why do some men have trouble ejaculating? havent they produced sperm by the age of 19?
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Ejaculate is made of more than just sperm, and men who don't produce sperm can still produce ejaculate, so that isn't the problem.\n\nThe fluid in the semen is produced by the prostate gland, and ejaculation is accomplished when the fluid is expelled by muscular contractions.  It isn't likely that the fluid isn't being produced either.\n\nBehaviorally, difficulty ejaculating during intercourse might be due to an excess of m@sturbation (I can't believe the profanity filter blocks that out -- how childish).  There isn't anything wrong with that, it's just slightly inconvenient.  I've heard from sex therapists that this is pretty common, and he can be retrained to ejaculate during intercourse (though, I'm not going to offer any advice on how to do that, since I'm not an expert).
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Congratulations, you have managed to use up your lifetime supply of sperm before you reached 16.   Hard luck, that will teach you!!!!!!!
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I'm not entirely sure of the rate, but YES you can ABSOLUTELY get pregnant!  He doesn't even have to ejaculate at all.  Fluids are excreted throughout the act which do contain sperm.  Age is no factor at all.
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Well it's your age. Most men your age and alittle younger do it. Learn to live with it or go to the doc and get pills to help.\nI'd go for more foreplay.\nDon't worry it's called life.\n☺
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Cos when you c*m, your body's putting all it's energy into making a baby. To remedy this, you need to learn to separate your orgasms from ejaculation. Don't know much about it myself, so I'm taking my partner on a Tantra weekend, that's where it originated from, try www.heart-tantra.com, other than that, some people recommend exercising the pc muscles, the ones you contract to squeeze out that last bit of urine, though it's had mixed reviews. Hope that helped.
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when i was younger i did it as much as 8 times in one day.  I am married now and there is no problem.  Your body takes about 16 hrs to produce more sperm so by the 8th time i would orgasam and nothing would come out or just a little clear semen .  S0 you are fine as much as you think you need it just don't do it to hard or it will be hard to ejaculate when you have reall sex.  relax on the grip to make it feel like penatration
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I'm agree with the last person, I think not limit age for that , provided that u still like it , the old asian like the old white men\nall men can ejaculate all age.\ncan u tell me more about it
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Premature ejaculation \n \n\n \nWhat is it?\n\nPremature ejaculation (PE) means 'coming too quickly'. \n\nIt's one of the commonest of all sexual problems. Recently, we did a survey of several thousand British males, and approximately 10 per cent of them said that they 'often' or 'sometimes' had this trouble.\n\nWe found that it's commoner in younger men - which is not surprising, as there's a distinct tendency for it to improve with age. Men generally get better control as they grow older.\n\nHowever, a 2004 survey in Europe showed that middle-aged men still have this problem. \n\nFortunately, good treatments are available.\n\nDoes it matter? \n\nWell, in most cases it does matter - because it makes people unhappy and frustrated. And in severe cases PE can threaten or even ruin a marriage - simply because it spoils the sex lives of both partners. Sometimes, the condition is so bad that the man cannot even manage to have intercourse because he invariably ejaculates before he can get into the vagina. This can be devastating for a man's self-confidence. And it can be hugely frustrating and annoying for his partner, too.\n\nHowever, most men merely find PE a considerable irritation - a condition that makes them 'come' very soon after they enter their partners (say, after only one to two minutes), so that neither party gets a lot of satisfaction.\n\nWhat causes it?\n\nFor many years, sex experts have tended to say that premature ejaculation is caused by early 'conditioning'. In other words, the man's early, rushed (and perhaps furtive) sexual experiences had to be quick - so as to avoid detection! The idea is that all this hectic rush 'conditions' him to climax as quickly as possible.\n\nHowever, in our own surveys we have found that many men with PE say that they did not have rushed, hasty early sexual experiences (though others say they did). These maintain that they were 'highly triggered' right from the start of their sex lives.\n\nIt's worth noting that from an evolutionary point of view, it's probable that throughout human history, males who climaxed quickly were more likely to have children. (In other words, if you were a caveman who 'came' very fast, you'd stand more chance of impregnating cavewomen - and, therefore, enlarging and strengthening your tribe - than a chap who took all day about it.)\n\nTherefore, we feel that the tendency to reach orgasm quickly may often actually be inherited rather than learned.\n\nFinally, there's no question that anxiety (or 'nerves') plays a part in many cases of PE. If you're nervous, you're likely to come too quickly. That's why many males have discovered for themselves that a small amount of alcohol eases their nerves and makes them less likely to climax prematurely. But we wouldn't recommend alcohol as a treatment!\n\nTreatment\n\nSo, what can be done for PE?\n\n\n(i) Very mild cases\n\nIf you have very mild PE (for instance, if you can 'last' a good five minutes but would like to last 10), there's probably no point in going to a doctor. Why? Because you should be able to improve matters by simple 'distraction techniques'. This means turning your mind to something else when you sense that a climax is near. For instance, you can:\n\n\nthink very hard about something totally unconcerned with sex. \n\n\npinch yourself hard. \n\n\nbite the pillow. \n\n\nSome men try to treat themselves with a local anaesthetic gel. This product is advertised to the public as a good way to 'damp down' sexual sensation in the penis. But we do not advise using it firstly, because the local anaesthetic can 'dull' the sex sensation for the partner, and secondly because it can sometimes cause a distressing skin sensitivity reaction.\n\n\n\n\n(ii) Getting help for more severe cases\n\n\nIf PE is causing you more significant problems, it is best to consul
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mostly guys get their first orgasm between 13~15 yrs. i got it when i was 14
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Is he under pressures lately? Stress can make guys not being able to do so. As for keeping it, are you meaning that he can't stay like this for long or he come too fast? If it's the first one, ask a doctor. Second, get more practices. :P
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your testes are constantly craking out sperm.  The sperm are stored in the top of your testes to mature (grow)\n\nafter you ejaculate, the sperm is gone, but your testes will produce more.
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This is nothing to worry about its normal. All it is, is just sperm sticking together. All guys have different ejaculations of sperm the same as women. But hey everyones different if we weren't what would this world be coming to.
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Premature ejaculation, also known as rapid ejaculation, or by the Latin term ejaculatio praecox, is the most common sexual problem in men, characterized by a lack of voluntary control over ejaculation. Masters and Johnson stated that a man suffers from premature ejaculation if he ejaculates before his partner achieves orgasm in more than fifty percent of his sexual encounters. Other sex researchers have defined premature ejaculation as occurring if the man ejaculates within two minutes of penetration; however, a survey by Alfred Kinsey in the 1950s demonstrated that three quarters of men ejaculated within two minutes of penetration in over half of their sexual encounters. Today, most sex therapists understand premature ejaculation as occurring when a lack of ejaculatory control interferes with sexual or emotional well-being in one or both partners. An estimated thirty percent of men suffer from premature ejaculation on a consistent basis.\n\nMost men experience premature ejaculation at least once in their lives. Often adolescents and young men experience premature ejaculation during their first sexual encounters, but eventually learn ejaculatory control. Because there is great variability in both how long it takes men to ejaculate and how long both partners want sex to last, researchers have begun to form a quantitative definition of premature ejaculation. Current evidence supports an average intravaginal ejaculation latency time (IELT) of five to seven minutes. If the disorder is defined as an IELT percentile below 2.5, then premature ejaculation could be suggested by an IELT of less than about one and a half minutes.\n\nScientists have long suspected a genetic link to premature ejaculation. In one study, ninety-one percent of men who suffered from lifelong premature ejaculation also had a first-relative with lifelong premature ejaculation. Other researchers have noted that men who suffer from premature ejaculation have a faster neurological response in the pelvic muscles. Simple exercises commonly suggested by sex therapists can significantly improve ejaculatory control for men with premature ejaculation caused by neurological factors. Often, these men may benefit from anti-anxiety medication or selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors, such as sertraline or paroxetine. Some men prefer using anaesthetic creams; however, these creams may also deaden sensations in the man's partner, and are not generally recommended by sex therapists.\n\nPsychological factors also commonly contribute to premature ejaculation. While men sometimes underestimate the relationship between sexual performance and emotional well-being, premature ejaculation can be caused by temporary depression, stress over financial matters, unrealistic expectations about performance, a history of sexual repression, or an overall lack of confidence. Interpersonal dynamics strongly contribute to sexual function, and premature ejaculation can be caused by a lack of communication between partners, hurt feelings, or unresolved conflicts that interfere with the ability to achieve emotional intimacy. Neurological premature ejaculation can also lead to other forms of sexual dysfunction, or intensify the existing problem, by creating performance anxiety. In a less pathological context, premature ejaculation could also be simply caused by extreme arousal.\n\nSome physical illnesses, such as a prostate infection, are also known to induce premature ejaculation. In other instances, premature ejaculation is caused by a physical injury that affects the nervous system. Certain medications, such as cold medications containing pseudoephedrine, also cause premature ejaculation. Sexual dysfunction is a common symptom of psychiatric afflictions ranging from bipolar disorder to post-traumatic stress disorder. In these cases, it is best to discuss the issues openly with a physician.\n\nDepending on severity, chronic premature ejaculation can be significantly reduced, or completely cure
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It all depends on if they are still producing viable sperm.  In order to know for sure they would have to be tested by there doctor.  There is an at home test kit available, but it has been deemed inaccurate so he should see his doctor.
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Well a woman might be able to pull off the queif, but chances are that she will not expell all the semen. Their is such a thing as premature ejaculation, which all men squirt out a little before they actually ejaculate. And as much as it costs to raise a baby these days, it would be safer to go to the health department and get some birth control.
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There’s no diet to get better performance or longer ejaculation!\nYour health must be good, that’s all.\nYou haven’t understood yet that every matter or organ concerning our body is tightly correlated with genetic factors: your penis length, your sperm volume and your duration of the act even.
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Could be stress, and he did say he has a lot on his mind. that could be overpowering him to ejaculate. And taking meds can reduce sexual things too. Look into the side effects on his meds. And try not having sex for a day or two, seems like you both need a rest and maybe his member just needs a rest. he's not as young as he used to be.