What would you do if your friend gave a guy your number and she knows you are married?
97696
I would be very angry with her.  Talk about embarrassing.
582694
go out and about meet new people--develop new friendships-- he is getting married so you have 2 move on and realize that there are many more men out there
50048
If she's aware of what you've been goin through and does nothing about it, then she's not your friend.  If she stops cheating after she realizes your situation, then she's a good friend. It also depends on what's more important to her, your friendship or her marriage.  Rest assured that if she does love her marriage more than your friendship, she'll do anything to protect her marriage, even if it means ruining your 20 yr friendship.\n\nMy advice, don't say a word to her husband.  You may be in a messed up situation right now, yet the important thing is that you keep your distance; coz afterall, it's not your problem.
356938
If he's such a good friend of yours why hadn't you met his wife before the party? I don't know that I,d tell him right away I,d ask her first if the baby is yours. But before you are all set to be babies daddy you better request a blood test to make sure its yours. Chances are you and her husband might not be the only  ones who could have fathered her baby if shes that fast to have sex with someone shes never met with her husband that close by.
110519
Sounds like your already married to each other.Congratulations.
1043467
yes I would be furious and think he was cheating or looking to. If it was innocent they wouldn't be using fake names and keeping it from you. If they were just friends he'd have no problem telling you
494613
As he is your friend that you say that you are so close to, i do not think that anyone else will be able to tell you what you should give.  The only advice i can give is that, anyone can buy jewelry, etc but it is the silly things that count and would mean more.  You know this man, it would have to be some thing personal that you shard together.  Also you say your getting married, I hope you are not saying goodbye to your Friend? mar rage does not mean you have to get rid of your Friends male or female.
792426
Reverse the situation--what would you do if you found out your husband was cheating on you with your best friend?  \nIf your answer is "I'd join in", forget I answered your question.  \nBut if your answer is something like "I'd leave him", think about the consequences if your husband ever found about your indiscretions.
819663
Well, I would say if your "love" is married to someone else, then she is not YOUR "love".  Grow up, get over it!  She obviously wasn't in love with you the way you are her.  If you still talk to your "love", then just keep being her friend don't try to ruin anything between her and her husband.  If you really love her, be happy for her that she is happily married to the love of her life.
336661
Ring his wife and ask her
766818
Because he doesn't want you to have his number, period. But he's got some feelings about how to treat people in general ( just your average nice guy- they are out there) and he doesn't know how to tell you. Doing it this way makes him feel less guilty and it's the ONLY way this particutlar person can tell you without feeling like a jerk.  Don't ask his friend for his number. His buddy is his buddy and probably won't give you the right one. Then you'll feel like a fool.
890661
Depends.  If he gave you his number, then he wants you to call, but if you somehow "found" this number then no.
1161262
If she is your good friend, I would tell her the other co-workers have seen them and are talking. I wouldn't say anything beyond this. She wouldn't stop seeing him just because you ask her too anyway. You will only make her mad. Just be supportive and try\nto stay in the back ground as much as possible. When the wife finds out, and she will, it will get ugly. Maybe they will stop seeing each other before that happens. Sex is just a matter of time and when they do cross that line, there is no going back. Good luck!
854843
first things first, if this guy is married, then thats where the problem is. you know sometimes it happens with most men, they meet this lovely lady and they like her instantly. to tell you the truth, emotions and feelings would have overriden reason in this instance and you end up trying to hook up with that lady. some may end up doing the wort case scenario, that is having sex with that lady on the same day but some of them will just give or take contact details like this guy did to you. \n\nand then when they leave you, just because you are no longer there, reason start to dominate feelings and emotions once more and the guy would decide that the most reasonable thing to do will not to cheat on their partners or wifes so he will decide to not contact you anymore to avoid any future problems.\n\nbut i dont think that he has problems in his marriage, its only that he found you surprisingly beautiful and attractive and found you irresistable. so i advise you to just forget about this man and just pretend nothing happened
530519
i reached out and rested my hands on somthing while waiting for someone and this man i didnt know  grabed my hand inspected it and said "what no ring? why arnt you married yet?" like it is somesort of crime to be single. i told him as much but he just shook his head. the person he was there for called to him and went an had a meeting with them. if he isnt married i know why:>
693365
Before you accuse or jump to any conclusions you need to talk to your fiance.It could be nothing but it won't hurt to find out.You should also tell him that he shouldn't give his cell number to any females that you don't know.No other woman should be calling his ass anyway.You are his woman and you should be his only female friend,no man in a committed relationship should have female friends, You may or may not trust your man,but I wouldn't trust any of his female friends.If she's calling about work she should call him at home and I would be right there listening.It sounds fishy to me.I would be concerned and get to the bottom of it.I hope it's nothing-but if something is going on you have to decide whether he's worth staying with.You won't be happy being with someone you don't trust.I wish you the best of luck and I hope he doesn't throw it all away for a fling -it's just not worth it.
443484
He needs to change his numbers. And you need to confront this girl.  Tell her that he is your HUSBAND and you both agree that you want to work out your marriage, and that your plans do not include her.  If she keeps harrassing you, call the police.  There are all kinds of charges (Harrassment, unlawful use of telephone) she can be slapped with