How do I make a girl fall for me within feb 14th 2006, starting from scratch?
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if u rili want a girl to like u, if u want to change for her to accept u, change for the better then but even i would like to say "just be urclf" but it can't be if u dont change some things on u "attitude' she will not fall but if u change for the better surely she wil make up her mind and even she will be the first one to ask u, even just in a week u can do it or an hour !
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be the man of her dreams.\n\nbe new and different every day.\n\nlearn what makes her tick, \nand push that button often.\n\n:-)
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Man, listen: you can't make a girl fall for you.  The only reason a girl would fall for you is because you are being yourself.  Almost everyone I know have a dislike for people who try to act like someone they aren't.  If girls don't like you for who you are, perhaps you should take a serious look at what 'who you are' actually is.  If you just genuinely care about people and show respect for them, than that goes a lot more than anything specifically you can say on the phone or at anytime.
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mitr says.... don't leave everything on fate... you have to go out and say her boldly... if you don't say it now, it might be too late for you to say something... she at present doesn't have a bf and also she has been cheated.. it will nto be easy for her to rely on a guy so soon.... but since she knows you from  a long time back, she is definitely going to consider you...\ndon't make her feel that you are coming to her just because of sympathy to what has happened to her... tell her that you had and always will love only a single girl in your life and that is her...\nmake her feel special... give her importance... give her priority.... \ndo something that will make her feel strongly for you... do something so that she actually remembers you 24X7.... it should be a real good one buddy, no matter how crazy it is... \nmitr says... lovers comeout witj some crazy ideas to make their beloved happy... use your imagination and get her.... ... no gains without pain.. you have to tell her about your feelings for her and that too fast.........\ngood lock....
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Easy, just join a gym and take a belly dancing class. \nAt first the girls will laugh at you and find you amusing. After that they will fall for you. Then you can pick the sexiest one for your girlfriend.
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You want her to chase you?!?!   If you want the woman, stop wasting time and step to her, tell her whats really good and get it started again.    If you don't do it soon someone else just might step in.....  It may be 2006, but women still like guys to make the first move....
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To "make" her? What - is this like some performing poodle?\n\nYou haven't said if you want more than a one-off "make love".\nIf just one-off, just go out for an evening with her and get her much more drunk than you are. With luck she might not even remember, and then you can try the same trick again later.\n\nIf you want any kind of deeper relationship, you're gonna have to seriously loosen up in your whole approach.\nEm - as a first step, try getting to know her.\n(I mean, really know her rather than just her name.)
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dont be impatient, as it could cause disaster. First step i'd suggest u is to talk to her, like hi! my name is( ur name here), if she responds to it and introduces herself then my dear friend ur ready to go to the second step. compliment her on whatever u see in her, as in  her eyes, her smile etc. try 2 find out if she has any bf or is she going around wid some1. if everything is just fine then look for a special day, like her b'day or the day u see  her mood is quite pleasant. just propose her, and tell her what exactly u feel for her. and im sure it'll work.\n\nAs u said u never talked 2 her so i'd be quite risky to propose her on ur first meeting. 'coz she doesn't know u . Make ur first impression quite impressive one. \n\nHope it works, but touch wood if it doesn't then mail me 2 vineet2seide@yahoo.co.in\n\ni'll be there 4 u.
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Give her a call back man.  She'll be more than happy to hear back from you.  If she doesn't pick up the phone leave a brief message letting her know you got her call.  As for your first date...Don't lean towards her and instead lean back.  When you lean forwards you send her the 'needy' signal.  In general, you want to use your sense of humor and entertain her while flirting like hell.  During the course of the date do NOT touch her at all.  Let her be the first one to touch you.  When she does finally touch you that shows a sign of interest.  Another sign of interest to look out for...put your arms in an unordinary way on the table.  Watch her body language and if she responds by putting her arms in the exact same way that is an unconcious signal of interest.  She is showing you that she's in sync with you by doing so.  Another sign of interest is dialated pupils, unless of course, you're in a dark room because they'll be dialated anyway.  As for where to take her, do something simple.  Do NOT blow tons of cash on her or buy her roses or chocolates.  The best thing you can do is take her for a nature walk or out for a cup of coffee (depending on your age).  NEVER ask a woman where she would like to be taken.  Women hate to make these decisions and wil appreciate you being the "man with the plan."  Spend as little money as possible and use your personality to make her want you.  In general, the less you try the more success you have.  And finally, be chivalrous at all times.  Open every single door, help push in her chair, and at the end of the night, walk her to the door.  Women appreciate a man that is looking over them.  Despite what may seem lame to men, women absolutely love this.
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You are not hopeless, but if you believe you are, no woman will be interested. Meet a wide variety of women, and when you find one you fall for, then you've won 50% of the battle. Next is to make her feel the same. That part is up to you!
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Dear Wolverine,\n\nThere is nothing more attractive then someone who likes themselves; who appreciates and respects who they are and how they are and intend to evolve.\n\nYour best chance at getting someone to like you is to be yourself, no pretense.  If this girl can't like you for who you are, she is the wrong girl for you.\n\nPretending to be anyone other than yourself, for example, pretending to like something you really don't because you heard this girl likes it, or pretending to act, think of feel a certain way to align with how this particular girl thinks or feels may gain you a temporary connection.  But it won't gain you a good or lasting friendship.\n\nBottom line.  Be who you are!  No one in all the world can be you, like you can.  Someone once said that there are 70 people in the world who are perfect for us.  \n\nThe key to happiness is to find them and not waste precious time trying to please others by being someone were not just to be liked by them.\n\nSo, go for it.  Just be yourself with this girl and see if she turns out to be one of your priceless 70 people.  If she doesn't, don't let it get you down.  Just keep being yourself and eventually you'll run into one of your perfect matches.\n\nI've included a great source that supports this line of thinking as well as one that challenges the 'Just Be Yourself' point of view so you can read and then decide for yourself.\n\nI've also included a link to some pointers for telling someone that you like them.  For all you know she may already like you just as you are but one of you has to approach the subject and let the other know.  \n\nThe big question to ask yourself is; if you are pretending to be something you're not, how long will you enjoy doing that?  How long before she sees right through the pretense?  Is pretending worth a short journey with someone who will eventually find out if you're faking it.\n\nWishing you the joy of discovering a genuine match for yourself!\n\nkaocc
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By being your reasonable, decent self. By making her laugh. By making her feel attracted, and paid attention to. If you want, give her a little something nice and special to show her your affections. \n\nOr, if all else fails, try this: "I'm such an ass. I want to melt your heart away, but it seems my lack of being romantic has failed me once more. And, damn, when I need it most, too... you know, to impress such a beautiful girl like yourself. Any suggestions?"\n\nI don't know who exactly you are trying to "melt", and/or if she would appreciate something like that being said to her, but sometimes a little quirky honesty would do the trick for a little tease-and-kiss.\n\nIt would for me, anyway. ;)
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just be yourself and dont be shy just tell her how you feel about her cuz i know for sure i dont like it when a guy tries to beat around the bush lol so yeah im sure your a nice guy and have alot to offer so yeah just go for it babe and see what the outcome may be.i have that problem too sometimes and if im just myself the guy falls for me right then and there lol
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Always be there for your girl.\nStand up for her honor.\nAlways open doors for any girl.\nAlways be polite.\nShow her that shivery isn't dead.\nLet her know your feelings, we can't read your mind.\nLook in her eyes when you talk to her, and she to you.\nBe a shoulder to lean on.\nHave open arms to hold and cuddle her.\nBe her friend to talk openly.\n(Just listen. No answers required)\nWhen you kiss, kiss from your heart.\n(not from any other part of your body)\nLet her lead you to anything more physical.\nBe honest in all things.  If you're faithful in the small things you'll be faithful in all things.\nWe want someone to love and trust too.\nRemember not to smother us.  But be attentive to our desires as we try to take care of yours.  Good Luck!\nIt's not the gifts or the money spent, But the attitude and gift of your heart that makes us love you.
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BWAHHAHAHHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHHAHHAHA that is AWESOME. I needed that laugh. Thanks so much. I can only hope that you are joking. If you are NOT joking...then I would offer this advice in the future:\n\nBe yourself from day 1. If she is liking the person you pretend to be, then she is not for you and will be disappointed when you decide to be "you" again. Find someone who likes YOU... not a guy you pretend to be.
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If you already love her then you don't have to court her. If you are trying to get to know her before you can love her then do the following: \nBe yourself-pretending to be someone you're not will backfire in your face.\nDon't be afraid to compliment her. Say whats on your mind.\nAlways show up to your date or when you go over her house with something. A rose, candybar, scented candle....something.\nAsk her what her interests are and try to accommodate her.\nHave confidence and don't be afraid to fail or rejection.
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Well being able to listen to a women is really nice and comforting. Just listening to what she has to say, being there for her, understanding her. \nHaving "game" is not something a guy has to do to get noticed. I think just being yourself will attract a girl that is looking for someone like yourself. \nSo yea, hopefully that answered your question.\n\nIf a girl really likes you, than she will flirt w/ you alot, she will come closer to you when you guys are talking, she will look deep in to your eyes, and if she wants to kiss you, shell look at your lips than in your eyes. \nShell want to go out with you more, shell want to be around you more.\nSome tips...\nListen to your gf, try to understand her, dont control her. Be there for her no matter what.\n1. Dont hug her friends or your friends that are girls cause she'll feel left out\n\n2. Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its just for a second.\n\n3. Hug her from behind (we love this)\n\n4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to.\n\n5. Wrestle with her :)\n\n6. Don't go hang out with your ex when shes not with you, you might not realize how badly it hurts her.\n\n7.If you're talking to another girl, when you're done talking, walk over and hug her and kiss her.... let her know she's yours and they aren't.\n\n8. Write her notes or call her just to say "hi"\n\n9. Introduce her to your friends . . . as your girlfriend.\n\n10. Play with her hair.\n\n11. Pick her up (she loves it)\n\n12. Get upset if another guy touches her and she doesn't like it\n\n13. Make her laugh\n\n14. Let her fall asleep in your arms.\n\n15. If she's mad at you, kiss her.\n\n16. If you care about her, then TELL HER\n\n17. Every guy should give their girl 3 things: a stuffed animal(she'll hug it every time she goes to sleep), jewelry (she'll treasure it forever), and one of his t-shirts (she'll most likely wear it to bed).\n\n18.Treat her the same around your friends as you do when you're alone.\n\n19. Look her in the eyes and smile.\n\n20. Hang out with her on weekends\n\n21. Kiss her in the rain (girls love this)\n\n22. Kiss her just for the heck of it\n\n23. If your listening to music, let her listen too.\n\n24. Remember her birthday and get her something, even if\nits simple and inexpensive, it came from YOU. it means all the world to HER.\n\n25. When she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it, even if you don't (it'll make her happy.)\n\n26.Always call her when you say you will, it may not seem like it, but it does hurt her and makes her think you don't care so call even if you can only talk for a minute. Girls don't necessarily have to have hour-long conversations every night but its nice for us to hear your voice even for a quick hello.\n\n27. Give her what she wants\n\n28. Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.\n\n29. tell her shes beautiful... not hott\n\n30. Hang out with her whenever you are free and u should be free to hang wit your girl friend all the time\n\n31. If u care about her...SHOW her