I am a new student at my ninth school ive done 2 diff. sports yet still havent made friends. what is my problm
91918
nothing, it's the others who have the problem. Just let them warm up to you, you seem like a nice person. Give them a sign that you want to be their friend, and they will want to be yours too. good luck!
792770
Deffinatly play!  Number one it shows great detication, which will help for next year.  Also it will help you improve, you can't get any better if you just give up because your friends arn't on the team.  In my middle school for modified basketball we have an A and  B team and I was put onto the B team, and I hated it!  But I stuck thought it and played, and now I'm a starting point guard on my Highschool Varsity team.  So deffinatly stick with it no matter what, if you love the sport just practice a lot.
1028712
be youself..don't be like other people..you are your own woman...and don't need to be a follower..what are your interests..are u into sports....if so..join some of those school activites
650221
you need to talk to a conselor or a close friend or member of your family. try hanging out with people from other schools. see if that helps.
1121884
I really recommend joining some clubs that relate to your interests.  Even so, you will have to step outside your comfort zone a bit and strike up conversations with people.  Don't wait for others to make all the effort as friendships take two working on it to develop.
60530
play the numbers game.\n\nmeaning try to make friends with everyone.\neveryone won't be your friend, but some will. out of those some, you'll get a real friend.
693801
the higher you go in grade level, the more is expected of you. not saying this to scare you, but is a fact of life. keep all your old friends and also make some new ones. don't give in to peer pressure or become someone you're not. might want to consider some extra-curricular activities for social and academic reasons. just have fun and relax.
894645
give it time bet you've not finished for first semester yet try going to organised events to get to meet people hope this helps
132008
YOU SHOULD GET MORE INVOLVED ON CAMPUS..LIKE JOIN STUDENT ORGANIZATIONS. THATS WHAT I DID SO THAT I WOULDN'T BE SO BORED..OR YOU CAN START YOUR OWN ORGANIZATION...THINK THAT ONCE ITS OVER YOU'LL HAVE TO REALLY GROW UP AND ITS BEST TO ENJOY YOURSELF NOW!
957068
Just join the clubs you are interested in. You'll soon make friends.
248200
Try to keep a positive outlook! Remeber that alll the other people in your year are new also, so everyone is feeling that strange 'newness' Getting involved in clubs and activities will also keep you occupied, not to mention look great on your college applications. BEst of luck and have fun.
456680
Being the new girl is really hard, especially when you've been hurt by friends at school. Remind yourself that it takes a friendly attitude to make friends and that not all people are out to hurt you! Instead of striving to be popular, be yourself instead! If you want to meet friends, join after school activities or clubs that spark your interests. Good luck!
878909
Perhaps it has more to do with influences aside from your game play. Are you a good team member? Do you value your contribution to the team over the other members? Do you take school seriously and face your requirements with a positive attitude? Maybe it is time to scedule a meeting with him after practice or at a time when you both are free and just out right ask him. \n\nGood Luck
967771
I was moved several times before junior high and it wasn't fun.  Every one knows your name right away (since they already know everyone there) and you can't remember all of thier's.  They have established friendships and you are the "new kid" trying to fit in so some kids feel threatend by having to share thier friends with you.  But if you are confident and comfortable being yourself, things will go easier than if you decide it's going to be hard.  Keep a good attitude and Best of Luck!
962250
Start by being yourself...so sports isn't for your thing...you might be great at something they suck at...they might look to you for something one day...that's the problem with school aged kids...too much focus on status...i hung out with every group at random times...mind you that was 20 years ago but times are not that different as far as those cliques go...stay yourself...there's no such thing as a loser getting an education!
586856
I'm just finishing up my freshman year in high school. Don't worry! You're going to be fine. Get to know your teachers and the building. Ask friends who are upperclassmen what it's like. Joining clubs or doing sports are an awesome ways to meet people. And the best way to get noticed is to just be yourself.
56992
just be nice. i moved in fourth grade and made friends pretty quickly. just dont dwell on ur old town and friends, be upbeat and openminded towards new people. really, movings not that bad... :) and u can still keep in touch with old friends with phone and email. good luck!