My best friends are being really mean they r being jerks... should i not be friends with them or what?
84581
if they are your best friends they shouldn't be doing this. tell them how you feel. if they don't respect you then leave the party. do what's good for you. you don't need friends like these. I call them toxic friends. In hindsight your bestfriends don't know how good they have it to be your friend. They will wake up and realize what they did to someday. It's not you. :O)I know it's going to be tough to break of the friendship, but sometimes we do it for our own good and spirit. There will be people who will be good to you, and be your friend and be real to you and who are supportive and willing to help you and grow with you for the better and love you for you. That's a best friend to me. I promise you that. Move on, this is toxic and you deserve something healthy.
1035971
you should talk to them and find out what happened and tell them how u felt about bein ditched. i know it sounds lame but it could work and you might forgive them. but if their still being jerks about it then just move on and make better friends.
1047996
If they are not there for you and they talk behind your back---sweetie---they are not your friend.  You can be nice and sociable without considering them a friend.  And just so you know if they are talking about you behind your back--they are probably jealous of you   :)Good Luck!
841747
Stop giving them things or doing things for them and see how long they stick around. If they get angry about it, then you will know they werent your friends to begin with.
598599
yes they might be jeolous but you should not get better friends immedietley,you should try to ask why are they like that
1156560
im having problems like that except vise-versa (srry can't spell 2day). take it from me, its not all that ez, it mite take them a wile 2 forgive u, but if they're true friends, they will come to their senses and realize that you appreciate both of them the same (unless you don't, and if you don't i can't help you there).
227086
maybe you just need some time out from your friend, if they have been a good friend you should try and maintain that friendship... be careful about your decision in whether you no longer want the friendship, you could regret it later... like I said time out, you need a break, see how you feel then
322031
Everyone has their flaws.. I have two friends like yours too, and they're my best buddies... Sometimes, both of them are there for me, sometimes it's just one of them, and sometimes neither.\n\nWhen neither are they for me, it's time i question their loyalty. But then i realised that maybe they just aren't comfortable dealing with the problem i have.. because they are clueless of what to say. sometimes they have other bigger priorities, like family... I dun think we can expect our friends to be there for us the 24/7\n\nMaybe you should spread out and find other friends.. to help you deal with different situations. we can't hold on just to several people.
1145218
Those aren't real friends. Real friends are there for you through thick and thin, and they would never dare make fun of such serious things as you have described. Don't listen to their laughs and teasing. They are either really big jerks or they are just to juvenile to understand the severity of your problems. Meanwhile, I hope you've gotten help for your problems, and if not, I urge you to because you don't have to suffer with depression...it can be treated. Not sure about the other 2 you listed, but I know there are professionals out there who can help you. It's time you made new friends. Real friends who aren't going to ditch you when the going gets tough. Hang in there!
807377
I dont think youre wrong at all. Any real friends would not tolerate someone talking about you in that way. Because they didnt stand up for you, they might as well have agreed with the jerk. What a slap in the face! Im so sorry. But it looks to me like it may be time to move on and make some new friends. Thats probably not what you want to hear but you are too good for them!
1159431
They sound like losers.  Maybe you need to ask yourself how you deserve to be treated. People will treat you the way that you let them.  You deserve to be treated with respect and kindness.  Go make a list of all the great qualities that you have. If you need help, then ask your best friends to help you out.  What would you tell your best friend if she/he were being treated like this? Would you tell them to stay and take it? No, get out and insist on being treated well!
655944
Don't pick a side.  Fights are little glitches in friendships and in time they work themselves out.  Real friends will not ask or make you to choose sides.  And as for the friends that are mad at you.  It is better to be hated for who you are than to be loved for something you are not.  They will get over it too.
8399
If your so called friends are treating you so poorly then I don't think they are really your friends to begin with.  Find new people to hang out with that really care about you for who you are and won't judge or make fun of you.
486131
Dear Sally,\n\nFriends do not bully friends, especially best friends.  You need to work on your self esteem and find new friends and let new people (nice ones) get to know you.  You certainly deserve better than that.  Friends are supposed to bring out the best out of us not to make us sad.\n\nI heard that no one deserves your tears and the ones who would deserve your tears would never want to make you cry because they love you too much.\n\nGood luck!  Big hugs
234368
First of all, if they are "bad friends" then they are not friends at all. If you have already tried telling them to quit bugging you and go their own separate way, but had no success, then just IGNORE them!! They will eventually get tired...
494733
THAT IS NOT A FRIEND!!!AND CERTAINLY NOT WORTHY OF BEING BEST ANYTHING.I WOULD CALL THAT A S**T STARTER.GET RID OF HER BEFORE SHE REALLY HURTS YOUR FEELINGS.IF AN APOLOGY WASN"T GOOD ENOUGH,THEN THAT IS HER PROBLEM.WITH FRIENDS LIKE THAT,YOU DON'T NEED ENEMIES.
266682
if you have known these people fora long time and this just started happening and you dont just wat to stop being friends, you definately need to bring what they are doing to there attention. let them know how you feel, but be calm about it. dont yell at them or be overly dramatic or just act angry and stuck-up because they might not even realize that they were doing it. i have been in the same situation, and i did talk to my friend about it and she said she was sorry and didnt even realize it and then everything was cool between us. \nalso, try to include YOURSELF in the conversation. if you "but-in" to the conversation, you are showing that you want to be part of there conversation and that you are there and you have something to contribute. if you just dont talk at all, it might be your own fault that they are ingoring you.\ni hope all this helps!