How do you know if the person your dating is really the one you want to marry?
96771
1st - DO NOT MAKE THIS DECISION WHILE HEAD OVER HEAL IN LUV!\n\n2nd - What is marriage to you?  What have you defined marriage to be?\n\nWhat will happen 1 year after you're married.  Do you want to be the provider and have her stay home? Do you want both of you to work so you'll have a great home? Do you want kids right away?\nWhat do you want in 5 years into the marriage? \nWhat do you want in 10 years into the marriage?\nWhat do you want in 20 years into the marriage? \nSit with yourself and ask these tough questions.  Then re-ask these questions in a week.  If you feel confident that you're honest with yourself, then approach your girl. If you're not quite satisfied with your internal question, keep asking and answering yourself untill your confident.\n\n3rd - When you're confident in what you want ... Ask these same questions to your girl friend.  BEWARE ... She'll freak and probably start crying thinking you're asking her out!!! Make it clear that this is a discusion only, and you're trying to figure out the "Next Step".  Then ask her several times after the first questions <Just like you did with you>. \n\nIf you've evaluated the situation and feel that for the two of you to form a union, you can then you can pre-pair that special occation with the ring, and the right setting to ask for her hand in marriage.\n\nBest wishes.
256866
I don't believe there is a specific time frame for that....When you are ready to commit your life to that one person the rest of your days, and have experienced everything in life that you want to as a single person, and know in your hearts of hearts that this is the person that you are in love with ..... then you will know it's "time" to get married. \nI met my husband only 6 months before I married him...we have been married 11 years now. \nSome people date for years and get married ...'\nListen to your heart .
337958
Time will come until he/she realize that you really care for him/her. Like being respectable and honest. Show that he/she's really impotant and meaningful to your life.
646966
Yes Sure you will marry a person whom you love.I can grasp this knowledge from your question that u are in an urge to fall in love and get married soon.
364235
Can you actually see a future with this person? Do you both want the same things in life?
232932
i think that most people just know, and at the same time many people question it, they always wonder : can this be it, is it really going to work, and so forth. the way i look at it is: when you look at the person do you think of anyone else, do you see yourself with this person "forever", do you want to grow old with this person. no one else but you can determine if you are in love or not, this is your question to answer, not ours.
476759
Be true to yourself and your heart. If you have found someone else be honest with the person you are with. The only reason for dating is to find the closest match or the perfect match for you. But be sure you are not leaving something stable for something you are not sure about. Make sure you know this prince charming because he may not be as charming as he seems. But most of all do not cheat yourself and compromise for what you want....we are only young once. Go after it but remember continue to review all your options before any decisions are made. Good luck
323043
I have seen it happen! It happened to my neighbor and they are happily married for 4 years now. You can tell if you are compatible with someone by talking with them. Just make sure that you are always honest whether you think that person will like you for it or not. After all you want them to love the real you, not who they think you are.
129685
This tells you what your life with him will be like IF you get married.  Now ask yourself, "Is this what I want?"  If not, then thank goodness that you two aren't married and move on.
106715
the right person will come along when the time is right for the both of you, don't rush it, it'll happen, when it does, you will know. Don't settle for less or you will still meet him and not be able to be together because of your prior choices
273303
true love is something you dont want to lose, you'll just know if you already meet him, you just need to listen to your heart, hear what it tells, and it'll give you the answer. you'll know when you love someone, you always want to see him happy, even if that hapinness doesnt include you, you tend to sacrifice everything for him, just to be with him.
67732
If you have doubts, he's not the one.  Will you settle?  Many people do.  They're afraid they won't find anyone who's as good looking, or as rich, or as funny, etc.  But believe me, if something bothers you about him, multiply that 10 times when you get married.
942997
yeah as long as you dont have any doubts about the person you are going to marry. your stuck with them forever, dont forget.
102133
If you really love her, then you will trust her, if she says she is, She is. \n\nDoes it Really matter?
1059880
what you need to do is figure out the one you truly love the most; and go for it
645218
take your time, Love will reveal it's self.\ndoes he call you, or do you do everything in the relationship. test him, see if he really cares. don't bug him about it or give him a big list of what you are looking for, just let him be and see what kind of guy he is. you can't change people so find out if he is really suitable for you through experience in time. you are probably young enough that it isn't crucial that you get married right now. take your time if you can....it reveals many things!
600667
If that guy meets the requirements you're looking for, both of you have something in common, and you enjoy each other's company. That is when you'll know that you're with the right guy.