hmm...i wanna know that my girl friend is in love wid me but she is not willing to talk me on any sex topic?so
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sex does not equate love.\n\nIf you truly love her you will wait for her to open up to you.
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Hey hun... well - I know just where you're coming from on this one as my best friend (guy) has just had this problem as he told his friend how he felt about her.\nFirstly, don't feel guilty about saying anything - it will have actually made things less awkward between the two of you. If you're close friends (as you say you are) then she shouls respect you for saying something to her face. Far too many guys don't say anything and the girl doesn't know where she stands at all.\nI don't think you "need" to rectify what you said - it's said now and that's final - you can't sincerely say anything that will take it back - and it will never be forgotten.\nYou say she feels something for you too, but still said you should stay friends - it sounds to me like she's scared of losing the friendship you have, which if it's as special and close as you say would be a shame. I don't understand though, why she said that she liked you and still turned you down - I mean, if she truly respected your feelings - would she have kept quiet and not kept you going through this torture, with the hope that something could still happen. I know that, obviously, you think the world of her - but are you sure she's worh it and she's not just playing with your affections and your emotions.\nI think you did right keeping quiet for a few days, you didn't say anything in the heat of the moment, and have let everything settle. If her reply to you didn't say anything about what you said, this could mean she'd rather move on - stay friends and not spoil your friendship in anyway. However, it could also be that she doesn't want to be the one to raise the topic, maybe she's embarrassed or maybe she thinks you're embarrassed and don't want her to raise the subject. It's up to you on that one - if you want to talk about it then bring it up in a quiet moment in private. However - if you do want to talk about it, make sure you don't sound like you're renewing your feelings to her, or are pleaing with her to take your relationship to a new level - as this is likely to spoil any chances of remaining friends.\nIf you are as close as you say, I don't think she will behave differently. But, even if she does, you MUST NOT behave differently around her - keep being as close as you ever were - this should put her at her ease a little more.\nI know it's difficult, as I said my friend's in the same sit, but you have to try and stop seeing "signs" that she likes you. Just try and see these that you and her are close friends and nothing more. Slowly try and get yourself to see someone else in this way - althought it's likely you will always like this friend as more than that.\nI hope this helps you, good look mate - I have a feeling you might need it with this one.
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From everything you said it sounds like you resisted her fairly well. What I don't understand is why you wanted to hang out with her in the first place. Did you want something to happen between the two of you? And if she is a so-called friend she wouldn't have been making the moves on you knowing you have a girlfriend. I would not tell your girlfriend about any of this, unless you are intending on breaking up with her. If in the future someone mentions it to her and she asks you, then you need to be honest with her about everything.
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Have you expressed to her your real feelings? Good friends can talk about anything. Playing games will only delay whatever the outcome is to be. Being open and honest is truly the best way. That way if she does not share your feelings your friendship will not suffer for it and you can move on in the love area of your life. We cannot make others fall in love with us. Be honest and good luck to you. \nDr. Karen
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Be honest with her.  Just ask her if there is something going on. Don't be mad at her, but you as a boyfriend have a right to know if there is anything going on with her and another man.  Tell her that you love her and don't want anything to happen between you 2 but you just need to know because you are feeling uncomfortable with things without knowing.
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yes tell her how you feel , try and move closer to her if she can not move closer to you.\nand i would ask why she is on the sex chat site , are you on it with her?
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if she is a free girl...ask her to have a private talk even just in a restaurant and tell her that u love her, nothing will be lost whenever u tell her that at least u can express ur feelings and shockingly, maybe she also loves u, just waiting for ur first move....
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at this point in the relationship it really does not matter. if she told you she was not feeling you then take it as she said it. SHE IS NOT INTERESTED IN YOU....so in her world it doesn,t matter how much you love her,she doesn,t love you. sorry
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If she is your girlfriend, you have to tell her.\nIf she is your friend, you have to tell her.\nIf she is someone you care about, you have to tell her.\nIf you don't give a damn about her, then play with her.
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Wow, does she know you're in love with her? If she does, just talk about you realationship and then pop the questin.\n\nIf she doesn't, tell her you love her. Good luck:-)
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Before going out and blurting out that you love her and putting your friendship in jeopardy, why don't you try to gauge whether she loves you or not. It's not all that difficult; her body language, the way she talks about you to her friends would let you in on some clues. Read up some material on the net to actually determine whether it's just fleeting infatuation or love.
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if you and your gf are close,,,ask her for help.ask her desires and how you should or can fulfill them.what she likes,what she doesn't like.be open to her to be open with you.have no fear.
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Here's what I'd do:\n\nSit down with her and take her hand in yours.  Make and keep eye contact, even if you have to announce it like, "I have something to say."  Remind her that you really care about her, more and more every day.\n\nTouch her cheek, or tuck her hair behind her ear: the more physical, non-threatening contact you can establish the better.  She'll become more comfortable with you in a physical way, and that will help her comfort level with the emotional aspect of your relationship.\n\nTell her that you don't want to do or say anything to make her feel uncomfortable but you really feel that she deserves to know that she's important to you, you care about her, and that you love her.  Let her know that you don't expect anything in return, you just want her to know how you feel.\n\nShe probably freaks out/hyperventilates because she feels that either she doesn't deserve love or that saying "I love you" comes with expectations.  Tell her that you are just letting her know, and you don't need anything back: you love her for who she is, right now, just the way she is.\n\nThen what you need to do is let her know you'll be there when she's ready to talk about this or anything else, and just walk away.  She'll need time alone to process what you've said.
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Well what age are we talking here? \nIf you two are too young then I totally agree with her - but if not then perhaps you must decide what is most important to you. Do you love her enough to stay by her side despite the absences of sex, or do you weigh heavily on sex in a relationship. Now, I am assuming this is what you are talking about, (the sex I mean) because if she does not let you touch her at all - then you definitely need to talk/help her or probably best to leave. She must have some serious personal issues.
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If she is going to behave like that then ...don't have her as a girlfriend.  It is up to you to be proud of your feelings and not feel humiliated.  If she humiliates you then you allow that feeling.   Telling someone how you feel should make your relationship stronger.  Make sure that she knows that she is your girlfriend though...then just tell her...
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I'm a girl and I would be devastated if my BF told me that.  Sometimes things are just better left unsaid.  She would lose respect for you at the least.  If you don't want the chance of losing her and you DO love her, keep it to yourself. :-)  Believe me, I've kept the same thing to myself.  Girls are sometimes just after some nice hard...ya know..and then we get hit with the love bug!! haha
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Lets put it this way, do you think she doesn't know about it already?  If you want misery, tell her, let her know what you think.  I am all for communication, but it is a very sensitive area to women.  I wouldn't even think about bringing it up.  Besides, you should be loving the woman for who she is and not what she looks like...that is really shallow.