Are there long term scars for kids who see their parents having sex?
96039
Why did you have to bring that up?  I'm having flashbacks now and I have to go throw up.\n\nNo, no long term scars.
976784
My biggest question is:Where are the parents of these kids asking sex questions?
1051389
If the child is shielded from it, it will affect the child so much worse when it is exposed, where as if the child is raised around it the child will be acclimated and be in less shock, It is like alcohol in Europe. the kids can drink, and the have less alcoholism, the children see sex everywhere. They dont grow up to be rapist. That is a major problem in America. So there should be no filtering I believe.
269543
I think its because parents are so embarrassed about sex. I think the boy probably was cool with it until everybody started telling him it was bad. How would you like to tell everybody every little detail about your sex life?
195264
Good luck in finding it. Just remember that not all sex offenders are pedophiles. Some just made a bad decision when they were younger and got involved with a seductive 16 year old or were got masturbating in a public bathroom or their tent at a campground. \n\nIn fact, the majority are probably not a threat to you or your children at all. Despite what Oprah says.
1083748
yes ...tis sooo true...when we were kids...WE WERE KIDS!!!  nowadays...kids that are 10 yrs. old...are having sex..omg ..i was still playing cowboys and indians in the ditch with sticks for guns lmao....blame it all on society ...tv...with the onset of std's sexual education is no longer the parents job...the schools do that now...kids dont have to ask us anything...they learn it all from health classes.  which is good...to an extent...in anycase..yes the generations have changed...to sex crazed teens...body piercing and the likes...and what do we have to do...by societys means....accept our children for who they are....wow...i remember we could not even THINK this stuff without getting the look from mom....and we did not dare ask or try any of it...or we would get spanked...slapped...mouth washed out with soap...or knelt down in a corner for hours...ahhhh the good ole days...now if we, the parents think of spanking or slapping ...cps is knocking on our door the next day or sooner!
610635
You can go to a doctor and have it burnt off or froze off.  My mom doesn't have a scar and she had hers burnt off.  But that was a mole on her back.  A plastic surgeon can work wonders for all areas though!
1045239
Depends on the parent and the child.  I would say that parents have usually lived more years than their kids, so the possibility that they may have learned more does exist - whether they have availed themselves of that possibility is another issue altogether.
811187
there are reports that ppl hav been like sexually abused and wut not but there are privacy settings that you can set so that only your friends can see your page and stuff.\n\n\nmostly its just parents being paranoid and scared that their "little darling" is gonna get messed with..... i think that the parents just need to trust us.
656679
Yes !\nYou ever considered what it must be like for that child to "loose" his or her parents again? \nCould you imagine what pain it causes, not seeing your parents anymore, or maybe once or twice a year?
786764
Here is link to a page of scar ointments:\n\nhttp://www.nextag.com/scar-ointment/search-html\n\nPlease, understand that scars are named such because they don't always go away.  Even with scar ointment, it is very likely that that scar you have will probably never completely go away.  I have many childhood scars that will never go away.  The scars we get in life are often burdensome and even emotionally painful, but sometimes the best thing we can do for them is learn to live with them and learn from the experience.  Good luck and take care!
1095797
no.   If someone does something that hurts very much, it is absolutely possible to NOT forget or forgive for the rest of your life.  I'm living proof.  I have not forgiven my parents for something they did, and I have not spoken to them for 8 years.  Also, I do not forgive any one who has hurt me over the years.  If what someone does , hurts so much that you can not forget it... then you can't forgive it.  It is their problem... not yours.  Go on with your life and forget about them.. Why have someone in your life that hurts you ?
1018993
just remember that your parents are scared and shocked and dealing with alot of things right now. you didn't say how old you are and that makes a huge difference so adding some details will help, let them come around on their own and be willing to talk to them about it. also make sure you are practicing safe sex EVERY SINGLE TIME!
818094
Yes I have. My bf had this on his. He had it since he was ten years old. Before he was sexually active. It has never bothered me. A person can get acne everywhere, why not on their genitals. For all the other ignorant ppl answering this. Its not an STD dumbass. Go to the dermatologist. There is a specified cure just for this. And its not herpes.
187476
I think a lot of them come from families where parents don't care or the parents care *too* much. You wouldn't believe the amount of parents I've seen that are so protective of their daughters that they don't even want them to *see* the word sex because they think it's inappropriate. We're talking about 12 year old girls here. A good parent would talk to their daughters around this age and let them know what's appropriate and what's not appropriate. Some of you may say, "12 is too young to have sex" and I agree, but never telling your children about it is wrong. Not telling a 12-year-old girl, at the brink of puberty about sex can set her up for problems later on. How would a child this age know if she was being molested if she had no idea what was taking place? Knowledge is power and parents should be giving their children that gift. Just because you talk to your kids about it doesn't mean you're condoning it (do parents that talk to their kids about cigarettes encourage them to smoke?). Parents should be taking a realistic approach and teach their kids to wait until they're absolutely ready to have sex (as "don't have sex" just doesn't seem to be cutting it anymore) and if they are going to have sex, to use protection. Kids should be aware of the consequences that sex involves. If parents try to shelter their children to the point where they get none of this information, I guarantee that those kids are going to be 14-year-old mothers, all the while the parents asking, "What did I do wrong?"
146287
Yes!  Sometimes even at very young ages.  What isn't healthy is for a parent or an adult to tell a young one that it IS wrong...or he/she'll go blind etc.  At thirteen, the child should have had some sex ed in school and "the" talk with his/her parent and masturbating should be a part of that talk....Along with the explanation of sex and masturbation, should be a talk about the need to do so in privacy if/when it is done....and if it is a male...to clean up his mess...himself!
1082463
I have two children, and where my stomach expanded so much (I was real small before) I have alot of stretch marks. The coco butter theory didnt really work, i tryed - but there's a creme call Eucerin that I started using and it made a big difference, and also Tanning helps them (or the illusion of them). But before i had a few big ones that almost looked like scars and the eucerin actually faded them all the way gone