My best friend is "Nuts"?
83445
There is absolutely nothing else you can say to her.  She is the only one who can change her behavior.  What YOU have to decide is whether or not your going to continue to stand by her. It's a hard decision, I know I am also dealing with something similar.  Only you know your limits and what your willing to continue to put up with.
975215
you didnt do anything wrong, it was good that you were honest about your feelings. he is your best friend, and best friends are suppose to care about each other. you might want to have a talk with him, maybe there is something wrong going on in his life that he hasnt told you. but if he is a bad friend in other ways, you might want to stop hanging out with him so much.
750713
This guy is a problem and I doubt he is worth you and your best friend having a falling out because he is trying to divide and conquer. \n\nFind a situation where you and your best friend are together, and he is there also. Make it appear the two of you are comparing notes and that you are talking about him, and watch him show his true colors and scramble for cover. \n\nSounds like this guy is extremely immature and is looking for any port in a storm. \n\nPick the one who is interested in you, because of you, not because he is playing some game using you and your best friend as chess pieces to get what he wants. I repeat, do not allow this immature boy to come between you and your best friend. \n\nHe is not the one for you, . . . . . . . .you deserve much better.  \n\nDarryl S.
479659
Does the guy know how your best friend feels about him? If he does, he's made his choice.\n\nTry to put yourself in your friend's shoes, and give her some time to cool off. If the roles were reversed, you might be upset for a while too, even if she'd checked with you first. Meanwhile, do you know another guy you can introduce her to?
712453
SHE"S NUTS>>> she's not the right one for you then... there is someone outthere  for you... cheer p man...
557365
First of all I'd say that he isn't your best friend. A best friend would NEVER rape their friend!\n\nYou need to ditch him, get him out of your life. Tell him flat out that you are not comfortable with what he did. He needs to know that if he tries anything like that again, or comes around you that you'll report him to the police.
738791
the only suggestion I can think of is to ride it out.....wait until something happens. Either your friend AM is making the whole thing up cause she's jealous or something, or TM's shy....anything could be true. Anyways, just wait for something to happen, and then go from there, instead of getting worked up about it.
1112267
Go for it... if your best friend is really a friend, she will understand and get over it.
1059912
LOL THAT'S HALARIOUS! It depeneds on what you ruined. lol... If they are your best friend tell them... they will understand and cope with it. But if they arn't your friend, don't say a word. lol. I don't know that's just too darn halarious. It's like my dad... he got drunk one night and crawed through my sisters window and peed in my sisters drawer. Looking back on it now it's pretty funny.
1027416
Well... it sounds like there isn't anything you can do!!! If she wants to "dumb" for him, it's all up to her to relize it's time to get smart!!! She really isn't asking for your help in this because if she really wanted help, she would take your advise. Just be that ear for her. And if you feel like you don't want to be friends anymore, still be there, but keep her at a distance.
371989
Aww that's terrible, to me it sounds like he's the one with all the problems and you're going out of your way to be friends with him.  He's being abit patronising and maybe it means he needs to grow up abit, so maybe there isn't anything you can do at the moment except explain to him again all this from your perspective.  When he does degrade make sure you defend yourself, and even if you're not right maybe you can give the thoughts you had that made you think that way.  But it's not an exam, and please don't let him make you feel bad and I really hope it works out!
191715
The best friend is a human being, so he thinks, feels and maybe some times he judge you and he don't always say what he think. \nIn my opinion, there are situation when you can't trust him. sicerely, i don't have a best frind because it's better to have a small circle of good friends. But it's good to have someone who can help you when u have a problem.
407658
I would say talk to him about it first, let him know that his behavior is putting a strain on your friendship.\n\nWhere to go from there depends on your perspective. From mine(Christian) I have had many people who did not give up on me when I was a raging drug addict. I was probably the worst friend someone could have, but there were certain people that loved me throughout, and that is no small thing.
1116711
Boy thats hard...Especially because its your best friend It all depends on if you are willing to risk yourfriendship. I always have started out by saying ya know I had the craziest dream about us... just to feel the situation out and see what response I get then go from there. Good luck...
630689
He is nuts. really. THis is a no brainer, and being with him will make you insane. Find another to love. It is off the wall,s off the vharts, out of reality.
92505
Ask his best friend! He probably knows the truth or at least can find out!
355338
He sounds like a nut case. Are you enjoying the roller-coaster ride or is it time to get off? Try to find somebody normal to spend time with and you'll recognize the difference.