If you think a woman is attracted to you, how do you break the ice, if you have never spoken before?
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There are many things you could do,but everything has got\nto be original!\nYou could just go up to her and introduce yourself\n(be confident,but don't brag!!),don't talk only for yourself,LISTEN to her,or\nyou could try to make a conversation by guessing e.g. what\nis the music she likes,conversation themes depend a lot on\nthe situation and the location you are,\nyou could use a piece of paper to give her when passing her by(it should say something clever though,eh!!),you could\nuse your cell phone(write an SMS,go to her and tell her,\ncould you please fill in your cell number here,there is a message for you ;-) if she does it you also have her number..I ve done it,it worked),you could stare into her\neyes like forever trying to make her notice you ve noticed\nher and then go tell her something clever and original,like\n(don't know,I'm thinking right now,you may find something\nbetter!)"my friends complain I keep ignoring them all night\n(because you are staring at her of course that is,if she\nis clever,she ll get it),could you please save me trouble\nand go out with me (e.g.)tomorrow??I promise I won't bring my friends along!"...\n\nJust be original.That's all you gotta do.\n\nHope I ve been helpful.\nGood luck!
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be brave, approach her and say" hi , i'm joel. You don't know me but I've been looking at you. I just wanted to say hi". then ask for her name, thank her for her attention, wish her to ahve a nice day and leave. Yes just leave, don't talk to her too much the first time you meet her. thus you'll give her time  to be wondering-who's that guy, why did he came to me, does he feel attracted to me. provoke her quriosity, and the second time you meet she will surely be interested in you.
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1) LOOK INTO HER EYES "TOO LONG"\n\nThis is simply holding eye contact a little bit longer than you normally would. While you are conversing with her, you want to be sure to have eye contact at least some of the time. At least once it’s a good idea to hold the eye contact a little "too long," just a fraction too long, so there’s a brief, more intimate moment between you.\n\n2) MAKE DECISIONS EASILY\n\nIt’s important to make sure that you make decisions easily. Remember your outcome: romantic feelings, and moving the seduction along. This means that making a decision quickly is more important than choosing the perfect type of coffee, or taking the time to really think about whether you want cherry Danish or a plain one. By making decisions quickly, you show her that you are a decisive man who she won’t have to take care of.\n\n3) WINK AT HER\n\nYou can wink at someone from across the room, or wink at someone during a conversation. If she says something funny, or someone else does something silly, you can give a wink as a way of sharing a little moment for just the two of you, as if the two of you are in on some private joke no one else is aware of.\n\n4) CHECK OUT HER BODY\n\nChecking out her body must be done properly. The goal is for your new friend to feel complimented that you noticed her body, not objectified like some piece of meat. You do this by making eye contact, then quickly, in less than a second, passing your eyes down and then up over her body, then back to looking in the eyes. It should happen quickly, and you should be unashamed of taking a glance. Just don’t do it too often — two times during a coffee date, for instance, is plenty.\n\n5) KEEP YOUR BODY POWERFUL\n\nWomen want to be with men who are engaged in their lives. You’ll appear even more engaged if you sit, stand and move like you are both fascinated and fascinating. As a bonus, moving as if you are totally engaged with and turned on by life will perk you up and give you more energy for the interaction.\n\n6) COMPLIMENT HER\n\nYou want to cultivate complimenting her as a potential lover, not as a tepid friend. Let’s talk briefly about the difference: A man who is destined to be a woman’s friend compliments her by saying something like, "You have a very nice briefcase." The compliment doesn’t show that he is interested in her romantically, or that he notices anything romantic about her. Put another way, it’s a compliment another woman might give to her. If you give a woman a compliment that another woman might give her, you might as well be another woman, striking up a casual friendship.\n\nYou want to make it clear that you are a man who is noticing her as a woman, rather than an amorphous blob of undefined protoplasm who might as well be another woman talking to her. A man who is committed to being seen as a potential lover gives compliments that show that he notices her as a woman. Rather than saying, "You have a nice briefcase" he’ll say something like "You have beautiful eyes," or "Your smile is so beautiful, it lights up the room."\n\nAt first it may be uncomfortable for you to compliment her, that is okay — keep going, keep taking the risk, and up the passion in your compliments. Yes, you are risking rejection, but that’s good! Remember the rejection process, and remember to celebrate your victories!\n\n7) WHISPER TO HER / LEAN INTO HER SPACE\n\nWhispering to her doesn’t mean you have to get all the way up to her ear… it may be too early in your interaction with her to get that close. But you can lean into her space, and lower the volume of your voice, to share something with her.
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Come up with a REASON to talk to her. Maybe in a coffeeshop she's reading a book you liked. Maybe in a bar, she's really enjoying the music, and the band members are friends of yours. Maybe she's drinking a weird drink you also enjoy. Starting an actual conversation will always win you more points than just telling her she's beautiful. Either she's heard it a billion times already, or she'll think you're lying for some hurtful purpose. Possibly both. Oh, and whatever you do, this is seriously a problem- don't let the first words out of your mouth be "Hey lady- got kids?"
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Get her to talk about herself, and be interested when she does.
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You can start by a simple stare (and smile) if you are not comfortable with the direct approach. After you do this on a few occasions, you will be stuck to her mind and then the opportunity will come when it will be just natural to start a conversation.
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I would suggest approaching them within the first three seconds of noticing them. Don't think about anything. Just go up to her and speak. Make sure to maintain eye contact. Make sure you smile.\nJust speak honestly, tell them your mostly shy, but you want to get to know them.\n\nIf you fail then don't worry about it. Don't kick yourself in the arse - its not the end of the world. Every time you do it, you'll get better at knowing what to say... just make sure your attention is on the person your talking to (not on your own behavior or attitude). Women like confidence. Even if you can fake it.
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Be polite.\nUse manners.\nStay sober.\nHave a little extra cash available.\nSmile a relaxed smile.\nDon't complain, talk politics/religion or act bored.\n\nThe best and easiest way to a woman's heart is.....\n\nACT INTERESTED in her.\n\nAsk simple but intelligent questions about what she likes and thinks.\n\nTry to find common areas of agreement and hopefully some common ground on activities/hobbies/foods, etc.\n\nBe polite. Show her a good time. Relax.\n\nHey...........they get nervous, too!
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She could be interested. Go up and admit to her, that you had a brain malfunction, when you and her talked earlier. That you would really like to know her name. If you are interested in her be honest and tell her. Tell her you are sorry about not asking her name.
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I'd be upfront and ask her abou this other person. It also depends I guess on what your intentions are towards this woman.
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just say something normal to her, talk to her about anything at first and ease into it. you don't have to have the perfect line, if she is interested in you she isn't going to hold it against you if you're not exactly a poet the first time you open your mouth.
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Just up to her and start talking and then tell you exactly how you feel and what you're thinking when she is around you.
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Can I ask you a quick question?\n\nIf she says yes or looks at you...\n\nThen say\n\n"What do you think is the most important part of a relationship? "\nOr any opener that will tell you about what the women holds close to her heart.\n\nIf she is still answering postivetly at this point. Talk for a few minutes then say you have to go...and ask for her number and or email address and thank her for her time.\n\nThe key is to get over the fear of talking to a stranger.
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show her that you find her interesting. when you see her ask her how she is. but dont go on her nerves.\nif you are shy then put nice (dont overdo it)flowers on her footstep and a little card. write that these are of you, that you like her and would like to invite her for a drink or a dinner. you can also tell her that you are too shy to ask her directly. Women like when men show that there not always the ''hard ones''.After that give her time to come to you and start to talk. If she doesnt come it means she wont go out with you or she is also too shy to talk to you. just watch her reaction you will figure it out.  hope that helps you
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Easy - do it in a way that wont make it look like you're in feet first. If you know her reasonably well and get talking why not suggest a coffee or a drink one night. Then if she says no, you could say something like "oh, no problem, just thought it'd be cool to catch up" - no harm done!
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It would depend on how well you know the person.. \n\nIf you are approaching someone for the first time, not knowing her.. strike up a conversation.  Ask her about her interests and show genuine curiosity.. if things progress well, I would just come out and ask her if she would find it acceptable for you to call her sometime.\n\nSomeone who you are familiar with may be easier.. you could find a reason to ask..  since you probably know her interests and hobbies.\n\nBest wishes!!
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Ok, you wait for that time when she is by herself, so you and her are not distracted or embarassed by others noticing the potential "hook-up", and you say to her: "Hey, I have been noticing you, Id like to get to know you better as a person, could we get together sometime and get to know eachother ? If you have a BF, than I would never disrespect that, but if you dont, I'd  like to meet, hang out and get to know you. I love a pretty face, and more importantly I always have room for a good friend". Makes you sound classy, not desperate, and that you VALUE her as a person before a potential love bunny ! Women like the man who is in to HER, not her jeans, although there is no doubt in my mind that you have already noticed that ! Dont be like all the other skanks if you really really want to know her, LEAD her to you, dont push her away by letting her think she is only bootie material. She is a young woman, she will know the difference, dont give her all the bullshit others have said to her. Be unique and catch her attention, by the way you speak, move, body language !