girlfirend suddenly stopped enjoying penetrative sex,but admits that fore play is satisfying is she serious?
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She needs a little bit more or a lot more depending on what she is used to, if ya know what I mean.\nShe just didn't know how to tell ya!
1138156
Sounds like you should get this girl a vibrator, you can help her enjoy and just maybe that will inspire new life in you... Fun sex toys that she can use herself will keep her from straying and keep the sex interesting.
118843
Give her loads of compliments and take it slowly. Take your time over foreplay and give her lots of attention. Talk about things you enjoy and get her to show you how she pleasures herself. She is the best person to tell you what she enjoys so make talking about it fun and lighthearted and be open minded to her answers.
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look I'm a female so I really don't agree with what your trying to do. If you are no longer sexually attracted to your gf then break it off. she has feelings and for you to cheat on her after 1 1/2 yrs you will be pathetic. she trust you and she knows that something has changed that's why she is trying to get the affection from you or put it back into your relationship. sex isn't everything if you don't have someone you love to share it with. I think you really need to think about what your saying and trying to do. If you think your relationship is done then break it off and leave it at that. But if you just want to have sex u and ur gf should do role playing. It will increase the excitement in your relationship and hopefully stray u away from other interest
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Has anybody here ever heard of female ejaculation? You guys (and girls) need to do some research.\n\nIt is possible that this is what you are experiencing. It is basically an orgasm that releases a fluid from the same hole that urine comes out of. It is not urine and actually has a sweet taste (not that i'm suggesting you taste it) Some women that know about this spend years trying to acheive it and women that can already do it can ejaculate quite far.\n\nIt may be worth speaking with her about it...if she feels pleasure whilst this fluid is being released you may have just found your answer, if not I would suggest the same as many other people...make sure she uses the toilet first and try positions that are less likely to put pressure on the bladder.\n\nI hope you find this answer helpful, and sorry if oyu find it a little too graphic.\n\nTry looking it up on the net.
327254
Shes getting bored with it! Women, after a while going out w/ the same guy, get tired, just like men!! Plus, we dont like sex alllllll the time like men do!!
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I think some people get to a point in a relationship that they aren't worried about sex, they're close enough without having so much of that type of bonding. That's one possibility.\nAnother could be, sorry if I hurt your feelings, that she isn't attracted to you anymore, or she could be tired of the "same ol' thing". Do you guys spice it up in bed, or is it the same old missionary position. \nMy boyfriend and I had this problem, we brought toys in the bedroom, and its never been as good as it is now.\nJust ask her, I can keep giving o you ideas about what could be wrong, but I don't know what going on in her head, and I'm only getting one side of the story. Just talk to her, if you know or have a feeling that it might be she tired of the same thing, ask her about trying some new things
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She may consider it a threat to her ability to please you.  Assure her that it is just another way you like to feel good.  Maybe ask her to watch or to participate.  Ask her to do it herself for you if she feels comfortable.
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Try some new things. She is probably just bored. It is easy to get into a rut of doing the same things when you have been with someone for a long time. Having lived through this situation, it is vital that you talk openly about this, and maybe seek some professional advice before it is too late. Especially if your sex life is a proxy for some other issue. If some other part of your relationship is not doing well it can show-up here. Also keep in mind that other things like stress, medical conditions, and oral birth-control pills can have a deliterious affect on one's desire.
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Here's the thing.. I think you can only tell if she really enjoys it with time. A lot of women will pretend to enjoy it when you're first together because she's trying to impress & make you feel good right? I would give it at least 6 months of regular sex & see then if she's still doing the deed with the same gusto as originally. If she does enjoy it, she won't slacken off. Him liking it has a lot to do with her enjoying it. Giving pleasure is a major turn on to some people & some enjoy the act itself.. so don't worry too much about the reasons why she enjoys it. If she does, who cares why!\n\nbtw..Jessica W & those ladies who like to say 'eeww' a lot.. how WRONG you are. I can only hope you're a little girl otherwise you are going to miss out on some of lifes wonderful treasures.
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Only in the bedroom? Then have it in other rooms :))\n\nIf she does not have interest in sex at all, there is no way to compel her. May be find out the root cause.. It may be due to some psychological factor... Take her to a sex therapist - which might help but she should be at least open for that. no forceful tactics here. Goof luck.
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Ohhhhhhh, well it is hard when others are around and u can't make much noise.  That could be a key factor.  Maybe try some new positions, change it up.  Lots of foreplay is also what most girls are looking for.
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Probably some teasing, but I'd also say that she's so comfortable wit you from the way things were before that she's not quite used to the change, even is she knows that its over. \n\nDon't indulge in her games though. If it gets too much, just talk to her about it. She won't have any excuse then, whatever her motives.\n\nx
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You don't seem very keen on her any more.  I'd suggest you go to relate or some sort of relationship counselling.\n\nYou could try making a new start: tell her you's like to reignite the spark of your relationship, that you think you've been taking her for granted.  Ask her if she wants to work with you to make things better.\n\nStart eating meals together and going out together.  Restart physical contact without expecting it to lead to sex - cuddles, kisses, maybe rub her shoulders.\n\nNotice if she looks good and tell her.  Take it in turns to cook and compliment her if she makes something you enjoy.\n\nDon't expect an overnight change.
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to be honest it sounds like she's losing interest, try talking to her about it, and do something sweet for her
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Sounds like she is a bit insensitive to me! Vaginas are basically "one size fits all" so if you have 4 or more inches (erect) you should be fine. A lot of women don't have orgasms with intercourse alone though. If she hasn't had any other lovers, maybe she just doesn't know what to expect. Are you having lots of foreplay, enjoying mutual masturbation and oral sex? There is much more to sex that just f---ing! You need to talk, need to experiment...and maybe need to get a new girlfriend!
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Sex and passion tend to go hand in hand but they are NOT the same thing. If you show passion my guess is she will respond in kind. You have to feel it yourself to be able to share it with another. Have fun and let go