I want a boyfriend but I don't want a Valentine. Should I really be this hyper over trying to get a boyfriend?
85103
Oh good greif  hes out there youll find him it might not be today or next week or even this year but at 13 you shouldnt worry about guys yet . you will find him hes looking for a girl just like you as well. its kizmit , fate.
283144
Nope, instead focus on school and friends. It's ok to be boy crazy just don't become boy stupid. Also, make them chase you. Trust me, you'll have pleanty of time to have a boyfriend. They will come and go. Your heart will get broken a few times before you meet the right one and he too may break your heart. Why would you want to deal with all that at 12.
204691
There's likely nothing at all wrong with you. In fact, you sound very young...just the way you type. I wouldn't worry abotu finding a boyfriend. It'll happen. I haven't dated in a while and for right now that's the best thing for me. Take your time, examine your options, flirt, etc. Just have fun being young and NOT feeling the weight of a relationship. Above all, don't start going out with a guy you're not positive about just because you feel lonely or incomplete. That's not being true to yourself.
796050
I am sure there are a lot of cute boys..  just dieing  to date you, probably as much as you are anxiously wanting to be with a boy.\nTry not to be in such a hurry. The whole dating thing can be such a pain... Guard your precious heart, it will be broken many times so don't give it away to easily.\nFor now... start by doing things with small groups of friends. Keep your relationships as friends, you will learn more about your self in what you really like or do not like in a boy. Some of these lessons are so hard and can hurt so bad...\nSo again I say "guard your precious heart"\n\nOh and good luck
499339
Don't panic. You are not going to die if you do not have a boyfriend. Trust that there are guys out there that are attracked to you and that when they get the courage to ask you out, they will do it. Don't second guess anything about yourself, and don't try to change yourself. Be yourself, and you will ultimatly be happier with yourself and with the guy that you are with when it happens.
569197
sometimes you have to wait for the guys to come to you. in the meantime, think of some things you really like in a guy. dont worry, you will get a boyfriend when the time is right. dont fret because all your friends have them, think of all the pro's and con's of having a boyfrind. patience is a virtue! :)
238798
He's one of those guys who likes you but gets scared when it comes time to risk his heart. He likes you, trust me. He's just scared. If you are more direct and aggressive then you will scare him off. And i also think that if he was more aggressive then you would not be so interested in pursuing him.\nTo reel him in, write him a love note with his name in a heart on it and then accidentally let it fall out of your binder in front of him. Or do something like that. Make him know that you like him but in a way that you aren't aggressive. \nOr do something, manipulate him, in a way that makes him believe that he is pursuing you. Tell him that you think he's super cute and you wish that he was your boyfriend but you know that he's too hot for you and that you're thinking about asking out (insert name here). Should I?\n\nJust manipulate him. You should already know how. You're a girl aren't you?
40989
I agree with everyone here, If you ask him out again you may seem a little desperate! Guys don't like that, and im guessing you dont want to get your feelings hurt again. I say find someone else to spend V-day with, Who knows maybe someone is dying to ask you! Don't go searching for someone though, When its right thell find you!!!
934892
Yes..i just don&#92;'t want...!\nIf you are single or going throught a break up and you are looking and need someone, please visit my site, join free and start dating:\nhttp://tinyurl.com/ykj7bm
70149
You don't - you get a boyfriend because you enjoy spending time with someone. Valentines day is just like any other day of the year - highly overrated!!\n\nIf you are in it just to get a teddy bear and a box of chocolates go buy them for yourself!
840686
It sounds like you are scared that what happened with your one boyfriend may happen with the next guy you fall for.  So take a moment step back and don't rush in to anything with anyone.  If you can manage it even take some time off for yourself and enjoy life.  Hang out with your friends or even your family and let your mind clear up.  Give it time and if you meet someone take it slow and let things mature and if it works out then great.  Otherwise if you do go out with a guy make sure to let them know that right now you are not looking for anything serious but are great with being friends first.  \n\nEither way don't rush it as fate (if you believe in it) will drop a bomb on you and next thing you know you are dating.
231669
Lower your superficial expectations.   Obviously, there is someone out there compatible for everyone.  It is just a game of statistics, lots of people, limited personalities/traits.\n\nAnyway, something you are holding as a prerequisite for dating is getting in the way of you finding your love.   Re-evaluate what you are looking for, and drop a few of your ideals.  I bet you will be suprised at who you find.
238236
I want a boyfriend but I dont want you. LOL :) I really dont know who you are so im not gonna just e-mail you. SOrry
1078302
Hey congradulations!!!!  Really.  Do you want to start dating right now.  If you do, go, go, and get going.  Okay.  Feel good about your decision and move along.\n\nYou are young.  If you feel sad and aren't interested in anyone right now, that's cool too.\n\nEnjoy your life,\nluv Ava
1127224
you don't go out and look for a boyfriend...when the right guy comes in your life, it'll happen....but take your time so you get a Good boyfriend...
299364
Absolutely not! Just tell him you needed some time because it came as a shock and ask yourself if you want to date him ; if not ... try to explain him kindly that you don't really think about him as being your boyfriend and that this wouldn't be fair to him in the end
1041038
HI May be you are trying to hard.and being funny all the time they may think you are just one of the boys. and if you are a dare devil. it may put them off. try being more like a girl than a tomboy.and don't be in to much of a rush to get a bf. i bet if you just in-joy yourself with your girlfriends that special  boy will come along.best wishes sammylee,