why do people fall in love without knowing it?
86671
love is something that just happens- its an invisible aura that attracts you to the person.
310493
People fall in love. Its almost like when you were little and you spun around in circles love is like that dizzy feeling but then u eventually fall...well that would be the end of the relationship cuz when you fall it hurts...now yes people will rise again, and they will move on to other things. But it will never be the same because if that person you "fell" for was really your first love then theres always going to be w/ you and you will always have some feeling for them but you will move on.
436549
Fools do fall in love because love is emmotional.
210412
Love comes and goes. It's an emotion.\nThe trick is to fall in love with the same person over and over again. It's called commitment.
41706
Because it goes deep into your heart.  so when things are going well - it can feel SOOOO good - but when they fall apart for some reason - it is one of the deepest hurts a person can feel.  \n\nBeing in love is a difficult thing - because one must be willing to expose him/herself to potential pain in order to accept and revel in the wonderful pleasures of being in true love.
248191
There is no straight answer to this.\nFrom sex maniacs to passionate lovers to extreme romantic ones, intentions and expressions differ.\n\nBut you can rather say, there is all possibility that love making may lead to falling in love.
1099223
hmm.. falling in love.. what a great feeling.  However, ALLOWING yourself to fall in love when you know your heart will break, is not love at all.  But when you CHOOSE to love someone, there are no expectations.  You just do it because it makes you happy to do so.  And when that is given in return (not expected) well then that is the most wonderful thing on earth.  We are creatures of love.  We came into this world knowing only love.  We only learned from family, friends, and the world what is expected to "be in love".  And this is a lie.  When someone punishes you for loving them, then it isn't love at all.  So pay attention to your feelings and the ACTIONS of others as well as your own actions.  There is a book I want to find and read .. it will help you understand and it explains it better than I ever will.  Enjoy!!
706660
It's a common phenomenon, I'm afraid. When people fall in love, they often forget the value of having friends and family in their lives. Sometimes they wake up to themselves later, and other times they lose themselves totally in the relationship. Just remind her that you're still there and you'd still like to see her (and won't take all her snuggle time with the new boyfriend). It should balance out sooner or later.
508774
Love depends on the way you see it. Some confuse the lust they have to some person with love. Love is pure. It comes from within. Will stick to that person, no matter what. You will come to know when you are in love. Very tough to explain as to how you come to know.
588902
people dont fall in love knowing they are going to be hurt. true the potential is there but i would hope that they are few and far between.
529076
It is absolutely impossible to be in love with someone you have never met.  It's called 'infatuation'. \n\nIt's like thinking you're in love with an actor or someone on television.  You don't know them and you will never meet them, but you 'feel' you are in love with their character.
769010
Why the sky is blue I can explain. Why stars twinkle at night I can explain. Why civilisations rise and fall I can explain. But Love cannot be defined so easily.......we dont know why we fall in love, what causes it, stirs it and sends us crazy with it but we dont question it.    It simply is....love, in all its beauty, glory and magic. But before looks, personality, and ragging hormones comes 'chemistry'. If there is no chemistry, there cannot be true love. The chemistry that holds two people so tightly together in each others arms, lives and hearts is the greatest mystery man cannot explain. If and when it happens to you....thank your angels and enjoy what they have brought you. There truly is no greater gift to man...or woman.
672431
i believe we fall in love with people who make us feel good about our selves.. or compliment what we believe. it is joined by the word attraction.. liking looks ,smell ...conversation or mannerisms of someone. love is putting your needs before  my own. what i mean by that is not being used by you.. but an example would be like a mom not eating so the kids can have something in their stomachs.  a person in love sacrifices.. some things so the one the love can have a need fulfilled. hurting when the person you love hurts. if his or her feelings are hurt..or loses a job..etc. wanting the best for somone even if the best means it will happen without you. too many people get the attraction and the feeling good part and call it love. but when the looks change(person gains weight) or the person gives contructive criticism(you drink too much or you need to do more around the house) they call it quits and say i dont love u anymore. in actuality they never did love. love is not turned off like a faucet. people get lust ..infactuation and sexual attraction confused with love. love does not see wrinkles ..love doesnt compete.. or abuse.
498865
cause there is no school that teaches how to fall in love with the right person. so like everything else we need to learn from our own experience. we try to find the right person, and in the process we end up falling in love with no so right people.\nit is important to make one more point here. many times people fall in love with you but you don't find them attractive and move on, and they end up suffering, then when you like someone and fall in love, you see the same thing happens to you, this process continues until finally, you find someone to love and in return the other person loves you back and that would be the perfect match. unfortunatly, most people don't have that much patience to go through their experiences and end up making wrong choices just because they are "tired of trying" and end up in the wrong relationship. so the point, you will be fine just have patience and enjoy the experience
680039
It's not as simple as "you just know." That's infatuation. For love, couple that unknown warm feeling with what you know in your mind. For instance, does the person have the same values, motivators, goals as you? Can you see yourself devoting, perhaps sacrificing what you think you want in life to help them? Would you die for that person and why? Don't misunderstand, no need to get anal about it--just some questions to ask yourself to help you see if you're in love and not just lust.
510896
because they dont know what love is and they have never experienced a true relationship..but once they have they know that they wont settle for anything less and they will want that real relationship with love and feelings
595274
there are many different forms of love and no one really can explain how you exactly know something.. its not a math problem