When would be a better time to break up with your significant other...before or after Valentine's Day?
88945
Before, kill it quick, lessen the pain.
1074876
There is no easy way to do this. I wonder though, if you love him so much, why break up? Consider your reasons and then be straight and honest with him. Then go your own way. Good luck with this.
592759
When you feel the time is right to move then go ahead and do so. If you don't feel ready then take some time for your self. Remember you can always find someone better and you did not have him in your life when you met him so you don't need him now.
338566
It all depends on your relationship situation, the reason(s) for your separation, and your girlfriend's friends. Ask yourself if they understand the reasons as to why you are ending the relationship and it also depends if they are shallow enough to just hate you just because you are separating. If you did anything to cause the breakup like cheating on her or anything negative at all then you should'nt be surprised on their reactions towards you.
215925
Until you know in your heart it's the right time. It's different for everyone. Some take a long time and other are sooner however, listen to your heart. When you feel a peace that it's the right time, that means it is. Good luck =>
778078
Yeah, but then again, I do everything on the basis of reason. Tell him your breaking up with him unless he stops. See what happens. Only if you want to.
87019
Woman's input:\nValentines Day is good but the day before is more Romantic.  Then you have the present: flowers, candy, etc. the next day to further say it all over again.  Real clincher.
206126
If you are not totally happy in a relationship, then I say get out before it goes on any longer. You need to find yourself someone who makes you the happiest person on earth.
34684
I think it would be more romantic to get married on a day that has personal significance to a couple, instead of a day that is more generally symbolic like V-Day. Plus, if you marry on a day that you both find super special (like the day you met or the first day you both kissed), you get an extra present! LOL. You miss out on a V-Day gift if your anniversary is the same day!!!
209746
break up with him, if he did this before he can do it again. it's better to correct someone the first time.
1136866
Its whenever you are comfortable enough to do so, and where your values stand.  My now fiance and I moved in with eachother after only two months of dating.  Some people think that you should not live with eachother until you get married...I disagree...
45531
24 hours.  Cause you are asking this question obviously you are having problems and you need to break up.
1168288
It depends on your relationship, and how long you've been together. If you tell him that you want to wait a little longer and he gets really mad, then you should just forget about him. But if he respects your answer then it seems like the right time because he respects your choice. Which means he respects you.
654372
Are you sure you want to break up with her. Sometimes we think we want more without knowing what we want. ask for a cooling down period. See how both of you really feel. Just go it without for 2 weeks. If by then you don't miss her. then nothing is lost. and finalizing the break up is easier since she's gotten use to the idea. \n\n I've had guys break up with me and then try to get back together a couple of weeks later. but it depends on how we broke up. That's why I'm suggesting you ask for some time apart.
151067
you'll know when it is the right time, when you both feel you are completly ready. It's best if you speak to each other about your thoughts. If your too scared to talk its not a good decision to give it up because it will probably be a mistake.
457542
Send emails,call..appreciate the times when you are together.The absence makes the time together that much more special.You need both..there is a dichotomy in everything.A high and a low..an opposite,that is necessary for the Universe to function.So for you to be together,there must be time apart... simple.It may not be an equal time,but it is there.
111067
I don't think you can.  It's already February, and the "perfect" romance takes longer than that to develop.  But if by "perfect" you mean "the best I can do," then I think the main thing is to be genuinely nice to all the men you know, all those who might possibly develop into your golden soul-mate, and let their reactions to you make the choice.\n\nIf you just mean, "How do I decide which man to spend St. Valentine's Day with," then it is more like New Year's Eve: traditionally, you spend these special holidays with the one who means most to you.  Or rather, the intersection of the one who means most to you and the one you mean the most to.  And so the answer is to be honest with yourself and with the men around you.  What do you really want out of a love relationship, and what are you prepared to offer?