i have sex w/someone i'm in love with. but he's got a girlfreind, what should i do, it's killin me.
94088
well if you love him tell him. If he would rather stay with his girlfriend then he is just using you. Sorry to say it but it's true. Although the guy may beg to differ.
481949
Neither of you love each other since you both cheated, whether it was for plasure or revenge it doesnt matter. This is a mentally dangerous situation as that he has become a habit. Habits are hard to break especially the ones that last for years. You have been doing this for so long that you cant remember what life was like before him. You deserve better. Unfortunately you cant listen to your heart on this one. Leave. Does it feel good knowing he might have been inside another woman hours earlier without protection then inside you? Do you always want to have that feeling? Search your soul and find your courage to whats right for your emotional and mental future.
250708
obviously he doesn't care about you!!!! dump him and move on!!!get some of your own self-esteem first before getting into another relationship...and don't hate the girl.
96277
Keep going with your ralationship with her, but keep your eyes open at the same time. Maybe she is with you because she needs something to fill the hole in her broken heart for the moment, but how can you be sure she is loving you because of who you are. Think about when you are about to drown, you would grab anything you can get with the hope it would help you not to sink in the water ... Don't soak yourself in the pain of what had happened, but try to understand why it happened, why and how she (and he) did that ... This will help you to realized better who they really are ...\nKeep the ralationship longer, and sooner or later you will find out if she truelly loves you, because of who you are, and is the right person for you, before you make your life's important decition.\nLook forward, be a man and good luck !
657175
i think you should tell her how you feel about her and tell him how u feel about her. If you think they were really meant to be together than let it be, if u think u in her were meant to be together than GO GET YOUR GURL.
682258
You should not mess with him since he has a girlfriend. If he really cared about you that much he would have respect for the two of you and end his currrent relationship. Don't be the side chick and fall for his bulls***. It seems that this is just lust for him and not love. Though it could be a start for love. To be on the safe side just tell him you want to remain friends and see what happens.
258425
FEEL MESSED UP! BUT WHAT CAN YOU DO. just hope that she don't find out and please don't get serious with him, he going to cheat on you just like how he is cheating on her with you.
893489
I don't know what is worse. I have a girl who really does love me and I know it. but she drives me mental. I guess you'll just have to have her as a friend, you have no choice. You'll find someone else in the end but you really need to be self sufficient when it comes to fighting the demons because the girls will just find you needy and that isn't attractive
43612
If he says he broke up with her, that's all you have to go by.  If you like being with him, then continue on and don't worry about it.  I'm concerned that you have already slept with him, since you haven't even known him for 2 weeks ... but that's your choice, I guess.  I would definitely wait much longer before choosing to get so intimate with some one you don't really know.
998022
do unto others what u will want them to do to u, leave the guy alone, when he wanted u u didnt want him now he has a girlfriend and u want him to break his girlfriend's heart?\nforget him and look for someone else.
585960
You don't need a girl like this,move on find someone that is willing to return the love that you are giving.Don't spend time with someone who is putting you second.
81365
talk to your girlfriend about this new girl and ask her what you should do. I know that this sounds crazy, but it pays off. then really question your self. Y do you like these people? is the reason you like this other girl better than your gf that you never see her or is it because you don't have chemistry? Don't just blindly make a decision. That doesn't help.
705143
i was in the SAME situation recently! SERIOUSLY just have some fun together! A relationship doesn't have to be based on Sex! Are you two passionate with each other or get butterflys around each other? then you are more than friends....if not they you are JUST friends!
471063
Leave this guy alone.  Let him find a girl who only wants to have sex with him.  If you don't like that, then find someone more worth your time instead of wasting time with this horny jerk.
960371
dear partygirl,\nyour boned. there isnt much you can do, by involving both parties in sex you have created paranoia. there realyl is no remedy to this.think about it like this... Q: do you ever wonder if the two see each other without you knowing?  A: you should. i tried this thing that you did and it ended up killing the entire relationship, for both.\nso here is what you should do... in my humble oppinion... figure out what is more important, him or her? then my best advice to you is to cut the relationship off. with one of them only if you want to continue with one... i resolved my own situation with that anwser. now you got to think Q: do they have a right to be justified in jealousy? A: of course they do.  i would be very jealous if i knew that the person i was in a relationship went to someone else with theyre problems. a relationship is best left monogamous... or discreetly otherwise i.e a commited relationship whilst just bringing in outside parties.... like someone you met at a bar or a freind of a freind. nobody close to you. it causes conflict. so basicly figure out who is most important to you, and ditch the other or even better ditch both and find a new guy.
770965
How much do you like her?\nHow much do you love her?\nIt's ok to be cautious, considering there are some STD's that have no cure.\nBut maybe you need to take your heart out of that chest you have locked up with a key and surounded by a reinforced concrete container and start taking changes and live you life with someone special to you!
857417
i think what you are trying to get at or say is that guys wont move on from their girlfriend whom they can get regular sex from until they find someone else or some other means of getting regular sex. this guy sounds like a tool. end it now, save yourself from the heart arche and from being used.