My daughters dad told me that he wont see her unless i sleep with him.  what should i do? have his rights take
92378
Slimeball isn't good enough! It is apparent that he isn't interested in seeing the daughter but uses her as a tool to get to you. It would be difficult i would think to have his rights revoked but may be worth a try seeing that he is dating children. I would at least try.
862877
wow dude looks like it's time to move on......sounds like you really care for her just not her daughter....you need to find another girl with no baggage..and start fresh.
599724
Your Dad won't LET you get a sitter??  Tell him he needs to watch her.  Or, ask a neighbor to help you.
906477
Is your hesitation about her or him?  Which is better for her, Dad calling on holidays or Dad not calling at all?  Forget about the lack of child support and your feelings toward him for a moment and do what is best for the child.  Maybe she could call him once a week.
576170
Go for it.... But before you do make sure your affairs are in order, make sure your bills are paid. MGive your daughter to someone who thinks straight and will be alive to take care of her.  In rea;lity this man might be a rapist a killer-- but hey throw caution to the wind and see if you can be another another number.
1039302
that is wrong.  they need to realize that you are their daughter. no matter what you did do and what you did to him, you are the one they should love and choose over any one else. i would personally let my dad know how i feel and then leave him to think about it and if your parents really care about you they will get their head out of their ass and realize what they are doing.
257325
You should fight to be able to see your daughter. But if permission is granted than you sure as hell don't want to mess up. Don't end up in jail again and behanve and maybe the courts will rule in your favor. And how the hell can you use a computer in jail...
1104439
You can see his point but also your dealing with a little girl who has no knowledge of grown up things, so sit down with him and explain that someday she will give him the right to be called Daddy but he has to be cool about it. Otherwise this little girl will resent him thinking because of him she doesn't see her Father, notice a different in Daddy and father. It takes a special kind of man to be called Daddy. He needs to be there for her and allow her to grow with him and not use this as a pawn to see how you feel about the ex.
849931
If she doesn't want to be with you, there is not much you can do.. Call her and express your sympathy for her father and tell her if she needs anything to give you a call.  After that, if she calls, then be patient and see what happens.  If she doesn't, let her be.
605351
Bro go out. Your daughter will be fine. You seem like a great dad! dating doesnt hurt. Leave your daughter with someone you trust. Do it before you looks fade, and your old n gray sayin I wish I wouldve.
904791
No, you should not.  He will leave you again, even if he does come back because he knows he can.  It will take time, but I'd get him off of your Christmas list, because he has no regard for you.  Take care of your daughter and see to it he meets his legal obligations to your daughter.  I hope you heal and find someone that treats you better.  God Bless.
926292
It sounds like you can VERY EASILY proove that he is an unfit father!  I don't know of any judge that would give him any kind of rights to your daughter.\n\nYou need to see a lawyer!
1100610
She needs to talk to a lawyer. Unless the court has said that she cannot see her daughter, then he has no right to hold her away from her mother. She can go and pick up the girl and take her to lunch and hang out with her away from the new husband, but she has every right to see her daughter! Go to a lawyer and fast! If she already has one, then have her call him/her. That is what they are getting paid for!
592370
i don't really think there is a whole lot you can do. Just be there for her and continue doing what you are doing. Try to talk to her and explain that things did not work out with you and her dad but you still love her as much as before and that you are both there for her. Don't put him down to her. Even if he is turning her against you, she will eventually see thru that. Good luck to you. It will work out. It just takes time.
570286
Were you married? File a paternity suit if you were not, and let the law find him. That's just wrong on his part, in all of these years not to have wanted to see his daughter. I couldn't live with myself knowing I had a child and wasn't a part of their life.
1057385
This man is sick.  He has committed the ultimate infidelity to you and your daughter.  You MUST leave him or you will never have peace in your life.  It will hurt, but this must be done or you will die in your heart.  You are too good of a woman for that to happen.   Please leave him, for your own sake and the sake of your daughter.
1167346
I say do it the American Way and bring her to court for the rights!  You may not like living with her after she is served with court papers but you can legally get your way because any judge in his right mind will not deny you the right to see your father.