Guys...hot but really really a pain in the arss or ugly and fat and really really fun and sweet?
83517
fun and sweet would make us see a girl cute even if she is fat and ugly. Fat is absolute, but ugly can be debated...
100319
It really depends on the man. I can't stand the stick figures they call models. I much prefer curvy.
372912
I'd rather have the in shape guy. I'm not emphasizing good looking, that would be great but isn't mandatory. HOWEVER, if I'm investing enough of myself and time into someone that I have sex with them? I want them to stick around for awhile. Penis size seems irrelevant if you have to be air lifted from your bed for emergency surgery after that heart attack. Someone that fat literally lives on their deathbed, usually with clogged arteries, gout, or diabetes.No thanks.
428270
it's not all about the looks, it's about personality and heart, the person inside, even fat girls are pretty and attractive, make sure you always look the best you can and add a little lip gloss and smile and be happy.  heh you born ugly you stay ugly, but if you fat, well you can loose it. i use to be model, now i am fat, 30kg overweight, and believe me when i say i have seen some hunky guys with some girls that are fat, and some even not so pretty, so just because you fat, has nothing to do with finding a man. it maybe not your time yet that all
197565
Having dated both "hot" guys and "goofy" guys I have learned many things about both. Many "hot" guys are so into themselves that they are miserable boyfriends and can't seem to stand to see their girlfriend without makeup. They are usually quiet shallow. "Goofy" guys however tend to be more open and honest about who they are, they are generally more caring about other's feelings and usually have a great sense of humor. Being the "hot" guy isn't so great when you don't have personality to back it up. If there is a "hot" guy out there with the personality of a "goofy" guy I haven't met him and doubt that I ever would.
496248
It really depends on the guy. No one style works for everyone. All of the above can be incredibly hot on the right guy!
955608
depends on the girl! and also: depends on HOW GREAT your personality, or HOW GREAT your looks....and then also: tastes differ...so if say, Orlando Bloom would be outside singing me a seranade but turn out to be a real dick i would say NAY thanks, and if someone "ordinary looking" (whatever that is) or Not-So-Hot with a great personality would be doing the same id say YAY!!!.....I've fallen for both....both are appealing in a way; but beauty will never win someone's heart....my best/most intense experiences were with men with a personality that made me go SWOON rather than their looks...in fact: their personalities made their outer appearance really appealing to me (regardless of backhair, chubbiness, beginning baldness etc....) ;-)
742923
I'm a 19 year old guy.  I cannot speak for all guys, but being really skinny is kinda gross.  A girl in shape with some curves is best.  Even ones that are a bit on the pudgy side are much better than aneorexic ones.  And anyway, if the girl has an awesome personality, to me that can override a lot of things in terms of looks.
394691
i go for personality, becuase all good looking guys are shallow jerks who are cocky as hell. i used to go for looks too, but as i grew older and more mature, i changed. as long as hes funny, modest and cool, im okay.
340637
Sorry but he must be physically appealing to me, nice eyes, clean white teeth are nice and to be fit, not over weight.\nNot all girls are like that though.\nNone of that is important to me though if it isn't teamed up with a genuine character, you know , not superficial and fake.  Most girls like a guy who is not afraid to talk about what he believes in and thinks and how he feels.  Nothing is more annoying than some one who can't communicate clearly with thoughtfulness and RESPECT.\n\nIt is good if they can dance and earn a good living ...very good. Ride horses, fix cars, build houses and cook the occasionally a la carte meal.  Ha ha ha ha. etc etc  I could go on but it would fill the whole page up.
810377
Yeah, but he's not very good looking, he's HOT!!!!
179011
I like long stumbles on the beach, watching peelers, fight'n and talking about the fabulous noises and smells that emanate from my body. My pet peeve, women who cannot put down their crack pipes long enough to service my unnatural sexual needs. My ideal mate should have low self-esteem, a killer body and an isatiable appetite for sex with balding middle-aged alcoholics. Your ideal mate, should be morbidly obese, alcholic and intellectually challenged with questionable morals, bad acne and breath that would make you cry.
1008158
would you and your friends care to join me?\n\nHow did Dani Kin get such a hot avatar?\n\nIf a guy thinks you are hot, are you flattered or just annoyed?
186720
no one can define the word ugly....\n\njust have lot of sex...it will burn every thing out.
132070
when i say a guy is hot i mean hes sweet, has inner sexiness, and know how to carries himself, and he has to seem alittle like a freak(if u know wat i mean lol)\n\ni know im so f-ing crazy but o well
62026
This is not true of all men.  These guys just can't get anything better than that.  There's nothing wrong with a hot woman accentuating her attributes, but nothing to the extent that you described.
452080
It just depends. Is this guy/girl hot? Because if so, then I don't see why you don't feel comfortable. But if they are ugly, then I'd tell them to back the f*ck off and don't freaking do it again.