how do you get back with your girlfriend and not have her think i am a woos??
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just say u still have feelings for her even if u try to hide them by being cool or showing off. and say that you cant believe you everlet a girl like her break up with you (or that you cant beliieve you broke up with a girl like her!) good luck man! im proud of u for trying to get back with her! y cant all men be like u?!!
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I just brok up with my bf... and I just told him straight up. Just say something like " I have a few things on my mind that I need to tell you with out interuptions..." And tell her what your are unhappy with and then when you are done say something like " Our relationship is not tight like it used to be and I think we should break up. Iff we are meant to be together we will be. If you are supposed to be with me you will come back to me but if not you were never really mine."
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Are you choosing the word "confront" because she denies she still has feelings for you?\n\nCombative is not the way to go.  If you've hurt her feelings, you'll have some fence-mending to do before she'll be willing to trust you with her feelings again.\n\nSometimes people want the same thing, but their communication styles get in the way.  If that's the case, check out "Getting to Yes," by Roger Fisher.  You can read a bit of it here:  http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0140157352/qid=1144084712/sr=2-1/ref=pd_bbs_b_2_1/103-4668860-3658249?s=books&v=glance&n=283155
435674
Than try to call her and tell how you feel in a matter of wanting her back winning her back i suggest you to do it inmmidiately until she finds another person!!! :)
679663
You have to make the move. You wont get anywhere in any aspect in life if you do not take risks. Chances are she still has some feelings for you. Tell her how you feel before its too late...or atleast ask her to hang out or go to coffee or maybe to something you used to do together. You HAVE to talk to her. If you are just trying to attract her do subtle things that remind her of when you were together but either way you have to show/tell her that you are interested again. Follow your heart!
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Forget it.  You'll get over her.  You won't respect yourself, and she'll never respect you either if you let her walk on you like that.  You don't just casually leave someone.  How would you ever trust her again?   You'd spend your life worried that if you don't jump through her hoops, she'll bail again, and she probably will, too!   \n\nJust tell her, "I'm sorry.  I wish you all the best, but that ship has sailed."  You don't need to humiliate her or rub her nose in it.  Take the high road, which will make her realize all the more that you are a decent guy and she shouldn't have done that.  You can't fix this one, but maybe she'll grow up a little for the next guy.
95675
the best way to get him or her back is to tell them u still have feeling for them if they dont want u back forget about him/her and go find somebody new to show them they cant have u down show them u can get somebody else
406418
Just say no. She'll take you for granted in the sense that because you're still around, you're available should she ever want to get back together. In the meantime, while she has you as a backup, she'll go on with her life, getting you to do all the boyfriend "work" (e.g. listening to her whine about work, traffic, her new jeans) but not giving you the boyfriend "fun" (although maybe once or twice she'll cave and fool around with you). You'll think she's just on the cusp of getting back together with you. And then she'll tell you that she's met someone else. With work, be as civil as you'd be toward any girl in whom you had absolutely no interest. But flirt with all the other girls at work so the ex gets a reminder of what she's missing.
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Tell her when you are alone as nicely as you can, phones okay, notes are a big no.  Say something like "Sorry girl in algebra I don't like you in that way, the girlfriend way.  I think you're nice though.  If she cries say your sorry again and end the conversation.  If she acts like she really didn't like you in the first place, let it go.  She's found a way out gracefully.  Just say great, cuz I'd like to be friends.  \n\nNo matter what, the next time you see her tell her hi and smile at her.  \n\nIt's nice that you are worried about not hurting her feelings.  You sound like a great guy.
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I kinda` understand your girlfriend but the situation you`re caught in too...I think that the love chain brought the two of u back together everytime you two broke up.It`s hard to stick without your beloved.The fact of ignoring her love was not a good idea at all,even though i believe that u have done it just to satisfy you self-ego...and now you are the one who wants to get close to her again...After brokin up several times i think that it`s better to take it slow,show her that u care about her ,without pressuring her cause this will scare her away even though i`m sure that she still loves u...She`s hurt...and all u have to do it`s to gain her confidence again,dip a deeper place in her heart than u already have.By rushing her u will not receive anything.Do simple things for showing her how much she meens to u,that u can change and that the two of u together can work it out.It`s all about motivation and how much do u really want things to work out...and of course...u need love from both sides...\n I hope that my answer will help u in some way... :P
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Well, first of all it depends on what u did to make her leave...or if you pushed her away.......it is possible that there is no help.....it really depends on the circumstances surrounding the break up....\n\nbut if u really love this girl...and deep down inside she really loves u, then there is still a chance.....\n\ntake into consideration what she likes and enjoys.....what are her needs and wants......u have to begin there becuase there is where u make a difference....\n\nonce u have identified that.....come up wit som creative ways to capture her heart.....women enjoy romance and that is the entrance into our hearts......come up with ways to romance her back into you life.....\n\ni can tell u what to do, but i can offer you ways to stimulate ure thinking so that you can come up with ways to get her back...afterall, if u have taken the time out to get to know her...u will know how to win her back.....\n\nagain, providing that u didnt push her away considering the circumstances....\n\nhope that helps\n\nSincere
369662
Go back to the way you treated each other in the beginning.  Flowers, gifts occasionally.  Look at her when she talks with you.  Honesty and respect, concern for her.
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Why would you want to get back together? She accused you of cheating...If its not true stand up for yourself and begone of the wench. Don't be used. That will only lead to women thinking they can get away with it and then they will continue to totally ruin perfectly good guys. Then when those guys finally find a wonderful chick who doesn't want to sqrew them over they won't be able to do all of this stuff you are talking about that she deserves and that will in turn make her find some schmuck on the side she can use to get what she wants. Its a perpetuation of everything thats wrong with relationships and it could totally be avoided if people just said, "I got stuff going on and I can't let you walk all over me right now. Call back when you have some modicum of respect for other people and them maybe we can talk."
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You can't win her back but perhaps there is a chance you could EARN her back. \n\nBy this I mean that you should replace criticism with encouragement, emotional support and praise. After all, she's not supposed to be a mirror image of you, reflecting only your values, opinions and ways of doing things. \n\nIt sounds like both of you need boundaries. There are things that shouldn't be said, like hurtful judgments and criticisms. \n\nIt is so much more pleasant to appreciate and tolerate individual differences than to bicker over personal life styles!\n\nBest of luck to you and your lady!\nI hope it all works out for the best.
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No--don't lie. Just tell her nicely that you're going and ask her to go along. Chances are, she'll say NO. She will probably appreciate the fact that you were thoughtful enough to ask her if she'd like to go. When you get back (dont drink and drive)have great sex with her and tell how much you love her. Just don't lie to her. It's not really worth it!!!!
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It kind of depends on what you were not able to compromise on and if you are willing to give it a try her way.  As far as try to get her back start doing little things for her.  It sounds like you still talk and you must have some idea what kind of things she like.  Surprise her make her feel like she is the best part of your life.  Good luck...
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Five Ways To Win Her Back\n\nAdmit it: You messed up. You said or did something to drive away the most beautiful girl in the world, and now you want her back. But here's the rub: She's moved on, or at least appears to be going on with her life, living and loving it up with guys who happen not to be you. So what do you do to get back into her good graces without completely throwing your pride out of the window? How do you repair the rift and still remain a "man's man"?\nReach Out\n\nYears ago, a guy would have had to stumble through an uncomfortable phone call or write an embarrassing letter to reestablish the lines of communication with his lost love. These days, sending your ex an email is the easiest way to go. It's a quick and modern way to exchange light-hearted communications and your girl won't think you're groveling if you dash off a quick: "How's it going?"\nBe Contrite\n\nI know, I know. Admitting you're wrong is sometimes hard to do, but this simple technique goes a long way in showing a woman that you care. After you've reestablished the lines of communication, drop a few hints. Phrases like: "I'm sorry I said that" or "I didn't mean for that to happen" cause a woman to want to listen more to what you say to her. By the time you swoop in for the kill, she'll be ready. Unless of course you really screwed up ...\nBe Available\n\nIf you followed the methods above, the two of you should at least be on friendly terms. The next way to get her to warm to you is by showing her that you're there. If she needs a ride somewhere, take her; if she's moving, handle the biggest of the boxes; if she's fighting with her mom, listen to her whine about it.\n\nMaking yourself available doesn't mean taking over the role of "girlfriend". It means that when the girl you love has a problem, or needs a shoulder to cry on, it'll be your shoulder she cries on - not some other guy's.\nBe Busy\n\nWait! Didn't I just say to be available? Isn't that a contradiction? Not at all. Even though you're following the rules to get her back, you don't want her to know that you're trying to get her back--not just yet anyway. Go out with your buddies and continue your normal activities. That way, when you speak with her, you'll have funny stories to tell and new things to add to the conversation. If you're waiting by your phone or surfing the 'net checking your email every five seconds, then you'll have no great adventures to impress her with. And then she'll think you're lame.\nBe old-fashioned\n\nYour ex should be on her way to being your "next" again. Once things have progressed and you're sure she likes you again, ask her out. Think hard: what does she like to do? Perhaps your lady doesn't like the usual movie/dinner/clubbing scene--in that case, get creative. If she likes theme parks, rekindle those flames on her favorite roller coaster. If she's a reader, find out when her favorite author is in town and take your ex to see them. Is she a horror film buff? Take her to a film festival or rent the classics and stay in for the night. Make sure you've got her favorite snacks and drinks on hand.\nBe yourself\n\nDespite everything listed above, all a guy really has to get back with his ex is, well, himself. Turn on at full speed whatever you had that made her want you the first time. Remind her of how great things were in the beginning. Mention highlights that give the both of you good feelings. Don't be afraid to let her know that you had some of your best times with her, and that you wouldn't mind having more good times.\n\nWhile you think it might be easier to hold onto your pride, move on and forget about the one who got away, why chance it? Listening to your friends who think you're a big jerk for trying to work things out will just keep you alone, or w