I have a online relationship with a married man!!?
81750
You're not in love.  You're obssessed - with wanting something (in this case, someone) you cannot have.  Don't worry is a common human trait ... u just got to wean yourself off this man.  He spells trouble and you already know that.  Just got to let your head rule over your heart for your own good.
1082716
possibly.  Just do this...dont message him everytime you see him online.  Let him message you first sometimes, Im sure you are a busy person too.  He could just be busy (like what he told you).
256938
It is possible to fall in love with someone you've come to know on-line.  I've known couples who have met on-line and are happily married.  I believe it is completely possible.  Congratulations on finding that someone special.\n\nI suggest you plan on setting up a meeting, and see if that same chemistry exists outside of cyberspace.  Sometimes people feel much more comfortable and are able to be themselves when there's a computer between them, than when they are there in person.  Give it some time and effort and hopefully you'll have a connection in real life that is as strong or stronger than the one you have via email.\n\n"Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get--only with what you are expecting to give--which is everything. " ~Katherine Hepburn
425149
I've been married for 14 years and have continuously thought of my first true love.  Just about 2 months ago I came across his email address and contacted him through email.  Yea, he's married but is so glad that I contacted him.  I'm still his true love although he's now married as well as myself.  We email and occassionally he calls me.  It was such a relief to finally be able to talk with him.  He lives hours away, but we email each other daily.  So, I'm telling you, contact her.  You'll be glad you did.
1118722
Don't overstep your boundaries. He's married and you shouldn't be playing with the thought that it can be anything more. Keep your friendship and respect yourself.
740857
Online relationshp are not real, there are ful of crappy people and you will never get to knw who they really are...what they they are they are not. \nI know a friend who was in one and this lady really pushed to get to know him, she got th cntacts, she called investigating and ths guy was not rdy to move on...crappy, any way eventually thye met but all she wanted was sex and ths guy was not ready..so after a couple of mtgs they broke off and no regrets...\n\nIt's hard to now the other party. But if it's just fun on the internet, hmmmm...thn thts fine but keep it wholesome.\n\nI'm not sure that I can wish you good luck on this one :(
255297
Well, online stuff is so hard to deal with.  I met my current bf online.  He is wonderful, but, he isn't the first one I met and you have to pull up the weeds before you find the flowers.  You need to stop sending him im's, let him make the next move.
1163524
First off are you married just for the convenience or do you love your husband? Have you met the man you think you are in love with from the computer? I have met alot of men from the internet and most of them are nothing like they say. Speaking from experience no one who is married is ever going tio leave their significant other because that is a security blanket. Fix what is wrong in your marriage before you find yourself completely alone this is advice that I had to take because I was in the same boat. Mine was not fixable so I just divorced him and now date men who I meet outside the internet and know they are single.
1162464
i met my boyfriend online...
10256
well first, is there any way you can tell if he's been active on this account or not? maybe he had it on there and forgot about it? just mention to him that you found it and was wondering about it...this might bring questions as to why you were there also, he might think that you were looking on match.com, or don't trust him. neither are what you would want him to think if it's not true. \nso simply ask him about it, if he isn't straight up with you about it, then odds are that he's always keeping another door open. men do this for many reasons, like fear of being hurt, finding something better, or that's just thier lifestyle. i wouldn't put up with it if he says he wants to marry me, because marriage is permanent. if he's talking about something permanent then he needs to be sure about it before he mentions it.
376044
I hope that you are very careful with what you are doing with this guy.  Remember that you are married and you may lack a certain thing in your marriage which will be better work out with your husband.  I understand that it is kind of nice to have someone interested in your despite you are married but why are you dragging him on?  Will you be happy to divorce your husband because this guy sweet talk to you?  Are you sure that you will have a better future with this man than your current husband.  I suggest that you spend more time with your husband and rediscover him then talking to this guy, unless you have no hope in your marriage!  Good Luck!
652443
Its possible to fallen in love with someone on net. I'm having that relation from last 2 years. We are having understanding that we are quite far, different status and having different lifestyle but our feelings are same with each other. I met him first face to face after 6 months of online. He made me confident and more positive towards life...I can say he made a girl into a women. We share our happiness and probs, its an unconditional bounding between us which we wish would last forever. I wish you would also have such beautiful relation which i have.
612570
Most married men who have extra marital affairs would tell you that they have problems with their marriage otherwise why would they be looking for someone outside of their marriage.\n\nI would say the reasons given may or may not be true, who knows for sure. But one thing for sure is, nothing fantastic will come out of this relationship you have with him. \n\nWhy pick someone who cannot give his all to you? \nAre you happy being the number 2 woman in his life?\nAre you satisfied with dating him in the dark? \nHe cannot spend time with you on weekends? \nWhen you have problems, he cannot be with you, because he has to look after his wife or children first?\n\nYou can live without him, it is possible, alot of women have done that before. At this point there is an attachment or even love, but love is a choice, you can choose not to love him anymore. For the sake of his marriage and your future, you need to leave him immediately and let him work out with his wife. It's painful at first but you really need to pull yourself together.\n\nThink of your future, don't you want a normal loving family with a good, faithful husband and kids? \n\nIf one day he really is with you, can you be certain that he will be faithful to you (now you know that he is unfaithful to his wife just to be with you?\n\nA loving honest sincere marriage cannot be based on betrayals. As a friend online, I hope you will not make decisions on just your feelings alone, but logic and wisdom.\nDo not let yourself or your family or friends around you down by making a mistake and being a third party.\n\nLeaving him and letting him work out with his own family would be the best option. And further he already let you know he cannot commit to you coz he will not leave his wife. Why choose this option where he cannot give you a future?
1185657
maybe..until u meet him!!  love is @ FIRST SIGHT well at least!!!!!! NOT meeting online sweetie. Best Of Luck!!!!!
853357
Do you expect us to believe that you haven't talked to any men in....what did you say... a year? He came home to you didn't he? Sounds like you have some trust issues or you wouldn't have been checking up on his internet usage. \n\nA little advise here..... people will find what they are looking for.... and that goes for trouble too!
631012
I think you should meet him, but not even entertain the thought of marriage yet.  All you really know is what he has chosen to tell you via his internet persona.  Who knows what really lurks underneath.
1148735
I honestly dont think its bad to meet on line just be carefull. I met my husband on line on a site. And now im married to him and we really love eachother. I got really lucky with him. I have never met someone that loves me and my kids soo deeply. I have 2 kids and I was feeling like you were too. I was tired of people using me and and I really didnt do anything sept work and take care of my kids. Then I started talking to this guy and went from there, and now im married to him and couldnt be more happy. Just be carefull and watch what you do, alot of people meet off line and end up happy and together. Good luck!!