Can you ask a guy out who thinks you cheated on him, you love him & so does he but don't want to agree to it?
96358
i would love to help u but i honestly dont think u asked that question right.....
425808
there is only one way, talk to HIM yourself and he'll answer your question, HE doesn't want to be a secret to anyone.  That's why HE has already sent ways to prove HE loves you.  I'm not goint to tell you which ways because the proof is when you ask and HE leads you to the truth, then you'll know for sure.
675980
be honest, be wouldnt you want to him to be honest with you
985819
say NO. Once a cheat, ALWAYS a cheat. If he cheated then, how do you know he wont cheat now? If he lied then, how do you know he wont lie now? If you DO go back out with him you'll have to walk on eggshells the whole time because you'll be wondering in the back of your head "was he really where he told me he was, with the people he told me he was with, or was he somewhere else with somewhere else" Which saying those thigns to him or asking him alot will just lead to fights. A relationship is nothing without trust and it takes a long time to re-build trust after someone cheated/lied to you. Find someone out there who WONT do that to you, this guy sounds like a loser, and there are millions of guys out there that arent losers, so go find one! good luck!
299230
It is`easy to say get rid of him, but then I would be a hypocrite. I`have so many reasons not to trust my man. I wish i would have went with my instincts from the beginning. If you can't trust him and you can let him go, buy all means do so. But if you are like me, you won't. Now i let it be known my distrust of him. He gets mad at me for it, but oh well. I figure he deserves it, and if he gets so aggravated maybe he will leave me. it would be easier to let him go that way. My advice is get out now if you can. there must be a reason you don't trust him, and chances are it will get worse.
203238
If you have to ask if you love him, then its pretty safe to say that you dont. You probably had a good thing going with him and thats why you get jealous, but it doesn't sound like you're in love. And if it doesn't work out and your munky really is chunky you can always holla at me :)
323501
i'm sorry if you can't trust him then find someone you can. because trust comes a long way in a relationship and without it your relationship will crash and burn. You can talk to him about the trust issue and if you still feel the same way then dump him.
446930
Well i will like to ask \n1)if he is a cheat? \n2)Does he steal? \n3)His he faithful to you? \n4)Does he keep to his promises? \n5)Does he fight you or get mad at you easily? \nwell if these answers are yes, then it worth you being worried. All you have to do is to kick his fucking ass hole out of your life and get on with your life. A lady with a nice heart like you, deserves being love and cherish by a nice man.
136624
Sounds like he's on the verge of cheating to me.  If all you did was ask him a question, and he got pissed, he's feeling the pressure.  This doesn't sound normal to me, I think you should ditch him.  If he really cared about you, he wouldn't get angry and insult you when you ask him questions.  AND he wouldn't be meeting other guys behind your back.  I think you should confront him and if he doesn't beg for forgiveness, it's not worth it.  Don't worry, you'll find the one that is.
379384
yes, because you will start to want to feel that way and he isn't doing it for you. you wont be happy and you will either leave ir cheat or be miserable. not fair to either of you.
127056
firstly do you have a reason not to trust him?\n\nIf the answer is yes you need to talk to him and if the answer is no you'll just have to learn to become more trsuting - it may take time but you'll get there
115512
Instead of asking here, you should be asking him directly. If he says yes, then get a firm commitment (date, etc.). If he says no, you need to accept it and move on. If you try to change the mind of someone whose mind is set, it can be a bad outcome.\n\nDr. Barb Nefer, http://www.bnlifeskils.com
250264
If you love him, it shouldn't matter what other people think. There will always be some kind of doubt in relationships and that's fine. If you're not sure about the guy then ask yourself, "Can I see myself with this guy for the rest of my life?".
996428
yes, I may, that depends of the situation. If He ask me, i want let him down even if If i don't have that kind of feeling for him. Sure I wouldn't keep him thinking. I will make sure I tell him my feelings about  the whole thing.
287634
If you love him, yes. But why did you guys break up in the first place? Did he cheat on you or vise versa? Did he lie to you or vise versa? Do you guys trust each other? Really think about these things. Then decide from there.
289362
sounds like he cant make up his mind what he wants. sometimes you have to bury the hatchet and ask the hard questions, and if he hides it will not be the first time
435783
He made his decision long time ago. He cheated on you, let him prove that he wants to be wtih you. But what you should be asking yourself is can you get past his cheating and never bring it up can you forgive him and will you get past this and be in a healthy meaningful relationship. You owe it to yourself and to him.