I really like a guy/who's onTrip overseas & weve been emailing w/no emailFrom him in 12 dys--do I wait?GiveUp?
87969
wait maybe he can't get to a computer, is too busy, ect.. Keep writing him so he knows that you care.
1082716
possibly.  Just do this...dont message him everytime you see him online.  Let him message you first sometimes, Im sure you are a busy person too.  He could just be busy (like what he told you).
554228
It isn't easy. You really got to love them to wait around but hey what else is there to do right? I mean you get to talk a couple of times a week and swap email. I take it he is deployed or you would be with him if he was just stationed at a base over seas somewhere. Take it from an ex Army man, it isn't easy for either of you and it can get boring and tempting to stray. Try and stay busy if your on post some place there has got to be a lot of other gals just like you waiting so hook up with some of them for someone to talk to they are in the same boat.\nGood Luck!!
489100
I don't think he could like find you if you give him your email.. I'd say its a personal judgement call.. Do you want to talk to this guy? Do you like him at all? As remember if he gets nasty or anything you can just block his email address..
371988
I think you are being the chaser here.  You certainly have given him every indication that you are interested.  Now it's time for him to pursue you.  He certainly is exhibiting that other things distract him when it comes to you.  If he isn't making you a priority now, it can only get worse if you continue on in this relationship.  If you cool it and he asks what is up, then tell him straight up, that he doesn't seem to be overly interested so you didn't want to bother him.  If he's really intersted, this will light a fire under him.  Finally, be leary of this "I'm talking to family in Canada thing".  Maybe once, but not every time you try to call him.  My relationship warning light is flashing on that one.  Best of luck to you!
508130
Just be happy you had contact with him and you get to see him once in awhile.Being a fan, its hard not to want more, but remember he is a busy guy, he does have a life of his own and when he's at home I'm sure he wants to leave work out of his family time.If he gave more attention to all the people that email him like you want, he wouldn't have time for anything else.Respect his privacy ,and when and if he has time,I'm sure you'll get a response.I've seen him on Oprah he is a nice guy and I'm sure he appreciates his fans and if he doesn't respond it's probably because he cant not because he doesn't want to.
651721
It would appear like you are trying too hard. You have already contacted him so the ball is in court. As hard as it is to wait, you have to if anything to see if he is interested! Just keep yourself busy with your life and carry on as usual because if you spend all your time thinking about this.. it will just eat  you up.  good luck!
328950
i am travelling myself. it is difficult to keep communication with someone back home that you may have feelings for as you are always thinking of them. therefore you aren't able to make the most of your adventure abroad. relax.\n make the most of whats in front of you today
650666
Sounds like all talk and no action. I wouldn't wait around for it. If what he says is true then he would have done something long before now. Don't wait around for him. Do your thing and let him do his. If he is into you, he will make the move. That shouldn't be you job, especially if he claims to have liked you for so long. You didn't miss any sign, because he failed to send you one.
953264
i had EXACTLY  same situation,,,love at first site, college ddays gone, never spoken to him.....once i sent him a sms abt frdship with my name n i got reply....now v r frds n chat half d day....\ndon t know whether it ll work 4 u.... don t risk t...hope u get d right advice....all d best...i understand how it is like.....
158603
His just proably very busy and his thinking about you. Maybe his thinking about what to do with you next. Relax you dont want to scare this guy away. I've been there and done that. Its not cool becuase you hurt yourself for what you did. Just go with it and get to know him first. Don't jump to the marriage part. you guys just met.  I really think that there's things he needs to do and haven't had time to call you.  GIVE HIM THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT!!!!  unless you go out one day and caught him with someone else then just look at it like you don't care but don't let him see you be hurt. " Those who wait will be reward!!"
899912
send him an email.....be honest and see what happens...
636907
In the same boat with ya miss lady. My guy is overseas though. It's difficult because they figure once they 'got you' they don't have to keep trying, but interest can be lost at any point and he has to do his part to keep you happy as well. An email, phone call, text message, hey...even a post card is just a simple and quick way to say 'hey, I may be busy, but your are on my mind and I want you to know that." It doesn't take much for someone to make you feel like a million bucks. But lack of communication leads to loss of interest which makes you distant from him mentally as well as physically. He needs to step his A-Game up. You should worry a little, but I've noticed with men, you have to constantly TELL them what you want, unlike women we think back to the last point of our conversation before things went downhill. Men move on and don't worry, just send him a signal that he should worry and that you are losing interest on his part. Be subtle and smooth with it, he'll get the picture, nothing major to make him overly jealous but a red flag to get his heart beating a little so he'll know you might be out of his grasp if he continues....Good luck miss lady!
1117500
If he hasn't responded to a dish like you, he's gay, dead or just plain stupid.\nOne good thing, there are thousands of men, on here, and elsewhere, who would be over the moon, to correspond or chat with you.\nSo don't waste your time on  him, it seems he hasn't.\nJust move on, and open yourself up to all the other chances you have.\nAfter seeing your pic, I would suggest you buy a baseball bat, to beat off some of those suitors,. who will be sitting on your doorstep waiting for you.\nLife's  too short to worry about losers, just move on and have fun.\nI'd wish you good luck, but I don't think you need it. :)
1033401
Have you emailed him to ask him what's going on? Text and email him both and ask. Tell him that if he's ok and simply doesnt want anything to do with you, to please tell you so you can stop wondering if he's ok. If he is ok, and just couldnt contact you for a while, ask him from now on, to tell you if he's going to be out of touch for a while and/or if he's mad or wants nothing to do with you to say so........the silence is confusing and scary. Explain that.I am sure he is just involved in something and cant get back to you. I'm sure it bothers him too...wondering what you must think!  Good luck!
785678
He is extreeeeemely busy... if you are "dating" and he hasnt contacted you... eh... well.. he is a man.... and welcome to the game of "love"
549976
Best bet? Mark it as spam on yahoo. Next time he send and email, yahoo will write to him back that "the email address you are trying to reach is not available"\n\n--> BTW, I like your policy about the ex. X is X. Otherwise it leads to emotional threesomes, a huge turmoil.