How do you start to date again and where is the best places?
97283
The way to start dating is getting your self in the right frame of mind and haveing a desire to go out and have fun. Where is totally up to you, I personally do not go to bars or parties. I usually meet women in some the strangest places when I am not looking. Just be yourself and get out there (women don't like fakes). Try stores, museums, anyplace a women would go by herself or with girlfriends. Above all do not become deperate or obnoxious. Women deserve to be treated well.
734484
Start with yahoo's dating site.  I met my husband this way, which I know it wounds weird, but if you play your cards right and treat the person like any other stranger you would have met in person, you can really find someone who you can like.\nJust use the appropriate caution.  Meet in public and don't trust them enough to be alone with them until at least the 3rd date.  With lots of talking in between.  \nGood Luck
121759
Unfortunately dating is always tricky and probably hasn't changed a whole lot since you were last single other than the addition of the internet.  No matter what you do there is no guaranteed way of avoiding the ones you don't want.  For beginners I recomend sticking to activities that you enjoy.  If you like dancing or something like that try taking a class.  Don't be afraid of the internet, but be prepared to have to filter out a lot of trash to find a few nuggets of gold.
364786
try parking lots thats were i started dating my husband. like when you leave a store check out people. good luck.
194900
sorry for that rude answre. Give your self time. the dating scene is a little faster. I think if you go on a few dates, very simple ones, like coffee or something then you will get used to being out there again. It's scary and awkward but once you get the hang of it you will adjust!\n Good luck!
573970
Any and everywhere.  Set aside, for a moment, the idea of looking for your next relationship and focus for a time on having a good time.  Strike up conversations with people you find attractive in line at the movies, at bars, restaurants, in the grocery store, book store, or wherever you go to pursue your interests.  \n\nMeanwhile, ask your friends to set you up with dates and go with the express intent of "practicing" dating - in other words, go with zero expectation of starting something.  If you have fun, great - you've met your goal.  \n\nSet goals for yourself like, "today I will talk to nine strangers I think are attractive" and go out and hit those goals.  Eventually, you'll meet someone with whom you really click.  The secret is giving up the attachment to having a relationship.
1040940
I am recently a single mother, with two kids... I want to find single men too.  I went to bars and did the whole one night stand here and there, but nothing seems right.  I want to find a quality man, quality MEN to date.  But they aren't at bars, or single spots... perhaps match or date.com but that seems like a lot of work to me... \n\nI have always gone with the idea that when we stop looking for someone then that someone comes to us... not sure if you have ever felt this same way... \n\nI know that is hard right now when wanting to meet someone... but it may be true.  not sure.. \n\nI would suggest, just.. and what did they say in that movie "Something New"? Let go.. let love flow or something like that...??? I would suggest open your heart and your mind up to finding someone, or meeting new guys and they will see that you are open to that, and then come to you.... \n\nWhereever you are!! bar, library, grocery store... etc...etc...
1078735
The BEST thing you can do is go back out there and meet new men.  Date them, laugh with them, have fun.  You will discover that you're a much better catch than your "ex" made you feel.  It will take time, but you will get over him.  If you can force yourself into going on at LEAST three dates in the next month, you will help yourself far more than you may believe.  It's not about him anymore, it's all about YOU.  You're special, you're desirable, and the right man will KNOW it.
926662
Ok, well I would start to know men now! That way you have time to get to know them more! Now for the dating part I really don't have any personal experience but just go out for coffee, to dinner, or a movie! Or have fun and go to a carnival, go bowling, or just go to your place and hang and watch movies!\n\nYou'll find him!
1070353
GET BACK OUT THERE, DON'T JUMP RIGHT BACK INTO A RELATIONSHIP BUT DATE MEN THAT MAKE YOU FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF AND THE RIGHT ONE WILL COME ALONG. YOUR MANS OUT THERE LOOKING FOR YOU TOO, KEEP YOUR HEAD UP!
216670
first place you met her, first date place, romantic be by yourself place... do something special, something she'll remember... just think about what YOU would remember
223762
Depending on your age and interests:  Often on the job, at church functions, community events, through relatives and other friends.  You can meet possible dates through volunteer work in an area you're interested in.  Community college classes or through mutual hobbies.\n\nThen, if you're older, you can always get a personals ad at yahoo or match.com and meet plenty of the opposite sex.
1161497
There is not a certain place to meet new people now that you are single. You have to go outside of you comfort level. Just try going to places that you normally wouldn't go..for example museums, festivals, health clubs, networking things like that....
470976
you have to accept your nature firstly, that you cant stay far without been involved in a relationship.\nIf you really love your ex boyfriend talk to him to relocate , if this cant be done.You face the reality of   starting all over again,  take your time and plan of settling down in your new location.\nPlan    what you want in the future,its better you stay in a location and grow than  rather to stay for  a short time and move again, you have to really consider this before starting  another relationship.\nSo concentrate on how to build yourself economically ,socially and   how to settle  down in your new environment.\nIf you decide to stay a very long time you can  now give  your toasters   the opportunity to know you properly and you decide who you really want.
393164
Start slow.  Take time to get to know the next person you date before throwing your emotions into another relationship.  It takes time, I know.  Give yourself time to heal then start over again.  You don't have to rush but don't hide from dating or relationships for to long because after a while you might become too comfortable avoiding situations were your trust is tested.  Then your just alone.
916574
Men talk and they keep track of women who allow themselves to be used for sex. Stop hanging out in the places you are known to be seen in(such as bars/clubs). Find out where good men go in your area ---- my best dates have been with men I have met at the grocery store and the bookstore/library.\n  Don't have affairs -  and present yourself as a lady. Ask close family/friends  to help you find someone who's nice to date...or even try a dating service (one that is well established and has a good reputation).
318156
Just give it time, you'll meet someone eventually. Until then, go out and have fun. Go to places where you can meet people and just open to anything. Maybe have one of your friend's boyfriends set you up on a blind date.