My husband has a girl at work that likes him. I do not know what to do.?
78636
Are you taking care of your man at home? Most men who have healthy sexual relationships at home do not cheat. When women withold sex from their partners they will seek what they want elsewhere. if you have no solid evidance of him cheating,  stop looking for him to cheat and make his time with you extra special.\n\nIf he offers it to you and you do not want it, he may give it to someone else.
542200
I'm going to say YES!!! I think his boss feels like she & work should be his first priority. She is jealous of you.If it continues or escalates to sexual harrasment your husband should report her or put in a transfer request.Be Blessed!! Monica
303312
A guy that I once worked with was not very attractive and no girls were interested in him, but he really cared about one of the other girls so ever week he would send her flowers and gift -- they started dating and now they are married and have a little boy.\nSo hang in there and show your best personality and how great you are and she will come along.
657175
i think you should tell her how you feel about her and tell him how u feel about her. If you think they were really meant to be together than let it be, if u think u in her were meant to be together than GO GET YOUR GURL.
654464
rather he likes her or not, that is not showing respect to you by doing that, its not his place to tell her that, you need to find out WHY he doesn't like her, she could have made a pass at him or something, and he doesn't want to tell you, so you need to find out.  Tell him not to do that anymore or you will start doing the same to the people who call there for him.
527109
It's probably better that she's out of the office, as office relationships can be a sticky situation.  Consider this your opportunity - go for it!  Call her up.  What are you waiting for???
632210
oh, better don't. just imagine how would you feel if a girl dates your husband. aha... that's how his wife would feel. be considerate, PLEASE!
1004403
Rubbish, all these people forcing thier morals on you.  If you feel a need to sleep with him, and you want too, do it.  Yes, he may be married, but, he is not going to stop looking just because you turn him down.  If you seduced him, then you are at fault, if harmless flirtation turned into something else, that is nature.  You know that this is just a physical thing and nothing will come out of it, but a little fun, if your ok with that,and can deal with it at work, then have fun.  Guess what people, the wife knows, she just prefers not to admit it, get real.  This woman is not a home wrecker of any kind, and you should not be bashing her.
928170
Ask her if she would like to do something outside of the workplace with you.  You're obviously very impressed by her and if you told her (generally) what you said here, I'm sure she would be very flattered.  It sounds like she likes you, too, but that the work environment is not the time or place to find out.  If you both work at the same time, ask her if you could take her to get something to eat after work (or whatever), tell her how much you admire her work, her excellent grades and how friendly she is.  That opens the door for you both to get closer and to see if there's a relationship beyond work - I'm betting there is! :)
163637
Don't go there, That is grounds for a sexual harrassment case waiting to happen.  If you let on that you like him, or if you reported it to others, either one of you could be fired.  Find another job before you even think about telling him you like him.
81365
talk to your girlfriend about this new girl and ask her what you should do. I know that this sounds crazy, but it pays off. then really question your self. Y do you like these people? is the reason you like this other girl better than your gf that you never see her or is it because you don't have chemistry? Don't just blindly make a decision. That doesn't help.
541257
Give her space. And why would you want to be with someone that would rather be with work buddies that she's with all day than her own husband? Maybe you shouldn't even try to win her back just yet.Give it time.Weather she was cheating or not,there is no reason to hang out with another man without your own man or if it were a friend or gay,know what I'm trying to say?Just take a break from woman all together,work on you and take time out for yourself.And try not to drive urself crazy, I'm sure you're hurting, but time heals.Maybe she'll wake up one day and realize she lost out on a great man!
96235
What a scary question to have to ask.  If you see signs of him giving her the wrong kind of attention, listen to your instincts and pay very close attention to his behavior towards her.  I think this is one of those things people brush off, thinking it's their imagination.  I don't know how old she is, but I'd say talk to your daughter about him, see how she feels about him.  And if you haven't before, talk to her about her body and other's bodies.  You may want to talk to him too, which is obviously an awkward thing to do.  Her safety is of course number one though.  Above all, when you have such suspicions, don't ever give anyone the benefit of the doubt.
696621
Please, you are in lust with her I am doubting that love has anything to do with it.  You and your wife need to try and rekindle your marriage.
508836
Dont feel lost broken or confused.  These things have a way of working themselves out.  If he sees you for who you are and her as the cheater, then hopefully he will make the right choice.  You can always remind him of your loyalty.
1103660
I think he totally likes you. I'm sort of going through the same thing right now...I totally have a crush on this guy at work but I have a boyfriend!! Just try to keep flirting down to a minimum so you don't lead him on but also to protect your relationship. And make sure you remain friends with him, it's always good to have a buddy at work  =)
1060517
Its a Go Go from me! 51 oh please he is old enough to be her father! Dude needs some bashing from his wife! He deserves it! Tell your friend to be strong and keep ignoring him and if he still follows her at work etc tell her to report it as sexual harassment. Once he is reported he for sure will keep his distance!