How Can I Tell If The Girl I Am Dating Wants TO Be Boyfriend/Girlfriend?
84175
Ask her. If you're afraid to ask her in real life or on the phone, IM her. Also, people on myspace post all the time saying I am hot and stuff, when a lot of times I don't even know them.
389279
Well to me if we have been dateing for a while ( 3or more time ) we must be a couple.if he or she calles you and the two talke all the time your dating.
369325
Don't take it seriously unless you're willing to ask her and pursue a relationship.  You're just going to get hurt if you take it seriously and she isn't.  It may be that she's just gotten comfortable around you.  But if you think that its legit, then ask her out.  Then you know just how serious to take it.  Start off slow, and then as you spend time together, you will start to understand the seriousness of the situation.
470069
ask to hang out...spend more time for her...then ask her out to be your girlfriend...but u don't need to rush things
472333
that's true love.if you really love her then go out with her and get to know her better to see if she is your type.if everything goes well then continue dating and soon you'll be gf and bf.also be sweet and funny and creative about what you do
233318
This is too confusing.  Why did you say "she might already like you"? If she was your girlfriend already, isn't she supposed to like you - even more than like you? Are you sure she considers you her boyfriend anyway?
608197
If he's mentioning his girlfriend, it may mean a lot of things, but a couple are:\n\n1) He's pretty happy with her but wants to keep his options open (jerk)\n2) He's using the girlfriend thing as an excuse not to get more involved with you.\n3) He doesn't know what he wants and will say anything to avoid making a decision about who he's 'dating'\n\nYou can't make someone like you, but you can scare them off!  Don't be eager to get this guy...take some time to get to know him if you can...really casual.  If you get along and it's meant to be, things will change.  Also, you may realize that you don't like him as much afterall.\n\nOne sorta sneaky thing is to learn about him and his girlfriend - what bugs him about her?  If you're the opposite, make it known (subtle!)...that mixed with your good personality and easy-going ways might catch his attention.  Good luck!
393464
Ask her how she feels about you.  Ask her what she wants out of your relationship.  If you are constantly giving her things, are you sure that she is not using you for what she can get?  Don't give her anything else until she tells you how she feels.  Good luck!
392885
well you just need to be yourself, if she really likes you she will take you for who you are and not what you can/cant do. before my current partner of 3 years i was having it all the time but since i have been with this guy it doesn't really get mentioned, because we take each other for who we are.
369250
"I'm not sure how to say this to you...but I get the feeling that you're interested in a relationship with me and I'm not ready for that right now.  I just thought I should say something before I give the wrong impression."  Or something like that.  \n\nHere's the truth:  you're already in a relationship with her.  The issue is defining it. What kind of relationship do you want:  friends? lovers?  occasional coffee / movie buddies?  nothing to do with her at all?  Figure out what you want and see if she's willing to be that with you.  If so, have fun. If not, move on.  I wish you Peace.
505685
It sounds like she might have something for you. But until you ask, you'll never know. Start off slow, and ask her if she's ready for a relationship. If she says no, leave things alone. If she asks why, tell her you were just wondering. If she says yes, ask her out. If she says she wants a relationship with you, tell her glad you are, and how good it makes you feel. Noone can answer the question to wether or not your just used to having a companion around, and that's why you miss her, or whether or not you love her and she loves you. You'll just have to ask. But before you jump into things, stop and think about how it is you really feel, and make sure you really do want her back, and that she wants you back.
1171840
well ask her on a date... if she says yes (unless she has some totally reasonable excuse; family dinners don't count) then that is a sure fire way to tell she is into you. Then just tell her you are interested in dating her. Nothing scares a person away more than telling them how passionate you feel about them to early. Take it slow until you feel you can truely trust her. Trust meaning she won't take you for a wild "hot and cold" ride. You want her will tell you frankly how she feels. Good luck mate... and don't worry if it doesn't work out... soo many freakin' fish in the sea!
632070
Are you asking "What do you need to do to get to know more she-males?"\nor are you asking "How can I tell if somebody is one?"\n\nIf it's the second one - well - sometimes it's not that easy to spot, while othertimes it's very obvious. \n\n\nIf you're looking for a romatic relation with this person, I recommend getting to know them first. (Whether you think they're transgender or not!) If you're still not sure and are really interested in dating, I suggest using a LOT of caution when asking because you could really hurt a girl's feelings if you ask her "hey ... are you really a guy??" \n\nBut if you're not interested in a romatic relation - what does it matter??
780716
if she was really your friend she would respect your relationship with your boyfriend and would also understand that though you care for her you are not a lesbian and she can not force you to be one. \nJust explain to her (calmly) that you enjoy her friendship but you dating someone right now and that you arent interested in being with her romantically. If she still tries to push you into something you dont want I would get myself out of that friendship PRONTO!
558652
Date her and find out if you really love her
646734
Start off by letting her know that you aren't looking to be tied down.  That you want a casual relationship for now.
138278
it depends on how long you've been dating.  If its only been a few weeks then something small, but it shows that you like her.  for a long time....engangment?