my boyfriend always say mushy and sweet things to me is it ok to say those back with out seeming too mushy?
79001
Only if you really mean those words, otherwise it'll sound phony.
99673
i have a boyfriend, but i'm not shy to ask him anything. I think communication is important and so does he, so every time i have something to say, even if its awkward, he encourages me to say it and waits until i have the courage to spit it out!
169704
It is the same as a lot of other stuff people say like:\n - This is not a very funny joke but... (I will tell it anyways)\n - I love you but... (I have to leave you)\n - I love your cooking but... (this tastes very bad)\nAnd probably most of the sentences that have BUT in it...\n\nWhy... My guess is you don't want to be rude or leave a bad image of yourself... You would like to keep a good relationship with the person BUT you also WANT to say that offensive thing because you need it so you can make a point, say your opinion, make it your way...
553456
I think you are really sweet! Jeez, I wish my guy was that sensitive. I am betting she loves you the way you are, and I wouldn't really change anything. Just tell her what you told us about what is in your heart!!
476583
Maybe your to sweet or to mushy with them.
853268
I don't think you can ever say l love you too much. I love to hear it and also love to  let my husband know how much l love him. It is just really nice to let each other know how you feel , so l don't believe there is such a thing as  saying  "I LOVE  YOU " too much. All the time please !!!!!!!   You have to mean it though otherwise they are just pointless words.
883914
Are you sure your not being too clingy? Are you giving him some space? He might not be joking but not admitting it. Of course I cant judge it because I dont know how you are but you should ask him to be  bluntly honest with you so you can deal with it if it is a problem.
383136
hey hun... i think saying i love you should be said when the person really loves u. ur friend gt her guy to say it in  6 weeeks.. i am sure he has said it loads of times after that.. but when ur boyfriend actually says it to u it would mean a whole lot more than it wld mean whenhe says it when u want him to. you need to do anything to make him say it. you just wait till hez comfortable enuf to say it. at least he is not mis-using the word love.
341027
It's not about the words .. it's mainly about the attitude and the way you say them .. you should show a great deal fo care .. enthusiasm to to tallk and passion to welcome .. other wise any words would  help a little ..
747019
it sound like he does. my bf says the same thing to me and so far he's ment it. but, if your having a hard time believeing him, lay off the kisses or follow your gut instinct.\n If he ever does try to go farther than you want and he starts saying things like:\n i love you\nyour my everything\nwe can handle it....\n  I'm pretty sure thats the sign to leave him.\nBut from what ur saying, he hasn't tried anything like that. so i think u can trust him and u never know, he might really really mean it, just don't take any drastict measures until something really goes srong.\n\ngood luck!
405097
If it bothers you then correct them but technically speaking since you are living together he is your common law husband.People do that to me all the time too I just go with the flow.Congrats on the engagement.
233545
I knew I loved my bf the first time I laid eyes on him.  But I didn't tell him exactly how I was feeling til around Christmas time which was 3 months into the relationship.  But I agree with my bf ... saying I love you to your bf / gf puts a different spin on the relationship.  Makes things more serious.  So I would advise that before you say those 3 words to him that you make sure that it is exactly how you are feeling.
1035652
i think u might be over reacting just a little. if he's still telling u that he loves u then no worries. through the  days, months, years ppl change and that's wut he's doing . but the one thing that izn't changing is the love he haz for u.
154517
yeah sure u can but it depends on the receiver whether to tkae u seriously or ditch the thought..\nit s still better to say the things u meant most in person it s more realistic and sincere..
278669
If you are worried about being too up-front and scaring him off, chances are that you already know it's too soon to say it. It sounds loud and clear to me that you have already answered your own question- you'll probably be inclined to just look for an answer that confirms your feelings- nothing wrong with that. My point is that you should listen to that little voice in your head and heart. Sometimes saying the "l" word prematurely can really put a guy off- sometimes permanently; it has a tendency to make you seem clingy and needy. \nJust wait a bit longer and see how things progress. You'll just KNOW when the time is right, without having to ask anyone else. Good luck!
32215
If he already tells you he loves you, you should be thankful. It takes a lot for men to admit to their feelings and just because they don't say them as much as we would like, doesn't mean they don't feel them. As long as he's showing you he loves you, you are good! And I can totally understand how you feel about wanting to spend more time together, but you just have to make the best of the time you do have together until you reach a point where things are better.
164298
Don't touch. Think "professional" without thinking "formal" if that's possible. Mention how great your boyfriend or husband is every now and then.