I am a guy and how do i talk to a attractive girl in class without seeming desperate?
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Be natural, dont wanna pretend that u r somehow else, be urself.Girls usualy like natural guys
184087
JUST BE YOURSELF...CALMLY WALK UP TO THEM...DON'T BE FAKE AND DON'T TRY TO USE "PICK UP LINES" YOU CAN USE PICK UP LINES THAT ARE CLASSY BUT NOT TRASHY! SAY SOMETHING LIKE, "HEY, (INTRODUCE YOURSELF), AND BE HONEST...TELL HER THAT YOU WOULD LIKE TO DANCE WITH HER, OR BUY HER A DRINK OR JUST STRIKE UP A CONVERSATION ABOUT THE SONG PLAYING! A GIRL LIKES IT WHEN A MAN CARRIES HIMSELF WELL, SELF CONFIDENCE IS KEY! IF YOU ACT LIKE YOU HAVE SELF CONFIDENCE AND YOU ARE REALLY TELLING YOURSELF YEAH RIGHT THIS GIRL ISNT GONNA GIVE ME THE TIME OF DAY...SHE WILL PICK UP ON THE FAKE AND THE REAL...SO PLAY IT COOL! BE YOURSELF! AND HEY IF SHE DOES REJECT...IT'S OKAY...
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No, as I've gotten older I've found it much easier to approach others. But that's beside the point really. What you need to do is force yourself to come up to people in your class. Your teacher, and your friends out in public. Just start by saying "Hi" and go from there. :) People love talking and if you get a big "talker" then you won't have to worry about saying much. Never be afraid of what people think of you. You are your own person and you shouldn't care what they think. If you say something stupid, laugh it off! I have to a lot. Goodness, just the other day that happened to me and I just laughed. It's like walking into a pole in front of a guy you have a crush on. You just step back, say "wow, that was stupid" and start laughing! It's really freeing! Trust me, I have actually run into things around guys that I've liked in the past! Yeah, it's embarrassing, but that feeling goes away after a while and you feel more confident in yourself. Good luck to ya!
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ok, it's gonna take some balls but do this:\n\njust walk up to her and start talking to her.  Say you've seen her around and thought she was cute.  Believe me, what do you have to lose?  Think she's going to make fun of you...the only thing she's thinking is that she's so flattered you think she's cute.  \n\nIf you dont' want to tell her she's cute, just start talking to her about ANYTHING!  Talk about the princple or the class you saw her in.  you'll never get anywhere with her, until you establish youself as a friendly guy.  Be interesting, unique and laid-back.
132327
i am a guy in 8th grade  a girl tryed to get me to notice her try to start a coversation or give him a little nudge in the hall
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Even if you cant get the nerves to talk to her at first...when ever she passes by give a nice smile that will show that you are into her...(this is called your body language) and say hi as often as possible. To start off a conversation, simply talk about school, then get into other topics as in what activies you both enjoy...if you have something in common, ask her if she would want to go out for some pizza and (the activity) !! Good luck
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you got to place your foot down first, ask her out. she seems like your girl, i would say yep to a guy that i know a lot about. and she isn't the most popular that gets bad grades, she actually pays attention to school.\ngo ahead, find the courage within you.
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Well, the #1 way to get someone to notice you is to talk to them. It doesn't have to be anything big. It can start as something small. "What was the homework?" or something like that. Just break the ice. Gradually, work up to slightly longer conversations that have to do with more personal things. "Did you hear that new ______ song?" or something like that. Be humorous. But above all be yourself!\n\nWhile testing out the waters this way, you may get the courage to ask her to study together, or to have lunch, or to have coffee...\n\nBoys who act polite, are humorous, and show self confidence have a good chance at getting girls to notice them.
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go up to a girl and day "hi" what you up to? or something in your class in line just say "hi" and then compliment them
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Well first of all it has to be the right setting. You can't just walk up to some woman and start talking. Usually it's helpful if something happens that momentarily brings you together, such as being the only two people left standing on the train or accidentally bumping into each other. You know, like the commercial where the girl runs into the waiter and knockes the glasses over and the bottle falls on the table and spins until it ends up pointing to the guy. But since things like that rarely happen, sometimes you have to create your own moment of coming together. For example, if you have a class with a girl, you time it so that you leave the room at the same time, then you make some comment about class being long or boring or interesting or whatever, anything to set up your "common moment" and get her attention without coming across as a weirdo.\n\nOnce you have her attention, keep it by building on what you already know you both have in common. If she sits next to some idiot that annoys you, too, talk about how obnoxious he is. If there's an upcoming test or paper that's due, talk about how little/how much progress you've made so far...talk about anything that will get her engaged in a conversation. Then take advantage of that moment by making an observation that she might find interesting. In other words, get her talking, and then when you do, try to find common ground. Once you have her attention and you've established common ground, you're on the right track.\n\nIf this is a situation where you're going to see her on a daily or weekly basis or whatever but only a few minutes at a time, then bide your time a little to give her a chance to get interested. Take advantage of that few minutes of shared time whenever possible to chat with her. After a few days/weeks of this, if she's responding positively, you can ask her if she'd like to get together to get some coffee,grab a bite to eat, whatever to talk about your common interests a little further. If you've only got once chance to make this happen, however, then you need to do some major talking. If you can keep a woman's attention for half an hour, then there's a good chance she's interested in you at least as a potential friend/regular acquaintance and possibly something else (check the body language as well). Go ahead and ask if you can call her, get her number, and give her yours as well, and then CALL HER. Not that day, but within a day or two. Be friendly but not pushy and see how she responds.\n\nIn any case, any time you talk to a woman, you're not doing yourself any favors by coming across as bland, generic, or timid. Women love a man with confidence (but not arrogance) coupled with a sense of humor. We don't expect perfection. So if you do say something stupid, make a joke out of it. Laugh at yourself about it and then move on to something else. The fact that a guy can laugh at yourself when you make errors is very attractive, much more so than a guy who speaks in a macho voice and is too much of a control freak to say anything funny or interesting or even just plain goofy. \n\nI'm not kidding. I'd much rather be with a guy who makes mistakes but acknowledges them in a playful way and then moves on than a guy who's too afraid to open his mouth. Get out there and give it your best shot and chock any mistakes or rejections up to lack of experience. Not every women will respond, but that's ok, because eventually one will. And one is all you need.\n\nGood luck!
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just be cool..smile make eye contact and say something like "what u doin after class"..should work
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One of the things that u can do is just simply start up a conversation with  her, you really do not have nothing to loose! If you say you sit by her in one of your classes, then just mention something about the class, borrow a pen, ask for notes, start up something, make a joke, or else you will always be asking yourself what if>
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Smile and be yourself. Be friendly. If it's a specific girl, talk to her. Ask her how her weekend was or about a class. Or compliment her. Girls love compliments.
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baby girl, lets look @ what the problem is. do they come by and say hi to you? do you think that you are approachable? maybe it's as simple as initiate the conversation. say "hi, how's going" the next time you pass by one of the guy you like. in this way, it not only break the ice, but also tell people that you are friendly enough to talk to. plus, let me guess, when in school, you stay in a pack of girls. baby girl, this is nearly impossible for a guy to come and talk to you.
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The last thing you want to do is to show any signs of desparatism. Dress with class, ( no short dresses or mini-skirts).  Really the guys who have a sense of class really respect a lady when she holds herself in high esteem.  Talk with your friends as though you are just truly out for a nice evening.  If someone does hold an intelligent conversation with you, well that is a good start.  You know don't fall for the one liners, and can I buy you a drink? Stay away from that.  If a guy holds an intelligent conversation, then maybe later on in the evening a hug can be managed. (You must play extremely hard to get) Really the class guys really like challenges.  If you dress with class, conduct yourself with a sense of pride, and wear a very nice perfume, you may get a hit. Remember bars are not really the best place to meet someone for relationships or so forth.  Just remember that, and choose very wisely who you hold a conversation with.
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Get involved in a group that contains both guys and girls. This way you can be comfortable around your male counterparts, and also get to observe girls up-close. If you play your cards right, you'll be seen as "that shy guy"... which most girls find rather intriguing. Take your time, get to know a girl and realize that she's not a being entirely different than your guy friends. Sure she might be wearing make-up and a skirt... but guys have their own things too.\n\nPerhaps some of your guy friends from engineering know some girls and would be willing to introduce you to them and hang around so you still have someone familiar around.\n\nMainly, just relax, take a deep breath and let what a great guy you are shine through.
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it would be better to work on this in stages - first, casually run into her or introduce yourself.  Trying to strike up a conversation, or at least make a joke or some comment will mean that the next time you speak with her, it won't be creepy.  Once you've built up a base-line familiarity, you could give asking her out a shot.\n\nGood luck!