I'm in love with a man of God. I don't know if he loves me. Is it ok for me to ask him or should I just keep
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No he isn't holier.  But I know what you mean.  I think that you need to see how close you are to him.  Is he your friend? Does he even talk to you?  With these type of men they seek realy spiritual women that will be a help in their ministry. Try to talk to him. Start trying to be friends first.  Then see how it turns out.  I agree with the person that wrote that you might just be infatuated with the role and not the person.  It is realy easy to get that way.  Just start by being friends that way you can see if it's the man or the role that your in love with.
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I love him,I'm in love with him.He has captured my heart with his  magnificent love.\nIife without feeling his love=0\nI long to grow deeper & deeper in loving and knowing him.\nGod bless u....
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There is no such thing as a 'sure' thing. You have to trust that he is.  Has he given you any reason not to? Have an open, honest discussion and pray like crazy. Good Luck!
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If you are not sure if he love you, ask him if he love you its ok, but if he doesnt all you have to do is move on with your life. no use stuck with someone that dont love you
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The reason that this happened is because HE can read your heart and He knew that you were praising Him in exchange of something material. God loves it when someone loves Him without asking anything in return. You must be very lucky, because God personally has placed a test on you. He did so because He knows that you have good qualities, but He wants you to love Him without any material motivation. just like real love. I am sorry to tell you, but you have to make it up to Him. You have to figure it out by yourself, but I can give you some ideas. Write a very beautiful loving letter to him, put it on an envelope and attach it to a helium balloon and let it go. Then you can buy the most beautiful bouquet of flowers and take it to the church that you go, and most importantly you got to prove him that you would die for Him in the cross. (hey just kidding) we are far away from being like Jesus, but you can give three laps around His church every day, people will look at you kind of funny but don't mind remember that you are doing it for Him only, do at least 3 laps every day for 1 week at least, and don't brag to anyone about it. it is just between you and God. You can plot many other crazy things, but whatever you do, do it for Him without considering good or bad , success or failure, do it just because you love Him. He will be watching you!!
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Life is short. Just ask him, even a friend would not abandon you after that question.\nBring it up in a discussion.\nPlease do not mention that you love him. \nNot at first anyway.
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It is pretty common to be a little unsure.  I think that even continues into the marriage sometimes.  You would be wise to ask yourself why you aren't sure though.  Make sure it isn't anything that goes against your personal values, morals and priorities.  If it doesn't, and you love him, commit to staying committed.  The most important thing to making a relationship work is that neither of you is willing to give up.
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Wifey, Yes God does love you even though you don't believe he does. He did not take your boyfriend or Father away from you. God has a plan for everyone and we all have our time to go and nothing will stop it. God knows exactly when we will die even before we are born. He has plans for you also and one day you will know why. I am sorry for your loss and right now you are grieving and your thinking process is not where it should be. I have lost a love one and I know what your going through. You go through so many things that at times you will think your crazy and believe me your not, just the normal process of grieving. May God hold you close to him just as he did me when I was going through it.
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if iu was you i would, but that is totaly up to you. you are your own person and part of love is making the right choices. if your ready for that then go for it...if not then dont im sure he'll understand
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Don't understand the question or how God relates to him cheating.  Some people find God when things are at their worst.  Its a good thing because their life has new purpose and they tend to look out for the common man.  Be glad he found God and be supportive if you are still with him.
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If you feel uncertain, then ask him. If he says he loves you then take it at that and don't look so deep into things.  Constantly questioning a mans love shows insecurity and that can push them away. I am 27 have been married for 7 years tomorrow and have 3 kids with the same man and I have gone thru my insecurities and I have learned FINALLY to be secure with myself and not only to I turn my husbands head ALL the time, but others as well....Confidence can be the best strength a person has!
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YOUR IN LOVE AND YOU'VE GOT EACH OTHER. HE JUST GOT A JOBL, THINGS ARE GOING TO BE VERY BLESSED IN YEAR TWO. SAVE THE MONEY, STAY IN AND PRAISE GODS HOLY NAME!!!\n\n\nGOD BLESS
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Pray, and ask Him to show Himself real to you and your heart.  That is ok to do, you know!  He loves you enough to show the truth, and will lead you to peace.  I have asked Him to prove Himself mighty for my family in many tough situations, and He has never left me one doubt that He is in control, and loves me and my family.  He is as real as me or you, and all you have to do is love Him, accept Jesus into your heart, and ask forgiveness.  Blessings!!
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I don’t personally believe, based on my own Christian faith, that God has dictated everything in your life.  Bottom line is, you are a co-writer of the story God is telling through you.\n\nYou will have opportunities to become romantically involved with different people in your life, and you simply do not “know” ahead of time what you are “supposed” to do. You might feel safer if God simply dictated every little step to you, but He won’t do that. You are not a robot, you are gloriously alive and part of the story yourself. That is scary, but it should also be exhilarating. (You have a say!)\n\nYou might end up picking someone who is similar to you, and marriage will be easy to make work -- but you won't be very challenged. Or you might end up picking someone with whom marriage is very difficult at first, but God still can make the marriage work and deepen as beautifully as the first option.\n\nMeanwhile, God wants you to be faithful to him in whatever you do. Act as He would have you in this relationship and see where it goes. If the relationship deepens (you grow to care about each other, your faith is leading you both in the same direction, and so on), let it deepen and see what happens. \n\nPray about it, pray for your romantic partner, focus on long-term growth and ask God for direction. Ask older wiser folks you trust for their opinions.\n\nMeanwhile, enjoy the friendship that is flowering. The abundant life (and by that I meant the spiritually fulfilling one, not the hedonistic pleasure-at-all-cost one) is meant to be lived and experienced.\n\nDon’t focus on whether or not you are “making a mistake” by perhaps not picking the earmarked person from the pool of 6 billion, that’s a fearful way to live. Focus on what God is doing in you and this person right now while you’re together, learn from it, and go where it takes you.
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Hold the bus!!  "love him for who he is" sounds like a nice, feel good statement, but let's anylize what that is really saying.  It is saying to forget God's command not to be unequally yoked, that denouncing Jesus as the Son of God is ok, and that "human love" can overcome God's knowledge of what is best for us!!  \n\nAbout marrying someone who isn't Christian: you are not going to have an easy road.  What church are you going to go to?  Is your husband going to want to tithe to a Christian church?  What are you going to teach your kids?  Who is right, Mom or Dad?  Are you going to teach them that any religion is ok- and then they are going to read that Jesus is the ONLY way to Heaven???  How are you going to explain that?  \n\nYou are choosing to become one flesh with a man that has not asked Jesus to pay for his sins.  There are consequences for that- like not spending eternity with God.  Since God is also Jesus and the Holy Spirit, and this man has said no to Jesus, then God isn't going to make him sing praises to Himself for eternity, and this man will go to Hell.  You will be sleeping with a man that you know is going to Hell.  That might not sit well with you.  \n\nGod has a specific plan for you.  This guy might be a part of this plan- just not until he surrenders his life to Christ.  I know how it is to be in love here on earth.  It is probably not easy to hear that this man isn't your Mr. Forever right now.  What can you do??  Talk very openly with this man about your convictions.  Chat with God daily about your feelings- He understands!!!  He just might have a plan that is bigger than you can see right now.  Ask God to start convivting this man and opening his eyes to the love of Christ.  You can give reasons for why the Bible is the ultimate authority if your boyfriend asks, but living a Christlike lifestyle is the biggest way to show others that you have let the Holy Spirit run your life.  Have a daily quiet time reading your Bible and praying with God.  I can see how this is possibly one of the biggest temptations you will face- should you marry the man that you love right now, or should you follow God's command even if you don't understand it right now???  I have already been praying for you.
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well all u got to do is follow ur heart. if u really love him and he loves you then yeah u should. just think of who is at the end of the love chain. is it him, or someone else.
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Well if u think its rite then proceed with it...it depend on urself..make sure that he really love u not juz ur body.. but as for religious,its not rite..its a sin..are u sure he's willing to share the responsiblities with u?? Better be safe then sorry dear...