I used to love this guy off the internet that i had been talking to on the computer and the phone for over 6?
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It sounds to me like he was messing around with your head, honey.  Unfortunately there are men like that on the internet and they are complete @$$holes.  There are good ones, too, though, so don't let this discourage you from continuing your search where you left off.\n\nMy own personal motto is "Do follow your heart, _but_ make damn sure your brain is along for the ride."  I'm not at all saying that you did anything wrong -- sometimes it can be very hard to tell indeed.  It's just that I had to learn a few hard lessons myself and so now I don't give my heart away until I've done the best job possible of making sure I don't pick up on any contradictions, evasion of questions (particularly about family or the person's past), facts/descriptions/histories that don't add up or anything else that my instincts might warn me about.\n\nGood luck to ya!
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wow. what a jerk.  he's so not worth your time!\nit sounds to me like he was leading you on.. i dont know if that's the case, but i think you should find another amazing guy who will actually acknowledge ur presence!
38873
If u don't no him, end it now. u don't no wat this guy is like. he might seem like a really nice guy on the internet, but it is easy 2 lie on the internet, but u might end up wishing u had never started it.
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Have you ever met this man? \nYou may be in love with the 'idea' of him, but I don't believe it's possible to be in love with someone you have not met.\nThere could be a number of reasons why he is no longer writing to you, maybe he hurt himself and is in the hospital, maybe he is dealing with a family issue that he is not ready to talk about, maybe he found someone else to chat with, maybe he is not in love with you the way you think he is. This list could go on and on.\nWhen is the last time you two chatted? In hindsight do you recall any differences in his responses to you?\nYour best bet is to ask him why he has stopped writing and then you will have your answer as to what to do. \nIf you have his phone number, give him a call.\nGood luck, I hope everything works out for you.
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you wont ever know if its really real or not.. i met my recent ex boyfriend off the internet we ended up moving in together having a beautiful baby together and the whole time he was online hooking up with women the same way he hooked up with me... so first just think if he picking up you on the net and talking to you that way on the net... think about how many other girls he doing that to too... although there are very few nice guys out there.. just be cautious.
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May be, he might have found his love with someother girl, when he was away. Firt find out this stuff. Then also you have your rights depends on how close youtwo are. Just talk to him first.
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I can't believe the answers some of these people gave you! How heartless!\nYou can't really know what he meant by it, trust me I know, the best you can do is wait for word from him and know that he is trained to handle the situation over there. When you do hear from him again, ask him what happened and maybe talk about if he ever has to get offline quickly again, how to word it so as not to worry you so much. I hope everything is ok and I wish you and your friend the best.
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Ouch... I'm guessing you probably wouldn't be willing to talk to him about it? Definitely not the smartest or most honest thing to do... but maybe he was just using it to meet new friends? Probably easier to find people willing to talk to you if you're not already taken. If you've already decided to move on though, then I don't think it matters either way.  I'd just hate for something to become hurt and distrustful over a misunderstanding <=^)
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Its best not to dig up old wounds. It has been 5 years. he has probably moved on. Id find a nice guy close by where you can talk to him face to face and not across an ocean.
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i was talkin to this guy online for about 2 weeks met him and that was 2 years ago and now we are still together in love so yes sometimes its good!! just be safe about it
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Don't call him! and it is a good think that you changed your phone number.\nAfter 5 years together he just takes off with no explanation?! I know it's very difficult for you and it's going to take sometime for you to get over it, but he is a jerk! If I were you, i won't talk to him even if he comes by and drops on his knees!!
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i had EXACTLY  same situation,,,love at first site, college ddays gone, never spoken to him.....once i sent him a sms abt frdship with my name n i got reply....now v r frds n chat half d day....\ndon t know whether it ll work 4 u.... don t risk t...hope u get d right advice....all d best...i understand how it is like.....
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Embrace the Zen that is the internet and realize that you are far bigger than that and if you really waste your time on negative energy pursuing him, he has in fact won.  Let go of pursuit and start talking to other guys-its not as if the internet is short on them.
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Some people just latch on to someone they think they stand a chance with and won't let go. It isn't anything you are doing. You are being honest with him and he won't take the hint. If it is online then report him to whatever chat site you are using. If it is in person call your local magistrate and see what can be done to keep this guy away from you.
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you're lingering over old feelings and sometimes that's natural, especially if you felt really strongly for this person.  your best bet though is to move on and try to find some interests that will help you take your mind off of him.  wish you luck.
956144
Sure sounds like stalker material to me.  Just stop seeing him/returning his calls and eventually he lose interest.
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It's easy to feel this way about someone that you are communicating to on the internet.  Probably many things in common, sense of humor, etc.  Be careful tho.  On the internet there is no commitment, no responsibility.  It's a whole new ball game when you're together.  Take things very very very slow, don't let your emotions take over, it's too dangerous.  Be cautious and if you meet do it in a public place not just once but every time for quite some time.