if you found out that someone had aids or hiv would you still talk or have a relationship with them......or no
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just be honest sweety and tell your boy friend and let him be checked, you will feel better after telling him and god will be proud of you for doing the right thing, and you just trust in god to get you both thrue this good luck to you''
1172657
2 things.  First, how long has he been married?  HIV can stay hidden for many years, and he may worry about some pre-marital encounter or drug use.  Second, I'm not sure about the doctor's office thing, but I have heard that they are making AIDS tests more routine.  But I can see why you are concerned about this.  I might worry if it was my husband or someone I know's husband, but it's best to be on the safe side & get checked even if you're not really at risk.  \n\nOne more alternative:  it's possible that he just doesn't know how HIV/AIDS is transferred.  Some people still think that having a friend with HIV and hugging them or something like that will cause them to get it.
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you wouldn't "do" anything.\n\nJust don't share a needle or have unprotected sex with him/her.\n\nWhat you can do is treat the person kindly.  He/she probably needs to be supported.
36650
When I was in high school, we had a man come in who was HIV+ talking about the virus. He told us that small amounts of saliva won't transfer the disease; ex: kisses here and there, or sharing utinsels. Saliva will transfer it if a LOT is digested; ex: drinking a cup of spit. I know, it's kinda gross, but hopefully my point is taken.
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YOUR FRIEND SHOULD LEARN BETTER BEHAVIOR BUT FOR NOW GO GET HIV TEST BECAUSE IF SHE TEST POSITIVE ,SHE WILL BE NOTIFIED QUICKLY BUT IF SHE TEST NEGATIVE SHE WON'T HEAR ANYTHING.
147994
You aren't a patient unless you are being treated.  The only way to find out if you have an HIV infection is to be tested.
394352
The person infected may only be a carrier and never get AIDS.  If you think you have HIV, go to your local clinic and get tested.  If you have HIV and believe it is in the stages of AIDS, again go to your local clinic/hospital and get tested.  Until then, don't have sex unless it is protected sex, cause you can pass the virus on to your partner.  If you don't tell them you are HIV infected and know you are, you can be charged with attempted murder, if it's unprotected sex, last time I heard.
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I don't have AIDS or HIV, so I really couldn't tell you. The friends that I have had with the disease did act differently, they acted sad, mad, confused, and sick. Then they died.\n\nPeople live longer now with HIV/AIDS, so I would guess they have longer to adjust to it and maybe even come to terms and act "normal" again. Hopefully they don't share blood with others anymore. I can hope.
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Not sure I understand this question. But, here goes.\n\nIf both partners are exclusive and both partners tested negative for HIV/AIDS, then they should never be infected with the disease through exclusive sexual contact. \n\nBut you can get HIV/AIDS in other ways. So if one partner is a Health Care professional and is stuck with a sharp that is infected, then he or she could contract HIV/AIDS.
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There is no cure at this time for HIV.  The person can lead a relatively normal life, with the proper treatment.  Who knows, there may be a cure someday as well.
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lol they do not exist but i am sure they would if they did get  aids. heck they are dead n e ways right so would it matter? i saw this thing on dateline where these freaks go around drinking ppls blood with implanted fangs thinking they are living the life of a vampire. some of them of corse had contracted aids.
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you conrtact aids from sex,shareing needles,and least likely blood transfusion. so if you were exposed you needd to check
870759
I would go and get tested. I say yes there is a chance to still get it. Just because the person didn't have symptoms when you slept together dosen't mean they didn't have it. So please go and get tested. Good luck to you.
399538
That would be both fortunate and unfortunate. By that I mean AIDS is a terrible disease to have , and difficult to live with. So if he really does have AIDS, or is HIV positive, I am so very sorry!! But it's fortunate for you if you haven't slept with him yet.  DON'T!!!!!  And get checked yourself for the HIV virus,because you may have contracted this virus from him simply by French kissing, or if you two have engaged in oral sex. Please go to your local Health Dept, and they will test you for free. Then, give your friend all the love and support that you can, just do not engage in sexual activities with him, and that includes oral,anal,regular intercourse,deep tongue-in-mouth kissing...Good luck to you both!! You are both in my prayers.
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Only in terms of STDs you might have, or if you have been raped or sexually assaulted - things that might impact on your current relationship.\n\nI think the past is the past, and you don't need to discuss anything you don't want to.
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If there was any swapping of bodily fluids, perhaps.\nIf the skin was broken on the HIV negative person and not the HIV positive person, there is a good change transmission did not occur.\n\nIf the HIV negative person is worried, s/he can always get tested. Many cities offer free testing either through Planned Parenthood or AIDS outreach organizations
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YES!!! I know a couple myself. Guys who do this are called "Down Low" guys. I would strongly urge you to warn your friends about  how rampant Aids and HiV are in this community. You guys may never know the full truth... but tell your friend to protect her heart and let him GO.