Why does it hurt for a girl when she has sex for the first time?
92672
its because you break the hymen, and since youve never had sex before your like super tight and the penis stretches out the vagina entrance which hurts. it will hurt the first few times.
1031658
i dont know... i haven't quite been there yet but...\n\nfirst up... before everything else, a HYMEN is a thin piece of covering on the entrance of the vagina. for most guys, thats thier standard for being a virgin if you have a hymen or not. how to tell? well... you BLEED the first time\n\nfor some girls... who have thick hymen.. yes, it does hurt. a lot. because... well... hello? the guy is tearing it up upon entering. and well... its thicker than most so you can REALLY feel the pain.\n\nfor normal girls, who have regular hymen... it tears up easy but you can still feel pain...\n\nsome girls... have hymen so thin, it broke while... horseback riding, biking, taking ballet classes, or any kind of extraneous sport. these kinds dont hurt. well probably just a teny tiny bit.\n\nand a few girls, are born without any hymen at all. \nthese dont hurt. \n\nso yeah, basically, unless your one of those special girls with no hymen, its gonna hurt the first time. hope i helped!
664892
Are you saying she's a virgin? If so, you have to take it slow and easy. There's no way for it not to hurt the first time.
985444
Because before you lose your virginity you have a lot of sexual tension built up. Also, because it's your first time doing a new thing, it's only natural that you might see things differently.
1075249
The first few times one has sex should be rather uncomfortable or painful.It shouldnt hurt after a bit.
362621
If you are a woman, it will hurt the first time...  (bleeding is natural)  But the more you do it, the better it gets...  If you are a man, it will be extremely tight the first time...  (your penis might hurt)  Dont have trouble finding the woman;s hole, study before hand...  Watch a porn movie, or get a biology book..
328555
every girl is different, and srry to tell that guy that answered he really can anwer that. It didnt hurt me and i have never heard a girl tell me that it hurt so bad she would never do it again.
277384
No you don't need to know sex moves for your first time, it will hurt too much, wait a while before experimenting any moves.
598952
inside the vagina in young women or women who have never had sexual intercourse, is a layer of tissue referred to as the Hymen.  \n\nWhen a young lady has intercourse for the first time, the penis entering inside the vagina will cause this membrane of tissue to tear.  This tearing is what causes the pain. It is also normal during this first sexual encounter that there will be some bleeding associated with the tearing of the hymen. However this is not always 100% sure. Due to some activities, such as gymnastics, horse riding, masturbation (if items are entered inside the vagina during masturbation), accidents such as falling on your vagina, ect, the hymen can either be broken or stretched prior to intercourse taking place.  This can lead to less pain and less or no bleeding during a ladies first sexual experience.
669460
The only reason you bleed is if your hymen gets broken. For many girls it has already been broken, through exercise or non-intercourse type sexual relations. It is totally normal for girls to bleed or not bleed. I think the one universal thing is that most girls will be sore after the first time, at least for a little while.
141220
My advice to you is...first and formost...don't let anyone do anything to your body unless you are absolutely ready. \n\nYes. The first time can be painful if not done with care, patience and tenderness. \n\nIf you are ABSOLUTELY POSITIVE that you want to lose your virginity, you MUST set the ground rules. Make sure your partner knows that if it becomes too uncomfortable that he is to stop what he is doing IMMEDIATELY. A condom is essential. You never know where someone else has been. Another essential is a lubricant such as KY Jelly or Astrolube.\n\nBefore you just let some guy ram his bone up inside you, make sure he opens you up GENTLY with a lubricated finger. Have him work it in and out, gently at first... then faster and deeper as your body permits. Then when this is comfortable, try a second one. You must relax if you want it to be less painful. Then when YOU feel that you are ready for something more, you decide wheather or not to go further.
295471
You first time can be painfull especially if he is not condsiderate.  It should get better but it does not feel good everytime. Some women don't even like it until their in their 30's .  Some never like it.  Women! Go figure.  Just try to relax and concentrate on your body and how it feels. Don't put a lot of pressure on yourself over it.
1051403
READ: www.coolnurse.com/hymen.htm\n It isn't that bad. It only hurts for a little bit. Ever heard the term "hurts so good?" If you just go slow and give her a minute to get past the initual shock of the pain and then continue she will be feeling more pleasure than pain.The\ntrick is not to stop completely before giving her pleasure or she may not want to do it again for a long while!
618230
After you have sex for the first time or have a female problem.
250666
that depends;not neccessarily.some hymens just break.maybe it will hurt the first time you make love,but I hope that your partner will be as gentle as possible so that you won`t feel a thing and that you willl enjoy.take care girl.
35077
It might, but it shouldn't be excrutiating. If it's too painful, you should go see a doctor. But it shouldn't be very painful your first time.
106440
The first time can hurt- especially if you are feeling tense, because the vagina is a muscle.  It's important to feel relaxed.  My first time really didn't hurt at all.  Sex feels good.  We are lucky to be a species that can enjoy sex for pleasure and not soley for means of procreating.