what to say to someone who just lost their baby?
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['“Can I bring you a meal?” ... ', '“I know how much you loved this baby. ... ', '“Remember to be kind to yourself. ... ', '“Our entire family grieves with you.” ... ', '“You and _______ are in my heart.” ... ', "“I love you, and I'm so sorry you are going through this pain.”"]
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['Sample 1. I am sorry to hear about the loss of your father. If you feel like talking to someone, know that I am a good listener.', 'Sample 2. My heart aches over the loss of your dad. ... ', "Sample 3. I'm sorry about your father's passing."]
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"I am so sorry for your loss" is a good example. Offer open-ended support. "If there is anything I can do, please let me know. I'm willing to help in any way."
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["I don't know what to say, but I care about you.", 'Do you just need to vent? ... ', 'I really admire how you are handling this. ... ', "I'm bringing dinner Thursday. ... ", 'Can I get your kids for a play date? ... ', "I can't sit still. ... ", "I saw these flowers and thought they'd cheer you today."]
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['Be intentional, show sympathy, and offer a listening ear. ... ', "Instead of trying to come up with the perfect words, express your sympathy with a simple, “I'm so sorry for your loss.” Then be quiet and truly listen to your friend. ... ", "Even if you've sent a sympathy note, call to express your condolences."]
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['“So happy for you two! ... ', '“Ahhh! ... ', '“You two deserve every bit of happiness this baby is going to bring you.”', '“So many happy and wonder-filled times ahead for you…congratulations.”', '“Warmest congratulations on the birth of your sweet baby girl!”', '“Love just got real. ... ', '“Welcome to the world, little one!']
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["“I'm Glad You're Okay”", "“I'm Here For You if You Need Anything”", '“How Are You Feeling?”', '“What Can I Do for You?”', "“Don't Be So Upset. Cheer Up!”", '“You Should [Insert Advice]”']
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['Acknowledge the loss. ... ', 'Ask what he or she needs to ease the transition. ... ', 'Help the person see the difference between who he or she is and the situation. ... ', 'Encourage the idea of connecting with friends and family.']
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['With heartfelt condolences.', 'We are so sorry for your loss.', 'I hope you feel surrounded by much love. ... ', 'Sending healing prayers and comforting hugs. ... ', 'With deepest sympathy as you remember Ashley.', 'Holding you close in our thoughts and hoping you are doing OK.', 'It was truly a pleasure knowing Rebecca.']
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['Thinking of you during your difficult time. ... ', "I am so sorry you're going through this. ... ", 'Sending all of our love and support your way.']
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Method 1 of 2: Respond to in-person condolences with a genuine “thank you.” People understand that you'll be emotional or in pain. When they say “I'm sorry for your loss,” they just want you to know that they support you, and won't be expecting a longer conversation. A simple “thank you” works.
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["Don't say, “It's going to be OK” ... ", 'But do say something. ... ', "Do make clear that you'll be there for them. ... ", "Do be careful about saying, “I'll pray for you” ... ", 'Do try to create a semblance of normalcy. ... ', "Do ask how they're doing — today. ... ", 'Do be a good listener. ... ', "Don't get squirmy at the end."]
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"You and your loved one will be in my thoughts and prayers." "I am so sorry for your loss." "My favorite memory of your loved one is..." And sometimes it's just best to be with the child and not say anything.
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["“It's great to see you.”", "“I'm so glad we're all together.”", "“I miss them, but I feel like they're here with us.”"]
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If you can't think of something to say, just offer eye contact, a squeeze of the hand, or a reassuring hug. Offer your support. Ask what you can do for the grieving person. Offer to help with a specific task, such as helping with funeral arrangements, or just be there to hang out with or as a shoulder to cry on.
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['“ My deepest sympathies go out to you, my friend. May you find comfort and peace during this difficult time. ... ', '“I heard the news, my friend. ... ', "“I was deeply saddened to hear about your brother's passing. ... ", "“I'm sorry for your loss. ... ", "“I'm so sorry to hear this sad news."]
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["Thinking about you and [pet's name]. ... ", 'We can never keep them long enough! ... ', 'Wishing you comfort and peace during this difficult time.', 'I am so sorry for your loss. ... ', "[Pet's name] was such a great [dog/cat/etc.]. ... ", 'Losing such an important part of the family is never easy.']