my best friend is ackting like she is my leader what should i do?
96069
you said she's your best friend,well sit her down when she is offending you and tell her about it.
632734
Show her thru your actions and words what a valuable friend she is to you. Find other people who recognise these qualities in her and both of you hang out with them. Affirm her kind actions and words and in time she'll come to believe that what you say is true. I know... i've been in her place and a very special friend turned my lofe around  by doing this for me. Be patient...it may take a while for negative stuff to be replaced by good but if you gently keep at it, it will happen.
877998
Well.. I would say that she isn't your best friend.  I have had the same problem.  My so called best friend loves a guy that i have loved for ever.  She went behind my back and asked him out without telling  me.  Then i realized that she wasn't my best friend.  Oh yeah.  Talk to her about it.  If she is all cocky and like let me love him shit. Then just flirt with him more to get her mad.
221950
If your best won't hang out with you then she isn't your best friend.  move on and find a new one.
499946
WELL THE BEST THING FOR YOU TO DO IS LOOK OVER THE OTHER GURL AND STILL TALK TO YOUR BEST FRIEND NEVER MESS UP YOUR FRIENDSHIP BECAUSE SHE IS TALKIN TO ANOTHER GURL MORE THAN YOU GIVE HER SOME SPACE AND YOU TALK TO SOME ONE ELSE THINGS MIGHT WORK OUT BETTER THAT WAY CUZ YOU TWO WILL START TO MISS EACH OTHER AND YOU TWO WILL BECOME BEST FRIENDS AGAIN.
503028
just wanted to let you now that if you clam this person is your best friend,  if he or she was truly your best friend then you would still be talking because a best friend never stops talking they get over any problem they might have. good luck because if your friend is truly a friend what ever happened should never stop a friendship.
310942
Ok if she is your best friend I would tell her and she would understand if she was a true best friend oh not to be rude you should kinda re-read things befor sumiting them...  -K-
570781
believe your best friend!! unless you know that she's the jealous type or prone to lying, believe her! think about it, why would she LIE to you?
421889
You need to be upfront and honest with your Best Friend. Let her now how you feel.  But you are still calling her your best friend so maybe if the two of you talked about what makes you uncomfortable about still being friends, it can be worked out!  But make sure you are honest with her.  Just because you don't have the same beliefs as her doesn't mean you need to disrepect her and her disrepect you.  Good luck to you!
821831
dang, dont sound much like a best friend to me. tell her that you dont like that she lies to you and you cant be best friends with someone you can't trust. tell her that that has been bothering you for a long while and wish you could have that special best friend trust with her or it just isn't going to work out, because if she lies so much to you now, its only going to get worse. you might want to mention to her about her breath too.. haha jk!
93676
You could try flurting with her. Send her a flower or just tell your best friends sister how you feel and who knows maybe she feels the same.
904622
I believe at this stage, she's not concious about what she asked u.. u need to do something, or say something that will really wake her up, and make her realise that her life, is her own decision.. \nall u can do as a best friend is give suggestion...\n\nu might wanna say something really really serious that will make her realise.. something personal i believe...
418304
This always seems to happen. Best friends are best friends because they like the same things...including guys. She isn't doing it to hurt you, she can't help the way she feels. I think you should talk to your boyfriend about it. See if he has any friends that she may be interested in. If you have a strong, open relationship with your friend, maybe you could talk to her & find out her intentions, tell her how much he means to you & warn her what it could do to your friendship if she tries anything on with him. Don't be mean about it though, not unless she intends to steal him from you.
548116
How about asking your best friend to play with you and your new friends, so she may be able to make new friends too.  Don't turn your back on your friend, you may need her some day.  I have been best friends with mine for over 12 years now, and she is the greatest friend I have ever had, she is more like my sister than a friend, and I wouldn't trade her for the world.
632759
well if she is your best friend she would beleive you and trust you, so in my opinion she ain't your bestfriend all she is doing is making you believe she fells the same about you, it can also be she needs to blame someone but she has no one else to be angry with.
1068514
We have all have one or two Friends like that in our lives.\nYou are holding back becos, she is ur friend and u really care about her.\nBut part of that caring means u have to be honest with her about how u feel. She probably doesnt know how annoying she really is...so hopefully, u'll be up to the task of helping her to be a better person.\nHope ur Faith teaches Patience? Cos u'll probably need it.\nAll the best to u and ur Friend.
920337
Brush you're self off and get back up... You don't need so called best friends who all of a sudden stop being you're friend there not worth you're time or you're friendship..so move on and find another friend who is worthy of a true friend like yourself...Keep smiling!!!!\n\n    Hey don't Listen to Zink she came in here and gave everyone thumbs down on helping you out about you're best friend now what kind of friend would she be? Not one i would want BACK STABBERS stay away from them!!!