Strip Clubs: How many times a month is too much?
78876
I think a better question is:  How much money spent at a strip club is too much?\n\nBut to answer your question, I think going to a strip club more than 4-5 times a year is excessive.  Any more frequently and I suspect you're looking for something you're not getting in the "real" world.\n\nI don't think there's anything wrong or perverted with going to strip clubs, but if you're going too much, it's a symptom of some other unrealized want or desire in your life.
413096
strip joints are full of single eligible gentlemen.  that is why they are referred to as "gentlemen's clubs."
1066687
YEAH I'd go to the stripclub with my man. I don't see the big deal. He knows i can dance and naked is not a big deal but if he likes those chicks more than me i'm outta there!
273600
No, I don't have a favorite Friday Night Club.  I probably go clubbin 1-2 times a year.  Sux huh?
439306
It all depends. I sometimes see 35 yr old lady at the club, although she doesn't look nothing like 35.(I asked) I suppose you should stop when you feel that you do not want to go clubbing/bar hopping anymore.
744889
Dr. Phil said on his TV show that there's reliable statistics that from age 25 to 55 the frequency of intercourse is amazing uniform at 3 times per month.  (The audience gasped at this, presumably because they thought it too low.)  If he's right, that's 36 times per year.\n\nBy the way, some of your other respondents are probably wrong.  RobinATL says she's 24 and has had sex 2500 times.  If she started age 14, God forbid, that means she's had sex 250 times a year, or about 5 times a week, for ten years.  Not impossible, but very unlikely.\n\nEven worse, Boz4425 says she's done it 4000 times by age 26.  If she also started at 14, she's done it 333 times a year, almost every day, for 12 years.  Ridiculous.\n\nDr. Phil commented that it's very hard to get accurate information about this subject because this is one question that people lie about more than almost any other.  You've got at least two examples here.
869570
That is too much.  I would stick to one beer a night at the most or 2 beer a night every other night.  I know a lot of guys have two or more everyday they get home from work, but then by the time they are thirty or forty they do have a drinking problem and have to give up all alcohol altogether.  And they lose there jobs, smash their cars, break up with their wives, etc.
305535
as often as you feel the need. really. don't hold your urine longer than you have to.
1049812
I learned in my human sexuality class it's seven times a month on average for people in a serious relationship. So just over once a week.
74374
These people are right if you really like dance tip a little than a dollar.  The bigger the tip more she will direct the dance towards you and the better the show will be for.  Strippers aren't like other services you tip they don't treat you good till they get the good tips.
309438
No\nmore like the frequency of how many times that happens makes you a slut
192622
I have seen obvious butch lesbians in gentlemen's clubs. I've seen many more average to very good looking young women, usually in small groups of two to five, in the clubs. I've even seen small groups of young women enough times to recognize them as apparent regulars. (I would tend to assume they are bi-sexual, but who am I to say?) I have seen a good number of couples. There is absolutely nothing wrong with a woman admiring other women and wanting to watch them strip. I feel safe in assuming that there has been more than one case of a female customer going home and trying out what she has seen on her husband or boyfriend, or both. I see young women buying lap dances nearly every weekend.\n\nIf you go to a club for whatever reason, just remember, the dancers are women not all that different from yourself. Ask questions, learn the rules, and above all else, treat the dancers with respect. They are not prostitutes. Well, maybe a few out of thousands are, but even they are human beings with feelings.\n\nDo not be like the young woman I observed a couple of weeks ago, who sat at the tip rail and didn't want to tip. When Calli spoke to her about it after her performance had ended, the woman gave Calli a bunch of lip about how she didn't know tipping at the rail was mandatory, even though the D.J. had been continually reminding the customers the whole time the woman was in the club, then threw a dollar bill at Calli's feet. Calli picked up the dollar, dropped it into the women's lap, and told her she didn't need her one dollar. What really amazed me was that several young men began to applaude Calli, as did I. (I was amazed because of the fact that so many immature, thoughtless young men think, "Oh, she's a stripper, so she has to be just a slutty whore! Therefore, we can treat her any crappy way we choose.) I spoke with Calli about the incident a bit later, and she told me that she had told the woman, "I don't need your money. I've already made plenty of money tonight. However, I should think that as a woman, you would have more respect for me. I'm working hard to entertain you as well as everybody else in the club."\n\nDuring one of Nicki Hunter's feature performances, this same thoughtless young woman leaned over the stage, picked up the two DVDs Nicki had laying there, kept one and gave one to her girlfriend. A minute later, Nicki turned around and asked, "Where are the movies?" Without any hesitation, I pointed at the woman and said, "Right there Nicki." Nicki retreived her DVDs and told the woman, "If you want one of my movies, come see me after the show, and I'll sell you one." Trust me, when Nicki tossed the DVDs to a couple of lucky customers, said customers were not either of those two women!\n\nDo not for one minute think that stripping is an easy job. If you do, try it sometime. For one thing, you will use muscles you didn't even know you had! For another thing, it is a tough job being nice to people who are looking down their noses at you, especially the ones who don't even have enough class to take a shower and change clothes before going to the club and expecting the ladies to sell them lap dances! Yes, it happens. I myself have had to change seats or walk away for some cretin who reeked of every sort of bad body odor known to mankind. I've even known of guys passing gas in the clubs without so much as an excuse me!
179437
HA! DC, love that answer! I was going to say that 15 times a day is just fine for spanking the monkey, but way overboard for masturbating.
944777
Well...the last time I was in a strip club in New Orleans the only rule was "don't piss off the girls" - they dance full nude - and you can do pretty much anything but pull yours out or touch them on the crotch
831724
Purchasing pornography is 18. The minimum age for a strip club varies. In most clubs it is 21+. The ones that are 18+ usually require anyone under 21 to wear a shirt or bracelet so they will not be served alcohol.
548229
There is nothing especially right or wrong about most anything we do, as long as we do not hurt ourselves or another.  Know that almost the entire male population does this, so there is no problem, if that is the way we are made, and it is.  Moderation is the key.  One side note, the more you use it, like exercise, it keeps working, so this is good for health overall.  Soap is not especially good because it dries skin.  Better, consider Johnson's baby oil.  The number of times a guy does this varies among everyone, and a guy does it more some times and less other times.  That is the way it is.  You cannot do it too much, or too little.  You will do this whenever it is right for you.  No two of us are the same, so what is 3 times a week or one guy, might be 3 times a day for another or once a month for another.  There is a wide variety here, and all of this is normal.
888955
Once every 2 weeks is not all that much.  You are just normal, don't let your religion make you feel guilty.  (I will bet you 99.9% of the people in your religion do it and the .1% that don't have a medical problem)  Keep your soft porn and keep studying.  The men that are banging every skirt that come their way are the sick ones.