this is for the ladies how do you make a lady thats feels not loved and special feel loved and special?
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A woman suffering from low self esteem and confidence is a hard one to pick up when they are feeling down. All you can do is tell her how much you love her and what she means to you. Gifts are not going to help, as material items can not give confidence. You could do little things to help her out, maybe send her flowers at work but the most important thing you can do is be there to offer compliments and encouragement. Find a hobby to do together that will enable her to use some of her skills she is good at. Make compliments about both her beauty as well as her skills. Good luck, it is hard to make someone feel good about themselves when they aren't ready to. She has to learn to accept herself for who she is, change the things that she has control over, and be happy with her self. She has to be at peace with herself, or she will never believe the compilments given to her. She has to do that for her self. Best of Luck.
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Dear Friend,  A woman is going to love you, ONLY if she feels it in her heart. You can impress her and make her have good feelings and thoughts about you, but you can't make another person love you. They have to feel that all on their own.
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if u want the perfect girl u have to be the perfect man they want. buy flowers and not on just specail events anytime if she works ask if u can give her a back rub the way into a girls heart is the smallest things u do to make her feel good show her that ur a man and not a boy good luck with the ladies ur friend miss
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Treat your love like they are the most important treasure in the world. Make them feel needed and necessary. Put their needs before your own.......love them with ease. Laugh with them.....share with them. Don't hover and smother......embrace and celebrate!
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Cook a nice romantic meal and tell him you love him. Look him in the eye when you tell him. Tell him the things about him that you love so much. Share a good bottle of wine with him. Finish off by giving him a nice gentle foot massage. We men don't need much to feel appreciated. It's the simple things that mean most to us. It's more important to us to see the smile on your face and the love in your eyes than any grand gesture. Like women, we want to be loved and you wanting to spend time with us is more than enough to please us! Have a wonderful evening!
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Hold her,Kiss her, tell her much you appreciate her. Make her dinner. Call her just to tell her you love her. Give her affection other than sexual.Touch her hair,rub on her,give her a foot massage.Sometimes it is the little things you do that are the most important.When you walk around hold her hand to show the world and her how much she means to you. When you hold her, hold her tight. Tell her how you feel about her everytime you think about it. She will see the devotion and she'll love it.p.s-don't smother her, that gets scary. I don't know how long you have been with this lady,,but it was nice to see you called her a lady. Treat her like you call her.
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A special day with her. Do whatever she wants to do. Be supportive and make it fun! Make her feel like a princess for a day and she'll thank you forever!
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be kind to her,become her friend and win her turst.\nand eventualy she'll be bound to she how much you care for her.\nand maybe feel the same way you do.
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Don't believe you're simple. That won't work. YOU ARE SPECIAL. Feel that and own it, just be yourself. MAke people around you feel special too. Be interested in them and what they've got going on. Just have fun! People are drawn to fun girls!
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Just tell her you appreciate her feelings but unfortunately you do not feel the same way.  Treat her like you would want to be treated if the roles were reversed
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hi there. \nfirst you treat to her like friends and always thinking in your mine she is best\nsecond try to know what she want?, and what is her problem?. help her when her need, listenning what her say...\nand then. when you feel she be in love with you, you should say I LOVE YOU
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Smile and project warmth and affection. Listen to what she says and try to not get too excited. Dont forget to smile warmly.
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remember the first time all that really matters is the love you feel dont try to feel PLEASURE yet \n\nite all about the love you guy share
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here is the deal...every girl is different and has different pleasures which can turn them on. I personally enjoy a calming back massage with aromatheropy oils and a bedroom filled with scented candles and a bouquet a fresh flowers. I know that this can not be done everytime you want her in the mood, but the sense of knowing just how much the guy loves you is overwhelming when he goes to such a high degree to see a smile on your face. Remember...the small gestures are the things that matter in life, so get her something small and from the heart. Something that reminds you of a date or moment the two of you had together
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*Call her just to "check on her"\n*Tell her she's beautiful (not sexy, fine or hot beacuse those sound to physical)\n*Give her random homemade gifts like poetry, handmade card, or flower petals.\n*Tell her she is special\n*Tell her how happy she makes you and that you respect her.(very crucial)
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You mentioned many good things to not only impress a woman but to keep her satisfied materialistically. However, in my experience, when a woman says that you don't care about her feelings that usually means she feels that you don't listen to or try to help her with her problems or you don't ask for or respect her opinions. Both of these will require you to work on your listening skills. In the case of her problems she may only require someone to listen to her, if you have any advice, guidance or help to give then by all means give it. If not, then let her know that you will be there for her if she needs something from you. In the case of her opinions not only will you have to ask for them but also do what she wants to do, even when you don't want to.\nGifts, trips, dates, these are all things that all women want, but they are far from ways that show that you care. Listening, offering your service, and respecting her opinion are but some of the ways to show a woman that you care about her feelings.
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to make her happy, accompany her for the last day with her if u can't talk her out of going away. accompany her to do all the things she loves. u don't need to spend great amount of money just to make someone happy. wat makes a person happy is that they are able to feel accpeted and loved by the person htey loved and care and accepted.\ndo wat u usually do. have some chit-chat, go to some quiet peaceful place to relax.spend the entire day with her. buy her breakfast, lunch and dinner. insist on paying for the meals as she has been a very very good friend to u and u have nothing to give except love, care and these last 3 meals. pls don't say anything wrong or stupid cause she would leave with a broken heart. make her feel just for once that she is special. let her feel that she is being loved and cared for. let her feel that she have at least u to depend on for everything!! \n\nlast but not least, i wish u good luck tommorow and try to have fun at least.\nGOOOD LUCK!!!