I still have feelings for my ex, and we've kept in contact. Does this mean we could get back together?
92234
you have accepted the fact that you wouldnt make back with him and the only way for you to be in contact with him is if he's your friend.\n\nyet you have feelings for him, my dear why dont you speak to him and see where his emotion lies. you seem to have a good relationship going with him.he may very well have feelings for you, but if you are waiting on him and he's waiting on you, nothing would happen.make the first move.
732013
I would give it a little bit of time and then ask yourself. Are you ready to give this another try or are you starting to feel better and are able to move on?\n\nSomeone once told me people break up for a reason and that they should always stick to their original idea. Of course this is not always the case but just do what you feel is right deep down. \n\nHope everything works out!
1008405
If you still have feelings for an ex, don't lead the person you are with on, it maybe early days with this new someone and its only natural to think of past loves when you start seeing someone new.But it is also important to not let any emotional baggage get in the way of a new relationship. Try and distance yourself from your last relationship, don't make comparison's. You owe it to yourself to take thing's slowly really get to know this person you are with who could be an absolute gem.
380373
if he's still single yes. coz there might be a chance that u and him get back together...coz thats what i still feel about my ex. but hey! if he's not. then i think it would be better for u to move on.. unless ur ex feels the same with u..then wait for him patiently until the time he made up his mind and wants u back.
1166692
Just make it clear that there are conditions to getting back together and that one of them is that the past is the past and that you two are working on a future.  If the past becomes an issue then there is no relationship.
65531
Just means he still cares about you and doesn't want you do feel bad about your relationship ending. Depends on how long you were together and what ages you are. Did he love you? If so, love never goes away it just changes form. I would say leave the option of friendship with no pressure open. If you are meant to be together again it will happen.  If it isn't meant to be don't try to push the issue. Or just pick up the phone and say "Do you still love me?"
532817
Well, you definitely laid it all out there. I've gotten a few letters like this, and if there was still feelings, I would have gone back.\n\nI say send it. If he has feelings for you, he'll be back. If not, you can start looking for someone who deserves you.\n\nGood Luck!
614689
if he's changed from what he used to be like before.. then yes... unless you were the one who dumped him and now you want him back.. again that would be a yes..\nbut if he broke up with you and the two of haven't changed.. then no because that would just be a repeat of the relationship you had before.
168751
Just because the two of you broke up doesn't mean you can brake off your feelings. It's going to take time for you to get over how you feel but you can do it. Why did you guys brake up anyway? If the love you feel is that deep maybe you should try again with this guy. Maybe he feels the same way but is not sure how you feel, it's worth a try.
481226
If you do not want to get back with your ex then you should not be involved with him and his present partner as just a "FRIEND".\nThat may be the root of the problems that they are having that send him running to you for "ADVISE".\nHe feels comfortable with you because the two of you have history and he maybe testing the Waters to find out if you are willing to forgo a friendship and try a relationship once again.\nThe best thing you can do is steer clear of constant contact with them as a couple.
651448
I think not for reasons of the heart,cause deep down inside you still have those memories of the good times you had together.Which then could lend to things happening between you two.If you are in a new relationship,the person you are with could get hurt or may not like the idea you are friends with your exs.So leave exs alone and move on.
168306
Been there, done that. It's funny how our minds and emotions can ruin a good thing. One thing that I hightly recomend is getting your self esteem up. It's tough, but once you are sure and proud of who you are, you don't loose that. As for getting your ex back. It may or may not happen. Give him his space now, thats is what he wants. If for some reason he also has a change of heart, you 2 can work things out then. But for now, respect his decision. Take care babe, im rooting for ya :)
1084339
Do it! maybe he still has feelings for you too! Perhaps you can work it out....or at least find out if the sparks are still there. right!?
937936
The only way he is going to know how you feel is if you tell him directly. If you do get back together, make sure that you work on the things that made you break up in the first place. I hope he feels the same way, but if he doesn't, I would move on. I hope everything works out well!
286110
You still have unresolved issues. No matter what the circumstances, when we leave things undone or unsaid we keep reliving those moments. You can truly love a person even though they didn't treat you well or love you back. I don't know why we do this either, but don't let your past ruin your future. If you need closure from your ex then by all means get it. Good Luck.
1171190
You can still care for him, but think about the reason why he is your ex.  And the fact that you haven't talked to each other since the breakup shows that there was obviously something wrong with the relationship.\n\nDon't waste your time dwelling on the past and wondering "what if..."\n\nLook to the future and think about your own needs.
955717
Your relationship with your ex is not completely over, you don't have closure OR you were so content in the  relationship you cannot adjust to the change fast enough.\n\nYou have to analyze your feeling honestly and openly and you will get the answer.