Why must people expect gifts for every holiday why not get creative and give something from the heart?
97032
I think because this world has become so materialistic and its how they were raised. I dont expect anything I would rather just have the persons time!! It's a lot more memorable when you think about it.
769686
I think people should stop over buying gifts. Some take the holiday to the extreme!
940066
Personally, I don't buy for all of my family/friends.Most of the family still give gifts to me as they please, for which I am very, very thankful for and I let them know this. But, I've made it clear a long time ago that I am NOT going to feel obligated to purchase/give gifts - it defeats the purpose of gift giving!!!  \nJust mention politely before the holiday that you won't be giving this year, and "please do not feel obligated to give to me", something like that.\nIf they get snippy that is their issue! You can't be blamed that people have come to be selfish. Some people would rather get something from you knowing you didn't care, than to wait for a heart-felt present. That's their problem!
799622
Give what you can.  If it's only a card or small gift, so be it.  It's not about giving gifts, it's about giving of yourself.
1162356
I definitely think that giving somebody something without expecting something in return is the most unselfish thing anybody can do. So in that respect, giving is far better than receiving. However, it is not logical to think that people don't want to be on the receiving end once in a while and it gives the other person a chance to feel good about giving. I think a balance of both giving and receiving is good for both parties.
906253
Because maybe you are.\n\nSome of us are born 'Special'. Yes more special than others. Do you have a gift?
67636
it's really kind of a holiday where the guy gets the girl something but not vice versa, although some girls choose to give a gift to a guy. If you choose to do so, make it something inexpensive, maybe like a music CD or something and a card.
16631
Sure. Christmas is a nice holiday.  I'm sure most of us have mixed emotions on this holiday for many different reasons.  I think the predominant emotion would be happiness, though.  Its a nice thing to see someone in love with the gift you gave them.  Sharing is a really nice thing-even if it isn't an exchange of gifts, its nice to share time with people on this holiday.
847213
an occation is just an excuse...if u want to give something great, \nanytime u give that to ur beloved ,that time becomes an occation...so watever u give ,wil be the best , for that person....just go for the simplest but meaningful,and everlasting gifts....precious gifts are no longer the symbol for g8 consideration..its a varient of lavishness...
941753
Do they know it's Christmas, it strikes a chord in people. Christmas, is a time of year for gluttony for many (sadly including myself) And when the idea of Christmas is mentioned alongside talk of needy people it helps reminds people of how Christmas started, & inspires people to want to help. Tis the season, it's just unfortunate people have to have a season to give and can't find a good reason to do it all year. Good luck with all that you are doing & good for you!
885624
Some people are given many talents, others only a few.  You can choose which pf your talents you want to use and develop them as you go on in life.  Nobody has every gift, and nobody has none.  Also it's not about which gifts you have but how you use them.
906525
To give.......because you know that when you receive something, you are making that person who gave you something feel good!!!!  Giving is great when you give something and do expect to receive something back!!!!  And when you receive something and you know that you do not have to return the gesture back, then you know that is a good feeling too!  NO ONE SHOULD EVER DO SOMETHING JUST BECAUSE THEY FEEL THAT THEY ARE GOING TO GET SOMETHING BACK FROM IT......give not expecting to receive anything back and see what happens.   Pay it forward.  Doing something for someone else makes everyone feel great!!!!
944213
Tis the season to be jolly.  With colder temperatures and longer nights, it is important to remember loved ones of the past, forget grudges, give, celebrate, and love.  Yes, as we are taught as children be good boys and girls, that applies to adults too.
164360
HMM, I agree with the rest, The best gift should come from the heart, it need not be any product or material. A Good greeting  from a heart felt wish is enough to make ones day happy!!
181262
You can express love in many ways. Flowers, Chocolates, Gifts and so on. But its the exclusivity and the pain you took to get that gift shows that love is special.\n\nI remember a friend of mine who went to the Himalayas (The mountain range where Mt.Everest is). It was the first snow for that season. He took a piece of ice, took pains and effort to preserve it to sustain a 10hrs journey and brought it back and gave it to his wife. She still has that bottle (ofcourse it has melt to water ;) ) and regards it as the most romantic gift which made her feel special.\n\nSo simple and inexpensive things like this when did with utmost sincerity becomes a special gift for someone special to you...\n\n.:Fishie:.
400688
This is interesting.  Sounds like a one way relationship there.  I am sorry but gifts should not be asked for, they should come from the heart of the person buying them.  A gift is a gift is a gift it should be given out of love not pressure.  Don't feel bad.  There is definately some selfishness going on and you need to decide whether you want to live the rest of your life in a relationship like that.
44531
Love is a personal commitment not a thing. If you are a real person than you are capable of providing real love. Love is something given. It can't be taken or expected to be received. Those who think love is a gift are doomed to be robbed. Those who wait for love to come their way are living a life of lost journeys and dead ends. For those who live life giving love theirs is a life filled with joy and optimism.