why would ur boyfriend tell ur friend ur businesses?
85445
Not sure why he would ... but that's not cool for you :( ... sorry!
565834
Personally, when I found myself in this very predicament, I made a conscious decision to approach the situation from an honest, adult perspective and expressed my concerns to both my friend and my boyfriend. \n\nBecause I trust my boyfriend, I explained how uncomfortable my friend's behaviour toward him made me, and asked that he help me by not reacting positively to her flirting. He was happy to do so, because he found her behaviour just as inappropriate as I had.\n\nI explained to my friend, privately, that, although I value her friendship, her flirting behaviour toward my boyfriend made me uncomfortable and was jeopardising the future of our friendship. I asked her to tone herself down and respect my feelings. When I discovered that she could not oblige me that, then I did, and still do, my utmost ensure that my boyfriend and my friend spend the least amount of time together as possible. It doesn't mean I don't see either of them less frequently, I just don't see them at the same time anymore.\n\nIt may be that my friend is jealous of the fantastic relationship between my boyfriend and me, and either consciously or not, wants us to split up so that I may be as miserable as she is in the relationship department... who knows. \n\nEither way, the key is to remain adult in your thoughts, and not give in to the childish part of yourself that goes "OMG what a b*tch I can't believe she's trying to steal my boyfriend I'm going to make her pay" or similar, and to trust the man you love.
721115
I think he told you didn't he, from what I surmise from your text is there is lots of signals in your mind that say he is in to you, which may not be the case. don't use your friend to do the work that really scares you, you bring a 3rd party in to negotiate a relationship, you are asking for trouble, it's OK to use one to break the ice so to speak, like hey my friend likes you kinda thing. but for him to tell his feelings to your friend, not a good idea.
1087098
It means he does like you but he doesn't want to tell your friend, maybe if you would ask him yourself he would be more open to tell you that he does, guys don't like everyone knowing there buisness.
516209
if he is in your country then have one of his friends that you can trust not to tell him you are coming home, and have him take you boyfriend out some where, like a restaurant, just to "HANG OUT WITH HIM" and then you "RUN IN TO THEM" at the place. but if you are leaving him to go back to your country then that sucks.
172389
Kick is butt to the curb.  It isn't much of a relationship if he is lying and making you look bad on purpose.  If a boyfriend doesn't respect you then he is just a boy and not your friend at all.
448297
Your friend was wrong to making a move on your bf, if she did. Maybe your boyfriend was talking about your friends because he knows how important they are in your life? Try talking about it with all three of them. Get each other sides of the story before you jump to anymore conclusions! Good luck!
338482
Yes, I have told b/fs about the bd things bout me, if you don't let him know, and he finds out later, to me that's like lieing, in order to love and be loved, you have to let the bad things out as well.  Your partner is suppose to your best friend in all the world, if this is true, then you should be able to tell them anything and everything.
1076763
Well for one, a hospital wouldn't release that info to anyone... they cant by law, so maybe he is telling the truth.  However, if you don't trust him you probably shouldn't be with him. Any relationship from boyfriend/girlfriend, to friends, and even family is all built on trust, if you don't have that...its probably not gunna work out to well for you.
447044
why would you even want to continue a relationship with someone who is cheating on you?  That would be the first red flag.  the second red flag would be the restaurant experience.  Also, you shouldn't share bank accounts with someone your dating....thats kinda dumb.  if you have any common sense, you would cut your ties.
830812
Well, you kind of confirmed his suspicion that you wouldn't take it well with your sarcastic email, didn't you?  Perhaps they found out that they both really wanted to go to the same place, it was cheaper to go together and since 1.you'd been split up for over 6 months and 2. he wasn't your best friend anyway, there really was nothing morally wrong in what they were doing.  You could look at it as a compliment that they thought enough of your feelings not to want to hurt you and that's why they didn't tell you.  Yes, it would have been a courtesy to let you know, but really, you don't have any right to interfere in the lives of two people you don't have close relationships with.
179319
You shouldn't let your boyfriend control you like that.  It's a sign of things to come.  Now it's a party, but in the future he'll be telling you what friends you can and cant have, what to wear, places you can and cant go, etc.
972790
Butt out....If you have told your friend, then you've done your part. You need to get you own business and leave their relationship alone. Don't get in the middle...Roses doesn't mean a person is cheating.
376502
If it is really don't put it here.\nhowever it's meand if be true deream, you hidden some thing  for your new boyfriend, you must be clear with he.\nEnd
565407
I think you did the right thing by letting your boyfriend know how you felt about it. If he wants to have a moocher friend over, fine, but let your boyfriend foot the bill. If your boyfriend has a problem with that and wants you to pay for his moocher friends, perhaps a new boyfriend would be in order. Good luck!
1031023
I think that it says less about you and more about HIM that he's telling everyone your business and "using" you.  It says about him that he is a USER, and has poor character and that he shouldnt be trusted by anyone.  Thats what I would hear if he were telling me all of your business.  I think that your only issue if I can call it that is choosing a little more wiser.   Other than that, the rest is a statement (not a good one) about him.
361209
It's not good to tell your business OR hang with a lot of people. Miscommunication comes in to play, and the one to be blamed will be YOU. It's good to keep to yourself or if you are in a relationship, that person should be your best friend and the only one, other than family, that you should confide in.