What the first thing a woman look for in a man?
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Looks. She has to be physically attracted to him to even bother with the rest of his qualities. Unless she's a gold digger.
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women look for different things but it boils down to them looking for a guy that complements her. If she needs stability in her life, then she'd look for a responsible guy with a good job who comes with no baggage. If she needs some fun in her life, then she'd look for a funny, party-loving guy who will help her relax at the end of a stressful day!\n\nThe best thing guys can do, is just be themselves. The right woman will realise that you're just what she needs!
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Each woman has her own preference as to what she is attracted to. Some will say eyes, another will be his body, another will say his smile etc. But once we get past the outer layer we really start looking for qualities that we would like that man to have. Such as, honesty (that's the big one). If the man isn't honest we can't trust him. Another one is personality. Can he make the woman laugh?  The most important thing to me is (and hopefully all women)...Does he respect and accept me for who I am? If he can't respect you as a person that guy shouldn't deserve my time. He must accept me for who I am. That he must accept every little quirky thing I might do or say. That also includes a respect of my beliefs and goals. I could go on and on...Hope this helps.
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I'll be honest.  For a first date, looks are very important.  I mean, the first thing you know about a person is whether or not they are physically appealing.  Whether the guy has a good personalilty determines if he gets a second date.
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honesty, sweetness, romance, surprise, trustworthiness, a genuine caring attitude, sense of humor, strong sense of family, a good work ethic (not too lazy), fun\n\ni also think it's great when a guy really likes music, won't be afraid to dance with you, not ashamed to hold you in public, not afraid to meet your friends or introduce you to his, takes care of himself, smart, likes to read, likes to cook (or try to cook for you anyway). \n\ni probably missed more qualities... but that's what i want in a man anyway =)
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One of the first things I look for in a person is whether or not they have a since of humor.  Try a joke or just a somewhat comical statement.  But be natural.
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What I look for in a man is for him to be honest, ready to have a serious relationship, a great personality, ability to communicate, basically all the necessary stuff. As far as looks or how he is at sex, I would have to say looks. There has to be some sort of physical attraction for sex to even happen. I am lucky enough to have a man that has it all. Great personality, easy to be with, extremely good looking, and incredible at sex. Usually, if the relationship is good, then the sex sucks...or, if the sex is great, the relationship sucks, but lucky for be both the sex and relationship are great!
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Sincerety, care, positive way of thinking, \nSex is secondry but most important also.\nThe perfect combination of good personality and poistive atttude should be the thing of attraction.
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Sense of humour, ability to laugh at himself, ability to converse with you as if you matter, expectation of a woman to be clever and to have ideas and wishes and needs.\n\nIf he's also good looking, that's a bonus.
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women have different preferences, the next best thing is to eye for someone you like and get to know her if you're interested..as for the general traits...well, i find the personality very appealing if he's able to handle a sincere conversation, with a good sense of humor, confident, firm in his ideals, never pressure you into anything and respects me as a woman, in terms of my opinion and what i like...sexiness, when he's able to flirt with you in a subtle but meaningful manner...
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Humor - a guy has to make me laugh, and be able to laugh at himself, or at least not take himself too seriously.  My boyfriend is really funny, and everywhere we go, he can make people laugh...even angry grocery store clerks.  Intelligence is equally important - including overall knowledge of what's going on in the world, politics, and also problem solving skills, objectivity.  Caring about other people is also a big one - compassion and eagerness to help others by volunteering or just helping someone with directions.  And with all of this, he's got to be "manly" - as stereotypical as that sounds, I like a guy that isn't too emotional, is physically strong, knows how to fix stuff around the house, and helps me do things that are easier for him - like carry heavy luggage, etc... \n\nI just realized that I've described my boyfriend perfectly...so I'm suddenly very happy to realize what I have!  Thanks for asking!
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when i first meet a guy i always see these first...\n\n1) height\n2) outfit\n3) the way he stands\n4) body type\n5) smile\n6) hair\n\nthats just me personally but usually the eye gets the first impression. just remember that body language is everything. the way you stand or shake someons hand says a lot. make sure that you stand up straight, your head is up, and your hands are NOT in your pocket. i wish you the best of luck!!! im only 15 and i might be young but i know a thing or two. good luck!!!
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The first thing that catches the eye will be her body or a body part (breast, smile, hips, legs, hair son on), then you will notice her attitude, the gleam in her eyes when she looks at you, the way she walks, her laugh, It depends on the guy and what he sees in her what the connection is, is it purely physical or deeper. This is what I have been told by men. Hope it helps.
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simple things.\n\nlooks\nhonesty\nfaithfulness\nsmart\ntime to spend\ngoals\nhe has to know how to treat a woman\nrespectful\n\nthats the basics....... is that too much to ask for? lol
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1. Looks (eyes, ass, shoulders)\n2. Attitude (does he make me laugh?  Does he smile a lot?)\n3. Smarts (can he tie his shoes?  LOL)\n4. Simularities (What do we have in common?)\n5. Wealth (or any money at all?)
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After the initial male reaction (meaning like all guys my eyes are drawn to the obvious things men like to look at) I'm usually captivated by a woman's eyes.\nMentally: compassion and a good, irreverent sense of humor.
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Confidence, control and wit.  The combination of these characteristics are very sexy in a woman.  Looks can only get you so far.  I've known plenty of beautiful looking women, but when they displayed their true colors they became "ugly" to me.