how do i tell my parents about my girlfriend?.we both are 16 years old and we are genuine lovers?
95190
easily with self confident tell them all them all the story from the first day to the end!!!
9222
First, if you love him I don't see how you could even care about his looks at all. Second, if this is the sole reason that your parents won't let you see him ,it sounds rather shallow.\n\nIf you love him, explain the situation with your parents & then remain friends. Once you are 18, there is nothing your parents can do about it, so long as you live on your own. Granted, the full legal age is 21 but, if you are, let's say, away at college, how can they tell you whom you can & can not see?\n\nIn truth, how you handle this entire thing is up to you & your true devotion to this guy. If you've known him for nine years you can't be too young so I'm thinking it will just be a matter of time before you can be together.\n\nGood luck!
1081369
go immediately to your parents and tell them, 2 years is too long and it needs to stop, if you can't go to your parents then tell a friend and hopefully your friend will tell her parents. (then they might be able to help you)\ni wish you lots of luck.
1021943
hi..dts gud havin a boy friend..i do have one..c,just handle the situation carefully...tell your parents first,and make them understand the depth in love u have for ur guy..it always takes some time for ur parents to agree...bt,still u wait and wait...jus dont run away with him...bcoz that most of the couples do these days whn their parents are not allowin...tell dm that you really cant live with out him....and the main part is,you must have satisfied all your parents expectations..........let them know love these days is not a big thing to worry about...it vil take time,wait to hold the hands of ur guy forever,gud luck..........
1163496
Hello. honestly i think her parents are to uptight.. so i think that maybe u need to talk to her parents about it.. or maybe u just need to tell the girl right now you really wanna be with her and ur sorry her parents are in the way and that u would do anthing you can to be with her.. and that she is the most important thing to you..or that she is the most beautiful kind-hearted person in this worl and you would do anything to be with her if she would only give you a chance..
606170
First of all, congratulations and second of all, yes you should tell them because you guys love each other and are going to be together forever. It's very important to you.
502904
Why dont you talk to her parents, they might appreciate the honesty.\n\nThen they can tell her that they dont want her to talking to older men.
1131817
Ok, my girlfriend and I are going through the exact same thing. Just keep seeing the guy. Talk to your mom about it. Make her understand that while you understand her and respect her opinion, that this is the guy you love, and then ask her if her parents had told her to stop seeing your father if she would have... That worked when I talked to MY gf parents. \n\nBest of Luck
142349
Don't be scared to tell your parents. They love you and want the best for you (I'm guessing). Otherwise, tell an adult you trust - like a teacher or a friend's parent. It is really important that you let an adult know.
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I can tell you from experience it isn't easy.  However, I now have the advantage of being much older and am able to look back on the situation a bit more objectively.  First off, realize that this has nothing to do with you and their love for you.  This is a relationship problem between the two of them that you did not cause and you can do nothing about.  Next, continue to love your parents equally and do everything you can to make this as easy for them as possible.  Take time to talk to them and don't be afraid to let them know how you are feeling and ask them questions about what is going on if you need to.  Don't let this situation control your life, life will still go on and in a basic sense, nothing really is going to change all that much for you in the long run.
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well just let your parents know about him and let them see that you are a responsible adult by letting them know. you shouldn't hold it in and then they find out on their own and then it will all go down hill from there. that's my advice.
752249
I have a friend that is a freshmen with a boyfriend who is already a senior. They hid their relationship because their parents do not seem to approve.\n\nWell, if the both of you are willing to make a sacrifice for your love, then have your relationship hidden. Or...give a good impression to her parents so that they will seem to like you.\nTell her you still love her and keep talking to her. See if it works out.\n\nHope this helps~
300251
Why doesn't your friend tell her parents exactly what you just told me? Any true parents would try to understand, from the heart out. If they can't see that the boyfriend is a true boyfriend, because it's been a year, then she needs to tell them. Both the boyfriend and parents should compromise on a mutual relationship.
1160000
Sounds like she is shy and maybe alittle afraid of telling her parents that she has met a nice boy and would like to start dating him...I think you should wait for her...Respect the way she feels right now and give her time...I'm sure things will work out for both of you...\n Clowmy
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U have to find a way to be intouch with her.If she doesnt have any personal contact no.u can email her,if that isnt possible either\nbe in touch with her via her friends or your friends. u both live in different cities,if u dont communicate the realtionship i am afraid wont last. The most important thing here is why are her parents not allowing her to be intouch with you,look into that problem first and find a solution.\nThe most important thing here is you should not be the one trying to find solutions alone.If she really loves u too as u do,she should\nalso make efforts. Both of you will have to help each other.\n\nThink and take action now,dont just think.miracles dont happen.\n\nhope this helps
352134
You guys are free and over 21 and do not need her parents permission for anything.  It does make is easier if you have their blessings but it is not necessary.  If your girlfriend will not stand up to her parents, then you will have to do it.
493775
You are 25.  You are old enough to make your own decisions.  It would be best if you talked to your parents about it than hide the relationship any longer.  They will understand. They are family.  If they do not understand, then make them understand.  But I highly doubt it would be a huge problem.  Let your family know how you feel about her and where you see this going, especially if you see this going towards marriage.  You dont just want to surprise them one day with something you think they might not take lightly.  But I dont think its something you really need to worry about.  Remember, communication is key to a great relationship.  Good luck! =)