I am confused as to why my relationships alway's fail,even when i try my best to make it work.Can you help?
93932
If I am right. You are 34 yoa.  With a 9 year old son. My guess is, that your husband was one of those who thought the grass was greener on the other side. But don't let it get you down. My guess it was not your fault. Just a nother dumb male. You are better off with out him. Your son will do the most suffering. But you can handle that too! First look and find or let him find you a nice gentleman that is looking for a relationship. Make sure he and your son hit it off as well as you and him. Then let nature run its course. When one door closes another opens. It won't be long and you will be the happiest woman in the world. Take care and good luck.
68680
It may be something you are going through in your life right now.  Job, relationship, life crisis....  If you try different things suggested here and on your own and it continues I would seek professional help.  Maybe you just need to relax and go with the flow.
235000
Hmm. Tough qestion. Why cant I get a relationship also? HAhax. It's most probably you are too good that people fear to get close to you. They are afraid that they are not good enough for you. Another possible thing is you are too bad and people dont want to get close to you which i doubt is the case. Maybe u r a backgrd figure? IF u are, try to be more vocal and make people notice u. Smile more. Be kind to others. People will realise that u are a good catch. MAke more friends first. DOnt rush in to things. Slow and steady. XD Wish u all the best.
968788
Tell me about it, feel like giving up every relationship always ends up wrong.  eg: my last relationship was going great untill he got a new job which required him to move back to america...so that ended like all the others....is there any hope out there?
56706
Don't give up. Keep on doing sweet things to him. It worked for one night, it can work for another night. You need to be patient. A good relationship needs hard work, nothing is easy. Have faith and good luck.
622504
well, I'm hoping that your relationship does work out. I'm in the same situation, but my bf is a year older that yours. We are talking about moving in together after I graduate next year, and the talking has already started. I believe that if both of you are willing to work on it, then there is no reason that your relationship will fail. Good luck.
654140
i think u should talk and resolve the problem...and if it still doesn't work...then its probably time to move on...
1051469
So what you are saying is. before it didn't work and now his current relationship, isn't working. So he wants to try again and your honestly wanting advice of what to do. \nDon't you see the pattern here. It isn't with you or his present relationship but with this guy. Understand that he must have serious issues that he cant seem to get along with anyone. Do you need the drama, do you need a relationship that is doomed to fail before it is ever made? \nHe is your ex and this is because? \nYou see ex means over finished complete. You should respect yourself more than that. After all don't you think your worth it?
1171123
Seriously, how do you think things will be fixed unless you TALK? That could be exactly the thing that's keeping you apart. Go ahead and say what's supposed to be said. If you don't do this you'll always look back and wonder how things would've worked out if you had spoken to each other. Go ahead and do it.\nGood luck! :)
896059
Hello:\n\nOne of the hardest things I have ever had to realize is that loving someone isn't enough to make a relationship work. \n\nI was in a long term relationship with a guy, whom I was in love with. The only problem was that he was insanely jealous, and I am a little too trusting. He would assume I was cheating on him, if I had a conversation with a guy friend (a guy friend that I had been friends with long before I met my boyfriend). And if I saw him chatting with a random girl I would just assume they were chatting, and nothing more. I should also say that I have never cheated on a boyfriend, much less cheated on this guy. \n\nEventually he started to push the limits more and more when it came to making me jealous, so much so that he started making out with a girl at a party we had gone to together. Even though afterwards he told me that it didn't mean anything, but that he wanted me to feel jealous, it was too hurt to try to make the relationship work. \n\nWe had a long talk and learned that we had spent so much time trying to hurt each other, that we didn't have anytime to enjoy each other. Obviously our relationship was disfunctional, and I'm happy to say we are both in relationship and are successful and we are still friends with one another.\n\nThe relationship I have now is fantastic. But we still do have problems. The best thing I have done in this relationship is that we face issues head on. But we both know how we each deal with stress. When I am stressed I like to be left alone, where as he likes to be distracted and just take a break from it all. We are able to recognize when we are stressed, and how we can help the other one deal with the problem. \n\nI would suggest that you wait it out. You've been in a relationship that has been successful for so long. Wait until he has started school and starts feeling comfortable there. But be supportive and if he doesn't want to talk to you about his feelings - just let him know that you are there for him if he ever needs to talk or a distraction. \n\nI hope this helps and good luck!
988266
Hey, just like you said to me, friendships are a great foundation for relationships. i live in england anyways lol. bt really, if you have feekings for a person, dont be afraid expressing them, and always be ready to say positive things, because that is what drives people together. Good Luck!
979982
your relationship sounds like true love. some people never find that. yes they get married and live together but thats nothing if like you said, your not honest and trusting. it does seem simple. but somethings are worth fighting for.
257399
All relationships require work from both ends and if that doesn't exist then they eventually fade away.  It is often better to let them fade away than to be angry over what you can't control.
880979
Unfortunately, it just is that way sometimes.  You have had some bad luck with women, but I don't think it's anything you do, per se.  Maybe it's the type of women you tend to fall for.  Are you attracted to women who are super-confident and assertive, almost to the point of bitchiness?  Do the women you date expect you to do whatever they tell you to?  I think it's nice that you are a sensitive, kind, poetry-writing kind of guy, but if asserting yourself in a relationship isn't your strong suit, you'll probably keep getting your heart broken over and over again.  Try dating outside our usual "type," and maybe you'll find a woman who will really love you for who you are and be faithful to you.  Good luck!
243436
Well you need to figgure out why, and if you can't fix it then you need to move on. Best of luck.
993021
of course a relationships arent perfect. you got to see what to see what he thinks. talk to him, then see what is  the best thing to do.
796068
i can see why im confused to.it sounds like she saying dont worry we will f*ck if anything. just try not to get attached till you  figure her out just dont waste to much of your time.it sounds like a game.she probably has another on the side and wants to see who can offer her more. in that case the good guy always loses.