Why is it that men seem so lackadacial when wedding preparations are being made?
96214
because men really don't care what color flowers you pick out and other girly things. Also girls have been practicing the wedding their whole lives. Planning a wedding is very stressful and I think guys just see it as another day. Women have this picture in their minds of how the wedding is supposed to be and so they don't stop until it is that way. Guys don't see this picture as it is so they don't understand how things are supposed to be.
929478
man say we get more demanding when they get married --- dont! its his lost!
260623
not all men are weak, they are just unsure how to say what they feel, men's emotions don't mature for many years beyond what their bodies do.
396600
may be he was tired from work.. talk to him, and work it out...you're getting married for goodness sakes!! Those are tiny problems compared to what you will be facing in a married life...
1147369
It's normal to be jealous. But remember the stories may have been added too.\n\nUsed to be a dancer. I found it wasn't the man to be married that got out of hand but instead his friends. \nThe groom to be was normally nice and controlled himself.\n\nJust focus on your special day and the future.
1021126
no matter how much you plan, organize and control there is something that will not go as expected.\n\nif you are too worried about what is going to go wrong you won't be able to enjoy your day.  the most important thing you should remember is that you are marrying the one you love...bask in the moment, smile and enjoy yourself.  if you can't do that you will only remember the worst that happened.
923511
Can't see why there would be.  but be considerate and say something before the wedding if you feel strongly about it.
134499
About your marriage?  It could be that he just got cold feet.  Have you tried asking him about it.  Maybe he is worried that he cannot support you.
1021652
The same way that married men do.... they are lonely and need conversation or perhaps they are sick and tired of their sexual relationship and wants something more exciting or different... but afraid to lose what they have .... especially if they are being financially taken care of...
984804
because those guys pretend to be sensitive, have you seen the movie wedding crashers...thats a good way of putting it... they just wanna get laies and they will do about anything to get ther. but at weddings people get emotionly upset, cuz 1 of their friends is happy  and getting what they want..so they will look for someone to be happy with just for the night....ya c.\nsorry if that dnt help...haha
209355
I THINK YOU SHOULD WAIT A LITTLE LONGER BEFORE YOU PLAN A WEDDING TO MUCH STUFF HAPPENS IN REALATIONSHIP LIKE THE OTHERSIDE OF THEM WILL APPEAR SLOWLY AND YOU MIGHT NOT LIKE THAT SO WAIT A LITTLE TO SEE IF YOU ARE ABSOLUETLY POSITIVE GOOD LUCK
146750
I have postponed my wedding because of factors out of our control.  It is not easy, but sometimes it is the right thing to do.  No one can tell you if he or she is the right man for you, but here is one question to start with: could you even imagine your life without him?  Is he the one that holds you up when you reach the roughest times? Do you know him well enough to commit the rest of your life here on Earth to him?  Don't plan the wedding until you know the answer to your question because marriage is meant to be a permanent sacred bond.
1120592
I don't know, why are men so confusing?
91515
It all depends on the couple. Some people may feel they have moved too fast and think they should hold off on planning a wedding just yet. Sometimes a couple who is engaged a long time may be holding off because of their job, they  are moving around and don't have time to plan a wedding right away, or they are needing to finish college. There are lots of reasons. Money is also another reason--some people may not be able to get married due to financial reasons.
1010884
I think what happens is many people get married before they realize the responsibility that this involves. Sure the wedding day is great, a big party where all of your friends bring you gifts and your the center of attention but after that, the two of you both need to make an effort at all times to keep things interesting, fun and loving. Many people are just not mature enough when they marry. I think that is the issue most of the time.
398202
If youre asking why so many men seem to be afraid of marriage? I think it's because in this day and age, we are all brought up to believe that we should get perfection, and that we shouldn't settle for just anybody and should wait and wait until the absolute perfect person comes along, so we end reasonable relatioships and re-start new ones again and again, continually searching for the right person.
266010
LUCKILY I DO NOT HAVE THIS PROBLEM. MY HUSBAND IS GREAT AT HELPING ME OUT WITH ALL THE CHORES. MOST OF THE OTHER MEN I KNEW EXPECTED THIS TO BE THE JOB OF A WOMAN. I KINDA FEEL SORRY FOR THEM.