what if a frnd of yrs goes on your personal appearance while fighting and later tells u that he was joking?
89685
I would tell him that he hurt me whether he was joking or not and if he apologizes, accept it. People say a lot of things they don't mean when they're mad. If he is truly your friend, he'll apologize, if he doesn't then I'd say, "Ya know what? When you decide to apologize, I'll listen, until then, I would rather not be around you."
315804
probb cuz you look like a nice genorus person that likes to joke around and have fun
799645
try explaining to him that it was a joke + the im might have gotten messed up or he could have missunderstood it.
563067
Well, unless your friend thinks having you laugh at him is really funny......have him say, "Get lost, you stupid loser. I prefer friends who respect me instead of making fun of me." You'll be laughing...he'll be walking away.
1148174
Be professional and mature and remember to think as the higher person because the person who is making fun of you is obviously extremely low and you don't need to stoop to their level.  Just tell them you do not appriciate what they are doing and walk away from it.  It really makes you look like much of a stronger person.
1143913
What your dealing with is a "Rite of Passage", don't do anything against those who are participating unless they start talking about cutting themselves to be equal.  (Only a trained Plastic Surgeon should do such)  In such cases, the bonding established will last long after the original taunting is forgotten, so if you want your friends to not carry the scar and develop werid internal responses, remind the taunted of things they excell in so they do not internalize the pain of being made fun of.
712625
No offense but hes probably playing you out or for a boote call.
959697
My dear.........there is no doubt, that there are times on YA that you're going to run into something like what you ran into. The best thing to do the minute you feel uncomfortable, is to log off. Of course, if you feel threatened, report it. You have no way of knowing if this person is merely playing sadistic jokes.....or is a serious wack job. Be careful..............LATER
423615
You would have to know what's causing that person to be mean.
696698
He flipped you off and then told you "whatever" with the W.  Guys are immature, and guys I know do it all the time, they are just joking, but sometimes it can be hurtful.
463720
First of all, I would confirm if it was an accident or if they did it on purpose and if it was an accident just ignore the embarrassment and go on and if the friend that embarrassed me did it on purpose I would get reveeeenge.
930700
If you were excessively drunk your speech was probably slurred and your whole persona would have been altered. I'm sure he would have been able to tell that you were not yourself. But be careful, he might think you drink Too much.
930106
Really it all depends on your relationship with the other man.  If he is a man you don't know very well (like a co-worker you don't know very well socially), I would keep those kind of comments to yourself.  If it's a man that you would consider a good friend, or even family, saying things like "how did you manage to get her bob" isn't bad as long as it's said in a joking manner.\n\nAs long as you don't make him feel threatened, you're in the clear.
405647
he's joking with you.
752974
He want's you to be what you were before you argued, but he's not sure how to do that. I don't know who was wrong becasue you didn't write anything here, but I suspect he may think that you owe him a sincere apology.\n\nJust a theory. If you were wrong somehow, it's a bigger person to be able to say you are sorry.
535386
as long as you don't make any noise. We all do that once in a while but knowing we all do that and actually being there and acknowledge someone did that in public are 2 completey difference experiences. I'm someone standing next to you farts, AND makes noise, how would you react? I know whoever did that didn't mean it and that person must be very embarrassing but I also think it's only natural that people would look at the one who did it with "unfriendly" eyes
735896
I love love LOVE how after I answer a question, it says, "You're on a roll, here's some  more!" and it goes from dental to.... er...Men's Health.\n\nHey, I'll bet you're roommate wouldn't think his prank is so hilarious if you were to suddenly have some kind of crazy shoulder spasm resulting in him getting an elbow jammed into the family jewels....\n\nI'd give one warning, "Stop, please...or else" and the next time...WHAP!   That has nothing to do with being gay right there....