am I wrong to break it off with him?
92452
in opinion,  do what's right for you. there's no right or wrong answers. it how to feel about the whole situation. don't doubt your intuition.
767092
break up with him and go with me
146533
Well, if you don't want to break up the only suggestion I have is talk to him about it. If he is in love or even if he just cares about you he'll understand what your needs are and be more considerate of you.
1167007
I would have broken up with him by now. If he can't be bothered making an effort to be with you, he's just using you. Why should you be the only one willing to work on this relationship. It takes two. Get rid of him and wait for someone who will treat you right.
388353
i know it's tempting to hurt him like that, but you will regret it in the future. just tell him you're leaving him and don't go into details.
513919
I think there has never been a concept of 'right time' in break ups. You just say it and he takes it as a man. There are few exceptions such as that he loses a loved one or his job and is devastated, it is better for you both to wait a little!
789379
ok yeyyy, if theres something that happens alot to me, thats getting dumped lol, but at 2 1/2 moths your still in the safe zone of saying you just don't like himt hat way, but honestly if he puts his friends first he probably won't be to heart broken, al you have to do when you break up with a guy is be honest say whats wrong, and then say and because of this, i don't think we should go out anymore, give the problem, then break up, then walk away, he might be stuned for a few min, but then he be glad you where honest..... because honesty is valued, if you leave for a guy admit it, we find out later and it only hurts more, i mentioned that to state honesty to break up with a guy will be the only way to do it, tell him why, and thats the easyest way
254078
Leave his @ss...if it's weird and doesn't feel right, then that's not a relationship you need to be in. Just because you've been together for 2 years doesn't mean you have to stay together for old times sake. If he keeps leaving, this time you be the strong woman and walk away. Trust me, Honey, I know. I did it and I am much better for it. You may love him, but he obviously is not treating you the way you deserve to be treated and you need to cut your losses and get out.
772870
You have to get your priorities straight.  Do you want to be with him or the other guys.  If you want to go out with someone else, it's better to break it off than to string him along and hurt him.  If you just want him, tell the others to leave you alone.
211348
Say NO. And, if he continues to pressure you, you may need to break it off. He should be satisfied with holding your hand, spending time with you, and building the foundation for a great future together.
273601
some things are better left unsaid so just break it off with you'll live in boyfriend and tell him that it's not working out anymore and tell the next guy you made a big mistake but now you know that you only want to be with him and him only
761299
if you have already talked to him about the problems you are having (you should have already if you havent) then tell him that, the reason you are breaking up with him is because of those problems, and nothing has changes. be honest with him dont be too hard but dont be too easy. if your with someone you dont want to be with then end it the longer your together the harder it will hurt.
614163
depends on how you feel about him.  if you love him, then continue, but if you're sort of iffy about this whole relationship, cut it off.  it's best to listen to your instinct
148042
There is no good way to break up with a person. No matter what,  if the person still cares for you, they will be hurt. My advice would be to either call him, write to him or go and see him and be as honest with him as possible. Give him the reason why you wish to break up, tell him you are sorry and then end either the call, letter or visit. If you can remain friends that is always the best.
325767
Either you are having problems or you are not.  If you are having problems in your relationship, he may have thought of breaking up with you, and you will actually be doing him a favor by doing it for him.  If you are not having problems, you can fix them or leave him.  If you fix them, you will not need to break up with him.  If you leave him, there is only one way to do it.  Do it quickly.  Do not let him talk you into keep on trying and just one more week, or one more dance, or one more anything.  It will just make it harder on BOTH of you.... It will be prolonging the pain when at the end of the one more whatever, you have to break up with his still / or again.
858832
Hey everybody gots there limit and he reach yours. there's nothing wrong with that. you bf is a pig, not was, IS. I don't think it's a question of right or wrong it's about your standers and u have that right as a human being. we all have to draw the line in the sand sometime. on the other hand if u really love him and he loves u and your thinking of getting back. he going to have to change all of that or your just going to break up with him again. sometimes telling a person once, they just  don't get it but maybe he will try the second time and if that don't work  then you know  he not going to change anything.
304567
U sould break up with the guy. but it is not your fault if u didn'i even no he was with someone else. Just be another b/f and every thing will be ok. Just try not to go out with someome like that.