what do u do when pple u care abt dnt need u in their lives anymore? when u seem 2 do them more harm than good
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Sweetheart you are NOT a failure. The reason you think that way is because these people are making you feel that way. You brought a life into this world and made a contribution. No matter what you think, your child loves you. What you need to do first of all is to learn to love yourself. I know that you have some good qualities. Forget about the past and the mean words and move forward. Do something with that life that the good Lord gave you. Go back to school, make something of yourself by learning and getting a career. If you always think like you are now, you will never get anywhere. You have to change your thinking and make up your mind that you are going to do something to help yourself and your child. You CAN do this Honey. Let their hateful words just roll off your back and set out to prove them wrong. When you start to move in the right direction, you will began to feel better. Focus on your goals and work hard and you can make them eat those horrible words. Talk to God and ask for guidance and help. God loves you and  he will help you if you only ask him to. You CAN do this! Just make up your mind to do it. If you can dream it, you can be it! You have to love yourself even if you feel no one else does, that is the first step. Tell yourself something good about yourself every day and when you stumble and fall, get up, dust yourself off and move ahead. God speed, Sweety.=)
689512
sit them down and be honest make sure you are alone and use a sincere tone just look them in the eyes and tell them you cant help hurting them because everything has its own consequences. The more you think or plan something the worse consequence would happen. look out for yourself but just be soft and considerate to that persons reactions and then make any further moves.
789619
This is just life. It if weren't for the bad times, we wouldn't enjoy the good ones as much.\nIt seems like you are too good and willing to give what you have to help somebody, I used to be this way also, but the truth is if you don't take care of yourself, nobody else will, and if you don't take care of yourself you can't take care of anybody else.\nWe can't just be as free with what we have as when we were\nteenagers, then we had time to gain it back, now we need to hold on to what we have. I would recommend that you break the cycle of helping too much, I have the feeling you help others, not just the men in your life. If you are a person who feels the need to help others, then there are plenty of volunteer opportunities out there and it won't cost you money. But I know that sometimes we feel that love is worth any cost, but you end up losing by giving  all and then having nothing left for your own needs.\nUnless you are extremely wealthy, I suggest you start trying\nto take care of your needs, and when that is done, be putting something aside for your own future when you need it.
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Their are some people that need to hit their bottom, before they\ncan see the true light. You did the right thing trying to help your friend.\nNow the rest is up to him.\n            Be at peace with yourself, just be there if he calls out\nto you.          Sincerely,  Jerry
1059929
Get's better in time. Just do yourself a favor if you want it over. Don't contact the guy you need to heal so does he.
265555
I believe we have the right to distance ourselves from people, and situations that cause negativities in our lives.  We are are at liberty to purge our lives with anything that is harmful to our well being - physically, emotionally and spiritually. It may be difficult because the more you feel you need your friends the more they will (or seem to) behave that way. Sometimes even the most cherished friendships have to end.  They have served their purpose and it's time to move on to better things. I've been in your situation several times before and I did just that.  Now I realize that I have very little in common with these friends. I was just trying to fit in.
1126628
nope.If someone hurt you that deeply,stay away from them.I'm sure you can think of someone to call.Or go for a walk or go visit old ppl in the nursing home.Theres plenty to do.
677282
Don't do anything.  Don't let this person think that what they do affects you.  Be the better person.
282702
If they don't want to be a part of your life, forget about them. Let them come to you, you have done your part. I have a sister with somewhat the same problem, only I don't view it as a problem. She's got her life, I got mine. Don't rid yourself with guilt about it, enjoy your life.
738291
Ask if there is anything you can do for them. Usually, there is. At least let them know you're there. \n\n.
501135
Just don't hang out with them anymore.  Don't call them or email them, don't talk to them.  They'll get the point.  If they care, they'll ask you what's wrong.  If they don't, good riddance.
661006
If it has become more than you can handle, then the choice is made.  Yeah, I know everyone wants you to do the noble thing and suffer a lifetime of misery, plus if you leave, you'll be the bad guy.  Hey, it's your life.  Just be true about your feelings and do what you've got to do.  Life is short for us all, so find your way to happiness either in this relationship or out, but don't just keep on keep'n on for no purpose.
996620
Everyone's life is full of worries.  What makes yours more important?  Just deal with what you can as you can and don't worry about the small stuff.  Take life one day at a time and thank God that you woke up this morning.  We all feel hopeless.  I have a good cry and sulk for a few days.  Then I pick myself up and move on.  I have a family to think of.  Just think of how your loved ones would feel if you were not here.  Don't be selfish.
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Think about all the people that love and care about you - do you think they would want to see you go?  Absolutly not!  I am writting this becasuse I care too, I don't know you, but I can't help but have concerns about your well being!  Think about all the other people in this world who have is worse than you, there are millions that have is worse.  You should talk to a counselor or a pastor or even someone that is close to you.  People do care about you, even those friends that you say you can't talk to, I promise.  You have said that you have dreams and aspirations - instead of just sitting on them - do them!  You have a life to live, so live it.  You don't get to decide on when you leave this life, God does, so put your life back in his hands and live the rest of your life that He gave you.  My prayers are with you.
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In time things will get better, but before then try and let go.  And if he comes back to you let him know that he has given up a real good thing.  Its going to hurt for now, but try and make this into a good experience and know that there is someone else out there for you.
375221
It's never easy to part from someone you care for.  However there comes a time when you have to do what's best for you.  Irregardless of how it might hurt the other person.  The longer you put it off the harder it will be.
997959
i guess i would just think of im trying to save these peoples lives. if it wasnt for EMT's i dont think i would be here right now. if it bothers you too much see a therapist, or talk to someone who your close to.