what should i do about my family?
86359
Unfortunately, if someone is predudiced, you can't change their opinions. Go with your heart, and if you truely love your man, don't let other peoples small mindedness get into the way. If they love you, they will eventually be there for you.
548485
You can't, Honey..  No matter what you say or how you say it, they will become defensive and tell themselves that you are just interfering.  You can be there if and when that family member needs you.. and sometimes they will need to talk.  If they ASK your opinion, feel free to give it.. but know that often times, people will ask even though they aren't prepared for the answer.
1032105
If you are of age I see no reason why not.....Your family is probably just worried..There is alot of stuff going on these days and they might just be trying to protect you...Talk to them and tell them how you feel
689780
I would try to let my family and loved ones know that I love them. And tell them not to be sad for too long, because it is bad for you. Maybe try to think of something funny, to lighten things up. Like, "Hey Mom, cheer up, at least I won't be borrowing money from ya all the time!" Then maybe eat a sandwich. And hug someone......... hopefully someone I know............ and like............ and who is not very stinky.
176977
You don't have to do anything.  Just being home with your family will be enough.  As much as you want to be back with them and get back to life at home, they want the same.  Just get home and love them like never before:)  Welcome home!
897439
I know it's hard but try not to get upset, you will be useless.  Social services do try to keep families together, they aren't all bad.  Get in touch with social services, look in yellow pages for number, and sk them to help. but tell them you want your family to stay together.  As long as yuor brother and sister aren't being neglected you will be fine.
218120
any one in my family and my friends
679155
Responsibility shouldn't keep you from being happy. Depending on your native custom, I think you should pursue your own happiness. Do what will make you happy, and keep your family close.
1162889
Well right or wrong on what you become and what you do with your life, family should be there not matter what! I'm going threw it right now. I met and married a wonderfull man, and family is distant from me cause they didnt agree with it. In time if they still dont like what you become, then tell them that your you and you will be what you want and they can be by your side or not, that if they choose not to be then its not stoping you from becomming what YOU want. I didnt let my parents bring me down cause i married a guy they didnt know. And im not giving up my husband for them. They can take me and him as whole or keep living there lifes without seeing there grandkids or future grandkids. But I know in time they will come around, as a matter of fact they have a little. Just be who YOU want to be dont let anyone bring you down or tell you do what they want. Be yourself and prove to them you can do what you want on your own. Good luck!
498789
spend them with my children.... making sure they know I love them and they will get by without me .. (my children are young adults) calling all the rest of my family (they live in another state) so that everyone got to talk to me one last time.... order pizza in, or go out and eat steak...depends on the wishes of those around me....  watch a good movie... talk alot... hug alot... and try not to cry alot....
567899
If you know you can take him...make him hit you or push you first and then kick his ass. I would! Nobody should talk about your family. I know its wrong to fight, but you have to get your respect. Good luck!
807792
Your family seem like they are trying, but seriously you should tell them this- that there support means a whole lot to you and you love and respect them and you just want the same and deserve the same like any human being does.\nIf it concerns you why dont you sit with them alone and bring the subject up and you can all have your say. \nI really hope it works out for you and everyone else concerned.
295127
No.  Your family will always be your family.  They will always be there for you and only want the best for you.
101128
Have you ever considered talking to your family and discussing a "life style change"?  You should be able to have "fun" with your family and it seems you've gotten to the point where you need some layed back fun.  Maybe the rest would understand and want to make the changes with you.  Maybe you're trying to live a certain "concept" that is expected.  It's time to shit can the "expected" and do what makes you and your family happy!
443755
i would tell an adult atleast. tell your teachures. they can do everything that is needed. they are trained to deal with family desturbances. i hope you are all right. noone should have to deal with problems like that.
1016353
i want more time with my family.
153354
Whatever it was that made them disown you will surely dim as time passes. Give them time to cool off, do a lot of growing up yourself then you make the grand gesture yourself. It may take years, and pride will surely get in the way (on your part or theirs) but in the end having family means everything. Once you grow up and change your ways (if that is it) they will surely see the light.