Was it me? Did I turn him off?
89803
The older a guy gets, the more stress he is under, the more medications he takes, they all take a toll on sex.  In your case just having a secret affair can take an emotional toll after awhile and have an affect on performance.  If he is taking any medication stronger than asprin it can also have a definite affect on his ability to perform.  A woman should never assume it is them that causes a guy not perform because especially in this case if that was true he wouldn't bother to be with you.
1056571
I would bet that something else is bothering him, and you triggered an emotion.  It doesn't mean that there is any deep seated issue, and it doesn't mean there isn't.  In situations like that, I ignore the instance and bring it up later in a neutral and non condemning manner.  Then I see how the individual reacts once removed from the situation emotionally.
437459
wow. what a jerk.  he's so not worth your time!\nit sounds to me like he was leading you on.. i dont know if that's the case, but i think you should find another amazing guy who will actually acknowledge ur presence!
310277
the question is what do u want to do...\ni think his behaviour is not sensitive..\nmaybe u should start thinking of a life without him
454458
Wait, I thought I divorced him?????   \n\nHugs ~:)
1143164
Depends on if he'd ticked me off lately.
111989
If it turns him off, then you don't need him.  Someone who cares about you isn't going to let that get in the way of how they really feel about you.  If he came to you with the same problem, would you feel any different twords him?
387893
i think he is using you. ditch him.
1066825
hard to say. could it be possibly he found someone else. or it could just be that he is a jerk and wanted to hurt ur fellings if that is the case he is worthless and u deserve better.
544488
I would say you were probably too close to the situation to realize this person was not interested in hanging out with you. Unfortunately, this happens in relationships of all kinds. I have actually figured out that if I had listened to a couple of close friends and sometimes even my own mother, I would have saved myself a lot of heartache. One of my friends actually told me, when I was in a relationship, that this guy and I brought out the worst in each other. Looking back, I know she was exactly right. It was hard to see it at the time because I was blinded by love. Hope this helps.
737556
did ur frn say something to him?.. or may be just got bored??? but my dear online frns???.. trust me and i speak from exp... don't waste a sec more on him....move on ....
148523
Delete the entry.  See if he notices.  Lol, why don't you talk to him and see what's up?  Worse comes to worse, he's the wrong man for you and you need to let him go.  Better you find out when he's just a boyfriend, not a husband.
98987
Hmmmmmmm, In your story it did sound as if he was still intrested. well being that you haven't heard from him he is either not intrested or something has happened to him.\nI really wish guys could be honest it would make life much easier, but if it'll make you feel better just keep in mind what goes around comes around.
137322
Not necessarily.  He probably got scared off.  May be he is interested but perhaps you sounded pretty serious for your relationship.  Give him a little time, but don't close all the doors.  Meet new people (just friends) you don't know what might happend nex
618964
well i'm w/him he is my man.so back off
206506
Stop playing f***ing mind games . . . \n\nYou told him you needed space . . . he took it as "space away from him" because you are not interested in him.\n\nIf you want him . . . go over and talk to his a**.  If not leave him alone . . . because the only way he will come back to you is if you go to him first . . . unless he is a p***y (And it sound like he is not).
1179466
He is extremely immature.I turn off my alarm clock,and I cant remember doing it.It is exhaustion,because we are programmed to skivy all the time our brain doesnt shut down.I would not argue over something petty like this.It makes me angry that you have to explain yourself to this pathetic excuse for a man.Tell him calmly you were feeling unwell,and felt completely exhausted to the point you couldnt remember turning the tv off.let him know(through gritted teeth) that you would never deliberately ignore him,and that you love him.men are pains.