my boyfriend wants to do more than kiss what should i do?
88805
Unless you're just dying to be OSTRACIZED, BAREFOOT and PREGNANT, tell him to DO IT WITH SOMEONE ELSE! And don't buy into this "COMFORTABLE" crap. \n\nOral sex and "hand" work may not get you pregnant - but chances are excellent that they WILL get you a QUICK REPUTATION as a SL*T... Boys and girls have one thing in common: They LOVE to TALK/BRAG to their friends - and their friends just LOVE to TALK, PERIOD.
640366
Ask him what he likes, if it's not something that you just won't do, try it.  Then he should be doing the same for you.  Experimentation is the greatest thing in the world.\n\nRemember, it's just called a blo# job, you don't really blow.
175115
Tell him he needs to spend more time with you. That hanging out with friends is cool but you are his girlfriend and he needs to spend quality time with you too. If he won't agree to do this then you need to just get rid of him and find someone that will. If he does decide to do it then you guys can come up with days for quality time, days for friends, and days for yourself. Then if something else is happening you guys need to give each other advance notice of it. I hipe this helps you. Good luck.
94761
Show a bit of interest, but don't over-do it. Men want what they can't have. Let him chase you a little. He'll like it. Plus he'll appreciate your affection more if it doesn't come easy.
787762
Take things slow. Don't be worried so much about doing something wrong, or if it's the right time. If you feel like you want to kiss him, kiss him.
247697
Don't rush into anything. If he wants more, that's up to you. If you're not ready, then he should respect that. You should keep track of your goals and not get distracted. But you could also have your guy. You could make a packed to be together and not see other people, but let him know that you have goals you need to get through them. So there may be times you can't focus on him, but you won't be seeing anyone else. He should understand :) Good luck
818869
Let him just kiss you on the cheek and do not rush him\n\nIt is nice to take things slow and you are both very young.  Get to know each other well before kissing on the lips.
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If you need more than he can offer, you should sit down and talk it over with him.  If you cannot come to a compromise and he cannot at least answer you once in a while.  Tell him your expectations of a relationship.  If your expectations are not being met and he isn't trying to a point, then you can tell him in person that you need more.  Nothing wrong with what you need.  If you don't constantly call or IM him, I do not see why he can't take a few seconds to IM you or call you.  If I had a boyfriend, I would make time, and call him.  After all, if he is busy, it can be just a 30 second call saying.... I am busy, just wanted to say hi and to have a good evening.  It sounds like he really isn't interested if he isn't even talking to you at school.  I think it is better to talk about it in person versus over the phone.
384169
start showing an interest in the things he loves the most. if he loves you the way you love him there's nothing he'll enjoy more than trying to teach his girl how to play baskeball or how to fix a car.
432826
Do more activities together so you can bond more and don't boss him around so much :P
918759
Hey if you can find a social scene, like a party or something where you can just walk up and kiss him and not have it happen in front of 100 people, go for it. It's flattering. Otherwise, try and talk to him more often and build up a relationship that way!
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then dont kiss him. its a woman's perogagtive you know... but your're with him and u dont want to kiss him. its kinda wierd because in a relationship kissing is involved. well you can tell him that your're not ready yet to get that intimate and you hope he understands and maybe he could try hugging you and kissing your neck or something that doesnt involve kissing directly.
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It all depends on how he is spending his time with you.  If you think he thinks all you want to do is have some "fun" maybe he is just trying to please you.  On the other hand if you tell him that you want to go out to the park and just go for a walk and he says he just wants to stay inside and kiss you all day then maybe he is just hoping to get somewhere with you.  Really if he wants to really please you he will be responding to how you react to every one of his moves, whether it be kissing you, just holding you, or spending time with you and your friends.  \nLet him know that you want to do other things than just kiss and see how he reacts.  If he resists then you might as well get rid of him.\nI don't know the situation of your relationship, but if he comes to see you every morning just to see you then it sounds like he really appreciates your company.
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I would recommend oral sex.  Have him do you, then you do him.  If this is not appropriate for you or going over board, then maybe you should not be kissing him.  But go one way or the other. Do or don't do.  STOP TEASING HIM!
164306
sit down with him and see if that is what he really wants with you. yall really need to talk and get alone for some personal time like going out to a dinner and a movie. just a nice romantic evening
891952
Just because he's more experienced, doesn't mean that he's had GOOD experience.  You may want to try coaching him verbally.  Or it might be a good idea to demonstrate how you'd LIKE to be kissed.  You can do this in a sneaky way, too.  Just tell him to relax, sit back, and let you kiss him without him kissing back (works best if you're sitting together rather than standing).  This can also be a BIG turn-on, though, so be prepared...  If he likes it, he'll probably pick up the technique.
395672
ya i was, i wouldn't let him until i was ready, you have to be comfortable and trust him before anything happens, and make sure he understands that kissing is the extent of what you want to do.