How can Isolve my problems with my parents?
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Talk to them and if you are having a hard time doing that, write them a letter or an email to let them know how you feel and what you need, be very sincere and just say anything you want but at the same time don't be mean, rude or disrespectful. Let us know how things work out for you.
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Try talking to you guidance counselor if you are in high school or your health center if you are in college.\n\nYou are making an important step in admitting that you have problem.  If at all possible I recommend you give your parents a chance to support your recovery and treatment.  Facing your problem is hard enough you do not need to take it on all by yourself.
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Explain to your Mom what your feelings are.  If she does not understand, just do not answer her phone calls or answer the door if she comes to visit you. \n\nYou are an adult now and have a right to set boundaries with anyone including your parents.
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It's because parents have a tendency to deal with their own shortcomings through their offspring. They will correct past mistakes(in their own minds) through you! Good Luck and I really hope it works out, but, if they push you too hard, just sit them down and tell them calmly to GET YOUR OWN LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!\nHope this helps!\nglenn
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Admitting to your parents that you have a problem even again will not "make then mad" your parents love you.  They helped you the other 2 times you needed help and they will help you again.  You should talk to them and tell them whats going on.  You should even express your fear to them that you get scared to ask for help.  See what they say.  And yes sweetheart you need to get long term help, you should never hurt yourself.  Having a problem like this is not your fault, it is a mental illness that you have no control over.  So if you need help ask for it, don't be ashamed or afraid.
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respect ur parents and tell him u cant
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I can tell you from experience it isn't easy.  However, I now have the advantage of being much older and am able to look back on the situation a bit more objectively.  First off, realize that this has nothing to do with you and their love for you.  This is a relationship problem between the two of them that you did not cause and you can do nothing about.  Next, continue to love your parents equally and do everything you can to make this as easy for them as possible.  Take time to talk to them and don't be afraid to let them know how you are feeling and ask them questions about what is going on if you need to.  Don't let this situation control your life, life will still go on and in a basic sense, nothing really is going to change all that much for you in the long run.
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Hello,\nIt is very good that you are asking this question because it simply tell that you are an honest person. and the current situation is hurting you.....you know why probably you are not doing something your father wants you to do....that is only reason when parents have a complaint against their children....so analyse it seriously.....don't forget one thing that your dad loves you very much and you love your dad, I am sure about it....but one thing more I am sure about that neither you do something to tell your father that how much you love him nor your father does something to make it sure......probably it is only the ego that stops both of you to do so.....I know you both care of each other. So do one thing calm down and do something which can bring some happiness to you and your father and do something to make your father proud of you....it will resolve all your problems.....And I have one suggestion for you whatever the situation it is, always remain with your father...it will difinitely reward you....
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Try talking to them, show them how much you realy love and respect them, and try to compromise. Your family, specially your dad and mom, will always love you, even if they sometimes dont show it due to your unobediance or stubbornness.
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Go to a counsler a teacher a friend someone you can trust. Get out of there! Remember Jesus said we should love one another? Well abuse is not loving you. Find some family you can life with that are not like your parents! Please! and killing yourself..... suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem remember that!
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What are your parents' concerns?  If you can help answer or address their concerns, then maybe they'll let you go.  Or maybe they have legitimate concerns that you have not considered.\n\nI hope you can work it out with your parents.
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Its family, There will always be conflict, thats just the way it is.\nTalk to the person about it. if that doesnt help, then try your parents or an adult you can trust. they will help you solve this problem.
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First go to your parents and tell them you have a drinking problem.  They will be able to help you get the help you need.\n\nIf you are underaged, you definitely can't do it on your own.  Your parents insurance will pay at least a large portion of your rehabilitation treatment.\n\nYou want to preserve the relationship with your parents, so bring them into it with you so you can deal with it together.
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tell her you need a little space.\nor perhaps that you moved to canada.\n\nbut i just try to avoid them.\nlike if i'm on the phone with them and i don't want to talk very long, i tell my mom to yell at me to get off the phone.\nthen act all bummed that i have to get off the phone with them.\nalso, if they want me to go somewhere with them or do something, i tell them my mom said that i can't.  and pretend to be mad at her.\n\ntrust me, it works.
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Nobody's parents are perfect... and every person is a result of their childhood experiences that they have taken into adulthood. Accept that your father is HUMAN BEING FIRST, and then love him because he is your father.
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well .....talk to a sibling and tell him/her to be there when u tell one of ur parents....start with the one wh &#92;o is a little less aggressive...maybe ur mom or ur dad...and just let them know u need their support and that u hope they'll treat u like an independent adult....tell them ull sort things out and wat u plan for the future.....think abt evrything u wwana say to them......just listen to them too...cuz they'll obviously be upset....just tell them they mean alot to u and no1 else can help u out like they can..i hope they'll understand..........its a huge responsibility....make sure ur ready for it.......take care and dont overstress........:)
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well, my problem is parents, whats yours?