will beating off everyday hurt me?
78808
No, infact, sex of any kind tends to lower your blood pressure afterward, and also tends to lower aggression.
297342
Self punishment may not be hurting yourself but may be like, umm, fasting or, ummm, abstinence. You could punishyourself by not going to eat chocolates for a whole month or not go shopping on weekends. See? You disciplined yourslef and you saved money!
472471
You shouldn't continue to beat yourself up over it. It will only cause you to get DEPRESSED! There are plenty of fish in the sea. You'll be fine.
492963
Sounds to me like you are not moving enough.  If you are taking a beating you must be standing still.  Movement will free you of some of that.  But, post position is a physical posistion.  Expect some pushing and body checking.
1174994
I wouldnt say it's completely HARMFUL, but it makes your bones bigger, and that can leed to Bone Density...which is a complete no-no.  If it hurts then i advice you to stop, that means that you are forcing them to crack too much.  You are also chipping away parts of your bone if it hurts a lot.
698774
It does hurt, Not as bad as smashing your finger with a hammer. But its painful the first few times. Ya know how you feel after working out, your muscles are stiff and sore to move? well, Its kinda like that, It hurts but, not too bad, And the blood part? Not very much. maybe a table spoon or 2.
316038
There is a reason for the behavior you're representing. You may not want to go to a counselor but if you want to stop hurting yourself I would advise it. They'll help open you up to why you're doing it and ways to stop to doing it and help give you a healthy perspective on life. \n\nGenereally when someone is inflicting injury upon themselves its because there has been some sort of trauma (mental or physical) in the past. Perhaps you want to "release" the pain or it may be from Stress, or it may be that you want to punish yourself for some reason. Any and all of these are a great reason to get some counsel. It will help bring your life together.  You can do it.
334692
girl, as long as you allow your self to be hurt, it will hurt. Just tell yourself, this is just one of life's many experiences and you are a wiser person with every experience.  Cheer up.
499534
Well I'm no expert but I think you may have a problem, and I don't mean to sound cruel but I mean a mental one. There are people who just feel it gives them some kind of relief from stress or anxiety or anger when they do harm to themselves. I hope you don't actually hurt yourself though. Next time you feel that way my suggestion is call your closest female friend and just spill it all out, and yes that means cry too if necessary. You will feel a lot better I promise!!! Good luck and Take care
633171
Any addiction is harmful. If you feel like you can go for a while without, do it. If you can't, then you have developed a dependence, pscyhological rather than biological. \nEverything in moderation. There is no reason you can't do that every day, but no reason why you should. The best thing to do is learn self-control and learn to control your mind, the same way we control our bodies and make them stronger by lifting weights.
271193
Have you ever seen the movie "The Burning Bed" or heard the Dixie Chicks song "Goodbye Earl"  those two always comes to mind when I hear of people being beaten up in their relationship...\n\nI'd say..you have a low self esteem that attracts you to his looks and not his personality from the way you phrased your question...\n\nGrow some self worth for yourself, get some couceling for your altered sense of what 'fine' is, (because getting beaten up daily isn't fine to anyone I know).\n\nDump him, with police involvement if that's what it will take for you to leave safely..  (you will have to stand up for yourself with proof and reports when you involve the police).  \n\nGet pictures of bruises, cuts, and scrapes that he inflicted. Go to the hospital if you need care for the abuse, their reports are convincing in court, and give substance to restraining orders.\n\nAnd once you get your priorities together in what you're really worth..get a real man that would treat you like you deserve to be treated (hint: noone deserves to be beat up..ever)...\n\nLook really aren't everything...
1125898
first of all calm down if u beat her up it will just cause problems between u and ur man and second dont worry if he loves u he will stay with u no matter what....just trust him if u cant then your relationship may not work out......Good Luck.....
163593
Start beating off, it will help prevent this.
85938
I don't think it's bad for you, but it's not pleasant and your wrist might get very sore. I used it for a while to stop thinking about someone who hurt me a lot.  I just kept obsessing about him and read that snapping a rubber band against your wrist would help stop that.  It did help, and I sure didn't have to do it for long because IT HURTS!
840086
Beat his a.s.s.\nMake him hurt as much as he made YOU hurt.
150268
very normal. There is no limit to really how many times you can do it a day. but if it hurts or you become obseesed about doing it, stop and see a doctor, or just stop doing it. lots of mental power.
1101724
I have and its is healthy, unless you do it frequently, then it may be a sign of depression.\n Get help if that is the case.