well this is for guys only!!/ have you ever been with a girl that was a virgin before you met her?
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I know i am not a guy, but can i would like to share an experience.\n\nMy boyfriend now, was my first, and i was worried about the same things. He could tell, as soon as he stuck a finger in me.  He actually loved the fact i was, and was patient with me. He loves the thought that i'm experiencing everything the first time with him, and he can show me how to please him.  Its has been 8 months now, and we have an awesome sex life.  email me if you have more questions about this....i have been there.\n\nallyalexmch@yahoo.com
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there is no way that someone can tell wether you're a virgin or not. some girls may have torn their hymen by playing sports or even riding a bike! so there is really no way to tell.
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was your hand a virgin????
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There is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 18.  Sex is not something that should be taken lightly.  Tell her that she shouldn't have sex until she's ready and that if some guy cant' accept that, he's not worth it.
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No hes not a virgin anymore just half a virgin.\nVirgin its just a word for guys is not the same as for woman man can say they are or there not but cant actually prove anything but woman can.
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Do girls appreciate guys who are virgins? \n\nYES, YES, YES, YES, and YES!!!!!\n\nMore than ever and more than anything, YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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N O... or do u mean if u put it in her @ss, is she still a virgin? if THAT's your real question then yes, she is... technically
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She is still a virgin.  Playing with oneself does not equate non-virginity.
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I am honestly somewhat more attracted to virgins, something just seems special about being her first. I don't really care that much though, I just like who I like regardless of weight, height, gender, race, and etc. Virginity isn't that big of a deal.
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sadly, thats about the going time for sex now. If she pretended to be a virgin, the whole thing was based on a lie. My advice would be to leave her alone. He was a virgin, and sadly, he'll always remember her. Just tell him that there are plenty more people out there who are better and just to wait for the right one next time.
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To all you virgins out there?   \n\nTHANKS  for NOTHING!
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What difference does it make whether she was a virgin or not?  You did it anyway.  You weren't trying to save her in a pristine condition were you?  Get over it.  You don't believe her, don't trust her, then move on...
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I married and worship a girl who was a virgin when we met.\n\nIf she hadn't been, I would have treated her as just another girl and never married her.  \n\nWhat I mean is that she was far more special than other girls I had dated.  Why?  Because I knew that when she gave herself to me, it was something very valuable and a big step for her.\n\nAs I said, I still worship her.\n\nOh, and she has a personality and innocence that far exceed those of other women I know.  I view her as a rare angel.\n\nI think her willingness to stay a virgin indicated how amazing of a person she truly is.\n\nGirls who don't keep their virginity?  Well, they get divorced every day.  Why not dump a girl who has had another penis in her?  She's not THAT special
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when the time is right and you meet the right person who wants to do it. *winks* I have a friend who loves being the first with a virgin.
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personally being a male my advise is leave it as it is unless she cheated he doesn't need to know unless he asks her if she is personally it shouldn't matter weather she is a virgin or not what should matter is wheather they care about each other because if he cares for her then it shouldn't matter and i would leave it the way is is unless he brings it up then tell him the truth. if you would like to talk alittle more about this here is my e-mail address and good luck with your friend. (GiantReese@yahoo.com)
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if you have had sex with her and she did not bleed it does not mean she is not a virgin cos some girls donot bleed for the first time and bleed later or even some donot bleed at all the only way to know this is your trust in her and her faith in you if she loves you she will not lie and you need to make her feel it that even if she is not a virgin you still love her
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I was a virgin when I got married, too. Take your time, don't force her if she's scared, use lubrication if necessary, and be very loving. Many couples don't complete the act on their first night if they're virgins, so let her know she can trust you to go at a pace that's comfortable for her. If you make the situation very loving, it will be much easier for her.