Iam getting closed to my first kiss anything i need to know ?
85521
Sometimes less is more. Don't overdo the tongue or stuff. Keep it simple and just be into it.
290624
there's nothing wrong with never having been on a date or never having been kissed at the age of 13. i'm 17 now and i still haven't been on a real date or gone out with anyone for more than a month. i didn't get my first boyfriend or my first kiss until last october when i was 16. don't rush into going out with someone just because other people think that you should. your first kiss should be with someone that you really care about so that you'll be able to have pleasant memories of your first kiss for the rest of your life. you don't want to regret kissing the first person that you kiss. don't listen to what other people tell you to do. you still have plenty more years to find someone special that you want to share your first kiss with. good luck!:)
383105
Oh Bob!!   Lets see... Dont attack! be gentle in the first kiss and if an encouraging responce, press a bit harder and try a bit of tounge.  Not to wet, swallow first.  No blender method either, if your going to use tounge be gentle and slow explore her lips first, gently moving your tounge.  If she responds in kind then a slow dance with her tounge.  I also enjoy a slight suck on the lower lip to finish, it makes me want more;) Oh and if its the first kiss, make it a nice semi-firm lip to lip kiss, no space invaders!!  And leave her wanting more!
76085
no this is highly adviosed to kiss in ur first date.\nthere is nothing more beautifull then first kiss in first date. Be confident and wish u a good luck.
484742
The best thing to remember when starting to kiss is to keep things simple. There is really no need to get carried away with strange and exotic techniques, nibbling, biting, groping, etc. etc. etc., especially when you're just starting out. A kiss is generally great no matter how basic, and everything else just adds things that can go wrong. Of course, everything else definitely has its place (and how!)... but it's really best to START SIMPLE.\n\nDO gently caress your partner's face.\nDON'T octopus your hands all over their body.\n\nDO use your tongue to stimulate.\nDON'T use your tongue like a jackhammer.\n\nDO notice how your partner reacts to your kisses.\nDON'T notice how cute the girl at the next table is.\n\nDO communicate with your partner.\nDON'T communicate the kiss to everyone in the locker room.\n\nDO be confident in yourself\nDON'T be confident you'll never be kissed.
449883
When you think the time is right the first kiss should always be in private and always remember smile look at her and say "May I kiss You" if she likes you she will say yes if she doesn't then let her tell you, I mean I would rather here her say no than get away you creep!
1168433
I know just how you feel.  Before my first kiss, I was completely freaked out because I didn't have a clue what to do.  And all the "how to kiss" articles in the teen magazines never gave any specific examples of what to actually do.  I would say just be sure and wait till are you are totally comfortable and ready (but remember that the butterflies won't completely go away) and just make sure your boyfriend knows that you want to, but you're nervous, and ask him to go slow.\n\nThat being said, I'll try my hand at a couple tips.  Like someone else said, it's basically like exploring the other person's mouth.  Start with normal kisses, gradually open your mouth as you go (not like you're yelling or anything, but just like you're breathing with your mouth open), and just put your tongue in his mouth (do it relatively gently tho) and just kinda run your tongue in circles around his tongue.  Once you do it a few times, you'll just kinda pick it up.\n\nAnd also, if you're serious about not having sex before marriage (which I think is great) be sure and set well-defined rules and boundaries because once you start making out, it's incredibly easy to want to go father and you probably won't think of anything but that.  Don't trust that you'll know what's too far when you get to it, because it definitely doesn't work that way.  Some rules you might wanna try are limiting where hands and kisses are allowed, not being alone for prolonged periods of time, always keeping the door open, etc.\n\nBelieve me, I know it's scary as crap, but it really is not that big of a deal, I promise.
360726
you dont nessessarily have to say "can i kiss you", but wait for a moment when she not completly off guard (don't just sneak it up on her)and make eye contact .If you are going to be kissing in the first place then keep in mind IT IS THE FIRST DATE.So make shur it's not too too extreme!don't have a full out make out session when you've just met.\n\n:)
614625
you dont need to ask me, but actions speak louder than words and a kiss comes automatically.  just be romantic and everything will fall in place. If you ask it will show that you are scared of me and dont have the confidence in yourself.
374844
Honey you have to allow the guys to make the first move. Don't be scared you will know what to do when the time comes, it's natural.
806412
Its not weird!If you want a first kiss just to kiss thats weird!Your first kiss should be spacial and something you will always remember!So when you have kids and they ask you,you can tell them who,when,where and how it made you feel!Just wait,you have lots of time!
76340
go for a walk after it is dark, its proven talkin in the night makes a person more relaxed and more open, beacuse of the atmosphere, \nmake the person feel relaxed, talk bout some deep stuff like, planz for future, family, marriage, or whatever the hell it is the person is in2, \nand when you're standin/sittin close to each other,\nstart lowerin your voice to a whisper, which will make you feel more intimate and ummmmmmmmmmmmmm.... start whisperin stuff in his/her ear and go for the kill!!!!!\n\nbut make sure, whatever u do, make sure to ask him/her whether they would ever consider bein in a relationship with a friend.............or the consequences can be brutal......\nbut trust me, dont be nervous/shy cause 9/10 it will work out.....\nthe person i'm with, like, we were friends for like, forever, but one day i jus kissed her and she kissed me back, we then realised we was actually thinkin bout it from day one, but both of us were jus to scared to make the first move\nanyway, good luck with whatever u do
863559
Oh, I have the same problem, ever since I could remember. I guess it's the general thing of wanting to be liked but being afraid of rejection.\n\nYou don't have to splurge out absolutely everything about yourself in a first meeting, just smile and be polite (you can never go wrong with a smile) ask general questions like how are you, where are you from, do you have any family, what are your hobbies, what kind of music do you like...etc. and in return answer the person's questions. \n\nYou may not relate your deepest darkest secret but you can share general things, no one is going to condemn you for liking a particular band or the colour green.\n\nI've tried it and I think it works out pretty well, the key is to smile a lot ^^ (that way they can't tell if you're freaking out internally)\n\nsure it will be a tad bit uncomfy at first but as conversation progresses, you should naturally ease up and things should flow from there...\n\nGood luck for future endeavours ^^ I'm rootin' for ya!
1434
go to a park w/ your significant other and find a diserted place. or just go to a willing friends house and do it there,(check w/ friend some may not like that idea) if you cant do any of these then go to the mall and find a diserted store corner. other wise just dont. a relaitionship isnt based on making out so you should be fine w/ 1 or 2 missed oppertunities
113975
First, you need to feel passionately.  Then you kiss.  If it wasn't a passionate kiss, then practice more. :)
695448
hey, don't worry about it so much. it is totally natural. has he ever kissed anyone? even if he has, no first kiss is perfect. do you want to kiss him???? if you do, then go for it. if he already told you that he wants to, then there is no embaressment of him not wanting to kiss you back. i'm sure you'll like it and want to do it a lot more, but till you have the first one, you'll be missing out the longer you wait. Good Luck!\n\n-TJ
865820
There is no training for making out. Experience is the key. Just wait until your time comes along. Just from personal experience I will tell you that it may seem uncomforatable at first and akward but things will get better. Advice for when you do it though: Close your eyes- nobody likes starring at someone kissing you! Try not to slobber! and don't just move your tounge around everywhere ! it's gross!!! Slow /passion is the key. Trust me you will do fine. just wait for your time. making out is something you can't just "learn" how you have to "experience" it