what to tell someone who just lost a loved one?
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['I am so sorry for your loss.', 'I wish I had the right words, just know I care.', "I don't know how you feel, but I am here to help in any way I can.", 'You and your loved one will be in my thoughts and prayers.', 'My favorite memory of your loved one is…', 'I am always just a phone call away.']
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"You and your loved one will be in my thoughts and prayers." "I am so sorry for your loss." "My favorite memory of your loved one is..." And sometimes it's just best to be with the child and not say anything.
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["Mention your loved one's name in the first sentence.", 'Introduce yourself and explain your relationship to the deceased.', 'Thank those who came to pay tribute to the deceased. ... ', 'Recognize the family members and close friends of your loved one.']
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["Thinking about you and [pet's name]. ... ", 'We can never keep them long enough! ... ', 'Wishing you comfort and peace during this difficult time.', 'I am so sorry for your loss. ... ', "[Pet's name] was such a great [dog/cat/etc.]. ... ", 'Losing such an important part of the family is never easy.']
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['Let them grieve in their own way. ... ', 'Let them express a wide range of emotions. ... ', 'Give them some slack. ... ', 'Encourage them to have healthy outlets to help relieve the pain they feel. ... ', 'Let them remember and celebrate with others. ... ', 'Let them get help.']
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['"I know you miss your loyal and beautiful companion."', '"It is hard to say goodbye to such a special companion."', '"My thoughts are with you at this time of loss."', '"May fond memories of your beloved pet warm your heart always."', '"(pet\'s name) was a great friend to you and we will miss him."']
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So to start off comforting someone, simply describe what you're seeing/sensing. Say something like, “I know you're having such a hard time with this,” or “I'm sorry you're hurting so much.” Also affirm that you hear what they're saying by saying it back to them in your own words.
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“I'm so sorry to hear about the passing of your mother. If there's anything I can do to help you here at the office, don't hesitate to let me know.” “I just wanted to reach out and let you know that I am keeping you and your family in my thoughts during this difficult time.” “I lost my dad a few years ago.
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I am truly sorry for your loss. I would like to offer you and your family our deepest and most sincere condolences and may the soul of your grandfather rest in peace. Our condolences to you and your family on the passing of your aunt. May our friendship and prayers ease you through this difficult time.
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['Visit their final resting place. ... ', 'Release butterflies. ... ', 'Write a letter, poem or blog. ... ', 'Play their favourite song. ... ', 'Hold a special remembrance ceremony. ... ', 'Take time out. ... ', 'Express loving sentiments with flowers. ... ', 'Take a seat.']
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Be patient. Whatever the loss, whatever the expression of pain or grief (unless extreme and dangerous), be patient, be present, and be respectful. All things pass… but then they come around again, maybe next time straight at you.
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['Knowing what to say when someone passes away can be difficult. ... ', 'Love knows no boundaries. ... ', "Please know that you're in my thoughts and prayers. ... ", 'I hope and pray that you will have strength during this time of loss. ... ', 'You have my deepest sympathy. ... ', 'We are here for you if you need anything. ... ', 'Those who love us never go away.']
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Say SOMETHING Acknowledge your friend's grief. Mention their loved one's name, and let your friend know that you're thinking of both of them. It could be as simple as a text that says, “Hey, I know today is one year since [name] died.
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I agree with /u/1leggeddog. This is the best way to express your condolences in my experience. If you know the person well enough - just do shit for them without them having to ask. Cook, drop by with drinks or to take a walk.
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["“I'm not sure exactly what to say, but I want you to know I care.”", '“You are in my thoughts/prayers.”', '“Can I bring you a dinner this week? ... ', '“If you want to talk about him/her, please feel free to call (or text) anytime.”', "“If you need me, I'll be there. ... ", '“My favorite memory with (____) is…”']
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“Your father meant the world to me. I am filled with pain and grief over his loss.” “I am keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. Please let me know how I can help during this difficult time.”
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['Be empathetic. ... ', 'Be positive. ... ', 'Let them know that they are loved.', 'Reach out to them and offer your support.']