Why do guys play like they like u but they really don't?
79987
Let me tell you this...as a 'guy' guys only go after girls who they like!!!!! they wouldn't approach someone they didn't like unless its for somekind of advantage.
564902
thats a guys way of showing off!\n   guys are always like that. expecily when they like u!
663684
sometimes we are the ones to misread the signals, or sometimes they just are not good at straight signals, thus they get mixed to us and we perceive them as such. If he likes you...you will know.
418679
Because it's this weird game that gets played on both sides, guys and gals. You only like the ones you know you can't have so that there's a reason you "can't" go for them, that way it protects you and you don't have to face rejection. So if a girl shows interest in a guy, he either pretends not to show interest or doesn't see it. Now there's another game that gets played where one party flirts with the other just enough to get them interested and then plays hard to get, just to see how hard the other person will try to get them. \n\nSILLY DATING GAMES ARE STUPID!!!!!!! If people would just say what they mean and mean what they say and be honest about their feelings, then things would go a lot smoother.
240233
maybe there are not pretending.....\nmaybe u r pretending(or presuming) tht they like u
104501
Sometimes it's just a way to cover up feelings of insecurity and inadequacy.  A real man who is capable of feelings and is generous and considerate does not need to act this way.  Bypass a guy who is self centered and a player
719341
i liked a guy like that he's player he goes around with that ladies and then next you know he has a girl! and then you startt to like him and then he forgets all about you then you get misserable and depressed lol well all that didn't happen to me but just the likign part he gets all the girls to like him so you can run after him! now that 's a true player!
88808
Does the guy know that you like him? And if he does then you can express that you're interested in him, but don't get carried away. Some guys don't like when a girl flirts too much. Maybe he just might come around and notice that you are worth being with other than that other girl. If not, like the saying goes, There are other fish in the sea. So there will always be someone else out there that will treat you right and make you feel important. However like they all said before me, if he does seem like a player, then don't call him back cuz you will only get hurt.
910787
So, you think it's shallow if he likes you now, but you want to play games like "hard to get"?  That is stupid.  If he likes you better now, it might be because you lost weight, or, more likely, because you have more confidence now.  Or, he might feel exactly the same about you--can you handle that?
55748
because they feel too vunerable. if they do like someone and admit it then they risk the chance of being turned down and feeling crappy about themself. If they dont like you, they dont want to say that either cuz it might hurt ur feelings\n\nthey are protecting thier male ego
984842
When we play with guys like that we're actually trying to show you that we like you.
152508
He is just not that into you. If a guy really likes you, he will call. Simple as that.
266371
OK i have that problem with a lot if guys so if like they do stuff 4 u or they ask u out etc. U email them, call them,etc. and tell them that u don`t like them the way that they like you and that to just be friends!
309375
They are playing hard to get. I don't understand why they do it but they do. They want the girl to "sweat" it out. The guy thinks that they really got it going on. If he sees you with another guy, its competition and they will call you back.
533747
You're third word in your question is the answer...because they are MEN!\n\nI know exactly what you're asking, and why you're so confused...they play because they can, but I also think its because they're less comfortable with commitment than we are.\n\nNot much to do about that except accept them as they truly are, and hope all goes well!
789099
You are right, I see some of my old friends play guys and it makes me sick. When they start in a relationship she thinks she wants him and him only, and 2 weeks later, she wants his best friend too. then both guys get hurt (heart break) and she moves on to the next guy, who falls for her... and it goes on and on... Just sickening...  Some men do women the same way though, not as many men as women though. Don't stop being the nice guy, there are some good women left that appreciate a great guy, and that sounds like what you are. Good Luck with the next one.
361579
he likes you trust me.. guys just try and play games the way females do.. They try to act like they dont like you but from inside its killing them.. He probly still thinks about you... just go up to him and talk to him.. he will be thrilled inside cuz he cant stand not talkin to you... just make sure you say hi or speak to him again aftewards cuz you might get him upset again inside... we have emotions too