Tuck everlasting--effect: miles' wife left him. cause: ??? help please!!!?
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I do - Miles' wife left him because she thought he was crazy.  She and their children were aging but he and the animals weren't (doesn't the cow live after getting shot or something?).  She doesn't want her children exposed to his insanity so she takes them and leaves.  I hope you enjoyed the book!
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Well it sounds like he has already emotionally abandoned the relationship, so who is to blame you for phyiscally abandoning the relationship?  I think you should do it before he leaves, though.  His running away (literally!) is really just a passive-agrressive way of forcing you to make a decision and be the "bad guy" for leaving when he's gone.  What a wimp!  Demand closure now, before he goes so you can get on with your life and tie up any loose legal entanglements.  You don't want him running up huge debts on his world-wide jaunt that you will be paying off, either.  What a selfish bastard!
767131
Bend over and take it up the A$$ just like you made her. After your butt has been split wide open like hers was, go to a marriage counselor and see if there's any thing left in your marriage.
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Did I ever....had a friend that I wanted as more than a friend.  My friend moved out of state,  and we kept in touch my telephone for about two years.  Through a couple more moves on his part and some on mine,  we lost touch, for three yrs.  I connected with a  friend of his and found out he'd be in town,  so we made plans to see one another,  only to have a blizzard cancel plans,  he flew out of town the next morning.  When he got home,  he told me on the phone that he'd been in love with me for the last five years or more.  Time goes by,  we lose connection again,  but for FIVE years this time.  We've now been reconnected by phone and internet for about four or five years.  He begs me to move accross the country with him (even with my five kids, lol, he must have it bad, huh??lol).  I told him he should've said something while he lived here,  but he thinks I should've been the one to say it.  Just one of those things that makes ya wonder????What if????  The bad thing about missing the chance,  is that I know we would've been perfect for eachother.  The good thing is that I am in a happy marriage with five wonderful children.  Regretfully,  there's just no way to ever know,  leaving me with more "wonder" than I really care to have sometimes.
370008
For a minute I thought I was reading my journal...take it from me..I've been there...and I did give up...I gave up on looking for something that's just not there. We talked and I told him it just seemed to good to be true...but that's just it it is too good and you have to realize you are worth all the devotion he is giving you. He sounds like he may really be a good guy and if you keeping flipping out..he will leave..my man almost left me and we were in the same predicament, living together and he did everything right but b/c I had been hurt before I looked for the stuff my ex used to do and never found it...STOP IT!! before you lose the man that may really be for you!!! good luck and take my advice sweetie!!
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Now what exactly is she unhappy with?  My guess is she's not giving you the full story.  Did she suddenly decide that a married life and the responsibilities that go with it, is not what she wanted in the first place?  Was she upset with you because you were gone and she was feeling lonely?  Is there another man in the picture?  If you are even going to try to save your marriage, you need to do a heart to heart talk with her and find out what she wants out of the marriage.  If she wants out, then I guess she has made her choice.  Not much you can do about it then.
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I like this...it's what makes the marriage work. LOL\nThey both have a problem with short term memory loss. So they both forgot what it was they wanted. I got the impression that the wife would have been unhappy with whatever he brought home. Like if he brought home potatoes and sour cream; she would have said, "You forgot the chives." Just because she didn't remember what she had asked for originally. But then again, neither did he. \nGood use of a dangling modifier!!
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Because he's a jerk, just like my ex! If he's doing it now, he'll never change! I lived through that for 12 years before I got the courage to finally cut my losses. (We were married for 4 1/2 years, and was together for another 8 years after that..if you want to call it "together") I'm better off now, because I have a very loving husband who would go to the ends of the earth for me!
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I thank you for the quick reply, but you did read it cafefully, I never ever cheated on her! I lyed and stole from her, she says she still loves me and I'm truely hate myself for what i've done to her and our marriage. I love with so much love I would do anything to save this. But i'm here doin this myself lookin for alittle help. thank you!
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Why do you think he married Jessica in the first place? And why do you think they are now getting divorced? He realized her career was taking off and his still sucked and he couldn't put up with the stupidity anymore since he wasn't getting anything out of it!
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Didn't go say goodbye to a good friend/ex boyfriend when he moved out of state.  It was only a 2 hour drive for me, but I just didn't feel like it.  All the sap and drama.  Yuck!  But now I regret it.  He hasn't called me since.  I miss him.
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I used to practically beg my ex-husband for it... then, after I asked for a divorce, he told me that he was watching movies every night after I went to bed.  (I had no clue & felt so dumb!)  He said that it was because when he was with me it didn't last long (it didn't, maybe 15-20 seconds).  When he, um, took matters into his own hands, he could prolong matters and it felt better.  Then he asked for my help.  It opened the door of communication, I helped with "exercises", but we still divorced.  I was emotionally over him and just drained.  I felt like he lied to me for too many years and he was being selfish.  Don't wait.  Get help now, before it's too late....  What a waste!  We both enjoyed sex - it could have been so much better.
1074234
lmao!! Good for your wife!! I hope that this has taught you a very IMPORTANT lesson!! DONT CHEAT!
189658
Just because she asks for space doesn't mean its over, she just has to find peace with her insights about you. you should still call her and go see her and love her. maybe even going to see a marriage council may help. and yes they do offer help to engaged couples. to make her more at ease about you, invite her out with you and your friends and anything she needs to find peace. but still give her her space. If all else fails and problems seem to get worse, maybe it wasn't meant to be babe. all will work out in the end and good luck in your relationship, you deserve a good lady by your side!!! :P
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Actually she divorced him, she was on Oprah a few weeks ago talking about it all.  They did not split because of Sheryl Crow. His first wife said that she lost who she was after getting married and having kids, that she wasn't the same person anymore, she was just Lance's wife.
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most likely the reason man and woman became separate beings is that Adam couldn't get along with him self. his internal voice kept nagging at him. LOL
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How long were ya'll married? Getting over a spouse is hard. Sounds to me that it wasnt you wanting to end the marriage. I know I struggled with it for almost five years trying to get over my ex. Dont look like it would have been hard seeing how he left me for a woman 26 yrs older than us when I was 3 months pregnant with our youngest son and he got remarried when i was 6 months pregnant with him. The way I finally done it was by not letting him know that things bothered me! If we had to be some where at the same time I was very friendly and nice. Then I decided to move on and that really got to him. If your with someone a long time its hard not to recall memories. So start by going SHOPPING!!! Go and buy you a new wardrobe one that you picked out...some new cologne. Hint Very Sexy for men by Victoria Secret is a good choice!! If you ever need advice or just someone to listen you can reach me on im at melissa_4573.