How do i stop my husband from being able to go on porn sites on my computer?
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You probably are going to have to install a program like Net Nanny (http://www.netnanny.com/) or if you have a Windows XP PC I would set up a password needed to log in to even be able to access the computer.
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a few ideas\n\n- use privacy software that allows you to block internet    sites on your computer.  McAfee has such a service.\n\n- Your computer should be in a place where it is very visible.  Do not put it where your children can use it and not be seen.  A computer in their bedroom is a bad idea.\n\n-  Set up a password, that your children do not know, in order to use the computer.  That way they have to come to you to have access and you know when they are on line, and can check on them from time to time.\n\nJust a couple of ideas.  Hope it helps!\n\nBest of luck.
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This COULD be to do with your partner being on porn sites, or they could just be random popups depending on which site you are on at the time when they pop up.\n\nIt could be spyware/adware on your computer.  You will need to download something like adaware, or spybot S&D to get rid of unwanted files.\n\nDownload adaware here:\nhttp://www.download.com/Ad-Aware-SE-Personal-Edition/3000-8022_4-10045910.html?part=dl-ad-aware&subj=dl&tag=top5\n\nDownload spybot here:\nhttp://www.download.com/Spybot-Search-Destroy/3000-8022_4-10401314.html?tag=lst-0-1\n\nBoth are free.\n\nI would also advise getting a decent virus scanner, for this try AVG free:\nhttp://free.grisoft.com/doc/1\n\nI recommend getting all three of these (all are free).  Hopefully that should clear up your problem.\n\nOh ... and as something extra, download ccleaner (also free!).  It's a useful tool for getting rid of uneeded files, and an easy way to clear the internet browser cache / history files.\n\nhttp://www.ccleaner.com/
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Consider parental control software. e.g. CyberPatrol, Net Nanny. I use McAfee's Internet Security Suite.
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Seems like you don't trust him already, or you wouldn't be checking out his web history. You either have reason not to trust him, or you are unable to trust other poeple because of your own problems.\n\nThat said, there is no way those sites could just appear in his history without someone visiting them using his computer. Make absolutely sure nobody else used it before accusing him. Maybe you should both go to couples' counseling if you are having major trust issues.
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Yes, it is too much to ask.  I don't see what having kids, him being on call, how often you have sex, or who you live with having anything to do with it.  You state these things but you don't say how they are relevant to your wish.  You haven't stated any reasons why he should not watch porn.  Now if you're saying that he watches it in front of your kids, masturbates to it as your in-laws walk through, leaves it on when he goes out on a call where just anyone could see it, and doesn't have sex with you more often *because* of porn, then you might have a complaint.  However, you say none of those things.
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It would be helpful to know what site your going to. Also is there a program on your computer that is installed to block you from going to these sites?
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dont listen to him. never turn the fire wall OFF. just add the site to your firewall allow list
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I am sad to say "Just ask him" is not going to resolve this question, if indeed your husband IS putting up profiles in dating sites. If your relationship has come to a place where you suspect this type of behavior, then you probably are aware of actual episodes of him cheating on you. The adult dating sites are where many cheating spouses go to find partners to cheat with. I know because I was using the sites to date eligable men, and I saw many sad things going on at many of these sites. There is one site which encourages the individuals to say exactly what they were looking for and what type of sex they were into. There were many men and women who said they were looking to have an affair with no strings attached! I was terriably saddend to see this. I really feel for you if you believe your husband is behaving in this manner. What would you do if you found out he was doing this? It sounds like you have a strong reason to think he is doing this, so what would you do if you found out? I think this is an important question you need to ask yourself. You can not change anybody's behavior, only your own. You need to decide what you can tolerate and what you can not tolerate. It is about self respect. Yeah, you can go and check all the history and find out what he is doing on line. However, he may know how to erase those traces too. Men who cheat regularly and use the computer to do so, often know how to erase those history tracks left inside the browsers. There are other ways to find out. He probably likes to keep his letters. He may be "hiding" them in hidden files and folders. To look through out the entire computer for all hidden files and folders do this:\n1. Open any explorer window. Any window you open on the computer is an explorer window. Or go to "all programs" then to "accessaries" then to "windows explorer".\n2. Click open the Tools option.\n3. click folder options. A new window will open which is \n   the folder option window.\n4. Click on the "view" tab.\n5. Scroll down to the Hidden file and folders, which has \n   two radio buttons regarding files and folders.\n6. There is probably a green color showing in the button of\n   "Do not show hidden files and folders. While there is \n    no green color in "show hidden files and folders"\n7. To change to show hidden files and folders, just click\n   the button "show hidden files and folders"\n8. Click "apply" or just click "ok" and for a moment \n   your computer will blink and your icons will disapear \n   and quickly reappear, kinda like they jumped. This is\n   normal as hidden files and folders are now becoming \n   "Unhidden. \nTIP: Hidden files and folders will have a "ghostly" appearance. Kinda faded looking. These are the folders and files that were hidden from view. Some files inside the hidden folder or file will not have the ghostly look. These are still "hidden" inside the hidden folder but not really hidden. As long as they are within a hidden folder they are in effect "hidden". The folder used to contain the illicit letters, if in fact they exist, may be a regular file "hidden" inside a hidden file. Or he may actually have hidden them, and so they will have the ghostly look.\n\nNow you need to search you computer for all folders and files. You do this by using the search feature. \n1. click "start"\n2. click "search" On the start menu. A window will open,\n   this is the search program.\n3. click on "search all files and folders"\n4. On where to search click on the arrow which opens a menu \n   for you to chose from. \n5. click on C drive, if C drive is the drive you use for the\n   major apps, has your OS on it, and all your files and\n   folders. \nTip: If you are not sure, just click on both C and D drives for this search. Perhaps you should do this anyway, as he may be clev
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Well all you have to do is to use a Built in utility of Internet Explorer called Content Advisor. Just click on Tools -> Internet Options -> Content -> Enable -> then select the level u want and then click ok. Then Enter a Password. Click Ok.\nAnd Voila. No more pornographic sites
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Ah, can you just answer one additional question:\n\nIs this to prevent your kids from accessing the sites?\n\nThere is software such as "NetNanny", "CyberPatrol" or "WebWatcher" that can prevent access to websites you dont want them to get access to, i personaly find it a challange to bypass such systems and therfore would recomend that you tell you kids that if they wish to use those sites then they do so outside of your house.\n\nAnnother option is if you have an operating system like Windows XP (VISTA has all the options you want, but is a terrible Operating System), you can install a program to monitor a certain account (to ensure they are not doing anything you dont want them to be doing, you can even log what emails they write).
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If he has already been to those sites you probably have an infection already.\n\nSnapfiles have several Free parental control programs. He might be savvy enough to get around these. If he does you might need to resort to a Keylogger that will give you a report of everthing and every key stroke he does on the computer.\n\nParental control programs:\n\nhttp://www.snapfiles.com/Freeware/misctools/fwparents.html\n\nFree Keylogger programs:\n\nhttp://www.snapfiles.com/Freeware/security/fwaccessmonitoring.html
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you may try "NetDog Internet Filter",it's a porn block, can help you prevent your kids from porn on the Internet
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Sit this silly little idiot down and tell him YOUR house rules!!!!!!!!!\n\nNO PORN DVD's\n\nNO ADULT TV.\n\nFor God's sake - he is supposed to be an parent.  How would he feel if another man came into his house and showed his children pornography.  If he doesn't get this then kick him straight out the door.\n\nMen like to make women feel that unless they put up with his little porn collection then we are prudes......BULLSHIT!\n\nI have been married to the same man for 20 years.  We have three daughters who live with us.  If he ever thought that my children should be subjected to images that are not only inappropriate but offensive then it would be the end of him.\n\nNO COMPROMISES.......if he need porn that bad he can make HIS choice and go and get it - but not in your family home.\n\nAlso, it's a little strange, if you ask me, that he like to leave them around small children - are you sure he's ok?
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There are different ways to handle it. if you know a specific site, then you can add it as restricted site in the internet options of your browser. But it is not at all effective because someone can get to site which you don'y know and get from search engines.\n\nThe best solution is to get parental control software. there are many of them if you search in www.download.com.\n\nThe best one and probably the free one, it "Naomi internet filter". it is an excellent software to protect your kids against online unsafe content.\nGet it from: http://www.radiance.m6.net/\nHope it helps.\n\nJust as side note, not only software can  protect your kids but you also need to be watchful about internet habit. Also warn them about bad things in the internet.
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You can simply modify a library's computer use policy.  \n\nGenerally, using internet for work is good and downloading porn is bad.
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How to avoid porn addiction on the Internet\n\n1. Consider installing porn content filtering software( Strongly Recommend NetDog ,you can get it from www.netdogsoft.com ) on your computer. it will help to protect you from stumbling into pornography by accident, That's important.\n\n2. Do not try to guess what the address of a Web page is. Many pornographic sites have similar addresses of respectable sites. For example www . whitehouse . com is a porn site. The real address is www. whitehouse . gov\n\n3. Never click on Web site addresses that you receive in an unsolicited email.\n\n4. Do not open attachments that come in email that are unsolicited.\n\n5. Use filtered search engines or reputable directories to find the information you need.\n\n6. Do not search for terms like girls. Think before you enter a search term.\n\n\nStick with reputable sites.\nIf something looks questionable, don't let curiosity get the best of you. Delete it or close the window.\n\nResources:\nNetDog Porn Filter