why do them good men fell like the have to be judged on their womans past?
84351
hmm, not all men and women feel that way.  You should get some therapy.
170007
Men are clueless as to what they want, they themselves wishes that someone could tell them, and even if someone did, would they listen, NO, Why? Because they are self opiniated and listen to noone, Its an ego thing.\nWhen we find a good man, you just have to thank all the gods and angels in heaven and on earth.  In the meantime, keep the hope alive and when you come across a loser/liar show them the way to SanJose, better known as hell.
66308
Well you gotta look at it from all angles.  Not ALL men are dogs and not ALL women talk about guys like that.  Some chics have been done worngly by guys and they tend to make the mistake of judging all guys by one guy's actions.  I got screwed over by my husband and I, on a daily basis, try to not let that have an affect on how I view other guys....  It's tough sometimes tho
201766
I didn't think good men get over-looked...you've got it all wrong.  It is the good women who are always overlooked.
934906
To tell you the truth, we have to be, we can't let our true feelings or emotions surface. If we do then were not considered stong, rather, people see a man do this and seem to lose respect for him. It's the world, even you ladies find it bad if we do any thing of the sort. And believe me, when it comes to us gentlemen, we pay the price for it.
958269
Unfortunately these men are chauvinists. Chauvinists in general tend to be somewhat jealous of women.
222061
I think they must know they lack, so in the beginning they are extra special to the girl.  They treat her like a queen and make her feel worshipped.  Then, after they have the girl hooked is when the bad comes out.  I smart girl that has enough self-esteem to know better would get out fast at this point.  A lot of times, the guy makes the girl believe she is nothing without him and he demolishes her self-esteem so that she doesn't have the strength to leave him.
68429
Some men feel threatned by a strong woman who can hold her own in the world, it shows up their own weakness, you should find other men who can apreciate you instead of these insecure guys
515119
The reason why everything is a man fault is because women can not accept responsibility for their actions or anything else that they do so they have to blame someone else for their shortcomings. It is in their nature to be shadow. Accept them for who and what they are and learn to live with their mindless lack of responsibility. Remember that they are here only as toys for us men! Let them have their delusions and fantasies, all it show is their stupidity.
946259
maybe you are too selective.\nSome ladies get too slective on looks; so they end up with a good looking guy who treats them like crap.\nYou need to look at the whole package.
977714
Nice guys always finish last. It seem woman like to be treated like dirt. hence the old saying treat a woman like dirt shell treat you like gold!
1101576
Some people are just great con artists-jails and the White House are full and of them!! Some guys, unfortunately think that women are just a token for their manhood, a notch on the belt; the more notches the more they can brag to their buddies! Some guys do it because they need to fill their egos by fooling and hurting unsuspecting women. These guys as well are just creeps too! There are no explanation or excuse for these low lifes!!
1017729
Good question - some do it because they feel most things in their life they cant control. some because they think it is part of being a real man. some because they hate themselves and feel weak. and I am guessing there are many more reasons. Many years ago most men where brought up this way. Times were different and women were more like slaves then mates but times have changed and women are more equal so this says that things are improving and with saying that and in time things will continue to change so people learn to respect other people regardless of their sex or anything else for that matter.
1111439
To get a "good woman" you have to be "good man".
445501
I am afraid that it is a two way road on that one. A lot of woman dont appreciate the good guys and a lot of men don't appreciate the good women I have had guys tell me how good and sweet I am and this and that and then they drop me like a hotcake. \n\nI see that problem with women and I wonder why the heck they dropped the guy like they did. \n\nI think everyone needs to grow up and appreciate what is good. Honestly. \n\nI know that there are lots of good guys out there and there are lots of good girls, it's just a matter of them meeting one another.
251982
Because they are not ready to settle down; they still whant adventure so they look for the "bad guys" to have fun. When they get older and they are ready to settle down, they look for a good guy.Same thing happens with us men.
725592
Women do our heads in because we men are on a hopeless struggle to please them. How can we give them what they want when they either don't know or have changed their mind? The latter is viewed by them to be their privilege.