I would like to know why i am totally not sexually active after giving birth to my daughter 2yrs ago?
93012
Maybe your hormones are messed up.
436307
i am totally shocked that you are actually having to even ask if this is normal. That poor daughter of yours!! Shes a young girl who is suffering with extreme tirdness and unbelievable pain and yet u ask if this is normal??Tell u what. re read what ur question was until u eventually come to the same conclsion that most other will come to. Im not going to even justify such a qestion with an answer. Bet shes having a great childhood(NOT!)Shame on u!! I am disgusted u put ur daughter through so much. ....\n\nI have now just read some of your other questions and on one of them you say your are 20 years old(in the question regarding your SO CALLED wax experience. You are saying to us that u have a 14 year old daughter.......oh really??? So u were 6 when u gave birth to her.....were u??? U TOTAL FRUITCAKE!!!!!!!!!! No doubt there are a whole bunch of online readers thinking the same.weirdo!!!!!
162862
The only thing I can think of is the post birth blues, where you feel like nothing is okay, and like it's all too much.  You feel like that litle person has taken away a beloved part of your life.  It is normal, and hormonal, and does go away.  Before birth, I don't know, I would ask your doctor if it is normal, or if you should be concerned.  I have heard of it, so it must be farely well known.
719393
Sorry to inform you but that is what I call life.  Having children ruin your body.  Unless you are on a strict diet and exercise regimen that it how it will look or if you have good genetics and return to normal.  My 3rd baby did it to me.  He is almost 3 but I am also not interested in exercising like a freak.
302784
first of all how far along are u and have you told your parents?If so the first thing you need to do is keep your cool if you stress you could lose the baby then u need to work on eating habits try to eat healthier and i wouldn't try to have sex unless it's approved by  your doctor okay
332909
It takes awhile to be allowed to lift things. My dr told me not to lift anything more than 5 lbs for several weeks. It took me almost a year to get back energy. For months I had to take a nap after lunch cause I was SO exhausted by afternoon. No sex for 6 weeks. Oh by the way I had a vaginal hyst. also had a tvt sling for help with incontince when I coughed sneezed or picked up heavy objects. I had 3 children(vaginally)and my vigna had dropped too far down and was causing me trouble.
691691
Depression and devastation can cause hindrance sexually and easily causes one to be less sexual. You may want to talk to someone professional, like a therapist, because I think it could be mentally linked.
916942
Sounds like your wife is getting the attention from Mr. X that she wasn't getting from you.  \nUnfortuntely, when there's difficulty in a marriage, and then all of a sudden there's a new baby, life goes into overload.  However, caring for an infant makes a woman feel almost invisible because her life, especially in the first few months, is only about (breast)feeding, diaper changes, and putting the baby to sleep.  With the lack of sleep and the limited amount of personally time, women need EXTRA pampering and attention to keep from disappearing.  Sounds like she was just going thru the motions of a routine boring life, and the old flame has brought some excitement and a spark back into her life.  She's feeling alive at the moment, probably something she hasn't felt in a very long time.  Hard to say what you can do at this point, especially if she is adamant on going to see him.  Don't blame her if she does.  Maybe she just needs to get it out of her system.  Who knows.  Maybe you can reflect on what your position was in all of this, and if you weren't as attentive and loving as you should've been, try giving her what she needs now before it's too late.  Pampering and attention... that's what she needs.  Go sweep your wife off her feet!
859005
It could just be a mental thing, idk.   Try doing some erocit things, like when you move in, walk around naked, or build up your sex drive on a free day when you fave time to see what turns you on.
1131922
You can always go to a doctor to get tested, but when it first comes back is all up to your body.  Some women don't get their cycle for a year after they have a baby, even if they aren't breast feeding.  If there is a risk though of pregnancy, talk to your doctor.  My friend was 9 months before getting her cycle, and she was way past breast feeding.  Good luck! :)
943202
Perhaps it's the stress of taking care of a baby.  Stress has a negative effect on the sex drives of both women and men.  If your baby is old enough, try hiring a babysitter so you can have a romantic night out or just having a stress-free night with your boyfriend--you just might be able to jump-start your sex drive.
625990
I was in pain for months following my c-section. It had nothing to do with the c-section itself. My hormones made it so that I was unable to produce any lubrication. This made me and my husband uncomfortable. He thought that he didn't make me satisfied anymore. We discussed this with my doctor, and she said that until your hormones come into order again, you may need to use a personal lubricant. We used KY for several months, and I got pregnant again 6 months after the first was born. After she was born. Yep pain again. Waited another 8 months, and now I'm back in action pain free. Some don't experience this, and some not as long. Maybe your doctor could be more help than mine. I know it hurts, and sometimes emotionally as well. If it doesn't subside, see your doctor (OBGYN). They should be able to help you. Congratulations!!
1149268
its from a lack of something in the home. We got along with everything else, except for sex. We could play and tease all day then at night I would be all worked up and she would roll over in bed to sleep like nothing had happened. I tried talking with her about how I felt and about her lack of interest. She would acknowledge her lack of sex drive but would never do anything about it.
662401
It may be nothing it may be something, if it hasn't happened before I wouldn't ignore it. If you are sexually active there is a possibility you are pregnant, or if you have been experiencing higher levels of stress it could be that. go get a pregnency test from the drugstore and rule that out and go from there!!
189068
Are you breastfeeding or smoking crack?\nI don't understand your question.\nI get that you don't like sex...but didn't understand the rest of it.
539496
madam,\n\n         it is advised not to have an intercourse, whether protected or unprotected, until 6 weeks after a normal delivery, as the female genital tract takes that much time to recover from changed during pregnancy and labor.\n\n during delivery there will be lot of blood clots inside the uterus, everything of them is difficult to remove by any doctor, and which will come down by their own.\n\nby having an intercourse, u forced them to come down..\n\nthat's it.\n\ndon't be panic, i advice not to repeat it. take rest, consult doctor if necessary.\n\nall the best
76837
Hey bro, I feel bad for you. It sounds like you have tried working with her about this. It sounds like you have been patient.You are going to need to make some tough chocies.You are going to need to find out what's really the problem ( her not feeling sexy?,is she having an affair?,not in love with you anymore?,have you done something since your daughter was born to make her act this way?,ect..)You sound like you love her and your daughter and don't want to leave. It sounds like she's not willing to kiss, be romantic,or try to see a doctor about this.To me if she just wants to be friends and isn't willing to change then maybe it's time for you to re-think things out about what you what you want in a wife and if this siutation is really good for you and your daughter. If you continue to be unhappy, this will start to effect you much more, which will at some point effect your daughter, which is something you don't want, she's done nothing. I think it's cool that you are trying to keep your family, but you also need to have your needs met. I would keep trying to work with her on this if you feel it's worth it. If there's no change and if she's not willing to see a counseler then mabye it might be time for a change. Love and passion is something that can be worked out if both parties are willing to work things out. Just don't go deep and and get emotional and do something that's dumb. Everyone has bad stories with quick fixes. This is your family. Think things out before you act on them. Good luck. I hope very thing works out for you.