Is it right to have sex before marriage?
92142
No, it's not.  Sex is meant to be a way for a married couple to express their love for one another and to create life.
876733
Sex before marriage is sex without commitment.\n\nExodus 20:14, 1 Corinthians 6:18, Psalm 66:18, 1 Corinthians 13,\n John 8:11, 2 Timothy 2:22 and Genesis 39:7-12.\n\n If you do not like your partners, you can change and find somebody else. Such casual relationships destroy the integrity of the person by reducing it to an object to be used for personal gratification.\n\nSome, who feel hurt and used after sexual encounters, may withdraw altogether from sexual activity for fear of being used again or may decide to use their bodies selfishly, without regard to the feeling of others.\n\nSex? God created it and therefore it is reasonable to expect that it is good. But when man distorts it by ignoring God's specific standards, it becomes harmful and destructive. \n\nAn adulterer was a man who had sexual intercourse with a woman he was not married to, either a married woman or one who was engaged to be married.\n\nSex is a good thing and the only way to keep it a “good thing” is to follow God's guidelines.
527143
well, are you married? b/c you shouldn't have sex until you're married. also you sound doubtful. and if you don't know if you're ready to have sex, you're not.
131419
you should wait until you're married to have sex.  you were meant to have an intimate, emotioanl, and spiritual realtionship with people of the opposite sex.\n\nsex outside of marriage, is not only dangerous, by regretful.\n\nfor example:\nyou could wind up as a one night stand\nyou can get numerous STD's\nyou can become pregnant \nor contractind AID's \n\nplease consider waiting until marriage to have sex. \n\nthink about:\n\nif you marry as a virgin to a person who is also a virgin....having sex would be a blissful act. anything you would do to eachother would feel wonderful!\n\nplus, anytime you have sex with someone, you connect with them. even if it's just subconsciously. \n\nwhy do you think that sex complicates things o much?!\n\nrespect yourself, and your future...please wait until marriage to have sex!!
237705
NO! The bible says that is fornication-! Plus you could get pregnant! Get a disease! I wish I had waited untill I got married! You can never get the first time back ! You know it is really not worth all the other problems it brings! I can tell yo it is much better to be married! God created sex- it is a wonderful thing! You cant believe how great it can be when you are married ! I am the mother of four now- I have sex before marriage -trust me wait!!!! When the right man came i had already given all that up!!!was so sad about it and then we had to talk about all the other ones we had been with-had we had tests!! ETC> not fun when you are for real in LOVE!!! thank God He forgave me!!Good luck!
558673
Sex before marriage is not a good idea. I would rather have waited till I got married however, I was young and foolish and wanted experience. Well, after you're experienced what is there to experience more? You keep on having sex, right and so if I were to change this I would have waited for the right time. But this is just my opinion. Different people have different opinions.
829657
Well I don't think what u're doing is a mistake. I myself am a virgin and I also intend to keep it that way until I am married. I see absolutely nothing wrong with that. Everybody's views about that are different though cuz some people don't believe in the "sex before marriage" thing. Some say sex is simply sex. Well for me,when that time comes,I want it to be special and I want it to be with that person I'm gonna spend the rest of my life with,my husband to be. Hence the reason I'm waiting until I get married.. Anyway,it's your choice and if u choose to remain one, that's great so don't worry about it. I'm sure when u get married, u'll be glad that u did! Take care..
38504
I've always believed in waiting until marriage to have sex, so the honeymoon seem like the ideal occasion. It's supposed to be the time when the bride and groom lose all their inhibitions and relate to each other as a married unit...plus, the marriage must be consummated. The only reasons a couple may postpone sex on their honeymoon is if there is a religious reason to wait or if the bride is menstruating. In the end, the couple must decide together before hand. It will be quite a shock if one spouse suddenly announces to the other that although they just tied the knot, they don't want to have sex as yet! That can be just reason for annulment! So discuss it before the wedding.
56971
You cannot win.  Any sex before marriage and you are a sinning sl*ut.  Any sex after the first date and some will call you a prude.\nSex involves intimate physical contact with another human being.  First talk this over with that other human.  This is your relationship, not ours.  If you can not talk about sex, you shouldn't be doing it.
9049
I do not think it is a good idea. How do you find out whether or not you are compatible in that way if you wait until marriage?  What if on the wedding night, one believes in the missionary position only, and the other likes to expirement?  What if one likes it in the shower and the other thinks it should only be in the bedroom?  What if one really enjoys sex, the other feels it is something they say "let's get it over with" to?
1035492
it might but if he is forcing u than u need to break with him cause i believe in marriage before sex.\nThats great that you want to wait!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!\nGOD bless you.
88322
No, it is definitely not ok to have sex if you are not married.  It can lead to all kinds of problem, not to mention diseases.  Oral sex is too far to go before marriage.
1128783
It's not a question of health, as much it is as...religion. If you believe in no pre-marital sex, don't do it. I personally think, that if YOU are waiting for the right man... after marriage would be best. And again, it's how you and your family members feel about this as well.
302978
No it is not.  It is called the sin of fornication.  That is what sex before marriage is called.  Certainly a true Christian would not be actively engaged in sex before marriage.  A true Christian, who made a mistake, would be repentant and try not to be doing it anymore.
997129
Love and pre-marital sex right and wrong is very 'gray' area and not like murder, which is very clear cut across the board to be wrong.\n\nMost of the wrongness with love and sex all come from religious roots and beliefs.  Whether you give much merit to your religion is what will determine how right or wrong you think something is.\n\nIs love wrong?  How can love be wrong if it brings together two people out of the five billion or how many people are on this planet now, together.  Love, when right, is ALLLLL right !!!\n\nPre-marital sex I'm a little more gray matter myself.  Do I believe in it?  No, because I think it's something sacred that should be saved for the ultimate commitment, marriage.  With that said, I do understand the importance of it to some couples that if it's bad, it could ruin the whole relationship.  So it could be used as a guide of if a couple will last in the long run.\n\nI don't give religion much merit.  I believe in common sense and believing in your own heart to tell you what is right or wrong with love and the making of love.
533119
If you are a Christian you won't have sex until you're married at which time it won't matter. It's basically up to the couple then if they want a baby or not. Nice try though but as I said a Christian would not have sex outside of marriage.
400390
Yes, because standards in today's society are not emphasizing the fact that you should be married to have sex. Everything is much more free-spirited, and do whatever you want kind of attitudes.