how do i keep a relationship?
84459
trust , respect , love , devotion , commitment . to name a few ...\nnot nessarily in that order
819873
Sometimes people just become complacent with their relationship and get stuck in a bit of a rut.  In order for a relationship to stay active and alive there has to be lots of open and honest communication firstly.  Also continue to do the things that you used to enjoy doing when you first met.  Although maybe not as much as at first but it is like a nice security blanket trying to recapture some of the good old days at times.  In addition don't forget to tell your partner how much they are loved and that you value them as often as possible.
1184364
Trust, and commitment, and good communication. People have to be willing to stay together through thick and thin. If things get hard most people leave. A strong relationship requires a lot of time, patience, and hard work.
646474
Depends on variables. Goals, communication, honesty, etc., it takes a lot of hard work to keep a relationship going and going and going, for the next, what, forty years? If you can envision yourself and this man forty years from now, all wrinkled but still smiling and holding hands as you take your daily walk, well then, there you go!
691798
I'm having the same problem myself. The way I decided to solve my problem, was to be great friends, but casual daters. If you value your relationship (as friends and lovers) talk about it...over chinese food or pizza or something. Really talk about if you think the relationship will last more than a month and what would really change once you 'officially' started dating. would there really be a difference in how you act around each other other than physically (i.e. hand-holding, kissing, etc.)?
541325
Distance yourself. You won't want to, but staying close to someone you want but can't have just isn't healthy. Don't tell the person or anyone close to them what you are doing, as they might try to convince you otherwise. Just try to get away for a while. You don't have to cut the person off completely (although that is an option). Don't call him/her, don't go places where you know he/she frequents, and make yourself scarce. Take the time to reflect on your situation and learn more about yourself. \nDate. While you are distancing yourself from said object of affection, try to date people that you like. Don't settle for whoever asks you out, or you might end up making someone fall in love with you who you don't love back! Approach people, try new things. You might want to compare everyone to the object of your affection, and you won't think anyone measures up. Stop this right now. You know there's someone better out there. Go find him or her!
201272
be yourself! never change your true inner self to make some one like you because then you will only be lying to your self. no relationship will ever last that way. be patient some one will come along you likes you for you
1130432
In order to keep your relationship going strong, you must first realize and accept that there are going to be some differences between you no matter how similiar you thought the two of you are. You need to pick and choose your battles and let go of everything else. Also, communication really is key, both in and out of the bedroom. Ask what he or she likes in bed; if they are shy to answer, try a little experimentation. Also, find ways to tell the person what it is that you like in bed too. As far as communication goes for outside of the bedroom, talk talk talk talk! You can find out so much about a person from a few conversations. If you hit a rough patch, talk about things then and there rather than letting it fester and blow up in someone's face later. This way, so much drama is avoided. If you are dealing with a person who will not open up when you try and talk to them, writing a letter expressing your feelings might be a better option because this would create another way for that person to come to you. I hope this helps and good luck!
529862
Communication & patience. Always be open about how you feel and be willing to work out the problems that come along, because there will always be problems, no matter who you're with. But if you're both on the same page about what you want and are willing to give what the other needs, you will be able to conquer anything. Love is not enough, it takes work! :)
343081
I know this is probably not the answer you are looking for, and I don't know your age... but you are probably still young.  Just take a break.  Normally if you keep getting together and breaking up over and over... well it's most likely not going to last anyways.  If you are young, remember you are going to have TONS of relationships.. and first thing is first... if you 2 have trust issues IT WILL NOT LAST.  You need to be with someone who you trust and who can trust you, the first sign of trust issues is when you need to back out.  You should have fun and not stay committed to just 1 person for a long time (if you are young)  Go have fun.. and you will know when that one guy comes along that he is for keeps!  I went through rough relationship after rough relationship.. and then one day I met my husband!  And I have been happy eversince.  But also remember, learn from these relationships you are currently in and going to encounter... they will help you in the future when it comes to finding your TRUE LOVE!
527332
Well, like any young relationship, it grows old.  You are so young.  This is not the first guy you will ever love, and you will remember him always.  \n\nIf you really want to keep this relationship alive, try talking to him.  Find out what he wants in a relationship. Tell him what you are looking for, and what your needs are. \nYou may find that your wants and needs are different than what they were when you first started going out, it may just be time to let go.\n\nYou have SO much ahead of you. If this relationship is going south, then cut if off before it goes really bad.  Just ask him simply "Do you still want to go out with me?"  Don't be confrontational, just straightforward and kind. And ask yourself the same question... do you still want to be with him?  Or are you just staying with him out of habit?\n\nGood Luck!
889400
Get in touch with what you REALLY want in a relationship.\nWrite on a piece of paper what you desire in a relationship.\nBe reasonalbe, don't look for absolute perfection in another.\n\nKnow yourself, your needs and desires.\nUse the Visioning Process to envision what you want most out of your life.\n\nBe very honest and truthful in your relationships, communicate on a high level and really LISTEN to your partner and what their hopes and needs are. \n\nWork on knowing yourself so that you become as completely self aware as possible.\n\nWhen you discover who you are and what you really want, you will find who and what you really really want.\n\nWhen you find it, you will commit out of joy.\n\nGood Luck.
47228
no!\nbut keep it slow and simple.\n\nhow else do you think people end up in a relationship
960051
Love is the basic bond that keeps relationship going.
398684
do things that interest you both.........in that way, you'll always be near each other, be  friend not just a lover, have a constant communication, make discussions but don't heat up in an argument...... always be loving and sweet..........
568413
stably. ohhhh you mean stable?  well... just be true to eachother... never lie... never hurt their feelings.. never bug them.  always be honest and never lie!  and comunication. always talk to them about things.  be there for eachother.  be nice.
150531
Find someone better. Relationships can't be based on sex and sex alone. Find someone who will respect you and your wishes.