How can I go work for another firm without offending my boyfriend?
80357
since he suggested you looking for another work, i don't think he would find it offending if you do. just explain to him that your decision for looking for work at another firm is for your career growth. it is really hard to mix your personal life with your career life. but if your boyfriend loves you, he would want you to be a better person and for you to grow.
4898
You should look into filing a lawsuit at least against him, but possibly against the company for letting it go on. They have clearly not made an effective effort to make a livable work environment for you. Contact a local lawyer.
899080
ask him about the company and how it is doing and what his job is about and how hard was it to get that job and education it took to acheive it. personally ask him about his family and where he lives and what his personal intersts are. also talk about any improvements that you would like to see happen with the company  and ask him what he would like to see for improvements. relax and realize he just wants to get to know you as a person and co worker and if he can depend on you to back him up in a bind. relax and be yourself
4575
For me it would depend on how much I like my job... If I wouldn't mind too much having to leave because of the tension caused by filing suit, I'd go to HR and a lawyer... If I really loved my job, I'd try first going to my boss and telling him that I know he's uncomfortable with what happened and that I am ,too, but that it's not fair to be treating me differently because I accidentally happened upon HIS indescretion....he may not even realize he's being a jerk. (To be on the safe side, tape this conversation without telling him, so if it's needed, you have proof of your side of the story for HR, if he apologises and stops being a jerk to you, you can always destroy the tape)
803951
Don't rush things.  Go to the interview and weigh all of your options if you get a job offer.   If you turn down the interview you might regret it and might resent him for your mistake.  He's already told you he's not ready to make a major commitment yet, so just things play out the way they should.  Whatever you do don't force him to make a declaration of love to you just because you might be leaving.
830376
You're only spell can be changing your attitude. If your employer is egotistical, then buy into it. Tell him ow wonderful he is (not directly), but with statement like, "What a great idea!" or "You're so smart", or "I wish I'd thought of that". If he wants things done his way - even if it's wrong - do it his way, but show him what you think is the right way, too, as though it is his idea. Everyone loves an employee who makes him/her look good. Unfortunately there are a lot of bosses who let their positions go to their head and usually they will self destruct over time on their own. The only thing you can do is laugh internally at his idiocy and become the best you can be. I've learned a lot more from bosses I couldn't stand than the ones that I loved. Good luck!
269294
If you can keep your love life and your job separate then it should be fine. When you are at work don't treat him as your boyfriend...just another co-worker.
1054583
Let's see.  In work, you usually have to put up professional appearances.  So, I would say don't go there.  If your ex-boss cannot be professional with you at work..what makes you think he will be a nice guy outside of work?  \n\nWhat you just described..is a case of displacement..or kicking the dog once you get home.  He was frustrated..so he took it out on you..and you yourself said you couldn't take it.  I don't think this would bode well for a real relationship.  Think about it.\n\nAlso, I think you may just be feeling sorry for the guy..its true businesses can go bad...but thats life.  Many businesses fail..and he probably just hurt his business ...by treating you badly and hence..you leaving...\n\nLet go...and try to enjoy your new job.
1089667
Find out what firm he works for. Then they can put you in tuch through company email system.
495337
Hmm...Write up a nice resignation letter, stating how much you have enjoyed working at his firm, your regret at needing to resign, your reasons for leaving, etc. If possible, offer to train your replacement.\n\nIn your situation, the sooner you tell him, the better. That way, he will have more time to hire and train a suitable person before your departure.
117299
Dont hide it...If your boss finds out screw him..if you get fired then find another job cuz that one wasn't worth having in the first place. Nobody can tell you who to and not to date.
4708
Your company might not be happy flings withing the same department or workspace, to avoid distractions. (Just like they'd look down at playing bridge on company time)\n\nYou might also want to consider your life after&if you break up, both in terms of bumping into each other in the cafeteria, and feeding the rumor mill.\n\nAside from that, feel free to have fun.
1047221
You have to deal with it. It's his job.  Get a night job if you can. That way you'll be home at the same time. You can't tell him to leave his job for you. Not fair!
794479
You can copywrite it. Or you can go to a laywers office and ask them for any advice on what you can do. Or you can do the agreement you talked about that reads that they WONT use it an any manner other then business between you and them. I would definately talk to a laywer and see what your opinions are..
471408
work relationships are complicated, they can distract you. if it all goes wrong theres always a pretty high chance you'll end up office gossip. plus alot of companies frown on it so if u do go there, keep it quiet.x
480525
Did you make up that question? If you're serious, don't say anything to him. He'll wonder why you're there, in the first place. And he may already know about it but is embarrassed. It's never a good idea to embarrass your boss. Keep your lip zipped. Maybe it isn't even her.
47041
Just ignore her.  Try not to hurt her feelings any more than you have to, but when he comes to your work be EXTRA friendly with him.  Look very happy and pretend like you arent doing it on purpose.