How can I be comforting to a sad or depressed girl?
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Just be there for her when she needs you, listening to her or just hanging out.
228878
By being just being there for her/him. Ask questions about how they feel and sooner are later they will open up to you. It just takes time.
535748
Send her a "thinking of you" card and let her know she's in your thoughts and prayers. Let her know if she needs anything, do not hesitate to call you. Just to know someone cares about her will touch her deeply and let her know not all people in the world are bad.
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Be there for her and listen to her...be the shoulder she leans on...and the person she cries with...spend time with her...and encourage her to go out, and to spend her time doing things she likes to do...\n\nBe patient, and listen to her...show her that you are there for her and that she can rely on you...\n\nBy the way, you are a really good guy...Good luck!!!
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Tell them they're always in your thoughts, that you'll always be there for them...that when a sad song comes on the radio...its their face you see...show them respect and attention...they will know you love them..hope this helps :)\nTake Care
275430
There's nothing you can say that will really make your friend feel better so - just LISTEN.  \n\nJust being there with someone in mourning makes a huge difference.
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trust me, thats a very bad idea\ndont look for a girl just cuz you feelin sh!tty\nit will lead to a dependancy on others (your girl)\nthe best way to deal with your problems is good help, not dependency\n\nso im sayin you need to talk and somone to listen
1055827
The best thing yu can do for her is be there for her. Be there when she needs to talk about it, or when she just wants to be held or just needs to cry! Be supportive of her in every way possible. She is at a hard time and she just needs you to be there for her. Just make sure she knows you love and care about her no matter what and you'll always be there if she needs any help!
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Randomly ask some poor 'loser' out.\nNot the best advice but still it would make a sad girl happy.
583730
be your understanding self by simply being there for her. trust me, she'll appreciate it.
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I suggest go for something romatic. Like a poem showing how you feel about her. I know it may sound really soppy, but girls love that sort of thing. Show your feelings, and she'll appreciate it immensly, I am sure.
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Just to be there for her, make her feel needed, respect her and let her know you love her for who she is not for what others think she is. The love she feels should be unconditional.
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I don't think you can not hurt her. Be honest. Listen to what she has to say. Offer her support. Be there for her. Do not patronize her and not get to the point though. There is nothing that can ease the blow of losing a loved one.
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The only way she can be helped is if she wants to be....I don't think it matters what you do or say she's the one that wants to be helped..i think it's OK to talk to her and tell her how you feel about this and let her know that when she's ready for help you'll be there...at that point you can find her a group to go to or a hospital to go to...till then just be a friend.
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Depends on how serious I think that person is. If she/he sounds pretty serious to me, if I think it is a cry for help else than being a joke then I would get her/him to a professional. But if it is just depression talking I would try to cheer that person up and make him/her see how beautiful life is and death is not.
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I agree with you, I also know how you feel. I used to be a cutter because of my depression but i have found better ways of dealing with the pain and sorrow. Write poetry or listen to music, try to go hang out with your friends and have a good time with them. Just keep moving on and remember that its his loss and your a strong woman/girl/lady ( i don't know how only you are so yeah.) I hope this helped.
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theres many things you can do. when im depressed or feeling low, i call or talk to one of my friends or family members. i also like listening to music. another thing you can do is eat your favorite food.