Is it possible to control the way you feel about a girl?
85124
no there is no way...however ..feelings is one thing...and action is onother thing thats totaly diffrent....you can only change your actions but not your feelings....good luck
784814
Of course she can...you look at her as the super model type but she looks at you as the one who lightens her up and makes her feel the super model type. If she enjoys your company then you absolutely have a chance.
505725
Hopefully you've learned a few things and know how to treat a girl.  You can still get it up but you have some control.
646207
You may not be able to, but my first suggestion would be to try to figure out why she doesn't like you and then see if there is anything you can do to change that.  Be nice to her, but don't make a  nuisance of yourself - that would really make her like you even less.  Give her space and time, letting her know that you are interested if she is.  If, in the end, she does not want to have anything to do with you, be gracious, and move on.  There will be another.  It is often easier to love someone who loves you back.
452196
b honest with her give out ur heart n tell her how u feel. If she likes u as much as u do her she's reciprocate the feeling an u two can be n item...OHHHHHHHHHHHH!
22867
Just tell her you have feelings for her, and she how she reacts. I think laying it out straight may scare her away if she doesn't feel the same. My guess is she probably does so you have nothing to worry about I'm sure!  I wish you luck. I hope you find someone as great as I have found!
1022008
I don't think that can be controlled, you can't really tell your heart what or how to feel.
425931
Theres not much you can do. Sometimes people just don't feel the same way you do even if they act like it. She just might not be the right girl for you.
1082812
You cannot make a woman do anything, and you shouldn't try.  You should just be yourself and if the woman feels the same way about you as you feel about them, it will happen at the right time.  Don't rush things!  Good luck.
150696
Yes, you have to tall her how you feel. But a strong realationship isnt build just on first site... the good ones anyway, it is rare. try and become her friend first.
225978
first, let her know how you feel...dont tell her straight up to her face, but show her a different side of u, be nicer, sweeter, and just how her that you can be a great bf to her or to anyone...make her like you without her knowing about you liking her (u get me?)well then make your move on her, and i hope it works...play a lil hard to get too, well idk some girls like that (mixed signals) well i hope it works 4 u.
417534
Don't believe you're simple. That won't work. YOU ARE SPECIAL. Feel that and own it, just be yourself. MAke people around you feel special too. Be interested in them and what they've got going on. Just have fun! People are drawn to fun girls!
1077609
put little notes around saying how you feel about her.   I won't tell you what to say, because you know what to say, just write down how you feel about her. \n\nthen stick them in her purse, at her apartment, ect.  As she goes about her normal routine, she'll keep finding your notes and realize how much you care about her.  It's the little things that makes girls feel so much, so do the little things.   It's easy and makes her feel like a queen and it will definatley pay off.  \n\nDO IT!
133224
tell her how you feel if she is your best bud then you should feel comfortable enough around her to tell her anything and if she is the girl you think she is she will be honest with you and let you know exactly how she feels
381623
I think you should just  go up to girls and tell them how you feel about them, if they don't like it then maybe they are not the girl you want.
541506
You can't. She likes you or she doesn't.
548159
yea man.  i can help you out.  pretend you dont care.  if you want a girl just pretend you dont like her, and she'll come crawling back.  never failed.  girls dont you dare get pissed at me either.  you know its true!