what do you say to someone that just had a baby?
36990
['“So happy for you two! ... ', '“Ahhh! ... ', '“You two deserve every bit of happiness this baby is going to bring you.”', '“So many happy and wonder-filled times ahead for you… ... ', '“Warmest congratulations on the birth of your sweet baby girl!”', '“Love just got real. ... ', '“Welcome to the world, little one!']
684476
["“I'm not sure exactly what to say, but I want you to know I care.”", '“You are in my thoughts/prayers.”', '“Can I bring you a dinner this week? ... ', '“If you want to talk about him/her, please feel free to call (or text) anytime.”', "“If you need me, I'll be there. ... ", '“My favorite memory with (____) is…”']
399200
['“Can I bring you a meal?” ... ', '“I know how much you loved this baby. ... ', '“Remember to be kind to yourself. ... ', '“Our entire family grieves with you.” ... ', '“You and _______ are in my heart.” ... ', "“I love you, and I'm so sorry you are going through this pain.”"]
1065778
['“He/She was such a fine kid with so much potential.”', "“As a parent myself, I think what you're going through must be horrible.”", '“To have a new life end so suddenly is so very sad.”', '“I/We are thinking of you. ... ', '“I/We are shocked and saddened by your loss.']
22161
['”Yes, things are going well. Thank you for asking.', "“Everything's fine, thanks.”", '“I wish it was, but better days are ahead.”', '“Thanks. ... ', '“My life is in shambles.']
334266
Simply say… 'I'm sorry' It can be hard to find the right words to comfort someone who is experiencing this type of grief, but many people say that just having their loss acknowledged is helpful. You might want to say: “I'm very sorry that you have lost your baby.” “This must be really difficult for you.”
1099547
Just listen a lot and say little. Bring coffee and sit on her couch and light a candle and listen. Let her know that her new rhythm is your new rhythm for however long she needs.” I'm sending so much love to you and your brokenhearted friend as you navigate these challenging waters of motherhood and loss.
985795
“I feel your pain.” (Do not say, “I know exactly how you feel.”) “How about a hug?” (Or just give them a hug.) “I'm here for you.” (And then be there.) “I'll bring you some lasagna next Tuesday.” (Or offer another specific way of helping.)
332608
The honoree should send thank you notes to her baby shower attendees two to three weeks after the baby shower. Sending out thank you cards for gifts you received is a highly recommended gesture after a baby shower has occurred and is proper baby shower etiquette.
1007220
["'You have no idea how much ' - is an ecstatic response..", 'The response could be a compliment if this is about a gift that the person gave you. (You are so kind or amazing or generous or sweet).', 'The simple response would be “Thank You”.', "If you don't wanna say anything, SMILE gratefully."]
237405
If you want to talk about the baby, I am here to listen. If you have experienced a loss, you can say, “I remember having some of those same feelings you are feeling when I lost my baby. I know nothing I do or say can take away your pain. Please know I am thinking of you and your family.
319699
["Instead of telling her she's looking 'huge' or 'big' try complimenting her bump when you see her!", "Stop freaking her out about inductions and let her know her baby knows what it's doing and will more than likely come when it's ready.", 'Give her some positive encouragement!']
1269496
Keep it simple and honest. Express your sorrow, affirm their pain, admit that you can't find the words, and reassure them that you'll keep them in your thoughts. “I'm so sorry.” “I can see that this is very hard on you.” "I don't know what to say." “I'm thinking of you often.”
71927
['"You know that Mom and Dad have been having problems. We\'ve tried to fix this, but things aren\'t working out."', '"We both love you very much. ... ', '"We will always be your mom and dad. ... ', '"You are great kids. ... ', '"Even though things are going to change, we will always be a family."']
370560
["I'm so sorry to hear the news. I know how much time you devoted there. ... ", "I understand how scared (or angry, frustrated or sad) you're feeling. ... ", 'Do you want to talk about it?', 'Do you want to get together?', 'What do you need from me?', 'How can I help?', 'Everything happens for a reason.', "That's horrible news!"]
1254303
If the baby was stillborn or lost in infancy, ask to see the pictures and talk with your friend or family member about her child. Do good deeds. Many parents report that they appreciate when people give a donation in honor of their child.
1360648
['“Thank you for all you do for us, but now is a time to take care of yourself as well.” ... ', "“I'm proud of you.” ... ", "“I hate that you're going through this, but I know that you've got this.” ... ", '“Remember when you were there for me? ... ', "“Here's how we're going to take care of your work while you're away.”"]