why do poeple hate helping other people?
83848
I guess it depends on if you're looking at the big picture or on a smaller scale.  When you watch the news it does appear that people hate helping other people, but right here where I live people help each other every day.  There are selfish people but most of the time if someone is down and out there is always someone around to lend a helping hand.
976564
not only family.\njust everybody , life is just too short to hate just anybody.\nwe get hurt and in pain we forget that sometimes we are hurting others too. \nthere is too much pain in everybodies life to give them more. all we have to do is provide support to a crying person and love everybody. cause a person hurt before only know how much it hurts.\njust love everybody - no hatred for any reasons.
1038625
Have a hard time helping people who dont drink beer and spend all day long whining about being owed something while they plan to kill me .
778774
People love to hate.  And nothing will bring more people from different backgrounds together than hate, it makes people feel good to be able to look down on others and feel better about themselves.  It is very sad and I believe what goes around comes around for all of us.
432133
Aw, Monster, that's such a messy way to go!\n\nDo you hate people so much that you want to leave them with that gruesome, horrifying discovery? That's not depressed, that's just selfish!\n\nC'mon now, you know that's not the answer.
1000090
Ignorance and greed, in my opinion cause hatred.  I don't know where you are from, but I think most people are good at heart.  Fear is a negative thing too.  People fear what they don't understand.
79811
I am not a friend with this world because this is hatred toward God (James 4:4)  With the help of the Lord Jesus Christ I can and will receive soild food.  Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me.\n(Psalm 51:10)
839021
Ignorant, judgementall people who hate other people for their life choices.
306786
Because other people were mean to them and they are bitter, or take a sick pleasure in spreading their hurt feelings around to other people.\nDon't let the mean people get you down...there are lots of nice people (like me!) around to make up for them.
202627
People are self loving, that being said it is easier to dislike anything or anyone that is different than (self) and even hate them.  Hate starts with name calling which is used to separate you from me.  Once separated, I can abuse you or say bad things about you because your different.  Wish it were not so, 6 billion of us on the big ball and we differ in so many ways.
413040
It's pretty sad when every good deed is being scrutinized and analyzed for ulterior motives.  No wonder that no one wants to help anyone else just to be nice.
367320
People who don't like others because they are different are ignorant. People often fear what they don't understand, and ignorant people only like others like themselves because they understand and can relate to people similar to themselves, but those that are differnt because of lifestyle, race, language ect. they don't understand and there for fear. Of course they don't say that's why they dislike someone, or a group of people, but that is why. These type of people are not to be hated for their ignorance,they should be pittied, because they live sad scarred, small close minded ignorant angry life, surrounded by other sad pathetic close minded ignorant people just like them:-)
985994
i dislike people who yell at me for being naive when im nice to a homeless person, claiming theyre a con man, but i live by the pay it forward rule, but helping someone out wont just make their day, you feel better about yourself for doing it on your own will and time
448384
Are you CRAZY?? People look out for others ALL the time everywhere. Wether it is something that seems small, like letting someone buying one or 2 items go before you and your cart full of groceries at the store or, a big thing like helping people that survived Hurricane Katrina by inviting them in your home.\n\n Have you ever heard of food stamps or a free lunch program at school?\n Have you ever heard of Feed the children charity or the Center for Missing and Exploited children?\n  Has anyone offered you help while you were stranded on the road or let you use their celphone after an accident?\n  Have you ever seen or met a teacher, firefighter, social worker, police officer, Marine, a scientist...\n I could go on and on and on and on.\nOf course people worry about themselves but I havn't met ONE person that I know of that was not concerned for the wellbeing of another person. Even the most self-centered people I have met are concerned for, and help others.\n Why are you so pessamistic and only see the bad in people?\nWe all make mistakes but, for the most part, I think, by far, the majority of people make a point of helping others.\nWhat are you doing to help?\n\n\n I could go on and on and.
748050
Because some people are just plain evil and don't care who they hurt or what they destroy.  Some people look at others as stepping stones to getting what they want.  And if you are in the way .. prepare to be stepped on.
1012619
and also why is it they feel self righteous to bash others but get all pissy when you tell them to stop or bash them for bashing you
981972
I don't know why, but it seems that there are many people who simply enjoy hurting others.  I suspect it stems from them feeling powerless and insecure, so they get a small charge to their own egos when they can make someone else feel bad. \n\n There are, also, others who simply take advantage of people - they see goodness and kindness as a kind of weakness they can exploit for their own means.\n\nDon't let this turn YOU bitter, though.  Remember to tell yourself that those people, in the end, will suffer for it when they find they lack solid, real and loving friendships in their lives.