I was messing with a guy we really liked each other but he was to short so I broke it off was that wrong?
80041
If you like him get back with him being short is just a minor detail, there is no such thing as the perfect guy, so if him being short is the only thing wrong with him, then you are doing good. But, he may not want anything to do with you because he might think your shallow.
266589
if you "truly love him" and he is your "best friend" then his height or anything else about him wouldn't matter at all. things like that shouldn't affect a relationship and if it does well then it's probably not everything you really thought it was/is. kissing someone should be special, not weird.
996779
I totally understand where you're coming from. I am not at all attracted to short men. I like my men tall. My b/f is 6'6" but he's not the greatest of boyfriends. However, if your boyfriend is a great guy, then don't dump him for superficial reasons. You did say boyfriend, not some nice guy that's interested in you. There is a reason you made him your boyfriend, think back to reasons and consider is it really worth losing a great guy because he's lacking a few inches. Looks come and go, but great chemistry is something that will make a relationship work. Hope this helps some.
321474
Well, if I understand what you're trying to ask...I let this guy, who I could care less about, fall for me, then I let him down...harshly.  I didn't regret it until someone did the same to me.  I'll never play with anyone's emotions like that again. It's not cool.
579976
you are just giving him space, not breaking up with him.  you shouldn't get with this other guy.  i would consider that cheating.
512604
you're not short,just smaller than some other guys. Don't worry. i can't help on the other parts,sorry.  But keep in mind the saying,the best things come in small packages : )
1128914
how does he react to this?  does he take it all in fun or does he get seriously insulted?  sounds like you might be a bit bothered by his "shortness"
260094
he could've really meant it in a good way - saying u have a lot of a$$. (and guys love a lot of a$$) and im sure if he didn't like ur a$$ - or if u didnt have enough a$$ - then he prolly wouldn't even be with u. but if u decide to forgive him and stay with him - then just make sure he doesn't verbally or emotionally abuse you. if he does then u dump him without hesitation!
349243
this has happend to me before as well. i stopped all contact with this person. i dont think you should have to put up with a guy who plays games. if someone trully likes you, they would have called. sounds like he is lying about tyring to reach you. let me just say i didnt regret once, letting that guy go. and my life has been less complicated since.
732073
You obviously waited too long and another girl took the opportunity and swept him off his feet. Its ok though, you're just gonna have to act faster and not be hesitant next time. I know this from experience and I know how it feels when you like somebody and they like you but then someone else comes along. Plus, he may still have feelings for you and if his current relationship doesn't work out, you know what to do.......
788266
He is a jerk... and he was trying to play you. I suggest you move on and find another cutie that doesn't lie and treats you right :)
538957
Yes it was because he's reasons for going out w/u weren't because he liked you.  He's an ungreatful skum bag who should feel bad cause he prob. missed out on a great person.  You deff. gave him the right answer.  He shouldn't have done it in the first place.
387435
you should just tell him that you real like him and at the time you called it off because you didn't know if he felt the some way you did and you didn't want to mess up your friendship
745099
Uhhh why does it matter if he is short? If you cared for your sister and she was happy with him, why would you hurt her and break them up??? There is nothing wrong with being short, especially if he treats her good and they like or love each other. I think you need to not worry about who your sister dates so much. And if she knew that you would break them up, i can image she would be to happy with you.
515231
If you don't want to hurt the guy, than don't tell him why you don't want to get back together with him. Just tell him that you don't want to and leave it at that. if you have been on and off with the guy, it is probably best for you both that you leave it at the off position sort of speaking. You probably both realize that something just isn't right between yourselves already. It also serves you both in the wrong way, you both appear to use each other as a fall back and that's not good for either of you.
191589
well..personally, i would have been a little offended if you had called me up and told me you couldnt go all the sudden...mainly because it seems like the way you told him wasnt exactly sorry, or anything...i think you should have been sweet and called him up and just explained what happend and ask if you could go on the date maybe later, or another day, and be really sweet about it...on the other hand, i think he overreacted and he should have at least called you and told you it was over...i think its okay for you to call him..you both should talk through this and either make up and get back together, or make up and go your sepreate ways...and for in the future, always talk about whats going on, and be sweet about it..guys have a tendency to be stupid and think that if you cant do something you dont want to be with them..i kind of went through this with my gf a bit, and now we talk through everything and even though we disagree on stuff and sometimes get upset with each other, we can always work through it and make each other happy :) good luck!
907906
People aren't mind readers, you should talk with him to let him know what you were feeling. Try to look at the situation from his point of view: you had sex with him, so that must mean things were cool between you, and then you storm out. he's probably confused at those two very mixed signals you gave him.\n\nIf you care about him talk to him, and tell him the ways you thought he was "acting funny". If you want to break it off with him.. at least do him the courtesy of telling him why