how do you get a boyfriend at your new school?
82481
dont worry about boys now.TRUST ME!!!!!
141545
yea i have but only if its someone i liked before. . . but to get a boyfriend. . . find someone you like and see if you have similar interests and if so ask him if he wants to hang out with you when you do something that interests him movies are always a good start find ou what kinda movies he likes and make it a group thing and go from there BE SOCIAL!
361674
you don't "NEED" one. \n\nJust be yourself and don't seek to find a boyfriend. When you look they are harder to find. Concentrate on your interests, school and meeting new people and I'm sure you will be fine.
64785
Make friends very quickly . This is because there are always going to be very rude kids going to any school . One other thing don't listen ti thise people who just make fun of people for no reason . Have fun at your new school and good luck .
1104312
Going to a new school can be a lil scary. But it can be just as exciting! \n\nSometimes making friends can be a challenge - especially if you're shy! So first off - you need to think of who you want as friends. Most people like to make friends with people who like to do the same things as they do.\n\nSmile! When you smile, people think you are nice and easy to talk to. \n\nStart a conversation by saying something nice to someone. "Great answer to the teachers question"\n\nAsk your new friend questions about themselves..."Whose your favorite singer?" Make sure you have plenty to offer a conversation to keep it going. (personal experiences, likes/dislikes...)\n\nA great way to meet new people is to get involved in an extra curricular activity. Wether it be signing up for something in school or outside of school!\n\nAs far as teachers go...it's their job is to teach you and your job as a student is to learn. Most teachers are approachable and willing to help you when you need it. If you are confident - you can introduce yourself but if not - in time they will get to know you and you them!\n\nIf you happen to bump into a bully: Try not to show them fear because they love that.\n\nIf you start feeling scared because someone has hurt you (punch, kicked) tell an adult right away!\n\nOtherwise, just be yourself! You are wonderful in your own ways!\n\nHave fun and good luck...
618508
well u should try to stop him in the hall and try to say hi\nalso when u see him try to flirt a little \njust make sure its not too much\nalso see if there is another activity that he does that u can go into \njust make sure u like that certain activity \neven though u don't see him anymore in that class \nsee if u can get his number so u can call him sometime\nand u guys can chat \nwhoa that was alot \nhope u get him to notice u and i hope that was good advice
499008
Well... as a guy myself, I personally don't think that there's any great secret to getting a girlfriend or boyfriend. If shyness is a really bad problem for you then... just sit with some guys and join in their conversation a bit (btw go with your friends though). Seriously the guys probably won't mind.
277308
Just because your in 8th grade doesn't mean you have to have a boyfriend!\n    Listen if you dont have a boyfriend it probably because your not ready, or if you like someone it's probably beacuse your not ready or don't feel comfortable telling them. You know just because your friends have boyfriends, or are always talking about them doesn't mean you have to get one. Maybe a guy likes you but is too scared to tell you...boys at this age are stupid and aren't ready to commit to a relationship. Believe me having a boyfriend isn't all that.....there is heartbreak no matter what. Just look at your friends when they are dumped...you really want that?\n    When your ready to have a boyfriend you should feel comfortable with that person ,and around them. If a guy only likes you for your looks than he's most likely a pervert. If a guy doesnt like you for your looks, or something like that then...well....first. he doesnt like you. second. he needs to stop being shallow.third.. he needs to get to know a girl b4 he goes out with you.Most guys date the pretty girls or skinny girls or w/e and then dump them because they are stuck-up and rude. lol. plus if you think its ur weight, its not. if a guy liks u it sould be your personality and whats in your heart. boyfriends arent everything these days.....ull thank me someday wen u find the right guy ull be happy u didnt go though out all the breakups and waited for the right guy!!!!\n     \n           *i wish you luck, and now i hope you understand looks arent everything!!!!!!!!!!
918125
I think I am the perfect person to help you out lol. I'm very friendly and I try and make conversation with everyone. Okay, well don't ask anything too personal, since you don't want to offend anyone. Start off by asking them general questions. First and foremost, ask the person their name, give your name and tell them that your new in the town and ask them general questions about how long they've been coming to the school and such and go from there. I garuantee you the conversation with bloom and eventually you will make some really nice people. Good luck!
887762
I know what it's like to be 13 years old and desperately want a boyfriend. Everyone else my age had a bf, but I never had one cause I was always the *fat girl*. I never had my first bf til I was 17, and then it was a total disaster.\n\nI do not ever suggest having a relationship when you are in school, because it takes away from your grades at school. \n\nIf you want someone to go to school dances with, just go with a group of friends and have fun. You don't need a boy to have fun.\n\nYou probably want someone who you can hug and kiss and be affectionate with, someone who will spend time with you and show you lots of attention. But at 13, it's real hard to find that. Because that kind of commitment takes maturity..and you will not be finding any 13 year old boy who is mature enough to meet your needs, and show you the attention you deserve. \n\nBut if you go for someone older then there will be the possibility that they just use you cause you are young and naive. So my suggestion for you is to forget about having a relationship right now and just enjoy hanging out with your friends.\n\nFriends are better than relationships.
1140019
Getting a guy to notice or like you involves the use of basic social skills. You should be honest, direct, pleasant, and reasonable. If you really like a guy, but you haven't really talked to him - you're dying to, but you're too scared - here are some tips to help you say hello. \n \nGet a new look. Don't change who you are, just try something different. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. \nBe yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it's true! No guy wants a girl to pretend she is something she's not. \n\nDon't cuss. It turns guys off most of the time. \n\nSmile. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. It'll say to everyone, "Wow, she's a nice person!" \n\nFlirt a little - not like crazy, but a little bit here and there. \n\nTry to be around him often, such as sitting near him. \n\nShow off a little when you're around your friends, but not a lot because then he might think you're just silly. \n\nTry to make lots of eye contact - and when you do, smile! (Guys often don't look at girls in the eyes, so looking into theirs when they're talking shows them that you are interested in them). \n\nGo up to him and talk to him. Try to get to know him a little by discussing things you have in common. You could even compliment him. Even if you just say he has a nice shirt or a cool watch; it shows him that you're into him. \n\nTell him how you really feel about him once you get comfortable talking together. \n\nBe a brave person and stand up for who you are, and what you believe in. This will catch his attention, and his respect. \n\nDon't change yourself too much. \n\nA good way to start a conversation is to ask him a question - something about an interest you might have in common, or even what the time is. Make sure you hide your watch! \n\nSit close to him an touch him on his arm to show him you're interested. \n\nListen to him and don't interrupt him when he is talking. That makes them really annoyed and it's rude! \n\nAct confident but try not to seem stuck up. \n'Bad clothes' are those old pants you used for painting the fence and the sweatshirt with the pony on it. \n\nAsk him out if you're sure he's interested. Most boys love it when girls ask them out. \n\nConsider helping him out with other things like homework and social problems. \n \nNo guy likes a person who is snobby. \nIf he tries to do anything you're not comfortable with, tell him that you are not ready for that stuff yet. If he's cool with that, great. If not, then he's not really the nice guy you thought he was. \n\nDon't wear bad clothes when you decide to be brave and walk up to your man. \n\nMake sure to brush your teeth! \n\nBe sure to have gum, breath mints, listerine strips, etc. around in case you need to freshen up quickly. \n\nDon't tell him lies. \nIf the guy is a jerk, but you find him attractive, don't let him take advantage of you. Find out more about him before you let things get too serious. \n\nYou can't get everyone to notice you. You cannot get everyone to like you all the time!
852626
Well, if you know someone thats a senior in your school, tell him/her about this guy, and let this senior that you know ask him to get an ice cream or something or eat with him for lunch, sit with them talk to them , just be yourself and believe in yourself, trust me it will work.
272446
Just totally be yourself and let them come to you ;)\n\nDon't be someone else just to get the guy... And don't do anything stupid either... you WILL regret it\n\nJust remember... you want a healthy relationship
459051
Wow, the answers on here are really great! Try joining some co-ed clubs if there are some available. Even if you just get some exposure to new people, maybe you can meet someone you like. This may sound a little old fashioned, but some girls meet boys (that may go to other schools) if they go to church or the local arcade, or the mall. \n\nAsk your friends, and thank your lucky stars that you have gotten some really great answers right here already! (NOT THE SUICIDE SUGGESTION!) but anything I could say to you besides "broaden your horizons" would only be a repeat...You could also try community organizations, or working with volunteers that help with projects in your community! I think when the time is right, you will find a boyfriend, in the meantime just have a lot of friends, and you do not have to be lonely, there are people in your community that you could help, and learn something at the same time (maybe even meet someone, summer is on the way!). \n\nIf we could just order a man from a catalog, many of them would probably be returned for one reason or another, it's hard to know when you are young what you really want. So the choices are not good where you are, look elsewhere! When the time is right, you will meet someone that you DO like, and he will like you too!\nHave fun!\nruthie~
120495
I WOULD LIKE TO SUGGEST SOMETHING VERY POLITELY TO U.1ST LEARN TO WRITE & FRAME A QUESTION PROPERLY BEFORE GOING AFTER THIS GUY.\nHAVE U?THEN\nWELL ANYWAY IF HE IS UR SCHOOLMATEU SHOULDN'T HAVE THAT MUCH TROUBLE IN MEETING HIM.JUST GO & HIT HIM(INNOCENTLY)SPREAD OUT ALL UR APOLOGIES.NEXT TIME U COME ACROSS HIM(U SHOULD IF POSSIBLE IN THE SAME DAY)SMILE AT HIM & DROP A HELLO.THEN THE NEXT DAY U SEE HIM ASK HIM HIS NAME & INTRODUCE URSELF TO HIM.THEN SLOWLY SLOWLY BEFRIEND HIM.THE REST DONT U KNOW TO WORK OUT??????????
1073296
Look first of all relax. Plus don't ask a guy out just because your friends want you to, it only matters what you want. Second are you sure you are ready to have a boyfriend, and not be taken advantage of? before asking the "boy" in your class start off by talking to him, like you would talk to your friends so that your "stumic" can get used to the idea of talking to the boys, then when you are confortable ask him out.
913595
Just be yourself like I am.One day this guy asked me out and i said no after that all the guys started paying attention to me and now i'm in high school they are still think i'm atractive even the people i'm not friends with.good luck and remember be yourself.