what happened that I got dumped?
93224
Sweetie, unfortunately what he did was very messed up. All that you can do is try your best to move on... I know that it's hard as h*ll, but you have give yourself some stength and courage to keep on moving. Girl I don't have a clue as to what caused him to do that. If anything try to write him a letter about how you feel and let him know that he really hurt you. Tell him that he was wrong for what he did, and that you deserved at least an explanation. Show him that although you are hurting, you are not going to allow him to bring you down. Don't worry b/c What goes around, comes around... EVERYTIME!!... That's why my name is KARMA baby!!!!! Good Luck MaMa!! You are gonna be just fine. Just use that strength that you were born with!!!!!!!!!!
461381
i've never been dumped at all cause i've never had a boyfriend, but i think u should think about what kind of girls ur dating that dump u for scum like that.  u might also want 2 think about y they like u....
200792
becuz UR LOVE WAS TRUE AND UR STILL IN SHOCK ABOUT WHY THINGS DIDNT WORK OUT. U CANT BELIEVE THAT THIS DIDNT END IN A FAIRY -TALE LIKE MANNER...THE WAY U EXPECTED....u still care abt him ...and maybe the truth is too hurtful and u cant let go.....just try to relax...get involved in activities outside ur home...go out with friends...share ur problems...sharing is the best thing to do at this point.... it will help u reach CLOSURE.......BEST OF LUCK!
1105913
It depends on why you broke up.  Did you break up with her or her with you?  Was there infidelity involved?\n\nUnfortunately I do not have enough info from your question to help you, other than the regular - Send flowers.... I made a mistake... Beg...etc
266990
Girl, you dumped him for a reason, right? Guys usually don't change, lol. Probably something going on where you are feeling lonely, bored, etc. Go out with your gfs, make some new gfs, get a puppy...anything. Don't look back, lov ya!
318380
I am so sry, for what happened to u. Trust me the guy is so stupid, and u should be glad this happened b4 u guys did nything intimate. I noe it's hard to forget, but u should go on with life. Many times u will find urself in a drepressing position. Many times. Get over it. There are many guiys in the world. U never mentioned that this one was the perfect one so i'm guessing he wasn't. and even though u were going out it seems like u considered him as a friend. U must have been close, it hurts , i noe. U 'll find ur perfect one someday and u'll forget about this guy. Someday u'll be able to look back at this memory and laugh about it. I would suggest looking forward to that day. Enjoy urself, have fun, study, date, life is too short to have many regrets.
340173
Why don't you have your friends come over to explain what happened?  If he means anything to you and you want to stay, you will try anything to keep him.  Good luck!
41677
nothing. You are "broken up".
670567
Move on is the best answer. You broke up for a reason. Always remmeber that reason.
921952
i can undeerstand, i was wit a guy i KNEW wasnt rite for me for 4 years....i was crazy abt him and d mere thought of losing him made me sick...after 4 years he dumped me coz he had another girl he liked more..i hurt so bad....but i survived, but i know it wud have been much better for my self respect if i had listened to my head and dumped him earlier,....hurt u will b, but better tht u take d initiative now then later, tht will hurt more..
633234
Aww honey don't be sad. I just broke up with my fiance last Tuesday and we lived together I know how much this hurts. However you have to remember that what is meant to be will be. If you and him are meant to be together nothing, and I mean nothing can keep you apart. You need to stay busy and dont think about it. I know how easy it is right now to overanalyze every little detail. Don't. Thats just going to bring you down more. Look into the future, always have hope and take care of yourself. Surround yourself with friends and family and remember "this too shall pass"
694357
It's just like riding a bike. It'll come back to you.  Also, how can you be so sure that it was you who was doing anything wrong?  Sometimes people decide, for whatever reasons, they don't want to be in a relationship any longer or they fall out of love with the person.  Obviously your boyfriend just didn't want to be in a committed relationship.  Yes, it's hurtful to be dumped, especially by somebody you really love and who doesn't have the decency or the balls to sit down and really be honest about why he really left (because he wanted to be able to screw at will) and not leave you trying to figure out what you did wrong.\n\nForget his azz (literally and figuratively).  Pick yourself up, go out with friends, keep moving forward and one day you'll look up and he'll be a distant memory and you'll find someone new.
276766
I dumped her!! BIg mistake on my part but you can't go back some times
146568
I have never had this personally happen to me, but if I were you I would ask myself this "If she left you in a desperate time of need is she really worth wanting back"? To me it seems as if you left you when things got too hard for her. Not really keeping your feelings in mind. Kinda seems selfish. \nNow I am a outside party and I dont know how bad your depression got. Some people can handle situations such as this others just dont know what to do.\nI am truly sorry for your loss.
587586
well...recently...I ended up cheating on my last boyfriend because he disappeared for two weeks then came back and ignored me for a week and I didn't know what was going on so when an old friend of mine put the moves on me about 50 times within one sitting...saying "no" got to be to hard. I should have just left, but I was so upset...I don't know what I was thinking.
456665
There had to be a reason that your friend ditched you. Try talking to your friend and see whats up!
226937
you need to put yourself together. Go out and do things that you like [ helps take your mind of him ] Find someone to share your life with. In any event you need to move on. Life is to short, to sit around and do nothing. Know how you feel, been there. Hope this this helps you. Don't think about what happened. move on