i like a boy but he has a girlfriend and people says he is nasty but i know he likes me too what should i do?
94861
let it be if he is with someone
1067540
Don't accept him!  He is tired of the girl of nowadays and wants you as a trophy.  Poor girlfriend, you can see how he will finish treating you...Accept only boys that have respect for you and for the others.
765749
i know how you feel but i`ve learned that hating him is not the answer. put yourself in his shoes. what if you really liked a guy & he "hated" you. you wouldn`t feel so good now would you ? i understand he might get annoying but he really likes you. you must be really pretty both inside & out. don`t hate people, especially boys, for liking you. just try ignoring him & he`ll EVENTUALLY get over you. like someone else (:
702524
If You Really Like the Boy and He treats you like a Queen..Otherwise you are better off being a Self Supporting Strong Independent Lady Who can Take care of Things for Herself!(You Actualy Need to Be That Boyfriend Or Not!)
869841
well you gotta think about the reasons you don't want to like him any more if hes done you wrong once hell do you wrong every time.if he didn't do you wrong to your knowledge still he did because boys know when you like them if he didn't like you back he should have confronted you instead of leading you on in ways.soon you'll start to think of his flaws and move on.good luck
748197
if u ever want to go out with him people will know that u like him. If u really think he likes u and that u two have shot then tell him. But if your not ready to tell people how u feel then do nothing. its your choice. good luck
640147
I LIKE THIS BOY AND HE LIKES ME BUT WE ARE SCARD WHAT PEOPLE WOULD THINK SO WE ARE DYING TO GO OUT
65449
My advice to you is do what you want to do but before you do make sure he likes you or your so called friends would make fun of you just because you like a guy I hope this makes senses if not then here I 'll clear it up. Go a head and tell them you like him and if they make fun of you oh well you can always make more friends and there could be girls out there that like him to. Tell me how it goes
210949
well miss kitty i'm also 14 and i like this boy thats in my school and what i think you should do is try and talk to him and become his friend if you aren't yet his friend . make sure you find out first if he doesn't have a girlfriend cause if you flirt with him and he has a grilfriend it can get ugly . but always remember if you really like this guy you wont be embarresd . GOOD LUKE !!!!!
717202
Go out w/ him! Who cares who his ex is as long as she isn't a good friend of yours then it really doesn't matter. If he makes you happy then go for him. If you just want to get revenge on the girl (his ex) just b/c you don't like her then just go out on one date w/ him, and at least see what he is like. Who knows you may end up really liking him in the end. Just remember who cares what she thinks, if you don't like her and they are broken up then he is fair game, and you shouldn't feel bad in the slightest.
77142
Yes it is a bad idea especially if he likes you. He needs to make a decision to break-up with his current girlfriend and get with you, or to work it out with his girl and leave you alone. And think about how you would feel if you were his girlfriend and he was doing this too you, not with you. \nAnd not to sound rude but if he likes you soooo much, why is he with her instead of you? Just know that if he liked you so much he would be with YOU and you would not have to ask this question.
13918
Don't mess with things if he has a girlfriend. If he's starting to get feelings for you, then he'll break up with her and start persuing a relationship with you. If you find it hard not to flirt with him, then focus on your other friends and give yourself some space from him. If you like him, you shouldn't want to interfere with his happiness. Don't try to talk about it with him, just see how things unfold.
999828
tell him no cuz he already has a girl and when you become his girl what happens when he finds someone else he likes? he will do the same thing to you.\nhe will respect you more if you turn him down.
519565
Find you some body and enjoy  life. If he really likes you he will get jealous , if he don't get crabby about it you know he likes your friend. If he does like you she knows it and is trying to keep him away from you by her being at his side all the time so you can't be. But, be careful you could get played if you aren't careful and end up with out either of them.
372995
Oooo, you are in a tough spot.  I think you should not pursue anything and wait for him.  He might just be really comfortable with his sexuality.  Wait and see if they break up. He might like you too but not be sure about what to do next.\n\nI wouldn't want to make a move on one of my girl friends and insult them or scare them away, you know?\nGood luck, just be smart.
700301
He has a girlfriend and so you need to put that into perspective. You might like him holding you but how does that look knowing he has someone else? Let him get rid of his girlfriend. Then if he does see if he's still interested in you. If he is then it will be up to the two of you as to what you will call yourselves. As far as the other girls go if theyre calling you a s**t or a sk**k, or some other evil word, then jealousy is about 85% of the problem. The other 15% is that they feel that you are giving yourself up easy because hes is with you all the time. To the these girls you hit them intellectually with facts. If you havent slept with him then let them know that. You cant be a wh**re if you havent done anything with him. The next step is to ignore them. Hard as that may be it works. Its great that you can take these girls on, but dont look to fight them if you dont have to. Especially over some guy. It just aint worth your time. You have a life of your own to deal with. Second and above all else the most important factor. Research this guy some more. What is he doing with you if he has a woman. Maybe he cant get the love, care and attention from her so he seeks it through you. Also you said he asked you out so you know that he likes you. Perhaps then his girlfriend is a front for his true feelings for you. You wont know however until you tell him to clean up his act. If he really likes you he will do what is right, even at the expense of hurting the other girl. Hopefully this can be a stepping stone for you to take action that will give you results. Good luck!
358341
he is only talking bad about you because he is fighting for time with his girlfriend, and you are always around.  Maybe you should give them some space.  Tell you girlfriend that you don't feel comfortable around him because he's hateful and put the ball in her court.  If she's a true friend, then she will explain to him that his behavior is unacceptable.  If she chooses her boyfriend over you, and can't seem to find a compromises between you two, then you should find someone else to hang around with.