why did my girlfriend break up with me and why did she give me her stuff i gave her that is stupid isnt.?
80691
The first part I can't help you with.  Perhaps things weren't moving in the direction she wanted them to.  You'd have to ask her.  The second part is that she didn't want reminders.  This tells me that there's something deeply troubling her about your relationship.
910429
she has ALL those things?? why would she want someone insecure about themselves like you???
842703
You could try, but if she broke up with you, she had her reasons (you don't say why she broke up with you), and those reasons may not be the kind that can be fixed. It all depends on your history together. Sometimes there's no future and you need to let it be, and move on to someone that wants to be with you.
507420
she misses you....i dont think she really wanted to break up with you...its that or she still cares for you..not exactly loves you but she still hopes the best for u...maybe you should talk to her sometime and just see how shes doing..maybe start going out again ..
1080163
My girlfriend broke into my email once. She changed the password on me and read them all. It started a whole big fight that lasted a month. She found old emails from my ex and got upset. She accused me of cheating but she forgot to check the dates on them. Let's just say she's still making up for what she did.
991642
You're a jerk. Break up with her so she can find someone better than you.
1035324
Hope you didn't give her any $$$. Cheer up, you'll forget about her eventually. She doesn't even deserve someone like you.
1021323
"It didn't go over well", huh ?  You mean that SHE broke up with you and you dabbled around with someone else, then you two got back together and she is ticked off ?  if that's what you are saying, then she is merely not in control of the Green-Eyed Monster.  You see, what she meant by breaking up with you was "See ?  See how much you will miss me ?  See how empty your life is without me ?" ....she didn't mean that you two were really "broken up" - it was just a test for you to see how important SHE was to you and when you went on to someone else,  - WELL - that wasn't exactly in her plans.  And she is hurt and she is angry.\n\nWell, you are not responsible for either emotion that she is feeling, although it would not hurt if you understood them.  She did this to herself.  You can empathize that she feels bad that you were able to so quickly "replace" her (because that is what she feels....and, to tell the truth....that is what happend.)  We human beings don't like to think that we are easily replaceable.  But, indeed, we are.  (Ah yes, for all our talk about "soulmates" the truth of the matter is that many people can be our "soulmate" and that means it is not quite so much destiny as timing.)  She may well have expected you to pine away after her and when you did not, she is angry.\n\nLife is all about growing up - all the way until we die.  You both have gone through an episode that should have taught you both some lessons - different lessons than the other could have learned.  Now you are back together and going forward, hopefully not backward.  (She is looking backward, by the way.)\n\nAnd, as a side note, this idea of full disclosure - telling new girlfriends or boyfriends about your past - not a good idea.  Not particularly respectful of the people in the relationships in your past.  The same holds true for interim relationships - you weren't "with" your current girlfriend during the time you were broken up, you should not share details about whatever you did in your interim relationship.  It is not her business and it is disrespectful to the other girl.  (None of this "oh, if you loved me you would share with me" - see what it got you ?  She's pissed.)\n\nAnd no, it wasn't cheating.
574197
if she broke up with you then she isnt your girlfriend any longer.. but if she was cheating on you when you were together then be thankful she ended it.. once a cheater always a cheater...let it go and find someone that you can be happy with.. if you think she was cheating then more than likely she was or had plans to... move on and have fun.. life is to short...
205268
I don't mean to be mean, but it isn't possible for her to love both you and her new boyfriend at the same time. It sounds to me as if she is keeping you on a string just in case the new boyfriend doesn't work out for her. You didn't say why you broke up or if she broke up with you or vice versa, but it sounds to me as if she is enjoying putting you through all of this. I know you don't want to hear this, and I am sorry I have to say it, but I think you need to care enough about yourself to realize you deserve better than being strung along and you need to respect yourself enough to not allow yourself to be played this way. Move on and find that special person who will love and respect you the way that you deserve. Even if you were to blame for the break up, you don't deserve to be treated this way. We all make mistakes. I know this will be hard, but it will be the best thing for you. If she truly loved you she would not be able to hurt you this way. Good Luck! \n\nSS
517220
why did she break up with you in the first place? maybe she realized that she made a mistake and is reconsidering going back out with you.  give it time and don't do anything, let her make the first move.  maybe she is just spying on you to see if you got a new girlfriend, driver her jelous by showing her that you are happy without her
609678
leaving thing behind is an almost exlusively female tactic.\n\nMen simply are not that devious.\n\n\nAs for the last part of your question, I don't think you responded the right way.  Not only did you have a relationship, but it was serious enough that you lived together.  By your own words, he broke up because it "wasn't working out."  It seems to me that he deserved a little more than your vindictiveness.\n\nIndulging your emotions by throwing out a former bf's stuff is simply childish.  I know there will be a half-dozen girls who will say "you go girl - he deserved to have his stuff thrown out", but if you dumped him, they'd be calling him a jerk for throwing your stuff out.\n\nNo woman will call you a jerk for throwing his stuff out, but I will - YOU JERK.
764065
The boyfriend doesn't respect the gift he bought for you - and doesn't respect you.  Is it your gift or a leftover?  It sounds like you need a new boyfriend.
68940
YOU did not do a bad thing.\nSHE did a terrible, cruel, juvenile thing by using your generosity as a weapon to play head games with her boyfriend... if she's not talking to you, count yourself ahead.
839896
She is more than likely madly in love with you and called you stupid because you cannot see the light.She wants more and figured that is she backed away a bit,that you would come running to her.She came back a second time because she felt that she could not live without you and saw that things had not changed so she hit the road again.This explains why she wanted to know if you have someone else.\n\nShe could also be pregnant and does not know how to tell you
821720
Girl, that's a rough situation. Its all good to help for a little while, but her ex seems to getting a little bit to dependent on your girlfriend. The bottom line is that her ex needs to grow up and be a women, it doesn't take that long to get get your stuff together. Tell your girlfriend to give her a couple of pointers and move on. Keep your head up!
434146
The grabing of a knife is not good but it also shows you something. She's wants to be with you. I know it's painful to find out the woman you love has been lying to you but realize it is in her past. Has she cheated on you? Has she mentiond her past boyfriends as a comparson to you? It dosent sound like she has witch means that she had moved on and dosen't care about them. Honesty is a big key in a relationship and your trust in her has been broken, but instead of gitting rid of her, talk to her. Tell her what your feeling and try to figuer out a way for her to earn your trust back. Why get rid of a woman that you love and she obiously wants to love you and be with you and is a good mother to your doughter.