Is oral sex okay in a realtionship only after one month?
84727
Geeeeeeeesh most girls bring out the big gun the first time. You must be getting some bad advice somewhere.
195616
no one should put a time limit or expect anything in any certain amount of time. it will happen when you are both comfortable with one another. dont try to rush it, four weeks is not a long time. if you want to charish that moment then wait. building momentum and imagination is so sexy. i think it means more to wait and build on something more than sex. wait cause you already know it will be worth it.
592445
I could not agree with you more! Oral sex, well any type of sex for that matter is very intimate and should be done so only with those you love very passionately and very deeply! Indeed, oral sex is extremely intimate and should only be done with those you love very passionately! Amen!
139848
Nothing wrong with dating. How else do you find out what your options are? As stated, you are not a s1ut unless you are having sex with everyone you date. I do not reccomend this practice. Too many STD's out there. If you are having sex, please use a condom.
630535
There is no magic age (except 18) :) It is okay to wait. Despite the message of the "new virgin" crowd you really only do get one first time. Once you are in a relationship with someone that you care about (beyond just a physical attraction), then consider it. You will be in a very vulnerable emotional and physical position, and you have to absolutely trust your partner. Has he/she been honest about his/her past or disease status? Is he/she really committed to you or is he/she just trying to get in your pants? Once you can pose these (and other) questions, and know in your heart that you have gotten and honest answers, then it is too soon for you no matter what your age.
1017415
Most are a month or two. of course there are exceptions... im in high school and ive been with my boyfriend for 2 and half years :)
420279
Make sure that you and the girl are comfortable with each other you don't want to regret it. Also make sure you are both ready. Don't forget to have nice breath etc lol. Use mouthwash! You have to remember that a relationship isn't just about kissing, make sure you and your partner know each other properly.
335433
Well-Its very healthy for you IF you practice safe sex. HOPEFULLY  with the same partner.
792727
I suggest a 12hr sex session... or 24hr, even better! You guys should be gagging for it if you've been apart for the past 6 weeks.\nMy 19yr old flatmate got a dr who figure and a haircut for her man for their aniversary this weekend. \nI think you really have to work this one out for yerself tho, you should know him really well by now, probably better than anyone, and you'll be able to find something i'm sure. \n\nI'd still go with the sex tho!
1005564
When you are newly in a relationship you invariable end up having sex more than once on a regular basis. But you just cannot keep that pace forever. There's nothing wrong or harmful to it only that you'll tire out considering you have a life to live outside your bedroom
627421
you absolutely have to trust your partner!!! no if, and, or butts about it!!!  it can be a very pleasurable experience if you and your partner take it slow.....this is not something to rush.
101837
Oral sex is just part of a wonderful sexual experience for two consenting adults. \n\nHowever, based on some of your previous questions I believe that you are a very young girl who has a lot of questions about sex.  \n\nOral sex is still sex, and carries some of the same risks of getting STD's.
898939
if it's only been a month, it's probably not that big of a deal\nand he might not care for you like you want him too right now.\nmaybe he'll come around.\nsounds kind of pointless to pursue him, but good luck
140141
Yes ,every day try to rub it slowly till you feel that you are about to cums but donot cum ,make that for 1 month
160317
You should wait 1/3 of the relationship.\n\nSay you went out for 3 months. So, you should wait one month before dating again.\n\nCommon trick- not too fast, not too slow.
357705
dude 1 month is nothing just relax and go with the flow, if 1 day u guys just cant control ur hormones then w/e happens happens...u get me?
839098
I think that you can safely "tease" him for at least a month while you date...you're going to find out more about him, and he will find out more about you.  That will make that eventual sexual encounter so much more meaningful and satisfying!