Why when a women asks about a man who cheats with another man that some guys asume its her fault?
80753
It's not the woman's fault, the man was always gay and knew it, he just wasn't ready to come out the closet or ready to admit to everyone that he was into men. Nothing wrong with realizing who your are, but in these type of situations someone always gets hurt.
344707
For the same reason that men like you wind up with those kind of women. It's your fault that you wound up with someone like that not every other womans fault.
791613
women for some reason are always jealous or bothered by other women when they dont know them. i myself try not to be that way because it is stupid. they try to get ahead by screwing other women.
1112056
You kind of answered your own question.  It sucks to be cheated on so why would you want to put another person through that?  If the girl really wants you then she should dump her man and be with you.
66143
From my experience with a friend, guys feel she is cheating cause he is.  The guilt and thought that she is doing the same thing grows strong and he shows those emotions.
123863
Because some guys are complete assholes. And they think they are  better. So if they cheat just hit them hard or were it will really hurt, if you catch my meaning. \n\nThinks for answering my questions sarah
145027
Whoa, calm down kid! I am a woman, and I find it rather unfair and immature to assume all men are cheaters. Women cheat on men too. Ever wonder about that? Not all men are bad. Not all women are bad. Just accept the fact that some people are jerks, and some aren't. Then move on with your life.
879508
Face it, she's porking your so-called friend. Normally if a woman cheats on a man it's because he's a jerk. Clean up your act. Take responsibility for your own faults and work on them. Assuming there are no children in the mix, move on. If there are children, fight for your marriage and kids.
502179
I dont want to sound rude, but if they are all doing it, then maybe you need to look into yourself and work out why, there is no one reason why a person cheats on another, all we can do is change our own attitudes toward it so that it doesnt continue to happen. \n\nIs it possible that you have low self esteem and they are picking up on that? If not i suggest you do a little soul searching and come up with answer for yourself, i'll bet there is one there, but you dont want to face it. \n\nGood luck - nobody can help you, but you on this one.
57822
They rarely do it for any specific reason, it isn't about the woman they are with, often it isn't even about the other woman!!\n\nFor men who cheat, they do it because they can. \n\nIt's down to opportunity, geography and an assumption that they won't get caught.\n\n(The hallmark phrase is "it didn't mean anything to me" - as if that somehow makes it OK!).
485882
Any ladies out their that suspect their guy is cheating on them is because they are feeling insecure and they dont trust their men. So for you ladies out their let me tell u trust your men and try to stop feeling so insecure. If your men leaves you for some other chick this might mean he wasnt for you. take care to all.
543109
Because you women want to know whether or not he is available.  If he says yes, then you women put him in your POSSIBILE category.  If he says no, then you put hime in the NO category or ask yourselves what does this other girl have to offer this guy that I don't have.  Women have low selfrespect and low self esteem in their lives, leading to asking this question.  If they had high self esteem, than these women would not ask this question because they would not care one way or the other.  Bottom line--Women are jealous of other women and usually want what the other woman wants.  Women may deny this statement, but when they sit down and think about it, this statement is totally correct.
358676
If she is bi-sexual . . . she perfers both.\n\nAs for cheating . . . depends on your point of view.  If they are into 3-somes (which you shouldn't have if you are in a committed relationship) . . . this could happen . . . \n\nSince they had 3-somes . . . they are familiar with the third wheel . . . and as most 3-somes start . . . if it 2 women and 1 man . . . the 2 girls start off and the man joins them.  In woman's mind . . . since she already done it . . he wouldn't mind if she continues without him.  This will cause jealously in the relationship because the man is left out.  Thing is this could happen the other way around.\n\nThere have been cases where the woman slept with the 3rd wheel without her mate and visa versa where the man slept with the 3rd wheel without his mate.  In most cases, with friends who done that . . . they end up breaking up or divorced.
490380
Poeple always blame other people when they are at fault themselves or when they are in denial. \n\nDepending on their past and there own experiences-they might not have had a good expeirnece with either a man or woman (or both!) and so stereotype other men/women to be the same which is a shame.\n\nPeople are always wary of what they donot know so this is normal. If a man knew what it was like to a woman, and likewise then im sure we'd have far less conflicts! but obviousley this isnt going to happen :) We just need more communication, more honesty and more trust.\n\nxx
298837
How do women expect to find a good man if they choose to be dishonest? (Women are just as bad as men, and it makes me sick when people try to say otherwise. Women cheat just like men. Women abuse men just like men abuse women. Get over yourself.)
667624
Because they make it that way. It never should be that hard to love someone, but for men and some women they need a lot of drama in their life. Also some want to blame the other sex for their problems. If a man thinks a woman did him wrong he will blame all women..............
128259
I don't know why. Although, as many have pointed out, not all men cheat, and it isn't only men who cheat.