Can online chat result into life-long relationship???
79881
iv meet a few people from being online and they are all still friends of mine but be careful if u decide to meet people always take someone with you and always say what you want from the meeting friendship/relationship as long as your honest then you should be fine and you should meet some nice people
414475
of course it can work. it just depends on the commitment and love and trust, just like any in-person relationship. in a way, the long-distance has the benefit of not having to deal with the daily in-person details that sometimes weight relationships down.\n\nmy husband and i maintained a long-distance relationship for more than two years before our situations allowed us to be together.\n\ntalk about it.
1137092
I've been on-line since before the WWW existed, and two of my four major life relationships started on-line. I met my husband on-line in 1999 (married in 2001), and I truly believe that I am blessed to have found someone so ridiculously perfect for me.\n\nI've also done the stupid thing and thought I "loved" a guy I met on-line when I really didn't. That was when I was 14, so I would've been more prone to rash decisions way back when. :)\n\nStill, I learned from that experience that meeting IN PERSON is necessary to prove any relationship formed initially on-line. I think you can get a good sense of how well-suited you are to someone from an on-line relationship, but only meeting face-to-face can tell you whether you have chemistry and can be in a physical relationship as well.
96691
Yes sure, it is possible to fall in love with someone online.  And it would be easier to hv one than in real life, while you just exchange words and thoughts with him/her without any physical attraction.  If both of you are true enough, it could be ended up with a beautiful relationship...
855459
My cousin met his wife online. She is from the Philipines. I have never seen him so happy in all of his life.  I also have another cousin that met his fiance online and he says that she is the most compatible woman he has ever dated.  So yes, I think it is great to find love, wherever it may be...the internet, dating services etc... Not everyone is lucky enough to have mr or mrs "right" fall from the sky. Just make sure that the person you are communicating with is beong honest and there is no foul play...the internet can also be a very scary place.  Good Luck and I hope things work out for you!
690623
I think it depends on how long you've been chatting. I think it is possible, but not after a little while. you need more time to get to know thatperson, and that is assuming they are being themselves. Remember that all can be fake here :(
280094
Yes, if after you've chatted with the person long enough to feel comfortable, you meet them in a very crowded, public location.\n\nI know people who have had good experiences (and are getting married in a few months) and I've known people that have had awful experiences, and I've learned that even the crazies can find relationships through online sites.
166944
I met my girl in a game chat room. We've become gf/bf and it's going great. I hope we can say 4yrs, too, soon. And many more, of course.
209296
Please be very careful, what you may read in or hear, isn't what you may get. Online words, are just words. How do you know you can trust this person, they already know what you desire, or what you want just from chatting with you, the person could be saying all things that you want to see and hear but it may not be real. Just don't jump to fast, marriage is a big step, a commitment. Please slow down and have him slow, for both parties to make sure this is what you really want. I wish you luck and happiness.
292600
Yes, I have examples from my job.  3 sets of couples.  \n\nFirst couple met chatting on AOL.  Been together 6 years now.\n\nSecond couple met some 10 years ago.  Married 6 months after they met.  \n\nThird couple met on Match.com bout 2 years ago, married now a year.\n\nI have also a couple that met off a phone party line in the 70s met shortly after.\n\nAll couples are just as happy as those who met in person.  I think it works for some couples because they get to know each other by the way they think rather than off of looks.  So anything is possible.  Just don't expect it too much because you don't want to disappoint yourself if it doesn't happen
175740
You get to know someone and if they touch your heart love is quite possible.  I fell in love through chatting with someone long before I knew what he looked like. You can't judge a book by it's cover because then you may not see what's INSIDE .  I think chatting gives you an unbiased , open view to that person as long as they're  being honest and if you chat enough times you can tell.
178326
Yes but it depends on how the relationship is long distance. If it's temporary( like away at college) then yeah if both are willing to make it work then it will work. If it's some type of 'i met him on the internet but he lives in another state...' then i don't think so.
786022
Actually, I know about long distance relationships all too well. They can work as long as the communication stays very strong and there is a bond between you. Eventually, you're going to have to work on getting the distance fixed, but as long as your connection stays strong, it'll be just fine.
313299
will long distance relationships work?
486709
Actually, trying to find love online or in real life is difficult.  Usually love finds us - we don't find love.\nLove happens when we least expect it.\nA connection happens - unexpectedly, and we become intrigued by the person we are chatting with or with whom we speak in real life.\n\nThere are chat rooms, and there are romantic sites but when the time is ready and right, that is when you will find your soul mate.\n\nGood Luck!
458813
I loved this question..gives me a chance to tell my story, lol.  YES! it's very possible!  I'm not saying that ppl don't lie online, and turn out to be someone entirely different when a person meets them, but not everyone is that way.  Here's my story....\n\nI met my husband over a year and a half ago online.  LOL, yes, you read right, my husband!  We just got married March 23.  From the moment we started talking, it was just..."right".  We fell in love almost instantaneously.  We are truly soulmates.\n\nAnyway, I'm all for following your heart.  I can't count how many times friends would tell me to "wait and see" when we met.  But not having met yet didn't matter to us.  I flew to where he lived, he picked me up from the airport, and within an hour we were married.  One look into each other's eyes and everything we had felt for a year and a half had been solidly confirmed.\n\nWhatever you do, follow your heart, follow your instincts.  I did and all of my dreams came true.  I found and married my soulmate...ONLINE!
711641
That's my story and I'm sticking to it.  Met my fiance on line almost 3 years ago.  Neither of us were looking for any type of relationship but we soon discovered that we had much in common and that we were very compatible.  If we had met say 20 years ago things obviously would have been different but the time was right and I am grateful each and every day for finding this woman to share my life with.  Trust your gut instincts and they will not lead you astray.