How can i test if my boyfriend is cheating on me?
83556
If you are that concerned, you should just call even if his Dad is scary.  You aren't going to be satisfied until you find out whats going on...so just do it...or have a friend call.  If you truly believe he is cheating, than you should probably just count your blessings and move forward.  Sometimes people ask questions but, they really don't want to hear the answer. DON'T LOOK FOR ANSWERS YOU DON'T WANT TO HEAR...SAVE YOURSELF THE HEARTACHE AND BE THANKFUL HE JUST MOVED ON.  GOOD LUCK AND ALWAYS BE TRUE TO YOURSELF FIRST, THEN YOU WILL BE ABLE TO DETERMINE WHAT AFFECTS YOU AND WHAT DOESN'T.
363826
I saw on some tv show or another that if you suspect your partner of cheating, then they probably are.\n\nBUT:         Don't accuse him without proof!!!\n\nIf he's "working late" then find an excuse to call him at work.\nIf he's going out with his buddies and staying out late then go to where he hangs out and see if he's really there, and who he's with.\nIf he's disappearing and you can't track him down, and don't believe him when he tells you where he was then don't go screeching that you don't believe him.  Next time he's disappearing, follow him.\n\nDon't go asking his friends though, that would put them in an awkward position, and what if you're wrong...
849848
No you should have proof of him cheating cuz if you dont you might make a mistake and lose someone that really did love you.*
647357
he is either cheating on you or he thinks you are... you can stick it out or you can not... its really up to you.
1146453
There's a program called KeyLogger or something that is supposed to track conversations. I don't know how to use it though.\n\nBest bet is to confront her about it though! Don't try and be sneaky because if she HASN'T been cheating and you make it look like you don't believe her, she's going to be really hurt.
680515
sounds like you have trust issues and if you do then this relationship is over. even if he isnt' cheating on  you if you are convinced that he is he might as well be. first thing in any relationship to survive is trust and communication. there are no for sure ways to see if he is cheating the only thing you can do is keep an eye open and make him feel wanted and loved. make him feel like a man, if he feels like one then he'll act like one.
398240
You don't need to test his hoesnty. You need to trust him. If you don't trust him then there's no point in being with him.
2468
there are to options one or he's too busy doing important things or he is too busy cheating on you, sorry!!!!!!!!!!...\nyou might probably want to ask his friends what is he up to, and well if they can't tell you anything and tell it straight into your eyes then there is something wrong going on
89508
WELL U REALLY DONT KNOW 100% SURE IF HE IS OR NOT BEING FITHFULL TO YOU.IF HE IS THERE FOR YOU THEN YEAH HE IS BEING FAITHFUL.BUT IF HES NEVER THERE OR NEVER CAN BE FOUND OR WHERE HE SAYS HE BEEN DONT ADD UP THEN YEAH HES CHEATING.YEAH IT COULD BE WITH AN X.LISTEN TO YOUR HEART.IF YOU GET THAT SINKING FEELING IN YOUR STOMACH ITS TRUE.OR IF HE COMES BACK TO YOU AND ACTS DIFF,LIKE DONT WANT TO KISS OR IGNORES YOU OR JUST CRAPPY TO YOU YEAH HES CHEATING.THEN U NEED TO SIT DOWN AND TALK IF HE IS HATEFULL OR KEEPS SAYING WHAT EVER WE R JUST FRIENDS NOTHING IS GOING ON BETWEEN US.THAT ISBULL FACE LIES.GIVE HIM A CHOICE U OR HER.
754082
if he is acting suspicious or getting his sex some place else then he is probably cheating on you
446063
Why bother, if you can not trust him then he is either not worth the effort or you have serious trust issues. Either way finding out if he is cheating on you seems to be a waste of time and energy.
999430
Actually, the only way to know is to ask. There are no foolproof ways to tell if someone is cheating. Even an "eyewitness" might have the situation all wrong!\n\nSome people in similar situations find that confronting the person and being upfront with their feelings is the best way to sort things out. You may want to explain how you feel and ask him how he feels about the situation. One thing to keep in mind when talking about cheating — especially when you're not sure if it's true — is to avoid sounding like you're making an accusation. For instance, instead of saying "You're cheating on me, aren't you?" you can say something like, "I've got this funny feeling. I hope it's not true."\n\nRemember, any time you confront or discuss your feelings with somebody you are taking a risk. You may feel vulnerable or may get hurt in the process, so you need to decide whether knowing the truth is worth the risk.\n\nHope this information helps!
1122105
I think you are paranoid.  Until you have some kind of solid evidence you are just looking to far into it.  Besides what if you set him up and find out that he isn't cheating.  He's gonna be pissed when he finds out.  Do you really want to risk it for a hunch.  You need to talk to him about it.  Just come out and talk about it.
239030
catch my man red handed if he cheats on me
219843
if u didnt see him doing sumthing wrong..like being closer than justa  friend..ask him...and if he IS Cheating on you...( he ovbiously wont tell you that )then theres something better for you out there.. good luck=)
489125
Ask some friends if they will ask him if he is using you then if he says yes dump him.
930363
Ask some friends if they think he is cheating on you.  Confront your boyfriend and see how he responds.  Of course, you don't want to tell him who told you.  Check out his body language and try to gauge his sincerity if he says he didn't.  If someone's telling you what you really want to hear, it's hard to tell if they're being honest or lying, so watch carefully and pay attention to what your instincts tell you.  This friend of his might have been telling you the truth, but he might have been lying to you in hopes that you'll break it off with his friend and he'll have a chance with you himself.