If the finest boy in school asked you to date him but you date a guy at another school what would you say?
94119
I would have to tell him, no at the moment I am dating someone else. Thank you so much for asking me, but I feel that it would be wrong to date you under the circumstance. NOW, if you are truly interested in this guy, take the high road, and break it off with the guy you are seeing.  Then perhaps pursue this other guy.  Show the guy you're with the respect he deserves. You can't have them both, so make a choice. I hope the choice is a wise one.
209177
As long as the choice between the two schools is honestly equal in terms of your future and what you want then I see no reason why being closer to your boyfriend wouldn't be a legitimate tie breaker.
263880
Ok if i was you in this situation except it would be a guy,  I would ask him out, and try to get to know him a little better. Then maybe if he had fun we would go out again.  Who gives a crap if she's spending time with this other guy.  Maybe they are just friends!
535405
I say don't date the one in your grade, simply because if you breakup, then you are forced to see each other all the time, and that will disrupt your life.  But, if you are just asking about being friends then, why can't you be friends with both.  What's the problem, they don't like each other?  If that's so, then don't invite one guy to hang out while you are hanging out with the other guy.
108037
what's the matter with you girl? do you want to be cold TWO TIMER?\nmake sure to what you feel.. know the boy in your school deeper.. atleast you know your boyfriend more. ask this question to your self:\n"Do I still love myboyfriend? because i love another"\nwell, it's only you who can decide..=)
1169880
doesn't mean new school year that means new guys. Beside, he loves you and and if you like him, too, then go,you might not get another chance. If you don't like him, then don't go out with him. Tell him that you're not thinking about going out with him. Like this:\n\n" hey, (his name), I don't really think about going out with people right now. I want to pay attention on studying " ( white lie)  Then give him a hug.\n\nGood luck.
490645
date an other mixed boy!!!
653119
Talk to them both separately, then date them both to see which one is best for you, if they get mad, just say it's a test, so you better be good.
265979
I would say no at first but you can try to go out with him then real him in.(make him like you)
917455
As a former high school boy my answer is Yes, Yes, and Yes.  All three boys are attracted to you.  Case 1 is clearly asking you to say you want to go out with him without risking asking you out himself and having you say no.  Case 2 may want to be more than a friend, but also does not want to risk the friendship.  I remember a similar case when I was in high school.  A girl that was my friend, took me aside and tried to tell me she wanted to go out with me.  I was so dense I still didn't get it so she finally just blurted out "It's you I'm talking about.  Would you be interested in going out with me."  I thought she was beautiful and brilliant and funny and out of my league.  That last part has more to do with my self esteem at the time than it had to do with her, but anyway I was so nervous around her that going out was out of the question.  Anyway we stayed friends, but there was always a little uncomfortable quiet between us that was never there before.  You sound like a nice friendly outgoing girl that boys find it easy to be around.  Good for you.\nNow as a father of a young girl:\nBe careful of case 1.  He is bold yet cautious.  He has "dumped a girl" recently and may be more interested in conquest than in relationship.  My advice to my daughter would be to stay quiet and make him risk more by coming out with  a request for a date.  Then be cautious.  Case 2 I would tell my daughter to ask herself if she could see her friend as a boyfriend, afterall the best relationships are based on friendship.  Only you can answer for yourself if there is a chance of more.  If not, leave it alone.  If you think maybe there is a chance, this boy may prove to be a better bet.  Case 3.  (laughter)  Please do something to put the poor guy at ease around you.  Either tell him you want to be friends, or ask him out, or tell him to leave you alone.  This poor guy is obviously suffering from an intense crush on you.  Good luck.  Enjoy your high school years because they wont come back.  Try not to get roped into a too confining relationship.  Emotions run high, but youth should be a time of discovery.  I do not know of one single relationship that started when the two were in highschool that has lasted the many years since I was in high school.  For instance I dated several different girls in high school and had a wonderful time.  My wife (whom I was not in high school with) on the other hand dated only one boy throughout her high school years.  She regrets that now.  She looks back on those years as being a hostage when she should have been enjoying her youth.  Too bad.
398668
Go out with the other boy.  If he has that something that's missing then choose him.  If he doesn't than stick with who you're with and try to figure out what's missing or find someone else.
544638
my firend if you are in high school ,I am sorry you were not schooled sooner on rule number one,never date a boy that goes to the same school ,as you ,ever!! \nthis cardinal rule must never be broken\nonly do ,or date guys, from other highschools or college,\notherwise you better be prepared ,to get into physical altercations ,over some loser and eventually become the school slut ,because those loser boys, will besmirch your reputation even if you did nothing ,to make themselves look like studs, and to impress the new girl he wants, but hates you , don't do it, trust me on this one, colege boys are not as annoying , you can kiss one and they will kiss you back without mauling you and getting all sweaty and erect, I kissed one  high school boy, once as a high school girl, to let his friend know,that I did not like him,but I would never date one,I dated the 17 or 18 or more who just graduated high school and skipped all the fights and drama ,and college boys have cars
767800
I would continue the crush from afar and consider a relationship in the future when you are no longer his student.  If you are so attracted to each other then you can wait until it is appropriate for you to date him.  And in the meantime, how about dating one of your peers -- a fellow student.
685132
what would i do?...... well i would tell my boyfriend i love him probably make out with him for as long as i could then i would tell my parents that im sorry i didn't do everything they wanted me too, i would tell my little brother he's my hero and then tell the boy that i like that i like him but could never tell him because i was scared of what he would think then last but not least i would tell the president that i voted for the other guy.
482150
Well if i where u i would sit w/new ppl @ lunch like ur old friends that were there 4 u in middle school try talking 2 new ppl so they can c-ur not all bad i was once a cheerleader well i still am i have cheering friends & i also am friends w/ppl that aren't on any sports i stop dating like the hot guys i date guys who like me 4 who i am not 4 wut i am doing @ school now i really have a best friend who i can tell all my secerts 2 & she won't tell no1!
167839
If you've already said yes to the first guy, you should be a classy lady and go with him to the prom.  If you explain the situation to the second guy, he should understand if he's a good guy.
105949
Ask your friend if she would mind if you dated him.  If she says it's okay with her, then you're in the clear.\n\nI had the same thing happen when I was in high school.  My best friend liked a boy.  Then I went away for the summer.  When I came back, she didn't like him, but I did.  She was TOTALLY cool with me dating him.  \n\nIf she didn't want me to date him, I wouldn't have.  She is more important to me than any guy could be.\n\nThat was so long ago!  That boy and I dated for a long time, but eventually broke up.  She and I are still best friends and we're now 30!!!