my girlfriend is a jehovahs witness and i'll be the only girlfriend what do i do?
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First of all, it's not wrong !! Don't ever say that b/c thats just what others believe. If you two been together for 3 months and you honestly really care for one another than you are going to have to talk to her and let her know how you feel about the whole situation. It shouldn't really matter what religion she chooses to go to b/c if she really loves you and you really love her then why should either of you allow a book that someone else wrote run you guys relationship down. If you feel that she deserves you and that you deserve her and yall make each other happy then GIRL please live life the best way known how b/c to be real with you, you know like I know that we are only granted with one life to live!!!!!!You midestwell live it being happy, you aren't hurting anyone else by doing that!!\nGOOD LUCK ON YOUR RELATIONSHIP!!!!!!
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Talk with Jehovahs Witnesses.  If you don't find your answers with them, the only thing you are out is a little of your time.  Be sure to write down all the questions you have and then ask them.
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If you are uncomfortable with the religious experiences that you will be subjected to via your conversion, you will more than likely be unhappy in marriage with your girlfriend. If you are serious enough about this relationship to take the step of accepting her religion as your own, your best hope is to become as educated as possible about the meaning behind their religious rites and practices and to incorporate them into your daily life. From there you can discern whether this change is really for you, and if you become comfortable with it, then the rest of your problms should fall into place.
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You want us to help you defrock your virgin girlfriend?\n\nSheesh have a heart. Don't be a selfish jerk. If that is how you rate your relationship I pity your girlfriend.  I hope when you do ask her, she runs away and never speaks to you again.\n\nPERVERT,  SELFISH IMMORAL JERK..........
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Trying to "convince" her will only alienate her. You are friends because you love and accept each other the way you are. You need to consider this: Does she try to convince you that your belief is wrong? For now, live and let live. Take your worries to God in prayer. Pray for her and pray that she will be saved. When it comes right down to it, after all, faith is a gift of the Holy Spirit, it is not arrived at by argument or pushing by you.  Live your life as an example, let your own faith shine, be happy and feel blessed. You have been brought into her life for a reason, but if you drive her away by being difficult to be around, or making her feel unacceptable in your eyes, or "damned" for goodness' sake, you will have accomplished the opposite of what you want. When and if the time is right, God will do what needs to be done. Also remember this--none of us can truly see what is in another's heart and soul, only God can. You may be worrying for nothing. People are very complex and often say things they don't actually feel for complex psychological reasons.  So relax, enjoy her friendship, and have faith that all will be as God plans.
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She should be in subjection if and I say if you are being a God fearing husband to her,you are supposed to love her as yourself, you know.If you are doing what the Lord commands you to do you should let her know that she is hindering prayers and that you can't be blessed with disobedience.Read the 3rd chapter of 1 Peter to her. I really hope you are sincere with this question because if you are one of these people just asking to slander the children of God or mock God, then God have mercy on you.
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That would make you unequally yolked, and I don't believe God intends for you to marry someone who isn't a Christian.\n\n*EDIT*\n\nIf you two are deeply in love, then if she is the one, she will get saved.  If not, then she's not the one for you, and you should ask God for help with moving on.
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"Well first you might ecept Jesus into your heart ,stay in church and get baptize... "\n\nAnd look to Jesus to send you the woman that He wants you to have. in Christ, sassy
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watch other people be funny and tell take notes (mental notes) and loosen up don't worry about what other people say about you cause we're all gonna die some day and be judged by the some god so don't worry.\nbuy her flowers and candy. \ntalk to her and let her know you want a relationship with her and hope for the best
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First, GOOD FOR YOU that you have decided to become a Christian! THat's wonderful! I know it is difficult, but yes, your religion will have an effect on your relationship. The opposite also holds true-- your relationship will have an effect on your religion. It sounds as if you really love your boyfriend. If I were in your situation, I would pray and sit him down. Explain to him how you feel and how important this is to you to raise your children this way. Your faith may prove to be a turning point for him. Your faith will mean that there will be things you should no longer do (such as premarital sex, etc). IS he willing to stand by you? You have to communicate with him. If he really loves you, it will be difficult, but he will respect your faith, even if he does not "buy into it" at this time. You also have to be prepared that he may not understand and may try to talk you out of it. Be strong and stay prayerful. Pray for him as well, that he may also find the Lord. Even if you break up, continue to lift him up in prayer. Pray for the strength to be true to your faith. I wish you the best of luck. I know it is a difficult path you are about to embark on. Be strong. God will not forsake you and you may lead your boyfriend to the Kingdom as well!!!
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Don't give in to her religion. Tell her that you respect her belief, but that she has to respect your atheism as well. It would be the best for her to stop believing, though.
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Girl, if you're a Christian, you know the Bible tells us not to be unequally yoked (in marriage).  And the reason a Christian dates is for the sole purpose of getting married.  He sounds manic.  He needs medication.  You should pray for him, but like the other woman said, get away from him.  You won't be deserting him.  He'll live.  And perhaps his aunt and uncle do have it good, but it's not about what we have here on earth.  It's about what we get after death, and the saved individual gets eternal life in heaven with Christ.  Tell your boyfriend to stick his foot in a burning fire, and then ask him if he wants to spend eternity with his whole body in there.  Yes, it does seem like nonbelievers are just as blessed as Christians.  But just think about what comes after you die.  Remember, you're a stranger here.  You don't belong here.  You're just passing through.
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I am one of Jehovah's Witnesses.
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Congratulations!\n\nRemember that JWs are also just imperfect human beings.  They might feel that if you consult them fisrt before you made the plan, they could help you to make a wise decision with Bible principles.  But really, I don't know and it's not my place to say.  I am sure they sincerely want the best for you.  Keep studying and strengthen your relationship with Jehovah.  When your husband and you are close to Jehovah and do what he asks you to do, you will have the happiest marriage life!
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First my friend as a christian I have to ask if you are truly accepting that God will wants you to do this? If you believe in your heart that it is what God wants and you want to be with her and you are that close to her then you do something SUPERSONIC! Blow her mind with the most romantic evening you can come up with. Take her to the place you first met, rose peddles all over the place...candles and you get on one knee and you tell her that she is the love of your life and you want to spend all eternity with her, that she is the meaning in your life, you produce a ring that she will cherish and you ask her..."will you make me the happiest man alive and spend eternity with me" but you have to mean it. A woman knows it you mean it. Good Luck my friend.
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As one of Jehovah's Witnesses (as you identified yourself in another question) you know what "hangin' out" can lead to. Why not just plan to share in the ministry together? Also spending time with him and other Christians from your congregation in group outings and fun get-togethers is a great way to get to know someone, then you can decide whether you really want to start dating. If he likes you (and the attraction is mutual) it will be quite obvious after a short while.\n\n1 Corinthians 15:33 - "Do not be misled. Bad associations spoil useful habits."
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Get her a promise ring. It can be any kind of ring as long as you call it a promise ring...that means you promise she's the only one for you and you might one day get married, etc...you can skip the "marriage" part, of course. I promise you that she will love it and all her girls will be jealous. Sounds dumb, but it is TRUE and will work. She will believe you really love her.