How to break up with someone you love?
87557
If you love them... why are you trying to break up with them??
384423
You need to talk to him about it.  There's nothing worse than being with someone and then one day out of the blue your partner drops a bomb on you, saying they don't love you anymore and it's over.  If they had no idea something wasn't working because you never discussed it with them, it makes it 100 times harder for them to deal with the break-up and get over it/you.  It's not fair.  Do the mature, adult thing.
268683
You can tell him that you dont feel the same way anymore. you can stop calling him and seeing him until he gets the message. you dont return his messages. you tell him that you think it is not working out the way you wanted it to be. you write him a letter/email telling him of all the things you want in the relationship that is not there. you tell him of the things that he did/did not do that hurt you. you tell him the reasons why you think splitting up is better for the both of you.
4813
I just brok up with my bf... and I just told him straight up. Just say something like " I have a few things on my mind that I need to tell you with out interuptions..." And tell her what your are unhappy with and then when you are done say something like " Our relationship is not tight like it used to be and I think we should break up. Iff we are meant to be together we will be. If you are supposed to be with me you will come back to me but if not you were never really mine."
876970
Put as much distance between the two of you as possible and try to move on.  I know it's probably the hardest thing you could possibly do right now, but the longer you let it drag on, the harder it will be.  In the end, a clean break is the best and easiest way.  Eventually you'll get over it.\n\nGood luck.
29792
You have every right to break up with them, and are making the right choice in ending it before you get married. Just tell the person that you can't marry her. There really is no easy way to say it, but you are saving both of you a huge pain by cutting it off before it starts. Good job. Most people in your situation get married, and then regret it for the rest of thier lives.
700216
Break up and find a different boyfriend.  By staying , you're encouraging him to stay the way he is.
1089897
Wait for them to break up and GO FOR IT!!
645044
be brutially honest with him.better to break his heart than to make yourself miserable by staying with him.
371222
Tell him "Hey, I'm breaking up with you".  Simple enough.
721266
it tough when you love someone but then letting go is even harder, show him that you can do without him. leave and move on it will be hard at first but then it gets easier as time goes on
456826
Stop freaking. Wait at least 24 hours. Then call him with some drama. Then break up with him.
77862
Simply, stay out of contact from the person u love for about 3 or 4 days . . if u r in luv >>u will really know well ....
227768
How you break up with your boyfriend is entirely upto you.  You must realize that it has to be done.  Now, when you do should be done ASAP.  The longer you stay with him, the more it will hurt.
525365
If he's super nice, why do you want to break up with him?  Make sure you're 100% sure.  After you're positive you want to break up with him, the best way would be to tell him straioght out.  he probably wouldn't appreciate games.  You might break his heart, but it's better than staying with him and being miserable while he tries frantically to find out what's wrong.
873860
well, you can call her, sweety...talk to her about things that's been going on, but don't go anywhere near the break-up thingy...\n\nthen invite her out for coffee, and have a nice time joking, telling stories as such...\n\nthen when you think the time is ready, ask her if she wants to rekindle the love with you...\n\nif she says no, then at least stay as friends...\n\nmaybe God has something else planned for you two...
1128024
put an end of this relationship if it hurts you this way...seriously...try to get your life back...simply tell him "I want to break up. I can not stand anymore of your "friend to talk with"...I do not like secrets, there should not be any secrets between us...try to learn something from this...bye  bye forever"...and really bye-bye...or else you would live like this forever...my friend lives like that...and I know how you feel...for your own good, let him forever, he will not change, trust me...I am a little hard on you, you do not know me, but I do want to help you and all women that live like this...YOU DESERVE a person that is devoted to you, that adores you, that tells you everything that happens to him, that lives for you (and you for him, of course)...you would like this, don't you?...I thought so...you just need some courage...