is falling in love worth the risk of gettin hurt?
89676
yes. like the old saying "it is to better to have love and lost than to never love at all"
1131650
falling for someone who was out to hurt me
59223
i think its worth it !\nyou cant feel it at the moment. actually you will have to give it to the person you love the most and care u the most, itsnot worth it for somebody who wants to have fun with u or who wants to take advantages with u !\nhope thats help !
1099223
hmm.. falling in love.. what a great feeling.  However, ALLOWING yourself to fall in love when you know your heart will break, is not love at all.  But when you CHOOSE to love someone, there are no expectations.  You just do it because it makes you happy to do so.  And when that is given in return (not expected) well then that is the most wonderful thing on earth.  We are creatures of love.  We came into this world knowing only love.  We only learned from family, friends, and the world what is expected to "be in love".  And this is a lie.  When someone punishes you for loving them, then it isn't love at all.  So pay attention to your feelings and the ACTIONS of others as well as your own actions.  There is a book I want to find and read .. it will help you understand and it explains it better than I ever will.  Enjoy!!
682650
Absolutely!  Don't risk it if you have a good friendship.  The friendship ending will hurt more than the relationship.
342431
love isn't something u make happen.. it's something that happens over time.. if u want some one to fall inlove with u then u need to find one person and make the relationship work.. if u fall in love then they will to.. just make sure u want to fall in love to.. not just for them to fall in love with u.. it's not love if it comes from one person and not both..
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depends on what are the risk involve?\nu might be talking about anyone...someone who is involve in drugs? someone who is already married? someone who is still a minor?\nso while u can be totally in love with each other...some things may require the right time, place and sensibilty
907575
Yes, it WILL happen, but only after you've given yourself time to heal. I'm sorry she hurt you so bad, but don't let this stop you from loving, and being loved. Best of luck to you!
282412
Emotions.  ???\n\nFALLING in love does sound goofy - guess it's a good metaphor for what love can do to someone - knock them on their rear.  hehe
564422
If it doesn't hurt its not love.what hurts u makes u stronger.love is life an life is love.
46610
It's a bit of both. \n\nHaving love is painful, lest you fear to lose it, yet at the same time, being in love is wonderful and can make you happy.\n\nYou must strike a good balance.
510241
no it takes time to fall in love
820396
yes. if you do NOT love to keep pain OUT, then you also cannot let LOVE IN!! it's a risk but one worth taking!! just use your HEAD and not always your heart for guidance!!
118881
no, there's nothing rational about why you fall in love.  it's an impulsive and emotional thing, always has been, so if you see somebody who 'seems to be' just what you're looking for at that time, you definitely could fall in love.\n\nmy advice is to not worry about looking foolish in the future.  keep your eyes open and learn about him for sure, but don't be so jaded as to worry whether he is the right one forever.  as long as he is the right one for right now, enjoy each other!\n\n'love is the triumph of imagination over intelligence'.\n                                      -h l mencken
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life goes on and we all get hurt... let ur guard down because you cant  live your life affraid to love someone because you got hurt before.   dont close the doors to new and wonderful people! it would be the biggist mistake you ever make. ..life is a risk...live it!
201293
FALL INTO REAL LOVE ON LINE???  Hmmmmm Im not much of a believer in that- although Im sure it has happenned.  I think you r more falling in love with IDEA of being in love!  U do not know this person REALLY, and you do not see him on a daily basis and therefor he is perfect, and it makes it so much easier to feel love towards a person who says the right things.  BUT you do not know his daily habits, his temperment, and all the little things that make up a true re;ationship.  This person also farts and scratches his butt in public!  lol  Just like allll the other men we know and love so well!  So I think Im saying- NO I think its more THEY ARE FALLING IN LOVE WITH THE IDEA OF FALLING IN LOVE with their perfect man.
314283
Of course. When you fall in love with someone, there is always a fear that your feelings won't be returned in the same way. Some people never work up the nerve to disclose their true feelings to the one they love. They just stay "friends" with this person because they don't want to be without them. So it's entirely possible someone you know may be in love with you, but too scared to say so.