i love my boyfriend so much but i nver want to have sex any more.what's wrong with me?
82968
Is it that you're not attracted or just not in the mood for it anymore?  If you're not attracted to him then maybe it's time to call it quits.  And honey you can still love your man...even an ex...but ask yourself this, are you still IN love with him?  Ponder that and when you have your answer then take whatever road your answer gives you.  In not, leave, if so and you have no sex drive then maybe get in to see your gynocologist and they can do a hormone level check.  Some women just need hormones for this kind of problem.
596758
Honey, I am 28 yrs. and have been with my fiance for a total of 10 years now. In the beginning, we did have more sex than we do now. How long have you two been together? I totally disagree that it means you are not in love with him. I have more love for my man every year that passes by, even though now we aren't intimate like before. Sure, we love to be with eachother, it's just not the most important thing on our list to do. We have grown to be totally comfortable with that and it doesn't mean there is something wrong...that's my opinion anyways. You should try new and exciting things, even if it is just a laugh with eachother.
249937
Oh my! What's wrong with you? You're not suppose to do that. It's cheating.Maybe, you no longer love your husband. For us women love is essential to have sex because in that way we express our feelings specially to the husband. Those other guys you had sex with were not your husband and the deed was just because of lust. Come to think of it, What if your husband would do the same thing you're doing right now? Can you bear that? Fix your relationship with your husband and everything will be okay. One more thing, you didn't marry just for sex alone, right? There's more than sex in a relationship specially when you're already married. It's more about love, companionship and exploring yourself through your partner and the other way around.
705143
i was in the SAME situation recently! SERIOUSLY just have some fun together! A relationship doesn't have to be based on Sex! Are you two passionate with each other or get butterflys around each other? then you are more than friends....if not they you are JUST friends!
499138
Look you are in teens. Your body is like a shiny new car and works well with lots of hormones... Enjoy it whilst it lasts.\n\nYou are not bad.\n\nPlus you are affectionate... Its similar to when you get a new toy and want to play with it alot.\n\nCould be your diet or too many hormones...\n\n\nBasically is your boyfriend complaining ?\n\nenjoy it
499758
Ouch!  sorry, but that's not very often.  All couples are different, but compatibility extends to the bedroom too.  when I'm in a relationship, I like to at least three times a week.  I think that you should talk to him, and find out either why he doesn't want to have sex more often, or if he's willing to step it up a bit...
607541
I'm assuming you mean that sex isn't as much a part of your relationship as it used to be? That's the way it goes with relationships, at first you can't keep your hands off each other, but after a few months that calms down. The only way to keep that "new love" frequency it to get a new love every 4-6 months. Your alternative is to stick with the love you have now, and be happy that your relationship is morphing into something more substantial than mere physical desire.
552534
You have to decide is this forever problem.. or a "Im just not feeling it" problem.\n\nIs the root of the problem.. you.. him... outside inclunces.\n\nIf you are not feeling it.. and then not being there for him in the bedroom.. things will become damaged.\n\nMen very very often equate love to sex.  Right or wrong.. its a reality.   If you are able to share yourself with him, then you will at least give him a belief that things are ok.\n\nIf you think the problem is not a forever, then I would recommend having relations..but also let him know there is a problem.. and try to work with him about it.\n\nIf you think its all over, then stop the sex and get yourself out the door to move things to where youw ill be happy.\n\nIts better for him and its better for you.  You don't want to be feeling like a "whore" having sex with someone you do not love just for a life.  (Please understand I am not saying you should feel like that.. but that is the natrual next feeling).
333975
WOW. You really have to think... is this guys "small problem" something you want to live with? To me it sounds like you already know the answer. Sex has its part in a relationship and no matter how big of a part you want it do be, (no pun intended) it is still there. If you are not satisfied then keep him as a playmate (maybe he can perform good in "other" ways), but keep your options open. If your not happy, your not happy. So don't BS your self.
175482
What do you mean what should you do?  Is there a real question here or are you wanting people to 'judge you' for this behavior?  My Answer - talk to a counselor or a Priest to find out why you are seeking sex as a replacement for love, because you are not old enough to experience love.  PLEASE go get some help!
176691
I presume you dont like to have sex? But you both are in Love? Am I right?\n\nThen you need to see a Shrink (doc). \n\nYou need to know that the guy obviously cannot live with you knowing that there is no sex between you both. So do him a favour and find out why u dont like sex... \n\nIm sure you will find a solution to this and your love life will be more interesting and rewarding...\n\n.:Fishie:.
1064553
Well if you guys keep having the same discussion and aren't resolving anything or are not willing to resolve anything than maybe it is time to part ways. Especially if they are things that are important to each of you and you are not willing to compromise. But if you can't grow from this than maybe you have reached the end of your relationship. \n\nBut if you want the relationship you two need to compromise. You are going to have intiatie sex more often or be willing to have sex. If you don't want to have sex think about why? Is it not pleasureable? Are you bored with it? If you are bored think of ways to spice it up. He'll have to compromise by trying to let you in on his thoughts. He needs to understand why he can't share or why he can't trust you with his thoughts? \n\nIf you are both truly willing to make your relationship work and compromise you can get over it. But if either or you don't want to than you need to end it.\n\nMy boyfriend of over two years had this issue about six months ago. It took of month of me growing up a bit and him to work out whatever issues he had and we are still together stronger than ever.
259732
You should just move on, while you are with him you might be missing out on the right man for you. It sounds like you and your boyfriend aren't really in the relationship anymore anyway, you're settling, you're just in it because it is comfortable.
359803
If you love him don't leave him but you do need to find out why you are having these feelings.  I think alot of people go through stressful times and become uninterested in sex.  It is also possible you may be having some hormonal issues.  If the problem doesn't get fixed soon though he may start to have a wandering eye.  I hope everything works out for you.\n\nGood luck and God Bless!  :)
630446
Explain to your boyfriend how intense your feelings for him are. My guess is he feels the same way that you do. Trust me if they guy loves you and you and him are both ready for sex hes not gonna turn down an oppurtunity...or u 2 could take a road trip to a snowy area and have sex there...tht could always work 2 :)
395443
well one of 3 things could be the source of the problem 1. he doesnt actually care about sex all that much and is just happy being with you 2. feels insecure in bed 3. just might not beable to keep up with or sex drive. just let it lay things will change plus only 4 months in a relationship dont let sex rule the relationship cuz then it will fall apart
993988
Well have you asked him if that's all he wants with you?  I mean, yes, a lot of guys would really like sex... but a lot of guys also want a serious relationship... I'm thinking most people are into both... If he loves you, he might just think that it would be the natual progression to start having sex soon, because it IS a very intimate and personal experience that people want to share with someone they really care about...