I'm fat and not too pretty, but I like this guy and want to know how to get him to like me back. HELP!?
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Just be yourself, thats all that you can do. If this guy doesnt see what a wonderful person you are then he isnt worth your affection..Never change yourself for any guy!!\n\nRemember that beauty comes from the inside, everything else is just superfical
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Never feel that you are not good enough for someone. He may like you for who you are no matter what you think. Just because he is handsome doesn't mean that he isn't going to like you. Just follow your hurt and take things as the come. If you guys do hook up then have a ball and get to know each other. It isn't about looks that make a relationship, it's about what's in it!!! GOOD LUCK
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Don't be anything but yourself. Try starting a conversation with a simple "hello" or compliment. If he doesn't seem interested then move on to someone else. You can't make someone like you. There's someone out there for you and only you.\n\n♥Rachel
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compliment his style and the way that he looks. Always try to look pretty and cute by being yourself. Be confident, guys find that attractive. After having him establish that you exist, try and find some interest between you and him, but dont compromise youself in doing things that he only likes just because... Once you have found the common ground, you can ask him to join you or to join him.. Ask him out maybe if your up to it.. \nDont sell yourself to quickly tho.. he might get wierded out ... Just make sure that your around him long enough so that he has no other choice but to like you back....
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If you know he has an interest that you share you can let him know that and take it from there.\n\nGuys generally don't need much encouragement if they like you. So don't try to hard, cause they might perceive you as easy.\n\nExample: He rides a bike. Let him know you would like to go for a ride. Or he is into fitness, if you are too then see if you can train together.
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idk how do you get a guy to like you?
280412
Check out the cool guy for a bit, if you still don't like him dump him. If you don't really like the ugly guy, just end it. Sweetness is no reason to hold on. If the hot guy doesn't like you, just move on. It sounds like your a stud and can get as dates. Keep look for the total package.
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Ask yourself the following questions and try to relax and answer them.  Your heart will not lead you wrong so go with your heart! Does she flirt with you?  Are you the ideal BF!\nHow you get a guy to like you! \n1. Laugh at his jokes, but don't go mental over the lame ones \n2. Smile a LOT \n3. Talk to him a lot, and get really funny/interesting/good conversations going, ya know, get to know him \n4. Be REALLY nice \n5. Stick up 4 him when he is insulted (For instance - "At least HE'S not a loser") \n6. When you talk to him, use his name more than once so he know's that you know his name, (boys like to hear that) \n7. Do not put on makeup/lipgloss/fix your hair in front of him. Always do this BEFORE seeing him. :-) (and don't overdo it) \n8. Be yourself! \n9. Bring him a little something on his birthday - not like a HUGE gift, may B like a little card/note or something (let him know u care) \n10. Talk about things u guys are interested in - maybe you have some similar interests that u can talk about! 11. Never hesitate to let him use your pens/paper/other junk he needs to borrow! And let him use the BEST pen you have. :-) \n12. When other people accuse u of liking him, IN FRONT OF HIM, say that he is very nice (LOOKING j/k), and what is worng with that? \n13. Say hi to him in the hallways \n14. Tell him your e-mail address and get his! \n14. When you talk, do not avoid his eyes. Look straight into those pretty blues! \n15. Make some jokes! (Not lame ones) \n16. Avoid bragging (this goes w/ out saying) \n17. If you ever write a note to him, write "Your friend" or if it is a little more intimate, write a heart or "luv" before your closing. Make the letter *colorful* \n18. When you talk, don't do all the talking - let him say stuff too, and vice versa \n19. Be yourself!!! (yet again!) \n-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------\nOK this would be my IDEAL BOYFRIED.........ALL GUYS SHOULD READ! \nLadies: this will make you tear up :)\nfellas: read it, all of it! :)\n1-touch their waist\n2-talk to her\n3-share secrets\n4-give her your jacket\n5-kiss them slowly\nare you remembering this?\n6-hug her\n7-hold her\n8-laugh with her\n9-invite her somewhere\n10-let her be with you when you're with your friends\nkeep reading\n11-smile with her\n12-take pictures with her\n13-pull her onto your lap\n14-when she says she loves you more, deny it. Fight back\n15-when her friends say I love her more than you deny it. Fight back and hug her tight so she can’t get to her friends. It makes her feel loved\nare you thinking about someone?\n16-always hug her and say I love you when you see her\n17-kiss her unexpectedly\n18-HUG HER FROM BEHIND AROUND THE WAIST\n19-tell her she’s beautiful not sexy!\n20-tell her the way you feel about her!\n20 u need to show her you mean it too\n21-kiss her on the lips\n22-DONT ask her to buy you stuff. You buy HER stuff\n23-tell her what feels good\n24-make her feel loved\n25-buy her stuff. small things can still help\nwe might deny it but we actually like and kind of want you to get us things\n26-don't lie to her\n27-dont cheat on her\n28-take her anywhere she wants\n29-txt message or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at school, and how much you miss her\n30-be there for her when ever she needs you, & even when she doesn't need you, just be there so she'll know that she can always count on you\nare you still reading this u better be its important\n31. Hold her close when she's cold and she can hold you too.\n32. When you are alone hold her close and kiss her.\n33. Kiss her on the cheek; (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss them).\n34. While in the movie, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly.\n35. Dont ever tell her to leave even jokingly or act
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Definately tell him and get some closer for you.  I doubt weight had anything to do with, you sound like you are pretty skinny.  So don't go trying to get into the double digits, just stay as you are.  Sometimes some friends should stay as friends, if anymore, could make one feel weird.  Just talk to him, let what you need said, be said.  Stay friends and walk away smiling.  Know this, you are young and have your whole life ahead of you, the right man will come along.  Don't feel insignificant, because he chose someone else.  It just wasn't meant to be.
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Why don't you just ask him out.  If he really likes you, he's not going to obsess about you being bigger.  At least I think you were trying to spell obese, I'm not sure.  I started to really develop an attraction to this one woman who is a little on the heavier side.  You know what I liked about her?  She has a lot of confidence and can charm the pants off of you.  It didn't work out, but it didn't have anything to do with her being a little overweight.  I could care less about that.  It didn't work out because she must not like me that much as I tried calling her and she never called me back.
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Well first of all do you like  him?\nIf so try these things to get him:\nHow you get a guy to like you!\n1. Laugh at his jokes, but don't go mental over the lame ones 2. Smile a LOT 3. Talk to him a lot, and get really funny/interesting/good conversations going, ya know, get to know him 4. Be REALLY nice 5. Stick up 4 him when he is insulted (For instance - "At least HE'S not a loser") 6. When you talk to him, use his name more than once so he know's that you know his name, (boys like to hear that) 7. Do not put on makeup/lipgloss/fix your hair in front of him. Always do this BEFORE seeing him. :-) (and don't overdo it) 8. Be yourself! 9. Bring him a little something on his birthday - not like a HUGE gift, may B like a little card/note or something (let him know u care) 10. Talk about things u guys are interested in - maybe you have some similar interests that u can talk about! 11. Never hesitate to let him use your pens/paper/other junk he needs to borrow! And let him use the BEST pen you have. :-) 12. When other people accuse u of liking him, IN FRONT OF HIM, say that he is very nice (LOOKING j/k), and what is worng with that? 13. Say hi to him in the hallways 14. Tell him your e-mail address and get his! 14. When you talk, do not avoid his eyes. Look straight into those pretty blues! 15. Make some jokes! (Not lame ones) 16. Avoid bragging (this goes w/ out saying) 17. If you ever write a note to him, write "Your friend" or if it is a little more intimate, write a heart or "luv" before your closing. Make the letter *colorful* 18. When you talk, don't do all the talking - let him say stuff too, and vice versa 19. Be yourself!!! (yet again!) \nand make sure you have expectations like these(my personal ones)\nSome expectations of a good boyfriend\n12) Someone who holds your hand whenever possible. \n11) Puts his arms around your waist and whispers in your ear. \n10) Kisses you every chance he gets. \n9) Holds you close when your cold. \n8) When you are alone-holds you close and KISSES you. \n7) Kisses you on the tip of your nose (it will give you the hint that he wants to kiss you.) \n6) While in the movies, puts his arm around you and then you'll automatically put your head on his shoulder then he'll lean in and tilt your chin and kiss you lightly. \n5) When you complain that your neck hurts he'll massage it for you. \n4) When people diss you he stands up for you. \n3) Looks deep into your eyes and TELLS you he loves you or that you are adorable. \n2) Lays down under the stars with you and puts your head on his chest so you can listen to the steady beat of his heart and link your fingers together while he whispers to you as you rest your eyes and listen to his voice. \n1) Open all doors for you (it makes you feel so special!!!) \nGood luck to you!~Alison~
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Hi there.\nyou can't make him like you, just let him see all the good things in you, and let it happen naturally,its the best way..good luck :)
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first, u should'nt be upfront and tell him u like him, i usually like a girl that is playful, but not in a sense where u seem to be to agressive. Play it smoothly, and bump into him once in a while. If all possible try to get him alone with u and talk to him, but not so much as to make u seem desparate for him (meaning make him laugh, show him u have a great personality.)
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The best way is to be yourself and not try too hard. \n\nIf it's a specific person who's attention you are trying to get, let him know. But don't make it all about you and how you feel. What is it you like about him? What are his good qualities? Tell him what they are and what you like about him. That will definately get his attention. Then go on to tell him what his good qualities do for you, or how he makes you feel. Boost his ego and make him feel like the man and he'll be yours ;)
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He would pro ably be flattered, and in fact he pro ably feels the same way about you, you just probably seem a little distanced from him because it sounds like you aren't making the effort to be with him alone, as a guy let me tell you we can be really stupid and blind...Let him know but not straight up tell him he looks cute blah blah make it seem like your interested than call his ass!
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If you are just looking for a guy that likes you for your physical benefits than he will probably slap your but or try to be really nice to you but if you are looking for a guy that likes you for more than what you have to offer on the outside he would respect you, be nice to you, try to be around you all the time(if he is really bold), and talk about you nonstop. (and you probably aren't fat at all)
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Possible answers\n1. he's a pig and doesn't really like you, but can't tell you\n2. he's never good giving his feelings and is more scared of hurting your feelings if it comes out wrong\n3. he assumes you know how he feels.\n4. do you compliment him? you may be getting what you give\n5. he doesn't understand how important it is that he not be forced to compliment you. that it's important to you because it makes you feel even more attractive.\n\nyou're not being a man-pleaser. you're pleasing yourself to know you are wanted. he needs to tell you from time to time that you are wanted. or you need to find someone who wants you more.