What would make for good conversation on the phone with my boyfriend?
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Um, phone sex? That's what I do with my current interest when we get bored on the phone. And usually, it's pretty hot!\n\nIf you want to keep things clean, maybe you could read up on current events and use an interesting one as a springboard for a philosophical conversation/debate.
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Talk to him just about anything on the phone. Me and my boyfriend play the questions game, he asks a question, then I ask a question. It may be something that he wants to know, like "what do you do when I'm not around" kind of thing. Guys like a lot of information, but it doesn't have to be perverted. The nickname I use is cutie pie. Ask him if you can call him anything that comes to mind, like baby cakes!! Sounds kinda cheesy, but it helps and it makes him feel connected to you. But don't say things like that in public because guys think that their friends would make fun of him. When your around him in public, hold is hand or give him a little kiss on the cheek. If he sees you as a warm person, then he will do the same thing back. I hope I helped. Let me know if my answer was the one that you were looking for!!!
121671
Talk is cheap...grab his hand and hold on.  Touch is the quickest and easiest way to communicate.
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How about COMMUNICATION
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I really like what original has to say on this issue.  I'm assuming as well you mean "naive."  What to do?  Be yourself most importantly.  Don't pretend to be anything or anyone but yourself either.  This includes faults, quirks, whatever it may be.  Communication is what truly lasts in a relationship so work on building that as your foundation.  It may be hard to talk around him at first because you have those butterflies swarming in your stomach so maybe start on the phone....and let him call you.  Pretend in your mind you're talking to one of your close friends and just talk....talk about whatever.  Be attentive to what he's talking about in his life as well.  ...hmmm....this may be a good tip for you right here.  For as much as I can talk even still I will admit to feeling like I'm 15y/o again at the first of meeting someone I really enjoy.  (nope, doesn't happen often but did not too long ago so fresh on my mind)....Anyway....guys like to talk about themselves.  They like you to be inquisitive about them too.  By asking him questions about himself you're showing your interest right there.  I don't care if you have to make a list of ?s to ask him when he calls, just do whatever.  Be genuinely interested and be a good listener.  Ask questions that pertain to what he's talking about or telling you about.  Tell something about yourself that's somehow related to it if possible.  Just get the communication going and the rest will follow.  Hang out with him as you would a good friend and get to know eachother.  Let him do the pursuing as well.  Don't be the caller.  I don't mean play games but just let him be the one after you.  You just need to be yourself from there.  Have fun and don't overthink everything you say or do.  Laugh at yourself and enjoy life!  I think any guy will tell you that's one very attractive quality in women.  ...Don't fret though sweetie...All girls....and guys..have been there and just like starting anything else in life...you just do it!  ...Start with the communication/friends and the rest will take care of itself.  ...be a smart girl too!  good luck!
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I have the perfect gift idea for you (I had a long distance relationship myself a while back)\n\nHave you used or heard of Skype? It's a program for online audio or video chat.  You can also call regular phones with it.  The sound quality is amazing, even better than regular phones.  \n\nThe software is free. I suggest you buy a skype wifi phone for him or her or both of you.  with this wifi phone, you dont need a computer to talk.  I recommend the belkin skype wifi phone.
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and what would you like to talk about?
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the "best topic" is relative. Best could mean anything. Perhaps, what you are looking for is "suitable". I would start with finding out about themselves...so something like "so, what makes you tick?", or if you are humorous, something to make your bf/gf laugh, like "I've heard a lot about you...mostly from me, that--you're a BABE!"
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I'm bad on the phone too. We just leave the phone for when we make plans, and have actual conversations face to face. If you're in a long distance relationship and need to communicate this way, talk about your day and then use the events to spark up conversations on your thoughts about certain topics.
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Since I love flowers, that's what I would talk about!  Maybe ask them what kinds of plants they grow there... veggies, flowers etc... people grow things all over the world!\nFood, is always a good thing to talk about, everyone eats!Ask how to make certain things, if you let them TEACH you something about THEIR interests or passions, they will love you forever.  \n\nBe a good listener, don't talk too much about yourself (unless you are prompted) but always try to politely ask THEM questions. Ask about the seasons and what's it like  "in the winter" there... Ask about your boyfriend's family tree (sometimes you can find out about interesting lineage!). Ask about where THEY vacation, and what so they like to do on a regular night out. Ask about the funniest moment they remember about your boyfriends childhood.  Get them to open up and laugh, make them feel warm. And smile. Smile whenever you can, not a fake forced smile, but a relaxed smile.\n\nBut best thing to do is find out what their passions are... Listen, learn and relax.  Be yourself and enjoy!\n\nHave a great time!
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He sounds like a sensitive mature kind of guy.  I don't know how long you've been together.  But how about a mix CD of his favorite music, along with a couple of yours to remind him of you, and some of the songs that were popular at the time you met or that were playing at some event you attended together (ie., a song that was playing LOUD at the game you both went to, or the introduction to a movie you both liked).  Doesn't take much money but contains a lot of thought.
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Cell Phone that way she could call and talk to u more often and tell u how much we love u if she were on  buisiness trip...plus she'll use the cellphone more often...she prolly has alot more earings than cell phones!! lol <---hope she likes the cell phone or whatever u choose to get her!! GOOD LUCK!!!!
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Call him or her up on the phone and ask!
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Install yahoo messenger with voice, make sure s/he has it too. Remember, both of you need speakers and microphones.
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It's good that you want to make sweet gestures like that. \nI've been with my hubby for 19 years & still do soppy things. Last week I left a big chocolate heart on his pillow when I went to work for him to find when he came home from work tired. Send him text messages to say you miss him when you haven't seen him all day. Leave notes around the house. One of my favourite places to leave notes is in the glove box of his car cos he always leaves his radio in there & I know he's sure to find it. Tell him...I tell my hubby every day I love him & he does the same with me.
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Whatever you're sending via text-message or giving to him should be a reflection of your relationship and your time together.  My bf and I have an inside joke which we send to each other all the time, not because of the actual text but because when I receive it I know he's thinking about me.\n\nIf you send a simple note that says 'just thought of you and it made me smile' that could make his day.\n\nGifts - same deal.  personal and thoughtful is the way to go.
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Guys like gadgets. Be it a mobile phone, laptop, PDA, Electric shaver and the list goes on. Find out what he doesnt have and get him that. I would recommend you get him the one thats in the ads recently and probably he is thinking of asking u to gift him that...\n\nIn case you become my GF, I would love a Philips Speed XL model HQ8150... hehehehehehehe\n\n.:Fishie:.