Im loosing my mind, My boyfriend is on house arrest...?
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Please see a school counsellor as soon as possible.  Or call a help line right now.  Do you have a family member or other reliable adult you can talk too? Don't wait.  Get help now.
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LMAO at the previous answer!\n\nSeriously, if you are into a mess like that, I think you should get your stoned butt off the computer and on the the phone with a lawyer and on the phone with a rehab place or something.  \n\nBut in regards to your boyfriend, honey I am sure you can do a lot better with someone that WON'T have a criminal record and doesn't do that crap.\n\n\n*I mean YOU as a general term.
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from my experience, he is in contempt of court by not following the judges orders.  this is pretty devious but it was done to me and it worked wonders...have an order of protection put on him and request custody of your daughter.  order of protection are much more than a restraining order.  police action will be taken anytime you request.  of course all you have to do is tell your lawyer or just go to the special victims unit and that you feel your life is in danger or has been threatened.  he will be screwed.  it still haunts me.  police used to call my cell phone and ask we i was at the moment.  all because she said i drove by the house.  none of what she told the police was true, and it didn't matter.  that order of protection sucks.  anytime he violates it, automatic 10 days in jail.  its dirty but its one way to stick it to him.  good luck.  oh, and there was no investigation to see if she was even telling the truth.  they just issued it and enforced it.
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You did the right thing. I am so sorry that you were put that abuse. \n\nStay on the right track; and do not allow his words of "sorry" etc let this man back into your life under any circumstance. He is unstable right now and anything could happen. \n\nAlert any and all neighbors if they should see his vehicle around to contact the police. I know that sounds bad; and you don't want your personal issues hung out on the clothes line. But you don't have to give them a reason other than he is court ordered to stay away for serious reasons. \n\nThis man should not be allowed visitiation of the children unless it is supervised either. You need to protect yourself and your children around this man. I would get that in the works as soon as possible.\n\nHopefully he will get some help and this will cease. \n\nStop feeling low about it because you're allowing this man to continue to abuse you by taking on his issues. Be proud of yourself and thankful that you are alive today! Let it go and concentrate on your future. You are strong and I am so very proud of you. \n\nGood luck to you sweetie and God Bless.
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I would'nt go see him. His behavior proves that he's not truly the man you see on the outside. People like this are good at putting on the mask that'll work to get them what they want out of you. I'm sad to have to say it, but it's the truth.  Especially if he's locked up, you'll become an outlet for his manipulative personality. Don't give him the satisfaction of knowing you're wrestling with feelings for him. It'll only stroke his ego. Winning him back would only result in an unhealthy co-dependant relationshiip. This type of user psychology need to be desired and needed by others to floati it's ego. You'd likely convince yourself that you DO need him. And you don't honestly. Being happy with yourself is critical before one can be truly happy with another.
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if you love and respect this guy you will hold off on this.  honor him for his respect of the law and of not wanting to put himself in a position to end up in jail. i understand you have feelings that are strong but imagine what you would feel like if he got locked up and made to register as a sex offender. i can assure you that if you two had to deal with those issues you would have gladly waited. i know its hard but hang in there, and know that before you know it you will be of legal age and the wait will be worth it!
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Ashley, you've asked this question twice now. This one looks like you did it. Doubt it, since I don't think you'd have a chance to play on the computer in jail. Your boyfriend, right? Better start calling him your "friend" and go play with another "boy", a good one this time!
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Knowing that you just hung up on him, wait until tomorrow or the next day, just to calm your nerves.  Find out if y'all can meet somewhere and discuss the problem.  But if chooses to remain stubborn, do others things to take your mind off of him.  It may take some time, but it can be accomplished.  I was in a situation similar to yours.  Don't waste your time thinking about someone who doesn't respect your wishes.
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The best solution is for you to find a safe place to go and get there!  He needs counseling and a little jail time.
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personally, i just found drugs in my boyfriends truck, we live together i moved 6 hours from home to come here with him and he has completely changed lately, i don't even recognize him anymore there is nothing left of the man i used to love, this guy is mean and doesn't care about anything as far as i can see, at least now i know why but it doesn't change the fact that i am here, have no family, no place to go back to, no job, no money, not even a car to use to go find one, no friends here and nobody to talk to, the only option i've been able to find is a 30 day shelter but what if i can't build an entire life in 30 days? then i hit the streets, too scared to leave but afraid of losing my mind if i stay. i'm trying to answer some questions here and take my mind off of it, its not working, but thanks for asking
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Write him as often you can and say a prayer for him everynight.  I can guarantee you that he is over there thinking of you, and knows that what he is doing is going to protect you and your family in the long run.  Don't worry he'll be home safe.  God Bless.
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Sounds like he's doing drugs.\nIf he has been physically abusive it is time to get out no matter how much you think you love the guy.\nThere is someone else that will treat you better.
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All is not well in your home tonight....there is lying and deception going on.....and not by you. He is lying to you, and using you. Tell him to tell the truth, or get out! After he tells you the truth, then you tell him to get out, cause you ain't gonna like what he tells you. Good Luck!
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The police will not do anything nor will they protect you. If you do go to court and get a Personal Protection Order that is just a piece of paper and the paper will not stop a bullet or him hurting you. I assume that you are a mature adult and I know that you know that this means trouble for you. However, with that said go online here and check to see if your State has stalking laws. Michigan does have stalking laws. Then to clam yourself down hire a private investigator to get all the information you need on this creep before you go to the police. I had work done for me for only 50.00 dollars regarding a woman that was following me but, I assume you would want him followed to see if he is following you which will cost you more then 50.00 dollars. Private Detectives are reasonable and you can find a good one online by typing in your search engine. Also the yellow pages is another resource. If you broke up with him because he was abusive you now must secure your life. I'm a Unites State Marine and can merely suggest that you have someone with you all the time. For now don't do anything to make his rage any hotter. Do not go anywhere alone and don't come home late. Stay out of the bars and clubs and get a plan together. Secure you life to the fullest and take action. If you are alone at all that will be the time he may strike if he is that violent. You have to have solid evidence before the police and a Judge will do anything.  The evidence must stick.  Also, start taking photo's of him doing this....Fight the fight before he wins and hurts you. Good Luck!
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I'm sorry this happened to you.  If he's been to your home, CALL THE POLICE.  Do not mess around with this.  If you live with your parents, TELL THEM RIGHT AWAY.  If you're on  your own, TELL THE POLICE.  \n\nThank you for the heads up, but please, protect yourself!
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Hi there. You need to go out for a long walk in the evening, take a friend with you go blow the cobwebs away.  The more you mope around the house the more lethargic you will be. Confide in a real close friend how you feel.  More pressing is the issue of the headaches. You should really go see the doc. 5 months is a long long time away from your boyfriend. Are you sure you could not get 1 public holiday day together?  They do say that NOTHING ON THIS EARTH stops you from being able to get to a loved one.  Is it that your boyfriend is the one avoiding a meet?  talk with him, if you reall love each other here will be a way you can be together, at least for a statutory holiday day Good luck honey.
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I HOPE U TOLD BF#2 ABOUT  BF ON LOCKDOWN. IF HE IS A BIG BOY HE'LL UNDERSTAND THAT IT WAS JUST ONE OF THEM THANGS.AND I HOPE YOU DON'T THINK FOR ONE MINUTE THAT THE BOYFRIEND IN JAIL BELIEVES YOU WERE FAITHFUL WHILE HE WAS AWAY.