What should I do if I'm being spied on?
97091
dude, call the cops. that's invasion of privacy!
634500
Use a private dectective.\n\nn00b.
634862
woah dont do anything stpid! everyone gets paranoid at one time in a realationship. b4 u decide to act on anything u hav t b sure. just remember that u hav 1 up on them cos they dont know u r watchin, moniter the situation, c if ur sis has got your hubbys number in her mobile phone and check her call list if u get chance. private detectives r expensive and it wud b a lot of money to waste on somethin u can do yourself. but the best advice is b sure! paranoia can get hold of u and make u think all kind of outrageous things.
1122515
Yes, u can do with buddy spy software.\nhttp://www.buddy-spy.com/\nClick the link to download and install the software.
105572
When they're in the house across the street, sneek out, get right up under the window, jump up and say "BOO!" really loud.\n\nThen video tape them spying on you when ever you can (and as much as humanly possible).  Make sure you have as much evidence of them spying on you as possible\n\nI.E. video, audio, witnesses....\n\nThen take it to the police.\n\nAlso, what every one else said, see if you can't get a PI.\n\n\nAnd lastly, try not to let them know that you are filming or doing anything to record their actions, or else (if they're smart) they'll stop, and WHOOSH, there goes your case.\n\nAnd the last lastly, go buy a pistol, or shot gun, and keep it ready at all times (please approprietly lock it up), ready, as in, locked in a case near where you rest or sit alot, and with a magazine, loaded and ready to go right there in the case with it.  If your good, "boom" some one busted down your front door or window, ten seconds later, you have a nice little glock 40. sitting there in your hand, ready to empty a magazine into their sorry a$$es.\n\nAnd the absolute last lastly, if your super paranoid, get a concealed weapons permit, and keep a gun on you at all times...
360100
confront them!\nthey invaded your privacy, and abused your trust.\nif it is possible, i would suggest moving, because you dont know what else they get into when your not around, or how often they do it.
999142
leave the room and then politely and privately alert them to what you just wrote...youre doing nothing wrong by choosing not to hear about someones personal private life especially at your age
1097692
This is on an employers network? If so I dont think its a hacker. I would be more inclined to believe it is someone you work with. Maybe the administrator of the network! They are probably watchin you or your friend!
293608
now that you mention it....\ndo you think they are watching you?
120331
Setup some type of camera or spy equipment to catch him.  When he comes around call the police and show them what you captured with your equipment - that way things are documented.  That would help you quite a bit.  Then work towards pressing charges and getting a restraining order.  That's how I ended up getting rid of a guy who beat and stalked me.
928511
if you have a feeling you are being followed it may not be by who you think but watch your back. i had a "feeling" of being followed and i was, they had been in my house while i was away they followed me to stores untill i caught them took their picture called the police, then they stopped. listen to your inner person they know best...
677825
go to internet tools and check your privacy and security settings
320303
People will tell you anything on the net and unless you actually meet them and discover who they really are then you shouldn't worry. I've said this time and time again be your own best friend, that way you won't get hurt.
1182199
try to explain them that this things happen, how to u think computer security professionals make a living\nthe www.nsa.gov it tells that anyone can be hacked and they dont believe u!!!!\n\nmate install a key logger in their computers,take their passwords and id's and prove them that this can happen to anyone
186632
Spectorsoft has a program that you purchase and download to your computer, with stealth settings, so that the person on your computer does not even know they are being monitored.  It has a program that can email you what is going on.  Here is the link:\nPlease note that you can only use this on your personal computer.
778948
You report them to Yahoo. You might ask some of your buddies to try and find out who is doing it, but Yahoo will never tell you, or any other provider you have. All anyone has to do is continue to make up new screen names to harrass you, until they get tired. My feeling is that the one who is doing it, is someone you know from online. Think about anyone that once was a friend, but you became enemies with. That is probably who is doing it, but don't bite. Just block. Good Luck
959697
My dear.........there is no doubt, that there are times on YA that you're going to run into something like what you ran into. The best thing to do the minute you feel uncomfortable, is to log off. Of course, if you feel threatened, report it. You have no way of knowing if this person is merely playing sadistic jokes.....or is a serious wack job. Be careful..............LATER