how do i approach a girl without looking stupid and start a conversation?
86091
There are some good ideas posted after this, but the better way is to simply TELL HER.  Like, "I feel stupid approaching you like this, but I'm taking the risk becasue you are so...(fill in your own reasons)."
58367
First you smile, then go up to her and just try: "Hi" or "Hi" and a compliment... tell her why you wanted to speak to her. And if she doesn't act interested be friendly, wish her a nice day and leave, be cool... because you really weren't that interested...\nBut when you say a compliment, don't say anything cheesy like: You have a great smile, or anything too machoman. \nTry something like: "I really tried hard to think of something I could say to you to make you notice me (or whatever) but I couldn't come up with anything that didn't sound weird... so I'll just make it easy; Hi, I'm ..."\n\nI don't know...\nBut I think it's cool that you want to do that! You've got courage.\nGood luck!
623683
Don't go for the cheesy chat up line, just be yourself and chat about anything and everything, there is nothing specific you can say to break the ice, you just need to be open, nice and friendly, if she aint interested in ya after that it aint worth it anyway.
917282
Tap her on the shoulder and start talking..........She might then turn around............lol
184087
JUST BE YOURSELF...CALMLY WALK UP TO THEM...DON'T BE FAKE AND DON'T TRY TO USE "PICK UP LINES" YOU CAN USE PICK UP LINES THAT ARE CLASSY BUT NOT TRASHY! SAY SOMETHING LIKE, "HEY, (INTRODUCE YOURSELF), AND BE HONEST...TELL HER THAT YOU WOULD LIKE TO DANCE WITH HER, OR BUY HER A DRINK OR JUST STRIKE UP A CONVERSATION ABOUT THE SONG PLAYING! A GIRL LIKES IT WHEN A MAN CARRIES HIMSELF WELL, SELF CONFIDENCE IS KEY! IF YOU ACT LIKE YOU HAVE SELF CONFIDENCE AND YOU ARE REALLY TELLING YOURSELF YEAH RIGHT THIS GIRL ISNT GONNA GIVE ME THE TIME OF DAY...SHE WILL PICK UP ON THE FAKE AND THE REAL...SO PLAY IT COOL! BE YOURSELF! AND HEY IF SHE DOES REJECT...IT'S OKAY...
378233
Just be casual. order something and try to have a light sense of humor while trying to make conversation. go easy at first..keep going in to order stuff and keep making conversation. girls like shy and sense of humor but be shy about it..u know..look cute..she will get the hint eventually..after u feel comfotable ask to have lunch or a cup of coffee w/ you....hey, let me know if it works..just remember don't be caulky like "i'm all that" girls hate that but don't be to shy either..be cute,sexy shy..
628208
You can start a conversation about anything... the weather, school, anything.  The most important part is to just try to relax and not look like you are trying too hard to find someone.  Girls are attracted to guys who look like they are having fun.  Compliments might work too.  Tell a girl you like her hair, or the way she smiles.  Good luck.
452916
FIND A WAY TO START A CONVERSATION WITH HER, AND WATCH HER BODY LANGUAGE. HER BODY LANGUAGE WILL LET YOU KNOW IF SHE IS INTERESTED IN YOU OR NOT.
1139176
shoot as long as ur not obnoxious i dont think any girl cares and as far as approaching a girl walk up to her dont be a jerk and do NOT  use any cheap pick up lines
389570
wen u see a girl u like...make eye contact..smile...and before u walk over to talk to her...breath...wen u go up to her don't worry about remembering a good line...just say 'hi'..if she smiles..u'll feel more confident and the words will come naturally..if there's no reaction from her theres no harm done..u just move on to the next :-).. remember to breath :-)
530051
The best way to flirt is to not be shy, but also don't be pushy.  Be nice.  Start with something simple - "Does it look like rain?"  "That guy over there is acting pretty weird, huh?" "What kind of _____ (drink, fruit, coffee, pencil - just about anything that fits the situation) do you recommend?"  If you're natural, a little curious, and not pushy (and she's not in a bad mood), she'll be friendly back.  Don't think about trying to flirt, just think about making good conversation.  If it does look like rain, you might ask about getting out of it.  If she thinks he's weird, confess to being just a little weird yourself sometimes, just for fun.  If she recommends a latte, try it and tell her it's great.  And just let the conversation flow naturally.\n\nOnce you're okay just talking, find a way to ask her about herself.  Just about everyone (and - sorry gals - women most of all) likes to talk about themselves.  And it's a subtle form of flattery to be interested in her.  True interest in a person - her school, her likes, her friends, her job - is the trickiest way to flirt, because you're saying both "You're interesting" and "I like knowing about you."  And everyone likes to be liked.  Pretty soon you're a good friend, and if you are good at being a friend, there's much better odds you'll soon be a boyfriend.\n\nIf you're getting signs that you've overstepped your welcome, bow out gracefully "Hey, its been nice talking to you" and move on.  If you try too hard with someone who just isn't going to work out, you'll not only offend her but also chance getting a bad reputation that will get around, ruining later chances.\n\nDO NOT use a pickup line.  They're lame, and 97% of all girls (women) know they're lame, they're just a come-on, and that you're desperate.  Only desperate women will respond to them, and most desperate women are not the kind you want for a girlfriend!\n\nGood luck - try this out, then come back here and give some other guy some good advice if it works!
475504
Well if she already knows just go up to her, in a real confident way and say hey how are you ?  just start a conversation about something iteresting and just say after a while lets go out, lets go see a movie or something yeah ??  She will say yes hopefully, if she doesnt then sorry shes not into you.  So either she does or she doesn't.  And that is not attractive either, not having good self esteem, why would you even say that you dont think you are good enough for her ??  Be confident, not self loathing but confident that is very attractive in a man.  So dont even think that you are not good enough for someone.\nGood Luck =)
116205
Try one way, and another, and another; until you learn how to get to know a girl without making an idiot out of yourself. But certainly, you should first lose the fear of making a fool out of yourself, and that's 50% of the battle won. The rest is practice.
101148
It's better to approach the girl rather than try to get her to approach you.  \n\nBut if you really must have it that way.... get famous, or get a wingman to talk the girl and bring her to you.
731628
well deffinetly be yourself around her!  You want her to notice you so even if your shy just say "hi (and her name)" when you see her or just say "wats up?" the point is, get her to notice you and takes things slowly. try to get to know her, talk to her friends, be yourself and things hopefully will work out! ;)
67867
but when she approaches like that most of the us guys will be too stupid/shocked/confused to give the proper answer.\nso i suggest you start a conversation and see how it goes.don't forget about the body language \nhehehhee
690103
Start off as friends, introduce yourself and work your way up going slowly. Do not try to be really quick or else she might get freaked out. After getting to know each other start calling each toher and chat.