has anyone ever fell in love witha sociopath and managed to make it work/?
81013
I've been married for 7 years.
264631
No, but I have been in love with three people at the same time.\n\nMe, myself and I.\n\nha ha \n\nSorry, bad joke I know.  I will take care of it - hitting self repeatedly over the head with baseball bat.
887955
I think it's possible, though I've only experienced love once, and it wasn't that kind. I've always held onto hopes of finding a love like that, and I've seen some friends who appear to have that type, though in the end, everything seems to end.
827038
Unfortunately yes.  I dated this person for a while and  I met his family.  They were totally dysfunctional, loud, crass and crude.  When he was around them he behaved like a lunatic.  But when he was alone with me he was a different person.  It was a Dr Jekyll and Mr. Hyde thing.  So i called it quits.  It was too much for me.
625859
Yes. Three times and I married two of them. One got away. The first one I married and I didn't really realize how much I loved her until she cheated on me and we got divorced. She was a mix of things good/bad, bithc/angel, honest/liar. I never really ever figured her angle out. She lost her way. I feel bad about things went between she and I. The past is the past.\n\nThe second, I never married her or even had relations with her, but I suspect that I loved her the day I saw her walking down the street. I remember it almost like it happened yesterday, but it was almost 20 years ago. I said that I had to meet her, I met her, we went out on a date, and it never worked out like I wanted. We became very good friends but she never felt the same way about me. \n\nThe third, is my friend, my wife and the mother of my son. I love her dearly and would do anything for her.
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I have.  We met through an internet dating site.  We corresponded through email at first, then on the phone, and a short time later we met in person.  Not long after, we fell in love.\n\nI have every reason to believe this relationship is going all the way.  House, marriage, kids...  and he would agree completely.\n\nHere's some tips if you're seeking love through the net:  \n-Be completely honest.  \n-Don't waste time pretending to be someone or something you're not.  \n-If the person you're chatting with doesn't seem to be everything you're looking for, don't waste time giving them a chance (I know it sounds mean, but how much time do you have to waste anyway?)\n\nNever settle for anything less than what you deserve.
896803
Did you ever talk to him about it?\n\nCommucation is the key.
409182
Yes i think its possible....Its your own love, people cant decide your feelings for you.\n\ngood luck
1163472
It is quite possible that a relationship between two people with completely different personalities can not only work, it can be a fantastic relationship! The key is whether or not the couple can learn to not only appreciate, but cherish their individual differences. Most likely that is what attracted them to their partner initially. Each should know their own strengths & weaknesses and the stronger partner in specific instances should have their strengths utilized.
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I have many a times!\nEither the relationship gets boring as hell, or the pace of it is moving too damn slow!
1062197
yes i do.  I found mine.  He keeps me grounded and is a partner in every sense of the word.  Yours is out there and will probably come around when you least expect it.
304948
I think it is possible.  When I first met my wife, I fell head over heels in love with her.  She is everything to me and I want nothing else and nobody else.  She is a treasure.  I'm sure that, at some point in your life, you will find someone you feel the same about and will feel that way about you.  Hang in there!
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im not so sure its possible. i mean you could love certain qualities about that person but you dont really know them as a person. you havent ever spent time with them you havent had time to build a relationship. you might like to look at them and drool over them but i really dont think your in love with them.
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I do!!!  Tried everything including counseling but nothing worked except no talking for almost 3 years.  She did all kinds of stupid things that almost killed my kids.  She tried to break us up for no reason. I was nothing but nice to her but didn't let her control me.  We started as best friends until we had kids and she couldn't control our life.
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I'm sorry, but it is clear to me that you have a self image problem.  You want him solely because you can't get him and you have dropped out of school because of him.\n\nYou are intelligent enough to realize the underlining problem.  Are you mature enough to act appropriately?\n\nIf he stayed with you, knowing how you feel, he would probably (human nature) take advantage of you and there is a very good possibility that he would sexually and physically abuse you.  This would further decrease your self image.\n\nSTOP NOW!\n\nIf you can not do it yourself, seek professional help.  This is not to belittle you.  I am impressed that you recognized the problem and am taking steps to seek help.\n\nWhat I did in a similiar situation was to recall something stupid that the person did and everytime I found myself thinking about that person I would force myself to recall the stupid things that person did.  After repeatedly laughing about the stupidity (we all do stupid things) of the person I found myself free of my self imposed connection to the person.\n\nI have since found a person that I truly love and who loves me.  The person respects me (and I respect myself) for whom I am.\n\nRemember everyone, no matter who they are, have good qualities.  You are a very special person.  No one else is exactly like you.  If you thought about it you would realize all that you contribute to the world through the people you know and those you don't realize you know.\n\nRemember the movie "While you were sleeping" with Sandra Bullock.  She was a ticket taker on the subway.  She convinced herself that she loved a man who did not know she existed, but in the end, she found her true love who loved her.\n\nBest of luck.
6955
Well it is tricky.. but you can fall in love with what this person seems to represent but once face to face the are several new details to enter in to equation including physical and personal characteristics and habits...things are different up front..so true love?...nope.
502923
yes i have...there has been times that all you want is someone to be with..and you kinda know you cant have that right now...it sucks to thinks about the fact that you may not have someone for a while..and you wonder what you can do to change that..i dont think a person can survive without love..and compassion...it is what makes the world go round...you need that shoulder to lean on when things go wrong or get bad..and when you have someone it takes a whole lot more time to heal than if you had that shoulder..so yep..i know what you are talking about..when you get skin hungry all i can say if feed that appetite baby!!