Hey I love this girl, and I mean I love her very much, but her dad is my boss, what should I do?
80495
That sounds really awkward.  If you can, look for another job or another position in the company.  That would make it easier to have a relationship with the girl.
153103
Forget the hyperbole about "can't live without her."  You really mean "don't want to," and that's different.  So what are the problems with her parents?  If they do not like you, or do not approve of you, can you find out the reasons, and try to reassure them that you are a good guy, and worthy of their daughter?  Or does she have trouble between her and her parents, and you fear being stuck in the middle?  Perhaps all that is needed here is time:  time for both of you to mature, time for her parents to get to know you and get used to the idea of the two of you being together, etc.  If there really is little reason to hope, then she may have to make a choice between you and her parents, and that's a very hard one to make.  Try not to pressure her.  Be patient and sweet.
755159
Tell her sensitively and tell her what she deserves to know. Tell her that the relationship with her father did not work out, and that he was a naughty man. Tell her you love her, and you are lad you are here and that she is beautiful just the way she is, and that God wanted her to come into your life so much. Tell her she has a wonderful family, and that it may be better to not know her other half of her family, as you know nothing about them.
562697
Well, first I'd like to say that it's really sweet and romantic that you'd try and help her with her problem. kudos!\nThe problem is with her, not her dad. She's just going to roll over and help him, when she doesn't know that she may or may not be hurting him. Tell her that she should consider the possibility that she may be giving him drug money or alcohol money and it may kill him. So does she think she's helping him if she thinks of it that way? \nAnd look at it in the long run. If she doesn't stand up to her dad now, she might not be able to stand up to a guy in the future who may end up hurting her emotionally or physically. Good luck!
30146
It is your life.. Do what you want and with whom ever you wish,you are not married to your step dad, and he does not rule over your life. If you love your boyfriend, then stay with him.Your step dad will see later that this is what you want. All dads want what they think is best for their daughters, but only you can decide what is best for you. Good Luck!
244667
how old are u?  maybe he is just protecting her,,,maybe its not u at all, and its just the fact that she is not of age to see you in that manner, or they want her to continue to go to school and college, and not get too involved w a boy yet.... If u love her....u will let her parents do their job and raise her properly...be her freind for now and show her father u will be there in the end.....good luck deary
1059298
well you do have your hands full. You need 2 be firm w/ the boy. If you go too easy w/ him then your girls will get mad and start to act up. I would let him cry .It will be hard to listen to. but you have to stand your ground> Make his dad do the work also. I know you both may work two jobs, but do you really want to come home to his games every day , all tired out from work, and poss, not a good nights sleep?
183686
nothing you could do but grow up and try to understand that she's right and that she's trying to correct a mistake that you've so immaturely done....will the father be able to correct his mistake or yours? leave her try to fix the mess and give her a break, you've done enough already !!
314136
You could try asking her parents for their approval, it'll show you are man enough to take the responsibility because you really like their daughter. But you'll need to be super respectful and probably be a good idea to go with some answers cause you know they're going to grill you.  But if they say no, you should take it well.
601842
If she is facing the death of her father......she can't think right now......................she is griped with his mortality and probably her own. She ain't thinking about you cuz. Not to be cruel, but unless you have felt this you are just unaware.\n\nThe very best thing you can do right now is, first, let her talk about her dad, her fears of his death. She may not talk about it.......it may be too painful to think about. She may be trying to ignore the way she feels with what is going on.\n\nThe only way you can do that is to make sure she knows you have her back and that she has a soft spot to land. She is fixing to HIT BOTTOM. You can't lose a Daddy without hitting bottom.\n\nThe only thing I would say, is stay fairly close without being needy or pushing yourself on her, she is needy right now although she may not even know it, just stay fairly close, close enough to catch her when she falls, because she is fixing to fall with the death of her father.\n\nShe will pull away, it is natural faced with what she is faced with.........don't take it personal.....\n\nGrief is an incredible different journey for all of us. Be patient, she will most likely find her way back........but be aware.................it may take a while!!!!!!!!!\n\nGood Luck to you both!\nK
540002
i would marry her anyway.who cares if the father doesnt like you.its your life not any one elses,if you love her it doesnt matter.
93499
just have a talk!? communication is the best way... talk to her mother and tell to her that you don't want to have a sex relation with her because she's the mother of your girlfriend,the one that you love. And not only that, explain to her that it is bad to have a sex relation with her because you love her daughter and her daughter is the one you want to be with in your entire life. And her daughter will get hurt if she'll know about it and try to ask if she love her daughter. ok that's it...now it's your turn...
59820
you should probaly pick her up. that way her way her parents gets to see how you look first. then her parents can not convince her that you are wrong for her when they are dropping her off. that way you can convince them you are the guy for their little girl.
791095
I think if your attitude is honorable and not smart alec like "hey dad, I got your girl pregnant...." that you'll be ok.  Good ol dad needs to know you really love his daughter and that you will take care of her and the baby.  It's all in your attitude, believe me.  As far as telling then in front of everyone, I don't know.  I think it would be great, but that's just me.  If her family does one of those go around the table to tell what you are thankful for you could break it then by saying something like you are so thankful for being a part of their daughter's life and that it will soon be 3 of you not just 2 of you.  Just love on everyone and be positive...it'll come back to you.  Good luck!
1044029
I have similer problems. Me and my girflriend love eachother but her mom doesnt want us to go out. Right now her mom doesnt even know that we are boyfriend and girlfriend. I can only call her about once every week. What we decided to do was be boyfriend and girlfriend but start going on actual dates when we are 16 so that we can drive ourselves. Just ask your dad if he can come over or soemthing and see if that works
231424
I think that if you really care for the girl and she really cares for you, and she is not the type to let people influence her judgement, then I think it doesn't matter. As long as you two are happy then you shouldn't let anyone stand in your way of happiness. I mean you are dating her, not her parents. I would just give it time and eventually the parents will warm up. I mean this is their daughter, and they will always look out for her no matter what. That is what parents do.
949040
Will you dump her already? Move on..she doesn't care about you and lol you think by saying no to her she's going to listen? You're not her father so let her live her life, if you control her, she's going to hate you if she ends up regreting. She knows there is are better things to see and do then to go home to be with you, it hurts but find another girlfriend...don't waste your years waiting!