what should i do so that our relation with my girlfriend will last forever?
92940
show her that you love her. adore her. always put her interests ahead of yours. never hurt her. always respect her. always treat her like the goddess that she is. obey her every whim. cherish every moment with her. listen with interest to everything she says. never forget anything that is important to her (birthdays, anniversaries, valentine's day, etc.). never miss the opportunity to buy her gifts.
956009
What I think you need is to relax. You can't over push a relationship. If it is destined to fail it will no matter what you do. Stop trying to make everything so perfect and realize that it already is! Just remember this one thing. If you two stay together forever.... thats along time to try and stress over making things perfect! imagine how stressed you'd be then! Just hang loose and let him see the real you the relaxed you! He'll love it even more and then you can enjoy your time together instead of worrying all the time.
426917
You need to look at it in 2 streams of Thinking. The first stream is the words and actions that you both use to be in the relationship to develop it. You both have to interact with each other to form a communication that helps to develop a relationship. This is the core value of any relationship. The key that puts your relationship together is in essence the words you will use talk to your girlfriend, and intern how she will talk to you. The sounds that come out of both of your mouths are determining how your relationship is developing. This is a crucial understanding to getting to the bottom of answering your question. The words you use to talk to her should be questioned by you. Are you being responsible in how you talk to her and are you being responsible in questioning how her words enter your mind? Do you just react to things she says? Or do you Think first and make sure that what she is saying to you is based on what she is thinking at the moment. There is a movie playing in her mind at that time when her mouth is opening to talk to you, just like it is in your mind. Never take for granted that how you both behave or as to how you both use your body language is true. She could one day say to you that “I don’t want to talk”, you could intern react to this and say “Why, how will we ever fix this. I love you and I want to make this work”. Should you even say that? The point here is that what ever she is feeling at that moment in her life is based on feelings that are going on in her mind, her environment. What she rather here you says is that “OK, I understand, I will call you back later when it’s a good Time, I love you”. The difference between this way of reacting is that you are both making sure that you “understand” each other and treat each other as intelligent persons. Understanding of each other can only happen if you actually do it. Every word that is used by both of you is very powerful. “I hate you” can have a lasting impact on anyone. People are very fragile creatures and this fragility is all based on how we think the sounds of words are impacting us. How we create thoughts in our heads about how we presume a person is thinking about us. When we don’t understand the power of Thoughts is when we live like everyone else reacting to our egos, winning battles of words. We have a hard time figuring out how to communicate with each other’s way of thinking because we don’t take the time to understand what each persons needs are. We didn’t know that to speak you only have to move your mouth and not wait for the right set of emotional states to develop. This is very true when we can’t talk to our parents about personal issues. We don’t know how to approach them. And this is the very reason we have trouble working out relationships. We learned to act from other people’s way of thinking because we didn’t know any better.\n\nThe second stream is very basic in that when you have children and your child comes running through the door after school and tells you “Daddy, I learned what One plus One is, its Two!” How will you react? Will you say “That’s fantastic son! I am so proud of you” or should you be saying “That’s fantastic son! I am so proud of you! I want you to tell me why does one plus one equal Two. I want to know how you Think my son.”. If you understand how to work with relationships now with your girlfriend, it will benefit you as a father, both of you.
522177
The best thing you can do is spend lots of time and attention on her. You don't need anything expensive but something well thought out. Make her know that you are thinking about her. Spend time cuddling, give her a massage. Buy her favorite dessert and feed it to her. Have romantic music on. Dance a little. Spend time alone at home, not out in public. Watch her favorite movie. Read to her romantic poetry about how you feel about her. Spend time kissing her gently and passionately. Have some candles out. Buy her her favorite flowers...you can come up with the rest
223381
i can tell you one thing. forever is never forever. we can say forever all we want and most of the time it wont happen. all i can say now is to enjoy the time you have. if it lasts and i pray it does, then your boyfriend will be the best thing for you and if not...well im sure your friendship will stay alive!!!
544220
Spend a quality time with her, try to have a conversation that interest you both.... \n\nand A Simple Kiss and Hug would make any girlfriends day...\n\nDONT FORGET TO SAY "ILOVEYOU" and let her feel you mean it...\n\nThis are better than chocolates, flowers and stuff....=)
416886
Love can last for ever you just need to wait for the right one....let her come to you......\n            from allie_tugman@yahoo.com
791518
lots of love and attention. Hold her hand in public tell her how special she is dont forget to kiss her goodbye and dont forget to tell her you love her everytime your apart.Wine and dine her in the new dress you just bought her. i think you get my jist babe good luck xx
599508
Only a strong relationship will keep the two of you together. But, it's important to realize that any tremors (positive or negative) in this relationship could jeopardize any academic progress. I sense, by your fear, that you haven't shared many of these feelings with your girlfriend/best friend. Remember, above all else, that her happiness is very important (with or without you). You need to sort out your feelings and decide what it is that you want to share with her. Be sure that you don't lose both your education and your girl in the process. Keep the relationship strong with alot of communication(letters, e-mails,presents,airline tickets,cards,etc.) Let her know that you have confidence in the relationship and in yourself.If she's already your best friend, you've already got alot going for you. Good Luck!
787073
tell her you love her so much, you're going to wait until you're married before getting intimate..  that'll prove you love her..
395632
How bout trying candle light?  She will think you are being romantic and you will get some reprieve.  And how about offering to work out w/ her?  Take some long walks or join the gym, maybe it will strengthen your relationship in more ways than you know!  You'll get a shapely wife, and maybe your relationship will get stronger for the time to spent together!
627571
OF COURSE!  BUT IF BOTH OF U KNOW HOW TO COMPROMISE AND KEEPING THE CHANNEL OF YOUR COMMUNICATION LINES ALWAYS OPEN...YOUR RELATIONSHIP WILL LAST.  SO MAKE THE MOST OF IT WHENEVER YOU HAVE A CHANCE TO INTERACT WITH EACH OTHER NO MATTER HOW IMPERSONAL IT MAY SEEM.  DONT WASTE YOUR TIME ARGUING OVER SILLY AND TRIVIAL ISSUES.
967934
Your talking about being with this person for the rest of your life.You both need to get everything out in the open.Talk about what you want to do in the future,and what both your interests are.Ask them what do they like and want and work towards those things together.Some things they want and like,you may not want or like,but if you too really love each other you will adjust and work it out.Compromising is a key ingredient in marriage.
915898
Make a DVD with pics of you two together....burn some great music in the background, y'know, songs that have a special meaning to the both of you.\nIf you don't have enough pics of the two of you together, you could use pics from her childhood AND your childhood. Work from thos up to the present on the DVD.\nI think this would be tremendously sweet and should score you big points in the romance department!
432996
The best way you can do is be yourself.If you know her hobby/interest you can try with that,give her a poem, flower,cokelat,or food favorite.Bring her in Romantic Restaurant so you can tell her if you Love her so much.If you can play a guitar you can sing it in front of your girlfriend and tell her that you love her so much
129408
What's wrong with that? If you are both mature and responsible individuals, then there's no problem for as long as you love each other.\n\nWhen you both work on it, you can have a lasting relationship.\n\nBest of luck
293479
Stay friends, until she breaks up. Then wait until you break up. If you must, break up with your girlfriend to have her. Then you to can go out. If that doesn't work, just stay friends until both of you are available at the same time.