How do you know if someone is in love with you, but they are just afraid  to love?
88282
its real simple, if they get along with you real well most of the time but when you bring up love or any commitment thing like that if they get all defensive and push you away but then always come wandering back to you then they love you.  if they push you away and dont come back, then they just dont love you.
384779
When your in love with some you will know.  Like when your with them nothing in the world seems to matter anymore.  You will be able to know when your in love and can tell its real cause you wont be thinking about other people in the same way.\n\nHoped this helped
487459
if you ask me again,yes this person might be vey much inlove with you but has some violent attitude in him,which is very dangerious in a love relationship,and such an attitude hadly shows from the man not untill when such a situation arises,but yes this can also be love,so many  people have their own way of reaction inlove when it comes to seperation
400248
it's always scary having really deep feelings for someone because it leaves you vulnerable to them. What if they reject you? What if they leave you? What if they don't feel the same way you do? It's all part of love, romance, and life. If you have found someone that you can connect with on such a deep level that you don't have to have a physical relationship, congratulations. you have found what everyone is looking for.
188867
you just do and if you love her tell her and when u do if she is scared shes not sure if she says she loves you to (for the 1st time) fast and uncaring she doesnt but if she says it slow and loveingly she does
1168210
i think they do it because they are some what scared of themselves...and maybe they are testing the other one...(not on purpose) but testing them....to see if they are really ment for each other but in this case i feel you and your loved one are ment for each other....you may have your problems everyone does...maybe a little more  than most people but you are ment for each other. and you should love each other forever! you only have one lifetime we should all live it to the fullest! and im sure that the person who you love soo much loves you just the same even more....and is really sorry for what he did. he prolly knows that he cant fix it but wishes he could. i wish for you 2 to be happy and to have a WONDERFUL life together. you are ment for each other! \n\n♥
1135409
When you suspect yourself being in love, there's a high chance that you really are in love... Eg: You're asking us how to tell if you're in love, you're curious, so it's quite likely that you are in love\n\nNow ask yourself, do you miss that person whenever you're apart? Do you start looking around when the person isn't around but you expect him to be there?\n\nAnswered yes? No doubt you're in love!
1186164
i think it's easier to know when someone is not in love with you! when you love someone you can't help but show it but when you fall out of love it stands out a mile.\n\ndoes she flinch when you touch her, doesn't want to be intimate, conversations end more quickly, she seems to be a lot more busy than usual, she avoids you, you hardly do things together anymore, or you can see it in her eyes, she doesn't look at you the same way anymore?\n\nthere are a lot of things but if you just have 'that feeling' sorry to say, but you are probably right. if thats the case, you have to let her go. don't try to fool yourself that it can all be good again. that never works!
673902
GURL IF U LOVE HIM THEN U SHOULDNT BE SCARED ABOUT ANYTHING. WHAT IS THERE TO BE SCARED OF? IF YA LOVE EACH OTHER THEN WHAT IS WRONG WITH HIM WANTIN TO BE WITH U FOR EVA? IF U DONT THINK IT WILL LAST LIKE THAT THEN, TELL HIM STRAIGHT UP HOW U FEEL. U DONT WANT HIM TO GET EVEN MORE HURT IN THE LONG RUN.
586189
love is a mutually heart-felt miracle...\n\nif you're in love with someone, that person will feel it\npulsing in her heart too...\n\nbut if it's only your heart that's thumping, then\nit probably is infatuation..\n\nBut, let's assume you love her... really, REALLY lover her..\nthen it's easy...\nsince you're the guy, you have to define yourself\nstrong, accountable and smooth...\n\ntake her out on a date....\n... if you already are seeing her regularly\nthen you're one step closer..\n\ninstead of being gentlemanlike, swiftly\nland a kiss on her lips when you see that she's ready..\n(she smiles a lot, laughs a lot, her lips aren't tightly shut)\n\nwomen on dates are always looking for physical skinship..\n... and when they get a strong one, they won't know\nwhat to do...\nand since landing a good kiss on her is out-of-the-blue,\nshe'll let you handle the situation from then on..\n... she'll merely follow your lead on whatever...\n\n... then, it's easy street...\nyou won't even have to say the cliche-ic, long-dreaded\nthree words, "i love you"\n\ngodspeed
759283
You are too scare of your boyfriend. Always remember, where there's love there's only love....there's no room for prevarication or fear. Tell him the truth. If he loves you, he won't get mad.\n\n"Where there's love, there's only love"
704845
I understand you completely because for me it usually does and that's why I'm afraid,but not everyone is the same. You have to give it a chance. Believe it or not life is about talking risk. If you didn't you'd be in the same place forever and who knows you may end up happy but there's not garentees!!!! lol Oh yeah and your definately not weird it's called "love"
688830
if youre in love ith him trust me honey you will know. U will get nervous when he looks at you, butterflies when he calls you. Most of the time you cant bring yourself to talk to him. he probably wants to move forward but you're afraid to show your feelings. When you're in love you will really know if you get most of these symtoms and many more then you are in love.
307673
i don't know, i really don't, i guess, you know you love that person from the start, you just don't want to admit it, so when the person go, the feeling get strong, and you can't help it anymore, then you'll regret all the things, and question yourself why you ever let that person go in the first place,. then only you realize that that person have to go first then you'll realize you love him/her. i actually don't know myself,
787076
Don't rush right out and tell him your in love with him.  If he don't feel the same why he may get scared and run.  Just think how you would feel then.
896035
It is a weird feeling. Love is such a powerful emotion that it can make you feel scared of losing it or convince you that your life depends on it. \n\nIf you've never felt it before, the only thing I can compare it to is the way a roller coaster feels - at one point, exciting and thrilling, but also scary and dangerous.
232710
How do you know if you'll be accepted ? Put yourself out there....find out first hand if the person is going to accept you...If you love someone you just do....you cant just make that feeling go away....you might have to let it go if truly they don't share your feelings but why live the rest of your life wondering WHAT IF? If the feeling isn't mutual you'll at least know....and then you can move on. Even if you hold on to those feelins forever. Sometimes we love what we cant have or what is bad for us...The mere fact that its bad or off limits sometimes makes us feel stronger towards the subject. So I say GO FOR IT you might be pleasantly surprised at the outcome;)