how shula i live with out him?
95805
U know,,i have beenthr this before,,and i can tell how hard it is,,but u know what,,i have learned many things,,if he was so weak,,or so whatecer,,the reason is,,to leave me alone,,with pain in my heart,,HE WAS NOT THE ONE FOR ME,,,if he was the one I trylu deserve,,he wouldnt have left me crying,,he would have rather die than see me weeping,,\nBe stong,,,have faith,,the better is yet to come,,try doing new things,,sports,,,reading,,going out,,try not to focus on him,,,\nI wish u all the best,,and i am sure u will find someone much better soon
705529
Do it. Just make sure you take care of yourself. Start a little savings account in case things don't work out and you find yourself suddenly without a roommate. Do you really want to get to know your man's living habits AFTER you've signed a legally binding document?
438533
move as far away from him as possible i'm sure your friends will be there for you if not then find new friends do whats best for you and your child feel better get well and NEVER let a guy treat you like that NEVER let any one abuse you physically or emotionally be strong us women need to stick together and let all jerks in this world know that we will not let them hurt us anymore.
1100025
No, he is driving u crazy!  Get rid of him!  No body should have to live like that!  Who the hell does he think he is, your drill seargent?!  There is no way I would put up with that!  That actually would make me cheat by drilling me all the time!  Dont feel guilty!  You really need to put him in his place!  Slave days are over!
106398
Sit him down, don't dramatize the situation and just explain to him in a mature and resolute way that you no longer wish to share the living arrangement you currently share. The best way to deal with any problem is just being honest about it with the people involved because nothing sucks worse than being the last know especially when it's a life altering decision that affects you.
133836
They should have time for you. On the far side they never do anything with you and the other sise is that you never let him do anything himself. You shoul be somewhere in the middle.
889049
Honey, there are shelters.\nIt is not okay for you to stay there.  He knows that you will stay and he will keep on doing it.\nDepartment of Human Services will help you too.\nHe will keep cheating as long as you stay there.
345813
i think the best way would be is to go with what he asks you to do, but never let him get to you. agree to whatever he tells you, but do what you want anyways on your own account.. or with out him knowing.. more or less just letting things flow so u can live at peace. if this approach doesnt work, try discussing things with him, see his point of view and try to understand it, maybe there is a reason as to why he doesnt want you to do certain things. if also this approach doesnt work, save money, work hard, have patience and move out... all in all i think u should be strong and handle this smartly, cause if you rebel hell just be as suprpessive and controlling as he can get. try to work your way to get your peace of mind.. remember that.
517491
I think you need a replacement or substitute for him...Be with your friends always and stay busy so that you won't think of him over and over again...Date someone in your office, neighborhood or church...Stay happy in the company of your relatives, family members, etc...maybe you still need to pray to God for on-going discernment on what is His will for you...I believe in destiny, that of billions and billions of people around the world, only one is menat for you...Just enjoy life, be productive, enjoy work and do community activities/services in your respective community...\n\nGod will give you something that you really deserve...Only God knows whats in your heart, mind and your soulmate..
1058277
That is a tough one.  They are so self-absorbed and take everything they can get from everybody, and do not care at all about what the ruins will be.  Just be nice when your with her and thats it.  If your not living with her you should be strong enough to deal with it.  My bf had that OMG it is horrible to live with, unbearable.  They suck the life out of you and it is not enough, they want more.
1032075
No you have needs as well and you have to make him aware of them. Sometimes guys we don't catch on to sublte hint then three months from now we come home she's crying and we can't figure out why. Then you unlaod everything that you've had bottled up for the last 5 months and the whole time he could really be clueless. Let him know what your thinking and why and see what he says, but assuming is never the way to go. You just moved in so establishing communication is key. Here is you first chance to do so. I hope it all works out well.
261694
it doesn't sound to good, he sounds like he's a nightmare to live with. my advice is leave him before you get hurt anymore.
829118
Dump the bum and quick!  Sounds like there are some problems going on in this guys head and you don't need to be a part of it.  I think you already knew you have to get him out of your house and out of your life, you just needed confirmation and support from people not so close.  Well, you are getting plenty of the same advice; so listen to all of us strangers who only want the best for you - GET RID OF HIM . . .NOW!
1170248
The reality of living on his own has hit him big time. don't give in, he will return to his former self given time. Good luck
498641
First of all he shouldnt be living with you all anyway!Next\nas long as u continue to except it he's gonna do it. Through his cheap, mooching, unconcerned ass out of that house and let it go. You dont need it and certanly your parents dont need all the extra stress on them. You need to be woman enough to handle that situation.
784566
eish....eish....eish.hhayi...hhayi,HHAYI!u r stuck between a rock n a hard place.\nI think ur at one of those painfull tricky places that ALL of us dread.\n\nwhat 2 do... depends, which one can you see rslf living with?\n\nThink really hard... is she really worth yrfriendship with this guy, remember there are plenty of grls out there, but then again you can always find a new guy frnd as well.\n\nwhatever you decide,you better be prepared to live with it.
493516
Hold on you live with him still? First off I've never heard of that arangement before in my life. Also what do you mean by living with are you two still together but still sexually active? If so he's using you no wonder you feel lost. You need to get yourself outta there and if your parents won't take you in find a place foryourself. In times of need there are several places like main stay suites that offer cheep extending living. Once you've done that try and find a really decent guy i'm not talking about going bar hopping, i'm talking about a place like church (by the way if you don't have religion at this poin that's another reason you feel lost, there are many christains like myself that are here to help you if you need some with comming to Christ ;) ) I know you most likely love this guy but the sooner you come to relize its time to move on you'll feel bad at first but it will get better. Don't think its not because you won't love the ex because yes you will love doesn't go away, but you have to save whats left of your heart and mend it together for that guy who's still out there you haven't met yet.