I am in love with a marriage women. We have been seeing one another for about nine months.She want call me now
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Its time to respect her wishes,she might have decided to back out of the relationship and work on her marriage.Its best to walk away from the situation.Its never a good idea to get involved with a married person!for numerous reasons.
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It sounds like it could be love to me...\nIn my experience love is always enduring.  There's been girls I've felt incredible about and had a great time with, but it wears off anywhere between 6 weeks and 6 months.  Of course everyone is different, and I don't know how long you've been dating, but if you still feel this way after 10 or 12 months I'd say it's most likely love.  You'll be able to look past all of her weird little issues and accept them and love her anyway, and you won't be able to imagine life without her.\nIf you've been dating her less than 4-5 months, then it's still possible that this feeling could wear-off.  I know I wouldn't feel right planning on marriage before having known her at least 1 year.  A lot can develop/change in the first year, for better or for worse.  Good Luck!
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I met my fiance 3 months ago the nite before i moved out of my husbands house to another state.  I continued my moved.  He visited me the next week.  We talked on the phone.  He moved me back 1 month later.  We are so in love and are planning our wedding in Aruba.  All things are possible.
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Will you have a little talk with MY husband for me?\nLOL\n\nSounds like your wife is a very lucky woman, with a wonderful husband!
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You love her,and want to be with her. She was honest with you. It happened 3 yrs ago. She has since proven how strong her love is for you. She made a poor choice. She's not the only one who has ever done so. Stop thinking about it, concentrate on the rest of the months she's shown you the love she has for you. think about 35 mos vs 1 mo. Enjoy your love and lady!!!! God heals the heart, and the hurtful memories fade. Don't believe once a cheater always a cheater. It's easy for someone to say leave when they aren't the one who's going thru it. Listen to your heart and pray. Believe me,she's punishing herself enough for both of you and hurts just as much as you do.
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I told you she would find out about us sooner or later!  I am crushed, I told myself I would never do such a thing with a married man.  Then look at what I have gone and done??????  Oh my.  \n\nSeriously now,\nI say run with it, just don't over use it if you know what I mean.  Just watch out for WHEN you find her doing the same.  <wink>  :)
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AK,\n  This is ALOT like the situation I was in before, ONLY reversed------------------- I can't speak for "your girl", but from a gal's point of view, I'm seeing from all you described, SHE is confused and she got caught up in you, probably feels guilty, and is in a tough spot about what to do with her marriage..............................\n  She is going through alot emotionally and I'm sure she does love you.  It's a confusing time for her with alot of emotions going on.\n  Don't drop her, 'cause we all need someone in our lives who care and if you disappear, she would be lost, I can tell you that!\n  I'd say it would be good to get out there and date, but stay in touch with this girl too.\n\nWhat you "should do" is all up to you.  You said she is the girl of your dreams, THEN, stand by her--------------LOVE is PATIENT.\n  That;s it right there, how much she means to you!\n\nNext, I'm wondering maybe "your girl" doesn't exactly know where she stands with you.  Does she know you love her?  Have you offered her a future with you?  Maybe she needs some reassurance so that maybe she can have that strength to leave her husband, if she knows she "fits in" your life!\n\nDivorce isn't easy as you already know, and maybe for "your girl" she is having a hard time with the idea of fully "letting go" of her marriage for whatever reasons, SO I wouldn't take her hesitation personal cuz she is dealing and going through alot all at once!\n\nTalk to her, be there for her, just be her friend right now, and you might be ok with that if the both of you are secure in your love for each other, see?   Please don't turn your back on her.  That's all I wanted to say.\n\nGood luck to you both and with your support she will get through her problems, you will see!
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although you seem to be going through a lot of pain, and i do feel for you, the problem  is still the same...you want two wives! can't do that man, sorry. there is no way that you can fully love two people the same. you have to let one of them go. you might not think it's fair to you, but that's selfish. have you ever thought about what the women want? stop being selfish and let one of them move on and find someone who is willing to be with only them.
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Give it some time. Love at first sight is just that, sight. Find out everything you can about this person and let them do the same with you. Once you have done that if that feeling is still there then think about the big Married thing. Whats the rush? If you love them today and it's real you will love them tomorrow.
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IF SHE ISNT GOING TO ANSWER THE PHONE IN THREE MONTHS SHE MUST AIN'T GOING TO. THAT PRICK SHE IS MARRIED TO MUST TELL HER WHAT TO DO. IT IS HER FAULT THAT SHE LISTENS TO HIM.\nDON'T FEEL BAD YOU HAVE BEEN TRYING TO CALL AND TALK TO HER IF SHE IS TOO DAMN GOOD TO PICK UP A PHONE THEN I WOULD JUST FORGET ABOUT HER.\n\nHER LOSS. A MAN WILL COME AND GO BUT FAMILY IS ALWAYS THERE WHEN SHE NEEDS YOU DON'T HELP HER.\nBLOOD IS THICKER THAN WATER.\nSOUNDS LIKE TO ME IF HE CONTROLS HER MAYBE SHE WILL WISE UP AND LEAVE HIM BUT BY THEN IT WILL BE TOO LATE BETWEEN YOU AND HER.\nI WOULDNT CALL HER AGAIN. SHE KNOWS YOUR NUMBER AND WHERE YOU LIVE
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Ring his wife and ask her
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You can only ask and trust the response.  If you want to marry the woman, hopefully you feel you can trust her to be honest.
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I think you are more infatuated with her than you love her. You got separated and she went to another man, why wouldn't she do it again if she has a problem with you again? Wake up man, this is simple commonsense. She just wants you, she does not need you, and you don't want to be in a relationship where you are just wanted and not needed. Thats not love. You will be used.\n\nWhat you need is a woman of your own and not one you share with another man. She is that other guy's wife and your seeing her is tantamount to adultery and that is treading on dangerous ground.\n\nDivorce? Well, she can get that to be with youbut are you going to marry her and take in that guy's children as your own? And do you see any reason why she won't divorce you as well when she has a problem with you? Don't be naive, you are believing that she loves you because thats what you want to believe. Sorry old boy but you will be a fool if you lick back what you spat out.
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Keep in touch with e-mail and  post letters. Try to send her new photos when you go to somewhere to share your happiness and experiences with her and to make her feel nearby you. Try to be honest and care to her even though with internet connection.\n\nSometimes phone call is expensive and not effective. But you can call her rarely, to save your money for your marriage. I think you'll marry her, won't you?\n\ni think  that's all from me. keep try and good luck.
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Sounds like trouble. Find away to fall in love again with the one you are married to.Its worth the effort, isn't it?
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Express to her how much you love her and that you love her more than ever.  If communication is a problem.. suggest marriage counseling.  Explain to her that making your marriage work is more important to you than anything.  Just tell her how you feel!
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Just tell her. If you're married she'll understand and listen to what you have to say.