what to say to a friend who lost their uncle?
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“Please accept my heartfelt condolences to you and your family on your uncle's death. I'm sure that his memory will forever live on in your hearts." This condolence message doesn't need to offer any further call to action. Unless you were close to the uncle, a text message is enough.
237405
If you want to talk about the baby, I am here to listen. If you have experienced a loss, you can say, “I remember having some of those same feelings you are feeling when I lost my baby. I know nothing I do or say can take away your pain. Please know I am thinking of you and your family.
83350
“There are no words that can begin to capture the magnitude of your loss. I'm so sorry that you and your family are going through this.” “Every time I ran into your father, he couldn't wait to tell me about your latest accomplishments. I hope you know how proud he was to be your dad.”
989859
Do say: "I'm very sorry to hear this. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers". Be sure to show sympathy by helping the person with their job.
58312
["Don't say, “It's going to be OK” ... ", 'But do say something. ... ', "Do make clear that you'll be there for them. ... ", "Do be careful about saying, “I'll pray for you” ... ", 'Do try to create a semblance of normalcy. ... ', "Do ask how they're doing — today. ... ", 'Do be a good listener. ... ', "Don't get squirmy at the end."]
1329179
I agree with /u/1leggeddog. This is the best way to express your condolences in my experience. If you know the person well enough - just do shit for them without them having to ask. Cook, drop by with drinks or to take a walk.
865333
Please accept my heartfelt condolences. You're in my thoughts, and I hope you feel comforted in the days ahead. I wanted to let you know that you're on my mind and I'm here for you if you need anything. I'm so sorry about your father's death.
82278
["“I'm sorry.”", "“I'm so sorry for your loss.”", "“I'm sorry to hear the news.”", "“I'm thinking of you.”", "“I'm not sure what to say or do but I am here and I am so sorry.”", "“Please let me know if there's anything you need.”"]
89664
['“I miss you, too!”', '“I was just thinking of you; then you called. ... ', '“And why may I ask do you miss me?” (said in a joking but loving way).']
6998
['I am wishing you the best possible outcome.', 'May you find comfort and peace in your situation.', 'Though you may feel overwhelmed now, I hope things will get easier as you go on.', "I'll call you soon to find out exactly what I can do for you.", 'I am here for you if you need a friend.', 'You are in my thoughts and prayers.']
1102736
When someone dies, we are always sorry regardless of how well we knew the person or what we thought of him or her. So, that is what you say: "I am so sorry to hear that your mom died." Next, we want our friend to know that we care.
109674
What you can say instead: “You have my deepest sympathy,” “I'm so saddened to hear about your loss,” “My deepest condolences,” or “My thoughts and prayers are with you.” Just let them know that you care about them and their grief instead of offering empty placations about losing the man they loved.
334266
Simply say… 'I'm sorry' It can be hard to find the right words to comfort someone who is experiencing this type of grief, but many people say that just having their loss acknowledged is helpful. You might want to say: “I'm very sorry that you have lost your baby.” “This must be really difficult for you.”
907555
Offer your sympathy, hug the person if it is appropriate, and then back away. Then let someone else have a chance to offer condolences. If the person wants to talk, listen. Sometimes it's best to not say anything but simply be there to show your support.
286535
['“Gone from our sight, but never from our hearts.”', '“Our thoughts and prayers are with you.”', '“I wish you healing and peace.”', '“I hope you feel surrounded by much love.”', '“We are so sorry for your loss.”', '“We are thinking of you during these difficult times.”']
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['Let them be sad. ... ', "Remind them it isn't personal. ... ", 'Tell them how proud you are of their hard work. ... ', 'Distract them. ... ', 'Get them excited about other options. ... ', 'Remind them that pain will pass.']
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I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Your mother was one of the sweetest women I've ever known. She always had a nice smile and friendly greeting when I saw her. Please don't hesitate to call if you need anything.