How can you become more appealing to a group of young men?
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PAY ATTENTION EQUALY TO ALL OF THEM AND LEARN THE SPORTS THEY LIKE THE MOST. AND  JUST BE CUTE.
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U cn make a guy notice you by ur personality.\nFirst of all. make sure u always have a good appearance(dressing mode) when around him.\nTry to grt him to be friends with u ..by asking a question or something.\nHave a good sense of humor  and listen attentively wheen he talks.\nThose should be easy 4 anyone to do..
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Find 3 or more (up to five) qualities that other\npeople don't have. Add them up and realize that you were put on this earth for a Damn REASON, that you are as good or even better than other dudes and don't slump your shoulders. I hated myself for so long until I was about 23, when other people had to tell me that I was good and a good friend to have around, that a lot of people found me attractive. Email me your circumstances.muirmatt@yahoo.com
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Stop looking. The man you want will show interest in you first.
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Get to know people in all social groups, especially those who are younger than you.  Take a genuine interest in people, and ask them what you can do for them.
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Participate in activities and organizations of interest to you.  The guys you'll meet there will have similar interests, they will be outgoing, and you both won't feel like you're in a situation like the bar scene and other miserable ways of meeting singles.\n\nFor instance... like skiing? join a ski club. Like to bike, skate, walk, read books, study tarot card reading, whatever?  Seek out groups based on the same interests.  No group?  Start one.  You'll be busy (no waiting by the phone or staring at the TV) and you'll be meeting a higher quality group of singles!\n\nGo get'em!
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Just BE YOURSELF, and don't do anything that you feel uncomfortable with. Act naturally and they will come to you. We like men who are confident in what they do. So be confident. You are probably very attractive to some women, you just don't know it yet. Come out of your shell and show them who you are!
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just be yourself and be a gentlemen
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Meet friends and other guys.  Take on a hobby.
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talk to people you know, maybe they will be interested.
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try joining sumthing new such as volunteer work or something else your interesterd in that way u can meet guys who u have sumthing in common w/
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Getting a guy to notice or like you involves the use of basic social skills. You should be honest, direct, pleasant, and reasonable. If you really like a guy, but you haven't really talked to him - you're dying to, but you're too scared - here are some tips to help you say hello. \n \nGet a new look. Don't change who you are, just try something different. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. \nBe yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it's true! No guy wants a girl to pretend she is something she's not. \n\nDon't cuss. It turns guys off most of the time. \n\nSmile. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. It'll say to everyone, "Wow, she's a nice person!" \n\nFlirt a little - not like crazy, but a little bit here and there. \n\nTry to be around him often, such as sitting near him. \n\nShow off a little when you're around your friends, but not a lot because then he might think you're just silly. \n\nTry to make lots of eye contact - and when you do, smile! (Guys often don't look at girls in the eyes, so looking into theirs when they're talking shows them that you are interested in them). \n\nGo up to him and talk to him. Try to get to know him a little by discussing things you have in common. You could even compliment him. Even if you just say he has a nice shirt or a cool watch; it shows him that you're into him. \n\nTell him how you really feel about him once you get comfortable talking together. \n\nBe a brave person and stand up for who you are, and what you believe in. This will catch his attention, and his respect. \n\nDon't change yourself too much. \n\nA good way to start a conversation is to ask him a question - something about an interest you might have in common, or even what the time is. Make sure you hide your watch! \n\nSit close to him an touch him on his arm to show him you're interested. \n\nListen to him and don't interrupt him when he is talking. That makes them really annoyed and it's rude! \n\nAct confident but try not to seem stuck up. \n'Bad clothes' are those old pants you used for painting the fence and the sweatshirt with the pony on it. \n\nAsk him out if you're sure he's interested. Most boys love it when girls ask them out. \n\nConsider helping him out with other things like homework and social problems. \n \nNo guy likes a person who is snobby. \nIf he tries to do anything you're not comfortable with, tell him that you are not ready for that stuff yet. If he's cool with that, great. If not, then he's not really the nice guy you thought he was. \n\nDon't wear bad clothes when you decide to be brave and walk up to your man. \n\nMake sure to brush your teeth! \n\nBe sure to have gum, breath mints, listerine strips, etc. around in case you need to freshen up quickly. \n\nDon't tell him lies. \nIf the guy is a jerk, but you find him attractive, don't let him take advantage of you. Find out more about him before you let things get too serious. \n\nYou can't get everyone to notice you. You cannot get everyone to like you all the time!
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This is a tough one, but the best thing you can do is to try not to worry about it.  THAT'S really what guys like.  I know, I know, that seems impossible.  But if you put your focus on other interests, like joining the yearbook staff, or whatever, you'll get to know guys in a setting where you have a common interest.  If they sense you're trying to get them to like you, they automatically don't.  It's one of life's big bummers.  :(  You have to become the amazing woman you can be, focusing on yourself, not on them, and then they flock to you.
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Every guy wants to be cool, yet not every guy is cool. But the truth is that there are no secrets to being cool; it's about who you are and how you behave. But there are things that you can do to bring out the cool in you.\nHere are some tips that'll show you how to look and sound cool with your friends. Use them if you need them, and you'll transform yourself into one of the socially adept -- and your friends will look forward to hanging out with you.\n\nHave a nice girlfriend (preferably good looking)\nA nice girlfriend will always make you a valued guy to be around. Why? Well, a nice girlfriend will probably have nice female friends. You don't have to be a rocket scientist to figure out why your friends might like to hang around a guy who knows lots of women.\n\nDon't overcall\nIf you're always calling your friends, you're calling too much. There's no perfect ratio, but you should probably call your friends less often than they call you. That way, you'll be in high demand.\n\nHave a purpose when you call\nDon't call just to chat. Keep phone calls brief. Call once. Leave a message, but only if you need to. If they don't return the call, don't call them back unless it's an emergency. For example, if you're making plans for dinner and want to include them, but they don't call you back, it's their loss. You shouldn't have to run after them. \n\nDress well\nPeople don't like hanging out with slobs. No, you don't have to wear a suit to hang out with the guys, but always look presentable and sharp. Remember: We're initially judged on appearances, so always try to look your best.\n\nBe knowledgeable\nIgnorance is never bliss. Guys like to have a buddy who knows a thing or two, especially about a range of subjects, from picking up women to current events to wines. But don't overdo it. Drop your knowledge when asked, otherwise you'll look like a showoff, and that is not cool.\n\nBe funny\nI'm not talking about telling knock-knock jokes or being a clown. But if you've got a sense of humor, let it rip (a little). You want to be funny, but you don't need to be the sole source of amusement. There's a balance. And please, when you tell a good joke, just bask in that accomplishment. Don't muddy the waters by going on and on -- you'll just kill it.\n\nDon't be a downer\nIf you're in a bad mood, consider staying home. Guys want to have fun when they're with their friends; nobody wants to be your counselor. Yes, you can tell a close friend about a serious problem (your girlfriend dumped you), but save those talks for serious occasions, not a night out.\n\nDon't be readily available, keep your word and pick up the first round\nBe scarce\nGuys who are always around come off as needy, like lap dogs. It's sad to say, but your friends just won't respect you if you don't have a private life. Try having circles of friends that don't meet, and from time to time make sure that you're with the other group.\n\nBe mysterious\nNobody wants to read an open book, so if you tell all, the guys probably won't be that interested in you. Hold something back, and you'll leave everyone wanting more.\n\nDon't broadcast your weaknesses\nEvery guy has a weakness, but you don't need to broadcast it. If you do, you'll likely make yourself and your weakness the target of group jokes. If you're sensitive about something, keep it to yourself.\n\nAssociate with cool people\nThis one's a no-brainer. If you're always bringing losers to the group, you'll soon be labeled a loser as well. On the other hand, if you're known for bringing cool people around, your coolness factor will skyrocket.\n\nIntroduce people\nBe the person that brings groups together (not necessarily your separate groups). If you have two sets of friends, introduce them (if you think they'll be compatible, of course). A
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Nice guys tend to be in nice places. You won't catch a brook trout in a storm sewer. Join a church or the Young Democrats or the Young Republicans or the Sierra Club. Volunteer for a work day at Friends of the River. Join a gym. Look for single dads at your kids' activities. Stay clear of bars.\n\nTake it very, very slow. Assuming you are past 35, from the list of problems, you will probably have to settle for someone 10 - 15 years older than you. It is an ugly fact of life that there are about 2 nice women for every nice guy out there, so the guys can pick and choose.\n\nMy wife works in a large medical building with a lot of nurses. We belong to a large church, and I work for a meduim sized-corporation. The lack of reasonable men is astounding. I know just 2 single men I would not hesitate to introduce to anyone. I know a dozen women I wish I could pair up with nice guys.
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tell them that you know men think with there 2ND head how ever you would be most grateful if they would stare you in  your eyes and not your boobs,easy as that and don't act like a twit
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TALK TO SMART GUYS.... this way both benefits from each other, you learn and they get to be seen with you [assuming you are good looking and that is the reason guys are nice to you]\n\nnote: this only works if you are smart.