when does the time come to give up on someone?
97502
When being with them is actually more painful emotionally and/or physically than if you were not with them. Sometimes it is just worse being with them than without them, then it is time to let them go. Another would be when they do not respond to you, when you deserve respect and love.
322266
If that person is not helping you grow as a person and they are not making a positive contribution to your life. Then its time for you to call it quits.
421416
It depends on why they are going to begin with. If it's all relating to pursuit of their dreams you gotta let them go. I believe that there's a time and place when two people come together...Fate is a motherf***, but you gotta let them go. If they come back to you it was truly meant to be.
116136
This is a toughie for me.  In retrospect, I felt in my gut whenever a guy wasn't the best one for me--but I often stayed because I doubted my own instincts.  Things generally end or fade away because the universe no longer sees a need for us have them in our lives; we have learned our lesson and it is time to move on.  The pain of a breakup is FAR less damaging than the choice to stay and suffer holding on long after you should have let go.
55497
It may be over for you, but it may not be over for him. Hard to give a good answer with minimal information.
824451
If it was a serious relationship involving love, there is no true time limit. It all depends on when your ready. I would say six months. You never know, but if you try going out and it doesnt feel right. You would know that means your not ready.
291235
Only if you let them.  Don't put up with it, but if they persist . . . time to walk away.
583480
cos the feelings are too strong.... all u have to do is feel the person is horror himself.or think him in a bad way and u will hate him.... but i will suggest that if there is any means having that person u just have to try cos  ... its good to follow the heart he may be the one 4 u and don't just give up. but if u insist on giving up it OK.. cos if u don't give up u are only killing ur self a given passion or emotion that can never be re_given by the other.there is not determinate answer cos, he May be the one, and he may not be the one. if u can bear it wait for a time and see if things will change. but if u cannot wait then forget him and believe that, if he is for u he will come back sooner or later alone.
799779
giving up is not the solution.. what happened to you should serve as a lesson and a challenge as well, but not as a reason for giving up.. d problem with u is that you're committing the same mistake coz it seems like you're not learning from it.. if u're starting to like a person, just tell them right away.. don't hesitate.. just do it, okay?
154292
Never give up. Ever. Giving up is just like sending the child to their grave. And who will continue to love this person if not the mother, father, or both? Everyone can be helped. Yes, everyone.
106361
only you can say when enough is enough because it really depends on the kind of guy you're with... you should give up on love if: \n- you feel like he's only using you to get what he wants\n- he seems distant & cold & won't talk about it no matter how hard you're reaching out.\n- he's draining you emotionally, financially, physically & socially.\n\nit must not be love if:\n- you can't talk about anything \n- you resolve conflicts by kissing, making out or having sex only\n- you argue about everything & can't compromise\n- you're cheating
786399
you will know when hope is gone ...when you feel it in your heart to just give up on trying. hope is gone when you can find no other means to put it together again.
1184862
Keep looking and don't give up. The person might just be around you so don't try too hard.Good luck.
69502
When the other person stops caring. In which I mean...if he no longer cares what you do, who your going out with and shows no interest in what you have to say. Especially when all he can say is..."whatever". Pack your stuff up, and leave!
181806
Don't seem desperate, but gradually show interest. If they don't seem to care, just back away, and move on.
1113080
As much time as you need.  Only you will know when enough is enough.  Allow yourself the time, get some help if you need it.\n\nHang in there
797137
Ever heard yhe old saying that if you love someone and they want to leave you should let them go if it is meant to be they will comeback to you. Try this on your freind and see what happens\nGood luck