do women use sex as a tool to get what they want?
86021
Most often when the situation warrant it
99985
Maybe women are have figured out how to make men behave.
1158179
It has been my experience that men are physical creatures while women are emotional creatures.  Men equate sex with love while women need to be nurtured mentally.  So, sometimes women give in to men's constant craving for physical/sexual contact without being fulfilled emotionally.  We hope that by sharing the most intimate parts of ourselves with a man that we will receive love in return.  This often leads to heartbreak, disappointment, bitterness, and resentment on the behalf of us women.  We live in a society that is couple friendly and we want to be part of a couple, so we sell ourselves short.  It is sad but true.  Yes, low self-esteem is definitely a factor.  That is why we must begin early instilling in our little girls that they are beautiful, wonderful and powerful INDIVIDUALS and that they have a choice as to who they share themselves with.
679196
Absolutely!  I think women are more honest about what they want and don't feel the need to make empty promises about "looking for someone to settle down with" like men do.
1052532
unlikely, she's too good looking to need to sleep with people to get what she wants.
195508
Women have needs and would have sex if they could until the day they die.  to my knowledge, women never lose interest in the opposite sex or in getting a view of a hunk.
880147
Guys always want it,but girls always enjoy it if she likes the sex partner and demand for more.lol
316626
Yes, but it only works if the man is weak.\n\nNo man who has his priorities in line would suggest that she could actually win an arguement or some type of disagreement with sex.  If she can, then her boyfriend/husband is weak.
1131481
In a nutshell it's because they can. I know this tho. It's not about sex, it's about power. They do it to make themselves feel more powerful and superior.
610715
Oh yeah it works both ways. There are some females out there that literately go out to bars and clubs to go find a guy to have sex with. Girl are sometimes just as bad as guys if not worse. So yes, some girls do go out in search to get a piece.
701696
Ha thats where your wrong. Women are just as horney. We are just much better at controlling ourselfs because we are the stronger sex
532203
Women do it!  (Myself included!)\n\nI had three friends over last night and we were talking about it...3 out of 4 of us (75%) do it regularly and the other one wants to now.  lol  So that should tell you something...
31732
Aren't women enough too? Apparently not. \n\nToys can be used to add variety to a sexual relationship. Everyone has their own fetish or fantasy. Those toys can help satisfy those imaginations.
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Attitude.\n\nThe woman is not your personal jiz jar for your selfish needs.\n\nIf you treat women with dignity and respect and commit to a woman (and not play the field) you can find a rewarding sex life.\n\nAs far as technique goes, that would be something you discuss with your partner. Do not be afraid to learn something from her that helps with her pleasure and enjoyment.\n\nBut if you have a crappy attitude, they can see through that in a minute.
966176
no because women always want what they cant have they like the game and once you get them you dont want them anymore. or you were trying to get him so hard that you failed to see the reall him and now that you have you dont like it
816160
Women will tell it is much more intimate to open your legs than your wallet.\n\nBut for a guy who thinks like you do, they are equal in that the money is all the guy brings to the table, so to speak. Or the important thing.\n\nAlso, women who live by "it's more intimate to open your legs than your wallet" can use that to get everything from free drinks to free mansions from guys by hinting at opening their legs or using sex as a weapon and that's the wrong way to go as well.\n\nInstead of trying to figure out all women, which you might as well just forget about as a course of study, try to find a woman who thinks like you and has a decently high sex drive. I mean, once you know a woman for a while you'll know if she shares your outlook and your libido. \n\nOtherwise you are just creating a tempest in a teapot by wondering aloud on the "general" nature of women when they defy categorization.
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HA! Thats right.....but you know that some women are out looking for just that. I know that after being married for 7 years and spending my adult life being strapped down by a man, I occasionally seek a little nookie from someone that all I want is just sex! Does that make me a whore? Who cares!!!!!!!!!!