i have family problem that make afraid sometime and i don't want it to manufest in my life what can i do. poly
91208
I guess you are dealing with a family problem, and you are afraid that this particular problem could interfere with your life, I believe at work or somewhere else, right? I still don't know if I got it. I also don't know what problem is, or how much harm could it do to you, so, on the basis of this information only, my only advice is to solve this problem as soon as possible, and get on with your life. \nSome extra details would be helpful!
519457
I GUESS UR FAMILY IS THINKING THAT U MIGHT GO ASTRAY IN A RELATIONSHIP. IF UR MATURE ENOUGH U MIGHT UNDERSTAND IT. IF U R CONFIDENT ENOUGH GO FOR IT.
548485
You can't, Honey..  No matter what you say or how you say it, they will become defensive and tell themselves that you are just interfering.  You can be there if and when that family member needs you.. and sometimes they will need to talk.  If they ASK your opinion, feel free to give it.. but know that often times, people will ask even though they aren't prepared for the answer.
563606
you do not say too much to work with on this. i will say be very careful in your decision making. weigh the pros and cons on this issue before making a decision. If it should hurt your family then that is  the first thing you do not want to do. you never want to cause hurt or shame to them. whatever your cause.... does it come before family values...something you must ask yourself. remember when there is an action there is always a reaction. you must ask yourself what will the reaction be to your gamble.
1051243
Im trying to support my own family...not everyone else
731759
Most of us have problems with our families. Just be firm and don't let anyone take advantage of you, okay?
965496
you should ask them for thier blessing and if they refuse then that is something that u will have to deal with if u love your fiance and she loves you then thats all u need talk to your family and let them know that it bothers u and your fiance and that they need to fiqure out how to control that and if they dont have anything nice to say then not to say anything at all and whether they like it or not u love her and she loves u and u to are getting married and u will not come around if they are going to keep treating her that way and u really dont want that because they are your family and u love them too. i hope this helps u.
227695
I have found that working for family always breeds contempt, due to the familiarity issue.\nMaybe finding employment with another company would solve your problem?  You will always be sensitive to any critique you get from your family, but from another person, you take it and make the change, as you should \nGood luck!
1033443
It is okay not to like everything in your love ones lives. This is what makes us unique. Just remember to use good manners and not show loud and rude behavior during the family game watching time. \n\nGood luck and I hope you and your family find something that you can all share in and equally love.
390299
Unfortunately, even though it is wrong to reject family members for that reason, it happens alot. But tell them anyways. Don't ever hide who you are! Don't ever feel like who you are is wrong because they do not agree or approve! You never know, they could be cool with it. You can not change who you are and if anyone, family member or not, can not except you, then it is better off that that person is no longer in your life. Good luck!
851039
After reviewing the series of questions you have asked about family relationship issues, it appears that you may be paranoid.\n\nIf that is not the case, then your family has some serious dis-functionality that you should all deal with, if possible. \n\nAt the very least, please consider seeking some professional guidance to help you cope with your situation.
836183
Well, trying to tell his family that you have a problem sometimes may be a lost cause.  Why don't you have a serious talk with your husband.....\n\nMore importantly, I would distance myself from your BIL.  And, don't let him IM you and you don't IM him either.
789833
First of all, decide what you want and do it.  You're in a job you don't like.....keep it until you find one you do like.\n\n"The are sort of family"...no they're not.  They're users and abusers.\n\nUntil you take control of your own life you will feel helpless...and that is because you are.\n\nNow get up, dust off and decide what you want and then figure out how to get it.  No one can do this for you...but you.
590928
in a relaxed setting, when there calm, etc. if you know that your bf is a good guy i wouldn't worry about your family not accepting him. if its otherwise, i'd think of some crafty way to do it.
66365
get a hobby,,,talk to a friend or family member you trust
750766
You have already apologized. Accidents happen.  Not only that, but before he came into the picture, your family was there, and if he should decide to walk away, your family will still be there.  Don't blow your mom off, think of all the time she spent on you!  And, it's not like he will be sitting home waiting if can go out with his own family.  so the both of you can do your own thing for awhile and meet up after both of your obligations are met.   I'm sure his family will understand how important your family is to you and be ok with it!
560486
counseling helps, but there is no cure. will power and support from family is what you need. or a friend for that matter. some of us can relate to you more than others. find someone to talk to sweetie.