is it wrong to act immature when you're with friends?
87788
Nah, it's not wrong, as long as you're not in a place that it would be inapproriate I say go for it, just don't do anything illegal ;-)
800014
You shouldn't let them do this to you. It was just a game and you didn't do that because you wanted to, it was a dare! You should tell your friend that you really love that he shouldn't get mad at you because of a game, and you should also tell the other guy that he shouldn't be mad at you either its not like he's got something you want, because it was just a game. Make sure that you let them see that you are above it all, you did what they dared you to do and you shouldn't get punished for it. The boy you really like will come around, just make sure to be really nice and friendly to him, but don't make it seem like you are feeling bad about what happen. Remember, it was just a game!
444275
Chris you don't say how old you are but I used to feel like this in my teens and early twenties. I matured much faster than my "Friends" and they did not hold the same ideals as I did. I used to get really frustrated by so called friends not treating me in the same way that I would treat them. As I have got older I have made a few really good friends. This is preferable to many shallow friendships.\n\nA good friend sticks by you no matter what, through the good and the bad. They will be honest with you, without being offensive, will listen, make you laugh, maybe make you cry too if they are hurting. A true friend will make you feel good inside, love and accept you for who you are and when you come away after being with them you feel great. I also find my friends bring out different aspects of my personality but each is treasured in their own right.\n\nAs you get older and become more confident in your skin you also begin to care less about whether people like you or not....they can like you or leave you.  \n\nHang in in there, treat people as you would like to be treated and in time you will make real, true, loyal friends and yes you will know when you have them.
215117
They are only talking behind your back to make themselves look better.  People who talk about others are always trying to make themselves look better in someone else's eyes.  Guys also give each other a hard time and not think too much about it.  Maybe you should just ignore this kind of behavior.  Don't practice it either.  As you say, they are being immature.  Be the mentor, not the little kid.
11655
If you think that what you're doing may be wrong, then it is. If you feel that the relationship is completely harmless and serves no purpose other than a casual friendship then maybe not.\n\nThe test is if you told your significant other, would they be upset?
412830
do you mean you are trying to write a letter to apologize for not inviting some of your friends to a party or something? well, first, there is no rule that says you have to invite all of your friends to everything anyway, and if they are mature,they should understand that. but if they have been offended, what ever you should say should be brief and sincere... there is an old adage that says 'least said, soonest mended' and it can be very true. if you only think they may have been offended, you may be better off leaving it alone unless they say something...they may really have no idea they weren't invited to something, or have thought nothing of it, and if you suddenly start apologizing, now they Will be thinking about it, and thinking you must have a guilty conscience, if you are apologizing.
176643
1 of my friends made 1 4 me....i dont think theres anything wrong w/ it as long as its not overused and used for the wrong reasons
84620
Hi! You should not be angry at your friends just because they didn't pick you to be in your group. It is a little silly that your angry at your friends because of something really simple. You and your friends have a real friendship don't let things like this get it the way! Hope this helps!
807377
I dont think youre wrong at all. Any real friends would not tolerate someone talking about you in that way. Because they didnt stand up for you, they might as well have agreed with the jerk. What a slap in the face! Im so sorry. But it looks to me like it may be time to move on and make some new friends. Thats probably not what you want to hear but you are too good for them!
1129556
Well everyone wants harmony, pulse it may hurt someones feelings.  That will certainly not feel good knowing you are a fool, knowing no one likes you, or that your relationship is over.  So put your self in that persons shoes.  If laugh at others it is not acting your age.
1089592
Only young boys or men who have yet learn to grow up, do this little game that is why you learn not to get too serious until they grow out of it. \n\nIt is a fact that males and females behave differently pending on who is around. when a female is around the guy she likes and other guys are around a greater chance the guy will act like a jerk and when a guy is around a female and other females are around she will act like she is snotty. when males and females mature they improve and many act the same with or without their friends and some don't. \n\nThere is only one way that I know of that you can see how a young person truly is and that is how they behave around their mother.
224103
It depends really.  Are the friends listening to their Ipods while chatting too?  If so, it isn't rude at all 'coz they're all doing it anyway or maybe they're all rude?\n\nI'd say a 37 y/o should know better about etiquette.  If it offends you, talk to her about it and tell her how you feel.  You can also borrow your friend's Ipod and listen to it while she chats with you.  She'll get the point, I bet.
840701
I usually do that with my best friends, and if I don't, they'd think I got mad with them. Also I'd think there's something wrong if they don't say that to me. we say that frankly, and we feel happy to hear that. however, it is not acceptable to be told to some one who doesn't have strong relationship with you.
1154541
That is a really tough one... hm... I have a friend like that too, and I kinda just let it go. Maybe next time they bring something up like that, you can change the subject. Like if they say something like "I am so cool!!!!!" you can say "Speaking of cool... wasn't it cold last night?"... you know, really silly things, like take something from their sentence and say something that has to do with it. \nHowever, if they get mad just tell them the truth. Be like "I'm sorry, but you just made me feel like I was lower than you. You know? Like you are better than me." Just be honest (but throwing in a little guilt trick won't hurt) They might get mad, but eventually someone is going to tell them, and they aren't going to be nice about it. So take the chance that you have now, and just be honest with your friend. I have a pretty good feeling it will work out. Good luck! :)
2754
Well, if you feel funny about it, then no you shouldn't.  Just tell your friend that it weirds you out a little.  Maybe you could offer to help him get clothes of his own or give him some old clothes to keep?
546421
definitely not normal... it depends on the nature of your problem... try to rectify it... no point in losing a friend over a tiny RANDOM squabble...
598599
yes they might be jeolous but you should not get better friends immedietley,you should try to ask why are they like that