how can you make a guy fall in love with you when all he sees is his ex-girlfrend who isn't in love with him?
81898
Sadly, you can't *make* a guy fall in love with you because there's this little thing called "free will" that'll stand in your way every time. We are all allowed to make choices, and it seems he's already made his. Spare yourself the time and the energy that you will have to endure by trying to make him fall in love with you. Think about this... Is it really worth it? Wouldn't you rather be with someone who's focused on *you* and not on his eX-girlfriend?\n\nNow, this is not to say that you should turn your back on him. I'm assuming that the two of you are friends, right? If you're friends, you should continue the friendship... UNLESS it pains you to no end to see him being hurt. But if you can endure that, then you can catch him when he falls (which he will, seeing as his eX isn't in love with him anymore but may be temporarily using him for whatever reason(s)). Just you being there for him may help him realize what he truly has in you. \n\nRemember, never be someone (or something) that you aren't. A good man will see your inner beauty and love you just the way you are. God bless you!\n\nHope that helped!
213359
If a guy doesn't like/love you for who you are then he isn't worth it! Why would you think about changing yourself, likes or dislikes to have someone fall in love with you? For example...Let's say you pretend to be someone your are not.  You dress, act and look a certain way to attract a guy. Wouldn't he be falling for the girl you created? Therefore, he wouldn't be falling in love with you! Be true to yourself and try to be patient. I'm sure there is someone waiting around the corner!
158856
You know what will happen if you continue or let him continue with this since his current gf will come to know then he will play you against her or her against you if not leave her for you which will cause heart break for her or you which will just drag this mess.Tell him hes in a relationship he should stick to it.You wouldnt want it happening if you had a boyfriend who was in love with his ex or doing what this guy is doing right?and remember that girl is innocent and shes only in with that guy since she loves him so dont hurt her.I hope everything works out.Best of luck.
853480
You need to let him know what you like and dislike or what he needs to try to do. Take over girl and make it happen.
924183
Just be yourself. There's no way to make some one fall in love with you. You need to be nice to her. And be willing to be "just friends" because if she doesn't feel the same and you really love her then you will still want to be around her at least as a friend.\n   You may want to wait a while until you express your true feelings for her as well. Make sure that you two know each other pretty well so she won't think you're some sort of stalker weirdo!
603175
You simply cannot make a person love you that has to come naturally, A persons feelings just don't turn on and off at a whim. Before anything happens you must get to know each other first before anything jumps off.\n\nIf he doensn't love you that is perhaps he doesn't know you yet and you haven't bothered to go and introduce yourself to him yet.\n\nMake a move and see what happens but remember you cannot make a person love you, and that I am being honest with you with.
78322
it might be hard for the friend to let go and then seeing his ex getting on with her life when he hasnt moved on hurts him .\nanswer stop seeing him and date the girl
885801
Sorry, but you cannot make anyone love you.  If she wants your friend, you are not going to be able to convince her that she wants you instead.  Besides, if you introduced the two of them, presumably you wanted them to like each other.  It would be really sh-tty of you now to try to undo that.\n\nAll you can do at this point is to stand by and let things run their course.  People tend to forget that all relationships end at some point.  (Well, if you are lucky, you find one that doesn't, but all the others do.)  So, stand back, be supportive of your friend and the girl, and wait to see what happens.  Almost certainly, they will fizzle out somewhere along the line.  If you stay friendly, but on the outside, she may eventually look at you again, and discover that there is a really cute, nice guy that she overlooked.\n\nGood luck!!
453768
You can't MAKE a guy fall for you, but you can make him notice you and then if he is interested he will make a move. Be nice, smile, flirt (not slutty), and be yourself. Show an interest in him and in what he says and try not to act silly, giggly and goofy. Good Luck!
912659
you might want to start by getting her attention. let her to get to know about you and pick it up from there then slowly build a relationship with her. i can't guarantee you that she'll fall in love with you. but at least you'll have the chance. besides you can't force someone to fall in love with you. good luck to you.
26948
You cant "make" a guy love you (trust me i've tried). \nTry these things:\n1. Flirt\n2. Try telling him how you feel\n3. Make eye contact when you talk to him (show him that your interested in him)\n4. any accidently bumbing into him wouldn't hurt either. (just dont really hurt yourself or him when this happens- It's happened to me before)
932749
It depends on how serious they were...If she was really into him, and is still hurting from the relationship, then obviously, No. But if they have moved on and have remained friends, and can look back at their relationship and laugh, then Yes. I was in that situation and my friend actually suggested that I get with her ex, because it was so obvious that we had chemistry. Sometimes girls fall so hard for guys that we become blind to others feelings though, so make SURE your friend is okay with it. But even if she isn't, if it's meant to be with the guy, it will be.
1090681
every guy acts differently but u can test it, by asking him to meet u some where when its out of his way. a guy in love will do anything to see the girl he want to be with... anything
286634
You cannot make anyone love you, or get them to love you. You have to take a risk and care about them first. You have to get to know them first, otherwise its not love, its something else.\n\nMaybe you could think about how you might like someone to get you to love them. What would you want them to say? What would you want them to do for you? What would this "love" be like?\n\nEveryone needs to be loved. Consider the girl. Maybe she wants to be loved by you, or maybe she is waiting for someone else. Find out. Talk to her. Get information.\n\nYou may hear some things you don't want to hear, but at least you will know where you stand.
717202
Go out w/ him! Who cares who his ex is as long as she isn't a good friend of yours then it really doesn't matter. If he makes you happy then go for him. If you just want to get revenge on the girl (his ex) just b/c you don't like her then just go out on one date w/ him, and at least see what he is like. Who knows you may end up really liking him in the end. Just remember who cares what she thinks, if you don't like her and they are broken up then he is fair game, and you shouldn't feel bad in the slightest.
121472
I wish I had the answer to that. You can't make him love you if he doesn't - you can't tell his heart what to feel. If you think he doesn't love you anymore, maybe the two of you could sit down & talk about your feelings? Maybe you are just reading him wrong & he still loves you but you don't perceive it that way. You may need to tell or show him what you need to feel loved - & perhaps he wants something from you to make him feel more loved as well. Try to communicate your wishes & desires to one another, your dreams, your plans for the future, your hopes. If you love him, let him know that all of those things include him for you. Good luck & best wishes.
521752
THIS IS NOT AN EASY SUBJECT!! FIRST HE NEEDS TO ASK HISSELF WHAT HE WANTS FROM HER A FRIEND OR A GF! CAUSE ONCE YOU CROSS THAT LINE ITS HARD TO GO BACK. AND HE DOESNT NEED TO FORGET ABOUT THE GF HE HAS RIGHT NOW. WHAT IF HE LOSES HER AN THE OTHER GIRL DOESNT HAVE THE SAME FEELINGS FOR HIM. BE CAREFUL IF YOU ARE GIVING THIS PERSON ADVICE. SOMEONE COULD GET HURT!!!