When It comes to putting on a condom.. I can't stay hard.?
93088
Perhaps it would be better if your girlfriend put the condom on for you. Rather than interrupt your passions to put it on, make the act of putting on the condom part of the sexual interaction.
53471
Are you beautiful? It could be very difficult if you are centerfold material. How frequently are you having relations? Could he wear a condom with a little lube. If your stuff is tight, that has a tendency to rush things along. Some women only climax through intercourse, some through oral. Which are you? Maybe he can compensate for his quickness. Try longer foreplay, changing positions, and discussing world politics during fun time. Buy a Tommy Lasorda mask and wear that.
462340
Use a good lubricant. If you're using condoms, you have to use a water-based lubricant. If you're not using condoms, try baby oil or petroleum jelly.
511008
Well, he'll probably be proud of that! So don't worry about his feelings! \n\nHowever, are you really too tight for him or is it because you're not wet enough? Try with more lubrication (either lube or more foreplay!).\n\nBut he might really be too big. I knew someone who had the same problem.
637925
Stop worrying about coming and just think about how good it feels.  I am a woman, but I think it is probably about the same.  I have to think about how good it feels even when I don't feel very sensitive.  Think whatever it is you think right before you come and I think it will help.  However, I don't know if you have tried other postions or what, but my hubby loves me to be on my stomach with my legs together and his stradled over mine.  Whenever he's getting too tired to shoot he just flips me on my belly and puts it in and then puts his legs outside mine and is usually off in a minute or two.  I think it works cause I squeeze my muscles together around him, which is only easy to do in this postition.  Best wishes
552052
Actually there is much truth in what you say. About 12 years ago my wife and I used one of those ultra thin condoms. Of course the reason is for a more real feel! Heres what happened three consecutive condoms shredded apart during use! Result my 11 year old son!
1120825
Try to do workouts and more kegals..... Also talk with your doctor and see what they suggest. He also needs to make sure you are really lubed up and ready for him. He should try oral on you and let you climax and then use ky jelly and be gentle and slow and take his time so he does not hurt you. Have you tried being on top so that you can control things? Try buying a couples toy so that during intercourse you both are stimulated.... I hope this helps you some and i wish you the best.
1001031
always wear a condom !! use lots of lube.....patience patience patience...slow down the penetrations...leave it in for her to adjust to your size.....tell her to relax...lots of touching and kissing instead of focusing just on the penetration alone....lots of reassurance....
915147
Wow, if you feel that way sex is going to be difficult for you. I think we have to not be too uptight about exchanging our vital bodily fluids. :)
1107606
I guess it depends on how you try to get it out. Don't spill!\n\nFrankly, if your boyfriend's condom comes off so easily, I'd suggest getting another boyfriend... or use a bread tie around the base of his penis to keep it on. ;D
118333
Use lubricant. Also, you're first few times having sex are going to hurt- however, it your guy is working with a large package- then it may take some getting use to. Best advice: lubricant!  You're vaginal area will adjust with time. So, keep having sex- but make sure you're partner knows it hurts and tell him to take it slow. Don't take the pain! A man who cares for you will make the experience enjoyable for you too!
513206
my man has to use Magnums, this is the large sized condom offered at most stores\n\nlighten up ladies, I know it sounds like bull and just some big headed dude talking about his stuff, but it is true. My man has this problem and the other condoms, although they can stretch to a huge size, they do cut off circulation when they are put on the penis and causes the erection to go limp. The Magnums helped allot but now I just use birth control. And yes we are married and monogamous.
395126
u wearin a condom? if so nothing i can help u with sorri, try asking your doc or reading some Cosmopolitian some time, they have good sex columns on stuff like that. (i'm n avid reader of the magazine)
1175464
Many complain that putting them on can interrupt foreplay and lovemaking, although some people have integrated wearing a condom as part of the entire process for sexual activity\n\nBecause of an obvious barrier of the skins, sensory stimulation is sacrificed, especially with older style thicker condoms, causing some people to dismiss condoms as limiting their pleasure (though this effect can be largely overcome by properly applying lubricants internally and externally). However, a woman can partially solve this problem by training her vaginal muscles, specifically the pubococcygeus
1138917
use a condom... when your penis gets hard roll the condom on... and only use condom once..... u can certainly have sex now.. just make sure u are using some form of protection. ...
745356
I assume you're having trouble inserting it properly.  I had similar problems when I was young.  I'm not entirely sure if it was my hymen (it's possible) or the position I was using when I was inserting it.  The position for insertion that finally worked was squatting.  I had been sitting down, and found that kind of squashed things down a bit.  Try squatting and relaxing your muscles by breathing into your lower back.  If you're using a plastic applicator tampon (probably the best for beginners, but terrible for the environment) wet the end to get things started, or use some KY jelly.  No vaseline, that's bad stuff.
463102
It depends. If you're nervous it could be hard to lubricate naturally, and the penis will force the entrance. Better use some lubricant, and prepare yourself, try to relax, and take your time... It's better if the other person doesn't rush 'into it'. Try some positions. If you're on top, you can control the penetration.