why do men cheat on there pregnant girlfriens?
84094
he is a loser and not a man. he is a boy\n find a real man that doesn't live at his daddy's house
1064692
Emily, first before you can do anything about changing the way you feel you need to find out why he stopped wanting to have sex with you. Sometimes men see us as Mothers instead of a wife when we are pregnant and that stops them, when they are like it this it does break that bond as wife and husband. If he is cheating then you need to find out why he has done this to you and his daughter. Talk with him and not in a accusing way but just tell him how your feeling and that you want to get close to him again. I have no idea why a man would do this.
642814
if a guy cheats on his girlfriend it means he will cheat on her always and he will cheat on his wife as well when he gets married. cheating is a weak personality. it doesn't fix until one partner breaks the relationship.
423056
Because guys are generally commitment phobes. If they hook up with a girl who's taken then they know nothing further is expected of them. They can have their fun, and continue on their merry way. It's no strings attached fun.
293258
People cheat because they are selfish and there are selfish partners who will cheat along with them.\n\nThis is not a man/woman thing, unless all of these men are cheating with other men.  They are cheating with women.  Therefore, there are as many women cheaters as men.\n\nNot everybody cheats on their partner, not everyone in an affair is married.  But both parties are guilty of violating YOUR vows (if you were married, I see this was "just" a boyfriend)\n\nIt's not a man/woman thing, it's a character issue, and the character of both cheaters is the problem, not gender.
57822
They rarely do it for any specific reason, it isn't about the woman they are with, often it isn't even about the other woman!!\n\nFor men who cheat, they do it because they can. \n\nIt's down to opportunity, geography and an assumption that they won't get caught.\n\n(The hallmark phrase is "it didn't mean anything to me" - as if that somehow makes it OK!).
174995
Do you really want a man that will turn his back on his unborn child, let alone a man that supposedly is in a relationship with you that goes out getting his so called close friends pregnant. Wake up Sister...dump the creep. You deserve better.
152246
Because it is easier for them to leave. I think if men were able to get pregnant, it would be the other way around. Maybe 90% of deadbeat parents would be mothers who left. It's just easier for men to avoid the responsibility because they don't carry the child while the mother is stuck carrying it, and then giving birth to it, etc.
515207
Men cheat more because they want to feel they still have it! That he is still a man! But women do their share of cheating to because their husband are not giveing them what they need, they don't make them feel loved by them! I would probly go with 60% men and 40% women!
613078
Reality hurts don't it. I think the main reason women cheat is because of insecurity.   You should ask yourself what lead to me to cheat?  and would I do it again.  That poor man is hurt and probably doesn't want to go through that again. I know i wouldn't. From a mans standpoint especially if he loved you...he probably still pictures u banging the guy in his mind. There is a big wound in the relationship..and like any physical cut it takes time to heal. But you really cant do anything because the ball is in his court.  He will comeback if he completely forgives you.
421600
from what i understand, the guy got somebody pregnant a month after leaving his girl to join the army. if he can't control himself while he's away, then the relationship might just as well go down the drain.
931124
Julie, \n\nThis question is as relevant to women as it is to men as they cheat on their husbands too.  For example, Clara Harris ran over her husband "accidental" 3 times for cheating on her.  What did not come out in the media, is that she had cheated on him too...but he did not think she deserved to be pavement for his car.  \n\nMany women look for married men because they do not want the commitment \n\nDid you know that at least a third of the children men are paying for in child support are not their children as proven by DNA?   \n\nSeems that it is more then men that like to play but then, shouldn't everyone know that that person they are about to go to bed with is NOT "THEIR" husband or wife?\n\nWhy do they not stop to think that if they will do this before marriage, what makes them think they will only be faithful to each other after marriage?\n\nThere is always a hidden cost to all of this...check the link below to find out more.
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I hope your master's thesis gets proofread by someone who knows proper English.\n\nAre you saying you already have a baby with this man? If so, he's part of your life forever, whether you want him or not. And he must be giving you some reason to think he's cheating, or why would you even suspect such a thing? Most people don't cheat, you know, even when they are apart.\n\nPlease reask your question in a coherent manner - but even if we could understand your question, nobody can know as much about the situation as you do, so why would we have advice that is better than what you already know? Anyway, you have to learn to write so people can understand you - how did you ever make it to grad school without being able to put a sentence together?
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the desire to find a guy that fills it up instead of beating around the bush. Cheating on you is no more sex, no time for you, total daily routine change for time with new man and none for you, dressing diferent, different perfume, attitude, and kum stains on underwear not arent yours.
667796
well it is because you love him and you are use to him and you dont want the relationship to end and its just like other things in a relationship you think it can be fixed,cheating in a serious relationships destroys it you no longer can trust that person and it causes alot of emotional pain and guilt on both people it really is a selfish act on that persons part too but us as woman are the ones that try to fix things and we have the mother instinct so that is why we put up with alot of bs but usually after cheating a relationship doesnt last and if it does it is never the same it has been broken in two it is sad but you will find someone else someday just dont put up with it a you will grow from this experience good luck
482525
Cheating is a very bad thing. It is a deception of your girl friend/boy friend or spouse. People cheat because they find someone they are sexually attracted to or are not getting what they want from there significant other.
642197
I have never cheated but have heard that the main reason a woman cheats is because she is not fully happy at home. Something is missing, which could be a lot of things...