how do you break away from a friend with benefit, I mean you can't break up with the person??
81097
tell him that it isn't working for you any more and be honest with him!
1002646
talk heart to heart...patch up things..if both of you can feel and see that it will really not work at all., then part ways in good terms...let friendship continue the relationship..who knows, the two of you needs only space..
338930
first try to get a quiet place where you and your friend can talk about every thing both of you have to realize that in every relationship people fight and argue also you have to be willing to whatever your friend is going to say whether good or bad also don't take it in a negative way and if she still doesn't want to talk just let it go maybe she was never your real friend anyway sorry hope all works out for you
302700
This really is common, whether we admit it or not. I have a friend that at times really frusterates me. I just wait a week or so and then by giving the both of us space, we just start pretty much where we left off, and the funny part is that most of the time she doesn't even know I was upset with her, friends just do that. See what causes yall to fight and try to avoid it, if you can't do this then try to talk to her about this, a real friend is there through the thick and the thin!
702118
just tell her that you feel like you both have grown apart and no longer have the same interests and that you don't want to be friends anymore or hang out. people usually will leave you alone if you say you don't want to be friends anymore. if you don't feel comfortable telling her in person, then email her or call her up on the phone. telling her is better than trying to avoid her. some people need bigger hints.
706764
You don't.  You blew it with starting off as being friends -- you will never become anything more.
555968
sometimes people are bound to be separated. if she wants to be seperated, you cant force her to have a friendship. you have tried your levels best and you must not be guilty. She might turn up the time she needs you.\n                          you see, such a good friendship could'nt be forgot so easily. She must anlso be remembering you. time changes all. you can only wait.
165047
You can't just walk away angry and distract yourself with the next encounter.  You can't escape yourself.\n\nUnderstand your feeling.  Analyze it.  Understand the other person and what they did, unpalatable as it may be to do.\n\nThey may never give you "closure" so give it to yourself.\n\nResolution, not escape.  Thats how.
660805
Welcome to the world of being a friend with benefits.\n\nThere's an old saying.. something along the lines of "why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free?"\n\n.. and you're giving him the milk.\n\nIf a serious relationship is something you want with him, you almost have to cut off the "extra" activities and talk to him about where you want things to go. See if his head and heart are in the same place that your's is and go from there. If he doesn't want a serious relationship and just wants to mess around with you, then how good of a friend is he really??\n\nEither way, you have nothing to lose.
1053761
tell him that you can't be together and if you can still be friends
1121954
this is called friends with benefits...only you can put a stop to it..
718718
Don't break someone else up from their relationship.  You would not like it if it happened to you.  Respect.
818035
Friends after the fact won't work dude.  If you want a relationship with her or still love her, tell her you want her back.  If that's a no go - you need a clean break - That involves your mate as well.   Explain you still have feelings for her and you can't be around her without feeling awkward.  Then find some new friends.
171455
Well you can't control other people's feelings and to try to do something to break the relationship up is not being a friend to either of them. The only thing you can do is go on with your life and meet other people.
247805
Just put some distance between the two of you. If you can't forgive, at least don't throw it in your friend's face. That'll just keep the anger strong and even make it grow.\n\nTell her(him) that you're hurt, and that there's no room in your life for her(him) right now.
243897
yes I wished I could do that but unfortuntly you cann't do that.  We have to learn how to let those feelings go and move on with our lives!!!!  I had a friend that tore my heart out of my chest at that's not the 1st time lol...  But this friend just really did a # on me.  I mean just about a year ago we stopped talking and I didn't understand why?  Then the truth finally came out she just used me for things like drugs,MY car,a place to stay at were she could stay away from home and I also think that she used me as a bodygard so if someone was going to beat her up then you would have to go meet me(im not a small girl like she was) but anyways you get my point of the matter.  So I have got away from drugs my car don't have her a$$ in it lol lol lol....I have seen that things come back to them and they well have someone else to do it to them too so don't worry they will get whats coming to them sooner or later...also don't let them brack you as a person be strong for yourself...I hope this info helps you out some...also I have heard that you will only have 2 or 3 REAL friends in your life thats not alot so be very choosey with friends.
232306
Oh baby.. Ask ur heart.. Is it really possible for u or the other person to b 'friends' after having broken up? U'll find the answer if u ask this to urself honestly..\nI believe that just to make matters uncomplicated and simple u can 'say' him/her that u'll remain friends just so as to console her at the moment.. but i m sure u wont be able to take this friendship to far..as u r aware..a broken heart stings!