Is it fair when u cant mix with others or make frenz,when they(husband) mix around and sosialise with other???
85860
Of course it is not fair. If your husband is not allowing you to have friends of your own, he is creating a wall of isolation around you and usually that is for the sole purpose of making it impossible for you to stand up to him. If you have any power to prevent it, do not let this happen.
1160467
Hi there,\nI can somewhat relate to you in a sense that I was in your shoes when my boyfriend (now my husband) was doing the same thing like your wife did.  I think, I forgave him since we're not really together (I was in another state).  Yes, I was grossed out when I heard this and the thought of 2 on 1 is disgusting.  We decided that not to associate with those kind of people, which helps me to cope.  Out of sight, out of mind.   The most important thing about this ordeal is having trust in this person again and make sure that it won't happen again.  Yes, then your can feel more secure and comfortable being with this person again.\nBest wishes,
410199
If my husband ever treated me with that much disrespect that would cause a lot of problems. We don't HAVE to check in with one another but we choose to because it is respectful so that there is no worries or confusion. \n\nGrow up!
699581
There is nothing wrong with being gay-friendly.  Most of my friends are str8 men, but that doesn't make me a heterosexual.  Also, I think some of my str8 friends 'act' more gay than I do.  Leave your friend's husband alone to be however he wants.
367509
Tell your husband you don't like hanging around with them and why.  If the reason is good then he will probally respect your wishes and plan less things together as a group.
86356
I'll be honest, I have done the same.  I can't help it if my neighbors are loud. If you're yelling and I can hear it, you obviously don't care who hears it.  It can't be all that bad if it made you and your wife want to be nicer to each other.  I mean, at least their fightning did somebody some good.  :)
608478
You've already got a good head on your shoulders! You know what's right and wrong. There's no problem at all with you sharing a dance with a guy (As long as you remain vertical). I would answer in the exact way you already suggested - "Sure, but I am married". Let's him know up front that you're committed, and still allows you both to share the dance he asked for. Good luck!
665439
With me and my fiance it takes turns. I could potentially have all the control because he is so easy going but I don't like to do that so I always make sure we both get our say and always listen to his opinions and make sure we are both happy. it is all about comprimise at the end of the day.
185796
Ya this is real problem, my friends and sibs don't have enough time for me after their marr, worst is after kids, my sis is always behind them and wants to be this nice homemaker! Even if she finds time to talk she always brings up her family issues!/// Well on the other hand my sis's hubby is a nice guy..but we have very few family gatherings..may be thats how things work after marr///
1117709
I am friendly with all different type of people - no difference which ethnic group they belong to, but for marriage I think people should try sticking to their own race - it's easier for you and your kids.
878301
I didn't realize that this was such a big issue.  My husband is bi-racial and so is my 1st son.  I think that that's how the media banks off of things-----creating and building on stereotypes.  If you want to get together with another bi-racial person, go ahead on.  It doesn't make a difference one way or another to me....
130135
You know what? you also mentioned you also love your husband, why don't you just work out on making your relationship with your husband better, and make him your best friend? Think of the past when you we're so much inlove with him, what you like about him! you have a child? Will the child be better in the future if you separate from your husband? Will it be comfortable with you to commit a sin?(well i guess you are legally married with you husband). The greatest happiness you can achieve in life is within the family! Love your family, it's the only thing that can last forever!!!! :-)
101538
Is your husband the jealous type?\n\nBelieve it or not,I've had 2 different guys ask me this one!!
1183942
Married people do not have friends of the opposite sex, or at least I don't believe they really do....but they do have acquaintences.  As long as you are not flirting with him you are doing nothing wrong but maybe back up a little because if you care about him as a friend then you should respect that marriage comes first and you shouldn't want to be the center of their argument.
720951
Makes me wonder about what kind of person your husband is if he has friend like this.  Apparently, he has no respect for how you feel. I would tell his friend that if he cannot behave like a decent human being then he needs to find another place to hang out and tell your husband if that is the kind of friends he likes then he needs some professional help.
328485
Well you are in a pickle, aren't you?  Hope they are in different towns.  Try to keep them apart as much as possible.  Other than that I would say you are in deep poo poo if they find out.
754209
There is nothing cultural about it.  You must talk to your husband and your husband must not make such friends and invite them at home.  He has lust for your body only.  He wants to taste you and then fly away.  In other words he wants to get you in sinful life and spoil your home life.  Treat such people sternly with the help of your husband.