if my boss and I's personalities aren't clicking, should i feel guilty job hunting?
94943
if its your career at stake, NO. dont feel guilty at all. Go find a better job. there's hundreds out there waiting for you.
397828
Just resign from ur current job, I dont think any one cares abt each other than work so u need not feel guilty.
538994
Trusting your instinct is always best,however it is hard to make changes your unsure the outcome will be,I am sure you feel comfortable at your present job and that's why your scared to leave understandable,but then if you don't take a chance of listening to your instinct you will never know if you made the right choice.You will have to really think it over and weigh the good and bad you know about both jobs,and then do what feels right even if it scares you.you will most likely be happy you did in the end.
811904
I would make an effort to get along with him and if that didnt work meanings you had to stay there i would do everything the way that boss wants it done then pursue to look for another job because if you stay in a work place that makes you miserable makes it so you dont want to work there period...\nSo its always better to be happy than miseraable...\ntake my advice i have been there done that...
736365
Unfortunately, not much (assuming you're NOT in a terminate at-will state and NOT in a union).\nProbably the only thing is could show your boss how much you LOVE your job and how you LOVE the customers and LOVE treating them right. Be OPENLY ENTHUSIASTIC. Bosses find it hard to terminate people who feel that way (unless you really screw up)
852576
Take a break sometimes..Sometimes It feels like nobody wants to hire you, and you feel like you can do better than the people there..happens to me too!Those online applications dont seem to work at all..You just have to go there and apply I guess.\nKeep trying..Good luck!
1031133
Are these issues about other employees that you don't know or from office gossip?  I would learn to do my job and feel the place first before voicing opinions.  They may start seeing you as a trouble maker and avoid you later.  Try to use your past experience in ways to benefit your current position to perform and excel your duties, then they will see you in a different way to listen more from your performance. Remember action speaks louder than words.
964985
I believe all they can answer by law is to verify employment time and dates, not personality conflicts. My other advice would be to polish off the ol' resume, start shopping it around, and quit before they fire you.  You're moving on to a more management friendly environment.  You'd like to work for a place where you feel your work and skills are appreciated.  Blah blah blah.  Put a good spin on it.  If they ask you why you quit, say you felt underutilized and feel that you have a lot more to give than the previous job and are ready to dive in and get going on *foo* project/job/whatever.\n \nSpin a bad thing in a good direction!
1171971
I would pass on it. Being happy at your job is priceless. You are so lucky. Keep excelling at what you are presently doing, and a better opportunity will probably come up sooner or later. Just keep on looking and making contacts.
642042
You definitely do not want to burn any bridges. Diplomacy is the key, regardless of how you feel about the job. Do not allow your emotions to surface (at home of course you can break a few plates). Keep searching for a job after regular business hours and do not leave any option unexplored. When the right opportunity knocks, follow the company policies, and most importanly follow up with most influential people at your old company from time to time. Never complain or raise issues since you never know when they will come to haunt you. Best of luck
884765
Please think rationally and calmly. This will work out. Even if you did not get the job, there are plenty of others out there to suit you.
280491
Quite simply... respect. I've had some lousy bosses in the past... and if you can't get a new job, it's not a bad way to go. Strive to do your best, and eventually, people will take notice. However, if you work for a small firm, where your boss happens to also be the CEO... I would go looking for a new job, immediately. But before you do, it NEVER hurts, just to sit down, and in a CALM and RESPECTFUL manner. Ask you boss for some leeway. Maybe suggest a "Trial Period" of a week or so. Just to see how productivity increases or decreases with out him breathing down your neck.
222171
I would say, learn everything there is to know about your job.  Make it so that you are the one your boss always relies on to do his work.  Then take all of that experience that you have used them for and find yourself a better job.  When you hand in your two week notice, your boss will freak out at the thought of not being able to find someone like you.  They'll start making you all kinds of offers so you wont leave, but you keep saying "NO".  It's a great feeling.
79626
This may not sound too nice but you have a right to be a little selfish...you have the seniority. If the other person is the one initiating the change, you have a right to express your wishes as well. Just tell your boss that you don't wish to move & that you hope he or she wil respect your wishes. If you are a top-notch performer, you can also point out your various good points that should keep you in said position while also noting that, "I shouldn't have to feel like I am fighting for the job & currently have...but..."\n\nGood luck!
345527
No need to lose any sleep over this. Just call and be honest, and say somthing like this. "You've re-evaluated your position and after careful consideration don't believe the role is right for you. That being the case it wouldn't be in yours or the employers best interests to attend. You will however be pleased to discuss future roles which might be more suitable".\nJob done....Good luck!!
711369
Listen to yourself...\n"I love my job", then you go on about how your boss makes it miserable for you to be there.\nSo, either it's not that bad, or you're more afraid of having to look for another job than continue putting up with the crap.\nWhen you've had enough of it, you'll know...good luck.
783046
you could talk to your boss and see what she thinks or does ...and if you think shes not taking it seriously  then just ride it out while you look for another job. i had similar circumstances but i talked to the boss and things worked out