Can u tell me plz that why a girl who loves u but after short or long time she tells u we r just gud frends ?
97614
im a girl so i should know.alot of times,girls don't feel that the guy is giving them enough attention so they just drop it.girls want to feel loved and if your not ready to provide that then maybe you should wait a while.
462361
Because the girl is insecure, my guess.  I can't really totally explain it more than that.  But she should realize that it's actually a sign of him getting more comfortable with her.  See he's realizing that his life has been out of balance becuase he's been persuing her, and is now trying to balance things out.  This is a subconsious attempt to make a workable relationship that will last. and she should realize that.\n-Duo
647123
I don't think she loves her friends more than you.  She could very possibly adore you very much, but her connections to her friends may be very deep.  And there is something to be said about girlfriends.  Some women have to have their friends as sounding boards.
3672
May be ur making them feel uncomfortable and testing their patience. always be loved by people.\nso make them fell comfortable when they r with u.
489333
She is just insecure about love...If she sees that you trully love her and your not going anywhere....She will know that it is TRUE love....Good Luck!!
592401
Are you insecure? Do you feel worthy of love? Could be why you don't trust her. Or have you been hurt before. You know she loves you if you have good conversation, she listens to you and talks back. YOu have good communition and can tell each other anything. She is attentive and loving towards you, and intrested in you sexually (if you are having sex yet, you didn't say your ages). You have fun together ,and laugh together. When you are together, you feel like her mind is 100 per cent with you, and she's not distant. YOu feel important to her. She is reassuring if you need it. YOu feel totally happy in her company.
443293
I'd be nice but firm.  Tell her you enjoy her friendship and would like to continue it, but that the relationship is over and that you would like to meet other girls.  Maybe she doesn't realize she's doing this.  If she still has feelings for you, it's gonna hurt no matter how you say it, but eventually, if she's mature enough, she'll get over it and you can restart the friendship.  Good luck!
729658
Maybe in telling her that you liked  her eventually lead her into liking you. Maybe she likes you, but isn't sure if she wants a relationship with you other than being friends maybe becuase she think it will feel kind of weird with a friend or that she isn't good with relationships and doesn't want to ruin your friendship. You can try to spend more time with her to make her more comfortable around you..or something. =]
713507
it happened to me. I never talked to my former friend who told me his feelings. This happens most of the times. I think the problem is the girl starts to feel uncomfortable with you. Of course she knows that you treat her more than a friend. I think you should try to treat her like the way you treat your friends, if you want your friendship. If you want her love, then court her. Never let your fears block your way. Besides, also give her time ti think and a little more space.. Good luck!
807627
because she cares about you... u guy should really felt pround and appreciate that... only the girls that LOVEs you alot will have that kind of reaction.
131978
yeah if she stops doing whatever shes doing to talk to you. She doesnt talk to u whenever lotsa ppl are around becoz of her insecurity!Seems that u like her too...get her the point across to her and see her flinging her arms around you when all your pals are around!!!
979701
the old girl liked u a lil bit from the start but got jealous at finding out you liked a new girl so now she likes you alot. all girls are like that she was just playing hard to get at first and now she got what she deserves for not going to you haha!
276267
Okay, she doesn't love you.  If she did she'd be able to say it.  She'd also be willing to leave her primary relationship.  You appear to be merely a plaything on the side.  She probably is getting a major ego boost out of you being her puppy-dog.  If you're willing to be second-best then by all means continue the sex part of the relationship but don't expect her to tell you she loves you anytime soon.
778065
My man, either she doesn't have faith in her ability to be in a relationship, she's holding out for something else, or she doesn't know what the heck she wants.  \n\n1) She likes you as a friend, you have fun together, she doesn't want to risk that by having a relationship with you because she thinks it would end in disaster and you would not be friends any longer...\n\n2) ...or he wants to keep  you around in case she doesn't get the guy she really wants, she can use you as a backup....\n\n3) ...or she's a ditzy-brained bird who can't figure out what the heck she wants.\n\nAny way this is playing out, the girl has some stuff to work out and you'd do well not to hang your heart on her, so move on, find someone else and don't let yourself get hurt!
163749
WOW! She must really Love you if she is making sure that it is okay with you.  That is very promising.  Women can be better friends with males than females. I say you let her and then if it bothers you let her know.  It is obvious she considers what you think! Good Luck!
447015
She probably doesn't like you the way you like her. Girls (or people) who do that sometimes have difficulty confronting and handling situations. They are unable to express their feelings. Forget her. Don't worry you'll find someone else.
315607
like you- not really boyfriend forever type thing. SHe mainly just likes you for fun but it won't last long.\nbut i love you is a totally different story. When a girl says "i love you" she really means it.