I am a poker player,a swinger,retired bi male Why can I not find my soulmate and just stay me My mirror i l u?
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Where have you been looking for your partner? Wherever it is, I am sorry to say, must have been wrong. A girl next door is not a potential candidate for you.\nGo online(google or yahoo search), put swingers, and you will probbably get lots of sites realting to that category, they have many clubs now. Limit the search parameters further by adding poker, like that: "swingers, poker" for example. After that see if any of those belong to the "singles category".\nOr the other way around. Start with singles in your area, limit it according to interests, and contact whoever shows up. Many times you will even be able to find the right age bracket.\nGood Luck.
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Wow! It would make a great movie if you did find him. I'm wondering (by looking at your user name) if you are really ready for a new relationship yet. aybe it would be better if you kept him in your heart as "the one who got away." Just make sure not to measure every man you meet against your fantasy.
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It sounds like you desperately look for a woman.\nMaybe the way you treat a lady that keep the lady around you dont want to make you as their boyfriend.\nI have ever experience this.\nI have 1 closest friend. He is so handsome, I cant believe it why I dont fall in love with him. He said that he love me but I say "No thanks, I dont want to loose a best friend like you". It is because he is so nice, he was always there when I need a shoulder to cry on or to lean on. He knows how to treat a lady. He then finally get married, And I got the feeling that "I am so dumb"... why he marry someone else? Why not me?\n\nThen.... I think, you are just like my friend\nYou are too perfect to be a husband!! and better to have you as a friend\n\nSorry if my answer is too long
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i belive everyone has a soul mate but.. not everyone can find them
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Consider that most people find two or three people in their lives that could be a "soul mate". In other words, once you are married, you will be tempted at least once or twice by a viable alternative. However, that's only once or twice in your life, which, should take about 90 or so years. So, don't expect to find that person in 7 months. Learn to live on your own, and that person will come to you. Furthermore, women generally are not attracted to men who are looking. For some odd reason, they are only attracted to guys that are perfectly happy being single. So, either become that, or learn to give off the impression that you aren't looking. Btw, I wrote a book on the subject. Shoot me an email and I'll send you an old draft of the manuscript.
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Funny, I'm having problems finding a match..\nOh wait, we might be looking for different things. \nGuess that's why we all have to either, wear a sign that tells everyone what we are about, or we have to sit and talk.\nOr do a bit of both.\nAnd then the hard part is being honest with that other person so that we really find out if we want what the other is offering. \nMany times people spin what they think the other person wants to hear to "win" them, then later those pesky little problems start popping up. And then the women want the men to grow up, and the men want the women to keep giving lap dances. Neither understands why the other changed or won't change from before the dating started.\nOoops did I let  secret slip out?
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It could be because you just haven't found the right person yet. I know, I know, it sounds totally cliche, but I'm 22 and have a similar problem. The best advice anyone has given me is to just focus yourself and what you want in life and the right person will come along.
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Hmm.. i'm good looking, smart and well mannered as well. Trust have always been a problem for me, since my gf broke up with me for another guy (LD) and then my next gf slept with one of my best friend. \n\ni'm now focusing on my career and promised my self not to force myself in to a relationship just for the sake of a relationship.. \n\nI sometimes feels lonely but then again, it's more sexual than emotional.. i don't think anything is missing since i try to write what is my goals and match it with my current situations. \n\nTry to identify, where are you now and where do you want to be. sometimes putting something in writting is good since it helps you see clear of things you didn' know exist. I hope this helps, but if it doesnt Dog's do help...
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It is called coveting... and it is a normal emotion. Why do you feel you can't get a woman? There are millions of women out there just waiting to be noticed. You will never find a mate if don't get out from in front of the computer and mix with the opposite sex... All of us have fears of rejection, but you just have to take the leap and put yourself out there, the risk is worth it. Peace.
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stop looking you are probably in all the wrong places, when its time for your soul mate believe me, he will find you
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There is a soul mate for everyone. Think about it. If you give into you mate, you do it body, mind, and soul. So that is you soul mate.
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It's known that when someone is looking for a relationship, they will never find it. Maybe that is why I am still single...Hmmmm....
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Well I would have to say that there are way to many fish under the sea. I have traveled and in every place I have been I fell inlove. It seems the idea of your soul-mate is the way to go but, I know that all you need is compatablity. There is more than one person in a life time; believe me.
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i believe everybody has a soulmate.......  you will find yours when the time is right....
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1) standard commitment phobia?\n2) your "list" of desirable traits is too long or inflexible?\n3) you're just using this as a trick to get e-mails from women who'd swoon over a guy looking for a soulmate?\n4) you've met several would-be soulmates already, but were too absorbed in yourself to notice?\n5) you're a great guy, and you just have to keep looking, it will hit you when you least expect it?\n\nladies... #5 - and e-mail this poor man.
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Well my brother have the same problem... depends on how old are you.. if your young might be that you are just not ready for a relationship i think that is wht wrong and with gay relationship is harder because of the stress of trusting that other person is he out there doing everything wrong?? does he take care of his self??? is like with a straight relationship but a little more intense.\nyou try to find somebody that like have a lots of your same taste and please do not try to find boyfriends at the bar my brother always do that and what he get is assholes try other places is someone out there for you.. and you will find him just be patience,good luck....
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All my friends are getting married too. And I haven't even found a soul mate. But it doesn't bother me. I think everything happens for a reason. Maybe is a good think you did not get married in August. Maybe your fiance wasn't right for you. A guy of your dreams might be closer than you think. There are too many maybes but no real answer. Right?\nI think you should meet new guys, go on dates, and have fun. You don't have to sleep with them. Guys who are interested in you just so they can get you in bed, those are wrong guys. See, you haven't find a guy of your dreams yet. And he is out there. It will happen when the time is right. \nDon't get depressed over this. It is not worth it. Why do we have to get devastated about guys? Why don't they get devastated about us? \nYour friends who got married they found their soul mates, but let me tell you, lot of them don't really tell you the way they feel. Not all of them are happy. And most of them are jealous of you b/c you are single. \nLive your life why you can and enjoy every single day of your single life. Do things. Go travel, visit  friends in different cities you haven't seen in a while. Go to places you haven't been to yet, you don't have to do that by yourself but go with a friend, sister or brother. Even taking vacation with your parents would be an option too.