What do you do if your boyfriend will not stop getting mad at you.  For nothing?
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My answer is . . . dump his A**.\n\nBut I do have a question for you . . . is why do you have a boyfriend . . . you are too young to have a boyfriend.\n\nPlus . . . what do you want to do in your life . . . have a well paid career or ask if I would like paper or plastic. You tell me.\n\nI tell guys . . . don't get married - - don't even be in a serious relationship with a girl. . . until you have fulfilled your career goals . . . because if they do . . . their girlfriends are going to complain that you spend too much time at work or school and don't spend enough time with them. (This can be reversed)\n\nSo what do you do . . . sacrifice your education or career and for them and then they will complain that you spend too much time with them . . . you are smothering them. (it is a double-edge sword)\n\nAll the boyfriend is going to do is waste your time and money . . . and when you make serious mad money . . . when you are in your mid 30's . . . you can afford the best.\n\nI hope you take this into mind . . . don't get into a serious relationship . . . you really should have a boyfriend . . . if you expect to do good in college. . . and I am not talking community college . . . I am talking University . . . you should expect the best of yourself . . . and you will get the best man for yourself later down the line . . . someone with the same dreams and goals as you.
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Your boyfriend can't fix you so quit trying to make him say things about you. All that will accomplish is driving him away. You need help but to expect him to fix you will only ruin your relationship. You need to get counseling so you can deal with your problem. Your boyfriend is not a counselor he is just a guy.\n\nTrust me I know this from personal experience, my girlfriend totally ruined our relationship with her constant neediness. When you act this way it ends up being all about you and his needs usually go unnoticed. Get out of yourself and into him.
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All these suggestions are good-- I also suggest counseling or therapy. . . Whatever he's angry about, he needs to forgive himself for, or make amends if it's possible.  After that. . . this is what Homer Simpson says, and I don't even like the Simpsons!\n\n"You can't keep on blaming yourself. Blame yourself once and then move on. . ." pretty good advice, now that I think of it.  Finally, your boyfriend is lucky to have you care about him.  Convince him that you both deserve a hopeful future, and that he needs to get help and move on.  Take care. . .
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Yeah, but then again, I do everything on the basis of reason. Tell him your breaking up with him unless he stops. See what happens. Only if you want to.
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i think you seriously need to tell your boyfriend how unhappy this is making you, and if he cares about you, he will listen and tell her to f**k right off
658987
Almost all the other answers will just make this worse (sorry.) Maybe he's angry with you. And maybe you are angry with him. That's normal.\n\nI have a suggestion and try it before you say "Oh, that will NEVER work." I will put a link to a book below, and just read it and try it out. You have power to get what you want, and he will stop doing this, and it's so easy you will be amazed. But you have to trust me on this one.
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so like, he will nick you and put a band aid on it? say hurtful things and apologize, he did not mean it? i think its abusive, its a mind game, and its all about control. i think you need to just get out and let this person/relationship go. find someone who DOESNT make you cry in the first place.
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Not good.  First, he is taking you for granted.  He sees no consequences for his actions and treats you like the dog that gets kicked for no good reason.  He may have frustrations, but has failed to learn or remember who really cares for him above all others.  This is a sign of emotional immaturity.  He needs a wake up call and needs to grow up.  How would he feel if the shoe where on the other foot?  He probably wouldn't stand for it, so why should you?  Don't.  The next time he pulls this crap, I suggest you react in a calm, yet defiant manner by explaining that you care for him, while he seems to have forgotten what a healthy supportive relationship is.  If he wants someone to take out his anger on, then he's got the wrong woman.  End of story, so no more of this behavior against me...no hard feelings.
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sorry to hear that.. I am going through the same issue..Your gf deserves to have ur trust, and u hers...Well, you should talk to her.. and explain your reasons.. That is wat I had to do too..I love him so much too and I really do not want to let him go..Talk to her and tell her the yelling thing doesn't work...teach her some other strategies to express herself..I wish everything works out for ya..
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Sadly there is not much you can do to cool him down or even prevent an episode of rage in him.  If you want to cope so you don't end up terminating the relationship all you have to do is when you sense his temper tantrums coming, leave immediately if possible.  Simply refuse to be around him because you know that his negative attitude will affect you...I'm sure it always does.  And if his temper is as quick as you say, then you may just be running away from him more than you stay around him, but that is the only thing that can keep you safe from his poison.
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this reminds me of my relationship.. it's hectic. give him some time.. you already apologized to him. Tell him to call you whenever he feels like talking to you. GIve him some time you already said sorry so that's good that you've accepted your error.. but yea goodluck... try not to disrespect each other.. once you disrespect each other then it's really hard to work things out... and remember everyone has arguments... just be straight foward with him and tell him that you already apologized to him and to please not be in a bad mood... communication is the key! goodluck hopefully he's not moody anymore... and ask him why he's moody maybe something else was making him moody :P
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Probally cause you have a anger and control problem, before you loose him I would consider going to the people who can help you deal with this and get some counseling. Onedeay he may get tired of your crap and leave you, then you will be misserable.
189954
oh no, your in for it now. I won't go back with him or else you might have lots of drama. I know I've joked around a bit in here but for all seriousness. Your boyfriend will be pissed off and you'll never hear the end of it.
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Number 1--the words Bf are not nice and anger will not alove your problems--leave them alone.   Let go, and let God.  Unless, you are willing to really forgive and stay together, from your tone I do not think that will happen, you can kill more flies with honey than you can with vinger, hold your head high, the best way to deal with that is to take care of yourself and do better.  Ignore them and keep moving on
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The first time my boyfriend and I got into a fight he tried to walk out on us without telling me why he was mad.  I put him in a leg lock on the floor for two hours (crying for about the first hour, then just pissed that he wouldn't talk for the second hour) until he softened up and we worked things out.\n\n3 years later he still says it was the best (but craziest) thing I ever could have done for us.
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TELL HIM TO CHILL OUT. IF YOU WANTED A BODYGAURD IT WOULDN'T BE YOUR BOYFRIEND.
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You need to stop being so angry.  Get some help!!!