Threesome invitation -please answer seriously.?
85403
A number of inputs are available to choose from, in fact much has been said so far.\n\nI would like to add that encounters like this entail a very high emotional baggage and usually get twisted in attachments that none of the parties foresee. The point here is whether you or the incumbant will be able to live with the additional baggage or you foresee a possibility of a problem developing. In either cases it will leave an indelible impact on the lives of all involved.\n\nOther than that, what the hell go for it, at least if you do not end up liking the arrangement you could move on and there will be no holds barred for you to commit later.
278980
bride..and best wishes!!\nif you wanted to try and include your parents on the invite, you could do: Suzy and Tom, together with their parents, request your presence...
773556
yes i have with another girl and a guy and with two guys. Thing was i was not dating either of these people. It can really mess with the relationship so if its something you do agree on do not have a mutual friend join you it can make things very awkward between you two as well the two of you and your friend. Also talk about what the boundaries are for you both. What shes okay with you doing to the other woman, what shes comfortable doing with the other woman, and what is going to far. Having a bit of sexual play is good for a relationship, but if its a relationship you want to keep make sure you respect each others feeling on the matter.
855089
LOL, not to laugh at you, but it sucks you can't join in. I would ask your wife, if she must explore her fantasies, could it be with someone not related to you, so you can participate, too. I mean, if you aren't bothered, then don't make a big deal about it. Just simply state that you wished you would have know, so you wouldn't have been shocked/surprised. Ask her what her thoughts and plans are, and from there, you must decide.
1146920
Just start having sex, if she interferes again, ask is she wants to join in. IF she says no, she'll leave you alone, if she says yes, then just go with it and have a 3some and lots of fun.  You wouldn't be the first person to have sex with their sister.
1022136
have your wife go to a club with you and pick-up someone.  alot of guys would love to be in a threesome.  it's worked in the past.
271183
As much as I would love to have a 3some, it's very damaging to your relationship. So I suggest that if you really care about her, don't even bring it up.
964600
I think the together idea is quite romantic. If you were my hubby I would want you to come. So my suggestion set it up for both of you. She will love it. It will definately be bonding time to.
75426
No way should you do this.  You two are a family with a child.  There is no reason to bring a 3rd person into your sex life.
148223
Why dont you just ASK her to have a threesome or ask her what she thinks about a threesome? It's wrong if you have to be sneaky about. If all three are game, then not wrong at all. Don't worry about what others think about your morals. They are not you and don't live your life, but in order not to lose a friend, I would suggest just being up front about it.
1082161
Now this is a christian retreat right? So you want to make some treats for the couples, let me see if they are going for a retreat I would think it is to learn more about each other and to find their self. I guess the sex treats might be okay but I am not sure all the couples might be okay with this. Have you spoken to all of them about this?
214696
well I would suggest a stuffed animal or jewelry but you said a threesome well then maybe a sex toy perhaps? And you also could search a dating site for someone like that near you.
1169025
I think its really his call on what to do, you're the one in the wrong.  I would be very suspicious about a guy that wants to have a threesome with another guy, in particular a good friend.  Maybe he was using you to get at your guy.
675063
Sounds like fun - why not let me join the 2 of you.
494143
Love is treating me real bad. Three different women want to have sex with me this weekend, but ... \n1) one of them is married, and 2 live with boyfriends.\n2) I have a girlfriend who lives in another state. I haven't  cheated yet, why start now?\n3) I am skeptical of a woman who solicits sex from me. I just am. All the fun is in the chase. That is where intelligence comes in. How can I be subtle with a woman who is oblivious to the subtle things in life?\n\nThis may come as a surprise but I have had enough sex. I am ready to shut the game down, but every girl I meet thinks I am still a player.\n\nI'm serious I have got to have a girl with a brain; no compromise. I don't care beautiful a girl is. What I want to know is; can she spell beautiful?\n\nSo ...
828361
I don't think a threesome is too good for a young relationship if it is one. If it's a strong relationship then do what makes you happy. I'm don't think you'll be happy afterwards though with another man having his way with your girl niether will she be happy with you banging another girl. So if you love her I would suggest you don't.
564505
I've actually had it. \n\nIt was alot of fun! I recommend trying it, if it really is a fantasy of yours... just make sure the people your with are cool with each other, and it's an "all in good fun, what the hell" kind of environment!