is it when you cant sleep at night and dont want to spend another second without her?
87293
Could be ... or it could simply be infatuation.  Love is the most awesome thing in the world ...
460961
All I can tell you is...Good Luck ! I'm very similar to the person you have described. Except, I would have allowed you to crash on my couch. I believe what makes us that way is because we never really had anyone that we trusted enough, to really let ourselves open up and lean on them. Sometimes it's a good thing and other times it feels like a curse. I don't think you per say can break her out of this, but don't give up on her. It's just something that she has to acknowledge and work on every day.
235620
she if she wants u she will make a move again when u sleep.. this time do not let the chance go.. jus let your hands do the talking. enjoy man
97502
When being with them is actually more painful emotionally and/or physically than if you were not with them. Sometimes it is just worse being with them than without them, then it is time to let them go. Another would be when they do not respond to you, when you deserve respect and love.
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Either she's done with you and can't tell you, or she needs to breathe and prefers a complete break for now!!\nI don't know but in either case, it's quite alarming.\nTry to set the communication back.
641860
Dude, you're either in the mood or you're not. Sounds like she has a sh*tload of stuff going on in her life right now. Don't take it personal when she says no. It doesn't sound like it's you.  The poor woman is worn out. Try to help her out a little more.  Good example: you had the day off, why wait until she gets home for her to cook dinner?  Have it ready when she gets home. It's the little things.\nSeducing a woman is an all day every day process. You can't take her to bed after a day like that and expect her to be "in the mood."\nSounds like you two need some adult time, anyway. Try to plan some time for just the two of you.\n\nGood luck!
1158879
you're just missing her a lot. and that you're not used to your situation. sometimes you just need to be independent.
305431
Communication is essential.  If you can't have that with her, give it up
843268
You can't make her want to be with you.  It's ok to let her know that you are sad, but don't waste your time pining away for someone who has moved on.
738224
theres no misunderstanding sleeping with someone else.\nshe left you for a reason.\nif you really love her like you say you do, you wouldnt have hurt her or slept around in the first place.
1046068
maybe you two just spend to much time together. yes it's normal to feel this way but if you two don't give each other just a little space it won't work.if she still get on your nerve after a couple days apart then i would split. it has to be more than two days though. spen like three days out of the week together and the rest with friends
160844
you tell her that you really care for her but are very busy with your schedule. try to find a time on weekends when her trailer is quite empty and your x-bf isnt there
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I really don't think there is much you can do, if she doesn't want to go out with you you should stop sleeping with her and tell her if she won't go out with you then you can not continue the relationship the way it has been going.
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Not able to sleep.\nNot able to concentrate.\nNot able to eat even if you are hungry.\nLove songs, love songs, love songs.....\nTotally immobile till you see her or him. This will continue till you get a clear cut answer. So better brake it fast. Before breaking it better think well before you do as this wont hurt any of you.
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well in a way it's a good thing that you're avoiding her..but dont like shut her out completely. once she realizes that you've moved on,she'll probably start to miss you. you know? hah,i sound a lil silly,but i guess what you're doing is okay. give her a call,see if she's in a talkative mood. you can tell if she doesn't wanna talk if theres awkward silences,or if she comes up with a lame excuse to get off the phone. : ]
534456
its hard but if you just cant do it then your probably not over her and still want to be with her. was it her or you who broke up
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when you dont want to be around him anymore and it feels like its more of a chore