i have a fren that really likes me but i don't wanna be with him but he thinks im interested, what should i do
85008
u should tell him frankly that u dont like him. truth always works and creats little problem rather than lie.
568148
u should give him time, and if he doesn't like u that way thats fine to, just be glade you have him has a friend.
694489
Sounds like the 'I don't want to go out with you,but I don't want you going out or showing any interest what-so-ever in any one else' syndrom.Don't let him stop you from having a good time when your out and don't let him stop you from talking or even fancing another guy.He didn't want to be with you,thats his loss and somebody else's gain.If you allow it he will come between any relationship you form,even if its just friendships.Let him carry on acting like a spoilt and sulky child,just don't let him spoil things for you and yes,I think you would be better of just having him as a friend but,in all honesty,would you want him as a friend if he acts like this.
528634
hm well u are currently commited to someone that u apparent;y care about so dont just drop him because something doesnt feel right. but as for your friend, if he really likes u that much he should be respectful of the fact that ur in a relationship and if he wants something more he should wait untill u are available.
173246
u told him in a nice way that u dont want him, then let it go. u cant baby him through this. just assure him that you want to remain friends THATS ALL
528721
don't be rude, but try not to be overly friendly with him.. if he keeps insisiting on doing "friend things" then tell him how you really feel, because you don't want him to lead him on, or have him get the impression that you want to be friends with him..
372954
be his friend even though you don't want him as he does you I know he will be your best friend if you let him know up front i cant have this relationship with you but I would love to have you in my life. Men are persistent but if you give them a boundary they will push on it but stay where they should. you can always use a friend.
694163
Sounds like he likes you.  Maybe he is thinking to himself, why did I let her go ??  The only way to get rid of the feeling is to not see him all the time but now that your bf is friends with him that will be hard.
551688
i dont think he likes u (as wanting to be with u) he's just being nice to u and saying hi. well for now just stay friends and find out more about them and see which one u think is the one for u good luck and word of advice dont play with their emotions cause some one can get hurt
712495
Take a hint and stop pestering him.  He obviously isn't interested to be in a relationship with you.  I think he just wants to be your friend...that's all.  Take it or leave it.
484776
well first you need to decide if you do or dont like him that way if you dont then just sit him down and tell him ya know hey this was a big misunderstanding and your a great freind but im not ready for that type of relationship with you and im sure hel;; understand because guys bounce back much faster so no worries he will survive
484771
Maybe you need to back away b/c your sense of judgement is clouded by feelings for him and you are not open to having just a friendship with him yet! You need to tell him how you feel and just back up
742610
Well, the problem seems to be that neither of you are telling the other about your liking for him or her. Instead of assuming that you don't like him, why doesn't he ask you straight away? Then the problem would be solved in minutes.\nHis friends tell you that he likes you. Why don't they tell him that you like him too?\nAs it appears that neither the guy nor his friends aren't going to be of much help, you have to take the initiative to clear this misunderstanding. First talk to him on the phone and tell him that you want to talk about a very important matter in privacy. When you meet him at the appointed place (a sparsely crowded restaurant or a park) at the appointed time, tell him that you have been wanting to tell him something for a long time. And that it was for this purpose that you have invited him here. When he wants to know what it is, tell him about your feelings for him confidently. Next, ask what he thought about you. I think, things would move their own way after that. Best of luck.
258456
Go for it, if he doesn't feel the same and you want to keep the freindship...act like you were just curious and that it wasn't that big of a deal anyway. He may be thinking the same thing as you and you're both afraid to go for it. If you ever get signals from him in that way, he has feelings for you.
884399
Be honest...but a lttle white lie here and there is ok. I recommend: "Because I care about you so much I don't want to lead you on. You are a great person...and you have been so good to me. Right now...I need a friend...more than anything else. The feelings that I once had for you will always be in my heart. Right now I do not want to be in a relationship...I still really care about you...and I hope you will remain my friend." Now of course you should use your own words and express the way you feel in your heart. Make sure you use your judgement, your heart, and your feelings. I wish you the best of luck
301880
first i don't understand what you mean by not wanting to date him..and second always remember that friendship lasts longer than love most of the time
311413
just stay friend with him. if he ain't interested, there ain't much u can do about it anyway. just enjoy his complany. if he likes u even the least bit, it'll come out sometime during ur friendship. trust me. guys never hold back about these things!