What do men dream about when they think of women ( when they touch their XX??) and is it voluntary?
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they think about this woman r the most hot one in earth and she is so happy with him and she told him that he is the best man doing sex
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Of course they do!  They like compliments that make them feel appreciated, loved, valued and sexy.  They just want to feel like "men" and be appreciated by the woman their with.  Do that, and i guarantee he will make sure you feel like a woman.
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Well believe it or not, guys are into fantasies to and by telling us something like that you are helping us to create this mental image of you. It's not like women don't ask men 'Boxers or briefs?'.
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its when u have sexual thoughts going on right b4 u fall asleep...u actually always dream but usually dont remember it...and u dream about the last thought you have b4 sleep
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Who do you find yourself thinking about as you orgasm after j**king *ff, males or females?  Is it a male or a female?  Who arouses you if you let them (not if you force it and not if you try to prevent it -- if you just let it happen) males or females?  The person who makes butterflies appear in your stomach even though you don't want them to -- is it a male or a female?  \n\nIf you are a boi as I believe you are, and you answered "females" to all those questions you are straight.  If you are a boi and you (in your honest heart, not saying what you want, but what is true) said "males" then you are gay.  If you can honestly say "both" then you are bi.\n\nYou tell or don't tell as you want, its up to you.  \n\nPeace,\n\nReyn\nSchenectady, NY\nhttp://www.rebuff.org\nbelieveinyou24@yahoo.com
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You say you definitely like women, but the question is in what way do you like them? You say you have fantasies with certain men, I guess you mean sexual fantasies? You than state you don't like men. I do not know what your sexual orientation is because you have provided few details. If you sexually fantasize about women only, then you would be straight. If you sexually fantasize about men only, then you would be gay. If you sexually fantasize about both, then you would be bisexual.
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Hi there! Frankly i think that day dreaming about girls is quite normal and to certain extent i think it should be done from time to time!!  Orelse how would you figure out what kinda woman you like? You need to do some serious thinking about it, dont you?? But hey,just dont overdo it! Think about girls when you have TIME to think about them!!! Simple!! When you find yourself constantly thinking about girls just tell yourself "wait till i finish my work or eat my dinner!! then i have time to think as long as i dont fall asleep!!" It can be very simple to stop any addiction if you just stop making a big deal out of it!! And oh yes! go ahead and find a girl friend!! I am sure then all your dreams will come true and i hope they dont turn nightmarish!! HA HA
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Some of my dreams involve random people i haven't seen in years, or that i never want to see again.  Dreams can be very confusing, not all psychologists can figure them out.  Don't worry about it unless she starts getting very flirty with him.
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Enjoy it!  He probably was dreaming of you and started acting on the dream.... take it as a compliment.  He's staking claim to what's his.\n\nSleeping all cuddled up is a huge plus for some of us - I love falling asleep safe in my guy's arms - makes me feel so protected and cherished.  Mind you, in summer, we are a lot less touchey-feeley, as it's too stinkin' hot.
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Well, only the person who has the dream can interpret it to its fullest extent.  So when you are looking at the dream ask these questions:\n\n1.  Do I think the priest is hot and do I want to have a relationship with him (probably not, but its nice to get the obvious out of the way)?\n2. Do I want an unobtainable man who is NOT my boyfriend? (think a celebrity- Johnny Depp? or some other man you cannot have because he's "forbidden fruit") \n3. Have I recently done something/ thought about doing something (even if its just thinking about it) that would potentially hurt my boyfriend (like did you think about having sex with Johnny Depp)\n4. Did you watch any show on TV, read a magazine or read a book that was about weddings?  (that may be your answer right there).\n5. Did you go to church that day?\n\nIf none of these scenarios fit, then you probably just had a wacky dream that showed you how much you love your boyfriend and are devoted to him.\n\nPS: No man should ever be your life.  They should simply add to it.
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Yes Hunni its normal....just because we are women doesnt mean that we dont have sensual dreams! :) As far as all the ex's go, they are probably attracted to her because she is putting out an air about her, that she is comfortable with you...that can be very attrractive to men.\nDont spend all your time worring about loosing her, enjoy her whilst you have her. There are no guarantees in life!
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As long as he still consider it in his dreams, I think it's okay.\n\nC'mon... he's your best friend! Just tell him that you don't like the idea in his head, and tell him to stop thinking about it if he still wants to have a good relationship between both of you.\n\nIt's natural for him to have feeling for you since he probably knows you better than most people, that he feel something sexual for you. But that thoughts can sometime arose from a thing called loneliness.\n\nTalk to him, and tell him that you didn't liek the idea, and that his weird thought might endanger your friendship. Tell him that you'll still be his friend even if he's gay, but there's still a line you need to draw to avoid the worst possibility in your friendship.
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When I'm by myself, I often think about several women that did'nt really satisfy my mind but they will always seem to take control of my penis to by point that I indulge myself with the image of sexual\nhoney ( the nakedness of a woman's body.)
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Hollywood and the music scene embraces skinny women.  Most men fantasize about women from Hollywood and the music scene.  \n\nEvery guy is not brainwashed by those ideals.  Find one of these men and do not worry about the rest.
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Phycalogy, saids if you are having thought about the same sex or dreams in a sexal way that it is complety fine everyone has them it human nature, And those that say they don't or never have are just lieing to there trueself about being human. Every-one has those thought at one piont in thier life or another. If you have been having these thoughts for as long as you can remember then it a posabilty that you are. Another way you can tell is if you have to force yourself to date the oppist. sex & in that relationship you can't force yourself to ever get seriuos with that person other than a kisses,hugs and hand holding even if they try everything under the sun. So the best answer I can give you is just be true to your real-self & listen to the little voice in your head and heart and you are the only-one that knows the real answer to this question.
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It could just mean that your mind doesn't bring up thoughts about your husband during sleep. Or you just might not remember dreaming about your husband. Same thing happens for me.
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I feel exactly the same, I have thought about it but have never said it outloud. I don't know if I met someone if I would actually do something of if it is just a fantasy. Email me if you want to chat :)