How can I get guys to like me?
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... said she with a STRAIGHT FACE....\n\n\nFile this under:\nIt must be PURE HELL to be 8 years old...
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A few things come to mind reading your dilemma.  If you're actively trying to get guys' attention and it's not happening, then yes, you're obviously doing something wrong.  That's good news!  You can change your own errors easily enough.  If you were doing everything right and it still wasn't working...well, then you've got a problem because you can't change other people.\n\nAppearance and hygiene are critical.  You want a guy of quality?  You better fix yourself up to get him.  Learn to be impeccable in all you do.  That's the easy, shallow part (but books ARE judged by their cover.  Part of life, deal with it).\n\nIs there something wrong with your personality?  Like someone else asked, "are you rude?"  Also, how's your sense of humor?  Your ambition?  These are all things that can drive decent people away from you.  Be optimistic and outgoing as much as you can be.\n\nFinally, just get your butt out there and enjoy yourself.  As a discriminating man, I can tell you that the girls I've really enjoyed in my life were always the ones who were simply fun to be around.  Hell, find guys that you are attracted to and flat out ask them what they look for in a girl.  You'll learn more in a 5 minute conversation than you will asking online.  Good luck, girl.
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nope, not too much to ask. im a decent guy trying to meet people online too.  so dont worry, we're out there. \nas far as attracting a guy, make sure you are as attractive as possible, and i dont mean that to sound as shallow as it does. you have few enough opportunities, and you dont want one to pass you by because you didnt make a good first impression.  guys are physical, sad but true. after that though, make sure that you are interesting. i hate girls that are ignorant of the whole world. they are boring.  so read, keep up to date, know whats going on. have well thought out opinions.  \nwhen you feel jaded try to remember that people are often hard wired to act the way they do. its not an excuse for bad behavior.  but often people are just going through their lives sort of oblivious to the actions they are taking. there is romance out there.  there are men who have honor and kindness and decency.  its just that girls tend to go for bad boys, so we have to act like jackasses to attract any.  find the guys who have accomplished difficult tasks, who are working hard to improve themselves.  who think before they speak, and can backup what they say with intelligent reason.  were out there. good luck!
200294
Just be yourself!! That works for me. If you've already tried that, go on to another guy. If they can't like you for who you are you don't need them, girlfriend!!
545956
Are you a shy geek?\nFirst rule, you shouldn't care about other men, and shouldn't care about being shy.\nSecond, how many beautiful girls in your class?  If it's only one, then, your chance are very slim because it's mathematical probability.  If your chance are very slim, you should forget it and get the average girl in your classroom.\nThird, the only way to make girl to like you is to know how to talk to her.  You need to master of conversation with girls. Girls like to talk about themselves and you need to make her laugh with funny stories.\nYou also need to smile a lot.\nYou need to have confidence and self-esteem. \nFourth, you can watch and learn from movies like Hitch or 40 year old virgin.
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Getting a guy to notice or like you involves the use of basic social skills. You should be honest, direct, pleasant, and reasonable. If you really like a guy, but you haven't really talked to him - you're dying to, but you're too scared - here are some tips to help you say hello. \n\nSteps \nGet a new look. Don't change who you are, just try something different. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. \n\nBe yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it's true! No guy wants a girl to pretend she is something she's not. \n\nDon't cuss. It turns guys off most of the time. \n\nSmile. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. It'll say to everyone, "Wow, she's a nice person!" \n\nFlirt a little - not like crazy, but a little bit here and there. \n\nTry to be around him often, such as sitting near him. \n\nShow off a little when you're around your friends, but not a lot because then he might think you're just silly. \n\nTry to make lots of eye contact - and when you do, smile! (Guys \noften don't look at girls in the eyes, so looking into theirs when they're talking shows them that you are interested in them). \n\nGo up to him and talk to him. Try to get to know him a little by discussing things you have in common. You could even compliment him. Even if you just say he has a nice shirt or a cool watch; it shows him that you're into him. \n\nTell him how you really feel about him once you get comfortable talking together. \n\nBe a brave person and stand up for who you are, and what you believe in. This will catch his attention, and his respect. \n\nTips \nDon't change yourself too much. \n\nA good way to start a conversation is to ask him a question - \nsomething about an interest you might have in common, or even what the time is. Make sure you hide your watch! \n\nSit close to him an touch him on his arm to show him you're interested. \n\nListen to him and don't interrupt him when he is talking. That makes them really annoyed and it's rude! \n\nAct confident but try not to seem stuck up. \n'Bad clothes' are those old pants you used for painting the fence and the sweatshirt with the pony on it. \n\nAsk him out if you're sure he's interested. Most boys love it when girls ask them out. \n\nConsider helping him out with other things like homework and social problems. \n\nWarnings \nNo guy likes a person who is snobby. \n\nIf he tries to do anything you're not comfortable with, tell him that you are not ready for that stuff yet. If he's cool with that, great. If not, then he's not really the nice guy you thought he was. \n\nDon't wear bad clothes when you decide to be brave and walk up to your man. \n\nMake sure to brush your teeth! \n\nBe sure to have gum, breath mints, listerine strips, etc. around in case you need to freshen up quickly. \n\nDon't tell him lies. \n\nIf the guy is a jerk, but you find him attractive, don't let him take advantage of you. Find out more about him before you let things get too serious. \n\nYou can't get everyone to notice you. You cannot get everyone to like you all the time!
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be yourself.....don't be fake , don't try to be someone your not.. find a guy  that likes doing the same stuff you like...what ever your hobbies are try to find a guy that would like the same stuff..
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when you like a guy the first thing you do is smile alot when he's in the room.\nthat's when most girls look the prettiest!\nsmile alot and there's nothing better than being yourself!\nbe your self truly and try to make conversation and guys like it the guys i've been out with like compliments so compliment on what their wearing or how they wear their hair it always works!\ntrust me smile alot that's how i got my boyfriend.
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Just totally be yourself and let them come to you ;)\n\nDon't be someone else just to get the guy... And don't do anything stupid either... you WILL regret it\n\nJust remember... you want a healthy relationship
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1. find a guy you like\n2. get his attention ( walk past him and give a little look back, sqeeze past him in corridors buses wherever)\n3. when you have his attention seem like you dont really want it, (he'll try harder)\n4.ask your friends and his friends to meet up for a night out\n5. dance your arse off, act like you can have any one , but no your gonna chose him (male pride and all that)\n\na lot of ahrd work i know but fun as you go along
200918
TALK TO SMART GUYS.... this way both benefits from each other, you learn and they get to be seen with you [assuming you are good looking and that is the reason guys are nice to you]\n\nnote: this only works if you are smart.
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you're such a cutie pie.\n\nboys will like you... just relax sweety, they will come
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just be yourself...honestly...you can dress differently and all that crap...but if you see a guy you like just hit on him..because guys feel the same way about girls...every feeling you have alot of guys feel the exact same way...girls are confusing..I cant tell if she likes me...except guys have to buckle down and get some confidence or else they wont ever get anything...just be yourself...because you can dress differently and all that..but all that does is attract certain kinds of attention that you probably dont even want..and the guys...I know you definitely dont want.
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If you think a girl has to ask a guy, "do you like me?" to any guy --- You are living in the stone age! If you are good looking, with muscle or no muscle the most important part of who you are is your personality. Personality usually reflects  an  individuals self confidence, sense of humor, intelligence & kindness to name a few traits. At 16 perhaps the girls are interested perhaps not. The best thing for you do do is to approach them in a freindly manner, ask to include yourself to join them for lunch and then just be yourself. It's best to introduce yourself and show genuine interest in getting to know them. Most of them probably have brothers so they won't treat you like you have kooties! Regardless of age, or how may muscles a person has it's best not to try to interpret other peoples reactions or lack thereof to you. Most people are inside their own heads working through their own stuff. If you want someone to  "like" you--- give them a few reasons to like you! Start by being friendly and complimentary. Always be real.
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You can't make a guy like you. Don't worry one will come along eventually and will like you for the person  you are. I'm guessing you're young, and hate to break it to you but love doesn't happen early in life for everyone. Just be yourself, and enjoy being young for as long as you can.
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This is a tough one, but the best thing you can do is to try not to worry about it.  THAT'S really what guys like.  I know, I know, that seems impossible.  But if you put your focus on other interests, like joining the yearbook staff, or whatever, you'll get to know guys in a setting where you have a common interest.  If they sense you're trying to get them to like you, they automatically don't.  It's one of life's big bummers.  :(  You have to become the amazing woman you can be, focusing on yourself, not on them, and then they flock to you.
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you cant actually make someone like you . most of the time girls try to make themselves someone there not dont do that. if you really want a guy to like be yourself. if this guy has sisters or something try to befriend them theyll sort of introduce you to him and then you might want to dress yourself up a little, dont overdo it, and be the sweet kind person you are.\nDont throw yourself at him either because then hell think your easy and he'll just want to get in your pants.