why do men never understand wemen?
90138
THEY DON'T REALLY TRY TO UNDERSTAND. THEY THINK THEY CAN FIX EVERYTHING WITH SEX. TRUTHFULLY SOMETIMES THEY CAN.
908242
both women and men are wise, only that women have intuition..i think this makes them a bit smarter...or not :))..still..i didn't get the question
456726
Same reason women can't understand men (although they often think they can).  The ways of the two gender's minds are seriously different.  There are any number of ways to prove that; it's just true.  So if you are in the habit of understanding someone by imagining what you would think or feel in a similar situation, it won't work across gender lines.  Too many differences, and the differences too hard to imagine.
556739
please do not be so rude on us ..we have a hard time trying to understand women but that is the beauty of all, two different beings in a relationship..we have problems to express love verbally or publicly...with exceptions ..when we love a woman the best moment to express love is intimacy and that does not mean to get in her pants....of course we love that....but we were raised to act on rational thoughts and usually try to leave emotions apart that is why we need women to fulfill the other part in us ...feelings ,emotions..thanks God he created women the way they are....my wife will tell you sometimes I want to have her disappear...but even though in those moments I need her...we(men) are difficult to understand but we think the same about women(mystery of the universe) but when we learn to accept each others differences we start to love being together\n\nmay God bless women\nI am sure there is someone out there waiting to love someone like you
298939
they're scared.\nOf what?\ncommitment, rejection, change, opening up and being emotional... depends on the guy\n\nalso, remember that generally women are the feelers and men are the thinkers.  maybe they think some things are implicit and don't need to be said.  Or they just don't know that you want to hear it.  Communicate with them!  They're humans too!
170007
Men are clueless as to what they want, they themselves wishes that someone could tell them, and even if someone did, would they listen, NO, Why? Because they are self opiniated and listen to noone, Its an ego thing.\nWhen we find a good man, you just have to thank all the gods and angels in heaven and on earth.  In the meantime, keep the hope alive and when you come across a loser/liar show them the way to SanJose, better known as hell.
405037
Guys just aren't as talkative as women. If you want them to tell you something you have to drag it out of them. By the way in my experience most men hate to be pushed into having a conversation they don't want to have. They simply prefer to be a little more secretive.
920621
It sounds like you have discovered WOMAN.   Nope, men will NEVER understand women.  About the time you think you have ONE  figured out, they reverse directions.\n\nAccept them as they are and do what you have to do.  You just have a typical specimen.\n\nGOOD LUCK.  Pops
1103475
personally think that most men are screwed up and dont ever know what the heck they want themselves !Its hard for them to think and decide   LOL
298176
Most guys tend to think in terms of logic and act on instinct. Men are problem solvers by nature.
498635
Some guys just don't have very deep voices.\n\nIt could be that, or it could be it just hasn't happened yet. Guys keep maturing until their mid 20's.
1088157
men are lazy, men are all dogs, every man cheats on someone at least once, men have lesser intelligence than females\n\nWhich is all not completely true!!
292774
Because he is a guy and sometimes we just don't think.
573141
They don't understand it.
480346
Because God/dess has a sense of humor: men were given a brain & an organ, but only enough blood to use one at a time.\nSorry to say, but it doesn't get better w/ age; only constant rejection causes men to improve that type of thing.  Sometimes.\nI am also reminded of the bartender's book in which he stated that the only pick-up line he'd ever overheard that ever really worked was "Hi."
538919
Listen to what he says instead of trying to read into 'non-verbal communication.'  I've found that women tend to think of themselves as very intuitive (women's intuition), but more often than not, they are wrong about what they perceive.  I think this is largely because the other person isn't saying what they want to hear so they look for other 'signals' that they interpret as being a way of communicating what they wanted to hear in the first place.
604117
Men do understand and they do give their time, but in different ways.  Men are born to be the provider and women the nurturer.  It is what's natural for them just like the woman's role is natural for her.  Of course their family is important to them but they work to maintain it in a different way to a woman.x