how to make my lover happy?she makes me depress a lot how to overcome it?
89020
One way to make your lover happy is to give her pleasure.  Knowing what a woman likes and how to provide it is very important.\n\nWhat is she doing that depresses you?
1111498
Well you can bring her to dinner. Then take her to a nice hotel room. Have candles because that lighens the mood. Rub her face and body. SO she gets happy if you know what I mean play soft muisc in the back round. These are just a few ideas. Good Luck!
85601
when she is feeling lonely n depress, that the dest time, or any time, when ever she disscuss a problem with you. first suggest out come if possible help her, n at the end look in to her eyes n say "no matter what happens "i will be therefor you" ", n believe me she will be all yours.\n\nhope you have a good realtionship dear bless you!
368455
what a tragic story! you should just leave them be if they seem so happy. if i were you, i would try and be happy for her. you can't force a guy to fall in love with you, it's almost impossible. try writing a letter to him about how you feel [don't send it of course], i guarentee it'll help ! you aren't being punished and beaten up everytime you turn around, life is just pieces of a huge puzzle and you've just placed the wrong piece in the wrong place. take it out and look for a place where it fits =]
12348
Tell her to get over herself- theres no point being depressed- get out and lose weight get a hot Boyfriend and stop moaning-shes the only one who can do anythign about it!
979611
Quick Fix/ Do you love her? YES.   Have you been hurt in the past? YES.  Who cares my friend. You are franklly just scared.  Moments of intimacy cover it up sometimes and that is why you feel happy.  Let go of this fear. This girl you have in front of you is going to make you very happy.  Let go of your past, and live.  Otherwise, the next question you are going to be asking us is" How do I get her back?"
854060
Always always always be honest, don't try to change who she is or what she is, how she dresses. Tell her that she is beautiful and treat her like u have never treated anyone like she's just something u have to have every day. Make her feel safe and secure when she is with u. And when she doesn't feel like having sex don't get mad at her cause sometimes a woman just likes to be held and caressed. It's not always about sex. But when it is please her. Make her feel like she's the only woman on the face of the earth. We like this kind of stuff. Hope this helped.
1157567
Concentrate more on her feeling good rather than how good it feels to you. \nInstead of jumping into the heated moment too fast, slow yourself down and focus on the tender spots of her. Set out just to make her feel electric. Put yourself last. Much more pleasure.
439835
You can decide not to be affected by her ruined moods.  You can't control her lack of awareness about what's bothering her, but you being in a good mood may lift her off from her blah periods.  You can only do so much for her, but being her positive bf will really do wonders for her.  Good luck!  :)
258616
be patient and dont push her too hard\njust be there for her (even only via email)\nstop telling her how you feel for now, it may be quite irritating for someone's out of a bad relationship\ntell her your feeling once again when she's opened up a bit\n\nhope she'll loosened up =)
312516
You have to look back why you married her, try to find out what makes you happy, feel peaceful, or anything that makes you so in love with her and decided to marry her. It is not really wrong If you start not happy, because you just get bored with all...but if you want to try just do something new, new activity or try some fun activities with her, maybe it works for you. Please do not compare her with your 1st wife it's really unfair...a woman really sensitive with that, it makes her feeling hurt because she never exist for you.
201949
if she doesn't seem happy don't marry her. she should be happy without the gifts. you should be the one who makes her happy. you do many wonderful things, and it sounds like she isn't as in love as you. get out now before you really get hurt. (it will already hurt) and by the way, what is your phone number, you sound wonderful.
303485
You are a very strong and kind person and I wish you all the best of luck with your gf.\nMy friend is a manic depressive and her partner has been with her for 5 years now. He loves her to bits but at times has felt like he was making himself ill aswell. He learned that he had to put his own wellbeing first sometimes, so that he was able to give her the best he could. At one stage though, he did try to reason with her, by telling her that he had 'stood by her all this time' and she still wasn't getting any better. At this point, she ended it, blaming him for the way she was (she had been depressed from a young age) and evidently got worse. When speaking to her, she felt that he was only with her in the hope that she would get better. This was an awful pressure on her because she knew (as well as he did) that there was every chance that things could get worse and she may never improve.\nSo, I simply give you this advise, take care of yourself and satisfy your needs and ambitions. If she pushes you away, don't retaliate with any blame or make her feel that she owes you something for your time spent with her. Simply allow this to be the oppurtunity where you get some time for yourself. Meet with friends, take up a hobby, whatever. Most importantly, don't make her feel that you are leaving her, always be contactable and tell her where your going and when you will be back. Simpy let her accept and know that you are always there for her but also for yourself.\nPlease also understand that she may or may not improve. If you can't see a future with her if things don't improve, then maybe you should rethink your situation. \nMy friend is improving (and happily living with her partner) and is now working. She is a lovely person and I admire her strentgh. \n\nI wish you all the best of luck,\n\nHappy Birthday for Monday!!\nxx
101827
Just ask her!  If you're not convinced with her answer, don't press the issue.  Ask for ways for you to improve her experience.  If she's worried about your feelings, that will give her the opportunity to 'help you along' without embarassment.  Real men appreciate any advice from their lady- so the fact that she offers it- does NOT mean you've been doing it wrong.  And remember, you're not born a great lover, you BECOME a great lover- take any advice graciously.
102872
You can't exactly MAKE somebody love you more. The heart feels what the heart wants to feel. All you can do is show her that you're a great guy to be with, and hopefully she will feel that there is nobody else for her.\n\nTreating her kind, complimenting her, respecting her, and remaining faithful to her, are only some of the things that you can do ( or continue to do ) to show her that you're that guy. Be spontaneous, live a little, take her out and have fun. It is your job to prove to her that you're what she needs, and you can do that by keeping her happy, making her laugh, and helping her to feel safe and secure. Nothing in a healthy relationship is ever materialistic. Sure, it is nice to get and give presents, but the key lies in the emotional support.\n\nUltimately, even she can't control her own heart when it comes to love, so whatever the outcome, it is one you must learn to accept. Either way, find comfort in knowing that you gave it your best.\n\nGood luck.
858895
Hi,\n\nI don't think you can make someone happy if they just don't want to be happy, try to find out what the problem is and get that person help if need be! It could be a deeper problem then you think!
506094
be honest and tell her how much you missed her, how much you longed to see her and how you love her that's enough to make a girl happy.\n\nall your Gf want from you is your true love and be truth full to her.\ngood luck.