Im i obese? i weight 650pounds im 5'5? how do i gain more weight? my boyfriend likes it.?
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Does your boyfriend care about your well being, or is this a joke.  Seriously, you need to stop gaining weight and try to lose some.  It won't do you any good if you die because of health issues and your boyfriend will move on.
418491
I'm really sorry that you feel this way.  First and foremost, you have to look after your own health.  Try to lose the weight.  Don't change the amount of food you eat, just make it healthy food.\nI'm not sure how accepting you are of his flirting and visiting porn sites but I would have a complete cow!!!  I can tell that you love him so, ultimately you must decide what is best but, to me, it doesn't sound like he has a whole lot of respect for your feelings.\nLose the weight.  You are the one that will be there your whole life.  You will have to deal with it.  A lot of health problems can crop up because of weight issues.  Do what is right for you.\nTell him that you still want to look good, for him, but, you are worried about your health.  Ask his opinion and see how he responds.  If your well-being is a priority to him it shouldn't be that big of a deal.
47417
Don't worry about gaining weight. Most guys who think they are too thin are just fine. Eat a standard, healthy diet. Throw in extra carbs. Focus on getting fit rather than getting big.
912827
NO!!! eat and gain a few pounds. i am sure you still look beautiful. ok? \n\nlook, your BMI is 13.8. that is beyond STICK SKINNY. really. no joke. guys like skinny girl (BMI 18), but not that thin.
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Ok, the following will assist in weight gain, you need to have 6 meals a day and increase fruit intake & dairy. I don't know what foods you like or can eat but modify, you'll get the idea. Make sure all dairy is full fat not skim. \n\nBreakfast 8am - 2 pieces soy & linseed toast w butter & peanut butter & 1 tub of yoghurt w 5 walnuts & glass of orange juice\nSnack 10.30am - banana smoothie w honey\nLunch 1pm - soy & linseed sandwhich w 2 eggs/50g meat & salad & swiss cheese\nSnack 3.30pm - nut type bar w seaseme seeds, honey & nuts\nDinner 6pm - 1 cup pasta/rice/potatoes side with 200g meat\nSnack 8pm - 2 scoops of ice cream \n\nGood luck!
1179637
i;m 5'2 and that weight, i think ur at a perfect weight. But to gain weight just eat a little bit more than u usually eat daily then when ur at the weight u like go back to ur regular eating habits.
641100
definetly NOT. I think it sounds like you weigh the absolute perfect amount for your age!! Now you need to be sure you stay healthy
271345
Quite likely.  I am 5'4" and I weigh 146.5.  I also wear a size 4-6 pant.  Remember muscle weighs more than fat, you probably are just more muscular.  I also believe that the density of your bones plays a part.  Your bones may be denser than your friends or you may have a larger frame.  My boyfriend is 6' tall and he only weighs 20 lbs more than me.  The number can be depressing, but as long as you are happy with how you look don't worry about the number.  If you aren't happy with how you look, do something about it and still dont' worry about the number.
610771
No! You should gain about 15 pounds. You're much too thin for your height.
47689
My bf used to be chubby, not VERY, but a little, but I still fell in love with him =). So to me it doesn't matter. What matters is who YOU are. You can lose weight. It's not easy, but it's possible. Once thing you can't ever change is your personality. A rotten guy who is athletic will always be rotten. A nice and polite guy who isn't very athletic, will always be nice and polite AND can become athletic if that's what he wants.
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Ahh, are those really your measurements, boy? If it is, you should've saw how my mouth dropped when I read it. You're taller than be and soo much lighter... Underwt for sure... I think giving your age might help... but it'll be hard to tell you to gain weight if you don't want to eat steak...that can also rid your anemia if you are short on folic acid, vit B12, and iron... Do you at least eat dairy? Eat lots of ice cream while doing strength-training exercises too... you need some fat on your before you can really build up muscles. Are you measuring correctly? Your hip should not be that much skinnier if you weight that little... For men, hips are 1-1.5" wider than waist on most healthy men... Eat foods with high saturated fats...
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ok, u should probably get comfortable with ur body. u cant normally change it so ur stuck with it. ur bf should like u 4 u, not 4 ur body.
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I wish I was 128 again sweetie! I know how you feel though...when I was in highschool I swore I was overweight at 125 lbs and the same height as you. Now...after having a child I have gained and am 150lbs. I know I am overweight now. I would give anything to once again be that skinny 125! You are fine the way you are!
705679
No, you're not shallow, just human. We all want to be proud of our guys even if we're not so great ourselves! You sound very level-headed to me. So, don't feel guilty. My husband is bold and I hate it though I love him very much! We all have something in our spouses that we don't like, that even disgusts us. It's how you deal with it that matters. \n\nLuckily for you, your boyfriend's obesity can be changed. If you don't have the courage to talk to him upfront about this because you don't want to hurt him, get some brochures on how to lose weight and put it where he can see it. If he says something, tell him you think it's a good idea to lose some wieight for you are worried about him health. You can also persuade him to go walking with you. Whatever you do, don't dump a nice guy like this just because his overweight. Many of the so called Adonises are so full of themselves that they haven't place for somone else!  And if your guy loses weight, make a big fuss about it. It wil inspire him to pull through. Good luck!
22502
As you said that u r under weight. To increase ur weight u shud have honey mixed with a glass of milk for a month and then reply me at laxymail@yahoo.com.
697333
You are definitely under weight. The others gave better advise than I could give you so listen up and do what they say. I work out, and was an aerobic instructor a year or so ago but it is best to be a tiny bit under what you are suppose to be than over the limit. I believe you are a few extra pounds (UNDER) what your suppose to be so you might want to talk to a doctor and get on a diet that will help balance your weight out. Also an eating disorder popped up in my brain too. At your age and weight you do not need to be worrying about things like that; so I believe you need to see a doctor, and let him give you advise as to what to do. Your parents need to get involved too, so tell them what you told us.........Good Luck.
818224
For one thing, stop comparing yourself to everyone else and second, you sound pretty darn perfect to me. I am 40 years old and 5"4ft and weight 113 pounds, I have weighed this much since I graduated from high school. Some people just grow faster than others and then a lot of catching up will happen. Just think how much healthier you are than they are. All that junk food will eventually catch up with them and they will be the ones saying they wish they looked like you!! Just be happy with yourself now because I bet you are way prettier than they are.