married man is never leaving thair wives for lovers, especialy if lovers are older than them?
86747
He's lying to you so you don't dump him.  A man will say anything as long as he gets what he wants.
395046
no age is really imperfect to make love perfectly unless you believe it is. but, perhaps, s/he who wants to get it conformed by the others would not make it ever.
84702
Most people are just not content. Pain and simple. If a married guy looks your way and you catch him , he will someday cheat on you.
631023
With so many failed marriages out there it's hard to say. Maturity plays a major part, here. When you find someone who knows what they want & are willing to sacrifice for it ( the marriage ) that may be the one to marry regardless of age.
1036599
I don't think married men are the only ones who have problems in this area. I think men AND women feel loss as they age.\n\nYoung people have a combination of hormones, urgency, risk-taking, idealism and the feeling of immortality as major drives in their personalities and relationships. After 50 years people of both sexes get more contemplative, desperate, depressed, settled, bored, lazy and their hormone levels don't really help them "push forward" into life from the INSIDE of their bodies. \n\nIf a person has made enough poor decisions before 45-50 years old they, many times, just give up on trying to re-invent their life and they begin to "settle". They become less "giving" and less spontaneous. They feel more emotionally fragile.....and sometimes "needy" at the same time.\n\nIf your wife was ever your best friend she should remain that way into old-age. Many couples were never REAL  friends to begin with....they just got a certificate declaring that they are married. Friendship lasts longer than certificates.\n\nYou cannot expect a woman who was having sex out of "obligation" to wedding vows to ever be a lover for life. The emotional/spiritual longings that you are writing about SHOULD still be there at any age, between friends. If you simply want a woman to stay as young and eager as a 30 year old, forever,  then you are going to be sadly disappointed.\n\nThe friendship aspect of a loving/married relationship is the most important building material in the foundation of a long-time relationship. Age will take away many things. Cross words and misunderstandings can hurt couples for many years. In the end, it is the friendship that will last.\n\nAnd a good friend will always be there for you to talk, touch and share intimacy.................on some level.\n\nJust don't expect things NEVER to change...........all things change.\n\n\nIt's how we respond to change that makes us available to/for the people we love and who love us.
1043821
if they are married - NEVER
481050
I've always preferred older guys and always will, I like their wisdom and life experience and women also mature quite fast so this works well with older guys. I always find it odd when older women go out with younger guys, I really can't comprehend that one.
237489
There is no such age limit. Usually it is seen that there is extreme love between two persons of huge age difference and many times it is a source of utmost pleasure. There is no hard and fast rule that young guys prefer only young girls...many times they do go for older ladies and so enjoy their life to the fullest extent and vice versa is also true. At the most it is the personal liking of every person.
161917
There have always been those who will not totally commit.People have cheated and been unfaithful fo hundreds or years.Now as to why;Although I am not a psycologists,I do have some experience and I truly think that most every individual is concerned about getting older and losing their appeal to other people.They often combat this by trying to stay as available and see as many people as they find attractive while they`re young ,so that when they`re older they won`t feel as though they have missed something!
298855
He may find these women exotic but it does not mean he'll leave you for one.  I see a lot of gorgeous women that I am attracted to but it doesn't mean I'm going to leave my wife for one of them.  It also means I would never settle down with one.  There are qualities about my wife that I found to be more suitable to spend the rest of my life with.  Men are very simple creatures.  After they have sex, sex is off their mind and what's left is reality, a woman you love for her being her or the woman you're done with.  The fact he's with you says he loves you for being you.  What is in question here is his respect for you.  Talk to him about it.
454528
because men mature slower then woman and woman just tend to figure it out.  Sex isn't everything, they want to settle down.  Men have to sow their wild oats before it dawns on them.  Why do you think woman usually go for older men?  Old men usually have been around the block but finally figure it out.  (of course even some older men haven't figure it out) You can usally tell by how they treat a woman. They are patient and not pushy.
1109652
No, do you?\n\nI think we are past the age when a persons sexual preferences mattered, rather than the person him/her/itself.\n\nI am a happily married monogamous hetero (been married 25 years to the same woman and hope to die still married to her), if that matters to you.\nst
853066
Depends on how long his wife LETS him live! My husband may not make it to his 35th!
547846
i have 2 friend whose wife is about ten years older than them. They are all happy with their families, so i think age does not matter as long as love binds them.
794527
After 27 years your heart just doesnt close to that person, Maybe they couldnt live together, that does not mean that there is not some kinda love still. Even if its a friendship love or a respect love. Or a love because of children maybe born of the relationship There could be many factors to why there is still some "worry" attached into all that!
295629
If they Love eachother then nothing should come in between that.Age is just a number.
543692
They cheat because we let them. We sometimes let ourselves go instead of keeping the romance alive in the relationship. My ex-husband slept with a 13 yr old when he was 26, right before we got married. I had gotten comfortable, I knew he was mine and I didn't have to worry, not!!!! Always be worried, there is always another woman who will be better and can do more than you're willing to do. So we have to keep up ourselves and make our men see that we are willing and trying to stay the woman they fell in love with.............