what im gonna do to boost up my self confidence?
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Jealousy is a heck of a demon to fight. Start maybe with trusting yourself and then your man. As trust is one of main cornerstones of a relationship. Sometimes jealousy is warranted, does he flirt alot when you are right there? That can be uncomfortable. Let him know what he is doing, if he does that and how it makes you feel like a piece of garbage, that he pays attention to another when you are right there. Then again some guys are born flirters and heck they don't even know they are doing it until they get in over their heads and someone takes them seriously.. Your self confidence, is by far the most important thing and has nothing to do with jealousy. It is believing in yourself, your dreams and ideals. It really isn't all that difficult and though so many will try to knock you down in life, you just have to get right back up and know that you are who you are and if they don't like it to friggin bad.\n To many are falling for this idea that there self confidence is no good, it is a way to get you into therapy. There are alot of great websites that will just give you a thought a day. It is thinking positive, yeah negative stuff is going to happen, but you know you can pull through it and that is what counts. Never let anyone tell you different
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Think of how much you mean to your loved ones. Another way to raise self-esteem is to volunteer someplace like Habitat for Humanity, you help others and that makes you feel good about yourself too.
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Just remember that YOU are in control of yourself and say to yourself that you will gain self confidence ... with that in mind, here are some great sources for you to explore:\n\nhttp://www.instantinnerpower.com/\nhttp://www.school-for-champions.com/excellence/confidence.htm\nhttp://wywy.essortment.com/howtogainco_rfbl.htm\n\nGOOD LUCK!!
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Have a little more confidence.And take it slowly.I'm a guy so can only tell you what I like.
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relax and be yourself, and you will gain confidence around women.  they won't bite or hurt you, they like you
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You should psych yourself by relaxing, giving yourself a "confidence boosting talk", you know, you can do this, you KNOW this, etc. and just walk into it with assurance. Good luck!
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build up some confidence you little sh**
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talk to a friend who has already aced it, to build your own self-confidence.  Remember some of those who have already passed it.  If they did, you know you can do it.
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u have to have confidence in your self and make urself more attractive!!!LOL!!GOOD LUCK!!!
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Believe and have confidence in yourself.
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have confidence! and smile a lot!!
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Well your obviously seriously lacking self-esteem, which means that you need to start building some. Here is a magic trick with socializing... 90% of the time, if you have complete confidence in yourself as you are saying something, people will simply see you as cool simply based on your attitude and the way that you carry yourself. But the biggest weapon of all is to not even worry about how others judge you so much. \n   Maybe you didnt say the coolest thing in comparison to the other hotshots around you, and maybe you dont have the latest athletic shoes or the newest video game, but it doesnt matter. Most of the men and women within our American society are heavily influenced by the latest fad or the newest trend. You have a champion within yourself, and you need to locate it. Find self confidence by discovering something that you are passionate about, and then challenge yourself daily. Let the other chumps follow a trend, you will follow your dreams. \n   When you find self-confidence, you really wont care what others think of you, and you will naturally attract people and convince them that you are a "cool" person. Good luck.
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you can boost your confidence by taking risks, e.g changing your hair color or changing the way you dress. But the truth of the matter is not about whats on the outside. You have to be positive about yourself, if you have big feet what are you going to do about it? cut them off just to fit in? ofcuse not. Except yourself the way you are for who you are and love every inch of yourself and trust me those big feet will be the cent re of your beauty. It's about you so make the best of it.
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Have you thought of counselling? That may be the 'easier' road you are looking for. Ultimately though, you will have to talk to others in social events to be able to learn to do it with confidence. Experiencing life like travelling, can be a good way to build your confidence, for the more you know about something, the more you can talk about it with passion.\nGaining a better view of ones self (self esteem) can also come when presented with challenges that one overcomes, so challenge yourself-give yourself tasks that you know are hard, but that you are able to overcome. Do you have a fear of spiders for example? Overcome that and you will certainly want to tell people about it! I did!!\n If you would like to chat more about it, feel free to email me from the link at my avatar and I'll try to help.\n\nbest of luck
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No one can make you more confident.  You have to do that for yourself.  If you go looking for some guy to boost your self-esteem, you'll attract a guy who will tell you anything you want to hear to get you in bed, & from what you are saying, that isn't something you are ready for at this time in your life.  Right now, you need to focus on you.  Try to work on school, a job, & make the most of yourself.  If you start setting new, realistic goals for yourself & achieving them, your confidence can't help but go up, & guys will notice this.  Good luck.
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You Can Improve your confidence by believeing in yourself. That works alot, And when you want to do something that you fear, just go along with it and say i can do this! Another way is to watch what you fear most, watching other people do your fear, or face your fear might make you get more confidence that way.
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hey u dont need to do something to build your confidence\njust think that u r confident and thats all. u r cool\nnothing is wrong in the world even an unworking clock showes the time correctly twice a day