Do you think that my boyfriend loves me whenever he gives me money?
90174
Hard to say without knowing your boyfriend.\nThere is a book called "The Five Languages."  In that book it talks about everyone having a different love language.  Some people express love by doing things for people, some by touch, some by spending time, for some they show love by buying things for ones they love.\nIf that is his love language it would mean that he is trying to tell you that he loves you, however without knowing any other information about your relationship than that, I can't say for sure.
1037077
Saying I love you isnt as powerful as showing it. If he is still treating you the same then you have nothing to worry about. One of the important things in a relationship is trust, if you dont have that then the relationship is doomed to end. Either you trust him and stay with him, or you dont and you move on.
385010
Stick with what you believe and let everyone who is not paying or participating in your life have their own opinion but remain who you are.  Your convictions of what you believe are more important than popular opinion.  If there is no problem between you and your bf why would you let everyone else create one.  The two of you should decide who is responsible for what.  If you two are friends I understand why he wants to take care of you.  It is a man thing that is hard to explain, but when you need help, like for your car, ask your bf if he would loan you the money to fix it. Then pay him back.  Your boss would probably want interest and the end result is a loan and how much you want to pay.  Shop and be smart but at the same time do not seem ungrateful for your bf is showing what some of us guys call love.  It comes in all shapes and sizes and is very valuable.  Throwing something away that is valuable you run the risk of losing it and it not returning.  If you love him show him by not being so independent, maybe try spending some of your money on him for the things he wants as that is what he is giving up for you.  See what it brings.  You might be pleasantly suprised.
1104055
he probably already knows that you appreciate him, or he wouldn't have gotten all that nice stuff for you, just thank him, and show off what he gave you, (my boyfriend got me this, or my boyfriend did this for me) i think that just you enjoying what he did for you is enough
525701
its up to you, what do you think he would like.  if you give him money, give him what ammount that you think that is apporiate
835119
I think it sounds like you are using him for all his "treats and gifts". This must make you feel good, but think what he must think if you don't feel the way he does.
3734
Girl,\nI am in a similar situation. You have to decide if he is "using" you as a safety net of sorts or just settling until something better comes along. Also, because I do not know the entire situation, you have to ask your self if he could also be using you for monetary gains, etc.  No matter the situation, if you are not 100% happy, you should walk. You are more important and your happiness is too.
264224
I think you can see it in a person's eyes. You can also tell by their actions. As others have said actions speak louder then words. \n\nI know when I that I love my girl and that I am always trying to do things for her. She hasn't opened a door since we've been together. I get her little things just to surprise her. I assume your to young, but I even leave her a little note on her car about once or twice a month. \n\nI doubt there is really any ONE way to figure out if this boy loves you or not. But why worry about it? Enjoy the experience your getting. I am sure there will be more then just this one guy in your life. Life's a ride, so enjoy it... Ride on!!
601653
He will have to prove it day by day. His actions will tell. If he loves you you may feel loved.
488065
if u love him, YES. does he love u?
36536
Depends on if you trust him or not. If he's trustworthy then you should believe him...if you have that gut feeling that he just isn't telling you how he seriously feels..then you should try to find someone who WOULD give anything for you. Good Luck!
20685
yes...and if you ask real nice...he may give you someTHING extra!!
820543
You don't have to suggest anything to him. Isn't this season supposed to be about giving rather than recieving? I know, the dude has nothing to give for you....but if you don't have anything to suggest to him, then you have everything you could possibly want. Right? So basically, you can just tell him that you already have what you want, and that is your boyfriend. Of course, only say that if that is the truth. Don't lie to your boyfriend.
1029201
If he always treats you with respect, kindness, understanding, trust, honesty, and is willing to compromise and to communicate his thoughts and feelings openly with you, I think that he loves you. If he is all of these things, all of the time, I do think it is love! If he never tries to hurt you, and he continually puts into the relationship as much as you, I think that's love!
1066297
Yes its true.  I love my husband dearly.  He showers me with gifts on holidays and anniversaries to show me he loves me.  He feels that this will make me love him more.  I am not a material person, tho i love the things that we two can do together with our income-such as a vacation...but the one thing i beg for, and cant get-is for him to talk to me with the respect that he expects from me, and i cant get it, and it is killing the love....all the diamonds and flowers in the world cant make up for it.
443732
never trust a guy, espec`ially if he loves you.  Always make sure you are independent enough of him that you will be alright if he turns out to be a jerk.... and never let him spend your money.
317363
your boyfriend feels threatened and i would be too if my bf got gifts from other girls put yourself in his shoes..I'm sure you would be a little jealous or concerned. if you love him you wont talk those gifts relationships need compromise and in the end those gifts don't matter you don't want to hurt your bf by thinking you might do something. just tell the customers that you don't feel right accepting them but thanks anyways.