I have a girlfriend, but still want to bone every single little college girl I see.  Is this normal?
78963
Normal is a setting on your dryer. It's alright to be attracted to other girls without acting on it. If your girlfriend is satisfying you mentally, hang on to her, because thats the hardest thing to find. You are a walking hormone right now . Don't throw away a good thing, if that is what you have.
285221
Every guy notices other women from time to time, we can't help it. But to make it so obvious that your girlfriend notices and is bothered by it, well, that shows a deplorable lack of class. Also, calling your girlfriend "ugly" is really beneath contempt.\n\nCall him on it. Make sure he knows how much he is hurting you.
504336
there is a man for every women and a women fro every man!\nthe lucky one for you will be coming soon i am sure...you shouldn't be in such a rush....you are still in high school right? you have you whole life a head of you! think about it!
239057
What makes her so special? You are losing it buddy..\nSounds like you have self esteem issues.. \nYou need to stay away from that church and that woman.. \nIt's Guys like you that girls like me stay away from...you sound obsessive and possessive...work on that!
838560
Yep, this sounds like an esteem issue indeed.  Your quote, "I've never even been liked by a girl before" ... How do you know this???   Another quote, " there's never been one who thought of ever being with me as more than just a friend."  OK so with this attitude you're not going to get kissed.  What you need to do is find the one that you want to kiss and then you need to change your tack.  No more "hey I'm goofy and safe like a brother". Girls generally like guys who are confident, yet sensitive, eager, but not too eager, and can show a subtle sex appeal.  It's like playing a role in the movies sometime, but once you learn the part and get that game face on, girls will dig you.\nAsk them girlie questions, chicks love to hear "wow nice top, sweet jeans, did you do something to you hair, it's hot".  Returning an oh so subtle wink and grin to her when she strokes your ego is a winner too.  I have this crooked little grin that I do with my uppers and while I'm doing it I put the tip of my tongue on the bottom part off the teeth and widen the smile ... Chicks dig it, be touchy but no in an overbearing way, just a little rub on the shoulder when you say hi.  You've got to show some appeal as a boyfriend and you need to step up the game my friend.    PS:  Never be afraid of rejection, or her saying no, you graciously thank her and move to the next target.  It takes work to find perks!!!!!
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Seems to me that she wants you herself. I think that you should not tell her. It's any of her business, unless you want her to know. Why would you sit and discuss the way you please your girl in bed? Thats invading privacy. Maybe she wants to join. If i was your girlfriend, and she asked you that, your friend would have some problems with me. That is disrespectful. DO NOT TELL HER ANYTHING. Respect your girl.
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I don't know how old you are, but obviously pretty young. \nI'll tell you that you should respect what her parents say. This gets you in good with them. They maybe worried that you are trying to give her stuff to feel obligated to do sexual things with her. In which case, that's too serious for your age and mom and dad know that. Okay, so your intentions were good, and not trying to buy sex, but trying to show her how much she means to you. Girls don't know this. They are too young to understand any of that. She confided in you about her deep feelings, feel honored, most girls don't feel that comfortable around any guy. If you want to tell her that you miss the times you had with her, that is okay, that lets her know that you really care about her still, but you understand that you both aren't ready for something that serious. She will then always remember that you are a wonderful boy, and her parents will always remember you were respectful. Wait until she and you are old enough to date seriously, who knows what the future holds. Remember to get good grades and go to college so you can get a good job; no girl (or woman) likes a stupid, broke man. Keep being you.
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This probably has nothing to do with you! Many girls in America are raised to believe that sex is "dirty" and un-lady-like or whatever. Was she raised in a socially conservative family? If so, she may have some internal conflict (ashamed of doing something she was brought up to feel bad about vs. actually enjoying herself!!!)  She may not even know this about herself, but it's a great starting point (as opposed to thinking she was abused or that you are inadequate)  Just talk to her and let her know you're there to listen and you'll win the good boyfriend award this week. hope this helps.
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k well you have a lot going on here dont you. i think you need professional help before your impulse control gets the best of you. sure its kind of stupid for girls to let it all hang out, but who are you to tell them they cant. and you can repress this "natural" instinct. i do it everyday.
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It depends on who the girl is that is the potential partner.  Some girls who are holding out for marriage may want a guy who's a virgin himself to know that he doesn't take sex lightly, and some who are holding out will be lenient and understand that "mistakes" do happen, so sleeping with one or two girls before ending up with her was condonable, especially if they weren't one night stands and were actually relationships.\n\nSome girls who are "easy" or enjoy messing around themselves might be much more lenient and not worry, but lets' just say that from my experience, a red flag goes up if you start counting toes, and especially if you have to switch back from toes to fingers to get to the rest of your "score card."\n\nMy husband was with his two high school girlfriends and had two one night stands with girls he'd known for a while.  No he didn't talk to them anymore, but c'mon...it's hard to NOT do the nasty in high school.  It's like your whole life is going to change and you never know when that person is goign to see if you again if you're going to college.  Furthermore, because you share so many important events those last few years of high school, it's hard to not think of that person as your entire world.  \n\nJust be careful with who you're with, and only sleep with asfew as possible.  Make sure after sleeping with the girls, you can sleep alone by yourself at night, peacefully, knowing that you're a good person inside who's still a great potential partner.
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Oh honey darlin' baby child! There is no question! Go to College!! If your relationship with your girlfriend is strong it will last. But you can so not cope through life just on devotion. You need the education. You will have so  many experiences in college that will form the man you will be. You need this. And she needs to understand that you deserve this. Go...to..school!
912032
Dude, I had one girlfriend in high school that lasted two months.  It took me a while to catch up on learning but now I can proudly say that I need more than two hands to count the partners I've had, and I'm 33.  The majority of people I were with were in a relationship with me for more than a year, so it's not like I constantly slept around.  At 28 years old I got tired of being a nice guy and decided to only make myself happy instead of always putting others ahead, and it has paid off well.  You still have to think with your brain more than your male appendage though.\n\nEven now I can still go to the clubs hanging out with my girlfriend (been together over a year), and I know the married couples that don't look too happy are envying me.  Just don't get married early and ruin it.  think of it this way too.  When you're in high school you really only connect with those in your school.  When you're in college the number of available women expands.  Then when you're in the real world it's a meat market.\n\nI can't say us males don't measure another guy in the number of women that he's conquered, but just play it safe and you won't have to hear from those same males on how many child support payments they make or avoid.
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u should stop doing wht ur doing w/that new girll.. if u still wanna be with ur gf.. cuz its just not right!!imagine ur gf doing the same thing to u.. how would u feel??
743216
Maybe you're turned on by girls with meat on their bones.  It's not weird, I've heard that before.
1007814
I don't blame her.  You are an as/s-hole! You have a girlfriend but you still post questions asking girls if they want to have a 'hot chat' with you.  IDIOT!
552447
Be sensible. She's your girlfriend, not your possession. Do you have a reason not to trust her? Can you talk to her about it? If not, and it bothers you, you shouldn't be with her. Does she have good reason you'll beat a male friend for looking at her? If so, maybe she isn't the one with the problem!\n\nPossessiveness makes an intelligent gal want to cheat. Girls like showing off their bodies- it's what we do. If you have a faithful loving relationship with this girl, then talk to her about your insecurity! There's a good chance it is founded in nothing. If you do not have a good relationship then what are you staying in it for?\n\nThe issue here sounds like a lot more than her going swimming with her friends! Ask yourself what it really is, and then deal with it.
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oh Lord have mercy. You are in deep trouble, buddy. no more 2 hours of coitus!! 2 hours of coitus!!!\n\nJust let her do her own freaky thing...I have a sibling on here too and we just stare, open mouthed at each other sometimes, like WHO THE HELL ARE YOU?? after reading each others crap on here.\n\nout of respect, I DID have to take off the black vinyl femme dom outfit spread eagle avatar of myself..it was just too much and I did not want it brought up around the Thanksgiving table.