how do you keep out a 3 yearold sister from your room?
80844
Install a privacy lock.
224193
Make a day that you can take her with you. Set it up with your friends, and tell them that you know its a bother to do so, but you want to make her happy too. Then head to the park or something.. Hang for about an hour or so... Tell your sister that she can come hang with you all, but only for a hour, then its time for her to head home and find something else to do... This gives your sister a little time with you, (she looks up to you)... And time with your friends... I used to always want to hang with my older sister and she hated it, but I loved her, and wanted to be with her do things she did....
20535
try to keep them as far away from each other as possible
1165278
leave him alone\nhe don't want no pesky sister trying to follow him.
344115
record it with a hidden cam corder. If she abuses you , she is more then likey to abuse others too. in my family this kinda stuff happpened too . it drove a space between me and my older sister, i hated her then and now i have little to no contact to her because she treats other still like that in her thirtys. some people need to feel as if they are in control and have the power. I dont want you to end up the tatel tail but if it was my child i would listen. Abuse is abuse no matter whos hand it comes by.
495804
My girlfriend had a similar problem with her older sister, she was a brat that was spoiled by her mother.  She treats her younger brother and sisters like trash and comes home yelling and kicking when things don't go her way.  She would go to their room to eat and put dirty cloth on their bed, and would leave without cleaning after herself.\n\nMy girlfriend and her siblings finally decided to take action to stop this madness.  They changed all the locks on the doors and told her elder sister either she respect them like human being or don't come back.\n\nHer elder sister went mad and start kicking and screaming when she heard that. She end up being asked to leave and kick out of the house at 1am in the morning, going back to her own place.\n\nAfter that she started to respect my girlfriend and her younger siblings on the phone and in person, althought she hasn't made her presence in the house so far after that night.\n\nYour family need to come together and tell your brother that this is not the way to go; disrespect your family is never right doesn't matter who you are. Your family must take a stand.\n\nI understand most family don't want to be firm and stand their ground because they are afraid of losing their children.  But the fact is your family already lost your brother and the only way for him to respect and come back is to show him your determination to your ideal as a family.\n\nGive him time to think, tell him if he still wants his family, he just as to respect you and your parents like what a nomraly child would do.  You're not asking alot here.\n\nWhether he accept / understand is irrevleant, don't try to convince him right now (he's probably not gonna agree), just let him know what your family decided to do.\n\nYour brother is probably not gonna budge now because he has his own family, but somewhere down the line when things don't go good he'll remember his sister and his parents.  That's where he'll come back and that's when you and your family will have a chance of change him by accepting him back.\n\nIts going to take time and patience for him to come back, but you have to let him know where your family stand for him to come back at all.  Don't push him away, just tell him where your family stands and ask him to think about it.  \n\nIts time to take a stand for what you believe.
646436
show her you are mature by cleaning the house, not whinning when she tells you NO. help her out and dont fight with your siblings(if you have any). dont talk back.
127319
Dang girl... Sounds like you need to lay the smack down on your little sister. As far as the shirt goes. Use it to clean around the house because it is ruined.
771692
Take pics of them.. sleeping, on the toilet, etc... post them on thier myspace page :)  or, take the pics to school and put the embarrasing pics on thier friends lockers.  When they are in thier room at night, wait until they fall asleep and you know they are asleep shut thier door, tie a rope around thier door handle, then tie it to another door handle, they won't be able to open thier door.  If it is a sister and she blow dries her hair in the morning, you can fill the hair dryer with baby powder, and when she turns it on, it will blow all over the place.    Hope these help!!!
460089
well just tell your $%$$##%%^ sister in law to go &&^%$#$@#@## and %%#$##$%^ and *((*%^##@@ ---that should do it!
171460
I have one older sis she thnks shez yur master, and a cuz that even more annoying than sisters.  Just igore them when they do things and ask u questions theyll stop.
94971
Try telling your mom that, as you get older, your privacy is becoming more and more important.  Tell her that you really need them to knock because you're not comfortable with them walking in while you're not dressed.  She will probably remember what that was like and then she can talk to your dad.
804681
Why can't you still be close to your parents without dealing with your sister.  If your sister is at your parents' house, then just don't go over there.  If she comes over while you are there, then pack up your kids and leave.  If her oldest child is mean to your youngest child, grab her oldest child and tell her to stop.  You're sister and her kids will only do what you let them get away with.  You can't change how your sister behaves or how she raises her children, but you don't need to let her stress you out either.  And nobody is forcing you to spend time around her.  If you want to spend time with your parents, do it when your sister isn't there.
131084
if you wanted something new and she knew it confront her nicly, instead of being on the defense try saying  mom, i feel left out because you gave my sister what she wanted but i got her old _______. I just want to be treated equally.    that works for me and im 13 so it might work for you   good luck!
1060072
get a life little girl\nstay away from her, don't call or even speak to her\nIf your old enough to fight your old enough to act like an adult\nIf you want a restraining order you can apply for one but that does not mean a court will issue one! Proof, proof, proof, no proof no restraining order!
736243
Well, I can say that I know what u r goin through. Almost..... I was the younger sibling and my brother and I had to share a room. I didnt have the annoying cough but just the annoying prescence of me being there irritated him. We even divided our rooms with temporary wall and that somewhat helped and studying was a lil out of the question. I always got in his way. It doesnt help to talk to your younger sibling because, lets face it..... I didnt even listen. Maybe try studying in study hall or go in the living room to study. Ask your parents politely to have her leave the room so u can catch up on your studying. That is not being selfish. Your parents arent good parents if they cant accomodate to each of their childs needs if it calls for it. They had these kids not u. Ask and u shall receive. No dont be rude but just say, " Hey mom. Do u mind if u can let lil sis or lil bro watch tv while I study or do home work for an hour???" That would be very helpful to me. I dont think u will get too much help with the sleeping arrangment though. But the study part I am sure they can help u. OH, the library is a wonderful place too.
382308
don't be mean to your sister.