my boyfriend s cheating on me but i love him what do i do?
89059
Why waste your time on someone that would disrespect you in that way? If you are a REAL & TRUE woman, you wouldn't put up with that sh!t. Ask him what he was thinking when he did that, and who he was thinking about. Because apparently he  wasn't thinking about you. You deserve better.
229837
sweetheart, it hurts alot. i've been there. you are right in not being able to trust him. it's not always the case that there always a cheater, but it's almost foolproof. if he's done it before, why won't he do it again when he finds someone else that's more attractive to him? all you can do is wait out the pain. it hurts and it sucks, but try and move on. go out, have fun, meet new guys. you don't have to get married or anything, just go out and have fun. i hope this helps you sweetie, at least a little. if you'd like to talk to someone that's been there, you can email me. poetic_disturbulance@yahoo.com
1000386
baby girl, let me explain something to you if this boy cheated on you then he'll do the same thing again!I don't care if he's your last boyfriend...now if your the one who broke up with him then that's a whole different story!Don't go back to the same thing. Look forward.Life gets better!Just got to follow your heart!
888966
If you feel you need to have him investigated and can't trust what he tells you......\n\nfind a new boyfriend.\n\nCut your losses and move on.
286324
Dump him!!! I know that that my sound extreme but, think about you state of mind. The fact that you love him is secondary, love is not suppose to hurt. Does he love you? I seriously doubt it for if he did he wouldn't be out with his ex, he would be out with you.
617423
Dump him and get on with your life, he is a total looser to cheat on you
283531
first . . . your question didn't make sense . . . and if I get the gist . . . he cheated on you with her . . . \n\nSecond . . . you are to emotional . . . . calm down and relax and don't do anything stupid.\n\nThird . . . . dump him after you calm down
127139
talk to him and tell him about the situation..if he really is cheating (which guys normally says "im not cheating!")..caught him in the act..and just think that its not your loss but his!
1167716
show your current boyfriend some respect.  if you don't love him anymore, breakup with him.  it may be hard to do but it's easier to get over being dumped than it is to get over being cheated on.
596186
DONT DO IT, YOUR BOYFRIEND DONT REALLY LOVE YOU IS HE A PERVERT YOU NEED TO FIND SOMEONE THAT LOVES YOU FOR REAL AND RESPECT YOU; TELL YOUR BOYFREIND I SAID TO F**K HIM SELF AND TO RESPECT YOU YOU ARE WORTH MORE THAN A STUPID RISE AT WORK... THAT IS WHAT I THINK
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Think of it the other way around.  Say that he is wondering the same thing.  If he was honest enough to tell you about it, what would YOU say and do?!  Your boyfriend deserves your honesty: at the very least, have the courtesy and the courage to let him know how you are feeling.  And be prepared to crush his feelings.  If you play the cheating game, YOU KNOW it will eventually come around to bite you on the ass!  Whether it's your guilty conscience, or the inevitability of his finding out some time anyway, he WILL find out!  Do you know the difference between right and wrong?  Of course you do!  Are you willing to risk your relationship with your boyfriend?  If you are, you have no business being his girlfriend, and he's much better off without you!  Like you girls say about us, think with your big head (you know what I mean!).
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You really DO have to decide for yourself and what anyone on here says cant change that but if he was cheating on me i would break up with him, and plus if you never see him, than what is the point? I think you should find somebody better than that because you dont derserve that!\n\nGood Luck And Take Care!
259682
Dump him. I've been cheated on before. I'll never put up with it again.
980344
Do you still love him?  If you do then I would say try again.  BUT, you need to have a serious conversation with him before you put yourself out there again.  Explain to him that you never cheated and you were offended when he just blindly believed a rumor instead of even asking your side.  This is your life and your decision, do you think he is worth your time?  Is he going to just believe anything anyone says about you?  He needs to realize that the 2 of you are the only ones in your relationship...  Hope everything works out good for you.
703133
Let him have real love, and let him go.\n\nYou obviously don't love him enough. He needs something more. Get out so you both don't end up cheated in the end, I'm dead serious.
120749
Wow if I was your girlfreind I would be upset. I might even dump you for that. Technically it IS cheating. All I can say is, big mistake. Don't do it again.\n\nIf you love her, take responsibility. You were wrong. Don't try to defend yourself or justify it. You cheated. Admit you made a mistake, ask for forgiveness, and don't ever do it again. Learn from your mistake and change. That's right, change. Become the type of person who is faithful and who would never hurt someone they love. Doesn't your girlfriend deserve that? Yes you can do it. Also understand from a girl's perspective, it hurts. If she doesn't dump you, count yourself extremely lucky and be thankful for what you have.
194505
If you two are close and serious about this relationship even love one another? then just let him know that you wont put up with it. and everything will come out sooner or later. maybe with that he'll ether stop cheating on you or cut him out if he is when you find out!