what does it mean when a guy says no not really?
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You probably already know the answer to that. Mostly it means (if you're a girl) that this may NOT be the guy you want to choose to be in your life. If you're a guy, you know the person is no gentleman …. and you may not want to continue to have that person in your life.
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It means that the guy has realized that his flirtation or even polite attention has given you the impression that he's more into you than he really is and that he doesn't want to get into a deeper relationship with you.
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Means of your dating your potential long term for him and he wants you to know u mean a lot to him. The negative potential different side to it is that he's trying to control you being only his and basically telling u or hinting you that you can't flirt with others or find another.
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It means he wants to end the relationship but can't come right out and say so for whatever reason. He's probably afraid of hurting your feelings, which he will do no matter how he ends it, because that's just what happens when a relationship ends—the feelings of the rejected party get hurt.
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With a man who has strong feelings for you, 'No' means 'No'. He won't beg you to sleep with him unless you're really ready for it. He won't rush into things or make you do something that you're not ready to do. It means that he respects you and your boundaries.
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It means that he wants physical relations with you but was nervous about asking. And he plays it off as a joke… unless you really wanna do it. What he's looking for is affirmation from you that you feel the same way that he does.
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“Not really” means not exactly. It is a response to a question where it means “Not all of what you said is true. It is true to only to some points - not totally.” The attitude of the speaker, is that of being helpful. Usually, when “Not really” is said, it is followed by an explanation why it is like that.
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It means that he doesn't want you to develop feelings for whoever He's talking about, whether that is him or someone else. It's childish and He's saying it that way to be silly and try to lighten the mood for if it is him he is talking about then he doesn't want you to fall in love with him.
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Yes, it clearly means that he likes you, otherwise he wouldn't want to kiss you. Other than that, it can also mean the following: He completely respects you and your wishes, so he asks if you'd feel comfortable with it. He is too shy to go for the kiss without asking.
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"No" Is a Complete Sentence. If you go along with saying “yes” to things you don't really want to do, you are going to need to learn to put the word “no” in your vocabulary. Not only that, but you need to remember that “No” is a complete sentence.
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This probably means: He believes you are too young for him to date, and does not want to date you. You might be able to talk him into having sex with you or even forming an emotional bond, but you are unlikely to create a long-lasting commitment of any kind with him due to his clearly stated reason above.
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It means you like it or are supportive of it. So if he's not fond of something, he doesn't like it. It means you like it or are supportive of it. So if he's not fond of something, he doesn't like it.
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It means he isn't sure about what he wants with you. It means he is non commital. It means you're not exactly the woman who makes his heart skip a beat. It means he does not mind dating you, but is unsure of any level of commitment above that.
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So, what does it mean when a guy calls you dude? It could be that he is attracted to you and he wants to see your reaction which would be more likely if he shows other signs of attraction around you. He might also say it naturally or it could be a sign that he is not attracted to you.
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If he's not romantic, he's not romantic. That doesn't mean he doesn't care about you or can't grow into a guy who's a little more open to it, but nagging him isn't going to get you there. He'll either tune you out or begin resenting you, and that won't help anything.
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It usually means he has a main focus/other girl he's hoping to be with. He doesn't want to commit to you if it's possible he can have her. Do not play the “I'm the better choice” game or wait around for him- it's never worth it. You deserve someone who is sure and “I kinda like you” is a very teenage boy thing to say.
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It's the same thing that anyone means when making excuses not to do something; they don't want to hurt your feelings by saying that they just don't want to hang out with you. This type of response from a guy should always be taken as a sign that he isn't interested in you and you should just forget about him.