[Women] How many of you have cheated on your husbands and why?
95476
i have never .. \nand my ex husband wasnt anything like you just described !!\npoor fella . i hope you find a good one next time
649917
i've NEVER cheated nor ever will. but what really got me mad once (besides others cheating on me) was i once went to caribbean by myself to relax; didn't even look at another guy. a week or two after i came home by boyfriend ended it. what a jerk... i could've had a better time...!!! grr.
804574
I have cheated everytime I am with someone. I think its because I haven't found someone who I CANT cheat on! When I do find this person I think that I will NEVER cheat again!!! BUT I will say I have NEVER BEEN CAUGHT!!! So NO ONE HAS been hurt!
1173444
No, I have never cheated. I just want to say that not everyone who has cheated isn' bad. My God Mother cheated, but didn't have much of a choice. She is the one who decided to cheat, but when she tried to stop it she couldn't.\n\nShe was having an affair with her neighbor and after the first time, she told him it was over, she couldn't live witch herself cheating. Her neighbor then told her that if she stoped sleeping with him, he would kill her. She then went through on going abuse and couldn't get out of it. She finnally had the courage to tell my mom. My mom then told the cops and he was arrested for rape and assult.\n\nTo this day, my God Mother still feels bad about what she did. She knows what she did was wrong and she tried to get out of it and couldn't. Her and her husband are still togeather because he knows she didn't want to do what she did.
353072
its not worth it, I was in the navy and I have seen hundreds a married men cheat on their wifes and I have seen hundred of women sheat on their husbands get the picture, humans rarely have enough self control to stay faithful!
1002269
there are many motives behind an affair,the old line it just happened is a crock of bull,it is given much thought and for men i think it's a challenge for women it is a emotional thing the sense of being needed, attractive to another man.men also need to see if they still have it some do, some don't,  some never did,regardless of the reason it is wrong.if your sex life stinks make it better try different things,being a women i can't completly answer why guys cheat but i feel it's an ego thing or maybe their spouse is truely a louse in which case she has no reason to complain we women know men like / need  sex and if we are completly against making love then let him go no man or women should be forced to live without it unless it is for a medical reason,in that case then you should find other ways to satisfy each other.
1176240
LOL\nYour husband pissed you off or something?
436767
It may not be cheating in the usual unedrstanding of the word, but it most certainly is not being faithful. Consider how you would feel if your spouse had fallen in love with some bimbo on line and was sneaking off to have hot sticky computer sex when you weren't around? \n\nDon't betray your spouse.
410878
That's a very interesting question. \nOr maybe it is my answer that is interesting.\nIn my family.......none have ever cheated...no divorces or cheating.\nFriends: I am forty three and I think I only have four friends that I know of that have been cheated on.
621017
i think that many men that cheat, don't cheat for the love, it is sex,or being bored with their current, g/f o. wife..ect, They don't do it like women. Women cheat for feelings, unless they are just horney, and are not getting what they want from their man/partner. Women seem to want the relationship and the feelings to be deeper than a man wants. Not that men do not have deep feelings....many men love very much, but it seems that many women cheat much more than men these days? women seem to be cheating quite a bit..the big stereotype of only men cheating has totally turned!
1090797
Unfortunatly I have been having an affair. I know its wrong and I shouldn't be doing it but my husband just doesn't satisfy me in the bedroom. I've talked to him about it and he is just unwilling to change how things are done in the bedroom.
1154816
yes, i have been faithful to my wives for 22 years, first wife 18 yrs. and second for 3 yrs. The secret.............i try very hard to be a good lover and they always appreciated it and gave in return, so i never had to look elsewhere to be satisfied, i also am not afraid to tell her what i like and i encourage her to tell me the same in return.
1151645
Most women I know who cheated were either bored with their married lives, or were in an unhappy marriage or relationship and could not or would not wait until they were out before starting something new.  I always say leave before beginning anything new.  Also, the grass is not always greener on the other side.
602771
I'm sure men/women have their excuses for why they cheat, some are loneliness, temptation, not getting what they want at home.  They are all just lame excuses for doing something wrong, though.  They should deal with the real problem and not cheat and hurt other people.
392639
First i broke my cycle of abusers, I have been married to a wonderful man of 5 years whom has never laid a hand on me or cheated on me, doesnt go out with frieds without me we are always together....but when i was younger and stupid i dated abusers and cheaters. A good guy back then was too nice, up my bum, and tried to hard.  After several tries and hurts, a friend of mine made me write a list of qualities in a husband and father that i would want in the future.  and i went by that list and found my husband thank god. and the guys that are that way do something to girls... they make them feel like they are nothing and no one else would ever want them. That is why women stay and why women are attracted most of the time to other guys who will treat them like that to.
388699
I faked it before I met my husband because I had never had one. Then I met my husband, had multiples in one shot, and now I expect it. I tell him that he isn't done till I am, because I'm not going to waste my time having sex if it isn't good. If I was not married, and dating different men, if they weren't getting me to where I wanted--the O-- the I would tell them to stop, and not waste my time. Now that I know what I was missing, I'm hooked, and I'll be damned if I'm going to give it up. I got lucky tho, I never has sex with my hubby-even quickies-without at least 3 or 4. He wears me out. I love it, he has turned me into such a sex feined!
159786
Nope, I've never cheated. I think it's not the right thing to do. You should just break up instead of just cheating on them...