How do i find love at 36?
91563
I find that most people in our age group are looking for mister goodlooking, I am over 40 and I met the most wonderful man, without really expecting it at 39, at first he was a friend, then it became more, He was a neighbor and we took our time.\n Physically, he was someone I thought I would never consider\nbut after I took the the time to look at his heart, I realized I,d never been loved, or felt love, so much.\n   My friends that are looking for the goodlooking guy, thats going to sweep them off thier feet, are still single.\n  take the time to notice the positive attitudes and the interest in you and you'll know when that person is right for you.
1035930
When looking for the right person,be sure you look in the right places.It is best to meet someone through mutual friends,or through your job,or where you work out,or at your church. Look  for someone enjoying the same things you do.I had a friend who met his special person when he went caving.However,remember you are in your twenties. That isn't exactly ancient.If you concentrate on having fun and being happy yourself,love will find you.(probably when you least expect it!) Good luck and God bless you in your endeavor.
1012237
dude, when I was 26 I dated a 36 and 37 year old within a 6 month timeframe, and it was the best time I ever had.  unlike 25 year old girls, they were so much more comfortable with themselves, their sexuality, and what they want.  they didn't play games at all and they were so much fun to hang out with!\n\nin terms of how to get them?  I didn't do anything special, I would say try not to be too eager.  you may want to approach them, but do it in an easy going style.  women in their mid to late thirties are entering their sexual prime like we were when we were 18 (im 34 now and married).\n\na women in her 30's is more interested in confidence, maturity, being layed back yet fun and having interests, and just being a nice guy . . . .. as opposed to a girl in her 20's who is more interested in looks, cockiness and whether the guy ismarriage material or not . . . good luck!
1150869
Stop it already 35 year old women are sexier and more desirable than 20yr olds. Maybe the bod ain't as tight as it used to be but that doesn't matter you know how to use yours and they're still awkwardly trying to figure it out. Now go put on your little black dress a pair of heels hit the town and turn some heads you sexual dynamo.
1170568
Join the club. I am also looking for that one to spend the rest of my life with too. \nI am single woman 31, 5'9, 150.
1082435
Women 35 to 45 are very sexy. They are experienced, and usually are a lot of fun to be with.  If they enjoy the younger women, I say go for it.
435428
AWWWWW,,,YAAR I THINK UR A VERY CLEAN HEARTED GUY WHO IS LOOKING FOR LOVE IN THIS AGE MOSTLY GUYS ARE LOOKING FOR SOME GOOD TIME WITH NO STRINGS ATTACHED IN THIS AGE.BUT LOVE IS SOMETHING U FIND IT WHEN U LEAST EXPECTING IT.SO JUST LOOK AROUND U NEVER KNOW WHERE N HOW U CAN MEET UR MISS RIGHT...INDIA/PAK K HOO NAA?I WISH I WAS 18 LOL....BUT 21 NOW...EH...GOOD LUCK.
35512
I think I would perhaps check with your local online sites or perhaps one of the national dating sites.  \nIt must be really difficult knowing that the woman you love is incapacitated and can never come back to you, but I certainly understand the need to find companionship and love in spite of loving your wife.  \nI hope that her suffering and yours aren't too long lived and that you can find a measure of happiness.  And you really shouldn't pay attention to ignorant young people who criticize you without taking a moment to try to understand the position you're in.  \nGood luck and my prayers are with you.
465690
They are very hard to find but don't loose hope.  You may have already passed a few good ones bye.  The question may be on yourself.  I know it was on my shoulders after I asked the same question at the same age with the same situation.  I got involved with playing volleyball and then joining a health club and going to church on a regular basis.  I picked apart each and every guy I got a date with.  I finally realized that they must be doing the same to me and then started to look at myself and decided that there are faults in all including myself so I needed to look for someone that wasn't what everyone else thought was great.  I needed to find the greatness in the man of my dreams.  And 2 years later found him.  He loved my daughter as his own.  We have now been married for 9 years with 3 more children, and it is as good as it was when we first met.  Good luck to you and hopefully you too will find the man of your dreams.
134850
Great! There are lots of singles in your age range. I just met one in the bar/restaurant my wife and I were in, and today was Valentine's Day! Singles are out there, if you're looking.
1087897
At your age especially, I'm 42, good sex and romance are VERY important. Maybe they should sometimes even be your main goals in my opinion. When you get to thirty, start looking for more in a relationship than those. When you are 40, go for 50% sex and romance, 50% good companionship. At 60, the conversation and feelings matter most probably.
242983
27 is not old !!! my wife found me at 28 and she has a son. he was 5 then, just turned 8 last week. we are married now with one on the way - any day now - due date next week. i thort as you do " where is she? where can i look? "  I'll be honest with you, i never believed the old saying " stop looking and they'll find you "   but thats exactly what happened. honest. the only real advice i can give would be, dont try too hard, be yourself at all times, dont wait too long before you tell him you have a child, go out when you can with friends, explore all avenues (i mean blind dates and set ups as long as evaluating all pickup lines).  goodluck and i hope that the right guy is just aroun the corner for you.
1016656
Of course.  What you cannot find is the *same kind* of love that you were looking for at 18.  You cannot find someone who will love you so much that he will build his entire world around you.  A person in his or her 40's has already developed a life. (We hope!).  So you are now getting a person who has a history and a background.  That's a different experience than when you were first starting out.\n\nThink of it like food.  When you were a teenager, a pizza was a big deal and beer was probably both exotic and naughty.  You still like food now, but you probably can't eat pizza and drink beer every day any more.  That does NOT mean you don't appreciate good food.  It means that the experience is different now than it once was.  \n\nIt's the same with love.  You and he will have cared for other people, hurt some of them, been hurt by others.  Either or both of you may have children now that demand time and energy.  But there is still room for love, if you allow it and are ready for what it looks like today.\n\nGood luck.  There is a nice guy out there trying to find someone to love.  Let him find you. :-)
464416
Depends on your actions; As well as both of you're varying ages. I myself have never been married & am still looking for a bride. I will turn 36 in 5 days.\n\nIts WISE to a point to keep looking but never do anything that you will later regret having done. Such as causing a child to be born between the 2 of you. That is just 1 thing...\n\nYou are only unlucky if you SAY & KEEP THINKING YOU ARE such. If you keep telling yourself, be you male or female, you WILL find someone that will be perfect for you & later to marry if its God's Will...
167795
just keep on being single and wait for the right person 'cause u will meet that person even if you get 50.in the meanwhile,keep having fun and getting laid,otherwise u will end up with a wrong person in a bed everynight until u die.would u like that?
790726
I'm like you. I'm 30. Never had a boyfriend either. I  never had my first boyfriend. I think it's time we both did. Only I need to get out more often and be flexible. You're lucky you meet guys. Don't give up. There's plenty of fish in the sea ... I hope.
992453
First off, it sounds like you have had a lot to deal with over the last few years..a lot that has made you feel down, and concerned.\n\nFirst you must take care of you. You can do this in little ways. Pampering yourself with a massage or a pedi/mani might help (sounds little..and of course expensive..but this is something you could do at home and make yourself feel better about you. In other words pamer yourself and remember that you alone are in control of your own destiny. You are only 29. You have TONS of time to find that "someone that loves you" (I have numerous friends who didn't reach that goal until they were in their late to mid 30s and 40s....so you have time!). \n\nLastly, do things that make you happy. You mentioned you wanted to be the fun person you were before your baggage. What did that mean? Where did you go to feel happy, were there hobbies or things you did that made you feel special, or in a great mood if so...go back to doing those. Find the "real" you again.\n\nOnce you feel stronger and more in control of your own happiness, the rest will work itself out. People will see the spark in you and want to be around you, go out with you etc.