my grandmother is dead so what can i do?
92720
Depends. Is she still warm? Has she started to stink up the place? Did you do it?
58325
Oh, Kendra! I am so sorry to hear about your grandmother. I don't know a whole lot about colon cancer, but I will pray for her. :) Also the best thing you can do for her is just to keep praying for her yourself. Also feel free to e-mail me at VMF4Jesus@yahoo.com with updates on how she is doing. God bless you!
1072709
My Grandma passed away 6 yrs ago on the 6th of July.......her Bday is June 30th......every yr since she has left.....I go to her gravesite....bring her fresh flowers & just sit for an hr or so....although some people would say I am bonkers.....I talk....I tell her everything....even though I know she is with me on a daily basis....& sees all that is going on....I still do this....it makes me feel like she is really there.....even though I walk away crying...& missing her even more....I know that it something we enjoyed together.....my Grandma was a VERY special woman....I miss her everyday & sometimes just break down & cry whenever I think of her.....I just thank god she was able to meet my daughter before she went....my son was 2 & my daughter was 1 when it happened.....Honey, I know it is hard when it is a Parent.....she was like a mom to me.....just go spend some time with him....pray & remember every good time....even remember the bad times.....just celebrate him.....GOD BLESS YOU in your time of need....
526315
You are in a tough position because part of the family wants you there and part of them do not want you there.  Is there a way that you could go to calling hours to pay your respects?  If you do that and do not go to the funeral, you should be fine.  Explain to the family members that you are close to that you honor their grandmother, but you do not want to cause any problems amoung the family, so you are respectfully not attending the funeral to prevent any conflicts.
437302
I would attend the funeral and support your mum through it. You should also speak to your Grandad who I am sure misses her terribly. Sympathy cars are for friends and acquaintances who lose a loved one.\n\nCondolences on your family's loss.
64365
Just go to the website, "Find A Grave". Once you're there, just type in your Grandmother's information that they ask for and you shall find your answer.
9236
Ask her family.  If that's not feasible, look for the obituary, which may include that info. Sorry for your loss.
860155
treat her with the most courtesy that you would treat a lady of 95. she will spend so much time trying to figure you out that the holiday will be over before she catches on get on her case about every thing, if she goes to the washroom tell her if she needs help to give you a call, if she go to get out of a chair tell her to wait until you can assist her, smother her with kindness and it will drive her out
885901
If she was on Medicare, there is a death benefit I believe it is like $250 only.  Did she own any property that you can sell? A home, furniture, jewelry? If the answer is no, then you will have to tell the funeral director that you cannot pay the bill in full- make arrangements for a payment plan, and also, check his bill to what is the acceptable fees for your area- you can go online and get that info from your state.....if you do not own a home, there really isn't anything the funeral director can do.   Sorry for your loss
268110
Contact the State she passed away in and ask for The Bureo of Vital Staistics.
774847
You have to find out of your grandmother has a will. Everything will go to whom ever she names. You will not be able to do anything about it.
1086456
The best thing to do is try to  find the nearest elderly person let one go then walk away in disgust leaving the blame to fall onto the poor old dear.  If you have to hold it in try to get to the nearest private place as soon as possible or you may internally combust!
18709
The best thing you can do is stay with her through out her life as long as she lives.. She needs to be comforted.. Spend as much time with her as you can in a way that she can forget that she is ill and is going to die
143432
Beg your grandmother for a loan.  Or if you have a job, go to one of those places that will front you money in exchange for your next paycheck.  They will charge alot though.
8768
Befriend a lonely old person with no relatives, no friends, and a house. \n\nMaybe they'll put you in their will.
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How active is she? If she's confined or in a nursing home, keep it simple. Make her a photo album or frame a favorite picture. Bring her a favorite treat that she can't get on her own.  \nIf she can get around, experiences are better than things. Take her to a play or an outdoor concert or to a museum exhibition. If she has a favorite kind of food, treat her to a special meal. \nThe best gift you can give your grandma is time with you! Visit as often as you can, and promise to do so on a regular basis.
1060334
u should go to the doctors that something important for ur grannys health