How could i get back at my parents, she will not let me have any coffe and she did before?
90448
"get back at your parents because she won't give you coffee"???  Damn girl, sounds like you've had way too much coffee anyway.  Talk about addiction, what next?  Mugging old ladies for afew dollars so you can go get a hit from your local starbucks?  Listen to yourself and grow up.
1099922
yeah sure it looks that way. just don't jump the gun and get mad at your mom. this could all be unavoidable. just tell her you really want to come up and for her to not make any plans to prevent your visit. If she still continues to have excuses...i dunno, try talking to your dad about it. maybe he'll talk to your mom about the way it's affecting you.
503252
Where are your parents? They need to know what a royal pain in the butt she's being. She has no right to treat you like that...unless you did something to tick her off first. If you did, own up to it. If not, then again--tell your parents.
1031099
You might have to speak with her parents and have some sort of intervention.....
1130859
You can do a few different things - tell her the truth that you are scared of her dad, make up some reasons why you can't stay over,  or just invite her to your house even though your parents think she's weird.\nHonesty is usually the best way to go - you could try staying at her house one night and seeing how it is - if you don't like it you don't have to stay there again, it's just one night.  You might be surprised to find that her dad is a really nice person or if worse comes to worse and you still don't like him then just tell her the truth and don't stay there anymore.\nJust because your parents think she's weird doesn't mean you shouldn't have her over to your house.
697783
I was in the same boat.  My advice is to keep them happy, and tell them how much you're trying to get that job, or work hard at uni.  They wont stop, but at least they dont have too much of a reason to pester you.  After all, they are your parents and they probably just miss you - try not to cut them out of your life.  A sit down and chat session is reccommended: i had to sit my parents down and explain to them that im a big boy now, and to trust me to keep myself out of trouble and work hard.  They said they understand, but felt that they still needed to be parents to the baby of the family.  Keep your cool with them, they're only doing it cos they love you.
663178
Well, if you have tried flowers etc, then maybe it is time for you to see if her parents or a friend of hers can help you with this. Sometimes it takes more than one person to make someone understand what you've done wrong and that you feel badly for it. Get some help, get her mom or a sister or her friend to talk to her for you, tell them how sorry you are and that you want to do right by her. Then maybe you can set up a meeting with her and talk to her about it. I hope it works!:) I would suggest if she does take you back to go to a premarital counsellor, to help with things like constructive problem solving and how to compromise. It has really helped my marriage! Good luck and Peace:)
1043741
Send a sealed letter to her through your son or arrange a parent-teacher conference.  Rationally tell her, like you did here, exactly how you feel. Don't dwell on it, just ask if she could be a little more sensitive on this issue in the future. If she refuses or starts to get in your face, calmly tell her that because she is unable to address this issue civilly, you will arrange to have a meeting with her and the school principal.  Thank her for her time and then walk out if you are meeting in person.  If you are on the phone, thank her and then hang up.  Then, call the main office and set up an appointment to meet with the teacher and the principal.\n\nIf the teacher agrees to your request without any hoopla, thank her and then move on.  If you notice any further infractions, talk to her about it calmly.  If she is just placating you and then doing what she wants, make an appointment with the principal.\n\nAvoid negative discourse and you'll save yourself some nasty hassles.
1350
First thing I'd suggest is knowing your opponent .. in laymens terms .. ask your girlfriend as much about your parents as you can such as culter attitude and so on .. and past experiences with her last boyfriends that have had the in some cases unfortunante opportunity of meeting them. Once you know what type of people you'll be dealing with you'll be more at ease knowing you can handle what difficulties may come from them.
566644
You really must cut your ties! May I suggest that you take a few food items to her, explain that you cannot afford to do this on a regular basis. Once there, have a good look around the home. Is she still useing you? Should you contact the proper authorities because there really is no food?
919978
It's hard to like a parent like that. Sure you love them because they're the person that brought you into this world but your mom sounds self absorbed and miserable. Not much you can do about that and definitely don't take it personally. SHE has the problem.Shes too wrapped up in her own self to take notice of you and the sad thing is that that kind of behavior is HER loss.Keep the phonecalls short put a timer on in your kitchen when you know you're going to talk to her.Feel free to interupt her  and start talking about your own life whether you think she's interested in it or not.You weren't put on the earth only to service her needs. If she sounds lonely make brief suggestions for her to join some groups or other practical solutions to her problems.If she starts up with the same old stuff again the next time that you talk to her interupt her and tell her that she already told you about that and you want to know when she's going to do something about it.It might sound mean but it's really not.Not allowing her to go on and on is being kind to yourself and it forces her to  get the fact that you're not willing to listen to her if shes not willing to try to make the effort to solve her own problems.Good luck...
1110494
Tell them you need to go in to talk to your mum
301311
I'm sorry but your mom sux.She is obviously defensive.If you are of age you can become a citizen on your own.
203910
express your feelings to your parents respectfully but sternly. I'm sure it's not their fault that they can't get a bigger place just now so don't kick them while they are down with imancipaton(a low blow to parents). if you can afford to rent a place, how about helping them rent a larger place?\nif not, getting on your own is far better with parents support and experience. don't cut that off!!\n\nlow is the one that helps you hurt your parents.
697982
Tell her what you just told us.\nThat she ignored your feelings and betrayed your trust.\nTell her that you're very hurt by what she did and that she needs to respect your feelings, regardless of your age or the fact that you're "just her daughter".  You're still a human being like the rest of us.\nTell her that if she continues to betray your trust, you may end up not telling her anything at all.  No mother wants to be left out of their child's life, right?  Tell her that you want to be able to share ANYthing with her, but you feel that you can't now because of what she did.\nThis will probably make for a loooooong discussion, so make sure you're sitting down. ;)
1110731
The doctors are right, this is a case that calls for tough love.  There is only so much you can do for her, the rest she has to want to do for her self.  You've given all you can and it is now time for you to claim back your life and concentrate on you.  You need to set boundaries with her and make it clear that any help she receives from you in the future will be based upon is it helping her help herself to get better.  If it isn't then she needs to fend for herself.  I know you feel guilty and all because she is your child but even a child shouldn't be allowed to take advantage of their parents.  You deserve to have a happy and wonderful life and you can't do that unless you let her make her own way in the world and you concentrate on your own life.
52291
discuss with your syster that you can not continue like that because if you will continue like that you loose your school, and no body will care about you.\nIf she didn't find a solution try to find another place to study.