why do guys tell a chick that they are starting to like that they are not seein any 1, when actually they R?
92177
because men are hoes and we just ahve to get over that. and cuz he just likes you and doesn't want to loose what he think will be his only shot
1157981
Don't Know, ask the guy himself. only him can really give the main reason for not showing his emotion. maybe his afraid you might break his heart or you might take him for a ride if he shows you how he really feels about you. he just scare, doesn't wanna get hurt
47793
well Im not a guy---but this is exacly what it means--and this is from experience.\nWhen a guy says that--they are basically not interested anymore--either they have meet someone else or is totally loosing interest in you and wants to know if after the space is given to find out if he cares for you or is just "used" to you.\nabout 4 years ago my boyfriend told me the same thing--I was really confused---so I decided to give him what he was asking for--we both agreed we would give eachother 2 months-----and he dated someone else--but after like 3 weeks he was callign me and I realized how much I had missed him too!  WE got back together and have been happy since--so I think a little of space is good in a relationship.
217368
With some women, it's because they're scared. Also it could be because the girl isn't sure the guy is interested in that way. So if a guy is into a girl, let them know.
227671
You know, I ask this SAME question about guys. And I STILL never really came up with a good answer. I think it's just different for every girl. Sometimes girls come on really strong so it's OBVIOUS that they like you, but other times, they can just be secret admirers from the distance. If you tell her how YOU feel first, she'll tell you how she really feels too.
445080
Every girl likes to hear that she is beautiful.  It makes us feel good that someone appreciates the amount of work we out into looking good.  Like eating right, exercising, buying nice clothes, hair, makeup the whole nine yards is worth it.  I also take into consideration his non-verbal signals as he say the words.  \n\nFor instance, if YOU were to tell me that I am beautiful but you are staring at my breasts, I wouldn't feel like you are sincere and I would just probably walk away.\nIf you were to look me in the eyes and say that, I would be flushed and talk to you for a little bit.
67375
Well basically guys usually want to hear nice stuff like you telling them i love you or you telling them that you miss them they just want to hear anything that doesnt lead to any drama.Because you giving him drama will be the last thing they want to hear from you.And they want to hear things like probably how cute they look or, well basically they will listen to anything you tell him that doesnt refer to drama.
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they're scared.\nOf what?\ncommitment, rejection, change, opening up and being emotional... depends on the guy\n\nalso, remember that generally women are the feelers and men are the thinkers.  maybe they think some things are implicit and don't need to be said.  Or they just don't know that you want to hear it.  Communicate with them!  They're humans too!
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because they feel too vunerable. if they do like someone and admit it then they risk the chance of being turned down and feeling crappy about themself. If they dont like you, they dont want to say that either cuz it might hurt ur feelings\n\nthey are protecting thier male ego
434406
Because you're FRIENDS in her head anyway I do exactly that I can't help it. Well I don't say it but I'm thinking it. It's because they aren't attracted to you sexually but you're a brilliant person that they love spending time with. They're wishing that they were attracted to you because you're perfect they just don't feel that way. It's not to mess with your head it's not on purpose it's just the way things are. At least you know you've got a really good personality.
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Most guys feel relieved if there's mutual attraction and the girl makes the first move. If he is unsure as to whether his affection will be returned, he might not want to say anything.\n\nIf he doesn't like you, he's not going to be disappointed. He'll likely be taken off guard. If he's a good friend, there aren't going to be negative feelings
118925
Guys are born to be straight forward and biologically we should let girls know directly when we want to be with them... although we like challenges too, our attraction is more physically driven... girls like the feeling of reaching to tame a rouge man and therefore the fact that this guy is indiferent increases your attraction even more.  Somehow the balence of power in your relationship has tipped in his favor... the more you confess your feelings for him the more he has you in the palm of his hand... give him space.  I figure he is playing games and dont encourage these but find them necessary to create attraction.
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If a girl loves you, believe me she is going to give you lots of hints but not directly, she might wants you to see and react towards it first. If she looks at you with a smile and  when you look back at her she pretends as if nothing was there...that means she wants you to notice her and feel something abt her.Thats the first thing gals do to get attraction from a guy :)
502877
Well, you don't ever know a chick is going to accept or reject you until you collect the nerve to ask her unless you're some guru or something. Seeing only gets you as far as wondering and guessing.
551035
he could just be forgetful or its a dominating thing , they like it when a chick sweats their balls. try letting him call you and then you'll see his true intentions.
44559
They simply say this statement because they want to keep you holding on to their balls but really they are afraid of commitment and don't want to let you know because they know they will lose you. I think if they flirt and talk to other women though, you should not distrust them. I think flirting is nature and I don't care what anyone says, everyone does it from time to time. So go out there and do it in front of him and see what he has to say about it.
1073626
When a lady wants a gentleman's sexual attentions, she will let him know. In the absence of a clear and unmistakable invitation, the gentleman is probably just letting his imagination run away with him.