should i break up with my boyfriend hes really jealous?
93666
Yes, if he can't trust you,you can never have a good relationship.
683393
A lot of guys have jealousy problems and it stems from a low self esteem, regardless of what they say. He's jealous because he thinks he is unable to hold on to you and he wants to kiss and cuddle to reassure himself that you are there for him...but remember he has the problem and dont let him put it on you. You have to let him know how hard his jealousy and low self esteem is on your relationship and explain to him that although you care for him that you arent going to keep up the reassurance any longer. I dont mean dont say nice things to him but dont coddle him. Let him know that he has to stand up on his own without your help....Carrying 2 people will eventually be more than you can handle. Good luck.
208568
Well before you do anything you need to get your life in order and become self sufficiant.  Because if you break it off now he might just leave you to fend for your self and you don't sound prepared for that.  Ultimately though, yes, you need to find a better relationship than this one.
394531
Girl, jealousy is an emotion everybody has just like anger or being happy.  Some people control it better or know how to not show their jealous feelings and others don't do so well.  You should communicate with him and make sure to let him know that you are feeling a little jealous and maybe insecure.  However, don't worry about it unless he is working past hours, or days when he should not be working.  Remember be happy, stay healthy and live life to the fullest.
887864
If you want to break up with him, do so. But you shouldn't try to keep what isn't yours. This will only make you an enemy for life and potentially drive him to do something bad to you.
243831
Your best bet it to dump him before he hurts you because of his jealously. No one should control you like that. Also he could have a guilty conplex for something he is doing behind your back.
266959
Just do it and get it over with. Why do you want to break up if you love him so much?
739542
you need to bring it up, because if it hruts yo uand he doesnt knowthat it was an honest mistake it just may keep happening. i think the best thing to do it to sit him down and tell him thats your not being jealous and you understand how much they mean to you. yo ujust felt kinda bad that you had plans and they were broken, and yo uwere uncomfortable with her making it just so he goes you trust him, but you dont want to make him uncomfortable so you seem jealous. but the best relationship is based on trust and honesty and if he knows how you feel, hopefully it wont happen agian. let me knowif you need anything
777508
Honestly if this is the only reason you want to break up with your boyfriend, you might be the one who has to work through some issues.  What makes you so insecure around these people?  Do you think he will cheat on you?  Do you think you could possibly become friends with them as well?  If you don't think you can handle your boyfriend having friends of the opposite sex, you might want to end the relationship.  However if you truly love him and you trust he won't cheat on you with these friends, you need to get past the insecurities.  Best of luck to you.
700216
Break up and find a different boyfriend.  By staying , you're encouraging him to stay the way he is.
321434
I would have to say that this guy isnt worth investing any more time into.  He breaks up with you because he knows you'll be there when he comes back.  \nYou need to break it off with him and work on your self esteem because Im sure you are a great girl and can do alot better.
374552
Seems to me the best way to address the situation is to be forthright and talk to him about your concerns.  If your decision is to move on to find someone more accessible to you, then say that.  There is no real way to break up with someone that won't result in hurt feelings.  But to be true to yourself and the most fair to your boyfriend, tell him how you feel and what you want.  Personally, I would recommend doing it face to face, even though it may be uncomfortable.  You may want to continue seeing one another after talking about it, but if it does end, be able to step away knowing that in the long run it may be the best thing for your both.
28559
Don't stay with him if he is the jealous type. They are very dangerous.
721181
Tell him straight and dont frequent anywhere you know he will be and if he keeps appearing and harrassing you it would be wise to take out an AVO.  It is proven that jealouss boyfriends do become violent if they can't get what they want so don't muck around get rid of him today.
977163
As hard as it is, you have to avoid getting jealous.  He's dating YOU not her.  He broke up with her and chose to date YOU.  If he really wanted to be with her, he could break up with you.  At the same time, it's probably not a bad idea to tell him that you're a little comfortable that they're still so close.  If he respects you, he'll understand and try to make you feel better.  Good luck!
943667
Sounds like he has big trust issues, you should talk to him about your concerns, if not I would walk away..... Jealously can lead to violence
694614
Dump him first and keep your self respect. You cant force him not to break up with you and if you are wrong then he will tell you.