Long distant relationships!?
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It's ok. It requires extra energy of course but as long as you trust each other and maintain constant communication then there should be no problem. \n\nBetter if you are not doing it for long term period. Soon one of you has to decide to move. But if you have no choice to do so, those things above will play important roles in order to keep your relationship work well. \n\nAnyway, short distant relationship doesn't give any guarantee that the relationship will work better than the long distant one, does it?
44188
i really feel you, i just experienced the same ordeal.she didnt go to another country, but she was only 2 hours away.i can tell you that alot of times long distant relations dont work, or at least they havent worked for me.
688334
Well, shes not across the world (im in california shes in florida) its hard because theres alot of times where we would wanna b close and hold eachother kiss and all that good stuff, we havent seen eachother too (july im goin to visit u bet ur sweet ass im happy bout that lol) we've been together for about 5 months now and i love her more then anything else...communication and trust are big if your planning on having a long distant relationship, if you cant do that then it will just fall apart.. if you are happy with who your with and get over all the bump that WILL happen you'll find out it was all worth it....... but thats how i feel :-)
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I know what u mean....my BF lives in Houston.....where I am in College Station....TX.....it is almost 2 hrs away....BUT....we talk on the phone EVERYDAY......send emails everyday.....& he just drove up here today....out of the blue to see me.....of course we only got to spend 4 hrs with each other...it was amazing.....I have had long distance relationships before.....but this one kind of grows.....every time we see each other....we grow "fonder"....they say absence makes the heart grow fonder.....I really like my BF too.....it is hard for us because of the distance...as well as our work schedules....but we make it happen......what I like about him....HE comes to me, more then I go to him.......Just be patient.....like one other person said....let him figure out a way to come to u.....if it was meant to be....something will work out.....GOOD LUCK!...
328950
i am travelling myself. it is difficult to keep communication with someone back home that you may have feelings for as you are always thinking of them. therefore you aren't able to make the most of your adventure abroad. relax.\n make the most of whats in front of you today
595247
Long distances relationships can work..but a lot of times they do fail though, sadly to say...but in your case..you have no way to communicate with him at all..so its a bad idea to stay together..if you cant even talk!
569764
the truth is, it really depends on both parties, if they really love each other and that the FAITH is there, no matter how far they are from each other, it doesn't matter!! but in reality, it is so hard to keep a long distance relationship... There are lot of things that can happen when you're away from someone, its up to you if you really want to stay in your relationship or just goes on with the flow!!!
617643
Yea, I feel for ya, long distance relationships are hard. He probably isnt playing a game, he probably is missing you. The problem seems to be the distance, so the solution would be to remove the distance. Move closer to him.
60404
If you guys live a long distance from each other, and still are able to see each other a few times a month...it's worth it.  It looks like 1or2 of you are attempting to make this relationship work by seeing each other.  Doesn't that mean anything?  The key to a long distance relationship is trust, communication, trust, and communication.:-)  Don't let the distance fool you into believing that it won't work.  You two keep doing what you're doing...it will work.
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It all depends... are the schools in the same town, is it elementary school, or high school, or college... but the most important thing is that you trust each other enough to not see each other all the time. I know a lot of people who have had long-distance relationships, and most of them have worked pretty well so far. If you think it will be hard not to worry all the time about him being around other people, then it might not work out. Of course, I might be getting too complicated if you're only in elementary school or something.
103858
From personal experience and I also have friends trying to make long distance work. Its sooooo hard! No matter how much you like or love that person its nearly impossible, especially since you both live in two different states. Have you ever heard of the expression, The right person but the wrong time. Dont hold each other back.
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yeah, long distance relationship (LDR) is risky.\n\nbut hey! be creative... use your webcam.\nand u can do a lot more than just dinner.\n\n'creative' & 'communicate' are 2 good tips for LDR.\n\ngood luck!
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Write a list of all the pro's and the Con's,and decide if you can do this long distance thing! It's not for everyone!!! It can be hard when you feel lonely,ect..... If it hurts you more being in the relationship than not,then get out of it.
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I happen to agree with cuteiepie. Keep it alive by phone, emails, snail mail...keep all communication channels open. If you have serious intentions for the future with that person, it is most important to physically spend time with each other at least once or twice a year. I think long distance relationships only work for so long. At one point or another you have to make it a "no distance" relationship. Good luck!!
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Long distance relationships can work as long as two people are dedicated to each other and want it to work. The two of you are the only ones that will be able to tell if its working. If both of you are completely happy with each other and the way things are going then things are going well I would presume. :) If you truly love each other go for it cause it's more than likely going to work. :) Good luck!
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I have to say  that a long distance relationship can only work if both parties are really committed to eventually being together, but if you stay apart too long, lots of things have a tendency to change. Time won't stand still for anyone. \n I was involved in a long distance relationship for about 7 months, and it is very hard for people to just hang on indefinitely. \n I married her and we could not be happier, but I am afraid if I had waited too much longer, I would have lost her because being "together but apart" is very difficult to do.....
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How long will you be "far away"...?\nCause that makes a difference in how realistic it is...\nI'm currently away from my guy too...\nBut only for a couple of months.\nIf your thing is permanent, then my honest suggestion\nWould be either move to him, or move on.\n\nAs far as ways to make him think of you,\nThat won't be a problem if y'all are really in love...