Is it advisable for a 27 year old guy to date a 14 year old girl?
79093
Having a 13 year age difference is not advisable. That type of age difference is fine if the youngest person is middle aged maybe, but the maturity levels are to extreme with a 14 and 27 year old. The 27 year old is looking at settling down and having a wife; while the 14 year old has hardly began puberty. It is also VERY illegal! Not to sound rude or anything, but if a 27 year old is fine with dating a 14 year old then there might be a problem with the 27 year old.
821294
when i was 21 i dated a guy who was 43. it was nice and ironically we did have lots in common as far as interests and goals in life.\nwe had alot to talk about so it's not like it was all physical. he was there when i was sad to rub my back and tell me i'd be alright and vise versa. so like everyone else has been saying. as long as you are of legal age you should be fine. as long as you guys actually like eachother, enjoy eachothers company and have much in common then there is nothing wrong at all. that doesnt mean your a gold digger or a player it just means you've found a refined man instead of a childish boy. ;)
971859
age is nothing but a number, only way its not ok is if it really bothers one of you two, no one else matters, i'm a 26yr old guy dating a 36 yr old woman and there is nothting wrong with it, nor is it wrong to be 26 dating a 19 year old
1033437
Ofcourse!!!!  There is nothing wrong with that!  I'm 24 & I'm attracted to a woman who is almost 30...   we have been dating for the past two months & things seem to be working out!!!  I have a much more interesting time with her than I do with a girl of my age... some of them seem to be a little imature!\n\nGood Luck with your situation!!!
378783
No this isn't a big difference I'am 17 now and my b/f is 21 now, it really isn't that big deal , it's not all about age, if u guys love eachother u shouldn't care about ur ages just follow ur heart.
659429
just wondering why you would want to date some one half your age..... but I guess that would be a no brainier.....but to answer your question......... NO....... not with me....maybe someone else..... good luck though..... I don't see it to be impossible.....
948302
In my opinion anywhere above twenty years is too much of an age difference. I have no doubt in my mind at all that you and your girl will live a happy life together forever. As long as you are both treating each other with respect and courtesy then you should be just fine. Loving her is part of it but you also have to show her that you love her. Maybe you should renew your vows if you're married (hope you know what that means), or plan a surprise trip to a country she has always wanted to visit. I know that might sound like a hassle and quite a chunk of dough out of your pocket but from your description it sounds like it might be the only thing that will work... good luck in resolving this conflict, i will keep you and your girlfriend in my thoughts and prayers
345557
Hey age doesn't matter! If the both of you are compatible with each other then go for it! That is what matters the most.
255773
Sugar, sugar, sugar....\nGive it some time.   Don't give out your email!  The only thing a seventeen year old boy will want to have in common with a fourteen year old girl is sex.  You don't want to be used like a kleenex, then tossed away for the next one.\nFind a boy closer to your own age.......better yet, find YOURSELF first.
409184
Heck yeah!!!  All that matters is if the two people are compatable.  Age is just a number.
768366
its normal,i would think its best to date some one who is at least 7years older than you if your thinking about a serious relationship,you wouldn't expect the sort of control and authority from some one your age which you would find from some one older.therefore your its absolutely normal and your on the right track
1116518
love... im fourteen and my boyfriend is 17. we've been dating for almost four months now and never once has he asked me to or pressured me to have sex with him. actually i was the one who brought it up but he said he wanted to wait. i said that's fine with me. we love each other so much and i know he's the one for me and he feels the same way about me. i would do anything for him. there's nothing wrong with a 17 year old boy and a 14 year old girl together. the age difference isn't that much and it is said that women mature faster than men. i love having a mature boyfriend. unlike the other boys my age. mabey he feels like the other girls are way too mature for him and he wants to actually go out and have fun instead of always being bitched at lol. too much drama with 17 year old girls
1138379
OK it is NOT NORMAL for a old guy that age to feel attracted to a girl 14 or even 18.  This is a serious issue. A girl who is 14 can not understand this...trust me i was 14 too. I dated a guy who was 20 when I was 14. I thought I "loved him" Now that i am older (25) I realize how sick htis is and how he had issues. Guys who like girls your age are guys that like to manipulate and try to confuse and control them. For her to be in a room with him alone is so messed up . She needs to stop talking to him cuz this will lead to more dangerous issues. She may look 27 or whatever but she is not and that is no reason for a guy that age to " want" her. You NEED to tell your friends mom right a way if oyu love her cuz if something would EVER happen to her then it owuld be on your hands. I know she might be mad at oyu for a little but trust me she will thank you later...plus it also will interefere with her future relationships. if you love your firedn help her NOw before she might be on America's most missing...
295629
If they Love eachother then nothing should come in between that.Age is just a number.
925999
A lot of it depends on the peoples ages.  If a 14 year old wants to date someone 3 or more years older than them then that is a bit much.  But if a 35 year old wants to see someone 40 it would be more appropriate.  Most of the time it comes down to maturity, experience and norms of the society.
1039954
Most of the time, yes. \n\nMost of the time, the older of the pair will be anchor in the relationship, being wiser and all. 17 years a good gap for a girl in her 30s and over (i.e. the man's the one 17 years older)\n\nIf ayoung person's in a relationship with another young one, say they're both under 25; usually it takes a lot more than love to keep the two together. Young love are more fragile.
559821
I guess that really depends on what kind of relationship you are looking for. Quite honestly, if I am looking at buying my first house when she's checking up on her social security benefits, or for quality nursing homes.. the age gap is too big.\n\nOtherwise, it's not at all bad to date a woman who's older than you. Your personalities and interests should play a bigger part than age alone. Though, the age factor can SOMETIMES be a deterant but only you can really decide if/how much that bugs you.