why does my special friend lie about who he went away  on vacation with?
81244
People lie to you because they don't want you to know the truth...
724933
Maybe you can talk to him and try and get him to tell you what he did without telling him what you did.For example: tell him you did something and it's really bothering you...He'll most likely say what...Tell him I rather not say..Say I don't know have you ever done something wrong and wish you didn't.If he says no keep the questions going..Like you never done anything you regreted or you never done anything your ashamed of.If he tells you then tell him your feelings on the matter. And make him promise he'll never do it again...Tell him he can go to jail.He'll most likely want to hear what your problem is and make up something say you lied to a friend and you want to be an honest friend one who is trust worthy.Technically it's true because your not coming out and telling him the truth about what you found out
725735
If its like an IM game where he has to accept or decline, you can't tell, sometimes things get declined because you lose your internet connection for a few seconds, or they do.\n\nIf you trust your friend, believe him until he proves otherwise.
1093866
Your friend may not be around when you are - you friend may have forgotten to change her status to away.  As far as the web cam and mike is concerned, your friend has to give you permission to see her
368041
Believe her for the time being. If she says nothing is between them, nothing is between them BUT be aware because something is BOUND to happen because she is not telling you everything. While she's sneaking and lying to you, YOU have a decision to make. She's either your friend or she isn't. This has nothing to do with your "ex" because he is your ex, this is a friend who crossed the line and she must be dealt with. I'm not saying that you have to fight with her but you have to realize, this might be the first time and it might not be the last time she does this. BUT please before you react, give her the benefit of the doubt, let her decide which is more important, her friendship to you or some guy.
42471
The damage is done - you've already ****** him, so now you need to have some respect for your friend and tell her the truth. You're too worried about what she'll say to YOU, and how YOU'll feel. . . when what you should really be concerned about is how she's going to take the fact that you've been lying behind her back for the past while. Just fess up already - you'll BOTH feel a lot better in the end about it.
88673
I suppose that your friend knows that you got in trouble?\nThen your friend made two mistakes.\nIf they were a true friend, they would not let you take the blame. Therefore, if they fail to come forward and take the blame away from you, it is safe to say that they were not your "friend" in the first place and you would be well within your right to set the record straight.
1081580
you have to be upfront and honest with him and the sooner the better.  if he is a true "good friend" he will not get upset with you telling him the truth and asking him to tell everyone he lied about you being the girlfriend.  maybe you are leading him on and dont even know it.  ask him what would give him the impression that you wanted to be more than friends and apolgize for that. make sure he understands that you don't want to ruin the friendship but you dont want him spreading rumors either....
818603
That'a a hard one. Is he known for lying in the past? It's good to have trust, but we careful you don't get hurt and mislead.
36338
If you're SURE, then absolutely!  Your friend may be in denial for awhile, may not want to hear it, but if you're a true friend you have a responsibility to be honest and truthful.  In the long run your friend is going to be glad you didn't let this go on any longer.
488182
Undeniably your trust has been broken. The best way to go about it is to turn your secret around. You can do this by entering the "No big deal" attitude! By convincing yourself that your secret is really not that big a deal you will transpire that idea. If your secret becomes just an ordinary fact, than it loses its power.\nAs for your friend you cannot hold any grudges because after all she didn't really tell anything important. Just remember she is not to be trusted and that sometimes people make mistakes.
642739
First things first, you have to find out the truth about what happened. Then you make them feel guilty by saying something like "Why would you lie to me about that?" or "How could you not trust me with the real truth?" (That one might work better... lol). Then you don't talk to them for a while and let him/her sweat it out a little bit, and when they ask you why you aren't talking to them simply say "I'm sorry, but I cannot be friends with someone who is going to lie to me." Then when they apologize, say to them "It's ok, but it's going to take me a while to trust you again". That will make them feel really guilty and they won't want to lie to you again... but that's only if they care about you a lot. Good luck... I hope you and your friend make up soon. :)
648500
well for a start,a real friend would'nt lie...my belief is tell the truth and shame the devil..you get nowhere lying,and your in big troublewhen the truth comes out..i have a policy where my kids or friends get told,the worst thing anyone could do to me is lie...its a trust thing :o)
878453
Tell him in the kindest way you can if you are a true friend you will stand by him and help him understand she is a cheat why was he baby sitting while she was out partying anyway?He sounds a nice guy don't let him be deceived by her.
1151619
No you don't have to tell him. What you did during your break is your business and your business alone. \n\nHowever, know there is the possibility that he will ask. And by not answering or lying you will reveal more about your relationship than you might care to admit. \n\nAlso know that he may find out one day. People talk and you'd be surprised how small the world really is. He'll not only learn the truth but also learn that you kept it from him. \n\nI, personally. am always skeptical of relationships that have breaks, but that's just me. A lack of trust is hardly going to do wonders for your relationship now that you're back together, especially since you've already decided to part at least once.\n\nBut as I've said, you don't *have* to tell him.
904886
My best friend is an excellent liar, he's lied to me so many times that I reallly don't think that I will ever know just how much he's lied to me.  The good thing is that I know the way he is now so I now know not to trust him immediately.  In the back of my mind there is always the thought that he could be lying to me.  So I simply don't trust him any more.   I don't know if this helped you or not.  If other people see your friend as a liar then it might be true.  Just go with your gut feeling.
690279
Have a mutual friend ask him about it without letting him know you were behind it. You don't want to scare him away if he's a good friend.