having a bf combined with study , okay at tiimes or??? not???
96317
If you have confidance that you will not loose the focus on study then YES.Its possible to RISE IN LOVE rather than FALL IN LOVE
508697
You've a lot of growing up to do dear...\n\nI think you should believe your bf, otherwise you shouldn't be with him
33375
Dude, best of luck to you but this question really doesn't make much sense to ask.  We don't know either of you as people so how do you expect us to make any accurate judgements on how likely it is that you have a future together?  I would take it SLOW and wait until you are not a student at the college anymore before pursuing anything though so that you protect both of your futures, yours as a student who wants to graduate there and hers as an employee.
1143860
You probably need a scholarship. \nLoans never get repaid for this sort of thing.\nWhy not find a husband who'll support you while you're studying?
609266
as long as ure bf is nice to you and love you so much, no harm for you to do the same thing to him. when u happy to do anything for him.. it doesnt matter what other ppl say abt u two..
989469
not at all, i didn't have my first bf until i was 16, and i thought i was completely weird because of that.  but, in reality, it made me closer to my friends, and i had a great time.  you can have fun with or without a bf, and you definitely don't need one to make you happy.  so just go out and have fun with your friends, don't worry about guys yet.
130732
i am in 6th grade and there is nothing wrong with having a bf.cause you are not that lonely.
1144796
all you have to do is wait coz i too have this problem we are even 5 yrs ++...we both wanted to settle down but you should also cosider some things and make sure u are ready for it. maybe ur bf has still other priorities this time and maybe he is just preparing himself for the future..
457675
you don't really have to choose between your bf and your friends, they belong to different parts of your heart, so to speak. but you do need to balance your priorities. sometimes your bf will need you more than your friends will and vice versa. good luck with the joggling act!
226697
It's fine. My friend has been with her bf for 3.5 years, since she was 18 and he was 26. They're very happy together. But it all depends on the person.
829784
First off, if he is under 18, living at home with his parents, they have parental rights to his coming and going, not who he is involved with but his study time at home seeing that his schooling is being adequately taken care of.  It is not your responsibility.  If he was not spending time with you it would be someone else.  Your breaking up with him will not keep him studying if his parents do not use their authority as parents to see that his studies do not go neglected.\nSecond, if he is in college living away from home and they are footing the bill, it may seem to them that his involvement with you may jeopardize his studies. If this is the case step back and look at the situation yourself, is all his time and thoughts wrapped up in your relationship?  Is his grades suffering because you two are seeing too much of each other and he has no time to buckle down and really study as he should?  Think about your future with him. If he fails or drops out of school because of poor study habits it would put a strain on your relationship financially and he may very well blame you, as would his family put the blame on you.  The two of you need to sit down and work out a schedule that includes his study time.  If your mature enough to be in a relationship and in love then you need to plan long term with all aspects of the relationship, not just the now part.\n\nThird...the real answer to your question. My spouses family never approved of me. I was 13 years younger and never good enough for him, in their eyes.  To say it didn't bother me would be a lie, it did, but I never let it interfer in our relationship. I went to family gatherings and held my chin up. I never put them down to him and our relationship lasted 20 years.  I became a friend to his mother and one of his sister-in-laws but that was all, the others, as far as I know today, still dislike me or have nothing to do with me. I don't lose any sleep over it and my life is about as happy as it can be.  So don't let them intimidate you.  It is your BF that is important and the one in which you will make your life with, not his family.
479594
there is nothing wrong with that but you just hafta make sure that you won't let it get into the way with your studies..just be responsible..
823711
you may not have to study anything if you know how to kiss behind good enough. it seems to work well all over the world hence the saying its not who you know but who you blo-.
602530
Id say youd be weird if you were worrying about havin a boyfriend instead of thinking about finishing school. Youll have plenty of time to worry about boys
73196
Yes i think is is very possible to have that type of realtionship.\n\nNot to mention that is you two would do "it" that would be a crime for him right now.\n\nI think you should wait and enjoy each others company before you start going further.\n\nConcentrate on school and you should do fine.\n\nJust dont rush things.
680893
having a gf or a bf is not like a rule you must obey.\nit depends on your feeling.\nif you feel you need someone to share your life with - than start looking for that right person.\nbut dont put pressure on yourself, and dont let anyone else put the pressure on you.\ntake your time and pick the right person for yourself.\n\nbut my honest answer is: yes. it is important. i think it is.
395439
Sure! I'm a 15 year old girl and i have a bf. A s long as you think you're ready, it's fine!one thing though...make sure you're mature about the situation.... :)