i live with a guyand ahve been for 3 yrs, will he ever marry me?
90790
sorry, darlin' but he's already said no, hasn't he? He's not gonna buy the cow when he gets his milk for free. Time to move on. You both want different things. You are good enough and deserve better. Just imagine finding a great guy who wants the same things you do...and you're wasting time not finding him because you're involved with Mr. Wrong.
1187329
hmmmm....after 3 years of you asking him out and he said no..and he stll hasn't asked you out....he is either not interested or too nervous to go out w/ you...try one more time...after that give up...Good Luck!!
418594
Just live together and don't get married until he becomes a citizen.  If he really loves you, he will do it.
245095
It depends on a lot of things and you didn't give any details. If you want to move to another state then go ahead and move. If you are only moving for your boyfriend then you have somethings to consider: Are you moving because this is the guy you want to marry or is this just a guy your not looking for that from? Will you have a job, be able to support yourself and get your own place? Does he want you to move with him? Do you have strong family and friends ties that you will be leaving? Are there children involved? Good luck with your decision.
337275
Well you have to talk to him and find out why he is not ready to get married. If he gives you some bogus reason then maybe you should look to move on. When you first met him and you talked about futures did he even mention marriage if not, or if he was opposed to it back then, then you are in a situation that you already knew you would be in. if not, then you really need to find out why he is not ready!
274333
THAT JUST DEPENDS ON YOU!! IF HE DOESN'T HAVE TIME FOR YOU NOW THEN IF U WERE TO GET MARRIED WOULD HE HAVE TIME FOR YOU THEN!! DO YOU WANT TO SPEND THE REST OF UR LIFE BEING 2ND OR 3RD OR EVEN 4TH IN HIS LIFE!!IF HE REALLY NEEDS YOU THEN HOW COME HE NEVER HAS TIME FOR YOU THAT IS WHAT I WOULD ASK HIM!!!
523991
Neveen, if you and this guy slept together many times while you were together for a long time, your chances of getting married are slim and none.\n\nI know this may sound harsh but my grandma used to say, "Why should he buy the cow when he can get the milk free?"\n\nIf he could make the countless decisions to get into your panties and into your bed, he's a bonafide coward not to decide on whether he's going to marry you.\n\nYou can't get him to marry you.  Men, by nature, are conquest-driven.  When you allowed him to crack your cabbage, you gave up your right to guide the relationship.  Now, he is actively looking for another woman who won't "pressure" him.  And believe me, he is more than willing to let your relationship drift into  nirvana (nothingness).\n\nIt's time for you to move on.  End the relationship before he dumps you.  At least, you would leave the relationship with some dignity.
375334
I think you should go on with your plans he might be getting cool feet he tells u he loves you and he still wants u to marry him it will be ok he just might be thinking about how things is going to be when u guys get marry and he just hope thing will work out
1062529
u  sound  cute, he  can  divorce. have  u  met  him. go  for  it  gal  and  good  luck
1134176
It has not been long since you both move in. Let the relationship breath, has he show any of his true colors yet ? If not, you may want to see how living together going to be. Just slow down and take one step at a time. \nHave you and him talk about marriage already ? If so, maybe he not ready to pop the question yet. Or maybe he waiting till the right time, he could want to surpise ya. \nHope everything turns out for the good.
380611
Whether you want to marry him and vice versa. Relationships work like Yahoo! Answers, in the sense that you have to upgrade to make life more interesting, and work hard to make that upgrade.\n\nIs the selfless love? Are any one of you still looking for the next best person which may come along? Are there many long-due unsolved issues which are constant thorns in the relationship?
341951
If it's true love it'll be there tomorrow or 5 years from now.  \nWhy rush to marry.  \nIt's only an expensive piece of paper to tell you something you already know.....you love the guy. \n\nIf it's meant to be...it'll be and it'll be there in years.  If then you feel the urge to marry then do so.  \n\nFor now enjoy each other and your relationship.
447741
I would have a serious conversation with him. It would be a shame to wait another 5 years just to hear again what you're hearing now. Why doesn't he want to marry you? I would think that the prospect of marrying the person you love would make you work harder towards your goals if you know that you will be married after. Talk to him. Let him know how you feel. If marriage and children are important to you then he needs to know. He may just be nervous about commitment, but if he really loves you he will need to face that fear. Im sorry but if he doesnt feel the same way then you need to move on. I know that will be painful but its better than wasting the next 5+ years of your life hoping he will change. If he agrees to marry you, make sure its really what he wants. You will be miserableif he married you because he felt he had no choice. Best of luck.
154410
marry him!!\nowh wait..before that..\nfirst of all..only you can sort this out..if you think you can cope with problems you may face..(due to the 'no qualifications' thing)..then you should indeed marry him..\ni advise you that its the best anywayz..but ever heard of this?\nwhen poverty knocks on the door,\nlove and trust flies out the window..\n\nmake your own decissions..age is no issue!~
186753
He says he loves you but won't propose right?  How long are you gonna wait?  Maybe he has no intention of marrying you.  You need to give him an ultimatum and quick.  You would be broken hearted if he breaks up with you and marries someone else.  Don't waste anymore of your time. \nThe same thing happend to my cousin.  She was with her boyfriend for 16 years, had two kids and still no ring.  Last year they broke up and this year he got married to someone else.  Don't waste your time.  If he wanted to marry you he would have already.  You have his child.  Get an answer or move on!\n\nGood Luck!
141415
dont move in\nstudies show you'll never get married ( if that's your goal ) or he evetuanlly dump you ( more than likely )
1010860
wait 3 years then say, will you go out with me?