what's your opinion in the marriage between christain girls and muslem guys?
84966
It depends on how open the Muslim guy is. My dad was a Muslim when he married my mom, a Christian. 22 years have passed in their marriage but yet they are still going stronger than ever. There never was a time that my mom felt that by marrying to a Muslim guy she would be treated like dirt (although her friends told her otherwise), and my dad agreed that he felt that women shouldn't be treated like that either.\n\nReligion is no question when it comes to love, and when it comes to an understanding between two kindred souls. The reason I believe this? That's because I'm a happy guy brought up by two parents of different races, different beliefs and different religions (although my mom is now a Muslim), and I turned out okay. \n\nA marriage is the unification of two souls. It doesn't matter who you are. You are one, in God's eyes...
1153641
I'm a Muslim woman and i totally agree with you.\nIslam dignified the women.\nthanks God cause i'm Muslim
870216
What most christians seem to forget is that Mary got married to Joseph!And what does it matter if Jesus was not concieved through sex?Mary was still pregnant and she was a young girl!\n\nThen they hav the nerve to condemn a man when his marriage to Aisha was legitimate!\n\nHeck in America there are states that allows marriage for 12yr olds!\n\n\nEDIT:to the person below me:AISHA was NOT related to Muhammad!Abu Bakr, Aisha's father, was Muhammad spiritual brother,his comrade!
249223
I never understood why 2 men (or 2 women) who love eachother and are not hurting others should be punished by death BUT Muslims can highly exalt a man (even above Jesus) who married a 9 year old girl. Don't you think a grown man HURTS a 9 year old girl? That would be the one thing that would prevent me from ever being Muslim if there was ever a chance for it in the first place.
670627
The guy should not be shoving the religion down your throat.  It is up to you to convert when and if you ever are ready. It's not a requirement because Muslim men are able to marry women of the book (ie, Christian, Jew, etc), but if you want to have children in the future, it will become an issue because Muslims who marry outside the religion want their children to be raised Muslim.  I will tell you that being married to a Muslim is difficult, just as it may be with any man of any race or religion, but there are so many more rules and a lot of jealousy and insecurity for no apparent reason.  Best of luck to you. :)
949109
I can't speak from the Muslim religous aspect but can tell you I have a female Christian friend married to a Muslim.  Their relationship & marriage was fantastic at first but once their daughter was born things changed.  His religion took presidence.  He sent his daughter overseas to be raised by his family & their beliefs and he refuses to allow my friend to go to church anymore.  Not to say, this is what would happen if you were to marry this man.\n\nNext, I am sure you have prayed on this long and hard.  If you are finding more discomfort, worry, fear or confusion in marrying this person than the Holy Spirit is probably warning you not to.  God is a God of order.  He has not given you the spirit of fear but of love, of power and of a sound mind.\n\nI would recommend getting into the concordance of your Bible and look up marriage and divorce to be sure you line up all of your questions, feelings & decisions to what the word says.  Read all the scripture from the Old & New Testament.  Write the ones down that jump off the page and meditate on them.  Fast if you feel you are not finding the direction you should take.\n\nYou can use an online website http://www.crosswalk.com to do some of your research if a Bible isn't handy.\n\nRemember one thing, no one can tell you the path you should choose and they don't know how God is leading you.  This is something only you can figure out.  Close your mind off to all worldly views and seek after God for His decision in your life.\n\nI will say from everything I've read on the subject, as a Christian, you would not be in sin.  But I think you would be opening doors to a very difficult life in comparison to waiting on God to bring you a Christian man.\n\nDivorce is not an option - it never is.  So marrying this person no matter what happens until death do you part will be a vow you make with God.  Be sure you are truly ready to make this kind of committment before going any further. \n\nKeep in mind, someone who believes in a god other than the one we know is not led by a Holy & loving God.  Therefore, you end up joining together as one with someone who is being led by something else.  Ultimately, their decisions and mind are not being formed by the living word, the Holy Spirit and our heavenly Father.  If he doesn't have a relationship with Jesus Christ than you are not going down the same path.\n\nI realize you must love this man very much or the question you pose wouldn't be so heart wrenching.  I pray you find your way and the life ahead is filled with much love, peace & joy.\n\nI am happy to chat more if you want to write.
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U r wrong , Most of Muslim woman DON'T Cover their faces , We Cover Our Hair , as this is called Hejab , but covering the face is in countries like Saudi Arabia and they minority not majority .. \n\nAnd Mostly Muslim men know about the girl from her family and friends and her acts in her surrounding community , but still it's essential to talk to her and know her in a good way before the marriage and he could come to her home and talk to her also they could go out but with one of her family members like her sister or brother , \nThere's something to know , in Muslim marriage , one of the most important factor of the marriage it self is the woman acceptance , means that when the religion man "Sheik" begin the marriage steps she must be asked if she agrees to be married or  not , if not , the marriage cannot be done , and this is made to make 100 % sure that she is Happy with the marriage . \n\nNow a days , boys and girls are in the same colleges , and it's easy to know the good and bad girls from their behavior and also to make a respectful relation ship with any girl to know her better ... \n\n Hope i was clear ...
710012
i am Muslim. and in Islam if anybody has a baby without being married is called 'adultery' and all his or her family will be angry with him and the other family will not let their daughters to get married from him so the solution is tell his family( i now they will be angry)and married her
1102423
marriage is a suprior relationship far far better then the whole bf and gf system\n\nmay allah guide u all\n\nhttp://www.islamalways.com
169712
No....the man has to accept woman's religeon first then they can get marry....this is islamic rule....
280667
Yes.  I am married to a muslim man.  I follow an earth religion and he is muslim.  We both practice our religion and are happy together.  We have been married for almost 5 years now.  I have learned a lot from being with him.\n\nYou can work things out, if you love each other and respect each other, religion will not stand in the way of it.
989490
no i am Egyption moslem and her in EGYPT we cannt do that and in islam it is haram thats mean that the islam is right and the arab is think good \nits realy bad to live with your love without you marry
391705
First, I am Catholic and married to a Muslim. Orthodox (or Sunni) Muslims believe that men are the spiritual and literal head of the household. If a man, then, is a Christian or Jew, then, supposedly, even if his wife is Muslim, she would need to follow him in his religion. Covering is debated among Muslims themselves, though the Qu'ran does tell women to "draw their veil across their bosom". Modesty is the key, but like all religions, people interpret things a particular way. If you read the Qu'ran, you will find that Mohammed (the Muslim prophet), only required his wives be veiled, but traditional customs are an ingrained part of the religion and women want to imitate the early followers of their prophet. Orthodox Islam only allows women to head prayers of all women and if a prayer group is mixed, women line up in the back behind the men (this happens in American mosques also). Islam has a term (which I can't remember), for interpreting religion on your own, and it is highly discouraged. Innovation is looked on with suspicion and change is slow in coming. If Sudan has Islamic law, or sharia, then they may very well try him as an aspostate and execute him. Islam is very strict about a Muslim's involvement with non-Muslims (called kafirs, or unbelievers) so marriage to them, though allowed between a Muslim man and women of "the book" (Jews and Christians), the same is not true for women.
1151605
i live in a predominantly muslim country, ...several of my friends were previously christian, then converted to islam to marry their man... my observations are:\nAdvantage 1: you'll never have to worry if or not he is cheating cuz he is allowed to have up to 4 wives! oh, n they dont have to be legally married, title of mistress is good enough (but he has to financially support them)\nAdvantage 2: if ur intrested in converting to islam, here's your chance! moslems aren't allowed to marry anyone of a different faith.\nAdvantage 3: he's definately circumcised and your sons will be as well - this slippery operation is done at age 12.\nAdvantage 4: he will have 100% control over you. spousal abuse is not frowned on in the moslem religion\nAdvantage 5: in order to marry him, u need to convert first. this is a tedious process if done "correctly." oh, u'll have to learn arabic as well.\nAdvantage 7: if ur more of a "service" type personallity, this religion will suit you very well because the wife's role is to literally serve her husband (its not reciprocal) if he wants hot coffee, u'd better make it quick girl!\nAdvantage 6: when ur married, you'll be moslem, and guess what?!! its a sin (a really bad sin) to refuse ur husband sexually\n\nDisdavantages: none or all of the above...depending on ur point of view\n\noh, a word of caution, the moslem men act very "normal" while ur dating. after u marry, well....
667336
Well I am virgin. I do not know if I will wait until I get married but in most of muslam countries almost all girls wait until they get married. But I haven't heard a guy doing this. I would not like to marry a virgin guy but maybe some girls will find this cute.
66896
Hmmm. Since I have Muslim men friends and I know the culture a bit, I know that Muslim men want non-Muslim women only for sex and fun and companionship. Most, if not all, never intend to take the relationship anywhere past that. And any self respecting female, Muslim or non-Muslim, would not fall for you line of hooey. Oooh yeah, did I forget to mention how Muslim disrespect their women? I'm sure that's a big turn on too!
434719
Polygamy is a very controversial issue when it comes to marriage and the fact is it is not for everyone it take a very selfless woman to share her relationship with another man but the fact remains many monogamous American men cheat on their woman hence our huge divorce rate . There is also the fact that we don not live to solely please one person we live to please our creator with the growing number of the women population versus the male population this is a valid solution for a man to support and care for these women and children also let me inform you this is not about sex or the man feeling like a king with so many women it is about his position as a man to protect his female counterpart as Allah has made him protectors and providers to us.  People in this society are very closed minded to this idea because they only focus on the sexual nature of the arragement if they take the time to learn the responsibility of taking on this very charitable task  they would admire it and not see it as a weird practice.