What do you do if your family doesn`t like your crush?
81098
First, if you are older than 17, then the answer lies in this question; Is it your family's crush or yours?\n\nIf you are younger, then you probably need to concentrate on your school.
917461
OK, here the deal, i just did the same exact thing, only, it was like four months ago so i already resolved my problem. don't tell them that they are boring or any of that stuff. but, you do have to confront them. the most important thing when confronting them is to stay calm. just tell them that you have a different personality and that you feel more at peace with the other group. they should take that at face value. if they are still upset try the approach of getting back with that group and be yourself. it is obvious they cant stand a person who is not a clone of themselves (the thing with the hair) so, if you are original, they will not want you around. be loud, be happy, talk about boys and crushes, they will go NUTS! then, you will be free to go to the group that fits with you. either of these should work, but try the first one first. the second one is gunna be harder for you to pull of. i promise one of these will work. tell me how this all works out OK? my email is dangoman_1@yahoo.com. if you don't write, its cool, but i still want to know how you resolve this problem.
156324
If your crush doesn't like you, there is no good way to "snag" him/her.  The only way you can get them if they don't like you is by being fake and that's no way to start a relationship.
646023
I agree for the most part with TypeANegative.  I believe that your sister has a serious crush on this guy and/or wants to run away from home with him.  Have you tried talking to this guy yet?  Maybe pointing out the difficulties involved will help.  If he doesn't budge from his position, try talking to his mom, and try to explain yourself to her.  If neither of these things work, then you probably should talk to your parents if you trust them, or if worse comes to worse you can try taking it to the police.\n\n\nI think that your sister shouldn't get married unless she's mature enough. Has enough education to be a good housewife,\nHas the approval of both sets of parents, and has somewhere to live after they're married.  I seriously think that you should talk with somebody that you know and trust who has gone through something like this before, e.g. running away from home, having a crush on a guy, marrying too young, etc.\n\nIf you don't have anyone to turn to and you've tried all of these things, well, I think that you should tell your parents anyways out of love for your sister even if you get in hot water with your parents and your sister.  It'll be hard but it'll probably be better in the long run.
752487
Im wondering how old you are since your family is so against it, maybe they think it was too quick.\nYou have to go with your own feelings but listen to what the family has to say and maybe you can help them understan your point.
1017348
avoid your cousin...ignore them.  let your cousin know that you are not a doormat, and that you don't have to take it!
1033443
It is okay not to like everything in your love ones lives. This is what makes us unique. Just remember to use good manners and not show loud and rude behavior during the family game watching time. \n\nGood luck and I hope you and your family find something that you can all share in and equally love.
367730
Just be honest with yourself and your family.  If you truly love her AND you honestly believe she will never do it again...then just tell your family.  Let them know how much you care about her and if they love and trust you, they should accept her.
534982
find another crush..!
320251
There is absolutely no easy way to tell family these things.  I think it's easiest just to be honest.  Ultimately, the decision is yours not your family's.  \n\nDon't be nasty about it and say something rude.  Just ask that they give you a chance to tell them how you feel about this person.  But remember to let them share their feelings as well.
236085
Tell your brother to keep him away. If he is older like your brother & REALLY mean, then most likley he has a major, not-ok, crush on you. STAY AWAY. If he's agressive and outright mean to you, then he's got some issues. He's attracted to you and he might freak out sometime & try something WAY out of line, so tell your brother he freaks you out & just stay away, and TELL YOUR PARENTS.
503230
k first of all get a life 2nd of all GET A LIFE!! u need 2 get out more dude if ur crushen ur aunt just like tell urslef it is wrong it is almost like lookin at ur mom liek that so don't even go thier man don't even!!
643803
you should talk it over with your family and tell them why you like the person. then try to get everyone together and make minor adjustments to see if that helps. for the record family ties are very important, but you have a life of your own and you need to live it.
46922
i'm not really down for the keep it in the family thing but i'm not going to criticize you but i'm thinking that maybe you should them and see if they feel the same. but they don't react the same way don't be surprised because they probably not down with incest you know.sorry if they hurt you ok. you'll get over it eventually.
439689
Well after you get married what are they going ot do, refuse to like him still? Do what you wan't and marry who you love. This might be more of a case where you should look at your relationship with your folks and why would they not wan't you to marry the one you love.
122947
Are you really sure that you dont like the guy? even just a teeny weeny little bit? Well, then you just have to tell the truth to your parents and tell the guy to call you at home instead because the cell phone calls are really expensive. Just explain to your parents that he is only just a friend and site facts like, you know who he's currently crushing on and stuff, or tell them who your crush is so that they wont become suspicious anymore. I mean, having guy friends are perfectly normal. you are just one of the lucky girls to have an especially close guy friend that is not in any way a boyfriend.
266548
just walk up and tell him. and just say that u werent thinking befor u told them that u didnt like him.