can u love 2 men at the same time? how do you manage?
96924
You're playing with fire.\nBetter make a choice soon,before one or both find out(I can't believe either one of them would know and accept this situation as it is now)and make a decision for you.
307332
Of course you can be in love with two.  No person has the 100% fit you want.  That's also why there are so many movie stars. Each person gives off different vibes.
570538
A person can be deeply in love with more than one other person.  If this were not so, first children would have it all and later-born siblings would be up that famous but stinky creek without a boat or paddle.\n\nI phrased it that way to try and help relieve some of your anxiety.  Yes, one can be deeply in love with two guys.  It will be a real challenge, but you will probably have to choose one over the other.  The worst thing you could do would be to allow either of them to think that he is your number one.  They should know of the importance of the other in your life and that you're still trying to choose.  They should each also know that your choice may not, in the end, be either of them!  You may find another with whom you are much more "in tune", and decide that he's the one you want to spend all your time with.  \n\nWhat to do?  Be honest with both gentlemen, and take your time.  Don't rush into a one-to-one relationship before you're really prepared for that.  Marry in haste, repent at liesure is still, after a thousand years, a very meaningful phrase.  Wait until one of 'em proves he's worthy of a special woman like you!
1173288
what you should do is go back to school and learn how to right a complete sentence. "I feel like me and this guy are made for each other." that does not sound right. it should be " i feel like this guy and I are made for each other."\nby the way i never said i loved two guys. it's  just a question to post up.\n your the little s.l.u.t. trying to take another women's man.
556491
to start with, i know you have a stronger feeling for one of those two people, it just so happen that maybe, just maybe, you found something that you needed in one guy but you really love the other and now you confused yourself that the love the other where in fact, you only see something about him that you like but you not specifically love him. assess your feelings and start to weigh things out. \n\nand if it happens that they both weigh equally in your heart just like the other, then its tme to take chances on one which you think loves you more, then drop the other. in loving someone, its not necessary that you are sure, what matters is that you loved all the love you can give, and then who gives a damn if it doesnt work. what matters is that once in your life, you do a crazy thing and feel loved like no one had ever felt before and that feeling will be enough to sustain you for a long time.\n\nand see after sometimes, you would just reminisce the old feeling and just laugh about how carzy inlove you have been for the two guys..
1173329
thats why its called love its tricky not so easy.be away from both of them few days and see their and your reactions if one of them misses you then you know he truly loves you.best of luck.
632611
No, I think it's normal - human beings are programmed to be attracted to one another. Have fun! Lucky you to have two hot guys to choose from. Only problem will be if this continues...and you still can't choose way down the line. In which case, it might be that neither of them is right for you.
594895
Don't do anything that you will regret later.  Something does not seem right here.  If the guy you are living with is so great, you would not be thinking of another guy.
302144
Why would a man want a women that was in love with 2 men? It seems you have a need that is not met yet... Faithfullness and honesty.
76891
This is a hard one. If you love both the same, you cant really tell who is your true love. So what I would do in this situation is stay with the one you are with now. If the first one left you before.. he can definatly leave you again.. making the pain that much worse. Besides you are already with one you love. You wont be leaving anyone but continueing with what fate has brought you.
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First of all, you should ask yourself these questions:\n\n-Can you love someone you don't know or have never met?\n-Can you love 2 guys at once?\n-Can those guys be real?\n-Is it love or illusion?\n\nMy advice? If you can't find a way to find out the truth about those guys, find real ones.
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honey, its ok to love as many people as you want... but to love someone (as in a relationship) is to be true to only them. if you feel torn between the two, the truth is you probably dont LOVE either of them enough to be with one... does that make sence?\n If you truly love someone, inside and out, you'll only want to be with that one person... I hope this helps
1176603
you just need to follow your heart which guy do you have more feelings for and which one treats you the way you want to be treated? ? no one on here can make that choice for you. you just need to decide the one your happiest with and go with it
824700
You need to pick one. Its not fair for the guys. If you really love them you wouldnt want to hurt them like that.
477701
are you sure you're inlove? Maybe it's infatuation... but yes, a person can love 2 females at the same time...
388655
I don't think it is possible to love two people (romantically). If you lust someone else, you probably don't love your wife at all.
910511
sometimes it takes time for love to grow...  And maybe he is realizing now that you two are in this together.  But show him you love him two men sometimes need that reassurance.  Best of luck..