i love my boyfriend but i like this other guy what should i do and i'm only 13?
83503
live life to the best u can girl. im 15 and trust me you dont want to even tink about guys..THEY SUCK!\nbut if you like the other guy more....dump your b/f
576502
Okay, honey. If he really loves you, he'd choose you over the other guy. If being with him, and knowing he has someone else makes you feel that way, then he is not worth it. If it is meant to be, then it will, but BOTH of you have to want it to be. He has made it obvious that you are not priority one in his world. You seem like a lovely boy, I'm sure you can find someone just as loving and devoted as you are! Take my advice as a fruit-fly who has seen many gay relationships fall out. He. is not. worth it. Leave him, and if he wants you as badly as he says, he'll come running back and make you his only. Otherwise, you're better off without him.
1077132
This is a question that only you can answer. You have to choose, don't lead them both on. You need to choose with one you like more and stay with him. Maybe you should take some time to think about who that is, listen to your heart.
396009
Just wait it out and do what feels right. Wait for a little bit until you know them both better, and take it from there. Don't think that you need to make a decision right this very second. Give it a bit of time.
2870
8th grade, huh?  That makes you about 12 or 13.  Hmm, I can give you an answer from the standpoint of someone about 10 yrs older...but I don't think that's what you really want.  To be brief and to the point, find a guy you like and want to be with because of who he is and not because you want ppl to envy you and your boyfriend.  If you do like I say, ppl will envy you because you're with someone you want to be with because of who he is and what you'll have together.  If that doesn't make someone envy you then I'm as far removed from the human race as humans are to ants.  Btw, don't flaunt someone like you're talking about...you'll quickly find that you don't have that person for very long if he's really a nice guy.
1176603
you just need to follow your heart which guy do you have more feelings for and which one treats you the way you want to be treated? ? no one on here can make that choice for you. you just need to decide the one your happiest with and go with it
1137505
stay with your guy\nLike you said don't ruin your current relationship for a little crush\nThe feelings will pass
92539
If youlove your boyfriend then you stay with him but make sure that the other dude kinda knows whats up in case anything goes wrong with you current dude.  thas what i would do if i was a chick.
723812
Don't dump your boyfriend. Give it time. Eventually you might find that your boyfriend is a better man than the guy who "wasn't ready". Obviously your boyfriend had the respect and the guts to have a relationship with you. I say give him some respect and stick with him for a while. If after you give it time, you find that you are still having strong feelings for the other guy, then you should make your move of dumping one for the other. Just be cautious, and weigh all your options. Remember, you are not the only one who could get hurt. GOOD LUCK :-)
724036
dont be so push and selfish, the man does not want to commit yet, \nbut then again you feel that you are going nowhere you love him but then you are not happy with that kind of situation, so i suggest move on to the other guy,test the waters see if you can be happy with him,you and the first guy you seem to be going nowhere find someone who makes you happy,and someone who is complete when he is with you,no need to get stuck with the first guy set him free, and let him set you free
508910
This is a really hard situation.  You need to talk to the other guy and tell him how you feel.  Lay it all out on the line, so that you will know once and for all if there is a possibility of something between you.  You need to resolve this before you agree to marry your current boyfriend. Talk to the other guy first and go from there.  If you want to talk to me, send me a message on yahoo messenger and I could help you better than on here. I wish you the best of luck with whatever happens.
538404
OK first find out if the other guy likes you then good but if he do sent then just dont stay with your boyfriend if you dont love him because at the end hes going to be more hurt that if you had done it now because by the time hes going to get closer to you and he will love you more so i think that you should break up with him because at the end hes the one that's going to get hurt at the end.
552799
NoOooo! Are you joking me? Were talking about a little kid here. He probably is still wearing diapers, less know what love is. NooOOo girl, he does NOT know what love is. A boy, especially who is 13, does not know what love is.\n\nYou may think now that you love him, but when you get older you will see the difference. But when you get older, your still not gonna forget your first boyfriend at 13!
284693
13 year old boyfriends aren't all that great.\nMy advice, wait till you are a little older to start looking for a boyfriend.
125403
I suggest you see which one cares and love you more. Who do you spend time with more? How do they treat you? Is he your kind of people like are you comfortable with him more then the other? Who is nicer to you? Answers these questions to yourself and see how you feel about the two guys you love.
201962
Sorry to hear your angst ... I'm sure it's very hard and mixed up for you right now.\n\nBottom line girlfriend ... if you REALLY love your boyfriend, you'll forget about this lust you feel.  If you have the desire and feel you cannot accept not experiencing this other guy and getting it out of your system, then you have no other choice but to get out of your current relationship.  Otherwise, you're a cheater and a user.  You may not even know what could happen if that encounter were to happen, you may lose everything because it just wasn't everything you expected.\n\nGood luck in your choice, whatever it may be!!
354233
o dear oh my. Im also 13. been through the same thing. \nWell the first thing is that you should take time, turn everything off and maybe write all the things you love and hate about them. Then take your list of hates and think of ways you can work them out. Other than that, get some time to talk to him privately and face to face. Then tell him everything. Why you love him and the things you dislike about him. and if he is willing to go on, then talk about getting back together. But before you do, make sure that you try to make things work before anything else. I hope that ican help. Im just another dude in the world. hopefully you can work things out. But remember, many teen aged relationships do not last very long. but best of luck.