my woman is impressed by another man how do i get her back?
96889
Just ask her whom does she love more. If her answer is "you" ask her to forget the other guy or at most just talk to him as a friend. But if her answer is "him" tell her to "go to hell" and u 2 leave her. There is no way u can get her back as this will spoil ur,her and the other guys life.
346003
hmm... she sounds a bit nuts. you certainly aren't the crazy one!! maybe now though, that she has 3 names to pick from, she likes yours best. \n\nshe might be doing it to spite the other guy. or maybe of the two husbands he has had, she sees you as being better and maybe wants you back, (at the moment, i'm sure not deep down. certainly do not go back to her!!).
1012285
Give the man some time.\nhe only needs to trust you. He feels like he could go through hell again to try and feel the best thing in the world. You need to prove to him that you really care and you are not like this other girl. Do the things you want out of him and I can promise you everything will fall into place.
271160
If I was you I wouldn't take her back. If she did it the first time, shes gonna do it again!. Find a real woman that will respect you and love you. You sound like a good guy, You deserve better!!I always think if you are not sure about something, don't do it.. SHE WORTH'S NOTHING! Trust Me!\n\nGood Luck. Hope you find the right one :)
20887
Ask her if she would feel more comfortable having a 3rd GUY there, instead of your fantasy of having another woman.  She just might say yes!
261032
You've blown it man. She won't trust you now. Let this be a learning curve.\nBelieve me, you have more fun keeping your mouth shut.
416002
Move on brother, she has found someone else, oh ya, do not attempt to get an explanation out of her because it will never come and you will only end up humiliating yourself.\n\nTime to be a man and suck it up, besides, look at your ages, did you really think it was going to last forever, ha. You will get you heart broken plenty more times in the coming years so learn from this and move on. Peace.
562055
email her back and tell her that you can accept that even though you dont think she should be seeing this other guy because you are more handsome and sexier,she will like that then finish the email with a line that goes like this i guess now i am free to date again,catch up with you and ill write soon to see how all is going,you will have her in a rage of jelousy it wont be long untill she writes to youand says things didnt work out
245954
Be honest with her.  Just ask her if there is something going on. Don't be mad at her, but you as a boyfriend have a right to know if there is anything going on with her and another man.  Tell her that you love her and don't want anything to happen between you 2 but you just need to know because you are feeling uncomfortable with things without knowing.
295652
Her and her other men?
575416
You can't! You blew it! Time to move on. A woman will forgive, but she will never forget. Neither should you and next time you meet someone you really care about, consider not doing things that will make her not trust you.
331346
First analyze what made you break up.  Has enough time passedc for both of you to realize what each of you have done to damage this relationship and make changes to yourselves?  \n\nMaybe she is not aware that you want her back.  Once you have thought long and hard about it, sit her down and tell her how you feel.  Let her know that you repect her dating someone else, but you know you two will be together again and you will wait patiently for her.  This will not only flatter her but also instill doubt in her mind about the person she is with.\n\nAfter that, just be patient and kind to her and treat her with respect and consideration.  Be her friend and listen to her.  Be there for her.  Don't let he take advantage of you, but be the one she can turn to.  Sooner or later she will realize that she loves you still, also.
291098
Dear Friend,  A woman is going to love you, ONLY if she feels it in her heart. You can impress her and make her have good feelings and thoughts about you, but you can't make another person love you. They have to feel that all on their own.
898935
Sounds like you are being used.  Love can be blinding.  You need to let her go, she is not the only woman in the world.  But if you keep treating her as "Ms. Universe" she will keep treating you the same way.  You said she is obsessed with another guy.  Let her go because you are obsessed with her.  Maybe if the other guy hurts her, then she will rebound to you, but any man with pride would leave hear alone under any circumstances.  But if you love her and you can't live without her, tell her and if she decides she wants the other guy, let her go!!!
245840
i have been in the same situation, but it takes time and you being honest to her. you will eventually get the trust back
173579
First of all, you need to step back and take a look at this situation. If she left you for another man after only 4 months of marriage, she wasn't as committed as you thought she was. It would be an embarrassment to you if you were to buy her a gift to get her to come back, and would be totally ruthless of her to accept it. If she wasn't committed enough to make it work after only 4 months, she isn't going to be any more committed if she were to come back home. I'm sorry to sound cruel, but I was in a marriage that ended because of my ex's infidelity. I tried to work it out with him, but he only broke my heart more by messing around with other women when he came back. My suggestion is that you should cut your losses, and let the divorce go through, and find a woman who TRUELY loves you unconditionally! Good Luck!
161996
Give her an extra unexpected compliment. I believe some of the best compliments come from a look, a touch, or even a naughty smile when she has on less clothes and may feel less pretty. Men lose weight faster then women anyway so the both of you should find something she can do that may help speed up her weight loss. Be supportive, but let her know how you feel and that you are in this together, it's not a race and in the end you both will be winners. At this point you are starting to look different and she may not be at that point yet. It's hard for the both you, talk and try to make things eaiser.