Why does love hurt ??
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I feel for you! \nYour husband should undersatnd that without communication between you and him, things won't get better. He needs to open up and share his feelings. You will have to let him know how you feel about your relationship with him. Tell him how you hurt inside and you need his emotional and mental support.
500597
That's called heartache. It's not really the heart that hurts, but it is muscles affected by the upper stomach. Our nerves can affect these muscles in many ways, but grief--which is what we feel when we lose a lover--is a potent trigger of sensation here. We say we feel like we've just been kicked in the stomach when we break up with a lover. And that is the sensation, to a lesser extent, that grief leaves us with. You can condition yourself to experience this pain so that it is worse for you; or we can learn what it is and learn to cope with it, but for only a brief time. Grief is natural, living for long with the pain of grief is not.
232782
there is no love.\nhow old r u?\n\npeople always hurt other people, just because act in their own interests, forget about everything ang go get laid
498360
Um...okay I wrote something on your first question before in a fanfiction. Don't mind the weird name:\n\nYukito sat there thoughtfully and said, “I honestly, don’t know. I’ve never experienced love. I’ll try my best. But... I imagine love as something that takes is own course and is one of the things that fate cannot control. It’s a feeling of  hurt, and joy. Words cannot describe it. It’s like a sacrifice, yet a joy, a curse, yet a gift. We have the gift to love, but love is a strong feeling that can control other senses. Just by hearing someone you love say “I hate you.” could make you do anything.”\n“It’ll make you be angry or sad or make you feel like a total idiot. It is deceiving and sneaky. When you think you love someone, one day you may just think “I don’t like them.”. It leaves you even more alone in the end than when you didn’t love them. But as you go on you gain an understanding of what love is, and maybe be able to find it. No one forces us to love, it just happens. And we ourselves in the end are responsible."\n\nOkay, I'm a pessimist that doesn't reslly beleive in love (it's nice to imagine though) so if you don't agree, don't fret. The world is a big place, you're probably not alone. You sound young (not that I'm not either) so you'll bounce back. I've got a lot more crap on stuff like this so if you want to read, I suggest clicking the link on my profile. Don't worry, love will find you. I hope I did SOMETHING to help.
700399
No one ever said love was easy....... Sorry for your pain ....but in time ....it will heal
1119712
love and heartache????
298326
it feels like quick heart beats, always thinking about th one u love, wanting to be always near him, want to please him by every way possible u can do. Feel hurt wn u miss him. wn love is perfect it is like heaven, wn it is not it is much heart & pain & hell.
1024352
I don't understand why.  I hate hurting someone's feelings.  It's a horrible feeling, ya know?
283237
Simple!  Love hurts because you open your heart, and become vulnerable, or susceptible to being hurt!  It's like lowering your defenses!  But you know what they say, 'to have never loved, is to have never lived' or something like that!
36297
yes love hurts i do not care how in love you are it just really hurts . when you are dealen wth a broken heart you first need to find out if you ever have a second chance wth that person or not and if you have no chanch you just program your self to forget that person and you just tell yourself that you are beter off wthout him. its the hardest thang to do expecialy when you are still in love wth them but you have to realize that its not going to do you any good to sit around  feelen sorry for your self you get out there and act like you have every thang in the world going for you do not let yourself get depressed over it go out there and do somthing it will help you and the other party involved
182057
The hurt never goes away... sometimes if your lucky it will ease.. but there will always be a song, a voice, a scent..etc.. that will remind you of your lost love... the wounds may ease but the scars upon ones heart never heals.
576413
Yeah. When you've been hurt so badly, you block out every emotion except pain and sadness. You don't necessarily physically hurt; but the emotional pain is unbearable. It doesn't last forever though. Talk to a counselor or a close friend/relative. Sorry honey!!!! P.S. Right category.
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I've had a problem with the same question. I've come to find out that if you really love someone and you seperate or your away for a while and you can't stop thinking of them and it begins to hurt, your in love. But, if the same thing happens and the only thing you really miss is being shacked up with them then it's lust. Love is very complicated and very painful. No words can ever express real love it's something that you feel deep down. Love can be different things to different people it really depends on you. Sit down alone and think about it.
102520
maybe your sensitive and emotional.and im sure there is someone who can understand you.try to understand exactly how your heart feels that way it will be easier for you to tell people how you feel.so you wouldn't get hurt that easy.
904841
Everthing you need to know about love ........\n\nWhat is love? When we claim that it's love that we have for someone, are we correct? Something to ponder upon..... Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing and is your voice caught within your chest? It isn't love, it's like. You can't keep your eyes or hands off of them, am I right? It isn't love, it's lust. Are you proud, and eager to show them off? It isn't love, it's luck. Do you want them because you know they're there? It isn't love, it's loneliness. Are you there because it's what everyone wants? It isn't love, it's loyalty. Are you there because they kissed you, or held your hand? It isn't love, it's low confidence. Do you stay for their confessions of love, because you don't want to hurt them? It isn't love, it's pity. Do you belong to them because their sight makes your heart skip a beat? It isn't love, it's infatuation. Do you pardon their faults because you care about them? It isn't love, it's friendship. Do you tell them every day they are the only one you think of? It isn't love, it's a lie. Are you willing to give all of your favourite things for their sake? It isn't love, it's charity. Does your heart ache and break when they're sad? Then it's love. Do you cry for their pain, even when they're strong? Then it's love. Do their eyes see your true heart, and touch your soul so deeply it hurts? Then it's love. Do you stay because a blinding, incomprehensible mix of pain and relation pulls you close and holds you there? Then it's love. Do you accept their faults because they're a part of who they are? Then it's love. Are you attracted to others, but stay with them faithfully without regret? Then it's love. Would you allow them to leave you, not because they want to but because they have to? Then its love. Would you give them your heart, your life, your death? Then it's love. Now, if love is painful, and tortures us so, why do we love? Why is it all we search for in life? This pain, this agony? Why is it all we long for? This torture, this powerful death of self? Why? The answer is so simple cause it's...LOVE. It is such an addiction that even people who are not having it wish to experience and share it with someone! \n\n\ngood luck & god bless
564422
If it doesn't hurt its not love.what hurts u makes u stronger.love is life an life is love.
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because, usually when we do it, you have broken our heart.  So, for our emotional pain, you get physical pain.  Either that, or you just needed to get a swift kick in the balls.