Why don't I want to have sex as often?
90433
It sounds to me , it's becuase your doing it like a horse, try doing it like a man maybe it will help.
718255
I can have sex many times, if I don't have an orgasm. I can do it about 7 times a day. My husband caught on & will give me an orgasm before I wear him out. \n\nIf you are having orgasms, then your sex must be fantastic. Your body is most likely just used to having sex all the time, so it becomes almost a necesity.
354703
Your hormones are raging. Think about it this way. When your older and no longer care about sex that much anymore, are you going to be with someone who loves you and that you love. You want someone who will be your friend when that time comes. For love, you have to make sacrifices. You can't have everything or you might end up with nothing.
380873
honey,not all men are lazy in bed maybe your man has not got as high a sex drive as you have,and if you mider him all the time this will just put him off,try speaking to him and sorting this out,and lazy in what way???? i think a few times a week is average but everYone is differant.
853281
Trust me, when we have way too much on our plates, we can get stressed out pretty easily.  It can decrease our sex drives.\n\nSociety has this image of us guys always wanting sex, no matter what.  But let me tell you, there are times when you just want to go to sleep because you are so tired and exhausted.\n\nThis is more true as you get older.
452336
there's nothing wrong with having sex multi-times a day it goes to show you that you do have a very healthy active sex life. its normal but than again we are all different some like it less than others visversa.
826311
Do you mean sex?  I think it's silly to put a number on how often you want it.  I think it shoud be a mutual thing.  There are people with really high sex drives, and people with really low sex drives.  If two people with conflicting levels get together, there will likely be problems in the relationship (although I think they can be worked out if both people make an effort).  I don't think there is a standard to live up to.  Both people need to decide what is right for their relationship.  Of course non-sexual contact should also be considered.  If you truly connect with someone intellectually and emotionally, you might feel that you are better able to compromise with the physical part.
381930
most of us want cuddling and alot of foreplay. but, sometimes we want hard and fast too. it depends on the mood, how much time we have etc.
656944
It seems like you want sex more when you can't get it.  It sounds like he is using that as an excuse.  I have never heard of a man getting bored with sex.  Talk to him and if you can live without the sex stay with him, if not kick him to the curb.
75526
It is normal for a guy to want sex everyday, but to expect it is a different story. Every so often a quickie to quench his need is understandable, but you need to question if he doesn't care if you are in the mood or not and still expects it.
971675
I don't agree.  I know men who are not really that much into sex.  Me, being a woman, however, I  need it often.\n\nI don't mean with different people
406995
I think about it 24 hrs of tha day, 365 days of tha year,ALL tha time!  Its important to certain woman. Some women are happy with once a week, once a month, but then you have tha other side who they want it all tha time. Right now I am seekin a man who will sex me more than just 5 times in a day! Not sayin tha sex is going to make or break my relationship, Im just sayin tha me personally wants to be in a relationship where we sex all tha time!
592425
youre right when you say it's a neverending question with never a concrete answer to be had... all youre going to get are a bunch of other peoples opinions. Personally my own opinion is that if you get married, it becomes your duty to figure out what kind of sexual routine is satisfactory for the both of you. It's completely not fair and cruel for people to withhold sex, but at the same time, it's not fair for people to demand sex. That's why you need to communicate before hand. what you would be satisfied with. Some couples are fine with it being once or twice a week, and some prefer more. It all depends on the couple. For your other question, why do women want it less? I think it's because they have less of a sex drive-less testosterone and lets admit it, less chance of orgasm through sex alone so it's less of a motivation for them to have sex everyday. For women sex is generally a way to express love but for men, sex is just an activity. Most women can sense when their man just wants to f*ck them and I'm sure they don't mind this most of the time but generally they prefer sex to be about love and affection and closeness. I guess that's hard for men to understand, and it's hard for women to understand that men just see it as an activity sometimes separate from love. That's why the sexes need to communicate and sympathize with each other.
44813
Men are hardwired to crave sex almost constantly. It's encoded in their DNA and has been that way forever. It's not that they think you want sex all the time, it's just that they require it more than women do. It's a biological thing. You're going to have to learn to live with that and just be clear to your man when you aren't in the mood and he is. Just remember, it's really not something they can control.
251928
My girl is the same way and I am 23. It's sorta weird for me not to be in control of when we have sex. I believe if she didn't want to have sex so much then I would. Its a weird situation but I think its true.
671323
There is an eventual slowdown in any relationship, but slowing down to once a month is certainly below the amount that most 28-year-olds want.  I get suspicious when he says he wants "impersonal sex."  Sounds like he wants sex with people he doesn't know well, and after a year and a half, you don't qualify.
1163167
can be stress.\ncan be you need variety.\ncan be your diet.\ncan be you need more foreplay.