Should I stop wanting to go with a boy because he has a baby already before he even gets out of school?
96006
YES! All his problems would be yours. Think on this: Since he has a baby......... he would pay child support and that means any future of a car, house, etc would be down the tubes so I would consider moving on with someone else my dear. Someone who will not have strings attached with a child and he isn't even out of high school. Think of YOUR future and not your hormones okay? Take care and good luck. Move on while you still can. peace~
192331
Sure if you want to get pg have kids loose your boyfriend(cause he will walk out on you when he hears you are pg) no young boy wants a baby. You will loose your freedom your parents will be pissed and you will be branded town whore for quite sometime. Then to top all that off no boy will ever want anything for real with you so forget about a bf who really love you all he will want is sex so go ahead do it if you dare.Assuming you are female if you are male you need your pecker cut off for thinking such a thing.
512007
That question depends on your future w/ your current baby's daddy.  If the relationship looks like you guys will be married then you don't want to jeopardize that because of your child.  If you can keep your friend and remain faithful no matter how hard times are, then I see no problem w/ you guys being friends as long as the benefits are only talking
189509
fly anyway and go home if that's what you truely want.  trust me, i know- it's not alright to be alone while having a baby. be with family or real friends.  otherwise fly someone you know out to you.
449160
I'm not like miss conservative, but I don't see the harm in waiting a little bit longer to see where you two are in another month.. but it really is a personal decision.. and since you are asking here, I am guessing yuo aren't ready and he is?  Be careful, only do what YOU are willing to do without pressure from anyone.  That's very important for your self-respect.  ok?  Best of luck to you!
662708
I dont automatically walk away.  I want to have a family of my own, but I dont mind 'jump starting' one.  I know I am not alone when I say this though, the hard thing for you will be the way you handle your child with me.  Single moms that introduce me to the child on the 1st date will not get a call back from me.  I dont need to be 'just another dude my mom is with' in the child's eyes.  However, if we wait till things work out with us, then it fine to introduce the child.  Be honest about your children through dont try to surprise a guy with it 6 months into the relationship.  Single moms are great too because they dont get to go out as much and are usually much more appreciative of the romantic dinner out.  Good luck...and hang in there...the right guy is out there for you I can feel it :)
702524
If You Really Like the Boy and He treats you like a Queen..Otherwise you are better off being a Self Supporting Strong Independent Lady Who can Take care of Things for Herself!(You Actualy Need to Be That Boyfriend Or Not!)
220927
I'm thinking you are a bit tired of hanging around in his room.  Decide first what you would rather do, then invite him.  If he choses to not go, please don't let that stop you from having some fun.  Your happiness is up to you, not him.  No more waiting!!
1137560
experience over a rookie works for me all the time!but once i had a babyboy(we were both teens)and it was kinda cute and i liked it.but i'm grown up now and i don't want a boy......i need to be manhandled!
454192
The time is right when you feel ready to have another child!  If you feel like you can deal with another one now, then go for it, if you don't think you can, then wait!
231334
The last thing you want to do is pu him in a situation where he is uncomfortable to have a child.  don't push him.  It will come in time.
932067
No, if you truly were doing it for the sake of your baby you would stay in school and set a good example for the baby.  You can't get a job without a diploma or GED, most places won't hire you without that.  McDonalds won't even hire you, that is the reality of dropping out.  If you boyfriend is going to get a job most likely he won't be able to support you and a baby while paying for all the bills, living on your own is really hard.  It's not some fairy tale.  How do you know your boyfriend will even stay with you?  If he decides to leave you one day you will have no way to support that baby, it's always good to rely on yourself not someone else.  You're 14, no offense but you don't know anything about the real world, it's hard you make it sound like it's a fairy tale.  It isn't.  You aren't dropping out for the sake of your baby, if you cared about your baby you would set a good example for him/her by staying in school and proving that you can do it even with carrying a baby.
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Dustin or maybe even Deven\n\nThe only advice I can give you is to try to stay happy!!! and don't be afraid to ask for help.  It is going to be hard but you will get through it!!  Don't think of your baby as a mistake,  he should be a blessing , things have a way of working themselves out.  You might be young but just think... at least you have the energy to keep up with a kid.
758684
It's "pre-school" for goodness sakes!!  You've said that she is nice and sweet and you even like her ... you should be happy that he's with some one who is like that, to be around your son!!  It could be so much worse!  Your son is not going to be in her class after this, so just get through it for now and move on!  Think about your son, and how happy he is that his dad has some one and that makes the whole situation better for everyone!
133103
How does he feel? That is perhaps the most important question here. Since you are pregnant, your baby coming from a broken home is going to be determined by your relationship with this boy. If he is agreeable to it, why not make a commitment to raise your child together by getting married? Normally 18 is a bit young to be getting married because people change a lot from 18 to their mid-twenties and since for most of us that is the age that we get our first taste of freedom, this could spell disaster when we realize that our husband/wife has a right to be involved in our life to a great extent. This can feel like a lack of freedom. Also, having a baby can make people feel trapped, especially males. It will be hard but if you two are in love and he's a good guy, know that statistically you would be doing the best thing for your baby if you were married. \nTry to give to your partner instead of only giving as much as your partner does. Tell him about that resolve. Giving can be very contagous but so can being hurtful. A loving word can stop anger dead in its tracks in a marriage. It takes two to fight but only takes one to defuse a bomb. Try to make your first instinct to defuse the situation. Take care of all 3 of you, and I hope our e-opinions help you.
579956
I do not buy that.  Having kids is an amazing adventure, and you should not miss out on it.  However, do not do it unless you have the time and money to devote to them, and the confidence that you will both be together to raise them.
444556
Babygirl listen, you don't have to go there even though you already have. Girls these days always want to please these HORNY, NAPPY headed boys. FOR WHAT!!! Focus on school sweetheart. When he see's you going places and using your mind to better yourself, that's a powerful thing. \n\nIf you don't want to end up like your sister and pregnant at a young age, then quit getting your freak on. WHERE ARE YOUR PARENTS? They should be your inspiration to better yourself. Make school your top priority and excel at it as much as possible and any other hobby you like to do. When the time comes for relationships and boy's you'll know. If your into praying, pray about the situation. I've seen to many of my friend's who had babies at a young age and missed out on being teenagers. That life was not for me. I enjoyed being a teenager. PLEASE LEARN FROM THAT. You don' t let a boy disrespect you in anyway or pressure you to do jack squat you hear me!!! \n\nIf he gives you the old everybody's doing it, or all my boy's are laughing at me because I ain't getting none, or better yet if you loved me you would do it, who the hell cares? What matter's is how you feel and if that is what you want and are ready to do. Most teenage girls are not ready for that. It's the hormones sweetie. There outta control, but it's ok. Not saying you can't date and kiss boy's but the whole taking it to the next level might not be what you are prepared for (Dirty diapers and 3am feedings). Not football games and prom...\n\nBecause if you give it up and he drops you, you'll regret it, and he might not give a d*** about you. He might just be thinking with the wrong head. Just being real with you. I'm a bit older than you, and trust me when I say W-A-I-T, you'll thank yourself for it later, take care of yourself, LOVE LIVE LIFE...........................