i want my husband to be romantic and to be very carering and responsible man.to be attentive towards meplzhelp
87815
I believe you should try to talk to your husband upfront and explain your worries. Men think differently than women in most things and he might just not notice that he's actually hurting you with they way he's been acting.\nIf he really loves you he'll rectify the situation, or at least try to make compromises if the problem is that some situation has changed for him. He might even open up and explain what has been going on with him and why he's acting that way. Everything is possible!\nThe thing is... communication is the key. What's behind the door is a whole different topic.
209836
You know you are loved when your husband works his butt off all the time for you, when he thinks about bringing you a rose on one of many busy days, when he cares enough to call you four or five times a day just to say hi during his extremely busy day, when he takes all the kids off with him to give me a break, all the little things he does for me, and me alone. All of these plus so many more make him a truly wonderful man and lets me know he truly loves me.
470234
Candle-lit dinner.. Bubble bath (with candles, be careful), Nice romantic music... Sometimes men appreciate flowers, maybe rose petals around the bed or something... Good luck!
380840
i prefer in the church..at least it guaranty that he must be a God fearing man and therefore well diciplined and responsible guy...surely he can take care of you, spiritually and physically...
172484
Yes, I used to dream about having a husband who is kind, thoughtful, responsible, handsome and most of all knows all household chores so I will not cook, clean, wash the clothes for him.  My parents said it is impossible to find a guy like that nowadays but here I am married to a man who is exactly what I dreamed of.
177424
my guy would be tall, handson, light-skinned, muscular, would have a fuuny personality and very serious at some times and really i want a man 2 be himself
674995
I would but my man is like he's not the romantic type. It doesn't interest him but I feel like if he really loved me it wouldn't be a problem for him. It's not like I'm asking to be spoiled or anything I just need more affection. I feel like asking him to be romantic is just asking for more affection shown in a more effortful way. But he thinks it's a weakness or something always trying to be hard.
270014
What I look for is, ............ a man that is honest, loving, fun,respectful,faithful,has good morals and values, ambitious, caring,has a good sense of humor,is self confident and has respect for themselves. =-)
815385
eally sweet of u to say u are jus average!!\nI guess its a matter of give and take...look for someone who cares, and is ready to give and accept.\nI would suggest that these qualities should be present in you too to some extent! U have to GIVE aswell.\nAnyway/...marriage is not just romance...its getting along in the toughest of times. \nI would really say someone who can forgive and forget and be ready to sort out matters without fighting would be a good match.\nBy the way looks don mean so so much to women.\nIts ur character thats important.\nI have seen many average men with very very beautiful wives and vice versa...they turned out to be quite happy.\nBest of luk!
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Yes it would be alright on several conditions,age will have to be a factor,going about introducing him to you and hopefully your husband,and not to so superficial but goals and planning for them would rank high on the list also,is it love and not lust ,treating her like the Princess that she should be treated like,taking care of her ,physically,in somewhat mentally ,trustworthy,working toward their future ,and above everything else ." DOES HE NOW THE LORD JESUS CHRIST AS HIS PERSONAL LORD AND SAVIOR.'
31910
Wheneva u have a responsible man around...
498929
A man should have incompressible morals and ethics, devoted in religion,honest,hardworking who still finds time 2 spend with me, family oriented,generous,good looking,goal oriented, and affectionate!  It may sound like a tall order, but there is men out there like this..I know I found one, thankfully!  We plan to marry in mid June of this year.
165400
I look for honesty in a man. He should be a best friend to me and he must care for me. He should try to make me feel comfortable in everything I do. He should be gentle,loving and understanding. He must not compell me for anything and should be compassionate. He must respect me and my life and try to guide me in a better way. He should love me for what I am but not for what Im not. He should be my dearest and nearest bestfriend whom I can reach out in any moment and give a shoulder to cry on,hug me on my failures and share everything with me abt his personal life. and I will do similar to him in every way. I will do anything for such a kind of person.
1120982
1.LOVE\n2.Self made man\n3.Heart of Gold\n4.Sense of Humor\n5.Lastly be a friend/confidante then husband
142900
It really depends on the woman... Me I am easy.  I don't really want anything.  I personally would love for my husband to just be a great loving husband all days of the year  ( like he is) and then just live today just like every other day  :)  \n\nIf your wife expects somehthing - thats a tough one... you know best what she likes.  \n\nValentines day is a commercialized waste of money IMPO
931263
That's an interesting question! I think responsible men should be caring and thoughtful towards their wives/children. They should try to provide a stable home in terms of income, but I believe women should contribute to this, too (working outside the home whenever possible in order to show children, girls in particular, that a woman doesn't have to stay at home). \nMarried men should be mature enough to not spend too much time with the "guys," concentrating more on their families instead. This doesn't mean don't go out and have fun with male friends, just that there should be a balance between that and family time. \nI believe that men need to provide positive role models for their children and demonstrate to their sons that it's ok to show emotions (what some call their "feminine side")...that it's not a sign of weakness. \nNot trying to be the boss, but allowing that the wife has a right to exercise her authority and place as co-head of household. I don't believe in "lording it" over one's family. \nI believe men need to learn to listen, and actually "hear" what is being said to them. Some men talk too much and aren't used to listening. I don't want my husband to "fix" problems for me, just hear me out when I need to talk about them.\nShows of physical affection...hugs, kisses...in front of the kids is also a good habit to have.
434888
He has to be handsome, smart, sweet, understanding, generous and romantic.