My friend is being played but dont know it what should I do with out hurting her felings she go zaped and her?
92274
Get solid proof to show her.
673613
beat her ass\nmake her understand
840604
Well you and your friend put your foot into your mouths,shame on you ha ha ha ha,but it is fix able......Offer her a gift,take it over to her house and say your sorry,suck it up! \n\nA nice gift to offer her,given she tried to explain her problem,would be a gift of rock salt deoderant,it's amazing for just this type of problem,you can buy them at any health food store,and they are only a couple dollars. She will think you actually took the time to think about her,and the problem she tried explaining to you when you made fun of her.
937291
And... why is she your friend? Don't beat her up. Just don't give her the time of day any more.
392419
what is he doing to her??
642500
You should give her the opportunity to know how you feel and what is going to happen if she doesn't change the way she is behaving.  She is probably in actuality a very insecure girl that feels that she needs to put others down.  Tell her that a friend doesn't act that way, and that just as you would for her, you are defending your friends and their feelings...that is what friends do.
914903
bite her!! sometimes you gotta break some nails to whip some tails! Tellher leave you alone before i get her. I dont know you but will throw bleach in her face!
227061
Sounds like she is trying to be you.  She definitely isn't worth being your friend, but I don't know about picking a physical fight---just seems like a bad idea, especially if she could press charges.
36111
i agree with SEMAJ.  if she is really a good friend then she'll listen to you.  tell her that in your opinion, her bf is trying to control her and you can see that.  and ask her if she wants to be controlled by him.  tell her that you dont have any intention to ruin her relationship but you are just trying to warn her and you are being a good friend.  you dont want her to get hurt someday so the if the bf is controlling her and its just ok for her dont feel bad.  she'll realize it and tell her no matter what you'll be there for her.
277725
you're right , and your  friend will end up getting hurt because this guy is just using her, if you tell someone she will end up hating you .  i think you will have   to wait and see what happens . good luck
1058125
Report them for criminal damage and anti-social behaviour.  Try to get a videotape of them causing the damage if you can.   If successful they could be fined.  Be careful though, if they only get a caution, they may be back with a grudge against you.
772859
Your friend needs to LEAVE!  There is no good reason to openly hit a girl.  No matter how abusive another girl is to me, the worst that I'll do is grab her hard to restrain her.
424131
i kind of dont know what you're saying. But, i am going to guess you and this friend have problems. I would talk to her, and tell her you love being her friend, and that it hurt when she insulted you. She'll be your friend
1129447
Physical violence does not equal friendship in my book.  This friend isn't a friend, but a bully.  You have another friend. Go hang out with her.  Obviously you know that what your supposed friend is doing is wrong because you are writing about it here.  Stand up for yourself against this girl: tell her to leave you alone, tell her to stop hitting you - and mean it! Tell an adult who can help you with this situation.  Friends don't hit/kick/bite/slap/spit or commit other forms of violence against friends.
190462
Give her time to cool off.I am sure that if she is a good friend she will think about it and know that you would never do that to her. If she want listen to you then send someone else to talk for you. Leave her a message on her voice-mail, write a letter, or email. She has to listen or read one of them.
280868
You can only tell her that you think it's wrong and just stay away. The things that you say she's going to do are dangerous not just for herself but for you as well. Let her make her own mistakes and be there for her when she realizes it's a mistake. Just remember you can't change people and if she pushes you to join her in a shoplift or drug related activity you can get into just as much trouble as she could and that she's not being a true friend. You're a good person to worry about your friend the way you do unfortunatley she's going to have to figure this out for herself. You've already told her how you feel and that's all you can do.
1136244
I guess hit them real hard with something. Maybe yell and it will scare it\n☺