I'm tired of it and frustrated about this, so how do I change it?
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You don't have to worry about whether or not you can make it without him, do you? You're already doing everything on your own anyway, plus taking care of him (his laundry, cooking, s.e.x., etc). \nDoes he work? Doesn't sound like he has time if he's spending that much time on the PC. If he's not even working, then time to tell him to grow up and take on his responsibilities. I would give him say, 2 weeks to get a job or find somebody else to live off of. If he does work, then I'd sit him down or write him a letter explaining how I felt. Do not, whatever you do, start yelling. That will get you nowhere. Let him know that if things don't improve, then eventually, you'll get so sick of it that you will kick him out. Have you asked him what he would do if you decided to stay on the computer all the time and expected him to do everything? \nAnother idea: you could go on "strike" until he does get it and changes. Don't wash him laundry anymore, only yours and the baby's. Don't cook for him anymore, just for you and feed the baby. Don't do his dishes, don't do anything for him. When you've got his attention, I bet he'll listen if he is worth anything. Don't demand he give up the computer completely, but apparently he needs some reasonable time limits.
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join the club - I am tired of it too - it is a job in itself - and you are not paid for it applying .....................................................\n\njust keep trying different ways and methods - dont close yourself off - dont give up
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Sounds to me like you need to talk it out with a therapist.  You have to figure out what it is that is causing your ATTITUDE, and how you can learn to have more PATIENCE.  I don't think you are as IN TUNE with yourself as you think, but with the help of a listening ear to work through whatever is eating at you under the surface...you hopefully will be able to figure out.  GL
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I'm a bit like that aswell sometimes. Just take a deep breath and walk away. Staying there will make you more angry. If you can't walk away, just tell them you're doing something wrong politely.
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Just do the same thing over and over everyday, you'll get so used to it nothing will change...God bless
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based on your question I don't know if you are frustrated or complete.\n\nIf you are complete you can congratulate yourself and move onto new goals.  Perhaps you can try helping others, family, friends.\n\nIf you are frustrated because you can't do enough try doing baby steps.  If things seem too tough try breaking them down into smaller goals.  Stop feeling bad for what you can't get done, concentrate on doing a few things and feel good about what you do accomplish.  If it's still too much try meditation and don't forget to take time to relax.\n\nGood luck :-)
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Why would you want to?? All that would do is change his mood from happy to grumpy..trust me I live with it everyday. There are somethings that are better left alone
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I don't like that I get really annoyed about small things.
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so??? what do you want me to do about it???
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Whatever you do don't let people know that it bugs you because all that will do is make them what to do it more. Just smile and let it go. Eventually people will give up on it. Good luck
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getting rid of an annoying habit may be easier than you think.  Just costantly remind yourself of how annoying the habit is and occupy yourself with something more pleasant. Mind over matter
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Go to my Q&A and cick on edit my info you can change it there.
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Habit.  NOthing else.  You can change it if you try.
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Go to My Q&A and click on Edit My Info.  You can change it there!
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run for office.  change the way the system works.  otherwise, whats the point of complaining?
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Perhaps something like this that can't be automatically dealt with needs to be changed. Finish your work right away and then spend the rest of your time relaxing. It really helps!
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With PATIENCE AND UNDERSTANDING.  And PRAYER!\nHe will grow out of this annoying stage one of these days, hopefully for you it will be sooner rather than later.\nGod Bless You!  \nAnd do PRAY!