am currently having a relationship  with a women will it be last for good? she's thousand miles apart from me
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IT ACN LAST ONLY IF YOU TRUST AND BELIEVE IN EACH OTHER AND IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP
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It won't last, she may miss you and everything you were to her, but if she has left you before, she will most likely again.  If you can handle being friends, then great, you will know if you want to be with her forever and if all the pain is worth it to keep trying.....you don't need to torture yourself to see what she wants, you get to make the decision about if you want her ...and all her indecisivness
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You can't force these things, she either loves you or she doesn't.  Sounds like she doesn't.  Also possibly because your relationship is long distance you romanticise about it too much.  If you lived together day in, day out, the rose-tinted spectacles may have come off long ago.  You sound like a lovely guy, you deserve better.  Let it go and find someone who will be there for you and love you the way you deserve to be loved.
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Well, My older Sister has a BF that lives 743 miles away. They have been going out for 6 months now. even though she is going through a rough financial time. they still find way to visit. Love is ture and is never thretend by distance
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will long distance relationships work?
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Well my best-friend in the whole world is currently in a long distance relationship only her boyfriend lives in Mi and she lives in AZ. They've been together almost a year and never met and their still totally in love. All i can say to help is if you really love her and want to be with her then the wait is nothing, just think after you do finally get to see and be with her nothing else will matter. You have the rest of your life to spend with someone and if shes the one then the rest of your life doesn't seem like that long. I hope this helped in some way if not I'm sorry i was just rambling on. But i do have to say if you really cant wait any longer to see and be with her surprise her one day she'll love it. Just keep doing whatever it is your doing right now shes obviously happy and I'm sure she cant wait to see you either.I think that your relationship will work and Good Luck. Love is hard to find so don't give up..
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Well, if you really trust this person, you can always convince yourself that it will work. However, the sad truth is that even the best of relationships have been ruined by long-distance problems. Don't break off too soon, play it by ear. But if you do so, just remember that you may be hurt. Good luck and be strong! =)
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me and my guy was online and i read him you question..this is da answer he gave me ....\n\n"We almost are in the same situation as you..I'm gonna go to another country for 4 years for my higher studies and she will only see me few times a year.. the thing is this is not as difficult as it seems.. dear sis you are not the first one to go through this.. there are loads of people who came through this or if not you have us... even we were pretty much worried in the first place as what to do... but let me give an advice to you... don't let go... just hold on...we are going to have a harder time than you even... cos it's a way longer period and we are both in seperate other countries which is not our mothercountry... so sister the distance doesn't matter...the only thing you have to do is to have a long distance dedication..... the key thing is to keep in touch as much as ppossible... not seeing your guy is tough... i know... but with time you may be able to adapt to that... just keep him in your heart..i'm just saying.. "so close no matter how far, couldn't be much more from the heart, forever trusting who we are , and nothing else matters.." goodluck sister... this will be posted by my girl who's in a country so far away while i'm writing this...\n\nhy im his gal hear ..darling  im teling u pls go ahead i dont regreat..taking the chance caz my guy is da best no matter how far he is his jus near my heart..and his all mine ..dont b scard i ws scrad my self....belive me ...i didnt know wht to do but jus go aead ..its better dan nt knwing wht u 2 wil end up with.
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I drove to California from Alabama and flew her out to see me a few times.  We had a wonderfull relationship and got on with our lives just fine.  If the energy is there...make it happen!  That's what I say.  By the way...you are quite stunning.
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Yes. Spend a loooooooooot of time.\nI m not talking abt the time 'with her'. But while you are away too. And that will make you really really close to her, and by this you will even know almost her reaction to situations. They love that feeling,that you 'understand her' more than anything else. And remember....that is a loooooot of quality time! You have it with u? Then ur girl will really love you.
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I happen to agree with cuteiepie. Keep it alive by phone, emails, snail mail...keep all communication channels open. If you have serious intentions for the future with that person, it is most important to physically spend time with each other at least once or twice a year. I think long distance relationships only work for so long. At one point or another you have to make it a "no distance" relationship. Good luck!!
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Definitely let her go.  A long distance relationship is hard enough when you have control over your life enough to travel and see each other - but at this stage in your life there is no where it can go.  Remain friends if you want but you should have someone you can go to the movies with and kiss at your age.  It's best for the both of you.\n\nPeace!
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As much as it hurts, you should let her go. I know is nothing easy. BUt would you reallly want her next to you knowing she is not fully happy cause she wants to experience other things??   Let her be, and if you guys still love each other after time has gone by, then is meant to be.  Distance and time apart from each other does make you apprecaite what you have. Don't look at it as a time to be sad and mourn, look at it as a chance to find stuff about yourself and get invovled in new things. Best of luck hon!
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I've done the long distance thing..  You two are doing everything right in my book anyways.. lol.  My advise is to stay busy with friends.  That way the time will go by faster.
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Try the Long distance relationship thing.  It may fizzle out soon, but if she loves him, then it won't.   Curiosity... What is HER point of view??
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You got to choices, and it's all up to you.\n\n1. Dont listen anything she says cause living 1 hour away from each other is not DISTANCE, believe you have no idea what a distance-relationship is. If you care for her as you say, FIGHT FOR HER, dont' let her go, if she really loves you, she'll stay with you.\n\n2. Move on... there's a milion other girls. Yeah, i know it's really hard and at this moment you probably believe that you can't live without her, than you will never be able to love anyone again and stuff like that... but believe me, in 6 months, you won't even remember her last name.
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If you are sure that the love is true, then no amount of miles should keep you apart. Either she or you is going to have to make a move toward starting your life together. When you love someone, making those kind of changes is worth it.