Is dating someone I share a mutual attraction with wrong if he's got someone?
91887
If you were in a relationship with someone, would you want him dating someone else?  Ok, let's say you start dating this guy, knowing he has someone else.  Would you be ok with it if you found out he had a third on the side, so you were not the only "other one"?  What if he leaves her to be with you, then starts going with someone while he is with you?
238853
I think no because you have to get to know that person. You might not know if when ya'll hook up and become a couple he will change. See if yall have more stuuff in common. Thats the fun part about the relationship. See his past
592893
Not necessarily.  I think it's that you like something about him and there are still unresolved issues.  Not that you still want to be with him.
309002
you're not wrong for anything, the heart does what it wants. thats all i can say because i know from experience. just try to spend some more time with him.
546090
I would say out of respect for you, No.  Why would they want to date someone who you where close with and put you into that situation.  Its not selfish for you to think this.  my advice is to be honest.  You can't stop the relationship but you can be straight with them about this.
298450
If it's the right girl, of course!\n\nIf you're dating someone you aren't much compatible with, it can be a pain in the butt.
1000430
if you are just dating that is fine but when you bring someone else in the relationship you find your self regreting it you will see. \ndont do it
590521
don't feel guilty just because your dating someone doesn't mean you can't like other people your probably like 18 years old trust me the guy your with now isn't going to be the guy your with in 5 years, so look around you may end up finding the guy you're truly meant to be with
470270
There's nothing wrong with you, it's normal to be attracted to an older guy. However, going out with him now may not be an option. Depending on certain laws, he could get into big trouble messing around with you even you want to, especially since he's probably 18 or older.
357266
i think that it is okay. it is okay to be attracted and have feelings for anyone that you wish. what you need to do now is figure out what you want to do with your life. are you ready for committment, or do you want to explore a little? do be ashamed about your preference, but dont hurt, or lead anyone on in the process
981885
That depends on how you both feel towards each other. If he is interested in you soley he will let you know he doesn't want you seeing anyone else and wants to be strictly with you.. if he doesnt' the playing field is open for you both.
467698
No, its not wrong. You cannot control who you have feelings for. You have to let that person know how you feel, and see if possibly they are wrestling with the same problem.
1123741
I think that so long as it doesn't bother either of you - go for it. When I was 18 I dated a guy who was 40 - there's nothing wrong with it so long as you have things in common and you don't let the age different impact the relationship.
877530
I think it sounds a bit dodgy to me and not right. He should be excited about seeing you and be as keen as you are to get together, if i were you i wouldnt waste my time going out there, get out there and find someone who wants to be with you as much as you want to be with them, lifes too short to waste time on fake love go find true love, i can guarantee it will be worth it.
182811
Absolutely! If there's a spark, what's the harm in dating. I mean, it's nice to know the person isn't a psycho, but assuming they didn't appear to be when you met them, going out after that would be fine. Attraction is key in the long run so if it starts out that way, it at least has potential.
143569
Uhm no.\n\nI am one of those weird "one on one" kinda people. If I think that others are attracted to the same person I'm attracted to......I concede. I back away. I just don't like the idea of being "one of the crowd." If he wants me to be singled out, I figure he'll do so. If he enjoys the crowd....then that is definitely his perogative. Because I feel this way when I'm in a relationship, I don't ever put anyone else in this situation. I don't ever want the guy I'm attracted to feel there are others I would ever compare him to. He needs to feel special. And that's all i have to say about that.
1055044
Well its quick,e-z, and they both want the same things. So there's not problem. You don't have to be in a relationship to get what you want. So can see him with someone else and you just wont care.