I love this boy who has a GF, but he says he loves me back and I don't know what to do...what do i do??
82464
If he doesn't love you enough to be with you and only you regardless of anyone elses feelings then this isn't really love.  He is just being a player and your his girl on the side.  Nothing can stop two people who really love each other from being with each other and only each other.
671764
If you love him and he loves you then don't worry about it! Just be yourself, and if he doesn't love you for you then don't worry about loosing him!!
474007
Talk to him about his g/f.He has to resolve the question about dating her.He is not the onlyone who has to think.You should think too.Do you realy have some feelings about him(like loving him).All my friends are boys and I love those guys only like friends.We all have the same taste but it doesn`t make any sence(well except for our friendship-it`s easyer).Sometimes people horrey too much.
755156
i think you just came out of an abusive relationship and you need some affection which this guy might be giving..lets not forget that this guy is perfect yes but he has a gf ...whether you think you want to pursue this relationship or not its best to let it go...he seems like he likes you but then he has a gf...honey he is confused as you are...just figure stuff out and be his friend for now and you need time after a breakup to regain your independence...now if he breaks up with her and you found yourself feeling great and you feel good then you might want to see if you want to pursue this but for now just chill take a load find yourself and regain your composure ...take it one day at a time no need to rush into something that might be complicated for you at this point in your life....
234939
Two things you should be aware of:\n\n1/ He has a GIRLFRIEND. Which means he is off the market. if you have the patience, be his friend for now and don't make any moves unless he is single again. Otherwise, stop wasting time and MOVE ON.\n\n2/ He loves you and likes his girlfriend? Are you sure? If he loves you and only likes his girlfriend then you would've been his girlfriend not the other way around. And if he were truely in love with EITHER one of you, he would be only with one of you girls instead of playing around with both of you. True love is always a 1 on 1 thing. If anyone ever says he/she likes you AND someone else, it's always a lie. So it's up to you if you want to be with someone who is capable of "loving" multiple girls simultaneously.
672936
talk to him. you love him whatever the decision is. i think it is important you two make up your minds first. does he want to stay with his girlfriend and why is it that the two of you always end up together. easy answer i guess. but does it make sense to give in every time you meet? do you want to progress - or do you love him and want to know better..? last but not least.. just enjoy that there's someone special like this boy in your life. guess he will be there always whatever your decision. good luck.
764904
Give her a little time. It sounds like she must be really confused right now. If she truly loves you she will call you and come back to you. If not you will just have to find the strength to move on. But I would say form what you have said that she is a very confused girl right now. Give her some time to get things straightened out in her head. As long as she is confused things will never work out.Good luck to you cause it sounds like you care an awful lot about this girl.
278377
Hello,\nWell u are somewhat luckier than me. I loved a girl and when she found out, she stopped speaking to me, and till date she avoids me.\nI suggest you tell him frankly and truthfully about your feelings for him. He will either say yes or no. If yes, then I expect to be chosen as best answer (haha, joking), but if no, then you just have to face it. It wont be the end of the world trust me. U can still have him as a friend. I dont think he will react like the girl I loved. \nRelax, love takes time, if he says no, then u should still be nice and friendly to him, and he will fall in love with you. \nAll the best!!!!!!!!
455411
if ur shure he isnt all into his gf, ask him to chill, or hang out.\n\nkeep doing this and then he will find out that he has more fun with u than his gf, and u will soon go out, but give it some time
478810
Because he wants to be with his girlfriend more. Move on because you deserve all the love someone can give you.
737710
Dont get back with him.  First off if you are young you could possibly fall in love a number of times.  Each relationship your learn from the previous one.  Find someone who will respect you and want a one on one relationship.  The relationship will only work if both people are on the same page.  If he really loved you he wouldnt be hanging out with other girls.  I think he isnt mature enough to handle a relationship with you.  You appear ready to move on and i think he feels threatened by you, because he always had you to fall back on .  THe hurt will got away, unfortunately it just takes time:)
222584
Ha ha ha, it's seems like I know u. Well I have the same situation, my BF always tells me that he loves me and I tell him "i like u and trust u, but i dont' love u yet". U know why i say so, i say it cuz I want to be sure in him, i love him but i don't want him to know that. Also I don't want to loose my best friend him. So that's my situation and I am sure that ur GF feels the same. JUst letting u to know she really loves u and know that she will be ur 4ever. but lemme give ya an advice: take care of her and be patient, don't loose her. Like I always say " love doesn't last 4ever, it becomes to be a trust" And in ur situation u already got the trust which is love as well!!!!
331510
try to keep your distance...she is taken already...it's not wise to love a girl with a bf...
635786
It sounds like you need to talk to your man. Tell him exactly how you feel and ask him where do I stand in this relationship? Then come right out and say Do you still love me?
591539
I wouldn't do anything right now.  You've told him how you feel.  You have to give him some time.  I'm sure he still loves you too.  You both need to be sure that you are in love not that you just love each other and are used to being together.  I wish you the best!
1134373
i think you should talk to your girl friend about this and tell her you love her and you dont want any thing to happed to this relationship good luck
81088
my god if your my boy i kinda love you!!!wel,simply show her all the things you are good at..or you can simply be your self..girls are impress even if you do noyhing,,if shes inlove with you too..