Why will my husband talk to the girls and guys at work but hardly will talk to me on the phone?
92926
Sorry for you, i know its hard to feel this way but i was wondering the same for my fiend's husbands but i figured out that most men are the same after some years of marrige and I found that the same is going on in most of the series on the tv.  \ntry to fill your time with other things, and hope he misses you and change
154112
Well, you must remember most guys are lazy when it comes to phone conversations. They like to talk in person. It seems to be a good feeling to have the girl present when conversating. Now, if you keep calling and he doesn't answer, then it means he was "playing" you girl. Though you must consider the fact that he's probably afraid of losing a wonderful girl like you and he wants to take things a little slow.  Give him some time.  Set a time to meet again and hang out a little more or have him plan things out with you.  He will eventually warm up to you and then you won't have to worry about phone calls because he'll be there by your side to conversate with you in person. Just remember that men are a bit slow. LOL. Be a little patient if he's worth the time. Sometimes, you might have to get to know the guy a little more to find his sweet self.
788627
Yeah, it sounds bad. He wanted to cut out quick, and that's good. You don't want him hanging around just to be polite, do you? The fact that he hasn't called yet, doesn't mean anything.. guys are not usually phone hounds like women are, but not coming in was the clincher.
782692
My husband is the same way but it is normal as long as you don't over react on the situation. For some mean it's a control issue and for others it's a love issue. My husband always told me it's because he loved me so much but he didn't mind me talking to other guys as long as that's as far as it went. the hanging out is ok but make sure she invites you to go along if she's asked that will tell you everything. Hope this helps
195674
Guys are really weird.  I don't understand it, but I've learned to expect it.  My boyfriend will chat on and on and on with me in person, but when I call him up it's all long silences and irritated phones and 'what do you want???'  guys just do NOT like to chat on the phone.  Don't sweat it, and don't take it personally...    just call him when you want to make plans with him and get together in person.
908431
Do you talk fine when you are together?  If so, then it's just a phone thing.  Not everyone is great at talking on the phone.  It doesn't mean there's anything wrong, it just feels a bit unnatural.\n\nIf this is an issue when you are together too, then there may be a problem.
827234
Some women call or text 5 times a day.  Men just aren't into that sort of thing very much usually.
813187
It's just the stress and excitement they are under. My husband is in AIT and alot of his friends are like that. They figure because they have thier phones, they can talk to you anytime, so they'll just talk to you later. Tell him exactly how it makes you feel when he doesn't take time out for you and then tell him exactly how to change that. Come up with a very clear solution. Make it easy for him, and he is more likely to do it. \n\nI also find that there isn't all that much for them to talk about with us. Alot of times they aren't allowed to talk about school (which is what they have been doing all day) so make sure you have something to talk about when he calls.
854594
Guys will not answer this question as honestly as the girls.  Well some might, but they tend to be too brutal.\n\nHe isn't interested anymore.  He's trying to let you down easy, but only because you're a co-worker and he probably doesn't want a scene at work.  Are you sure he isn't married?\n\nThe sad part is that you didn't see it coming.  Forget this jerk.  The only explanation I can give you that doesn't involve him being a total jerk is that perhaps your company has a policy against fraternization and his boss found out and warned him off.\n\nEither way he doesn't want you, accept it and move on.
927622
1) he could be busy. maybe something in his schedule changed. for instance when i was with my ex she would answer my calls most of the time. but then her aunt got sick and she spent alot of time in the hospitol and barley answered the phone for a while.\n2) maybe he is hiding something\n3) maybe he wants to break up but doens't know how to tell u,\n\nif u wnat honosty its not gonna be good. don't get your hopes up. and good luck. i hope u find someone who treats u better.
639403
well, if he's cold and distant on the phone and traveling for work, he probably had a bad day or really hates talking on the phone. i wouldn't worry until he's that way when you see him in person.
831657
Just because he doesn't talk a great deal when you two are together doesn't mean anything. I talk to my girlfriend on the phone for a little while each day, but when we are together I can't ever think of anything to talk with her about, but that doesn't mean I care for her any less than before we started dating and we talked constantly. For guys, after a while we know what you like, what you would like, and all that so we don't feel like there is any reason to just go on talking about nothing. However, that doesn't mean your company is unwelcome. A lot of guys just like the company of the girl they care about. Don't take it too personally.
42948
Some guys are just not into this texting thing like women are. Now, you said that he is the love of your life, does he know this. If so, then you have the right to be concern. You might want to talk to him in person about this. But in any case, HAPPY NEW YEARS TO YOU!
1150499
Maybe he is afraid of making his wife jealous.  I had some trouble with my wife when I hired my assistant.  She is pretty and I hired her because she is very intelligent and goal oriented.  All the things my wife needs to work on.  Could be your boss wants to ease her into getting used to you.
283536
I was in a relationship like that. HE only lived an hour away. BUt we were on the phone all the time, and every chance we had we were together.Now we are married. Sounds to me that your guy might not be ready for what you want. Tell him how you feel about him not calling or blowing plans off. Maybe he will take your feelings into consideration or he his just telling you what he thinks you want to hear.
1005184
First you need to make sure that his employer isn't making him work more hours. Don't jump to conclusions just because he is working more and might be looking at other girls. But you should always go with your gut feeling. Think to yourself...is he more distant than usual...and if all else fails talk to him. You will never have a long lasting relationship is there is not any trust or communication. Good luck.
94760
there are very visible signs like does  stay out or work later than usual...constantly,is he secretive on the phone, has he lost interest in sex,is there money unexplained and missing,is there a strange scent on him like dial soap after 18hrs of working,or cologne that you don't wear,is he hangin with the guys alot.  ya'll really need to go to a counselor or your pastor and discuss this