I am interested in dating a coworker that I've previously told I would never date a coworker what should I do?
96136
You could tell him/her that since your previous conversation about dating a coworker, you've had a change of heart. Really, what can he/she do? I've found that it's always best to tell one how you truly feel (in a nice way, of course, if you're upset about something) rather than hold it in. He/she can either accept the invitation to date or decline the invitation to date. Either way, whatever doesn't kill you only makes you stronger, right? I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers, love. God bless you!\n\nHope that helped!
605340
Try to meet him outside of work! But I hope you know the risks of an office relationship!!
1042946
I met my wife at work. I know that they say you shouldn't date at work but it worked for us. We were friends for 5 years they dated for a few months and got married. We have been married for 5 years and are expecting our second child.
983295
dont ask her that will seem weird ask someone else who you work with
551623
no offense, but unless he's a first rate jerk, he won't be interested.  It's just a crush(although I'm sure you're sure its love) and will wear off as soon as you see the next hot thing.  Don't get involved with teachers, bosses, or co-workers...it ends up messy.
405391
Oh? I have been in your sitution  before but, I got over it The incident happened to me 30 years ago and I never forget my experience.You only see him far away but you never have a long conversation with him.You just could not date another person.What can you do and you wish to hook up with him?Do you think that he has a wife already or he is a gay man.Do the school or college allow students dates  their teacher?.I do not think so and you might get him fired.Well I have been there and done that.As I recalled,I was 24 years old and I did not approach him and I was afraid that would cause his job so I moved on.It was very painful and I kept thinking about him.( he was single professor and very handsome)Finally,I graduated from my college and found a nice guy to marry.By the way, you should try to say hello and talk to him without reveal your feeling and see how he is.  You never know that you may change your mind about him and life goes on instead of being struck like me and I did not find out about him.
456416
Well, I think the best way is to just start up conversations with them.  Its the man's job to ask the woman out so if he's not asking you out he's not really a man, or has no interest in you.  You could always drop a hint and give him your number after having a good conversation.  As for dating co-workers...I work in an environment where TONS of people are happily married and met at work.  In fact, it's more like a family atmosphere where a lot of people have the same last names.  2 mature adults are able to have a relationship regardless of where they work if they are still able to treat eachother with respect after breaking up.
1088178
Try going out for a friendly lunch or after hours meeting and discuss your feelings or simply to get away from the prying eyes of your co-workers. See if there is an attraction or if nothing can come of it, for whatever reason, accept that and move on. Agree to remain friends without the unnecessary tension.
373999
In my opinion I think that you should never get involved with a coworker.T here are many complications starting from this. What if you breakup afterwards? How will you be able to go to work? Not the mention that everybody is going to start talking and you will have a lot of rumours on your head, most of them not true.If she gets a promotion,they will think that she did "something special" to earn that. But if you really like her, she could switch jobs, if that is an option.And are you sure she's no trying to get somewhere with this romance? Maybe she's trying to obtain something. The stakes are too high. it's better not to complicate your life like that. But hey,it's just my opinion.
221504
Definately stop sleeping with him if there is no future. You can be cordial at work, but don't speak to him outside of work, it'll be hard but worth it in the long run. Guys will never cut it off so you have to be the strong one. Just tell him its hard for you not to have feelings for him when you sleep together. \n\nOnly you will know when its right to date again. Don't go out looking for someone to "get over him" with, it won't work out. It'll be months before you're over him, you were with him for a long time.
414480
I guess I'm missing something. You want to tell him? You want to hang out with him? You just don't hang out with straight people? Or co-workers? You're 18 and a lot of your friends are going to come from work, school, neighbors or parties. It's a fact. If you consider him a co-worker with no friend potential, nothing to worry about. You two have a lot in common already with your work situation. If you have a chance at a freind, don't turn it down. Everybody can handle one more friend.
854594
Guys will not answer this question as honestly as the girls.  Well some might, but they tend to be too brutal.\n\nHe isn't interested anymore.  He's trying to let you down easy, but only because you're a co-worker and he probably doesn't want a scene at work.  Are you sure he isn't married?\n\nThe sad part is that you didn't see it coming.  Forget this jerk.  The only explanation I can give you that doesn't involve him being a total jerk is that perhaps your company has a policy against fraternization and his boss found out and warned him off.\n\nEither way he doesn't want you, accept it and move on.
163637
Don't go there, That is grounds for a sexual harrassment case waiting to happen.  If you let on that you like him, or if you reported it to others, either one of you could be fired.  Find another job before you even think about telling him you like him.
949029
I have been in this situation once before let me tell you it will blow up in your face.  Take the one that you work with and Go with her she sounds like she has more to offer. the other girl you just mentioned she was a little less reserved meaning you just like the sex i am guessing. you have way more invested in the one at work because of your work contact.  I hope the best for you .    by the way the two girls i was with found out and set me up  big time act now while you still have the upper hand.
1108772
if u mean to date a co worker, i tell u, u will regret it, it s really wrong, then u will break up and working with that person will be a nightmare,
296587
Getting involved with someone you work with is NOT a good idea. Any time there is a problem in the relationship, it can cause a problem in the work situation. If the relationship fails it can cause problems for you at work. Many businesses have rules against employees dating, because of the problems it creates in the work place. It can be grounds for termination if your company has a rule against employees dating.  If you truly feel a person is right for you, I suggest that one of you find a new job before getting involved in the relationship, or at the very least, make sure there is no company policy against employee dating.
259462
Never date anyone in the same office or where you work . . . it causes nothing but trouble.