how do i get a girlfriend all the ppl i ask out say no :(:( lol?
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Do NOT try to 'impress' any girl, with your 'fast tempo', Chris : the girls' instincts will immediately alert them to start running at an even faster tempo ! No girl likes a boy who boasts about being a 'fast guy', because the general impression is that 'fast' pals do not last !\n...Instead, show that you are 'real kuul' [that's the new spelling for 'cool' !], man - by behaving in an extremely calm and self-confident way, that will be reassuring to a girl, who hardly knows you yet !  \nDo NOT talk about yourself for starters - but ask her about her studies/work, interests, hobbies, and all that. \n...Make the girl feel 'safe', that a 'date' with you will not merely mean 2-3 hours of only listening to your self-praise. Show her, that you can be a good LISTENER - who will give her ample chances to discuss her hopes and ambitions as well.\n...Take good care that your eyes do not keep straying all over her anatomy - for any girl feels cheesed-off by that ! And make sure that your body language doesn't keep sending messages that it is only her 'beautiful brown body' that interests you.   \n...This time, you will definitely get your 'date' for sure, chum.\nBest 'o Luck.
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Just be yourself. don't pretend to be anything you're not. Be kind and polite. Don't use corny or cheesy pick up lines. and just have fun and enjoy yourself. Don't think badly of yourself. i mean just go up to her nice and casual and start a friendly conversation with her. I mean the worst that could happen is that she turns you down. Or you freeze up and she starts laughing in your face.  But i mean at least you know that you tried. Don't go hide under a rock each time a girl turns you down. there will be alot of that in your life. Just learn from your mistakes.  There are plenty of girls out there that will accept you for who you are. You just got to look. Good luck with your problem though. I wish you the best, and know that you will find luck eventually. Just don't stop believing.
519268
its simple, just ask her out... or pass her a note... thats how i got asked out
473087
You can never 'get' a girl to love you... she needs to want to offer you her love.  ASK HER to go out with you.... stop the guessing game
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I think it might help if you could change your perspective and try to see it from a woman's point of view.\n\nObviously, if the person you want to ask out is someone you have strong feelings for... you have have a lot at stake emotionally and that's going to be scary for anyone.\n\nBut, in general, having someone take an active interest in you or ask you out is flattering... even if you are already in a relationship (sometimes, especially so!), you aren't in a "dating" place in your life right then,  or if the person asking doesn't click for you.\n\nSo, don't make it about whether or not YOU get a date.  Just make it about giving HER something to smile about, maybe.\n\nAlso, please remember that most of us HATE hurting guys with rejection... so if you really want to leave her with a smile, you have to look like it would make you happy if she said yes, but doesn't crush you to the core if she says no.\n\nIf it REALLY freaks you out to approach women, I have two suggestions:\n\n1) Get into something where you are around women more... join a book club or a take a class and get in a study group with women... it gives you guaranteed stuff to talk about and is very good practice.\n\n2) Set up minimum attempts each week.  Start with just one a week.  Whether she says yes or no isn't the point.  It's good practice... and after a while you'll feel more comfortable with it - especially if you luck out with a "yes" every now and then.  (PS Don't start by asking the women out where you work.  It looks really bad when guys do the "rounds".  The complement becomes an insult at that point.)\n\nBest of luck!
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Just be yourself like I am.One day this guy asked me out and i said no after that all the guys started paying attention to me and now i'm in high school they are still think i'm atractive even the people i'm not friends with.good luck and remember be yourself.
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Dude, I used to be in the same exact boat as you. I never thought I'd get a girlfriend...So I stopped trying. A few days later, I actually got a girlfriend. One year later we are still together and are both very happy. So, just stop trying to get a girlfriend...Go hang around with friends and stuff, you'll most likely meet a girl, and just be yourself. Also, be very confident. If you don't like yourself...who else will?
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well, u just have to make way on ur shynessor ur never gonna get to hook up w/no1.....just be nice, smile, make sweet jokes..just go for it dude! in the nicest way u can, have that in mind, cus we like to be approached nicely, dont be shy but dont u ever try to get our attention ridiculizing us in front of others, for a change, thats completly not correct if u want to get through ur shyness w/chicks...just be urself in the nicest way u can ok!
20966
You're still so young!\n\nDon't worry about trying to get a girlfriend. Just have fun.
325495
Get a girlfriend and find out!
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Dude I'm in the same situation. Now I'm Not going to give you some dumbass answer like some people because i know it's hard to ask a popular girl out. Just start a conversation with her, Flirt with her and then casually say hey do you want to go to the movies this Saturday. It works buddy.
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be yourself and calm.  No cheesy pick up lines and just talk to her.  Be kind to her, make jokes with her.  Maybe she likes u too and wants you to ask her out.
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TAKE COURAGE ! THERE IS HOPE.\n\nTry to be yourself in front of girls and don't be afraid of them. They won't bite you. Don't be like "OOh, what am I gonna do?" kind of thing when you are talking to them. Build your confidence by going to the gym, learn some skills, wear presentable clothes, improve your communication skills then I'm sure along the way, you will find yourself having a hard time choosing the best girlfriend.\n\n\nTry this as well: \n\n1. Start with your interests/sports. Hang out with your friends in those places (say, bowling alleys, swimming pools, etc.)\n2. Carry yourself modestly. Don't overdo it. \n3. A well behaved men sometimes attract women (i think).\n4. Attend parties for singles.\n5. Ask for referrals.\n6. don't go to the bars (it's risky).\n7. If you are good to one girl, this will be passed around in a jiffy. And you will meet more girls...for you to choose from.\n\nALL THE BEST.
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Get a girlfriend.  Then it isn't illegal!
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Ask her anyway. If she says no (most likely because she has a boyfriend) be friends with her. You don't need to be shy you only have one life so you might as well make it fun and loud!
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First off nobody needs a girlfriend. Being shy is a hardship for dating I know.I can tell you though just be yourself and someone special will find you. Try being friends with some girls first have some of your guy friends and some girl friends hang out somewhere. Having a friend that is a girl is a way to get to know what other girls like too. Good Luck and remember you do not need a girlfriend to be happy and go out and have fun.
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Seen those Nike ads?  JUST DO IT!  It will get easier and easier every time.  And guess what, you will get rejected more often than not, but you gotta shake it off!  Its possible you're catching her at the wrong time, she's a lesbian, she's in a relationship, she's too busy, or she's just not attracted to you.  Who cares though!  There are a zillion other Chicky's out there!  Keep on trucking!