Me and my Lover had a great night together,major vibes and chemistry,Why haven't I heard from them in 4 weeks?
92387
Sounds like the person got what they wanted
886226
I hate to say it but if he really wanted to make it work he would. You've gone out of your way to find time to see him, if he felt the same way you do then he find a way to spend time with you. Not seeing you enough is probably an excuse, he's not strong enough to tell you how he feels and he's probably thinks he's sparing your feelings by blaming the situation instead of telling you how he feels. Give him time and he may come around, but don't wait for him. You should start moving on.
652045
Sometimes the idea of loving a person is better than the reality of them.  I am not saying that this is anything against you, but perhaps he was more in love with the idea of you.  If he no longer has these feeings for you, and refuses to talk, then I'd say it's time to move on.  I hope he isn't a creep determined to pass STDs along to every girl he can.  If it's been four days, and he hasn't talked to you, then he lacks the respect to end things the right way.  It's being a coward.  As for why you are doing this to yourself?  Can't sleep?  Well, you were duped.  No shame in that, it's not your fault.  It can take a long time to get over a love.  Hang in there. Try your best to get some sleep.  When you are sleep deprived, you can not think correctly.
869109
Sounds to me like he got a lil flaky on you and his attraction for you is wavering because of a: You not responding and b: maybe it'st just his thing. The tables have turned so if you really want to persue this relationship, go and do more then just call him up. Meet with him and discuss things.
261672
you sound almost like a mirror image of me but i'm at the 3 month stage and i don't know if he's with somone else, the other difference is he said to me that he wants to work things out i haven't seen mine in 20 days and yes im counting. the best advice hang in there, me personally i would tell him how much of a many swearwords he is for hurting me and how could he get with somone else so soon. but as i said hang in there im now ruling my own life but it is hard moving ahead without the one you love. Be Good!
575971
it's just been two meetings. I'd suggest you take it slow, but meet him more often if possible & see how it goes.
120541
If Cathleen is a player, no she will not.\nIf she feels the same about you, she might.\nIf she doesn't know how she feels, she might not.\nIf you haven't heard in 4 weeks, then no, she will not answer you, but that does not mean she will not if you talk with her again.
193587
Something similar happened to me and I thought that the other man was the love of my life.I still love and care for him and can't get him out of my system, but I wonder if I would have felt that for anyone who was there for me at that moment,being that I was so needy emotionally.It is a tough thing to deal with and very unfair.I want to tell you go with your heart,but understand that isn't easy sometimes.\ngood luck and I will pray that the universe leads you in the right direction.Be open and honest with yourself and remember you deserve to be happy!
765280
Technically, you have no right to say anything, since you initiated the "break".... but given the circumstances, you're allowed to be curious. \nAre you still on speaking terms with him for these three weeks? If so, simply ask him about it. Be calm about it, and just let him know you're simply curious as to who this person is, since you've never met her before. \nAlso, it appears that this really bothers you. Perhaps during these three weeks off, you should try to address why that is. It will help you get a better understanding of where you're relationship is, and where it's heading.\nG/L
786863
If he didn't leave you a number in which to contact him while away, sounds like he's up to no good....and the people he either works or socializes with have probably been covering him, so I think you will have to wait until he returns ....at which point, I'd set him down for some serious talking...good luck!
416322
hi there!i was thinking to tell u something with ur topic:well its obvious something hapend between u and her something that probably didnt liked her to much odherwise why she did meet with u 3weeks and after no  answer no nothing?u must ask ur self what was wrong during this 3weeks time couse, if she didnt like u from the begining why she did  go on and meet with u 3weeks and not just 1time???think well and see if was something from ur side...and if not if u cant see u did something wrong then are many posibilitye:eidher she find out in this time that u arent what she is looking for and she is doing this to u now couse she is feeling shy to tell u in face  or maibe she find someone else who its more comatible with her or difrent reason as parents for examples....maibe someone like her friends say something bad about u and in her opinion her friends are to much importand. \nwell i think i made u more confuze but u must think what u can do to feel ok with all this and dont be afraid do whatever u feel to and need to after all its ur life and u are a man so act like one!!
245552
I can't really tell you yes he is into you, because I don't know how he acted around you, and I don't know him. What I can tell you is that if it seemed like he really had a great time and you both had fun, then maybe there is hope. I suppose if he called you to let you know he was home safe, that's a plus, because if he didn't care at all, he wouldn't of called at all. Now, about him waiting to call you, maybe he was nervous, busy, like the other person commented, maybe didn't want to seem desperate. Just give it time, and if nothing becomes of it, let it go, there are a ton of men out there waiting to meet ya! ;)
452190
I think he is intrested because you have already had sex and he is still sticking around (and buying gifts!!) however i think 3 weeks is too soon to be telling him that you want to be closer, you might scare him off.\n\nJust relax and enjoy yourself and if you are still together after a couple of months then you know he might be the one.
852785
"Love" after 2 weeks?  No way can love develop that quick.  \n\nWhen he tells you that, you can reply "thank you" or "I have feelings for you too".
111532
Sounds like you didnt break up in the first place because you lost the feelings that you had for each other but because you didnt have the time to devote to your relationship. I would say dont worry just wait until you have a chance to talk with him.
461829
Talk it over and be frank about how you're feeling. I do hope you don't talk like you spell. It could be disatrous!!!\n7 months is too short to get so hooked on a guy! God made plenty to go around girl.. get a grip and move on if you are feeling unstable but dont let it hamper all of your other relationships.
595483
First off, after four days you don't *really* love each other (not mature, real love, anyway) but whatever.\n\nAre the rumors true?  It's easy to dismiss rumors if there isn't a grain of truth to them.  His friends are probably resentful of the fact that he's spending time with you and not them.  They will get over it.\n\nTry to rise above it.