how to understand, whether it's true love or not?
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When you feel like your whole being is being entwined with the other person's. When you look at them, and can't imagine life without them. When you don't feel 'in love' but you know deep down that part of them is inside your heart, and part of you is their's to keep. When no matter what they do you know you just need to make it work.
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you will know if it is lust or love\n\nthat you accept whatever he does unconditionally\nyou love him come rain or shine\nyou give love without expecting him to love you back\n\nall you wish for is for him to be happy\neverthing else is an illusion and therfore will not last
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love is an emotion that you have, and that you share, and if you find another who is feeling the same emotion for you then you have found it, and only then when you are both truly immersed with in those feelings for each other can you do love.\n\nif this is not the scenario, then it is only make believe, although one person can play make believe while the other is loving pure and true, and this is where heart ache often comes into play with respect to break ups, because those who play make believe either never do it well, or never do it for long.\n\nalso this is why they have the saying that love is blind, because often one person involved in a relationship is only playing make believe with the other person out of selfishness for there desires to use them for love making, however the person loving pure and true is often blind to that fact because of wishful thinking, and there desire to be loved pure and true.\n\nalso sometimes both people play make believe, and this is called using each other, and that cannot be compared to love at all, because that is merely going through the motions.\n\nand I will describe it this way.  If you could imagine having a special rubber balloon device which would cover your tongue, and then you place it over your tongue, it would not matter what you ate for dinner, weather you eat dog dung, or chicken cordon blue and you would never know what it tasted like, and with respect to that rubber device like loved, if you have never loved pure and true with another who has loved you pure and true, then you have never known love at all.\n\nTrue Love comes from with in the heart.
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the world is such a big world.  How do we really know if we found that right person?  Is there even such thing as a true love.  I don't think a true love exist.  There a person for everyone but there will always be fights and arguement between the two person.  True Love only exist if you belive that you found it.
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You will both know and talk about it together! True Love is a rare thing,and when it happens,I doubt you'll ask this question,you will know.
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See if the one you love can love you\nand\nsee if you can love the person who loves you..
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getting the true love is in no-one's fate;thats coz every one thnks that he/she is loving his/her partner truely but the recieving person may not feel it satisfactory\njust understand this-if u r reallly lucky u will get a partner who has the same view on true love as urs and thereby you will hve "The True Love"!!!
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Perhaps our deffinition of love is what is lacking. Is it just some warm fuzzy feeling that we have for another or is it more? Maybe true love is the compassion and understanding of wanting to heal someone that is broken and rejected by acts of that compassion and not by further rejection because a person doesn't meet our standards or capacity to maintain that love. Its easy to love that which is loveable. God loves us all with an active healing love and it is freely offered to anyone and everyone who will recieve it. It is that love that He gives each of us that allows us to go beyond ourselves and our own nature to be Jesus to those that need Him most. Love in Christ, ~J~ <><
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If it's true love, YES
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You can love both. There is no 'more or less' in true love. Either you love or you don't. There are no yardsticks to measure true love. Moreover true love is not exclusive. You can love one and many simultaneously.
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Well, I don't know what you mean. But true love is when you will do anything for that one person without expecting anything back. Hope that helps.\n\nBest wishes!!\nOhsosimyfreak111
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most answers I give a great answer and it might be a long one but this one will be the shortest answer I have gave\n\nWHEN YOU FIND YOUR TRUE LOVE YOU WILL KNOW WHAT TRUE LOVE IS\nNo one can tell you. You have to be In love to know what it is
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Love a beautiful relationship of heart,if their is confusion then this is not love.Love doesn't have to think so much it is very straightforward,true and confident.If you are still confused just close your eyes and listen to your concious and you will get your answer.TRUE LOVE ALWAYS WIN.GOD BLESS YOU.
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You've got to get to know her to know if it's true love... Going out and having fun is great, do you have conversations? Do you share funny moment? Do you make each other smile?\nYou should listen to your feelings about this one, no one else but yourself can tell if this is love or not. Goodluck.
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True love? or a lustful kind of love?  There is a difference.\n\nTrue love?  The world stops around you when you look into the eyes of the one you love.  No one else, nothing else seems important, but the connection that is you share with this person.  And you can feel it in thier eyes.  As if when they stare back into yours, that they are saying without speaking, "I adore you, respect you, desire you, admire  you".  True love is when you connect on a level that makes you want to do everything you can to make that person happy, and that they do the same in return.  It is a powerful feeling, when the world stops around the two of you.  You will know it.\n\nLustful kind of love is much different.  Its the feeling that omg I have to have that person, they are so very attractive, and that I think I am in love with them.  Its a false true love.
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True love is this feeling of knowing that if you were without the other person for anytime at all you wouldn't be able to live.  You basically need them to survive.  You love everything about them...even their faults.  Their faults are part of what makes them, them, and If you truely love someone it's like things that are wrong with them are not really that important.  True Love is not only seeing what is in front of you physically, but seeing beyond that and realizing that their soul was made for yours.
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Everthing you need to know about love ........\n\nWhat is love? When we claim that it's love that we have for someone, are we correct? Something to ponder upon..... Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing and is your voice caught within your chest? It isn't love, it's like. You can't keep your eyes or hands off of them, am I right? It isn't love, it's lust. Are you proud, and eager to show them off? It isn't love, it's luck. Do you want them because you know they're there? It isn't love, it's loneliness. Are you there because it's what everyone wants? It isn't love, it's loyalty. Are you there because they kissed you, or held your hand? It isn't love, it's low confidence. Do you stay for their confessions of love, because you don't want to hurt them? It isn't love, it's pity. Do you belong to them because their sight makes your heart skip a beat? It isn't love, it's infatuation. Do you pardon their faults because you care about them? It isn't love, it's friendship. Do you tell them every day they are the only one you think of? It isn't love, it's a lie. Are you willing to give all of your favourite things for their sake? It isn't love, it's charity. Does your heart ache and break when they're sad? Then it's love. Do you cry for their pain, even when they're strong? Then it's love. Do their eyes see your true heart, and touch your soul so deeply it hurts? Then it's love. Do you stay because a blinding, incomprehensible mix of pain and relation pulls you close and holds you there? Then it's love. Do you accept their faults because they're a part of who they are? Then it's love. Are you attracted to others, but stay with them faithfully without regret? Then it's love. Would you allow them to leave you, not because they want to but because they have to? Then its love. Would you give them your heart, your life, your death? Then it's love. Now, if love is painful, and tortures us so, why do we love? Why is it all we search for in life? This pain, this agony? Why is it all we long for? This torture, this powerful death of self? Why? The answer is so simple cause it's...LOVE. It is such an addiction that even people who are not having it wish to experience and share it with someone! \n\n\ngood luck & god bless