I am thai gay; how can I find the love of my life? People always said I shouldn't have a problem at all but!
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Its harder than ppl think.  I am finally settled down with my girlfriend but it took me a nice while.  Just be patient.  Its hard out there but the out come is worth it.  Try going to clubs and gay and lesbian get togethers.  (bars really didnt work for me).  I actually met my girlfriend online. But that doesnt work for every one.  I wish you lots of luck!
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find the love of your life
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Set a standard of who you would like to be with, and then search for him. But never lower your standards for anyone!\n\nAnd DON'T use yourself either!\nUse HOPE of finding the right person to keep you going thats what I do!
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Stop searching for your soul mate and you will find her. When you are looking for someone you will never find them. I stopped looking and WHAM there he was. (we are still together) Good luck. Yes true love exists.
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Boy are you inviting grief asking that in this forum...  However, my heartfelt answer is: Where-ever you find love, why not be allowed to make that committment?\n\nI don't see how the government letting you marry the person you love in any way threatens me and my marriage and my family - I would still choose a heterosexual relationship whether or not gay marriage is legal - so my family life does not need defending from your legal status.  I truly believe that you would not chose this lifestyle if you had a choice.  \n\nGood luck to you.
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find you someone who will be compatible and in love with you\n\nIt is a great day to be alive!!\n\nGood Luck and God Bless!!
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Wow Jill...\n\nFirst...#1...won't happen\n\nMy suggestion would be...to enjoy your life at the moment and don't "look" for a guy.  \n\nYou don't find love...love finds you...It'll happen...If you are as sweet as your sister tells me that you are, then you will have no worries what-so-ever.\n\nMost of all...DO NOT SETTLE !....You are more valuable than that. :-)
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Sometimes you won't find people, they'll find you. Have you ever noticed that if you're actively looking for something, you won't find it... and then when you relax, you realize it's been right infront of you the entire time? It may work like that.\n\nYou are a smart and intelligent female with a gentle heart, from what I've seen here on Yahoo! Answers. Being so, you must have an inner radiance that shines so brightly, I'm surprised you haven't a husband yet! (More surprised to discover you're 31, as you always came off to me as your mid 20's... like 24.)\n\n\nWell, let's look at the pros and cons of a husband, shall we? (and let's humor you and say he's Hindu and views God like you do)\n\nPros - A companion, a lover, a best friend, someone to discuss new ideas with, someone to love, someone to love you, someone to attach to emotionally, physically, spiritually, and mentally\n\nCons - Another person to take care of, someone to argue with, someone to get stressed over, someone who needs constant care, someone whom you may at times want to beat the cr*p out of, someone who -- while he shares your beliefs -- is quite different than you and will have AT LEAST one thing that will tick you off to no tomorrow that he'll refuse to change.\n\n\nFate and Destiny has been selected for you already, as it has for everybody... at least, it's in my opinion for it to be so. Just wait for him to come, or for a symbolic message to come saying that you should "marry" God.
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First be careful, do not leave with him/her.\n\nSecond, be yourself and get to know them.\n\nThird, take your time, do not rush the relationship.\n\nOnline dating can work, I married mine!
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Look in the yellow pages...\n\nNobody can tell you how to find your soul mate, we don't know you.  Besides, love and your soul mate will happen, you can't find either of those by searching
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Try the chat rooms (Yahoo Messenger, MSN, MIRC) or those personal web ads (myspace, friendster, gayromeo, etc...)  Just search under Thailand locality
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Because your looking in the wrong places. Stop looking for the right person and start looking at yourself. Live by the rules of the heart. Love thy self first before you can offer to others. Once you feel comfortable about yourself and stop looking to fill that void...the right person will come into your life. Sometimes if not more often its the person in front of you that is right.
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I can understand where ur comin from... 2 yrs i found the perfect guy for me an i let him slip away an i regret it to this day even tho i have a boyfrien that i love very much... ive tried many ways to find him an havent had any luck... If u kno how to reach him let him kno how u feel... Tell him u wanna be wit him an ask him how he feels about u... If the feelins r mutual then gone head an do yo thang!!! :-D
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Try the Lost and Found??  You should base your lifelong partner search not on where they are from, but what is inside of them.  If there is something particular about that culture that you are strongly drawn to, then I would suggest that you travel--if not relocate--there.  Tour the area, meet people, make friends.  Your princess charming may be around the next corner. GL
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I am a believer that a person finds their true love when the are not searching hard for it, or at all. \n\nIt's funny you asked this tonight.  Because I told someone else this earlier at work tonight.  Just be happy with who you are.  Be a worthy person now, because you just never know who is already watching you. :)
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Close your eyes for a moment and say this prayer: Lord, help me find the right love, with the right person, at the right time and at the right place. AMEN...\n\nThis was my prayer then before I found my 1st boyfriend who is now my husband for many happy years. You have nothing to loose in prayers.
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How can you love a person who is not suitable for you. And if you have a feeling of love for someone, what is the criteria for being suitable. But if you have a feeling of love, then give it a shot, may be its all in your head.\n\nI am not the best at advice but you may try it out once. Life's not gonna end after that.