how should i tell someone thats trying to be my freind to try to stop?
97588
A friend is always truthful.  In a nice way, take that person aside and tell them that you like them alright but you don't want to be friends.  Just be an acquaintance to one another.  Someone you get along with alright but not someone you go to the movies with.  Be nice though.  There is no way you're not going to hurt this person's feelings.
170183
why can't you just be his friend and stop there...i don't know why people want to hurt a  friend in any way just because they like this frind x- its your friend x...find your own x
987019
If this person is your friend, you should be able to tell him/her that enough is enough already, and to stop. \n\nIf he/she doesn't stop teasing....\n\nDo you know your friend's parents?  Let THEM know what's happening.\n\n"I always felt _____ and I were friends.  But when I started this special PE class because I've got health/physical problems, he/she started teasing me a lot, and I wish he/she'd stop."\n\nIf you don't think his/her parents will help, or you don't know them, say the same thing to your case manager or a school counselor. Hopefully, both you and your friend will get pulled in to a meeting together to deal with it.\n\nIf you don't think any of these things will help, then the person is NOT your friend.  Report them for bullying (that's what this sort of teasing really is).  This person is making the choice to bully, so he/she should have to deal with the consequences.
137168
seems like she expects you to sit back and take whatever she throws at you. I would start by talking to her about it, and telling her that her behavior has made it very clear that she isnt interested in being a "friend" to you, and that that is fine with you. Tell her that you hope she has only good things coming her way, and just leave it at that. Ending things on a good note will probably surprise her. I would stop calling her your friend, as well.\nDont call her, if she talks to you respond politely but without details or extra words, if she sends you emails dont open them, etc. Make yourself unavailable to her.
297792
your right in standing up for yourself. But i think the best way to get them off your back is ask them politely to stop or take them aside and talk to them one on one.
997964
just say i know wht you are doing and i dont really like it, it is your choice but as a friend i reallt think you should stop but it is your choice and that you will support them all the way threw wht ever they deciede
1181800
Your friends encourage her to do it? Sounds to me like you need to get new friends.
573545
JUST DONNT BOTHER, LET YOUR FRIEND SAY, ONE TINE COME HE WILL BE STOPPED
4560
Just say no.  It hurts more if you tell them yes and stiff them.  The thing is in life there are hurts and you can't shield people from them.  The only person your responsible to is yourself.
493921
tell her that u don't want to be friends with her anymore. u don't want a friend that jokes around too much and goes to far and threatens to beat u up and ur friend and does beat y'all up. tell her that a TRUE FRIEND doesn't do that and that a TRUE FRIEND is suppossed to respect others' feelings and not beat them up. u can tell ur counselor and or/ someone else that u really trust. GOOD LUCK!
224435
most of the time people come in to our llives and them leave without reason sometimes. yet we learn from them. each of them come in to our lives throught god's intervention. it wouldnt be fair to blame or ignore those who have let ur side. but just cpontinue ur best to keep in touch.\n\nsometimes we go looking for friendship in thr wrong places and those we meet dont last long. maybe what they came for is not there any more.\n\nor good freinds are those who stick by us right through. like the 3 / 4 people u mentioned. they are here to stay.\n\nyou shouldnt have to do anything to get people bk. just be ur self right from the begining and then u will find the true frineds who would last with u right through. \n\nalso remeber the only thing u need to do to keep friends by u is be honest with them, respect them, let them know that u care and be ur self. nothing more. if there is mpore than that that they expect then it is not a really and genuine frieindhsi that they are looking for.\n\nclicks or groupings happen everywahere and theat will keep happnening right through life. but those who are true to that genuine friendship will stick with u always
700024
Ask them to be your friend.
846672
Just stop her and  ask if she wants to try to be friends again.\nThere is no harm in asking. This way, if she tells you to F-off, you know not to bother again.  She may be missing your old friendship. Or not.  There's only one way to find out.
222772
Let your actions be your words.  I think by showing them that you are a good friend makes people want to befriend you.
484309
Ive had the same problem. The way I would handle it would be to tell her as it is. Just say "listen, im not tryin to be mean just please let me have my space, stop copiing my style and get your own please" And walk away.
470585
Just be his friend and try to get him to stop......If he continues to cut then tell someone who can help.
33512
Have you ever heard of the story of the boy that cried wolf?  If so, then I would ignore this friend.  Some people have to do extreme or odd things to get any attention.  The bigger the audience, the happier they are.  But, if you dont enable this person, they eventually stop.  When that friend starts doing it around you, calmly tell them to stop or you will stop talking to them.  If they dont stop, then hold your ground and walk away or hang up the phone.