Is it a such thing to fall in love with a man before you met them?
87857
VERY MUCH SO\ni met my husband on the phone, and fell in love over the phone, then he came down to meet me, but by then we were both in love. and still are till this day. i love my hubby.
417717
I don't doubt other peoples' realities that it's possible and that it happens.\n\nPersonally, it would be hard for me to fall in love at first sight because I usually fall in love with someone as I get to know them.
214908
It probaby seems like that now, but it won't always be that way.  The men that you are comming across just aren't the right ones for you right now.  But eventually you will run into the right one who won't leave as soon as you start to love them.
12428
No, i believe you have to know the person before you can be in love with them.
653812
I don't think so. \n\nI think I could love many different people, but timing and situations are important. You meet someone, and you fall for them.. if it ends you meet someone else and you can love them just as much, or more
283173
Yes I have met this man in public about 8months ago and we still together. It all about that person also you can feel some kind of vibe.
527472
So you didn't have the anticipation? shame. If we all knew the outcome of our actions before we began that would be quite sad. In saying that you may have seen the end but did you see the process?\n\nLike in falling in love- you may know before you start the relationship that it will end (as all relationships somehow do) but then you may choose not to have the relationship. Hence, you would miss out on all the fun things that go along with falling in love.\n\nAm I being to deep? Did you just want to discuss James Blunt?\nSorry :)
6650
Sure.\n\nSome people gradually fall for someone and some people find themselves falling for someone much quicker.\n\nIt's all in how much time you can spend together and how well things click between the two of you.\n\nBut, I would also say that often times what people label as 'falling in love' is nothing beyond a strong infatuation.\n\n//
1165414
Yes.  You can fall in love with someone over the internet.  It is like meeting a guy from a bar.  You really don't know what their intentions are or if they are who they claim to be.  Love is a risk.  You have to be willing to take that chance.  Don't live the rest of your life what if.  If you get your heart brok- so what, move on with life.  I did.  I used to talk to someone that I never met.  I was falling hard.  We talked about everything.  Then...poof kramarillo_1 was no more.  He disappeared.  I did not even have closure.  But I got over it.  I dust myself off and gave it another shot.  I started talking to this other dude.  He sounded mean when we spoke on the phone.  It sounded like he had no emotion in his voice.  He came by plane to see me.  After that...game over.  Soon after that, I was selling all I owned and traveling with only what could fit in my car to start a new life with him.  I truly feel like Cinderella.  I have never been more in love.  I remember when we started talking.......we would have 5 hour conversations and talk periodically throughout the day.  We could not get enough of each other.  Even though we were different in many ways.......we completed each other.  I am so glad I took that chance.  Just imagine if I listened to my friends and family.  I would probably be single and lonely once again.  I found my other half.  But you do have to be careful.  There are many crazy people out there.  By talking to this person on a regular basis the true side will reveal itself sooner or later.  I have experienced the most mannerable person turning into a complete stalker.  You will feel it.  You know what's good.  Good Luck.
368251
I think it's possible to feel something very close to true love without actually meeting, but I think you can't know if it is real true love until you meet physically - for me the whole chemical thing is just huge, if I don't like how a guy smells, he has no chance. And there are so many aspects of our personalities that only come out face to face.\n\nThat said - I exchanged emails with my current bf for about a month before we actually met, and I was definitely well on my way towards falling in love before we met - which made a big difference, because I don't know if I would have been so attracted to him physically if I hadn't already fallen for him mentally.
400974
Maybe. You can love how they were, get to know the person and fall even more in love with him or her.
181962
yes! although falling in love is a choice, we can still, in some cases, fall in love without knowing it. loving someone is a magical feeling that oftentimes, if not all the time, very hard to comprehend.
652443
Its possible to fallen in love with someone on net. I'm having that relation from last 2 years. We are having understanding that we are quite far, different status and having different lifestyle but our feelings are same with each other. I met him first face to face after 6 months of online. He made me confident and more positive towards life...I can say he made a girl into a women. We share our happiness and probs, its an unconditional bounding between us which we wish would last forever. I wish you would also have such beautiful relation which i have.
655148
Yes, that is true.  He can love who you are and have very deep feelings for you as a person, but I don't think you can truly fall in love with someone until you meet them and spend real time with them.  Online you learn a lot about the person your talking to and you can even share pictures and do the whole video thing, but that still limits you to knowing only a part of each other and you still don't experience actually being together and touching and interacting fully with each other.
739661
i think it is possible,  but  someone should be a little wary...as u dont really know the person....esp long distance ones...i guess if there's a chance that they will see each other....and still feel the same...yes it is very  possible...falling in love  is really knowing the other person,  having the same interests...etc...
136912
What do you mean by "now I love him"? Did you have these feelings before? If I was you I would wait and see what happens before I would rush into anything.
368731
Well, *I* can't. I gotta be around them and smell their smells and  see their body language. Love for me is a thing that happens after a few weeks of getting to know who they REALLY are.. live and in person. You can certainly like someone a lot and form an attachment. I just met too many strange people online and over the phone.. to "fall in love" based on a good conversation.