why do people are obsessed in sex?
92379
it's because some people think that sex is good in our body? and to release the heat and pleasures of our minds...
162947
Some people seem to enjoy getting fatter and fatter. It almost seems like an obsession. There's a good example at this site listed below.
1033859
everyone has secret desires, but some are so sheltered about them...mostly from they way they were raised, or things they have experienced in life...soem just feel like sex is only for the bedroom.
939872
Yes, i think it can. If a person does it often, it becomes an obsession or a fetish....
216802
Not all people do.  Ideally, most people have sex to express a deep emotional bond shared with another person.  However, some people have sex in order to try and fulfill something inside of themselves that is missing.  Others do it to feel "special" or "loved" in the moment.  And, still others have sex completely void of emotion and symbolicism and see it as a purely biological function.\n\nI'm not sure anyone has sex to be cool.  It's really a personal decision which has very little to do with how others perceive us.  I think a large majority of the people that use some sort of illusion of sexual prowess in order to brag to others in hopes of looking cool are likely people who have never had sex.  These are the people who brag about that girl that "you wouldn't know because she lives in another state" or "This guy I met on vacation, at this resort.  I never got his name."  Those stories are all B.S. \n\nWhy would they make up stories like that?  Well, for guys, being a virgin somehow has this stigma attached to it.  Guys don't want other guys to know that they're not getting any.  It's some sort of machismo thing that I've never understood.  And, for girls, they're trying to either impress guys that think they're too prudish, or they're trying to appear more worldly and knowledgeable than their female friends.  It's all really pretty silly when you stop and think about it.  But, every generation does it.\n\nJust my observations.
130529
People frustrated about sex.... They all have different reasons. \n-Some are frustrated because they are still virgins. \n-Some aren't happy with their sex lives because of lack of imagination and lack of communication with their partners. \n-Some get bored of the monotonous sex lives and thus frustrated, it's again because of lack of imagination to try new things. \n-Some just don't understand the concept of sexual tension and anticipation. So they just rush up things, leaving themselves and the partner frustrated. \n-Most women don't reveal what they want and in the end suffer. Some people (usually youth) are frustrated because of restrictions about sex in their society. So they are frustrated.\n-Sex cuts down and takes a backseat after couple have kids, which again subconsciously leads to frustrations.\n-Some are poor virgins even older than 25. They are bound to be frustrated. Got to feel sorry for them. \n\nSo in the end different people have different reasons.
1011557
This obsession that you speak of is caused by people seeking happiness in all of the wrong places.\n\nNorth American culture seems to promote the idea that looks make you happier; studies show they do not.\n\nThe same thing occurs in studies about money making people happier.  Once again, studies show that it does not.\n\nSo you have a large scale "belief" perpetuated because all of the imagery we are shown leads us to believe that rich and attractive people are happier; once again studies show they are no more happier than a poor and average looking John Doe.\n\nSo why do we seek to be more attractive, more rich and have more things?  Because we're unwilling to dispell what we've come to believe with what is fact.  Happiness is a much simpler and personal formula.  It could be more time with the family, helping others or sitting around the house playing online poker.  Each person must learn to define it.
1179304
Well people these days are curious about what it would feel like and they think that if they do it then the could feel the sensation that women feel. So basiclly they just really want to have sex.
639368
The major difference between someone who just loves sex and a sex addict is that the sex for a normal person is a selective expression of caring and desire for someone with whom one has a meaningful, social relationship.(It is relationship centered.)  For the sex addict, sex is an act that is constantly sought after with anyone, everyone and without regard for the feelings or social outcome of the act for self and/or others involved.  (It is self-centered for momentary gratification only).
762037
It gives people a carnal thrill or a high - almost like a drug-enduced high. They are the center of attention, it feels good, it's exciting, it's sexy, and it takes up time where they may otherwise be bored. But in the end, it's stupid and silly and embarrassing and addictive and sometimes dangerous.They may even end up all over the Internet, naked for all to see - without their knowledge or approval. Internet sex lowers a decent human to the stage of self-entertaining porno star. How can that be satisfying?
88899
I am answering you now.\nWhy do all people combine love and sex and sex and love today.\nLove is something independent of such physical needs or desires.\nIt is your mentality which makes you think like this, otherwise they both have no relation and that is all.
860235
I'm not sure. It might have something to do with that whole teenage pregnancy issue. Or maybe it's that AIDS and STD thing killing people all the time that they're always going on about. Or it COULD even be that God-guy. Yeah, I for one just don't understand it!\n\nAnyways, why is it that so many of these people posting on here think that in order to have a good or 'perfect' relationship, it has to be about the sex? Pretty messed up priorities.
505363
1) Its a distraction from everything else in their lives. It allows them to forget everything and just feel good for that moment.\n\n2) To feel close to someone else. Technology has made it hard for people to truely connect, and sex allows you to do that.\n\n3)To solidate a relationship. Even though it usually ends up complicating things, it shows you care about that person, making love is a sensual experience you can share with someone you love.\n\n4)Its human instinct. So when your parents catch you, blame your ancestors ;)
74779
Cos they really fantasize about sex more than we men do. I mean real sex where, they, the women actually have orgasm.
992792
Well some people are just like that.  We all have a habit or a tick or do something that drives another crazy. Even if one was as close to perfect as they come that would drive someone crazy!
227595
Can't keep up with you?\nMaybe u r being too obsessed with having sex ALL THE TIME??\nThere are many things BESIDES sex you can do to enjoy your life and fullfill your time if u have nothing else to do but sex...
954764
i think they actually have a higher sex drive. but they also have a lower attention span, which might make it hard to remember that they want to have sex. lol