i am a girl but my mother keeps me like boy and she will bald me always and if i say anything she beats me.?
89617
You sound as though you need help.  Do you have a teacher you can confide in?  Perhaps Child Services can help also.
569019
Please don't take it personal, but chances are you are the root of her defiance. Don't take this personal, but are you White? And this is just an observation that I had, many white people allow their children extended freedoms, and this can cause a child to feel like they are the ones that are in control. Let me open my mouth in an even slightly disrespectful undertone, my mother would've put a fist, belt, extension cord, mopstick, telephone cord.......(you get the picture) on my behind. And to all those who say don't beat their children remember " spare the rod spoil the child". This is just a general response. I also must say that it sounds like she has a lot of resentment towards you, and it sounds like it stems from whatever kind of relationship you had/have with her father. Her fighting with her younger bro is something that is common, but it could be BC of jealousy(do the two of them have the same father?) It kinda sounds like she is crying out for attention, you must remember to children attention is attention, whether it is positive or negative its the attention that they desire
351503
Sounds like someone is trying to hold you back. Ask you parents or HelpDesk for further instructions.
452643
This is an important issue for you and your mother as well as any relations (friends or otherwise) you may have in the future. It could limit your ability to hold a job or even raise children. It would be prudent to seek help now to prevent future problems. Tell your mother that you love her and you don't like being angry with her, but that you don't seem to be able to control it. Suggest to her that you may have a problem like OCD or even Bipolar Disorder and would like to see a doctor to rule them out. Tell her that you value her love and friendship and that you don't want a simple problem to like this to damage your relationship forever. If she cares about you at all, she will take you. Don't be surprised though if she denies you have a problem at first. Parents don't like to admit that their children hav a problem like this. You may have to ask her several times to take you before she is ready to accept it. Give her time to work it out for herself if this does happen. She also may not believe you are serious the first time or two that you ask. Good luck, I hope this helps you. \nPlease contact me if you have more questions, just click my name to see my profile and email me. I am bipolar if that makes a difference to you.\n\nSincerely,\nTerry
538350
Sounds to me like your getting your period! welcome to the club! YOU ARE NOW BECOMING A WOMAN! Go have that uncomfortable yet short talk with your mom. Good Luck!
13742
What you need to know is that this just tells you a lot about your mother and nothing about you. This is a personality defect of your mothers, not yours. It can be very painful waiting for a mothers approval that you may never receive. Learn that the only opinion about yourself that counts is yours!
781234
your mom is offering to help you!! she wants the best for you and is willing to do what it takes for you get treatment and life on back on track..she seems like a responsible caring woman so i would say stick with your mother even if it means getting kicked out of your house! its only because she loves you and until you figure out the consequences of your actions..then i presume she will keep doing it
558777
You have been probably too lenient and do not always do what you say you will do to punish her when she is naughty.  That is my guess...At 11, children are beginning to test more and more boundaries with adults.  As her mother, if you are weak, she will learn that quickly and use it to HER advantage.  If you keep letting her be that way, she will continue to get worse.  Basically, she has no respect for you, more than likely.  You have to be make her REALIZE that YOU have the AUTHORITY...the upper hand.  She's a child, she does NOT know more than you, but if you keep letting her think so, she will keep walking all over you.  Before long, you will have NO control and MORE problems.  \nI suggest speaking to a therapist or counselor.  You can get counseling anywhere for free if you can not pay.  Ask you local  social services dept, a school representative, your doctor, someone at a church, the phone book has blue colored pages called "The Blue Pages" or "Government Pages" where you will find this kind of information.  Any one of these places, in your city or town or village, or county, can get you the help you need.\nGood luck...bad kids are not born, they are made.
1084041
I think your mother is wrong to make you decide this based solely on racial differences. If this guy treats you good and is a respectable then your mother should put her bigotry aside.
900129
How is she abusing you? And you need to tell someone. Tell your school principal or call the police. Tell someone.
689272
Nobody deserves to be called names like dog, pig, etc. When she yells at you do you yell back at her? I hope not. Talk to your dad, grandparent, counsellor at school, somebody at church. If your mom is verbally abusing you, you need to get some help.
820298
well.. she wont understand till either something big happens or till somebody tells her exactly what she needs to listen.\nbut the good point is at least you understand what is right and what is wrong. do not forget that. \nu seem to be a smart person - just try to help her handle the situation but dont try to prove urself smarter than ur mom after all she's the mom way better than u could be and yes --- respect her. she might be a liar, cheater to somebody but atleast she loves u and takes care of u.
290999
That is rough. I have been there myself. If she continues to push herself on you even after you have told her no then she doesn't respect you or your feelings. She is being self centered. You make it very clear to her how it makes you feel.Tell her that if she keeps it up you will no longer be friends and you will be forced into pressing charges against her with the police for harassment.Your best bet after that is to avoid her best you can.Keep busy with other things.
597153
If it is bothering you a lot, tell your mother that you told your teacher and principle and they did nothing about it. Ask your parent to speak with your teacher and principle on why they did nothing about it. When they see that your parent is involved, watch how quickly they become involved. If the kids still do it, ignore them and they will eventually stop. I don't see anything wrong with the last name Lamas. If it is boys that are teasing you, they might like you and don't want their feelings for you to show. If it's girls, they are probably just jealous of you.
774864
try to get along with her. i know it is difficult but your mom is always going to be your mom. unless your health and safety is in compromise work things out
960131
Sorry, honey, they are your parents. Obey them. It sucks, lots of things in life do, but there will always be rules set by those above you, and, sadly, you must follow them.\nNo one ever said life is fair.
199438
my dear . . . I am soooo sorry.\n\nYour mother is being a jealous . . . possessive b****.\n\nMost parents want their children to succeed . . . but there are a rare few . . . that will try to hold their children back because they don't want them to do better than they have.\n\nWhat is your plan regarding college . . . will you be moving into a dorm.  Probably getting a part time job . . . did you get a scholarship?  The best thing for you . . . is to get out of that negative environment.  I know it is scary . . . but you can do it . . . and you should do it.\n\nIf you are unable to move out . . . just reply back to her . . . just because I am trying to do something better in my life . . . which you could not do yourself. . . either . . . encourage me or butt out . . . because I won't quit and I don't want to be a loser like you.\n\nWell maybe not in those exact words.  But I think you get my meaning.\n\nTake care of yourself.