should i tell me man about my past?
79186
if u think there is even the slightest of possibility of ur husband coming to know about it from some other source .. just tell him urself!\nor else simply ignore it.. \n if he is not all that broadminded to accept it!!!
285005
y should i tell you!!!
601759
IF he knows You, he should know your not always right in the head..but if it would make you feel better...it's best to tell him...come to think of it, you should tell him..he has a right to know..if he doesn't already...
886464
excuse the answer above-&#92;\nyou are obviously a male that needs more info-\nwhat exactly would you like to know?
888385
I think everyone has untold secrets. I wouldn't tell him unless he specifically asked.  Then I would not lie to him.  I am sure he has secrets and they should be kept that way.  Your shrink is right in saying the past is the past and has nothing to do with him.
571749
Yes, I would. Its how the man treats and respects a woman. Not about his perfect or imperfect appearance. There isn't a single person on this planet that's perfect.\n\nMy suggestion is to get to know the woman, and then after a while tell her. Or, just don't make a big deal about it and she won't either. Let her find out on her own, in due time.
1016605
coming from a guy's point of view....I think you should tell him
313689
I think you should ask him about the scars and stuff, before you make up your mind.
918439
I think you should definitely tell him! But be sutler, pick the right moment to tell him. \nYou know that certain moment when know one is around but you and him.     Also try not to dramatize yourself just be simple and honest and get right to the point.  Remember too, to be yourself.\nGood luck!!!
79385
I dunno...Im afraid of answering this...since my past is pretty similiar...Oh wait..are you talking about me???
648521
wen u talk about ur past relationships.
333064
my BF is divorced too and like u i wanted to know every detail. when i asked he just got defensive, so i stopped asking. when i stopped asking, he started talking. i let him just say what he wanted when he wanted. i never asked any questions or went into too much detail. i know everything about it now.\n\nmy point is, dont ask him too much about it. he will open up when he is ready. anyways, what difference will it make to your relationship? if he tells you something u dont like will yopu break up with him? you have to accept his past is his past. accept him for who he is now and trust him. he is divorced because marriage didnt work out, thats all u need to know until he wants to tell u more.
556025
I would approach him privately, and in a matter of fact way, tell him the entire story.  Be calm and serious about it, do not stumble over your words or hold back.  It could change your entire life.
1131740
If you know his past then there should be no question, but since you asked.......... don't be available all the time, even if you want to hang out. It will put him to the test. Either he will stop calling, or he will call more which could mean that he is really interested. You say he has been a player ; start a game, but in order to win you have to have distance from him, and last but not least DON'T LOOSE YOURSELF!!!!!!!!! (really important) Know at all times who you are and what you want ; be a little selfish.
691606
hey relax and dont try do sucide, thats not the way to end ur problems. Where as your partner is concerned you can talk to him about not talking about your past. If he really loves and cares for you, he'll understand. And if even then he doesn't stop then yes leave him. And dont worry no one is alone in this world, Keep faith in God, he'll help you out. As the saying goes "for every door closed another door opens". There are whole lot of people in the world, and many would also be facing the problem which you are, but that doesn't mean they'll sucide. And friendship is something which u can build very easily. So go out in the free world make frnds, be happy, dont look at your past. and Enjoy.\nFor that matter lets be friends?? whts say??
160943
Your past will always be a part of who you are, and it has helped you to become the person you are today. Apparently a person that can now value and appriciate the stability, and love a healthy "normal" relationship has to offer. Your guy has to understand that we all have a past, and he has to accept you for who you are now and not hold your past against you. And, if he truely loves you, there won't be a problem with him being able to do this. Good Luck:)
481623
Yes, you should tell him because yall are friends so yall should be able to communicate about this type of issues, yea if I were u i would tell him the truth and maybe yall can take yall relatisonship to the next level...!!