What do you do when your guy friend is dating another girl and not you?
84558
I realize you were hoping for more with this guy than just friendship but friendship is the basis for your relationship with him.  Why do you want to throw that away or give up on it just because he is dating someone else?  Good friendships are just as hard to come by as good relationships.  You should continue to be his friend and support him.  This new relationship of his may or may not last but hopefully your friendship will.  And while you should lead your life as if nothing will ever come of this friendship other than what it is now, you just never know what the future holds.  Those bonds of friendship may grow over time and some day the timing for you two may be right for things to progress.
237246
You continue to be their friend. Take it from me; guys aren't normally friends with girls for nothing. I guarantee you there's something about you that he likes. You wouldn't be his friend if there wasn't. Just remain close to him and let the other relationship do its thing. If it doesn't work out between them, then and only then, do you tell him how you feel. Let him take it from there. The best thing you can do is to not interfere with or try and sabotage his relationship with his girlfriend. If he ever finds out he will resent you. You will forever lose his trust and you two will never be together. Remain his friend, but don’t waste your life waiting around for his relationship to fail. You have fun, too!! Find your own guy to date. Maybe him seeing you with another guy will get his attention. But don’t date just to make him jealous; date because you want to. You never know, there may be a guy out there who has already fallen in love with you like you did with your friend! And you may miss out on a wonderful guy that’s been waiting to make you feel so special because you’re waiting on a guy who's already involved with someone else...
342106
you should tell him to leave you alone. you shouldn't let anyone tell you what you can or can't do. its your decision. you are free to be what you want. he shouldn't be messing with another girl if he wants to be with you, that's not respectable, and you shouldn't tolerate this behavior, he isn't worth anything.
95172
If it were me, I would tell them both that their friendship is more important to you right now and try to explaine that you might not be ready for a stead relationship at this time. That way you're not having to choose and possibly breaking up what the 3 of you have right now. Sometimes the best things are the hardest to do, because it's almost certain you will lose 1 if not both if you choose.
67554
Thats kind of odd that someone with a girlfriend asked you... and if you feel that it would not be appropriate to go with the other guy then don't.  If there is someone you would much rather go with, feel them out about if they would want to go with you!  Overall, just do what you believe is right.  And most importantly, forget the drama and have fun!
227440
If I were you, I'd be wondering why he doesn't date her if she's that important? I'd try talking with him to be sure I understood the situation clearly. But, the more I think about it, maybe I'd just break up with him for a week or two just to see what happens. If you are important enough to him, he'll do anything he can to get you "back". If you're not, then you'll have your answer. \n\nI don't think a guy should treat a girlfriend that way, though. Period. She should be his top priority - no matter how close other friends may be.
957258
Really its sort of getting out of hand,have a chat with your mate,sort of bring up the girl in a none committal way,if she is just a casual thing to him let him know you could really go for her,but don't want to upset any one,if you don't find out that way,call it a day with happy memories
263880
Ok if i was you in this situation except it would be a guy,  I would ask him out, and try to get to know him a little better. Then maybe if he had fun we would go out again.  Who gives a crap if she's spending time with this other guy.  Maybe they are just friends!
329163
Tell him that you only see him as a friend.  End of story.\n\nAbout him dating someone else, if you see him doing that and he likes you, tell him it's not your cup of tea.  If he wants a fling, he could search elsewhere... there's none of that bs about he'll break up with her soon or whatever.
565640
You should tell the other girl that he is dating and you should make up a plan or something and both of you break up with him.
623184
oh hell ya...."my boyfriend asked another girl out while we were together" that is all i had to read, i think you should dump him because no guy needs another girl in their life if they are in a relationship no matter what the sitution is.  NEVER EVER let a guy do that to you because if he did that and you still stay with him then i am sure he will do something else and think "she'll still stay with me".  if it was me i would of dumped him without even thinking about it.  u deserve better, every girl in that position deserves better than that.
601762
he just started dating this other girl, if your quick, tell him how you feel and that you are interested.  He might tell you sorry, and that he's found someone else... but if he liked you and there was somehow a misunderstanding its not too late to fix. Then again its always possible he just likes her better :(
622021
girls come and go but a friend is hard to find and a good friend is the hardiest. Tell your friend that this might come between the two of you and if he still wants the girl then he's not a true friend and go for the girl.
34901
if you dont like that she has another friend tell her that she has to choose either you or him, if she dumped you, its ok go find another girl.
622900
Please continue to be his friend.  Relationships that start out as friends always last.  Since your friend now has a girlfriend, you should "take the high road" and quietly stand on the sidelines where their relationship is concerned.  If you "butt in", you will only cause confusion and discord, and may ultimately end up losing him as a friend.  Should their relationship break-up in the future, you will still have him as a friend and perhaps then your relationship with him will turn into something more.  Have a lovely rest of the day.
142524
are you guys even together? I mean if your not then GO FOR THE OTHER GIRL! because this one is obviously playing games or not interested. If she is talking to other guys and you are together and you think its more than just polite conversation get rid of her its not worth the trouble
1110975
That sucks! Believe it or not though, another guy will come around, probably someone you hadn't even noticed because you've been too infatuated with this guy. Are you sure he likes her though? It would suck for her too though if she really likes him and you and he started dating. I think you're supposed to be happy for her or she's supposed to be happy with him, but it hurts.