Who remembers their first LOVE & regret giving them up and why now?
97403
Oh, I really shouldn't answer this since I'm married to such a wonderful man, but... Yes, I very much DO remember my first love back in High School.  I thought for sure that we would get married.  It was the real deal - we were insane about each other, and there were no doubts between us.  I guess we were just young and things were too intense - we both gave up and I do regret not having a second chance years later.  I didn't realize I regretted it until a week after I got married!!!  And I can't even believe that I'm saying.. (WRITING) it out loud.  Luckily I love my HUSBAND dearly.
390912
yes a very long time ago and i have regretted it / it was not worth the guilt i felt or the hurt i brought to my wife
772969
Yes, I did regret it.\n\nI think sometimes I wanted to be in love so badly that I was in love with love.\n\nAlso, I think, looking back on it, I did not really love him even though I wanted to. Then I felt I had to be honest and tell him that I did not love him. This made me feel bad because I felt like I was a liar (even though I wasn't). Also, I felt like a fool - retracting what I said - like as if I didn't know my own mind and as if I was so mixed up and confused, I don't know what love is.
1058335
After recently divorcing from a 16 yr marriage, I went on my first date. It was terrible. He was the worst kisser ever. Now granted, I hadn't kissed another man in over 16 years but I honestly felt like my face was being pecked to death by a chicken! LOL\nI couldn't wait for that date to be OVER!!!!
285370
17.  My high school sweetheart. Was too young. Relationship went bad, and couldn't stay in it. Oddly enough I still feel for him but we were too young.
108310
OMG I HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM!!! (except I dated the guy for 2 years)..... I guess we never get over them.... thats what it means to love someone..... and we will only get over them when we find someone better.... but i dont think anyone forgets thier first love..... (I still cant atleast)
767512
I have been broken up with my boyfirend for 9 years and i still miss him. If this was your first love you will never get over it. You never get over your first love.
911488
!. What are you willing to do ??? BE VERY  CAREFUL:   Who might be ashamed/regretful either now (our 1st thought) or maybe 15-20 or more years later when all the things wished for now come back to haunt you through the way you got them!
811180
I never lost the "former" me. \n\nI have one big regret in my life but it's a constant regret about myself as a person. When i am in the heat of the moment, i forget about everything else except how i feel. I don't think. I don't question. I just take the leap.\n\nI did it then, i do it now.\n\nI've just learned not to put myself in situations where i'll have to take the leap.\n\nI've accepted that this is my greatest weakness. I'm trying to reform it into becoming my greatest strength.
115157
MY 'GREATEST' REGRET:\nAfter having an argument with my father, a couple of weeks later he was hospitalized because he didn't feel good, my brother said. My father sent word by my brother," Tell my baby come see and we'll put everything behind us. We'll play like it never happened. Tell her I love her." My brother brought the message at 8pm but I said, "I was busy, I'd go tomorrow at lunch. At 11:45 am (less than 16 hours later) I walked into the hospital and found my brother crying, my dad had passed away 20 minutes before I got there. Reason of death, was declared 'unknown'.\n\n I regret not getting to hug and tell him,"I loved him, too".
887546
I think your first love is the stepping stone for a good second relationship .All the mistakes were made the first time and hopefully you learned from them .
1018309
Yes, And I regret that it never worked out.\nIts been years and I still miss everything about her.\nGood and bad.
144711
I still remember my first girlfriend.  We were in first grade, sat next to each other, took nap time near each other, first kiss... her name was Angela and she looked like an angel.  That was about 30 years ago. :)
995291
Yes, and it is not how you remember it feeling.  Once you do it then all the horror memories now haunt you in your sleep.  \nSo, I suggest you get out in the dating field and enjoy life, no reason to think about one last time.  \nI have been in your shoes, and speaking from experience, it was not worth reliving the memories.  Except it was 5 yrs after we split up and gee mmm well, mmm.  Bad experience.
920406
Yes, when I found my first love had cheated on me, I was so sick I lost 14kg in 2 days and by the end of the week I'd lost 20kg, I thought I was going to die. My best mate came and saved me. I'll never forget it.
357335
Of course girls remember their first loves!  How can anyone, let alone girls, forget the first person to give them butterflies?  It's the first and most exciting thing a girl feels.  Don't guys remember their first loves?
801434
Yes I did.... I was 19, he was 42. It lasted 11 years. He didn't work regularly, was abusive, unfaithful, and couldn't tell the truth about what he ate for lunch, let alone something important. BUT, he gave me a gorgeous, intelligent, sweet child. So, I have what I have and I am who I am, in part, because of that relationship,...so no, not one single regret.