How do u make someone realize that .."its actually infactuation.. not love"?
87840
Sounds like they r 2 far gone to listen to anything u have 2 say, some people have to learn from their own mistakes.\nJust B a good freind and help them get through.  They'll know next time.
668311
the best way is to tell him how you feel, and ask him if he feels the same, i know easier said then done. but it works and it will take the wonder wheel off you head. trust me.
21966
dont be dumb enough to even think you know what he or she is feeling. YOU DONT! best advice, leave them along for a few days and let them ask for what they want. no pressure, and NO QUESTIONS. let theme tell what they want, when they want and remember, time will help heal. NO PRESSURE AND NO WAR STORIES.
1093961
If you were in love you wouldn't have to ask.\nInfactuation is confusing, love is crystal clear.
115847
u cant force love #1...u just cant.....tell him ud like to hang out and treat it as old times, he will either be rekindled in his feelings or he may realize the feelings are different know, ppl change everyday and its just something u have to throw to chance
975958
Approach him and clear the misunderstandings. Tell him how you feel about him.
502498
accept his difficulty...some people just cant express their love in words..\ni myself am brought up in a loving family, but we have never said 'i love u' verbally...only written and actions that show we love\nand today i find it hard expressing myself in person unless im really really really close to the person...a chance to open up more\ndont blame him if u dont hear what u want to hear\njust accept him and allow him space to learn how to express himself froom u. thats the beaty of love...u grow to express in each other
298729
That quote should be used sparingly and not as a mantra.  If you have a pet bird that you love, set it free... and see how long it takes before it's gone and dies outside because it didn't know how to live in the wild.  Many more examples if that isn't good enough.  \n\nAnyway, if you think you made a mistake then try to correct it.  How?  You're going to have to talk to the person, no way around it.  Explain what you were thinking or feeling at the time, and why you think it was a mistake.  Then ask if they're willing to give the relationship another chance.
290394
speak honestly.\n\nExplain the whole truth and how you feel about the issue.\n\nHonesty equals sincerity. There's no other way to look at it.
627411
To truly love someone, you need to support them, and respect their decision.  If you want to tell someone you love them, do it, write a letter, or whatever.  To show that you REALLY love them, respect their feelings and decisions.  Don't push them into a relationship, if they want to remain just friends, do so, because you care about them and will work hard and do what it takes to stay close to them, even if it means remaining friends.  Be honest, and sincere - that is another way to show someone you truly love them.  When you talk to them, look them in the eye, really listen to what they say, show sincere concern when things are going poorly, and sincere happiness for them when something good happens to them.  What you need to do is show them that you care about them as a person, not as a person to be won, or an object, or a sex toy, but an individual person.  That will get them for sure - no matter how you express your feelings.\n\nGood luck!
478858
If you're really not sure of what you feel for him, then just try to entertain him about his feelings for you... Never tell a person you love him/her if you're not sure because it really hurts in their part when you don't show it to them... Try to think first before making any moves and be sure of everything if you're talking about true commitment... You can also try telling him about your feelings that at this moment, you're still not sure what you feel, if he's matured enough, he will understand you, and if he really loves you, he will wait for your decision without lessening his feelings for you... Also use the situation right now to test if what he feels for you is true...
109939
OK LOOK WHEN YOU GUYS ARE TOGETHER ANYWHERE JST WHISPER IT INTO HIS EAR OR SCREAM IT FROM THE MOUNTAIN TOPS OR YO COULD SEND HIM AN E-CARD SAYING I LOVE IN THEM OR JUST TELL IN BABY I LUV YOU. BUT LOOK ONLY SAY THOSE WORDS IF YOU REALLY RELLY NEAN IT BECAUSE THOSE WORDS ARE NOT TO BE TAKEN LIGHTLY. THOSE WORDS GO A LONG WAS SO BE CAREFUL WHEN SAYING THAT TO ANYBODY.
1128014
It's obvious that you need to tell him that you're not compatible. Honesty would be the best way to let someone know you're not feeling them. You shouldn't necessarily go into the drug-use and the ignorance unless he leaves you no choice. If he pulls a dumb-one and tries to act as if you're doing something wrong by telling him that you're not interested in him anymore, then let him know what exactly you're trying to say. He should get it then. Good luck with this.
603175
You simply cannot make a person love you that has to come naturally, A persons feelings just don't turn on and off at a whim. Before anything happens you must get to know each other first before anything jumps off.\n\nIf he doensn't love you that is perhaps he doesn't know you yet and you haven't bothered to go and introduce yourself to him yet.\n\nMake a move and see what happens but remember you cannot make a person love you, and that I am being honest with you with.
489601
Come on, thats silly!  Look at my son and I and tell me there is not "true love"....look at what you have with that special someone and say there is not true love!
840477
some people don't know how to show love, mainly because of the way they were raised, but that doesn't mean they don't love.  The best thing to do is to talk to them about this it is always better to ask a question and get an answer, then to dwell on assumptions.  GL
191001
Wait until you feel it. Don't say it just to say it... say it when you know in your heart that you love that person.