how do u get your boyfriend to take you out when u want to be taken out?
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Well first offif he dont take ya to a nice place every once in a while Shame on him. But if its maybe say inbetween the days you usually go, just ask him :)
465864
If you aren't ready, DON'T DO IT!  You'll regret it, trust me.  And honestly, sex doesn't make a relationship, so if you're boyfriend is begging you, he only wants you for sex, not the relationship.  A real man (one you deserve) will wait forever if he has to.  Tell your man to shape up or ship out!  Don't give in just because your guy has no self-control.  That's his problem, not yours.
303150
How about going out with him alone and not putting out?\nYou DO have a choice in the matter you know.
959544
treat him to a good night out dress sexily tease him with what u want to do with him when u get home and when u get him home be the dominant one and give him loads of lovin, tease him with your kisses and give him a slow (not being rude) long b job letting him go all the way if u know what i mean he has to be in love with u any way but this will make him realise just how much  he does love you.
437152
Yes, it's probably true.  Stop making him feel like crap by asking him to take you out.  Find things you can enjoy that don't cost a lot or crack open your own wallet to pay for the 2 of you.  Men arent' just meal tickets.
1184827
Don't be so obssessive. Spend time with your friends when he is with his friends. If you are too clingy he won't want to be with you. Don't let him know you are always available. If you make plans with your friends and he asks you out tell him no! Keep him thinking you are an important person because u are!!!
724302
FIRST !  -Talk to hubby-if you value that relationship \nSecondly -  make arrangments for hubby to bowout during the course of the evening and check into a hotel. Don't make reservations , be spontaneous
603095
pull him aside and ask him if he'd like to get together sometime and have dinner or see a movie, or go to some social function...whatever, just all im saying is if you cant catch him alone... pull him aside..
868438
Tell the person that asked you out that you are taken!
835778
have you asked him what he wants ????? if he's not helping you in that area then just take him out ot dinner or something. who doesn't like good food ?
582963
yes...how can you claim to be going out if you don't go out? unless it is a long distance relationship, there's something really wrong. Maybe you should try to ask him out on a date or ask him if he sees it going anywhere...literally.
226897
Ask him if he wants to go some place with you like the coffee shop or some place where the both of you will feel comfortable. Don't go parking nor to a bar, nor a resturant filled with people. Just be yourself and let things happen. The more nerved up you get, the harder it will be to make things happen.
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Just make sure that no matter what the circumstance, and no matter how many other guys might be after you, that he is the only one for you. An example; tell him you want to go out to place you like, somewhere there will be plenty of other guys. Make sure that you are looking your best when you go out so all the other guys will notice, your boyfriend will to, kind of making him a lil' jealous if it works right.  But make sure that all the other guys know that your boyfriend will be the one taking you home at the end of the night. You'll make him feel like the man and even more confident than he ever has.  And odds are he'll find a way to return the favor.
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Tell him he needs to spend more time with you. That hanging out with friends is cool but you are his girlfriend and he needs to spend quality time with you too. If he won't agree to do this then you need to just get rid of him and find someone that will. If he does decide to do it then you guys can come up with days for quality time, days for friends, and days for yourself. Then if something else is happening you guys need to give each other advance notice of it. I hipe this helps you. Good luck.
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Tell him that You "just want to hang out with him and snuggle and enjoy Christmas with him and exchange gifts in private" but it is up to him.  You can't force a boyfriend to do something.  you want him to DECIDE for himself that he wants to be with you all day.  Isn't it nicer when the guys WANT to be there ro be with you instead of knowing that really his mind is somewhere else.  Don't hold him back and give the him any ammo that he can throw in your face later.
615977
Find out something he likes to do, if he says no ask him why he won't go out with you.
751497
instead of taking him out i would treat him to a romantic dinner at home.  Prepare his favorite appetizer, main course and you could be his dessert.\n\nduring dinner have romantic music playing in the background.   You should have one on one time  before he moves, rather be out in public.