My bf just went out on a date w/ me, and he broke up w/ me. i knew he was going 2, but it broke me in two.?
80587
Uh? Hmmm, I am very sorry to hear that. I really don't know how that can answered since it is not a question. Sometimes relationships fall apart just because they were not destined to work. That I know is not consoling in the least but in these situations it is better to find out that your partner is not in the relationship for love or your best interest in the beggining rather than in the future with a family involved. These things happen for a reason and in time you will see that it was all for the best. Can you add to your question/statement to let everyone know what you really want answered? I hope that you get a moment of peace. I know its hard but it does get easier I promise.
1048544
I don't blame him for feeling insecure (3x break-up.  that'll screw anyone's head up-boy or girl), but I think you missed your chance to tell him the truth.  At this point he's hanging on to what has passed and like you, doesn't want to feel alone.\n\nSit down with him and tell him that after 3 break-ups, it's time to move on before any of us lose a sense of what we want.\n\nIt's going to hurt, but that's a part of the proccess.
991806
Why did you break up in the first place?  Talk to him and tell him how you feel.  He may just be feeling the same way about you.  Don't stay quiet.
65502
It sounds like if he's truly understood that you're gonna break it off with him and yet he still hasn't changed his attitude, then he's probably wanting you to break it off. Maybe it's one of the whole, "I don't want to do it so I'll MAKE her do it" type things. Give him this last chance, try to go out and do something that both of you enjoy without the distraction of friends and family. Let him know that it really does bug you when he acts this way. If he still seems like he wants to hang on and will change, you decide, you go for it or maybe you've had enough. But if he's STILL acting that way by the end of the "date" call it quits. Move on to a guy who'll treat ya better! Good luck girl!
138593
It sounds like you might be the reason that he and his girlfriend broke up.  You might as well go for it.  From your question I would say that you are young, and you only get to be young once so you might as well enjoy it.
421379
Awww! I hate it when that happens... \nMaybe he just wasn't good enough for you...\nI don't know what you told him but possibly, something that you told him about your personal stuff made him think that you're not the right one for him... I don't know! \nDon't worry about it. It was just a date! Move on... there's plenty more fish in the sea :)
150209
Forget about it. You were probably going to break up soon if he did like you anyway. That is how love goes.
738231
Let me get this straight...you have been seeing a guy for 2 weeks...but he wants to go out with someone else, who he knows it won't work with, so that when it's over he can go out with you.....He starts seeing the other girl, then, the next day can't keep his hands off of you...... What should you do?....Get some self respect and tell him to sling his hook.....you would  be setting the tone for your whole relationship with him if you accept this situation......walk now ...it will save you a lot of heartache in the end
987690
You just got out of a 4 year relationship and you are ready to jump into a new one after two weeks? You contradict yourself you said you told him you knew he was dating others ..he denies it but tells you that he needs to compare if it was worth it to leave one for the other? Anyway it's ok that he is dating others considering you aren't in a committed relationship, you are just dating. Guess what you can date others too! Don't make someone your priority when you are only their option. I, quite frankly, think it's a lil soon to be jumping into a new relationship so quick but that's your decision to make. Keep dating the guy but don't make yourself completely available to him, create a challenge. Also date other people and let him know about it. After all the two of you aren't exclusive, unless he makes it that way. Just take it slow and do what a psychologist does best, analyze.
891103
The same thing happened to me. He's just trying to get you jealous because he knows u will. Girls do tht and obviously he knows tht.  I broke up with him and he wanted me back and asked me out again. Since then we've been going out. Don't worry it's a guy thing and i was wondering too why he was doing tht and he told my friend it was just because he was jealous
299021
I personally think that he was being kind of a jerk.  yes it was just a movie, but he planned to be with you that night and to just ditch you is just plain rude.  tell him how you feel and ask him if he could maybe do something different next time.
553022
If you broke up w/ him there must have been a reason. What was that reason ? Do you want to go through it all over again ? I think I can relate to what you're saying tho. I went to the city partly to get away fr him for the wk'd after we broke up. Well, we were still talking on the phone sometimes but when he phoned it'd be more like "geeeeeeez... :( " but I'd still answer the phone. While in the city I didn't have a very good time. It felt like my fam was abandoning me or something. Like they were tryna get rid of me or didn't wanna see me, etc. :( I was very hurt. The main reason why I was thinking of moving to the city was to be near my fam too... After that I felt that my ex was the only one who really cared bout me. When I got back home I jut HAD to see him so I went to see him. I told him bout what happened in the city & how I felt that he was the only one who cared bout me. For a whole wk I wanted to be w/ him. I wanted to be w/ him every chance I had. We were @ this pt, just "friends". We went to see Default & I guess he was gonna go home after the concert. I didn't want him to leave. I didn't wanna go home either. He was gonna drink but I didn't really care if he did, as long as I could be w/ him. Well, his mom & sis were gone to the city, so he let me spend the night, which I did. I felt that I wanted to get back w/ him. B/w the day I got back home fr the city to the time we got back together officially was Apr 7th-13th I believe. There was even a time AFTER that that I thought that we'd be together forever. But in the past 2 or 3 wks I haven't been feeling that way. I wanna break up w/ him. When & how is the Q. This'll be our 4th break up. :( \nYou may also experience this as well. Have you broken up in the past ? If you have I think that this will only continue to happen. Don't let it. Be strong. Easier said that done I know, but when you feel like talking to him, call a friend. Maybe even get together w/ a friend or friends. It's better than giving in to urges. Hope this helps !!!
411348
u dont wanna show him dat u leave guyz as soon as u get 2 know a cute one.he s probably scared of his friend and rightly so,u were his friend's gf......so i think u shud break up wid ur bf b4 any further moves.....if u already broke up.....then u shud talk 2 d guy u dated n tell him.....to not butt into ur life n move on.try 2 get closer 2 d guy u like n make him sure dat u broke off wid his frnd n ur single now....start wid being frns n it will happen\nbest wishes .....hope someone can get their love if i cant
558265
Perhaps he realizes that he's losing his control over you and you are interested in someone else.  Follow your heart, was the reason for the break up valid?  Is it still valid?  Was it silly and stupid?  If any of those apply then he is where he needs to be, a ex.   Guys are funny, they think that they don't want you, and don't, till they see you with someone else, like your life stops because you was with them.
992372
Make move GIRL\nNOW\nJUMP his bones-i totally get what u mean-do IT NEXT time you see him-NO matter where!\ni did same thing on like 3rd date with my BF-waiting sux, plus its awesome when you do it-good luck you
754372
i did twice, almost at the same time. i was dating this guy that i absolutely loved. we dated a year before we ended it. it was really heartbreaking. he didnt cheat on me or anything, atleast i dont think he did. i thought we were going to get married! in the middle of that relationship, i also became friends with this guy who had a crush on me. i had a crush on him too but we never dated or anything because i was so in love with my boyfriend. my friend and i stopped talking because i wanted to be with my boyfriend and i felt i was cheating on him because i had a crush on him. anyway, bad idea. i got my heart broken twice.... my boyfriend dumped me and i lost my chance with my friend =( im glad to say that my friend and i are friends again and still close. i still believe i lost my chance with him though =/
1086187
Girl let him go as he did to u and move on. Call the guy u went out with already. Hell do your thing let him be you can still love him from a distance.