i need help my best freind is ....?
81973
It can be nice when somebody wants to act or look like you, it means s/he likes your style...\nHowever, if you really don't like that, just talk to your friend and tell her to stop doing that...
389253
Well then the only thing to do is just be there for you friend even if she doesn't want to listen to you. She's going to get hurt, and she's going to regret not listening to you. Your already a good friend by worrying and trying to tell her to leave him, but be there for her anyway. Be there because she's going to need you, once she  opens her eyes. So just be there for her.
444139
Well you seem to be going through alot! I am sorry! I will be praying for you and your friend! I wish I had all the answers -but I don't! Off course you want to help her- she is your friend- but it sounds like she needs help you can't give her! You need to decide do you want live with her! Can you deal with all the drama? Really search yourself- because she is going to need support and a lot of help! I wish you the best! You sound like a really good friend- when she will let you be her friend! A word -- never cheat! No matter what a person says to you! Just not a good plan! You take care- if you like to talk- http://360.yahoo.com/cloeenloe
1157124
If he truly is your best friend as you say then you will do the right thing.  Let her down easy and tell her that your friendship is more valuable than some girl.
103769
If she is your best friend then she should understand. You know you can't make someone like you and you know you mustn't live your life according to someone else's ideas or wants. It is normal that she might hate you or feel jealous. Guess what it ain't your fault. SO TELL HIM!!!
920550
If she brings it up than yeah! ask her questions.  this is probably the best time to support your friend, and she needs your help right now to be there for her if she needs someone to talk to.  Don't be over the top with it, just say how happy you are that she's seeking help and that you're there for her every step of the way.
90337
depending on how deep the friendship is or how big the secret is, i would give it time. I have been friends with this girl for 11 years. And we have been through a lot, secrets told, promises broken all the drama you could ever think of. But in the end it made us stronger. cant say that always works. if this friend is all together a negative person and you feel brought down by her [or him] ditch em and find a new best friend! but if this is something different and not your friend.. find out what is going on in that girls head!
470753
u need 2 maintain constant communication w/ur bestfrend..\nno matter how bz u r, a simple hello txt or email or fone call will make them happy..\n\ni just called my bestfrend back home & i knew fr his voice that my unexpected call made him happy.. im glad i called him
912439
Sounds like she isn't too secure in her relationship..Why should you not be able to talk to your best freind?...Miss Merry Sunshine will just have to get over it ...don't you think so...Nothing wrong with him being freinds with you
255485
try not to bring the subject up again for a while beome more of a best friend before bringing the question again let her know that she can trust you and that you're willing to treat her right like nobody ever will then you'll be good to go above all just let her know she can trust you and that she can tell you anything and you'll always listen and try to understand
671433
Tell him how you feel, if he feels the same then you guys can begin being more then frends, if he doesnt feel the same way oh well atleast he is still your Best
482544
All you can do is continue to be a good friend by listening. None of this is your fault, and you are not responsible for resolving the situation. Just make sure you are always there for your friend, as a good listener.
1099665
I can put you in the right direction but you do the rest.\n\nWhat are there hobbies, then find out what is the best piece of equipment for their hobby.\n\nEverytime they do their favorite activity they think of their favorite friend...
576351
well, if he/she doesn't notice your efforts, chances are, he/she doesn't consider having you for his/her best friend. don't push it. just be there for him/her when he/she needs you. just always be a friend to him/her.\n\ngood luck...  = )
684916
you didn't say how old you are but i'm guessing you are pretty young. friendships sometimes have ups and downs, if she has found a new best friend then maybe you should too. there really isn't much else you can do, except maybe talk to her and ask her about it.
64055
I agree totally with ft402003, and I might add that I was just platonic friends with my husband for TEN LONG YEARS before we knew we loved each other.  TEN YEARS!!!!  That is a long time, buddy.  My sister told me once that friends make the best spouses, and I thought YUCK!  But, she was totally right.  When you talk to your "friend", you might tell her to not be afraid to go a step further, and to not be repulsed by it.  Let her know that you are just as afraid as her.  But, whatever you do, don't let her get away.  It is better to tell her how you feel than to keep suffering.  And if she doesn't go for it, then it is HER loss.  Not yours.  HERS.
982572
Ask your friend to help you.