how long should you wait in a relationship to kiss?
94956
whenever you feel is the right time.
648867
When it feels right.  This is not something people online can answer for you.  You have to make sure you are sure.  That can be as soon as 6 months but as long as 3 years or more.  Good luck!
638887
Nope, it's a year age difference is about as meaningful as a hermit's address book!\nThe kissing will come naturally, just give it time and practice!\nAll the best
908661
There really isn't a right or wrong. You just do it and hope the other person likes the way you do it. Everyone is different and does things in different ways. What works for them may not be good for you. Kissing is kissing. You put lips together and let it go from there. As far as making out, again there are different ways to do that. Good luck.....SAM
1025672
Well how long have you guys been dating?  He may want to kiss you too, but is too shy to ask.  I'm shy, and it took 3 months after he asked me out to actually kiss him.  I was too scared.  He had to make all the moves. Just ask him. You won't sound funny.
247446
Wait until your married or until you have lived together for a couple of years.
148585
There is no set amount of time to wait.  The guy should ask when he feels that he is ready to make that commitment, and the girl shouldn't accept until she feels ready to make that commitment.  Everyone moves at their own pace so go with your heart and let it be your guide.
568284
At least one month for every year you were dating.  If you hadn't been dating for a year, wait a three weeks to a month.  It's hard to measure your own progress, but try to make it so that any new relationship has nothing at all to do with the old one- not in reasons you like the new person, in the way you proceed with the new relationship, your fears about it, or your rush to jump into it.
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depends how long you have been dating, how old, is there lots of sex, etc.  \nIf out of high school more often, if dating for awhile more often.  2-4 for first couple months 5-7 after a few months
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8 months? How sweet! For so young, so long, and still so innocent. It does me good to read that in our day and age. I'm proud of you.\n\nWell, I'm the lady in my relationships. For all my sweethearts, I didn't really think about doing it. When he said something really kind or sweet or that tugged at my heartstrings, I couldn't hold back. Yes, I usually was the first to kiss. And there is nothing wrong with reversals in society's ideas of what roles the sexes should play. Keep that in mind. Anyway, I think you're probably safe in the game at this time, you'll be fine if you do kiss her. She shouldn't be grossed out or anything.\nI would start out with an elongated peck on the lips. Just like you peck your mother on the cheek at night, but on the lips. All the same, but for a little longer. And that'll be kind of like a hug. You/she will pull away at the appropriate time, out of instinct, so it's not uncomfortable. But I wouldn't do anymore, until you can pull away and see her reaction. \nOr, if you've already pecked and want to move on. Start slow. Think of an open mouthed kiss as such; a fish. You know how fish make that 'blub blub' noise, and their lips just simply open and close? Well, if you do, press yours on hers, and sloooowly blub. Don't make the noise. That's not very attractive. \nALWAYS check with the lady. Do it, then after a little bit, ask her, "Did you enjoy that kiss? Are you ready for that?" But don't grill her. It'll only hurt her if you do. \nIf you're beyond fish, then I suppose it's the tounge now. Again, slowly, to see if she's comfortable with someone else's tounge in her mouth. Just stick it straight out, at first. Don't point it; that's irritating to us. Well, me anyways. Just a soft, subtle push. Then wait for her reaction. If she does it back, then you, as a couple, are ready. If she pulls away, that's ok. Don't feel too bad about it, I don't imagine. 8 months, and it'll be ok, I think. But, please, don't take my word for it. I am not in this relationship. LOL! From then on, anymore with the tounge is all up to you two. Talk about it. Try new things. I just myself tried a new way to kiss my love; and we've been together for three years. \n\nBut, about why can't you do it. Maybe you just haven't stumbled upon that "right moment". Be a sweetheart, don't worry too much over it, and keep your innocence. Nice job, and good luck!
137418
Go for the kiss when your heart feels right. I like it when a female leads into a kiss, just grab his hand, squeeze so he looks at you then kiss him... my first girlfriend did that and that is what made her my girlfriend
484742
The best thing to remember when starting to kiss is to keep things simple. There is really no need to get carried away with strange and exotic techniques, nibbling, biting, groping, etc. etc. etc., especially when you're just starting out. A kiss is generally great no matter how basic, and everything else just adds things that can go wrong. Of course, everything else definitely has its place (and how!)... but it's really best to START SIMPLE.\n\nDO gently caress your partner's face.\nDON'T octopus your hands all over their body.\n\nDO use your tongue to stimulate.\nDON'T use your tongue like a jackhammer.\n\nDO notice how your partner reacts to your kisses.\nDON'T notice how cute the girl at the next table is.\n\nDO communicate with your partner.\nDON'T communicate the kiss to everyone in the locker room.\n\nDO be confident in yourself\nDON'T be confident you'll never be kissed.
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keep it slow.. if you like her you now whens its the right time to kiss her and stuff just keep it slow so.. she knows ur respctful.  you can hold her hand girls love it when there comforted by their guy lol
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Making out is strictly kissing.  You and your partner kiss and there is no trying to get to second base or anything.  You may be just sitting there together or lying next to one another and you start kissing.  It isn't just that short quick kiss type of thing but long kissing followed by more kissing.  You just kind of lose yourselves in each other.
1015316
I think kissing on the first date is fine. As long as you feel comfortable with it and it feels right there is no problem. Take things as slow as you like or as fast as you like as long as you feel good about it
1154096
Well if you've been dating for a while than any time would be the perfect time for the first kiss. Your partner is probably just waiting with anticipation. But seriously, do it when the moment is right. Look your loved one right it their eyes and you'll know if it's the right moment or not. Good luck. Hope the first kiss is all you ever wanted it to be.
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okay, as long as you both want to. here is my answer, next time you kiss your girlfriend, and its a sweet romantic kiss, you need to make the move. you never know if she will do it, EVER! just work toung in there, (ewwwww!!!!) shel catch on......     hope this helps.     -ames   p.s. do i get a best answer?! lol!