I'm a teacher of an 18yr old male student he tells me he is guy what do i say to him ethically?
84266
He tells you he is guy or gay.. whatever he meant... what are you supposed to say? \n\n"I'm gay"... "well good for you!"\n\nIf he just says he's gay... ask him if he has a question about it, or ask him why he's telling you out of nowhere.
156377
!st, quit thinking of him as a moron.  I have an MA in SPEC ED, and you ned to change your attitude. By moron, do you mean low IQ or am attitude problem? If low IQ, there are teachers trained for this. If you mean attitude, he'll have to learn by his own mistakes.
370477
You personal life is only yours to share as you decide to.  In teaching, the limits are set accordingly to the age group that composes your class.  If they are close to your age, you better put a limit to what you tell about yourself, because they will try to go around you if they have the info.  If you are teaching adolescents, you would do better if you open up a little bit more, because teenagers need to stablish relationships of trust and are starving for acceptance. In any case there are no rules for what you can share and what not to. You have to remember that if you treat your students as persons they will extend the same courtesy to you.
136827
is your teacher a guy or a girl are u a guy or girl\nemail me at btony19895@hotmail.com
1110198
There are other ways of telling him you're not a teenage girl.  Try this rather novel approach.  \n\n"Oh by the way, I'm not a teenage girl."
967566
Wait until he asks and then tell him very gently.  Practice with people you respect so you can get their feedback.  Do not just do it.  This will be one of the most significant times in his life.  Don't look back and regret what you did or didn't say.
545891
Don't do it.  You'll cheapen your image in his eyes.  You will set a very bad precedent for yourself and lose respect.  Sounds like a loser anyway.
413086
You have to fight this!!!\n\nEveryone knows that Neil Armstrong said "One small step for man, .."  Man is short for mankind.  Of course mankind stands for the entire human race.  Doesn't your stupid teacher know anything!!!  \n\nI think you could get her fired for something this stupid.  Your grammar is 100% correct weather she likes it or not.
62984
Most popular guy in grade 6, huh?  Well I teach grade 6. Keep your mind on your studies, so you won't get pregnant, ridiculed and teased, your parents called, or your grades start falling.\nRemember you're in 6th grade--your peer have no mercy.  If he's still cool tell him in 10th grade.
533635
I think you mean "inappropriately" instead of inopportunely.  Of course, you should protect your honor and dignity and not let your teacher abuse you.  He is abusing your confidence in him by molesting you and that is not only inappropriate, it is also illegal.  Report him to the school authorities, your parents and the police.
170920
You tell him the truth about how you feel and should respect your choice.  If your under 18 though I encourage you to wait and not just jump into this.
176706
Ignore the entire thing. You can't talk about this to him unless he has directly confronted you with this, or things will be incredibly awkward.\n\nIf he DOES confront you, tell him that you're married (if you are) and that you think of your relationship as only a friendship and teacher-student relationship and also that there is too big an age difference for you to think romantically about him.\n\ngood luck.
898707
Go to your parents and tell them. If you dont feel you can do that, talk to your guidance counselor or another teacher you feel you can trust.  This teacher is being waaaaaay inappropriate and you need to speak up.  You need to protect yourself, your sister, and the others he is trying to take advantage of.  Please do it today!!
797460
tell him before class how you feel about his talking.
18243
Take courage and confront him.  Ask him to explain exactly what he meant by those comments, or tell him that you will be forced to report him for sexual harrassment.  Under no circumstances do you report him without first asking him to explain (as it MIGHT be possible the comments were misunderstood... he might just be a poor joker)!
705447
Tell him that you would appreciate it if he didn't publicly humiliate you and that you are simply doing your work to the best of your ability. I'm assuming you are in high school, and high school teaches sometimes will try to intimidate students if confronted. Don't let him push you around, stand your ground and speak to school administrators if he continues to give you trouble. Any further actions that he takes in an effort to embarass you would constitute harassment and school officials need to step in. This is actually a serious matter and should be handled as such.\n\nGood luck handling this. Just be confident in yourself and don't let him talk down to you.
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At all times keep a third person involved and informed. Keep a running record, like a diary, of time, place, what happened and show Principal each day if you must. Stay safe. Never speak to the creepy guy directly or alone. Do not make eye contact. If Principal does not keep you safe or listen to you, tell your parents or a school counselor or a favorite teacher. They should tell him privately that looks, words, contact is, starting now, illegal and a rule breaker where he is concerned. Do not be bullied and do not, under any circumstances talk to or look at this person. Do not send double messages  like "stay away" but then smiling at him because you feel sorry for him or because you have felt safe for a minute. Send only one message to him via your actions and that is, stay away, you do not exist, I will tell on you everytime, if you can't take "no" for an answer it is because you are not thinking about me but only thinking about yourself and you are glaring at me because I said "no" to you and you think everyone should say yes to you. Normal people can take no for an answer and normal people report abuse every time. Normal people say "no"..."no, leave me alone" etc. Keep being real, keep telling, keep listening to yourself. Tell everyone. They will observe too that he has creepy behavior. Again, never speak to this person. It would be a double message, a mixed message of leave me alone and yet I still talk to you. No. Do not speak to him ever. He will take that little courtesy and think that you like him or that he can control you. Keep being yourself. You know what to do. Tell and stay away from him. Do not be polite. he will use your politeness against you. Do not be flattered by his attention. Something is wrong with him. Stay away.