What if your boyfriend likes to get on adult friend finder just to see how many women he can get to talk tohim
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From personal experience, I'd think twice about believing that line.  My husband went on there just to "look" also.  Let's just say he did more than look and talk.  Believe if you think it's the truth but just keep checking the validity of his story if you have a way to.
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Kudos on ur boyfriends attitude... can't u see what he is doing?  he's got u all worked up, his building much anticipation, and that my friend leads to awesome sex encounters.  SUAE.
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Let's see. If he lives long distant--no you can't. If he \n still has his profile on the dating site---no. If he's not returning your calls and not spending time with you--no.\nIf he keeps looking and flirting with other women---no. If\nhe acts wild and keeps lying to you---no. If he's on drugs\nor drunk too much--no. A woman has an intuition when some-\nthing is not right. So follow your instinct.
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You post your profile if ppl r interested they will give u some sort of sign, you can also search for ppl u r interest in. I know some ppl that are happily married, but u have to take into account that not all ppl are going to be truthful
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You shouldn't let your boyfriend control you like that.  It's a sign of things to come.  Now it's a party, but in the future he'll be telling you what friends you can and cant have, what to wear, places you can and cant go, etc.
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well, the sad truth is that you can't tell your boyfriend who to be friends with.  I understand that you don't like his friend, and that maybe you don't even like who your boyfriend becomes when he is with his friend.  But you can't change him.  You can tell him your concerns and hope that he cares enough for you to stop hanging around with his friend when he is going to strip clubs, but other than that, there really isn't anything that you can do.  Look sweetie, you will learn that you really can't worry about whether or not your man is going to cheat.  If he is, then he is, and if he isn't then you don't need to worry.  but you worrying isn't going to do anything other than make you sick, ya know?  So, just find a way to be happy and comfortable in your relationship.  Be faithful to him and hope that he is doing the same thing.  Trust in your relationship.  This will save you a lot of anguish and pain in the long run.\n\nGood luck!
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adultfriendfinder.com
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It seems like you dont really trust him in my opinion. You say he goes on myspace and talks to girls 24/7, they could just be friends. Another reason he could be going on is to meet a new girl. Sorry to tell you this. You should just ask him why he goes on myspace on the time, he could say just to meet new people. But all girls, cooooome oooon lol. No boy who has a girlfriend would go on myspace just to talk to girls. It really seems like this guy is playing you girl, and you do not need that in your life. You should go talk to him and see what he has to say. When you do note how he reacts. If he reacts all calm hes probably just trying to make some friends. If he reacts all negative like 'why are you accusing me of cheatin, yea theyre girls, but theyre friends' ya boy is most likely two playing you. If you stil dont know what to do you should get a myspace account and talk to some guys 'just for fun and friends' the same time amount that he does, mabey that will fix him.
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talking about what? sex? so you care about them, which means you may or may not be in a relationship. i assume you are not, you would have said my boyfriend was talkin with another chic. lets take it both ways:\n\nnot your boyfriend, but you have the hots for him and he knows it: then he has decided that he is a player and that he can have 2 or 3 chics on a string at all times. but its still his business, this is the time you can either decide to 'be' with him or the time to decide that you are worth more, deserve more and can get better. (thats what i would do)\n\nHe is your boyfriend: assuming he was talking with another chic about hookin up, then why play with him? he obviously doesnt care enough about you to not do it.\n\nI would just confront him, say: look fella, i like you, whats up with talking with suchandsuch chic? you trying to hook up with her? cause if you are, you need to go ahead and do it, just dont lie to me about it, let me know so i can start hunting me another man down
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This female needs to be thankful she still has a job. The pic might not be as kinky as you think he has posted these pic and she could lose her job. Ask him to take the pics down if he doesnt then you need to start looking for another boyfriend what will he post next to top these pics ?
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Depends on how long you've been dating... Update question with your age, his age and how long you've been dating... \n\nMore to come...\n\nBy the way: Check out his internet history... He's probably been surfing porn.
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Adult friend finder does have some honest people on it, most men or women that you wouldn't want to be with, but the bulk of the women on there are prostitudes with a few cops on there trying to shut the site down now.
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no i wouldn't approve of them becuz u have 2 meet that person cuz it could be some1 who lied about their age, personality and/or their whole profile. when u do meet him it has 2 be somewhere in the public so he won't do anything that's illegal 2 u {if he is the person he's not-u no if he lied 2 u just 2 get into your pants} but u just have 2 be careful of what u 2 talk bout don't give out any personal info-address, work/school,etc. u no there r\nother places where u can find a bf-work/school, mall, out-of-town,etc. Just think be4 u act!!!!!!!!!
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That depends on why you are checking them out.\n\nIs it to get a boyfriend/girlfriend jealous - dumb reason, but then make it obvious\n\nDo you want to spark their interest and hope they come talk to you?  Make it obvious\n\nIf you are just curious about them, but aren't wanting to connect - then don't let on....at least for now...until you can determine if you want to learn more about them.\n\nI would think the only reason one would do it under disguise (as you say) would be that they are shy or not confident enough to deal with the interaction.  OR they are flirting with the concept of cheating....\nI say, just make it known and see what happens next....\nlife is an adventure!
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just because your boyfriend doesnt talk much to your friends thats no big deal and i wouldnt talk to him about this friend of yours either if he has this type of problem with social situations its not his fault if hes smiling at people  then hes trying to be friendly in his own way and that seems to enough for most people,right, and what the other person said up the list aways if your boyfriend talks to other girls it doesnt mean hes gonna leave you for one of the other girls sounds like that girl has some jealousy problems or insecure.
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I stare at a lot of women's rears and it doesn't always mean that I want a relationship with them.  You need to find out more about him and his current situation before you jump to any conclusions.
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From the information you have provided I suspect you may be imagining things.\n\nYou have been together for 4 years but are still not married or living together. Is this yours or your boyfriend's choice? If your boyfriend's then perhaps his lack of commitment to the relationship is prompting these feelings that he is having an affair.\n\nYou have only given two examples of his suspect behaviour, the second of which is extremely weak. There is nothing in the SMS message that indicates it was addressed to a woman never mind a women he is having an affair with. The fact that he referred to you as his girlfriend makes me sceptical that it would have been to a woman he is romantically involved with.\n\nCatching him out in a lie about his meeting is a little more worrying. However you indicate that he had an excuse - was his excuse reasonable?\n\nPossibly your woman's intuition is just your subconscious telling you that you are no longer satisfied with the relationship and your boyfriend's lack of commitment and you are looking for a way out.\n\nDo you have any close friends that you can talk to about your concerns? They will probably be able  to give you a better opinion than anyone here.