if you and your spouse are having problems ,and you are away ,is it a good idea to take a break .from calling?
90077
No. Part of making your marriage a success is learing to live through life's ups and downs together.  There will occasionally be problems the 2 of you have to work through, but the answer to those problems is to turn TOWARD your marriage not away from it.  Not communicating is definately a step away from it.\n\nI'm not saying you should stay on the phone constantly.  Check in with each other once a day to say "I love you".  You may be having problems because both of you need to be reminded of what is most important in your lives and how you really feel.
671743
I feel you. I think he could have try harder if he wanted to. I know the excuse "i forgot" or I was going to do it relax" and you didnt see shit done. If it is going to be like that I feel you should move out and take a break let him know you are not happy at all and you are under a lot of stress. What will he do without you. He needs to appreciate the things you do as a mother and wife. You need a man not another child you have to take care of. You must feel really lonely and yearning for a man.Take a break and try to relax, go out with friends and take a deep breathe.Try not to overthink yourself cause you will go crazy. I know you have bills to pay but figure out how to get out of this rotation with him cause after awhile it gets pretty tiring. I hope nothing but the best for you and take it one step at a time.
1135058
go solo for a while. relax take a break. sometimes that helps. is that the answer you were looking for?
897633
Yes he can. Not talking to him everyday is good for yourrelationship. When he does call you , you get that feeling in your body that you just can't stand. You are so excited when he does call. It is a wonderful feeling. Trust me. I didn't get to talk to my husband for six months but we recieved letters and I look forward to each one. When I did get to see him it was a wonderful feeling.
487295
Just chill.....take a break, take some time for yourself.
923095
Screen your phone calls and answer when it conveniences you.  I wouldn't completely ignore her, but also set a time when you won't answer the phone anymore (example after 9:30pm).  You and your husband having time alone without being interupted is very important.
1026207
Wait till the project is over and then distance yourself. A vacation might be in order for you.
325114
depends. do you really want to continue with whatever broke you up? usually when things are over it's best to leave it like that.
114128
if you don't expect a call, don't answer the phone or hang up the phone. don't entertain them. place a notice at your door -"No visitors please unless previously arranged. this is my rest day"
459590
My dear.. The first thing to do is talk to him about how you feel when you are both relaxed and the problem is behind. Don't confront him immediately after what happened. You have to also assess how much you love him and how much he loves you. If you think the love is still there, then give it a chance and talk about what you like and what he likes and come to a compromize. However, if you feel that the love part is missing, then don't waste both of your times and put an end, it will only increase your agony. Unless, there are kids involved, this means a whole new strategy that you should consider them. If no kids, and no love, then separation is the best.
330461
Enjoy it. Let them do their job. I,m sure you have enough work to do at home. take the break while you can.
894397
No, they are not like coffee breaks. And consider your spouse's feelings in the matter. Would you like it if they were having an affair? "good for the goose, good for the gander".
566740
It has it's ups and downs. You already know each other so you know what to expect. If it was a bad break dont fool yourself to think it will change or get better.
540998
you need to leave the country to somewhere you can actually do something. it'll be a fresh start, a new chance. at the rate you're going, not only will stress and depression affect that relationship, so will the added burden of complexes. an idle mind is a devil's workshop. migrate - take your wife to somewhere you both can live in happily, because wherever you are is obviously not the right atmosphere
881357
depends on the circumstance of your breakup, if it was very painful, or if it were mutual. know that some o f the same problems could arise again if not discussed before. if it was a pleasant time, and all was well, take him back, but if it was a long hard bumpy road, than work out the issues before u take him back.
984509
i think that me and my boyfriend may be breaking up today. i'm really nervous and not sure what to do.  don't call him, just let it all go. that'll be the easiest thing to do.
428012
You sound stressed - you need a break and you should take one. Some therapy may help - having someone to talk to is always nice- does your church provide any type of support in times like these?\nGet yourself a place and renew your relationship with the Lord - tell Him all that is troubling you and allow Him to guide you through these hard times - just rest in His comfort and rely on God to renew your mind and body. Pray for your spouse thats really all you can do at this point - he has to be willing to get help. Take care of your children and provide them with  loving support and stableness that young ones need. Don't seek divorce just yet - see what the Lord directs you to do...