do you think someone can love you but break up with u because their not ready 4 a relationship?
93271
Yep, doing that is a good way to show you that they love you or at least respect your feelings. If they aren't ready for a relationship they would stand a good chance of hurting you. That would suck for you. Respect them for being honest and telling you their feelings.
1169274
no i wouldnt but its always easier said then done. I wouldnt wana stay with the guy but im an emotional person and fall in love easily so i would find it hard to let go despite evrything that is goin on
1080059
you can not make someone love you . i think that hurt s alot .  you think you love an ought for both of you.
634873
its only hard for us if we love the guy.  My BF of 4.5 years broke up with me 2 weeks ago and at first I kept calling, but I realized that I can't do anything about it. He broke up with me because he is trying to figure out what he wants to do with his life and doesn't want a GF right now. I realized that if he wants to talk to me, he will call.
1035123
Yes you can.You can even have a relationship too.Most people don't think its right but if thats what you want and feel you can.You soldn't let anyone juge you.You also can even if it don't mean anything.
1166824
Yea. We all do. We imagine how much easier it would SEEM to be if we broke it off b/c of minor things we don't like about the person. You need to weigh the pro's and con's of how you guys are TOGETHER. You're not always going to like everything about him. But imagine if you did break up with him over that stuff, you'd definately just want to go back to him and realize it was ridiculous.
843646
did you mean to say break up with some one ? If you two are not seeing eye to eye on things, then you should go ahead and break up with the person because you don't want to get married to this person and then regret it later than the line.
460295
If you love the guy, you will definitely get hurt. But I think it's a good thing that he broke up with you because you don't deserve someone who doesn't know how to love unconditionally. Find someone that will love and accept you for who you are.
113176
Yes, love does hurt..once its gone...Have you ever broken up with someone? ...
38080
I don't think everyone is capable of really loving someone, totally selfless, when the other person's happiness is the most important thing, and not yours.\n\nSo, unfortunetly, i would say no...
33689
Sure. It can take some time, though, if you usedto be in a relationship with this person and no longer are. Friends after a break up is possible as long as you really do display the traits of a true friend. If you haven't been in a relationship with this person and are trying to avoid one, I think you are choosing a more posative option than cutting off all contact and obligations. This person means enough to you that you want to have a relationship, just not the same as it was or what the other person wants it to be. Just remember that this may take time, and that it is on the other person's schedule, so try not to get discouraged or have your feelings hurt if they aren't automatically ecstatic about the idea.
371167
a relationship which is weak cannot last. Move ahead in life if he has already decided to breakup
718644
But why did you break up.  Can you get past or live with whatever casued the breakup?
298450
If it's the right girl, of course!\n\nIf you're dating someone you aren't much compatible with, it can be a pain in the butt.
421585
Depends on the man. Is he married?  If so, he's probably using you.  If he isn't. yes, we can love you.  But do we have to be absolutely committed to you to love you?  Commitments are tough for men to handle.
696777
Sure you can, just make sure the person/people you are with understand that you do not love them, otherwise you may break someone's heart.\nI've had some very wonderful and fulfilling relationships that did not involve love.
552908
absolutely not.\nyou can love anyone, so what? don't be a self-made martyr