I think I might be a lesbian, how do i know for sure?
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That's the beauty of it. In today's society of acceptance, you are free to experiment responsibly.
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Ask her is she has ever had lesbianist tendancies. If yes, then tell her you have the hots for her. If not, go to the local gay club and pick up a girl who appreciates you.
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You are either lesbian ........... meaning you like women only, or bi ......... meaning you like both sexes
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I would say if you have feelings for members of the same sex and you want to act on them, or you do act on them then you might be gay. And if you're not at all interested in being with someone of the opposite sex, but only someone of your same sex. It's also possible you could just be confused.
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I watch lesbian porn from time to time, and I'm straight. The female body is one of God's most beautiful creations. I don't care what sexual preference you are. You can't help but be drawn to it. ....relax, there's nothing wrong with you!
699343
You are not lesbian at all. You just get attracted towards girls for their looks for the time being but not forever....
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I know you asked for lesbians .. I'm not quite a lesbian but I do enjoy being with a women sexually ( I guess most would say BI .. but whatever you want to call it is fine with me )\nI would be very cautious with this woman .. she seems like she really digs you .. but she's also going through a major change in her life .. most people can only handle one at a time .. divorced & experimenting with her feelings at the same time - that sounds scary to me !\n\nMaybe become friends .. go out a few times .. see what her expectations of the relationship will be ..  get closer and really get to know her.  You might find out she truly is falling in love with a woman and not just using you .. there's only one way to find out !
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TALK, thats always a good starting point. and if she is lesbian and you are a guy you have the wrong equipment and she might be friend but dont get too excited and wet your panties.
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Have you ever tried something to find out if you like it or not? Having sex with a man, then having sex with a woman and confirming you are completely lesbian, does not make you any less of a lesbian.
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This happened to me 17 years ago. I was in high school and there was this beautiful woman named Jennifer. Her mother was a teacher at our school and she was prom queen.. We use to stare at each other for days. One day she gave me a picture and wrote on the back. " I'm glad I finally found someone like me". She never told me what it meant :( . I think she wanted to tell me she was a lesbian but couldn't because of society. I was openly Lesbian in High School.. Now days have changed and maybe she will tell you. Try to mustard up the guts to ask her to do something with you. Then maybe you can get closer and be in the situation to ask her how she feels about lesbians...
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Good question.  Theoretically you can be one from birth, but you wouldn't really know since you're not thinking of sex that young.  To know you're a lesbian (or straight, or bi, or into sheep, or whatever) would take a knowledge of love and/or sex at some level and the realization that you're interested in other women (again, or whatever).  I'd venture to say you might be able to figure it out before elementary school's over.  Then again you might not figure it out until you're in your golden years.
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She takes you as a really good friend. So my advice to you dont let your heart in too much... it could hurt and you cant blame her for it as you know she is lesbian. Dont blunder the friendship!
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bless. why dont you become lesbian and see for yourself?..ha
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You acknowledge that you are probably bi or lesbian.
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If you still look at girls and wonder the same thing, no your not totally gay.  You should experiment and find out for yourself.  You could be Bi?  and no there's nothing wrong with that.  If you need somebody to talk to email me... fordsamjoe@yahoo.com
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How do you know if you're straight?
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How long have you been lesbian?\nAre you a virgin and you've never had sex w/ a women?\nMaybe you should watch some porn, those girls know how to get down, that should teach you a few things.They're pros to, even better.