My boyfriend for five months broke up with me a couple nights ago. I really miss him and I want him back.?
92592
Feelings are hard to understand.  My best advice is to give him time.  Give him space and do not call.  If you have changed, this is your time to prove it and lay off for a little while, if there is hope for the relationship, it will shine through.  However, be mentally and emotionally prepared for him to not come back.  In the end, this is not the last guy you will ever date, you're life might have just begun.
789947
its possible he needed time away but i never have ever believed in breaking up then getting back together. if he did sleep with other women then know it was when you were broken up and trust him. if you cant get over it and live happy then its you with the problem.
762749
Just b/c your the one who broke things off doesn't make it any less painful for you.  You are still going to go through the "missing him" part...  Just make sure you don't go back and forth on your decision and get back together with him.  Stick to your guns.  You made your decision, now stick with it.
247691
Be sure that you want to be with HIM, not with SOMEONE. Nothing has changed about whatever the situation was that broke you up.\n\nAside from that, just think of any excuse to call then see him. It will go from there.
1149632
It depends! Do you love him....want him back  - or do you love him.......want to sleep with him till you find someone to replace him? Well if you want him back  - STOP letting him come back. He is not secure with himself and needs someone that is secure with themselves. If he is coming back he needs a strong partner.\n\nIf you just want to sleep with him till you find someone new. Play the game till you get tired -  that is what he is doing. You will eventually get sick of it and move on. He will keep coming back as long as you let him he likes the familiarity.\n\nMight help.
168751
Just because the two of you broke up doesn't mean you can brake off your feelings. It's going to take time for you to get over how you feel but you can do it. Why did you guys brake up anyway? If the love you feel is that deep maybe you should try again with this guy. Maybe he feels the same way but is not sure how you feel, it's worth a try.
399514
if you really want him back too, i suggest you do..but if not, tell him straight out..i also suggest you rush thinking about it because if you take too long, he might pick up and leave, something you might not want to happen..
587272
Sounds like he just wanted an excuse to leave. Sorry if that sounds harsh, but its the vibe I get from your description. Try to move on and find someone who will love you and be honest with you. Best of Luck.
706831
I have felt like this so many times!  It sounds like you guys are spending too much time together. Maybe spending less time together would help.  So when you are apart you miss him and then it seems like a treat to get to see him.  Then when you finally get to see him it will be exciting.  If this feeling continues maybe you should think about the fact that maybe you really don't miss him, you just miss having someone around.
634516
you have to sort out all the pros and cons, Including, are you reading it wrong cause you want him back so much. \nAlso you need to ask yourself can you get over the things that caused you to break up last time\n\nBest of luck and i hope you enjoy yourself what ever happens
561814
He sounds like he isn't someone that you want to love, find someone else, his lost. good luck
744652
Wait until him and his girlfriend break up! Then if you really want you can have him back!
1163744
If he broke up with you to explore his options and regrets his decision now that it's not working out in his favor, TOO BAD! Do not take him back. He was selfish enough to end what you had to start something new, who's to say he won't repeat these actions. If you go back to him, he'll know you're weak and will prey on that as long as you give into whatever conveniences him. Just love yourself more than that. He doesn't even deserve someone as nice as you, you can do better. Good luck in love and life!
328889
I know how it feel to be broke up but want your ex back, it hurts badly, just see it like this, if it's meant for you to be together, he will come back on his on, if it's not, he won't...even if he does, if it's not meant to last, he will leave again, but if it is, eventually he will be there with you forever.....although nothing last forever, he will be with you until one of you die, so just hold on and see what happens, but remember, although you love him, if he doesn't come back, there are plenty others out ther that will be there, I had to make myself realize that, I thought that no-one else out there can make me feel like he did...A LIE!!! when there's something good there's always something better!!!! good luck!!
372552
go and talk to him...tell him you missed him..and ask for forgivness if it is possible.\n\nsomethimes we should try to be humble and admit our mistakes..or even if we were right, we should do it for getting back our ex...\n\nshow love and kindness..;
679360
His feelings are hurt.  He probably still likes you and realizes he made a mistake breaking up with you.  Give him some time.
576963
well just hope he comes back\n\nmake some new friends and get on with your life