If a married man visits with a single female quite often, do people think that he is having a affair?
92179
Yes, if not a physical affair, then an emotional one.  When a married man is sharing his time w/a single woman, he is sharing intimacies with her that should be reserved for his wife.
290456
if you have reason to believe he is youare probably right. i can't think of a time i thought someone was cheatin and i was proven wrong. a womens intuition is never wrong
246873
When the married man has discussed it with his wife and they both agree,\nor\nwhen the married mans wife is so ill that he no longer has any kind of relationship with her, ie she is in an irretrievble coma, has alzhiemers ....\nwhen the couple have been seperated physically or/and mentally for years and he is in love with another person.\n\nof course these are just my opinions and I respect that other people think very differently so I mean no offence to anyone.
1118112
Really, there is never a good reason for the other person that is being cheated on but, sometimes, when a person is all alone in the marriage, being ignored and traeted badly by the other person, then they cheat, they do this to feel love again, to feel needed. Sometimes, things just happen, even if they were trying not to happen.
307409
Go the other way.  Married men are off limits.  You wouldn't want to be on the receiving end of a cheater.  Neither does his wife.  And let's face it, if he is cheating on her with you, do you think yer the only one?
97447
I don't think people look for it as much as they just find it.  With both people working in a marriage, you spend more time with co-workers than you do with your spouse.  When that happens, work relationships can turn into sexual relationships.   One day at work I turned to a co-worker of mine and I said to him, "Do you realized that you and I are the only two employees here that haven't been in an affair?"  I worked with about twenty people and the next month he was in an affair also.
844333
Not necessarily......just being friends with someone who happens to be attractive does not mean they are having an affair.  It could be that after she spends time with him she realizes how lucky she is to have you, that explains why her sex drive is up.\n\nThis question is far to vague and asks more questions before an opinion can be formed.
1043467
yes I would be furious and think he was cheating or looking to. If it was innocent they wouldn't be using fake names and keeping it from you. If they were just friends he'd have no problem telling you
1024141
In my opinion, it is normal for men to want to see two woman together.  It's a major turn on for them.  BUT when you are married, it changes things a little.  Trust becomes an issue, and there are a lot of feelings involved!  I think that with single people, it's a different thing, but married people should be a little cautious!
945135
He may or may not be cheating.  But whatever he is doing, he is AT RISK for at least cheating EMOTIONALLY.  love2utam has it right.  If it's an affair of the heart (even without sex) it's still an affair.\n\nEven if he has lots of friends, and they are genuine friends with absolutely no romantic/emotional attachment, if he still spends a good deal of time with them, he has difficulty prioritizing his time.  He spreads himself too thin.\n\nYOU should be the FIRST person he comes to for fulfilling his needs.  ALL of his needs.
447878
Obviously those who do the cheating say it is a good thing and those who are cheated on say it is a bad thing.  It is all from your own perspective and beliefs about relationships.
781845
I never have but I wouldn't expect too much out of a online affair. You really don't know anything about the person. Everything could be a lie.
343257
It really depends on the terms of the man's relationship with his wife.  I know a couple who are happily married but they have sex with other people (separately, not like a three-some).  Each knows that the other has multiple partners but that is the terms of their relationship and they're ok with that.  So, if this was previously discussed by the couple and the wife is ok with it, then no, it is not cheating.  However, if this is not agreeable within the terms of their relationship, then it would be cheating.  \n\nThe best thing for the couple to do would be to sit down and discuss this.  They may need a moderator, such as a couples counselor, or they may not.  But it needs to be resolved otherwise the guy will be miserable and the longer it goes on the more hurt the wife will be.  People need to be free to express themselves sexually and being bi-sexual is something that he sould have brought to her attention before they were married.  Now they've got to work it out.  \n\nIf this is a real situation that you know of, give my best to the couple and wish them luck for me.\n\nFR
1115002
Affairs are exactly what they sound like, they are affairs.  Very rarely do they turn out to be anyhting other than flings.  If both parties are signing up for the very same thing, and they both know what they expect from eachother, then no harm done.
1178346
I cant give you the reason for the person you may be talking about but,most people(male or female) will have an affair with someone if given the chance.It may have something to do with being selfish,self-centered,and they might have a low self-esteem,and Im guessing they dont have morals and values or a lack of.Some may just have a lack of commitment.Anyway,I for one cant figure out why someone would waste someone elses time by pretending to be someone they arent by acting like they Love or care for someone.....Its sad....... Best Wishes
273792
Sure...you see an attractive person of the opposite sex and maybe think about it, but as long as you don't follow through or make any attempt to actually do anything I think it's natural.  As a girl, I personally think guys are much more vulnerable to this type of thinking (maybe vulnerable isn't the best word, but you know what I mean).  Yes, it would be devasting to your wife/gf if she found you having an affair.  But just looking at an attractive person isn't bad.  But don't go off flirting with them or anything like that.  Use that energy on your wife/gf!
619650
Men are strange creatures. They think in ways that don't make much sense sometimes at least to us (women).\n\nIts apparent he still loves his wife or he wouldn't be putting himself through the whole counseling bull.  \nAnd maybe deep down inside he wants to find out why he is cheating, and he is looking for answers.\n\nI suppose it is possible he wants his cake and icing too. But I don't think there is anything wrong with him per say.