i m ditched by my bf whom i love lot and he loves me too coz i m not beautiful?
84207
you sound as dum as ugly
89198
Depends on how you broke up...\nif he ditched you then theres nothing you can do\n\nand if you ditched him you should be "nice" and let him be happy with someone else.
355935
I know what you mean. \n\nMaybe you're just spending too much time with him and you need more time alone or with friends.\n\nI'm not saying ditch the poor guy, just take some days for yourself.
63574
Love - Hate is part and parcel of the game. U will have ur ups and downs in a relationship. In the end what matters is how the two of u let some silly misunderstanding come in between.\nU said u broke up with ur bf yesterday. Leme tell u that along with urself, he is equally responsible for this. He probably did something that got u mad and u wanted to hurt him so u broke off in the heat of the moment. But now that u'v cooled off, think over it again and  ask urself if it was really worth it.\nI mean there is something that u should know - No one is perfect....\nU have got to understand that things will not always be sugary between u and any other guy for that matter. What will count in the end is how the two of u let things unfurl. \nDont let anything screw ur relationship if u really love ur partner. \n\nCommunication is the key word here.\nSo quit waiting for any more answers here, gather urself and go talk to him. If he really loves u too, Im sure he'll be  equally devastated rite now and will welcome u back.\n\nBest of luck.
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dont love yourself. insecure, low self esteem, a guy loving you fills that emptyness, helps you feel more secure.
878367
Of course he loves you. If you want things to work out, then leave him alone. He's asking you to so respect that. As much as you want to be with him, if you don't leave him alone now, he will think your annoying and not want to get back with you. I know that it hurts, but really if you give him space and time to think and gather himself, he will come back.\n\nFirst thing you have to do, is stop calling him. I know its tough, but trust me. Stop calling him. He's going to wonder why you haven't and start calling you to hang out with you and find out why you've been so busy. Second thing, STOP CRYING. You want a man to be with you b/c he loves you not because he pitys you. Don't you want a man who wants to be with you for you and not because he feels bad for you? Of course. Third thing, get busy. You have to make sure your are constantly busy. Hang out with the girls. Go live your life for a little bit.\n\nIf you have him wondering about you, he'll realize that he made a mistake. You can't go trying to beg him to take you back, when you really didn't do anything. You have to let him see that. He broke up with you, let him be the one that comes chasing you back. Make sure you look extra cute when he comes around or you know you are going to see him, even if you are going to sleep, LOOK YOUR BEST. Last but not least, KINDNESS KILLS. Always look happy and be extra kind. \n\nYou will get him back.
434128
Dump him the jerk!  Why wasting your beauty on some jerk who doesn't appreciate you?  My advice: you should love yourself more and go out with someone who treats you right.
178009
That's not love that is his control over you, don't lose yourself to him, that makes you weak. It takes along time to find yourself once he's dumped you!
1159993
maybe your boyfriend wasn't nice.\nlet's hope he is more considerate when he leaves you.
299468
If I was in your position I wouldn't let things get to me.  You need to realize that if someone truly loves you and cares about you they will not treat you like that.  There are plenty of guys out there that would treat you much much better than that.  If you love him and want to be with him just give him his space and maybe eventually he will pull his head out of his a$$.  Don't feel bad and don't cry because I'm sure he doesn't care that you are crying and feel horrible.  Take it easy...the right guy is out there somewhere.
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The best thing you could do is leave him so he can find someone less shallow.  It sounds like you really don't care about this guy at all, or you would accept him for who he is.  Why did you get with him if you're embarrassed that he eats a lot, anyway?  You admit he's "really fat".  This is what really fat people do.  But even if he is really fat, he still deserves better than someone who is ashamed of him.
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The problem probably is that your not being direct enough.  You say your doing everything but you haven't done what needs to be done if you want to be with him.  You need to actually talk to him and tell him that it is him you miss and that you want to be a part of his life.  Right now he probably feels like you ended things and that he isn't willing to risk getting dumped again without being sure that this is what you want and that your willing to actually be with him through the bad times and not end things so easily.
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you should congratulate yourself on your decision, and realize that it was the RIGHT one.  If he is so immature as to treat you poorly just because you didn't go out with him, then it's obvious that he would have been a bad choice for you.  He needs to grow up.
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While you have a lot on your shoulders too much can only be defined by you.  Prioritize what is most important to you and make that happen not matter what.  \nYou seem to be tough enough to handle life without the extra baggage of a needy boyfriend, I would also say it is time to figure out if you think he may be the person you spend the rest of your life with and if he is, he needs to be able to understand you which may mean not as much affection as he may desire.
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Sweetie the Lord loves you. You are always loved, never think you are not.  Having a bf does not equate to LOVE.  Instead of focusing on a bf focus on yoru education, bettering yoruself, workign on those things that know you need to change, etc.  When you stop looking and focusing on it he will come.  May I add when a young man presents himself, pls. do not jump on the first one that comes. make sure his character is correct, his morals are intact and that he will treat you asyou desire. Do not compromise who u are or what God has placed on the insude of you just to be able to say "u have a bf".
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You appear to have very low self esteem of yourself. Being in that negative envionment will continue dragging you down. I am sure you are a very good and loving person and deserve someone who loves and gives back as you do. Being alone and providing for yourself is better than being in a bad relationship. So, start spending time apart from this clown. Go back to school. Get yourself a carreer. Envolve yourself with only positive minded people. Remember, today is the first day of the rest of your life. If you decide to keep things as they were yesterday, then tomorrow will be the same as today. If you just have gotten fed up with your life as it now is then just change your mind. You can do it girl. Go for it.
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That is so awesome!! I know EXACTLY how u feel when somone u thought was not in your league chooses u...\nFirst ENJOY & rmbr u r worthy of all of your gifts/blessings!! \nIsn't God wonderful?\nJust treat this relationship w/ love & u will do just fine.\nMy man is incredibly handsome, generous, & loves to take me out everywhere! Every day I can't b-leeve he is w/me!! Truly, I am starting to hold my head up more, being proud of who I am..there must b something about me thats awesome too! \nSo I m sure u r awesome..don't worry about the Y's & c him again really soon! And if things don't work out..imagine u had him for a little while!Dreams really do come tru.