how i can express to my newly engage friend?
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Well, not really sure what you mean but if it is really a friend you should be able to tell them whatever you want.  They may not want to hear what you have to say, but they would have to be selfish not to respect it.  I find honesty with friends is the most important thing because friends can always see things that someone in a relationship may be too blind to see, or may want to lie to themselves about.  Friends know how we normally act and can tell if we are happy, so if they see otherwise it is their place to say so. They may get upset, but just be honest, a true friend will be a friend til the end.
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Well dear, the English language, although among the richest, is still poor to express certain issues. \nLove! Is Love a feeling or a property of a person? I think the second! Thus, if you are a person who love, then you love and you love everyone and everything! That is great! Congratulations!\nNow, since you love, you love your friends, also, regardless of their customs, attractions, wills, etc. What you are asking in if you should do what you do not like, am I right? \nIn the case you do not like something, you do not do this, because your closest and best friend is yourself! Yourself will never turn you down, or at least more than you will do to her!\nALso, we have many friends who either drink a lot, or smoke or take drags, ..., we get with them and try to influence them to soemthing we consider better! Others are doing thing we consider them fine, although those activities are not our style! Etc. We get together with them. We enjoy what we can communicate each other! Same way with your friend! You remain friends, but you should do what you really want! If you cchange, your friends will not like you any more, you will be done aanother person! If they like the new you and the new you is less good that the previous, run away, those might not be good friends, might not even be any kind of friends!\nNow, if she would bring another boyfriend, what would you think? How would you react?\nIt all depends on how you feel, what kind of girlfriend she is, what you want out of this relation, ...\nI might enjoy both of them and look around for another relation!!!!
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Charlotte - just tell him that if you are going to be friends, you expect him to act like one and talk to you.\n\nYou gotta remember, we're used to male friends... who don't care (or remember) the last time we spoke.  We can resume a friendship after a LONG absence with just a handshake and a brief conversation.\n\nSo - you have to ACTUALLY tell the guy.  We're pretty good about following up if we're interested and the relationship fits our current needs/plans/expectations.  Just don't expect a lot of messages with deep thought involved.
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I wouldn't recommend telling him you love him if you've never spoken to him before- maybe it's just me, but that might freak someone out a little bit!  You should start by saying hello, make some small talk, then leave.  Next time you can make more small talk and gradually increase getting to know him over a few days/weeks/etc.- and letting him get to know you!  Let your friendship progress and maybe something more will come out of it.\n\ngood luck!
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ermm ... just slightly hint to her that you want to be friends and device a plan so she comes to see your question over here . make sure that she KNOWS that this question is about her .
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find a nice way to tell het that s what friends are for
657555
Tell the person that you're starting to have feelings for them, but be casual about it.  Don't be all dramatic and over the top just bring it up in a casual situation like having him over for a drink or something and just start talking about it.  Usually if you approach it casually you won't get a huge reaction as a result of it.  Keep a little distance and if they're not interested then just let it go.  But you'll never know if it could happen unless you ask.
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Gift him greeting made and written by you...where you can express your feelings about him and what you feel about him....
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How do I say "I love you."\n\nFirst.... before I go into that I will make a correction. The guy that said "study English first" ... I have this too say. "I did not mean too give you a thumbs up. I appologize for sending you mixed signals."\n\nNext... the QUESTION!\n\nWhen you love somebody how do you say too that perosn "I love you"?\n\nThat is TRUELY a hard question too answer. Too confess something like that is a very brave thing too do. You are completely vulnerable and alone in the world when it happens.\n\nI do feel for your situation.\n\nThe way I aproach it is too view that moment as the last moment I have on earth. Face the person. Gently hold thier face in your hands. And say. "This may be hard for you too accept. I understand if it's unrecipricated. I just need you too know this simple fact. I love you."\n\nAnd then you wait for the hammer too fall.\n\nI wish it could be easier. I wish there wasn't so much at risk.... but this is the nature of love.
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tell him what u just wrote
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" honesty is the best policy" Be honest of your feelings towards him. Don't let that feelings towards you become an hindrances as being a good friend. Be open minded..
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just be honest with her and say it friendly!
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Jen,\n\nThere is no easy way of doing this. You have to be straight and honest with him and you may even need to be painfully blunt. Teenage boys are notorious for hearing what they want to hear so you saying friend may sound to him like not now but maybe later.\n\nIn the long term the quick band aid approach always works best.
274609
That great my friend you have just started a wonderful relationship. What next:\nGo out with him
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Tell her how you feel.  She'll either be flattered and say let's remain friends -- or be overjoyed that you finally noticed.
832557
Start with passing a polite smile whenever you pass her. Move on to wave a 'Hi' when you both happen to look at each other. Go and ask for her notebook for some notes you want to have (Wink! Wink!) and then go and give it back to her and say, "Thanks". Repeat this four or five times and then take her notebook to home, change the covers to a brand new one and say that your dog/nephew/sibling accidentally tore it and thus, you put a new one on and that you are sorry. Then ask her with a big friendly smile and casual approach, "Hey ____! Will you be my friend?" and if she says 'Yes', say Okay and exchange a High Five. If she looks to your eyes to interpret your meaning of friendship, don't let her know the truth. (Wink! Wink! again) Befriend her and care for her. The things will take course on their own from there.
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Be honest and straightforward. He probably already knows you aren't the wordsmith and anyone else's words won't be authentic. If you're really stuck, quote a poem, song  or movie line that you feel really explains your feelings. And call it out! \n\nLike "I'm not always the best with words, so I'll rely on the experts to express how i feel about you..." \n\nYou could even plan the song (if its a song) just as he opens the card to make it a little more fun.