Have anyone of u lost someone u loved by death? How do u deal with the mixed feelings? Hatred, broken hearted.
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i do belive at some point and time eveybody well go throw this. where its a girlfriend or a boyfriend moms and dads , borther's or sister's or wife or H or kids and ext. its no fun going throw times like thess but at some point and time its going to happen, there was a girl i really like her name was jennie she was killed in 1991 bye a drunk driver,i was thankful i got to know her, we never dated because i lived in ohio and she was in chicogo,but we did have one date a date i will never forget she was so BEAUTIFUL that day.she will be missed .
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The idiots always tend to answer first.  \n\nLife WILL get better.  I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your wife.  Speaking from some experience, I am "seeing" a widower who was married to his wife for 20-something years.  I did not know him or her when they were married and it will be one year this month since she passed away and he has two teenage children.\n\nIt will be hard and it will probably get harder for you as holidays come and go but you have to hang in there.  You should be so thankful that you met the love of your life, many of us never get that chance.  My guy never thought he would be with another woman, never wanted to.  It is still difficult for him at times and I have difficulty dealing with it at times too.  He pulls away from me to deal with it and I kind of freak out (read my posted questions).  He tells me that it is kind of hard for him to believe that his marriage is over and he sometimes feels like he is cheating.  Give it time.  Time is the only thing that will heal your pain.  Hang in there and live life for that baby of yours, she needs you to be happy.  If you need to talk, feel free to contact me - I kind of understand.
91997
When I was 14, my basketball coach committed suicide. This guy was almost like a second dad to me. He drove me home from practices, fed the team after practices, very nice, really funny, someone that everyone liked. I was close to his family, my brother was best friends with his son, and his daughter was a year younger than me. It was really hard to get over him dying because of the closeness I had with that family. It took a lot of time and I still miss him. But time does heal most things, you wont ever forget your coach, but you eventually do accept that he is gone. Just always remember the good times you had, what your coach taught you, and apply everything to your life. I'm sure your coach taught you life lessons along with soccer skills. It did help that I kept in touch with the family and saw how they were doing. I did cry at his funeral, especially when I talked to the family. That by far was the toughest part. Never forget about your coach, and remember something good comes out of every situation, even death.
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My father died because he was hit by a car (the driver was drunk) when I was five. I don't remember how I felt at the time it happened and I have no memories of my father which I find very sad. \nAn older sister of mine (I had 5 altogether) died 2 years ago due to complications after a simple operation. She left behind 3little children. \nIt's hard to describe how you feel when someone close to you dies. \nI think the worst for me was facing my sister's children. I know they can still have a happy childhood. I have very happy memories of my own childhood, so I believe they will be OK, but being with these little ones and seeing the pain and sorrow in their little faces, was almost unbearable at times. \nMy sister took a picture of her eldest girl before she died. In the picture my niece is holding a little rabbit and her whole face is brimming with happiness. There is not a trace of sorrow in her eyes. \nA year after my sister died, another picture was taken of my niece. It's hard to believe, that it's the same girl. She is smiling but the sadness in her eyes seems so deep, she looks so hurt and vulnerable, that it just makes me wanna cry every time I look at this picture. \nThe only thought that has been of any comfort to me, was knowing, that both my father and my sister, had a relationship with God.\nI believe they are with Him now and that one day, I will see them again.
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I am sorry for you. I lost my mother 3 years on thanksgiving and every day I miss her. I lost her to colon cancer that spread to the rest of her body. I know what you are feeling and I hate that it hits me even more on her death day and on her birthday. I sometimes wish that I can see her alive just one more time so I can ask her if there was anything more I could of done for her when she was going through that. I was blessed to have taken care of her at home till the end. But you will always be sad for your mother because that love you received from her, you will get nowhere else. God bless you.
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I am very sorry for you loss. Each person grieves differently and for various times. As each days passes it will hopefully get easier for you. Take care and I will keep you in my prayers.
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I know how you feel, i lost my brother 6 years ago on monday. I still cry i miss him so much. Sorry for your loss. Keep strong, he is in a better place now and will always be in your heart.
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If this happened to you, I'm really sorry. Allow yourself to grieve - that is the best thing you can do. Accept the fact that you are sad and don't try to hide it. You have every right to feel sad, angry, sick - whatever it is you feel. Just know that with each passing day, it will get better and you will learn to cope. You will never stop missing that person, but the thoughts of grief will slowly be replaced with fond memories.
614010
my first love died when i was 14. i loved her with all my heart. i think about her every day. it has ruined all other relationships i've tried to have with people. i wish she could be with me now.
959907
Wow, that's a question I could never finish answering, so in short I'm just thankful that me and my family are alive and healthy, I am so sorry to hear of your loss, man that's alot to cope with, but just know that only God give life and only God can take it away, and you may never know why God chose to take his daughter back to be with him, just have a lit peace knowing that she's in a better place, with her heavenly father, looking down smiling at you. And know that God want put no more on you then you are able to bare, and although that was a terrible tragedy and no doubt you will always have so many different feelings running that's associated with your daughters death, but it's almost been a year now, no doubt a very long, hurting agonizing, and painful one, but your getting through it and that's all you can do, and God knew, tho hard...He knew you would make it so stay strong, hold on, and keep your head up, cause that's where she's at, and know that she'll always be in your heart, mind and spirit, her body has just taken on another form, she's an angel now and her spirit will still be with you through these holidays and the many more to come, and tell your youngest daughter congratulations and her sister will not miss the birth of her baby, she'll be watching and smiling at a higher location, you'll have a happy holiday and remember when the pain of your lost, hits you the most that's when God is watching to pull you through, I applaud you as well as many others that make it through such traggedy's, maybe at times you don't feel so strong, but remember you are and looking back... you've made it this far....LOL to you and your family.
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I have not, and dread the day it happens for I am sure it will be one of, if not the saddest day of my life.  Do not listen to answers that say the soul does not exist.  If you believe in the soul, and that it exists, than it does.  That is your belief.  I am sorry for your loss, and hope that with time, the pain will ease.  peace and love
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If you mean that her husband just died, rather than that she had him killed ...\nThere is a wonderful brochure for you to share with her:\n\nWhen Someone You Love Dies :\n - "It Can't Be True!"\n - Is It Normal to Feel This Way?\n - How Can I Live With My Grief?\n - How Can Others Help?\n - A Sure Hope for the Dead\n - Some Practical Suggestions\n - Helping Children Deal With Death\n - Texts That Comfort\nhttp://watchtower.org/e/we/index.htm\n\nit's available : on-line, in print, and as audio.
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I'm sorry for your grief i just lost my step dad in Aug and he was more of a dad than i could ever get..\n\nThe pain hurts because i lost so many if theres away I'm looking for it i spend day after day setting and talking as if he was still here at the grave site.\n\nWhat do you say we feel the same pain three kids and my wife are gone and i have one child left and I'm so scare of losing her.\n\nSomeone put a question in here and ask what was the saddest thing that ever happen to me and i cryed the owe time i wrote back an answer as i'm doing now..\n\nBless you and take one day at a time for two is to much and you will be okay.
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One of my friend lost her mother few months back.She is just eighteen years old.I worried at the beggining about how to console her because she liked her mother very much that she was almost in a very disturbed state when that incident happened.\nBut when she returned after few days she was completely normal.I was unable to restain myself and i asked her.she said a little story.The story is a man lost his only son and he was crying and crying and a sage noticed his sad state and he asked abt his sorrows and he explained to him\nThe sage said that he will solve his problem and will give rebirth to his son if he brought enough sand from the house where no death occured.He was unable to find such a home and finally he understood the life's fact that nothing is permanent in this world.After she finished telling me this\nI was really proud of my friend and if she can controll her sorrows then why cant u?Happiness lies in ur hands.
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This will bring some tears, thanks for the blessings , but of course when your lose someone you know has known you all your life and has loved you for all you done good and forgave or protected you as you didn't do the right thing at times.One of my sister is a drunk since our mom passed away , another calls and cries every mothers day and on what was our mom's birthday . One calls me and we will laugh at the times we had with our mom. I just take one call at a time and silently say Ilove you to her and say I miss you ! But painful yes, I remember all the pain she had with cancer and welcomed her death as she had . She said Dealth is something we all will face ,but she sure was going to miss all of you and I love you.She died years ago yet the pain is as it happened today . She was my freind as well as a great women and wonderful mom .She'll aways be loved and missed .
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So sorry to hear about your loss.  You should be at his funeral and just know that only time will heal the pain.  And it will.
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My spouse of 12 years died Jan 05..and I feel like a major part of my world died with him. The old saying time heals all wounds has some merit, to a point. I still have days when the grief is all consuming, and other days things are fine. I still have small kids that need me, otherwise I often wonder if I'd have the desire or need to carry on alone.