my partener gets tired after just a few moments of sex.what to do?
94524
Maybe he has difficulty in sustaining an erection (i.e.\nerectile dysfunction). He may also have a medical condition\n(?heart or lung disease). Or he may be just too tired from work (does he do physical work?).Or maybe he has depression.\nHave him see a doctor.
735741
when the kids are asleep probably best at weekend if you work you wont be as tired, you could wear some sexy underwear and dress up cook a nice meal then have sex in different rooms, try watching a porn film together depending how kinky you are there are a lot of sex toys you can use on each other, maybe just a sensual massage using oils with candles and incense burning would be nice for you both, or you could tell each other your fantasies and try and do them, maybe you could get a babysitter for a few hours and book in to a motel or even park somewhere in a car that could be exciting the risk of getting caught, only you know what turns your husband on just think about it and what you can do together, justmake sure you lock the door if you have kids you wont want any awkward questions.
658105
dont use your hips use your arms and keep your back, butt, and legs straight it helps me.\n also if your getting close pull out and take a second before going back in. try masterbating about 1-2 hours befor sex or drink some alcohol.\n sex should last at least 20 minuets for both you and her
827448
This makes me laugh... lol.\nOkay, sex doesn't last for a few mintues I'll tell you that.\nYou can make it last a long time... enjoy it.\nWhat is normal? I don't think there is a standing time for normality... just do it till both of you well.. how do I put it? Feel satisfied.\nSex is something that is for the both of you remember that.\nHow many times should you start over? Depends on you and your partner. Does she want to do it again? Can you still keep on going? Ask yourself and your partner these questions.\nHope this helps. ^_^
478987
I suggest sitting down and talking to her about it candidly. Try new things, buy her a new "toy", something sexy to wear to bed, a little porn (it works, for either arousal or a giggle sometimes, I swear) a makeover day...Chances are she's not sure how to change the same issue you're not sure of either. You both probably need a change, try something you never thought you would, and I bet the spice comes right back!..GL;)
539088
I can understand where your comming from, being tired etc after work... but once a day seems pretty reasonable, as suggested by someone who answered you above buy her a rabbit!  seriously, you may have find something as an added extra, sex toy or as well as yourself showing some interest but not being actively involved  if your not in the mood,  it may take the preasure off you at least ...You really need to discuss it with her if you havent done so already, and let her know how you feel and how it is affecting you, communication is so very very important.\n two or three times a day for my partner and I, and that is after hes done 12 to 15 hours work, he is just so sexy and sensual.. but sometimes nothing for a day, nice to have a break..... \nthere are some articles on sites which may be able to help you out\n\nhttp://www.askmen.com \nhttp://blogs.webmd.com/sexual-health-sex-matters/
127514
Girl, I know how you feel. If this is occuring on more than one occassion then slack off. Don't hound about it. And first and far most PLEASE YOURSELF. You deserve that first of all. Take the time off to PAMPER yourself and then he/she might take notice. If that doesn't work then it is some questions you need to ask about your relationship and where it is going.  I feel you should at least have or get an answer so you can better understand and deal with this issue.  Peace
897269
You really screwed up. Guys are really sensitive about sex, so when you criticize their performance they feel like you're attacking their manhood. Sure, he may have overreacted but it was only because you made him feel like a lesser man! Buy him a present, show up at his house/apt/whatev and apologize. Tell him that you were tired/ill and in a bad mood. Take complete responsibility for the argument (even if you don't think you should) and tell him that he means the world to you and you don't want to lose him just because you were in a bad mood. Tell him that you'll never do it again and that he is amazing in bed. In fact, tell him he is a sex god and you are not worthy of his amazing oral. Make him feel like a man again. So go! Ask him to take you back!! GOOD LUCK!!
243038
Not all women have low sex drives. The mood swings and being tired sounds like she is going through menopause. Women start menopause early even though they don't know it. It starts in the mid 30s on some women. Just be there for her and maybe suggest marriage counseling or try to get her to suggest it herself.
209343
When next you have sex get ur mind off the sexual action and may be think about something else or something outside the sex. You will stay longer. and also don't rush anything take it slow and steady. Don't let her rush you either.
180580
Try a cock ring or when you are a feeling that sinsation stop for a minute and start fourplay again.  Once the feeling slows down start again.  Also, exercise and eat right.  When your healthy so is your sex life.
566398
mine cuddles with me and only when he too is tired. he is horny 99% of the time but kinda knows when i want it and not. i would wonder what was up if he stopped doing it one day. i tell him when im not in the mood and he respects that..  :)
395443
well one of 3 things could be the source of the problem 1. he doesnt actually care about sex all that much and is just happy being with you 2. feels insecure in bed 3. just might not beable to keep up with or sex drive. just let it lay things will change plus only 4 months in a relationship dont let sex rule the relationship cuz then it will fall apart
1057103
Candles and Hip Hop help me.\n15 yrs of marraige (Awesome sex still)\nLay on your back eagle spr and let him arouse you for 10 min.\nDo not let your wrists or ankles come off that bed no matter what (close your eyes during ), There is something about not seeing it but feeling it .Than let him do it fast & hard Not Slow and Easy!\nOnly when he is playing with you.\nGood Luck!
404596
Be more.  Don't be a "playbunny"--hold out.  Here is a brand new concept, wait, wait to have sex, wait to get too physical.  BE a girl worth getting to know, show him you have a mind, that you are interesting.  I don't care how old fashioned it sounds, men simply don't respect women who go to bed with them right away.  Don't be "easy".
377500
Have you told her how you feel?  I'm sure she, like most women and some men, after a long day feels sex is the last thing on her mind.  You have to romance her, woo her, sweep her off of her feet.  Women like it when you do things for her without her asking you to, like cook dinner or clean up after the kids or yourself.  It can tend to be a good aphrodisiac.  Hope this helps.
965416
try asking her if she was being put off by something you did.. or try to arouse her interest by touching her sensual parts lightly.. or try not asking her for some time. Show more care for her even when you don't intend to have sex.. sometimes, she just feels uncared for and thus has no interest in sex \n\nTry having a romantic time out or staying home to build up sexual interest.. \n\nyou could also offer to accompany her for a doctor's appointment to show that you really care for her well-being than to just be interested in sex.