if your boyfriend has just found out that he might be the father of his x-girlfriend baby, what would you do?
93520
I would see how he handles the responsibility.  If he steps up to the plate and helps out, and you love him, stand by him and support him.  If he shows he doesn't care, RUN!\n\nAnd becareful, you don't need a kid from a guy who doesn't take responsibilty before or after sex.
133168
Then hook up with his best friend!!  I was with a jerk I got pregnant with and I married his best friend..\n(Of course, they aren't friends anymore...but I am happy!)
514528
First of all my dear friend, you are too young for this man. I hope to God you have not had sex with this man for this is truly a case of statutory rape. Second, you have way too much life to live to be dragged into the middle of this drama...and believe me, the drama has only just begun. You will never have any peace with this man and his ex (especially since you have indicated that he already talked about going back, then you say, he wants nothing to do with her only for the baby -doesn't sound like a firm foundation to me) You need to run, run, run as far away from this situation as you can - you don't want to be the next one with child.
26196
Your boyfriend now is willing to raise it as his own, and the real father wants nothing to do with it among a litany of other problems, sounds like a pretty clear cut answer to me.
138833
girl , wake up and smell the truth! he is hiding something from you , that is for sure! he either has another girlfriend or he has a secret life ;) but i think the girlfriend thing is more probable
1018883
tell them you are pregnant, and that they (or their boyfriend) is the father.  but don't let on who you are - use a fake email addy if possible.  let them stew for a bit (best to monitor the situation too, just in case it starts to get out of control) before letting them in on it.\n\nok, it's kinda cruel.  but then the best pranks are!  ;-)
557753
Well, a tough situation for you, but you should tell him that you are pregnant with his child only because it's fair for him to know. If he chooses to be there in support of the child that's great!!! If he is not, then you have to decide for the child what's going to be best for him/her and if that means getting money from this guy then that is what it will take. Good Luck!!!!!
466578
Ask him to take a paternity test voluntarily, he may just be in denial. If he will not do it willingly go to social services or family court and sue for support, he will then need to take a paternity test to prove he is not the father.
255032
Get a restraining order!  Sounds like a stalking situation to me!  I know he is your babys father but let him know- LEAVE ME ALONE its not gonna happen bubba!  Good Luck with your new man!  were u two married or just a boyfriend?
426931
no!!! he made his choice to give you up. no offense. but he went off and got another girl pregent. if you take him back you are creating difficulties for yourself, him, the mom, and the baby and both families. he made his choice. he is missing out on life while you are enjoying it. plus being single ROXS!!!!
164943
You are poor girl,you know that he has a gf and she is pregnant and will give him his baby..what is your place between them? I think he is just using you for his desires
332579
how long have you known him? for him to be your fiance he should have already known - if you have the child, if not the sooner the better. just say "we need to talk" - this will unnerve him enough that when you tell him he'll be glad it wasn't about him
561019
Get him to have sex with you.\nthat would break them up\n\nor dig up dirt about her.\n\nlol i feel dirty answering this question. haha
1031676
Wow thats a tough one,  best might just to be totaly upfront and not beat around the bush (bad choice of words there) .   Just ask him.  makes me wonder how you are going to do it though,  like big stringe or what.......lot of emotional issues too.  any decent guy is going to have feelings about his child and that could be sticky.  Beings you have already picked him I'm sure he's a decent guy.  Best of luck to you.
182686
no thats not fair to him.... you need to get over it and realize that she will be in his life for a very long time bc they have a child together
167684
You are in for it. If he spends lots of time with the baby and its not alone. (at his ex's place without you) THen he's probably doing something with her and you. SO if your not into that, you have a lot of thinking to do. Its better to love and lost and never loved at all. (men in black)
332296
tell them your gay. or tell them you got your gf pregnant.