Is this a firm pillow, or is it soft? We're wanting something that offers decent support and won't go flat.
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This is a great FIRM back rest. I have had it for several years, use it daily, push it around, pull it and it is still firm. I have back problems and I am so grateful that I purchased it. Get it, you'll enjoy it. MMC
772610
It is well-stuffed but very light-weight. So, it is firm as long as you have it propped up against the wall/headboard. I have had it 1 month only but it hasn't gotten flat yet.
772611
I find that it doesn't offer great support. Does not stay in position very well. Does not feel firm.
772612
This was a Christmas gift for our daughter, and she says that the backrest is firm, gives good support, and is comfortable!
772613
I have not tried this personally. I mailed this to my daughter who has a new baby and is breast feeding. I was hoping this would give her back support at night.
772614
This pillow will not go flat.It offers support and it feels firm and very comfortable
772615
It's a very soft pillow, at least the one that I had received. I would put my back against it, and it would just fold and I would feel myself slumping down immediately. If you want support or a firmer pillow, this is not the one.
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It will *not* go flat. I use mine daily, for hours. It's comfortable but offers support as well. By far the best I've ever had. Others have either been hard as a rock or mushy. I love this one.
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Allison, The pillow is not heavy at all. If you are wondering if it stays in place, it does. For the money, I'm happy. My back isn't as sore as it was before I began using it. Good luck. Jim
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We just use it for trips and guests. It is firm. I slept on it several times and did not have any problems the next day with my back. I don't use it every night either, though.
1573519
It is a very firm pillow and you will have support. The longer you use it the more comfortable it becomes...
1329609
I use mine as decorative bed pillows, however it seems pretty firm. I would still consider getting a firmer pillow, specifically noted for lumbar support.
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If you like a softer pillow it may not be for you. It is fairly firm, especially at first. When I first got it I only slept on it half the night for about a week until I broke it in. I would call it medium firm but not so much soft. My dad who LOVES a softer pillow hates this pillow so if you want soft this may not be the one for you. If you want firm it may not be the one for you. Like Goldie Locks found out...It was just right for me (I like medium in the middle of soft and firm)
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The mattress is a soft medium...very comfortable, but I haven't slept an entire night on it yet, so I'm not sure how my back will hold up. You might want to look at some other options, because it is definitely not firm.
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it's pretty firm - but it's memory foam - so you sink in a little. i really like mine, and i generally like a firmer mattress.
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It's quite firm - as firm as any 'firm' mattress I have ever had and a very good alternative if you are not ready to replace your mattress, but need support, as we did, for a bad back.
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Hi this pillow is not rock hard but I do find it has moderate support when sitting on the couch. It is a beautiful pillow I have two actually.
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This one is soft, it's been awhile since I had mines, it wasn't firm enough, it was to soft to me, I like mines firm like a travel neck pillow to support my neck, I had to stuff more crap unit to make it firm, to soft to me, you can take some stuffing out to better suit your needs..
617674
It is firm but not hard. It's memory foam - so it keeps its shape well but it's squishy and comfortable.
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The back is firm. The support is good and still comfortable. I'm not sure about the second part of your ? We've had it for 6 months and we really like it.
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It's rather firm, and has great back support. It does conform to your body, but you won't sink. If you prefer a very soft mattress - than this is not for you.
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It is definitely firmer than I expected it to be. It doesn't seem to have much give but if you like a supportive mattress then this is great. My wife and I threw a mattress pad on top and it is just right for us. If you do want to try it out here is a coupon code that still works for $50 off. https://www.tuftandneedle.com/r/asCKyMMu
968154
It is not stiff and is very comfortable. I would not say it is real soft, but firm enough to give good support. Just right for me! I weigh over 220#.
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Very full which some people could consider firm, but extremely soft. If that makes any sense. There is no hardness to the pillow. Very thick and deep.