I love this kid kyal but he loves someone else should I ask him to be my valintins?
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valintines day os over but get to be his real close friend someone he talks to the girl he likes about then we u all r real close and he brings up that grl yell at him and ask him " Why do u have to talk about her, u never talk about me?" then stomp away he will obviously get the point.
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start involving him more in the family get togethers.  On the other hand, I'm all for the family card and I'd be interested in hearing their side of the story.  Sometimes parents see what we can't because we are blinded by love:)
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Ask him where this is going. Just because you have a child with him does not attach you indefinately to someone who doesn't want you completely. If he has a hard time answering you, maybe you need to consider if you'd be better off without him.
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This is great. If you are of the age to marry, I'd say, he's probably the one! He respects you.  Just show him you respect him and care about him.  Ask him straight out, when the time is right, "Will you just hold me?" Like out under the stars in the park.  A long tight hug is way better than kisses on the cheek.  Ask for what you want! Tell him how you feel!  Tell him you're glad he respects you and tell him it's alright with you if he goes a little farther. Tease him about being jealous of the other girl and that will show him you care.  I hope you can make it work! Just be patient. Good luck!
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Just be honest and tell him how it makes  you feel. You deserve to be treated better than this. You may have children to take care of, but Im pretty sure you can do this on your own. You are right...it isn't good for the kids to see this. They need to know love.
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Honey, all i can say is.. take some time with him.. not enough soo other girl will become suspecious. Im sorry to say that but, you know you cant do anything about it... like going to him and saying hang out with me more.. or some thing like that.. last thing you want is both them not talking to you.. but i got to say, be happy for him girl!!! if you think he likes her more.. then thats o.k. you just know he  has not forgotten about you girl. He still knows you, not like your out of his life.. he wants to hangout with you too.. just do this.. give him some space for a while.. and things will be ok.. life goes on.. and we cherish the moments we had with another.. i promise you that doll face.. nothing we do or happens to any of us in the world can be changed from our minds.. it is always there which keeps us moving on in life.... having a family.. kids... house.. it never stops.. just be happy you know him now, and that he knows you... try asking him to like hangout with you.... see what he feels about it.. he can choose who he wants to be with.. if things dont go well between you two... dont worry.. cant express that enough.. its not your fault if he makes a decision you dont like..\n\nHope it works out for best of you anne\nSincers\nShawn Miller\nToronto, Ontario
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you should tell him maybe he feels the same way too. I told my guy friend i liked him and now i am marreid with twins on the way. you never know unless you tell him who knows maybe he is your destiny and keeping this from him can change your faith.
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Well, obviously you need to make a choice.\n\nHave you and your current boyfriend really grown together that much if you can have the same feelings for another person almost immediately?\n\nIf not, perhaps you should talk to him about where your relationship is going.
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Yes, find someone that wants to share and create memories with you.  If you are important then he will create time. Now you are just entertainment
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I think you should accept him for who he is.  If you can't accept him, let him go so he can find a girl who appreciates him.
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I really feel for you, thats a tough situation.\nAre you sure that you are really in love with him, as you only said that you believe you are in love with him. Be careful not to confuse other feelings for love.\nDid you know he was your uncle before you got involved?\nI know you fall in love with who you fall in love with but there is a brief window in which you can apply the breaks.\nWhat about the other woman he is with? Has he spoken to her yet?\nIf I were you, I would try to steer clear and if he manages to end the relationship with the other lady and keep his relationship with the kids maybe you could think about him again.\n\nI don't know about the law and deformities. I would say no to both questions, but just think of the people involved in this tangled web and how your decisions will effect them\n\nIts tough I know.\n\nGood luck.
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Blessings.\n\nMay I answer your question with a questions of my own? First, are you sure that these feelings you have for this new guy (let's name him "Ted" for the sake of easier understanding) are legit (real)? If not, that is part of what I think you should question yourself... along with asking "Ted" if his feelings for you are legit.\n\nSecond, if you are "committed" to someone else (let's name him "Al" for the sake of easier understanding) but these feelings that you have for "Ted" are so overwhelming, why are you in this relationship with "Al"? And if these feelings that "Ted" has for you are so overwhelming, why is he in another supposedly-committed relationship with "Sue"? It would seem, in my opinion, that you would tell "Al" (and "Ted" would tell "Sue") how you truly felt instead of leading him on to believe that this love that you two (you and "Al" -- "Ted" and "Sue") share is being reciprocated when, in fact, it is not.\n\nIt would be wise, I would imagine, to put this situation into perspective. Consider what it is (and who it is) that you truly wish to be with. Think carefully and tread softly for the waters (and feelings) you tread upon can be disturbed. You don't want a typhoon to come ripping apart your life. Trust me, I've been there! God bless!\n\nHope that helped!
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Dear, you can't make someone else love you. Sad but true. If we could make someone else love us, there would be no such thing as rock-and-roll. But, in your defense, boys are fickle... and won't always tell you the truth about how they feel. Just because he seems to have strayed, doesn't mean that he doesn't care for you. Give your feelings, and your relationship with him a chance... if you love him. BUT!... don't waste your precious love. It is too rare of a thing to be squandered on selfishness.
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well all u got to do is follow ur heart. if u really love him and he loves you then yeah u should. just think of who is at the end of the love chain. is it him, or someone else.
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He is much to young for you, physically but mostly emotionally.  There is a vast difference of experiences and it is very unlikely that this relationship would work own.  Don't hurt yourself and your parents by making the wrong choice, as much as your heart is leading you astray right now. Good luck.
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I would say try to make it work if you can, it sounds that he is good for your kid.\nDId you loved eachother at apoint?\nIf there is no other way just talk to him
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ask her   if u love me so much y r u with that other guy