I am shy.  I like this girl who is also shy.  How can I talk to her?
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Well since you both are shy and you both (I assume) have younger sisters you could talk about how annoying they are always trying to be just like me.  Then talk about the (I assume you have spanish) spanish homework or projects.
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Ask yourself is the possibility of getting this girl worth the effort of overcoming your insecurities and shyness? Is holding her, seeing her smile, laugh, waking up to see her face in the morning worth putting for effort to change?  You're the only one that can actually do that, though here is a little advice that may help you in talking to her:\n\nTo keep the other person interested in a conversation don't talk about yourself too much. Ask questions to get to know the person better, talk about any interests you have, classes, guys/girls, parents, etc. Become genuinely interested in the other person.\n\nThere are lots of ways to start a conversation; keeping yourself informed on current events, staying involved in activities, and keeping a mental list of good topics of discussion are excellent ways to break the ice. Ask simple, friendly questions about the person. \n\nAlso remember that body language is very important! Most people don’t even realize it but most times you’ll already have made a lot of decisions about the person by their body language and tone, before you’re more than a minute into a conversation. You want to be cool, calm, and collected; act like the person is an old friend, even if you’ve never talked to them before, and make sure to look them in the eye. Instead of focusing on how uncomfortable you feel, prepare yourself by thinking of the issues that interest you most and what you would like to discuss about a particular subject. A little preparation can go a long way.\n\nPay Attention to what the other person says! This one is Extremely useful as you can bring it up at a later time and the other person will be surprised and pleased that you remembered.\n\nContinue to speak to everyone you know regularly. If you are walking and see someone you haven’t talked to in a while, stop for a moment and talk to them. It does not have to be a long conversation, just say hello, see how they are doing and if anything is wrong. You would be surprised by how little effort is required to win the friendship of others when you require nothing of them.\n\nBe nice and generally try to end the conversation on a good note. You don't have to make sure the other person has a great time Every Single conversation, but you don't want to think of all the petty arguements they've had with you.\n\nArguements... Don't. There are Very Few 'good' arguements. "The only way to get the berst of an arguement is to avoid it."\nIf you're wrong, admit it.\n\nDO NOT critize the person, or a friend, when talking to the person. If you want to point out something they did wrong, try to point out something similar you did wrong.\n\nSmile! Not a forced smile, the person you're talking to will be able to tell the difference. And you don't have to be an overly happy hyper-active person. Just smile naturally and, if you can, be somewhat happy. Remembering good times with your friends/family can help.\n\nLet the other person do a lot of the talking and be a good listener. (Somewhat stated in my first advice, ask questions, talk about interests the other person has. Answer questions sincerly.)\n\nHonestly make the person you're talking to feel important. You don't want to fake this one or do it too often, but if you honestly think they did something well, give them that praise.\n\nAs for the no being able to relate to others because you don't drink of dance... You're not the only one, a lot of people don't enjoy the bar and club scenes, you'll find others that feel the same way. If the people you want to hang out with do goto these places you can go with them everyonce in a while. You really don't need experience to be with friends at most of them.\n\nIf you want more advice, there are a couple good books that Will actually help. How to Win Friends and Influence People, is probably one of the best ones. It's an old book, but trust me, it's just as useful tod
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Talk to her and get to know her. Make sure you don't speak "Gibberish" in fornt of her
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Well, you need to get past this 'shyness' 'cause otherwise, you'll be stuck alone...for...quite some time. Unless some girl decides to talk to you first...but usually girls depend on guys to make the first move. Just take up the courage and (if you have someone in mind) go up and talk to her. CASUAL CONVERSATION, not some stupid pick up line...like...if you were a cardoor i'd bang you all night....of course, that's exaggerated. Don't annoy her though...cause that would be bad. Just have some casual conversation and see if she talks back to you and see how it goes. Also, with some girls, you can tell that they like you when they laugh at your stupid (really really really stupid) jokes and no one else is laughing. ALso, if they seek you out in a group, that could mean something.
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Send her a letter.  Write neatly and tell her that you were too shy to tell her in person..that's cute!
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Maybe talk to her more and be friendly. Just keep talking to her, because at first since she doesn't know you all that well, she would probably be shy. Since your female friend say your sweet, you should try and talk to her a bit more, and see what the outcome is. Who knows, the more you talk to her, the more comfortable she would feel around you. I don't really know, I'm not really that shy to talk to someone, so just try to approach her in a friendly way.
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Should tell her how you feel. Don’t feel scare if she would turn you down. If you’re too shy to approach her,\n What i did last time is that i call my secret admire. Sometime i wrote letter and e-mail. But i can say, talk to her in person sure has the edge and more advantage.\n\nLove is a lasting forever thing. So take your time. And no rush. Girls look at 2 things, handsome and good personality. You know what handsome is. Good personality is the way u act and speak and how u behave yourself, also how u conduct yourself. They often look for good qualities. This is quite a tough area to improve. In other words, if they like u, means they really like u. If not, then, don't be sad and give up like others do, maybe there's still a chance u can improve. \n\nAll the best to u.
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ill give u girly advice...\nthe best thing i think you shud do that will work is go up to her and say hi and ask her if u cud talk to her alone for a min \nand tell her how u feel. \nshe'll appreciate the fact that u want to have a conversation but not in front of everyone. don't make a scene...\nshe'll listen... \n\ngoood luck
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if you are shy about just going up to her and talking to her maybe do it with a group of friends or write to her or email her. maybe you can get her phone number. you will never know what could of been if you dont get the courage to try. good luck.
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Just talk to her alot, joke with her...she will be less shy as time goes. Have patience....
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Awwh, hun, chances are, she's just as shy when it comes to guys as you are when it comes to girls. Sure, girls talk a lot when we're with our friends, but when it comes to guys, a lot of us just get the nerves and negative thoughts as well. \n\nMy advice? Don't sweat it =] Start with a small conversation-starter such as, "hey, that shirt looks good on you!" That gives her a subtle yet obvious hint that you're interested. Go from there.\n\nGood luck =]
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Well like she is probably shy or quiet and if you want to get to know her you should take you time getting to know her talk to her a lot and make he laugh that usally makes girls more comfortable.
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the absolute best thing you can tell her is what you just asked.  tell her you like her a lot, and that you don't know what to say because you don't want to sound lame.  tell her you're nervous because you haven't had a lot of girlfriends.  she'll appreciate your honesty, and she will probably say that she doesn't know what to say either, and you can laugh about it together, and it will bring you closer.
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ask her out again! try your best to not be so shy.. i like shy guys, but for a few moments try to not be and have confidence in yourself.. go for it or you will regret it
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well, ask her out; ya never know unti lyou try.  Or if ou are 2 nervous see if you guys could play some 1 on 1 sometime.  Or you could talk to her more, like get to know her better that way she will get to know you. Good Luck!
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Dude just be yourself and get the courage up and talk to her and don't be shy about just relax and i'm sure things will go just fine. You shouldn't put yourself down you have to learn how to accept who you are 1st then that confidence will take you a long way.You can tell if she likes you when you start talking to her she'll act really shy and nervous around you and also look at you from time to time.So i hoped this out.-PEACE OUT
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I understand if you say you get nervous. But if you think you are shy, you aren't ready to propose her. You should be more comfortable talking to her whatever you want.