what do I say to my sons dad?
86020
screw him,he doesn't diserve nothing,he should be hanged in front of a public,that pig
1057281
Happy Father's Day!  I like the idea of asking him.  Even though it is your day, ask him if he knows a good activity/place for celebrating Father's Day.  If he picks a place that is totally for him, ask him if that is something a father would enjoy.  Or, go to his place first, then tell him about yours.  Another option would be to pick somewhere that the two of you can be alone.  Enjoy the time you have together before he grows up.  (and he becomes too cool to hang out with his father or becomes too busy)  I like the kayak idea.
706068
i should not say this but this the only way. say your child that he is not your son . then see his mood . he will be cryying. then also dont care about . say to him that if he will say to his friend or any one about it you will leave him in lulu center and come . then after 4 days see his mood he will be in upset that day night you say him that he is your own son . then he will slepp happily .then say him that never be naughty and listen to  her .ok
569325
Ever heard the saying:\nWhat you thought you heard me say was not actually what I said?\nI think maybe, in your own excitement for getting this honor, you felt disappointed that he didn't seem as happy as you were? Because truth be told: YOU DID GOOD!!! 2nd place at ANYTHING is nothing to sneeze at (as they say!).\nPerhaps your Dad, as mine, is a perfectionist...and negative to boot: THAT CAN put a damper on ANYTHING!\nMaybe you can show him how MATURE you REALLY ARE by saying something like:\n'I see what you mean about all this Dad and thanks for caring so much!'\nIt just MIGHT make a difference!!\nAlso, does he have any suggestions to how you can go about being more serious (in his eyes) with these other things?\nSometimes, as the Bible says: 'a soft answer turns away wrath' And that is so true!\nMaybe asking him gently what EXACTLY you could do to make him proud of you would do the trick?\nIn the meantime, CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR HONORS!!\nGiant hugs,\nMarlene
1092651
ill ask my son about that
1140545
What a Dad the most important information you can give out is your opinion. But Dad have you ever thought about sitting down and having a talk with your daughter? I know it is a hard thing to do. But in the end the discussion is well worth it. Feed her brain with knowledge and trust her. If you raised her right you have no worries. I wish my dad would have talked to me earlier about that. But you know what I would not change my life lessons for the world. The choices we make today are the ones we live with.  The best thing a father could do. Is hug your daughter tell her you love her and arm her with knowledge. Hold you head high Dad you have good intentions.
855017
He's obviously an @ss, I would get some psychological help for your son as soon as possible so he doesn't end up with abandonment issues and blaming himself for his biological (only) father not wanting to see him. Good riddance to him, sorry for you and your son.
905796
Little boys with big hearts!\n\nCongratulations to your son.
32882
I would say try to make it work if you can, it sounds that he is good for your kid.\nDId you loved eachother at apoint?\nIf there is no other way just talk to him
820525
I think you should do what is best for u and ur child. if he is a good father, and treats you well, and you LOVE him, you should be hopeful. If he isn't any of those, tell him ur  glad he's in ur life, but you'll never be together again.
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I am sorry to hear about your father. I will pray for him and you. Now to your question, if your feel the need to see him or contact him then do it. You may not get the response you want so be aware of that. If there is something you have to say to him do it. Even write it out. I am a life coach, if you wish to email me i wll talk more. speakingforlove @ yahoo.com
154794
I just wanted to say, Im sorry, and please go be with him and tell your dad everything you never did. My thoughts are with you and your dad. Peace to you both.
812786
The best thing is to be honest with your son.  He's probably going to be very upset but just continue to be supportive of him.  It sounds like you are doing all the right things (not bashing Dad, have him in counseling, etc.) and you are a good mom.  Just be honest and there for him.  He will make it through.
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I don't know your situation, can you just talk with your father and say "dad,pop,father whatever you call him, I need your support"?  \n\n without yelling at him just try talking in calm voices and if he raises his try not raising yours but speak in a calm voice, sometimes people get in the habit of being loud and it takes one of them trying to remain calm to break that cycle.
52997
My father was killed 3 months ago and I didn't get the chance to tell him anything.  You are lucky that you have the chance to make amends.  Please don't under estimate the power of heartfelt words.  Sometimes you need to swallow your pride and be the first to initiate an apology or a conversation.  I regret everyday of my life that I was not there when my dad died.  I torture myself with the what ifs... and if onlys.  I wish I was lucky enough to have one more moment to tell him how much I love him and what a great man he was.  I don't have that chance, but you do.  Please don't waste it.
308992
tell him the truth in a respectable fashion and decide on a way to continue to share the responsibilities of raising your children TOGETHER.
65009
I would have to agree with some of the previous answers to a certain degree.  Just in case you haven't done this, try: \n\n-Saying exactly what you want (i.e. our child is ill, our child needs some medicine) \n-Calm down and simply try to say it a little sweeter because you sound really pissed right now\n- Make it an urgent call and be sure to say that it is extremely inportant that he calls back ASAP \n\nJust some ideas.  It sounds like you and your child's father do not get along which could be the reason why he has not called back yet.  Remember that your feelings don't matter- JUST THE CHILD'S! Sometimes you will have these problems and you have to remember that you can only control you and your child.  If he does not want to talk to you then let it be. \n\nI wish you all the best!