how do  I date a woman and make her feel confortable with me?
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As to how you date, it depends on your culture. In the US, you ask her to go to dinner and a movie. Meet her parents, make polite conversation for 5 - 10 minutes, tell them when you will be home.\n\nFeeling comfortable is a matter of not pushing. Don't try to [hold hands / kiss / have sex] on the first night, for instance, again depending on your culture. Ask her about her interests instead of talking about yours.\n\nDepending on your age and experience, she will probably be as nervous or not nervous as you. Two 16-year olds are ALWAYS nervous. A 40-year old divorced man and a 40-year old widow should be less nervous; they have seen more of life. If you are a 40-year old divorced man dating a 16-year old, you should not; pick someone within 5 years of your own age.
104759
treat her like a lady
279685
just be yourself thats about all u can do cuz she has to like you to want to be with you and if she likes your personalty then you have nothing to worrie about
1082812
You cannot make a woman do anything, and you shouldn't try.  You should just be yourself and if the woman feels the same way about you as you feel about them, it will happen at the right time.  Don't rush things!  Good luck.
224229
Just be careful that you don't scare her away by coming on to strong. If you tell her everything you feel all at once she may get a little spooked. Take it slow and ask her out on a date first, then slowly give her hints of your affection. Women love attention but large doses all at once can be overwhelming. Alot of women like a man with a little bit of mystery! Good luck
101505
try to treat her right ... with all the jerks guys in this planets ; I started to sympathise the women .... make her feel good about being with you
570821
let her ride on you. that would be making you feel tighter
315248
I agree with sunshine up here.\nTry to figure what she likes to do and if you find something that you like as well, go ahead.\nTell her you think she's a great companion and when you are with her you really have a good time.\nAnd since you both enjoy to (watch movies, ride a bike or whatever she might be on it)ask her if she would like to go out with you one of these days to do it.\n\nSimple like that.\n\nGood luck!\n\nI hope you succeed and have a great time together!
118570
Every woman is different...you need to find out what interests her or take her somewhere that interest you so she can get to know you better...personally i like to go to a park with a hiking trail then as your walking you can talk and get to know each other no distractions..then afterwards...spread a blanket out and have a picnic...bowling is always fun...some thing way different is going to the rollar rink im in my twenteys and me and my hubby did this it was a blast...makes you feel young again and shows you have a free spirit...take her to a comedy club where you can both laugh...go play putt putt golf...what ever yall are doing it will be fun cause your together...good luck
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You poor man... I feel so sorry for you.\n\nIf you'd like you can look over how you meet women, for example:\n- Are trying to get to final base as soon as you meet them?\n- What is it that you're looking for in a woman?\n- What is it that she's looking for in a guy?\n- What do you both want to achieve?\n\nTry to communicate with her and take it easy (if you're going fast paced). In my opinion, just be your intelligent and interesting self (just like always), and you won't have any problems meeting any women. Try not to jump into bed with every woman you meet or be mean and cold to them, don't expect every woman to be open to the choice of getting to final base with you on the first date, you'll see that going slowly at times with patience and learning a little bit everyday about a woman (get to know her) will lead to a more meaningful, stronger and healthier relationship than you ever thought was possible :) Some women actually prefer to take slow and easy at first, and you won't believe by how shy and quiet they are at first that they might be passionate and wild-cats in the more intimate relationship. Don't judge them too fast and don't jump to conclusions, just let the relationship develop into something more meaningful without being intimate at first. Let her to trust you with her heart, body and soul, first. Give her a reason to stay with you and prove to her that you're not just after jumping down her pants. Let her see you for who you are and show her that shivalry and being a gentleman (going old-fashioned) is not necessary something to shunned upon.\n\nGood luck and take care :)
55973
a nice Massage!!! if she is a working woman she will appreciate the royal treatment!!! send her roses to work, makes us feel special. COOK her dinner, nothing says "you are my special love" then a dinner made with blood sweat and tears. and then that night, massage her into a deep sleep. dont press sex either. ask her if she wants to. if she does, make love!!! no f*cking tonite. if she doesnt say something to the effect of "its perfectly fine. let me rub your feet, it will be better than sex" makes me dreamy just thinking about it, ps. im married too
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Try to find a nice quite spot by the water, find some scented candles place them around in the shape of a heart, place a nice blanket in the center. Get a nice bottle of champagne (chilled) two glasses, some strawberries, whip cream and napkins (in a basket). Find you a love CD (Marvin Gaye, Aretha, Stevie wonder, usher (dot.com) those songs that make you want too......\n\nAfter you have feed her, rubbed her and sang too her....tell her from the core of your heart how you feel and ask her to be the person that you wake up too every morning and the person that you make love too every night. Ask her too be the person that you talk too about everything and the person that you fight with and make up with... the person that you can't live without, the person that you know will be in your corner.... Ask her to be your Equal!
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Just be yourself.  Practice good manners and etiquette too.\nDon't worry about impressing her with grand spending, or things like that.  Those things don't really matter.\n\nGentlemanly behaviour, good conversation, being who you are and letting her be who she is, that is what matters.\n\nDating is for discovering if the two of you "click".  If you don't, move on.
144485
Treat her like a Woman.
305432
The best thing to do in this case is to just be honest.  If you lead her on you'll just end up hurting more.  Don't be mean about by saying something like "I'd rather wander into rush hour traffic naked than to be with you".  She may get the wrong idea then and it will really hurt both her feelings and definately her self-esteem.  A lot of women I've talked to tell me that they want to feel desirable, so you have to keep that in mind when dealing with her.  Offer to go out on a date or two to see if it works out, but make it clear that it's just a date and that you have not made any formal commitment yet.
346756
i WOULD LIKE RESPECT, AND I LIKE FLOWERS, I LIKE PRIVATE COZY PLACES, I LOVE AFFECTION. JUST A QUICK KISS AND SAY I LOVE YOU FOR NO REASON, A LITTLE RUB, SPENDING TIME TOGETHER. SHOW HER SOME FUN. CONCERTS, FAIRS, WALK ON THE BEACH, NOT STARE AT OTHER WOMEN FOR SURE! BE YOURSELF. MAKE HER LAUGH! LOOK AT HER IN THE EYES WHEN SHE IS TALKING TO YOU. GIVE HER YOUR FULL ATTENTION WHEN YA'LL ARE TALKING. LEAVE HER A NOTE, FIX A NICE BUBBLE BATH WITH CANDLES, TAKE HER TO DINNER. CALL HER DURING THE DAY JUST TO SAY I LOVE YOU OR I AM THINKING OF YOU. SHE WILL LIKE ALL THOSE THINGS! GOOD LUCK!
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set her on a date with a friend of yours.