what happens if the only i love stops loving me... or never did? how will i know?
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i have the same problem but i knew he didnt love me no more cuz he told me and he also showed me well he showed me he never did by always fuckin around with other bitches and callin me out of my name he also quite sayin he loved me he would act like i was never there so maybe if the person u love has done any of this then maybe he dont its hard to hear the true but hey life goes on
832676
you know her better than anyone. go get her, but your powerless if she has stopped loving you. :-(. what a sad situation for you, i hope it is all a mid life crisis and hope she comes to her senses and realises how much you miss her! good luck! if you know where she is write her a letter
181162
Never.\nThere is passionate love and companionate love.\nPassionate love fades.  Companionate love grows.
427042
falling out of love. or rather the other person falling out of love with me.
536380
You never will.\n\nWe never truly know if anyone loves us, hates us or exactly how they feel.  We only know what they tell us (which can be a lie) or how they act (which can also be manipulation).\n\nHowever, a good start is when they hang out with you a lot and don't do things to hurt you.  That would probably be an indication they like you.  As to how to know when they love you...the former answer is correct...when they say they do.  But you can never truly know, sadly.
684319
Some feelings never go away..\n\nBut if she loves him i could not this you can tell by the way she acts.
741468
Well maybe you loved her and you didn't even noticed it before,and now you are truly feeling for it,but there is only one thing you can do,go talk to her about because we never know,what if she loved you but never said anything?Maybe she gave up on you and found somebody else...Good luck
260315
No. move on you may find someone you really love and that really loves you!! Someone may be waiting for you to move on.
870844
I've never stopped loving anyone I've been in love with.\n\nThat said, some relationships just are not healthy. I just left one 10 months ago, even though I was in love with them and they were in love with me.\n\nIt has been extremely hard dealing with. I still have to be around them at the dojo, which makes it much worse.\n\nTime does make things better. I can now talk pleasantly with one of them. The other may too, someday.\n\nIt still hurts, but not as much as it did. I still would like to go back to them, but the reasons I left haven't changed.\n\nSo I just deal with it, day by day.
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well i don't know if it's possible but u can find out...just separate from both of them for a while and see whom u miss most...then if u miss both of them the same it means u love both of them or none of them
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That collides.\n\nIts like positive charges meets negative charges. Not a really good mix. It may go so really pointless at the end and you probably just wasting your time.\n\nBut if you still hate him/her, but at the same time, you still love him/her, then that could be a true love or you are made for each other. God Knows.
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If someone genuinely loves you they will not try to own you.  They will encourage you to do whatever makes you happy.  They won't smother you with their love because love isn't about possession, it's about letting someone free to find what makes them happy.  Genuine love is very rare but you will know the differece when you see it.x
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Sweetie...what would be the point of continuing the relationship?\n\nYou would en up being miserable in the end and when that happens you will say to yoruself, "Why didn't I just leave when he said he no longer loved me?"  This just saves you some time and gets you on the road to recovering from this relationship faster.
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When love is absent, Ann, then the relationship is over. Is there never any sharing? Has all meaningful conversation stopped? Has physical comfort ended? Is sex just functional? Has the smiling stopped? These are all signs.
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I think that you need to talk to her about it.  I know what it is to feel like your going to lose the one you love. The real question is, is it worth it being with someone that doesn't love you the way you love them? Talk to her.  Go to counseling.  You might discover that she does love you and that there is a way to build that love up.  I wish you the best.  Good luck!
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if it is true love u  will feel something in ur heart and something suprising would surely happen . Either the person is missing u will call or u'll call the person
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Yes you can.... and no, it is not something that happens to everyone because not everyone has been in your shoes.\n\nThis is probably happening to you because you ARE in love with him. Does he know how you feel about him? Do you feel like he needs to know? How does he feel about you?\n\nCould you be feeling this way because you were/are hoping for more? And maybe you feel like more could have been said or done while he was there? \n\nCommunication is the key Hon.\n\nJust a few things to think about