do you want to be with a partner  who is smarter, or less smart than you?
86105
Smarter. I like to learn, and I'm a masochist who likes to be proven wrong.
665182
a smart guy would give you the answer, a smarter guy would say... work it out for yourself, a couple of times!\nmessin same as 1st one but with a 2 on the end why?
467354
That's easy. My girlfriend. She's beautiful, smart, friendly, loving, pragmatic, sexy as hell, and I love her more than anyone. Given all the other choices, anywhere, anytime, I'd rather be with her. And, the way it's going, it looks like it just may be that way for the rest of our lives...
579291
Yes.  It should be a combination of the three, and my girlfriend is.  Looks are important, because I like a girl who takes care of her appearance.  Intelligence: I dont want to have to talk down to someone all the time.  Personality:  I like a person who's interesting and wants to go out and laugh, and play, and have a good time with me.
669190
it depends how old you are. i'm against age gaps really. my boyfriend is 2 years younger, and he treats me like i'm a retard. i'm the older one, i'm the college graduate, i'm the one with a private out of state education. but... i think because he's the man? maybe he thinks he's smarter than me. it really makes me resent him. and his last girlfriend was 2 years younger than him and an actual idiot, so maybe he thinks he can treat me like he did her.\n\nbut i'm sure you guys could atleast date and make-out if she's interested, but i don't think it would work out long term.
916707
It depends on his communication skills and level of understanding. Dumb doesn't mean stupid. Obviously it wouldn't be you to be the one to tell him, but someone close, who knows him, talks to him, and respects him. They do communicate quite well.
370100
Better that you date a geeky guy, with brains.  He will have more to give to you later.
156657
The smart guy.... what can I say, intelligence is attractive to me.
374511
i don't. we think differently. if you are in a relationship it usually doesn't matter if the man is right because a smart man will keep his mouth shut to a woman even if he knows he is right. that is wisdom. i don't know if women can be wise. i didn't mean to offend you and i am not a doctor. i just thought it was funny. good night and my apologies.
727651
lower or equal to her iq?
987605
Is there honest respect between the two of you?  Good.\n\nDoes one of you think you're smarter than the other?  Bad.\n\nCan you talk easily with each other?  Good.\n\nDo they frustrate you because they won't listen?  Bad.\n\nDo you share common interests?  Good.\n\nDo you agree on how to raise children?  Good.\n\nDo you think they keep secrets from you?  \nDo you believe that this is a lasting love?\nAre you committed to making it a lifetime promise?\n\nAre you going into it with the idea that if it doesn't work, you can just get a divorce?\n\nDo you have the same goals for your life together?\n\nDo you WANT to be married to this person?  Spend the rest of your life waking up next to them, sacrificing for them, compromising with them, loving them?\n\nBest of luck making your decision.
160101
I prefer a "smart" girl.
1116838
Yes, for his sake. Any one asking this question without giving any reason can not possibly be a good wife. And since he is a pilot, he can get someone much smarter than you.\n\nCheers.
908242
both women and men are wise, only that women have intuition..i think this makes them a bit smarter...or not :))..still..i didn't get the question
487157
Is she better than your GF?
744198
your asking the wrong person talk to your partner she should have the answers
444587
Of course not - how can I be with someone who acts stupid? It wouldn't hurt though if he has some sense of humor, if that's what you mean here.  :)