Should I invite my secret crush to my to my big 13th birthday party?
86336
Definitely, you might also want to invite some of his friends so he won't feel out of place if he comes.
15900
If it were me, I would like to have something really special planned for me. I would not want to know anything about it. It would be a suprise, (not a suprise birthday party) but like going to a favorite resturant, then maybe to a local bar for a quick drink and then home. When we got home I would like you (her) to be in a sexy lingere, sexy panties and then let what ever happens from there happen.
408566
Um, if they're living in the same household, then it's only courdial to invite everyone.  Yes, it is your day and it should be planned out to your specifications, but think about the "bad-blood" that could be created or spared based or your decision to just let someone show up and hey....maybe give you an extra gift.  It's worth it to me to suck it up.  Besides, there will be so many other people there, it isn't like you have to sit and hold hands with him/her the entire time and be like "look who I invited, right here, uh huh, see who came, blah blah blah."
665700
Oooo... that's very mysterious! I think a guy would like having a secret admirer. I say go for it!
509680
WOW!! mr curious sounds like he'd be LOT'S of fun at a party!!! boy he's a SHARP one......****!\nany hoo, honey, can you afford the ticket? it's just gonna be a little test, he's gonna ask you to BLOW. and you weren't even drinking!
64463
Pretty much what he is doing,\n1. checking you out\n2. flirting\n3. if you have feelings to them as well\nI think you should get to know him a little better before asking him to your birthday party. If you got to know he was really cool, then he probalby wouldn't ruin your game for the rest of the night.\nGOOD LUCK ;)
360795
If he is your friend then you should be sticking up for him. Your other friends should be more appreciative of your other friends. Is he not cool enough to hang out with you in public. He must have a different background if the others make fun of him. You should at least give him a choice of whether or not he wants to come. Invite him and tell him who is on the guest list. He may not want to go either if he gets a hard time. Don't push him to come but he should at least be invited. If he does come then make sure that he feels welcome and tell your other friends not to pick on him. If they are your friends then they should respect your wishes if not then are they really your friends. On the other hand if he says that he will come then that is a measurement of what he is willing to go through because of your friendship. I think that the choice is right in front of your nose but you need a push to do the right thing.
685879
Wow, this is kind of an odd situation to be in.  Why should you worry about inviting someone to YOUR birthday party, if you know they will just make things awkward, if not uncomfortable for you and everyone else in attendance?  There is such a thing as being cordial to someone, while not letting them play a passive-aggressive role in your life.  You don't have to be so nice that you're putting yourself and your own entertainment second to this person's feelings.  You shouldn't even have to offer an explanation, because it's YOUR birthday!  You wanted to share your special day with friends, and if that person is not really your friend, then why concern yourself with how they'll feel about not being invited?  \n\nBecause I have a sneaking suspicion that this person will be nervy enough to attempt a confrontation about not being invited to your birthday celebration, should there be any question about who all was invited, why don't you just say it was a family celebration, and that you were only allowed to invite your closest friends?  That isn't much to argue over, because you're bringing your family members into it, which would seem to indicate that there were already a number of people in attendance, aside from your chosen few [close] friends.\n\nBest wishes, and Happy Birthday.
224911
Depends on the type of party it is, that's what I think. If the party you are going to is a party your crush is going to, I would say a denim mini, sets them on fire when you show your legs(please shave your legs if you use a mini skirt) If the party is fun and it's only a few girl friends, then wear comfortable jeans.
852662
Regardless of weather you feel that he is a friend or "boyfriend" you need to go to the banquet together. No matter what happens you'll have lots of fun and who knows...\nYou don't have anything to lose girl!
436774
Do Not Go Alone if you are going to meet him.  Bring one or two friends with you and if he objects to that, end the communication.\nAlso, make sure it is in a very public place (like a Starbucks) and tell someone in your family what your plans are.\nHe could be a perfectly nice guy, but he could also be a psycho predator.
190929
if he really likes you he would definitely jump to that invitation...\nbut i guess he was just polite and nice and made you feel great when you guys went out...\ni doubt if he really is intersted in you...plus HONEY!!!!! you guys just went out once...so y are you dwelling in this piece of fake emotion that u feel for him???\n\ntrust me you would be feeling the same exact thing to the next guy u meet on line.. i just hope the next one has more free time and would like u 2x as much as u like him.
118789
I agree, go help her, shouldn't you be there anyway if it's her birthday. If you took everyone elses advice you are already there are if not and you are still sitting at the computer reading this, then your might just be a jerk.\n\nHope it all works out!!!
649207
Of course! The hostess must think alot of you to invite you.\nHelp make her gathering special by showing up, and enjoy meeting new people!
626666
this is where your imagination comes in use it all the way and you will be very surprised, its your birthday remember and you can do what you choose dont worry about impressing any one!!  have fun thats what birthdays are for to celebrate you!!!!
352997
If she has survived the test of being you friend this long, she'll make it thru a party with your not-so-annoying friends... She knows about your party because she IS your friend, girl, to have friends, you also have to be one! A true friend would tell the others that EVERYONE is at your party because they are special to you, anyone who forgets that and behaves badly, obviously red flags themselves as NOT your friend! Well heck that would almost be the best bday gift of all, True Colors!  Set the standard, sweetie!\nBut I think you already know that... Happy Birthday!
53949
Sure! you would probably have alot of fun sharing that experience together. You should also feel good about your relationship that he trusts your reactions and feels close enough to you to extend the invite. Try something new. You might be surprised.