Am I a horrible person, for trying to block out the guy I really like, because I know he does'nt like me?
94801
No it doesnt make you a horrible person. It's very human to behave in sucha way. But you need to let go. Move on, forget him. He is not the last man in your life. If you try to block out him believe me it will hurt you more than it hurts him. Gal u dont need the guy to make you feel sepcial and happy. \nGood luck
253085
I'm in almost exactly the same situation -- probably worse.  Above all else, DON'T WASTE HIS TIME! Tell him how you feel, and either break it off or let him know you may need to explore things a bit (meaning date others) before you continue.  Don't go behind his back, and don't evade the issue, because it only gets worse over time.  Good luck!
411667
Wait for another time.  It sould like it may end up being too stressful if you have to be misleading.  Think about how great it would be if everyone could be open.  If he doesn't know you like him then you're more likely to be disappointed that you didn't have quality time with him and it will be all your own fault.  If he's the right guy for you, you'll have a chance to be with him and enjoy the fact that not only you like him but that he likes you.  Wait for that to happen and you'll enjoy yourself more.  Even if it doesn't happen, you'll be glad you didn't push the situation.
863196
You sound like your trying not to hurt this person by rejecting him, my dear, there are many ways you can be nice about rejection,  be considerate, dont be rude about it, smile when your rejecting him, but for goodness sake, be honest. As for the friend, depending on how close friends they are, I think I would leave going out with him for awhile, but explain this also to him, let him know that you feel at this time it would inconsiderate to his friend.  Maybe they dont discuss things because I would have thought if they are real friends, they would have discussed that either one was asking you out. That way if they are setting you up, in other words, sometimes men, boys, make stupid bets with each other to see who can conquer you first, it will also let them both know, you are not an easy target, but anyway, be friendly and pleasant to both of them, but be on your guard also.  Good Luck
507020
this is the same probs with me also.\ni dont love the guy who loves me soo much!!\ngirls are like that,.. tooo choosy and stuff. they always want something thats out of reach.\nso my advice is.... be with the guy who like u , than the one whom u love,\nhard to follow, but easy to advice
211788
you cant make someone love you. if he really likes someone else, maybe you should give up the heart ache. think of what you putting yourself though, i hope the guy isn't stringing you along. i had that happen, my friend and i both liked the same guy he knew it used it against us, we stopped being friends and he'd hang out with us separately rat bastard. i had nice guys that liked me, but i only wanted that stupid jerk.(those were my teenage years) don't let that happen to you!!!
849682
Honey let it go because there is nothing worse to me than a guy in and out of friends that's a well known sign that he is probably no good okay! And i personally would not want any man that i actually knew had been with one of my true friends.
399285
dont listen to the person above me maybe he really neede a friend at that monment and you cut him off or maybe he really wanted to tell you something i think you just hurt his feelings just apologize and ask him whats up with the way hes treating you
538249
ok, you're going to hate me for answering this question honestly but oh well. Two years ago, this guy who i'd known for about two months and i knew liked me. The problem (i think....it still confuses me today) is that i wasn't as into him as he was for me. He wrote this really long nice letter (but he spelled my last name wrong and a lot of other stuff). When i got it, i was somewhere with my friend. I read it, i let her read it, i copied the address on the envelope to reply, and i ripped up the letter. I have no idea why, but i wrote back with a letter saying sorry, stop calling me. All i know is that i felt tied down, and i guess i don't want anyone to ever love me. i knew that he hurt after that but in the end (because i'm really a nice person) i can't stop thinking about him and what i did (2 yrs later) while i'm sure he's forgotten about me. I have no idea really why i did that. So after that i never got in a relationship far enough to be a girlfriend. So, my answer is...i have no f.ucking idea why she did that, or what you should do. maybe you should move on from this girl, she'll realize what she did later (if she'd a good person.) Sorry i couldn't really give you an answer->i don't think there is really one. Much Love!
795206
No, because it is like you are taking advantage of that person who kind of likes you. Good Luck.
1007538
He's probably too scared that you'll reject him. Let him know how you feel and see what happens!
229414
I have bad news for you: YOU are playing *him*.  He's been nothing but honest with you, and you're not being honest even with yourself.  You know how he feels, yet still keep in contact with him... because you like the attention.  He makes you feel good about yourself.  But you're only stringing him along.
959462
well, forget him. it's annoying you, i know. but we don't know what's the problem with him. we never met him anything. you better avoid him and let's see what happens. if you didn't do anything for him to hate you,  then let go. cheer up. don't think about him too much.
764896
Your so mean !!!\nOf course you still like him, and he sure as heck likes you.\nHe might be upset he never did anything and now your going around talking to other guys and potentially going to forget completely about him.
887857
it sounds to me that you really like this guy because he's forbidden and it sounds like you onyl go for guys who are harder to get like the thrill of the chase is better then actually catching them but i think you should leave dude alone because when you get him no matter how long it takes your going to want to drop him and move on to the next hunt and not to insult but you seem like a spoiled person who when you get what you want become borde with it pretty quickly
1018886
Examine the pros and cons of not talking to this guy you like. As far as not talking to him, the pro is, he can't reject you if he doesn't know you like him. The con is that if he does like you, he won't know that you like him back. Wouldn't you rather take the chance and stop agonizing? If you talk to him, then at least you'll have a better idea about how he feels. If you're nervous, you can practice what you'd say with a friend, or write it down first.
154922
I'm not emailing you...sorry, I don't need any more friends but it sounds like your not even interested in this dude. Why would you even consider dating him if you don't even like him? Remind yourself why it didn't work out with you guys to begin with and just tell him your not interested anymore. Or if you think there might stillbe something there spend some time with him as a friend. No sex or kissing...really just friends for awhile.