What do men think of successful single mothers? Do they only date us for sex?
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god, dont complain, you are desperate, he is desparate, have some sex,it wont kill you off....then when you are both done and lie back, ask him if he would like to keep doing it for life, while you look after your children....\n\nthat is a good offer......\n\nor you could ask, no sex now, half now half later, can you be a father to my kids, do the dishes and change their nappies, and spend your money for them while i work hard to please my boss at work who like my shaven legs.....\n\ncheers, \n\nthe choice is yours....
338539
a true gentleman will still be a true gentleman then. \n\nJust single moms who work the same job and do as well or better then men want the same pay, that is all!!! It is the single moms that are raising most of the kids. If the men are true gentlemen they would do what is right. I do realize some do, but many do not!!!\n\nMen have the upper hand some now. I see that changing soon.
888492
We like a hard working man.  We like someone who we think is going to be a great father.  We (if sincere) like to have a little extra money, but if since don't ask for too much.  We like a man that KEEPS HIMSELF CLEAN!  We like to be able to be around to take care of the kids.  We like a man who is open and honest but not anything hatred or hurtful.  We like patience and kindness,  We like softness and gentleness.  We like patients and understanding.  We like being pampered in general.  It takes love to give love.  The more she feels like you love her and doing for her, the more love you will get in return!!!!  Get the hint?!
474459
I'm 18 and have a 12month old son and single to. Even though he's with his mom most of the week. i know what your are talking about. i think you just haven't meet the right guy yet.
228340
No, but I don't think its easier either.  It's hard for everyone to find someone who's physically attractive, mentally stable, compatible perosonality wise, and for the mothers accepting of your children.  But that's why you date, and hopefully have fun, before you meet that special person!!
546999
Sounds like he was not held enough or breast-fed enough as an infant. Missing mother love. Well, you can make an issue of it, but I doubt that he will change. He was like that before he met you. You have to decide how bad it bugs you. If it is too much, then guess you have to find another boyfriend who is a bit more considerate. \n\nAll men look at women. They seem to be judging whether or not the woman is attractive, worthy of more of their attention. Hormones, mating urge, I don't know. Men look. We are visual creatures. Women look too. Maybe they are more discreet. \n\nAgain, your decision on how much it bothers you.
567513
I'm in my late 20's and have to consider this question while dating women often and this is what I come up with.  I have no problem dating a single mother as long as a few rules are adhered to. Don't let him meet your child until the relationship is at least a couple months old, because you don't want your child to have to meet a new guy every couple of weeks.  Know what you want out of the man, a relationship, or just a fling or what not. Lastly, and this is a tip and my personal opinion, but most men that would treat your child with respect and love will want another child........my personal pet peave with single mothers is that they don't want any more children.  Any man that would be a proper adult figure for your child will dream of one that comes from him too.  That's not to say that he will treat your child different, but dreams are dreams and any man who want's to be a father, will also want a child that both of you concieved.
956638
There are single parents groups out there. Look some up and see how it goes.
1011248
I've "dated" a few younger guys, mostly for the sex.  So there are other MILFs out there I'm sure.   Your approach may be off and normally these things just sort of "happen" you don't go looking for it.  Or you don't wake up and say "I'm 35, I think I'll find me a nice young 20 year old to *uck".
82366
I don't see why they would. Some guys still have issues about being the breadwinner but a modern woman with her own home wouldn't want one of them anyway. I think that to most guys it will be a positive. It's a sign of stability and maturity. To the rest is will be a non-issue for a while at least.
1040940
I am recently a single mother, with two kids... I want to find single men too.  I went to bars and did the whole one night stand here and there, but nothing seems right.  I want to find a quality man, quality MEN to date.  But they aren't at bars, or single spots... perhaps match or date.com but that seems like a lot of work to me... \n\nI have always gone with the idea that when we stop looking for someone then that someone comes to us... not sure if you have ever felt this same way... \n\nI know that is hard right now when wanting to meet someone... but it may be true.  not sure.. \n\nI would suggest, just.. and what did they say in that movie "Something New"? Let go.. let love flow or something like that...??? I would suggest open your heart and your mind up to finding someone, or meeting new guys and they will see that you are open to that, and then come to you.... \n\nWhereever you are!! bar, library, grocery store... etc...etc...
898624
Yes, I do. I cook, clean, and take care of my son. I am from the south, so alot of women out there are like that. I have been told that I am old fashioned. I like to do it for my man, makes me feel good to make him happy. He does need to help out every now and then though. There is nothing wrong with the way you treat your man, and you do deserve a break every now and then.
621091
Maybe the sex was the only thing she wanted in the first place, or maybe the sex was the only thing that she really enjoyed from the relationship - and no - I am not trying to put you down - it may be that the chemistry was just not right for her and you.\n\nIf you want more than just sex, you should go find it.\n\nI admire you for being with a single mother - not many men would involve themselves in such a situation.
1123008
Everyone is different, however there are certain qualities that men seem to agree on. I can give you the long answer, where most of the information would come from social scientiests like Helen Fisher ( Anatomy of Love), or philosophers like Robert Solomon ( About Love) and Steven Pinker (How the mind works and Blank Slate). This info will speak of some of the innate behaviour and conditioning of men that seems to be written in the genes. There are different qualities perfered by different personality type. Thing of course to be realized is that as men progress through life their personalites change and so does their priorities. So the best fit for the long run would be a woman that changes independently as well as cumulatively with her male partner. However, there needs to be a basic foundation supported by both the partners, upon which the heights of relationship are built. Qualities such as understanding each others priorties (and remember they keep shifting), support;emotional as well as social, passion, a feeling of connectedness in terms of intimacy, and view on family and religion/spirituality should have some common grounds as well. \nThe short answer to the question is most men (knowingly or unknowingly) want someone like their Mother. So if you really want to know what your man wants, get to know his mother and be aware of his relationship dynamics with his mother.
764242
An average looker, I would rather have kids around the house, then have someone who isn't really into a relationship. \n\nI don't like to wait, and I like a guy that I can hit it off with. \n\nxoxo\nMaddi
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Im starting a web site for men, who's ex's stop them seeing the kids, yet still want hand outs. Its called dole bum hand out mums, want kids, (not a bloke), a string of casual sex, and a paid for house, and expenses while slutting around, meal ticket mums ill call it?\nwhat do You think?
219865
When it is meant to happen it will. I never thought I would find anyone. When I stopped looking and decided that I didn't need a man to be happy. That is when I met him. I was a single mom of 3 in my late 20's when it happened. GOOD LUCK!!