Is a guy ever trustworthy after they have cheated?
84750
i think it is possible for a man to cheat and then not  do it again. the only problem is that you will never forget what happened. and no matter how much he says to try to convince you that he will never do it again, it possible that in your mind he will always be a cheater, therefore you may not be able to trust him.\n\nyou have to make a promise to yourself that if you forgive him, you also have to forget.\n\nalso, if you do forgive him for cheating, it shows him that that is something that you are willing to forgive. because you show that cheating is forgivable, he may do it again.\n\ngood luck with your decision - it is a hard one.
238274
I'm going to be honest.  You may never re-earn your boyfriend's trust.  If I were him, I would break up with you right away.  You were a jerk for cheating.
985819
say NO. Once a cheat, ALWAYS a cheat. If he cheated then, how do you know he wont cheat now? If he lied then, how do you know he wont lie now? If you DO go back out with him you'll have to walk on eggshells the whole time because you'll be wondering in the back of your head "was he really where he told me he was, with the people he told me he was with, or was he somewhere else with somewhere else" Which saying those thigns to him or asking him alot will just lead to fights. A relationship is nothing without trust and it takes a long time to re-build trust after someone cheated/lied to you. Find someone out there who WONT do that to you, this guy sounds like a loser, and there are millions of guys out there that arent losers, so go find one! good luck!
1125989
No there are some real Men/ boys. I have never cheated on my girlfriends . I would be broken up with the one I dated then I would start dating someone  after that.I had A girlfriend cheat on me and I didn't like it so I would never want any woman to go thought what I had to it is not fair to the person I'm with
188166
It's not just women who do that, men do as well. There are NO guarantees that she won't cheat again. The question is, do you want to take that chance? I always say, if they cheat once they'll do it again.
140159
Would you trust this man???
360237
its tough..i wouldnt be able to trust..i'd be tempted to but i think we would just end up moving around in circles..and i've learnt this from experience..although i always tried my best still i ended up with the wrong end of the stick..you end up givin it a try cause u will be blinded by the memories but the facts wud be extremely different.. if they cheated on you, or hurt you once then you dont deserve them..cause they might if given the opportunity do it again and again.. just look ahead and move on you will find a person that will honestly love you someday..
278419
Boy FIND SOMEONE else "once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater"  They may not think they are cheating now but they just cant help it.. They will never change!  Trust me Im a girl!!
160000
i agree- once a cheater....  if he cheated on his wife and is willing to leave her, is this really the type of person you want to be with!?!?!  seems like a set up for heartbreak!
932044
you need to deal with your trust issues before you can move forward in any relationship, your jealousy and lack of trust will only bring the relationship down, talk to a professional about the issues you have and how to resolve them, not all men cheat and sometimes you have to have faith that you are with a good guy it may be hard given what has happened before but if you do what you plan such as the testing etc you could potentially drive a good guy away all based on your baggage from a previous relationship....
119912
If you doubt he loves you now than it is probably true. Also I would not want to be with someone who cheated on me. He will do it again if given the chance
217250
depends....if she cheats on him with you, can you trust her in the future?
491967
Sorry angel,  You will never know if he will do it again, how did you find out the 1st time? I mean did he tell you or did you find out? was it 1 time or 100 times? If he cheated then he would lie about how many times he cheated. You are the only person that can determine if you can trust him again or not. You have to decide weather the relationship is worth the worrying or not worth it and find someone to be with that you can trust.  good luck  god bless
840243
Some people will do whatever they can to get what they want, but other people might try to do the right thing.  Stick to the type of people that you yourself are.  Not all men are lying cheaters.
150364
my personally opioinon is yes. i would give him what he deserves and then after he sees ive been cheating ill leave him. a cheater will always be a cheater. if he cheats on you once he will cheat on you again, even if he tells you he will stop if you stay.but truth is he wont.so if you choose to cheat on him back, that would hurt him and then to see you leave will make him know he ;ost something great.if i were you thats what i would do.
449676
NO! once a cheater always a cheater!
112931
I could forgive but I wouldn't stay with someone who had cheated on me. A good relationship has to be based on trust and love. Without the strong foundation of trust, the relationship will crumble. After someone has cheated you would always have to wonder and worry. Each time they were late, or didn't call, or acted differently you would wonder if they were cheating again. You can't have a good, loving, trusting relationship under those circumstances. I would also strongly doubt their love for me if they cheated. If someone truly loves you, then they wouldn't want to cheat on you. In their mind there would be noone better than you and they wouldn't risk the relationship with you for something as superficial as sex with someone they aren't in love with.