how do u know when a guy is just usin u.. or messin around with ur heart. what does he do?
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quit worring about the guys and focus on yourself. by your other posts i see u are obsessed with guys, health issues..etc.\n\nfor right now you need to focus on your health,self esteem ,and school.seeking answers from your peers or strangers is only going to confuse you because you do not tell the whole story.If you cannot talk to parents...talk to boys/girlstown national hotline.
170608
You can allways tell if a guy likes you by a couple of things. First if he goes out of his way to initiate conversations with you that really dont have anything to do with whats going on. 2nd if you catch him looking at you when you look at him more than once. 3rd Use your instincts, guys are very direct and send signals if they want you to know they like you.
408496
look at him straight in the eyes and question him.  feel his pulse or watch for any certain behavior whether it's heavy breathing, twitching or refused to look into your eyes. If he does, he's lyin'.
241632
If u are just talking on the phone then how can he be useing you? if his friends are telling you he is useing you then he needs new friends.if you are haveing intiment relations with him then stop,if he loves you he will stick around,if not then he will run.
394254
Ask him. By his response, you can tell if he is lying or not. Look for signs that he is cheating. He is loving you or avoiding you? Follow your heart, but don't be afraid to play the field too!
490155
if he can't stop watching u, then he's definitely into u. if u want to b sure about it, go up and talk to him. if ur 2 shy to do it, do something like walk into him, drop ur book so he thinks he caused them 2 fall, and then when he says sorry, start a conversation. if a guy is into u and u r into him, don't make it look obvious. it's better when u play hard to get. it makes them go crazzzzzzy over u.
485883
Guys do things just to tense u..but never to avoid u...just note whether he behaves with some uniqueness with you..than wat he does with other girlfriends,whether he shares his personal feelings & other matters with you.Note that once you start respecting yur beloved he gives u lots of love & respect in return...
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You can tell if a guy is in love with you if he\nnever leaves you alone.  Calling, writing notes,\nhaving very long talks about you, etc.  He'll \ndevote most of his free time to you. If not,\nhe'll complain about not being with you or not\nbeing able to talk to you enough. You can usually\nsee true love in his eyes when he looks at you.\nGood luck, theres a lot of liars and users out \nthere. Your best bet is to ask God to lead the\nright person to you.  You can't go wrong there.
225620
When he gives you all of his attention, and wants to spend time with you, calls you, is generous, and the biggest one HE TELLS YOU. :) Listen to your heart and be honest with your self, you'll know.
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YOU REALLY CAN TELL BY HIS ACTIONS. HOW HE TREAT\nYOU. AND HOW HE IS AROUND YOU. LOT TIME YOU CAN TELL BY HIS CONVERSATION. BUT MOST OF ALL YOU NEED\nTO GET TO KNOW HIM TO SEE WHERE HIS HEAD IS.
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well guys are like puzzles you got to figure them out. Like my boyfriend to him awhile for him to say he loves me. You see it's best to know them first as friends so you know all about'em likes and dislikes but girl don't tell him you have fallen in love in with him. If you're not sure wait awhile or maybe ask him how he feels about you?! What type of feelings he have for you then you would know what to do. OR listen to what your heart says not head.
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You don't, not really.  You have to go on feeling.  How does he act?  Do you ever wonder if he's telling you the truth?  Does he show signs of keeping things from you?  Do you always feel frustrated with him?  These are all signs of disloyalty.\n\nBut does he hold your hand for no reason?  Does he have a sweet smile on his face when you catch him looking at you?  Does he do cute little things for you just because?  These are signs of romance.  It's your call.  If you are having some problems but it still feels right then you might have the real thing.\n\nGood luck!!!
808975
he's playing head games with you. He probably wants to see if you still like him.\nYou should just move on and avoid yourself another heartache.\nGood luck!
210636
gurl i think he is usein you and you do not need a guy that do that to you . i know there is other guys that you really like .but you can turn around and diss him 2 gurl .stop callin him ,lookin at him and he will know that you like him or just tell him what is on ya mind,gurl
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well....i guess u'll know if he loves you on how he spends time with you. actually, you're the only one who can tell, like is he sincere with what he say or do...is he expressive with his feelings, does he kisses you a lot or hugs u...things like that can clearly tell if he really loves you. agree? =)
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I am really quite familiar with the kind of guy that you described.  [I was exactly like that before!]  It sounds like he is favoring up to you and you are catching the vibes that he is sending out.  He seems to have other "multiple activity" going on in his life; but believe me, you can surely bring all of that to a halt, and turn him into a lovable little Teddy Bear.  It really does appear that it's you that he is after.  And you just watch!  Once you nail him, he will forget all of those other gals as if they never even existed to begin with.  And once they pick it up that someone nailed him, they won't have anything to do with him either.  It's like a mating-season.  If you are not in it then you don't even notice it. BTW, a well-known symptom of what you described is for him to ask you to hook up with one of your friends.  It's not your friends he is after!  He IS AFTER YOU!!!
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you know if your heart speaks to you.\nA man that really loves you would do anything for you, he will love you unconditionally, no matter what the circumstances were/are. He is a man that is honest, and makes you happy. Let your heart speak to you. Learn to Listen to your heart.