why do gays always crave for nude men?
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I guess the same reason that non gays always crave naked women.
108444
About half of the guys I know are homophobic. One of my homophobic friends would say stuff like, “I don’t have a problem with gay guys. I just don’t want them … around me,” and “Gay guys just wanna plunder my a*s.” It’s so common for hetero guys to think that all gay guys wanna do is rape hetero guys. By definition, a phobia is an irrational fear. What’s to be afraid of? Their scathing humor aside, homosexual men are the most harmless things on Earth. Have you ever heard of a gay murderer? Or a gay thief? Maybe I haven’t been around long enough, but I’ve never heard of a criminally deviant homo dude (although I do know some pretty ghetto dyke hooligans). My point is I think most homophobic guys can’t explain why they’re scared of gay guys.\n\n\nWhat I think the reason is:\n\nThe penis is the intrusive genital. Men brandish their penii with a subconscious feeling of superiority over women. And the idea that a man will use that power against his own kind repulses hetero men. Hetero guys like an*l sex (with a female), not because it feels better, but because it shows ownership of the woman he’s sodomizing. The notion that they may be owned in the same way scares them.\n\nThis is not necessarily fact. Just my take on the matter. Hey, I’m not man-hating. I’m just homo-defending.\n\nGuys, you should take it up the a*s every once in a while. Your g-spot is located next to your prostate, accessible only through the butth*le. I’m not suggesting having your butt plugged by another guy. If you’re not down for that, let your girlfriend hit it with a d*ldo. Don’t knock it ‘til you try it. Or are you afraid you might like it? =P
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Because all guys are nasty little perverts. Who only want to see your goodies. It took me ten years to figure this out.
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Do you want a guy that isn't interested in looking at women? Where I come from they call those guys gay. He may be a bit inconsiderate at times, but he's not a perv.
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It's basically when the person has a lustful look for someone.  You're imagining that person naked and wanting to fuck them since they're so hot/attractive. The person is just using their imagination and sexual fantasy.
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because they're gay .
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They seem to be hotter to you because they are unattainable, you always want something more if you know you can't have it.\nOne time to straight female coworkers wanted me to take them to a gay bar that I frequented. While we were there, I noticed how much they commented on the looks of the gay men and asked them about it. One of the girls responded "It's like window shopping, you like to look at things that you can't have."
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They are decieved into what they are doing is right, Because other gay men brainwash them into joining them,\n\nSome(Not all) Gay men will try to brainwash stright men into joining there team by being super extra nice to them, and play with there emotions.\n\nThey are also decieved and brainwashed by soceity, peer presure, Pornogophy, infulcnes, tv, family, childhood, and mental illness that "may" be devolped from child molestation.
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They are scared or do not think it is natural. Not me, though, I love gays! I actually do, lots of gay people are funny and nice, maybe because theyve been through a lot (plus the gay boys are sensitive and can help me with my shopping!)
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think in today's society many guys especially younger men do look at other guys and "judge" there attractiveness, this includes everything from physical to what they are wearing etc. This includes everything from a famous actor to the guy with his girlfriend waiting to be seated at the local restaurant. Why they want to see how they stack up against them. All most every young man has also checked out another guy in the shower or restroom to see how they stack up in that area as well, and I don't believe this makes one gay its just something that is done but no one would be willing to admit to. \n\nMen and women look at what the "ideal "  masculine features found to be universally attractive are on others — including a straight strong nose, strong chin, rugged brows, prominent cheekbones and full lips, Trends in fashion etc. \n\nSometimes a "jealous passion" can develop for other males. This is when we desire to actually become another guy. The obsession can then carry over into our sexual fantasy life. Lack of acceptance of ourselves is the issue here. \n\n\nTo better explain your own personal feelings, you should distinguish between "sexual preference" and "sexual orientation." Sexual preference considers desired sexual actions with a partner, while sexual orientation involves all your thoughts, feelings, fantasies, and emotions that cause us to become aroused.  No one can answer this for you, but I bebelieve admitting another man is handsome is just honest and what your idea of what features in this person you find attractive are and I have heard many happily married straight men say Tom Cruise is a good looking guy are they really Gay ?\n\nnot sure if this answers your question but i hope it helps
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You experienced a practice called cruising . Some men cruse around and when they see someone who is attractive to them they will ask if they want to hang out , if the person says yes then it has worked if he says no then no harm done . I doubt if he thought you were a prostitute but it doesn't mean he would have been willing to pay you for sex . He may not have even thought you were gay , Some men like to give bjs to straight guys . Oh and by the way there are some really hot men in their 40s and 50s . ie Tom Cruse . Don't let it bother you , just be flattered he thought you were hot !
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funny your asking this question i just had guest over for dinner and we were talking about the same thing,,if gay men would stop letting this stuff happen guys would have on other choice but to treat each other better. why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free. so many gay men are lonely so they will do this stuff just to be with someone and get treated like garbage. all you have to do is just not give it up the minute you meet them. they will have no other choice but to chase you and work for the nana and maybe stick around abit.most guys want what they can't have
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i certainly don't know about every gay guy, but i went through that and so did some of my gay guy friends. the thing is that gay men feel a special bond with straight girls and there is the whole thing of wanting to be "normal". almost every gay guy goes through a phase in their lives where they are just sick and tired of being tormented and ridiculed for being gay and they just would like to be "normal", whatever that is. so don't be hard on him. it does hurt the girls sometimes and that is not good but the gay guy is hurting too.TTFN.
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I cannot tell a handsome man from one that isn't. I feel rejection to the very idea of me with another man (which does not mean I feel rejection to those men who do have sex with other men, just to the idea of me in that situation). I have never fallen in love with a man or boy. And I am never aroused with men. Plus, I have an education which I'm sure would not make me repress it, if I were gay. So, I guess I am physically unable to feel any homosexual drive, which is a bad thing, since it would double my chances if I weren't so picky, and looking always for women.
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Everyone wants the possitives that come with Christianity. Jesus said himself that many shall knock to come in but few will actually enter. Of course there are gay people who want to be christians and maintain their lifestyles. Think of mobsters and criminals who kill and steal and sell drugs yet they wear crosses around their neck, or the stripper with a cross tattooed on her back.  \n\nUnless they leave behind all and follow Christ, they are doomed
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Oh, it's wanted. Some want it, and won't stop looking until they find it. The people who do want these values always seem to be overlooked. There are guys out there who want what you want, just have to know where to find them!! =)
338140
Some men don't find women attractive and would prefer the hard buttocks and chest of a man. They love their own body and lust after it too.