I think my sister murdered my Mom in another state thru neglect. who do I present my evidence to ?
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why dont u go to the police instead of asking us
629266
call ss,have proof such as pictures-you will have her dead to rights
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I'm really sorry about this. Usually it's harder to prove this kind of stuff when it happens to a guy. My step dad sexually abused me, except it was touching so it was his word against mine. There was no penetration or semen to prove that he had wronged me. The only reason it came out was because I told my friend who ended up telling the school counselor because she was worried. The police took my statement and she asked if I wanted to charge him. I said "yes" and she told me that I wouldn't need to go to court because all she needed was my statement. I guess he must have gotten charged because I overheard in family court that he was doing community service and that he got pyscologically assesed. He was considered low risk, but for a person who took university classes in psycology he probably knew how to answer questions the right way. It boggled my mind that they let him live in a house full of children. My mom had two girls with him and she also cared for three foster children. My social worker couldn't quite understand either why they were still living there, but she said it was probably because he was considered low risk and that the claims weren't against my mom. I ended up in foster care because my mom never wanted to see me again and she didn't want to believe it. I would even take a lie detector test but it is not considered evidence if it were to show I am telling the truth. The only other person that could possibly prove his guilt,  would be my foster brother who was 5 at the time. I thought that if I kept my foster brother by my side that my step dad wouldn't try anything. I wrapped myself in a blanket and told the boy to sit beside me and not to leave my side no matter what. We were sitting, watching TV on the bed and my step dad came home.  He came behind us and lay down. He was rubbing me as the little boys eyes were glued to the TV. He was rubbing my legs and reached into the blankets wrapped around me. He reached to my shorts and tugged at the crotch about to go in. I grabbed his hand and flung it away and started yelling and him as I was crying. The little boy got up and was watching me cry and he asked what was wrong and why I was crying. My step dad started to appologize and was trying to get my attention, I couldn't even look at him, he kept asking for forgivness and I kept ignoring him. My step dad asked for the little boy to leave because he wanted to talk tome in private. I told the boy not to go because there was nothing to say and he listened to me and gave me a hug. He pushed him away from me and kept asking me to forgive him. I told him not to ask me. I told him he should ask God for forgivness because I couldn't do that. He said "I can't live with myself unless I hear it from you". The boy was there,  but I don't know if he understood what was going on. At the age of five he already had a very good memory of things that happened far before. I don't think they used him as a witness though, it wouldn't be fair to put that kind of pressure on a 5 year old boy who already had an unfair life. Later after the boy was gone my step dad told me that we could tell my mom, but I didn't want to tell it with him there. I was scared he would try to twist things around, so I said no. I tried to tell her myself, but he never let me be alone with her. I slipped a note to my brother telling him what happened and I asked him to tell my mom because my step dad wouldn't let me be alone with her.  He was in shock and didn't do it. The next day as I was getting ready for school he said he would drive me and I told him I could walk. I told my brother I was scared to go and he said I would be fine. My step dad didn't drive me to school, instead he just drove around trying to talk to me and parked the car in a parking lot. He told me that he was going to leave the country in a year and told me not to say anything. When it all came out he
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You say that you had the locks changed,and your sister didn't have a key.So if the lock was forced open it is burglary and you can prosecute.As long as you can prove that she was no longer living with you and you had kicked her out.
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sorry for your loss...that crappy that not only did you lose someone to a monster but the police aren't' doing their job...i suggest contacting your local media and present them with the evidence so they can interview your family and the attorney...i'll bet something will be done then...good luck.
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It's best not to try to do anything about it.  Your relatives know this person, and chances are it's not the first time she's done something like this.  They'll know whether or not to believe her.
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I learned as a first aid responce that it is my will to help. People dont have to help unless they want to. Im so sorry this happened to your sister. It almost sounds like you blame the people around her for what happened to your sister. But... In fact she was the one taking the drug and did it to her self. \nIt might be against the law not to call 911. I would check that out better. I am so sorry this happened to your sister and hopefully all her freinds and family learn from the mistake she made. I hope none of then start on it ever. It is a very addicting drug and I am so so sorry your family has to deal with the pain.
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Your words imply guilt. Have you convicted her? If so, on what evidence?
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well, almost certainly you would need to call your local police or sherriff's office, if you want to report her for a crime.. or the state family services board, if you want to help the children..  but i can't tell you how to do that since i don't know where you live.\n\nsorry!  guess they're doomed to a life of hardship and despair.
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Wow, sounds horrifying for you.  Sorry.  First, start gathering evidence, everything you have and can get, to substanciate your accusations.  Also, I believe the Public Defender is protected against hold harmless laws, so maybe you can file a complaint through the District Attorney's office? Start researching this through the state website where you live.  There is much information on each State's site.  Begin researching now before your statute of limitations runs out.\nGood luck to you on this difficult battle my friend.
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as a victim of this myself she needs to continue to go to cps tell her to bring a tape recoder the next time her stepfather does that if he tries again she will have all the evidence she needs then \nshe might also need a semen sample from her vagina to show it is him
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You need an attorney.  He'll tell you what kinds of evidence you need.  I'd avoid talking about this with the family until after you've talked with the attorney, and he advises you on how to proceed.
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From living in a similar experience, I know that you need to break away from your mom, both physically and emotionally, but especially emotionally.\n\nWhat she did is legal if you were threatening her, abusing her, or doing anything that affected her physical or emotional well-being, so as you can guess a lot of actions can be part of that definition.\n\nI know this is harder to do than to say, but I'll say it anyway: Just start living your own life.\n\nWhat doesn't kill you only makes you stronger, I know from experiences that almost killed me.\n\nPray to God that He will show you the path you need to take to become happy and at peace with yourself.
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you can get info online. go to department of corrections. if she is prison her name will come up. I check for people from my past all the time. I am close to my sister who has been clean for almost four years now, but I used to worry about her all the time. Sorry for the pain you are going through. I said a little prayer for you.
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Yes, you should be worried.  I would talk to your mother, see if she had any flings with a canine, or maybe a bigfoot.  There is a good chance that your sister isn't 100% human.  You should immediately shove her into a cage before her animal instincts kick in and she eats your throat.
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Until the case is solved it will not be closed.  You will not be able to get a copy of a file for an ongoing investigation.  There are chain of custody regulations for evidence that must be adhered to.  I am sorry about your mother.  Try to contact your local congressman or state legislator to try to light a fire under the investigation again.
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Dear Friend,\n\nIf you have literally no assets ($0), then you're either going to have to use the Public Defender's office (who will represent your sister for free) or secure aid through a pro bono organization/ legal services clinic.  If you opt for the latter, it might matter what context the assault happened in.  For example, if it was self-defense against a husband or domestic partner, certain battered women's groups may be able to help.  \n\nYour Friend,\nFrancesois