what should i do when She pushes me AWAY ??
87090
Leave her alone for a while ... she'll wonder what happened and want to pursue you ... works every time.  People always seem to want what they can't have.
811453
move on... there are plenty of girls out there that wont play head games like this on you... you are her doormat... i know thats not what you want to here but hey if you get married or pack up and move then she kicks you to the curb then what????
521777
Listen, the only thing that you can do is sit there and listen and prove yourself worthy in one situation if she needs you she will come to you if she is aware that you are willing to be there and listen. There is no use trying to push her into trusting you when that is probably what she is really afraid of.
506077
Get rid of her.  She thinks she could break it off and come back whenever she feels like it.
912150
first of all, that's terrible, you didn't deserve to be attacked!\n\njust politely ignore it, she probably wants to get a reaction from you. if you don't give it any more emotional energy- she will go away\n\nor-\nif you feel violated- write the yahoo people to complain\n\nor- if you really can't let it go. write back how you are feeling, that it was abusive of her to attack you for no reason, and perhaps she is striking out because something in her life is causing her pain. but- only do that if your real email is hidden and she can't reach you any other way (360 page, etc..) and you feel it's neccesary for you to stick up for yourself. there is nothing wrong with that.you can state your peace without being mean. just state the truth.
356515
If you guys are making out.. or whatever, try putting the heavier moves on her. If she goes with it, she wants it. If she pushes you off, then she must not be ready. Go with your instincts.
1077812
leave ur feelin. coz she wont accept it.
649152
Express how disrespectful she has been and leave her alone.  It is evident that she is only doing this because she feels that you are so desperate to have her.  Don't answer her calls.  Ignore her advances and move on with your life.
1001338
Begin distancing yourself from her...She's obviously not your best friend if all of this is going on.
128480
It's time for you to call her bluff.  Tell her you're uncomfortable with the situation as-is & get some distance from her.  If she ends it with her current BF, go-for-it...otherwise, get away from her.\n\nSHE has got a choice to make.
291093
Ask her if you can have some time apart. I hope that helped.
250488
Ignore her and talk really animated with other people.  That will make her miss you and want to forget about whatever trivial thing you are fighting over.
887335
she doesn't know what she wants.  Be the bigger person and walk away.  you don't deserve to be yanked around like this.
263988
That first answer was stupid, useless and mean! Anyway, I think you have to think about how much you love her and if you really want to be with her forever. If you do, then you must sit her down and talk to her about how you feel. Tell her that if she doesn't stop "pushing your buttons", or at least try to, that you have no choice but to separate. Put the ball in her court, make her understand how important it is and how much it affects you AND the relationship. Hopefully she'll understand and cooperate. She shouldn't get pissed off b/c you said she admitted to it before. Just make sure you talk to her calmly and with respect. Let her know that you're hurt by it, not just angry about it. Most chicks can sympathize with a guy, but if you're angry, they get defensive. Perhaps she's unaware that she does it, or when she does it. Meaning that overall she knows it happens, but can't really catch herself doing it. Maybe you need to agree that you can kindly remind her when she does it. My boyfriend and I have a similiar problem in that we do it to each other. Reminding one another really helps us to curb our behavior. It works really well when we both commit to it, but we do slip up now and again. Of course, if she's not willing to do this with you, then obviously she doesn't care enough to try and you should just dump her. And if your answer to the first question is NO then you do the same. I hope this helps you out. GOOD LUCK!
351541
There's not anything you can do ... just keep going in and being yourself,if you go in now and act all weird she'll pick-up on it and it will make the problem worse.Believe me all she wants to do is forget about it.
484640
Ask  her  what  happened,try to  talk  to  her  and  explain  how  do  you  feel  about  not  talking  to  you!
540609
Maybe you should just stay out of the middle of it. Give her support, but just tell her that you rather just not get involoved, unless he did something serious to her.