Can someone help me with my guy problems?
80510
You should get to know dis guy first then get him intrested maybe he will relize you aren't so bad then maybe he will ask u out.
824236
The best thing to do is not rush anything.  That is what freaks guys out the most. You can paint paintings but do that kind of thing in moderation.  Don't smother or be clingy.  Resist the temptation to go all goo goo gaa gaa over him right off the bat.  It isn't wrong to feel that way about someone just keep some of it under wraps for right now. If it lasts there will be plenty of time for that later.  Just take a deep breath and relax. If you get some big bubbly surge of lovey dovey feelings just bite a pillow or write it in a journal.  Don't call him and go "I looooove you much I don't know what to do!"  Don't go to the extreme of pretending you don't like him either. It works for some guys but to others it is a turn off. Good luck.
535477
You have some tough decisions to make...you have to decide which of these 3 issues is most important because you cant have them both...If you are having these feelings, you should step back and tell your boyfriend you need some space for awhile...dont use that to go after the other guy though. Use it to figure out your next move. Is this new guy worth leaving your boyfriend for? Also remember if you are in highschool, you will meet many more boys and more than likely you will not end up marrying either of these two, sorry this is so long but I had alot to say...good luck
681418
Keep him as a friend.\nYou can never have enough guy friends who will give you advice or listen to you if you have a problem or be there when you need a shoulder to cry on.
147456
If you're having trouble with that, you should get a new boy friend.\n\nHerrre Boy, Cummm here, boy!
583582
Hey Confused, this is 2006. It is okay to talk to the guy. Tell him that you are really mad at manipulative people. And that you noticed him and want to know more about him.\n\nYou say you really like him. Well, you must know something about him, what he likes, etc. Ask him to tell you more about himself. Guys are suckers for that. Really. Sit there and listen. If he plays an instrument, read up on it. Ask him what his favorite band is. You know things like that. Ask his opinion about movies, team sports.  Find common interests.\n\nIf you want him to ask you out, he has to know who you are and find you approachable. When he finds out you are easy to talk with, guess what? He will feel better about asking you out. Play it cool. \n\nAnd killing yourself? Hey, that is forever. Never going to get that good looking guy that way. Hang around. Be interesting and interested. Develop yourself and your own interests. Being not as eager is also a good thing. Remember this, dogs and men chase what runs away.
186883
Id call him out, sounds like that guys a dick.  Hes blatently ditching you for a problem girl, but guys are guys about chicks. He'll come around when she screws him over again, till then cant tell you what to do other than wait and see. But if he ends up booting you get at least some of that money back.
662062
wow he sounds like a real ass.  please find another guy to like, who will treat you nicely and how you should be treated (instead of being USED by the guy you "love")
661677
It may not be a problem with you, but more of a problem with the guys that you are dating. They probably aren't satisfying your needs for reassurance on these type of issues. In the future, look for guys that will provide these things and see if there is a difference.
125728
Hey sweetie maybe you need someone who can open your sexualty up a little. see most guy's are more of a stick it and bounce kind. Maybe you need someone who can work you up a bit, try different things and expirement. And if that fails here's my email address and i could really put you on to some new things (wink wink) mysweet_touch@yahoo.com Ladies only please! LOL
863
First of all finding someone else is not always the answer.  Try talking to him, and see what he says.  It could just be that he doesn't know or it could be age.  But guys cant fix anything if they dont realize something is wrong point it out, in a way not to hurt his feelings.
544021
trust me when i tell you, you really don't need a guy!\ndon't feel pressured cause all the people around you have boyfriends, what good will you get if you have a boyfriend that is mean to you and treating you in a terrible way or one that knows that you want a boyfriend just to have one and gets advantage of you, trust you want none of that so wait take your time till you find someone that really cares about you and you care about him, then and only then its worth to have a boyfriend and not cause everyone else have one !!
267893
thats not fair to your current dude, u should tell him how u feel. maybe he'll step his game up to keep your mind on him.     i would
352542
This is going to solve ALL your problems! To put it straight forward, stop being a wuss and start livin life man! women tend to lean more to a dude who is a bad boy then some shy pushover. Its time to stop being unconfident and start being a trouble maker! it worked wonders for me!!
549971
I have the same problem with guys, maybe we should hook-up ;D
1134854
listen chick. any non lesbian female has guy problems
786051
ask him, but don't worry too much, guys are like that