Im a good person why cant i find someone to love?
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maybe your just to shy.  a lot of people are just scared of rejection so they wait for the other person to do it but they just never do.  in my case, i've got a friend that wants to be more than a friend, but i dont.  hes just not my type so he just keeps on asking other people.  something you need to do is to first be nice.  try to friend her but DONT wait so long that it becomes just a friendship.  just make it enough so that she knows your a great guy and then make your aproach.
688767
I'm in the same situation you're in i cant seem to find a good man but hey I'm praying and i stepping out on faith that GOD will bring someone good in my life so my advice to you is to pray and ask GOD for guidance.
160230
You are not a loser.\nyou just didn't find your true love.\nyou will find soon.
14275
It could be because you just haven't found the right person yet. I know, I know, it sounds totally cliche, but I'm 22 and have a similar problem. The best advice anyone has given me is to just focus yourself and what you want in life and the right person will come along.
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because love is hard to find when you're looking for but when you aren't it won't leave you alone. Yes it is true, as strange as it is. But just have fun, enjoy life and trust me love will find you, you will meet someone special when you least expect it.
55713
Ok!!!!  Trying loving yourself first.  Life is nothing if you don't love yourself....then you will have someone to love.
430948
Maybe you are afraid of commitment or maybe you just don't know yourself.  I suggest you take a break from dating and do some soul searching---how do I know because I am doing it right now--I have been so dependent on having someone there for me.  You need to start making yourself happy first (I am on a quest to do so as we speak).
1146557
i thinkk you are good just the way u are. one day some one will love you for who u are do not cjange for no one.
313967
Hmm.. i'm good looking, smart and well mannered as well. Trust have always been a problem for me, since my gf broke up with me for another guy (LD) and then my next gf slept with one of my best friend. \n\ni'm now focusing on my career and promised my self not to force myself in to a relationship just for the sake of a relationship.. \n\nI sometimes feels lonely but then again, it's more sexual than emotional.. i don't think anything is missing since i try to write what is my goals and match it with my current situations. \n\nTry to identify, where are you now and where do you want to be. sometimes putting something in writting is good since it helps you see clear of things you didn' know exist. I hope this helps, but if it doesnt Dog's do help...
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First, you have to remember that no body is perfert and everyone has flaws. Also, there will be someone special in everyone's life. One person who is trash to one might be treasure to the other. There is no way that I can tell you how to find your special someone, all I can say is, if the right one comes along, you will know.
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because you set expectations...you had high standards...\nregarding to those you like, they are not just the right person for you...and you shouldnt be looking for the guy...love comes, never search for it.it will come in the most unexpected place and time...
200513
you have to love yourself before someone else can love you, you need to have better self esteem before trying to get someone to love you. the world is made up of all kinds of people so don't feel like your ugly that is not what counts, you may want to talk to someone about how u feel about urself better ur slef esteem better the chance that someone will luv u
232132
hey sweetie keep ur head up. u just might be look'n in the wrong place, don't look for love let it find you. its not just you,
1141842
I understand totally. I have the same problem. Only the other way. I can't find a good man who appreciates a great woman.
752513
Everyone is a big dramatist.They are something & they pretend to be something else.It's very difficult to find a nice,understanding& genuine person.Butttttttttttt i wish you all the best wishes so that you may find someone really worthy for you,whom you could love truly & tell yourself with your eyes shut that you can spend your life with her forever.
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Just be urself, the right person is out there somewhere for you, never give up on finding true love!\nWhen you find that special person you will know and every thing that you dreamed for will come true
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Sweetheart, learn to love yourself first. You don't need the love of another person to complete you. Once you learn this others will feel the confidence emanating from you and you will find the right one. Don't search for love let it happen, when you search for it you usually find everything but love. Stay strong sweetie and good luck in your maturing processes.