What do u think of a woman who separated from her husband, living with someone else and a mistress to another?
92802
Where are the morals? I couldn't move that fast.
458364
Most of the answers are pretty hostile to you, but I won't be.  \nIf you offered a place to your ex and her baby, you seem like a generous and kind person.  You had compassion on her especially if she was living out of her car. Why does that compassion have to stop if you want to be involved with somebody else?  Is there anybody else she can depend on? What was the agreement you had with her when she moved in?  Temporary til she found a place, or indefinte?\n \nA single mother and child needs stability and security, and if you aren't willing or able anymore to provide that for her, then hopefully you will help her make other arrangements.   The old flame may or may not work out, but it really shows your character as to how you handle the situation.
659225
You do not really know anyone until you live with them. You are trying to mesh two lifestyles. Sometimes it is just too different to work out. I think it is  GOOD IDEA TO LIVE TOGETHER.
837276
no one can be talking for him. so i don't think she is putting those words into his mouth. i have dated guys that were separated and i had nothing to do with their relationships with their wives. just because he slept with someone does not mean that he is moving on for her. it was probably just sex. my guess is that he really does want to move. regardless of the other woman.
261408
This guy is full of it.  If he wanted to leave his wife, he would have already done it.  It sounds more like they are in an open relationship and just aren't telling anyone.  Plus why would you want to be with someone who was so needy that they have to find someone before they are willing to leave someone else.  Come on, if a person is that scared to be alone, they have some serious problems that you don't want to have to deal with.
879823
Kind of hard to answer without knowing the specifics, and it really depends on the relationship all 3 of you have.\nI lived with my ex and his fiancee for a while, which was slightly awkward but mainly worked out OK, but that was only for a few weeks, not a permanent arrangement. I think to answer we need to know WHY you're in that situation, and what it is you need to know about it. Good luck.
386064
Do what you want to do since it seems like you're already there. Maybe there's a reason why your wife wants you to go. So then she reassured that your away from the other woman in your life. Or maybe she has a lover that she wants to spend time with. Your mistress probably doesn't want you to go cause you'll have time to think about your relationship with her and make a choice of either her or your wife, or she's scared that you'll cheat on her like you do your wife. You know how the saying goes, "Once a cheater, always a cheater". Either way ......
981082
I say she is cheating and divorce rather than separate. I have been there...my ex husband did this. It is an easy way to ask for a divorce. LL.
548735
Well I never been "the other woman" but it would seem like it is lonely especially on the holidays when he's spending time with his family and you're wishing "your man" was with you.  I couldn't see myself being with a married man and than the woman is left holding her pillow tight at night because "her man" is at home snogged with his wife. lol
963843
Typicalno answer is exactly right.I devorced one of those women.they try to control you in any way.don't let her get in you head like that.Your going to be misrable if you stay with her.
228239
No.  Think about this...\n\nShe was once in love with her husband, right?  But she's willing to cheat on her husband to be with you.  How long will it be before she is no longer in love with you and decides to find someone else?\n\nLeave her alone.  Find someone else who is 100% committed to you instead of someone in a committed relationship with someone else.
868505
It's not wrong to want her but if you're getting a divorce, u might as well sleep in different beds or better yet, one of u move out of the house.
1915
I heard today on the news radio that she put him out and they live in seperate places.\n\nAlso that he said life would be better living without her than living with her.
344630
Sounds to me like a case of"can't live with each other,can't live without each other".
1166898
Girl, both of you need to get a place of your own. Don't you know that as long as you live with her you are never gonna be your "own woman" in her place. She is always gonna blame you and take his side. She needs to stay the heck outta your business.
491505
No!... She left that was her choice... Too bad so sad for her... move one! You deserve better, and I know there are better out there...
917462
i kicked my ex out after taking to much of his controlling ways, lies and unreasonable behaviour in hope he would realise his mistakes, he acted differently for a few weeks, i took him back to discover one week after the split he jumped in bed with a nasty druggie who lived on the next street for two weeks +. we stayed together after that for almost a year but things were never the same, i wasn't turned on by him anymore as i saw him as 'dirty' which made me feel unclean. we have now permanently broke up and i can't wait to get a nice healthy sex life back on track with next man!