Does size of the male member  really matter and if so why?
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If we're talking strictly about sensation produced during the act of intercourse, then it's the circumfrence that is more important than the length as the sensation comes from friction and you need a larger circumfrence to enhance skin to skin contact to make friction.\n\nToo many men think it's the length when their women are complaining to their women friends of cramping and pain because their man tried to jam it all up there.\n\nThe other poster said it's technique and this is also true because if you've got a long one your woman will make excuses not to have sex if you don't learn how to use it properly. How? Ask her!\n\nDo not deceive yourselves that we are not aware of your lack of expertise. But that doesn't matter as long as you're willing to talk about it and learn what we like and don't like. \n\nA partner who cares about what we want and like and tries to please us, as much as we try to please them, more than makes up for any alleged physical lack.
378322
it's not the size dude...it's the performance that counts!!!\nif you know how to please your woman the right way...you are gonna be much better than the most endowed dude.
441837
Honestly size is not what matters most.  It is what you do before and after you use that length that counts so much more.  Girls are more of a slow burn not a rocket like guys.  If you take the time to do it right, and you ask the girl so you know what she likes and you will be a better lover than the guy that claims to have the Big Package. Remember, It ain't the wand, darlin' it is most definitly the magician
225580
i don't think it is the size that counts...\nit is how you use it
422366
Unfortunately, the unbiased truth is that size DOES matter for SOME women. Women are also like men, they come in all shapes and sizes, and some women are bigger, or larger, depending on which term you preffer, than others. I guess it all comes down to a few simple things; is your partner satisfied with the size of your penis ? Is your partner uncommonly larger than your previous partners ? and so on... There are also a few chirurgical procedures that i WOULD NOT recommend if the problem tends to have a chronical depressing effect... In any case, the best thing to do is to talk to a counsellor, doctor or close friend. This is not a matter that can be resolved by simply putting a post on an internet forum unfortunately. Life's like that & problems are a part of it. If you were brought up believing that movies or stories reflect life, i'm afraid you'll have to be re-educated all over. Good luck in any case and don't stop smiling!
218123
In response to Dramaguy's answer telling you to take these questions elsewhere, I will say there is nothing wrong with your question. This is the Men's health section and you have a valid question about male anatomy. If Dramaguy is ashamed that he has a penis he should probably seek counseling. The average size of the male penis is 5 1/2 to 6 inches.
43282
In all honesty some of my best lovers were small , and some were average and some were huge . It is all in how the man uses what he has . For me the size of my lover has never really mattered , I will tell you this though if its too big I dont really enjoy it . As to where if its small it cant hurt you . Either way no matter what your size there are sooooo many ways to please a women and as long as you do the size of your package will be the last thing on her mind .
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It isn't, it is all in how skilled the individual man is when trying to please a woman. Somebody who is just big, but unskilled and/or selfish is not going to get any high marks in my books! Those like that get a very low ratings. If a man is skilled enough he doesn't even need to use that organ at all to get a woman off in a very pleasing manner!\n\nSo, don't worry about size, it really does not matter. Unless the woman is really a girl and just has no idea of what a man can really do! She will become a woman when she discovers that larger or bigger has nothing at all to do with pleasure. Plus, she had best be able to return the favor!\n\nThere are NOT more "nerves' towards the end of a woman's pleasure box! The "girl" who said that is not a woman yet, as that is a common misconception among girls. Women know better!
512604
you're not short,just smaller than some other guys. Don't worry. i can't help on the other parts,sorry.  But keep in mind the saying,the best things come in small packages : )
764274
the type of underwear you wear will not effect the size of a man's dick! It will effect your sperm count though!
138199
Sweety I'm assuming your penis is small if ur asking this question. As a girl, my opinion is that size really DOESN'T matter. It truly is how it is used. Any girl who believes it does matter is either young, slutty,or feeling inadequate about herself. If you have a girl that thinks size matters and she would dump you because of it, then she is not worth it. If your partner truly cares about you then she will accept everything about you. everything
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The truth (once and for all): it does not matter! Oh, at the extremes maybe - less than 2" or really huge. But anything remotely normal is fine with us. We may pretend to admire your large equipment because we know how pathetically important it is to your fragile male ego, but for ourselves, nope, not at all. As a matter of fact we get extremely bored hearing about it. We're more interested in the quality of what's between your ears than in the size of what's between your legs. Really! \n\nPlease find some other interest in life - big penises are not an interesting topic of conversation to those of us who don't have them. This question gets asked a lot, and the males always butt in and say, oh, yeah, it's totally important. Well, wake up guys - just because it's important to you does not make it important to us! If it's 3.8" or 8.3" - who cares? Not the women.
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Yes - I was with a guy that was so good at 4-play and the whole experience of sex - that his small penis never became an issue.  Also - There was one with a very long penis that just didn't know what to do with it - thats much worse.
268994
Size is not important John. Mine is a bit longer than 5inches (do you think 5inches+ a big one). With my 5inches+ during a long sex intercourse I can bring my girl to get her orgasm several times. We have a wonderful sex together
500839
The size of a penis doesn't matter when it comes to satisfying a woman its simply the technique.  During many of my love making experiences I have been satisfied not only with a penis but also with my partners little finger to the point of having an orgasm.  If you think size is the issue in your bedroom then you are obviously a selfish lover!!!!!
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The penis does not have to reach the cervix, and the penis does not go through the cervix.\n\nSo as some would say, - "size doesn't matter"
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Penis size matters to women about as much as foot size matters to men.  A minority may have a preference, but most don't think it's important.\n\nYour penis is like an artist’s paintbrush.  It’s not how long it is that matters.  It’s how skillfully you use it and how many different brush strokes you know.\n\nThese penis size questions come up again and again on this site.  Women almost always say it doesn’t matter to them.  And if it actually does matter to a small minority of women, so what?  There are still plenty left who don’t think it’s very important.  \n\nWhat’s far more important is whether you’re skilled at using your penis to satisfy your woman.  Can you last as long as you want?  Can you vary the depth of your strokes, the pace of them, the angle of them, so that you can offer your woman a little teasing and unpredictability at times?  Are you skilled enough at other ways to pleasure her, so that penis-vagina intercourse is only one of the things on the menu you offer her?  \n\nEven if you can’t do all of these things at present, these are all things you can LEARN to do.  But you can’t learn to have a bigger penis.\n\nAnd let’s not forget, it’s usually the person attached to the penis that decides whether a woman finds you appealing or not.  You could be hung like a horse, but if you’re an inconsiderate jerk you still won’t be very attractive to women.