Whay does a guy look for in a girl?
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honesty,emotional stability,good cooking and cleaning skills, a woman with a career,and she has to know how to\nuse her time wisely,healthy, and finally attractive.
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I will look 3 factors \n\n1. Personality - She will be ideal for me if she is neither too outgoing nor too shy . \n\n2. Character - She must have kindness toward others .\n\n3. Physical - I don't like fat girls , Height must be slightly less than me. Other organs must be medium in size .
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I would say we always look for a girl that looks good in our eyes and is approved by our influencing friends and family..........also she has to be cool, in her own world....like, have people that look up to her, dress nice, and then ....most importantly ( a girl that the guy can trust in, a girl that he can say to himself....she wont mess around on me...)  Also very important is good for the girl to like the guy alot and show it, but dont go' crazy over us........unless U feel safe that we feel the same way.....
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Honestly. A pretty girl. Most guys won't admit it, they'll say oh i love a great personality but guys really lke if you put effort into what you look like. Even if you're not beautiful all they want to see is that you care about what you look like. Also they like a girl they can relate to, show them you care about some of the things they do, it's hard to start or keep a relationship going if you guys have nothing to talk about.
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Openess and honesty.  Same thing women want, at least in my opinion.  Guys, just like girls, get tired of all the games.  Eventually, after all the bouncing from one girl to another and all the sexual exploration, most guys are going to come to that point where they want to find somebody that is more than a sex toy, but also a companion and friend.  \n\nBasically, just be yourself, be willing to take an occassional risk(putting yourself out there, saying that deeply personal thing that you might be holding back), and time and nature will do the rest.  Guys may be pigs, but deep down, guys want to find a girl they can respect.  They want to find someone that will take the time to understand and get to know them.  THAT is the girl that a guy will decide to committ to, not the girl he got drunk and took home after knowing her for a day.  So, be yourself, take some emotional chances, and let him know how you feel!
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if you take away the physical appearance of the female, which is obviously very important to men, then there are three things to look for in a girl. The first thing is flexibility. there's an incredible attractiveness to a girl that can be flexible on a date and not a miss priss that has to have everything go perfect. The second is integrity. Being straight up and honest with a guy is pricleless. A woman with integrity is a woman that can be trusted when all the evidence points elsewhere. And trust is the most important thing in a relationship. The third thing for a woman to have is that she has to be giving. A woman who is all about herself is very annoying, and needs to be pushed to the curb. As far as what you should do to show guys you like us, that's easy.  Men and women are different is so many ways.  Unlike women we don't give a damn about all the mental mind game crap.  if you like a guy tell him you're interested.  If a guy doesn't like you then he won't ask you out.  if a guy does like you he'll be relieved that you came forward and initiated something.
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I need a girl that laughs at my jokes. I need a girl that I can be proud of. She needs to respect me, but have a life of her own. More important than looks, she needs to be intelligent. Her body is fairly important to me. Most off all, I need to feel comfortable around her.
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I look for how a guy acts. His personality. I mean looks are a definite plus, but thats not what matters all the time... good luck...
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what i look for in a guy is basically someone i can have a good time with.  I go for personality first and he has to be able to make me laugh and smile. no one likes a serious stiff guy. but u have to be careful also that the guy isnt took much of a clown. Looks always come second to me because sure u can have a good time showing off your boyfriend if he's cute but u cant always have a good time with him.
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Well he need to be cute but cute cannot just do, he also need to have a killer personality.. Knows when to be serious from when to be kidding around.. Generally sweet, actually likes to do things wit me, no matter how girly it is.. They are interesting in knowing about us and they cant be cocky and totally self-absorbed. Generous, smart, funny, creative to the point where there arent any awkward silences.. knows what to say and when to say it. MUST HAVE goals in life, and optimistic...\nThats pretty much all i can think of...
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Hmmm...wot do guys like in a gal? It's a li'l tricky question, I must say. Yet, I'll try to answer the best I can manage.\n\nI think, whenever a guy looks at a gal, the first thing he's gonna notice are her body, her clothes and probably the way she carries herself. And then again, if those 1st impressions pique the guy's interests, he might go up and talk. In that case, what matters, what  personally feel, is the substance in her words, the way she talks, her choice of words, how intellectual she is...and yeah, definitely how funny she is.\n\nNow, what a guy might like in a gal are obviously dependent on himself and that the criteria are definitely subjective. I think u shall just need to look out for the right signs and decipher them to realize what your guy likes about you and improvise on them!!
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Hi AJ,\n\nThe most important things in any long term relationship are honesty, kindness, a good sense of humor and a willingness to be there during the good times as well as the bad.  That said, the first thing that attracts me to a guy is his smile and the way he carries himself, with confidence but not too cocky or over the top.  A guy who is clean, dressed appropriately and who has a pleasant demeanor and makes the first move conversationally will get my attention and that of most ladies out there.\n\nBTW: Any woman who would value a man for his wallet alone is in the same league as a man who values a woman solely for her looks, both types are players and ultimately bad news.\n\nGood luck and best wishes from bookyone :)
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Lol, yeah anyways...\n\nPretty much the same thing chicks want in a guy.\n\nA fun and funny chick who knows how to be sexy and turn a guy on.  A girl who isn't needy or emotional, who has confidence and thinks highly of herself.  Who isn't clingy and gives you your space.  A girl who he can feel comfortable being himself around.  A girl who has a life, and has her shit together, and who doesn't take things so seriously that you can't live it up with each other one adventure after another...\n\nThe real trick is finding a guy who has HIS shit together.\n\n...Oh and, stop looking at me like that.  I'm taken.. ;)
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Signals:\ntouches you while you are talking\nlooks straight into your eyes\nshows interest in things that you like (music, books, movies, etc.)\nhangs out with you even when she doesnt have to\n\nGirls really look for a guy who is caring and funny... she wants a guy who she will always have fun with but he still respects her.
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What kind of girl are you looking for?
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A girl looks for a guy who is confident, fun, and NOT BORING. A guy who somewhat adventurous but also smart...I'm not talking about bookish smart. Just savvy. If anything humor is a BIG issue. The best way to get to know girls is to try to talk to them, learn what interest them. This doesn't mean assimilate their interests. Just be able to talk about them, so that you have something to talk about. Get to the point where you can walk up to them and speak to them like they are one of your friends.  \n\n Learn to flirt. Take chances, be outrageous. But, not goofy or stupid acting. Above all pay attention to their responses but don't let their responses get to you. If they act offended too bad, if they look down their nose at you,or walk away don't care...be indifferent. There are 3 billion females on this planet. There will be a prettier smarter more interesting one around the corner or even right next to her.\n With practice, you will know what to look for when you meet different women. Be friendly, Not like a friend. Kiss of death. Confidence, humor and being fun is the KEY.
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First of all, looks are the second thing a person should look for.  Personality is number one.  I find it makes a person more beautiful.  You may be looking at a "Trophy Girl" now, but down the road you may find she is ugly.\nOn the other hand, if you really like her...ask her out to lunch, dinner, or do something you both have in common.  Show her your true stars.\nYou cannot MAKE a person like you.  If you are worried about just her beauty, you will never get anywhere.  Be yourself.  Be interested in her likes and dislikes.  Start out very slow and it may end up the way you both would like.  It takes two!  Good Luck!