is date rape the same as regualar rape when you have changed your mind and you tell them no, and then take U?
92999
Pretty much.  It is so very hard to prove though.
803593
What they say is true, although it's stupid.  If they catch them, of course they can try that, but you can tell them that it was self defence.  If you didn't do that, it could have been worse.  You wouldn't want to be a victim of a serious sexual crime, would you?  So you did the right thing.  You can accuse them for indecent behaviour in public if they try to accuse you for assault.
275188
Absolutely it was rape. Taking something that was not offered is wrong, he stole something from you that you did not want to give. He went ahead although you told him no and tried to push him off you. He knew it was wrong. He raped you, absolutely. The fact that you were dating does not mean he has any rights over you, he certainly did not have the right to force himself on you when you did not want to have sex with him. No means no. x
1131088
I was scared and didn't know what was happening. It hurts very much and I felt guilty. Today people would call this DATE RAPE because I didn't agree on anything. I wished I would of had a easier more caring person.
1166308
i'm all for that, BUT what happens when a girl wants to get back at a guy, and says he raped her?.. or if a girl's really leading a guy on and only once they're naked and steamy does she reject him? (ok that's still rape and VERY wrong, but i'm trying to say that there are grey areas.) there are a lot of cases where girls wrongly accuse.. some girls get forced into it by parents who can't believe their sweet lil girl would bonk someone.\n\nI believe there should be a really bad punishment, but it cant be used unless there is solid proof of rape. I say the same should go for murder and child abuse.
1108210
First and foremost, rape is rape. There is no psychological benefit to it being a woman instead of a man. I'm not sure how old you are, but I would recommend you find a decent counseler and talk it out. There is no statute of limitations on the rape hotline, and they can recommend help for you. Some places have Rape/Spouse abuse crisis centers where people who have been through these types of ordeals can help you with the steps you need to take. The second thing I want you to know is that you did nothing wrong. There is nothing you could have done that would justify the robbing of a part of your humanity, and rape does just that. I'm not sure how the law handles something like this after a year, so I can't tell you whether you can still prosecute, you'll have to talk to your state attorney general's office.\n\nGood Luck
13434
It actually works the same way as with a female, when the guy or girl says stop and the girls doesn't...that is all it takes, but a guy most likely will not come out and admit he was raped.
1070701
Is it possible for a woman to 'rape' a guy?
530968
Elaborating on a previously-discussed topic for your final exam makes sense.\n\nLet's define rape as forcing sex upon someone who doesn't want it -- either can be male or female. Let's also assume that if rape were to end, it would end for all time. Not end for ten minutes, then resume again.\n\nSince I have never been raped and future rape would be impossible, there would be no direct effect. Not to sound insensitive to rape victims, but this would be a nice relief to me.\n\nI imagine that this would affect four other groups of people -- past rapists and their victims, future rape victims who now shall never be raped and future rapists who shall be unable to perform their tragic act -- and since I surely interact with members of all groups, my life would change through my interactions with these people.\n\nWe can remove from consideration those who have never been raped but would be raped in the future, but now shall not, because rape has ended, as well as their rapists, because they will all live unaffected by this tragedy (thankfully).\n\nSo it comes down to the changes in previous rape victims and their rapists, and how my interactions with them would change me.\n\nI simply do not know how this would affect victims of past rape, so I do not know how this would affect me.\n\n---\n\nIt's also possible to assume that rape would end because ALL sex would end (a sure-fire way to end rape is to simply end sex, yes?). In this manner, there would probably be more bitter people in this world, which would surely make me more upset (esp. after not having any sex). In the long run, there'd probably be even fewer people to interact with, assuming there's no alternative method of procreation utilized or created.
964899
i think u may faced a try of rape from someone to u \nor a friend to u faced rape \ni agree with u , u have to take ur causion \ni think that is all because of movies and news that show rape and murder to people \nits the effect of media and some idiots who do crimes\nwhatever its hard to overcome it because u have to take ur causion
212575
Rape has nothing to do with love.  It has only to do with power and control.  Please find someone that you can talk to about this.  Do not keep this bottled up inside.  It can destroy your future relationships.  Good Luck!
19308
i believe that the difference is that rape involves penetration. molestation is just touching without permission. either way its a police matter and they should be consulted
1056040
no, dont go into a relationship thinking you can try to change someone
439917
If anyone makes a sexual move on you without your consent, whether it is boyfriend or husband, it is sexual abuse. It may even be considered rape in the right circumstances. \n\nIt is big. It is disrespect at it's lowest form and a felony at it's highest form
512796
Think date rape is something we in the modern world have created.  Not much history in taking a girl out that trust you and likes you, would after a while freely give herself to you most likely and then destroy her faith in you and her trust in men in general by forcing her into sex one time.  The drugs guys are using for this purpose, they think the girl will not remember, but it's been proven that almost 80% do, and the deaths that come from the allergic reactions, the overdose's, and the just stupid mistakes to me are worthy of the death chamber.
973176
He raped you. I'm very sorry that happened to you. You were not able to give consent, because you were drunk. Sex without consent is rape. Read this:\nhttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape\n\nGo to the doctor or hospital, see if you can get the morning after pill to prevent pregnancy. If it's too late, then I hope you are not pregnant. Also get tested for STDs (aka STIs). You should go to the police and tell them what happened, that he raped you.\n\nThis is a VERY BAD MAN. Do not see him again!\n\nI'm not saying that it is your fault, but in the future, do not allow yourself to be in that situation. If you want to get drunk, get drunk with your girlfriends, or at home. Don't get drunk at a guy's house, it's not safe.\n\nI hope you are not pregnant, and I'm very sorry you were raped.
801420
Yes.  The definition of rape is being forced to have sex.  Doesn't pertain only to certain people, but to all people.