i really like my friend. he moved away a few months ago..just as i realized that i have these feelings for him
92218
u had better tell him cause he might like u and he might think u dont like him and not make a move on u because he is scared of rejection, go for it
1119004
he's being straightforward to you and has been respectful to you. I think you should do the same, if he just wanted to be your friend, you should let it be.
441940
i think you should take the risk...i started going out with one of my good friends, and we ended up falling in love.  since you guys started out as good friends, i think no matter what happens you'll always be close.  who knows, maybe he'll be your true love
968750
My best friend C was moving away with his g/f, also my best friend M. I was losing 2 best friends at once. His last night, he stayed with me. I told him that he meant so much to me, and I would miss him terribly. He left the next morning. We talked every night, he was begining to miss home. 6 weeks later I was talking to him on the phone, my parents had called for me, so I came out in the hallway, and C was walking up the stairs talking to me on a cellphone. It was the greatest surprise ever! He hugged me and said he all he could think about was me. He said I love you to me, and I said it back. We've been together since, had our 5 yr anniversary in May.
206552
I understand, but I think you'de ought to tell him that you really like him, but don't want your friendship with him and you to break... Break it to him gently, but say you still want to be his friend. Do what your heart tells you!
989165
actually, i do like somebody now.. we live in d same haus. he's my next room neybor & we're really close.\n\nsince i cant tell him my true feelings, i just try 2b close 2 him as possible...\n\nwe watch dvd's everynyt... we laugh, we tickle & we talk abt our little secrets.. \n\ni guess its better like this..
555592
Yes he should consider how you feel.  Break away for now and maybe in a few months or years you 2 can become friends.  You want someone to treat you with kindness and respect and do not take anything less.  Good luck.
449837
option 3. he wasn't much of a friend before, and now that you have relationship baggage and nothing strong platonically to bind you from before, there is no friendship to revive here. too much complication and effort on your part. let him go and make different friends, see different guys, be free!!
1145647
If you ask me what you just wrote here works..Just write what you feel .Hope he knows what a good friend he has in you too..If you can count all your "true,good" friends on one hand, you are very lucky. Everyone can have friends, but a true, good friend is a hard thing to find!!!
225377
well, i think that you should become friends and get closer to him. Then maybe he will have to same feeling for you
912395
let the person that likes you that you like his friend he will understand.good luck
639333
I guess you are beginnning to have feelings again for that person. Wouldn't you like to contact him somehow ? just to know how that person is doing ?
540511
Unfortunately it is. I remember loving a friend immensely (probably more than I did myself). He never returned my feelings and that unreciprocated affinity was extremely painful and incredibly difficult for me to bear. I'd never loved anyone as much as I did him but he simply never returned my feelings for him. There was really nothing I could do about it, except cut our ties and create a healthy distance. Even a friendship would have been too hard for me to bear.\n\nMaybe you should interpret this "friend"'s behavior as a sign that he doesn't feel for you the same emotions that you do for him. Let him go. You deserve someone who loves you equally :)
150815
i say yes, meet the guy someday, but as for whether he has "feelings" for you or not... i am not a mind reader. can't help you there... but i think i can say that he thinks you're a good friend...
591457
Don't be at his beck and call.  Give yourself some time away from him.  He will eventually realize what a great friend you are and start to miss you.  Good Luck!!
528634
hm well u are currently commited to someone that u apparent;y care about so dont just drop him because something doesnt feel right. but as for your friend, if he really likes u that much he should be respectful of the fact that ur in a relationship and if he wants something more he should wait untill u are available.
402729
you should tell how you feel and hope one day he will come around and want to be more then a friend