My friend won't stop?
83448
You know sometimes many people go through this phase of life when they don't want to let go.  But it is unhealthy to just sit and weep over something that is gone and will not return.  Maybe he needs a little help with his situation.  You are his friend, talk with him and let him know how is devastation is bringing everyone else down.
195805
Tell him your opinion.  Get it out.  Then leave him to make his own decisions.  Plenty of people smoke that stuff and even more do not.  We can live together in harmony.  If you don't want anything to do with him because he smokes then stay away.  A true friend will express their thoughts, but they will never try to control you.  Be a good friend.
366239
Talk to him and if he doesn't stop... get rid of him. Believe me, I've seen what it can do, not pretty!
1165054
You have to sit down with your friend and have a long serious talk with her and tell her how much your nervous for her because of what she is doing and how she can get hurt from all her negative actions.You shouldn't try to make her feel guilty by saying you'll start cutting again because that won't help and it won't persuade her because  she'll just say she has the right to get high as much as you do cutting.Let her know that if she doesn't get rid of her habbits that you don't feel comfortable with her having she could lose you as a friend.Don't get mad at her or yell be calm and be the best possible friend that you can and motivate her into becoming something better and hopefully she will reconsider.If she doesn't listen to you,you must tell an adult you trust and they can take it from there.
633023
It will not stop him.
640817
Ask her to stop.  That's pretty much all you an do.  Either she respects you enough to listen or not.
64895
you can't get a guy to break his habits if he doesn't want to.  you're not keeper so therefore you  can't make him stop.
620018
Your not a bad friend your a great friend! He will never shape up and be the man he needs to be. besides that hes not even a man yet he is still a kid, and he is headed no where fast. But please don't give up on your friend because she needs you. She may not know it now but she'll see. Just be there when she needs you and no i told you so. Because believe me she already knows.
573197
Just keep being her friend.  Keep trying to encourage her.  Do the best you can.  You might not be able to change her, but in the future she will look back and realize how kind and helpful you were.  Stay with her.  And good job!  It's wonderful that you are concerned about her!
147726
Just keep being there for her.  He is obviously controlling and sounds like he may be abusive.  She should seek some type of counselling to find out why she would stay with someone who controls everything she does.  In the meantime, she needs friends like you who are understanding and are there for her.  Keep seeing her and trying to get her to seek help.  You're a good friend.
871739
Sounds like he's playing with both of you. let your friend have this guy and you find someone else. She'll get kicked to the kerb sooner or later...might be what she deserves!
186277
stay with this crazy friend of yours and dont let him do anything stupid, and tell him i said to get over it, move on and find someone better.  Think of it this way, if she was all he had, he has nowhere to go but up.
34786
You must know why she say that, maybe you make something wrong with her.if she insiste to stop your friendship trya to understand why in order not to repeat the same mistakes with another
310810
well, try talking to her.  if she won't let you, then dont worry about her. if she's a true friend, she'll want to hear your side of the story. if she's true, she'll come back to you. if she doesnt, oh well. get a new friend.
142762
Is it your friend? Keep asking her why she's mad.\n\nIs it just 'some girl'? Forget about her. :/
860551
Ok..you need to talk to them. Ask them why they have such a problem w/ you. Tell them that youre not talking to the devil & thats crazy anyways. Tell them that you have asthama & would never encourage your friend to do something that would hurt them in the long run. Tell them that youre actually trying to make her stop. Theres nothing you can do if they dont listen then. Even have your friend be there to help discuss so she can back you up on it. Good luck hun.
782444
Sorry, but you can't stop it. It's not your problem. It's theirs! Blow it off and live your life your way!