do girls hate caring guys?
93286
No. Girls don't know what they want yet. Women do.
173980
Because they feel sorry for themselves and get pessimistic and then they start feeling bitter toward women and women HATE that. I think Nice guys look at and compare themselves to other guys and imagine and assume that other guys get more girls and have more luck then they do, and they figure "it must be because I'm a nice guy". It probably just means that the other guy is braver, more aggressive, or that the girls you are attracted to are insecure and immature and only think that a guy who makes them anxious and even more insecure is worth it. Trust me though, most women that I know who are HAPPY in their relationships have all married nice guys who help with the housework, talk to them, go shopping with them (they don't all enjoy it though) and buy them flowers from time to time.
1214
Girls do like nice guys. I had a bad boy phase myself, but after I got sick of their games and lies, a nice guy was the one who won my heart afterall. Sometimes it is hard for a girl to see that a guy they are dating isn't nice at first. Alot of jerks act super nice to get into bed with them, and even abusers have been known to act really sweet to the girl to gain their trust and then ruin their self confidence bit by bit, but the whole time, the girl may not see it, they see the "nice" guy they fell in love with. They sometimes never realize it was an act all along. Outsiders realize that this guy is a jerk, but the girl is so naive, they think that he really is nice, deep down. Some girls also feel they do not deserve someone nice. I felt this way for awhile after a mentally abusive relationship. I thought noone decent would love me. But I was wrong, and the girls who only date jerks are too. Just hard to make them see it. Find a girl who is ready for a nice guy, they are out there, justhard to find nowadays ;)
416677
i agree with you, most guys need to get some things straight.  although i disagree with you on the decent guys being taken.  i have quite a few friends who are decent guys and they are upset that all the decent girls are with these pathetic guys that you mention.  guys nowadays think it's perfectly fine to treat other people like crap.  they care only for themselves, so if a girl dumps them for being rude or unkind, they shrug it off and try to find someone else.
527433
Hey Dude. \n\nIt is not polite to ask this question to any girl. Girl love decent guys and they like to respected. Better change your attitude because arrogance costs friends and girl friends
673763
No. Most girls dont mind!!! Unless they r REALLY christian or sumthin. But uh no i dont mind!! My soon 2 b BF AlWaYz cussez!!! So ask her if she minds, if she does just dont around her. If she dont care, go 4 it!!!
499002
Its because those guy who plays the heart of girls are sick of their lame lives don't worry they are not worth it maybe they are not used in long term relationship and a lot of guys are like that...so don't focus your attention to them because your life will be miserible if you always think about them and as a matter of fact many girls are surviving w/o boyfriends
401540
Yes there is such a thing. Some people including women don't show there feelings. That doesn't mean that they aren't there, they just don't show them . You know if he cares by the way he treats you. If he is honest and you feel like you can trust him then that's a good sign. Also if he does little things for you without being told that means he thinks about you. That means he cares. If he blows you off or ignores you when you are around, then that probaly means he doesn't care. When people care about you they treat you with respect. Most guys just aren't in to telling you how they feel. If you still aren't sure, then just ask him. You will know by his response how he feels. Good Luck
165697
Naw.. if u want u can.. and who cares if guys look down on females or not!
998931
Are you serious??? There are still guys like that? Haha. That’s quite funny because you don’t find many guys who think or feel that way anymore.  And when you do your lucky. The reason girls feel like that is because that’s probably all guys had wanted from them before. No matter how many times guy say “not all guys are jerks” The moment we start to believe some guys are nice and give them a chance, is when we end up getting fooled and hurt. Some girls get so hurt by the fact of being used and being told lies so that guys could get what they wanted. If you really are interested in a girl, prove to her your not like that. It may be hard work at first but in the end, it’ll be worth it. Goodluck.
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As a girl I want to tell you that you are right. Most girls don't want to date a nice guy because they are not exciting. If they treat you like your not that important to them it makes them a challenge. Girls have a fixing complex. It makes us feel good when we have the power to change the way a guy feels or acts. You need to find a girl that has learned that lesson and has matured a little.
327147
Girls like guys that are sensitive to their feelings.  It helps a lot if you just support them, but not in a fake way.  You shouldn't just agree with your girlfriend, but don't insult her or do anything stupid.
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men just don't want to hurt a girl's feelings. they think we are too soft or sensitive.
111638
It really depends on the person. I know thats a shitty answer but its the only true answer. Most guys i would have to say no, they dont really care whether they hurt anyone as long as they get what they want. Woman would probably care more so that guys would. But like i said it really depends on the person. One person might feel horrible for hurting someone where someone else might not care at all.
219268
It depends on the girl, i know i get all giggly and stuff but some girls are so good at hiding their emotions... ya wanna stay away from those girls they are very good liars, umm i mean it's best if u ask and find out... you never really know until u ask!!
690908
Yeah, I think guys tend to care about it more than girls.  If they end up in a locker room where they have to be exposed, anything that's different can be grounds for isolation or humiliation because all it takes is one jerk.  I think anyone will use that issue against you only if they are angry with you for something else and are hoping to hurt you in any way they can.
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I think they must know they lack, so in the beginning they are extra special to the girl.  They treat her like a queen and make her feel worshipped.  Then, after they have the girl hooked is when the bad comes out.  I smart girl that has enough self-esteem to know better would get out fast at this point.  A lot of times, the guy makes the girl believe she is nothing without him and he demolishes her self-esteem so that she doesn't have the strength to leave him.