Bi in a straight relationship?
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If your girl is bi too, I'd hope there wouldn't be an issue. I'd tell her. Chances are, she'll accept, and you'll both be happier ::wink wink:: *lol* Good luck.
478511
It's cool that you're open minded, but you really have to find what you're compfortable with and not just do things for the hell of it. Being Bi or gay is not just something you just choose to do. It is a part of who you are. As far as what girls like, that is really something that varies from person to person. You would need to find out from your partner.
966400
No offense but I really just do not like the idea of relations with other people while you are in a monogamous relationship. Being bi isn't an excuse to cheat and I really don't understand how he can be okay with it. Are you sure he's okay with you being with other people or that he's just okay with you being bi, there is a big difference. Then again it's not my place to judge so good luck.
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Some guys are turned on by bi girls, as if a bi relationship doesn't count.  Some guys are inherently turned off by a bi.\n\nIn addition to the bi aspect, you have an ex in the picture, even though your relationship is now one of friendship.  That is going to take a very understanding person indeed.\n\nLet's face it, there are some needs a guy will never be able to meet for you.  It goes the same for a guy (poker buddies, etc.) But for you it is different because it is or at least has the possibility of being romantic.\n\n\nAt the end of the day, you are who you are.  You can't hide it nor would you want to.  If your relationship with a guy is ever going to grow, you need at some point to show your particular baggage and see if he runs for the hills or not.\n\nIf he is turned off because you are/were bi, so be it.  However, you need to resolve if you can be monogomous (sp?)while you have a relationship with him.  He will surely ask.
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I myself BI!!! and very proud of it. I think that as this world is more open to Homosexuality that people will not be afraid to explore the same sex. I think that being Bi Gay or Straight is a very beautiful thing. Love is Love and that's all that matters.
244310
Elaborate on the facts please.  Are you bi or really gay. Or do you mean boyfriend in platonic sense?  Or are you just putting some BS into the mix because you are bored?
998574
Im confused... you say "do you think your bi if you havent been with a woman in a long time?" Does that mean you are currently with a man?  Are you still sexually attracted to women?\n\nPlus your yahoo name has bimom in it... therefore I would assume you are bi... you even classify yourself as that, unless your two mom's?!?!?!.
774366
Yes, it is possible. I have several male friends who are straight. We even talk about other people we go out with together. It's not a big deal. We enjoy each others company but in a purely platonic way.
442122
This is completely normal ...both straight men and women enjoy this.. It is important to be open and honest about your likes & dislikes with your partner in order to have a great sex life.
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Looks like ya got a lot of stupid answers. Well,let me be serious.\n   My girlfriend was being honest with me when she told me of her attraction to other female bodies and she has had sex with other women.Let me say this.It is the honesty that turned me on even more than her admitting she is bisexual.So what;she is bi. Since that admission when we go out in public, she'll say,"hey what do you think" when she notices an attractive woman.It seems we both have the same taste.\n   Understand, we have been together for four years and it wasn't until our third year that she told me because she wanted our relationship to be honest and well, she didn't know how I would take it.\n When she wants to have sex with another woman,well, that's okay with me.  I don't, can't and should not have any say in that matter.That's her.\nI'll be honest with you too. It is a turn on for me.\nI'm sorry this was so long.
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Ok, lets break this down.\n\nYou're bisexual, or at least bicurious, because you like men.\n\nYour girlfriend is an obviously intelligent person and is trying to get you to just admitt to it, so she's probably figured it out herself.\n\nAnd you're what?  Worried?  Confused?  Why don't you try being honest?  Say yeah, you've thought about it and see where it leads you.  I don't know what all the drama is for, most bi men would kill for such a cool and supportive girlfriend.
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babe, now days is all right to be bisexual you are to try in relationship with both and find a man who accept you as you are with your likes the way they are. If it was me I would talk to you about beeing my partner but to let you have a freedom to see other woman but have to have open mind, I wouldnt like you to trade me for a woman, it are a be nice to be with you and anothr female into a relationship.
1094191
Well, not sure if you're bi or lesbian, but I do have lots of friend who are gay/les/bi and you have to go with how you feel inside. My ex is bi and I noticed often that she was more sensual with girls but was rougher in bed with me. It was good trust me.
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Whether you are gay, straight, or bi, if you choose to be with either a man or a woman, since you are bisexual, you have to be able to commit.  Will you be able to supress your feelings towards men and deny them, so that you will be able to be true to this woman? The same if you were with a man. If you are with a man, will you be able to be faithful to him, and deny your feelings for women (not to mention other men too).  Being in a relationship is all about commitment and monogomy, not about who you are attracted to.  You will always see other people who are attractive to you, but you must remain faithful if you are in a relationship.  As far as finding her, be honest and let her know about your sexuality.  If you keep it a secret, it will eventually come out, and can potentially destroy your relationship for lying in the first place. Hope this helps.
546192
I'm a fem bi and (for me) the best part of sex with another woman is finding out how to do it.  There is no right way or wrong way.  Just do what pleases your partner and you're doing it the right way.  If anyone like to discuss experiences, please email me at g_shrn@yahoo.com.
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that is a hard one to detect as far as gay or bi. You can be bi most likely. I think of it this way.......if you are attracted to another woman then as long as you don't act on it then it is fine. If you do act on it then your husband needs to know the truth. If you see yourself with him and only dreaming of another woman then tell him that too. Don't cheat on him whether it be emotion or otherwise because then your relationship is a lie. I don't think you are gay. BI-CURIOUS yes you are..........good luck to you!
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I know what you mean! I am straight and always have been also, but this girl in my life is sooo awsome, I can't stop thinking of her!! We are both married and both have a family, but we have been talking lately about being together, and it is great!! Like, I don't want my husband any less, but I want her! It is wierd b/c I have never been this way for a girl ever! I think we are both just curious!