how can i stop thinking about the person i love?
79895
you can't stop thinking at her but you must do something else. follow my advice and will be pas this\nproblem. trying to find somebody else.Trying to consolate with idea :it's something human will be pass or " the man it's a man"or "follow the heart" or "pls :keep going ma man /it's my word in my contry/"(noroc)!
1068331
You've obviously had serious emotions about him. You are involved with someone new, so there are those same feelings you had in one relationship that you will have in almost every relationship. It is up to you to concentrate on the present one and get rid of the old. Think of all the happiness in the new one and forget the old. It is almost like having flashbacks to what you want to forget. Let the NOW be the only thing you think  of before you fall asleep.\nGood Luck
409662
DANG THAT'S A TOUGH ONE ; i KN0 i ASKED MYSELF THE SAME THiNG EVRYDAi ; BUT iT TAKES TiME - U WiLL STiLL HAVE SOME MEMORi OF HiM - BUT iT GOES AWAi SLOW - U WiLL STiLL HAVE SUM FEELiNG FOR HiM BECAUSE iT WAS LOVE ND LOVE NEVER GOES AWAi EVEN A LITTLE - SO JUST TRi TO TALK TO OTHER PEOPLE TO HELP U GET OVER HiM ; iT MiTE HELP ; OR DO THiNGS TO GET UR MiND OFF OF HiM -- iT HELPD WiT MEH .. SOO YEA
1064736
honestly, you can't... love is exactly that- love... there's no stopping it.... just don't hurt anyone by doing something you'll regret.... hope i helped! :P
1180959
when u cant stop thinking about the guy you love, you cant sleep because you cant take ur mind off of him, when you wake up you are thinking about the guy, you think about the feelings you have that you didn't had before, you try to search for an explanation for what u are going trough but the true reason is that you are in love, pure and simple, you feel butterflies in your stomach and u like that feeling and hope it never ends. Love lifts us up when we are sad. \nI Hope this helped.
746727
Find someone else to think about.\n\nSeriously it's the only way.
736374
I had this same exact problem for so long and I am just now coming out of it. It is going to be very wonderful when you come out of this experience knowing so much and able to help other people with the same exact problem. First of all, I want you to think about all the time you've wasted just sitting and daydreaming about him. That's time you could have used to make your life better by doing things you enjoy and you could have made other peoples' lives better. Next I want you to ask yourself, "What has he ever done for you?" It's really hurtful to realize that you've wasted your time wanting somebody that you just can't have but trust me, you will have so much free time once you just stop thinking about him. You have to be willing to stop talking about him w/ anyone, pretty much pretending he doesn't exist anymore. Avoid listening to songs that remind you of him. With the guy that I liked, he was actually undesirable and it took me so long to realize that he just wasn't a good match for me at all. So hang in there and remember there is absolutely nothing wrong with being singe cuz you're waiting for the right guy! You deserve a guy that's young enough and that you can actually go out w/! good luck! e-mail me if ya need to!
289709
Sorry mate you can't - especially if you truly loved that person. It does get better with time but you still have your bad days and good days.I lost my soul-mate 2 years ago and I still miss him to this day even though I'm with someone else now.I know I will never love anyone like I loved him - I just don't think its possible.If you ever need to talk plse feel free to contact me thru my e-mail
329005
When you can quit thinking about them. When you know you can let them go without concern. Not that you won't always care but this that its different. You have to be able to tell yourself you can move on and your over them and know you mean it. This is the hardest thing in the world to do. Don't make the mistake of using another person to try to prove to yourself its over. Not fair to you or the other person.
63790
That's my problem too, usually I just try to keep busy...keep my mind occupied on anything that doesn't remind me of the person. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. What's really awesome is when you find out that the person had been having a hard time trying not to think about you as well.
925756
This person will always be a part of you. \nThe Best ways to forget is meet other men.\ntalk and have a friendly relationship \nit may grow into a serious one . if so . you may be ready or you may not be. but try to do different things . \nWhen you start to think about him. stop . think about things you need to get done . call a friend . go out ..dis tract your thoughts from him..
873291
think about someone else
333753
you need to seriously cut down on spending time with him and phone calls, etc. he's just not into you that way. the only way to get over him is to distance yourself.\n\nCall up some other friends and become very busy and important!! \n\nYou might be surprised how much you won't be thinking about him after a week or two. \n\nGetting away from the situation always puts things in perspective. you will come to find that he is not amazing enuff for you to agonize over!
476635
You must accept that it's over before you can begin to heal.  Forget about them and move on - you are in control of your thoughts.  Challenge your thoughts... which will change your mood, feelings, and behaviour.  But, you'll have to do it over and over again until it sticks.
264568
if you love him and if 100% sure,then go for it, in this life people make mistakes sometimes by choosing a wrong person and forgetting the right person, if you feel his emptiness in your and you cant stop thinking about him then try to get his heart back but be quick before it gets too late!
288855
I'm going thought the same thing right now, he actually told me that he doesn't want me to call him anymore because every time we talk we get into an argument, regardless of all the crap we went through i still love him, i don't know your situation, but honestly there is nothing that you can actually do to get over somebody that you really really love, just live your life and eventually the feelings will die out. what you can do though is just go out and mingle with other people, i find that this is very helpful, hope ive helped!
134914
WHN U KNOW THE FACT THT U REALLY CANT B WITH HER THN TRY ACCEPTING THIS FACT\nI KNOW IT REALLY HURTS BT THERE IS NO OTHER WAY OUT THERE\nIT WILL SURELY TAKE TIME BT AS TIME WILL PASS U WILL FORGET HER\n\n\nONE MORE THING LIFE NEVER STARTS AND ENDS WITH ONE PERSON IT WILL GO ON AND ON AND ON \nDNT U THINK THT IT IS POSSIBLE THT MAY B UMEET A PERSON WITH WHOM U WILL REALLY FALL IN LUV\n\n\nDNT LOSE HOPE AND B JOLLY TRY TO B WITH UR FRNDS AND START FORGETTIGN ABT THT THING WHCH CAN NEVER B URS