if you hate some1 so much but u have to see that person everyday, what to do to live with that?
93804
Life is short, you shouldn't be wasting your time hating this person so much.  Save energy for better things.
362483
I can totally relate to what you are saying. I live with the same type of thing every day, unfortunately the person in question is my boss. Sometimes I think if I let loose one day the consequenses might just be worth it. Horrible, I know, but this kind of person can cause the most severe and aggressive frustration! My advice is to avoid him as much as possible, which is what I do with her, but should you happen to proceed with a physical confrontation I admit I would find it comforting to know that at least someone had some consequence for their constant crap behavior and maybe will think twice about it in the future.
375201
yes, i mean u know how he feels so just get thing out in the open and make it clear to him that u dont hate him=P
56807
Keep thinking about something else.  Keep occupied.  Keep busy.  These feelings will go away with time.  Pray that these wanting to get revenge feelings will go away even faster.  I know it is hard but we are all human & had to go thru this.  Reflect to yourself remembering your good qualities and then compare them to what you don't want to be like in this other person.
678519
Tiffany I know it is difficult having to put up with that treatment every day.  Work on cultivating who you are inside and ignore them. It will not be easy but in the long run you will be better off for it. Believe in yourself and know that within yourself you are so much better than whatever "they" say.
111410
It's kinda hard to forget some one you loved but if you still care about her in to some extent then don't try to forget about her keep talking to her (as just a friend) and remember the good times but keep an open mind and start dating new people. If you just completly hate her all of a sudden and want to forget about her for good the best thing to do is not think about how much you dislike her and just don't think about any memories of her. Continue on with your own life. Date new people, go out for a few drinks with your buddies, just have a good time.
310123
learn to appreciate the little things\nshare more moments with family\nlisten more and talk less,\nWANT to console in others more than the want to be consoled.\neven if you don't agree with someone's beliefs, don't HATE them but empathize with them, because you never know when you will be faced with the same struggles that person went through! <3\n:)
923139
The best thing to do is distance yourself away from them. Don't call them or email them, and definitely don't see them. The more you stay away and keep out of contact with them, it will be easier to detach yourself from this person. This does not mean that you will ever forget about this person, but it will make it easier for you to go ahead with your life. This takes time for some people, and other people it doesn't. It all depends on the individual. This has always worked for me.
404575
if you dont like him like that there isnt much u can do,\nive been in that situation and all you can do is wait for them to find someone else they like alot.\nits unfair to expect them to just deal with it
1012536
you go out with him and see what happens .\nbetter than a guy who says he hates you
489737
Just think how YOU would feel if it was being done to you.  Hate begets hate.  Hate is easy, love takes courage.
308993
You're no longer close?  Then just leave them in the past, darlin.  You're trying to live better and clean up your act, DO NOT be around them, I can say they will try their damndest to drag you back down to their level.  Completely write them off, take them off your cell phone, email, ims, MySpace, whatever and however you talk to them.  Leave them and that life in the past and you will feel a 1,000 times better.
427201
You can't change someone else, so for your own sanity's sake assume he'll never change.  You can, however, try to gently point out that maybe the reason he's miserable all the time is that his life is hollow.  Encourage him to do something for others.  Maybe you could sign up for something like Habitat for Humanity and invite him to come along with you.  It doesn't have to be HFH, but you get the idea.
49360
you cant...however if this person pushes you away constantly, tell them how you feel, if that doesnt help, leave them be, sooner or later, they will come to terms
583480
cos the feelings are too strong.... all u have to do is feel the person is horror himself.or think him in a bad way and u will hate him.... but i will suggest that if there is any means having that person u just have to try cos  ... its good to follow the heart he may be the one 4 u and don't just give up. but if u insist on giving up it OK.. cos if u don't give up u are only killing ur self a given passion or emotion that can never be re_given by the other.there is not determinate answer cos, he May be the one, and he may not be the one. if u can bear it wait for a time and see if things will change. but if u cannot wait then forget him and believe that, if he is for u he will come back sooner or later alone.
846731
Well, if he hates you because someone told him to hate you, then he's not worth your time anyways.  Move on to someone else.  If you keep thinking about him, you'll just end up hurt.
476602
Remember all the negatives about him and you will learn to hate him...