i think my boyfriends getting very sick of me and bored of me, what can i do to make him want me and miss me?
82355
go do a makeover, get all dolled up, tell him you would like to meet him for dinner and show up lookin sexy... and show him a great evening.. or go book an adventure.. hiking.. horse back riding..boating adventure.. whatever that would interest him..and have fun fun fun..
922340
FIRST YOU NEED TO SPEAK TO YOUR PARTNER AND SEE WHAT IS GOING ON...HE OR SHE MIGHT BE DISTANT BC THEIR FEELINGS MIGHT NO LONGER BE THERE. YOU NEED TO FIND OUT WHY HE IS IGNORING YOU. DO NOT LET YOUR PARTNER SAY THEY DONT KNOW WHY OR SOME COP OUT EXCUSE, YOU NEED A STRAIGHT ANSWER, BC IF THERE IS A PROBLEM IT NEEDS TO BE FIXED. AND IF YOUR PARTNERS ANSWER IS NOT GOOD ENOUGH AND YOU ARE STILL HURTING, YOU NEED TO LEAVE THIS PERSON AND GO FIND SOMEONE WHO KNOWS WHAT THEY HAVE WHEN THEY HAVE YOU. YOU DONT DESERVE TO BE IGNORED!
745051
It kinda sounds like your boyfriend isn't that interested anymore. Either that, or he's into someone else (or both). Stop calling him for a bit and see how long it takes for him to contact you. Perhaps you should think about moving on. I'm really sorry but I know how you feel (i'm going through the same thing)
308082
Try calling him and asking him what's up with the two of you. If he continues to ignore you, just break up with him and move on. He can't be so busy that he can't even talk to you for a month.\n\nIf he really loved you, he'd make some time for you.
211852
maybe he doesn't want to be with you anymore and wants to break it off with you. Just break up with him, you need someone who akes you laugh. Dont need no A S S es around.
1038823
I am in the same situation honey.  I would say to be completely honest with him, and be ready to compromise.  The best way to get through this is to talk with him about how you feel, and then try to find a solution together that suits both of you.  It may still be hard, but it will be easier if there are a few things you can both agree on.  The other thing you need to ask yourself is what is really bothering you?  Are you upset because you feel he is ignoring his resposibility to you, or do you think that you may be insecure about your relationship and worried that he's doing more?  Once you figure out exactly why you are upset, it will be easier to fix.
559261
people become complacent, stagnant, we take each other for granted and get into routines, we forget what it was like with out the other person...talk to him, tell him you are sad and depressed and want to reignite the flames that got you started to begin with...if he doesn't listen or take you seriously, you have to  make him listen, by leaving...that may wake him up
157048
Well, first off, you can't *make* someone like you.  \n\nSecond, tell him EXACTLY how you feel.  If he doesn't feel the same, and all he wants is a piece from you while you want more, kick him aside and find someone else who respects you for YOU and not your genitals.\n\nIn other words... communicate.  If you can't communicate now, you'll never be able to in a relationship, and before you know it?  You're on an episode of COPS, getting beaten up by your meth-addicted boyfriend who only wants you for sex.
993345
Get back out in the dating scene, have fun, and meet someone new.....Easy to do???? NO!, but it's a lot better than sitting home being sad, and depressed. That will get your mind off him, and on to new people. Good Luck!
207239
hey, i've always thought girls tend to be too needy. \nand.. ignoring always works, cliché i know. but.. put on ur best clothes, be sexy, flirt with every boy, be kind and smart and ignore him completly and he'll come back. just show him what he lost, what he saw in u the first time, maybe when u were friends or woteva s ur story u laughed a lot and then when u were dating u didn't coz u argued, then make him laugh again . that's my advise.
283203
So tell me one thing? Why is this your problem? He's your ex for a reason. Whether he got bored with you, or you got bored with him being bored all the time, this is still his problem. Let him handle it. Unless you want to jazz up his sex life by showing him all the new things you've learned since he left you (or you left him), I would just change the subject and move on to other things.
797063
Stop doing everything for him and give him a taste of what it would be like if you weren't around.  He is using you, wake up!
987048
The problem probably is that your not being direct enough.  You say your doing everything but you haven't done what needs to be done if you want to be with him.  You need to actually talk to him and tell him that it is him you miss and that you want to be a part of his life.  Right now he probably feels like you ended things and that he isn't willing to risk getting dumped again without being sure that this is what you want and that your willing to actually be with him through the bad times and not end things so easily.
844024
drop the dud....he's not worth your time and you deserve someone who will treat you right and acutally WANT to be with you...
401323
if your boyfriend dosn't make you feel loved and happy.. WHY THE HELL ARE YOU STILL WITH HIM!?!?!?\n\nyou are better than that. you don't deserve to be treated that way. Get rid of him and find someone worthy of you.
380582
just attract him more .......spend more time with him ..... agree with him in all cases ...... give him lots of love ...... give him the things tat he wants it .... and make him to love you more and to care about u more .......
283891
How you ever tried talking to your boyfriend about it, sit him down, talk to him and let him know that you feel less desired when he is not giving you the attention, that he shows to others.