why do girls play hard to get?
84331
it is flirtin but it is also probaly sayin they are in a relationship or jus tryna to be flirtacious
74417
because you can't get a girl
697650
Because women have fought for equal rights and now it is accepted that girls make the first move rather than waiting around for the guy. And lets face it women want relationships more than men do. A girl has to be pretty special for me to ask her out on a date but I get asked out or hit on a lot by girls I may flirt back and be attracted to them but to go out I've got to be the one to ask. I suppose I'm old fashioned like that.
1114659
I don't know about anyone else but I've never played hard to get.\n\nGirls that I'm interested in -- Easy to Get.\nGirls I'm not interested in -- Impossible to Get.
849084
They may get us faster, but easy come easy go. They also loose us faster. I am finding that the more class a women has the more I want her. Although I am a bit older now and flirtatious behavior can go along way.
1127174
It depends on the guy....\ni don't mind a guy who plays hard to get....
536369
No! play hard to get!!
353788
they don't. all girls (well...MOST girls) r into the good guys. it's just that the bad boys r usually the ones daring enough to ask them out, so they're the one's they end up with coz the others weren't man enough to make a move
573015
some guys like that. In my case I don't play hard to get, I am hard to get..haha, some people are just shy or something.
820369
The first thing you should know is that not all women do this. Aside from that, I've found there are two major reasons why this would be the case:  \n1.  We all sometimes want what we can't have.  If someone comes along that we just can not please, we may get so consumed with the rejection that we keep trying to win that person over.\n\n2.  Perhaps more deeply rooted, this could be a problem stemming from fathers/upbringing.  If the girl had the kind of father who never made her feel she was enough or who was not present, she may seek out men who make her feel this way because it is all she has known from the first man in her life.\n\nYou can test this out.  Notice girls who don't take crap or who love being spoiled and 9 times out of 10 they either had/have great relationships with their fathers or have a very strong mother who showed them how much they are worth.
685010
You can't win with these girls.. If you are shy most women don't esspecially like it.. If you show too much interest then they say your too needy, desperate or clingy.. They are just never satisfied.
1002744
play a little hard to get and act like you dont like them if they find out that you like them then they'll play hard to get.
531472
why would you want someone that you have to try so hard to get anyway
497065
Speaking personally, I like a girl who isn't afraid to tell me she's interested. We guys can be really dumb sometimes so you need to tell us! If a girl's playing hard to get, then a lot of times the guy will just assume she's not interested. If you aren't comfortable using the direct approach, drop some subtle (or not so subtle) hints...tell him he looks good,etc. He should pick up on it. Hope this info helps.
276029
Guys. Girls will always try and use it against someone, to get something. Guys are more laid back.
822344
Maybe you are trying too hard.  Be yourself and the right girl will turn up soon.
903721
Shouldn't a man also appear to be "hard to get"\nThis shows either you are a "Thinker" or there is a girl in your life who is making you feel weak for her. Well men and women are the same, both have feelings.. there is no need to make it difficult to get but it apprears so because females don wanna be friendly with all males. They think about their security. Men feel safe so they take the first step in a relation