how to make long distance relationships less painful?
446283
['Discuss together the level of commitment to each other and to the relationship. ... ', 'Avoid jealousy and be trusting. ... ', 'Check in and catch up with each other every day. ... ', 'Embrace technology. ... ', 'Have regular time together…in person. ... ', 'Pursue common interests, even if you are not doing them together all of the time.']
972924
Spend time together. Go out on dates, meet up for lunch, or even just go for a walk and talk. Seeing each other frequently will give you the chance to connect with the other person. Don't over do it. Seeing each other few times a week is fine, but seeing each other every day can actually damage a new relationship.
1238879
['Make time to connect. ... ', 'Set and respect boundaries. ... ', 'Communicate mindfully. ... ', 'Be open to feedback. ... ', 'Keep them accountable. ... ', 'Get to know them personally. ... ', 'Give them space. ... ', 'Build trust.']
112383
["Speak Up. In a healthy relationship, if something is bothering you, it's best to talk about it instead of holding it in.", 'Respect Each Other. ... ', 'Compromise. ... ', 'Be Supportive. ... ', "Respect Each Other's Privacy."]
151360
['Prioritize your schedules well. ... ', 'Make sure your goals — and potential endgames — are in the same ballpark. ... ', "Don't rely solely on technology. ... ", 'Focus on quality communication. ... ', 'Let the "boring" details become connection. ... ', "Don't over-plan your time in person. ... ", "Don't put your life on hold."]
820676
['Create a positive mantra to counter the painful thoughts. ... ', 'Create physical distance. ... ', 'Do your own work. ... ', 'Practice mindfulness. ... ', 'Be gentle with yourself. ... ', 'Allow the negative emotions to flow. ... ', 'Accept that the other person may not apologize. ... ', 'Engage in self-care.']
605042
Stick to a Schedule Timing matters, especially when your time together is precious. To keep long-distance relationships going you need to actually see one another, know when you're going to see each other and be able to trust that the other person will stick to that plan.
1054494
['Always have a plan. Develop a strategy for visiting, accounting for both distance and the cost of travel. ... ', 'Express your needs. ... ', "Try not to fight when you're apart. ... ", 'Ignore the haters. ... ', 'Make the most of it. ... ', "It's ok to be sad sometimes. ... ", 'MORE ABOUT STUDENT LIFE:']
787663
You're More Intimate. You would think the distance would drive you farther apart. ... But actually, studies show that the opposite is true: Couples in long distance relationships actually develop stronger, more intimate bonds than their close couple counterparts.
252236
['Nothing changed – except for the distance between you. ... ', "You're not afraid of the future. ... ", "You don't have to keep secrets from each other. ... ", "You're still able to surprise each other. ... ", "The distance doesn't hinder you from being happy. ... ", "You don't feel bored when talking to each other. ... ", 'You trust each other more than ever.']
1105461
['Just reach out. ... ', 'Then, judge their reaction. ... ', 'Find your own way to express your love. ... ', 'Listen. ... ', 'Acknowledge just how bad it really is. ... ', 'Offer to connect them to people going through something similar, if you do know anyone. ... ', 'Give little and often. ... ', 'Prepare for the worst.']
1282559
['Give Her A Chance To Change.', 'Limit The Amount Of Time You Spend Together.', 'Remain Confident When Talking To Her.', 'Work On Setting Up Some Healthy Boundaries.', 'Keep Things As Respectful As Possible.', 'Get Thyself To A Therapist.', 'Consider Cutting Off All Communication (At Least For A While)']
363630
['Ask What Their Relationship Goals Are.', 'Give Yourself a Timeline.', 'Make Sure Your Own Needs are Met.', "Don't Rush Them.", 'Give Them Space.', 'Try and Get Them to Open Up More.', 'Avoid Nagging Them About It.', 'Understand That They May Never Commit.']
435458
['Hold logistic conversations separate from the relationship conversation. ... ', 'Set a firm move-out date. ... ', 'Respect your new ideas of space. ... ', 'Hold detailed money conversations. ... ', 'Divide possessions equitably. ... ', 'Set new boundaries. ... ', 'Fill up your social calendar.']
59371
Long-distance partners are still people. The distance tends to make them less "personal" to us, but by maintaining frequent and open lines of communication and by fostering trust and positive emotions, it is possible for an LDR to work, even long-term.
496858
['Think positive thoughts. ... ', 'Argue in a healthy way. ... ', "Don't fight about money. ... ", 'Say words of encouragement to each other. ... ', 'Have strong friendships outside of your relationship. ... ', 'Spend six more hours together a week. ... ', "Don't rush into anything. ... ", 'Talk to each other more often.']
68310
['Avoid excessive communication. It is unwise to be overly “sticky” and possessive.', 'See it as an opportunity. ... ', 'Set some ground rules to manage your expectations. ... ', 'Try to communicate regularly, and creatively. ... ', 'Talk dirty with each other. ... ', 'Avoid “dangerous” situations. ... ', 'Do things together. ... ', 'Do similar things.']