one of my best friend is also my sex partner, both of us has gf/bf. is this ok?
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NO ITS NOT OK! THATS LIKE CHEATING ON THE OTHER PEOPLE, AND YOU SHOULDN'T BE WITH SOMEONE, EVEN ONLY FOR SEX, IF THEY ALREADY HAVE SOMEONE ELSE. WHAT IF SOMEDAY YOU FALL IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE, BUT LIKE REALLY FALL IN LOVE, AND U FIND OUT THEY ARE HAVING SEX WITH THEIR BEST FRIEND, YOU WOULD NOT LIKE THAT. AND EVEN WORSE IF YOU DONT EVEN KNOW. YOU EITHER DONT LOVE THE PERSON YOU ARE WITH, OR YOU HAVE FEELINGS FOR YOUR BEST FRIEND AND DONT KNOW IT. YOU HAVE TO THINK OF THE CONSEQUENCES, IT MIGHT BE GOOD TO DO IT NOW, BUT IT CAN COME WITH A HIGH PRICE IN THE END. THINK ABOUT IT. HOPEFULLY MY OPINION HELPS.
966849
First off there is nothing wrong with just being friends with someone of the opposite sex. \nIt doesn't really matter what other people think..there will always be that one person who tries to hurt others relationships. As long as you and your friend are comfortable with your realtionship thats all that should matter. \nAs for others who feel its wrong.... they are not good friends if they were they would know there is nothing wrong with your relationship. If its her Boyfriend then he is very insecure with himself and his realtionship with his girlfriend. Unless she is the one leading him to think that your relationship with her maybe be more to make him jealous. \nThere are some who just can't accept other relationships liek yours its sad but true. \nI personally have had similar problems in the past. But if you and her are truely close and best friends everything will work out. If not then the friendship is not worth your time. \nHope this helps.
1080045
It really depends on your partner: too demanding, not  open enough to your needs. Your friend needs to know that there's absolutely no obligation for her to have sex all the time but she needs to talk to her partner about this.
1053846
Ok, I think there are two possible answers to your question. He might be worried that a relationship with you, his best friend, may not work out and would destroy your friendship. Especially if he doesn't have any other friends. He probably loves you more than you could imagine.\nThe other option is that he's gay. I know, just hear me out. He may not have come to terms with it and has no idea how to tell you. Think about it. You guys are best friends, you're attracted to him and asked him to be your bf. He obviously llikes you a lot and is attracted to you but not sexually attracted to you. \nEither way, I think you should tell him that you really like him as a friend and wish there could be something more between the two of you. Remind him that there is nothing that could ever change the fact that the two of you are the best of friends.
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Funny you asked this question.  This is a constant issue with me.  I have male friends that my boyfriend is a little jelous of but trust me, they could never replace him.  My bf has female friends that I'm not threatened by anymore, but there was a time.  As far as my boyfriend and I, I say that opposite sex friends are perfectly alright as long as the couple knows where to draw the line and the "friends" and couple know not to cross it.
1008566
sweetie I wouldn't do some thing like that. you have to be carefully because It will cause a lot of trouble between him and the so call best friend and u would be in the middle of the whole thing and you don't want that
457675
you don't really have to choose between your bf and your friends, they belong to different parts of your heart, so to speak. but you do need to balance your priorities. sometimes your bf will need you more than your friends will and vice versa. good luck with the joggling act!
377281
If it's your best friend, then you owe it to them to do what is right.  An intimate relationship with someone close will change your relationship, maybe for the better, but maybe for the worse.  Are you willing to risk your friendship?
1116146
Well if your bf's cheating with your bestfriend, whats the difference if you do it????? hehe
493467
just sounds like a ho to me to tell you the truth.....because a "friend with Benefits" well that is still a relationship...things could get very awkward.
363158
alright hun obviously there is something going on within your present relationship that has you wanting this other man. But even if there is a man's best friend is a subject YOU BETTER BE PREPARED TO TACKLE IF YOU PERSUE. Because like the saying goes, girlfriends and boyfriends come and go, but a best friend last forever. They've known each other longer than you and trust me from experience they will turn on you. I lost a good man at that time because i persued his best friend. Hun, unless you can deal with the consequences, back off and let him come to you if he feels the same way. If he doesn't then you have your answer and accept it. But if u feel u need to know go for it, but be prepared for what comes down the road
773556
yes i have with another girl and a guy and with two guys. Thing was i was not dating either of these people. It can really mess with the relationship so if its something you do agree on do not have a mutual friend join you it can make things very awkward between you two as well the two of you and your friend. Also talk about what the boundaries are for you both. What shes okay with you doing to the other woman, what shes comfortable doing with the other woman, and what is going to far. Having a bit of sexual play is good for a relationship, but if its a relationship you want to keep make sure you respect each others feeling on the matter.
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my advice to you would be to stop and examine both relationships. if you and this friend are really getting that close and you really want to have sex and/or take this relationship to the next level then go for it but let the boyfriend go first. if its not that kind of relationship then stop thinking about sex. maybe you should also think about what kind of problems you may be having with your boyfriend that would cause you to start having these thoughts about another man. and also maybe you should ask yourself why your boyfriend would say its ok to go ahead and do this, maybe he already has.
398127
I would recommend you not to do it. Although your best friend's relationship is over with that girl, he might have the feeling that he had something special with her.\n\nAnd when he sees that you are having the same/similar relationship with her, he will feel bad about it. And yet, he might get paranoiac that you had this thought always in your mind even when they were together. Besides, the idea that you are having sex with someone he once loved is disturbing. Men can easily forget a girl when they don't see what she is doing but this way, he will often see you and his ex and this will be disturbing for both of you. So at the end, you will see each other less and he won't be your best friend anymore. \n\nBut on the other hand, if he is not much devoted to her and tells you to go on, then it is OK.
1008495
It's totally understandable.. honestly, i think it's kinda cute that she feels jealous about it.. =) just be even moooore sweet with your gf, and don't stop telling her that your just acting, that that has absolutely nothing to do with feelings or attraction towards the other girl, that its just your job to make it look real.. that she is the ONLY one! =)
239186
there is nothing wrong with having this kind of relationship.Just be sure that your pal gets to understand the confidentiality of this relationship.I wish you all the best.
9992
Thats not Cool. It would be legaly considered rape.Just because he's your boyfriend dosent give him the right to take advantage of you. You could explain to him that he got the wrong signal from you.Maybe you should have explained your stance on sex before you slept with him in the same bed...but dont think that its your fault.He shouldnt have done that with out your permission.