I think my boyfriend likes my daughter in anotherway, What should i do?
96235
What a scary question to have to ask.  If you see signs of him giving her the wrong kind of attention, listen to your instincts and pay very close attention to his behavior towards her.  I think this is one of those things people brush off, thinking it's their imagination.  I don't know how old she is, but I'd say talk to your daughter about him, see how she feels about him.  And if you haven't before, talk to her about her body and other's bodies.  You may want to talk to him too, which is obviously an awkward thing to do.  Her safety is of course number one though.  Above all, when you have such suspicions, don't ever give anyone the benefit of the doubt.
1161176
First move on if he still wanted you he would tell you.  Go get counseling if you need.  Now think of your daughters do you want them to sit around and wait on a man of make their lives a happy one?  Children learn their behavior from their parents.  Be very careful of you will have some love sick puppies in a few years.
958941
Your feelings are normal- he is not your biological son, and I assume you do not have any children to compare your feelings to.  Not everyone is capable of loving unconditionally- which is what you would have to be capable of doing for her boy- just like if you adopted a 7 year old boy.  This is not to say that you will not "grow" to love him- and you already do, but in a different way then you would a child of your own, which is okay.  Enjoy your relationship with her and him, and dont sweat your feelings for him- he's probably just happy to have a "step dad" in his life that he can relate to.  Good luck, and dont worry.............
984346
Yeah, leave him immediately...and go where? What are you leaving him for, so this girl can have him because you THINK he cheated and you want him to suffer by taking his child away from him??? You'd better get your head together, my dear. You haven't thought this through...
485438
You need to go with your instincts. If they are telling you to not introduce your kid to new g/f, then dont. You obviously have your childs best interest at heart. Good Man!
234436
Are you still in a relationship with him? If so, you need to figure out together where things are headed, he may be okay with that. If he's not you have to ask; how much does the relationship matter to you and what is best for your child. Since you still love him, I see no reason to throw thay away because you like girls. You wouldn't cheat on him with a guy you liked, going after a girl is no different really. If not, I don't see a problem. After all, you can see who you want now.
1123706
Your daughter is the result of all that was good in your relationship, You may be right about depending on him...you need to stand on your own to feet and take care of your daughter in order establish a healthy relationship with another...do not, I repeat do not look for the same kind of man that will cause you to continue to be dependent on...good luck...all the love to get you thru such a crisis is in the eyes of your daughter.
839665
Yup....go, even if for a short time. Yup...tell your GF.  If you two are rocky...this will help both of you get some clarity....is it worth the energy to work through things or better use of both of your energy (and spirit) to keep growing as a couple?\n\nA note re the SGs...do yourself and them a favor...keep your distance. SGs do this to get attention....but, the attention they need is just a friend or stranger to validate them because they aren't being validated otherwise. \n\nSorry 'nough said...yes, I'm probably 'significantly' older...and w/ a daughter (consider that....you too may have a daughter someday...think about your future daughter....).\n\nDo have fun...and good luck w/ your GF!
245539
Unfortunately you are going to be the ultimate judge of that. Is it different this time? Are his actions following his words? How do you feel about his being back? How does he treat your daughter?\nYou might be setting yourself up for the big fall, which means he will do it again. You must think of what is best for you and your daughter. GOOD LUCK
66014
She is considered as an adult , so there's nothing you can do legally if she left with him willingly, the best thing you can do for your daughter is to just support her on her decision and when things don't work out, be there for her, let her know that NO MATTER WHAT you are there for her and that your love is unconditional, what you don't want is for her not to want anything to do with you and when things go wrong she'll be scared to come to you and end up in a worst situation.
625729
Best advice...STAY AWAY! Think about it..he has a child with another woman (or girl) and yet he's trying to get into your pants. Ya think that once he gets what he's looking for..that he'll stick around..or will he look for another conquest? For your own sanity and well being...STAY AWAY!
848222
This is an easy one.  Why not imagine that you had a daughter your age and that it was she not you, that was involved with your bf.  What advice would you tell her?  Simple isn't it?\n\nYou know what to do.  Love is not a competition.
226066
I'm going to be as honest as I can without hurting you. Telling him you have feelings for him even though you know he has a girlfriend is inappropriate. If he's with another girl, you need to start looking for other guys. You don't want to bring a lot of unnecessary complications into your life because she thinks you're trying to "steal" her boyfriend. Teenagers are incredibly territorial and very immature.
704274
Stay out of their business.  They have a child together and this is what they should concentrate on.  You shouldn't even be concerned if they get along or not, because you are only the girlfriend.
605351
Bro go out. Your daughter will be fine. You seem like a great dad! dating doesnt hurt. Leave your daughter with someone you trust. Do it before you looks fade, and your old n gray sayin I wish I wouldve.
82127
Ouch this a hurtfull situation. But first you need to confront him and find out whats going on and dont let him play you for stupid. You next person to confront is her! She needs to know what she is dealing and find out what she is doing. He may think its harmless but you guys have 2 kids together and it sounds like he is pretty seriously committed to you. He should have no reason to call her and break up a happy home. You seriously might want to rethink the whole relationship. Maybe even give him a scare and say you are leaving him because you found out he was talking to "that girl" if he loves you he will stop and wont ever do it again. And seriously think about it he has already cheated on your with this girl and she is obbviously still on his mind. You should have cut it off when he first cheated.
1057030
Hello sweetheart, you must be so confused, it certainly sounds like your fella is. Speaking from experience I would not even speak to him again let alone go out on a date. I think  on this one sweetheart you have to follow your heart, you are the only person who truly knows ho you feel about him. I really hope that you can make the decision that is the right one for you and your little girl. I bet you have the same response from family and friends as I did, everyone told me to dump him "you can do better than him". I made the decision to walk away and have some on our own time with my boy. I have never seen my ex since. He tried allsorts to get back home I stood strong and resisted the temptation. I have remarried and I adore my husband. You will be happy again  take care beauty and don't re rushed.