what if the guy likes you but u r younger than him so he wont go out with u?
87756
Look for others close to your age.Perhaps he doesn't want to get into trouble for dating someone really younger than him. If you get older it won't matter so much. However, now is not the right time.
325568
if he said no he really doesnt like you. boys dont play mind games like that, or play hard to get.
1049849
Why does age matter? If you like him and he likes you go for it. They say all's fair in love and war. I say you better get your man before somone else does. Anyway. Just be careful about if you two are still going out when your 18. Because that's against the law. You got three more years though. Hope I helped.
485905
I think he likes you... but peer pressure from his buds is getting him down.\n\nArrange to be alone with him... you can both be honest when there is only the two of you there.
290606
It depends. he might not want to go out with you even though he may like you becuase he may thinks that it will ruin your friendship
266190
I think he might like you..... But he sounds like he is keeping his options open. Be up front. Say if you don't want to let me go. Then you have to be with just me. Cuz if you want to be with other people  then u must not want to be with me. Ask him how he would feel if you wanted to see or like other people.
1139969
He likes you.  Obviously not your friend (no offence to her)  even if you dont go out with him, hes not going to go out with your friend.  He likes you for a reason.  So, you like him, he likes you.  And I'm sure your friend will find another guy.  I mean, if she gets sad about it, thats her problem .  Not tryingto be mean, but she cant force thi guy to go out with her.  You don't have to force anything, so I say go for it while your still young!!
1019597
ask him again and if he still doesnt kno that means he dont wanna go out wit u!
785986
Just because a guy is shorter than you isn't a good reason not to be with him. You said your still in school, but you didn't mention how old you and this guy are. If you two are in middle school (5th - 8th grade) then you guys are just starting puberty and he's not necessarily going to be short and skinny forever, and there's a good chance he's going to get a lot taller and put on more weight and muscle. If you guys are in the beginning of high school (9th - 10th) that would put you roughly in the middle of puberty, he might grow a little taller and he still might put on a bit of muscle. If you guys are near the end of high school (11th - 12th) than you guys are nearing the end of puberty, in which case he's not going to get much taller (maybe a 1-4 inches if he has a late growth spurt) and he might stay skinny, but maybe he'll get into lifting weights and build up some muscle.\n\nYou mentioned that you're "tall and chubby"... did you ever think that maybe he's under the same pressure not to be with you because of the way YOU look? The fact that he likes you and asked you out means that he's more interested in hanging out with you and getting to know you, than being concerned about how you look. There's a good chance that his friends and other guys around him are going to give him crap (if they haven't already started) about liking you. \n\nChubby is a middle ground between "Average" Weight and "Fat", and most guys your age don't acknowledge this weight class. To them your either "Average" or "Fat", their is no middle ground. Right now this guy is interested in you, which means he thinks your nice and your "Average" weight, but the guys around him maybe saying, "Dude, she fat. How can you like her?" If you snub him because of his height, he's going to bail, and he's not going to like you as much as he did.\n\nIf you really want to be with this guy, then looks shouldn't matter. You have a chance to be in a happy relationship with someone that is interested in being with you. The fact that you said yes when he asked you out shows you like him, if his looks were such a problem you should have said no. \n\nHe's able to accept the fact that you don't look perfect, and is willing to be with you. Why can't you do the same?
1034495
maybe he wants a shot with you. He wouldn't be talking to you if he didnt like you.
632934
Has he had his 13th birthday yet? If he won't admit he likes you, how will you ever get him to ask you out? he sounds kind of immature to me....do you really want someone like that????? \nPS age and maturity only go hand in hand sometimes.
1064071
He's not ready to date yet. He likes you but he's still not ready. How old is he? If he's below 16 he's propably not all too ready. Give him some time.
672991
You like him... you're in 9 and he's in 12?  Well, do what you like, but try to stay away from anything serious until you are at least 17, or you might get a rep.  Boys who really like you will deal with that, btw.
506175
Ask Him Out... Younger Guys Are Crazy About Older Girls... I Say... Do It Do It.... or At Least Talk To The Kid... Go Out There And Say... Hey Mann... I Like You... Will You Go Out With Me? Yeah Do It Kick Love In The Butt He'll Probably Say Yes!
1058731
hi emily!! if you like him then go for it..but the only main thing that you should know your limitations..i hope u know what i mean..me i like to date older guys too but my experienced is not that great..most of them they will try to use you..some of them they just really likes you for who you are..youre still young and there's a lot of guy out there and its your decision whether u want to take a chance..get to know him first and ull see..and ask him straight like what his intensions for you!!!then ull go from there!\n\ntake care
105233
You really like this guy, but you think he is to old for you? He is to old for you, forget him untill you are 18, seriously he could actually get in some deep trouble if lets say you two hooked up and he turned 18 and you are still a minor, for instance you two are lets say having sex. \n\nNot trying to be mean but I really would doubt he will give you the time of day, you are in Jr. High and he's a Junior in High School. Think of the &$%# he would get if he was dating a girl in Jr. High. I'd move on if I was you, age does matter when it comes to one being a minor and the other is of legal age. ( or in this case probably close to legal age )
726475
hum relax, if he likes you will find out sooner or later, it not, then big whooop,  move on, obviously if he doesn't like you then he's not worth your time!