how shall ask a gal whether she is virgin or not?
83777
If you are wanting her for just that what does it matter if she is a virgin or not? I think the question is how do you get her to have sex with you? Start slow by holding her hand and then go further, like a silent game of chicken. Always worked on me.
538975
Did you have sex?\n\nThen you are NOT a virgin anymore.\n\nNext stupid question, please.
956797
You want us to help you defrock your virgin girlfriend?\n\nSheesh have a heart. Don't be a selfish jerk. If that is how you rate your relationship I pity your girlfriend.  I hope when you do ask her, she runs away and never speaks to you again.\n\nPERVERT,  SELFISH IMMORAL JERK..........
68088
This is a hard one...\nI guess going to a specialist would probably be the best idea. People come out with the craziest ideas of checking this out. And besides...everybody is different....so you never know if you are still are virgin or not..until you let a specialist see that.
570812
Well, there are a number of things to know before having sex with a virgin female. First of all, most women are born with a thin layer of tissue called a hymen that partially covers the opening to the vagina. The hymen is usually broken when a women first engages in sexual intercourse, although other actions can break the hymen as well, such as inserting a tampon, horseback riding, masturbation, etc. For many women, the first time having sex can be quite painful if the male does not take his time getting the woman aroused (and well lubricated). Depending on how old your girlfriend is, she may or may not have a hymen. When she is ready to sleep with you, my best piece of advice to you would be to engage in lots of foreplay (especially on her, so that she will be physically "ready" for you) and to take things slowly once you try penetration. Don't be surprised if it takes a while for her to get completely comfortable. And listen to her verbal and physical cues--she will let you know what feels good and what doesn't.\n\nI hope that this will be helpful to you. Good luck and use condoms!
926372
Yes honey, virgin means you haven't had vaginal sex.
553151
There really is no definitive way to know if someone is a virgin, as the hymen can tear doing other things like sports and tampon usage.
921605
Look....you have to decide, were you with her because you thought she was a virgin?  I am pretty positive that there was much more to her than that.  So, her not being a virgin should not make a difference.  Women are funny when it comes to relationships....they almost sort of WIPE THE SLATE CLEAN after each relationship.  Not just with the words they say, but they actually do it mentally.  Men like the notches on their belts to show off and brag about, but women literally like to FORGET it ever happened, especially if it was not a good relationship.  So, maybe in her mind she had a bad experience, and did not want it to count.  That does not make her a bad person, because if you look at it, that could be a plus for you.  At least you know it is her past, it is over, and she does not even want to think of it.  Maybe if after you were together longer, she would have come out and told you, you never gave her that chance, you went snooping in places you should not have been.  Maybe it was just internet talk also, you do not know that she did not say all of that online, and then chicken out when it came down to it.  Talk to her.  You want honesty and trust, then trust her an talk to her, and own up to the fact that you snooped through her private stuff.  You BOTH need to be honest to each other.
454795
since i was raped i got no reason to say i am still a virgin.  i have had sex for the longest of time.  but for the past year that has changed and waiting for that special person.  cause for some odd reason i am very single.  hope she understands where i am coming from once we meet.
486300
ASK HER BY HERSELF SO IF SHE DOESN'T YOU WON;T BE HUMILIATED.... IF SHE DOES GOOD LUCK....
886157
wow hard one..um gee... lets see\nOH YEAH i know........... ask her.
36180
Yes you can use that term refering to a male. Virgin is defined as happening for the first time. In this case it would be intercourse for the first time.
664892
Are you saying she's a virgin? If so, you have to take it slow and easy. There's no way for it not to hurt the first time.
899868
by asking this question, either you've never been with a virgin or you're still a virgin.
503166
shes a VIRGIN! go slow on her i know and WE know you want to get there!lololollol but have patience
395839
tell her you are a virgin and let her teach you
59924
Every girl is different and you should try to ask questions and find out about her personality before you ask for sex.  Some girls are very social, and others are conservative.  If you got into a "get to know you" type of conversation you could ask her about habits with previous boyfriends such as "How/where did you meet your last boyfriend?" "How long did you know him before you dated him?"  "How long did you see each other?"  Hope this was helpful.