is my current frienship i am in ever going to turn into a love relationship?
91152
I think everyone has wondered about that at some point in their life.  There's no way to know for sure, but if you're good friends, then you should talk about it.  It's much better to talk about it, even if it's almost in a joking manner, than to advance to something physical that could make one of you uncomfortable and strain the friendship.
430092
friends can become lovers...and lovers can become friends...if you both like each other you should risk it...
22125
There is nothing better than a long lasting and loving relationship with a woman, but from your question, I suspect that you are not looking for a lifetime partner at this time.  If you are willing to wait and see if the friendship develops into more it is well worth the effort.
665071
i dont think she is ready to make a committment to you right now. unless you just want to be friends,you need to move on and meet someone else who you can have a deeper relationship with.
924013
WAIT and WATCH! Just be friends for now and it might grow into something else soon. Good luck!!
36671
no..once you care about someone you always will..I try to remain friends but it doesnt always work out for me though but I still try..Lisa http://www.freewebs.com/lisabreedlove72/
779811
Definitely, it might turn into the best friendship/relationship you've ever had. If you don't, you might have missed out on something great.\n\nBut remember to meet in a public place where both of you are comfortable (like go out for coffee of something).
69872
I've had this situation 4 months ago. We've just talked about it.. I frankly said, that i don't love him. He offered me to be friends. So we are very good friends right now. But I feel that i'm more than just a freind for him...Sometimes i think that it would be nice if we were together but can't do it right now, 'cause i broke up with my ex-bf yesterday. And i don't want to lose my friend.. It's up to a person :)
269467
Some of us can. I have a girlfriend I am completely happy with. The ONLY interest I have in any other women is as a friend. As for those who can't, they're probably wondering why you can't just accept that they don't want to just be friends. If you just want to be friends, and a guy wants to be more than friends, don't bother with him. You have different ideas about where your relationship should be headed. Or if you do choose to spend time with a guy like that, make it very clear that you're only interested in being friends, that you're not comfortable with him trying to be anything more, and if he makes any advances on you, don't tolerate it.\n\nAdded:\nIf you don't hear from them after you've made it clear that you only want to be friends, the only interest they had in you was as more than a friend. They weren't willing to settle for less, and they have as much right to make that decision as you do to decide that you just want to be friends. Simple as that. What you wanted wasn't enough for them, what they wanted was too much for you. Best to go your separate ways.
338746
dont keep them to yourself you might miss out on a great relationship....if you guys already know how to be friends thats a good start on having a relationship...the only bad thing is that if it dont work out you guys will probably loose your friendship...but you have to decide that one on your own...is it worth it...can you actually see yourself being with this person and it actually working...or is it to far fetched for you two to be togther..at least you will still have him there for you as a friend in the end..talk to him about it...the worst he could say is no i dont want to ruin our friendship...but atleast you dont have to hide your feelings for him and he'll know...whatever you decide i wish you the best...good luck
101936
As soon as possible - before they start thinking of you as just a friend.  Now you just have to work on the whole confidence thing ;-)
472847
When you figure that out, let me know!  My friends always come to me for advice on life and love, but I'm always making mistakes when it comes to my own love life!  :)
965462
Hello, Well you could try to be his friend, but you couldn't have a normal friendship because there would allways be that feeling of rejection that he had toward you. And the fact that he's acted like an *** in the past probably means that that the future with him wouldn't be too solid. Really the best thing to do is find another guy to start new with - because I think what you really want is more than a friend relationship and that's a love relationship...right?  You can speak to him and have a casual frienship but look somewhere else for a guy who can make you feel special...Love is what you really want...and I hope you find it...good luck ...ok? ....bye bye
157768
From a guys view point. I am in the same situation with a lady whom I have been friends with for years. We were both always seeing someone or married now we aren't. I ask my self the same question and after a couple of months of being with her several times a week and talking daily I came to the conclusion that because we are such good friends and know each other good and bad faults that it would make it eaiser to become more than friends. If it doesn't work then you should be able to remain friends after all you started out that way. Lay down some ground rules like what happens if doesn't work. And enjoy yourself we only get the chance to be happy once this could be it for you. I know that I am glad I ask her out as more than a friend. As a good friend of mine told me "Tomorrow is never here and today is gone to quick" \nGOOD LUCK
592598
No, don't start 'dating' her if you already don't have those feelings.  I would say you could still keep hanging out as friends, but once it turns into romantic dinners and movies together and cuddling on the couch then you are starting a relationship that you might know won't go anywhere, and later on it will hurt her worse if you have to end it.\n\nOn the other hand, if you do develop feelings for her while hanging out as just friends, then I would say to go ahead and date her.  But only date a girl if you really do have feelings for her to begin with, don't start something that will eventually end later on.
794755
It sounds like you are pretty young.  I don't think at this stage you should be in a serious relationship with anyone.  I would give myself a chance to explore a few relationships, because only through this will you know what it is that you really want for yourself.  Good luck.
662393
I used to be like that around guys eventually u will open up and ur relationship will be so fine! say YES!!