how do you forget about a woman that you love and all she wants is your money and to cut you down?
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If you are not married and I will assume you are not then date other people...tonight....call a friend a woman or an aquantance and go out on a date. Talk to her and seewhat others are like.  Date 3 times a week.  Go date crazy and you will find a  kind generous woman who loves you for you.  She is out ther really she is.  The woman who cuts you down is not the right one. I am sure you love her and maybe you will always love her in your heart in a burning way that no one else will ever understand but she is not good for you. Love is natural and easy for both, love is generous and kind.  I tried for three years to love a man who did the same thing.  In the end I took it very hard but now that I look back I see how miserable it was.  Why did I stay...because I did not have the courage to leave.  Do not be like me.  Fight for yourself and start dating other people.
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You do need to break all ties, at least for a while.  She needs to know that this is serious. \n\nConsider forgiving her but no more money, and be smart about your financial information. \n\nI am so sorry you are going through this.
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divert your attention to someone else who can fill the space that belonged to the person you want to get rid of. Let go of all grudges, pain and don't you ever think about getting a revenge because this will make you more attach to him/her.\n\nForgive and forget. If you can't forget, don't make every memory of him a big deal.
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there really isn't a "delicate" way aside from just saying "it's over, really really over" and sticking to it. how do you do that? \n\nwell, your first step is realizing how much you really want to stay out. you have found yourself going back, and now you feel like a jerk because you're not into it as much as she is. so think of it this way: how would you feel if she was the one coming back to you when she was "bored or lonely"--wouldn't you be mad and hurt? you don't want to hurt this person do you? so stop doing that. you're being a jerk. (not a bad person, but just not who you should be.)\n\nthe next thing you need to do is set a period during which you will not call or contact or hang out or talk more than in passing and out of courtesy with this person. tell her and yourself that this is necessary for your to transform your relationship into a platonic one. if she keeps calling you, then stick to your rule. (i.e., don't answer the phone, and don't call her back. the common courtesy of a greeting when you meet outside the home is okay, but try to make it not go beyond "hi how are you?")  i'd make it a period of about four to six months. \n\nget out there and talk to and look at and be around other women. get to know other women. date. even if it's the friendly sort of date that doesn't go anywhere. cultivate your crushes. enjoy your life. find a new hobby or hang-out that has nothing to do with your old relationship. in fact, try one that your old girlfriend didn't like or prevented you from doing. look forward to finding someone you can love. \n\nthe reason i have never "gone back" is because i keep focused on the reasons why i don't want to be with that person, and i remind myself that being alone is a good thing. i also remind myself that it is a waste of time to be with someone who doesn't present as the "love of your life."
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The best advice I could give you is to keep your mind busy on anything else but her. Keep yourself active, busy. I know its hard, believe me, I do. It will pass with time.
177830
get away from her. don't waste time on crazy women, get a sane one.
506077
Get rid of her.  She thinks she could break it off and come back whenever she feels like it.
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My advice, forget about her. If you phone her up and get all angry it will just boost her ego(she will know you are still thinking about her). Ignore her, if you see her in public even if she speaks to you look right through her.\nIf you phone her up you look like a wimp. Seriously.\nAnd if anyone says how do you feel, you say,"honestly you know she did me a favour I was looking for any excuse to dump her.\nThe best revenge would be her to feel that you could care less.\nTrust me buddy, I know its hard but your silence will pay off.\nBlow off some steam some other way and forget the pig.\n\n\nI was cheated on once. I kept my mouth shut from the moment I told her I knew what was going on. Did not say one word. \nPhoned a mover, gave her a check for rent and left.\nHer relationship with new guy lasted about a month, now she lives in a trailer with a guy and his two pitbulls.\n\nyeah keep your mouth shut, move on.\n\n\nre: heidi. give it a rest. gods plan. yeah either god or bono eh?
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don keep thinking u want to forget that person , its hurt u more , do smtg instead of trying so hard to forget ....
343524
honesty hurts, bad. but, it usually works out ofr the best. try withdrawing from her and the things you do together. its not going to be easy but it will be best for both of u
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buddy the last thing you want is for your woman to want you only for your money. look if she goes with the other chap well consider yourself saved. its hard but welcome to the real world. life goes on! cheers. there will be other women believe me.
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No offense...But she is not, i mean not interested...Just get your mind off her....otherwise you could, i said just could be the stalker type.....How: replace the thought of her with some other thought...Sorry for your loss...In love we've all lost...sorry!
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just try to be away from her.\nthe day u fell u cannot do that\nu r in love.\n\ncheers!!
911622
I can tell you how to find out okay?  tell her that you made a terrible investment and lost all your money.  if she really loves you she'll stay with you, but, if she takes off, you'll know she was only in it for the money.  \nI hope things work out for you.
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if she let her family get in the way then you don't need her. Just got out with friends and have a good time do what you can to keep your mind off of her. I am going through the same thing. I just keep my slef busy.
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DONT CONTACT HER ,DONT CALL , DONT TALK TO FIRENDS ABOUT HER OR THE BREAK UP   ,  ALL HUMANS HAVE A REAL PROBLEM WITH THIS AND YOU CAN BET YOUR LAST DOLLAR SHE WILL CALL ,  ITS TOUGH BUT TURN OFF THE SWITCH AS SHE DOESNT EXIST  IT WILL DRIVE HER CRAZY  SHE WILL CALL OR COME AROUND TO SEE HOW YOUR DOING ,  I PROMISE , IT DOES TAKE TIME BUT IT WORKS     JFB
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hmmm, a guy just did that to me recently.  She has gone through a lot of thoughts in her head by now.  If you want any chance at all, you need to own up to the fact that you hurt her by not talking to her, and apologize and say you'd like another chance.\n\nWhy did you stop talking to her?