WHY DO PEOPLE CHEAT ON THEIR LOVE ONE?
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because they are insecure
467760
There are cheaters and then there are mistakes...u can't prevent a cheater from cheating but you can prevent mistakes from happening..I beleive everyone is capable of making mistakes, and for those which are truely honest mistakes, can learn from them so they are not repeated...it may end that particular relationship but they know better to make that same mistake in their next relationship...it sometimes takes good judgement to recognize the difference between the two to avoid being a victim of a cheater.
504910
Because they wanted to make the most of their new lovers and enjoy every bit of the moment they share!\n\nWhat is the importance of their cheating if they don't enjoy and make the most of it?
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Cheating is a symptom of a relationship where people are not communicating and have lost their connection with each other. it's the fault of the relationship not a particular person.\n\nAs soon as you stop communicating one or both of you become candidates for infidelity....because we all miss intimacy with another person. We'll seek it out if we're not getting it at home.\n\nA man may be attracted by beautiful women but we won't cheat if we are truly intimate with our wife. Our heart won't let us.
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Men are weak and so are women.  Both cheat the same, actually statistics reflect that women cheat more; women are smarter at not getting caught, we've learned from men in all the prior decades.  \n\n[Married] humans can fall weak for someone else and realize at the end that we made a huge mistake because we realize that the person we are with is a "better" person.  \n\nThe grass may seem greener, but it hardly ever is.  When humankind realizes that, cheating may not be such a big problem.\n\nMen are smart about this, knowing to differentiate between "love" and "lust". That's why they run home and tell their wife they LOVE them.
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Anyone who cheats doesnt deserve a second chance period...If ur with that person youre with them for a reason.....Their isnt any sense in getting a boyfriend or girlfriend if ur gonna cheat on them...its just wasting your time and theirs
511128
Not feeling secure in their current relationship...  Their relationship basically sucks, or the sex sucks, or maybe their partner cheated.  Or, they cheat just because they can.\n\nThere's so many different reasons for different people.  It's hard to pin-point the real reason.
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Most people who cheat are too immature to face their partners or spouses with the truth. They are typical cowards and haven't grown up yet. It is sad but true. People can be awfully brutal. Some just don't even care and want their cake and ice cream too. It is always very disgusting and sickening to see that happen.\nIt really hurts a person's heart and causes pain. How can a person say they love you and cheat on you behind your back? That is not the type of love I am looking for. They can keep that.
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Above and beyond all else, cheating is immoral, and people hold fidelity (or the lack of) very close to their hearts. People get all worked up for many reasons - it has happened to them, really screwed their lives up im some fashion, etc. This is usually a black or white issue for most people, therefore an extreme reaction will follow - even if the question is hypothetical.
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I cant give you the reason for the person you may be talking about but,most people(male or female) will have an affair with someone if given the chance.It may have something to do with being selfish,self-centered,and they might have a low self-esteem,and Im guessing they dont have morals and values or a lack of.Some may just have a lack of commitment.Anyway,I for one cant figure out why someone would waste someone elses time by pretending to be someone they arent by acting like they Love or care for someone.....Its sad....... Best Wishes
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If you really, truly love someone, the last thing on your mind is cheating with someone else.  You just want to be with that person 24/7.  Cheating on someone is confirmation that the person you're with just isn't right for you.
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NONE, Its a crapy feeling when someone cheats on you.  Not to mention, if you really care about a person to have a commitment, then there shouldnt be anyone else.  If there is anyone else, then they shouldnt be committed.
182356
I was cheated on once in my life and it wasn't a fun experience. I believe women and men cheat for different reasons - guys usually cheat for sex or different sex then what they are getting, and women usually need more of an emotional attachment. This is totally my opinion and not necessarily true in every situation.  I also believe that once somebody cheats and a trust is broken, it is very hard to remain in that relationship and be happy.
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Men and women cheat for different reasons. Men cheat for sex, and women cheat for affection and attention. Yes, this is a generalization, and some women cheat because they are nympho's, but that is not the norm. I believe the old saying "a man is only as faithful to his partner as his options" meaning that a though a man may not go out of his way to try and get laid, but if it's put in front of him and offered up he is hard pressed to say no. A woman on the other hand equates sex with an act of love, unlike the man who sees it as an act of lust and gratification.
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yes its quite true i think. everyone that i have talked to or have actually know to have been cheated on the same person has done it again after all the promises. they probably do love you but they cant help but try to see if they can still get the charm going to get someone else to. its hard to find someone that will be up front honest trusting and will never cheat. read tips on love and relationships to help you better on this site
783163
Most of the time men cheat for the same reasons that women do something is missing, they have picked the wrong mate, or maybe they just have a sex problem they can't control. However this never justifies breaking a persons heart or leading them on in hopes of a honest relation ship.
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Everytime somebody does something like cheating it springs form an inperfection they prcieve in themselves. Usually fear of a stable relationship is because the people dont feel they are capable of holding up their end.