why girls goes to their fater  in-laws house ?
90764
it depends on many reasons.u need to ask it more clearly.
592721
Because they know that you are not their parents and you can't really discipline them; spankings, etc. All you can do is send them to their room. Just wait until your daughter grows up.
169711
You live in your home, but go to someone's house.  The difference is in your degree of intimacy with the place.
641139
It's your mother. Screw other people and what they think.  Move her into your house and let the brother in law and husband fight it out with each other. You and your mom can watch from the sidelines.
592062
Your just a greedy bastard i'm surprised her family allowed you to marry her poor girl,best thing you can do is let her go home to her parents,how old is she anyway? Get a life and give this girl back hers
67703
Because they enjoy being seduced. I think girls also play the same game.
724300
Sleep-over....hehehehe. A place to crash, to party, to have lot of fun. That girl must be really sexy, hot, nice and manipulative enough to trick her parent into giving her their house. Good job can you teach me so i can do the same with my parent before i get kick out?
71940
OH YES. When I was dating my wife, she was living with her parents. I was there one night and her parents were in bed. We started in on the couch, and her mom walks in!
207474
He is just jealous and as a father he has the right to make sure his daughter is in a safe place. As long as you aren't being harrased or thrown in jail,just keep letting them see how great the home is that you are providing for the child.Eventually they will stop because they will see their is no risk there.
505814
Because they are way too nosy (the inlaws and insecure) this seems like you are hurt by this sit down and talk to her about it so it doesn't cause any gaps in your relationship good luck
956781
Well the sweet thing would be to take the wife out, BUT she made a deal, and lost.\nDo you think if she won she would go out with the ladies or take you? If you say she would go out with the girls, then by all means, enjoy your night out. Especially if you dont go out with the guys very often. You are married  but that doesnt mean you have to be joined at the hip. \nBut I bet you would get bonus brownie points if you took her instead
406094
that's natural. girls used to need a rich family to raise the next generation.
72237
Princes tend to make poor decisions when it comes to choosing women. They invariably want the girls that are cursed, under an evil spell, guarded by a monstrous dragon or locked up in a tower. \nYou're better off looking for a peasant or a goat herder as they tend to be loving and responsible fathers who raise beautiful daughters.
569664
Well I'm getting married and I wont be stopping my fiance from having anything to do with his mum or sister.\n\nI dont understand why women would do this.\n\nThere, of course, some men who let their mum's control their life, so i guess if their wife is a controlling person also, they dont want the competition.
879424
I hate my in-laws. They are always in my marriage. They expect my husband to cater to their needs and forget that he has a family on his own to take care of. I undrestand that he is suppose to help them but they call him for any and everything like when they went out of town they wanted him to stay in their house for two weeks without his family.
952571
The two questions center around the same line of reasoning. It doesn't affect just guys. Everyone in a relationship is always wary of their partner's family. The In-Laws (actual or "would-be") are always judgemental of the partner.\n\nIt draws on the old primal instinct to protect your own kind. All this originates at the genetic level, but I'd bore you with the details trying to start there and work up, so I'm just gonna jump to near the end and how it manifest on the family level... basically this primal instinct causes family members to attack the partner and force them to prove that they are the best person suited to be with the key family member they are in the relationship with. It may be very subtle (an off-hand comment every now and then) or it may be obvious ("How are going to take care of my daugher with that kind of paycheck?") and either way the effect is the same. Everyone is wary of the In-Laws (or potential In-Laws) because of their ability to destroy the relationship.\n\nIf your parents don't like him then they will try to get you to dump him in the hopes that "you can do better" and they will do this by continuously pointing out his flaws, plant doubt of his commitment by saying they saw him talking to "some girl", and bring up the names of other guys they "just happened to meet" in the hopes you get interested in moving on. Guys are more worried about meeting the girls parents because overall girls will give in to family pressure more than guys.\n\nYou may be just as worried about meeting his family because they have the same ability to influence him and destroy the relationship. If they don't approve of you the will employ the same tactics your family would use. They will point out flaws, plant suspicion about your loyalty, and mention other girls to him in order to get him to dump you and move on. Technically girls have less to fear when it comes to meeting the guy's family. Fact of the matter is if the girl is decent looking, loyal and true, cool to hang out with, doesn't nag him or make him feel like crap, and gives him all the sex he needs whenever he needs it... there is NO WAY he's dumping her and it doesn't matter what his family thinks or says.\n\nOn a similar note this is also why meeting friends are not particularly comfortable situations. Friends have the same ability to destroy the relationship, just as actual family can.
449920
Indian hubbys are real chicken...Give him some hard time...he will back on the negotiation table. But the parents...they are real hardcore...depending on the level of education ....Once in a while put the parents on the spotlight....then try to get 'em hooked up to some guilt trip for any good reason. Share this little secrets with your daughters so that they think it's a game and they don't get affected by this crap. At the same time....on of these days they have to deal with their husbands too!