing it to preoccupy your mind as you're going through the motions.  Are you married?  Do you have kids?  If so, life has probably become routine, whereas there's nothing routine about getting laid when you're a teenager.  Even if you aren't married, life in general can throw a lot of stress at you in your thirties, with house payments, car payments, piles of bills, situations at work, & more.  More than likely, if you have a steady girlfriend or a wife, you two need to get together & plan a weekend for just you, where you won't be bothered, & you can enjoy one another without worrying about life in general.  Go somewhere where only select people, like your parents, will be able to reach you in an emergency.  Take a break, get rid of some stress, & have sex simply for the joy of pleasing each other again.  Hope that helps.  You might try the link below for more ideas.
1139530
lots of sex !!!\nput your hips into it...\nit's the best exercise after all !
419490
I'm 43 and i found that i lasted longer because i'm more in tune with my body. It helps to be with the right partner someone you have feelings for. I can't just have proper sex with people i don't really know anymore. What i found that effected my performance where: alcohol, smoking, guilt, worries, nervousness and depresion. I had to clear the reckage of my past and get in touch with myself. The calmer and peaseful my life is, the better my sex life is. I hope this helps you and good luck.
930369
As someone who was very sexually active at a young age.....PLEASE, PLEASE wait. Your time will come. Please be a kid for a while longer. Sex will come, I'm not saying wait until your married or anything like that. Just wait a couple more years. I wish I were more articulate and could get my thoughts out on this better, just please wait....
157889
Aside from a BJ... hmm... or do you mean even before that? :)\n\nI'd say the age-old way is simply being flirty and take it as far as you're both willing.