ilove a girl but her mother is also wants a sex relation with me what can i do? i realy love that girl.?
93499
just have a talk!? communication is the best way... talk to her mother and tell to her that you don't want to have a sex relation with her because she's the mother of your girlfriend,the one that you love. And not only that, explain to her that it is bad to have a sex relation with her because you love her daughter and her daughter is the one you want to be with in your entire life. And her daughter will get hurt if she'll know about it and try to ask if she love her daughter. ok that's it...now it's your turn...
908187
These are just ideas.. But find out what her goals in life are.. Like does she want to be a mother does she want to marry?  Then you will know if you are both wanting the same goals relationship wise.. Talk about sex both your likes and hers..  Other than that stuff anything goes.. like sports or ice cream.. anything.. we girls love when you boys seem to care about our dreams or aspirations.. and we love it even more if you seem supportive..
662265
I don't know how old you are, but obviously pretty young. \nI'll tell you that you should respect what her parents say. This gets you in good with them. They maybe worried that you are trying to give her stuff to feel obligated to do sexual things with her. In which case, that's too serious for your age and mom and dad know that. Okay, so your intentions were good, and not trying to buy sex, but trying to show her how much she means to you. Girls don't know this. They are too young to understand any of that. She confided in you about her deep feelings, feel honored, most girls don't feel that comfortable around any guy. If you want to tell her that you miss the times you had with her, that is okay, that lets her know that you really care about her still, but you understand that you both aren't ready for something that serious. She will then always remember that you are a wonderful boy, and her parents will always remember you were respectful. Wait until she and you are old enough to date seriously, who knows what the future holds. Remember to get good grades and go to college so you can get a good job; no girl (or woman) likes a stupid, broke man. Keep being you.
563926
Yeah....give her mother sometime. i hope ur gf is backing you up. a day will come when ur gf's mother will realize that u were a real truthful guy. talk to her after few days in a polite manner. dont lose ur temper
171591
Can you add more details please?\n\nNever mind, I get it now, i read your other question.  Um, woah, I really dont know what to say...Regardless of how bad you felt for her I dont think that was the right thing to do...Maybe you could have gotten someone else to have sex with her...\n\nOut of extreme curiousity...how has this affected your relationship with your mom??? Is it weird now? Also who started it, you or her??  Good luck, I hope everything works out for you
792487
Have safe sex! You can have it without protection and her parents is her business!
413566
wow so um try talking to your cousin about both of you waiting to see if maybe there is someone else for one or both of you then tell her how you feel and what you want to do if she cares for you both she might refuse to come between the two of you. i hope all goes well and if it doesnt there is more then likely another girl out there
363244
Its really her business who she had sex with, and you dont care anyway, so dont discuss it with her if she is uncomfortable with it.  Go after both at the same time, and see which one acts better and makes you feel good-dont try to go after one and try to keep the other one on a leash.
315691
Well I am 17,  can kinda see where you are coming from.  I think that maybe she sould wait just a little longer.  Cause it could end up being a relationship based on sex.  And sometimes those relationships don't last. Just tell her how you feel.
589512
1) You're under NO obligation to explain yourself to your girlfriend's mother. The woman stepped over the line.\n\n2) If you truly adore this woman, then work it out in spite of the controlling mother. You're a man, and you have to put your foot down. Don't lose someone you love because of an outside factor - you'll regret it.\n\n3) Explain the truth to your girlfriend, and let her have time to work through it. Relationships are tested all the time. Don't fail the test, and ... again ... remind yourself and your girlfriend that this is between you and her. Nobody else.
1150338
here's a weird idea:  TALK TO HER!\n\nTell her how you feel.  Maybe there is something she wants YOU to do and then you can both compromise.
812077
You can't love your mother the same as your "one girl," nor your "one girl" as your mother.  Assuming your "one girl" is a good person, is committed to you, and loves you as well, your mother will have to accept your life choices or risk losing a "normal" relationship with you.  \n\nYou will not lose either unless you are perceived as being wimpy in choosing.
78261
you said you want to love her? Yet you don't want to talk about sex. If you are polite then you shouldn't have a problem finding someone. \n\nAlso maybe go to school and find one. YOu need to form sentences. Maybe you'll meet one there.
612700
You cannot force your sexuality onto someone else...they will resent it even though under other circumstances they might be amenable.  You have to discuss it with her, apologize for what you did, and, if she forgives you, than ask if she might be interested.
551556
hmm.. scary situation! do you like here?  if you do, better make it clear to your dad and your mom that you like her.  If you don't like your step sister, then better tell her to back off.  Having a sexual relationship with her won't do all of you anything good.  Plenty of girls out there... Get out of your house!  Bring other girls back! Date! Date! Date! Take your mind off her! Get out before it's too late! She's not worth it! Plenty of fishes in the ocean!
656564
Give her more time. Make her feel beautiful so that she'll become more confident of the way she feels and if it is worth going against her parents. Also, if you feel if it is worth it.
548276
If you care for your girlfriend at all, which I'm assuming you do seeing as how you're in a relationship with her, then ignore her mother. Do NOTHING! Cheating is bad enough, but cheating with a girl's mother will scar her and force her into therapy for the rest of her life. Besides, haven't you ever heard the saying "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned"? You'll be lucky to get out with your penis intact if you did anything with your girlfriend's mom and she found out. No joke.