why is it when ur not single people want 2 go out with u but when ur single no one wants 2 go out with u?
88445
Most people wants things that are hard to get.  It is a challenge for them.  It makes them feel more attractive and wanted than your current beau.
1118013
why would you want to be with someone who does not want to be with you. No don't do it. There are many people on this planet look for one who likes you and you like them.
167849
cause when you need someone so badly that one person will be there for you as you are for them when they most need you just like that sooner or later someone will ask you to be there girlfriend/boyfriend even though that cople might not be together for ever people make the most of it just like you should.
499339
Don't panic. You are not going to die if you do not have a boyfriend. Trust that there are guys out there that are attracked to you and that when they get the courage to ask you out, they will do it. Don't second guess anything about yourself, and don't try to change yourself. Be yourself, and you will ultimatly be happier with yourself and with the guy that you are with when it happens.
940568
Don't go out with either of them. You can't experience something really special with one person or claim that you have a reason to date one person over another if you like lots of other people in the same way simultaneously. Everyone says "this one person is the best person in the whole world, and I love them to pieces," but the truth is that you can find 10 people exactly like him just by looking around. And usually you can have a perfectly good time, if not a better time, with people who you're not dating. Don't ruin either of your good friendships.
1090045
It doesn't mean you are unattractive, it means you just haven't found  anyone worth your time yet.  Keep going out and meeting people, and it sounds lame but it will happen for you - and probably when you least expect it.  \nIf you want to speed things up, try getting a new hobby where you interact with people, if you attend church get involved with any singles activities there, you can also try an internet dating service.
171340
Because your too easy.\nAnybody could have YOU for a gf\nSo why would any certain one want you.
1006318
hey if you like someone and you know they are single just ask them out on a date. take the chance
407234
because its a big money maker // its for lazy people that dont want to get of the house to find someone special.going out is to much work so they rather stay home and meet people the lazy way.
16344
That's really difficult.  It's not good to be alone, and there's nothing pathetic about that.  It's hard to meet quality people. Loneliness is very tough -- it's true for everyone.  Just people don't like to admit it.  And the best people can end up single for a long time.  If you are over 18, I suggest you explore online dating.  It really has lost all its stigma.  Many "non-loser" people use online dating as a way to meet matches that share their interests, faith, goals, etc.  This is better than what you'll get limiting yourself to people at work or trying to pick someone up in a bar.  Don't be scared to try online dating -- just make the first date very casual, and in a public space.  Also, have a friend call you 30 minutes into the date so that you can claim an emergency if you know right off the bat that this person is too creepy for you or just not a good fit.
542679
well right now i'm single...and well i gave up in relationships already...so i prefer..to be alone..no problems..no commitments anymore...nothing to worry...just myself
1136631
Don't go after anyone. Let them come to you. There's no reason why you shouldn't go on out with other people now since you weren't in a serious relationship.At least go out and have fun.
615176
Actually, I have watched 4 of my friends do it.  It is a mix of things.  It's the fear of being alone, it's the proverbial ticking clock, it's desperation (if doesn't marry me, maybe no one ever will), it's status (I'm marryable.)  There's more to it than that, but basically it's insecurity and the clock.  Recipe for a bomb if you ask me.  I'll stay single, thank you.  I'm very picky.
399577
Of course not.  It is your life and there are times when it is easier and best if you are single and able to focus on other things than relationships.
148316
The key is to accept the fact you are single, and not be bothered by it. \nLet other things make you busy, like work or family or friends.. love will come along without you'd even notice. \nBeing single is not something bad, it's not something you need to learn how to handle.. It's temp situation, don't let it bother you too much.
459245
Don't be with someone because your friends are married, or your relatives are married or the what not.  Be with someone because you LOVE them and want to be with them.  If you don't feel that way about a person, you're better off not being with them so that they don't get hurt in the long term.  \n\nAs a chronically single person, I can tell you that there is nothing wrong with not being with someone.  I've had probably what seems, at least to me, the worst luck in the universe, and if it isn't, then I'd hate to meet the person who has had worse.  I am very unsure that I will find my soulmate some days.  \n\nI'd like to tell you that you're just looking in the wrong place or that some day you'll just get completely and totally swept off your feed.  I wish that for you, as I wish that for me, but nothing is certain in this world.  \n\nIt is your life.  You should do what you think makes you happy.  If you want to take a break from dating, do it.  There's nothing wrong with showing up alone to places or just being happy with your life as it is.  There's no shame in realizing that a relationship with a guy ain't gonna make you happy in the long term.  \n\nBecause, if you do find your true love, he will give you that spark.  \n\nBest of luck and best of wishes.
104204
It all depends. Some people I meet I just want to have fun with and others I do look for something more. I have high hopes for the person that I end up with and I don't really think that I will ever settle for less. I am totally comfortable being single and would rather be single than be with the wrong person. So I guess you could say I find people who interest me and I have fun with, but I will only consider a relationship with the ones who meet my expectations. They don't have to a model or rich...they just have to have that certain something about them.