my brothers are always rude and embarissing in front of my friends and my mom does not care! what do i do?
95840
Boys will be boys I know I have two of them, 10 and 12. My older one would pick on my younger so I got my younger boy to understand that his buttons were being pushed(12 year old knew how to make the 10 year old mad)and just how long was he going to let that happen. Well he just stopped responding to his brothers button pushing and it pretty much has stopped.
979352
Just ignore them. Sooner or later, they'll see that you don't really care, but if you tell them to stop, they'll probably keep being mean.And don't worry about the things they said to you. You probably have a lot of friends. Those boys are just immature brats and don't go near them. GOOD LUCK:)
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Do the mature and right thing here...\n\nSit down with your mother ALONE and tell her that this is bothering you. Be specific what actions of his are bothering you and tell them why you don't like them.\n\nYour mother's primary responsibility is to you, not him. That does not put you in the driver's seat, but you MUST give her all of the information so that she knows what she should do for you.\n\nPerhaps he is just uncomfortable around kids, maybe he never had any - maybe he's trying to hard to make you like him. There are lots of ways that someone can act like a jerk and not really realize it.\n\nYou really didn't define what being a jerk was in this case. If it involves any violence toward you or your mother, let her know about it immediately. If you think that he is too controlling, point that out to her, it is sometimes difficult to see this when you are in the middle of a situation.\n\nIf you just act like a brat, you will get treated like a brat. You may get your way on this one, but in future she will still think you are a brat. Take the high road.\n\nGood luck!
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Keep talking to your brother,he seems to be the only person in your family acting like a grown-up!You are entitled to your beliefs and he is your brother,losing him would be like losing an arm,so keepthe lines of communication open and hopefully your parents and sister will come round,good luck,stay strong.
503205
First, I am a mother.  You need to think about what you are going to say before you say it. Remember she is the only mother you will have.  Also, try to explain to your mom how you are feeling.  This may help take away some of the frustrations you have.  I was a teenager once, I did alot of aruging with my mom as a teenager and it was about how i felt she was treating my brother a lot better than me, ect, which by the way she did, and now admits.  I ended up moving in with my dad and step monster, oops step mother, and It was find for like 4 months, then she showed her real colors.  It might not seem like it now, but try and talk with your mom, explain that you are just frustrated, and you need to tell her how you feel. I actually thought I hated my mom for many years, but now that I am older, I realize that i didn't hate her, I just did not like her actions, and the decisions she made.
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I don't know if this is a serious post or not.  But siblings get mad at each other, because they live at home and are seldom apart, sharing close quarters.  ADHD and other issues can bring your temper to a boil.  Being pregnant and still living with mom can add to your stress.  If you are really hitting anyone, talk to your doctor.  If you are old enough, move the heck out if you can.  Taking your issues out on him is unforgivable.\n\nAlso, try to think like a grown up.  If you can't walk into McDonalds and get mad, and slap or hit someone just because you're ticked, then you should act the same at home.  Hitting is wrong and illegal.  Control yourself.  Learn to relax.  Talk to your doctor.  Keep away from your brother.
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my nogood brother who doesnt care about my feelings
648277
Just tell them that it grosses you out when they act like that.  They probably don't mean anything by it and they more than likely just see you as one of the boys but make sure they know that somethings need to be reserved for when just the guys are around.
666385
Don't be offended, but have you thought about taking anger management? Or maybe even a career as a collections agent? You seem to have a hair trigger, throwing things at somebody just because you don't like them? That is beyond rude, why not ignore them instead, because it sounds like you might end up in several fights once you're in the adult world, or at least very alone. Does the word *bully* ever get thrown your way? By-the-way, the teachers see how you treat people and that is why they can't stand you. I would say that maybe a reality check is or should be at the top of your to-do list. Good luck w/ your attitude adjustment.\nBrandy\n *added comment*\nI think you don't have a mom, because any mom would knock you to your a$$ for acting like that. TIME FOR BRAT CAMP IN THE MOST REMOTE CORNER OF THIS PLANET where nobody is subjected to being in the same state or country with you!
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hi there... i suggest you talk to them. have an open discussion about your problem. its ok because they are only your family members. if you dont talk to them, then who else will you talk to in order to solve your problem... so talk to them, be very open and frank and i'm sure things will get solved. all the best.
905656
How old are you and your brother?  Speak to your parents as ask them to referee the fight and they might be able to settle your differences.  Remember, it takes to people to tangle. It also takes to people to fight.  So do not fight, that will keep your brother from fighting you.  Keep yourself busy or keep your brother busy if you both are busy, then you won't think about fighting each other.  \nWhat do you all fight about?
616168
Don't listen to constestame. Don't stay quiet about it. When I was seventeen my step dad did some pretty bad things to me. He wanted me to stay silent but I didn't. My mom chose my step dad over me and I lost the whole side of my mother's family. I loved my family so much and it tore me apart to lose them, but I'm glad that I stood up for myself rather than staying quiet. It cost me my whole family, but at least I don't have to live with the sleazy pedophile. Some people are just Fu*ked up and it has to do with power. It makes them feel bigger, but you've got to stand up for yourself. It will make you stronger. If your family doesn't stand by you, then good riddance. You will always have someone there for you as long as you have a good heart. Friends become family. You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family. I don't know how long ago this happened, but I hope you have already reported her. Make your family aware that she has taken advantage of you.
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Oh, I really feel for you. It's very hard to face this sort of situation.  If you know where he lives, send him a letter telling him exactly what you have told us; that you love him and miss him dreadfully, that you miss his friendship and him being in your life.  You don't say how old you both are, but if he was quite young when this happened it may be that he is regretting his hot-headedness (you might find that out when you establish contact with him, but not initially), and he may later welcome the chance to get back in touch with the family through you.\n\nBut if you want to contact him, you need to make it plain that if he doesn't want contact with his parents, that's regrettable but perhaps understandable, but it isn't his relationship - or lack of it - with them that bothers you, it's the relationship between the pair of you that you want to heal.  However, you will also need to be very careful about your own relationship with your parents.  It could hurt them dreadfully if they find out that you have been in contact with your brother, and hurt people tend to lash out.  It may be that your brother felt very hurt if you seemed to take their 'side' rather than his in whatever happened when all you were trying to do was mediate, or just got caught in the crossfire, and he lashed out at you.\n\nJust spend some time putting your thoughts down on paper, don't condemn him in any way at all, and tell him you will always love and miss him.  I hope it all works out well for you.
237852
I have six brothers thankfully only 1 is biological and that's the only one I lived with growing up and trust me he was very ANNOYING!! but when you get older you will be glad he's around. and you'll get along better
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Number 1--the words Bf are not nice and anger will not alove your problems--leave them alone.   Let go, and let God.  Unless, you are willing to really forgive and stay together, from your tone I do not think that will happen, you can kill more flies with honey than you can with vinger, hold your head high, the best way to deal with that is to take care of yourself and do better.  Ignore them and keep moving on
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well you probably get to complain about your older bro/sis and annoy her/him but my brother does the opposite.hes bigger than me.he pushes me off the couch.when im lying o the rug watching tv,he jumps on me.i cant even complain cause hes older and i have to listen to him.hes done alot more to me.but i guess atleast sometimes i have a good time and he looks out for me,and hes company. consider yourself lucky your brother/sister isn't a physco:)
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They have been raised with NO pride so it would be useless for you to intervene plus you would be classified as a "nosy" and backwards aunt.\n\nYou have no clout and their mother doesn't care so, yes, relax and let it go.  If it bothers you, then don't go where they go.\n\nYou are right about the young boys.  They turn on easily.\n\nGood luck.  Pops