my best friends cousin likes me and i like him, but he wants to make out alot! wat do i say???
83216
if you're over 15, talk to him and just try to really turn him on. really sexy and just make him wanna sex you in. then see what he does! decide after that...
476069
It is so nice that you care so much about  both your friend and you.\n\nYou see whatever happened has happened. It can't be changed. So either you find ways to move on or you just slack back.\n\nYou said you are best friends. A lot of things happen between best friends you know so this should not be a hard one to tackle. It happened because you were both passionate about each other. It now appears you are both bi. No big deal.\n\nFirst you said you liked him and now you are saying you don't know if you like him. NO problem about that, you will soon know if you like him or not.\n\nHowever, since you said you have not seen him in a month and this whole thing is getting into you, well i think is about time you talk with him. It does not matter if you are different persons or not, you still have to find out where you stand. You need to talk with him and find out if you are both embarassed about the things that happened and if you still want to be best of friends. If you both still want to keep on having sexual feelings for each other, well that is when to find out, by talking to each other. Please tell him your mind, what you think, what should stop, what should go on and stuffs like that. It will work out.\n\nYou and i both know you don't want to lose a friend like him. Then i think it's about time you spoke to him.\n\nPlease don't feel shy. OK. Open up and tell him every single thing in your heart.\n\nYou will definitely find your answer. Keep it cool and GOOD LUCK.\n\nHave fun too.
890509
Continue doing what you are doing because apparently it's working. There is no bad blood and you two are getting along so don't change on him, because that will not guarantee that i will stay like that, and if you like him, its best to keep it as friends thats from experience unless he has expressed that he likes you. If not then you gotta suck it up because its better to have not said anything and keep him as a close friend than to say something and chance losing him as a friend.
879935
tell him that your parents don't want you dating until you are (whatever age or amount of time until you are able to) and be sure to say that you like him as more than a friend. he will probably understand that and probably become a very close friend while he waits
383344
wow i'm in a very similar situation right now and its tough.  if you are having a conversation with him, try to touch his arm as your making a point.  it also wouldnt be a bad idea to simply say "you're really cute".  its better to let them know that you like them than to never try at all.  good luck, e-mail me if you have any more questions
22702
This may not be exactly what you want to hear but I'm going to answer your question in the adult manner in which you asked it.\n\nIf the relationship is meant to be, it will last the test of time...time for both of you to grow up a bit more & wait to date with your parents approval. I know this doesn't help much but everyone, including your boy-friend is trying to look out for you & do what's best. Personally, it always annoyed me when people did this for me when I was your age so I can understand you feeling like you don't know where to turn.\n\nMy suggestion is to remain friends with this boy & don't try to take things too fast. There is always time for dating in a few years, not to mention all of the other things that tend to come with dating. While you might feel ready for some of that now, you will appreciate it much more after having waited for it & building a stronger friendship. Yes, I know you may not believe this right now so, please, read this little story about my cousin...\n\nI have a cousin who met a boy when they were both young...just about your age, in fact. The two of them became friends but he was shy &, as time went on, he never asked her out. He didn't go out with anyone else either & always spent his free time with her. Well, when they turned 16 & 17, he finally asked her out & they dated only each other. As it turned out, the boy had asked my uncle long ago what his rules were about dating his daughter (when he was about 14, I believe) & also told my uncle of his intention to marry her someday. While my uncle didn't believe it at the time, he certainly did as the years rolled by & the boy refused to date anyone other than my cousin. All the way through high school & college they were a pair &, believe it or not, they didn't even go in for the things that most teenagers do, if you know what I mean. To everyone else it just seemed like a sweet & gentle relationship.\n\nWhen they finally moved to that next level of a relationship, they were already in college, having been together & waited years with nothing more than kisses & hugs. They are now married with a beautiful child &, I promise you, have one of the strongest relationships that I have ever seen. I honestly think this is because they were friends first & took their time learning everything about each other.\n\nI hope this helps & that you can learn something useful from my cousin's story...
146363
You have to let him know you like him one way or the other. When I'm with a girl that I like I always look for a way to break the "touch barrier" I'm talking about mainly flirting and and also the first time you touch someone is the hardest after that it all rolls down hill from there. It sounds weird to talk about it like this but I'm only  talking about stuff like play punching. Also there is a proximity bubble we all have around are selves. I forgot what actually equates this space but we naturally know what it is. If you like some one and want to move further you need to break this barrier. If they are uncomfortable they will back up. if not they will embrace it. They could just sit there though. That is usually when you find out for sure if they are down or not. So that's just my two cents. Hope all goes well.
63025
give him a kiss. chances are if your friends he might like you too
793132
He sounds like a player.   If he made out with your friend, he should not then turn around and approach you.\n\nSounds like you need to make a new friend (because she was wrong).  Also find another guy, because this one seems to be suffering from short attention span.
928405
Take a breath first! You gotta be honest with him asap..the longer this goes on, the more he's going to think there is something between yall that's more than friendship.. Tell him you like hanging out with him, but you like someone else..He can take it, the sooner the better..it's cool that you care so much about hurting someone's feelings..
921962
I think you're right.Sounds like they want to hook you up with the cousin so they don't feel guilty about seeing each other.Go for it if you are attracted to the cousin.If not.Tell them to lay off.Tell them you don't need any one planning your social life for you.
71097
Ask him straight on what he means by that kiss, and remind him about what he said earlier about only being 'friends'. And if he asks for a reason, tell him that you need to clarify the situation, and you are not the type of girl to be played around with. After all, it wouldn't do to have him only consider you as a friend and have someone else in his life, while he only uses you for flirting and other undescribable reasons.
477682
Talk to him, not while fooling around, or intoxicated.  Express to him how you feel about him.  That you enjoy being close to him, and long for his kiss.  Be forward about this, take the risk.\n\nRisks are easy enough to evaluate, is the potential for a positive result, outweighing the potential for a negative result?  My assumption here, is that somewhere inside of him, he desires you, him cuddling with you is a good indication of that.  He likes being close to you.  So take the risk.
742610
Well, the problem seems to be that neither of you are telling the other about your liking for him or her. Instead of assuming that you don't like him, why doesn't he ask you straight away? Then the problem would be solved in minutes.\nHis friends tell you that he likes you. Why don't they tell him that you like him too?\nAs it appears that neither the guy nor his friends aren't going to be of much help, you have to take the initiative to clear this misunderstanding. First talk to him on the phone and tell him that you want to talk about a very important matter in privacy. When you meet him at the appointed place (a sparsely crowded restaurant or a park) at the appointed time, tell him that you have been wanting to tell him something for a long time. And that it was for this purpose that you have invited him here. When he wants to know what it is, tell him about your feelings for him confidently. Next, ask what he thought about you. I think, things would move their own way after that. Best of luck.
471017
Kindly tell him that you're not gay and therefore not interested. He should understand. And it's up to the both of you to make sure it doesn't get weird and you remain friends.
346017
If you like him, I wouldnt worry too much about whaat your friends 'might' say...if they are your friends they will like you no matter who you go out with. If he is smiling while your and his family are teasing you about giving him a kiss...blow his mind and walk right up to him and give him a peck and see how he and the family react.
646864
HE IS SCARED! Trust me, he did not kiss you just for the fun of a kiss and then change his mind. Don't be pushy just be available. Try to be a safe place for him to go when he is feeling strong enough. If you become clingy, needy, or overly dramatic you will scare him off and lose you best friend and your love. Friendship is the root of great relationships. This has real potential, that is scary. Just back off and give him some time. I would keep up with the occasional text message, short and sweet, but avoid any type of demand. He will come around.