Im seeing guy online for 2 months and he tells me he hurt himself, say cant talk to me 4 3 weeks what do u thk
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Did he tell you this before he said he couldn't talk to you for that amount of time, or he didn't talk to you for that long? Did they sew his mouth shut? Did he break both hands? Does he have any friends who could have called you, or at least emailed you during this time?\nIt sounds like an excuse to me. Most likely, he found someone else some place and when that didn't work out, he's back online with you. That sucks, but if he were serious about you, he would have thought up a way to contact you. If he couldn't think of a way to contact you, then he's not very smart and you need to find someone who knows how to add two and two and come up with four, not someone who doesn't even understand the question.
656144
You feel so bad because you are interacting with a narcissistic sociopath.  He keeps coming back and wooing you so you can tell him how lovable he is.  Then he "wins" by dumping you again.\n\nStop playing his game!  The only possible outcome is for you to get hurt again and again.  The next time he contacts you, tell him you have a stable relationship and don't want anymore contact.  Then hang up, put him on your email spam list, and throw away his letters unopened. He probably has a vast set of victims just like you, so he can go torture somebody else.
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I am so sorry.  This man has made his choice and you cannot do anything about it, unfortunately.\nBe with friends, keep yourself busy, and do not feed into his ego by contacting him.\nIt will only hurt you more.\nAvoid him at all costs...because to contact him will cost you your sanity!!\nGood luck and better wishes for a great future relationship.
1157727
You're going to hurt him one way or the other.  Just be honest and tell him you're feelings have changed and you don't want to date him anymore.  He'll get over it after a while (unless he's psycho).
89780
Be direct, no hints, and say it as soon as possible. He might be hurt, yes, but hey, people get hurt everyday, it happens, you deal with it, and move on, probably even stronger. \nSpill your heart out and tell him how you feel about this situation. Goodluck!
673778
You need to suddenly not have time for him. Either he is going to see what you are going through and fix it, or you are going to learn it is time for you to move on.
167853
This guy sounds like he's really confused and a bit immature.  I think you really need to answer that phone and tell him how much you were hurt by what he did to you.  Talk it over . . . you might be surprised to find that he's been just as torn up about this as you have been!
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he wanted to break up with you sooner, but he didn't want to hurt your feelings.  and when you found out, he was just being immature and wanted to turn the tables on you instead of confronting you and telling you that he wants to see other people.  forget about him...sign up on the same site and start talking to guys...or go out and do it, what ever your forte is.
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speak with him n convince, tell him abt ur past also,\ngo ahead only if he likes u\ncoz already u r in pain\nu shouldn't be hurted again
150331
Ok, it's only been a weekend and your upset? Just wait. Maybe he's playing the waiting game to see who will give up first. If a weekend turns into a month...then u know to let it go.
550745
He's NOT worth your time.. Move on to someone else.. He's just playing w/ your emotion..
737556
did ur frn say something to him?.. or may be just got bored??? but my dear online frns???.. trust me and i speak from exp... don't waste a sec more on him....move on ....
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if i were you id give it a while. i mean my guy didn't do that and im still hurt, the break-up was over 2 months ago.\n(ps. im a girl) just do what you think is right.\n good luck
485763
that's kind of hard, he might still b upset with u 4 leaving him, my advice spend some time with him and c how he acts, if the vibe is good then try flirting with him a lil, but i think the best thing 2 do is let him know how u feel, tell him your sorry 4 what happened and that u were going through a ruff period.
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you sound almost like a mirror image of me but i'm at the 3 month stage and i don't know if he's with somone else, the other difference is he said to me that he wants to work things out i haven't seen mine in 20 days and yes im counting. the best advice hang in there, me personally i would tell him how much of a many swearwords he is for hurting me and how could he get with somone else so soon. but as i said hang in there im now ruling my own life but it is hard moving ahead without the one you love. Be Good!
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Find someone else. Accept his contacts but keep moving forward yourself. He needs to know you're not waiting forever.
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Well, as an MUNER, I've seen this happen. It's lucky that you were admin because if that note had been confiscated, there would be consequences. Anyways, you are right in asking him straight off would scare him. You don't really know this guy, do you? It seems like 2 or 3 weeks at most  and you already say he's NOT the player type. Maybe he is. If he really liked you, he would have called. This guy is not a perfect gentleman as he hasn't fulfilled his promise to call. I think he's keeping you as a safety as he flirts with you online but not in a more meaningful way. He maybe interested in another girl. There are other guys out there. Good luck.