How do you deal with bad kids that are relatives,that constantly dosen't lisen?+?
81922
simply you can see what they love and don't give it to them always the mental punishment gives a great result than the physical punishment and you can also ignore them
495804
My girlfriend had a similar problem with her older sister, she was a brat that was spoiled by her mother.  She treats her younger brother and sisters like trash and comes home yelling and kicking when things don't go her way.  She would go to their room to eat and put dirty cloth on their bed, and would leave without cleaning after herself.\n\nMy girlfriend and her siblings finally decided to take action to stop this madness.  They changed all the locks on the doors and told her elder sister either she respect them like human being or don't come back.\n\nHer elder sister went mad and start kicking and screaming when she heard that. She end up being asked to leave and kick out of the house at 1am in the morning, going back to her own place.\n\nAfter that she started to respect my girlfriend and her younger siblings on the phone and in person, althought she hasn't made her presence in the house so far after that night.\n\nYour family need to come together and tell your brother that this is not the way to go; disrespect your family is never right doesn't matter who you are. Your family must take a stand.\n\nI understand most family don't want to be firm and stand their ground because they are afraid of losing their children.  But the fact is your family already lost your brother and the only way for him to respect and come back is to show him your determination to your ideal as a family.\n\nGive him time to think, tell him if he still wants his family, he just as to respect you and your parents like what a nomraly child would do.  You're not asking alot here.\n\nWhether he accept / understand is irrevleant, don't try to convince him right now (he's probably not gonna agree), just let him know what your family decided to do.\n\nYour brother is probably not gonna budge now because he has his own family, but somewhere down the line when things don't go good he'll remember his sister and his parents.  That's where he'll come back and that's when you and your family will have a chance of change him by accepting him back.\n\nIts going to take time and patience for him to come back, but you have to let him know where your family stand for him to come back at all.  Don't push him away, just tell him where your family stands and ask him to think about it.  \n\nIts time to take a stand for what you believe.
815327
Be there for her. Listen to her when she complains, help her understand that its not her fault. Try not to make judgements on the family. Support her.
495689
Life is too short to feud with people, especially family members. I've had to bite my tongue many times in the past because of differences between relatives. The best thing to do is talk to her rationally, and if she starts cussing at you, let her vent, because she obviously has something on her mind that she just doesn't want to let go. If she sees that you aren't getting mad over it, she'll someday realize that she was being selfish, and hopefully come to respect you. \n\nI used to be (and still am, to an extent) very verbal, and would tell people how I felt, no matter if it hurt them or not, but life has taught me that everyone has bad days, and not all people can be nice all the time. I guess it takes losing a loved one and not being able to apologize to them or tell them how much they meant to me, for me to come to this point in my life. I hope you and your aunt can resume a good, loving relationship. It's not too late to call her up and tell her you love her! Good luck to you! I hope this helps.
99906
ok i had a sibling that had this problem but all i can do is pray for them and to love them to make sure they get off.  Make sure you you let them no u want to help or if the are sticky on the subject just TRY to help them.
296656
kill her with kindness... when you act upset and she causes turmoil in your family, she is getting what she wants.  As hard as it sounds. ignore her!!
913182
Just say no and apologize.  If they are friends they will understand, but you also must be a friend to them.  You may need to cut a few ties and keep just a few close ones and the others can be aquaintences.  Or you can have on big party a few times a year to make up for it.  I have too much family, seriously.  I can't possibly see them all as much as I''d love to.  But I can't dump them either.  My kids and husband come first.  It's very difficult but it's the only way it will work.  Have a great day.  Wow, I think this is the 3rd question I answered of yours.  Honestly I"m not stalking you.  You are just where-ever I am.  Wierd...
110385
Without the parents support, good luck. \n\nThey really are doing her a disservice by not having her help out.  She is getting a misconception about how real life is as well as not gaining the confidence that being a capable, contributing member of a family brings.  \n\nIf you also live with them, a family meeting might be in order.  You might try spending more time with your niece and encouraging her, but she probably won't respond too well.  It's a tough situation because you love her and probably aren't liking her too much right now.  \n\nGood luck.
900963
stop yelling at your siblings!\nAnd good luck at the talent show! ;o)
515785
There are only two things that you can do...wish them well and walk away. She is not worth your cousin. Family is forever and she is anything but..........
698450
try to talk them about it. They simply can't be like this for the rest of their lives.\nSet up a plan to let them talk privately. And don't try to side with one person.. OK? ;)
502262
When you suspect somebody is abusing a vulnerable child/adult and you know the suspected abuser you are NOT SNITCHING.  You are protecting the vulnerable person.  If your cousin is under age eighteen you can call Childrens protective services in your county and tell the caseworker what you suspect.\n\nIf you are sure your aunt is abusing your cousin, then you are doing your cousin a favor.\n\nLook at it this way, abuse tends to get worse as it drags on.  Ask any woman who escaped domestic violence.  Ask the family of someone who didn't escape and ended up dead.\n\nWhat if your cousin ends up dead, or in a coma at the hands of your aunt.....and YOU HAD THE POWER to do something and didn't?  How would you feel?  How do you feel when you see your cousin come to visit all burised?\n\nSometimes the bonds of family MUST BE BROKEN.  Your aunt is hurting a vulnerable developmentally disabled cousin. You have the power to see that abuse end.\n\nCall CPS or an agency that helps developmentaly disabled people.  That is the only honorable thing to do.  If you love him, you will.
610764
Just tell them it bothers you.  It also depends on what they're teasing you about.  I tease my niece all the time, but if she tells me I'm annoying her, then I stop.
878821
Take your cousin. Its not your fault if he/she is annoying. Your friends won't blame you for her problems.
96026
Try having a conversation with (and yes i am serious) Mom. Just talk to her and find out why she calls him all the time, don't be rude or ugly, just talk to her and find out more about their relationship and what his childhood was like. Could be that there are some reasons for her overinvolvement and maybe she is just as anxious to help him become less dependent on her too. If nothing else you might be able to get to know her well enough to ask her as politely as you can to relax a little. You might learn that maybe Mom isn't the clinger  and the guy is and the two of you can work on him together, and if she likes you and thinks you respect her enough to come to her with your issue instead of running to him and complaining you will earn her respect and maybe even her blessing. And while that might not matter at all to you I can assure you that it does to him.
787782
Might try a restraining order.  Little drastic but would work.  Refuse to take calls from him and his friend.  If it is really bad parental intervention is always good.
235235
Just ignore them..\nthey might get tired if u always ignore them.. \nlive easily!