Should I keep on talking to my ex-boyfriend if he was the one who broke-up and now he wants to talk back?
94075
I am very good friends with 2 of my ex-boyfriends.  We have been friends for years.  They're both great people... it just turned out that we made better friends than partners.
560607
I think both of you need a serious talk. If he says his feelings decreased but he says he made a huge mistake you need to ask how he feels now. Cause if he doesn't want to be with you in that way, you're only torturing yourself by hanging out with him and talking to him on the phone. If he feels that he wants to get back together then he should tell you when both of you have your serious talk. If he says he needs to think about it and you want to wait then don't pressure him. Show interest but not insecurity. I know it would be hard to stop talking to someone that you love if it wont work out. But sometimes you need your heart to hurt a little bit so it would heal. Just keep yourself busy. If it's meant to be then it will happen. There's plenty other relationship experience's that you will go through and not all of them will work even though your certain they're the one. And yes, I'm telling you this from personal experience. Good luck...
1061664
if you really want him back go ahead and talk to him before its too late....if you don't you'll regret that too! It's completely your choice who you go out with so don't think that much about your parents.  Also when you talk to him, don't do it as "just a friend" be straight about your feelings...since you broke up with him, you should try to get him back cause he won't (men are too proud).  Good luck! =)
388439
Without you giving the whole story I can only take a shot at this one...If you broke up with him and he is still texting you, then he is in denial. He must still have feelings for you and thinks that there is still a good chance that you will want him back. When it actually starts to hit him, that you have moved on, then he may start to get more intense with these types of intrusions...just be aware that some guys get a bit nuts in this situation and that it sounds like that could be starting...he will either just give up or kick it up a notch...Now, if he was the one that broke it off...he is just trying to lay the groundwork for getting you back...But from the way you wrote your question that doesn't really seem to be the case. I just thought I would throw that in there too.\n\nNow you added details...So I guess that I was right in throwing that last little bit. So here is what you aught to do...You should act a little pissed off that he is still "bothering" you and that you just want to be left alone in order to move on. Tell him that it was hard enough when he broke it off, but now you just need some space to set yourself right and move on and with these constant reminders, you can't do so...If he is really wanting you back (and seems to me that he does), this will put the ball back into play. He should then go from there and say that he just can't stop thinking of you and really wants you back...If that is the case, and you end up taking him back, then you really need to get down to the bottom of why he broke it off in the first place. There is obviously something that you two didn't get out in the open earlier and if it doesn't get out there, then you guys would be doomed from the start of this new start...
240982
No, I don't talk to any of my ex's.. but one thing I would do is ask the ex what his intention to get in touch with oyou after so long is.  He is probably unhappy in his relationship and wants to bring you into his life for some reason.. If he was single, I would think his intentions were okay.. but since he IS in ANOTHER relationship, he needs to break up with his current GF and then pursuit hsi ex's.  Word of advice for you-- tell your current significant other!  He should know from you then ever finding out by accident.  Good luck with this sticky situation!!!
1053662
Why did you break up in the first place? How long have you known each other? How long has it been since you broke up?  Do you want him back?  These are all questions you should be asking yourself.  Then perhaps you'll know if it's right for you to pursue him again or to just forget him and move on. :)
670567
Move on is the best answer. You broke up for a reason. Always remmeber that reason.
762749
Just b/c your the one who broke things off doesn't make it any less painful for you.  You are still going to go through the "missing him" part...  Just make sure you don't go back and forth on your decision and get back together with him.  Stick to your guns.  You made your decision, now stick with it.
1177808
Well if you are broken up, you move on and don't worry about what he's doing or not doing. And if you still want to be with him even though you think he's lying to you, then you still need to move on, because you should not want to be with someone who's going to lie to you just to keep you around. You shouldn't want to be kept on the sidelines. MOVE On and make yourself happy, because if you stay with him your only going to be unhappy, worrying if he's telling u the truth or not , if he's seeing this one ot that one. \nA relationship is built on trust and you have none with him!
133365
There is not much you can do.  From experience it is best to keep your distance. It will make it easier for your ex in the long run trust me.  Cut your losses and move on before you worry about something that just takes time to heal the wounds. If you keep hanging around and continue to permit yourself to be subjected to him you could possible make it harder on yourself and get hurt in the long run.
448515
Well u went a yr,,, some people can't even go that long without wondering if they should call the ex, \n\nBut if u want to call just 2 say hi it's cool, if ur calling because ur hoping may be u can get back together with him  be prepared, it's been more then a yr he could have a girlfriend by now. And if u find that out it could hurt all 3 of u, hurt u because u were hoping u could get back with him, u her because his ex is calling after more then a yr and she'll know why your calling, hurt him because  he will having some explaining to do.\n\nSo think about it first.
180264
Well you would have to ask yourself why you broke up with him in the first place. Did you only break up with him because he moved away, and then he came back and you got back together? Or was it something that you didn’t like and couldn’t resolve? Is he the type of guy that you want to be with and is he worth the trouble. If he is, then good. Here’s what you do to resolve this issue. You tell him that you want him to do something about this other guy harassing you. Men are really easy to figure out. We're problem solvers. You just telling him about this other guy may not move him into action until you tell him it's a problem. With guys you have to be specific with what you want from us. We see a problem, we try to fix it. If we don't see a problem, we probably won't act on the situation unless we're told to do so. If you tell your boyfriend that this is a problem and you want him to do something about it, I guarantee you he will. Especially if he really cares for you.
299649
if i were you id give it a while. i mean my guy didn't do that and im still hurt, the break-up was over 2 months ago.\n(ps. im a girl) just do what you think is right.\n good luck
568152
First of all you need to tell your ex to get over himself! Hes the one that messed up therefore he shouldnt be trying to get back at you! And even if lets say you were the one to cheat first then oh well lifes tough and he needs to move on! You and the "new" guy shouldnt even pay attention to your ex. I mean he is your EX hence the word EX as in he doesnt matter anymore! You guys should just ignore him and be happy!!
914934
Unless you are absolutely insane, and want trouble, leave the ex alone.  Do not call him, do not see him.  You say he never actually cared about you, so why would you even consider talking to him.  Do not mess us a good thing!
325114
depends. do you really want to continue with whatever broke you up? usually when things are over it's best to leave it like that.
939339
You can tell your ex that you still have feelings for him....BUT it is completely up to him.  Considering the time you have been apart....he will have to be the one to decide if you two should get back together.  It is really out of your control, if he has moved on then there is NOTHING that you can do.  This is the toughest part about breakups!!!!!