how do you cure a broken heart?
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start from the inside.  figure out what you love about yourself.  make yourself more marketable.  learn to cook, read more topics like sports, science, politics, sex, etc.  get passionate.  further your education.  the better you feel about yourself the more different people will be interested in you.  remember people don't give you joy, so they can't take it away.
485760
Use this hard time to take care of yourself.  Take time to do things that you enjoy that perk your spirits(bubble baths, yoga, workout, massage, etc.) and keep your heart healing.\n\nYou have a pretty good perspective on what you want to do and how you want this breakup to work.  No matter what you tell yourself in your head, though, your heart will still hurt for a time.  Good luck.
458122
shay shay,,,im sorry you have a broken heart,every one in life has a broken heart and it isnt very nice is it shay shay,all i can say to you is that 1 day your heart will heal and you will fall in love again .be brave and be strong shay shay,,i know its hard for you at this time but remember you must never forget that 1 day ,,,hopefully soon you will again be happy with someone new,,love and respect to you dear,david in spain,xxx
49996
As the saying goes...time heals all wounds. Move on with your life, spend time with loved ones, find a new hobby or resume an old one, make new friends, start a journal to write down your thoughts so that you can work through them...the key thing is to put him out of your mind and eventually, out of your heart.
100137
It took ten years for my poor poor heart to mend after I divorced my husband of 13 years b/c he had a baby with an aquaitance of mine and I felt sorry for her not being married and all gave her a baby shower and gave her all my childs things (i did not know it was his child til later). It just takes time. I dove into my work and made new friends (seeing as how all my old friends knew it was his child and did not tell me) and spent some quality time with myself. I got to know me really well and decided I really liked the new me. Just give yourself time to heal and get involved with work and friends. It does help. Oh and try not to drown your sorrows in alchol and drugs. I tried that I lost everything I had AGAIN and had to start over. Good luck to you and try and hang in there the world has a lot to offer if you will just stop and look around. I am happily married now to a wonderful and caring man that adores me! I am living proof that your heart can and will mend. I may stil be cracked but it will heal.
953275
I had many problems, what helped me is that I invited Jesus into my heart, He has changed me from the inside out, he helped heal my broken heart, he has made things which I thought were impossible happen in my life....He is love.....may God help you to relax and sleep.....in Jesus name....amen
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Find someone knew and get distracted.\n\nI know it sounds trite, but remember when your hampster (or other pet) would die and your parent's would buy you a new one to make you feel better? Well, it worked, didn't it?\n\nA new love will distract you from the pain while you heal. Next thing you know, you'll be over it.
969122
The key to this is to keep your focus on... you.\n\nI'm sorry he broke your heart.  It's tough. My fiance broke off our relationship three weeks before the wedding-- and we worked together.  Turns out he was involved with someone else and like your guy,  he was "on top of the world."  I was underneath it somewhere.\n\n But, if you keep the focus on you, you'll be working on your depression.\n\nI embrace spirituality... not religious... and when you see this guy, maybe you can just say to yourself, "I forgive you... and I release you to the universe"  \n\nYou concentrate on being the best person you can be.  The rest... will take care of itself.\n\nOh, and take the high road.  Never let him see you depressed.  (Therapists may not agree with this,  but ultimately, it made me feel better)\n\nGood luck.
178645
time will heal the heartbreak.........sorry hun\n\n.....i better call my mom
62587
Realize you can't depend on other people to complete you, make you whole, or fulfill your dreams.  Broken hearts do hurt, I've been there.  Not to preach at you, but if you seek the truth you will find it- Jesus Christ will be your satisfaction, your most important relationship, and romantic relationships along with life itself will have a divine sense of purpose. Broken hearts, though they can still happen and hurt, won't take center stage in your life and will be a lot easier to get over.  And I almost forgot- don't settle for less of a man than you dream for, never get the idea you can "fix" a guy and have him change into who you dream for.
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If you have a broken heart, Jesus can heal it, only if you trust him and let him....All healing takes time...but knowing that someone loves you can make a big difference. Jesus does love you, and if you can accept that love, then your healing has begun. Read the bible, especially the new testament and the psalms. I think you will find some strength there....jesus heals you through his word, by bringing other people to help you, and by giving you his peace.
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Fozzie is right time is the best cure. Music and movies have been known to help the healing process, distractions like hobbies and reading a good book can also help. Don't be afraid to be self indulgent at this time. Take good care of yourself and remember it's his loss. Maybe you can take this time to go to the salon, reinvent yourself. Put away any old sentimental items, rearranging furniture or accessories can help you get into a positive mood.
69800
Be yourself, if you want cry- cry, if smile- smile. Remember that you need to forget person who broke you heart...)
320003
It takes time to get over a love relationship.  Some people say that it takes half the time you were involved to get over it.  The best thing is to just talk it out with friends, or maybe a professional counselor.  It's a process, getting over a broken heart, not an event.  It's not something that you just wake up the next day and say, "I'm over it".  I found getting involved with new friends, or interests took my mind away from my sadness.  \nI'm sorry to hear that you are hurting, I hope that you can find some support and distraction soon.  It won't always be like this.  Some day in the future you will look back at this and realize that it wasn't a good relationship for you.
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if you had kids spend more and more time with them, go for outings and trips with them so that you can all have fun, go out with the "boyz" for late nights, join a club, group whatever will help you too keep yourself busy...........time is the only thing that will really help to heal broken hearts.
200352
If there was, I would bottle it up and make a fortune.  We all experience broken hearts, especially those of us who are most willing to open ourselves up to love.  The good news is that you will recover.  The bad news is you just have to keep on risking your heart in order to find true love.
945450
It depends on what caused the break up... But flowers and candy can patch just about anthing up. If it doesn't do it for you, just remember their are plenty of fish in the sea.