What is something to say to my fiance, that will really take her breathe away?
85207
Sit quietly for a while.  Think about her.  Feel how it is to be with her.  Imagine her standing directly behind you.\nTell her what is in your heart.\nThen quickly write done what you said.  You might forget in the excitement.
60702
Be honest and kind with her. Tell her it's just not working out and that you two should take a break for a while.
932601
take a few deep breaths
156196
The only thing I can say is, make her feel special and pamper her, don't force over things, dont do it because you want to do it but do it coz you love her. Once you achive your peak point make her feel how special she is. and take my words she will forget all the pain she will go through, just express your true love and it will heal everything and will work like magic.
291093
Ask her if you can have some time apart. I hope that helped.
200573
Be patient, and understanding, brave, and sincere. I say brave because you will more than likely get to hear all the things she has ever wanted to say to the person(s) that have hurt her in her life. \n\nCare for her inspite of herself and know that when and if she lashes out at you, it's not really you she is doing it too (unless you did actually deserve it) it is resentment, frustration, rage, and anger that she has stored up inside..\nWhen the dust clears and if you're still standing there, then she will know you are going to be there for her in the best of times, as well as the worst of times. \n\n                   Good Luck
786418
Write her a note or just take a deep breath and tell her.
713799
Pick out a nice card that you feel suits hers and your personality.  Sign it simply, that's best.  \n\nLike,\n\n"You mean a lot to me, and my prayers and thoughts are with you."\n\nor\n\n"Please know I am here for you in this difficult time."\n\nDon't fo with the "so sorry" thing...it's overdone and we all know how little the usual response like that affects us.  Let your friend know you care.  That is what it is all about.
1063804
withdraw yourself for some time. don't make it worse than it already is! she is 10 years older than you. even if she loves you, she might also be totally confused now.\n\ntime will solve it.\nin any case, you did enough because you told her about your feelings. don't go crazy if she is quiet. get yourself busy with your own things for a while. maybe you can make peace some time later.\n\nlook. I also did like this with my closest male friend two weeks ago! (what a coincidence). but here the reason was different: I fell in love with HIM. and we also had a fight before that.\nof course we had, cause everybody was expecting something else from the whole relationship than he/she got!\nso it is the same: we don't talk and also don't write now.\nI told him not to!\ncause I can't take it any more, cause it hurts, cause... blahblahblah!\n\nbut the truth is that now after two weeks I calmed down and I would really want to make peace - if I only knew how!!!\n\nI think it is best you give her and yourself TIME.\n"and time can do so much...\noh myyyy love.. my darling, I hunger for\nyour touch\nalone"\n:-)\n\ncomm'on, put some good music and cheer up.\nyou are not the only one on this planet who messes up friendship for love!\nhere is another one, hellooo there!\nbut this one, over here.. ye she is female.\n \n((maybe you want a younger woman than 31? can we exchange ur ex-friends? instead of writing them poems? well, I haven't started writing poems yet, but I must tell, I am not far from it!!!\nI already sent him songs! hm.\nit is only the world cup keeping me mentally busy now, otherwise I would be writing poems and crying all day!\n\nI am OLNY 25, by the way! don't despair, the sea if full of good fresh fish!!!))
391617
Tell her what you just wrote.\nTell her to meet you at a familiar romantic spot that the two of you used to go to, while sitting next to each other gently reach your hand up to the side of her face where it meets her jaw, turn her face towards you without speaking, so that her eyes meet your gaze and then say sweetly and softly "I know that I hurt you and I will never forgive myself for that. Breaking up with you was the worst mistake of my life. I was scared because I had such strong feelings for you. It's embarassing for me to admit this but... I have never felt this way about a girl before. But I'm just not ready to let you go. I love you and if you can find it in your heart to forgive me, I really want to give us another chance." \n***Then kiss her softly on her mouth just as she's about to respond***\n\nAfter the shock of the kiss coupled with your heartfelt although cliche confession, I guarantee that she will be putty in your hands! Trust Me!!
1182001
one word: pray. If you pray and believe then she will come back to you. Or you can ask her for a second chance. Remind her of your wedding vows. Til death do you part. For better or worse.
746938
defenatly take someone with you.  i've told this to someone else in another question, but i stand by it, chew gum.  it sounds weird but doing something with your mouth is calming.  don't look at the needle whatever you do.  focus on something on the wall.  theres usually a poster in the room.  read that.  i really hope everything goes well and don't forget to breath.
626469
Unless you deliberately did something to deserve this treatment, you don't need to do anything. Give her some time and space to cool off.  Some people have passionate personalities, and the worst thing you can do is smother or corner them when they are agitated.  Just let her be herself and if she has any sense whatsoever, she will appreciate you all the more for it.
297122
Have you asked your fiance'?  I would chose a song that the words mean something to both of you.  As this is a special day for both of you. One you both will always remember. \nEx. I used Truly madly deeply as I am from the ocean and my husband lives in a mountain area.  Therefore the words in the song meant a lot to both of us.\nI wish you all the best and happiness in your lives together.
501640
Perhaps you should say.\n\nYou mean alot to me.  I will miss you dearly.  \n\nAt least it will let her know you care, and if she doesn't 'love you' she will be glad she doesn't HAVE to hurt you by saying so.
211836
Enjoy the time you have with her and make the next three months unforgettable!  You both need to accept the fact that she is dying and get past this as soon as possible.  Then all you need to do is enjoy each other as much as possible.  Always remember that knowing the situation, puts the two of you in a very unique position.  You don't ever have to say that you wished you would have said or done something when you had the chance.  You have that chance and that chance is now!!! Use it to your full advantage!
553204
Set them down in a quiet and calm situation and tell them you need to talk. Yes that's a general sign that something is wrong, but start discussing the relationship with them and eventually tell them it's not going to work out. \n\nGive them reasons, don't just say 'because I just feel like it', that will hurt even more. They're going to want to know why so give them a solid reason. \n\nThey're going to be hurt, so after you've broken it off, don't call them the next day asking if they're ok. Let them call you if they ever want to speak with you again. \n\nTips \nEven if they raise their voice, you don't raise yours. Try to keep calm and if it gets too out of control, just leave and let them cool down. \n\nComfort them if they want it, but don't get too attached! \n\nVoice your opinions if things are getting too uncomfortable or not apporpriate. \n\nDon't use negative sounding words, such as curse words or the blame game.