my boyfriend won't  commit to me he's into chats and phone sex.?
97475
dump his butt. First off he is not very happy with what he has, that he feels the need to have phone sex and be in chat rooms. This is probly one of the biggest forms of some one in denile.  He will never commit to you, let alone anyone else. It not onle direspectful to you, but he quite frankly does not care about how it makes you feel.  There are alot of honest caring guys out there, and you deserve better.
638046
he wants what he never got... he wants sex from you and will continue to chip away at you until you give it to him...best if you don't take any of his calls or respond to any messages....
567269
Hi There...\nUs gals seem to have much less patience then the guys do as far as relationships go. We want to know NOW if this is a "real" thing or not. The guy, on the other hand, may think you are the cats pajamas but doesn't have the same brain chemistry as we do so he doesn't think to call. But you need to know...MEN are NOT mind readers. You need to have a conversation with this guy. If he really loves you and wants more with you he will say so (hopefully) if not then you can move on now instead of wasting more time wondering and waiting by the phone. TALK TO HIM! Good Luck.
215750
It sounds like he's just really afraid of getting hurt.  I wouldn't say your relationship is only sex though, you've had some great deep coversations and have been friends for a long time.  I definately think there is the potential for a good relationship here.  The only thing is, he needs to be on board.  Don't try to force a relationship if he's not ready.  Talk to him about it, and try to gain his trust.  Sometimes when someone has closed themselves off for that long, they have a hard time opening up again.
1032928
Can't you tell him the truth?  Think about what you like when you are on the computer (games? chat? surfing the web?) and try to tell him why you like that.\nIt sounds like he's feeling left out.   Is there something you could do together on the computer?  Is the computer more important than your relationship with your boyfriend?\nOnly you can figure those things out.
54480
He might be ashamed to admit his fantasies to you, especially if they're considered "taboo" by general society. Trust is often something that has to be built and earned. My boyfriend and I share everything, but it took a while for us to get to that point.
763800
I don't think you love him...not yet, especially if you and he can't have a conversation over the phone yet.  A lot of guys don't like the phone, and they aren't like girls who can just sit around talking about things.  Don't call him unless you actually have something to say to him...whether it be, "hey, come over for a while", or "what do you want to do this weekend"...don't just call and make "what did you do today" the whole conversation.  Maybe what he is doing isn't even worth mentioning...in his eyes anyway.  It seems to me that you need someone that can stimulate conversation, and in this relationship that's going to have to be you.  Ask him direct questions and you will get direct answers.
804752
If you are talking to males online and not in the mood for sex I would move on if you was my girl. You know the real reason you are not in the mood for sex, so be honest with yourself.
345979
give it time. he probably doesnt want to rush things. \nif its really buggin u that much just ask him. be open and honest with him. communication is the key to a happy relationship.
819829
Try explaining to him that you are busy sometimes, that doesn't mean that you aren't into him it just means that you don't have the time to give him the attention that you think he deserves.  He might be happy with that and it will keep your relationship honest.
825197
i think he is playing around, he doesnt want a relationship with u...hes just making a fool out of u. hes taking u for granted...he can see u, chat with u , flirt around,,,wat more a guy wants. i think u should be strong n confident in taking the decision. tell him straight away that u need space and its over!!!!!! :)\ngood luck
414335
if he's only talking about sexual stuff, avoid him!! He's not worth it; he'll just get what he wants and then leave you hurt.
997888
He's bullshiting and he's playing you.. I'd raise my question about her present in his place. And what's the point of answering his phone when he has a hand 2. Unless his mouth was bz on something else.. Serious, if you want to continue your relation with him then straight this thing out. If not then he's NOT worth your time honey.
240101
Some guys just don't like to talk on the phone.. If you cannot deal with it then find someone that likes to talk on the phone. It is an issue that I had with my BF, but i decided to deal with it because we talk when we are in person and have the best times when we are together. I figure that he needs his time and i need my time. Give him a chance to miss you.........
138079
i think he's gotta commitment problem. if u go w/ him, he shows signs of being a potential cheater. go 4 someone else! u can do better.
925320
I would suggest you re-focus your energy on to yourself and your own life more and what you do in your life that gives you pleasure and enjoyment away from your boyfriend.  It might be that you have allowed him to take over your life too much and this may be causing him to loose interest in you a little bit.  For him to stay interested in you, you have to be interested in you and believe in yourself as a worthy and loveable person by doing things that are for your own pleasure and nothing to do with him. Therefore, to get this relationship back on track, suggest you get busy with your own projects, have him realise that he can be PART of your life but he is not the totality of your life, that you have a fulfilling and happy time whether he is there or not ... re-build your confidence by your own activities, e.g. with friends, hobbies etc.  Don't expect your boyfriend to reassure you and give you confidence, you have to get that by yourself.  I would say definitely don't ask him 'what's wrong', there is clearly something wrong and pushing him by asking him about it is likely just to push him further away and make your situation worse.  His behaviour is kind of indicating that it might not be so much fun being with you at the moment, but you can turn things around ... focus on making sure that when you are together you and he have good, positive interactions and lots of fun.  There is nothing more attractive to a man than a happy and confident woman who is good fun to be with.  Good luck.
160882
say bye. if he not commit to you now, he will not be commit later.  He is in it for the sex.