I'm fat and not too pretty, but I like this guy and want to know how to get him to like me back. HELP!?
81881
You can't make anybody like you. You shouldn't try.\n\nYou should be yourself. If someone doesn't like you for who you are, to hell with them.\n\nFind out if you have common interests...you'll have something to talk about.
335123
I have the same problem. What I do is give him compliments. Not strong ones like "your hair looks sexy like that" but something nice, and subtle like "oh hey, that shirt looks really nice on you" or something equally friendly but still flirty enough to make him wonder.
479705
Hmmm... well first of all think about why you like him? could that be the reason other people like him too? \nMaybe it has nothing to do with him being fat, normally and sadly to say, being fat is a disadvantage to people, but perhaps because he is fat people don't see him as a threat.\ninstead of feeling pissed off about it you should realise you must have really good taste in friends if everyone likes him. It would be worse to have a friend that no one wanted around. \nAlso when people meet someone new for the first time,they tend to make more of an effort to make the person feel welcomed into the group and that is why they will talk to him more as they already know you . \nPerhaps he is funny and kind and is interested in other people and not just himself. Also if you are getting pissed off this will manifest itself and you might come across as cold or moody and that doesn't attract people. \nJust try and relax about it, be happy to have this person as a friend and try to focus on the good things about him and not just this one thing,\n \nIn life, if we have a belief about something we tend to look for confirmation of our beliefs...you believe your friends ignore you when your other friend is around so you constantly look for confirmation and signs to reaffirm what you believe....you will find it. If you change what confirmation you are looking for ( such as, my friends are really comfortable with me and like me) you will find that also...focus on the positive not the negative...it is getting you no where.\nhope this helps but you have to work at it.\n\nps: if you do as WELZENN suggested and make fun of him it will make you look dislikable and jealous and he doesn't deserve to be made fun of. that is not the way to treat a friend.
672129
you cant get him to like you but you can in a way tell him that you like him\ngive him some signals, you know what i mean\n\nlook at him whenever you can, but make sure that only he sees it,\nthen smile at him, look into his eyes\ngo past a group of your friends just to say hi, its just as simple as that, make small talk, for guys to gals and tother way around, all the guy really cares is talking about anything, small talk is good\n\niunno, thinka something...... hope this was helpful
153573
You really can't MAKE someone like you. \n\nChanging your appearance would make him like YOU, he would like how you look.
1168055
If you like him then just tell him and he will be flattered even if he doesn't like you back.  Who doesn't like flattery?\nIf you aren't the brave type then ask general questions like, "So what kind of things do you like in a girl?" Hopefully he'll start listing traits you have and that will give you a clue.
216790
Just ask him and be confident in yourself. Don't say you don't look good. Have faith in you because nobody else will. If he isn't interested its not the end of the world, trust me. I've been turned down myself and it didnt kill me. It might hurt for a while, but you'll move on. So cheer up and just be straight up with him about how you feel and see where his mind is.
508890
You don't want a guy who is just interested in your looks, you want one that likes your personality. Make sure this guy knows what you are like. Chat to him, find any excuse. Become friends with him and see where it goes. If my mates are anything to go by, looks are not a great thing to have as my mates are sometimes ever so slightly shallow :-/
415812
Are you sure he doesn't like you cause you're fat? Maybe there's something else in his mind. Look, i'm also fat. I have  a lot of ugly stretch marks all over my body but i know i am happier than most of the beautiful women on earth. It actually what you have in mind. If he really doesn't like you cause you're fat, remember girl, he's not worth you!! You deserve to be loved by a decent man. Don't try on a diet or extra exercise because of a lousy man. Because even if it works out (your diet and sport) and then he loves you because you have model figure, would you really think that his love is sincere? Would you really think he loves you because of you and not because of your sexy body? You have two choices.\n \nIf he doesn't like you cause you're fat, LEAVE HIM!! it is the lousiest reason a man doesn't like a woman.\nIf else, try to find out the reason he doesn't like you then work it out.
150303
Just continue to be "hot" and hopefully he will be more interested in you than other girls.  If not, his loss ... there are tons of guys out there to like :)
287683
If you know he has an interest that you share you can let him know that and take it from there.\n\nGuys generally don't need much encouragement if they like you. So don't try to hard, cause they might perceive you as easy.\n\nExample: He rides a bike. Let him know you would like to go for a ride. Or he is into fitness, if you are too then see if you can train together.
618391
I am sure you are very pretty. This guy may genuinely like you. That is quite possible. Perhaps it is not only your looks but your inner beauty is also beckoning to him. I have seen women that I thought didn't look that great and as I got to know them they were transformed. Their inner beauty shined through. \n\nAlso honey don't let you low opinion of yourself sabotage your life.
154991
You can't get him like you... However there are certain things you can do to show him that you like him. And you might discover that he likes you too :)
236414
Eat your pride and start getting cute with him. Otherwise, he'll think you're not interested at all.
164053
be yourself. you dont want to give a guy a wrong impression of you and if you do than you cant be sure he really falls for you because you are giving him the wrong image of you. so be yourself and thats the best way to find someone who will accept you for you.
407791
First and formost you must be yourself becuase afterall, you want him to like YOU. if you act a different way from the way you normally act then it kind of defeats the purpose. I know I would want a girl who was confident in herself and her appearance. Approach him happy with a smile on your face. Not too big because as you stated before, you do not want to look desperate. Me being a guy, I can tell you that if he likes you he will probably just come out and tell you. You won't have to look too deep inside his soul to find out. Good luck with that and I hope all goes well!
172960
there's nothing wrong with trying..who knows..maybe he like you back..and in case he ignores you..who cares!..he doesn't deserve your attention..there's still a lot of nice guys out there..