How long do u wait 2 have sex with the person u r dating?
81593
three dates max . . . because by then . . . I would know that you are really not interested in me.
617305
holding out in the beginning, is ok.  Relationships that i have had that started out with sex right away has always ended sooner, blast at first but after that, it gets dull. The building blocks for a stable relationship starts out by becoming friends first.  Looking at eachother, respecting eachother and wondering what it will be like when you do have sex.  That anticipation makes it  more special ( and hot) and by doing that each can feel more comfortable and be more open.  This makes the relationship stronger in the long run. Good luck
138008
it is if u ready to have sex
883104
IT WOULD TAKE AT LEAST SIX MONTHS FOR ME.  I LIKE TO MAKE SURE THAT THE PERSON I SLEEP WITH IS GOING TO BE WORTH IT.  \n\nI TAKE PHYSICAL INTIMACY VERY SERIOUSLY, AND I AM VERY CAUTIOUS ABOUT THE KIND OF MEN I GET INVOLVED WITH.
1082481
Well I would just continue to wait for the right person to do it with. The longer you wait trust me you will forget about it. On the other hand you could go and have a one nighter but make sure you wrap it up.
747877
Perhaps you two should wait a tad longer until you are fully educated on sexual activity.
63688
if YOU want to have sex, then by all means do it!  but if it is HIM that is pressuring you, you need to tell him that you are not ready yet.  if he loves you, he will wait.  'til then, there are plenty of other things that you can do to keep each other satisfied.
492892
I presume you mean sex??Well I've dated guys who don't expect that so perhaps you're dating the wrong guys!If you want to see a guy again I wouldn't recommend sex on the first date but take things slower and at a pace you're comfortable with.Have fun!
660094
no i was until 17..i actually suggest waiting until u find the right girl and u r sure..dont rush things. and sometimes sex can mess everything up in a relationship
1082146
what are u waiting 4, ask 2 him
408859
girl you will know u just have to wait for that right person to come along
967512
You should hold out until you feel it is right to have sex with him.  If you have sex with him right away becasue you really like him and think he will be with you because you gave into him, there would be a good chance he will dump you because he thinks you sleep around.  If you hold out to long and he leaves you, then he was using you and he isn't worth being with.  You will know in your heart when it's the right time.
847110
nope , we are NOT supposed to wait forever.\n\nWe ARE supposed to see if its real though , before moving on to somebody else, or else we regret it, wonder about it, kick ourselves for what might have been, etc.\n\nAsk somebody out if you like him or her, I figure 3 times, then wait and see if maybe they ask you out. I don't like to nag people.
307283
Depends were your morals ly.  Do you really care about her then you will wait for the right moment.  But if she agrees on the first date then she is easy and just good enough for a snag and nothing else.  But if she says wait then she's the one.
803219
The only right time to have sex in any relationship is when BOTH parties are ready to do so. Don't do anything that you will regret later........ you could end up damaging the relationship that you have started building.
393164
Start slow.  Take time to get to know the next person you date before throwing your emotions into another relationship.  It takes time, I know.  Give yourself time to heal then start over again.  You don't have to rush but don't hide from dating or relationships for to long because after a while you might become too comfortable avoiding situations were your trust is tested.  Then your just alone.
195616
no one should put a time limit or expect anything in any certain amount of time. it will happen when you are both comfortable with one another. dont try to rush it, four weeks is not a long time. if you want to charish that moment then wait. building momentum and imagination is so sexy. i think it means more to wait and build on something more than sex. wait cause you already know it will be worth it.